I have been with my girlfriend for a year and now i am in US trying to find work and she is in studying in UK?
818153
if its meant to be  then it will work out
929982
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}
505869
Ok, look.  You are going to be graduating soon and you want your girlfriend to go with you... right? Well, is she in school too?  Maybe she's not ready to take the next step.  You can't rush her into doing it and if you feel like a long distance relationship would be to difficult then it's time to break up. And as for the other girl... if you're breaking up with someone you really really love why would you start seeing someone that you just "like"? and still be in the same situation?\nIf  you have to break up with her let it be the last resort but also don't twist her arm to take the next step either.
915595
The best way round it is to either:-\n1. Form a company in her own country and then register it in the UK as "a foreign company trading in the United Kingdom"\n\nor\n\n2. form a non-limited business (called a proprietorship)\n\nHowever, as she is a foreign student, she should check that she has the necessary work permits. If she hasn't then any sort of work in the UK (including under 1 and 2 above) is illegal.
619889
Hi,\n\nYes you can work, but only for 1 year. But i would be better if you apply for a job from India and then come. Or if you wish to come then go to London or Midlands as their are lot of oppurtunities there.\n\nFor more details about UK Visa you can check the following website : \n\nwww.ukvisas.gov.uk\nwww.ukvisas.co.uk\n\nFor working in the UK you can go to following site\n\nwww.workingintheuk.gov.uk\n\nFor Immigration Rules\nwww.homeoffice.gov.uk
1051009
Is she depending on your money? If not, you had no business telling her to get a job. If she was, then you should tell her you can't afford to support her anymore. Just stop giving her the cash. Do you mean you're living together and she wants to move out? Sounds like a good idea. You can still keep your relationship, and once things get smoother you can try again. Sounds like a good way to figure out if she loves you, or your money. Or do you mean she wants to move to another city? She could be bluffing so you beg her to stay. She just wants to feel wanted, instead of like a burden. Just have a business like conversation. Tell her if she get's a job, even a parttime one, you'll continue to help supporting her, but you will keep a tab, and she has to sign a letter of agreement that she will pay you back. That's fair. That way you can be there for her when she needs you, without being taken advantage of. Attitude very rarely changes. So if you can't live with her attitude, move on.
1181614
The only person that has that answe is her. Go see her and ask her what is up. Ever thought maybe she doesn't want to leave her state. Maybe she would like for you to move there. Good luck!
33866
It depends on whether you are currently in the UK or if you intend to come to the UK to work. See the following websites for more information.
851378
you a re a very career minded person who doesnt let anything get din his way, when you want something you pull out all stops to get it. Also the job you are in isnt really for you, in about two yrs you will be working abroad and you will be in management, your finaces will be good as long as you keep some back for a rainy day, and not blowing it at every oppertunity, you will meet someone within 6 months and she is the one you are going to marry, she is at least five years younger and very pretty, good luck for the future!!
1089625
Yes! it sounds to me like you two are definatly in love. and if she didn't give you a good enough reason, like "i met someone else or i want to explore my options" then i think she still loves you, it is just too painful for her to be apart for so long. so i think you need to talk to her. dont just go over there and pop the question right away. but talk to her, make her fall in love with you again and then tell her you need her and that you two need to spend the rest of you lives together...then... "will you marry me?"
732641
The fact that she won't take money from you is encouraging - that may be her way of telling you that she doesn't plan on using you.  It sounds like she loves you, but the real question that you have to ask yourself is whether or not you'd be willing to live there.  How and where would you find a job?  Can you speak their language?  Would you be able to adapt to life in the Philippines?  If the relationship were ever to end, what would you do?  Could you ever come back to the US?  Would you become a citizen of the Philippines?  These are all questions that you should be asking yourself.  Be that as it may, she is clearly serious about you.  Good luck with whatever you decide.
961012
heres to an old addage (SP?)... if you love something... let it go... if it comes back to you... it's yours.... \nIf she wants to study overseas... and you put the brakes on that... she may wind up resenting you for that... (possibly for the rest of her life)... Sometimes to love someone... you have to do things that you don't like doing... you have to put their best interests in mind... \nI can't tell you how much you love her... I don't know... but I do know that you don't want to pressure her into staying... that's a decision she should make entirely on her own...
697008
After she graduates, she should find an employer that can sponsor her for an H1B visa. International students who have earned a degree in the US are eligible for H1B visas.
326062
You should check first with UCAS and UKCOSA to validate your qualifications. Also check if you can work and get a residence permit in the UK.
222598
First, this is a situation only you and she can solve.  It's up to the two of you.  Second, I question your feelings for each other, given the fact that you have never met.  Third, if you seriously do want to be together why can't she travel to your country?  Lastly, sometimes relationships don't work out...and there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If things haven't worked in three years, chances are they won't.  Maybe you both should be looking for love a little closer to home.  Just some insight.
709927
You can't force these things, she either loves you or she doesn't.  Sounds like she doesn't.  Also possibly because your relationship is long distance you romanticise about it too much.  If you lived together day in, day out, the rose-tinted spectacles may have come off long ago.  You sound like a lovely guy, you deserve better.  Let it go and find someone who will be there for you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.
852280
Welllllll, I beleive you should study for your exams first. Say that you can't meet right then, but send her a little gift for christmas. Once you finish taking your exam and studying a little more of her language. Then you can meet her for Valentines day and do something a little romantic, but not too romantic (you don't wnt to speed up anything too fast). Wait a minute,.... are you in college? If you are, are you a Senior? If you are, do you have everything prepared for your future, such as career, plans , etc.? If you said yes to all of them, go ahead and take my advice. If not, get those things together first.