Should I forgive this person for something she did?
820065
Forgiving is good, grudges are bad. Forgive the person for yourself, if for no other person or reason. Besides, one day, you'll do or say something you'll need someone to forgive for, and you'll be hoping for the forgiveness. No one is perfect. We're just human.
750835
DON"T Say you are sorry if you didn't do it...just ask the person why they think you did it? Why would you cause this problem ? Have them think about it....also ask them if you can talk about it....maybe you did do something that hurt that person and don't Even know it...people get hurt over things that would NEVER hurt us...that is why there is conflict....Different prospectives!!
467410
Whatever you did happened in the past and you can do nothing to change it. I happened. If your deed involves hurting someone you love (that most likley the reason you feel bad about it) then it might be a good idea to talk with the person about it. If that person cares about you he or she might forgive you,especially since you didn't do it intentionally or without planning. \nIn any case it was something you did "without thinking" therefore you didn't plan, there was no "intent" more an "Impulse". Learn from the expereince, file it under life happens and go on.
748451
Okay, I can see why she is upset at the lie.  But if she's your friend she should forgive right?  Sometimes women just tend to freak out no over the act but over the underlying betrayal.  I say you invite her for coffee to clear the air.  Tell exactly what you did and why you did it, just like you did here.  Then it's on HER as to whether or not she accepts it.  If she doesn't want to meet  you or won't accept your apology, then she's immature and needs to get over herself.  But you might be suprised!  Good luck and God Bless!
198460
Well, no matter what, I think you should forgive her, but since she brought someone else, that's really low, and I think you should waste time with people like that who can't solve their own problems without someone who's really pushing them to another perspective. Forgive her, and tell her that, but that doesn't mean that she has to hang out with us, Nicole, trust me.\n\nYou people are really... well, Nicole got hurt, and I personally know her, and she is DEFINITELY NOT selfish, so get that out of your heads, people! Our friend IS mean, she sent me REALLY mean IMs, so answer to THAT, OK?
628024
You did nothing wrong, and should never feel guilty about what happened. I know someone who had sexual contact with a child, and they received the treatment they needed in prison to allow them to lead a semi-normal healthy life once again. If you expose your victimizer, you will be doing them a favor. They are actually suffering inside as well. But, for you to have full "closure" in your life...you need to forgive, let go, and move on.
593889
That depends on how apologetic a person is. If a person is sincerely sorry about what he or she did, I can forgive. Many people however don't even bother to apologise. They suffer my revenge ten fold.
1166137
No. i would not forgive them. they are obviously not your good friend so you should not worry about what they think of you. you should find better people to talk to!
1049115
It really depends on you and the situation. There are a lot of questions to ask yourself. Did she do this on purpose and why? How important is this friendship to me? Is this the first time she has disappointed me? It's good to forgive, but if this is the type of person that will keep hurting you, it might be time to rethink the friendship.
1130946
You should if she really is getting out of hand.  Let her see how it feels to be in jail and when she's out she'll want your forgiveness because that's wher she'll be if you don't teach her a lesson.
267595
I know how you feel. There is one fellow from a long time ago who was tormented as a child as I also was. One time, our collective tormentors goaded us into fighting one another, promising to end the torment of whichever one of us won.\n\nI have felt badly for years that the one I should have had the most empathy for was the one I ill treated, not our tormentors. \n\nBut does finding that person and apologizing make them feel better - or you? I asked myself that question, and realize that it would be of little benefit to the person I feel accountable to - it would only assuage my guilt. All I would be doing would be bringing up a long-past horror I know I don't care to remember. \n\nIf this person was ever going to forgive you, chances are they already have. Don't make them relive something simply for your benefit. Unless you were actually planning on reestablishing a relationship with  this person, take your lumps privately. It is the only decent thing to do.
509775
yes, forgive him/her if he/she is sory of what she/he did...\n\nif God forgives us for every day we do wrong (sin), so we too...
575416
You can't! You blew it! Time to move on. A woman will forgive, but she will never forget. Neither should you and next time you meet someone you really care about, consider not doing things that will make her not trust you.
1033549
Then she is not really your friend,  I would not worry about it, everything that you do comes back to haunt you, it may be good or bad, but it always comes back.  Some of the best revenge is when the person does it to themselves.  I am a lazy person, and I do not like to hurt other people, but when they are mean to me, I just sit back and watch them stick their own foot in their mouth.  You know what I mean?
50742
U may forgive the one by thinking that whatever happens....happens for good. \nAny way i liked this question as u have asked "How to forgive?" instead of "What punishment should be given to the person who takes ur money?" The person who forgives is always greater than than the person who takes revenge or gives punishment.
386715
You should apologise.  For whatever is making her mad.  The apology should include how sorry and bad you feel because you did something wrong and show that you understand the impact on her -- how it affects her.  You can ask her to forgive you.  It's not a simple process.  Plan in advance what you will say.  make sure it includes those components--i made a mistake, i'm sorry, i understand how it made you feel.  i am throwing myself on your mercy and asking forgiveness.
445576
I think when the trust is broken,\nyou'd really need to give it time.\n\nYou cannot expect it to be alright after doing something as an apology, meaning, it might really be difficult to wipe away the hurt caused.\n\nIf it's something you did that hurt him/her,\nmaybe you have to use your actions to show him/her that that was just a mistake and it would never happen again.\n\nIt's going to take time,\nI don't think it'll be an immediate effect.\n\nSo if he/she's really so important to you,\nand you didn't mean to hurt her.\nYou have to be patient.\n\nBecuase it's not so easy.\nAll the best.