How do you know if someone is the "one"?
824047
put him in a if statement. \n\nif (MrDoe  == 1)\n{\n   this->sleepWith(MrDoe);\n}\nelse\n{\n   dump(MrDoe);\n}
540317
He is the One: only your heart can tell you, usually there is no question. In other words, when it happens you will know.\n\nGet Married: a whole different ball game. You get married if he has his own finances, is qualified for something, doesn't have idiotic habits that will only have you gritting your teeth / dying of lonliness / frustration later...etc....etc...\n\nYou can marry someone who is *not* "the one" and still have a great marriage. But God help you if marry "the one" and he is an idiot.\n\nThis thunderbolt blitz which happens with "the right one" has absolutely *nothing* to do with the happiness or success of the marriage.\n\nMarriage is for: long-term, happiness, companionship, intellectual compatibility, financial comfort, raising children, doing things together without it having to be a big ordeal.\n\nThe Blitz: well - if the guy who gives you that feeling is suitable for marrying, go for it. If he doesn't qualify for the marriage criteria, then live with it...heaven doesn't "make" the union of 2 ppl, logistics do.
726781
It depends on what you mean by "the one". \n\nIs the one someone who is going to find you, or are you looking for him?  How picky are you? If you are looking for just one in a haystack you may have a long look. \n\nEveryone is different. No man will be everything to you. Every strength that you value comes with a weakness which will bug you at the very least if not cause you to resent him. What you need to do is the following:\n\n1) Identify what you value in life. Morals, life style, free time activites. Then make sure these values are shared. \n2) Identify where you are going. Are you going to dedicate yourself to being active in your church, or saving animals. If you share these with a partner you will find you have a lot in common. \n3) Understand your own love languages and try to find someone with similar buttons. \n\nNow you have many that will fit you nicely. \n\nStay positive and actively look.
101381
This a matter where the heart and the mind have 2 agree. One can not over power the other. i say this because if one over powers the other then there will still be doubts, but if the heart and the mind agrees then there willbe no doubts and everything will be all good. This is also a situation that cant really be answered by humans. Spirituallity takes a strong part of this because this is the only way you really know if the person is the one. Have a moment with faith not fate ask this question whole heartedly to who you most believe in. The answer will come in a way that is sure enough clear to see. Best Wishes
232932
i think that most people just know, and at the same time many people question it, they always wonder : can this be it, is it really going to work, and so forth. the way i look at it is: when you look at the person do you think of anyone else, do you see yourself with this person "forever", do you want to grow old with this person. no one else but you can determine if you are in love or not, this is your question to answer, not ours.
680679
You will know when he comes along, it will be the one you're not looking for.The best way to keep a relationship is to always be honest. And treat them the way you want them to treat you, with respect!
35405
If you have to wait for "the one" you must ask yourself if he/she believes you too are "the one."\nThere are always always circumstances worth waiting for, but if your "the one" continues to not alter circumstances to desperately be with you in the same way you wish to be with them, you might need to re-evaluate your decision. If the person I knew was my one and only and was miles away.........and needed to find a way to financially or circumstancially find a way to make it to me.......yes I'd wait. If you are talking about waiting until your "the one" left his wife or her husband...........I'm so afraid you might wait and wait without ever gaining the results you hope for. Take a look at the whole picture first. Good luck!
537717
You will know when you feel like you have to be around this person all of the time.  When you begin to realize that they compliment you, brighten your day, and they are the first person to see when you wake up and last person when you go to sleep then you want to marry them.  Hope I helped!!
416657
there is no way to be totally sure the best you can do is  ask for their phone number and or address, if they give them to you and they  check out....  there's a great chance they are genuine with nothing to hide-- at least romantically speaking...lol...
515366
13 signs of your soulmate\n\n13. When your on the phone with them late at night and they hang up but you miss them already when it was just five minutes ago...\n12. You read their texts over and over again...\n11. You walk really slow when you're with them...\n10. You feel shy whenever you're with them...\n9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...\n8. You smile when you hear their voice...\n7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around\nyou... all you see is him/her...\n6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...\n5. They become all you think about...\n4. You get high just from their scent...\n3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think\nabout them...\n2. You would do anything for them...\n1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole\ntime.....
1098042
There are tons of signs but for each partner it can be different.  Phone calls in private, change in behavior that is suspicious, lack of interest (or with some more interest).  Best bet is to ask straight out and get it out in the open.  Look into their eyes and ask.  If you see an unfamiliar look, glance away or an over reaction---all could be signs.  Be straight forward!
539434
I think I knew by our third date. If you are not sure and you are questioning it then hes not the one. don't do it just because you think he might be make sure he is.
389840
*if seeing your loved one makes you happy\n*if there aren't any 'akward' silences, just lovely moments spent with each other\n*if they give you that floaty feeling just seeing them\n*if you don't question your reasons for being in the relationship (sorry, grrl! if he's right for you, you should just know)
158958
You will know if he's been cheating on you or if he is using you by the way he acts. If he  rushes out the door when your in the middle of a date then tail him. You will know soon enough if he is or not. If you are close to someone who is in a way of great significance, someone who might be on the verge of changing life as we know it in a good way, and then all of a sudden the man who is now your boyfriend shows up and likes you all of a sudden, he is most likely using you.
428527
That is totally normal.  If you've been with someone for that long, it's time to start talking about the future. So of course you want to know if he's the "one".  Both of you should take a break, date other people and decide if you guys are right for each other.
1147897
That's easy he or she will tell you they do, and prove it, or at least not make you feel like crap. In any case you will believe or not, regardless if is true or not some will believer other just because they attractive it would be best to go by actual knowledge of the individual who said it by that i mean how often is that person honest, kind and so on.
811041
When they hang around with you for what seems like no reason.\nWhen they are always there for you when you need them.\nWhen they have your best interests at heart.\nWhen they are loyal to you.\nWhen they help you with your problems.\n\nand there are many other ways to tell.