How can you tell if i guy is really interested and not just after sex?
813404
If you feel he is happy just to be with you and just having a decent conversation. If he tries to seduce either by trying to lead the conversation to naughty things or physically touching you, then definitely he's just after sex.
506724
By being interested in him, asking him about this favorite hobbies, pasteimes etc. Don't overdo that of course. But when he talks about his interests, just pay attention.\nNeedless to say, you will be told, that sex will keep a man, and that it might. But that is raising the stakes. It has to be what you want too, if you are only doing it for him, then that's a bad way to go.
161903
You can tell! You can feel it! alway follow you gut. you intuition will not let you down. \nYou'll know by how he treats you, talk to you, if he complimises for you, share with you, go by what he do-not what he say!\n\nalot of guy will say thing and don't mean it, always go by their actions.
103130
more than likely that he is interested in you, guys don't always come out and say that they like you. just like women have there was of saying it with out saying it. if you are inerested in him then let him keep doing what he is doing, and if you are still not sure what he is doing, that just ask him.
531593
why don't you ask? You'll never know until you ask.  But you'll really know if he's interested in you by the conversations you have, tone of voice,how and where you met him, and if he is calling and texting you as much as you are.  = )
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".
82607
you need to talk to him, because to me it seem like either you are losin interest in him or you want more than just sex from him and it seems like thats all he wants..... you need to talk to yah man gurl!good luck
140379
Heres the question, are you wanting a one night stand or more?  If you want more, seducing him is not the best answer.  If you want a relationship intrigue him.  If you want sex be blunt and forceful. I have not met many guys if you look them dead in the eyes say "I want you" and grab them, that won't give in. Most guys if you initiate sex, whether or not the are interested in you romantically/or even attracted to you at all for that matter, will respond.  Most guys like sex alot and will take free no strings attached sex when they can.  but relize this probably will end any connection or tie with this guy beyond sex forever, that is if he ever talks to you again.  Most men avoid you after that.  Not a problem if you are after seduction.\n\nRelationships are a more tricky.  Most important be yourself.  don't play games, be honest.  You want him to love who you are inside not who you appear to be.  If he is not the one, so what, many better guys will come along and eventually one will be right for you. but only if you love yourself for who you are and are true to yourself. As for getting him motivated, let him know you are interested in whatever way makes you feel comfortable.  Be blunt, make jokes, hint. tell him he smells good ( and if you are being coy ask him if he tastes as good as he smells?)no two girls seduce guys into relationships the same way because no two girls are alike. be comfortable with who you are, funny or shy or loud whatever you may be.  Those are you weapons, use them. and most importantly respect yourself. you are worth more than just sex.  let him know you think so... if he isn't interested relize you would have just been more hurt in the long run anyways.
898489
it's easy, sensibly look at him, after you two have just ending laughing or smiling about something, and look at him, and say, 'you know you make me feel really good when you're around'.\nand see what he says. \nif he doesn't know how to react, try to ask him what he's doing after school sometime, or at some period that is convient for you.\nand see what he says. if he is busy, and doesn't give you a day when he IS available, he might be avoiding trying to tell you, he interested in you like that.\n\nAsk him if he wants your number, and wait for him to call. unless you're a girl with some extra spice, ask for his number, and tell him exactly what time to expect your phone call.\n\ngood luck.
981419
I would say that he is interested in you to some degree.  He doesn't sound too serious either.  Just enjoy the attention that you do get from him and leave it at that.  Just a flirting thing.  Sometimes it's fun just to flirt and not worry about relationships.
299911
He might just have some respect for you and not want to rush into anything.  He might actually be romancing you, taking things slow, getting to know you, letting you get to know him, and developing an actual relationship before taking things to the next level.  You can't take sex back.  Sex changes things... you can't help it... it just does.  You could always ask him if there's any particular reason why he hasn't tried to go all the way in the bedroom and see what he says.  Also, since STD's are on the average 1 in every 5 people he could be a carrier and struggling with a way to tell you before enganging you in sex.  The best thing I can tell you to do is to just ask.  Wondering and guessing will drive you bonkers!
163103
there are many ways you can tell. like one way is if he consently flirting with you or hitting on you. or everytime you speaks he has to say something or like sometimes you cant stand each other and all you do is agrue at times and come to find out he really likes you. or he might stare at you all the time and smile at you. then last but not least he studdards if you speak to him or smiles sleephisly
1097552
alot just say it to get you to sleep with them, but if a man has interests with you outside of sex and says it then its highly possible that he really loves you....
353184
This is a pretty open question.  The first thing I look for to tell if a guy likes me would be if he is open with me.  It really helps if you are friends before lovers!  This way you can tell if you two would be compatible enough for a more loving relationship.
229782
well if you want a guy to know you are interested these days they will get the point most easily if the girl simply flirts verbally. Talk to them, let them now you exist. Make eye contact and when you do smile sweetly. Make sure that you are consistant but yet distant about your intrest you are wanting him to notice. Give him a look that just tells him that you want him, I mean go old school and look him up and down....just checkin him out like there is no tomorrow. He should get your point really quick, especially if he is interested in you as well. If he does not make response within, I would say, no more than 2 weeks than you just need to give up that interest and move on.
650986
How can you tell if a guy really likes you: He asks you out.
528376
ride it out. he'll make a move if he is interested. an easy way to see is to get drunk and invite him over. if he is interested he will be more likely to kiss you or tell you...