Is it silly for me not to call my gal daily inorder to give her more private space?
820623
You both need personal space and you both need to be capable of trusting each other enough to skip days on the phone.  So I would say, the healthiest thing you can do is call like every other day.\n\nRemember, if you water a plant too much, you can end up drowning it.
1008016
really what she feels inside or what she shares with someone else is really her personal business and you should respect her space. when she is ready to talk she will.
538512
This person is no friend.  She might be harboring some jealousy issues.  Don't let her get you down and just quit calling her.  She isn't your spouse and you are letting this become your problem, when it is clearly her problem.  Friendship is a lot of give and take, and it sounds like you are doing all of the giving.  I wouldn't ignore her phone calls, but I would be busy if she tried to call back and make plans.
887768
Never mind men needing space, women do too.  I just plain like to be alone sometimes.  I can't speak for him but I know that when he gets home from a day of skiing with friends he's relaxed and in a good mood.  I know I am when I spend a day with friends.  Gives us something to talk about later.
1032014
Depends on what she wants...\nIf she's not looking for a new daddy for her kids and is o.k. to have some one to just distract her from her daily chores, it's fine.\nIf she is, you better get it straight before some one gets hurt..\nSo find out..
250218
If you really care for your girl tell her.  But be gentle about it because you know how woman tend to think other wise when it comes to certain thinks.  I know cause I'm guilty of it too.  Let her know you care about her and you are not saying this to hurt her, you just fell that she should know so maybe she can talk to her roommate.
1087007
If you don't want her tell her.  PS You could give me her number.....
624845
Don't cut off your booty call.  Give her a call every other day or so to keep her online.  Peace.
935877
I think it's a little weird that she was pissed when you needed to leave the next morning.  It's almost insecure.  When she cut you off on the phone it does sound like a game.  I bet she is waiting to see if you call her, not IM.  If you really like her, get over the issue of calling her place and give her a buzz. Otherwise sooner or later I'm sure she'll call you. Be careful....it seems too soon for her to be so over the top about you not staying longer.
172241
Seems to me that she wants you herself. I think that you should not tell her. It's any of her business, unless you want her to know. Why would you sit and discuss the way you please your girl in bed? Thats invading privacy. Maybe she wants to join. If i was your girlfriend, and she asked you that, your friend would have some problems with me. That is disrespectful. DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING. Respect your girl.
1144856
I suggest that you say something positive first like you are a very important friend to me or I really enjoy your company (if that's the case) but I really need alone time during the week of the convention.\n\nIf she's a good friend then she will care about your needs and not want to intrude on you.\n\nYour only obligation is to yourself. You have nothing to feel guilty about. Rather focus on how good it feels to honor yourself and your needs.\n\nShe is a grown woman and can take care of her own needs. You are not responsible for her feelings if she chooses to feel hurt.  Those feelings belong to her.
634031
you have to let her have space...she's involved with someone else. If/when they break up, you are free to go after her!
613789
You haven't called her yet??  Well I guess it would be best not to rush things.  But if you are interested call her tonight and make plans for the weekend.  You don't want her to think that you couldn't find anyone else and wait till the last min. to call her.  You want to give her sometime to prepare. Make sure to tell her how nice of a time you had on fri..  Good luck.
582578
It all depends what you did.  Maybe you should give her some time and a little space first.
1082506
you should wait for quite a while like maybe a week or so. you dont want her to think that she has more control over you. you want to be in control. then once she has your number, and she tells you to call her later or tomorrow, dont call her, wait till she calls you, that proves how much she actually cares for you and that your in control. make an excuse on why you didnt call her back.
900244
Tell her you are willing to give her some space, but you are not going to hang on forever.
349540
No...she is what we would make you an "enabler."  You would wind up helping her out and hiding the problem for her...never a good idea...You should try to find a girl that doesn't require such high maintenance.