Asking a girl for a slow dance.... What do I do...?
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promise you'll sleep with her afterwards.\n\nIF ANY ONE KNOWS WHERE I CAN GET A FREE BOOK ONLINE CALLED "FLYY GIRLS" PLEASE LET ME KNOW. THE BOOK IS BY OMAR TYREE.\n\nTHANKS IN ADVANCE, ANSWER OUR QUESTION TOGETHER.
546464
Easy - do it in a way that wont make it look like you're in feet first. If you know her reasonably well and get talking why not suggest a coffee or a drink one night. Then if she says no, you could say something like "oh, no problem, just thought it'd be cool to catch up" - no harm done!
1002497
First thing,  I would drop the lingo.  Speak proper English.  Worry about the dancing later.  If its a great party, girls wont really care.
873654
Just go up to her and start talking. She may like you to and waiting for you to make the first move. If she is your friend already then you two have things to talk about. Ask her to go skating or someplace that may not sound like a serious date but when you are out with her be nice like real date. He who snoozes looses and if you don't ask her out someone else will. ☺
815782
maybe just dont go out n ask him but hint towards the dance n wanting to go n if he wants to go just hint around   good luck
497470
Get the same kind of music at your place and dance with her AGAIN and go for it.\n\nYou are burning with desire for her -- I think you're in love with her, actually.
224923
Give her long slow soft gentle kisses.  Don't jam your tongue in her mouth or slobber on her.  Treat her lips/mouth like a delicious ice cream cone that you would like to savor.  Kissing should be the first seduction and it should be slow.\n\nIf that girl doesn't stop and pay attention to you then you should move on.  You will either find an even better gal or this one will wise up and stop treating you like junk.  Keep her waiting for a while.
266879
How about inviting her for a nice walk or asking if she'd like to go play a game of ball with you. Make her feel like you want to do something (active) with her. And that way she won't feel bad.
1042541
call her up & ask her if she would like to go out for a dance or a cuppa coffee .even if she has a boy friend you can still be good friends & maybe someday she might dump that cool guy for a shy guy like you.you can never know what's going on in a gals mind.\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
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There is ALWAYS time for things that are important enough. I suggest you do something to spice things up. Try something romantic...like secret admirer notes left for her....or try something different. Perhaps she has asked you to do something that you have said "no" to. Well....do it. Surprise her! That's what she's asking of you. \n\nMake dinner or have lunch/dinner/breakfast sent to her job/dorm room/home. Make a webcam video of you dancing aound seductively..it will either turn her on or make her laugh. Either way it's good. \n\nJust be consistent and maybe encourage her to help spice things up too. I mean....sheesh..ur probably a lil bored at this point too.
170921
you dont have to dance just hangout dont worry same here!\nlove ya like a friend girl.Ive been through the same sitiuation!
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Well...try to be nice and ask her out on a date...If she is romantic maybe while asking her give her a flower and a poem and don't speak at all..just write what you want to say in that poem...If she is social and outgoing and not all romantic and stuff just ask her out in a funny way for a drink or a movie..don't try to do anything from the first date if she doesn't want to because the first impression really counts for  a second date..Now expressing your self depends on the girl like i said before...try to approach her by going out together,call her to talk about smt, tell her about a nice band(depends on age)...Approach her before you ask her out...And if you just want to say what you feel..words like i really like you or i love you or you are really special for me ..works most of the times..!Good luck..keep love in your heart!!
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dances or clubs. or just ask a girl to teach ya.
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The most overdone thing might be: ask her about her name, imply that you might have seen her before at a certain location, whether she confirms or denies it, lead the conversation towards her, what is she doing, what is she liking in the party/disliking. Make sure you are sensitive to the body language. If she doesn't want to tell you something or bored, she might show this through some physical signs, looking away, arranging her hair, or something totally different. Be ready to make a change in the conversation when your instincts tell you so.\nIf there is a paause, tell her something about yourself. If you can tie your interest somehow into the conversation, and they are not too strange to be discussed publicly, that's perfect.\nUse to your advantage the setting of the party. Look around, listen. You might be able to find something around you to discuss. Is there music, dances? Slow dances are always good. You don't have to talk much, just be attentive.\nSome of the libraries have books for small talks. Try one of those and see what kind of lines you can change to adapt to your circumstances. \nThat is my general advice. Hope it helps.
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If you're not sure if they already have a date, you could say "Are you going to the dance?" If they don't mention they have a date, then you ask if they'd like to go with you.\n\nMuster up that courage & ask. I'm still reminded of a Sadie Hawkins dance I failed to ask the boy I wanted to be my date. Who knows what may have happened. Good luck!
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Assuming you want to go to the dance with him but also let him know that you're only going as friends, say yes, and then add something like: "I love how we're such good friends that we can go to the dance together without it being weird.  With other guys I would feel so worried about how I look or if he really likes me."  See how he responds, and try to figure it out from there.  Try to convey to him that you really like him as a friend, and that you're not looking for anything more from him.  Good luck!
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You don't have to act like an idiot, if you want to get noticed then go up to her and talk to her, tell her she looks great tonight, ask her to dance, if you cant dance, just keep talking, and if she asks you to dance, don't be embarrassed, just tell her you're not a good dancer. If she doesn't talk to you back or if she just sits there with her friends laughing, then don't by any means get upset, just smile and walk away, she was a jerk and doesn't deserve you. \nTips- If the girl is deep in a conversation with her friends- dont interrupt, that can be very rude, wait till shes alone or just sitting around\nRemember to be yourself nomatter what, dont worry what other people think because that doesnt matter.