how do i make my bestfriend from lie too me ?
821831
dang, dont sound much like a best friend to me. tell her that you dont like that she lies to you and you cant be best friends with someone you can't trust. tell her that that has been bothering you for a long while and wish you could have that special best friend trust with her or it just isn't going to work out, because if she lies so much to you now, its only going to get worse. you might want to mention to her about her breath too.. haha jk!
306813
The most important thing is to be honest. Tell him that you just don't feel the same way he does and you only see him as a friend. Don't be mean or rude about it, just tell him the truth. If you lie or try to say stuff like "it's not you, it's me" it'll just make him mad that you couldn't just tell him the truth. \n\nIf you're good enough friends, he should be able to accept that. Rejecting someone is never easy and you have to take their feelings into account. Just tell him the truth and be sincere.
676976
U could just ask him his middle name. Or if ur embarassed to do that u could ask one of his friends if they know. But if u really like the guy i would just be honest with him. It may feel funny at first but ull be happy u did. Lying usually only makes things worse.
804989
Don't rush yourself. Do it when you are mentally and emotionally ready. Then just sit your friend down and let them know you got something you want to tell them and say, "We're best friends. We're supposed to always be there for each other. Now if you're a real friend, you wouldn't judge me for this...." Then come out and say it.
429520
Don't lie to someone if you want to be friends with them. If you don't care about them, fibs are okay, though honesty is always best.\n\nMy answer, though? It's a good move, if you want that person to think you have a boyfriend, as long as you're a good liar.\n\nBut lying isn't nice.
457645
Ask her best friend. She'll definitely say no, but if she sounds like she's lying, it's a yes.
904886
My best friend is an excellent liar, he's lied to me so many times that I reallly don't think that I will ever know just how much he's lied to me.  The good thing is that I know the way he is now so I now know not to trust him immediately.  In the back of my mind there is always the thought that he could be lying to me.  So I simply don't trust him any more.   I don't know if this helped you or not.  If other people see your friend as a liar then it might be true.  Just go with your gut feeling.
88296
Well, unfortunately you really cant MAKE anyone love you. If she is your best friend, then thats a great start! She already likes you and is comfortable with you, now you just have to see if she feels that way about you too.\nIf you feel comfortable doing so, you might ask her if she has ever seen you as being more than a friend. This is a tough thing to do, so wait until you are more comfortable doing so.\nJust make sure and remember: don't be too pushy. Nothing will scare her away faster.
57553
you dont. you shouldnt ruin a good thing. be grateful you even have a best friend.
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
202134
just be careful what you say to him from now on...it doesn't mean you have to terminate the friendship...now you know that you can't trust him with certain data...\nwhen my best friend told stuff about me, i just decided that the only info i'd tell that person would be stuff i don't care if the whole world knows...i'd never tell my secrets to that person again, but we can still have fun and joke around...\npeople aren't perfect and you'll never find a friend who hasn't blabbed something about you to someone else, whether their loved one or parents or another friend or whatever...so if other than not being able to keep his trap shut, he's a pretty good friend, then just don't tell him sacred stuff...but you'll be disappointed if you try to look for friends who'll never leak your secrets...you'll never have any...just learn who you can trust with what...
621057
Just straighten out your life, make some changes. Then you wont have to lie. If you lie, you must be imbarresed about something, dont hang out with people who do not like YOU.
1174577
You can't make this person do anything.  And to tell you the truth, you don't want to.  You want them to like you for who you are and not because you were trying to be someone you're not.  Otherwise, you are just cheating yourself out of a great, emotionally balanced relationship.  And you are also cheating them, lying to them about who you are.\n\nIf you want them to like you, just be yourself around them and maybe show them that you are interested through flirting.  If they take the bait, then that is awesome!  If not, just say, "Oh well, their loss," and move on.
309171
The only way to trust her is if she earns it, she lost it with all those lies. \n\nI would not trust you or the "best friends". \n \nYou are all talking s^%& about your girl. \n\nSo what?  True or false, you are being just as immature. \n\n(sorry I have issues with any man that would call someone his sig. other then talk about her behind her back to other people NO MATTER WHAT. Are you talking to girls???? Her 'best' friends are telling you her buisness???? \nWhy should'nt she lie to all of you. \nnone of you deserve the truth or obvoiusly can not handle it)
70660
I think you should confide in a diary or journal or something like some previous answer told you to do. It really lifts the weight off your shoulders once you've written your feelings down. I mean, unless you dont keep your memories written down, then you should tell your 2nd best friend/a close friend who doesnt have any idea who your best friend is, so that the person you tell doesnt tell your best friend and screw up your friendship. Just like what some other person said. Or, if you do have a trusting friendship that'll be sure to last for a kachillion years (again, an idea from another answer), then you might just be able to tell your friend. That's why they call them best friends forever right? Nothing'll come between them
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
352762
If you are absolutely positively sure that they have lied to you about everything then choose to end this friendship.If your not sure then ask them to tell you something that you already know the truth about to see if they lie.If they do then tell them how it makes you feel and why do they want to lie all time.Maybe they do not know they are lying and maybe they just don't care about telling the truth.Do you lie to anyone?If no then maybe you should find a new friend.