A Boyfriend who doesn't call enough?
817289
Sounds like a young love problem.  Long distance relationships are always tough.  If he is away doing things with his family and other friends it would be very not to call.  This does not at all mean he does not like, or even not love you.  He just needs his own time, and sometimes talking on the phone for hours every day can be too much of a strain on his life.  As you get older you will see that just because you dont talk to someone for a few days doesn't mean that the love is gone.  You have to have security in your relationship and trust him. You are also young and need to live your own lives first.  GOOD LUCK!
367067
Whew! I pity your boyfriend if you are so needy and clingy that you can't deal with a single long weekend. You sound very high maintenance.
248185
4 phone conversations isn't enough??? If you want him to call you, try NOT calling him for a while (I'm talking 5-6-7 days here, not 2). Guys generally don't have the same urge to talk as often as you do. He may be perfectly willing to call you, it's just you're not giving him an opportunity to miss talking to you.
426447
I wouldn't sit around and wait on the call. If someone has to provoke me, that's not a boyfriend. Is he trying to start a fight over guilty feelings about something???? The only way to get past this is to have an honest talk. Why does he provoke you....why is everything "in his hands"....why the hurtful talk....???? Both sides need to be honest with each other and act more maturely and respectfully towards each other.
283536
I was in a relationship like that. HE only lived an hour away. BUt we were on the phone all the time, and every chance we had we were together.Now we are married. Sounds to me that your guy might not be ready for what you want. Tell him how you feel about him not calling or blowing plans off. Maybe he will take your feelings into consideration or he his just telling you what he thinks you want to hear.
944005
I think Samdrian has the right idea. I made the mistake of being clingy after my breakup. My phone hasn't rung once since. \n\nLet him go. The longer and harder you try the less respect he will have for you. I gave my boyfriend up, I had too. I had already become pathetic in his eyes. Go out with friends, get a volunteer job. If you don't you will just obsess on why he hasn't called. \n\nPlease take care of your heart and yourself.  Give yourself a break.
763800
I don't think you love him...not yet, especially if you and he can't have a conversation over the phone yet.  A lot of guys don't like the phone, and they aren't like girls who can just sit around talking about things.  Don't call him unless you actually have something to say to him...whether it be, "hey, come over for a while", or "what do you want to do this weekend"...don't just call and make "what did you do today" the whole conversation.  Maybe what he is doing isn't even worth mentioning...in his eyes anyway.  It seems to me that you need someone that can stimulate conversation, and in this relationship that's going to have to be you.  Ask him direct questions and you will get direct answers.
165062
Unless there's a legitimate reason for him not calling you back, "he's just not that into you". You make it sound like his behavior is consistent so if you're making the relationship a priority and he isn't, it may be time to move on. Make yourself less available. I would spend more time with friends and ignore his calls. That way you're out there meeting new guys and he'll either come around or you'll find one that returns phone calls.
891210
Maybe the relationship is over. If he's always "busy" perhaps he's seeing someone else already. Perhaps you should just let it die.
1001064
You might be able to tell if he doesn't call you as often or if he sounds strange on the phone, especially when you ask him how his day was. Good luck and try to trust him.
1030850
Well, you must call him...he is busy worrying about his business, you are worrying about the relastionship so you must be the one to try to hold it together.  Best wishes
700992
Ditch him\nYou are not being unreasonable and he is being uncaring.\nLong term it spells bad news if he can not make such small efforts for you.
889008
Don't call him. let him call you.  email maybe once or text but don't call. after he gets the note from you, he will call you back if he wants to talk to you.\n\nhmm... but why can't you still talk on the phone?\n\ni'm sorry but if he is so singleminded that he cannot conduct buisness and a relationship then i don't see you beng involved very long.\n\nsounds like he's trying to break up, but  just because that happened to someone i know doesn't mean it's happening to you.
87002
then he really doesn't want to be with you. don't put up with it . break up with him and if he comes back then he realized that he does like you and you're not as needy as he thought...but don't just sit at the house waiting for him and calling him. make other plans . don't let your life revolve around his. you need to be in control. don't act needy
966378
it depends on the guy but usually it freaks them out so i wouldn't call to many times atleast not in row anyway...you must really like this person ...but no matter how bad you do want to call him and stuff don't call to much you don't want to mess it up by freaking him out b/c you called to much
727652
Well if he's not calling you back then I would stop calling him. Just keep up the emails if you feel like it. Maybe if you stop calling him he will start to wonder why and he will think to call you. But I doubt he thinks your needy...he probably is just busy and since you are out of sight you are out of mind. Ya know? No biggie though. Just find a man in your area, because most people aren't into long distance relationships. gooooood luck.
1155230
He's the one with the problem not you...rise above it and hopefully your boyfriend will sort it out...if he's the sort worth having!