how to gain a girl's trust?
827816
be a good guy. dont be wishy-washy. be upfront. dont lie. dont be shady. dont cheat. uh...did i say dont lie?
106557
BE YOURSELF...that's the best way you can impress a girl, and if you really like her show her that you respect her...be nice and polite...
1153024
By being honest and stubborn and even if that hasn't worked yet, it will. I'm sure she knows you care for her and wants to be with you, but there are probably tons of reasons why she just can't let herself trust you. Oh and don't ever threaten to leave her unless you really plan on going through with it completely and NOTHING she can say will change that. Especially if that is something that she fears.
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Trust just like respect is not something that is handed to you in a relationship it is earned.  This is your proving ground now, a second chance in a sense, you earn trust by being trust worthy.  Show her you can be trusted and won't lie again unless you want a nose like Pinocchio!  : ^ )
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WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO IS CARE FOR HER TREAT HER AS HUMAN JUST LIKE YOU. IF YOU WIN A GIRL YOU HAVE TO ALWAYS BE THEIR FOR HER AND MUCH MORE NOT ONLY BE ABOUT YOU. MOSTLY DO WHAT YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO DO BUT DONT GO FAST GO AS YOU THINK SHE WANTS TO GO AND DONT SCARE HER. TRUST ME I TELL YOU THIS BECAUSE I AM A GIRL.
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Hey ^_^ Look, getting the girl (the one who has a heart and soul, yeah, you know her, the one without the paper bag to her mouth when her nail breaks), isn't hard, even when you're not the best looking guy out there. Just be courteous, show some chivalry, y'know. Oh, a nice tip,\nget her online, an IM her, tell her she's the only one you can trust with your little secret (being you have a crush on someone close to her). Finally(and I mean finally, like a couple days after she knows the initial secret (girls are curious by nature!!)), after letting her really get to know you, tell she's the girl. ^_~ It worked on me,lol and we've been together for almost a year now
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Write her a well thought-out sweet note or letter.  The pen is mightier than the sword.\n\nThe first step is gathering trust.  Let her know from a distance that you appreciate her, write down your feelings on paper and share them.  That's communication, although protocol isn't clearly defined for love.  The key here is "do not betray that trust".  Be true to anything you say or do.\n\nThe second step is ensuring that she is comfortable with you.  If the response to the written word is favorable, and you've invited her to dinner, etc. then you might try to make 'light' physical contact.  Usually a 'hug' is sufficient for this step.\n\n  If you meet her again later, you might other light physical contact, such as stroking her arm.  If on a second date, you could also try petting her hair, and perhaps running your fingers through it.  If she does not react negatively, then perhaps she may be comfortable with you in her physical 'space'.\n\nBefore you even get to the point where you "fertilize her eggs", consider treating her to all of the physical sensory input she would like.  Ask her along the way whether or not she enjoyed something you had done, whether it was a hug, touch on the neck, running the fingers through the hair, etc. or whether it was something that she didn't notice or enjoy.  Remember that.\n\nThe best way to make love with a girl is to determine the best way she would have love made to her.  Communication is the key.
955098
First of all never ever lie to a girl. Girls (even though they hide it) like when a boy tells them everything straight up without the wild stories like you have a girlfriend...when you actually don't, it just makes you look like a complete loser, because, trust me she probably knows your friends, and someone who knows what you were doing will probably tell her, and as I can tell you don't want her to feel bad or anything. So just be honest, be yourself, and when she will ask you out tell her that she is a great girl (never never say "BUT" it makes a person fell bad) however you are not ready for any relationships right now, or you are busy with all that stuff on you, and you probably won't have time for a girlfriend at the moment, n reassure her, that if you weren't so busy you will be happy to go out with her. REMEMBER DON'T LIE!
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Be yourself if you want her to like YOU.\n\nIf you aren't yourself.... you will never find someone who really likes YOU.\n\nIf you are talking about a specific girl now..... if being yourself doesn't do it with her.... NO PROBLEM.... theres plenty of other people looking for that right person.\n\nDo NOT pretend to be someone you are not.\n\nA relationship will NOT last if you are not honest. Sure you could chat for quite a while, but it will not be real and eventually, you WILL be found out.\n\nAnd from my experience, women tend to frown on lies.
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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Oh, it is frustrating. I am so sorry. :( Well, if she feels that way about you and you are having a difficult time convincing her that you are not a player, as hard as it is, perhaps it is time to think about moving on. If she does not trust you now, why do you want to try to get involved with her \nHOw long have you known her? Have you told her how you feel about her? If you have and she still doesn't trust you, well....you just may have to end up biting the bullet and explaining to her that since she cannot trust you then it is time for you to move on. \n\nSorry to hear that. \nBELIEVE ME YOU DON'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT TRUST YOU. \n\nI had a boyfriend that was like that and he would follow me around everywhere and he was always questioning me as to who i was talking to and how I knew such and such a guy. \n\nOh Yeah, I forgot about that little remark that you made. Ummmmmmm..cool it, :D that may be part of the reason why she thinks you are a player. \n\nGood luck to you.
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if you want to get a girls start sending off signs like looking at her and make sure she knows that you are looking at her. once that happen go up to her and ask her whats her name and when she tells you leave don't ask her anything else. because then you got her wondering about you. after at least two days past go up to her again and then start to talk to her tell her that you have been think about her and that you like her alot then ask her for her number. trust me it work because im a girl
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Do everything that u would want a person do to u, for u to feel their love. Do what ur love tells u to do to/for her, dont hold back, and deff. dont let ego stop u. Look in to her eyes,eyes speak louder than words, girls sense these things. Listen to what she saiz, the lil things matter. Do what no other person will ever do for her. ALL U HAVE TO DO IS ALWAYS SHOW AND SAY HOW MUCH U CARE. Girls need to be reassured all the time. Actions speak louder than words, BUT words are needed also.
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Because by other experiences girls generalize that men are liars... because someone cheated this way, we see a pattern here... just show your girl what you do, take her onece and she will know that you are the exeption to the rule, its not natural, but some women think of you as dogs hunting and she might trust you but not the people you are among of, so let her meet your buddies, and let her know theres nothing to hide she will trust you more because theres information saying how do you feel ok... Be truthfull and this will set you free of explainning yourself everytime you hang out with your friends ok... \nBest of luck!
77706
See my friend,to hav a girlfriend confidence n self esteem is very necessary.trust me buddy a girl likes it wen ur free wit her n u make her feel comfortable with u.......
351421
just be urself... also i think a love of litriture helps... every girl likes to have a peom read to her
452710
be confident in yourself and make her feel cherished and special.  find out what her interests are and learn about them.  remember the small things and offer attention and affection.  girls need to feel this in order to open up to a man.  thank you!