Is wanting an oral favor from a co-worker wrong???
820274
No it's not wrong, yes it is cheating, and hell yes you should!!!
249144
eww. thats pretty gross, hon. a total stranger asked you for sexual favors IN A MOVIE THEATER and you are asking if its okay?\nRepeat the question to yourself. If you are still wondering, then smack yourself on the head.
259217
it's true it sounds like your wife doesn't want it as much as you do, but she is so spoiled and blessed to have such a good husband who is considerate to that. i admit i don't always want to when my husband does, but i rarely tell him no. even if i can't do it i'll be considerate to him being in the mood, and help him out orally.
60266
i don't know why you put that in there about getting hungry!...but i think i would do it.  i find that sort of thing interesting.  it's a very special calling, and i think that people who feel like it's for them should pursue it.  (not if it makes them hungy, though.)  as long as you are respectful and mature about it...remember, that is someone's son/daughter/mother/father, etc., there is nothing wrong with it.
1058253
IS IT CONSENSUAL? are you enjoying it and keeping quiet or are you complaining? it makes a HUGE difference...\n\nif you are complaining and it is uninviting..then ask him to look up the sexual harrasment section or inappropriate action at work..he'll leave you alone QUICK..and if he doesn't report him..
1014963
Why would you tell your bf it's not like you came on to your co-worker or he really hit on you inappropriately.. Just tell your co-workers youre' not interested and you have someone already.. What are you feeling guilty for and you haven't even did anything... And then to tell your bf and youre not guilty of anything will only open up a can of worms...Everytime you argue he'll have the right to accuse you of someone at the job... Shut your mouth and let the guys know youre taken and call it a day... You're making a big issue out of nothing
302140
While I don't think there's anything wrong with you offering one, I think it would be in poor taste for the worker to accept it.  I would consider giving him a 'thank you' gift for his care and compassion after your dad passes on, though.
126917
My issue with his affair is not so much that he's having one but that he's been indescrete enough to let it become known at the office.The reason I would give is this " Several people have told me that it's inappropriate to have a supervisor so closely involved in so personal a thing and I'd hate to have this cause any appearance of wrondoing or favoritism for you later on." or simply that you've learned that only two people sign as witnesses and that you asked the other couple first.
542200
I'm going to say YES!!! I think his boss feels like she & work should be his first priority. She is jealous of you.If it continues or escalates to sexual harrasment your husband should report her or put in a transfer request.Be Blessed!! Monica
8398
Wow, orgasms from just getting a foot massage, man are you horny!!!! You are in serious need honey and your boyfriend better get with the program before your co-worker lifts up that skirt, dives in, and steals you forever.\n\nIn all seriousness, why are you feeling bad for feeling good?  Boyfriend's days are numbered.  Where do I apply for the position, can't wait for the interview!!! ;)\n\nTick....tick....tick....
254655
Tricky situation...\n\nIf you decide you want to do her, then work late often.  However, she needs to make the first move.  Afterall, she's the boss, right?  Once she puts the two of you in a less than professional situation and it is understood that it is consentual and everything is cool, then take her in every way.  Have sex in the office on her bosses desk, etc.     \n\nNow for the problem...although you are the employee and therefore not quite as responsible for behavior that might be against policy or a conflict of interest.  In essence, she will realize that if things were to go sour, she could get into some real trouble to the point of being fired.  You've really got her over a barrel.  However, if it comes to your word against her's and if she is a valuable employee, she could simply deny everything and who's to know the difference.  Now you're the one that will be fired.  Eventually, one of you will say "It was great, but now it's over."  The other person may not take this well and go off the deep end.  Now there's a lot of explaining to do.  If you let this affair happen, you can safely predict that one of you will be gone within a year.  \n\nNow, if you still want to enjoy the gifts that life has to offer and be naughty with her, and I'm not saying you shouldn't, you need to be smart and protect your interests.  Collect and retain evidence, such as a card she might have given you, emails, voice messages, bra & panties.  With this, she will never dare take the risk.  In fact, when it comes time for your performance evaluation and raise, it should be very interesting and amusing to watch her try to remain separately objective.  My crystal ball says you should do quite well.\n\nHaving said all this, I know that I could manage it well.  When an opportunity for hot sex comes my way, I go for it.  However, I've also seen people totally mess up their lives because they just can't keep their emotions under control.  Only you can decide if you can make this work.  If you doubt yourself, it might be safer and easier to leave it alone and avoid further situations where either of you might be tempted.\n\nSo, what do you want out of life... daring excitement with calculated risk/reward or non-spontainious safety with no risk/no reward?  I say; our time is short, so make the most of it.  Let those puppies breathe, let those panties fly and give her a deep one for me!
1060984
i've asked many waitresses out it's not unprofessional unless you are her boss. just ask......never hurts to try. but realize she gets asked all the time by others.
784147
When dealing with an envious co-worker, I kill them with kindness, and I'm not talking about lip service. You must be genuine when doing this for it to work. Obviously they have massive insecurities, and perceive you as some kind of threat. I would also suggest keeping ones personal, and professional life mum. In essence, do not give anyone a reason to hold you in contempt. The old saying is true, "keep your friends close, your enemies closer".
1106492
When I'm at work, I often ask two of the women that work there if they would like me to bring them some ice, or something out of the vending machines.  It may not sound like much but Sue and Chris really appreciate it.\n\nMr. Ice Guy.
493510
It happens to me many times, usual for men dominated area. I don't think it will be harmful to take their invitation, as long as you really know them and lunch in public places (restaurants). The most important is don't let them focus on sexist jokes and never use obvious physical contacts. Based on my experience, they do respect female colleagues, and I find it more advantage of being female among males, they put us in priority :))
684518
I try to put myself in the other's shoes in regard to if I had to hear this news, who would I prefer to hear it from?\n\nThe answer is clear.  I would much rather get it from my office mate than be embarassed in front of my boss as a new employee.  I would also respect the person for being straight with me and not whimping out by telling the boss.  After all how hard is it to figure out where the complaint might have come from?  After talking to the boss, the guy is libel to come back and ask, "Do you think I smell?"  Then what do you say?\n\nTell him politely as possible over lunch one day.  He will be grateful to you.
605614
Unless the two of you are mature, it's not a good idea. You leave yourself open if you are the employee. If it doesn't work you will start to question that person for every decision he/she makes regarding you. He/she is picking on me. They are mad because it didn't work out between us. There are so many things that can come in between you 2. The pro's is that if it does work the superior can help you grow as a professional and as a person. It's tough,and it depends on the 2 people.