What does one do when an ex can't get the message to stay away.?
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You need to have a serious heart to heart with your husband. Explain to him how you feel and make sure he's on the same page as you. If you need to, involve the authorities. It sounds like this woman is a little bit shy of a full deck. Be careful.
191563
You really can't. I had the same problem, but fortunatly for me she lives 300 miles away so they lost touch.\nIt'd piss me off too. Eventually they will stop talking and move on.\nBut, if she comes over to see him when you're not there, you should seriously talk to him about it, and tell him it is unacceptable.
426918
Real simple, change your schedule, keep out of his way, don't put yourself into situations where you may run into him.  If you meet up with him, smile, say you have things to do, and walk away.  He will get the message.
299537
Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you
268277
Tell him in no uncertain terms to \n\n" Go forth and multiply " \n mark his mail 'spam' and you can also block his texts,tell him YOU WILL take legal action if he doesn't keep his distance
27095
As the saying goes " There's no easy way to break somebody's heart" There will always be heartaches and disagreements especially if one doesn't want to let go. What worked for me is remaining good friends with my EX. :-)
719382
Knowing that you just hung up on him, wait until tomorrow or the next day, just to calm your nerves.  Find out if y'all can meet somewhere and discuss the problem.  But if chooses to remain stubborn, do others things to take your mind off of him.  It may take some time, but it can be accomplished.  I was in a situation similar to yours.  Don't waste your time thinking about someone who doesn't respect your wishes.
344921
make sure your not sending mixed messages - tell your ex VERY FIRMLY that if he tries to touch you again you are getting a restraining order and consider getting one
13854
not really, why are you even asking this question? if you stopped IMing him a few months ago, then i would just leave it at that, just block him and dont sweat it or dont SMS him or whatever. you might not think so, but if he was into you before, he still is, he will always be trying to steer you that way, i wouldnt even give it a 2nd thought about not talkin with him anymore
313349
Have some humor in your voice and attitude.\nCommunication isnt a forced thing.  If it is, than move on.\nThat person's not worth your time.\nummmmmmm, how doya 'physically' force communication???
481492
I was in the same situation once. My ex told me he still loved me and told me this and that. And yeah maybe he did. But guys just do that to have you in the palm of there hand. Cuz they know that youll be there for them. If he wont talk to you is because hes making it easier for him to let you go. So my advice do the same, dont talk to him. Itll be easier for you as well. Yeah its tough because alot of thing are unsaid or undone but that something you have to deal with.
360781
The best thing you should do at this point is to give him some breathing space. TAI (Temporary Avoid and Ignore) technique works most of the time because you will get him thinking what exactly is going on. Just stay away for a week or so. He will, just like all men, sense the lack of attention and regardless of how he feels about you, will feel compelled to get back to you sooner rather than later.
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Letting go isn't easy. \n\nThe best thing to do here is to let go of all committments you've had with this ex of yours and begin to learn how to trust yourself again.\n\nOnce you've learned how to trust yourself again, give every new person that walks into your life from then on a fair and equal chance at getting to know you as a person and to know your heart once again. \n\nYou never know when the next person will enter your life and if that new person is the right one for you.
104569
Cooperation from the guy is the most important thing.  You really can't do anything but scare her off, but she's going to back off if she knows he doesn't want her around.  If he doesn't want to do that, he's looking around for another one anyway and it's time to move on.  It's really immature to handle it by backing her off yourself, that's signs of a really bad relationship.  Go get a strong relationship where you don't have to worry about it.
713166
No way man. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'll give you a link to go to and read why you shouldn't even be talking to her. If you want any chance of getting her back go no contact. Start dating other woman and let her find out. She'll come crawling back and saying everything you want to hear. Don't buy it. She just wants what she can't have and when she gets it BOOM you mean shyt to her again. There's a 1 in 100000 chance that says she wants you back for the right reasons. Move on. The damage is done. She's damaged goods and you'll never have as healthy relationship as you think. She may say she wants to see you happy in the long run and personally you'll be happier without her. She won't allow you to move on until she's stable in her own life. Don't let her mess with you. And don't even be her friend. Until you are totally over her. Nothing you say or do is going to get her back. I PROMISE. Good luck and find you a new woman. AT CHURCH
43839
Say "Good-bye", give a great "Sponge Bob" wave.  \n\nDon't waver from this...unless you want to look foolish.  If your ex wants you back, they'll let you know.  So, you can hold your dignaty and bow out, or you can beg and beg and beg only to be rejected more and more and more.\n\nIt hurts, all I can recomend is find something that makes you happy...Go find happiness.
862194
I wish I had pearls of wisdom, but sometimes people just suck.\n\nMy advice would be to stay away from people on the rebound. If they are just out of a relationship or in the process of leaving - stay friends. They are looking to replace what they lost without really knowing what they want. They need time alone to be content with themselves before being in another relationship. \n\nTrust me, I just went  through the same thing. One minute he's saying he loves me and is planning trips out of town (which we never went on). I got close to his kids and even his pet and the next thing you know, he's acting weird and now things are over. No real reason, no explanation for his actions.\n\nYou can never understand people and why they do the things they do. The only thing we can do is try to cope, try to forgive and move on. \n\nTake some time for yourself. Travel, take classes or do whatever makes you happy. When you're happy with yourself, you'll find someone you're meant to be with. Or realize you're just fine on your own. \n\nGood luck.