I'm Bi Sexual but my HUsband is worried, what do i do?
819037
You are taking your affections outside of your marriage and that is cheating.\nHe was trying to be understanding with the first escapade but now it is becoming serious and you need to listen to him or your marriage will fall apart.  \nIf you abslolutely cannot control your need to be with a woman, you will have to stop telling him about it......
1113437
All it means is that you have a rich fantasy life.  Could there be a chance that you're bisexual and didn't know it?  I suppose, but it's unlikely -- I don't speak from experience, but I would be willing to bet that true lesbians and bisexuals would have experienced some level of attraction to the same sex at some point before they got married.  That you're only experiencing it now is just natural curiosity.  I seriously doubt your husband would hate you for having this fantasy, though he may not understand it completely.  It really depends on him; guys are funny that way.  Even guys who are the most vocal in their disgust over gay men will usually allow lesbians in their world, if only in the vain hope that they might join in at some point.  I'd mention to him casually that you had a funny dream where you were making out with a woman, and see how he reacts; I'm willing to bet good money he'll raise an eyebrow and say, "Reeealllly???  Um... what happened next?"
341034
Firstly, why did you get married and you're bi? i mean you're not sure of sex you like more, i find that's its wrong more wrong than being homosexual just because its unfair to your wife and to "your best friend" choose one or none. Does your wife know you're bi-sexual? You need to be honest with yourself-as to what u like,if you don't know or can't choose then you need to be honest with your wife now before its too late... I've seen thing like this destroy families and i affects the children. Make your decision before it's too late.
926529
it's not what YOU should do... it's what your DAD should do.. if he really loved u he will accept that ur bi. so its best to put up a brave front and not be scared
87815
I believe you should try to talk to your husband upfront and explain your worries. Men think differently than women in most things and he might just not notice that he's actually hurting you with they way he's been acting.\nIf he really loves you he'll rectify the situation, or at least try to make compromises if the problem is that some situation has changed for him. He might even open up and explain what has been going on with him and why he's acting that way. Everything is possible!\nThe thing is... communication is the key. What's behind the door is a whole different topic.
1116166
I'm not sure what you have to cope with; if he's bisexual, then he is.  You shouldn't treat him any differently than if he were heterosexual or homosexual.  Looking at it from the point of view of your interests, it seems to me you've got the best of both worlds if you can play your cards right: he can experiment with same-sex friendships when he's young (and thus you don't have to worry about an unwanted pregnancy) whereas he won't have totally cut off the idea of having a family and giving you grandkids later in life.
463042
Well sounds like you need to decide for certain which is more important....your sexual fantasies or your relationship with your wife.It can't be healthy to  have 3 in a relationship where there should only be 2. And you should talk to your wife about this too. Maybe it's time to get rid of the 3rd party. Also it would make me feel strange and not so loved to know that my man wants me to be with another man. Either way sounds like it's time to re-evaluate your situation. and sets your priorities in order.
971470
If you 'experiment,' then you cheat. If you're going to cheat, get a divorce first, at least you'll get half that way.\n\nI personally don't care if you're gay, straight, bi, whatever. If you are married, you don't have sex with anyone else. Get a divorce, then play around.
1046699
I'm simply in awe that you were able to wait that long before you decided to take your relationship to the bedroom...\n\nIf you are scared about the weight, woman on top and spooning are good choices.  Same with doggy style.  \n\nTalk with him and find out what he thinks.  Does he have the same concerns as you?  \n\nAlso, I see no reason to post that he is of a different race.  If it doesn't bother you any other time, why should it be a factor now?
583786
theres one good way to know if your bi sexual or just bi courious. You have been with men. If you can look at a woman and just wonder what it would be like to be with her and not act on that thought. Your just courious. If you find a lady and actually try something and enjoy what you have then your bi. You are the only one who really could answer this question. It depends on how you feel in side.
809991
although sex is pleasurable....continue to do what you wanna do! if you guys are comfortable without sex then so be it! just continue being happy in your marriage! don't let other people tell you about YOUR marriage! YOU and HIM are married not everyone else, so their comments on YOUR MARRIAGE shouldn't matter.
638625
first off you are not bio  you are BI curious  I think that alot of women are.  I had a 3 some with my ex husband  I got hot thinking about it as well but there were rules he could not penetrate her.  It wasnt as good as you would think it would be.  I would rather have wild sex and keep the fantasy alive than doing it.  It is not that big of a deal.  Plus are you ready to watch your husband touch anf kiss and lick another?  That id=s difficult.  We actually had a 4 some anotehr couple we only performed oral on the other ppl and the guys watched us then we had sex with our partners.  I was accused of cheating that next day cuz i gave head to the other guy  I would seriously think about it and make sure that you want to take it to that level
1054087
well, if he wants walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, guess what he is???   A  duck!!  The only reason he wouldn't be bi, is if he's plain gay.....hiding behind you. Good luck!
291578
tell him you have a headache.  That seems to be a tried and true formula.  Unless you're talking about your husband having sex with someone else, in which case I think you should let him have his fun.
462039
Well, you should talk with him openly about how you would want your relationship to function on the sexual department.\nYour main problem is probably lack of communication.
1044936
Its unlikely that he is asexual.  I'm an asexual and I wouldn't have sex with someone before marriage.  Its just too convenient to just say that "I'm saving myself." After marriage may be different.  \n\nAsexual is a sexual orientation and you have it since birth so I don't think that's what he is.  However, In my case, I pretended to be hetero most of my life simply because I knew I wasn't gay and I didn't know about the third sexual orientation.  I did stuff that wasn't natural for me just because that was what I was supposed to do.  Its possible, but remote, that your husband is doing the same thing.\n\nI know that certain SSRI drugs like paxil, etc, will destroy the sex drive.  I suggest you make a trip to the doctor before you make a trip to the lawyer.  There could be many medical problems that can cause this.  Maybe he has ED and feels inadequate.\n\nNevertheless, there are still things he can do to satisfy you in bed without actually having sex.  I suggest that you see a doctor and go from there.
671168
Dont! It is not your fault. You husband has always liked Men and because he was such a coward. He was afraid of what people would think of him. Do not beat yourself up about. Im sure you love him. Just pray that he gets delivered from what ever it is he's going through and move on.