So you see my son, there is a fine line between love and nausia...?
821128
Coming To America when the parents are talking about their arranged marriage.
94821
No, you don't love both of them.  You may like both of them but you don't truely love both of them.  The fact that he is your sons father shouldn't play a role in this decision because your not currently together.  So do what is really in your heart and what is best for your life.
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I'm pretty sure that your son is old enough to choose who he wants to live with.  There is a certain age they turn and are able to choose. Check into it.
442758
So, you are a Virgo and he is a Cancer. I can see how you'd be friends for a long time. Earth and Water are very complimentary. But, in a relationship things can be different -- for the water man. Here is what I think you need to be: sensitive. But! You've got to know that your cancer boy can be a "lil bitch' sometimes. No offense, but Cancer men to be super sensitive to the point of being bitchy. If you can just accept that then you should be alright. I mean, honestly, with a Cancer, I dont really think that talking is necessarily the solution. You need to try to feel this one out, and ride the waves you earthling. :) Trust your friendship and you should be alright in the relationship (if you two are both normal level headed peeps)
729686
Lol... Naughty boy!\n\nIt is Lust... my son. Control yourself before you get burned out :D
1143379
No, Don't get offended. Sometimes a son always see the person that is with their father as someone who is trying 2 replace their mom. But, at the same time, he does what to show his dad that he loves him. That said, does not mean he don't like u. He just loves his father more, & the wife is gonna go with whatever works for her husband.
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You know your son. You know if he respects you as the authority figure he truly honors. You know in yourself if pleasing you is important and disappointing you is something he really does not want to do. If that is the case, as much as you are tempted, don't spy on him. Be ready in any case to intervene should things get inappropriate, if they do. On the other hand, if the relationship with your son is strained and he does not appreciate his parents, then the battle is already lost. If you move to spy or stop him, then he'll move the activity somewhere else where you are not.
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thers a very thin line between Frndshp and luv.(Please use a good eraser .:P)
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Red Flag Warning!\nHe wants control in this relationship, rather than a joined effort. Control is not a sign of love but a sign of insecurity and jealousy. Control leads to abuse. \nDo what you want with your hair and leave that child before he hurts you for real!
721612
youre only 10.....get on with your education and stop screwing around. theres no way in hell you are in love. maybe get a dictionary and look up what the word means
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If you use both in a wobble way, that will really confuse them. Many parents don't react in a same way to the same things, but just according to their actual turn of mind  and that's what makes children very confused. Prove that you love them and will always love them, ALTHOUGH you ask for some discipline in some situations. For example: "If you want to go to a football match tomorrow with me (LOVE), you have to finish your homework on time (DISCIPLINE)". Say it in an assertive way and be rigorous. make him/her learn about the consequences of his/her behavior. But, KEEP YOUR PROMISES, DON'T DISAPPOINT HIM/HER and make him/her believe you.
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Your son sounds like an imaginitive young man! He must have quite a sense of humour! \n\nMy answer - I have absolutely no idea - but thanks for giving me a laugh and something bizarre to mull over!
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I love my son the best
748631
Yes you skinflint!\n\nForget legalities, do whats right by your son. You should want to support him and not leave it all up to his mother!
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NOOOO, don`t ever make him decide. If he chooses than it needs to be without YOUR help!\nI think his mother was way out of line with that comment. Try not to worry too much about it, it sounds like you have a great boyfriend there! If you want you can have a talk with her and tell her that you didn`t mean to "step on her toes", you are simply in love with her son and wanted to be with him on this important day.
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He probably doesn't know the true meaning of LOVE.  But I bet he's got the infatuation thing down to a science.\n\nOK, let's face it, children (and I mean young persons under the age of 20) experience a rush of hormones.  These powerful chemicals drive us to do strange things and say things we don't have any understanding of.\n\nOK, so he said he loves you.  Take it with a grain of salt.  It may grow into a real love.  And if you are young like I think you are then take it slow, but fight for it if it is what you want.  The young loves are the most intense.  And if it does grow you may find yourself happy for a very long time.\n\nHowever, also keep in mind that he could be thinking with the little head. (hormones again)\n\nObsession?  Since you use that word, it makes me feel that this is NOT the right thing for you.  Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If this one gets away, there will be another.\n\nUse your head and not your heart.  I know they say to follow your heart, but that's not always good advice.  The heart can want things that are not good for it.  Just read some of the questions people are asking here.  You'll see that there is a lot of people suffering heartache because they made a mistake.  A mistake made by following their heart.
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Max333 gave you a stupid answer.  You should focus on the child ovbiously it has more maturity than your mate does.  Let him go he is still a little boy in a man's body.  Focus on what is most important.  and Please educate yourself on the difference between love and lust.  This is love...Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres