Just read and tell Which one you like ? Love or Marriage ...?
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I totally disagree!  I am married and in love.  The romance doesn't HAVE to leave just because you get married.
633905
Get married and find out.
395644
I prefer marriage over just living together. It tells me he loves me enough to commit to being together for the rest of our lives. To stand before God, family and friends and declare his undying love for me. It's the only way for me.
716691
i totally think love marriage is the right thing! fight for what you think is right!!
773141
First learn; how  will be question ask ? and give the descripyion about ur marriage
933746
Marriage D'amour = Marriage of Love
938882
The definition of 'marriage' varies from culture to culture, century to century, nation to nation. In other words, there is no SINGLE valid defition. It varies. Here's a radical thought: Decide what marriage means TO YOU and to the person YOU LOVE and then act accordingly.\n\nBy the way, the same is true for 'sin'. It's all relative to who is talking. Opinions differ and no one can say who's right or wrong.
1164449
Everyone remembers the One. You got married to someone eals so im sure that you love him too. the heart is a crule thing it has no limmit on the amount of love it has. the heart always makes more. So yes it is verry easy to love two people. You have to decide if your marrige is worth keeping. If it is then dont worry about the strong feeling for the other man. It will be hard but it will get better.
877282
First love. Then marriage. Married life might turn out to be unhappy in the long run as the pot of love is half empty before marriage. \nHahahaha...don't worry its better than arranged marriages as you have a good idea of your would be spouse before you wed him/her.
336259
you should always marry for love. you should love the one you marry. your love will grow as the years pass.
161068
Of course you can love them both.......But you will have to love one better than the other. You will have to make a choice sooner or later as to which you love better. I imagine you made wedding vows to your wife. Did you promise your coworker anything? Who did you make promises to first? Will you have to break your promises to one of them in order to continue loving the other? If you think you can love them both the same, you can't.
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nope! love is...love! i can't explain. my hubby and i got married after 2 months of knowing eachother, and we're now going on 5 years of marriage! if it's true love (and the feeling is mutual), i suppose it makes sense, right? ^_^ but, really, it's all up to how you (and him)feel about it... good luck!
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Only you can make that decision.  But here is a way to help you choose.\nTake a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle.\nOne one side write pros and the other cons.\nOn the pro side write all the things you like about him as well as the things that make you feel good.\nOn the con side write all the things you dont like about him as well as the bad habits you may not like.\n\nAlso list the things that you want out of a marriage and rate if you think he can provide those things.\n\nAsk yourself, do I feel I can spend the next 20 years or so with this man?\nDoes he want the same things out of life I do?\nMost important, are you comfortable around him?\nDoes he make you feel safe, secure and loved?\n\nNever marry someone that you think you can change.  If they don't you will be miserable.\nWeigh all the good and bad and then decide.\n\nAlso remember, no one is perfect, love someone in spite of the little annoying habits.  Marriage is a compromise the blending together of 2 people.\nMarriage is also like a pair of sissors.  Once joined together at the middle they will crush anyone trying to come between them.\nGood luck.
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Is this from a financial point of view? I think you should only marry someone because you love them. Living with someone isn't always easy normally in a loving relationship...it can be hell if it was done for other reasons!! Financially, you could actually lose certain benefits depending on the state you live in.
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I used to believe it was quite archaic. I always believed in love, and considered it the prime motivaton for marriage. I believed it was the couples sole decision, and no other enity should be involved.  However, as time progessed, my feelings have changed.  In AMERICA, the divorce rate is 50%.  Somethings wrong with the system. I'm rethinking the idea of planned marriages.  They seem to last quite a bit longer.
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I guess so.  Depends on what you call love.  Married love is different from infatuation love.\nMarried love has something to do with attraction, common interests, respect, compromise, teamwork, silliness, and dedication to this union that is bigger than you.\n\nIf you are wondering if you should wander from your marriage to this other person I would say no.  Give your marriage a chance.  Getting through rough times together is part of what will make your union stronger and lasting.\n\nHow would you feel if your position was reversed with your spouse?  Would you want your mate's eye to wander?  \n\nThink before you act and give yourself a chance to make sure that whatever decision you make, you can live with the consequences.
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I got married because I'm sure I love the man I married with. No doubt about it. There are things that you just can't explain. Love just simply dwelled in my heart that no one can take it away from me. Marriage may not be that simple and easy but if you are willing to accept pain and difficulties,then,you don't have the reason to be afraid of. In marriage, you should be steadfast and firm. Storms may come but then it would also go. Being happy in a marriage is a choice. You do your part and he does his. REAL LOVE is the sole purpose why we get married....