What would you do? Please help!!?
820544
Sweetheart listen, \nI was in a relationship for thirteen years with someone that 25 years later still makes me weak in my knees and I let my family screw it up, but now I am married with 2 great kids and we live hundreds of miles away. My ex-lover and I still talk and I can not tell you how bad it hurts not to be held by her at night and the guilt I have for actually loving two different people so much and for different reasons. My mom would say "you are not gay" and I believe that you can't help with which person you fall in love with, and sweetie here is the deal if you are in love I mean really, really in love then love this person regardless. I know how hard it is to not fit into society but take it from an old broad love who YOU are and love the one you are with.
415717
I would leave him. I would leave him and file for child support if we had kids, I would leave him and take half of his stuff if we didn't have kids. Let someone else deal with his cheating behind. Especially with a baby involved, he will have to deal with the woman he cheated on me with on a regular basis. I could not trust him to do that.
556851
Oh sweety, told you told you told you?? You can't believe all this. You should have told him from the second he said he was leaving "ok, i'll be here for you once you get everything sorted out." He might leave his wife, but my gut like urs is saying he's a lier and he's not planning on leaving his wife. When the week is up, his time is up too.
638381
What kind of help?  Can you be a little more vague, please.  LoL..
619747
Me and my friend could use some advice!!Send me a mssge.pliz!!
1160542
If you feel like you REALLY should leave, I say go. Unless you want to go through the hassle of counseling and such (which some men will not even consider). I dont know how I would just do whatever is in your best interest.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
120634
there is more going on there than you think if it stays this way for while you need to let it go. because if he really wanted you and loves you he wouldnt be treating you like that. i would try to give your best shot and if nothing works i would leave and try to start your life over. if by chance your leaving scares him silly and he changes his ways then i would search your heart and see if you really want him back.
80184
If you had to ask the question. Then I think you already see or feel there is no solution to your problem. Go ahead do it--- go talk with someone. Can't hurt, everyone needs someone to listen sometime. Good luck and GOD BLESS.
224132
I would say to leave him to himself. If not completely, atleast for alittle while. I was raised to treat a woman like the princess that she is. I'm not saying that he should do exactly everything perfectly, but if I loved someone, I would want to spend time with them, i would go out of my way to see them and i would show as much affection as i could.\nLastly no one should ever put you down, I mean no one, especially someone who says they love you...
938922
Gently tell her what you told us.  You should not be forced to do what you're not ready for.  It's not like you're ruling it out - you're just not ready.
899311
I would just explain to him that there is no where for the relationship to go. You don't want him anymore and that he has to let you go because it is not fair on either of you if he doesn't!
164358
talk to my neigbour and discuss what should we do about this situation
450065
Then you have two choices.\n\n1. Be quiet and let him make every decision for a while. He will either step up or not.\n\n2. Leave him for a man who will tell you what to do.
619488
how can i help you???
599805
omg...what i would do!!
383659
do what you think you should do\n\ngood luck :)