Would u mind your bf think about his ex-gf even though he loves u?
819111
It depends on the circumstances for their breakup, and how he is thinking of her. I wouldn't mind if he was thinking in terms of getting over their relationship to find closure. I would mind If he is still thinking of her in terms of getting her back.
177110
I remember all my ex-girlfriends and do regret some of the things I did while I was with them, and I'm a man, so "Yes" I guess. Whether your Ex will is probably all down to the kind of guy he is though, I wouldn't call myself a typical Man...
268336
I'm in the same situation as you so I understand your feelings very well. \nI think if his ex knows about you, if she knows that he is in a serious relationship with you, then I think you don't have to worry so much about them keeping in touch. But if you are feeling uncomfortable with it, you should tell him that you're concerned about what's going on between him and her. You shouldn't stay quiet as if you don't mind whatever he does. He seems to be very serious about you though you never know what his true feelings are. He must be in love with you, but he still could have feelings toward his ex, and his ex still could have feelings toward him. It happens. \nSo....just open up ur mind and talk to him honestly.
292206
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
674094
I personally would tell him that it's not the best idea to lament over the old gf with the new one too much.  It would make me feel as if he was measuring me against her to qualify me.  BUT, you can offer to talk about her with him in context if he just needs to express stuff.
700003
nope, apply common sense. Imagine that you were her bf & someone else was you. If he told her hat he loves her & she starts loving him and leaves you completely - you can imagine how immensely hurt and wounded you would feel.\n\nSo if you said this to her - you can understand how hurt and wounded her bf would feel. It is wrong, so get over it.
928913
Unfortunately, yeah. You are the homewrecker.\n\nPut yourself in her shoes, would you want your BF doing it with someone else?\n\nIf you say yes, by all means continue, but I think most of us wouldn't want to be hurt like that.\n\nHave a little respect for her and for yourself. Go for a guy without a GF. Heck go for a guy who respects women a little better than to cheat.
274798
I would go for it if you dont have any ties to your ex.  If your completly over him, and your ex's bf understands what hes getting into, then go for it.\n\nYou shouldnt not be happy because your concerned about what your ex think.
181408
There should be some reason that you like both of them. Can you let me know what are the reason. For example, there could be a physical reason that you are weak to your ex or current bf. And also there should be a reason for your ex-bf to like you, reasons like sex or money or he isn't getting attention from other girls etc. Be aware of it. Thanks.
672245
I think it is dependent. My boyfriend is still good friends with his ex's and a couple of them I have to admit are better looking than me. At first I was suspicious of being just the flavor of the month for a while, but the key thing is to talk to them. Tell her that if bothers her that she does this on her own. If she is going out with an ex that you would like to go with her for your own peace of mind. I did that and I can tell that there is nothing left of that previous relationship, and have moved on. Now he'll spend hours studying with them sometimes and I don't care...then again we've almost been together for two years.
1078510
Well I think that depends on their relationship before they broke up and their relationship now.If he is still interested in the ex then no. But if he genuinely just a caring person who wants to be friends with his ex because that is the type of person he is and it is not coming between your new relationship then yes.
800707
He probably still has feelings for his ex if i were you i would just let him go and move and.But  if you really want to be with him tell him to stop talking to her and if he really wants to have something with you he will but if not then youre going to know hes not worth it.I've been in thins kind of situation before it hurts knowing there was someone else in your bf's past, do what you think is best for you.
18079
ask his bestfriend or his girlfriend why do you need it he is your ex
1043071
well of course its going to bother your new current girlfriend because we first wouldn't enjoy the fact that you still converse with your exgirlfriend.  whether if she gave you a small gift or a bit gift, it still bothers us the fact that you accepted it without thinking it'll hurt us.  think about it, her macho exbf giving her flowers on a random day, how would you like that?  ever thought about being in her position for once?
734150
Friend - It depends on the reason for the break up.  Does he know it bothers you?  Have you discussed that he may still have feelings for her?  Not all break ups are the same or follow any rules.  GBU
542433
I think no matter what, he's still going to have feelings for her. After all, they were in a relationship  together. The best thing to do is to just ask him if he still has feelings for her. As long as he isn't cheating or publicly displaying his affection for her, you're all good
274975
My boyfriend is still friends with the one long-term girlfriend he had before we got together. He still talks to the girls he had flings with throughout his early 20s. I'd be lying if I said it doesn't bother me occasionally. The important thing is that it's only occasionally. I trust him and I know he would never betray that trust.\n\nIf he still has feelings for them I'd be wary of getting too attached to this guy. He isn't bad, it just seems like he isn't sure of what he wants. Maybe those feelings will fade, maybe they won't. The important thing to remember is that he is entitled to those feelings and you can't force him to not have them.