am i paranoid?...or is he cheatin on me :(?
823311
guys will be guys - I don't think you could say guys cheat ( that is what they do ) , but i think you could say that women cheat , because they should not do that - so it is cheating   --- I hope this helps you - email me if I didn't make myself clear
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
852813
Have you been cheatin?\nDo you trust him?\nWhy not?
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
696113
Ok, it's only been one month and two weeks and he already doesn't trust you. There's the first red flag. He hasn't kissed you, you two don't see each other often and you love each other? Second red flag. I think you need to break it off. There is something really weird going on here and I don't think it's you. He may not be cheating on you but the relationship isn't that healthy for only a month into it. You need to find someone that can take the time to physically see you and show their love instead of accusing you of things that aren't true. Love and Trust go hand in hand.
599989
It's all about trust.  He told you nothing is going on, so believe him.  It really doesn't sound like he is cheating, or else why would he tell you who he was on the phone with in the first place?  You can be sure he loves you by his actions.  Taking on a baby that isn't his own?  Wanting to name your child??  That sounds like love to me!  He may have loved this girl at one point but he has moved on.  He has learned to love you more than he loved her.  Everything is okay.  Explain to him that you got plain old jealous and reacted wrong.  And then go take him out for ice cream ;)
749634
Maybe hes the one whos cheating thats why he keeps asking cuz he feels guilty.You should ask him.*
1031455
All this dancin' around. Good grief. You'll drive yourself nuts going through all this...and for what? Forget about all this tricky stuff Just let it happen...trust yourself...but not necessarily him. If you find yourself wondering about his wandering eyes...bail.
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
264059
you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
610339
Ask him and study his reactions. I'm sure you'll be able to tell if he's lying. It's best to be upfront with your suspicions. Tell him why you think he's cheating. If you keep it to yourself, your suspicions will ruin your relationship.
754163
he probably cheating but you should really   talk to him i mean look him in the eye and say what you want baby i got it  what you need you know i got all i am asking  is just a little love ..
253379
There has to be more to this story. Why do you think he is cheating?  You should have gave some reasons.  But there has to be something he's doing wrong because there is something to be said about a women's intuition.
31066
Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
835761
I was suspicious of my ex... and he was a cheater.. which is why he is my ex  :)   Go with your gut feelings.. and if you can't trust someone, you shouldn't be with them. It will never work if there isn't honesty in the relationship and you will drive yourself crazy worrying about what he is doing..good luck.
28357
First I would validate that s/he indeed is cheating.\n\nS/he might have other issues that you are not aware of.\n\nConfront the person if possible, in a non-hostile manner.
684346
it defenitely sounds like he's cheating, just move on, you'll be happier you ended it.