how do I win my ex back when she acts like she dose not care?
830605
my ex is trying to win me back.....  i say give her space.\n A girl wants time to think about what she really wants. \ndon't bug her.. send some flowers and a letter and let her know exactly how you feel and let her decide .
850873
Give her a little time...try to win her back with little things that you know she likes....and hopefully you learned dont get stupid drunk around her_
1109715
I've been there and tried to do that. Except it was ex bf. I only realized that giving him time was the right thing. He came back to me with his own self. Taking him back is the only thing that bothers me now. But that's not the point. Knowing what you want from your relationship is! You, both, have to be open like a book. If both of you feel like you want a relationship than accept her when she comes back to you. But still give her time. (If she doesn't, than that only means that she's not right for you.) Usually it's much easier to get along if you are understanding your needs and wants. But if she is depressed, like she is saying, that must be the relationship she had at the moment when she was with you. Though finding another guy - is not the answer either. I say get yourself busy, and let her live. If she wants you, she will come back, and will appriciate you for being there.
250488
Ignore her and talk really animated with other people.  That will make her miss you and want to forget about whatever trivial thing you are fighting over.
546927
I have an ex like you and three years later he still has not given up.\nGive her space or you will ruin the friendship and there will never be more more. If she does not want you back at the moment  do not make yourself annoying.\n\nTRUST ME the best thing you can do is prove you respect what she wants. Good luck I hope things work out between you but don't push it too much, what happens happens and although you think you could never ever love anyone else, with time you might just find out that you can.
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
134653
It is hard to move on but if she does not want to be with you anymore then you can't make her stay. Maybe your accusations pushed her away or maybe she just was not ready and thinks that she may need some time. Whatever her reason, do not push the issue! If you worry her then that will only push her away! There is nothing worse that someone hounding you. Just let her know that you do love her and that you are sorry that things have turned out the way that they have and let her know that you will always be there for her if she needs you. Leave it at that! If you want her back then live your life, don't mope after her. I personally know how hard it is to lose the one that you love but once I started going on with my life he wanted to get back together so he then seen how it felt to be "on the other side of the fence".
135711
Are you choosing the word "confront" because she denies she still has feelings for you?\n\nCombative is not the way to go.  If you've hurt her feelings, you'll have some fence-mending to do before she'll be willing to trust you with her feelings again.\n\nSometimes people want the same thing, but their communication styles get in the way.  If that's the case, check out "Getting to Yes," by Roger Fisher.  You can read a bit of it here:  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0140157352/qid=1144084712/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/103-4668860-3658249?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
457224
get rid of her and find someone that will appreciate you for what you do
156221
I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
7911
Wow what a shallow woman. Are you certain you are not better off without her? To win her back you will have to find out what she really wants from her man and then supply it. If it comes down to nothing buy money, then I am truly sorry for you. Women like that make lots of other women look bad. Good Luck
322937
Keep trying for that child's sake. But make sure she wants you back. She has to TELL you she wants you back. Don't just tell yourself she does for no good reason except that is what YOU want.
949702
there could be a lot of ways to show your ex that you want him back & that you still care about him..however, things happen for a reason & there should be a reason why he became your ex..sad to say, if things are not really meant to be, no matter what you do, no matter how you try, you can never win him back..so it would be better to just show you still care but if he doesn't care about you anymore, just move on & find someone who's more worth the efforts..Ü
1097677
Your not going to ''not hurt her boyfriend '' by trying to get her back! She's got to want you back, you can't just get her back without tention involved.
915675
Well sounds like shes really gonna go all out to try to win this guy back. I dont think you can stop her if she wants it that bad.
329723
Dear Sobby, Your question lacks some information. I would need more info to answer honestly and effectively, like why did you break up? How long were you together, and how long have you been apart? But vaguely i can tell you that if you are sure she is not interested in you anymore then you should move on, There are plenty of "fish in the sea" and hurting your self will not accomplish anything but getting yourself hurt. It will not make her feel any different.  As far as concentrating on your studies, it is imparitive that you keep your thoughts on them as much as possible. If you fail at this it could cause a chain reaction in your life that will cause you to fail at other things, and will also make you feel like hurting yourself even more. You seem like an intelligent person, so you should act as you are and move on.  If she doesnt' want you, find someone else, Its not easy, but it gets easier with time.