A girl I like at the Gym - please help!?
823018
Go for it mate ! Ask her out . When you see her walking out or in the gym, take a deep breath and just ask her . If you dont you will always wonder what if . You will regret it if you dont . Trust me i know !!!!!!!!!! If you dont ask her some other geezer might get in there before you. Just say " Do you fancy coming out for a drink?"  How easy is it to say that. DO IT !!!!!!!!!!! Good luck young jedi ! If it turns out that you land up getting married can i get an invite to the head table. If you pick this as best answer let me know how you got on when you leave feedback.
291287
♥Take a chance! Do more than just say Hi, try having a conversation and find out what she likes and more about her. If it's right for you two, things will go smoothly from there. Good luck!♥
1111659
Move on from her. I know you may like her but she seems really shallow not to like you cause she doesn't like the way you look because you seem like a really sweet guy that cares about her alot to keep asking her out so my best advice is to move on and find someone who will care about you as much as you do about them.\n\nHope this helped!!! :-)
541346
Do you like her back? If you like her, go ahead and make the first move yourself. Good luck!
867102
Yup you blew it....but not completely.  Just keep at it.  She is probably thinking the exact same thing as you.....why do I go blank...  It happens, you just have to push past it.\nStart today.....put it in your mind that the next time you see her....don't wait for the right time.....just walk up to her and say Hi, how did the game film turn out......cool.  Can I see it..  Girls like the guy to make the move.....so the ball is in your court.  Nothing you say....is dumb, so drop that thought.....  Ask, if she's tried some other energy drink....tell her what you like......hey, this is easy.......so just go after it.........you won't think its so hard when you two are having a great time.
419632
Just keep being who you are and do NOT act like a player. If she is truely interested, she'll keep corresponding with you. Good-Luck!!
113498
as far as finding out if she likes you i would suggest that you talk to her and if all else fails ask her if she does like you. but personally i would let it go. if she's with her current bf simply because she doesn't want to be single then if you two actually did get together then she might be doing the same thing to you in the near future and that's just not fair to you.
965135
The only way you are going to know if she will say yes is to ask her out. I understand you're a bit shy, and perhaps intimidated. From what you've shared she seems to be freindly to you and yes likes you. You want to take it to the next level...here's my suggestion..find some private time with her. If you need to,  ask her if you can talk to her alone for a few minutes..Then you say something to this effect...Nicole, you are so popular and pretty and I always like to see you,  and hang out. I don't know if you're dating anyone but I'd  really love to take you the moives and out to eat sometime. Give her time to absorb what you've said. If she states she is dating someone else..say well I hope if it doesn't work out between you two you'll let me know and I can be next in line! She will feel flattered & so honored at your honesty the least you'll get is a smile. IF...she says yes I'd like to go out with you say, how about this weekend? If that doesn't work say can I call you so we can make a date?    The worst case scenerio if you ask her is that she starts laughing hysterically and then you can always say well at least I gave it a shot...I'm not sure I'm gonna give up on you because you are really the sweetest, prettiest girl I know. Lean forward give her a kiss  on the cheek and walk away.... Pretend you're acting in a film you can do it ! When,  you go on the date then yes be your adorable, CONFIDENT SELF. Maybe you can even ask her for a skating lesson! PRIVATE of course. You can do it! Years from now you'll be glad you did! Go for it !!! Just don't call her Nicole if that's not her name....Best wishes to you....
1067419
Does it have to be 3 times? Iol. Best way to know is to start conversation about the gym. Then move towards asking if there are placing to hang out - things to do around here. From his reaction, you should be able to tell if he finds you interesting, already has someone, or finds you disgusting.\n\nBest! :-)
521698
try something simple telling from your avatar you seem very caring and nice guy so just act yourself go up to her and say "I'm sry to bother you I just couldn't stop staring at your smile and your eyes....."\nIf thats too complicated to say at first heres something easier " Omg I can't believe what happened today in class" if she has a class similar to you this will work great or even if you have to bring up something in general that everyone seen. for instince a fight..... you could say and then just keep a steady converstation and tell her that maybe she'd like to see a movie nothing to drastic at first and go from there ..... Good Luck
618893
You sound very excited, Al.  Take it easy.  \n\nFrom your descritpion, it sounds like she may like you, but not too much right now.  At my age I know that men imagination is NOT often correct about this. \n\nDo not crowd her too much.  Invite her out to lunch no more than once a week. Flirt with her, but subtly.  Do not grab at her but compliment her hair, smile or clothing etc.  \n\nThen stay away for a couple of days and do not call her on the phone.  I promise you she will begin to like you more.
725405
this is a hard one\ngirls are really hard to read n u havent given much information\ni would say that she is probaly being nice\ndo you like her, or would you llik to get to kno her better.\nif this is true then i would advice u to start talking to her start a friendship get close. then you can make your move at a more suitable time
1011542
I think you have a few choices (and yes I'm a girl, by the way!).  You could ask her out, which implies that you like her.  You could tell her you like her, which might be a little more awkward because you're just coming out and saying it, and I think this might be harder since you're shy.  You could ask her on a group outing, like if a bunch of people are going out to coffee.  This would give you the chance to "feel her out" and see if she goes and whether she acts interested in you.  Or you could do nothing (not the recommended choice!). \n\nIf you tell her you like her or ask her out, she will be flattered whether she says yes or no.  I know that even if I'm not interested in a guy, It's nice to be asked and I never think he's a freak or anything.  Of course you don't want to be rejected-who does?  But I think it's worth the risk.  Otherwise, you might wonder about this girl for the rest of your life!  And if it makes you feel better, I'm pretty shy around guys too.  :)\nGood luck!  Hope she says yes!
1089139
If he's a trainer there, then strike up a conversation with him regarding different workout routines.  Then ask him if he would like to go out for a smoothie sometime to talk over more workout stuff (wink wink) and if he does great when you're out and about you can talk about other stuff and get a feel for him.\n\nIf he says no, for whatever reason - I don't go out with people from the gym, I have a girlfriend etc... - say "well - we don't need to go out - If you can just set aside some time to show me some more techniques I'd really appreciate it."\n\nThat way - you make it seem that the only reason you asked him out was to talk about your workout and you save face.
242306
Yeah dude, dont sweat it. take a deep breath. and listen to this. one, what were you acting like when she saw you and met you, because THAT is the guy she likes. DONT CHANGE!! Second, there are little things that girls like, physicall touch (HUG HER, but make sure its apropriate, dont be..umm...feeling.) Also your eyes, women LOVE eyes, and they ALLWAYS notice WHERE they go, so dude.....DONT GO THERE.....you know what im talkin about.....lastly, small gifts, and words of encoragment. chocolate as a small gift is awsome, i allways come up witht the exuse "i dont like chocolate, want myn." soo that about covers it, just be yourself, and try to understand what they LIKE at the same time.
1080476
The girl you like huh..hmm...tell her she looks beautiful...don't you DARE use the word hot!!  or I will virtually BEAT YOU! haha good luck!
662754
ASk her out for a drink, get to know her better and take it from there! If you still like her once you know her better then you have made a good choice, if youfind you have conflicting interests then look elswhere!