how to move on after a beautiful relationship?
825426
You wish the best for your ex and you take with you all of those beautiful memories. You wish him the best because if you truely love him you will want his happiness no matter what. Love grows through acts of pure unselfishness:)
24542
I'm going through a similar situation. I left. Don't do that. You both need to decide if it's worth trying to get the closeness back. Be open about the things that you enjoy doing together and things you don't. Try and figure out how you two grew apart. And do it together. No matter how hard it is. If it's worth it, take the time to make it work. It wont happen on it's own.
300208
Ok this kinda situation is not that rare... I can't tell you what to do, you'll have to decide that for yourself.  i would suggest thinking of how bad it hurt when she left.  Then how longit was before she called/ spole with you.  Its the little things in life that lead to the big picture.  Think of the little things in the past that made the relationship stronger and compare them to those that pushed you apart.  Asses the nature of the issues that came between you both.  Finally, know that the world is full of beautiful women, there's one around every turn.  Don't let the fact that they may not always be around blur your vision of what will make YOU happy.  Hope this helps,\nHang in there brotha'\nSean
565262
Don't. There's a reason you broke up. It's hard letting go, but give it time, keep yourself busy, and eventually, you will move on and forget.
617810
no one ever knows how to move on. Thats the worst thing about realationships. Just keep yourself busy and stay away from places where that person might be. Dont call and hang up. Dont call and ask for your stuff. Just so fouced on life in general.
919016
I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
278513
I believe there are positive lessons to be learned from the most heartbreaking situations, I have been there, trust me.  its not easy but you have to look at it as a learning experience, and instead of focusing on the heartbreak, focus on how much stronger you are now, for having gone thru it.  tkae what you learned from the experience close that chapter of your life and allow yourself to move on.  Take things slowly in your new relationship, allow things to unfold in a way  that is comfortable for both of you and see where it leads.  over time memories of the past will fade and wounds heal allowing you to open your heart again.  Its a painful process at times but so well worth it in the end. hope this helps!
3408
The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
776856
think about the reasons you spilt up.   if you got back together it could all repeat it self  i would stick with the new girlfriend never go backwards move forward   good luck
140113
my advice. Keep it broken off. dont just forget what happened and why you broke up...it happened for a reason. FInd someone else that you want to be with. Please dont get into the make up/break up cycle. It really sucks!!!
197025
It just takes time to move on. You need to let it go. I had the same problem once. I finaly got over him when I found someone else that I knew was better for me. But beware rebound relationsips don't work either. I'd say 5 months is long enough to linger over a relationship that was as short as yours. Find someone new and MOVE ON!!!
899441
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1059652
Move on with life...that sounds easy but can be hard especially if you loved this person.  From every experience in life we can learn some valuable lesson.  Learn the lesson from this relationship and keeping living.
1170460
Just keep going and move on NOT to go out and hook up with someone just tell ur self it didn't work out for a reason and look toward the future things happen for a reason I am getting over an ugly breakup and i am constantly reminding myself of that..
956200
If you were really in love with them, and you cared for them deeply, I don't think you ever "GET OVER" them.  What a lot of people don't do is to take time out for themselves.  When you break-up with someone after being in a long-term relationship, you really need to take time to heal before you move on to another person because you can't give your whole heart to him/her fully because that other person is holding a part of it.  How long it takes....Well that depends on you.  You have to ask yourself "How long am I going to allow this person to hold my heart?"  Take time, Heal, enjoy being single, and when you feel no presence of the other person then you are over them.  Of course when you see them with some one else for a split second, you will go back there but if you do and when you are able to say, well good for them then you are definitely over them.  I hope this helped because I've been where you are and that is what I did.  Take care and be HAPPY!!!
61715
just think of the future,not the past.the past really doesnt matter if there is/was pain.always look ahead and never look back.to get over an ex just try not to think and talk about him.think about who can be your next stop.
409745
Forget the new girl. You are just infatuated with the feeling of "new"  You are focusing too much on conquest and not on nurturing a healthy relationship. \n\nWhat you need to do is repair your last relationship with your ex. If you cared about her before, you can make the relationship stronger now. Forget about pleasing your hormonal desires. Grow up and face responsibility. \n\nOtherwise, do what everyone else is saying and move out.