why do good women usually end up with bad men?
816884
Because all the bad women are with good men!
152647
for the same reason women do go out with men that hurt them
303510
You nailed it right on the head. The women you are referring to want their handsome boy toy to play around with, and they get used and abused for years and years, then towards mid life, they decided that they want someone decent and loving. I reiterate what you just said, why should the good guy not have to settle for damaged goods, which they are,and with certainty, they will have psychological at the very least.It is quite refreshing to see someone like you call it like it is.
1172301
It is not always so.However 99% men would think about her because anything which is GOOD, Provocative and  Beautiful will attract the Opposite Sex.
678819
If a guy is being abused, it's because he's letting her do it - same as for women.  You have the option to not hang around.\n\nThe reason they say that is because young women tend to go for the "bad boy" - a guy that will be bad to everyone but THEM, so they can say they "won" by changing him - but older women know that is all a fantasy and a lie.  There is no such thing as a bad boy who can be changed by a woman to good.  When a woman learns this, they go to the nice guys who have waited patiently for the women to grow up and figure this out.
168462
Because you are a good man!! That is so great!! Not a lot of men are like you!! Don't ever change the way you are. And don't ever cheat!!
502093
"Bad guys" are more interesting to me because they are challenging, fun, and exciting.  They are mysterious and leave me wanting more.  "Good guys" are the ones that let women run all over them and give them everything they want.  That's no fun at all.  "Bad guys" assert themselves in relationships and look out for their own interests rather than giving women everything they want.  Women may complain about this, but it's what makes for a more exciting time with men and is ultimately what I prefer.  I think this can be true for "good girls" and "bad girls, " too.
181898
Pathology, childhood trauma like molestation can even cause many victims to unknowingly become attracted to people with some attributes reminiscent of their molesters... that and many women can't admit the truth that they can be shallow and can't resist their urge to go for a seemingly more primitive male than one with "good guy" qualities... they want the keg-stander with no goals in life at first but then they try to change ape-boy and they get all butt-hurt and turn around and cry about how they want a good guy and men are pigs when studies have shown women USUALLY bring the jerks upon themselves\nTrippy huh?
586670
It is hard in the world to find a good woman and if you have one hang on to her. Women can be foolish at times and have their bad days but so what we do also. That young stuff doesn't really want you. What they want is the quest of seeing if they can get you.............
1111439
To get a "good woman" you have to be "good man".
295283
Really not enough info.  As stated by another, where are you looking?  Some people are attracted to 'bad boys' and reject the good ones.  There is also a term called learned helplessness.  It may not apply to you, as I said, lack of info, but people who have that problem are attracted to people who will abuse them, treat them like dirt, etc.   You may need couseling if that is true.  Often, it is rooted in abuse from a parent.  Sometimes, you look for your father in someone and, if your father was cruel, etc., you still end up being drawn to them.  Guys marry their mothers, women marry their fathers.  (figuratively speaking)
78094
Because there are women, excuse me, girls out there that mess it up for the good ones (The Gold Diggin Chicks) and vice versa when it happens to men.
946016
Becuase nice guys are outcasts, ladies want the so called bad boys, besides ladies are too picky, and they have stereotypes that ALL men being cheaters. In this cold and cynical world it seems like  good people are in perpetual doom of always meeting the worst of the opposite sex. Its always darkest before dawn, at the end it will all work out,  life and true love always finds a way.
790699
because they not nice and mature or either they want the bad girl type.  you will find someone that is nice.  just keep looking but not in the wrong places
251982
Because they are not ready to settle down; they still whant adventure so they look for the "bad guys" to have fun. When they get older and they are ready to settle down, they look for a good guy.Same thing happens with us men.
612025
How unfortunate that women think that way, yes.  But I don't abide by that whatsoever.  I wanted a good guy from the very beginning.  The only thing that made me go for teh bad boy instead was the lame reasoning, "you're too good for me".  Of course, the same generalization can be said for men too.  "All they want are women that put out". \nBottom line, I think good guys are wonderful; and I'm sure many women would agree with me.  So they're not flashy like corvettes, and are more like honda Civics.  ^^ Get a beautiful honda, you'll be so glad you did.
973142
men and women like nothing better to do then rip on eachother to vent relationship and social frustrations \n\n\nmen and women can both be evil and vice versa\n\nBut women are very judgemental by nature and image conscious which makes some women superficial... but not to say that some men aren't the same way.\n\nbut it is for reasons such as the aformentioned that men can be as you described.. but again.. this swings both ways and is not unique to just men or women