how do i get a girlfriend?
813712
uhhhhh lets see be yourself do the moves and gettin gf will take some time and plus boost your self confidence up too
424894
The problem isn't being nice, popular or helpful.  The problem is expecting a girl would drop by and become your girlfriend. \nYou have good qualities, just find the one girl and be extra nice to her and treat her special. Take the leap and get the girl of your dreams.
247561
just be honest with her and once you do that she'll have nothing to ask you and to make a girl like you just you be nice and if you don't know how to do that just ask her what kind of person does she like and for a girl to be your girlfriend just ask her out but if she do like you she'll go out with you.
732907
First of all, why do you DESPERATELY need a girlfriend?!  Work on your social skills.  You do not have to be loud and obnoxious to get attention.  Not all girls like those kinds of guys.  Get involved in something that interests you that also interests girls, so you can meet some that are more like yourself.
405039
Well are you ready to have a girlfriend? Do you know the responsibilities if you have a girlfriend? If yes, start with being friendly to the girl you're interested then propose to her.
248905
So what if you have no girlfriend? That should not be your biggest concern in life. If you're happy and social, you'll attract women. But if you look desperate or depressed, nobody will be attracted to you.
691683
Money and looks will only get you so far... Be flirtatious, partake in interesting hobbies, and show your self confidence without being cocky. You need to take the initiative as well... don't be afraid to ask that girl out on a date!  Have no fear of rejection. Everyone gets rejected and it's part of life. Also, don't be CREEPY... hard to define... but enjoy your life... talk to people, smile, look girls in the eye, don't be shy... that's all I can think of right now! Good luck!
1075353
TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
290390
Just be nice. Tell her you have a girlfriend or think she is really nice, but this isnt a good time for you to go out with people right now.\n\nDont be mean to her!!
810560
Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
691864
find the right girl, who doesn't think you're a loser. ask her out. should work fine.
154450
I can tell you where you won't find one.  Here.  \n\nGet out and be in an environment where you are comfortable and enjoy yourself.  It helps you with the opposite sex, unless, of course, you are confortable in places where women don't hang out.\n\nHowever, I do know you won't get a girlfriend here.
41557
the best way to get a girl.. be orginal, be funny, and most important of all be confident. if she says no just like it doesn't bother you.
614042
Everyone took my answers. Darn!\n\n\nThe best way I believe to get a boyfriend is to make friends, meet people, or just ask guys that you like and tell them something sweet. Most men are the same so whatever a woman tells them is usually the right thing.\n\nJust be sure not to give yourself away too easily.\n\nLook for personality first. Then looks. Don't be too controlling. But don't be too easy either.\n\nOr, don't look...and they will come to you.\n\nI think the question should be, "What is the reason for wanting a boyfriend?"
640385
Make fun of yourself and how you get into trouble.\n\nIf you can make her laugh, then act like a friend for a very long time without being pushy.\n\nIf you don't have this kind of patience, get a new girlfriend.
558738
Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!) \n\nSteps \nBE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl. \n\nHAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE. No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so be yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. \n\nSHOW RESPECT. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi. \n\nHAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say. \n\nAll of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze. \n\nWhen around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours. \n\nBE FRIENDS WITH HER PARENTS. Be kind to everyone, especially them. \n\nLearn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those. \n\n\n\nTips \nA REALLY JUICY TIP IS TO SHOW SYMPATHY. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better. \n\nWarnings \nIf you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
693087
Don't give up, trust me.  If you're looking, a girl will find you and recognize you as being the sweet kind that most of us love.\n\n***Don't, however, just wait around for a girl to break up with her boyfriend just do date her.  Try to befriend girls just to be friends and who knows...you may end up finding a girl that's normally not your type but really attracts you\n\nGood luck!