what should i do????  so very confused!!!!!?
822271
do the words KICK HER TO THE CURB mean anything???
863982
girl sorry but you are confused and you need to get your priorities straight in the love department just really look inside your heart and talk to your  ex it sounds like you need sometime for yourself also try that if you can maybe it will work and clear your mind good luck
445269
IF he feels the same way, he will wait if that's what you want to do.  You have to follow your heart.  Take time and think it through with your brains not your hormones.  Good luck, I know it can be confusing.
774948
seriously i think that both of u are really messed up and confused at the moment. give each other some time to calm down and think properly. wait for him to initiatiate, but if he doesnt then u need to learn to let go. it is much easier to let things go than to hang on regardless the mental and emotional pain.
253085
I'm in almost exactly the same situation -- probably worse.  Above all else, DON'T WASTE HIS TIME! Tell him how you feel, and either break it off or let him know you may need to explore things a bit (meaning date others) before you continue.  Don't go behind his back, and don't evade the issue, because it only gets worse over time.  Good luck!
1051429
I think you should figure that out first. Do you or do you not? Cuz if you're in the so-so, iffy, maybe and you tell him that you do....well thats putting the both of you in a very awkward and deceiving situation.  And if it's a lot of work to decide...maybe you don't.  But then it could be in a developing stage....I dunno. Wait a bit more.And when he comes back, keep being his friend. Talk some more.  Much luck to you!
341416
CLEAR AND MAKE UP UR MIND!!!MAKE A DECISION THEN.WHO DO U LIKE BEST!!AFTER THAT MAYBE U CAN GIVE US ANOTHER QUESTION COZ U SEEM CONFUSE WHAT UR REAL QUESTION IS..BUT FOR REAL JUST CHASE AND GET WHAT U WANT BEFORE IT IS TO LATE!!
607813
Honestly i think he's just confused and needs time with out you so that he can see how much he needs you. He might just need room to realize that you all do belong together. Talk to him get all your feelings out because if you keep anything in and away from him you will lose him for longer than planned. trust me. My boyfriend and i were about to take a break and i told him exactly how i felt i was scared to do it because i didn't want him to feel like i was making him stay but he said that he was glad i told him because it let him know that i care deeply for him. Just try talking to him about it and see what happens from there.
121929
Hey girl, Now this is a big situation. I had the same thing happen to me. You have to think for your self is he the one? Or is he just a friend. If you decide he's just the one embrace it!
553394
Take this as a learning lesson.  I did the same thing and I know how it feels.  Just remember everything happens for a reason.  You hurt his feelings so let him have some space to figure things out.
559380
you may be lesbian, but right now u r confused, nothing else.\nThink about your desires, and then make a plan. leave confusion, and accept whatever u r. If you want to live a normal life, stick with your bf, and leave those thoughts of being homosexual. you may cosult a phsycologist.
231698
First thing you should not have to change who you are.  You need to find somebody that loves you for you.  Keep in contact with him and see if there is any hint of a relationship.  Otherwise go out have some fun and find somebody else.
890565
go for it. \nTell him how you feel\nor else you will just keep yourself wondering "what if you did anything different"
621052
i get just one thing from ur qesn. ur boy friend is a totally confused person wen it comes to decieding wat he likes n he is confusing u too!\n\nthe only way out is that u ask thees quens to him.
459148
Look, there are only 2 things you should do right now. Either stay single, or go find someone else. I myself like some time alone to retrace my steps from when I was last single, and see what I was into. But I sometimes also like to mingle, chat, and flirt with new people to get a feel for them, and see if I like what I find. But none the less, you should go with what you feel, not what me, tom, or who ever tells you. Listen to your heart girl, and don't 2nd guess it!!!!!
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
622283
your too young to be confused by those things. i suggest you priority what your heart desires. you cannot do things at the same time.