Why do women get upset when I just want to keep it casual?
820669
depends on your age. older women have had their fun they are ready to settle down and make a family and build alife around it. if your older your just out of luck. I see you put people in their 20's getting married in their 20's are fools i agree whole heartedly with that. but flings arent always good. k. if your just looking to get laid then you need to stop going for the upstanding beautiful girls. your going to have to go with a little lower and the girls who have the same outlook on life as you. there out there. and if your a good catch girls are going to want to keep you. HELLO you knew that. well good luck with it.
942038
I don't. If a woman is acting angry and irrational, I generally walk in the opposite direction. If there's anything I can't stand, it's a drama queen. That sort of thing leaves me cold.
894781
I think its because they think they already have you. They dont feel that they have to work to get you excited.  But if it bothers you that much i think you should talk to your man and let him know that you dont just wanna jump in to F**k-ing.  Let him know you exactly what you would like him to do.
702236
you see.. Women HAVE to play hard to get whether we want to or not, because we get labeled as sluts, hoes, whores, etc. Men have the ability to be easy and sleep around and not get labeled. If men do get labeled its always meant in a good for you sense, unlike for women it means we're slutty and need to learn to keep our legs closed...\nIt's just the way human nature has stuck itself into peoples lives.. the old days do live on.....\n\nSo now do you understand why women have to play hard to get whether we really want to jump you right then and there?
318261
Because they aren't interested in you in that way.  If you tell them you like them, "more than friends" it makes them uncomfortable around you because you clearly want more than they do.  Shutting you out at that point, is actually the morally correct thing to do.  Allowing you to still hang out with them, after you tell them your want more, is just wrong, and is leading you on.  So, look at it this way, you pick decent women, its just they aren't interested in you in the same way your are.  Tip: don't ever have female friends, unless you are not attracted to them, or you "know" that is all it will ever be. ...and as a guy, you do know.
877438
its hard because women get upset when a man says I am tired then she gets even more upset and starts thinking there is something wrong with her also if your man is suffering from a lot of stress he may not be able to get into the mood as well there are a lot of reasons why men cant express them selves either could be there upbringing maybe dad didn't show mom a lot of affection and it just rubbed of on him
1089866
Because you are more muture than them. you may have been in and out of relationships and now relise you are ready to settle down with one person. Another could be that your mates have been hurt by females and just want to have some fun with them, this way they can assure they wont get hurt.
14947
Girls love to be proud of their guy, and tell the world how great he is. If a girl is actually complaining about her man, it means that she wants you to know she's not entirely happy... and usually this means she's interested in your opinion (or in you, but this may not have even occured to her yet). \n\n...if you're the single guy she's complaining to, well - this all sounds great. Problem is, you'd be getting her on a rebound call, and that's no good. I've been there... a number of times, and while I can't say with honesty that it won't work 100% of the time, I also can't imagine it works very often at all.
802734
I love this question its funny! Woman tend to stablish a emotional relationship first rather than the physical. So she is trying to establish that she can A-Trust You B-That once you get it you won't leave C- That you truly care for her. Men are naturally Horn Dogs:-), nothing wrong with it but i can understand where your coming from. Just like your doing continue to respect her and eventually she will feel comfortable enough with you to share that with you. In the meantime well you have a hand ;-) Good Luck and i give you props for just not ditching her when she said she wanted to wait it shows your a real man!
1091277
I find women who play hard to get a turn off. Don't get me wrong they cannot be easy, but when I have to go really far out of my way for someone I barely know then I just am not going to waste my time.
995957
It's because women are so much more emotional than men and for some reason we sometimes like to know if our man is thinking something good (or bad) about us. I know it probably gets annoying to men, but just have patience. Women are just wired differently than men, emotionally. And we feel the need to do things sometimes that feel perfectly normal to us but seem silly to men.
1017013
I think women are just too emotional. And alot of women are very insecure so telling someone whom they think has threatened them or hurt their feelings that they are a you know what makes them feel better, but only in the short term. Then they feel bad again and then call someone else a name and you see the pattern start.
1172133
That is definately normal.  Women these days are being attacked on so many fronts.  The chief one being self esteem.  What she really needs to do is have confidence in herself.  Men are drawn to that.  She needs to feel comfortable with her body, and with her personality.  If she doesn't know what to say when around others, that is alright.  If she is confident, the people she is around won't be able to help talking to her.  She can learn all of the other stuff on the go.
1027847
I've been guilty of that "super nice, but I am really hating you at this moment" kind of behavior.  A lot of the time it's because we want you to know why we are upset.  Not just that we're pissed- but the reason you pissed us off!  It can be tough figuring that one out, I know...  And the whole niceness thing is fake, you know that.... we want you to know we are ticked and trying to hide it...\nI think most women assume that men are emotionally retarded and think we are making it easier to understand us, when actually we are making it harder.  Good Luck with your girl...
1098952
Why are you asking Ladies for this.\n\nThis is a question for men.\n\nYou also still appear to be whining like a lil baby.\n\nMy advice is if you didnt do anything wrong, tell her to go \nStraight to Hellllll.\n\nThen go work on your flirting and "approaching" skill.\n\nMake a goal of getting at least 4 numbers in the next 3 days and call them.  If you have to lower your standards a little thats cool, as long as she is decent and open minded.\n\nNow GET OUT THERE and stop crying about this ONE silly chick.
635038
it is almost always annoying.  men think women go out to be hit on...we dont...we go out to have fun, not be a piece of meat
941531
Women are completely messed up in the head.  They only want things that they can't have.  By sending stuff to them and being nice they realize that they can have you and that makes them feel like their nothing special.  You must first show them that your'e special and get their attention by doing something funny, unique, or impressive all while acting disinterested.  Then pay them some attention and then only start being nice to them after they agree to go out with you.  Even then do not be overbearing just kinda act like theyre ok and then theyll be dying for attention and then in turn begin to develop an affection toward you.