question about anal sex?
830817
it's normal, next time when you do it, use a lot of lube, lay on your belly, put a pillow under your belly to elevate your butt and keep your legs closed kinda tight, make him work to get it in, i find that once it gets in, it is easier, then i open up more for him,  i also use a bullet on my clit to keep my mind off the initial pain, if you do it this way then eventually you will learn to like it....i did  LOL
311701
A lot of foreplay, then take it easy. Lube up desired area, have the woman direct speed and progress. When you have him push you inhale slow and deeply as he pushes. It helps relax your lower abdominal muscles and things aren't so tight. When you stop inhaling, have him stop pushing. Repeat. Take slow, shallow strokes at first and allow the elasticity of your skin to adjust. 60 seconds later you should be alright. Good luck and enjoy!
991745
My girlfriend did one before we tried anal sex...\n\nIt was awesome!!!
771334
Anal intercourse can lead to std's if the girl has some sort of STD whether you or her know it.  And it can cause infections, due to the fact that it isn't normal for the male sexual organ to be exposed to the bacteria located in the anus.
905109
Let me ask YOU a question...why do you care what other people find pleasurable or unpleasurable about anal sex in relation to you?  If you're the one doing it, and you hate it, there's your answer.  You're probably never going to like it, you're never going to find an easier way to like it, it's a done deal, over, finito.  If you're the one doing it, find it pleasurable, there's your answer.  Just keep doing it, and enjoying it.  'Nuff said.
1104773
From a womens point of view my ex knew y i wasnt into it and he understood....some guys are understanding if ur man dont then i guess he is just too much of a horn master.....O and if he asks you about anal sex tell him NO I had a friend tell me a story about someone she knows that did that and they were having sex and her parents came home and he pulled it out and she was crying and he turned on the lights and when he pulled he ended up pulling her rectum out onto his dick so HELL NO to anal sex....by the way this is a true story I just dont know the people this happened to personally.....
103108
of course you can if you have vaginal sex after anal without changing the condom.  But also, can happen if substance from the anus makes its way  into the vagina during the anal sex\nI would avoid anal sex not only for this, but also for the obvious reason that you can do damage internally
571810
its always safe as long as you dont put it back in your vagina. because the germs it transmits, could affect your vagina ph plus you risk getting sick because of the germs in the anus.\n\nthe anus is a muscle and its stretches more than 10 times than the pelvis. so you could put almost anything through it. start training little by little and you'll see how far can you go.\n\nso first through your vagina then the ass, but never the other way, it could be bad for you.\nhave fun and enjoy it ;>
1091156
You shouldn't be pushing her !!!         And besides.....only god knows why you'd wanna anal screw your gurl....Do you realize that there is quite a thin wall between the uterus and the anal canal????  And it doesen't take too much to wear thatdown!!!   so fluids can seep inbetween...In other words, her period coming out her asshole,,,,diareaha comin out her pussy.   So disgusting, and nevermind that, that muscle that clamps ur ass shut cannot be fixed once it has loosened, thus she can't hold her shit anymore!
598406
Just ejaculateing is not. Sexual intercourse could be but rarely. Sometimes it could be harmful for older people, or people with heart conditions, as it is quite a cardio work out. And of course the STD dangers go along with it. For anal sex, it can be more so than regualr sex. As the anus does not make its own lube as the vagina does. So anal sex must be taken slowly, and don't start out by just putting the penis in right away. use lots of lube, start small with mayby a finger, than two, than mayby a small dildo until the partner feels ready, and even than take it slowly, and listen to your partner and if they say stop or slow down..do so, because the anus can tear fairly easily!
937249
It can be very uncomfortable if not done caringly and with patience and lots of lubrication. You cannot just enter like you would the vagina or it will hurt. It must be slowly stretched, foreplay and entering must be done slowly. It is safe enough but a lot of lubrication is a must because the rectum does not make lubrication like the vagina. Also never go from anal to vagina as this will cause infections. Do some research there must be toms of info on the Internet.
1064094
Talk to her about it.  Let her know you just want to try it.  Tell her you'll go slow, use lots of lubricant, and if she says stop - promise you'll stop.  Also, if pain is an issue - try using anal beads.  They slowly get larger to get her opening used to something larger going into it.  Maybe if you try anal beads she'll see that it can feel good and she'll want to try..
430204
This is going to sound weird but... when you are having sex do the scissors. Trust me I am gay. Also, it helps if you do the frog position. He lies down and you do squats on top of him. Make sure he doesn't stick it in your butt. It hurts.
1066141
I think he has been convinced that the sensation is greater due to it being much tighter. Now add to that the thrill of something new and he is all into it. You don't sound convinced to try it and it is your body and your decision. I wouldn't let him make do what I don't want to do. On the other hand anal stimulation is real and can provide pleasure for both parties when done gently and carefully. \n\nDon't worry about the gay thing, I doubt that is the case. You might take a new tack with him. Insist that since both men and women have holes there, that you would allow him to penetrate you if you get to penetrate him first. With what you ask? Get a 6-8 inch vibrator, lube it up and gently insert it in him. He will either go with the idea if he is open minded or it will make less persistent about doing it. \n\nBTW, as a side note, men especially gain considerable pleasure from vibrators inside their rectums. It stimulates their insides and prostate and can add a huge new deminsion to bedroom play.
876813
Well, I will tell ya. It is a proven fact that after you have had sex several times with the same or different men, or have had kids the vagina gets stretched out and to a man it isn't as tight as when it was the first time you had sex together so some to most couples have anal sex. Yes, it will hurt only if you don't use enough lubercant and yes over time your anus might become stretched out. So, if you don't do it that much then it makes your man happy. If he does it too much, you'll be crapping into a bag!!!
1020518
i bet you already know the answer to this question. because you said "and how is it done." that implies that you know that foreplay can be done somehow. thats like asking 'what is an apple and how does it taste." doesnt that tell you that i know youre suppose to eat an apple? anyway, maybe you should just go ride your bike or something.
192679
It sounds like you are talking about anal sex. Don't do it. Doctors will tell you that the tissues of that part of the body are not meant for sexual penetration. It is easy to damage them, injure her and cause terrible infections by getting feces into the abdominal cavity. No amount of caring, desire, control, tenderness, lubrication, or 'getting used to it' will change the medical facts.