Should she ditch the fiance?
831038
Yes, because if he is going to blow up every time  he doesn't get his way, then what will happen next? will decide to start taking swings at her. Get her out of there.
312293
Wow! That's a toughie my friend! Sounds like your ex doesn't know what she wants, and so, neither do you, hence all this confusion. But, that said, she has made her decision, for better or worse - she doesn't want to be with you. So, two choices here, I think. You leave her alone to make her life without you. Or, you become a thorn in her flesh by not accepting that she doesn't want you, and for damn sure, you will lose her friendship that way too. But, I think she is not much of a friend to you anyhow. You thought she would take you to heaven, but she's put you in hell. People like her like to play games with other people's emotions because, as she clearly demonstrates, she is not in control of her own. Can't offer any more help that that, except to assume the guy she is marrying has more money than you.
436287
how about...Now!!\n\nHe should know what he is getting into.\n\nMy friend's fiance had severe mental illness...told her a 2 weeks before their wedding.....then killed himself.\n\nHe also...killed her heart and soul...for eternity.\n\nHe should know what he is getting into so he is allowed to make the choice.\n\nWouldn't you like to know something this severe about someone you were getting involved with?\n\nIt's only fair.\n\n$20,000.00 in debt?????  Jeez!!!
1153241
In my opinion, this sounds strange to me. Maybe her boyfriend said something to her about you after you and your fiancee' left that night. Since you just met this couple awhile back, he may be using you as an excuse to break up with her. Or he may have found you very attractive and keeps telling her that. That would make any woman upset. Whatever the case, she is mad for something her boyfriend said, not what you had said. For the dirty looks, and she tells you to go find a hobby. The man had something to do with this. If it happened to me, I would go on with my life. I don't need friends like that to ruin things for me.
380404
I think by posting on here, you pretty much know what you should do, but are really scared to do it. If your fiance is taking your pills, he obviously has a really bad problem. If you really love him and don't want to leave him, then try to help him get into a program, and if he doesn't do it, then leave him. But if he is willing to ignore your pain over his like that, then he may not be the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
908726
There is absoulutely NO excuse to why she should be talking to her Ex on the phone. Who cares if she gets pissed that you are pissed about it! She should respect you enough NOT to talk to him....she's not with him anymore she is with you! If my fiancee talked to one of his ex's all the time there would be a HUGE problem for him! Speak your mind because personally I do not think you are in the wrong at all!! Good Luck!
385037
Tell her if she doesn't like her partner, than get rid of him.  Otherwise, live with it and quit complaining.
634579
You have to choose between your kids and your fiance. " A woman's first social duty is towards her own family". Plan it out with the concurrence of your kids.Put this question to them.
1161917
i think if its an abbusive relationship then they  should leave, but if u just leaving 2 b with some 1 else then u r wasting your time cuz the new person could always leave u and then u will regret it and it  will b 2 late 2 go back to your spouse u left.
702284
She is playing the "boyfriend" of hers for a fool. I mean, she is, really. I think that, once this all blows up in her face, she may want to run and cry next to you about everything. This is what I think you should do.\nI think you should ask her what her problem is. Then, if she wants to date both of them, then she will be the one who will break up with him-with no help. This is her mess and she will be the one who will get out of it. Do not do anymore with this mess she is getting herself into. If that boyfriend ask you about what is going on, just tell him that he needs to talk to her, not you, because you are out of this.
586386
no, I don't think you should. If they are unable to remarry at this time, they are not dating material. Just my opinion. You could be setting yourself up for a disaster.
227075
I have to agree with rkrell, i have been where you are, get her out of that situation. it is nothing but trouble  for you. Those are the doors that need to be closed in life. Especially fomr the past, if they remain open your future will never be as it could and should be. Especially since you two want to get married. You are only short changing yourrelationship by allowing her to getto knwo this guy...bad move
593926
You know what spooky it ain't you it's her she want another man or is already seeing one. i know i have been there with my ex-fiance when i started giving excuses for not sleeping with him i had my own thing on the side. so don't be a fool you better go get you some cause she already is.
154664
change right now into the non tempermental man who wont hurt his fiance. and be scincere about it. if you really love her, and obviously want to marry her, change for yourself and her. if not, then maybe youll lose her..
227483
It sounds like a good way to get shot,by him or her,If she is really into her marriage she will sense something is wrong and confront him herself.when that happens she may need YOU.Try to be there for her then.
830879
I suggest you talk to her about it. Decide whether it is something you two can work through together, if it isn't then seriously consider calling off the marriage. You shouldn't accept that from anyone you are worth someone who is faithful. But people also do make mistakes. The question is can you ever forgive her? and is she someone you want to marry?
500448
Break up... It'll be easier for the both of you... Plus, your future fiancee would probably appreciate it... I mean, who'd want to get married to a girl who had a boyfriend all the way to the day of the wedding!!! \n\nBreak up now!!!!