How do I find My true gay love?
817851
Look in all the right places. Mr Wrong is always at the bars and etc... Mr Right might be at a cooking class or a singles group. (gay relationships can be difficult it is not like you can always spot each other on the streets) reach beyond your horizons and desperately seek Mr Right instead of Mr Rightnow....\n\nI told a friend that I was sitting at the house waiting on Mr Right.... He laughed and said no, thats the postman.... He is straight..... (so I went out and searched until I found him.... 4 years now.... Happy I  saved myself for him...
520232
How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet. \n\n\n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay. \n\n\n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay. \n\n\n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n\n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffee is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too. \n\n\n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious! \n\n\n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone. \n\n\n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
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All gays are males only.Biologically they are active and potent and can reproduce normally. It is the brain chemisty that determins their rientation. Certain amount of gayness exist in all. I feel you are from India and a south Indian.Most of us had some experience at least in the school days. We hav an affection towards certain actors, sport persons etc. when that admiration exceeds there will develop a love bond. That is all.\nIf you wish how u can chk a person hav more gay orientation. it soo simple stare at him. Observe him closely with a certain love in your eyes. the feelings can be communicated easily and automatically. So you can find whether he really likes u and wants U.\nIt is your past experience and fantacies makes you gay noot biological. Anybody can be a gay provided the situation is sutable. But later it will make certain changes in the human brain which can be considered like making a wall. Each brick of fantacy or a fondiling memory or experience will increase the wall height which seperate from desire for a female. Actually sex is nothing but a pure mind game. Physical part is only 10% that is purely biological. Even the secreation of different hormones upto your performane ... It is truely a mind game.
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Just breathe :) If you're attractive, smart and nice then you should be swatting men away!!! As for true love, sometimes you have to wade through a mess of people before the right one stands out from the crowd. Are you looking for people who have similar interests? Maybe you should try looking for people who have completely different (translate into "new for you") interests.\nPerhaps the love of your life is someone you would never have considered because you do not, currently, share his views on...anything. Perhaps one of you will change before you meet. Perhaps after. Perhaps you'll never agree and life will be one long, interesting conversation.
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Go inside the quiet place of your perfect mind, shut the door, and be with "Him".  Read the Bible, yes, but do so with a huge grain of salt.  Do not take it literally, remembering its age, and the many languages it has been translated from and into.  \n  Believe in yourself, for God IS your Self.  Never give up your quiet seeking, as you close your eyes to find "Him".  Ask, and you will find.  "He" is everything that you really are.  Seek, and find.  Peace to you.
1080668
Love is neither right or wrong. We cannot help who we love. What we CAN help is how we act upon it. For example, if the object of your love is married or someone otherwise completely unavailable, you should have the commons sense/morals or whatever not to act upon that love. On the other hand, as far as homosexuality, I would say that depends on your age, your maturity, and again the availablility of that person...are they free? I get the feeling you are very young and you may mistake attraction for love. Just be careful, be mature, talk with a family member or professional and...follow your heart. Just try not to hurt anyone along the way. \n\nDoxieLover
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You could start on Myspace, or something like that just by checking off gay and looking for a relationship rather than straight. My good friend has found a lot of good guys on that site, he tried gay.com for a while, but he thinks the men on myspace are less out only for sex. You just have to be a little bit forward and email some guys to get started if you can. But I know what you mean about bars, it's easier online sometimes. Try other places too, you'll find something/someone!
132375
Set a standard of who you would like to be with, and then search for him. But never lower your standards for anyone!\n\nAnd DON'T use yourself either!\nUse HOPE of finding the right person to keep you going thats what I do!
1065022
Just wait on Mr. Real. He will appear in your life when you least expect it. Unless you are gay, or bi, you would not enjoy being with a woman.
224086
If you are looking for a man to love and who will love you too, no need for you to find one true love. I can say that LOVE is like magic that will come into your life naturally. Thus, it is very important to wait and be patient.
112729
I can understand where ur comin from... 2 yrs i found the perfect guy for me an i let him slip away an i regret it to this day even tho i have a boyfrien that i love very much... ive tried many ways to find him an havent had any luck... If u kno how to reach him let him kno how u feel... Tell him u wanna be wit him an ask him how he feels about u... If the feelins r mutual then gone head an do yo thang!!! :-D
627009
okay, here is a real answer from a real guy who found real love... look for someone who loves you for YOU... the way you really are.. don't try to play up to something you think they would like.. just be yourself, and someone who loves all the things that you are will come along... watch out for girls who try to change you into what they want u to be... they won't make you happy and you wont make them happy... someone who loves you just the way you are will make you happy, and vice versa.. here's a hint... look to your female friends... they already know you and like you for who you are... are any of them someone you could love forever and share similar interests with?
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I always keep an open mind.... true love is whatever you make it. If you want this to be your true love and he feels the same than it will work out that way. On the other hand if one of you is not as into the relationship than it won't work. Finding true love is not about finding perfect person but finding someone that you can compromise with and that is willing to work to have a happy relationship. If this is you than maybe you've found what your looking for.\n\nYou come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.-Sam Keen
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how about when you find your true love?
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The sure thing is that true love exists! \nbut the reason that makes us doubt about it and ask such a question is that not everyone is lucky enough to find it and some of us are not smart enough to keep it.\nJust never give up, and dont waste your time looking for it.\nYou can never find true love, he will always find you and you'll never know where and when!
217110
Dump the homo and find a real man.  Seriously.
99057
You don't "find" love, love finds you. Just be patient and care about and respect yourself enough that you don't settle. Don't be in love with the idea of being in love. True love is worth waiting for no matter how long you have to wait. The right man is out there for you, just give yourself and him enough time to find each other. You will be happy that you did wait. My other advice is to make a list of the characteristics that you are looking for in a man. Once you have your list, try to think of where a man with these qualities would be found and then frequent those places if they interest you. Don't go looking for love, just put yourself into an area where love might find you. Good Luck!! =-)