How do you tell someone your really not into the relationship as much as they are?
819328
Well firstly you must act as soon as possible cuz his feelings will grow deeper everyday and the more he tries to smutther you the more you will resist him and believe me baby the last thing you want, is to shock this guy with a sudden timeout or slowdown call cuz then he'll begin to feel rejected and hurt he then might start to think that there is another guy as most of us men do. if he is a fairly intelligent guy then u could start to express your feelings in your behaviour patterns such as shortening phone calls and mildly shying away when he touches u and he will then ask whats wrong and tell him there and then but in a manner that he understands and also state clearly your position in this relationship try not to be too vague and at the same time show some care or emotion in your words atleast this registers some amount of selfworth in his mind that u still care but not as much as he thought. as long as that is cleared up u will find it is eaiser to make a decision whether to stay in the relationship or ends it on good terms
999253
Tell her that she's better than that.  She might not listen, but at least she knows how you feel.  Don't pretend that you like him for her sake, be honest.  Oh and when it all finally blows up, resist the urge to say I told you so.
1144262
tell the guy to help you announce that you arent dating. and then after a few days meet each other secretly or in a friendsly matter (not just hanging out as if just friends)
531070
I hate to put it this way. My only suggestion is to realize that he is just not that into you.
571393
TELL THEM!!!\nit screws up your whole relationship if you don't.
525496
You can't not hurt her feelings because you are telling her you don't want to be with her anymore.  But I recommend not going into a lot of detail about why you don't want to be with her.  Give her a few compliments so she feels good about herself but not so many that she has hope of getting back together.  Remember to use a lot of "I feel that..." not "You are such a...".  Good luck!
568719
you are not that into her.
801913
It is not rude to tell someone that you are not interested in them as anything more than a friend.  Not telling them is leading them to believe that there is more to the imagined friendship than really exists.
1149608
well if you really don't want to gf's with them then just tell them in a place where nobody is that, you are not really interested in those things and tell them that you can be friends with them but not gf's.
468862
Be honest, but not brutal. Perhaps something like, 'I really like your company, but I am not interested in a relationship with you. Thank you for your interest though, and good luck finding the right person'. Be firm, but nice...make it about you and not about him. Hope this helps!
1033705
Tell him "Since I met you I'm not interested in any woman."  If he then shows emotion on his face quickly say "I mean man!" and giggle.  Pass it off as a slip of the tongue or a joke.
179373
there really isn't a "delicate" way aside from just saying "it's over, really really over" and sticking to it. how do you do that? \n\nwell, your first step is realizing how much you really want to stay out. you have found yourself going back, and now you feel like a jerk because you're not into it as much as she is. so think of it this way: how would you feel if she was the one coming back to you when she was "bored or lonely"--wouldn't you be mad and hurt? you don't want to hurt this person do you? so stop doing that. you're being a jerk. (not a bad person, but just not who you should be.)\n\nthe next thing you need to do is set a period during which you will not call or contact or hang out or talk more than in passing and out of courtesy with this person. tell her and yourself that this is necessary for your to transform your relationship into a platonic one. if she keeps calling you, then stick to your rule. (i.e., don't answer the phone, and don't call her back. the common courtesy of a greeting when you meet outside the home is okay, but try to make it not go beyond "hi how are you?")  i'd make it a period of about four to six months. \n\nget out there and talk to and look at and be around other women. get to know other women. date. even if it's the friendly sort of date that doesn't go anywhere. cultivate your crushes. enjoy your life. find a new hobby or hang-out that has nothing to do with your old relationship. in fact, try one that your old girlfriend didn't like or prevented you from doing. look forward to finding someone you can love. \n\nthe reason i have never "gone back" is because i keep focused on the reasons why i don't want to be with that person, and i remind myself that being alone is a good thing. i also remind myself that it is a waste of time to be with someone who doesn't present as the "love of your life."
757934
Well,  the only  thing  you  SHOULD do  is  very kindly and  gently explain to that person that you really  aren't  interested in a "relationship" right  now.      But, not only that,  there is another person in your life who is rather  "special" to you, and  when  you have got certain plans for the future sorted out a little more,  you are intending to  ask  that  person to share them.    That  way, this unattractive person who is attracted to YOU,  will not be given any reason to think  that it is his or her looks that are  the  reason for your rejection.     Being  gracious should be  your primary concern,  and  a  little  kindness  far  outweighs  the  fact that you  would  have had to tell a  little  white lie.
680362
Doggdoc has a point there...but you could phrase it something like, "you know we've been dating for about a year now...I don't date other's anymore, I'm finding I want to date you exscusively...how do you feel about that kind of arrangement?..."...well maybe you can make it sound a little more romantic than that...but you get the idea...good luck!
540639
tell him you would rather have him as a friend   but your are not interested in a romantic relationship right now.
431966
the easy way to end a relation ship is not to beat around the bush as they say   be honest and direct about it to your partner
73080
Ok, so I had this problem too. My friend told me that I should tell them that they aren't my type. That way, you aren't exactly telling them what you specifically don't like about them. Or you could make him break up with you by making yourself unattractive or doing things that he doesn't like.