i live w/my bf but am leaving him hopefully by the end of the week; what are my rights living in his house?
829792
avoid any confrontation, play the headache/not feeling well act until yo are ready to bounce then leave him a note letting him know why you chose to go.. maybe with a word of advice in the hopes that he'll be better to his next victim...\nthis is assuming of course that he is unbearable...\nMaybe you're the tough one to get along with?
267419
Why is he your old boyfriend? There had to have been reasons for breaking up and if I were you, I would take that into account. Also, would you be moving in together or just near him? Is it economical for you to move, will you be able to work, find housing? I don't know, it just doesn't sound like something that you should do...find a new boyfriend, one that lives closer to you or one that would move to be near YOU!
409929
start out as you mean to go on. Most guys end up letting you do all the cleaning, cooking etc. If that is fine with you then ok. If not then do not let them get away with it. It is no use letting him do what he wants now and then complain about it a few years down the line. Talk about who will do what around the house, who pays for what etc. \nThe last thing you will be thinking of right now is breaking up. But if it should ever happen who get's what? Talk it all through now and write down what was agreed upon. Believe me it will spare you alot of heart ache in the future. Keep lists of who paid for what.\nOh and make sure both your names are on the lease.  \nHope everything goes well for you both.
278180
You CAN live without him girlfirend!!!- All he will do in the future is bring you down- stealing from you and lying- that is something most strangers would not do to you- you need a new man and there is one out there for you jsut don't rush it. You can not have a relationship without trust and you need to dump him ASAP. If you think there will be trouble breaking it off with him or you feel that you will be weak in staying away fromm him then get yourself a support group or a counselor before you make the move. \nYou say you can not live iwthout him, but I'm sure most of your answers will be that you can't live WITH him. Good luck- be strong- he does not deserve you.
174349
depends on the state you live in, some yes others no, you have as much right to the house as he has, check the laws in your state
971876
technically, landlords have the right to come in to your home/room whenever they please.  I am not sure what you can do.
410428
She can say it, but you can contest the decision if you can prove special circumstances in regards to who is named on the lease.  If it is in your name, she is wrong.  If it is in both your names, you need to show just cause for remaining as the primary resident/leasee.  If there are children involved that is one reason.  If utilities are in your name, that is another reason.  If you have no way of moving your belongings out I believe it must be paid for by the department who is telling you to move.  You need to find a legal aid society that can assist you at low or no cost.  If you were the victim of a violent crime, then they should assist you with a restraining order against him.  This is most likely why you are being asked to move...the restraining order is in the works & the P.O. wants to get you out before it is issued.  I don't know, it sounds biased, but I don't know all the facts.  Hope this gives you some ideas.
844855
Sounds like he has somebody.  He is also not right in not letting you know where he lives.  You are legally obligated to have his address for both his house and his job.  Same with phone numbers...home, work, and cell, in case of an emergency.   I'd call your lawyer and let him know that you have no idea where he lives and you suspect that he has a woman (girl) living there.  Not sure about yours, but in Alabama, all divorce papers say that she can't have anyone of the opposite sex living in the house with her without the benefit of marriage, and the same went for him.
285573
Move back into the same room, being separate will not help!\nTry  for a weekend get away.
988320
The rights between you and your partner depend on the details of how you hold the property and what agreements you have made with each other. \n\nI hope you can work out your differences with your partner.
535131
As for entering your basement when you're not at home, the landlord is supposed to give a MINIMUM of 72 hours written notice of "Intent to enter premises". To do anything else would be a violation of the "Landlord Tenant Act" in your area.  If you really have concerns about it you can pick up or have mailed to you a copy of the LTA from your State or County's Housing Authority.   As for his harrassment of you for rent being paid so long as your are paying your rent in a timely manner he has no right to so even if you were to be paying late his only legal right is to begin the eviction process, 3 10 and 20 day notices, finally court involvment and sheriff's removing you from the property.\n\nWith this in mind, you have a very real possibilty of staying there rent-free if his behaviour continues. Following up with a lawsuit in your favor he could be odered to give your either monetary compensation, housing compensation ('X' months rent at no charge to you). not too mention having to walk a very thin line with you following all of that. Since his action could be construed as retaliatory, therfore further punishable as prescribed be law.
284867
NO WAY!!!!\nIt is your family and you should allow them to use you home.\n\nBut if they are staying for a long period of time then you might ask them to pay you for the bills and other things of such matter.\n\nBut if frequent item distruction occurrs or they are causing you extra for things, and you ask them to stop and these things still happen then you can kick them out.\nIf they refuse then take it to the court.
534004
well the best thing to do is to move in with him or he will move in with u
498641
First of all he shouldnt be living with you all anyway!Next\nas long as u continue to except it he's gonna do it. Through his cheap, mooching, unconcerned ass out of that house and let it go. You dont need it and certanly your parents dont need all the extra stress on them. You need to be woman enough to handle that situation.
1166898
Girl, both of you need to get a place of your own. Don't you know that as long as you live with her you are never gonna be your "own woman" in her place. She is always gonna blame you and take his side. She needs to stay the heck outta your business.
1047221
You have to deal with it. It's his job.  Get a night job if you can. That way you'll be home at the same time. You can't tell him to leave his job for you. Not fair!
884861
The law states that she must first serve you with a notice to quit and then go to court for legal eviction.  She can not tell you that you must move because of relatives coming.  If you have a signed lease then you have the law on your side.  She has to have a good reason to evict you.  If you are late on your rent or destroyed the property then she can keep your security deposit but just because she wants to let others live there she can not do that.  Contact your local housing authority for a copy of tenents rights.  She can not remove  your things or have utilities shut off to force you to move either.  Good Luck.