I need some advice please...(please only answer if you read ENTIRE QUESTION)?
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Aww. I went thru this over the summer break last year. And I'm telling you, fr. female to female, the best thing I did was leave him, and in this case that's what I think you should do. Im not even going to lie, it took alot out of me to leave him! Just like your dude he made me feel bad and yet still I gave him chance after chance cause I thought that he would change and that it was just a phase... Unfortunately, it was'nt a phase, this was the real him. A rough, heartless, mean person that put others down to make him feel better. That's not even the worst of it! I thought he was the one for me SOOO much that I went against my family, ALL FOR HIM! My family turned against me cause they wanted me to not be with him so bad! Back then I didnt understand why they kept on acting like that but now I see. They were just looking out for me. And even though I dont know you, I, looking out for you too because I know how it feels to be where your at right now. It feels as if the whole world has turned against you. And that he's the only one who loves you. (Or at least thats how it felt to me!) Thats not true, after you leave him your eyes will be open again and you'll be able to see who really loves you and those are the people that tried to warn you about him. The best thing you can do is leave him. When I left my boy, at the time I felt like I had made a HUGE mistake, but after I start realizing all the other people in life that is there for me and that have my back thru thick & thin, there was really no point for him being in my life. Boys can only give you so much joy for so little time, but what will you do when that joy turns into pain? Or when he leaves you? Your back to the depressed you again? That's not how it's suppose to be. NEVER let a dude determine how your day is going to be or how you look at the world! You should never even look for happiness in boys, this is kinda old school but, the true happiness lies within yourself. If you feel good about yourself, you wont care what NO ONE thinks about you. See how much you can gain if you leave him? Dont worry ok? The right one for you will come along ok? Dont ever let a dude make you question how much your worth! Im sure your a very sweet person that's just feel into one of the traps that most fall into. It's not your fault. But listen, the best part of breaking up with him is the fact that he WILL want you back! That's what happened to me and he STILL is asking for another chance and what do you think I said? NO! Once he breaks your heart he'll always find another way to do so, so why go thru it? Yeah it makes you stronger but other than that its just causing you great pain. I hope a lesson from my experiences help you! Just remember to stay strong!
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TELL THEM!!!\nit screws up your whole relationship if you don't.
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I'm in the same situation as you.  I think you have to take matters into your own hands, but that requires motivation.  And the lack of motivation is where I'm stuck at right now.  Sorry, this isn't much help.  But I just want to let you know that there are other people who have the same problems.
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I think live is too short for you to put all of your effort on one girl and you aren't even out of school yet. Love hurts, but can be wonderful at the same time. Just don't put all of your "eggs in one basket" live life a little and don't get tied down yet. Take time to be in school and have fun.....responsibility can come later. Good Luck.
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you are making care-full moves i hope you carry with it. As you said it would be too early. I would also opine in the same tone but it seems you are making some irresistible haste which will be waste, if you do not use your own brains. My personal opinion being "look before you leap" suggesting you to be cautious. Some great people say that "your heart should not rule your head"  because they have succeeded in their life by making proper moves at right time. Your age from your profile does not give you freedom to make your own choice on major decision's of life, even though you are major. In this particular episode if you are going to make a long time relationship you should take advice of your parents too. anyway life is yours these are my personal opinion so that you do not fall in a ditch and repent after wards. Net friendship should not be taken seriously until everything is tested first on net itself through cam's, voice chat etc. anyway best of luck.
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I've noticed you've asked basically the same question multiple times.  Clearly you've recognized the problem and want to do something about it.  That's a great start but now you need to actual act, if you haven't already, upon some of the advice you've been given.  \n\nI think nwtobe's response (click on link below in Source(s)) was insightful and very informative.  I surely hope you have taken the next step and actually used some of the resources nwtobe provided.  It's now up to you to follow through, otherwise you have no one else to blame but yourself.  Contact someone now.   \n\nBest of luck and keep your chin up!
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I would say tell them and tell him soon, you don't want to keep leading him on. I would also say honesty is the policy in this situation, just be honest with him let him know how you are truly feeling and why. More than likely your going to hurt him a little but as long as your honest and gentle with his feelings, I think you will both be okay.
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I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
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i agree with mortgage. its hard if you continue the relationship with that guy. if you really care for your bestfriend, just set him free. but if you care more for the guy, then "YOU GO GIRL"...lol...just kidding...seriously, go find another man.
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You should still talk to your counselor.  He/she has dealt with these same issues before, and may be helpful in suggesting things you can do to make it easier on yourself.  They are there to assist you!
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What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
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Go for the one you want.  Sometimes you have to hurt in this life, there's no way around it.  Or, make the true move of love and give them both away at her expense and be an independent girl.  They say we should make everybody happy, but it seems more logical to start with ourselves, doesn't it?  If you can't be happy by making your own friends happy, perhaps you should get new friends.
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Go anyways. So what if your not that good. Its a learning experience and it builds character. In order to survive in this world anymore your self-esteem has to be so high that nothing phases you. Who cares what other people think.
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Find someone else to think about.\n\nSeriously it's the only way.
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The best advice that you can get in a situation like this is going to come from a trained professional--a therapist.  It just might help you find a way to excel on your own, and find the confidence to be anything that you want to be.  Gl, be strong!
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I would approach him privately, and in a matter of fact way, tell him the entire story.  Be calm and serious about it, do not stumble over your words or hold back.  It could change your entire life.