Indian Men want to marry a virgin, but oddly the vast majority of them ARE NOT Virgins. Why a double standard?
830075
Double standard is a power game and it is workable under all circumstances.\nIndian man mentality is superiority complex and that is the reason they look for virgin.
404349
It is very untrue. As in most religions, they are not supposed to have premarital sex, but they certainly aren't all over there packing fudge, either. Would you screw a man just cause you couldn't get some p***y?
615266
It is our society's double standard.  Plus it is easier for a woman to get sex, than men.  If a man gets action on the first date people think he has it going on, but since it is easier for a woman to get sex she is a whore.
660953
Seems India guys think they are tops because of the history of India--- How can a guy be normal when hstory shows his heritage as a bunch of wife beaters!  THIS IS CHANGING -slowly!
663465
I agree with you 100%. It is very sad to think that these people are missing out on the privilages of marriage just because of some moral objection to their lifestyle. I was under the impression that there was a separation of church and state in this country.
703927
They are jealous that they couldn't resist the temptation of playing with sex. Most kids are constantly seeking something to join the "in" crowd. Being a virgin to them is not cool. Young people in general get trapped into thinking that sex, smoking, doing drugs, wearing goofy clothes, and doing all sorts of off the wall things are cool. Experimenting with sex is unfortunately high on their list - guys have to "score", and girls have an apparent need to be initiated (many to their dismay). Good for you for remaining a virgin. A lot of the young teen guys just want to use any female they can seduce. Do you think they will be interested in making a lifelong commitment to one woman? It takes will power to remain a virgin - so hats off to the ones who choose to abstain from out of wedlock sex.
1155333
well, those who say it is abnormal, dont take many things under consideration.....\nit depends on which part of the world you are.... in america , for e.g., it will be a bit abnormal.... but in India, it may be quite normal.... \nnever been kissed or had sex is just that you didnt find a guy worhty enough for that....... thats it..... \nor may be you have always tried to focus on your career more than these things.... whats wrong in it......\nsome guys never like to even touch any loser... trust me.... now is the time you can have serious relation ship.... go for it......\ndont think that you are abnormal, just because of this simple reason...
691678
Most guys do because they feel that taking someone's virginity makes them a man. Others value that a woman can wait for her true love, he may have made mistakes and wrong choices or has had his virginity taken by another woman, but if he's in love and wants to wait to have sex with you, then that's something special. Other men think that a woman that is a virgin is pure, they don't want anyone that has been with men before because it makes them feel dirty. Even though they've been with other women and have done everything possible with regard to sex, they want their woman to be untouched. I don't understand their thinking in this case because if a man wants me to be untouched, I want him to be untouched as well, it goes both ways. But I can respect someone that has dated and has been through things in life just as well as he should respect me or any other woman that has. I'm not saying that men should date promiscous slutty women just because they have been promiscous and slutty and now want to cahnge their ways and settle down. I'm saying respect goes both ways, having something that's of the utmost importance such as a virginity should be on both parts, unless the second example I've stated happens. It's so confusing, but I know people like this, men and women (more men than women) who need to get off their high horses and realize that no one is pure or completely innocent. Good luck with your situation.
521150
In Old Testament law, marrying a woman who was not a virgin was an offense that could have the woman put to death.  It was considered one of the most unholy acts there were.  A woman who was not a virgin was considered soiled.  So, if a man were to rape a virgin, he would have to endure the embarrasment of marrying a woman who was not a virgin, and could never divorce her.  It would be a shame unto him and his children.
640493
Well, I dont know if you're refering to all girls in general or just the majority. I'm not offended at all. I'm 16 and proud to be a virgin. I think that these girls are just becoming more and more stupid and immature over time and guys tell them they love them and the girls are like omg he loves me let's have sex.
163453
Well, indian cultures does'nt encourage much on  having a girl-friend. Well we do have but not like those of western.\nOur pre-marriage activities/ seeking activity differs a lot from western, almost 90% of marriages are arranged one. Orthodox hindu family puts a restiction on these activities(western/european approach to marriage). Already a lot  western culture has penetrated in our environment to change the traditional approach. But i think ,however it's up to batman to answers your question as it depends on how he takes this.
691141
I personally think so. Because some crazy man might think that your a slut kinda and would want to take advantage of you to satisfy his sexual needs. So just hind the fact that your not a virgin okay.
742876
Yes, essentially.\nThere is no simple explanation for it.\n\nReligious standards dictatate virginal women. I don't know what standards a man is supposed to possess since I'm not into organized religion but, I'd assume it's the same, relatively?\n\nThe majority of societal standards dictate that a woman, at the very least, not be a loose and wanton woman.\n\nMen want a virgin but, lets face it, there aren't many of them left because it's considered the "chic" thing for teens to experiment.\nSo (young)men settle for what they can get and let's face it, aside from the bragging rights of "bagging" a virgin, a man wants someone experienced.\n\nWomen want MEN not boys. Boys don't have experience. A woman doesn't want a boy fumbling around down there with no idea of what or how.\n\nBesides no woman likes a whore. Most men I would suspect don't have much use for them either.\n\nThe only ones who would use a whore is someone in a bad, sexless marriage, a drunk looking to "get off", and a young man who wishes to gain experience but, can't seem to win a girl's heart, mind or body.\n\nYou may consider it a double standard but, put in that situation,  what would you prefer? Experience or ignorance?\n\nTo top it all off, it all goes without saying, the risk of STD's.\n\nJMHO
127658
if i never get married, i am going to die a virgin!\nI think its because people want to experience sex and dont want to go through their entire life without trying it out.
243366
You must have seen that program on the News the other night. Man it was something else.  I am dating a man from india i met on a dating site.  Yes their are many and i mean many women in india who are used for sex.  their are many american women over there who are married to india men.. the young children are put in their houses for pleasher this is true. as for the number we will never know this for sure.\n\nWhat i can say is this. When a man is not given a women at birth.. he loses out... when he trys to find a women from his cultral they do not want him do to family, prestrige, and money. so he uses these women an houses for pleashers.  even the men who are married.. here is the reason why?\n\nIndia women are tought to lay on their backs with legs open they are not allowed to make any at all noises. their eyes are closed.  A man is not allowed to look at a women privits or they say a child will become blinded at birth. all the seamon is the womens property. so a man may not do the hand thing. only with wifes permission..  \n\nthe men run to privit houses for comfort for expression of sexual desires. they go to movies and watch pron..\n\nthe women are to be cold and have no feelings.. \n\nso their are many prostutions in india becouse of this out let.. and now they do not have to get married they can stay single and live with each other..  the world is changing.
748154
interesting question!!! well middle east women . in many countries of middleeast , women are more devoted to their education than men,because its their way to gain finencial independence and a solid careerthat gives them power and control over their lives more than marrige and kids woudl provide them with. and they  are to remain virgin till they get married according to their bleifs (islam,hiduiesm..)or because of teh tradition , (arab , indian..).
789304
i love virgins.  there is nothing wrong in saving your self for the right person.  i feel that there is moe to life and a relationship than sex.  i would love to meet a virgin my self because ther is no presure to have sex and you can have all the fun you want and have a real relationship with the person you are with. I must be the only guy but if you want to chat just im me.