20 yr old Male Lowlife Judgemental/Suggestions/Comments Wanted!?
815133
Young man, you have asked this or variations of this question multiple times over the last 3-4 months. You failed to heed my advice and others, and still seek to go in the hole for more unsuccessful investments. Have you a death wish? Investments should be positive cash flow, never negative cash flow. I'd not lend YOU a dime, and you are paying a high interest rate because you represent a high risk. Since you failed to heed the advice given in prior request for advice, I believe you will fail to heed any herein as well. \n\nYour lack of maturity is understandable at your age, but to take on debt that you have not the means to cover and then accept unreported income? If the IRS discovers you, your current troubles will seem trite. And I'd rather seek out a solid relationship with a fine young lady than become a sissy for a jail mate, wouldn't you?. \n\nBored? Son you invented the word apparently. Perhaps you should move to a farm, there is always something to do there. And at that, at the least you'd become productive.\n\nThink about it. Go back and read the advice already given and act in a positive way. Get rid of the debt, seek out a competent psychologist and find out what really make you tick.
953881
I do believe that society as a whole is on a decline, we are self destructive by nature. You really do seem like a good person, but people who don't share your views on major issues such as politics,religion etc....can be very vicious and mean.  It seems they are threatened in a way by opposition and that's why they are lashing out at you instead of having a common respect for your individual opinion. Please don't take it personally, they don't know you. Focus on all the positive things said by those who do, besides if you know in your heart that your a good person then it should not matter what other people think (I know it's easier said than done). I'm a sensitive person too and you'll agree when I say it's a blessing and a curse as well. I've had to harden my heart to some things and keep it soft towards things that really matter. Keep your chin up and try not to let anyone upset you, Take Care.
930791
hmm...try to be as natural as possible..don't worry about your external image...let your sweetness and warmth shine from within...that's true beauty...a simple layered haircut should do...people worry too much about what's on the outside...just smile and say "cheesey" :P good luck :)
1092370
realize that nobody cares about you.  it sounds harsh, but no one is wondering about you or judging your every move--only you are doing that.  Get over yourself, you aren't that interesting.  this should let you then go out and enjoy life a little more.
691598
Just tell him.  So what if it hurts his ego, at least he'll learn that what he does isn't funny or amusing.  If a person is 24 and shooting peas out his nose, his ego should be the least of his worries.  Personally, I'd rather have someone tell me that I'm a pompous blowhard than have people let me live in a fantasy world where I think I'm the Messiah.
1001881
you should always be as honest as you can with your man/woman as true opinions will eventually come out sooner or later. there is a way to do everything. it need to be constructive criticisms not put downs
720697
well, you like depeche mode...so you have at least ONE thing going for you.  \n\nI've seen some of the UGLIEST and/or lamest people hook up.  So, there's always hope.  \n\nBut you can always get a makeover to help your appearance too!  \n\nSeriously, ZERO self confidence is such a turn off though.  Low self esteem is one thing...but NO self esteem is pretty bad.  You can fix that if you want...you just have to be willing to.
970303
work on it then...exercise, take some self improvement courses, read a book on how to improve your self image.  Don't whine about it do something!
549119
Make a list:  on one side show your good points starting at the top of your head and go all the way down to your toes.  On the other, list those things which you consider to be not good enough.  On the good points, consider how you could make them even better.  On the other side decide what you can do to improve them.  Those you cannot change, accept.  You will see beauty in many of your assets and when you compare your 'bad points' with other girls and women, you will soon realise that they are not that bad at all.  Usually I have found that most girls who have low esteem are quite beautiful and in actual fact frighten off most men.  They usually are from an only girl family with more than one brother.  Brothers can be the biggest down putters for girls.   I have no idea what you look like but I will wager a bet that you are a beautiful person, with a beautiful mind and many beautiful features.  Good luck and God bless...........
766058
focus on the good things in your life and think how you can make the negitive things better. Good luck!
808216
Oh how I long for the days when I was treated like a teenager! Believe it or not some day you will look back on this as the good old days. Life was sweet when I got carded at the bar! Enjoy it while it lasts! By the way you sound very mature for 20 so I can understand why it frustrates you. This too will pass.
400288
Hi, you seem too obsessed with yourself, your body, your image. I agree that today especially looks do play an important part, but its not everything. If you keep on thinking of negative things, any girl you might have otherwise interested, will stay clear of you! Please broaden your horizon, take up a hobby, surround yourself with friends, live happy.
883191
Just think of hating yourself as a waste of your life. Work on liking yourself more and gather some confidence up. Everyone can find someone they enjoy being with, or multiple partners. You're only 20. I know people that didn't lose their virginity until much older. Your life doesn't have to be perfect fresh out of your teenage years. When you like yourself more (I know it's hard) then gradually people will take notice. It mostly depends upon how you carry yourself. Also, try approaching more women, if you don't talk to anyone, you won't get noticed as much.
1126467
Get into a younger mentality! Have fun. Get together with some of your friends for a girls night out and laugh it up! If you lived around me, I'd go have coffee with you or watch a funny movie. I'm a fun person and tend to get everyone having a good time. Heck, just getting out of the darn house makes me happy! Lol!!!! Good luck hon! I hope you feel better soon! :)\n\nI edited to ask....are you married or have a stupid cranky man dragging you down?
948843
You can't live your life trying to please others and worrying what they think about you. Just be who you are, you sound pretty confident and self assured. You go girl!
159694
you should get over it. if youre the sort of person to seek personal advice somewhere like this then you probably are inferior and their attitude is justified
960428
I would like to try to help you, but I don't know exactly what you need guidance in. I'm a bit younger than you, but I am wise beyond my years. I was born in 81. I am assuming however, that you are not stating your situation, yet your age in hopes of someone with a sixth sense responding..can't help ya there. Only thing I can leave you with is to follow your heart and let God help guide you to the right path!!