to all those guys out there! would you rather marry a virgin or a non-virgin?
828542
does it really matter if there a virgin or not isnt marraige about love ????
493300
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
268134
NO! virgin is someone whose never had sex. and sex is something that happens between (at least) 2 people.\n\nbut it might tear your hymen, if that's what you're worried about
394668
I am virgin and I will save my honor until marriage.\n\nBecause I just can t...because I can t stand it that my future to be husband feel I had betrayed him in my past life.\n\nwhen I will marry him, I love him to think I was loyal and innocent to him...this kind of purity give me a feeling like pride...\n\nMaybe i m stupid but this is who I am
828614
well virginity should not really be a big issue, but of course it would only be an additional blessings for you to found a girl whose virgin.
254334
Yes it does. Let me congratulate you for still being a virgin! You hardly ever find any more these days.  Don't be in a hurry to lose your virginity. Might I suggests that you wait until marraige.  I was a virgin unti I was 18. I am married to my first and only lover, but I truly wished that I had waited until I was married. The sex is just so much better, and it is pleasing in the sight of GOD.
805547
21 years, because i'm still a virgin and waiting for marriage first :)
836930
I suggest the woman demands the man who claims he's a virgin and has no STDs to get tested before actually getting married.   If the man refuses, then you have your liar.  I think that it should work both ways for both sexes (if the man wants their fiancee to get tested, she should not refused either if she is honest about her virginity or lacking STDs).  I think that's best solution for guaranteeing safety and honesty
682179
Not if the man is a virgin too.
566444
Being a virgin makes no difference. if you are a virgin it seems to have more of a damper since you have to kinda prep the girl first. Not a virgin is a plus but too much experience might make him shy away. If she is a virgin and she doesnt tell me she will be in a bit of pain, since im a bit rough. A female should always tell her male if she is a virgin, always.
667336
Well I am virgin. I do not know if I will wait until I get married but in most of muslam countries almost all girls wait until they get married. But I haven't heard a guy doing this. I would not like to marry a virgin guy but maybe some girls will find this cute.
668607
i rather die a virgin then give it up just to be giving it up.. i was 27 when i got married and and lost my virginity.. and i dont regret one bit of it.. and dont worry you will be the right person and you will have your chance to loose it on your wedding night..
378263
it's never wrong to be a virgin unless you are married. I was a virgin till I was 19. \nagain.. it's never wrong to be a virgin.
451686
virgin always be good. traditionally most of men want marry virginial girls. so virginia girl is the main reason maybe.
132357
nope....its the last thing i would see in a girl. Well all of us relate virginity to being pure in sexual life but why not relate it also to her heart. Even if I marry a prostitute but she has a gem of a charecter I would still call her a Virgin!!!Of course no guy is pure in this world to say that my wife should be a virgin. All men know what they really are.
583412
We'd have a lot less sexually trasmitted diseases!  I'm 18 and I'm going to remain a virgin until I get married.  I wish a lot more people would do the same. :)
638613
I think it depends on the guy. If that is what his morals and values are... then yes... he would respect a virgin more than someone who is not. But, not everyone has those beliefs. Personally... I would rather try the milk before buying the cow, and I'm a woman. I haven't experienced any disrespect because I am not a virgin. I feel that as long as you are not screwing any and every one... and that you are actually being selective in who you give your body to. That is what gains respect.