My parents tell me to be careful of my coach and that thed like to know more about him but they dont think he?
816181
first thing i would do if someone voiced the concern about my asshole being in jeopardy i get on the sex offender registry and type in that dudes name. and maybe your parents did that and saw him, maybe they heard a rumor and don't want to risk it, that's good they shouldn't, you shouldn't, if you suspect it stay away.
197509
i dont know you should ask them and they might tell you
1067583
What are your parents' concerns?  If you can help answer or address their concerns, then maybe they'll let you go.  Or maybe they have legitimate concerns that you have not considered.\n\nI hope you can work it out with your parents.
913394
it would really help to know your age, or if you are still in school. As long as you live in your parent's house they make the rules. It's usually for the best.  Unless you are being abused in some way at home you must abide by house rules. The soccer thing is really extreme. Can your Mom do anything to help you? Or maybe the coach could call your Dad about you being on the team. Also do you have a counselor at school you can talk to, or a good teacher? They can be very helpful. Best wishes to you. I hope you have a great life!
970308
sometims coaches are just assholes and only let thier favorites play, so if your not sucking him off then your not going to play.... but just try your hardest in practice and hustle all the time after loose balls, dive, dont be afraid to get scrapped up, and do the same with the little amount of playing time you may recive. and maybe if you show the coach your dedicated you might see yourself getting more time.
351503
Sounds like someone is trying to hold you back. Ask you parents or HelpDesk for further instructions.
332814
Why can't you tell your Mom? Where are you getting teased at? I would walk away and I would seriously think about telling someone who you can trust that will help you.
44030
As in any sport discipline is mandatory. It is a fine line between this and abuse. You are in a very very competitive sport where very few make it. If the coach has a reputation of getting kids to the finals or better then take this into consideration. If he just has a reputation for being abusive and most kids loose their enthusiasm then perhaps a new coach is in order. Bottom line buck up or move out seems to be your only options.... How bad does she want it I think that is what he is trying to find out?
1182696
I am assuming your a minor.  (under 18)\nIf so you tell your parents immediately, this guy could well be dangerous.
546558
he is a very nasty man. depending on your age, you should tell your parents and stay away from him as much as possible.
109957
sounds like someone that wants to have his own way. sometimes you just need to follow a gut feeling. you dont say how old you are,that makes a lot of differance.if in school then you have your whole life in front of you.if you are older like me (40) be careful/this person sounds like a user goodluck.       skulnick
664586
I think the coaches were out of line.  They thought they were motivating him, when actually they were tearing him down.  Not all children/people respond well when they are being yelled at all, not very constructive.  Their actions could cause the opposite affect they desire.  Rather than motivate, they chase them away from the sport.  There is a fine line, especially with children playing sports.  You know your little guy and what makes him respond.  If I were you I would talk with all the coaches.  Explain that you didn't raise your child with verbal assaults.  Tell them that you are concerned that they will push him away from the sport rather than help.  Let them know that you don't expect for your child to babied but nurtured.  Suggest taking him out of the game the next time he messes up, rather than verbally embarassing him.  If your son really wants to play he will do the best he can to continue playing.  Another thought would be to get the opinions of other players parents, if they agree, try as a group to discuss this with the coaches.  The only reason I suggest this is if the coaches are jerks your son could pay for your chat with the coaches.  He could be teased and degraded as being a momma's boy when your not around.  Don't act offended of the situation but as a concerned parent who wants her child to excel in the sport.    Being a sports freak myself, I feel that these days people are going overboard when it comes to sports.
213565
You can either believe him or not. If all the signs are there and he still denies it then you can get a private investigator to watch him. But it might be your own insecurities that are taking hold of you. My mother was like this. She was certain that my father was cheating on her and would invent things in her mind that she was sure was indicting him. She would never take his word for it. You need to step back and look at all the facts. Present them to a non-biased party like your pastor and see if he feels there is merit to the siruation. If so then take steps to leave, if not then you need to look at yourself.
562763
it's not that they aren't trusted exactly, they are just considered more unreliable than other witnesses.  they can be easilly coached by parents or their descriptions of events may not always be based in reality (which in my opinion is a problem most adults have as well)
38747
from some one that has been there and done exactly what your doing unless your going to meet this guy you met on the internet I wouldn't freak out your parents if he ever says he want's to meet then tell your parents about him and that you've been talking to him for so long and that you like him and want to meet him but want them there incase something happens just leave out the part that he's chinese till you meet with him if he is who he says he is and your parents see that your happy with him they will grin there teeth and grunt but they'll be happy you found someone my father is the most racist person I know but he's still happy for me when I'm happy.
90888
I don't know.  Why do you?\n\nWell then, perhaps it's time to consult a different coach.
549368
The guy doesn't respect you as a player, probably because you're female and that would make him a male chauvinist pig. Another reason might be that he thinks he's the only good player on this team and will hog the ball to shoe how "great" he is. In either case, you should speak to the coach about him. He will probably be a smuck even after the coach speaks to him, so good luck. If it continues and the coach doesn't remedy this you may have to approach the local district sports board.