I am 24 and a virgin?  is that wrong..?
829657
Well I don't think what u're doing is a mistake. I myself am a virgin and I also intend to keep it that way until I am married. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody's views about that are different though cuz some people don't believe in the "sex before marriage" thing. Some say sex is simply sex. Well for me,when that time comes,I want it to be special and I want it to be with that person I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with,my husband to be. Hence the reason I'm waiting until I get married.. Anyway,it's your choice and if u choose to remain one, that's great so don't worry about it. I'm sure when u get married, u'll be glad that u did! Take care..
1004036
No your not dumb. It takes a woman to stand up to her friends and say YES I'M A VIRGIN and DAMN PROUD OF IT TOO.. It also takes a MAN TO RESPECT YOUR DECISION. I applaud the 2 of you for your decision. Just ignore what your friends are saying to you because they don't need to know if you had sex or not. If you promised your dad and yourself why break that promise now. I was 24 when I lost my virginity, not because I made any promises or had a religious beliefs and just never found that right guy. And besides most of the time many would say that they wish they would have never lost there virginity and still would keep it that way. Good Luck!
277483
no no no. you SHOULD be a virgin at the age of 17. i'm 16 and i'm still a virgin, planning on saving myself for until after i get married. sex is a symbol of love between a husband and a wife. it's not something you give to just anyone. be proud of such a thing and try to keep it until AFTER you're married. i think that when you do finally get with that right person, it'll make it much more of a special moment than if you do it before.
42210
i was 18, we were together 4 years. hun, your body is not ready to have sex yet. and you know what, you can only lose your virginity once. it never comes back, you never have a second chance. if you have sex with this guy, i GUARANTEE you he will break up with you shortly afterwards. then, when you are older you meet the one, you get serious. you cannot lie and say you are a virgin, cause once you have sex he'll be able to tell. a man will respect you so much more if you hold out (in the long run). it's hard to tell whose the one to lose your virginity too the only way to make sure is to make them wait, and wait and wait. it will be worth it. i started dating my fiance at your age and made him wait 4 years. he has even told me if i would have given it up easy he wouldn't have respected me and we wouldn't still be together. people may pick on you but that's normal in school. i guarentee you these people picking on you are gonna end up with a std or pregnant before you get out of high school! another thing to look at... you start at 14.  even if  you have sex with people after 6 months to a year cause you feel so strong about them. now that doesn't work out because guys at this age are all about the sex and having it with as many girls as possible. that is 1 to 2 people a year you have sex with. no big deal to you now but imagine when your 25, 30! hun just do your self a favor, put your head in those books, become a strong independant woman and worry about the sex later. the emotional part of sex lasts longer. it takes minutes to lose your virginity and it may be something you regret the rest of your life.\nI am 21! i'm not old, just seen all my friends make the wrong decision and had to listen to them bitch about it all the time.
1080232
No.  There is nothing with you being a virgin at 22 keep up the good work and stay focused.  The vagina will cause you nothing but heartache and heartbreak if you aren't careful.  Make sure when that time comes, ask yourself is she worth it?  Will I care if I ever see her again? You are in control and you can't get it back so make sure you do your homework.  Once the flood gate is open it's over dude.  Good luck, much love.  Oh, masturbation helps the horny spells.
439776
if you didnt have sexual intercourse then you are still a virgin. No doctor needed thats the answer :) xx
1069871
My best guess is that you don't think that it is wrong (even after you do it).  My best solution would be that you seek some psychiatric help (I mean that in a good way).\nEven a better solution is that you go to a bar or something and seek a permanent soul mate (if you don't have one).
446461
I know people older than you that never got laid. Why rush. There can only be a first time once. What you have is priceless and you can never go back. Don't throw your treasure away, it's so much better to share it with someone special.
789304
i love virgins.  there is nothing wrong in saving your self for the right person.  i feel that there is moe to life and a relationship than sex.  i would love to meet a virgin my self because ther is no presure to have sex and you can have all the fun you want and have a real relationship with the person you are with. I must be the only guy but if you want to chat just im me.
1008099
You should not be ashamed of being a virgin.  If you choose to be, then no one else has a right to put you down for it.  You are making the best decision in saving yourself for the right person.  You may of had chances back then, but you realize that maybe you aren't ready.  People should respect that.  If that is your choice, then don't be ashamed.  Be proud!
667931
OOPs I am still a virgin.
23648
nope not a virgin, Not being a virgin is classified as penatration process. If it goes "in" your not a virgin anymore.
872575
i am an 18 yr. old female who is still a virgin as well, and i totally charash it. it is the most preshes thing to me. being a  virgin(keeping your verginity tell your married) is very rare now days. and trust me i have had many chances to brake it several times, but i just cant do that because i would be just like all the other people. i might even end up with an unwanted pregancy, std's, aids, the shame of loosing your verginity to someone who you really dont love and care to spend time with every day of your life, for the rest of your life, ect..... i could go on all night and day listing things but i wont.\nI also agree with you. i would charish it tell your married and have that be your first time. hopefually that will be her first time too. and that way you both will have something special to look forward to, and you wont really have a clue if your bad or good the first time. stay strong and keep your virginity. i know that it's hard but its possible. dont let people bolly you into it. I personally would prefure someone who is still a virgin when i marry him. best of luck. remember if you have sex just one time their is no being a vergin again.
909481
No, it doesn't mean that you are on the verge of doing anything. Virgin was a term used for as long as there has been civilization. Basically you haven't had any type of sexual encounter, and oral sex is still sex! You should wait til you are ready, and make sure you do it with the right person, my friends did that and they regret it to this day.
705212
Why are you still a virgin?If it is a religious meter i understand,but in any other case.....Anyway if you think that is wright,than O.K.(but since you are asking this question i assume that you also have second thoughts).
235129
well i have not have it till now\n\ni am still a virgin
194030
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. You should have sex when you feel ready, not when you feel you are the "right" age