how do i tell my wife that i am a .. ho*mo-....?
828404
of course.... :) aren't we all!
460089
well just tell your $%$$##%%^ sister in law to go &&^%$#$@#@## and %%#$##$%^ and *((*%^##@@ ---that should do it!
1031504
TURN THAT EVIL COLD HEARTED VICIOUS LIFE SUCKING BIT** X WIFE OF MINE IN TO A SLUG THEN DROP A LARGE HEAVY ROCK ON HER\n\n\nYES I HAVE ISSUES
187425
The easiest way is to tell her.  Those are 3 powerful words!\n\nDo little things for her.  Leave her notes in random places so she finds them throughout the day (in her jacket pocket, on the bathroom mirror, on her pillow, on the steering wheel).  Send her flowers at work.  Cook her favorite meal (or order it in).  I find the little things to speak the loudest:)
201876
You cant and you shouldnt have done that in the first place. Thats called adultry and your wife can devorce you for everything that your worth for that. So break it off now with her.
644770
Tell wife to grow up!
128949
Settle down.\n\nThe correct answer which comes from years of experience is -\n          Never add your wife to any account
794896
If you already know you are going to marry her, make it legitimate.  Let this be the special life altering thing that is truly is (no matter what you call it) make her feel special and loved, and let her step up to the plate as your wife and life partner.  You WILL cheapen it by calling it by another name.
116370
tell her ur not in love with her and you have a woman. i know what u mean it can be a pain. tell her if she doesn't stop acting the way she does, she can't be in your life
311300
here's a little secret. if you have a pet name that your wife thinks is special to her, than it makes it very unspecial when you call other people it. sounds silly but women feel insecure very easily. reinforce that you say it to women you respect and feel are equals to you intellectually and as good people, than let her know you didn't realize how it hurt her to feel like her pet name wasn't special only for her. than say your sorry and you love her and respect her feelings and wish her to feel secure with you, so you'll try your best to not do it again. than give her a big hug and kiss and listen to her talk for a while with any concerns and basically repeat what you just said with a few changes so you don't sound like a recording. don't make her feel that her feelings are invalid or stupid or silly, they're her feelings and that's all that matters. respect her for having trust in you to share them with you.
249852
thats a hard situation, I doubt anyhting you can ever think of saying in the nicest way will ever make her not get mad. I guess you just need to understand that you tried your best trying to tell her in the nicest way possible and if she gets offended thats a shame, but you need to move out and start your life. Id prolly be like i have a surprise tonight for you, Im going to make you dinner, then after shes all fattened up tell her how much you love her and is going to miss her, good luck
472349
Take is slowly. Define yourself first. What type of crossdresser are you? Casual, all the time? Do you dress as a fetish, or is it deeper for you? Have you talked with anyone else about your crossdressing? \nWhat are you hoping to accomplish by telling her? If you are looking for support, what are her views of other crossdressers? In today's say and age, you see crossdressing on all sorts of TV programs and other media, I am sure she has seen it as well. What is her general reaction towards it. Who's clothing do you wear? If it is your own stuff, how well hidden is it? You might be suprised, she might actually already know and be waiting for you to trust her to tell her.\nTake it slow, because if she is not ok with it, she might have a lot to process. I would make sure to inform her that you are not GAY, and by wearing clothing like that, it does not make you in any way GAY.\nIf you trust her, and she trusts you, and you want to tell her after you have found out who you are, then go ahead.\n\nI am not sure how well this would work, but you might make a game out of it, or a bet. Maybe do something that she comes up with you dressing up, like set a bet where the looser has to dress as a maid or something, and be all macho about it so when you loose, it looks painful that you have to dress as a maid. Heard that one somewhere, not sure the results. Would give you a deep insight into your wife's view on crossdressing from her reactions though...
748160
sorry to say this, but your wife sounds trife! any woman who wont recognize a man thats willing to take care of you and you cant even make sure he comes home to a clean house? she sounds verrrry comfortable. like she knows she "got you". she probably talks shit about you to her girlfriends. do you go away alot? talk to her, if that doesnt work, tell her to kick rocks!! you dont sound happy with her, you should always be happy.
1098499
Dude - you did it now. You have to come clean with her, and your wife, and you may lose both of them by doing so. Honesty is the best policy. This gal should already understand your situation, or you should already be separated from the wife.\n\nYou've got some backpedaling to do, and it won't be pretty....
1044656
you can pull out things like a lucky rabbits foot (so you can say it might better you chances of getting lucky that night), a stuffed crab (if your wife has a since of humor), sea weed (again only if you wife has a since of humor because that would suck to piss her off on your wedding day. Then you would not need the rabbits foot cuz you would probably be sleeping on the floor) Get some white sexy undies in her size and pull them out too. The remote to the TV. Tell everyone she had to hide it so you would not be late to your weeding. Good luck
538572
I tell my wife to do it all the time!
940523
Don't ever admit to anything. The best thing that you can do is accuse her of giving it to you,and then file for divorce on grounds of adultery.