My boy friend the player?
827445
You shouldn't be considering dating your friend's ex. Your asking for drama in a bad way.
73784
you just have a case of loninlyitus, you don't need a player to make ya feel better besides youur passed him if he hurt you or your friend once what makes ya think that he won't hurt ya again, it gets easier to break up woth someone if ya have done it before, hes out for you and doesn't care about your emotions oyu should really just try and play it on the singles side, he is so not worth it.
681930
if he loved you, he would dump his girl and be with you. He sounds like a player. Stay away.
839294
Hi, and what an interesting question!  My ex-fiance is a player.  We dated for almost 6 years....now, after being broken up for nearly 5 years, he is, yet again, and engaged, yet again.  Here's what I noticed in his "player" personality.  A lot of it had to do with how he acted and treated me when we first started dating......he made sure he let me know I was the only woman in his heart (although dropped hints that his friends were #1)...he would pay attention, only when birthdays and holidays arrived, as to what truly made me happy, so that his present and attitude would rise him to the top....he would always bring me around his friends....other women would always flirt with him and although he would flirt back, he seemed to be more interested in me and that's all that mattered...but I think the best answer to this question is not details of the man, or boy, himself, but the woman who chooses to be with him.  My lack of self-confidence, insecurity and immaturity drew me closer to him because he paid attention to me and no matter what he did, how he responded to my concerns, or how he treated me, he still called me his girlfriend, still showed affection and still called me for everything he needed...so, it made me feel important when in reality, he was self-centered, greedy and cocky and never truly thought about me.  I hope you find your answers!  Thanks!
639717
It isn't possible to have a relationship with a player.  A relationship implies exclusivity--the idea that two (or more, if that's your thing) people become emotionally involved with one another.  If s/he's a player, then s/he isn't emotionally involved, and even if you ARE emotionally involved, that's not a relationship.  That's you being taken advantage of by a self-involved person.
926867
i think you need to slow down and give him some time. let him stay alone with his games. make him miss you. I'm sure the games will go away and he'll be the same guy.
915052
WOW, I need to find a gf like you, very sweet of you to do this research.  Truth of the matter is he just needs time.  A little space after the game and some time to realize that it is just a game and there is always next week.  BUT don't remind him of these points, he must realize them himself. =)
798617
If he's a player, save yourself the heartache, and don't go out with him. The way you said it makes it seem like you don't really like the guy, but you're considering it, purely because he asked. Girl, if you aren't interested, and your heart is saying "he's a player, and he's gone out with my friends" what makes you think your situation will be any different???? Look for someone who will respect you and love you regardless, and won't compromise you! Good luck and hope this helps!
702278
i'd vote for him!! he's a buddy of my boy friend and we do meth together
871739
Sounds like he's playing with both of you. let your friend have this guy and you find someone else. She'll get kicked to the kerb sooner or later...might be what she deserves!
673511
Have you ever wondered who those Players Play with?  Since most people learn how to behave with one another based on action and then reaction, guys have learned that being a player is more rewarding than being kind and sincere.  The kind and sincere ones are the guys that never seem to have dates and are the ones that you complain about other guys to.  Those guys are wants referred to as Wussies.\n\nPlayers, have found that you can have much more fun being cocky and funny and not get too serious with one girl.  Why, because the women in their lives have rewarded them for this behavior.  \n\nNow don't get me wrong, I don't condone this type of behavior.  but you asked and this is why guys act like that.\n\nTo get guys to stop behaving this way, don't deal with the players.  Pay attention to the guys that are your best friends that may be a little shy.  If your looking for the right guy, check out the way he treats his mother.  If he treats her well, chances are he is going to treat the other women in his life well also.
50038
try to get to know him before you take the plunge of expressing yourself too much. after (or if, for you pessimists out there) you find he is still what you are looking for then maybe attend a b-ball game and note what position he plays and what he did in the game and you'd really impress him by mentioning you noticed his playing and throwing it out there a little, just not too much, cause then it is a little stalkerish
1083767
He has a boyfriend actually.
769901
Ashley, you've asked this question twice now. This one looks like you did it. Doubt it, since I don't think you'd have a chance to play on the computer in jail. Your boyfriend, right? Better start calling him your "friend" and go play with another "boy", a good one this time!
388079
Maybe you should go to a game and watch them play.  Both of them and see how they play.  It just matters what the person thinks.
71012
grow up first\n\nif you like some one else go out with that person and tell your boy friend\nstop playing games and hurting your boyfriend
638476
I am pleased to announce that you have discovered the latest variation to the English Language.\n\n"Player pass ball to his friend player.....' \nLol