In Kansas, what do I have to do, to allow my ex to stop mailing in his child support checks? we live together?
829054
you should get a lawyer to file with the court a petition to stop child support  due to the fact that you are living together and plan to get married again, it should not be that expensive $150-$250.\nand would be well worth the time.
154406
You can ask the court to "release his parental rights".  Then you can have the childs name changed.  But, this also takes away your right to fight for back child support.
1151167
It would seem to me that if the child is not yet the age of majority and still attending school(all though its consider \n"adult ed") and still living with you..the child support should continue.\n\nYour ex..could petition the court to have the child support cease, if the child is not living with you and/or if the child is not attending school.
1039072
My ex pulled stuff too. Your ex will probably get away with it. Just concentrate on the custody. People like your ex will find a way of getting out of paying and you don't want someone like him raising your child.
490812
You probably need to be speaking to your lawyer about this. He can guide you in your options and how best you can help your child. You child shouldn't be used as a meal ticket by your ex. That's just wrong.
950206
FIle a police report. Texas has stalking laws. If that fails you can get a court order through your divorce which will keep him from coming near. Good luck.
378416
Refer back to your legal paperwork, from your divorce or custody papers.  Mine said as long as I gave my x a 30 day notice there was nothing he could do about it.  Of course my x didn't disagree, but if he did I had my back up on why it was best for me to move since he didn't have a part in my kids life for two years.
361809
He is still their father.  Payment of child support is not a condition of visitation.  The odds are good that he won't do anything, but he could drag your g/f into family cort and ahve her compelled to bring them over.  If she refuses she could be held in contempt until complies.  She is looking at fines and possible jail time.  Rather than just stopping she should speak to him and ask if he has any objections.
1045228
You cannot stop visitation rights in any ftate unless the parent has a record of abuse toward children. Sometimes visitation can be stopped, other times it has to be supervised. All states are the same, EVERY child has the RIGHT to EACH parent. \n\nDepending on the age of the child can determine if visitation is allowed. Can the child speak for him/herself?\n\nMy ex didn't care to see my children...we even lived 1/2 mile apart. Children grew up not wanting anything to do with him. Their choice...court couldn't change it. \n\nTalk to a lawyer is your BEST shot. Child Support and Visitation do NOT go together. TX can order $5.00/month CS and unlimited, unsupervised visitation; or they can order $1000.00/month and NO visitation. There is no way of knowing unless you have a record of any confirmed abuse to the child. \n\nThe court won't care about father not having interest in child. In fact, they might demand that he does. Good luck, I can feel for you.
857925
If he ever threatens you with bodily harm or anything, file for a restraining order or protective order.  Given his criminal history, it may be possible for him to only be allowed court supervised visitation of the child.  You were right to demand that he only see the child during the court oredered visitation.  Do not feel one bit guilty about that.  As for the money, if the child is old enough to listen to what he says, the child is old enough to listen to what you say as well.  Tell the child that the money is what he is required to pay for supporting his child and it is not stolen, but is his responsibility to pay so you can feed the child.  That is honest.  Don't bad-mouth the father to the child.  Just state the facts without emotion.  Kids are pretty smart and can put it together. :o)\n\nDo be careful.  You might consider making sure you have good locks on your home and keep it locked all the time to protect yourself.  The law is on your side, so stick to it.  Don't play his game.  I told my ex that I wasn't his wife anymore and didn't have to fight with him, but that he could contact my attorney and/or the state child support office.  They get paid to deal with him so I don't have to.  You don't have to fight with your ex either.\n\nIf he ever threatens you bodily in any way.... take legal action immediately.  Do not hesitate to call the police and file a protective order.  We all have heard the horror stories of what twisted men do to women they supposedly "loved" at some point.  Be careful and use wisdom.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
281446
if it is addressed to her then go the post office and file charges. thats easy he can go to jail (federal at that). so if i where you id remind him of that. also she have the company to issue another check.
5168
NO...the US Supreme Court ruled several years ago that the prior assets and current income of a parent's spouse (In this case, you) cannot be presumed to be available for the purposes of child support or spousal support, even in states where all income is otherwise considered to be community property and all debts considered to be joint obligations...that means you are not legally on the hook for his kids and his ex wife can't try to get your house...in a nutshell.\nIf you two marry and he stops working or something, they can haul his tail to prison if they have cause to believe that he's willfully avoiding his obligation, but your paycheck cannot be considered in deciding or fulfilling his support order.\nYou will want to consult an attorney specialising in family law about specifics such as whether you should file your taxes jointly or seperately, how a jointly purchased home should be deeded and to draw up a prenuptual agreement about any inheritance you may recieve in the future and MAKE OUT A WILL....Both of you.\n(the Supreme Court ruling left some confusion about the distribution of assets aquired by one party but within the marriage)
1068811
Contact a local law firm and ask them to write a letter on your behalf to your former partner. I have found that the implied threat of legal action is generally low cost and sufficient to get action.\n\nBest of success.
850911
If he is the biological father of your kids then get the miserable SOB back into court and apply for  child support and make sure you get it backdated too.
1186646
Contact the local post office that delivers your mail.  Tell them what is happening.  They'll inform your step-father to stop interfering with the delivery of your mail otherwise he'll be facing federal felonies.  Once you've informed them all you have to do is contact them when you have not recieved your mail.  If they recieved word to stop delivering it from your father they can charge him.  If they deliveried it but you have not received it then they can press charges against him.  \n\nBottom line is that he's looking at federal felonies with considerable jail time if he doesn't stop.  The mail is like the IRS you don't screw with them.
317576
If he is getting paid in euro's it will be a lot more difficult, but you could try contacting the US consulate for guidance (google for consulate contact info). If he is working for a US company and paid in dollars you should just contact the state Child Support Enforcement Agency that your support case was filed in and give them his current location and the name of the employer if you know it. They can do a lot with a little information and a lot of follow up (pressure) from you.
976662
Do you have his social security number?? if you do call a child support office in mass. i live in mass and thats the only thing i can think of is call child support IF you have his social security number, if not then im sorry. Good luck