How do guys feel about girls that cheat on them?
824292
I'm pretty sure in this case she's just a means to an end--in other words, a booty call. He's lost respect for her, hence the treating her like crap even though he's sleeping with her, and he probably feels that he's entitled to act that way since she cheated on him.
723348
don't really know, never cheated on anyone, don't understand the need to cheat.  i figure if you feel like cheating then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.  but maybe him being in a relationship with you is just a way of him boosting his own confidence up a little for personal braggin rights such as "yea, i got a girlfriend".  either way just dump him and move on
278419
Boy FIND SOMEONE else "once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater"  They may not think they are cheating now but they just cant help it.. They will never change!  Trust me Im a girl!!
688726
Once a cheater always one, believe that for alot of reasons.  Biggest one is they feel it's ok to do it, or they wouldn't have done it.  second is that the trust is gone, and it will affect the relationship, and therefore, giving them more reason to go out and find someone else.
716899
Once a cheater always a cheater...forget about whether he likes or not but think about what kind of person he is that thinking about going out with you while having a girl friend. He has to finish the relationship and then move on to you.What! Is He holding the girl he's dating as a back up...or he's thinking you as a back up!
1041573
once a cheater ...always a cheater...in rare cases ...after the cheater has lost it all..they try to change...and want you back...and all is good for a while...and just when you think how great things are and you let your guard down...they do it again.
1113391
well if I say no your probably going to assume I am lying, but in truth I really have never cheated on a girlfriend. speculation- I think "people, not just men" cheat because they are bored with the relationship. I think that men cheat more because their are times when your wonderfull girlfriend just isnt up to it. I dont pretend to know why girls fake headaches and refuse to have sex for weeks at a time but it does happen. and then thier are other reasons why people cheat, Intoxication. Have you ever been so drunk that you had no Idea what you were doing. that happens everyday. especially with college aged men and women. \n\nIf I had a girllfriend that I loved and she cheated on me? I dont know if I would or would not forgive her. If I thought she wouldnt do it again and that she really wanted to be forgave then yes of course nobodys perfect. but if it was something that she had been doing alot, then hell no. its time to get over her and find someone who is worth your time.
399117
I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON A GIRLFRIEND. MOST OF THEM HAVE BEEN GOOD GIRLS. THE ONES WHO CHEAT ARE JUST LOWLIFE SCUMBAGS JUST LOOKING FOR A PEICE AF #SS. LOSERS THATS ALL THEY ARE.
137600
Not necessarily. Some guys say that so a girl will think he doesn't cheat
416677
i agree with you, most guys need to get some things straight.  although i disagree with you on the decent guys being taken.  i have quite a few friends who are decent guys and they are upset that all the decent girls are with these pathetic guys that you mention.  guys nowadays think it's perfectly fine to treat other people like crap.  they care only for themselves, so if a girl dumps them for being rude or unkind, they shrug it off and try to find someone else.
1129248
Hey if my girl lets some guy lick her pu$$y, then it's cheating.  Also that $hit can lead to something else.  If i walked into a situation like that, i would bash someone's head in.
878055
If a guy is flirting and talking to you for whatever reason and doesnt mention he has a woman then no he really doesnt care for her. And if i were you i wouldnt be the next one to go out with him because im sure he will do the same to you. Its obvious he has no quam about cheating on his girlfriends if he has to hide the fact that he has a girl in the first place. Hes no good.
643168
It's my opinion that it doesn't matter whether it's a woman or a man...I, myself, would not get serious or even date someone I knew had not be faithful.  Even if that person was unfaithful only once.  I could never trust them.  It takes a lot of &*$^%* to cheat!  I've been the victim of one who cheated on me.  We were married.  It seems to be a thrill that they seek, even when the consequences of getting caught could devastate their life.  Who would be stupid enough to take that chance?   I don't understand.
829652
Guys aren't always liars, it's just that finding ones that aren't is the trick...guys don't want commitment, just sex, and they'll do anything to get it (that's how the trojan war started), whether its lie, cheat, steal (and usually, it's all of the above). I know some great guys, who don't lie, but they've fallen victims to lying, cheating girls, and they've vowed never to date again, bcuz every woman knows that there needs to b at least one decent, loving, caring and hot guy in the dating world...
1058337
Yes, I have been cheated on.  But if you ever met my man you would have never guessed that he would ever have done that.  We are still together, he realized what he did was wrong and promised that he would never do that again or I was gone with no second thought. It really hurt me that he would do somthing like that to me, I didn't even find out until a year after it happened. There were some signs though, he became very jealous when I was with any guy or had them in my cell phone and he didn't know them.  There also pictures of the two of them together, he said at first she was just a friend.  Even when I talked to his friends they were shocked.  There is no way to prevent cheating if a guy is going to do it he will.  He told me the reason why he cheated on me was because he said that he wanted to be with me so bad and thought it was me, he was gone for a week. Right before he left I spent a week with him at his lake house and he was telling me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.  Well it has been 3 years now since he cheated on me and I love him with all my heart, and he feels the same way. He knows now that even if I hear a rumour that he was with another girl it's over and he is scared of loosing me.  That was why I stayed with him when I told him that it was over and I never wanted to see him again, it took him 10 minutes for him to leave and he left with tears. then 3 hours later his roomate called me nervous becasue he hadn't seen him and it was 2 am in the middle of the week. I ended up calling him and had been sitting out my window crying  thinking what is he going to do because he really felt that his life was over becasue of a dumb mistake, thats when I knew that he  would be faithful.  I knew that he really loved me.  I hope this helped!
684385
i thik men cheat because the are insecure and have to prove that to themselve sthat they are real men when in all actuallity it would have taken more of a man to stay loyal but i think you can expect him to cheat again but as a male i find that most are probably cheaters unfortunately and i think its very common and accepted among men of men to have multiple women even when commited to one
215966
As a guy, I guess I would want you to tell me how you really feel about me and then if he reciprocates your feelings, then tell him how you feel about the other girls slobbering after him.  Meanwhile, I would question who my 'friends' really are.