very important question for MEN to help a woman.?
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Unfortunately, a lot of singles on both sides of the gender fence treat it like a game. If two people are truly looking for a relationship... playing games isn't the way to do it.\n\nFirst off, it's very dishonest. Take the "play hard to get" game. A woman likes a guy, but initally feigns disintrest, or turns down an initial offer of a date. The woman uses as a rationale "well, I want to see how interested he is". The way I see it, the woman isn't being honest... and what sort of way is it to start getting to know someone by being dishonest? Let's say she tells him later that she really was interested... likely she will imply that it was the guy's fault that he didn't keep asking her... but in contrast how many women out there get mad when their significant other DOESN'T  listen to them and respect what they say? \n\nI think the game playing can also be a sign of some egotism... the mindset being "I'm such a hot commodity, you have to show me why I should go out with you"... that's a very one sided view to take if pursuing a healthy relationship where both partners should be considerate and treat each other as equals.
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Give a women a job, and the job gets done !\n\nhahaha!!!!!!
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trust you instinct on this one.  a woman's instinct is always right. follow this please
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Most men would use something called a penis.  Got one?  Good.  That's the easy part.\n\nNow all you need is a beautiful girl.  That's the hard part.  And if you are asking us for help, it is going to be almost impossible.
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Gentlemen love to help Danzels in distress. Just ask. 55% of men are single. That's one in two. Pretty good odds. Hardware stores is were i find most women in need.
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whats rich got to do with love ?? stop acting like some bollywood movie hero and go and tell the woman and if you don't have the guts to tell her, the shut up and forget her. Gosh ! BE A MAN
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My honest opinion is i would let anyone help me out male or female because most won't admit it but us men NEED help a lot \nwhy be arrogant and pretend you know what your doing when everyone around you knows that you are wrong.It did take me a few years tho to accept the help as a typical bloke i thought i knew everything how wrong i was.\nPS thanks for your polite answer to my question..Wink ..
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women need to feel needed.
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thats a very good question. well you could start by doing little things to let her know that you love her and appreciate her like just out of the blue rubbing her feet or taking her out, maybe cook her dinner. Its the little things that guys do that clue us in to what you are thinking.
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Yes, I always try and help a lady in need. I have my interest in my lady only, so I am not looking at anything other than being a better person and helping someone. I also help guys in need as I do not believe that gender should be a deciding factor in who needs help and who don't.
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if you are a man trying to get trust from a women, you need to open up and show affection and love and give in to whatever the women asks or says.  if you are a women, you need to be more understanding (ima guy so i know what guys should be like)
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Ask from your heart!!! you will get the answer....\nThanks,\nSumiya.
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In my opinion this is soooooooooooooo simple...Tell her that she could make a better/stronger/more confident impression on a male if she went after it herself...This will also help you decide if you want him for yourself...Hehe...:)>
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It's important to a lot of people.  Make sure you clarify this with your man before too long.
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I've started and deleted this a couple times and thought about what to say to you, but am having a hard time.\n\nI can't map in for some reason, so I apologize if my response is a scatterbrained collection of thoughts.\n\nOn one hand I hesitate because you don't want to be his 'mom'.....coming to rescue him.\n\n1st....he may not feel good about being rescued by a woman. I'm not taking a shot at you or anything....I happen to be open to someone helping me if I need it, but I don't think (most?) men warm up to that......unless they are insecure, and then you don't get a man for your partner, you get an adult momma's boy.\n\n2nd....he may not like a woman coming on to strong. He may regard your advances as just that, and regard it as another element to deal with.\n\nIf you've offered coffee, and other such things and have been turned down....that's male communication for.....'thank you, but not now'.\n\n3rd He may have an ego......one that may preclude him from admitting to himself that he needs help at all.\n\n:)\n\nMen like to tackle things completely (most of the time I think) and then move on to the next issue to deal with. It's possible that you are on the 'list'...so-to-speak. I'm sorry for making you sound like a line item. I don't think that, but for brevity I phrased it that way...and to help illustrate what I'm saying.\n\nIt's also likely that whatever he's going thru is deeper than you realize and it requires all his attention. Men (most) are somewhat single-minded and throw a lot of attention on one problem at a time, depending on what it is. This could be one of those situations.\n\nHe may regard the starting of a relationship...even a new friendship right now to be a taxing endeavor that he just doesn't want to deal with.\n\nI'd say that if you've made the offers.....then take stock in that......he knows.....he knows you're there. Don't be pushy.....we men really, really don't like that. I can speak for myself on that one....lol.\n\nDon't keep asking him for coffee....he'll just think you're a pain or think you have stock in Juan Valdez (geeze is he still around?) or something....lol.\n\nThe best thing to do is be a friend. Don't be a pain, don't be annoying and just hang.....being helpful to HIM won't be your idea of 'helpful'. And if you want to ingratiate yourself to him...you will have to figure out how you can be helpful to HIM. Do you know what I mean? That may just be being an ear for him if he wants to talk, sending him some jokes on the internet.....whatever.\n\nDon't be selfish with what you want.....do what is best for him right now.\n\nHope that helps....a little anyway. I hope it works out.....send me a wedding invitation....k?\n\n;)
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ask her whats the most important thing in a woman's life.\nwhat is her greatest hope and her biggest fear.ask her if she thinks that you're a good match for her.\ngood luck !i wouldn't want to be in your shoes.
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Have some dignity and self respect...don't turn into just one of those women who only cares about their own needs and wants...be the type of woman another woman will respect and admire.  Leave them alone.  However, when he becomes single, give him a call and invite him out.