How can I keep things away from my sister so that she won't find them?????
819121
1. Hide things in your pillow case.\n\n3.rolled up in a old sock.\n\n4.under your lamp.\n\n5.get an old book and cut the guts outs so you can put things inside\n\n6. underneath your box springs where it sits on the rails.\n\n7. taped behind a picture on the wall.\n\n8. inside a throw pillow or stuffed animal.\n\nThese are some of my old hiding places.\nI hope they help.
1028512
Tell them the movies shes watching,and hthe rating of the movie and how it is not suitable for her to watch nevertheless put your self in the situation saying if my sister told this thing to you about me you'll would have totally taken action but how come its different with me?\n\nI totally hope you understood that lol,keep on at it and even show the ,movie to them if possible,show her that she cant get special treatment as she is doing something wrong.\n\nAnd when u scoold ur sis and she complaints somehow bring her major faults into it showing that she is a hipocrit(i know i spelt it wrong lol)..keep on at it and ull win sooner or later im sure they'll get tired of it and just to please u they'll take action lol
163496
I have the same problem with a sister who also phisicly hurts me. You could get revenge or try to ignore her (good luck with that) I really wish I knew.
474568
I always live by the rule " IF I HAVENT USED IT IN THE LAST YEAR- I THROW IT OUT OR DONATE TO CHARITY"  I agree with u- keeping so much from the past is ridiculous!  Just keep a few things that really mean something to u.  Or you could always get her to box them up in water proof totes and have them stored in the atic, garage, or even a storage  facility!  Try to reach a compromise like that .  Tell them how u feel and see if they would be willing to do that.  Otherwise u may be stuck in a house full of crap and will never even be able to find the kids again!  lol
304993
Set certian things up so that unless this happens, this wont happen.  An example is have someone send you a message and just don't read it.  When it is read then you know someone has been there.
20420
Dont give her too much space, because if you do, thats mostily going to end up bad!\n1. Check her phone: Maybe you could find a number or an SMS that she forgot to delete, pick up the phone instade of her without her knowing.\n2. Check her mail, mostily trash or sent mails, you will surily find something there.\n3.Dont ask her! She will never tell you the truth no matter whats going to happen, so do it without even making her feel you are behind her back.
107454
Look in the phone book under Legal Aid. That's where I would start. My sisters soon to be Ex pulled the same garbage but didn't get away with it.
838169
If l was you l would tell him to stay away from the both of you. You are right he is a jerk !! He is playing both of you for fools. How did he think he would get away with this rubbish ? Tell him  that you are going to tell your sister everything and she will  also know what a jerk he is. That should be enough to scare him off, if that doesn't keep him away, try putting up some posters with his photo, name and details of what he did around your neighbourhood. That will definately do it. Good Luck.
699239
money to buy her own stuff so you wont by her stuff she wont wear or use
570915
Well, the FCC has regulations prohibiting harassment over phones and internet. I would file a report with the police. If you are really concerned that she may do something then you should get a restraining order. Unfortunately, there is not much you can do about the emails she has unless you can get a lawyer to prove you had a reasonable expectation of privacy. Then you could force her to not share them. Make sure you save all contact she has with you. If worse comes to worse, you should be prepared to accept the release of that information. Like you said it was several years ago and you have already dealt with it. If she thinks you don't care then she will have no ammunition. You can always come out and tell your family yourself. That way she completely loses her scare tactic.
1165278
leave him alone\nhe don't want no pesky sister trying to follow him.
684940
Just give it time and try not to think about them. Remove all artifacts. A taped up shoe box with mementos and pictures under the bed will work wonders. The tape keeps you from looking at the stuff :D
960042
just hide a wireless surveillance camera(by logic recording).be creative and talk about that you do not want such thing or otherwise you will go to the authorities.
711020
put the past be hide you , just as your mum has . move forward and be happy for her
2858
seriously if you want to loose your daughter's trust in you then go ahead and search for the archives, BUT honestly don't do it!!! Then what is going to happen if you find something out?  When you go and confront her what do you think will happen.  She will be extremely mad, disapointed, and probably never trust you again.  And what's worst is that when she finds out that you spy on her, she'll be even more sneaky trying to do things behind your back.  It will only make things worst!!!!
121431
Hide it, and tell him you dont have any!! Thats what my mom does and it works everytime!!!
51226
My god woman for safety sake please keep that stuff to yourself.  You don't want a sicko stalking you, do you?  Try to delete this A.S.A.P. if you can.  If not don't communicate with anyone that responds!