I have a crush on my bestfriend and I don't know how to tell him. What should I do?
824637
just be honest with him and see where it goes from there.. maybe he feels the same about you..
30931
so you think you're in love with your best friend, huh?  well, a lot depends on how old you are, how long you've know him, etc.  is he in a realationship right now?  could it be that you are jealous that someone is taking his time away from you?  there are a lot of things to consider here.  the best is to be honest.  if he is really your best friend, then hopefully he will listen to what you have to say and take you seriously.  who knows, maybe he loves you back.  telling someone you love them is something that cannot be taken lightly.  and if you end up dating him, you can never go back to being 'just friends.'
442927
Well, basically, in cases like this there really isn't much to tell because you just gotta go talk to him and speak out on whatever you have to say. I know that you might get that feeling that you don't want to ruin your friendship and everything, but you really want to tell him how you feel. Well, let me tell you something. I have this friend who just blurted his feelings for his friend. He didn't know if she will accept his feelings or not. He wasn't sure exactly what will happen; but deep inside of him he felt that he just had to tell her how he feels. So, he took his chance and stepped up to the girl and admitted his feelings for her. And now, they're happily together. No, they're not in a relationship or anything, but they both know that they're in love with each other. They just want to take time to get to know more about each other. They are willing to wait for the right moment to enter into a relationship. But the good thing about it is that their friendship never changed. They still remained good friends. So, if you two are really good friends, you don't have to be afraid of what will happen to your friendship because friends value their friendship more than anything. You two need to realize that your friendship is far more important than anything else. So, just tell him how you feel, but don't expect anything for that matter. There is that chance that he might have a different reaction, but at least you told him the truth and that will make you feel a lot better. Sometimes, you just gotta take that chance in life. I'm wishing you the best.
69406
Ask her how she feels about talking about him.  Tell her that she is your best friend and care about her feelings.  Ask for her support and that you need her advise on the relationship.
355127
explain that it's important to you that you have a bit of alone time with your crush. If she is your bestfriend she'll understand, if not...
476069
It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
829734
Oh, kind of an embarrasing situation. I would first talk to my best friend about it. Have her pave the way and tell u if he fancies u or not. If u get a positive feedback, start by taking him out to a movie or something along with your friend, once things are cool, u guys can start the real dating
429258
if he is your best friend, there is nothing wrong letting him know how you feel. as long as you know he is not going to use it against your friendship. if he reciprocate favorable with your feelings, maybe it will go to another level? if not, hope you two remain the best of friend....good luck..
293635
Well you need to tell her that you still like him, and you do have a problem with it. Just think of you saw them making out or something...wouldnt you get mad? i know i would but your friend wouldnt know any better because you didnt tell her! Let her know, and she might wanna stay with your crush she also might break up with him so she wont hurt you in any way.
599879
just confront him n tell him bout ur feelings that u have a crush on him... i think he would understand since he's a close friend n u should express ur feelings... just make sure it doesnt harm the friendship but do tell him bout what u're feeling for him...
1073436
Well, I think, if you guys are really good friends... tell him. Let him know how you feel about him. maybe he don't even know you like him like that, so he hasn't noticed you... tell him... what's the worst that could happen... you get him?
584698
u need to tell him or otherwise u will dwell on it 4 2 long and the right person 4 u wont be there at all....my best friend told me that he liked me when he knew that i was in love w/ my husband (he wasnt my husband then tho)...he knew it was never gonna happen but he did it neway...we're still best friends...if ur friend is the kind of friend u say he is, then he shouldnt mind u tellin him at all
656258
I have been in that situation before. Don't tell him yet. Give him small hints that you like him, but not obvious ones. Don't give all your hints at the same time.
510543
I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
614714
y cant u tell her? pls dont tell coz u r afraid she might decline u......so wat....give it a shot......if u guys r best frnds she might have some feelings for u too.....
76143
You should talk to him first about anything thats on your mind than tell him that you really like him and you have been liking him for a while now and that you would really like to go out with him so yall can get to know each other alot better and than maybe yall friendship can go farther into a relationship.
642834
This is always a tricky situation, and its often feared that the friendship might be ruined if the other person doesn't feel the same way. I think that if you two are 'best friends' and really close and have a healthy relationship, then if he doesn't feel the same way, maintaining the friendship should be easy.\n\nI think you should tell him and for all you know he could be feeling the exact same way, and having the same fears! So take the risk. If you don't then you are risking a really good chance to be with someone in a relationship that you really care for.\n\nPlan the right way to do it for you- whether that be on the phone, face to face, through a hand written letter, email or msn...whichever is best for you, the point is that you do it and get it out in the open of your relationship. \n\nJust remember of all the great possibilities, that's why you should do it.