how long does it tak u to move on?
816196
u will grieve as long as u stay in the past, and blame yourself for it. it didn't just happen overnight, so quickly, it's been in his mind for awhile. yes we will be hurt for sometime, takes time to move on after heartbreak. just something we all must go through in life, it's really a learning process for us, only we can't see it, as were too busy trying to figure out why. sometimes other people's choices in life do break our hearts, and we have no control over what that person chooses to do, we may never know why. but it's how we handle the hurt that is key to our recovery. he just didn't have the self control he should have. personally rather than live with a cheater i would rather deal with the heartbreak now, than again later on. this is who he is, and it really has nothing to do with your self worth. we just have to move forward, and in spite of our hurts, know that pain doesn't leave us where it finds us, that when one door closes another one opens up. often times we put too much trust in people we don't know that well, and we set ourselves up for it.we expect them to be as fair in a relationship as we have been. we don't quite understand how it could happen, well this is who he is and how he thinks.
529895
If you say you've move on move on, and stop moving back.  Don't let this guy reck a good thing for you.  Unless you are glutton for punishment.
825976
like a week\n\n:> peace\n.
520866
Not too soon.  I would say at least a month or two.  That way, you get her out of your system. Go out and see other people.
49272
Go for it. If you wait she may move on and find some one else. It's only 5 weeks of long distance, but it you don't go for her, it may be a lifetime without her.
76604
It just takes time.After a while you will hardly ever think of them.Hang in there and it will get better.
441794
There's no time limit,just when you are ready to move forward and feel comfortable doing it! Life is short,so go out and enjoy it!!!!
542927
I'm happy to hear that you've moved on with life, but maybe you have to ask yourself what do you want for yourself as well as in a man, but mainly focus on yourself now...after five years (well almost), just think of what's good for you and what you will/won't tolerate from anyone!
691736
What do you want to do?  If you care about her and want to be with her, give her some time - it sounds like she'll come around, since she obviously still wants you to be a part of her life.  If you want to move on, that's a whole different story, but you need to decide whether what you want is in sync with what she wants, or whether it's time for you to find someone else.  Personally, I don't think a month is a long time - if you wait it out until she's more comfortable with herself, in the long run you two will have a stronger relationship.
179494
Moving on is never easy.  You have to give yourself time to grieve for what you have lost.  While you are doing this concentrate on you and your life and making it into something you truly love and enjoy living.  Then, eventually, you will find that you are ready to move on and you will have a life that you are excited to share with someone special.
1102669
Wait at least two weeks to feel the change..Good luck!!
197025
It just takes time to move on. You need to let it go. I had the same problem once. I finaly got over him when I found someone else that I knew was better for me. But beware rebound relationsips don't work either. I'd say 5 months is long enough to linger over a relationship that was as short as yours. Find someone new and MOVE ON!!!
890502
well, it might be so dont jump into it too fast. Just take it slow, you never know, if its the real deal that it was last! So take your precious time with it
821168
You just do what ever you can to move on. It's different for everyone.     Good luck.....SAM
411323
move on to somebody better...they're not worth ur time
1094820
I hate to say this but......................................\nyou can't. It's all in a matter of time. \n\nI've answered another one of your questions. I'm still not over that guy that I've liked for 4 years. \n\nYou can't change over night. It's gonna take awhile. \n\nHope this helps.
792311
you cant, its over, move on