Am I wrong not to like my big sister?
821881
You are definitely not wrong. Sounds like your sister has some major issues and you have every right not to like her actions and attitude.
728323
At the top of this all, you are being a responsible big sister who wants to protect her little sister from guys who just want to prey on her because she is pretty. In the middle of this all, you get annoyed at the fact that most of the guys that befriend you are just actually wanting to get to your sister. It's natural for you to react that way. It's natural for you to want to be appreciated not because of your sister, but because of who you are. It's natural for you to want your own share of attention, and finally, it's natural for you to feel disrespected, and used, because guys are 'using' you to get to your beautiful sister. At the bottom of this all, you do have insecurities, of course, because you feel that your sister is prettier than you, and that she is getting all the attention, and people don't even stop to think about how you feel.\n\nI don't think you must be very ugly. If you have a very pretty sister, then it means you can't look that bad, right? You do share the same blood! Maybe she's pretty and charming at the same time?\n\nI have a cousin who has always, always been jealous of me. Whenever she had boyfriends, they'd fall for me after meeting me. In fact, she would reach a point where she told me "Ok, if he falls for you after seeing you, it's not going to bother me." And I was still so young at that time, I didn't even understand why she was acting like that. But now I understand that she was just jealous of me. As a result of her jealousy, she became very mean and resentful towards me, and ruined not only our relationship as cousins, but my mother's relationship with her dad, and my relationship with her siblings.\n\nPlease, don't allow your jealousy to eat away at your relationship with your sister. Accept what you have. Accept what she has. Be happy for her, if you really love her. There are guys that will suit you. Look for guys that are in your league, and let the guys in your sister's league, get together with her. Don't covet what's not meant to be for you. But be happy with what you have.
585841
Most would not like it if a sister was a pronstar.
84046
well why do you think she is a "little bioch"\n\nmy e-mail is blackmumbabla96@yahoo.com\n\nif you tell me more about your problems with her yet her good side I will help you decide.\n\nI have reasoned with myself and did this with my friends and decided if they were really good friends. I feel I have made the right decision with all of them!
162050
I have an older sister and a younger one. I don't think one sister exist in the universe who wants to push her sister away by intention. it is a wrong perception in younger sisters.when they grow up, this misunderstanding will resolve.
141818
I could never hate my sisters, sometimes I wanna beat them yes that is for sure... but the older we all get the more we appriciate eachother, and the more we appriciate our time together because now we all have our own lives and familys that we're not together as much anymore! I wish that when we all lived in the same house we didnt fight as much! so be nice to your siblings no matter how rough it is sometimes... enjoy your time together!
637550
I have the very same situation.  You dont fix something that they dont wish to be fixed.  All you can do is love them both.  Accept the situation.  Believe me, it doesnt go away.  We 3 sisters are all seniors, and it remains as such.\nThey do not talk to each other.  I speak with both, but closer to one than the other.  The one, who is the first born, is the one who chooses as you describe. I am the youngest.  Just thought I'd toss these two items in to see if it correlates to your birth order as well.
514293
Shes still your sister and its pretty nasty! but if it rocks your boat....more power to you! Like seriously think about it!
917497
well...I have the exact same problem! I know how u feel! I have a little sister. anyways.....I think well........you shouldn't hit her...sisters both get on eachothers' nerves...and get annoying. what I would first try to do is talk to her....see why she is acting like this...is it b/c she is bored? well take some time and play a little game with her and take a break from whatever your doing. Offer her something she can do instead of annoy you like....watching t.v, or doing arts and crafts....or something to basically occupy her....and don't forget to compromise. if that doesn't work try to ignore her....you getting all mad an annoyed gives her the sign the she is winning..and it eggs her on to annoy you more...so take a few deep breaths and ignore her and eventually she will loose intrest and go away....and if all else fails go tell your parents...ask them to do something about it......tell them in a calm way and not shouting or in a bad mood b/c it doesn't solve anything and it may get them mad. So just remeber she you sibbling and they get on ur nerves a lot....and all we can do is live through it..untill they grow out of there childish stages....well I hope I have helped!!!!!!!!! =]
307131
You know, I just love the way big brothers love their little sisters! Your sis must be upset, so give her a hug, make her a nice hot cup of tea (well, it needn't necessarily be tea- anything comforting will do!), tell her her boyfriend's a jerk, and try and cheer her up. I wouldn't suggest beating him up, because I don't think it's do anyone much good, to be honest! Just be there for your sister and give her a bit of advice. If she breaks up with him, then stick with her and help her meet some nice guys, when she's ready. If however, this guy who made her cry, harasses her in any way if she breaks up with him, then have a man-to-man talk with him and tell him to get lost. Don't worry; she'll be fine! All the best to you both!
512974
you all are so mean can't you tell that she isn't from America don't make fun of her cause she can't spell at least she tried enough to ask her question. Honey your sister may be prettier than you on the out side but beauty is only skin deep anyway. Your parents love you both equally they just might not show it sometimes or they show it to you in a diffrent way than they show her. You never know she might feel the same way you do.
1020832
It is normal to have differences.... this is call sibling rivalry.\nI know my sister and I have gone though times that we haven't spoken to each other also. I have learnt over the years to accept where the other person is at and let them own it. It is their experience not yours so you really don't have to agree. Just realizing that you can still like or love someone with different opinions is ok. It doesn't mean you have to agree with them or even change their mind. I believe if you are going thourgh different experiences that's ok. You still have your fond memories of your sister and no one can take that a way from you ,not even your sister. I hope all works out well!!
734662
if u don't fatasize about ur own family members i don't think it is that wrong. i think it is pretty normal and i guess a lot of people go through stages like that and just don't want to admit it. i think you'll eventually grow out of this notion and look back and be like omg wut was i thinking. i hope i helped...\n:)
820271
no i dont like her....i think shes weird
939384
She does sound crazy. Why does she think that you are your mum don't like her, you both obviously like her before she started making up all this rubbish. Also I don't understand why your brother is on her side when she is telling lies about you. Have either you or your mom ever said anything negative about her when he was around?\n\nThe point is you have tried talking to her, at this point I think its best that you just ignore and leave her and your brother alone to get on with things. The thing is do you think that at a later date if she ever splits with your brother she might blame it on you and your mum saying that they never liked me and that it why we broke up. Just something to bear in mind, considering this she is already telling other people that you both don't like her
832610
I am so sorry to hear this because a good relationship with your sister is a precious gift from the Lord. I was 10 years older than my sister and we always got along beautifully although sometimes I felt more like a second mom than a sister until we became adults. Finally, we became the best of friends but she died of cancer a few years ago. Thank God I was left with some beautiful memories of our great love and friendship. Please work things out between you and your sister because "tomorrow" might be too late. I wish you well.
78035
haha no, I get along great with one of my sisters, but the other one, well its not so good, but I don't think I could ever see myself moving in with my sibling when i go to college, but if it was cheaper than renting an appartment then maybe.