For married people only, is it a good idea to get married before having sex with your partner? Why or why not?
831158
Would you buy a pair of shoes that you hadn't tried on ??\n\n'Nuff said !
185620
It would be best to wait until you are married.  Then you will have that perfect connection with the man you love and who loves you.  The man who truly loves you would be willing to wait.  Also a man's feelings develop deeper before having sex.  So waiting until you are married gives the man time to develop stronger feelings for you.  Finally, you want to have a spouse who you can do more than have sex with, so waiting until you are married will be a good way to make sure that you and your spouse connect in more than the physical.
390165
I believe that the bond between husband and wife is the best if no other experiences are involved with either husband or wife before marriage, this is so both of you can discover new ways to please each other and there is nothing to compare it to. And on the other hand if sex has happened before marriage than at least you will know what to do to please him! Good Luck
522736
Please, please, please wait. It is so important. My husband was a virgin when we married and I wasn't. I wanted to have my virginity back so badly when we married but it was too late. Our honeymoon was great but it was bittersweet because I had to deal with the regret of him not being my first. It could have been the best experience of my life. And everything else counts too. I wish I wouldn't have even held hands, kissed, or anything like that until I married. It would have been so special. Please save it for marriage.
400390
Yes, because standards in today's society are not emphasizing the fact that you should be married to have sex. Everything is much more free-spirited, and do whatever you want kind of attitudes.
523388
If you are religious, it is wrong to have sex before you are married.  It is a sin, it's called fornication.
364610
ya, it's true love!!!!!!  being married to someone doesn't mean that you have to have sex..
1182904
Yes and No.  If you save yourself for marriage, you won't have anything to compare it to, so sex will be great.  You also won't have to worry about getting pregnant and being some baby's mama.  And you'll also be at less risk of contracting an STD.
244046
No its not!!! Because the bottom line that once you marry the sex life becomes less and less. It may not be right away that this happens but its true it does happen. When you are thinking of marriage you should make sure that this person is the one who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Marriage is about uniting as ONE!Its my opinion that communication would be the most important thing in a marriage up under have Jesus at the roots of the marriage! Sex does play a role in a marriage because  two people who are married feel the most connected when they are making love as the should but its not the most important thing. Marriage includes making decisions together, compassion, understanding, just letting the other one know that you are there for them no matter what, friendship.  So have fun with your SEX but remember marriage is more that just SEX if you marry for this reason then you are going to end up unhappy and wanting out! Truth of the matter, things change so will the sex life.Good Luck to you!
829657
Well I don't think what u're doing is a mistake. I myself am a virgin and I also intend to keep it that way until I am married. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody's views about that are different though cuz some people don't believe in the "sex before marriage" thing. Some say sex is simply sex. Well for me,when that time comes,I want it to be special and I want it to be with that person I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with,my husband to be. Hence the reason I'm waiting until I get married.. Anyway,it's your choice and if u choose to remain one, that's great so don't worry about it. I'm sure when u get married, u'll be glad that u did! Take care..
139571
Yes, you should wait until you are married.
612749
not under any circumstance - you will ruin the kids life if they are not brought up in a  proper family environment and sex before marriage is immoral and well having sex the first time on your wedding night makes it special for both - I would hold back till then
301527
love should only be with a life partner. and life partners can be good lovers.\n\nit's better to wait until ur married. when people get married and they have long sexual histories, then ur bound to think how u compare to the previous lovers or if ur partner is comparing u to a previous lover!\n\nif it's just the 2 of u for each other, then ur one another's best lover. and even when ur own learning about how to be please each other after marriage, the sex is still good bcos of the intimacy and the commitment u made to each other.
30499
I believe in no premarital sex. Say you meet someone you supposedly love, and you decide to have sex. Then if it doesn't work, you have no way to take it back. Then after that you find someone who is a virgin and you love them, you are going to regret your first encounter. Yes, I'd rather wait.
1007622
Of course it's wrong, but who listens. Everybody's having sex before marriage, they don't care. And alot of people aren't planing on getting married, so why wait. And alot of people loses their virginity before marriage which they planned on getting married, so I guess the world don't really have much to say about that.
1037317
I believe that you should be married before you have sex. And when I say married I don't mean the little piece of paper saying that you love someone. I mean the marriage that takes place in each others hearts. And at whatever age that takes place it does not matter. But at least learn about using a condom I have so many friends who get pregnant because there idiot boyfriend does not know how to put it on properly, so do your research.
1096530
maybe you should get married first then maybe god would help you...but no you are going against god and having sex before you are married.