Is anyone else going through a ruff break up?
829005
Yes, I am.  Tonight I'm coping by talking to strangers, listening to music (that he hated) and desperately trying to remember everything wrong with him and everything that was right in my life before he came into it...  and then left.  I'm also reminding myself that it all happens for a reason.  What is meant to be will be, right.  God must have something better planned for both of us.  I think it's helping me to think that.
462087
I am going through the same shit! Make sure you have an attourney with you.
651225
Luk , gurl.... every relationship isn't purrfect!!!!!\nI would call myself mentally retarded if I had left him!!!!
921826
Holy crap.  You are still in the process of "breaking up".  Finish it.
1130166
I usually like to put the blame on myself, it makes the break up go a little easier. Just be honest though but not blunt. If you listen to your heart it will tell you what you need to do. Good luck!!
227283
I think maybe you should take a break from this guy.  Sounds like you are the only one getting back together with him.  There is someone else out there for you.
842402
Thats a tough one to handle.I have been devorced 6 years now.After my ex did her thing I tried to date off and on for awhile but something kept me from getting serious with someone.I noticed that everytime I found a person I liked and wanted to get to know better this nagging feeling would get in the way.\nI thought about this for sometime and realized that it was me and trust was the issue.A couple of the ladies I dated told me that I had put up a wall and they couldn't find a way to get around it.Lately I haven't had as hard of a time trusting someone but its still there.I'm not sure if it will ever go away completely.
464203
Hey, you know, I am kind of in the same boat as you are, except for I have pretty much gone through having to hear my ex-husband cry to me every single time that I spoke with him to let me know how much is missed me.  I have two young boys with him, and believe me, it has been really hard, but thanks to my dear boyfriend who I now love a lot I have made it through.  I have been thinking about living with my boyfriend too, as my divorce will be in June, but it seems like I can't wait that long.  I don't know, but I just know that women seem to want things done much quicker and we don't like to wait to get what we want.  I would say to do what your heart tells you to do.
740294
Not at all!\nSince I broke up with my ex of 10 years my life went from going nowhere to me being the happiest I have ever been. It was the best decision I ever made...I wish I didn't wait until 10 years to break it off.
748148
I divorced somebody like you lolol....good luck in your life
1017707
Yes it is normal to feel a little sad when you break off a long term type relationship.  You did the right thing if you were feeling overbear-ed.  Just have to do things to keep your mind off him.  Hobbies, video games, hang out with friends a little more just keep you mind off the break up.
1114171
If the break up is fairly new and he is the one that broke up with me, than people with in 25 feet of me can probably hear my heart break. But if it's been awhile and I'm with someone else, then I don't care.
39362
I've done that in the past 3 years.  You need to find yourself again.  Me and my ex-wife split and I had a difficult time getting on my feet.  But I eventuly did and everything is great now.  I'm going back to college and trying to make my life better.  Maybe a little to prove I can.  It may take time but don't give up and always remember you are a great person and can do great things.
596797
I like to meet people that are busy....you know, working somewhere. For instance, the grocery store, post office, gas station, etc. The obvious places also are clubs, bars, etc. the important thing after breaking up is to get out! Don't sit home, alone, and crying! Good Luck!!
695737
I don't want to get back together
425522
IM NOT FIRNEDS ANYMORE WITH MY USED TO BE BEST FRIEND\nIT BECAME TOO MUCH WE GREW APART
116136
This is a toughie for me.  In retrospect, I felt in my gut whenever a guy wasn't the best one for me--but I often stayed because I doubted my own instincts.  Things generally end or fade away because the universe no longer sees a need for us have them in our lives; we have learned our lesson and it is time to move on.  The pain of a breakup is FAR less damaging than the choice to stay and suffer holding on long after you should have let go.