help a guy out ladies please!!!?
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Do what she's asking and leave her alone.
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Just ask her out. The worst that can happen is she'll say "no". As a girl, I personally am tired of guys being too scared to make a move... so make a move!!! ;)
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Here's a tip. Do not hire a puppet to do these things fro you. She may have done this out of the bottom of her heart but talk to the guy. You'll be brave enough, trust me.
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Absolutely not old fashioned at all! Stick with it......there is a woman out there that will really appreciate your efforts to do the right thing. I am currently dating a great guy x several weeks now. His manners are impeccable and it is SO appreciated by me.
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Yeah dude, dont sweat it. take a deep breath. and listen to this. one, what were you acting like when she saw you and met you, because THAT is the guy she likes. DONT CHANGE!! Second, there are little things that girls like, physicall touch (HUG HER, but make sure its apropriate, dont be..umm...feeling.) Also your eyes, women LOVE eyes, and they ALLWAYS notice WHERE they go, so dude.....DONT GO THERE.....you know what im talkin about.....lastly, small gifts, and words of encoragment. chocolate as a small gift is awsome, i allways come up witht the exuse "i dont like chocolate, want myn." soo that about covers it, just be yourself, and try to understand what they LIKE at the same time.
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Hey sweetie maybe you need someone who can open your sexualty up a little. see most guy's are more of a stick it and bounce kind. Maybe you need someone who can work you up a bit, try different things and expirement. And if that fails here's my email address and i could really put you on to some new things (wink wink) mysweet_touch@yahoo.com Ladies only please! LOL
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Emotional bonding. Just sit down and listen to her! Also, non-sexual affection. Give her a massage, touch her arm when you talk to her, put your arm around her when watching a movie... Most guys only know of sexual affection.
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talk to her a lot. build her trust, ask her to hang out with you, platonically, then build up to a for-real date. I mean, I've never done it that way, usually through other ways, but I'm sure it works. It's similar. plus I think we need more specific than just "a place" and whether it's the only time you'll see her.
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how close are you guys? sit her down were you two are most comfortable and just speak your mind, or if you arent one to speak your mind find a way to show her and get her to think that way for you, kinda like minipulation but for a good cause. if she feels the same way you can kinda tell alot of times, be confident and just tell her, womenX i have been feeling this way for a long time, Or my style---there was a secret i have been hiding from you for a long time, and it kinda scares me *build up the suspense*...i have never mett anyone like you, or something.....bla bla bla u get the picture, Dont be afraid of rejection, it either works out or it doesnt bro.
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Just be yourself... talk about the same crap as you would with your guy friends.  Don't try to be anything you aren't.  If that doesn't work, you don't want to take her out anywhere anyways.
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Okay, so i'm back ..hehe...i was so intrigued by the thoughfullness and sincerity of your last question I went to see if you had any others.  And you do...and some really sweet ones at that...\nSo heres my two cents:\n\n* CUDDLE!!!!!(issue addressed though...do it do it do it!!!)\nAlso plant sweet kisses on her...its especially sweet when she's sleeping...it implies so much....you think she's sleeping and unaware..but she is!\n\n* Introduce her to new things!  This will score big points and make a lasting impression...every time that event or occasion comes up you will be forever imprinted in her memory and associated with it.  (I was introduced to football!  of all things...and became a huge Steeler fan...cant look at football now w/o associating it w him.  Also shared my first Symphony w/ him, first baseball game, first game of mini golf....GO FOR THE FIRSTS!!!!\n\n*Be a gentlemen.....show her chivalry isnt dead.  Even someting so common as holding her elbow or hip when opening the door...or standing when she gets up from the table, warning her of puddles or cracks in the sidewalk, or standing on the side of her thats facing the street....just says so very much.  Girls like to feel like they are being taken care of...and that is SEXY!!!!!!!!!!\n\n*Make her dinner....may sound unoriginal or common, but if done right can be so very....sigh sweet!  Especially when you take it to her at work.  Presentation is key.  Throw in some fresh strawberrys and grapes for the desert and a box of chocolates......(writing this I can see Ive been spoiled)\n\n*Compliment her....don't over do it though....say it only when its warrented...that way she knows its genuine.\n\nOkay, so my two cents turned into a novel..but the above really has made a huge impression on me...and that says alot.  But good luck to you...sounds like you are already on your way to being pretty damn awesome.
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Have fun! Knock yourself out!  I always told my fiancee that if I ever caught him doing it, first don't stretch out my stuff and second, don't expect me not to laugh (he would NOT look good in female things, a bit too hairy hehehe).
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Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
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DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
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There is a good article about this topic at: http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/26_dating_tips.html
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relax. your ebing too needy. take it for whats its worth, men are in general much nicer then women and won't  break up with a girl they like if they think she's wierd. only women do dumb stuff liek that
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coming from a guys point of view, try not to insult him if he doesnt know your playing around. You should be yourself i dont like girls that change to try and make me like them (Only happened once) and if u do have to change who you are i dont think hes the right guy. as for those other girls if you suceed in getting with this guy watch out girls can be mean if there jealous (not trying to stereotype) \nGood luck