i have three boyfriends is it ok to squeeze one more boyfriend in my life if i can handle it?
819792
Yes if you don't claim to each of them that you're monogamous. If they all know about each other, what you're doing is "dating".
415152
I currently have two one is my husband and one is my girl friend
24654
YoU wIlL Get HIM  BAbE!!! WhY wouLd He DumP THe OtHeR 2 IF ThErE WaSnT SoMeONe BettEr???  You WeRe LasTTTTT!!!!!!
1019283
If you love your boyfriend, then you shouldn't need other men in your life. Other male friends lead to cheating because most guys can't be friends with a woman without wanting to take her to bed. Drop your boyfriend or drop your friends. If you truly love him, you really have no need for other guy friends. He should be enough. It's nice that you tell him, but you don't need guy firends. If you BF isn't enough to make you happy, then drop him. He isn't the one for you. Find another. There's over three billion of us, there must be one out there for you to make you forget your guy friends.
565407
I think you did the right thing by letting your boyfriend know how you felt about it. If he wants to have a moocher friend over, fine, but let your boyfriend foot the bill. If your boyfriend has a problem with that and wants you to pay for his moocher friends, perhaps a new boyfriend would be in order. Good luck!
355766
Love is a very broad feeling and I know what you mean even if most people don't. I believe it is okay to love all three of them at the same time. Life is complicated and what matters is that you are happy. Tell them all that you love them as well as loving others. If they can not accept it then it is not real love. Good Luck. :^)
165086
if you and this 3rd guy love each other (mutual feelings), then you should go for it! concerning these other people, no guy in his right mind would be happy with someone who wasn't into the relationship - and i doubt you would either! trust your feelings and go with the guy you truly love.\n;)
1081773
Depends on if  you already have a bf.\n\nIf not, then spend whatever time amuses you.\n\nIf you already have a bf then just keep it to school, work... group get togethers etc.\n\nNo one on one "fun".  That is just disrespectful to your bf.\n\nSame as it would be if your bf wanted to go  out in private all the time with some other girl.
269294
If you can keep your love life and your job separate then it should be fine. When you are at work don't treat him as your boyfriend...just another co-worker.
983796
It isn't unacceptable. Some people have issues, that's all. You will have to decide which relationship is more important and which one you want in your life and work accordingly.
471856
I get it, you found out that your boyfriend actually has other girlfriends other than you, am I right?  Listen, this man doesn't appreciate the feelings of women, especially yours.  You are a special woman who just wants to find your true love, and if he is playing with other girls along with being with you- he's not the one you want.  Believe me, it's not about being his number one in a relationship, but his ONLY one. Suggestion to you: get rid of him and tell his other girls about his ten-timing.  It will be painful and though it's hard to believe, there are actually men beside him who don't act like disloyal jerks.
292895
Don't think that everyone's doing it.  Me and my boyfriend are very serious, and we are waiting.  It's the right thing to do. It can keep you out of a lot of emotional stress.
25099
I can imagine how you feel. But, it's not worth murder. I'm glad my friends, family & I have a rule: "Can't touch what 1 of us has already had." Besides if he was a bad boyfriend she'll find out for herself. Time will tell the tale.\n\nSeriously get over it though.
334618
it's just a crush. nothing wrong with having lot's of them.\n\nif you're dating more than one, then start asking for advice.
1112936
I would definitely rather have a loving boyfriend who would always be there for me.  The later would probably be very lonely, as you would not have as deep or as close of a bond with multiple men. But everyone is different!\nIf you're asking this question because you are doubting your own relationship, then I suggest you think long and hard about the situation as a whole.  No one else can tell you what to do in a situation like this, as you probably already have your mind made up.
938827
A lot of us have been in a situation similar to this..dont interfere in your friends relationship..they are happy you just have to accept it..you need a boyfriend of your own and then you will be ok.
998951
no..but judging from what i've heard personally about your relationship...you deserve a lot better, ben. *hug* a LOT better. besides look at ya...heck, darn, man...get out there! but wait for the right one to get serious with.