Question for Gay's or Lesbians...?
812836
Could be a nod of appreciation to lesbain extraordinaire k.d. lang.\n\nMore likely, it's a matter of where you live.
1123648
Who says gay men aren't sexy? I have a lot of gay friends and they are all sexy...the men & the women!!
689826
Interesting article indeed. I do agree with you in the sense that it is not a choice- it is only explainable by they way a person FEELS or thinks, not by the way he WANTS to think. I hate people who hate people with different sexual orientations- they dont have a right to judge people by their feelings and preferences, although i dont have a gay/lesbian friend in person.
212523
I don't really have a new answer to your question..the other answers I read are good answers, but I would like to let you know that I share in your frustration.  As a gay male, I get tired of those questions/labels and the ever-persisting question of 'are you a top or a bottom'..Those kinds of labels really annoy me
899254
I had a friend in high school who had a crush on me on me, but I didn't want anyone to think of me differently.  So, when she asked me out, I refused.  I wasn't even sure if I was 100% gay at the time or ready to come out for that matter.  So, I told her I wasn't gay.  \n\nI often wonder what might have happened if I simply gave in to my heart instead of my head.  Now, she lives in another state and is married.  I will probably never see her again in my lifetime, and I am content with that.  We both have gone on our own paths.\n\nBlessings
698544
I am a lesbian. where the hell are you meeting the gay people you know  Help us out  lol...bye
394641
I have a friend who is gay.He grew up being my brothers' friend.We were always together,people thought we were a couple.This went on for years.Then one night he tried to commit suicide.Thank God he called someone to help him.He said he thought it would be best if he killed himself because he was afraid we would not accept him anymore.Boy was he wrong!We did not not shun him.He was & is still part of the family.We don't treat him any different now.We never will.I know that a lot of people say homosexuality is a sin.But it isn't my place or anyone else's to judge you or any other gay person.I know my friend is alot happier now that he is not secretive about his sexual prefferences.I have called my friend but he has not returned any of my calls,but i know he is fine because his mother has told me.Whatever his reason for not calling me,is his choice.Maybe i was just in his life for a season.Who knows?I still consider him my friend.I know he is Happy with his partner,so i am not worried about his well being.I would never turn my friends away,no matter what.Well unless they did harm to my family.That is a different thing.Anyway,this is just who i am.Be Blessed! Monica
857281
Join the club. Every time I say something positive about gays/lesbians I get a violation. I contacted yahoo as to why but they never answered me
694550
Well, I'm not straight (bisexual), but I have a strong preference for men, and I'm a virgin of each, so maybe that puts me pretty close to straight gals.\n\nI like gay girls.  They're fine; I don't have a problem with them.\n\nWhat do YOU think about them?
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I'm a lesbian and did NOT 'decide' to be gay.........I was 5yrs old when I had my first crush.....but because of people and attitudes, I had to pretend to be straight for more than 30yrs......How would you like to have to pretend to be GAY for 30yrs????\nIt wouldnt be fun, would it?????\nJust some food for thought.... \nD~~
6046
Well, since I'm gay, I would have to say a gay male.  I've tried straight males, they're not very good at it.
1148690
I would still deffinately be a woman. That is the biggest misconception about gays and lesbians. That the reason we like the same sex is because we truly want to be the other gender. I had a friend who was a guy who used to always say, "I am a lesbian stuck in a man's body." My first reaction was, doesn't that make you straight? I was wrong. He felt like a girl. He felt he had the wrong body, but he still liked women. It was eye opening for me. But it works the other way too. Just because we like the same sex doesn't mean we want to change to conform to what society want's us to be.\n\nI mean sure women have their "women problems" but hey, at least the whole world doesn't know when we are excited.
10707
shut up! For heaven's sake. What is the average gay man? Is he single or with the same partner for 20 years. Are you gay? Are you average? Do you ********? How often do YOU ********************************************************************************************************???
420351
Go with how you feel. Are heterosexuals that way because of a choice they made, I don't think so. That would be the same for homosexuals, I'm sure, not a choice, but something "inbuilt" from birth.
836429
Definitely.  As a straight male, I will cop to the stereotype that I find lesbians erotic and exciting while I find gay men rather gross. (sorry!)
1184584
How does your family and friends feel about homosexuality? If they are open to this kind of lifestyle just invite them over and just let them know that you want to share something that is very important to you with them. If that made any sense.
276436
I was once a lesbian, but have since chosen to be with a man. I have a lot of friends who are still lesbians though, and I understand why they choose to be like that. In the cases that I know (including mine), fellow females understand the psyche of their own gender. It's true in most cases, since a lesbian (even if she's a butch lesbian) would still be a girl, and girls get what other girls need and want in a relationship. Of course, there's also some people who just wish to experiment. I would advise that you talk to your friends, learn about what it is about lesbianism that attracts them, and accept them. It is NEVER easy for a gay person to come out, and if they trusted you enough to tell you about this, that speaks a lot about what kind of a friend you are. I am glad that you accept them, and that you want to understand. Frankly my dear, you might never fully comprehend until you are in THAT kind of relationship. But, I admire how you are going about with your confusion. Just be a friend to them. It is their choice. Their lifestyle. And they are your friends. =)\n\nI hope this helps you out. =)