yes or no what should my mom do?
822964
whats wrong with a hickie?  its just a mark that proves you had a good time yesterday hahaha.  your life is not your moms responsibility, its yours.  do what is best for yourself, not what your mom thinks is best, unless your mom is the perfect person, then you should listen to her
647972
It is time to let go. Four years has given you your answer. She'll never change even if she claims she will. She sounds paranoid to me in fact, endangering her young son. You're trying to do the right thing but it is time to realise that the right thing to do now is to divorce her, get custody of your son, move on and find another woman worthy of your trust, respect and love. Don't stick around and let her scar you even more for that's just too convenient for her to do. It is not something you want your young son to think - that his dad cannot stand up for what he thinks is right and let a woman (even if it is his mom) put him down over and over again & cheat on him. I am sorry if what I said have offended you. I know you are doing this out of love but she does not deserve it and your son deserves a better mom. She lost her right to be his mother when she did what she did. Sorry. And Good Luck to You!
568573
i think u shuld b open to ur mom tel her da truth she will understand u better shes ur mom nuthin will go wrong u hve to b clear shes  da one closest to u in dis tym
1165164
Here's the thing about giving advice, most people don't understand. Advice needs to be solicited. In other words, to offer advise when it's not asked for is rude; hence, "Who asked you, \nanyway?"\n   What you do is ask, "Mom, I really have some ideas, on your current situation, I'd like to share with you. Would you like to hear them?" If she says yes, then she'll be receptive to your ideas. It sounds like she just needs to have a plan and get some income going. If she says no, then leave it alone; since she won't listen anyway. "A person convined against their will is of the same opinion still!"
708771
Talk to your mom about it
443002
First of all; you're married. You need to be united with your husband, not your mom. Secondly, you need to learn to detach from your mom and her situations,and the 11 yr. old, if you don't think your mom is a capable mom, you could take him and be that capable mom yourself. Your mom has issues. Personally, it sounds like she likes to sleep around. The quality of your life has to be there for you, and your husband, and the new family you are raising.
289171
I would first talk with the professionals that are taking care of her. If they feel good that she is on the right track and is not a game player anymore. Then I would contact her and feel for myself. (the one thing I do know about Mom is that she can read me like a book) If I feel comfortable that she has recognized that she has an illness and  needs psychotherapy, medication and she is willing to go to a halfway house to adjust her new life...Then yes i would buy the gas and go to her new life graduation....
81454
keep in mind that she has your best interest in mind when she says no to your requests.  \nI think it is awesome that you realize it is a problem and that you want to change.  It shows you care about her and want to have a good relationship with her.  \nMaybe you could try making a list of all the good things she has done for you in the past week, and then make a list of all the good things you have done for her in the past week.  \nIf your list is shorter maybe you should go make her a cup of hot chocolate and tell her you are sorry.\nThis may sound weird, but she is, after all your mom and knows an awful lot about you, why don't you ask her why she thinks it is that you yell at her..  and tell her you want to get along.\nIts never easy to apologize, but doing so will show her you are growing up, and possibly you will earn some privileges by doing so.
477444
Mom is someone who would always what betterment of her children. so if she asks u to do something  that she thinks is right for u  then thats becoz she  loves u a lot & cares of u, i completely understand what u  must be going thru when ur mom fails understands ur  views of life ,but believe me that too is just becoz she loves u a lot , she still thinks that u are her little kid & she needs to take care of u . now at this stage , if u are not able top convince ur mom towards something , take  the help of another person who can convince her, any of ur moms freinds or her siblings or any elders in the family whom ur mom respects &  obeys & loves. make them understand the  facts  & ask them to convince or make ur mom understand that u are right .\n       One last thing  ur mom is a person who has brought u this  world , she is the one who has equal rights on  ur life as u do. becoz u are a part of her own self.\n        LOVE UR MOM A LOT , TRY TO KEEP HER HAPPY.\n\n AND ONE LAST THING  "ITS ALWAYS NICER TO WIN THE BATTLES WITH UR KINDNESS."\n\nBE EXTRA KIND TO UR MOM  MAKE HER FEEL THAT SHE IS VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT TO U & U WANT HER HAPPY ALWAYS  TRUST ME , SHE WILL MELT FOR U .
343036
She likes hers Ebonics.  Word to your mother, What?
306780
thank her for loving you if she didn't care where you were going or who you were with she wouldn't be a mom. I am now a mother and thank god my mom cared enough to CARE good luck and if your not doing anything wrong what does it matter if she ask???
300614
Move in with some other family members but ask her first sounds like you both may need a copy of days apart. But you tell your mom don't fight with her, Moms love there kids but you to young to see this.\nYou will one day.
199535
Try to find out what makes her, happy, sad, angry, and relaxed. When you find out these things, then you'll know what to and not to do to press her buttons. People usually say try talking to herr, but if your mother isn't the talking type, write a letter, but try not to sound so dogmatic in the letter. Let her know how you feel, but in a respectful way.  Parents always try to say that we as young adults, we lack respect because we feel like we're practically grown, so make sure you give her the upmost respect, even you maynot think she deserves it at times, because as the bible says "Honor your Father and Mother, that way it may go well with you, and you may have length days upon the earth"
213901
Be honest.\nYour mother wants the best for you; if you need help,\nshe'll be happy you came to her.\nFind a quiet moment when you can approach her without being interrupted.\nGood luck.
796280
tell your mom how you feel
1017119
You can talk to your mom about how you feel about her partner.  Let her know you are worried for her safety as well as your own safety.  You can only let her know how you feel and try to point things out to her - you can't make her see the light or get rid of him.
1099922
yeah sure it looks that way. just don't jump the gun and get mad at your mom. this could all be unavoidable. just tell her you really want to come up and for her to not make any plans to prevent your visit. If she still continues to have excuses...i dunno, try talking to your dad about it. maybe he'll talk to your mom about the way it's affecting you.