i have a cousin who went out the other night.?
821916
some times when we get lonely its hard to resist not having some one to hold you and just feel there touch ...........its natural to want to have sex and when you haven't had any in a while it makes you almost become desperate even if your the nicest most respectful girl in the world it happens ...i would just make sure to tell her not to make it a habit cuz thing then can get nasty .....we all make mistakes in the heat of the moment but whats done is done .......just remember to tell her not to make it a habit and to try to look for a man that wants a relationship ...and she will no longer feel lonely .........good luck
347775
Compromise, go for a little while, then leave.....That way you made an appearance for her, but didn't end up staying all night.\n\nAlso, just tell her the truth, that you also have other commitments/appearances to make at other parties you were invited to, and you don't want to be mean to anyone....If she's your friend, she should understand....GL;)
953758
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening.  It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days.  He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.
479619
This is a trust issue.  Do you trust her?  What makes you so upset that she talks to your cousin?  And he is your cousin.  If you cant trust your girlfriend, you should at least trust your cousin.  Leave this alone, if something does ever go wrong, let her go and be thankful that you found out about her while she was still your girlfriend, and not your wife.
733740
Kayla.....LIVE>>>>Rock out and enjoy yourself. Tell this dude things are done and over with. He is controlling. Do your own thing. Do what you do and have fun. Dont worry about your friends...they will be there.
1054250
whoa...how old are you? there is so much wasted energy here. can't you talk to your girlfriend? why don't you take control and ask her how she feels, what is going on, and why you can't get a single date with her without her cousin tailing you guys.  if you want to be an honourable man, choose between your gf and her cousin and don't mess around...
982401
Tell him to get a life.  Have you asked him why he does this?  You have obviously spoken to him about this and concerned about his actions, so it must be very serious.  I agree I think the next step is professional counselling of some kind.  There should be local assistance that can help you with your cousin's problem.  Good luck.
1000361
well i'm going through the similar thing but what i've done is gone to stay with my sister for a few days but if you got any close friends or family go and stay with them for a few days and see how you are after it and if u still upset and feel the same way then ask your friends or family if you can move in with them till you get a place and try hang out with other boys or go clubbing
484646
Drop him like a lost cause.\n\nPeople make mistakes and are forgiven.  You made a mistake and apologized.  He forgave you and that should have been the end of it.\n\nI bet that he just used what you did with his cousin as an excuse for his behavior.  It likely was not planned out but he needed to blame it on you and could not accept responsibility for his own actions.\n\nDo away with him.
603167
Depending on the airline and their policies your cousin could have been rerouted on another flight. Getting her money back is probably not going to happen.
756424
It's completly legel, n it is goin back quite a few generations. It just depends how u feel about the relationship, I no sum1 hu is goin out wid there 1st cousin. continue it if u feel u want to/can! :-)
198029
Dump the boyfriend,and straighten out your cousin. Remind\nher that blood is thicker than water,or at least it should be.
706882
Yes it happened to me.  I had not seen my friend for 20 some years.  She had a date that night.  The date kirk showed up and took my friend Alice and me to a nice restaurant.  After we went to a club.  He was drinking heavily and when she went to the ladies room or to talk to some different friends he tried to put the make on me and I was not going for it.  Finally I had my gut full and took the pitcher of beer and poured it all over his head then I walked out the door.  I got a hotel room.  The next morning I called her and said I was coming to get my suitcases.  I did and she started questioning me and I said I would tell her later on.... I then went to another friends home and her entertainment was Great!
474940
Choose your moment then sit them down and tell them what happened. don't give them intimate details but let them know how unwelcome this mans advances were. They will probably be shocked and upset and you need to have someone outside of the family to give you support after the event. Don't suffer in silence, it won't get any easier or go away. Wishing you the best of luck
370418
just take your time and relax...do what feels natural and don't put so much pressure on yourself, if she feels the same way about you it will be a great night for you both
801497
HONEY,\nTHat is not nice.  lets hope he is planning something.  someone needs to call him and tell him what has happened and check this out!!! like one of your family members!!!
372982
Ask him to be a man. Look beyond the family. I am telling you this because I myself had a crush on my cousin for a very long time. I eventually shrugged it off and moved on.