"She's a man eater" -- Ladies how can you be this way...and guys how can you fall for girls like that?
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I don't.\n\nI prefer ladies who have class and self respect.
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You are right, I see some of my old friends play guys and it makes me sick. When they start in a relationship she thinks she wants him and him only, and 2 weeks later, she wants his best friend too. then both guys get hurt (heart break) and she moves on to the next guy, who falls for her... and it goes on and on... Just sickening...  Some men do women the same way though, not as many men as women though. Don't stop being the nice guy, there are some good women left that appreciate a great guy, and that sounds like what you are. Good Luck with the next one.
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To start off don't be missing your meals - you need the food ( good food) to make you think constructively - now for the guy issue - why would somebody like a person who does not like herself?\n\nGet to enjoy who you are, they will build your confidence level and guys like the girl who has it all together - study and get smart - if you get good in your studies, you'll be able to hand pick your boy friend, trust me
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Sencerity. Lots of things can seduce a woman, but you should always mean them. If you tell a woman you love her, then you better really love her. Keeping that in mind here are some things that I suggest.\nTelling her she is beautiful, but be specfic, like what makes her beautiful. Her eyes? Her hair?\nBe honest about your feelings. A lot of guys think's "uncool" and "unmanly", but I love it when a guy is comfortable enough with me to tell me how he feels. Share your sensitive side. I recently had a guy admit that he cried when he found out that his last gf cheated on him and I thought "how sweet". And I know you are probably thinking "what a wuss", but I think it's really sexy. Some guys act like they don't even have feelings. \nTell her what you like about her(personality), this means you actually have to like her, not just want to sleep with her. \nPay attention to what she likes. Know her favorite color, favorite flower, even her fav flavor gum. It may sound stupid, but she will really like it if she knows that you paid enough attention to her to know things like that. Like is she tells you favorite candy bar is twix and you pick one up on the way to see her, she will know that you remembered, it may seem like something small, but it means you listened.\n\nWell, I hope all that helps!!! Good Luck, and remember to always be honest!!!!
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Why is it the moment a guy acts like a gentleman, not an ape, some [expletive deleted] has to propose that he is gay.  As if the poor girl would not have guessed by now if that was the case!  Give us a break!\n\nA man does not show how much respect he has for a woman, how much real devotion he is capable of, by crawling all over her like a mindless animal, dominated by his passions.  And he certainly does not convey a sense of having self-control, which is, after all, important to being a man.  Self-control, I mean.  Surely you can think of plenty of reasons why that is true.\n\nSo don't fault the guy for not trying to mangle you in a tango.  He was nervous, you were nervous, but you managed to do something like dancing anyway.  And it apparently meant enough to you to spend your points here asking the same plaintiff question over and over again!\n\nGentle men are to be encouraged and rewarded.  The nicest reward of all, of course, would be the love of a woman he wants.
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Ok.. from what Im getting is your meeteing girls then telling them how much u like and appreciate them.. ok dependin on how u show/say this ,and how this sounds to me.. you sound like u are wanting a commitment, and there is a theory that only men are afraid of commitment ...thats not true.. some women are too.. dont come out and say "hey i want to get married!" ( not that u say that but u might as well)  just be normal, get to know her. and if sex isnt in ur 1st date agenda, then theres no reason to "convince" her its not.  just be ur self without all the "persuading" of how u "appreciate" women. cause also when a man goes on about how much he "appreciates" women.. well thats just hey im a lying ass and just want in ur pants. somethings can be taken  differently
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basically, girls love to talk about themselves!!  ask about her interests, her family, her background....anything you can think of to do with her!!  she'll be eating outta your hand in no time!!
994910
So you like to hang around with Shallow Al or Hal or whatever the name of the nut was in the movie.\n\nWith most males in our coupling search, hormones rule.  Is she attractive?  Go for her.  After some point of satisfaction we start thinking with the head atop our shoulders instead.  Then other factors are considered (personality, feelings, dreams, etc.).  For a lot of guys with a lot physical desire driving them to the attraction, the issue is a willing body.  Getting to know the woman inside the body is somewhat an acquired taste and not all guys like the flavor.\n\nI heard a shrink once say, "To a man the price of sex is intimacy, and to a woman the price of intimacy is sex."  Some women bargain so cheaply that the guy never has to pay his part of the bargain.
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People have different kinds of views when its comes to love, dating and romance, having you heard that " ONE MAN'S MEAT IS ANOTHER MAN'S POISON" what you like your friends might not, there are many ladies out  there  who loves fat men, you not gonna be the first nor the last.
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Be a good listener..let her talk to you about the bad stuff that's happened to her..she'll know you care..and don't move too fast on telling her how you feel..just let her know you care by listening and making sure she knows not all guys are like that..if you do that, she most likely will end up realizing that she's falling for you =) and if i were you, i wouldn't use the fish sandwich idea..hahah
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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I agree somewhat with Katrina, that men can be intimiated by independent and strong women.  But, as a guy, I would say "put off," not exactly intimidated.  For example, I recently dated a gal who I was very attracted to, although she wasn't stunning- she just "did it" for me.  But, she spent too much time telling me about her degrees from MIT, how she worked for Steve Jobs, etc..  Relationships are about humanness to me- life's little problems, emotionality, sensuality.  I talk shop all day at work, and want something deeper in a relationship.  It just got to a point where I didn't want to hold a conversation with her, since we just couldn't connect.  I guess the point is maybe revisit the guys you like with a deeply human approach, and see how that works.  I agree with the rest of the posters-  it's hard to meet someone you like.  It's true for me, too.  I live in the middle of nowhere.
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OK. as a guy, who has done that, i was tempted to do that time and time again. but my girl keeps me in check(m not pu**y whipped). she is more than i can handle. which is good. she is not forgiving, but she knows how to punish me. i mean, she loves me, and she knows that i love her. it has been three years now, and i havent even looked at another girl (matter of speaking). she trusts me, and boy, that is all i need.
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Ways a guy can tell if a girl/woman is desparate...she is overly aggressive and never says no to anything, she calls too much...she emotionally pours out all her feelings toward you before the two of you are considering even dating....those are signs....I dont want to make this sound primative but guys usually prefer to be the predator we like the chase it gives us a feeling of conquest...(we are weird like that..).....and to your 2nd question....For us it's a competition (sometimes within ourselves)...so we can blow up our ego...unfortunately it may not always be about you....(we men suck like that sometimes...sorry)
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Maybe you just need help with getting your foot in the door with women your attracted to, it sounds like your friend has a PHD on how to do this, get a few pointers from him, just you can beat him in the long run if you think you know how to keep a girl when you get a girl. Maybe you just need to brush up a little bit on how to start good conversations with girls and keep them wanting more, talk to your friend, just treat the girl right once you get her attention, it sounds like thats all he doesnt know how to do. And in the long run thats what women want the most.
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Oh yeah. That guy absolutely is head over heels for the girl normally. Too bad he's in the friend zone. I pity those guys more than any other man on the planet since they are so incredibly close to what they want and they will never get it. Its kind of like a homeless person that owns an unbreakable box with $1000 in it. The person wants that money more than anything, but they have no way to get to it. The plight of the "male friend" is truly one of the saddest in the history of humankind.\n\nWhich is why I don't make female friends anymore.
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Been going on for a long time.  It happens on the mens side too though.  You know, the tall, good looking guy gets to stud the bigger, beautifull girl blaa, blaa blaa.... \n\nMen know they are being manipulated.. they don't care as long as it doesn't effect their rice bowl (money) and threaten a divorce by their wife, which costs them (money).. so your observations are correct and true.\n\nCan you play the same game... no... you don't have it in you.  YOur too smart for that game.  When the sheit hits the fan in life or business your the type the management will draw on or your family will depend on... don't fall for that mainpulative style... it is short lived as once their beauty is gone.. it all goes away and they are left in the dust to be bitter old bitches as the men won't jump like they used too as another pretty face will move in..\n\nyour smart... honest... and observent... and probably good in many other ways, .. so that too me makes a perfect gal.  A manipulative gal, I can pick her out right away and I stay away... no time for games for me.