What is your opinion of couples that swing?
828512
I wouldn't ever do that. Besides the strain it can place on relationships, there are chances of unwanted pregnancies and unwanted STDs.
183594
lol i think they r attractive.i have slept with a married man.the excitement out weighs the getting caught.but yes i did get caught,then it turned into a threesome soooo...i dont know  lol omg  too much info  lol
40018
I just don't like to be pushed to fast on the swing it gives me  head ache\n\ncan you say STD's that do not go away and kill you.\n\ncan you say immoral
946631
It sounds to me like the fantasy is much better than the reality is going to be for him.  As an experienced swinger I can tell you that it only works if both members of the couple have an equal say in the matter.\n\nAlso,  straight-up, contrary to popular belief, women usually have more say-so over who you swing with as a couple since men's "strike-zones" are usually a bit wider than women's.  Otherwise it's easier for a man to find a woman he is attracted to than for a woman to find a man she is attracted to.  So he'll be disappointed if he thinks it's any other way.  Also, him choosing the couple doesn't mean the couple will choose you two.  There are four people involved that all have to be attracted to the opposite member and comfortable with them for it to happen.\n\nAlso, although more men than women first suggest swinging, women seem to get the most out of it since it really liberates them sexually and helps them get over allot of the Western society guilt associated with sex and being a sexual person.\n\nThis is a disaster waiting to happen.  If what you say is the case he is not emotionally equipped to handle you having a good time with another man.  Watching you have a great time has to be as exciting to him as him having a great time.  That is how it works.  I'll tell you right out that my wife is my favorite pornstar.  :-)\n\nThe big thing is that experienced couples will pick-up on your situation really quick.  After awhile you get drama-radar and can usually sense when all isn't right with a couple.\n\nWhy would someone want to involve others in their sex life?  For us it was we had a great marriage and great sex already.  We were secure in each other and our relationship.  We also had fantasies that required more than two people to fulfill.  It was evolution of our relationship.  And our relationship is even better now.  Our communication is on a level I never thought possible, and we really know why we are together, and it's not just for sex.  It's because we really love everything else about each other.\n\nIf you both are not on the same page about, then you shouldn't do it.  As a couple, in swinging or not, if something doesn't work for either of you, than it doesn't work for both of you.  If it benefits the individual it also has to benefit the couple.  If you don't want to do it than he should accept that.  That is what being a couple is all about.\n\nIf you want some good, honest, open discussion about swinging from both newbies and veterans alike, check out The Swingers Board (link below).  You'll find lots of good information about everything you mentioned in your question.
138948
you can check out a swingers club,you would be suprised at the people that are members. doctors lawyers all kinds of people
1115848
Ken and Barbie style - Neither partner is allowed to bend at the elbows or knees. \nDoggie style - The man attempts to do the impossible. \nFroggie style - Male and female partners in large spa. Male attempts to fertilise female using only the water as a transmission medium. For couples who don’t like each other much any more. \nFish style - same as Froggie style, but neither partner may use their arms or legs. \nMummy and Daddy Love Each Other Very Much, And Hug Each Other in A Special Way style - The only position in this list you won’t be embarrassed to tell the kids about when they're five. \nStyle style - Sex with a Vogue Living editor. \nCrouch position - Each partner crouches down on the ground, then simultaneously leaps up, and attempts to couple whilst in mid-air. \nCouch position - Same as the crouch position, but starting at opposite ends of the living room couch. \nOuch position - Usual outcome of the crouch position. \nLazy Susan style - Susan goes to sleep. \nRussian style - Partners queue for hours for enough vodka to make each other look attractive. \nNostrodamus sex - Any encounter that comes as a complete surprise. \nOsama Bin Laden’s position - If you know this position, please contact the FBI for your $25 million reward. \nBank style - Screw the customers. \nMissionary position - Each partner kneels and prays.
450524
I think they're revolting!!!! Haha. Its completely normal. We know how to do it better to ourselves than anyone else! But it's always worth being a good sport by letting someone else try.
928256
Sultans of Swing..of course hehe
934737
in the end ... who cares what others think.\n\nIf you and your fiance are secure in your relationship and view the extra sex as just 'fun,' then you guys are, in my humble opinion, fine. \n\nIf, however, you or your furture spouse are in the slightest bit 'wierded out' by your bedroom fun, then it MIGHT be bad for you future together.\n\nall in all, if you are secure about what you do then let those haters hate while you are feeling loved by your man and having great sex with your woman.
990902
Most that know my wife and I have no idea that we have been swingers for years.  The reason why most do not know is because of the closed-mindedness of most.  We love to get out a few weekends a month and hang out with other couples. We are definitely happy with each other and it makes our sex life when it is just us two even better.
788848
hmm... there's no real answer. it depends on both partners--their sexual appetite, their idea of a relationship (serious, long-term, short-term, fun, etc.).
1106622
Of course, there has to be a lot of love and trust with each other in order to allow other into the sexual part of your relationship.  Swinging couples generally do not put a lot of emotional attachment in sex.  Often times they will use swinging to bring their relationship closer with the experiences they share.
330277
No.  If you and your partner are both agreeable it can be be fun and add excitement to your relationship.
159962
THEY ARE THE BEST IN THEIR FIELDS..IN THEIR PLAYING PERIODS..\nIN THEIR MARITAL LIFE THEY ARE LIVING A DECENT MORAL LIFE WITH THEIR SPOUSES.\nBOTH ARE CALM AND COLLECTIVE..NEVER CREATED ANY CONTRAVERCIES..\nGENTLE AND CLASSY PLAYERS..NICE HUMAN BEINGS..
896033
Yes, they do.  Acceptable to who?!?  As long as the woman is comfortable doing it, what's the big deal?\n\nCouples looking for a second guy to join the fun use them, as well.
353547
Some people think it is, some don't.  You can't please everyone.  What's important is that it's the right thing to do for that particular couple.  If they're comfortable with it and if that's what they want.  They're not hurting anyone by doing this, I presume.
977041
Depends what rocks your boat really. My partner and I like this activity but not everyone does. That's life. Just as long as you have fun!!