how do i tell i guy i have fallen in love and not scare him away since we havent been together that long?
820156
dont tell him let him say it 1st. trust me its better off that way
176841
(Oke this is a silly question though)\nwhy you and ur b/f are alone, tell him all the thing you've d liked about him. Lift him up. Be sure you both are in a serious mood. As you tell him all the thing tell him that you really do not appricate the "ickling to death". Tell him politly that its oke till a certain extent or sometimes!!
670905
Don't be afraid to tell him.You might have a new boyfriend:)
848264
Eventually if you want to have a serious relationship and marriage with this guy, everything is going to have to come out into the open. It won't be easy, but if he truely loves you he should be accepting of what has happened to you. Remind him that there was an agreement that the two of you made not to talk about the past and now that he has shared with you and you are understanding that you would like to be able to have the same reaction.
323109
If he has just come out of a long relationship, don't push this too hard.  Just be there as a friend to start with, and let him know you are there for him.  When he's ready for a relationship, he'll let you know.
1063580
You can't, really, if they don't want to be with you. I'm going through the same thing too, and the best thing is to just say how you feel. I did, and things are okay, I guess, but we haven't talked since them but i see him tonite. But yea, don't make up cheesy bullsh*t, just tell 'em flat out how it is. Good luck!
286060
FIRST OF ALL WHO IN THE HELL CARES IF THEY TEASE YOU,IF YOU BOND TOGETHER LIKE YOU SAY YOU DO THEN BE TOTALLY HONEST AND TELL HIM BEFORE ITS TO LATE
241431
Be Open and Honest with him, tell him how you feel..communication is essential in any type of relationship romantic or otherwise so talk to him and make him understand that you care but, that the two of you have all the time in the world and there is no need for rushing into anything. take your time and don't be pushed into anything that your not ready for. Follow your heart and instinct. Good Luck!
973972
First, do take your time. People change, so you want to be sure he is still the same guy you cared so much for in the past. If he is, and he feels for you as you do him, why do you want to hide your feelings from him? This could be the beginning of something really great! Don't put up a wall and miss out on something that could be a once in a lifetime opportunity! \n"It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all!"\nGo for it!
1167754
Just pay extra attention to him first, and then it should feel easier to find the right time and way to tell him! :)
359842
Tell him you're flattered but that you don't think of him in that way.\nTell him that you've known him for so long now that you just can't see him in that way.\nBe nice about it & don't give him any hope that you may change your mind in the future, just be nice to him about it.\nIt takes a lot of nerve to tell someone you like them, respect that he probably worked up the courage to tell you for ages & don't hurt his feelings.
547866
Just tell him that you love him with your whole heart in a way that you have never loved anyone before. Maybe right him a poem or a nice letter that he can keep and read when he needs reminding of your love.
73113
Don't bring up your ex-lovers.  And if he insists, then tell him as little as possible, and remind him that that was then, this is now.
132010
Best approach is to be direct! Be polite, just tell them the truth and hopefully they'll understand. Well unless you're with them for very long already and suddenly you fall for someone else...
93030
Have some class and tell him.  The more you pull back and hope he gets the hint, the more he's going to want you and annoy you with his wussy love-prattle.  If you tell him directly, leave no room for error. If he's some sort of psycho he'll try to keep you in his world, if he's normal and cool then just agree that you both keep the break-up details a secret (nobody dumped anyone, it was mutual).
1152181
I'd suggest the most obvious thing to do...Say hi.  Don't scare him off telling him you've had a crush on him for 5 years...just play it calm and casual and be cool :)  You'll do fine, its a simple hello.  And hes known as the 'boy next door' who knows, maybe he feels the same way
487590
well \n\na good idea will be to create the scene like the time you to first met go to places where you to went and made love\n\nremind him of all the good times you had \n\nalso remind him that you two have been together for 8yrs thats sth