how do i get him back?
827144
Quit calling him... him going out of town will maybe give him a chance to clear his head and realize that you are what he wants. If not, then you don't want someone who doesn't want you. He obviously cares or he wouldn't have introduced you as his girlfriend! exspecially to his friends. I would say back off and he will come around. Hope things work out the way you want!
737714
Honetly, how I would get him back is by dumping him, if he doesn't trust you now, he never will and he will keep accusing you of the same thing.\n\nif he thinks you would do this after whatever length of time you have been together he doesn't know you at all and isn't worth the hassle.\n\nif you do want to stick with him, tell him that the next time he accuses you of doing something like that you will make sure that he actually has some proof to go on...in the mean time wax his balls :)
1171107
Umm no. You can't just sit around waiting for him. You'll waste so much time, and when he comes back things won't be the same anyways. You both will have changed. Spare your heart the pain and move on.
396864
you messed up. you should prove to him that he's all you really care about. i dont know how. thats something noone else can tell you how to do. you have to think about what matters to him. we dont know him on a personal level like you do. be creative.
135018
if he still has feeling for you, he himself will have to decide to come back.  You can't make him.  try not to force him to do anything.  be yourself, and it he loves you as much as you do him, he will come back.\n\ngood luck.
1125264
my ex did that, i took him back several times. \n\nmy advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
460984
Does he want you back? If so, try saying, I know we did'nt click the first 2 times, but you know what they say, the third times a charm,,wanna try again? You never know, it might work! Good-Luck!
393466
If he wants you back he will find a way.  You might have to accept that he has moved on and try to do so yourself.  The pain goes away if you let it.x
1061664
if you really want him back go ahead and talk to him before its too late....if you don't you'll regret that too! It's completely your choice who you go out with so don't think that much about your parents.  Also when you talk to him, don't do it as "just a friend" be straight about your feelings...since you broke up with him, you should try to get him back cause he won't (men are too proud).  Good luck! =)
224101
Why would you want him back?? I am sorry, but he seems to have proved that he is untrustworthy, and a creep. I know it hurts, but put him behind you and move on with life. You will meet someone one day that would never think of walking out on you...you deserve a true love, don't settle for less.
1112997
If you mean cheating on him, you probably won't get him back because he has lost his trust in you.  If you mean other things, maybe if you stopped doing whatever it is, you could show him you have changed and he might be interested again.
542783
2 years?  Whoa.  Well, first make sure that you've done everything you can to get him back, otherwise you'll always wonder if there was something you could have done.  If he means that much to you, then nothing will stop you from getting him back.  But if it doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be, and you can honestly say you tried your best.   But you HAVE to move on!  There are so many other people out there, and you have to believe that there will be someone else as good as or even better than this guy.
173844
I know you want him back, its VERY hard to let go of the one you love, i still need to learn that leasson. But you cant force him to go out with you. Just be yourself, and just be his friend, the rest is up to him.
111565
Stop being selfish and let her be happy for once.  Even if you could get her back, it would never be the same...she will always have some bit of resentment towards you.
746883
You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
525988
You need to give his space for a while. He is really hurting right now, and no matter how much you want to help, there is really nothing you can do. \n\nIf giving him his space means not seeing him for a while, then deal with it(not to sound harsh or anything). He'll come back to you, and there is a very good chance that he'll let you in on things soon, but for now you have to let him find his way back to you.\n\nI'm very sorry about what is going on. I wish you the best of luck, and I'm praying for you guys.\n\nBig Hugs,\nkitties_n_llamas(Becca)
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!