Desperate Relationship Help Needed By Girls... I Mean Girls Please Answer...?
820388
Some of the people who answered obviously didn't know you are 15 and short of cash!  You said it's your 'anniversary' but which one?  Month?  Three months?  Six months? Year? If it's a year, I think you should do something special.  If you can't afford a dinner out, can you go to a market, get some chicken and salad, and go for a picnic? \n\nI would give her a small gift, something she can treasure for a long time.  I like butterflies so I have lots of them in all shapes and sizes and I appreciate people who add to my collection.  Does she like something too?  Unicorns? Ladybugs? etc. Or you could start a collection for her.  Tell her that she reminds you of a .........  and give her a little ..........  (butterfly, ladybug, angel, etc.) \n\nDoes she like fancy chocolates?  They can be very expensive but sometimes you can buy just one or two. (hedgehogs, for instance). And balloons are usually a big hit!  Maybe you can find a lovely card too. (or make one) Remember to tell her that she is very special to you......  :o)
1175163
work through it with a girl...make sure she knows before you start dating and everything, but if she wants you she'll take on the challenge! ask for it to be as open and stress free as possible, and take it step by step...goodluck!
156100
Lol this is difucult situation.Maybe that girl is not grown up enough to be with you or with someone normal who is not tolerating that "b i t c h" kinda behaviour.\nU should try someone else or if u inlove with her very much try to make thingz like she does.Go and hang with other girls and maybe she will think twice for the thingz she does!\nIf u cannot do that then try to talk with her and force her to explain to you what is happening between both of you!Tell her to be honest and not to lie
521884
Stop saying your life sucks for one, girls have enough emotional torment, they don't want to deal with yours. Stop building up this great and wonderful thing... its unlikly to happen any way you've imagined it. Just relax and let everything come in its own time. Just be you and have no expectations.
323525
showing a girl u care works talk to here listen to here be there for her .. u know if u love someone if u think about them alot u would do anything for them there are so many more things and if u think u are feeling that then u need to ake sure she knows that if u get my meaning lol email me or add me on im we can continue this have fun and good luck:pinkfeverpink@yahoo.co.uk
797026
I would say you are stressed about the situation - something similar happened to me many years ago. Try to start thinking about your own needs, rather than the situation with the girl you like.
799380
Nope, don't give up. Maybe, she is just "scare" about being with you.\nTry harder.
127750
Hey Miss2good4me,\nI am really very thankful to u for showing so much concern.And Actually i think u r right 'bout me that i am desperate for a Girl....but u can say i am rather confused.coz i think i am really in love and i don't wanna go for anyone else,but i feel really lonely when i see others.I've already missed many opportunities and girls coz i didnt hav the courage to go up to anyone.I was thinkin maybe you wud me the one for me(Atleast online) so that i wud get to know a lill more 'bout  girls(If u dont mind ie).Here's my ID just in case:karan_wagh2001@yahoo.co.in\n\nbye\nPs:i don't think the Gay guys wud turn straight.(waitin 4 ur reply)
1133185
Your question worries me because I think you have some serious psycological issues.There is clearly something missing in your life and any girl will not make it better, even if one does, it would mean that you are forever dependent on her. You need to start accessind what makes you lonely and is it peer pressure that makes you want a girlfriend or what? Come on you are better than that! I have faith in you!
816355
Well, I've had that problem before and its not fun. Just take a chance at the relationship but don't promise anything, you never know where life will take you. Tell her you cant promise her anything, but just taken a chance. It could be the best thing you ever do.
330803
im in the same situation.. because of my past.. im afraid to get too attatched just to get hurt AGAIN... but honestly.. .if you like this girl alot.. and you're willing to wait to see where it may go, go for it! BUT LIKE SHE SAID.. if what you truly want is to walk away.. do what you gotta do... everyone goes through hard times.. but in the end.. she is probably more concerned with you being happy than anything else!
803201
If you really like this girl, just be cool. Don't act like your desperate. Try not be too interested in her right now; if she likes you (and that's important too), then she will respond eventually. In the mean time, try looking at another girl. Who knows...You might end up with two at the same time. That's when you come back here and ask another question about that. Got it?
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
84125
What are you doing wrong?\n\nYou're not letting her go, that's what :)\n\nLet her go, move on with your life. You will end up much happier than if you keep beating your head against the wall with this girl. It may not seem like it now, however it's truth.
352840
Gosh NO!  How desperate are you?\n\nYes she can get bored & tired of it.  If she says no, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or she's scared of losing you if she sets boundaries, or she's just really immature/insecure.\n\nDoes she never pursue you?  HOW BORING!  Do you not want your girl to show initiative/attraction to you?  Do you only ever want her for sex? Does it not bother you that she doesn't get a chance to show that she wants you because you keep hogging all the attraction communication?  If I were her, I would put you on ice for a month (refuse privileges) until you could see me as a person, not just a humping machine (unless of course I just dumped you right away), and so I could have a chance at the flirting fun too.  \n\nAre you 18?  If not, you should be able to control yourself for at least 48 hours, gee.  \n\n"Please please can I have sex?"  "Oh sure."\nThat's what it sounds like you do twice a day from your question.  D E S P E R A T E men don't keep their women long.\n\nNow, having said all that, you have not given sufficient information to answer your question without assuming the worst possible scenario.  So considering your "every chance" might be once a week if you don't see her much, you might then just want to make sure you communicate that you value her as a person, and if she knows how important sex is to you, she will indicate it through inviting you inside, or    initiating a kiss, or whatever, you should NOT have to beg or ask continually.  Just kiss her, treat her like you want her to feel like the amazing woman she is, and if she is open for more, you will feel it in her body language and you can move in.  Stop asking like a begging dog.
701619
tell him.it will relieve you psychologically.remember though that men lose respect for women who act desperate and cannot let go.you must not show him that so desperate otherwise you will be repulsive.sometimes moving on is against all odds is the best option.good luck to you.
548159
yea man.  i can help you out.  pretend you dont care.  if you want a girl just pretend you dont like her, and she'll come crawling back.  never failed.  girls dont you dare get pissed at me either.  you know its true!