This is getting far to complicated, when guys say they dont love you anymore?
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This really is a bit complicated.\n\nIf he knew that you were sick, Then he should not have said what he said. Even if you did lie to him, Which you say you didnt, He should have atleast given you some time to heal!\n\nIt also sounds like he under a bit of stress, That would explain his sudden rapid lashing out at you. If you live together, It is expected for something like this to happen as he has no one else to lash out at!\n\nMy best advice to you, Is to give him a little bit of space and time to think about things! Do not beat yourself up over this, It is not your fault that you got sick and that you have alot of work to get through.\n\nOne of the most important things about "Love" is that both parties need to have a very good understanding of one another!
333806
i understand your situation, maybe he just wants to go away? let him go.You cant hold on to a person for too long.He's told u it hurts, and you say you love him.So why keep hurting him?If both of u'll think it should end or has ended ,let it be amicable.Healing will take time , but it will happen
1180972
Sorry but there really is no easy way. You care about him and don't want to hurt him even though he has hurt you. Tell him what you said to us. Let him know that even though he had your heart from the beginning you do not feel like an important part of his life so you need to end things so that both of you can find other people who may be better suited for the types of relationships that you guys want to have.
360612
Meaning he's moved on from you.  It might be in terms of maturity.  Social class.  Lifestyle.\nHe feels like you two are in different worlds and am conflicted how the relationship will work anymore because of the differences.
421069
Guys (People) tend to tell you things they think you want to hear.. I believe usually in cases like you described he was only after one thing.. and when he didn't get it he lost interest or didn't think it was worth the effort.. in any case he's not worth the effort, be happy you don't hear from him anymore.
121472
I wish I had the answer to that. You can't make him love you if he doesn't - you can't tell his heart what to feel. If you think he doesn't love you anymore, maybe the two of you could sit down & talk about your feelings? Maybe you are just reading him wrong & he still loves you but you don't perceive it that way. You may need to tell or show him what you need to feel loved - & perhaps he wants something from you to make him feel more loved as well. Try to communicate your wishes & desires to one another, your dreams, your plans for the future, your hopes. If you love him, let him know that all of those things include him for you. Good luck & best wishes.
627710
Well girl sounds like "to little to late" thing to me .Now that you let go of those love feeling , he wants to change!Tell him bye bye,sounds like hes just saying whatever he thinks you might want to hear to keep the relationship.Buy him a 10.00 dollar phone card and tell him to "call someone who gives a shit" Good Luck
974400
I don't understand your question.  it sounds like he told you EXACTLY what the deal was from his end--he doesn't love you.  He told you that.  What is the part that isn't sinking in?
630355
If he do this very often wat i can say is he does not love u anymore. he is trying to stay away from u. Or maybe he is really busy, so maybe u try to find out whether he is telling the truth or not. If he lies then the best thing is to leave him. Only An Advise!!!!
1023879
good luck but you should prepare for the worst\nhe seems to have had what he wanted and moved on.\nlet's hope he is keen to start a family, but telling you he loved you was just to get you to open your legs.
726820
He probably has changed, and you have changed too even if yo don't realize it. People change, you just have to change with each other and adjust to the changes as a couple.
22304
This is always tough and really, it depends on your situation.  The best thing you can do is be honest; tell them you no longer love them (and maybe this means you never really did) and explain why (this is the important part because it sucks to never know why someone fell out of love).  If you want to take the cowards way, just start cheating on them until they get the hint or the next time they say "i love you" say something like "yeah...about that love thing..." but you really do just have to say it.  They'll understand eventually even if it hurts them a lot now.  And be gentle, because they obviously care about you and you cared about them at some point
66124
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
558265
Perhaps he realizes that he's losing his control over you and you are interested in someone else.  Follow your heart, was the reason for the break up valid?  Is it still valid?  Was it silly and stupid?  If any of those apply then he is where he needs to be, a ex.   Guys are funny, they think that they don't want you, and don't, till they see you with someone else, like your life stops because you was with them.
1006121
it's sad but i got a guy ive known and he loves me so u can find somebody else if u said u have to take a brak guys think it means it's over so he probaly won't come back sorry it;'s the truth email me shelly0758@yahoo.com
735900
Sounds like he is going through a phase.  My man jsut went through that and I kow, it hurts.  He'll come out off it soon, and he will some running back to you.  What hurts them the most is when they hear you are going out and having fun without him, try it girl.  Good Luck!
1096958
Sounds to me like you're both ready to move on. It happens sometimes. I assume you are young because you mentioned your 'class'. Now is the perfect time to move on as you are leaving for a period of time anyhow. If you aren't showing him affection (for any reason) anymore, then you don't love him anymore either. You may still care for him a great deal and you may miss what you once had, but you don't 'love' him anyone. Yes....it's time to break-up and move on. Good luck on your travels!