She DATED the boss--now he's dating another subordinate?
821419
Ha! Ha! Ha! She won't have a job pretty soon. They'll find a reason to fire her.
617180
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
1011738
I believe they are referring to a one to one relationship with a "C" level person.  CEO, CFO, CIO, CMO, etc.  This would be a professional, social or other relationship.
561547
He's got one of those jobs that you can't leave unless releaved by someone, just part of being a officer, but he could have at least called or something.  Think I would wait and see what the reason was before I jumped the gun too much.  If you tell her what you want her to do, and he's got a really good reason, you will be the bad girl.  Wait and see, don't do anything while you all are under so much stress.  It's not like family, she's a gf, so he's at the mercy of his boss.
305036
yes it is, sounds like someone wants to be boss and are selfish and wants it only their way, yet they sound like they cant lead but only wants followers........ if someone told me that, i would be very hurt and walk !!! it takes 2 to make a couple a happy couple !!! a relationship is a 2 way street, not a dictatorship !!!!!!!!
697574
Can you afford to lose this job? Funny thing about some men in authority, they enjoy the effect they have on subordinates, especially pretty ones they know are attracted. If its real enough for him to risk inapropriate behaviour, he should make a move outside of work hours/envioronment, otherwise the only respect you'll earn is to keep your eyes on your work.
840939
Dating your Boss could be a real bad career move. I know several women that have done it & regret it today. One of them can't stop dating bosses. She now goes from job to job & sleeps her way to financial gain. However, all she is really a Slave to these ego maniacs. If you do it, be in control 100% of the time. Now for the Boyfriend. Follow your heart. Money isn't everything. Take it from somebody who had it all. With one wrong move it's so easy to lose both love & money. I'm not sure how old your boyfriend is but money comes with time. Keep your dignity. It's worth more than all the money in the world. God Love You!
542200
I'm going to say YES!!! I think his boss feels like she & work should be his first priority. She is jealous of you.If it continues or escalates to sexual harrasment your husband should report her or put in a transfer request.Be Blessed!! Monica
1176613
Well dont jump to conclusions so quickly. See how you guys interact first outside of the work environment. 'Cause she did invite other people from work, not just you.\nSee what happens first.
1086486
I think she married her 40 something year old manager, dunno his name. Unless she's preg again, she already had her baby, and of course, named it something wierd. I think it was a girl.
163508
If she was my girlfriend, why would she have lots of (potential?)suitors at work to begin with? When you say girlfriend, I assume you mean an exclusive relationship. If it was an exclusive relationship then why worry if she knows how to conduct herself. Some women need a lot of attention from lots of men, so I would have to decide if she is one of those, and act accordingly.
738840
he still pursued her. she accepted him. They got married after a year of dating. had 2 kids. the wife remained to be the boss, he never got promoted. they end up having divorce.\nim just being realistic. sorry!!!! most women nowadays end up divorcing their lower earning hubbies.
1043060
It's very common, and I don't think it's wrong, unless you act on it. It might be awkward if you are working with him, but I don't think that you should change your plans just because you're attracted to him, unless you find a better position. There will likely be more bosses and unavailable coworkers in the future that you will find attractive, so if you want to live your life, you might just have to grin and bear it.
296587
Getting involved with someone you work with is NOT a good idea. Any time there is a problem in the relationship, it can cause a problem in the work situation. If the relationship fails it can cause problems for you at work. Many businesses have rules against employees dating, because of the problems it creates in the work place. It can be grounds for termination if your company has a rule against employees dating.  If you truly feel a person is right for you, I suggest that one of you find a new job before getting involved in the relationship, or at the very least, make sure there is no company policy against employee dating.
10463
yeah, i do! and she is wonderful.. now it's a parttime job you don't like? absolutely...why not? but it will make work a little odd-and good... be careful ,if the relationship goes bad it can mean drama at work... no peace...
983503
Opposites often attract however, I would never get involved with any one that I work with.  If the relationship doesn't work out things can get really ugly to the point where one or both looses their job.
214039
I have alot of experience with this and I have learned one important thing....there are one of these people at every single job/workplace.  If you are not his supervisor, do nothing.  It seems the boss likes him so your best bet is to go to work, do your thing, keep to yourself, then go home.