How do I put a very pesky man in his place?
825272
If it's not possible to record him, just tell him if he doesn't stop harrassing you, you're going to spread a rumour that he's gay or something that you know he'll be scared of. Good luck.
554837
have the law throw him out, or move a new man in.
565369
Notify the police and have a protection order written against him.  A women's group can do this for you too.  A piece of paper will not stop a man.  You may have to get an answering machine or change your phone number.  Lock your doors.
1033211
In the interest of you not going to jail (don't shoot him)...maybe you can make the area unappealing to him so he has to either (1) find a more aggressive way to get into your space thereby garnering police intervention or (2) make him go away completely.\n\nAssuming you are not in a position to move...I'm not sure what is workable, but some ideas that came to mind are:\n\n* Barbed wire fencing around the area.\n* A large dog that bites (preferably with rabies j/k)\n* Sprinkle itching powder or plant some poison ivy under there.\n* Ask a male relative to come visit you or stay over every now and again.\n\nAs a person who was once stalked, I understand your dilemma. To everyone else we just seem paranoid and irrational. I don't believe people understand how these situation pervades every moment of our lives in trying to stay safe and on the right side of the law simultaneously.\n\nAbove all, please stay safe.
885232
Rearrange the room.  It shouldn't be too hard with 3 guys.  It is the least offensive way of solving the problem.  If this doesnt work, maybe make a roommate contract, that says no typing in the room after a certain hour.  If he has a laptop he can go to a lounge or something.  I'm so glad I haven't had this problem yet.
324433
get him to sell his house or move back!
734471
tell him your not trying to be mean, but you really don't want to have anything to do with him. That you don't feel comfortable around him.
792999
Hang him HIGH and hopefully publicly.\n\nHe's no victim!
929288
That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.
481187
You want to kill him? Hit him where it hurts. Take him to \ncourt for alienation of affection and hit him in the wallet! Then, give him your sleazy wife! They deserve each other, and you deserve better.
238257
Give the man some privacy for the sake of sanity.
216923
If you evict him, he will retaliate! Thats a gangsters mentality. He will bust windows, slash tires or worse! Sounds like you may have to discreetly find a new place to live and move! Theres really no other solution.
638864
i really thought a woman of your worldly ways would know better...sigh, allow my expertise. first of all, send letters "from" him to about 50 lonely male prison inmates. make sure you include his address, phone number, social security number, anything you have of loser boy. next, well warm weather is here. when all the town fairs come around, they always have those annoying booths that no one goes to, except to get a free coffee cup, waterproofing for basements, dog fences, etc..., well sign him up for EVERYTHING, and make sure when they ask best time to call you put anytime between 1 a.m and 5 a.m.!!take any pictures you have of him, and make flyers stating he is armed and dangerous and to call the police. hang them at the laundromat, post office, phone poles, etc....\ngo to a library (they have better virus blockers), open all your bulk mail, and sign him up for all those goodies! good luck sista!!!
577470
Ignore Him COMPLETELY and TOTALLY!Deny his existance!!!!   P.S Works for FEMALES too!
14852
Do something really rude to the guy(not to yourself)
1141244
Tell him to get off his butt and support his family! If he is lazy, threaten to kick him out of the house. He's the man of the house, and he needs to pull his own weight more than anyone else.
19814
You say you have no choice but to put up with him, so I say:Find out every flaw he has. Correct him at every turn,show him up, make him feel persecuted, rub his nose in it like a puppy.He'll either get the message and move on to another unsuspecting soul, or kill you.