i am a straight male but what does it mean if i think about being intimate with my male friends?
816005
It means you are not straight and you are either bisexual or gay.
656088
Men are very sexual by nature. Some straight guys will fool around with other guys once in their life time. Some will enjoy the experience. But does that not mean they are gay. They will only be considered gay if they are emotionally or physically attracted to a guy. I assure you, if you ask them if they are still attracted to a girl after doing it with a guy, they will all answer yes.\n\nIn most cases, straight guys just want to have sex and they don't care if it's with a woman or a man as long as it has a hole.
1019982
I don't believe that it makes you gay. But, it also depends on what your definition of Gay is.  I do believe that you have homosexual tendencies.  That means that you may not be actually having sex with or being sexually intimate with men right now.  But, if the right situation presents itself, you may become involved with a man sexually.  Now, whether you will just like guys then or not, I don't know.  However, anything is possible with anything.  Just take you time and find out what makes you feel good as a person and what makes you feel good intimately and that will be your answer.  Don't worry about the label too much.
48001
I would say if you have feelings for members of the same sex and you want to act on them, or you do act on them then you might be gay. And if you're not at all interested in being with someone of the opposite sex, but only someone of your same sex. It's also possible you could just be confused.
583280
liking someones company and wanting to be intimate are two totally different things. He's respecting you and the decision that you have made as far as your sexual orientation, why not do the same for him. That's the quickest way to ruin a friendship.So just suck it up and drive on. If it becomes too much of an issue for you you might have to rethink your friendship w/him.
907679
ewww you masturbate in front of each other um yeah.....thats strange.  i'm straight but that doesn't mean its okay for me to masturbate with my guy friends.
965823
Why do you have to do anything?  What does sexual orientation have to do with friendship.  If you care for this person as a friend, I don't see the problem.  I have gay friends, and it has never come between the friendship we share.  If it's something troublesome to you, talk it over with them, I'm sure they would appreciate your honesty.
982864
You say you definitely like women, but the question is in what way do you like them? You say you have fantasies with certain men, I guess you mean sexual fantasies? You than state you don't like men. I do not know what your sexual orientation is because you have provided few details. If you sexually fantasize about women only, then you would be straight. If you sexually fantasize about men only, then you would be gay. If you sexually fantasize about both, then you would be bisexual.
804369
Sounds like an episode of Will and Grace.  Maybe your friend is bi-sexual.  Regardless, you will never be sure if he closes his eyes and fantasizes about Kevin Cosner when you get together.  I would say be his friend forever but don't get your hopes up
1032469
If you're thinking of men when she uses it on you, then that's a good indication that you may be gay.  If you are thinking of her (or some other woman) while she is using it on you, then that is a good indication that you are not gay.  Even if it was your idea.
1137026
I think maybe you're bi, because maybe you like girls, but you have these feelings for your friend but no other guy.  Maybe not.  Maybe it's all just a big infatuation.  Who really knows?  But it sounds like you are either gay or bi.  Of course, you seem to be very close to your friend so maybe you've grown from friendship to being with him so often and sharing so much that you wanted more.
137254
I think it is. I have men friends. Just because you are friends with someone of the opposite sex, doesn't mean that is has to be sexual.
695923
You say that you "know i'm not gay because i know its very wrong". Who says it is wrong? Someone else who is telling you who your are? The only thing that is wrong is for you to pretend that you are someone that you are not. It could be that you only want to experiment, and that doesn't make you gay. Being gay is a definition of who you are attracted to. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the same sex as you, that means you are gay. If you only have sexual thoughts about people that are the opposite sex as you, that means you are straight. If you have sexual thoughts about both, then you are bi. Instead of listening to other people who tell you what is wrong or right, listen to yourself and decide for yourself who you are attracted to. It doesn't matter who you are attracted to, the only thing that matters is that who you are attracted to makes you happy.
155013
Well, I'm bisexual; and it feels like... being me, I guess.  I know a lot of people are like, "yuk, how could you like a GUY" but then, women like guys, dont' they?  \n\nWe like to put people into categories but really, we're all individuals.  I'd guess you're having feelings for a person of the same sex.  What that means is, that you have feelings for that person.  But if all your sexual feelings are for people of your own gender then you are gay, and you'll be much happier in life if you accept who you are.\n\nBeing gay doesn't mean you have to be promiscuous.  If you beleive in love, find someone to love!  If you like women, though, you shouldnt hook up with a man, any more than it would make sense for a straight guy who's repulsed by fat women to marry a fat woman.
784282
I think of women all the time. I have this crush on a dear friend with whom I have been friends since we were in school. We never had a relationship but have been there for eachother through many tough times. We had moved apart and after a span of 4 years reconnected at this time things fell into our close selves despite our new lives and situations. We feel a sexual charge when we are together wether it's with company or alone. We both sense it and it kinda shows. We still have never done anything towards or with eachother, although I think that it could and how I would love for it to, I treasure her true friendship more. I do think of her often. We 've had some very intimate situations but were able to keep ourselves in check.
305901
Its good that you were honest with your friend, he knows how you feel about him now and also knows your sexual preferences. But if he is not interested then you need to let him be and just try to be friends, he is entitled to his own sexual preferences as much as you so it is important to respect that.\n\nIt seems like he still wants to be mates so you might be able to build a good friendship with this guy, most young men probably wouldn't want anything to do with you if they knew you fancied them (i'm assusming you're male) so he sounds pretty understanding and cool and might be able to offer you some good support.\n\nIf he does want more than a friendship at some stage he'll come to you.
518071
well If I was you I would wait till a good time(you'll know) then tell them that you are curious and you would feel uncomfortable with anyone else and since I am already gay,there will be no strings or emotional ties after wards. I would just break it down like its an uncomfortable issue but you couldn't think of a more comfortable friend to experiment with. "Use Protection"!