Jealously what do I do?
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If he starts liking her for her outer beauty, it means he is shallow.  I think real men know that inner beauty is what counts the most.  For you to be deceiving your friend, I think you are putting dirt on your inner beauty.  Learn to be nice, honest, etc. and you'll gain confidence as a person.  Then, you will worry less and have less jealousy.
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controlling and jealousy
191607
Think BEFORE you react.  When you feel that twinge of jealousy creeping upon you, breathe in deeply and try to clear your mind.  Try to take your thoughts to another place, or another time in your life where you felt happiness and satisfaction like never before, i.e. maybe as a kid at an amusement park.  This is a little trick called thought transference, you take your mind away from the situation at hand and think about something else to remove the thoughts you don't wish to think of from your mind.  Good Luck!!!
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You need to talk to him and tell him he has nothing to be jealous about.  He needs to know that he is loved, respected, and is blessed with family and friends who care.  Ask him how he feels and try to find out why he might feel jealous.\nSuggest counseling - sounds like he might have some things inside him he hasn't dealt with yet.
239963
Don`t worry because I have the same problem with my boyfriend. I`m also glad that you believe him. You should just try to not get all that jealous. Its actually good that your jealous because you care for him and don`t want to lose him.
338585
Your not doing anything wrong, he is a friend and if your bf becomes jealous maybe he isn't the right bf for you. Karma may come back on you but you have to determine if want to be with a jealous person.
652185
Just tell him, you have wasted such a long time, tell and and get together and be happy. It will make your exspouses real jealous though, trust me
109106
Believe me, it is just you who feels so, i am pretty sure ur bf knows about ur jealousy problem but he chooses to ignore it either or it is just that he might b enjoying seeing u jealous! But if u wanna give him nail to nail , just start going with him, eg,. if he admires a certain girl, u just start praising the girl more and i wud suggest that u even praise some good looking guy who passes u both, just see the effect then! u"ll definitely enjoy this and it will take care of him and u as well, i.e. u "ll get rid of jealousy problem and he"ll stop being a complete innocent child!
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Jealousy is a wasted emotion. You can't control what she will do.. or what she won't do.  I believe the only thing you can do is tell her that you have feelings for her, and either she'll accept those feelings and say .. I'll call off the wedding (I doubt that) or she won't.  Either way, you have been true to yourself and then you have the ability to accept her decision and KEEP BUSY!  Move on, get out and go to club events on things that interest you.. help with building houses for Habitat for Humanity and stuff like that.  :)  IT helps.. trust me :)
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when a person has a jealousy it will be forever and cannot be removed. He keeps on doing it and u both keep on getting into some troubles. So its better to discuss the problem of ur relation and solve it as soon as possible. Thank You.
979855
can you say jealousy? lol ok well you just have to know that shes WITH YOU! so dont wrry i mean yea you can be jealous but dont get jealous all the time.... she might start to notice it and not like it you know?
860997
Jealously is a sign of weakness. When you have confidence in yourself and in your relationship you will not feel the need to do what u do.  What i think you are trying to tell us, is that you just want attention, maybe she doesn't show you the attention that you would like or you're accustomed to. What you could do is sit down and talk have a friend to friend heart to heart talk about what you're expecting out of the relationship and what you plan on putting into the relationship..\n\nI feel you about unnecessary arguments I used to be the same way. Seems like the arguments are the only time she paid me some attention. But that was a long long time ago.  Over the years i've learned that you can't force someone to pay you attention or love you it has to come naturally. And when it's true and natural you'll know and feel it to be as such.  The more you argue the more prone you are of driving your gf away to someone else. Just think, she might be on yahoo answers asking questions about you and what to do or how to get rid of. Time to take a stand now and rededicate yourself and your commitment to your relationship and make a solemn promise to yourself on becoming a better person not only for the benefit of the relationship but for yourself as well\n\nGoodluck
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Girl, jealousy is an emotion everybody has just like anger or being happy.  Some people control it better or know how to not show their jealous feelings and others don't do so well.  You should communicate with him and make sure to let him know that you are feeling a little jealous and maybe insecure.  However, don't worry about it unless he is working past hours, or days when he should not be working.  Remember be happy, stay healthy and live life to the fullest.
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I think the best thing to do in this situation is to look into how jealous and if there is a threat present. Sometimes it can be innocent and sometimes dagerous. Using the word protect I would assume there may be some threat. Document contact with that person keep a journal do not meet with that person in private if you must arrange a public meeting always let someone know that you are meeting that person and give them a check in time.  Also if you are in fear and have the evidence have a restraining order and stick to it. Never underestimate jealousy
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Are you jealous or do you want it?
884063
first you are not jealous, you are insecure, so you need to work on your self esteem and believe in your self. also the other thing is find new friends and forget Ashley, she is not helping you at all
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Wear a sexy, but classy outfit, and flirt with another guy- right in front of him. If he is jealous, keep rubbing it in until he makes the move. If he does not care, then, well, move on and good luck. Trust me.