Hello to all young men, cheated on there partner, left her and want to get back with her. Would u cheat again?
828063
hahahahaha....NEVER gonna happen!
479768
I was cheated on before and it hurted like hell. I tried mostly everything to get back at him but the most sucessfull thing i did was to make myself into something that he would regret cheating. I made myself very popular with alot of guys. I glamoured myself to the point where I looked like a video chic. I felt good about myself i had alot of guys behind my tail. and it was only a matter of time till he would try to come back in my life but guess what guys like him dont deserve second chances. and he regrets leaving me because now he knows what he missed out on. Point is try to make him realize what he had was the best thing that ever happened to him. And make yourself feel good at the same time. It works trust me. I worked my butt off to buy the best clothes to have the hottest whip. and it all payed off. And now he wit a busted chic stuck now cuz he got a kid. Living that messed up life wishin that he would have stood wit me.
348686
It all depends on what you want, and are looking for. It's not like she did all these things while she was with you, t's not like she cheated. Do you think she has changed? It's really up to you... I think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
1078748
When a man leaves, he isn't thinking to himself  'I've left her but I hope she doesn't sleep with another man ever again'. He knows that this will happen eventually.  If he does come back, this is the risk he took when he left in the first place, and, frankly, it isn't any of his business.  \nHe has probably been sleeping with other women in the last two months as well, so he can't get on his high horse about it, now can he?  If he wanted you to remain 'faithful', he shouldn't have left you.\nGood luck.
612366
Why did you break-up?  Obviously, there was a reason it wasn't working out.  Did either of you cheat?  Or, did you break-up because you wanted to see other people (or because one of you wanted to see someone else)?  If it was cheatting, do you really think trust will be in the relationship, and suddenly faithful?  If someone wanted to see other people, do you think it won't happen again?  Some people always want something on the back burner.  (Well, if I break-up with her and things don't work out with so-n-so, I can always go back to her.)  Hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me!!!
1089366
Ditch them both...\n\nWhy would you want him back after this?
828196
Very, wery possible. No once aperson cheats it is higly likely they will do so again.\nAdvise him, to take caution.\nPerhaps it would be best for him since the past cheating is knowledge to forget this gal. Find him someone more stabel.\nHE could get into a bad realtionship with this gal and relly get hurt\nSounds like she wants to jump from one man to another.
169973
she can... i've been in an opposite situation... :( i've cheated my girl and she forgave me... \nbut then she did cheat, and i got angry enough to leave her...
426736
Fisrt its better if u answer to this Q:why u cheated her ,even not once,but twice???????????
243001
forget it all together - you don't need the headaches. If he cheated and she cheated most likely they will cheat again. Unless you want to live a soap opera - move on to a different crowd of people.
684385
i thik men cheat because the are insecure and have to prove that to themselve sthat they are real men when in all actuallity it would have taken more of a man to stay loyal but i think you can expect him to cheat again but as a male i find that most are probably cheaters unfortunately and i think its very common and accepted among men of men to have multiple women even when commited to one
276304
It does depend on the guy, but a couple of things to consider are; will he cheat on you to get back at you?  I also think that you may need some counseling to deal with your selfishness, etc.  Realistically, statistics prove that if you cheat once, you are more apt to cheat again.  Dr. Phil says that cheaters need to grow up and be a man/woman.  It is a sign of someone who is selfish and puts a momentary pleasure ahead of their relationship.  If you want to cheat on someone, why not just have no boyfriend that you can hurt?  Sad situation, especially for him.
531476
Well I went one stage further... \n\nI was messaging a girl i'd never seen before... It got to be like an addiction, and my gf would see the messages and get upset... I never met the girl, so nothing physical happened, but it was still a form of cheating... \n\nI ended up splitting up with her as I couldn't take hurting her any longer.. It was killing me inside, but couldn't stop it... We'd been together 2 years... \n\nNow 2 years has past... She's had another relationship in between, but now we are getting closer again... \n\nI have changed, as have looked long and hard at my life since my problem.... We are now very happy again... \n\nGive it time... Time heals... If you want it that badly, you'll wait... But depends how long you were together, and how deeply you feel...\n\nHope this helps.
831100
I've been there done that and i wouldn't make it easy for him if i did take him back. You need to make sure that your the one that he wants and he's threw messing around on you and if he feels the need to cheat on you again he needs to be man enough to tell you that he wants to see someone else. Tell him he has to earn your trust back.
60065
She will forgive you, for sure, just give her time. But if you dont love her, REALLY LOVE HER, do her a favor and leave her alone. Finding out about an infidelity is very painful, so dont put her through that misery again. After she is back are you willing to marry her??? What compromise are YOU willing to make??? If you dont know or dont want to have a serious relationship, please leave her alone!!!
1151645
Most women I know who cheated were either bored with their married lives, or were in an unhappy marriage or relationship and could not or would not wait until they were out before starting something new.  I always say leave before beginning anything new.  Also, the grass is not always greener on the other side.
282037
i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new