When I am having sex with my girlfriend after I realse, like its hard for me to keep.....?
829149
I'm 23, been married for close to 5 years, and in this whole time that i've been married, i've only been able to keep on going after ejaculating maybe 3 or 4 times. It's normal to go down after ''release'', but i'm confused about the not feeling it part. i've personally never had a problem with not being able to feel anything, sometimes i feel it too much and cum too fast (cries quietly to self). anyway the answer to both of your questions are, it's all in your mind, it all has to do with how turned on you are, how comfortable you are with the person, etc. hope this helped
418309
I wanted to answer this only because I appreciated the answer you gave my question.\n\nSo, no one has actually given you a real answer yet. Have you noticed?\n\nYou feel obligated to commit for one reason only: more sex.\n\nHave you noticed almost all the answers you got came from girls, most of them not even mature enough to have any experience of a committed relationship.\n\nGirls say they want a commitment usually AFTER SEX!\n\nWhy is that?\n\ncontrol of you, buddy. She has her own agenda, just like you, two human beings finding out what this part of life is like. \n\nDon't know until you have the experience.\nNo one is wrong in this, she knew what she was getting into when she let you inside her. Otherwise all the responsibility is placed on your head.\nAre you her parent? Are you responsible for her feelings?\n\nMy experience is that only I am responsible for my feelings. I am also responsible for my actions.\nYou sound like you want to be accountable for yourself, so is she willing to be accountable for her actions, too.\n\nBoth of you didn't communicate very well, and that's what people do. We get to learn how to do this stuff the hard way, by doing it. You always have a second chance you do the right thing.\n\nNow, can you be honest with her about what YOU want?\nIs she ready to truely commit?\nWhat is it you want in a relationship?\n\nTry writing this stuff down and ask the men you trust about how to know what is important to you.\n\nGood job.
631435
well i gave it away I never bleed.. but it was like weird.. there was a pressure and I couldnt really tell what was going on.. it could be because the guy is like maybe 4ines long but yeah it wasnt as cracked up as i thought it would be... and because i didn it it was harder for me not to with my next bf.. because i already gave it up what was i holding on too.. i kinda regret losing when i did.. but cant take it back.. just make sure your not pressured into it... youll regret it later if you do
274431
i know its not the same but i have this problem as a woman,,, sometimes u try so hard that your body freezes up and the more you go at it the worse it gets , just relax you will find that it will happen wen u least expect it try having sex unexpectidley in places that are new to you and your partner you may find that this will help xx worth a try x
467481
What I think you should do is the same thing to her. Make sure that you get off first and then roll over and be done. I have to say that depending on how strong your relationship is will have to be the deciding factor as to if you really want to do this, I am a firm believer that if you don't have good sex a relationship probably won't work.
999933
They're quietly waiting until you went crazy, and then attacks you:D I always thought that too, but it is not true...from my personal experience, sometimes I feel like I'm urging my gf to have sex, but it's not true...man can have sex anytime, anywhere, and girls are not like that, but when girls want to have sex...you'll know it...my gf is dangerous then....and I like it:D I think that's also the thing with other girls...they do it  only when they really need to do that, but then it is with much passion;)
270053
The fact that you are even WORRIED about this indicates you are insecure and not ready for a serious relationship.\n\nLove does not possess, neither can it BE possessed.\nGrow up, or get hurt young lady...
434932
she is just worried... she doesn't want to have sex with you because maybe she wants to reserve it until marriage or maybe she is afraid that you might leave her or she is just guilty of the fact that you had sex even if you are not married yet... but then when you meet again, when you start making out she has no power to resist you... she loves you very much that's why she still have sex with you... but deep within her she wants to stop it... because she is guilty... please understand your girlfriend.. the best thing you can do is to minimize your sex activity until you can stop it (if you can) but still reassure her of your love for her... she wants to make sure you will not leave her but she is also guilty because she knows that having sex with you now is wrong.. that's why she is acting like that... please understand her
240194
They are telling you this because they have learned the hard way.  There are so many issues that accompany having sex and is so much better to wait until you are mature enough to handle these issues.  PLEASE WAIT!!
436476
Hello..You need to relax and don't think about your erection..Have your partner rub your back,neck and shoulders.Have her rub slow and light and try to block every thing out of you head.Thing about how nice looking your partner is and how gentle she is.The key words is relax and block everything out and just enjoy your,your time with your partner.Remember to be gentle and not in a hurry,start out slow.If you do this,you should have no more problems...\n Clowmy
1041616
I AGREE WITH EVERY OTHER ANSWER, MAYBE YOU BETTER NOT APPROPACH THE SEX AS A SPORT ...\n\nMAYBE YOU BETTER UNDERSTAND THAT IF YOU ARE "WELL ENDOWED"\nyYOU MIGHT BE PROUD, AND NEED TO ACHIEVE YOUR OWN SATISFACTION,,  BUT FRANKLY WHEN ANY OF MY LOVERS WERE VERY]\nLARGE, IT WOULD BE  UNPLEASANT,, AND NOT EASY TO TAKE, AS YOU MAKE THEM  VERY SORE INSIDE, AND THE "THRILL I S GONE"\n\nWHETHER SHE FAINTED, OR SLEPT, GET THE HINT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH\nDONT USE HER LIKE A "CORPSE"  if she STOPPED, AND SAID NOTHING THAN THAT IS PRETTYY OBVIOUS SHE WAS TIRED, AND PROBABLY SORE,\nAND SHE IS NOT A PIN CUSHION,,\n\nHARD AND ROUGH SEX IS FINE IF BOTH PARTIES ARE UP TO IT, BUT IF ONE IS NOT ABLE TO KEEP THAT PACE, YOU SHOULD GIVE IT A REST,\n\nYOU WERE PROBABLY BORN WITH TEN FINGERS,  OR JUST LET IT GO AND BE GRATEFUL FOR THE CLOSENESS, AND THE PERSON LYING THERE] TRYING TO PLEASE YOU,,THAT WILLL TURN HER ON AGAIN\nIF YOU LET HER REST, CATCH UP TO YOUR ENERGY LEVEL,,\nHOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF SHE WAS AT A FAST PACE SHOVING SOMETHING INSIDE YOU....OUCH
880466
It happens sometimes but you aren't naked that long.  You just grab a towel until it subsides.  Most of the time I was sort of semi hard and it wasn't that big of a problem.  Its a big fear, but just keep the towel handy and it won't b a problem.
1088882
my question is her virginity a trophy or something you admire and respect? That question should give you the answer and also remember that sex is driven by your desired is selfish, but with love (respect, responsibility, honesty and integrity) from both parties with true commitment is unselfish and a bond that will strengthen your relationship to each other. All I can say is don't use her for your gain, ok!
869903
relax man..first let me commend you on having sex with your girlfriend, secondly dont worry about gettin girls pregnant..lots of people have sex man..and as long as you guys didnt have sex in one of those periods where shes more prone to get pregnant throught her monthly cycles then you got nothing to worry about bro..i say do it again so you feel more comfortable
18043
dude she totally wants you.  She probably fantasies about having sex with you but she is a good person and she doesn't want to ruin things between you and your girlfriend.  Whether or not to pursue it is up to you, but if you have a girlfriend its probably not a good idea.
1136090
If it is the first time for both of you to have sex, may I suggest taking things slow.  Especially if it is her first.  Alot of my friends didn't care much for sex at first because their first partner's were too rough and not the most considerate.   And I think any lady out there would also suggest taking things slow.  It's not a race.  Enjoy yourself and for god's sake use a condom.  Communication is good too, make sure you are both cool with whats going on.  \n\nMy first time I remember it feeling like my head was a blur and I was a bit dizzy, but It was a good feeling.
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...