Why can girls say some thing and not be perpared to take something back ( dish it out but thet cant take it)?
824854
People in general are really sensitive. It's not  just girls. girls just tend to show it more. If you haven't noticed, your male budies have a hard time taking it they just dont' show it. if you dish it they might get quiet for a miute then eiher let it slide or say something back to you. that quiet moment they are PROCESSING how they are going to deal with it. obviously a girl doen't operate that way. a some guys will shoot off at the lip. and I may be wrong about tha and I'm totally willing to admit it. but I'm totally right aobut the fact that guys are sensitive but they DO process it. it's their reaction. watch it the next tiem you start name calling your buddies. watch what they do and say. then call a girl a name and notice the difference in how she reacts and take in to account her age and life experience. a 29 year old girl will take it better than a 15 year old boy and a 29 year old man will take it better than a 15 year old girl and  a 29 year old woman will take it about the same as a 29 year old man. but 2 15 year olds, one boy and one girl will react COMPLETLEY different! I dont' suggest you experiment on your friends, just watch what happens when your buddies start ripping on each other and see what happens when they do it to the girls and see how litte the girls think of them. the girls won't be coming around them anymore. the more respect you give a girl the more succss you'll have with her.
1107149
I think teenagers like to use bad words because it makes them feel more grown up.  If you'll watch them they will be talking, but when they use bad words they say them louder.  Like they want people to hear how cool they are because they can say fu*k!  It sounds silly, but I remember wanting to be grown up so badly I would swear all the time because then I sounded the part.  I had no idea how stupid I sounded until I really did grow up!  Now I get embarrassed for these young girls.  On the bus the other day (people take buses to work around here) there was a girl that was about 14 or 15 singing, "Lick this pus*y just like you should."  Everyone thought she looked and sounded really silly.  But she thought she sounded grown up.  And their  peers think the same thing.  So you have a group of girls/guys who think it sounds cool and grown up so everyone has to talk like that to be accepted.  Does that make sense???
1150201
Because girls rarely experience that. Just back up what you are saying with actions and then they will know that you are for real.
521615
Perhaps shyness is part of it. It could also because she didn't want you to think she was easy. Despite the fact times have changed a lot of girls don't like making the first move for fear of being called a slut.
380612
NO you can not say whatever you want inside of them.  There are some things that are not appropiate to say.
60987
There might be different reasons. One is that they might think you won't find out about those little things, thus missing the point of the importance of being honest. Another is that they are afraid of ruining their image before their girlfriends, which shows immaturity.\n\nThe list goes on and on, but you better figure it out from personal experience.
566294
Why tell her that in the first place. If you know you can't just say the good part without leaving the bad one out, then don't say anything at all. I have seen girls do terrible things to themselves just because someone told them they were either ugly, or too fat, or too thin, or too busty, the best thing is to just leave that part out. Trust me
134323
we (girls) think too much  they say what they think and dont think hard  if he didnt call and he said he was going to its not that he doesnt want to tell you or sumthin like that  he just didnt feel like calling  what they say is what they mean  exzactly
748763
Because all she does is "drop hints". Why can't most chicks just tell it like it is? (I am a chick btw)\n\nGuys and gals are wired differently. Guys aren't "clueless" they simply often don't pick up on subtle hints and clues. Also, coming out and saying what you mean/feel helps prevent embarrassment when someone THINKS they are picking up on clues, but they read them wrong (or they weren't clues at all).\n\nStop playing games and just come out with it...then the guys won't seem so clueless.
450030
Exactly, Do NOT pressure her to say anything unless she wants to say it!! Seriously, you will mess up something good!!  All good things come to those who wait!!!
344134
cuz they demand opposite behaviour girl...
1082164
yea but guys are hard to read and if they dont want to tell you something theyll get around it.....girls look to their friends to let them know what a guy is thinking cuz they know that theyll be honest and they cant figure it out for the life of them so mayb their friend can.
39389
k well you have a lot going on here dont you. i think you need professional help before your impulse control gets the best of you. sure its kind of stupid for girls to let it all hang out, but who are you to tell them they cant. and you can repress this "natural" instinct. i do it everyday.
974735
sometimes you just have to tell people straight\n\nboth you and you boyfriend should tell her to back off !!!
215117
They are only talking behind your back to make themselves look better.  People who talk about others are always trying to make themselves look better in someone else's eyes.  Guys also give each other a hard time and not think too much about it.  Maybe you should just ignore this kind of behavior.  Don't practice it either.  As you say, they are being immature.  Be the mentor, not the little kid.
99255
It doesn't bother me. If they are saying nasty things, and they can't even back it up, it's because they are jealous of you. You have things they don't. Maturity, intelligence, amongst others. Don't let it hurt you, they'll only do it more. You are better than them and can rise above them.
87840
Sounds like they r 2 far gone to listen to anything u have 2 say, some people have to learn from their own mistakes.\nJust B a good freind and help them get through.  They'll know next time.