Turkish family, if im from overseas whos family should go to meet first the guy or the girl?
828365
guys family shoud go first..you are the princess honey and kings never go to people and ask if they could marry her daughter.. boy's family should come first with presents..if you want to give the turkish family presents: vase, tea,clothing or make up for the young relatives..etc..it can be anything that you think as a present in your country..but i think the most important present is your attitude..turkish people give a big importance on respect..show your respect to the olders and always smile..if you serve something to eat or drink at first if they don't accept don't give up..insist on!! as a tradition turkish people usually reject the first offers.this is referred to politeness..but there are no strict rules!! they don't live with strict traditional laws..the idea is to have fun..good luck :)
222876
sure why not... why don't try to go to Turkey or arrange something for him to come Egypt... I don't see why u can not meet since u talk on the phone and via mails.. don't lose ur hope girl!!!   :o)
191027
start involving him more in the family get togethers.  On the other hand, I'm all for the family card and I'd be interested in hearing their side of the story.  Sometimes parents see what we can't because we are blinded by love:)
41046
As long as its ok with your parents and he seems like a good person, I think you should go with him. He might also help you get to know more people, which will probably be helpful since you're in a new school.
235778
being a brother and a muslim i know how you feel. you helped me with my situation and i will try to help you with yours parents are key and are most important (you think my parents know i like this girl, no probably not) but sooner or later they will find out whether i tell them or not so now you must weigh your options how much is this guy worth if alot then you must be able to tell your father that his rath is miniscule to the amount of love you have towards this person. walking a tight rope is not fun i know how you feel i have been doing it all my life. and the whole paki indian thing doesn't make your situation worse the girl i am trying to ask out is puerto rican my parents are going to rage but sooner or later they will understand as your parents will that keeping a child is more important than who they be with good luck.
593840
You should not go for anyone your bother has been with. You should be happy your brother found a girl who is likeable and is happy.  \n\nDo not tell her you like her. Family is more important than any girl.
642808
seems to be you belong to an arabic country in the middle east..\n\nanyway i dont advise you to ask the father before the girl... if she is your gf for long enough time -days even- ask her and if she replied to you you have to talk to my father then call him..\n\nabout age.. if you can take care about your self and have your own accomodations.. then go ahead regardless how old you are..
371952
i think it all depends on what you are like and who you are me personally... my parents and brothers dont know much compared to my best friends you know. i think depending on who you have a better relationship with. one of my ex' was super close to his mom so for him it would be his parents...
1157824
what a coincidence... the thing is that im the one moving and i really like this boy. he's from australia. he got here about two or three years ago. i know he knows that i like him cause his friend found it out from my best friend. it really stinks that i have to move. but my family is moving to california within 3 weeks. i want to found out if he likes me too. but he is such a quite boy!!! its annoying sometimes. i want to talk to him but i dont know wht to talk about. he likes to read about wars and stuff. another thing is that he is gonna be on vacation with his family for two weeks. then by the time that he is back, i only will have one more week left!! its driving me insane...i dont even think that we could keep in touch either cause of certain circumstances.\n\nif u want to know more,click on my name and email me.
5059
I think that ya'll should just meet somewhere where its crowded.Bring a friend along and tell him or her to do tha same!!DONT EVER SAY YOU CANT MEET YOUR SOUlMATE ONlINE!!I met my boyfreind of almost 8 mmonths online and we are soo in love and tha first time we met he brought his cousin wit him and I brought my best frien wit me and we met at tha airport(he lives in Cali. I live in texas!!)It was PERFECT!!We're still 2gether to this day and we're talkin about gettin married and havin children soon and movin in 2gether.My mom says she will halp us wit whatever we need!!So just go 4 it!!I mean you'll never know wut will happen if u dont try right?
666532
It should be up to you, not your family.  IF you like a girl, you should go ahead and ask her out, or if you are already dating, dont worry about your family.  IF they are really your family, they will understand, and except her for who she is.  Goodluck
64965
before starting any relarionship such as friendship ...ask the other person about his/her parents..if he/she cares for them ..go for the realtionship.and it's better to have friends those you  can trust rather then friends whom you like
798403
Im also from india and im muslim. First you must be sure that the girl likes you back and you must tell her. If your families are very strict about their religion it will be very hard wed and live a happy life with one another. If not, then let her meet your parents. They will grow to like her. You must tell your mom because will find out one way or another if you marry her. It's almost like all the indian movies where the couple elopes or something and they are always thinking about their parents.
872003
I think you should go with #1..he wants you to meet his family! Awesome...and it sounds as though you are going as a date. with #2 it sounds like friends hanging out with friends.
581696
i know the question is how do you ask the guy out.. but if i were you i would let him make the move.. if he can tell you like him and he likes you too then he will ask you out.. otherwise i wouldnt take the chance of losing him.. if he is close to your family then he must be a really great best friend.. those dont come around very often
1058119
Go to the BBQ and let your daughter meet her uncle and half siblings. You and your daughter are the invited guests and it doesn't matter why your ex won't be there although I wouldn't be a bit surprised if your ex's brother deliberately did not invite him to keep the peace with you. Give it a chance and you and the ex's family can agree to not disgree. No matter what has happened between you and the ex, your daughter is still a part of that family's flesh and blood.
1001323
Don't listen to that asshole... (creative)\n\nIf you two can respect each other's culture and religion then go for it. Each side of the family may not approve in the beginning but they'll have to come around sooner or later. And if not, it's your life and your happiness that you should be concerned about, no on else's. Good luck.