I really want to get my b/f something for xmas.....HELP!?
820600
As a former jock, I think getting him a cool sports accessory to wear during games would be cool. That way he could wear something out there you gave him and you know he's thinking about you when he puts it on. Like a arm pad of some sort, or a helmet visor, or fancy shoes or gloves.
953776
what about something like off buy a gift .com or even just a simple box with pictures of you and him inside or things that you know he likes, more personal instead of monetry value.... and special little things it isn't always about things that cost alot of money, but more the effort of something that capturing the heart, but them I am an old romantic!!
889879
something like that is cool for like christmas night,something romantic after every thing dies down,thats a gift he can get all year long LOL but christmas morning you should really try something else.only you know what his tastes are.good luck and MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ps.men are like little kids,they want to be excited and unwrap stuff too LOL what better time than christmas.just ask my hubby LOL.i say do both
790273
i know when my ex was in Iraq while we were married he liked getting anything food wise from the states. Also he liked getting magazines and sports updates during football season. Pictures stuff like that. Have you thought of having a friend take some tasteful pictures of you in a nightie or something? it would go over as a big hit since he cannot curl up next to you on Christmas. Get a close girlfriend or sister or something to take it for you, Its inexpensive and something he will defently treasure.
485847
I guess I would look at it in a nonmaterialistic way. \nMake the day special. It doesn't cost money and items are just that items. I don't know any gift that is treasured more than a great memory.\nWrite him a letter in the morning telling him that you want to create many wonderful memories together today in thanks for all the love that he has given you thorughout the years.\nIf it is a work day, leave messages on his phone......anticiaption is a great thing. Leave little hints as to what you will be doing later together. It doesn't have to be sexual. Send something to work or give him a small gift....have his favorite lunch delivered, think about favorite memories that you have shared and write a letter reminding him about them.......put it in his pocket so he finds it while he is at work. \nlittle things like that ............they mean a lot. \nThen when he comes home, have a great meal waiting for him. Decorate the bedroom with a blanket on the floor and have a picnic in there. Put up little christmas lights or candles all around for atmosphere. Make a cd of all your favorite songs. After you have waited on him hand and foot during the meal, have him lay back and give him a massage......you know the rest.
708786
is it possible that you could save up your money and go vist him for maybe christmas, i know it's a long way off but you never know. until then keep calling him. perhaps you could send him a little box from home. some of his favorite things, and stuff that reminds him of you. try and see how things go. good luck, trust me i understand how much you miss and love him.
911312
Well, it sounds like maybe he needs a little prodding...maybe you should get him a gift that signifies something meaningful to the two of u, and then plan a night that he wont soon forget.
19009
Tell him that You "just want to hang out with him and snuggle and enjoy Christmas with him and exchange gifts in private" but it is up to him.  You can't force a boyfriend to do something.  you want him to DECIDE for himself that he wants to be with you all day.  Isn't it nicer when the guys WANT to be there ro be with you instead of knowing that really his mind is somewhere else.  Don't hold him back and give the him any ammo that he can throw in your face later.
702138
I think that what would be best is to contact the Gap or some cool shop in the UK and ask for a gift voucher and then pay with Credit Card and ask for it to be sent to the receipients address. Some companies do that you know, that will save $$$ on postage and it will get there sooner. That way he can choose whatever he wants and be happy with his gift.
548804
OK, since we don't know how special you two are to each other, I am going to offer something pretty safe. Go to his favorite music store and get him a gift certificate. Put it in a great card. Now if you want to deliver that card scantily dressed with something else on your mind, fine, but at least let him pick out his own jams.
787376
try to see what other people are buying and go in the middle...and for the present ....try to talk to the guys friends to see what he likes..good luck and merry christmas
1030237
How about making him a c.d of songs you think he would like? It's technically not buying him anything, but it's still a thoughtful gift. How about making him dinner or taking him on a picnic? Maybe he just wants to hang out with you. Make a card for him and tell him you'll give him a backrub or take him somewhere he likes to go. It's the little things that seem to be the best gifts. :)\n\nGood luck!
758648
well im a dude so here are a few suggestions. half oz of Budda, sound system for car( steal it for a couple hours, get it installed then return it and show it to him) beer, xbox 360 good version, yourself in a Mrs. Santa clause or elf costume, a pair of chuck taylors, cds, PS3, make a nude calender of you. Those were some things i would want from my girlfriend for christmas. hope that wasnt too blunt and hope it helps unclose a few doors of creativity in ur head.\npeace\nPeace
45773
As a general rule, I try to avoid getting him anything girly, i.e. flowers or candy or stuffed animals.  The best gift is one that comes from the heart, so I would recommend making him something.  For instance, you could compile all of your love letters into a book for him or make a video, set to music, of photos of the two of you together.  Be creative and set out to touch his heart.  You'll win every time. :)  Hope this helps! :)
673173
On my boyfriend's 19th birthday I got him his favorite candy and a CD for his collection that I knew he didn't have and wanted. Just don't get him anything too expensive. You haven't been together that long and he might think it's a little weird. Not to mention the fact that if you plan to stay with him for awhile you have to be able to top this gift!
388113
Ok...in my experience...you are better off telling him what you want. Otherwise, you will get something you don't want. For example, last year for my birthday my husband got me a gift certificate for an OIL CHANGE!! So, think of something you want...spa package, jewelry, new pajamas, nice romantic dinner at home, whatever. Just tell the poor guy so he doesn't have to worry himself. he just wants to make you happy!
1040522
I did this for our first married christmas.  If you remember what he told you he always wanted when you first started dating (if you have not already bought this for him of course) get that for him.  He will be really impressed that you remembered and you went out and bought it.  \nExample: When we first started dating, he told me he always wanted a pocket watch after seeing the one my mother gave my father for their wedding present.  Two christmas's later, I bought a stunning silver pocket watch with our initials engraved in it.  He was so touched by the fact that I remembered, the watch really did not matter anymore.   \nIf you cannot think of something like that, plan something that would mean a lot to him, even if you are not too thrilled about it.  Sometimes, even though you do not think you would like something like that, you find that both of you are having the time of your lives!