why some women want to be men, and some men want to be women?
814760
I dont think that this means the world is going crazy, it means there are people who truley believe that they were born in the wrong genders body. It is hard for alot of us to accept the thought that someone might want to have their penis removed, or breasts removed, or penis attached, but its not us that have to deal with the turmoil that these people go through thier entire lives. I used to think as you do at one time, until I met some transexuals and got to talking to them. I now understand better what they are going through. You might try to do the same.
518525
like men, women have egos too. they wanna feel like they have the power and charm to change people. when they try to change their partners, they're just testing to see at which level their charms are at. it's stupid, i know. but some women feels good about themselves in this way. Welcome to Women's World.
420268
Well, although you're mixing transgenderism with homosexuality, you are essentially correct. \n\nA woman who feels her gender is incorrect may get sexual reassignment surgery to become male. If she finds men attractive beforehand, but doesn't relate to them as a woman, she may be a transgendered gay man.\n\nA man who feels his gender is incorrect may get sexual reassignment surgery to become female. If he finds women attractive beforehand, but doesn't relate to them as a man, he may be a transgendered lesbian.\n\nIt doesn't happen often, but there are transgendered gay people. I've heard of a few trangendered lesbians.\n\nAs to being born gay, current scientific thinking is leaning toward a series of hormonal and genetic changes in the womb which determine sexual orientation. There are studies on birth order, twins, finger length, etc. all of which are determined in utero.
907303
I'm a girl, and I would happily change my sex rather than die.  I like being a woman, but I also like being alive, and it'd be fun, at least initially, to be a man.
680935
Is the same reason why women think that they should have more than one men. But not all men/women are like that. Most would settle with one who they think is the right person for them. The usual reason I hear about not settling with one is because they see a little something from each individual or they are treading the water coz they dont know who to choose.
1011843
I think it's sad that so many feminists are so busy trying to fight a war that doesn't exist that they forget that God made them special and different and beautiful. Instead of embracing who they are they try to become something they're not. I love being a woman and I know I'm not inferior to men, just different. And it's a wonderful difference!
704383
There's fun stuff about both genders, and sucky stuff about each, too.  Guys have a lot more freedoms and leeway, but at the same time, they also have more requirements and less freedom in expression and other things women take for granted.\n\nSo take what you will from that.  But I'm sure it's pretty fun!
59563
They feel they are too important to have to choose.We women know it is almost every guy's fantasy to have more than 1 woman AND for the women to be cool with it. It's basically an ego trip.
628412
It's more than an issue of psychology. I beleive it's genetic. For a man transform to a woman, first they have to dress up and pick up the manner of a woman while taking hormones for a few years. And I'm not talking about those drag queen exaggeration of being a woman. Just normal woman. They have to constantly go for counselling. The hormone will soften their face and body to become more like a woman's body.For woman to man, they start growing facial beard. Usually they have to wait for at least 2 years for the final operation. Just to make sure their conviction of changing their sex are real. Thus the term pre-op transexual and post-op transexual. The pre-op usually include breasts implant as well. The surgery require to remove the testicles. But in order to maintain the sensation of the man made virgina, the penis will be buttefly and inward into a man made virgina so at least during intercouse they maintain sensation. For woman to man, part of their thigh or buttock are carve out to make a shape of a penis and same by using the sensitive part like clitoris and labia around the shape of the penis.Being a transexual is not a trend or a fad, it's a life long identity struggle. its a difficult journey even after the operation. they have to take hormones for the rest of their life. The lucky one they get it done early in their lifes. but most either in their late 30's or perhaps in their 40's. It's an expensive operation not to mention painful physically and emotionally. They do not  do it out of pleasure, just to have a finality on their identity.
953383
We do it because some of us want to be perfect for the guy... and if you are like me, having been in some pretty bad relationships, some women never feel they are good enough for any man..
82870
Firstly they are afraid of commitment and they want to feel like they are men they want to feel superior and one way that they think that they can do that if by having many girls.
930250
No, of course not.  Well, maybe some have, but most simply enjoy wearing the clothing of the other sex.  That's it.  Why?  They like the feel and look of it (comfort and style).  They like pretending to be women on occasion (a temporary state of transsexuality, sort of).  They hate rigid gender roles and want to wear whatever without it meaning something.  Sometimes they want to be delicate and feminine and female clothes symbolize it for them (for male cross-dressers).  Sometimes it gives them a sexual thrill.  There are a million reasons, and they differ many ways, but it's not the result of child abuse.\n\nHope that's shed some light on the subject!
689012
It's a fetish or maybe they really want to be a female. Maybe they are gay.
1177799
Not all do, men just like womens in general.
665985
Some think they're actually girls trapped in boys bodies.. others just like to be more feminine I guess nobody really knows why, its just the same with lesbians, "Butch" As I am one, It's just how we feel more comfortable and how we should feel.
366743
Because lesbians are more accepted in society than gay men.I believe that's because of  male fantasy of having two women together.
379256
A woman can like as man guys as she wants and yes I think it is normal to like more than one. But when she is committed to a guy , she needs to set those thoughts aside and focus on her guy.