How do i get rid of a stalker ex?
824305
date the rughest looking biker you can find,, and make good friends with hois friends,,and then fill them in on the lil problem...
976402
Next time he calls, tell him you are not interested in him, you will not answer his calls, and you will not talk to him. Be very firm and straight with him. If he calls you again after that tell him you were very firm last time and you will seek to get a restraining order. If he calls a third time, do just that. The problem with Guys who don't "get  it" is that they will see everything you do as a sign of hope. Stalkers do this. Be tough with this situation before it escalates into that.
384939
Depends on why you lost her.  If it was something you did, make her realize that you've changed.\nDo every single thing you can think of to show her that you love her and you want her back.  Send her flowers, send her emails, write her poetry, mind you...this is a fine line between showing love and becoming a stalker.\nGood luck
828890
Go to the police and fast.  Also, get a restraining order to keep this creep away from you.  Call now!!!
549579
Been there, done that - not an iota of fun. The guy is basically stalking you. My suggestion is the following:\n\n1) File a report with the local police. Even though they may not do anything about it yet, at least it will be in their papers should your ex's abuse continue and/or escalate. \n\n2) Gather ALL evidence. Set up a new e-mail account, get a new phone-number - every measure necessary to restrain his options of being able to contact you. Nonetheless, keep the old phone-number - but let it go directly to the answering-machine. Save the messages - as they will prove your claim if you are forced to drag him to court and (or get a restraining order. Also save all e-mails he sends you for the same reason as above. If he sends you gifts, you shall keep them - whatever he gives you, keep it. This is all about gathering evidence.\n\n3) Tell people around you not to tlak with him due to his stalking. He will pursue alternative means of getting go you, and using your friends and family as a source of information is fully justified in his mind.\n\n4) NEVER EVER talk with/to him - regardless how tempting it may be. For a stalker, even a "F**k off" will be interpreted as a positive gesture. He will interpret "Leave me alone" as a "Oh, I want you to chase me" and so on. If you give in to the temptation once, he will know that it only takes more perservance on his side to get you to answer again and again and again.\nAlso, never tell him what you intend to do unless he leaves you alone. In the event that going to the police does not produce immediate results, your stalking ex will view your plans and intentions as nothing but empty threats.\n\n5) Tell your current boyfriend how much the ex is bothering you. Your ex is currently attempting to drive a wedge between you and your new BF as the ex cannot see you with another man. Any man for that matter except himself. He desires comlete control of your life in every and any aspect, and you do NOT want to subject yourself to that.\nAs for your current BF, if he is not willing to support and help you through this, then he is not worth keeping. Sorry for being so harsh sounding, but it is sadly true. If he loves and cares about you, then he will stay on your side - regardless.\n\n6) Find out if there are any support-groups for stalking-victims in your area - and you will find that you are not alone. The internet also provides different fora that are worth-while looking into - especially what the legal side is concerned.\n\nI broke up with the ex from hell 1 1/2 years ago, and he is still stalking me, thankfully not to the same extent as previously, but I receive e-mails (I changed phone-numbers and got a new e-mail address) from him once or twice a month, and it is still bloody annoying and scaring.\n\nGood luck, this will take time and toil - but know that you are not alone in this hellish situation. I feel for you.
308993
You're no longer close?  Then just leave them in the past, darlin.  You're trying to live better and clean up your act, DO NOT be around them, I can say they will try their damndest to drag you back down to their level.  Completely write them off, take them off your cell phone, email, ims, MySpace, whatever and however you talk to them.  Leave them and that life in the past and you will feel a 1,000 times better.
416680
First you need to start by flat out telling him that she is not intrested in a relationship or even a friendship for that matter.  If he makes any threats you need to contact the local police.  Also let him know that if he contacts her again she will consider it stalking.  As far as is he a stalker already, its not really fair to call him that if you havent already asked him to stop trying to make contact.  If after you do so, then yes he has issues
22974
go to www.stalker.com; i think they keep a list.
950206
FIle a police report. Texas has stalking laws. If that fails you can get a court order through your divorce which will keep him from coming near. Good luck.
648990
Well, you seem to have defined your position to him multiple times and that has had zero effect. Perhaps you should take a logical approach to this problem and escalate accordingly.\n\nStart off by writing him a brief letter, more of a note, explaining your feelings and why he is wasting his (and your) time. Be nice but be firm. And keep a copy...\n\nWait a week or so and see what effect that has. If his behavior hasn't changed by that time then it is time to seek legal counsel. At that point you need to take out a Restraining Order that will exclude him from approaching you in person, or your house. This is perfectly valid as by this time he will officially have become a stalker according to the law.
587369
Go to contacts...click on edit contact details for the person you want to delete....click on delete contact.
67536
First off change your phone numbers, get to the police station and reuqest a restraining order and also let them know that you are being stalked by an ex - boyfriend. If you fear for your safety then you need to get to the police station ASAP. No matter what state you live in stalking is against the law.
430331
go to the cops if he/she stalking you as this is illegal, and harrassment.
294319
If the lovely stranger is a stalker, I'd be looking for a few 'heavies'. Approach this person with back-up, not on your own. Might seem harmless, but in a secluded area? Don't take that chance. \n\nAs for getting the mind off a favorite pastime, quit your job and go work in a small company where there is too much to do. I did, worked a treat. I don't write songs, poetry, or play that much anymore, due to the limited time available - yes, I work week-ends too. lol\n\nEffectively, the best way to remove your thoughts from one thing is to immerse yourself in something else.\n\nGood luck with it, \n\nCheers, L
545475
Right click their name and choose Delete
444509
There are new stalking laws that now apply to online harrassment. Contact your State Police or your state attorney general's office. Someone can help you. Good luck.
652797
i'm sorry, i have to ask, how do you LOOK at someone in a stalking way? Just tell her she's bothering you! If she keeps on ignore her, i mean like she doesn't exsist, after a while she'll get tired of you...