A  guy stole $70 from my wallet, then accuses me of stealing,  now says he going file a police report on me?
821126
Unless he has evidence of some sort the police probably won't do much more than come talk to you.  If they do talk to you keep your cool, be respectful, and be completely up front and honest with them.  They deal with liars every day and are trained to be able to tell if someone is lying so they will know if you are.  If there is evidence then you could be in some trouble.  Either way, it is always a good idea to have a lawyer present when speaking to the police.
127079
Don't pay them!!!!  It doesn't matter who's in possesion of the papers - if they don't get payed they'll come after him, not you.  They're still his bills, with his name and his address on them.  If he just walks over and puts them in your mailbox that doesn't make you responsible for them.\n\nIf he's actually using your address on the bills that's a different story.  In that case you can, and should, sue him.  You can also alert the police, who can arrest him.\n\nOh, and if you've been paying them with a credit card you just might be able to get the credit company to cancel the charges (at least the most recent ones).  This would result in his utilities, etc. getting shut off immediately.\n\nI'm pretty sure it's not illegal to put things in people's mailboxes - just to take them out - and it's not illegal to give your own mail to someone else.  So I don't think the mail tampering thing works.\n\nBTW, I do know you're only joking, but I wouldn't put it past some of the people on Yahoo! Answers to be reading this thinking they were just about to ask the same thing :)
412495
i agree with the guy who says pull his legs off. then you could beat him with them!! take him to court even if you can't get the money back you can be a pain in his ***!!!
232700
Report the theft to your police department, they will give you a case number- take that # to the DMV, to get a new one. Also call the credit bureaus and report the theft so they can put you on the fraud alert system.
851711
Ignore him.  Trust me, he's going to have to publicly admit to his wife that he spent the money on you in order to get it back, and he sounds like such a weasel that he's probably not willing to do that.  I'm assuming he threatened you with a lawsuit in order to recover the money.  Legally, he has no case, he freely spent the money on you, there was no agreement for repayment, etc.  Now, if he's threatening you physically, I have 2 words for you....\nRESTRAINING ORDER.  \n\nHopefully you've learned 2 things from this experience.\n#1, don't mess with married men, they're nothing but trouble for you!!\n#2, no one will give you anything without expecting something in return, don't accept gifts that you're not willing to pay back in some form or fashion.\n\nGood luck to you!
587359
it sounds like the local authorities are out to get you (for whatever reason). My recommendation is that you find an out-of-town lawer and call teh FBI to see if tehy will put certain local officials under investigation. People thinkt his kind of underhanded stuff just doesn't happen anymore but I've seen it a million times. You may want to even get an out-of-state lawyer to take the case just in case. If you lose the case and the FBI finds things wrong in the local authorities you may get a chance to get your money back with interest.
375826
You have to post bail, if it applies to him...\nYou have to find out what are the charges first, and work from there... hope you can resolve it soon
1173692
call the cops! sorry you are going through this but notify the police! can you leave? do you have anywhere to go? any other friends to help you? you dont HAVE to do anything you dont have to go to her house, you need to find another way  to make money but if she is stealing from you, you are in a worse boat!
133540
Report him to the company that he is embezzling from, then to your local Police Department.
899299
You are well within your rights to press charges and I encourage it. But I am a city girl and am always thinking with an urban attitude. \n\nLegally, that person will get charged with I am sure (1) breaking and entering, (2) theft, (3) fraud....most of which are felonies. If he has been released he will be arrested and will need a lawyer. He will then go on trial and the courts will contact you. Once you press charges you will be assigned a detective or a person of contact within the police department. \n\nPersonally...I am afraid that this person has had the opportunity to look in your wallet, know your address, and may be even have made COPIES OF YOUR KEYS. I really am not trying to scare you, but as a single woman, we have to look out for any possible scenarios that may put us in harm's way. \n\nI suggest you atleast change all locks to anything leading in to your home or apartment. I would much prefer you to be safe than suing. \n\nGood Luck to you and I am sorry to hear that someone decided to violate you in that way. Please try to always remember to carry your purse with you and ensure that all valuables are at least in your trunk. Always remember to be very cautious when entering your car.
506200
If they left with out paying for gas and all they left behind was a card then most likely it was stolen!   But why didn't you guys called the cops??  You should have made a report that such person w/ this type of car came provided a possible stolen card and left w/ out paying for the gas...   \n\nFor all we know this individual may have committed a worst crime minutes earlier! Also, in the future you should write down all license plate #'s down in case this ever happens again.
435879
Unless your brothers friend was a signatory to the bank account then it was theft. If he was a signatory then unfortunately nothing you can do. If the police will not prosecute even though it is theft then you can sue for return of the money.
1000706
I live in Sullivan County, but don't know who this man is. You could always call the VA and ask for the man's name, leave a message for him with your contact number.. Or perhaps post an ad in the paper thanking him .. and you are very lucky, not many people like that - i left my purse with all my id in it in a lady's car and she refused to let me have it while she was in the hospital, and i was told nothing could be done about it (amazing, with all the identity theft going on these days) so you are very lucky an honet person found your wallet to return it
793801
Yes, you have a right to be upset. Your fiance is a mama's boy. Poor baby?\n\nAnd I wonder, how much do they accuse you of stealing? I would consider it beneath my dignity to be accused of stealing anything less than $10000!!!\n\nIf more than that has been lost, he should ask you ( that's some serious cash, but if they are accusing you of stealing $50, they are really cheap. I mean, if I lost 10 grand, I would get my dog x-rayed to make sure he hasn't swallowed it. Let alone asking my fiancee.) .  But even if he does ask you, it should not imply assumed misdeedson your part.\n\nHow did he phrase it? Did he ask if you "SAW" the money? Or did he ask if you "TOOK" it? In any case, if he said his parents accused you of stealing, they really suck. Chances are that they stole it themselves to put the blame on you. Check your bags and luggage carefully, you don't want to be caught with "planted evidence". \n\nI hope,if you guys are marrying, you are going to stay far far away from them.
675173
You need to contact the police department in your area and ask them, my advice, is put everything in the report that is directly corelated to the fraud, when it happened, how it happened, about the criminal, you need to be very specific!  Good luck, sorry it happened to you!
783152
And you question is????????\nYou delivered what ? a child? \n\nThen sue him for child support and move on with your life, this guy appears to be a cheating, scum. You could do much better by yourself.
454844
I dont think that you should keep it, that is basically a nice form of stealing.  I think that you should track him down and give it back.