Grad school: go to a school near home, or move to a new city?
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go to a school nearby\n\n:> peace\n.
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It's great that your putting some thought into your move. I have seen too many gay guys (especially younger ones) get into a real bind because they moved to "Fabulous" gay areas like Hawaii or New York City that were way too expensive for them. I have met many gay guys who moved to Chicago from smaller towns that often have a tough time adapting to the expenses of living in a large urban area. \n\nFirst I would encourage both of you to make your education a priority, as I am sure you know the opportunities and earning potential for someone with a college education are better. \n\nIf you can't go to school full time, you may want to live somewhere with affordable colleges such as community colleges or a branch of a state university. College towns are usually more liberal and open minded then most communities. Most college towns also have active gay and lesbian communities that will be helpful when moving to a new town.\n\nIf you live in Texas have you thought of moving to Austin ? a university, thriving economy, active gay community ? Other towns that come to mind are Kansas City, Denver, Columbia, MO, and Phoenix.  \n\nI live in Chicago which has a large thriving gay community but it is expensive and if you have never lived in a large urban area or are used to long, cold winters this could take some time to adjust.
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I think it depends on a number of factors:\n\n1) can you afford to live away from home;\n2) does the university have the program you want to take; and if so how does this program rate nationally, internationally,\n3) Do you want to attend university to get a general education or something more specific like pre-med, social work, architechture.\n\nI think you have to answer these questions and then look at what you really want to study and are you prepared to move far away from where you grew up.\n\nThis is what I did and it helped allot.  \n\nHope this helps you.\n\nCheers,
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I hope this is purely rhetorical.  If you're really serious, and can afford the move, AND continue to live there, I would start with a visit to each.  I believe that to be the only way to make a realistic decision.
918501
Depends how much better the salary is and how important living in a city is to you. Personally, I hate the small town mentality where everyone knows everyone else's business. So it would take a lot to move me from the city (even though I was originally from the country).
761789
Before you go moving to Massachusetts or Florida, check out the costs of living there. Consider a visit before you plop money down on an apartment lease and find yourself unhappy ... or more unhappy. Do you have a degree? Check with your school's placement office for job leads. Don't even consider moving out of state right now if you will be eligible for unemployment compensation if and when your job ends. Take the money and get a life plan rolling. Might I suggest a counselor? If you have benefits with your present employer, you may be able to get a counselor under your health insurance plan. Don't wait!!! It may be a $20 co-pay but go for it. It will be worth the money to discuss the many changes you have in mind. Job loss is stressful but then when you add financial stress and wanting to relocate and everything else, you should find someone to talk to. Once you face the fears you will be better able to overcome them. YOU are the most important person in the mix. Things always have a way of working out but you get out of life what you put into it so give it your ALL.
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You do not have to attend that school. If you get into the school you want, notify them (the old school) that you will not be attending ASAP so they can award that money, housing, etc. to someone else. Then begin the package and schedule with the new school. :)
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It is a matter of where you want to study. Do you want to live in California (West Coast) or Northeast (East Coast)? Do you want to live in Palo Alto, a sprawling suburb outside San Francisco, or live in the heart of Philadelphia, one of the largest cities in the country? One represents modern Spanish architecture while the other represents colonial-era urban architecture. You will receive an excellent education at either school. \n\nStanford:\nThe schools of the University include the School of Humanities and Sciences, School of Engineering, School of Earth Sciences, School of Education, Graduate School of Business, Stanford Law School and the Stanford University School of Medicine.\n\nPenn:\nAnnenberg School for Communication \nGraduate School of Education \nLaw School \nSchool of Arts & Sciences \nSchool of Dental Medicine \nSchool of Design \nSchool of Engineering and Applied Science \nSchool of Medicine \nSchool of Nursing \nSchool of Social Policy & Practice \nSchool of Veterinary Medicine \nWharton School of Business
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Check out the cost of living for the city you are thinking of moving to first against where you are living now. That will help you decide. It could be just a break even proposition.
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As my philosophy teacher in college once said, "If you are here to increase your income, you're in the wrong place."  That's the most valuable lesson I ever got from him.  I say if you are going to go back to school, you may want to identify some things.  Is there no way you can apply your degree that you already have to another field?(That is if you are looking at a career change.)  If that's not the case, then you may want to figure out why or what you are trying to accomplish by returning.  Be specific!  What do you want as your end result - a higher degree, career move, etc?  Save yourself some time by looking for the end results first.  Hone in on an objective before you start.  It will save you time and money.  You will be more motivated as well b/c you will know the fruits of your labors.  Don't just go to school to go unless of course that's what you want to do.
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I would go away with out a doubt. Actually I had a similiar opportunity when I graduated. I went away and it is now one of the best decisions I have ever made! I graduated and I learned so much more about myself and life than I would have had I lived at home. It does take a bit more dicipline to get up and go to class than if you know that your parents are gonna notice if you don't go to class, but you have to learn that sometime. You don't want your parents to have to call you for the rest of your life and make sure you go to work? \n\nI think going away to college is an invaluable experience. I lived on campus and didn't miss the car at all, I just got rides from my friends when I needed to go somewhere.\n\nIf your parents really have the money you'll probably end up with both if you choose to go away, they may just be offering you a car as an effort to get you to do what they want. (Not that that happened to me... I didn't have a car)\n\nRemember to enjoy whatever you choose!!!!
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you come up with a reasonable reason as to why you want to transfer - I hate the school I am at usually doesn't work.  Transferring to be closet to family or loved ones (hardship) sometimes works
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You have lots of choices, there are many safe areas and good schools.  Are you looking for a suburb or in the city?  It would make sense to focus on the areas around a workplace so your commute wouldn't be too terrible.
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It should depend on a few personal factors like:\n\n-Location.  Do you want one closer or further from home?  Which university has a better location?\n\n-Cost.  How much does each cost?  How important is cost to you?\n\n-Prestige.  Is one more prestiguous than the other?  How important is that to you?\n\n-Field of study.  What are you going into?  Does one have a better program for that field?\n\nGood luck!
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I'd say stay home set the example and save money. The life style change can make you or break you. Try it if not move out the second semester.
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Before you even consider moving , make sure you can take care of yourself.Obviously it is to your advantage to stay at home as long as you can, go to school-get a job- then worry about entering the "real world".  Its a jungle out there whether in KS or In or whereever -be prepared
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I think you should move to one of the suburbs like Alrington or Irving because some parts of Dallas and Ft Worth are a little rough. I've also lived in MD and was in the military so if you need more help email me @ caramelsundae1077@yahoo.com.