Why do gay guys act feminine? and lesbos act butch?
816777
I think it is to balance masculine and feminine energies, which is hard in a same sex relationship...\n\n\nYou guys are kidding me that you do not see this correlation, being so politically correct you have to put on rose colored glasses....I am straight but go out to gay clubs and parties just because they are more interesting, and there are always straight people there doing the same thing. Nearly every couple has a top and bottom or aggressor and submissive role player....
503039
They can insult each other's manhood in the same way straight men do. Just as there are plenty of effeminate straight men there are a lot of masculine gay men. Insulting one's manhood is even more prevalent in the gay community since your sexual orientation has already knocked you down a point on that. So they make it up by being even better than the other boys. It is an insult for a gay man to be compared to a woman just as it would be for a straight man.
878446
Some gay men can be very melodramatic!  I worked with one and although I did not care that he was gay, he was the biggest back stabbing, gossipy person I had ever met.  However, my gay friend is nothing like the guy I worked with.  He is loving, smart and funny.  I have yet to meet a lesbian I didn't like.  They tend to be less stressed about things like looks and relationships unlike heterosexual females.
102650
I personally accept either one . But I know guys who sit there and think that lesbians are cool and drool at the thought of seeing two women go at it but mention gay males and they are practically throwing up and saying it is against gods way and all that. I say if these men think that gay males are against gods way then why dont they feel that lesbians are? Like I said at the top I have nothing aganist lesbians or gay males. To each his or her own is what I say.So I would have to answer question that lesbians are more accepted.
224568
The above guys who wrote that they are homosexual are obviously neanderthals with very little brain.  Poor guys.\n\nBallet attracts all kinds of wonderful men, most are straight just like in any job. \n\nYes the most common term is danseur.  That's what we use in our company.
1059934
I totally dig the butches!!! Butches tend to be very protective of their lady's and want to take care of them. I like that feeling. I could never be attracted to a fem. Would be too  much like making out with my best shopping buddy. I like the masculinity of a butch but the woman in the heart of the butch. HOpe that makes sense!!!
1011927
Not all butches want a femme for one thing. Some also shy away from femmes because they are often bi and they don't want to fall in love only to have the woman run off with a man later. Just be you and  some one will come along.
561498
No there doesn't always have to be a "masculine" and "feminine" member in every homosexual relationship. However I've seen it both ways.
694577
ITS THE OPPOSITE OF HOW THE GAY BASHERS ACT.  THEY ACT IMMATURE.  IT MEANS BEING RESPONSIBLE AND ACTING LIKE AN ADULT NOT A LITTLE KID.
1016875
I believe the level of difficulty isn't directly to related to whether you are a lesbian or a gay male but rather the extent to which your personality goes against society's idea of "normal" -- a very feminine gay man is going to have more difficulty "fitting in" to a society where men are expected to be "manly". A butch lesbian who doesn't meet the "feminine" requirements of society will also have a harder time, but at least she can kick their butts if they mess with her. :)
996283
Yes, that bothers me but I cannot help but laugh when I see them portrayed this way in movies.  I suppose I am use to all the gay humor and offensive portrayals that I , am gay male, laugh at these insane perceptions.\n\nBut, unfortunately in the TV world a gay drama queen wearing fuzzy pink daises and a tied up shirt is more "dramatic" and appealing to the audience versus a "normal" acting gay guy. It's just the sad truth.\n\nIt's up to people to separate fact from fiction...and I think most people will base their perception on experiences they have on their own with gay people.
435321
Same reason straight guys do.  To attract a mate, regardless of one's own personal preference.  I'm just glad that there are people out there who go for us geek types who don't have the chiseled and sculpted bodies.
111848
Real shemales is men who live and dress like woman 24/7. They are not gays. They feel and act as females and want/like therefore only men, not gays at all. \nSissy part time shemales, drags, transvetites is mostly men/gays liking female clothes.
565923
Gay men prefer a man instead of a woman right? Therefore, they act feminine to attract other gay men. Gay women act masculine to attract other gay women. One of the gay persons must act opposite to attract the other gay person. In that way, they play out the role of one being a man and the other being a woman. In actuality, they both are of the same sex and may often reverse rolls.
1050179
Since they themselves have NO IDENTITY of their own, copying other peoples[females] styles makes them superficial.  Now the bitchy part comes into play, when they are challenged.  A "bitch" is supposed to be a dog... so if the shoe fit's than they are the ones to wear it.  I'm not a gay basher but I do know several gay guys who wish they could possess what a woman has, therefore, they tend to hid under a superficial disguise - not of themselves.... Let's pray they stop the spread of STD's.
295991
Alot of men do that.  Not all of course but alot do.  And some will even act gay around other gays even though they themselves arent.  Just for the mere fact that they are comfortable around them.  A gay man is a curious one.   They can act flaming gay or as straight as a board.  It all depends on the man.
1021915
Probably because it's considered masculine.