Why when you feel bad, do people ask "Have you got someone to talk to?" when it's obvious you want to talk to
817455
Buy a house-plant, they are great listeners and will never tell you anything you don't want to hear!
771946
Oh definitely yes!  I hate when people (unsolicited) will try to figure out "what's wrong" if I'm not smiling and bubbly.  sometimes there isn't even anything wrong, just that I am thinking of something and need to think it through or that I am trying to finish some project and people keep interrupting.  And those things seem impossible for the cheer-up crew to understand!  So yes, I can relate to that.\n\n      I don't think people should take it upon themselves to try and cheer everyone up in their path, or to butt in and ask what is the matter.  It's OK to do so quietly and let the person know you are there if they need to talk ONCE, but then leave it alone and wait and see if the person actually wants to talk.  If not, there is nothing the cheery one can do and they need to move on to another prospect!
1136846
Expressing feelings makes people feel vulnerable.  Even though that's not necessarily the case.  It's the way people feel.  I personally feel repressed if I can't tell people how I feel.  If I don't feel comfortable with a friend to be open and honest with them, they don't stay my friend very long.
347143
what feels badly?\nlet me know then maybe i can help
143183
I often just giggle and ask, "What's in it for me?" and if they can't give me an acceptable answer, then I tell them, "sorry, I really cannot do that..." I do not do a lot of favours for people. I will do them for a few people now ad then, but rarely. I use to be the one who did favours for everyoe. Got tired of being taken advantage of, so now I just say, no can do, sorry.
906185
They probably think you were hurt badly and are too afraid to want friendship with anyone who might hurt you worse. It must be lonely.\nGod Bless
123488
I can answer that with another question.  When you feel bad because of the way someone treats you, does that make you want to be just as bad as they are?\n\nWhy would you?  There is great honor in being better than those around you.
434820
I hope not.  If it is someone else talking to you, and you answer back (in your mind) than yes...it's possible that you have a mental disorder...
669163
I can't answer that, because I try to be considerate of peoples feelings.  You appear to be having a bad day.  I'm sorry for that.
1164639
There are a couple different reasons for this one is, some people don't know how to express their feelings and they just want to fore get about their problems so, when you ask they explode. Perhaps it is a sensitive issue, and they can't talk about it because they feel stupid and that no one will understand. Also Some people, which would be in most cases, like attention and to make themselves noticed at every moment so they make a big deal of nothing to get recognized. Just try to ignore them it is hard but you have to try. These are the main reasons for people bursting out when you simple ask them something.
762578
hey i really wanted 2 help u out.. but...\ner... i don understand ur q....\nplz... don feel bad...\nsorry...
43590
Something sad happened in your past. And i am sure you got all  the pity you could take from close and not so close people. But life goes on. You have new sorrows and new happy moments. So there is really nothing weird in telling people about it. I am sure you appear fine to them, so they have no reason to feel sorry for you.
364698
I think it is normal to feel this way from time to time. My best advice is to monitor your feelings. If you continue to feel sad and lonely for a long period of time, it probably is best to talk to someone then. Sometimes certain influences in life can cause you to feel like this even if at the time you don't think it isn't a problem ie. a crappy job or relationship woes. It is best to always be honest yourself and never to ignore negative emotions/feelings if they go on too long. Best wishes
542011
Do you have two girlfriends?\n\nOK none of my business. \n\nWhen at all possible, phrase your statements as "I feel" statements (NOT "I feel you don't call")--I feel better when we talk everyday, I love knowing you're thinking about me too--rather than "you do" statements (even Why "you do" statements/ and especially not "you always/you never" statements). Those kinds of statements are sure to get a better reaction.\n\nIf you're the one replying--assume the best of people. Assume they care, and they're asking because they do. When in doubt, try this phrase "I'm sure you didn't mean that the way it sounded." It assumes the best, it gives them a chance to rephrase and it gives you the chance to calm down. If you have the phrase stuck in your head, you'll start to use it automatically when people say something "wrong." Maybe you won't even have to say it, you'll just know it and reply accordingly.\n\nTwo other points: Sometimes when people feel guilty about something, they get very touchy when confronted on it. And, I'm assuming the conversations are taking place in a language you both speak better than your English. (I don't want to offend you, but yeah, your grammar's a bit off, so I am only pretty sure I know what you mean, if you know what I mean? If you're carrying on an actual relationship in a language you're not fluent in, that's a whole other question.)
943810
What a silly question you was only with her for 2 weeks!\n\nYou just want sympathey and attention. Stop feeling sorry for yourself nothing majors happend people have had a lot worse happen to them.\n\nGo on then i think you should do it. (you wont though you just want loads of answers with people feeling sorry for you and begging you not to.\n\nWell you wont get that from me.
926204
Wow, if life came down to a numbered list wouldn't it be easy?\n\nIt depends on the situation.  If the person wants to talk, then you should be there to listen, because sometimes knowing someone is actually listening (not hearing, and there is a big difference) is the best way to help.\n\nIf they want advice, then you should give it, or refer them to someone who can.\n\nIf they want to forget what is happening for a little while, distract them.\n\nIf they need your empathy, you to be sad with/for them, then discover why, and show geniune emotion.\n\nNot caring is the worst thing, because if they have confided in you how unhappy they are, then they are ultimately asking for help.\n\nRemember happiness is NOT a state of mind, it is moments to be enjoyed, just the same as other emotions, and the unhappy moments are there to remind us not to take the happy ones for granted.
1080687
Yes; probably because it feels nice to have someone to talk to, someone like a 'friend'. Don't worry, enjoy! :)