i don't have a GF but girls never believe me why is that so?
817877
maybe you come off like a player--?
383993
Its kinda like a test for our egos. Its like ok he has a GF but i bet i can get if i want him. and most the time girls just do it because WE CAN (lol)\nAnd when you dont and cant get one its because either they dont know how you act in a relationship or that they just dont want you.Girls get very jelous and just like to have what they arent supposed to have like theryre an exception to the rule
329804
no boy friend or girlfriend but want one
164721
I don't understand women either....I can't deny that physical attraction is very important, but I just want a girl who can be honest with me in all situations and willing to communicate.
353443
That's your 1st road block. You don't NEED a girlfriend. Having that attitude probably causes you to act needy. And that will make any girl run in the other direction! Just focus on your life and the things you like. Live your life and stop worrying. Build your confidence! That's the fastest way to attract anybody. There are girls all around you...your just sending out the wrong message.
898408
It's probably over-familiarity. You know they say familiarity breeds contempt - well, it's quite likely they just see you so often they don't notice you in that way. If you like a specific one, you have to make her notice you, maybe by asking her out, or if that seems too scary just talking to her. After all, you can always ask her out later when you know her better. \n\nOn the other hand, if you're just suffering from lack of female attention, then there's not much you can do about it other than accept it. It sounds like you have no shortage of girls outside your school flirting... so just bask in that glow, man! And keep up your confidence. Girls like confident guys who don't come across as arrogant - a difficult balance, but a true girl-magnet if you can pull it off! Trust me. I know. \n\nTigerwolf x \n(speaking as one who has been taken in by the same trick more than once!)
130797
You haven't stated any additional info?\n\nMaybe you haven't met the right girls so far. It's all about timing and also chemistry. Patience is the key, whats the point in throwing yourself to any girl cuz your desperate. You might lose the opportunity of asking the girl of your dreams out.=)\n\nGoodluck Bro
680746
Maybe you act a little effeminate and the girls might think you're gay (no offense meant)? So then girls only see you as a friend and not a potential boyfriend.
427905
If you aren't that comforatble around girls, get with a shy one so it can seem like you are more brave... =) But if you want to break out of your shell, get with a girl that isn't shy and will always have something to talk about, so you wont have to think about what to talk about.Don't try to get a GF rite now, you should talk to a lot of good girls and get comfortable first, then get a GF.
646311
FIRST OFF YOU DON'T NEED A GF. YOU'D LIKE ONE. \n\nIF THEY DON'T TALK TO YOU YOU NEED TO TALK TO THEM\n\nGIRLS LIKE GUYS WITH CONFIDENCE AND WHO SEEM ASSURED. \n\nTALK TO THEM, ASK THEM QUESTIONS AND LISTEN TO THE ANSWERS. LOOK INTO THEIR EYES AS THEY ANSWER. IF YOU ASK THEM STUFF AND SEEM INTERESTED IN WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY, THEY'LL WANT TO TALK TO YOU MORE\n\nYOU JUST NEED TO TALK TO THEM
555585
Grow up.  You'll never know this-- because you'll never be with a girl.\n\nGet a life, loser!
171340
Because your too easy.\nAnybody could have YOU for a gf\nSo why would any certain one want you.
638214
Sounds to me like you suffer from low self esteem.  You don't think you're good enough for other people to like you, so you are worried that they won't.  You are so obsessed with what they think of you, that you aren't even paying attention to them.  So, they probably won't like you...no one likes to be ignored when they are talking, which will only make your problem worse.\n\nIf you want to get comfortable with someone, you have to get to know them.  The best way to do this is to get them talking about themselves.   Listen to what they say.  Respond to them.\n\nNerves can be bad, but there is no magic pill that will fix what your problem is.  Only practice can help.  Don't worry about what the other person thinks about you. The worse that can happen is they won't be interested and you move on.  Try not to pressure yourself and try to relax and be yourself.  Girls aren't looking for un-nervous guys, we're looking for guys that pay attention to us.
368726
Maybe you're TOO laidback that you actually miss the chance to get the girls. Snap out there and do it! Be confident! Being too laidback might give the impression that you aren't looking...
685383
Well there is nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend at 18.I'm 22 and don't have a gf and am still happy.Of course at the right time she will show up.Maybe u can add me to your messenger so we can chat.my IM is bcoxy06@yahoo.com
166873
it is not a big deal as you think by yourself.just relax and meet with girls around you.any girl... and you will see that your problem is resolved then.
787214
you mean like me...?\ni (oddly enough) don have a g/f  please IM me when u get a chance...