how can i get her out of my mind?
827825
It just takes time.  Keep yourself busy.
505672
Dude, hang in there. Women have a habit of changing their minds about once a week. So stay as charming and bright as possible with her, just joke around with her and be her friend, and dont pressure her or ask her if she likes you. Trust me, just cause she told your friend this does not mean too much, go with the flow.
997444
If you cannot even talk to her, and you think she's the girl of your dreams, you have very few options.\n\nBest bet, somewhere safe, where she can escape easily, ask for a 15 minute coffee date sorta thing.  Then you seem "normal" and "harmless", working on the story/stalking thing simultaneously.  If at work, just bring her coffee, figure out what she drinks... get that with frothed milk (consider lactose intolerance...) on top.  Then try and talk to her while she struggles with a hot foamy beverage.... put's them off gaurd, I use this all the time.\n\nAbsolutely NO gushing poems, singing on the balcony crap... save that for once you actually KNOW, mess it up, and need her back.
1150948
Tell her you actually have a crush on her.\nThat might shut her up.
724989
Just forget. Shut your mind off to them and get on with life.
71592
she is not a friend of course \nlet her fastly, remove her from your liste
79895
you can't stop thinking at her but you must do something else. follow my advice and will be pas this\nproblem. trying to find somebody else.Trying to consolate with idea :it's something human will be pass or " the man it's a man"or "follow the heart" or "pls :keep going ma man /it's my word in my contry/"(noroc)!
554351
You will *not* be able to get rid of the thoughts and memories of the other woman. Accept that they are there and that is nothing you can do about it. Don't beat yourself up about it. What you do have a choice about, however, is acting out on those thoughts.\n\nWhen the thoughts do come into your mind, stop and ask yourself what benefits having those thoughts will bring to you. The answer is none - a big zero.\n\nIn time, with prayer and focusing on your current woman (i.e., your wife), the thoughts will slowly recede. But they may never completely disappear, so don't expect them to.\n\nOh, and do NOT share this with your wife - do not make your burden her burden as well. However, you can share it with a trusted friend or advisor.
1117363
Keep caring ... dont stop caring....\nBefore going to see her. \nBuild yourself up emotionally, it will be easier to be around her...\nonce you leave...do the same thing...\nPlan your visits between two positive things.\n\nBut really, honestly, dont stop caring.\nJust be there! Thats it! Be there!
746727
Find someone else to think about.\n\nSeriously it's the only way.
887974
I think that you should ask her what is wrong first to see if she will open up to you.Then if she doesn't then ask her if you can take her out sometime to get her mind off of whatever is bothering her. But DON'T avoid and ignore her. You never know she might be feeling the same feelings towards you!
446909
how close are you guys? sit her down were you two are most comfortable and just speak your mind, or if you arent one to speak your mind find a way to show her and get her to think that way for you, kinda like minipulation but for a good cause. if she feels the same way you can kinda tell alot of times, be confident and just tell her, womenX i have been feeling this way for a long time, Or my style---there was a secret i have been hiding from you for a long time, and it kinda scares me *build up the suspense*...i have never mett anyone like you, or something.....bla bla bla u get the picture, Dont be afraid of rejection, it either works out or it doesnt bro.
230757
best and quickest way is to force yourself to think of someone else ....in other words, get busy with someone else...
107275
Approach, from her back!! She can't get away from you that way. And like I said in the other ques. similar to this one.
577947
if u don't start to do other thing to get your mind off of him. then u will drive yourself crazy with it. not health. try to get him space. u will fell better.
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
704859
Shhh!\nMaybe her chill is what attracts you to her ???  If she overwhelmed you with attention, wouldn't you get sick of that?  I guess you have to ask yourself, if the love she gives makes you feel complete.  If it doesn't get out.  If it does, then learn to live with her less intense personality.\n\nHope it works out for you...