if men think about you know what every 5 mins then why does my 43  yr. old bf not acting it out.?
829731
Sorry to hear you aren't getting what you need from him, I'd be more than happy to help fulfill your needs if this continues for you as it has. ;0)
15740
Most likely, he thinks that you are using your toys because he's not satisfying you. Simply explain to him that it is not the case (unless it is the case...).
317818
Age is a definate problem....only because of how much you (18 yo) are going to change in the next 5  years.  Your ideas, your morals, we really do change alot from the time we're 18 to 25 and then our ideas start to settle.  This is just from personal experience.  \n\nAnd truthfully....it's only going to be about the sex for him...the idea that he can attract and 18 yo..wow it's an ego boost.
655333
Thats because he is worried abt the commitment .Men usually are like that .. so take it easy .. dont talk much abt it ..
1104019
It's time for some counseling!  If he won't go, you go!  You need someone to bounce things off and to get good solid objective input from.  \n\nHe may be in a personal slump himself.  If he has very little sex drive and is tired a lot, he might have low testosterone, it is not an uncommon condition.  Suggest he have a complete physical, just to make sure everything is okay, tell him you are concerned about him and want to make sure everything is all right physically.\n\nIt may be he is worried about a lot of things, and doesn't know how to communicate, or doesn't feel he should.  Guys often think they should be strong and keep things to themselves.\n\nWhat I am saying is, it might not be about you at all, though it is definitely affecting you.  And it could be that he doesn't like you bringing up the subject, so he pulls more into himself, and goes to the TV and computer to avoid interaction.\n\nI feel for you, I know this is a very difficult situation.  Don't just let it go on!  Get some outside help, at least to vent, and possibly to help the two of you communicate better.\n\nBest of luck to you!!
89435
i did the same thing, just give it sometime for him to think about what he no longer has (you) and he'll come through. Sometimes, when you dont stress about a situation what ever you want to happen, happens so relax and you might get your man back.
877438
its hard because women get upset when a man says I am tired then she gets even more upset and starts thinking there is something wrong with her also if your man is suffering from a lot of stress he may not be able to get into the mood as well there are a lot of reasons why men cant express them selves either could be there upbringing maybe dad didn't show mom a lot of affection and it just rubbed of on him
1040323
hey sorry to hear that,id like to say becareful,sounds like you still young,well im 22 years old girl,if i really love a guy and do care about him,i would never say that bullshit to my bf,i think she just fool around you,or she got somebody else,the most imporant thing is u havent found out the truth now
612250
Give him time. Do you know his work schedule and what it is like. He may have checked the email and just not had time to respond to it. Maybe he is gathering his thoughts of what he may want to say to you. Sometimes it is harder for men to express their feelings because they don't want to seem like a pushover, or move to fast. I would wait and give him another day or so. I know that it can be hard when you are filled with anticipation. In the end, follow your heart for you are the only one who knows what makes you truly happy.......Best of luck to you
738713
Honey you can't force him to say how he feels that comes over time... I suggest just give him some time... as long as you know he cares then why should you have to hear it? I know sometimes words are just as good as actions but sweetie we all fight to get the guys to show it and they always just say it! so be proud you found one who can show it for once and for right now enjoy the letting him do what makes you happy. trust me that will change after a while! Good Luck!
793745
god forgive me for stereotyping but I only have limited info for going on! from what you say, there is only one adult in the relationship and it's not him!!!\nok, he sounds like a typical man, wanting to have his cake and eat it too - basically he feels it's a bit wrong to be with you, but he wants you to make it ok.\nso he's being cautious and flaky so that most of the hard work comes from you and you end up saying all the stuff people usually don't want to be the first to say (ie tell me how you feel/why are you sending out mixed signals - making you look needy)- don't fall into that trap. as much as you want some clarity, pull back and let him do the hard work. it is obvious he likes you despite the age diff (dirty old man - just kidding) so he will try to engineer the opportunity to kiss you again- at which point, i think you should play a bit hard to get so he has to SAY those things he is obviously avoiding saying  in case it all goes tits up, i presume. \nanyway, only my opinion, so let me know if i was totally wrong - and good luck!!!
626481
Please talk to him about how you feel!! From experience men are not mindreaders and they would truly be clueless if no one clues them in! After the talk if he continues to do the same thing then dump him.
799745
maybe your hubby's just have an immature behavior.. i guess he's a also a loner who has his own world.. many men are like that by the way.
1146716
I'm 31.. and I think about it once every hour at least.  My boyfriend is excellent.  He keeps it on my mind!
392148
Well women do mature faster, so that may be the issue! I think by the time you reach your 20s, he may change his tune, he will be a bit older.....and a bit more mature!
67646
Don't stress...some guys just assume now you should know, so they don't say it as often.  He still means it, but is probably hoping you are secure enough in the relationship to know that without him saying it as often.
885591
Nope.  Men only think about sex on average of every 52 seconds.  So between those 52 seconds are 51 more seconds we're not thinking about it.