am in love with sami but she broke up with her boy friend and she cant give me a chance what should i do?
823056
Give her time to heal right now. Don't pressure her or rush her. Maybe when she's ready to move on she'll give you a chance. But be there as a "friend" for her right now.
265760
To answer your question, give it time.  She needs to figure things out on her own. If and when it doesnt work for her and her boyfriend (and you know for sure!) then you should talk to her about her feelings towards you.  I was in a situation where this happened, I did most of that, except I was to eager about her making up her mind about the situation, so she went back to him...Just let it play itself out, time wont matter if it is meant to be..\n\n\nGood luck!
284735
hey well one sorry to hear that. two well the best thing i think you can do is go talk to her. find out exactly why she broke up with you. if the chemistry just wasn't there for her you will have to find a way to move on. if it was something else that can be fixed well than talk to her and maybe you can fix it. goodluck and i wish you all the best.
516520
Girl ive been there before. Its sucks. I know exactly how you must be feeling. This friend of yours is not a true friend. She knows you like this guy and if they get together seeing them together could hurt.\nIf you dump her, you'll look bad - like you let a guy come between you, but keeping her - you'll find yourselve questioning her loyalty to you often.\nBrave it out to keep your rep intact, but watch your back while she's still your friend because friends like her - definately dont remain friends.\n\nSorry about it. Look on the bright side though - another guy will come along one day and who knows? You might like him better than this guy and he might kiss the ground you walk on!! :))\n\nJust think positive always.\n\nGOODLUCK.
418910
Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.
34901
if you dont like that she has another friend tell her that she has to choose either you or him, if she dumped you, its ok go find another girl.
681576
Is she happy in this relationship?  If she is, then you have to forget it.  You can't ruin her happiness so she can be with you.  You may like her, but she might love this guy, and you shouldn't try to tear them apart by 'making your move'.  She's taken, sorry.
405734
The best advice i can give you is just build on that friendship because the closer you are when she breaks up with him the better the chance you will have to start dating her
718990
All you can do is stand by and watch for now.  If she still wants to get back with you then she will need to make the first move.  That way it will save you many problems with the other guy.
415737
If she has a boyfried.... fight for her.... you want her go and get her tell her how you feel!
312757
Sorry to say it, but she's gone and you need to let her go.  No girl would ever get with a guy's best friend if she has ANY intention of ever getting back together with that guy.  Plus, why would you want her back after she did that to you?  You'd never be able to put it out of you head.
1023700
let her go..she's just testing you now...she doesnt want you, but no one else can have you...trust me, you will be better off without each other...sorry
160082
she's probably in love with someone else if she is sorry............get someone else before yu get your heart more broken
1025733
talk to her about how she feels about the guy-depending on what she says- u can probably have her when that relationship ends. but otherwise-leave it alone
331346
First analyze what made you break up.  Has enough time passedc for both of you to realize what each of you have done to damage this relationship and make changes to yourselves?  \n\nMaybe she is not aware that you want her back.  Once you have thought long and hard about it, sit her down and tell her how you feel.  Let her know that you repect her dating someone else, but you know you two will be together again and you will wait patiently for her.  This will not only flatter her but also instill doubt in her mind about the person she is with.\n\nAfter that, just be patient and kind to her and treat her with respect and consideration.  Be her friend and listen to her.  Be there for her.  Don't let he take advantage of you, but be the one she can turn to.  Sooner or later she will realize that she loves you still, also.
398310
if i was u i would get over her. she oviously doesnt give a toss about you because if she did she would come back to you shes prob of wit other guys havin fun sorry but its prob true and youve gotta realise that. your young and There is many nice decent girls out there and one day you will meet her and she'll show you love and care. id move on sweet if i was you!!
266618
You don't do anything.  You missed your chance for now and you can't know for sure that you will get another chance so you need to move on with your life.  The reason you do nothing is that if you were in her place or this other guys place, you wouldn't want someone ruining what you had.