What to do?Girls advise pls....a long one.What is this?Solutions...serious answers only pls...?
822922
Sounds like either she genuinely isn't attracted to you and just doesn't want to hurt your feeling\nor\nShe is keeping you on standby in the hope someone elses comes along (hence the jealousy when she thinks you may be 'slipping away' with someone else)\nor\nYour the kind of guy that gals see themself marrying but want to play the field a bit more.\n\nOne of those is the most likely and if you think you spot one then\n1 Accept she isn't attracted to you and if it's nothing you can 'work on' (gross obesity, bad breath...) then direct your affections elsewhere\nor\nDecide how important your self respect is v's your passion for this girl.  Maybe force the issue to the front by actually dating someone else (although they should be aware of the situation too so they don't get caught in the middle!)\nor\nIf she's just keeping you hanging on standby then I'd gradually cut her out - thats not a friend.\n\nEither way - there are pleanty more ladies out there and if you stop looking at just one you might surprise yourself. You may have built this imaginary romance up to unrealistic proportions?
1068924
not wise - leave her alone - what your suggesting is called stalking and thats not good - get over it and move on - you lost this one maybe learn from your mistakes.
630801
oooooo k...........talk to your bf see whats going on. thats weird though, has she told you why she disided to talk to this girl all suddenly? lets just hope shes not a hypocrit(however you spell that word)good luck! TALK to her!
133952
Girl ...take her to the doctor first that you ask a lot of strangers!\n\nYou're talking about a serious problem.
1143048
I agree with Annabannana. Dump him. Most guys will love it.
193925
Tell her to kiss you patuty and find someone new.  Why put yourself through that again?  If she was running hot and cold before what makes you think she is any different now?
14868
"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
518384
leave him. no one should treat you like that. there is some one out there better for you. your worth more than he is. it seems like hes trying to not lesson to your problem and thats wrong. any one that cares for another person will here them out and be there for them, and at less try to understand and help them. plus i know what your going through, every girl needs afection or how ever you spell it. so go out there and find some one thats worth having you as a girlfreind!
450477
OMG. do you not realise that you just answered your own question? tell her she makes you speechless. that when you're around her, you're lost for words.
476510
Keep trying man, but don't push things, just try to talk to here in the more relaxed way possible, like you didn't care about her, and pay attention to what she says, then you could discover what she likes and then start talking about what she likes. This should help you, it it doesn't, move on, there are always other girls.
348633
girl dump him there will be other ones. If you are worried that is a reason to dump him. Just be patient, or make him jelous.
735135
Contemporary male wisdom is to "keep her wanting more". Hopefully, he is just trying to get you more interested in him by keeping his distance. Is it working?\n\nIf it is much longer than a week, I would probably try to contact him. If you get no response, you should probably move on.
923343
Well, ask the girl again. Explain to her that you need to know her answer now only because you don't want to sit around and wait if she's not interested. I mean, if she's not interested she should just tell you so that you don't waste anymore time. If after you say this, she can't give you an answer, it's best to try things with the guy and see how things go.
521884
Stop saying your life sucks for one, girls have enough emotional torment, they don't want to deal with yours. Stop building up this great and wonderful thing... its unlikly to happen any way you've imagined it. Just relax and let everything come in its own time. Just be you and have no expectations.
835216
hmm.. wad cause the broke up in the first place? is the problem still around? and way to solve it?\n\nthis is the few questions u gotta ask yerself... if there isn't any problems at the moment.. will there be any coming up? will u guys be able to handle it togther or u  guys gonna break up again?? \n\nif u can answer this question, more or less u know whether to stay and wait (cos she's worth the wait) or move on (cos a break up will happen anyway)...\n\ngood luck to yer dude,,, u need it,,,
713302
I dont understand what u are up to or thinking, I mean the girl is in a relationship already, what do u expect her to say? Are u gonna suggest to her that she should dump her bf 4 u? Why don't u go hunt else where? U say, u ve known her for 2 years! Why didn't u talk to her about it within that period. U should realize it that - when u like some thing, it doesn't automatically become yours, atleast that is how the world works. If I were u at that age, I would concentrate on school rather than chasing people's gfs.
454385
I'm sorry, but guys do the same... I know... I share your feeling... what's up with that? \nI think she doesn't want to hurt your feelings but is to shy to tell you... but hell... I have no clue... sorry. \n\nMaybe you should ask what's up? Or just forget her... but that doesn't sound like a very attractiv solution, does it? :)\nGood luck with that!