how do i get my girlfriend to tell me whats wrong?
816688
Say "When you're ready to talk about what's wrong, call me" and either walk away or hang up. She's being silly.
733871
Theres no simple way of telling her how ur feeling its going to hurt both of yous but its best if u just tell her the truth, straight out.. If youre at the point where u wana break up with her or spend time apart i think maybe its time to move on.. If it is really meant to be with you and ur girlfriend love will find its way in the end.. Good luck n be strong!
665640
Talk to her like anyone else.  It's her problem if she mis-interrupts something.  As long as your upfront, honest and tactful (no staring at the boobs man); you're in the clear.  Good luck
115201
I agree with sixseven. Sit down with her and ask her to tell you what the problem is, but do it nicely. If she doesn't want to talk about it then giver her her space and as sixseven said, be there for her and let her know that when she's ready to talk, you're ready to listen. Good luck.
101827
Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
14868
"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
60702
Be honest and kind with her. Tell her it's just not working out and that you two should take a break for a while.
105532
start with telling her about having difficult talking to her.  Share what you are thinking instead of letting it make you go crazy. \n\n"I know its crazy, but since we have been dating I have a hard time thinking of what to say.  Do you feel the same way?"
849048
Sounds like your girlfriend isn't really in a "fun" mood right now, friend. Honestly, just be there for her. There is nothing you can say or do to help her get over such serious traumas, so always be ready to lend an ear or a hand. I promise this is help you guys get closer, and by the time she's ready to move on with her life, you'll have a better relationship than you would have without any og this.
230326
It could mean that something is bothering her. Ask her what is wrong and see if you two can work it out. Hang in there ok.
102932
us woman get upset over the littlest things...you gotta try to talk to her..just say hey i need to know why your upset..if she won't talk to you try writing her a note..put it in her locker or hand it to her..you've got a right for a explanation....could be blowing you off cause she wants to break up whatever the reason she owes you a answer..try talking or the note thing..hope it works out
606612
if you need to ask, you need to work on that relationship.  conversation should be easy with your girlfriend.
517434
Hello there!\nIt must have been hard to have found that out about your girlfriend after being together for 5 months. I must take medication regularly, and I had the same problem with letting people know I took it. You should feel honored that she shared that information with you. It is so hard to even tell anyone that you have a problem, let alone someone so close to you. She is basically taking an anti-depressant, which regulate the level of serotonin in her brain. A mental illness is a disease, like diabetes or hypertension. In order to control our mental illness, we take medication. Just as someone with diabetes must have insulin. When we don't take our meds, it can cause a recurrence of our symptoms--which often includes suicidal thoughts. If you really care about her, you could try and learn about her illness. Be there to support her. People are often inclined to selfish thoughts, thinking how bad they will feel and withdrawing from the very person that needs us. Everyone has some thing or another that we must "deal" with in a relationship. I have had many relationships when the person I was with could not handle the fact I had a problem. I dont' let it run my life and am very loving and responsible. I am sure people will tell you "horror stories" about their illnesses, and these do occur. You did become her boyfriend for a reason right? Focus on her positive qualities and support her. If you feel like you could not handle it, then the best thing to do is to leave the relationship. Good luck to you!
250218
If you really care for your girl tell her.  But be gentle about it because you know how woman tend to think other wise when it comes to certain thinks.  I know cause I'm guilty of it too.  Let her know you care about her and you are not saying this to hurt her, you just fell that she should know so maybe she can talk to her roommate.
80045
Convince her to see a doctor.
258616
be patient and dont push her too hard\njust be there for her (even only via email)\nstop telling her how you feel for now, it may be quite irritating for someone's out of a bad relationship\ntell her your feeling once again when she's opened up a bit\n\nhope she'll loosened up =)
60197
Ask her about her problem if she has one.