my boyfriend is in the navy,he is on frontline in korea,do u think i should wait on him or move on?
819398
What kind of question is that?? If you have to ask that sort of question on Yahoo answers, then you have already made a decision.
1097927
Listen honey...I was in the Navy for 6 years, and went through my own relationship issues.\n\nYou have to look yourself in the heart: do you love this young man? If you do, he will return, and all of this will be forgotten.\n\nIf you separate from him, AND you still love him...I just don't see the benefit there for you.\n\nI am sure you already know this, but those who serve in the armed forces are very passionate for what they believe in...is this so bad to have in a bf/fiance/spouse? He is patriotic, and after his time is done he will be a hard working provider. Are you sure you want to say no now? You may find better...but since I don't know him...that is for your own heart to decide.\n\nWHATEVER YOU DO: don't send him a Dear John letter while he is overseas. Break cleanly before he goes...or wait for his return.\n\nGood luck in your decision. It is your life...but him being in danger every second of the day says something about his personality. It is stressful. I know. When I married my wife we were actually both in the Navy, and I know neither of us was in danger like your hon, but still...separation breeds anxiety. Think about this: if something happens to him...and you split up with him before he went, would you feel any less pain? If you are the person I am taking you to be, I bet not.\n\nTake care.\nJust remember...make sure your decision comes from the heart...not the brain. Sometimes our brains think too much!
537447
If your willing to wait for him because you love him..ur a good girlfriend! most girls would leave and get out of the sitation!...but if he doesnt appreciate you waiting for him than its not worth it..he should be happy that your willing to wait for him and support him...he has to make up his own mind..u cant make him want you to wait..so good luck! hope all works at well!
449160
I'm not like miss conservative, but I don't see the harm in waiting a little bit longer to see where you two are in another month.. but it really is a personal decision.. and since you are asking here, I am guessing yuo aren't ready and he is?  Be careful, only do what YOU are willing to do without pressure from anyone.  That's very important for your self-respect.  ok?  Best of luck to you!
457666
long distance relationships are really hard to hold together but if you try hard enough it'll be alright.  i had a boyfriend that lived in germany because he was in the army.  i really thought he could be faithful to me because the whole time while he was gone, i def was.  i mean, it might not be big but i read some stuff on this girl's profile that left a comment on his myspace and it was pretty discusting.  that just let me know that he really wasn't that into me and that it just wasn't meant to be.  good luck girl.  sometimes it does work out; just very seldomly.  ♥ a l y s e
862211
Yea I think you should, I don't know how old you are, but it seems that he might not be ready for a commitment. and if you ask a question if you should just move on, you most likely should. good luck
915717
If this is really his dream to be out on a boat for months than you shouldn't try to stop him or make him feel guilty for going. He will just end up resenting you for it later. If this is something that you just can't live with, a deal-breaker, then you just may have to let him go. It doesn't mean you don't love each other but believe it or not sometimes that is just not enough. Good luck.
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My boyfriend is coming back in July too from the Marines. I just try to occupy myself by working and going to school. Just try to talk to him on the phone and keep your relationship fresh. I usually just hang out with my friends and have a good time but also stay faithful to my boyfriend
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It is diificult to be with someone in the military (but worth the effort).  If you can't be around all of your friends because you have given your word, I would make friends that you can be around.  Isolating yourself won't help you get through him being gone so seek friends that will respect your relationship and not put you in a position where you break your word.  If making friends isn't an option then try to find a hobby or project that will occupy your time until he returns or you depart.  Good luck.
139758
What would you have to lose?  If you leave him before you go to AIT then you don't have him for sure.  If you go to AIT, he may not leave you.  Just depends on whether or not you really want him.
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Enjoy the trip! Stop focusing on what CAN go wrong, believe me if you continue to worry about it, it will. Take it as it comes, if the two of you love each other and are willing to honestly try, there is no reason it can't work out. My husband and I were both in the Navy on constant back to back deployments when we were dating and made it through, though it was a struggle sometimes. Now, he's in Iraq and I only see him ever 4 months for 2 weeks per visit. It's still hard, but our faith in each other and our love for each other hasn't and won't change. You simply have to be willing to trust each other and let the small things slide. Be grateful for the time you have together and when you do see each other, focus on that.
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yes, remember that nothing in life is promised. if you love him live everyday like it counts. you should tell him to think like that. even if he goes to the navy, and he doesn't come back (god forbids something happens to him) you could rejoice knowing you lived everyday loving and knowing him like it was your last. and have no regrets. you need more encouragement listen to this song by jessica simpson called "i have loved you" it's on the "sweetest sin " album you'll love it.\n good luck
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I would wait. Would you want him to wait on you? Six weeks isn't that long. Just while he's gone think about all the times you've had together, and what yall are gonna do when he gets back. Just hang around your girlfriends to make it a lil easier. Go shopping and do girl stuff. Think about him before you go to bed, and until you go to sleep..Do something extravagant before he leaves...Something you won't forget when he's gone, and that will remind you why you're with him. Oh! and he's gonna be around a lot of boyz anyway. believe me, when he gets back he's gonna WANT U! ha ha
1058388
Why should you wait?  He is not waiting, I am sure.  Give him all the space he needs and move on.  You don't need this kind of turmoil.
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I can truly say that i have been there.  I chose the one that was leaving to the army for 4 years and he cheated on me 2 times.  he has been back for 1 year and although i have a hard time trusting him, we are together and are happy so far.  You just have to think whether or not you want to go thru with it and forgive if it happens or if you think you deserve better.  Good luck
28236
If you get the feeling he doesnt love you anymore, then I would let him go and see if he returns.  If its meant to be he will.  For now, I think you should move on.  You dont deserve to stand on the side line.
144374
By all means tell him now. He will either run or stay. You need to know which way he will go. It's important for the both of you.