What r the steps u take to renew a relationship?
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Remember how you acted when you first met the other person?  Remember the special little things you did?  Holding hands, sneaking a kiss and an hug?  Walks on the beaches, a quiet dinner out...\n\nGo back to that time and get the feeling back.
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Continue with this relationship and see if it gets better.\n\nI wish you love\nstw
393164
Start slow.  Take time to get to know the next person you date before throwing your emotions into another relationship.  It takes time, I know.  Give yourself time to heal then start over again.  You don't have to rush but don't hide from dating or relationships for to long because after a while you might become too comfortable avoiding situations were your trust is tested.  Then your just alone.
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This is a seemingly growing problem. Years ago people were together more. Now it seems we barely get time to say hi and bye. Life has changed the dynamics of relationships these days. However, it doesn't mean it's impossible to reconnect on an intimate level with your hubby.\n    You asked can you fall out of love with your hubby after 5 years? And the answer is a simple, Yes. Can you also reconnect and fall back in love? Again a simple YES! \n  The first step was the realization that there is a problem. The next step and maybe the hardest step is to change the way things are. In order to make changes, (and I know I have said this before, but I think it's worth saying again) You have to do the exact opposite of what you are doing now. Which means stop doing what you are currently doing, it's not working! You mentioned you had no "us" time, and that is what I would start with first. MAKE COUPLE TIME! Put your child to bed and sit down and watch a movie together. Try to go to bed together and if nothing else, just cuddle. Talk about your day, and how you can make tomorrow better. You each need to talk about your dreams, goals, and what you want for the future. You each will have separate goals, but you will also need goals as a couple. \nI would also recommend counseling. You can use your pastor, (if you have one) A close family friend with whom you trust and can be neutral, or a professional counselor.\nOther things that you might want to try is a "date" night for you and hubby. Get a babysitter (one you trust) and go away for the weekend once every 3-6 months. Spend quality time together as a couple. it doesn't have to cost a fortune. All you need is a desire to want things to change and a creative mind. I wish you all of the best!
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1) Look at why you broke up--this isn't just going to disappear. It's obvious that you both have issues, especially if your mother is very concerned about this.\n\n2) Look at why you want to get back together--are you scared of going out on the dating scene again? Has the break up just happened? Are you worried that he's your soul Mate?\n\n3) Listen to yourself--if you two don't get together, then what? You don't get married NOW. Does that mean you won't get married ever? No. Just not to the wrong man.\n\nYou said you dated other men--well of course it's going to be different! Don't fool yourself into thinking that marriage is the high point in life. \n\nRemember that couples with differences in religion, especially when they are rooted in their faith, have a challenge ahead. If you do get back together, you both need to take a long talk. How will you raise your children? Will you each go to your different areas of worship? How will you encourage the other to be strong in their faith?\n\nYou cannot question his faith though. You both need to respect the others rights. This isn't about conversion.
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it depends...if he still have love feelings for you, it will be easy for him to be back again in your arms...also, you could try the ff:\ntry to reconcile to him, try visiting him at his home & bring some of his favorite food made by you, as for peace offering....\ntry to use his weakness/ticklish, for him to be easily fall for you again...\nsay I love you with all your heart & hug him as you hug your favorite pillow or teddy bear!
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if the relationship has lost the intimacy
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Very high. Everyone gets a second chance. Just learn from your past relationships.Remember the bad, but do them your self.Remember the good and apply them to your new relationships.Good luck.
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Hon, from what I am reading you really aren't ready for another relationship right now if you are still hanging on to the memories of your previous relationship with the hope that things will happen for you both someday. Honestly, the chances are that they will are pretty slim to none, especially if you both are not on speaking terms.\n\nYou need to take some time to yourself and sort out your feelings for this guy. You need to make an honest assessment of what was good in the relationship, as well as what was bad, so that you have a better idea of what kind of relationship you want in the future. You need to determine what you will and will not accept in a relationship in the future, as well as assess what you both did wrong in the relationship that caused it to fail. This is especially important because one person is never solely responsible for a relationship's failure; both people are and to move on successfully you have to take responsibility for your own actions. Additionally, you will eventually need to forgive your ex for his contributions to the failure of the relationship, as well as forgive yourself. If you don't, you will carry that baggage into the next love affair you have and nothing will ever get resolved.\n\nIf you rush into another relationship now, while you are still reeling from the other one, you are getting involved for all of the wrong reasons: you don't want to be alone, you are afraid of being alone, etc etc etc. It will be a classic rebound situation. You won't be getting involved because you really like the new guy. You are getting involved because you can't handle being alone or you want to replicate what you had (when it was good) with your ex. Relationships like this are DOOMED.\n\nTake some time for yourself. Relax. Read, or hang out with your friends. Write your feelings in a journal; get to know who you are, sort your feelings out, and then, when you are ready, forgive your ex and yourself. When you feel positive about things again (including yourself) then and only then are you ready for another relationship.\n\nHow do I know this? Life experience. I am 50 now and I had to learn the hard way. When I was your age I was involved with a guy who I THOUGHT was the love of my life. It didn't work out, so in my panic, I rushed into a relationship with a guy who paid lots and lots of attention to me. I thought HE was the love of my life, too. What did I do? 2 years later we got married. OY! What a mistake that was. We were married for 10 years, and after 10 years of his craziness I finally was brave enough to get out of the marriage and get a divorce. He was NUTS - verbally abusive at first, and then he became physically abusive. When we dated I saw these things in him, but ignored them. I ignored my intuition - my gut told me he was nuts and that he was troubled, but because I was scared of being alone, I married him anyway. Why? Because he was romantic. Ahhh, nothing like lessons learned.\n\nI stepped back, assessed my wants and needs, forgave him and myself for our mistakes, and decided what I wanted. 4 years after my divorce and a few lousy relationships later, I met my second husband and married him 6 months later. That was 6 years ago and we are happy. In the end it worked out for me, but the stress of a miserable marriage because of my fears of aloneness made me sick. So don't do it. \n\nTake time for you, and sorry this is so long.
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TALK TO THEM MORE AND TRY TO REKINDLE THE FLAME THAT YOU ONCE HAD WITH EACH OTHER.
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First you gotta decide if you actually miss HIM or if you miss the aspect of having a serious relationship.  If you just miss the relationship, then you can always find someone else.  If you miss him specificly, call, email, text message, or do anything you can to talk to him.  Let him know how you feel.  Tell him that you know that your life was a little crazy when you knew him before and now you know you have changed.  (MAKE SURE, you don't want the same mistake to happen again).  Tell him you've grown up and you want to see how things will work now that your out of your wild side.  Just tell him the truth.  If he says no or rejects you or anything, you will know that he is probably not the right person for you and you should take your responsible self and find someone else.
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First, try renewing the connection.
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First, wait until you're over the first girl.  Then start seeing people when you feel that you're ready.  No need to start a relationship again, just date.  That way you can find out if you want to be in another relationship or just play the field.  Could take weeks, months, maybe even a year.  All up to you.  Just make sure you're over the previous relationship.
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a relationship is smthg to ponder on. and if u have been 5 years together, wow that's half a decade. but try to understand smthg good abt ur relatioinship. try to work out, build urself more up, be someone u wanted to be w/ her but she didn't want that or she was not allowing u to do that. learn smthg new, like drawing, programming and so on. go have sports,  read alot of books... in no time, u will fee urself different and ur perspective abt life will change... and maybe in any of those activities u'll find sm1 who can replace her, or at least the emptiness she has created?? good luck
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It's the thrill of a new relationship.  Give it some time and you two should be back together soon enough :)
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get out and do things with friends/family. \n\ngo to different places than you used to go with your ex.\n\ngood luck. \n\ntime heals.
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FOCUS ON YOURSELF! :)\n\nThe most common thing that causes relationships to fail is by submitting yourself almost entirely to routines and common outdated shared interests in the relationship.\n\nTry something new - something that enhances who you already found yourself to be, and rekindle his interest in your fires.\n\nDo things on your own and "report back" to the realtionship.  This could be anything from getting a new hairstyle to going camping by yourself for a hiatus for several days.  You'll bring new energy back with you and your partner will feel the difference, and may even get a bit curious.\n\nDon't stress if things feel monotonous - relationships all reach that point when the influx of variables becomes predictable.\n\nTry something exciting, something new you've always wanted to do, and even if the shared interest isn't there - DO IT ANYWAY.\n\nIt's been my experience that men like women of mystery in their lives - and it's natural for most of us to "spill the proverbial beans" in those first passionate years.\n\nReturn to the unknowable enigma you were before he "figured" you out - men love a challenge.