Why do most gays i encounter hates pretty women?
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They probably wish they were pretty girls.
104703
The cute guys hate everyone who they think isn't worthy of their time and that's the factual truth. Even guys get a little of their so-called "wrath". Don't worry, one day when you blossom into a beautiful girl, they'll come crawling back after you - but you'll be just walking past them; giving them the cold shoulder...\n\nTrust me, your time will come...
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I don't know where you live, or if you get out of the house much. Or if you just frequent the same places over and over again. There are, I am proud to say, a great number of beautiful lesbians out here. I happen to know..I'm one of them! :0 \n\nNot knowing your past experiences with lesbians, it's hard to know what your ideas of fat, ugly and mouthy are. I happen to think that Melissa Ethridge for one, is quite beautiful and she's about as lesbian as they get. But that's my idea. That she is beautiful, I mean. I am afraid that I am getting the sense that no one would match up to your version of beauty. \n\nAs for the mouthy part....lol...if you had to spend every minute of every day justifying your EXSISTENCE, much less your physical appearance.....lol....you'd be a bit grouchy too.\n\nOh, and I just LOVE how you're agreeing with the folks that only hold your opinion.  Ohhh, that just makes me hot......lol
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Being gay I get along great with hott chix, complimenting their shoes, their outfits, their makeup, basically getting to know them as people and not as hott chix with big breasts and shapely legs. I have no sexual interest in them at all.\n\nTry seeing women as people rather than sex objects to be drooled over and you might get farther.
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Yes! All the Af-Am automatically think I hate them. I don't care what someone looks like or what religion someone is, treat me with respect and I'll like you.\nAlso, people frequently stare or make rude comments when I'm with my girlfriend. I never do more than hold her hand in public. I don't stare at straight couples when they do PDA. Rude!
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Some people with certain religious beliefs, or cultural attitudes will not like you because they feel it is wrong, or are disgusted and threatened by the idea. There is nothing you can do about that.  It's been my experience though (as a gay man) that if MANY people don't like you, as you stated, It's probably not because of your sexuality. You might want to look at other aspects of yourself as the problem.
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Yeah, well culture and society doesnt allow THAT avenue of exploration, and most guys are told that they HAVE to like girls. Everything, almost, on movies, television, sports, books, and bar chats tell him that he is EXPECTED to want women. Later on, when he has time or space enough or open mindedness to really see what he is about without the expectations forcing him into a mold, he might discover that hes not really attracted to women. It takes being able to step out of the role that he has built his very life around. They may have honesty never even thought about it and it was only after living with a woman for a while that they realized they felt no sexual attraction towards her. I heard that the most violent homophobes are often themselves sexually frustrated and have gay feelings that they cannot accept about themselves so they turn their rage against gays who are happy with who they are. In the red heat of their anger they dont rationalize their feelings and figure out why they are mad.
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I think it's one of the most natural, understandable things in the world. Women are beautiful and sensual - why wouldn't other women be attracted to them? Homosexual men... well that's just gross.
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what are you talking about some women think its cool to out someone those women are jerks i wouldnt do that if your gay your gay who cares just dont tell me what you do in the bedroom
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well i think gay people are hated still because people think that they are the cause of aids and there are alot of ignorant people who don't understand that we are all the same and for some reason they think gay people are drug useres and alcoholics and party all the time. I think it's plain and simple ignorance and i wish it would stop because it's pathetic how stupid some of the most intelligent people are when it comes to fact and fiction.
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I am not even going to waste my time and reply to most of what you are saying because you said yourself you CAN'T GET IT. But I just wanted to point out that you are wrong about animals and homosexuality, there is large numbers of research that shows homosexual activity in animals, all types of animals. So who says it isn't natural?\nHere are just a couple of links to studies done on it. One artical is even from the national geographic.\nSo maybe you should REALLY know what you're talking about before you get on a homophobic rant.\n\nEDIT\nOk since you really want to know. Then no I don't see it as an illness, and to me it is prefectly natural. As another poster said, I can still look at a man and see him as good looking, but when it comes to sex I am just not interested and i actually get grossed out at the thought some times. \nCan you think of a man that you know that you would NEVER want to think of sexually and if you did it would totally gross you out? Like a family member or maybe some nasty dude that lived down the street or the plummer with the hairy crack? Thats how I feel when I think of most guys sexually, I don't want any sweaty stinky .....thing coming anywhere near me.\nNow women on the other hand...true some of us can be sweaty and stinky and nasty but over all women are just beautiful, everything about a woman is beautiful, inside and out.
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yes, i have friends...\n\nthey hated other gays because these other gays make a bad name for gay people.... they cross-dress disgustingly that's why some gays who wear proper clothes are sometimes insulted and made fun of.
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I had a lunch date with a beautiful woman once, but mostly she just led me on--does that count?  I don't think I was hideous or even very ugly, but I'm sure plenty of women would have rated me below average.  She once said she thought I was good-looking on our first meeting, but then she was a teaser.\n\nI did know a strikingly handsome Tom-Selleck-type guy who married an ugly woman.  I knew them after they were married so it's possible she lost her looks to childbirth but that would have been an extreme decline.  The marriage broke up after about 20 years.  Other than that, heterosexual couples I know and have known seem to be very close on the rating scale.  Very different story for gay couples, though.
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Not always. I think the reason alot of gay guys hang around women because they are generally more accepted by women. Men tend to be more homophobic.
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not all men. some men, gays, don't like women at all. they are crazy about themselves. some think this is a sign that the antichrist is among us. i'd like to point out that jebus himself washed the feet of other men.
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i have often wondered that myself.  I have tlked to many gays & bi's and have not got an answer from them either.  it is like why does a gool looking girl like and ugly guy and vice versa
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You're a douche, why would you "hit it" if she really is how you describe her "poor and average looking and smells like a french fry and has a PMS attitude."  Guys like you are why women hate men!