How long does one have to wait before getting intimate with a date?
817391
In some situations... Just long enough to get out of your clothes... In others it may take months... It depends on what "both" people want at the moment...
631544
my husband and I waited about three weeks. I knew I really liked him, and I didn't want to be too easy, so I held out. I wanted to right away.\nwe have been married 4 years now.
250716
Well, it depends upon the situation whether you'd want to or not.  I can tell you that out of most dates and stuff, I would never kiss on the first date.  Heck, on 2 first dates, I gave the handshake; once because I was sick and the other because I just felt like it.  What did it get me?  It got them to like me and want me more.  It left them with something to be desired.  If you try to rush things for the sake of rushing, you're going to ruin things.  What makes someone desirable is good timing and knowing when not to give too much.  Too much of something or something that's too soon can ruin the whole effect and make something special bland.\n\nThe same could be said about seeing someone.  If you try to see them everyday too soon, you're going to get sick of them.  If you get someone clingy, you're going to get sick of them.  Having the right timing is right.  Since this looks like your first date or something, I suggest that you would pace yourself.  Don't fall head over heals too soon.  Relax and keep yourself busy with school and other stuff.  Chill with your friends.  Avoid talking and referring to her too much, because you'll over analyze stuff and end up thinking too hard and second guessing yourself.\n\nMost of all, have fun.  If there's anything to be gained from this experience is that you could learn how to kiss better and have more self-composure about dating women.
311830
Having sex before I was ready, and not waiting for the right guy.
164465
i think that you should wait an month after you last had sex, but if you cant wait that long then try in two weeks after you have had sex.
263437
The timing doesn't really matter. It really depend on the nature and the depth of your bf/gf relationship. If you had just met and been out on a date or two, a simple quick kiss would suffice. If you have been going together for a while and have really enjoyed each other's company, a longer kiss with a bit of passion will do. The danger here is that any kiss longer than that will lead to sexual petting and eventually a sexual encounter. If you want to keep your relationship on a friendship level, keep your kisses short and sweet!! Love You. LJK.
659062
If you're asking about how far to go on a date, then breasts come first.
309340
"Dating" implies that you're not exclusively dating each other.  You may be casually seeing two or three different people.  \nThere really is no set time period for the transition from casual dating to a boyfriend/girlfriend situation.  For some, this happens immediately, while for others it's a slow, gradual process.  It's not at all uncommon to find you have instant chemistry and can't even think about dating others.  On the other hand, some people are friends for months or years before they transition to a "relationship".  \nA significant event, while defined by some as a sexual encounter, is the mutual realization that neither of you wish to date other people.  In my experience, this isn't something that is controlled or set.  You can't put it on a calendar, it just happens.  You wake up one morning and realize that you're happiest when you're with that person.  \n\nMy relationships have varied.  I was friends with one person for three years before we became a couple.  In another instance, I knew after our second date that he was the guy for me.  (Incidentally, we're still together... we've been married for 6 years!)
887056
no, if i want to leave a blind date half way through then i just do it.  no need to play games.  he must have been a real loser.  for a hottie like you, i would just enjoy your company and wait until you were ready for sex...anticipation is half the fun;-)
1143293
the right one will come to you in time...dont be in a rush for it.....you have plenty of time to experience a relationship......
250162
Time will tell.  You could be with someone for one day and think you know them.  Try to be with them for a year or two and you'll get a better sense of that person.  If this has something to do with fornicating, I believe you should at least wait a few months from when you started dating to see if he meets your expectations.\n\nHere's a thing about sex and timing - you could be with the perfect person but if you have sex too soon, you might ruin what could be there.  Trust me, it happens.
299670
First off..let's not act like guys are the only ones out for a piece of @$$!! "MC Rob Base" Said is best.."It takes two" Now, to answer your question...it depends on the mood I'm in. If I want a committment..then I'm cool with waiting. If I'm just trying to have a fling..then sometime in the first few weeks is cool. As for a first night kinda girl..well I've NEVER met one. I'm not the kind of guy women fawn over and want to go home with. I'm a committment guy..plain and simple even if that committment is a month.
146620
I would say wait, wait for a really special person.  People tend to say they kiss younger than when they do, and may get embarassed due too the pressure everyone seems to put one the issue...You will be more satisfied the longer you wait.
205036
only kiss him when you want to not because he wants it! After 5 months you should know whether you want to have a physical relationship or not! If you don't want that then don't force yourself. Chemistery is one of the most aspects of a relationship.
284396
When you say contact are you meaning physical contact or the actual act of being in each other's company? Because they are both crucial to offering you an answer. If it is physical, then you have to take your cue from the person you are dating. If the two of you are ready for more than casual contact go for it,if it is invited and wanted. If you push too far too fast you could scare the other person off. But,if you feel that ya'll are ready for this step then go ahead. \n\nIf you mean contact as relative to the actual time that you are spending together, then only the two of you can answer that. I do know from experience that too much too fast can sometimes burn out the natural chemistry between two people. But, hey, you know better that I do. So, you just have to decide for yourself in the end anyway, no one can determine that for you.
281381
Well it's best if you get to know someone before you decide to have a relatioship because he could be down right CRAZY! So get to know him and after say two months if he hasn't asked yet ask him for a relationship.
418882
well i would wait until at the earliest 15. but it depends. some girls will date no matter what they are told