my ex boufriend likes one of my best friend but i still like my ex..what should i do?? she likes him aswell..?
818943
Honey I've said this before but guys who are in and out of friends in my book are no good. And chances are if you have another friend he'll hook up with her to if he can because it sounds like he's that type person. You should just move on to someone with some morals because i really wouldn't want him after i seen he was after one of my friends. Good Luck!
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
602047
Ask her if its ok to go out with him. After all, its her ex and its wise to ask as certain people find it unsettling to see their ex's going out with another person already even if its with their best friend. It also depends upon how long they have been seperated. If it was quite long ago, ask her else look out for someone else.
1186307
I would tell her the truth,. that there really isnt anything going on with you two and her friendship means to much for you two to let a guy inbetween you. Shes feeling insecure because she can see how easy it is for that guy to get another girlfriend in short time. Can you imaigine if he did secretly want to go out with you? Then what.\nI'd give your ex and her some space and not even get close to that situation untill he finally breaks it off with her...Believe me he will real soon.\nRemember shes only the rebound girl...aint that sad.shhhh dont remind her of that point tho....heheh
443620
She counts on you to tell him that she likes him... are you afraid if they go out that they'll break up and your caught in the middle?? (if you are add detail) and then they'll want you to pick sides? But if your friends are ok about the WORST term to here ,if your a girl or guy, "JUST FRIENDS" then I think you have great friends! Q-- are you and ur EX still friends!!??????
884723
This one is going to be difficult, so let's see if I can help.\n\nFirst, your ex.  Now, I take it he's your ex for a reason.  Ask yourself, is there a chance for a relationship with him?  And, if there is, would things end up differently if you two got back together?  If you answered "no" to either question, then rule him out.\n\nSecond, your guy friend.  This is even trickier because if you do chose to pursue a relationship with him, it could end up being either being the best thing you ever had, or ending your friendship.  Does he feel the same about you?  If he does, then you may lose him if you don't date him.\n\nI hope this helps a bit.  Sorry I could not be more of a help.
979058
Wow.  Well, there is nothing you can really do to control the outcome of this situation, that depends on who truly has feelings for who.  I think John probably really likes you and not Haley, because if he still liked Haley he would probably be already trying to get back together with her by now.  I think Haley just wants to believe he still likes her because she likes him, and people can make themselves belief what they really want to believe.  \n\nIt is kind of disturbing that you would date your friend's ex especially when you know she still likes him.  Maybe you two aren't truly friends?  I guess you can just stop hanging out with Haley.  And she can't come between you and John if John truly likes you and not her, right?\n\nSo I guess just tell Haley that you think she is kind of obsessed with John, and John is with you now, and you are sorry but you really have feelings for John, so you think it's best if you and she don't hang out for awhile.  This will hurt her, but I guess she needs to get the message that John is taken now, and she needs to back off.
114734
get over your ex and then see if you still want your friend back....
2452
In my opinion you have to look at a few different things. Are you a nice person or not. If not then you have no rules. If you are a nice person then read on. \n1. Are you and you your ex still friends? if you are you might want to ask  if they would mind. otherwise you might upset them and lose a friendship.\n\n2. make sure the bestfriend wouldn't have a problem with it(obviously).\n\n3. Make sure you don't have any feelings left for your ex. Cause if you do it could cause problems.\n\n4.Usually the best thing to do is just not go out with the bestfriend. in all cases I've seen it usually ends in 3 lost friendships. Hope I helped a little.
745255
I have the same situation..I like them both but one doesn't like one of my bestfriend...I realized,if she treat me as a friend she should accept & respect me & my bestfriends.There is no reason to hate my bestfriend because she is not bad..Maybe,if my bestfriend is bad,rude or something which is not acceptable maybe i can understand my friend.But there is no reason because i've known her for so long and became my bestfriend.I realized,that my other friend has been jealous that's why she hate her and she just doesn't like my bestfriend's style.If i were you,as long as you know,trust and you like your bestfriend there's no way to worry about your bestfriend.But the other friend,you have to ask him/her why?then try to analyze and figure ot out...
228656
Oh wow, tough situation. It would help a little with these type of questions if people told how old they are. If you all are adutls though, just let her know how you feel. Also your best friend doesn't sound like too good of a friend if you even think he might say yes. But then again, maybe he doesn't know how you really feel about her? You should tell him. Real friends wouldn't do things to hurt others. Also, maybe you acted all cool or whatever when you broke up so she thinks you won't care? Honesty and straight-forward communication is always the best policy in every relationship. If she doesn't love you back that's rough but at least you can try to move on. It's a fact of life that at some point we will probably like someone who doesn't like us back and vice versa. It's not pleasant but it's also a good reminder to treat others how you want to be treated...karma can come back and bite you in the butt!
593050
Don't get too involed,just tell her that the only reason that the other grrl likes her man is because she's jealouse. Just let her know that it doesn't matter if they stay together or break up. If the other grrl has a problem with it then she's not a true friend.
651448
I think not for reasons of the heart,cause deep down inside you still have those memories of the good times you had together.Which then could lend to things happening between you two.If you are in a new relationship,the person you are with could get hurt or may not like the idea you are friends with your exs.So leave exs alone and move on.
875932
I'm in a similar situation, and I think your friend needs to figure out whether or not her guy is over his ex.  If he's truly over the ex, and they're really just friends, then talking to the ex shouldn't be a big deal.  If he's still not over her and wants to maintain contact for the hope of a future reconciliation, then your friend needs to get out now.  She shouldn't be anyone's filler or rebound.  The trick is figuring out whether or not he's actually over the ex, because most guys who aren't completely retarded won't be honest.
360904
just forget about your ex. she broke up with her man and now wants you!! dude, you are worth more than that. Maybe you should give yourself a break from the gf drama and just date this girl or just be friends for now. Time is good for yourself right now cause it is obvious you still have feelings about your ex and this is not fair to you or the new chick. It is called rebound. Give yourself a break dude, even you deserve the best so take time to heal.
717202
Go out w/ him! Who cares who his ex is as long as she isn't a good friend of yours then it really doesn't matter. If he makes you happy then go for him. If you just want to get revenge on the girl (his ex) just b/c you don't like her then just go out on one date w/ him, and at least see what he is like. Who knows you may end up really liking him in the end. Just remember who cares what she thinks, if you don't like her and they are broken up then he is fair game, and you shouldn't feel bad in the slightest.
891005
Honestly if you still love ur ex dont cheat the new person out of finding someone that loves them entirely. I mean would you want someone to treat you with half of their time and attention cause that is what you will really be doing especially if you start hangin with your ex and you have the feelings still. You will cheat. I would honestly break up up with the new person to prevent hurting them and dont run back to your ex because there was obviously some isues as to why you guys broke up in the first place. So just stay single you can still talk to your ex and communicate to solve the problem and then maybe try being together or you have to decide that you guys are better as friends and thats its. That way when you are with someone else and your ex wants to hang out it will be as friends and you dont diss your friends. I speak cause I have been there and done that. Trust me. make sure that you are completely over your ex though, otherwise you will be in a world of hurt