is it necessary to have a bf?
823394
hey sweet girl, b/f g/f r only a craze in school times. it's n't ur mistake , in ur age these tye of feelings r normal. when i was at ur age, i don't have b/f, and i don't want to b, but honestily speeking sometimes i also feel bad when my frd talked about their b/fs dates, gifts, etc. etc. even when i was in college i face the same situation....iat college time my frd force me to do friendishp, but i refuse, even now i m in uni situation is same, but u know now i m hapy on my decision....bcoz now the fact come in front of ne and ny age group.\nthat b/f r like a dream which never come true, but on the same time it gaves u lot of problems like main is daiting.im sure u know others.\nnow those girls r crying who had b/f. how can u trust on a person? believe me babay mostly boys  most of the time want only one thing from girl thats physical relation.\nlike glamour world it's a myth that if u want 2 papular then u want a b/f. i don't have b/f still i m popular, coz i have my own id, i m different from others. boys give more respect 2 me. they r good frds.\ni think u must take advise from that person who have b/f, who is older then u. two whom u know. who have life xperience. what ever i told u it's my exp.\nremember one thing if ur frds r true thren they will accept u as u r not as they want u.
218111
hobbie first, absolutely. Only when you are able to be alone and comfortable are you ready for a partner. Good Luck! Besides, you may find a hobbie and happen to meet a boyfriend!:)
1111444
Well, just wait soon enough someone will come along. I'm a good person, nice but never had a bf, its not gonna take over my life, eventually you'll find someone so dont worry about it so much.
905704
High school for me was a very memorable one. I just enjoy it. I don't study that "hard", but I study to have good grades. It's not a problem if you will have a boyfriend of not.  The thing is, you study so you will learn.  Having a boyfriend is part of growing up. It's just a matter of how you handle things especially your time.  \nJust remember, if you'll have a boyfriend soon, you must have the ability to handle things in balance. If you are reading your notes, have ur focus on it. After, then you can think of something else, boyfriend for forbriend, and friends. "You can't hit one bird with your gun if your looking in the other bird beside it"\nIf you will be able to handle it, then, you'll gonna make it to the end. God Bless.
326306
Why do you NEED a girlfriend?
641308
Well,\n\nI didnt have a bf for a long time and now I met a great person, even though we have our ups and downs.\n\nBest thing I can tell you is: Stay real and true to yourself until the right person crosses your path. Do things that interest you. More than likely, the right person will meet you among those interests. So take care of yourself first and dont worry too much about getting a man right away. Set a list of goals and follow your dreams, you will meet him in due time.\n\nD
245702
Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
130732
i am in 6th grade and there is nothing wrong with having a bf.cause you are not that lonely.
301517
I know how you feel. But why do you want a bf just for the sake of having one. There will always be shallow guys around that are interested in looks only. Why build a relationship just on looks? It never works out.\n\nWhy don't you live life to the max! Take up interests that you like. Join clubs that do things that you like. Have fun. Chances are, you will make lots of interesting friends whom you will share common interests with and you'll have a great time with them. And who knows, one of those friends may just be a boy whom you will like. Now that's the best way to develop a relationship: start off as being good friends with lots of common interests.
1026110
Yes, but just like happy in a relationship it requires you to do work.\nYou have to build a life that is happy for you.\nBy the way, really good relationships happen only between people who know how to make themselves happy first, then include the second person because it enhances their happy space.
1002495
Yes. You should just be friends first and get to know one another before having a relationship. As friends talk about interests, what you look for in the opposite sex, what you want in a relationship. Then if things seem good, go out.
1079042
be up front with the situation to your friend and the guy so there will not be any expectations that you dont feel comfortable with. there is no reason for pressure. if you dont want a bf then dont have one now.
885060
I'm not sure I understand your question.  If you're asking why parents say you need to have a boyfriend when your 16, my answer is they don't.  I'm a mom and I would never insist my child should have a boyfriend at any age.  She'll date when she's ready and not a day sooner.
669052
You can live without your BF. Get real!
799727
Well they shouldn't. If you need to have someone in your life you will likely not be in the best relationships. You end up being in a relationship for the sake of the relationship and not the person. The best and healthiest dating occurs when you both parties are comfortable with themselves and don't 'need' the other person but 'choose' to be with the other person because it enhances thier life. If you think you need a boyfriend you would probably be best served by being single for awhile. You'll find out a lot about yourself and be a strong more confident person in the end.
1010397
Get this straight- U r not getting a bf SIMPLY BEC U R HUNTING TOO EAGERLY FOR 1! Trust me, there is more to life than getting a bf. Do what u r supposed to do at ur age. When the right guy comes along u won't have to chase after him, u 2 will merge like river & ocean. BEST OF LUCK!
604990
you can so have fun WITH a girlfriend.... having a bf or gf is so much MORE fun than being single