when shud i start contacting her again? or shud i just let her go?
815903
well, you wanna give her time to relax and maybe forget a lil bit of what happened..so dont do anything right away....right before she leaves call and say bye, have a good time blah blah...ok, then she leaves with you on her mind...then after maybe another few weeks or so if you can, send her a text to say, i just wanted to say hi hope all is awesome....then when she gets back, dont get all over her nuts, wait a lil while and then call to say hey! welcome back!..sorry i didnt get a hold of you sooner, been really busy....this way she knows your "over it" weather you are or not....then say hey, there is a few of us that or gonna go and do ....i dont know what you do for fun...and invite her....this way its a group so its real chilled out...this will get you back in to a friend situation...and yer on your own from there.
510895
Easy, tell her you wish to move on now and although you want to be mates, you would find it easier if she initially didn't text you as much. Be a man and dtell her to her face. After you have done that if she still contacts you all the time, only answer her occasionally. Then gradually reduce the amount of time you answer her. If she still contacts you, change your number and contact the police lol
714531
If you just recetly broke up, then just leave her alone for a while.  Let her get on with her life while you get on with yours.  You could send her a Christmas card but; don't write anything like, "I miss you", just a simple holiday wish is plenty.  If your reasons for wanting to keep in touch with her is to stalk her or possible hopes of getting back together in the future, let her alone.  Chalk it up to one lost and move on.
1170371
Well, she did give you a heads up that she would be busy this weekend. I'm sure this is question requiring a sensible answer from a female. But what i would think is wait till after the weekend and maybe just one more day. If no reply, two possibilities, a)She's REALLY busy b)Something's wrong between you two. Face things as they come and dont get paranoid. And ease up on the emails and texts.
299537
Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you
1110261
Your poor dear. At this point, I think it is best to let go and see what happens. If it is meant to be, she will realize how much you love her. If she doesn't come back, realize that you WILL meet someone that will appreciate your love and love you back. Sometimes the best, and hardest, thing to do is let someone go. I don't think you need to move away though! Give her some space and see what happens, but keep yourself open to meeting new people too. You never know who may be around the corner waiting to meet you!
1077441
Dude, it's only been 6 months.  Either you got too close or she did and you both of you are retarded for letting that happen.  Leave her alone and move on.  Quit calling, delete her Myspace info from yours (MySpace is stupid anyways and will be shut down this December), and let her be.  She'll forget about you faster than you can her, but you'll be back to normal in a week or 2.
249108
Yea. You have to let her go sometime though. Tell her how you feel.
848384
She has moved on with her life.  It is time for you to do the same.  She is clearly not interested in a relationship or trying to patch things up.
914542
give it a rest for a few weeks, then try to contact her again. \n\nIn the meantime, and in whatever happens, you need to hook up with other women.
491496
Mentally, I say 'NO' stoutly. Physically, I'd give him/her one more chance unconsciously. Nevertheless, I know the result for sure that same story would be taken place again. Briefly, if you think you could be strong enough to bear hurt again, then just try. Otherwise, forget it.
603067
If you have talked to her about this and there is no change, its time for a new one. Drop her move on.
35787
Probably before you call her but not 5 minutes after you meet and leave.  Give it until brunchtime the next morning...so around 10ish.  That way it says, "I had a good time last night," but doesn't show you were obsessed.  The message she gets at that time is, "I've been thinking about you, but I do have a routine and a life, so I did what I had to do and you were the first person I thought of contacting when I had some free time."  Plus, you can do the "Wanna have lunch?" phone call once she replies.  So go text!
1094354
try to build the friendship again... by doing that you will give yourself time to asses about your true feeling with her...
605761
Then you need to step up to the plate do you want her to stay or go? Because it is your life too! If you dont want her around then let it go but if you do then you need to try to resolve things!
359242
MAY BE SHE WANTS TO GIVE YOU A SECOND CHANCE IF SHE DEPENDS ON YOU SO MUCH - JUST TELL HER THAT YOU ARE SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED AND COULD WE PATCH UP - A RETURNED LOVE IS MOSTLY BIGGER THAN THE FIRST LOVE AS IT COMES WITH UNDERSTANDING AND A SENSE OF LOSS
393195
An ex is an ex just break off contact with her.  Sounds like she's trying to latch on for emotional support from mr reliable still.  She calls don't answer she emails erase.  the end good luck women can be really... persistant lol