For lesbians:  How do I.......?
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Seriously?\n\nThere's not real methodology.  Every woman is different, and what works for one might be boring for another.  What you need to do is listen, listen, listen, and be obedient.  What makes a lover good and skillfull is the fact that they are highly observant- they note the changes in your breathing, the little gasp, that moan, the movement of your body, that say "Oh yes, there", or "Ah, harder".  Especially for women who are pretty silent and still in bed- they think people have innate sexual prowess because "My god, she read my mind and gave me everything I wanted!".  But it's just not so- listen and try to discern what she likes.\n\nIf all else fails, do for her what would feel good to you.\n\nEnjoy and have fun!
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I am a lesbian. where the hell are you meeting the gay people you know  Help us out  lol...bye
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How curious are you? Enough to sleep with a woman to find out what it feels like? I guarantee you that once you taste what it's like to be in a womans arms you will never want to be with a man ever again. A womans essence is unforgettable! If you like sports or games try looking on the internet for gatherings for Gay and Lesbians. \nI wish you the best of luck!
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Look in the dictionary for the word LESBIAN
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Have the woman do it.  As every day goes by, the number of women wanting to have a "lesbian" experience increases.  Don't be intimidated or fear being rejected.  If you can pick up one woman, do the same to pick-up the second woman.  Having the first woman do it, however, increases the odds of finding someone drastically.  Remember. . . Women are not as freaky as men, they are more freaky!!  If guys knew what women talked about when they were alone, in regards to sex, it would make them blush.
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go to yahoo chat room, Underheading romance, click friends and then select Lesbian women lounge.......\n\ncu there
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nikki,\n\nI assume she doesnt know you're a lesbian?\nWhat you should do is raise the subject and see how she feels about it. Maybe watch a movie about it ("But I'm a Cheerleader" is a good one) and talk about it. \nIf she is curious she'll let you know. If not, she's not worth your energy, move on, find the one with whom you belong. More power 2 u for being proud of who you are. :-) \ngood luck with the girl, but know that if it doesnt work out, there are many brilliant girls out there that passionatly love other girls. I should say women really..\n:-)
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Find a lesbian bar or a female basketball game. I'm sure you'll find what ur looking for.
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dont let idiots make yuou afraid to say you care. they're just afraid of everything. sister love is much stronger. call ur friend, or send her a card. anything to send a positive message. (besides, theres nothing wrong with being a lesbian.)
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so u're a lesbian? break up and find a straight relationship!
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Search 'young lesbian groups' on any Internet search engine and you should find plenty of company.  Myspace, Yahoo! Groups, and so on are all good places to find young lesbians.\n\nIf you want actual physical groups, you should try www.meetup.com, which helps get like-minded people in your area together.  There might not be a young lesbian group, but there will probably be a GLBT one, and you can always create your own!\n\nGood luck finding some groups to belong to.
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The only way to find out is to take small steps toward experimenting.  Take some time and get to know some girls that you know are bi or lesbian.  Hang out with them see what happens.  If you are unsure about that then just go hang out online at a place like anywebcam.com and get to know some of the girls on there and see if it interests you.  There is no harm is looking or even trying.
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first off, dont listen to the people telling you to get a man. they are just people who dont get enough sex. secondly, i have severe trust issues because i have been cheated on by EVERYONE except my current girl.yes, im a lesbian. Give it time, do not ask her to prove herself, let her do what she is going to do, if she does what you asked her to, then give it time, it will take time sweety. if you want to talk more, octabreaker, or email me octabreaker@yahoo.com
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Are you a lesbian or bi?  If so then probably not.\n\nIf not, the question is why are you asking here?\n\nHmmmmmm
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i was in the same situation when i was younger. im a lesbian, and right now i have a great girlfriend. but when i was in high school, my best friend was my crush. i liked her soo much, but she was straight. i finally admitted to her that i liked girls, and she did what your friend did - asked me questions about how why and when? i told her a couple weeks later that i liked her, and she kissed me. we messed around a little bit, but it didnt evolve.\n\nnot every situation would be the same. i would tell your friend, that you like her. but only if you truly trust her. if shes nice, she will be respectful and either tell you shes flattered, but not interested, or who knows? she could be a closet case.\n\nanyhow, there tons of wonderful women out there, if worst comes to worse. im sure youll find someone perfect for you -- i did, and i was in your situation too. nowadays, i couldnt be happier with the girlfriend that i have now.  :)\n\ngood luck!
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1st i guess that u have to check if she is also a lesbian ! \nif she is then just try to get close to her even with small steps , smiles , saying hi , small talks . the relationship will grow with time because u work together ! and by the way are u sure that u love her ? not just having a crush on her ? just a thought
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tell ur sister to hang around a pretty girl and just talk in front of her all the time and like sort of flirt but pretend sumthin like that shell probablly get jelouse and mad and she wouldnt be around if she does then damn you got lesbian problems