Did he cheat? I don't know what to believe...?
826303
Yes he cheated. Think about it why would some girl call u out of the blue and say that she is pregnant by your man. That might not be his baby but he hit that at some point move on and find somebody else.
302255
possibility that he is. do you have more than just his lies to back up your question? Did he say anything, not say anything, or lie about something big? Ask him what is going on. he might just b honest with you. good luck!
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
635942
Rumors are extremely dubious and I would not take their word for it. It could have been someone who looked like him, a rumor by someone who has a crush on him, who is jealous,... I would just try to be aware of what your friend says about him, and if any warning signals of cheating go off, then you might want to have her talk to him about it.
244799
like a fool i took mine back and we were married a week later, but i still find it hard to trust him. even tho hes the one who told me he was cheating. we have been married for 2 years now and together 6 and so far he hasnt done it again ( that im a ware of) if i had it to do over i would have left him.
553913
He had an "emotional" connection with this person, so...by definition, he already cheated, hence a "real affair".  Sometimes it is worse than when it is just for physical gratification, with no emotion attached.  Don't know if he would have a physical relationship with someone other than his wife...some men prefer to not go beyond the cyber thing, as that is what their turn on is, so it's just a matter of who and how he is, and how sound the marriage is.
146161
Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
355737
Why would you even need to ask? If you caught him and you know he lied about it, then it should be obvious what you should do, unless you want to stay with a lying cheat that you will not be able to trust. Honesty and trust are the basis of any good relationship and he destroyed them both. Don't you think you deserve a lot better than him? I sure do!\n\nS.S.
253379
There has to be more to this story. Why do you think he is cheating?  You should have gave some reasons.  But there has to be something he's doing wrong because there is something to be said about a women's intuition.
447049
If you have absolute proof I would present your case to him. If you were in his shoes, wouldn't you like to know that your guy was cheating on you? Make sure you are absolutely sure though! Don't just go off of what other people have said.
12013
Sorry sister we need more info -why do you think hes cheating?  Hard to help you if we dont have any info or background.  hope you post another question with more info next time!
492300
if he cheated while unhappy and attempted to cheat while happy, this guy seems like a serial cheater. some guys are like that. no matter how happy they are in their relationship, they just need attention form other women. you deserve better than this guy.
609851
It's very hard to fully trust a person after they cheat. Even if you forgive them, it's always in the back of your mind that they did it. However, some people have moved beyond a cheating history and married and lived happily for many years...if you truly believe that he won't cheat again and that you have it in you to marry this man, then you should.
16057
Once a cheat, always a cheat!  Unless God seriously changes his heart - and you would need a LONG track record of trustworthy behavior and a clean STD test to know for sure - there is no hope for this guy.  Don't let yourself be hurt any more!!!  Find somebody who deserves you.  He lost his chance.
545263
In my honest opinion....\n\nThe guy didn't technically cheat.  Try to look at it this way, he went out with the girl a few times, and then he realized how much you meant to him. Sometimes it takes being with the wrong person to realize that you are with the right person. In addition there was not touchy feely stuff so he probably wasn't attracted to her in the first place.  He probably just wanted to reassure himself that you were the right girl for him.  Guys get anxious and cold feet too, they just handle it differently than we do.  Talk to him.  Tell him how you feel about it and explain to him that your trust and love is a privilege, and he should be honored to earn it.
503352
Sounds like a case of him feeling guilty for what he was doing so he makes up something to blame you for to cover it up.  You should confront him and find out why what he is doing with this girl isn't considered cheating.
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.