help! can't stop thinking about her...?
816916
Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
709489
anytime..even then moment u've dropped her at her gate and juz waiting .call her right away thru ur mobile  frm ur car then tell her u cant stop thinkin of her
452951
I think you like him more than a friend too. I have rather recently started a relationship, and all I ever think about is her! I hope you are as happy in your thoughts as I am in mine.
887240
Oh that tough. Um.. try letting things just fall where they want. If that doesn't work try just keeping the friends you have and start thinking about an other girl because I really don't think this girl you like is going to go anywhere(sorry if that's harsh). Now I mayb wrong but it souds like you might like the girl you've known since you where five. Best of Luck!! :)
905119
as long as you keep acknowledging she is prettier than you, you are going to continue to make yourself miserable.  Who cares what she looks like.  let go of the past and focus on today and tomorrow.  Did you ever think that she might be thinking the same thing about you??  Quit wasting your time thinking about what she looks like and start focusing on how gorgeous you are!!!!
230757
best and quickest way is to force yourself to think of someone else ....in other words, get busy with someone else...
315984
Okay I am a bisexual male so it may be a little different for me but here is my advice anyways. (Also I have been in a similiar situation and I have a little insight.)\nThe FIRST thing you need to do is decide how important this girl is to you and are you willing to tolerate her going back and forth on you. IF YOU ARE NOT--then take my advice and break all ties with her. It may hurt at first but if you keep dealing with her you are just reopening a wound over and over and it will never heal. Trust me in this...been there and I wish someone would have told me that. Could have saved myself a whole lot of pain and a broken heart if they would have.
831531
its not that easy to forget the ex from our life,give it some time.u have to concentrate on ur new lady now cause she ur present now,what was in ur past leave it that way,if u wanna have a beautiful relationship
969210
I wouldn't over analyze what he said in casual conversation.  I wouldn't necessarily say that since he brought her up that he is thinking about her alot.  Think about all the people you think about in one day.  As far as his having feelings for her, I'm sure that it was very hard for him when she died, there will probably always be a very small place in his heart for her, even just as a friend. \n\nThere is nothing that can be done to stop him from thinking about her.  If he's been with you for that long, then I definitely wouldn't worry about him still having feelings for her, even if he did it's not like he could act on them.  It was probably just a coincidence that he happened to think of her.  I wouldn't worry about it.
619700
When you think about him, what is it that you think about? Trust your instincts, and try to figure out WHY he's staying in your mind. Then, find a way to introduce that aspect of him into your current relationship.
111410
It's kinda hard to forget some one you loved but if you still care about her in to some extent then don't try to forget about her keep talking to her (as just a friend) and remember the good times but keep an open mind and start dating new people. If you just completly hate her all of a sudden and want to forget about her for good the best thing to do is not think about how much you dislike her and just don't think about any memories of her. Continue on with your own life. Date new people, go out for a few drinks with your buddies, just have a good time.
677951
Time heals all wounds, friend. Do what you have to in the meantime. If you need to cry, cry a little. If you need to drink, drink a little (a little is the key word; don't need a booze problem on top of this)\n\nEventually you will find that your life goes just fine without her. There is no easy answer that's gonna make you forget her tomorrow. Love is tough; I've been there..\n\n\n***EDIT\n\nThe above posters are right. You will NEVER forget her completely, but you will be able to avoid the pain; that's important..
642008
i know u r thinking about ur girl !\ndont worry, this is quite natural ! i guess u r really into the girl ! talk to her .... n try to be her bst frnd ! dont feel lonely man ! this world is all yours ...... be kewl n be a sport ..... thats a quality girls lyk\ngood luck
945796
When I was 16 (I'm 19 now) I was madly in love with a guy from school. He broke my heart, and I was so devestated. I was insanely depressed for 3 weeks and after 2 months appeared happy but I was still so miserable inside. I was obsessed. I couldn't stop thinking about him for even a SECOND. I spent a year of my life with him on my mind, 24/7. Sometimes I'd wake up in the night and not be able to go back to sleep because his memory was so painful and I couldn't get him off my mind. Even when the pain of losing him was gone a few months later, I still felt anger about the situation.\n\nYou want to know when everything disapeared? 2 1/2 years later while at work, I looked to my right and the most gorgeous guy walked in the room. At that moment, my ex's memory disapeared. My mind returned to normal. I fell in love again.\n\nUntil something of that nature happens to you, start going out with friends. Surround yourself with people. Keep yourself busy AT ALL times. TRY to not think about her (even though I know how impossible it can be). Eventually, time will heal your pain.
108004
It's true that by now she might be married, but who knows, she might still be single and thinking about you too. I think it's either love or maybe you just need to clear up your feelings for this girl. Sometimes the only way to do thid is to go to her and once you are there with her, and tell her how you feel, you will know. Go find her and clear things up with her. Hope this helps, and good luck!!! :0)
736374
I had this same exact problem for so long and I am just now coming out of it. It is going to be very wonderful when you come out of this experience knowing so much and able to help other people with the same exact problem. First of all, I want you to think about all the time you've wasted just sitting and daydreaming about him. That's time you could have used to make your life better by doing things you enjoy and you could have made other peoples' lives better. Next I want you to ask yourself, "What has he ever done for you?" It's really hurtful to realize that you've wasted your time wanting somebody that you just can't have but trust me, you will have so much free time once you just stop thinking about him. You have to be willing to stop talking about him w/ anyone, pretty much pretending he doesn't exist anymore. Avoid listening to songs that remind you of him. With the guy that I liked, he was actually undesirable and it took me so long to realize that he just wasn't a good match for me at all. So hang in there and remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with being singe cuz you're waiting for the right guy! You deserve a guy that's young enough and that you can actually go out w/! good luck! e-mail me if ya need to!
199019
that a hard question, but how do u know. its when u cant stop thinking about him. ur mind iz totally wrap around him. when ur r talking 2 ur friends and ur not paying them any attention because u r thinking about him.