I have a really close guy friend that always gets shot down by girls he likes. How can I help him?
826528
Hey:\nI understand just how he feels. I have this friend that "sweet" talks and when I turn around he gets beat up by another girl.\n\nThis is the answer. You hook him up with someone. Tell him how funny, sensitive or sweet he is with another girl to make her go out with him. You'll see how that will change in anything.\n\nAnother is that find a beautiful girl who matches him. Who has a lot in common with him. That would work just fine. \n\nAnother one is that make him go out with a girl that likes HIM. That will help even more.\n\nWhen it doesn't work in one of them, cheer him up.\nWell, nice writing.
584341
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL OR JUST ASK HIM OUT BUT IF HE KEEPS PLAYING GAME FORGET ABOUT HIM I HAD A FRIEND FOR 3 YEARS HE WAS LIKE MY BEST GUY FRIEND BUT HE WAS PLAYING GAMES WITH ME I WOULD ASK HIM OUT HE WOULD SAY HE DIDN'T WANT A GIRL FRIEND AND WHEN I HAD A MAN HE WOULD TELL ME SHIT LIKE IF I WAS SINGLE HE WOULD HOOK UP WITH ME AND BE MY BOYFRIEND THEN WHEN I WAS SIGLE AGAIN IT WAS HE DIDN'T WANT A GIRLFRIEND OR HE WENT AND GOT A GIRLFRIEND AND WAS NOT SINGLE I WENT THOUGH THIS FOR 3 YEARS WITH HIM ONLY CAUSE I REALLY LIKED HIM AND WANT HIM TO GIVE ME A CHANCE BUT IT WAS A WAIST OF 3 YEARS SO BELEAVE ME IF HE KEEPS PLAYING GAME FORGET HIM DON'T WAIST YOUR TIME ON HIM THERE ARE OTHER GUYS OUT THERE
115302
Talk to him.  He doesn't know you exist because you haven't made it clear.  Guys are very bad at subtle signals, and generally speaking, we're "easy".  Having a girl try to pick up a guy is a heck of an ego boost for us males.
914648
when your friend starts liking someone its always tough because they want to try and spend so much time with that person to see where the feelings there will go and unfortunately, that means spending less time with you and probably his other friends too. its just a natural thing that happens. the best thing you can do now is be supportive, so at least he knows that when things dont work out  with that girl, youll still be there for him
198864
Tell him. Guys are hunters. Girls are hunted. Guys never think they'll get a girl. Girls.. well gee, there are so many of you and you're all so beautiful that we dont really know which one to go for. Most think we're shallow because a group of us will stare/drool over the most beautiful. Dont worry, thats just group mentality. Everybody has a favorite. And if you show an interest then you can... and should be his next favorite.\n\nBest of luck. :)
904958
You friend needs to work on his confidence regarding how he feels about himself before he can feel confident with "the ladies". Women hate cheesy chat up lines so I think the best way to approach a woman is to have something interesting to talk about, a good sense of humour and a certain degree of courage. Of course the best way is to make friends first if at all possible which is why pulling in a pub or club is usually a bad idea if you actually want to get anything out of it. Hope you find someone.
41548
He loves you as a friend and is so scared of losing that friendship if he crosses the line and you reject him.Find a way to make the first move on him in such a way to make him think he made it.
620018
Your not a bad friend your a great friend! He will never shape up and be the man he needs to be. besides that hes not even a man yet he is still a kid, and he is headed no where fast. But please don't give up on your friend because she needs you. She may not know it now but she'll see. Just be there when she needs you and no i told you so. Because believe me she already knows.
62952
You can't.  But you can make your guy so happy that he won't think twice about the girls who are flirting with him!
854208
As a guy I know myself: Guys like girls who are creative. You can start by being a friend and showing intrest in him. You can subtley hint to him indicating your attraction to him. Give him a girly look that cant be mistaken. You have let him know somehow but be creative and be smart. Avoid silly games involving your friends; you alone have to win him over by yourself and without the involvement of his friends or yours. Please do not try too hard or be too aggressive; he'll run awayfrom you. Best Wishes
876533
If you really like him, just try to encourage him to more responsible to his life. But in gently way ya. Dont tell him to stop sleeping in 1 - 4 pm, just  make him wanna fight to start looking for job. Coz, when He has a job, otomaticly he couldn`t sleep in that time anymore.\nIf he just your closed friend (not lover), you could say in an easy way, tell him how come later he could take responsible to his future life, starting a family, and become a provider for his future wife and kids meanwhile he has no responsible at all to his life like now?\nIf he is your lover now, and this is you want for long term realtionship. So say to him tactfully, choose the right moment and time, this is quite sensitive matter. Tell him basicly you will lean on him, coz he will be the head of family. And He will lead this to a bright future...so from now tell Him that you will help and support his effort to be prepared in future, incuding his effort to look for job. Tell Him that you`ll be the suporter for him whatever happened in this fight..\nGood luck...
929288
That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.
235697
Nope doesnt make any since to me eithier why he'd want female friends. thats why you are there,  I believe there is the word friend in GIRLFRIEND. what can another female friend offer him that you can't give him. I'd say that if you let him have these female friends his obligations to hurt you are at great risk. And what will he do if and when one of these so called female friends start liking him. I'd say that you talk with him and find out what does he feel he's missing out on by not having female friends when he e's already got you.
403943
Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.
215673
is she stupid or what?? do what you have to do to keep away and maybe you should talk to her about it too, just to have things out in the open with her and talking to her will also help you with keeping more away, now that she is paying attention....DON'T TAKE THE RISK OF LOSING YOUR FRIEND FOR A MAN !!!!!
370545
Well, first of all, don't go all psycho if guys try to approach her. Just warn her about players and what guys might try to do if emotions are high. And most importantly, help her through her relationships, good and bad, and her heartaches.
590124
well 1st of all, not all guyz suck. maybe most, but not all.\nSome guyz (hopefully i'm one of them) are caring and considerate. This guy just sounds like a b****** for leaving u high and dry. Try asking him and if says he will, but he doesn't show up and he says it's cuz he's having a hard time, just say, "Bull! Everybody in the world is having a hard time. It's better to hang out with friends and have fun then just sit around going oh poor me. i could be with this really cool girl but no! i'm having a hard time so i cant do anything." Just say that to him. I know it seems mean, but it works. at least it did when my best friend was doing that to his girl friend. so it should work. Good luck! \n\n    P.S. If u need any more help just e-mail me at argetlam_130@yahoo.com   I'll try to help as best i can!