My friend think that she was raped but I think it's just a front to get attention so what do you think?
816663
I think there is allot of women who  throw the the RAPE work around very hazardously, not thinking of the repercussions.  To accuse some one of rape is a serious charge, that can change the lives of everybody involved for ever!   If convicted the guy would go to prison for years and the girl would be branded as the chick that got raped, and most guy wouldn't want any thing to do with that.  If she turns out that she is full of sh*t, then she will be the one is serious trouble w/ the law.   She should be careful and think about this before going any further.  Personally If I was at party and something like this happened, I would kick the sh*t out of that person.
139771
Depends on what kind of friend it is and what kind of diss it is.  A good friend and a minor diss, well, I would let her know how you feel about her behavior. It all depends on the situation, honestly.
1094984
Well your friend, shoudnt have gotten involved in it, for many reasons. And once you get into something its very hard to get out of, and right now all your friend can do is come up to the situation letting everyone know what she has done and admit her wrongness but other than that its HOPELESS!! if u need more just email!!
1166308
i'm all for that, BUT what happens when a girl wants to get back at a guy, and says he raped her?.. or if a girl's really leading a guy on and only once they're naked and steamy does she reject him? (ok that's still rape and VERY wrong, but i'm trying to say that there are grey areas.) there are a lot of cases where girls wrongly accuse.. some girls get forced into it by parents who can't believe their sweet lil girl would bonk someone.\n\nI believe there should be a really bad punishment, but it cant be used unless there is solid proof of rape. I say the same should go for murder and child abuse.
389394
I'm really sorry to hear what happened to you but....\n\nCall the cops, let them give you a rape kit, and  (especially if they are conviced you were raped) PRESS CHARGES.\n\nWho cares if this was a friend, or a friend of a friend! PEOPLE LIKE THIS ARE NOT FRIENDS AND NEED TO BE STOPPED!!!
600693
Its funny because I've just gone through this.  Remember, you must make yourself happy and no one else.  Maybe she's jealous of all the attention you're getting, who knows.  If she's your friend, she wouldn't be jeolous and will eventually come around.  If she doesn't, she was never your friend to begin with.  Enjoy your life, have fun and don't ever worry about what the next person, friend or foe, has to say.  BE HAPPY!!!!!
1179428
THIS IS DATE RAPE!!!! I would seriously consider reporting this. Sexual deviants start with something small and work their way up to more aggressive worse acts. It's kinda like a peeping tom who then exposes himself in public and then starts to mingle in crowds and touch people inappropriately, etc. It would have been ok if this was something you had agreed to beforehand and were role playing or something. \nAlso many women who are raped say that their body experienced feelings of pleasure, this is normal. At the very least you should see a counselor or therapist to discuss this and see what they think of the situation. Or at least call a rape hot line and ask what they think
878678
WOW... My friend does this too! Alot. She meets them on myspace, talks to them for a few days on the phone and on myspace and then HOOKS UP with them the first night she meets them. Its her lifestyle and I have no desire to judge her or anything. So I dont say anything. She uses condoms and even tho I KNOW its not healthy and is dangerous. Its NOT my decision. So I suggest not saying anything. Or if you choose to, just simply say that YOU could never do that, because you've heard so many horror stories about people getting raped when meeting people online. Explain to her YOUR PERSONAL reasons why you would never do it. Good luck
1138191
If it was you that has been raped please report it and get the help you need .its a very traumatic thing to have happened to you  and my heart goes out to you,\nPlease you dont want a web site ,You need proper help Please seek it,
403134
MOST CERTAINLY, IF IT WAS AN ACCIDENT SHE MIGHT FEEL EMBARRASSED IF YOU CONFRONT HER ABOUT IT, JUST PRETEND YOU DIDNT HEAR IT. bUT IF IT WAS ON PURPOSE, JUST LAUGH IT OFF, SHE'LL FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU. TAKE THE ADVICE FROM THE ENEMY SIDE. TRUST ME SHE'S JUSTM TRYING TO GET YOUR ATTENTION.
501162
you need a shrink - someone who says they were raped and wants to know if they should tell someone is full of sh!t - are you that bored? oh, by the way you told someone in between asking youor questions? grow up
1067837
If your friend is really a friend and you want to salvage your friendship, I think you should sit down with her and discuss how you really feel.  You should let her know that it really upset  you when she did what she did, and that you don't relish the chance of that happening again, that it's not acceptable behavior from someone who says she's a friend.
551343
A good friend should be able to tell her friend anything.  If you really feel that she is making herself look bad, then it might be a good idea to let her know that you care about her and voice your concerns in a tactful manner.  She might not react well as it sounds like she gets validation through her actions.  But it might get her to start thinking about why she feels the need to advertise her personal life.
817755
IT doesn't matter what she wants to do, it's what she has to do. In order to get that guy off the streets she needs to report him. Chances are that it's too late to take him to trial and win because she let time go by so long. If she's really not willing to tell the police, she has to tell her boyfriend. You realize that she's being incredibly selfish by keeping it all in and only telling you. Her boyfriend is friends with this guy who hurt his girlfriend, and the boyfriend should know all of these things. Have her take a pregnancy test and if it comes out positive have her tell her parents and plan her next step. And she has to tell her boyfriend. There is no way around that, she has to tell him. He deserves to know and he needs to know that about his "friend". People who rape people are ill and they need help, and to be stopped.
614475
The only thing I can say is she wasnt a friend to start with. And that dont worry about others  they have to answer for the things they do not you. Just move on and dont show any emotion about it. There is a saying what comes around goes around and sooner or later she will have someone do to her what she did to you.
909300
you can only try so much before you gotta say to yourself this is her problem(s).  it is hard to see a friend get involved with that kind of shtuff.  it's hard to watch a friend open herself up to even greater potential problems especially under the influence of pot or booze.  gotta pay for it somehow.  it does affect the way you make decisions.  and guys dont really think straight when there is a drunk/high chick passed out somewhere.  try to get her straight before some bad shIt can happen.
835166
I personally feel like if it happens once shame on them if it happens a second time shame on you for letting it happen. Trust is a hard thing to build once its lost you can take that friend with a grain of salt because even if you do give her a second chance this incident will always be in your mind