Me and my boyfriend don't see each other very often and it's just not cool.?
818908
I agree. I am in the same boat :(
1032928
Can't you tell him the truth?  Think about what you like when you are on the computer (games? chat? surfing the web?) and try to tell him why you like that.\nIt sounds like he's feeling left out.   Is there something you could do together on the computer?  Is the computer more important than your relationship with your boyfriend?\nOnly you can figure those things out.
464721
Ok if you are both on spring break he is probably busy, you need to find something to fill you time other than worrying about whether or not he breaks up with you. It really doesn't matter in the long run, I promise.
17015
Guys tend to express lack of interest by avoiding time together, not being as intimate with you, and being unclear about any future plans.\n\nIf he is a decent guy, I think you should be able to get a direct response to the question "is there something wrong lately?  I feel like you are being a bit distant".  List the reasons you think so, and ask whether you are being ridiculous or not.\n\nI suggest doing that soon, rather than waiting and analizing everything he does.  You will drive yourself nuts, and likely cause the relationship to end on a bad note as your angry/fear/worry all get bottled up until they explode (usually not in a positive way).\n\nI hope it works out for you.  Talk to him.  If you can't do that, it's not a relationship anyway.
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
1013871
If your boyfriend is not going to be bothered that you move n with someone else to "see" how he deals with it, then this relationship is over.  Perhaps the flame has died.  It happens sometimes.  You two need to sit down and talk about your relationship and where (if anywhere) is it going.  It is time for you both to be open and honest and make concrete decisions regarding your lives.
320375
At 2 months, relationships are generally at their best. You have just spent more time than usually together, and there seems to have been no problems... I think that your boyfriend is just shy: he feels comfortable around his friends, who he knows, but does not feel inclined to be loving and public in front of your friends, who he is not so familiar with. \nThink about it: if he were not proud of you and your relationship, he wouldn't have wanted to spend that much time with you, and he would not be so evident about your relationship in front of his friends. \nTalk to him: let him know you have noticed that behavior (maybe he hasn't), and ask them if there is a reason for it. It seems that the problem is not you, but his shyness. Good luck.
1088514
If thats your boyfriend, then you should be discussing problems with him, not telling your friend to send messages to him. If you arent comfortable enough to communicate with him then why are you together?? It sounds like you need to take a step back and get to know each other first or this relationship will be a waste of time.
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
1159993
maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.
491969
I THINK HE IS JUST BUSY AND YOU SHOULD DEAL WITH IT LIKE I DID (AND STILL ARE) WITH MY BOYFRIEND. IT IS NORMAL, DON'T WORRY
328299
I guess its natural! I guess its because they've been around alot and they get boring because its the same thing everyday. That's whats sorta happening to me... u see my boyfriend is really into me but like I'm getting tired of him. Its sorta drifting, u know....... well. Good Luck finding a good answer........
1019483
Some times a relationship just isn't made for the long haul.  I think it sounds like you two have had a good run but the relationship has reached its end point.  Maybe it is time to end this so that both of you can move forward with your lives.  If you keep going like this eventually you are going to end up hating each other and you are both going to miss out on other opportunities in life.
645313
Communication! I have been with the same guy for 7 years and I am just realizing since we moved in together that its one area  we need work in.  Its so important!  Also keep dating each other.  People always seem to get "comfy" in a relationship and it gets boring.  Keep things exciting.
1102227
It's a sign of your boredom, but not a sign for you to ship out... A guy gives you attention and you think you're attracted to him? hey, just because you're having a rough patch in your relationship, doesn't mean it's going downhill. Think twice. And if you have some love and respect for your boyfriend, don't hurt him that fast... afterall, he's gonna be hurt by two people he cares about, his girl and his friend... Ouch.
574136
So do i :-( you are lucky to have ur boyfriend by your side sometime. I feel neglected all the time by my bf. It seems he does not care anymore
420956
It could be that he just doesn't want to spend every waking moment with you. You're dating, not conjoined twins.