my b/f broke up with me and I still have feelings for him...?
812742
It will just take time to get over him.  He broke up with you, which means he doenst want anything to do with you, dont write him notes or try to talk to him, just move on.
670567
Move on is the best answer. You broke up for a reason. Always remmeber that reason.
600606
You are still with him because you dont believe in yourself. If he isnt feeling you by now, he never will, leave him and find someone that appreciates you.\nOr better yet talk to him about how you feel, if he cant open up and tell you where his head is at, let him go
1032939
there is a reason why you two broke up--it didn't work out.  don't be weak and get back with him just because you're lonely now.  it usually takes at least a few months before you get over someone...so stick it out and start casually dating (not meaning sex) in the mean time.
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
941245
Just ask him what's going on. Just explain that you have a feeling that he's got something on his mind and that you do not like seeing him miserable.  He may have cheated and that's why he looks sad when he looks at you.. I don't what to sound pessimistic or anything. Just throwing out possibilities...\nMy B/F went through this.  He just didnt think he deserved me.  We took a break, and he got his head on straight.... the key is to communicate.
297625
It is quite natural to still think about a guy you broke up with. Sometimes as someone said above, you might have second thoughts about what you just did or in denial that he broke up with you.\n\nHowever, time is a great healer. You only have to shift your concentration and free time to something else.. like answering in Yahoo! Answers, than questioning hehehehehehe\n\n.:Fishie:.
1123093
I would see where things lead. And if it end up that you two break up for awhile it will be okay. I am going through a break-up right now. My ex did it because he needed time to himself to figure himself out, that sort of thing. He still loves me.\n\nMove on with your life. Moving on doesn't mean that you don't still love him or that you might not get back together one day, it just means that you're moving on. You can't waste your life waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want.\n\nI wish you the best and remember if you're supposed to be with him you will be.
665228
It's only natural to have feeling for someone you cared deeply about...sometimes you have feelings for them the rest of your life. That doesn't mean you want to be with them though. Move on...I'm sure he is.
52963
Why is he an ex?  If it's a good reason, try to get over those residual feelings...know it's for the best that you aren't together.  I say, if you still have feelings, swallow your pride and let him know but also be prepared, just in case he says he doesn't feel the same.
1078887
Let him know how you feel.... He may not realize you have those kind of feelings for him.  But you need to realize that if you start to actually date him, you may lose him as your best friend if you break up.  Will that be worth it?
251453
why did you break up? do you think you will still have that problem if you got back together? Did he break up with you? Your dreams won't matter if he does not still have feelings for you. I wouldn't tell him unless he does. You would just get hurt. If he does, then go ahead, take a chance.amd amybe you can work things out.
647432
It is understandable that you are still in love with your ex. What I DON'T understand is why are you broke up and still having sex with him EVERYDAY?!?!? That's not broke up... that's an out for him to do you and any other girl he wants anytime because you are "broke-up". You're not his girlfriend any more so you have NO SAY in who else he screws and sice you are "broke-up" he can do it guilt-free as well on a "broke-up" technicality.
930337
sounds like he regrets breaking up with you, kinda like you don't know what you have 'till it's gone.  it's your choice if you decide to take him back.  if you really care for him and feel he is being honest then go for it.
764821
your situation seems like a very complicated one.. maybe the next time he says that he loves you, you should ask him why u arent together then. i dont think its a good idea to continue to do gf bf stuf with him unless you start dating again. he might be just using u and u really dont want to get deeper than u already are if he is. maybe theres a different reason he broke up with u.. fam? but i dont noe. if i loved someone else i dont think i would be able to date another person at the same time.
287634
If you love him, yes. But why did you guys break up in the first place? Did he cheat on you or vise versa? Did he lie to you or vise versa? Do you guys trust each other? Really think about these things. Then decide from there.
865546
yeah my guy and i just had a fight..and I am so devasted..I love him soo much..but then again he is an as*hole...if you feel like you need time..then take time..but if you feel like you can move on with someone else then go out with friends and make new friends..usually after a break up..I like to take time for myself and get back to me...good luck\nps..if you still love him then call him and try to work things out