Does he really loves me?
823340
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
109773
I believe that he really loves u. men are funny people I believe he said all the mean things that he said to u so that u would not sit at home and be sad over him leaving that u would just pick up and move on.
601653
He will have to prove it day by day. His actions will tell. If he loves you you may feel loved.
212559
It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.
421497
umm.. i don't really know the situation.. but i mean.. if he says he loves you.. do you have any reason NOT to believe him??
144251
you know if your heart speaks to you.\nA man that really loves you would do anything for you, he will love you unconditionally, no matter what the circumstances were/are. He is a man that is honest, and makes you happy. Let your heart speak to you. Learn to Listen to your heart.
562712
Does he make you feel truly loved, do you feel a real connection when making love, and does he also meet your needs? If the answer is yes then he loves you.
123729
maybe he does still love u he just doesn't show it completly ... if he didn't love u anymore ... would he still b w/ u?\nor maybe he's just bad at showing it ..
170310
im sure most people would say that he really doesn't love you and move on or find someone new. but think about this: maybe he's just not very vocal about his feelings. there's a big possibility that he does love you he just prefers to express it in his own way. but if it really bothers you that much that he can't say it, it's probably best that you tell him how you feel.
835918
You can't tell if he loves you by the things he did and it's too early to know about things like that. But by what you are saying, that guy really does like you a lot. It must be so exciting!
580816
Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
197231
ask him if he really likes you
296801
Honestly...if he loves you he will do something for you even if he really doesn't want to.  And he'll stick with you through thick and thin.  If he loves you he will tell you the truth even if it hurts your feelings sometimes.
106161
There are a lot of ways you cant tell if he does love you. If he has toled you he loves you then it is probably true. Knowing that he still stands by you even if his family dislikes you is another good sign, but there are a lot of other things too. Someone you love should also be your best friend. Can you trust him? can you talk to him about anything? Does he come to you with his problems? Does he let you hangout with him in front of his friends? Do you suspect hes trying to hide anything from you? If he really loves you then he'll show it, and you'll know for sure. If you have any doubts or questions about his actions or love for you then you can also talk to him about it. If he loves you and you love him you should be able to talk to him aboout anything, even this.
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If you truly love this guy, that really wouldn't matter, but I can understand where you are coming from.  People say you are a reflection of the people you choose to have around you.  But since he doesn't act that way around you, it's hard to know the real him!  It's makes me think he might be just trying too hard around other people, while he feels comfortable enough around you to just be himself.  If you believe he is more "himself" with you than with other people, then eventually the "true him" will shine through in all his relationships with a little time and maturity.  :)\n\nGood luck!