FOR MEN ONLY:  Feelings of guilt about attraction to same sex...?
826134
Either you're wrong or the church is wrong.  you need to decided which is which, but if i had to bet my money's on the church.
1103433
Yes and thank you for your email. I've never wished I was gay although the girls would often acuse me of being gay. I've never desired or even thought I was gay. I've always Loved being out with lady friends but sometimes they expect sex and I'm just not interested in them that way. But some times I do find someone I'm in Love with not in a sexual way but I'd like to be by her side.I think about sex if that would keep her by my side.But by the time I'm ready for that, she's already found herself another man.
1087597
I am straight myself.  But if you have sexual feelings for the same sex and none for the oppisate then perhaps you are.  You have to really think about this one
383230
Well being straight, I do not know what it is like to be attracted to someone of the same sex.  However, if it does happen, I would think that you can't control it.  If your religious believes are really strong, and you really do NOT want to "Be gay"  well then do what you gotta do.  Realize that you can't really turn off you attraction.  Maybe you can be single for the rest of your life.
235874
Well, I was playing a card game with friends one day when I drew a wild card that said, "You are soooo Gay," and that was that!\n\nj/k\n\nLook!  For as long as I can remember (I'm talking as far back as 6 years old) I was attracted to guys.  I wasn't abused by anyone.  My mom and dad were great parents.  \n\nLater, I dreamed about guys, and I dreamed of EVERYTHING about them and with them.  I had crushed on guys.  My teen idols were guys and I put posters of them up on my bedroom walls.\n\nGirls meant NOTHING to me.  No attraction.  No NOTHING!!! That has been true for me to this very day.  Oh yes!  I have friends who are girls, but I have absolutely no sexual attraction to them.  I mean girls on a beach have NEVER captured my attention.  Playboy has NEVER captured my attention (Playgirl has...).  Miss America/Universe pagent NEVER attracted me (still doesn't).  Put a cute guy and/or a hot in front of me (or a pic of him) and my heart starts that flutter thing (has always been that way).\n\nI am 48 now, and I've proudly made my marriage vows to the man of my dreams.\n\nI think I know.
57299
Haha, I know the answer to this one.  Too many poeple say they are when they aren't nowadays.  I thought I was until I realized tht you can like someone of the same sex without being lesbian/gay/bi.  If you feel like you want to have sex with a person of the same gender, then you may be bisexual and if you look at more than one person (of your gender) like that, then it's even more likely.  Picture yourself with as many guys and girls as you can and if you're comfortable with it, then maybe you are.  However, these things CAN change or you may think you are now and you could end up COMPLETELY straight or even gay/lesbian.
39594
Sure, I've been on both sides of the spectrum. Hid my true gay self for years, pretended to be straight in a small southern town. If you wanna chat, email me at jtb1999@hotmail.com and we can find a way to do it on MSN or YAHOO. Peace and good luck.
1090966
Hey bro, i know exactly how you feel. I actually used to be gay.  I knew that the bible talked against homosexuality and i felt trapped in this sin that i wanted to get out of.. Well i read this verse.. 1 corinthians 10:13\n\nNo temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.\n\nthat verse changed my life, God will name THE WAY of escape that you my brotha will be able to endure and overcome it.\n\nThat WAY is Jesus! He delivered me from homosexual attractions and now im delivered and straight!  Of course, people will say oh no, im denying it, or i was never gay, but bro as i live, i am a testimony living and breathing of the glory and almighty power of God, that God is powerful enough to change sexual orientation and take that desire away. \n\n Id love to talk to ya more bro, please feel free to email me and i can tell ya my complete testimony and how i was delivered.  Im praying for ya bro, hope to talk to ya later man.\n\nGod bless\n\nps. might i suggest for you to be sure to try ur best to read like 1 chapter of the bible a day at least.  Its not long, and i promise you its worth it.  Start in Ephesians then 1st John, thats my advice to ya :) cya bro
719038
Your still gay. You are just expermenting some bi feelings and there is nothing wrong with that. I think it happends to a lot of gay people. They just don't like to admit this kind of thing. I know I have been there. It seems like other gays don't want to hear it and the same with the opposit sex. Im jost letting you know it normal to have feeling like that. Your still gay and thats ok..
595966
I know the feeling. For me, it is just a part of my lifestyle. I just take all the energy that might be used in expressing myself (sexually) and put it into different areas of my life. For example, volunteering, expressing yourself artistically (through music, song, poetry, drawing, etc.). After a while, it's really not that hard. I do have to admit that at first (right after I got saved and choose to be celibate) it took alot of energy trying to mentally keep myself from (lusting) after men.\n\nYou can do it!
1057374
I used to be bi, but then I realized I liked women so much more and being with guys just wasn't for me. Sometimes I still feel like I'm only 80% lesbian, though, lol.
834438
As a straight female, I have no shame in admitting I think two men kissing is absolutely sexy.  So sexy.  I love it.  I love gay porn.  Man on man is my bag.  Entirely.\n\nBut I understand that it isn't everyone's.  If homosexual acts gross you out, you shouldn't be forced to watch them and I don't think it makes you a bigot.  There are heterosexual acts that gross me the hell out and it certainly doesn't make me a heterosexual bigot.  I also feel queasy watching lesbians, but I have no prejudices against them.\n\nThat's the difference between just not being comfortable with watching gay sex scenes and being a bigot:  If you vote to restrict homosexual rights and discriminate against them, you're a bigot whether you can stomach watching homosexuals loving on each other or not.  You're not a bigot, just a guy who knows what he does and doesn't like.  No worries.
330660
Thanks for the laugh! I like how you think. I never felt like it was a choice for me. I did not know I had the ability to feel romantic love for a girl until it happened out of the blue when I was 18.\n\nI felt so close with my best friend that I just naturally felt inside that I wanted to really love her for who she is. It just sprung up within myself on its own. I wasn't around gay people prior to that and nor did I ever think about it. Is that a choice? No.\n\nTo me it just means that I love the person as a soul for who they are and that my eyes do not care what shell (body) they come in. The heart is blind to what love looks like.
1102938
If you are in fact gay, you will find yourself attracted to guys.. You can't ''go straight'' and if you were to be gay you cannot change what you are. It's in you, that's how it is. You just have to accept it, and be happy with it!
605589
Bisexuality has always preplexed me. Initially i was considering myself bisexual simply to save myself some social backlash and it kinda was the safe step. And it really did save me some... Guys weren't too paranoid about being round me because there was still a belief that as long i was still inta girls that i wouldnt let the gayness show. I attempted to be "attracted" to girls but it just wasn't something that i could do.  That is why it is so hard for me to accept bisexuality... it is hard for me to comprehend because by myself having a preference of men, its hard to see why others dont have a preference of men or women... \n\nYes, one can have sex with both sexes and it enjoy it... but i still believe that you would have a preference...
168443
You are not as confused as you are scared.\n\nIt is not easy to admit alternative sexual preferences, and going out with someone of the same sex and being seen is admitting it.\n\nYou obviously have the feelings and are just not brave enough to stand up and let it all hang out, so to speak.\n\nIf you cannot find a way to take the bold steps on your own, you should seek advice, even professional counselling.\n\nRemaining as you are now is not good for you.\n\nWell, you have taken the first step and asked for help here, so I hope that you continue along this road and find a way to accept what you are and who you want to be.
723083
I under stand what you are going through. I have been married now for 5 years. I just resently started admitting to my self that I do have feeling for woman. I did bring it up to my husband and his responce was the oppiset of your husband. He can't understand why this is happening now.\nI am also finding it hard to find some one that is bi to become friends with. A lot of people say go to clubs or some thing but what do you do when you don' know of any. \nIf you want to talk you can e-mail me at ladyjamie28@ yahoo.com.