Question about "your first time" : )?
816863
first time was in the front seat of my car listing to dolly parton singing(cant remember what song) 2ND time was better i wasn't alone that time
824985
To be honest I was not satisfied, I had this built up image of sex in my head, I thought it was going to be great and enjoyable. But it wasn't, It's not the same as pleasuring yourself lol, because your starting off with that person you have to learn what each others likes and dislikes are, but that was just me, I dont know about other people, I talked to some people and they felt the same way but I guess thas something that changes with time or from person to person well hope your first time is a blast! have fun.
595411
I agree with Lovebug.  Sorry honey.  If he wanted to call you or write you or see you, wild horses wouldn't keep him away.\n\nIt sucks that it was your first time, but don't listen to those unkind Christians telling you your virginity was a "precious flower you can never get back."  What a load of crap.  The first time you experience sex with someone who respects and adores you will be a "first" to remember- and the fact that you broke a bit of biological tissue last weekend won't take away from the magic when that happens.  \nBe mad, cry, talk to your best friend or mom or priest or shrink or mentor or whoever it is you go to.  Just remember to forgive yourself.  You were younger last weekend than you are now.  If you had known then what you know now, you would have acted differently.  Forgive yourself- because there's nothing to forgive but youth.  Being disappointed, being taken advantage of- this is a part of growing up.  Remember, all experiences have the potential to make you stronger or weaker.  Choose to become stronger from what you've learned.  \n\nAlso- don't talk too much to others at college or in your social circle, because as you've seen just on this forum, people can be cruel, and you don't want this story to follow you around once you've grown beyond it.
611268
someones just yanking you chain, you won't bleed to death.  granted, people will bleed more when drinking alcohol, but, you're in no danger when having sex or getting a tattoo.  as for getting drunk for your first time, i would have to wonder about if you're really ready if you need to get drunk to do it.  you said "so i won't be able to feel it"...you mean the pain that some have their first time?  getting drunk won't prevent you from feeling it.  figure out if you really are ready.
317204
I had sex for the first time when i was 17..well of course everyone has their first time so do i...first time of course very excited & fun but after that i feel guilty for myself...i asked myself why i want to do this & what i gain from there....\nSex before marriage of course people call it sin,isnt it!.....\nBut overall i tell myself "its a normal thing for human being to make stupid mistake"...i guess.....actually its depends on how you think about it & how you gonna deal with your decision.............but i hope you'll not regrets it ...and to play safe..i think you should use protection so that you can avoid the 9 months matter....mightbe you just want to experience it but not for commitment yet.....;-)
936886
It's normal to be nervous! God knows that I was. But it's not as bad as all my friends tried to make it out to be! The first time he enters, it's going to hurt a little bit, but after a couple of minutes, it's fine... Or it was for me... Just try to relax, have fun, but make sure it's with someone special and not just a one night fling. That will make it much more memorable for you!  So relax, have fun, but also, be safe!! Cheers!!
519640
Yes. Partly it's physical, partly it's fear and not knowing what to expect. Partly it can also be if your first time is your guy's first time, him not knowing what he's doing and rushing things can hurt. \nIt gets better the next time.
690477
well, i think that everyone has their first time, some people have it with the right one and some dont. i dont think that you have to be counting days to figure out when to have sex, just, deep in youre heart youll know, and if you have any doubts, then think it over.
581577
THAT YOU WERE A VIRGIN?
776371
If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now.  You shouldn't have to ask.  If you have any doubts, you're not ready.  Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me.  I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years.  Take care of yourself.  He can take care of himself if you say "no".
186710
Of course your first love is the first person you ever dated and or perhaps had sex. its special because its always remembered, because the first is never like the second nor last.
718370
Hey dude. Sex is the most pleasurable moment in a persons life. Since this is going to be ur 1st time. I wud suggest you not to get carried away woth it. Bcoz often it has been people who have been deprived of it try to make the most of out when subject to opportunity for the 1st time. Its a flavour which u need to taste in due course of time and can be enjoyed over longer and extended periods of time. For the 1st time I would suggest you to please try oral sex. Kissing, fondling with private parts, Intense kissing. Then when both u and ur girl are confident and cant hold it long. Just try watching some Soft Porn movies like "Body Shots", "Wild Things", "The Lover". These movies will guide you exactly how to go about sex @ the 1st shot.  All the best and Good Luck !!
181394
My favorite one but I have never used it!  "Since you lost your virginity can I play with the box it came in?"  Don't use is cuz its an instant slap from a girl
764553
nope first time\nnice seeing you, interesting pic i might add
36180
Yes you can use that term refering to a male. Virgin is defined as happening for the first time. In this case it would be intercourse for the first time.
399335
If you've begun to use tampons before your first time, it won't hurt as much. Or if you've been fingered a lot it will not hurt that much, if at all. Plus, things like horseback-riding, bicycle-riding, etc. lower chances of extreme pain during sex. There's a thin layer if skin that gets brokn through the first time. That's what makes it painful; but what we don't realize is that it may already have been broken and we don't know it. That doesn't mean your virginity was lost though. BUT FOR A FIRST-TIMER, IF HE JUST RAMS IT IN, BELIEVE ME IT WILL BE UNPLEASANT.
95322
Not my 1st time. I didn't feel a thing. hehe