What should i so when im way too shy to talk to my boyfriend at school?
822194
something is wrong if you can not talk to your boyfriend at school. you should be comfortable talking to him anywhere and about anything. next time you are outside of school talk to him about why you never talk within school. School is probably when you see him the most - so talk to him. Or just approach him during school and start talking.
551533
talk to them personally, open up. It would sound awkward especially if you don't talk too much, but it really helps. trust me... \n\nCommunication is vital
1031655
I think that if you are very shy, ask him in a note! \n\nThere's nothing that bad in writing your feelings down, but remember:\n\nIt's easier to write your feelings down, but to tell him in person will mean more to him.\n\nYou can do it! I know what ever decision you make will be a good one! See ya!\n\nHugs,\nkitties_n_llamas(Becca)
751414
Wow,okay first I'm going to start off saying this:Since he's the shy type dont make any conversation to personal or something you know  he can get embarrass or shy about,when you talk to him,compliment anything,his eyes,face,clothes,smile,etc. Anything you find attractive on him,you can be  extra nice,shy boys LOVE nice girls! Trust me,this will work! GoodLuck,hope this helps!!!! :)
111875
well it would help if you figured out why you are shy around him and than work on that. So if you are shy because for example you are scared what he might think of you than think well if he didnt want to be with you he wouldn't be so there isnt anything to worry. You are who you are and thats the way you find the one for you is by being true to yourself. Also let ssay you want to say something to him.. dont stay thinking about how you should say it or if you should as soon as it comes to mind say it so  you dont hae time to wonder if you should or should and your nerves would be there to torture you because you did it quick and got it out of the way.
548877
i dont know that is a good question...cause i am shy around my boyfriend its like when we aint dating we can talk but when we are then we never talk...but that is something to think about.
702507
I had the same problem. You just have to wait for the perfect time and not rush things. My boyfriend use to be so shy but now I can't get him to shut up. J/K.
982354
just start talking and then you will become more relaxed.  i am shy too and once you start talking it will come to you and you will be fine.  it does not matter what you say to start it just start talking.
913307
you need to talk to him..dont leave it alone thats the worst thing to do if you want him to notice your feelings for him you need to start talking if you are to shy you need to boost your confedence..try to talk into a mirror or something like that make sure you dont sound a little of when you tell him...and make sure you do it face to face its alot more atractive if you do it that way.
124678
I used to be just like that. but you dont really get over being shy, you jsut get better at being outgoing. the first thing i did was join a club that takes you all over the U.S., it's called FFA. I got a job and it was a waitress at a bar. so there are many opportunities there. just go up and talk to the guy, any guy, it's how i did it and now im still shoy to an extent, but hey, im get out there and i have fun while chatting up some hottie. so jsut break away and strike up a conversation with some random guy, like a guy from school, in the grocery store...anywhere...even in the mall. it works.
322720
if you cant talk to them because your shy, why not write to them instead. explain how you feel and how you would like to get to know them better if they would to as well. see what reply you get and good luck.
264148
if you are to scared, write a note to him, give it to a willing friend, and write in it like "meet me after school" or "I really like you, will you go out with me?" ect. or you can talk to one of his friends to do it for you it worked for me ^.^
109984
It's hard when  your shy to talk to girls..but if you wanna girlfriend you have to get over this...start out small..start with saying just hi to a girl  you like..then start with a hi how are you..then add a little more at a time you'll soon realize it's not as hard to talk to people as you think...a lot of women like shy guys...you'll find some one just be yourself..
662781
Hi! The most powerful weapon you have is your voice. Although you are afraid to speak up in class, I do encourage you to do so. I was the same way. I was even voted most shy in high school. However, through my service in the Air Force, they have you take "toastmasters" (or public speaking) courses. I fell in love with public speaking. I think the thing to remember is that many of your classmates will undoubtedly feel the same way you do about speaking. Go for it. But, if you choose not to, the best way to avoid being called on, is to sit up front, give the teacher great eye contact. Do not write notes, or keep your head down.  When he/she asks a question, do not avert your eyes, maintain direct eye contact, until he has called on someone (preferable not you). As an African American sister myself, let me tell you, I encourage you wholeheartedly to take a speaking course through your school. Good luck.
1016522
ok you gotta talk to him!  If you're not communicating, then your relationship is dead, even if it's just friends.  Try and forget you like him, then you won't feel so nervous about talking to him. \n\nBelieve it or not, I like girls who talk to me and act friendly.  If they ignore me, i just assume they don't like me and I move on.  So break the silence!
749399
my answer to everything....get close to his friends...his friends will know if you can talk to them they will tell you....and don't be shy if he's in some of your classes ask him for help w/ homework or something so that you have to spend time together (alone) casually but it could evolve...
199754
I'd say, make more effort to talk to him during school. If he resists, confront him about it. You don't need to put up with this kind of cold shoulder; you are his girlfriend, not his 'busfriend'.