When does the hurt stop and the healing begin??
826828
FIRST you need to STOP going back to him because he is only using you and you are allowing him to do so.  You dont have enough self esteem within yourself to not go back.  If you ever want to get ober the guy STOP GETTING BACK WITH HIM!  There is no reason you should even be in contact with him, he is a loser and if you continue to see him ...you will be one as well.
182057
The hurt never goes away... sometimes if your lucky it will ease.. but there will always be a song, a voice, a scent..etc.. that will remind you of your lost love... the wounds may ease but the scars upon ones heart never heals.
1034848
All the time!  I've especially learned to lean on him in the last 2 years since my husband and I split up.  I've especially felt it through the people God has put in my life that have helped me through it.  There have been some really low times, but God has always come through. Sometimes He takes you right to the point where you don't think you can take it any more, then when He answers your prayers just in the nick of time, you realize He was there all along.  But your faith is stronger because of the struggle.  It's like exercising.  When you first start, it hurts, and you're sore all the time.  But if you stick with it it gets easier and you get stronger, and soon it doesn't hurt any more. I know I'm much stronger spiritually than I was 2 years ago.
368856
Thats when you muster all the courage & confidence you can & make a new start. Life go's on no matter how hard to try & stop it. Live for today! The hurt will fade, i promise :)
476823
well you cant really do anything to make it go away. the pain will go away soon and you'll just forget about it. this happened to me too and the pain just went away after a while.
770303
It hurts really bad the first time (8/10), but then every time after that it gets a little better...if you are asking what I think you are asking, lol.
86140
Okay first breath...It hurts but you will grow so much more then you will ever know once you move pass this...Where were you on Saturday...My heart was so broke...I was told today to hang my head high and walk with pride and no matter what always know that you are better then that and you will hurt for a while and then you will see day light...Its not a matter of loveing to much or not enough its a matter of selfishness on the other persons part...Or just know that life moves and breaking up is part of that move and it hurst yes but time will heal all...Good luck
836810
No....let time heal it...I am still going through the same thing...and every friend told me to let it go and let time heal the wounds.
401277
May sound a bit fem to do, but I am sure it will help you mentally if you write your emotions down on paper. Spill your heart and soul out, then put that paper(s) away for a while. Come back to that paper in a few days and read it, analyze it, and reassess your emotions at that point. If you keep doing that, you will start to see that those emotions will start to change and you will eventually start the healing process. :o) Chin up! :o)
844862
If you are going through this, you need to seek some help.  Not to be mean, understand, I went through the same thing.  Just know that it does not always have to be like that.  Hurting yourself is a way of escape, and usually signs of deeper problems.  Get some help, please, before it gets worse.
1141417
well, part of it, even if he/she hurts you like hell, then the feeling still stays, but if you two get back together, then he/she hurts u again, then trust me the feeling will go away.
360923
Honestly, time heals all wounds. It may hurt now, but you will see that this was a good thing in the long run. Please don't dwell on it. Get out there & do stuff with your friends etc & keep your mind off it.... you will wonder why you spent so much time thinking about it...
783044
It's never going to heal if you don't stop picking at it.........know what I mean??
1116668
I think the timeline is somewhere like 3-6 months. You should probably wait a good while so your body has time to heal. Do what your doc recommends. Don't get anxious, take your time.
687167
honestly, only time can heal wounds! nothing else does! time will say whats going to happen next! remain optimistic and have faith in god and in yourself! gradualy you will know what to do yourself! as for now take help from friends and family! and if there is no one look for some on the net! cyber chatting really helps! there is a strange sense of calmness you feel after you talk to a complete stranger who is not biased about the situation! hope you find peace!
932284
at least your in touch w/your feeling. be true your feeling maybe it time for a slight break just honest with your inner self!! it is okay to grow apart>
747383
this is the kind of situation i always fear in the back of my mind. time heals all wounds, but just take some time off for yourself and then try and get back on the scene and go out gradually. odds are that you will still never forget about it, but you need to find something better.