Should I tell my birthmother I'm a lesbian???
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Coming Out is an individual choice for each and every person that comes out and depends on why you want to come out, what that person means to you, and lots of other factors.\n\nDecide why you're telling her... for you or for her?\n\nIf she's asking about your personal life... such as who you're dating or interested in, then that may be a reason to tell her.\n\nBut in the end, it's totally up to you. Some of us feel better not having any secrets in our lives, especially about who we love.\n\nCheck out some of the Coming Out resources listed below. And you may want to purchase "Now That You Know," a great resource for parents and friends of GLBT folks.\n\nThe best of luck to you!
1165563
bless. why dont you become lesbian and see for yourself?..ha
925194
Tell her the truth bro...The whole "Gay" thing will backfire on ya because then she will tell everyone you know and then people will think your gay....Tell her the truth...I would rather people think that im an A-hole for telling the truth...then think that im a fag for lying.
597942
signs baby, its all about it.  What kind of hint is she giving you, what messages are you sending to her.. dont be so shy, im in the same boat. i am bisexual, i do not flaunt it nor hide it. just be comfortable with yourself, oppportunity will arise.
667097
If it offends you by her calling you baby tell her. She does not have to be gay to call you baby. Talk to her and let her know how you feel about it.
386034
Wait!!!! Just wait......she's not ready to know. When she is ready, she will contact you........ and then you can tell her. \n\nFor now, just cool your heels and rest easy in the knowledge that you know your twin sister and your birth parents.
764373
She needs to come out to them without you there.\n\nHer sexual orientation is not about you.\n\nIf she comes out with you sitting beside her you become the "dark witchy" woman who "turned their daughter gay".\n\nI think you'll all be much better off if she tells her parents separately and once they have had a little time to digest they can start getting to getting adjusted to you in relationship to their new understanding of their daughter.
91936
Dont make things hard on yourself.  If you think you may be bi, dont say anything until you know.  Even then I still wouldnt say anything unless you fell in love with a women.  Family will always love you but dont put yourself and your family through stress they dont need.
1131515
Wow!!! This is a problem considering you are not 18.  Maybe wait to be so open with your mother about your sexuality until you are old enough to move out on your own.  Trust me, she does love you, but she will obviously need time to get through her own issues about your choices.
349909
Assume you are male?   If you are and you say that you love her is this just as a friend or a physical way?  If just as a friend then tell her you are gay, she is your friend after all and if you feel that close to her that you can say you love her why would you not tell her?\n\nIf you are a lady, and you think that she loves you, then you should also tell her.
894352
Well you should try to get to know her if you don't know her well already and gain her trust and then tell her about how you feel but make up some person and tell her your feeling about her. Then see what she says if she tells you your crazy then she ain't no lesbian and of she starts talking about a partner then you know she is taken. \nGood Luck!
559114
To answer your first question regarding your sexuality, no you will not be considered a lesbian.  Lesbians are females who are attracted to women and women only.  In response to your concerns about this proposed threesome, if you are not comfortable with it, then don't do it.  I can understand your need or desire to make your husband happy, but will you really sacrfrice your happiness and mental well-being in doing so?  You should not feel obligated to participate, nor should you have to put your traditional values on the line to satisfy a man who should be perfectly happy with what he already has--a wonderful woman.  (Before you make any final decisions, ask yourself this question: do "we" as a couple like to try new, erotic, things or is it just him?")
644546
She's still your mom, right? If she's being too affectionate with someone in front of you and making you feel uncomfortable, tell her. I'd tell you the same if she were dating men. Talk to her about what you need and how you feel. Just don't try to change her because she's a grown woman who can think for herself.
793095
I think you should tell her, bring it up when you're doing the things you normally do with her to make it less awkward. Don't drop everything on her at once (meaning the L bomb,) but make your feelings known otherwise, hold her hand etc. Don't go all the way until you get a signal from her either loving what you're doing or running away.
689625
I think I would find another time to introduce your partner to your step mom. It is mothers day, and not the right time to spring something like this on her. You did say that your step mom doesn't like the fact that you are a bisexual woman. You didn't say how the rest of your relationship with her goes. \n\n Make the day about your step mom, and set aside another day entirely where you can slowly start to integrate your partner into the relationship you have with your step mom. I am all about the two of them meeting, getting to know eachother....because this will help your step mom see that you are simply in love..and it doesn't matter with what sex. However, it would be very disrespectful to take her to your step moms on mothers day. And your step mom would be fully in her rights to be upset. Pick your battles and you'll have an easier time fighting them.
1095113
This may be the hardest thing you have to do so far in your life and I wish you the best of luck!\n\nHopefully in 5 years you will look back and laugh at how scared you were to tell them. \n\nI don't know your family but if I were you, I would take my mother to a neutral location such as a park and go for a walk. Tell her how much you love her and that you would never do anything to hurt her. Tell her that you need to talk to her about something very important to you. Then tell her in a way that's best for the both of you. Give her a few minutes to absorb this new information. Ask her if she has any questions. Tell her that it is nothing that she did or didn't do. Tell her that she is a great mother, and that you were born this way. Tell her that you are still her daughter, still the same loving girl you always were. Hopefully she will come to accept this in time. It may take a while. (She may already know) Either way she may be able to help you tell your father and the rest of your family. In time they will learn to accept you for who you really are, and love you just the same. Best wishes!!
1159141
As the mom of a bisexual daughter. I say be honest with them. We as parents love our children and want them to be comfortable enough to be able to come to us with anything.Though I may not approve of her choices I stand behind 100% . She is my daughter and no choice she makes could ever change the love I have for her. My love and prayers go out to you honey.