Is he really thru with our relationship and how do you think he feels?
824766
I think he has given you a blessing in disguise.  You should be with someone who trusts you.  We all deserve that much in a relationship.  Without trust, it is miserable and will only get worse.  Celebrate this opportunity to find someone who you can have a real relationship with.
969185
It's a mind thing.  He will get over it if he really wants to be with you.
1021813
It sounds to me like he's confused.  Worst case, he's lying to you or at least not giving you the whole truth.  Speak candidly with him, find out the entire story and make a connection with him!  How does he really feel about you?  When he answers, do you believe him?  Listen to your instincts!
529388
it could be and it also could be he wants to move on but does not know how to tell you.  If he is not into the relationship end it before you get hurt
399411
It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.
533918
ask him it is your best bet to the truth let it all out and tell him how you feel and if he is just using you move on...
113431
The only way you will know rather or not he still like is by you asking how does he feel about you? If he said that he still like or love you is a good thing. Maybe you guys need time apart to really see if things can work out by taking one step at a time. If he say that he doesn't care for you anymore, then you should move on.  It's not fair to you, to keep putting your heart out there and he's being happy with someone new. Love hurts but you have to keep it moving for your sake. I know how it is to be in love by yourself.
145962
Im in a situation like that right now and I need some help too. When Im with him the relationship is alright and cool, but when we're not together all I find myself thinking about is, "Do he feel the same way about me?" He's very shy when it comes to me. He came from Abilene, and he was in a relationship down there, but sometimes I have to ask him are we still together.
249161
He's still carrying a lot of baggage from the relationship with him. Some guys just need to vent it out. If it goes on for longer than, say, 2 weeks, then it is time to tell him to get over it and talk about something else.
681956
He definitely has issues that he needs to resolve. Only he knows why he's stalling.  And obviously unable to make a decision.  Thus in your shoes, I would request that he get back to you, once he resolves his issues.  Simple as that.\nPlease dont tell me how much you love him. There's no need for you to be dragged into his prior relationship by your confusion.  And how can you tell if he loves you, since he's unable to disconnect from his prior. If that is how he shows his love, I would be very concerned. You can be in for further heartache and confusion.  WHY torture yourself?
501212
Does he call you little sweet words like; baby, honey, etc.? How often do ya'll see each other? Do you know if he's seeing anybody else besides you? If the answers to these questions are 1)yes 2)alot 3)no, then I will say that you guys are in a relationship.
988184
Maybe he isn't serious about the relationship.
985239
sit down and talk it through. ask him directly and tell him there will be no hard feelings if he tells you how he feels.
261672
you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
682345
Since he said it's over unless he has been ignoring you and not keeping in touch, I'm afraid he meant what he has said. If however, he's still keeping in touch with you and you are still talking, he is probably having regrets and want you back as well but don't know how to say sorry.
245188
He may have a lot of issues or feelings unresolved that need dealing with on his end.  Some men find it hard to relate their emotional feelings to their partner especially when they feel overwhelmed.  If he doesn't want to communicate with you in a few days I would definately be thinking you need to have a long talk.
214870
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.