do you look through your partners mobile phone?
829481
As long as you are comfortable with the notion that you will most likely find something you won't like to see/know, even if it's harmless to your relationship, and then can't even share what you feel with them.  \nIf you are looking to 'catch' him and to use what you find (infidelity etc..) to end the relationship, then go for it... otherwise it will just make you feel guilty and helpless.  If you are in a happy & trusting relationship, don't do it!
708121
NO!  I beg of you, use your head not your heart.  Wouldn't he have called you or a friend or a locksmith for that matter, if he were locked out of his place?  The fact that you knew where the girlfriend lives and works makes it seems as if this is not the first time and you and the ex has a (fighting) history.  Find someone more loyal, more discreet or maybe a little smarter... How on earth did he let her get the phone?!\nGood Luck!
266588
you can ask. but just because you ask doesn't mean you are going to be told the truth. \n\nsigns of cheating:\nchange in dress habits\nchanges the way he looks\n(^^^although, he could want a new look, those 2 are tricky)\nhe's never around for you and when he is, he's looking at the clock for when he can leave\ntakes calls in another room so you don't hear them\nhe doesn't answer the phone for you when he normally would and when you do talk to him, he doesn't have a straight answer for why he didn't answer\nasks if your cheating on him\n\njust google 'signs of cheating' and a whole bunch of links show up. Read a few and compare it to your situation.\n\nGut feelings are nothing to ignore. If you truly believe he is cheating, maybe you should go with your heart and leave him.
26309
depends! are you talking to the person ur in a relationship with? b-cuz thats fine! if not then it depends on what ur talking about!
405655
If you know his name, then you know he's on the sites, right? If you know why are you still with him. Obviously he doesn't respect you enough to pull his profiles from those sites. If he saw the relationship lasting he wouldn't have a need to further use these sites. For your happiness, ditch his cheating *ss!! Good luck!!
121070
it might mean she is cheating but it's not for sure, see if you can see the other signs , like if she is reluctant to tell you about her day, of if she does not answer her cell phone, orrrr if she seem realy distant\n\ni hope you find out that nothing is wrong , i was betrayed once and it is the worst feeling in the world
913868
if you think something is going on then you have every right to spy. however, getting caught if he isn't cheating or doing anything wrong can have some bad consequences. there is no reason that he shouldn't be able to have a phone conversation in front of you or be lying about how often he talks to her. something is going on. check it out.
169159
That's a ridiculous question. How should anyone on the internet know whether your boyfriend is being faithful or not?
1184138
he wants to talk about sex on the phone.... most likely masturbate together as you both talk
1074632
You went through his personal stuff thinking you would find something and YOU DID! First off, going through his stuff is wrong and you are in the wrong for doing so; however, since you know whats up why do you want someone in you life like that? He's not going to be able to trust you and vice versa...it doenst get better from here even if you two agree to be with other, cause even though we forgive we never forget.\nYou two are just friends, right?  So then you two are allowed to see other people, right?  Technically, he is doing nothing wrong.  If you want more with him then that shouldhave been stated.  The rules needed to out laid down and I'm thinking they weren't, or were maybe unclear.  All in all, why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with other people?  \nI know exactly what youre going through and honey, it wont get easier cause youll keep finding shit out.  Since you had access to his e-mail, youll try to get access to other things, like his phone, voicemail, any other personal stuff...its not cool to go through his shit cause ultimately you know youre gonna find something.  That voice inside, that feeling in your gut...it doesnt lie
265387
Not sure, but if it is affecting your relationship it has to end.  Doesn't matter what they are saying if it brings a wedge between you.  Tell her to use the phone.
96979
Perhaps he still lives with his parents.  If you know their name, look up their number.  Or, maybe he is married and the phone is listed in his wife's name. Or, maybe he has room mates and the phone is listed in their name.  Or, maybe he has a cellphone - or an unlisted number.  The surefire way to find out is ask him.
570811
It is a bit rude to use someone else's phone to make a call wtihout asking.\n\nI would keep a wary eye on this one.
209653
He's human.  He's going to look.  Don't you find other men attractive?  Looking is not a big deal, but if he's touching and exchanging phone numbers, there's a problem.
1187935
The question is:  How can I see pictures of YOU in my cell phone!  You are absolutely stunning.
1054316
That sounds like two separate issues.  Prior to knowing a woman had texted his phone.....you had already looked at it.  Is there a reason that you are checking the texts?  Did you already suspect something was up?  Commonly if you suspect something is going on...it is.  Secondly, are you positive that the text was meant for your husbands phone?  I have had texted from people that were meant to go to someone else.  No matter if you were already suspecting something or not.....approach the subject easily with your husband.  You do not want to open a can of worms that never existed.  \n\nIsn't marriage supposed to be about trust?  You have no trust in your husband so you two have more problems than a woman texting your husband.  You need to get things out in the open to have a good marriage.
766710
I wouldn't put up with it. It sounds like your of the same mind. My man would eat a phone if he was with me talking to another girl.