Would u go out with a guy that was 5 years older than u??
825995
A friend of mine married a girl who is 5 years younger than him. They are very happy together. If it makes you happy, do it.
841299
Well if hes nice and you can trust him and hes not too old for you then you should
1080586
when i was 21 i was going out with a girl who was 16. we had a great relationship for almost 2 years and if i had a chance to do it all again i would. the only problem was that as she got older and matured we drifted apart but that can happen with any relationship no matter what age you are. give it a try but don't let him use his age and experience to get you to do anything you don't want to. good luck, hope all goes well
87756
Look for others close to your age.Perhaps he doesn't want to get into trouble for dating someone really younger than him. If you get older it won't matter so much. However, now is not the right time.
482946
no, i was with someone that was 10 years older than myself. age is only a number, & in the long run there should be no problems, because you both would be mature enough to know that age is only a #.
575182
There's no age limit for dating. What matters is that you and the guy click!
1154424
Tell him!\n Five years is a long time. He either likes you back, or not. Either way you have to move on.\nremember that we all tend to exaggerate our personal appearances.
629057
The older the man is the better for you because women tend to look older than men especially after giving birth. So dont worry about that guy being 3 years older, in fact up to 10 years older, it still ok but not more than that. Meanwhile, let him make the first move, inviting you out for a first date. Then you see how things will work out. You both have yet to know about each other better than to just plunge deeply into a relationship. You should try and know about his past. He may have certain weaknessess you may not know off. So just go slow and takes things slowly. If hes willed to be with you, he will be, otherwise you just like chasing in the wind. May God Bless you with the will to decide wisely to pursue the relationship with him.
650271
I am 25 and I have dated up to 20 yrs older than me if the person fits with what I like.
393417
If you really like him and he likes you then all that matters is your age. If you are too young then don't say yes if he asks you out. If you are his age then totally say yes.
255417
Nope nope nope, what the heck would he even want with you, you are a child in his eyes. Sorry hard cold truth can hurt. Your sister has a small chance but even that is small, most guys in HS, seniors wouldn't date someone your age except for one thing and one thing only. Remember they are much closer to adulthood than you are, and can also get in legal trouble if they did do anything with you. Forget about him and stick to guys closer to your own age.
872270
unless your a minor, why not? i had a bf 15 years my senior and even after we broke up, he became such a good friend, maybe because of his wisdom and emotional stability. but really, i don't think it has anything to do with age. a lot of old men can still be so stupid and immature and there are some younger men who are ahead of their years. bottomline, it would be how much you like him and how much he likes you back and how good you are together and how good you make each other feel.
287182
Hey i'd say go for it...if you think you can trust him. I am in the same boat mines 5 years and i really love him. I think you fine with a 9 year age difference...just be careful.\nluvs bobcat chick
849072
Age is just a number. My parents are 11 years apart!!! and they happily had me so don't worry about it... But personally I would wait until you are out of highschool.. This way your parents wouldn't flip a bitch when you went out with a 23 year old..... Also it could give you more freedom... If you are in your senior year you only have until june! use this spare time to get closer to him and enjoy his friendship.. Then you can use the friendship time to decide if he is really worth it... worth something you could be serious about.. and if he isn't worth it you will be glad you thought about it through without pissing your parents off anyways.... Just don't rush into things and wait.... then things could be perfecto.. Good luck... also... remember you are applying to colleges if they aren't near his he may not be wanting to give up everythign to move with you... keep that in mind so you don't get hurt.
759706
Friend - I see no problems other than the age thing which you did not go into.  If you are under 16 and he is over, stay friends until things change.  Other than that, go for it...the worse that can happen is that the two of you will decide you are better friends than a couple.  GBY
894745
IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT WRONG!!! 1 year is NOTHING. It is much more about how you 2 connect with eachother than how close you are in years.  I once had a thing with a guy 2.5 yrs younger than me, and we are still great friends, cuz he was an absolutely AMAZING person, and was super cute, and quite frankly was more mature than most guys my age. Guys the same age as me were always pressuring me to do things I didn't want to, but since I was older than him, this boy was SO respectful of me and my decisions and feelings. And what a sweetheart... as you can see, I could talk for hours.  Obviously dating a guy like 5 years younger than you is kinda weird, but just a few years is NO reason to hide feelings for a guy. If he treats you well, who cares how old he is? And if you're worried about being made fun of, then DON'T! YOU like him, and it's YOUR business. End of story. Best of luck with him! <3
572891
It all depends on his personality. If he was a nice guy, I'd go out with him. If he was a putz, then no, I'd kick him to the curb. But I do know that I would feel safe if I did go out with him.