how its impossible to be inlove even in chatroom.have you been inlove w/your chatmate?
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You love their personality, their attitude... if you love that, well, you love quite a bit about them.
168973
thats horrible when it happens and boy do i know how it is...actually i am in love with a guy who doesnt love me back ... I am just trying to accept that and trying to move on....hence trying...sorry cant really help but wanted you to know you are not alone.
561757
Now I got your problem- Sweetie... You have to move on your life.. for all you know he might have been married all the time you had chatted with him.. And you dont love him... this is not love... love is when you actually let go of the person whom you say you love and when that person comes back to you... you can say its love. Right now its nothing more of an attraction. Get out and meet new people.. try n get over him... if he doesnt want have a relationship with you stop pusuing him...!!!
175740
You get to know someone and if they touch your heart love is quite possible.  I fell in love through chatting with someone long before I knew what he looked like. You can't judge a book by it's cover because then you may not see what's INSIDE .  I think chatting gives you an unbiased , open view to that person as long as they're  being honest and if you chat enough times you can tell.
7737
Be very, very careful with internet love.  I've had a couple of psychos threaten to kill me, after I decided I didn't want to talk to them, or they realized I was chatting to someone else besides them.
1066597
my bf i met on answers. it's going great. other guys i've met online....and we went out for a while. so i'm not opposed to meeting someone online as long as you know in time you'll meet each other. it IS possible to fall in love this way. :)
488371
u shud go n try in yahoo chat.
499959
I'm in one and its not hard to keep going because what happens, happens you have no control over it plus theres around a million or more people on the internet thats lonely.*\n\nSure we wish everthing turns out great but if it don't it was never meant to be.\n\nI'm into my 6 month and from this end looks good the hardest thing is trust.\nBut you build that up during the long distance relationship are it surely will not work.\n\nYes our mine think things and we just got to live with it untill you our anyone comes together as one.\n\nThan we our complete!
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Have you ever met this man? \nYou may be in love with the 'idea' of him, but I don't believe it's possible to be in love with someone you have not met.\nThere could be a number of reasons why he is no longer writing to you, maybe he hurt himself and is in the hospital, maybe he is dealing with a family issue that he is not ready to talk about, maybe he found someone else to chat with, maybe he is not in love with you the way you think he is. This list could go on and on.\nWhen is the last time you two chatted? In hindsight do you recall any differences in his responses to you?\nYour best bet is to ask him why he has stopped writing and then you will have your answer as to what to do. \nIf you have his phone number, give him a call.\nGood luck, I hope everything works out for you.
529076
It is absolutely impossible to be in love with someone you have never met.  It's called 'infatuation'. \n\nIt's like thinking you're in love with an actor or someone on television.  You don't know them and you will never meet them, but you 'feel' you are in love with their character.
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You probably think that you love him.  But the problem with chatting with someone you never met, is you have no idea if that is the "real" them.  Most times it is not.  Everyone shares the best things about themselves, so you aren't going to know all the weird, quirky, or even disturbing things.  Not to mention the stuff they tell you could be completely made up.\nI believe it is possible to love what you believe is the person, but you could be loving a made-up person.
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Try the Yahoo! Chat rooms.. i found a coupla good friends there.. Real good friends! But i don know how ppl behave these days in chat rooms.. neway its an option.. try!
883417
I don't care what anyone says, you can't go from being friends to lovers.  Well, it's not entirely impossible, but let me know the next time win the lottery... twice.
1109525
First of all unless anyone has walked in your shoes they should not be judging you.  I am going through the same thing right now.  It has not been easy for me.  This person is a friend of mine and my husbands, he is also married.  We were chatting then one thing lead to another, the chat turned sexual and from there I formed an emotional bond with this man. Nothing has happend physically but  it has totally messed up my emotions, I feel like I am a mess since this has happend.  I have a great husband, and I am no longer communicating with our friend, but honestly I always think about him and miss him, why I don't know but it has been real hard.  This is one door I wish I never would have opened.  I don't know your details but the one thing I can tell you is to ask yourself what led you to do this, I had to do the same and I am in counseling right now.  Believe me I did not expect this hardship when I first started dabbling in this, it seemed harmless and kind of fun, but like they say when you play with fire, you will get burned and that I did.
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Yes.  I moved to another place about 6 - 7 hours away from my previous address.  Then all of a sudden a former female co-worker / friend of mine e-mailed me and basically professed her love to me and that she was willing to have a long distance relationship.  \n\nI was totally caught by surprise!  To make a long story short, I told her that I was not interested and that we should just be friends because most likely long distance relationships won't work.  Besides, I was never into her.  Sure, I was friendly to her, but I had no intentions in going further.  \n\nThen I got a barrage of hateful e-mails from her that lasted for 2 weeks.   I just ignored each of her hateful e-mails, and she never e-mailed me back, and I never heard from her again.
337107
Go into the chat rooms! Geez! Oh...and thanks for the 2 points...
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Get outta here moron!\n\nYour part of the reason why chatrooms suck! you damn pervert. Oh and on a final note, go read your bible.