should i still be his girlfriend?
828750
Do you see him on the weekends, or talk to him on the phone? I used to date a wrestler, and I barely saw him during the winter. But I knew he still liked me, because he would try and call me every night, and if we couldn't find time to just hang out, we would spend time together doing HW on the weekends.
755156
i think you just came out of an abusive relationship and you need some affection which this guy might be giving..lets not forget that this guy is perfect yes but he has a gf ...whether you think you want to pursue this relationship or not its best to let it go...he seems like he likes you but then he has a gf...honey he is confused as you are...just figure stuff out and be his friend for now and you need time after a breakup to regain your independence...now if he breaks up with her and you found yourself feeling great and you feel good then you might want to see if you want to pursue this but for now just chill take a load find yourself and regain your composure ...take it one day at a time no need to rush into something that might be complicated for you at this point in your life....
360218
try to examine yourself.If you are really falling for this guy and yet you know that already he has a 6 years steady girlfriend, well, wake up to the real world girl!He can't be yours for he has another. Talk to him about your present situation and tell him that your confuse about your situation. Ask him what he really feels for you because you might be confused on love and friendship he is offering to you. Pray to God for guidance and understanding.There is still so many guys outthere, single and much appropriate for your love and sincerity. A guy you can call your OWN.
1161814
Since you have so many doubts, you also know in your heart that its not time to get serious. Since he is so sweet, he will not try to rush you into something you aren't ready for either. I suggest you just keep the relationship on a slow pace and really get to know each other before worrying about a real commitment from either of you.
2484
Personally, I would say no.  He sounds like he does not know what he wants, or worse, like he was waiting to see what would happen with her before he moved on to you.  And you should never accept being someone's second choice.
40418
Just be his friend.  If things don't work out with his current gf, then be his shoulder.  You might be next...
881551
Get over it!  That's all---just get over it and move on.  You wouldn't want a guy that already has a girlfriend...even if he was willing to dump her  in order to date you.  Wait--and if the couple continues to date it's because they have chosen to do so.  It takes two willing participants in the dating game and he's playing the game with the partner of his choice.  Accept it.  You probably have other options--and once he sees you're a fun date (while observing you dating someone else) he can pursue something later if he chooses.  Otherwise, focus on yourself and having fun.  There are other guys--there always is and always will be.
682258
You should not mess with him since he has a girlfriend. If he really cared about you that much he would have respect for the two of you and end his currrent relationship. Don't be the side chick and fall for his bulls***. It seems that this is just lust for him and not love. Though it could be a start for love. To be on the safe side just tell him you want to remain friends and see what happens.
1149228
Hey gurl!\nwell if u like the guy and belive things will work, then i suggest u stay together!!\nface problems as they come...\nthis relationship might have more to offer than u may think....so why end it before it starts?\nJean
371149
I think you should just stay as friends and see what progresses from there.  If you and he were meant to be a couple, it will happen, but hopefully not for another few years!  In the meantime, have fun, talk about stuff, confide in each other and get a great friendship going.  You will always have that!
977163
As hard as it is, you have to avoid getting jealous.  He's dating YOU not her.  He broke up with her and chose to date YOU.  If he really wanted to be with her, he could break up with you.  At the same time, it's probably not a bad idea to tell him that you're a little comfortable that they're still so close.  If he respects you, he'll understand and try to make you feel better.  Good luck!
515633
He is still holding on to you in case something happens with current gf and he knows he can get you back. You need to break it totally off with him or he will continue to do this.
247448
He has someone.  Why waste your time.  You are setting your own standard.  If you know he has someone, and he knows you know he has someone, but you continue to try to be with him you are allowing him to use you as a toy.  You would allow him to have his cake and eat it too.  Why would he leave his current girl if you will let him have "access" to you?  \n\nWhy do you want someone who will inevitable "do u like he's doing his current girl"?  \n\nYou are worth much more than that and believe me, if you don't realize that right now, later on, you will!!  \n\nGood Luck!!
399411
It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.
248950
the guy i am dating now i have been best friends with for 6 years. when we first met we started to flirt nothing serious, then he told me that he wanted to persue this other girl very seriously. so we became really good friends. after four years we were finally both single, he was getting ready to move across the country and he told me how he felt. we've been dating for 2 years now. it is with out a doubt the best relationship i have ever been in. i'm glad we waited, because if not we might not be together right now. if he loves you and you love him. you will end up together. i hope this helps your situation.
112898
If you can not be who you really are then he has not fallen for the real you. Wouldn't be better to be with someone who likes you for who you really are then having to try to live up to what he thinks you are? If you are not true to yourself then no one can be true to you.
320718
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!