Still hurt by guy I have no feelings for anymore?
818008
It all boils down to you wanting attention. You want this guy to pay attention to you even though you have no feelings for him. Your jealous because the attention is not on you. You can't expect it to be about you anymore. It doesn't work like that.
1187931
You have only talked to this guy once. More importantly, he has only talked to you once. There is no way you have feelings for this guy. There is also no way he has any for you. It sounds like an act of desparation to me. If you must continue to talk to this guy, take it VERRRRRRRRRY Slowly, and for god's sake, be careful!!
870044
Ya get over him. You just gotta realize that in the grand scheme of things he is insignificant. He may have hurt you but people hurt eachother all the time. You yourself have probably hurt someone at some point. Everything that happens does so for a reason. You learned a hard lesson on what not to look for in a man and hopefully you picked up on that lesson and it will make the rest of your life easier. Life is what you make it and you can choose to live in the past or to take each lesson you learn along the way and create a wonderful future.
695352
This just means that you are not deeply in love with this person. It will come. Once you get to know him better you will feel different. Whether your not attracted to him or you just cant be yourself around him. I've expierenced this situation and know exactly what to do. Follow my advice and you'll get somewhere in life.
329588
well, i'm sorry that this guy isn't being that nice, but it's obvious he doesn't like u really and he has no interest in u. u should move on and want to move on. he's not treating u right. you're only hurting yourself by still wanting to call him. u shouldn't really want to love someone who treats u this way. u deserve better since wanting a guy who doesn't want u only causes pain and it's just a waste of time. u can likely find a guy who'd want u too and u can find numerous guys better than this guy who can treat u better and you'll likely develop feelings for other guys in the future so just move on and the hell with this rude dude.
368031
The best advice to give to you is just keep seeing him then you will eventually tire of him and you will stop having feelings for him coz if you stop seeing him now it will just torment you..the same thing happened to me and I got the courage to walk away once I couldnt take anymore.
288855
I'm going thought the same thing right now, he actually told me that he doesn't want me to call him anymore because every time we talk we get into an argument, regardless of all the crap we went through i still love him, i don't know your situation, but honestly there is nothing that you can actually do to get over somebody that you really really love, just live your life and eventually the feelings will die out. what you can do though is just go out and mingle with other people, i find that this is very helpful, hope ive helped!
1149424
the feeling has been dying down. why dont u talk to him. unless u dont want him really in the first place.
1040179
What hurts you most? he's not in love with you anymore or he's love, or he's hunting for someone else? whats the matter?\nIf it hurts that he's not with love with you! carry on and accept it. Life becomes better when you accept things even if they hurt, they are the whole truth. \nIf it toubles you that he is in love with someone, you should dump him, frankly even being a boy i tell you this. He is not worth your pain and tears. \nTry making friends on the net, dont disclose your identity but talk out things with someone who really is understanding and can talk about it to you. Different people's opinoin don't help to lead a life but they surely can give good ideas, accept them and make the best of it to forget your past.\nRemember, only one thing, this was a lesson life thought you and the things you lost was the price for the same\nThere is no gain without pain. So just chill and hang on you will come along be with positive attitude people.
371194
you move on.  He sounds really insensitive.  I think when someone shares their tender feelings of attraction that the least the person on the recieving end of it could be is nice.  It sucks when they don't care.
656144
You feel so bad because you are interacting with a narcissistic sociopath.  He keeps coming back and wooing you so you can tell him how lovable he is.  Then he "wins" by dumping you again.\n\nStop playing his game!  The only possible outcome is for you to get hurt again and again.  The next time he contacts you, tell him you have a stable relationship and don't want anymore contact.  Then hang up, put him on your email spam list, and throw away his letters unopened. He probably has a vast set of victims just like you, so he can go torture somebody else.
944162
Wow someone sounds positively angry with the guys......some men are this way but many are not....it sounds like you have been hurt ....if so you need to not let this turn you into a bitter, and twisted person try to get past it. Good luck.
405572
You still seem to be focused on your own feelings. He doesn't seem to want to talk about it. Why are you bringing up hurt feelings. He has said that it is over and he forgives you. You seem  to be dwelling on it as if you feel that he didn't punish you enough. Sometimes you have to accept that everything will not get the necessary 'closure' that we all need. He might be the type of person who likes to work out their issues quietly within himself. He might be one of the types of men who heal better by just having time and thought. If he feels you are pushing him so you can have some kind of GUILT RELIEF and call it closure, he just might leave. You feel taken for granted but guilty about what you did. You want closure. You feel like he doesn't love YOU. You don't talk about it (You and he). You are willing to talk. You have changed.  He doesn't want to talk about it. He doesn't see the change. I would be tired of you if I was him your whole thing seems so self motivated and yet you are the one who messed up. It depends on what you did because if you cheated, honey he will never forget that and you will have to either stick in there until he is ready to completely forgive you or you can let him find someone who is more interested in the word WE and not HE and I.
649986
I think you should tell him how you feel about him once again and if he don't respond to you then maybe you should move on because if he can't get over this the truth is it would be hard to make a relationship work with him anyway there would be trust issues i believe speaking from experience. So tell him how you feel about him and see what happens. If he don't respond then maybe you should try to find someone else and stop waiting for this guy.
308831
Two schools of thought on that one\n\n1.Quit leading the poor fella on, either you love him or you don't. It sounds as if he definitly takes your feelings into consideration, why not do the same. \n\n2.Give him and love a real chance and you might surprise yourself finding out just how wonderful it can be to have someone in your life that puts your feelings first, there's not a lot of us guys out there like that.
553394
Take this as a learning lesson.  I did the same thing and I know how it feels.  Just remember everything happens for a reason.  You hurt his feelings so let him have some space to figure things out.
681169
Get over him. Don't even let him know you care 'cause some men simply don't appreciate positive emotional honesty. My bet is once you start giving him the cold shoulder he'll eventually start coming around once more. If he isn't showing much interest, don't go mourning over it. Cry your tears, dry them and move on. It's better that way.