What percentage of Military wives cheat on their husband while deployed?
819222
Many military wives cheat on their husbands, especially the young ones.  Many of them aren't very independent and are built of fragile or weak constitution.  When there husband goes away, they fall apart, so they need another man.  It is pathetic, but that's the kind of woman that marines marry and the kind of woman who want want to marry marines.\n\nI'm sure that most military wives don't want to hear this, but it's true.
785457
Please remember, the most of men were in Europe in the army, just a few were in US, no chance to have just an affaireor cheating. The commitment is the same in all the times, no have an specific time.
1102279
I was married to a Marine...after any major deployment all you had to do was go to a bar or club, to see all the wives that were crying as the bus left, with another Marine to keep her company.  It is a HUGE problem.
940673
there are groups on msn,, my wife is in a lot of them,, not sure of the exact names , but something like military wives and girlfriends stuff like that,, it located in the groups section,, I'm sure yahoo might have something like that to.\n\nand as far as everyone saying FRG, i would stay away from them,, they don't help, and it's nothing but a gossip are for the officers wives and staff NCO wives from what I've seen,, i won't let my wife get pulled in to the one for my unit.
289994
My husband has been deployed for most of our 5 year marriage as well but I am a dedicated wife who knows this is his job and I support him and his job 100%, no questions. In order to be a military wife, you have to have a strong foundation and you have to know that the Army is first..I mean, my husband puts me first but when he is deployed, he has to put his job first in order to stay focused, his main job in Iraq is to stay focused and I do everything here that I can to help him maintain that. We work as a team and have a very healthy, happy and strong marriage despite all of the deployments. You just need to reassure to your wife that this is what you have to do and that you both need to pull it together and it will make these deployments easier to "deal" with. As for the mental well being, you can both seek help with that. Contact your chaplain and he will guide you to what you need to do and where you can go for this help. Your wife should participate in the FRG's or start a support group. The main thing is to support each other and know that together, you can conquer anything. Stay strong and keep the chin up...stay safe and you'll be home sooner than you know it. If you're gone for a year, you should be getting a two week R&R time....take that time to rejuvinate. Good luck and thanks for all you do!!!!
652631
There is nothing wrong with your question. Some people are just being uneducated jerks who actually believe everything negative that they hear about Operation Iraqi Freedom.\n\nMy husband is a US ARMY soldier. He defends freedom and I think the guy who said our soldiers are MURDERING is a pure ungrateful, unamerican A$$hole. People like you make America look bad. The soldiers do not make the decision to go to war, our government makes that decision. They do their job and they do what they are told and they keep your lazy A$$ safe. Have some respect for your fighting men and women.....\n\nAND it is sick that some dude is worrying about screwing military wives while their husbands are defending our freedom. I hope the husbands come back and beat the crap out of him for being so scandelous.\n\nAND YES TO MARYANN...it is wrong for them to be "comforting" each other as you call it. I would never cheat on my husband and if I found out he cheated on me with another soldier he would completely regret it...I think people need to quit being so weak when it comes to sex and temptation and respect their marriage.
906141
every broad i went out with while i was in the military cheated on me while i was gone...and I've seen it done to almost everyone else as well...so good luck, don't expect too much while yer in camp
643168
It's my opinion that it doesn't matter whether it's a woman or a man...I, myself, would not get serious or even date someone I knew had not be faithful.  Even if that person was unfaithful only once.  I could never trust them.  It takes a lot of &*$^%* to cheat!  I've been the victim of one who cheated on me.  We were married.  It seems to be a thrill that they seek, even when the consequences of getting caught could devastate their life.  Who would be stupid enough to take that chance?   I don't understand.
1180746
yes, yes, yes!  I have been married with my huband for 11 years, with him for 15 and have never never cheated.  However, there have been many women who wanted him.  In today's women there is this idea that married men are better and will risk their own marraige to be with someone else.  Maybe they are bitter at their men and are getting them back.  All I know is that women today are catching up to the men with this dirtly litte secret.
382866
Yes the military member can get into trouble!\nThe UCMJ (Military Law) has several articles of conduct that it can throw at them (1) Adultery (Still on the Books)\n(2) Conduct unbecoming (a version of catch 22 where you can be charge because the woman is still married and not divorced.  (3) because the woman is still married and (the way your question is written) Married again before the first marriage was ended. they are guilty of polygamy which is also chargeable as an offense. 4) and the "civilian" woman can also be charge under Federal or Local State civil statutes for polygamy as well...
1094115
it's nice to hear the air force is treating you well ... I was a army wife and it was not" 90210 "like you explained ...{thanks for the dumpy comment }, My husband was a GRUNT in Bosnia and in Afghanistan ... It was sheer hell for me and our 2 boys .. Im thankful for Ft. knox they did all they could do to make it as easy as they could for us during my husbands deployment... No matter what branch all these men and women are HEROS ! I was not aware that there were people who did'nt support our troops ... I just thought it was Bush they did'nt support ! being a "army" wife is very hard!!{ there is no fun and games at war} maybe I should have had my husband Join the airforce so we could not appear to be so dumpy!!! My husband is a hell of a man and Im very proud of what he has done for our country.. HOOAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
12405
I have a Husband who is in the Air Foce and is deployed right now. I also have a brother in law who is Deployed. I have Alot of friends in the military as well that are deployed. My cousin too. My whole family has in ome point been military.
1074234
lmao!! Good for your wife!! I hope that this has taught you a very IMPORTANT lesson!! DONT CHEAT!
515207
Men cheat more because they want to feel they still have it! That he is still a man! But women do their share of cheating to because their husband are not giveing them what they need, they don't make them feel loved by them! I would probly go with 60% men and 40% women!
1000124
Well, some people are morons. However, some military wives give the rest of us a bad name. My husband was in for a while and some of the other wives I met were crazy. They were lazy (various excuses for not working from...they were "too depressed because hubby was gone" to they "married a Navy man so they wouldn't have to work"), needy (always calling their husband's command complaining about time off and other matters that were none of their concern), and snobs (so many of them looked down on the wives of lower enlisted...as if they themselves had any reason to...they weren't the ones in the Navy). So as with any group, the ones who deserve the title of bi*ch ruin the image of the whole group!
874065
We were stationed in Germany when my hubby deployed the first time.  That was for Desert Storm.  It was hard being in a foreign country.  However, I chose to stay there and I'm glad I did.  The ones who went home basically lost everything.  They lost housing, sponsorship, overseas pay, contact with the unit and updates on how their hubby and the unit were doing among other things.  \n\nHow things work out depends mostly on you.  You already don't seem to be handling the stress well.  It doesn't matter what unit you go to or where you're stationed, there's games and politics.  You seem to be in a particularly bad one.  If you don't trust your hubby, you'll be in a world of hurt.  They'll play off that and give other women ammo to go after him.  Trust me, your trust and faith in him will have everything to do with what happens.  In 18 years, I know my hubby has never cheated on me.  I don't question him and I don't second guess him.  I keep him happy at home.\n\nI would suggest that you don't press the issue.  I'm sure the unit is following the rules.  They can't risk not doing it.  There's no CO or 1SG that wants to lose their position.  Things like  you're talking about can cause alot of scandal and ruin a career.  If you try to handle it in your own way, you can make things tough on your hubby.  If he has issues, he can take it up the chain of command.  However, it's not wise for you to interfere with the operations of his unit.  That puts him in for alot of stress and such.\n\nBe strong and trust in him and your marriage.  While he's gone, travel.  There's so much to see and do there.  Most of the time, it doesn't cost alot because you can get discounts or units or chaplains sponsor tours.  Write to him often and keep the letters up beat.  Try not to add to his worries and stress.  The time goes faster than you think and you'll find that you're a whole lot stronger than you thought you were.  You'll find your own independance and still rely on him.  \n\nGood luck!!
95003
I always jokingly say that "all men are pigs" but there are some that can be faithful. People only do to you what you LET them do. My husband has cheated on me several times because I LET him get away with it, and did nothing. Whereas, my sister has been married for 30 yrs, and I can swear on a bible her husband has never cheated.