my boyfriend tells be that he is straight but people tell me the opposite who do i believe?
824383
Well you apparently have trust issues.()
1058735
Well if he knows he;s a boy then he's not confused about his gender. As for his sexual orientation, you should probably let him find that out for himself. As long as he is confused or unhappy about it himself he will probably not be able to talk to you about it. I would let him know though, subtly as least, that you love him no matter what and that he has to be and do what makes him happy. Other people's opinions should not matter.
244310
Elaborate on the facts please.  Are you bi or really gay. Or do you mean boyfriend in platonic sense?  Or are you just putting some BS into the mix because you are bored?
289065
well if the other guy you thought is gay, is not...\nthen the best thing for the gay guy to do is too either see for himself cuz the 'straight" guy may be lying, or to find someone else
771023
You can have turmoil in any relationship, and it is not based on the person's sex but on their personality. As far as acting straight, I am often called straight acting but I am not, I am only acting as myself; this is just a label. In society, it is more difficult to be gay, but if you are attracted to the same sex it is not a switch that can be turned off. I believe that bisexuality is a valid sexuality; some people like vanilla milkshakes, some people like chocolate milkshakes, and some people like all milkshakes, but many who like both usually have a preference for one over the other. He is confused because he feels he has to make the choice to be labeled as straight or be labeled as gay and face discrimination; and to add to this is the stresses that the previous relationships involved.\nThe only thing to tell him is to think of it like this, gay is only a word that means a man attracted to another man. This attraction, however, is a very important part of who one is. You say he is attracted to men, but only say he misses the things that women do. If he is not truly attracted to women also, he is gay. He needs to accept himself for who he is and concentrate instead on finding someone that he can love who will love him back without any turmoil.
481756
dont always belive what people say, unless u have proff then dont acusse him. dont worry about what others say its all about you!
655396
DON'T ASK HIM. - he needs to find the right time to tell you. If you ask him he will be offended and he WILL dislike you. Turst me on this one. I'm bi and people use to ask me occasionally if I was gay, I wasn't and I hadn't come out and it used to really piss me off, even friends said it and I would hate them for saying it.
227466
Of course it can happen! He might not be able to explain it because he doesn't understand it himself...he might be wondering how it happened when he has always been straight. It's probably very confusing for him. You say you're in love, and things sound very good. Don't question it with him. For now just let him express his feeling in other ways, through his actions!
672927
If more than one person is telling you, and these people don't have alterior motivation for wanting to break you guys up (like they have no personal reason to want to break you up), than I would say you should probobly believe them.  Of course your bf is going to say he's not cheating on you when you ask him.  You have to analyze the people that are telling you this and find out how they know and take it from there, good luck!
339277
I have an adult male friend who likes to wear them--he claims he's straight. But, sometimes I wonder. ;0)
473086
Well, to begin with you have to ascertain that he is in fact gay or bi. We got a couple of ways to go: just ask him would be my best advice. Second to that...does he date anyone? Does he have friends that he regularly hangs out with that you could ask?\nIf he is gay/bi...just tell him how you feel. It is my opinion that nothing bad can happen when you tell someone how you feel. Could he reject you? Absolutely. But you haven't lost anything if he does...you're not dating him now. You will have the benefit of knowing that you tried and knowing exactly where he stands, even if its not beside you.\nAs for your girlfriend, women know that you can change your mind (It is out pergotaive :) ). Your friend probably will rib you a little and then help you implement your game plan. \nHope this helps and good luck to you!
767482
Straight men do this, especially when they are young.  However, if it develops into a habit, then I would say they are not straight and probably at least bisexual.
291593
Well, all I can say , is what does your heart tell you. It sounds like you are confused. You have to think about everything, rationalize a little bit, think about the pros and cons and why it may be right or why it may be wrong, then YOU Decide. \n\nI have my opinions about that. I don't agree with it, but that is me. I would never turn away from someone who is gay, it's not my business and it is certainly not my place to judge someone. \n\nIt's your choice , do you feel like it's wrong? remember everyone has their opinion. ;)
627213
Yes they are!I am with one! And have been with him for ten years.Sometimes they are so honest and so blunt it hurts!!!But they will always tell you the way it is if you ask them!!!Be ready to hear the truth!My also man believes if you dont have honesty and trust their is no reason to be together!Honesty is very important to them!
691524
Well, obviously this chic is jealous of something about you if she has gone out of her way to speak of you in such a way.So two things I would do- first- confront the other girl-ask her is she's a lessie- then of course there might be an arguement but keep things cool by opening up the conversation with " for info only"...or "it seems, the way they come across"..., then you can throw the rumor back at them- or simply put on a bigger show when your with your boyfriend to let others know your not gay.
1021813
It sounds to me like he's confused.  Worst case, he's lying to you or at least not giving you the whole truth.  Speak candidly with him, find out the entire story and make a connection with him!  How does he really feel about you?  When he answers, do you believe him?  Listen to your instincts!
1141092
I think only he knows for sure but i`d say he is probably bisexual since he was once married.  Here is a few lines from an interview with him that more or less indicates that he is bisexual.\n\nHave you ever felt yourself sexually attracted to a man? \nSure! (Laughs) Musically I don’t fit into a box, and my image is pretty ambiguous too I think. I’m definitely not trying to hide anything and I know it’s confusing for people who want to put a label on me. I believe in love and that’s it. \n\nSo could you fall in love with a man? \nErm sure. I am totally looking for the right person. \n\nRead the full interview at this address.\n\nhttp://www.darrenhayesnet.com/axm_interview_darren_hayes_2004.html\n\n\nHope this helps