not willing for oral sex?
821312
Not all people, male or female, are comfortable with oral sex, and nobody should pressure another person into doing it. \n\nThe comments about your hair, smell, etc are just excuses. For some reason he doesn't want to come out and tell you that he doesn't want to do it, so he just comes up with silliness to "explain" why he doesn't want to. He may even have talked himself into believing these excuses, but that is all they are.\n\nIf you're otherwise okay with the relationship, then stop asking him to go down on you. But if this is a relationship breaker, then so be it. If you shave, he'll complain about the rash/zits/whatever.  Either you go along with his squeamishness or you break up. Shaving is not going to solve anything. \n\nAnd if you enjoy going down on him but don't really care about his doing the same for you, that's okay - there does not have to be a linkage between giving and getting oral. That is up to the two of you.  But don't pressure him or let him pressure you into doing anything that makes the other person uncomfortable.
726596
I don't have a problem with giving my husband oral sex, but he had better NOT do it in my mouth.\n\nHere's the deal.  If he cares about you, he's not going to force you to do something that repulses you.  Also, though, if he's returning the favor to you, then you guys need to reach a compromise.  \n\nIf the flavor bothers you, you don't have to swallow it.  You can hold it in your mouth until he's done (which won't take too long), and then spit it into a preordained cup on the side of the bed.  If you rinse with Listerine, it will make the taste go away.\n\nI don't like it, but my husband does it to me, and I do it to him in return.  I know that it feels good, but the cup and Listerine method works for me.
626021
Oral sex is considered sex, that's why they call it oral SEX. BUT it's not intercourse... it is different.\n\nIf you've decided not to have "sex" and someone is trying to convince you that oral sex isn't sex, they they just want you to give it to them... don't.  Oral sex can lead to "regular" sex, or intercourse, SO easily.  Don't get caught up in it if you aren't ready.  Just wait till you're married.
478403
SOUNDS TO ME YOUR BOTH PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER! SOME PEOPLE AREN'T THAT LUCKY TO BE ABLE TO EXPRESS THEIR SEXUAL FANTASIES/NEEDS WITH THEIR PARTNERS. CONSIDER YOURSELF BLESSED AND KEEP ON ENJOYING!!!
974749
That is not nasty. If you think that is nasty then sex should be nasty.\nBut you try the oral thing and then and only then you will know why you need a tongue even though you got a penis.\nSince it is the first time, tell him focus on the clit and use his fingers too.
909481
No, it doesn't mean that you are on the verge of doing anything. Virgin was a term used for as long as there has been civilization. Basically you haven't had any type of sexual encounter, and oral sex is still sex! You should wait til you are ready, and make sure you do it with the right person, my friends did that and they regret it to this day.
261717
not to me. you just have to know what you are doing. most girls like oral anyway.
960764
It could be something as simple as a case of halitosis since he does not want to kiss you. Do you eat garlic regularly or something else to give you bad breath? When you brush your teeth make sure you also brush your tongue.  If that is not it then try dressing down a bit and maybe you will catch a boy who will see you for you. Go after a different sort of guy not the macho jock type. Don’t have sex with any of them especially if you are under college age as it will give you a reputation as the girl to go out with for sex, the love them and leave them sort of girl.↑
601740
Your partner would love to have sex with you over and over again, but he cant because of his E.D., and he is too embarressed to say anything. What you need to do is convince him that he should be sucking your  ****oris like a hungry baby on a nipple. U deserve it and he owes it to you! U have made him happy for a long time, the least he can do is give u 2 orgasms a week.
639359
My hubby will give me oral all the time and never wants it in return! Hey, it just doesn't do it for some guys.\nWhat does he like best sexually? Give him that and don't worry about what he doesn't care for. Make sure he does the same for you too!\nGood luck!
1129963
Maybe you should quit trying to suck yourself off.\n\n\n=)
78261
you said you want to love her? Yet you don't want to talk about sex. If you are polite then you shouldn't have a problem finding someone. \n\nAlso maybe go to school and find one. YOu need to form sentences. Maybe you'll meet one there.
346753
First ask yourself if its something you really want to do. If the answers yes then make sure the guy you're with is someone who will be sensitive and understanding about it.\n\nThen..........there are two golden rules to start with, until you get good at it (assuming you want to do it again that is!) \n1. Go slowly....he'll love it and its easier for you to manage. Like everything else to do with sex you should be relaxed and comfortable with it.\n\n2. NO TEETH! Obviously this is the rule that stays! Imagine you're eating an ice-cream cone. You dont want your teeth on it because its cold so you just use your lips and tongue.\nIts also nice if you stroke him slowly at the same time and maybe play with his balls gently. I would imagine each guys different based on what my partners have told me so tell him to tell you what he likes, especially when you're doing it.\n\nLastly - have fun, its what its all about. Oh and get him to return the favour :)
88322
No, it is definitely not ok to have sex if you are not married.  It can lead to all kinds of problem, not to mention diseases.  Oral sex is too far to go before marriage.
1005758
Oh, HELL NO!  You better learn how to use your tongue really good, dude...cause youre going to need to develop another area if you want to please a woman.  Also, investing in some vibrators and dildos wouldn't hurt you in the least bit, either!
108219
Oh you betcha she is! and don't believe that oral sex isn't sex, it is! But you would still be a virgin.
1017410
Is your question why do girls like to 'give' oral sex to guys? If so, it depends on the girl. Most girls (from the ones I know that have said so) don't like giving blow jobs, but they will do it for the guy because he does like it. \n\nIf you are asking why girls like to 'receive' oral sex, it is because the tongue is a strong, lubricated muscle that can do things other parts can't...