I have this friend and we sort of messed around, now we call one another, but I'm moving can it still work?
822898
A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP CAN WORK IF BOTH PEOPLE REALLY WANT  IT TO WORK OUT.BUT YOU NEED\nTO TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW SHE FEEL. BECAUSE YOU DONT WANT TO PUT ALL YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET\nSO TALK TO HER ABOUT WHAT GOING ON. THEN GO FROM\nTHERE. BUT IT CAN WORK IT SELF OUT.
863473
try talking to him and be honest. If it ends the friendship, then he was obviously just playing at being a friend while his mind was working in a different direction.
680157
I've had the same thing happen to me and it sucks. My two best friends ever had to leave but that didn't stop our friendship. I e-mail them almost everyday and I talk to them on the phone. I haven't seen them in a long time but that never stopped our friendship. My friends moved different countries. You're lucky at least your friend is in the same country and if you want to visit you should make a plan. Things will be different but something that NEVER changes is friendship. Trust me it'll be ok.
918174
i know how you mean my best friend moved to california but what we did was give each other phone numer and adrees so then you can talk an write to her. try it
1120831
no you need to move on and if something happens in the future like he comes back and both of you want to still be together then that is fine but both of you r going to go through a transition and u will both most likely change with him being in a different city with different friends, activities, and etc.
513917
Chances are he's felt the same way at one time or another.\nYour timing's off.  You can still be friends, but you need to try to keep your feelings in check, because you could lose him as a friend.  If its meant to be it will happen \nyou cant rush it, and you may change your mind. Just support him like a friend should it will all turn out the way it should.
666905
Yes. Just be her friend for now, but not too good of one or it will just help her stay with the other guy too because then she'll have the best of both worlds.  Let her know how you feel about her and that you are there for her, but that until she is free from other ties that you need to keep your distance.
222888
well i know how you feel, and it is already hard work to stay friends with someone when you live a long ways away, so if you dont get along very well anymore maybe it is time to let your friendship just drift appart this might be easier than trying to be friends with someone who doesnt or isnt willing to understand you.
996551
If he is not moving right away, spend as much time with him as you can. Make sure you guys keep in touch- phone calls, e-mails, any way that you can to contact him. You can also visit him once he moves. It is hard when a friend moves away. You will not get to see him as much, but as long as you guys stay in touch, it wouldn't be as bad.
1002646
talk heart to heart...patch up things..if both of you can feel and see that it will really not work at all., then part ways in good terms...let friendship continue the relationship..who knows, the two of you needs only space..
95342
Yes...you just have to make sure you two are on the same page or it will just make your "friendship" weird from then on.
51928
I was a bit in the same situation. My parents got divorced, and my mom (she got the house), told me we were moving. My best friend lived next to me, and I was freaked. I made sure I stayed in touch though. I didn't move too far, anyway. But, if you start beign friends with him, then you can stay in touch, and you might get him to like you.
406625
No.  We have different abilities and attitudes about how things should be done and their result.  He goes about his business and I, mine..That way, we stay friends, too.
144346
Ouch... I'm guessing you probably wouldn't be willing to talk to him about it? Definitely not the smartest or most honest thing to do... but maybe he was just using it to meet new friends? Probably easier to find people willing to talk to you if you're not already taken. If you've already decided to move on though, then I don't think it matters either way.  I'd just hate for something to become hurt and distrustful over a misunderstanding <=^)
924519
Okay i was just in this situation. I love my friend and we have been friends for a while. I mean we have fooled around and stuff and I fell for him I mean really fell. However he didnt feel the same for me he just kind wanted to do stuff. It made me mad about the whole situation I mean if you do try and go for stuff like this make sure your friend is feeling the same way torwards you. Dont pressure anything make sure it is the right thing to do for the both of you analyze the situation and if you decide you should just be friends that is great.
694854
probably. just tell her she is such a good friend u want to keep it that way in all ways.
1060303
I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.