does he really want me?
820538
He may want you... but he definitely wants sex with you!
450554
sounds really fishy to me.. if he really cared about you, he would wait until you were 100% ready to meet him.. because he is being pushy about this whole thing, i dont think that i would look into any further, and i would stop the communication. There is just something that doesnt sound right. i hope that this helps.
755853
The person above is right, he is just using you.  Besides if he talks to you like that when he wants you back, how is he going to treat you once he has you.
236759
is it really love?  thats the first thing you have to ask yourself  and the next thing is if he really wants to be with you it will happening dont make a fuss over him . he will play you. if he dont respond then youre most likely better off without him. after all you have your whole life ahead of you. there will be plenty of guys
1021813
It sounds to me like he's confused.  Worst case, he's lying to you or at least not giving you the whole truth.  Speak candidly with him, find out the entire story and make a connection with him!  How does he really feel about you?  When he answers, do you believe him?  Listen to your instincts!
979488
I think that he definitely is interested in you and he probably does want to date you. He wouldn't spend all that time trying to engage you in conversation if he didn't care. However, no one can know if they will be with anyone forever. But that shouldn't deter you from going out with him. Being hurt does suck...but you wont live your life if you are always afraid of what might hurt you. You should go for it and if it doesn't work out just know that it wasn't meant to be and you will find someone else that will love you that much more. You wont ever have your first boyfriend if you don't get that first boyfriend...first relationships are hard. But then you will have all this experience and know exactly what you want out of a relationship for the next time around if this one doesn't work out. Go for it!
466557
He puts your needs before his.  He respects you.  He doesn't tries his (absolute) hardest not lie to you.  He cares more about your feelings than your body.  He hates it when you cry, he laughs everytime he sees you smile.  His heart explodes everytime he hears you laugh.  He would take a bullet for you.  He would never doubt where you've been, who you've been with (if you give him no reason to doubt in return; however), he trusts you.  Last but not least, he wants to be there for you in your time(s) of need...he wants to be the guy you call immediately when something in your life goes sour.  Hope this helped.
664776
Hmmm you seems like a girl with right head who knows what she wants.i agree with you,wait for some more time and see where things go and if he is really not ready after summer which is about 6 months or so then he really dont want to be with you in long term thing and yes seems like he really do like you.i wish you all the best and i hope you get what is best for you.
521746
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)
707008
I'd ask him, but it really does seem like he likes you. so I think he's lieing.
382593
That 'magical' feeling we all get only seems to be there when we can't get that special person.  He has been honest with you and said from the beginning that he doesn't want anything serious, so it's all down to you and whether you would be able to put up with what he has to offer. It's easy to give in and see him to get that magical feeling but is the high worth the massive low you could also get. You could be lucky and end up winning his heart but in my experience it rarely happens like that. I wish you so much luck because I know it's a horrible situation to be in.
959470
I think he likes you, \nbut just doesn't know it and doesn't want to admit it, even to himself. This stuff happens. Don't worry, you'll find out in time.
301682
im going to say hes not that interested.  when you first meet someone you really like you are giddy and flirt a lot and you are always thinking about them..  if this was the case i think he would probably be calling.  but it is still possible that he just dosnt want to involve you in all the drama in his life.  if you are really willing to deal with it talk to him about it.  if he cant open up you should move on
96103
Sounds like he's getting the best of both worlds. He gets to keep you (at a distance, with NO strings attached), and he also gets to do whatever else he wants. I think you are being taken advantage of. What you decide to do about it is your deal. Good luck.
545739
I think it's more than a friendship relationship at this point. I would say he's defidently more than interested, but committed. I think since you have so much in commen, he probebly thinks along the same lines as you regarding dating and getting married. You should have a serious conversation about your futures with him. Hear what he's thinking, then be honest, and tell him your consernes, and hopes for the relationship becoming more. Good luck! It sounds like you've found a great guy!
337251
Well, let me tell U all U need to do: U need to accept he's not taking U for serious, I guess he only wants U to make a few moves and that's it.\nThe guy who really takes care about U and really appreciates U is gonna call always, and it's gonna be available for U and he'll try to make U happy and to know that U're more than an object and U deserve the best things.\nSee, I don't want to judge U, but have U thought that maybe U have done some things to make him think he can play with U??
212559
It's possible he's shy, yes. And or maybe nervous. What about, you say?? Maybe he really likes you (and loves, you too?) but isn't sure how trustable you are. Bear with him.