Do you thinks its right to ask someone out and then dump the next day?
817766
Yes. It is called dating. If the first date sucked, then yes it is appropriate. \n\nIt is appropriate to dump someone during the date too!\n\nWelcome to the dating world. At least the other person respected you enough not to lead you on.
1048554
I always recommend that you simply ask the person out, before it's to late or drives you crazy. It at least shows that you are serious. If they say no, then it is their loss. And if they say yes, then, well it can be the start of something beautiful. Asking them out via their friends is simply a cowardly way to do it. So go on, bite the bullet and ask her out!
592335
yess!! do it quick!! i just asked a girl yesterday and everythings fine!(no kidding) dont give up!!!!!!
996428
yes, I may, that depends of the situation. If He ask me, i want let him down even if If i don't have that kind of feeling for him. Sure I wouldn't keep him thinking. I will make sure I tell him my feelings about  the whole thing.
95171
I think everyone deserves a chance to make a mistake.  If the person forgot about the date (I did once) don't worry about it.  They at least should apologize.\n\nIf you get stood up more than once by the same person, then it's good byre Charle, as they say.\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
496625
Absolutely.  If a guys isn't as comfortable as he thought he was, what's the point in going through with something that's probably going to screw up anything relationship-wise that could be possible?  It's not fair if girls are the only ones abiding by "no means no"...although, he might consider not going through all the motions (just as women should) if he's not going to play the whole game.
1178558
personally i think if you are going to dump someone you should to it in person cus i think its pretty f****d up to do it by computer so don't be a p***y and tell him in person!
76230
Yes, actually it is quite normal and very common. In society today, the pressure has been placed mostly on the male to spark up a new relationship. Don't get me wrong, though, there are those groups of girls who are bold and outgoing enough to ask the guy out themselves, but they are too few and far apart.\n\nNo, you need nothing to worry about. Find your center of courage, be yourself, and believe that you are the best thing that has happened to her all day. If she shoots you down, then remember the old cliche, "There are many other fish in the sea." Oh, but if she says yes.....
320128
Probably would not call that a date. A date ends in a kiss goodnight and a promise to call. If it ends in the sack on the first encounter I think you are needing to apply the term hook-up.
74412
I say any time after the first day I met you. Even the day after would be okay. As you can see from the array of responses you've received, every girl is different. Go with what you think is best but I would say give it, at most, two days. Anything after that, she's forgotten all about you. I hope this helps! :)
678458
After dating only two days, you don't yet. Two days is not enough time to build that kind of trust and openness. Wait and give it time. He may have been baiting you, to see how you would react. Letting him ponder and think about that might not be such a bad idea at this point. Good luck!!
287145
Kind of like Hithere mentioned, but more specific.  If you just ask to hang out with him sometime that won't do anything.  You're missing a specific date and time in there and what to do.  The guy is just going to be like "Sure, let's hang out sometime." and that's it.  So you have to have something specific in mind.  "Are you free this weekend?"  Yes or no answer.  "Would you like to go to... with me?"  Again, yes or no.  "Cool, what time can I pick you up?"
1077237
If you feel right about having sex with him then go ahead. But it would be best to wait a while. If he keeps asking you constantly then dont do it. I've been use also for sex. I thought he really liked me but he didnt. He ended dumping me in a few days. Just take your time on sex. Dont rush it. Enjoy both of your company.
572891
It all depends on his personality. If he was a nice guy, I'd go out with him. If he was a putz, then no, I'd kick him to the curb. But I do know that I would feel safe if I did go out with him.
408355
yes, you have to ask him out. because he is going to go out with someone else if don't do it.
608438
ahhh the joy of 7th grade.  my advice to you would be to, if you really like a guy, to go ahead and ask him out.  if he dumps you, its not the end of the world, you have plenty of time.  and if i rememeber correctly dating in 7th grade doesn't last long anyway....\nand if you ask him out and he says no, then play it cool and let things go on as normal dont make it a big deal or other people will too.  and if he is a jerk about it while saying no hes not worth the time anyway\n\ngood luck!
448277
no it might not be the smart move because you don't know the guy and he might just want to be laid you should wait and learn more about the guy before moving that fast... plus it can be really dangerous..  Unless your into that and you can take care of yourself then go ahead try it....... becareful tho :)