Is my girlfriend having a Orgasm?
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She could easily be faking it if those contractions are not present. (I'm a woman, but I've never understood the logic in faking it, when that only promotes the very thing that is leaving us unsatisfied.)... Anyway, I'm pressuming your fingers are inside her, and if so, you should be able to feel those contractions.  No matter how strong our inner muscles are, we can't really fake the strenght and frequency of orgasmic spasms.\n\nSome girls find it difficult to reach orgasm.  Often because of hang-ups or sexual prejudices (sadly, we've still haven't quite  overcome the old teachings that sex was something a man enjoyed and a woman endured.).  If she's relunctant to touch herself, she probably doesn't know how to best stimulate herself and cannot show you what works for her.  If she's not getting as wet as she could, your ministrations might very well irritate her and she's faking it so that you'd stop.  Or she might have some psychological block that prevents her from letting go of herself to that extent.  Orgasm is a very vulnerable time and sometimes it's hard to let go if you don't really trust the person  you're sharing it with.\n\nYou can also tell when a woman is having an orgasm by her coloring.  She would blush basically all over.  Her whole body would become warmer and her breathing should become more shallow (another thing you can't really fake. How self involved does a man have to be to be fooled like that?).  In some cases, you can even see her pulse racing.\n\nBy the way, this is a fairly anonimous site, so I wouldn't worry that she might be upset by you posting this question here.  I wouldn't suggest you discussing it with people close to her, though.\n\nAsk her.  Try to get her to open up.  That's really the best way to find out what she's really feeling... Good luck
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Yes !  It   happen......but   don't   worry   about   it....only   if   she's complaining.....sometimes   small   is   good   too..... but     if   she's     complaining      she   should  give   thanks    that   she   got    some......and   there's   lots   of   different  ways  that  you  both   can   enjoy   sexuality    together.\nBest    wishes   and   good   luck
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They make this little Vibrator called a "Lifesaver" really cool and she will get a laugh, then maybe some Perfume! ;-)\nIF, this a girlfriend, take her some place special. NOT expensive, but, fun.
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The intensity of a woman's orgasm has more to do with her head ie state of mind then with any physical manipulation.  If she is able to relax and is "open" to the idea (of using a vibrator) most likely she'll have the orgasm.
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There body will contract. Literally contract. Forget about noises - they can be fake. But honestly, when a female orgasms, her entired body will contract.
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Most women consider a fast orgasm to be about as exciting as a sneeze. Why the heck would you want to make that a goal? And, unless you have her hooked up to scientific gizmos (now that's romantic), you won't know if it's real or not (no matter what any guy says. All those "ways you can tell," like flushing, vaginal contractions, etc.? Can. All. Be. Faked. Trust me).\n\nIf you're looking to give a woman a fast orgasm so you can get it over with, I don't know why you'd care whether the orgasm was real or not. If you're looking to please a woman, stop thinking about orgasms and start making real love to her.
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Give her 20 min. that would be 40 orgasms. Enough right? Then you can get down to your business, and she will be more than happy to do anything for you. After 40 orgasms, I would.
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I thought I would add a mans prospective if you don't mind.  I would definately say yes, how will your partner really know if he is pleasing you and you can be robbing yourself of all of the loving pleasure you should be sharing with your partner.  Take the time to show him what really makes you moan for real and your relationship will be so much better for it.\n\nUnfortunately I am talking through experience, I thought I was pleasing my girlfriend and it hurt to think I wasn't when I found out but once we talked about what did make her moan I was alot more happier.\n\nAll the best
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You can tell if she is faking because it is to much, unless your packing.  It depends, the fake moans are usually to get it over with because that is what makes some of you guys get done.  Or she can be doing it to fake an orgasm.    If her moans are not in sync with your sex then more then likely she is faking.  I don't want to get graphic so that's all I can say for now.
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on a womans point of you  there is no way you would know for sure if were having an orgasm, it's not about screaming or anything like that, you'll never know....unless she's 100% honest with you if thats the case i would question if she's truly a woman see the original birth certificate if you know what i mean
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According to me, she would appreciate the love which a man showers on her. If she is happy with that, she would attain the orgasm. Even without orgasm also, she would be happy as long as she belives that the man is making love b'coz he loves the girl.
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WHAT THE HELL? YOU DO NT EVEN GIVE HER AN ORGASM!! BOY YOU NEED TO MAKE HER ORGASM SO MANY TIMES TILL SHE SAYS TO STOP (AND THEN!!!!) GO A LITTLE MORE. AT THAT POINT YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT. EVEN CHEAT BECAUSE IF YOUR GOOD IN BED SHE AIN'T EVER GONNA LEAVE. BECAUSE YOU WILL BE THE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Yes girls do! How else can we have an orgasm?
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Maybe you aren't giving her orgasms. Lots of women fake it. How do you know she is doing it if you aren't home?
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I've heard it's possible, it's not from too many orgasms, it's from a woman's body having one that is far more intense.
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It's called "female ejaculation". If she "squirts" that means that she has reached her peak becasue you've stimulated her g-spot. It's like having the orgasm of all orgasms. Every woman wants to achieve it, but not many women can do this. What come out is just mucus, female lubrication.
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She may consider it a threat to her ability to please you.  Assure her that it is just another way you like to feel good.  Maybe ask her to watch or to participate.  Ask her to do it herself for you if she feels comfortable.