What should i tell my parents if i want too lezbian?
826301
Why would you want to tell them anything, unless you want to upset them?
759965
Respect your parents, they know best. YOu didnt mention how old you are...\nHe could bring dinner to your house and you 2 could watch a movie.
202917
Maybe you should say, "Mother, I am growing up and I need a little bit of space to be my own person.  Please let me do what my instincts tell me to do instead of yours."  With a smile and hopefully she'll understand!\n\n*&#92;O/*
312875
there is no easy way to tell them. If you know for sure that your parents will accept that you're bi, then it should be a problem telling them. They probably already know and just waiting on you to say something.
953373
Well, let's be honest - there's no way to tell your parents that they will like. There is no magic combination of words to communicate that idea and get anything back like, "Okay, son! We'll call Aunt Maggie and let her know you're coming! Need any help packing?"\n\nThat said, there sure is a right and wrong way to approach this topic with the 'rents. "I hate this town and I hate my school and I want to go away and live with someone else" sounds:\n\n> whiny\n> as though you're choosing greener pastures over your parents.\n\nI'm not saying that this is true, just that it would sound that way to just about anyone on the receiving end.\n\nSo. The best way to tell them is to CALMLY as if you can talk to them and CALMLY tell them that you're not happy where you are, and why. Tell them the situation's gotten so bad that you've thought about moving away. Tell them where you're thinking of going, and why you think it would be better than where you are.\n\nThen you listen. You don't argue, whine, etc. You just listen to what they say. You ask if they have any suggestions. Then you listen to what they say.\n\nThe best way to tell almost anyone almost anything is calmly, with a willingness to listen to their side. \n\nUnderstand that your parents may not go for the whole moving thing - most wouldn't. They might be open to other ideas that would make things better for you (like maybe vacations and summers with the other relatives - if the relatives are willing?). \n\nIf not, if they just want you there, then you focus heavy duty on schoolwork and plans to get out on your own when you're old enough - at which point, you can live anywhere you can afford to live. Good luck!
400818
honey you can't please both sets of parents. the big Question is " What do you want?" You have to set your mom down and tell her how you feel and what you want to do. That goes the same for your dad. Plus you need to tell your dad that it really hurts you when your stepmom makes those comments. You give me the impression that you feel like you have to please both parents and be perfect. You don't though. Sweetie be yourself and they'll love you. But you have to start by pleasing yourself first. GOOD LUCK
294381
First of all I am a mother and I still have been overbearing to my 19 year. old but little by little I have let her be on her own, she is a hard worker, and when I was 18 I just moved out without telling my parents, but my mother looked into my purse and found the agreement letter for my apt. So I believe the best thing to do is tell your parents you are moving out on April 15, for example. Believe me they will be Hurt and mad, but if you believe in God. God will take care of your mom and dad. And move out. Later my mom wasn't mad at me any longer. So they will get over it. Just pray when u tell ur parents. But set up a move out date first..They will be upset for a little while so expect that..good luck.. a 50 yrs. old Mother that understands what your going threw..
790617
Introduce him as your slave.  That should pull the wool over their eyes.\n\nSeriously, why hide who you are?  Are you ashamed of being gay?  [If you still live at home, you get a "bye" about telling your parents until you can support yourself.]\n\nGood luck!
442763
Be careful, your parents CANNOT possibly decide what is best for you unless you are a child.  Please LIVE and LOVE your own way in life...there is sooo much to be lost otherwise!
1058110
show them that he is a good person and how well he treats you, thats really all you can do, maybe if they see those sides to him they will lessen up on the issue alittle bit and not judge him by the color of his skin, but by his character and as an individual, if not then remember that you will always love your parents and will want them to accept whatever life choices you make, but they wont always like what you choose and it is afterall your life and you and you alone have to account for your own happiness....*good luck*
59185
I am going to assume that you are a teen still living with your mom.  \n\nThe sooner you tell her, the better!  Be sure that you go in to this conversation without an attitude, and do NOT fight with her.  Apologize for dissapointing her and tell her that you will do your best to make it as right as possible!  \n\nI wish you the best!
827405
First off, are your parents living in the dark ages...\nGo and do what you want [Not what they want] go see your boyfriend and his family..\nTell your mom in a nice way NO I am going to visit with my boyfriend and his family and that is final. \nYou are 20, you tell them what your plans are and go for it..They have no hold on you anymore...\nSome parents just don't want to let go, but now is a good time to stand up for yourself....
371481
Do what I do...suck up! Don't make it obvious. Just try not to argue and yell, do what you're told (it WILL be worth it, trust me!) and even though it may be a strain, hopefully it will help change your parents' minds. Just make sure you're GENUINE in your help, not FAKE. Parents can tell the difference, or at least, mine can. Then just nicely ask them one night at dinner or something if you can get together w/ a few friends on your birthday, or maybe even after your birthday (I never have parties ON my b-day, too stressful). If they say yes, PARTY! *lol* If they say no, try not to get too pissed. Their minds could still change, so don't blow it. Good luck, and happy birthday! =D
223606
ask your parents they should know if they can't help then go to a libary near you and ask how you get on the computer and find out your culture.
22953
Telling your parents that you are a lesbian is an open acknowledgement that you are a sexual person, enough to have made a definite decision about who it is that you identify with sexually.  Coming to terms with the fact that "their little girl" has sexual urges and feelings AT ALL is difficult and uncomfortable for most parents, and is even more difficult when those feelings are directed toward people of the same sex.  It's a double whammy.  \nJust gently letting them know about your sexual preference is enough, without hitting them over the head with the fact that you are sexually active with women.  \nAlternately, if you are currently in a relationship with another woman, you might introduce the subject by introducing HER.  It will make it more real to them, and also make it awkward for them to make a scene.
801338
I don't really think you have to tell them who you like if you're not comfortable with it. Your parents might like the insight into your life and feel that you are more mature if you do tell them, (especially your mom) but it's really not necessary. Definitely tell them if you get a boyfriend though. Trust me, parents don't appreciate not knowing who their daughter is going out with.
616776
Be genuine to them! Don't over show about anything.Be down to earth..Show your belief in the family institution before them.And one more imp thing......try to make them laugh!