How far would you go if you cheated on your partner?
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if i wanted a chance if i were the cheater, i would acknowledge i had done a wrong, i would agree to go to counciling, i would show remorse, and allow them to communicate their hurt, no matter how many times they wanted to talk about it. and i would never say i loved the person i cheated with, even if i had. the only love i would express was to my husband. i would never give them any reason to think i was cheating, meaning i would be where i said i was, i would never leave the house without saying where i was going, and i would make him the most important one in my life, and there would be alot of communication telling him my love for him.
121537
Not a good idea.  It is possible to cheat on someone without physical activity between you.  How would you feel if your husband/wife was chatting away on the phone with someone and getting all excited about it?  Put a stop to it right away.
470272
If you loved her you wouldnt have cheated on her?
641383
right now i would have to say no but i honestly don't know how i would feel if put in the situation with certain circumstances. anybody here cannot say they absolutely would not. it's been proven that 60% of men and 40% of women have cheated. and that's only those that chose to admit it.
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I think cheating is when you sneak to do anything behind someones back that you wouldn't do to their face. I also think a deception about what you want or who you are when you're getting into a relationship is the biggest and worst cheat you can do to someone else. When they find the lie, that's the biggest hurt, being fooled that something is as it truly is not.
207989
All I can say is\n\nIf she cheated WITH you, she'll cheat ON you (same goes for you...)\n\nGrow up a little and then pursue a relationship....
518282
I have never cheated. When I said my vows, I took them to heart. Besides, I could never do something so cold hearted or heartless. When your truly in love, cheating never crosses your mind!!!
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Although there is no justification for cheating, statistics say that about 50% couples have cheated on his/her spouse. But when your unfaithful spouse gives you an excuse for cheating, it is simply a way to personally justify the behavior and to feel more at ease with the decision to cheat. Why your spouse cheated on you is something you may never really know for sure. There are no simple answers or reasons. There are lots of excuses given by cheaters.\n\nYou are Not to Blame - If your spouse has been cheating on you, realize that you are not to blame, you are not a mind reader, and although the two of you were in the same marriage, your spouse made the decision to cheat. People who are unfaithful are selfish. It is easier for them to cheat and to leave than it is to work on their marriage. \n\nDon't Obsess Over Excuses - Don't obsess over the excuses you may hear from your unfaithful spouse. They are just words and personal justifications for your mate's hurtful behavior.\nRegardless of the reasons given for being unfaithful, the bottom line is that your spouse has cheated.\n\nAn Affair Doesn't Mean the End of a Marriage - That doesn't mean your marriage is doomed. It does mean that your marriage needs help. Whether or not your marriage can survive infidelity depends on whether or not you both are willing to seek counseling and to move forward.\n\nExcuses are Just Words\nThe "Our Marriage was Already Over" Type of Cheating Excuses\nThe "It's All your Fault" Type of Cheating Excuses\nThe "It's All My Fault" Type of Cheating Excuses\nThe "Grass is Greener" Type of Cheating Excuses\n\nWhat You Do Need to Know - Here is what you do need to know in order to save your marriage after an affair.\nHow long has the extramarital affair been going on?\nHas your spouse had more than one affair? If so, how many affairs?\nWas there a strong emotional bond in this affair?\nIs the affair over? \nDo both of you want to save your marriage?\n\nYou have hope that your marriage can survive your spouse cheating on you. But you still fill sick inside when you think about the affair. Here's what you can do to get beyond the hurt, forgive your unfaithful spouse, and save your marriage.\n\nHere's How:\n1. Don't make any major decisions about ending your marriage now just because your spouse has been unfaithful. This is the time to do some reflection on your marriage to see what other issues other than this infidelity need to be recognized and dealt with.\n\n2. Feelings are neither right or wrong. Accept that your feelings of rage, uncertainty, shock, agitation, fear, pain, depression and confusion about having an unfaithful spouse are normal. \n\n3. Take care of yourself. You may have some physical reactions to the infidelity such as nausea, diarrhea, sleep problems (too little or too much), shakiness, difficulting concentrating and not wanting to eat or binge eating. \n\n4. Balance is the key to getting through this experience of coping with infidelity. Force yourself to eat healthy foods, to stay on a schedule, to sleep regular hours, to get some exercise each day, to drink plenty of water and to have some fun. \n\n5. It's okay and healthy to laugh. Watch some funny movies or TV shows. Spend some time with people who make you smile. Life goes on in spite of heartache and unfaithful spouses.\n\n6. Tears are healthy too. If they aren't coming naturally, put on some blues type music or watch a sad movie. \n\n7. Begin a journal. Write down your thoughts and feelings about your spouse's unfaithfulness. \n\n8. Ask all the questions you want.Talk with your spouse about the infidelity. However, you may have to accept that your spouse may not know why the infidelity took place.\n\n9. Seek counseling if required. Don't try to get through coping with unfaithfulness alone. \n\n10. Try not to get into the blaming game over who or what caused the infidelity. It's ju
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NONE, Its a crapy feeling when someone cheats on you.  Not to mention, if you really care about a person to have a commitment, then there shouldnt be anyone else.  If there is anyone else, then they shouldnt be committed.
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you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.
1040237
Man! That's a tough one! But the fact of the matter is that the boyfriend was cheating! Doesnt matter if it was with another man, woman or she-male. So I would kick some butt then dump the boyfriend.
246160
you cheated?\n\nif so, he needs time. he may not forgive.
412387
Once someone cheats on you there is no going back.  I tried the whole forgiveness thing with my fist wife and ultimately it is something you just can't get out of your mind and since he already cheated on you before it is much easier to do it again.  I think he blew his chance with you and you will be better off with someone else.
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i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new
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is it fair or does it make you feel better?\n yes its fair because it makes her feel better about his infidelity. well if you didn't want a kick in the balls, you shouldn't have cheated. haha
657659
never went that far. we're engaged but we have some "limits" but hmm i don't really know if i'd do it..depends..but oh i guess that he would for me, lol :]
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Pretty much it is a bad decision, if not cheating, but he showed you a desire to get past that by confessing. You should decide if you can forgive or if you get more pleasure out of holding this against him. If you like the upper hand, go ahead and beat him up for it for years to come. All he will regret is that he confessed this indiscreation to you. I'd let it go if I were you. Far worse things could happen to you than this.