what do u think about this relationship?
818779
if you like him it really doesn't matter what your friends thinks...besides, being older can be an advantage in a relation.\nand if you waited for three years, come on! you shouldn't give up just because some fuss\nif you leave him just because of the age, and because of your friends, it would be really silly and insensitive with your own feelings.\nIndepending on the age, you can be good together, and when your heart is broken and you feel alone, there's nothing your friends could do for you (nothing like being with the one you want!)\ngo for it.....care about your feelings....
420576
If you have to ask this question, the relationship is on it's way out, anyway.  Move on.  Why wait?\n\nGood luck.
1019483
Some times a relationship just isn't made for the long haul.  I think it sounds like you two have had a good run but the relationship has reached its end point.  Maybe it is time to end this so that both of you can move forward with your lives.  If you keep going like this eventually you are going to end up hating each other and you are both going to miss out on other opportunities in life.
239186
there is nothing wrong with having this kind of relationship.Just be sure that your pal gets to understand the confidentiality of this relationship.I wish you all the best.
404910
I don't think money should ever get in the way of a relationhip of any sort tho, times might be tight you should rember you always have each other. ( if the relationship was ment to be!)
170423
enjoy your daydreams, they never disappoint you. Chances are slim that you two could work this relationship, unless he lives closer than you think.
811617
I think you guys will last for a good little while. I mean everything seems to be going well between you two. All you have to do is find time to go out with him. Ya'll needs to go a have fun,enjoy ya'll time together while ya'll still have time.But besides that everything sounds good and yes I think ya'll should last for a while....
541936
you are the only one that can answer that. how do you feel about each other and do you trust,and have faith in your relationship to go on with    what is ahead of you.and you love each other
193717
Do both of you want this relationship to work?  Sit down and have a long chat, the "lockout" incident is just the tip of the iceberg!  Your problems are more than that, perhaps the two of you do not really have trust on each other.  You better think carefully if you still want to be together since TRUST is a foundation of any relationship!
424962
its all about how you feel i the relationship.. \nhow comfortable you BOTH are.. do not be pressured into something you dont want to do..\njust take it easy and enjoy the relationship for what it is now.. \n\nthen when the time comes.. make the descision
212493
Who needs a relationship that's this difficult? There are better ones out there. I'm not saying he's a bad guy. You two just sound like a bad fit. Find someone who is more in tune with you.
1112359
If the relationship is going to have a future be honest. It's something taht should be said, but not until you have established a trusting relationship.
817989
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
1121626
You are a good couple..Some problems can be but you are very happy, especially your boyfriend is very happy with u I think..
448225
Obviously he satisfy your emotional needs, and you probably does the same for him, by way of comfort i mean. He still is with the "other" young lady which could mean that he thinks there is hope, or he's waiting until she's financially stable to let her go. Some guys can care for a young lady so much that her well being really does matter.\n\nThe question to you is, why are you still in this 'relationship" with the fella? It could be that you see something meaningful as a possiblity between you two. If that's the case, and you really think it's worth hanging in there, then by all means stay. But while patience is a virtue, procrastination is bad for you. Not that you are procrastinating, however you may wanna weight the positives and negatives and give them a good review  before you make a decision. Love has many ways of coming at you. But only one way is the best outcome.\n\nIt's really up to you to decide what's the best to do at this point so that you can avoid any complications, and drama. heaven knows we all got enough drama in our lives already. Who really needs more?:)\n\nBest of wishes to you...
979982
your relationship sounds like true love. some people never find that. yes they get married and live together but thats nothing if like you said, your not honest and trusting. it does seem simple. but somethings are worth fighting for.
464444
first how bad was it??? don't know the details, but weigh the pros and cons of the relationship. if there are more cons get out and don't look back. more pro's proceed, but with caution.