Do you stare when you see an interracial couple? If so, what's on your mind when you are staring?
822231
i don't actaully stare but i do take a double take, and its not that i'm racist or anything its just that its not everyday you see two people brave enough to go againist the majority. it's kind of like see a girl with a mohawk, theres nothing wrong with it but still people find it interesting.
19812
Love is blind anymore. Sometimes you have to go outside your race. I'm opened to it. I think it's a beautiful thing when you see to people together that's not the same race. Look at the poplulation now, most kids are mixed. I think it's a way to learn from other cultures when you are dating out your race. If people don't like. Just tell them "Don't look!" Hey, sometimes you find love where you weren't really looking for it.\nPanthertears23
238981
Depends on why they are looking at them. If they are attracted to that lady, then no. If they are looking at them because you pointed, then yes.
943407
this is like my 5th time answering this question on here lol but my opinion is that its ok and the fact that someone would go out with someone of a different race, when it isnt so common, says something about their personality....that theyre open minded and can look beyond ''barriers'' to see love for what it really is. Same goes for, people dating outside their religions, and gay people...etc the list goes on :)\n\np.s. Thats why people with a whole lot of races mixed in them are so beautiful lol ... People are rewarded when they can look beyond physical things :)
145024
At this point, in the United States, this seems to be a regional issue.  In some areas of the United States, interracial marriages are frequent enough to not even garner any notice whereas other areas, this would still be considered a scandalous occurance.\n\nFrom my experience, here in Southern California, it is common to see interracial couples.  I personally am a Caucasian who it married to a Hispanic/Indian (from India, not Native American) and we don't seem to garner any special attention here at home.  We have noticed that we get some looks when we travel to other regions of the U.S.  We also had a friend who was having a wedding in Illinois that we were going to participate in who warned us that we may get some looks because of our interracial marriage.\n\nIn the long, I believe that interracial marriages will end up being a non-issue although it may take a lot of time in some regions.
1153982
I have a inter-racial marriage.... I've dated guys of several different races.... race is just the color of the skin for the most part... each person is different in many ways.... in which the color of their skin does not matter and does not change anything.... I'm white if you look at me... but, when you take history of mankind in to account.... we are all mixed...
456144
Yes I have...err, I would.  Whatever works for them is alright to me.  I would rather be thinking of them looking at me and getting excited, than wondering if there was someone else they were looking at.  It makes me feel like they are really interested in me.
245341
depends on how you look at them. if you stare, i'd suggest not staring. if you're just looking around in a natural way, ask yourself if you really want to be with somebody that tries to control where your head turns.
639649
I think it's natural we are attracted by people who are different from ourselves. \nYou're not a hypocrite!!! Not at all. Many of us find other races attractive but only some of us are ready to talk about it directly. Those who hide the truth are hypocrites. The problem is that former generations rarely allowed the couples to mix. I think it was the matter of identity and fear of being judged by other people.  \nFortunately, world has changed now and people have changed as well. We are used to a view of 'mixed pairs' and I love the view! I dream I will also be in such relationship someday...
715814
Love finds itself in strange and unusual ways for many. Interracial dating is fine for me, but it depends on the relationship. Some people are against it, others aren't. It depends on the relationship.
654574
it depend on the person, ive seen some hot black guys, ive seen some ugly black guys. ive seen some hot white guys, ive seen some ugly white guys- you just cant group the entire race together in one general subject. you may just have a preference which nothing is worng with that, i prefer dating black guys over white guys cuz thats my preference but i do date white guys, if they are cute, i date them- thats my theory lol
936386
I think the exact opposite. i could never see myself with someone of a different color. Race,a different story. I am polish/german and my girlfriend is hungarian but we're both white. it is very comfortable. Thats all I can say from my standpoint.
182546
I'm guessing that you are asking if interracial dating/marriage is ok. I'm white and my wife is black...we've been married 4 years and have 2 beautiful daughters. We have the same problems that all married couples have....but we've never had issues because of our racial difference. \nI know some people might not approve but I couldn't care less. That being said there are some places that I wouldn't move to because of racial problems...but I probably wouldn't choose to live there if I was married to a white woman.
1161705
doesn't really bother me anymore... you get kind of used to it after a while... one exception: I hate it when my ex-boyfriends stare...kind of pisses me off...
1043397
i do not look at race as an issue. i look at if i find her attractive, which is subjective to my frame of reference, if i like her personality, and i find her intelligent.  if those things are there, it does not matter what race she is.
818220
yes it is in my eyes same if you were thinking of touching or even being with someone other then your partner it is still cheating as you are not thinking of your partner at that moment but someone else
825162
Honestly, I'd look at them both and the one who keeps up the eye contact is the one I would ask for help. I've noticed that in public if a person doesn't want to help you they will quickly divert their eyes from you.\n\nIf they both divert their eyes from me, I then would start with the one closest to me (in hearing distance). Otherwise I'd just ask: Which one of you kind gentlemen could help me out?\n\nBy the way, I don't feel prejudices are so bad. I despise racism, however, on the grounds that racism to me is when a person is trying to dehumanize me because I look different from them.