more info. about my assault story!!?
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This reminds me of the time that my grandfather hollered at me....\n"HOW OLD ARE YOU NOW, BOY"\n\n"FIVE" I said.\n\nHe replied..."WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE, I WAS SIX."\n\nWhy does the older generation feel the need to out-do or compete with the younger generation. Exactly. I'm glad I could help.
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If it was you that has been raped please report it and get the help you need .its a very traumatic thing to have happened to you  and my heart goes out to you,\nPlease you dont want a web site ,You need proper help Please seek it,
995927
If you are charged it won't be that serious since you are a minor, and it will come off your record at 18. Make sure your witnesses are at the trial, so they know you didn't start it and simply say it was defence and getting to a trial can be a very long time. The most that will happen is you would do community service since you are a minor and you didn't start it. I think you are looking for a compulsive liar (someone who lies non-stop).  Drop the money thing...they might say it is a reason why you beat her up!
370842
You were in the car, why didn't you just drive away?\n\nYou were charged with a crime because you could've just driven away yet you decided to get out and beat these guys with weapons.  Thats use of excessive force, you're only allowed to defend yourself with the same amount of force that you were attacked with.  If you go to jail you deserve it.\n\nYou couldn't ram a car which is a piece of property???????\n\nWhat world do you live in, this is in no way acceptable behavior.  If you had a car and all of these weapons on you you probably had a cell phone too.  Why didn't you call the cops?\n\nYou didn't drive off because you were afraid of being called a punk, right?  You deserved to go to jail for longer than just 30 days or whatever you said.  \nYou gave a guy brain damage, broke a guys ribs, and left a guy with permanent nerve damage in his arm, what makes you think you aren't liable.
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well done, it needed to be said.  but look you said it yourself too 'i was in an abusive situation once...it took me some time (as i was younger and less experienced)'  \n\ndo you realize that a LOT of people on here are teenagers who are at that 'younger and less [life] experienced' phase that you were at?\n\nit's good that you are here to shout sense into people..sorry to hear of your abusive encounter before. hope as many people as possible read your post here today and get some thinkin going on!
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YOUR DEFENCE SHOULD BE BASED ON THIS STATEMENT-YOUR HONOUR-I LASHED OUT IN THE HONEST BELEIF THAT I WAS ABOUT TO BE ATTACKED. I WAS A LONE FEMALE THIS IS ALL THE DEFENCE I HAVE TO OFFER!!. you will be fine-trust me.
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IF the man actually raped her, then I would tell her to go to the Police with this information!\n\nNow, if she doesnt, then I wouldnt put too much stock in her being raped, and that she was just unfaithful, and that any time you two dissagree, she may turn to this man, (and thats why he calls, to see if she is available again), for comfort, and that being in a sexual nature.\n\nI wish you well..\n\nJesse
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walked away until you both calmed down . . . \n\nIf he wanted to . . . legally he could call the police and have you arrested for domestic violence . . . that is all he needs . . . to charge you . . . \n\nWhy else do you think . . . you hear more reports of women charging men . . . because women press charges on these stupid fights . . . and men ignore them.\n\nVAWA (Violence Against Women Assn) . . . did a report . . . and it shows that men are the biggest victim of domestic assault . . . second is children . . . third is women.  The biggest abusers . . . first is women . . . second is men . . . third is other relations (Like babysitter, aunt, uncle).\n\nYou should be glad you husband was a nice guy . . . and didn't have you arrested.
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Like previous answers said, either post it in the category you abused (!) or in the yahoo section. If you really are sincere in the wording of your apology and write it from the heart, I am sure that it will be accepted!\n\nGood luck and remember, try not to be naughty boy any more!! ;)
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Well, what you're calling assault sounds like it might be battery.  \n\nAssault is the attempt, and failure, to commit battery.\n\nBattery is a successful assault.\n\nBoth are misdemeanors, which means you COULD do six months to a year (depending on the type of battery and who it was against), and you COULD get a fine of up to $1,000.
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Wonderful nickname.  You must be very proud.\n\nAnyway - there's no way anyone can offer you any intelligent help with this answer (look at what you have so far, and you'll see what I mean) without knowing all the details of the incident.  \n\nEither post the entire police investigation here (and I don't suppose that's going to happen), or just plan on working with your husband's lawyer in this case.  Nobody here can possibly help you with this without knowing the details of the case.
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Sounds like there is more to your story. Police don't just do things like that. Mental Hospitals don't just admit someone without some sort of better reasons. The burden of proof is on them. Retain a lawyer or fight dirty too.
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this is a pretty serious question you are asking and there are alot of details missing so let me start with this and see if it helps you.  I also grew up in domestic violence, my step father to be specific and back then (early 80's and up until my junior year of school '86) they didn't have much in the way of resources for help, but.... fortunately for you today they do.  I don't know where you are from so it is hard to put up a link for you but I will try. \n \nthis one is a national hotline so it doesn't matter where you are you can call and certainly if you are in immediate danger call 911, if they have stuff on file for the individual who's doing it (the abuse), it makes it faster and easier for them to protect you or the individual going through it.  \n\nNO ONE SHOULD BE HURTING ANYONE EVER!!!!!!!\n\nHere is the link:\n\nhttp://www.ndvh.org/\n\nI hope this helps you and remember none of this is your fault unless you are doing the abusing.\n\nSeek help for you and the others involved in the situation, you may be scared but.... is it worse to continue in the abuse or do something to protect you and your loved ones.  Be strong!!!!\n\nYou are not alone, there are so many people out there going through this.    GET HELP FAST!!!!\n\nI did.  I was 17.  I talked with a state trooper who got an agency involved and I was able to leave home.  I was popular at school, I was a varsity cheerleader, I had a ton of friends and yet I gave it all up to go to a new home, new school and make new friends, all in my Senior year of high school!!\n\nI looked at it this way.... after graduation it's a whole new life start anyway.... so what's one year earlier.\n\nI'm so thankful I helped myself when the people I depended on most couldn't protect me.\n\nGood luck sweetie, let me know if I can be of any more assistance.
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hey i'm new here and i read this and i know that you said it was for totellthetruth, but i just wanted to say that starting a talk session would be absolutely wonderful! my sister was raped when she was 14. and then again at 15. i know she really needed someone to talk to when it happened. i congratulate you. and thank you for doing this. its really nice. i hope you will have good luck with it and that you will be able to help those that need it most!
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call someone and tell tehm. believe me i went thru that for 16 years. you need help. i learned that i did not have to accept my father hitting us and everything else. there are lots of people that will help. what we finally did was we told a preacher at a church and he had the police come to the church and talk to us then the cops never made us go back again.
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I have been there. My ex-wife accused me of abuse..the part she didn't tell was she had a boy friend and she wanted lot's of $$$$.\nThank God she didn't win..it was thrown out of court..I wish I had it on video tape. She became confused in her story. I could have got some very serious time in jail. I could have sued the hell out of her..but I let it go
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You have a certain time limit or statue of limitations. Write to internal affairs. You can file a complaint against the police dept or officers which ever you want. They will investigate your story and then they will go from there. If you want more action call 7 on your side news they would take the story immediatly. Good luck..Go get them they deserve it more than the guys that hurt you. Police are corrupt about 89%. I feel the people that hurt you should be charged as well, My deepest sympothy to u I hope you are getting better.That is horrific and am  appaulled at our justice system.