Would you take back your boyfriend or girlfriend if they cheated on you?
831100
I've been there done that and i wouldn't make it easy for him if i did take him back. You need to make sure that your the one that he wants and he's threw messing around on you and if he feels the need to cheat on you again he needs to be man enough to tell you that he wants to see someone else. Tell him he has to earn your trust back.
306569
Just realize that you don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. And even if you did decide to take him back you'd have to decide if you wanted his infidelity to taint your relationship pretty much forever. Once trust has been lost in that way its really tough to get it back. And even then you are aware of exactly what he is capable of. Once a cheater always a cheater and don't think that isn't true.\n\nWhat you have to realize about people who cheat is they are always looking for the greener side of the grass and at any moment they may decide they have found it again. You deserve to be secure in your relationship and not constantly worried by this possibility.\n\nMy advice is to think of what you deserve to be happy. Don't be mean and spiteful, instead just do what he has done and worry about your own happiness. 7 years may be a long time, but the rest of your life is longer. You will know what is right for you. I decided to walk away and every day I thank god I did, because I am so much happier for it.
275988
it has to be a mistake unless you are the one cheating.
244110
Really why does it matter to her now. If she broke up with him for cheating then she got back with him knowing he was a cheater. Ok she got back with him after he cheated because she loves him, and now she thinks he is cheating again. Well she loves him so she should over look it again (which is what she did by taking him back in the first place). Or she can get smart and leave him, obviously he isn't going to change. What reason does he have to she accepted it by taking him back.
196498
You have to choose one.\n\nThink about it carefully. Who would you rather lose, your boyfriend or the new guy? Once you make your decision, you can't undo it.\n\nIf ever you choose to leave your boyfriend, just be honest to him. It's better to tell him the truth that cheat on him.
744003
she cheated, it doesnt matter who it was with. you have to decide if you're willing to forgive her and trust her that she won't  do it again.
477092
no. have you ever been cheated on??? look at it from ur bf's perspective. plus if you want a meaningful relationship that if one or all of them find out that it is curtains for you. trust is the hardest thing to gain back.
542784
If you keep staying with her or taking her back after she cheats, do you really think she's going to stop?  Obviously, she didn't learn her lesson after the first time, if you caught her doing it again.  She thinks that you love her, and let her get away with it before, and because you love her, you'll keep forgiving her and taking her back.  Time heals, and you'll find someone who will treat you the way you should be treated.
181347
Yes I have cheated but I figure it was mutual because I had also caught him cheating and he did not know so I cheated on him with another friend of mine and went home to him so he could perform oral sex on me right after sleeping with someone else an hour ego. I would say I did it out of the anger of being with him for 5 yrs. and him throwing that away in one night.
112931
I could forgive but I wouldn't stay with someone who had cheated on me. A good relationship has to be based on trust and love. Without the strong foundation of trust, the relationship will crumble. After someone has cheated you would always have to wonder and worry. Each time they were late, or didn't call, or acted differently you would wonder if they were cheating again. You can't have a good, loving, trusting relationship under those circumstances. I would also strongly doubt their love for me if they cheated. If someone truly loves you, then they wouldn't want to cheat on you. In their mind there would be noone better than you and they wouldn't risk the relationship with you for something as superficial as sex with someone they aren't in love with.
315689
I'd let him go. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you can't let him go make him stand on the sidewalk by a busy road holding a sign that says "This is my punishment for cheating on my girlfriend". I saw a guy on the news who did that to try to win his girlfriend back.
34172
As long as you realize tht if he cheats on his girlfriend with you, he will cheat on you with someone else, go for it.
1153935
I think cheating is when you sneak to do anything behind someones back that you wouldn't do to their face. I also think a deception about what you want or who you are when you're getting into a relationship is the biggest and worst cheat you can do to someone else. When they find the lie, that's the biggest hurt, being fooled that something is as it truly is not.
746012
Depends what you mean.  If you mean in a relationship and you've been cheated on, then no.  That will always be in the back of your mind.
71791
I believe people can change. Once a cheat always a cheat is very judgmental. Anyway, to spend your life with someone, you need to trust him. If you don't think he can be trusted, don't let him back just because he begged. Only you yourself can decide, please also take your baby into consideration. Wish you the best.
863255
Yes, but it takes time and a huge commitment on both sides to make it happen!\n\nIf the person who cheated is willing to rebuild the trust they destroyed and the one cheated on is willing to work on forgiveness, than it is possible.  Difficult, but possible!
828196
Very, wery possible. No once aperson cheats it is higly likely they will do so again.\nAdvise him, to take caution.\nPerhaps it would be best for him since the past cheating is knowledge to forget this gal. Find him someone more stabel.\nHE could get into a bad realtionship with this gal and relly get hurt\nSounds like she wants to jump from one man to another.