In love with a taken women. Does waiting it out work?
819708
Why would you do that to yourself find a girl that isn't going to put you second.
856153
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
1142191
I think you should be "logistically" close.  Then take it from there.  She may still love you.  Maybe she got lonely and needed companionship, but still loves you too.  If you communicated that well, once you are with her face to face, it should come easily and soon you will know how she feels and where you stand.  Get your butt to Tuscan  and see her.  Love like that doesn't come along every day.  It would be awful to let it slip through your fingers without a second chance.
305432
The best thing to do in this case is to just be honest.  If you lead her on you'll just end up hurting more.  Don't be mean about by saying something like "I'd rather wander into rush hour traffic naked than to be with you".  She may get the wrong idea then and it will really hurt both her feelings and definately her self-esteem.  A lot of women I've talked to tell me that they want to feel desirable, so you have to keep that in mind when dealing with her.  Offer to go out on a date or two to see if it works out, but make it clear that it's just a date and that you have not made any formal commitment yet.
207407
No No No this ain't gon play.\n If you really care.  I mean if you really, really care, then acquaint yourself with some of the many many books on the subject and spend some time discovering tthe complexities of making love. Don;t just tke the easy way ou by asking somebody else who has not necessarily got the word on anything but their own possibly narrow experience.\nTake your time and learn the ways of love, Just like you need to with the one you are with. While making love to her,Slow loving attention and showing your appreciation for things that you find particularly attractive and unique about her asking her to let you know what you are doing that she especially likes or would like from you.--all these thing go a long way toward memorable,  mutually satisfying sexual relations.\n  Be attentive to her talk, her clothes, hair, perfume,  her style, her preferences, her needs OUTSIDE the bedroom and all the rest of the time. That's when she learns to regard you as a truly big man. and she develops a stronger longing to be close with you. Follow my advise, make those little efforts throughout the week,  and you wont be sorry when THAT TIME comes. Because love-making begins long before you lie together and if it doesn't, you won't be lying together long if at all.  Believe me .
35405
If you have to wait for "the one" you must ask yourself if he/she believes you too are "the one."\nThere are always always circumstances worth waiting for, but if your "the one" continues to not alter circumstances to desperately be with you in the same way you wish to be with them, you might need to re-evaluate your decision. If the person I knew was my one and only and was miles away.........and needed to find a way to financially or circumstancially find a way to make it to me.......yes I'd wait. If you are talking about waiting until your "the one" left his wife or her husband...........I'm so afraid you might wait and wait without ever gaining the results you hope for. Take a look at the whole picture first. Good luck!
159221
Run away, and run fast.  He is not worth the space in your head.  There are plenty of guys out there who will be proud of the woman they are with, and will not hesitate to let everyone they know that there is someone special that they are spending their time with.  Trust me.
86855
Yes, do it. Get it over with. The longer you wait, the more nervous you will get, and the more of a chance they'll get snatched by someone else. Besides, what's the worst that could happen, you'll be rejected? Any end is better than an unresolved feeling.
397367
Yes. Women need to feel desired. You can't just flirt and get right to the point that you want to @#$# her!! Have some game!! If you 'win' her over don't you think you will eventually get it anyway? Timing is everything. If you flirt with a self respecting woman (not a whore who will drop it like it's hot for a french fry)then yes, she will NEED not want, but NEED you to show her that you desire all of her including her mind, her conversation, as well as her body.
248172
IF what you say is true...\nThen your time will come and you'll get your A#* beat down!!\nYour woman will eventually get the strength and courage to leave you and you'll live a very lonely life.\nPayback will come to you! Just wait!
525888
wait an see? you shoild have went with her , maybe sex maybe not u never know with women what they want
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
156313
Yes. Spend a loooooooooot of time.\nI m not talking abt the time 'with her'. But while you are away too. And that will make you really really close to her, and by this you will even know almost her reaction to situations. They love that feeling,that you 'understand her' more than anything else. And remember....that is a loooooot of quality time! You have it with u? Then ur girl will really love you.
70457
Are any of those 8 worth losing the one that you have in your life. you have to be honest with yourself. everything looks good from the outside looking in. if she believes in you and willing to stick with you, my man, it's a no brainer! put that attention you're putting into thinking about the 8 into your woman and you'll find out this is not even an issue
175347
Why should you care?  She can waste her time all she wants being in love with him.  The key is that your man is in love with you and pays this woman no attention at all.  If she can have any affect on your man then your issue should be with him and not her.
994926
ask her and tell her your feelings and see were it go's cus you are wasten your time with her if you keep waiting on her and nothings going to happen
1136312
Don't rush her, if it is to be things will work out for you in time.  Good Luck :-)