guys 30 years and older answer this?
815950
Congrats. You've made a wise decision.  He can take you anywhere on a date, except bars unless you have a good fake - that will depend on what he is into.  Older men find insecurity annoying.  Mostly I think as men age they are looking for a person to just be themselves because they spent their twenties playing head games with their partners.  After awhile you get sick of the B.S.  The more down to earth you are the better.  If you like him - tell him - be upfront with your feelings - don't play childish games or he will tire of you. Remember to show an interest in what he likes to do - don't be too into yourself.  Also, everyone loves a sense of humour so if you have one let it shine. Good luck.
133857
I'm attracted to older guys. I don't see a problem with it, honestly. Just make sure you both have similar goals for a relationship. If he is wanting to settle down and lead a nice, quiet life, and you want to go out on the town and party, it won't work. Make sure your priorities for the relationship parallel first.
954037
Guys like women in their late twenties and thirties because they have experience and are more mature.  Those relationships (older woman, young man) last for a good while if they're stable people.
1010832
I can't believe all the bullkaka I am reading here.\n\nSo a man can be 20 yrs older but not a woman?  Get serious people and start realizing that life is not always about your young tight a$$.  There is much more out there than most of you will ever experience, especially with an attitude like I see from some of you.  LOL
467607
Age is just a number when you become a mature adult... at that time it doesn't matter how old 30...40...50...60... A good looking man is just that....HOT!!
294211
They do make a good point, how old are you?  What kind of guy are you into?
725677
dude... how old are you?
438191
Think about this wiseguy, will you understand if your girlfriend says she loves sex with older guys?\n\nif you do send her my way
488211
in his early 30s i think 32
178918
You are thirty years young. Always stay true to youself and do what you love. People who claim to have lost their taste for such things may not be happier because if it. Stick with what makes you happy.
657165
well to be honest, im a sucker for older guys.. 1st, because they know how to handle relationships well, 2nd because they look so hot and not that boyish boy-next-door who ould cry with just a dog bite. and 3rd, theres something with older men whom i love, well maybe because they can really protect me and give me anything that could make me happy like hotsex.. they are more open and experienced on where to hit the right spot which i love. and its a turn-on for me if a guy is older than me. anyway im 19 and i once have a relationship with a 33 year old guy. lol.. its really good. \n\ndid i answer your question well? good.. \n\nmwaaaahhh!!!\n\n\nrock my worl baby..
654592
Make your own decision concerning this matter. You shouldn't let others dictate to you what kinda guy to go for. If you're 70 like you say, then you oughta know by now what you want in a man. It's up to you and no one else. Thanks.
1137127
I think after 35 the question of age is irrelevant.\n\nWhat's attractive to me now, as a 44 year old man...has changed very little in 20 years: it's simply taken on a mature definition.\n - Where I used to find slim girls attractive...now...I enjoy a sense of physical fitness...\n - I used to find brilliant white teeth a turn on...now I'm happy with good oral hygiene AND NO fake CAPS.\n - I've always loved long straight hair...still do - I just find that now...it doesn't bother me if it has a little gray.\n - I used to love a "smarty pants" ... now I like a woman with education.\n\nWhat becomes important is companionship, communication, quality sex, and personal growth. At 56, if I find a 36 year old hottie that shares thes things with me...I'd marry her in a heart beat.\n\n\nbest of luck and love.
38902
LOL! I was going to post an answer here elle but there are already a lot of good answers. While I was reading them I noticed Frank whos "baby daddy" run off posted an answer to you. Funny stuff ;)\n\nBTW theres nothing wrong with what youre doing, just be honest with him. One caveat, there are sexy 33 year old guys too :P
105571
I do. Guys my age (19) and younger are usually idiots when it comes to relationships. Am I going to go for a guy over 35? Unless you're talking Liam Neeson or Sean Connery, not too likely. But I'm more likely to go for them than your standard 18-year-old college freshman who thinks it's hillarious to talk about getting so drunk he puked on his new shoes at last night's frat party.
1082435
Women 35 to 45 are very sexy. They are experienced, and usually are a lot of fun to be with.  If they enjoy the younger women, I say go for it.
180009
If it was like 40 years difference that probably wouldn't work. I don't see any problems with a 30 year old and a 20 year old. It could turn out to be a beautiful relationship.