Is this the correct thing to do?
831007
I don't think it's good for you to contact women through your mans' means of communication.\n\nThis isn't a problem with the woman, it's actually your man. He's responsible for what he does. \n\nI know you won't check me as 'best answer', but I'm telling you right now, he isn't trying that hard to keep you. You are having twins with him and you two haven't tied the knot. I'm guessing that if he asked you, you'd be ecstatic, right? \n\nStep outside from your body for one second and take a look at this picture:\nThere is this woman who wants this man. They get together and have the boyfriend/gf title for ages... she gets pregnant. They remain unmarried. Now there is another woman texting msgs to this father-to-be. The gf gets jealous and protective of her relationship with this man and their children to be...\n-questions: Wouldn't a man who was very devoted make this right and concrete for the sake of his woman and his children... and get a marriage certificate? Why does this other woman have his #? Why did the gf allow herself to become pregnant with this man's children with no true contract or guarantee of relationship and put their future children in this position?\n\nPeople who give advice about getting your stuff straight  when starting things like families give it because they want things to go smoothly for you.. not cause problems like the ones you are having. Sure, your man is probably lovable and an all around ok guy... but so what? You are having this problem, and the only one that can fix it is him.\n\nI don't mean to send out a bitch answer like this, but I hear this stuff all the time from people like my cousins. WHY do us women get pregnant and just HOPE it'll all work out... then complain to others when it doesn't? We all lie in the beds we make. Your #1 obligation now, is your children. Your man isn't a winner.\n\nSo to answer your question, again, don't email her. She isn't the problem... regardless of any lack of respect which she may have for his future children's lives. The problem is him and he should fix it. The real underlying problem is the foundation which you two built and somehow deemed fit to start a family on.
395210
Is this a trick question?
1052520
yes.. use it in a respective manner, ok??
922486
Is this a trick question?\n\nLOL.
596008
Yes you can.Good for you.You did the right thing.
999090
is this not ridicules?
151370
is this a trick question?
339218
its pretty natural. i dont think you should do anything. theres nothing to start a large commotion over... its a one time thing im sure.
32763
If you feel it's wrong or you are uncomfortable DON'T DO IT. No true friend would ask you to do something you don't think is right. You may have to make new friends but you'll be able to live with yourself. Isn't that more important? If it's so important to your friends they can do it. You don't have to. Ever.
685362
return it, do the right thing.  returning it is the 'right' thing to do.  if you get a reward, bonus.  if not, you've still done the right thing.  you've got to take care of your own soul here.\n\ni've returned wallets with cash in them.  some rewards, some no reward.  but i did the right thing.
150041
maybe, but that doesn't make it right.  dump him.
104875
Check the links in sources.  Is this what you are trying to do?
250091
huh? why are you asking? You seem to have pretty good idea already...but don't spend too much time worrying about what other people think. Do what is right for you.
846627
If you feel that it is the right time, then i say go for it. Just because the standard proposal is made by a man doesnt mean you have to abide by that. If you think the timing is right go for it. I wish you luck with whatever you do!
1115862
Is this what you need?
552941
Yes i can or should i give details
582231
... is this supposed to be a question????