Why do men under 30 have hard quick sex?
815331
This one's easy to answer! The fact is that a man in his 20s is in his sexual peak (the only one he gets!) so he is filled with sexual energy and tends to seek more personal gratification than mutual enjoyment...hence the long-lasting electrified sex. When men mature further, the sexual edge begins to soften, and they become a more sensitive lover, which often has the side effect of reduced libido and less energy for the physical act of sexual intercourse. Combining the two? Only one way to do that, and that's to be with an Aries! :)\n\n(if you can handle them, that is...individual mileage may vary, results typical but not absolute)
138182
the sex drive in both men and women is regulated by testostrone (yes, the male horomone). so of course men have more of this horomone on average. another factor is societial rules- men are allowed to be horny all he time, and if a women expresses her sexual needs as often as men do, she is labeled a sl#t. also there are many men with sex drives lower than there spouses, and are often prescibed testostrone. also it depends on age; a man hits his sexual prime at 18 yrs. and women is at her sexual prime at 32yrs old. so while you are young now and feel more horny than your gf, when you are in your late 30's it may as well be the other way around.
559537
He just thinks he can have some quick and easy sex...I wouldn't let him use you like that!
574275
Your brain is sending a signal of arousal to your penis.  Blood is then rushed to that area, making it hard.  It just means that you are healthy.  In the long run, you may be less susceptible to prostate cancer, impotence (erectile dysfunction).
1102551
There may be a medical problem and it's always best to see the doctor as early as possible.  But in general, as men age it takes them longer to ejaculate and they don't recover as quickly.\n\nTo shorten the process, you might want to try finishing him with a hand job.  Use a lubricant and he shouldn't complain.
277469
There's a number of variables to consider...Age and physical fitness, stress on the job, in the home or health related issues. In general, posters claiming that they want it as often as possible are generally correct. But what's 'possible' will vary from man to man. Most men can attain an erection and sustain sex to orgasm once daily at least through their 40's. But sex is as much about the mind as it is the body, and sometimes familiarity can breed contempt, as the saying goes.\n\nMen's hormonal levels drop over the years as well...just as womens hormones change over time. These drops first occur in the mid 20's, and slowly continue over the next several decades. This can also (negatively) affect sex drive. Certain health conditions can affect performance ability, especially some vascular conditions and spinal surgery or injury; which would affect either the ability to get and maintain an erection from a blood standpoint, or the same ability from a nerve or 'feeling' standpoint.\n\nHow often should a healthy man who loves you and finds you exciting and alluring want to have sex with you? The answer remains as often as possible!\n\nIf you've been in a steady physical relationship for a year or more, and your partner is over 30 years old, don't be surprised to see sex slipping to 2-3 times a week. In the 40's and 50's, it's relatively normal for sex to go down to 1-2 times per week. And an occasional bout of absitnence is not unusual, particularly if there's some stress outside the bedroom that's affecting his mind. Remember, there's almost as much going on with the mind as with the body where sex is concerned!\n\nHope this helps a bit!
673283
Guys tend to have these hormones called tertosterone. It makes them very horny.  They cannot help themselves.   This is the way man are made. That is why they think about sex all the time.  It is our job as women to tame them like the dogs there really are. Tame him!
233004
i have the same problem and i posted here about it.  they said that it comes with age and some are real shooters and some are not.  but i would definitely like to go back how it used to be.\n\nduring sex, im quite sure that sometimes i ejaculated with a much faster velocity since i can feel it.  few months ago, i was out of town and i have to do it alone, i was so aroused that it shot like it used to.  so i guess, other than age, level of arousal also plays a part.
1072480
Apparently, according to a sex documentary on a month back, men just happen to have alot of sex when they are young, unattached, without girlfriend and unmarried.   Women, we become more comfortable and familiar with our bodies as we grow older.  The older we get, the more exploration and grounds we discover.  That is when we feel more sexy and are able to relax more.  For the guys its when they are younger.
820740
This is so true coz my bf wanted to have sex with  me and he was 21 and i am 19, he cheated on me for some other girl who was 29 just coz she wud have sex with him..\nwell, i guess guys who r young want sex, but u shudnt get under the pressure like.. i didnt do sex with my bf coz its stupid to have sex before marriage ( acoording to me) and to have sex with some1 who doesnt love u!
426970
because guys don't have it,\n\nand they are horny.
695920
This happens cause hormone levels are highest in early AM - the perfect time for the guys to lean over and take that morning wood and make love to their girlfriends with it.  What a way to start each day !!!!\n\nduring the night - guys get hard-ons cause their body is programmed to send blood into the penis - to give it oxygen so the tissues will not atrophy.  these night erections are not due to dreams of sex,  arousal or anything voluntary.   It is programmed by God to send oxygen-rich blood to vitalize those tissues.
572995
It's when a guy is shorter than most men his age.  They feel they have to overcompensate for their shortness by being overly aggressive and do all kinds of macho stuff to prove they are a man.  They buy big trucks and have to have a lot of toys.
1140851
Lack of control--it is not a common condition esp younger men and should be looked into by a family doctor. Could also be that the man is only concerned with himself( not true premature ejaculation) and not bothering to wait if woman or partner being satisfied.  Although some men may balk at seeing a doctor concerning this for feel embarrassed to admit this problem necessary to rule out it being related to a physical ailment that can easily be remedied but if my man had this problem my understanding would be limited and I'd insist he seek help for there is definite real help for this condition for not a permanent condition or else... .
500728
you probably have a lot of pressure built up-both sexually [which would make him finish faster], and emotional.  perhaps a bit of 'performance anxiety'.  the more you make a point of noticing it and wondering how to fix it, the worse it will get for him..and in turn, for you. try to slow things down, the pace, the strength you put in [or he], and try not to be in positions where he'd finish sooner coz the sensation is heightened [like doggy]. good luck
570588
because they're immature and horny and not very smart and lazy and they wanna be like peter pan and never grow up.\nand i hope all men don't hate me for answering like this, because not ALL men are like that, but a bunch are.
101329
This is common with men who do not have much sexual experience.  Just do it with him more often and he will have more stamina to hold it and engage in pleasure more before the actual release.