How can I get of rid of lewd thoughts when I talk to a girl?
823535
this is not good..\nshut up those thoughts and be good..\nthink of a thing tat will make u forget such thoughts.....\nfor instance......\nthink of ur fav. song tat will make u forget everything...\nand be good and not naughty....
919343
First off, to show your devotion to Paris shave your balls clean.  I mean scorch the earth on this one.  Then get some crotchless panties and wear them  under a trench coat and and get a video camera and go to where she likes to club and jump out in front of her and tell her that you want to make a video of you and her.  Remember to take the trench coat off when you do this.  Shake it like you mean it!
374066
Compliment me. Then flirt with me in a light hearted way. Get more sexual in your comments once you realise I am receptive. Maybe not too blatant right away. If your eyes are drawn to my low neck line don't say anything like "Love your t**s." Maybe compliment my necklace and gaze into my cleavage. Later you can get really sexy in your chat. Those first impressions are important. Some girls could be put off with the first comment if you are too horny. I'm not, but lots are. Just keep trying. We love it really. Best of luck. Joan.
509732
Try kissing another girl. That'll cause a stir.
592453
i would say to be the coolest and nicest person. always keep it real at all times. never tell any stupid jokes cause that a girls number one turn off. be constant to the communication. but dont overdue it. talk about each other and make jokes off it that way the girl feels good talking to you. but if you just want to take her to bed then you are not going to do it in 7 days. unless she is a hoe. sorry!
916207
Read a book called, Writing Down the Bones by Natalie Goldberg. Free your thoughts, and you free your baggage. Try comedy, laughing has it's own power. Keep busy in your interests, because they will keep your mind on target, even when you are depressed, because you see yourself achieving something, and before you know it, you will be out of the slump. Sometimes it's only a seasonal thing, put beach pictures up, and a grow light! As for girls, the real thing is far more exciting than porn. We all think of suicide, but only the cowards achieve it. And finally, talking is your best friend, I am a girl, and I like you very much, and I know someone else will also!!!! You are very normal, you just need to realize this, and sin or not. (Porn) Who really cares. It's your life, but I hope you live it, rather than watch it.
779386
You cannot cure a mind from thinking.  You can help yourself by looking at the choices you make and what impact they could have upon your life.\nIf the fantasies involve pain or violence upon other individuals or animals, then you should seek professional guidance as soon as possible.\nIf the fantasies are sexual in nature, then you may or may not need guidance as much as you will have to deal with the fact that you will either have to live out the fantasy or stuff the fantasy and the feelings it creates.  Sexual fantasy is not normally sick, unless it involves non-humans, underage individuals, or practices that harm others with intent.\nGood luck on your journey.
215939
girls are way more self concious than guys. Try starting off with a romantic shower for two, if she feels clean, maybe she'll be less self concious.
293403
Let me ask you something first..do you just want to get laid?\n\nIf that's on your mind, you won't go anywhere buddy. You have to learn to hold back somethings to gain more. Talk to her as if you don't like her at all. Tease her, make jokes, do all that and don't give her ANY signs of you liking her!\nJust open up your heart more and you will get to know her better! \n\nGood luck
225005
be cool and relax..don't try too hard...find a girl that you are interested in and just start talking to her...show interest in her other than sexually and things will go from there...promise
209343
When next you have sex get ur mind off the sexual action and may be think about something else or something outside the sex. You will stay longer. and also don't rush anything take it slow and steady. Don't let her rush you either.
147607
Anything that isn't normal.\n\nDon't talk about work, past relationships, school, whatever.\n\nIf you're into some interesting hobbies (not like collecting cards or playing Dungeons and Dragons) things that are actually interesting to a girl, then talk about them, but don't do it bragging.\n\nJust try and be as natural as you can...be yourself and don't really worry about what you're talking about.
1107141
Stay calm, do not panic. Just open your mouth and start talking. Share interests, and be nice. That's all you have to do. Oh and don't talk about anything disgusting!
323655
just relax, and have sex with that girl. And your penis will come out fine.
777178
Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
851208
Tell her you don't mind being friends with her, but you have absolutely no intentions of being involved sexually with the opposite sex.  Let her know you don't swing that way and her actions are starting to make you feel uncomfortable.  I also like what you said about she's trying to turn you into something your not.  Say that to her too!  Good luck.
636685
Thinking about girls.