What would you do if the only reason your bf broke up with you was cuz he wanted to be single?
814633
Maybe you came onto him too strong or he's cheating on you.  There are times when it's okay to be together and spending quality time with each other.  Then there are your separate lives which you need to handle.  If you bothered him every single minute, every hour, every second of the day I bet he would be annoyed.  I would be annoyed too and think that you were a psycho.  It's the same with a guy bothering his girlfriend every single minute, every single hour, every single second of the day.  I bet his girlfriend would be pretty annoyed and dump him to be single again.  Then there's those crazy people who like the attention 24 hours a day and seven days a week.  If your relationship doesn't go anywhere good, it's time to call it quits and start over fresh.\n\nSo he's either:\n1.  Cheating on you\n2.  Extremely annoyed by you\nor\n3.  Gay
1142028
you should forget about him and move on... im in a similar position.. and im realizing that as much as you believe it could have worked out.. you cant change the way he feels and it is better to forget about it and savor being single.
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
764821
your situation seems like a very complicated one.. maybe the next time he says that he loves you, you should ask him why u arent together then. i dont think its a good idea to continue to do gf bf stuf with him unless you start dating again. he might be just using u and u really dont want to get deeper than u already are if he is. maybe theres a different reason he broke up with u.. fam? but i dont noe. if i loved someone else i dont think i would be able to date another person at the same time.
930337
sounds like he regrets breaking up with you, kinda like you don't know what you have 'till it's gone.  it's your choice if you decide to take him back.  if you really care for him and feel he is being honest then go for it.
1003212
Forget him...there was obviously a good reason why you broke up with eachother..and honey...he was cheating on his gf wit u ....what makes u think he won't cheat on u wit someone else??Find yourself a real man!<3
827012
First what is the reason(s) that he broke up with you? It all depends on the reason. Give him some space as he won't listen to you now. Don't rush him. For starters, you can be his friend without being too pushy. But it depends on his reason for leaving you because if he really wants to move on, then you just have to do the same.\n\nAs for you telling him that you love him, did he reply? If no, then he wants to be alone.
1032549
Breaking up with my ex-boyfriend. If I had known what was going to happen to him, I would have stayed so he would have someone to take care of him now. He was such a tosser, but I hate what's happened to him.
1074737
I agree that you make a list of reasons you broke up and go back to read it when you need to. Just make sure he doesn't find it.\nGood luck.
201018
give him a chance to breathe and think on your relationship. if you want him in your life you have to be mature enough to let him decide if he wants to be with you; if you're bringing drama to the relationship and he broke up with you because of it, at this point you have to let him decide if he REALLY wants to be with you. I was in a relationship like yours and he decided to come back to me. I always have to be careful of his feelings due to our past but if your gut wants to be with you let him. if he doesn't let him go, it'll only help the both of you in the long run...
553022
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
138593
It sounds like you might be the reason that he and his girlfriend broke up.  You might as well go for it.  From your question I would say that you are young, and you only get to be young once so you might as well enjoy it.
877570
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548938
look ..i'm in the same setuation as you r ...my ex said he not ready ..so we broke up. And i'm not the kind of girl who give up on everything and trying to get what i want but i just relise what is the point of tryting to get someone who doesn't want me. so i think i should be happy with single life and i don't need them to make me happy. But i love him so i give him what he want ..he want to be friends and i friends with him and he don't want me to hate him and angry ..so i don't and i just trying to be cooling off and i don't show him how much i need him and i told him i'm happy and give him his need but at the same time i'm making my self happy and enjoy my life without him...who know, i believe their is someone out there is waiting for you and me ...and i know i will be inlove again and so do u...but if he want to come back let him be and if he don't just set him free as he wish ...\n\nRemember if u trying to make ur self happy and if you happy life is good ...this is just a part of life ..let them go ...
142161
If you had reason to dump him ... he needs to stay dumped. Do him a favor and move on so he can.
881294
Pretty much, if he liked you, why break up in the 1st place?
631530
Atrabel, I was once in your shoes. When i broke up with my ex which was about 4 years back, i really felt lonely. It took me 2 years to get over her. Guessed I really loved her back then. Loneliness comes because you don't get to do the usual routines with your bf anymore i.e talking on the phone, shopping, etc. In this situation, one might feel depressed and lonesome. But hey, I was lucky I have good friends to support me. You don't have to do those things with your bf, you can share it with your friends and family instead. It might feel weird for the meanwhile, but trust me, u'll get over it in no time. Time will heal the wound, and if u need love... families and friends will do. They give tremendous sense of security. In the mean time, don't just sit there doing nth. Go out and meet new people, make new friends! There are so many things that you can enjoy doing urself as well. I've been single ever since, and i'm still happy. Time will tell when I'm ready for a steady relationship :) all the best sweetie!