I Rejected him cause i was 2 scared..this is what he wrote to me.pls help im not sure how to respond to this?
817606
give it a change. we only live once. why pass this up? were all afarid of being hurt, thats just life. give him a chance. let your hair down have fun!
86634
I feel ya on this one, this goes back to my question I just posted about letting your guard down. I would def. talk to him b/c if he feels something different and is to afraid to say something or maybe its the opposite, things need to be worked out. Communication is the key
941371
It's too late to second guess, you already mailed the letter. I wouldn't have done that, personally. I really think that if he wanted it to go past friendship, he would've let you know before; I'm sorry sweetie, but I'm afraid you're gonna end up feeling hurt and embarrassed that you did this. I would forget about having a relationship with this guy.....
299973
i thin kthat he does like you and is trying to get your attention.. maybe he was scared thats why he sed that he didnt like you.. or got nervous or somethingl..i think u shod confont him agen.. n tell him how u feel for him and tell him in a place where hes relaxed.. maybe thru msn.. or on the fone or even face to face where thers not that many ppl around.. its hard..! bt iull get thru it good luck and if it doesnt work.. it was never ment to be anyway
137666
He might have said no because you didn't ask him yourself. I turned down a guy while i was in high school, cause he got his friend to ask me.\n\nWhat you need to ask yourself is what is the worst scenario that could happen.  And could you live with that.\n\nWorst scenario is that he says no. alright, not the end of the world, better than wondering "what if?" for the rest of your life. \n\nBasically if you can handle that, then yeah you will be nervous, but any answer you will be okay with.\n\nJust do it, before you lose your nerve.
472904
I expressed attraction for a guy who didn't bother to respond.  It hurts, but I am not sorry I did it.  We had been very flirty so I know he was attracted but for whatever reason my asking him freaked him out.  Maybe he'll come around but probably not.  I wish it could have worked out, but it didn't.  I'm not sorry I asked though, at least I know and I'm not wondering.
980785
sure, try again and leave it at that. you could say something like, "do you want to talk?"...if he doesnt respond, maybe he just wants some time to himself (or possibly he could just not be paying attention to his msn)...he's probably experiencing a lot of difficult emotions right now, and people sometimes isolate themselves in times of difficulty. he may need someone like you to talk to though, so i'd so try once again.
206802
Well if you are scared then that means that you are not ready and you need to wait for the time when you are ready for it. Also try talking to him about it and see how he feels about it and maybe he feels the same way you do. Then again he might not just let him know who you feel. You never know how it might turn out!
790287
Sounds like you were really excited to have him come to your party.  Too excited.  Too much pressure.  It sounds like he took your number to placate you.\n\nLet it go.
1126551
the situation you're in is kinda confusing but if you already told him about how you feel (and i think that was really brave) and he juz smiled at you and didnt tell you what you expected to hear than i guess he's not as into you as you are with him. he smiled at you coz he doesnt want to be rude. it'll be tough coz you really like him (love him even) but you gotta move on i think. you deserve better. tc
1129418
HE will not change with you. Cut the strings, you have wasted enough precious time that you will never get back. He is feeding you a line about being afraid...get going and get on with your life. Good grief, I cannot believe you hung around this long!
435367
If that's how you feel then you have no choice but to put it all out there, just like that.  There's no time to beat around the bush, or hold back your words.  Worst case scenario, he rejects you- but then you'll at least know where you stand, and that you did EVERYTHING you could.  You don't want to have regrets later on, or wonder if there was anything else you could have said or done.  Good luck, and know that no matter how this turns out, you were true to yourself, loved him with all that you had, and fought for what you wanted.
885272
don't feel bad... it's ok.  if he really wanted to work it out, he would've tried. don't blame urself..... he said himself he wasn't trying at all.  it's possible that u answered him later than he was expecting, but love is fickle.. timing is really important.. and love can quickly turn sour when u don't cultivate it.\n\njust try concentrating on school, studies, exercise, friends, family and everything else. make everything Positive, Healthy, and Happy in ur life, so u have a lot to offer to any guy...and u will know when someone is taking care of u the "right" way, not ignoring u... u know?  :)  ur not even saying u wouldn't take him back, ur  just saying that he wasn't giving u any attention. that's a valid reason to be upset, and he needs to listen. if he doesn't do his part to make u feel Secure, then it's partly his fault too!\n\ntake some time out and ignore... be nice, but don't beg him or cry or anything.. life is too short to worry about "shoulda woulda coulda".... if he wants to, he will respond. good luck
421379
Awww! I hate it when that happens... \nMaybe he just wasn't good enough for you...\nI don't know what you told him but possibly, something that you told him about your personal stuff made him think that you're not the right one for him... I don't know! \nDon't worry about it. It was just a date! Move on... there's plenty more fish in the sea :)
284568
He's hoping you either say noone or..him. He's afraid to be rejected. Shock him. Tell him you've been waiting for him to ask. And tell him it's him you like. You'll be back in a few minutes to ask us what to do now that he asked you out, so I'll just wait a few. Enjoy.
281826
explain to him why u blocked him out and assure him that it wont  happen again and over ask him what up he might just be trying to let u know how it felt when u shut him out
300463
Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.