(Sigh) I seem to have met the best guy in the world, but.....?
820879
If you really want to stay with this guy then you can work around the sexual problem.  There are many ways to gain your pleasure if you just play around a bit.  Step outside the box and do things a bit differently.  Always remember that the grass is not always greener on the other side.  Sounds like you have found a great guy.  We all have faults.  No one is perfect.  Good Luck!
847385
weird, maybe he is with someone already, and was just teasin u?\nhope not
170966
How did he get that good?  He never got bored with his greatest love.\n\nYou could contact him and ask.  What's he going to say?  No?  Oh well :)  Then again he might say Yes :)
237057
you just said it your all the things these guys are not and so i guess they must feel that if they are with you they don't need to be cause you can deal with all of it....and maybe your looking in the wrong places where do you meet these kind of guys?  by the way you sound perfect so don't worry I'm sure you will find the right guy sooner rather than later
764725
The best boyfriends are not the ones that you find but the ones that find you!  Your question sounds sincere and if you just be yourself...when you least expect it...he will be there.
304309
In your case with that guy, you're still in the observation situation at this point because you're still looking forward of knowing him better, that's why you talk about life and stuffs like that more often... The best thing you could do right now is still observe his words and actions towards you because that will really help you to analyze what to do next... About going out in the zoo with him, I think your observation was right, it was a date, maybe he's just shy or hesitated to call it that way but it also means the same for him... Look forward in knowing him deeply and that's the best thing to do at this time and also talk about life and stuffs like both of you did before... Goodluck!
39510
what?! U crazy? Have u met him in person and gone on several dates? Anyone can play as someone they are not over the net.
276217
I don't really know..but how long have u been in contact with the person? it could be love.. there have been situations like this and people ended up being together forever!  I think you need to meet with the guy more..i mean I mean, the guy can say all the right words in a letter and by e-mail...
766396
the real question is... what are you doing with a guy like that? find a guy that would respect you. I'm sure there's alot out there.
1059190
I'm still waiting to meet mine too.  I have now come to the conclusion that when the right one comes along he wont do the things that bring out my hurt and pain.  He wont provoke those feelings the other guys did.  He will be the guy that understands my past and my pain and he will not do anything to pour salt in my wounds.
176965
he seems like a nice guy.. talk to him about how you feel!!
799159
I know how it feels, I am in a relationship now with the best guy i could ever be with we have been together almost 5 years, and I still find myself wondering about my first love. Me and my first love were together for only 2 and 1/2 years and he was my first everything. I know deep down i still have feelings for him and i always wonder about him. I know i shouldnt be doing that, but i cant help it, i guess he still has some place deep in my heart. As for you i think that you still have a special place in your heart for this guy. Dont let it bother you i think its all part of how special this guy was for you, just be thankful and happy that he is having a great life, and that he is married be happy for him. I am sure that he probably still thinks about you as much as you do him. Maybe you never know what holds in the future. SO dont lose hopes of this guy and dont lose hopes on finding another guy. god only knows whom your soulmate is. I wish the best for you. god bless you
527707
the amazing man that i am with
98987
Hmmmmmmm, In your story it did sound as if he was still intrested. well being that you haven't heard from him he is either not intrested or something has happened to him.\nI really wish guys could be honest it would make life much easier, but if it'll make you feel better just keep in mind what goes around comes around.
575971
it's just been two meetings. I'd suggest you take it slow, but meet him more often if possible & see how it goes.
69250
You should definately see how he feels about you. Maybe you could meet him in person if he's feeling you.
969460
He sounds very immature and many things could be going on within that framework.  You are lucky he is moving on before he really brings more immature and insensative actions into your life.  Be patient and hold out for a quality guy who cares about you and treats you with respect.  Have a blast while you're patiently waiting.  That will make the time go faster and attract more quality guys to you.  Good luck.