Love threw the wires...?
828467
I am with you.  It's not that I didn't try it and gave it a chance -- I met someone online and my life got turned upside down.  Thank goodness it's over and doing well by myself.
393698
Man, that's sad.  Guys just love to play games and many times what you thought you saw in his eyes wasn't what you now think or thought was love, it was lust.  This guy obviously is immature and a liar.\n  Chalk it up to experience and get on with your life.  don't put up a wall preventing future guys from loving you or your believing them.  My mother told me once that if you tried to analyze everything a person  sas to you, you'll end up going nuts.  So just figure that when he said he loved you and was nice to you and you trusted him, just figure it was true at "that moment"., and stuff happens , time goes on, things change and we will never have all the answers as to the why's .  It happened, you had a great time and now its time to move on to more life experiences.  don't be sad......................Take a bath, do your hair, be yourself, smile and move on...and up........good luck
895865
Hi Che,  The way you ask the question with all the information, You both sounded like a happy couple. I don't think you did anything wrong,(if you didn't leave something out). She is very confused about her love for you,or she has found someone else to replace you.It's one or the other. I would find a nice girl who know's what her feeling are. That way you don't have to go through this again. Your right us girls don't all do this.I have a old man and i would never do this to him. Good Luck My Friend.\n\n  Clowmy
22304
This is always tough and really, it depends on your situation.  The best thing you can do is be honest; tell them you no longer love them (and maybe this means you never really did) and explain why (this is the important part because it sucks to never know why someone fell out of love).  If you want to take the cowards way, just start cheating on them until they get the hint or the next time they say "i love you" say something like "yeah...about that love thing..." but you really do just have to say it.  They'll understand eventually even if it hurts them a lot now.  And be gentle, because they obviously care about you and you cared about them at some point
945772
Did they say that he resigned because of a GAY PROSTITUTION SCANDAL!   \n\nThat just can't be!!!!\n\nHe told me that he only used HETROSEXUAL DATING SERVICES, like mine!   \n\nWe were going to be married!!!\n\nWhat are you saying about my sweet Teddy boy?\n\nDoes this mean that I'm going to have to call the wedding off!!!\n\nDevastated and in tears......Donna
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I was soooooo in love with my boyfriend about 3 years back.  We'd been together for a and a year later I found out he had another girlfriend, longer than me.  Now I've become very sceptical of men, even though my BF now is the sweetest!  I was soooo hurt the day I f9ound out that I pinched myself to see if I was in a nightmare.  When I got home, shook myself to sleep.  That hurt a lot!!!  What about you?
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Well there you go bose!! Now we need a follow up. Did you write her? How did it work out? Was there a date? A second date? \n\nAs for your answer.......I wish I were an 8 ball......a prophetic soul.......but I'm not. Just be you and enjoy life and you'll be amazed at how love comes around when you least expect it.
859809
I'd label a guy that did this as a 'drama king'.  Hopefully you obtained the desired 'shock effect' you were looking for and can now brag about what you did on the internet.  You could have been more straightforward and broke things off in a more civilized manner.  But it wouldn't have been as much fun for you, now would it?  Do you think you did the right thing in this situation?  And if hundreds of people told you that you did the right thing, would you believe them?  I hope you are satisified with hurting this girl--it sounds like her only sin was wanting to be with you.  I'm glad you let her know what kind of guy you actually are, so she can get pass this and maybe find a decent guy.  You set things up so that you could break her down.  What a guy?!!
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I am going through the same deal, except I am no where close to the love part yet. It is difficult to lay yourself out on a line when your not certain they feel the same. I am beginning to understand you just have to take that plunge if you care enough that it worries you and your ready to express it. I need to take my own advice.
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Yes, I did regret it.\n\nI think sometimes I wanted to be in love so badly that I was in love with love.\n\nAlso, I think, looking back on it, I did not really love him even though I wanted to. Then I felt I had to be honest and tell him that I did not love him. This made me feel bad because I felt like I was a liar (even though I wasn't). Also, I felt like a fool - retracting what I said - like as if I didn't know my own mind and as if I was so mixed up and confused, I don't know what love is.
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Sounds like you hooked up with the wrong guy.  A loving relationship is 50/50.  Not 90/10.  You need to find someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
628691
May 23rd, 2006. Don't you just love I'm not ready to make nice. Such a great song. I still can't believe people got all caught up in all the DC and TK crap, and that people still do. What does any of that have to do with their music.
204744
Tried the swinger thing...husband ended up falling in love and going from fun to affair...on the flip side he loves me again but i can't forgive him for falling out of love with me.  And i've found someone else.
330492
I've just been to a great poetry site. I was reading the different love poems. I've been in a relationship for the past few months that has been exquisitely painful. This beautiful poem describes my feelings exactly.\n\n http://www.netpoets.com/poems/sadlove/1503001.htm \n\nI'm pretty much addicted to him. The joy has been indescribable, and the separation is heartbreaking. I will never be the same.
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What do u think????\nTell me...\nThe whole thing was initiated because of a woman, u could say that it was an excuse but it was the wick that begining the fire.\nThe rest is part legend part history.\nThanks to Homero for the wonderfuls  "Odyssey" and "Iliada".
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i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
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MM .... I had no idea it was possible to do the things we did and feel the way she made me feel.  Damn baby!  I was 31 and she showed me the meaning of "make love".  It was mind melding body sweltering leave you speechless sex.