Is it cheating to keep in touch with an old girlfrien?
823788
no if she is your friend\n\n:> peace\n.
736250
i think you should stay with her; it is an online thing after all; think of it this way: would you appreciate it if she talked about your mutual affairs in public? but you are exposing the intimate details of your relationship here, right? so the anonymity of the internet is a shield for certain things, that would otherwise be unacceptable.
426911
Well of course!!!\nBe sure to send her at least a card a week, and keep in touch with her.  Sometimes, "out of sight out of mind", goes on if you don't pursue it.........\nBe sure you try to make arrangements with certainty to see her...........make plans and talk to her about them.............
417375
ummmm....im a guy so its best that i say that if I was cheating (unfortunately i have), i would probly do just the opposite. Id call all the time to make you seem less suspicious, and id give you excuses as to why i had to go, like, "my mom wants me to help her cook, so i guess ill talk to you l8r", and in reality, some other chick is calling and i dont want to miss the call. But some guys make it obvious, so if you feel that he is, you shouldnt have to feel that way so its probly best that you move on anyways......... you should be able to trust the guy, cuz after all, thats what a relationship is based on....TRUST. hope i could be of assistance even though im like 17 lol.
317244
Normal for her to have male friends.\nNot normal to keep them "secret".\nIs she keeping their identities or just the phone #s a secret?\nHas she introduced you to them? If you've all hung out then it's probably fine and she just thinks you're weird to ask for the numbers.
964321
I don't think it's right. I mean would you RALLY be ok with him e-mailing his ex? Aren't you scared old memories may come back he wants her again?\nThat's how he feels....\nHe may trust YOU but who knows what your ex wants, that's why your boyfriend doesn't trust guys (my hubby doesn't either). Maybe he's just scared you'll go back to him....\nJust let him go and write other friends, no exes...
261101
No dear, you obviously should not : especially when there is such a LARGE age difference involved.\nBy the way, are you SURE about you gf's 'real' age ? Girls often lie about theirs - and she could actually be all of 9 years old. That would be REAL bad, no ?!\n:-))
641725
Sounds like a delimma...Do what is in your heart.  You can date the new guy while keeping in contact with the old guy.  Just be honest about things.  Sometimes you really like people at first but it fades.  My man I met when I was 13 it was long distance.  We finally hooked up when I was 19 and have been together 16 years.. good luck.  There is no wrong choice
522164
im not married so maybe this wont help u out...but its not wrong as long as the chat isnt geered towards a sexual mannor and ur wife knows ur going online... some ppl make great pen pals ...even if u never meet them face to face its good to get another prosepctive on things and to talk about things with various ppl and sometimes u get a different look @ things with ppl of the opposite sex because they think differently.  keep the lines of communication open and things should be alright :)
877731
tell her how much you love her and promise to keep in touch. perhaps you could make a little scrapbook with pictures of the good times you guys had together
233324
i sincerely hope you speak better than you type, because that was cryptic at best.\n\nto put it bluntly, you sound like an over-sensitive wuss who's far too obsessed with someone 1/2 your age. if i were in her place, i wouldn't call you back either.
490494
i don't know a friendship like talking over the computer, or talking face to face and on the phone. big difference. if your talking about love affair yes to much distance. if your talking about a friend on the computer to talk to every now and then thats fine i have several all over the world and its kinda nice to help each other out, and stay in touch. its safe and you can open up to them so depends on which your talking about.
985571
Ok, first, He "Says" he's only 2 years older than you. He "Says" you're in 2 different states. He could be 50 and right next door! Friends online is plenty safe enough, if you keep it that way. Stay friends online for a while longer, more than 2 weeks, more like 5 or 6 months. If he doesn't get tired of it, and you want to exchange phone #'s then, at least you have some time in and have a better idea if he's real or not.
26378
doesnt matter...just so long as its somewhere you and her can bond and get close to one another..she is almost to that age where she will be hard to talk to..it will be good for you and her to have that relationship established
1151389
Assuming he has yours (or knows how to contact you), I'd wait until he calls you. If he doesnt, then accept that his life has moved on so far, that he's not interested in furthering the friendship anymore. \n\nIf you were close friends, one would imagine he'd have your number on his cellphone or at least knows your address or last name, to be able to write to you instead? \n\nLeave the ball in his court...its often harder on the person left behind than the one who is venturing to new fields, as they are still holding on and have no new memories yet to fill the gap. \n\nIf he misses you he'll find a way but remember that  he probably knew for quite a while that he was leaving and so prepared himself for that loss ages ago. If he's never coming back (and knows you wont be moving there)....he might not feel that there is a good reason to continue the friendship now?
610372
That is a problem when it comes to age gaps. If I were you I would just leave her alone, dont ignore her if you see her be nice but kinda short.  It will let her know you are trying to move on, give it some time if she comes back to you it may just be to see if you are still into her.  I would just let her go, and soon she will realize she will never have it that good again. Try and find someone how is as good to you as you are to them.
792130
its ok as long as she don't talk to weirdos i'm 13 with an email address my dad keeps a check on it regularly.  maybe you should do that buti think you should narrow it down to 1 email address hope i could help.\n\npinky