how do i get through this?
821822
Simple - you tell yourself that you deserve it!\nYouve been faced with crap circumstances in the past - and you came through it - its made you a stronger person and now you can take a deep breath and realise that life is for living and enjoying!\nYou are totally entitled to being happy - prob more than most depending on your past circumstances - you've been lucky enough to have a great kid and now an even better boyfriend - sit back - appreciate and enjoy life and make the most of it!\nWishing you all the best and a continued happiness! xx
605702
You move on with your life.  Its hard, but try focusing on something that you are passionate about.  Dont dwell on it or it with rip your heart out.  Things happen for a reason.
48871
Pray to God for help and guidance. In this situation, because there is obviously nothing you can really do, put it in God's hands. I'll be praying for you!! I hope this helps. :)
236094
Hang in there. The best way for us to heal from our problems is to help other people heal from theirs. Do some volunteer work at a hospital.  I just went through this myself, I know how you are feeling. Geting your mind off yourself and focused on the needs of others not only speeds up the healing process, but helps us learn from the pain.
260863
well since all of my others were long i will cut this one short you dont you just pray everyday and let GOD do the rest.  most of the things you are going through are minor compared to what other people are going through.  just keep your head up and take it day by day.
507651
get help from someone you trust and can talk to.if it carries on get help from someone proffesional
290034
I would say,a lot of counseling and possibly some medication to get you threw all this.You will get through it,But you wont ever forget it. Prayer helps too! and I am so very sorry for what you have been through,I have had some of the same experience's as you have.Hang in there.You will survive.We are women hear us roar!!
173684
you can't i just lost my husband in oct. and it's been 5 months and you don't get over it. unless you throw yourself into something. and sometimes that doesn't even help. and of course friends mean well but they don't understand how you feel. it's up to you and you alone. you just live and take life day by day and that's all you can do....
811334
just say that you have to deal with family issues, or say that you are going through something and feel that you cannot do your best if you do go, hopefully someone will understand.
920048
try looking at the skirts and blouses last. maybe take a cooking class, joining the theater class. Put yourself in the middle of the fear. things will get better.
483139
Cry it out for a little while.  Then call your friends and hang out with them.  Keep busy.  Always remember, out of sight, out of mind.  You will get over it.  It's hard but you will.  There is no better cure than friends. Trust me!!
248025
Have a strong cup of coffee..\n\n:-)
198077
Open your eyes young one, realize that this isn't healthy for you emotionally or mentally.  Walk away while you can, because the longer you're in it, the harder it gets.  Be strong and think about what you want for yourself---NO DRAMA!
298431
Take risks. I know it's hard but its the only way. You get used to the flub ups.
303567
it's not easy...just get it over with...don't be a coward...
550493
Everyone in this world has problems. That's normal!!! Sometimes thing seam worse then they really are.  Please don't feel your alone, the high costs are getting to all of us,  But we need to fight together to get through it.\nKeep your head high and think of things you can do to help and make things better.   If you feel overwhelmed,   talk to your doctor he can give you medication to take the edge off. \nGOOD LUCK
802401
Its hard, I know from experience, you need someone to talk about it with, someone you trust or who knows from experience, if you want to talk more heres my email mikealdana_163@yahoo.com,, I can help if you want because I'm going through the same thing and I know its tough. I'm 16