I have IC and my school is fighting me all the way,, thay have told my dad to take me somewere else,?
830801
There are laws protecting the rights of disabled students. You qualify as disabled. I have FM at it began when I was 15 (therefore in highschool). If you're living in the US they cannot turn you away from  public schooling. I can't remember exactly what my parents did (I was so sick its all a blur now) but you have to meet with a board of people from the school. You have to bring in doctors etc to prove you really are too sick to attend school as usual. It's called a 504 plan. They then HAVE to amend the curriculum to your personal needs. If they refuse to cooperate with you then you should contact the ACLU or a lawyer. The ACLU might help you out pro bono but I'm not sure. I hope you feel better and I hope they cooperate.
199438
my dear . . . I am soooo sorry.\n\nYour mother is being a jealous . . . possessive b****.\n\nMost parents want their children to succeed . . . but there are a rare few . . . that will try to hold their children back because they don't want them to do better than they have.\n\nWhat is your plan regarding college . . . will you be moving into a dorm.  Probably getting a part time job . . . did you get a scholarship?  The best thing for you . . . is to get out of that negative environment.  I know it is scary . . . but you can do it . . . and you should do it.\n\nIf you are unable to move out . . . just reply back to her . . . just because I am trying to do something better in my life . . . which you could not do yourself. . . either . . . encourage me or butt out . . . because I won't quit and I don't want to be a loser like you.\n\nWell maybe not in those exact words.  But I think you get my meaning.\n\nTake care of yourself.
1098104
Speak to the Dean, and explain your situation. A letter would also help explain how serious the situation is. Make a payment agreement with the school and stick to it, honor your word. Schools are there to help not hinder.
128058
Talk to a guideance couselor of somesort at your school, as i am assuming you are underaged.  They can help you become emancipated. \n\nIf you dont want to talk to your guideance couselor, your doctor might be able to help you as well, they are trained for that.
1134293
Talk to your teacher after class and let them know that this boy bothers you and you would really like to have your seat moved.  Tell your teacher that he is distracting you from doing your best in class.  Hopefully your teacher will understand, but if he/she won't change your seat, you could always talk to the principle or have your parents talk to the teacher.  Good luck!
1097027
Well i guess you already have your answer, NO.  Sorry if it isn't the answer that you wanted.  Your parents have reasons for what they do, and I am sure they have good reasons for not changing your school.
1012581
It's great that your parents are encouraging you to seek further education.  You say you love them too much to hurt them.  That's hard to deal with but you must.\n\nYou know what you want from your education.  You want to seek it in a larger community.  Maybe the larger school offers more of what you are looking for education wise.\n\nAre they saying they won't help pay for tuition if you don't go to the smaller school?  If that's not an issue, research the school you want to attend, make arrangements for a campus visit, and sit down and share this with your parents.\n\nA good admissions advisor will help your parents understand the reasons for your wanting to attend this school.\n\nIf they won't pay for your education anywhere else, there are still Pell grants, scholarships, and student loans.  You could also apply for work study and earn money that way.\n\nIt's your education and your future.  Go for it.
842939
Sweetheart, the problems of your parents are exactly that-their problems.  You are not a cause of it.  I know that you feel like they don't care about you but they choose to have you, I am sorry they yell at you.  Try talking to your school counselor or your pastor.  You are not to blame.  But sweetie, if you run away you don't make the situation any better for anyone.  Life on the streets isn't pretty, you will get hurt!  Please stay home and talk to someone first and if nothing changes there are other alternatives.  Please don't do it.   Someone does care!!
1067583
What are your parents' concerns?  If you can help answer or address their concerns, then maybe they'll let you go.  Or maybe they have legitimate concerns that you have not considered.\n\nI hope you can work it out with your parents.
760353
Maybe change collages? Or tell your Mom why you are scared, just tell the truth.\nMaybe change a certain class as well?\n\nGood luck with everything!=D
693877
Check with School Faculty or Counselor, they should be able to assist you!
828417
Pretend you care but you know you don't inside. Wait till you leave home then you'll be able to do whatever you want. Going against them now might turn into something disasterous especially if you haven't made plans for college yet. Bite your tongue and ignore.
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This was in response to the other question that you removed:\n\nIt sounds like your parents have a lot of their own issues, and they may be taking them out on you.  You are just a kid -- IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT.  Of course, if they ONLY yell and curse when you have done something against their rules, then you need to realize that they will get frustrated with you.  But they should NEVER threaten to hurt you.  If you really get scared for your safety or for someone else in the family, you have to tell someone.\n\nI would recommend talking to someone you can trust outside of your family (school counselor, priest/minister/rabbi, teacher, family friend or neighbor), who can help you learn to cope with what's going on.  In time, you'll want to find a way to approach your parents with your concerns; but that will take some preparation for you to think of a way to talk about it without setting them off.  Or maybe, in a moment of calm (riding in the car seems to be a good time for my son and I to talk) you could say that you are tired of fighting all the time, and suggest family counseling so you can learn better ways to communicate with each other.  \n\nRealize that you and they are humans, and we all make mistakes.  They probably do NOT WANT to hurt you, but they may have their own stress or pain inside of them that they haven't learned to deal with.  For now, try to behave within the rules and don't act out of rebellion (you won't like the result).  Hang in there and remember that with time and patience and love it can get better.
960131
Sorry, honey, they are your parents. Obey them. It sucks, lots of things in life do, but there will always be rules set by those above you, and, sadly, you must follow them.\nNo one ever said life is fair.
843863
If you are in a public school in the USA, your teacher's behavior is completely inappropriate and against code. Please tell a *trusted* adult - hopefully that's your parents. Then, go to your guidance counselor and insist (with the help of your parents) that you get placed with a different teacher.
792621
Let everything cool down tonight but tomorrow sit your father down and be honest and tell him you are scared and worried about what happened. If you have a trusted family member ie. aunt, grandmother, mother then I would let them know what is going on. If this happens again then I would talk to a counsler at school to get them involved before things get out of hand.
351503
Sounds like someone is trying to hold you back. Ask you parents or HelpDesk for further instructions.