why cant i find a girlfriend?
812827
Its 'coz you are finding her. Stop finding and she will be in front of u within weeks. It happened to me also.
360998
Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
685383
Well there is nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend at 18.I'm 22 and don't have a gf and am still happy.Of course at the right time she will show up.Maybe u can add me to your messenger so we can chat.my IM is bcoxy06@yahoo.com
1145842
You might be looking at the wrong types of guys.  Trust me, there are many of us out there who want an honest, serious girlfriend.  Unfortunately, there are also a lot of guys who don't.
64826
i guess u are pretty down now right? because of ur moms death... u sure feel very lost and need someone to be by ur side right... but finding a girlfriend wont solve ur problem ,it will only solve ur loneliness for a moment only , resposible will come over after that...try to find more friends and relatives, if u planned to get married, find someone that is resposible but not by the look , coz if its true love, it will lead to marriage and lead to responsible and also happiness! try to be ur self and find a partner that is understandable , have qualities , but dont base totally on the feelings cause as time pass , feelings will change but the qualities and characteristic will last. Therefore for in the long run relationship, find for someone that can communicate with u !and enjoy life!
592071
Could be they smell desperation.  I've been shot down numerous times cuz I tipped my hand too early.  I guess you have to display the right balance of aloofness and genuine interest.  Girls are fickle creatures.  It can be frustrating as hell, and it's hard to turn off your feelings for a girl like a faucet, so you'll have to struggle to keep from showing TOO much interest at the start of a relationship.  Definitely have to work your way up from friends, to good friends, to close friends, then finally to relationship city, without skipping a step.  That's all I can suggest, cuz I'm still single and not enjoying it either, so I'm doing something wrong somewhere.  Good luck, mang.  There IS a girl out there who's gonna appreciate you just as much as you will her.  And be sure to always buckle up and drink milk for strong healthy bones! (that's probably the only valid advice I provided in this answer ... *sigh*)\n\nPS You'll also notice that when you finally ARE in a relationship, that girls will come out of the woodwork and show plenty of interest in you when you're spoken for already.  Girls, in my experience, often only show interest when you're NOT looking for a girlfriend.
692433
a lot of people out there are single. just always think positive and remember that there is one special girl out there who is probably looking for someone like you!! keep looking and good luck!! ♥
737409
where do you live and what do you look like. I have no gf right now. Maybe a beggining...
34659
what u need to do is stop searching so desperetly. if u set ur mind on finding somebody then no matter who u end up with, u wont have a good relationship because the only reason u are with that someone is so that u wont be alone. u gotto have more fun with urself and be happy to be with urself and then the perfect someone will come along... thats what happened to me.
937390
You sound desperate and eventually will go out with any1 just because you want a girlfriend. Then you will be unhappy with her, regret having a girlfriend and will then want to be single again. Instead of wishing to have a girlfriend, try to keep yourself occupied and fall in love naturally. Then you will have the best of both worlds, in love with a sincere girl and a girlfirend. \nThen it will be something more than just having a girlfriend, it will be having a bestfriend and lover in one :)
528006
aww..don't give up, just stop trying so hard.  Be confident and outgoing and the right girl will come along, you will see.  Meanwhile spend more time out with friends and family so you aren't so lonely  Have a great day hun!\n\n:-)
631036
yeah.. i wouldn't suggest finding a girlfriend on the internet because there are some really weird/perverted/crazy people on the internet, and plus it would be much better to meet someone who lives nearby that you can hang out with occasionally and get to know better..\nand i doubt that girls actually HATE you..
366450
If you're looking for one special girl, consider following these tips to get a girlfriend. \n \n   \n \n  \n  Steps:  \n1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.  \n  \n  \n  Tips:  \n Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.  \n  \n  \n  Warnings:  \n Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend. Be selective to find the right girl for you.
467877
maybe its just bad luck.how about starting out slow.go up to a girl and see if she doesnt have a guy around first,and say hi.just start a conversation,ask her name and compliment her.after u two talk for awhile then ask her if she would maybe like to go out to a movie or dinner sometime.if she says yes then get her #.ur not always gonna get a yes,but maybe it will just take some time.plus like u said u have no experience.think of it this way.its practice.but good luck and hope my advise works out for u and i also hope u find that special one.u seem like a real nice guy.
978948
Well, not sure what you want to know. First you should just work on getting a girl friend
818156
Have you just tried asking someone out? Not every girl is looking for a long term relationship!
1133185
Your question worries me because I think you have some serious psycological issues.There is clearly something missing in your life and any girl will not make it better, even if one does, it would mean that you are forever dependent on her. You need to start accessind what makes you lonely and is it peer pressure that makes you want a girlfriend or what? Come on you are better than that! I have faith in you!