Is your BF/GF/spouse the one you REALLY want to be with, or did you "settle" for them?
817913
I love my gf and PG future spouse more than anything and I am with her because I love her, not because I have to be with her! Actually I'm at work and talking to her on the phone now! :)
991872
Nope not this chickie lol.. I am already attached and happily married!\nYou should be asking this on the singles and dating part ..... I wish you the best in finding that special someone to spend your life with as long as  you are not already married.
188086
Depends on your relationship.\n\nIf you are not ready for a long term serious relationship, then sure.\n\nIf you are ready to settle down, then no.
861623
So what you are saying is that you are "settling" because that's easier than being alone. My,  how flattering to the guy you are settling for...wouldn't you just love to find out your partner wasn't head over heels crazy about you, but thought "you'll do"? Doesn't that just make you all tingly and happy inside? *rolls eyes*\n\nWhat you are doing is sad...sad for you (you are depriving yourself of the opportunity to meet someone who you'll be crazy about and have the stability, just because you want to be hooked up right now)...sad for him because he probably thinks you really dig him and he won't have the opportunity to meet someone who would REALLY be crazy about him, not just like him because he can offer stability.\n\nTreat others as you would like to be treated...if you wouldn't want to be settled for...don't settle for someone else...
590607
Enjoys the one who wanted this relationship more\nthan the other :)
167010
I did.  I just told my then boyfriend that I really loved him and I was sure that I would be happy with him for the rest of my life although we were really young (I was 18 and he was 17  ; )  ).  I told him we didnt have to if he didnt feel ready, but that I didn't know a reason not too.  We've been married for 2 1/2 years so far and were still best friends and we never ever fight.  You have to be really sure though.  This works for us cause we arent really into parties and even though guys would ask me out I didnt feel comfortable going out with one guy one day and another the next.  I just wanted one best friend and lover.  I know my husband feels the same way too.  By the way no I was not "knocked up" and no I dont have children yet.  We just got married cause we're in love.
403215
I love my boyfriend and I feel happy to have someone to share my love and my life with.  I look forward to our life together and though I know we may have adjustments, I feel that with the kind of person that he is, I know that we will be able to work out our forthcoming marriage and it will be one journey that will enhance our lives.  To put it simply - happy!  :)
312625
To be honest with you....at the end of the experience if both people feel great and comfortable with each other still...then want to go on and enjoy each other even more...I say that's when you both are satisfied...
674707
That is such a personal thing.  I don't know that there is any one right time frame for that.  I knew 6 months into my relationship that I was going to get married, but I know some relationships that last for years and years and the couple is't ready to commit.  This is really something to decide for yourself.
224983
I've gone out with 5 guys all together and the fifth is my soul mate.  With the other four, I rushed into the relationship because I felt no one cared about me.  I didn't want to be left out so when they showed any interest I was hooked.  When I met my current boyfriend, I decided I would take things slow and be very cautious.  We've been together for two years.  We've been through A LOT of trying times and are still as much in love as the day we met.
717616
I believe there are many people with whom you could make a "true love" relationship with.  The key is both partners makeing the effort toward a loveing relationship, and a commitment to the other person,
550664
It's a 50/50 situation. Sometimes I make decisions, sometimes my boyfriend and soulmate Tony does. But we always help each other when we're in the process. We talk things over and come to a conclusion. Otherwise, we will always think about each other and the consequences and such before making a decision if the other isn't there to discuss the decision with. We love each other so we compromise or come to a conclusion.
942389
I'm in the process of finding the same thing with my guy. I honestly dont know but I'll be looking out for answers. Plus to those who always reply with 'ask her/him' thats not always as simple as it sounds.
1062197
yes i do.  I found mine.  He keeps me grounded and is a partner in every sense of the word.  Yours is out there and will probably come around when you least expect it.
485359
No, I wouldn't want to stay married because I feel trapped in marriage. I felt like I just, "settled" with my husband out of fear of being alone. I think he did the same, but is too proud to admit it. We aren't each others soul mate because we have NOTHING in common and do not have the same expectations in life. We simply got comfortable with each other and left it that way.
267077
yes !\nyou vowed to love and be with only your wife !\nhow could this not be a form of cheating in a way ?
1073666
you need to find the right guy that loves you I love my g/f so much and just want to be with her.