any idea how to tame a 15 year old student?
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Okay, look.   Call the parents...the answer of answers...right?  No.   Of coure that is has to happen becuase this is the policy of evey school I have ever heard of.  Call the couselour, kick the kid out, schedule change, blah, blah, blah, blah.  \n\nFirst:  people are right....it cannot be taken seriously.  It is a 15 year-old kid...how can a fifteen year-old damage a healthy adult's self-esteem?  This cannot happen or you friend is going to have  ashort career.\n\nSecond:  there is a chance the student and teacher simply are so close or so far apart in their personalities there is really no hope for reconciliation...if this is the case, then it it the Admin's responsibility to change the individual's class...even though the classroom teacher should be a professional and be able to deal with te student regardless.\n\nFinally, it sounds like your friend and this student need to come to some sort of understanding.  Whether it is through mediation with a couselor or just a conversation between parent (or not) your friend and the student and try and find out the real issue.\n\nKids act crazy because one of their needs are not being met...they act out because they need something...they are missing something and they are desparately trying to get that need filled...the teacher needs to try to understand the student and try to help the student appropriately fill this need.  Do not misinterperet this as bending to the student, but understanding goes a long way.\n\nIf the student begins to understand the teacher cares for them even though the teacher does not let them get away with anything...always be firm and fair (being fair is often the hard part).  Students will blow up once in a while, but if they know you will not bend, but they also know you do care for them...this makes all the difference...it is also the hard way...\n\nIt is easy to throw away troubled kids...don't worry about it...they are used to it becuase that is what everyone does to them...your friend needs to consider if she will be everyone else or take the high road...even if it doesn't work...the effort was made and the honor of the teaching profession (as damaged as it is) is honored by the effort.
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Report her for sexual harrassment or set her up. "She molested me." You could make a petition or talk to the school board. BOycott the school. Don't forget to get a permit.
843624
just tell them to go fuck themself.. I dont have anything wrong with me but was made fun in scholl for being short and skinny. I was only 5"7 and 115 when I graduated... but people got smart me with me I told them to go fuck off, principles wouldnt do anything so I would throw punches and get suspended, now Im not saying go start fights.. just tell them to fuck off and even the principle whats he going to do, suspend you.. you will get use to it.. between ISS and OSS I was suspended around 45 times 9-12th grade....
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Talk to the teacher. Have some kind of meeting with her. Have Cody leave the room. Talk to the classroom tell them Cody did'nt choose to be born like this. And someday some of us will have children and what if one of our children came out disable. Ask the class that.Some will say I'll leave it at the hospital or give it away. Then you or the teacher tell them know one left you. They might say well nothing wrong with me. Then say if theres not then why would you make in front of a person who has no control of the way he was born.You had know control the color of your eyes your hair short tell or color of your skin Ask well you pick on a 2 or3 or4 or5 or6 year old child. Because thats what Cody like. If your teacher don't do nothing about this go to the princple do something. And who cares what these bullys are saying about you like him.
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Hi..i think you should find out what she intrested in, books, movies etc. Then when you see her in the hallway or at lunch just casually find some common ground about that intrest, if shes intrested in books than give/lend her a book that you liked when you were her age--dont forget to tell her that!\n\nif that doesnt work, trying playing with her and her friends something, jumprope or on the swings. Some kids arent comfortable talking to adults especially when its their teachers. So the key is not to be just a teacher, but a friend as well. \n\nhope that helped!\ngood luck!
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I understand and know exactly what your niece is going through. I was teased from 1st grade all the way to 8th. yeah...I know, lol. Let her know that, those kids doing that stuff to her are seriously jealous of her and that it eventually will catch up to them. Also i suggest that she find a teacher or principle in the school, she can talk to about this. Preferably a teacher because they give advice and they are easier to talk to. If they speak spanish, tell her to say, " Cayette(kie-a-tay) which means shut up! lol. No seriously, I would suggest that she stand up for herself as well. Look them in the eye at all times that she has something to say. Also, tell her not to be a push over. Kids who pick on others, always ask to borrow things and use things from the kids they tease. Tell your niece to say no, but do it politely. Everything will be ok.  Im sure she has friends she can rely on as well, so it should be fine. But one thing you as the adult can do, is call up to the school and let an adult there know whats going on and see if anything can be worked out like a mediation thing or something. Hope I helped, and tell your niece to keep strong!
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at his age simply love him, be there for him , be willing to feed him and change him and make him feel secure in his small world. talk to him, thats how he will learn to talk.
494186
Tie a thin rope around the base, and start to thread it up, until the skin won't stetch any farther. Give it a couple to calm down, and then add another coupe of twists. Allow at least 20 minutes, he'll numb up and you can do anything you want to do.
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Tell her to go after someone her own age.  She isn't going to win the teacher over, all she can do is get him in trouble.
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Ignore him first off, no 22 year old has any business chatting with a 14 year old online. There are a lot of perverts and molesters out there that just "itch" for a chance to get ahold of someone underage. America's Most Wanted did a whole show on a sting of these types. Tell your parents, and if nned be let them call the authorities. \n\nFirst off, and very important, IGNORE HIM. Don't feed him anymore with replies.
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No, it is NOT appropriate to spank a 14 year old. go see a guidance counselor at school so that you and your family can get some help. Good Luck, sweetie.
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Confronting her will do no good. If she is so eccentric that she bites people, at this age, it is probably part of a disorder she's had her entire life, and nothing you say to her will impact her behavior.\n\nJust keep on your toes (without looking like you're doing so!!) whenever she's around, and jump gracefully away if she dives at you with an open mouth. \n\nWhenever you need to communicate with her, just treat her sociably, like you would with any regular person. Be polite, nod and listen to what she says- and she may even say some very interesting things and lead you into a fascinating conversation- and use normal socially acceptable excuses to get away, such as, "It's been lovely talking to you, but I really must go finish my report, I'm already late."\n\nWhatever you do, do not indicate that you are afraid. They can sense your fear.
611954
Get a sports cup. Those little devils are sneaky and fast. Tell the child that is not acceptable behavior, take away a privilege or some sort of punishment.
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Contact the police and file a harassment report...each and every time!  They will tell you other actions you can take but you might also be able to get a restraining order on the juvenile.  Then, she can be arrested for further harassment.
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Some effective ways to get a child to behave is ether to put them in time out, don't let him/her play with the other kids for a period of time(same as time out i know),have a good behavior chart to put stickers on only if they're good and if they get a certain # of stickers they get a prize out of the prize box ooooohhhhhhh......,or talk to the childs parents about the problem.
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Go and talk tot he teacher and the school management and raise all the hell you want. Keep your daughter home and threaten the management that you will report this to media and police and take the school and the teacher to court, if they do not take suitable actions against the teacher. You do not want your daughter to let anyone mark her for life and you have to be the one to set an example of being courageous and fight back.
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don't let her bother you. what grade are you in? eventually everybody matures, and for those that don't, the rest of the kids will realize what a bitc* she is. Just ignore her completely, fly under her radar, but don't do anything that will make her feel like she's controlling you. \n\nJust take it with a grain of salt. Eventually she'll get her commuppins, and you'll be all the better for it. \n\nThis is probably the answer you don't want to hear because it's not easy to do, but the harder things are the more they're worth doing. Good luck.