what is the female equivalent of an alpha male???
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Beta-female? Oh deary me, some people! The female equivalent using the same terms would be an alpha female. You cant have both obviously. There are lots of animals that do feature females in dominant positions though the I've never heard the term alpha females in such context. They're called matriarchies (as opposed to patriarchies) which basically means ruled by the mum.\n\nVarious eusocial insect societies are 'ruled' by their queens which are solely responsible for breeding new drones. In fact, this is significant, in nature replicating your genes is the most important goal in life so the dominant 'animals' are basically the ones who are allowed to breed and who suppress the ability to others in their group. Bumblebee queens secrete a substance that stops the workers laying eggs. When that fails she will storm around her hive eating eggs laid by any other female.\n\nRegards
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a man who is honest, loyal, fun-loving, affectionate, gentle, caring, loving, respectful..even in front of their home-boys and not scared to show their feminine side every now and again yet not a wimp....you notice that i did not mention a man with alot of money...most ladies these days are independent and as long as the man can hold his own..they can be working at mickie-dies for all i care..as long as they are not mooching off of me.
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the same kind every man wants. a woman who is beautiful, smart, interesting, confident, and has her own success.
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Everyone is different!! I, being a man, is looking for someone who treats me with respect, hindness, and most of all is HONEST! the rest will fall into place!
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Hi again, Alex....\n\nRon here again, and I am urging you to be bold, to be the aggressive, masculine male that females deep-down love to see.\n\nJust DO IT, DUDE!!!  Kiss their cheeks, and THEN (hello....!!) see their reactions.  \n\nMan, be a male, do not be a chicken-sh!t girly-man.  Be an aggressive male, like your genes are demanding you to be, OK?\n\nThen, if the girl in question is offended, then you have saved yourself a whole lot of future effort with her.....  \nMove on and seek another target of your affection~\n\nREMEMBER ALEX:     KISS HER FIRST, AND THEN, THEN, THEN, ONLY ASSESS HER REACTION.  BE BOLD, MAN, BE BOLD!    \n\nTHE GALS LOVE BOLDNESS~!\n**********************************************************************\nGOSH, the lame answers that others have given to you herein...\nthey suck their soupy supper through straws, let me tell ya...\nDo these kinds of guys, as advised by these poor answers above, ever make it into the annuls of Love?  Or are they wimps?\nARE YOU A WIMP, OR ARE YOU A KISSING, LOVE-MAKING-MACHINE, IN THE MAKING??\nDO YOU WANT GIRLS TO THINK OF YOU \nAS a Gallant ROMEO, in their minds, or JUST AS SOMEONE, \nwho asks if you can kiss a girl's cheek??\n\nThe difference between Lovers, that girls remember, and LOSERS, that girls laugh at, is just this, Alex:\n\nBE  BOLD IN THE PURSUIT OF THE GIRLS!!!\n\n((look, email me, I want to know if this helps, clik my icon....))
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it doesnt matter what state you are from women all want the same thing in a guy but the qualifications may vary by person to person....but to start out with the top ones are honesty, respect, good listener, has a good work ethic, takes care of his responsibilities, has a good sense of humor, is intelligent, is friendly and is not scared of commitment and doesnt play games....
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I think you should be asking "Where can I find a good, quality woman who likes nice guys?"\n\nWhile I was dating, I tended to date guys who ended up being jerks.  But once I found out how they really were, I broke up with them.  And ended up marrying a nice guy :)\n\nSome girls are attracted to "bab boy" jerk types.  However, most aren't and you should focus on finding one of those girls :)
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I want a girl, who gets up early and stays up late.. with finger nails that shine like justice and eyes that burn like cigarettes.. w/ a short skirt and a Long Jacket-cake  j/k ..lol \n\na girl that takes care of herself, both physically, emotionally (limited drama) = low maintenance. who is reasonable, personally respondsible & accountable.\n\na girl with life goals beyond the generic marriage & kids (important, but needs to want something more in life). optimistic, passionate and self motivated.\n\na girl who understands her selfworth ( self respect & confident) importance of humility, and selflessness. \n\nbeyond that..(which I know is alot) I really seek someone who has a great imagination.. artistic, a manic creative.
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Let's be realistic. A great personality only works if the woman is in a position to get to know you (i.e. work, class, interest group, religious group, etc.), that's how "nice guys" meet their girlfriends and wives.\n\nIf you are going to approach a complete stranger, you have to exude attractiveness, that goes beyond what your mamma gave you. This means, you have to be confident, and secure with yourself. \n\nI date guys who know what they want--me--and go for it, without any concern as to whether I find them attractive or not. If I show the slightest disinterest, they walk away from me indifferent, as if I am nothing. \n\nYou have to be indifferent, you have to be confident, and sometimes cocky. We all have flaws, we all have insecurities. The guys who always get the dates, are the alpha males who don't deserve them. Not all of the "alpha-males" are prettyboys either.
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I would suppose like any other man. Women go through the same thing so no different for a man, so stop your whining and make the best of it...K
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Each female is unique, and thus, there is no-way to speak for all on this topic; however, in general, female do not really care-about those "macho-macho manly man" nonsenses.  Technically, a lady will only care for the individual that she really CARES about, be he the winner or be he the loser matters nothing.\n\nIf shall a girl really cares about you, and you won a fight she will cheer for you, shall you be the loser -- she will still be with you and view the winner a jerk picking on someone not his own size.  If shall you desire to win a lady's heart, try something more romantic and leave those "macho-macho manly man" nonsenses out of the attempts.\n\nMany females can and do possess abilities to defend themselves of which, the self-proclaimed knight image from the male suitor is really of no-need.  If those girls like to be with that boy which bullied you, I dare to say those girls liked him before he even bullied you in the public; thus, forget those girls, there will be other girls who will be interested in you -- just be YOURSELF.\n\nAdd-On Notes:\n\nYou have your talents and skills which are your own uniqueness that other boys cannot even come close to your abilities, discover what your talents and skills are; those are what you will be a "genius" at.  You might not be a "warrior", but you might be a "scholar", a "poet" or perhaps an "artist".\n\nNot all girls like those warrior-type men; thus, you will attract your own type of girls as soon as you use your own talents and skills.  The key is just be yourself.
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Absolutely!  We just don't like to admit it to the X due to the fact that for some strange reason we feel that it would make us look weak and not in control.  Funny how we think... I believe it to be the striving to be an alpha male perhaps, not sure.
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I totally agree with you babe. it took me forever to find a great man, and yes.. I generalized him at first and then I realize I was wrong. There aren't really any GOOD men  out here...Where the hell are they, thats my question gurl!!!! My gosh they expect us to be queens to them and then we get treated like crap, all I ever wanted was a mant hat can stand out from these sterotypical men, and it just seems as though you have to go to another world to get what you want. But yes i agree. hopefully society will help us change these men out here, because that is how they got the way they are...society.
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Hey there.\n\nOf course there are! I would consider myself one of them. The only unfortunate aspect is that so many women just consider me a sex object. *sigh* They never actually care about my feelings or anything. :D
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I'm in the process of finding the same thing with my guy. I honestly dont know but I'll be looking out for answers. Plus to those who always reply with 'ask her/him' thats not always as simple as it sounds.
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An alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community whom the others follow and defer to. Humans and their nearest species-relatives, the chimpanzees, show deference to the alpha of the community by ritualized gestures such as bowing, allowing the alpha to walk first in a procession, or standing aside when the alpha challenges. Canines also show deference to the alpha pair in their pack, by allowing them to be the first to eat and, usually, the only pair to mate. Wolves are a well known example of this.\n\nThe status of alpha is generally achieved by means of superior physical prowess. However in certain highly-social species such as the Bonobo apes, the alpha can use more indirect methods (such as political alliances) to oust the ruling alpha and take his/her place.
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I just wanted to let you know that my sister is exactly that type of person.  I think it is actually a personality characteristic just like any other.  She is somewhat in denial of it unlike your acceptance.  She must make more money than her man and he must do as she likes or she lets them go.  It's her way or no way.  Some guys like it and stay around and others abhor it and do the exact opposite--leave as fast as their feet or car will take them.  So if that is what you like then there are plenty of women out there.  My sisters friends are exactly the same way so keep looking, you will find exactly what you want/need if you are patient