For the lesbians: Would you find this offensive?
823287
Hey, we all have persnickety moments.She was bitching about the job and you made a joke.It was funny! I would have bust a gut laughing if one of my gay friends had said that to me.She was still in her "bitching frame of mind and it caught her off guard is my guess!\nI always asked my buddies at work," what do dykes and mechanics have in common? We both use Snap-On tools! LOL! I was a mechanic before I retired.The Looks I'd get! That was funnier than the joke!\nYou sound like a nice guy to have as a friend!
1174266
You want lesbian run restaurants and hotels?  Seems like an odd question for this group.
297466
Oh offense is taken, although you can mean to trigger a person so that they'll take it as offensive and be offended.  So take as offense offered and taken.  ;)  After all, it's up to you how you take things.  Some people aren't offended by some things certain other people are, so...  that's that.  :)
7896
Good question, In one word, NO\n\nKissing , and flirting is a highly personal and private thing, I am personally offended and embarised when a public display is in front of me, as well I was during my last relationship.\n\nI am from old world generation upbringing and I believe that  is you display this type of behaviour it is attention seeking type behaviour and is almost disrepectfull.  \n\nBTW I am ultra conservative and very opposed to gay marriage just for the record.
474864
What kind of question is this?I find it offensive
953276
No.  As long as they weren't being offensive in what they said when gossiping to others about what they believed my sexuality to be.  Most of my Friends are pretty straight shooters.  We try to not gossip over much about things concerning the group.  We tend to circle the wagons.  if she or he WERE malicious in their commentary, I would be offended by the way they talked.  Not by what they said.  And no...I'm not gay.  I'm Italian and Irish.  Very passionate people.  We do alot of hugging.  Way touchy feely races of people I come from.  Could be mis-construed.  I've had a number of gay woman come on to me.  lol   I take it as compliment, but don't take them up on the offer.  :)
967897
I would but I'm not going to do it just to please you or anyone else for that matter.  It is a private concern and you should be asking this of your local kink groups, not the net in general and expect a response on D/s relationships for such a carelessly worded question.
902213
Now that is what gives us a bad name.  No offense, but I would not want a guy to think he can change me to being straight, was never there and never want to be.  I would rather be with a lesbian anytime.  So, the answer to your question is no, I have never tried to convert a straight girl.  Too many lesbians out there, more than enough to go around.  Have a good night anyway.
825121
I would be offended.I admit I find it funny,and sometimes I cringe.We shouldn't support it.If it was my race I would feel like everyone was laughing at me.It would feel the same as being bullied.
242353
yes. It wouldn't hurt. Because you are just asking her something harmless.
622116
Have I ever seen a lot of lesbians, doing lesbian things.  I am not ashamed to admit that I like what people call 'gay bars'... thats where all the GOOD MUSIC is, I dont want to hear the latest top 40 hip/pop every hour on the hour, thanks.  They are not as violent and competitive, not as many tramps, I like to dance, all night long, and I dont like to be bothered. Frankly, they usually smell better too.  I do wear a spiked belt, it seems to keep strange men's hands off my waist, though I dont really attract that kind of attention much.  \n\nI dont like lesbians, and they are not sexy at all to me, they are kind of anti-sexy.   Once I realize they are lesbian I am no longer interested.  Why torture yourself?  I will watch them walk by like I watch any shape I am fond of, I mean: they can be attractive and everything, but I dont sit around and fanticize about them.  I did have the opportunity to engage in activity with a couple of girls.  It was uncomfortable, I was like: WTF?  I mean, I got over it, but I didnt jump at the chance when it came up the next day.  Thats right, I said NO.     \n\nBut its 'cool' to like lesbians, because they are so hot... so really, its a man thing, if you dont like lesbians, you must be gay, etc... etc... thats bs.  You can thank the adult entertainment industry for that one.  Granted, there is a certain amount of logic behind not wanting to watch some man's :    : in action, but I for one am secure enough in my sexuality to not care, I mean, what girl wants to watch a couple of lesbians with her man?  Oh, y'all are watching it alone?  Sounds like reeeaal fun!\n\nThe main reason I dont like lesbians is that they dont like me.  I wouldnt wast time and effort thinking about or acting on a lesbian, I have no fantasies of making them 'switch teams',  I have lesbian friends, and I have even gone out with a bisexual, I dont persue them.     \n\nLesbians make good friends too, because you dont have to worry about them falling in love with you, or them thinking that you will fall in love with them.  So it takes away a lot of the tension that normally occures between men and women.  I dont have many guy friends... most men irritate me... drooling at lesbians, and stuff...lol
501223
Frankly I think it's disgusting. I have no idea why anyone would find that appealing, but to each his/her own. I also don't think it's very appropriate to talk about that in a public setting.
693591
I suppose you may have a point.\n\nBut what if someone said these things about you, could you take it as constructive criticism, or would you be highly offended?\n\nWe all have a huge mountain to climb.
1139760
Well dear, as Pop and I always say, "It takes all kinds." Those no account close minded bigots who can't deal with you being a lesbian can just go and... MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS. Now go get you a piece of apple pie...
1149492
I agree with you on the first ones, but 'gay' and 'lesbian' are merely the sexual identities. The only reason they would be disrespectful would be the way in which they are used.
535469
Absolutely NOT!! That's just sick and perverted I'm absolutely disgusted by that!! \n\nOf course it's okay!
76490
Well, I havent ever heard that before.  I wear a thumb ring and I am straight... and quite frankly, I would continue to wear one even if they have been deemed "lesbian."  What difference does it make anyway?