would you still love me if I was fat?
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My wife once asked me would I love her as much if she were a man. She got upset when I said no!
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How fat are we talking?\nI love fat guys they give you something to hold on to.\nBut I don't want a guy to have bigger bobs then I have.\nI hope you find the girl that deserves your beautiful soul.\nIf you want to talk e-mail me at Horserunner92@yahoo.com\nI also love it when a guy has a big heart as well.
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It shouldn't matter what a person looks like.  It should matter how they act.  If you refuse to date someone based on appearance you may never get to know that person...not dating someone because they are fat is just another form of bigotry...they should not be judged based on their weight.  So my answer is yes I would if they were beautiful on the inside I wouldn't care what they looked like.\n\nTo some who answered in the negative...not all overweight people are lazy, dirty, or unhealthy.  Diabetes does not come from being over weight...it is usually a genetic thing.  My father was never more than 240 lbs and has diabetes...my best friend is obese and doesn't have it.  Further more some people who are obsese may have a medical condition which causes them to either gain weight or hinders their ability to lose weight.\n\nI agree with some who answered this question honestly saying that maybe their lifestyles would not mesh, but just because someone is overweight doesn't mean they don't enjoy eating right and excercising. \n\nYou should always get to know someone and their habits before making a snap judgement based on their weight you might miss out on the love of a lifetime making choices based on weight.
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Lonely one, your question really touched me. I, too, know what it's like to be an overweight woman and what it's like to be ignored by every man. I'm not trying to be depressing but it's the truth, as I'm sure you know. But I think there is someone out there who will love you for who you are. Realistically, there's only a small slice of the population that would consider going out with a very overweight person, but keep being the nice person that you are and it will happen. Feel free to e-mail me at rmaynard@su.edu We may have a lot in common.
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Of course you are worth being loved!! Just keep loving yourself and taking care of you. Don't settle until someone accepts and loves you completely for who you are!
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I have been overweight for a while.  I am now 26...and I never thought I would find the right guy.  The guy is high school was the bad boy...but he was abusive and that was all I thought I could get b/c of my size.  Then I moved on, in college I met another guy, we dated and even got married.  I thought for once YEH I found the guy, 3 years after getting married, I am getting divorced.  He wasn't there for me when I needed it most.  One day I met a guy, I wasn't even looking, he looked past by size and fell in love with me.  And you know what, he loves me just the way I am.  \n\nThe point I am making is that when you least expect it the guy that is meant for you will find you and love you for who you are not for what you look like. \n\nIf you ever need to talk feel free to email me at mad_gurl_rocks@yahoo.com.
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NO!!! eat and gain a few pounds. i am sure you still look beautiful. ok? \n\nlook, your BMI is 13.8. that is beyond STICK SKINNY. really. no joke. guys like skinny girl (BMI 18), but not that thin.
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The good, canned answer is that someone should love you for what's on the inside, not on the outside.  \n\nThe reality is that some people are not turned on by people who are heavier.  Physical attraction will always be an important part of a good relationship.  On the other hand, some guys really like women with more curves--  \n\nYou need to ask yourself what type of guy are you really looking for?  If it is really meant to be, your weight should not play too much a factor.\n\nI used to be REALLY overweight, and found that I would get to know lots of guys, but they would instantly put me into the 'buddy' category, because of my physical appearance.  They just didn't have any interest in me physically.  I lost quite a bit of weight, and had an easier time as men would be attracted first, then get to know me.  \n\nAs long as you are happy with yourself, and confident that you look good and have a great personality, then you should find the perfect guy for you.   You sound like a pretty insightful, intelligent person... some guy is bound to notice that soon!
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WOULD you LOVE me iN the MORNing
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Uh, there's nothing wrong with obese, I could definitely see my-self falling in love with an obese woman. (f.v.i., I'm not obese, I'm almost underweight, and I'm a vegetarian, that info might help in trying to find an answer, most overweight people wouldn't mind having an overweight spouse, so I guess that info is needed?).  Hope this helps!
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Yep i just want to ask you somethin are you FAT or UGLY
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i think fat people are beautiful because God made us all and not all people get fat because they eat alot some people get in from there parents or genes so don't judge them because of how they look and the question us would you date a fat person we sre all people just all of us look differet NO man is alike and i would date a fat person once there caring honest, loving i wouldnt wnt to look on the outside and stop saying fat try using a word like chubby, big, chucky, words like that God made us all and he loves us all
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I would seriously doubt you are overweight.  Maybe tall for your age but that won't last for long.
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i think you just need to keep saying so. Some people are just naturally lean. Or maybe you dont have as much of an appetite as others. \nI guess it doesn't matter whether you are skinny or fat they will always find a way to judge you. You just need to tell them where to shove it. Certainly your family should love you for what you are as a person. You are beautiful.
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You can be happy and be fat, but your health in a future will suffer... And you'll be sick and This is not good for ANYBODY!!... So, lose weight little by little pounds and you'll FEEL REALLY GREAT!! If you want help, mail me... I work with that... GOOD LUCK!!
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I'd love to gain weight, can you help?  If you can make me fat that'd be great!!!
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depends on what you did to her. if you called her fat, forget it. she'll probably never forgive you.