Do you leave the lights on  so you can see or off cause you don't?
819444
if your talking about whta i think your talking about, it doesnt really matter to me on or off as long as it gets done.
437837
I like to make love with the lights off... it's much more misterious that way... one has the chance to dicover his/her partner throughout caresses, with her/his lips... the darkness sets free our imagination... (it also hides a lot of flaws by the way :) )
148214
Standing most of the time, but if it's the middle of the night and I don't want to turn on the lights, I'll take a seat. That way I don't have to worry about peeing all over the floor.
1097551
At work we just got motion sensitive switches.  If there isn't any movement for so long, the lights turn themselves off.  Saves a bunch on electricity.  Of course they automatically turn themselves back on when we walk through.
441585
In the house I grew up in, lights used to come on in the middle of the nights all the time.  Just randomly all the lights in the living room would turn on then in the kitchen and all the bathrooms.  It was super freaky.
34735
Use a night light.  Turn it on everynight before you go to bed.  I'm sure after awhile you'll forget about turning it on and won't even realize it.  Also, lots of times if you open up your curtains or blinds a little bit light from outside comes in.
57123
Yourself, taking time to turn off lights that are not being used and turning down the thermostat and wearing warmer clothing.Then insulation and florencent light bulbs that use a fraction of the energy over regular bulbs.
869047
well it could be a bug or you may be turning it off improperly
927878
I don't like to go fast,prefer to do things slowly ...but I always have the lights on (unlike Georgie who likes them off-for obvious reasons) ....extra special squeezy hugs x
48195
No!  I don't you try Motel 6\nThey leave the light on for you.
403103
i agree with you. many like the lights off, dont know why, but i like to see who im screwing.
580663
Are you turning the computer OFF or STANDBY?
439
yes - close your eyes.  see - its night time!
125595
Leaving them turned off still won't help, because a lightning strike could still fry them. \n\nYou need them well grounded and in a Faraday cage if you want to avoid ALL pulses, including from lightning strikes.
998195
I prefer it both ways too lol .. I also love candlelight. I love this question. Will be interesting to see what others say about this one! Either way can be fun and exciting. WIth lights on you can see the person and their body but it also is erotic in the dark like hide and go seek and fun when you find it to play with it lol!
961324
work during day light
574070
leave a small light on nearby un til the person isa comfortable with it, then move tha light farther  and farther away until it is not needed any more.