i'm never seeing my ex again.but i'm curious as to why he acts the way he acts,esp to me.does he have issues?
815612
girl he is just mad because he knows dat you are to good to be true and he dont deserve you  or he is scared that he might love you and he aint ready for that or he is plainly just not the one so imma give props for saiyn HELL NO biatch lol so you better show him you dont need him in your life
838202
I guess he felt uncomfortable and did not want to create an unnecessary scene. Don't read too deep into him because I think if he wanted you, you would've know it way before the party started...Sounds like he wanted to avoid any possible confrontation. Some females don't take "moving on" too well -  sounds, like you handled yourself very maturely. Good Girl.
493137
what are the reasons did he leave or is he just not talking to you.  If he is still around and not talking to you and there are no feelings on your part I would dump him.
1079856
Wow, in my life I have dated a lot of women when we broke up I felt nothing, I could not even care, but to think that ppl would actually think that a man acts in that way is just plain ignorant.  Stay with him.  "To have loved and lost is better than to have never loved at all."   ~Shakespeare~
269133
It sounds like he still likes you.  If you guiys are still on speaking terms I think you should talk to him and ask him about all the shit hes been spreading.  If he's just mean, you might have to get your bf to avoid him and his friends or if the situation gets really desperate tell someone who has more control over him(your ex)
769898
He sounds like a very controlling guy the next time he does this don't contact him in any way he wants control and you are giving it to him every time there are so many better guys out there you don't need a guy who constantly makes you feel bad about yourself. Get rid of him he does not deserve you.
1181310
Well I know how you feel because a went threw the same thing with my ex that is currently my boyfriend. Well the only acdive I can give to you is to be true to you. Honestly if he is actting up then is he really worth having. Men can be real pains...  Shoot cramps aint got nothing on a man who breaks your heart.
376714
This sounds more like it's confusing than like an actual problem.\n\nTry to relax and let your ex make up his mind.  He's obviously not sure what he wants at this point.
142561
He probably feels reluctant about getting his feelings to involved, cause he thinks that you might patch things up with your ex,the best thing to do is let him know that you care and that you dont have time for silly games and that you want to to be in a meaningful realationship.
727618
You said it, girl. "...(that's my view..")  You'll never understand his motivations for "staring" at you, by speculation. There could be any number of reasons. But I sure as heck wouldn't make one, single move. Is it possible you'd like to get back together with him again?? Let ME speculate...hmmm...why are you letting this bother you?
1161004
I would'nt go see him. His behavior proves that he's not truly the man you see on the outside. People like this are good at putting on the mask that'll work to get them what they want out of you. I'm sad to have to say it, but it's the truth.  Especially if he's locked up, you'll become an outlet for his manipulative personality. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you're wrestling with feelings for him. It'll only stroke his ego. Winning him back would only result in an unhealthy co-dependant relationshiip. This type of user psychology need to be desired and needed by others to floati it's ego. You'd likely convince yourself that you DO need him. And you don't honestly. Being happy with yourself is critical before one can be truly happy with another.
144346
Ouch... I'm guessing you probably wouldn't be willing to talk to him about it? Definitely not the smartest or most honest thing to do... but maybe he was just using it to meet new friends? Probably easier to find people willing to talk to you if you're not already taken. If you've already decided to move on though, then I don't think it matters either way.  I'd just hate for something to become hurt and distrustful over a misunderstanding <=^)
243247
I think that the answer could be a couple of different things.\nHe could just be the type of person who does not care for another.  He is only interested in what he can get out of the situation and not concerned about the feelings of someone else.\nAnother thing could be that he was running his mouth a little too much after your breakup.  He could have been talking to his friends and got caught up in macho talk.  Things like that do happen.\nThe last thing that I could consider is that he is upset at breaking up and needs to justify it.  He needs to cut you down to make himself feel better.  By doing so he can better deal with the fact that you are no longer together, even if he is the one who broke it off.  The best people for him to talk to would be his friends.\nI can only make these assumptions from the information provided, but if I had to take a guess I think it may have been number one.  He doesn't care.  My justification for that would be the number of girlfriends he has had in the past.\nI hope that all works out for you.
501340
I actually said the same thing about my husband.  Around me he is totally different then when he is with his friends.  I finally just asked my husband what the deal was.  He looked at my puzzled, and replied that of course he acts differently around me.  I couldn't understand it.  He told me that the way he acts with me is how he wants me to see him.  The way he loves me.  The way he acts with his friends is just being one of the guys.   I told him that he cusses, drinks when he's with his friends but not around me.  He said he respected me to much to act that way with me.  Its a guy thing.  I've learned to live with it.
664514
This guy sounds like he might have some issues.  He sounds like he is very possesive and he also sound like he is a cold person as he just walks away when you are crying.  Maybe he doesn't know how to handle emotions and he gets angry instead of being able to talk to you...and it sounds creepy that he is staring at you like he does..if I were you...I would beat feet girl!! Get out before he really has the chance to screw with you.
858887
this person really loves you that is why he acts like that, my opion?
54084
Nope.  He's just trying to keep you around for the time being.  You need to move on.  He had his chance.  And he blew it big time.  It'll happen again.