My friend is such an idiot. How can I help him?
822702
First of all, your friend has the freedom to date anybody he wants without anybody's permission.  Dont get involved in his relationship.  Unless he talks to you about it and asks your advise.  You dont want to loose a good friendship over something like this.  This is what my bestfriend tells all his boyfriends, "You may not like my friends and I'm not trading my friends for you, they were my friends before I knew you and they will be with me should something happen to our relationship."  For now just go with the flow.  And be happy for him, cause that's all that matters is that he's happy!  Keep being the good friend you are.  Think positive!  Should he freak out if he doesn't already know then worry about it then.  Good luck! :o)
150273
Treat him like a little brother.  If your friends tease you, get new friends!  If they have no compassion for a person who is slow through no fault of his own, they are pretty cruel.
879648
Come right out and tell him.....you know, you talk too much and it gets on my nerves....\n\nI have a friend like that two......it is annoying!!
599869
Ask him why he's acting like a jerk. If he sais something stupid,ignore him. 1 less person you have to worry about.
875685
Look, whether he's "clueless", or lying, at least tell him why you're mad. Then, you can be sure that you've done what would be reasonable to him if he really was "clueless". Explain why you were mad, without getting angry. Hard to believe maybe, but he might get mad at you now, because he thinks it's unreasonable for you to get mad at him, then not tell him what you're mad about, because then he can't try to improve himself.\n\nWhen in doubt, tell the truth.-Mark Twain.\nGood luck.
1027416
Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
640886
spend more tym wiv him speak to him . i think dis will help
373085
NO, he's an idiot who never knows what he's talking about!
221790
Confront him or else set a trap.  The sorry thing about a thief is that if they think you are lame-brained they will take ever increasing advantage of you.  NIP IT IN THE BUD!!
982572
Ask your friend to help you.
468462
Poeple can be a smart as a tact but sometimes they can act dumber than you would ever think. Maybe he is just playing dumb to see what happens or either he is dumb when it comes to certain things since you never said about what I take it as anything in general...K
368981
well give that person a answer and tell your friend to stop the next time you will ask that person
842201
if he is there again, call him on it AS SOON as he gets there..something like...I hope you don't plan on getting drunk and acting like an ass again.  If he DOES, leave.  Plan and simple..remove YOURSELF from the situation..the only person you can control is you.  Maybe your friend will see what a hindrance he is then.  Good Luck!
1178247
Be friendly to them.  Really friendly.  Apologize as if it were your fault, but not in a weak way - just say you're sorry, you'll fix the problem, if there's something you can offer them, do it.  Take care of it, but stay above it, if you know what I mean.  And in your mind, know that other people are with you, and that this person is just making a fool of themselves.  If you stay cool, you win.  Also, keep in mind that the rude person probably has major problems, and it's pretty pathetic that they have to take out their frustrations on someone they don't even know.  And if all that fails, imagine them as the children they once were, and wonder what terrible things must have happened to them, to turn them into such mean adults.
482542
You should tell your friend that he is a "dummass" and see if he gets the message (since that should be spelled "dumb ass").  "Damn it" it is.
672135
He was a BOY!  in HIGH SCHOOL!!  Boys at that age are just STUPID!!!  Yes, I was stupid, too; so I think I have a right to say that.\n\nKids say & do stupid things.  If he's grown out of it, don't hold it against him.  Chances are, he doesn't even remember saying it; and if was reminded, he'd probably be embarassed and/or apologetic.  If you MUST, you could bring it up & make him apologize, but isn't his continued friendship proof enough that he cares for you as a friend?\n\nI'd chalk it up to the foolishness of youth, & move on.
207738
no,maybe your buddy is an idiot