Does anyone have a husband who's so specific & picky that it's impossible to surprise him with a gift he likes
830033
Yes, my boyfriend is the same way and he hates suprises.  So, it's boring, but I just ask him what he wants and get him exactly what he tells me.  Sometimes I get a smaller gift also that is just a little something extra that I know he might want to go along with it.  So, then there's still a little element of suprise.
777513
Blow up a great picture of you ( and kids if u have them) and put them in a nice frame and he will love it.  Or last year I got my hubby a pocket watch with an engraving on it!  Make him some sex and romance candles with your own hands on Red construction paper- its ALWAYS my hubbys favorite present!  lol    One year I bought a basket and in it I put bubble bath scented candles and a bottle lf champagne and scented lotion.  When hubby opened it he was very confused until I told him WE would use it later TOGETHER!  Thats his 2nd favorite gift each year!!!!!
882510
I think generally men don't enjoy getting 'suprise' presents, they'd rather 'do' or 'go', so think along those lines, depending how much you want to spend of course! All the men I know and have to buy gifts for would prefer disposable, ie. edible gifts, so find out what they like and get some! There's so much choice just at the supermarkets now, with beer in gift packs with free t-shirts, whisky with nip bottles etc. Good luck!
674474
I think it is fine too, is your husband the super possessive type and insecure ??
984539
think of what he likes something he can use.\ndoes he like gifts that you make yourself?\nif he does than look in the books and see what is possible to make and that he would like.\nif he doesn't than walk in every shop that you see till you see something that from the first moment that you see it you think right away that is something for him.\nthat is the way i always go and buy gifts and most of the time they like  it.\n\nhope it helps you a bit
634126
toys my dear. me and my husband were shy about them at first. but believe me, once you get one that is right for you....you'll both be happy.
957217
Some guys do and they are complete jerks. Mature women understand when a man cannot afford a lavish gift for the holidays. I graduate on 12/10, Christmas is 12/25, my birthday is 1/26 and Valentine's Day is 2/14.  Thats a lot of freaking gifts in a short period! I have already explained to my boyfriend that I do not expect gifts for all those days and that him just being there is enough.
952436
No, I enjoy buying presents for my wife.  If I find something I know she will like I will buy it when I see it and hold it back.  Otherwise, I generally just pay attention throughout the year when she says things like: "Oh, I'd love one of those."  I commit it to memory and then go back close to her birthday and pick it up.  Good shopping requires a little thought, now and again!!
704605
Call his house and ask what he likes. Ask for it not to be revealed that you are calling about getting a gift. That way you can get him something you know he will like.
806197
OMG the exact same thing is happeneing to me! Plus, my boyfriend won't tell me what he wants, and I know hes getting me something nice. =/ I might get him a cool CD player or a portable DVD player... i dont know, the seem a bit expensve... whatever. If i think of something i will let you know.. =) lol
161577
Be creative.  My husband filled our bedroom with candles, put soft music on and had a platter of my favourite foods.  Give her your time and show some thought.  So much better than a big expensive gift.
874903
it's been done before and he will be surprised because he is not expecting it since you already told him what it was, he will expect a different gift.\n\nLots of fun isn't it.  Merry Xmas
745469
If you are going to give a gift card - make it a game for him to find it so that the gift IS personal.\n\nI made up computer generated "coupons" for all sorts of services (including adult content things) and left post-it notes all over the house telling him where to go next like a scavenger hunt...sometimes he got "favors", sometimes there were silly things like a Snickers bar or a bottle of wine...when he finally got to the end of the trip, he found the card inside a pair of underwear (that I was wearing) that said "both of these are for you"...\n\nIt was fun and he has asked me for a gift card again!!!
1160283
buy him a present.for him this day is like others but not for us
110207
sometimes its hard for a man to find out what she might like and not make a mistake, but they usualy come around, if you want you can buy him something give it to him these day, so he feels bad about not getting you something, try it, lets see what happens
469249
Try getting some adult movies,mags, clothes. Surprise him one day when he isnt expecting it with some skimpy lingerie. Just keep it spiced up or changing the routine. I \nalways love my wife to surprise me with things like that.
826922
My daughter I have been told, is one of the "crystal children" - I've read up on it a little bit and the descriptions  match. But, in all honesty, I don't want to treat my daughter differently or make her feel like she is unusual or differs from her peers. She is whatever she is and I accept that. \n\nI don't think you can put everything into a specific category. Some people have certain talents, while others have special "gifts". \n\nYour husband must realise that feeling and seeing spirits is not an everyday occurrence for most people, so even if he is not an indigo adult, he definitely has a gift. Perhaps he can focus on that rather that the category in which it fits. \n\nGood Luck :)