Girls (older)-have you ever dumped your bf for another guy?
817413
Don't make it complicated and obsess about it. She hasn't mentioned the boyfriend (if he still exists) because she's interested in you. Ask her if she's available. Her yes or no ought to answer the question. If she says she's "sort of" seeing someone, you can figure out if you want to "sort of" see her along with another guy or not.  Have fun, take a chance. Life's too short.
377719
Depends who broke up with who, if u dumped him DONT DO IT! you will ruin xboyfriends relationship w/ you and with his freind. THere is absolutely no way he wont find out. On second though dont do it at all its just mean spirited.
907902
Yes. I have. For instance there was this guy that I really liked ( i knew him)  who had moved away for college and I started flirting with his sister instead. The whole time I pretended she was him I don't know why. But I did.
421388
I would go out. I had a serious boyfriend for 3 years from ages 16-19. I was really happy but I felt the same way. I took the leap to go out and I'm glad I did. Now, my ex and I are best friends. Even though we didn't get back together, dating other guys let me realize how much happier I am that my ex and I are just friends now. I didn't realize how much happier I could be until I had some more experience. Plus, I have overcome the fear of wondering how it is to date others. And you never know, you might date around and realize what a great guy you had. He seems like he would be willing to get back together after some time. This would let you know just how happy you are with him, and you will never wonder again.
349176
I was in the same situation with my current boyfriend. We were best friends for five years and I was even married and divorced in that time. I finally just went after him and it worked out for me. Don't play games just be honest and ask.
1073696
No way! unless you have something hotter than that!\n\n\nand yes I'm the depressed girl. thanks you were right except I dumped him for unexplainable reasons.
1127647
Well, I was guilty of messing around a little bit with his best friend... but never went all the way (and I am glad).\n\nI went on Vacation and he had a long talk with my bf while I was gone... so, you can imagine that I had some explaining to do when I got home...by the way ~ it didnt help my relationship any if that's what you are wondering...\n\nLet us both ponder this... what "friend" would even consider getting with their homeboy's girl?  Maybe friend isn't the best word?   hmmm?
609101
Yeah that is the prob. When i started dating my BF, i got lots of other proposition while with him, esp old flings but now that i've broken up, no1 is interested and am oh-so-lonely
1104635
If you think dating a guy after one week of being broke up then think of this, I broke up with my BF and I went back out with him that same day. Talk about pathetic! Then we broke up again and are going back out right now. So I think your relationship is going better than mine is, and by next week I`ll have probable broke up with him again. So do what you think is best for the future relationship you might have with this guy.
370021
I had one bf cheat, he got the girl pregnant.\nOne guy told me he loved me and chased me till I gave in and let myself fall in love with him (he has a kid with someone else) then BAM changed his mind and went back to the mother of his child.
743245
NO! I am 12 and I have a boyfriend. Infact, my first boyfriend was when I was 8. So, GO FOR IT! :)
224983
I've gone out with 5 guys all together and the fifth is my soul mate.  With the other four, I rushed into the relationship because I felt no one cared about me.  I didn't want to be left out so when they showed any interest I was hooked.  When I met my current boyfriend, I decided I would take things slow and be very cautious.  We've been together for two years.  We've been through A LOT of trying times and are still as much in love as the day we met.
998758
Nope, tell him you have moved on and have other guys who will not dump you over stupid things.
584765
That depends. What is the personality of this guy like? What was the nature of their relationship? Were they talking marriage? How much did he have staked on her? Is he the needy type or the independant type? Why'd they break up? How long was this breakup in coming? Did they live together? Have kids? Who dumped who?\n\nI know my 31 year old boyfriend would never want another woman after me *preen*
921952
i can undeerstand, i was wit a guy i KNEW wasnt rite for me for 4 years....i was crazy abt him and d mere thought of losing him made me sick...after 4 years he dumped me coz he had another girl he liked more..i hurt so bad....but i survived, but i know it wud have been much better for my self respect if i had listened to my head and dumped him earlier,....hurt u will b, but better tht u take d initiative now then later, tht will hurt more..
563031
Yes you do. Dumping him was a right thing to do because he had two girlfriends on the side other than you. A good man is not that hard to find, as long as he is faithful and committed _only_ to you and no one else. If you keep sticking with your second ex, you'll hurt yourself emotionally even more. Understood? Good.
468486
omg!i have so been there!this is a perfect question!u see i liked this guy alot!and the same thing happened to me he got a gf so i was sad but then they broke up and now i flirt as mush as possible!so look my point is even though she has a bf still be sweet to her and flirt all the time and then if they break up try to become closer with her and then maybe ask her out!