My girlfriend broke up with me 5 days ago and still hasn't told me why. Should I ask her friend?
813500
You didn't invite over for thanksgiving dinner, so she can me your family.
133388
Yes yes, this just recently happened to me. I stopped talking to the girl because she dumped me for some dude. then as soon as she breaks up with him it's "I'm sorry I never meant to hurt you it's was all me. I didn't want to bring you down with me." So I am like cool I haven’t talked to you in a couple of months. She is all like I would like to be friends then I like cool let go do something give me a call. I haven’t talk to her since.\n\nIt's because she wants to let there be a possibility of a future when and if she wants it. Also she doesn't want me blaming myself for her dropping me like dog poo.\n\nYeah this situation totally sucks if you cared for the girl. But the best thing that I have found to do. Is forget her and find the next one.
1164684
Guess she thought you were way too good for her or maybe she was cheating on you and you didn't know about it or she went back to her ex. Could be any of these... if you really want to know your answer than get a hold of her and ask her why did she treat you like this... u certainly did not deserve this! and now you do deserve to know the answer... ask her rather than assuming stuff!
173315
It might be that she really cares about you,\nbut chances are that she is on the rebound...\nand since you have been "caring" for her for a long time she might use that to have 'someone' in her life until she and x gets back or until something new comes along...\n\nI had a boyfriend for two years, we broke up and in a matter of days i started dateing on of my best guy friends... it didnt last very long coz i realized i was just using him to get over my x
289669
Laugh at them. I mean, she couldn't handle being single and fell into a rebound relationship that is doomed for failure. It's painful, I know, but don't worry. You're over her, what she does shouldn't bother you. Let her find another guy, let her screw up that relationship, and push her from your mind. You'll find someone else soon enough.
338566
It all depends on your relationship situation, the reason(s) for your separation, and your girlfriend's friends. Ask yourself if they understand the reasons as to why you are ending the relationship and it also depends if they are shallow enough to just hate you just because you are separating. If you did anything to cause the breakup like cheating on her or anything negative at all then you should'nt be surprised on their reactions towards you.
664878
Confront her on it.  Maybe something came up.  Maybe she was blowing you off.  You never know unless you ask.  Do go around wondering "What if?"
825018
have you done something that could annoy her? or probably she's having second thoughts on breaking up with his ex. maybe you should give her some time alone. but keep the communication line open. text her from time to time (but not too much), ask her how she is. but do not annoy her by texting too much. if this scenario continues for days, try giving her a letter and express how you really feel. tell her you really like her but having second thoughts on pursuing cause she might think you're taking things too fast. just be honest.
610582
you should ask her if she wants to hang out some time and stay close to her and when they do break up you should be there for her and then when shes over the crying bs then u should ask her out
1114393
no, if you just broke up she should maybe give you some time. If she talks to you everday, it will seem like before. So at first it's probably not a good idea. But if its been a while then its fine if it doesn't bother you.
876829
I would jsut talk to the girl and tell her what i think is going on between them and let her decide if she wants to break up with him or not because if you cause a break up and your freind finds out she might be angry with you!
975168
She may be guilty that she had hung out with you so much even before she had been dumped.  The girl may also think that her boyfriend dumped her because she had been so close with you.  I don't think you should push anything or talk to her right away about it.  Give her time and if she ever needs to talk, imply that you will always be there for her.  That's most important and casually smile or say hello to her when you see her around.  You shouldn't do anything drastic or you will confuse and scare her away.  Good luck on this, I know relationships are hard!
871441
First of all, confront her about it.  If it still doesn't work out, then she's not worth it.  It's not every day that you find a guy that's willing to work through the hard times.  I know I haven't found one yet.  You deserve so much better if she's willing to give up on a seven month relationship just because of her friends.  I wish you luck.
276036
she was probably confused.  thinking what is she doing and then feeling guilty.  maybe she wasn't over him yet.  it took me 5 years to get over my ex.  this kinda stuff doesn't happen over night dood.  dont take offense.  just try to be a good friend and supportive. good luck!
303642
I think it would be better off if you stayed friends. She has just been dumped by her boyfriend. You are getting ready to go away to college. Congrats! Anyway, this girl needs time to heal with the current breakup situation. She is too young to be concerning herself with breaking up with the boyfriend, the pain of being dumped, getting a cool new boyfriend who is only going to be around for a couple of more months. Be her friend. Try not to initiate anything more. This girl has enough to deal with already. Take care.
329723
Dear Sobby, Your question lacks some information. I would need more info to answer honestly and effectively, like why did you break up? How long were you together, and how long have you been apart? But vaguely i can tell you that if you are sure she is not interested in you anymore then you should move on, There are plenty of "fish in the sea" and hurting your self will not accomplish anything but getting yourself hurt. It will not make her feel any different.  As far as concentrating on your studies, it is imparitive that you keep your thoughts on them as much as possible. If you fail at this it could cause a chain reaction in your life that will cause you to fail at other things, and will also make you feel like hurting yourself even more. You seem like an intelligent person, so you should act as you are and move on.  If she doesnt' want you, find someone else, Its not easy, but it gets easier with time.
966868
Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she's trying to tell you something in a different way. Honesty is the best answer  so sit down with her tell you how you feel about what she's doing and ask her why she's doing it. Maybe she does want a break up or maybe she just wants your attention and some special time together. You won't know till you try but I'd see whats up before permanent damage is done to your relationship.