who's gona get what from the divorce???  pls answer!?
815127
First of all, don't listen to anyone who says everything gets split exactly in half.  That's not how property division works.\n\nIn a divorce, your dad and step-mom will be negotiating who gets what.   If they can come to an agreement that they are happy with, the judge will grant the divorce, even if one person gets more dogs than the other.  (The idea is for items with monetary value to be divided fairly equally. IE  one person gets the house, the other person gets other property that is worth approximately the same as the house.)  If you live with your dad it would make sense for him to keep Jack since it's 'your' dog.  Maybe they will decide that the dogs spend half time with her and half time with him.  But if you live with your mom full time, it might not be reasonable to expect your dad to take on the responsibility of a pet.  Talk to both of them about how you feel about the dogs.
903513
who wants their ex back anyhow!
698669
For once the rumor mill is true. Spears has finally come to her senses! She filed for divorce citing irreconcilable differences. Let's face it...what prize did she win when she ended up with K-Fed? The only thing you get when you date a man that has a pregnant girlfriend at home is a liar and a cheater. He saw a gravy train in Britney and went along for the ride. So what if it cost him 2 children. Fortunately Britney is back in the conductor's seat and she looks fabulous...slim and fit. Hopefully, she's come to her senses and will do what's in the best interest of her career and her children. True, K-Fed may receive some possessions and cash in the split...but those things get old , depreciate in value, and the money is easily spent especially when you don't have your own source of income. Britney will end up with the kids and they're the gifts that last a lifetime
677886
Find the best lawyer that you can afford. You've been screwed. Since there's obviously been changes in circumstances for her since your divorce, it seems to me that there are grounds for revision of the terms. But see an attorney. That's the best thing you can do now. He'll advise you completely.
817069
you have to back off and let them work it out. Let the guy know you'll be there for him, but people make mistakes and they are still married. If he still wants the divorce it'll go on. But you need to step out of the relationship because she could use that against him now that she is wanting him back. I've been there done that. I was the wife who made mistakes and wanted my ex back. He didn't want to make things work, so we divorced. Good luck and don't make things worse.
244874
first you need to find out if it is legal to run an add in a paper letting the person know youre divorcing him. cuz in some states you can get in touch with someone and they will run an add in the paper and your spouse will have a certain amount of time to answer,if he does not answer, your granted the divorce, so ask the court house or talk to a lawyer. good luck
155931
This sounds like a terrible story, but is there a question in it somewhere?\n\nEDIT: Okay, let's try to figure out what the question is.  Are you trying to figure out how you can get your daughter back from your ex-husband?  If that's it, you really ought to talk to a lawyer...maybe you can find a decent one through the Bar Association that will do some pro bono work.  If you just aren't interested in working with lawyers, and you really want to involve this group in something as personal as this, you're going to have to post more details...and more *relevant* details (stick to the facts, ma'am).\n\nIf you want better answers, ask better questions and include more of the important details.  Things people might want to know are these:\n\nAre there any court orders right now?\n\nWhat state do you live in?\n\nWhy did your ex take your child, or at least why do you think he did or what did he tell you?\n\nHave there been any allegations of improper parenting on either side?  Any mental health issues on either side?  Drug use?  \n\nIf I'm guessing correctly at what you want to know, I just don't think you're going to be able to get the answers you need in this forum.
748148
I divorced somebody like you lolol....good luck in your life
1119384
Divorce papers will not give the specifics, they will only give a general description. \nThey will state who gets what of the property and who has to pay and how much. Also tell when the divorce was final. If you can't trust him then you don't need to be thinking about marriage. Just remember that there is always two sides to every story. Talk to his EX. if you dare and must know the truth. Just remember that he might take offense to that and be very upset with you.
847138
Last I heard she wasnt; that she was standing by Keith Urban.\n\nApparently there was a part of the prenup they signed that if he had drug or alcohol addiction problems he gets less/nothing if they do divorce though.\n\nHeh-who knows but them though.  :)  I hope he gets the help he needs and she does what is right for her; whatever that may be.
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My new husband had that problem, it's rather simple... Get the attorney to get the papers going, he"ll list it in the news paper that he is being looked for and if there is no answer, well, your papers go through and you are divorced after a short time, weather he answers the attorney thing or not. it's  not all that hard, just get youself a good attorney honey..
1042139
Whoa! Whoa! Whoa! I don't follow. How are you two brother and sister if you got married? No where in the law nor the bible nor any moral code I have ever heard of does it state that after a divorce is your ex considered you sibling. Is this some kind of redneck thing? If so you have much bigger problems then the sin of divorce.
273233
I can give you the below link, but that's really just dipping your toe into the pond of this issue. I would check out some psychology books or divorce advice books. Either of those two types should give you a much more indepth knowledge on what this issue is all about.
681641
Get the divorce! Yes! All the cases that i have heard of have the free person getting the divorce.It is not free as far as i know. You can go on line or to the local law library and find out about the paperwork. Do you know any lawyers or paralegals? They can help also. Paralegals first if it is a simple divorce,they are cheaper.Good luck!!
1128433
I will relay one that my friend told to me.\n\nBack-story:\nShe went out with this guy who told her some sob story about going through a divorce and that he was wealthy (he claimed to be some real estate big shot).  Well, it turns out this guy said he had a car, but that it was in the shop (she never saw the mystery car).  She had to drive him around on every date and he also wore the same outfit on every date (keep in mind that this was 6 dates over a 1 month period) .  Then on one of the dates he asked her to stop at the ATM (it was one of the drive ups) and he couldn't take out any money because the acount had less than $20 in it.\n\nThe Worst of the 6 Dates: \nHe asked her out to the movies.  She picked him up for the date.  When they were at the ticket window, he paid in quarters for the tickets.  He also paid in quarters for the dinner, she offered to pay and he got angry with her.  He was snappish with her the rest of the date. Then at the end of the date, asked her inside his house (he lived in a house with another guy and only had a TV and a mattress on the floor in his room).  He actually wanted her to make out with him on the floor mattress after behaving like a jerk during the date.  Thank God she declined and went home.  She told me about the date the next day (she was so depressed).  I made her see the humor in it (I told her that it was probably his laundry money - I mean the guy wore the same outfit on every date) and it is now one of our favorite inside jokes (quarter man / rerun guy).  LOL
936122
Hope the ex remarries...:D
573235
I suspect that the two of you were not telling the same story, although you think you are. But this is immaterial. Why listen to advice from other people? If you have both decided that divorce is the best way forward, then this is what you should do. Forget other people's opinions. These just muddy the water. Just be thankful that the two of you have made this decision and can still be friendly towards each other.