Is it too much to tolerate to see a 8 yr old smoking?
819745
Yes, that's too much to tolerate.
191707
yes i did when i was 8(i know very young) but my dad got lung cancer when i was 10 and i seemed to be able to give up pretty quick after that!\n\nim not trying to say its good to smoke in fact im saying the complete opposite!
60613
My six year old son has asthma and his worst trigger is cigarette smoke. If he smells smoke he holds his nose and starts yelling," I smell smoke! My asthma, my asthma!" I've never told him it is rude or not to do it because he has a right to look out for his health. Once it happened at a very nice restaurant and was a table of older people smoking. I half way smiled at them and asked the hostess to move us. Someone came over from the other table and said they would refrain from smoking. That has been our biggest success to where they actually stopped. Both of my children are bad about saying "someone is smoking" in public and I have never stopped them. I usually respond "I know, I smell it too." This is one time I let my children shame people in a social setting. Maybe it isn't doing any good but it gives me a chance to say something without confronting the person. I don't think smokers know just how unbearable it is for nonsmokers. I am hoping that if they here it from a child maybe they will be more courteous about lighting up in public.
1095300
Do you think you turned out badly?  Because you are a product of that same environment that you are worried about so much now.  Marijuana is a drug and is illegal - however it is not heroin, cocaine, or even alcohol.  A person high on pot may be a little careless (hence leaving his pipe out), and a little hungry (lol), but they are not out of their wits.  He may be in a better mood and more creative then most grandpas.  Not to mention more open-minded.  So as far as what you can do about it?  Deal with it.  Respect him and his home. And to all those other answerer's who told you to find alternate care for him: why in the world would you trust a complete stranger with your child.  Family is definitely better for the child in this case.
720301
I smoke, and I go out of my way to find a spot to smoke where no children (or anyone else, really) are around or a spot designated for smoking. I understand that second-hand smoke is harmful to children (and others); however, if I am in a designated smoking area and then someone comes around with their children, I am unlikely to move or snuff out my cigarette. Afterall, I was there first, and no one is forcing them to be there. \n\nOn the same token, I don't go to playgrounds to smoke. It's a matter of respect, in my opinion. I'll smoke in an out-of-the-way area out of respect for others, and usually I'll move if I find I am still too close to others. If someone comes into a *designated* smoking area with their children and begin to make a big scene complete with couching and hacking, I most certainly will not move.
82263
I'm not sure about that, but I think that it possibly could, because it does in adults.\nSecond hand smoke also causes cancer, so it's best to not let your child around any cigarette smoke.\n\n\n...not to mention, it just stinks really bad...
1025303
I am against it.  You hear so much how if kids see them smoking they will smoke.  Hogwash.  I smoke and have four kids and 8 grandkids.  Only 1 of the bunch smokes.  I don't drink and none of them do.  Actors don't make a person do anything.  They are portraying a character, nothing more.  If kids are taught that what they see on TV or the movies is not real, and parents were involved with that, whatever an actor did would not matter.  Because we live in a world where everyone blames everyone else and is not held responsible for their actions, the governement takes over.
804760
I feel the same way. I have no sympathy for those who start smoking knowing that it is addictive, like people who smoke crack for the first time. If you didn't think you would get addicted, then you are delusional. I don't smoke and my husband doesn't smoke, so there is a great possibility that my son won't smoke. Us, as parents. are the most influential role models for our children. My mom smoked and my dad didn't, but I wonder if he did would I have turned out to be a smoker like my sister?\n\nAnd for the people that continue to smoke with all the programs out there to help you quit, stop making excuses and do something good for you, your family and friends. Quit.
166718
try making him watch a program onthe discovery channel about smoking, it showed the kids view on smoking.i cant remeber what it was called but it makes then think twice.\n\nto answer your question from earlier my dog is a mix. we think a husky/shepard mix.
286095
You shouldnt be smoking that at that age, hiding it from your parents.. As a parent I would rather my child tell me about it.... \n\nRespect your parents and dont bring it in the house.\n\nWhat are the places you have thought of? Cause they will find it. And when they find it they are going to be so upset and mad, you'll lose all tys with friends and be grounded forever.... Not a fun thing... \n\nIm sorry I can answer the question...
424585
Nonsmokers have some serious issues with "control" when they start talking about not smoking outside. Just walk around the smoker huddled next to the ash can, it's really not that difficult. If he's not huddled next to the ash can do that silly fake cough thing, that will show him. Sigh.
207387
Keep him busy. Create an environment that does not allow smoking. Every day he should wash the dishes, vacuum the house, dust, clean the toilet, do the laundry, wash all the cars, etc. \nMake him physically understand that his behavior is unacceptable. You run the show. You are the parent...show him who is boss.
220137
If you make the choice to smoke then you need to deal with the conscequences. Smoking is a nasty habit and I do not allow it in my home.
360368
we have a smoking ban in my state. if it had taken place a year and a half ago I would have been really mad. but I dont smoke anymore, so it does not effect me. now I just think about my kid. I dont want to go to a resteraunt and have my kid sit it all of the cigarette smoke. I think that if there are plenty of areas that smokers can go to smoke, then it is ok. but to not be considerate of them too is rude and I view it to be an infringements on your rights.
171731
There's really no way to tell unless he goes to a doctor. Some people can start smoking at age 10 and live to be 100...it all depends on your body.
376015
I do not think that you are overreacting. Please do not allow him to smoke marijuana around you or your baby. This is a decision that your boyfriend has to make on his own. He knows your stand on this issue. The ball is in your court. You need to decide if you want to have this man in you and your child's life. Pray about it. I wish you well.
762552
My kids are too young, but if you are screening them yourself, then you have to trust your own jusdgement. Personally I have not seen an episode that was suitable for children and even some that weren't suitable for adults. lol