How did you meet your spouse?
816841
Well, she became an ex and is dead now but I met her in a Bar\nwhen I was supposed to be with another girl she was with.  I was\nin my Security Guard uniform so I looked like a Cop and she told\nme how her daughter was taken by her father and she doesn't know where she is.  I got involved, we eventually got daughter\nback 2 years later but life was a living Hell with her for 12+ years.\nThe funny thing is she turned out to be the girl from 4 years before that worked at Ponderosa that I had the hots for.  I was\nwith my friends and I noticed the waitress's skirt was so short you could see her panties so I went to the table across from ours\nand moved all the plates and stuff to the far end and she would\nhave to bend way over to get them.  It was so funny that even my\nBest Friend's wife got over her initial apprehension.
417442
I met my hubby at a Christian youth group reunion!  There were hundreds of people there, and I had never met him. \n\nHe had everything I've ever dreamed of in a guy, a heart for God, musical abilities (he's a composer and song writer, and keyboard player)\n We've known each other for over 27 years, and have been married happily for 20.  :-)
604282
if you are happy, then it doesnt matter how you met. \nHeck, I met my husband while I was dating one of his friends. We just clicked. Things happen for a reason. Good luck.
100383
Yes, my husband and I met through yahoo Personals 6 years ago and have been very happy ever since.  Been married 31/2 and just keeps getting better!!!!
789655
I married her.  4 years married and 7 years together.  Love of my life Feather is :-)
458813
I loved this question..gives me a chance to tell my story, lol.  YES! it's very possible!  I'm not saying that ppl don't lie online, and turn out to be someone entirely different when a person meets them, but not everyone is that way.  Here's my story....\n\nI met my husband over a year and a half ago online.  LOL, yes, you read right, my husband!  We just got married March 23.  From the moment we started talking, it was just..."right".  We fell in love almost instantaneously.  We are truly soulmates.\n\nAnyway, I'm all for following your heart.  I can't count how many times friends would tell me to "wait and see" when we met.  But not having met yet didn't matter to us.  I flew to where he lived, he picked me up from the airport, and within an hour we were married.  One look into each other's eyes and everything we had felt for a year and a half had been solidly confirmed.\n\nWhatever you do, follow your heart, follow your instincts.  I did and all of my dreams came true.  I found and married my soulmate...ONLINE!
101490
I met my husband on the internet. Try a chat room and be honest to all you speak to because it can come back to bite you. \n\nI have been with my husband for over 6 years now and faithful from the second I met him online because I had a feeling he was the one and I WAS RIGHT! LOL....good luck~
506628
Try hello,  sounds dorky but at some point you were both comfortable enough with each other to talk and then marry.  You have to start talking to fix the rest.  Hello usually works.
277099
first sight is tough but I was married to my wife within two weeks after we met. We are still married eleven years later. it took about four hours for me to decide that I could be happy with her.
303575
First be careful, do not leave with him/her.\n\nSecond, be yourself and get to know them.\n\nThird, take your time, do not rush the relationship.\n\nOnline dating can work, I married mine!
311447
I married the man I meet online. It has been 6 years we are what you call a normal couple we laugh we argue but what I notice with this relationship is there was an understaning of each other from getting to know each other mentally before physically.
1084112
Yep, my wife and I met in high school.  I was a junior and she a sophomore.  We went to college together and married right after we graduated from college.  We just celebrated our 22nd anniversary and have been together for 28 years.\nJoe
1147578
talk to him on the phone first, make sure he is not some weirdo.  If you decide to meet him, make sure it is at a public place and bring a friend with you.  Good luck.  I met my husband online and we have been together for 3 years and have a 18 month old daughter.  \nJust be cautious!
301251
I met my wife online 7 years ago on yahoo personals.  I liked her ad so I emailed her.  She emailed me back, and we chatted on instant messenger for a few days.  Then I called her and we talked on the phone for a week or two.  \n\nThen we went out on our first date.  I met her parents that night, we had a great date and saw each other every day after that.  We got married 5 years ago and have two beautiful children.  I don't regret it for a minute.  It is a wonderful experience and I wasn't good at finding the right woman at my college, my girl was at a different college and I would never have met her otherwise.
758049
Hi! I would be very very careful about how you meet this person. I am not trying to be negative. My husband and I were matched and engaged from a matrimonial based website. We are very happily married now. \n\nBut you still don't know this person very well so it is important to be careful and protect yourself. Meet him at a safe location (like the mall, busy restaurant, public place) in the DAYTIME. Don't meet in a parking lot or anyplace where he could possibly follow your car. This way if things go badly, then you can excuse yourself to the ladies room and leave by yourself. \n\nDon't take a ride with him alone. Having a friend come along with you would not be a bad idea. But if you decide to go alone to meet him then let someone know where you are going and what time you will be back. Have some change for a phone call/cell phone in your car so that you can call someone if anything happens. \n\nHe may seem like a nice person but you really never know. My courtship to my husband lasted several months and before we were engaged, I corresponded with his friends and family to be sure that he was a sincere person. If he is really interested in starting a serious relationship with you, then he will be patient and will also be willing to answer your questions about him and his background. If he is defensive and acts irritated by this then he is not the right kind of person for you. Go by your judgement but don't rush anything and certainly don't go to his house unless its to meet his mother.
934529
i met my husband on there ... i met a lot of guys but dated about 5 (plus my husband) ... their were 3 that were okay ... one was just rude, the other 3 were well .. it was easy to understand why they were single ... my husband had the most straightforward down to earth ad ... and we clicked ... 4 years after we met we got married
1098996
Well I met my husband at church and we were friends there. We started to like each other and he asked me out to Wentworth falls (a place at the blue mountains in Sydney) we went on a hike and sat on a mossy rock and he kissed me and asked me to marry him. A month later we were married and still together after 13 years. It was hard though but we made it and I can't think of life without him