What would you do in my position?
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He is a control freak though he must be quite insecure for him to act this way.  Presumably you have confronted him with his demons and asked him why he acts the way he does towards you. And I would imagine that you have told him that you are not happy with how things are between you.  \n\nYou have allowed yourself to be manipulated for 6 years and have done nothing about it, so I presume you were head over heels with your boyfriend. It is so hard to see a person for what they really are when you have an all consuming passion for someone. However, thank goodness you have woken up to the fact that he taking over your life and not allowing you to be yourself.\n\nJust imagine how unhappy you would be if you decided to marry this man. Gradually his possessiveness will turn to violence believe me. Especially if you started a family as he would not be allow you to share your love with anyone else.\n\nYou are your own person with a job and independence, so use that you your advantage and start saving some money so that you do not have to be dependant on him. Can you go back to your folks until you get your life sorted out?. I am sure they will welcome you with open arms, until you have sorted your life out.\n\nPlease do not leave it until you have reached the point of no return and do not let him use the emotional blackmail bit by telling you he will kill himself if you leave him. Be strong for everyones sake and go now...that's if that is what you want and feel there is no way of salvaging this relationship.\n\nAll the best to you my dear. Ax
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I would ask Him what am I here for....in other words what is my purpose?
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Sure Sweetheart, tell me what to do.
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After emailing my boss that I quit, I'd call on a financial advisor. Together, we'd work out a plan that would take care of all my needs for life, including shelter, transportation, cleaning, cooking, etc. My home plan would include all the space I need to lounge, play, and sleep, as well as property that would house plenty of sweet rescued puppies. I'd have a well-stocked art and music studio. The plan would make sure nobody would ever have to sacrifice in order to care for me in old age or pay the expenses for my death. There would be no debts to pay, and all of my belongings would have been scaled down to comfort and treasures. I would provide opportunities to be with my family, children, grandkids, as often as possible. I'd travel, see the world's wonders one good thorough time, and spend my time making sure my husband is treated with utmost respect and loving care as long as I'm here. I'd pay someone to help me write my biography, and to help me finish the scramble of genealogy work I've been putting together the past few years. My intentions would be the same as they are today, but more fruitful.
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Ok i have voted for u. Now its ur chance. What r u going to do in return ?
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talk to my neigbour and discuss what should we do about this situation
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What do you suggest they do about it?
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vague question! please provide details of what exactly you are doin!
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What to do with what? That was a really vague question...You should be clearer, next time.
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I'll be on Yahoo Answers of course(DUH). What else would I be doing?
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Hi  If would be in his place I would first go for the job of radio jockey,since this is the only place from where someone can establish his identity by attracting concerned people towards his voice related talent.
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Resign, then move.\nI wouldn't live in a country that would have someone like me as their president.
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Do what you think is best to reslove the situation,.... any questions, soldier?
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What do you want to do?  By the way, isn't what youre doing illegal?
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Go to Disneyland. What? Were you expecting a deep answer? I would make a living for myself and family. I would help who I could on the way, provided that they needed or wanted help. I wouldn't do much of anything different than I do now. I wouldn't try to stop wars or terrorism. I would not go to other countries that are impovershed. I would not become a super hero. That would be impossing my beliefs on other people.
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what u think? what should u do? ask urself
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stand by me. that is what came to mind when i read your post.