How come nobody likes me at school ??
814557
First off, sit back and figure out why people dont like you.\n\nDo you keep your appearance clean?  Are you friendly to everyone?  Do you participate in school activities? Do you lie or do you prefer to be honest?  Do you make a conscious effort to make friends?  Are you a bully?  Do you do something disgusting at school?\n\nI say if you are trying to make friends, sometimes you have to step outside of your comfort zone.  If needed, get a life makeover.  CHange the activities you do to get around people with the same interests.  Usually friends are gained when you become a good friend yourself.  When people know they can trust you and depend on you- they usually gravitate towards you.\n\nJust be true to yourself...
172922
Don't take it personally. Unfortunately, everyone gets teased in school in some way, shape or form. I myself don't have good memories of school. Just remember to hold your head up high, do your best in school, go to college and get a great career, so that one day, maybe you'll become a President or CEO of a company and those same kids that made fun of you will be coming to you for a job and you can make them clean toilets. All that teasing will be nothing once you leave high school. Just find yourself a friend or friends that like you for who you are. Again, keep your head up kiddo!
921007
Try to give them a chance, but I understand about not connecting, I am not great friends with anyone at school, I like other people
955132
No there isnt.I cant see what youre doing wrong either.Maybe you just have a bunch of crappy people at your school...lol.Everything right there is something that id find soothing for someone to do on the 1st day...pay attention to me....ask me questions....tell me about yourself.Youre doing nothing wrong.Just keep doing what youre doing & hopefully someone will appreciate your kindness.
971146
Gosh, she's just one teacher out of many you will have.  And you'll likely never have to see her again after you finish the class.  You don't have to like or be liked by everyone, so get over it, you are already spending too much time worrying about something that can only cause trouble.  Your teacher is a real person, you know, maybe she doesn't llike you either.  Maybe if you treat her better, she'll treat you better, too.
1006096
Sorry to hear you're sad.  You seem really mature too. Don't worry - summer is a fun time.  I hope you meet a lot of nice people while on break and even nicer people when you return to school.\n\nNow get up off your butt and go have a great time!
159710
oh no...darling that was impossible especially if u are his student...try to analize ur feeling maybe u only like him and u don't  love him...many guys are there for u...
701979
no one cares about your school. sorry. my school is probably exactly like that....Boring!
63719
Get his attention.  You cannot force anyone to like you.  However, if you are not visible he will not know you exist.\n\nSit in the front, be showered and well groomed, and get good grades.  The GOOD ones will notice!
884874
Try and spend more time getting to know yourself. What makes you happy. Be comfortable with yourself, school is one big popularity contest, don't buy into it. Spend more time making yourself happy than worrying about guys. It's not who you love, but who loves you.
121543
I agree with Bumper, I too teach students. And based on what you said, I don't think it's that the teacher hates you, it's more obvious that you are making it difficult for the teacher to teach. For instance, you called the teacher racist. Whenever a student says that, more than likely it's the student who's racist and not the teacher and it sounds like you have anger issues also. Thus, you have a negative outlook on this teacher, resulting in you thinking they feel the same way towards you. \n\n     If you want the teacher to like you and not feel hated, try helping the teacher out; like telling the students to shut up and paying attention and doing everything the teacher says. Your teacher will realize you want to make a difference and he will change his behavior towards you. Like the saying goes, "If you can't beat then, join them." Best of luck to you in school. Remember, it's not the end of the world if you have a teacher like this. All you want to focus on is getting a passing grade, going on to the next grade level, and making it easier on yourself and the others around you so it's not stressful. Again, best of luck.
796181
Because you are simply the most gorgeous girl in the world.  How do those other girls even stand to go to the same school as you?\nThank God you have NO ego!
269217
I have had at my school people treats me differently
867846
From what I can decipher from your writing, you seem like a well-spoken, educated, sympathetic individual.  Though you seem to care greatly about what this 'friend' thinks, she doesn't seem to care that much about your feelings.  'Bluntly' exclaiming that half the school dislikes you is a gross exaggeration and extremely rude.  Try to distance yourself from her as she isn’t offering constructive support.\n\nI think everyone on this earth can be annoying at times.  Improving yourself is great, but try not to be too hard on yourself!  I'm in college too, and I find that it's hard to make close, lasting friendships.  Don't be discouraged.  Try joining clubs that interest you.  There, you'll find other people with similar interests, and that makes it really easy to talk to them.  You could also do an on-campus work-study where you interact with all kinds college people.\n\nBut if you still think you want more social help, try the self-help section at any large bookstore.  There are tons of information out there.  Believe me, you're not the only one who has troubles about this kind of stuff; I know all too well but this kind of stress.  \n\nAs for a personal suggestion, I tend to imitate people I admire.  I note how they act or react in particular situations and I end up trying it myself.  I, also, do "small talk".  Just by asking general questions like ("what are you majoring in" or "own any pets") I try to find their interests and look interested at the same time.\n\nHope this helps!
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Dear dear teenager, \nI went to private school all 14 years of my education and I loved it.  If you were popular at your private school I feel certain that you will be fine at your new school.  Here's the thing: you are nervous about being in a bigger group.  I went to school with the same 100 or so people for over a decade, and I still got nervous every year on the first day of school.  Was I wearing a cool outfit?  Was my hair ok?  Everyone has these kinds of feelings.  What you need to worry about most at this time in your life is who you are and what you consider important in your life.  The groups or "clicks" at this new school may totally be something that you are not into, and that is nothing to be ashamed of I assure you.  Be yourself dearest, and you will be great I am certain.  Don't be afraid to be who you are and how you act.  \nBE YOURSELF -- everyone will love you\n\ngood luck
976984
She probably doesn't really hate everyone.  She may just be tired, or frustrated because the kids don't enjoy her class.  The absolute best way to get someone to be nice to you is to be nice to them.  Maybe no one is ever nice to her.  Give it a try.  You might be surprised at how well it will work.
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please dont reject this advice. Talk to your parents and mabye a favorite teacher. I can understand if you maybe don't get along with your parents. I didn't get along with mine when I was first getting interested in boys. I did have a favorite teacher that I probably could have talked with about things. \n\nI felt so much like a misfit in school. I worked in the office and one of the other students in there started talking to me about books I was reading. We went out for a little while \n\nI have learned that I am my own best company. Have a good spirit and find things to do where you are enjoying yourself. Other people are attracted to fun people. Join a club, talk to lots of people and smile. \n\nLearn what you think are your values and what you want to have in a boyfriend. It's much easier to find something if you know what it will be like when you see it. \n\nI hope this helped.