My BF is diagnosed with depression,he said he is not worthy of me .And ask me to find other man ..?
824355
support and him and tell him taht you want to be with him and don't want to give up...tell him you'll be here every step of the way..encourage him to seek a therapist who can help him...maybe give him a few days but tell him you're not going to leave for good...
1071040
It sounds like you are in a Co-Dependant relationship.\n\nThere is nothing you can do for him, only he can fix himself. \n\nWhat you can do is change how you react to his problems.\n\nI suggest you get counceling to find out why you have set yourself up to live with this misery. Get help finding YOUR coping mechanisims. Learn what his triggers are and figure out if YOU can live with them. This situation isn't about him. It is about you and what it does to you. \n\nAlways remember this, if you are not healthy, happy and wise, then what can you have to offer to those you love? Always take care of your mind, body and soul first and what follows is a healthier interaction with those you love.
343467
find another boyfriend who doesnt put you under such pressure!
108846
Don't try to think on how you can get rid of him just let go of him. and try to find another guy who's more deserving than him.
767848
look for another husband....apparently he is looking for someone that is not you.  Which means he is not happy with your relationship.
204620
You don't need help, you need to dump him.  You don't need this loser in your life, you deserve better.  Kick him out of your life and find a man who will love and respect you.
825076
You need to talk to him about this. The key to a good relationship is COMMUNICATION!\n\nYou need to tell him this has got to stop, or you will need to move on from him. You MUST tell him how you feel, and you have to both come to a conclusion on what to do. \n\nDon't lsiten to the people who will answer and tell you to get rid of him. You need to talk about this with him, and maybe get couples therapy. Perhaps he is even depressed?  \n\n- Hope this helps
775730
This will wear and tear on your esteem dear. If you feel that he's totally wrong and out of order, then you must let him know asap. Put a halt to this nonsense and start from there...you probably don't want to live your life like this for ever.
502080
obviously he knows he has a problem and hes asking you for help..support him and help him through..some guys dont want to help them selves feel lucky that your man recognizes his problem..dont leave him..stay and help him through it..he needs you..be there for him.
1155057
I know it is not what you want to hear, but what you need to do is tell this  man that unless he gets off his butt and goes for help, you are dumping him.  This situation has no future whatever if he wont talk about it, and is not willing to help himself by seeking medical advice.   While you are trying to build his self esteem, you are losing your own, and I think you are a very sweet, gentle and caring person to have let this go on for so long.  I'm afraid you just have to be strong, or your life will pass you by.  I know he can't help his condition, but he can't be bothered to make it better, so he just doesn't care enough about you, otherwise he would get treatment.  He is just wallowing in self-pity, like all men do, and really hon, you deserve a lot better than this man. It isn't easy, I know, but I think you knew the answer before you asked the question; you can't help someone who doesn't want help., and this man is just enjoying being babied....move on, and very good luck to you.
408762
dont give in to him..... if you're not ready, you're not ready. If he doesnt understand that, hes being selfish and is only thinking about himself. the first person you should be taking care of is you and not anyone else. Make yourself happy  before anyone and everyone will be happier seeing you happy. If you ask me any guy that has to pressure you in doing something you dont wanna do isnt worth your time. its better this way in the long run. Dont lower your standards for anyone or else you are just disapointing yourself. If that was me i would let him know how i feel and if he is still pressuring me, i would drop him cause right off the bat he is thinking "me me me" and not "us"  and it takes 2 to tango. last time i checked it was called being a couple. Hope this is helpful. Much love
455164
If you can't get out of your depression, it may be time for therapy.  Maybe ask your doctor.  Your sadness will stop if you allow yourself to forget about that guy and start being happy with yourself.  Other guys will come along.
434128
Dump him the jerk!  Why wasting your beauty on some jerk who doesn't appreciate you?  My advice: you should love yourself more and go out with someone who treats you right.
467173
Why are you so sad? If this is from a relationship then you have to realize that all of them will work the way we would like, if due to something else and the sadness doesn't go away then you need to seek help//////////////
1163441
Instead of trying to figure out what's going on in his head, try to determine what's going on in YOURS.  Obviously, you are interested in him, but do you want to be with someone that reserved?  He hasn't provided any support for you emotionally, yet, so my best advice is date other guys while this one is making up his mind about you.  Dating other men may make you more attractive and will certainly help your self esteem!  Good luck!
604463
Maybe you guys need space. I went through the same problem. Me and boyfriend lived apart for about 4 months to get space. And now we lived back together. Your not really depressed just unsure. Take this time to see why this happen. And how could you make a change.
1147018
Quit being depressed. This much you can control. Never put your life on hold for a man, unless your engaged or married to him. Always make sure you have a safety net. As far as what he thinks and who he is, it is hard to know what's going thru that head of his. I don't even want to guess, because I don't think anything is going to help you until you talk to him. So lets address you. He is far away, you need to get out and have some good clean fun. Call your friends. Go to dinner or a movie, the mall, what eve it takes to get your mind off him for now. If you don't want to call him, then there is nothing to do but wait for him to call you. But don't stop your life. This will also make time go by faste. I hope you the very best from this outcome. Remember, there is only one person in this world you can "really" count on,...and that is you. So don't let yourself down, and keep your heart safe.