How do I deal with unwanted guests?
815999
Your in a tough spot and I don't agree with unwanted guest.  BUT it is the holidays and you don't want to seem like a complete jerk by saying they can't come.  At least this time it is family his sister right?  So holidays are about family and sharing so your going to have to accept her 'partner' as part of your family.  If you keep pushing him away he may make your mother start spending the holidays away from you...since his family is excluded.  Do you see my point?  \nSo to keep the peace just suck it up and set out two extra places and try to keep the holiday spirit in your heart even though you want to strangle him!!
24943
You can't, if you are worried about hurting feelings because of who you don't invite, then  just go elope.  That's what I'd do, it's your day, not thiers.
1120258
Just make it increasingly uncomfortable for them - they'll get the message.   I've seen that happen (to me) and it didn't take long to figure out that I wasn't welcome... I moved on to greener pastures. \n\nYou might start by turning over a new leaf and changing a bunch of stuff around - then just keep on mentioning one more little thing...    \n\nLeave some apartment finder guides around the house too. \n\nCheers!
1028644
Ignore them; don't let them know it's irritating you.  They will get tired soon enough.
338082
ignore them or just simply tell them to leave you alone. if that doesnt work then maybe just giving the cold shoulder will give them the hint.
572150
Send a buddy you have in you're town to have a little "chat" with him and have him tell him when you come back, you'll be "visiting" him too. Maybe your wife can file a complaint somewhere, so they get rid of him, or she can go somewhere else then. that stuff pisses me off! I don't even know you, but Id go there for you at a drop of a hat! Take care over there, watch each others back and come home safe.
829792
avoid any confrontation, play the headache/not feeling well act until yo are ready to bounce then leave him a note letting him know why you chose to go.. maybe with a word of advice in the hopes that he'll be better to his next victim...\nthis is assuming of course that he is unbearable...\nMaybe you're the tough one to get along with?
321876
you need to be up front and ask them what there problem is. if they dont tell you just blow them off. they will come around
987333
What do they want to call them? Uninvited Guest? Terror Tourist? Benefit Bitters? Cross Country Coyotes? Race Rats? Fleeing Fleas? Bragging Brats? Complaining Campaigners?
916278
Give them a rent book, visitors shouldn't be staying that long. If they object show them the door. Your visitor is probably using your gas, electric, water and if they are using that then in theory they should be billed for half of it. You might wanna take advice from a lawyer too. See what the visitors rights and your rights are. Personally I feel you are being taken for a ride with this one. When they arrived they probably had no intentions of moving on quickly. Now you must put your foot down and say if you stay you pay. My bet is they will be gone by the morning!
1005163
I would mention everything "informally" as it happens, then hit them with a list. However, after you give them the list, you have to make sure they follow it, so mention everything afterwards, and make sure they do it. Remember, it's your apartment, and you're the one that can kick the others out if they don't follow your rules. Of course, you want to all try to reach an understanding of the rules if you're going to live together (maybe host a meeting?) If they don't like it, they'll leave. If they cooperate, everything will be fine.
652940
Remember that the customer is the reason that you are there. Actualy take an intrest in their problem/situation. I use this rule How would I treat my Parrent or best friend. Make everyone feel special, like they are the only guest you are dealing with. There is a book called the Customer Driven Company READ IT it has quite a few examples of the info that you are looking for.
1135800
If you've told them how you feel and they still insist on having people there that you don't really want, then there isn't much you can do.  You can try talking to them again and reminding them that this is your graduation party and you would appreciate it if they would respect your wishes - but that doesn't mean they will listen.\nIf you have to deal with the unwanted people then just do it - it will only be for the evening and it might not be so bad.  Maybe have a couple of your close friends sleep over that night that way you get some time to hang out with them alone.
281037
The host should be told right away that you have to leave. If you can't speak to the host yourself ask someone reliable there to tell the host for you.
734345
I'm a bit like that aswell sometimes. Just take a deep breath and walk away. Staying there will make you more angry. If you can't walk away, just tell them you're doing something wrong politely.
181973
First report them to the landlord.If that does'nt work,and you don't want to confront them yourself,call the police.I wish you luck.I have the same problem here.My neighbor is a 21 yr old alcoholic who loves to party,and entertain friends from Thursday night to Monday morning.I have called the law 3 times this week,and all they do is come by ,and tell them to turn the music down.We are very quiet people,and the noise makes me very nervous.
862285
why not call the Hotel, tell them the situation and ask them....that should take all of maybe 5min to do and you get your answer quicker then asking a bunch of people on yahoo