why there is always opposite sex attraction in life (except gay case)?
821603
The only other option is same sex attraction...which makes one gay or bi. There are examples of same sex attraction in the animal kingdom as well.
1106561
There's nothing wrong with liking both genders. Recent scientific studies have shown people are born with predispositions towards being straight, bisexual or homosexual. Its important for you to explore these feelings. Dont attempt to hide them inside, or lay lies on top to make it go away. A few years ago there was a study done in England's mental wards and they found a significant portion of patients had had bisexual tendencies that were suppressed. Dont do that to yourself.
353880
i think just as the first person, that we as homosexuals are attracted to the same sex as heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex.\n\nhave heterosexuals chosen their lifestyle or are they born that way?  most will say that they are born that way.  as a straight man is inherently attracted to women. they probably can find another man good looking, but does not go further with any action of sex with him. Why? because he is not Sexually attracted to him.  \n\nSame as a gay man, we can find a women absolutely gorgeous but does not want to have sex with her. \n\nWe as humans can recognize beauty that can surround us (as with other people) but to be sexually turned on is something that is a biological feature within us. Any person can physically have sex with anyone we choose. for example,  a straight man can physically have sex with another man but is he gay? or a gay man can physically have sex with a women is he straight? I think that sexuality is a very deep subject that has a ton of variables that can not be simply categorized in to it is this because of that.\n\nhistory has shown that homosexuality has been around for as long as sex has been around.  knowing this i have come to the conclusion that homosexuality is a biologic thing.
1119073
Well, yes... Um... I am gay so...\n\nI don't believe I was born anything, hell, I don't believe any of us are born straight or gay. When you are first born you aren't attracted to men or women, something happens along the way that may cause attraction to either sex. It is not a person's choice to be gay or straight, something during your life may have caused you to go either way.\n\nI myself had sexual encounters with both men and women, from an early age. So, in that I discovered that being attracted to a guy wasn't all bad. I mean, there was nothing wrong with it because a man is a person. Just as much as a woman, a man could physically and emotionally effect me in such a way that attracted me to them. As time moved on, girls started to bore me... For some reason or other. I've never had a boyfriend or anything but I've had many girlfriends, in which I never felt that drive to have sex with them. So... my... relationships didn't last.\n\nSo... well... I believe it is neither.\n\nYou aren't born gay and it isn't a choice. Something just happens along the way, not something bad really... Some people are just more open to different ideas, these people who are open risk becoming gay or considered "odd" ... They can't help but move against the norm, for they are not normal. And there is nothing wrong with that in the least.
734234
When one is attracted to ones own gender.
566007
THIS IS WHY RELIGION IS EVIL!!! THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HOMOSEXUAL FEELINGS AND ATTRACTIONS, PEOPLE IN GENERAL ARE BEAUTIFUL, IT IS OK TO BE ATTRACTED TO ANOTHER MAN OR WOMEN, THE IMPORTANT THING IS THAT YOU ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE, YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY UNTIL YOU DO!\n\nbut anyway get a sex change, then you don't have to worry about "the sin of a man being attracted to another man" then you'll be a women with and Adam's apple, large hands, and a deep voice that's attracted to men...\n\nBut in all honest i doubt your god cares if you're gay, he made you that way didn't he?
991773
homosexuality is really an expression of authority on part of one male and submission on the other,it is really strictly a male nonsexual behaviour inspite of what everybody wants others to believe.thats why women are hypnotized into believing they could possibly also have same sex attraction when obviously all sex with women is about men and family  and social life.its a fag conspiracy internationally,\nproof\nwhy would gay fags want to be married? what on earth could make 2 men who already practice their deviance in peace ,what would make them want to commit that ultimatwe parody of everything ultimately sacred ,of the building unit of society?what difference is it for them to be called husband and husband?\nit doesnt make any sense,it indicates that it is a subversive movment fed by the appetites of millions of perverts.
428500
Yeah, well culture and society doesnt allow THAT avenue of exploration, and most guys are told that they HAVE to like girls. Everything, almost, on movies, television, sports, books, and bar chats tell him that he is EXPECTED to want women. Later on, when he has time or space enough or open mindedness to really see what he is about without the expectations forcing him into a mold, he might discover that hes not really attracted to women. It takes being able to step out of the role that he has built his very life around. They may have honesty never even thought about it and it was only after living with a woman for a while that they realized they felt no sexual attraction towards her. I heard that the most violent homophobes are often themselves sexually frustrated and have gay feelings that they cannot accept about themselves so they turn their rage against gays who are happy with who they are. In the red heat of their anger they dont rationalize their feelings and figure out why they are mad.
701919
Normal is not. Normal is generally what is accepted and being done by the masses.\n\nBut in regards to LGBT, normal and natural are two different things. \n\nHeterosexuality is the natural order of things. Man and woman have a baby girl, and that baby grows up and has a baby with a man - who also came from another man and woman - and they have a baby boy.....and the cycle continues.\n\nThe ultimate use of sex is procreation. It is one of the key parts of survival - keeping the species alive and going. Attraction is something that leads to sex. If a man is attracted to another man, then there is something wrong.\n\nDon't get me wrong, I'm not saying that there is anything morally wrong with homosexuality, what I'm saying is that it is not what nature intends.\n\nI personally believe it is caused naturally, by hormones and such, i mean, it would have to be wouldn't it? Attraction is natural, and doesn't tend to happen until after sexual development (puberty) which is a hormonal and physical thing. \n\nI can't help being attracted to certain people, and certain attributes they have, and neither can anybody else. I didn't choose to be attracted to women, and by the same token, i didn't chose to not be attracted to men. It is just the way I developed.\n\nHope this was helpful.
292041
Because you are attracted to men!
1143320
"Only" is a loaded and inaccurate view of the entire community.  Certainly many men will spend time with people they have something in common with, but that doesn't mean there isn't someone "beary" who isn't looking for someone like you.  \n\nHave you tried expressing interest in a bear or gone to a place with mostly bears?  That will show your interest.  In my experience there are as many couples who are physical opposites as there are "twins."  \n\nI  also know a gay couple who are very much opposites who have been together over 40 years.  I would say that they are not opposites emotionally, as they are both gentle people, but with enough things in common that an interest developed and they have developed a wonderful life together. \n\nDon't force it and I'm sure you don't think everyone should be attracted to you... let it happen.
270667
First off, I don't want to argue with any one on this subject. I am just stating a long researched out project that has been completed recently. Man and women where not designed to attract one another for simple friendships. Usually,  if someone says they have the opposite sex as a friend, then one of several things has already occurred. They have either already crossed the sex line and decided that they were not meant to be together. Another reason being, one or both is gay, or the man and woman are living  clear across the country and never see one another. Or\nmaybe the man is castrated.  OK, .... I will say, there are those 'few'  exceptions, but not enough for me to allow my husband to be friends with another woman, and he says the same. Examples are always good, so how about, although fictional, but still an example, set com, "Sinfield"...Elaine and Jerry or The "Drew Carey" show. Regardless its just human nature for boys and girls, ending up facing sexual tension between the two.
319284
i have often wondered that myself.  I have tlked to many gays & bi's and have not got an answer from them either.  it is like why does a gool looking girl like and ugly guy and vice versa
1169099
Opposites attract because it's new and exciting for both sides.  The idea of having something or some life that you've never experienced before.\n\nYes, they attract, but rarely do they work for long engagements. You have to have SOMETHING in common! :)\nOtherwise you'll eventually be stuck thinking that the other is weird for being so opposite everything you think is right and it's frusterating. \n\nI think the real moral to the story is to find someone that is not who you would normally go for. Try something outside of the box and see if they make you feel better or worse than the "normal" girls you've seen. Sometimes a good change can help you a lot.
427913
I agree with you to an extent. I think as a society there is too much emphasis on labeling and marginalizing people. Everyone's different though. I'm sure plenty of people are specifically attracted to one gender and not the other, while some people could potentially be attracted to/fall in love with someone of the same or opposite sex. I think people should accept love wherever and however they find it.
76749
How can anyone possibly choose to be attracted to a particular sex?  Ask any Straight person if they can just hop into the sack with the same sex and the answer is going to be NO!  \n\nForced to do it?  Sure!  Most Gay children are forced to believe they are wrong from day one!  They grow up in a Straight home, in a Straight neighborhood, go to a Straight oriented school and live in a Straight oriented society........\n\nNOW COMES THE CHOICE...."Does this person live a life of lies and force their self to supress their feelings of the same sex?  Or do they make that bold decision to face all the odds and do what comes natural to them?\n\nThe problems Gay people face is the constant bombardment of how to define a "Normal Society", ignorance, and fear in people who are in denial of their own sexuality. \n\nIt's much easier to follow a flow geared towards a more larger crowd than to understand those in smaller numbers and who happen to be "different" from their selves.\n\nAlso, most laws are set in motion to safely guard Straight people. Very few are there to guard Gay people. So, with so few laws, ignorance and improper guidance, societies spawn with improper or corrupt leadership in favor of the larger. This, of course, creates a disastrous situation by leaving those in lesser numbers an easy target to bully. Thus hate, prejudice and fear flourish.\n\nDon't let anyone dictate to you on how to live.  If you supress your feelings and decide to "go with the flow" you are only going to live the life that others want you to live which will only lead to depression and the loss of your true self.  Be the beautiful person you are inside...just.....BE YOU!\n\nHere are some helpful websites that you can explore....I hope they will be helpful to you.  \n\nI also want to point out that I did not get my answer from any website.....it was pure common sense.\n\nI wish you luck and success...\n\n:)\nPeace!
223418
Please compose questions properly! \n\nI imagine you  mean is why men like women. If that's the case, it's a law of nature that opposite sexes attract each other. Originally, this was meant only for reproduction, now, it's for pleasure, love and reproduction, in that order. \n\nThat's just the way things are.