My Boyfriend has been made homeless and unemployed....?
818082
so your dating a tramp now
739411
God forbid he is working hard now to provide you with a better future.  Go ahead and cheat on him so I can watch you on the Maury show.  You will probably use the excuse that he is never there for you even though it's probably his money that feeds, cloths, warms and shelters you.  Whaaaaaaaaaa.
579040
only you know what to do. but i can try to give advice.  find a job even somewhere you don't want to work.  catch the bus, walk to work.  whwre is your boyfriend? does he have a car?  do any of your friends have cars?  why does your family act like that with you?  be truthful.  prove to the, that you are not lazy stop pointing the finger and take some initative.  don't break up with your boyfriend you may need some one to come through this mess with you.
707724
All depends on where you live I think. If you live in a big city there are going to be more opportunities than in a country town. Six weeks isn't that long and you say he has had some interviews and offers. Does he tell you why he rejects an offer or why an interview didn't work out. Maybe the right position hasn't become available yet or maybe too far to go to get there. If he can't help out financially at home then he should be doing the cooking, cleaning etc. Encourage him at all times to find a job, even a part time one, because I think the longer you're out of work the easier it is to stay that way!!!
517883
Oh My God, that is a terrible and sad story. I really wish that I knew what to tell you or at least had some good advise. Being kicked out of my girlfriends house just a few months ago, I can relate to some of what you are going through. You will have hard times and sadness for a long time no doubt. But believe it or not, it does get easier as time goes by. That does not help you right now I know, and for that I am also sorry. There really isnt anything that I can tell you or that anybody can tell you really that will ease your pain and suffering. But for sure you need to keep your head about you and do whatever it takes to get you and your son through this horrible time in your life. I can be your e-mail pal/friend if you want, and again I wish I had some quick-fix remedy. Keep your chin up. (smile)
3734
Girl,\nI am in a similar situation. You have to decide if he is "using" you as a safety net of sorts or just settling until something better comes along. Also, because I do not know the entire situation, you have to ask your self if he could also be using you for monetary gains, etc.  No matter the situation, if you are not 100% happy, you should walk. You are more important and your happiness is too.
622239
I think you need to find another job.  He took advantage of you, and he is a user.  You need to move on and not think about him anymore.  He isn't available to you no matter what he says about him and his wife.  He hasn't left her and he isn't going to, that's what people like that do.
61399
dont just sit and wait for someone to help you, ive been in that situation. call your local housing authority for help. they can help you find a place, and will covor alot of costs, until you recover enough to get permanent employment. the government HAS to help you. there are lots of ways to get help for this, and you just took a right step.
958810
You've already answered your question.  It's in your "question"/statement.  He made your life a living hell for four years... why should you even consider letting him do that to you again.  This guy obviously needs serious mental help and you're not qualified to help.  Change your phone number so he can't text you anymore and get on with your life.  You should feel no guilt.  You tried for way too long to help this loser and he used you.  Forget about this bum and find someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
1106517
i'm in the same postion - unemployed for six months.  i have learned that if you have to 'invest' money - its a scam.  keep checking your local unemployment office and also social services may be able to help.  my problem is i'm over quailifed for 'low end' jobs and under quailifed for the 'better' jobs.  \n\ngood luck
361248
My dear you shouldn't go on line asking to borrow money or anything valuable. People don't usually trust who they don't know. Maybe you should try getting a job where you can earn and save or go to a close family or friend.  I hope something will work out for you, after all you said it was a need.
775074
It sounds like he has major issues unrelated to you... but you are paying the price. You need to talk to him about this compassionately, but firmly and tell him he needs to treat you with more love and respect. You might be financially dependent on him for now, but you deserve to be treated with respect. You'll be okay if this relationship ends. Do what is right for you and be proactive... don't just sit and wait for him to figure it out. You'll only stay stuck in a bad situation.
400505
he wanted u for a period of time.. I think now its over.. so he's going away from you..\nNow what u can do is.. just forget such unworthy person and start living your life..
898021
Unfortunately you can't.  If the State deems him worthy of assistance, then he is poor.  The state can offer you some assistance if you really need it.
701503
people make choices in life. you are not willing to move in which means that you are not that committed to him and his situation. social services could help him. notify him to call social services.
1162860
When you say "date" do you mean that you've only dated occasionally and that you are not seriously involved? Or "date" as in, you've been dating for sometime, are serious and involved? If it's the first...then you will survive and move on with your life. If it's the second...you will go through a variety of emotions and eventually you will recover, hopefully with your dignity intact.  Do not chase after him. Let him go and do whatever it is he is doing (running,hiding, laying low).  There must be a reason why this has happened. If he owes you $$ for rent, utilities, bills, credit cards, etc., then talk with a lawyer about ways you can get back monies owed you. Let someone else contact him in legal issues, stay out of it.  The best of luck to you, hope you have a strong network of friends and family to aid you through the process of moving on.
1170248
The reality of living on his own has hit him big time. don't give in, he will return to his former self given time. Good luck