Would you move to make a relationship work?
825713
Depends on how long the relationshp was long distance, how much I loved the other person, and how logistic the move would be. \n\nYou run huge risks by moving, one is being dumped and stranded in a new city. Move there only if you think you will also benifit from a different surrounding and if you COMPLEATLY and totally without a doubt love the other person...otherwise you might set yourself up for problems\n\nHave I ever heard of it working, yea....is it easy? Depends on the sacrifices everyone is willing to make in order for it to work.
1003311
part of being in a relationship is working together and if you rally want this to work then go for it
671680
My boyfriend and I were friends for less than a year when we started dating. The entire time we have known each other has been spent more apart than together.\nA long distance relationship can work if both people are committed to each other. It's hard work and requires a lot of openness but it's possible to make a long distance relationship work.
771593
Yes and just go with it!! Love is a great thing. Best if luck!!
786022
Actually, I know about long distance relationships all too well. They can work as long as the communication stays very strong and there is a bond between you. Eventually, you're going to have to work on getting the distance fixed, but as long as your connection stays strong, it'll be just fine.
555855
Like any other relationship, as long as you're in love you'll stick together no matter the mileage separating you. My hubby was in England, I was in France, then he was in Malaysia and I was still in France - we did that for 3 years before moving in together, and after 10 years we are married. So it works!
282532
depends a lot on how lod you are.  I got along with some of my brothers and sisters while living at home, and I get along with all of them now that I've moved out.\n\none thing that will damage a relationship is if someone is trying to control you (tell you what religion to follow, what to do in school, what religion to follow, who you should or shouldn't go out with, what religion to follow...).  In the long run; patience, understanding, acceptance, and unconditional love are going to be the things that make a relationship work.  That and just not giving up on a relationship.
798861
of course i would move,but he have to love me to do this otherwise i wouldnt.when u love some one u can do so many things that u couldnt even imagine u can do.
950951
I went out with someone who lived in Spain when I was living in Ireland, I am now married to him and we are about to celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary, so yes, long distance relationships can definitly work, you just have to be prepared to work at them!!
847543
IF YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR OPINIONS YOU MUST HAVE RESERVATIONS.  I WAS IN A 2 MO. RELATIONSHIP AND WE MOVED IN TOGETHER, IT WAS THE BEST DECISION I EVER MADE, BUT WE WERE READY.  WE ARE BOTH DIVORCED WITH NO CHILDREN.  I HAD MOVED FROM NY AND HE LIVED ON MY BLOCK, WE BEFRIENDED EACH OTHER AND CLICKED, FRIENDS FIRST SEEMS TO WORK.  YES, I KNEW IT WAS SO FAST, BUT I CONSIDERED HOW I CARE ABOUT HIM AND FIGURED THAT WHEN AN OPPORTUNITY ARISES GO FOR IT, THAT IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.  IF IT DOES NOT WORK, I KNOW THAT I MADE AN ATTEMPT.  I FIGURED LIFE IS SHORT, IF I DONT DO IT, I WOULD ALWAYS WONDER WHAT IF.  GOOD LUCK!
222734
yes it can be the best move of your's!!!\ntry to email or if you cant get in touch wait he will sur contact you
313299
will long distance relationships work?
346611
yes I believe you need to be in a committed relationship for it to work
508673
seems like you never let yourself move on...is she willing to move with you? does she want to begin a relationship? you need to speak with her and see where her head is at and make sure you both want to make this work
261687
Yes as long as you are BOTH willing to work towards some middle point that you can both live with.
760190
unless one of you will be moving in the future to either the usa or uk then no.\n\nwhat would be the point in even starting as you would have to visit each other regularly for this to work\n\nnot to mention the calls / emails etc etc\n\nthink long and hard over this as i would say you may fall for him and the distance comes between you as neither of you wants to move.\n\n\nits a long way to move only to find out he lives like a pig or is a neat freak or goes to bed really early or not at all etc etc....\n\nyou may think you know them from the visits but to a certain extent you will only see 'best behaviour'\n\ngood luck
48229
Can you afford the move? If you can, I would go for it. If not, I would try to work myself up to it so I can make the move one day.