About weight:  Guys, what do you look for in a woman?
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OK, just the fact that you are working at it goes a LONG way with us. We do care, but it's not the scale weight as much as proportion. We DO like girls that dress like, as you put it- sluts- but we don't see those girls as sluts. \n\nSluts is the name jealous girls give the girls who are playing by guys rules. Just like guys call other guys sissies who dress like a girl wants- get it? These people make up names because they can't compete for what the other sex wants. \n\nHair is VERY important- straight, not curly, because curly reminds us of pubic hair. Straight is clean soft smooth feminine. Long, like down the mid back, and boob height in the front. We also like highlights. Also, if you can wear very light pink, and wear perfurme like Very Irresistible, man that helps a lot .
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Moderate Height, well... obviously guy has to be taller by some amount\nLong hair, if you're moderate height, curled short hair if you're tall\nnice eyes, not too much make up. umm nice smile\nummm lol my arent we shallow >< waist preferably small like way less than 24 inches >< \ncleavage lol honestly i dont care for it much\nmost important is personality, principles, and moral values\nVOICE...omg...i've heard and seen some pretty bad ones in my day\n\nso overall dream girl: shorter than me not by alot, long hair, beautiful eyes, beautiful smile, great personality not like a crazy swans laugh >< shudders*
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There are SO MANY other, non-physical factors that can make a woman more or less wonderful as a wife or gf!  My range of 'acceptable' physical stats is aparently wider than my range of acceptable personality traits.\n\nSo, 5'5"/135 would be fine; as long as the other things were right!  OTOH, a psycho with an absolutely perfect body wouldn't be worth it...
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what men want is a woman who is open minded.  Don't get me wrong, looks are what will attract us at first, but its the same for you at first too, isn't it?
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First of all, HOT PANTS. Quit ruining every body's questions. I think guys go for the hot, athletic, smart, and nice kind of girls. If not, who knows.
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How fat are we talking?\nI love fat guys they give you something to hold on to.\nBut I don't want a guy to have bigger bobs then I have.\nI hope you find the girl that deserves your beautiful soul.\nIf you want to talk e-mail me at Horserunner92@yahoo.com\nI also love it when a guy has a big heart as well.
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It's hard to explain in my personal preference.  You could have a supermodel and an "average" woman, and I may choose the latter.  Looks aren't everything, but they are somewhat involved, I'm not going to lie.  Other than that, I look for a fun personality, capability to have a good conversation (serious or otherwise), attitude, and a sense of humility.  But some other guys are just in it for the looks...sad, as it may be less fulfilling.
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Personally I like a woman that is thicker. However some women are just to overweight. The problem is not men its the way that the magizines and TV have programmed everyone into thinking that an attractive woman has to have a figure like a pencil which I find revolting. There are men out there for everyone you just have to find him. Set your standards and never settle and you will have a great guy.
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5'5" and I average between 125-130. I think I am a good weight. I have curves which I love. I actually don't think I can get down any lower. I have tried, but can't. And I do think that I am fat a lot of the time. When I lived in NYC I was a moose compared to some of the girls who lived there who were 'trying to be stars' I kept on telling myself that guys find me sexy at my weight and to stop comparing myself to other girls. I don't think guys like girls who are bone thin anyway.\nIt's hard not to compare yourself though. I agree.
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Most guys like slim girls but many guys like all shapes and sizes.  Its just personal preference.  I have a friend who only likes girls who are at least 250 pounds and he is only 170.
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Being petite does not make you any less attractive to guys.  I often prefer women of smaller stature.  As long as you still have curves that is all that matters. Don't beat yourself up about your height and weight.  As long as you have a good personality that is what counts.
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It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
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pretty,clever and kind- this is what i look for in a woman\n\nWhat turns me on- I personally like lazy eyes and poise
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I like all women but I'm looking a for a woman who can fun loving and smart.  I usually look for a woman who seem to have the same interests as me.  I would look for a man at activities you enjoy and hopefully meet one.
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First thing I notice: clothing. what you wear says a lot about who you are. generally I look for clean clothes, comfortable, perhaps buttoned shirt or polo. Jeans and their fit say a lot about a person. a person who wears jeans that expose their posterior and most of their boxers says "I'm a faux gangster tryin' to live tha thug lifestyle before mommy comes and picks me up. I have no ambition and fewer prospects." (I should mention that I'm in my early 20's, and this is still the impression I get about guys around my age) a guy who has slightly baggy pants, but shows no a** tells me "I'm relaxed and easy going overall. I'm not too conservative, but I'm decent". a well dressed man in slacks and a nice shirt says "I'm corporate. I make money and I'm doing well for myself". guys who tuck in their shirts and wear tight jeans with big belts say "I'm a dude, and I don't take S**t from women" (basically, it appears they have a stick shoved in their rectum... and who wants to date that?) guys in dirty or seriously ripped clothing says "I don't care about me, and I'll care less about you". and guys in all black with black hair and black painted nails scream "I want to suck your blood and make love to your corpse". Run!\n\nThe next thing is build. since I'm a bigger woman, a man with a small frame is not a good suit for me. I'll break them in half before anything good gets going! then again, huge muscles are kind of creepy, in my opinion. a medium build of medium height is sufficient. weight doesn't really bother me all that much. it's preferrable to be shorter than the guy, but I'd hate to be accused of being sizist. you just don't know who's a good guy until you look.\n\nNext I look at what they are doing. are they flirting with everyone? not really a good choice. their attention is easily divided. are they having a good conversation? that could be interesting. are they looking around? they're interested in what's going on, and so might be easier to approach. are they approaching me? sure, I'll give you the time of day. are they being infantile? Sorry, I'm not a pedophile. I want to be with a man! there are many more situations that can make me assess things in all kinds of ways. but the number one rule: if they are with another woman, HANDS OFF! you automatically assume he is interested in her, and poaching is not cool.\n\nThe last thing to scope is the face. look at the eyes. You really can see a lot about a person in their eyes. knitted eyebrows, small, hard eyes, round, open eyes, laugh lines, etc. all the little details in that area give clues about who you are talking to. the mouth: is it tightly set? is it smiling? scowling? laughing? frowning? going up to a moody guy is not my idea of fun.\n\nOther than that, it's a free-for-all. That's just the preliminary 2 second staredown that I give. for more permanent situations, I'd have to write a book, which I don't think many people would want to read. hope that answers your question!
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The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
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Making eye contact is a must if you want to be subtle. No intense psycho staring. Size matters to a certain extent, it will depend on the woman. Humor is good, but the type of humor, again depends on the woman. There are no perfect set rules for attracting a woman. Pick someone you admire and try and come close to what he does when hes around women.