My friend is gay ...?
831628
i dont think a person should be judged on weather they r gay or not personally i could never do it but i have gay friends and they r like ne other human being except they get critized for something they cant control just be there for ur frind and dont let ne thing ne body else says influnance u
443412
i had the same thing with my bezzie a few years ago, and for some reason out of our little gang he felt he couldn't tell me...he told everyone else.  don't ask him, just be a friend and make him feel comfortable in himself be open so he feels he can talk to u about it if he needs it.  He didn't tell me coz he thought i'd hate him and dissaprove!\n\nI love him, he's a mate!\n\nIt doesn't really matter whether he's straight or gay aslong as he's in your life!\n\ngive him time  \n\nxxx
509792
You are a guy, and he is a guy, right?  Makin sure I understand the question.  True friends are the BOMB, but if you are a guy and not gay, then just tell him like it is - you like women, you love him as a friend, but ya just don't go that way ... if he's a true friend, he'll understand and won't hold it against you.  You've been brave and strong enough to be his friend - even though he's gay and you're not ... if I'm getting this right - you've gotta be true to yourself just as he is true to himself.  Just put it out on the table the way it is ... the truth is always the best policy.  You might tell him if you were gay, he would be the first one you'd come to, but you're not.  He'll appreciate your honesty I think, and you will be closer friends for it.  And if I'm wrong and you're a female with a gay best friend - they are good friends, and I've found, real, honest, down-to-earth people, so....same advice.
847428
You don't.  If he is straight that means he is most likely not interested nd if you tell him you may just make him angry.  And they you, assuming you are friends, run the risk of losing his friendship.
1141940
He is absolutely a gay! He is a couple with Spongebob Squarepants! LOL!
121226
He may be gay. Have you given that any thought?\nOr his life goals could be taking another direction and he may be truly not ready for a relationship,Respect that and dont force the issue.It takes a lot of self control to sacrifice basic drives and instincts for a high&#92;er purpose.If you force the issue and he gives in he may end up resenting that down the line.Stay close tell him you support and respect his determination and see if he will be willing to be your friend at this point and let fate lead .
802096
If maces is really your friend and you want to continue being friends with him although he is gay then you should let him know that whatever he does with his personal life is not your business and that you will continue to be his friend.\nIf you don't want him to 'hit on' you in that way, let him know as well.\nIf however, you feel that you cannot under any circumstances continue being friends with Maces then you should part with him amicably and move on!
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
532072
You might feel like you're on a date, but that's just because you're straight.  He doesn't feel that way at all.  I had this one friend and I didn't think that I was leading her on or whatever and she KNEW I was gay, but she said that it was unfair of me to play with her like that and act like I was into her.  I wasn't GIVING her signals or anything though.  If he really wants you, let him come to you, you don't wanna lose a friendship just because you think you could convert him.  Things would just be WEIRD between the two of you.
563104
Deal with it. \n\nAccept it, and say that you are not gay(unless you are...).\nTell him to accept you as a hetero.
1138681
You can tell if your friend is gay by asking him.  \n\nIf you are not gay, you may want to mention how his behavior is unpleasant to you.\n\nIf you are gay, and he freaks out when you ask, you can point out that you're not the one who has been making sex comments and running around naked, and perhaps he should think about his actions.
213735
tell him its in the past and he should at least try to get over it. its ok to be gay, people are all different and theres nothing wrong with  a guy liking a guy. But did he want to be gay because of his x girl? maybe, since u say hes cute and nice, he should let that girl go and find someone better, someone who doesnt make fun of a pimple! obviously she wasn't the right on for him!
515141
That is a very hard situation. I suppose if she is your best friend she you should tell her that you are gay. If she reacts badly... then she isn't really your friend. It will hurt if she gets upset but it is worse to keep the truth from her, friendships are built on honesty.\n     If she does take it well then ask her if she has ever felt that way. If she claims not to then you can probably leave it alone and not risk messing things up. But if she has then tell her the truth flat out. Or just tell her the whole truth either way.\n     I have a friend who came out to me about a year ago. At first I was upset that she had not told me sooner. But after I saw how much happier she is now with that out in the open I accepted it. \n     Just tell her, she deserves to know.
768654
if your not "out" then it might not be as much of flirting as you might think/hope for. If he thinks your one of his buds, and is straight it might just be him being pals. don't read too much into it, I know you want to, and I know he seems like the perfect one for you, but stop and think about it. If he is not bi, then you could really ruin your friendship. Maybe feel him out a little, bring up something in the news or current events like gay marriage and see how he reacts to it. \n What ever you choose to do, go slow, and be smart.\n and as much as it sucks remember their is a big difference between love and lust.
53879
ofcourse not\nbut he should ask him that he wanna be his friend\n\ni will never make friend to someone that people think he is a gay
344685
I think I owuld be slightly worried by that to be honest, he's either very unconfident about his body and manlyhood or is a closet homosexual.... talk to him about it!
339234
Forget about it, be his/her best friend instead. Gay is gay, you will never be really loved in return and it only leads to unhappiness.\nGo out and find someone else - it sounds trivial, but in time it works.