Is there any legal recourse against a sex-offender after they get out of jail for raping you?
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don't know of anything legal, but it sounds like he needs a bag party. that's were you come up from behind them quickly put a gunny sack over them take them to a private place and whoop them with a baseball bat. now that's reserved for people like you said and people that hurt children
1108210
First and foremost, rape is rape. There is no psychological benefit to it being a woman instead of a man. I'm not sure how old you are, but I would recommend you find a decent counseler and talk it out. There is no statute of limitations on the rape hotline, and they can recommend help for you. Some places have Rape/Spouse abuse crisis centers where people who have been through these types of ordeals can help you with the steps you need to take. The second thing I want you to know is that you did nothing wrong. There is nothing you could have done that would justify the robbing of a part of your humanity, and rape does just that. I'm not sure how the law handles something like this after a year, so I can't tell you whether you can still prosecute, you'll have to talk to your state attorney general's office.\n\nGood Luck
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Go to  a hospital right away.  They have 'rape kits' there to help collect evidence to arrest your attacker.  They can also call the police for you.  \n\nAlway always remember it was not your fault and it was a horrible act commited against you that in no way lowers your worth.  After seeing the doctor and giving yourself time to recover physically perhaps see a therapist to help talk out your feelings.  Sometimes its easier to talk to someone you don't know.  Also remember you are not alone.  There are many of us out there who have been raped and are trying to stand tall.  Support groups can help you get throught this too.  After awhile, try telling yourself that while what happened to you was horrible, it was a small portion of your life and that to let it follow you around forever is giving your attacker control over your life long after that small moment is past.  Thats why therapy and support groups can be important.  The rape will make you different as we are all summations of what happens to us in life, but don't let it control you forever.  \n\n*HUGS*
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Wait a minute people, did you bother to read the whole thing or just react to the first lines? We are talking about 2 kids and vengeful parents and probably a very vengeful little girl.\nA good attorney should be able to get a reversal based on nothing more than the facts!\nThis guy was 18, GF was 16, had been together 2 years, she gave it up, and probably enjoyed it more than once! Then, as often happens, they both change,as they are still maturing, and go separate ways. Girlie's mad so calls the cops. Did you people remain virgins until you were over the age of consent? I DOUBT IT! Just because it is a GIRL the courts feel justified,l I highly doubt there is any thought in the guys mind of little girls in this case!\n\nREAD THIS:\n\nHe was 18 and she was 16 when he got charged with a sex offence, they had been dating for 2 years at the time. When he decided to end it, her parents turned him in.
238998
It sounds like a "No Contact Order." Which can be issued against a convicted abuser. The Prosecution would need to fear for your safety.\n\nIf this isn't the case. . .
25236
There is a wonderful support and information group at http://prisontalk.com\nSomeone there will have your answer.\nI've got a "someone special" locked up, too, and this group has helped me a great deal.
641325
You have to start by calling attorneys in your area.  They can give you referrals to reputable attorneys that work on a contingency basis.  Since I don't know the specifics, other than a horrific rape, you should be able to find a good attorney with the know how to try this kind of predator on a contingency basis.
281120
do not live with the man that molest you. you can report him to someone you trust or to the authorities.
1032487
uh about all of them .to the answer about them being real hard on them watch out Georgia is sending them YOUR way! the laws r so tuff it is forcing them to be homeless(how do u find them?) or move somewhere there is No kids (which is where?) or move OUT OF STATE. sex offender does not mean petafile .that is what they need to do -redefine sex offender . i am not scared of the now 20 something girl or boy who had consentual sex w/ a minor when they were in highschool.how can some one find aplace to live in 2 wks? much less not near a bus stop or school or church daycare -i say keep the PETAFILES  in prison then this wouldnt be up 4 discussion. oh by the way if you ever in your life had sex w/ someone under 18-you are a sex offender,so dont be afraid to ask 4 I D
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Anyone who sentences a sexual offender to anything but a very long(preferably life) sentence needs to be off the bench. But giving someone who molested a child probation ? Disgusting.\n\nAnd he has a few DUI's to boot.
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Other than help them get the best lawyer you can afford, I don't really know.\n\nIf they are in jail, a good lawyer might be more likely to get them out on bail.  They are more likely to rebut the prosecution's case or to come up with evidence to exonerate this person.\n\nIf their bail is too high for them to be released, perhaps you could help with securing a bond.  It all depends on how much you can or want to help.
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When you say have his back what do you mean. Do you mean would i stay with him? or do you mean would I defend his honor?This is one of those questions where you dont really know what you would do until the time comes, but a sex offender is not a good thing never the less sex offenders just like drug addicts, alcoholics, murderers, etc. can be helped and the world should not turn their back on a person because they made a mistake regardless of what that mistake is. Now if they continue to commit the crime or if they are in denial about what they are then that is a different story altogether.
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I know a guy who had this happen to him but by an ex-girlfriend.  He said she even had her mom, who was a nurse make up bogus documents at the hospital saying that she was examined and found to have been raped.  He said it was revenge on her part and that he never did such a thing.  I believe him because if he really did rape her, he would have never even brought it up.  I do not know the girl.  He had know reason to tell me the story other than to confide in me.  He says he hates our gov't and that it is twisted and anybody can do anything just as long as you have the right connections and the right amount of money.  I believe this too.\n\nI suggest two things.\n\n1- You get a lawyer that will represent YOU.  Do some shopping around.  I know you do not have a lot of money but find a way to get some.  Save up, beg, organize a fundraiser.  Don't steal though.  You don't need to make things worse.  Contact news stations and radio stations and talk show host.  Speak out.\n\n2- Do not give up.  Pray.  Believe in yourself and others will believe in you.  No matter what pressure they put you under, or how they try to coerce you, saying "Just admit you did it and legally, it will go easier for you.", do not do it.  It will be better if you are in the end found innocent after a long, long battle than to have everybody thinking you did it and having it on your record for years just because you were under pressure.  My friend never "admitted" and because of that it went very badly for him in jail and with probation and he did not get the priveledges the other guys did because they admitted it.  He was deemed uncooperative.  Under this kind of pressure, you might just want to make up a story just to get them off your back but with the right supports and actions, lawsuit, etc you can win and have it taken off your record.\n\nRemember.  You are the most important person in your life.  Don't ever let anybody put you down.  You have to fight for yourself.
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The first two obviously don't know what the term means, and jp is has erronious information.  Some state's (like Texas) will continue prosecution even if the parents opt out of prosecuting.  \n\nNot sure the jailtime, but one things for sure, he'll most likely be labled a "sex offender" and have to register his address on the state's website for all to see, and he won't be able to live within 1000 feet of a school, bus stop, park, or church.  it's 2000 in some communities.\n\n\nIt would appear that some edu-ma-cation is in order here: \n\nStatutory Rape is CONSENTUAL sex with someone who is not of legal age to give consent.  IOW, it's screwing while in junior and high school for most of the country.
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You have to do something, you can press charges by aking help from organizations that deals with this. They will give you free lawyer, counselling, etc. After he's in jail, forget about him and the hurting experiences, move on girl, you deserve more than him and you should be happy.You are still lucky because he showed his true colors and you're not married yet and without kids. Trust me, it's like hell!\nBe happy girl, you'll find someone who will respect and love you all the way! Best regards!
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He will be charged with failure to register as a sex offender which is a 5 year prison term. Also, if I understand you right, you state he skipped out on probation. So he will also be charged with violating probation and will serve his original sentence for that.\n\nHe will most likely be on probation with GPS monitoring when he gets out of prison. But I imagine that will be quite a few years.
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I was sexually assaulted after my shift was over at a restaurant, by the owner, who was drunk.  A lot went on. I went to the police and reported it, and brought my clothes that I had worn that night.  It was a 3 hour humiliation session.  I was on tape and also written report.  The guy was brought in for questioning, denied everything and basically called me a liar.  The burden of proof was on me.  Since he hired a lawyer quickly, a pal of his who was a former mayor, I had no choice but to drop the case. Unfortunately, I think a lot of women do this. I couldn't put my kids and parents and husband through a long painful trial, and having no real evidence except my testimony.  What goes around comes around, I guess, and he'll get his one of these days.