i like this boi but he likes my friend?
830627
how the hell would we know. we dont know what either of u look like, but i can tell u this, neither of u should go out with him, bc its not right for him to do that to either of u, ur friends. and no boi is worth loosen ur friend over. i just see this guy as being a problem for both of u.  bc if u or ur friend date him, one of u will get ur feelings hurt, or try to take him away from the other, and oh boy just a big mess.
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
891533
Well if you like him as a friend then just tell him that you feel more comfortable being friends and that if he accepts that tell him that you'll ALWAYS like him like that again maybe but you just wanna be friends for now..\n\n\ngood luck
168886
Take it easy, and see who the guy likes, maybe he likes neither of you. Maybe there is one of you he likes. You both have the right to like the guy, so dont loose your friendship over it. Just play things out, and see what happens in the end...
258456
Go for it, if he doesn't feel the same and you want to keep the freindship...act like you were just curious and that it wasn't that big of a deal anyway. He may be thinking the same thing as you and you're both afraid to go for it. If you ever get signals from him in that way, he has feelings for you.
965658
flirt a little, if nothing happens, ask him. But if your friend seriously likes him, you have to choose; keep a friend and lose this guy you might not keep forever anyway or lose a friend and have the guy but lose him later on((not saying you will lose him, but its a big possibility))
912395
let the person that likes you that you like his friend he will understand.good luck
1109792
I'm not a "boi" but if you really like a "boi" then don't give up on trying to date him. If he REALLy doesn't like you at all, it's time to move on. There's a fish in the sea for everyone!
945382
He knows you like him,. You know how he feels right now. Soo just be friends with him for now! Good luck
969638
Because although he might LIKE you he doesn't LIKE you the way YOU like him.  He probably likes you as a friend and you're misreading that to mean he wants a relationship with you.  Learn the difference between liking someone and wanting a relationship with them...in otherwords...you need to grow up.
322913
Always be yourself thats why he should like you. The chances are he might be turned on by your friend but he probably has more respect for you. Let your bff know how you feel about him and after that start flirting, start to get into what he likes and talk about it with him.
613087
Sounds like he does! Listen if you really like him you need to let him know before he gets to the point that he feels that anything more would mess up the friendship. If he doesn't feel for you the way you hope Hell you still got one totally awesome friend!
819239
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
684457
that's tough to say, if u didn't tell ur friend that u liked this girl and then asked her out, then how do you think ur friend will react? u may lose ur freindship over this girl so ask yourself...is she worth it? if yes then by all means ask her out\nlet me say though there are a lot of girls out there and she won't be the only one you'll like but your friend is unlike any other and he may stick around for a long
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
532828
This kinda thing happened to me a few days ago too...i don't know, if you like him (like-like) then you should make your move and tell him that you like him too. But if you'd rather wanna be friends with him, just tell him. When he told me that he likes me, i just told him that there's a line between being just friends and more than friends, and i'd like to stay just friends with him. And luckily, he understood and is okay with it.
288675
well do u like him? after u and him go out your relationship with your friend will never be da same that is if you don't lose her after going out with the guy