I no my boyfriend is using me he sayes he dosen care about no body and is never around and when he is its time
826066
You need to get away NOW
746265
Two words GET OUT. This guy is a looser. He wants to control you by making you think you need him to survive. Without him you will crumble. He is trying to make you dependent on him. Looser he is a leach and needs to go. Fast
235261
You need to ask him that question.\nEverybody needs some time to themselves even if they are not on their own. You cannot judge his willingness to communicate with your own as people are different. Understand why he needs time to himself, find a compromise between the two of you and then respect each others needs (his to isolation, yours to communication).
525300
NO ARE YOU KIDDING, HE OBVIOUSLY KNOWS HE HAS A HOLD OVER YOU. AND APPARENTLY GIVES YOU NO RESPECT, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU NEED TO BE TREATED.
925508
You sound like high maintenance. Do him a huge favor and leave him so he doesnt have to deal with your constant insecurities.
64570
Leave him alone. He isn't interested in you any longer. You are doing hima favor.
572635
you are involved with a very selfish individual. He is putting his pleasures and self before you. Get out now.
726825
Some guys will use you just because they can (you're allowing it).  It's up to you to put a stop to it.  Cut him off completely, and stay away from him because he isn't showing you any respect.
819829
Try explaining to him that you are busy sometimes, that doesn't mean that you aren't into him it just means that you don't have the time to give him the attention that you think he deserves.  He might be happy with that and it will keep your relationship honest.
697115
Get over him.  If he is just making excuses not to be with you then he doesn't want to be with you at all.
43633
leave him now or, find out the hard way.  He is taking advantage of you because you are young.  Be with someone your own age before you loose your self esteam and self confidence.
351062
you know when your boyfriend is using you when:\n1. he never talks to you anymore!\n2. he never hangs around you anymore!\n3. the girl he is using you with never hangs around you or talk to you anymore as well!\n4. he chooses to talk to other girls rather then you!!\n                  and that's pretty much all!!
240049
ask him....if he says he will, then he really doesn't care about you....find someone else.
673778
You need to suddenly not have time for him. Either he is going to see what you are going through and fix it, or you are going to learn it is time for you to move on.
879093
It means he is just using you. that crap he told you is just an excuse. You watch, if his new relationship doesn't work out and he is alone again, he will all the sudden want to be with you. Its call buying insurance (or you giving him time off so he can buff other chicks)!! Either way, you will be there to cater his needs.\n\nYou might think I'm a a55hole for saying this, give it time and find out for yourself!!
581916
Talk to him abt this . Get him help from some shrink and if he does not listen to u , it means he does not love u.\nLeave him if he does not listen to u.
192525
Well, if he has to work he has to work. You can't get upset at him for that. If you feel he is just neglecting you I wouldn't invest anymore of my time into the relationship. He may care for you but honestly doesn't have enough time. You sound like a clingy woman so it would probably be in your best interest to find someone who can devote more time to you.