what is love,how can i forget my lover?
824658
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
10075
You cant, the only thing you can do is move on from it. If you really love someone, you will always love them no matter what.
492834
LOVE SUCKS IF YOU"RE NOT ON ITS GOOD SIDE...so you want to forget it but you cant cuz its LOVE
933640
Be careful not to lose yourself.  Love can be extremely overpowering and you can end up completely dependent on the person that you love, this may not be a particularly bad thing if your love is returned equally but life tends to be pretty much unequal.  Allow your lover to be themselves - we all need to keep a part of ourselves for ourselves only.  Love is about acceptance of the real person, not a romanticised vision of them.  Give in to your love without fear and that love will be returned tenfold.
237771
Its difficult and knowing that the feelings are not there for you by him is the first step to forgetting him. Move on and gradually your feeling will fade. Try not to let it control your life. Best of luck and remember you will find someone else.
173245
unut bunu aşk diye bişi yoook-forget it there's nothing called 'love'..
1108853
When you are in lovel:\n1- You will take more care of your life, love will make your life meaningful, at least now you have an aim to live for.\n2- When you see your lover, your heart will begin throbbing. You will be trying to put your thoughts in the right order.\n3- You will take more care of yourself and your clothes. Now you want to look like the best person in your lover'e eyes.\n4- True love implies jealousy. It will hurt you the most to find your lover with another girl.\n5- You will completely rule out the very thought of losing your lover. Losing him is the last possibility you can ever think of, because simply you can't imagine your life without him. Nobody will be able to convince you that you have to forget about him.\n6- When he sends an email, or a text message, you will read it  over and over again, and you will not delete it even if you are running out of space.\n7- You can talk to him on the phone for hours without knowing it took so long.\n8- If you have a picture of him you will keep looking at it whenever you are alone.
379828
Because you never ever forget your first love. It will always be special no matter how many relationships you have. In fact, you can't really forget anyone you've been in love with. Love is a feeling you can't just switch off or leave behind. When you have been that intimate with someone and that close, no matter how badly the relationship ended, the good times will always be remembered and looked upon fondly. What you do instead is move on in life and focus on other things and other relationships. Go out, do things you enjoy, surround yourself with friends and realise that love can and will come again. However, if you believe that this girl was more than your first love, maybe you think she was "the one" then why not get in contact with her again? See how she is and see if your feelings are still there.
1085801
Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
971805
I understand!  But life is like that.  It is never fair.  It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion!  You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy.  Take good care of yourself!
925756
This person will always be a part of you. \nThe Best ways to forget is meet other men.\ntalk and have a friendly relationship \nit may grow into a serious one . if so . you may be ready or you may not be. but try to do different things . \nWhen you start to think about him. stop . think about things you need to get done . call a friend . go out ..dis tract your thoughts from him..
137650
start dating someone new, you'll forget about him.
652699
Why aren't you over this lover? I wouldn't waste my time thinking of anyone that left me high and dry for another person. You need to work on your self esteem because you are missing a person who obviously didn't care and respect your feelings. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will stay with you and not abandon you. Pray for someone to love you as much as you love them,  go out with your friends more, talk to someone you trust about your feelings, date people(you don't have to sleep with them) and go out and socialize
45405
YOU DONT. YOU JUST PICK UP THE PIECES, GO OUT THERE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO LOVE YOU WITH EVERYTHING INSIDE THEIR SELF. LOVE IS  NOT HARD ITS THE TRUST YOU GIVE TO SOMEONE THAT IS HARD TO ERASE. YOU WILL BE HURT FOR A WHILE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT BUT YOU DONT NEED TO HEAR FORGET ABOUT HIM. YOU NEED TO KNOW YOU CAN MAKE IT. REMEMBER BE NICE TO HIM . IF HE REALLY MISSES YOU HE WILL CALL YOU. DONT DO OR SAY ANYTHING THAT WILL PUSH HIM AWAY
847219
there is no replacement for love. its unique and nothing can be substituted for it. however here's some thing that might be handy- \n'My heart skips a beat at the thought of you'
423675
Try to forget him! I think you may not be aware of the meaning of the word married.
427831
mmm...ur feelings are ordinary...it will take some time to forget him...u have to do some important things to make it a small period :\n1-never try to contact him even if u felt that u would die to hear his voice or see him, never even think of that.\n\n2-when u find ur self starting to think of him, start to remember the bad things he did to you as much as u can.\n\n3- never think that u miss his days and never dream of being with him again.\n\n4- try to think of another one if u can (that's a quick cure but it's not a good one).\n\n5- finally and the most important try not to have alot of free time, try to engage ur self in doing anything...and try not to stay alone for a long time...be with ur friends,relatives,or any other people.