suggestion for having safe sex w/o having pregnant and not using the external conterceptive technics?
816684
You might want to consider the extremely effective "zipper" technique.  Don't unzip!!
597912
I just got back from Africa where too many people with no money and many with illness and some with HIV are having too many babies. Condoms are widely promoted and easily attainable, and seem to be the answer. But most still don't use them and I can sympathize. For me the lack of feeling with erases the intimacy and I am lucky if I can maintain an erection. It's like I am moving back and forth with a strap-on and all out of sync because I have no nerves to guide me. But the pull-out method is far too risky because small drops of semen can sometimes seep out before ejac. especially when a guy is really trying fend off orgasm. My advice is this:  Only have sex with one, safe partner. Get on birth control or limit yourself. I enjoy going down on my girl much more than having sex with a condom. Sometimes I'm lazy, but I can just put my tongue there and make her do most of the work. There are a lot of things that don't involve intercourse that are very under-rated. And when you know he is the one and you are ready for children, it will be that much better. If you continue to use condoms look for the thinnest ones. Some aren't that bad and if a guy prematurely ejaculates, they might help him last longer. I wouldn't suggest the non-latex Durex Advanti unless you feel guilty enjoying sex at all. It will be kind of like having a dead leg.
621059
Fetal position...curl up in it and dont come out of it...keep your virginity girl!
50430
I think the best way to control having sex is use protection but you can still get pregant. If you take birth control make sure you consult with you doctor because there are some serious side effects. Please listen cafully know that having a relationship not just having sex. Make sure that you talk to you partner about this issue. If he only interested in sex then you can wait.
226357
If you're having a normal pregnancy, sex is considered safe during all stages of the pregnancy. Sex is not harmful to the baby at all. As long as you are feeling well and your doctor hasn't told to avoid sex due to a medical risk, sexual intercourse and orgasm might even be beneficial. I have supplied many links for articles written by DOCTORS.....all say sex and pregnancy is fine for almost all people. \n\nhttp://kidshealth.org/parent/pregnancy_n...\n\nhttp://www.babycenter.com/general/pregna...\n\nhttp://vanderbiltowc.wellsource.com/dh/c...
302784
first of all how far along are u and have you told your parents?If so the first thing you need to do is keep your cool if you stress you could lose the baby then u need to work on eating habits try to eat healthier and i wouldn't try to have sex unless it's approved by  your doctor okay
241216
Here's a start ask about where did i leave my remote control or what should i wear tomorrow or even ask if i have sex without protection will i have a chance to become pregnant or recieving a STD.There's a starter kit for you.-lol-
65229
ok well to be honest, i would think the condom is the best way to prevent pregnacy for a woman that you want to get involved with. Itz pretty good to Std's too. Pills or anything else has some side effects that can be hazardous to a person's life. i would stick with the condoms
569801
No condoms aren't the safest alternative, abstinence is. If you don't have sex, you can't get STD's or anyone pregnant. However, if you're going to have sex, please please please wear a condom, always! \n\nAnd wear it the first time you put it in..none of that let's wait till I'm ready crap..you can get seriously sick that way.
1131292
DO NOT MAKE BABIES PLEASE. Enjoy sex responsibly.
1178738
All I can say and for surety.. there is no REAL safe thing to do. That is.. you take a risk whether it is a pill for contraception.. using a condom, or the morning after pill, etc.The chances that the above methods WILL work are about 95% in your favor but there is always that 5%..
383652
tell them about safe sex
779162
Barrier methods, such as condoms, diaphragms, etc.\n\nOr, the natural family planning, where you learn to recognize the times of the month where you would be fertile (by checking mucous thickness, vaginal temps, etc.) and avoid sex during those times.
88805
Unless you're just dying to be OSTRACIZED, BAREFOOT and PREGNANT, tell him to DO IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE! And don't buy into this "COMFORTABLE" crap. \n\nOral sex and "hand" work may not get you pregnant - but chances are excellent that they WILL get you a QUICK REPUTATION as a SL*T... Boys and girls have one thing in common: They LOVE to TALK/BRAG to their friends - and their friends just LOVE to TALK, PERIOD.
485928
rent some romantic movies, get some strawberries, get some sparkling cider, the kind that doesn't have any alcohol content in it, and have an evening together just relaxing and enjoying each other's company. u can give each other massages, though be careful of ur belly, bc if a pregnant woman is massaged on her tummy, it can lead to premature labor.  Good luck, and congrats!!
1081069
wear a condom and pull out or not having sex at all.
462836
The smart thing to do is be on birthcontrol and use a condom cause even if ur on thepill u still dont weanna have sex with out a condom cause the risk of disease and you can still get pregnant... I know this for a fact!!!