Why are boys so hard to understand and so confusing sometimes?
827841
I am making a few assumptions here. \n\n1. You are female\n2. You're a young teenager.\n3. There's a boy you like whose intentions are unclear.\n\nSo, in this case.. boys are confusing and hard to understand because they don't quite understand themselves yet. There's a lot happening -- parts getting bigger and doing new and sometimes exciting things, noticing girls, school getting harder and more brutal. \n\nOh yeah, and boys.. they say the same thing about girls too. It's part of the 'fun' of being young. To enjoy our differences :) Best of luck!
99909
Teenage boys are sometimes moodier than girls, I think.  My son has gone through all the moodiness, the beligerance, the "peer pressure" to do things he knows aren't right or that he wasn't raised to do, and to an extent, bouts with low self-esteem, although he is a very handsome and well-liked young man.  I always told him that the things we face that are the hardest are the things that make us stronger in the long run.  I did the best I could to try to build him up, and to also try to remember the way I felt as a teenager, so I could try to "pick my battles" with him in a more positive way.
727866
Eh. it's a tuffy. Some guys show it differently. Like maybe they will laugh at you & make fun of you, like most immature boys, or they will come right out & tell you. Guys are very...weird with their feelings. They're just too complicated. Haha.
883543
first, you need to know how to spell things, then he might be able to understand you :D jkz jkz\njust be brave n go 4 it! xxx
568474
Female Logic.  Virtually impossible for males to comprehend.
476814
Because we as parents love our children and when we hear something that is forign to us, we worry.  What we have to realize is that our children are intelligent human beings that can make decisions.  \nThe problem is that when children are very young they are really good at percieving things but not very good at interpreting.  we carry that even when you get older.  We worry that you will take the words literally and that they will corrupt you.  We are not perfect.
135047
There are many reasons why girls are "difficult", one is..that lovely "period", another is you cant figure out something that changes everyday and we are just as difficult as boys...haha\n\nok heres the real facts:\nGirls when they want something they ususally tend to want consensus or approval from you. For example, she wants to eat at a specific restraunt, lets say Applebees. She ususally wont say, "I want to eat at Applebees!" She'll say," hey you heard about that restraunt Applebees, alot of people say its good..." You see she is seeking your approval or opinion without telling you directly what she wants or "what she means". So try to see what she is really saying by telling your opinion and THEN asking for hers. Then be flexible at that point ask her," you wanna eat there sumtime?" bla bla bla. Also, listen to how many times she may bring a certain subject up..that probably means she wants it even more. well I hope this helped!
140164
It depends on which girl, many girls even don't know what they want in their boy.
29618
Guys are just as hard as women to understand, First of all his maturity(not age) is a big determination, then talk to him and you should find out whata your lookin for. Just don't play him unless he plays you because both sexes do that.
72868
It's part of the wonderful mystery of life!\n\nIt's virtually impossible for anyone to fully understand anyone else (except, perhaps, for identical twins). Then, when you add the extra layer of difference between the sexes, you've got a real challenge on your hands.\n\nDon't worry about understanding. While you might never achieve it competely, you'll come as close as  possible when you meet the right person (and if you work at it). Meanwhile, enjoy the ride.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com
419483
The male species keeps things simple in communications with other men.  When they begin to deal with the female species they are only familiar with one way unfortunately.  It is too much to ask a teenage male to read between the lines, however you could be more simple in your communications to avoid confusion.  I bet the male specimen that you are referring to probably feels you are too complex.  LOL this is the mystery of love.
274018
Being a women, I understand how difficult men can be, but honestly, i think us women are the harder ones to understand. We say one thing, but feel another way.... We are just soo totally confusing at times!!!!! LOL
533581
Because we are confusing, needy, indecisive, rather complex creatures.  Nothing wrong with that though.  Its difficult for chicks to understand guys sometimes too.
856721
maybe because you confuse him...
566237
firstly, it shows them that you think that what they are saying is important, secondly, often you need to read between the lines of what they are saying as their language skills are still developing and they cannot always make themselves understood and thirdly, you expect them to give you their undevided attention when you are speaking to them, so the best way to teach this to them is by setting a good example, yourself. :)
905404
all that guys do is try to  figure girls out./ females are really complicated and never say what they mean. in trying to figure out what girls mean guys tend to get it wrong. so it really is our fault lol
1119853
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nBoys are immature, so expect them to act that way.