how do i kindly say no?
816660
explain to her that your boyfriend and you are making it like a honeymoon. if you explain to her that you two just wanted it to be a romantic holiday with no kids. if she has been your friend for that long she should understand and yes she will be hurt and dissapointed but she will get over. she prob thinks it will be a good chance for you and her to catch up as well. she will understand you just need to tell her dont let her go if you do you and her will only end fighting about it later or even at the holiday then it will be a long long holiday and even the ed ofthe friendship
245074
Shut up is a strong word, if said when u really mean it. Wait till ur brains like getting cooked, you know, you just cant hold it anymore with this other person blabbing away, ur listening to things ure not interested in, you try ur best to be polite and still it continues and then...bang!!! u just cant take it anymore...and then i think its ok to say ''SHUDDAAAPPP !!''
500251
Just tell him no but thanks for asking.
248894
Just say no. Yur not responsible for his feelings
296266
no no.. no no no no no... no and umm... NO!\n\n\nsorri.. i just dont want to. i have no other excuse.
344036
dont no but when you find out let me no please
1128184
It's always going to be heard to reject someone kindly. The best advice I can give you is to be upfront, honest, and sincere with your reasons behind not wanting to be together. Tell him your true stance and feelings and he will have to accept that. He will, of course, feel hurt-that is unavoidable. The thing is that he will at least respet you being honest with him and won't  hold a grudge.\n\nIt's all about method and choice of words. If you can express your thoughts in a manner that isn't cruel or demeaning, he will feel like you respect him enough to be considerate with his feelings.\n\nNaturally he might distance himself from you for a little while, but he will eventually bounce back and get over this hurdle.\n\nGood luck and remember: Be kind with your words.
368117
1. Thank them for asking!! (This shows appreciation that they care enough to ask, and keeps them from nagging)\n2. Give firm tone to your voice so they know you mean what you say.\n3. Tell them why you are saying NO (A reason decreases their chances of arguing the point)\n4. Consider the matter resolved, and change the subject. This keeps them from manipulating you with reasons to say yes.\n5. MOST IMPORTANT: Make sure you want to say no. If you really want to say yes, any "NO" will come off as dumb in your own mind.
338082
ignore them or just simply tell them to leave you alone. if that doesnt work then maybe just giving the cold shoulder will give them the hint.
903413
Be honest with them!  Say no and MEAN no!
77892
If she refuses, then RESPECT IT! To refuse something in a soft voice still means refusing, and forget the old stupid rule that when woman says No, it means Yes. You certainly don't want her to accept sex under the pressure. Just take your time.
1001090
I would answer with, "Today is not a good day." In fact, anytime she asks you can give the same answer. If she ever asks for the "real" reason you always say "no", you can give it to her then. Really though, do you want to hang out with this person? Do you like her? She sounds like a user.
536137
i dont no ha ha ha ps y do u want to no
66112
just start asking guys, what's the worst they can do....say no??
57552
say no on the phone maybe. or say a form of no like nein (sounds like nine) is German for no. or say slang naw.
14852
Do something really rude to the guy(not to yourself)
1074925
I would stop saying yes, when in all actuality I want to say no! I am too damn nice! I always wind up doing things I really don't want to because I feel bad telling people no. I wish I could say no!!!!