One problem, should I break-up and get one of these other guys? - guys preffered please?
818587
oh wow... uh, get rid of the loser. stay friends with crush, and stay friends with best friends((best friends and long distance relationships don't work out that great))
789087
The grass is always greener...  IMO, stick with your current boyfriend and forget about the first one. Or, stay single. Perhaps you aren't ready for a commitment with either yet if you are having difficulties deciding between them.  Goodluck with whatever you decide to do. :-)
488758
I say listen to your heart. Be true to yourself. If that other guy really loves u then i wouldn't take my chances messing that up for this one that just wanna come around all the sudden.
890669
U just like those guys to hang out with. I would date either one of them. Because once ya'll start dating,things are going to change, rather you like it or not and you might not want that to happen. But if you want to date one you have to sleep on it for a long time. Jusst think of whats going to happen. or see which one is more important. Maybe you shouldnt date him.
789975
YOU NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHO YOU WANT TO BE WITH. SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED TO TAKE SOME TIME APART FROM YOUR BOYFRIEND SO THAT YOU CAN FIGURE OUT YOUR FEELINGS. THIS HAPPENS ALOT IN LIFE. THE KEY IS TO WEIGH YOUR PROS AND CONS. IF YOUR YOUNGER THEN DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT BECAUSE LATER DONWN THE LINE YOU WON'T EVEN KNOW THESE BOYS LAST NAMES.
202821
Your friends are right.  You need to break this cycle and stop living your life waiting for something that may never happen.  You deserve a man who will choose you first over all other girls and not one that can't make up his mind and picks you only when it is convenient.  This guy is just playing you and keeping you around for when his other relationship has problems.
239821
Try the other man. If you can trust him go for it.
799023
Please don't do the typical guy thing and feed your ego with the other 3.  If you like the one you are with tell them you are unavailable and want to see we things go with the current person you are seeing.\n\nYou seem like a good guy for being concerned and asking.  Don't hurt her or you may lose a good thing.\n\nGood Luck
344470
it depends if you really do still want him, but remember that maybe the other girls are just his friends, don't get jealous. dont right out ask him for something more, try giving him more so that maybe he'll understand and give you more back. i do think that you should stay with him though if you've gone 8 months without any other problems
217988
Break the mould and actually be friends with all four. If any one of those guys are decent they will wait for you...if they just walk away cos you dont give in easy then that gets rid of the trash...\n\nAfter that if you are still left with a few that have stuck by you and are really keen then follow your heart
677896
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
626109
If you and your boyfriend we're truely happy you wouldn't be checking out other guys, there has to be some underlying relationship problems if you have fallen for another guy. Its only fair that you are honest with both guys, and more importantly yourself. You need to do what's best for you, if your unhappy with your boyfriend you need to get out of the relationship. Even if your feeling for the other guy pass (and that's highly unlikely that you will suddenly not like him anymore) there will be other guys after that. Reevaluate your current beau.
692528
Get someone else out of your mind. Don't break up with him, but whatever you do ask your heart, hon.
455921
I think the guy you hate is Ugly! JK, You love your boyfriend so much and he loves you so much. So I think that No one can break you guys up. You guys are always there for each other and When I see you guys not together it will feel strange to me because you guys have been dating 4 so long. Go with the heart and not with the head.
496927
You sound confused. If you don't want to be with him ad want to break up, why wait. You are stringing him around, and at the same time you are holding on to him in case you don't like what you have got planned with the other person
92539
If youlove your boyfriend then you stay with him but make sure that the other dude kinda knows whats up in case anything goes wrong with you current dude.  thas what i would do if i was a chick.
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more