If you have a close friend and you are feeling their pain what does that mean?
821369
you're a true friend... be worried if you don't feel for them
293045
Do you also feel that they remind you of someone in your family/or someone who has been very close to you? Do they have something in common like alcohol addiction?\nIf so, it may have a psychological explanation.
276640
If this person was a true friend, if they are aware they are hurting you, they would stop doing it and appologize.\n\nTherefore, discuss your feelings and work it out.  If nothing changes, this person is NOT a friend, and you can feel free to stop the relationship.
159531
that's when you are most relaxed, and not thinking about other things-you notice it more.\n\nwhat do mean by "hurt"?
671847
Feelings are just that.. feelings.  They are neither right or wrong.  True love can't be made where it doesn't exist and can't hide where it does.  He is feeling that he somehow betrayed his friend.... He should discuss his feelings with him.
294344
Sometimes it can be a cry for help because they don't know how to get the help they need.  Sometimes it can be their way of dealing with the pain they feel inside.  Whether they follow through with plans or not, it is something very serious.  My best friend committed suicide.  I wish that there would have been an attempt prior to the "success," Maybe she would still be here had we known the intensity of the feelings.  To others it might not seem like the person has sufficient reasons to even be considering suicide, but when you are in the midst of those feelings, they are very real and intense.  Make sure your friend knows she is cared about.  Don't walk away even if others do.
262819
Be their friend even if it hurts.
229869
That's exactly what happens to me with a close friend of mine.. \nso i've been thinking about it hard lately .. esp after i tried every way with her.. i talked to her about it many times .. i got mad at her.. i forgave her a thousand times.. so the last thing i decided was to tell her for the last time the way i hate it when she does things that hurt my feelings and told her that now she knows what bothers me and that im not gona talk to her or call her until she thinks deeply about it and realizes that i really get hurt and make sure she wont do it again and is ready to change the way she treats me in order for the past not to repeat itself
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I think he's a great enough friend to tell you exactly what he's feeling. He cares about you, and enough to know that he doesn't want to make you hurt again. You need to understand that he won't be around with you forever. Make some other friends, but never give up your friendship with him. Leave him with his girlfriend and just be as carefree and happy as ever. He's not the end of the world. Maybe you'll get even closer someday.
820430
Yes. And it is amazing that anyone can say that they have because it shows that they care about someone else. I hate to see someone in pain and those close to me, can share the pain with me.
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Very cool question.\n\nWhen a best friend hurts your feelings, it is like a brother or sister hurting your feelings.\n\nFirst you feel shocked, then betrayed, then anger, then sorrow, all at once, or maybe just a few, or one after another.\n\nIt can really make your head spin.\n\nIf your head is really spinning and you can, GET AWAY from this person and cool down.\n\nNow the big secret: WAIT, CONFIDE, WRITE, TELL\n\nWait minutes, or even days. Meanwhile confide in a super confidante like your Mom or Dad, not another friend -- they will blab. This will make you feel a tiny bit better. Write out your feelings on a piece of paper, not in emails or online. When you have all your feelings sorted out, tell the person in private. Finish by saying, I will feel better if you formally apologize to me. But be careful, they may not know that they offended you and may run all around telling everyone you are touchy and too sensitive.\n\nSorry this happened to you. \nHope you work it out.
398110
member friends are forever boys are whatever, \ni know it sounds corny but before you hurt your friend think about what u would feel
176046
it means she is telling you two things .your close friends and she dont want a relationship  now ask her what she means. talk to her.
54020
i can undersatnd why u feel so......i myself hav felt so very often.\ni think u ought to go and talk things out wid ur frnd.coz if u dont do so, sometimes if someday u lose ur friend, u shall regret abt not having given the relationship the care and treatment it needed. no dont avoid her coz of ur pride. but if she avoids u too much even if u hav been a very gud frnd to her,then if i were in ur place i dont think i wud hav continued seekin her attention. i think in suach a cse it wud b better to try and presrve the other frndships tht i hav........
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It means to go through the motions of being with a person.  In fact, even enjoy the time spent together, however do not allow yourself to get emotionally close to that individual.
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What are you feeling?  \n\nDo you sense loved ones?\n\nIf someone in your family, or otherwise close to you has recently crossed over, they might be with you.  They might be trying to contact you.  \n\nGet in touch with what you are feeling: fear, anxiety, exhiliration...if you feel out of control, seek help.
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Unfortunately it is. I remember loving a friend immensely (probably more than I did myself). He never returned my feelings and that unreciprocated affinity was extremely painful and incredibly difficult for me to bear. I'd never loved anyone as much as I did him but he simply never returned my feelings for him. There was really nothing I could do about it, except cut our ties and create a healthy distance. Even a friendship would have been too hard for me to bear.\n\nMaybe you should interpret this "friend"'s behavior as a sign that he doesn't feel for you the same emotions that you do for him. Let him go. You deserve someone who loves you equally :)