how do i know he is the true one and how can i tell if he is telling me the truth...... help?
829087
You know he is lieing so just run him off an find a real man
1034270
Take it one day at a time.  If he is a good man, he will show you over and over again that he truly is.  Let him in a little at a time.  You'll be just fine.
358580
Time will tell if he is the right guy see that's one thing us males do is learn the other person looking for or soul-mates.\nThe special things he says and does he will let you now in these ways your special.
125853
Blessings.\n\nMay I answer your question with a questions of my own? First, are you sure that these feelings you have for this new guy (let's name him "Ted" for the sake of easier understanding) are legit (real)? If not, that is part of what I think you should question yourself... along with asking "Ted" if his feelings for you are legit.\n\nSecond, if you are "committed" to someone else (let's name him "Al" for the sake of easier understanding) but these feelings that you have for "Ted" are so overwhelming, why are you in this relationship with "Al"? And if these feelings that "Ted" has for you are so overwhelming, why is he in another supposedly-committed relationship with "Sue"? It would seem, in my opinion, that you would tell "Al" (and "Ted" would tell "Sue") how you truly felt instead of leading him on to believe that this love that you two (you and "Al" -- "Ted" and "Sue") share is being reciprocated when, in fact, it is not.\n\nIt would be wise, I would imagine, to put this situation into perspective. Consider what it is (and who it is) that you truly wish to be with. Think carefully and tread softly for the waters (and feelings) you tread upon can be disturbed. You don't want a typhoon to come ripping apart your life. Trust me, I've been there! God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
308960
Pray, and ask Him to show Himself real to you and your heart.  That is ok to do, you know!  He loves you enough to show the truth, and will lead you to peace.  I have asked Him to prove Himself mighty for my family in many tough situations, and He has never left me one doubt that He is in control, and loves me and my family.  He is as real as me or you, and all you have to do is love Him, accept Jesus into your heart, and ask forgiveness.  Blessings!!
399630
Unfortunately the only way to know if someone is a true genuine friend is time, be protective of yourself, and keep private things to you and the ones you KNOW you can trust, Those who are less genuine are masters at deception and is why many get hurt by trusting too soon. So by knowing this maybe you can keep your self safe from this more often.
412961
You don't. Everyone lies. Some peolpe lie to protect the ones they love others lie to protect hemselves. And then there are the ones who lie for no reason at all. These are the worst type of liars. Unneccesary lyin gis uncalled for and you should talk to him about this. Honestly though I don't think it is something that will change so you should look fo ra more honest relationship.
329364
to thine on self be true...be who you are and don't change just because you think someone else wants you to.  When the time is right, there will be someone out there who appreciates you for who and what you are, you won't have to change anything to be with him either.\n\nHang in there!
264059
you don't. but then again, you don't know that he is. if you would have a reason to suspect it, then your relationship has underlying issues of trust.
34779
Use your head but listen to your heart. If he is there for you and treats you nice, and you feel comfortable around him and love him..then there is a good chance he may be. Only you will know for sure though.
35405
If you have to wait for "the one" you must ask yourself if he/she believes you too are "the one."\nThere are always always circumstances worth waiting for, but if your "the one" continues to not alter circumstances to desperately be with you in the same way you wish to be with them, you might need to re-evaluate your decision. If the person I knew was my one and only and was miles away.........and needed to find a way to financially or circumstancially find a way to make it to me.......yes I'd wait. If you are talking about waiting until your "the one" left his wife or her husband...........I'm so afraid you might wait and wait without ever gaining the results you hope for. Take a look at the whole picture first. Good luck!
233780
WOW thats a big one. You say you have evidence right? well use what you got. But not in a way were you will put yourself in a bad spot but us them in question. Things you talk about. Ask if he knows a girl by the name so and so. If you really love this guy. Just keep rememinding him you love him. and that your so happy you guys are together and  that he has never cheated on you. In that point . . He will be nervice looking at the floor and looking for a answer out.
508836
Dont feel lost broken or confused.  These things have a way of working themselves out.  If he sees you for who you are and her as the cheater, then hopefully he will make the right choice.  You can always remind him of your loyalty.
236952
I think you are looking too much for a sign, and are trying to fit this particular person into the picture. How do you know this is the same one you felt was promised? There may be several that come along like this. Do you want to marry the wrong one? I know of one girl who was prophesied over that she would marry apreacher.  A young man who was newly saved overheard this and decided to go into ministry to impress her.  She married him thinking he was "the one."  She is still stuck with him..When God promises you something, the devil immediately goes to work to bring along his own substiute to take away your real promise.  If you are deceived, and fall for the substitute, then you will never have the real promise come true.\n\nTake your time, and evaluate this person.  Make sure he is the one promised, not someone else. God has given you good instincts.  Get in touch with your heart...do you really love him? Is he what you really want?  Would you want to sleep with him (reality- God would not give you someone you are not attracted to and would not want to be intimate with).  Give yourself time to make a good decision. He is either the right one or he isn't. That does not mean he is not a nice person.  He just may not be the right one.
521146
Confront him about it. The truth will set you free:)
925120
stop asking him if he is happy every day. I'm not too sure how you find out if someone truly loves you but if he tells you he does and you have a great relationship then maybe he does.
334344
Just tell him straight out--because i'm SURE he thinks that he is the one for you too. =^)\n\nI really do. =^)