For women that only have sex a few times a month with husband....?
824403
Studies have shown that husbands who do more of the work around the house/with the kids get more sex than men who don't because the wives resent their husbands sitting around doing nothing while they're doing everything. \n\nI would say that the #1 reason I hear from women for lack of interest is the men using their wives' bodies as if they were a 3 minute "penalty" box. The guy only wants a 3 minute quickie bec that's all it takes to satisfy him and 99% of all women are NOT interested in 3 minute quickies unless it's just to get the husband to stop bothering you for it. So in other words -- why bother getting undressed for bad sex?
671323
There is an eventual slowdown in any relationship, but slowing down to once a month is certainly below the amount that most 28-year-olds want.  I get suspicious when he says he wants "impersonal sex."  Sounds like he wants sex with people he doesn't know well, and after a year and a half, you don't qualify.
986230
Let's see... We have been married for 4 years and we have two children and do it 1-2 times a week. I think that is normal for most couples. Since you have no children I would aim for 2-3 times a week. But the question is not how often should we but how often do we WANT to have sex.
959267
Yes, something is wrong.  It doesn't matter how often you actually have sex- every day, every week, every month- as long as both of you feel contented. You are unhappy enough about it to be asking this question, so something is going on that isn't quite right.\n\nI've been in a low sex marriage (sex less than once a month, sometimes no sex for six months + at a time) for years and years and believe me, it isn't going to get better over time.  You'll end up being the "pursuer" sexually and emotionally, as I am with my husband.  Seek outside assistance now, while your relationship is still fresh enough for you both to invest in addressing this issue.  Otherwise you'll end up like me- wondering if you chose the wrong mate, wondering if it's still possible to fix it, wondering if platonic friendship is going to be enough for the next 40 years.
44129
it depends on your relationship, and how long you've been married.  i know people who have been married forever and still do it everyday.  then there are some people who sleep in different rooms, so there is really no answer.  it depends on how much you are willing to sacrifice in order to keep sex interesting and satisfying for both of you.
1132510
has he tried any foreplay? i have learned that foreplay is important for my wife to have a pleasurable experience. \n\nalso, distractions could definately be an issue because i am in a similar situation as you are. my wife has mentioned that she was uncomfortable with the living situation so its hard for her to "be herself" at times...i have learned that the atmosphere has to be just right  for a woman.
637925
Stop worrying about coming and just think about how good it feels.  I am a woman, but I think it is probably about the same.  I have to think about how good it feels even when I don't feel very sensitive.  Think whatever it is you think right before you come and I think it will help.  However, I don't know if you have tried other postions or what, but my hubby loves me to be on my stomach with my legs together and his stradled over mine.  Whenever he's getting too tired to shoot he just flips me on my belly and puts it in and then puts his legs outside mine and is usually off in a minute or two.  I think it works cause I squeeze my muscles together around him, which is only easy to do in this postition.  Best wishes
866845
by the time ur monthly fried is gone its been several days since ur husband ejaculated.  so the only way to make it longer is during ur monthly friend or near the end do something to make ur husband ejaculate, ie hand job or oral and then after u are finished he will last longer.  also doing this might turn u on and the contractions will ease ur cramps.
1114970
Yes ! do very much so. I am a married man and my wife is not a lovemaking person not at all. She claims that it's me but in all truth and fact it is her. I love her and may even be in love with her But she has so many ways that turn me off as a man who once enjoyed sex to the fullest
307358
some women don't like to kiss when having sex they just like to have sex. i mean you can kiss any other time besides sex my husband likes to kiss during sex too but he doesn't just like to kiss anyother time.. weird huh.
380873
honey,not all men are lazy in bed maybe your man has not got as high a sex drive as you have,and if you mider him all the time this will just put him off,try speaking to him and sorting this out,and lazy in what way???? i think a few times a week is average but everYone is differant.
100733
I've been married 6 years and we have sex daily.  It's different for everybody and it really depends on things like your individual sex drives, your energy level, the level of importance you put on sex, your sexual communication, etc.  If you're having an amount of sex that is satisfactory to both of you, then don't worry about what is "normal" and just go with what feels right for the two of you.  If, however, the frequency with which you have sex is not satisfactory to one or the other of you, talk about it.  Find out what the problem is.  Don't just assume that the sex goes away once you get married.  We made that mistake once and we won't make it again.  Best of luck to you and your spouse!
516648
Not really.But don't be too dependent on him.Having sex almost everyday is great but he needs to rest.
977793
I am a therapist and I know exactly what you are going through. I have treated many couples with this problem. Fifteen to twenty times a week is a bit excessive and that places you guys in the top 5% statistically. It is 100% humanly possible and normal to have sex many times a week as you describe. Now, what is not normal is that by doing so you submit your body to great discomfort. Sex is meant to be an enjoyable experience. If 15 to 20 times a week is not enough for your husband then that reveals that he definitely has a problem that needs to be addressed. If he is not taking any stimulating substance to increase his libido, which he obviously does not need, he is currently going through a chemical imbalance. He may or may not require medical treatment at the organic level. From what you described about him, I don't think he requires any psychological evaluation. Prepare a nice dinner for the two of you. Talk this out with him. Explain to him how you feel and how your current sexual activities are interfering with your body and your ability to function normally in daily life. Ask him if he has taken any substance that may have caused this change in behavior. Also mention to him that you would love to have sex with him at the rate of 15 to 20 times weekly that you are comfortable with. I am sure that he will understand.
404755
It is not that It is my husbands fault I just don't really like to have sex as much as he does so yes I preform to make him happy because I rather it be me than someone else however I could go a month with no sex but I know he can't so I do my duty.
555257
Here is a guide, hope this helps you...some women take it for there time of the month, others take it because they are sexually active...
388699
I faked it before I met my husband because I had never had one. Then I met my husband, had multiples in one shot, and now I expect it. I tell him that he isn't done till I am, because I'm not going to waste my time having sex if it isn't good. If I was not married, and dating different men, if they weren't getting me to where I wanted--the O-- the I would tell them to stop, and not waste my time. Now that I know what I was missing, I'm hooked, and I'll be damned if I'm going to give it up. I got lucky tho, I never has sex with my hubby-even quickies-without at least 3 or 4. He wears me out. I love it, he has turned me into such a sex feined!