whats wrong with being a 21 yr old no boyfriend since birth?
831824
Sweetie, i feel you.\nBut check this out...I'm a 26 yr old who has NEVER had sex before! (now I'm getting married next year though)-my point? DONT take a boyfriend because you see yur friends doing it.\nSecondly, I see that you harbour a fear of the unknown, I'll quote one of my quotes for you..."Love is to be given only to those you trust, but how do you know who to love if first you dont trust?"\nMy point...take a chance.\nBeing more precise, make a list of things you want in a guy that are not negotiable(eg maybe, spiritual convictions etc), make another of "good to haves but not must haves" (eg maybe, color of hair etc). Then cultivate friendships without labelling every guy as a potential bf or not...just enjoy friendships and things would fall in place.\nLastly sweetie, there's no crime in being single AND learn to trust. ;) \nThis may sound corny but it sure helps-You may want to pray about the issue too.
1030115
I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 16 (yeah I know it's pretty pathetic).
650006
Maybe you have not lived on your own enough to know yourself. One must learn to know & love themselves before they can love others. \nI do not like being alone all the time, but I like my own company enough to know that I would rather be alone than with someone that is not right for me or that is going to treat me badly.
700870
nothing wrong at all. everyone is different and time is no issue. at least you should have saved money by not chasing the other sex. get your future on track first, and finding someone can can later. once you are established you will be more able to find the perfect someone for you.\n\nand besides, dating is over rated.
775267
Abslolutely not!   There is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend, there are many women who don't and even PREFER it that way!  Don't worry about your acne, looks aren't what will get you a good guy anyways.  Just wait and eventually it will be your turn, don't give it another thought, enjoy your freedom and don't think negatively, you have alot to offer, just have to wait til God decides its the right time.
930074
I understand where you are coming from and I too am single and feel that I will be forever unless I do something pretty soon!. I am a very lovely and single, beautiful 33 year old and grown out of pubs and clubbing where there are streams of teenagers and mid twenties.  \n\nThere is no where in my town appropriate for people of my age socializing-wize and used to meet my partners whilst at University so now I am no longer a student, this makes things akward again!.  Everywhere I go, I see married couples and loved-up youngsters or singles like myself. Most are all now on the internet but I am so wary of that stuff when there are married men posing as single on these sites and men who post on every sight in search of more than one love-interest.\n\nIt is diffocult I must admit but the trick is to remain optomistic and be very specific about what you are looking for in a man and then go to places that you are most likely to meet these types of men. Bars and clubs are okay, but there are a lot out there looking for fun only and unless you are prepared for that and happy with it until you get to know a guy, then sitting around will do not much good either.\n\nI am more conscious as I have gotten older but also more decided about what I want in a man and that is friendship.  This is the best basis for all relationships to be lasting.  I am determined to be married but once I get myself off my but and start making things happen.
551347
is the reason you haven't had a boyfriend because of them or you? i know lots of people in wheel chairs that have relationships. so is it you? maybe your so afraid of no one liking you that you give off the vibe to stay away. if your not confidant in your self or you dont like yourself...men can pick up on that. try cahnging your attitude about yourself and im sure things will change
400249
There's nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend at the age of 26.  Heck i'm 20 and i don't have one, you can live without one but if you want one what are you doing about it?  You need to go out and actually find one, he's not going to all of a sudden appear out of no where and romance you.  Go out with a bunch of girlfriends to public places like clubs, or sporting events or whatever and look for single guys don't all just stand around in a pack though, it's going to be intimadating for a guy to approach a group of girls ;)
913604
You shouldn't worry about relationships now, you have too much life ahead of you.  \nYou're too young to worry about this.  \nHave fun and enjoy being a kid.
460046
being 27 and no date? Nothing to rave about\nbeing 27 and no MAN? Ask yourself why. Is it the type of man you want, or the type of girl you are. \n\nThink into that one. :)
796284
It is normal to become bored in a relationship. Maybe things got old and the relationship began to become a routine kind of thing. Or maybe you weren't actually looking to be in a relationship at the time. It's possible that you just liked the idea of having someone around. I would suggest taking some time to figure things out for yourself. Discover who you are and what you can bring to a relationship, if you want one!!! Also, there is nothing wrong with being single, so enjoy it. Good luck...
114619
You already answered your question. You don't want a boyfriend. What you do want is a social companion so you won't feel awkward with your friends.  If you can find a guy to be this kind of friend then more power to you....but don't go and get a "boyfriend" just to fit in.  Besides if your fiends make you feel awkward, then maybe it's time to get new friends.
177131
I am 27 years old and I have never really dated, so I guess you could say I have literally been single my whole life.
106780
friends and boyfriends arent alike.... just feel lucky that you have lots of friends though u aint have a boyfriend... maybe its not the ryt time for you....
348262
Ummmmm.......If I am 18 and don't have a girlfriend, do I worry? No. You are still young and I think there is a lot of singles out there waiting to be your boyfriend.
1111444
Well, just wait soon enough someone will come along. I'm a good person, nice but never had a bf, its not gonna take over my life, eventually you'll find someone so dont worry about it so much.
1015435
i am 21 also and i am a virgin.  I just broke up with my boyfriend who thought he could change my mind about sex, when i made it clear to him that i wasnt looking for a sexual relationship.  i am a strong independant woman, that is my personality