what do u  do  when  your best friends ex boyfriend   flirts with u?
821055
Flirt back.  It doesn't mean you have to go out with him.  Besides, once she moves on to her next boyfriend you might want to date him. So don't be one way or the other, just be nice and friendly, flirt a little but don't be too encouraging. It is fun to flirt without having to worry about it going anywhere.
450200
It is not un common for a guy to flirt with an ex girlfriend of his. If he has treated you badly and is still being a real gerk that my answer to your question would be to move on and find someone new although it might hurt and you will probably still think about him occasionally, it will all work out for the best. If you want to talk more you can email me at adorablegrl1986@yahoo.com                                                       Sincerely                                                                adorablegrl1986
1102523
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!
69156
were you actually with the guy? did your friend know you liked him? has your friend also known him for a while? these are important things to think about. if your best friend steals your boyfriend, neither are exactly worth your time, sorry, it hurts. If your friend knew you liked him, did she at least warn you she liked him? if she warned you, the punishment inflicted should be less severe, she still cares about you. If you were totally unaware, but she knew, then you probably want to yell scream and hit, once that is out of your system if you can trust her again, then try to keep the friend. If she didn't know then you really can't blame her for anything, but you would fit the first scenario if you tried to steal him from her...
598708
I haven't been in EXACTLY the same situation, but I'll give you the benefit of my advice, anyway! \n\nFirst, don't do anything until he breaks up with his current girlfriend. That might mean you have to wait a bit, but it's the right thing to do- and besides, you'll put the guy in a bit of a tight situation if you say anything now! (And his girlfriend won't exactly love you for it...) So, wait til they break up. I know it's tough, but wait! \n\nAnd THEN, go for it! Don't worry about it ruining your friendship, because it sounds like you two really are best friends, and a friendship that strong, isn't going to be hurt by something like this. Tell him how you feel. \n\nThe best relationships are between people who start out as best friends- I know, from personal experience!\n\nGood luck!
609148
Well, I hope you're not friends with your best friend anymore because that's not what I call a true friend. She told you she would never go out with your ex because she loved you like a sister, but that's not the case. You should have never dated your ex-boyfriend's best friend either. If you like other guys such as your ex's best friend than you're not in love. You may really like your ex, but there are other guys out there. Your ex is not worth it. Not only is your friend doing you wrong he is to by being with her.
428512
First and foremost, take things at face value. Believe none of what you hear and all that you see.\n\nApart from the flirting has he said or done anything to lead you to believe that he's still interested in you?\n\nWhat are the chances for friendship between you two? Could it be that, because you didn't have a 'knock-down, drag-out' break-up he still feels comfortable enough with you to pretend flirt -and isn't really making any moves? Have you ever asked yourself or thought that he might be playing games?\n\nRemember that in situations like this you are in the middle of an epic battle between your brain and your heart (and other parts, too, I'm sure). Question is, what part do you listen to? That's for you to find out. That's part of the adventure of life.
699096
O god you poor thing this happened to me and the only thing i could do was try and get over him. If your friend likes him and he likes her chances are they goin to get together so you have to decide if you can support them and be happy for them and if not you should tell your best friend how you feel and see what she says.if she nos that if they got together it would hurt you she probably stay away from him. there are loads of lads out there who will love you back so try not to beat yourself up bout it
714246
Pull out the knife and move on.  Best friends don't stab you in the back..... so perhaps the friendship was one-sided.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
330939
oh you like him, or at best the attention he is giving you and want to justify the fact that he is your ex boyfriends mate, well it is not a moral issue really ,if you fancy him and he makes a move tell him how you feel as regards his mate,being your ex and go with your heart.\n\nGigi
877998
Well.. I would say that she isn't your best friend.  I have had the same problem.  My so called best friend loves a guy that i have loved for ever.  She went behind my back and asked him out without telling  me.  Then i realized that she wasn't my best friend.  Oh yeah.  Talk to her about it.  If she is all cocky and like let me love him shit. Then just flirt with him more to get her mad.
1172042
well i think that the guy likes you but doenst want your ex to know he likes you i guess he dont want his friend ship with the guy to end over a girl and if i was you i woulndt talk to the guy after he tryed you the first time an because they will label you for messing with your boyfriends home boy
675332
well i kinda had the same problem... i always say keep ur friends close but keep ur ex's even closer... he shld know ur x is ur friend and that he shldnt control who u hang with or who u talk to.. tell him that ..
299799
Stay away.  You dumped him, she took him.  Respect your friend, your boyfriend, and yourself.
1073064
You should find a guy who will like you back.  This guy is either flirting with your friends because he's not interested in you like that, or because he knows you like him and wants to make you jealous.  Either way, you deserve someone who will take a genuine interest in you.
162081
Little confused with question but I "think" i got it.\n\nYou have the hots for your ex-boyfriends's best friend. But the bugger isn't calling you, even though you have told him you are interested.\n\nAssuming I got it right ... here goes....\n\nGoing out with your best friend's Ex-girlfriend is ALWAYS a bad idea..... I can't imagine too many "friends" who would do that easily.\n\nI am also a little troubled that YOU would try to jump the fence and hook up with your ex-bf's best bud..... what if your ex didnt like the idea of his friend going out with you? You would be causing friction between two friends and in my book .... thats totally UNKOOL.\n\nAnd last choice is that NO he is not interested in you.\n\nI highly advice that you bat your eyelashes towards someone else..... there's no way that these two guys are the only two guys in your whole world...... find someone else who isn't directly connected to ur ex.\n\nOf course if you do hook up with your ex's best friend, I am sure we will see a new question one day:\n  \n"I still have feelings for my Ex... but I'm involved with his best friend... what should I do?"
155353
thay may just be trying to keep your feeling from being hert  after all he is a ex tell your friend how you feel about it all .the good times you had and the bad thing .and then move on