Do you think that parents should stay together for the sake of their children??????
812850
I think it usually ends up backfiring.  I mean, it's usually better for the children in the long run if they split rather than stay together and be at each others throats all the time.
211771
throw one out of the house lol! How about reminding them that someday, when their parents are gone all they will have is each other.
924537
Heck no!\n\nParents aren't parenting well if that's the case.\n\nJust do the right thing and ignore the parents in this case.
240763
It's not a good idea but it's a great idea. I think it's important for you to get back with your ex because you have to do it for your kids and their own future. But if the two of you argued a lot then it's better to have seperate kids with you because when a couple argue and there's kids involved they will affected mentally and physically. But it's still up to you, it's your decision.
687057
Yes its ok to remove yourself from her problems (her mental health). There is no law saying you must remain attached to a parent. In fact, removing yourself may even help your relationship. It did mine.
392859
no, because you are just hurting the children. They can sense your unhappiness and you are just making them hurt like you both are and that is being selfish. Sit the children down and explain to them what your are going through children now a days are alot smarter than you think don't make them choose be adults and make it a easy as possible for them so they don't have to choose between the both of you. Make the seperation smooth it's going to be hard at first but you both have to be strong for them and do not bad mouth each other.
214240
Although you need to do what is right for your child you should be with (girl B)  If you stay with the baby's mom you will most likely end up in divorce or resent her for not being the one you love.  If you are only with her for the baby it is also not good for the baby.  Learn from your mistakes though and make sure you children do not suffer.
749857
having a baby isn't going to make anything better. sometimes a parent can be a better parent b being away from the situation. kids need love and a sense of security,
807444
A big yes! They should comply with the guide lines that they can offer a stable home, personal references and the desire to raise a child. What difference does it make if they are of the same sex. \n\nI know several people who grew up with gay parents & none of them are gay. There are to many children who need homes. If someone is loving enough and able to care for them, why not let them.
851624
I think it's vital that both parents and professionals work together, especially when SEN children are involved. By working together they'll be able to help the child develop further and share any achievements/concerns for one another to look out for.
242933
It all really depends on the dynamics of the household, and why it is being done. I can say that there was a time when I would of never considered it. My husbands parents came home from a mission three weeks after I gave birth to my sixth child and three months after the death of my oldest daughter. I was dreading the thought of them staying with us. We had had our differences and believe me they had some bad ramifications, but I was the only one who was willing to take them in. It ended up being the best thing in the world. It was very good for my husband who was going through his own grief over our daughters death, plus his concern over his depressed and slightly suicideal wife. To have some back up and support since I was just trying to survive. We had them with us for two years and they were a blessing in so many ways. I will never be able to express the joy in watching my children bond with their grandparents and having the opportunity to see them grow. It did take alot of sacrifice for all. It is not easy to live with parents who have opinions and things that you don't always agree on, but I really got the chance to see what I think will be the mode of Heaven. I can say with all honesty that it was wonderful and that I miss them. The one thing that I think though is it is tougher when you're younger and first married. That is a time when you really should try to avoid it. It is a time for developing your relationship and forming that bond that can endure., and marriage at first is difficult enough without a mother-in-law thinking that this girl is just not good enough for my son syndrome.
512205
I have been through a divorce for this reason. I think if you have children and fight in front of them all the time, its best to go seperate ways so they dont have to suffer.
492877
Well, if both of you don't want to be in other relationships then its ok.  It's good that you both are looking out in the best interest of the children, but it will be harder for both of you to move on if you live together.
1177886
That is for you to decide. Just remember your parents will always be there, no matter what. They love you unconditionally and understand the need to please your spouse. Your spouse is someone you have to work to keep, and you have to live with them, so decide wisely!
169615
You should give to stay at free ur child
891070
Sounds very selfish. Someone who would do that doesnt care about providing the optimal home enviorment for the child. There is obvisouly no commitment between the parents. My question is What is the reasoning for not getting married? So if things don't work out one of them can walk away? What kind of lessons are you teaching that child. Can one person raise a child? Yes, Would two people be better? Yes, Would two people who are in a legaly binding commitment be better than that? Yes, Would a Mother and a Father in a legally binding commited marrige be better that that? YES!! Why would you want anything less than the best for your child? Where have standards gone??
926288
That's a hard one!  I don't think either that they should go back either.  Children need a stable environment.  It's not good on them to be transfered around.  Even back to parents that don't care about them anyways.  Im so sorry that you have to go through this.  If I were you,  I would fight this as hard as you can.  Good Luck!