i need some good advice pls?
813175
Not trying to be blunt or rude, but there are "plenty of fish in the sea", as they say. Look elsewhere and leave this one alone. Your friendship wasn't very tight if she can walk away that easily... sorry, dude!
765053
I suggest you take your advice from your last paragraph.  Take it easy as a friend, see where it goes.  Don't worry about what will happen in the future, be positive only about the NOW!.  Tomorrow will take care of tomorrow.\nGood luck..
360657
ummm can u tell me wat u need help with....i will help u!\n\n*peace*
926488
Uh, learn some manners?\n\nWe don't owe you "good" advice.  You post on the internet, you get what you get.  I don't even understand your post.  What does the first girl having sex have to do with this second girl?  \n\nIf you want good advice, write a question that is understandable.
336308
Be honest with your family. If they love you they will come to accept your life choices. You have to be true to yourself and not live your life for other people.
48871
Pray to God for help and guidance. In this situation, because there is obviously nothing you can really do, put it in God's hands. I'll be praying for you!! I hope this helps. :)
1088685
Everyone makes mistakes.Tell your mom that the girl you like isn't the only one who has made a bad choice.Tell your mom that nobody is perfect(including your mom).I kinda agree with your mom though too.She is only trying to protect you.She doesn't want you to get in with the wrong people.Drinking is dangerous.the only reason your mom grounded you and said you weren't allowed to talk to the girl is because she cares about you.some moms wouldn't do anything.She only wants what's best for you.i think you should try to get to know the girl better before you say you love her.i wouldn't sneak around and talk to her because you are going against your mom and you will get in even more trouble.
688597
All of you step back and take a breather. Spend a bit of time alone before doing anything as you still sound a bit confused about your feelings to be honest. Then you'll make a good decision
1134860
Go anyways. So what if your not that good. Its a learning experience and it builds character. In order to survive in this world anymore your self-esteem has to be so high that nothing phases you. Who cares what other people think.
888555
Yes! I agree totally! Thank you for asking this. The best thing to do would be to do other things. Keep yourself busy!
631909
How can you maintain a good friendship when you are yourself in doubt.The straight thing is, set your goals and then give a kick.It is always better to maintain a healthy  relation ship,with a good friend. THE ONE WHO IS INTERESTED IN YOUR BODY, ONLY TODAY, will certainly go for another girl next day.\n\nA GOOD FRIEND IS HARD TO FIND,to find a friend like this one has to go for as below, decide what you want----\n\nI have failed over and over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed----MICHAEL JORDAN.\n\nSTRENGTH does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.------MAHATMA GANDHI.\n\n HAVE YOU GOT THE INDOMITABLE WILL.
647804
Tell them to mind their own business. Do what feels best for you. Don't pay attention to what everyone else thinks you should do.
688767
I'm in the same situation you're in i cant seem to find a good man but hey I'm praying and i stepping out on faith that GOD will bring someone good in my life so my advice to you is to pray and ask GOD for guidance.
578967
calm yourself, lady.\nlove, dont lust.\nif u love, everything will be good for u.\nif u lust, things will be short for u.
502440
If you have to ask you need to find another guy.  The good ones know what will make you feel good and they will want to do it.
534100
Just relalx, enjoy and be yourself. You might surprise yourself with how good you are doing it. Best of luck
275351
It's so wonderful.  Congratulations!\nHonestly, just do what feels natural.  Don't worry about what people tell you what you should and shouldn't do - every relationship is different.\nI've found that the most important things you can have in a relationship is HONESTY.  If you aren't honest with someone, you clearly don't respect them.  I respect you and your request, which is why i'm honestly answering your question.\nHaha, not that i'm someone special...i'm just demonstrating my point.\nAnyway, honesty is important, and it's also important to make sure you...YOU...get used to being honest to your girlfriends in the future (unless you two last forever, which is a mixed blessing...because dating around is AWESOME and one of the best ways to learn about yourself and other people).\nGood luck!