HELP !! i am seeing my exbf for the first time in a while, i dont want it to be weird..? more?
814822
unresolved problems magically work themselves out, so don't worry -- your future together will be perfect.
763351
Simply, curiousity with a little bit of wonder, maybe even jealousy.  Jealousy is questionable.  However, you don't understand why he was with her and really you don't need to or have to.  You might want to know why they broke up.  You may have deep down fears of them coming back around to each other since you don't understand why they were even together to begin with.  What you should remember is that he is with you and not her now.  If he isn't doing anything to see her, be around her, or have any sort of contact with her you really have nothing to be worried about.  If he is, then have concerns.  If he talks about her etc.  Put it out of your head if those things aren't happening and just enjoy that he is with you.
392468
It's the thrill of a new relationship.  Give it some time and you two should be back together soon enough :)
1006611
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.
492909
Tricky one. all i'm gonna say is he's your ex for a reason and I really think you shouldn't go there as things could turn very ugly!\nJust hold yuor head up high and move on.
181519
Leave it alone.  Chalk it up as a learning experience.  If you haven't invested too much into this of course.  If there was something wrong and he didn't want to talk about it, its not worth the hassle...  You want someone that isn't childish and can be more mature about an honest breakup.
1250
Not necessarily. I bring up my ex sometimes to people and its not that I am not over her because I totally am, but its just that most of his experiences in relationships(good or bad) may have been with her and that is all he knows. I know this be the case with me. I know I am over my ex because we still keep in contact and when she calls me or I call her I have nothing to talk about. Just lots of awkward silence. Ask him and see what he says. Have a heart to heart.
52963
Why is he an ex?  If it's a good reason, try to get over those residual feelings...know it's for the best that you aren't together.  I say, if you still have feelings, swallow your pride and let him know but also be prepared, just in case he says he doesn't feel the same.
977139
Just invite him to come visit if you are done with your ex altogether. be kind and make a good impression. If necessary, send a letter to your ex telling him what's up and maybe even apologize. Ladies, email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
1043071
well of course its going to bother your new current girlfriend because we first wouldn't enjoy the fact that you still converse with your exgirlfriend.  whether if she gave you a small gift or a bit gift, it still bothers us the fact that you accepted it without thinking it'll hurt us.  think about it, her macho exbf giving her flowers on a random day, how would you like that?  ever thought about being in her position for once?
129540
DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
959323
It depends, do you love the ex? If you are unsure then take things slow. Maybe you and the ex could date, hang out etc and get to know each other again. Explore all the reasons you left to begin with, have any of those reasons (issues) been resolved? If not, nothing has changed and you will leave again when the "new, fun" is over.\nMake sure you don't go back just for comfort.
193787
Be thankful.  He is doing what is right by his new girlfriend by not talking to you.  Plus now that he isn't talking to you, you can move on with your life and find a new love instead of talking to your ex all the time.
672690
hi, i feel that you should not be talking to your ex, if\nyou are still close that good but he has a girlfriend, and\ni feel it very  disrespectful of him to be talking to you\nabout his problem with her. because if the shoe was on the\nother foot how would you feel. he need to get his situation\nwith her together and  if it meant for you and him to get back\nyou will. the big guest ion you should ask yourself seriously\nif he so unhappy with her then as you stated why is he still\nthere.
118010
I was in a similar situation.... It was really weird but I cared about him so much. We finally went our seperate ways and I never did find out. I would not recommend confronting him though. Depending on how long you have been together, it's almost like a violation of trust. You just have to trust your instincts and do what feels right. \n\nGood Luck
910702
You have every right to ask him how he really felt.  Go ahead, ask.  Make sure you tell him you aren't interested in getting back together, but that you just want to know how he really felt.  If you feel like it was all fake though, I'd trust your instincts.  Can you trust him not to lie to you about how he feels now that it's over?
1066086
No it's not weird, it's him trying to be honest for a change, see most likely he still have some lingering feelings for you and, know that the break-up is still a little fresh, you know how they say, "It's like putting salt in a wound".\nYou to are not ready for a true friendship at this moment, at least not to were you two should be in a place that is not public, He is on his way to the service as well, so he is going through quite some emotion and need to talk to someone he feels is  able to understand him some what, and who could that be if not an ex-girlfriend.\nUnless the two of you are going out for coffee or to a group function maybe the phone is the safest place for you all to talk, because you don't want to get in a situation that will confuse your feelings for one another, like in up in bed and regret it the next day or end up trying to be b/f & g/f again for the wrong reasons.\nI hope this helps some, he is not trying to hurt you but trying to fix it so you to will be able to be real friends one day.