Do you think its appropirate for a guy to try to touch and feel on your breast on the first date?
818205
Yes, it is very disrespectful, intrusive and offensive for a guy to do that. First of all, I must explain that if a guy touch a girl's hand or put hands on a girl's shoulder on the 1st date is already considered very offensive, intrusive and disrespectful, not to even mention touching, feeling or fondling the girl's breasts. He must have taken you as a loose lady and was testing the water if you cld have allow him to do something further. Pls stop seeing this guy at once as he can be a danger or threat to you. What if you see him the next time and he tries something funny on you again and if you resists or retaliates, will he try to rape you? You never know! Unless you're into some kinky fun or open-minded enough, then I guess I can't offer you anymore advices. Think about it carefully and seriously. You don't want to be ended up hurt, don't you? It's your life, choose it and live it! You've the freedom and choice to allow him to do something further or stop everything at once. I just want you to know that I'm concern for your well-being. I just hope you didn't give him the wrong signals like wrong body languages when you're out with him. This can be likely 1 of the reasons he mistook you as an easy target to have fun with. Take care!
1044620
i think that's your best asset. at least you know that a guy is not only after your big breasts. that if he asks you out, you know that he mustve really liked you for who you are. but if you really wanna have bigger breasts you can do push ups. gravity will do the trick.
359035
I think a guy should make the first move. It depends on the guy. Some guys are so sweet yet so shy at the first time. So if you want him to like you, then you should make the first move. Ohterwise, let the man be in charge then after you will be incharge of him until you break up.
799182
Depends on how old you are and whether you want him to kiss your boobs or not.\n\nTell him how you feel.  HIS feelings and desires are probably normal.
577885
What you're kidding right???....You have got to know that this is one of the most romantic things that a man can do for a woman, and to have a man do this on a first date is almost totally unbelievable....There will definitely be another date, and another, and another, and another...
1004195
Don't try too hard, be yourself and your date will feel more relaxed and not as if you're trying out a stand-up comedy show on him. Be mannerly, use body language to your advantage. Subtle mirroring of your date can make them more attracted to you as "we like people that are like ourselves." Eye contact- but not so much that your date feels stared out. Have a positive attitude about the datm not like "this one better last as the others haven't been successful" but more of a cool attitude: "if it works it works, if not, there's somebody else out there for me...." Be interested in your date, but don'e annoy them with too many questions. Don't be over-enthusiastic about what your date enjoys as this could be intimidating. Don't move too fast, its okay not to kiss etc on the first date as you're only getting to know the person, go with your instincts, not the so-called "rules" of dating as they are made for ppl who are too afraid to be spontaneous. Be YOU more than anything, and best wishes with it! :)
492892
I presume you mean sex??Well I've dated guys who don't expect that so perhaps you're dating the wrong guys!If you want to see a guy again I wouldn't recommend sex on the first date but take things slower and at a pace you're comfortable with.Have fun!
101820
Hell no...guys are stupid, they won't know what you want unless you tell them or show them...besides, nowadays it's totally commonplace for girls to make the first move!!
541077
I dont think its wierd at all...Im actually in that position in my life right now.....Ive been through some of the worst relationships ever and at this point in my life i am very happy bieng single, but still want the physical active part from a guy....that may be why most of my friends are guys....I still like the cuddling and the hugging and the other stuff, but dont want anything serious......I dont think its wrong at all....you do whats best for you and if you feel you dont want to be in a committed relationship, no one should make you feel bad for that.
54406
I don't think you can have a policy of not kissing on the first date.  If it feels right then why not?
661790
Sorry honey, guys must do the first move, and if he did not do it it means he wants you only as a friend.\nNowdays women are becoming too open and agressive, and guys miss the magic of hunting and courting!!! we are cutting off their attributes.\nSo, sorry, but step back, keep him as friend and put your interest somewere else, in the meantime be sweet and nice to him, be always very well put together when you meet, so in this way, did not work with him sentimentally, you always will have a great supporter on him. Please, remember, be a real femminine woman "NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE"
410130
ask him..many men would prefer for the woman to make the first move.
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
1019798
i would like the guy to make the first move.  i tend to go traditional in that sense.  i don't like the idea of making the first move b/c i don't want to come off as easy.  i think it's more acceptable for the guy to do it and if he does, i feel more confident and want to please him.
381224
It all depends on how comfortable you are with him. You could be going out for months and still not have your first kiss - or hold hands.\n\nWhen you go pro (like me... LOL!) - you can hold hands even on the first date. =p
1173603
There is no right or wrong answer to that question...it's up to you, her, and the moment in time.  Personally, I don't see anything wrong with sleeping with someone on a first date.  Then again, I'm really horny.
715421
Sounds like you are feeling really rather insecure about yourself.  It's not a crime to have sex on a first date but the downside to it is the sort of confused feelings you seem to be going through.  The reason for this may be that it was just too early to tell whether this guy really liked you (or indeed, whether you liked him) and now you are having to wait and see.  However, the decision about whether you see each other again is half yours and half his, if you both want to see each other you will, if you don't you won't.  On one hand you are saying you don't know how you feel about having slept with this guy and on the other you are saying that you don't regret it ... so that kind of indicates that you do know how you feel!  It is important that you clarify for yourself how you feel about him.  Do you want to see him again?  If the answer is yes, you can either wait for him to approach you, or you can approach him first.  It is not unusual for people to jump into bed with each other very quickly, it sounds a bit like you might not be entirely comfortable with your behaviour because perhaps you think he won't like or respect you for it.  You can't know how he feels about you without approaching him in some way and initiating communication ... you won't have to ask him how he feels, that should become apparent by whether you get together again and you will be able to tell how much he likes you by how he treats you from now on in.  Speculating on the minimal information you seem to have might just drive you a bit bonkers and certainly won't get you any reliable answers.  Finally, I would say of course you can become friends with this guy, if he wants to become a friend of yours too ...