So I met a girl last night...?
821425
Either or.  But get back to  her soon..  That will show her that it really was a great time for you.  Leave the number however you do it and be patient.
852640
Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
732774
It's been a few years since those days, but here's my advice:\n\nJust be upfront with her.  Tell her you would like to get to know her better and ask if she would like to have dinner with you on ____ night.  Tell her there are no strings attached and you just want to get to know her better.  Don't mention "date" or "girlfriend" or any of those words, just let her know that you want to talk to her more and find out who she really is.  She must have peeked your interest in those three weeks, so hopefully she'll be interested to know you too ;) good luck hun!
546464
Easy - do it in a way that wont make it look like you're in feet first. If you know her reasonably well and get talking why not suggest a coffee or a drink one night. Then if she says no, you could say something like "oh, no problem, just thought it'd be cool to catch up" - no harm done!
533019
Maybe she really is interested. Hang in there and see where it goes. You might be surprised. Have a little faith in yourself.
298064
DON'T jump into anything.  You don't know if that is really her in the pictures.  Talk to her get to know her-see if it's really worth it.
797371
It depends on how far gone you are.  If you didn't have the guts to even talk to her till this night, then she may not be the girl you think she is.  Don't give up a job for this girl.  It may not work out.  On the other hand, if the job is just a relocation, and not an advancement in your career, what's the real harm in staying?\nIf this girl is really for you, she will be there when you get back.\nHave faith.
974495
i assume you werent interested. \n\ni think you are still friends...\njust make sure that you dont bring it up...if she brings it up, just tell her that you were really drunk and cant remember what happened. \n\nforget about it...totally...and dont talk to anyone else about it.
1133316
Dude.......and your problem is???? Go for it !!! She is young, hot, and 24..........now, that's a NO-BRAINER! What time are you picking her up?? She sees you as strength, and stability. Have a great date! Let us know how it tured out!! Good Luck!!
966306
Good to cut it short --- but poor form on announcing to her friend that you liked her instead\n\nChances are the girl you were supposed to be on the date with found you pretty boring too!!
33256
How about asking her if you can accompany her? When its getting late, suggest you both go home and spend some time together. Perhaps she'll see that spending time with you is loads more fun than partying with just her friends and seeing you afterwards. If this is a part of her life, become a part of it. Yet, influence it with suggestions for time and consideration. As it works, perhaps going to bars will take a backseat to activities YOU enjoy doing, or just staying home and cuddling on the sofa watching a movie. Take part......and see if this is somethning that could work for you both.
830800
promise you'll sleep with her afterwards.\n\nIF ANY ONE KNOWS WHERE I CAN GET A FREE BOOK ONLINE CALLED "FLYY GIRLS" PLEASE LET ME KNOW. THE BOOK IS BY OMAR TYREE.\n\nTHANKS IN ADVANCE, ANSWER OUR QUESTION TOGETHER.
125620
She probably feels inscure about herself or about the relationship.  She might have had some doubts over night and got all confussed.  She might be scared.  Its normal but I would say to forget about it and move on, if she does this now think about what she might do in the future.
860619
I think it's soo sweet that you want to make sure this is a special move for her. It sounds like she is definitely interested, so almost anything you do will be seen as fantastic to her. I know if it was me, I would just want you to put some thought into it-maybe surprise show up with a single rose, or a night when you surprise her with a movie you rented for her, and then just ask her after she responds to your arrival. Just tell her," we've been spending so much time together, and I really enjoy your company, and I want to only enjoy your company-I think we should be official". Something of this nature.\nThis is so so cute, good luck, I'm sure she'll accept, and make sure to keep up this attitude of wanting to "wow" her during your relationship, b/c that will mean a lot to her. I wish I had a guy doing this for me right now!
581176
yeah, write another poem =] it sounds like things are going well and theres a really good chance she'll say yes if you ask her out..good luck! =]
448108
You def. only have an idea of this girl..like that other person posted...def. meet her and talk to her alot more in person...its a whole other character face to face....you'll have to suck that up and get comfortable in person..otherwise..you have no relationship...
611269
You know what - you didn't do anything wrong.  This all happened before you even met her.  Sounds like there was a lot of drink at that party.  Odds are she already knows or eveyone else didn't remember it the next morning.\n\nI say, not a dark secret, but no need to bring it up.  If you are ever approached you can be honest then if you wish or you can act like you were too drunk to remember anything yourself and let them think they have something on you.\n\nThose kinds of nights are magical and they don't come round very often...