Why don't I have any ambition?
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nah try calling 1800 lifenet to talk. you may need therapy from the doc. try online therapy as an option such as metanoia.org or asktheinternettherapist.com. i'm willing to talk to you at dogmicjoe@yahoo.com. been theer with depression. try beliefnet.com which inspires. try holisticonline.com which helps me to deal with stress. walk and do music. seek therapy. write down your emotions.
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Well, most people think they are born to do something and succeed and help mankind somehow. Its not like majority of people start off young thinking I am going to be a nobody. It would be great if you could reach the goal you have set for yourself though. I am a little confused with the line you have..."but I feel that I was born once". If thats what you think you were called to do though, then go after it. It is never too late to live your dream.
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The more you focus on getting it, the more likely you won't.\nJust enjoy what you're doing and it might come by itself.\nWell, I assume you know what it takes to get it... So you could possible re-consider some techniques/positions to help you achieve it..
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I think it's a bit ridiculous. Your ambitions determine how you're going to turn out, in my opinion. Although the stars (cosmos or universe in other words) have something to do with an underlying destiny we all possess, as does the world, you cannot honestly believe a cosmic force is going to make you get up and finish a paper, or just throw you on a plane to take trips. You can make this happen. Be ambitious, Save money, Look for more forms of income to raise more capital. Have a goal, strive for it. Not only will the trip come, but it'll be more appreciated due to the fact that you earned it, and it didn't just fall into your lap as a freebee. Good luck.
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I think you are not satisfied with yourself and that's why you are jealous and negative. Think what you want to accomplish realistically within the next 2-3 years and make a step by step plan (realistic one). Start working on it. Get busy with achieving your immediate and long term goals and hopefully you don't worry about other people much. \n\nExamples of goals: loose 10lb, become more attractive, get married, buy a house, get pay raise, change profession, make 10 more new friends, etc.
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Nothing is impossible. U can make it if you concentrate on it and make it your goal. This world is not for dreamers but for achievers and always remember - NO GUTS NO GLORY !
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Dont be! Me thinks that applies to everybody. Dont feel like that, im sure better things will come your way, im sure it eventually will!\n\nHow does one know where one wants to be in life?\nI cant quite get what you're trying to ask, but let me try :)\n\n--Well, sometimes you dont and stuff just happens untill you are where you are, and sometimes you have to plan things out to get to where you want to be.\n\nHmm...\nIf you really need to see what will come to you in the future, i guess you would have to have a goal or an aspiration... a dream! Lollers, and then take the necessary steps, or make the decisions that you might know will get you there... y'know :-)\n\nHonestly, i myself cant seem to place my self in this world, and even to know exactly what will become of me when i get older.\n\nI have tried to make plans, i have my dreams, but sometimes things just dont work out the way it should be.\n\naaaanyway.\nI suggest you don't let things happen - make things happen. youl know when your there after all those decisions and forks-in-the-road and shat.
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Without much drive, you aren't going places with any major.  Perhaps someday you will starve enough to develop personal drive, or perhaps you might get a cubicle job that will take care of you as long as you show up on time and do what you're told.\n\nIt's not a recipe for independance and fulfillment, but that doesn't  sound like what you want anyways.
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maybe u dont have somthing to believe in ,, nothing to live for a goal that u will do anything to reach ,,\n\nTry to put an aim for ur life and think about it seriousley u will find that life contains many things that worths giving it a try .. life is full of joy and fun and love ,, just think about it as a chance and u will enjoy it .. \n\ngood luck
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To reach any kind of goal in life, you must first envision what it is you want.  And WHY do you want it?\n\nYou say, "a job."  There are all kinds of volunteer opportunities out there that certainly fall into the category of "a job," in that they are regular, recurring responsibilities that consume one's energy and time!!  Is this your goal?  To find an outlet for your energy and time?  Or is it something closer to, "to generate an income that I can use as a springboard to greater things in life, while being self-supporting with regard to my living expenses?"\n\nYou ENVISION yourself earning a half-million or more USD per year; your creative mind will go to work on that vision and (IF YOU KEEP IT AND DEVELOP IT AND GO AFTER IT WITH PERSISTENCE), unless you die first, some day you will have that 500,000 dollars a year income.\n\nSet small goals and achieve them, and thereby gain the self-confidence to gain bigger ones.  You want 400 dollars per week disposable income?  This is achievable quite easily in almost any area of North America, by any person who can communicate at the level of a ten-year-old or above.\n\nFigure out what you ENJOY doing.  You will never succeed at something you hate to do.  Then e-mail me for further advice, or go it alone; your choice.  Click on the link of my nickname to get an e-mail to me.  Then we can exchange direct e-mail addresses.
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I believe everyone has potential and what they do with that potential no matter how hard for them or easy they can reach their potential if they care to. Some people do lack "effort" and want the world handed to them on a silver platter, but someone who really wants to be successful in "anything" they do, will give it their all. Some are better at all things, some are better in "certain things", but being successful as an individual is taking your ability as far as you can, and never feeling like a failure.
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I totally relate, I spent my late teens and early twenties doing similar things.  I would say to make some goals for yourself, realistic ones, and go about achieving them.  Remember where you've come from, you've gotten so much better than where you were!  That's a huge accomplishment!!!  Be proud of yourself for that!!!
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I have always done what I want.  That's probably why, I have no friends, didn't hack it as an Airman, couldn't stay in class, can't stay out of the courtroom, have no money, so on and so forth, oh yeah, I am homeless too.\n\nMaybe, I should have been a puppet.
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Because you're human.  Read Paul's 1st letter to the Thessalonians, and his other letters.  He offers a lot of encouragement to the people he is writing to about similar issues.\n\nKeep your ultimate goals in mind.  Keep the supreme good goal ever before you.  Try to see the big picture, and maybe you can see that the little desires you have are petty compared to that greater goal.\n\nThis is a lifelong process that we all have to work on.  We will get better if we keep working on it.\n\nGod Bless you in your walk.
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Why don't you enlist?
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You just described why.\n\nBe yourself.  Don't try to live up to other peoples expectations of you, whoever they are.  Create expectations (goals) for yourself!  Live up to them, re-assessing as needed along the way.\n\nStrive to be a caring, purposeful, dedicated individual.  Develop your own likes, talents, gifts and character.  Like-minded individuals will be drawn to you.  Don't waste your time on the other riff-raff just to be with someone.\n\nTrying to live up to other peoples expectations ... be it in life, career, sex, relationship, friendship ... stifles and frustrates.  Living up to your own expectations of yourself, in behaviour, goals, life ... sets you free!\n\nGo for it!!
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If your life feels wasted it's because you are wasting it. God made us all and gave each of us special talents. Determine what yours is and put it to good use.\n\nHow do you know what your talent is? I don't know, but you'll never know if you keep wasting your time with WHY DO WE EXIST? \n\nRemember, just because you don't know the reason for something doesn't mean there isn't a reason. If you didn't know the reason why you couldn't breathe under water, does that mean that there isn't a reason?