My girl always depends on me for all her expenses........?
816026
Evaluate the relationship; ask yourself: Is this woman the "one"?  If she is does she see you as the one?  Is it a win-win situation?  Or, are you losing.  Judge this by things that have happened; avoid your personal feelings as much as possible.  Men pay for it; I don't care what anyone says to the contrary.  Women do expect to be treated generously.  Also you use the word "must"; does that mean you can't afford her?  If that's the case then you either have to find a way to support her, or find the strength to leave her if she is not open to compromise.  If your crazy about her, ie. you need her to be the mother of your children, then you may need to take desparate measures.  I think you know what I mean.   The goal is to make her: a. see your intensity b. realize her necessity (to your life) c. understand that you will more than be able meet her needs in the future.  \nHope this helps.
902425
you are a greedy S.O.B. she is your wife. she is entitled to anything that is yours. she needs to save some money and DIVORCE you
181907
U have a big problem on your hands. Spoiled and pretty don't mix in a relationship. You should WANT to give her something not HAVE to, i.e. if you feel pressured to give her something all the time, sooner/later you won't WANT to do nothing for her at all. Nothing wrong with asking, but girlie needs a reality check. You can't always get what you want (unless you're filthy, stinking rich). Tell her how you feel and her reaction will better help you make a decision. Oh by the way, try and drop out of her manipulation 101 class.
750443
She can't legally hold your belongings, but it sounds like you owe her money even if nothing was in your name.  Pay up and be a grown up and then get your crap outta there.
652306
You should sit down with her and your boyfriend and decide what you are going to do. Paying her something is right, but you need to know what for, how much and how often. If you can't afford it you and your boyfriend need to decide if he will help. If he can't you need to look for a good job or move. Your boyfriend has to make a decision on whether or not you're worth the extra effort. If not you need to find a mate for your future.\nNext time don't move in until he pays out.\nThis answer is from a man.
330107
One thing that seems to be lacking, by what you have said, is communication.  I really think that you need to sit down and talk about her spending habits and how much of your income is being used by her.  I would also ask about her 'interfering' with your clothing.  It may be that she just wants you to look your best.  Believe it or not, women often have a much better sense of style and are able to see what makes a man look his best.  I don't know if this is the situation, but sometimes a woman spends so much money shopping to punish their husband.  If you have cheated on her in the past, it may be one possible answer.  If you have done something in your past to really hurt her, that is another reason she may punish you or if you spend too much time at work or with friends or activities...that is another possible reason.  If discussing it in a sincere and not hostile, judgmental or malicious way doesn't work, you may need to seek counseling.  I hope this helps a bit and good luck!
662528
It might be in his will.  You should check on that.  If she thinks she is getting all of it, it might be in his will.
603937
If you constantly have to prove yourself you are either messing up alot or she is high maintenance. If its your fault, you might consider just being single until you are really ready to commit to someone. Break it off. You will learn the pains of loss and it will teach you to treat your next gf better. If she is high maintenance and always making you prove your love, than she is insecure and you should dump her. Either way break if off.
975253
being abused by your mate is unacceptable. your best bet is to get your child and leave. it doesn't matter if she is a woman and you are a man it isn't right that she is being abusive to anyone. please go. if need be use the check to get a new start. i am not sure of how much money it is compared to us dollars...but you can not stay with her in that environment.\ngood luck my friend.
436209
dude, if she is  bitching about $ then she doesn't love you! Did she love you to begin with is the question? Did she marry you thinking you were rich i wonder. Did she marry you for convenience...? I have to wonder about that too....sorry man but if she loved you she would not care if she was on a deed or not and wouldn't honder you to get the house remodelled when you two cannot afford it and lastly....she SHOULD be helping with the bills......she wants her cake and eat it too.....Divorce her butt! Tell her to find another life and tell her " I love you but not enough to put up with crap baby...bye". IF you say that you will see a turn around. You will be calling her bluff sorta speak....hahha she will fumble over herself so fast...trust me. Just do what you want of course...but know if you two bring a kid into this world....it will only get worse. Take care dude and good luck........You deserve better.
1105047
maybe she tot she havent spend more tym wid you wen she has clas, so its payback time at 4am..admit u lke it..
978344
I often feel its unfair to the male populous for us to hold onto the old way of a man ALWAYS paying for a meal. She may feel the same. \n\nIts not about what she should do, but what is fair. True equality means being treated equal, so you two pay seperatly. You offer which is nice and she offers too, but in the end I think you are on the right track. She may be a raging feminist and this is one of the ways she shows off her independence as a woman. \n\nBottom line. You aren't a couple so don't sweat the fact that she's paying her way. Enjoy that she isn't using you for your money, and that she actually enjoys your company.
41487
so r u saying u want a girl to be totaly dependent on u i can understand that u wnat to find a girl that will raise ur kids and whe nu get home have dinner ready for you and sapport u in everything right? there r some of us left in the world u just have to look harder
533573
O MY GOD . I HAVE A SISTER JUST LIKE THAT . WHAT YOU DO IS STOP , GIVING HER MONEY . AND LET HER DEAL WITH HER OWN PROBLEMS . WASH YOUR HANDS  OF HER . AND LET HER GROW UP .
447172
Why would you treat her differently? Just be there for her when she needs you.
1023849
so long as she puts out you should be happy to share, that way you do not have to pay for everything. let the other guy take her to concerts etc.
366966
She is using you, she has a boyfriend that she will marry if you don't stop talking to her now your going to get hurt even more. C'mon you are a doctor you can have anybody you don't need to limit yourself.