are you still happily married after two years or just in it for a security blanket?
828691
happy after 2, security after 4 years
1004693
married but divorcing.  I would have loved being married if my husband wasnt a scumbag lol
55831
yes unless you are married
1023658
marry both.  two is better than one.
230402
only if the person was married for less then 2 years with the citizen.
1181298
I'm a male in my second marriage who married a woman who hadn't been married previously and its worked out great. In fact I'm glad the first marriage didn't work and we have been together 20 years and I would marry her again tommorrow. I'm sure your fiance was just meaning the second time around would be best for himself. Communication and genuine friendship is the key and humor is also very important. We often tease each other in a lighthearted manner. Also we have 2 children whom we are very proud of.
816012
If marriage is the goal for both of you, then anything over 2 years is pushing it.  Once you get to the 4 - 5th years, time to call it quits if no proposal was forthcoming by then.
1074642
He did...I accepted..we've been happily married for 13 years now..together for 15...we've been friends for 16 1/12 years.
1108244
I'm happily married and dont cheat, but if I were to , I would protect myself. Help ya any?
439264
My hubby was 24 when we got married, I was 22...I think its a good age if you have a job that will take care of both you and your wife. If you have security, then go for it!! 26 is an awesome age, in my opinion....
450942
If there is love and trust yes you guys can make it my brother in law was in the marines and it was hard for his girlfriend at first but they are now married and the 2 years went by fast for them.
3797
at least 2yrs, and live together first
1031269
I just celebrated my 1st anniversary and the first weeks after the wedding were anticlimactic and I too was unhappy.  The reason:  The wedding and preparations were over.   And I thought "is this it?"  Reality set in with a quickness.\n\nAs time has progressed and problems have occurred, I think back to why I married this man and everything gets better.  Through this year I have threatened to leave he has threatened to leave, we have discussed counseling but we have done none of the above.  \n\nNow we have settled into a routine where we once again love and respect each other and we look forward to the years to come.\n\nYes we lost that spark but there was still an ember and we have fanned it into a blazing flame.\n\nGood luck
414632
i'm still relatively newlywed (almost 2 years) and so far nothing has been difficult. but I think we both still make the other's needs a priority so that may be the part we actually have to remember to do later... or the part that will not come as naturally once we get lazy, bored, or have kids.
1116722
Are you married yet? Seek counseling.
320224
I'm married for 13 years and my marriage it isn't perfect,but after all this years I think is better being married than not,because you have more than one possibility to share your happy (or not happy) moments with the person you love,one way or another.Happiness and unhappiness are hard to be supported alone.
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when you are married.