what do you do when a close friend of yours might be doing something witht he guy that you like?
827768
She obviously already dissed you.  What you already know is enough to come to that conclusion.  From now on, do not regard her as close of a friend as you had thought or hoped.  Try talking and hanging with some other people, than just this group.  Also, look around for some other young hotties to set your eyes and energy on.  Give this friendship some space.  If it is a truly a good friendship it will still be there.  But, don't ask.  Let it be.  Do your own thing for a little bit.  I would not ask her anything because she knows your feelings for him.  If she needs to share with you something in regards with them then that is her job to come to you. She needs to be responsible for getting that out on the table with you.  Just be like whatever. If she cares about you and is close as you say, she will know to say something to you.
192592
ask your friend about how much she likes him and tell her that you like each other and if she gets mad at you then she is not a true friend so after that ask him whitch one of you guys does he like more if he likes you then go with him if he likes her more then go what you thick is right
580535
Well I'd say ask him. But keep in mind that if he's not interested it may hurt your friendship. I had a friend that end up liking me and after he told me I felt so uncomfortable around him.  So your taking a chance but I think if you don't, you'll probably regret it forever. GOOD LUCK!!
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
790205
have a trusted friend,say hey you two would make a great couple,and see how he reacts?thats the only thing i can think of right now
517433
well. If it were me I would go with what i think is right. If I really like the guy I would first have a chat with my friend and see what she would think. If the guy likes u not her, then there is not much point in letting him go if ur friend isn't gonna beifit from it any! hope that helps!!!
721370
UNLESS you are the best friends ideal woman true love soul mate ETC you are quite screw, male frindships especialy best friends are way too close and sharing a woman is not unheard of , you might make then fight for a while but in then end they will be friends again , and you will end up loosing bouth of them plus you will become the bad one of the story \nSO if you you really really like they guy , brake up on friendly terms with your boyfriend and wait out a until your boyfriend finds someone else , then make your move , most likely the best friend will ask his Buddy if is ok with him (keep in mind that for him to do so he must really liked you  way past any phisical attraction , otherwise he wont bother do so ) \nNOW  if is phisical attraction just plain sex what you want , is easer to go for the 3 some , deal and make it think it was his idea, that might work , if all you want is to scrach an ich \nNOW commun sense would be no to do anything , most likely whatever you do you will be the one that ends up hurt and alone , and you dont need that , the choices above are just choices but it dosent mean they are the correct ones ,\nI understand how can someone end up liking someone close to their parther it happends all the time  but when you are considering acting on it , maybe and just maybe instead you should be wandering what is missing in your relationship , and see if you can work at it or move on , but dont get yourself into a mess
512679
If this guy is your freind and u think that you know him well, then you should know what his reaction is going to be so you should do what you think is best. Follow ur heart. I know that sounds cheeesy but it's good advice.
747860
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
628291
Okay well first you don't want to look like your breaking in-between them so take a step back and think about things. Don't use things against him that he has done wrong because that looks bad on you. Just sit her down and kind of ease into the question what if. This will give her the idea that you do kinda like her. Then step back and see what happens.If you want to go further just tell her that you lke her, write her a note, tell her that you want to be frineds, but if her and him do not work out that you will be there for her, that you like her in that way, but dont want to interfear with her current relationship.
1014593
Tell your friend how you really feel about him. Who knows? He might feel the same way. Any kind of relationship starts off as friends and it could develop into something more. It will also give you guys an opportunity to find out how you really feel about each other.
638302
Go for it.Your friend didnt want him.She is just jealous.Go have fun and tell your friend that you like the guy if she cant accept it tell to back off its your life.
367443
hey girl if your friend went out with this guy you shouldn't try to get with this guy but if you really like him you should talk to your friend about this little crush but before you do that you have to know how he feels about you and you also have to think about what you want her frinship or this guy cuz you probably can't have both!
818355
You need to explain to your friend that it is your understanding he might be interested in you.  Although you're flattered, and you love him very much as a friend, you simply don't feel that way about him.  Tell him you wanted to say something because you greatly value his friendship, and didn't want to do anything to mislead him.  Once things blow over with this situation, you should then be able to pursue a relationship with his buddy.  Your friend might be upset for awhile, but if you truly care about him you don't want to eventually hurt him more deeply.
87616
if u know the person ur friend likes, then u can play "aphrodite" and ask him what he thinks abt her. If he's not interested then it leave it alone, but if he says he likes her too, then hint to him that she likes him and suggest he makes a move.
192150
YOUR FRIEND MIGHT FEEL A LITLE WIERDED OUT, BUT EXPLAIN TO YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU STILL WANT THE FRIENDSHIP AND YOU RESPECT THE FRIENDSHIP. YES YOU MAY LIKE THIS PERSON BUT YOUR FREINDSHIP MEANS MORE TO YOU
1075254
If you're attracted to someone, even if that person is in love with you're friend, you just can't help it! What I think you need to do is see what happens between your friend and the person that you love. If they hit it off, then you should be glad for them, because him being happy should make you happy. However though, before your friend talks to that guy, make sure to tell her that you like him. If she doesn't like him, maybe she can talk to him about you and maybe get you two together!