How do I get over this?
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Hello:\n\nI would suggest that you are feeling depressed because you are dealing with a lot of stress and you have very little support in your life right now. \n\nI can't imagine how difficult it must be for you to have to deal with a divorce, and living so far apart from your child, on top of that dealing with a new job. \n\nIt is understandable that these feelings intensified on Thanksgiving, which is a holiday typically spent with family. \n\nI would suggest to you to start getting involved in the community. Volunteer at local organizations, join other local groups (besides the singles group) like a recreational sports team. These are easy ways to meet people and to develop friendships. Maybe there is even a local women's support group for divorced women?\n\nOnce you have some friendships, those people will be able to help you when you are feeling down. It also might help to see a therapist, to have someone to talk about these issues too. There was a point in my life when I was having a very difficult time dealing with stress, and I went to see a therapist every week for a few months. Just being able to talk about certain emotions I had made me feel so much happier and relieved, and I would suggest this to anyone who simply needs someone to talk to.\n\nI hope this helps, and good luck. Things will get better.
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Get over it....ur a man, so go fuck some lady
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Take a Deep Breath! Relax...Remember "Everything happens for a reason" Don't let your problems get the best of you...God NEVER gives you an obstacle you cant jump over...Hang on!
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I THINK THAT THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER A BRACK UP IS TIME... YOU JUST NEED TIME TO HAVE A NEW START,IT MIGHT SEEM TO LONG BUT AT THE END LIFE GOES ON???????????
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Wby,\n\nHonestly, you never really get over it - but you do learn how to cope in life and defend yourself so it never happens again.\n\nOne day, I hope when you are older and more mature, you will find someone to build your lives together with. Not just a lover, but a best friend. Someone you can really trust. That is the best way to get over it.\n\nPlease do not hold this stuff in. If you have parents you cannot talk to, find yourself a guidance counselor you can trust, a priest, an adult -- and don't hold back. Because of your age - both can be prosecuted. YOU have done nothing wrong. YOU are never to blame yourself for the actions of these men. YOU are a child who has been thrown into a very difficult position in life - PLEASE find someone you can talk to comfortably to help you adjust and continue to live.\n\nGood luck to you.
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Hang in there. The best way for us to heal from our problems is to help other people heal from theirs. Do some volunteer work at a hospital.  I just went through this myself, I know how you are feeling. Geting your mind off yourself and focused on the needs of others not only speeds up the healing process, but helps us learn from the pain.
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Best way to get over it...stay away!\nIt sounds like she is dangerous for you.\nNothing you do is going to fix this relationship\nYou need to stay away and you know that.\nGo out and find someone else to get that sick feeling out of your stomach.
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Just forget. Shut your mind off to them and get on with life.
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It sounds like a normal reaction to me. he'll get over it just be patient good luck.\n\nluv kby xx
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quit worrying about it it will come when it comes now move on with ur life
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If you really mean it.. let your emotion go in a personal one on one conversation and cry. \n\nAllow your heart to let your eyes weep and feel the remorse in your soul so you will never make that mistake again by remembering the pain it brought you and the person you are sorry to.
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stay busy with other things. Find someone of the opposite sex to just hang out with. Don't date someone else, just a friend. Try to think of something unattractive about the other person and dwell on it. Eventually it will seem bigger than it was and will help you get over it.
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Listen Up:\n\nSeriously, you are clinically depressed.  You fit the exact diagnosis of clinical depression.  Don't listen to people who say "just get over it!" or whatever, they dont understand your pain.  You can choose to get professional help, or not...that is up to you...but, if you choose not to, you need to read up on it and help yourself.  Your heart has been broken in a way that no one can understand, and one can just not get over it without some sort of education (meaning professional or self help) and time.  \n\nYou don't mention it on your post, but I would bet anything that you blame yourself for her cheating, even though you did anything and everything for her.  Also, I bet that she told you "reasons" why it was your fault that she did it.  Even more ridiculous is the fact that other people will somehow suggest that you must have been the reason that she cheated.  THAT IS FALSE!!!!  People cheat because they are selfish and only care about themselves.  Then, they blame others to avoid the guilt and responsibility for their miserable actions. \n\nThis will be hard, but you have to ACCEPT that her cheating was not your fault.  Once you can release this belief, with education, you can begin to come around.\n\nYou will never come around, unless you "accept" the truth and "educate" yourself.\n\nIf you wanna know more, contact me.
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What do I get out of this?
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get over it, find someone who you know likes you.
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accept the fact and get on with life
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JUST PRAY, AND ASK GOD TO GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH AND CONFIDENCE TO GET OVER THIS LOSER. PAMPER YOURSELF, READ A GOOD BOOK, GO TO THE MOVIES, ENJOY TIME WITH FRIENDS,GO SHOPPING, TAKE A TRIP, AND JUST EXHALE IT WILL HURT AT FIRST BUT YOU WILL COME OUT ON TOP. GOOD LUCK!!\n\nMSCHOCOLATE