is it wrong to love some one alot older?
832347
There's nothing wrong with it, especially if your feelings are genuine, but keep in mind that you could get hurt pretty bad given you start up a relationship. He could use you, or date you for a while but then flat out tell you that he's uncomfortable. Six years is not that big of a difference, but even age differences like that could result in some professional frowning-down on his part (like if he has a big corporate job and they find out he's seeing someone younger). But like I said, six years isn't that MUCh of a difference to be worried about. I knew someone who was about 19 or 20 and she dated a 36 year old guy, but they broke up because of the age difference.\n\nI just read your edit...I have to tell you that twenty is a whole different world from fourteen. So like I said, be careful!
183925
Yes and no. I would say you are too young because I have "been there done that". Hell at my age I thought I was in love til I realized my ex wasn't "the one". No because there are some relationships that truely can last well into your old age years that start off as young as you are. Trust me you will know when you are in love or lust.
876899
If you're 30 and she is 10, stay away from her.  However, if you are 70 and she is 50 - go for it, if the feeling is mutual.\n\nIt IS wrong if she is a minor or of immature character.  It is NOT wrong if you are both legal, competent adults in love.   If this is the case, and you love her - I hope she loves you too.\n\nLoves involves a shared life, shared values, mutual respect, and regular communication.
673353
Nothing is wrong with it as long as it is consentual and a relationship based on respect and affection.  When I was 18 I dated a 44 year old guy, we stayed together for 3 years and we're still great friends.  \n\nHowever I've also known older men that prey on younger women and men because they are less experianced, and use them for sex, like that they can easily control them, or fetishize them to a startling extreme.  That is not cool to me because it lacks the fundamental respect for their partner.\n\nIt doesn't matter if your bf is 18 or 85, you should both be treating each other as equals with respect and no exploitation.  That advice goes to couples who are the same age too.
470270
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
1117798
Age should not matter in my opinion...Just as long as you truly love each other,you should push everything aside and know that you're meant to be.
315367
It depends on how far under age.  People who are 50 who "fall in love" with 8 year olds have problems.  However, if you are somewhat close in age that's fine.  You have to realize, though, that it would be inappropriate to act on it physically until the person is of age.  \n\nHowever, there are certain circumstances where I can see how it could happen.  For instance, if you are both young it is quite possible that the person has only a 3 year age difference.  Which is no big deal when you are older, people wouldn't even question it.  However, like I said, if you truly love the person, you will wait until the time is right.  That is the respectful, legal and appropriate thing to do.
45396
Definitly could be.  When people are in love and infatuated the way they were - they can do many things that just don't seem to make sense.  \n\nI also don't think so too.  Because on the other hand if they had been older - they wouldn't have been in that situation to misunderstand what the other was doing and then mess everything up completely!!
541618
if they love each other then they shouldn't worry what others say there is no blood between them..\ntheres nothin wrong with them dating each other and age is just a number...There love should out do anything if they really love each other...and they can say they now each other real well since they grew up like family
85496
It's a matter of personal choice - love has no boundaries... my dad is married to someone 16 years younger than him... his wife likes older men, and he likes younger women.. also, when you are in high school, you may think that it's wrong to date someone who's 3 years older, but then as you get into college you may start thinking it's ok to date someone who's 5-10 years older.. It all comes down to personal preference. So long as it's not like you're under 18 years old or dating someone in your own family! That's considered unethical in many societies.\n\nMore answers to your question in the link below.
1126061
Dear...I don't think age matters as long as you are in true love.True Love doesn't confine itself to the bars of Caste,Creed,Colour and Age..If the lovers don't have any objection on it, why should have others ? So come on, keep loving...
432434
No it's noy wrong and don't let  any one tell you that it is because you have the right to your own way of life and how you decide to live it and also who you date and when you date them and how old they are when you fall in love with them trust me on this one I know for a fact because I am also in love with a younger person who happens to know it but doesn't know that I know that he loves me back. \n\n            p.s.\n\n           Take this info to head and share it with some one else that you know with the same problem as you and me(to me it's not really a probllem so you shouldn't say that it is).
768366
its normal,i would think its best to date some one who is at least 7years older than you if your thinking about a serious relationship,you wouldn't expect the sort of control and authority from some one your age which you would find from some one older.therefore your its absolutely normal and your on the right track
525469
wait two more years. theres nothing wrong with your age diffirence. just dont do something illegal. im 29 and my girlfriend is 18. we love each other. whats important is love not age. age is just a useless number we count so that we can tell ourselves we become wiser. what a file of siht. what we are and who we has nothing to do with age, and everything to do with ourself and wagr we think of ourselves. \n\nthe long and short of it is: if you love her and she loves you go for it. just be careful not to end up in jail.
1141933
age is no bar in case of love. but do consider the fact that there is a gap in maturity level. tomorrow the girl gets matured enough and consider everything a mistake you will regret too. take a decision keeping both of yours future
1137947
why not!!! Age difference doesn't matter, once the two people get on great. All the best for the future! Love doesn't know any limits!!!!
679629
Not absolutely..The age does not matter if both them feel and understand each other in very good sense.