in a relationship,what matters most? Beauty or brains?~advice~?
819450
looks fade in ten years will he still be hot think abut the long term. i say go with the one who you think will treat you the best in the long run a one night stand with a hot tie is nice but years of love is much better looks are just on the out side
661370
Honesty, integrity, sense of humour and intelligence. After that, having a nice boobs and a good bum doesn't hurt, but if she's stupid, no way. I would rather have an unshapely girl with brains than a stupid, senseless hotty.
1151886
Why not looks with money or money with looks....\nOK.\nIf I have to choose, I will choose the one I love, \nbut if he is with money or not, if he is a good looking people or not, this doesn't matter at all.\nThere's nothing more important than love.\nBut imagine your self in bed with a ugly man, uuuuh this is terrible despite his money
612625
Looks aren't everything. She likes or loves you for the person you are. Be thankful for that. My boyfriend thinks the same way. I tell him all the time its because he's an amazing man and I love him.
416449
Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and every guy has a slightly different opinion of what beauty is in a woman.  However, once you get pass the initial physical attraction, I really think that whether or not a woman's personality is attractive is what keeps the guy interested.  I guess the same thing can be said for what defines a good looking man.
560360
intelegence, and she should be pretty mellow, but not afraid to confront an issue in the relationship.  looks only matter alittle bit.  I really hate make-up in a girl, its like shes trying to hide something, I dont give a shit what you look like.  so long as you can keep up and enrich a nice philosophical debate.
420837
If your love is pure, then age, color etc. things does not matter. Best of Luck and God Bless You.
673187
Well usually I would say being smart, but today I'm feeling very pissed off and cynical, so I'm going to go with pretty. Sure, it's good to be smart, go to uni, be a doctor/lawyer/whatever else you want to be. But let's face it, it's the pretty girls who get the boyfriends, isn't it? They're the ones who get to spend their teenage years dating and making out with guys. They're the ones who'll get married and have kids while the smart ones are slogging their brains out at uni trying to pass exams so that they have a good career.......\n\nBut why do you have to make a choice anyway? You can't really choose to be either - you're either pretty or you're not, the same with brains - you're either smart or you're not. If you're lucky enough to have looks AND brains, then take advantage of them both.
997085
I don't think there's one trait that's more important than another.  If, for example, honesty is important and kindness or a good heart is important, how do you choose. It's never just one thing... it's the package you want when you choose a wife.
376613
Anything?\nNope. Looks only matter in the short term. A beautiful b***h is STILL a b***h!
314588
depends on my purpose...if i want a serious relationship, intelligence is far more important, if not, well you know iq does not matter sometimes...
978332
I would rather date a sexy, confident person that was comfortable with themselves than someone who was superficial and not concerned about feelings or intelligence.  As for the "parts" that are missing, there really should be no bearing on the relationship part.  As long as you are confident about who you are and comfortable with yourself, then others will see you that way...and not be concerned about anything that was lost due to an accident.
989080
It's up to you what sort of girls you go for. For some people looks are important and for others its personality. Just be careful about ignoring the not so good looking ones. I've known a few people, both male and female, who insisted on good looks, and ended up falling in love with average looking people, but with a beautiful personality. If someone has that special something, their looks will be beautiful to you no matter what.
1038864
I would perfer to marry the one with the good heart.  See, looks fade, but what you are on the inside doesn't change.  Looks don't make you a good person!!
173584
Body- Personally, a cute face is most important. It's the first thing I notice, and it's what sticks in my mind most. Your face is who you are.\n\nPersonality- I like someone who's fun. Someone who isn't afraid to try new things, someone who can take a joke, someone who can make me laugh.\n\nEducation- Don't want a total moron, but as long as she's pretty sane, she's fine. She doesn't have to be a super genius or anything.\n\nMost Important- Personality. Beauty makes a good first impression, and like I said, I don't care much about education. But if I'm having a good time with you, that's a hell of a lot more important than a hot body or a pretty face.
676887
personality is sexiest. believe me, it's not a physical thing. trust in your inner beauty
1145581
Well I would love to say that looks aren't an issue. In this day and age it is! There is too much importance put on looking like the perfect model or the perfect man. The money issue of it may not be as important. You can be happy with a poor man as long as you love one another whether he was extremely handsome or just so so. This is a kind of catch 22 question. \n\nMy personal feeling is if I met a poor man and we were attracted to one another I would definitely go for it, with him being handsome as a "plus". If I met a man who made a good living and he was a bit conceited or his personality just wasn't what it should be I would definitely not pursue that one, no matter how "cute" he was or kinda cute he was. As they say, money does not always bring you happiness!