men:what makes u like a girl i mean really like her?Women:how do u get a boyfriend?
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Find out who you are and what you like to do then you won't be trying to remake yourself into something else. For instance, I love to swim (met my husband while swimming at the Y - we are both USMS Swimmers and I am a USA Swim Official). I also like to make things with my hands and don't need my husband around all the time, in fact I like to be alone to read, make crafts, etc. What he says he likes about me is that I have a life without him - he used to work nights and so was not available to do things with me all the time, and this didn't stop me from going to movies (now his sister and I go together). Find the things you like to do and them do them. Stay true to yourself even when you are dating someone because this is what drew the man to you in the first place. If you like to go to amusement parks (I take my girls to Kings Island every chance I get with or without my husband) go to the parks - if you go alone, take a book to read while in line, seems strange but I had a lot of fun because I would be alone for about 2 hours and then would meet with friends who worked there and then we would hang out together for awhile. You like to be involved in your church, do it.
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Every guy has different preferences, so there is no right answer for this. Guys like girls who are confident in themselves, who know what they want and who have an opinion, but not too outspoken. Guys want a girl who will make them feel good about themselves and who cares about him. But don't be all over the guy--keep him interested by having your own thing going on. The important thing is that you have to be yourself and should never act differently because you think that is what the guy wants.
360998
Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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I'm a guy, I have a girlfriend, most guys (in general, at least those like me) have a tendency to REALLY like a girl if he's looking at her a lot.. I mean, I may find a girl attractive and my eyes may look in that direction as a reaction, but if its something more than that, a guy might try to hide the fact that he likes looking in her direction out of respect for the fact that she might not want to be stared at... so it can be hard to tell if the guy wants you as more than a friend without asking quite clearly and in private.. not in front of too many other people, something like "what do you think of me, do you want to go out with me?" etc.. some guys are too shy to ask the girl they want to be with out without knowing that they'd approve of them in the first place, a lot of guys end up staying single because of this, and I have only asked one girl out and I've had about 6 relationships ... each one a major impact on my life, I hope this helps.
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Pay attention, talk and LISTEN!  Girls love guys who are actually interested in what a girl is saying.  Look them in the eyes and hold a real conversation with them.  Tell them they are beautiful, hold their hands, brush their hair out of their eyes.  Simple things make lasting impressions.
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There's really no way to make any guy like you more than he already does. However, if deep down he does or has the potential to like you once he gets to know you, then he'll be repsonsive to you simply being yourself. Just gotta relax and have fun no matter what the outcome. If he's a chill guy, then he'll like a girl with a good sense of humor and kind personality. If he's lame, then he'll like you for all the wrong reasons, like your looks, your social status and your body...
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It all really depends on the situation and how old the girl is.  However, for me, when I like a guy, usually it is with one who is pursuing me, I smile a lot, I give him more attention then I do anyone else, and I will give him my phone number.  Oh, and I ask alot of questions about him to him.
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Sure, I am more than certain that you can get a boyfriend. Every guy likes an atheletic girl.
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you cant MAKE someone like you...its just not possible. If you try hanging out with her more she might start to like you. The more i hang out with a guy the more i like him so...try it!
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TO GET A GIRL TALKING..YOU JUST BASICALLY HAVE TO MAKE HER LAUGH A LOT AND ASK HER QUESTIONS ABOUT HERSELF....\nWHEN A GIRL LIKES A GUY IT TAKES TIME FOR HER TO GET COMFORTABLE AND BE OPEN WITH HIM... JUST BE PATIENT AND IF SHE STILL DOESNT GET COMFORTABLE THEN LET HER KNOW, HOW ARE YOU SUPPOSE TO GET TO KNOW HER IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO TALK AND NOT WILLING TO OPEN UP FOR YOU. \nJUST GIVE THE GIRL A CHANCE AND MAYBE YOU WONT REGRET IT...
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Remember, there a girls who can be very mean also. It's not a gender thing. It's an individual thing. Keep in mind too that it can be very confusing for men. Women like men to be strong, confident, funny, vulnerable, emotionally available, sensitive, "bad boy", "good guy", etc.. etc.. etc..  Many men just don't know what to be anymore, or how to act.
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women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
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There's no answer for this questions. Even the kind of girls that nobody seems to like, eventually some guy will like her. Guys are all different. They got turned on by different kinds of girls, so you can never tell. \n\nJust try to be yourself.
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Guys still like girls like that.As long as they have something in common it doesnt matter what.Some guys like girls more if they arent very sporty.So it really depends on the guy
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Lol, yeah anyways...\n\nPretty much the same thing chicks want in a guy.\n\nA fun and funny chick who knows how to be sexy and turn a guy on.  A girl who isn't needy or emotional, who has confidence and thinks highly of herself.  Who isn't clingy and gives you your space.  A girl who he can feel comfortable being himself around.  A girl who has a life, and has her shit together, and who doesn't take things so seriously that you can't live it up with each other one adventure after another...\n\nThe real trick is finding a guy who has HIS shit together.\n\n...Oh and, stop looking at me like that.  I'm taken.. ;)
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I have a boyfriend who loves me to dealth. I will tell u how to get a boy to like you. First you write him a letter that tells your fellings about him. Then u wait tell he responds then you tell him you like him.