Bad news for best friend.?
820857
wow you have a problem.  You are going to lose somebody.  If  you talk to your best freind,  Your sister is in big trouble and I'm sure you will be held responsible.  After all, she's not responsible enough to control her own life, its very likely she'll blame you.  If you say nothing and your Best friend finds out you knew,  you lost the Best friend.  I'd say you have to talk to the Best friend and let her know whats up.  She deserves to know so she doesn't make a decision that she will have to live with.
341975
Well, what I do when my friends do this to me, I let them know it. My ULTIMATE best friend in the world has done this to me, many times. Basically, all I do is tell her that I'm kind of upset how we seem like we are drifting apart, then I comfort her by saying that if something is bugging her she can tell me. You have to be the one  to do something, she won't realize that she is hurting you. I wish you the best of luck.
1163025
Whatever you do you should handle it calmly and spare his feelings. Because right now like you said he hasn't gone too far but yes if you fear it will go beyond what you want it to be then is best to resolve it quickly. handle this face to face and be strong about it. Tell him that you feel that your friendship with him seems a little too personal and it makes you feel bad and you do not want to feel bad at all. That you cherish the friendship but it will never be anything but a friendship. If he can not understand or accept it then I suggest you end it completely.
777250
Your friend is ill, she needs professional help and hopefully her Mom will help her get it.  You are being a good friend to her, stay that way and help her throught the next months which are going to be difficult for her.  I wish her well...;
508103
You and she are in my prayers.  I had a really awesome best friend who went into a diabetic coma in her sleep (she was type I DM) a few years ago and never came to.  I know the feelings you are experiencing and only God can comfort those who suffer because He truly knows their hearts and what is going on.  I pray you are able to find comfort =)
90337
depending on how deep the friendship is or how big the secret is, i would give it time. I have been friends with this girl for 11 years. And we have been through a lot, secrets told, promises broken all the drama you could ever think of. But in the end it made us stronger. cant say that always works. if this friend is all together a negative person and you feel brought down by her [or him] ditch em and find a new best friend! but if this is something different and not your friend.. find out what is going on in that girls head!
1023243
Dealing with a depressed friend is never easy.  I know all about it.  My best friend in the whole world has suffered with deep depression since her car accident last August.  It is difficult sometimes to find the right words to say to her.  I keep telling her to look at her positives and don't focus so much on her negatives, perhaps this will help your friend.  \n\nYou may want to approach him to do some investigative work to pinpoint for his ownself what person(s) or thing(s) make him feel depressed about.  Then after he does this, ask him if there is anything he could change to correct the problems.  If he says "no there isn't" then ask him to make a list of all of his good points and acknowledge all his accomplishments in life.  See if you can focus on the good and positive things in his life as opposed to his negative things.\n\nAlways encourage your friend as best as you can.  Be willing to listen to him and be as positive as you can not only with him but with yourself.\n\nLet him know that you care very deeply for him and let him know that you will support him with all of his decisions.\n\nEvery once in awhile, mention to him about therapy and seeing a doctor about his depression.  Medications and therapy go hand in hand.\n\nGood luck to you and your friend!  I hope he feels better soon!
975713
It is better that she knows now what he is really like.  If he really did love her he would have never cheated on her.  The only thing I know that you can do for sure is to offer moral support, and try to keep her mind off of what just went down.  But be sure you don't get in the middle of things.  I know that you don't want her to get her feelings hurt but I am telling you that if you get too involved in this situation you will live to regret it.  You might even get blamed for some of the things that happened even though you didn't have anything to do with it.  I know from personal experience from my best friend and then I said some bad things about someone who is now his wife.  A really has created a real burden and hardship on our friendship and we have been friends for a long long time.  So just give her all the support that you can and try just to listen to her but if she asked for some advice be really careful on what you might say because it might backfire.
548116
How about asking your best friend to play with you and your new friends, so she may be able to make new friends too.  Don't turn your back on your friend, you may need her some day.  I have been best friends with mine for over 12 years now, and she is the greatest friend I have ever had, she is more like my sister than a friend, and I wouldn't trade her for the world.
94394
Absolutely don't worry about it. If people do say that to you then just laugh it off. It's good that you have a best friend you feel close to, a lot of people won't understand/be lucky enough to have that.
652659
If she was indeed your best friend, be straight forward and ask her why the sudden change in attitude?  If she says she is extending her network of friends, then let her be.  Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder so when there has been enough time that has passed, she will (hopefully) realize you're not there and actually MISS you enough to CALL YOU!  Hope you all patch things up... make sure there wasn't a lack of communication or miscommunication.
411998
That's really "iffy." You have no clue what's going on in their life right now and the reason could be anything! So try to be the best friend you can back. But don't be a door mat. This has to be balanced. If it's the worse possible case scenario and they were BSing the entire time and they really weren't your friend, then don't hng out with them anymore and look for other better people to be friends with. There are more fish in the sea than just this one person. What really matters in the end is how you handle things if you did stuff right. That makes you a much stronger person than said "friend."
926937
Listen sweetie, no matter how much you may trust a person that is your best friend something will go down that may cause them to stab you in the back. I don't know if it is supposed to happen or what but all I got to say is keep your guard up. Just don't trust everyone or anyone with your most deepest secrets, feelings, or thoughts.
185078
I know you already feel awful about the situation so i won't tell you how wrong you are.  Too late now anyway.  Personally, I wouldn't tell her.  She is definitely gonna be mad as heck and the friendship is gonna be over.  If you don't care about that-then tell her.  If you do care ask God to forgive you, keep your mouth shut and NEVER DO IT AGAIN!
680157
I've had the same thing happen to me and it sucks. My two best friends ever had to leave but that didn't stop our friendship. I e-mail them almost everyday and I talk to them on the phone. I haven't seen them in a long time but that never stopped our friendship. My friends moved different countries. You're lucky at least your friend is in the same country and if you want to visit you should make a plan. Things will be different but something that NEVER changes is friendship. Trust me it'll be ok.
291015
four years ago my best friend was diagnosed with cancer. she needed a kidney transplant and i offered to giver her one of my kidneys but unfortunatly i was unable to do that because when she went to the doctor for a check up and see how fast the cancer was growing they had found out that the cancer had spread through out her whole body and she passed away a few weeks later. it broke my heart that i was never able to try and save her life. i think that is the nicest thing i could have offered her.
772300
it's sad to know that the spread has already begun to the rectum....i just lost a friend to this malignancy....am really sorry to say this....but HOPE your friend will be able to fight it out. let her go in for the next operation/surgery. If you feel Her condition is deteriorating and is definitely not gonna make it....All you shud do instead of agonising her with more Chemo & Radio (consult her doc and ask for percentage of survival) is to try and improve her quality of life. Try to engage her mind into stuff she always wanted to do.. as in Singing, Painting, Music etc. Keep her surrounded by cheerful people always so that she does not sink into depression.. Sometimes this gives a boost to her immunity and she may be able to fight longer. Give her the best that you could before she leaves......SORRY BUDDY.....BUT ALL THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR FRIEND.