How can I make/help him forget his ex?
819600
you cant really "make" someone forget their feelings for someone else, only time can do that.  The best thing you can do is be there for him and care about him.  In time you'll have your own space in his heart.
965066
you can't make yourself forget someone. The best thing you can do is surround yourself with single girlfriends and just talk. If you want to think about him, do it, because the more you try not to think about something, the more you think about it. for example: try not to think about an elephant. \ni bet you just did.
123228
if you think its best to forget him, then you need to get busy, and stay busy. the best way to get your mind off of something is to put your mind on something else. although i dont believe you will "forget." forgetting is something we rarely achieve.
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
998112
there is nothing wrong with forgetting, you are only human, If he cant understand that then he does not deserve you as a friend, but if his B. day is today then there is still hope, just organize something and tell him it was supposed to be a surprise....
3408
The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
968316
Were you wrong to tell his ex... Not at all.  The key word is "ex".  If his relationship with her is really over then it shouldn't matter to him if his ex knows that he is with another girl.  Mind you, it does depend on how long ago they broke up. For instance, if they were together for a long time and they just broke up a week ago... it might be a bit soon for him to have a new girl in his life.  This would for sure hurt his ex and he might be mad at you if this is the case, but nevertheless he is the one being inconsiderate not you.   If the relationship has been over for awhile, then he should have told her about you himself... you should be the one mad at him for not mentioning you.  You are not a rebound chick.   Perhaps you need to ask him what his relationship is with his ex.  Likewise, if the relationship is really over what is big deal with his ex knowing that he has moved on (providing he has moved on). It sounds like he might have a lot of baggage.  Make sure that this is something you want to be involved with before you get too involved.  There are plenty of great guys out there.  Good Luck!
1144038
If you truly want to forget him than it shouldn't matter what things he does/says you'll just want to cut the ties you had with him, if not then you still care and probably dont want to end the contact with him...what ever you decide you will never really forget him, you'll always have the memories of being in the relationship
1013868
Get to know the other person better.  I know that if someone said they like me then went back with their ex I wouldn't pay him any attention the next time they break up.
863256
JUST DELETE HIS NAME NOW AND FORGET ABOUT HIM.....AND IT SOUNDS LIKE THERE ARE DEEPER ISSUES HERE...ELSE YOU WOULD HAVE DONE IT AND FORGOT ABOUT HIM BY NOW
358384
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't go accusing him yet. If he does happen to cheat on you while in New Mexico, then he isn't worth your time. You can only forgive someone so much. When he gets back, talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't feel safe when he's around his ex. If he is the right guy he will understand.
1169577
clear she was really hurt when her ex cheated on her. understand her feeling. now undoubtly she's feeling much better, she has revanged and she can forget her ex much easily. just don't cheat on her and everything will be fine
1046369
First you need to be blunt and let him know what is bothering you and see if he is willing to modify some of his ways. If he blows it again then you know he is not going to change. Forgive/ Forget-- they are not the same
73113
Don't bring up your ex-lovers.  And if he insists, then tell him as little as possible, and remind him that that was then, this is now.
629047
Besides stalking him, you could bring it to his attention he's being distant. On the other hand, its been two months, it may be nothing and you're being a bit to needy, especially in light of his old g/f coming back.
63410
Kick him to the street... You're gonna have problems in your relationship with his ex still around...
254423
You don't.  It's not your business, it's not your problem, and nothing you SAY is going to make it better.  Time will take care of it.  Just keep him lively, happy, and busy, and try not to throw him into a rebound relationship with other chicks, because it could mess with his mind later  :-)