would you say something and mean it? would you ever tell someone you love them and not mean it? why?
816644
Im not quite sure what your first question is asking\nbut we all say i love you when you mean it\nin my past expieriences in relationships when the man says i love you, you feel obligated to say it back, even if you dont relly love them\nand toher times you really do love the person
93131
There is something between I like you and I love you, and that is NOTHING.  My motto is if you don't feel it don't say it.  Yes, I love you are three over used words that we take for granted and don't truly realize that love is more than a word, to me love is an action.  It isn't so much what you say but what you do.
367751
Ummmm what about it?????  If its your thing-GREAT!  I say live and let live!  To each his own!  I cannot judge anyone for the way they live their lives!  As long as they r happy who am I to tell them they cant do it?????  Love is love no matter who u love.
343532
not telling him would be bad tell him of course there is nothing wrong to tell someone you love them that is one of the most important things in life is to be loved and love life would be a sad place if you didnt if you cant tell him in person tell him over the phone on the computor in a letter or send him a card do it how ever it is 3 words that could change the rest of your life good luck
1007440
Sounds like he meant it, he just wants to prove it to you through his actions .... guys just don't know what to say .... wouldn't you want him to show you through his actions or would you rather he just said 'Of course I meant it' and not really mean it.
470126
Actions speak louder than words, so if you're always there for the person you love no matter what, if you do whatever's in your power to make that person feel better when he/she is down, if you express your happiness when that person shares some good news, if you show that person that he/she comes first, then you are saying "I love you" each and every time.
310490
I do believe each people has his own way of expressing his love , but generally when someone really love you, he will pay more attention to what you usually do, he will phone you or text everyday and he will prove to be very caring,and above all he will show respect. Not neccessarily he has to say "I Love you" everytime, and i do believe also that people who say "i love you" too often come to forget the true meaning of these words after a certain time.
909927
NEVER tell a man that you love him first! Not only can it scare him away but it shows weakness on your part! Let him say it first, it will mean so much more when he does. Otherwise if you say it and he says it back how will you know he truly meant it!
108193
actually, its not hard to say i love you...\nwhat is hard is to find to right time...\neverything happens on its right time is excellent...\n\nwait for that time.
581630
I'm not sure if there ever is a right time to tell someone you love them. But if you decide to tell her make sure she understands the kind of love you mean. I know you will be wearing your heart on your sleeve. But it's really the only way you can do it.
924221
i am sorry i do not know the answer to this question i can only speak for my self i would tell a woman that i loved her unless i truly did these are not just word of course i would tell her if i did because i would want her to know it but more then anything i would want to show it and if you truly love someone you WILL NOT CHEAT on them you couldn't even think about being with someone else or should i say i couldn't but maybe he wants you to i can only speak for my self in a matter like this i have always heard once a cheater always a cheat i wish you the best in life and a life full of Happiness.
191001
Wait until you feel it. Don't say it just to say it... say it when you know in your heart that you love that person.
731261
personnally i wouldn't tell someone i loved them in less i wasserious. Unless she said it first and i was obviously joking. Next time say really? and if he says yes IMMEDEATLY then he means it if he hesitates then not so much.\n\n\nP.S. DOESN'T work for all guys some just want in your pants .. it's a sad fact of life. :(
853268
I don't think you can ever say l love you too much. I love to hear it and also love to  let my husband know how much l love him. It is just really nice to let each other know how you feel , so l don't believe there is such a thing as  saying  "I LOVE  YOU " too much. All the time please !!!!!!!   You have to mean it though otherwise they are just pointless words.
977158
Mostly, but not necessarily.  It depends on how it's said, in what situation, etc.\n\nFor example, if I'd just spent a fun day full of laughter and sweetness with a best guy friend at an amusement park or something similar, and then, unexpectedly, he turned and asked 'Would you ever date me?", I'd think it meant something.\n\nIf we're laughing and joking as we watch 'The Bachelor' or some other stupid show on TV and he asks "Would you ever date me?", I wouldn't expect it meant anything.\n\nDoes that make sense?  Most remarks probably fall somewhere in between those two scenarios, making it hard to understand, but it could just be that the person wants to know about their own desirability, and is using you as a mirror to tell them their strengths and flaws.
629203
I feel like dating that long without saying I love you is trouble. Do you not want to say it? What's holding you back? You never know what kind of insecurities, fears and past experiences inhibit a person from doing what they really want, like moving in with you, having your child, or saying I love you. But if you take away fear, insecurity, and break the chains, and you still can't say it? Well....then you might need to look in your heart and ask yourself if you really love this person.
1146654
l love you can be said without saying.it can be expressed and shown in the eyes. some words are less valueble when they are said repeatedly.