Why would my husband ask for a divorce after buying a house with me?
823487
It appears the love is gone and he want's an open marriage and you no that's wrong anyways he may have found love in one of his mistresses.  I would say it's over and carry on with your life sell the house split the assets and find a man who will treat you with the dignity and respect you deserve.
1179693
There could be several reasons; most of which have already been offered.\n\nHowever, it could be that she doesn't feel like she is getting equitable treatment in the settlement.  If that is the case, she may well be speaking with an attorney in an attempt to have a more equitable settlement drawn.\n\nOr it could be something as simple as she is just being pissy in an attempt to get even with her louse of a soon-to-be-ex-husband.
23910
It sounds like there's blame involved in your situation -- that the debt is caused by one of you (e.g., gambling, drugs, bad investments).\n\nIf this is so, you and/or your spouse will probably need therapy to work out the behavior that caused the debt.\n\nIf no blame were involved, I can't imagine why it wouldn't work out between the two of you.
298059
I would be very worried if I was you.  Something in your relationship has changed whether you know it or not.  A husband should be willing to share all he has equally with his wife.  You might need to consult a lawyer to find out how to protect yourself and get what you were promised.
621299
It's not fraud or extortion.  If the title is in his name, and you are not on the title of the home... he is the owner of the home.\n\nIf both of you are on the title, both of you would have signed mortgage docs (you would have had to acknowledge the presence of a mortgage).\n\nWhatever you two did with the money is between you two.  Yes you've been had; this is a civil matter.  Did you have an agreement between the two of you(written)?
90078
Wait until its final.Don't be in such a rush.That's probably why you are getting a divorce now,you need to take your time.
1149062
You are both legally responsible for the house mortgage since, as you said, you bought it together.\nNow would be a good time to come to some agreement on the house and/or any other properties you acquired together and allow one to buy the other one out, or sell the house and split the profits.
95269
I too read that those couples who stick it out are happier 5 years after the issue than those couples who divorce.\n\nIf you are having a hard time telling him you want a divorce, I have to ask if you have had a hard time communicating your needs and wants in a way he is sure to hear and understand.\n\nRemember, most of you ladies speak a different "language" than guys, and then get upset when we don't understand.  Your difficulty in telling him leads me to believe you could learn to improve your part in the the communication cycle.
302165
It doesn't sound like you are being taken for a fool. You are describing consistent and positive changes in your husband's behavior. What a blessing! It's so refreshing to see a couple get the help they need. If you're not ready to live together again yet, how about courting each other? Maybe you need a totally fresh start. Go on dates and get to know each other again. And go on family outings. Be up front with your kids that you and daddy love each other and are trying to work things out. I believe in time you will see that he truly has changed for the better. Give your marriage a chance. I think you're going to be very happy!\n\nGod Bless!
1048211
I am not an attorney, but can give you some things to think about. \nYour half of the value can go up or down, depending on market value.  How much total is he giving you as your part.  It should be 1/2 of the value (equity) left after the loan is paid,when you got your divorce. When you quitclaim, you are saying you no longer have an interest on the house.  Are you sure he would agree to put you back on the house.\n\nIf he refinances, he is using up your equity.  If the house gets sold, there will be a bigger loan to pay off.  There may or may not be any money left after the loan is paid off.\n\nHope I didn't confuse you. I really suggest you consult an attorney who will look out for your rights.
1004480
This has nothing whatever to do with marital property rights, community property or anything else. (Although would be important in other circumstances.) But here, your name is on the deed.\n\nIf your name is on the deed then you have an interest in the property. If the deed is simply to you and your spouse with nothing further stated then your interest is the same as your husband's.
669348
well, hindsight is 20/20, u should have waited for the divorce.  Sounds like he wants to retain the respect of his children and not tell them until after the divorce that he is living with you, so stop sweating the small stuff...BUT, if after the divorce, it's still the same....kick his a$$ out!!  good luck!
859818
If you move your new spouse into your home you don't need to do anything.  If you're buying a home together then should't both names be on it?  I wouldn't buy a house with someone and not put my name on the deeds - husband or not!
583860
There are three aspects:\n\n1. Asking for paying difference: Bank get the agreement in such a way that if they sell property and the same is not sufficient they can sue for remaining amount and get that from other personal property of the loanee. So the bank can definitely ask your husband for difference.\n\n2. Going after you: They cannot as you were not party to the loan.\n\n3. Bank disposing off the property at lower rate - If bank have advertise the auction properly and have sold that house in the auction then I am afraid you may not be able to do anything. However if you can prove that bank has not taken proper care to sell like they would have done for their own property then you can definitely sue the bank.
714245
is the house paid for in full? is it in your name? If it is in your name and you can not keep up the payments do you really want it? If it is in his name go while the getting is good you don't need a man like that.  If it is in your name tell him he can buy you out!
496948
I used to practically beg my ex-husband for it... then, after I asked for a divorce, he told me that he was watching movies every night after I went to bed.  (I had no clue & felt so dumb!)  He said that it was because when he was with me it didn't last long (it didn't, maybe 15-20 seconds).  When he, um, took matters into his own hands, he could prolong matters and it felt better.  Then he asked for my help.  It opened the door of communication, I helped with "exercises", but we still divorced.  I was emotionally over him and just drained.  I felt like he lied to me for too many years and he was being selfish.  Don't wait.  Get help now, before it's too late....  What a waste!  We both enjoyed sex - it could have been so much better.
307369
He wants to make sure that everyone knows that you are WAY off the market.  He has made a very small commitment, but if your not planning on marrying him I would cut and run.  He sounds somewhat controlling, but it could just be that ya'll are young and tenatious.