my bf talks to his x and hides it when i asked him y he needs to talk to her he said because he likes to!?
826229
He talks to his ex and hides it because he likes her. You are serving as a filler in his relationship gap.
452632
You need to loosen his leash!  It's perfectly OK for your BF to talk to other girls.  It's the actions that you need to be concerned about.
651164
Now does he say "Wow she's pretty!" or does he say "DAMN!!! lokk at that girls butt" If he says the former, well than maybe you should lighten up a lil' bit.  He compliments you too, and obviously thinks your something special.  If he didn't he wouldn't want to be exclusive with YOU.  If he's fun to be with and he's nice to you than your insecurity is not justified.  Take the time to enjoy yourself and focus on the good things, instead of the tiny bad stuff.  If you find it still bothers you open the lines of communication and let him know
345310
Tell him how you feel about him talking to this chick.  If he still talks to her, then dump him.  You two were together before he knew her.  So after ya'll got back together he shouldn't be talking with her anymore.  That's lack of respect.
1159748
LOL!! That was a beautiful way to handle that situation!! <bowing humbly>  There is nothing wrong with what you asked him and if he's never talked to you like this before, I would be a little suspicious.  Why is he so defensive?  It was an innocent question, nothing clingy about it.  Something doesn't sit right with this...I could be wrong...but it sounds like he's trying to hide something.
406387
She could have been friend with your bf for years . . . while you are new to the picture.\n\nSounds like you are one of those jealous types . . . and she doesn't know how you would react if another person talks with your man.\n\nYou are already getting on his case . . . when he said nothing is happening . . . and to prove it . . . she want you to come join them on events their group of friends  always do.  \n\nIf you want to learn more of what your bf is about . . . go . . . and become friends with them . . . I bet you they have stories you never even heard before.  If you are too self-centered . . . then dump you boyfriend and get another sucker . . .
63315
Ummm...thats really wierd i think you described me.I think it's a girl thing cuz i do the same thing to my bf all the time. I really can't describe why i do it. I know its pissess him off. Now does she tell you after a while or does she never tell you whats bothering her?
852422
DROP HIM SWEETIE! IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME HE'S PLAYING GAMES.  IT'S OBVIOUS HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HIS EX AND I BELIEVE HE WANTS TO CUT YOU LOOSE BECAUSE HE WANTS TO TRY AND WORK THINGS OUT WITH HER.  YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT.  YOU SHOULD HAVE SOMEONE WHO IS DEDICATED TO YOU AND YOU ONLY.
236585
Because he is using u! He either wants some action wants to impress his friends, or make another girl jealous. He cant be comited therefor... he is so not worth it! He doesnt want you to ask him first because he doesnt seem to have a problem expressing himself.
489512
ask him to whisper to your boyfriend what he said then you don't have to tell your boyfriend yourself
370594
He sounds jealous and that is his problem and not yours. This can wreck a relationship. Just tell him you are with him and to cut out making problems where none exist.
1048053
stop all communication because its not fair to you or to his GF. he should have told you in the beginning so that you could have decided if you wanted to be involved with him considering his circumstances. but he was a liar for getting your feelings involved then telling you about his GF.
58670
why should you have to?  Sounds like your bf has some issues. Do you expect him to prove to you that he isn't speaking with girls? Please drop this nut and find yourself a healthy relationship, and possibly some counseling so you can realise just how unhealthy your question is.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
800707
He probably still has feelings for his ex if i were you i would just let him go and move and.But  if you really want to be with him tell him to stop talking to her and if he really wants to have something with you he will but if not then youre going to know hes not worth it.I've been in thins kind of situation before it hurts knowing there was someone else in your bf's past, do what you think is best for you.
448297
Your friend was wrong to making a move on your bf, if she did. Maybe your boyfriend was talking about your friends because he knows how important they are in your life? Try talking about it with all three of them. Get each other sides of the story before you jump to anymore conclusions! Good luck!
563061
In my opinion, No... he should not be talking w/another woman about her's, his, or anybody elses relationships. whether you know them or not.  Things like this lead to emotional cheating.  Stop him now....