all my friends have already had sex. is it kiddish that i havent?
817081
All of your friends are whores.  Tell all of their parents to bring them to Saudi Arabia and sew up their cunts. heh
813924
don't worry my dear you should be proud of yourself  bet there are not many young girls that can say that dont know how old you are but that is a very precious thing and you keep hold of it until the rite man comes along this world is full of young girls sleeping around and having  baby's that they don't want  and picking up infections so you don't have to worry and you don't have to be scared it  nothing to worry about its not the end of the world and when the rite man comes along it will be so special  so when you lose your virginity make sure its for the rite reason with the rite person don't let any one tell you any different  a man if he is a man will think more of you for not sleeping around so hold on to it  till the rite ti man comes along
46202
If you're friends are calling you a prude, then they aren't your friends.  A friend respects your morals and choices, even if they don't share the same ones.  Don't have sex to please your friends, you'll regret it later.  Stick to what you believe.
705504
If you have to ask, you're too young to be having sex in the first place.  The simple fact you referred to them as "girls" means that you don't know what's going on yet.  Grow up first.
270267
5 guys in one night!!  Aren't u concerned with diseases?  Or getting pregnant?  I'm sorry to tell you, but yeah in my opinion it makes you dirty.  In fact if you were a friend of mine I would have a few other choice words to say to you.  Wrap it up girl, you're gonna end up with some horrible STD if you continue.
446881
I have had mostly guy friend all my life...so...I think it can happen.  I don't know if they have thought about having sex with me, but none of them have tried anyway...\n:)
146269
am too young have u had sex?
589328
thats definitely the wrong reason to have sex, you sound like a smart girl, but having sex just to be able to relate to your friends is not smart.  ESPECIALLY if you're thinking of dumping him.  your first time should be with someone you are in love with.  your friends should respect that.
395081
well then just wait, or u know find yourself another female, like u said u have had sex before.
917789
YES!!!  It is perfectly possible for that to happen, I have 2 friends that dated for 8 years and did not have sex till they got married.
703262
You have already answered your own questions.  You are the only one that can tell you to have sex.  Good for you for not wanting to just have sex to "get it over with."  \n\nYour friends (and even your family members ... FOURTEEN????) are stupid to just haphazardly screw around!  Aside from the potential for getting pregnant, lets not also forget the disease factor!  Stupid to fool around so irresponsibly.\n\nThe bottom line is, you need to tell your critics (because they're not peers or friends when they're telling you to do something stupid that you KNOW is stupid and you don't want to do) that its your body and your choice and they need to mind their own business.  \n\nThere is NOTHING wrong with waiting to have sex...and you're doing it for the right reasons.  Tell your "friends" to shut the hell up and live their own lives.
208177
No!!! If  you have sex, the guy can tell all your friends and make up lies about you. Do you want that? You want the whole school thinking  you a hoe?? Do not worry about sex now, you have your whole life to do that.
493300
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
1034818
There is no percentage concerning this question.  People who want to have sex are going to have sex anyway, and the people who are not, are not.  We will never know who is wiiling to go into something so deep so quickly, b/c we are not everybody to know the answer to that question.  Are you willing to have sex after the first dinner of getting to know someone?
940471
Ok, this may shock you as I have different feelings about sex than you do but hear me out. Sex is not that big a deal. It is a natural thing that occurs everywhere all the time. Losing your virginity is NOT that big a deal either, it shows you the beginning to a world of natural instincts, however it has consequences so be careful from now on. Get it out the way (not from a young age mind you, I was 17 when I lost mine and that is a common age even though sometimes I feel the kids of today are starting to blossom earlier - I am going on now...). Nothing came from having unprotected sex did it? No babies on the way? No STD's or diseases? No? Then realise that you had a good time with no consquences of a physical nature and move on, not point dwelling on the past - you can't change it. Just learn from it. Don't be afraid to try new things either, its fun and you're not the first ever to try it ok.\n\nLife is not always that bad, not always great but not that bad either. Partying is always fun, but going to the extreme and partying all the time is bad for your health. I suggest you join a group or get a job (good luck with the interview by the way) and meet new people that way. Charity work is always rewarding and you meet new people too. As for your roomate, there are ways to live with people even if you don't like them. I work with guys I can't stand and as I am in the Army, its hard to get away from them, I learn to deal with it. It strengthens my character to be the bigger man and act like the mature adult I am rather than stoop to their lows. Just remember that there are others out there less fortunate than yourself and pick up your head. \n\nOn the God thing..... I am agnostic. If he exists, which in your case you believe he does, you must seek him, not the other way around. He won't come and say hey, pick your chin up and be better for it. You have to do it yourself, and thank Him for the realisation that the only thing you can do to help someone is to show them how to help themselves. \n\nSo remember, sex is great, join a social group, find a charity to work for or a paying job (school first though), live life with your head held high and proud, and look after yourself in a hard world. Good luck.
1013995
OMG! You need to be married of right now! \n\nor\n\nIt's natural, everyone does it, if they don't they are lying or in denial. Not to mention it makes you feel better, and it's safer than having sex at this day and age, with all the STDs and pregnancies.
249160
really i think that you should ask your sex partner. and  since ya'll are already haveing sex then you and your partner should be close enoght to decuss it without being embrassed about it. just talk about it ask each other questions see what you can do to emprove