Why we must to look preety to get a handsome boyfriend. Is that so important to make a relationship?
823904
No it is not necessary, beauty lies in the eyes of ........\nIf u r good, u will definately get a nice guy of your dreams. Good Luck.
691117
Well it depends on the guy you're looking for. Guys really like it when you can relate to them about something. It's hard to start a relationship or keep one going if you don't have something to talk about. And always show that you're interested. If you don't have a boyfriend right now then it can't get any worse if u try so it's always worth trying to get a boyfriend. You don't have to be hott to get a boyfriend, be yourself and as long as you try everything'll fall inot place. Give it time, be patient. Everything'll work out.\n\nGood Luck!
656772
The truth is that personality is the most important, but there has to be some level of attraction.  However, in my case, once I've gotten to know a guy he's become more and more attractive.
772454
Beauty is taken in consideration by majority guys...but wat wud u do wid dat beauty..wen ur not happy wid her ??? beauty has to be skin deep,,,n wen ur wid a mature..practical.. person in life...he wud know da value..da worth of da person he's wid...he wud'nt bother bout wats outside...but how beautiful dat person is inside..
1127224
you don't go out and look for a boyfriend...when the right guy comes in your life, it'll happen....but take your time so you get a Good boyfriend...
578458
May be the insecurity complex of Handsome people coz they cant stand competition. Second that knowning their face value they know they can get anyone easily, and they often do, so they want to make sure it doen't happen with their partner -- while they ceat around the 'ugly' partner stays honest. Third, since they are handsom and God had to make some compromise so He reduced their senses, and they cant appreciate beauty anymore, while the 'ugly' partner is compensated and gifted with sense of beauty, thus chooses the good looking. Least but not the last ;) looks are only shallow, what matters is heart --- and whether ugly or handsom, if you have a beautiful heart, you will see beauty everywhere. :)\n\nLast but not the least -- my lover is very beautiful!
487420
I don't think that is completely accurate.\n\nHere is what I learned (in 46 years).  At first men and women are attracted to each other's looks.  But given the chance to learn more about a person, the better chance a person of "average" looks may do as well with boy/girlfriends, as the 'better looking' ones.  At some point the cute boy or girl will need to say something.  If they exhibit no personality, or a bad personality, they will be less than successful in relationships.\n\nGirls are drawn to a cute boy, but he better have a good personality, and treat her right or she will leave at some point, yet a boy with average looks might treat her with respect, and have a good sense of humer, etc..  He will go further with that same girl, if she is not so shallow as to just go for looks. \n\nThe same is true for a girl.  Once you get past the beauty, there better be a personality.
426863
looks is always been the measure concern for a girl to attract boyz. But this is when we talk about the short term and lite relationship, flirting to be concise. But when we talk about serious relationship, it takes time. and even if girl is not gud by looks,but nice by her nature, definitely she iz gonna win evryone's heart.
650788
Well don't focus so much on looks focus more on building a relationship w/ him and just being funny and nice. If there is chemistry it will happen but if it doesn't there are other fish in the sea.
105076
appearance is very important combined with a great personality too. i ve never been with a guy who doesnt have a great body. I appreciate personality too but in a relationship looks matter equally. Physical features? i ll say his eyes, his lips, his shoulders, his stomach and his butt
294668
It honestly depends on the guy.  From my experience anyway.  Some guys are genuine and look for a gal with a good personality (which is what should be important), although looks are also important - but should not be a deciding factor in whether or not a guy is interested.  There are guys out there that are more concerned with looks, but hey - looks can be deceiving :P
297537
People like to say that looks dont matter and its whats on the inside that truely counts. While this is true in theory is is most often not very true in practice.\n\nMost people given the choice between an average looking person who has a great personallity and an attractive person with a bad personality will go with the attractive person. I think the reason is that people think of their boyfriends/girlfriends a fashion items. "Nice coat!" "Cute shoes!" "Oh nice boyfriend! You got the whole set."\n\nI had a big time crush on a friend of mine who is in a wheelchair. She is awesome to be with, kick ass, and a beatiful person. Our lives went to very different paths so we never dated but I sure as hell wanted to.\n\nIf the person cares for you as a person, none of that shit should matter.
826217
Obviously, the first thing you notice about someone is their appearance. There are still a few of us guys that look beyond that though. I have dated some very good looking gals that I lost interest in due to lack of conversation. I have dated several ordinary/plain looking gals and had far better relationships with them. To some of us, what's inside means more than what's outside, but noone wants someone they aren't physically attracted to.
94944
First of all im going to start off by saying that I am not an ugly girl at all. I have dated club owners of well known downtown clubs in Houston, and many other successfull business men. I am curently dating a pro baseball player.I was the type of girl that went for the looks right off the bat, only because i had to be physically attracted to a guy if I was going to date him. But since then I learned a very good lesson while dating all of those men. Looks are not everything. At least there not to me anymore. I now look at the guy in the inside. If you have a good sense of humor and your just a really positive person YOU WILL ATTRACT THE RIGHT TYPE OF GIRLS. That a good guy like you should want. A good honest decent girl who  wants a man that has a heart and  a good head on his shoulders. you need to stop looking at what you dont have and focus on what you do have, all of your good qualities. I love a guy that is confident and knows that what he has to offer a lady is more then just looks. Appearence is not everything. Good luck in finding that girl and keep me posted. Sorry if that wasnt the advice that you were looking for.
823769
looks are important of course, every girl wants a guy that is attractice, but personality wise someone funny, caring, confident, yet shy can be really cute too. Basically a guy that is fun and brings out the best in you :)
758502
to me its personality first and foremost, with connection a close second. as far as the looks/body part of it ....thats last because everyone in this world changes with time, ages ect. looks and body's fade but the heart and soul of a person is whats its all about. if 2 people truly love one another and share a good connection then time will only enhance their relationship. \n\nif looks/body is what attracts u or is most important, then more then likely u will end up dissapointed in many years to come. \n\nall the best to u in ur search!
1145581
Well I would love to say that looks aren't an issue. In this day and age it is! There is too much importance put on looking like the perfect model or the perfect man. The money issue of it may not be as important. You can be happy with a poor man as long as you love one another whether he was extremely handsome or just so so. This is a kind of catch 22 question. \n\nMy personal feeling is if I met a poor man and we were attracted to one another I would definitely go for it, with him being handsome as a "plus". If I met a man who made a good living and he was a bit conceited or his personality just wasn't what it should be I would definitely not pursue that one, no matter how "cute" he was or kinda cute he was. As they say, money does not always bring you happiness!