Can I redeem myself after acting too desperate?
815674
just act like you dont care. maybe start talking to other guys when hes around. if he asks you out again say sure maybe sometime and leave it at that. after a week or so if he asks you out again, say yes.
390755
Recover by turning around and walking away.. then wait for her to call you to apologize.\nif she never calls, she's a c**k tease. don't waste your time.
258091
Yes I have and probably will again, being only human. It usually happens after I've done something that makes me feel like a complete fool everytime I think about it! Whatever has happened to you probably isn't as bad as you think it is right now and you'll live through it one way or another, Talk to pinkstealth there. She looks like she's got her ears on and waiting for you.
645224
I know it seems like playing hard to get or "games" so to speak is the right thing to do, but I've learned from past experiences (or should I say mistakes) that it isn't at all. If I could take back some of those things I did that I thought were right... I would be so much happier today! Trust me girl... you like him right? Then go! If things turn out differntly after, then it just wasn't meant to be. You'll find someone who's more worth your time.
306299
it'll take a bit of time cos its a betrayal of trust but i would think that thats forgivable. especially cos you do seem real sorry
877081
Call and apologise to her. It sounds like she was lonely but not emotionally ready to mess around. Sorry, but as her friend you should have slowed down. I know she didn't stop you at the time, but she needs you to apologise and act the part of the sensitive male. \nSay that you're sorry that you crossed a line and you didn't mean to take advantage of her in any way. Tell her that when she's ready to give dating you a try, to let you know. Otherwise you'll be there for her as a friend because you like her anyway.\nThis is what women like to hear.
1145033
No, but it might improve if you committed suicide. It's a thought.\n\nSomeone of your special kind of 'intellect' should really come up with better comebacks. You're such a disappointment, but I'm sure you've heard that a lot during your pathetic excuse for a life.
115125
We need more details to help you out here.  The best I can do with what I know about your situation is a general appology.  Be sincere, and don't try to explain your side of it.  If you do, this may come accross as an excuse.  If you are truely sorry for what you did then say so and never say, "I'm sorry but...".  This will make the person think you don't really mean it.  Take full responsibility for your actions and admit what you did was wrong.  Ask them to look down deep in their heart and please forgive you.  Remind them of what your relationship means to you and how important they are to you.  Finish the letter by saying over again, "I really am sorry for hurting you.  I will do what ever it takes to earn your trust and restore our relationship."\n\nGood Luck!
590223
I admit my mistake and am extreamly sorry for my behavior....Would not repeat it again even.....Sorry again ..
251789
Nothing... sorry.  But I bet you could find a new one and an even better one if you picked your lips off the floor and quit 'sounding' desperate.  ;)  Men LOVE to chase....make em work for it ;)
501095
What more can they do to you other than to pity you. You realised you just shot yourself on your foot. I hope you've learnt your lesson- honesty is always the best policy any day any time.
1001165
infact every person is alowed to make mistakes if not, that means you are not human.to start off just be yourself and take the bull by its horns that means take a chance and say that you are sorry if he still declines your pardon dont take it the wrong way.in fact maybe he had wanted to drop you a long time but did not know in which way to do so and from that little mistake he capitalised on it so,the best thing is to start from scratch again the many times you fall down doesnt count its the many of times you get back up to survive and have a happy life is the way to a journey for glory so try to find someone that will accept your love and for who you are even mistakes in a relation will never mind to a guy that loves you dearly.trust
1017877
umm...can you say desperate? lol
25386
Ask SORRY wholeheartedly
857513
Wow, buddy, it sounds like you really did screw up.  That sucks for you.  If you truly want to try and make things work with this woman, slow down.  She's probably really hurt right now, and she doesn't feel like she can trust you.  Start with little things, like a sweet email.  Send her an ecard to apologize.  Show her by your actions how much you regret what happened, because we all know actions speak louder than words.  The biggest thing, though, is to back off if she asks you to.  It may hurt like Hell, but you could earn some of her respect back if you comply with her wishes.  Best of luck in finding your answer.  I hope this helped even a little bit.
772580
i would absolutely say no... no girl is that desperate enough... whoever it happened to should realize that shes a great girl and someone is going to come along that will like her for her and want her for her..  and to not waste her time on this ass.
483150
WELL, FIRST THING YOU CAN DO, IS TO STOP TRYING TO BE SO DESPERATE... IF WE CAN FEEL IT, HE WILL TOO!!!