my boyfriend says he loves me but isn't in love with me what the heck does that mean?????
823804
dump him - he is with you because he is in a routine and doesnt want to be by himself.  he is being really selfish.
818349
It sounds like you both moved a bit too fast and now he's trying to back off a bit.  If you've only been together a bit over a month, it's a bit too soon for most people to be totally in love.  Just give him his space and if he does love you, your relationship will flourish.  If he doesn't love you and he doesn't "try" in your relationship, then you don't need him!\n(The further you get in a relationship, the less often you feel the need to say "I love you".)
731364
Joycelyn, don't be surprised if he has enough information about you already. Why should you underrate yourself in love? Try and give him a chance, at least to see the direction which is towing in starting a relationship with you. If at any time he's not doing it right according to your standard then you back out. But the greatest mistake you'll make is NOT to give him a chance at all. Good luck and have a fulfilling relationship. Cheers!
202755
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
1068196
Love is about respect.  If he truly loves you, regardless his feelings on the matter, he will RESPECT yours!  The truth is, an individual who has the audacity to say "if you don't have sex with me, you don't love me" is suspect; I'd have to say that in saying so, they are showing that, in all likelihood, they don't love you!  Tell him: If YOU LOVED ME, you would respect my desire to wait until marriage-and if you don't have that level of respect for me, WE DON'T BELONG TOGETHER!.
537590
he is just feeling insecure in the relationship, and trying to make sure you are happy and satisfied and if you aren't he wants the opportunity to fix it. try to reassure to him and tell him that you love him and he has nothing to fear. try to be as patient and as understanding as possible.
888118
He may say that he doesn't love you anymore -- but it's probably because he's hurting, too. I'm sure he still cares about you -- he just doesn't want a relationship anymore. And that's hard. But.. even though it may not seem like it now.. you WILL get over him, and you WILL find someone better than you could ever imagine! It just takes time. In the meantime, do something for YOU.. go shopping or hang out with friends. It always helps.:)
683160
it depends on the relationship you both have.. if he is the kind of a person who only love to kiss and give u a hug when he see u and that's all then he's just having fun with u.. if he care about you and opened his heart to you and at least share some thoughts with you then he might be loving you.. give some more details plz
210047
He is the only one who can say if he loves you or not, and right now he probably doesn't know.  He clearly still cares for you, but relationships are complex.  Caring for someone and loving them are not always the same thing.  He has told you that he can't be in a relationship right now, so for now that is the truth that you have to accept.  If you really care about him, it is okay to wait and see what happens with him, but no one can tell what that will be...
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
483082
i think you know the answer to this, he will say what he thinks you want to hear. no way can he really fall inlove with you in such a short time. he may have fallen for you looks or personality but that isnt enough to get more intimate so quickly. if he really cares about you then he will wait until your ready and not rush into anything so personal. go out with each other and get to know each other better first.
178636
2 things.. one - may be he loves you but is afraid of commitment... two - may be he doesn't love you at all and it was just a slip of the tongue the first time he said it. Observe his actions and how he treats you. You'll get hints from there.
36966
i dont know either maybe he isnt ready to really say it to you.he might also have things to worry about,but i know for sure that he doesnt want to lose you,because he is not saying it.u are proably right he does love you,might be to nervous to say it.im sorry that he is not saying it to you.maybe you should talk to him.dont rush him on talking to you,though.good luck!
1134165
He is telling you that he loves you... so he is probably frustrated that you keep asking him to reassure you of this fact.  Why, coz he did not say it lovy-dovy enough... please... if he didn't love you he'd leave you and your baby.\n\nThe fact that he is doing his obligations is the best way he knows how to say I love you... asking him to show it like a woman shows it would be like him asking you to show your love by giving him a bl@w j#b every day....\n\nAppreciate what you have, and if you need a little tenderness just ask him for it... but don't expect if all of the time... it's not fun or easy for most guys.
561814
He sounds like he isn't someone that you want to love, find someone else, his lost. good luck
270540
It sounds as if he is getting comfortable, and he may be a person who is scared of or doesn't want a commitment. Have you voiced your sentiments to him of how badly it makes you feel when he doesn't call? If not, that may be the turning point. You will probably get a better feel of his intentions by his reaction to the conversation. Beyond that, I would definitely not give him your "heart" until you absolutely know what he wants out of the relationship. Good Luck!\n\nLilD
879780
um, what? If he says he loves you, he's probably just shortening "I'm in love with you" down to "I love you." What are you worried about?