Please help me, should I be worried or am I just overreacting?
832116
I would talk to him. You are not just being selfish and while it all starts out innocent and may stay that way it is obviously affecting your relationship. Why does he put himself in potentially dangerous situations that could eventually ruin what you two have??? Ask him. Tell him how you feel.\nGood luck!!!
741821
First, did he tell you he went? If so and youre still upset, then you might wanna explore WHY this bothers you so much. He came home to you, right? If it's something he enjoys, why not let him go? Either way, have a talk with him and let him know your feelings.\n\nIf he didnt tell you he was going (or went - sometimes this stuff happens on a whim), then I feel you on feeling disrespected since it would appear he was doing something shady.\n\nAt any rate, Id have a talk with him...non-accusatory, respectful, etc...dont get him defensive because youll get nowhere...\n\nGood luck :-)
909356
Since you haven't gotten better, I would go back to the doc and possibly get a second opinion.  Go with your gut.  You truly feel something is wrong, it's gotten worse, and it is worrying you.  I assume your "they did seem to be worried" is a typo and you meant "didn't?"  Either way, if you are not comfortable going back to the doctor, maybe go to the ER.  A serious or unrelenting headache is something that needs further attention.  Good luck.  I hope it turns out to be a big nothing.
142876
I think you're right, it's all about him and that's not fair to you.  Not sure what to think about him having an anxiety attack while on the phone with you, sounds kinda weak and shows that he's not very capable of coping.  Go get you someone with a spine.  Don't beat yourself up too much either, it sucks and it's all screwed up, but sometimes ya gotta do what ya gotta do.  So, hope for the best but prepare for the worst.  Good luck.
214870
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
1056571
I would bet that something else is bothering him, and you triggered an emotion.  It doesn't mean that there is any deep seated issue, and it doesn't mean there isn't.  In situations like that, I ignore the instance and bring it up later in a neutral and non condemning manner.  Then I see how the individual reacts once removed from the situation emotionally.
553584
He probably confides in you because you are the only person he feels comfortable enough to do so with. He trusts you. I understand though, that he is bringing you down, causing you excess worry. Like you mentioned, he needs to speak with someone professional. There's nothing wrong with doing so. It sounds like he may have depression which will affect ones self-esteem. If you really do care for your friend help direct him to get some help. Let him know that he worries you and that mentally, you can't take the emotional blackmail anymore. Let him know though, that you do care about him and want to see him get some help to make himself feel better. You'd be the greatest friend ever to see him through this if at all possible and help him to get a "fresh" start again. Be upfront, honest and considerate with him...hopefully he will take your advice and get himself to feeling much better soon. Good luck to you!!
115888
It is such a weird stinking night, I think you should let it go.  Talk to him in an hour and forget it happened.  Why chance a blow up?  There is something in the air tonight, and I wouldn't take a chance.  Deal with it tomorrow.
963458
I totally understand that you're concerned, and I think you're really brave to be honest enough to share your story.  but you have nothing to worry about.  just to make sure, I checked with a friend who is a registered nurse and she said exactly what I was thinking, nothing to worry about !  you're just fine !\nBest Wishes .
130844
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
1159748
LOL!! That was a beautiful way to handle that situation!! <bowing humbly>  There is nothing wrong with what you asked him and if he's never talked to you like this before, I would be a little suspicious.  Why is he so defensive?  It was an innocent question, nothing clingy about it.  Something doesn't sit right with this...I could be wrong...but it sounds like he's trying to hide something.
908860
I have an anxiety disorder and I worry about pretty much everything. But if you're worry about going crazy you probably aren't crazy. Just relax! Maybe you're anxious like me, but try and talk to someone about your feelings. I dont really know whats going on with you but take care of yourself.
311070
Good decision. I'm glad to hear that you are getting this resolved. The stress you are going through over this,is not good for you. Try to relax and go for a walk or get involved in something fun until your appt.
964625
u should b worried...badly
236181
i think that he may have possibly overreacted. however, if you only waited like 5 minutes, you're probably not giving him enough space. if you waited a few hours though, there may have been something more. talk to him about it and let him know how you felt when he said that to you. also. listen to him and geta reason for why he said that. a realtionship is about listening and being able to talk to your dating partner about everything andbeing able to compromise when you make a mistake.
959842
U r not over reacting, I know it because I hv the same problem. U r just scared to get hurt ur feelings since u had a bad experience in the past. But u shouldnt think everybody is like that. U dont hv to ignore everybody. Just be carefull as u said, its not a bad thing. U might feel u need a relationship so bad but dont be hurry just wait till the right moment and the right time, u will meet the best person for u who will take care of u and watch after u. A kind hearted person will be calling u very soon. Good luck.
429443
That depends on how long you have been seeing this person. Most people only "freak out" when they feel like someone close to them has either been hiding something, or else outright lying about something. In any case, the best move is to be up front about it. The more time that passes that you withold this information, the less likely he is to respond to it in a calm and rational manner - and thus the less likely your relationship will survive.