after a broken relationship, how long a woman consider a reasonable time to start dating a new guy?
824451
If it was a serious relationship involving love, there is no true time limit. It all depends on when your ready. I would say six months. You never know, but if you try going out and it doesnt feel right. You would know that means your not ready.
148225
When I separated, I did start dating.  And I'm glad I did.  But not every woman will date a separated man, since some women fear that the man may return to his ex-wife.  Another thing is that a woman may fear that she will become a "transitional woman" between the former wife and the man's future wife/companion.  So my suggestion is that if a separated man wants to date, he should seek out a woman who is not necessarily looking for a long-term commitment.\n\nBe honest with anyone you date about your status.  Be totally upfront about the separation.  But, never spend any time with your date telling her what was wrong in your marriage.  It's inappropriate to disrespect your soon-to-be-ex-wife with any woman you are dating, no matter how strongly you feel.
1172068
No one can answer that question for you.  Only you know whether you are emotionally ready to commit to someone else yet.  I would be suspicious, however, if it was less than six months or a year after a relationship as important as the one you describe.  But people vary, and maybe you just lucked out and found the right guy.\n\nHowever, ask youself these questions:  \n1) Are you sure that you are not just looking for *anyone* to love you, after the hurt and rejection of your breakup?  Would you love the new guy if you had met him first?  IIn other words, be sure you are not grabbing for validation.rather truly in love.\n2) Is there any chance that you are attracted to the new guy because he is the opposite of the old one?  This is trickier, because you certainly don't want to end up with another guy who is just like the one you broke up with.  But some people swing too far in the other direction when they are on the rebound, and you need to watch out for that.  Obviously, there were *some* things about the ex that you found good, or you would not have been together for so long.  So decide whether the new guy is a real improvement over the old one, or just very different.\n\nGood luck!
103635
If it has been a while and you've done some healing and your ready to move on, probably.  If it is right after the other relationship, then probably not, you are looking for a rebound which likely won't last very long, putting you back in the same situation.
441459
If it's been 8.5 years and you two still haven't been married, then it would have never been meant to be.\n\nBroken hearts can last with the most pain for 1-3 months. After that, you slowly begin to forget about it start finding someone new. When you find the new person, you forget everything about your ex except for the tiny spot in your heart where you effected you the most. Everytime you think about your ex that tiny spot will hurt, but other than that you new person should confort you enough to forget about the ex.
282408
They dont know from experience. I know, and if you want to find someone new, they are just around the corner. I found someone the week after I broke up with my boyfriend because The guy I broke up with was dating again.
881226
Well just wait a while and make sure that you are ready to date some one new because you never know what could happen and getting into a relationship even though you know that you still have feelings for your ex.. isnt the perfect way 2 start a new relationship. wait a few days see if you still want your ex back if u do talk to your ex and try 2 work something out.... it worked for me and we've been dating for two weeks now (yea i know not 2 long lol) but my advice sweetie is just 2 wait dont rush your self it aint necessary :-)
1163469
WELL, RIGHT NOW I WOULD TAKE THINGS REALLY SLOW.... SHE MAYBE HURT AND IS VULNERABLE RIGHT NOW.... I WOULD GIVE HER SOMETIME TO FIND HERSELF AGAIN AND TO HEAL.... IF YOU ALREADY HAD THE CHANCE TO BE WITH HER.... EXPLAIN TO HER YOU REALIZE YOUR FAULTS AND WOULD LIKE THE CHANCE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT.... SHE MAY COME AROUND.... AT THE MOMENT SHE MAY SEEM BITTER AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.... SO DON'T THINK SHE DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE... SHE NEEDS TIME.... ALL WOMAN DO....
286545
You really don't have to wait unless you know she is really hurt and upset.  Just let her know that you know she may need some time to deal with the break up but that once she is ready to date again you would really like to go out with her.
957356
Rarely! that all depends ,I guess,on how the break-up occured and if you both have totally resolved whatever it was that broke you up before.Trust me, if you are still angry about something from the past,it will come back to haunt you.Also, alot of times people fall back into the same bad patterns of behavior that may have broken you up the first time..So there is really no right or wrong answer here .It's totally an individual choice!
43421
It's hard to just "move on", and anyone who tells you that is being inconsiderate, and not putting themselves in your shoes. You need TIME to mend a broken heart. You need space. You need to think things over, and if you realize that he is not worth your time, and you deserve better, than stick to that belief. You have to believe that you are Strong, and you will move on. Just Keep that In your head, and know that someone out there is better for you, waiting for you.Also, a few dates wouldn't be bad either! Go out dancing, movies, with other guys! See what else Is out there!
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How to Get Over a Break Up\n\nWant to know how to get over a break up? Here are six secrets to help you get your life together and move on!\nDifficulty: Hard\nTime Required: Two Weeks to Three Months\n\nHere's How:\n\n1. Bond with other Singles.\n      At any given time, you probably have a mix of friends in loving relationships as well as those searching for love. Don't be afraid to look-up single friends you haven't seen or spoken to in awhile and make plans for Friday and Saturday night. You'll stay busy on the weekend and maybe even rekindle an old friendship.\n\n2. Start a Social Hobby.\n      If there is a hobby or activity you have been meaning to try for the first time, or take-up again, this is your chance. Focus on activities that allow you to meet new and interesting people. Examples might include a cooking class, sports league, or bridge club.\n\n3. Go Easy on the Next Person you Meet.\n      Beware of continuing unfinished business with the next person you meet. If you didn't have a chance to truly close the door on your last relationship, don't project your open issues on the next unsuspecting soul. See the new person as a clean slate and allow the relationship to unfold with no connections to your past.\n\n4. Don't Sling Shot your Ex.\n      It can be very tempting, particularly on lonely nights, to look up your ex or accept an invitation from your ex for a rekindle. The more you fall back on your old ways, the harder it will be to truly move on. Don't fall for the short term satisfaction of a night out or easy hook-up at the expense of stirring up all the hurt from the breakup.\n\n5. Apply What You've Learned.\n      Take out a journal and write down everything that went well versus what could have been better in your relationship. Be honest since you're the only one looking at the entry. What could you do better next time? What positive traits did your ex possess that you should look for in the next relationship, or maybe even incorporate into your own style?\n\n6. Talk About Something Else.\n      Everyone goes through a period of venting to their friends and family about what went wrong and how your ex deserves to go straight to prison. It's okay to do a little venting, but spare your inner circle from an endless tirade for months at a time. Commit to yourself that the next time you call a close friend, you'll focus exclusively on them. This will help you get out of your head
497143
Just give it time. I had a situation like that happen to me. I dated a girl for 2 years and 3 days after we broke up, her best friend kinda threw herself at me. No one wants that right after a breakup. I would have dated her where she to give me some time, at least a few weeks before jumping into a relationship again. Just give him some space and be there for him, if there are feelings there it will happen. If his feelings are not the same you will have to settle for being friends. Hope this helps.
619350
Personally I wouldn't be thinking about getting involved with another man so soon after divorce. You will find your soul mate when the time is right. Have some "down time" for yourself. Divorce is not easy on the heart, so heal first before rushing into another relationship. Your knight in shiny armor is out there somewhere, weather your divorced or single.
575369
The guy should get a reality check, take a break cool off for two weeks, set up a public get together with all females and talk get everything out in the open. Whoever stays great. If none stay, guy should move on.
1101986
I think it depends on how long he was your boyfriend. A long term relationship breakup takes longer because usually the other person has strong feelings for you and needs more time to get their head around it.\n\nIf you didn't date for long then it shouldn't take as much time, since you'll just get it over with and move on.\n\nIf he is really someone you care about but not in that way anymore, maybe he deserves to know why. It can be useful for the guy to know why this is happening, especially if it was his fault, because in that way he can learn from his mistakes and try harder the next time he's in a relationship.\n\nI think the time depends on each relationship. It took yours 3 hours to be over because you have an ex boyfriend that loves to point out flaws; you said so yourself: " i finally told him to leave because i was sick of hearing all my supposed faults". \n\nI don't think you were rude. I think nothing good could have come out of listening to him. You sound patient enough to me! Good luck, and don't fret about it!
1147302
Yes, when they are in denial, trying to numb the pain. When they realize they have a problem they should leave the new person immediately so as not to do any further harm. If the person they still love is not psycho and also single, they should jump back on that bandwagon, if they will be accepted. It is not easy to trust again once that line has been crossed, and should not be expected to be forgiven. If they are forgiven, they should be sure to kiss boots for some time until trust returns... lol