Since ive moved in with my boyfriend?
824850
oooh what a nasty old sow....she's jealous of you coz your young and beautiful ans she's an old clapped out boiler...i know what i woud say to her if i was in your situation..but i could'nt type it in here...ignore the old boot....she has no right slagging your mother off, she does not even know her...she sounds bitter an twisted to me...kick her in the fanny and tell her to shut her gob...
940346
continue being in the relationship I am in now
853933
You said you're working on the relationship, but if he isn't, it probably isn't worth while.  If he has been like this forever, and you thought you could change him....yep, think again.   If he is as self centered as it sounds,  you moving out probably just gave him more free time to do what he wants.  Don't kill yourself working it out if he won't give 110% also.  Habits are hard to break, and no one is perfect, but feeling like dirt on the bottom of somebones shoe is not expected.  Your girls should be learning repects from both parents.
252948
Be honest with him ... "putting out" has nothing to do with "moving in" ... they are entirely different aspects.  Take it slow from here on out.
604463
Maybe you guys need space. I went through the same problem. Me and boyfriend lived apart for about 4 months to get space. And now we lived back together. Your not really depressed just unsure. Take this time to see why this happen. And how could you make a change.
748107
Just be careful...you're still very young!  Living with someone and dating them are two different things.  Its very diffcult, even when you have a good relationship.  Why don't you just stay there for the summer and see how things go...and if that works out then move in with him.  I wouldn't just throw my bag over my shoulder and go down there without a plan (i.e. a job lined up, a school that's accepted you).  Your mom is right in being concerned b/c it seems to me like you don't have a real plan other than moving in with your boyfriend.  If you want your mom to accept this plan you need to show her that you actually have a PLAN.  Just moving in is not a plan.  Apply to some schools down there, and apply for some jobs, and maybe she'll be more apt to support your move.
883699
STOP--S T O P!! stop right now my dear! DONT you dare do that to yourself! or to your boyfriend! You have not explored life! you have not experienced true life AT ALL! Your main objective is to get an education and thats it! DO NOT BE PLAYING HOUSE!!!! you will need to grow up a little bit and this will help you! Your House Playing Games are over and WELCOME to the real world= When you graduated and you hook up again then fine! other than that you need to study and forget about the puppy love wich now you are growing into a lady\n\nDO not make the mistake or you will always remeber me as your counselor that told you so!
450218
I would probably give it a bit more time.  Your still in that honeymoon stage where you haven't gotten to know each others bad habits all that well yet.  When you move in together then you have to live with those bad habits plus you have the added pressure of dealing with all the finances and living expectations that go with it.
973010
Move in with someone who has it.
203004
well i moved in with my boyfriend after knowing him for 2 weeks. But the bad thing is that i moved 100 miles away from my family. But we are still together and been dating for 2 years!  So you are the only one that can make that decision. It could work, but then again living together so soon could cause problems. I say take a chance and go for it. Oh yea and I was 17 when i moved out!
451080
my boyfriend actually.
1013871
If your boyfriend is not going to be bothered that you move n with someone else to "see" how he deals with it, then this relationship is over.  Perhaps the flame has died.  It happens sometimes.  You two need to sit down and talk about your relationship and where (if anywhere) is it going.  It is time for you both to be open and honest and make concrete decisions regarding your lives.
754933
When you are not moving in for financial reasons of saving money.... Your moving in because you would like to start a life together...  Make sure you date for a year at least to make sure you can experience any red flags, ya know personality dis functions.
869834
If I was You!!!! I couldnt deal w/ it. But I guess you already made a decision and U will let him stay until he finds a place to go. But the point here is, how long  it is gonna take for him to find the place? if you R paying for rent and bills is he helping U out??? if he is not I think it will take longer for him to go. Plus if you guys are in good conditions now (as friends) why ruin it??? tell him to move to one of his friend's house because if U guys R not 2gether anymore and U are looking @ him @ your house everyday, doing the same things as a couple but w/out "rights" that is not helping U @ all. I can tell just by your writing that U still care for him a lot, but if it is over, IT IS OVER,  as he is moving out of your life he has to move out of your house. For his b-day you can buy him something (if you havent done it yet) but something simple for U not to feel bad about, but no cake, no party, no special dinner 'cause you dont have to. \n\nGood luck and dont think about him anymore, just think about U and how it will affect you to have him in your house longer, he will soon start dating and U will find that horrible. \n\nHE HAS TO GO NOW!!!!
924854
That depends on what you are looking for and what he "expects"from this.\n\nAre you romantically involved or do you both want someone to "share expenses" with?  \n\nIf you are "involved", even though you may have know him for a long time, I think it's too "soon" to move in.\n\nIf you want a roommate, how will both of you feel if the other person brings home a "date"?  \n\nOnly you can decide this and you have to seriously think about what both of you want from this relationship.  I'd say you are probably better off getting your own place.\n\nGood luck with whatever decision you make.
243779
Break up with your boyfriend and move in with a friend or family until you can find a place. Break up with your boyfriend because you are unhappy with him, not because you want to be with some other guy.
746194
My boyfriend bought his first house. Yay!