How do you move on from an unrequited love?
821168
You just do what ever you can to move on. It's different for everyone.     Good luck.....SAM
513083
You never really get over your first love. If you want to move on you have to find something or someone to fill your extra time. Maybe you need some time without some one until you are confident again. It is ultimately up to you when you want to start a new relationship. Jump back in only when your ready.
159653
Love is strange in its own magical way. Love is like a dam. Once it's released, you never know when the flow will come to an end. Right now, your love is still flowing all these years. If you really want to forget her that much, then do something different to approach this thought process. If you know she loves you as well, then go get her. Don't waste time crying in your hear...in your soul. If know she doesn't feel the same way, then think differently about how you feel about her. Think of it as best friends kind of love: you love her because she matters to you greatly and that your friendship for her will never change. Accept this "new" change of yours and think that everyday. Better to be friends than to be in that hell hole of unforgiving love. Sometimes to have a friend love you is just as loving as having that special someone by your side. Try to move on each day if you can and just remember you loved someone who was wonderful and great, but with conditions couldn't happened. Some where in life, you are bound to find someone new. It might sound a little stupid, but maybe the person who you been looking for could be right in front of you. Just keep a clear head and watch for hints. Maybe the person has already been hinting they have feelings for you and you just haven't realized it. I hope I helped in some way.
77634
You don't let go of love... love will let go of you.  When the time is right you move on & you won't even realize it until you see a picture or are reminded of them.. It may take months or years, but it will go faster if you don't try to hold onto it (don't think about them all the time, put up things that remind you of them)  .....  that is he best advice I have.. hope it helps you some.
303864
To move on you need to find someone new, then it will be too hard for him too see you with someone else and he'll hopefully stay out your way!
637827
i am sorry you suffer i know how u feel cause i felt same when a guy broke up my heart long time ago you must move on cause she no love you it's hard but u will i advice you to go find other love spend time with new gf even u not feel in love with her but this is best way to forget about ur love best luck thank you
151427
you may never be able to forget love( if it is real love) bt you can get over it, try things to get your focus of the matter ,like going to gym more, hanging out with girlfriends and so on.... and maybe try going out with someone else, you might find a new love to replace it.
108226
just try to be away from her.\nthe day u fell u cannot do that\nu r in love.\n\ncheers!!
288855
I'm going thought the same thing right now, he actually told me that he doesn't want me to call him anymore because every time we talk we get into an argument, regardless of all the crap we went through i still love him, i don't know your situation, but honestly there is nothing that you can actually do to get over somebody that you really really love, just live your life and eventually the feelings will die out. what you can do though is just go out and mingle with other people, i find that this is very helpful, hope ive helped!
240391
this is called unrequited love.Write poems
332501
Move on.  You can't hang on to someone who doesn't want you.
503657
he is not ready for commitment. If you are, move on
786713
Yeah that is hard. I'm very sorry that you haven't gotten over him yet and moved on with your life.\nAt least you realize that he doesn't want you anymore. I know it even hurts to read it and I'm sorry I'm not trying to be mean. You need to recognize how short life is and that you deserve to be happy. You deserve to be with a person that will feel the same way you feel about them. Do you know what you are worth? Well then, move on with your life you are not promised tomorrow right? the sooner you realize this you will have peace in your mind body and soul. Cause i know how it is to crave for a man that you can't have I've been there. \nGood Luck  to you Hun.
938797
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
809492
That's too bad :(  Life stinks that way.  There is a song out there.  I think its a Country western song called unanswered prayers.. It really speaks to broken hearts like yours.   \n\nI want you to move forward, not to dwell or look back with hurt.  Don't call him.  I say this because my mother dwelt on her first love...she is now 75 and never moved on.  I am adopted because she had not children she had no life,. She dwelt.  \n\nLook at the experience of love with him as a growing one.  Think about how to move on.  You might miss the right person right under your nose, if you keep looking back.\n\nblessings
507321
I guess it's something that ppl hav 2 deal wif..u might probably feel alone,confused..And all you think about is to try to move on but the real thing is, you can't..I went through the same problem too.Fact, I'm actually still stuck!It's hurtful and so confusing realli.It suxs to rejected...Most ppl would say move on...she's not worth it..and realli, she's not. U can't wait for her to accept u..the longer u wait, the deeper u'll go. I mean, she might not feel the same way about u like the way u feel about her. And that's not love. U didn't do anything wrong, it's realli something u hav to accept in life so, at least, try to keep ur mind of her and u may actually realise that there's someone out there which is so much better and will love u like the way u love her...i realli hope this helps..
640963
you do not give up on the one you love you give up the relationship you have outgrown with the one you love and hopefully wish the best for this person ,just not intimately in your life,when there is disrespect and contempt that remains unresolved,it is over, if you cannot effectively address this issue