Serious question about sex... I'm not gay but men don't turn me on?
822742
Your man does not know what he is doing....that's the problem. If he did.....he would know how to get you aroused.  Works the same for guys......I can make love to a woman......but if she just lays there.....then its a wam bang.............but if she gets into it an knows what buttons to push or lick.....then we are off to the races.  You need a more experienced man........
1103433
Yes and thank you for your email. I've never wished I was gay although the girls would often acuse me of being gay. I've never desired or even thought I was gay. I've always Loved being out with lady friends but sometimes they expect sex and I'm just not interested in them that way. But some times I do find someone I'm in Love with not in a sexual way but I'd like to be by her side.I think about sex if that would keep her by my side.But by the time I'm ready for that, she's already found herself another man.
980816
Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
1046621
first of all it depends on ur age and maturity. there are alot of slutty men out there that just get horny and like to f*ck all the time. in my case im not like that. im 19, have a beautiful wife and were thinking of having kids of our own later on in the future. some men (most i should say) are likely to get turned on by whatever means u do, especially if they like you or like how you look. some like it rough while others like it soft. others think that sex is totally wrong. there are some ppl that have never gotten laid in their lives (theyre the ones who get pissed off all of the sudden lol). some ppl are just too damn busy to even bother with it.\n\ni used to watch porn, but now that i have a wife, id rather watch her. usually she asks me if i would like to see porn with her. in my mind i totally dislike other women who have sick minds just to attract the other person. there are some ppl that find that irresistable. but like i said, most men like that.\n\nthe best suggestion id say is be who you are. its best and worth it. theres alot of ppl that try to fake their way through life. some guys think that the way the woman acts in porn is always like that. and since theyve watched so much porn in their noodle, they think a woman like that would be a bliss, thats pretty sad. no doubt, there are women out there to sell themselves and go along with STD's and cr@p. \n\nso if its either looking for the right guy for you, or just looking to f*ck some1, be urself. all guys like different types of methods of sex and different styles of living. so that means, if ur with ur bf, u gotta mess around with him, talk dirty and see if he likes it, or talk something like irresistable and see if he likes that. if he gives u a funny face then just stop (lol) and try something else. that askmen place should do it. i found it a few months ago. comes in handy for me, but its not only for men.\n\noh yeah, to answer ur question, i do like it when my wife talks to me in that way, but not all the time, because our lives dont sorround ourselves through sex, even though we like and love it so much. and thats only with my wife, im not the kind of guy that goes behind my wifes back and gets on line or on the street and gets laid by some b!snatch that i dont even know and talks dirty to me. after all, my wife is there, and all i gotta do is put moves on her or ask her if she wants to have sex. also, i dont see her as a doll or play thing, i see her as a being that i love and love for who she is and what she is and what she does. \n\nwell i hope this answers ur question. pls feel free to go on that website.
531643
I've never said this statement, but I understand it from a woman's point of view. It has absolutely nothing to do with gay men and what they do or don't do in the bedroom. This statement is said in frustration when it seems like there is a shortage of quality, available men. The only relevance it really has to gay men is that they are not "on the market" for single, hetero women.
199481
Do you want a guy that isn't interested in looking at women? Where I come from they call those guys gay. He may be a bit inconsiderate at times, but he's not a perv.
345695
First I must ask you. did you marry your husband out of Love? Second and I'm asking this because I was raised LDS(Mormon) And sex was very forbidden but we did kiss Didn't you ever Kiss? If you did didn't you notice his lack of arousal? It sounds as if he has no physical problem, but a mental one. I say that because I know how it is to be raised in a religion that believes sex is bad, It is a sin to want to make love to a women unless it is for procreation and therefore it is wrong to let yourself succumb to natural desires. My Father was a Mormon Bishop (God rest his soul) We had this discussion over sex many times. I asked him how God felt about it and his answer was always, What goes on in the bedroom between husband and wife stays in the bedroom. But you have not said if you and your husband ever talked about having children. Maybe he he is afraid of that or maybe and excuse me for saying this, but maybe he is Gay?  I've given you my answers and I don't think you are wrong for wanting to get out. A man and a woman need to have the same goals. It sounds like the problem is with your husband even if he can't get an erection there is other ways to please you. I tried to not be to gross. Hope I was able to help. God bless and you take care. Reed wrwoodall@yahoo,com
338696
I've NEVER had sex with my husband that I didn't like.  We've done it all, and our pleasure is satisfied EVERY time.\n\nBTW: it's called hygiene.  We Gay guys know what to do, how to do it, when to do it, and where...
1037148
It sounds like your man has low testosterone. This is very common for a guy his age. He can get a blood test by his doctor to see if he suffers from low test. This can be caused by lack of exercise, bad diet, overweight, lazy, and just age. He could try over the counter natural formulas to get him back in the saddle again like enzyte. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. Many young people in their upper 20s are going through the same thing now days. I would get him started with finding out what is causing the lack of wanting sex before trying to get new positions established.
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Sweetheart, how old are you? Its just a physical attract we have. Like an animal instinct. I mean not all men find women's asses attractive. they may find other thing turn them on. Its really hard to answer this question because we all have different things which turn us on. Just don't be to concerned about what other people say turns them on, cos who are they! It only matters what you and your partner like hun!
1082176
You're obviously one of those chicks that think all dudes just like sex and nothing else. Have you tried talking to him about this, or did you immediately label him gay and come to Yahoo? The problem might be as simple as he's expecting more than to get laid.
585771
Of course the man wouldnt be normally if he didnt get horny! thats natural for a man.Be happy!
1015599
not neccesarily "gay" but maybe a little freaky...If you let a guy do it...then your gay...I let my girl finger my ass just before I cum and I usually cum so hard I nearly pass out! And I am not gay!
1081867
At times,  especially when you are younger, you don't have control over an erection. If you don't have feelings for men then I doubt you are gay. Although you may have been embarassed at the time, it doesn't mean anything. You may have been excited or had a rush of adrenaline from a game or practice. When I was 15, I would be sitting in Math class doing algebra and things would "pop up" for no  reason.  It's normal.
663608
You are a tart leave the men alone...do you have a sex problem?.....nympho!!!!!
1112692
when it comes to turning a man on. you have to figure out what makes his motor go. if he likes the simpsons, try teasing him during the simpsons. ask him what makes him horny. if he says he doesn't know. he's lying. tell him that no matter what it is, you won't be mad. and share fantasies with him. tell him that you might even try them. \nthe bottom line is, you have to tend to his needs. just as much as he has to tend to yours.nothing can be one sided.\ntry talking to him.
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Take your question and flip it around: do straight men and women find the same sex sexually attractive at all? Does looking at even the prettiest woman or sexiest man repulse them? Is it ever possible for a gay man to seduce a straight man, or for a lesbian to seduce a straight woman?\n\nThe answers are the same for either orientation.