how can one get closer to a girl?
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Care about her. When she says something, remember it, and say it suddenly back some day. make small offers to help in anything, but don't be available all the time.\nIf she says xyz is not well, next time you meet, ask, how is xyz? If she collects stamps, get her a rare one. Get the idea?\nDon't suck up to her, but pay her a genuine compliment whenever you like something she does.\nHonesty, chivalry, and genuine caring will get you close to anyone you want.
398614
it would be better to work on this in stages - first, casually run into her or introduce yourself.  Trying to strike up a conversation, or at least make a joke or some comment will mean that the next time you speak with her, it won't be creepy.  Once you've built up a base-line familiarity, you could give asking her out a shot.\n\nGood luck!
446703
STOP BEING SHY!\nThe fear of doing it is greater than actually doing it.\n\nThe next time you see her just ask her if you could take her out for lunch sometime.\n\nDon't listen to the girl above me.\nIf you're attracted to someone you can make the first move...doesn't matter if you're female or not. If you sit around waiting for someone to come to you it's probably not going to happen. \n\nWomen today aren't afraid to do what needs to be done to move forward, doesn't matter if it's their "duty" or not. \n\nAnyway, back to my orignial advice:\nJust ask her! That's the only way you'll know for sure.
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Be a "Secret Admirer" girl's wonder who they are you sure to get some attention she will tell her girl friends and family and everyone will be waiting one day to meet you...\n\nDo this by sending a card with a special home made poem \nyour after her heart so you have to do thing's that they like.\n\nFlowers die cards last forever and you and her will if you approach her in the right ways. Good luck!
249543
Politely introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her, offer your number, that way she won't be worried about what kind of person  has her number.  If she accepts you will feel more confident in meeting other girls until or in case she doesn't call.
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Even if you cant get the nerves to talk to her at first...when ever she passes by give a nice smile that will show that you are into her...(this is called your body language) and say hi as often as possible. To start off a conversation, simply talk about school, then get into other topics as in what activies you both enjoy...if you have something in common, ask her if she would want to go out for some pizza and (the activity) !! Good luck
26423
Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
144260
Dont be in such a hurry to get a girl.\nLook around.
408348
practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become. Girls look for confidence in a guy, one who can express them self. You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to her, dont worry though, shyness wears off, Good luck
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Well, if you REALLY like her...\n\n>DO NOT be shy! Girls think you are a wimp, especially if they're popular. Just suck it up, man.\n\n>When she talks to you, about ANYTHING, it leaces you an opening. I find that the best way is to find funny things to say and jump around to different subjects.\n\n>You mentioned her close friend. Stroke of luck right there. Either you can downright ask her about the girl you like (not recommended), or manipulate (in a good way) her to a conversation about her friend.\n\nBottom line: Just become friends with her. Don't wait to long, and don't jump right in, but find the perfect balance of time (Gee, I sound like a buddhist monk here.).
678258
Start with a simple "Hi". Make yourself available, in other words, be outside often enough that she will see you out there and hopefully will see that as the time to go out to see if you will talk to her. A lot of girls will wait until the guy starts a conversation, don't be shy, you may miss out on your opportunity if you are shy. \n\nI will give you some advice: If you seem like a nice guy, girls do no like to come straight out and say they are not interrested. They drop hints, or drop in their boyfriend's name into a seemingly innocent conversation to give you the hint that they are not interested.
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take it from a girl just talk to her even if it is just WHAT MUSIC YOU INTO? or something along those lines pretend your talking to your closest friend and tell her a joke (one you know for sure is funny) if that doesnt break the ice then its not worth it find some1 who appreciates your admiration if she actually talked to you for three hours i think shes trying to say HI IM INTERESTED MAKE YOUR MOVE!!! girls are much subtle than boys
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go up and talk to her
578960
Get to know her first and start off conversation something simple and interested in her or you. Just be yourself and relax she might like you who are.
137637
Ask her if she would like to hang out sometime, as friends. Then get to know her and remember to ask her LOTS of questions (so she knows you really do care about her and her life). Then see where it goes from there. If you feel she's into you, then ask her out on a date. Good luck and never give up--that's a key to getting any girl--show her the world and actually deliver it.
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if you want to get a girls start sending off signs like looking at her and make sure she knows that you are looking at her. once that happen go up to her and ask her whats her name and when she tells you leave don't ask her anything else. because then you got her wondering about you. after at least two days past go up to her again and then start to talk to her tell her that you have been think about her and that you like her alot then ask her for her number. trust me it work because im a girl
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Do you see her a lot? Start by smiling at her, which will gradually lead to hellos and then take it from there. It'll be a lot easier to strike up a conversation after the first few smiles and hellos, then you won't be a complete stranger. You'll be able to guess whether she is going to want to talk to you by the way she acts when you smile at her.