is having fun on the internet (chatting, etc...) adultery?
825374
if you're developing any kind of feelings or fantasies, then yes... and initially, there may be none, but more and more contact brings in more and more emotions and other thoughts... emotional betrayal is still betrayal...
1066771
I believe that it is cheating when one fantasies about others. If one lust in their mind for some one other than their spouse, it's adultry.
553176
None of your business. However, it's not a bad idea to have a chat with the cheater, and just reminder her that marriage is sacred and you're so glad she's decided to commit to being eternally faithful to him.
762902
HAHA, if you know 'for sure' he will never cheat then he's probably doing it right now, that's how it works (I'd explain but I think it would be irrelevant on this question). For me to be happy what I enjoy is not being told what to do everyday (I hate waking up & being told what Im doing that day), don't be a psycho, give me my space & trust me when I go out, & be a freak when the time is right.
986649
Isn't this called cheating?
553913
He had an "emotional" connection with this person, so...by definition, he already cheated, hence a "real affair".  Sometimes it is worse than when it is just for physical gratification, with no emotion attached.  Don't know if he would have a physical relationship with someone other than his wife...some men prefer to not go beyond the cyber thing, as that is what their turn on is, so it's just a matter of who and how he is, and how sound the marriage is.
122145
it's not. why are you snooping around anyways? if you suspect your spouse of cheating there are software programs you can buy to read their email, but i don't know any.
257422
Log off and get on with your life. Believe it or not, there was a time before the Internet when people did things in real life. Talked to each other, played sports, listened to music, read books, had sex with another person, went out to pubs, clubs etc. Anything in fact other than sitting in front of a computer typing frantically like I'm doing right now. And if you're asking why I'm not taking my own advice and not going out - it's dark and it's raining!
630443
flirting or cheating one or the other depending on motive
281093
Cheating is unfaithfulness in any way.  Emotionally, physically.  You can cheat on the internet and never meet the person.  It's still cheating.
127226
yes i think it is. i had a man in my life that was obsessed with others on the internet
1174982
yes it is. how would u feel if ur significant other was having cybersex w/ some1 else? that would hurt me. i think it's cheating b/c ur thinking about having sex w/ someone else & basically are just not physically.
1036320
Truthfully, it is probably none of your business.  I am sure he let you borrow his phone considering that you could be mature enough to accept that he may like to look at things like that.  As long as he is not making any advances to you, let things be.  No one was ever called a bad person just for enjoying porn.  If that were the case, then more than half the free world would be bad.
1049020
It's easy to feel this way about someone that you are communicating to on the internet.  Probably many things in common, sense of humor, etc.  Be careful tho.  On the internet there is no commitment, no responsibility.  It's a whole new ball game when you're together.  Take things very very very slow, don't let your emotions take over, it's too dangerous.  Be cautious and if you meet do it in a public place not just once but every time for quite some time.
1174588
Yes, I think so. Flirting is only a game and, if played properly, can be fun for both parties, provided your boy or girlfriend realise you're not serious. The flirting must, however, be light and slightly tongue in cheek.
379457
Is phone sex the same as cyber sex?\nA mutual self pleasuring event.
973252
Wow that's different.....I've heard of people doing dirty chatting while they are having sex but not having conversations about other people..  Usually the talk is, if there is any at all , is about how good it is making us feel..................