need advice with this girl...?
813584
Give her plenty of space, shes obviously not emotionally ready for a very serious relationship.  \n\nBest advice is to put things on hold, and both of you see other people.  Doubts like this cannot be wiped clean without other experiences.\n\nIf, after you both have some new experiences, you both get back together, then thats great, and if not, you don;t wind up in a relationship either of you regret\n\nEdit .... Ok, I read a little more, and this girl is finished with you.  Make ZERO attempts to contact her for the next couple of months, go out, date other women, have fun, DONT TRY TO GER HER BACK.  It will only push her further away from you.  \n\nIf you move on, and life your life for yourself, then good things will happen
14868
"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
1080456
Be honest with her and don't lead her on.  If you like her but not enough to be in a relationship tell her that.
800527
Ok...my advice would be...wait...let me think a bit...*30mins later* Ok...one day, when you see her alone (alone as in walking to class, getting books or something) walk up to her and say "Hey how are you going?". Just small talk. Do the same everyday, not actually at the same place,but just ask her how she is going, how her day is etc. It will go from there.\nGood luck :)\nP.S. Not the best answer but hey-life can be tough you know? :P
955138
Do me and yourself a HUGE favor, DON'T TELL THIS GIRL HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER!!!\n\nThink about it.  If she is an 8 or 9 as you suggest then she probably has a million guys fawning all over her every day.  If you tell her how you feel you'll be just another one of those average chumps! She probably hears the same sh*t over and over again and it probably bores her to death!\n\nDo something to make yourself stand out.  Give her some attitude, dude!  Don't be an a-hole, but don't be a kiss-a*s either.  Treat her like your annoying little sister and bust her chops.\n\nIf you say she's been teasing you a lot, that's because she likes you.  If a girl is into you she will tease you.  It's as simple as that.  What you need to do is have fun with her and tease her right back.\n\nThe first line of your question was "...at the beginning...she was into me, but I ruined that by showing her too much love."  If that didn't work in the past why do you think that would work now?  It's like putting spoiled milk back into the fridge and checking it again a month later to see if it some how is drinkable.  Crazy, huh?\n\nIf you want to drive her wild, then make sure and flirt with every other girl at your weekend event!  Women don't want a guy that no one else is into. They think something is wrong with him.  But if you are chatting up a bunch of ladies and they are all laughing with you and smiling she will think, 'Hey, what does this guy have that all these women like being around him?  I want him to want me, why is he paying no attention to me.'\n\nI guarantee that if you don't approach her and are the life of the event, she will come up to you.  In fact, I will back up my guarantee.  \n\nDo this.  Pay attention to everyone but her.  Maybe give her a glance and a wry smile, but do not approach her.  If she does not come up to you and start chatting you up, I will send you a $10 gift card from Starbucks so you can ask her out the lame way you want to (no offense intended) and tell her how you feel.  \n\nWhen that doesn't work (which it won't), at least you'll have the comfort of knowing that you didn't spend your hard earned money on her and you are no worse for wear except knowing that being lame is just that, LAME!  And that you have to try a new approach with ALL ladies.\n\nThere are 6 billion people on this planet, half are women.  If she fizzles out that leaves only 2,999,999,999 potential others.  Oh, what will you do?  On the flip side, there are the same number of men out there who will try to woo her with their 'feelings for her' and their gifts and she will shun most of them.\n\nLadies out there, please weigh in and post your thoughts.
485531
I've gone through this too, and unfortunately I handled it the wrong way, by ignoring the person. Leave your pride behind and tell this girl that she is moving too fast and tell her that you want to keep it at a friend level for now. If she can't except that, oh well.
731777
she's not that in to you,,, anymore. move on to the next girl. and this time, don't take too long.
867950
Ask her anyway. If she says no (most likely because she has a boyfriend) be friends with her. You don't need to be shy you only have one life so you might as well make it fun and loud!
504298
It sounds like she is into you and I think the best thing you should do is talk to her and see what she is feeling and what she thinks of the whole issue.. That be the best thing to do..
509758
ill give u girly advice...\nthe best thing i think you shud do that will work is go up to her and say hi and ask her if u cud talk to her alone for a min \nand tell her how u feel. \nshe'll appreciate the fact that u want to have a conversation but not in front of everyone. don't make a scene...\nshe'll listen... \n\ngoood luck
989424
help yourself and go talk to her. who cares if she's from a different group. group dynamics eventually change, ppl from different 'classes' are always pairing up. stop wasting your time and go for it. and good luck!
248765
You have already told her how you feel, if she felt the same way you two would be together by now....And it's obvious she's young, so she's still trying to find her options...She's still exploring...You should move on if she wants to be with a jerk
287249
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
911556
Go for it, what you got to loose?\nIf she says no, then you can close that chapter and move onto the next girl.
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
1057116
tell this girl i think shes got some problems
387097
Just put a little pressure on her shoulders when kissing. She will get the message. If this doesnt work after a few dates then ask her, if that fails then dump her and move on.