any curious guys wish they could come out but are afraid?
819690
When i was in my younger teen years I was scared, but now that I am in college I am starting to come out and the more people I come out the easey it gets. I don't worry as much, I would say try it with your best friend. Also people understand more when they get a little older.
617288
Fear of rejection, uncertainty,, inadequacy, lol. I just never had the privilege, but always wanted to.
1132888
It's sad that so much homophobia exists that you are afraid to even be called gay.  \n\nI don't care if you look at pictures of guys.  Sometimes I look at Lindsey Lohan.
1042390
Of course all men are or have been bi curious at one point in their life. Most of them act all macho and cocky to mask it, only making them look more like fools. A huge percentage of men are sexually insecure, thats been proven many times. In a lockerroom, they wont flinch or close their eyes when they see 20+ naked guys around them, or a penis within arms reach, but if a normal setting (road trip for example) if a friend were to get naked (streaking, skinny dipping) the other males would go nuts and close their eyes and turn their heads,etc. Not because they are inimidated by what they see, but they do it to show the other guys that "awwww, thats gross, I dont want to see that"...Putting on a show to reassure to their friends that they are straight.
549971
I have the same problem with guys, maybe we should hook-up ;D
1118210
Hm... are most MEN bi curious even if they never act it out? Come on, it's a case-by-case question.
52922
Some guys are afraid to open up and as they are afraid of being hurt, teased, ridiculed, etc. Trust me when I say that it can be anything from something as petty as shyness stopping them to something as serious as major mental problems. It all depends on the guy. No matter how close you are to a guy, it takes a wee bit o' time before he can really begin to trust enough to open up and then there are guys like me....who open up and are honest from the word 'go'. I recommend a book titled: Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus. It is both a good read as well as offers great insight into both the male and female aspects of a relationship.
1090851
nope\n\n\ndont worry there r more poelpe out there just like u \n\n\n(example me and most of the other poeple who answer this question)
254166
Some guys will,but others are too "shy" to do so. They are afraid of rejection or seeming weak because they admitted their feelings. It makes them vulnerable and they don't like it.
333964
Hello, Im not a freak...yet I find it hard to find decent women. I dont look at appearances but the heart and soul...You can change that by being yourself ...sean. Ps. and when a quite guy like myself is afraid to approach you,maybe because im shy, maybe because im normal...go and talk to him....he may be the love of your life although he may not drink or dance like the other guys...
1101449
Chances are guys are shy too.\nIf you are shy around guys, approach them with some other girls. That will add some intimidation on the guy side as well. Don't try to get rid of your shyness all at once. Take it a bit at a time and it will come naturally.\nGliding Squirrel.
53193
Yup, I am, and I think there are many, many people in this world who are like you. Don't forget the person you could be asking could also be in the same position...they would love to go out with you, but are too scared to ask themselves, for what the answer might be. Don't forget the worst thing that can happen is they say "no." Don't let your fear blow up out of proportion.
1030811
yeah...shy guys...they make my heart go, thump, thump, thump. lolz. you never know what they are thinking!
296092
i would like , but afraid to go alone !
873424
Not rude.  I'd be flattered if a guy asked.
964203
ill admit curious but not gay. right now im gonna stick by kkkjewhaters side. but when i turn gay (if i ever do) ill let you all know. im not the "hide in the damn closet forever" type.
878597
I'm sure You didn't scare him away....the one thing I can tell you from experience is Just be yourself...most guys like it when you don't have to fake who are with them!