I'm in love with someone I can't have...?
819178
You're already married.  That should be the end of it.
983273
Unfortunately, it involves the man I cannot have.
211081
Your going to have to explaing it to him again and again if necessary . if u dont love him you better not accept any proposal outa guilt..itll only hurt you both later. but if he cant accept that it will be best to not see him for a month or so. give him some time to cool off and get over you. youll find its very hard to get over somebody when they are always right in front of you. after he "heals" you just may be able to be friends.
425794
You've got a simple case of wanting what you can't have!  You don't really want him; you just want him to want you.  Once you realize that's your problem, you can move on and have a healthy relationship with someone worthy of you.
587404
From what you say it seems your dilemma is...your head verses your heart... the head is usually right you didn't say why he couldn't commit... but in any case i think you've already conceded that fact. My advice would be to make a clean break... continuing to be friends is just keeping your hope alive... I say continue on with your life meet someone new... yes it is completely possible  and likely that you will fall in love with someone else... which ends your dilemma...good luck in whatever you choose to do
1091644
what you do is move on and find someone else to love and who will love you back. you dont need to be with someone who is deceiving you.
266311
I don't think its wise you become emotionally attached to this person who cannot be emotionally availible. It will only lead to distress and heartache.\n\nI would suggest taking you mind off the person. Its important to let her know that you cannot put yourself in this situation, because its an emotional strain.\n\nIf she truly values her happiness, she will do the right thing. Hopefully she will know better than to stay in such a destructive relationship, but that's something she will need to decide on her own.\n\nBe patient and more importantly drop all expectations toward the situation. Perhaps you should focus finding someone who is capable of investing the same about of love into a relationship as you are.\n\nYour happiness is at stake. Think about whats important for your own well-being.\n\nGood luck
921906
Unfortunately life doesn't always pan out how we imagined or hoped it would. This girl may be taken or she just might not want to have a relationship with you, i dont know why you cannot be with her, but there are other girls and although she seems like your world at the minute, you will learn to move on. You will find someone who you love, and you can hold. Give it time. Good luck.
134914
WHN U KNOW THE FACT THT U REALLY CANT B WITH HER THN TRY ACCEPTING THIS FACT\nI KNOW IT REALLY HURTS BT THERE IS NO OTHER WAY OUT THERE\nIT WILL SURELY TAKE TIME BT AS TIME WILL PASS U WILL FORGET HER\n\n\nONE MORE THING LIFE NEVER STARTS AND ENDS WITH ONE PERSON IT WILL GO ON AND ON AND ON \nDNT U THINK THT IT IS POSSIBLE THT MAY B UMEET A PERSON WITH WHOM U WILL REALLY FALL IN LUV\n\n\nDNT LOSE HOPE AND B JOLLY TRY TO B WITH UR FRNDS AND START FORGETTIGN ABT THT THING WHCH CAN NEVER B URS
56532
Ask yourself, "is there anything I wouldn't do or give up for this person?"  \n\nImagine your life without him/her.  Then, imagine spending the rest of your life with him/her.  Listen to your gut!
784463
So this is someone you love but you're not dating? If they're not with anyone then tell them how you feel. Better to be honest and open and get your feelings out there.
144295
Move on we all deserve equal oppourtunity in love.. someone who is out there will love you as much as you need. \nOR have tyou not be honest with this person. Tell them that you love them and give them the choice leave that person  alone or come and recieve all of your good loving!!
604109
he's right you cant, it is hard to love some one who doesn't feel the same but if you don't want to lose their friendship you just need to let her go, and realize that all you will ever be is a friend. and love her as a friend. and let it be.
77488
You certainly can , I have anyway . Love is hard to explain and understand for that matter . Love can  make us do things that we never thought possible . I will tell you this much though if you do love two people you are in for a rough ride . Your best bet is to be honest as possible with both of them or you could lose them both .
56004
I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
483152
I would suspect that if he doesn't know that you exist, then what you have is not love but affection, or perhaps infatuation.  that is okay, there is nothing wrong, but it is important to recognize the difference.  Regardless, there is but one thing you can do.  talk to him.  You must put the question in the light and let the dialogue lead you.  If you cannot do this, then you must recognize the crush for what it is, and regrettably move on.  Likely, there will be many more to consider and further oppurtunities to embrace.
1025831
Why cant you take not being with him????? You havn't seen many ppl i suppose or may have had narrow vision. If you talk about Love, then, you cant forcibly take it.... and some1 not loving you doesn't prohibit you from loving him. !! (well, am talking abt true love). I feel its better to let ppl go, and not be possessive. If he's yours, he'll come back to you or else, he never was yours. Would anyone like to keep some1 with her/him, who stabs on back????\nSo, nevermind, be cool, and happily let him go. You'll find a better one for you.\n(Well, hope he's not a billionaire and thats wat bothering you to let him go!! ;)    jus kidding.... )\nGood luck