can he really change?
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Advice?  Easy.  Run back to the guy that has blackened your eyes, broken your nose, and used you as a punching bag for years.  He'll eventually kill you.  Then, he'll go to prison for life, and not endanger some innocent woman.  OR, you can stay away from the jerk, and perhaps build a life where you don't get beat up.  Your choice.
587488
Of course he can change the laws for you. I think you must write him a letter with your ideas and if he likes them he will rub out his laws with an erasor and put your laws in. The letter must be persuasive and short as he is a busy man.
1149883
in the future, yes. he seems like he really does have potential to be a good leader. at the moment, i think it would be overwhelming to him. but he's got plenty of time.
799674
there is no changing a person, if they are going to change they have to want to change, and ppl never really truely change
600802
Can't be done.\n\nAs with everything, they have to WANT to change - someone else can't do it for them.
472072
yes but with a different face again
1076470
people change..it all depends on how she changed........if you love her, you can deal with it
879748
It would depend on how many times he has promised to change and what happened before.\n\nIt is true that we all have faults.  However, some faults are easier to deal with than others.  I for one could not stick with someone with temper problems, whether he was violent or not, because I don't like being with someone who makes me nervous.\n\nEven at the end of your question you sounded like you were getting in a mood.
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Sit him down and talk to him. Tell him exactly what you said in your question. Ask him what he thinks and tell him that you think he needs to change. if he truly cares about you and your future kids, he'll make an attempt to hange and become a better and more responsible person. If he's not willing to try, then find yourself someone who'll love you and will be able to take care of you. A man who won't change for the better isn't worth it.
273282
he wont change, if theres one lesson ladies should learn is they can't change a guy no matter how hard they try
1016371
maybe he's not who you think he is
71873
You would have a hard enough time changing your own mind.  You will never change his.  He must do this on his own.
509240
yah, you cant change a person.  Just find a nice polite way to tell her what she is doing and see if she realizes it or not.  She wont change if she doesnt think it is a bad thing. But.. if she sees the issue as a problem she will be willing to work on it. Good luck
476034
No he probably won't.With his powers,he will create his perfect woman.When he grows-up.
1098712
I pray that he will change his prejudiced ways, mature in every way and that you really think about yourself and why you want a convicted felon in your life. You can't change him. You can't help him unless he helps himself first!  You both will probably be very different people by then anyway.
444109
NOT YET.\nI DONT THINK HE WILL.
34193
In HELL if he doesn't change his ways!