this sucks, help me pls!?
829072
Well ... you can always weigh the two girls.\nBy that, I mean, what do each of them give to you?\nDoes the "new girl" give you the emotional support and trust and all that jazz as much as your ex did/does?\nOr is this new girl just a crush and you're only physically attracted.\nIf you REALLY think that this new girl has something to give to you, then you NEED to sit down and talk with your ex and explain the situation and how you're feeling.  You have to tell her that you're unsure about the current relationship between the two of you but that you still really care for her.  You just want to see what this other girl has to offer.  You may find the new girl is just nothing but a pretty face and end up missing your ex.\nIn that case ... I think you need to know what to do. ;)
388415
Get another girlfriend. Something to distract you can help for a little while...a casual dating relationship, maybe. In the long run, though it is simply a matter of letting go. Easy to say, really hard to do. Good luck to you!
602456
Get rid of the CREEP!!! Sounds like he is just using you till something better comes along!! Run while you still can!!
1167511
I'm really sorry to say it, but he's got someone else.  Please do yourself a favor and cut him loose completely.  Do NOT let him know how hurt you are - he will just use those feelings against you while he strings you and this other girl along.  It will hurt a lot, but please know that you deserve better and no matter how bad it looks/feels now, someone better WILL come along.  You may not think you will last long without him, but trust me, you will.  Just take it one day at a time.  Don't be afraid to lean on your friends.  Cry it out.  Do whatever you have to do, but do not go back to him.  There are good guys out there.  You will find one.  Just don't waste any more of your time on this guy, because he obviously does not love and respect you any longer.  Good luck and if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here (mytib1@yahoo.com).  Take care of yourself,\nWendy
547555
This guy is playing with your feelings. He's just keeping you on the line so that he's always got a soft place to fall. Make like a tree and leave. Two years is a long time to invest your feelings in someone who doesn't want a relationship. Tell him you don't have time to waste on waiting for him to make up his mind. I think he's already made up his mind and likes the way things are. You don't know how many other gals he's playing this sorry tune with either. He's got what he wants. I would suggest that you stop giving him what he wants and tell him you're not playing anymore. <*)))><
1017260
EEEEEWWWWWW! thats nasty!.... see a doctor NOW!
325044
Leave him the hell alone. You already crossed the line by expressing your feelings about the situation. What you need to do is get you some from another friend and get over it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
849048
Sounds like your girlfriend isn't really in a "fun" mood right now, friend. Honestly, just be there for her. There is nothing you can say or do to help her get over such serious traumas, so always be ready to lend an ear or a hand. I promise this is help you guys get closer, and by the time she's ready to move on with her life, you'll have a better relationship than you would have without any og this.
627278
Sistah, you just gotta be honest and tactful in this situation as someones heart is involved. Treat him in a way that you would appreciate if the situation were reversed.  Good luck to you!!!
416334
Well, that guy definitely has a problem. Tell him to deflate his big head 'cause you never wanted to be his girlfriend anyway. You only wanted to be his friend (am I right about that? I hope I am) for crying out loud. You seem like you were just being friendly. He probably thought too much of himself and got an ego-boost when you started talking to him and everything. Ignore him and show him who's boss. He's a loser.
521884
Stop saying your life sucks for one, girls have enough emotional torment, they don't want to deal with yours. Stop building up this great and wonderful thing... its unlikly to happen any way you've imagined it. Just relax and let everything come in its own time. Just be you and have no expectations.
670046
Listen honey I have been in a bad relationship myself and know where you arecoming from you have to stand up for yourself and move on you say you can't leacve Why? they have got you to the point where you are wallowing in self pity just as they like you. What is happening here is domestic abuse and it has to end before you end first. For your childrens sake leave him if he don't like it tell him where to go ****himself or tell him if he loves you to stand up to his family for you though from the sound of it he is week as s**t no man should ever allow anyone including his family to run you down. I wish i could do more for you but sadly I can't if you need to chat though send me an email and I will keep chatting and offering no strings advice I am a voluntary member of the samaritans and will make timwe to chat if you need me.
1126780
this is horrible !!!!!!!\n\ngo see a doctor or something
1054679
YO, G! Whats wrong with Yahoo! Answers? C'mon it something happened to you, it can't be that bad. Stick around, you will get use to it. Or try to love it.\nYahoo Answer - no problem man!
763974
i dont get it, this isnt funny, whats going on help me plz!
979147
that's really horrible and I'm so sorry for your hurting. It will take you a while to get ovr this so just be patient with yourself. cry it out and then cry some more. tell everyone how you feel and get it out. then start making your self feel good. do things you know will make you feel good. do all the things you wished you'd done but couldn't because you were with him. get really fit and healthy. eat well and exercise. have beauty treatments and look fantastic...best revenge really and it will make your confidence go up again. go and visit friends..get away for a while if you can afford it. I'm sending you a big hug to get you started and really wishing you much good from the universe..you deserve it XX M
887335
she doesn't know what she wants.  Be the bigger person and walk away.  you don't deserve to be yanked around like this.