when we think for family why dont think family same. Means why some members think negative to  make wrong WHY?
832454
there is a saying that all fingers of our hand r not the same(length).its not necessary wat u think for others,the others also thinks the same.no matter our parents n sisters-brothers thinks good for us.apart from these members,others have jealous n greedy nature.they make things go wrong for their benefit.
59209
People like to be surrounded by the familiar.  When they encounter someone who doesn't act/look/believe what they are used to, they often fear it.  Most people get over this, realizing that different points of view is what make the world great, but some others just don't want to accept that there's a larger world beyond their own.
46922
i'm not really down for the keep it in the family thing but i'm not going to criticize you but i'm thinking that maybe you should them and see if they feel the same. but they don't react the same way don't be surprised because they probably not down with incest you know.sorry if they hurt you ok. you'll get over it eventually.
799992
No, I have some family members that are just the lowest forms of live ever. They have stolen from other family members and lied so much none of us believe a word they say, in fact they are not even invited to any events at all.\nBeing family has no bearing on how they treated others and you can't excuse someone just because they are related.
903655
We are all guilty of this to some extent, aren't we?  On one hand, it is proof of how comfortable we are around our family members.  On the other, why is it so hard to offer them the same respect when they are so much more valuable to us than a stranger is?  We all should work on that, I think.......
379506
Honey sometimes that is what adults do when they are not happy. It has nothing to do with you or anyone else in the family..........
195733
Your Family, will never guide you wrong, they always try to tell you right, and always try to keep you from messing up. Freinds do to, But your family has been here and done it and lived it. I wish a thousand times that I would have listed when they told me not do do something or said that you'll wish you had of.
898190
Because they are religious. It is in the Bible to hate people of differences so your family is just following what "HE" said to. You can't blame them either, a false education is one that many people have in america.\n\nWhat you can do is just be proud of what you are. Screw your family. If they don't understand you then they have no right to be embarrassed. Over time they may come to understand but you just have to stay strong.
53121
I was always told growing up that your family are the people who know you and all your bad habits and love you anyway. Now that I am raising my step children and a foster child PLUS my own kids, I realize how true that statement is. Family are the people you turn to when you need someone to tell off because you have had a bad day and they will still speak to you when you have calmed down. And in some cases that person might not be blood related to you but it doesn't make them any less a member of your "family"
541788
Ok I completly understand what both you and him are going through cause I have been there and done that, therefor my advice to you is if you really think and feel you love him try to understand his point even if you don't agree or like it very much. What it sounds like he is doing is avoiding having confrontations with his family and you. The less they know the less they will nag at him, they less they nag the better mood you will see him in. Think of it in a positive way he just wants to avoid problems between his family you and him, besides its also a healthier realationship for both of you, never know he may be thinking of taking the relationship a step higher and want to move in together in a few months and when he does he will drop the bom on them, just keep your eyes open at all times giving everyone and anything the benifit of a dought. Good Luck and take things easy enoy your time
364940
no it means they are very unhappy with there life and how they feel i think it is people who think the other way are egotistic that life would be worse with out them the truth is life will go on it will change for a small few if anyone dies some people who think the world would be better without them mean there loved ones and family would be better without them for different reasons i have been there a few times and it is not a fun place to be at the time your willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for the bennifit of your family or world if you would like to know more i would gladly answer your email
1178076
discuss with your family members
1020832
It is normal to have differences.... this is call sibling rivalry.\nI know my sister and I have gone though times that we haven't spoken to each other also. I have learnt over the years to accept where the other person is at and let them own it. It is their experience not yours so you really don't have to agree. Just realizing that you can still like or love someone with different opinions is ok. It doesn't mean you have to agree with them or even change their mind. I believe if you are going thourgh different experiences that's ok. You still have your fond memories of your sister and no one can take that a way from you ,not even your sister. I hope all works out well!!
370954
If she thinks you are closer to your sister than to your wife, it makes them think that there is something wrong with the marriage relationship. Watch your actions and see if you tend to take your sister's side over your wife's. See if they get along and if not, why? Does it have anything to do with family/life ideals? Parenting? These are things that she cannot change about you or your sister and it is frightening to her, even though there is no threat of cheating, it is the same feeling. You are giving emotions to your sister that she cannot compete with.
879359
People will not always agree on certain things because they see things differently from each other.
660599
I always wonder this, too.\nSomehow, my sister and I are very close... so close that some people thought that we're doing incest(!)\n\nI think people consider that as sin, that's why they're bad-mouthing me and my sister in our back...
93567
the phrase "actions speak louder than words" comes to mind, I was once told that sometimes your own family can be your worst enemy, their are some mistakes that you will make in life that will be so bad that you can't fix them, all you can do is make amends, set things right as best you can and muddle your way on through, and that's life!!