im honestly scared of these two guys...HELP!!!! this advice!!!!?
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LOL you just want me to say what u want to hear huh? WELL DUH! THEY THINK YOUR CUTE AND FUN. i know you knew this so why waste 5 points to hear an obvious answer. you know your not scared, you like the attention u get from the 2 boys. sorry sweety but really.............
1094355
OMG like, call him yourself already, you are both scared, thats one of the things that adds to the excitement... a young man has a hard enough time sacking up the courage to talk to the girl, you want him to deal with your whole crew! cut the guy some slack and make it a little easier for him...
1183667
just dont be afraid to talk to them . most guys are not monsters .. just be intrested in what they got going on .
215150
Face your fear. Ask someone to put some bugs in a plastic container where you can see them moving around. \n\nIt be hard, but just face them and see why you dislike them so much. \n\nThe only way to overcome fears is face them. I hated spiders, but my friend did the container thing. I don't know what happened but I didn't find them that scary anymore. My mind was just saying these are harmless creatures, obviously it took alot of time.
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Confront the guy straight away. I think you have a stalker. Maybe not. But some guys can be too obsessive at times. The question is do you like the guy also? If not, tell it to him right away so he will stop bothering you. But if he does not stop, (even though it's old school) tell your parents or any adults you can trust. Good luck on that.
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guy #2 obviously doesnt like you so move on. and keep guy#1 as your friend!! friends are important, maybe more important than a relationship!
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KEEP THOSE PEOPLE AWAY FROM ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
163134
hopefully you dont get scared, but just have fun with the guy and keep a close eye, just playing but for real enjoy yourself
862407
Talk to your Mom about this, she will know what to do, but do it now you wont be in any trouble and have done nothing wrong, but this guy sounds kind of creepy and you need to make sure you are safe
705992
If your both nervous about it then you should have a friend scope out the situastion or drop the hint to him for you. This way you both don't have to really worry and you could just act like you didn't know that your friend was going to do that to you.
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face your fear.  First mentally.  Overcome the idea, then go somewhere high but safe with someone you trust.
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Stay away from pastors & well meaning friends who tell you to get over it. They are true phobias, each with it own name. A good psychistrist can diagnoise & medicate these problems - it may need help from phychologist. Good luck. My spiders, people esp. crowds, & water are managable. Go Wolfpack- I'm back at games & sailed all weekend.
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Just do it... more then likely hes just as afraid as you are... he may look intimidating.. but hes not.. hes just a regular guy.. ya never know he may surprise ya.. just start talking to him then mention a movie or dinner or something.
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Just take a few deep breaths and realize he is probably just as nervous as you are.  He is just another person, no one to really be afraid of.  And remember, if you say somehting wrong/silly around him, he will probably just chuckle and forget about it and that's all you can do too
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I think hes scared that a brother is going to come along and take your sweet ass away from him ;)
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try being afraid to walk out of your house to your car because you are afraid of your ex killing you; push a chair against the door at night because you are afraid he will break in; be almost ran off the road by him because he was following you to a police station; looking out your window one night and seeing his truck parked across the street, him running around in neighbors yard, you call the cops, they catch him and you find out he had a homemade bomb in his truck.\nScary enough for ya?
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Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make