Protecting Self From Prisoner?
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Move and if you have to change you name. by a disposable cell phone for the first year or use a digital phone connected to your computer like vonage.  Vonage works great BTW and they can't look you up through normal means. give your new number only to people, very few that you know you can really trust.  Have your name changed in a different county like up near the Canadian border.  Trade in you car and buy a new one of comparable value, for new plates in new county that name change occurs.  Rent under new name to establish credit for about 6 months moved to permanent place of residence apply for new social security card with new identity, chose a first name similar to yours so you can remember it an look up when someone calls it, train yourself not to flinch at your old name. color your hair for a year eventually get a passport, same for your son.  I do this for a living and you have to take identity change seriously, a screw up or two and you will be found.  You can always keep tabs on your ex through the Internet anonymously.
634500
Use a private dectective.\n\nn00b.
944008
Defends on the behavior of the inmate.
523186
I'm sorry everyone seems so eager to assume that anyone behind bars is automatically a dangerous, evil creature.\nMany people in jails have not even been tried yet for a crime, let alone convicted.\n\nTo report unsafe conditions, first write to your county building inspector, fire marshall and/or health dept. If that does not get the situation corrected, contact the ACLU\ngo to this link to find your local chapter http://www.aclu.org/\n\nUnsafe conditions can also be of interest to local media, so you might send copies of your letters to local news outlets....nothing like headlines to get folks off their back pockets.\nFor failure to provide medical care, first address the jail administrator, then contact the ACLU.
1005257
Your local police department love helping out in cases like this. They can scare him in to stopping. they will do a fake arrest and show him how he will be treated as a law breaker. give them a try.
1027889
phone the law enforcement authorities in your city or find a toll free number for correctional institutions and pose your enquiry there.\ngood luck.
902994
it all  depends on where he is in prison and what he is in for which determines his status as minimum, medium or maximum security.  If you call the prison they will direct you to a set of guideline that they have for each prisoner and what they can and cannot receive  it is usually the policy of prisons to let anyone visit the prisoner as long as that prisoner has that person listed on their can visit roster.  having worked in a prison I can say from experience that what many prisoners love is letter and photos  keep the photos clean and cool and they will most likely let them thru  you may get them back but that is determined by what and how much they are allowed to keep.  Try donating a whole box of paperback books to the prison library.  again they will have to pass inspection but if they let them in your bf will become very popular when everyone realizes that he was the reason that they have different books to read.  above all get in touch with the prison if you can arrange it a visit from you would be the best possible thing that could happen just pay attention to the dress code so you don't get turned away  good luck  he is lucky to have you many gfs leave their bfs when they go in and that is harder than being in in the first place
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Dude, if you're talking to the cops you're goin' DOWN!\n\nBest way to avoid jail is not to do anything that makes the cops want to talk to you.\n\nUnder the radar, bro! Under the radar!
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Self preservation.  They don't want to be hurt themselves emotionally or physically.  Some don't want to be inconvienced by the victim of having to attend court dates or such.  There are very few selfless people now days and it's a same.
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arrest for both of you if caught
617168
nothing hes a juvenile and there are restrictions to how long you can serve as a juvenile so either get over it move away or live in fear forever.....Hes coming to kill you all so you better hide
973431
It will depend on the position she is seeking and her security clearance level.   However, if she is not a spouse of the person who did time, it shouldn't be a conflict in any way.    They are justifiably nervous about allowing spouses into prisons, even those doing volunteer work, but if the person is out, off parole and not in trouble now, it shouldn't affect her ability to obtain employment with the State.
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solitary confindment in jail(in any and every state of the US)
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From personal experience with my brother who has been encarcerated for the past 14 years in Texas, calling the Warden will do no good.  He never comes to the phone and no matter how many messages you leave for him, he never returns the calls.\nYou will need to contact your congressman, via mail and phone, to get anyone to listen.  And one letter and one call will do no good either.  You will need to write several letters and make several phone calls before anyone will listen.  You probably need to get an attorney so they will take you seriously. They tend to think the prisoner is just scared and is telling his family these things because they just want pity from us.  This isn't always the case.Then you need to do a lot of praying.  For some reason, they do not take the relatives of prisoners seriously when we call with a grievance.\nGood luck. I'll be praying for you and your son.
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you must know what and how to play the game inside a prison walls ...if you fall you will become weak and be come a punk...will as you enter the prison to become a inmate for the fist time or become a convict that is institutionalized for some time ..in side is the test on how you get your respect...it all depends on the person some are rats,punks,Skelly wag.crybaby bitch,etc...when you are inside  your humiliated and be little by others ....just think at any time they have you strip search or see you in the rest room or showers you lost all your privet time..you are inside with all kinds of raise some don't even take shower or use hi gen..when you Shir a cell with another inmate you must remember you are not living at home you need to respect and shout your mouth because your not deal ling with someone with a full deck..inside a prison a is a very dangerous life stile some take things as a joke but that is when you deal with not one but over 2 hundred men that will take revenge and get what they stand for  not only that you can get jump, st abed,killed or scared for life or even rape...the inmate them selves run a prison .......if you are not stong stay out
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kick in the door, use a bat. haha \n\nOK really, call the sheriff, its the only way you will really be able to it and cover your ass.  If they cant do it they will be able to tell you how.
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is there a reason why you are wearing one?  my guess is that you need to look at yourself and what you did and hold yourself accountable for the wrong you did. once you do that, you can beat house arrest.