do you regret the committment of marriage?
819510
No. I'm going to get married again.
842526
The biggest mistake you will make in your life is, rushing into marriage, especially if you have second thoughts.Take your time, be sure!!!!!!!
1115600
That is one way of putting it... but in my case, I was fooled and he got tired of fooling me after we were married and just showed his true colors. Marriage is not something I will ever do again. It is a real shame too because I am in a great relationship. But I think marriage will ruin me if I try to do it again.
761553
I commend you on remaining pure before the Lord. Both of my children did also.\nAs for the feeling or lack of guilt, It may be that you deciding to get married freed your conscience , but I would suggest that you stay away from all temptation because when this happens Satan sees an little crack in your defenses, and he sneaks in very slowly and undetected.\nAs for moving up the date, I would have to know the two of you to make a proper suggestion, but I will say that approximately 80% of the time that  couples get married while still in college. They get pregnant and one of them drops out of school to work full time.\nPlease continue to pray, and stay in counseling and very close contact with your pastor.\n\nPastor Bill
1082891
I do regret it.  Although I was not promiscuous, my husband still wasn't my first and that is something I can never change.  If I had it to do all over again, I would have waited.
598816
do you regret asking this question? I think you should feel embarrassed.
460135
Unfortunately I have.  I've regretted it ever since :(
282735
I stayed for 5 years longer than I should have.\nIt was an abusive relationship but it started slow and I kept believing his promises to stop and how sorry he was.  We found what I thought was a good church and things seemed to get better for a while but it was back to the 2-3 times a year yelling and shoving dominance establishing routine.  Nothing I ever did was good enough but I did not want my marriage to fail.  I kept hoping that this really was the last time he was going to be so horrid to me.\nSomeone eventually asked me "How much more of your life are you going to waste?" right around the time that he really lost it.  So I hit my f**k this s**t point and moved in with mom.  (Oh my god I had to move back in with my mommy.  I was an adult and I had to move back home.  How big of a loser was I?)\nAfter I moved out and all of a sudden he was really sorry and he did want to go to counciling after all and he really was going to change and we could take that trip to the mountains (3 hrs away) that we never had before.  I was angry that he was willing to change after I had left but I wasn't worth it before.  And that church I thought was so cool told me that I should forgive him amd move back in.  And they are supposed to be so supportative of women.  Guess I know better now.\nOn the up side, after I left I met the love of my life and we have been together for over a year.  Nothing like marrying your best friend.  And with what I have been through in the past I am well aware of how lucky I am to have a REAL husband and not just a spouse.
1040743
i was married at 15 and we just celebrated our 15th on june the 3rd....people will make comments but that is they are THERE comments dont let them get you down...if you know in your heart it is right...than GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!! i dont ever regret marrying the love of my life......
1136136
Yes and it was very difficult.  I think I broke my own heart as much as I broke hers.  I was with a very beautiful girl whom I had a lot of chemistry with.  I was in a committed relationship with her for a couple of years and so it occurred to me that it was time for me to ask for her hand in marriage or call it quits.  I wasn't so sure about marrying her, but I loved her deeply so I cut her loose.\n\nIt seems to me that as women age the likelihood that they will attract a man that they feel suitable for marriage decreases.  I liked being with her a lot, but I didn't want her to waste her pretty years with me when I didn't think I was going to marry her.  She meant a lot to me, in fact she still means a lot, but I know that it is better this way. \n\nMaybe if I didn't give a crap about her we'd still be together.  Yeah, there are tons of guys out there that keep their girls around coz it's convenient and a steady source of @ss.  Of course most of the girls are either clueless or in denial.
237776
marriage...mistake....too young..
86743
No. I am a person who just said no, but I do not regret it. I'll admit I've gotten curious at times, but I know I would regret if I actually did try it, I know I'll never regret not trying it.
24898
These are always tough questions, as the thought of taking anything back in history, potentially wipes out something wonderful. \n\nFor example, I, to this day, regret staying in a relationship that I wasn't happy with ten years ago, for as long as I did and even worse that I let it go as far as marriage for the sake of a pregnancy. The ensuing pain and frustration has been a distraction and thorn to much of the last decade. But had I gotten out when I should have...I wouldn't have my wonderful son. \n\nStill I regret not going further in my schooling (med school, etc) when I had a chance and taking better career choices than where I have ended up so far. Yet without those choices I would not have been so lucky to have found you.\n\nI regret wasting many years abusing drugs and not focusing on my life after adolescence. But even without those years I would not have so many of the life experiences and failures that I have grown with and been able to help other with, and hopefully will continue to help others with, to keep from making the same mistakes that I have. \n\nSo, I suppose that I have regrets, but couldn't afford to take any of them back.
973066
I got in a marital sitiation at seventeen years old.I am now 25.I now have two children.I sometimes do regret starting out so young.Only because their were things in life that i didn't yet get to accomplish.I call them "self accomplishments"I am very greatful though that i have my son's.They are the world to me.I do believe that things happen for a reason.I still plan on working on my dreams and goals.Marriage is a lot of responsibility.No matter how old you are.You can get married at 30 and still regret it.Or you can wait and regret not getting married young.It all depends on the person.I believe that as long as a person accomplishes their goals and is truly happy with themselves they can live in a marrage happy.I realize that i don't regret being married,i only regret not preserving my youth.Being young is a preacious thing and once its past you can't go back.
170143
Trap?  That's kind of a broad generalization on all women, isn't it?  Marriage was a very serious decision for me and my husband both, and we certainly didn't rush into it.  We were together for 3 years before deciding to get married, and afterwards we waited 7 years before we decided to have a child.  It was all a mutual decision, based on what we both wanted, and I personally wouldn't have wanted to marry a man who wasn't 100% wholeheartedly into being there.
159012
fear of what kind of commitment?  marriage?  yes.  mine has.  i am mortified of that kind of tie-down.  but monogamy commitment?  no.
183033
Well I guess I can help you there.I have been married and divorced 2X's myself.I am now married again and I do love him as he loves me.So I do not believe it is stupid but it does take courage to fall in love again and re-marry.