Does my friend hate me?
820950
Give it a little more time. Maybe he needs time to adjust, or he's afraid you're attracted to him. If you're not, you need to tell him. If you are and he's distancing himself because of that, well that's too bad but it happens all the time with heterosexuals too. If the friendship is supposed to be platonic and he keeps ignoring you, I guess he is not the kind of person you want to have around.
105643
I would ask him why he wants you to hate him. If he changes the subject again tell him not to because you want to know why. If he doesn't tell you, he probably doesn't like you anymore or something is very wrong. I'm just wondering if he used to live here and moved to london because ou said that you have been friends forever. If he really is your friend then he will tell you whats wrong because you guys tell each other everything. I think that you should ask him one more time and tell him not to change the subject and tell you why he wants you to hate him. I've had this done to me before. He wouldn't tell me either and he always changed the subject when I asked about it. We are still friends because I finally got it out of him. So, all that I can say is to keep on keepin on and if he deosn't tell you then do what you think is best!
389932
exactly\nthis girl used to be my friend well she want really my friend just my friend's friend but we all hung out together but i never liked her and i just tolerated her because of my friend\nshe would try to be cool and say all that..but it just annoyed and she was such a bitch..i even asked her why she spoke like that and she just stared at me and said why are you such a nerd..and that is so stupid..she was new and trying to fit in..but she left my friend \nshe had just used her to make other friends\neven though my firend had beene her first friend when she was new\nso whenever i hear people talk like that it just annoys me and the only reason they speak like that is to try to be cool
780244
you have to confront him and tell him how you feel. than you ask him how he feels about you.\n\nif he says he doesn't like you than u'll have to get over that so you wont loose ur friendship
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
599711
Sounds like she's first trying to make you jealous. I would break the friendship off she obviously doesn't have any respect towards you when rubbing things in your face. If she's your friend as she calls herself she should be willing to hang out with you. Have you told her how she's making you feel and why you feel the need to end the friendship if not do so and see if she changes if not then I would let her go. No sense, in being unhappy nor going through life with someone who calls her self something then doesn't act the part (figuratively speaking)Good Luck!
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
144704
she probably does not hate u but sum times i think my dad hates me 2 !!! she iz probably under alot of pressure right now that she needs some body to take it out on,so don't b mad if its u!!!!1
227061
Sounds like she is trying to be you.  She definitely isn't worth being your friend, but I don't know about picking a physical fight---just seems like a bad idea, especially if she could press charges.
727364
Sounds like you are willing to listen to her and be a good friend, but she isn't being nice to you at all. You don't need someone like that! I'm sure that there are lots of other people that would appreciate your friendship and treat you a lot better! Don't even bother with this girl if she's going to act like that cause she'll just pull you down.
541051
you might consider her your friend but you need to look at if she considers you a close friend, after all, she is using you to get back at him.  Look closely, is this something friends do to each other.
500861
wow i don't know y u call her a friend... no offence or anything but she sounds like a jerk! i say hang out with ur other friends more, but don't TOTTALLY ditch your other friend, just kind of hang out with her less. hope it helps!
2959
Depends on what they did... my first guess would be that they feel guilty about doing what they did... and since you seem to know about it, you could be a constant reminder of the thing this person did.... bottom line, your friend needs to come clean and tell someone about it before their guilt consumes them... and you need to be a true friend and stick by their side... no matter how much you think this person hates you. Whatever you do, dont take the blame for something someone else did... make them be responsible and mature and make the right decision.
259508
for starters you should never really hate anyone.  try to determine why you dislike them - pull them aside and have a private conversation with that person and out line what it is that you do not like about them, once you have stated your points tell them very clearly that you prefer not to continue a relationship (friendship) with them for the previously stated reasons.  be prepared for surprise anger embarrassment as well as a lash back of defense.  stand your ground and move on - there will be more friends and more people that you dont like but atleast this one will know where the two of you stand
124180
gee, get a clue...if people ditch you, maybe you should take a look at yourself. and if you are trying to make friends with people who hate you, you are 1) dumb--they hate you and 2) just like the people you hate that are trying to be friends with you.  maybe instead of putting the only friends you have down, try being nice and open to other people
674798
Just ask her if it was an accident, or what the deal was. You can read her face when she answers you. Remember accidents do happen. If you don't believe her just simply avoid her and move on you don't have to be rude or if you cherish her friend ship forgive her and don't believe everything she says that way you don't get hurt again. Just accept the fact she lies. It all depends  how valuable your friendship is. I had a friend like that once, she called 5 times a day, I mean I really didn't have time for all that, it got on my nerves so bad I unplugged my phone for 3 months. I finally got it out of my system and now we aren't that close, I avoid her most of the time cause I don't want to get her started again.
292708
you should be cool about it, dont trip you wil get in more peoples nerves if you tell your friend she cant talk to her no more and well your friend will probably wont listen to you and stop beying your friend, just 4 that and if you can tell me y you hate her so much, at ritz4feet@yahoo.com ill be waiting and i can tell you more too.