Does anyone know how to get a good man in the united states?
821708
Try moving out of the US... :D
1143901
OK, this is a GOOD QUESTION. \n\nThe best place to find good MEN is a gym. \n\nAlso, many cities and towns have groups of single parents that meet other single parents. \n\nAnd, join an association, a club, etc. There you will find a lot of good MEN.\n\nThe only guys you will find in bars are BOYS! And immature ones, at that.\n\nNever a good idea to date someone from work. Always causes gossip. And you do not need those mind games!!
936640
With all those *wonderful* qualities you possess you can't find someone in America to become subservient to you?\noh yeah...American...guess not.
439340
Good God...if you can't find one in that part of our nation then you must be a blind man!!!!\nGO TO "BAY AREA" if it's that hard for you.....\njust walk up to one and be nice...
917867
My best advise is this... make your own choices and build your life. You can't plan for a man to come into your life, and when he does it will probably upset your apple cart a bit... that  is what love does. To meet a nice, good, and strong, man you should try looking in quieter places and not night spots. Bookstores, libraries, coffee houses... those are good places to just relax and attract a few fellas. Good luck!
1044888
maybe ya need to find a man
474924
There are a few decent and honest guys out there, but you got to look in the right place! Bars, clubs are meat markets, stay away from that kind of environment. It also helps when you stop looking so hard, just relax, when the time is right it will happen. That's how I met my hubby.
537155
You and the guy looking for a nice woman in Missouri should hook up.  But as I told him, good luck.
430277
u need to get a man that can respect u
49468
Your call, but let me remind you, it is also your life.\nThe way that the universe seems to work is that there are probably many men who are suitable for you, but far too many are ignored as too .... (whatever).  Most people start judging before they even know who the other is.  This combined with the feelings you have about taking  what you can and running with it are the primary reasons that half of all marriages in the USA currently end in less than love.\nStart looking at men in public.  Not sizing them up like you're shopping for vegetables, but watch what they are doing, who are they looking at, who turns their heads.  You might be suprised at the number of them that are looking at you.
57107
There are many good men in this world, and there are many not-so nice guys out there too that give guys a bad name.  You just need to keep searching and find a good one.\n\nI'm a very loyal person, love my girl-friend with all my heart and soul, and plan to marry her one day as I've already given her a ring and asked her.\n\nKeep looking and the "real man" you're searching for, based on your preferences, will come available.
413300
Decide on three MOST important qualities that you are looking for in a woman and then often go to places that these type of women are likely to be in. For example, if ur priority is a woman with a beautiful body, you might wanna get a gym membership, if you want a woman who is can appreciate good art and music, go to museums etc. Finally, be sure that the woman u dream of will want to be with u, so make urself THE man by improving where u think ur weakest areas are (the ones that might be stopping u from getting a good woman). And just remember that love hits u and the most unexpected time. Good luck with finding the right one! ;-)
56932
If he is already in this country, you just need to get a marriage license, which you can do from your local county clerk. If you need to bring him into the United States, look at the info at the site below.
658758
Yeah you have what it take to get a lady. Like for me i look for a guy who can have just a good converstation and i look for truth ness not a lier,player or a one nite guy. I want some one that can be there in the high and lows and overall get along well.
538931
If you go looking, you will have a very hard time finding one.\n\nLet him come to you.
170007
Men are clueless as to what they want, they themselves wishes that someone could tell them, and even if someone did, would they listen, NO, Why? Because they are self opiniated and listen to noone, Its an ego thing.\nWhen we find a good man, you just have to thank all the gods and angels in heaven and on earth.  In the meantime, keep the hope alive and when you come across a loser/liar show them the way to SanJose, better known as hell.
492390
I think that you are taking a HUGE risk and that you ought to look for a man who already lives in the U.S. I don't know if you're a Christian or not but if you are then you can know that if it's in God's will for this man to become your husband then He will provide for him to come to the U.S.\n\nI will say one thing for this man. At least he's bold enough to tell you that he already has 2 kids, is poor and he only want to be with you instead of telling you that he wants to marry you. But as far as offering someone you have never met in person money because they say that they need it to come and see you, that's one of the biggest scams on the Internet and you should BEWARE!