I let love slip away how do I get it back?
828707
Try re-dating her.  You two need to learn what drew you together again.  \n\nAlso, thank you for trying, especially with a child involved.  Most would just give up and say next.....
922191
Don't go there!!! No matter how much it hurts, you can't mess with people's free will. If you do it things will be bad:\nHe may come back, but the relationship will not be good.\nYou will not be happy together.\nThe whole thing will blow up in your face.\nHe will be really really hard to get rid of after things go sour again.\n\nSweetie, you have to accept the fact that the relationship was broken, or you two wouldn't have broken up. You have to let go and mend your broken heart. Work on enriching your spirit and a new better love will come to you.\nI promise.
22304
This is always tough and really, it depends on your situation.  The best thing you can do is be honest; tell them you no longer love them (and maybe this means you never really did) and explain why (this is the important part because it sucks to never know why someone fell out of love).  If you want to take the cowards way, just start cheating on them until they get the hint or the next time they say "i love you" say something like "yeah...about that love thing..." but you really do just have to say it.  They'll understand eventually even if it hurts them a lot now.  And be gentle, because they obviously care about you and you cared about them at some point
24542
I'm going through a similar situation. I left. Don't do that. You both need to decide if it's worth trying to get the closeness back. Be open about the things that you enjoy doing together and things you don't. Try and figure out how you two grew apart. And do it together. No matter how hard it is. If it's worth it, take the time to make it work. It wont happen on it's own.
371213
The answer to your question is forgiveness...You must learn to forgive the love of your life...There had to be a possible reason why that person ignored you...You get past the hurt and pain by giving em another chance...I think you don't love that person..if you did u would of not given up on love \n\nI know what you are going thru...The love of my life is far away from me...but I still love him...Nothing can make me stop loving him...not even distance or time...Love is not easy..Love is a battlefield..
285736
What did you do, if you post that you will get more help. Some times that is just the way it is. When something is in your face all the time you get used to it. It becomes something you think you can do without. The only way to know if you can be without anything, is to lose or let it go for a small period of time. Go the distance, if love is still there it can be rekindled. Spare no expense, use what you know about her. Shock her suprise her, make her feel like the love of your life, it's more than just words, it's action that makes the words. Good luck!
631268
if u love him then tell him so\nand he still loves u \nthen he'll come back\nbut if he has stopped loving you\nbecause you rejected him \nthen its just fate\n\nbut try telling him first\nas there's always still a chance that\nthere's a lingering feeling of love for u
665857
get some slip so that u wont feel it again
286695
Move on.  There is someone out there who will return your affections.  You deserve better.
696650
It's hard for you to let go because you still love him. Give it time, you will get over it eventually.\nI just told someone else this... You can't Make anyone love you or MAKE anyone love you more.\n\nGood luck.
1082712
ur still in love remember true loves never end up easily nor u forgot it easily ur question shows that u were honest with r relation if evry thing had end and there is no turning back u might have to control ur self form the pain but if there is turning back u should solve ur problem talking with him again if hes sincere with you too else try to busy ur mind in some work
425646
awww :( i'm sorry...try to go back to the someone that you love....tell her how much you love her...if you want her back....6 years is a long time, and its not too late to save it from slipping away
1118177
Letting go isn't easy. \n\nThe best thing to do here is to let go of all committments you've had with this ex of yours and begin to learn how to trust yourself again.\n\nOnce you've learned how to trust yourself again, give every new person that walks into your life from then on a fair and equal chance at getting to know you as a person and to know your heart once again. \n\nYou never know when the next person will enter your life and if that new person is the right one for you.
459590
My dear.. The first thing to do is talk to him about how you feel when you are both relaxed and the problem is behind. Don't confront him immediately after what happened. You have to also assess how much you love him and how much he loves you. If you think the love is still there, then give it a chance and talk about what you like and what he likes and come to a compromize. However, if you feel that the love part is missing, then don't waste both of your times and put an end, it will only increase your agony. Unless, there are kids involved, this means a whole new strategy that you should consider them. If no kids, and no love, then separation is the best.
131981
I'm sorry that you seem to be in pain! Non-requited love is a real hard thing to get over! Please read the good advice at www.marriagebuilders.com - maybe there's hope for you. Good luck!
17529
Hun, I'm so sorry. I think you have to let go. I know you don't want to hear this. But he has to make his own mistakes. Stay strong......keep your dignity. If he comes back.....you will feel that you did the right thing and he will need to prove himself again. Just be strong and don't stop being you.
200792
becuz UR LOVE WAS TRUE AND UR STILL IN SHOCK ABOUT WHY THINGS DIDNT WORK OUT. U CANT BELIEVE THAT THIS DIDNT END IN A FAIRY -TALE LIKE MANNER...THE WAY U EXPECTED....u still care abt him ...and maybe the truth is too hurtful and u cant let go.....just try to relax...get involved in activities outside ur home...go out with friends...share ur problems...sharing is the best thing to do at this point.... it will help u reach CLOSURE.......BEST OF LUCK!