I am with a new lady right now, I love her so much, but i could not forget my ex, what shall i do?
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its not that easy to forget the ex from our life,give it some time.u have to concentrate on ur new lady now cause she ur present now,what was in ur past leave it that way,if u wanna have a beautiful relationship
366542
The question is does she love you back?  How long were you dating before you broke up?  Me?  I had a relationship for 7 years and I still love him but we grew apart.  I realize now that I love the idea of being with the person I once knew.  If you have not spoken to her in 2 years, she is probably not the person you fell in love with anymore.  I would err on the side of moving on!  Nothing will ever be the same as the relationship that you had with this person.  I guarantee it.  But don't let that close your heart to new and better relationships.  Use what you had with her as a learning experience.  Don't compare her to the other women you date.  That is a fatal mistake.  I know its hard ,but you have to move on with your life in your mind, your spirit and your body.  Please don't hold your relationship with her on a pedestal.  Clear your heart and keep moving!\n*Muah*
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the best thing to do is go separate ways , find a hobby , read, go shopping. i don't think someone else is good right  now. u ha vet gotten over this .give yourself time to your self . plenty of fish out here in this big sea of love. what u do is find a younger gal reminding u of her.
282849
don keep thinking u want to forget that person , its hurt u more , do smtg instead of trying so hard to forget ....
587671
Hello!\nGive it time and keep yourself busy.  When you start to think about your ex, redirect your mind--call a friend, go shopping, go workout, have your hair done, whatever you want! Surround yourself with friends and enjoy yourself.  It'll get easier--hang in there!
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Why are you lost? Why don't you know yourself? You just lost someone important in your life, not your life itself pal.\n\nYou are a great guy, strong, full of love, joy, you are an honorable man, you are funny, you are cool, you are a man that can make any girl happy. What happened in the past with your ex is stuff of the past, LET IT GO. If she didn't appreciated all what you offered her, all that good stuff, IT IS HER FAULT, NOT YOURS.\n\nAnd you are wrong, even her cannot do a single thing to you, THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU. And why are you going to hang out there for a little while to see what people say? You know yourself, you have been living with your self all your life, you know what kind of man you are, you know where you have your nuts buddy!\n\nPain, lots of pain. Pain might lead you to two things: (1) more pain --> death, or (2) victory. Wars involve pain and death, but pain and death leads to victory to the one that is stronger and smarter; and I think that you are from the side of the strong and smarter ones. How do I know it? Because I don't spend my time writing to losers.\n\nStand up and start walking...
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Hi Che,  The way you ask the question with all the information, You both sounded like a happy couple. I don't think you did anything wrong,(if you didn't leave something out). She is very confused about her love for you,or she has found someone else to replace you.It's one or the other. I would find a nice girl who know's what her feeling are. That way you don't have to go through this again. Your right us girls don't all do this.I have a old man and i would never do this to him. Good Luck My Friend.\n\n  Clowmy
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You shouldn't hesitate, you should wait, I know is hard to forget someone you loved so much, but you'll learn to forget that person, get over it, and one day find a better person, don't worry, I went through the same thing you are going through right now, give it some time and you'll see you'll find not only one, but many guys who will ask you out.
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there is no easy way to forget someone you allowed into your heart, where others seldom go. and if you trully loved him, then you have to except that he will always have a place in your heart. it is never easy to forget someone. \nbut the one thing you can do is to think about who you are. \nit is time that you started belonging to yourself and not to the past. boost your ego by going out with the girls and flirting with fit men. (that tends to work for me) as long as you don't make the mistake of going home with them on the first night.\nhope that helps:)
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Just let it go.\n\nTry to be happy for her that she has found someone to share her life with and let it go.\n\nIf you don't it will just eat you up and you'll never move on.\n\nIf you don't let it go you will never be ready to discover your Miss Right.\n\nLeave her in peace and work on your own life.  Get out and discover some new hobbies and passions...hopefully while you are expanding your horizons a lovely lady will stroll over and explore with you.\n\n:)\n\nPeace
574207
Depends why she is your ex and what sort of help she needs. It also depends on whether you have a new girlfriend and whether she would mind you helping your ex out. Only you know your situation and only you can decide...
816916
Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
979089
enjoy the time you have with her-but brace yourself that it may end.you dont want to regret the last few days you have with her because you were too busy protecting your heart.It will bounce back-I promise
62094
You can't forget her because you're always thinking of her. Then why you have a new girl at present? You still love her but you have a new one. You're already married and you have to be faithful with your wife. But if you can't, then what's the use  of staying at your present relationship if you're not happy?
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the more u try to forget her , the more u will remember her. lost love is like sand , u cant hold it ...\nso get along with your current gf... i am sure u dont take her to places u visited with ur 1st gf .pls go to all those places and enrich ur heart with the new experiences. u cant delete the old memories , but u can fade them away by new memories. All the best !!!
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Well, you divorced her, so you ARE no longer with her.  You will miss her for a while.  \n\nTry working on yourself for a while.  Persue some hobbies, relax, do whatever you feel.  Soon enough you will feel refreshed and will no longer miss her.
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You mentioned that you were confused with your life. Perhaps you should try getting a better foothold with your own life before you do anything else. Getting back with her while you remain in a state of confusion isn't going to help the both of you. And if you really want to be with your ex girlfriend, I'd suggest you come clean about your feelings to her and your present girlfriend. A girl wouldn't want to patch if you're already seeing someone else. Don't give your ex the wrong impression that you are a 'two-timer'.