should i stay or should i leave ?
827123
I was in a very controlling relationship with this guy 2 years of always accusing me ofsleepin with other people or doin drugs well he made my life a livin hell called me everything but a white person later on i found out he was the 1 messin around trust me u dont need that kind of man around u or ur child
552410
I'd go with the fact of it's not a good fit for you, you feel you have no opportunity for advancement, and that you've gone as far as you think you're going to go with that company, and that you're looking for a change. \n\nGood luck!!!
112102
Depends on your situation and the available of housing.  Sometimes going back home is the best choice since you can save money and be able to afford to live in a "nicer" place.
118878
You should reevalute where life has taken you and consider\n\nwhether or not you're making the right choices. Good luck.\n\nIf you're asking if you should stick by him, only you know that.
1154731
that all depends on you and your spouse! if you are secure with staying at home taking care of the family then stay, but if you want to work then work! this is something you and your spouse should discuss
921165
Well, you made the move so you will need to end it with the man you love. Why the move though? Why leave the man you love behind? I'm sure it was a real good reason to leave him. You can try to continue your love but there will be difficult times ahead. Prepare yourself. It's is time to move forward. Good luck.....SAM
1120907
That arrangement is entirely up to you and your parents. What ever makes all of you comfortable. Some leave, some don't. If you do stay though, you should help contribute to the household income or at least do a decent amount of work around the house to help pay for your keep.
322075
Ehh, I am going to go out on a limb here, and say that you shouldn't AUTOMATICALLY leave him, unless he is still activly particpating in his marriage, in which case you should.  I have to say that I was married, but not (we were separated), and I started a relationship with an amazing woman, but I was up front about my status.  Give him a chance to explain himself, if you don't like what he has to say then you can slap him and leave.  Don't act to hasty, get the lay of the land before you make a decision.  Good luck my dear, I hope it turns out ok.
682957
I did have to make that choice, either stay living with my boyfriend or come home to live with my parents that are in bad health and failing fast. I choice to be with my parents and can only hope now that I don't loose my boyfriend in the process of all this. So far so good as I have been here with my parents for over 2 months now, him and I are still going strong.I either go see him or he comes to see me and talk every day on the phone.
345467
First thing to do is to identify why are you leaving.  Is the reason valid enough for you to move on?  If so, then leave.  Now, if you don't mind staying with the job, then stay.  But call your shots.  You have leverage now.  The same situation happened to a relative of mine.  I asked her if she really didn't like the job or was moving on to a better opportunity.  She was okay with the job and really didn't have any other prospects.  So, I suggested that she draw up her own terms for staying.  The employer agreed to her terms.  She was a little surprised but she was happy with the results.
871250
Are you keeping tabs?  You should document everything!!!  The day will some when you are asked why you are so unhappy?  If you really want to leave then, they best time to look for a job is while you have a job!  \nBest of luck to you!
1039711
I'd say stay home set the example and save money. The life style change can make you or break you. Try it if not move out the second semester.
178441
Please stay! Don't let the "others" scare you. It's funny when you piss them off!
142288
i would try to find a better job, either more money or more job satisfaction or ideally both.  if you find something better you should get out and don't look back.
893402
Why do you want to? If you have a valid reason then ok, but if it's worth staying for then stay! Think, you get paid for it and it is nearly xmas!
1114701
Bosses can be a real pain.  I have one that meets every qualification of a "Bad Boss".\n\nI'm dealing with it for now, and just putting up with him.  My job and the company aren't bad.  \n\nTypically it's good to stay at a place for at least 2 years.  It looks like you're more stable. \n\nA good indicator of when you need to leave a job is if you dread going into work on Monday, when it's only Friday night.\n\nIt's not worth your health.  Besides, the economy is better now, so I'm sure there's more jobs out there...
438921
♡I would definitely rather stay in America♡, but an education is important, so stay in school and get a good education. You can always come back to America for holidays...♡