My friends are having a huge fight and I have to be iin the middle!!!!!?
823047
ok this is what i think you should do...\n\none at a time, sit them down with you. tell them straight up that you are having a party and both of them are going to be invited. let them know how hard it is to keep up a friendship with them if all they do is continue to fight and argue all the time, and put out a choice for them to make. tell them that if they want to go to your party, they better kiss and make up. and that if they dont, then neither of them is invited. and if they get upset about it, tell them "if you cant suck it up for one night with each other for ME, then why should i do something fun and nice for you?".\n\nive been through the SAME thing and what i realize is that if they have respect for you, they'll settle thier differences for YOUR night. try it, it could do some good and in the end, they might stop fighting.
78218
YOu should try and get both of your friends together to try and talk about the problem they have with each other like try being a peer mediator.  And if they refuse to do so then just simply tell them i friends with both of you i refuse to take either side and say you don't want to get involved
824565
they are too boy crazy. go tell both of them that if they are trying to be mean to each other and like that, then you won't try to get them two back together. you are getting them back because you know how much they like being around each other. so you just go find other friends or you can just give them a chill break.
1115421
If you want to keep them both as friends then you need to tell them that when you talk to them you don't want to hear about the other one.  Just be honest and tell them that you don't want to be the middle person and you have no interest in their dispute.  If they can't keep from talking about eachother to you, then stop talking to them/ignore them.  They will figure it out soon enough that you really don't wanna hear all their trash talk about eachother.\nThe other option is to pick one friend and ditch the other, but the odds are that in time they may be able to work things out.  Try to see if theres any way to work things out - if not then be both their friends but let them know you aren't going to deal with any of their trash talking crap.
410930
Dear Dear such a scene and how is it possible. You all fight because you all still are individuals who have  opinions. But you all are still friends because you all have good qualities to be Compatible, Adjustable and someone fun to get along with.\nFighting and still being friends assures the Fact that you both enjoy each other's Company a lot. So continue fighting because that is what helps both of you all to keeep the energy in the Relationship(Fight,talk, Patchup and Fight - a good clean cycle where you all pickup grudges and still come clean by forgiving each other for what has been done).\nSo try to keep up the True Spirit of Friendship that you now have.\nTry Dreaming and think how it would be if you did not have her in your life as your Best Friend(so much would be missing in your life and maybe hers too)
360029
WOW, that must be something to have 5 people fighting over you, what you need to do is decide if you want to be with any of them, you pick one, and then tell the rest that they need to back off, as nice as possible with getting your point across.  If you don't like any of them in that way then you need to do the right thing and let them know that you are not interested in a relationship with them other than friendship.
150214
You should make an attempt to bring an understanding between the two groups. If this does not work then spend time with them seperately.  If they are truely your friends they should be able to handle being civil to one another when you hold parties on special occasions, such as your birthday. However for the most part try to keep them apart if their distain for each other is that severe.
655944
Don't pick a side.  Fights are little glitches in friendships and in time they work themselves out.  Real friends will not ask or make you to choose sides.  And as for the friends that are mad at you.  It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for something you are not.  They will get over it too.
599846
Tell both of them that I am both of their friends and I am neutral. I would also tell them that they should not fight, but if they have to don't put me in it and I would not be rooting for any of them.
514954
Use your common sense!! I know you know what to do. DO THE RIGHT THING IT'S NOT THAT HARD, AND STOP LETTING YOURSELF BE PEER-PRESSURED!!!!
1148385
Be the bigger person and stop the silly war. Learn to "agree to disagree". Grow up
670113
Self respect says you got to take a stand, or you wouldn't be asking this here.  Think of it this way, would you want friends that can't be brave unless they have back up? or the one that stands alone, and cares enuff about you to keep coming back for more?  Choose sides, then, side all parties down, and tell them straight out what you just said to us, we used to be kewl, now we are not, I can't take it anymore, lets work it out, or I got to choose sides.  And don't let the 2, lay all the blame on the one.\nPersonally, I wouldn't even try talking, I would take the loner's side, and just see what happened.  If they left, fine, I expected it, but who knows, might scare them into backing off.
234368
First of all, if they are "bad friends" then they are not friends at all. If you have already tried telling them to quit bugging you and go their own separate way, but had no success, then just IGNORE them!! They will eventually get tired...
976519
just let them two solve their problem than getting between the two of them. you'll be experiencing a lot of trouble if you would do that. maybe you could approach them if you were asked to do so.
689518
stick to your morals eventually they will give up either there your friends and respect you or if they continue to pressurise you then they really are not true friends ,and maybe you should consider distancing yourself from this bullying crowd
656033
dont let them win. try your best and forget them. dont talk to them.and dont worry about what they say. good luck
518408
Respect their relationship. Don't interfere in between them whilst their relationship is still ongoing. After all, he is your Friend and you should enforce that point. You just can't go on getting in the middle of their relationship by being the third party. You know that if you do that you will hurt someone's feelings or worse, both of their feelings including yours. So, I suggest that you back off first for the time being. Try looking for someone else. And if things don't work out between the two of them, that;s when you can make a move. But, try not to be to aggressive. Just remember to back away from now. You will need to. I wish you the best.