i'm very good at communications with my friends & they take it in a wrongway &due to this my bf thinks i flirt
814332
if you are very serious about your boyfriend then you have to go a little reserve with your other friends
448297
Your friend was wrong to making a move on your bf, if she did. Maybe your boyfriend was talking about your friends because he knows how important they are in your life? Try talking about it with all three of them. Get each other sides of the story before you jump to anymore conclusions! Good luck!
521477
Do NOT tell all your friends to "stay away" from your boyfriend.  This is called possessiveness; it's both unattractive and disrespectful.\n\nTake it as a compliment that your guy is so attractive to your friends.  Now, if one of your friends takes her flirting too far, have a private talk with her.  If your boyfriend is truly loyal to you, his loyalty is what matters most.
356113
There's a whole world out there, you and your friend don't need the trouble this guy could/will cause.  His behavior is truer than his words.  Treat yourself better than that and get a new boyfriend who is really sincere.
469709
I wouldn't trust him because sometimes flirting can lead to other activities that are not in a Girlfriend's benefit! Men who flirt too much are show offs! They want to know that they can seduce girls! They're powerful that way, and so No, I wouldn't trust a flirty boyfriend! There are so many girls out there trying to steal one's BF, wouldn't want mine giving them mixed signals, if you know what I mean...
568913
It depends on what your goal is.  Are you trying to turn the guy that's flirting with you against you and make him think your the biggest idiotic loser of all time.  If the answer is Yes, then you should flirt with the other guy to make him jealous......Hopefully, you will have grown up by the time you read this.
474499
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
858217
Utoh....watch what you say.  Maybe you should bring it up in a light way, like "boy B is such a flirt".  Then let the chips fall where they may.
1054919
This happened to me when I was in high school too.  I ended up following them around and trying so hard to be included, now looking back I just wish that I would have played it more cool.  Find some other firends to hang around with until things settle down with your 2 BF's.  That shows them that you are your own person and you aren't desperate!  When they seem to go out of your way to not include you act like you had better things to do anyways and the make some plans dont sit around... Oh and what ever you do DONT be b!tchy to them..that makes you the bad one.  Just be nice and courteaous and go about your business eventually they will go back to the way things were.
1178166
im a little of both too, when i had a boyfriend, i still flirted with other guys.
283876
For some reason I feel like I'm doing something wrong, when I'm really not. It's their fault, not mine, especially if I tell them that I'm taken and they keep flirting. Then I feel like I should tell my guy, but I'd rather not start a fight, so now I feel like I'm hiding something. And that's not a good feeling. So usually I end up telling him. It makes ME look bad when someone flirts with me and I'm already taken.
637557
flirting is not always a bad thing, but be careful... It makes people feel good when another thinks that they are cute. But don't give off the wrong signals you could put yourself in danger..
1163102
Maybe ur jealous of her. If ur b/f  ares about u and wants to be with u, then I don't think he would leave u, I guess u got a try and trust ur b/f. If u call her then its just gonna make u look bad. Probably sound better if ur b/f ask her him self to stop flirting with him. But don't start forcing ur b/f to tell her to leave him alone. I dunno how u stop being jealous of people.
565834
Personally, when I found myself in this very predicament, I made a conscious decision to approach the situation from an honest, adult perspective and expressed my concerns to both my friend and my boyfriend. \n\nBecause I trust my boyfriend, I explained how uncomfortable my friend's behaviour toward him made me, and asked that he help me by not reacting positively to her flirting. He was happy to do so, because he found her behaviour just as inappropriate as I had.\n\nI explained to my friend, privately, that, although I value her friendship, her flirting behaviour toward my boyfriend made me uncomfortable and was jeopardising the future of our friendship. I asked her to tone herself down and respect my feelings. When I discovered that she could not oblige me that, then I did, and still do, my utmost ensure that my boyfriend and my friend spend the least amount of time together as possible. It doesn't mean I don't see either of them less frequently, I just don't see them at the same time anymore.\n\nIt may be that my friend is jealous of the fantastic relationship between my boyfriend and me, and either consciously or not, wants us to split up so that I may be as miserable as she is in the relationship department... who knows. \n\nEither way, the key is to remain adult in your thoughts, and not give in to the childish part of yourself that goes "OMG what a b*tch I can't believe she's trying to steal my boyfriend I'm going to make her pay" or similar, and to trust the man you love.
39903
If they know it bothers you and you claim they are doing it on purpose, just pretend it doesn't. It seems that the root of her flirting is to get at you, just smile and say to her..."isn't MY boyfriend great", to her. Pretend you think it is totally an ego booster for you to know that someone else wants  your guy. Reverse psychology, baby!
618518
you'd better say to your bf instead of his friend, if he wants to be alone with u as well he'll arrange a special time 4 u !
542473
You sound like you are trying to justify breaking up with him.  From the way you describe yourself, I would say that you did do the right thing.  If you are a flirt and he is the jealous type it would never work.  I wish you the best in the world.  May you find happiness.