Coming Home to Girlfriend, Advise?
821301
you can't plan it out.  just be as spontaneous as possible.  go somewhere you and her have never been before like a play or a concert or some romantic one on one time.  over planning is not a good thing.
129157
Agreed. Keep it simple since you just started dating. I'd suggest dinner, or a romantic picnic (depending on the climate). You could also buy her a cute little stuffed animal or something simple to remember. Oh, if you haven't kissed her yet, save it until after dinner on Valentine's Day. She'll definitely remember that.
500267
Look her in the eye, be interested in HER and her answers, respect that there are things you may not agree on. That is okay....differences are good and keep it friendly. Don't raise your voice unless it is in excitement. If you think you will yell, say you need to leave the room for a moment to gain control and come back when you are able to talk w/o anger...she will think you are the greatest boyfriend she ever had!
1132757
She needs to be sure, this won't happen again. She is not sure if coming back home will prevent her of going through this experience again. It seems it was very traumatic to her, she doesn't know if Worth to investor insist on this relationship...perhaps the pain caused to her was almost the size or bigger than the all pleasure she has of being with you. She is confused and trying to figure out, what she feels about you, love or disappoint.\nTraumas, change  people feelings pushing them to be more protective.\nYou can't expect that after a very ugly fight with psychological trauma, she simply come back home and you guys get together again. People need time to heal.\nI think you are in a very bed situation, sorry to say that.\nIt seems you are very close of loose her if you haven't lost her yet. Now, if she comes back, you will need to rebuild her trust on you again, for she open herself for you again and the love float.\nAnother thing, I think you should take some time to think about the fight too and reflect, because someone whom really cares about another, shouldn't have the behavior you are having, or you are immature and have no knowledge about peoples feelings, or about yourself. Don't think I am offending you by telling you are immature, I am just trying to help you and as I always say, honesty is the best option to find the right solution for our problems.
250853
Be EXTREMELY respectful to her father and mother.  And if you promise to have her home by a certain time, get her home by that time and not a minute later.
955314
Meet him at his ship wearing a long coat with nothing underneath.  Inform him of this when you are giving him his welcome home kiss.  I imagine that his mind will be fantasing and wondering all over the place until you get home.  Have fun and I hope your husband is home to stay for a while for you and your baby if possible.
500378
yeas sex is nice but what's on his mind when he comes home isn't sex probably as much as it is home itself. I haven't been deployed yet but boot camp lasted 3 months. When I came back I spent the day with my family and friends. My mom made me my favorite dinner and everyone brought me a card saying welcome back. Just surround him with the people and things he loves. Stick something out in the front yard if you own a house saying welcome home then Rank and Name. He deserves a lot of respect and love for going over there so make sure you give it to him when he gets back! Good luck hope August comes by quickly for you.
57490
No--don't lie. Just tell her nicely that you're going and ask her to go along. Chances are, she'll say NO. She will probably appreciate the fact that you were thoughtful enough to ask her if she'd like to go. When you get back (dont drink and drive)have great sex with her and tell how much you love her. Just don't lie to her. It's not really worth it!!!!
437596
you and my girlfriend have something in common. She knows what it is like to be in your shoes. Her one time friend was my ex-girfriend. After my ex and I split up a year after, I began seeing the girl i am with now. we have been together for almost a year now. I posted a question on this subject a while back. \nto answer your question... I think a letter is a good way to start. If you were to approach her, pride might keep her from listening to what you have to say with open arms. If you send her a letter, she can read what you feel in privacy... without having to be forced to control her emotions and her curiousity will allow you to get everything out to her. Then its up to her of course.
503611
Go for all the old cliche's . Flowers, breakfast in bed, do the housework, and get a baby sitter and take her out to a nice restaurant.  Then when you get home, light some candles and run her a bubble bath.\n\nIf you want something really special, write her a poem or a letter telling her how wonderful she is and how much you appreciate all the wonderful things she does everyday.
699084
The first thing I'm going to do when I get home is EAT A HUGE REAL STEAK & DRINK A BEER. The food here is crap. You should take the person coming home to a nice steakhouse or what ever kind of food is their favorite and get them the best meal on the menu.\n\nplease excuse moronic answers. they no not what they talk about.
838470
Its getting routine... Spice it up a little, when you know he is coming home prepare a picnic in your living room or something similar that is romantic.  He could be like that for a lot of reasons, men have periods too it seems.  Spice up the relationship do something that you havent done before, if  you still dont get a response, then maybe you two need to sit and really talk about whats going on.
502948
Find someone to watch your baby for the evening.  Make sure that the house is clean and orderly.  Make him his favorite dinner and dessert.  Afterwards, you can treat him to a massage, and a selection of other bedroom activities (whatever you guys enjoy!).\n\nIf you're going to be home before he is, you can have a little more fun with the preparations.  Maybe be waiting on the bed for him when he gets home, with a trail of rose petals leading to the bedroom.  Lighted candles and a couple glasses of sparkling cider would be a nice touch.\n\nDon't forget to unplug the phone.\n\nI wish you the best of luck and the best of times with your romantic night!
959839
If you have some cash available, organize a spa night. Not in a spa, you'll spend your entire wallet. Find a good masseuse that will come to your home, prepare the room with candles and soothing music. (I used to have a masseuse that charged me about $40 for 70 minutes at my own place). If she doesn't like flowers, she will like petals spread here and there. Write a note and have a nice little dinner ready. If you can't cook, buy her favorite food at a restaurant where you two go often. Write her a card with a brief simple message stating that this is her day and your way to show her how much you care. While she gets the massage (choose a girl or guy depending on what SHE is more comfortable with) relax and enjoy knowing that YOU ARE AN AMAZING BOYFRIEND for wanting to show your feelings.
325370
greet her at the airport with her favourite snack and make sure she comes home to a clean house.  she'll be hungry and tired after such a long flight.  might not be romantic but be assured it will definitely be appreciated. that's what i'm hoping my hubby will do for me when i return from seeing my family in the us too.\n\n\ni have no real good suggestions but want to say she sounds like a lucky lass :)
370418
just take your time and relax...do what feels natural and don't put so much pressure on yourself, if she feels the same way about you it will be a great night for you both
665231
By not making a big deal out of it when she does leave the house. Give her a kiss and hug, let her know you love her, and that's about it. If she is truly an untrustworthy person than you'll find out eventully so there's no need to worry or get possessive. Let your love do the talking.