Does anyone wonder why people think that it's wierd to date a different race other than yours?
820918
I never understood that either.  I think it's bold to be interested in other races and cultures besides your own.  A person is only as good as his/her heart.  Thanks for bringing an excellent question!  Godloveya.
870065
I personally think interracial dating is a beautiful thing. I don't think it matters as long as the the two people that is in that relationship are happy, that's all that matters. f$%K what other people think. it's the 21st century and if they can't deal with it, then don't look. And about the babies. Beautiful kids. that's all I have to say.
940450
It's not a matter of for or against. An individual has a right to decide who s/he chooses to date. Some like blondes, some brunettes, some redheads. \n\nAnd there are others who prefer to date outside their race. It's just a matter of personal preference. However it is preferable for both to understand the culture of each other. Otherwise friction can occur in the relationship. \n\nMy women have been African, Caribbean and Latin American, by the way. And the woman I am going to marry has a bit of all three!
739417
Most people feel more comfortable with people they can relate to. and skin color is the most easily recognisable bond anyone can have. \nThings like similar interests and upbringing are often determined by racial backgrounds. Although it does not have to be the rule. I'm white and I would have had no problem with marrying a man of a different race. I try to look for qualities that I admire. I just happened to find them in a white guy, which was a fairly good probablility, considering I live in an area where there isn't a huge mix of races.
302439
evryone discriminates in some form.But if your having a problem with someone of a different race, then try to understand that race. Or better yet learn the culture. Im Italian, Ive lived in the bronx all my life. Growing up I only hung out with Italians(or Whites). My high School was a Majority Black And Hispanic. I didnt care much for them. But once i got out of school and in to the real world (work). I started to interact with different people on a friendly basis. I opened up and realized things that i thought in the past were so wrong. Ive dated all types of girls and today im UNhappily married to a Filipina. But she gave me the best little girl in the world. So i cant complain. But anyway, just open up to someone and ask questions. Find out what kind of life they lead and you'll see so many similarities.
242143
I suspect that inter-racial dating / mingling is considered to be a taboo act because of the values which were instilled in us by our parents and other "elders," if you will.  Many of us younger people have either parents, grandparents, or even great-grandparents who would have been pariahs during their day for dating outside their race.  It was just historically something that people didn't do out in the open.  Sure, racial intermingling has been around forever, but because of conservative thinking and religious beliefs, and any other way to over-classify something and make people scared (read as ignorant) no one cared to express their active or passing interest in other races. Fortunately, in this day and age, people are a lot less close-minded, and a lot more happiness minded.  It's your life and your happiness, you have the right to love whomever you wish.  \n\nCheers.
428102
no not racist just personal preferences\npeople date who makes them feel comfy and happy\nif the curiosity is not their or opportunity to date outside race and a person prefers their race that is not racist\nto think the other races are beneath you or you are full of hate and that is why you would not interracially date that is racist but to just prefer to date your own race is not\ninterracial relationships require extra energy and tolerance alot of people do not have energy for
97063
well its the fact that its an exotic thing, what i mean is that a japanese women could be with a american black male, and from other cultures there personality and thoughts are different when it comes to relationships. for instance in the example i just gave it may be a perfect match
30132
why you think its different from dating any other colored guy.
326751
Ignore them. It is not yo to them to judge you. Who are they to say where you find happiness in your life?\nI have dated outside my race SEVERAL times and I have learned that the only reason people do this is the same reason people put others down for any reason in life...#1-ignorance\n#2 They are miserable and can not stand to see someone else happy\n\nIf you find happiness whether its with your same race or not good for you! Congratulations!!!
365350
Personally, I think you love who you love and if that makes it a bi-racial relationship then so be it! Unfortunately, ignorant people in this world don't like it. The thing is, there are alot of people who don't like to see people date out of their race. For instance, Oprah had this whole show on how black men don't like to see black women dating white men. But, black women say there aren't enough professional, elligible black men out there. As I said, I think you love who you love and that is life.
654574
it depend on the person, ive seen some hot black guys, ive seen some ugly black guys. ive seen some hot white guys, ive seen some ugly white guys- you just cant group the entire race together in one general subject. you may just have a preference which nothing is worng with that, i prefer dating black guys over white guys cuz thats my preference but i do date white guys, if they are cute, i date them- thats my theory lol
830131
Good point. Some people would contradict themselves with this.  I personally think that being with someone outside of your race is wonderful. However, if someone chooses to be with someone of their own race, it is their personal choice, and does not make them racist right off. If they want someone the same race for morals and that they share similar beliefs, I would not consider them racist. But if they want someone the same race solely because of their color, etc, that is a bit racist.
449845
Well why could'nt you date outside your race?  There's no reason why you could'nt or should not.  I believe if you had the right frame of mind, about why you are doing what your doing regardless of race, because we are all God's creation, one drop of blood has made all nations.  If you can have the wisdom to know how to handle this world we live in, concerning the thoughts, ideas, opinions, and feelings of others, not to mention lies, and deceits from generations of races, and those who don't have a clue whats really going on.  You can be in control of what you think, and feel about what others say.  Go with your pure heart, after you have renewed your mind!!!  Honey listen I'm not one to go dating to find out if I'm compatable with someome, I did that when a young girl, and didn't have no sense, don't let the world, people, and whatever else dictate your undefiled love life, that's between you, that man, and God!!!    \nHope this Have helped you girlfriend.
639649
I think it's natural we are attracted by people who are different from ourselves. \nYou're not a hypocrite!!! Not at all. Many of us find other races attractive but only some of us are ready to talk about it directly. Those who hide the truth are hypocrites. The problem is that former generations rarely allowed the couples to mix. I think it was the matter of identity and fear of being judged by other people.  \nFortunately, world has changed now and people have changed as well. We are used to a view of 'mixed pairs' and I love the view! I dream I will also be in such relationship someday...
1070321
Some guys will show tolerance and respect for who you are. Others might think of you in a disgusting way. But with other races, you get to respect each other for who you are as you're both different types of people and can show happiness towards each other that is difficult when you're with people who are of the same race as you.
504430
people who think that there is something wrong w/ interracial dating are totally just silly. Judging anyone by the color of their skin is stupid, my little sister feels the same way. (in the little mermaid coloring book)Ariel was blue and the one guy.....Eric was pink. They ended up w/ a happily ever after.