Any Ladies that Like Ladies out there ever meet a Jerk(Guy)?
814158
Yes, for some reason these type men seem to think they contain all the right key ingredients to "turn you straight". It's amazing to me the egos that these type men have!!!
522828
most definitely not, but then again i am a wimp/niceguy a one girl guy but girls always go for the type that like to play the field, whats that all about? why are women always complaining about never finding a nice guy but never notice them when ones about?
590958
not all guys are like that, the cool jerks are, but nice guys actually care about you
231512
Yes there are LOADS of excellent women out there ...unfortunately most men I encounter are only interested in the superficial or a quick piece of tail so we are passed over for the Barbies out there.
1186210
just tell him the truth, if you think he's not much of a jerk. if he is a jerk, come up with some female problems, most guys dont wanna know about that kind of stuff :)
321712
Yes, I have and it was fine. A bit of rejection can be character building. Contrary to some popular mythology, men are not up for it all of time/with anyone so it's all good.
193189
Avoid sweet jerk boy, you may fall in love with him, but he's gonna cause you so much drama eventually, with being mad at him, breakups, makeups, and being a jerk.  Trust me, I'm just like him, and I'm bad news for the girls I date
562097
yes ...well most of the time. The only problem with guys are...they NEVER listen. haha
402486
Not all women love jerks...not even the majority. Perhaps what you refer to is an attraction thing- some may be physically attracted to bad boys, but they don't want an involved relationship with one.
1068387
To me if you want to find a gentlemen you have watch for the ones that act like one first. Not the ones that you are with first because they can turn out acting like pigs. I am a 54 year old male and I had a father that treated females as toys and he was a gentlemen when he wanted something and when he got what he wanted. He turned into a real jerk toward women and my mother could tell you that if she was alive. I have also meet women that have acted the same way and the could get a TONY award for being the best actress. I have been with a few women in my life time and when they left I always made sure that they were better off then they were when we started. The lady that I am with now asked me to marry her and I said no at first because I didn't want to get hurt again and again. Her husband had passed Way and he was a jerk to her and I didn't like him and I asked her mother in law what she thought and she told me that I was the best person for her. We have 5 kids together and 8 grand kids together, So what I'm saying is this is we have never in the 4 years of being together have never had bad words or any type of a dis agreement. First find in your heart what you are looking for and never judge that book by the cover and make sure you read the whole book. Good luck in finding some one and that is what my wife says any how.
682569
Oh my goodness....I have one.\n\nIt was right after I got out of a very long, very terrible relationship, yet it was before I met my husband.  I was sitting at my house with my roommate and one of those commercials came on TV for the telephone dating service.  TeleMates or something like that.  Well, I had been drinking just a bit so I decided to call it for fun.\n\nWell, I instantly was on the line with this guy who was a little older than me, who sounded really nice.  He described himself as being extremely nice looking with gorgeous blue eyes, etc. etc.  I was like "YES!!! Let's meet up for a date."\n\nSo a couple of days later, this guy was coming to pick me up.  I got ready for HOURS! (I hadn't been single in years, so I was so nervous about this "blind date")  My roommate was there, and a few of our friends were there to meet this guy.\n\nWell, we hear a car pulling into the driveway and my roommate runs to the window and is peeking out.  She turns around and starts laughing and she's like "He totally lied to you.  You are not going to like this."  I kept smiling, thinking that she was joking.  No, as it turns out, she was just being nice.\n\nThis guy looked NOTHING like he had described.  He had on huge thick glasses, he was like 4 inches shorter than me and about 30 pounds more than what he described.  He also had told me he was a great dresser, and lets just say this was a lie too!  The only thing he had in common with what he told me was that he had blue eyes!  That was it!\nSo this guy comes in and he's holding a rose, and I instantly feel like a b!tch for being so judgemental.  I thought, maybe he is a really nice guy, so I decided not to fake sickness as I had originally planned and take a chance on him. If anything, he could just be a friend that I hung out with.\nSo we go on our date.  He asks me where I want to go eat.  I tell him I'm not picky, I'm content with McDonalds double cheeseburgers.  So he decides to take me to a nice Mexican restaurant downtown.  We go in, and we're sitting there talking and sure enough, he is a nice guy.  So then he offers to buy me a drink.  I tell him I like margaritas.  He orders me the biggest margarita they have, one that costs over 10 bucks and comes in a cup that looks like a bowl!  So I drink the margarita.  He buys another one.  I drink it.  We finish eating and then we leave. \nSo he stops at a store, asks me do I smoke, I say yes.  He goes in, buys me several packs of cigarettes and a lighter.  And a case of beer.  I'm like WTF, but okay.....\nSo he gets a call on his cell phone and asks would I like to stop by his house, that his brother is having a "party" there.  I say sure, and figure if this is a trick, I have my pepper spray in my purse!\nSo we go to his house and it is only his brother there!  There is no party.  Apparently, I am the party.  So we sit around and drink some beers, have some conversation.  Then my cell phone rings and it is my former best friend (who is a guy) I talk only for a minute before telling him maybe we can hang out later, then hang up.  The guy I'm on a date with gives me this weird look and he's like "Was that a guy?" As I explain to him that it was my best friend, who I dated when I was 15, but since then, he's engaged and has two kids, he just looks pissed.  He grabs my purse up from bside me, shoves it into my hands and tells me he's taking me home.\nAs we're driving down the road, I start to tell him I had a fun time with him, and this dude just starts freaking out on me.  I remember he told me "You're nothing but a player.  You're one of those girls, you just play good guys like me.  Do you get off on playing people and doing them wrong?"  Of course, I'm like What the hell are you talking about?  So this guy proceeds to just b!tch me out:  I take you out and treat you right and you just screw me over.  That'
196699
Sadly, there are a lot of jerks out there.  Guy's play at love to get sex.  Girls play at sex to get love.  That's the way of the world I'm afraid.
276488
They have other priorities, like intelligence, appearence or social position-- but it's very rare for a girl to ultimately settle down with a guy who's a jerk, it's usually a great fling-- one other aspect here is that rude is in the eye of the beholder... you may think he's being a jerk but sometimes she thinks it's funny or just agressiveness but not necessarily rudeness
974088
I like the brains.  Tasty brainses.\n\nYou are wrong though, if a woman's a jerk it does not matter how attractive she might otherwise be.
982659
jerks aren't the greatest, but i personally can't handle a guy that is too nice......it gets kinda annoying, makes the guy seem desperate, and takes the challenge out of the whole encounter.
637010
you know, and this is not meant to offend any of the nice sounding people that have answered this question already, but i agree with you.  i have very few women friends because they always seem so competetive and bitchy and catty, they just make my skin crawl.  i get along better with men.  i'm quite sure there are nice women out there, i just hardly ever meet any.
658758
Yeah you have what it take to get a lady. Like for me i look for a guy who can have just a good converstation and i look for truth ness not a lier,player or a one nite guy. I want some one that can be there in the high and lows and overall get along well.