A Good Man need advice?
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Huh?  Child support is paid BY THE PERSON WHO DOES NOT HAVE CUSTODY OF THE KIDS.   Who do the kids live with?  That person is entitled to financial assistance from the other parent to offset the cost of raising the children.
1131666
This is not the place..go to church and meet a good person
403123
If he's a good guy, try to get to know him better, and he will tell you (or his friends will tell you :)
768770
You're half way there! Good for you to realize this now!!  Strength and self-esteem will  sky-rocket!! Then, when you're ready..you'll chose a much better man.
91623
Tell him the truth.  Just say "hey, I think you're a great guy, but I really don't think you're the right person for me.  I want you to be happy, and I want to be happy. I don't think I'm happy right now; but that is not your fault.  Like I said, you're a great person, but just not the great person I want to be with."
428859
Trust the guy himself.  He can tell you & more importantly, show you he truly cares for you by his daily actions of respect, attentiveness, etc.
753204
Why not being honest about this when you meet a man and tell him that you have a problem with this. If he knows about your problem then he may be understanding (if he is a good guy) and call YOU instead.\nI am talking by experience.
502440
If you have to ask you need to find another guy.  The good ones know what will make you feel good and they will want to do it.
832573
That easy...TELL HIM you'd like to wait awhile.  If he's the right guy, he will be kool about it.  If he's a jerk about it then he just made things VERY easy, LEAVE HIM!\n\nGood luck, there's still a few "good guys" left out there.\n\n:)
980374
Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
732174
you have to get out and meet people. Don't get bamboozled by some man.  Never lend a man money for any reason and make sure he is who he says he is.
379723
There are some good ones...Don't give up...I haven't even come close to giving up on all you pr*cks...I mean men out there...Good ones are few and far between but are there...Good luck hon...
1146667
You can catch a man quite easily.  But a good one, that's harder!  I don't know how, or I'd have me one by now!  I guess you need to hang out where the good men are, but I'm not sure where that would be.  Maybe in your mosque, or at an Islamic cultural center, or something like that.
884198
god will help you.  try to make a good choice.
320454
Do something that you've always wanted to do but couldn't do when you were married, this will certainly make you look on the bright side of being single with no commitments.  As for trusting guys, there are plenty of good ones out there, unfortunately the good guys don't always meet the good girls first time round.
646166
Be patient...be good yourself, and a good boy will find you one day.  Don't settle for someone who is no good for you, just because he's there.  Wait for the good one!
887990
Listen more than you talk. Be of good moral character. Don't cheat on your wife with your gay lover.