In Your Opinion, Does The Love End In The Marriage? Why/Why Not?
819741
Love does not always end in marriage.  Sometimes love continues on in the heart separately from a committed union.  Sometimes love does lead to marriage & it can often last a lifetime, though many times it dies for lack of nurturing & circumstance.\n\nI think of love as not just an emotion, but a choice & a committment.  It requires work and effort, but it is always worth the price of admission, no matter where you wind up.
1107740
Yes. It gets better.  But sometimes you have to choose to make it better. You decide from the beginning that you are in this for the long haul. There are times you wish you were anywhere but here. But that is the same in any relationship. You don't get married and assume all will take care of itself. You have to work at being thoughtful of someone besides yourself. You both have to give in sometimes and shrug off things that don't really matter in the big picture. After we had been married a few years I got brave enough to ask my husband what one pet peeve he had about me that he would really like me to stop doing. Then I told him mine.  We both tried to stop doing it. Worked for a while.\nAnd now it doesn't really matter.  I love him. And he loves me. Only when we are in a bad mood does stuff really bother us and the other one knows that. So its OK. A hug fixes a lot for us. Or just some space to allow us to be in a bad mood a little.
794898
wow!  I have been married to my husband for 9 years this January.  We have overcome some horrible conditions.  I do not want to go into detail here online.  However, I love my husband despite the things we have been thru.  Infidelity was not one of the issues, but we were involuntarily separated for 3yrs 8 mos.  We have been thru things with our ex's...just about anything that could go wrong has...Now, we are best friends and know each other inside and out.  Trauma brought us closer...it is often not that way in marriages.  We're blessed that way..I had to spend Thanksgiving alone again this year...but we will get thru this.  So, the answer is yes.  Despite everything and everyone, if you want to overcome, you will.
155298
I fall in love with my husband every day...then, eventually I get angry at him and I think I don't want to love him anymore (arrrggghhhh!)...but as soon as the anger disappears, I discover I'm in love again. (hmmmm...)\nSo my answer is YES...of course...I think that's exactly what keeps relationships going.
354009
Do not do it, better after marriage. . .Genuine love is only in heart and could combat lust. . .\n\nRemember that lust is very quick and it reaches always an end, while love is eternal and limitless. . .
99556
of course. why do you have to marry whom you don't love? unless, you have to save the name of a child out of marraige
533062
There are pleanty of married people who are not in love (with each other) and there are pleanty of people who are in love but not married to each other.\n\nThere is nothing "final" about love.  It is eternal.  Physical bodies expire.  The love lives on forever.
1162266
In my opinion the two people involved are obviously unhappy with their lives so they need to decide what exactly it is that they want and move on. If you're unhappy in the marriage let it go and be together but if there's still a chance that they can salvage the marriages than they need to walk away from the affair. In any case a decision must be made. It's not fair to anyone involved if things stay the way that they are.
557977
its supposed to be and you should try and make it forever exspecially if there is kids involved but if its a bad marriage then there is no point to stay cause you both will just be sad all the time. so yes but if its worrible and you have tryed everything to fix it and it didn't work then it doesn't have to be
137324
If the both of you really feel that you have to be together then the married partner must end the marriage.  That's the only way you can legally be together.
977627
no i wont marry you! but yes i most certainly believe in it!  the fact that people dont think they need to marry has led to the breakdown of the family and the problems we see now are the results of selfish people who have kids and then think they are under no obligation to stay around! i can say this cus i have done the same in the past myself. if we would have been marryd and committed to each other we would have work on our relationship instead of parting!
1159061
Yes, I was married to a man who was wonderful, but there is a downside to it. In order to stay in love the intimacy needs to be there. We later divorced and remained good friends, which was what we were in the first place. I have since remarried and I am glad because I missed being intimate with someone. Good luck.
780634
I think that if a marriage is miserable and efforts to make it better have failed, a divorce is the right thing to do. So that's a yes from me I guess.\n\nI'm happily married though, so as for my own marriage, I'd say no.
628881
I did stay married for many years for my kids, but if I had it to do over....NO WAY! The biggest relief for them came when we got divorced....no more fussing, arguing, etc. They were more relieved than we were. Good Luck!!
635085
Yes, I believe in marriage. I married my husband because I was, and still am, in love with him. In the eyes of GOD, we share each other and are bonded to one another. We became one person on that day. That's not to say that we don't have individual thoughts, feelings and ideas but to say that we share feelings, thoughts and ideas with each other in a way unlike if we knew "there would be a way out" or "backdoor". He is half of me and I half of him. We have from that day on thought of each other and consulted each other before making decisions to be courteous and considerate of the other feelings. The one you marry would, rather should, love you through it all and truly mean the words he/she vows. For me, I know my husband does and as do I. It's hard but it's well worth all the effort. I hope that you can find this kind of love and one day decide to share this kind of bond with someone you will love for always. Best wishes. Take care.
1047839
Don't you realize that marriage is supposed to last forever..?
188389
In my opinion that's not love. Love never exalts itself and it is never self seeking. The emotions have a tendency to run wild when being satisfied, but i wouldn't confuse it with love. \nIf the sex stopped, would you still hang around?