Is it normal to fell beautiful one day and ugly the other?
825001
i doubt you suffer from some disorder. it's a very normal feeling ( i feel it everyday). it is important to note that this feeling could be based upon how you are feeling about every aspect of your life otherwise. for example, if you're in school and you got a bad grade on a test, then you might feel really ugly. coversely, if you aced that exam, you might feel really good.\n\nbest wishes to you friend, we've all been there.
937048
lol, only if something hits it and it breaks.\n\nWe all have our own looks, and thats how it is. I see myself, and im not scared.  you have to be cumfy with yourself, cause thats what you look like, even if you view yourself as ugly, there are people who will see you as otherwise.\n\nI would be willing to bet that you are pretier than most. The most beautiful people dont realize it, and the few who do are the stuckup snobs we all love to hate...\n\nBe proud of who you are, beauty lies within us all.
1144310
Well you are enjoying that, and thats good. People will always have their ideal standard of what they think physical beauty is, and as women we tend to aspire to that a lot of the time. I don't think its always because someone else thinks its pretty. I think its because deep down inside, we do too. I would say lose it if you feel comfortable in doing so, and if it will make you feel better about yourself. I know I am trying to lose for that very reason, because I know I will feel better about myself once I do. I'm glad you're having fun, and I know that you will be very proud of your accomplishments by the end of the summer.
819426
Yeah.  When you realize that high self-esteem (pride) and low self-esteem are two side of the same coin.  This lind of pride is thinking you are to great and the other think that you are not enough.  At the end of the day it is still all about you.  The best is having no self-esteem.  In which you consider yourself honestly and then move on and refocus on the One who really matter GOD.  So, yes I have had days like that.
316101
Sure it is,and it's a shame ! There was a study not long ago done on the exact reasons we deem one person attractive and the next not. It seems to have a lot to do with symetry...if both sides of your face are 'equal'. Examples of an 'equal' face would be Mel Gibson, the actor, or Cindy Crawford, the model. Their good looks are good looks to us because their faces are symetrical.  What a small thing to decide whether one is socially acceptable or not! What small people we are to judge folks by their looks, anyway! Look at Albert Einstein..no one would EVER accuse him of being physically attractive, yet look at what he accomplished for mankind! What was it Forrest Gump said all the time? Ugly is as ugly does??
364935
It's different for me because I am a man. But today's obsession with the body beautiful does affect confidence when we have some sort of disfigurement, but this can be got around by understanding your own true worth and laughing at the ignorance of the world.\n\nHaving had disfigurement all me life virtually, I am proud to be 'different' and not look like the same as everyone else. If someone offered me plastic surgery tomorrow free and made me look perfect, I would turn it down.
1012369
i can't do that. i don't know how i measure up or how others see me. sometimes i feel like i look like a billion dollars, other days i feel as i could pass as a hobo. sometimes i feel like the nicest person in the world and have great self confidence, other days i feel like a complete a**hole. so, i guess looks are a 1 and a 10. personality is a -1 and a 8. i feel like sh!t a lot so it comes out in my personality when its really my own bull i'm caught up in
1154089
You shouldn't feel guilty, that's the normal response by all guys.   I also like to see girls dressed beautiful with gud shape.   If I say, I like to something ugly, do u think u will believe me?  It is normal as what it is.  If u not doing something to harm anyone, or urself, then ur fine & pretty ok!
108286
you are only feeling that way because its all in your head and when you tell your self that stuff it sticks to you and brings you down....try to say good things to yourself in a mirror, starting by telling yourself that i love myself, i am a beautiful person, i am not lazy, do this every morning until you feel better, it does work, has on many people...anything that you feel about yourself go to the mirror and say the opposite and soon you will feel a change but have faith and believe in your heart and you and others will also see your change in time....
1046833
It is up to your acceptance of the sayings of guys. Beauty is what you feel personally and not as told by some one else. What looks beautiful to you may not be the beauty for some other person. Similary, what some one else feels as beautiful, that may not look beautiful to you. So, the yard stick of beauty is different for different persons.
230461
what you are going through is post partum depression, he most likely does not think you are ugly, but you feel he feels that way, it is natural. It will pass. Believe me if you had his kid then to him you are the most beautiful woman in the world. That's how we men feel, we just fail to say it.
600580
Depending upon the weight-loss...  yes, your appearance will change.  This is obvious, for the most part.  As far as your attractiveness...?  Well, a lot of that has to do with your own level of self-confidence.  When I lost weight, I found people approaching me right and left...  people that I had never thought I'd have a chance with.  It didn't take long for me to realize that this was mainly cause I felt good about myself, and this, in turn, was reflected in my outward appearance.  It's amazing how beautiful a person can look with a smile on their face and a twinkle in the eye.  :)
988486
Well that is normal. It happens to me too. i just had it twice in the past month. I think it is your body changing. With me when that happens to me the week i have it like you having it now, the next month (july) you'll have it about the same time as you have it now. It happens to me. I also think it might be your diet, fitness, or stress level. Your body is probably getting mixed messages.
701101
You are pretty... in a few years people will call you 'striking' which is way better. (Pretty is kind of a bland word)\n\nYou are fairly self-confident and you laugh easily. You can usually be found at the center of a group of friends. People are drawn to you... you have friends in many different 'groups'.\n\nMy thanksgiving was last month, but happy turkey day to you as well!
522073
You sound like a very unhappy person to me. By wishing these things you are basically wishing that you aren't the person you are.\n\nEverything that has happened in your life has made you the person you are and you are beautiful.\n\nAnything that has gone wrong has only made you stronger and you need to start looking at your life differently. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and beating yourself up over events that are beyond your control.\n\nTake everything that has happened and turn it into a positive, make those things what drives you to get where you want to be.
1063915
You know that you are pretty, so nothing anyone says can change that.  Try writing a list of all of your good qualities, i.e., nice hair, nice handwriting, good body, pretty eyes, smart, popular etc.\n\nYou might want to check some self-help books out of the public library--there are many--and can be very helpful.  You also might want to see a doctor or counselor--you need to let it all out to someone you can trust.\n\nI hope you feel better very soon.  :)
903863
It depends how many times and how old are you? I never believed in love at first sight but the night I met my boyfriend the first time I knew he was the one for me.  He completely rocked my world. I never had felt like that about anyone and then the next few days I was struggling to figure out why I felt like that about someone.  Now I still feel the same way and better than I did before. So if it is several times no it is not normal and you probably not falling in love.