my friend is lesbian. where should she start looking for a relationship?
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She should join pinksofa where (www.pinksofa.com) she can chat to people and find out where they go etc. I met my ex girlfriend there, we had a great relationship and met many friends there too. Also Gingerbeer is good for meeting people. They organise events and stuff where you can meet other people in your area. And Gumtree can be good for chatting to people and making friends to go out on the town with. would love to see her myspace.. x
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i was in the same situation when i was younger. im a lesbian, and right now i have a great girlfriend. but when i was in high school, my best friend was my crush. i liked her soo much, but she was straight. i finally admitted to her that i liked girls, and she did what your friend did - asked me questions about how why and when? i told her a couple weeks later that i liked her, and she kissed me. we messed around a little bit, but it didnt evolve.\n\nnot every situation would be the same. i would tell your friend, that you like her. but only if you truly trust her. if shes nice, she will be respectful and either tell you shes flattered, but not interested, or who knows? she could be a closet case.\n\nanyhow, there tons of wonderful women out there, if worst comes to worse. im sure youll find someone perfect for you -- i did, and i was in your situation too. nowadays, i couldnt be happier with the girlfriend that i have now.  :)\n\ngood luck!
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Check out OutInTheSuburbs.Com for GLBT resources in Chicago's suburbs. You'll find information on lesbian bars in Franklin Park and Calumet City.
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Well one good place is the NET. and the other place is the Mall... Another good place to go is bars but I dont think that most girls that are lesbian would go out to party unless they are of the partying type.\n\nMost lesbians would rather stay at home at watch a movie...
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Just tell her how you feel.  If she's a friend she'll understand.  And if she's not BI, there are plenty of other girls that are BI, so finding another shouldn't be hard.  Also your friend might just not want to face the fact that she is BI.  Or she just doesn't want to wreck your friendship because as we all know, once friends start getting intimate, their friendship is at risk.  Hope this helped.
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I'd say just give it time. I felt the same towards a girl at my school and we spent a lot of time together but it was never going to happen. It sounds like you know that as well. Stay near her but don't cross that line.\n\nI never did with my friend and everything was good. It was still 5 years after that until I came out. I'm not saying that you are lesbian. I never had any sexual feelings for this friend - I just liked her more than others.\n\nLike you say - don't go obsessing over her. You will become more clear about what you want if she can keep a straight mind. It may just be a fantasty thing because you seem no way inclined to go lesbian. It may just be hormones and discovering who you are or you may just have a natural curiosity.
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to.\n\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, items for sale, \nwant ads, personals, services, job openings, ...\n\n\nThey have personals sections to post free ads.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or \n???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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Not sure but if you try any of the search engines and type in 'friends', it will bring up tons of dating/friends sites.  you could probably narrow it down to 'free sites for friends' or something similar so you not going to charging sites.  In the search you can select woman looking for woman.  Not sure if this will bring up straight women looking for female friends or women who are looking for female partners - worth giving it a try.
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I'm from Houston! but I'm not a lesbian lol, seriously though go to univision.com and go to chat and u'll find all this different chatrooms choose either LESBIANAS OR DE MUJER A MUJER!  and then from there u know what the deal is....GOOD LUCK!
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Ask her is she has ever had lesbianist tendancies. If yes, then tell her you have the hots for her. If not, go to the local gay club and pick up a girl who appreciates you.
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If you guys are really looking for a bi female to talk to, I would suggest message boards at your local adult bookstore, (if you have that available) or there are magazines and newspapers (i think one is called Night Shift) where you can browse personal ads or place one of your own. \n\nWhat you can also do is go to your local lesbian bar with your wife and make sure that you dress up, act respectful and have the husband sit at the bar and have the wife dance and meet people until she meets someone she likes. Be sure to find out (once she has chosen a woman she likes) if the lady is bi, and not a lesbian. A lot of lesbians might get inadvertanatly offended if you asked her to join a 3 some with a guy involved. \n\nYou know, make sure that you become friends with whomever you choose first. You never know if this woman is just into your wife, or if they would be willing to do more. Besides 3 somes are so much fun if everyone gets along and there is good communication. Everyone must be comfortable with eachother. \n\nIt is better to try and keep your search for a companion in the local field. It is much harder to weed out the crazies on the internet. Do your research, and be sure to be safe while you are having fun.
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did you try going into a lesbian bar?  plenty of bi women also go to places like that.
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I am a lesbian. I date girls that look like me and the ones that you are describing. I see that you are naive so I will make this as easy as possible for you to understand....no matter what she looks like she still acts like a girl. Even if she walks and talks like a guy once you get in a relationship all the womanly traits come out such as sensitivity..prime example. Lesbians aren't lesbians just because they like the look of other girls. It's more of a connection thing.
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Sure.  Try looking into activities that have strong "young lesbian & bi girl" appeal.  Ani D. concert, anyone?  And progressive politics is very common place to meet people.\n\nBelieve me, there are lots of girls out there in every small town.  This is not that statistically rare a minority we are in.  Be patient; tends to happen when you're least expecting it.  And if you meet someone you like, show her some attention, and spend time with her one-on-one; you never know...\n\nMost important of all:  if you want to be loved, and to be touched, you have to be FEARLESS.
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TALK, thats always a good starting point. and if she is lesbian and you are a guy you have the wrong equipment and she might be friend but dont get too excited and wet your panties.
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Go to a lesbian chat room.
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I can tell you where you won't find one.  Here.  \n\nGet out and be in an environment where you are comfortable and enjoy yourself.  It helps you with the opposite sex, unless, of course, you are confortable in places where women don't hang out.\n\nHowever, I do know you won't get a girlfriend here.