why is it that people come and go out of my life?
830644
*That is just life sweetie, just keep your head up and new people will enter your life better than before.*
698066
Maybe you've just become so used to it you don't know how to get away from it, maybe the people in your life are making you feel very reliant on them, if its really bothering you then get a few books from the library on how to be assertive and more confident, the sooner you break away from relying on others the more you will be yourself, good luck.
282702
If they don't want to be a part of your life, forget about them. Let them come to you, you have done your part. I have a sister with somewhat the same problem, only I don't view it as a problem. She's got her life, I got mine. Don't rid yourself with guilt about it, enjoy your life.
680157
I've had the same thing happen to me and it sucks. My two best friends ever had to leave but that didn't stop our friendship. I e-mail them almost everyday and I talk to them on the phone. I haven't seen them in a long time but that never stopped our friendship. My friends moved different countries. You're lucky at least your friend is in the same country and if you want to visit you should make a plan. Things will be different but something that NEVER changes is friendship. Trust me it'll be ok.
638392
Well, it is normal to have friends and not want to see them hurt or upset, but maybe you should also make some other friends also.  SOunds like you should get out and do other things with larger groups of people too.
726131
I know exactly what you are talking about. My parents did that with me all the time at that age. I'm 21 now, and they know I am free to do what I need to do, but every once in a while they act like they don't want me to go. I can tell you exactly what it is: Your parents are having a hard time accepting the fact that you are no longer a child, but an adult. It is normal for them to seem a little overprotective because of that, they just want the best for you, no matter what your age is, and they still want to be acknowledged as important in your adult life. Even with a full time job, and with my friends and boyfriend, I still try to find time with them, kind of my way of saying that I understand how they are feeling, and because they are my family, no matter what. Before you leave to go somewhere, give them a hug and tell them, "I'll get home safely. I love you. See you later!" Just let them know you appreciate them, and I promise, as you grow older the more they will continue to learn to let go. Good Luck
356854
Most people make their long term friends at school (Highschool or university). If you didn't keep in touch with them after you hit the 'big adult world' it's difficult to make true friends after that because there is less history. Marriage and having children also take priority because going out with friends takes a backseat after the kids and hubby/wifey come into the scene. Your co-workers are your friends now.
788007
usually these people are drunk, homeless, mentally ill or a combination of those.\ni just turn and hope they don't see me.
98396
Everyone i guess, always gets the feeling of being lonesome. It usually happens when you tend to act on your own and it seem that you don't wanna trust outside. You lock yourself in your own world. TRY TO OPEN UP TO LIFE; TO THE WORLD itself.Celebrate life at the moment, by seeing the presence of others. Once you do this , you will find people around you who accept you, recognizes you and loves you just the way you are.
941706
In life we make friends and we lose them, from death, they move (Or you Move), get married, Argument, fights,so forth and so...this is one of thing you will have to get use to,, the best way to deal with it is to take it one day at a time. one day you will find a true friend, don't worry about it.
1015784
i think its both... independence and fear, but mostly fear. i have been one of those people. sometimes when u feel that ur getting really close to someone you get scared... this might sound weird but you think that it would be easier for you to hurt yourself by taking yourself away from that person then that person leaving you. it took a while for me to notice what i was doing. hang in there with the person that you are talking about, you just need to show them that you're not going anywhere and that there is nothing to be afraid of.
306179
Why fall out?\nIs this person very important in your life if yes then try to make amends\notherwise forget it, this is life\nyou'll find there are other friendships to be made in time to come
852606
Yeah its sadly part of life. As new parts of your life open up, the people you share it with usually change. You just have to move on.
223193
this happens to me too. i thought i was alone. when i get like this i just want to be left alone because i don't want to pull anyone down with me. if it's nice outside i go out and MAKE MYSELF DO SOMETHING NICE FOR SOMEONE ELSE. or i'll go to the river and sit by myself in nature.\nthis usually puts me back into 'normalcy'
557456
There has to be some reason.  Talk to someone about this.  Maybe get help from a professional psychologist or something.  Maybe you are depressed, lonely, or something like that.  Dont sit around waiting for something get out and just live life to its fullest everyday.  Maybe go to church.  I hope Ive help a little.  Good luck!
1144941
They don't sound like very good friends.  Your free to do what you want with our without them.  But also,  If you start doing stuff exclusively without them all the time they could think that you don't want to be friends anymore and be angry.  I lost a friend once because I wanted to spend time with my family and didn't stop by her house when I was in town.  But I figure we must not have been that good of friends if she would ditch me over something like that.
1016045
I totally aggree with you on this one...people don't take the time to be friendly anymore and just get to know who lives around them...it's so sad, it goes hand in hand with the loss of "quality" family time, nobody partakes of that anymore either....when I grew up, we were ALWAYS outside and we knew all of our neighbors, we sat out on the front porch at night (another lost art) and neighbors walked up and down the streets....Now I live in a subdivsion and people hardly even wave hello when passing you on the street.....no-one EVER sits outside with their families catching up....If we could become a little more "aware" of our surroundings and the people that we are surrounded by then maybe, just maybe, we could catch something early on!!