Why does ever time my sister find some 1 she likes the cheat on her are stop tallking to her all together?
814730
Maybe she puts out too fast.
732847
Some people enjoy playing games, others are just confused and don't know what they really want.  Stop wasting your time chasing her, and spend this energy on finding someone who knows what they want, and don't want to play the mind games.  \n\n\nGood Luck...stop wasting your energy on her, there are tons of wonderful women out there, and some of them are looking for someone just like you.
514078
I feel for you on this one.......what I've noticed with the one girl that cheated on me is that you stop talking about your feeling for one another and try to hide what he did that night.  The shorter the conversations the more likely it is that the other person is cheating on you........
103407
Have enough self respect to remove that person from your life.  Kick it to the curb because deceipt DOES NOT enhance your life and if you believe it will not happen again.....then you're not being honest or truthful to yourself!!
966936
Maybe she's cheating on you.  Either that or she's insecure.  Guilty parties in relationships will often project what they're doing on to the other person.  If she can get you to admit you're cheating then maybe she won't feel as guilty.  That's just one possibility.  Or maybe she really is insecure, in which case perhaps you both need to go to couples counseling because if she keeps it up you may just get fed up and decide to make her accusations come true.
444272
by not disrespecting another sister.  getting your own man and remembering what goes around comes around.  Why would you want to do that? We have such a serious problem with the whole cheating thing going on, that people are starting to think that it's ok, to the point of actually asking people on Yahoo.  I'm not trying to be disrespectful or condescending.  But shouldn't you give this young lady your utmost respect, (even if you don't know her), since you know this guy has a girlfriend. And "No", it doesn't matter to me if he likes you back.  You should be doing the sister a favor and pointing him right back in the direction of his girlfriend.
879508
Face it, she's porking your so-called friend. Normally if a woman cheats on a man it's because he's a jerk. Clean up your act. Take responsibility for your own faults and work on them. Assuming there are no children in the mix, move on. If there are children, fight for your marriage and kids.
659923
Well most of the time they say once a cheat always a cheat but in some cases its not like that. My cousin cheated and she has been with her new husband and they are doing better than her and her first husband some times you just need to see if there is better out there then what you already have.
1089742
Why would you do that? Is she taking up all his time? Are you jealous? Maybe you know something about her and you dont want your brother hurt. Whatever it is back off, its his life let him live it.
349439
It's an immature 'power' thing, they think it makes them more attractive if they can take him away from his girlfriend.  The truth is if one girl could get between them, then any girl could.  You learn that no-one can 'take away' a person you're with, because you can't own anyone, and that it needed the other person's 'cooperation' for the 'theft' to be successful
662971
Usually jealousy is the root to the problem. Another possible reason is that someone might be tired of a friend and don't know how to tell that person. Some girls hang together too much. And back to jealousy which is a nasty booga, many hurtful emotions can stem from this-hate, envy, covetous...Girls can get jealous of someone and spread rumors about that person. Jealousy can stem from a girl not feeling any self worth so she goes to tear down someone else's self esteem.
514477
It doesn't matter if someone cheats on you or not.  Why would you lower yourself to their level.  You have to go through life liking yourself.  You have to look in the mirror and like who you are.  If someone cheated then the relationship is going to take a lot of work to be able to work in general.  If the other person cheats out of revenge then neither of you should be in the relationship to begin with.
612624
Its not fair of her to not be honest with you.  I would tell her that I know about the other guy... How could she tell you that you are soulmates, but then not want to be with you? Isn't she living in sin by seeing the other guy? The whole situation sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too.  She is not being fair to either of you.
728323
At the top of this all, you are being a responsible big sister who wants to protect her little sister from guys who just want to prey on her because she is pretty. In the middle of this all, you get annoyed at the fact that most of the guys that befriend you are just actually wanting to get to your sister. It's natural for you to react that way. It's natural for you to want to be appreciated not because of your sister, but because of who you are. It's natural for you to want your own share of attention, and finally, it's natural for you to feel disrespected, and used, because guys are 'using' you to get to your beautiful sister. At the bottom of this all, you do have insecurities, of course, because you feel that your sister is prettier than you, and that she is getting all the attention, and people don't even stop to think about how you feel.\n\nI don't think you must be very ugly. If you have a very pretty sister, then it means you can't look that bad, right? You do share the same blood! Maybe she's pretty and charming at the same time?\n\nI have a cousin who has always, always been jealous of me. Whenever she had boyfriends, they'd fall for me after meeting me. In fact, she would reach a point where she told me "Ok, if he falls for you after seeing you, it's not going to bother me." And I was still so young at that time, I didn't even understand why she was acting like that. But now I understand that she was just jealous of me. As a result of her jealousy, she became very mean and resentful towards me, and ruined not only our relationship as cousins, but my mother's relationship with her dad, and my relationship with her siblings.\n\nPlease, don't allow your jealousy to eat away at your relationship with your sister. Accept what you have. Accept what she has. Be happy for her, if you really love her. There are guys that will suit you. Look for guys that are in your league, and let the guys in your sister's league, get together with her. Don't covet what's not meant to be for you. But be happy with what you have.
67979
because when shes with someone else and she still wants you . theres something freaky shes not getting at home. so 9 out of 10 she wants to do all that freaky stuff with you.
467760
There are cheaters and then there are mistakes...u can't prevent a cheater from cheating but you can prevent mistakes from happening..I beleive everyone is capable of making mistakes, and for those which are truely honest mistakes, can learn from them so they are not repeated...it may end that particular relationship but they know better to make that same mistake in their next relationship...it sometimes takes good judgement to recognize the difference between the two to avoid being a victim of a cheater.
1081515
You need to get right to the heart of the matter and politely and sincerely ask your sister why she feels unable to respect your privacy. If there is a trust issue, it needs to come out into the light.