how do i get my sister from doing things that she suppose to not do?PLEASE TELL ME !!!!!?
829307
Tell your parents.... They need to handle her, you shouldn't be expected to.
326806
Ouch!  Man that's gotta be the worse thing ever.  Screw your sister.  Ditch her!
171460
I have one older sis she thnks shez yur master, and a cuz that even more annoying than sisters.  Just igore them when they do things and ask u questions theyll stop.
533573
O MY GOD . I HAVE A SISTER JUST LIKE THAT . WHAT YOU DO IS STOP , GIVING HER MONEY . AND LET HER DEAL WITH HER OWN PROBLEMS . WASH YOUR HANDS  OF HER . AND LET HER GROW UP .
748597
i have 2 sisters both can be quite bad so i no were you are coming from one is older than me as one is younger i would ask her what is going on try and sort it out but dont be to hard treat her as a friend and she might open up to you in a good way good luck any more advice needed you can email me on your friend waiting  lauzmargretjones@yahoo.com
640817
Ask her to stop.  That's pretty much all you an do.  Either she respects you enough to listen or not.
838169
If l was you l would tell him to stay away from the both of you. You are right he is a jerk !! He is playing both of you for fools. How did he think he would get away with this rubbish ? Tell him  that you are going to tell your sister everything and she will  also know what a jerk he is. That should be enough to scare him off, if that doesn't keep him away, try putting up some posters with his photo, name and details of what he did around your neighbourhood. That will definately do it. Good Luck.
917497
well...I have the exact same problem! I know how u feel! I have a little sister. anyways.....I think well........you shouldn't hit her...sisters both get on eachothers' nerves...and get annoying. what I would first try to do is talk to her....see why she is acting like this...is it b/c she is bored? well take some time and play a little game with her and take a break from whatever your doing. Offer her something she can do instead of annoy you like....watching t.v, or doing arts and crafts....or something to basically occupy her....and don't forget to compromise. if that doesn't work try to ignore her....you getting all mad an annoyed gives her the sign the she is winning..and it eggs her on to annoy you more...so take a few deep breaths and ignore her and eventually she will loose intrest and go away....and if all else fails go tell your parents...ask them to do something about it......tell them in a calm way and not shouting or in a bad mood b/c it doesn't solve anything and it may get them mad. So just remeber she you sibbling and they get on ur nerves a lot....and all we can do is live through it..untill they grow out of there childish stages....well I hope I have helped!!!!!!!!! =]
646436
show her you are mature by cleaning the house, not whinning when she tells you NO. help her out and dont fight with your siblings(if you have any). dont talk back.
954355
I understand what you're going through. And I hope that you will find something, someday that will make it all dissappear.\n\nAs harsh as I may sound, I don't think your sisters reaction is normal. She is being overly zealous. May be she should have herself checked out also. \n\nAlso, do you fight a lot. Is this just mere sibiling rivalry. Have you tried winning her affection?. If this is not the case, i suggest talking to your parents about your sister, and she might want to visit a behaviour consultant.
845082
Well first ask your self are you doing anything to make her think your doing something rong??? If so you need to stop.. \n\nWoman are usually right with that gut feeling .. but if you are not doing anything rong then tell her .. hey i care about you but this is not going any were if you dont trust me.. so i need you to quit or leave if your not happy.. usually that works :)
382308
don't be mean to your sister.
449703
write to her.  you can't lash out at a peice of paper.  tell her that you love her very much and that her behavior makes you worry.  tell her that what her friend did made you very sad as well but now your soul concern is her.  although you don;t think she would ever do the same thing, the way she is acting has you fearing for her personal safety and you love her too much to just look away.  if that doesn't work, and she really is staying in drunken hysterics, talk to your fellow family memebers- hve an intervention or have her committed.
804681
Why can't you still be close to your parents without dealing with your sister.  If your sister is at your parents' house, then just don't go over there.  If she comes over while you are there, then pack up your kids and leave.  If her oldest child is mean to your youngest child, grab her oldest child and tell her to stop.  You're sister and her kids will only do what you let them get away with.  You can't change how your sister behaves or how she raises her children, but you don't need to let her stress you out either.  And nobody is forcing you to spend time around her.  If you want to spend time with your parents, do it when your sister isn't there.
431452
ok my sister always tries to run my life also and gets pissed off if i didnt do it the way she told me to, this went on for many years and i allowed her to do it until one day i got fed up and blew up at her, she stopped talking to me for 2 months and in reality it was a great 2 months, but after she sat and thought about everything i said while i was blowing up at her she realized that she has been a real crappy sister towards me and she has been a lot better since then, and we even have sister to sister talks now and i never ever had them with her so my suggestion to you is tell her that either stop running your life or go fu..k off and remember if she hits ya you have a hand to deck her back. she will realize though what she is doing if you just speak up.
883866
Don't upset her by letting her know you are doing something she does not approve of.\nKeep the magazine in your room and don't wave it in her face just to start an argument.
364428
pay attention to what she responds to and what she doesn't. for instance if you do something to her and the response is oh yes, yes, yes, keep doing it. but if you do something and her response is stop, eww,ouch, get the f*ck off me then you no not to do it. don't worry about it too much. you'll figure out.