working out the kinks ?
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Ropes get twisted and kinked.  To "work out the kinks" of a rope is to untwist them and smooth them out.  The phrase is used in other situations to mean the same, to untwist and smooth out the small problems.
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Kinky?...YES...Gay?...NO!
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using a treatmill or running?\n\ndoing streches?
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do some exercises for it
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You can also go to a sex shop and see what they have (not a sleazy one that is 95% dvds but one oriented towards couples). There you can get a better sense of what tools are available, and there are also many books on these topics.
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I think everyone is kinky in some form or another.  If someone says they aren't kinky.... they are lying. lol
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Love bondage is great! Adding a blindfold to the sex games gives it a whole new aspect. Restraints are fun too, but you have to be able to trust your partner absolutely.\nDomination/submission games are not my thing, but can be fun, or so I am told.\n\nS/M is a whole different thing and that is a point that many people answering your question haven't got yet. Some pain, like ice cubes, love bites, light spanking when somebody is sexually excited heightens the passion, at least for me. \n\nWhy *dump* someone who is into it? What they do in their bedroom is entirely their business. Not mine.\n\nHave fun!
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kaegel exercises... or you just may be a squirter
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If you are into listening to talk radio here are two podcast that disucss the subject frequently!!!\nhttp://kinkysexradio.com/\nhttp://fetishflame.com/
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i know this'll sound a little weird but try a few yoga classes. if you don't belong to a gym or prefer to work out alone there are yoga videos and books especially for generating blood flow and increasing sensitivity to the sexual organs. you can try amazon or your local book store.
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Have fun! Knock yourself out!  I always told my fiancee that if I ever caught him doing it, first don't stretch out my stuff and second, don't expect me not to laugh (he would NOT look good in female things, a bit too hairy hehehe).
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Sign him up on some really kinky Websites
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Since you both work out at a gym, maybe you could start up a converation about how some of the equipment works or ask his suggestions about some type of exercise.  Guys like to give advice...so boost his ego!
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There is actually very little that I consider to be "kinky" and I think any answer to this question would be relative anyway (i.e a matter of opinion and a value judgement). \n\nFor example, I went through a phase (a few years back) of being curious about men's bums (all that stuff about prostate stimualtion etc!) and would stick my finger up there to see if it would get guys off. I also once tried (and failed!) to bring about a threesome I fancied but, really, that's hardly anything astounding is it? \n\nI'm not ashamed of anything I've enjoyed, as I always made sure the people I was doing it with/to wanted it as much as I did.
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i cant. but you must have a beautiful expression when coming\n\nkeep enjoying it. it's a great workout without offending anyone.
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get aroused.lots of foreplay
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hi fun4vt ...\n\ntry searching the "intimate" section in http://lavalife.com