how to be make friend with white kids in high school if you r an indian asian?
819653
I think you should approach them as a human being. Some may like \nyou  or some may not like. You should not inject race to friendship.\nIt might be a good idea to meet people with the same interest.  You should  be proud of your  heritage.
750333
alienation - stay with your friends or find your click fast. Its easy to get lost as a face in the crowd. Its easy to get overlooked when the cool kids and older kids look soooo confident and together. Remember, they were you just a few years ago\n\nbrain dump - books and books and pop quizes and homework. They will hit you with so much stuff you'll go into shock. Don't lose focus. believe it or not, you will need it some day.\n\nresponsibility - you will be on your own on a lot of things. Some kids take the easy way out and let others decide for them. They become someone they're not. don't be afraid of being you.\n\nTake a chance. Don't get hung up on first impressions. Find out what's in you first. And don't let someone else think for you...especially if its someone your age who is just as clueless.\n\nRelax. Enjoy being young. Don't be in a rush to grow up. Sometimes I think about high school and do the 'what ifs'. All I can say is take that chance, you will only go thru one time and then its over....unless you repeat a year :)
64785
Make friends very quickly . This is because there are always going to be very rude kids going to any school . One other thing don't listen ti thise people who just make fun of people for no reason . Have fun at your new school and good luck .
368570
Ok well...I think as long as you try to get over your shyness and whatnot, youll make it. As far as making friends, maybe...are you interested in other things besides basketball? Like, things you could do with other people? Maybe if your school has other clubs or groups or whatever you could join one you like to meet people. Keep your head up and smile at people. Thats a great way to make people feel more comfortable around you. If you always look at the floor and just sort of sit there, its not too encouraging for them you dig? I dunno, maybe ask people to play basketball with you somewhere outside of school?\n\nAs for your getting sad when people talk about you...Eh, dont worry about it. Its just a normal part of High School. Everyone gets talked about at one point or another. Its really nothing to get worked up over believe me. Just do your best to smile and be nice to everyone. When people talk to you, dont give like...one word answers and then look away. Do your best to be friendly and people will most likely return it. I think thats pretty much all the advice I can give you. But if you need more help, feel totally free to contact me and ask. Without bragging too much, I'm very good at helping people with these kinds of problems. So, good luck to you!\n\n\nPeace
91918
nothing, it's the others who have the problem. Just let them warm up to you, you seem like a nice person. Give them a sign that you want to be their friend, and they will want to be yours too. good luck!
747849
Let me tell you about friends babe.  Most people confuse acquaintances with friends.  If you have 2 or 3 friends that last you over a life time you are a very rich person indeed.  Only your family will be there for you.  Talk to your mom or dad but don't expect a lot.  Teachers don't seem to be the same standard as when I went to school.  Their behaviour leaves a lot to be desired, especially in maturity.  I say to you , you are on the right track.  Study hard and don't let offence from immature people worry you.  They have a problem not you.  You are not a loner either.  You are simply a mature person.  Congratulations on being you.
713124
Remember, you teach people how to treat you. Respect yourself and they will learn to do the same. Make your position clear as to what you want and expect from a friend and what they can expect from you as a friend. Peer pressure can be very powerful if you allow it to be, so don't. It's your choice. The only person guaranteed to be with you for the rest of your life is the one you see in the mirror each day. Don't allow their immaturity or less than sincere intentions to change who and what you are. Shallow friends are not friends at all. Be you and be happy.
932471
Just start hanging out with them talk to them
1145717
The only thing I can suggest is trying to find some people to talk to often in English that aren't other Indian people. Go to stores and restaurants and spend whatever time you can talking to people without looking too crazy. If you can meet someone that is a native speaker and become friends, that's the best option.
167703
Make acquaintances before making friends. not all acquaintances become frineds. Don't be afraid to meet with new people, this is the only way I can think of.
559148
Make it a point to keep in touch, email, phone calls.  Try to get together when everyone is in town for the holidays.  I lost touch with my high school friends and I regret it. With todays technology, that shouldn't be an issue!!!!!!\nPlus, if they are truely your friends, you'll still keep in touch!
1099179
Confidence and being outgoing makes one popular in school. People who generate positive energy (they love life) attract people the way honey attracts bees. In short people who are themselves earn respect from peers.\nWhat you can do to make friends is take up various new activities in school, get involved..have fun, be confident.. make the most of your young years. You will miss it!!Trust me.. Don't worry about having many friends, a true friend is more significant. Look for a TRUE friend. She/he will always be there for you but others can be decieving. So be careful what you wish for.
852626
Well, if you know someone thats a senior in your school, tell him/her about this guy, and let this senior that you know ask him to get an ice cream or something or eat with him for lunch, sit with them talk to them , just be yourself and believe in yourself, trust me it will work.
178874
Same way you approach any other guy.  White guys aren't any different.  If he uncomfortable with the situation he will make it known and then you can blow him off because he's not worth your time.
112253
Just walk towards them, then introduce yourself. Be yourself!
54586
Ask them ... we dnt know ur friends....\nbut if u want friends ... im here!!!
700024
Ask them to be your friend.