My boyfriend was a drug dealer who refered girls to addicts.He was a pimp. I need your opinions plz?
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you are who you hang around with.\ngo to school, get an education, stay away from folks who break the law, and have high expectations and lofty goals for yourself\n\nYou are the only one that can want it. Noone can want it for you.
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If its someone you love and care about confront them and take action. Don't let someone on drugs ruin their lives. The worst thing you can do in this sort of situation is let it happen!!
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He was (or still) is addicted to alcohol and pills. He was in rehab for a time and it helped to some extent but you know how addiction is. Chyna is even worse in terms of her addiction but such is life.
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I think you need to leave your boyfriend, get an education, and make something out of yourself.\nWhy are you dating a criminal?  Don't you have any more respect for yourself than that?
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Hey little buddy! Sounds like you stepped into a big bucket of stuff there. Just goes to show it dosen't pay to try and be nice. This guy must be some kind of freak. The sad part is I'm sure he has done this same thing before. With a nut like this all it takes is a simple HI from a pretty girl and they automaticaly hear "Take me now, I want you for ever and I'll bear your demon seed" What's even sadder than that is he may end up hurting somebody. I'm glad you realized that and ran. The guy needs a  12 step program to stop the voices that are not there. Oh---The only time you should have to put your life on hold is if you have children. They would come first no matter what. Otherwise no man or no one can tell what you will or can't do. And for gods sake, don't be givin' out your danm phone number or address. Be safe and happy
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You can not make anyone tell you what you want to hear, even if you feel you "deserve" it.  This situation seems to be controlling you.  I'd suggest you back off and find something more constructive to use your time on.  A person who takes drugs and drinks may not even know what the "truth" is and what he/she knows or remembers may not be the same as what you know or remember.  Why do you need to hear this from this person?  It almost sounds like you know what the truth is already and you just want to hear it from his/her mouth.  If this person can not be trusted, then distance yourself from him/her and move on with your life.
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If you would like to known as 'the skank', by his family, go for it.  Consider this, sometimes things are not as they seem, could you possibly imagine that this family member's aim is only to use you and throw you away like a used rag? After that you'd be scorned by him, your boyfriend of 2 months, his family and to boot, they'd still be family and closer than ever.  Why?  Because he proved to your boyfriend' that you were no good.
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You have started to regain your life back. Meth will eventually bring anyone down to a living hell. I am proud you are strong enough to Put it behind you. But I am sorry to hear your boyfriend has not. the only way for you to survive is to let him be  part of that pass also. I know its hard, but thats the path  for you to move forward. Memories of a fun time is what you have, keep it, but that time has long pass. So keep moving in the right direction, don't look back.
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OK for starters friends husbands got caught because they used their wife's cell to call their other woman, why they cheated I don't know, hubby cheated because got all strung out on drugs and fried his brains he cheated because she could and would buy it for him AND do the drugs with him I have never touched that crap and never will I would like to keep my brain cells. after he cleaned up we got back together he has been clean now for 3 years and I trust him as long as he doesn't do drugs and I can tell if he were to get back on them. I hope this really helps with your paper and never do drugs, you will not know what your doing, and when people who do them most of the time they don't remember things that has happened while they were on them, oh and hubby got caught because his drug Friends told me, even though I didn't do them they thought it was wrong but they still didn't have standards for them self if they were killing their brain cells, sorry about the dare class but it sounds like you are still in school and i can't push that issue enough. Oh and some people cheat because of mental issues
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were they drunk? or on any type of drugs? if youve ben dating this guy for a while then he is being very immature it sounds like this relatonship needs to be reevaluated and you dont need any weird drama in your life over a guy if he cant tell you straight up whats bothering him thenn cut him loose this is a sign on what to look forward to if this relationship persists.
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What you are feeling is natural, because you love him.  But think about it, he is putting the drug as his lover instead of you.  This is a big issue, and I'm sorry that you have to go through it because you guys have been dating for five years.  Should you be put second "NO", and do not put yourself in the situation.  I know that it's easier said then done. Think about what you want!  Good Luck!
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what u need to do is stop dating losers cause the first promise u the same thing where is he right now. what makes u think that wont happen to this one . what u need to do is dump him cause drug is a hard habit to take away .
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You sound like you have good morals already by not wanting to get involved with someone who does drugs.  Very smart.  I know while growing up, most kids want to experience and experiment with a lot of things that can be very harmful to them.  I am no exception to this.  I got myself into a lot of trouble as a youth by following the wrong crowd and allowing my friends to pressure me into things I knew were just not right.  Don't allow yourself to feel pressured into doing anything that you know in your heart that just don't feel right.  If you don't want to date anyone or even hang with anyone that does drugs...then DON'T.  Only you are in control of your life and the decisions you make will effect it one way or another.  Sometimes the decisions you make will effect others so always take time to think things out and be honest with yourself and your friends on how you feel.  Don't change for anyone.\nYou may find yourself liking this boy a little now but keep in mind, he obviously has an issue with drugs, especially if he's lieing to you about doing them.  If he's going to lie to you about that, who knows what else he will lie to you about.  As you get older and more experienced in dating, you will understand that honesty and trust are two main keys to making a relationship work.  It's not how cute or how popular a person is that makes them special....it's what's inside that truly counts.  I know that sounds cliche' but believe me sweetpea, it is the truth 100%.\nIf you want to keep him as a friend, tell him he has to be honest with you, because even a simple friendship deserves honesty.  Would you bare your soul to a friend who lies to you and who is nondependable???  If he cannot be honest with you as a friend, he will surely not be honest with you as a boyfriend and you need to move on to better people to hang around then.  It's always better to have just a couple true blue friends than it is to have and basket full of fake ones.\nStick to your morals.  Stay true to yourself.  Beleive me, there are many guys in this world that you will be able to pick and choose from as time goes by.  Pick one that makes you feel good about yourself and who you can make feel good about himself.  Pick one that can be honest with you and who you can be honest with in return.  Pick one that likes you for WHO you are and who you like just as he is.  If you have to change yourself for someone else, he's not worth it and the same goes for the guy...if you think he has to change, then he's not the right person for you either.\nI can share many stories with you about this topic (I've had my share of heartbreaks and bad choices) but I'll leave it at this for now.\nGood luck sweetpea and take your time in choosing the right guy for you :0)\nmarjenl72
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I dont trust my fiance and with good reason as I just found out he was "hanging out" with the hooker/stripper/coke head that he "didn't cheat on me with" 3 years ago. I hate men, I dont get it. I'm proud to say I'm a good looking girl next door, way better than that skank, I'm great in bed, I do whatever he wants, in every aspect of life, have a great job and now he's talking to that c-u-n-t behind my back again! ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION: no bitterness only gets worse, do something horrible to him like glue his penis to his stomach and hit the road. Men suck!
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The Best thing to do is STOP DOING DRUGS! You sound like a really nice girl...but drugs can ruin you, and your relationships. You just experienced that. If you hope to have a future that you will LOVE, then STOP DOING DRUGS! I would never date a guy that did drugs because I would worry about him constantly and what he is doing when I'm not there. That is probably how 'Greg' feels, and that can ruin his future as well as yours. I really do feel for you because I know people who do drugs, and they really changed, NOT for the good. If you REALLY want him back, you need to tell him that you will stop...but you have to MEAN it as well. Let him help you through this, he would be more than pleased. He still loves YOU...not your druggy self. I hope im not sounding like your mother or anything...beacuse I really do want you to get him back...for you and him.\nMy heart goes out to you!\nGood Luck with EVERYTHING!
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There is this guy named Michael, 23 years old, who was with my little sister as she overdosed on heroin.   He robbed her as she lay dying and then took off and lied about the whole thing to the police.   There were 10 other people in the apartment also who did nothing but Michael sold her the heroin and he robbed her as she was passed out and turning blue.   She was 18, beautiful, went to school and worked and she was a true artist.   Miss her so much.   I know she has responsibility in her death but I absolutely hate him for his part.   I would call him and pretend I want to buy some dope from him and arrange to meet him.   Then I would show up with two big guys and throw him in the trunk of the car.   Drive to a isolated destination and torture him a couple of hours.   I would burn him with cigarettes and cut him with a good quality knife and force him to drink bleach.   I would start to choke him.  As he lay dying I would show him pictures of my sister and let him know he is own his way to his death as I sip on a glass of champagne.   Too bad it is just a fantasy that I have.
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YES, YES, AND YES!!! I was with someone for 21 years and he cheated for almost the whole time. Once I got up the courage and money, I left him, divorced him, and eventually got someone new--someone that loves, respects, and cherishes me the way I deserve to be treated. :) It feels totally great to have someone put me on a pedestal and treat me with the love and respect I totally deserve. We all deserve to be treated this way. So, I believe that if I can do it after 21 years of total crap (he was also a drug user/abuser, mental abuser, liar, etc, etc), then anyone can do it.