how do i keep a woman interested in me?
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Just going for walks is nice, a rented movie and homemade popcorn is a great date, bicycle ride, spending time in a book store, (love browsing Barnes & Nobles together), quiet things, making dinner together.  I just spent a great day cleaning out flower beds and setting up christmas lights with my new guy, we had a great time then walked to the coffee shop.
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Seduce her mind first. You must get in her head and have her thinking about you. You must make her feel comfortable with you. \nListen and talk to her. Women love to talk! They feel closer to you if you listen and remember what you talked about. In a way, words are a form of intercourse for a woman because it's the only thing they have with which to establish trust with you. A woman will tell you exactly how and when she wants to be seduced if you just shut up and listen to her. \nTake things slowly. Show her that you're patient; your ability to resist her will make her wonder if you're really interested, and will motivate her to show you that she's worth being interested in. \nKiss with your eyes first. Women need to feel a connection with you. You begin this connection through your words and then your eyes. If you can keep her eyes on yours, and hypnotize her with your words, you are halfway there. \nIncrease the physical intimacy. You have to be careful with this one. Don't be eager or aggressive. Begin touching a woman with simple hugs, pats on the back, etc. Then gradually increase it by bringing her in closer...kiss with your eyes! Then move on to simple kisses (pecks). Again, take it slow. \nTalk about sex or sexy things. At some point, begin to talk about sex...not between the two of you, but general experiences you've had. Once you inject the topic of sex, it will be on their mind when they think about you. With women, it's all about familiarity and safety. Talking about the act makes them more comfortable with the act. \nTell a woman you want her. Pick the right time, but be clear that you want her (not in a cheesy way ['I want you baby'] but in a tender way). She needs to know you want a time and place for the act. Gauge her reaction. If she is ready, then plan on setting up the situation for it to happen. \nWhen it's the right time, always ask for permission ('Is this okay?') and be ready to back off at any time if she is not ready. \nRespect a woman at all times. She is not a piece of meat but a human being with feelings. If you are out to 'get some,' then you are not seducing a woman. You are merely an animal in heat. \nFind a good form of interaction, one that works best for you. If you need time to think about what you're going to say, maybe email or IM will work best for you, at least to start. \n\n\n\nTips \nAlways listen. \nTalk to her frequently. The best approach is email. It gives you direct access to her head because you can be as intimate as you want and she can mull your words while you are not around. \nKiss with your eyes -- establish that eye to eye contact and you will begin the intimacy process. \nThis method works with men too except they don't like to talk as much. \nDon't be creepy -- staring at the wrong times, seeming overly eager, or airing out your relationship past on the first date are all examples of the wrong way to seduce a woman. Relax, take it slow and be yourself (unless, of course, you are creepy). \nBuild a "buzz" around yourself -- Women put a lot of stock in what their friends think of prospective suitors. If you want to date a particular girl, demonstrate your good qualities (e.g., sense of humor, good taste, charitable nature) around her friends. \nThink before you speak. \nWarnings \nAlways use protection. \nNever, ever have sex if a woman does not want to. Don't pressure her to do anything she doesn't want to do. Never hit a woman. \n\n--------------------------
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Hold on there bother. First thing is first. You must make time to spend with her if you want a lady. Women do not like workoholics. Once you get situated then she will come to you. Make sure you have balance before you date. If you\ndon't then it won't work out.
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Buy her a drink and let her to the talking. All women love good listeners. And dont ask yes or no questions. Ask questions that need a explanation. Let her think you want to know more about her.
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You really can't make her like you.  And, if she thinks you're trying to, most girls will put you into the "wimp" category.  That's not good.  \n\nWhat works for me with most women is to just be myself, be polite, be a little "cocky" without seeming  arrogant, and be funny (but not silly.)  Don't make it obvious that you're really interested in her.  I'm not that good looking or muscular, but  my friends wonder why I have so many women around all the time.
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Show her what she's missing out on - go out, be sociable, let people flirt with you.  She'll soon remember she's missing.  Even if she doesn't see it, word will get back to her that you're out there are being fabulous!\n\nIf she ever grumbled about something to do with your mannerisms or personality, subtly prove her wrong.  For example: If you weren't out-going enough, then get out there; If you weren't caring enough, be there for all your mates; If you weren't sexy enough, go refresh your look!\n\nWhat can you lose?  If it doesn't work, at least you may inadvertently attract someone even cuter :)
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give her a coupla weeks since she knows you're interested...then ask her out on a date and make sure to emphasize that its just a date, nothing more nothing less...just to get out and have some fun.
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Focus on yourself, not her.\n\nGet to be good at the things you do, and learn more about the things you are interested in. If she is anywhere near you, she will notice that you are an interesting person who is interested in interesting things. I guarantee she will become interested in you.\n\nFor example, say you are interested in Architecture. So you start reading about construction techniques and advances in material science technology, and casually perouse Architectual Digest on the side. You make sketches of concepts you have for building interiors and ask questions of someone who's parents recently remodeled their home. \n\nSuch a person would be fascinating to any girl your age. She would absolutely want to be around a person who is actually thinking outside of the dumb bubbly gossip of the day. You don't even have to advertise that you are doing all this stuff, it will be very obvious.\n\nTrust me, girls dig interesting people.
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Typically, Yes a woman is pretty much interested. Unless you kinda pressured her into a kiss. Dont try to overwhelm her to much with this whole relationship going somewhere. That will make her run. Just try to be cool the next time you and her go out on a date.
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You can't "make" her but you can do things that will help develope a closer bond between the two of you.  Others will tell you  compliment her, bring her small gifts in general treat her like it's the first date.  These things will of course help but I believe the most important thing you can do is to try and make sure that all of the time you spend together is "Good time".  Try to do things she likes to do..If you like them or can develop a like for them so much the better.  Listen when she talks..I mean really listen and show her that you value her opinion. Women like that, heck EVERYOME likes that.  Now, heres a hard thing..let her help you..everyone likes to think that they can be of value to another person.  When she's helpful let her know how much it means to you.. Try these ideas and then go out and get her the biggest diamond in the store  Women love shiny things (-:
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First and foremost, LISTEN.  Keep in mind everything she has said throughout the evening.  Just keep it in mind.  Ask questions about her.  Anything you do not know about her ask her.  This lets her know that you are interested in her.  When she stops talking go back to something she said before and ask her a question about it.  Like if she casually mentioned a brother or her family, ask her about them.  It shows that you are listening.
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Well first of all it has to be the right setting. You can't just walk up to some woman and start talking. Usually it's helpful if something happens that momentarily brings you together, such as being the only two people left standing on the train or accidentally bumping into each other. You know, like the commercial where the girl runs into the waiter and knockes the glasses over and the bottle falls on the table and spins until it ends up pointing to the guy. But since things like that rarely happen, sometimes you have to create your own moment of coming together. For example, if you have a class with a girl, you time it so that you leave the room at the same time, then you make some comment about class being long or boring or interesting or whatever, anything to set up your "common moment" and get her attention without coming across as a weirdo.\n\nOnce you have her attention, keep it by building on what you already know you both have in common. If she sits next to some idiot that annoys you, too, talk about how obnoxious he is. If there's an upcoming test or paper that's due, talk about how little/how much progress you've made so far...talk about anything that will get her engaged in a conversation. Then take advantage of that moment by making an observation that she might find interesting. In other words, get her talking, and then when you do, try to find common ground. Once you have her attention and you've established common ground, you're on the right track.\n\nIf this is a situation where you're going to see her on a daily or weekly basis or whatever but only a few minutes at a time, then bide your time a little to give her a chance to get interested. Take advantage of that few minutes of shared time whenever possible to chat with her. After a few days/weeks of this, if she's responding positively, you can ask her if she'd like to get together to get some coffee,grab a bite to eat, whatever to talk about your common interests a little further. If you've only got once chance to make this happen, however, then you need to do some major talking. If you can keep a woman's attention for half an hour, then there's a good chance she's interested in you at least as a potential friend/regular acquaintance and possibly something else (check the body language as well). Go ahead and ask if you can call her, get her number, and give her yours as well, and then CALL HER. Not that day, but within a day or two. Be friendly but not pushy and see how she responds.\n\nIn any case, any time you talk to a woman, you're not doing yourself any favors by coming across as bland, generic, or timid. Women love a man with confidence (but not arrogance) coupled with a sense of humor. We don't expect perfection. So if you do say something stupid, make a joke out of it. Laugh at yourself about it and then move on to something else. The fact that a guy can laugh at yourself when you make errors is very attractive, much more so than a guy who speaks in a macho voice and is too much of a control freak to say anything funny or interesting or even just plain goofy. \n\nI'm not kidding. I'd much rather be with a guy who makes mistakes but acknowledges them in a playful way and then moves on than a guy who's too afraid to open his mouth. Get out there and give it your best shot and chock any mistakes or rejections up to lack of experience. Not every women will respond, but that's ok, because eventually one will. And one is all you need.\n\nGood luck!
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I'm not a player, but I've done well in my day with the ladies.  The best thing to do is just go up to her and say "hi".  Maybe give her a compliment on her hair or shoes.  After that, keep it moving.  Don't gawk or look desperate.  She will get the idea and if she is at all interested, she will let you know in some way shape or form.
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Buy her something expensive, take her out to dinner, let her talk about herself and act genuinely interested. Laugh at her jokes. Make her feel good about herself. Tell her how gorgeous she is. Don't talk about youself unless she asks. These are the best aphrodisiacs for women that you could ever have.
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Compliments to you for being a gentleman. When we rush things, we don't allow ourselves to savor whatever we're trying to enjoy.  You say you want "to keep this one"...well, take your time and really get to know her and what she's all about.  The more deeply you know her, if she's for you, the more you will love her.  Knowing someone on a spiritually(not physically) intimate level, allows you to really commit and give of yourself; which, by the way, makes for a great formula for relationship success. Best of luck!
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hey man just wait until her cocktails kick in...then you'll know her intentions. just hang out with her, if she wants you...she'll let you know, for sure man.
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Find things she is interested in and do them with her. Let her get to know you as a person. It also depends on your ages. She probably just wantes your attention, so give it to her.