i like this boy. my friend likes him to. but hes stuck on someone and he cant get over her. help?
815506
Well, if he can't get over his ex, then he obviously still has feeling for her.  It's definitely not a good idea to get with someone in that situation.  You really can't do anything about that situation, because that's his problem, not yours.  You and your friend probably will have to wait for that situation to die down if either of you want to make a move on him.  \n\nBetween the two of you, you need to be honest with your friend about your feelings.  It's only fair that both of you know what's going on before mixed feelings comes up if either of you hook up with that guy.\n\nGood luck!
991170
Hi man. I had a story like this some months ago. I couldn't do nothing, because I didn't want to ruin their love for each other. I just waited, and after three  months they broke up. And she understood that I loved her, and really liked it. I think you should just wait.Maybe you should make activities with other friends, that can help you not to think about your friend.\n    I really think that you'll win her heart.
141358
Do you like him back? If you don't then you ahve nothing to worry about. If you like him, then discuss this with your friend. Guys come and go, friends are forever.
732073
You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
724598
if you're friend liked him before you then you need to back off. That's so wrong if she truly likes him. If she's cool with it then talk to him a bunch and flirt with him..n there ya go
978675
Since it is no longer an issue, consider it a crush and move on.  Keep it to yourself.
204962
I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel. YOu want to go out w/ the guy but u want to stay loyal to your friend. I think you should confront your friend and tell her how you feel about him.. ask her if she would mind if you asked him out or something...if she gets mad..is that really a good friend? i mean of course your a "bit" jelous of her and she is most likely a "bit" jelous of you...well she certainly will be after you tell her your feelings..but thats ok..like i said, is she really a friend if she gets mad that you like him, and want to go out with him? we all get feelings about people and we cant control them..thats part of growing up..part of life..everyone goes thru it..just try to get past...live your life at your most!! hope i helped!! best of luck to you! =D! <3
354325
Let it go.  Let him go.  Your setting yourself up to be hurt.  Don't get in the middle of that situation because it sounds like it's far from over.  He sounds like he has to deal with his issues with her.  He may get back with her or he may not but it doesn't matter he can't give you what you want from him right now.  It's better to continue being friends if you can.\n\nHopefully you can because friendship is so important.
54101
what's worth more to you, your friend, or that boy? but, could you be able to be happy or at least neutral if you know your friend is going out with the guy you like? but, if you tell her that you like him, and then if she thinks your flirting with him, how mad will she get?\nif it was me, it'd just leave him for my friend because to me, my friends come before a possible boyfriend. if i can't be happy seeing them together, i'd just find some way to avoid them when they're together. but, the one thing i wouldn't do is to admit i like him, that'll probably make it harder on her and then i'd feel guilty.\nbut the choice is really up to you, whatever comes first in your heart and can you bear it to see them together? and telling your friend, decide if it's better to tell her or not to depending on how she'll react to it
459096
you can't make someone like you, especially if he already likes someone else.  get over him and find someone else.
505101
WELL TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT IS HAPPENING TO ME CAUSE I FEEL REALLY BAD....\nI ONCE TOLLED HER I LIKED HIM AND SHE TOLLED ME SHE LIKED HIM TOO.\nI WAS SOOOOO INVARESED. AND LATER ON SHE ASKED ME TO PLEASE DONT STILL HIM AWAY FROM HER ALTOUGH I TOLLED HER OKAY I STILL LIKE HIM.BUT SHE NOW UNDERSTANDS SHE CANT CONTROLL MY FEELINGS.
1105934
Talk to her and tell her to just stop talking about them, To just go on and let them do their thing and if he has any feelings for her still then he will come back to her on his own.And if not then they are friends anyway and keep it at that.Make sure she knows that you are not into all the gossip and to find something different to talk about...like the guy she has a crush on.
559854
try talking to ur friend first if u can. Well do u like the guy too??Cause that will deff. make a difference. lol. but if u do like him and he likes u maybe u guys could be. and if ur friend gets mad, then tell her that u already told her that he dont like her and she didnt want to accept that. Then it would be her fault,that she didnt get him and you did. But if u dont like him then dont go for him juss tell him that u dont think that it would work out cause u dont want to hurt ur friendship with ur b.f. or something along them lines. Hope i help  good luck!
201170
So...screw your friends. No, not literally. It's just a figure of speech. What I mean is, okay, you like this guy. Great! But what's holding you back? Talk to your friends. Ask them what they have against him? What have they heard? And if they're serious, then take their advice and just move on. They may be right, and they might even help to prevent you from any unnecessary heart break. \n\nBut on the other hand, if they have no valid argument, just tell them that if they're really your friends, then they'll lay off and respect your judgment, and you may go out with him in peace.\n\nThat's all I have to say. Take it or leave it. It is of no greater consequence.
1044319
I know it's hard to get over him especially if you see him everyday. But the easiest I know, is to stick in your mind that he likes to flirt with girls and tell them that he like them but not from his heart. Get it? Or better still, think that your bff likes him. So being a good friend, you'll get out of their way. I'm not telling you that you're going to evade the guy forever. There's nothing wrong in talking to him but only a few lines then say your busy and going some place else. \n\nI hope it works!
155353
thay may just be trying to keep your feeling from being hert  after all he is a ex tell your friend how you feel about it all .the good times you had and the bad thing .and then move on
398668
Go out with the other boy.  If he has that something that's missing then choose him.  If he doesn't than stick with who you're with and try to figure out what's missing or find someone else.