im 17, he's 21 is it considered statutory rape?
828468
It clearly states "under 16".\n\nYou are not under 16.\n\nJust make sure you have your ID on you for his sake.
810617
This would be referred to as "statutory rape". Depending on the laws of the particular state, it may not even be that. Each U.S. state sets its own age of consent, and statutory rape laws differ. In some states, the situation you describe might not be rape.\n\nThe laws of the various states are described at http://www.cga.ct.gov/2003/olrdata/jud/rpt/2003-R-0376.htm
695434
There is a name for 20 year olds who "date" 15 year olds. They are called child molesters.  The sad fact is that depending on the state you live in, that may not be a crime. That fact would answer the next part of your question. If the act is not illegal (as opposed to immoral) then the minister is not bound to report the situation to authorities. Communications between a minister and member are confidential and legally protected EXCEPT where there is imminent danger to a person, especially a child.  A situation of child molesttaion or sexual abuse would qualify for the breaking of confidence. Your friend's parents need to contact the authorities.
158157
I'm sorry but thats really not safe or health. There is so much mental and pysical development going on between 13 and 18, its not safe for you or for him. If you two end up having sex (which you deffinetly shouldnt be doing if youre 13) then he could be arrested for statuary rape, even if you were willing. Please, do me a personal favor and find a nice hot guy your age! Good luck!
894997
You can call the police or local Sheriff's department and ask to speak to someone in the unit that deals with sexually based or minor based offenses. \n\nIt is possible that in your state 16 is the age of consent, and as such the man may not be prosecutable under statutory rape or sexual predator laws (many US states list 16 as the age of consent, though some have further age restrictions beyond that). If this is the case, though, you can still take out a restraining order against him to stop the unwanted advances - no matter what, civil sexual harassment laws still apply.\n\nI'd suggest consulting a local criminal attorney or visiting a legal resource website based in your state and/or local jurisdiction for further help. A simple web search should bring up the site you need.
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Was a thirty four year old man raped by another man?  If he was not willing, then yes it was rape.\n\nDid a thirty four year old man rape someone?  Then if they were not willing, it was rape.\n\nIf a thirty four year old man had sex with a minor (could be 18, 17, or 16, depending on what state youre in) then its statutory rape.
734052
People it's only illegal and statutory rape if they have sexual contact.\n\nIt is still a bit too much dating someone that young though.  If he's the pursuer, then it's totally creepy and gross.  If she's the pursuer, then it's just cute and he probably won't be interested.
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That depends upon the specific state law.  Some states draw a firm line at the age of consent while others allow for a "window" where a 15 & 17 year old might be OK even when the age is 16.  You need to consult with an attorney licensed in your state to get an exact interpretation of the law.  \n\nSince you failed to post your state, it's not possible to research it any further.  On-line research has its limitations as well, as sites that cover this topic may not be up-to-date and recent changes in the law could either protect you or condemn you.\n\nHint:  If you're being brought up on charges, you already know the answer.  If the 15 yr old's parents are threatening charges, they've probably already checked the law.  They MIGHT be blowing smoke, but do you want to risk a lifetime on sex-offender registries and find out the hard way??\n\nBased on the information that you provided outside of this forum, I'd suggest that you back down until the young lady turns 16.  The laws are vague enough in your state that you could find yourself in deep doo-doo if her parents push the issue.  There is NO love that is worthy of a lifetime on sex-offender registries; let alone a stretch in prison as the "girlfriend" of some big, hairy, smelly ogre.
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It's perfectly legal for the 2 of you to date.\nBut...if you 2 have sex before you're 18, he technically could get charged with having sex with a minor, if someone decided to press charges.\n In Nebraska you have to be 19 before you can get married without parental consent...which is different to most of the rest of the US.
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i herd that he is 18 but im not shure if it is true
917805
17 is still considered a minor. She can "date" older men that is not illegal. Sexual contact would be illegal. However, you would be hard pressed to get a prosecutor to bring a case considering she is 17.
1093093
In the US, if you are underage--even if you "want it"--it is considered rape if an older person makes love to you.  For example, let's say you are 15.  If your partner is 18 or over 18 and he/she makes love to you--even if you both wanted to do it--he/she could go be charged with statutory rape because you are a minor and he (or she) is not.\n\nA friend of mine in Texas was 18 or 19 when he got a 15-year-old pregnant.  They were dating when she got pregnant.  And her parents loved him...up until the time she got pregnant.  They took him to court; to make a long story short, the judge ruled in this manner:  He gave my friend a choice:  either go to prison for the statutory rape, or marry the girl.  My friend decided to marry the girl, but the marriage didn't last long.  They couldn't get along; he wasn't happy living with the girl's parents; the parents didn't like him anymore; he couldn't get a good job to support the girl or the baby...etc., etc., so they wound up separating.  I lost contact with him, so I don't know what happened to the baby.  I'm sure the girl and/or her parents decided to raise it.\n\nThis is a perfectly legitimate question, so whoever said this is a stupid question, try to be more open.  Obviously if you are a minor, there are many things you want to know before you do them; we should try to help rather than blow these questions off.  It could be your child asking you this question some day.\n\nSo the bottom line is, if you are underage and you are thinking of having sex with your adult partner, don't do it.  Wait until you are at least 18.  Even if you and your partner are both 14 or 15 or 16 or 17, or any age below 18--wait until you guys are at least 18.  You don't want to wind up being 15 with a baby living with your parents.
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Under Singapore's Penal Code, Cap 224, having sex with any girl, below the age of 14, with or without her consent is considered rape. This is also known as statutory rape. It is only legal if the girl is the man's wife and she is above the age of 13.\n\nUnder the Woman's Charter, Cap 353, it is an offence to have sex with any girl below the age of 16, with or without her consent. This is known as carnal connection. Again, it is only legal if the girl is the man's wife.\n\nEstablishing if an offence occurred would depend on how old the girl was, when she had intercourse with the man. If she had already turned 17 years old but had sexual relations with him when she was 15, then there is a case for prosecution. If on the other hand, she had sex with him when she was already 17, there is no case for the man to answer.
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no, it is statutory rape. Also you are not completly formed and have many risks ot child birth.
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If by "being with" you mean a sexual relationship:\n\nThe age of consent in Texas is 17.   \n\nPenal Code Sec. 21.11.:  Indecency With a Child.\n\n(a) A person commits an offense if, with a child younger than 17 years and not his spouse, whether the child is of the same or opposite sex, he:\n\n (1) engages in sexual contact with the child;\n\n\nb) It is an affirmative defense to prosecution under this section that the actor:\n\n   (1) was not more than three years older than the victim and of the opposite sex; and\n\n   (2) did not use duress, force, or a threat against the victim at the time of the offense.\n\nSo...if she were 16 and you were 19, it would be legal, but if you were 20, it would not.  If you are both 17 or older, it is legal.
967609
Speaking as a Dad with a daughter about your age I have to tell you that I would worry about it... Boys his age have very strong sexual urges... If your mom finds out that you have had sex with him after he turns age 18 then he will get arrested for statutory rape and will go to jail.  That will most likely ruin any chances of him ever having a normal life with a good paying job... \n\nAlso, there is a big difference in mental age between 14 and 17... He may already be driving and is starting to find his way in the world... If he goes to college you can be sure that he will find a college girl because there is so much freedom to do what you want on a college campus and more social situations will come up... Do you think that he will want to show off his 15 year old girlfriend to his college buddies?  Don't bet on it!\n\nHave patience.. Stick to someone your own age (or no boyfriend at all... just friends who happen to be boys).... when you are in college a 3 year difference in age won't seem that bad but at 14 there is a world of difference.\n\nYou may not like my answer but you did say that anyone with an opinion can answer...  Good Luck!
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love... im fourteen and my boyfriend is 17. we've been dating for almost four months now and never once has he asked me to or pressured me to have sex with him. actually i was the one who brought it up but he said he wanted to wait. i said that's fine with me. we love each other so much and i know he's the one for me and he feels the same way about me. i would do anything for him. there's nothing wrong with a 17 year old boy and a 14 year old girl together. the age difference isn't that much and it is said that women mature faster than men. i love having a mature boyfriend. unlike the other boys my age. mabey he feels like the other girls are way too mature for him and he wants to actually go out and have fun instead of always being bitched at lol. too much drama with 17 year old girls