How should i deal with hate mail from a colleague, particularly if i know who it is?
819626
Forward all of them as attachments to their boss if it is email and they are using their account.
439201
I can imagine how complicate it is to have such a person in your environment. Sometime it could be a member of your family, your spouse, and then it is much more complicate. \n\nIf you have such a person in your workplace, just remember one important thing; DO NOT feel sorry. \n\nHe/she is not so poor and weak and self-victimizing persons survive in this world very well. They use their "victim position" to manipulate with people, to emotionally and morally blackmail them, what is very exhausting. People in their surrounding usually feel confused, guilty, exhausted. They feel like they cannot help them, cannot do or say the right thing...\n\nDon't let him/her drag you in his/her vicious circle. If you find yourself feel sorry or sad, stop it. Don't empathize and don't try to help or offer the solution. Try to concentrate on your work and let her know it from the very beginning of your working day. If she starts to talk about problems, listen to her politely to some extend, then show her that you "accept" and "understand" what she told you and then either change the subject or tell her that now you have to concentrate on your duties. You can eventually tell her that she is the one who has to resolve her problems and that you cannot help her, but don't let yourself be a part of her problems. And don't be surprised if she reacts on it as if you are not empathic enough, you don't understand her or something like that. This is a usual strategy to make you feel guilty, because SOMEBODY HAS TO BE GUILTY, for her. Stay out and remember that it is not easy. If nothing helps, talk with your superior to eventually move you to another office.\n\nadditional details:\nYou obviously know him very well. You said that those persons are like chameleons and are very good in that. That is exactly the characteristic of manipulator. Don't blame yourself for feeling sorry and offer a support. It is normal human reaction and every normal person would do that. But if you feel permanently guilty and exhausted in communication with him, stop it. YOUR guilty feelings and exhausting are sure signs that you have a problem with manipulator. NOBODY HAS A RIGHT TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE THAT.
594821
Forward it to abuse@yahoo.com  You'll first get an automated reply. Then, if it's about another yahoo user, they'll tell you action has been taken.
102317
I haven't figured out a guaranteed way, but you can try sending an e-mail to their userid@yahoo.com.  This should work in many cases.\n\nNote, don't send them anything harassing or you could lose your Yahoo privileges.
831342
You have another colleague going through the same thing? Document everything, send memos when you do the work, stick together; and do not directly get into it with this other (passive) person, but relax, be aware and back each other when this person starts trouble for you. They will be found out. Never fear.
794492
Take your case to DHL executive officers, start an e-mail crusade. Nothing a company hates more is a person on an e-mail crusade.
351414
Someone didn't like the answer I gave to their question and wrote me this really NASTY email. It was full of insults, name-calling and was just downright hateful. I wrote back defending my point. I wasn't trying to convince him to agree with me, but to let him know I have a right to my opinion. Now, after several more correspondences, we have called a truce and decided to stay in touch with one another. After sweeping all the ugliness aside, I made a new friend, so it was worth it.
423850
Ask them not to send you emails like that. Tell them it bothers you. If they are really friends, they will understand, and respect your wishes. If that doesn't work, filter them into the junk/spam bin.
119282
hi you should first have th ability to know people who hate theirselves and people who hate , the next step is to know hhow to handle both groups be copassionate with pople who hate theirselves because thy have their inner problems and they are much coplex than those who hate who are also disturbed . you should not avooid such people or neglect them instead face them .
200498
Sure you can report it .But it would have to criminal before they do anything.The best thing to do is report and document the letter by copying as prove. And block that e-mail address .I know it won't stop it ,but it will show harassment which is criminal.If you think it is child pron and you have an ideal who it might be ,then it's your duty to report things like that to the police.If they think it's worth following up they'll contact Yahoo.
714121
Haven't read your last question but one thing for sure, you shouldn't hate someone because they got in there first. You are using the word 'fancy' so it sound that the person is only an acquaintance. Don't fret over it. Go out tonight and I'm sure you'll spot someone who's not already taken. Good lick, sorry good luck. Freudian slip there.
1001117
You need to be honest and have good ethics.  You need to not be bias in you way of thinking.  No matter how bad you hate someone when you are dealing with them, you cannot show it.
14764
Report abuse, or what i would do is send them a threatening e-mail.\nOK I WOULDNT DO THAT.
863721
Ally hunny...if you don't trust this person then it's best to reply and tell her she has the wrong email address...OR you could ignore her...if she's acting like a bunny boiler then it's best to just steer clear of her, she may be nice for a short time, then turn into a nut case later....trust your instincts and just ignore her message....don't answer it...delete it and put a block on hers so she does not contact you again
585296
don't let them get to you.. I got more enemy's than I care to count..life is too short to worry about this, if they hate you, their loss :)
647853
You could always reply to this e-mail,as To Whom this may concern,and the letter following it. Good Luck,but after you touch bases on the phone they would most likely say this is Mr so and so,or Ms so and so,and you will find out that way. Or,you can ask the secretary if this is female or male,that you are do business with....Good Luck to you..Dimples(female)
1156773
Boy have I.  Just don't do what I did and make an ass of yourself through e-mail.  If you're going to risk anything do it to their face so you can at least gauge what their reaction really is while you are in the middle of it.