Ladies... Biting The Neck and Back During Lovemaking, Like It Or Not?
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Sounds like she knows what she likes!  A little kissing and nibbling a bit further down is also quite enjoyable...(on the glutious maximus!!) the anticipation that builds is AMAZING!!
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You know what?  The answers aren't a simple as looks, or sounds...for example...I love a woman's body, the female form..but it doesn't automatically make me want to have sex with her.  That person might even be totally into themselves and stuck up...which is a no go for me.\n\nWhen I'm actually having sex, I'm looking for softness.  I'm looking for that woman to allow me into her mind.....that sounds corny as hell though...but it's true.  It's a turn on, that she is allowing you to please her and vice versa.  \n\nThen as a guy, you pay attention to the sounds....not just the regular moans....but the real, deep, almost primal moans to let you know you are really working her over the way she wants.  I personally like to see involuntary movement of the limbs.  If she is making faces she wouldn't want to know she made, curling up her toes, or moving in ways or positions she has no idea she is even in, or even why she is in them.....then I know I doing what I'm supposed to.\n\nPlus a good attitude is necessary.  A woman who actually speaks and lets you know what she wants, what works...either vocally or with her eyes, or moans, whatever....will be better during sex.  It takes out the guy's guesswork at everything.  It shows she is conscious that you are actually trying to do a good job......and you want to make it happen together.  Communication, as with everything else in life, is the most crucial part of sex.\n\nSoooo....I guess it's the combination.  It's looks, although looks can and have fooled me.  I actually had the best sex I've ever had with someone that wasn't the supermodel type.  She definitely wasn't ugly.  She was real thick and she had the features I liked.  I guess it depends on the guy.  \n\nYou could say it's the sounds....but I've had girls who made yeti sounds....or they sounded like I was hitting them in the stomach with a lead pipe (no pun intended)....or they were screaming in my ear, like it was sexy.\n\nIf guys have that nice combo of looks, the right sounds, and a good attitude to match.....and the right amount of freakiness....goes a long way.\n\nOh.....and the difference between a one nighter and a committed relationship comes down to those two people.  The one nighter is exhilerating, exciting......might even hit the spot for a while.  Relationship sex depends on how you feel that night....or how your day went.....just more factors involved.\n\nWhat do I know?  I'm just a guy @ work with too much time on my hands.
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id stop!  i wouldn't necessarily like it... but it's a shared act - if i asked her to stop sucking me cuz she was biting ( or WHATEVER) i would expect her to stop.  She should expext the same from me - even if i'm starting to squirt - just pull out.\nmy 2 cents
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that depends on how the two of you fit together there big man. If you are too long then yeah, you start bangin on the cervix- which hurts like hell.  I personally prefer rear entry and it doesnt hurt unless he is tryin to find some buried treasure in there.  Actually, many women prefer being on top than on bottom. Personal preferance (and size/shape ratio) really....
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You should know if you have chemistry between the two of you. Obviously you are strongly attracted to her. I would suggest inviting her over to your pad. Pour a nice glass of wine, slowly put your arm around her while telling her how attractive she is to you. Look into her eyes, take both hands and stroke her face softly as you hold her face in your hands and tell her how you feel and slowly caress her nose, cheeks, and then a nice soft wet kiss on the lips. That will make any woman melt. Trust me!!! I married mine.Women love soft, slow, gentle, deliberate caresses in all the right/wrong places. Back of the neck is an errogenous zone.
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Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
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I like getting or giving oral sex. All my females friends do not like doing it, but I love it. I think its a control issue.
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One of my female friends happens to enjoy this sort of thing (a lot!) and of course I (being the gallant sort of fellow that I am) have assisted her on several occasions. Typically this is something that women do for each other because in many cases a man’s hands are too big. It takes a LOT of lubricant, and the woman really needs to completely relax (which, according to my friend, is the toughest part cuz the tendency in this situation is to tighten up). I can’t say much more from the woman’s perspective, but as the one who “lends the hand” I can say that I personally find the sensation to be extremely interesting and enjoyable – though not really all that erotic, except for the basically erotic nature of being so intimate with a woman, etc. Er…ah…what I mean is that the act, per se, doesn’t really add much extra erotic element for me, but I still have a good time. One word of caution: My woman friend says that once your whole hand gets inside, DO NOT withdraw your hand too quickly, since the suction created by a quick withdrawal can cause pain and I suppose even damage. I’ve always been careful to follow her instructions. I insert as much as she says, when she says, and never make any sudden movements. I’ve only done it “at the Y” and have no interest in ever trying the “back door” version (too much “yuk” factor for me), although I guess it can be done.\n\nNow if, after all of this, you still don’t know exactly what fist[ing] is, then you are probably too young, so I will explain very carefully. First you find a warm, fuzzy mitten. You dump some vegetable oil on your hand and stick it in the mitten. It feels gooey and gross and that’s what’s cool about it. And that’s all there is to it.
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No, I don't. While kissing someone with a tongue stud is not markedly unpleasant, oral isn't impressive enough to justify the utter obnoxiousness of the constant click-clacking of it against my partner's teeth every time they talk.\n\nPeople with mouth-based piercings (tongue, labret, etc.) are always playing with them. It drives me insane. I've had two partners who got mouth-based piercings while we were together (despite my wishes to the contrary) and in both cases I liked them better before.
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I am sure she gets off on it.  (Speaking personally, of course!)  Not only do you enjoy it, but when she's doing it, let her know what it is that makes it better for you.  If you think about it, I am sure you have certain areas and certain techniques that you have preference for.  If she is doing it for her own pleasure as well, this will help make it more enjoyable for both.
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it is only pleasurable if my lover likes it too.  if done right it is enjoyable for both. i love feeling her going wild, no matter what we are doing, is fun to have her peaking from so many different things, this is only one little part of lovemaking.
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no, try this, have lots of foreplay and make it about her for like 30 min. don't be stengey them get behind her and while you are making love to her (the nice way to put it) put your finger on the top of her clit and rub. i almost promise that will make her scream
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Her Neck\n\nHer neck must be one of the hottest spots on the female body. We at sexinfo101.com have never found a method more effective than hot passionate kisses on the neck to turn a good night kiss into an invitation for brunch. There are several things to keep in mind here … but most importantly, control yourself! Hickies may have been the big thing when you were younger, but most women hate them, especially when they have to wear turtlenecks for a week! If you must suck for blood, keep the hickies to places that are usually covered by clothes. Try to have a moist mouth, but don't slobber! Cover different areas of her neck with tender kisses, using the areas under/behind the ears for extra stimulation. Light nibbling and tugging usually work really well also. Start out soft and gentle as she gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder to light that fire of passion within her.\nHer Ears\n\nBundles of nerve endings are in and around the ears, making them ultra-sensitive to your touch. Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. Gently squeeze the earlobes. Explore the area behind the ear with your lips and tongue, and then exhale deeply but gently while you keep nibbling. Don't be shy about making noise while you're lingering there, the sound of your breath and moans is a huge turn-on for most women. Make sure to remember there is a fine line between sensual ear play and “wet willies”. Very few women enjoy having someone's tongue jammed down their ears!\nHer Lips\n\nThe number one mistake guys (especially married or in long term relationships) make during sex? Not enough kissing. Women love to kiss, and many of them complain that guys just don't spend enough time on it. But don't just kiss more, also do it better. Try varying the intensity (kiss her softly, then more passionately, then slow it down again). When you're done with her lips, move on to her cheeks, eyelids, forehead, nose, neck, or earlobes (stressing neck and ears). Don’t get dull doing the same thing over and over; make sure to mix up your style. If you generally move your hands all over her body when you kiss (which, by the way, is really good), try kissing her for several minutes without letting your hands roam (focus all you passion on the kiss), and let her indicate when she's ready to move on.\nHer Scalp\n\nYou've noticed that a lot of women play with their hair? It's not just a nervous habit; they do it because it feels good. Chances are she's wishing you would play with it, too. The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since she's probably not expecting you to lavish any attention on it, surprise her. Having her hair brushed can be a very sensual experience. Or run your fingers through it as you're kissing her, or, simply caress her scalp gently with your hand. Get some bonus points for washing or blow-drying, just leave the actual styling to her - you'll never get that thing with her bangs to work out right. On the other hand, some women have phobias when it comes to having their head touched; start out slow so your partner has a chance to stop you if she is one of those.\n\nHer Breasts\n\nBreasts are familiar territory for most men and they're fun, so it's unlikely you'll shortchange them. The mistake you're more likely to make is giving them too much (or too vigorous) attention before she's ready. Over-stimulating the breast can be numbing or painful for women during some parts of their menstrual cycle. Try taking the less-is-more approach. Touch her breast softly, then lift your hand away for a moment, and then continue. That allows her to have the important moment of anticipation. Stick to indirect stimulation of the nipples until they become aroused (hard) and don't just focus on the bull’s-eye; same concept as before - anticipation.\n\nThe entire breast is rich in nerve endings and all breasts have
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I love to do it from behind. Its my favorite position. I can get real deep and pull her hair, which is something I love to do.
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My wife likes when she is on top, but also likes when I'm on my side, she raises her leg up and I go in her from the side.  Both of those are her favorite positions.  \n\nI also found one where she was flat on her stomach and I managed to get inside her from a weird angle on top of her, and it was hitting her g-spot constantly and drove her nuts.
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WHY NOT TRY SOME MORE AND..THE FRENCH KISS\n\nThe Lip Kiss - the most common of them all. This is the starting point of any love story! Often the first physical contact that most couples engage in is initial moment when your lips touch. Close your eyes and let the moment carry on. Although this may seem basic, if done well , it can promise great things in the future.\n\nThe Neck Kiss - the neck and the nape are highly sensitive and erogenous areas for both men and women. Start with blowing warm air in her hair, ear and along the neck.  Run your lips all over her neck -  light nibbling and biting can be incredibly erotic. Intersperse with wet kisses and nibbling all along the neck and the ear lobe.\n\nThe Suction Kiss - nibble on your partner's upper lip while he or she works on your lower lip. Take it in your mouth and gently suck on it for a while. Be extra cautious and don't bite the person's lip off! Alternate between the two lips and then finally suck the entire mouth. Let the other person do the same to you and you'll never want to stop.\n\nThe Candy Kiss - to enhance the kiss, just pop a candy or chocolate in your mouth before lip locking. It is an amazing and unexpected surprise to taste something sweet on your partners tongue as you kiss him or her. \n\nThe French Kiss - this is when you know you are in love... Many consider this to be more personal and intimate than having sex. While you are kissing your partner's lips gradually use your tongue to open the mouth and then start sucking on the other persons tongue. Passionately suck and keep breathing through your nose to keep it going for long. Before you know it, you'll have been kissing for hours and it'll seem like minutes!\nNow armed with the knowledge you'll surely be a winner in the play field of love, so get going.
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What is "dirty" anyway??  Talking is not essential, but certainly welcome during lovemaking.  I know it sure works for me.  Of course grunts, groans and moaning are acceptable as well.