how do I give my girl friend a better orgasm as she take depression medication?
830791
Rub her G spot when you give her oral.
597189
Well, it happens sometimes. What works for me is to focus on pleasing her and not to get too crazy with it.  Focus on her rhythm and breathing, and slow the heck down. The more you try to please her the longer you will last and then when she has gone a few times before you then you will find a whole new era for you in the bedroom. She will be quite the satisfied woman.
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Zoloft is well known for making people lose their sex drive, tell your doctor and ask to change to another one, the last thing you need on top of depression is misery over your lack of interest in sex.\nThere are many different types of anti depressant, you don't have to stick with this one
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In many cases, premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for medical treatment. Practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods may help you delay ejaculation. For some men, stopping or cutting down on the use of alcohol, tobacco, or illegal drugs may improve their ability to control ejaculation. Your health professional may recommend that you and your partner practice specific techniques to help delay ejaculation. These techniques may involve identifying and controlling the sensations that lead up to ejaculation and communicating to slow or stop stimulation. Other options include using a condom to reduce sensation to the penis or trying a different position (such as lying on your back) during intercourse. Counseling or behavioral therapy may help reduce anxiety related to premature ejaculation. Medications called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor medications (SSRIs), such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil), and sertraline (Zoloft), are sometimes used to treat premature ejaculation. These medications are used because a side effect of SSRIs is inhibited orgasm, which helps delay ejaculation. The use of SSRIs for the treatment of premature ejaculation is not related to depression and is considered an "off-label" use.
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try masterbating.   or have her hand do you.  or between her breast.  or better yet you should masterbate.  dude 5 times a day is bad for a girl when she doesnt want to. it hurts.  if she wants it then cool...and you should work on making her want you more.... by the way have you ever thought of waiting for a great big orgasm rather than small ones several times a day??...... get creative
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depends what stage of the relationship you are in with her.  if you've already had sex together, and just want to know how to get her in the mood to do it again, foreplay works great.  if she's totally not in the mood, stimulating her genitals directly is not a good idea.  you need to stimulate her mind first.  try watching a movie with a romantic love scene.  also telling her what you like about her works wonders.  not like, "remember that bra you were wearing last time we got it on?  that thing was HOT!" but something like, "you are so cute when you sleep" or "i love that you are so passionate about your job."  it will get her feeling positively towards you, and then you can move in for some kissing or something.  lots of kissing will work wonders, and pretty much everyone loves a massage so you two can take turns on each other.  but you shouldn't make the next move.  get her to the point where she is just dying to jump you, then let her.  :)\n\na side note on this.... it may turn out that she is in the mood for kissing but not sex because of *ahem* her hormonal cycle.  some girls have a really low sex drive while they are on their period, for example, and also might be uncomfortable with the idea of sex during that time.  don't stick your hand in her pants all of a sudden because you and she might be unpleasantly surprised.\n\nif you two haven't been sexually intimate, it's harder to jump right in.  young or inexperienced women may not realize that what they are doing has such a strong effect with regards to turning you on.  for this reason, it doesn't hurt to talk about it, tell her where you'd like to see the relationship go and how soon.  explain to her that her style of dress or method of kissing makes it much harder for you to resist her.  say that you'd love to make love to her but if she isn't ready she might want to tone it down a bit so that she isn't sending signals she doesn't mean to send.  always be polite/gentlemanlike and don't pressure her.  she will feel more comfortable with you as a result.  some women, if they are comfortable... they'll want to have sex with their man all the time.  if yours is still reluctant, apply the techniques listed above.\n\nin any stage of the relationship, women value courtship (the whole door-opening thing, helping her into her coat, all that).  be polite and respectful.  also keep the lines of communication open.  tell her what you like and encourage her to tell you what she likes (then do it!).
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Actually yes. Depression can be treated with sex. Because sex releases endorphines that make you happy. No endorphines, your not happy.
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try caressing in general...you have 2 get her 'worked' up..some people orgasm on penetration,what u say whn making love, oral sex...you need to ask this question to ur gf shes b best suited 2 tell u how she C*** :) best luck!
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Dude you cann't make chicken soup out of just water. The point being you can't make her something she not. Seems your sex drive is no where close to hers. It could be you two just don't match up.\n\n It will not get better, maybe you jusy don't turn her on. With a lady its about all things the way you treat her and talk, how you make her feel. Its also maybe your just not  sexually incompatible. You need to think she is not enjoying the sex as much as you.\n\n There is alot more to this then can be talk about on this short note.\n\n Also you could try this, either cook her a nice dinner or take her out to dinner. when you get home just put on some good music just make the connection that you once had. \n\nIts not good to have her think all you want is sex. \n\nHave a nice day Don
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One way to make your lover happy is to give her pleasure.  Knowing what a woman likes and how to provide it is very important.\n\nWhat is she doing that depresses you?
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Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.
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Many antideppressants have sexual side-effects...esp. the inability in women to reach orgasm.Speak to your Dr. and ask about Wellbutrin--it is supposed to have less of these side-effects.Good luck.
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Talk to her and give her information on depression... Google the word depression and print up some articles.\n\n\nhttp://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rls=SUNA,SUNA:2006-11,SUNA:en&q=depression
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Concentrate more on her feeling good rather than how good it feels to you. \nInstead of jumping into the heated moment too fast, slow yourself down and focus on the tender spots of her. Set out just to make her feel electric. Put yourself last. Much more pleasure.
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break a piece off an alka seltzer before you start and put it on her clit while you are getting her warmed up, then when you go down pop a halls cough drop in your mouth and ocasionaly roll it around her clit. the bubbleing action of the seltzer and the tingeling and slight numbing of the cough drop will give some stimulation she probably hasn't felt before. as for technique you should know what you like and do the same to her. this is the reason women do it better cause we know better what's down there and what to do with it.  variation on the pressure and little bites ocasionaly will help too.
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I am currently taking Zoloft (100mg once a day) and I have had nothing but good results. Usually more than 100mg will result in sexual side effects like not being able to orgasm. My depression is under control and am pleased with that.
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I didn't learn how to control this until I read a book called Sexual Solutions by Michael Castelman. He spends 30 pages on it.  Do Kegels, learn to control your breathing, move slower.\n\nAnd go. .d.o.w.n. .on her first, before you even start doing any penetrating.  Make sure she has lots of orgasms before you even start.