How do I know if my boyfriend is being true to me?
831131
You don't. \n\nYou could read his emails and follow him around all day, but that would be creepy and a waste of your life.  Immaturity and paranoia in an adult relationship is like glyphosate on weeds.\n\nIt is a risk you have to take. Regardless of what has happened in the past, be democratic and adopt the 'innocent until proven guilty' ideal. Trust him. If he does something that betrays your trust, then doubt him and maybe have a talk with him...but not until then!\n\nFocus on yourself instead of worrying about this. Keep healthy, spend time with your friends, excel at work/school:  focus on your goals in life. This way, you will grow as a person and he (along with the rest of the world) will be even more attracted to you.
1169483
If you truly love this guy, that really wouldn't matter, but I can understand where you are coming from.  People say you are a reflection of the people you choose to have around you.  But since he doesn't act that way around you, it's hard to know the real him!  It's makes me think he might be just trying too hard around other people, while he feels comfortable enough around you to just be himself.  If you believe he is more "himself" with you than with other people, then eventually the "true him" will shine through in all his relationships with a little time and maturity.  :)\n\nGood luck!
680679
You will know when he comes along, it will be the one you're not looking for.The best way to keep a relationship is to always be honest. And treat them the way you want them to treat you, with respect!
625447
If you'll base relationships on birth signs then you are stepping out from reality. Truth is if you want a workable (perfect doesn't exist) relationship, you should look for someone who could give you two things -RESPECT and LOYALTY- then everything else follows. How to know if he has them? 50 % is You won't, you will have to take chances or maybe trust is a better term and the other 50 % is you'll just know in time by just observing.
280974
well you actually never know..Your heart should decide if she wants to trust him or not.But if he really loves you he won't lie to you
498116
It depends on your boyfriend.\nYou have to give us examples of the things he is doing that makes YOU think he is cheating and we can let you know from there.
204504
When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
462208
You should Ask him directly. That's something to keep the trust on each other. You must trust him and he must trust you.
1134471
u can tell if ur bf really loves u when hes willing to change bad habits that u dont like and if he goes out of his way to plan romantic things for u not just an ordinary date and most of all when he does simple things for u like fix u something to eat when ur hungry and u didnt ask him to do or just tell u that u look beautifil everyday and if he trys to cheer u up or make u feel better when ur not well....thats true love thats how u know because he will go through trouble just to keep a smile on ur face
896538
you have to confront him and ask him honestly if he loves you and thinks you have a future together.  Only then will you know the truth, even by his reaction.
505432
I think there are several ways:\n1) by how often he calls you\n2) if his friends know about you (as his gf)\n3) if he has introduced you to his parents\n4) if you have met his friends\n5) if when you ask for things, he doesn't think too hard about helping you out (unless it's something crazy)\n\nI think those are some easy ways to tell if a guy is serious about you or if he is just messing around.
1001064
You might be able to tell if he doesn't call you as often or if he sounds strange on the phone, especially when you ask him how his day was. Good luck and try to trust him.
717399
okay let me tell you a story my girlfriend and i work different hours so if we are lucky to see each other once a week . but i don't have any other ladies or she don't have other men .because there has to be trust in a relationship trust and honesty are the 2 priority's in a relationship i talk to my girlfriend every day .if you love him confront him if he loves he will tell you the truth
248705
its just something that you will figure out, make up a list of tests, thats what my boyfriend did.\n1) when you shake their hand..if its a firm grip, then its a good person, if its weak..then they are not a strong person.\n2) when you are with them...do they stare at you, and do you see "love" in their eyes? \n3) watch their expressions when you talk to them, are they direct...does he focus all his attention on you?\nyou need to ask yourself all of these questions, and figure out for yourself.
242713
There is no machine by which u can check. Just try to listen and understand him carefully. If he share his things with you, he may be sincere. but there is no hard and fast rules for this.
382054
when he goes out of his way just to be with you and just to please you...when he compliments you in a sincere manner about your personality...when he is constantly present in every important occassion or activity in your life...when he cares for you, your family and even your pet..lastly, when he treats you like a princess..\n\n(3 or more of these scenario should be enough for you to know that he's serious...lucky girl!)
89508
WELL U REALLY DONT KNOW 100% SURE IF HE IS OR NOT BEING FITHFULL TO YOU.IF HE IS THERE FOR YOU THEN YEAH HE IS BEING FAITHFUL.BUT IF HES NEVER THERE OR NEVER CAN BE FOUND OR WHERE HE SAYS HE BEEN DONT ADD UP THEN YEAH HES CHEATING.YEAH IT COULD BE WITH AN X.LISTEN TO YOUR HEART.IF YOU GET THAT SINKING FEELING IN YOUR STOMACH ITS TRUE.OR IF HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ACTS DIFF,LIKE DONT WANT TO KISS OR IGNORES YOU OR JUST CRAPPY TO YOU YEAH HES CHEATING.THEN U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK IF HE IS HATEFULL OR KEEPS SAYING WHAT EVER WE R JUST FRIENDS NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN US.THAT ISBULL FACE LIES.GIVE HIM A CHOICE U OR HER.