to all the non virgins out there-when you lost it, were u satisfied? whats the best position to start out w/?
824985
To be honest I was not satisfied, I had this built up image of sex in my head, I thought it was going to be great and enjoyable. But it wasn't, It's not the same as pleasuring yourself lol, because your starting off with that person you have to learn what each others likes and dislikes are, but that was just me, I dont know about other people, I talked to some people and they felt the same way but I guess thas something that changes with time or from person to person well hope your first time is a blast! have fun.
718370
Hey dude. Sex is the most pleasurable moment in a persons life. Since this is going to be ur 1st time. I wud suggest you not to get carried away woth it. Bcoz often it has been people who have been deprived of it try to make the most of out when subject to opportunity for the 1st time. Its a flavour which u need to taste in due course of time and can be enjoyed over longer and extended periods of time. For the 1st time I would suggest you to please try oral sex. Kissing, fondling with private parts, Intense kissing. Then when both u and ur girl are confident and cant hold it long. Just try watching some Soft Porn movies like "Body Shots", "Wild Things", "The Lover". These movies will guide you exactly how to go about sex @ the 1st shot.  All the best and Good Luck !!
355806
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
482551
your still a virgin all u did is stik ya finga up ya vagina u aint had the full experience yet
220581
Here is something new. Get a sex swing. Position you can find that you thought never existed.
1004036
No your not dumb. It takes a woman to stand up to her friends and say YES I'M A VIRGIN and DAMN PROUD OF IT TOO.. It also takes a MAN TO RESPECT YOUR DECISION. I applaud the 2 of you for your decision. Just ignore what your friends are saying to you because they don't need to know if you had sex or not. If you promised your dad and yourself why break that promise now. I was 24 when I lost my virginity, not because I made any promises or had a religious beliefs and just never found that right guy. And besides most of the time many would say that they wish they would have never lost there virginity and still would keep it that way. Good Luck!
498763
nO THIS DOESNT SOUND DUMB SWEETY..LOOK I WAS 20 B4 I LOS MY VIRGINITY AND IM PROUD..DONT DO IT UNLESS U ARE READY AND U KNOW THE PERSON IS THE RIGHT PERSON I WISH I COULD TAKE MY VIRGINITY BACK FROM WHO I GAVE IT TO TO GIVE IT TO THE MAN DEEPLY LOVE...WHEN U ARE READY JUST TAKE IT SLOW. DONT LET ANY MAN PRESSURE U INTO IT ITS YOUR BODY UR CHOICE.
32112
REGRETTFUL\nI just did it to lose it,and i did it so i was prepared for when me and my boyfriend were going to do it(didn't want to be a virgin).Well he found out,dumped me,and i have always wanted him to this day.That was in grade 9,and i am now turning 30!!
721709
No, you are still a virgin. Now some people think that you lose your virginity if your hymen is broken.. but if that was the case then I lost my virginity when I was twelve thanks to my first period(tampon)! So I personally do not see how using a toy would make it to where you are no longer a virgin. It's just a form of masturbation... Guys don't lose their virginity when they play with themselves, do they?! :)\n\nSorry I was a little personal... And in some peoples eyes graphic... But it's just my opinion and experience speaking! :)
945852
You can certainly be a virgin and still have desires. It's your hormones and soo natural to want sex. Obviously though, you've kept your virginity for a reason. Stand by that. There are other ways to satisfy that urge without losing your virginity.
851227
I'm sure it's different for all women or girls. I lost my virginity at 18, after planning on waiting until marriage. I felt i  was ready though and that i would be treated right by the man i was with. He was very gentle and, although it was painful, especially at the beginning (i asked him to stop for a minute becuase it hurt, so he stopped, layed beside me, and petted my hair-i know, sappy isn't it?-and only continued when i assured him i was ready) and i ended up enjoying it quite a bit. I'm sure it also depends on the size of the penis and the woman. Being patient, gentle, and concerned with ONLY the woman can make a world of difference :]
1080232
No.  There is nothing with you being a virgin at 22 keep up the good work and stay focused.  The vagina will cause you nothing but heartache and heartbreak if you aren't careful.  Make sure when that time comes, ask yourself is she worth it?  Will I care if I ever see her again? You are in control and you can't get it back so make sure you do your homework.  Once the flood gate is open it's over dude.  Good luck, much love.  Oh, masturbation helps the horny spells.
68088
This is a hard one...\nI guess going to a specialist would probably be the best idea. People come out with the craziest ideas of checking this out. And besides...everybody is different....so you never know if you are still are virgin or not..until you let a specialist see that.
501765
Why tell him? If sex comes up then tell him. He wont think yuck no guy most of never wanted her, but think wow she did not give into some idiot from high school. NOthing is wrong with being a virgin. And you are not the only 20 something virgin out there, and they are not all gross and ugly, they choose to wait just like you have, and they are better people for it. I have never know anyone who regreted waiting but I do know some who regret not waiting.
214121
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I kept it because I thought it was what God would want me to do. Once I lost it, I almost became a nympho. I felt I had to make up for lost time. All of my friends were out getting laid and partying and now they still think of me as the nerd. You might as well know that one day, sex is going to be a huge part of your life...for the rest of your life so when you feel the time is right, I say go for it. Don't be a slut, but for that person you have feelings for, go for it.
305952
I was unfortunately in a place for eight years and of cours I am loking for a little action but my standards have not dropped like I thought they would.First thing I did was go and see my true love(my kids mom)but wwe didnt do anything so I am still looking but I am not gonna just get some big and fat ugly girl.And as far as your question goes on losing a taste for love making ,BELIEVE me I still have the taste just dont know what the flavor is going to be yet.After all that time away however I do feel somewhat like a virgin and am a little nervous!1I hope I answered your question.
146027
Hi As a guy I was glad my gf { now my wife} was a virgin. Dont let a guy pressure you into losing your Virginity. You only have one first time and it should be saved for your future husband. If a guy can not handle that, I would find a new guy.