Somebody who imitates you has any unhealthy point ....... or good news?
829613
You don't have any answer's because we can't understand the question. Please make what you're trying to ask more clear.
1020273
Sometimes I counteract negative gossip by making kind remarks about the person who is the subject of the gossip.  Most people are basically nice and this appeals to their better nature.  If the gossiper persists I don't worry about offending them with silence.
969365
I think its funny. And you get free points. Whats not to like? Did you do something to offend someone? Is that why theyre making fun of you?
848238
When someone tells you off....
655922
NO! ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! \n\nNo one is responsible for your action but you. \n\nIf you were duped into believing someone else was great and you emulated them and it leads to trouble or if you find out that this person you thought was great is in fact a liar and not worth your time, then anything that you have done foolish or wrong to win their approval or emulate them is your won responsibly. Blaming them is NOT the right way to go. It is unhealthy and immature. You should look at yourself and figure out why you needed them in the first place and then overcome your own personal issues. Then you will be at the road to proper attitude. \n\nI hope this helps.
756600
You know what you did in your life.. \nIf its fake..  then i would be taking them for slander as well. \nto me its a play to freak  you out. \n\nIf it was me.. i would make a personal point of letting her know she is a very cruel person and it will come back to her three fold.
403946
Was is some stranger who walked up to you on the street and said "you're fat?"  Or was is someone you care about who was concerned for your health and well-being and worded it better?  It's not necessarily bad.
634352
Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.  BUT! You need to find yourself and be yourself.  It's OK to take things from others, but you need to find your own personality.
934895
It depends on whether that photo is really you or not. Since I've seen it all over the internet I think it's more likely that you're just being an asshole toward overweight people, and you need to get over yourself.
493529
it depends on the self-esteem of the person.  They may feel bad and agree or shug it off and realize their worth doesn't depend on your opinoun
1176797
This would be telling someone all sorts of good things about themselves, commenting how witty, good-looking or smart they are in order to get them comfortable with you so that you can then feed them a line of misinformation or to con them.
296220
What a blessing it is to have a positive self image. Most rare among anyone. Of any colour. Cherish this ability. Having read your question certainly brightend My day. I hope that others are positivly effected as well. I hope this finds you in the best of spirits. \nKisses,\nMA
927519
yes.......it's usually good for a laugh when it happens to someone else........the look on their face.  Classic.
392930
"SELF-DELUSION\n\nSelf-esteem is one thing. But many psychologists have been preaching the gospel of serf-delusion. They argue it's actually healthy to think more highly of yourself than reality warrants.\n\nThere's nothing wrong with feeling good about oneself, of course. But when self-perception races ahead of reality, the likely result is a socially inept misfit, warns Northeastern University's C. Randall Colvin, Ph.D.\n\nAs part of a decades-long study that has tracked 130 individuals since nursery school, Colvin and his colleagues assessed subjects' personality at ages 18 and 23, monitoring such traits as dependability and how subjects handle life's frustrations. The volunteers provided self-descriptions, and their friends contributed evaluations as well.\n\nWhen the researchers looked at subjects who were "self-enhancers"--those whose glowing self-image bore little resemblance to their true personality--a disturbing portrait emerged.\n\n"Self-enhancers tend to be hostile, lack social skills, and appear anxious and moody," says Colvin. "They are sensitive to criticism and keep people at a distance--perhaps so that they don't get negative feedback that might alter their overly positive view. They are trying to hide their flaws from themselves."\n\nIf self-enhancers are deluding themselves, they're not fooling their friends. Even their pals describe self-enhancers as hostile, condescending, and unable to delay gratification, report Colvin and University of California psychologists Jack Block, Ph.D., and David C. Funder, Ph.D., in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (Vol. 68, No. 6). And when friends see through the facade, self-enhancers engage in more distortion and denial in an attempt to maintain a positive self-view.\n\nAll this suggests that artificially propping up someone's self-esteem may provide a temporary mental boost--but in the long run stunts their social and personal well-being.\n\n"Positive self-esteem is good," says Colvin. "But the context has to be based on reality. Knowing that imperfections exist is the first step to improving yourself." Ref: http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=35196\n\n\nOn the humurous side check this out:\n\n"The American Psychiatric Association is bragging in its own membership newsletter that they pleased the Bush Administration by successfully discouraging the mainstream media from looking into the corruption exposed by the British Medical Journal in a recent series of articles." Ref:
771946
Oh definitely yes!  I hate when people (unsolicited) will try to figure out "what's wrong" if I'm not smiling and bubbly.  sometimes there isn't even anything wrong, just that I am thinking of something and need to think it through or that I am trying to finish some project and people keep interrupting.  And those things seem impossible for the cheer-up crew to understand!  So yes, I can relate to that.\n\n      I don't think people should take it upon themselves to try and cheer everyone up in their path, or to butt in and ask what is the matter.  It's OK to do so quietly and let the person know you are there if they need to talk ONCE, but then leave it alone and wait and see if the person actually wants to talk.  If not, there is nothing the cheery one can do and they need to move on to another prospect!
39566
Telling someone that they are looking good. Doesn't hurt anyone and makes them feel better about themselves.
670920
To some, misery loves company and if they can bring someone down they feel they have made an accomplishment.  Mind you, some answers may come off as sarcastic and may have indeed been meant by the answerer as witty or even cute.  Unfortunately it isn't always this way.  There will always be someone who has something to say and often it makes them feel better about themselves if they think they have lowered someone else's self esteem.\n\nIt doesn't make it morally right but Freedom of Speech has given the right of way to even those who interpret little or no thought into what they say.