I need advice I'm going through a rough time.?
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Looking for more relationships is not what you need at this point in your life. The last two failed relationships are a testament to that.\n\nYou have two children who should be the focal point of your life. If love happens to come your way, so be it...\n\nBut you are a father now. The two children you helped create should be the only thing on your mind, not your love life.\nThink of them, and once you have established yourself in both their lives, and are a more stable person, perhaps then you can search for love again.\n\nI had a father who was in and out of my life when I was young, because he has three different 'babys mommas'. \n\nI'm fine, because my mother was a stable person, and she married my step father, who ended up becoming my real father.\n\nDo you want your children to be the second most important thing in your life? Or do you want them to grow up knowing you did everything in the world for them?\n\nThink about your kids, first. Please.
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I feel for you,  you sound like you are going through a terrible deppresion.   Im glad you are seeing a counsellor.  hope you continue too.   I think you need a prescription from your doctor though to help you through this.  It is so sad all the trama you have been through in such a short time.   I am not preaching but I will definetly say a prayer for you I think you might need help from every angle.   Do you have a spouse or family to talk to?\nCrying is normal but not continuous and sleeping that much is not good for you either.  You are going to have to try very hard to face this and hold yourself up and believe you can do it!\nI have had times like this and you need to get interested in something even if it is on the computer you might be able to reach out to someone else.   Please try to discourage the suicide thoughts I know it is hard but there are people who need you somewhere and that is very final.  I want nothing but the best for you so please keep in touch and let me know how you are making it through your days.       \nLife is Beautiful hon.   keep your head up and spirits higher.
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sweetie u need some councling, sorry u had to go through something like that
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What kind of help are you looking for? Do you have family, money, health problems?  The best I can do is pray for you and hope that whatever is happening in your life gets better. LOL
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I REALLY suggest you see a counsellor. And do some 'self expression' and 'cognitive thinking', when your counsellor is with you, for safety.\n\nAND: **Life is full of ups and downs. And hey pad yourself, you 'have hand' some rough years, that mean you pass them, you made it thru. Also, it's 'have had', it's pass tense, it's history, so tell youself, it's 2006 June 22.**\n\nI understands how you feel, because some here. I been thru more than 10 years of rough time. Even now I still have to practice telling myself ** **.
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If you have a history of depression, you may want to consult your doctor, but if you're just having a down day, get in your comfiest pj's, grab a nice blankey and a box of kleenex, and cry it out honey!\nFeel better! =D
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Take a small break, and try to focus your mind. Relax and think...things could've been worse. You decide what's on your mind and not the other way round :-)
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call your local hospital and see ho can help you....sorry to here about your rough times
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Hey that doesn't sound to good. we all need help sometimes. amd you are always alive when you have someone to talk to.\n\nSee so many people are out there thinking of you. Please talk to us.
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Nope everyone breaks down at times. Life aint easy. We have all had our share of bad times. If this is a real bad problem seek counselling and good luck xxxxxxxxx.
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I am very sorry to hear that you had a bad day. Just remember you are not alone we all get them from time to time.  Now you can draw comfort in knowing that it is over. Make a nice cup of tea and put on a good movie to cheer you, and just relax.
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i think u need 2 get more involved in life. take up a hobby(one that involves other people), tell ur friends and family so that they  can support u through this confusing and difficult time and so that they can intervene everytime u feel a little down. u'r not alone in this world, u need 2 tell urself this everytime u start 2 feel desperate. no situation is hopeless. there are lots of people going throgh depression, so maybe u could find a support group if u dont have an understanding family. but in most cases, we tend 2 believe that our families will laugh at us or will think that we are freaks but they turn 2 be really undersatnading and caring. best of luck!!!\nps if u need a friend, mail me at shreyalovesmusic@yahoo.com. i'll be happy 2 help.
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I'm very sorry for your losses. Allow yourself to grieve, even if you have to be strong for everyone else. Find someone you can talk about it with, even if they only listen. Find a friend to talk to that has lost someone and can understand how you are feeling. You could also find an online chat for people dealing with a loss. I hope things get better.
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You need some encouragement little one. Tell your parents or your counselor how you are feeling. Don't handle this burden on your own.
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tell her you are going through something right now and thank her also try keeping her as a friend later on you may like her and you'll want to have her there at your side.
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Well,I mean dude you seriously need help.I'm talking asap.I suggest therapy.Go try it.
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I am so sorry.It takes time to heal.Just try to take good care of yourself in the meantime.