Should I leave him? but what about LOVE????
829832
You're not doing your daughter any justice by staying in a loveless marriage where she is exposed to arguements and coldness between her parents.  She will sense your unhappiness.  Neither you or your husband are happy, so end it and agree to put your child first...but not in the same household
789989
Sweetheart..you don't need anyone to tell you to do. I would strongly go with my heart. If you truely love him, you wouldn't be happy with anyone else. \nWe can tell you what we would do...but deep down...what would you do? Could you handle loving someone that is having problems walking? I would hang in there and not jump so fast to all the what ifs.
677909
Honey you are in a dysfunctional relationship and it is time to fish or cut bait. This is not love and you and he will only suffer if you stay together. Most people are so afraid to be alone that they will stay in a bad relationship until it ruins both of your lives. Make clean break and spend at least 6 months and get to know yourself again. My question for you is when was it you decided you weren't worth of better treatment. If he doesn't worship the ground you walk on then it's see ya, wouldn't want to be ya..........
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
480354
Simply ask yourself a question. Why do you need him? What is so special about him? Do you love him or you only want him to love you? RIGHT THING to do in life is to marry and live with a person who loves you. And in this case he does not love you at all. Thus you NEED a person who will love you and your life will be full of bliss. Look for a person out of so many available in this world and simply leave the person who does not love you.
1025831
Why cant you take not being with him????? You havn't seen many ppl i suppose or may have had narrow vision. If you talk about Love, then, you cant forcibly take it.... and some1 not loving you doesn't prohibit you from loving him. !! (well, am talking abt true love). I feel its better to let ppl go, and not be possessive. If he's yours, he'll come back to you or else, he never was yours. Would anyone like to keep some1 with her/him, who stabs on back????\nSo, nevermind, be cool, and happily let him go. You'll find a better one for you.\n(Well, hope he's not a billionaire and thats wat bothering you to let him go!! ;)    jus kidding.... )\nGood luck
1067341
you leave him and move on. if you continue he will destroy your self esteem and it will be harder for you to leave him in the future.
301404
leave him, he loose something not you
310341
if he cant learn to love you you should leave him guys dont have to cheat to be bad guys cheating is what tops it off!
1014210
My first thought is your not in love, you have not found Mr. right, so I suggest to you to break it off with the guy of 3 months and move on.  ALSO use protection it is a hard world out there and it is better to safe than sorry.  \nJealousy is the root of all evil......  It will get you no where FAST
727158
I love him...but? I don't think you do love him in a way that will sustain your relationship. I think you know that too. It's time to move on.
879211
I would have to say stay with him, and try to make things work. Of course, if you loved him like you say you do, you wouldn't have to ask this question. You know he won't be gone forever. He'll be back. True love knows no boundaries. No distance should keep you from staying with him. Especially since the move is only temporary.
456470
you have to revaluate your relationship with this person. If you are truly in love ….well it would be a horrible mistake to leave. However, are you sure it is not just because you want this to work which is making you feel as if you are in love?? Talk to your family about this problem and ask their advice (since they know you better then me). Work it through with this guy and see if there is a compromise. Make sure the sacrifice is not only one sided otherwise it might haunt the relationship in the future. Make sure you know this guy and understand who he truly is because people can seem different over the net or phone??. Think and ask for guidance from those closest to you. And most of all discuss it with all the people which will be affected.
756751
He cant decide himself. It seems he dont really love you. But he want to keep it warm. It seems also that you cant be consequent. This leads to an neverending vicious circle. In my opinion (please ask very lot people and compare) you should quit definitively. Cause your "lover" knew he can do what he wants you will take him back any time. It is also your fault. You let him do this. Dont let you sell at less than fair value. Tell him that you are not his baby anymore and make yourself scarce. Or bether forget him. There are other mothers with nice sons. Because he will not change. He will also not notice your value. And you will also not learn to be consequent so fast.\nSorry about my englisch hope you can read it.
68740
hell no! you should leave him because from the start, knowing his sexual preference, the relationship would never work. Face facts, what would you feel if he started going out with other guys? You can save yourself from more pain if you let him go
954523
Communication in a relationship is very important. If he cannot communicate then I think you should let him go. You are still young and have lots of time to find the right one. Love does hurt, but heals over time.....good luck
812
Let him go.  If it's meant to be, he'll realize what an idiot he is and come back.  In the meantime, why should you sacrifice what you really want (a relationship) for someone else?  You deserve to be happy.  \n\nWhy are we women always so ready to sacrifice the possibility of loving, committed relationships with other people, just to stay with someone who is 'not sure' about us?  It's silly.  Go out and get what you want.