my friend is 35 and goin 2 college is a relationship with a teacher illegal n why?
821779
I'm a little confused...if your friend is 35 it isn't illegal, she can still get him fired
535786
yes student and teacher/staff relationships should only be friendly and not more than that.\n\nalso most schools have a rule against that and the teacher could get fired and the student can be expelled.
1180828
In the state of Georgia as of 2006, a child of 17 years of can not\nmove out of parents home without permission. Unless another\nguardian is appointed or you are amansiapted. \nContact your local juvinile office if in doubt.\nThe only reason the law enforcement does not enforce this law\nis because it would cost millions of dollars to enforce and most\npolice officers are not up to date on juvy laws.\n\nAnother few months will not hurt if your truly in love and you can\nfinish school to make a brighter future for the two of you. Then just maybe Mom will be more for the relationship.\n\nGood Luck!!!!\n\nAlready been there!!!!!!!!!
239186
there is nothing wrong with having this kind of relationship.Just be sure that your pal gets to understand the confidentiality of this relationship.I wish you all the best.
111104
It's unlawful to have sex with someone under 18, being as he is older but still a minor he still could be charged with rape. When your both over 18 and adults then your legal.
718500
I think it's wrong. Now correct me if I am wrong but what can a 17 yr old boy have in common with a 35yr woman? Woman are more mature than men, let alone she is a self made woman she has a career he is still trying to have one. So she is always going to pay for everything, and buy him clothes and video games, and maybe his 1st car at that too. What about his parents they must think it's crazy, what if he has a curfew isn't she going to get tiered or better yet how do you introduce him to family and friends"oh this is my student and lover"?...not a good idea
648866
its illegal. and it raise questions whether or not she is taking advantage because according to the law(in most western countries-i don't know which one is yours)it would be a form of rape because your not old enough to make the decision (this is assuming your sleeping together). \n\n5 years difference isn't much really but it seems a great deal bigger at your age, if it was 30 and 35 no-one would think anything of it.\n\npersonally i think you should wait a couple of years so its not a kid with an adult. but its up to you if your responsible and obviously if your parents are fine with your relationship.\n\nif your going to see her make sure its a partnership and your comfortable with the what takes place in the relationship. there is nothing wrong with you not being ready for some of the things she is (i though i should say that just in case).\n\ni can understand your interest, it makes you look cool to your friends but its quite odd that a 20 year old is interested in a 15 year old child(no offence) and its bordering on paedophilia.\n\n\ni think the perfect age for a boys girlfriend is supposed to be something like half his age plus seven, so in theory your perfect girlfriend should be 14.5 years old.
545373
Hi, this is a very complex situation, and you have explained it very well.  Your friend who is 15 and gay, has a non-sexual relationship with a 21-year-old gay man.  Your concern is for your friend because he has a "crush" on this man, but the man is "not interested' (sexually?) in your friend.  So to begin with all the "against the law" answers are wrong. Unless a physical relation is part of the equation even our puritanically demented society has not passed a law forbidding friendship between people of different ages.  If it did organizations like Big Brothers and Sisters would have to stop their excellent work.  Through out our lives, it helps to have a "mentor."  Someone who is a bit more experienced than ourselves who can help us through some of the "passages" of life.  This cannot always be a parent, no matter how much we may love our parents, because a parent has different concerns (our safety) and often sees us a "child." To have a slightly older friend, who has gone through some life experience and can share and encourage is important.  Having said this, your concern is is for your friend, in terms of his feelings (crush) and the 21-year-old for his "life" and reputation.  I think your concern shows you to be a caring individual and true and good friend.  Hopefully we are always ready to listen to the people like you in our lives.  Have you calmly expressed your concerns to your friend in a way as clear as your question here?  If you have, and he still wishes to pursue this relationship then there is not much you can do.  I think the best "advice" you could give to your friend is to point out the Issues involved: 1) The 21-year-old is (according to you) uninterested, uninitiated (a virgin) and would suffer the "legal" consequences of any physical relationship - so is your friend ready to "accept' these "boundaries" to the relationship? 2) Can your friend pursue a friendship without a physical relationship (his crush?) Can he control his own feelings?\nOnce you have helped your friend clarify the situation and his responsibilities, then you can only support him in whatever decision he arrives at.  \nI would only add that a non-sexual "mentoring" relationship, while important for everyone, is especially important for gay and lesbian youth.  Most people have "models" of what they want and need to become in their parents, teachers, social heros, etc. But gay people grown-up largely without any models, without anyone who can say, "I did this, you can too."  So even though your friend sounds like a confident young gay man, with a loving family and wonderful supportive friends such as yourself, he may still need an "older" model that he can talk to about things and try to follow - always given the non-sexual, non-exploitive nature of the relationship.  Good luck.
244667
how old are u?  maybe he is just protecting her,,,maybe its not u at all, and its just the fact that she is not of age to see you in that manner, or they want her to continue to go to school and college, and not get too involved w a boy yet.... If u love her....u will let her parents do their job and raise her properly...be her freind for now and show her father u will be there in the end.....good luck deary
1029673
There is NO WAY ON EARTH that a 14 year old should be going out with an 18 year old.  It is not "against the law" to date, but anything sexual with him is a crime (for him, not for you).
171380
admiring a teacher and being infatuated by one is two totally different things, I see that you are very young,so telling you my opinion and your heart telling you what to do is going to conflict;however here goes!\nFirst if he is married,I strongly reccommend you let this go, breaking up a marriage is not good, Secondly, I see that you are under age, this will create a serious legal problem for him that could possibly lead to some jail time and if you care for him, I don't think you want this to happen, finally, he would lose his job, so if you give in to your heart you will cost him all of this, and drive a wedge between the two of you that neither will probably never recover from. so weigh you decisions carefully, perhaps after your 18th birthday if you still feel the same, AND HE IS SINGLE, you can pursue it with a clear conscious.
536148
If they are adults, and noone is getting paid a purse, and you are not charging admission (like a proffesional fight) then it shouldnt be illegal.\n\nIf they are minors, then parental consent, and supervision will be required.
983040
I could understand a freshman wanting to go out with a senior, but I do not think it's appropriate.  The difference in age may be only 3 years, but that's a big difference at that age.  And I think the senior should think twice about going out with a freshman, especially if sexual activity is anticipated.  It's like an adult taking advantage of a kid.  Ever hear of statutory rape?
917805
17 is still considered a minor. She can "date" older men that is not illegal. Sexual contact would be illegal. However, you would be hard pressed to get a prosecutor to bring a case considering she is 17.
116393
It is NOT against the law but there are education requirments that the child must meet later, many kids do not begin school until 6 so this is not terribly unusual but perhaps the child is going to be home educated.
130828
That does kinda look bad since he is like double her age, it depends really if they are from USA it gonna be bad cause of the laws, but europe it would be fine cause its legal, does this 16 year old girl know what she getting herself into? he is at the age where he started a career and hopefully wants wife and children while her age still at school and has so many years left and hasnt started to know what she wants. I think she seriously needs to think about it and I don't want to sound mean or nothing but a 30 year old guy not gonna get serious with a 16 year old sorry!
416219
There is nothing wrong with it, in my opinion. Even with the stagitory (sp?) rape situation (which im sure will come up somewhere)at least in some states, is that it has to be atleast a 5 yr. difference, regaurdless if someone is under 16. Some may say that is wrong with the age difference, but love has no boundaries, and love is love either way. As long as no one is being taken advantage of or used, then I see no problem with this. I mean, they could hypathetically going to the same school with each other, IOW, highschool, so what's the problem in that? My parents are remarried, one is 9 years older than their spouse, the other is 5. But when you are dealing with such a young age, the only thing I could think would be an issue is the maturity levels that may differ, but even then, that does not justify this being "wrong". so in my opinion, the answer is not wrong.