How do you know a lady loves you for you and not for your money?
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I think you have a problem. You have already made the comment that she owes every credit card company, and likes the expensive stuff, etc. Does she have a job, a way to pay for this stuff. She is spending more than she is making. From what you are saying on here, she is after your money.\n\nDo you your self like the down to earth type of stuff? Well try this and see what happens: Take her out to eat at McDonald's once in awhile, take her shopping to Wal-Mart, go for walks in the park, set at home a few times and watch a movie together on the sofa. What I am saying here is have fun and do "fun" things BUT very cheap fun. Ask her is she cooks at home or goes out to eat all the time. Ask her if she has ever worked in the garden or yard, that is a good sign there to see how she will react to that. If she ever makes a comment about doing some of the finer things in life instead of doing this cheaper stuff, then I would say that she is after your money and how sad that would be.\n\nWith me I am satified with the cheaper stuff and staying at home, working in the garden and yard work. As a matter of fact, lets say that I did met someone that had "money" so what, I would rather live the cheaper life and grow things in a garden, go to McDonald's for a .99 burger, buy a pair of jeans at Wal-Mart for 9.99. I can make money stretch, and have fun too. Don't get me wrong, it is nice to have money when you do need it. Like if some thing brakes, you can either get it fixed or get a new one, but that is different.\n\nWell I hope I have been of some help to you with this, heck, I'm just a good old country woman myself. I don't need the finer things in life. Money don't buy love, it don't keep you warm on a cold night.
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I think you can see it in a person's eyes. You can also tell by their actions. As others have said actions speak louder then words. \n\nI know when I that I love my girl and that I am always trying to do things for her. She hasn't opened a door since we've been together. I get her little things just to surprise her. I assume your to young, but I even leave her a little note on her car about once or twice a month. \n\nI doubt there is really any ONE way to figure out if this boy loves you or not. But why worry about it? Enjoy the experience your getting. I am sure there will be more then just this one guy in your life. Life's a ride, so enjoy it... Ride on!!
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HOW TO TELL IF SHE LIKES YOU\n\nShe gazes in your eyes with deep interest while her pupils are dilated.\n\nShe raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.\n\nShe laughs in unison with you then says she loves you so very much.\n\nHer skin tone becomes red while being around you, then she says, I never loved anyone like this before.\n\nYou can see her complete breasts.\n\nHer crossed leg is pointed towards you or that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you. If it's not rocking toward you, move in front of it, and then she likes you.\n\nBiting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips, or touching of her front teeth with a fingernail and tongue at the same time.\n\nBig smiles with upper and lower teeth showing, with a relaxed face.\n\nShe breathes in through her nose and out through her mouth. \nShe starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm. Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then two quick smiles, indicates interest in you.\n\nShe rests an elbow in the palm of one hand toward you, and holding out that hand, palm up, while waving with the other hand toward you.\n\nShe rubs up herself.\n\nIn crowds she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you only at all times.\n\nWhile walking, she blinks more than usual, and staggers.
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Does she want to be around you 24/7?  Does she do special things for you?  If you can answer yes to either of these questions than doubt she loves you.
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you can test whether she loves you or not this way:\nTake her to a hotel, and order something (ask the bearer to delay ;) ) Do this before the Valentines Day. Open ur heart and express your deep feeling as much as u can. Then ask her to tell final decision. I suppose that it will be a FOR. Do tell whether ur love is success. :)
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I love my lady because she care about me and thinks she is a part of me. We do things together and ego doesnt play in between u, unconditional love for each other. thats what makes our love specail
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thats a very good question. well you could start by doing little things to let her know that you love her and appreciate her like just out of the blue rubbing her feet or taking her out, maybe cook her dinner. Its the little things that guys do that clue us in to what you are thinking.
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women (as a demographic) aren't as complicated as some men paint them to be. a girl will tell you she loves you when she feels love for you. it's as simple as that. unfortunately for you, there is no generic equation that will give you a definite answer, in terms of time.\n\ndon't confuse interest with love. although getting someone interested in you is the right first step, there is a line that separates the two. when a girl is interested, she will allow herself to enjoy your company. issues on trusting you with her whole being or building a future together do not surface until she begins to love you.\n\nn.b. do not pray for a girl who will instantly (or at least easily) tell you that she loves you. love, for any girl is a  commitment of her heart, body and soul. a girl who will tell you she loves you within a few hours or days of meeting you is more likely to take it back than someone who's had some time to ascertain her true feelings for you.
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she like u in the way like..\n1. she expect u when u r not there.\n2. she smiles on seeing u when u look smart.\n3. she give her phone and to contact her.\n4. she always want u to share ur feelings when ur mind unconsiousness.\n5. she angry with u when some girl sexy girl talks with u\n6. she asks about to u that how she was like studing, dressing and her character.\n7. she congrats u when win even a small prize.\n8. she talks to u when even her relatives near to her.\n9. she help u in the way of giving money and other needs.\n10. She tells to u that she always happy when ur with her.
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it all depends on your relationship with your lady. If u're both comfortable being together, not going to split up and whatever happens, you'll give her a helping hand, then u can tell her you love her. But remember: too soon and too late - vicious. U'll feel that time has come to reveal ur feelings.
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My wife already makes feel special.She loves me,and to prove this,I will list the following things she does that makes me feel loved.\n1.She is always telling me-I love you!(I always tell her the same thing!!!)\n2.She works hard at her job of 18 years to provide me with a home.\n3. She supports my decision to start an in-home computer repair service\n3.She is always concerned about my health and well being\n4.She goes the extra mile to provide me with the attention and words to make me feel comfortable in every thing \n5.She will fight -to the death-anybody that tries to hurt me-(We both are experienced martial artists)\n6.She lets me know when she is sad-mad-upset with someone,or just needs some loving.\n7.She lets the past mistakes I made, remain in the past and forgave me of them-(I never repeated them)\n8. We are still together after 21 years!!!!!!!!!!
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Are you insecure? Do you feel worthy of love? Could be why you don't trust her. Or have you been hurt before. You know she loves you if you have good conversation, she listens to you and talks back. YOu have good communition and can tell each other anything. She is attentive and loving towards you, and intrested in you sexually (if you are having sex yet, you didn't say your ages). You have fun together ,and laugh together. When you are together, you feel like her mind is 100 per cent with you, and she's not distant. YOu feel important to her. She is reassuring if you need it. YOu feel totally happy in her company.
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Make her feel special. Personally, I'm not one that wants money or material things - just do little things to make her know that you are thinking about her when  she least expects it. Good luck.
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I have been through more then anyone I know when it comes to that special someone.  If she is not a money kinda girl, then the best thing you can give a women is love.  Show her by words,looks and actions that she is the right one for you.  That she is th emost beautiful women you have ever seen and that You would never betray her trust.  Some flowers when unnexpected and a kiss would work too.
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from a mans stand point! you know your wife more than anybody! sit back and think of some of the thing she has talked about. love is something money cannot buy. give of youself, do something for her. make her feel like she is the only woman there is.
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IF the woman loves u too then u get much much more than what u put in for love..Because love is all about giving and taking(love and affection)..\n And u know the word 'LOVE' is invaluable..it cannot be bought or sold..\nBut having said that u wont get it for free cuz u need to give and put in so much..\nbut when u find the true love everything else seems unimportant..\nbottom line: dont try to buy it
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Does she look you deep in the eyes and say that she loves you?\nDoes she do physically intimate things with you?\nDoes she return your calls, and answer your calls?