My penis is larger than average but I just can't please my wife, why?
813599
Well you better learn how to take time for foreplay... if she is cold warm it up! Guys like to jump right to it because they are so easily aroused. Face it, you have one part to please she has multiple. Pay attention to all of the special places, make the foreplay last all day by grabbing, fondling, and dirty talk.  Make her feel sexy by telling her how good she looks and what you find sexy about her. \n\nExample: If you catch her bending over go up behind her rub that butt and tell her how you much it turns you on to see her bend over like that.\n\nWhen you are out in public fondle her breast while no one is paying attention but the security cameras, some people find that exciting. \n\nSlow down when you are about to be intimate and maybe give her a full body massage, paying special attentionb with your mouth and hands to those special places that I mentioned before .
73828
well to be honest it could be one of two things, i am not to judge and dont know u 1: ur not well endowed,sorry  but thats my problem and i have had this happend to me b 4 ur not the only one and 2: not enogh foreplay or to much, just got to take ur time talk to them and tell them how good they are, and remember oral does a great job for orgasms for women, also toys which i have never used might help some,
1181103
omg ...sorry love ..sounds like your the one that is slightly abnormal here...most men would appreciate that aspect of their wives.\n\nnow what if the shoe was on the other foot?  would you be complaining or cheating on her cuz she dont WANT to give it up?\n\nlmao ...this is soooo RARE to find a man complaining that his wife wants sex!!!
346248
I WOULD THINK 8" WOULD BE ENOUGH FOR ANYONE, I KNOW IT WOULD BE TO MUCH FOR ME.  MAYBE YOUR WIFE SHOULD DO SOME TONING EXERCISES WITH HER PRIVATE PART.  (YES THERE IS EXERCISES WOMEN CAN DO TO HELP MAKE IT TIGHTER)  I WOULD NOT HAVE SURGERY TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE, EVEN IF IT IS YOUR WIFE.  THAT IS SELFISH OF HER TO ASK THAT.  TELL HER TO GO HAVE SURGERY AND HAVE HERS TIGHTENED UP AND THEN THERE WOULD BE NOT PROBLEM.  GOOD LUCK
559731
you are just getting old. nothing wrong with that. Get surgery to get it tightened up, or stop having sex for a week or so to let it go back to normal. the very last thing you could do is get a new partener - one with a larger member. That will solve everything.
582175
It's just a penis. Why does it matter how long it is? If you know what you're doing, then it shouldn't matter. Having a big dong doesn't make you a better lover or a better man.
1086875
Maybe you're not jacking off enough.  The more you do it, the longer you'll last.  Just look at my avatar the next time you're jackin' it.  You'll want to slow down and imagine being with a real woman like me any you'll last longer.
631524
There are plenty of women out there who won't care how long your penis is...besides five inches is basically average. Seven to eight inches is unreasonable for her to expect. Don't think about suicide over something stupid like that, find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. There are also many techniques that you can use to please a woman that have nothing to do with your penis, try using your mouth once in a while...she will change her tune quite quickly, lol.
792362
PLEASE PEOPLE, STOP LYING TO THIS POOR GUY!!! 4 inches is really small.  sorry to say it sweetie, but the lady is gonna want a little more than that. she may not the first time, but eventually she will if you dont find other ways to complete her (if ya know what i mean)  get that little thing as hard as you can and be passionate with her, she'll appreciate the effort, but you're gonna have to invest in a dildo or something
271960
I understand her concern.  I had this problem myself.  The girth is always the most interesting to a woman (makes the biggest impact), but it can also be the most problematic after a certain point.  \n\nI was actually physically unable to have sex with this man.  I had no interest in pursuing the relationship really, so I did not pursue this route, but if the girl is willing, she can be slowly stretched over a period of time to accomodate your size.  Never pressure the girl, as I am sure you wouldn't, as it is a seriously scary thought for a girl (if the relationship does not work ut, what guy wants a girl who is too stetched out? are there enough kegals in the world?) but do know that there is this possibility.  Talk it over with her and give her all the facts and let her make the decision.\n\nThen, as has been suggested already, rely heavily on foreplay, use lubricant, and be gentle.  The suggestion for her to be on top is excellent.  She will be in control of how much she can take in.  And know it may take several attempts before you can have complete physical contact, for lack of a better phrase right now.\n\nLet me know if this helps. Best of luck to ya, hun!
470152
Men and women have completely different needs when it comes to sex, usually. No, you can't change her. But there may be a deep seated reason she is the way she is. Perhaps something she hasn't shared with you or some fear.\n\nIf it is that troublesome for you, see a sex therapist or start marriage counseling.
786887
Your wife is in denial about her bear-like appearance. She is angry with herself for failing to live up to her number one responsibility: being sexually desireable to her husband. She would rather think it is the goat that has come between you than admit to herself that she has failed. My advice is: talk to your wife. Explain to her that you are still willing to support her and your children, but that you are no longer sexually attracted to her, and must fulfill your manly needs with your new goat. Maybe the shame of the whole situation will motivate her to jog in the mornings.
102019
No, there is not. And quite frankly you don't need a bigger penis. A woman should like you for who you are; not what you have. In addition, you should be happy with yourself, you don't need to impress other people.....who cares what they think!?
1095296
It is entirely possible that your basic sexuality is Passive...There is nothing wrong with that...in every partnership, one member must be aggressive, the other passive...the roles can switch back and forth during the act. Talk  to your wife...you may find thtat she is actually the aggressive one, she may need "permission" to be herself. Someone has to be the aggressor, no reason it cannot be her...many great relationship function in this manner...all parties are happy.So go talk to her and find out the score. Good luck
630586
Sounds like she is a bit insensitive to me! Vaginas are basically "one size fits all" so if you have 4 or more inches (erect) you should be fine. A lot of women don't have orgasms with intercourse alone though. If she hasn't had any other lovers, maybe she just doesn't know what to expect. Are you having lots of foreplay, enjoying mutual masturbation and oral sex? There is much more to sex that just f---ing! You need to talk, need to experiment...and maybe need to get a new girlfriend!
108038
This is a common ailment among men. You should seek the advice of a medical professional. There is medication that will help you. It is not a personal failure. It is a medical condition and there is help out there. Don't hesitate to speak to your doctor about it. You and your wife will both be pleased with the results. It would also help to talk to a counselor about other ways to make your wife happy. It's much more common that you might think and open discussion with your wife will help. Don't stress.
136567
actually all of these answers are correct, but not enterelly, if you dont acomplish to stimulate your woman the time you spend down there or with your fingers is going to be useles, now women arose quite slow, so i recomend a nice diner, and allways with a sexual conotation, second you know your wife and what she likes so i can only recomend to do what she might like, take your time, do it slow and please use your imagination, try to discover new ways or new parts of your beloved, if you read her reactions, talk to her during the act and really try to satisfy her theres no way you can miss, besidas you must like oral sex to perform it, if you dont that will be only ocuord and not sexy at all