How do i get him to be romantic?
820492
You need to let him know that while you are married to him you are not his possession.... you are not a TV or a couch, or a car! He has proven his love for you in marriage but being your husband is a privilege and a joy that he needs to earn everyday... and in return there is no greater gift in the world than a woman who feels respected, loved and desired by her man... My wife is the best part of my life and there is nothing that I would not do for her... Your hubby needs to not take you for granted just because you said "I DO"... he should be romantic and earn your love!
248213
Sometimes a girl like you needs to educate a boyfriend as to HOW you want him to be romantic.  We men sometimes just don't understand what women want.  If you are patient and understanding, he will become romantic.
1032876
Well, there are all of the cliche things that you can do, like a romantic dinner, or a walk along the park, however I would suggest a different path. Think of something you might have done as a child, and do it with him. Think of something completely stupid to do, or even a little childish maybe. I know my gf and I do a lot of things like that, and that is when we really bond. For example, catching fireflies on a summer night, or baking cookies together. Just think of everyday things, and do them together.
337576
rekindle that spark BE ROMANTIC not just average you want this to work! Go above and beyond i'm talking movie romantic. if she rejects that sorry. But good luck
562965
Make it as romantic as possible.  Every guy in their thirties or so need to know that they are still sexy to their mate.  Make him feel like he's the world to you.  Buy yourself a sexy outfit that makes him say "WOW I'm w/ her!".  Pamper him and make him #1 for the day/night!  Hope you have the time of your lives!
453660
Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
745045
Changing him is going to be hard.  He may not know how to be romantic and is scared that he will not be successful at it.  Talk with him about it and make suggestions and hopefully he will see how important it is to you and be willing to try.  Good luck.
733935
The best way is to be yourself!  I know this sounds cheesy but it is the best way.  Tell him nice things when he is around, like you smell nice, I like the way you wear your hair, nice jeans etc.  But don't over do it.  If he is interested he will see you are too.\n\nI wish you the best of luck.
1118922
Well it doesn't have to be something expensive to really be special and mean a lot to her (for example, flowers can be pricey, but a lot of women don't even like getting those because there's often no real sentiment attached...anyone can go out and buy flowers).  Small gestures, such as a phone call or even a look can be romantic.  Just do things that make your girlfriend realize you actually put thought into them -- like slipping love notes into her purse, surprising her with a favorite dessert after dinner, that sort of thing.  Like others said, picnics are always romantic, and I guess the setting is key:  do you live near the beach, a lake, or a nice, shady park?  I don't know how intimate you two are, but bubble baths together are nice...along with some champagne or wine.  Even if you don't consider yourself to be a romantic person, you probably have some better ideas than you think -- the fact that you asked this question in the first place makes you pretty romantic!
203359
Gosh, this is a loaded question!  It all depends on so much!  Do you have kids, howz your sex life...how creative do you want to be?!  The romantic dinner is a GREAT idea to start with!  There are some very romantic sexual games you can play after to spice things up. ("An Enchanted Evening" as an example)  To really save money you could make him a wonderful "coupon book" that he may use all year (Until your 7th anniversary)  Including back rubs, hugs, kisses, sexual favors, picinic lunch, his favorite home cooked meal....
584377
unfortunately you cannot make someone be more romantic. people are who they are and you must either love them for who they are or go your own way. if you feel like you need someone to change in order to suit your needs you are only fooling yourself because true love only exists when everything suits eachothers wants and needs without making major changes in personalities...i will agree that a relationship of any kind takes effort and sacrifice but usually someone is either affectionately romantic or they aren't and if you try to change them it may make them feel very uncomfortable or insecure.
70964
First off the best way is for you too come up with something real romantic that will make this person remember it the rest of their life and only you can really come up with that. I can only suggest. Find out this person's favorite love song or you could use yours then wait for mid-nite on the 14th and take this person to a romantic spot make sure you have a little picnic and the song you choose and propose.
380582
just attract him more .......spend more time with him ..... agree with him in all cases ...... give him lots of love ...... give him the things tat he wants it .... and make him to love you more and to care about u more .......
241431
Be Open and Honest with him, tell him how you feel..communication is essential in any type of relationship romantic or otherwise so talk to him and make him understand that you care but, that the two of you have all the time in the world and there is no need for rushing into anything. take your time and don't be pushed into anything that your not ready for. Follow your heart and instinct. Good Luck!
188790
Romance begets romance.  Be romantic to him and you'll get it in return.  Guys sometimes have to be shown how to do these things.
723896
You can try the subtle way. Tell him you like being around him that should do it. Wait and pick the right time.
453926
One of the easiest ways is to start slow and gradually introduce intimacy back into the relationship.\nFor instance, you may introduce a rule to yourself:\n"make sure I hug my partner at least three times a day"\njust simple acts like this, which are quick to perform, can have a profound effect with regard adding romance into a relationship.\nOr ,get up early one day and go and watch the sunrise together.\nThis is the sort of thing that many women love, and whilst you may find it a little boring is a classic way of adding romance to your relationship.\nOn a warm night before what will be another warm day, there is something incredibly romantic about sharing watching a sunrise together, as the night and darkness gives way to the light of day.\nThe cool air, the change in light levels and the relative quiet of that early morning gives you an almost humbling sensation or an awe of the true beauty and power of nature, and sharing this together is what makes it so romantic.\nAdvice: Don’t involve your friends in your relationships.