How do I know if Gay Men are attracted to me??
829158
just go with your feelings , if you want too try it then go for it , you might find out you really like it ,
761016
If you flat out ask him, it could be awkward for both of you. Maybe you should be a little bit stronger in your hints and say something along the lines that, even though you are straight, you wouldn't mind having a gay friend and ask him if he has ever known anyone who is gay. Most gay people have the feeling that it is killing them inside before they come out, so even if he doesn't open up to you right away remain a close friend. If he is gay, your friendship will mean a lot to him.
780500
You might be gay or bi, but it's hard to tell based on what you have said here. I don't think it means you're gay just because it's easier for you to get off when you're watching guys. It depends on more than just that. You need to grow up a little more before you can decide, I think.  Give yourself time to figure it all out, and don't worry about labeling yourself right now.
52493
Get to know him.....and you will soon find out. Most guys wont tell you they like, they tell you like any guy would tell you. He told you, that you were hot, so that means you struck his interest.
438264
if you think about physical contact with the same sex like kissing and your loins start tingling, then you're probably gay. if you get a bit of a gag reflex going, your probably straight!
857495
Does he wear his jacket around his waist when he gets too hot?  Does he always want to cut someone when he gets mad at them?  If so he must be gay...or Puerto Rican lol.  Seriously, the next time you two go out look at his eyes.  The first 5 people you see him eyeballing in that sexual way will tell you. 3 out of 5 and he's gay.  But you could always just set him up.  You have gay friends right?  Pay someone to seduce him.
162186
If you havent found a 'lady friend' to talk to how the hell do you know your gay? I believe 'bi-curious' is the word you should be using, darling!!\nPeaceout!!!
932113
Well, first you need to make sure you're not advancing on someone who is against gays.  If you get the vibe that he'll crack you in the head for standing too close ... I would move along.\n\nBut, if you've known this person for a while and feel that you both have a connection, then I would ask him to hang-out sometime.  Maybe grab some pizza or hang out at the mall.   Go back to your place and "study" or whatever.  Find out who he is and if he is interested in you as a friend or something more.
1085154
If you are only sexually aroused by thinking about or looking at women, you are straight\n\nIf you are only sexually aroused by thinking about or looking at men, you are gay\n\nIf you are aroused by both you are bi.\n\nIn any case, you are you -- be happy with that and believe in yourself -- always.\n\nDwell in love.\n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org
320555
You sound absolutely divine to me.  If you were straight, I'd chase you down like the meat-free hottie you are.  You are not eccentric.  Listen, I know several gay men with values similar to yours.  My advice?  Move to a university town with a diverse, cosmopolitan community of people.  Take salsa classes.  Join a animal rights group.  Attend a Unitarian Universalist church.  You will find men like yourself, I promise.  Just be firm in your beliefs, never compromise yourself, and trust that the right man will enter your life.  Believe me: He is out there and he probably feels just as isolated as you do.  Good luck.
714824
Why don't you buy yourself some leather chaps a leather cap and a harness and come 'out' and admit that you are sexually attracted to men and not women!!!\nJust another idea for ya!\nGood luck with it whatever you do!\n*hugs*\nJAC<\nalso sexually attracted to men especially macho, masculine, manly men!!! Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!! Yum Yum!!!
1042898
What makes you think he's Gay?  \n\nMany Gay people do their 'best to fit into society' by joining up with a person of the opposite sex to keep the appearance of being 'normal'.  They marry and have kids sometimes as well -- all to keep up the facade and DENY who they are to themselves and his family.  The thing is, if you believe this to be true, then first thing is ask him.  If he denies (he will I'm sure), then be on your way if you are that convinced.  Because no matter how attractive you are, sweet, loving etc.. he will NOT change who he is attracted to - it's in his DNA/Biology who he is attracted to.  So do yourself a favor and just walk away from that.  \n\nI hope it all works out for you, but there are no 'sure tests' to be 100%.  If your GUT is telling you he is, then trust your gut, because most of the time, your gut is never wrong.  If your friends have 'gently commented/asked about it' then it is 'for sure' time to break it off.  Do your best not to hurt his feelings and your own feelings.  Be good to yourself and there is NOT something wrong with you that you 'fell' for osmeone Gay.  \n\nGood Luck and be well! :)
995522
it's a little hard seen you don't know if he is also gay, maybe you could ask him out for a drink after work. See how he is in a social setting( like if he points out a hot chick the minute you both walk in, pretty good bet he's straight) . Don't mention your feelings until your sure. Hope it all works out for you
379687
it's really hard to tell someone's sexual preference these days, as i'm sure you know. i've never had to deal with this kind of situation before so my advice might be a lil spotty. i think you should just try and be friends with him for awhile at first and see if you can tell by just talkin to him. if that doesn't work and you feel comfortable enough then you should ask him. just be patient and see what happens. it could just turn out that he'll be a really good friend but not gay. you never know
1051624
How do YOU know they are gay?  Sounds like you might listen to pop music in the closet.
292041
Because you are attracted to men!
673921
There really isn't any way to know for sure..  \nMost of the time we kinda have an idea if someone is gay but there are some individuals that are very good at hiding their "tendencies".    You should try to become their friend, strike up a conversation about a book, movie, the weekend coming up, etc, etc--  Try to get to know them as a person.   There are many people out there, specially in H.S. that just because they don't like a person, rumors/lies are made up!! I'm pretty sure u have heard some rumors about yourself that you know are just lies!!!  So don't believe everything u hear.