A girl from my course said she is going to a club tomorrow and I have been feeling disconnected?
817985
Just ask. If you dont ask you dont get.
79129
umm its only been two days why are you freaking out. i dont like it when a girl is after me every day bugs me. just chill and call her tomorrow
4014
Unfortunately, what this means is not that the girl is interested (right now) but that she is being a little bit selfish.  If you are young, this is natural.  She enjoys having someone to hang out with and go on vacations with but that doesn't necessarily reflect on her feelings for you.  If she was interested than she would not be WILLING to hold your hand, but rather would be looking forward to any type of contact with you.  Her memories are more of what she has done or where she has gone, rather than of you.  However, in the future she could develop feelings for you.  If you want to know how she feels about you, try spending time with her with limited entertainment.  Just invite her over to listen to music and talk.  If she is interested in you, this will appeal to her and if not, she will decline until you present a more tempting offer like going on an awesome vacation.  Good luck.
974808
Your old friend is probably feeling betrayed by you.  She thought that she was doing a good thing by being nice to the 'new girl' and in turn has lost her best friend.  \n\nyou probably need to make it known that she still means as much to you as before and that you dont want another person to come between you.  Good luck and let me know what happens
688383
talk to her. her friends were being a bunch of b!tches. does she ever talk to you like in the halls or during class? she smiled at you, that's always a good sign. well i hope i helped! good luck!
1027864
Hey i think u should now concentrate on ur studies..i feel she's trying to get u to feel jealous..just move on with life...answer her calls once in a while and tell ur movin away and u want to concentrate on ur studies..cuz this is the age where ur whole future depends on ur studies in college..dont waste time tryin to tlk to her...MOVE ON DUDE! All The Best.Tke Cre.
102646
She feels a little uncomfortable now, she thought you felt like she did (just hangin' buddies). She's trying to keep the friendship but not make you feel she's interested in a relationship. It's probably hard now for both of you to act like nothing ever happened. \n Someone must have really hurt her bad before for her to be afraid of a serious relationship. And it may be something she doesn't want to talk about yet, to anyone. Just call her and say, "Hey, Buddy, What cha' doing. Wanta hang out LIKE OLD TIMES??" (And just let the past be past about what you told her. Don't mention it.)  \n If you can't do this, just tell her you have to serious of feelings for her to just be friends and you think 'hanging out' would be too uncomfortable for both of you. If she does have serious feelings for you, she'll tell you. If not just let her go her way. \nGood Luck.
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Ok Evan, \nHeres what I would do. Use one of your common interest, and go play golf or do whatever theyou both would enjoy. just spend the day wiht her, see what she likes and dislikes, like flowers movies ect. then when you feel like you have a better understaning of who she is and what she like, take her somewhere special, bring her flowers and tell her how you feel. If you take the time to get to know her she will most likely respond better to you! Not to mention probably be impressed with the time you took to rally understand her. Good luck, and I hope it all works out for you!\n\nSincerely\nDelivered_won
775818
Yes you should hold the friendship you had with her really dear.One of dis days you'll be glad you did but dat doesnt mean you can't make other friends.I guess it was a wonderful feeling but am sure if she has any means to communicate with you,she definitely will.Cheer up.
351981
This may not be possible.  How hurt was she?\nIf you are serious, look for her.  Try to talk to her in person.  Make sure she understands that you are not a player and that you really do feel sorry for any grief you may have caused.\nLet her know that you want quality time, not just a casual encounter.  Spill you guts.  Confess to your stupidity and lack of sensitivity.  Beg if necessary.\nOf if you don't feel that strongly about her, forget it.  It was never meant to be.
550771
I know how you feel,except mine was a guy.When I had finaly told him,he never talked to me again,but grls are different.Just spend more time ith her, ask he4r questions about life and love.See how she feels first.You dont want to rush things,but you don't want her hanging on the edge of her seat waiting for you to tell her.If I were her,I would want you to tell me,and if I didn't feel the same at that time I'ld let you know.If you do tell her,and she shunns you, don't let it get to you.It sounds like you're a very kind and sweet person.You could get any grrl....\n\n\n~~~~Panda Grrl
961021
maybe she has changed her mind about talking to you about your trip or maybe she is not sure how you are gonna react and not sure if she should or not, perhaps you could kindly jog her memory and ask her if she wanted to caht about it, that would air any worries she has and also put your minda at ease\nhave a good trip
796384
Man, you think you are lonely now, wait until she gets into it. You won't see her because she is going to be all over every frat guy around! ha ha ha ha. Sucks to be you, try not to think about it.
428623
I believe she did see you. I guess she may have feelings for more than just friends feelings. She probably felt that you should spend time with because if you start hanging out with other girls than she will probably feel left out and alone. I am just telling you how she maybe feels it is a possible. Girls gets jealous of other girls all the time. Especially when they feel intimidated. So just talk to her about it and you never know what could happen. Basically she don't want to lose since ya'll are best friends. Good luck and just talk to her about the situation.
780840
Sounds like she was interested, and waiting for you to make a move. When you didn't she decided to change tactic and see if she gets a reaction out of you with her current behaviour.\n\nTell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel that way, it's not like you lost anything.
44188
i really feel you, i just experienced the same ordeal.she didnt go to another country, but she was only 2 hours away.i can tell you that alot of times long distant relations dont work, or at least they havent worked for me.
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I think you should relax and take it easy. The more anxious you get about the meeting the more it is bound to blow up in your face.\n\nEnjoy the day with her and feel the situation out. You should be able to tell after a while if she has the same feelings that you do for her.