I have two friends who just back stabbed each other, and they want me to chose what side I should be on?
822425
i don't pick sides, just tell them that they are both your friend, and you are staying out of this argument... so just stay out of it... thats the best advice, don't choose.
672959
I would be extremely upset and want to hit them both. BUT I would think that they are both good for each other considering they put you in the middle of their little escapades. So think of it as just a loss and move on. If you don't hit them then you will be walking out of it in the end looking and feeling much better. It's all in good judgment.
997936
If it's between 2 CONSENTING adults, and both sides are cool.... It's your body, your moral issue- do what you think is right.\nPeople have done worse things for less.....
626605
I am not for sure on what you are trying to find out,like if they are best friends with you,even though they hang out with others?If this is the case,yes,they can be your best of Best's,and still have other best friends as well.It sounds like you are having issues about the loyalty about your friends being true friends with you.If they haven't back stabbed you or caused any harm to you,i wouldn't see what there would be to question.As long as you enjoy hanging with them and when you do everything is as should be in friends,then just relax,and it wouldn't hurt for you to have other group of friends besides them either.About the twin's kissing up to you,isn't cool,for some reason they must feel some uneasiness in order to feel like they have to win you over.Maybe you should tell them that you are their friend and they did nothing wrong by socializing with others,its a big world and there is plenty of people for everyone.Try to make them feel at ease and not threatened in this friendship.Good Luck!
586095
Turn the other  cheek. Two wrongs dont make a right. \n\nA quote from President lincoln says "The best way to defeat an enemy is to make him your friend"\n\nif yr religious - Revenge is mine thus saith the Lord. or\nA soft answer turns away wrath\n\nhope it helps
380464
be totally straight about it...no matter how u do it, its gonna hurt someone...and i think if ur 2 nice about it they might not take u seriously...so i would just tell them exactly how i felt and why
589564
that's ur choice but don't let anyone hate u because u went to the cool group. and if u think the other group is funny, they must be cool too. and if u hate them both, get another friend who really understands u
180678
Betrayal is one of the most tragic things that can happen to a person.  Betrayal from a friend is the worst kind.  I hosnestly don't know what I would do.  I would be heartbroken for sure.  would it make you feel better to just go kick his a**? Really, I am stumped on this one.  I can imagine the pain of betrayal, and would be at a loss as what to do.  So, I guess I'd just go to the person and tell them how much he has hurt me and tell them that I'd never get over it, how much I had trusted him, and then try to get on with my life.
743530
look mrs. josh\n\nwith all due respect.. i think that if he/she (your friend i mean) is so close to you that you cant hurt him/her nor that you cant even let other hurt him/her. so i think that better way is to tell him/her the whole scenario. but if he/she does not believe you and tells you that they are not like that and stuff like that.. and that you are backbiting on them. so tell him/her that "Dont regret it later" \nokay. now click on the best answer, cuz i know i am the best hehe"
80862
I'd just stay out of it, and when the other one tells you the plans - let them know this is cruel.\nThat is what friends do.
805212
Your friend did you a favor and now you want to stab her in the back with her boyfriend?\n\nThat's dirty and low down. You need to find your own boyfriend and leave hers alone.
4560
Just say no.  It hurts more if you tell them yes and stiff them.  The thing is in life there are hurts and you can't shield people from them.  The only person your responsible to is yourself.
649575
Girls are weird when it comes to friendships.  Usually when they say **** about each other is because the first one that started saying **** about the other, was in some way jealous of the other.  Then when the other one started saying **** about the first one, it was because she was hurt by being talked badly about.  I don't know if that is what is going on in that situation or not, but most likely.  I don't know that there is really anything that you can do, other than not get in the middle or take sides.  If one of them say **** about the other to you, just tell her that they are both your friends and you do not want to get in the middle or be put in a situation to where you feel like they are wanting you to choose between the two of them.  I hope that everything works out well for you.  Best of luck!
976519
just let them two solve their problem than getting between the two of them. you'll be experiencing a lot of trouble if you would do that. maybe you could approach them if you were asked to do so.
1156560
im having problems like that except vise-versa (srry can't spell 2day). take it from me, its not all that ez, it mite take them a wile 2 forgive u, but if they're true friends, they will come to their senses and realize that you appreciate both of them the same (unless you don't, and if you don't i can't help you there).
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
1059743
i feel that, if they are really your friend... then they should be able to accept your perception of reality and at least listen to what you have to say. if they are your friend... what you say could, or should be important enough to listen to; not nessesarily agree with.  it's okay to: agree to disagree! you might just be right, but it's not your business to impose your feelings on someone, but if you care for someone, then it should be okay to at least warn them! if they take it the wrong way... you don't own that. you said your piece. if they get mad; apologize and step back. you've done the best you could do! peace-out, Saint Gillian.