I have a friend who i love with all my heart and i need you to help me solve me problem.?
819148
One person can't argue by himself. Friends and lovers argue most when they're trying to change each other. If you love this guy with all your heart, accept him as the imperfect and frustrating person he is, and cherish him in spite of his faults. Don't try to change him. And refuse to be pulled in arguments. Let him argue by himself if he wants. You can rise above it if you try. Try to see the petty stuff for what it is: a waste of time to bother with.
319727
I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend like you.  You cared enough about her to let her go and be happy.  I wish there were more ppl like you out in this world.  take care...
654140
i think u should talk and resolve the problem...and if it still doesn't work...then its probably time to move on...
264439
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
375791
you are such a friend and i hope i have one just like you, but sadly the only thing you can do is give your own thoughts about their relationship and where you you think it is headed, other than that you can't do anything beyond what you are permitted to do,. and you can never impose upon them what you would want to happen in their relationship. it is up to them to decide so long as you are there and guiding them is just what the doctor would recommend.
794142
I would ask her if she is seriuos about him but let her know that she can not keep playing with your heart. Let her know that is exactly what she is doing and that you can make her happy and just to give you a chance. she already admitted that she has feelings for you so i just think that she is getting nervous about being with you and possibly ruining your excellent friendship. I would talk to her and let her know what it is doing to you. good luck!
594406
i dont know who can help you but am also in the same situation as you. I have so much love to give but no1 worthwhile to give it to
923949
you know i think you had the same problem as mine. and i just now try to show him what i really am so i think you have a good heart and a good looking so just try to open that space for him.
854033
talk to her about exactly how you feel. give her a girlfriend gift that will mean very special to her. apologize and always make her laugh. i believe you're a true friend. good luck!!!! ; )
16529
well search your heart and find out if you love him or you want to get down with him.  its very goood to clear things out of you or you will hate your self if you don't express your self or you will blow up. but if you love him then this is a way to tell him:\n"i really like you and you have been such an inspiration to me.i don't know if you feel the same way and i hope what i am about to say dosen't ruin our friendship because i like being your friend. i don't know how to put this i find you very attractive and i think i begining to fall in love with you." what about that. sorry i could not help much
569946
I have a similar situation. I think you are doing the right thing so far.\nI suggest that you pray (don't underestimate the power of prayer) and that you ask God to show you how to show this person His love.\nI am finding it helpful to keep open non-threatening discussion about both of our beliefs (she used to think all Christians were unreasonable and couldn't think for themselves). And I am trying to show her (through actions, more than words) the positive effect God has on my life - like how I treat people, and that I can rely on God.\nI really hope that you can get some where with your friend. I'll pray for you, and your friend. God Bless.
166304
tell her what is the problem maybe u can find solutions together?but if thers no way DONT go without explanation thats the worst thing! tell her whats in your heart maybe she is ready to fight for u!
777270
ok hun  i have one of those friends and you should b able ta ask or talk to him about anything so just may b you have more feelings than what ur letting on  good luck
225741
Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
951590
Weeeeeeelllll, if YOU think/feel it to be a problem, then go seek counseling.\n\nmb
471101
Talk to her about the problem
982572
Ask your friend to help you.