How do you take dating slowly?
820809
It sounds like she care for you ,but she is afraid of commitment, so when things a little warm for her she runs.   I think for now she just needs some assurance that you are there for her.  Then get straight to the point and ask her how slow does she want the relationship to go.   As the term slowly means different things to different people.    Her response should answer all the questions that you want from her.   Then it may also let you know if she really want a relationship and how much she really cares.
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Some fundamentals for men: talk 30-40% and let her talk the rest of the time.  Open doors, pick up the tab, and make eye contact.    One big mistake I see guys make, and one that I made back in my dating days, is making the date seem more like an interview.    Sure, you want to get to know the person, but that doesn't have to be crammed into one night of Q&A.  Make an effort to strike up casual conversation, and talk about things that are in the moment.  Remember, people evaluate how much they like or dislike you based upon the quality of the experience they have in your presence.  If you are able to show people a good time, they will be attracted to you.  If you make people feel like they are interviewing for a job, they will not be so keen on another date. (Watch any episode of Blind Date to find out what NOT to do.)
1065066
Just because you think someone has all the qualities you are looking for doesn't mean they do.  When first getting to know someone, people usually see all the good things and then are often blindsided by the bad.  Taking things slow allows people the chance to become friends first which is a good base for something deeper.  \n\nAnother thing to consider is that in the long run it pays to love smart than to love fast.  By taking your time, you may find that the qualities you thought were great are actually not so wonderful. It is better to find that out when you are friends than when you are a couple.  Besides the things you think you want in someone are not always the things you need.\n\nMick Jagger sang it best:\n\n"You can't always get what you want,\nBut if you try sometimes,\nYou just might find\nThat you get what you need."
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Any and everywhere.  Set aside, for a moment, the idea of looking for your next relationship and focus for a time on having a good time.  Strike up conversations with people you find attractive in line at the movies, at bars, restaurants, in the grocery store, book store, or wherever you go to pursue your interests.  \n\nMeanwhile, ask your friends to set you up with dates and go with the express intent of "practicing" dating - in other words, go with zero expectation of starting something.  If you have fun, great - you've met your goal.  \n\nSet goals for yourself like, "today I will talk to nine strangers I think are attractive" and go out and hit those goals.  Eventually, you'll meet someone with whom you really click.  The secret is giving up the attachment to having a relationship.
284396
When you say contact are you meaning physical contact or the actual act of being in each other's company? Because they are both crucial to offering you an answer. If it is physical, then you have to take your cue from the person you are dating. If the two of you are ready for more than casual contact go for it,if it is invited and wanted. If you push too far too fast you could scare the other person off. But,if you feel that ya'll are ready for this step then go ahead. \n\nIf you mean contact as relative to the actual time that you are spending together, then only the two of you can answer that. I do know from experience that too much too fast can sometimes burn out the natural chemistry between two people. But, hey, you know better that I do. So, you just have to decide for yourself in the end anyway, no one can determine that for you.
355955
Ohhh this is the same thing I used to do.  I think it begins with men being a huge priority in life.  Do more with your friends! I bet you don't hang out with friends when you're with a guy.  Do a Friday date, and Saturday with girls. Take up a hobby, take your mind off of men. \n\nMost times after I used to have a date, less than a day would pass before we talked again, and I just seemed to click so well with everyone, I moved from one serious relationship to another.  Have this new mantra: "I am only going out to have fun. I am not looking for anything but a nice evening tonight." Set yourself some rules; don't let yourself get too comfortable with them. Make sure not to tell them everything about you in the first couple dates, and let at least 3-4 days pass between dates.  Going to each other's house is also very personal, make the first couple weeks dates "out".  Don't get too comfortable, don't get too close.  Be more picky.
854885
tell him that u want to take it slow.
516280
have a date ... start dating them
750564
keep urself occupied, get a job, go to college or something, try make the most of you're life... in time it ur feelings will lapse, and you'll move on, i won't advise going to date someone else to try and get ur mind off it, not a very wise thing to do......................... word!
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Well first like you said to she wants to start out slowly. You should first become like friends. When you think you got to know her very well then talk to her into taking the next step of dating. If she doesn't then still be friends. I have heard of this saying "be patient and the fruit will fall into your hand" Well if you're really patient and kind to her then maybe she'll want to take the next step. hope my advice worked bye.
62128
slowly - most guys jump in too fast - explore each other nice and slow giving time to back off and look at each other - the passion will build - you will start to kiss deeper and stronger but keep it slow. Follow her lead most of the time then sometimes surprise her! Works for me.
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-Sex/gender stereotypes. Reverse them, and joke about them.\n-Romance cliches, and how much they suck.\n-Favorite foods. And what you both do with them.\n-How much you both hate sex, dating, and anything like that.\n\nDon't forget how NOBODY kisses on the first date. EVER. ;)\n\n\nAlso, when meeting people online: At LEAST have someone meet them with you, to make sure they're sincere about themselves. They don't have to ride the whole date out, but at least the initial meeting phase. That way, you have an escape hatch. And no, you're not "rude" for using it.
348663
I met my husband at our workplace & he is 12 years older than me.  We are quite happy & been married for 6 years.  With this experience, I can say that you need to take it slow, don't load him down with your "emotional baggage" of the past, but be yourself.  Just don't give your entire life story right away.  Let him gradually get to know you.  Being nervous & apprehensive is normal.  Breathe & take it easy.  Things will be okay if you be cool, but not icy cool of course!  Talk about stuff, but also be breezy in your conversations.  If he wants to get to know more about you, he can pursue you gradually in future dates & learn a little bit more about you each time.  Most important (besides being yourself & not pretending to be something or someone your not) is to: Think Before You Speak.  That way you'll bypass your fear of saying something stupid.  Remember that it's okay to have silences between each other.  No one needs to chatter incessantly. Go slow & don't go too far or jump into bed together. Relax & have a great date!
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just do it slowly without ask
13145
take it slow\ncommunicate about what feels good and what doesn't\nuse condoms
777377
Absolutely, I am a true believer in that. Just start small. Try new things like going to the gym, joining some type of organization that will get you around new people. You may even meet new friends that way. You may even find someone and ask them out on a date. Take things slowly to find out what you really want and don't want. If your really interested in dating people now, try a dating service or try online dating, just becareful and use common sense. Definitely don't rush into anything! Take your time and look around!
1182088
Get a grip... \nI mean read a book, go for a walk..... find another guy.. I know it may not be easy.. but that is the practical approach.