I'm having brother-in-law & sister problems PLEZ HELP?!?!?!?!?
815486
Sounds to me like they are trying to act better than they really are.  Have you told them how they are acting? (sometimes people really don't know)  If you've tried talking to them and they won't listen you may just have to play their little game with them.  Stop babysitting for them and stop letting them in the house until they pull their heads out of their butts and grow up.
828805
Well, you've got to do what you've got to do, but be prepared to alienate (at least) your brother-in-law and his wife.  It sounds like he is very self centered and, I would bet, the boss in his family (strong type A personality).  I don't know where it will stop, but there will be a lot of really stinky stuff floating around-and may never dissipate.  A person with his personality will definitely blame you for the problems that arise.  From what you have said he thinks his time is far more valuable than others and, therefore, will not understand your anger.
944420
I'll advise you stick to hope that things will improve with time. Your friend's brother is probably still angry about something that may have happened in your relationship with your fiancee or with himself. You may need to summon courage to ask to discuss your differences. Meanwhile stick to hope and the positive - the fact that your fiancee still sticks up for you. She and mom are still on your side, aren't they? That's enough to sustain hope. Best wishes for a happy resolution.
339623
All I can say is that you and your sister both know better and need to nip this in the budd. She is your sister! There is a big difference between a "sister" and a "lover." What yall two have been doing is called incest/lust. If she was to get pregnant yals child would be deformed, not to mention the heartache that your family has to endure when they find out. If yall don't end this matter now, yall will never be able to fully recover yalls brother-sister relationship as it should be. I would suggest sleeping in separate rooms from now on.  Also, ask yourself this question, if you died today. do you think you would go to heaven or hell for all eternity. This is something for you to seriously think about. The Bible states that all liars, sexual immoral, adulters, etc place is in the lake of fire. Please repent yall before its too late.
1032789
She's his girlfriend not yours. I'd say talk to your brother and if that doesnt work just back off.
189977
I really think you know the answer.  If you feel she is separating you from God, it should be clear.  Besides, do you realy want to add conflict with your husband when he doesn't trust her?  You have to take care of yourself, it doesn't matter if your brother is involved.  If he has a relationship with her, you may be forced into the friendship in a way.  My wife has a similar problem with her sister-in-law.  We just try to avoid her as much as possible and deal with her brother when we can.  Good luck.
1089742
Why would you do that? Is she taking up all his time? Are you jealous? Maybe you know something about her and you dont want your brother hurt. Whatever it is back off, its his life let him live it.
701053
Give your brother some advice. Tell him to get a lawyer and get his assets together ASAP. Then stay out of it. As for her, tell her not to bring her marriage into your relationship with her. Its not fair to you because you love your brother. \n\nDo you think maybe she is telling you because she thinks you will tell him? Hmmmm She is a game player.
94173
block their #s from your phone. write to your in laws (return reciept) and tell them point blank: this is MY husband NOT your little boy. you've done all the raising of MY HUSBAND that you will ever do. mother in law, if you have a husband then HE needs to provide for you. MY HUSBAND does not need to provide anything for you. that's YOUR husband's job. and to sis: do you have husband? no. then you are your PARENTS responibility. go get a life i got mine. and tell your husband to get a SPINE and use it. he chose you not his sister.
1044665
That sounds very rude and inconsiderate to me.  If she asked your sister then she asked her so she should stay.  She can just let her friend know that the spot has been filled because she declined.  I dunno man, but to me she is already setting a bad example for married life if she can't even stay true to her word and cant even show respect for your family.  Looks like you got some thinking to do.  Good luck.
641139
It's your mother. Screw other people and what they think.  Move her into your house and let the brother in law and husband fight it out with each other. You and your mom can watch from the sidelines.
448891
Is the brother in law your sister's husband or your husband's brother? This is so sick that not even the J e r r y  S p r i n g e r  S h o w  would touch. Ok maybe he would ... :-0 I can't believe you're asking our opinion on this!!! Isn't it obvious to you what you should do? If this is your sister's husband make sure to tell your sister..there are too many diseases out there. btw if you stay with this loser you will deserve all the heartache you will get! Be smart-get out now!!!
815999
Your in a tough spot and I don't agree with unwanted guest.  BUT it is the holidays and you don't want to seem like a complete jerk by saying they can't come.  At least this time it is family his sister right?  So holidays are about family and sharing so your going to have to accept her 'partner' as part of your family.  If you keep pushing him away he may make your mother start spending the holidays away from you...since his family is excluded.  Do you see my point?  \nSo to keep the peace just suck it up and set out two extra places and try to keep the holiday spirit in your heart even though you want to strangle him!!
116053
mostly in-laws are hard to get along with each other.  some reasons are both sides are so insecure with each other.  u are in the center.  dont take her side or your family side be in the middle.  did u ever talk to your mom if she knows any reason why your wife is treating them like that?  u can talk to your wife and tell her that your family is not comfortable that the way she treats them.  but dont be sound like you are taking your family side.  she might freak out and start an argument.  its really hard if your family get invloved with your marriage.  sometimes u feel like u need to choose between them.  but i'm pretty sure u both love your family and your wife.  u dont want to hurt any of them.  u have to talk to them.  u dont have to leave your wife u just need to talk to her about that problem.
650727
Guess I missed the first question...but, appears your brother is in love with a trouble maker.  I hate to tell you this, but my brother had a wife that didn't want him talking to family/sisters/mom.  She managed to get him to move 1000 miles away from the rest of the family.  They ended up divorced, but thanks to her jealousy/interference, we no longer have a relationship with our brother.
602405
I can't stand my inlaws!! They are so fake! They act like they like me but, behide my back they talk about me. I have acually heard her talk about me! I can't believe they can be that way! I had tried so hard in the begining to get along with them but I stopped that a long time ago! I guess first impressions mean alot because that was when she brushed me off when I said hello. If my husban is not home and she calls I don't pick up the phone and she knows I'm home. I know that get's her upset. But I love it!! So my suggestion is focus on your fam and avoid her! But ofcoures say hello once in a blue moon. I know you not getting along with her came create unwanted problems in your relationship! Best of luck:)
857872
Oh girl I am in the same situation, except it is my sister's HUSBAND!!!  Personally, I would put him in his place.  Tell him you are not interested in him like that.  If he continues then you will have to be a little more forceful and start avoiding him whenever possible.  Never be alone with him.  Everything he does to you try to document it.  Save his emails, voicemails, and text messages, because when your friend does find out guess who she is going to believe....not you.  Cover yourself.  Also, try to get him to hit on a third party friend and show your friend what an idiot he really is.