Why would your mate accuse you of cheating on them?
831237
I have a saying that I live by.. "He who cries the loudest is usually the guilty!"\n\nI have found this to be true!  Anytime I was accused of cheating or something to that effect (btw..i have NEVER cheated) after the fact I found out they were guilty of it.  So I live by that saying!
151963
could be any number of reasons. here are a few; temptation of the flesh, not getting what they want from their mate, lost interest in mate, found something new and exciting about the new partner, insecurity, etc.
127854
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
93858
I would just say that my significant other has been faithful to me and I hope it remains that way. He hav n't gave me any signs. So I don't have a reason to think about. \nthought, I feel everyone has thought about it at least once!\nIt is a part of nature, cheaping can come in different forms from mental, verbal & physical it depend on what you call cheating but for me to put all my trust in a unperfect being I JUST CAN'T! Things happen!
160941
Prove him wrong and don't cheat, but a man accusing you of cheating only points in one direction>>>he's cheating on YOU.
1180284
if you think your girlfriend is cheating on you, you are either really insecure or your having problems of some sort weather it would be with "acquaintances" or at home
492096
ahm...nothing really...but there was this situation about a man who loves his wife that he did everything to keep his wife fit....but to no avail...she was as sloppy as ever..\n\nhe asked for an advice...i think it's really cool for a guy to be concern about his mate, that he'll take an extra step to help her or improve their relationship..
669226
It's your fault because You didn't say goodbye right then, past that, bs.  Once a cheater, always a cheater, find a new man sweetie.  \nAs a side note, i would look at the things he's saying I did to make him cheat to see if any part of it might be true or something I might want to change about myself.  Not saying he's right, because cheating is never a answer to anything, but people notice our faults better than we do and we rarely get to hear them.
640347
is it fair or does it make you feel better?\n yes its fair because it makes her feel better about his infidelity. well if you didn't want a kick in the balls, you shouldn't have cheated. haha
611031
why, are you cheating?
750606
Simple he is a liar and a cheat. I would not take it so personally, if it had not been you it would have been someone else. If he told you he was single, it was not your fault. This is his issue, you are not the bad guy in this situation. However, let me also say that not only men do this but many females also. A cheat is a cheat is a liar is a liar. The world is full of amoral people. God bless*
1013078
I am guessing that one of your friends told you this to goad you into having sex with him or someone else.  Get yourself a new friend.
1168870
Honestly, there's not going to be a good answer on here.  We don't know your boyfriend.  We don't know what he's inclined to do.  Anyone who answers straight-up, "He's cheating on you," or "It's nothing," is being dishonest, because that person is projecting his/her fears onto your situation.\n\nKeep an eye out for warning signs.  Maybe they are just roommates with no romantic involvement.  But maybe their relationship will evolve past the friendship level.  \n\nIn any case, communication is the key.  Let him know if this bothers you.  He should understand your concerns.  If he blows them off, then it may be for the best, as you'll know what kind of man he is.  After all, if he doesn't respect your feelings about this, then it'll just get worse when a bigger problem comes along.  \n\nDon't nag him, though.  Give him a chance to think things over.  If you come across as the overbearing jealous type, then he'll wonder why the relationship is worth it.  If it is innocuous, then he'll be really insulted.  \n\nIn short, none of us can tell you what it means.  We don't know your boyfriend.  Keep alert and maintain communication.  Let him know that if anything happens with his roommate, you want to know, even if it hurts.  It's better than having a dishonest relationship.
845357
No i dont think that your being cheated on. Your friend was just joking around.If he starts to get to close to your girlfriend then be watchful.But it sounded like a joke.
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
185120
The main reason is not to hurt the current guy or have him think we are slutty.  Also it is possible that she's only counting relationships, not the randoms.\n\nPersonally I do think that this is pretty sketchy behavior.  But mostly forgivable if explained.
1148290
It's the idea that gets them going.  People, in general, love to gossip.  If it's your partner that's assuming you are having sex with someone else, then it's probably a matter of insecurity. Then you must ask yourself if you are being honest with your partner.  Have you included your partner in your friendships with others, or are you being secretive and elusive about them?  Did your partner find out about your opposite-sex friend(s) from you or another source?  If it's just other people making assumptions, just ignore them.  They obviously have nothing better to do than worry about what you might, or might not be doing.