Is lesbian sex overrated?
823954
I think Sex in general is overrated.\n\nI mean it's great and all... when you're in love it's really great, when you're in love with your best friend it's REALLY amazing, but all in all considering the images we're bombarded with on TV about how great all of our sex lives should be, like having sex for 18 hours a day with the most incredibly looking people on the planet, I'm surprised more people haven't asked questions like YOURS...
805762
Do they have to be lesbians?  Because most lesbians are, indeed, as you say, 'pretty well over the male body'.  Not to say that there aren't lesbians who sleep with men- I know there's a whole queer renaissance of kinky lesbians and gay men who love to get it on together and call it gay sex (because they're both gay)- but it's a small niche.\n\nIf it's not the fact that they're lesbians, but just that 'lesbian look' (boyish but pretty), so to speak, well, there are a lot of bisexual girls of that nature, and straight ones, too.  I bet you could find yourself one.  Good luck!
419965
Well, I am a Lesbian.  I knew that I was a Lesbian when I felt much more comfortable and nourished by women.  I had these feelings along with sexual ideology.  \n\nWhen I "tried out" having sex with a woman, I KNEW RIGHT AWAY. It felt good and it felt right. \n\nDon't fight the feelings that you have.  Be yourself and BE HAPPY.\n\nI even divorced my ex-husband after 12.5 years of marriage; including 2 children. \n\nEmail me anytime to talk.
429625
I am a lesbian, and I wouldn't say "we" don't LIKE men we just don't want to have sex with them.\n\nThe reason you probably think there is usually "one femme and one butch" is because the butch girls are usually easier to spot. \n\nMy partner is the biggest tomboy around - but she has long hair. I am more femme - and keep my hair short. We aren't very obvious lesbians - you would never spot us in a crowd...\n\nAs for toys - we don't use them. I would never want a penis inside my body - fake or real. It would just feel wrong. I was married to a man, twice. Sex was traumatic for me then - I would never give it another try. No one abused me, it just didn't feel right. Lesbian sex feels much more comfortable for me - physically and emotionally.
543830
Sex is so over rated. It's so dangerous these days too with all the STD's. Gross. And if you're going to have sex, be responsible about it.
402057
I guess not, I guess a select few other men don't enjoy lesbian porn. Hell, even I enjoy lesbian porn.
592815
A study done about two years ago determined that yes, straight and bisexual women can be aroused by lesbian-oriented visual stimulation (don't have the link to the study, sorry). \n\nHowever, at the age of 15 your hormones are still settling down in a very major way, so I'd recommend laying off the pornography. You could be desensitizing yourself to sexual situations, which will actually make sexual activity and stimulation more difficult and less enjoyable for you later. (I'm not making that up, either - it's got something to do with the amount of chemicals released by your brain when it's sexually stimulated, and the fact that it's possible to build a resistance to those chemicals.)
118771
I am not as aroused by lesbian sex as by straight sex.  I dont know why.  I never fantasize about two girls together.  In fact, I think it is kind of weird to see two girls making out...\n\nmorganch@yahoo.com
1179729
If you're gay [or straight], there's really no comparison, since that's the only type of sex you're having, right?\n\nSomething unique about gay/lesbian sex is that you always know what your partner is experiencing to a fairly high degree.  So some have argued that it is more intense.\n\nI think they're both great and should be celebrated.
280127
Hell no. Women seem to think they have no steak in being overly sexual or sexually expressive. As if it's 1920 and you're not supposed to need to come. Orgasms are awesome. Enjoyt em as much as you can. Involve items or aids, oils or lubes! Make a day of it! Just don't think it's "abnormal". That's like having sexual/emotional constapation. it's natural, everyone's appetites are different in intensity and regularity. If you libido is way up, then I applaud you and indulge.
722355
I wouldn't mind at all, on the contrary, I love all sorts of unorthodox sexual practices and find plain ol' vanilla sex very boring and tiresome.  Men have very sensitive prostates; unfortunately, many straight men never know what it's like to be stimulated there because they are not allowed to entertain such ideas.  Just look at some of the answers here; it is clear our society is very prudish and narrow-minded when it comes to sex.  If a guy likes getting his prostate stimulated, it's "gay".  Come on people.  That's BS.\n\nYou ask any (good) sex therapist and they'll be happy to tell you that a man who enjoys having his prostate stimulated does not have to have his head examined, and as long as both partners are happy and comfortable, go for it!  That applies to a lot of other things too; I hear from a surprising number of women that anal sex really hurts and is not enjoyable at all.  This is completely contrary to my experience, and I love receiving anal sex, maybe more than vaginal sex.  So, you know, I don't care what pre-existing notions or standards others have.  I know what I like, my parter knows what he likes, whatever we like in the bedroom is our @*$damn business and no-one is going to tell us otherwise.\n\nAnyway, whatever you want to do in the bedroom, if both partners are cool with it, then do it.  Simple as that!  :)
610951
I've had "better than sex cake."  I have to say, it's wildly overrated.  \n\nNot all sex is that great, but when it's in its proper relationship (marriage) and it's mutually satisfying - such that your very souls have connected, there is nothing better.
102650
I personally accept either one . But I know guys who sit there and think that lesbians are cool and drool at the thought of seeing two women go at it but mention gay males and they are practically throwing up and saying it is against gods way and all that. I say if these men think that gay males are against gods way then why dont they feel that lesbians are? Like I said at the top I have nothing aganist lesbians or gay males. To each his or her own is what I say.So I would have to answer question that lesbians are more accepted.
351082
i think is a turn off.\nwhen she's produce lot of vagi.. lubricate is more exciting.but when she's in her period,no way.
373762
Yes, it is a double standard. But an understandable one, IMO. When seeing two guys together, you think of the sexual implications, and they generally aren't very pleasant. With women it is different. Women are by far the fairer sex, and the view of what they'd do together is much less "intense" so to speak. Just to clarify, I have no problem at all with someone being gay, bi, or lesbian. I can't afford to. ;P
1025103
You are probably just confused because you enjoyed it and don't consider yourself bi or a lesbian.  It's perfectly okay, it's called denial.  However, you owe it to the woman not to treat her like a piece of meat (I'm sure you don't like it when guys do this to you).  She's a human being, treat her like one.  If you don't want to do it again, tell her so.  Tell her you tried it and it's not for you.  Don't just ignore her, that isn't fair.
510714
Not at all.  Well, not unless you do something wrong & she slaps you for it.  Otherwise, it feels great.  This is probably why we're usually more obsessed with sex.