what do you do if you think a close friend read your diary?
823455
She sounds like a sneak and a lier . I would \nend the friendship with her , or at \nleast put her to a test to see\nif she is willing to change\nher really bad behevior.
706000
It's never a bad thing to keep a journal and write.  If your not planning on publishing it or sharing it with anyone other than your friend then I'm all for it.  I found a list that my ex had once of all the girls he had been with and he had "hot" written beside my name and nothing beside the other girls...it actually made me feel really good...so go for it....just don't let it get into the wrong hands, especially of anyone who is prone to spreading rumors.
193270
i think so...  a couple of my friends had to read her diary for school...  Can I get back to you on that one?
634378
I would say what comes from the heart not from the written page.  It is more meaningful and sincere.  Your friend will be there with you in spirit as well.
738791
the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.
66061
The only sort of diary I keep is my blog, but a good friend of mine is constantly writing in a journal. We both find it very relaxing and fun.\n\nMine obviously is open for everyone. Her's can hold her more secret moments.
923522
OK, lets look at your question...  "while I was housesitting this week I accidentally ran across undeniable evidence that he has a boyfriend".\n\nNo, you did not "accidentally" run across "evidence", you were being nosy. To justify you being nosy you then turn around and say "he's been LYING to me over and over for months and months". If you feel so hurt and angry, how do you think he will feel when he finds out about what you have done while housesitting? Yes, you should confront him...  about you being judgmental and not being the true friend that you have pretended to be to him.
584506
I have always been the type of person who wants to know.  Most people on the other hand live with the rule that ignorance is bliss.  Do you know what kind of person your friend is ? But chances are if you tell you will loose both friends and they will work it out and continue their relationship.  What you can do perhaps is make it so that they will stumble upon it themselves somehow.  This way you did your part and you dont have to loose any friends.
331136
sounds like you either want your friend to tell you something important or you want your friend to have lukemia.\n\nalso\n\nit might be that you want your friend to divulge personal information to you, like you want her to see you as a friend that she could confie and trust in...dreams are tricky.\n\nyou might be concerned that your friend might be sick or something\n\nlots of possibilities. ask your friend..she might be able to help.
246012
If she has seen the evidence and still refuses to believe the facts, then there is nothing else you can do. If you keep pushing the subject she could get angry with you and you could lose a friend. And keep in mind that it IS possible you and other friends have misread his actions. But if in the end, she realizes what has happened, just be sure to comfort her and avoid telling her, "I told you so."
749079
if i got a love letter, then i would think about it all the time, but i would try to hide it. send him another one but this time give some random clues about who it is, but make it mysterious. by the way, i think wat u guys r doin is hilarious.
723483
Good luck.\n\nIt's what they do, they talk about all the stuff that you thought was personal and private to all of their friends for no good reason.
183984
Since you wrote the love notes, I think it's best that you give them to her and let her read them. We all feel a certain inspiration when writing and sometimes there are things we feel we can express only through writing. Your first instinct was to write her not talk her.  So I believe you should stick to your original plan.  Unless of course you strongly feel otherwise.
140466
i would talk to her about the situation and see why she has changed.  you can't ignore it, especially if you guys were the bestest of friends.  i mean i would want to know if my friend didn't want to hang out with me anymore, i think i would deserve some sort of explanation.
36338
If you're SURE, then absolutely!  Your friend may be in denial for awhile, may not want to hear it, but if you're a true friend you have a responsibility to be honest and truthful.  In the long run your friend is going to be glad you didn't let this go on any longer.
795948
mm..no i dont keep a diary . ....that is a point that has been brought up when famous writers have died tho......personally i once read my sisters diary (on accident of course lol) and i wish i never had...there were things that i never wanted to know about her in there!...so i dont think ppl should be allowed to read others diaries
994038
This is what i do.. I call a friend up and tell her to call me later on in the day and ask me what i got done that day and i would do the same for her,  somehow it works, i guess because i don't want to tell her i did nothing .  Try it