my mum...i need help please!!?
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You need to tell your dad how scared you are and he can't leave you responsible.  Speak to him, please.\n\nIs there another family member you can confinde in?\n\nThis isn't your burden to bear hun, I feel so bad for you.\n\nSpeak to someone who can help you, please. x
460258
Your mom is going through a difficult situation in life.  You should understand that.  And so are you!  But be by her side and stand up for her always.  Also, do not be shy to discuss EVERYTHING concerning her relationships and your feelings with her gently.  Surely she will be the one to make you more comfortable in dealing with the matter.  What other people say does matter, but only to a certain extent.  So dont let that get to you.  Afterall, they do not provide you with anything when you are down.  Also divert your mind and do things that make you happy.  Good luck kid - looks like you are brave and will come out of this a winner.
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have you ever tell you dad how you felt about his attitude?\nhave your mum ever spoke to you of how she felt about the situation?\nyou know,i advise that you'd better see a counselor .Pour our your feelings to the counselor.He/she will be able to help you cope with the current situation you' re facing.\nI know your family must have meant a lot to you.And I suppose you're a growing up child.I agree the current situation affects your life and you other family members but please remember one thing do not let those things to pollute your mind or affect your studies.\nMost importantly get a professional help.\ncheer up ok.I wish you all the best.
1128837
dang!!! maybe ask your mother for some money!!
1031688
Hi sweetheart. First of all, well done for realising you have a problem and for wanting to get help. I know you don't want to talk to your mum about this, but if you go to the doctor (which you can do by yourself) he'll probably want you to see a specialist to help you get through this and get better and you'll need your mum or someone else who you trust to go to those appointments with you.\n\nI know it's scary telling your parents things like this, I'm 10 years older than you and I suffered from really bad depression and I was hurting myself a lot. I didn't want my parents to know, but eventually my doctor wanted to put me in hospital and then my housemate decided that my parents needed to know. They were really upset that I hadn't told them before and they didn't react the way I expected at all. So please think about telling your mum or some other adult who you trust because you're going to need a lot of support to get through this. Good luck sweetheart.
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I know how you feel my mum and i went through the same thing except she didn't have a child by him.She got married i did try to warn her but to no avail there is nothing else you can do except be there for her.my mum divorced after a year and moved away.I'm happy for you with your grades at least there not going down the pan.I am shocked she is still with him after saying he would be happy if you was dead.Hope you can make her see sense good luck xx
1037394
Make sure you perform better in life than them.\nThis way your mum will have more acute problems on her mind than all the faults in your life and turn all her attention to your brother or sister.\nThis also works with older siblings!
501619
Tell your mum she can't date this girl. :)
532982
You should not rely on your mother and your mother should not rely on you, it seems like both of you need help.  You have made the first step you have asked for help, but now you need to ask the right person, go see your doctor, he/she will be able to put you in touch with the right person, good luck
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before i even read on .. i was about to ask if she lost a baby ( honestly )\nyes this is what i believe ....and i think your mum should be trusted on her own instincts about that also\nshe wakes before she sees him out of fear of seeing it for herself i think ... she isnt ready for that yet ... but she will be im sure in time\ni am told that we visit with spirit during sleep\nmy mum sees my dad all the time ... he even gives her messages that she can validate later\nlove to you and mum xxx ( be happy that she has had this experience xxx )
781234
your mom is offering to help you!! she wants the best for you and is willing to do what it takes for you get treatment and life on back on track..she seems like a responsible caring woman so i would say stick with your mother even if it means getting kicked out of your house! its only because she loves you and until you figure out the consequences of your actions..then i presume she will keep doing it
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Try getting your mom out of the dumps..\nThink of something she likes to do and you wouldn't mind doing..Go somewhere together..hang out with friends and family..You make her happy, you'll be happy.\nGood luck!
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Talk to her...first you need to be honest with yourself if you your usually a bad kid, acknowledge that and tell her how much it hurts you to see you dissapoint her and therefore want help to change. If your whine alot and complain about the world, and claim everything is everyone else fault (which if you are your probably like nope...not me =)) lol, but if she says you are talk to her about the future and how you're maturing and realized that you have to take control and except responsibilities. If your a pretty decent kid though but I guess she doesn't like your BF I honestly think you should listen to her reasons why whether you think she "knows him", if thier superficial reasons like he's not your race or too poor or some bull like that then your mom's an @-- (sry to say) but therefore has no more credibilty on her opinions of people. If it's because your BF is too old, a dog, something like that, your mom has wisdom and experience and trust me she IS right. I don't really know what you n your mom's problem is so I tried touching on random things, hopefully some of thoserandom thing's hit you and it helped, thanks and I hope you and your mom works things out, a girl no matter how old, can never live without her mother =)
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wow... i guess try to tell her you have things under control. but it sounds like there is more to it if she is that worried about it. so either she knows every minute of your day or you are going to have more contact with the detectives. hard to tell you what you should do. sounds like  you have a major issue in your life going and then a complication to add to it. but good luck... i guess always remember... your day is always just seconds away from getting worse... so be happy with what you have. at least your mom loves you.... like i said... it could always be worse
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First, visit this website http://www.gamblersanonymous.org then have them get you in touch with some local help. They will be more experienced in helping you on how to start talking to your mother and how to eventually get her the help she needs. \nMy only advise as far as short term goes is to make sure that you are in control of as much as possible until the above happens. Good Luck!
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tell her outright. and tell her to make her stop.  If mom does not listen tell dad.  She is abusing you and that is wrong.
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Yes, I think it is important that you tell your mother. If she doesnt believe you and/or she doesn't help you, you need to tell someone else. A minister, councler, family doctor, or any adult that you trust. And you keep trying until someone listons and the abuse stops. My heart is with you.