Help me with a much needed decision?  Serious answers only!?
822205
As long as he gets free room and board from you, he has no motivation to get a job.  You must take a hard-line stance against this.  Tell him he has 30 days to shape up and get a full time job, or throw him out.  Get your friends and loved ones to help you.
325459
I'd pick choose what you love to do. In the end, you won't regret it.
143320
make a decision... u have to choose one or loosing both...
365156
i'm not sure what you meant by your question towards the end there, but i do believe that you shouldn't necessarily go with a decision based off emotion alone. now, some things you already know your decision, and are emotional about it...and that's fine. but definitely have the facts right there with you.
736618
I think you've answered your own question.  If you're interested in exploring your options you are not in the relationship that you want to be in.  Therefore, I recommend ending the relationship prior to exploring your options.  I hope you find happiness.
589740
I personally would take the one that is entirely paid for as it would be VERY dificult to work and go to school at the same time. Good luck to you!
223094
I think you should choose the person who you feel you enjoy being with most.  If this is a decision on which of the two you want to spend your life with, I understand why your family and your church's opinion makes a difference.  However, they will not be seeing him everyday, for the rest of their lives.  They won't be kissing him, listening to his opinions, his problems, his good days and bad days.  After church service is over and your family goes back to their home, the two of you will be left alone to live your lives.  It seems you should base your decision on who you truly, truly feel the most feelings for, and who you can see fitting into your life for a long period of time.  Hope that helps :)
118310
I really don't know, it should be your personal choice. I haven't seen my father for 13  years, but now I live with him - that doesn't mean I suggest anything to you. It's YOUR decision. Good luck!
299454
You are at the same position where i was five years back\nBut listen to this and listen this very close, it is YOU who are going to do Comm/Sci so, rather then asking all over the world just ask yourself what you want and which is your line of interest  YES  'Interest is the key to sucess' Is what i have learned \nAnd Remember that this situations will be open all your life, everytime there will be two or more than two options to work on ???? Then ????? Just think about this ha???\nYou have cleared your 10th that means you are capable of making your own decision and for your own good ALSO along with your parents BLESSINGS.\nHope this will make your mind set for your target.
778957
What do you want out of life? You have a lot of thinking to do, and we can't do it for you. Grow up and take ownership for your life and your family's well being. Murdoch sounds hard hearted, but I have to admit, if you can get this kind of offer, you should be able to decide for yourself what is more important, your career, your family, or a balance of both. It's not easy. It's the toughest part of life, but once you decide with your heart, it gets much better!
167261
This is a tough question. To start, i hope that whatever decision you make will lead you to happiness and that is the decision you need to make. You must take into consideration the life of your son. If you think that it is an unsave environment to raise him in, then you need to get out. I aslo believe in second chances, but after that it better not be an excuse that the person is giving to me after that. If you have already given him many chances, i think it is time to step aside, even if it is only for alittle bit, to let the situation cool so you can make a rational decision. My God help you in this troubling time. Please let me know what happens by posting a question answer statment. :-)
903075
You should make the choice.  I understand where your family is coming from - but I hear the love you have for him in the tone of your letter.  This is going to be one of life's "not so fair" choices.  You are 18 now.  You have a very grown up decision to make.  My best advice is to make completely sure that he is as wonderful as you think he is, cause this could separate you from the family who has loved you all your life.  I have an 18yr old son and it would kill me if he went against my wishes and married someone I didn't approve of.  Just BE SURE before you do anything.  Money and status are wonderful, but cannot replace a family.   Think long and hard.  Good luck!!
1149739
It really depends on your aptitude, interests and goal. There are a great deal on opportunities to choose from. spend some time reviewing the specialties and then seeing when kind of path you could take once you leave the service.
434877
Check out the cost of living for the city you are thinking of moving to first against where you are living now. That will help you decide. It could be just a break even proposition.
703176
You're the only one that is able to make that decision.  If you think that you are ready and want a relationship, then go for it.  If not, wait a little while until you are able to commit fully and whole-heartily.
855645
I don't know what the hell Sanet is talking about, but it is very considerate that you thought about her in this decision, but the only way for you to truly find out is to sit down and talk to her about it. Maybe you all can come up with some sort of agreement. And if she agrees it gives her time to find a job out where you were transfered.
818996
good luck. you are making a good decision. go go go. ;)