why do guys say they're interested in you, but never call?
831459
He has a girlfriend and your his backup.
931215
uhhh if the guy told you he likes you then why are you questioning whether he likes you or not? Did u expect him to call you everyday?
321098
yes!!! if he likes u, he would've called by now. hes probably playing mind games with u. he's stringing u along.  move on!! lots of guys out there who would actually call.
103130
more than likely that he is interested in you, guys don't always come out and say that they like you. just like women have there was of saying it with out saying it. if you are inerested in him then let him keep doing what he is doing, and if you are still not sure what he is doing, that just ask him.
164970
If a guy really cares for you, he will call and want to spend time with you.  Also, he will try and make you laugh.  Just don't act to desperate about him or he'll get turned off.
885652
He basically means he's not interested in YOU. \nTrust me, if he was, he would jump at the opportunity and hook up with you before someone else does. But he said it clearly, he's just not into you.
458887
I think I'd move on or call him.  I hate these little dating games.  I flirted with a guy for over 2 months it was mutual, and I expressed my attraction and he never responded.  No call, no nothing.  So, if they don't call, screw them, and if they call 8 months later, screw them then, too!
300597
If he wants to talk to you he will call. If he wants to see you again he will ask you out.\n\nDon't call him. Would you like to hear this line from him when you give him a ring? : "Oh hello there, sorry I haven't called, I've been busy" Pathetic.\n\nMy present boyfriend called me everyday and it was nice to finally find a guy who didn't play these "mind/dating" games.
977623
they probably r afraid of being rejected. guys r more insecure than u think. loosen them up and give them something back. Flirt back or give them signs that u wanna take it further. some dont have enough confidence and think they dont have a chance
866193
If they don't show interest when you approach its because they don't find you attractive. Maybe they just don't find asian men attractive or more likely, its just YOU. Perhaps if you weren't so ignorant they would find you more attractive.
265506
Sounds like you've got a crush on him, but if I were you,I would get over it as soon as possible.  If he hasn't called you yet, he's probably not interested. He may never call you, but don't let that ruin your life.  Just think: he doesn't know what he's missing.
165062
Unless there's a legitimate reason for him not calling you back, "he's just not that into you". You make it sound like his behavior is consistent so if you're making the relationship a priority and he isn't, it may be time to move on. Make yourself less available. I would spend more time with friends and ignore his calls. That way you're out there meeting new guys and he'll either come around or you'll find one that returns phone calls.
421637
Guys always try to play it cool and wait a little while before they call you.  Maybe he doesn't want to seem pressed or he doesn't want to make it look like he's sweating you. Believe it or not, guys get nervous about the call as we do, so just give it a little while.  He'll call you.
1034495
maybe he wants a shot with you. He wouldn't be talking to you if he didnt like you.
869109
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
101352
Perhaps he likes you, but something prevent his feelings to be revealed. Actually, I've faced sth similer to what happen to you. I decided to leave and to start my life away of him. And I'm sure if he interested in me, he'll try at least to call and say hello!!!
397096
Maybe the guy you like is staying away cuz you accept the advances (flirt, friendship, etc...) of the other guy, so you do not appear to be available. I would not want to "take a number" either.