What's Wrong with My Boyfriend?
831657
Just because he doesn't talk a great deal when you two are together doesn't mean anything. I talk to my girlfriend on the phone for a little while each day, but when we are together I can't ever think of anything to talk with her about, but that doesn't mean I care for her any less than before we started dating and we talked constantly. For guys, after a while we know what you like, what you would like, and all that so we don't feel like there is any reason to just go on talking about nothing. However, that doesn't mean your company is unwelcome. A lot of guys just like the company of the girl they care about. Don't take it too personally.
541435
What does your boyfriend think about this??
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
526177
sounds like he has some serious problems! i d say u best find out whts the cause for his mental state n move from there on!
508575
If you feel that way then it's not a healthy relationship and you should dump him. Love should make you feel like you'll burst from happiness. If it doesn't feel right it's not. Maybe one or both of you is/are suffering from depression. Maybe he has no respect for you. Is he Physically or verbaly abusive? If he is he won't let you go that easy. There could be lots of reasons for your feelings. You deserve happiness and should keep looking for it. Close this chapter of your life. Move on. Avoid guys like your boyfriend that make you unhappy.
462147
There's nothing wrong with you.He says he's attracted to you and you do have sex,just not that often.If it bothers you I'd ask him whats going on.Tell him his behavior makes no sense to you, it makes you feel insecure and you need to know why he does this.I'm sure the two of you can work it out..good luck!
953749
Your boyfriend is probably dysmorphic. Sufferers can find all kinds of body defects or imperfections when there actually is no problem at all. And yes, this syndrome is a variation of obsessive compulsive disorder.\n\nhttp://www.ncpamd.com/body_dysmorphic_disorder.htm
522481
To dump or not to dump?\n\nOkay. Take a couple days away from your boyfriend. Try and be as objective as possible. Write down the qualities you like and don't like about your boyfriend. Then write down the qualities you want out of a relationship, in general. Compare the two.\n\nYou'll find out what you feel is lacking in the relationship. Talk to him about it. Tell him your concerns. If he's not willing to work on it with you, then you should move on and find a guy who is.
334494
Come on!!!!, Can't your boyfriend invent anything better??? that an old excuse... He obviously has no interest in respecting you, let him go and then get rid of him.
1149284
have your boyfriend get treated.  \n\n(make sure he's not dipping his wic somewhere else and bringing it back to you)
920623
Your boyfriend can't fix you so quit trying to make him say things about you. All that will accomplish is driving him away. You need help but to expect him to fix you will only ruin your relationship. You need to get counseling so you can deal with your problem. Your boyfriend is not a counselor he is just a guy.\n\nTrust me I know this from personal experience, my girlfriend totally ruined our relationship with her constant neediness. When you act this way it ends up being all about you and his needs usually go unnoticed. Get out of yourself and into him.
484151
What's wrong with you?
775074
It sounds like he has major issues unrelated to you... but you are paying the price. You need to talk to him about this compassionately, but firmly and tell him he needs to treat you with more love and respect. You might be financially dependent on him for now, but you deserve to be treated with respect. You'll be okay if this relationship ends. Do what is right for you and be proactive... don't just sit and wait for him to figure it out. You'll only stay stuck in a bad situation.
955813
i think you should just ask your friends about it first i mean ait`s not your boyfriend`s fault. tell them how you feel, and ask them what would they do if it`s happening to them. i mean they won`t get it until they`re in someone else`s shoes. if they`re your friend then they would respect you and your boyfriend and lay off him. good luck ! =]
141568
Looking at this and all the other questions you have about your boyfriend leads me to believe that he is not the one with the problem.\n\nYou say you are living with your boyfriend, which leads me to believe that you are at least eighteen years old, but your lack of self-esteem and your dependence makes you seem quite a bit younger than that.\n\nYou may be pushing him away with your insecurities.  Men like independent, self-assured women who are confident in their own looks and personality.  Women who constantly compare themselves to other girls around them, who worry about their boyfriends' every glance at someone else - these women make men want to run and hide.\n\nYou can't change the past.  Worrying about it and snooping around won't come to anything good.  Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about *your* problem (insecurity) and tell him that you want to fix it but that you will need his help, patience and understanding.  Then do some sincere work on just letting go of the past, and building up some confidence in yourself.\n\nIt's not easy but you'll be way better off in the long run.
648033
you love him? does he love you? any kind of abuse going on?\n\nIf the answer is no, then what's the problem?
569316
Oh Jeeze...This is an obvious mis-communication in languages from man-speak to woman-speak.  You said,"What's wrong?" and he said "Nothing," but you already had it in your mind that there was something wrong, so you persisted.  YOU ARE NAGGING HIM.  Now he has something wrong - you.  Leave him alone, and let him have his space.  He'll call you later (it's been less than 1 day - you'll be fine).  Sorry to sound so rude, but I've had this too many times.  I would end up argueing because nothing is wrong, and I have to think of something to be wrong when she insists on an answer, when I'm really just tired/moody/blah.