To handsome guys out there, please answer me:Can ugly gays like me live happily ever after...?
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doesn't sound like you have a very high opinion of yourself so that's going to be your first problem in finding true love.\nbeyond that, i don't think very many handsome guys are looking for ugly guys but i am sure there are some...keeping hoping
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all but handsome\n\nmostly cute
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Believe me hon, there are plently of ugly and mean gay guys too.  Just wait, there are plenty of nice, attractive, straight men out there.
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Grin and bear it, dear : And be on the lookout for an even better guy !\nThe world is full of nice guys, waiting to be found !
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most good looking men are gay
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I know how you feel. But why do you want a bf just for the sake of having one. There will always be shallow guys around that are interested in looks only. Why build a relationship just on looks? It never works out.\n\nWhy don't you live life to the max! Take up interests that you like. Join clubs that do things that you like. Have fun. Chances are, you will make lots of interesting friends whom you will share common interests with and you'll have a great time with them. And who knows, one of those friends may just be a boy whom you will like. Now that's the best way to develop a relationship: start off as being good friends with lots of common interests.
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im beautiful brunnett... are you good looking???
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"Looks" as a whole dont matter but there has to be something to attract someone. I dated a guy that wasnt that attractive BUT he had a beautiful smile and that was all it took.
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Please allow me to say this.  Whats even more important to a decent man then looks is confidence.  If you want to be happy, start with yourself, with your life.  Find your own goals, work towards achieving them.  Find out what you can do well, and work to excell at that.  Most men would really like to sleep with someone that looks like a runway model, but few would stay with them if thats all they are, a bit of fluff with no interests, or if they aren't happy with themselfs or their life.  If you can find happiness just being you, everything else will fall into place.  Besides, your 17, give it time.  It took me longer then 17 years to figure out who I was and what I wanted from life.  Good Luck.
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I think its always a blessing to look nice. In your quest for a life-mate, you may have to weed through more frogs than a less-nice-looking girl, but that will make you wiser and stronger. Stick to your belief system and demand nothing less from your potential mate, and you will weed them out pretty quickly.\n\n(BTW, you remind me of my little sister, and i give her the same advice)
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I agree with you that in general, people who are good looking tend to be "shallow" and lacking in personality.  I too wanted somebody who was beautiful on the inside too, not just the outside.  Of course, you need to be attracted to that person...\n\nI can say, though, these people do exist.  My wife is very beautiful and is often told so.  But, she also has the most wonderful, caring personality and would do anything for anybody.\n\nKeep looking, and you'll find somebody.
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You have a very expressive face, rinney, and yes, you're very attractive. I think it depends how you dress, pose for a shot, and how you conduct yourself whether, at that moment you're a "prettyboy". You can be perceived any way you present yourself -- but they would all be positive! Best wishes to you and success in all you do.
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Your sick....i hope you dont say what characteristics you like in a guy.\n\n\n\nAnd no i will not date an ugly guy..nor a guy for that matter....because i am not gay.....
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I feel the same way. I am very beautiful and sexy on the inside, but unfortunately on the outside I'm less attractive than the average brick siht-house. Sadly, it's beauty on the outside that really matters.
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No. Do they have them? They are so handsome, ya know.  Praise Jesus for those handsome guys.  Amen.
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think in today's society many guys especially younger men do look at other guys and "judge" there attractiveness, this includes everything from physical to what they are wearing etc. This includes everything from a famous actor to the guy with his girlfriend waiting to be seated at the local restaurant. Why they want to see how they stack up against them. All most every young man has also checked out another guy in the shower or restroom to see how they stack up in that area as well, and I don't believe this makes one gay its just something that is done but no one would be willing to admit to. \n\nMen and women look at what the "ideal "  masculine features found to be universally attractive are on others — including a straight strong nose, strong chin, rugged brows, prominent cheekbones and full lips, Trends in fashion etc. \n\nSometimes a "jealous passion" can develop for other males. This is when we desire to actually become another guy. The obsession can then carry over into our sexual fantasy life. Lack of acceptance of ourselves is the issue here. \n\n\nTo better explain your own personal feelings, you should distinguish between "sexual preference" and "sexual orientation." Sexual preference considers desired sexual actions with a partner, while sexual orientation involves all your thoughts, feelings, fantasies, and emotions that cause us to become aroused.  No one can answer this for you, but I bebelieve admitting another man is handsome is just honest and what your idea of what features in this person you find attractive are and I have heard many happily married straight men say Tom Cruise is a good looking guy are they really Gay ?\n\nnot sure if this answers your question but i hope it helps
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Just because a boy dumped you does not make you ugly... And looks are only skin deep... \n\nIf you want to go back to getting quantity guys, then sure, go back to being "super hot", fool around with all the guys you can find, and end up in the same situation again...\n\nIf, however, you want to find a quality guy, then take care of yourself, but make sure you look for a guy who likes you for more than just your good looks... A good head, manners, and a sense of humour will go a lot further than "OMG my gf is like super hot man!"...