I am in my 30's and I am having an affair with an 80 year old woman, she is so sexy...is this wrong?
830155
To each his own my boy, to each his own.
81964
If you think she is hiding something, she probably is.  I am 38, and I would have to say we don't have any certain characteristics.  I am assuming you are involved in a relationship with this person?  If thats the case, you need to reevalute the situation.  Seems to me you are lacking trust, honesty, and communication.  Why would you even want to persue it?
451810
Age isn't a barrier to love.  I would guess that a lot of the 'eeew' comments are  made by those who are in your age group.  I'm older than your boyfriend, and I can tell you that however old he is physically, he probably doesn't feel that old mentally.  I still feel about 34 but I'm in my fifties! (And I don't look that old, either!)\n\nHowever, you must be practical.  When you are 42 he will be 63.  When you are 63 he will be 84, and he may well be very elderly at that stage while you still have the energy to go dancing.  If the thought of caring for him at that stage doesn't put you off, then keep going, and disregard the funny looks and comments!
117472
I do not see anything wrong with it as long as both are over 18 and BOTH people involved in the act know that it is a purely sexual thing and that is all it will be,as long as you always use protection, and are not looking to do this kind of thing with a ton of people.
137448
YES ,it's normal every woman peaks differntly,i heard in thier 40's.I'm a 36old man and i prefer older women because of better sex and mostly they know what they want.hell feel good about .I think you feel good about your self .Being overly active does,nt mean your a sluty nympho .heck i wish i had a women with that problem..Rock on and have fun..
123366
What a question! Being an older guy myself, I'd say yeah, but you need to show him how serious you are. You wouldn't believe the number of younger women who are after me. Go for it.
251118
I am assuming that you are a female and your mate is a male.  If this is the case here is my answer.  I am a 40 yr old man, and I have had a lot of expirience in this category.  If the problem is not medical I can almost guarentee that this will help... you cannot have any inhibitions!  You must convey to him that you are as into what is going on as possible.  There is nothing more exciting for a man who loves his patrner that to see her turned on.
939561
YES!\n\nAnd, what is happening, is that you are actually and truly in love, so the excitement overwhelms your dispassionate view and lust for the physical side of love.  You are emotionally in love.  Sex is OK, but, no longer the epitime of what is 'good' in your life.\n\nTell her, and you both will need to do some role playing and dressing up for it. so that you will have the detachment to please her longer, if that is what she really wants from you.  I don't think her need is truly for great stamina, if she is emotionally similar in the relationship now. But, it also depends upon her age.  Women peak later.  Men peak at aobut 22 to 26, women at about 28 to 34.\n\nSome of us take herbs, like yohimbe, that, in the right amount, which is actually very small, gives the same effects as you described you enjoyed.  Except, some of us are in our 60's and 70's and one fella is 86!\n\nThe ladies ask us to take it, so we'll have some 'lead in our pencil'.  I did the Starlight International Male Well Pack, with the Taurus capsule.  One every 12 hours.  60 tablet bottle.\n\nYou have to look in the phone book for a vendor, or on the web at:
218174
You're in a relationship, you're not dead! There is nothing wrong with having a perfectly healthy sex drive. However, cheating is wrong. If you love and respect this woman you will remain faithful to her. If you really want to be with other women you should end the relationship.
38902
LOL! I was going to post an answer here elle but there are already a lot of good answers. While I was reading them I noticed Frank whos "baby daddy" run off posted an answer to you. Funny stuff ;)\n\nBTW theres nothing wrong with what youre doing, just be honest with him. One caveat, there are sexy 33 year old guys too :P
971993
Erick,\nlet me say this to you.  Age is something that measures time, nothing more.  Spend good quality time with this person, don't let your emotions get the best of you, both of you need to talk about your concerns.  Of course a woman of 34 is going to know more than you sexually, and this can be attractive to you.  Because most women your age, aren't in touch with there feelings or even their bodies yet.  Maybe they just got out of college or maybe still there, they aren't ready to settle down for a serious relationship and shouldn't.  This could also apply to you, but if your mature enough, which that happens to some men, it did with my son, and he has a wonderful family now.\nCommunication,,,,,,  it's that simple, the most important key in any relationship.  Talk to this woman, find out what her goals are, and then see if you can makes things work.  It's not going to be easy, but it can work with a lot of patients.  \nI do wish you both all the best, it would be nice to find someone, who I would consider spending the rest of my life with, and when God feels it's time, then it will happen...  BUT, I am not going to force open in doors, WE all know what happens when you do that...\nAll the best to you Erick,\n\nCurt
837833
Well, i guess it's normal to feel that way. I'm 28 and my husband is 38. He's having the same problem. So what we did is that after all the girls are in bed we spent sometimes in front of the TV and watch movies that we like. At the same try to flirt around with each other. Kissing and touching and hugging...etc. At this moment do not have any limits or borders towards each other. Just do what ever you like. Even if it's in the kitchen!
1131445
I think there's some kind of attraction...and curiosity...but why is it socially acceptable that 80 year old males go with 20 year old females and the other way round is still totally unacceptable?
1031385
There's nothing wrong with that. Most couples do...sometimes it's such a turn on.  Just whatever you do, don't get it in her eyes! OUCH!
375642
There is NO problem. The ONLY problem there would be is if you and your hubby had the problem.As long as you both are fine with it then all is well. It's your guy's life not there's. I'm 31 and my hubby is 38 and we make an awsome couple. As long as you both are cool with it then it's NO ONE Else's business...
154067
sure it's not wrong, it's great you still in love and you keep your sex life active. Have a wonderful time :)
102529
I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika