love and relationships are hard to deal with......?
817508
I really know what you mean, and it is so hard. \nRemember that this is all from within you, thus you can fix it yourself too. \nYour broken heart will be whole again in the near future. \nTo speed this up you can do a few thing, and believe me they have helped me.\nDon't see the person if you can manage it at all, in a book they say about 2 months. I had to see my ex every day, and even make small talk with him on occasion. At the time I wanted to see him but looking back it has just made the whole process agonisingly harder. \n\nDon't wallow in self pity, go out, see your friends, excercise this will really help and when you see him in passing in the future you'll look great, but overall do this for yourself, because you must love you.\n\nIt always depends on you personnally, but I reckon that if you don't see him for a good amount of time, you will realise you can get along just fine by yourself. If you do see him or hear about how he is doing, this will make things ten times harder, so don't. \n\nHe missed out on you not the other way around, and you never do no what is around the corner, \n\nYou know you will eventually forget and move on\nI hope you don't suffer too much\ngood luck
942294
life is hard with romantic love and without it Life would become unbearable
159594
The intimate part is not hard. The soulmate part is very difficult even outside of the internet.
852043
Love is just like life nothing simple about it life is hard and love is hard but when you find love its the best and it tends to make life a bit easier to handle.
809422
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone, or attempt to share it, it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, find someone new, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
824658
Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
60600
Look these things happen but don't let it get to you. At the end you will find someone that is meant for you. Love comes around just make sure that it finds you okay. Good luck.
1075295
I feel your pain...humanity has a lot to learn about love.  It is not showing its love on this planet right now...but some are.  It begins individually. One light at a time, like stars in the night sky.  Until we learn to love ourselves and not project our negative stuff on others it will go on as is.  Let your light shine...
838013
Love is a very hard thing to let go of. Dont beat yourself up over it. Time heals all :)
1107991
Love is different to EVERYONE.  So it's kind of a hard one, but I've always gone with this one \nLove is giving someone the power to destroy you completely, but trusting them not to.  Good luck
675670
I dont think it is easy either way. If you are loved you have to put the other persons feelings into consideration and appreciate the love they are giving you. You have to cherish it and make sure not to tarnish it. \n\nAnd if you are the one loving, you have to do the same things. Make sure that you treat them kindly, look out for there feelings as well as your own.
101560
A relationship is not meant to be easy. If it was then we would all be married and happy for the rest of our life's by 18. Everything in a relationship is only as hard as you make it though. Compromising is the main problem for people. Trust being second. Then you get into the problem where your not seeing each other as much as you want to. Or one of you is getting serious and the other one isn't. Communication!
1162093
True love takes time, however love has taklen a turn for the worst in the past.\nWhat the world needs now, is love...
375461
just go talk to him.tell him how u feel.\n communication is the key to all relationships.\nif he cant get over it move on leave him alone it will be hard but with time it will get easier.
483151
At one point or another, now matter what relationship you are in...it will suck, every now and again!! Good Luck-this to shall pass!! :)
380814
Love is different to everyone. It exists in many forms. The truth is you have to define it for yourself.
325069
love is never ment to be all easy n sweet ,, u gotta feel the pain