Any ideas of something fun to do with my 14 & 16 yr old stepkids?
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Ice skating, roller skating, putt-putt, bowling, shopping at a music store, get outside & play sports with them, throw a baseball, touch footbal, basketball.
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Go buy some cheap candles and flowers, make them dinner, and set it up for them, that is if you have keys to their home and they aren't going out.  Set up a romantic evening for them and then leave.  Or make them up a cute picnic basket, that is if they live in an area that is nice during the middle of the summer.  You could make a little photo album or scrapbook for them.
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you could make confetti eggs and have the kids bust them over each others heads and everytime one gets busted, you ask how many are left and you can add eggs and ask them how many there are now. I think they'd have a lot of fun with it. Or you can use jelly beans as add and subtract with each individual tray. Tina
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If you can get creative, collect some pictures of the two of you and make a photo album (or scrapbook) of you both growing up. Maybe write a poem to include.
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go for a pumping cadio dance class, have a shower, watch a movie with a glass of wine and sum chocolates...\nget funky with sum1....
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I like the party idea and the skating idea.  Going to a concert might be too pricey for 13 year olds.  But if you like museums, that's a great way to spend an afternoon.  I suggest doing somehting you both like, doesn't cost a lot of money, and gives lots of opportunities to laugh, converse and have a great time.  How about taking a walk to a local park to play tennis or basketball?
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Post what their ages are in your additional details and i'll be able to give better advice. BLESS YOU WOMAN. You are one brave soul! My children are 9 and 10 so I'll have to go with what I would want to do. BOWLING. Both sexes like it and you don't have to do much entertaining. Start making our a guest list now. The party is going to be in February but start organizing the details now. I'd make sure to buy canned pop. It's less of a mess and it will save you time. Ask your child what they want as far as cake and ice cream is concerned. Also, I always recruit a mother to help me out. It's usually my sister and my aunt.
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Go to Ac Mooreof a craft store and get some pretty crate paper and ribbon, a soap making kit and make some beautiful soaps, get some pretty scents and some real lavender or eucapyptus leaves.. put them in the soap mix.. and wrap them pretty in the crate paper, tie a ribbon around it and get them a poof or washcloth from the dollar store...find other lil fun things at the dollar store and make them a bath basket  or you can even make bath salts toooo... \n\nfor the kids get them a basket full of fun thing from the dollar store, silly putty, play doh, dolls, etc. the men get them a coffeee cup fill it with hot cocoa package, and some marshemellows in a zipply bag, maybe some candy too... the tie a ribbon around the whole thing..
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Encourage the imagination!  Play pretend with me, and encourage me to be silly.\n\nWhen my kids were little, we set up the small dome tent in the back yard, and it become, well, everything.  We blasted off to space in it, we explored the jungle using it as a base camp, we had fun in it.\n\nWe played.  Together.
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Always better to show them how much you care by spending time together. Doesn't have to be fancy. Just take them somewhere special.
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There's a lot of good cheap fun things to do...go fishing together it's fun and doesn't cost alot...go to a park and have a picnic,,make sandwiches and stuff together..be like kids again and go fly a kite...go to a hiking trail and walk together...take a drive..go look at Fancy houses you dream of living in...hope this somewhat helped...
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try dish soap and water... you can just get the cheap stuff, add it to water and let them have fun
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I have a sister same age.  Think of something really special and do it with her or for her.
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Go to a nice michelin star restaurant and then a movie.. although it might get a little pricey per person, its old enough to be fun and young enough to be appropriate.. you only turn 14 once!\n\nor you could also go do something fun like go to the zoo if its a nice day.. or go out on a boat if you have water around u (theres a yacht club near my house that has a big dinner cruise ship on it thats really great for parties).. what else can I think of???\n\nyou can always check out if theres any cool events like concerts or car shows in your area at that time?\n\nmaybe laser tag or roller skating??\n\naite thats it im out of ideas...\n\nthe luau was a great idea too tho.. my friend and i had a luau for our grade 8 grad and it was awesome.. we had (parentally supervised) backyard fires on those poles that u can get at canadian tire that keep away mosquitos.. lots of hawaiian food and exotic fruits.. a fake pig.. grass/straw skirts for the girls, leis for everyone and we even learned some hula dancing to teach everyone.. the funnest part was that we got this huge bedsheet draped on the back of my house and rented a projector and watched a movie when it got a little darker.. we had like sheets spread out on the floor and fires n blankets to keep us warm! it was awesome :)\n\ntheres so much you could do! take a couple of your best friends and go to the party stores around you and gudness knows what you guys will come up with to plan!!
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Make it fun or somethig like play a game
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i am one year year younger then you but i will still give you my suggestion. help your parents at home or go and do some sports. or you can just go have a ball (have a lot of fun) with your friends.
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Cook together, wash our cars together, watch old movies, play monopoly, take a shower together...the list goes on.  Just try what both of you like to do, but do it together. Good luck!