how can i get a good guy??
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Just be yourself and see who likes you for that. Before you hook up with a guy, ask him why he likes you. It might pressure the guy but the ones who really like you won't have a problem.
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nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
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do you mean what is a girls ideal guy?\nwell we all have different answer for ur question dear and it depends on the girl if what kind a girl she is.\nur same as my age.anyway ummmm...i'll say you have to be urself ur real u not tryin to be someone ur not.you have to be a good guy not really that good but just fine coz sometimes when a girl fall for u she wont see all ur bad side as what they say love is blind.so good luck.
155856
Well maybe you shouldn't worry about the looks.  You need to find a guy with a good heart and keep him  They are hard to come by.  But, when you find a good man try not to push him away.  You are so young you have a lot of life a head of you.  Take your time and have fun.  Life is to short to worry about the small things.
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well if u remember this, it will help u figure out who's a "good guy" and who's not (hopefully) :)\n\nmen use love to get sex\nwomen use sex to get love\n\nas u can see, men and women differ GREATLY in what they want.... we play these games, we dance around each other trying to find a good girl or guy, someone who's worth hanging around.  so, if u know that a man will SAY "i love you" or do things to make u happy, and u give him sex too early, it is quite possible that he won't stick around.  so, how exactly can u "make sure" he will stick around? well, the way i see it is, if u don't give them sex right away, until ur ready at least, and he still waits for you and takes care of u no matter what, he is a good guy.  and a woman who gives sex up right way is seen as too "needy" or too "easy"... not very positive things. So, a guy might want to "hook up" with those types of girls, they don't exaclty wanna marry them!  \n\nmy advice to u is to make sure u grow into a Confident, Smart, Beautiful, Independent, and Happy Woman..... someone who has a LOT to offer to any relationship.  have some expectations from urself, and from ur partner.... the one who accepts and respects you and Works with you will be the one to Stick with.... sex should Enhance a relationship, not BE the reason why you got together.\n\ngood luck, and stick to what you think is right. i am 26 yrs old, w/ a boyfriend for almost a year now, and we both decided to wait until marriage.  so sex isn't the problem.. it's finding someone who respects you, and who u respect. take care~
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umm drop the i god gift to the world act and get the hell over yourslef! maybe a guy that can show that just bc he is attractive he is still loving, nice and wont judge people and can hold thier own and will go out of thier way to make someone happy even if its not whate evryone else would do!
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Instead of looking for a good guy, let him find you. Do this through volunteering for a local charity or a political campaign. This way you can find someone with similar interests and philosophies. You can also try the internet where you can chat until you feel comfortable enough for a face to face meeting. You can also only answer or ask what you are comfortable asking or answering. That is how I met my fiancee and I wasn't even looking for a relationship at the time.
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i really want a nice guy
869976
You're on the right path. Hold on to your virginity and be honest about this. Most of them are jerks, but this will weed them out and you'll eventually be likely to come across a decent man.
1115980
As long as you are a good person.. what does it matter what guys like.  You are what you are... they can take it or leave it!
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Take your time with dating, find who out who you are first so that you can find the right type of guy who will treat you with proper respect and love you for you and not who he wants you to be, and the reason why it is hard to find the good guy is because they are either married, gay or are looking for the right woman.
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you don't go out and look for a boyfriend...when the right guy comes in your life, it'll happen....but take your time so you get a Good boyfriend...
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If you're a good girl and want to show that quality to a man, ask him what he wants from a good girl.\n\nIf you're a bad girl and want to show that quality to a man, show him what he's too afraid to ask for.
550521
To bad you live so far away cause I would LOVE to find a guy like you. Tired of the bad guys....Good luck
358143
I think you need to find out what you want first in a guy.  Money, power, good looks, or just someone that makes you comfortable and happy.\n\nIf that doesn't work, just grab the next guy that comes along your way and train him to satisfy you...
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Be respectful. Be charming. Be polite.\n\nAs long as you are good, you will eventually attract good women. (You will find some not-so-good ones, too, but the good ones will stick with you.)\n\nNot all women think guys are dogs. Women who have been burned by men, will think that. Remember, respect, charm, and polite.\n\nThose are very essential elements, and don't forget honest. \n\nIf people are rude, shrug it off. Someone who's ticked today, could be pleasant tomorrow. \n\nGood luck.
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idk how do you get a guy to like you?