Can a guy marry a girl who had physical relations with other guys in past????????
824762
He should not try to marry her until she admits she loves him too. She should not make him look for the hidden messages behind her twisted lies if she really loves him. How cana  woman in love say she does not love him? \nHe should wait until he is sure she loves him, otherwise she could be using him only.
872622
he IS different,and a good start towards a unique expression of love in friendship.if he can prove every day that his love for her is strong he does it because he wants to.if he got married to her to learn the same lesson he would be obligated to love her.there is a difference.he can date my daughter
227075
I have to agree with rkrell, i have been where you are, get her out of that situation. it is nothing but trouble  for you. Those are the doors that need to be closed in life. Especially fomr the past, if they remain open your future will never be as it could and should be. Especially since you two want to get married. You are only short changing yourrelationship by allowing her to getto knwo this guy...bad move
380860
Ah, yes, I believe so..Love doesn't merely consist of the physical, especially if you are young.  It's importantly based on communication...just like a relationship with God for example.  If two people are to have a relationship, they must communicate or the relationship will break down...that's the only way you can have a relationship with God; Is to talk to Him (pray, read the Bible, church). ASSUMING that you're communicating some way with this person is a good foundation for a relationship.  If it's through the net, then, I think that's different because people mask who they are alot of times and have false identities, personalities, etc. and really aren't anything like the person they portray on the computer. This is not good.  If you have met this person one time or another and the relationship has blossomed from there and it's a long-distance relationship, then I'd say, GO FOR IT.  I've seen many enriching long-distance relationships turn into great marriages.  Good luck!
654496
my husband did... he dated one of my friends first, not really a best friend and they broke up like 4 months before we started dating. I caused a big fight between me and the girl, not really him. I think there are special circumstances. Like would you have respect for the girl's friend if she cheated on you and that's how you broke up? Me and this girl are friends again and obviously i married my husband so things worked out fine.
338957
hey, the same thing kinda happened to me! except, he never wanted her sexually...but i was friends with her (probably during a time when she dated him), way before i ever met him...we lived in different countries, so i think she may have dated him after i met her...anyway, she used to come over and hang out all the time after he and i got married...they're just old buddies and well, what they used to have is now long gone...\nso, if you feel that you can trust BOTH of them, why not?
125911
"Anyone"?  Does that mean romantic love?  Does that mean love between two girls and a male?  If you have cosmic or divine love then you love everyone and everything.  So are we talking about love for two girls and one guy like for a polygamy marriage?  Or is it just friendship love.  If it is friendship love then why not.  If it is love for marriage then check the laws in your state.  If it is romantic love then there may be various reasons for the feelings of love.  And it might seem that the love between one guy and one of the girls is different than the love this guy has for the other girl.  Is the love equivalent if not equal?  Or is someone being fooled?
1112747
the guy i've been dating for the past 3 months i think is my soulmate. We can talk about anything and everything w/o worrying what we are saying to each other. We are both very stubborn but when it comes to arguments neither of us leaves w/o resolving the conflict. I've never felt this way about any other person and he has once but that was b/c the other chick was good in bed. We haven't slept together, and yet he's already talked to his immediate family about a wedding in the next 5-7 years. I wouldn't imagine marrying anyone else.
1171786
no sure how long you two have been dating, but beware.  Guys who usually rush into marriage thinking should send up warning flags.  I was in a relationship that moved like that one, and he was very emotionally abusive, and would most likely have been physically abusive if we had gotten married.
519516
i also had inter cast marriage, i am punjabi and my hubby is pandit, but in our case theres not much difference in our rituals and tradition, but as u told a hindu girl and muslim boy , so there is much diference in their rituals and traditions, further will guy be truthful to her all his life. becoz u know in muslim's its allowed to have more than 1 marriage , so will he be ready to accept just one wife while his religion giving him permission to have more than one, will he stick to her for all his life????????????????? well i dont think so, becoz all guys are same
210565
Yes, I know you can.  My girlfriend met a guy on yahoo chat several years ago.  She has a handicapped son and he had 5 kids.  I was very skeptical...thought it would never work.  They got married and he has been her knight in shining Armour!
73487
i support younger-male relationship!!!!(that's what i called it).. but , why? why can't they??\nwho don't give permission? her parents?u can't fix it... her friends?maybe u can talk to them nicely...but, pls specify , why??
1170175
hmmmmmmmmm.  Is it culturally acceptable to love a guy if that guy is a god?  Do I have to love a guy if that guy is a god?  I'd prefer not to.  And I'm also not sure about that hot sweaty thing either.
371520
No, but I did know a guy once that after I had sort of fooled around with him (we didn't do very much) that we were talking and in the middle of some conversation he mentioned that he had a girlfriend and that he was bisexual. I think he actually thought that if he came clean and said he was bisexual that somehow that made it okay, but when I asked if his girlfriend knew he said no he didn't know how to tell her. And I remember being a bit sarcastic and saying something like "You just say, hey I love you very much, but I want you to know that I'm bi." I think he just laughed and said it wasn't that easy. I asked him if he loved her, he said yes. Then I asked why he was out having sex with guys then (since earlier he had told me that he had met this guy and they did this or he met this guy and did this, etc). He said because he liked having sex with guys. I remember kinda scorning him a bit about not being faithful to his girlfriend to which he simply replied "But I'm bisexual". I remember saying very clearly "That doesn't mean that this isn't cheating. If she doesn't know and she hasn't said it's okay for you to sleep with guys or even to have a boyfriend and a girlfriend, then as far as I'm concerned this is cheating." Ironically he had the nerve to contact me a few years later to tell me he was going to marry her. I asked him if he was still having sex with guys, etc. He told me he wasn't. Then I talked to one of my gay friends who was talking about a guy that sounded familiar that he had sex with a few nights before. I asked his name and sure enough it was him. I went to his work and confronted him about it and he admitted that he had had sex with my friend and then casually mentioned a few other guys I also know. I told him he better tell his fiance, since he still hadn't, or not marry her if he didn't want to do that and that if he didn't tell her and was still going to marry her that my friends and I were going to tell her. I guess that was enough because he broke off the engagement and eventually a few years later did tell her that he was bisexual. To which she calmly replied "Oh neat!" And from conversations with her about it she said that it wouldn't have bothered her if he had wanted a boyfriend, too, so long as the boyfriend was bisexual and it was okay for her to sleep with that guy, too. (to each their own I guess) The point was that he was scared to tell her and in the end she would've been fine with it. Last I checked, he hasn't even dated or been with a girl in a long time and is actually now in a long term relationship with a guy.\n\nAs for me, I'm in a committed relationship myself. I don't know too many guys that have been with girls and slept with guys. I have met atleast one or two straight guys that occasionally like to get a bj from a guy (I know because they often went to some of my gay friends to get them....which at first shocked me, but once they explained that it was better than masturbating and that really it would be better if they could just find a girlfriend but that you take what you can get....oddly many of them are now married and they met those girls through us gay men who with our help usually introduced them and everytime I see them they seem very happy, one that I know even has three kids already...and according to the girl, who was a friend, they have a very healthy sex life)
654460
HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont
217877
Yes, there are kind of person like that. They probably have some other interesting things to do in and maybe all their life, and neglect their partners (although they don't mean it).\n\nIf you marry him, you'll find really a roomate than a lover, believe me. There will be the moments you want to cry, wishing you were the other gal you see her with b/f or husband and they are so affectionate to each other ... If you watch around, you'll see even a male and a female animal in couple are affectionate with each other ...\n\nI even wonder what has been keeping you 9 years in that relationship ... Haven't you ever felt lonely in your heart ?
931112
Hard question...Usually I would say that this is a line I wouldn't cross. However,  if this guy/girl is your soul mate and you absolutely love each other to the point of marriage, I think you should discuss it with your friend because the relationship with that guy/girl would then be the most important not your friend's.