how can i forget those things which make me sad?
829843
well i hav gone through same phase but its not true that god doesnt love u..............that superpower loves everyone........its just the phase of life where things arnt goin well.........every dark cloud has a silver lightenin.........dont be sad be a fighter and u will c things turnin rite urself................and definiately i will wish u luck sweety!!!
578509
listen to some music, jump around the room like a chipmunk on speed. take it easy, let urself be in a grump if it needs to be. DONT hurt urself, among others it will make this time harder to forget when its over. take care x x
687321
well see the doctor but let me tell you the best thing you can do before hand and keep your memory in good shape buy a small notebook and keep an organizer in your purse and every time you have something in mind write it down, that way you wont forget and you keep your brain focused at all time, I already know that if you go to the doc they are going to give you pills and junk to make you think its going to work think about it, your 21 and your to young to have a problem I think you are not focusing on things, the notebook will refresh your brain and memory and after some time you will train your self to remember just give it time and don't forget to write your what to do list everyday, and little things like what people have said to you for your personal reference........ belive me Ive tried it and it works ............Dont stress out to much .........
405948
You may need counseling to get over this.  When you think about a bad memory, it just makes it new again.  It sometimes hard to get over things like this without help.  good luck
619050
be true to yourself.  come clean and make amends if you can.  When that is not possible, write down the things you've done that bother you on little pieces of paper and say goodbye to them as you bury them in your garden, or toss them in your lit BBQ. then forgive yourself and forget about it.
1078586
The bad and trouble times affected you the most, that's why it's easier to recall them. You should try to visualise the good times. \nYou are NOT abnormal.
354794
THAT IS REALLY A DIFFICULT QUESTION. THE PAIN CAN NEVER EVER BE ERASED COMPLETELY. BUT TIME WILL PROBABLY LESSEN THE PAIN BIT BY BIT. PROBABLY TO A TINY PRICK IN YOUR HEART NOW AND THEN. WITH TIME YOU WILL LEARN TO FORGET ,WELL ALMOST FORGET , AND PROBABLY RELIVE THE SWEET MEMORIES WHICH ARE ASSOCIATED WITH YOUR WIFE.TRY TO REMEMBER THE NICE THINGS AND TRAIN YOURSELF TO FACE REALITY. WHAT HAS HAPPENED CANNOT EVER BE REVERTED, BUT YOU HAVE TO CARRY ON, FOR THE SAKE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR OTHER BELOVED ONES.BE BRAVE MAN. THINGS WILL BE SOLVED BY TIME ITSELF. PRAY TO GOD TO EASE YOUR PAIN.BEST OF LUCK.
939537
i have found the best way to get over someone is to think about them as though they have died.  that way you can keep the memories you have about the good times you had with him but accept there will be no more.  stay busy and go different places and do different things than you did when you were with him.   try very hard not to see him or hear about him.  it's a cliche but time does really heal and every day gets a little easier.  don't stay home and be sad now even though no guys measure up right now.  the next one who will measure up is out there and you won't meet him while you're at home feeling sad.  and once you meet him you'll wonder what you ever saw in the guy who made you sad.  good luck!!
735141
start making lists before bed of things you need to do the next day. Also, get a calendar with large spaces to write things in and start keeping a journal of interesting/important things that happen and when. You'll have this to look back on when you need to remember something and ya never know, you might just find out some interesting things about yourself in the process.
282849
don keep thinking u want to forget that person , its hurt u more , do smtg instead of trying so hard to forget ....
404663
I would like to be less emotional, so I can allow myself to think twice before it is too late!!
1129235
try to forget about it with something fun,i hope you have fun,good luck.pugloveryay@yahoo.com
241254
take your mind off of the stuff that is making you mad or sad.\nwatch tv{watch a funny show that will make you laugh your head off},listen to music,talk to someone about how youre feeling,punch a pillow,go outside and walk for a while or write down everything that is pissing you off and then crumple it up.
304562
Find someone knew and get distracted.\n\nI know it sounds trite, but remember when your hampster (or other pet) would die and your parent's would buy you a new one to make you feel better? Well, it worked, didn't it?\n\nA new love will distract you from the pain while you heal. Next thing you know, you'll be over it.
95953
WELL MY ADVICE IS TO TRY AND LOOK FORWARD TO GOOD THINGS (HAPPENINGS) TO TAKE UR MIND OFF THOSE EVENTS AND TRY TO DO SOME FUN STUFF TO HEIGHTEN UR SPIRIT. U'LL BE BACK TO UR OLD SELF BEFORE U KNO IT. JUST TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT THEM AS MUCH.\n\nHEY THANKS FOR THE ADVICE
1015907
i forgot what i had forgotten
714960
just try to change ur life\nur life is the main cause of ur sadness\nu feel like u miss many things like family and love or work or whatever\ntry to find who really take care of u and love u like this women\ntry to find a job \nengage ur time  try to do useful things to all and to urself