Do you think my Boyfriend should pay my cell phone bill?
820901
uummm.... \nnot his phone not his bill \nhe is just your bf not you hubby. ! ~¿Ô
48510
You should have come to an agreement about the check before you went out.  But if he asked for half the check, I would pay it.  Was it a date?  If so, make sure, if you are planning to go out with him again, who's paying for what.
660932
no i wouldnt accept it and yes he will think you want him back!\n\nhe is you ex, u dont have to spend a thing on him! if he wants a phone let him buy it himself!!!!\n\nbuy him a beer if u see him out (if he is old enough to drink)\n\nother than that, keep your money in your pocket!
135477
If you feel the need to check your boyfriends phone maybe you need to end the relationship.  Sounds like there is a trust issue.
385010
Stick with what you believe and let everyone who is not paying or participating in your life have their own opinion but remain who you are.  Your convictions of what you believe are more important than popular opinion.  If there is no problem between you and your bf why would you let everyone else create one.  The two of you should decide who is responsible for what.  If you two are friends I understand why he wants to take care of you.  It is a man thing that is hard to explain, but when you need help, like for your car, ask your bf if he would loan you the money to fix it. Then pay him back.  Your boss would probably want interest and the end result is a loan and how much you want to pay.  Shop and be smart but at the same time do not seem ungrateful for your bf is showing what some of us guys call love.  It comes in all shapes and sizes and is very valuable.  Throwing something away that is valuable you run the risk of losing it and it not returning.  If you love him show him by not being so independent, maybe try spending some of your money on him for the things he wants as that is what he is giving up for you.  See what it brings.  You might be pleasantly suprised.
311046
Hopefully he will call but, I would give it about a week and then call him back and see whats up. He may be working or caught up in something at the moment. I think most worry about relationships when they are long distance because of the unknown.
763620
I guess it depends on the relationship. If it's a long-term relationship, and I feel that the person I was dating would be comfortable, then I would answer the phone, take a message, etc. Basically, would I want him to do the same for me?\n\nHowever, if it's someone that I've only recently started seeing, then I probably wouldn't answer the phone. It could seem a little rude and over-reaching.
548163
I think you should enjoy it while it lasts. \n\nONce you get married, he will definitely want you to share the bill in everything.
266909
You should leave him cause he does not have anything going on his life he has a lady paying for his stuff and might do the same thing to you...it's better off without him and find yourself a guy that has something going on
227065
I would suggest that you save up your allowance, birthday money, etc and buy yourself a prepaid phone.  There is no way I'd let either one of my teenage girls have a cell phone.  They aren't responsible enough.
404910
I don't think money should ever get in the way of a relationhip of any sort tho, times might be tight you should rember you always have each other. ( if the relationship was ment to be!)
1120647
I would knock the hell outta my mans baby mama...she is always trying to hurt him with his son and fails to take proper care of the child---ohh and did I mention how she uses the money to pay cell phone bills?...watch out b*tch because we know what you been doing and soon he will be living with us!!!
1019992
If it's only on the phone then don't worry about it, if you get on like a house on fire when you are together than the relationship is fine, loads of people don't like talking on the phone, like me I get on great with my friends but I never call them and when I do we are on the phone for 5 seconds.\nIf on the other hand, the only thing you have in common even together then I don't think that it's going to last.
761265
easy.....\n\nif he has a cell phone when you go out is it always off? or in his car? or at work?  thats the first, what work does he do, if he is into sales then if married he can sometimes spend time out on the "road"  when you try call him at night is the phone off?  his home number is not given, reason is that he only uses a cell phone (lies) over the weekend do you see him most times or sometimes? go with your gut feeling its most of the time right
191813
If you would prefer something else, tell him - is easier if you already have a phone.  If you don't want him to because you don't like him very much, don't want to feel beholden to him, then maybe tell him nicely it's too much, and suggest something else.  If you like him, but the phone is more than he can afford, tell him you'd really just like a romantic something or other (whatever it is you would like.)  Good luck, and Happy Birthday.
1022242
It isn't wrong at all.  He's obviously very busy and you'd probably end up calling him when he's busy.  If he says that he'll call you it's perfectly ok for you to just go on with things until he calls.  If you notice there are time periods each week when he is free, you might want to keep those open so you can spend time together/call eachother.  My girlfriend and I are busy a lot so when one of us says that we'll call the other, there isn't any point for the other one to call.  Hope this makes sense/helps.\n\nPeace\nChris
1000230
I would feel fine charging him rent, perhaps even more than he pays now.  While this might have the effect of driving him out of the house, it's not necessarily a bad thing for his age and position in life.  You may want to show him a budget, breaking down all of your expenses and incomes, and see if it makes the same sort of sense to him.  Show him how the money from the inheiritance has been used up, really break it all down by numbers.  This should also show you what you need to plan for in terms of your future and how much you should charge him for rent.  If the money works out that you are well off, maybe skip the rent.  But if it is still tight, keep charging him.\n\nLast resort, let him know you two will gladly pay rent when you move in with HIM and his WIFE.  Make sure she hears about that too, and I bet he'll sing a different tune!