Getting over your first love?
817026
Actually, getting over someone you really love its really difficult in any way. I personally experienced it and untill now I still find myself thinking of him all the time and I dont know why it happens. We ended everything 3 yrs ago.\n. Im optimistic still, tough after that all my other "relationships" ended crap. \nYou just have to accept it and move on and believe that there will be a brighter future. Look at it as a beautiful memory because first loves are never forgotten. They will always be special and will always be a part of you.
850785
You could start by reading the million other posts and responses on how to get over someone.  Most of them will tell you the same thing, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is time.  Forgiving is easy, just do it, forgetting however, is a different story.  You will never forget him or the good and bad times you shared, it's impossible without the assistance of a labotamy (sp*).  So forgive, take all the time necessary and do your best to keep your self respect and move on.
50250
first love is , your first love . and you will never forget this person , because they will have been the one to show you that yes people do fall in love . and teach you first hand what love is , how love feels , and ignite feelings of devotion in you that you never knew where there .\n\nand in most cases of first love , the last lesson that they will help you to learn is , the loss of it , and how to cope and move on with new knowledge for the rest of your life .
484954
Harder to leave!  Because whether your conscious of it or not, you've already started questioning the worth of staying or not.  You may love him, but you can't make him love you because you hurt or your miserable.  You got played, so swallow the lump in your throat, and go on with life.  There will come a time again in your life that you will find love.\nIf he was your first love, I'm sorry for you, believe me, I understand!! Unfortunately, you won't forget him, but try not to; make a conscious effort not to judge other men by his actions/mistakes.  They really aren't all monsters.
99668
first love remains for ever, its impossible 2 forget it, it will stay inside ur that beautiful head of urs, u would compare every relationship with that very first love.. thinking abt that, its like a sweet, yet bitter wound that is unforgetable & will always remind u of that incident which caused u that wound
945796
When I was 16 (I'm 19 now) I was madly in love with a guy from school. He broke my heart, and I was so devestated. I was insanely depressed for 3 weeks and after 2 months appeared happy but I was still so miserable inside. I was obsessed. I couldn't stop thinking about him for even a SECOND. I spent a year of my life with him on my mind, 24/7. Sometimes I'd wake up in the night and not be able to go back to sleep because his memory was so painful and I couldn't get him off my mind. Even when the pain of losing him was gone a few months later, I still felt anger about the situation.\n\nYou want to know when everything disapeared? 2 1/2 years later while at work, I looked to my right and the most gorgeous guy walked in the room. At that moment, my ex's memory disapeared. My mind returned to normal. I fell in love again.\n\nUntil something of that nature happens to you, start going out with friends. Surround yourself with people. Keep yourself busy AT ALL times. TRY to not think about her (even though I know how impossible it can be). Eventually, time will heal your pain.
379828
Because you never ever forget your first love. It will always be special no matter how many relationships you have. In fact, you can't really forget anyone you've been in love with. Love is a feeling you can't just switch off or leave behind. When you have been that intimate with someone and that close, no matter how badly the relationship ended, the good times will always be remembered and looked upon fondly. What you do instead is move on in life and focus on other things and other relationships. Go out, do things you enjoy, surround yourself with friends and realise that love can and will come again. However, if you believe that this girl was more than your first love, maybe you think she was "the one" then why not get in contact with her again? See how she is and see if your feelings are still there.
141126
Firstly, I personally believe you can never completely stop loving someone if you truely loved them once. So yes, in my opinion it is possible for you to get some of your old feelings back when you meet your ex again. I guess if that happens, then you have to weigh up your options and decide what is best for you and what direction to take.
178991
I don't think that you can forget about or get over your first love.  But do not dwell on it..there's always other fish in the sea.
1077283
getting over someone takes time.  All you can really do is surround yourself with friends, positive energy and anything that comforts you.\nGood luck! and be strong and true to yourself.
61715
just think of the future,not the past.the past really doesnt matter if there is/was pain.always look ahead and never look back.to get over an ex just try not to think and talk about him.think about who can be your next stop.
945351
keep your head up.that's what happens when u lose your first love.but don't worry,it will be hard to get over her but you Are capable of finding someone Better.Trust me.the world hasn't ended Brother.Keep you head up.and don't call or contact her EVER!.KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!
476642
Hmmm...the best way to get over your ex???? Get a group of friends together and go out and have a good time! Go dancing, go to a movie, even invite them over to hang out. Do anything you can to keep your mind off the ex. Then, throw out anything the ex ever gave you. Get rid of it all, burn it if you want. Have a "cleansing". Take a nice long shower, indulge in some bubble bath even, do something nice for yourself. Go spend some money if you've got it, and then, when you are ready, go shopping for another person to be with!:) GOOD LUCK!
339419
You need to move on. You can't get over your ex because you keep listening to the love songs that you listened to when you were with him. You need to realize that it is over and tell yourself that you will never be with him again. Listen to some different music. Music that sings about a women getting out of a bad relationship and moving on with their lives. It won't be easy. It will take some time but, eventually you will get over him and find someone else to love. Maybe when you are over him, you can become friends and that spark might rekindle and you will get him back. But, for now except that it is over. Allow yourself to get over him.
887546
I think your first love is the stepping stone for a good second relationship .All the mistakes were made the first time and hopefully you learned from them .
322147
I know very well what you mean ! i think that the worst is to know that you found your second half , your soulmate but because of the circumstances you have to separate . it happened to me 6 years ago , and even thou its not that painfull as it was at the start i still spend a lot of thoughts on him and on the time we shared . will i get ever over it ? i dont know , i just know that yes , time heals a lot of pain , i dont feel pain anymore but i still think !!!! you will learn not to compare with time and besides its a bad thing to do . of course i know that its not easy at all not to but even this time will teach . ok , in the bottom of ur heart ................but i am sure that you will manage . think that there are a lot of people on this universe which felt the same!!! i wish u luck and all the best !!!!
80435
hey, lemmie break it to you gently....people rarely or never get over their first loves....it always has a nice feeling to remember that time and why should you forget it, we should treasure good old memories....as long as those memories dont get in the way of your marriage dear keep them....... i still remember my first love like it was yesterday, its unfortunate though that many people dont get to marry their first loves probably due to age, finances or other reasons but i woudnt want to forget that coz my past made what i am.....