sex pain and i need help...?
831713
There's a myriad of reasons, but I bet an infection.  Possibly a UTI (i.e., urinary tract infection) or maybe a latex allergy if you used a condom.  Everyone reacts differently.  Unfortunately, at this point, you need to see your gynecologist before it gets worse; if it is an infection you won't be able to "wait it away".... you'll need some meds asap before it gets worse.  Hurry up and don't wait!
311601
Can you explain a little more? What kind of "hurt" are you talking about? Is it self-inflicted? Is it dangerous? \nI am somewhat of a masochist and what other people consider pain, I consider pleasure...but I always make sure that my partners are aware of what I can and cannot handle. If you think it's more than this, please talk to someone who you think can help, preferrably offline. If you do want to elaborate, people here can be of more help.=)
1148204
instead of stopping to have sex, which is such a key element for so many poeple's relationships, you should find out what hurts.  sex should not be painful (but pleasurable).  perhaps if you fix YOUR problem, your relationship will continue to grow - instead of giving your boyfriend a problem.  please see a doctor righta way.
208785
You can try Tantra or you can go to a sex shop and purchase a penile ring. It really helped my man. Another way I helped my man is when he felt he was going to ejaculate, pull out and I would hold the head firmly until the feeling would subside and resume intercourse. I kept doing this and now he is a monster!
729571
it would be great if everyone would include more info....\nhow old are you...what did you do last night before bed?   are you sexually active?  did you wear a condom last time you had sex?  are you circumscised?  do you masturbate?  did you have trauma to the testicle in question (were you kicked in the nuts?)...is the sore testicle bigger than the other one...which of your testicles hung lower before the pain (it is usually the left one)...and is it different today?...the worst and most serious consequence is a TORSION TESTICLE which is a surgical emergency...this is where the testicle turns on itself and cuts off the blood supply.  if it is not returned to its' original state VERY SOON...you will lose it and be a one nut kid.  dont worry, you will still have kids, but you'll look funny with a solo...\nthe next thing that you have to consider is epididimitis...which can be a sexually transmitted disease...then you need antibiotics, pain meds and an inflammatory....i would give you some treatmetn options, but you need to go to the ED, RIGHT NOW!  you need an ultrasound of the testicle!
658105
dont use your hips use your arms and keep your back, butt, and legs straight it helps me.\n also if your getting close pull out and take a second before going back in. try masterbating about 1-2 hours befor sex or drink some alcohol.\n sex should last at least 20 minuets for both you and her
1093224
I am a guy, too, but this is such a doctor thing... look at all these other women who have tried to help you with safer passage through what appears to be a very uncomfortable thing... when you have had a chance to try some of their suggestions, please do remember your doctor may have some really cool answers, as well. If not your doctor, then consult with a close friend you trust the most, either for answers, or for referral to someone who can nail this one for you. I am sending this to you more because I want you to know there is someone in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. who really gives a damn about this issue you are experiencing, and who hopes that by this evening, you will have either come by or acquired an answer that will really work for you. You shouldn't have to endure another hour of this kind of chaffing and discomfort. God Bless You, don't give up, keep looking for the right answer, and Good Luck to you!  - Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A.  (I am 63 years old.)
227769
go slow and be very gently with her...i have the same problem..me and my guy...he takes his time and loves on me when he inserts to help take my mind off the pain...don't be too anxious...slow is the key...
877008
If you haven't already, get to a pain management doctor. I'm sure he can help you. Don't take the pain though, get to a doctor and MAKE them do something. There is help for you, you just have to be ready to keep going to doctors until you find it. Don't settle on pain, get to a pain management center. Good luck.
1099868
Girl, walk away from him and don't look back. You will be all right, no matter how bad it hurts right now. All there is between you is great sex, and I know from experience how we women can let that affect our emotions. You deserve better, and it will feel great when you get it. Just stay away from him, no matter what!!!!!!
1083013
You need to go to your local health care professional and have this check \nIf it hurt to have sex there maybe a problem
105445
That would definitely be your cervix.  This is where your uterus opens into the vaginal canal.  It can be quite painful if your partner bumps against it during sexual intercourse.  Your best bet would be to experiment with different positions that allow for different penetration angles.  I suffer from the same problem, and there are some sexual positions (woman on top for example) that I just *cannot* tolerate.  If you have any additional questions, talk to your gyno.  You'd be amazed at the kind of advice they can give you.
1120825
Try to do workouts and more kegals..... Also talk with your doctor and see what they suggest. He also needs to make sure you are really lubed up and ready for him. He should try oral on you and let you climax and then use ky jelly and be gentle and slow and take his time so he does not hurt you. Have you tried being on top so that you can control things? Try buying a couples toy so that during intercourse you both are stimulated.... I hope this helps you some and i wish you the best.
377823
You can go to a doc.  and have it either frozen off or burned off.  In either case, that will hurt like hell at first, be uncomforatable for awhile, then feel better later.
238164
Only if you are doing it wrong. Sex is supposed to feel good!\n\nUse plenty of lube, take your time and don't do anything that doesn't feel right.\n\nIf you are the guy, pay attention to her signals and ask her how she is doing.\n\nHaving said all that, some people do have painful intercourse, but this is a medical problem that should be seen by a doctor.
777554
It shouldn't be a problem unless the pain is \n\n1) Severe or \n2)Long-lasting\n\nA lot of women feel mild pain if the penis is pressing up near the cervix (girl-on-top is a big culprit here).  Serious pain, in sex as in life, is always a sign to slow up and take it easy.  Since you seem to be pretty content with things I'd say you are fine.  If the pain is bothering you, try some different angles and positions... there's bound to be some that allow for mindblowing sex without any pain.
968445
OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...