Do married woman still want their husbands to go down on them??
818473
even more so coz when your married you have no hang ups about sex !!
279374
Well ive never been threw it but ill be more then happy to give you my 2 cents with out calling you a slut, i think part of it is your husbands fault for not making sure you have what you need, now i know alot of people are going to scream for me saying that but its the truth, in a marriage part of our job is doing everything possible to make sure our partner is getting everything we need from them emotionally or sexually. Thats just the way it works for a healthy marriage, The only bit of advice i could give you not being actually in that situation is to eather pick on or the other, i can see you feeling even more torn when your feelings for this other guy are fostered even more and you cant act on it, not to mention the emotional and sexual frustrations that can easily bring. I can understand why you turned to this other man for support you wernt getting at home. But i can only see you hurting yourself in the long run if you dont cut ties with one of them. That is unless you totally dont love your husband anymore and your just in it for everything youve envested on a tangable level that you dont want to lose. But honestly do you think if you bumped this relationship up with this other guy you would be able to continue this double life, i hate to label it that way but thats the only thing i can think of to call it right off the top of my head, but i think you understand where im coming from. You need to set a game plan in your head on where you want to go in life if things with this other guy keep developing, what happens if this guy says ok ill chuck my marriage will you chuck yours? what if he talks about you guys meeting and making a full flaired affair? What if your husband finds out about whats going on how will you respond? How will your husband? Im not saying i know what you should do or what you need to do, but if i were you i would get a clear picture of what i wanted from your husband or from this other guy. Do you think there would be a possiblity you would be more happy in your marriage if your husband started to work with you on your problems with the marriage? Do you think there is any hope for you marriage now? Do you think your husband is doing the same thing you are on some sort of level? IF he was how do you feel about it? I think you need to ask yourself these kinds of questions and in deep deep detail figure out what you want to do, i dont think anyone in here can really answer those kinds of questions and give you any much more of a clear picture then you seriously thinking about this i wish you all of luck and i really hope you get something figured out on this *HUGS*
954329
You're a good man.  Nothing wrong with you at all.  If you want your wife to feel needed then allow her to do the things she wants to do for you and don't forget to thank her and show her appreciation for it afterwards.
1005534
I do. If some woman was slobbin on my husbands nob, I would be PISSED. There is a certain level of intimacy to such actions whether it is recognized or not.
548089
Exactly - if you give them the chance they will. Just as if our husband or partner doesnt give us the attention we need, we look elsewhere for the comfort and support. Its human nature to be wanted. Everything happens for a reason and ya cant fight fate.
1084621
not too kinky but I love to perform oral on my wife, she seems to love it very much also! ! !
628890
Currently, no...\nMy hubby is deployed, so, sex has been put on the "back burner." But when he comes home...hehehe...that's going to be a whole other story.
422663
Some people have a hard time communicating with this subject. For one do lots of touching and kissing. All over her whole body from neck down her back her stomach etc. Then whisper to her how she wants it. Start talking dirty to her. I gaurantee she'll love it. Funny thing is is I can tell you this but I haven't quite gotten it across to my husband yet.
677427
my husband does.  Unfortunately some men like it too much...and it makes things cum to fast.
430851
That's great! I feel the same about married men.  Although i haven't been able to do it, I fantasize about it all the time.
1030313
Every time that you do it ith your spouse doesn't necessarily mean they are going to give you that wonderful orgasm.  All we can do is be there to satisfy their needs, b/c you don't want him to go elsewhere and get some now do you?  Just please your man and try your hardest to get you.
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not that i have done it but based on your own experience i'm sure they still love their partner.\ni guess you were just weak and easily manipulated by a man. i think most women are like that and it makes me pissed off.\n\nthe problem with most women is that they want the fantasy. of course you get the fantasy when your flirting or having dinner at a nice restaurant etc. will this last forever? NO\nthe man will do anything and say anything to get you. you think he treats you like a princess, he's thinking of your @ss only! you'll get used by the man and dumped.\n \nall the poor men out there who have their hearts ripped out.\n\nshame on you evil women!!!!!
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I think it depends on how the woman feels about this.  If she's freaked out by it, hopefully she would talk to her husband about it and not just run out of the room.  If she's turned on by it, she'd probably act very similar to your wife.\n\nIt sounds like your wife finds it a turn-on, and that you do as well.  Very cool that you have found a new fantasy together!
1151474
yep!!\nmarried for 3 yrs, were in the army, my hubby is in Iraq right now for a year..I love being a military wife. I wouldn't have it any other way..(except the part of them having to go to Iraq)
642394
I dont think I would like it. Not even going to try. I like to please my lady, Thats had anough. Let alone tring to please 2 of them. Its just not my thing.
721491
Makes me wonder if the guys who are in favor of it would be in favor of sharing their Wives with other men as well.\n\nAfterall it should go both ways.\nSomehow I am doubting the guys would be in favor of that :)
1111203
I like to serve my husband but NOT because he tells me too.  It is great feel so needed but I would never consider myself submissive... why would you even describe your self that way?  The reason why people look down on submissive wives is becasue no one deserves to be bossed around and treated like a slave, so when you see someone doing that you have to wonder what the hell is wrong wit them?  Do nice things for your man becasue you love him..not becasue he makes you!