i live with my boyfriend for 5 years and i am on his bank account ,i have type 2 diabetes, can i be evicted?
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There is so much good advice already , but ...   I would like to add a little to it anyway, namely ,  PLEASE  see to it immediately that you have a job, an income of your own of some sort . Take your name off that account of his and get one in your own name . You do not need anybody else's  approval when you feel you want to spend some money . Earn it yourself and enjoy it yourself. Pay your debts and don't be a moocher living in a person's apartment etc., and they have total control over your destiny . He can do an about turn and kick you out any time if your name is not on the renter contract . All you need is a good fight or argument and you are history . I hope for your sake you put some money aside . Sure is hell to be hungry and have no place to keep warm . Look out for yourself and good luck to you .
854522
Check with your housing office.  Don't try to get away with anything, some spouse with nothing better to do will rat you out.
1176219
Sadly the two of you are together in the lease, so it is very important when sharing a rental that you rent with someone you know very well and can trust ( also someone you would be willing to pay thier share if they don't or if they move out on you)\n\nYou can ask the court for a new date but you have no way to get out of the court date without merely paying the landlord the money owed or working out a payment plan
498545
Hi I m from Good old SA, your Landlord is not allowed to terminate your lease because you had a frying pan in your room as long as you did not have a stove in the room which you where using he/she can do jack shit too you if he /she wants to dispute it you can contact the Department of housing who will look into the matter, there number is 011 355 4000 webpage www.housing.qpq.gov.za
45895
No, my friend has type 2, and he is fine after a couple. Dont indulge, but ask your doctor how much you can safely have. Also, have your insulin close by incase you drink too much.
1022874
First check your lease - if there's any mention of that you can be evicted for ANY infraction, then you've got a hard road ahead of you. If there's no mention of it, speak to your landlord and let him/her know that it was a mistake and that you have paperwork to prove it.\n\nGood luck!
882902
My boyfriend and i have looked into this very same problem. My boyfriend is an insulin dependant diabetic (type 1) It would cost a lot to get him insurance but if I just get insurance for myself, I can add him onto it. it would be about $200 more a month to add him on the plan. This was more or less off the record;)
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I don't believe that they can evict him, AND require him to pay the balance due on the entire lease, unless the rent was listed as a total yearly amount, on which he was making installments.  I would have him contact an attorney, or Legal Aid to find out what his rights are.  He could always contact the Department of Children and Familes to see if he qualified for some subsidies, but getting the government involved can be risky too.  You have to be willing to let them into your home.
657837
Sorry to hear that this is going on. I have worked in a assisted living center and I know this happens. I wish I could find the site that helped me when I saw this going on.(I'll look for it) Talk to a lawyer right away, see if you can get pictures of you eating the meal's they give you. You'll need proof,\nThe problem is that the chef is not a nutritionist and they plan meals as if its for people who can eat anything. Its a sad mess! I don't even think they know how to put a meal together that can count calories for a diabetic. Its a guessing game for them. I can say this is true because of the place I had worked at.\nI would not let any of the staff know that I have reached out for help.
435390
I think if at all possible you might have to get moved to a different dorm room. It sounds like you are living with a child personality. Unless his friendship means a lot to you, and unless you are willing to exhibit more patience and explain that you are on a budget and can't share food anymore and then stick to your guns, it sounds like it's time to move.
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You should contact your lanlord and demand them to fix it.  If you are on a lease, you can tell him you will break thte lease if he does not do anything about it.  Also, if you decide to leave, take pictures OF EVERYTHING.  You can also report him to the health department.  Do something about it before it affects your health!
81474
all are very treatable.the diabetes and ptsd may be the limiting factors.but even these ,if properly treated can give you a somewhat normalife span. but the diabetes will probably do you in a little earlier.\nbut what the hell you're still alive.the time you have left is gravy.i know several who didn't come back alive.
841465
You are a good son,don't ever think you are a terrible person.I am a disabled mom,my son lives with me and helps me also.Is your mom able to do anything for herself?If so,perhaps you have a senior apartment complex in your area she could go to.Disabled people are also eligible for this even if they aren't yet a senior.They pay 1/3 of their income for rent and utilities,not a bad deal.We have a senior complex in my area of Pa,that is where I will be living once my son wants to move out.You get your own apartment,can have a car,just like living anywhere else.Or,if she needs some help,a assisted care facility might be the answer or even a nursing home if she needs alot of help.Although I'm sure you don't want to think of these options for your mom,you have to think about yourself too.I am still able to get around,and my son helps me a great deal,especially financially.But,as a mother,I would never want to be  burden to him,after all,he does have his own life.I hope your mom isn't making you feel guilty and making you think it is your responsibility,because it really isn't.There are options out there.My best advice would be to talk to the agency in your area that deals with aging.They should be listed in the blue pages or government pages in the phone book.Good luck to you.
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Say What? I hope he's living in your dog house. Why are you allowing this dude to crash at your your place without working for 13 years??? Is he disabled? If not, tell him to find a job. Pick your self-esteem off the floor and dump this loser then maybe you'll find someone better.  Good Grief.
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Let me begin by saying that I commend you on your efforts to continue your education and not let diabetes stop you. I am 24 years old and finishing up my MA in English, so you are not alone. I completely relate to your situation, although I am not currently insulin-dependant. \n\nThere are new treatments out there. The new isulin inhaler should be on the market in just a matter of months .. sometime this summer and that would be one option. An insulin pump would also be a great option for you if you are up to 3 injections daily. This way, your sticks are greatly reduced. \n\nI am not sure about the pancreas transplant issue, but I have heard of islet cells being transplanted. I would recommend doing your own research on this. Consult with the ADA and see what you can find out there. I think these things are still pretty experimental for the most part. \n\nAs for other organizations that can help you with your expenses / treatment, etc., consider consulting your local health department. I work for a health department diabetes program and I am sure there is a similar program in your area. You can probably access free diabetes education resources and even get some help with meds. \n\nGood luck and best wishes.. I hope everything works out for you in your education and otherwise.
1008576
find some real legal advice. if you can't afford it, legal aid in your county/city should be able to help. good luck.\n\nif that doesn't work, add some sugar to his gas tank.
891321
If you've lived in the same complex for 7 years, they already love you, trust me.  As long as you give proper notice to them before moving out, you don't need to worry about harming your reputation with them (it seems like this is what you're concerned about).