Is it useless to love?
825142
...to love an animated character...? yes, though many, especially young lonely people who are socially unsure of themselves do it. Unfortunately, this only leads to further isolation and a vicious cycle of bitterness or escape through fantasizing.\n\nIt is never useless to love real people (provided there is some real contact and communication, not just idolizing someone without ever talking to them- that would be almost the same as loving a toon.) Even if love is not reciprocated, the person who cares for the beloved and has the beloved's best interests at heart grows and becomes a better person for having loved.\n\nSadly, many selfish persons convince themselves that they love someone when they are only acting in their own interest. They do not want an equal, a partner, someone to love and be loved by-- they want a puppet.\n\n19 NOV 06, 1501 hrs, GMT.
552908
absolutely not.\nyou can love anyone, so what? don't be a self-made martyr
1064439
no......never\nif there is no love then whts the way of marrying.........
820396
yes. if you do NOT love to keep pain OUT, then you also cannot let LOVE IN!! it's a risk but one worth taking!! just use your HEAD and not always your heart for guidance!!
1153583
You can Love them sure, but they will NEVER love you the way you want them to.  The question doesn't really make sense you already Love them so HOW really isn't even in the equation, you just LOVE them or you don't, the question is...do you have enough respect for yourself and LOVE yourself more to move on or keep degrading yourself?  LOVE YOURSELF AND LOSE THE OBSESSION you "think" you LOVE
329572
I "love" and applaud your question,,, thank you so much.\n\n   To know LOVE isn't dependent of having another, that it's directed at,,at least not initially. certainly it's a wonderful thing to SHARE.\n\n   The emotion is erradic, irrational, often spontaneous, and confusing,,, but it happens to be one of the most intense experiences, we as humans hopefully can enjoy.\n\n   If you cannot Love youself, for who you are, what you are about, and even if you don't PROJECT THAT, it will overflow, be noticed,and enjoyed by others. Believe it!!!!\n\nRev. Steven
93391
yes, just like you are capable of loving you can also be loved you just have find someone who is worthy of your love just dont go around trying to love someone thats not capable giving you back what are willing to give you you have to find that person whos will give it in return just dont settle for anybody when you find someone that has that unconditional love thats the one for you not the one that no matter what you say or do you never get back what you put in because at the end you find out that you just wasted your time and life is to short !!
507503
to love someone means to let him happy, but not possess him...
165217
Any human with the capacity to love gets attached pretty easily. There's nothing wrong with that either. Yes, we do have to separate ourselves sometimes and try not to get too attached to some things or people (like puppies you're going to sell or give away) and it can be tough sometimes, but ya know what? Thank God that you are able to love because those that cannot love lose so much. I'm sure you've heard the "tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" quote, (may not be exact, but you get it), well, never was a truer word spoken. When you love, love with your whole heart, never half-way. God bless. =)
305400
i think that the idea of loving and being loved is not the real purpose of life.  personally, i think that love is just a part of it.  Happiness, i think, is the real purpose of life, and therefore balance.  i think that balance is all, you need a little bit of everything...
123344
Hello, you shouldn't worry, man can be really great when they are inlove, but that is never forever, and if he is not a good person he will again do the same thing. I think that you should find some other things that make you happy, the church, kids... Even if it all seems hopeless it isn't, somethimes you can discover beautifull things you didn' see before. When the love is in question it's never worth fighting for, because you can't make someone love you if he doesn't know what love is, and the first chacacteristic of love and most appreciated is sacrifice. There is the difference between the woman and man in romantic love, man should sacrifice for women with proving his love and affection, and woman feeling the same should do the sacrifice taking care of his children. In your case, that man doesn't love you, he doesn't know what love is. Do the little difference in this world, teach your children how to love, and your life will get the meaning.\nI wish you all the best, you deserved it.
266749
NO!NO!NO! A THOUSAND TIMES NO! THOUGHT FOR A FEW YEARS IT WAS BUT ITS NOT. ONCE YOU DECIDE THAT THE PAST IS THE PAST, WITHOUT LOVE, LIFE SEEMS EMPTY, AND ACTUALLY ALOT MORE FUN WITH LOVE IN IT. I LIKES BEING IN LOVE.
59497
There is no such thing as true love, love is love nothing less, nothing more...enjoy it till it lasts..btw love is a good thing, infact it's the best thing and good things in life never die.
295988
There is no such thing as real love. Because love is there if you work on it. If you love with pure heart thats real love for you.
428641
no cause theyve got to fiiight the feeeling.. leave it alone.. cause if it aint love then it just aint enough to leave a happy hoooome..
723161
No, it doesn't mean you don't really love him. Some of the things my husband does embarasses me. If I think he could be a 'better' person, then I suggest to him about changing. Sometimes I just live with it. :-)
253639
You can't let love be the only thing that makes you happy, if you do you'll be just miserable!  There are tons of other things in life that can make you happy without having a man/woman to love.  Yes it's awesome to have somebody, but life is definitely not miserable if you don't have someone.