Why doesn't my boyfriend tell me that he loves me anymore?
820231
Those 3 words can be important and once you get used to hearing them, you're used to hearing them. However, men can get comfortable and confident that you KNOW it, so they don't have to SAY it.\n\nThat part is true.\n\nI think he still loves you and I think you're reading too much into it with him not saying it. He may have a lot on his mind right now and not worried about it because you should know it.\n\nYou say nothing else in the relationship has changed. Those words shouldn't mean so much to you that the absence of them makes you question the man. If everything else is the same, so is his love.\n\nCut him some slack. Wait a week. If he's still not saying them, just let him know you miss the words. A simple, "Baby, I miss hearing you say, 'I love you.'" will probably do the trick. Give it some time though.
304167
im confused about my guy as well...i guess no way out.. unless u wanna ask which i dont think is the best idea... do wht im doing - waiting, if he loves u, he iwll tell u someday...just b patient
259732
You should just move on, while you are with him you might be missing out on the right man for you. It sounds like you and your boyfriend aren't really in the relationship anymore anyway, you're settling, you're just in it because it is comfortable.
907070
Actions speak louder than words.  Even he says he loves you, if he does not show it, it means nothing.  He might not realize this either.  But when you love someone, you would want to spend as much time with them as possible (though work may be hard), and do nothing to hurt your partner's feeling (including reciprocating another girl's interest in you).  Why don't you take a break from each other and see how much you mean to each other?  You may find that there are other men out there who would appreciate you more than your current bf does.
1132778
sometimes, verbal revelations could lose the strength of reality.\ndon't expect anymore of any direct love from him.. just go on with your life.... still be nice to him... let him do his style.. dont expect much, otherwise, youll just be hurt... pretend as if you dont mind him... meantime, focus your attention elsewhere...a hobby, a new interesting guy, or your work or studies perhaps..
281462
You can't always win. If he has a boyfriend the best you can do is support him. From experience I'm telling you DON'T tell him you think you're in love with him! That will make your relationship uneasy and he won't want to talk to you because he'll be uneasy and wonder what you're thinking. It's always best to hold onto a good thing. Wait it out and see.
32215
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
106307
Maybe i'll talk to him and ask what's the problem. Or maybe you're just too paranoid thinking that he doesn't love you anymore. A good conversation makes a good relationship.
580816
Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
91742
The problem with some guys is, they don't like to acknowledge the fact that they are in love and are in every way normal. Some of them prefer to be "discreet" about it - afraid that they might be the butt of jokes with their other guy friends and because of that, sometimes it's hard to read their feelings...\n\nBut sincerely, I can tell you that he likes you. But he just doesn't know how to show it. You can dump him, that's easier said than done. But if you choose to have a relationship with him, you have to ask yourself this question: will he change and perhaps show his love for you? Or will he remain the same, and mask his love behind his "cool-ness"? If you can answer that, you're done.
37499
Well maybe this guy that won't tell you he loves you is scared of rejection or maybe he thinks you won't love him. Don't lead your boyfriend on if he's not it. Maybe you don't wanna hurt him but leadin him on would crush him... Think bout it...
265741
It's great that he's so open to telling you.  Definitly tell him.  As wonderful as it is to hear those words, they lose their meaning if it's a constant thing.  We only need to hear it a couple of times.  The rest of the day, show us.  Leave a note on the bathroom mirror, hide a note or card in their jacket pocket for them to find later.  Words are not the only way.  \nFirst you should tell him that you know he loves you and enjoy hearing it, but don't need to hear it all the time.
178636
2 things.. one - may be he loves you but is afraid of commitment... two - may be he doesn't love you at all and it was just a slip of the tongue the first time he said it. Observe his actions and how he treats you. You'll get hints from there.
735236
Nicole, be yourself sweetie. If he does not think that you love him well he has the problem. I have tried so many times to tell my partner how much I love him. He never takes me serious , so I have given up. I feel if he does not believe me, well that is his bad luck. This to me is a no trust thing in my book!!!!!!
122598
Maybe he doesnt want to be with you anymore and is saying he does because he doesnt want anyone else to have you because you are attractive and a sweet person to be with. Dont let him talk down to you and make you change for him, change for yourself.
103315
it's easy, just tell him/her u're no longer involved. The sooner he/she gets to know, the better.Or else u will be fooling urself thinking he/she still loves u
1139119
He must have a reason why he isnt telling them?Ask him..see what he has to say..If he doesnt have a good answer to the question then I would question why you are with someone who treats you this way..