Why do girls get upset when guys like me pressure them to stay perfectly thin?
826524
cuz guyz like u are assholes
101250
Most men are just as sensitive as women but conceal that for a lot of reasons. To other men sensitivity is a weakness and no guy wants to be looked at as weak. Some girls take advantage of sensitive guys. In many cultures men are still not supposed to publically cry. I could go on but you get the idea.
347148
becuz really they like u alot n its too hard 4 them 2 show that side of themselves in front of their friends....they dont want 2 be made fun of or 2 look weak' when in reality, when ur not around, all they can do is talk about how great u are n beautiful n perfect...its just hard or them 2 be so gushy when their guyz are around usually cuz they dont want YOU to think that they are lame!
571112
They probably have low self esteem because they think that being skinny is the most important thing and they are looking for outside validation they need to learn whats on the inside and they have more than just looks we all have talents . Also I think low self esteem is caused by a bad childhood or that are depressed from a traumatic experience. They think that being thin will make them happy and everyone love them but just because others think tell you something you have to believe it yourself and not depend on looks or people for self esteem.. It's not about the size. I have seen some fat chicks who love themselves and think they are so hot., it's seems like its the most pretty girls that do not love themselves
195143
Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
451667
its a guy thing, they dont want it to seem like u beat them and got the girl so instead of being the guys "who got rejected" they claim they never wanted her in the first place.. hence they didn't lose out to you !!
1130565
Women are insecure and they need to justify their themselves by testing men.  I think guys don't prove themselves on their own so when a women is feeling insecure she needs to test her man's feelings for her.  If guys were more open and showed their feelings and love for women they way they want, girls wouldn't have to find out for themselves
436818
Yeah, generally you don't wanna do something that might upset her/him or turn them away from you. So you feel insecure. Nothing wrong with that, it shows they're too important to lose.
441914
Because alot of women are insecure and want control of situations that either hurt them or make them feel vulnerable. They will get really defensive and try to assign blame in order to maintain control. Men on the other hand feel more out of control when they actually let out what they are feeling so they just try to avoid the whole thing so that they don't lose their own feeling of security. Basically people in general don't understand why the opposite gender reacts the way it does and thus arguments are born.
969742
Because these guys are older than you, they think that you will automatically worship them. If a guy thinks he can get what he wants by asking, he will ask. Just say no, and mean it. Don't ever give in, like a child, once they know they can get what they want from you by pestering you, they will do that to get what they want. Don't ever let a guy pressure you into something you don't want to do because it is what girls his age do or whatever. Be careful! Hope this helps!
900585
Well, you know guys and their EGO , not a lot of guys are sensitive than you are,they think  that when you get really cheesy , you're losing your manhood...they are wrong . it's actually more appealing to women if they see the sensitive side of a man than trying to keep it to themselves and feel sorry for it later.
883059
they think you have  an eating disorder or  diet obsessed generally if you dont eat. Some  might get grossed out if  you  pigged  out and  ate more than them, others might think it was cool . If they go out to  dinner with you,  they brought you  out to dine with them,  something they usually love  to  do EAT! they want you to enjoy it with them not watch them as you poke at a house salad and diet coke. If you  date a guy for a while  it becomes easier to just go out like you normally would with a friend.
715575
They are probably just scared of you losing weight. Your obviously already a very pretty girl and they might just be jealous and worried. I would DEFINITELY cheer my friend on....heck I'd probably work out with her and we'd lost it together!! YOU GO GIRL!! YOUR AWESOME!!
1067060
Wow!  When compassion was  handed out, you sure didn't get any!\n\nPeople with a weight problem will get upset because:\n1. they know about their weight and aren't happy\n2. they don't want to be overweight but maybe due to health issues can't control it\n3. the older you get, the harder it is to lose weight...especially if you are female\n4. the comment is rude, obnoxious and cruel\n\nNever judge someone until you have walked in their shoes.  You  might be a thin thing now but just wait...your day will come and then see how you feel when someone is callous enough to call you fat.
1067653
Usually girls act this way when they are jealous. She is probably insecure of your beauty, friends, something like that. So she has to do immature things to make herself feel better. There's really nothing you can do about it. Be above it and ignore her. You will look like the bigger person. Plus it will drive her crazy when she realizes she can't upset you.
453039
they act like theyre better than you because they know that they are not. then they treat you badly to make themselves feel better about themselves. its a defense mechanism they use to make themselves always feel "on top"
775705
if guys are insecure about certain things, they sometimes joke about or "jokingly" criticize themselves, kinds fishing for compliments....typically if they bother u about it alot, theyre insecure...it sounds like this guy has been hated alot....so he's just checkin to make sure ur not tired of him yet, and he doesnt think that u'll like him very long....