Does saying sorry to your husband makes you look sick?
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You MUST figure out why your REALLY angry and fix it. You probably have a pattern of doing this in relationships. I know I did. Something underneath has truly hurt your feelings. You must Learn to be 100% honest. You have to tell him when you are mad and work it out on an adult level.  I was able to pinpoint mine to abandonment issues. I was cold towards people. I pushed them away. You have to realize that one day he will be fed up with your crying wolf and let you leave. Love is such a great thing. Appreciate what the two of you have.
855821
my late husband started to get stomach ache then feeling unwell sickness, he went to the doctor who said that he had a virus he went back several times the doctor finally told him to stop wasting his time and go away. my husband died of cancer as it was not caught in time.
16327
Personally, I'd want to slap him the next time I saw him(don't do that though,seriously), but instead you should make him say he's sorry. If he starts being a jerk, ask him why he went out with you if he thought you were ugly. By the way, I'm sorry he said that to you. That would hurt. I hope you cheer up.
669163
I can't answer that, because I try to be considerate of peoples feelings.  You appear to be having a bad day.  I'm sorry for that.
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Yes honey I went threw the same thing..and guess what..I'm been married to that man for 6yrs now..Very happily..the first year was very rocky but we made it threw..Every time he would stare at other women I would walk out on him..then finally I embarrassed him by standing up one day looking at him and her and told him " if you wanna ask her out so bad go for it" and walked out..Mind you we was in a restaurant. You should have seen his face..Finally after sometime he started seeing how he was making me feel and I wasn't' going to take it anymore. I stared at fine men and made comments and watched how he reacted. Things started changing..But keep in mind if you don't want him to gawk at other women you have to keep him happy with food and of course in the bedroom..One more thing...Its okay to look at the menu just don't try to purchase or taste anything..k
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Some people will put a "face" to the public that is not the "face" they use at home.  Hence the reason you hear about the Doctor who beats his wife.  He doesn't do it in PUBLIC, he does it at home, behind closed doors.  A woman who presents a "face" to others of great children (a reflection, she thinks of her great mothering skills, a husband on the other hand, may not be the reflection of her, she thinks he should be) hence the reason she will say to others "he's a moron" and not without the true emotion behind it, disdaining her mate.  What does that really say about her?  That she is not the nice person you thought you knew?  Or that she is human, with real emotions, that she can let her gaurd down to you?  Or that her husband really is one?  Maybe it says something about you?  You sat there and listened and made no comment.  You didn't say "Oh I think he's a good father (or some other positive comment)".  You note this woman "would never speak ill will" towards someone.  But she did.  She spoke ill of her husband, a person she should respect, should honor and shouldn't be dogging to others.  I am sure all of us, have at times presented a "false face" to others, to make ourselves appear better than we were/are with the intention of not letting others really know what we thought/think.  On a daily basis, many of us do this dualness of nature to our bosses, to our supervisors, to our friends, family and even mates.  It's not pretty and its not nice, but you are notice with this friend, that she has a feeling about her husband that isn't very kind.  What might she do when faced with some moronic activity you may have engaged in?  Thread carefully and keep your "face" up around her, she will probably cut you no more slack to others than she did for her own husband.  I think it shows a great unkindness to have exposed her feelings about her husband, but if you are considered her "best friend" she may have felt you would understand, or lets her guard down around you.
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might make you a bit sick
1101858
I don't think saying you are sorry will make her think you are weak. It will show that you care and are a good guy. I think if you show her you are friends first then she will probably be more comfortable in saying yes to you.
1110031
No, unless you feel it is bad if your wife jokes about you after your poo. ;p
1093664
if you really mean it when you say your sorry and try to make it up to her. it also depends on what you did maybe you should tell her that you love her, that'll help.
877217
Yes, it made me feel so bad.  But I ended up talking to him about our situation, I didn't want him to think I was a bad person.  He was mad at first then he cooled down, and he was fine with it.
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I'm with you. It's not just saying it but actually getting the message across the recipient that you mean it. Sometimes just talking and explaining why the mistake was unintentionally done and a show of remorse will usually warrant forgiveness.
36540
Yes I would definately apologize, and I would do so by saying I'm very sorry, excuse me..let me help you gather your things back up.  And if any bags broke I'd go get new ones for her.  It would be a high concern if he didn't apologize..or if it was on purpose.  But if it were a true accident, or if he was truly sorry AND helped then it would be a low offense.  I'm just a nice person! :)
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No one can make you feel bad about yourself unless you allow it.\n\nThe next time your mother starts, say excuse me, but if the point of your diatribe is to make yourself feel better by attempting to inflict damage on my ego, then I suggest you seek counseling.  In the meantime, excuse me."\n\nThen get up and leave.
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because when you are sick you feel too bad to get up and make it pretty. You'd rather just pull it back. That would look weird though: ugly red face with running nose and beautiful Oscar winning hair.
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A lot has to do with your own self-esteem (how do you feel about yourself and what will you allow another person to do to you). You've been married to him for 10 yrs so something has kept you staying with him for so long (maybe love and/or kids or he's a good provider)....however sometimes people do grow apart and it's time to make a new beginning for yourself even if he's been apologizing after physically and emotionally abusing you --- you see, his inappropriate actions tell you all that you need to know...there truly is someone else out there who'll treat you better --- so improve your looks and attitude and go find him.
732173
This may sound silly, but my husband can make me laugh in the toughest of times. It may sound like he's being insensitive but he's not. For example, they found a lump in my breast and I had an appointment for a mamogram. When I told my husband how scared and nervous I was he responded with, "If they have to cut off both breasts then we can just get one real big one put in the middle, then take pictures, people would pay to see that:" Sounds corny, but it made me laugh and at that moment a laugh was really needed. I think it's also his way of dealing with things as well. I love my husband so much and I would be lost with out him. He is my best friend and we can talk about anything with each other! Communication and Honesty goes along way in our marriage! When things have been bad, we just didn't give up! We agreed that we're in this thing for the long haul, good and bad!