A young girl has just started @ the place where i work and i work weekends with her Fri & Sat night i had?
820416
She confided in you not the work place...I wouldn't tell a soul. I agree with you it isn't your place so if I were you I would continue to play dumb
949029
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
236467
Ask her. She knows. \n\nShe may be hesitant to break the norm. She may have other friends. She may have a tight work schedule.\n\nIf you don't get a clear, coherent answer, find someone else.
161654
she may like you but she may just be friendly or she might be working for the pizza parlor and just tells customers that to get more sales lol\n\nbut what i am trying to tell you is that it could mean a lot of things and the only way for you to find out is to "test the waters" yourself so next time it happens, try to make the move so you'll know ok...
257454
First answer pretty much covers it.\n\nIn addition tell her to keep persistent on some place - some times they hire if you go a few times (though they tell you each time - I know you and I will call as an opening becomes available)\n\nStill keeping first on their 'mental' list makes a lot of sense ...
373999
In my opinion I think that you should never get involved with a coworker.T here are many complications starting from this. What if you breakup afterwards? How will you be able to go to work? Not the mention that everybody is going to start talking and you will have a lot of rumours on your head, most of them not true.If she gets a promotion,they will think that she did "something special" to earn that. But if you really like her, she could switch jobs, if that is an option.And are you sure she's no trying to get somewhere with this romance? Maybe she's trying to obtain something. The stakes are too high. it's better not to complicate your life like that. But hey,it's just my opinion.
613789
You haven't called her yet??  Well I guess it would be best not to rush things.  But if you are interested call her tonight and make plans for the weekend.  You don't want her to think that you couldn't find anyone else and wait till the last min. to call her.  You want to give her sometime to prepare. Make sure to tell her how nice of a time you had on fri..  Good luck.
80495
That sounds really awkward.  If you can, look for another job or another position in the company.  That would make it easier to have a relationship with the girl.
849241
Call her.  If she gave you her number, that's what she's hoping you'll do.  Just don't take her to the same restaurant you work at.
803708
I f she really is your servant, let her understand that her job is gone if she doesn't please you.  \n\n\nalso, if you are 24 - what do you want with a tired old snatch like her?   surely you can do better than that.  ????\n\ndon't be lazy - go out and look around for a young pretty nympho.
234064
One night stands with co-workers really don't work out. You both agree things won't be weird but they are then the roomers start flighing. My advise is don't. If you do keep it on the down low.
1113228
Working for the Weekend
900351
It sounds like you are going to be having a hard time, because she is becoming distant from you, and not respecting the "no plans on Friday" agreement you have. Before things get worse you need to sit down and ask her what is going on, especially since she is going out with other girls. (It's only a problem if you are gay, your avatar is a girl so I assume you are too.) If you're a guy it's not a problem for her to be hanging out with girls. But it sounds like she is not respecting you, that is usually a sign of a break up in the near future. I would talk to her if I were you.
352620
REALIZE WHAT YOUR RISKING HERE, WORK RELATIONSHIPS CAN AND WILL BE REALLY HARD TO KEEP.(PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, IM ACTUALLY GOING TROUGH IT RIGHT NOW, AND OH MAN, THE DRAMA!!). THE HUNGRY DON'T GET FED, THE MORE YOU WANT IT THE MORE SHE'S GONNA PLAY IT OFF. SO STOP ACTING LIKE IF YOU NEED HER!!!!! THAT'S RIGHT STOP BEING NEEDDY!!!!! AND STOP FEELING NEEDY, WOMEN CAN SENSE THIS, ASK THEM!!!. ONCE, YOU REALIZE THAT YOU DON'T NEED HER FOR THIS WEEKEND AND THAT YOU CAN DO WITHOUT HER, THAN YOU'LL GET WHAT YOU WANT..... DONT ASK BEING NEEDY, ASK WITH CONFIDENCE, PLAY IT OFF... IT SHOULD BE SOMETHING LIKE THIS...... " SO JANNETT WERE ARE YOU GONNA TAKE ME THIS WEEEKNEND..."OR MORE DIRECT "HEY, I PLAN TO GO TO.... MAYBE YOU CAN COME ALONG...."  THE POINT IS THIS, YOU SHOULD BE IN CONTROL OF THIS... BUT FIRST GET CONTROL OF YOURSELF... GOOD LUCK... BTW, BEEN THERE DONE THAT...
191305
If this is a first date... no, it will not lead to other dates.  Only your wit and humor will lead to 2nd dates.  What you have planned is a way for her to get free stuff.  Have her meet you for lunch, show up a few minutes late and let her order her own.  Why spend your hard earned dough especially if she earns her own.  All that says is "I am willing to pay you for your time"!!!  Lay on the cocky/funny... bust on her 1970s shoes/bag, if she can't take a joke... forget her.
964919
ok  this is what i would do if i were a man ... i would walk up to her and ask her hwo her day has been going and if its a monday then ask how her weekend was DONT GIVE HER A CHEEZY @SS pick up line ok?? please girls hate that they really do ... just be yourself and be chill there shouldnt be anything tense about the situation just relax walk up and ask her whats up?? lol i make it sound really simple your probably thinking but really hun it is that simple i promise! <3 lyss
790319
Try not to let it get to you, but it might be a good time to update your resume and look around.  Working for someone like that isn't going to get any better.  She may be technically within her rights, but it's not good manners, to say the least.