I  want to  know  why do Girls  love to  hang out  with  gay guys..?
819882
From my experience, gay guys are a-hell-of-a-lot-more fun then a regular jock! With my regular jocks friends, if you a girl, you're just an extra body around! I notice that some things you can't be included while "the boys talk!" So I would just whether hang out with my gay friends who doesn't give a rat a** about what they talk about or do! Plus there's never a dull moment with them!
276436
I was once a lesbian, but have since chosen to be with a man. I have a lot of friends who are still lesbians though, and I understand why they choose to be like that. In the cases that I know (including mine), fellow females understand the psyche of their own gender. It's true in most cases, since a lesbian (even if she's a butch lesbian) would still be a girl, and girls get what other girls need and want in a relationship. Of course, there's also some people who just wish to experiment. I would advise that you talk to your friends, learn about what it is about lesbianism that attracts them, and accept them. It is NEVER easy for a gay person to come out, and if they trusted you enough to tell you about this, that speaks a lot about what kind of a friend you are. I am glad that you accept them, and that you want to understand. Frankly my dear, you might never fully comprehend until you are in THAT kind of relationship. But, I admire how you are going about with your confusion. Just be a friend to them. It is their choice. Their lifestyle. And they are your friends. =)\n\nI hope this helps you out. =)
346091
One reason, I believe, is that the appetite for sex seems so overwhelming in gay males.  (Have no idea what the lesbian focus on sex is.) If you are new to the scene, and are exploring and trying to figure things out, this inordinate focus on sex makes things extremely difficult.  Just regular socializing without the intent to "hook-up" is nearly impossible.  Everyone seems to have an angle ending in a sexual situation.  Sheesh.
618586
I feel better around gay guys, but I'm a chick so a gay chick would like TOTALLY gross me out, like omgsh that would be so wrong. But I dunno, since I'm a girl I would feel more comfortable around a gay guy. \n  But it's still wrong
294955
because they are gay!!!
827227
i certainly don't know about every gay guy, but i went through that and so did some of my gay guy friends. the thing is that gay men feel a special bond with straight girls and there is the whole thing of wanting to be "normal". almost every gay guy goes through a phase in their lives where they are just sick and tired of being tormented and ridiculed for being gay and they just would like to be "normal", whatever that is. so don't be hard on him. it does hurt the girls sometimes and that is not good but the gay guy is hurting too.TTFN.
258596
For the same reason us men get jealous when our girls talk with other men very openly.\n\nEveryone knows affection doesn't start out with the looks, it's with the small talk and the experiences we share and all that. Getting *very openly* with someone is an invitation for one of the two to grow affectionate - if not in love - with the other. That's how many friends hook up in the long run.
8609
Why do non-gays get interested in women? If you can answer that, you know the answer to "gays interested in men question".\n\nSorry but there's no real answer.
57323
I think it's gross on guys AND girls. How can you not be aware that part of your a$$ is hanging out? I think some girls do it intentionally as a sort of seduction mechanism. And to the guys who think it's sexy on girls...get a little more classy taste in women.
176111
Why not? It's fun hanging around guys who are just friends and don't make the moves on you.  They also give you lots of perspective on your potential boyfriends and check them out for you which I think is very sweet. It's like having lots of protective and fun brothers!
5789
It depends on who the person I'm hanging around with is. Everyone is different! In my experience though, it's girls, it makes me more comfortable, because, well, I'm one! But, ya know, guys are okay!
789939
Some women flirt with gay guys because they know it's "safe" and they think nothing will ever come of it.  It is unfair to mess with your head.  But a true friendship can balance on the edge of a physical relationship, no matter the claimed sexual preferences.  There could be some truth to the fact you feel some "soul" connection to her...I believe strongly in these things.  A  relationship from a former life, if you believe in reincarnation this can be possible (soul mates).  Keep it casual, because it can be fun.  If it gets serious to the point of a possible sexual encounter, she will back away or not.  If you are open, let it happen....it could be the beginning of a wonderful relationship of just friends.  I believe, if she thinks she will get hurt, she will back out.  Do remember hearts are on the line, yours and hers, and many times sex can ruin a good relationship.  Communicate with her all your feelings and you can seldom go wrong.  Good luck.
183919
if you ask me its better that they do that.. that way you have your own time, being together to much can cause them to push themselves away, getting the feeling they are controled or smuthered.. him wanting to hang out with his friends sometimes just makes him have his time to think and be a guy, cause seriously what guy like sitting around watching chick flixs and going shopping and all the stuff that we do 24/7?? besides gay men, i cant really think of any. it doesnt mean that he dont like/love you any less just means he needs is space sometimes, so take advantage of it and get some girl time in with your friends!
173019
i dont think the society accept bi females neiher... but maybe if you compaer it to acceptin bi males maybe people accept bi females more...\nthe reason is usually when females hang out they seem to be very close phsically even if they're just friends... but for guys that kinda like have this border of being too close... so maybe its because of this it just makes people feel different...
792823
Yes, because I'm shy too and I get it.  Alot of people don't get it and think that you have to be controlling or something if you dont have many friends or blah blah blah whatever.  Ignore all that crap and just respect and understand that whoever you go out with is probably gonna have friends that they want to hang out with as long as its people of the same sex then let her do her thing.  As for her having guy friends well people can't say you're jealous or controlling about that because most people that may criticize it feel the same way and wouldn't want there other half to be hanging out with someone of the oppisite sex... some are okay with it but honestly most aren't.  Just don't try to force them to make you the only person(friend)  in their life just because thats what they might be to you.
118437
Because she likes to chill with them.  Maybe they are nice to her, maybe they are her friends.  Just because she likes you doesn't make her your property.  She can hang out with guys before, during, and after liking you because her life choices are her own, you don't get to make them for her.
1033065
Because girls also need friends....duh...why do guys have gal---friends??