How to say to your x girl friend that you can't.................?
815479
I just don't see a feelgood way out of this.  Be honest with her.  It already sounds like you are compassionate.  Honestly explain your feelings, how long you've been feeling this way, how you struggled with it, didn't want to hurt her, etc but that you couldn't reconcile how you feelings evolved to living in a way that is in full honesty for both of you.  She's going to undergo grief and pain so there is no avoidance of that.  It really is hard to tell someone you care about as a person, knowing you're going to cause them pain, that you've tried, but don't feel the way you would like to feel anymore.  Many people deal with faded feelings in ways that cause even more problems down the line, cheating, avoidance, etc. It never makes the problem better so you know that it will take great courage on your part to get in the drivers seat and take the relationship to it's inevitable destination.  She was a whole person before she met you so hopefully she has the inner strength and faith to trust she will continue to be a whole person without you.
115066
i would say be urself and be strait up and say yo i like you will you be my girlfriend or something like that just don't confuse her by tring to be slick u'll both feel like idiots
1140869
yup!! before the situation gets complicated... say it to her nicely and make sure you dont make her runaway from u while ur talking 2 her!!
572904
Tell her that you cant wait for her, and tell her that she needs to do something fast, because you cant take the Sh!t ne more and you are ready to settle down and let her now how you feel and make sure shes just not trying to use you, make sure you tell her everything on your mind and whats in your heart
412232
You can't 'make' her do it.  At least you shouldn't!  Ask her to.  She may or may not but you'll never know unless you ask.
575690
You can`t ... If you don`t want to be friends you should be honest. But you will hurt her feelings.. good luck..\nGod bless <><
85137
YOU CAN'T UNLESS YOU WANT HER TO SAY I BROGHT IN THIS WORLD I WILL TAKE YOU OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
705000
Take yourself out of the middle of this equation. Casually tell her that you didn't get around to asking them if they wanted to hang out and suggest that she call them and ask them herself. Let them have to explain themselves.
628381
be honest if shes your freind you should be able to tell them these things also tell her you would expect her to do the same and if you hadnt of said you were worried youd fall out and you didnt want that to happen . good luck .
348712
There are 3 things a girl would want to hear in this situation:\n\nBRONZE: I'm sorry.\nSILVER: I'm sorry, will you forgive me?\nGOLD! I'm sorry and I love you.\n\nEven if she's mad at you for nothing, she's upset, and you should apologize. :)\n\nYou can do it! :)\n\nHugs,\nkitties_n_llamas(Becca)
36351
Speechless or Tense?\nTry to give her a letter or a special cards ....\nGive her flowers or chocolates... everything that can show your true feelings even u dnt know how to say it.
217539
You could, but why would you want to? What would you get out of telling her? Sympathy? If you're hurting, talk to a close friend about it. I wouldn't suggest telling this girl about how much she hurt you - what is she going to do about it or than avoid you for here on out?
1051583
let your girl know that as much as you enjoy being with her and her friends that you want to spend some alone time with her to talk about somethings that you are not comfortable with all her friends hearing from you cause you know if there that close she will tell them anyways
473409
Just tell her how you feel and maybe you guys can work something out!
1023291
get a grip, dude.\ntalk to her.
446909
how close are you guys? sit her down were you two are most comfortable and just speak your mind, or if you arent one to speak your mind find a way to show her and get her to think that way for you, kinda like minipulation but for a good cause. if she feels the same way you can kinda tell alot of times, be confident and just tell her, womenX i have been feeling this way for a long time, Or my style---there was a secret i have been hiding from you for a long time, and it kinda scares me *build up the suspense*...i have never mett anyone like you, or something.....bla bla bla u get the picture, Dont be afraid of rejection, it either works out or it doesnt bro.
101333
If you are already connected to the girl (ie, talk, go out in groups, hang out sometimes alone, etc) this one line usually worked for me:\n\n"Ya know, we've been friends for some time now, and I feel I like you on a whole new level.."\n\n(By the way. I'm marrying that girl)\n\nIf you don't know her, flatter her and say daring things to her. Don't try to work up a *friends* relationship and then work it out from there... she'll feel decieved, as if many things you said before were planned out.