How long after dating................?
823448
when you feel it's turning serious. 3-4 months maybe?
428527
That is totally normal.  If you've been with someone for that long, it's time to start talking about the future. So of course you want to know if he's the "one".  Both of you should take a break, date other people and decide if you guys are right for each other.
165144
It really depends on the situation at hand and the couple as to whether or not it is too fast. I knew a couple who married after only about 6 months and neither was financially stable which caused problems in the marriage etc. and it ended in divorce because they were both pretty unhappy with the situation. Another couple I know dated for 3 months and then married and they've been married for almost 30 years. They were financially secure. I think being financially secure is a main thing to look at. you dont want to put any extra stress on the relationship because right after you are married is supposed to be one of the best times of your life and the most enjoyable. \n\nOn another note, dating long term doesnt hurt anything either. I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now.
1080500
say it when you mean it. well done for not saying it just for the sake of it. be flattered that he told you that, i would be. it doesn't matter how long you are together, 2 days, 2 weeks or 2 months. whenever you feel it is the right time to say it!
254253
Six months seems like a long time.  Usually after just a couple of dates you start to know if you love someone.  After six months you should pretty much know if this relationship is going to be long term and the word love should be something easily given.  Maybe I'm just quicker to love than some but six months seems like forever.\n\nIt is obvious how important those three little words are to you, and I agree.  I think you are at a place where all you can do is sit him down and talk to him.  Ending a relationship is always hard and before reaching that point I think it is important to make sure you know absolutely from the other person their feelings on the issue.  Then you can honestly make your choice without having made an assumption.
811617
I think you guys will last for a good little while. I mean everything seems to be going well between you two. All you have to do is find time to go out with him. Ya'll needs to go a have fun,enjoy ya'll time together while ya'll still have time.But besides that everything sounds good and yes I think ya'll should last for a while....
288177
Two weeks is a short time.   I have been separated for two years now and my divorce should be finalized in two weeks.  LOL... it is always two weeks.  I still don't feel ready to date yet, but I am.  What ya gonna do?  Turn down people when they ask you?  Where have I met people, lets see... at the grocery store check out lane, at the car dealer waiting for my Van to be repaired, at Johnny's New York Style Pizza parlor, my neighbor, on yahoo... gosh, everywhere.  Only go out tho when you are ready.  I worried for the longest time that I just wanted to go out with guys to prove that guys would still find me attractive.
74412
I say any time after the first day I met you. Even the day after would be okay. As you can see from the array of responses you've received, every girl is different. Go with what you think is best but I would say give it, at most, two days. Anything after that, she's forgotten all about you. I hope this helps! :)
680362
Doggdoc has a point there...but you could phrase it something like, "you know we've been dating for about a year now...I don't date other's anymore, I'm finding I want to date you exscusively...how do you feel about that kind of arrangement?..."...well maybe you can make it sound a little more romantic than that...but you get the idea...good luck!
109182
This one is easy for me.  Simply make your opinion made.  One thing I am wondering is how long they have been in the relationship.  They might be going through the "honeymoon" stage.  It usually dies down in time.  Have patience.
286051
The question is are you ready to date? You will know when it is time to start dating again. I would still suggest at least three months by yourself first. Get to know yourself again.
458107
Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.
432853
how long have you been dating? over a year, probably.
698114
I don't know how much this will help you but my girlfriend and I met and started dating almost instantly...thinking back it all happened so quick but it was so natural that we never had any problems.  She lived about 30 minutes away from me and I was in college and worked so it was hard but honestly, I would come home from work and could expect to walk in the door and see her every day (she had a key).  Two months after we met we moved in together and have been living together ever since.  We talk and spend time together every day.  I can honestly say that we have not spent more than 10 days apart from each other since we met 8 months ago and it has been amazing!
500327
depends, how long is long ??\nif more than a month or something then probably not... cause you cant really base a realtionship on how often you see the person, its on just the person
141242
Actually time is not really an issue.  I know pople who dated for 4 - 6 months and got married.  But there a re also people I know who have been dating since the beginning of time but they are still unmarried.  So obviously you are marriage oriented.  Bring up the marriage topic to him and see his reaction.  Positive or negative.  But you can also ask him directly to be sure  --  "do you plan on marrying me?" But be prepared for either getting really hurt or a pleasant surprise. In my opinion, if you are unsure then the answer is no or not yet.  Usually the guys will drop in a lot of hints on the fact that they want marriage early on in a relationship.  Does he talk alot about your future together?
1017324
I don't think there is a certain "time limit" it is more like how well you know the person.. if you like them two seconds afer you meet them... what makes you think you will two years from now...(speaking for long term relationships) Get to know the person and have a group date see how well they react to that before going with them alone.