wat is the best thing to do wen lesbian i want outside opinion?
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Lick her external parts between her legs.\nI always find them sensitive.
1134854
listen chick. any non lesbian female has guy problems
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Female of course! I might want to do something besides just talk.
509732
Try kissing another girl. That'll cause a stir.
684968
Tell her you like her shoes or her earrings, something small that is not near her chest or butt so she doesn't think you're thinking of her just sexually. It sounds lame but women like people to notice the small things they do to look nice. Tell her she looked interesting and you just wanted to see if you could chat with her. I think often the best conversation starters are movies, books, and music. They are pretty universal and most people have an opinion about what they like and don't like. It's also a good way to get a feel for whether or not you are compatible. If she seems excited about a subject or her eyes light up when you are telling her something go with it and try to explore it further.
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Go to a lesbian site!!duh!!!
422772
Try coffee shops, book stores, festivals. Sport your colors and be flirty with the chicks- but not too flirty. That way if they arent gay or bi, they don't take offense. All in all, be yourself....... or give me a call. ;-)
635309
well, the gay thing rules out my first choice, a church, but u could get involved in the community. Join an organization in the town, there is bound to be at least one lesbian in the town.
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Go online!  Honestly for women that is one of the few places to meet other bi/lesbian women....you can't exactly go up to some chick @ a bar or restaurant and say "hey, you're cute...wanna come home w/ me?"  Lol...go on myspace or yahoo personals or some other dating website...good luck!
1169319
Don't worry about it. If you've done nothing wrong then they can't get a restraining order. They can't get one because you're lesbian and They don't know what your intentions are. Like you said, They've no evidence.\nThey are just bluffing. Take no notice and try not to worry about it.
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Just act like your gay or think of her as one of the guys(and don't try any funny business).  Just enjoy her company and point of view like (i assume) she enjoys yours.  I love having male friends it keeps me well rounded.
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Question in English:\n"What's your opinion about lesbianism?"\n\nFirst answer:\n"Different fields for different grasshoppers.\nLive and let live. There are enough troubles in this world."\n\nMy answer: "What? Not good. The more lesbians, the fewer women for us!"\n"Tidak baik. Kalau lebih banyak lesbian, kurang banyak bagi kami!"
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go to some gay nightclubs/bars or a lesbian website
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If you are not gay, tell her. If you are, go for it.
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Turn the knob, open the door and walk out! lol, just kidding. Only tell the people closest to you for one thing. No one else needs to know... well maybe except for the one you have your eye on. You can choose to invite them all over for coffee and tell them all at once. Or talk to each person privately one at a time. I would prefer to get it all out at once. I have a very open family.... and community for that matter, so it wouldn't be a problem for me. Heck, I live in the Lesbian capital of America! I'd fit right in if I decided to go that direction!
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If you want to know if someone else is a lesbian, ask her.\n\nIf you want to know if you are a lesbian then answer this quick checklist:\n\nDo you want to f*ck women?\nDo you have sexual feelings about women?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of women?\n\nIf you answered yes to one or more of these questions then you are a lesbian or bisexual woman.  If you answered no, then you are straight.  Next ask yourself:\n\nDo you want to f*ck men?\nDo you have sexual feelings about men?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of men?\n\nIf you answered Yes to one or more of these questions, then you are bisexual.  If you answered no to all of the above then you are a lesbian.
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Well if you're not what u say you are then just be honest and tell her who you are.  But this is the Internet so there are two possible situations in which you might want to take greater care.  1.) if you're a lesbian, fine.  but if you're a lesbian and you have feelings for her- don't tell her about it.  I mean, she can know about your sexuality but if she's straight there's no reason to try anything with her.  that's like a four year old who has a crush on his teacher.  What's the point in saying so?  she wouldn't date him anyway.  \n2.) if you're really a man?  she'd probably not speak to you again.  if you want to continue being her friend, keep pretending.\n\nif it isn;t either of those, then spill the beans in a non confrontational way and don;t offer excuses for not telling her sooner- just apologize.