Married for 17 now divorced!?
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its called speed dating but the sad part is it also becomes speed relationship. anyone who wants a relationship so quickly isnt looking for long term anything. there are some of us old fashion type still kicking around so just keep looking for someone who wants to really get to know you. \nYes dating nowadays scares the hell out of me too.
454458
Wait, I thought I divorced him?????   \n\nHugs ~:)
734787
marrying my first husband at 18. had no experiences before i got married. didn't last but 5 yrs. and we fought alot.
535799
Wow,\nAlot of other husbands would have loved to have been married to you.\nNow you basically have been doing everything already on your own. Now it is time for you to step up to the plate and find you another place to live or move him out and get a divorce.\nThere are others out there that would love to be a part of your life.\nWhy put yourself in prison the rest of your life.\nGet off your duff and go out and enjoy life start over\nBlessed be
604588
You didnt mention why you separated, I think that is important to know to answer the question.  But anyhow yes it does sound like she wants to hold off on the divorce.  Its a good thing you have pets, it will give you both the opportunity to spend time together to know if you should get back together.  Unless your going to be single the rest of your life there is no getting away from emotional heartache.  Its a part of life and love.  Might as well try and work it out with someone who was good enough to be your wife in the first place.
522336
Oh man, I remember those days, back in jr. high and high shcool. I'm not sure how old you are but don't ever ever ever get married because it becomes non-existant after a year. I've been married for 8 years now and forgot what it was like.\n\nEnjoy and make out as much as you can now! Don't comlicate your life by going all the way!
494219
I was married at 17.*\n\nThey have got to turst you at your age and your judgements.
1175734
I am certain he was not a retard when you married him, so therefore, he has opted to talk to mommy and daddy about things he should be discussing with you.  He needs to grow up and realize your his wife.\nAs for me, I would be to the point of divorce or legal seperation, so he will have to pay you child support and take the kids every other week end. \nTies him down with the kids for a  while, I am sure he will be singing another tune.\nIf you don't have children, then it is time for you to move on,  he has had plenty of time to bond with his parents prior to the age of 18.  He needs to grow up and cut the close knit ties with them and stand up and be a man on his own two feet.\nMommy needs to stop giving him what he wants.........
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I think you are HO. I read your other posts...um did you leave your husband yet??? Is the divorce final??? Because you are asking how to screw all of these random guys and are you still married????? Considering you asked if you should leave your husband only 2 weeks ago it would seem you are sTILL married. THat makes you a cheating HO.Maybe you should worry more about your 5 year old kid instead of screwing random guys and worrying about booty calls all the time. Straighten up your life. Hopefully your husband will find out what a dirty skank you are and leave you before you give him and STD. Keep your legs closed.
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Realize what went wrong.\nThere is no fixing this if the marriage ended but make sure it doesn't happen again by not repeating past mistakes no matter who was at fault.\nPick Yourself up.\nStart attending events that interest you.\nSince you must be older , possibly look for senior activities even at large senior centers where you can go have dinner in the dining hall and talk with people your age if you don't have a strong friend network.
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Have you talked to him about reconciliation through some type of therapy through your church. I have been divorced, and would have preferred reconciliation, but never even talked about it to my ex-wife. She pursued the divorce at first, and I never fought at all, what a mistake. He might have lost that loving feeling, but that is part of life. It will return, given time. and it will be better than before.
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I wasnt suprised at all, almost all hollywood marriages end in divorce... most people dont spend the rest of their lives together anymore and they dont enter into marriage seriously... They think hey once things start going down hill I have a way out. No one really ever tries to work through their issues and actually tries to change and grow in their relationships anymore... At the first sign of trouble with themselves or in the relationship, they split, because divorce is just an easy way out... Its sad but true...very rarely is a marriage forever anymore
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Yes...I was married for 18 years and the last few years felt like this all the time OR didn't want to be at home when he was there.  As hard as it was I realized it was because we had outgrown each other and weren't making each other happy.  We have since separated and are living our own lives.  We are MUCH better off as friends then we were as a married couple.
45093
Hey single 20 something divorced female here and it has been so tough being divorced and single in my 20s I am just PRAYING my 30s are phenomenal!!
466507
Alot of things,but each person's case is not the same. Go out to a club and ask people who've done it!!! Some people who are divorcing are okay with it,while some are not!
1049465
Time to straighten his @ss up girl. Don't take that. When my 1st ex kept hitting me and my family/friends wouldnt help I took matters in my own hands, the last time I went through the wall he went flying through a window. My advice is hit back that shows you aint taking his sh1t no more. If you feel you can't hit back or you're scared look into some abuse shelters for women and if that isn't in question leave and call the cops have him thrown in jail and in the meantime while he's sitting in jail you find a place to go a place he wouldnt know the first place to look. If your family fears him in any way I wouldn't tell them where I was. Get a restraining order or most states have legal assistance and you can nail him with a divorce. Play it nasty "you fear for your life." \nThats what I would of done if things wouldn't of changed but they did after he realized he pushed me too far and was thrown through a window...\nI'm not suggesting you throw him through a window, I'm suggesting that you have him arrested find a place to go that he wouldnt know where to look and get legal assistance.
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How long were ya'll married? Getting over a spouse is hard. Sounds to me that it wasnt you wanting to end the marriage. I know I struggled with it for almost five years trying to get over my ex. Dont look like it would have been hard seeing how he left me for a woman 26 yrs older than us when I was 3 months pregnant with our youngest son and he got remarried when i was 6 months pregnant with him. The way I finally done it was by not letting him know that things bothered me! If we had to be some where at the same time I was very friendly and nice. Then I decided to move on and that really got to him. If your with someone a long time its hard not to recall memories. So start by going SHOPPING!!! Go and buy you a new wardrobe one that you picked out...some new cologne. Hint Very Sexy for men by Victoria Secret is a good choice!! If you ever need advice or just someone to listen you can reach me on im at melissa_4573.