OK. We all know men are tempted to sin by large breasts as well as by short skirts and thong underwear....?
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Mav is roling her eyes at you!
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I have often wondered this, too. I found a pretty good article on the subject, if you would click on the link below. It doesn't really promote it, but it doesn't condemn it either. It, basically, lets you take a look at the reasons in your heart for doing it, and where you stand with God. \n\nThe Bible warns us against getting wrapped up in our looks, but it also says that we should try to make ourselves look good for our husbands (different words of course).\n\nIn response to Catlins Playhouse's remark, sin is sin. I say that because of her comment "do you think God is going to be mad at you when all these other people..." God will judge us based on His laws and the convictions He places in our hearts. If you go to have cosmetic surgery and you feel the Holy Spirit urging you not to, but you do it anyway, you will be judged on that. \n\nI'm not telling you not to do it. I think you should pray about it. God will let you know.
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As my friend RON White says  there is no such thing as a homophobe because all men are gay to a point....First He asks his cousin does he like Porn....cousin says yes...do you like women on women again he says yes then he asks do you like men with women who have small genitalia or men with large genetalia.Of course without thinking he reponds that he like to see men with large genitalia....My point exactly......lol
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Christians are humans and tempted in many ways.  To say a "True Christian" would not have this problem is narrow minded and false.  \n\nThis is a very real problem and I'm not sure that castration would solve it as men have pleasure sensors inside of them as well.  If you are struggling, then you need prayer and a strong support team.  I would try this first rather than going to such drastic measures as castration.  However, it is an interesting concept.  I guess if it remains a "thorn in your side" so to speak, then yes, it would be something to consider.
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I'm not judgmental and I won't quote the Bible. I've got a lot of friends who have heard or even experienced that! It's somethin' perfectly normal, the breast being full of nerve endings and highly sensitive. It can not be called pedophilia in any way! Those who think different better read some more before talkin'!
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This is NOT about being judgmental or how you are seen in the eyes of God. It's more about understanding the weaknesses of those around you and showing respect for them when they are trying to focus on God. Men are visual beings who struggle with lust all the time. We are constantly bombarded with sexual imagery in advertising like no other generation. Marketers know what they are doing because its hard for us not to look twice at half naked woman. Just as you wouldn't ask a thief to guard a pile of diamonds for you  at church or have a substance abuser look at the substance they abuse- the same respect and understanding should be applied to revealing clothes at church. Its not about weather your clothing is inherently sinful (it isn't), its about understanding the struggles of those around us and asking the question, "Am I helping or hindering their worship?"
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Thats just how god made you!!! Some are big, others are small. May be hereditary... And i dont think it would be fun at all if every man had the same size penis!
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This is a difficult issue, I'm afraid. The Old Testament forbids sex between men. There is a passage (Romans 1)quoted by many Christians, which apparently says that God hates same sex sex - if you can get you head around that double. However, if you read it properly, it's condemning people who are so sexually jaded that they will try anything once, so to speak.\n"18The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, 19since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. 20For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities--his eternal power and divine nature--have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse. \n21For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles. \n24Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator--who is forever praised. Amen. \n26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion. \n28Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done. 29They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. " \nNOTE - the bad words aren't homophobic - they are directed at the whole society. Some of the bad things are symptoms of a whole attitude.\nAs a Christian myself, I don't know what God thinks about same sex love. But I know he does love the lovers - whatever. \nI think Christians could be more loving in their approach to those with homosexual feelings. \nI think that's what makes gays and lesbians so angry and upset. Honest confusion is to be preferred. It's God who will judge people's hearts, not us!
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Does this sura actually tell you that Islam is against hetrosexual activity?? I'm not sure how you got that one\n\nYou might want to think about what your question really is. My question to you is: What is wrong with this verse??? Are you really saying you have a problem with women of a certain faith dressing in a way that dosn't show their cleavage etc?? \nMaybe you can't handle the fact that not all women just want to wear skimpy clothing when with men that arn't family!!! Heres an idea:\nGet over it!!!!!!!
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Whoops, I meant:\n\nhttp://www.cathedralofhope.com/homosexuality/index.php\n\nEDIT: Interesting, Servant of God... you first put "God" instead of "Gay" as being a lust...\n\nFreudian Slip, perhaps?
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I think us Atheists should remind the good ol' christians that Gluttony is a sin too. So, whenever you see a fat christian, be sure to tell them they're going to hell with the homosexuals. It's only fair, RIGHT? ;-)
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The bible says LITERALLY that lust is a sin.  Your reasoning is very good...  It is ok to appreciate someone for their body, but not to follow up on it.
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Yes dear - of course you can - I've been telling women on this site about this very same issue - but they seem reluctant to believe that probably many of their 'straight' husbands are doing the same thing when they are out!  So, the sooner these women realize that this is nothing to do with homosexuality the better!\n\nGood luck
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No. God never specified that looking at a naked woman was against his laws. However, in Matthew, Jesus states (in relation to adultery) that if you lust after a woman in your thoughts, then you are just as guilty as if you have sex with her. You can lust after a woman with her clothes on or off, but any male (that's honest) will tell you that it is much easier to lust over a naked woman than a clothed woman.\n\nSo no, it's not against God's law, but it's not a very good idea. Like taking an alcoholic to a bar, it's just better to stay away from that kind of temptation.
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There is nothing wrong with a guy wearing thongs! The last post is absolutely wrong. Girls can wear them and so can guys, and I mean straight guys. I have been in the presence of several girls and they like them. I have a body to show them and they appreciate it. Enjoy!
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I think what they wear doesn't determine their sexual orientation.  There are straight men who enjoy wearing women's underwear for the excitement of it being "naughty" and the thought of "getting caught".  \n\nI would venture a guess that the vast majority who do this are straight or bi, and not as many are gay.  Not sure why I think this, and I've never dated a man who's wanted to wear my undies.  I guess it's just based on the psychology of it.  \n\nEither way, if it makes the guy happy and their partners enjoy it, too, more power to 'em!
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Of course not! what gave you that idea?!\n \n Romans 1:26-26 "That is why God gave them up to disgraceful sexual appetites, for both their females changed the natural use of themselves into one contrary to nature; and likewise even the males left the natural use of a female and became violently inflamed in their lust toward one another, males with males,working what is obscene and receiving in themselves the full recompense, which was due for their error." \n\n1 Cor 6:9 "What! Do you not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God's kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men."\n\n God hates fornication and homosexuality and lesbianism.  Anyone who practices those things will not inherit God's Kingdom.