What do when am talking to a girl and then theres akward silence?
823927
try memorizing those dirty Irish limericks and using one...sure to get some sort of a reaction.
482575
Try asking her and see what she says. If she wants to try to talk. But otherwise just don't do or say anything and give her time to cool off. Also try to avoid the balls as best you can.\nLuck
378233
Just be casual. order something and try to have a light sense of humor while trying to make conversation. go easy at first..keep going in to order stuff and keep making conversation. girls like shy and sense of humor but be shy about it..u know..look cute..she will get the hint eventually..after u feel comfotable ask to have lunch or a cup of coffee w/ you....hey, let me know if it works..just remember don't be caulky like "i'm all that" girls hate that but don't be to shy either..be cute,sexy shy..
967539
People love nothing more than to talk about themselves. Ask questions about her. For an example of talking to a girl you didn't know, rather than say to her "what do you do?" ask "what do you like to do?" Its amazing how much more of a response you will get from these types of questions, these apply also to your girlfriend. Then most importantly make sure you "listen", when its time to talk then talk. With your girlfriend you just need to relax dude and It will flow. Try it.
796437
just go with the flow start talking about how there day has been and if u r talkin 2 a girl dont be afraid to flirt a lil bit
304210
You should wait until you both know each other very well first. Then be subtle and just ask her.
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
647614
i dont thing u should cause if she dont talk to u then that means that she dont like u very much just try to find someone better that really cares about u when a girl dosent talk to u that means that she dont like good luck in findin a better girl
678258
Start with a simple "Hi". Make yourself available, in other words, be outside often enough that she will see you out there and hopefully will see that as the time to go out to see if you will talk to her. A lot of girls will wait until the guy starts a conversation, don't be shy, you may miss out on your opportunity if you are shy. \n\nI will give you some advice: If you seem like a nice guy, girls do no like to come straight out and say they are not interrested. They drop hints, or drop in their boyfriend's name into a seemingly innocent conversation to give you the hint that they are not interested.
999161
I can see where your coming from, and you'reon the right track. You see it all depends on the women/girl. Some girls automatically expect for them to say hi, to where others find it odd because they have no idea who you are. I mean yeah, if you're standing right next to someone and there's dead silence between you two, the nice thing would be to say "Hello" orr a simple "Hi, my name's _______" \n       I recommend saying this. If the girl/women doesn't seem interested in talking, then obviously you drop the conversation. But if she continues by saying "Hey, I'm _______" then of course she's interested in talking with you.\n"Do you get upset if nothing is said and he leaves and acts like you're not even there" ... well, in a way yes. But on the other hand no. In my personal opinion I sometimes take it as "Well he thinks I'm not pretty, so he doesn't bother to say hi or anything." But on the other hand, I didn't start the conversation either. \n     It matters but "small talk" is always a nice thing. ust about all the time, I find it rude when someone's right next to me and not a word is said out of him, or another girl for that matter. \n    It all depends on the girl that's next to you. It can never hurt to start a conversation, wheather she puts in an effort to continue it or not,  then you know its alright to be quiet.
970230
just start talking to her you will know soon enough if she is single or not start there just be honest with her, but dont come on too strong
953555
Give it time, love is patience.  From the sound of things you haven't spent that much time with her, so love shouldn't even be in the picture.  Take a moment and think about your true feelings, and with her quietness: she may feel uncomfortable around you so make it so that she will feel comfortable then you probably wouldn't get her to shut up.  Or she may be shy because she probably likes you too.  But just take things slow.
203834
well u should practice before u say somethin to her or just have someone around u and her and try to be yourself or just believe in yourself
594387
take it from a girl just talk to her even if it is just WHAT MUSIC YOU INTO? or something along those lines pretend your talking to your closest friend and tell her a joke (one you know for sure is funny) if that doesnt break the ice then its not worth it find some1 who appreciates your admiration if she actually talked to you for three hours i think shes trying to say HI IM INTERESTED MAKE YOUR MOVE!!! girls are much subtle than boys
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
509758
ill give u girly advice...\nthe best thing i think you shud do that will work is go up to her and say hi and ask her if u cud talk to her alone for a min \nand tell her how u feel. \nshe'll appreciate the fact that u want to have a conversation but not in front of everyone. don't make a scene...\nshe'll listen... \n\ngoood luck
892523
so what, start by talkin to her.