my best friend (a girl) HATES the girl i have a crush on?
828084
I know she's your best friend but this is your life were talking about not hers.Tell her you know she means well and is looking out for you, and that you take her opinions seriously but you really like this girl. And if this girl, no matter who or what she is or does, will make you happy/have fun, then as your bestfriend she should just let you be happy. Loyalty is part of friendship, so even if you ask this girl out, she'll still be your best friend. Tell her or explain  your side to her and just simply ask this girl out. If you're making a mistake, then she has to allow you to make your own mistakes, if you guys turn out happy together, then be glad you didn't let yourself get heldback.
863068
Don't move on since you are great friends.  You had a chance one time, but he had a crush on another girl.  They will break up one day.  Be there to console him.  Since you've been best friends since you were 4, YOU should be his soul-mate, don't you think?  Who is this new girl?  They all disappear.  All but one.  Be the one.
686076
Well, I can actually connect with you, I had the same situation...\nWhat I did is forgot about both of them and moved on. You don't HAVE  to like someone, but if you really really do then just follow your heart and you'll choose the best one. If the other one gets jealous for some reason, then they aren't really a true friend.
118605
Maybe her best friend is afraid that you will steal her friend from her and is feeling a bit jealous of your relationship.  You need to reasure her so how about  "I know you are a good friend to X(the name of the girl you like) and I hope you will condsider me as your friend too".  Incidentally do you have a friend  who might be interested in your girl's friend so she doesn't feel left out in the cold!?
78991
You are a friend, and a friend stands behind another one no matter what...try to find out why you do not like the other girl, and maybe talk to your friend to see why she likes her....maybe the three of you can hang out together...
418722
its not that she hates you. from my point of view, i dunno if you two were friends, but she does not like you back. that's it simple as that. or something is holding her back from liking you. probably bad timing. i know how it feels when you dont get that back in return. but guaranteed, there are too many ppl out there for any of us. go swimming and find them. or u could wait around for her, but that's only hurting urself.
483833
If u think she likes them more than u why are you best friends with her? also if u know your boyfriend is bad why don't u get rid of him? In fact get rid of them both and you'll probably feel a lot better!x
1086752
You should probably have a talk with her, your friend.  Tell her that you guys are friends and that she means the world to you.  Be as gentle as you can in telling her that you just don't feel that way towards her right now.  If it's meant to be, then it will.  If you like this girl Summer, then by all means ask her out.  Just don't parade her in front of your friend, that will pour salt on the wound.
588381
you need to tell you friend your true feelings because she may feel the same way be\n\nI know this because I myself am in the same boat and my friend had a crush on me and I had a crush on him but we would say that we were best Friend and not intrested in one another but by lying to the public we lyed to each other
41663
My answer is actually a question for you:\n\nIS IT WORTH POSSIBLY LOSING FRIENDSHIP OVER A GIRL WHO IS LYING TO YOU BOTH?\n\nYou said this is your BEST FRIEND. Remember that.\n\nGood luck.
161525
Yes, you need to talk to him about how you feel.  Admit that you've tried to be ok with his friendship with this person but as much as you try you really aren't ok with it.  Your suposed to be his best friend now, not her and if your uncomfortable with the relationship he has with her he should be willing and want to end it in order not to ruin what you two have.
534019
Ask her what it is she really hates about him- it might be something you really need to know.  After all, if she is your best friend, she knows you really well.  Have a good think about what she says, because she might really be aware he is wrong for you and would rather go than upset you, so ask while you have the chance, and good luck (you can still text and call, and e-mail???)
144356
Well, first of all if you hate her guts she doesn't really qualify as a "friend" and in my opinion 99% of the time honesty is always best.  Just tell her how you feel and then quit hanging out with her.
205016
Ummm.  If you hate her, then is she really your best friend?  Seems contradictory to me.  \n\nWhy don't you just hang out with people you actually enjoy spending time with? \n\nGood luck.
196364
Ask yourself a question. Are you jealous of the crush she has on this guy?  Or is it that you are jealous of the relationship you have with her?  It's hard to share sometimes, isn't it?
506085
u better bitchslap ure friend. shoot. omg. i hate girls that bring drama. even if she hates the guy she should be there for u. she aint a true friend.
291405
You are being a bad friend or not a friend at all. If u dont like her why waste your time playing games with her... You and your friends are being cowards