How to prove the spousal verbal abuse ?
820970
Stop posting the same question over and over again.  I answered it already.  Leave your wife if you can't stand living with her.  If it's abusive, you'd pack your bags and find a better life.  Otherwise, stop sitting around in your undies at the computer trying to figure out how to get back at her!
954050
Hey sweetie! Sounds like you need to talk to an attorney, cause that's not right. Could have something to do with her being female, but that would be a hard one to prove. Call for a free consultation with a lawyer. Good luck!.........:)
97141
First question are you being phsyicaly abused? if so you should like you need to ask yourself is do you want to stay in this. If you do you only asking for what is being handed too you. If you want to get out of it what you should do is seek a lawyer. if you can't afford it then seek Legal aid they can help you for a small fee or no cost. Some states sence he if he is phsycaly abusive you might be able to seek a court order for him to be exparte from the resendence and also request that Tempory Spoucal support be paid till the divorce is over. You can also in some states seek what is called a bed and board divorce. This means you get the marrial resendence. I would HIGHLY reocmmend if he is physicaly abusive to you contact a lawyer ASAP! If this is a problem you can file it down at the court house. And seek consoling as no women or man should ever have to put up with phsycal abuse.
1048575
Maintain a sense of reasonable doubt. Accept proofs that work beyond a reasonable doubt as real. Accept cooberated circumstantial evidence, with physical evidence.\n\nTest everything except your wife's, and God's love.
93045
You can download the court forms for Domestic Violence restraining orders from the Sacramento County Superior Court or the California Courts Court Forms sites.  The Superior Court's website should say when the family law facilitator's office is open.  The facilitator's office helps persons who do not have an attorney complete the forms.  \nIn general, the more specific you are as to time, date, and exactly what happened (she struck my left temple with her right fist is a lot better than she whopped me upside my head) the more likely the court will grant you the orders.\nIf you want the court to issue orders the same day, you will have to give the wife notice, by telephone or in person, or explain, in the papers, why you did not give notice.  If you do it yourself, plan on a half day or more at court to complete the paperwork, and coming back the next day to ask for immediate orders.  Whether or not the court grants immediate orders, there will be a hearing in two to six weeks to determine if the orders should be extended.\nSimplest thing to do is hire an attorney to represent you both in making sure the paperwork is done right and in court so the evidence is presented right.
1074147
Start out by reporting her for disturbing the peace. Do it every time she starts screaming at you. If they won't come out and do anything about it, this is what you do. Go to the Police Dept during regular business hours and file a complaint regarding lack of response on your problem. Tell them that you feel threatened by this woman. Keep a journal of every time you call and everything she does. Write down dates and times for everything. After you have several calls down and several incidents recorded, go to your city or county courthouse and ask the clerk of court about filing for a protection order. A protection order says that she can no longer attempt to communicate with you in any way. She can still yell at your husband or guests, but not you. Once you are at that level, go to your apartment managers again with copies of all this information. Still can't get rid of her? Take your info to an attorney for civil matters. You may have a nice case for a lawsuit. You may also want to have your husband file for a protection order as well. Hopefully you get a good repsonse from the police and she starts getting tickets for disturbing the peace. Do you know her name? You can check with the county courthouse and get her criminal record if she has one. Check with them and see what they will charge you for the information. In my area it's ten dollars for anybody's info. Build up and save your evidence and you should see her going bye bye, before long. If I can be of any further assistance, let me know.
976866
Verbal Abuse can be a form of ASSAULT.\n\nIt is not necessarily "Domestic Violence", per se, but it is a form of Abuse, and can be damaging to ones record.
1083083
Start gathering the proof. Get a video camera. Record her actions. Get an answering machine that can record her phone calls. When you've got the goods, go to a judge.
1003996
well the nieghbor can only ACCUSE your husband....the police in conjunction with the DA charge someone...but only if there's proof....and it doesn't really sound like there's any proof....if you have items missing from your home, hopefully it's something noticeable like a computer or a refrigerator, something that is readily noticed as missing will go a long way in proving innocence for the husband.....
308964
Bless your heart. It will take time after going through verbal abuse. Words hurt deeper than any slap, and the pain lasts far longer. Please seek marriage counselling.
1047807
I was in a very simialar situation with my ex  and sought advice from my divorce attorney. He recommended that the only way to legally stop him is to take out a warrant for slander and difimation of character at the local magistrate offfice.  Her divorce attorney can advise her on the best way to proceed from there, if she can prove everything that he has been saying is a lie and she has plenty of emotional support for her through this, I didnt but  i would do it all over again.
588142
If you were married to your husband at the time of the assault, you do not have to answer any questions concerning the case. Talk to your husband's lawyer (or your own, if necessary) and ask for a reply that you can give the prosecution whenever they ask you a question. Do not answer anything. It is too easy for them to lead you astray. The minute you answer one innocent sounding question, you'll be hit with another and the next thing you know, you'll blurt out something you never meant to say. It's best to maintain your silence from beginning to end, once they get past your vital statistics. Do not fool yourself into thinking you can control what you say just because you want to so badly. They are experts at worming the answers they want out of witnesses.\n\nI know that I advised you not to go back to your husband in an earlier question. That's because I've walked a mile or two in your shoes and I know what I'm talking about. I hope that your efforts will pay off and your man will be able to get the help that he needs.  I wish you all the best in the future. For what it's worth, listen to Johnny Cash's song, "I Walk The Line." Keep your antannae up at all times. Forgive, but don't forget. He may need you, but so does your daughter. For your all your sakes, I hope you and your husband can balance this equation to everyone's benefit.
1122604
Record an incident on video. Not sure what the laws are in your area but verbal abuse qualifies as assault here. Have the pissant thrown in jail.
219612
If you can prove it. See a lawyer!
239761
Tough one, need to contact an attorney.  She seriously has some issues.  I would think she's bluffing about the whole thing if she will not provide proof.  \n  She must not be over your hubby or is a drama queen.  Don't think you can charge someone criminally for lying, too bad.  You may have some civil action, possibly.\nGood luck.
151641
If he has shown no repentance you can seperate yourself from him for a while. But if you have no proof you need to be very careful. If you suspect he has done this there are probably other deceitful things going on as well that feed the suspicion. If he has not admitted it you need to focus more on the things that you do know and search yourself for you wrongdoings as well. Ask him if you have wronged him in a way that has made him pull away from you. I highly suggest the book "love and respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerich. This book has been a marriage saver for many. \n\nIf in fact your husband has been outside of the marriage you have the right to divorce. But Jesus wants us to try to make it work anyway. If we can show forgiveness in that sort of situation then we can begin to understand the forgiveness he has for us.\n\nAre there children involved? You kids are learning how to treat people and handle situations based on how you and your husband do these things. Pretend for a moment that your daughter was in the situation you are in now. What would you advise her to do? Or maybe even pretend that your daughter in law came to you with the suspicion that your son was cheating on her. What would you advice your daughter inlaw do do about your son? Looking at it like this helps put things in perspective. \n\nAlso the most important thing to do is PRAY. Ask God for guidance. Try to pray with your husband. I will pray for you now.\n\nDear Heavenly Father,\n\nLord I bring this situation to you in humble prayer and inquisition. May you shine a light here in the darkness. May you guide this woman on what to do. Let her hear your words and obey. I pray that you convict her husband and bring him to repentance. May this couple see the significance their marriage has. And how marriage is a holy union to represent the Christ/Church relationship. May you wipe away the tears and give strength here. Lord let us remember the forgiveness you have as well as the wrath. Bless this womans search and may her efforts be pleasing in your sight. In Jesus's name. Amen
940523
Don't ever admit to anything. The best thing that you can do is accuse her of giving it to you,and then file for divorce on grounds of adultery.