If it didnt work out once(two years ago) Think it could work out now???
815683
All depends on how old y'all are. If y'all are still young, then its possible. It also depends on how y'all broke up in the first place. If there was cheating involved, then it wont work. I wish y'all the best!
622504
well, I'm hoping that your relationship does work out. I'm in the same situation, but my bf is a year older that yours. We are talking about moving in together after I graduate next year, and the talking has already started. I believe that if both of you are willing to work on it, then there is no reason that your relationship will fail. Good luck.
1171123
Seriously, how do you think things will be fixed unless you TALK? That could be exactly the thing that's keeping you apart. Go ahead and say what's supposed to be said. If you don't do this you'll always look back and wonder how things would've worked out if you had spoken to each other. Go ahead and do it.\nGood luck! :)
113126
if you think it can work out then give it a try, whats the worst that could happen? give him a chance if it doesnt work you gained another experience in your life. sometimes people just need a little push to realize theyre immature. give it your best shot and i hope it works out
39317
HOPEFULLY I WILL. WHILE MY 1ST MARRAIGE WAS A DISMAL FAILURE (MOSTLY BECAUSE OF MYSELF), I MISS THE BOND AND THE FEELINGS INVOLVED IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. HOPEFULLY, I HAVE LEARNED SOME LESSONS THAT I SHOULD HAVE LEARNED LONG AGO.
721404
Be prepared for the fact that it probably wont work out, but go for it anyway
762315
Gotta' admit, sounds like a plan to me!!\n\nLike every 2 years?  With an option to evaluate twice within that 2 years and if both evaluations are negative, the marriage is over?\n\nHey, I think you are on something here!!
507750
Just move out, did you consider doing so.  What you're about to do might seem nice and hot now, but will you be able to deal with this in the future??? Can you just think of how terrible the consequences might be?  Start thinking of it backwards, if you will be able to deal with this and the possible consequences of this than go right ahead, if not, I suggest you take a real action like moving out, we're all weak and if this is how you feel now than there is a big chance that you both might weaken again one day.
899544
you can try... obviously u have to change... and let her know...\nits possible that it too late. Take what you learnt form that experience to ensure that it wont happen with the next. goodluck!
368053
If you are skeptical after two years he is not the one! Don't waste your time on someone you are not 100% sure of, or ask yorself has he done anything to you to make you think he does not care?? If yes, then there you go, if no, why are you skeptical??
623461
It has worked out for people before but I would not get myself all high about it until you meet this person and spend some time togeather. Be cautious.
338963
sometimes you don't know you can only hope.I have been in realtionsh;ips where I was in love and thought that all was great, just to find out that the other person could not stand to be in the relationship. I have also been on the the opposite side of the relationship. Time tells no lies.
1123453
yes, if the two people are willing to work through hard times! there will always be ups and downs in a relationship, we need two people who are willing to work through it all.
895395
It's a hard thing to see. If you could see how your future would be like with someone, though, it would be pointless. Hate to make this short and sweet, but the best way you can go about this is going with the flow. Arguments are bound to happen, but if you can work through them, that is what you can look forward to. To see that things can work out.
53301
I WOULD JUST GO FOR IT, I MEAN YOURE NOT REALLY LOSING ANYTHING SO JUST GIVE IT A SHOT AND IF THINGS DONT WORK OUT THEN THATS OK, YOU NOW KNOW THAT YALL ARNT MEANT TO BE BUT IF THINGS DO THEN YOU'LL BE GLAD THAT YOU DID GIVE IT A SHOT:) please help me with my problem, my question is posted under friends and family.
522384
yes, but seeing if the relationship can actually work might take a little longer*
38385
i would forgive the 1st time, afterall we're married, no matter how long he has been doing it...we gotta work it out for our kids, right? it would take time to 4get things, though...he does it the 2nd time & bam! he's out the door.