Guys...In a relationship..What would you do? And why do you do it?
830802
If you think it will work then keep just intouch enough with him to let him know your around and waiting for him if you think that it is worth it.  He has to chose if he really wants you or is willing to settle for what his family approves of.  If that is a dilema to him then you have to wonder for yourself if it is worth it
759789
To answer you question.. I think guys should definitely do the pursuing in the beginning stage of a relationship. There for.. no don't call him.
772200
if you do love the person, why not???
308831
Two schools of thought on that one\n\n1.Quit leading the poor fella on, either you love him or you don't. It sounds as if he definitly takes your feelings into consideration, why not do the same. \n\n2.Give him and love a real chance and you might surprise yourself finding out just how wonderful it can be to have someone in your life that puts your feelings first, there's not a lot of us guys out there like that.
823353
What is the rush?  If he is hesitant to talk about it or “side-stepping” the idea at the moment, why push it?   If he was really read to commit right now, he would approach you on it.  You know how men are, when they really want something they manage to get to work on it all by themselves
789379
ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
335671
if i were a guy i would do it. it's nice to have variety. i love a man that can have fun like that. that makes things not dull. with and without others around.
211784
No, not many guys do. I can see that you like this guy too but you want to give yourself some time and space. I think you should tell him about it but in a softer way and see how he responds to it. I believe he should understand. But if he doesn’t, then forget it he’s not worth it.
1127746
do what you did with every other guy in the past..or just pretend you are cheating on him
266959
Just do it and get it over with. Why do you want to break up if you love him so much?
759029
Well....for the guys..the objective is met..so the question in their mind would be (a) When to exit? (or) (b) What next?\n\nFor the girls..the emotional entanglement has just begun...so no questions or doubts but a lot of expectations.\n\nSo if the expectations are met the relationship flourishes into something better...if not it leads up to an eventual break-up!
130057
My most dificult time is right now upon me ... since I don't know what to do ...\nI've been with my girlfried for a while but things don't go exactely as I think they should (and for some time I thought she and I shared the same conceptions about life and love). She spends more and more time with a friend of hers (also a girl) and she's beginning to borrow this other girl's habits and views, views which stain my (which I thought was our) ideal of love, turning into some daily cheap thing. Realizing this kinda hurts but I'm not sure if I am entitled to tell her what to do or just let her go on the path she seems to be choosing.
287634
If you love him, yes. But why did you guys break up in the first place? Did he cheat on you or vise versa? Did he lie to you or vise versa? Do you guys trust each other? Really think about these things. Then decide from there.
295708
I have a similar problem in reverse. I always find that guys (some of which are my friends) have a tendency to be clingy. This rattles my cage very much, however the best thing you can do, is bring it up casually (but not passive-aggressively) in a conversation, listen to that person's response, then fill in the blanks yourself. Don't dwell on it. If it's been a long relationship (5+ months) and there have been very few or no instances of cheating, I would trust the person to not do that to you. I hope this has been of help but I am not very good at giving advice.
363216
Most guys do that, but i think you should at least try to talk to hime about it. Maybe if you let him know how you feel he might try to change. If he doesn't care well then he shouldn't be your boyfriend.
1052620
why is a guy asking this ???
81818
unfortunatly I have to say i reckon men are like that it has happened to me. We do not do it on purpose though. It is just that things seem to get into a routine. Do something dramatic and unexpected. Add a little spice to the relationship. Tell him to chill out, shut up, and have some dang fun or else. LOL    another thing is he could be going through some things in his life. Try talking to him and find out what is wrong.