how to get rid of m jealousy for her?
832432
you contridict your self here continuously, your not jealous then you are then your not then you are? your girl is 14 you are 17,believe me most girls that age think it is great to be with an older boy and wont jepardise this so dont be jealous, if she is in a team then it is a bonding thing when they hug a bit like footballers when scoring a goal, dont be jealous just keep telling her you love her and look after her and make sure there is no hanky panky until she is ready and the correct age, you sound sensible however so i trust you will do this, most of all be happy, you are young and so is your girl, believe me you will probably feel like this about many more girls before your 30.
759760
Jealousy is an ugly tool.\nHe is getting some, your not.\nHe hates her and is “still taking advantage of her?”\nYou to should be ashamed of yourselves!!!\nYou want her to move?  \nThen buy out her portion to the lease.\nYes that’s right, if she pays you $300 a month and she has 10 months to go, then you both pay her $3000 so she can establish herself in a new place without being used like a whore!
220999
don't let it bother you.\nShe is feeling threatened now that you might steal her "dear little boy"..and have more influence on him..\n\nIt is common !! They start to feel jealous !
1178125
Don't get mad just hold your head up and smile cause he is yours. Don't let them know they are getting to you cause then they will continue. Just lean over and give him a kiss or do little fun flirty things that he enjoy. Don't entertain them other girls by getting mad. Then your man will feel insecure if you do entertain those jealous females.
666439
when a person has a jealousy it will be forever and cannot be removed. He keeps on doing it and u both keep on getting into some troubles. So its better to discuss the problem of ur relation and solve it as soon as possible. Thank You.
1137178
controlling and jealousy
860997
Jealously is a sign of weakness. When you have confidence in yourself and in your relationship you will not feel the need to do what u do.  What i think you are trying to tell us, is that you just want attention, maybe she doesn't show you the attention that you would like or you're accustomed to. What you could do is sit down and talk have a friend to friend heart to heart talk about what you're expecting out of the relationship and what you plan on putting into the relationship..\n\nI feel you about unnecessary arguments I used to be the same way. Seems like the arguments are the only time she paid me some attention. But that was a long long time ago.  Over the years i've learned that you can't force someone to pay you attention or love you it has to come naturally. And when it's true and natural you'll know and feel it to be as such.  The more you argue the more prone you are of driving your gf away to someone else. Just think, she might be on yahoo answers asking questions about you and what to do or how to get rid of. Time to take a stand now and rededicate yourself and your commitment to your relationship and make a solemn promise to yourself on becoming a better person not only for the benefit of the relationship but for yourself as well\n\nGoodluck
552812
appoligize!  ihad that happen!  give her her space for a while, then appoligize.  it worked for me!
869542
find a way to let go of her\n\nif shes doing that, you wouldnt really want to be with her anyway\n\nmove on and replace her with somebody who really loves you for you and wont cheat on you like that...and then lie to you about it\n\ngood luck with whatever you decide to do
588364
Leave it be. She is jealous that he gets your attention over her. Immature of her. She needs a BF.
1079954
Talk to her because you a jealous that some body did that to her and you did not. But she is not with that person now is she(for what ever reason)  and it is more about you trying to prove yourself than about you giving her pleasure
1118733
jealousy is a sign of insecurity.....work on yourself first............
675952
you are going to have to get rid of the insecurity. You have to realize that she has friends and a life outside of you. If she is committed to you then you have no reason to be insecure.\n\nYour insecurity is going to cost you your relationship if you don't stop doing that and get over your issue.\n\nGood Luck
656591
Show her what she's missing out on - go out, be sociable, let people flirt with you.  She'll soon remember she's missing.  Even if she doesn't see it, word will get back to her that you're out there are being fabulous!\n\nIf she ever grumbled about something to do with your mannerisms or personality, subtly prove her wrong.  For example: If you weren't out-going enough, then get out there; If you weren't caring enough, be there for all your mates; If you weren't sexy enough, go refresh your look!\n\nWhat can you lose?  If it doesn't work, at least you may inadvertently attract someone even cuter :)
900313
Be happy for your friend. Let her have her own time to shine....like you had your time. I can totally see why you'd be upset, though. It'd make me the same way. The only thing I can tell you to do is to deal with it. You may cause a fight if you show your jealousy. Let her have her time in the spotlight, and soon, her time will fade as well. Good luck!
898935
Sounds like you are being used.  Love can be blinding.  You need to let her go, she is not the only woman in the world.  But if you keep treating her as "Ms. Universe" she will keep treating you the same way.  You said she is obsessed with another guy.  Let her go because you are obsessed with her.  Maybe if the other guy hurts her, then she will rebound to you, but any man with pride would leave hear alone under any circumstances.  But if you love her and you can't live without her, tell her and if she decides she wants the other guy, let her go!!!
1044830
cool a love/hate relationship\nI hate that,i'm jealous I want that kinda relationship,you loser,you are so sweet for staying with her.....\nGood luck!