what does it mean when some guy says he crossed into the fraternity ? im confused.?
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Dana Brown is right... it just means that he finished his process and is now a member of that fraternity..and no there's no way to take it out of context, you don't need to hear the entire conversation, and it doesn't mean he just came out of the closet
1063409
From what a guy who was into mythology told me, it is a sign that you are a goddess. If you are a girl. I am not sure what it means if you are a guy.
220058
In my house it is not! 2 of my pledge brothers were legacies and they were not look differently upon...But also they weren't pledging the fraternity just cause their father is a brother there...They liked the current brothers in the house and the pledge brothers
300463
Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
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I am not sure he will ever trust again. Does the word trespass mean anything to you, you have entered an area that you should not have and you know that you should not be there. even after you leave the area you still have trespassed.
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The process of joining a fraternity or sorority is commonly referred to as "pledging" or "rushing." The term "rush" refers to the historical practice where students would hurry to join fraternities at the beginning of the school year in large part to find housing.\n\nRecruitment is done formally or informally. The traditional "formal recruitment" often consists of a period known as "Rush" or "Rush Week." Fraternities and sororities invite fellow students (often referred to as "rushees" or "potential new members") to attend events at the house (or on-campus) and meet the current members of the organization. These formal rush weeks may impose limits on contact between interested students and active members to ensure fairness, such as time requirements to visit each house. "Informal recruitment" as the name suggests, is much less structured. New members are introduced to the fraternity's members and activities through friends and everyday behavior. Many campuses may have formal recruitment periods and also allow informal recruitment after the formal period ends. "Deferred recruitment" refers to systems where students must have at least one semester's experience on campus before joining.\n\nYou may have to meet certain criteria to join such as grade point average. Before being sworn in you are known as a pledge and have fewer rights than full members.
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i agree with grad.   don't belive what other ppl say.  i have the same experience and it turned out that they lied cuz they were jealous of me.\nthey might be trying to keep you away from the guy if he is very attractive.\ndon't give up by other ppl's words.  just ask him out and see what happens
877794
as a rule of thumb it means he wants to get in your pants and move on to the next girl that will allow it ,\n\nDont be dumb , play hard to get ;o)
1137975
The drinking, partying and sex is something that most college aged people take part in. Most fraternities have members with similar interests, that's why they allow them to become members. And contrary to popular belief, not every fraternity "spanks" or paddles their pledges.
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Masonic lodges are listed in phone books, and online, and put large signs on very noticeable buildings.  If it is a secret society it is the worst kept secret in the world.  It has not been a secret since it became public in 1717.  I know several Catholic Masons.  Yes, it is all-male.  I am trying to figure out where people get the idea that every activity has to be co-ed.  Fraternities are male, "frater" meaning "brother".  Sororities are female, "soror" meaning "sister".  Masonry is a fraternity.   Why do men still join it?  Less do all the time.  But the reason is simple.  A Masonic lodge consists of men who are devoted to community, family and God.  They strongly believe in freedom of religion, and would rather associate with like-minded men than with those who are closed minded or who are more interested in going out and getting drunk and trying to pick up women.  Does every Mason live up to the moral code he has been charged with?  Certainly not.  But most do.  They better their communities, they support and assist each other, they offer a set of moral instructions based upon the Biblical values, using working tools as symbols of how to "build your own temple" and they offer a mature, respectable alternative to hanging out with self focused drunks, or self righteous zealots.  "Moral values...religious freedom...social responsibility....it's not for everyone"  PS..in regards to one of the anwers posted on here...you are NOT invited to join.  very few states actually allow invitations at all, and even less Masons will do it.  Plain and simple..2B1, ASK1.
933655
Well, ppl don't join Sororities just to meet guys. They also join it for the housing and the experience. And clubs aren't lame, people who do nothing with their time are lame. There's nothing wrong with taking up a hobby by joining a club.
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Did you by chance graduate from highschool?  That would explain it.  Standards change once you realize the world is a big place and you don't have to accept a guy that has an attitude you don't like anymore.\n\n***after your update***\nThat also explains it.  You are no longer the guy that can provide more than he is taking.  You are leaving school so no need to try to get anywhere with you, which means they can acknowledge that you are a creep to them.\nYou are gonna find out that entitled attitude of yours is going to serve you very poorly once you get out of highschool and college btw.  You might want to work on making yourself a better person....just some helpful hints if you feel like taking them.
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Is this guy a friend of your brothers as how else would he be able to give you this advice.  I would think your brother would look out for your best interests and not want to see you hurt again, so he may just be right with his advice. But at the end of the day I wouldn't go there. If this guy wants you let him do all the work and prove himself to you. Your friends are probably the ones you turned to each time you have been hurt. The other question is how long will they continue to put up with seeing you being hurt.
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i think its probably normal, but its not acceptable. but just wait til he goes to college and joins a frat, if you think thats bad.
870120
Sororities rush, or take in new members at the break around the holidays. They havaae rush parties that you get an invitation to. You go and act friendly. Sometimes if someones parent went to that school and sorority, a person is a legacy andmust be asked to the partis. Invitations are given out to friends of friends, people met in classes or clubs. Also they gets names from guys they know who recommend girls to a particular house.Some houses are for a particculat subject or interest. Some fraternities date particular sororities so they want ther dates to join that one. you know someone in a sorority ask them about their house. If you know someone who was in a house at that school ask them to recommend you. Good Luck
587799
You can make the first move in a club or a social environment, but online is different (with all the weirdos). So, a guy would ask you first to make sure it is alright.
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heard about many guys actually unsure of which one.. I got confused on the Guy.