how do you draw the line in fighting for the one you love?
830074
when do u draw the line? when they stop fighting for u....or act like they could care less about u\nhow do u draw the line? its different for everybody...some people can just stop communication cold turkey whereas other people have to make a conscious effort to not be around that person and not want to be around that person anymore\n\nOR\n\nu could forget all that and get with a chic from VA
529862
Communication & patience. Always be open about how you feel and be willing to work out the problems that come along, because there will always be problems, no matter who you're with. But if you're both on the same page about what you want and are willing to give what the other needs, you will be able to conquer anything. Love is not enough, it takes work! :)
575288
fight till there's no fight left in you.. and if things don't work out..  walk away proud knowing you did everything possible..and find someone worthy of you.
493038
first of all, u have to find the source of the problem and try to compromise it, and if u really do love each other, then u wouldnt give up, yea couples have its ups and downs but that is what couples are suppose to have, evey couple must have at least one fight and that is how couples get closer if they work though it.\ntry it\nit will show him how much u love him\nand that u would go though anything just to be with him\nand it will mean alot to him
792549
It takes TWO TO FIGHT.\n\nYou gotta figure out what you want.\n\nHe's not going to keep coming back to you if it's all confrontation.\n\nThat gets old no matter HOW tough a guy is.\n\nHe will go looking for someone he doesn't have to fight with.\n\ngood luck....
1097993
love is a choice... with that choice comes respect and honesty...  if you are already fighting there's no love.  It's easy to say the word love.  but not easy to practice it. love is measured in it's practice not in the ability to say the word.  move on.  he's more trouble than he's worth.
1026643
So are you brave. Do you have a mouth. Communication is the key to any relationship. If you want to know , be brave and go ask and get it straightened out. Tell the person they are hurting you. Then at least you will feel better that you did something about it instead of sitting back feeling bad. You can't stop people from doing things. They have their own will and have to live with what they think, say and do. So do you. It is not what you say but how you say it. Remember that. Also remember , it takes two people to fight. It is easy to Love those who love you back but it is harder and take more strength to Love those and forgive those who persecute you.\nRev. TomCat
1044301
Well you could try explaining to them how it makes you feel and how it affects you. You may need to speak with them separately and when they are calm, Tell them how it makes you feel and that it hurts to hear them fighting and arguing as you love them both. It may help calm the disagreements, but it probably will not eliminate them.
270474
Don't let the people get in between you two. If it's the real thing, work hard to keep it. Then again think about why they are trying to come between you two. Do they fear he'll hurt you? If so talk to them about it and tell them you can make your own decisions.
258934
Love is to precious not to fight for if you 2 are truly in love then find a way to be together and work on your families little by little Good Luck and Be Happy
66807
...wish to share, am a returner favourer kinda person.\n\n1.26 11:51p est Stupendous Man, silly of me to confuse you with that little guy Calvin, guess I thought he looked a little like you.\nFor me it would depend what those differences were. If we're talking about weaknesses in character, then have to say I have seen that used as a weapon, friend on friend, sibling on sibling, and of course spouse on spouse. \nI had a realization once that I turned into a caution motto, "There is no one in this world who loves you so much as to not say a negative thing about you behind your back." (yes, very familiar with feeling betrayed, but let's leave that) And I guess a similar expression would be, "There isn't likely to be anyone in this world who loves you enough, never to hold your weaknesses against you." Whether that weakness is being too emotional or not emotional enough, or having to much to say or not being able to verbalize worth a poo, ya know the contrast between one personality and it's opposite.\n\nI guess what I am getting to, is that it's possible to love someone and know they have this difference about them, and SOMETHING ELSE gets in between you, and in the course of having it out one spouse retaliates with pointed references to this "difference". IT ISN'T because they were always really bothered by it and just never brought it up before, it's more that they were running out of arguments about the actual issue at hand, and needed some grounds to prove their "right"geousness in the fallout.\nFeeling misunderstood on both sides is where the real problem is. It's not necessarily a communication breakdown, it could be the gradually ending of sympathy, feeling unequal in a relationship, feeling undervalued. Then it's "who cares if you're sensitive about this difference, I want to right no matter the cost, I want to be heard whatever might fly from my lips"\nIt's sad and unnecessary, but it comes from people's focus on theirselves. If more people tried to see it from the opposing perspective this world would be a much more peacful place.
612289
You have to decide which person means more to you the one your with or the one your not with. Your the ony one who can decide is it worth rising hurting the guy you love for womeone who your not sure that he even feels the same way.
489317
Honey she wanted this fight with you and the bf. She finally found that right nerve to hit with you. Now it is up to you just how much you love him and figure if this is the way you want the right of your life. She is never going to change if anything she will only get worse...C
979499
Pick and choose your battles wisely.  Stand up for yourself if it is something you really believe in.  Otherwise, if it's something he really believes in, listen, be understanding, and just let it be.  It's not worth the aggravation to always argue or that you always have to win.  I think its really important to only argue when absolutely necessary.  If you are not wanting to get into a fight; let him know, and stop the conversation.  Sometimes, later I'll even get an apology for it.  I just don't make a big deal out of it.  They appreciate that.
778900
Anything worth having is worth fighting for.  Stand up and fight for your man!  Seven years and a child is a lot to invest and even more to lose over some silly jealous moment.
233323
try to work things out with her. Both of you should compromise. But if you're always fighting, it can be a lot harder emotionally for the kids. Things can change and people can change, and if you BOTH work on it, things will get better and so will the both of you.
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You've got to be able to discuss your differences and share your feelings, but that doesn't mean it has to be fighting.\n\nSometimes our communication styles just aren't compatible.