what would you do if you find out you are gay?
831734
Found out?  As if anyone could keep a secret from themselves?  You may find out what gay is, but I seriously you doubt one could suddenly discover they are gay.  The only epiphany to be had is knowing what to call it - most know already.\n\nPart of me wanted to be a smart aleck and answer that I would beg myself not to tell my husband, but I resisted!  ;-)
139929
going to a gay support group might help.
790617
Introduce him as your slave.  That should pull the wool over their eyes.\n\nSeriously, why hide who you are?  Are you ashamed of being gay?  [If you still live at home, you get a "bye" about telling your parents until you can support yourself.]\n\nGood luck!
48001
I would say if you have feelings for members of the same sex and you want to act on them, or you do act on them then you might be gay. And if you're not at all interested in being with someone of the opposite sex, but only someone of your same sex. It's also possible you could just be confused.
808056
I can't claim to know anything about your problem, I'm a straight female.  But it just broke my heart to read your question.  This must be so difficult for you.  I don't know what to tell you to do, maybe you should try to wait for the right person to come along before you say anything, at least then you would have some kind of support.  I can't speak for your parents, of course, but if my child came to me and told me he's gay, I would be loving and supportive, a parent always loves their children, no matter what, at least that's the way I feel about my child.  I just wanted you to know I feel for you and wish you the best! :)
1051624
How do YOU know they are gay?  Sounds like you might listen to pop music in the closet.
368730
Do you attracted to people of the same sex?  If so, you are probably gay.
316661
Test 1\n\nGive a guy a long look - if he starts back "What U lookin' at?" - he's straight.\n\nTest 2\n\nlook him up and down (making sure he sees you do it) and smile - if he smiles back at ya - he may be gay.
477296
Yes. If you're not sure if someone is gay or not - they're gay. Me, you'd know right away I'm no homo. When you dump him get yourself checked out to make sure he didn't give you some homo disease (like AIDS) and if you're clean give me a call (seems like you're pretty easy and I like that in a chick).
719694
If you are not gay, tell her. If you are, go for it.
171314
In this situation you should probably try spending some quality time with the person sooner or later it will become totally clear of their sexuality and you never know if they are they may come out and ask you first, either that or talk to a mutual friend if there is one available, and try to get the dish on what they are into, basically the same thing you would do if you were straight, nothing really has to be different. The worst that could happen is that he says no but it is best to be true to yourself :-))!!!
845373
Feel the situation out.  Do you know how he feels about gay people?  In the right time and place you will be able to tell him you are and how you have felt.  If he is not gay then you can't change him, don't try it won't work and do'nt push it.  Many straight people have gay friends.
520232
How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet. \n\n\n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay. \n\n\n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay. \n\n\n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n\n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffee is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too. \n\n\n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious! \n\n\n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone. \n\n\n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
709297
While I was waiting for the doctors to find out what happened. I would learn how to write my name in the snow.  I would measure it against others.  I guess I would be kind of gay because I really like guys.  Maybe that would all change.  I would say woo hoo because I don't have a period anymore.  I would pick a couple of fights unless I turned into a wimpy man.  I would see if I can last 24 hrs with out a shower(lol).
1187430
I'm not a guy but I am going to give you advice that might help.  I would say if that happened the person who is already openly gay, needs to be tender and take things slow.  They also need to let their friend know that they are understanding and accepting of the fact that if they want to stop things at any point they will respect them for that decision, I would think just in that case as you would if it was a male/female relationship, act on your feelings and if you aren't feeling it then back away just like you would any other relationship.  Good Luck!\n\nP.S.  As for what some people said about oh he must be BI or how can someone straight be attracted to a gay guy?  Well for that one, the same goes for women.  I was with men most of my life and then I met this girl (one girl) I started a relationship with her, was with her for almost 2 years, and we broke up now I have a boyfriend.  I wouldn't call myself a lesbian or bi, I tried something it didn't work out, so I went back to what I truely like.  As a lot of people say, noone is really BI, they are just confused~
545567
You say there's nothing wrong with being gay. Tell your brother that and then tell him that you think he might be gay because of what he said to your friend. There's nothing like being up front with people for getting an honest answer. You'll just have to trust him to be honest back.\n\nFirst person I came out to was my brother. He had no idea I was gay but everybody knew he was okay with gay people so I trusted him. He didn't betray my trust and he was way cooler about the whole thing than I could have hoped. Good luck with your bro :-)
822888
Stop thinking of it in terms of gay and strait. As a matter of fact forget the two terms exist at all. Then just pay attention to your emotions toward everyone around you and the answer will just kind of come to you. Thats how it was for me.