Why can't i get a boyfriend?
813053
You are basing your self-worth on the acceptance of others.  Once you learn accept who you are for who you are, the rest will fall into place.  Men can sense from a mile away that you are not happy with who you are, and they don't want the baggage/drama.  Relax, and it will happen in good time.
937060
I'd go gay. Well, you can't get a boyfriend just to have one because all you're friends do, you have to actually like him otherwise things aren't going to work, and it would be a really superficial relationship... Just wait for the right time, and you'll find the right person. =)
350235
Hmm it's hard to answer why a single person is single. I'm single too and I'm just as frustrated that I can't find someone and be happy like the rest of my friends. I think what it comes down to though, is you need to be happy with yourself first. When you're not, people will see that and it becomes a turn off or people become afraid of dealing it. Just from reading your question, you sound angry at the world. But really, you're the one that has to make it happen. Work on yourself first and I'm sure that person will find you, notice you. Good luck.
635068
im a girl so yea im anwsering as a friend lol but your really pretty or i mean your avatar i think you have a very good chance of getting a boyfriend if you already dont have one
802209
A few things come to mind reading your dilemma.  If you're actively trying to get guys' attention and it's not happening, then yes, you're obviously doing something wrong.  That's good news!  You can change your own errors easily enough.  If you were doing everything right and it still wasn't working...well, then you've got a problem because you can't change other people.\n\nAppearance and hygiene are critical.  You want a guy of quality?  You better fix yourself up to get him.  Learn to be impeccable in all you do.  That's the easy, shallow part (but books ARE judged by their cover.  Part of life, deal with it).\n\nIs there something wrong with your personality?  Like someone else asked, "are you rude?"  Also, how's your sense of humor?  Your ambition?  These are all things that can drive decent people away from you.  Be optimistic and outgoing as much as you can be.\n\nFinally, just get your butt out there and enjoy yourself.  As a discriminating man, I can tell you that the girls I've really enjoyed in my life were always the ones who were simply fun to be around.  Hell, find guys that you are attracted to and flat out ask them what they look for in a girl.  You'll learn more in a 5 minute conversation than you will asking online.  Good luck, girl.
1091397
You sound like a very charming person; I'm sure that you will find someone soon. With a personality as upbeat as yours, I think you will find that plenty of guys would love to be around you. Good luck!
536938
dont wana sound desperate but u can alway email me lol  im single  ive been single for nearly 4 years now lol i no all my friends think im sad lol  probaly not got boyfriend coz im deaf lol  i mean im 17  4 god sake lol email me at coolmeldude@yahoo.co.uk my name is not melanie it mel ok lov melxx lol
56843
Do not worry about trying to find a boyfriend. Just be yourself. Get involed in 4-H, school, and other local ativities. Someone is bound to respect your abilities and want to get to know you, then see what happens.
130895
hey! i dont know why have a boyfriend! well i dont have a boy friend now! but maybe later i will have one. and it is fun to have a boyfriend so thats why!
235000
Hmm. Tough qestion. Why cant I get a relationship also? HAhax. It's most probably you are too good that people fear to get close to you. They are afraid that they are not good enough for you. Another possible thing is you are too bad and people dont want to get close to you which i doubt is the case. Maybe u r a backgrd figure? IF u are, try to be more vocal and make people notice u. Smile more. Be kind to others. People will realise that u are a good catch. MAke more friends first. DOnt rush in to things. Slow and steady. XD Wish u all the best.
675726
you are insecure with who you are and validate it by hooking up.  or you don't like dating a lot...\n\nhave you tried being alone and figuring out what you like in yourself and others?  try it...
940979
hunn why do you NEEED  a boyfriend? women can be single and survive !
1126640
Well you probably have one of a couple problems.\n\n1) sampling problems.  Where are you trying to find dates?  Are you going places where openly gay people congregate?  Because you're not just going to have the perfect gay guy drop out of the sky.\n\n2) are you openly gay?  I mean really openly gay.  Because once it is common knowledge that you are gay, then most women will stop hitting on you.  \n\n3) are you a loser?  That sounds harsh, but I'm serious.  It is so critically important, in my opinion, for a guy to come to the point where he is happy with himself and his life and is secure and confident in who he is BEFORE he tries to get into a relationship. If he enters a relationship without being confident and secure, then he is only going to dump his problems, his insecurities, and his self pity on the person he tries to end up with. I believe that it is self-pity, lack of self-esteem and lack of self-respect that people find unattractive and hence make some people unable to get dates
726460
Your friend could be jealous of you. She may not WANT you to have a boyfriend, so she's making herself believe different. I'm in the 6th Grade & my friends would never believe me if I told them I had a boyfriend & that's truly awful. Ask her why she doesn't believe you. I'm sure you're a decent-looking little girl & it's rude for her to say that she doesn't believe you'd ever get a boyfriend. Ignore her if she gets real bad about it.
1041038
HI May be you are trying to hard.and being funny all the time they may think you are just one of the boys. and if you are a dare devil. it may put them off. try being more like a girl than a tomboy.and don't be in to much of a rush to get a bf. i bet if you just in-joy yourself with your girlfriends that special  boy will come along.best wishes sammylee,
768413
I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
786159
A lot of boys will only be interested in you if they think they can control you.  You don't want one like that. Being your own person is more important than having a boyfriend. Good luck !!!!!!!!!