This one is for ladies only, What are benefits for a woman to date another woman???
816287
well, there is more security, more trust, better sex and women are just plain hotter than men!
553160
Yeah, just don't worry about it. Let people live and live yourself. You can burn up a lot of energy in this silly competition over a woman's affection. It isn't a contest. There are lots of women who will think you are the man. Let your buddy go through this experience and be confident in the man that you are.
477941
Not just for sex. Why would you commit to one person for the rest of your life and deny yourself all of the other women you could have if that is all there is!
1137421
let me tell you the first thing about women... never take advice from women about women. Let me prove that one to you. I once asked my sister two questions. The first question was "what do you look for in a guy?" I got the typical "i want a guy that treats me good, does sweet things for me, and blah blah blah". then i asked her to describe the guys that she has had the longest relationships with. well I'll be damned if those two answers weren't the farthest away from each other as they could be. Now some girls you ask may get a good piece of advice in there once and awhile, but let me tell you the three "C's" of what a women looks for in a man. Confidence is probably number one. Not to be confused with arrogance, confidence is not having a self esteem problem. Know in your head that you are good enough for a women, but don't think that you are better than her. The second: Control. Control is about being your own person and in control of your own life. Being a decision maker and being confident in the decision. Taking charge of a date for example. None of this crap about i don't know, what do you want to do. This is where many many men falter. Control in this manner is not about controlling what a woman does. it's about being a take charge guy. One word of caution about this is that there may be feminist or two out there that don't like this kind of crap. Those women need to be kicked to the curb. The third is a challenge. Never let a woman think that you are a loser. Women want what other women want. Let her think other women want you. never wait around for a women and beg her like a puppy dog. you have your own life, live it. and if you don't, pretend. go out with your friends, go on dates with other women. And if and when you start dating a women, remember that you still have friends. never let a women tell you "let me think about it". that's just postponement for her to tell you no with hopes that you will forget about it. I'm not in any way telling you to treat a women like crap. a lot of people assume that from me when i tell them this stuff. you need to treat your woman good, but do not be her little bi***. Bottom line, women want a man to be a man. The big protector. Be a gentleman. Open doors, and treat her like a lady, but be a man about it, not a p**** whooped fool.  You sound like you're ready to hand over your testicles.  you will "worship the ground they walk on"... if it doesn't work try something else.  accept that you need to change
314988
If you want a woman to like you, you have to like yourself first.  Look in the mirror, and decide what good qualities you have.  Those are the qualities that women will pick up on.\n\nWhat qualities about yourself don't you like?  Can you change them?  Do something to feel more positive about yourself in those areas.\n\nIf you're a nice, kind-hearted, caring guy (which I think most women appreciate in a man), that will come across in your personality.  Let a woman get to know the real you.  Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place.\n\nAnd remember, chances are that the woman you're talking to is probably as nervous as you are.  To be confident, you need to love yourself.  Because if you don't love yourself, how can you expect another woman to?\n\nConfidence comes with experience.  Just get out there and start talking to them.  Be yourself, smile, look them in the eye when you talk to them.  Give them compliments, and they'll be all over you.  And then comes the hard part... is this woman worth your time, or you do wanna go on to the next one?
524985
date one cheat on the other - thats the way you women work.
495923
Stick to one woman at the time. Give that woman all you have.
937955
you're friends with benefits, and that's okay. the emotional stuff will come later or maybe not come at all.  have fun as long as you're careful. if you enjoy each other's company then that's a plus. the only disadvantage is if either one of you wants to get serious, and if one of you finds someone else.
1047774
Only be with her if you know that you will not stray and be with anyone else including men.  This would not be fair to her.  If you can not commit all of yourself to her then don't.  Good luck
625078
It depends. If you're happy being single and not always on the look out for a partner, then I'm sure that can be rewarding as you have much more freedom. You also miss out on alot. It's divine having someone to share everything with. I'm just not a single kind a girl and am sooo relieved I've met my soul mate. Sure life has it's ups and downs and nice to have our space. But having someone to come home to at the end of the day. Someone to kiss and cuddle and make passionate love to whenever you want......there's nothing better. So, for me...happiness is being married.
569677
I wouldn't mind unless she involves you in their outings. If it's just for a hour or so I suppose it's okay, but more than that I would grow suspicious why they are spending much time together than with you.  Now, if it's a mixed crowd and most have good morals and if she's not the flirty type, then it's okay.  I'll be honest, when I'm single, I get much hotter than when I'm with someone.  If you are married, the possibility for variety can come to mind and it can be dangereous if her friend decides to make a pass.  The trust between two friends can be as strong as the love you have for each other.  I believe friends works best and can grow deep.  Not too be doubtful, just keep your eye out. I know because when I get the strange feeling in my stomach when I feel threatened, that's a signed that something is not right or that I'm being disrespected.  Talk to her about it and see if you can come along. \n\nYou will be the best judge if something is going on or not.  Trust to a limit, then you question... Boundaries can be broken so make sure she doesn't break them, that's why she's married to you.  Right? Hopefully for the right reasons.  \n\nPersonally, I enjoy being with my boyfriend.  I get along better with men but there are limits to how much I let them know because it's easy to flirt with guy friends.  Guy friends can let things happen and not worry about it because they know the other person is taken... It's a risk and a thrill for the women, but it's a BIG, BIG, NO, NO.  Not while you are married and devoted to someone.  I suggest to both of you go out, change your looks, and be the couple that can be lover, friend, and wife.  Spice up your life so she doesn't run off to get that kind of "attention"?... who knows. \n\nI'm a women and I've been single.  Now that I'm dating my boyfriend, he still wants to keep the single life active with some gals in a book club he met when he was single... I spoke to him and he decided to ended... I now have to trust him and it will be up to him to do the right thing.  \n\nSummarizing, if your wife invites you because she wants to, then go... keep her in your sight.\n\nGood luck sweatheart!
1013933
If you feel you are a man in a woman's body or vice versa, I think it may be a good idea.  You will have to live as a member of the opposite sex for a while before the op.
324814
1.  Shaving is something that both of you should agree.  If you like it shaved, just tell her.  Generally women love to please their men so just take it from there.\n\n2. A woman is so complicated that it only takes a woman to know another woman, so since you are a guy dont crack your head asking for these questions.  Vanity is a woman's privilege.  Anything that emerge out of a woman's vain nature is for you to appreciate and enjoy.
1094092
Its up to you.  How do you feel about this???  If she will go out with someone behind your back 1x, there may be others down the road.  Or have there been other times that you did not know about???  Does this person have morals???
51223
Benefits !! \nHope this help...
1139183
once you decide to take that step, you will wonder what took you so long----making love to and being made love to by another woman is a wonderful thing.It is a very sensual experience, and I think that when the time comes, you will know what to do. It will come very natural. Now as for approaching someone, I think the main thing is to make sure that she is receptive to the advances of another woman and then just put your best foot forward---Good Luck
222730
I am very attracted to other women, they are sensual and passionate.  Being with another woman sexually is an incredible experience.  I have only been with one woman but the passion and the emotion that was involved in sex was incredible.  I have never been with a guy that I have felt that way with