well i have this sort of long distance realationship going on?
825197
i think he is playing around, he doesnt want a relationship with u...hes just making a fool out of u. hes taking u for granted...he can see u, chat with u , flirt around,,,wat more a guy wants. i think u should be strong n confident in taking the decision. tell him straight away that u need space and its over!!!!!! :)\ngood luck
877329
the only way for this to work out if you go see her and you tell her how you feel..then promise to trust her. Lond distance online relationship is hard considering you only talk over the phone and chat online. since your the guy, you have to initiate the next move to solidify your relationship. Trust her..
877530
I think it sounds a bit dodgy to me and not right. He should be excited about seeing you and be as keen as you are to get together, if i were you i wouldnt waste my time going out there, get out there and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them, lifes too short to waste time on fake love go find true love, i can guarantee it will be worth it.
124806
No long distance isn't easy, but it doesn't mean it won't work out for that reason. If he says he will visit every month then give him that chance. Let him get settled in first. My sister's bf lives in NY and we live in Mo. They have been together for a year.
1078385
i don't think i can give you a solution to your problem.but i greatly agree that it is not really easy to have a long distance relationship. if you really feel that she is the right one for you, just keep on praying, have faith and do all your best to find a way to meet that special girl. if trials always come your way just stay strong and always keep your communications flowing for each other because from there, you can make her feel how much she means to you even if she is so far away. i know how hard this situation is because i myself have the same experience as yours. but i just keep my faith and hope that soon someday him and i be together.
1095786
I've done the long distance thing..  You two are doing everything right in my book anyways.. lol.  My advise is to stay busy with friends.  That way the time will go by faster.
625233
I know of two long distance relationship that has worked\n my parents and my brother and sister in law.  It is possible of both people are willing to work on it
550422
You think a 3 hour drive is a long distance relationship? Try being 10,000+ miles apart... My finacee' is in Hanoi, Vietnam while I'm here in California. \n\nIt is VERY tough to have a long distance relationship. It requires tremendous amount of commitment to each other. You are your girl will be tested every day on how strong your bond is. \n\nThere's an old saying that basically says to let her go and see if she comes back to you. That should be the first thing you do to see if your long distance relationship will work. \n\nGood luck to you!
620141
Well you want be losing them per say.  You can still stay in touch by phone and visit them.  It all depends on how well you know the person you are moving to be with.  If it someone that you have known a long time and feel confident that you will be happy there.  Its a big step so think things thoroughly through.  There is an old saying no risk no reward but if you know this person really well and you are sure that once you get there things between you will be good then I say go for it.  I wouldn't advise moving to be with someone you have spent little time with in person. If it is an Internet romance or even a long distance relationship schedule some vacation time in which you can go spend a relatively long time in their presence.  People have an odd way of looking perfect from a distance.  Take you time, think things through, and good luck!!
748857
Well first of all I would almost bet that you will get some smart comment from someone cause of the fact that you met online, but I can relate to you in that way.  I met my current boyfriend online as well.  I live in NY for the time being because of acting and he's from MN, where I'm originally from.  We have made it a point to see each other as often as possible to make sure that we don't grow apart.  We talk on the phone quite a bit and everytime I feel like I might question the whole relationship, hearing him at the end of the day lets me know that it will all work out.  I think that it is definitely possible to make a long distance relationship work as long as you both want it, because when one person isn't fully in it then that's when things seem to go wrong.  I'll be back in MN soon and I'll still be about 4 hrs away from him but that's a lot close than 23-24 hrs.  I can handle that short distance and so can he. I know if you both want it and are really in love then it will work out how it is suppose to.
192917
What you need to do is get together with him and discuss a plan.  Now if its because he is far away then decide when will he be moving closer or plan a set schedule of when you can get together and visit.  If he is close then you must decide on a schedule of what days you guys will hang out on.  If you dont let him know that not seeing him is bothering you he will never know... trust me Im a guy and we think differently.  And eventually you will both lose feelings for each other and it wont be at the same time so one of you will defintely get their feelings hurt.  So in short, Make A Plan. (mutual plan that is)
1158565
I was in a long distance relationship for more than two years - we lived an hour apart - & at first we talked all day too & were together whenever we could be - but the last 9 months or so he stopped callin - it tapered off to once a day, then only once a week & we didn't spend so much time together - well, he ended the relationship a month ago with no explanation, just an e-mail. \nSo it sounds like even tho ya'll love each other, you are starting to drift as we did - it happens & it's hard to keep it from going south unless one of you can change to spend more time together. I was the only one making the effort there, too, for a long time - I drove to see him, never the other way around. I don't know - you may have to let this one go & move along. It bites, I know. Good luck.
971318
Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
1128358
No there is nothing wrong with that keep your long distance relation but you always need to complete it with a local physical contact relation... That will work...
222598
First, this is a situation only you and she can solve.  It's up to the two of you.  Second, I question your feelings for each other, given the fact that you have never met.  Third, if you seriously do want to be together why can't she travel to your country?  Lastly, sometimes relationships don't work out...and there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If things haven't worked in three years, chances are they won't.  Maybe you both should be looking for love a little closer to home.  Just some insight.
255927
long distance relationships are always tough, and especally tough if you don't trust the person your trying to have one with, cut your losses and get out while the getting is good, be kind about it though and just blame it on the distance, that way if he moves back over here you could pick up where you left off.
689439
One. You can ask in the very first email, if you are charming enough and clever about it. Better yet, get her to ask to meet you.\n\nBe sure that you two are able to physically meet each other fairly easily - in other words, not living so far apart that it becomes a hassle to meet. While long-distance relationships can and do work, for many people they are just too much trouble and nearly impossible to pull off well. So, be sure that both of you are comfortable.\n\nJust ask, and be confident. There is no "prescribed length of writing" in these sorts of relationships.