GUYS ONLY!!, Do you only like a girl because of the way she looks or are you less shallow then i thought?
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Obviously, the first thing you notice about someone is their appearance. There are still a few of us guys that look beyond that though. I have dated some very good looking gals that I lost interest in due to lack of conversation. I have dated several ordinary/plain looking gals and had far better relationships with them. To some of us, what's inside means more than what's outside, but noone wants someone they aren't physically attracted to.
542964
Hasn't anyone told you beauty's only sking deep? Because it's true. If you really love her, she'll know and your looks won't matter to her. Personality, mind, and spirit are way better to have than a nice rear.
357917
Hmmm...wot do guys like in a gal? It's a li'l tricky question, I must say. Yet, I'll try to answer the best I can manage.\n\nI think, whenever a guy looks at a gal, the first thing he's gonna notice are her body, her clothes and probably the way she carries herself. And then again, if those 1st impressions pique the guy's interests, he might go up and talk. In that case, what matters, what  personally feel, is the substance in her words, the way she talks, her choice of words, how intellectual she is...and yeah, definitely how funny she is.\n\nNow, what a guy might like in a gal are obviously dependent on himself and that the criteria are definitely subjective. I think u shall just need to look out for the right signs and decipher them to realize what your guy likes about you and improvise on them!!
347266
Shaved girls are more of a novelty than anything else.\nOnce you get used to it, it makes no difference either way.\n\nIf a guy is so shallow that he cant handle one way or another, well, he's probably not that good a lay to begin with.
317994
I think you've waited long enough. If you really like this girl, then why don't start talking to her more often. Become good friends with her and then ask her out, this will take longer, will almost be a sure fire way to get her to say yes, and will eliminate all thoughts of you being shallow.
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A girls character and the way she presents herself to me is what I like the most.  Obviously a nice body helps.  But over all I would definately say character and sense of humor.  I like when girls talk to you and start to curl their hair and look like they are really interested in what you have to say.  Like when a girl leans into the conversation....that's cool.  Eye contact and a little smile from a girl is nice too.  :)
950256
My experience(personal and clientelle) suggests that we do not. Although we can appreciate a beautiful face we actually like someone with a figure. We all have features that attract our eye more than others, chest backside, legs etc but truly after the innitial view men quickly revert to the features they prefer and to the personality...men really just want a woman who makes them think they are the one without losing themselves.
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Well, I like girls that look good, and don't have a dull personality.\nOpen minded, someone who isn't living for material wealth. Things like that. I don't really "look" for them, as much as I just end up meeting them and talking with them.
753018
no i couldn't, i've had a couple of uglies, urgh.\nnever again, i like my girls, but not the butt ugly ones.
176618
I don't judge a girl on the way she looks, yeah looks are all apart of it but it's her personality that would draw me closer, not only her personality but the way she acts....looks aren't everything! I don't see a guy can like a girl only on her looks, it's never gonna last. Yeah sure she's hot but who cares if the relationship is only going to last a month, that's a month you could've been with someone that really counts.
769254
I think that is shallow...picking between the two based on looks.... but who are you more attracted to. This is a personal preference decision. Who treats you the way you want to be treated...in ALL ways!
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It is important and it's not! You don't want a shallow girl, the kind that is with you for looks and if you are not good looking then she wouldn't be with you. That is where looks should not be important. The girl should like you for who you are and not because you have great looks. The way you look are important in a sense that yes we are attracted to guys who take care of themselves. Always take a bath, clean fingernails, clean socks, and clean under ware! That is where the looks are important, but if the girl is shallow looks shouldn't matter. I hope that helps! \n\n~browneyes~
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What kind of "get on" are you talking about?  If you truely like her, there shouldn't be any "get on" right now.  If she truely likes you, she won't care about your hair.  If she has a problem with it, would you really want to be with a girl that shallow?
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Personally, I like a girl who's not self-centered, takes care of herself, and has a great sense of humor.\n\nThe usual physical accoutrements are nice, too. :)
174899
Most guys like slim girls but many guys like all shapes and sizes.  Its just personal preference.  I have a friend who only likes girls who are at least 250 pounds and he is only 170.
256225
That sounds reasonable....It sounds like you not shallow, which is always a good thing...Shallow guys suck because they never know what they are missing out on...
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For me. I notice her face first. Mostly look for some deepness (intelligence and/or intensity) in her eyes. Then how she moves. If she smiles at me. How her boobs and butt  look. Flaunting a bit says confident to me, I like that. I like down to earth, no makeup, really really long hair, interesting , smart, able to laugh easily. etc.\n\nIts different in what I like to look at for 10 seconds or when trying to make a life connection with someone. Both are nice. I love those, "hey you are very cute", "thank you" sort of interactions. 30 seconds usually but still very nice