Why does my man cheat every year?
816996
Get rid of the loser.
922851
Maybe his family likes you and he doesnt want them to know what he's been doing to you. thinking that if he acts the part then the negative attention from you will die down and he can get on with business as usual. What you need is to prove to yourself that he has cheated on you. then you have a choice breaking up before or after each has it's own merrits. do it before and I think it might make you look heartless unless you can show good evidence. wait and do it after to look like you are kind and caring but as long before christmas as possible so that you give yourself some time to get back on your feet so to speak before the next holiday. good luck
280407
Yes, he is cheating.\nIf he carries condoms everywhere then he is ready for sex everytime with every girl he meet.
749634
Maybe hes the one whos cheating thats why he keeps asking cuz he feels guilty.You should ask him.*
1008884
Im a guy and I hate dudes that do this kind of stuff,makes it hard for those of us that dont cheat.[we're not all dogs] So check it out CONFRONT HIM.
1084878
Why do you have to cheat? I can't see any reason you have to cheat. As you say that your husband doesn't treats you the way you want him to so ask him for a divorce. First get a divorce and then get married with a new guy who would truly love you and treat you well. Why do you have to cheat?
148621
it depends on the level of love u have for him, guys cheats all the time. If u're sure he loves u,then give him a second chance but this time be very careful, u can watch him sometimes but don't let him know u're doing it. Good luck
494616
If he's asked you to marry him - I doubt he's cheating.  When guys (and girls) cheat - they are thinking that it would be better to be single, not thinking of marriage.  To marry him - you have to be able to trust him!  You can usually tell if you know your man well by differences in his behavior - like he starts picking fights for the supidest reasons, etc.  Good luck!
237550
Whether or not he's cheating seems almost beside the point, because it looks like the relationship is failing regardless.  Focus on that fact.  Sadly, it seems like you aren't as high a priority for him anymore.  You've been together since you were 20 and he was 17?  Wow.  Maybe you should date someone closer to your own age and maturity level.
543692
They cheat because we let them. We sometimes let ourselves go instead of keeping the romance alive in the relationship. My ex-husband slept with a 13 yr old when he was 26, right before we got married. I had gotten comfortable, I knew he was mine and I didn't have to worry, not!!!! Always be worried, there is always another woman who will be better and can do more than you're willing to do. So we have to keep up ourselves and make our men see that we are willing and trying to stay the woman they fell in love with.............
491967
Sorry angel,  You will never know if he will do it again, how did you find out the 1st time? I mean did he tell you or did you find out? was it 1 time or 100 times? If he cheated then he would lie about how many times he cheated. You are the only person that can determine if you can trust him again or not. You have to decide weather the relationship is worth the worrying or not worth it and find someone to be with that you can trust.  good luck  god bless
400194
Don't waste your time on this guy, while you dealing with him you might be missing out on someone good. Don't forget that saying, "What goes around, comes around" You don't want this to happen to you, so be careful. You deserve more, you should want to cook for your own man, not someone else man. Believe it or not, he is giving you an excuse to cheat on his wife. My question is, how you know his wife is doing him wrong?
246160
you cheated?\n\nif so, he needs time. he may not forgive.
997496
No. You are just setting yourself up to be cheated on again and again. It is like telling him he can walk all over you because you won't stand up for yourself. Besides, if he is sleeping around, he could bring home an STD. Take care of yourself first!
619650
Men are strange creatures. They think in ways that don't make much sense sometimes at least to us (women).\n\nIts apparent he still loves his wife or he wouldn't be putting himself through the whole counseling bull.  \nAnd maybe deep down inside he wants to find out why he is cheating, and he is looking for answers.\n\nI suppose it is possible he wants his cake and icing too. But I don't think there is anything wrong with him per say.
831577
well see if he is busy and ask him why he does that .and if he keeps doing it i think its time 2 find a new man
540159
If you think he's cheating, then one of two things is possible:\n\n1. He is cheating.\n2. You have a low self-esteem and are overly suspicious.\n\nEither way your relationship is in trouble.  If he's cheating, dump him and don't look back.  If the problem is your insecurity, then dump him and fix yourself before you complicate your life with the eventualitites of a relationship.