How do you find love?
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Love isn't something that you can go in search of.  You can't make it, or mold it, or force it or find it. It's one of those elusive things that finds you.
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The first thing is sight. If you are looking for companionship the other person is going to make an assessment based upon what one sees. Are you worth the time that it takes to say Hello? You must first cross the line of sight obstacles. Love has to start somewhere even if it is in cyberspace. You paint a picture based upon what you read and hear. Love comes very slowly, lust is spontaneous and friendship can be awkward and treacherous. Do not cut yourself in half between the Body and the Soul.
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Oh Gosh, yes! Don't worry too much about finding someone. Love is like a butterfly, when you chase it constantly it always seems to fly away from you. And as soon as you just stop chasing it, it comes and lands on your shoulder.\n\nGood luck!
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No one can say how long it will take for you to find your true love. If you are a young woman, get out there and meet people, sooner or later the right person for you will come along. You don't have to sit in an ivory tower hoping someone will call to you to let down your hair. Date, have fun, find some activities that you enjoy, because while you are out there living your life you can't help but expand your world. By expanding the world you live in you create new opportunities to meet that special person made just for you!Good luck!
850166
You should just don't worry about finding love. Just proceed with your everyday life and it is sure to find you.
1040474
Try church.  If you don't find love there at least maybe you will feel better spiritually.
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Maybe you just haven't found the right girl?\n\nKeep looking, she's probably out there. When you're usually lookin' for love, you're not gonna find it. Just enjoy life and someone will come along eventually.
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It just does, my friend.\nYou can't explain it. I'm sorry.\nBut I'll attempt to...\nI think that if you keep trying to look for love, it will seem so much longer and more strenuous. Looking so hard will just result in false hope.... false love.... FORCED love.... in a way. It's like you're trying to push yourself to find that one person.\nYou should just relax and have faith in God to bring you that woman. He has a plan for you.\n\nIn my case, I was friends with my boyfriend for a long time. I've gone through many jerks... but he was always there. I never looked for love. It was just so disappointing. I enjoyed life being single. Besides, I was happy not having relationship drama. I had faith in God. Little did I know, my boyfriend was right under my nose the entire time. And we plan on getting married someday. : }
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you dont just find real love, it just happens. youll know when you found something real because you will feel it. But dont go searching for it because the right person will find you.
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It is possible to find your "soulmate" anywhere.  There is no such thing, but there are people all over the world, just like you.  The secret to finding love lies in us, not in them.  When we are ready to drop our masks, reveal ourselves, and let that other person have the chance to say, "I see you," we give ourselves the chance to fall in love.\nThe biggest problem is that people on the internet often don't feel the need to tell people the truth, and often, that first lie or misrepresentation will make it impossible to feel safe enough to open up again to the person.  The opportunity dies.\n\nFind someone of integrity and ethics, share everything you have in common, and hide nothing.  See what happens.
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Yea.you just have to be patient.you'll find true love one day.love doesn't just knock on the door you know.you have to go out and find it!!
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You cannot go looking for true love cause you will never find it.Believe me, let it find you, true love will fall into your lap when you least expect it.
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you can't find true love, it finds you. you'll know one day . and yes you probably could fall in love with a stranger. love works in mysterious ways.
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because love is hard to find when you're looking for but when you aren't it won't leave you alone. Yes it is true, as strange as it is. But just have fun, enjoy life and trust me love will find you, you will meet someone special when you least expect it.
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Start by looking in the right places.  Determine the kind of person you want, and go where he is.  If you want a drunk, go to a bar  If you want a jock, go to a health club.  If you want a person of faith, go to a church or join a coven of pagans.  Get involved in a political campaign, even a republican one if you have to.  Go back to school. You have to give yourself the opportunity to meet new people first.  The second part is simple.  Relax and be yourself.  Stop looking and start having fun.  People are attracted to happy, fun people who enjoy life.
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You can find a very suitable partner by not looking.\n\nYou'll never find it if you're lookin' for it.\n\nLove will come when you least expect it.
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Dear Silver465,  Never give up on love, when you least expect it, it can creep up on you and bite you on the butt before you realize it.\nYou will find love, I don't know where you live, but there are nice girls all around.\nIf you are a church goer, try going to the single get-togethers. \nI don't recommend on-line dating, but that is up to you.  Do you have any single guy friends that may be able to hook you up with someone???  \n\nGood luck, sweetheart, and I hope that you find someone SOON, God bless you,\n                                                                                                Juanita