how can she still love me when i have let her down so many times?
821438
Maybe she believes in you and that one day you'll make her happy, you only ever find one true love, they do say that you don't know what you have lost till it's gone and this is very true, by letting her down time and time again you'll lose her forever.  Be honest with yourself and her, there are two questions you should ask yourself.  Are you IN-Love with her??? and Do you want to be with her??? If you have let her down countless times maybe it's time to stop before it's too late and you lose her forever, sort yourself out once and for all before it's too late.  Good luck in doing so, I wish you well.
459715
be yourself, if she loves you for who you are then she really loves you. if you aren't yourself and she loves you then she doesnt really love you for you she loves who you've pretended to be. now if she doesnt love you when you are being yourself, well theres nothing you can do sorry. either she will or she wont. good luck though.
649280
You can't make somebody love you.  It's something you feel in your heart.  Don't rush her into anything or she may resent you later on down the line.  If you truly love her you will wait until she's ready.
576436
relationships r tricky n they would neva b the same from the moment they start n as time goes by .. so if u asked her n she told u dat she hasnt lost love 4 u then dont worry , but u cant expect a person dats under lots of stress 2 b all lovy dubby wit u r any 1, dat u need 2 understand ... but if she doesnt call as much as b 4 dats just cause dats how relationships work , not every 1 can stay the same from day 1 dat everythin starts... but u can call her instead n let her know u still there n anythin she needs she can come 2 u .. but with out u tellin her how u feel then she wont have any idea of wats goin through ur head .. good luck hope it works out 4 the best
418910
Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.
233156
If it was meant to be than you just need to be yourself, show respect and self-respect and treat her as you would want to be treated.  If she cares any for you than you will know and if it's suppose to happen it will.  If it doesn't than move on and don't look back, always forward.
1039388
You really can't. Just be as gentle as possible. Her feelings will be hurt because she can't have what she wants. But she will get over it eventually.
92825
you can't make someone love you...be yourself and if she loves you good if not find someone who will love you for the way you are...if  you love her and want her to love you..treat her good...make her feel special and things will go from there
853890
Move on, you will find someone to love you as much as you love them.  She is not worthy of your love.  She will someday come to realize that she lost your love and it will be too late.  Love hurts is a reality.
451975
well if you real love her you need to let her know how you real fell about her and let her know she can trust you. and if she say she still doesn't want to just give her some time and she well see how much you real love her and that she can trust you it well take some time i know just give it time i was like her to at one time she well get over it one of this days and you well be there for her good luck and i hope thing go your way
37629
Tell her how you feel it's better to love and lose than to have not loved at all. Mabye she will like you the same way. You'll never know unless you try.
498739
I think you are great don't change. Just learn. Do what is best for you b/c no one else will. She obviously has made her choice actions speak louder than words. You've shown her that you care and that's all you can do. You've done your best it was good enough you just didn't find that person who will appreciate it. Keep your head up potna cause you'll get that chance over all over again. But don't you overlook it for someone like this again.
265474
You are not doomed if you understand and learn from your mistakes. Sometimes that requires seeing a counselor or even talking with a friend who is insightful enough to give really good advice. (Not just someone who will say what they think you want to hear. You need someone who is honest with you.) Did you cheat on this woman before? Is that why she does not trust you? If you did, then you have to work really hard for her to believe you again. That means staying true and never giving her any reason to doubt you. It also could take a long time to make her feel that she can trust you. But no, you are not doomed to repeat your past... unless you don't learn from it.
137246
No matter what happened to cause this, it's up to you to get in touch with her and fix the problem.  You have to be willing to forgive and go forward.  You start out by letting her know that you love her and that are willing to have an open mind about whatever choices she had made in her life and go from there.  Now if she's not willing to talk right then and there, let her know that she can always call you no matter what.  One other thing, never pass judgment on her.  Give advice, but let her know that it's her choice.
278580
Right now, you need her to regain her trust in you. You owe her that, and she deserves all the time she needs. Spend a lot of time with her, be there for her, laugh with her, just show her how special she is to you. Don't just say it, show it. But don't pressure her to get over the hurt. If you do love and care for her like you say, you will be patient. If she decides to move on with someone else, you can only be happy for her and be there if it doesn't work out. I truly think she will notice all these things and will come around when she's ready. Good luck, and no more deceptions.
470442
assure her you are sorry and tell her your feelings, then u just have to wait. it takes time. worst thing you can do is push her too much
407111
well...just think of it this way...if you love her...just let her go...if she loves you back...she'll come back to you and you guys would be meant to be...give it time...if she doesnt take you back and just get with sum1 else...move on and hold your head up high because you deserve better...