I have a problem I love someone but I cant be with them !(read details!)?
831371
It's time for you get some balls and stand up to your brother . . . if you really want to be with Frank then be with him, if your brother doesn't approve then tell him tough sh** . . . it's not his life, it's not his emotion or choice or even right to get in the way of your life because he has insecurity issues w/ himself . . . if he thinks frank will be bad for you, and if he's right, then that's a decision you're going to have to find out for yourself.\n\nStand up for yourself and put your foot down!!  Don't let other people, regardless of their role in your life, tell you what to do with your life.
1152658
i don't know what to tell you...this is a touchy situation...i understand the situation you are in because i have experienced similiar things....it's hard when you love someone and they act like that...you know deep down in your heart that sometimes it's best to go on with your life without this person and never look back....but it's so much easier to say then do.. you have to just take one day at a time and look at things and ask yourself...Is this what I want to go through for the rest of my life?  Weigh your options...look at the advantages of your relationship with him compared to the disadvantages of it...this is something nobody can tell you what to do...you have to not only follow your heart on this one but you have to consider what your mind says too...
286176
let her go dude...\nthink about it you can not force her to love you ... and futher more would you want her to be unhappyly w/ you
364434
YES, ABSOLUTLY IT JUST DEPENDS DO YOU LOVE THIS PERSON? IF SO JUST WAIT THEY MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO SHOW THERE FEELINGS FOR YOU JUST YET. WAIT A LITTLE WHILE YOU'LL FIGUURE OUT.
263732
You should try to get over him/her. It is that person loss for not able to appreciate you. I believe he/her will regret someday. So just get on with life.
463124
befor you leave him you need to look deep within yourself and make sure you dont love him... if you dont you might regret your desision and then it could be to late to undo it\n\ngood luck
371213
The answer to your question is forgiveness...You must learn to forgive the love of your life...There had to be a possible reason why that person ignored you...You get past the hurt and pain by giving em another chance...I think you don't love that person..if you did u would of not given up on love \n\nI know what you are going thru...The love of my life is far away from me...but I still love him...Nothing can make me stop loving him...not even distance or time...Love is not easy..Love is a battlefield..
1121997
You should move on.\n\nYou cannot force someone to love you.
825010
what reason would you want to be with a guy who obviously has commitment issues and lies? is the rejection that bad and powerful? are you that desperate? honey, kick this guy to the curb. and work on loving yourself alot more cuz you need it and not from him. your emotions are tellling you he is the only one you want to be with but think outside of the box......realistically is this what you say a fact or just how you feel? come on now, you must be a special person. so find someone who knows this and you will know cuz they will treat you like they see you. stay strong,
425794
You've got a simple case of wanting what you can't have!  You don't really want him; you just want him to want you.  Once you realize that's your problem, you can move on and have a healthy relationship with someone worthy of you.
1085801
Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
144295
Move on we all deserve equal oppourtunity in love.. someone who is out there will love you as much as you need. \nOR have tyou not be honest with this person. Tell them that you love them and give them the choice leave that person  alone or come and recieve all of your good loving!!
531861
find someone who cares for you. And, figure out why it is that emotionally YOU feel as if you "deserve" to be with a person who treats you poorly.\n\nYou don't deserve that. But why don't you move on?? That is the question to ask yourself.
180483
falling in love with someone that doesnt love me
587404
From what you say it seems your dilemma is...your head verses your heart... the head is usually right you didn't say why he couldn't commit... but in any case i think you've already conceded that fact. My advice would be to make a clean break... continuing to be friends is just keeping your hope alive... I say continue on with your life meet someone new... yes it is completely possible  and likely that you will fall in love with someone else... which ends your dilemma...good luck in whatever you choose to do
108510
Accept the fact that it takes two people who both love eather other to have a relationship and as much as you wish that was with this person it isn't.  You deserve to let yourself move on and find someone who will want your love and give you their love back in return.
276586
it's hard to let someone go that you really like especially when you know they're doing you wrong. but my advice is the only way you'll have peace of mind is to let him go. maybe not so soon but you have to get it in your mind that you deserve better. once you do that you'll feel better, but when you do make that choice be prepared to get over your choice it might be hard depending on how much you liked him.