How come a guy will get close to you but not put his arm around you or anything else?
823955
He's shy, and he isn't good at reading a girl's "signals". He probably WANTS to put his arm around you, but he doesn't know if you'll get mad if he does. That's why his leg keeps touching you.
986958
He's probably shy.  If he agreed to go out again, he digs you.  You may have to make the first move, but once it's made, it's made.  Try talking to him too.  Tell him you're into him and that you wouldn't mind if he held your hand.  Once the pressure is off, he's more likely to do it.
290968
Well, guys are strange creatures.  Guys hide their feelings for some reason, too afraid of getting hurt, commitment, etc. You can usually tell when someone likes you. When they hide it, they will usually avoid any topic that pertains to relationships, dating, commitment, etc. Maybe he isn't sure how he feels about you yet, depending on age, maybe he's trying to find out what his friends think of you before he starts anything with you (young guys are guilty of this!). Avoiding eye contact, any serious subject, even running the other direction are signs to look for. Good luck!
573015
some guys like that. In my case I don't play hard to get, I am hard to get..haha, some people are just shy or something.
556673
If he tries to touch you in places you don't want to be touched or makes suggestions that he wants to take you somewhere quiet or be alone with you...\nHint Hint...
866978
Are you on the shy side? Maybe that's why guys don't approach you. You sound like you might be nervous around them. They might take that as a sign that you don't like them. Remember, there's nothing wrong with flirting with guys! And if they don't like you back, big deal, move on!
315850
He flirts with you, brushes his arm against you or touches you lightly on the arm, blushes, finds ways to run into you, you feel "tension" between you when he's around, you catch him staring at you, he strikes up conversations with you.  Check out his body language.  Does his face light up when you're near?  Does he try to get close/sit close to you?  Is he wearing cologne more often?  Some shy guys you'll never know if they like you because they're that shy.  Just approach him.  Start spending more time together.  Do fun activities together....not an official date, but just hanging out.  Start flirting with him and see what happens.  You may have to make the first move if he's too shy.  Good luck!
108418
This guy isn't necessarily shy, but he probably has a somewhat low self-esteem when it comes to girls. He is so worried about if he makes a move on you he will offend you    (Which also means he cares about your feelings).  Most real gentlemen have this problem, especially if he hasn't dated that much previously.  He is probably looking for you to make the first move, or at least looking for a clear signal to make the first move.  Problem is, he's so nervous about it he probably won't see the signals you give him.  Chances are this guy REALLY likes you, but he is really nervous.  You might just tell him that he has nothing to be nervous about.  Or you might have one of your friends or his friends tell him that you are waiting for him to make a move.  Basically, all he needs is some assurance that your not going to slap him and walk away.  \n\nHe is not gay, he keeps asking you out.  If the hug was awkward, he doesn't just want to be friends...  it was awkward because he is nervous.  \n\nYou also might want to enjoy taking it slow.
365481
Keep him.  He is one of the rare men who has a lot of respect for you and doesn't want the relationship to be intimate until he knows you well enough to have feelings for you.  He is interested in you for who you are, not just for how close he can get to your body.  \n\nHe is more comfortable with his friends because he knows them and knows what is acceptable and what is not in his friendships with them.  He is nervous around you because he is afraid he will screw up and you won't be interested anymore, or worse that you will turn him down flat and humiliate him.\n\nGive the guy a chance, and he will warm up to you.  The fact that he isn't acting like all the other guys, clawing all over you, doesn't mean there is something wrong with the situation; it means that there is something right about him.
328976
go out with him and dont give him any signals or body language that would encourage him to do anything... it sounds like you dont know him too well... make sure you get to know him before you let yourself get close again...
597700
Maybe he is just shy that you wouldnt want to date him. OR he could be waiting for YOU to make the first move... You know, trying to play hard to get... But usually, guys wont do that, not that any I know anyway...
998011
he does like you 110%......well, i'm a guy, usually it's pretty hard to talk about stuff like that after he might not know you like him, he wants to do so much stuff with you to be sure that you like him because he's waiting for you to make the move first....you could tell him that you have to talk to him, he will, unless he's an idiot...believe me he's more worried about you not liking him, ect.  if that made sense to you (it did to me obviously), Good luck!
980999
Well guys are probably intimidated by your beauty. It just means you'll have to make the first move. Good Luck!
191654
Certain gestures and postures make it quite clear your attracted.  Unfortunately, a lot of guys aren't sure that you're transmitting the message that, somewhere inside, they know you are.  Without words, it might take some extra time around that guy with slightly exaggerated gestures, and a good level of confidence in yourself.
852727
well in my opinion if your being yourself around him and he doesnt like you then their is OBVIOUSLY something wrong with him :) but you can always do little things to help him like you like wear a really pretty smelling perfume cuz guys can smell it even if they dont say so....also bring food, I swear food is the easiest way to get a guy to come over and talk to you. bring some and then ask them if they want any and theyll keep talking to you. Lastly one thing that i do that has worked for me is saying your hands are cold. say it and then touch their arm and theyll say someting like "geez your hands are cold!" and then sometimes depending on the guy he'll say " Feel mine they arent cold" and BAM their you go!my freinds starting doing this after i told them and they say it works so i hope it helps and i hope you get your guy!
390831
you could jump up and down and wave your arms.  He would notice you very quickly.  But that might not be the kind of attention that you want.  Be friendly and show interest.  A professor of mine in college said "If you want people to love you, smile, remember their name, and remember things that they have said".  If he's in a class with you, remember a good answer he had to a question, and when you see him tell him you thought it was a good answer.  Compliment him on something about him, such as his sense of humor or his style.  And if he still doesn't seem to notice you, don't let it get you down.  He might like women that are taller or shorter, more thin or more heavy.  You never know.  Just be yourself and if something is supposed to happen between you it will.
1091593
Maybe he needs something from you and he's just too shy to comfront you with it. Normally, shy men whos attracted to you behaves exactly what you have described. I think this guy needs encouragement from you, so he would be able to tell you whats on his mind. Goodluck!