how can i "attract" or get a girl i like?
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Be confident, even if your not just give the impression you are (women love confidence).  If you see her out and about with some mates go talk to her, but talk to the friends first to calm your own nerves and to get their aprooval of you.  If they like you and see your a genuinely nice and funny guy she will become more interested in you.  \nStart chatting to her when you feel more confortable and talk to her and try to find out things she is interested in(music interests, where she likes to hang out, favourite movie)... before you know it you could find you have alot in common and kick off really well. If however you come a road block and there is just silence between you or you feel too nervous, makeup an excuse and leave (eg "I have to go meet my friends now, they're lost with out me... nice chatting to you see you later in class").\n\nNext time you see her again go chat, see how she is, if her friends are around talk to them aswell...but most of all don't mumble and be assertive! Again if your conversation comes to a stand still again make and excuse and leave ("got to go back to class").\n\nAfter a few times of chatting to her(and her friends) and finding more out about her each time you should have a few ideas on what she likes.... the next time you see her speak to her and ask if she wants to go to the cinema to that film she's really wanting to see, or if your feeling adventurous ask her to go swimming (although not alot of women are too comfortable to get into a swiming costume with someone they don't know too well) either way what you decide to do, make sure its something fun and nothing too formal like going for a silver service meal..... and nothing like going to McDonnalds either LOL!  Also this doesn't have to be just you and her you can get her to bring a friend and you yourself bring a friend.\n\nAssuming all this goes well and you've been out a few times and really starting to find you both like each other go for the kill and ask her marry you.....just kidding. ask her to go out with you or go steady (what ever you call it in the US).
1012545
i want the girl to like me for who i am, to be kind and funny, to be smart, to have things in common with me.... of course shes gotta be attractive lol
349731
By just being your self and have fun. Be open and SMILE! if she still does not like you then you know she is not worth your time cause there is a lot of girls out there for you. GOOD LUCK!
213418
Start talking to girls. And talk. And talk some more.\n\nAnd when you've finished doing that, go ahead and talk some more.\n\nSeriously, the best way to get girls is to talk to them. Get to know them. Their favorite foods, their hobbies, etc. Nothing pleases a girl more than a guy who is geniuinely interested in hearing what she has to say.
552913
Be nice to her.  Tell her she looks nice.  Compliment her out fit.  Just be nice and she'll like you!
548159
yea man.  i can help you out.  pretend you dont care.  if you want a girl just pretend you dont like her, and she'll come crawling back.  never failed.  girls dont you dare get pissed at me either.  you know its true!
594387
take it from a girl just talk to her even if it is just WHAT MUSIC YOU INTO? or something along those lines pretend your talking to your closest friend and tell her a joke (one you know for sure is funny) if that doesnt break the ice then its not worth it find some1 who appreciates your admiration if she actually talked to you for three hours i think shes trying to say HI IM INTERESTED MAKE YOUR MOVE!!! girls are much subtle than boys
144260
Dont be in such a hurry to get a girl.\nLook around.
507409
then be a lovely guy!  get involved in classes, activities that girls might be in.  Find her doing something you like, then you have something in common.  BE FRIENDS FIRST.....then you will know if she has an interest in you.
1001494
lol. It's not simple.. i have a girl on my mind big time.. i guess you either ask them out, call, or just see them.. it should satisfy you for atleast a while.. worked for a while for me untill i realllllly started liking her
179990
Dude all I have to say is be patient. You just haven't find the right girl yet. When find her it'll be special. If you like a girl right now then ask her out I bet she really likes you.
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Just calm down... Be yourself ... If you really, really liked her and you do not want to lose her then you have to do everything to win her.  Ressearch everything about her, her likes and dislikes but first you have to do your first move by getting acquianted to her...then plan your next move... it is  like playing chess, you have to win the challenge
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If there is a girl that you like right now and you want her to like you back then just become god friends, flirt, and then ask her out, or at least let her know how you feel about her. Trust me, we are looking for more guys who will actually ask the girl out before we have to do it are selves. If you don't have someone in mind, just wait, i know it's not what you want to hear but it's true. she will come along sooner then you think.
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be yourself.  don't try to be something you are not just to attract girls.  have patience.  the harder you try the longer it will take.  show respect towards girls don't be egoistic.  All the Best.
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depends if u want one, and wht the girls around u are like, if u like someone try being nice n friendly, always works!! gud luck!!! :)))
225127
First, see if she's attracted to you. If she's not, don't waste your time, look for someone else.\n\nIf she really  IS attracted to you, then try to interact with her regularly and things will flow from there.
1006141
Others here will no doubt give you the standard good advice which is fine, but here is some advanced information ---- find out if you are her TYPE (what she is attracted to)....if you are GREAT....if not there is really not much that you can do except find another girl that is attracted to you and hopefully you to her.