I just found out recently that i am pregnant..and it just sunk in..im scared to death I am 19 years old......?
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Don't have an abortion.\n\nIt will cause you much more pain than even the tremendous task of carrying the baby to term and caring for it.\n\nIf you don't have the means to care for the child, just give it up for adoption, maybe even to someone in your own family that wants to have a kid, or better yet, if you have a very supportive family especially grandparents, allow them to care for the baby.\n\nPray to God that he will give you the courage and the wisdom to treat your baby as a valuable human being and not a problem to be solved by killing it.
549174
i am very scared of dying,im 27 and every birthday i make the most of it,i do something over the top then if anything happens to me they will never forget me.im also scared of being in my own with my kids ,if anything happened to my partner,well it doesnt bare thinking about
1087103
Ooh...what a mess! Ok, first, should have waited a little longer to cohabitate. Now that makes it hard on you, your boyfriend and your son. All things in due time, my dear. Next, I do have some good news here...you'll probably always love your son's father in some small way because he shared with you an experience no one else has, which is creating your child together. This will change with more time, though I can't say if your feelings for your boyfriend will change. I loved my ex dearly but he wasn't in love with me. He accidentally got me pregnant and we both decided it was for the best for me to have an abortion. We're still great friends ever since we broke up, but that will always tie us together, even though no one else knows what truly bonded us. It took me time but I didn't move on until I was really ready and it sounds like you did. You're also really young and you already have a child so a lot of this could stem from those early 20's feelings of newfound independence and sowing wild oats. Only you can decide. Take some time for yourself and figure out what it is you really want. Once you clear your head, you might realize you do love this man, or you might soundly be able to declare to yourself that you don't. Remember that love takes time to build and establish, and you haven't been with this new guy for too terribly long. Whatever you decide, best of luck to you.
1011552
you could be pregnant that is a good possibility that you are but i would go to your doctor to make sure there is nothing serous going on ASAP.
993687
you know most children born at 30 weeks survive are perfectly healthy. do NOT do it, the complications you will have morally, ethically and mentally will never go away. the complication you could have medically, to your body arent worth the risk. not to mention how could you just kill the baby that you feel moving inside you, responding to your movements and sound. his/hers heart already beating for many many months now. turn to Jesus for help, much better than any person or online advice you can get. please dont go the abortion route, it is unchangeable. and a lifetime of regret. also there is always family's who cant have children that would love to adopt. ill be praying for you.
209749
You can do anything you put your mind to!! Get focused and know that everything that you do now helps your baby's future later. There are so many successful people that had unplanned pregnancies. YOU GO GIRL!
1179947
I had a similar situation. I had my first child when i was 21, and i wanted another, well I tried and tried , then when i was 29 I had my second. just relax it will happen. God Bless and good luck!
1126883
It will get better, emotions get mixed. while your preggos your body just seems to be all weird. and things just fly.
409281
your not too old to have a child, but when you do get pregnant you will have to be monitored more than say a 25yr old. If your planning to get pregnant tell your doc and ask about the risks, if any.\nGood luck
868174
You should probably speak to a professional counsellor.\n\nYou killed your baby! When you are a bit older and mature, and you actually want to have a child you might look back on this and feel a tremendous amount of pain and guilt.\n\nAbortion is cruel and it's murder. That poor baby growing inside of you was a living human being.  It depended on you to look after it so it could grow and be born.  \n\nThere are so many couples who struggle to conceive a child and people like you who just have sex and get pregnant and don't care about the consequences. Next time use a condom or go on the pill so you don't get pregnant again.
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It's obvious that you think something is wrong.  I'd guess that you are worried that you're pregnant.  Am I right?\n\nTry an over the counter pregnancy test.\n\nOtherwise, nothing sounds imminently dangerous.  See your doctor when the appointment comes up.  If you are too worried, see if you can move the appointment up.
599882
Don't worry. Every one is scared the first time they get there period. It is a natural part of growing up. Talk with your mother. She can comfort you and make you feel better. Once you get used to your period it won't be a big deal.
467990
Oh my gosh! I don't feel so alone now! Everyone of my friends thinks that it's so weird but it is terrifying to me. I don't understand why i have this fear but man, i'm scared to get pregnant because of this fear. I get shaky, hot-cold flashes, dizziness, sweaty, just plain horror. I don't wish this on anyone but i hope we both can get over it! Do you remember anything that could have triggered your phobia? I remember going on vacation when i was younger and my sister would always get sick in the back of the car; i think i felt trapped or something but i really want to end this terrible fear! I hope you don't feel alone, i'm here for you now! :)
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My dear ,i have 4 dauthers and ive been through hell with them.and i can surly tell you that hurting your self well make your life worse\nyou well understand that as you get older,But think for a minute if you had a little girl and she was running around with a boyfriend what would you do ,ive had so many nights sitting up scared to death one of my girls would get hurt or pregant,and it did happen one of my twins did get pregant,but since then she has become a nurse so it all work out good.and she hurt her self a few times,it broke my heart to see her do ing this to her self.so many nights i would stay up all night driving around looking for her,the police would have raids on her boyfriends house\nover and overone night they had 3 raids they,they found her in the attic.with this iam just trying to say its hard to be your age and alot of things do not make since.ive tryed to teach my girls some rules to reamber.1.depend on no one\nbut your self.2.your bestfriend is the one that will hurt you and destroy all the trust you thought you had.3.look at your future and find out what you need to do to make your life happy\n.because your the only one that can make your self the happiest.4.And show everyone that you can make it without there help.\nyou will need help but get the right help.\ni know at your age it seems like everyone is against you.and that no one understands you,if you cant talk to your mom and you dont have a sister try and find someone that you can realy trust.i hope this help you a little,my girls are 35,21,20,20 and one boy whos 25.GOOD LUCK,youll make it dear just dont hurt your self it wount help at all.barbaratoo@yahoo.com
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I REALLY suggest you see a counsellor. And do some 'self expression' and 'cognitive thinking', when your counsellor is with you, for safety.\n\nAND: **Life is full of ups and downs. And hey pad yourself, you 'have hand' some rough years, that mean you pass them, you made it thru. Also, it's 'have had', it's pass tense, it's history, so tell youself, it's 2006 June 22.**\n\nI understands how you feel, because some here. I been thru more than 10 years of rough time. Even now I still have to practice telling myself ** **.
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Is it possible that you are pregnant??  Let's rule that out first.  Are you seriously underweight?  If you do not have enough body fat, you will not menstruate.  Are you into sports or extremely athletic?  That also deals with body fat composition, but it is a healthy reason to not have the body fat.  Also, how stressed are you?  That could keep it from coming too.\n\nListen, you are 18.  You are an adult.  You have a responsibility to take care of yourself.  I'm sorry that your parents aren't there for you, and I know it's scary, but you have to do this.  If I were your sister, I'd go with you.  Talk to your school nurse for some direction of what to do- where to go.  Go get yourself checked out.  It could be something serious, and you don't want it to get worse because you didn't go to the OB when you could have.
640552
one of my friends is pregnant and she's only 15.. the best thing for you to do is take the test.. best thing is it tells you your not pregnant and you can let go of your worries... if you are pregnant than you really should tell your parents.. u might think they will be tough but im sure they will try to help you as much as possible... and for high school and college i would say the best thing is adoption.. my friend is keeping her baby and i know she doesnt realize how much her life will change