I have been tested before but I am so fearful of stds I may never have intercourse again.?
829931
i would tell you to make sure who you are with is clean and dont stay single over this there is a thing called tests to see if you or this man you might fall in love with can get and it now days pays to be safe rather than sorry in my opion?
413951
you can have any std without knowing it, even aids; if youre worried you better get tested
982486
get tested immediately- know that you could have had it way before him. Symptoms aren't obvious and they don't always show.  I have heard that 80% of women carry the virus nowadays, so there is no  way to track it to one partner.  Protect yourself!
468511
You are smart. Make sure he is tested for Hepatitis, not just HIV. I would request HSV and VDRL serologies also. These would rule out syphillis and herpes. Repeat these in 3 and 6 months after as well and use condoms.\n\nConsider his willingness to do the testing and allay your fears as a sign that he is committed to the relationship and respects you.
1176424
i'm smart enough not to use condom if my partner & I are both: hiv tested neg, & tested free of any other yucky STDs & are married/exclusive to 1 another
1093320
You will never know until it's too late. Far too many people have AIDS and they don't find out until months and even years later. Just be careful if you are sexually active becuase just because someone looks clean or has been tested ( they could've had unprotected sex after they got tested!) it doesn't mean they are free from STDS.
810564
Being paranoid, but if this stresses you out so much, maybe use a condom and get on birth control. \n\nI think you'll be OKAY this time. (if all the information given is factual)
332269
well its already happened so there really is nothing to change the situation. i would say find out if protection was used if not take the next day pill. and in a few weeks go get tested for std's just to be safe. and next time u go drinking take a friend with u to help prevent it from happening again. its called the buddy system.
473352
Could happen. Wait a couple weeks and go see a doctor. They can test pretty early on for most STD's. Good luck with that.
636734
It's funny how people on here love to jump to conclusions before they hear the person asking the question's full statement!I don't think it is possible to get a STD if you are not sexually active so that cancels that horrific scenario out, you could be allergic to a certain material used in your undergarments, or if you use like a feminine deodorant spray such as fds, it could be causing a reaction, the worst it could be is a possible yeast infection and instead of using over the counter methods or drugs it would probably be safe to consult with your doctor.
229700
i agree with the guy above man.....if you have to ask then you not ready...but that doesn't mean you're wrong in asking. it may be embarassing but there are people who can answer your questions n there are *gasps* pamphlets n i have heard of workshops lol. but yeah if you decide to have sex...best o luck to ya...be safe....use a condom...AIDS is for real n so are STDs. take care
831713
There's a myriad of reasons, but I bet an infection.  Possibly a UTI (i.e., urinary tract infection) or maybe a latex allergy if you used a condom.  Everyone reacts differently.  Unfortunately, at this point, you need to see your gynecologist before it gets worse; if it is an infection you won't be able to "wait it away".... you'll need some meds asap before it gets worse.  Hurry up and don't wait!
850837
Yes, I have genital herpes. I was diagnosed about 2 years ago. When I found out I started to cry on the spot. My dr. said that it is normal to feel ashamed. The thing is he said that all this means is that I had sex. It is amazing how many people have it. It is even more amazing how many people have it and dont know it. That is why it is spread so easily. Although that is scary, it made me feel better about it. You can get crabs from a toilet seat and herpes and crabs even if protection is used. People think that it cant happen to them but it can and it probably is happening to them they just dont know. Dont be ashamed. Be proud of who you are. An STD doesnt define who you are. You will learn in time to except this. If you ever want to talk about this you can always email me. Good luck sweety!! Keep your chin up!
589461
you sure bet it will.  Are you stupid, the risk is only slightly lower than regular intercourse but go get tested immediately if this happend and then be abstin6ate for months and get retested.
1050783
It sounds like you are pondering having sex with someone you think may be infected with HIV.  I am going to assume you have an IQ of 70 and write this in caps so  you don't miss it...\n\nDON'T HAVE SEX WITH PEOPLE WHOM YOU THINK MAY HAVE HIV.\n\nIf it were 100% chance of you contracting it, why would anyone go to the clinic to get tested with their fingers crossed?
230487
I wish everyone was as scared of Aids as you are.  You are wise for getting checked.  I annually get checked.  Never have unprotected sex.  Even if you are in a long-term monogamous relationship, get checked 1x year.  Although I hate to say this, you never know if your partner is sleeping around.  Protect yourself under any circumstance.\n\nWishing you all the best.
498511
YOU need to get tested, now and in 6 months, and give all his information at the clinic when they ask you about your past partners, the health department and the CDC will take it from there.\nYou look out for YOU!