my boyfriend wants me to set up his best friend with my best freind?
815919
Don't do it!  If he and/or she wishes to meet the other then let them step up and do so, once you get involved it's going to be a headache.  You can support the relationship as a friend and not initiate the relationship as a third party.
65049
i agree with mortgage. its hard if you continue the relationship with that guy. if you really care for your bestfriend, just set him free. but if you care more for the guy, then "YOU GO GIRL"...lol...just kidding...seriously, go find another man.
136881
You shouldn`t do that to the boyfriend because most likely he`ll be all hurt and that will be bad blood between the friends.\n\nBut that`s only if you don`t truly love his bestfriend.  If you do, then maybe you should go for who you love, given that you know for a fact that he loves you too.
822702
First of all, your friend has the freedom to date anybody he wants without anybody's permission.  Dont get involved in his relationship.  Unless he talks to you about it and asks your advise.  You dont want to loose a good friendship over something like this.  This is what my bestfriend tells all his boyfriends, "You may not like my friends and I'm not trading my friends for you, they were my friends before I knew you and they will be with me should something happen to our relationship."  For now just go with the flow.  And be happy for him, cause that's all that matters is that he's happy!  Keep being the good friend you are.  Think positive!  Should he freak out if he doesn't already know then worry about it then.  Good luck! :o)
560611
That's not cool at all. I would have a problem with that too. \nI am assuming your best friend is a female. The messed up thing is that if you say something to one or both of them, they are still going to have that connection, they are just going to hide it from you.\nHow about you start suggesting that you and your man start spending time together alone, without your best friend and the same goes for you and your best friend.\nI don't know why the three of you are all hanging out together anyways. You need to learn early on that your man doesn't need to hang out with your female friends all the time. That's not a good idea.
364892
Figure out what you want for real. Do you have the habit of moving from one guy to the next? If so, stop and take a few breaths before you get involved next time.\n\nAs for the guys, stay away from his best friend. You never should date a boyfriend's best friend unless the old relationship is long dead. And even then, it can be a sensitive topic.
565407
I think you did the right thing by letting your boyfriend know how you felt about it. If he wants to have a moocher friend over, fine, but let your boyfriend foot the bill. If your boyfriend has a problem with that and wants you to pay for his moocher friends, perhaps a new boyfriend would be in order. Good luck!
1087030
to be honest I would rather my boyfriend lied to me than my best friend...guys come and go, but a best friend should be forever.  When lies begin between close friends it changes everything.
468598
Oh shyt.. well.. Where I agree with the above people, I personally think that if you do that, then you might get more than yoru bargaining for. You tell your man, he might think that you are initiating it.. or he might not. If you tell him and he looses his best friend and you dont work out, he might blame you. You cant think of RIGHT NOW, you have to think of the long run.. i would persoanlly text him back and tell him "look i dont find it funny nor attractive that you are hitting on your best friends girlfriend. I am with *bf's name* back off ." now if he doesnt then free for all, tell your man ... but at least you tried to get him to back off first.
1063289
If you are in a trusting relationship with your boyfriend, then you need to tell him what his best friend is up to....if your bf doesn't believe you, then you need to end your relationship.
274492
i think he is your best friends boyfriend not yours so keep off lest you also face the wrath of your friend as well \nother than calling names or paintng him bad why dont you try to get to know him as a person \nthe long distance relationship may be kiling him which would be hard to understand coz u have never faced it \nand nobody likes to be told bad things so u are reaping what you sowed in him and therefore he is showing you what you really told him he was
448866
i have been dating one of my bestfriends ex-boyfriend, and weve been together for 3 years, we also plan on getting married. You cant help the person you fall in love with, and who are you to stop something that could be one of the best things that could happen for your best freind? if she really is your best friend then treat her as such dont let something like that bring your friendship down. let them try and see if it wroks out for them, if it does just be glad she found something a lot of people dont get the chance to, and if it doesnt work dont give an i told you so, compfort her as you would if you didnt know the guy. Keep smiling and find you someone who you can have fun with a be real with.
1053846
Ok, I think there are two possible answers to your question. He might be worried that a relationship with you, his best friend, may not work out and would destroy your friendship. Especially if he doesn't have any other friends. He probably loves you more than you could imagine.\nThe other option is that he's gay. I know, just hear me out. He may not have come to terms with it and has no idea how to tell you. Think about it. You guys are best friends, you're attracted to him and asked him to be your bf. He obviously llikes you a lot and is attracted to you but not sexually attracted to you. \nEither way, I think you should tell him that you really like him as a friend and wish there could be something more between the two of you. Remind him that there is nothing that could ever change the fact that the two of you are the best of friends.
721370
UNLESS you are the best friends ideal woman true love soul mate ETC you are quite screw, male frindships especialy best friends are way too close and sharing a woman is not unheard of , you might make then fight for a while but in then end they will be friends again , and you will end up loosing bouth of them plus you will become the bad one of the story \nSO if you you really really like they guy , brake up on friendly terms with your boyfriend and wait out a until your boyfriend finds someone else , then make your move , most likely the best friend will ask his Buddy if is ok with him (keep in mind that for him to do so he must really liked you  way past any phisical attraction , otherwise he wont bother do so ) \nNOW  if is phisical attraction just plain sex what you want , is easer to go for the 3 some , deal and make it think it was his idea, that might work , if all you want is to scrach an ich \nNOW commun sense would be no to do anything , most likely whatever you do you will be the one that ends up hurt and alone , and you dont need that , the choices above are just choices but it dosent mean they are the correct ones ,\nI understand how can someone end up liking someone close to their parther it happends all the time  but when you are considering acting on it , maybe and just maybe instead you should be wandering what is missing in your relationship , and see if you can work at it or move on , but dont get yourself into a mess
52663
Honey, my boyfriend is my best friend.
1182861
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
840451
Three's a crowd. I would tell your bf that you are not happy with the email communication he's been having with your friend. Tell him you think it's inappropriate and you don't like it. Tell your best friend the same thing - that it's inappropriate. Tell her to back off and to stop emailing him, and remind her that he's your boyfriend not hers.