my dad said he going to feed me every other day and i half to watch him eat when i cant so i can lose weight?
825492
ok this sounds like total bullshit
394884
Lets put it this way. How your dad looks has nothing to do with you. In order to gain muscle you just have to work out and if you want to gain weight than start consuming about 500 more calories a day, during a week. Of course..you should probably be asking your doctor about a question like this.
878853
You should have a full exam. If you haven't already, tell your Dr about your parents. See if they can set up a stress test, blood work, x-rays(if necessary) You only eat 1 meal a day! That's so unhealthy! Even if you can't force yourself to eat, try eating an apple or even some grapes. It won't fill you up & can help keep you healthy. Try to limit the red meat to a couple times per week, try chicken & fish, your veggies should be raw, cooking them loses some vitamins. Try taking a calcium supplement and multi vitamins. Genetics play a big part, but so does your diet & excercise. Of course if you're only eating 1 meal a day, you should ask your Dr what type of excercise you can do. You must be really thin & may not be able to excercise until you're healthier.
841339
Knowing what your dad expects of you, you should tell him, but be sincere that you tried your best.\nParent's sometimes expect a lot because they want better for their kids than they had when they were kids. I don't think he's being strict to make your life miserable, he wants you to be afraid so you'll do the things he expects.
799445
sounds like he is trying to guilt you into doing more than you are comfortable doing.
612931
Our bodies are smart, we have a percentage of bodyfat that our bodies like to maintain in order to function.  If we try to go below that your body will fight to keep it.  Changes in diet need to occur.  Is he eating enough food to lose weight?  He'll find that the more healthy foods he eats the more he'll lose.  To lose weight he can try keeping close track of calories (Fitday.com).  To lose weight the basic formula is his bodyweight x 12.  So if he weights 200 lbs he would need to eat 2400 (200 x 12)calories of healthy meals a day to lose weight.  He can find out more about this by reading info posted at this sight.  Goodluck!\n\nhttp://z13.invisionfree.com/ExtremePhysique/index.php?
362087
I really hate to here of your father falling ill once again. Let me tell you just last week my father was told that he has cancer of the pancreas.It is a scary time for all involed but most of all the patient. I went to see my father just last year after 24 years, we had some bad issuses between us as well does my sister and brother does with him. I feel better that I went I can honestly say that I have no regrets. You feel how you feel and you can only do what you feel is best towards your dad. Always remember that you tried your very best towards him. May god bless you and your father, put your trust in him and he will lead the way. Good luck.
803306
No.  He should be eating smaller meals througout the day.  He has lost a lot of weight and well done to him for that but he really needs to eat regulary as it will help him speed his metabolism up...;
756967
He Dr! Stop worrying about your health and wt. etc. Just be normal, eat normal (Every thing God had created to eat). You will enjoy life.\nBest of Luck.
899740
R U saying you have a 21 y.o. daughter that likes to eat and you are trying to help her reduce it so she doesn;t get heavy or heavier?? IF SO...\nWhat I suggest is talking to her about exercising and maybe you or she can learn how to cook somethings that are healther.  But alos what I can add is I am currenlty losing weight myself and what God has allowed me to realize that most of the eating I was doing was NOT b/c I was hungry, but b/c I was lonely, bored, sad, depressed, angry, etc. (emotional eating). This maybe somethign to address with yoru daughter. I found that being heavy setI also ate more b/c I was overwieght. It's almost like trying to console yourself by doing soemthing you know is not healthy.  Eating for mea llowed me to not have to think or expereicne certain things for a certain amount of time (while eating) and even if it was 5 minutes of escape I woudl take it and even try to extend the time by eating 2nd's and 3rd's.  I suggest you pray and ask God to help you help yoru daughter an dgive you what to say that she knows you are not trying to judge or embarrass her but that you are concerned for not just her weight but her overall well-being, THEN speak w/ your what's really going on w/ her eating.
599724
Your Dad won't LET you get a sitter??  Tell him he needs to watch her.  Or, ask a neighbor to help you.
312644
I think I can promise you this : on your fiftieth biethday, your dad will treat you like a 2 yr old ........ you are his BABY, for goodness sakes ! so, you are going to have to obey house rules and put up with your dad until you have a good enough education and job to move ..... and when he comes to visit you then, he will treat you like you are 2 yrs old !
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his doctors should give him a list of what not too eat, it depends on the doctor and the overall health of your dad, my dad had a bypass in Jan 2005, he's not allowed more than 200 mg of sodium a day or more than 1 quart of fluid a day, because his kidneys are only functioning at 20%. He'll be 74 on July 22. Last month he had surgery to hace a pacemaker put in his chest.
781362
No curses.  I hope that your father will be allowed the freedom to live his life the way HE wants to.  If I ever tried to dictate how my father lives his life, he would tell me to concern myself with my own life.  Perhaps you could try that.
250376
i would advise you not to try to lose weight in such a short period of time--you'll only end up getting yourself sick.how "big" are you anyway? if your mom thinks you're normal maybe you are!
688345
Sounds like you need more then just a diet plan...you sound very sad. It seams to me, and I am by no means a proffical , please, seek some kind of counseling.
460172
Yes. i find that it is so hard to resist food, but if we each give each other moral support, it just might work! May i ask what diet you are on? or what you recomend? You may e-mail me at gavin_small2003@yahoo.com if you wish, its,up to you. Best wishes in keeping the self control(i'm trying to drink lots of water.