What's your advice? Should I be with him or remain friends. If we remain friends how do i go back 2 that?
824687
sounds like he knows what he is doing..  He is a big player if one second your kissing and before you know it you are thinking of losing your virginity to him.
555592
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
559023
I think you're going to have to let this guy call the shots unfortunately. The person who did the breaking up is the person who really has to decide whether or not they see something they didn't see before or just want to give it another try. If you really want to be with him then you might want to bring the subject up in a serious way and let him know that no matter what he says or feels it doesn't have to change anything between you. You could just say something like "You know we've been friends so long and really still get along so well, I've thought about whether we should try again. What do you think?" If he says he's not interested then just back off and continue the friendship. It's more important to keep that in tact especially since you have been friends this long.
449837
option 3. he wasn't much of a friend before, and now that you have relationship baggage and nothing strong platonically to bind you from before, there is no friendship to revive here. too much complication and effort on your part. let him go and make different friends, see different guys, be free!!
479146
jus..b d same as u r right now....but try...2 hav much closer relationship..wid him... make urself nd dat guy very much comfortable..wen u hav each others company...enjoy... his company... nd plz... dont go 2 deep into dis...u neve knw...he may dump u any time..but let ur friendship go on...
1119462
I think you should just be a friend for now and be there for him and it maybe hard because you like him.but as friends you guys will get to know each other and just maybe you will become more then friends..maybe not what you want to hear.
474511
Why not be friends and see how things develop?  If you two agreed to break up, why are you asking the question now?  Sit down and talk.
82691
Yeah, he's worth being friends with. Put yourself in his shoes - who would you pay more attention to, her or him? I'm assuming you're a guy here.
266219
Tell him exactly what you are feeling.\nTell him you would like to still be friends but have concerns.\nTell him why you are concerned & explain quite simply that this can not continue to happen.\nTell him how it makes you feel and how you would NEVER do that to him...\nAfter saying this, listen to his reaction & proceed however you think is best.\nMy guess is things will change for the better, but this is up to you to decide. (If he really was a good friend, give him a chance to redeem himself and make things good again.)
357599
The best thing you can do is be honest. tell him that he's a really good guy but not your type. Say ''is it OK if we can still be friends''? If he Say's no just say you understand and move on. It's not like it's the end of the world or anything.
600681
If you guys still have a friendship then go for it. Just hang out with him and see what happens, that is what I plan on doing with mine too.
715966
Determine if he likes you...sometimes when something like this occurs then it doesn't work, it's just too weird in the end....it's hard to go back being just friends.
379851
Depends on how you feel.  If you decide and wait then you could miss out but if you go forward with taking your friendship to the next level, there are going to be things that are different.  First off, you need to analyze the entire situation.  Sometimes being in a certain relationship is best for the two that are involved.  My advise for you is to continue to keep your relationship going, be open about how you feel with him and yourself.
853971
be friends first ! IF you find out he is not worth the effort then friendship is easier to end than something more.
307466
What kind of a friend are you really? You say you are really good friends with him, but you want to destroy his relationship with someone he loves for your own personal gain?\n\nYou need to show some respect for yourself, and your guy friend, or he won't be liking you even as a friend.
739730
just tell him that you really liked him and that you would want to keep in touch with him.  is he coming back?  just wait and keep in touch with him.  as time goes by your hearts will began to grow fonder of one another and if it is meant to be it will happen.  as for now if you just want to get some lovin, I would say don't do that because it will ruin everything even the friendship.  just call him once a week or bi-weekly when he leaves and make sure the conversations are good.  Also every now and then just say that you met this guy and you went to a movie or something to make him a little jealous but when you do this make sure he knows that you two are just friends but don't over do the friend part.  you know what to do.  or that's an idea take him to a dinner and a movie for a going away gift and just when he thinks he's going to get some be strong and leave!!!!
1129987
Well, first of all I think that you should follow your heart but being friends can develop whatever it is that you had in a relationship. Sometimes they are right when they say if you love something so much you have to let it go but if it was meant to be it will come right back and this is one of those instances. So be patient and be a good Friend and you never know but don't put all your eggs in one basket, meaning if it's not meant to be , be prepared to move on and you should anyway. He is young and he want to be single for a while and I must say I have to respect him because he could have done what the typical man do and cheat.