Have you ever felt someone else's heart break?
820430
Yes. And it is amazing that anyone can say that they have because it shows that they care about someone else. I hate to see someone in pain and those close to me, can share the pain with me.
630491
i also had the same prob\n\nafter a while he started seeing sumone closer to him and didnt tell me\n\nwhen i found out it broke my heart \n\njust keep a look out or leave him\n\nor move closer to him
1174520
It can be the worse pain you'll ever feel, until you realize its not going to kill you and it ends up making you stronger...its just that first love gone wrong puts you in unfamiliar emotional territory..you know its not going to stay this bad but not knowing for how long makes it seem like there is no end to the pain it causes...any broken heart hurts...but that first one...ooouch!
36297
yes love hurts i do not care how in love you are it just really hurts . when you are dealen wth a broken heart you first need to find out if you ever have a second chance wth that person or not and if you have no chanch you just program your self to forget that person and you just tell yourself that you are beter off wthout him. its the hardest thang to do expecialy when you are still in love wth them but you have to realize that its not going to do you any good to sit around  feelen sorry for your self you get out there and act like you have every thang in the world going for you do not let yourself get depressed over it go out there and do somthing it will help you and the other party involved
390927
It's amazing how someone can break your heart, but you still love them with all the little pieces.\n\nBe Careful
249158
wow thats scary,this just happen to me lastnight,but me and her have only been together for 2 months,i feel like my heart has been torn out and burn until there were no ashes left,it really help,i really just feel like dieing rightnow,for you,don't feel that way,please.it will get better,it's just going to take time and you never know in the future yall will get back together, when yall are closer,you know whats scary,this all happen to me the same way,and you should pray,you never know what will happen when you pray,and if you do pray and it doesn't seem like you prayer is comeing true,don't lose hope
150823
affect a persons emotions and you have affected the person.
335666
I have had the same problem and no it isn't right it is more pain and agony on you especially if you even have the smallest of feelings for the person. I have hung on and tried and worked with it as a matter of fact this weekend I just called it quits myself. It hurts to much and it gives the other person multiple people at their becon call and your out in the cold.
806433
Yes it does! \n\nIt did for me. After my cousin died (over 10 years ago) I found myself incredibly empathetic in situations that I used to shrug off - I still am. I still cry when I hear about someone else's pain form losing someone, even when other's can keep it together - because it just brings me back to the day that Seth died. It's ok to feel that way, it actually makes you a better person and good friend to those who are going through what you've already experienced. I'm sorry to hear about your sister.\n\nSometimes I have incredibly vivid dreams where Seth and I just hang out together - like we did when we were teenagers, just before he died. It's great because I wake up feeling like I've spent the day with him, but then I feel like I've lost him all over.\n\nIt may seem ridiculous to still be so affected after 10 years, but Seth was my best friend, I don't think I'll ever get over this. It does (as they say) get better though. Hang in there.
348934
That hurts. Really bad. I have been there and loved someone but they left to be with someone else.It sucked but got to move on but if you ever need anyone to talk to email me at yogisindianbrave@yahoo.com
725138
That actually happened with me about 10 yrs ago with my first husband except she was not my best friend, she was a crank whore. I freaked out and tried like hell to hurt both of them. Another friend of mine was there and another friend of his was there and so they prevented me from doing too much damage at that moment. I don't recall a lot about that night. I just know that for like the following 3 months I cried myself to sleep everynight. That was one of the darkest times of my life. He ended up getting her pregnant. Our child was only a few months old at the time.\n...Anyway, I'm in a much better place now. Thank God.
113176
Yes, love does hurt..once its gone...Have you ever broken up with someone? ...
614010
my first love died when i was 14. i loved her with all my heart. i think about her every day. it has ruined all other relationships i've tried to have with people. i wish she could be with me now.
794658
I was with my last boyfriend for 3 and a half years when I met my current boyfriend. I knew very quickly that I wanted to be with my current boyfriend, so I had to break my ex's heart to make myself happy. (I've been with my boyfriend now for more than a year) It hurt my ex like hell and I felt terrible doing it, but I knew that I wanted to be with someone else. So I had to do it for myself even though I hurt someone I cared about in the process. Just be careful and tactful in the way you say things. Make sure you don't sound like it's all his fault.
1062773
i can understand what you mean as there was something similar that happened between me & my boyfriend but cuz of different reasons...but it was my boyfriend who was in your position & i was on the receiving end...its very tough when someone you love says that they can no longer be with you for whatever reasons...just because we love each other so much, we try to understand & do what the other wants even when thats not something we really want...our mind accepts the situations & tries to adjust but our heart just doesnt wants to let go...you imagine all the things that can go wrong & also how tough your life would be without that person...this feeling of insecurity & depression is terrible...you also began to question that whether that person really loves you, cuz if yes than how can that person take such a harsh & insensitive decision...all this is just a matter of your emotions & you imagine everything thats positive or negatve...when this happens you try to take yourself away from that person & try to act tough cuz you dont want that other person to know that after saying that you understand, you have so many questions going on in your mind...this happened with me & though i really love my boyfriend i was still hurt tremendously by his decision to break up even when i agreed & understood his reasons...i think your boyfriend also is really hurt by whatever happened...its good that you plan to go back to him...i would suggest that you talk to him & try to get out all the pain he is carrying in his heart cuz of what happened...you'll have to shower unconditional love to make him feel secure with you again...treat him nicely, spend time with him & appreciate his presence in your life...just let him know that you belong only to him & there's no one who can love & understand you the way he does...i am sure you'll be able to do that cuz you truely love him...Goodluck!!
104744
no..it feels horrible...coz once u realize the one of them loves you with all thier life...its shameful to think that you're treating him/her wrong and they could be the one person in this world that would love you more than anything...
961697
I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.