will my daugter ever come back to me after she has been brained washed by my ex?
823996
As long as there are people brain washing her and telling her bad things about you she probably wont come around. You know your a good mother it sounds like your ex needs to find a hobby and quit trying to ruin the relationship between you and your daughter. I havent ever been through this but if my husband were to ever turn our daughter against me it would just break in two. My daughter is my every dream come true and I cant even imagine how things are for you right now. I hope that she doesnt listen to all this garbage thats been said about you and hopefully she will start contacting you again good luck.
854835
You might want to think that about that before you do anything permanent. Perhaps you can draw up legal papers so that you don't deal with your ex at all, she can drop your kid off at the police station, for example and you can do the same without ever seeing her. I grew up without a dad and it was extremely painful. Please think of the child first.
871691
u can't get her back enless u'v been away from her 4 only a couple days. if not, ow you in trouble. if u really want advice than ask her not people online. tell her u need her not us. if she understands u 2 where meant 4 each other . good luck. e-mail me and tell me how it works out at kayseasbq_10
366889
When something similar happened to me, I tried to forgive but I could not forget. I ended up having to leave him for my own sanity. That level of betrayal is unforgivable.It sucks but you don't seem to be able to move on with her so maybe you so move without her.
583685
I know what is going on here, I had the same thing happen to me to, she broke up with me and then one day she called me and kept calling me. She probably made a mistake by breaking it off, and now that she realizes that, she wants to try to reconcile that and see if there is possibly another chance that you two might get back together. Don't be surprised if she says, "I miss you" the next time you two talk if she hasn't already said it. Hopefully all will work out for you, take care.
676881
Its possible!  dont call her, and get a new girlfriend.\nshe will come back.
322937
Keep trying for that child's sake. But make sure she wants you back. She has to TELL you she wants you back. Don't just tell yourself she does for no good reason except that is what YOU want.
591771
Why are you lost? Why don't you know yourself? You just lost someone important in your life, not your life itself pal.\n\nYou are a great guy, strong, full of love, joy, you are an honorable man, you are funny, you are cool, you are a man that can make any girl happy. What happened in the past with your ex is stuff of the past, LET IT GO. If she didn't appreciated all what you offered her, all that good stuff, IT IS HER FAULT, NOT YOURS.\n\nAnd you are wrong, even her cannot do a single thing to you, THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU. And why are you going to hang out there for a little while to see what people say? You know yourself, you have been living with your self all your life, you know what kind of man you are, you know where you have your nuts buddy!\n\nPain, lots of pain. Pain might lead you to two things: (1) more pain --> death, or (2) victory. Wars involve pain and death, but pain and death leads to victory to the one that is stronger and smarter; and I think that you are from the side of the strong and smarter ones. How do I know it? Because I don't spend my time writing to losers.\n\nStand up and start walking...
442901
u have to try to be strong...think about why she broke up with u if u dont know ask her. try to stay on her good side and fight to get her back but dont allow her to see how hard u r tryin if she is takin u for granted cuz she will never take u back she will keep playin with your emotions but if she needs to see how hard u r tryin to get her back let her see. if there is no way u can get her back then seek help from a pro. meanwhile talk to someone about it cry if u have to and make sure u think about the good times and not the bad cuz that will make u feel worst. if u really love her then i think u should put up a fight its better than not tryin at all. as time passes u will start feelin better u will not see it now bcuz she just broke up with u but as time passes u will see things gettin easier. its not gonna happen over night at all this is a healing process. if u wanna talk further about it ill be there for u. email me at jbhola87@yahoo.com...till then feel better. PRAY!
111565
Stop being selfish and let her be happy for once.  Even if you could get her back, it would never be the same...she will always have some bit of resentment towards you.
996764
baby, you need to open YOUR eyes.  sadly, she'll likely only realize how much you love her when you're not there anymore, when you've moved on for good.  sweet-heart, she's using you for a back-up.  you are feeding and satisfying her hurt ego.  this is not good for you.  I'm sure she doesn't intend to use you because when you've been cheated on you're an emotional mess, but she is.\nmove on, sugar.  this relationship is destructive to you.
341349
Dont go backwards. History has a way of repeating itself-move forward is it really worthwile putting yourself through emotional turmoil again? She wants you and someone else???? You are worth more.
96277
Keep going with your ralationship with her, but keep your eyes open at the same time. Maybe she is with you because she needs something to fill the hole in her broken heart for the moment, but how can you be sure she is loving you because of who you are. Think about when you are about to drown, you would grab anything you can get with the hope it would help you not to sink in the water ... Don't soak yourself in the pain of what had happened, but try to understand why it happened, why and how she (and he) did that ... This will help you to realized better who they really are ...\nKeep the ralationship longer, and sooner or later you will find out if she truelly loves you, because of who you are, and is the right person for you, before you make your life's important decition.\nLook forward, be a man and good luck !
511993
i understand your pain and frustration i just wish my ex saw how much i cared for him then maybe he wouldnt be in the uk, i waited a long time for a guy like him, and i hate it but know one i meet is like him, you do your part you tell her its up to her to listen.\ni really hope it works out well for you and she opens up more to you and understands the way you feel for her.\ngood luck and take care
605776
she is a very messed up woman and we have very messed up laws that dont protect the rights of fathers - there are some organizations out there that fight for the rights of fathers, you definately should contact them  - I doubt that your ex will see reason, but she is going to have to understand that the kids do need a father figure if she wants a healthy environment for them...
13268
Can you be a bit more specific about the situation? How does SHE feel? Is she separated? Unhappy? You definitely aren't nuts though. Many have been there before and will be in this situation again.
303041
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.