My Friend got raped by her bf's friend?
817755
IT doesn't matter what she wants to do, it's what she has to do. In order to get that guy off the streets she needs to report him. Chances are that it's too late to take him to trial and win because she let time go by so long. If she's really not willing to tell the police, she has to tell her boyfriend. You realize that she's being incredibly selfish by keeping it all in and only telling you. Her boyfriend is friends with this guy who hurt his girlfriend, and the boyfriend should know all of these things. Have her take a pregnancy test and if it comes out positive have her tell her parents and plan her next step. And she has to tell her boyfriend. There is no way around that, she has to tell him. He deserves to know and he needs to know that about his "friend". People who rape people are ill and they need help, and to be stopped.
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
953243
It sounds like her boyfrined is over protective of her and he needs to chill out a bit. but next time you see your friend just tell her that it might be best if you stay away from her for a while. \nShe needs to speak to him about it.
215292
She is testing to see how much she can control your friend. Same thing happened with my brother. Have you tried talking to your friend about this, or is he totally oblivious to her death grip? Have your friend defy her demands, if she dumps him then she wasn't with him for the right reasons, if she doesn't dump him then life goes on.
90800
Rape is much too serious to tolerate but it is also much too serious to trivialise by making false claims.\n\nI would encourage your friends to go the police. If they are telling the truth they will be happy to bring the boy to justice. Two accusers are better than one, and with their families' support they could begin to put the past behind them.\n\nIf they don't want to go the police (despite having the support of their parents) you should suggest to them that you will initiate the process. I would be suspicious of their claims if they refuse to bring any charges whatsoever.
744545
you seem so selfish. you bed her even if you didn't know each other. and now that she's back with his bf, you are freakin out? grow up.
786966
Why would you think he would hurt her? You must have some evidence based on the relationship the 2 of you had. But keep in mind that, unless he was awful, their relationship could have a completely dynamic than yours did. Tell her your concerns and then let her make up her own mind.
214152
No, I disagree.  What you didn't tell us is why he doesn't like her.  Maybe he has a very good reason.  Maybe your friend is doing/saying things behind your back.  Putting them together would be volitile to say the least and used as a last resort.  Blackmailing them into getting along would not be advised.  Though that might help on the surface, it would fester.  Does your BFF like him?  Maybe she likes him too much?  Just wondering....
406387
She could have been friend with your bf for years . . . while you are new to the picture.\n\nSounds like you are one of those jealous types . . . and she doesn't know how you would react if another person talks with your man.\n\nYou are already getting on his case . . . when he said nothing is happening . . . and to prove it . . . she want you to come join them on events their group of friends  always do.  \n\nIf you want to learn more of what your bf is about . . . go . . . and become friends with them . . . I bet you they have stories you never even heard before.  If you are too self-centered . . . then dump you boyfriend and get another sucker . . .
531610
I feel bad for your friend i think these chicken heads on here who accused you of being a dead beat need to learn how to read tell your friend that Beyeaches they come and go how can any one trust women like that we cant we guys know were not innocent but you friend should just kill her     Take her out by any means like oj or Robert Blake or like you said run her off a Pier in a car like the eminem song Kim watch all the feminist say that's not fair she was stuck she had no choice like that person wrote oh boo hoo she was abused well she was abused by another mans penis your friend should get checked for aids if anyone doesn't like what i wrote well then too bad suck my penis happy now
998213
The best way to do is tell your freind is to be brave and be wise on what she tells to her best freind, at first i didn't know what you were talking about just as then i noticed ur friend's best friend is all over her bf the best way to do is tell her best freind and have  a chit-chat about it. mayb it's bcaz she doesn't know how ur freind feels that's all! so go ahead and tell her.
519044
I don't know...my friend had her bf in a couple of times and he kept going back to her and she kept taking him back, for the domestic violence he got 2 years.
969195
When your friend lets you hang around with her and bf it's not right to try to entice him from her.Btetter stick with your own bf as you'll get a bad name if your other friends can't trust you
669536
Maybe it is time to make a new friend. Friends don't treat real friends like that. She is probably so absorbedwith her new boy friend that the might not even realize that she is hurting you. You might want to tell her how you feel.Them if things don't change I would look around for a new friend. Sorry you have to go through this .good luck and God bless.
955813
i think you should just ask your friends about it first i mean ait`s not your boyfriend`s fault. tell them how you feel, and ask them what would they do if it`s happening to them. i mean they won`t get it until they`re in someone else`s shoes. if they`re your friend then they would respect you and your boyfriend and lay off him. good luck ! =]
741831
Well none of it is your fault. He really shouldn't have got with her friend and her friend is just as much to blame. However tell him this girl is not worth being anxious about because she is completely over reacting. If the abuse continues then you need to report it. The girl is obviously extermely insecure if the abuse has carried on and she needs help! Tell your friend he needs to talk to the girl and tell her that her behaviour is unacceptable and that he didnt realise that she wanted to get serious and that if they cant just be friends to leave him alone
52133
Trust is a hard thing to earn after someone cheats on you. Trust him if you feel like he hasn't cheated, but don't be blind. If it is true love it will all work out as long as you are both willing to work at the relationship. As for your "friend" maybe she is jealous of your relationship, I don't know, but keep your guard up as to what she tells you about your BF.