Bit curious. Which hurts more, birth or anal sex? I haven't tried either yet!?
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Try anal first sweetie, its less painful and if done correctly not painful at all and very enjoyable, not to mention a hell of a lot cheaper than kids.\n\nBirth pain is extremely painful, but its not like some pain, its a pain you know is going to stop once baby is out, and its about the only pain I know of where you have something wonderful at the end of it.
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It's not that bad once u get used to it. If u don't use anything then once it goes in it will hurt for just a second. After that it is great. Tell your b/f to go buy anal ease or Adam and eve. @ the adult store. This will numb the butt so it will not hurt. (Sorry I work in an adult store)
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The physical part of the pain is a burning pressure feeling deep inside your vagina.  The emotional pain far outways the physical aspect... Is he going to tell everyone?  Will we be together forever?  Is he just after P****?  What will tomorrow be like with him?  What if everyone finds out I had sex and now they think I am a sl**?
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Do you mean the labour and delivery part?\nIt is the most emotionally intense moment in a woman's life.  It feels amazing.  If you don't use pain killers or if you don't get an epideral, you will be thankful you didn't.  My first pregnancy I had pain killers and an epideral, but the second one I wanted to do without(not to mention there wasn't time).  Imagine feeling every emotion possible all at the same time...happininess because you are having your baby, relief ot getting the baby out after 9 long months, sadness directly after, because you are no longer a member of the "secret society" of pregnant women, elation because finally you get to hold the baby, frustration because it is taking too long, which leads to anger because its taking too long.  I'm not going to say it isn't painful, but  a woman's body produces endorphins while giving birth.  It's kind of a "floating on cloud nine" feeling.  You are there, but you aren't.  It is a very special and unique experience that men cannot have,no matter how hard they try.
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you should really ask your mom on this. i dont think my first time was normal....i didnt bleed and it didnt hurt.  it was wasnt until later that my "cherry" was popped.  my first was not below average in size, he just didnt hit the right spot to pop it...lol.  but you really should be talkin to your mom about this...you seem to be at that curious stage which probably means you are thinking of having sex....please talk to your mom before you do...i wish i had
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It all depends- if you have any type of childbirth education, and even a doula at your birth, then it can be as painless as possible.  Many women experience horrendous pain, because they do not trust there bodies to do what comes naturally.  There are many natural ways to cope with the pain including massage, using a birth ball, showering, walking, hypnobirthing, etc etc  Education is the key to having a birth as pain free and possible, and a birth that happens the way that you want it to.
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Since neither men nor women can endure the other's pain, I am not sure why this debate always comes up.  To women I can say this - it is a pain unlike any other that other body parts feel.  So you can't imagine it.  To men I say we don't have the necessary equipment, so we can't imagine it.  Let's just agree that the pain from both sucks real bad.  \nAnother way to look at it - sure childbirthing definitely takes more out of you in terms of the length of time.  But at least there is something beautiful and miraculous about childbirth.  You can't say that about a kick in the nuts.
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The first time can hurt- especially if you are feeling tense, because the vagina is a muscle.  It's important to feel relaxed.  My first time really didn't hurt at all.  Sex feels good.  We are lucky to be a species that can enjoy sex for pleasure and not soley for means of procreating.
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Can you explain a little more? What kind of "hurt" are you talking about? Is it self-inflicted? Is it dangerous? \nI am somewhat of a masochist and what other people consider pain, I consider pleasure...but I always make sure that my partners are aware of what I can and cannot handle. If you think it's more than this, please talk to someone who you think can help, preferrably offline. If you do want to elaborate, people here can be of more help.=)
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do i get points for this? b/c it might shock you. lol. anal sex. although i love vaginal (normal) sex and of course oral...anal sex is freaking amazing. lol. now i'm waiting until im married though...so hopefully that'll be soon. hehe.
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two words... anal sex
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you should be more specific about what you want to know.\nsex is fun, and good excercise, and an all around good thing! the first time can hurt, usually does, it can also be scarry! its something new for you to experience. just relax and let whatever happens happen. its a natural thing, and is not something to be ashamed of.\nyou might try looking it up in the dictionary or googling it!as to get more information.\ncongrats on your marriage!
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There is a cream called Emla cream. But that's cheating! The pain is part of the experience. Don't be a wuss.
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Anal sex can be wonderful..or horrible, depending on you and your partner.\n\nIf you plan to penetrate, have your partner spend lots of time getting you used to it first--I'm talking licking, tonguing, touching, fingering...You should be comfortable with 2 fingers inside before you try to put a penis or anything larger inside it.\n\nOne of the best suggestions I can give...oral sex in the vaginal area until you're almost at the point of orgasm, and then slip something very lubed--fingertip or something of the sort, just inside the anus while there is direct clit contact.  It will send you over the edge in a very good way, but remember not to force it.\n\nPlenty of lube is also a plus.  Astroglide is just about the best around and won't destroy a condom.  Plus it's not water-based, so it's not going to disappear in the middle of sex--it stays for as long as you're still doing it.
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.... hahaha .... ok that was funny ... blue vagina !\n\nSorry I had to laugh ... It's almost time for me to go home from work and I get a little antsy ... !\n\nI'm not sure what would cause her "thing" to hurt like that .. maybe she was just soar from her "thing" being enlarged, swollen & wet  ( which happens with the right amount of foreplay )
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actually there is anal sex is very risky there is a higher chance protection might break, and one more thing remember in the anal area you have very delicate membranes, when you rub them , or even if you use lube those membranes can rupture and dispense blood which hurts a lot more plus your anal area will hurt for days and you can sometimes loose sensation down there.
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childbirth, forced penetration or penetration when there isn't lubrication (natural or otherwise)...umm...can't think of anything else. Hope it helps.