relationship problems?
820221
she is nothing but trouble and is trying to break up the relationship that you have by giving you the letter she is hoping that you will get fed up with all that has been going on with the rumors and finally let your boyfriend go so she can have him to herself, because she really wants him but is trying to appeal to you by making it seem like your boyfriend is the one who wants her and is after her when its really the other way around, she is playing a game with you and is trying to get an ok from you that's its ok to date your boyfriend...
1152170
Try to talk to her. See why she left you. Try to negotiate with her. See if you can fix the problem. There is also relationship councilors. Visit them. I know you guys can work it out. Good Luck!
436717
what kind of problem?
1064054
Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
902192
If you loose him because you have a flirting problem then your relationship dosen't have a sturdy foundation. Plus talk to him and explain to him your problem and see if he is okay with it. If not try to work out a deal with him.
775074
It sounds like he has major issues unrelated to you... but you are paying the price. You need to talk to him about this compassionately, but firmly and tell him he needs to treat you with more love and respect. You might be financially dependent on him for now, but you deserve to be treated with respect. You'll be okay if this relationship ends. Do what is right for you and be proactive... don't just sit and wait for him to figure it out. You'll only stay stuck in a bad situation.
158811
Well if you cant resolve your problems you should get out of it.There is someone out there who will love you the way you need to be loved .Dont risk missing out on that by staying with someone who makes you miserable.
495858
Sounds like a communication problem.  If you want this relationship to survive and grow you two need to sit down and come up with a plan to deal with these issue and any others you have.  Some times people who argue and complain a lot just need to have a set way to communicate those things in a helpful manner instead of the current method which is destructive.
439358
Honey, relationships are all about dealing with each other's problems and yeah...getting into fights.  I have dated my current boyfriend for 14 months, and we are just now starting to talk through our problems without getting all upset at each other.  If you really love her, you need to just work through stuff because it will all work out if it is really meant to be.
163007
i know the feeling, it sucks! we've been together for 5 yrs now & im secretly apologizing to him at the back of my mind... take your time to listen to whatever it is that's bothering you right now, a little time off perhaps,so you can figure it out? \nlife is too short for slip ups in relationships. at least you won't be where im at cuz it really sucks!
1105335
In all truthfulness. It takes two to make it or break it. You can't blame the other without looking at yourself as well to see where you have went wrong. sometimes that doesn't happen till the relationship is done and over. At least you can look at it as a learning experience. At least you will be better prepared in a new relationship when that time comes. To know how to handle things. Not talking to each other is the main problem in most cases
223537
tell him yore problem.. talk to him.... and then.. if he still doesn't .. then well.... i think its better if you went yore way.. but since you've been with him for 4 yrs.. its hard.. but try it....good luck (^_^) !
890557
Well sounds like you two need to sit down together and have a long conversation about your relationship, and why you are fighting over things.  And decide if maybe your lives are going in different directions and its time to end it. Or fight through it. All relationships have tought times. Its up to those involved to decide if they want to work through the problems or not. \n\nIf he is unwilling or uncooperative to sit and discuss this. I would say its time to move on as difficult as that may be.
1113938
Get outta there. It is obvious are some extreme issues. If he can not take charge and wipe out the problems, then there is more to this, get out now before you get too hurt or worst involved in an abusive relationship. You don't need the headaches.
462039
Well, you should talk with him openly about how you would want your relationship to function on the sexual department.\nYour main problem is probably lack of communication.
624349
Try compromising.Relationships change with time. Just go with the flow.
993021
of course a relationships arent perfect. you got to see what to see what he thinks. talk to him, then see what is  the best thing to do.