How do I 'come out' that I'm not gay?
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Have a skanky whore escort you to a family re union
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I suggest you learn how to phrase your question in a way that makes it understandable to others.  Right now, it is difficult to even decipher what you are trying to ask.  \n\nIf you are trying to join some group that professes to turn you from gay to straight, don't do it.  It never works.  Changing who you have relations with is easy and anybody can do it.  But changing who you WANT to have relations with is seemingly impossible.
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Just come out of the closet.
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ARE YOU TRYING TO COME OUT OF THE CLOSET??????
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I am out to my friends and family.  I did not come out until I was 23...a few years ago and it lifted such tremendous weight off my shoulders.  I cried to my Mom and told her that my "friend" was more than that and I was tired of hiding my feelings.  I actually feel free now.  No more trying to have a girlfriend to look "normal" in front of my parents.  No more calling my boyfriend a "friend".  No more hiding from people when I want to hug the person I love.  No more lies. Period.\n\nOne thing I did learn is that you cannot rush it to come out.  Your time will come. Just be yourself.  You may have to cover up things you really do not want to, but be cautious of who you confide in and expect some people to shun you and not want anything to do with you.  But don't sweat it. Your real friends will be accepting and it won't eve be an issue.  Being gay shouldn't be the topic of every discussion...it's just an extension of you are.  You happen to like someone of the same sex. People just need to accept that.\n\nYour life will change, but for the better.  You do not want to go through life hiding and faking.  That is more difficult than just coming out an dealing with people who dislike you for being gay.  It makes it easier for you to know who can be your friend when they know the real you.  And, coming out is a journey.  You do not just come out and blabber it away to everyone.  If someone asks...tell them the truth. But, if they don't..it's none of their business.  The time will come when you need to tell them if necessary.\n\nIt's up to "us" to educate people and let them know that we are just as normal as they are.  Who we sleep with has nothing to do with our pesonality and our capablilities of being successful in life.  \n\nSo, again, don't spend to much time thinking of when you should come out.  Your time will come.  If it's now...then do it.  But be ready for good and bad.\n\nUltimately, you will find happiness in yourself and the people that love you will see that.
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You say there's nothing wrong with being gay. Tell your brother that and then tell him that you think he might be gay because of what he said to your friend. There's nothing like being up front with people for getting an honest answer. You'll just have to trust him to be honest back.\n\nFirst person I came out to was my brother. He had no idea I was gay but everybody knew he was okay with gay people so I trusted him. He didn't betray my trust and he was way cooler about the whole thing than I could have hoped. Good luck with your bro :-)
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You can't "turn gay".  You can choose to accept it or deny it.
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Just look gay in public. Trust me there are a lot of guy people out there. Which is perfectly fine in my book. I find different sexual prefferences\ninteresting.
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If you come out, it should be about you, not your friend. You could mention to your friend that you might be gay, but dont be trying to 'convert' him. You are either born gay or you are born straight.
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Just come out, Queer...
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OK, all these people who say you are going through a phase, that's just them trying to "save" you. Every gay person I've ever talked to believes that people are born gay, which means you could probably tell at your age. Also, I've heard of people knowing that they were attracted to people of the same sex when they were even younger then you. People are coming out younger and younger now, this is due to growing acceptance, if you come from a place that does not accept gays, then i am guessing you are pretty sure. I probably don't need to tell you all this. Back to you question, do you know any other gay people? They can give you advice and understanding, also don't underestimate your close friends, and i hate to say it but you might find girls are more accepting then guys.
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Well, I'm not bi. But I do have some friends who once thought they were bi, and it turned out that they were actually gay but in denial. Follow your heart, Sweetie, and do what you need to do to discover yourself. Good luck.
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Why tell everyone.Your sexual preference is no one's business,but yours.Family I can understand,but everyone will eventually fgure it out.If that is you,then who cares what they think. They will accept you or they won't.
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Your question is worded ambigiously, so I'm gonna try to frame this the most simple way I know how.\n\nDo you want to f*ck your friend?  I mean it.  Do you?  Do you want to kiss him or touch him naked?  Do you want to feel his skin on yours?  Do you want feel his hands on your body?\n\nIf so, then you're at least bi.  If you don't want any of those things, then you're probably straight.  But if you're gay you're going to have to face it at some point.   You can deny it until the cows come home, you can pretend to be straight, you can pray until your knees lock up, but it wont make the feeling go away.  \n\nYou need to examine why you don't want to be gay.  Is it because of your religion?  Are you afraid of being physically harmed?  Are you afraid to be seen as different?  Are you worried about what your friends and family will think?  Do you think that gay people are all diseased or can't have normal lives?  \n\nSome of those fears are normal, some are fuled by a homophobic society that usually doesn't know what the hell it is talking about when it comes to gay folk.  You need to learn, think, and take some time to decide for yourself.\n\nI would highly reccomend renting or buying the TV show Queer As Folk... its five great seasons about gay life, both the normal and gay-specific parts (plus lots of sex :-) or the book "Am I Blue: Coming out from Silence".  \n\nhttp://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0064405877/sr=8-1/qid=1146355924/ref=pd_bbs_1/002-2832502-7269667?%5Fencoding=UTF8
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How do you know if you're straight?
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Be who you are without regrets.\n\nDon't try to be something you are not.\n\nYou are going to live with YOURSELF until you are finished living, so become your own best friend, and live your lifetime well.\n\nAccept the fact that you like guys.  That doesn't require you to abandon your mind.  Keep your intelligence intact, and go for what's best for you and your happiness.\n\nThe notion of "going to hell" for being gay is morally depraved.  Don't lower the quality of your own thinking.
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Don't tell and don't feel as though you have to.\n\nJust be up front with her and tell her that you don't want to get involved that you don't like her as anything more then a friend.\n\nIf you are scared and not ready to come out then don't come out.\n\nYou should not feel pressured to come out because a girl may like you.\n\nIf you think you would be a risk by coming out then don't do it.\n\nPeople have big mouths and gossip is a friend of many and an enemy of all. You owe her nothing nor anyone else anything especially an explanation of your sexual identity.\n\nYou are young and young people can be even more mean when they feel they were betrayed or here news as such.\n\nHang in there your ok you didn't do anything wrong and just ignore her advances if she continues after you.