please help me.......i dont know wt to talk with my girlfriend......i ran out of topics........?
824685
Then don't talk to her.
437596
you and my girlfriend have something in common. She knows what it is like to be in your shoes. Her one time friend was my ex-girfriend. After my ex and I split up a year after, I began seeing the girl i am with now. we have been together for almost a year now. I posted a question on this subject a while back. \nto answer your question... I think a letter is a good way to start. If you were to approach her, pride might keep her from listening to what you have to say with open arms. If you send her a letter, she can read what you feel in privacy... without having to be forced to control her emotions and her curiousity will allow you to get everything out to her. Then its up to her of course.
937045
Talk it over with your boyfriend, openly and honestly. Discuss what worked then and what isn't working now. Discuss what each of you want out of the relationship and from sex. Ask questions about how you can please him, give information about how he can please you. Listen with your heart to what he is saying. Talk to his heart about your wants and needs. Then, after discussing, practice what you talked about. You might consider taking a night, a weekend, or a vacation away to get away from the usual distractions and focus on pleasing each other and putting your talk into action.
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Often people run out of things to talk about in a relationship, how sad. There are lots of things you can talk about. I suggest asking lots of questions. What do each of you do for fun is a good start. Politics and religion aren't bad things to talk about like someone here said because you have to make sure your compatible. If the person you are dating isn't asking questions perhaps they are boring and you should move on. Don't be afraid to open yourself up a bit, share your life and he/she will also share theirs.
50965
you should ask her straight up.  Just say, hey, what's going on?  tell her that you're confused.  communication is key, man!
1100921
chat about what your into ask what shes into i.e. thai boxing or something like that or music - it will go from there if you get on!!
991249
its summer, everybody is busy, i went from talking to my girlfriend every night to like once a month in a course of a month, once summer slows down youll have time again, just let it ride :)
498374
girl I know how u feel and all i can tell u is to suck it up and call him. plan out some topics but make it a short conversation so u don't have a chance to run out of things to say.
1031272
Spend more time with her, and talk to her more, you should be talking a lot anyway because shes your girlfriend, she might be hiding the fact tht shes upset youguys dont talk much.
282793
Ask her how her day went...ask her what she feels about this and that....Tell her the coolest thing that youdid today....talk about anything...
743473
Communication is the foundation of any relationship.  You have to break free from your shyness and start talking to these girls that you are interested in.  Do your best to have idle chit chat and you should be able to overcome it pretty easily.  Good Luck!
488643
there is only 1 answer to this question. remember it because you'll need it forever. If you're curious about what your gf would like, ask her. communication is the glue that holds all relationships together. learn it now and you'll have aneasier time once you marry
849048
Sounds like your girlfriend isn't really in a "fun" mood right now, friend. Honestly, just be there for her. There is nothing you can say or do to help her get over such serious traumas, so always be ready to lend an ear or a hand. I promise this is help you guys get closer, and by the time she's ready to move on with her life, you'll have a better relationship than you would have without any og this.
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you could pick a topic that would interest both of you.I had a hard time talking on the phone when i first met my fiance.I just brought up subjects that I thought would interest him or I would ask what he wanted to do over the weekend.
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Talk about anything that pops up in your head. Talk about your day, what you guys are gonna do when you meet up later, the last book you read, the last movie you saw, tell each other jokes, recent news, recent gossip, music, the pollution problem, sporks, your favorite foods, etc. Basically just go with the flow. Sort of like playing 'Telephone'. You know how 'Telephone' is played right?
557324
Hello is always a good start...Then just ask how her day went. But if she's not the talkative type(I know I'm not) Then just ask simple yes or no questions til she feels more comfortable to talk.
424617
Well it all depends on what it is you want to talk to her about. Give us more details. One thing that won't fail, make sure she is happy, ex. give her a gift, then break the news. She might be mad (if you did something wrong) but she will get over it when she sees her gift. Seriously though, just tell her what you want to tell her. She is your gf for a reason. I'm sure she will understand whatever it is you have to say