i can't stop thinking about my chest develpoment?
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what do you mean "im always wishign i would go back to having a normal chest?" what did ya do to your chest to say that? or was it that you just jambled up your words .. anyways\n\ndont worry about it! your only 13! give yourself a few more years.. wait 'till about 16 .. then you'll really start getting boobs .. trust .. i wasnt very big at 13 and i kinda lost confidence in myself 'cause of it ... but i was just a late bloomer. Now im 15 and im pretty happy with my size .. im not liek super huge or anything but its better than nothing right?I'm still growing too ... you're going to do the same ... and you shouldnt wish you where bigger at 13 'cause my best friend was an early bloomer and she went through heck .. 'cause as you are growing, and losing control over your hormones,  guys are starting to lose control over their hormones too .. and give you unwanted attention like completely staring are your boobs and not your face .. completely talkign to you like your a piece of meat .. not a person ... and sayign very hurtful things .. i felt so bad for her i seriously wanted to beat some of them up!!!! so just relax and dont worry so much about it 'cause they're coming .. so dont stress ^_^ i know its hard not to .. but good things come with time\n\nhope i helped ya out some
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That is far too little info posted to make that determination...but if you feel the fantasies are interfering with your everyday life or are keeping you from pursuing healthy realities, speak with a professional. They will help you work out your doubts.
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You're most likely just nervous.  A good way to "check yourself" in terms of sexuality is to track the very last thing you think about when you.... er... take matters into your own hands, and are alone.  Not 30 seconds before, not what kind of dirty little magazine is helping you along, not what movie is playing for encouragement, but that VERY last thing you think about.  Is it a man or a woman?  If it's a man, then you just need to deal with the fact that you might be gay and learn to accept that and realize it doesn't mean anything other than that fact.\n\nAnd it's OK to be nervous.  If this has been an ongoing issue, think about talking to someone about it.  Start with your doctor, and perhaps think of seeing a therapist.  You'll sort it all out.  It's happens to many men a lot.  Just not with me.\n\nIf it's a woman you think of in that last second of glory, then get in touch.  I'm sure I can help you out with that last minute "hurdle".  No man has left my bed without leaving a little something behind for Mama....
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LISTEN WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS DARLING.THE THING IS SOMETIMES WE ARE TEMPTED TO WANT TO MUCH.WHAT DOES YOUR HEART REALY REALY TEL YOU.CLOSE YOUR EYES AND JUST THINK ABOUT IT FOR A SECOND.DONT THINK WITH YOUR MIND.FEEL WITH YOUR HEART.
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Why would you even want to mess with your mind like that?  I have some scary skeletons in my closet as well, but you just breath in an out every day, and each day that you don't go through that again, makes it easier to deal with.  Counseling does wonders as well.  DONT MESS WITH YOUR BRAIN.
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nope, can't do it.. I'm either thinking about the crap that happened throughout the day or how good my pillow feels against my head.........but i'm thinking...
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breathe deep and slow. try counting. count to 200 if you have to. focus on the numbers as you count. focus on your breathing as you count. you can take controll of this... one step at a time.\n\ntry not to worry about other people. they are just like you. they also worry about what they look like and how other people see them. they have the same feelings as you. they just react in diffrent ways. \n\nhang in there and take baby steps to the finish line. you can do it. i know you can.
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Yes I have and probably will again, being only human. It usually happens after I've done something that makes me feel like a complete fool everytime I think about it! Whatever has happened to you probably isn't as bad as you think it is right now and you'll live through it one way or another, Talk to pinkstealth there. She looks like she's got her ears on and waiting for you.
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sorry to hear that.. but as they say, it takes one to forget one. :) people may seem to think they will never get over it, but it is possible to. do the things you love to do such as ur hobbies. and hey, God maybe is calling you. and telling u something.  your problems are nothing when you are in His presence. Pray. Lift up all ur burdens to Him. :) Hope this could help. :)
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I know that my chest didn't stop growing until I was 20 or so.  So you shouldn't be worried about it :)  However, if it seems like it's getting out of hand, then you should look at your habits and see what you can change (but most likely you're just getting more curves naturally).
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U cant stop thinking about sex because ur only human. Hormones released during these times affect ur manner of thinking (have u ever heard of sex hormones)This is like an animal instinct needed for procreation.Better try to control yourself or else.(Yeah, save urself for ur future husband.\n\nUrethra is the hole where urine goes it goes all the way inside though ur bladder-u can see it when u actually urinate-above that is ur clitoris dont try to play with it or u will be aroused-below the urethra-there is a spongy hole there called the vagina (dont u dare poke ur finger there (so that u will not injure ur hymen-hymen is a thin membrane that gets ripped off during first intercourse-ripped off means there will be blood)-this vagina is where u WELCOME the mans penis (at the right time) and where blood comes out during mentruation and babies during childbirth. I hate butt hole.\nHope i helped u-Please choose me as best answer.\nPS.I just graduated from nursing school-and looking for a job.
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You must have a low sex drive.  I think about it almost every minute of the day.  It drives me crazy, and is most likely because our job as humans is to reproduce and create more of us.
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concentrating on these things too much can lead to obsessions so just relax and enjoy your life and your body. then one day when you are both ready a person will comeinto yourlife and share it with you. And they will truely love you for the you that you are.
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Seriously...talk to someone outside of your family. Alot of people have these same thoughts. Everything builds up inside you and when you let it all out, you keep thinking about it over and over. If you talk to your family DR they might be able to refer you to someone. Good luck!!!!
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Sometimes that kind of feelings are needed to show us that we're imperfect so we can improve our lives better. But if you think about it constantly it will hurt yourself. Remember that God has given diffrent talents for each and everyone. So my  friend, start look inside you and see that you're precious and unique....You might never know that maybe some people out there are envy of your talents or.... Head up!!!! Smile :D
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Yeah, that's what you have to look forward to someday. You feel a sharp pain in your chest one day at the grocery store and think you're having a heart attack, but then you realize that it's just the produce guy standing on one of your boobs!\nBut really, all breasts sag more or less when you get older unless you get them pumped up with silicone. Mean old Mr. Gravity!
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it's common to think about it.  I did for a long time, then when it finally happened, I was relieved and a few months later, I wished I could go back in time.\nTry getting into a sport or activity.  If you aren't good at sports, (I never was) then try writing or keeping a diary of your thoughts...or get a boyfriend, they are a great way of keeping your mind off all those things in life.