when we were together why love so beautiful? but when we break up so hurt and become the big scar?
822629
its called love, happens all the time.
168751
Just because the two of you broke up doesn't mean you can brake off your feelings. It's going to take time for you to get over how you feel but you can do it. Why did you guys brake up anyway? If the love you feel is that deep maybe you should try again with this guy. Maybe he feels the same way but is not sure how you feel, it's worth a try.
519795
It's a really bad breakup song. She's hurting really bad, but she is swearing she will never let him see the tears that he has caused. She wants to appear stronger on the outside than she is actually feeling on the inside.
594897
As I've learned on a question of my own, you cannot expect a real answer 'cause we don't know how you guys even broke up. We don't know who dumped who and how are things between you two now.\n\nThe truth is probably this, assuming that I have a real insight of the situation from your question: You are still a princess to him and he still finds you beautiful. But you are not HIS princess anymore. He surely does care.\n\nThe fact remains - he is trying to destroy your self confidence so you don't find somebody else. It is a cruel tactic, but the man still cares and he's out of ideas. Talk with him.
22730
Your used to someone, used to having fun with them, used to loving them and used to just generally having them around.  When you get your heart broken, its unlikely you can remain friends with someone you've had such a deep understand with and thus its more then like that you've got to start from scratch.  Mainly, its the fear that you'll never have that again and never be happy again.  The best way to get over a break-up is to tell yourself that "she/he wasn't worth my time and that some other lucky person will be worth it in the future".
426095
The point is most of us don't know we are in love or we  understand it too late! The reason for getting heart-broken is that we get used to some one so much and for such a long time that it's so hard to imagine life without that person. I always relate this to losing some one because of death.I believe that both sutuations are the same. We feel lost without that beloved person and it's hard to accept you won't hear the voice, you won't see the face or you won't see that person any more. The duration depends totally on you. You will eventually forget it but it's easier if you find some hobby or meet new people and totally be willing to forget.
706831
I have felt like this so many times!  It sounds like you guys are spending too much time together. Maybe spending less time together would help.  So when you are apart you miss him and then it seems like a treat to get to see him.  Then when you finally get to see him it will be exciting.  If this feeling continues maybe you should think about the fact that maybe you really don't miss him, you just miss having someone around.
1059036
It always hurt when you breakup with a person you still care about.  However, you had very good reasons for leaving him.  A relationship cannot be based on lies and certainly not with all that fighting you were doing.  Evidently he has moved on...  I know it won't be as easy for you to do the same, but give yourself time.  Don't let him see how much you are hurting...  If it makes him feel better telling everyone that he left you...let it be.  Bottom line, you know the truth.  As time passes, hopefully some of the hurt and pain will lessen.  Good luck and take care!
61190
i know that it hurt and it way take time to get over him. it hurt because you put your feeling inside this relationship an you thought that yall was going to be together. you will be ok. so smile.
762749
Just b/c your the one who broke things off doesn't make it any less painful for you.  You are still going to go through the "missing him" part...  Just make sure you don't go back and forth on your decision and get back together with him.  Stick to your guns.  You made your decision, now stick with it.
1140066
I know it certainly is the pits. And we have all been there before. The first time for me I thought I could never live without that person and that there was no one else for me. It hurt so bad because they seemed to be able to move on just fine without me and I was a wreck. I tought I would hurt forever. But one day it just stopped. The hurt stopped anyway. That was a long time ago and I do still care for that person. It's not an "in love" with care but you will always care for your past loves. You cannot love someone so much and then just turn it off one day. You will always care and they will always have a piece of your heart. And it seems that there is always that one person in your life that you will never completly get over. You will move on with your life and love again and be loved back. And the thing is that it's okay. And ya know what else they might always care about you too. And one day you wont see all the bad just the good times you had with that person. The thing that helped me the most was to admit that I was meant to be with that person. Mabe for only a moment in time but for a moment it was right. And I know now that it was never meant to last, but man it sure was right at one time. People come and go from our lives like a swift summer breeze, and as soon as it comes it is gone. But it sure did smell sweet while it lasted didn't it. And what is so great now is that you get a whole new chance. You get to meet someone who will love you completly and be happy. Keep you head up and remember what a great person you are. And how lucky someone will be someday to be loved by you!
263012
if a person are so afraid to experience heartbreak...\nwe should never be like that because people are not all the same...people might have been hurt us so badly but some people would love us more dearly... be learned from the past mistakes we have done and take it in a positive way, learn to become a better person (a matured & open-minded),\nand make ourself more worth-it to our love one in a new chapter of our lovelife...
816196
u will grieve as long as u stay in the past, and blame yourself for it. it didn't just happen overnight, so quickly, it's been in his mind for awhile. yes we will be hurt for sometime, takes time to move on after heartbreak. just something we all must go through in life, it's really a learning process for us, only we can't see it, as were too busy trying to figure out why. sometimes other people's choices in life do break our hearts, and we have no control over what that person chooses to do, we may never know why. but it's how we handle the hurt that is key to our recovery. he just didn't have the self control he should have. personally rather than live with a cheater i would rather deal with the heartbreak now, than again later on. this is who he is, and it really has nothing to do with your self worth. we just have to move forward, and in spite of our hurts, know that pain doesn't leave us where it finds us, that when one door closes another one opens up. often times we put too much trust in people we don't know that well, and we set ourselves up for it.we expect them to be as fair in a relationship as we have been. we don't quite understand how it could happen, well this is who he is and how he thinks.
706605
From my own experience, breaking up with someone to "teach them a lesson" usually ends up with you getting hurt. Maybe he's missing you inm his own way, my boyfriend always says that just because he doesn't show his emotions on the outside doesn't mean that he's not hurting on the inside. Maybe he's trying to clean himself up on his own first, it sounds like he needed to gain so independence from you and be a better person without you before he can be friends/ be woth you again. I mean ask yourself, would you wan thim back in the state you left him in? Just give him some time and space and try and enjoy your own
948063
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
1416
maybe cause your used to him being with you and you miss him
387626
the trouble is with love songs you feel you have  to listen to them to purge the soul, when you are with someone they seem to express all that you feel. And then when you are not with that person any more they make you realize all that you miss and maybe....just maybe through listening to them you can reclaim some of that lost love......i don't know why it hurts so much when you hear them though