I have a family I just can't put up with anymore?
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This is a tough place for a young woman to be! You are going through an emotional time anyway as you enter puberty. Have you talked with your sisters and do they acknowledge the way she treats you? Maybe one of them will be kind enough to tell your mother how her actions are affecting you. My other suggestion would be to speak with a minister or your school guidance counselor, perhaps have a family session. Please know you are worthwhile despite all that is going on. love to you.
687601
No wonder you are being kept back. Dont diasappoint your family any more, tell the truth.
534795
Ever ask why? Find a church and ask God to forgive them. you are who you are...........live with it or move on. I had a put down family and only when i got a job and moved on with my life they were not a part of it,now they beg for me to help them, what goes around comes around sweetie...Hang tough
1145369
sorry, have to choose family
177343
No one ever told me I had to like my family. I don't. They don't support me so I really don't need them. They're not good people and I try not to associate with them unless I need to.
101128
Have you ever considered talking to your family and discussing a "life style change"?  You should be able to have "fun" with your family and it seems you've gotten to the point where you need some layed back fun.  Maybe the rest would understand and want to make the changes with you.  Maybe you're trying to live a certain "concept" that is expected.  It's time to shit can the "expected" and do what makes you and your family happy!
807792
Your family seem like they are trying, but seriously you should tell them this- that there support means a whole lot to you and you love and respect them and you just want the same and deserve the same like any human being does.\nIf it concerns you why dont you sit with them alone and bring the subject up and you can all have your say. \nI really hope it works out for you and everyone else concerned.
1019747
yes it is sad and I have experienced it in my own family and it seems to change it I have to make all the effort so I dont anymore...
100792
I am sorry to hear about your father. Sounds like your mother may need some help.  I can't begin to give you advice, but my heart goes out to you and your family.
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my family and animals
1032316
Do u mean like everyone in your family HATE each other? MY family is just like that. I'm 13, i just try to ignore it, stay  away and just talk to someone who really listens.
556145
They have a very hard time understanding that I can't just snap out of it, and I can't just decide to be happy from now on. \nIt is very hard for family who lives with you to deal with. It is depressing for them as well.\nThe best thing is to have them read some articles about depression. The more they learn, the more they'll understand what you're going through and that you're not just indulging in your feelings.
1119545
Well hunn sounds like some problems for sure.\ni have been in a simaler sitution i hate to say this but the fact is if they dont see a problem they wont get help they wont listen and they want to ignore the obvious but that is not you and yes maybe difficult and mental issues do run in family's i myself had the same problems with my family . the only thing i can say better yourself dont hold on to the anger and maybe suggest  your counsiler request your family  go to a session with you also remeber that as soon as you are old enough move out though maybe hard to do it is easier than you would even imagine just know you can and you will do fine some family's are just stubborn. anyways goodluck and i hope it helped even if it was a little. take care hunn!
925211
If I was you I think I'd do whatever it takes to avoid these people, even if you have to move. \nMisery loves company and they are trying to make your family just like theirs. \nFind better people to socialize with before your hindsight tells you you should have.
78169
This is a family issue. You know you are innocent so, I would allow your mom to know whats going on. Yes even your father. They can be your greatest allies here. Sometimes parrents can be a true blessing and in this case, maybe MOM has a few tips up her sleeve that can really help. After all she was once your age and had her best friend too. I would goto them with everything and let them in on it. That way your relationship to your folks is greatly inhanced and they may even have the solution you need. Its worth a shot.
1006840
First of all, if your house and family are that bad, then she shouldn't come over any more.  Seems like to me she's being a BRAT, and using you and your family.  You should stop hanging with her and enjoy your family.  They can't be replaced, you can get a new friend.
370907
well you have to stop putting all the weight on your shoulders no one make you the person who has to bare all the problems don't sweat the small stuff . you have to let things just go as they do.. you can go to counciling or talk to a friend..light some candles and just relax ..go do something for yourself and forget the family for a few hours..talk to your family and tell them that this environment isnt healthy that something has to change