Girls and guys: what do your find attractive in one another?
829631
of course u notice looks first ... then personality ..  if u think about it .... if the guy looks like frankenstien ..has 1 damaged eye.. but his personality is perfect ... come on ... u are not goin to date him ..or think twice about him
231154
In terms of a girl:\n\n1. We like the way you walk/talk/smile and even cry!\n2. Plus we like all the other WONDERS that you have and can show to us!
636387
Personality!!!!!!! Definately personality. If a guy has a good sense of humor, he starts to look more attractive anyway.
963647
well, the attitide is important, they should not be super shy or super hateful\n\nbut, I think i know what ur friend said. Looks are  most important usually. Most guys like nice boobs and a nice a**.\nSorry, that is the truth lol\n\nbut personality is very imporant, and opinions on that vary from guy to guy
1150623
I like it when girls are confident in who they are and what they want. I like girls who aren't afraid to make the first move or do something crazy. I also like girls though, who are just laid back and relaxed. Its not so much of a "turn on" thing but it definitely attracts my attention.
47724
Girl they both fine\nboth got good bodies\nboth have good looking faces\nnelly...............FINE\nusher.......he look good too
1086663
A personality, confidence, things in common with me and....\n\nSome MEAT on her bones!  Ok yeah, I like my girls to be chubby as well honestly.  :)
461956
Girls like guys with personalities similar to them.  We love compliments and guys that can make us laugh at any given point in time.  Guys with a sense of humor is a huge turn on for us.  Another thing we like is when guys will shop or watch chick flicks with us.  It sounds really girly, but some guys I've dated actually like to do both of those.  It makes dating them so much more fun.  If you are willing to do things we like with us, we would be glad to do stuff you like with you(like sporting events or something).  We mainly just want guys with awesome personalities, confidence, and guys who love to have fun!\n\n:)
505707
Most importantly is how nice they are. If I am with a guy, I want him to appreciate my feelings and take care of me. I don't like someone who is mean or uses harsh language. I like men who are sensitive, considerate, and romantic. I also tend to go for men who have georgous eyes!:) My husband has nice blue ones that change colors with his emotions:). Also, trustworthiness is another big attractiveness....you need to be able to feel safe and secure around your guy.
428225
The exact same way a pretty girl would tell him.\nYou need to know that beauty is only skin deep & it will fade in time. However, kindness...compassion...humor...sensitivity...creativity...a good head; these are all traits that make a person appealing, as well. Don't see yourself short. Be confident in who you are & what you've got to offer.
1002182
You will get hundreds of different answers to this question. so here is my personal input: The ability to hold a conversation, a sense of humor, and above all...honesty in all things.\nIf it is physical attraction you want to know about, personally I prefer long hair, dark preferable, mischievious eyes, and a great pair of legs
1057891
a girl will look for something about the guy that interests them.like eyes, smile, butt, or some other physical attraction. then the girl will approch the guy and start talking to him. if you are in a place with alot of people and if that happens she is so interested.
28354
As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
1117250
hmm..\ni like girls who are there own person.\na girl who has there own personality\nsomeone who is funny like me, but can\nbe serious when they should be.\ni like girls who are beautiful and amazing,\nbut yet smart and understanding.\ni like girls who like to have fun, and party\nbut dont over do it. Pretty much i like girls who are like me.lol\nbye bye\njakeey
770123
Well, different guys look for different things.  It's really hard to narrow it down to things that guys tend to want in general, but I'll try.\n\nFirst, I think they want the girl to take them for who they are.  I also think they like girls who try to look nice, but at the same time, don't obsess over it.\n\nFor myself, I tend to like women who are gentle and tend to be at least somewhat soft-spoken, because that matches my personality.
616596
Offcourse Guys like if their GF's are cute and attractive.\nBut external appearance is not just that works all the time.\n\nThere are 2 types of attraction.\n\n1. A guy gets attracted to a girl at a first sight. it might be a crush or infatuation or it might be a deep love in the coming days also. But here a guy takes no time to decide what is wrong or right. Sudden decission might lead him to the wrong path also.\n\n2. But where as a guy gets attracted to a girl who is having a good heart and who cares for the Boy friend. This can lead him to take any step in his life. Even he rejects the girl who is more attractive than the girl who is good in her heart and caring.\n\nExternal Beauty doesnt run for a long time. \nInternal beauty does make sense and life to understand to its full meaning.\n\n\nIf ur looks r beautiful then it is good. But if ur heart is wealthy then u r very good. If you hav both then u r the best.\n\nBye.\nkeep smiling always
650754
Innitally - Height and hair.  True attraction is based on personality.