why we ignore our own & more like others ? why so ?
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coz with our own we cannot share each and every thing with them clearly but other  like friends we can easily express our felling
612770
There are always going to be people in this life who like to feel superior to others- and picking people to pick on is made so much easier for them when it is someone who is a little different to the 'accepted norm'; be it racially different, socially different, etc etc. \n\nIt is really sad, but you just have to feel inwardly superior in yourself that you don't need to judge others in this petty, superficial way that others judge you. \n\nTheir loss, they will live their lives missing out on an awful lot.
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lack of respect for others
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Because no one in willing to take the time to understand others views.  We are so absorbed in ourselves we can't think of others, we are so certain that our beliefs are correct and are unwilling to take the time to listen to anyone else, only scream over them.  In the end we could all be wrong and never know the difference because we were unwilling to hear the truth.  On the other hand we could be correct, and never successfully witness to anyone else because we are viewed as hateful and ridiculous.
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:)\nrealizing it is not all about us. When we consider others more important than ourselves suddenly our personal emotions, while not irrelevant, are no longer the focus point of our lives. I am not talking down to you, we all become ego centered when emotional events go on in our lives. That is part of the human condition. Loving others and trusting God for our own welfare afords considerable safety and allows to care more about how the other feels . allows us to see the emotions on their sleeves.
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Insecurity is a good guess. Many of those that try to make themselves seem better than others have real issues with themselves. They can not ever believe someone can do something better than them, make more money, etc. What they do is right and what everyone else does is wrong. Unfortunately I  know many many people like that. I have learned to tune them out of my life as much as possible and when I can't I do my best to keep my mouth shut. It really is a shame because I know some that are worse than those they are knocking and it makes me so ill at heart to see a loved one get hurt that way
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We are all guilty of this to some extent, aren't we?  On one hand, it is proof of how comfortable we are around our family members.  On the other, why is it so hard to offer them the same respect when they are so much more valuable to us than a stranger is?  We all should work on that, I think.......
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The question is...\n\nWhy do you worry about others?\nMake yourself worth thinking about.
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Because it's easier. Because it doesn't require them to come up with their own ideas as to what is 'right' and what is 'wrong'. Because it's easier to make a snap judgement on a person. Because people are strange little creatures. Because when all is said and done most people don't want to put the effort into enriching their lives by understanding how someone else might view the world. Because it's easier to follow rules in a book and then pick and choose those that you like and disregard those that you don't really care for. Because it feels good to judge other people. Because saying that someone is doing something wrong makes the things you're doing wrong in your own life seem smaller.  \n\nThere are so many reasons as to why this happens out there. Mostly I think it happens when closed minded people start trying to 'help' others find 'happiness'. Sure, they want you to be happy..but their methods aren't always right. People like that..should be ignored.
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This is just my opinion....\n\nI believe that our society is so focused on one's self.  It's hard to give yourself to a relationship the way that it is needed when people are focused so much on themselves.  We unfortunately have become very selfish human beings.  Once we begin to put other's feelings, wants, desires, etc. before our own...the lonlieness will fade.\n\nOur society is also very focused on material objects.  We need to put our focus back on what is really important.  Think about it...if something devastating would happen to you...would the material things be there for you...would you be able to comfort yourself?  I bet the answer is no.  Then why not invest yourself in people that will.
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Human beings thrive on interaction with others.  We want others to accept us & feel discouraged if we are rejected; the key to happiness is to love yourself, and find inner acceptance with who you are.  \n\nThings happen to us so we can learn from them, so we can our own inner strength.  I have a friend who is from Cambodia, who was born during the Khmer Rouge; he is an extraordinary person.  Some people who go through terrible things have great inner strength.
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Some people are truly less intelligent than others.  It isn't necessarily their fault, but we weren't all made equal.  Other people just see things from a different perspective than you can see them from.  Still other people appear to be stupid because they have a different value system than you do so that forces them to make a different decision, not necessarily better or worse, depends on their perspective.
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Well, I feel that people will always think that the grass is greener on the other side.\n\nSometimes other people give the impression that they are doing much better than us, be it cause of their achievements and what not.\n\nBut we tend to see only what we dont have and not appreciate what we do possess, and that inclination to pursue what we do not have makes us want to be like people who have what we don't.\n\nJust my point of view.
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Until we realise that our 'body' is not who we are, but it is actually the 'soul' that is the real us, we will keep concentrating on improving our appearance as a means to improve ourselves rather than concentrating on improving and nourishing our soul. \n\nPerhaps when we realise that the character of a person is more important than the external appearance, we might be better able to accept the shortcomings in our appearance.
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Assumstions, the biggest mistakes we all could ever make. Assuming anything about anybody or any situation is all in our mind. \nIn this situation, deep inside us even if we accept it or no but the real reason about that worry is we want that same friend to worry about us, we want that friend to care about us the same way we care about her/him. Actually we worry or let us mind wander is only because we all want to be cared, to be remembered, to be missed, to be of a great value to our friends...\n(I dont know if I am able to express, may be its more confusing, lets think on it, may be it may lead us to a better understanding of relationships and our own inner self)
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Ignore it. When you ignore, not only you'll feel better but also others would believe that it isn't true because you aren't paying much attention or bothered by it.
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It is because you perceive differently from others point of view.