my sister is always asking me to set her up with my b/F's brother?
826023
well trying telling your sisteer whyyou think he is a asshole then let her think if this is what she wants in a boyfriend or tell your b/f to setthem up but thn if you don,t say anything she might get mad at ou if i was you i would just give it up and let her do it herself all the best
930084
You must be my sister. JK Lol. My sister and I have the same problem. She always tells me to back off and I don't care. I'll play with her when she wants it. If I sense she's getting tense I'll leave her alone. \n\nI am the older sister though. Maybe you guys could spend a day or two a week together? Then she wouldn't have to be in your face *all the time*.\n\nIt's great that you guys get along well though! Be greatful for that!
1021103
You can do the right thing and that would be to keep it to yourself.  HE IS YOUR SISTERS BF FOR GOD SAKE.
88762
yes! I have the same situation with a brother.
1014827
I wouldn't try to hurt her by giving her two choices but I'm afraid that's how it would have to be. She can either be with your brother or your cousin. If she stills wants both as yoou caring for you brother its your job to protect him and not let a girl hurt him in anyway so you will come to a hard decision and sacrifice because it might be your friendship vs. your brothers trust and love. If you don't like that way just let your friend find out the hard way whatever game you may play will always be used on you the other way.
1081824
Wow!  Sounds like my family.  My brother married her, and we still don't get along, 2 years later.  I try to just put up with her because of my brother.  But I don't see it getting better. \nMaybe your bro doesn't see her faults.  If you say something now, he might take a closer look and decide he doesn't like those things about her, either.  He might get mad at you, but he'll get over it, won't he?
287223
stop trying to convince yourself, ok you did what you did before but still that is your sister. if you want to give him booty go ahead. cause you probably will anyway. you are still sprung girl you gotta shake it off. he is only a man or boy. spend time with yourself get your mind right .go out meet new people.
798704
From the look of things, your sister is a pretty vain and self-centred person (unlike you).\n\nYou should really appreciate that this guy in your life is a genuine one who loves the 'Real You'. Very few people are as lucky as you are to get such true love. DON'T LET HIM GO AT ANY COST.  \n\nAs far as your sister is concerned, try to develop a relationship with her that is more than just 'skin-deep and cosmetic'. Tell her that your fiancee is really special for you and just because he doesn't whim your sister's fancies -- that doesn't make him a lesser guy.\n\nDon't pay too much attention to your sister's comments about this guy --- Remember you can't and don't need to please everybody.\n\nJust let her be and I'm sure with time she'll accept this quite easily because psychology of such people says that superfluous people are poor at holding on to grudges for too long. \n\n\nBEST OF LUCK with this man...
882947
I would let your brother deal with her since you don't want her to come between you two.  That could potentially happen if you confront her directly and your brother picks her side.  Talk to him about what he is going to do about his wretched wife.  In answer to your other question people do sometimes change for the worse but usually they were bad to begin with and just hid it until they were comfortably ensconced.
838169
If l was you l would tell him to stay away from the both of you. You are right he is a jerk !! He is playing both of you for fools. How did he think he would get away with this rubbish ? Tell him  that you are going to tell your sister everything and she will  also know what a jerk he is. That should be enough to scare him off, if that doesn't keep him away, try putting up some posters with his photo, name and details of what he did around your neighbourhood. That will definately do it. Good Luck.
1033975
How do you feel about it? Does it bother you that she is mean to him? If it does the best thing you can do is talk to her about it.  Tell her not to say a word to him.  There is a probability that she is jealous and mad at the fact that he chose you or the fact that you guys are together.  But one thing I can tell you is dont choose a man over family.  It is never worth it.......
1086848
I don't know about asking her brother for permission, you're not marrying him.  Maybe ask to take them both out for dinner .  Tell him then what are your intentions. All the while making sure that's what your girl wants too.  Good Luck.
677896
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
208898
I would only say something if you really feel the need to stand up for your brother, I would do it with them both standing right there so that way there is no he said she said crap going on between them talking about you. I would only do that under extreme cercumstances though. It matters how close you are over all to your brother, I mean if you can talk to him about anything i would definitally say something to him in private, something like dude is it just me or do you seem unhappy here lately, not really blameing her but if it is because of her he will come out and say so, if he asks you what you think i would go ahead and tell him but in the long and short of it if she makes him eat dog food on the floor every night for dinner and he still loves her, support him in his pick for a future wife. You might not like how she treats him over all but it looks like he does, maybe you havent gotten to know her well enough yet, Or maybe he hasnt, who knows. But i would definitally deal with this in a tender way, maybe your mom or dad can say something to him, or you can go to them and voice your concerns, they could probably get away with saying something to him easier then you could. I dont know ive never really been in that situation but i can see it going bad easily if its not delt with care :) I hope that helps
857872
Oh girl I am in the same situation, except it is my sister's HUSBAND!!!  Personally, I would put him in his place.  Tell him you are not interested in him like that.  If he continues then you will have to be a little more forceful and start avoiding him whenever possible.  Never be alone with him.  Everything he does to you try to document it.  Save his emails, voicemails, and text messages, because when your friend does find out guess who she is going to believe....not you.  Cover yourself.  Also, try to get him to hit on a third party friend and show your friend what an idiot he really is.
1044665
That sounds very rude and inconsiderate to me.  If she asked your sister then she asked her so she should stay.  She can just let her friend know that the spot has been filled because she declined.  I dunno man, but to me she is already setting a bad example for married life if she can't even stay true to her word and cant even show respect for your family.  Looks like you got some thinking to do.  Good luck.
827423
Ummm I don't know how old u r, but really that doesn't matter... stay away from the sister's bf....STAY AWAY FROM THE SISTER'S BF!!  All that will happen is drama drama drama.  Stick with your b/f or go find a better one...but you need to distance yourself from your sister's relationship now before it goes any further!!!