How do I tell her I have feelings for her she has a boyfriend but she never talks about him?
824099
it doesnt hurt to tell her. she might feel the same way
963163
I would tell her, and here's why.  It's a strain on you, and you should probably put a little distance between the two of you for your mental health.  Tell her you've developed feelings for her, it wasn't on purpose, and you don't want her to feel pressured, but because of this you need to put a little space between the two of you for a time while you refocus yourself.  Then be friendly, but cut your contact with her WAY down.  This does a couple of things.  It lets her know your thoughts, which is important in an honest friendship.  But it doesn't give her the instant upper hand she would get if you "confessed your love" then waited around for her to do something (and what would that be? dump the BF?  decide if she feels the same in return?), which almost always has a bad result for the confessor.  Treat your developing ardor as a personal weakness of your own, perhaps a slightly embarrassing one, and assure her you're going to get over it without bothering her, you just wanted to do her the courtesy of letting her know why you can't hang out with her so much.\n\nOnce you go into "recovery" phase (spending less time with her) it does two things.  It lets her know you aren't a lapdog, hanging around, waiting for whatever attention she'll give you.  It actually gives you the closest thing to the upper hand you can have.  She'll also see less of you, giving her the chance to figure out if she misses you a lot.  If she does, she should be the one to bring up that she wants to see more of you.  When she does this, you can say (be nice to her, always be very very nice) "that would be difficult for me without the chance to date you... I'm concerned my feelings are to strong."  Be kind of wistful.  Then give her more space.\n\nYou're trying to get her to come to you.  It's the only way you have a chance after a confession anyway, but it can be very successful if she likes and depends on you, but has been more or less taking you for granted.  It also gives you control over your life, which is always adviseable.  One more piece of advice?  Flirt with some other girls.  But don't overdo it, and never be mean to anyone.\n\nMake sense?  Good luck.
892889
Seriously, why not just tell her the truth?  Just say something like 'lucky for you I don't have a girlfriend.... yet.  Maybe you can help me out *wink*'  Im the type of girl that likes to flirt but if I know a guy has a girlfriend I won't even think about dating him.  If I know he's single maybe I'll get lucky...
167638
Well, you have to let her make the ultimate decision about her boyfriend. Just let her know how you feel, but also let her know that you will back off and give her enough space to do what she needs to do or decide what she needs to decide. It is it meant to me, she will be yours with patience..but you cannot rush her. Good Luck!
715359
Have you guys been friends or have you guys have talked if you guys have then better.You can be there whenevr she needs a shoulder to lean on but if you never spoken to her and you've just be admiring her then i think it's best you wait for the meantime try been nice around her,with time she'll get used to d friend whom she enjoys spilling her heart to.After a while when she getting stronger tell her how you feel abt her.Gudluck.
752856
yea but i don't feelings for that guy so, i pretend nothing had happened.but you should give it a try.if you tell her, you'll have at least 50% of the chance.if you don't, it will be a 0% chance.
191110
well first of all u need to tell her youre self in person how u feel she will like that a lot better than a friend telling her or u telling her on the phone.you could possibly take her on a date and then tell her at the end of the date how u feel .so maybe she will feel the same way .that is how my boyfriend and me got hooked up because he just came out and told me what he thought and i felt the same way back so just try it \n                       well peace out and good luck 2 ya buddi
374291
WELL...DOES SHE TALK 2 U!!!!! IF SO TELL HER HOW U FEEL TELL HER HOW MUCH U LIKE HER!!!!TELL HER HOW BEAUTIFUL SHE IS !!!!!IT WORKS EVERY TIME....I SHOULD KNOW....THATS HOW MY BOYFRIEND OF A YEAR AND 1/2 GOT ME!!!MUCH LUV!!!!!
533678
:) hmm, a tough question, this one. I can't really say that she is supposed to leave her boyfriend because of you, or, that it is wrong for her to do so when she does love you and have no more feelings for her boyfriend.\n\nHowever, you have only known her for a little while. Don't you think you might just be expecting overly by speculating that she might consider ending her current relationship with her boyfriend?\n\nI only suggested that you should tell her how you felt about her as I know she will respect your determination/courage to let her know. Frankly, I didn't expect that your feeling towards her was strong enough to the point of contemplating whether or not she wants to be with you in the end.\n\nI don't really approve of this but who am I to judge since this is between you and her. No one can guarantee the outcome of both of your future. There's also a possibility after the both of you declare as couples, once you are apart, this sort of thing might happen again and she would leave you for another guy. First of all, imagine you're in the boyfriend's shoe; how would you feel if your girl left you for a guy whom she'd met only few months back?\n\nOn the other hand, it is her choice really, if she does sincerely loves you and her feelings towards her boyfriend is a thing of the past. I believe she is matured enough to think for her own good.\n\nBy the way, don't pressure her to choose between her boyfriend and you. It won't seem fair to anyone.\n\nI hope it helps.
8191
Does he have a single friend that maybe you could set her up with?  You can try doing something like that.  You should also try to spend time with her, just the two of you.  And let her know that you are still best friends, even if you do have a boyfriend and she doesn't.
81628
there is no reason you can't tell her. just get to know her really well, and if you still like her still, kind of let her know without really telling her... it will drive her crazy...and if she doesn't get it soon tell her flat out...good luck....girls are crazy.
476040
well, it depends on the relationshipyou and her have. But I would say that you should start by being involve with her in informal way, not really friends, not boyfriend- girlfriend. Just get her to talk to you, and get yourself notice. Then you should start making your feelings known to her but in a subtle way and then just let her know. It's a good idea to make sure that the girl doesn't have a boyfriend or has just come out of a pretty long and heavy relationship. She might not be able to feel the same if she has. Try not to be nervous, expect the best, prepare for the worst.
586196
honestly, just ask her if she has one...guys ask me if i have a boyfriend all the time and i dont care at all. it lets me know hes straight up and interested.
417604
You just told us your feelings, now tell her.\n\nShe may brake your heart but atleast you won't be able to regret never asking! No you've got, yes you can get!
891221
Just start asking her questions but dont lead into first thing do you have a boyfriend..get to know her better and then ask her ok\nGood luck With Her
585235
if you truly like her like you say you do then my best advice is to tell her. i mean look at it this way if she is interested then let her noe tha u r interested this way you both can be together instead of playing around until she gets another man. and yea believe me i have had a guy do tha to me i was interested but he didn't tell me he was interested in me to until i got a man. don't do this to yourself and don't do this to her. if you are defintely and i mean defintely interested then show her or tell her don't play games. and if you are worried about rejections remember wuts the worst tha can happen? don't worry about her stop talking to you remember tha if she showed any interest then she most like you. and don't wait get out there and tell her you are feelin her before its to late.
838467
I think she has feelings for you but don't know how to express them to you. All those things that she was doing to you when she was with her bf, flirting.