Do you lust more than you love?  whyy?
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"Lust tingles, but Love lingers."\n-GMarieP\n\nAs humans, we are attracted to what we SEE first. So, it becomes natural for us to long for (lust) after a pretty face, a knock-out body, and beautiful features. Love comes after we know the person a little better.\n\nThose "electric shocks" or "warm flushes" you feel is Lust.\nThose "strong, deep & moving emotions" you feel is Love.\nI wish you an ample flow of both. (smile)\n\nGood Luck to you!
1078133
then you are not in love, you are in lust
1139120
This isn't the problem. The problem is people falling in lust, like, crush or eros adoration, or even obsession.\n\nI love being in true agape love.
586578
YES!\n\nJust not everytime or even every second time. You should be making love more then having lustful sex. IMO\n\nIf you're feeling a little naughty, why not?
424512
I don't think so, maybe attraction is, you can be attracted to more people than you end up loving.  Love is different than attraction but it can certainly include attraction and usually starts off as attraction.
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Lust is part of love but love is not part of lust...\n\nLust can happen all on its own (just for sex), or it can happen as part of the love and passion that two people feel for each other when they're in love.\n\nLove and lust are not completely separate things, but the way they combine - and can be confused with each other - can be very complicated!
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Time will tell. Infatuation does not last. Lust mellows. If you are friends as well as lovers, and can deal with those little quirks we all have, you may have found your true love.
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i think it is most likely lust, i think love is something that devolops overtime.
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I definitely think it's possible to have strong feelings for more than one person.  We're only human.  But I think when that happens we have to make a concious decision about who we want to be with, and then move on.  Like, weigh their good and bad qualities, and see how you really feel about them deep down inside.  When you've made your decision, after considering every single aspect of it, then move on.  Don't what if, don't wonder how it would have been.  You CAN develop feelings for more than one person, but I don't think it's fair to keep dwelling on that if you're with someone.  Attraction happens, lust happens, feelings happen, but that doesn't mean we have to act on it if we're in a solid relationship.  Good luck! :o)
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Not all do.  While you can't necessarily control which thoughts or urges you might have, everyone can control which thoughts and urges they give attention to and, more importantly, every choice they make.  That said, I can honestly say that my mind strayed more as my needs were increasingly not being met.  So I can understand the concept of the relationship between temptation growing stronger in proportion to dissatisfaction in the relationship.
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Lust, yes.  Love, no.
1158135
do you have an obsession?
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love takes more effort
535079
LISTEN WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS DARLING.THE THING IS SOMETIMES WE ARE TEMPTED TO WANT TO MUCH.WHAT DOES YOUR HEART REALY REALY TEL YOU.CLOSE YOUR EYES AND JUST THINK ABOUT IT FOR A SECOND.DONT THINK WITH YOUR MIND.FEEL WITH YOUR HEART.
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I think lust definitely. That is such an awesome feeling. mmmm...
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This is actually something I'm struggling with right now.  I totally love my girlfriend with my whole heart, but it's just my rebellious nature to look for "excitement" outside of her.  I catch myself trying to impress other girls, and sometimes lusting after them.  Realistically, though, there's nothing more exciting than being in a totally committed, loving relationship, and we guys don't know what we're really blessed with when looking elsewhere.
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I try to make Love the force behind everything I do. If I cannot do something in Love then I will choose not to do it. It helps me to keep focused and motivated. If I can live in this manor then I will go to my grave with no regrets!