Why would a reasonable man settle for one Chick?
828489
Why would he want more then one woman sucking his life essence out of him that is the real question.
1003644
Good girls are the types that will be respectable enough to settle down with. When a guy  is a man-ho, he's doing a ton of woman-hos. He doesn't respect them and therefore won't settle down with them. A respectable girl is the one that will keep his attention, mostly because she's such a phenomenon in this world. A chick that won't flap her legs because a dude has a wad of cash or a flashy car is harder to find than a guy that will appreciate it.
242938
Probably because he wants to be with two girls (in bed) at the same time. Some guys love stuff like that, he's probably one of them.
396781
They can get a man of their own and probably do. If the man is interested then why not.It takes two. You can't blame the woman. The men are willing.
857547
There are no guarantees like what you are looking for. It is probable that your insecurities are a sign to you of the obvious and likely possiblility. What amazed me, and I wonder how many picked it up, was that you did not say that you were fearful of losing her to another female. Now that is interesting!
126286
Depends on what the man wants to get out of life. Could be that he hasn't found the one he wants to settle down with and in that case, being single for the right reasons would be better than being married for the wrong ones.
423056
Because guys are generally commitment phobes. If they hook up with a girl who's taken then they know nothing further is expected of them. They can have their fun, and continue on their merry way. It's no strings attached fun.
219861
That would be a poor excuse to dump somebody. Couples don't always agree on things but they should respect each other differences. Too much cheese does a job on a girl's thighs anyway.
46073
Guys are attracted to women who take responsiblity for their own feelings and needs, they might need a parnter to help them to meet the needs, but they don't put all that on the other person.
1144667
Some women love to be worshipped (especially the shallow gorgeous ones.) Some prefer more of a partnership with their man. Depends who you get.
373222
I must admit its something that baffled me as a lesbian would obviously have no interest in the guy :0) I guess its more to do with it being more than one woman involved.
875191
Having a set of values is not childish it is entering into adulthood. If he wants a committed relationship with all the benefits of true love he needs to be a one woman man.  I hear this so often about woman who are gorgeous and they feel they must do what ever it takes to keep the man even let him cheat on them.  You have more power in the relationship dynamic. It’s not a game to play or control but you need to know your own self worth. The other thing is if a man says his carrier comes first that strikes me as immature and self absorbed. They typically use money to control a woman and the woman play a game using sex to control them back. Love is no game.  \nMature men can balance there vocational and relationship at the same time. If they are using woman as a rental car or hotel room they can pick up at as needed than you really not going to want this kind of relationship. Mature men realize a woman can give something to them they can’t get from work and can’t get from objectifying a woman. When I say Objectifying I am referring to the rental car type of man who likes to try all the cars in the parking lot just because he can and has the money. You don’t want a man that does not know what he wants he is the childish one.\nI am not hard on this guy he seems to be typical and smart man because he found you. Don’t prove him wrong by letting him take advantage of you. He likes you cause your one of a kind and can bring balance to his demanding work style. He needs some one to come home to after a hard day’s work that can bring him balance and joy. When you give into his “rental car” mentality that you’re not giving him what he needs and eventually you both lose out. Your more like a Lamborghini (a very expensive car that is design for one owner for life) http://www.lamborghini.com/eng/lamborghini.html  hand made just for one man. You’re like a Lamborghini cute, sweet, decent, nice, and cozy.  You can get one for around 175k to 350k so if you picture your that kind of woman with the full package he is the one who should be clinging to you.
183417
Well. This depends on many things and there is no single answer. It depends on the guy, and also what that guy is looking for. If he wants a one night stand then he will look for a girl willing to do that. If a guy wants a serious more long term relationship then its all about challenge. Not neccesarily what he likes, but what will keep him coming back for more!
1167603
Lol, I'm still trying to figure this out. In all 3 of my relationships I have been chested on. It doesn't make sense, but guys will be guys. Some are just selfish and only want what they can get out of a relationship. I know its upsetting, but hey I'm sure there are good one's out there. The good one's are just hard to find. Don't give up, but don't allow urself to be played anymore. Stand up for yourself and say what you want and do not want in a relationship.  Let a guy know what you will accept from the beginning.
180046
it's usually the men, women tend to be satisfied emotionally and physically by just one man if in love or married, it's their nature and that's how they are made, a woman just wants one man to love, take care of and be faithful to... men just never have enough and always looking for more with greed , like beasts...(it's also how they were created....)
1089866
Because you are more muture than them. you may have been in and out of relationships and now relise you are ready to settle down with one person. Another could be that your mates have been hurt by females and just want to have some fun with them, this way they can assure they wont get hurt.
618503
I would love a woman who respected and cared enough for me that she is willing to give me the space I need ..."WOW What a woman".... Those kind of woman are very hard to find and any guy who would break up with a girl  like that is a fool....And probably isn't very much into girls in the first place