What do i do if two chicks like me they are both hott as and they are best mates? who do i choose???
824257
LIKE ALL OF US MEN IT DONT MATTER WHAT ADVICE WE GIVE YOU ...YOU WILL TRY AND HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT...THAT'S JUST THE NATURE OF MEN...BUT I CAN ASSURE YOU THE PARTY WILL GO TITS UP AND YOU WILL END UP WITH NONE OF THEM....GOOD LUCK
707070
Talk to your best friend and see if she feels the same way..But you should also be upfront with the girl you are talking to also.
820054
No insult here, but your runner up in the great sensual game of her life.  Of ALL the people she has met... YOUR SECOND.  The other woman ... SHE'S FIRST.  If the other woman didn't exist, you two would be romping around in sensual glee... but, my dear, you are Al Gore to her G.W.Bush.  Painful as it may be your 49% to her 51%.  If you can deal with that and WAIT until it MAY POSSIBLY SOME DAY GO BAD, then you are pathetic and don't have self esteem, because while she is deep down on the other girl, your going to be all alone eating bon bons and ben and jerries just waiting for your turn to taste her.  FIND SOMEONE THAT'LL MAKE YOU NUMERO UNO.  Don't settle for runner up in someone else's race. You want someone to say "You are the only person I have ever wanted to be with for my entire life."  Instead your waiting for "Now that the other girl is gone, hey lets have fun."  Grow some self worth, grow some balls, and find YOUR mate.  Go right now, find someone else.
686076
Well, I can actually connect with you, I had the same situation...\nWhat I did is forgot about both of them and moved on. You don't HAVE  to like someone, but if you really really do then just follow your heart and you'll choose the best one. If the other one gets jealous for some reason, then they aren't really a true friend.
1027665
lol!  Try.  Ask your girlfriend and her best friend if they actuallly want to, and then decide for yourself.  If you are mature enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to decide who you are going to have sex with.
268409
Don't commit to either of them.  Get to know them.  Then make your choice.
863416
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
580309
You really need to think this over yourself and decide which one you like better. Then approach that girl and ask her out.  If you cant decide, then maybe you need to drop it for now, and see if one of them makes a move on you.\nGood luck!
1116801
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
62271
May the best friend win!  But if he picks her, still be friends with her!\n\nAnd if he picks YOU, have him select one of his friends to introduce her to.
775222
She sounds like a real jerk\n\nAre you SURE you even want to bother with her?\n\nHere's a suggestion - find another girl to talk to. Either one of two things will probably happen - maybe that second girl will actually like you, or the first girl will get jealous that you're not paying attention to her, and she'll start being nice to you.\n\nIf your lucky, BOTH girls will be into you - and you can have your pick!!!
948092
dude, don't let it go to your head. Play it cool. They probably both like you. SHe's just trying to make it look like "Amani" likes you. So play the field. Talk to both.
745255
I have the same situation..I like them both but one doesn't like one of my bestfriend...I realized,if she treat me as a friend she should accept & respect me & my bestfriends.There is no reason to hate my bestfriend because she is not bad..Maybe,if my bestfriend is bad,rude or something which is not acceptable maybe i can understand my friend.But there is no reason because i've known her for so long and became my bestfriend.I realized,that my other friend has been jealous that's why she hate her and she just doesn't like my bestfriend's style.If i were you,as long as you know,trust and you like your bestfriend there's no way to worry about your bestfriend.But the other friend,you have to ask him/her why?then try to analyze and figure ot out...
480053
DID THE FIRST ONE YOU LIKED KNOW YOU LIKED HIM? I ASK THIS BECAUSE IF HE KNEW YOU LIKED HIM, HE'LL KNOW YOU LIKE HIS FRIEND. MAYBE YOU SHOULD WEIGH OUT WHAT INTEREST YOU THE MOST OUT OF THE TWO AND MAKE YOUR CHOICE FROM THERE. DON'T LET EITHER OF THEM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL UNTIL YOU ARE SURE OF WHAT YOU WANT. WHO KNOWS MAYBE THEY ARE BOTH MEANT TO BE JUST YOUR FRIENDS.
341416
CLEAR AND MAKE UP UR MIND!!!MAKE A DECISION THEN.WHO DO U LIKE BEST!!AFTER THAT MAYBE U CAN GIVE US ANOTHER QUESTION COZ U SEEM CONFUSE WHAT UR REAL QUESTION IS..BUT FOR REAL JUST CHASE AND GET WHAT U WANT BEFORE IT IS TO LATE!!
318201
Drop them both and find yourself a new girlfriend. \n\nONLY ONE GIRL though
828084
I know she's your best friend but this is your life were talking about not hers.Tell her you know she means well and is looking out for you, and that you take her opinions seriously but you really like this girl. And if this girl, no matter who or what she is or does, will make you happy/have fun, then as your bestfriend she should just let you be happy. Loyalty is part of friendship, so even if you ask this girl out, she'll still be your best friend. Tell her or explain  your side to her and just simply ask this girl out. If you're making a mistake, then she has to allow you to make your own mistakes, if you guys turn out happy together, then be glad you didn't let yourself get heldback.