Do women think it's degrading when their husbands ask them to...??
816367
While I do fix my husband's food plate and I do many other things for him as well that our daughter's consider waiting on him hand and foot, my husband does many things for me also.  He rubs my feet after a hard day of work.  He makes sure the oil is changed in our cars.  He does maintenance around the house.  If I have to work lots of extra hours he will fix dinner and do laundry.\nSo for us it is a two way street.
402427
No, it's not a turn off. Every person has different needs. I sound a bit traditional here but every man should make sure he satisfies his girl. You must not hide your feelings and should communicate with your man...no matter how demanding you think you are. There's nothing wrong.\n\nPlease make sure, it's not good to repress your feelings from your man out of the fear of hurting him. It's a man's job to satisfy his girl.
605704
Why should it be wrong?  Nudity is a part of life (remember, we come into the world that way), and there's nothing "wrong" with it.  Just because somebody feels like taking off their clothes doesn't make them easy and it doesn't make anybody a pervert for watching them do so.  As for your husband, kudos to him for standing up for you.  You are an awesome wife.  As long as he's doing that sort of thing in a controlled environment, you know that nothing will come out of it (just about all of those places have policies that you can't solicit the girls outside of the establishment), so it's a safe way for him to get anything like that out of his system.  (Hey, and you could get some tips to use on him later... )
781091
Excellent question. And to all the doubting ladies in the answers above, this husband gets his wife surprise flowers. Splits the chores at least 50-50 (ha - she doesn't do any yardwork, but I do about a fourth of the laundry, more than half the cooking, and at least half the cleaning). I tell her how beautiful and sexy she is (and she *is*!) Spend time talking to her (when our 3 kids aren't in the way!) and basically everything everyone says I should be doing. We've talked about our sexual desires and it's quite clear that my sexual satisfaction is last on her list of priorities. What she considers good sex is merely adequate "duty" sex to me. I won't complain too much, but it seems like I'm "owed" more than 10 minutes of sex once a week... Not contemplating an affair, but can totally understand where this guy's question is coming from.
1005534
I do. If some woman was slobbin on my husbands nob, I would be PISSED. There is a certain level of intimacy to such actions whether it is recognized or not.
1049554
Yeah! These people are aTTACKers, aren't they...but helpful, too. Don't delete your question because I'ma watchin' it, girlfriend!\nWell, I say if he has the NERVE to check you on YOUR DAILY WORK, then you can get that same nerve.  \n\nThat is the trade-off, right.  And he wouldn't want to switch with you.  Tell him on a Saturday morning or a day off to track what the heck he does all day! Projects take longer than men think.  I like to get everything done in the 1st two hours of of the morning hustlin. Then, no matter what I do it's just done and the happy husbands off\nmy friggin' back.  \n\nTell him if you spent as much time cleaning up after HIM as you \ndid on the other household, necessary daily chores, he'd HAVE\nthe neat, sparkly perfect home he desired.  He'll get mad, that's just that tender little species of fragility and gentleness called\nTHE MALE EGO.\n\nTo those people who are working do NOT assume SAHM is\na dream job.  Its not for lazy bums.  Not the hardest work, \nbut important and challenging, more than you'd think.
1111223
My mother in law feels sorry for my husband. He thinks that I don't do anything at all..and that I should have a job so he doesn't have to work so hard. \nThe truth is..she was Missing In Action for most of my husband's life..having to work all of the time at menial jobs. He has very few memories of her being there at all.\nSoo...I have learned to avoid her, and shrug off her unsubstantiated criticisms.
407000
I enjoy it.  But I use to be like you, I thought it was the most disgusting thing ever.  Until I found someone I really loved.  Then it became such a turn on to me.  Because I know I'm pleasing my man.  But he have to satisfy me also.  Make sure you make that a point if you ever do it.
541224
I believe if a women truly LOVES her husband she should to it if he enjoys it because she loves him.  Seeing my husband enjoying it  or should I say hearing him enjoying makes me way horney. My husbands x says it not normal for women to do this that hardly none do it. I don't believe that BS.
650927
The fact that you are asking this question should tell you something is not right in your relationship. Ive never done either with my wife.
969764
it is demeaning for a woman.  Men lose respect for women that do that.
226189
Speaking as a happily married woman, that has been asked similar questions by longtime friend...my answer is no I did not and would not have answered that question. #1 by answering these types of questions I would be being disrespectful to both my husband and my marriage, and #2 what does it matter what I might do if I weren't married because the fact of the matter is I am happily married and that is all that matters to me. I will also tell you, I am no longer friends with the man that asked these questions of me, because it was obvious that he wanted more than a friendship with me, and I am completely devoted to my husband and found it very rude and disrespectful for a friend that knew how devoted and in love I was to keep bring such a questions up. I think your friend is either flattered by the attention she gets from you, is insecure and needs to feel wanted by all men and is therefore afraid that if she said no then you would quit giving her the attention, she uses the comments and attention you give as a way to cause jealousy or make her husband feel like he's the luckiest man to have her or she is not happy in her marriage...It could also be any combination of the things I have mentioned. however, if she were truly, happily madly in love with her husband and secure in herself and marriage, these naughty conversations you are having with her would not be....
564835
Really?  Hm...I thought it was the other way around!  Lol...j/k...I try not to do it to my husband because I hate it when he does it to me.  \n\nI'll usually just tell him once and if he doesn't do it or "forgets"...oh well...he'll do it eventually (luckily, my husband is very reliable and not lazy at all...so this rarely happens)  \n\nBut I think wives may nag too much because we want things done our way and at our time...and when that doesn't happen, we can keep on going on and on and on about it...until it finally gets done or we get tired and go on about a different thing.  \n\n---  oops, I change my mind...I thought about it a little more and I think I do nag my husband when it comes to things that I'm really anal about (ie: the windows needing to be open with the fan on when he's cooking bacon)
1166772
Honestly (and I say this as a woman who has been married for 24 years) I think men are turned on by just about anything a woman does. Except if you ask them to do chores or change a diaper.
300660
LMAO that is cute. \n\nI love it when women are able to shock men.They are so disgusting and expect us to be all prim and proper all the time. What about when we dont feel like it???\n\nHahahaha thanks for the laugh!!!
688927
oh dear its just as disgusting...actually MORE disgusting to see woman do that...and im a woman...my kids, hubbie  and i saw a woman a few months ago adjusting her ever so discustingly LARGE boobage as she was crossing a crosswalk...my hubbie and kids and i laughed histarically over that one...she dam near had to toss that large monstocity over her shoulder to adjust it...i would of rather seen a guy give a quick scratch below (that just seems more normal)\noh well enough of my ranting...\ngreat question though
302147
Not all women are like that, but i agree like 80 percent seem like they just want to demand and not give anything back to the man.  I think its just an attention thing. If she spoils u back i dont think theres anything wrong with giving some things to women.   muawwwww  :)