Should i marry my boyfriend of different community ?
823128
Remember, when you get married, you are not only marrying the man, but the family as well. If you suspect they are possessive, you are probably right. Proceed with Great Caution.... Life can be miserable if you make a bad decision. Think about it, there are more men and can you live a lifetime with a mama's and daddy's boy? Be careful..
944409
Yes...I think so.  Show them love and effort to get along with them and in time they may come to love you or atleast get along with you.  You should not force your boyfriend into a situation like this because it hurts him to choose between people that he loves.  Atleast make an effort, and I promise that he will  love you for it.  It never hurts to try as long as you examine your heart and make an honest effort.  I am saying a prayer for you!
222424
I think you are mature and caring, and kudos to you for not taking this guy's virginity before breaking up with him.  (Would that more guys would act this way toward their girlfriends!)  Good for you, also, for knowing that you are not ready to make this commitment.\n\nIt's good to be honest with him and share your concerns about racism, about your need for security, and so forth.  Of course he'll be heartbroken, but now it's up to him to deal with it, and I hope he deals with it well.  I also hope someday he'll become strong enough to stand up to his family and pair up with whichever girl or woman he wishes, regardless of race.  I hope that when you are ready to marry, that your man's family will love you too, but if they don't, that he'll be strong enough to ignore his family's wishes and stand beside you, and you'll stand beside him.\n\nDo you know the song "Society's Child"?
1023716
If you love each other, then marry each other, of course if you are old enough.  \n\nIf have found in my own life that any man I brought home, my parents found something wrong.  They simply want the best for their children.  Go with your heart.
346015
i would still say yes..i would marry my BF if he proposed with a Gummi Lifesaver as a ring...because I LOVE HIM not what he can give me.
671668
Why in this world would you two ever marry?  You two will self destruct in a very short time if you marry.  A christian should never marry a non christian.  It just makes the whole marriage very difficult, if not impossible.  You should tell him everything that you think BEFORE you ever marry.  He can not OK or deny you to go to hell, you will go there no matter what he believes, but for your own belief.  I think you are just looking for problems dating this person.
433076
It really depends on the nature of the question. 1) Do you really love him and feel that you two will be able to grow old together? 2)What are your future plans? (ie: School, travelling, Career advancement? Marriage is a big step, its a promise and lifetime (supposed to be) committment.  Once you marry you can't think of yourself anymore you are committed to another person and that pretty much hinders your ability to do things you normally would do single (party with friends, hang out etc etc).  I'm not saying all marraiges are going to stop this from happening.  Just think about it more wisely and ask yourself are you at the point where you can settle down.
1123395
IF U BOTH WORK HARD FOR UR RELATIONSHIP THEN I'M SURE IT'S GONNA WORK HONEY.. I MEAN.. GIVE IT SOMETIMES.. TO FIND OUT WHO HE IS.. WHAT HE DOES.. WHAT HE LIKES... BUT .. BEING IN A DIFF. COUNTRY.. I'M NOT SURE.. HE MIGHT PLAY W/ UR MIND WHILE HAVING ANOTHER ONE NEXT TO HIM.. \nI'M NOT SAYING ANYTHING.. I MARRIED MY HUSBAND WHO I MET IN FRANCE.. :) ... TOUGH TIME.. WE ARGUED.. WE FIGHT... HEHEEH.. BUT.. TILL WE'RE 2GETHER.. IT'S WORTH ALL THE TIME THAT WE WAIT N SPENT W/ EACH OTHER.. GOOD LUCK HON!
111835
no one can answer this question but you...and your boyfriend.  Dont be in a rush...get married for the right reasons. Education is far more important than marriage....in my opinion. get your education then get married.
468279
you definitely should. isn't it time that the both of you made another step toward the ultimate commitment to each other? you have been together this long and have already talked about getting married. i think you should do it. god bless both of you.
1101014
Nope i would not live together first at all. Do not live together until you are married. Stick by your Christian beliefs and God will bless your lives and your marriage because of it. Do what you know in your heart is the right thing to do in the sight of God!
25276
If you just met him, first you have to pray and ask God if He is the right one and you have to get married then you can let him move with you since you are more established. remember you are not a cat or a dog you can't just move in with a man and start having babies. come on you can do better than that.
70378
As long as you two stay away from bigots, zealots, hypocrites, and holier than thou people you'll be ok.  If you respect each others religions then do what you do, and let him do what he does and be tolerant.  If you differ on opinion let it be a debate and not an argument;  If it starts to seem like it's headed in that direction just stop talking about it.
1133189
If you truly Love eachother,and you are ready and willing to be strong and stand up for yourselves.Then do not let anyone stand in your way.I am assuming that you belong to India.My best advice is that you are going to have to make a choice between your happiness or making others happy.This is your life after all.You may face all kinds of issues,but if your Love is strong enough you will be together.Have faith in God and eachother.Dont get married illegally.Just go to a court and have a court marriage.Your families may not accept you.Be prepared for that.I wish there was some better advice in the universe.But always follow your heart no matter what.Because you wont be happy unless you do.Regardless of culture never allow anyone to control your life.
1117709
I am friendly with all different type of people - no difference which ethnic group they belong to, but for marriage I think people should try sticking to their own race - it's easier for you and your kids.
819826
I am neither Indian nor Hindu (nor Buddhist), but I think the answer depends on several factors: a. How strong are both of you in your faiths?  b. How much do you both have in common?  (The more things you share in common the more compatible you will be.)  c. How much do you fill each other's emotional, intellectual, and spiritual needs? \nIf one, or both, have strongly held religious beliefs, there WILL be conflict in your marriage, especially if neither are willing to compromise.  (Personally I don't agree that you should compromise your beliefs.)  Compatibility is more important than physical attraction, because looks fade, and after a while you stop noticing what the other person looks like.  And how well he treats you, day after day, year after year, the feelings you get from being with him, are more important than money in the bank.  Money gets stolen, or spent too fast! but emotional security is priceless.  If he has lived in Mexico for a long time, or you in India, then you both have some cultural things in common, which is a good start.  But if you are both from completely different cultures, the outlook is bleak.  You would have to work extra hard to overcome that handicap.  There.  Has that discouraged you enough?  (Just kidding.)  It all comes down to you personally.  What do you want?  Are you willing to take the time to get to know him well enough to know whether he's the one for you and that you're compatible?  It does take time, unfortunately.
720216
See if it seems mutual and if there is chemistry. this is not an unusual circumstance. many folks link up this way and get married, who knows