Should i be upset at my boyfriend for creating an account in on online adult finder for the both of us?
824004
You should'nt be upset. its best that you find out before hand that he wants to date others rather than to catch him later.
1060046
I had the same thing happen,and in my oppinion,if he was sexually camming with another woma,he is a cheat!\n\nHow anyone could think differently,is beyound reasoning.\n\nIm getting out of my relationship because of this..I just dont trust himmnow.
967897
I would but I'm not going to do it just to please you or anyone else for that matter.  It is a private concern and you should be asking this of your local kink groups, not the net in general and expect a response on D/s relationships for such a carelessly worded question.
1094271
Sure, has'nt everyone? Had a G/F who was also into nude recreation. I gave the O.K. when she asked bout submittin some of our pix to a couple amateur sites. ( voyeurweb, and projectvoyeur.com) Nuthin to be ashamed of, and is a bit tittilating to think someon'es getting aroused from one'e pics.
853357
Do you expect us to believe that you haven't talked to any men in....what did you say... a year? He came home to you didn't he? Sounds like you have some trust issues or you wouldn't have been checking up on his internet usage. \n\nA little advise here..... people will find what they are looking for.... and that goes for trouble too!
622974
Your boyfriend is using the situation to manipulate you into doing his sexual fantasy.  He has got this idea into his head as to what he wants you to do, and now he is looking for any excuse to get you to do it.  He probably wasn't even that mad about the phone call, he just saw an opportunity to get his way.\n\nFrankly, the guy sounds like a loser.  He is trying to completely control you and force you to do things you don't want to do using emotional blackmail.  Move on.
997665
if you met him in a chat and talk regular. maybe texing and as you say haveing sex by calling. the jelousy you probabily feel is a insecure feeling because you know you met him on line. and you know how easy it is for a guy to get this pleasure in a chat this way. so (cyber sex) for both sexies is easy. and now i guess that you both meet on line you feel he is talking with other women why he is talking to you. what ever happens youll never stop him from doing this why hes not with you because if hes going to do it he will. so i suggest 1 thing. make up an i.d. for you and him to talk in private itll make you feel better because you know he will not be talking with any one else on this id. and the same goes for you to. but yes the feeling of jelousy is normal.
594751
Privacy does not go out the door when you become a partner with another person.  (Although I question how you two became fiances to each other and are just now running into this problem...)  You should not have asked him for his password; he is entitled to his privacy - that is where trust comes into play.  If you don't trust him, then you have no reason to be engaged to him.  And if you do trust him, then you have no need for his password.   \n\nI am not surprised that he didn't apologize.  He had nothing for which to apologize.  I am not surprised he didn't send your little "good morning" greeting --- not only is that a trival "courting" gesture that should simply pass as you two evolve into a deeper relationship, but if he HAD sent it after you had stomped off because he denied you something to which you had no right, it would have been a meaningless gesture.  (You want meaningless gestures in your relationship ?)  \n\nThe person rude and insensitve was you.  Insensitive because you thought nothing about attempting to invade his privacy and rude because you stormed off in a huff because he refused you that access. \n\nIf you have reason not to trust him, then you need to deal with the genesis of those reasons - directly, calmly, honestly, openly and be willing to accept the good, bad and ugly of human relationships.  That kind of maturity makes a relationship (not stomping off because you don't get what you want.)  If you are the one who is insecure without real reason (other than the spectre of the green-eyed monster), then you need to adddress that.\n\nThis incident is not the problem, only a symptom of something else the two of you need to work on.
594379
Yahoo groups are best with this.  As long as you and 18 and your profile states that and you are willing to agree to the TOS.  I've attached a few URLs for groups.  Have fun.\n\nThe ones I've posted will yield more groups, as groups advertise on each other, there is no easy way to get a catalog of the adult groups that I know of. \n\nReyn
1132746
He must be insecure and he obviously doesn't trust you. Without trust, no relationship will work.  If you've asked him to stop invading your privacy, and he hasn't, it's time to cut him lose. You shouldn't settle just because you're afraid he'll be angry. You deserve much better.
176732
you should not take him seriously he is obviously still sexually intersted in his ex and your isecurity has led you to snoop into his his personal email account because you do not trust him relationships do not grow and flourish on mistrust and insecurity and if you aren't dating others you need to start and move on or stay where you are and continue playing sneaky games
709983
you have me roaring...but that is pretty harsh baby!  Don't send pics of his thing around to strangers on the net.  If he thought your cellulite was ungainly and sent photos of it around the net....you would want to burn his house down!  You're description of the moment is priceless, though.
1137633
Actually, my dear, there is nothing that "you" should do...he is the one with the "issue". Sex is supposed to be fun, sex is supposed to be caring, sex is supposed to be sacred(and I mean doing things together that bring you closer, not thinking like this). I am frankly outraged that your boyfriend is acting...aherm...like such a jerk. \nNow don't get me wrong, I love getting "kinky"...but my husband, not so much; not because he is prudish, or because he doesn't want to please me, but because he is not comfortable. You are 18, you should be having a good time, not worring about whether or not you're getting enough "kink" into your relationship with your apparently very immature boyfriend. \nAnd he is demanding that you do things...BAH...that is loathsome to me...it is one thing to request or suggest...maybe even "dabble" in the kinky to see if you both enjoy it...but if you don't enjoy it; that's it, game over...if you wish to try it again, it will be on your terms, not his...and watching a lot of porn is not an excuse.\nLet me give you the perfect example, and hopefully you'll see my point...I am very into bondage, my husband is more than happy to "dish it" but not much for taking it...so okay, I can work with that. I let my inner dominatrix out in other ways; but anyway, one nite he felt like exploring, so I tied him up. He did not like it, not one bit and kinky things usually had to deal with trust...so I let it go. A couple of nites later, he was willing to try it again, and so on and so forth. \nSo from my example hopefully you can see that what your boyfriend is doing is not "adult"; it is the utmost in immaturity and a complete lack of understanding. Talk to him, frankly tell him I said so, a kinky woman that understands the rules in the adult playground...and if he doesn't get it; dump him. There are more fish in the sea than him...and probably better ones (if you know what I mean) than him as well. If you don't play by the rules, you're going to get flown off of the merry-go-round, and it's just that simple honey...so put on your big girl boots and lay down the rules for his little games...and if he breaks 'em; he's out...and somebody new can play "red-rover" with you.
685632
If he trusts you or not he has no right entering into your private accounts. You need to stop bein a wuss and tell him yourself. Its a form of controll that you need to address. If you cant tell him then why should we. Hes the one whom you have to see and it should be you to tell him that he sucks azz for invading your privacy...Unless your scared and that my dear is a whole nnother problem...
1174982
yes it is. how would u feel if ur significant other was having cybersex w/ some1 else? that would hurt me. i think it's cheating b/c ur thinking about having sex w/ someone else & basically are just not physically.
133432
This is an easy one. Tell your boyfriend, "I don't trust you and I'd like to have control over things you do. Therefore, give me your password so I can watch your every move while on line."
631621
If you are comfortable in how you look.... That is all that matters.  Pardon me for saying this, but this guy sounds like a jerk.  How come you are staying with him if you feel that he does not find you attractive?  Perhaps you should move on to somebody that will love you for "you" and not need to turn to porn for sexual gratification.  \nHave you ever just confronted him and ask if he finds you appealing in a sexual way?  I still think it is time for you to start looking for a better relationship.\n\nI can't believe you offered to let him take pictures of you, and he declined..... Most guys would jump at the chance to take some hot pics.  \n\nIf he is making you feel stupid or ugly, you really don't need that in your life!  A good partner in a relationship should make you feel happy, and he should not be afraid to show you exactly how much you mean to him.... At least that is my opinion...  If you want to "vent" more about this situation, you can always email me.. I am a good listener.\n\nI wish you luck!  I hope things improve for you!  don't let this guy get you down!