Girls: Do you dumb yourself down for guys?
812845
Goodness no.  I think that sometimes men DON'T WANT women to be as smart as they are - but I'm not going to act stupid for anybody.  I WILL acknowledge when my man does or says something smart - but I won't pretend to be less intelligent than I am.  That would be too hard.
916707
It depends on his communication skills and level of understanding. Dumb doesn't mean stupid. Obviously it wouldn't be you to be the one to tell him, but someone close, who knows him, talks to him, and respects him. They do communicate quite well.
1013904
ok im a gurl...\nand at 1st depending on how well i know a guy i will find out if we have something in common,( sports, games anything ) then once i know a guy for longer i will talk more about what girl want to know from guy, that you wouldent normally just ask, then i would just talk to a guys as if you were my best friend
669161
No. In my opinion things that you feel will not benefit you, your brain will flush it out b/c it knows you could care less. LOL. This is coming from someone who graduated in the top 5% of her class, was in the National Honor Society, & Who's Who of Academics. No you're not dumb!
719350
gals says blindly..\nbut guys speak non-sense
684965
No. I have been proven wrong many times. You never know what kind of girl a guy likes until you see him with one or ask him what his type is. I have seen good looking guys with girls that didn't match what I thought they would like, and vice versa. Funny how we are always quick to judge a book by its cover, isn't it? It's fun to see how often we are more wrong than right. Hope that answers your question.
976364
Ok, I definately like to be challenged but compared to someone else???  HELL NO!  The only person I'm comparing myself with is who I was yesterday.  If a girl is playing hard to get because it makes her feel good to see guys doing backflips to get her attention, then she is an a$$whole in my opinion!  If a girl makes it known that she has mutual feelings for ONE guy who likes her yet only allows him to know that slightly so that his ego doesn't get to big, that is a smart girl.
195574
i'm also tired of idiot ignorant wannabe men.  here i am, a young boy, who always figured i was just a little boy.  but lately i've realized that i lead by example, i can actually skew the curve of what a woman should expect of a real man.  any guy who loves a girl should treat said girl like the dread pirate roberts in relation to the princess bride.  you ask your man "would you do the dishes?"  he should say "as you wish" and then get busy doing the dishes a.s.a.p.  you ask your man "have any interest in sweeping the house"?  he should say "as you wish", and then get busy sweeping right then....not tomorrow.  you say "make me dinner, sweetie".  he should reply "as you wish", and he should get off the couch and make you some good healthy real food........not run to mcdonalds with your credit card.  i wish you luck.
869543
yes, the dumb blonde act will get me info like crazy...\nit's just too easy sometimes.
241423
drop hints, but remember boys can be rather dumb somtimes, so make the hints obvious
177065
most of my friends are very intelligent. that being said they are usually dumb when a girl gives hints that they like him or are interested in him. (this includes myself... the dumb part anyway).\n\nas always, here is a little story:\na couple of friends and i (5 total) had gone to the local grocery store to get some snacks. now we bought about $20 worth of snacks. when we went to the cash register it filled 4 plastic bags the heaviest ones being the 6-packs of soda. this petite and gorgeous girl was bagging our snacks while my friend lee and i discussed methods of losing weight and gaining muscle mass. \n\nthe entire time we were there the bag girl (her name tag said lisa) kept glancing at my friend. when we all reached over to take a bag and go back to the car, lisa stopped lee before he could pick up the bag with the 6-pack of soda in it and she asked him, "sir, would you like me to help you take this to the car?" lee responded with a puzzled look and responded,"no,thats okay. it's not that heavy.  i can carry it." \n\nhe reached for the bag again and she interrupted him again with a, "sir, are you sure you would not like me to help take this to the car for you? my name is lisa and i'd like to help you take this to the car and maybe..." at this point my other friends and i simply grinned and started moving away, thinking, "cool, lee is gonna get a gal." to our disbelief, we heard him interrupt her and repeat, "no, thats okay. like i said its not that heavy, so i can carry it. thanks for asking though. bye." \n\nmy friend walked out of the supermarket without looking back. lisa never took her eyes off him. the moment we were out of site of lisa, we all kicked him and told him what a fool he was for letting such an oportunity slip. his response was, "she was interested in me? how do you know?" \n\nthis is just one of the many times i've witnessed guys just not getting it. i have a done similar things as well, and its not until much later, (or right after if my friends are there and decide to kick me for not getting it) that i realized, "whoa, maybe she was interested in me."\n\nthat's why i say, the only surefire way to let a guy know that she likes him would be to walk up to him, tell him she likes him, then to give him a passionate kiss.\n\nthe kiss is to make sure that he didn't mishear or misunderstand because trust me, sometimes just telling the guy you like him just isn't enough to make him understand.
969155
Yes it is true that we guys are guilty of not being the best at expressing ourselves in the best way. As bad as it is it's kinda a guy thing that we don't show that we notice when a girl does things to empress us. Sometimes I think it is because we are afraid that we will say the wrong thing and cause and fight. I guess that we sometimes hope that the old saying of no news is good news will hold true and keep us out of trouble. But be patient we do notice and appreciate all the little things that you do.\nGood luck and take care.
990356
I have to disagree with your question. Your question assumes that all guys have problems with smart girls. Not the case. I'm a guy, and I love smart girls. Intelligence, for me, is one of the best things a girl could ever have. The only way this really becomes a problem is if the girl is significantly smarter than the guy, and the guy has a problem with it. Also, I know some girls that so desire to establish their intelligence that they shove it down your throat in every which way imaginable. If you're having trouble with the guys you're dating, just date smarter guys.
497242
(insert girls name here), do you wanna go out some time?\n\nthat is how, dumbass
283924
to keep guys guessing... :o) not all girls are so complicated... but personally i think it stems from our insecurities... and maybe from our hormones too... lol
468531
Yes and No.\nWhy Yes:-\nDepend on the guys, some guys are very talkative and want their girls to answer them back. And like Women they love to hear nice compliments.\nWhy no:-\nSome guys are not that talkative, and only want short sentences answer. And does want to talk to their girls everytime, they have other time passes.\nIn modern world, guys are like women, they are gossipi, like style and fashion, like to hear compliments\nThere are only few % of non talkative guys.
71446
Not really. Both my boyfriend and my ex-boyfriend are as smart as me, and we loved getting into debates over things that not a lot of people understood. My boyfriend likes how I'm not afraid to think, and I don't really focus on looks; I focus on the personality/intelligence.