what to do about some one who is lying to my face?
812785
say,"I saw your GPA,and I was just wondering--why did you make me feel stupid for so many years when you have a lower GPA than me?"  she will be stopped in her tracks.that's how my friend was last year before she moved.she'd make fun of me cause I didn't make a perfect "A" but still a "B",and she'd lead me on to thinking that she mad an "A" when she was really making a "D".finally,I found out her lie and confronted her.I found out that she was actually jealous of me,so she thought she had to make a better grade than me.this girl may be jealous of you,too.
231169
WELL~ ppl always say DONT YOU LIE TO ME. but we are now living in a world where lie is everywhere. I think whether you are going to tell the truth or not ,is depending on who you are dealing wiht. What do you tihnk of him. YOU lie coz, you think you are protecting from the bad so he wont get hurt, coz, you think you know better than he does, and you should decide his life? what kinda desicsion he iwll make? or you lie for yourself.\nI dont think lying is a big deal, ONLY IF its good for both of you.\nSo, i said, Lie, that means, you care and love him, When you found that you dont even worry about this lie thing, he/she means nothing to you. To lie is to care :D
1006725
Learn how to spread a lie..
334691
hm this is a very hard question...well ask them why are you doing this and see their face if they dont answer or didd not say the turth  and show your feeling to them and if they still never tell you said to them that you dont want to talk to them... well  this happen to me too i did that.. and sorry about this :( i dint mean to said this but good luck!
352762
If you are absolutely positively sure that they have lied to you about everything then choose to end this friendship.If your not sure then ask them to tell you something that you already know the truth about to see if they lie.If they do then tell them how it makes you feel and why do they want to lie all time.Maybe they do not know they are lying and maybe they just don't care about telling the truth.Do you lie to anyone?If no then maybe you should find a new friend.
197893
Count yourself lucky.  You don't want to be with someone who lies.  It will just take time to move on.
235342
go with your gut feeling to be on the safe side. usually that feeling is right. if you feel that strongly about someone lying to you, definatly confront them and talk it out. yes that persons going to get upset and deffensive but you have the right to know if you suspect something going on behind your back.
1125963
well give him time and tell him how the friend told you alot of lies. Just let it be and if its meant to happen then it will.  When he sees how cool you are about the whole situation he will come for you
648961
Stop lying to her maybe ??
438622
Accept the fact that you have a liar for a friend or dump the friend. The choice is yours.
1004511
My advice would be to look for the telltale signs that the person is actually lying and go from there.  Exerpted from site below:  "Fibbers tend to move their arms, hands, and fingers less and blink less than people telling the truth do, and liars' voices can become more tense or high-pitched. The extra effort needed to remember what they've already said and to keep their stories consistent may cause liars to restrain their movements and fill their speech with pauses. People shading the truth tend to make fewer speech errors than truth tellers do, and they rarely backtrack to fill in forgotten or incorrect details. "\n\nLots more info at sites below.  Good luck!
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sense his tone \nor remember a thing he told u and u think its a lie then ask him about it latter like a week or smt\nusualy ppl don't remember there lies for more than a cople of days ;)\ndo more than once and make it look like a casual Q. \ndon't make him feel ur investigating him or that u don't beleave him
718505
Honey  ignore these people.  You know the truth and if you just go on with your life soon this will blow over.  Dont react to them becaues that is what they want to see, you getting all upset.  do not give them the satisfaction.  Carry youself like a lady and soon everyone will see this boy for the liar he is.  Never let them see you sweat darling,  good luck to you
191366
I know exactly what your saying! A person in my immediate family does this constantly, and it gets to the point where you don't know what to believe and what not to. And in my experience, if they are habitual/pathological liars, calling them on it has little effect. Sometimes I wonder about the things they lie about ( in particular a card game that never occurred). If I were you, I would reevaluate my friendship/relationship with that person and consider if it's worth the time and effort...Hope it works out for you ..
29547
As honestly as possible.  If there were uncomfortable circumstances, then politely decline to answer. It's best NOT to lie, because lies can get found out.
337740
Confront him about it,put him on the spot and let him know he has explaining to do! Dont be afraid to confront him,he need's to feel like an idiot for being so dishonest with  you and need's to know how that makes you feel. IF he doesnt stop this,then you need to move on,because that's never a good sign,and is never going to make it into a long term relationship. People lie for a reason,and obviously it isnt a GOOD one. lier's continue to lie because people let them get away with it,afraid to put them on the spot,afraid to embarrasse them,ect,forget that,embarrasse the crap out of him,it might teach him if he know's he cant get away with it,but make sure you know why he lied to you,that should tell you alot,and please,dont let him tell you a lie about his lie,and dont let him make you feel guilty about it either,liers will try and make you feel guilty about their lie,such as "I thought if you knew you would hate me and not want me anymore" or "I didnt want you to know,because that's not who I am anymore,you have changed me"blah,blah,blah
89757
do u know to whom they lie they lie at them selfs \nyes thats true, they are not lieing at us.\n\nand how to deal with them will u cant deal with them no matter what u do they will always lie lie cz all of there life is a big lie.\n\ndont care about them just leave them cz trust me u wont get anywhere with these people