Whats the deal with women in porn?
819673
Why don't you post your ridiculous straight sex questions to the 99.999 percent of YA that is straight?\n\nWhy post it here?
4662
Look for Amateur Porn...it has real people, having real sex...not silicone enhanced women and all the pulling out of regular porn.\nI am female and i like watching amateur porn with the guy I am with if he is into that.
764692
Men are generally more visual than women in terms of finding mates. Its programmed into their instincts, this is why 'porn' turns men on but not women who are generally more emotionally-attached.\n\nAn average woman would go for Personality, followed by anything that helps support her (sensitivity, maturity, maybe even financial needs i suppose). Good looks are usually somewhere in the middle in the priority list.
408482
They're pretend. You would have seen their "lower private parts" inside each other if it was real. Pornos have real sex.
456090
It is just another feminist organization trying to change the society and make it equal. But have we not seen the surge in porn, from online to off line to corner stores in our city? How the woman is used and abused in each and every one of the vids? \n\nThat is their impact for giving the 18 year old young girls the choice to be what they want to be.
899261
Uh, we like doing it porno style.  We like girls that are well behaved in public and dirty girls in the bedroom.  Actually we are mentally "filming" a dirty movie when we are having sex with women, but that's not a bad thing because we might actually think about you the next time we masterbate.\n\nYou asked.
982226
Porn appeals to men because they are very visual. Women are not so visual. Men also seem to be able to completely separate the physical act of sex from any kind of emotion. Most women arent able to do this. They do make porn for women that has more of a story line, and more developed relationships in the story. I dont know - I suppose that there are women who DO like porn, but I tend to think they are the exception to the rule. Who knows WHY men and women like different things - its probably a combination of different brains and different upbringings, socializations, expectations, etc . . .
58606
yup there is definitely good porn and bad porn.  but if your into real freaky stuff...whos to say whats good and bad.  good thing about porn is it gets me hornier...so i take it out my wife. and that part she loves. my wife doesnt necessarily like the porn itself..i think she finds it vulgar at times...but she doesnt necessarily mind it either.  I think she doesnt mind it because I like it, she is a great wife, and lets me be me.  but at the same time, it can be addicting for men, and if gets to that point then no porn is bad.  just like liquor or cigaretts or FOOD for that matter.  anything in large amounts isnt good.  My advice is to try it out and see what you think.  try it by yourself and with someone youd like to "experience" something new and exciting with.  Another cool way to learn new positions and exciting new styles of love making ... check out a book on Tantric Sex.  Basically its a how too on good sex.
990364
lots of good pornos can show you.  Becarful they are professionals.
769271
One thing you can talk about is the dangers of "girl porn."  No, this is not x-rated female pornography, that still fits under the category of "guy porn."  Girl porn consists of romance novels and "chick flicks" or any other media that focus on a woman or the "perfect" relationship.\n\nHow is this porn?  Look at guy porn for a moment.  The appeal of guy porn is firstly, visual.  Men are visual creatures and pornography feeds that need of visual stimulation.  But a bunch of nude women doing nothing is very rare among pornographic media.  You can see that at any art museum.  On the contrary, what's more appealing about pornography is that guys can fantasize that the woman (or women) want nothing but to please the man.  The women in porn movies are usually very vocal, submissive and willing to please no matter what.  It makes it all about the guy.  Even adult magazines have women in exotic locations and poses with the woman staring wantonly in the camera.  It's the same idea of "I want you" that makes it so attractive to men.  Basically, for the viewer of pornography, it's a form of idolatry or self-worship.  They enjoy the idea of being the god of, so to speak, the subject of the porn. \n\nNow, women have their own version of porn called "girl porn" or the romance novel or chick flick.  While romance novels can get pretty steamy and I don't feel they need be addressed too much, most chick flicks are PG, so how can they be called porn?   Unlike the predominantly visual man, women tend to be more emotionally intuitive.  So, the romance novel and chick flick satisfy this emotional part, but that's not what's danerous about them.  Because they satisfy the same desire men have in women, this desire to be admired and worshiped above all things by a man.  This satisfies the same desire guy porn does for the women.  Like guy porn, girl porn allows women to fantasize that the guy is willing to do anything and everything for his lady.  He loves her more than life itself.  He worships her.  She is his goddess, so to speak.  Just as guy porn makes it all about satisfying the all thedesires of the man, girl porn is all about satisfying all the the desires of the woman.  Similar go guy porn, which doesn't show the consequences after the movie (broken relationships, guilt, possible std's or pregnancy, etc.), girl porn is supposedly "happily ever after" as well.  They fall in love and everything goes swimmingly from then on, which is just as unrealistic as two beautiful women being attracted to Ron Jeremy.  \n\nWhat's so bad about being wanted?  Let me answer with another question.  Where does God fit into the traditional chick flick?  The biblical idea of a relationship between man and women are not two people face to face, focused on eachother, it is a man and woman hand in hand, side by side, focused on God.   The chick flick takes God out of the picture and guarantees to satisfy desires that can only be satisfied by a loving relationship with God.
456213
I'm guessing they don't make great money, because some of those chicks have bad boob jobs, and bad teeth. What's up with all the gross guys with potbellies. I've never  seen a hot guy in a porn.
354922
Because no matter what, one woman will never be enough for most guys. They are pigs. They fantasize about doing more than one girl at once because they can't have just one. They are sluts.
543745
I don't think it means you are a Lesbian or bi-sexual,I think alot of women out there Like looking at pictures of women and there are alot that find watching a porn with a woman on woman scene is arousing,but it does not make them Lesbians,I will watch porn with my fiancee and get turned on by 2 women,but that does not mean I am going to go be with a woman,I have never and I do not plan on ever being with a woman in a sexual situation,so I think you are normal,just more honest about your feelings than some women.
139836
It's not - neither are accepted in the real world for the most part - because many people are severely close minded.\n\nYou must be thinking of porn...  but those women are being paid, they're not really lesbian and the men watching them are using those movies/photos for fantasy.\n\n& FYI - women like gay male porn almost as much as guys like to see lesbian porn...  :P
666591
Good question.  I'm also happily married (although we are separating because my 7 year old whops me).  I went out with a guy for 3 years, & we watched lots of porn & looked at porn magazines.  (We never had sex.  I was waiting until I got married.)  What I noticed about the girls was the skimpy clothing & their poses, the artistic qualities of the shots, stuff like this.   Maybe a girl looks too young, another is clearly a virgin, & yet another has had a c-sect.  This is what sort of things that I noticed.  I didn't really find it significantly arousing.  Fast forward to being married for about 10 years.  Porn is everywhere on the internet.  The porn emails are sneaky.  One cannot avoid the porn.  Sometimes, it is arousing sexually.  But, I can just delete it!  I don't need it to satisfy desires or fantasies.  Sometimes, a position looks interesting, so I keep it in mind for next time we are making love.  But, I don't involve lust after anyone I see.  I turn myself on just fine.  I think that men usually do lust after the girls that they see.
1052596
If you are referring to gay porn with all men, then no, it isn't likely to be women.  Women are much more likely to find women together a turn on visually than men together - even if they would never want to actually have sex with another woman (sorry guys!).  The amount of (male) gay porn is due to the demand from gay men (funnily enough!).
1085764
Wow, you are every girl's dream! It's perfectly fine to not get turned on by porn. The real thing is better anyway! I think I speak for a lot of women when I say I wish there were more guys like you out there! (Not that I'm necessarily against porn, but I'm not thrilled with some of the sick stuff that's out there.)