why is my boyfriend mean 2 me?
827925
He's a jerk maybe? Doesn't respect you ? Needs his asss kicked?
508575
If you feel that way then it's not a healthy relationship and you should dump him. Love should make you feel like you'll burst from happiness. If it doesn't feel right it's not. Maybe one or both of you is/are suffering from depression. Maybe he has no respect for you. Is he Physically or verbaly abusive? If he is he won't let you go that easy. There could be lots of reasons for your feelings. You deserve happiness and should keep looking for it. Close this chapter of your life. Move on. Avoid guys like your boyfriend that make you unhappy.
859093
he sounds like he is either bi curious, or bi. i would be careful, if he is bi curious that could mean he just wants to try things out with a guy, but he still wants to stay with his girlfriend. make it clear that he has to chose u if he wants any of u, or u'll end up used and hurt, or someone who makes ur bf cheat on u
483828
if he is willing to do it FOR you he is willing to do it TO you. \nchances are he will do this if he is your boyfriend (or worse) i would ditch all feelings for him and find another love intrest.\nor, you could talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels about you and go from there. just remember the very top of my post.
962251
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
235968
Nothing. He's already showing you your future with him and how he is while in a relationship with someone. Men/women are creatures of habit.
576503
First love is first love, you just tend to measure that person to everybody else which isnt being fair and that where all of us tend to make mistakes. We judge out partner based on how we felt about someone else. Now give him a chance and forget comparisons between your love for someone else and your boyfriend. He treats you right and he loves you, so why are you inesecure?
1041582
You need someone to love.  \n\nYou have a very giving nurturing spirit, but feel there is no one who needs it or deserves it.\n.\nYour boyfriend may also be acting indifferent or too independent for you and you feel somewhat lonely.
1047032
Maybe you two are uncomfortable with the idea of labeling what you two have as a relationship. Some people feel as if the word relationship is the new four letter word. If it scares the two of you just think of it as you two having fun except you're only having fun with each other.
329201
his money means more to him than you?  You may love him more than anything but he obviouslyb doesn't feel the same way about you if he's putting his money first.  you should be with someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him.  Get out before you really get hurt, you deserve so much more.
795402
I have gone through the same problem as you, my boyfriend sometimes sweet talks to me and other times he doesn't, but i'm the same to him. In this way i feel that when we do tell each other that we love each other it is always special. I don't know but it makes the relationship more exciting. I just love my boyfriend and he loves me, sometimes we don't need to say "I love you"  to now that we love each other, just by the looking into our eyes, or the things that we do for each other, we know that we do. You should talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you feel.  Good luck!
823340
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
967531
YOU ANSWERED THIS YOURSELF, SOUNDS LIKE YOUR BOY FRIEND IS A JERK, HE USES YOU AND SEES YOU ONLY WHEN HE WANTS ON HIS TERMS, THE OTHER LAD IS SINCERE AND TREATS YOU NICE, HE IS DOING WHAT MOST MEN DO (WORK A LOT) BUT HEY, IF HE LIKES YOU A LOT PERHAPS HE WANTS THE MONEY TO BUY YOU NICE THINGS OR TAKE YOU OUT, I SAY TALK TO BOTH, TELL BOYFRIEND TO EITHER RESPECT YOU AND SPEND TIME WITH YOU REGULARLY OR YOU WILL BE DOING THE DUMPING NOT HIM, AND IF THAT DOESNT DO THE TRICK TELL THE OTHER GUY YOU WANT HIM BUT WANT TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH HIM, IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU A LOT HE WILL JUMP AT THE CHANCE.REMEMBER THIS SPECIAL SAYING, RESPECT YOURSELF AND GET RESPECTED.
541825
no. it means exactly what he said. he was thinking of you. he may be on his way to loving you, but yeah just dont worry about it. sounds like you've got him wrapped around your finger, dear.
1046344
Ok, my boyfriend now, would consider me his baby-mama. I have a child from a previous relationship that considers my current boyfriend her daddy. So that's what it means. Some guys could have been in a realationship with a girl who already had a baby, but they consider the baby theirs, even though it's not. Or sometimes they could be referring to their future baby-mamas!!!!!!
868127
sounds like you are both quite young & placing too much importance on these words WAY TOO SOON\nalso you should be saying these things without expecting him to repeat the words back to  you\nif you ahve only just started dating then take your time & if things are meant to be then ""love "" will develop between you
1150675
if it's more than one person independently telling you then he is probably cheating.\n\nlook at the character of the people telling you and decide if they would want to hurt you; or keep you from hurt