me and my girlfriend are to gather for last four years...!!!!?
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Hi Friend\n\nI think its good question.\n\nwhy do not you discuss your problem with her.so you can come to a conclusion.were things are not the same.whether communication or you both have lost interest in each other.Try going out with other friends. go with them where you would have preferred to take her and not anybody else.(some good movie etc) Because they can be many reasons.\nI personally think you should give each other some space and latter share your feeling with each other and check-.once you are sure about your feeling then only decide about Marriage.
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no not yet. they have been together now for 4 years and they say are very happy with the way things are now.
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Do something fun and a little less ordinary together. One year my husband suprised me by whisking me off to the beach. he had gotton takeout food from this really great itallian place and we had a little moonlit picnic. Next year we are playing with the idea of getting tatoos. You could go rock clibling or take a hike up to a beautiful spot and take in the veiw. A hot air balloon ride or, if more adventurous maybe sky diving lessons.  Whatever you do, try to establish your own little traditions. Like every year no matter what our plans we always have a glass of champagne from our wedding flutes together. One year we had just moved, and were completly broke and had our champagne in the middle of an empty apartment with nothing but lawn chairs for furniture and that was one of the most memorable. Maybe because it was such a clear message that it doesnt really matter what you do as much as who you are with. Happy Aniversery, and Good Luck.
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Let him know this will be the challenge of how strong your relationship is, and that you think it is no problem!  \n\nOn the other hand, I lived in Europe for 7 years, it is WAY too fun and will be hard not to have "too good of a time".\n\nStay away from Majorca Spain!!!
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I always live by the rule " IF I HAVENT USED IT IN THE LAST YEAR- I THROW IT OUT OR DONATE TO CHARITY"  I agree with u- keeping so much from the past is ridiculous!  Just keep a few things that really mean something to u.  Or you could always get her to box them up in water proof totes and have them stored in the atic, garage, or even a storage  facility!  Try to reach a compromise like that .  Tell them how u feel and see if they would be willing to do that.  Otherwise u may be stuck in a house full of crap and will never even be able to find the kids again!  lol
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yea but you do have to realize that when time works it out, you and her are going to have a lot of people mad at you to. Some might not be able to understand you and her love for each other you have to be sure that you can handle the pressure and gossip. And love doesnt always come knockng at your door so if you and her are in love dont let anything get in the way. Good Luck!!!
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Welllllll, I beleive you should study for your exams first. Say that you can't meet right then, but send her a little gift for christmas. Once you finish taking your exam and studying a little more of her language. Then you can meet her for Valentines day and do something a little romantic, but not too romantic (you don't wnt to speed up anything too fast). Wait a minute,.... are you in college? If you are, are you a Senior? If you are, do you have everything prepared for your future, such as career, plans , etc.? If you said yes to all of them, go ahead and take my advice. If not, get those things together first.
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No one (and I know from first-hand experience) is guarenteed of tomorrow.\nYou could do this for your 3rd anniversary in March.  Won't hurt a thing and she will get to be a part of it.
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Everything seems fine, Just remember you have 4 more years of life expierence than she does. So you'll have to respect that. \n\nLet her finish school before doing anything that might change your lifes.\n\nGood luck
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I think the together idea is quite romantic. If you were my hubby I would want you to come. So my suggestion set it up for both of you. She will love it. It will definately be bonding time to.
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Enjoy the time you have with her and make the next three months unforgettable!  You both need to accept the fact that she is dying and get past this as soon as possible.  Then all you need to do is enjoy each other as much as possible.  Always remember that knowing the situation, puts the two of you in a very unique position.  You don't ever have to say that you wished you would have said or done something when you had the chance.  You have that chance and that chance is now!!! Use it to your full advantage!
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No, it's fine. You've been together a very long time. Why not make things more convenient?
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The best gift isn't bought its in the heart. I did something on the lines of what you are doing. No matter what in 10 years you two will grow. Chances are apart. My advice is to have a great night to remember. Then keep in contact with them!! Remember her milestones in her life. Plan on seeing each other at LEAST every year. Every 6 months is better. Send her stuff from the country you are in. Keep her informed of your new life so when you do see each other you won't be strangers. Remember when you need a shoulder to cry on the phone still works. Never get too busy for that call to her. No gift (short of a baby) is going to keep a friendship alive for 10 years cause life happens. The best gift is friendship.
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4 years is quite a long time.....but it wasnt spent together so umm i dont know....but you guys managed to do something which for some people is almost impossible,4 years and you are still together.....i dont think a guy would ask a girl to marry him if he didnt mean it though so it should be a good sign.if you love him,then dont think about it twice and do it.marry him and be happy.if you are not sure about his feelings for you,,then give it some time to think about it,or talk to him to clear your doubts.\nonly you can find the answer to what you need to know,only you can make a decision.\nall the best.
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Sign up immediately for family counseling. The dynamic between you and your significant other is about to undergo a MASSIVE change, and if you and he aren't on the same page, 100%, I can guarantee you that this is going to go badly for you. I can't stress enough that you and your boyfriend must present a united front together, in all things, at all times. If something comes up and you all disagree, work it out privately, out of earshot from the girl.\n\nTeenagers are notoriously adept at playing "divide and conquer" and manipulating adults around them in order to get their way. If you allow her to play this game, you and your relationship are DOOMED.\n\nStart now with you and your boyfriend and counseling - so that you will be in a very strong place together, in full agreement on how you are going to handle the many issues which are bound to arise. Once the girl arrives, she should attend family counseling sessions WITH you.\n\nIt's going to be a lot of work, but if your relationship has a chance of survival, it's going to HAVE to be done. I seriously doubt that you can negotiate this minefield without professional assistance.\n\nGood luck.
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10 years is a lot, so bring out all the crazy pictures and make a slide show or something. \n\nget a picture of you two made. that shows that after all these years you are still very much in love. \n\nyou and other half could write something to each other and read it out loud --- if you want to. \n\nand of course --- dress nice..
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As of 2/9/06..(subject to change)..I plan to just go to the courts this August to get married that way we can be sure to have a honeymoon wherever we like. \n1. We are 22 & 24 years old. I am a senior in college and he was a victim of Katrinia so we don't have a lot of money to spend.\n2. Also our families are 12 hours away from each other so which ever state we would choose to wed one of our families presence will be limited.\nSo we have decided to have a reception or party after we are married in each state for our family.\n\nHe actually was the one who wanted a big wedding but it didn't matter to me. I rather prepare for our future then to go in to debt because of one day. Some of my family and friends will be upset once they hear this news but unless they are paying for most of it this is how its gonna be. Besides, I have enough student loans!!