I love my man,he's so sweet loving ,romantic, a gentlemen BUT when he holds me?
823491
awww... you're making the rest of us jealous!\n\ni love to be held.\nthere's this sense of security and you just feel like you could burst out of all that love..
421585
Depends on the man. Is he married?  If so, he's probably using you.  If he isn't. yes, we can love you.  But do we have to be absolutely committed to you to love you?  Commitments are tough for men to handle.
193581
I agree.  It's all about the emotions you have for your man because even if he's not big if you love him you're going to be happy with him.  I can just kiss my man and and lay in his arms and just be totally satisfied.
320718
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
689885
You are what you are and if he truly loves you, he will definitely respect your feelings. Dont do anything that you feel uncomfortable with now... make things clear now- its better than repenting later. Understanding, mutual respect and honesty are the very basics of any relationship. If he cant compromise and make adjustments now, it doesnt bode well for the future too, does it? So speak out whats in your mind- let him know how you feel. Explain to him that you come from a conservative background and that you dont feel comfortable with the relationship getting physical so soon. DONT DO ANYTHING THAT U FEEL IS NOT RIGHT!
835918
You can't tell if he loves you by the things he did and it's too early to know about things like that. But by what you are saying, that guy really does like you a lot. It must be so exciting!
858887
this person really loves you that is why he acts like that, my opion?
254671
No, a guy like that isn't in love with you, he thinks of you instead as his possession.  If someone loves you then they trust you.  Tell him to go find a new possession and find yourself a man who will love you and trust you.
552745
sounds to me that he's the classic 'L' word for sex type.. some guys will say they love you to get some.. please dont let yourself fall into that trap.. talk to him about the way he treats you.. if he loves ya he will stop.. but girl.. Id get away while you still can.. you dont want to find yourself in situations later that suck..
310337
poor man i love... money wont buy you the feeling that you get when loving someone and being loved in return... besides he may get rich someday...
1134165
He is telling you that he loves you... so he is probably frustrated that you keep asking him to reassure you of this fact.  Why, coz he did not say it lovy-dovy enough... please... if he didn't love you he'd leave you and your baby.\n\nThe fact that he is doing his obligations is the best way he knows how to say I love you... asking him to show it like a woman shows it would be like him asking you to show your love by giving him a bl@w j#b every day....\n\nAppreciate what you have, and if you need a little tenderness just ask him for it... but don't expect if all of the time... it's not fun or easy for most guys.
63898
By all the things he does for you, the look in his eyes, his kiss, the way he holds you, the way he says your name, the way he comes to you when he has a problem, the way he trusts you with his secrets...there's a million different ways he could be showing you that he loves you. Sometimes actions speak louder. Look closely. :o)
646872
it is so sweet, means he in love or really care about u.
296402
If he really loves you then your heart would instinctively know---at present you are doubtful----very natural---only time will reveal the truth----impatience is natural but worth to find true love---- best of luck
128426
basically he's just not that into you.  if a guy loves you he will make the time and find a way to make sure you feel loved so you don't leave him.  you need to just cut your losses and get out of the relationship or it will suck you dry and make you bitter...  you should read "he's just not that into you"  it's a eal eye opener.
951422
i am sorry you are going through this   he sounds conflicted and i would like to see you with a guy that after knowing you so well would find it easy to love you be with you and have the courage the vision and the energy to offer you proper attention touch affection and be emotionally available for you  please look else where and make your self available after knowing him well the man of your reality not this lost soul if he comes around later and gives you a proper romantic relationship then fine please don't be blind to the ones probably screaming for your attention
1010407
relax and give him some space. if a man feels smothered then he will leave you!