confused and wants to move on with life.?
816848
You've flirted with him, so you have already told him how you feel.\nTime to limit the amount of time you spend with him.  As you do that, you will find other things to do and people to be with and he will not be so much a part of your life.  The less you are with him, the less you will hurt because your attention will be elsewhere and the more chance you have to meet someone that does like you.\nGood luck!
689320
Maybe you should take your mind off boys and relationships for the moment.\n\nHave you given thoughts to your own career? Set your own priorities right.\n\nLet me share what someone told me when I parted with my first love (so many years ago)\n\n"If you love something, let it go.\nIf it comes back, then it is yours to keep.\nIf it did not come back, it was never yours in the first place"\n\nThink about it. Good luck. :)
993372
begin the healing process. It will be hard and will take forever. keep yourself busy. Goodluck
687941
you can move on. you don't have to forget all the good memories. those are yours to treasure. all the bad memories too. they are for you to learn from.\n\nsometimes people are in your life for a short time. and the purpose is for you to learn from them or to teach them something. and then they're just gone.\n\nit hurts to move on, but remember there are so many stars in the sky. and you will find someone new. sometimes relationships are just stepping stones to your future.
214020
well thats a tough choice. but like other people say follow your heart.\n\nbut you need to break it off with the old flame.. because you should never go back should always walk forwards and find something better.\n\ni think you should take some time away from the whole situation for a few days and forget about it. and then come back make your choice
1052488
I am thinking I am confused.
142952
Yeah I know how you feel. I mean life be it may pointless, we are stuck with it. If you take your own life (DO NOT ATTEMP) then what you are waiting for is a whole different endless life. So try to suck it up, go with the flow.
341349
Dont go backwards. History has a way of repeating itself-move forward is it really worthwile putting yourself through emotional turmoil again? She wants you and someone else???? You are worth more.
768840
Moving on is only going to happen when your all the way ready; until then your going to keep finding yourself in the same position. So if deep down inside you feel that your ready; you're going to need to find ways to occupy your time and start moving forward with your life.
331639
I think you're one confused girl. First, it's important to reassess your feelings first. Who do you really care about? What do you want to happen with your life? Who do you really want to stay with? Who do you think will make you happy? Who do you think you can make happy? After clearing out your thoughts, then go for the one who you think is best for you. You even might end up considering that no one is right for you at the moment, and even that is fine. But yeah, just think about everything carefully first before moving into any further decision.
1059652
Move on with life...that sounds easy but can be hard especially if you loved this person.  From every experience in life we can learn some valuable lesson.  Learn the lesson from this relationship and keeping living.
961347
I understand how you feel, but why would you want to be with someone who is not worthy of all the love you would be lavishing them with. Sometimes you have to let your head rule over your heart. You have to be able to look at the situation and go, this is going to hurt but maybe fate is changing in my favor. Sometimes what we think we want isn't what we thought it was after we find better.
397465
I tried to help you the best I could. Do not ever give up! This will take you time to think over.  Time will tell. Good luck my friend.
376714
This sounds more like it's confusing than like an actual problem.\n\nTry to relax and let your ex make up his mind.  He's obviously not sure what he wants at this point.
149665
everyone feels that way at one point in their life. you just have to try to take it one day at a time. don't dwell on it too much. eventually, things will always clear up and you'll find direction again. Good Luck! :)
238078
go out with some friends. Have fun, don't put yourself in situations where you sit alone and all you think about is the past. \n\nContinue living. Life shouldn't stop. :)
658405
not advised. you may want to talk to someone you trust like a friend, family member or counselor about how to move on with your life and find someone local who can love you back.