i lost my best friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
832471
THIS PERSON MUST NO TAHVE BEEN YOUR BEST FRIEND B/C IF THEY WERE , THEY WOULD NOT HAVE DUMPED YOU FOR SOME OTHER FRIEND !!
736058
I know how you feel, i lost my brother 6 years ago on monday. I still cry i miss him so much. Sorry for your loss. Keep strong, he is in a better place now and will always be in your heart.
411998
That's really "iffy." You have no clue what's going on in their life right now and the reason could be anything! So try to be the best friend you can back. But don't be a door mat. This has to be balanced. If it's the worse possible case scenario and they were BSing the entire time and they really weren't your friend, then don't hng out with them anymore and look for other better people to be friends with. There are more fish in the sea than just this one person. What really matters in the end is how you handle things if you did stuff right. That makes you a much stronger person than said "friend."
1159022
my best freind who just died
854405
True friends are hard to find. My best friend and I got into a fight too and didn't talk for a year. Although, we am much older then you and your friend, we have been friends since we were 16. We both put it behind us, talked about it briefly when we started talking again and then dropped it. Consider yourself lucky to have her back in your life. Sometimes pride and ego destroy good friendships. It might be uncomfortable for a little while. But catch up on what happened while you weren't speaking and take it from there.\nThe issue between my friend and I was HUGE and we got over it. I really missed her when she wasn't around. I hate not having her to talk to and no one else gets me like she does.
680157
I've had the same thing happen to me and it sucks. My two best friends ever had to leave but that didn't stop our friendship. I e-mail them almost everyday and I talk to them on the phone. I haven't seen them in a long time but that never stopped our friendship. My friends moved different countries. You're lucky at least your friend is in the same country and if you want to visit you should make a plan. Things will be different but something that NEVER changes is friendship. Trust me it'll be ok.
955185
Try to talk to her. My best friend is having a problem like this right now, and the best thing to do is try and talk it out. If she won't talk to you, get a new friend.
445356
tell him that you cannot do it by being friends .. stop talking to him even though it is hard .. if he feels something is missing in his life he will come back to you in the way you want ..but if he doesn't than understand that he wasn't probably your best friend or he doesn't like you so you have to get over him .. but try what I say my best friend did that to me and eventually I had to go out with him .. because I was gonna lose him ..
334772
This is the phase in life when you need a best friend the most. I recommend that you seek Jesus Christ and tell him to be your best friend, you will see that He will guide you all through your difficult times. He changed my life completely and I praise the Lord for that!  I hope you will find what you're looking for in Christ Jesus! The answer to everything. God bless you.
903644
I know exactly how you feel, my so called "best friend" is treating my like crap, and my other "best friend" keeps feeding her lies about me hating her, and now their both......I'm sorry, your the one posting the question, sorry. You know what, forget those dumb asses bitches. They don't know what the hell their losing, their losing a good friend, a loyal friend, a great sister, and a best friend. This world sucks, and if they think you suck, then are they really even your freaking friends!?!??!?!?!?!?!
425522
IM NOT FIRNEDS ANYMORE WITH MY USED TO BE BEST FRIEND\nIT BECAME TOO MUCH WE GREW APART
785079
find a new best friend
858633
I feel bad for you.  I'm so sorry that you have lost someone in your life that sounds like a soul mate.  I hope you will always be friends with this person even if you are not "in love with each other or anything like that."  I would not accept loosing this person in my life if I was you.  Not with computers and pen and paper and phones.  I would talk to my Mom about it and I would contact him and tell him how you feel, that he is important to you and that you would like to remain friends even 3000 miles apart.  Good friends are worth the effort.
652659
If she was indeed your best friend, be straight forward and ask her why the sudden change in attitude?  If she says she is extending her network of friends, then let her be.  Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder so when there has been enough time that has passed, she will (hopefully) realize you're not there and actually MISS you enough to CALL YOU!  Hope you all patch things up... make sure there wasn't a lack of communication or miscommunication.
203264
Tell her how you feel! Let her know it's bothering you. If she truly is your best friend,and truly cares about you(like you do her) she will understand!\n\n             -hope it helps-\n                  lots of luv!
784979
Im sorry for your loss.  Be there for them by listening to what they have to say, crying with them and remembering memories and good times that you have had.  You of course are going to lose it at some point and do not try not to.  That's really all you can do at this point.  Pray wtih them also.  You will get thru this.
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I totally understand what you are going through .. it is not easy to lose someone you love .. especially that he is the one who gave up on your relationship .. \n\nSweetie, I want to tell you that you need time, your feelings are hitting bottom low right now and you need time to recover and heal yourself .. his rejection must have hurt you bad and your heart is bleeding right now but even though you don't believe it YOU ARE STRONG .. your quest for help proves that you are stronger than you think.\n\nMy advise to you, take your time to refresh yourself, do things and activities that you like, it is also helpful if you have a best friend (preferrably a SHE) to spend time with and just have fun,\n\nI will be praying for you