What do you do if your son is in jail for this?
824320
Sorry to say this -- but LET HIS REAR END SIT IN THE JAIL CELL and ROT ... \n\nThat is the ONLY way he is going to GROW UP ... and if YOU or others continue to cover up and enable his abuses (and he is NOT held responsible for his conduct), then he will NEVER grow Up!\n\nYOU need to be strong -- and say NO!  NO! I will NOT post your bond.  NO! I will NOT cover up for you anymore.  NO! I will NOT pay your bills.  NO! I will NOT pay for your attorney fees.  NO! I will NOT take the cost of the Phone Calls you make from Jail pleading and cursing at me for the Bond money/  \n\nNO!  YOU, my son, are on your OWN -- and YOU will be RESPONSIBLE from this time forth.  YOU totalled the car, YOU destroyed Privat Property, and you do Drugs.  \n\nDO THE TIME NOW ... and get yourself clean.  The pocketbook is dry, no more will I be the VICTIM here, and no more will I enable your irresponsible conduct.
826140
Google "fathersrights"  there is a lot of free advice and links to help dads. See if there is a local chapter in MO where he can get legal advice and suggestions on line.Thousands of dads are fighting to be active in their kids lives, from jail and a lot of ex's goal is to keep them in there by filing OPs and having them arrested under false charges. Tell him to hang on and never give up!
627435
call your jail or prison system and ask them.
1034333
You are best to let him get a jail house lawyer( an Inmate who is well read on the laws) He can guide you in the right direction. Your husband should know this if he has already been locked up for 3 years. He can file all of his own appeals first and see where it goes from there. Good Luck
129129
You've gotta make a stand on this one. If you're really up to it - rally the others who got molested years before. Then make a fight on this. That guy deserves the worst. Jail just doesn't justify...
895380
i agree with christoph...s. Call the police. This situation is one in which you cannot control any more than he apparently can. This is not behavior that should be tolerated. If he goes to jail it might save his life and your sanity ! at least in jail he will have no choice, but to stop using. And also they have NA (narcotics anon.) meetings and some sort of re-hab services available to him. I know it's a hard decision to make but I wish I had done that for my husband, He died due to a cocaine overdose and I was a widow at age 27, Please think about it. God Bless you and your dad.
19915
There is a wonderful support and information group at http://prisontalk.com\nAmong the members are many people in the same situation you're facing.\nI've got a "someone special" locked up, too, and this group has helped me a great deal.
498956
No you are not one sided you have a voice of concern he needs to be told about what he is doing and to be made to understand the consequences behind his actions or else. That simple!\n\nIt sounds like to me that mom's is giving out excuses for his behavior and she too needs a reality check to or else she will be in for a lot of heartache herself.\n\nMy best advice to you is if mom's don't want to handle the problem then you step in and let him know what the score is!\nBut he needs to be told and told soon before he goes to prison for a long time or wind up dead somewhere.\n\nBut somebody has to step up to the plate on this and help him because he sounds like he is in some real problems, and he doesn't know it yet.\n\nYou be that person to do what has to be done, just to save her and him from pain.\n\nGood luck:)
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http://prisontalk.com/forums/index.php\nSomeone here will be able to guide you through this silly maze and help you reestablish contact with your son.\nGood luck.
343044
He will have a bail hearing.\n\nThey you can bail him out until the trial.\n\nI recommend you call a lawyer now.
138791
Call the jail and ask when you can visit, or how to write a letter to soandso. Often they won't tell you if someone is there but if you act like you already know, they'll give you other information.
382547
He's CRAZY you cant expect him to be logical.  Hes in jail and cant do anything about it, but still has the right to be upset you did something you didnt want him to do.  Get the rest of the $$ and be more responsible next time.
623684
GO TO YOUR STATES CIRCUIT COURT ACCESS SITE , HE WILL BE HELD UNTILL THE COURT DATE SHOWN ON THERE IF HES NOT SENT BACK TO JAIL FOR LONGER OR CALL P.O
1139962
dont worry, relax, if his father takes him off, he will go to jail. i'm sure your son is going to enjoy having some time with his dad.
501374
Go to the bail bonds man?\n\nApproach the prosecutor?\n\nI have no idea, really, but kinda wondering why you want to send the relative back to jail. Is he/she breaking the law again? If so, contact the prosecutor, cause you can lose whatever you gave as the bond. Whether it is just money, OR a piece of physical property, i.e. your house.
962604
Good luck!It's not gonna happen,the prison won't tell you if the person is in there.They cannot give out that type of information.They will assume you are trying to help the person break out or are after the person for some type of vendetta.
38730
The only way is if a police officer pulls him over. You can always contact the police department and tell them. But he has to be driving at the time. So pretty much you have to follow him, call the police and tell them "someone" is driving reckless on the road. And since this is being your husband. Why do you want him in jail? The best thing to do is to get him some help.