How can i stop being so picky?
818701
my boyfriend's little brother is picky too  he doesnt eat stuff like pizza or hotdogs.  but he will eat trail bologna?!
1023895
Not wanting a guy who is a total tool and has no class doesnt make  you picky. There are guys out there that arent like that, most  guys who are younger such as under 20 do things like adjust themselves in public or do wolf call whistles to girls etc. once you get older you will see more and more men who dont do those things. however some men never change and are always pigs.
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Your best bet is to eat closer to the source, meaning eat mainly food that is unprocessed. Lean protein,simply cooked veggies,whole grains and fresh fruit. You may not lose much weight but your health will improve immensely. As for being picky, well...that is a choice you make. \nIt will also help if you incorporate more physical activity-like take the stairs,park farther away,go for a walk after dinner. Best of luck to you.
895873
Just try to get out of the habit.  It could be a great first step to let them know you would like to do better too.  Stick with it keeping in mind that it will take some time to change yourself, and how others react to you.\nGood work, and good luck, I'm sure you will be happier.\n\nps Only those with limited life experience would ever confuse a nice person with a weak person.
730886
Find 3 or more (up to five) qualities that other\npeople don't have. Add them up and realize that you were put on this earth for a Damn REASON, that you are as good or even better than other dudes and don't slump your shoulders. I hated myself for so long until I was about 23, when other people had to tell me that I was good and a good friend to have around, that a lot of people found me attractive. Email me your circumstances.muirmatt@yahoo.com
655727
Don't be to picky you may pass up on a good relationship.*
111967
Take baby steps, if your shy, then decide what would really bother you and try a small dose of it. we all have our little things about us, that we have a problem with. I used to have a problem going to a cafe by my self, so i decided one day to just go in and stay a few minutes, i stayed 5 minutes and left, next time alittle longer, until it doesn't bother me at all now. Another thing you got to understand, is life begins, when you learn to make fun of yourself, if you make a mistake, don't worry about it, real people won't make fun of you, the only one's that will make fun of you, are the very one's you don't need in your life anyway.
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I know where you are coming from. Find something that you are good at, and do it. If you are crap at everything, find something you WANT to be good at, and work your ass off until you are good at it. Being talented has a remarkable way of boosting your self-esteem. My personal suggestions... cooking, music, conversation. You also sound young. I don't mean that in a derogatory way, so please do not be offended. Awkwardness is the natural state of affairs for adolescents. It will pass.
664563
This will be hard but if you put your mind to it you can...just think of yourself as higher than the situations you come across...try to not get so upset over things that won't significantly effect your life...view yourself as a treasure that if people don't like you (or are snobs around you) than they are missing out...\n\nRemember though that being sensitive is O.K.  The real problem is if you are over dramaticly sensitive.  Good luck and remember this will take a little time so don't give up!!!
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"Picky eater" is a state of mind & a conscious decision.\n\nEat good foods (lean meat, fruits/veggies, etc) = losing weight\n\nYou need to make a decision to get better about eating.  Food is fuel.  Stop looking at it like it's entertainment/comfort, etc.\n\nAnd get some regular exercise!
685367
just turn in your assignments and stop trying to be perfect in everyones Else's eyes. bet your alot smarter then you know.
53699
Yes, but only a select few.  Call me picky.
1153883
Ask your friends that will give you a honest opinion for that.  Or if your still friends with the people that rejected you before ask them why they rejected you then you could pinpoint what exactly was the factor making you get rejected.  Then change it after,  if it is your personality don't expect that you'll be able to change that so quick it's more of a progressive thing.  I did that myself I was so shy but now I'm outgoing than I was before.
453507
You can't MAKE anyone like you.\n\nJust be yourself and find somebody who appreciates that.
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You don't. You love yourself and work on becoming the best that you can be. Your confidence,character, and personality will attract others to you. We all have unique gifts that have been given us. Use your gift and let your light shine on all around you.
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I'm in my mid-40's and I've definitely gotten MORE picky. I know a lot more about what I want and what I am not willing to tolerate. \n\nI'm less picky about looks and I'm a lot more laid back and understanding. But when I see things that I know for sure I'm not willing to live with - I walk. When I was younger I would have either tried to change him or tried to convince myself it's not that bad. Now I just say, "Sorry, this isn't what I'm looking for."
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You obviously have some 'better' you in mind. What you need to do is close in on that person. And you do it the same way you do a great many things. You try. You fail. You think about it and next time do something different. Eventually you fail less and suceed more.\n\nThere is no one solution to all that you don't like about yourself. Some things you will get used to, some things you will change over time and some things you will never like, but will be unable to change. This is what makes people interesting, this variety, the many facets that make a human gem catch the light.