Is she trying to get back wit me....or is she just here? i need help!!!?
821901
Hate to break it to you but you are an "after thought" to her....She came over cause she was "bored."  You are too special to be a replacement for whatever she has lost.  She lost you before, heck she walked away. You need to do the same.  I know from life that girls like that DON'T want guys that are always there.  They just use them.  Sorry for the tough answer but I am answering as if I was talking to my son, which I have done and he is now 23.
862615
I would say to you if she is being like that, then you should just take a step back and let her come to you!!\n\nIf she is sick, then the least she can do is let you know, I think she is trying to tell you something, either she is trying to break up with you or she is playing hard to get.  She is probably testing you.\n\n\nIf I was you, I would take a step back and let her think about what she is doing. If she really loves you she will be back, if not then its time for you to move on with your life.\n\nReally I dont think you deserve the way she is treating you, you could do better. ( this is assuming you haven't done anything wrong, obviously). If she is just messing you about then you really  need to thin about if you want to be with someone who treats you how she has done, you dont need that.\n\nWhatever happens, Good luckx
294835
that's mean she's not interestd with you, she keep saying 'give me time' because she don't want to hurt your feeling.but don't give up pal,keep tryin.!wish you luck
966054
Some questions to ponder: Is she already involved with someone else? Was it totally her idea to hang out today, or did you make a suggestion first? How long did you see each other when you ran into her at first? Hmmm. I say wait a week and give it one more try. There are numerous possiblitlies, and hard to second guess. She may have actually had some situation arise, needing to be somewhere else, or she simply wanted options and was leaving herself something to do in case whatever did not happen.....It is really impossible to know, if you are interested don't contact her for a week see if she calls you if not call. If it all goes the same way again - forget it.
1072259
Seems she still seeing if you are the right one.  She probably needs a little more time away from you to sort things out.  You should be content with the fact that she still cares for now.
1108505
She loves the power she has over you.  \nShe may also be going through some very difficult emotions right now and she dosn't know what she wants.  Give her what she needs, you'll not only help her out  but you'll also feel better about yourself.  Just don't get your feeling envolved.  \nGood Luck.
761191
It's not over until it's over.  She clearly just needs her space, and you've given it to her.  Kudos to you!  It would probably not be out of line to give her an occasional call to see how she is.  She will hopefully come around when she sees how nice and supportive you are.
476159
She's a little intrigued now that you're not chasing her anymore... keep it up buddy, make her throw herself at you from now on - she will luv you for keeping it that way !
830605
my ex is trying to win me back.....  i say give her space.\n A girl wants time to think about what she really wants. \ndon't bug her.. send some flowers and a letter and let her know exactly how you feel and let her decide .
224238
She is changing, it has nothing to do with you. I know it hurts for her to just move on without giving you any reason for leaving... now is the time to concentrate on your needs and finding things to enjoy on your own! You'll meet new people and make lots of friends!\nLet her make her back to you, if she contacts you, be polite but not TOO friendly! If she thinks she doesn't have to put any effort into the friendship- she won't. She needs to work for your time as much as you have worked for hers. Right now she's putting that energy into other people, and they probably are enjoying her efforts. \nLet this time be of good use to you, it may be lonely at times, but you have us here at Answers, and there's a big world out there to explore.\nBe brave dear, and let her go for the moment.\n\nBest wishes! - J
303041
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
1115923
Dude, I am sorry. It sounds like she is just like me. I have put my boyfriend through serious heartache because dumb me doesn't know what I want. You really need to move on and when she's ready, she'll quit playing her games and come back to you or find out that you're not the one. She's young and she's still trying to find out who she is, like me, and she's keeping you on the back burner to make sure you're worth holding on to. If you just back off and get on with your life, things will fall into place. But still love her and pray for her, but go out and have fun!!!
212180
If you want her back, apologize and promise to be good, and keep that promise. Otherwise, get out in the world and start dating again. You'll find someone new to care for.
502219
Have you called her to ask and make sure she isn't mad at you for some reason?  If she isn't, then maybe she has found a boyfriend, or another girlfriend, or maybe she is just kind of depressed.  People go through this kind of thing every once in a while.  Just give her some space, and if she really truly was a good friend, she'll come back after a while.
372326
Right now you don't need to worry about her or getting her back into your life.  Focus on yourself and your drug use.  Stay off the drugs and things will work out the way they are supposed to work out (not necessarily the way you want them to).
531789
wow-- u sould like a great guy, i wish i had a guy like you. I think she cant believe what she has. Maybe she is taking a break to find out what she has is true. Dont ignor her, just give her time. dont call her, dont do anything. wait for her to gather her thoughts. and she will come back, she will realize what she has. Did she say y she broke up with you? I know its hard, and we have all gone through it, just give her time... time heals. dont call her.
952907
she is using you as someone to get her mind off of her break up with her boyfriend. I wouldnt get my hopes up just yeah. whoa....back boy!