have you met the person you seriously don't want to spend the rest of your life without?
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Yes....20 years ago and I'm still together with him.  He is my soulmate.  He changed for me, and I changed for him and yet we still have our separate identies.  \n\nI knew because we started out as friends and when my boyfriend (at the time) dumped me for something cuter, he took me bowling, just to keep my mind off of that.  I knew he was the guy when he took me home, walked me to the door and hugged me.  20 years later - he's still hugging and the feeling just keeps better.\n\nLike turned into love and we've been through every stage of the marriage vows except death.  We are better now than we were 10 years ago and I feel like a young woman all over again, and maybe even more so now because I'm a little bit older, a lot wiser, and I know I'd do it all over again.\n\nMy dad always said you know you've found him when you can picture him in a wheelchair and you're right by his side.  Well, I did, and I am.  My dad was right.
569780
You can't change this person into making him an affectionate man.  Why would you want to spend the rest of your life with a man like this?
609184
you cant be without your loved one, feel out of place without him, have no reason to leave, etc
157086
you can neva LOVE someone you have neva met cos u dont even know de person u are loving
562480
Who is it that you really want to be with!?  I was in the same situation, but i stayed with the guy that i was longer with because i knew how he was and i didn't really know the new guy and how his personality really was since i wasn't with him for long
150943
don't find someone you can live with, find someone you can't live without.
80057
Not the fact that you can live with one another but the fact that you cannot live a day without eachother!!=)
244789
as for myself, i always think about that person, if i go shopping instead of getting myself something i look to see if i could them  find a small gift for them, you cant eat sometimes, or sleep , you cant wait for their call, they make you smile, and laugh, songs seem to matter more, i mean the words, you want to spend time with only them, and when you think she is pretty, even not fixed up..YOUR IN LOVE!
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when you feel it in your heart that you want to spend the rest of your life with that special someone.
496798
I was married for 20 years...got to the whole "'til death do you part" portion of the deal.  He was my absolute best friend, husband, lover...soulmate.  I do believe that in long term relationships there is no gray area, you either grow together, or you grow apart.  I have become who I am because of the life we shared and by having to survive his death...I am stronger, more independent, and hopefully one hell of a mother because of it all.
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It's so hard because they are what you have longed for all your life... I have 'someone' in my mind in the exact same way!! I think about her constantly, I am consumed by her. I'm loving it, its the best feeling! I think about where she is and what she's doing all the time, I imagine her on her way to work - what she's decided to wear that day, which perfume she's wearing, did she remember to take her phone to work! (LOL) I imagine her reading my emails...I imagine her smile, the way she smooths her hair. I can see her rolling her eyes at some stupid joke I have made, but smiling after... I think about when I see her and the look on our faces and the butterflies in our stomachs...\n\nI cant get her out of my mind, to be honest I dont want to even try!\n\nIt's so hard because she is EVERYTHING I could wish for, and more...
235743
Do you really have someone that you need to use this information on?  If so, sorry  IT'S TOO LATE!
289607
If you care abought someone they mean everything to you. You wouldn't want to be without them, and you don't like being away from them.
287052
I loved him so much that I could not imagine my life without him. When you love someone that much you want to show that, and the best way we could think of was to make a life long commitment to eachother. I love him more today then I did the day we got married. For me one of the greatest gifts he could have ever given me was his last name. I love being married and being a wife!
99775
Someone that you can love and trust with all of your heart. A person that knows you inside and out that would never never hurt you in any way shape or form. Someone that always puts you first before EVERYTHING (except God of course) And someone that makes you laugh and more than one or two  little arguments a month is way too much. I found that person, yes he does exist for me.I met him oct 15th of 04. His name is Chris and we are getting married Sep 9th!!
168795
When you don't have to ask this question anymore then you know you are truly inlove with someone...
1062197
yes i do.  I found mine.  He keeps me grounded and is a partner in every sense of the word.  Yours is out there and will probably come around when you least expect it.