how do you ask a guy out you work with?
817236
Don't do it! You have been warned...
712388
Yes, ask him out. You have more to gain than loose. If he says no it will not ruin your frendship unless you let it.
983983
Girl lessen to me don't ever get involves with a co worker that way if he really wants something good out of this he would be the one to come over and say something, you guys are flirting so if you ask him he is going to say yes. take my foolish advice do not ask him.
972319
yes, ask him out.\n\neverything to gain, almost nothing to lose.
470
Verbally say "I like you" or "Maybe we could have lunch sometime". Drop a straight forward comment and get a feel if hes feeling you or not. then go from there.
684428
when he comes in do your little chat then trow in a "so are you heading out tonight"do it in a casual tone of voice, he will tell you where hes going and will 99% sure ask you "what about yourself" you let him know what night club your going to but play it all innocently as if your just being civil then when your out that night i bet you he will be there then... then ye both will have a few beers on ye your inhibitions will be gone and you can begin to flirt oh and generally us lads visit a shop a lot if we fancy the person working there but he is prob afraid of rejection so he is draging it out SO BITE THE BULLET WHEN YE MEET. BEST OF LUCK!!!!!
749358
just go up to him and ask him out
309149
IF HE COMES OUT EVERY TIME TO TALK TO YOU, THEN HE LIKES YOU!!!!  THAT'S MORE THAN HALF OF IT!!! YOU'RE DONE!!!!  So you have absolutely no reason to be nervous; he WILL say yes.  \n\nSay, hello, then start asking him "100 questions."  Ask him where he goes to school, what he does for fun (when you find something he likes, he'll talk forever and he'll enjoy it - keep asking questions in that subject), ask him where he hangs out and what he likes to do.\n(Since you already know where he works, dont ask him about his work!  You want him to see that you are interested in him BEYOND WORK; not just this place you seem to always meet - if you have to ask about his work to get a conversation started, fine, but quickly move away from the subject)\n\nYOUR GOAL:  By asking lots of questions, you want him to see that you are interested in him, and you want to have a conversation with him.  (questions & answers IS a conversation!)  You want to laugh and smile as much as you can.\n\nTHEN SAY:  "Hey, we seem to enjoy talking to each other a lot.  We should hangout sometime.  We could exchange numbers and meet up when we're both not busy.  Do you think you'd want to do that?"  IT'S THAT SIMPLE!!!!  (if he likes you and you like him, then both of you will soon be dating)
693208
Well, you have to make the opportunity to talk to them. Ask them out for a drink or a coffee. If you don't want to be that bold, then maybe you can get a group of co-workers to go to dinner/lunch together one day. Make sure you sit near him and talk it up.
314667
if you left your job on good terms with him, just send him an email to the workplace asking him how are things going? ask to meet him for lunch for some career advice and if he accepts, when you meet him, start neutral and play it by ear. you could dress a notch less casual than business when you meet, make sure you look good and smile a lot and do the eye contact thing, and see if he responds positively to that... You could also apply the subtle body language tactics by leaning into his personal space a bit, speaking with your hands a bit such that you sometimes touch him accidentally on his hand or forearm as you speak which subtly sends a signal without being really too obvious... let him ask you out! If that doesn't work, ask for a second meeting for more advice. If you meet regularly enough, he will like your company and you will have natural rapport to move to the next step...
532472
How about you just ask him out to coffee or a movie?
479087
you should ask him out
860376
Why don't you ask him out. You can start by smiling at him when his eyes meet yours. Smile is a great way to communicate.
634574
Just be confident and talk to him and ask his name/interests/if he wants to go out for a drink.\n\nMkae sure you have a nice smile on your face.
918658
Let me give you some good advice - it's not a good idea to date someone with whom you work.\n\nIt gets complicated, everyone knows your business, and if it doesn't work out you have to see the person every day.
31330
Quit beating yourself up and GO ASK HIM OUT!!!  He will either be flattered and accept or will say no ... either way ... you have saved yourself a lot of time and wondering
904762
ask him.DO YOU WANT TO GO OUT?