Why doesn't my boyfriend pay attention to me?
813187
It's just the stress and excitement they are under. My husband is in AIT and alot of his friends are like that. They figure because they have thier phones, they can talk to you anytime, so they'll just talk to you later. Tell him exactly how it makes you feel when he doesn't take time out for you and then tell him exactly how to change that. Come up with a very clear solution. Make it easy for him, and he is more likely to do it. \n\nI also find that there isn't all that much for them to talk about with us. Alot of times they aren't allowed to talk about school (which is what they have been doing all day) so make sure you have something to talk about when he calls.
481078
I was in the same situation believe it or not.  He is just a little shy around you because he likes you. it looks like you kinda have to be the leader in this relationship because it sure doesn't look like he is. that's what i think.\nBest of luck
470345
no not normal. Very inconsiderate towards you. try talking to him later and calmly ask him to look at it from your pov
748370
Because now that you're together, he thinks your his 'property' and he can do anything sexual, no matter where you are! If you don't like it, tell him to stop. If that doesn't work set ground rules, if he's still ignoring you, dump him! You want a boyfriend not pervert!
725336
honey, if your having a hard time keeping your man's attention then you need to find a new man that is more interested in YOU.  but  while your still out with your man and you notice him paying more attention to the 'scenery' than you... you should look around yourself and as soon as you see someone else that looks good, keep your eyes on him even if your man starts to talk to you.. show him what it feels like not to have all of your undivided attention! ;)
362094
ignores u??? hmmm...seems he jus wantd to b physically involved wid u...ask him whts the deal n tell him abt ur feelings ...\nif he improves, good; else u shd nt allow him to use u more n move on...
418696
try talking to him about it... if he ignores you then u can always say u tried! ... noone could stay with someone like that, if you really feel he doesnt like you just tell him and break up, it might be hard but u can rest assured its the best option, u deserve better... wishin u the best!!!
487563
I'm a guy...Ladies, if your bf is not giving you enough attention and you are not a spoiled brat (I'm not saying you are), then he isn't in love with you, not matter what he says! If a guy truly loves you, attention would be the least of your problems! If I love the woman I'm with, nothing else can get my attention. If you have to fight for attention, move on and find another guy...there are plenty to go around. Expecting 100% is expecting too much however, the guy does need a life and you should have one to. It is not healthy to be together ALL of the time...that makes for a dull relationship. Ever hear..."absence make the heart grow fonder"? Well it does, try it once in a while.
164538
listen, it's like this, people misunderstand other people everywhere and allways. there is nobody who will understand you completely and utterly, there are just some people who understand you more or less, worse or better.they try. but sometimes it's just impossible, because every personality is very complicated.\nthen about boyfriend. first option: if he doesn't believe you - it;s his problem, you'll have more guys in a day or two. second option - you really care about him and your relationships then go and talk to him. make him listen or just try to hug him.\ngood luck
123727
Show him how much you care about him. Whether he is your boyfriend, or just a friend, let him know that there is someone who cares about him.
125769
He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
366738
He might be pulling the whole "distant and mean" routine in order to get you to initiate the break-up.  If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, I would bet that this is the case.\n\nThat being said, there is a good likelihood that he is simply at a junction in his life where he is having to divert some of his attention from you and put it on other things.  This happens from time to time and it is something you will have to come to deal with if you ever hope to forge a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with someone.
667418
A relationship of two months is still a very young one, where the people in it (even if they have been friends for a long time before) don't know each other, in that environment, too well.\nIf you feel he is ignoring you, ask him why. It's better to be bold once than to have the doubt a  million times. You don't have to be crude or even too personal: ask him if something is bothering him in general, and if so, what is it. \nHe could have changed his attitude for a million, absolutely innocent reasons: he may be concerned about something, busier than usual, or he may have some kind of issue with his mother... one never knows. \nIf he did have some kind of problem about your relationship, ask him what can be done to solve it. You are at such an early stage of your relationship that probably most things have a solution. It's the right time to solve them, and to develop a really good communication dynamic between the two of you. \nGood luck.
271801
Don't be mad at this following comment: but, you should find away to feel more secure about who you are. The less you care about this issue the happier you will be. Try to accept his behavior, and if you can dump him. However, check yourself fist: every one notices attractive people. Some people are just more socially tactful then other. Your boyfriend sounds like he is really bad at tact. But, can you really say that you never find other men attractive? How about movie stars, musicians or models? The problem doesn't begin with looking, it begins when people act on their desires.
152513
Do him like he does you- and make it obvious that your looking... (thats what I do)... I turn my head and be smiling.. my boyfriend acts like he don't see me, but he does, b/c he'll get all quiet... do him like he does you----  and the next time you catch his eyes wondering-- don't even give him a chance to deny it... tap him on his shoulder while hes' looking and ask him " Do you know her OR. if you wanna walk with her you can"  make him feel like-- he can walk off and leave you and you'll be just fine..... make him feel like you don't care--- I also tell mine---- " keep on looking at these other Bytches if you wanna--- while you looking at them- somebody else is looking at me........ Practice lil' smart,snappy remarks to get under his skin... walk with your head up like you don't give a shyt that hes' looking at other girls-- if you walk faster than him.. he'll be trying to catch up with you and won't have time to have that "wondering eye".......  And one more thing--- when you go out with him-- be looking Super Good... give another guy a reason to look at you--- (thats what I do) -- be looking so good that your guy will only have time to look at other dudes-- (it will be funny) b/c he'll start asking you--- Wow- do you know him- he was looking all in your face and smiling-  its kinda funny but it really does work---- you'll have him watching looking at other guys to see if they watching you in NO TIME....\nTrust me!
769244
Ask him why he never pays attention to you.
237024
This is how i kind of see it. You try to do anything for him and he doesn't recognize it or mention what you have done. You are a lot better than that. You need somebody that is going to pay a lot of attention to you and make compliments on how you look or anything. If you love him and it is hard to let go, just let him know exactly how you feel and try to work on something. Maybe he is cheating on you if there are hints like he is always gone or accusing you for doing something or he acts like he doesn't care for anything, he is most likely doing the wrong so don't act suspicious just kind of snoop a little and if he is then. Like i said you deserve a lot better. GOOD LUCK and stay strong