what is my guy friend doing?
824477
Ok I can't stress this enough with todays youth...\nCommunicate!!!! talk, don't hide anything just be real when you're together.\n\nLook im sure he's not a mind reader and neither are you.\nIf he only kisses you when around his friends then there are 2 possible reasons.\n1. he wants it now, even though he says no\n2. he's hiding his homosexuality\nThink about it.  The real gentleman will wait to be intimate and prefer the privacy.   Not to show off to friends.
325475
r u a dude? is your friend a dude? just see if he does gay things like iggle or compliment a girls outfit and if he gets this offer from a very hot grl and doesnt accept it then man he must be gay. Most of the time ppl just find out on thier own.
459085
guys have friends that are girls \nget over it,
892118
umm... be fully aware that the guy's either doing one of 3 things: 1) just being a friend and lacks the confidence to do anything about his desires (straight) 2) just being a friend and wants to show  you his home decor (gay) 3) trying to get you comfortable to have sex with him sooner or later,\n\nBe careful.
756826
Well it already sounds like your friends and maybe hang out together? So when your together just try listening to hI'm more or spending more time with him stuff like that and im sure he will get the hint...heck he may already be trying to figure out you also.
978488
First off it sounds like HE hasn't done anything, it's seems like you're the one that needs to do something. It's hard to tell someone how you feel if you don't say anything at all. If the guy and your friend express interest in each other maybe it's just time to move on, no point in hurting a existing friendship over a possible "hookup". Plus if your friend and the guy go out and break up, you'll be right there on the rebound.
716280
Oh yeah. That guy absolutely is head over heels for the girl normally. Too bad he's in the friend zone. I pity those guys more than any other man on the planet since they are so incredibly close to what they want and they will never get it. Its kind of like a homeless person that owns an unbreakable box with $1000 in it. The person wants that money more than anything, but they have no way to get to it. The plight of the "male friend" is truly one of the saddest in the history of humankind.\n\nWhich is why I don't make female friends anymore.
337499
this guy is playing games...i really don't know what to make of it
1085253
Why don't you go out with you man with his friends. You can find this out for yourself. Or ask were he's going then show up unexpectly. Or on the other can, why can't you just trust him that he's doing the right thing. Good luck hun
1125246
his actions are not those of a friend. Friends don't lead each other on or use each other. They don't kiss or any more so let him go before he puts you down even more. You've learnt and now you're free again to meet the real guy that's out there for you. You don't need friends that lie. What a pig!
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
445668
Doing it together with his friends is a bit weird....\nIs he gay?
536689
Maybe he has a girlfriend?
850435
peanut? it's actually kind of cute. i see your confusion, though. it's hard to tell if he just sees you as a friend or something more. if he's not giving you anything else to go on, you might just have to ask him about it. good luck!
1122933
sounds like he likes you, or you guys are just really good friends... dont be a wimp, just ask him!
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
637039
Just remember that you are fine and doing what you need to do at this time. Their reaction is about them. Any man that would speak to you in that way was never a friend. Some guys play the friend role while waiting for the opening to move into the next stage. All you need to do is make sure you are very clear about what you need and then they have all the facts to make an intelligent choice whether they wish to put time into the relationship or not. Don't try to push a friendship with a guy that you know wants more. Let him go and then he will decide on his own if he wants to be just friends or if he needs to move on. Just make sure you are doing what is best for you and then everything else will fall into place.\nLove & Light