Should I give up on him?
817063
Explain to him that you are flattered by the attention he is showing you and you are pleased that he likes you so much because you feel the same way, but you know he has a girlfriend, and until that changes and he's "single" again, the flirting has to stop.  He'll respect the fact that you don't want to break up a relationship or get him into trouble with his girlfriend, and you aren't putting any pressure on him - you're merely being honest.  Always take the high road.  If he is being honest with you, and he wants to pursue a relationship with you, he will move on from his current relationship.  If he doesn't, you'll know that his flirting was just that and nothing more.  Good luck!
112351
u should give up with ur boy.\nforget him\nlife must go on..\nso be happy always..
47740
Honey I'm not sure what to tell ya.  Don't give up on him.  Do you have anyway to contact him?  You should tell him how you feel.  I don't know why he hasn't talked to you in a month.  That concerns me a little.  Like I said, don't think bad, think good.  Hope things work out for you.
366708
He isn't worth your time. It sounds like he is too immature for you. And I am sure you can replace him. You go girl.
436665
They always say if at first you don't succeed try again so basically I think you should. Hopefully after so many tries he'll give you a chance. On the other hand, if he told you he's not interest than maybe you should try friendship as an option. It's best to be there for him somehow even if it's not the way you want. I am sure the right man will come along soon or he will come to it don't sweat it!
313842
So basically he ditches you?  That's pretty ridiculous, why do you put up with it?  You're just wasting your time.  He obviously doesn't like you if he isn't even willing to spend time with you.  Dump him, seriously.  Stop wasting your time on someone like him.\n-L
163860
Try to do the right thing. Forget him. You belong to someone else. You already know that. Why ask?
1121997
You should move on.\n\nYou cannot force someone to love you.
377988
Your best bet is to move on, now!  He was probably silent from the time he talked about marriage and visiting you until now, because he had other "coals in the fire" and they didn't work out.  If there was a period of "silence" he was looking for a quicker or better way to get here.  He is using you, from the little bit of info you stated, and believe me, he is not serious!  You should move on and live your life and resolve your feelings for this "fantasy man".  Good luck to you in whatever you decide, because it is your ultimate decision, and believe me, I know letting go will be painful and confusing, but since you asked for advice, I think deep down in your heart you know he is using you.  God Bless.
55354
It is not meant to be..move on..find a hobby and forget him..
835628
you have to come on here for an answer??? Leave the relationship behind if it isn't what you want anymore. Move on.
1001867
talk to him. if you really wanted to be with him you should not have told him you gave up that's not the key to get someone never give up where does giving up get you right back to the start and nothing is accomplished i understand that you may love him but the only thing really you can do is talk to him and don't ever give up\n\nGOOD LUCK
1013490
First of all, you don't owe him a thing.  Secondly, do you really want to be friends with him?  Sounds to me like any friendship you might have would only make it harder for you to break things off, and your heart will just get trampled.  You know the score.  You know he's not going to settle down.  As hard as it might be, the best thing to do is ignore his calls for now until you're stronger, because most likely he will not take no for an answer, and will manipulate you and use guilt to continue to get his way.  Don't forget he has other girls to fall back on.  Best to let him go now with your pride, dignity, and heart still in tact.
211348
Say NO. And, if he continues to pressure you, you may need to break it off. He should be satisfied with holding your hand, spending time with you, and building the foundation for a great future together.
56706
Don't give up. Keep on doing sweet things to him. It worked for one night, it can work for another night. You need to be patient. A good relationship needs hard work, nothing is easy. Have faith and good luck.
56532
Ask yourself, "is there anything I wouldn't do or give up for this person?"  \n\nImagine your life without him/her.  Then, imagine spending the rest of your life with him/her.  Listen to your gut!
998473
Leave him. You can do better.