Men, what makes you do this?
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I think you're blowing this way out of proportion. UNLESS he murder, tortured or deal drugs to kids or worse then I don't see how bad a thing he could have kept from you that would warrant a background check. I my wife were to do that I'd dump her and try my hardest to get custody of our son.\n\nI would have helped giving you an answer if we knew what it was that he lied about.  For a few years I lied to my wife about a girl I had dated when I was secure enough with our relationship I told her. She was a little takeb aback but quickly got over it. I claimed to have dated a really pretty girl she new in passing but in reality we were just friends. You my wife is very beautiful and I don't consider myself handsome at all. So I was insecure with regards to her physical attraction to me. So I lied to make myself look better. It was silly and stupid but I did want I thought was right back then. This was 14 years ago and we are now married with a beautiful 7 year boy.\n\nTry and get some perspective on the lies and see if they're worth getting worked up over and maybe putting your marriage at risk.\n\nGood luck to you.
419094
Well, as a guy, it's nice to know that I can do something for her w/o it being something specific (Like I'm in the computer Field so she asks me when she has a problem w/ her's). It's nice when it's "there's a HUGE BUG, KILL IT!" or "my table keep falling apart" and I can fix it for her.\nWhile some guys might like that, I'm not one of them. I want to the typical "guy" things for her, otherwise I would just feel like I'm taking up space.\nI know that you should only be looking @ this person for romantic purposes but that's very idealic, and not a reality for most men.
924528
act desperate, i see so many women throwing themselves at men every weekend!\nquite amusing and weve all done it! men think of it as a challenge then they give up.
1109772
Well, for me its sexual confidence.  Being able to instigate and take charge during sex up to a point and then let me finish.\n\nBut not every guy is like that.\n\nDepends on the guy.  Some guys like women who talk dirty, some like women who role play, other like exploring kinkier things.  Trys educing him ina  public place where you KNOW he can't do anything about it until you are alone at home.\n\nThere's a lot more.  I'd have to know more about the guy.
366250
it'a not good when you do that to men, because you come across the wrong way. You can't do that, all your doing it leading them one and that not right!!! Ask yourself if you would like that if a guy did that to you??
1023577
why are you curios about man on man sex?
65341
In these days women can do what men do so you can do it.\nYes do it romantic.\nInvite him to a romantic diner, say him you`ll cook (not necesarlly if you don`t cook, just order something good) and do what your heart tells you to do.
485056
Men like simple things\nScoring for one
361058
Not all men do. I know that I, as well as some of my married buddies, take our relationships and marriages very seriously.\n\nSome men just want to conquer women s#xually, and then they move on. Some men get bored and want some excitement, and some are like little kids in a candy store, unable to keep their hands to themselves.\n\nUnfortunately, it is up to women to separate the wheat from the chaff, if you will.
1178422
Mabey he isn't feeling your spots and what will make you cumm.  My man can tell when I'm close to feeling it, so he'll just go after it and conquer it.
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Lots of men do it.  I guess it depends on your taste.
366443
Dont believe everything you are told.  If you're speaking from experience, than I would say, it's to make your life interesting and challenging.  Or to put it simply....to keep men always aware and on their toes.  :)
266009
a woman who really responds to what the guy is doing, don't make too much noise but let him know what feels good by your reactions.  also shaving the pubic area is quite a turn on for me and my friends. Hope this helps.
1181563
exactly! why don't you guys get this stuff?! i don't like to make teh first move- i think it's the guys place, and man dropping hints that they don't get (no matter how obvious) gets ridiculous after a while! i think i have done everything but walk up and kiss the guy! come on PAY ATTENTION GUYS!
725592
Women do our heads in because we men are on a hopeless struggle to please them. How can we give them what they want when they either don't know or have changed their mind? The latter is viewed by them to be their privilege.
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Guys don't loose interest necessarily.  Sometimes it because a "I've got you... now what do I do with you?"  or maybe a "I've got you... now here is the real me instead of the one I impressed you with to get you."\n\nSome guys just loose the desire to impress the woman.  This can come about because the woman stops or never gives the kind of attention the woman wants.  We have to face the fact that it is the mans job to woo the woman and do everything possible to impress the woman while she sits and takes it all in.  The woman isn't generally seen to need or have to return the affection or interest the man is showing.\n\nI suggest finding out from him if he is unsure of what to do next or just feeling slightly neglected.  He could just be pulling away because it is time for him to take care of his needs instead of focusing all his energy into the woman he cares about.  men do come back from this stage to care again.  We men just need to do know we can take care of ourselves as well as you.
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too much is when you have to do it several times in a row... but go ahead do it till you get tired out or what ever... since you a guy... you can come over and show me... i like watching guys... and then we can have a good time... :) wink*