Please read.I am desperate and dont know what else to do.?
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Christmas is really about being with your family, not about the presents.  The presents are just a benefit of the holiday.  \n\nSit your kids down and explain that it may not be in the cards this year for extravagent presents, but have everyone make something for each other.  That way, if anything, you're only spending a small amount of money on arts & crafts supplies.  \n\nOr check out your local Goodwill or Salvation Army.  But please teach your kids the holiday isn't about what you receive.  Just because someone gets an expensive gift doesn't make them the better person or any "cooler".  The holiday is about spending time with your family.  Enjoying being together.  Plain & Simple.
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Get help.  Call a local hospital and ask for an 800# hotline or a counselor.  \nPeople love you.
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hmmm...sounds like a suicide attempt. I  wanted to ignore your post, but I want to tell you, there's counselors in almost every community.  \nSeek help and don't slice that wrist.
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Go to m.a. and fish. Perhaps if anyone else knew what m.a. was, you could receive the help that you request. Maybe you should pull y.h. out of y.a.
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wow.......... very desperate don't you have friends you can call or dogs to take care of.... y don't you go outside and play... hmmm...
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Contact Social Services asap, they WILL be able to help you, even the very same day in most cases, especially as you are also becoming ill and stressed with all the pressure being put on you. CPN's are not very good in my experience (I have had a lot of experience)
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I agree with Heather, don't send your boy away. I am sure you think that you have tried everything, and if that is the case, try it again. Have an intervention, get others involved, be their friend, and try to find the root of the problem. You can do this!
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Sadly, if there were quick easy money out there, we'd all be going for it.  There isn't, really.  Best thing to do, I think, is look for other folks who are in a similar situation and pick their brains.  And/or talk w/ someone in a temp agency to get a feeling for the needs in your community.  Might be able to do some non-internet based computer work (medical transcriptionist?), or possibly phone work... hope things work out for you!
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Please see a school counsellor as soon as possible.  Or call a help line right now.  Do you have a family member or other reliable adult you can talk too? Don't wait.  Get help now.
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Talk to someone close a friend, a neighbor, a counselor. There is help out there! You didn"t tell us why your life is caving in. Could probably help better if I knew!!
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If you can't seem to get back in control, try calling the distress centre. They are located in the Emergency section of your phone book. The individuals who answer your call know what you are going through and are great at giving you any local referrals you may need, or they are available just to listen. Don't be too hard on yourself, as this WILL pass. Good luck and God Bless.
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Pray to God for help and guidance. In this situation, because there is obviously nothing you can really do, put it in God's hands. I'll be praying for you!! I hope this helps. :)
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Ask for goodness sakes!  How are you going to be able to find out if things are going to get better if you don't take the next step.  Are you going to wait and depend on him?  He is probably totally oblivious.  You might have a long wait.  SOMEBODY needs to make a decision.  Good luck!
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Are there any organizations in your community who can help you? I wish you the best, sweetie.
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when you get this answer send it to me too. I am in the same situation sorry i am no help
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I've noticed you've asked basically the same question multiple times.  Clearly you've recognized the problem and want to do something about it.  That's a great start but now you need to actual act, if you haven't already, upon some of the advice you've been given.  \n\nI think nwtobe's response (click on link below in Source(s)) was insightful and very informative.  I surely hope you have taken the next step and actually used some of the resources nwtobe provided.  It's now up to you to follow through, otherwise you have no one else to blame but yourself.  Contact someone now.   \n\nBest of luck and keep your chin up!
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get ahold of the government to see what help THEY have for you... you may just be on your own with this