how do i get a woman to do bndage and dose any1 elce like it??
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my wife and i....i make my own stuff with steel and chains...start by just tying her or you to the bed or chair...and go from there....or go to a fetish night at a club to see how they do it....ps...dress in black if you go
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Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
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You really can't make her like you.  And, if she thinks you're trying to, most girls will put you into the "wimp" category.  That's not good.  \n\nWhat works for me with most women is to just be myself, be polite, be a little "cocky" without seeming  arrogant, and be funny (but not silly.)  Don't make it obvious that you're really interested in her.  I'm not that good looking or muscular, but  my friends wonder why I have so many women around all the time.
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be the man of her dreams.\n\nbe new and different every day.\n\nlearn what makes her tick, \nand push that button often.\n\n:-)
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Please do me the favor, look in the mirror and remember that you are a man. You see women like MEN, cool confident and in charge (of themselves and there enviroment). If you think you are going to get rejected then guess what buddy. Look I am not telling you to imagine your self a pimp but trust me self cofidence goes long way. Don't get too cocky, or corny. Invite her for a cup of coffee make her laugh but dont make a fool of your self. O Yeah when at the coffee shop ask her for her email, WHEN she is writing it tell her put her cell phone there to.
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Talk! Tell her that she looks pretty. A compliment does not cost a thing, but ladies love to hear them, even if it's a soft little wolf whistle (don't make a spectacle out of it). Ask her what she wants to do, and if it's a chick flick, go and try not to fall asleep.  Take her on a picnic to a pretty place that you know of near your home.  \n\nBefore you leave her, (make sure your breath is good for this one) lean close to her ear, and whisper softly, "I can't wait until I see you later."  I don't know about all women but I have heard a LOT of women say they love it when their man whispers sweet things in their ear.  Slip little love notes into her purse when she is not looking or bring her a flower once in awhile. \n\nGood luck, have fun and be creative!
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I think that the best way to approach a woman is to do something nice by her a drink be confident about it though whatever sounds good to you but don't be too cocky about it. Some girls hate that. If that doesn't work I don't know what else to say.
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A woman should be "led" and it will happen naturally. Change the way you view trying to get the "extra bit". Slow down a little, add some mystery to it....tease her to a point and back off, if you give yourself to a woman and try to "get it", it isnt a challenge, women are asked to have sex every day of their lives, they meet guys who want to give it to them daily. It makes them want it a little more if you go to their level and get emotional. Woman think with their emotions and heart, men think with their penis, try to see it from their point of view and you have a better chance of sharing the experience of love making with them.
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Just keep telling her that you love her, show her that you are attracted to her.  Women are very self-critical.
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U can build up to it.Like get to know her first, and compliment her, or listen to what she has to say like help her out with certain things.
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i love it, personally, but a guys technique has to be good, otherwise i get turned off...\nnow, all girls are different- so what you should do is ask her what she likes the most. maybe she likes u to change movements, or maybe she prefers one constant movement- the only way to find out is to ask!!!\nofcourse there are always signs - listen to sounds she makes, and pay attention to her movements because they can be subtle ways of telling u to do something more or to stop doing something... \ngood luck
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WHY CAN'T YOU BE PATIENT? GO AND MASTURBATE. SHE WILL LET YOU KNOW WHEN SHE IS READY. WHEN YOU ARE PUSHING THE ISSUE SHE WILL WANT YOU MORE. IF YOU ACT LIKE YOU DON'T WANT IT SHE WILL BE THROWING IT TO YOU.
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Give her a call back man.  She'll be more than happy to hear back from you.  If she doesn't pick up the phone leave a brief message letting her know you got her call.  As for your first date...Don't lean towards her and instead lean back.  When you lean forwards you send her the 'needy' signal.  In general, you want to use your sense of humor and entertain her while flirting like hell.  During the course of the date do NOT touch her at all.  Let her be the first one to touch you.  When she does finally touch you that shows a sign of interest.  Another sign of interest to look out for...put your arms in an unordinary way on the table.  Watch her body language and if she responds by putting her arms in the exact same way that is an unconcious signal of interest.  She is showing you that she's in sync with you by doing so.  Another sign of interest is dialated pupils, unless of course, you're in a dark room because they'll be dialated anyway.  As for where to take her, do something simple.  Do NOT blow tons of cash on her or buy her roses or chocolates.  The best thing you can do is take her for a nature walk or out for a cup of coffee (depending on your age).  NEVER ask a woman where she would like to be taken.  Women hate to make these decisions and wil appreciate you being the "man with the plan."  Spend as little money as possible and use your personality to make her want you.  In general, the less you try the more success you have.  And finally, be chivalrous at all times.  Open every single door, help push in her chair, and at the end of the night, walk her to the door.  Women appreciate a man that is looking over them.  Despite what may seem lame to men, women absolutely love this.
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Don't try to force anything. If it's meant to be it won't be so hard.  Go with the flow of the relationship and listen to her when she says no. Lots of us men don't realize that when a woman says no she means it. Don't be posessive, be kind to her and see how it goes.
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Comfortably get her to watch porn movies that are for newbies.  Then you try new things with her and get her to feel comfortable with her body enough to try new things with you. You know her background, so be patient and slowly introduce to the life she has never known. She needs to feel sexy enough about herself to let out the kinky in her.  Buy her lingerie, sexy massage fruit oils.  Tell her you want to try new things and experiment with her in the heat of the moment.  Sometime a little loss of inhibition does a woman well.  Don't get her drunk..just where she feels sexy enough to try what you want.
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tell her how you feal
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I worked at a gym for a little while in VA and based on what I heard from the women that I instructed... NO.  But that isn't true with every girl either.  Use your head, if you are working out and you make eye contact with her she will take the moment to express interest if there is some.  If you are working out and she places herself in your vacinity or in your direct view, try the above.  If you go somewhere (the pool, the store, the tread mills) and you then suddenly bump into her stike a small, non cheesy conversation deviod of pickup lines and if she is interested she will let you know if you are paying attention.  Most guys do not understand when and how a woman is making her interest known.  if you feel clueless when it comes to woman then try doubleyourdating.com very good ebook.  Not endorsing per se, I read it and it helped me meet my wife the most wonderful woman every.  confident, hot, and now having my baby.\nAny way most often women go to the gym to work out.  If she is wearing headphones then the likely hood of not wanting to be hit on or bothered just went up about 98%\ngood luck