How on earth do I ask a shy girl out ?
824945
Ask her out in a way that gives her the option of letting you down really, really nicely.  For example, send her an email suggesting that you go for drinks the next evening after work.  If she's so shy that she can't deal with rejecting you she can just not reply to the email.  You could also phone and leave a message on her machine at a time when you know she's not at home or at the office.  Then she can ignore your message if that's easier for her.  And then, be a gentleman and don't get pissed off if she doesn't get back to you.  As you said, she's really shy!
344340
Tell here straight away that you are shy, but you've seen here around. That you don't want to try any lame lines on her but you would like to get to know her. Just be sincere don't worry about being rejected, you haven't gotten to that point yet and if she is the type of person that wont give another the time to get to know her then is she even worth the trouble?
576926
If your shy write her a letter. Girls love, love-letters!!
748868
oh just ask her out. don't be shy. if you have to just ask her out as friends and maybe something will grow from that.
402105
Be brave,ask her out. Simple as that.Some people spend too much time wondering,if I do this,will he or she do that.Just jump right straight to the point.Hi,what's up or whatever and then boom-hammer down-ask her out. Say something like Hi(her name)I'm going out to say a concert,would you like to go with me. All she can say is yes or no. When she says no,don't ask her out again. Make another choice for a girl you would like to date and date them instead. Sometimes when a girl has seen the boy that just asked her out with another,it kinda makes them wonder a little.Especially if she were to find out how much fun was had. Plan someplace you'd like to go that is fun.Then go,maybe even ask others-go as a group.Just have fun. When I was dating,fun was the in thing. Dating wasn't as fun as going in a group because it made the girls feel too attached to the person they were dating,but going as a group,you had more fun,everyone not so serious.Most times each person paid their own way. We used to go to the rivers(had large picnics-cook-outs,Sometimes we'd all get together and go to the local beach,or we'd decide on a movie,you follow what I am saying. Going as a group seems to let everyone be themself more,without all the love stuff involved in a date.Sometimes,no matter what you think of a girl,that girl could be nerveous about being alone with you.Nothing you do to cause this,some girls are just that way.Make it easy for her to say yes.Going as a group,she has time to get to know you without being totally alone with you in a relaxing atmosphere.I think it's funny how some boys think they know everything about girls,but unless you are a girl,how would you know. And about that dance,does Debbie dance well?If she doesn't she may have been scared for you to see how she dances.I see you like to dance,so that is a major plus for you.Almost all girls I've known just love to dance and admires a guy who will dance  with them.Dancing is a universal language.If she can't dance well offer to teach her how. (she'll bug you for dances once she learns)
945614
Slip her your phone number and ask her out. Don't be shy.
58360
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
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1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.
635316
just do it most guys r to shy to ask girls out.....but do it wen hes alone so his friends wont mess it up for u
667510
It's probably always a nerve racking experience to approach a girl, especially when you're shy.\n\nDon't write a note or anything like that, that's pretty lame.  If I was you, I would think about what you want to say first, so you don't get all tongue tied when the big moment comes.  Make sure she's not surrounded by a bunch of her friends, that's gonna be pressure!\n\nMaybe you could give her a flower (maybe not a rose, that's a bit too romantic initially) and tell her that you admire her and ask her if she'd like to go on a date sometime.  Don't make her answer on the spot - give her a piece of paper with your ph number written on it and invite her to give you a call if she would like to go out.\n\nGood luck - and remember to smile and act confident, even if you feel like the ground is swallowing you up.\n\nPS  Girls like shy guys (the right ones for you anyway)
302288
be yourself and calm.  No cheesy pick up lines and just talk to her.  Be kind to her, make jokes with her.  Maybe she likes u too and wants you to ask her out.
362181
coming from a shy girl, \nif she likes you, she'll more than likely avoid you.\nAnd when you are around, she seems to try her best not to stare, but if you pay attention, you'll catch her glancing. When you join in with her, she might try and inch out of the conversation, or gathering. She just doesn't want to made a fool of, you know? If you really want to get closer to her, let her know you're definitely interested, don't lead her on, or tell some people one thing about her and other people another. Things like eye-contact, warm smiles, and asking her specifically about her opinions on things. She will end up more comfortable around you, but first thing first, you have to get her talking, she won't do it on her own!
519268
its simple, just ask her out... or pass her a note... thats how i got asked out
779121
I am exactly like that.  I study a lot, am very shy girl.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I would probably be appauled if some random guy who I thought didn't know me asked me out.  I want someone to act like they care about me, but not in a creepy way.  A lot of the time shy people tend to be lonely, but not always.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I REPEAT, GET TO KNOW HER.!!!!
722064
The one who acts shy around you definitely has a crush on you. you should acknowledge her presence as often as possible- it's called giving her attention. Later on, you can ask her out. she'll be thrilled!
48304
well, ask her out; ya never know unti lyou try.  Or if ou are 2 nervous see if you guys could play some 1 on 1 sometime.  Or you could talk to her more, like get to know her better that way she will get to know you. Good Luck!
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well, you can't really remove "shy" from a girl. SHyness is something people need to learn to overcome on their own. \nI can give you suggestions that may help her break loose from her shell. \nI used to be very shy and I overcame it. I hung out with people that were just the opposite of me they were quite outgoing, so if you are outgoing that can break a shy girl out of her shell. I would see them socializing and making friends and this and that, now that I am not so shy, I have had more dates and I have lots of friends and I am not afraid to get out and have a good time. :)\n\nNow as far as style every girl varies. So it is hard to say what they like. If you are referring to men's styles, I like for my men to be clean cut. I like casual, I like to see men dressed up, I just don't like the sloppy look. T shirts and jeans are okay as long as it doesn't look sloppy. \n\nMy own personal style is simple. I am not into the fancy stuff. I like some of the things that are in style, I am a modest dresser. I like capri pants, sandals, casual skirts, blue jeans, nice t shirts and on occasion I like to dress up very nice if the occasion calls for it. \n\nLittle cat likes his blue collar with the bell and he thinks he's cool because he just got his rabies tag renewed so that he can fly to New Hampshire with me and he thinks he's even cooler because he gets to fly free. :)