how old were you when you kissed somebody of the same sex who was not in your family?
821917
I kissed another boy at the age of 10 or 11. He was my neighbor around the same age.
776524
It was with a guy who worked at the pizza place I did when I was 14.  It was at a stoplight, and I totally didn't know what to do with my lips.  I waited a long time after that to kiss anyone again.
183623
When I was about 13, I started being attracted to girls. I thought I might be a lesbian for awhile. I had never even heard of bisexuality and I thought I was the only person who was attracted to boys AND girls.
347597
hmmm... I think I would much rather make out with someone and find out she's my cousin, because it would only serve to demonstrate what I've thought for years - that I have some very cute and sexy cousins.\n\nAnd surely, you've heard of the phrase "kissin' cousins." And no, I've never actually kissed one of my cousins, but I'm not sure that I would find it all that objectionable. \n\nSo compared to kissing one of my cousins, making out with someone and finding out that she was actually a he would be worse.
1016921
I've got a 31-year-old friend dating a 56-year-old guy...and neither of them have been married. All that's important is that the two of you are happy. Don't worry about what other people think.
633493
I was 10.  She was a hottie.  I was on cloud 9 for a week, until I realized that she had started dating another guy.
871617
Aww! The first date with this particular guy, I was about 17.  We went on a double date, ice skating and out to eat. Nothing fancy, we were broke and in HS. He put my skates on and took them off for me. Then when it was time to go home, he kissed me, and that was that.  Doesn't sound like much, but I remember him being so sweet, so respectful, making me feel like I was the only one in his world. And that's RARE at age 17.
552931
um.. because the statue of limitations has not expired yet i wont tell you how old i was... i did it with this guy who was more than double my age ... 27...(hint) in his bathroom while his live in girlfriend slept next door and my cousin was upstairs on christmass night
589297
I went through this same dilemma. I came out during my sophmore year of highschool. And there was the most drop dead gorgeous guy there. His name was Gary. Let me tell you. Anyways, I wanted to be with him very badly, but did not know how he felt. So I befriended him. We started hanging out, and stuff like that. Well two years went by and still nothing. Well in December of our senior year a bunch of us were out at a  party. His girlfriend was there and everything. (He had this girl for 3 years now) Well I went outside for a smoke, and he followed me outside and complimented me on my new glasses. Ok no big deal. Well we sat there and talked, smoked a few cigs and went back in. My best friend and I decided to get into the hottub. We had been sitting there for about a half hour or so when Gary came in. My best friend got out and went to go get a beer. I mentioned that my shoulder was buggin me from a fall I had taken earlier that week. So he reaches over and starts to rub it. Then we kissed, and ended up ditching the party and ****ed all night long lol. The next day he dumped his girl and him and I have been in a relationship ever since. So even the most straight acting guys may be gay. You just never know!
124920
i remember my first kiss   i was 14,, and the boy was my brothers good friend..he was 17...and it was not at all what i thought it would be!  lol.. he was way too experienced for my first kiss..(all tongue) i always wished i had waited until i was w someone i cared deeply about dating...i did not kiss again until i was 15 1/2 and even then it was not too kool to me   i was more into riding in their awesome cars and trucks  and going mudding....not kissing   so concentrate on other things and try stay in public eye  so ur not alone w him   that is when the trouble starts!
717520
True love doesn't recognize age.....but 20 isn't too far out of the question, I had a g grandfather that was 30 years older than my g grandmother...they lived a long happy life together
174782
Of course it is okay.  I have dated someone nine years younger than me, and now I am married to someone nine years older than me.  Nothing strange about either one.
1165070
Well, I have a confession.  When I was 15 my cousin had a boyfriend.  Me and her used to compete about everything.  Her b/f liked me.  One day we went to the pool and me and him decided to go to the parking lot and smoke a cig.  She stayed in the pool.  Me and him went and made out is what we did.  I still feel bad about it, but I have never told her.
67756
I could not keep track. I however could keep track of how many partners.I had one sexual partner and that would be my wife.I was a virgin until the age of 28.I waited upon being married to the person I love first.
313376
i was 14 - it lasted for 3 weeks and i didn't have another boyfriend til i was 18. we didn't even kiss with tongues  because i was scared and didn't know what to do. well, he was 18...\nhow old were you...?
683063
I once grabbed my then boyfriend's father's butt and started kissing the back of his neck.  As i looked over his shoulder..i saw my boyfriend outside looking at us with a puzzled expression. I thought he was my boyfriend!  His whole family thought it was very funny.  I did not!!
981668
I didn't know I was gay but knew that I was different when I was as young as 6 years old.I just seemed to develop differently then the boys around me.While I did like some sports and some "boy" stuff, I also liked hanging around with the girls and doing girl stuff.As I got older I knew that I was definitely different because I had strong attractions to men and none to women.I think I was around 13 when I realized that the reason I was so different was because I was gay.But even then I thought it was something I could "fix" and even tried to "fix" it.By the time I was 16 and still could not "fix" my sexuality, I accepted who I was.Even though it meant a life of hardships and family disappointments, I came to accept who I was.It is to bad so many of my family members, including my own mother, could not accept who I was and went as far as disowning me and never having anything to do with me.