Ok.... the guy i am in love with is gay!?
827774
Sounds like you need to have a talk with him.
79256
Just tell the guy. I am in total and complete love with someone. I told him. Flat out. I let him know. And he said he loves me too. You just need to tell this person. Try to piece it together as best you can. Your feelings and everything. It doesn't have to be perfect, everything you say, but make it mean something. Let him know.
874434
Did he buy you a Hot-dog and a cold drink?\n\nIf no! He is a inconsiderate muther-chicken...You need to ''Dump" him and dump him fast!!!       j/k      ....  lol\n\nHe is excited about you! he has those butter-flys stirring-up\nI am in no way by any means GAY! \nBut he sound like he has cute personalty and I hope you two\nexperience a fun time of getting to know one another..\n\nGood luck I'M happy for you,
1141940
He is absolutely a gay! He is a couple with Spongebob Squarepants! LOL!
518907
That's a difficult situation to judge. I don't think he would be spending that much time with you asking you here and there if he wasn't interested in something more than friendship. However I could be wrong, maybe he's gay!\nI would wait and see what happens. If he's really interested then things will progress in their own time. Maybe he is unsure of how you feel about him too. Try talking to him?
621129
poor you, well if he likes you ask him why? if you're not gay tell him. he will get over it some time, i hope!
509792
You are a guy, and he is a guy, right?  Makin sure I understand the question.  True friends are the BOMB, but if you are a guy and not gay, then just tell him like it is - you like women, you love him as a friend, but ya just don't go that way ... if he's a true friend, he'll understand and won't hold it against you.  You've been brave and strong enough to be his friend - even though he's gay and you're not ... if I'm getting this right - you've gotta be true to yourself just as he is true to himself.  Just put it out on the table the way it is ... the truth is always the best policy.  You might tell him if you were gay, he would be the first one you'd come to, but you're not.  He'll appreciate your honesty I think, and you will be closer friends for it.  And if I'm wrong and you're a female with a gay best friend - they are good friends, and I've found, real, honest, down-to-earth people, so....same advice.
715144
I beileve you should go for it. I mean you dont want to live your entire life with regret. I mean come on life should be spontaneous go out and try it. I mean you know he is at least interested he is flirting with you back. Have you made sure he is gay because some straight guys flirt with gay people just to be funny. But as long as he is actually gay go for it I mean the most he can say is no and then you can just get up and go after the next guy you fall in love with. If he says no it isnt going to be the end of the world even thought that is what it may seem like. You will move on but dont put all these negatives in your head he may just be waiting on you to make the first move.
550225
I was in love at a young age too and my guy turned out to be gay. We're still friends, but it is just an example of how much can change. I'm now married to a great man I would have never met had I stayed with a guy while I was your age. Keep you options open, but stay with him as long as you are happy. Just don't make any perm. decisions till you are older. You both still have a lot of changing to do. Tell him you love him too, but you don't want to promise a life together just yet. Not because you want to be with someone else, or someone better, but because you both could change and you don't want to make mistakes.
71103
Is it about friendship or relationship?  Knowing that you are gay is big enough already, don't add that you are in love with him to the mix.  It will be too much to handle.  Coming out is hard.  You do risk losing him as a friend also.  Not everyone's upbringing has prepared them for this.  If he is a true friend with a reasonable upbringing, he will still be your friend.
456843
hmmm...personally, i'd guess that he's not gay.  I'd say that he's either bisexual, or he's playing that angle to get you to be more relaxed, more comfortable around him, so the transition to a relationship would be easier and less awkward.  It might not work, but that would be my conclusion regarding the whole sitch.
452075
well, tell him how you really feel and tell him your sorry but your not gay.. just be honost in a nice way and tell the truth .. if he truley is your friend or likes you then hell undestand but if not then he's not your friend..
1133899
Just wait sweety it will happen. I was like you thought that all decent guys were taken or gay. They are not, I have the best bloke in the world and he is my best friend too. We started off as friends and it just went from there! Good luck and be patient. xx
171314
In this situation you should probably try spending some quality time with the person sooner or later it will become totally clear of their sexuality and you never know if they are they may come out and ask you first, either that or talk to a mutual friend if there is one available, and try to get the dish on what they are into, basically the same thing you would do if you were straight, nothing really has to be different. The worst that could happen is that he says no but it is best to be true to yourself :-))!!!
299173
my best guy friend is gay
717229
There is nothing wrong with loving your best friend and he being another guy. Or are you saying you want to be in a relationship with him? If that is the case then...Is you guy friend gay? You need to decide if your friendship is strong enough to handle that kind of question. If you two are best friends you should know what his sexual orientation is. If you are "best friends" you should be able to tell him anything right...
976368
It sounds like he may be gay and almost ready to come out of the closet.  You are pretty there is nothing wrong with you it is him.  Dump his azz and get you a real man who has a big d*ck and can't keep his hands off of you.