Cheated While engaged?
817857
see what happens when the eyes open ?those we thought were beautiful really aren't.that's hard to love through,it's like who is this person?there's a stranger in my house.I am not sure you can love the woman who resides in the body now that she's been revealed a liar and a cheat.deceit is ugly isn't ti?Do what's in your heart.if you can forgive and still love her go for it.
436767
It may not be cheating in the usual unedrstanding of the word, but it most certainly is not being faithful. Consider how you would feel if your spouse had fallen in love with some bimbo on line and was sneaking off to have hot sticky computer sex when you weren't around? \n\nDon't betray your spouse.
333235
be honest and dont cheat again
176460
Cheating is NOT OK...the fact that he did that too you in the first place is soooo not cool. I'm surprised you didn't do away with him then! The thing is if you didn't do anything about it when it happened...he's probably thinkin sweet i'll do it again...unless he's really genuine. Just ask yourself...If he's hurt me this much this soon, whats to come in the future...? And what might come in the future is heartbreak...and you don't want that. If you break up with him now, you can do it on good terms, and possibly hold up a descent friendship!! Just pretect your heart...good luck!!!
56702
I doubt it! Some people will cheat no matter what you do, other will if given a reason. Dont give your partner a reason!
772822
Under marriage & divorce - we can only assume you cheated.  It will probably go away in time...who knows how long...only you can say.  Hey, it happened for a reason...maybe he did something unkind to push you into it?  It may not have been all your fault?  \n\nDon't tell your hubby, that will only make matter worse and then he can bring it up years from now during an argument.  Confessing to him may make you feel better, but it will definately make him feel worse.  Short term it may work...long term it sucks.  \n\nThe good new is that the guilt will fade away a little more each day.  If you really need to share this with someone, then go to a church and share it with God.  Good luck.
64300
Well something like that is hard to let go. Because it keep replaying in your mind. If you are afradi of this happing again more than likely it will happen again. Because I had a ex-fiance that cheated left and right. He also told me that he would never do it again. But he did. Once they do it they contuine to do it. So your best bet would be to move on with your life with out him...
1178438
if ur fiance doesn't know about this then it is cheating!
340645
Tough question, generally once a cheater always a cheater, but were talking about a relationship prior to marriage, it is unfortunate he cheated while with you, to disrespect you in that way says he was unsure that you are thee one for him, however, he is not only sorry for his actions now, but has realized he does want you as his bride.  We all make mistakes, however, marriage is not only a vow to you but to the Lord himself, assumming your having a Church bless your marriage and I would judge him by his faith in God..at least at this point of considering marrying him...I would make it very clear, betrayal during marriage is not just cheating on their spouse, but against your vows presented before the Lord himself...I only offer this advice if you truely love him, if you have any reason to further doubt his integrity...then do not take it to this next step...good luck
377668
The question isn't whether or not it was cheating what you should ask yourself is what's the possibility that someone else might tell him what happen.  If you tell him he might forgive you but I doubt it but if he hear it from someone else you can forget it.  You can tell him I said if he is a good man meaning secure and confident he should believe you and let it go.
580804
You need to consider your engagement. Maybe you are not quite ready to settle down with your fiance'. If you are questioning what you should do, my suggestion is that you should not get married just yet. You are obviously not ready to tie the knot. A lot easier to deal with before you get married than after. You need to do a lot of soul searching. Don't make a mistake that you will regret.
96786
I don't think you really love someone if you can cheat on them! if you really loved this woman you are about to marry, you wouldn't have done it. my advice, tell her, so she can dump your sorry cheating a**.
826303
Yes he cheated. Think about it why would some girl call u out of the blue and say that she is pregnant by your man. That might not be his baby but he hit that at some point move on and find somebody else.
649917
i've NEVER cheated nor ever will. but what really got me mad once (besides others cheating on me) was i once went to caribbean by myself to relax; didn't even look at another guy. a week or two after i came home by boyfriend ended it. what a jerk... i could've had a better time...!!! grr.
263500
You could have tried, but he may not have believed you.  Infidelity by a loved one usually is something that many people need to see for their own eyes to believe.  Especially, if the marriage seems fine to them on the outside.
146276
It is NOT, I repeat NOT ok for EITHER to cheat! Forgiveness has nothing to do with it. If either partner cheats, there is a serious problem in the relationship. It's time to look toward the future and move on.\n\nThings may be salvageable with counseling, but even then...
207337
I was dating my ex for a year and a half, i found out he cheated on me in begining...we were engaged when he told me. After that i found out he had cheated on me a couple more times and i called of the wedding.I didn't like the fact that i forgave him the first time and he still did it again. I think you should breakup with him and someone who loves you and won't cheat on you. If they cheat once they will do it again