how can i make him understand????
829767
A year is not a long time to be with someone. Plus you are both very young. Forget about what he's telling you he wants to do in the future. You've got too much going for yourself to get side tracked by  some guy you are "in love " with. Most adults will tell you they  don't even remember who they were in love with when they were your age. The financial situation is a red flag for me , (he kinda want you to help support him )and I say pay attention ....stay focused on your studies...save as much as you can for yourself. You work hard for your own money and school takes a tremendous amount of drive to follow through. It's OK that you are not talking to each other much these days my guess is he's either trying to find some other girl to rescue him from his situation or trying to scare you into doing what he wants. Any experienced, educated woman will tell you...honey don't fall for this guys lines...there will be some guy down the road who you will meet who is educated, successful and will kiss you a whole lot better than Mr, Immature, lets move in now, I make  $700.00  a month, blah...blah...blah....
1176053
Explain  ur problem 2 ur b/f frm his perspective, then he'll understand.
157820
Slowly get him to trust you enought to open up to him.  Talk to him.
132174
You can write them a note, or leave a voice message, expressing your 'absolute inability to positively comply with their affectionate entreaty, due to an intricate web of mental restrictions self-imposed upon yourself due to prior, primary plus totally voluntary commitments'.\n...It will take an average person at least 2-3 minutes to get the gist of what you've said, and by the time he finally understands that you are only asking him to go vamoose, he'll actually feel relieved : 'Thank God, I would never have understood her anyway !'\nHowzzat ?!
240096
Try to explain her what she can't understand
351538
try to ignore him but not too much. dont show him that you badly need him coz this makes guys take u for granted.
386214
Ask in a subtle way. Get it straight from him/.Sometimes you cannot believe half what you see or hear.
804653
maybe your not making it stong enough for him.just tell him straight out,even if you got to be mean about it.i know you dont want to,but sometimes it takes that to get the point across.
217125
Be patient and understanding for no one actually changes anyone. Keep talking to him and don't forceful about it, one day he will come around. If you're forceful he will do them behind your back
510868
You can't "make" her understand. You can explain it to her. After that, it's up to her to accept your point of view or not. Hopefully, she is mature enough to be able to accept you and your family relationships without nagging and meddling.
975958
Approach him and clear the misunderstandings. Tell him how you feel about him.
375350
make em realize tat he cant stay without u.......!!!!
717614
try to tell him about u r feeling if the age differance between both of us is not more than 5 years I think he can understand u. go ahed coz love and feelings are limit less and unbounded best luck
791024
Communication is the key element in all relationships. Talk to him in a non-attacking manner and tone. Start all sentences with "I feel". That always helps. The second he feels attacked, he will tune you out. That way he can only respond to how you feel and not what he may or may not be doing in your eyes. Good luck.
268214
Does he know how much this means to you? Try telling him in a calm way sweet way. I know you can do it! You could also recommend renting one, that's what my 'friend' is doing.
477474
talk to him and tell him to be frank with u. why he is doing such and not keeping his promises.tell him u dont want to live like this and just give u a valid explanation..tell him not to make a promise if he cant fulfill coz u expect too much and u get too disappointed
330998
tell him how you feel he will probably understand