Do we compromise too much in our relationships?
819869
Sometimes I think we do . If there have been no talk about long-gevity in the relationship why do we have to expose soo much of ourselve,why do we have to prove how much of a good person we are if we dont know if it will last. Sometimes to much giving of ourselves makes for a long time to pick up our broken hearts and men and women are guilty of this . we alow ourselves to be used mentally and physically. Think about it
298807
Compromise.  Meet in the middle and see how you can both have what you want without giving up too much.
432731
Compromise your attitude, yes. Compromise your beliefs, no. It depends on the situation. If you are talking about acting differently to make friends, no - a friend will accept you for who you are genuinely. If you are talking about adjusting your attitude to be more sensitive or "nice" then that's o.k. If you are talking about going along with situations that make you feel uncomfortable, no - you shouldn't have to participate in situations that make you feel uncomfortable. If they are true friends then they will accept that. Hope this helps.
931045
At the time you may not see it this way but my motto is "everything happens for a reason". You can't always see the reason at the time but later on you will look back down the road and agree. Don't stress the situation so much, both of you should talk about making compromises, and just go with the flow. Things will happen in due time and if its meant to be it will be!
624349
Try compromising.Relationships change with time. Just go with the flow.
271825
I think your standard is too low if this has been your experience.  Not only do I know of many cases where the man cared much more than the woman and the man was the one that put all the energy into the relationship (which isn't fair either) but if you don't settle for that kind of relationship then you will ultimately find someone that thinks you just rock, and they will work as hard to make you happy as you do for them.
51743
If you are keeping score its not a relationship worth having. You do what you can with what you have to work with. In some areas my significant other is much needier than I am. In other areas I am much needier than she is. We don't hold back, but give what we have to give and accept what we are offered believing that if there was more to give it would have been given and that what has been given in love should be accepted. I hope that's not confusing.
588006
I think the answer to your question is a resounding YES!  Communication is the key to all relationships and you need to be honest and forthright about your feelings and fears.  You need the reassurance, from him, about how he feels and where your relationship is heading.  It is pointless being in a relationship that you are too much for him and you would be wasting your time and emotions on him.  Otherwise, you are going to be damaging your relationship by being unsure of it.  You need to get the clarity for your own sanity if nothing else!  Good luck!
190794
Ask yourself if you can live with all the in differences sounds like it might be difficult to always have him being the one who is right and in control you have to do what makes you happy any relationship is a 50/50 deal :)
1013863
It doesn't sound as if you are compromising, you're just doing what you feel is expected of you. You're going to lose who you are if you try to please everyone around you. It is time for you to decide if you want to take a risk and stand up and make your voice and opinion be heard.
500695
No. You shouldn't have to give up all these things just to be with someone. There should be compromise in a relationship. If it is all one-sided- you giving up everything then it is going to leave you with always giving everything and the other person not giving anything or not enough. \n\nYou have needs to and the right person for you will want to give just as much as you do and won't have to give up these things.
1107757
To have a good relationship I believe you should be honest, be truthful, and respectful toward the person you are referring to. These are very important qualities in a relationship. If you are referring to a male/female relationship oh boy you really have to work at it. It is also necessary to compromise in a relationship. It takes a whole lot of that. In other words, every thing is not one persons way all the time. Compromise, remember that ok? \nas u have asked we can't get good relation it is we have to create good relation with others if u be good with others they we be good to u but there are some options cases also so we also think with whom we have to create good relation ok bye \nThe 'how' is a big one. I have been married 2 x and on my 3rd one and I have really learned a lot from this new mate.\n\nWe never put one another down, and if we are upset we let one another know without yelling, or putting the person down. I found this makes a huge, huge difference. The trust has grown. \n\nEach day we both quietly look for something positive to comment on ..... today for instance my partner commented on how thoughtful I was with one of our children. Just a simple comment and it really made me feel good inside. \n\nI have found from experience that just because we are with someone for awhile we don't take advantage of this. It is special to be in a good relationship and well, be thoughtful. Thankful
552875
Sometimes when people are in relationships, they forget that they're supposed to maintain the relationship, like dating, talking and hanging out. Strange since those are the things which got us into the relationship to start with.\n\nMany years ago, a friend and I decided to date, knowing the difficulties we had had with previous relationships, we decided to create a relationship contract so that we would know what was expected, and know the penalties if we didn't live up to those expectations. It was one of the most enjoyable relationships I've ever had. She's still one of my closest friends.\n\nHere's a link to a copy of the contract\n\nhttp://jdoggiedogg.livejournal.com/4093.html
117758
One aspect of a healthy relationship is happiness, and if you are always catering to his wants then you can't be happy. I'm sure that there is someone out there that will respect you choices and willing  to meet you half way when it comes to making sacrifices. My personal opinion is that you can do better, but you are the only one that cane make the final decision of whether or not you should leave.
550664
It's a 50/50 situation. Sometimes I make decisions, sometimes my boyfriend and soulmate Tony does. But we always help each other when we're in the process. We talk things over and come to a conclusion. Otherwise, we will always think about each other and the consequences and such before making a decision if the other isn't there to discuss the decision with. We love each other so we compromise or come to a conclusion.
7456
You should maintain a balance in love and sacrifices. Only sacrifice yourself as much as you can for the one you love. if you sacrifice too much of yourself then you wont be you anymore. So, what is there left for you partner to love. May i suggest offerings instead of sacrifices. Offer her opporitunities that together the two of you can build a stronger realtionship, instead of sacrificing a part of yourself or something that you may regret later.
1126378
Yes you can if you are pursuing the relationship in an unhealthy manner. If you begin to lose who you are then you are not in the relationship that is in your best interest...or the other person's best interest...GET OUT and re-evaluate!