Should I move on or hang on?
820054
No insult here, but your runner up in the great sensual game of her life.  Of ALL the people she has met... YOUR SECOND.  The other woman ... SHE'S FIRST.  If the other woman didn't exist, you two would be romping around in sensual glee... but, my dear, you are Al Gore to her G.W.Bush.  Painful as it may be your 49% to her 51%.  If you can deal with that and WAIT until it MAY POSSIBLY SOME DAY GO BAD, then you are pathetic and don't have self esteem, because while she is deep down on the other girl, your going to be all alone eating bon bons and ben and jerries just waiting for your turn to taste her.  FIND SOMEONE THAT'LL MAKE YOU NUMERO UNO.  Don't settle for runner up in someone else's race. You want someone to say "You are the only person I have ever wanted to be with for my entire life."  Instead your waiting for "Now that the other girl is gone, hey lets have fun."  Grow some self worth, grow some balls, and find YOUR mate.  Go right now, find someone else.
521521
If you really find her to be worth pursuing, go for it.  But if you have doubts about her separating herself from past relationships, it would be best to sit back (and maybe move on) and wait to see how she's going to be after a while.  If she's still having emotional issues with her past, the best thing to do is to move on completely, before you become her past as well.
557577
Move on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
853573
a very timely question...lol\ni hang on as much as i can but i dont hold it too tight, i know when to stop and call it quits, when things are no longer working for me.
1182338
No matter what you do, DO something. Don't let her be the one that got away. I can relate. I didn't do something. She got away. It might be hard to say something to her after so long, but would you rather let it eat away at you for another 6 years? The rest of your life? Don't pass it up. Maybe reading that article was fate's way of saying "DO IT". Good Luck.
1085480
You should move on; and if she does not follow (leave the other man), then it wasn't meant to be.  You are currently missing opportunities to find someone who is into you!
184859
where there is doubt it's best not to proceed any further.Once there's a "but" then you should know he's not meant for you. you should pause and think if that "but" is something that can easily be solved, if yes then fine you can go ahead. If not then it's better you go your separate ways. All the best.
729134
maybe you won't. and that's not ideal but it is what it is. if you really want to move on than just give it time and keep yourself busy -- this might be a great time to learn a new trade or language :-).  Avoid sad songs and love movies.
231343
Move on with your life,don't hold your life back It probably wasn't meant anyway
1101627
Do what you feel is right. If you feel that you are ready to move to the next step then go for it. If you have any doubts about it then I say that you should wait. Just follow your heart.
617810
no one ever knows how to move on. Thats the worst thing about realationships. Just keep yourself busy and stay away from places where that person might be. Dont call and hang up. Dont call and ask for your stuff. Just so fouced on life in general.
282934
I wonder how many people have been in your position and let it go, always wondering if it was the right thing to do? I say GO FOR IT!! What the hell do you have to lose? If it doesn't work or he's spoken for, then let it go - but at least you tried. If you find him and he feels the same way you do... wellll....
225374
move on..u have long way to go..u will find some one else..\nhowever it is better to cherish her friendship which would make u happy and any day better than losing her forever..
133365
There is not much you can do.  From experience it is best to keep your distance. It will make it easier for your ex in the long run trust me.  Cut your losses and move on before you worry about something that just takes time to heal the wounds. If you keep hanging around and continue to permit yourself to be subjected to him you could possible make it harder on yourself and get hurt in the long run.
49272
Go for it. If you wait she may move on and find some one else. It's only 5 weeks of long distance, but it you don't go for her, it may be a lifetime without her.
505266
Meet someone else and move on.  If it is true love it will last unless in death obviously.
1127860
keep walking....\nlife doesn't end after a relationship