If she CHEATS does she get a second chance?
827366
join the club , i experenced the same thing,and i also think peer pressure has alot to do with it,but she made the decision,we are back togather ,guess time will tell good luck
176606
You and her are a totally different relationship from any relationship she has had in the past.  You honestly have no reason to not trust her until she cheats on you.  People grow up and people change.  If you judge someone by their prior relationships then you aren't being fair to them and giving your relationship an honest chance.  Stop worrying about this or you will create a problem that doesn't yet exist.  Life is too short to waste worrying about something that might happen.
305205
one time is a mistake. if u like her then forgive her
536853
you can only know that you trust someone unless you feel it in your heart if you know for a fact that they havent broken a promis or lied to you then you should be able to trust them but watch your back cuz ppl do change and i believe that ppl do deserve a second chance cuz everyone makes mistakes and they learn from them "sometimes" but after they break there second chance then they are no good and you dont deserve to trust them watch and listen for bullcrap lies if someone is telling you something and you dont really feel it in your heart and if something is telling you that something isnt right then usually its a lie so just be carefull and listen to your heart dont let anyone fool you and dont let your mind interfear with your heart and LOOK OUT FOR LIES!!!! and you sould be fine\n\nhope this helps\ngood luck
599619
My girlfiend of 7 years cheated on me recently. I trusted her. She has a night class on Tuesday and Thursday nights.\nShe ended up seeing the teacher more than just in class.\nI am NOT going to give her another chance to do it again.\nOnce a cheater, always a cheater.
526960
Yes, I think there is always hope and a possibility, but that depends entirely on both people.  First, as hard as it may be, the first round is accepting what happened as real.  The second round is understanding what and why it happened.  More often than not the real reason one person cheated on another is due lack of attention, meaning the needs of one person were not being met by the other.  As busy as life gets in the world we live in today, there is often not enough time to pay attention to and meet the needs of a partner.  That is why it is said that the quality of time is more important than the quantity of time.  The third round is the hardest, but this is the process of forgiving.  The only way to start over or to repair any damage due to unfaithfulness or infidelity is to forgive.  There are couples that are willing to and able to forgive each other, but then that depends entirely on the two people involved.  Is that what they want?  What do they want? Etc...etc...etc...
792505
well you have to build a new history with her.  past behavior best predicts future behavior.  if she doesn't cheat on you for a month then she probably won't cheat on you next month.  anyway the point is take it one day at a time and i'm sure you can learn to trust her again.
476255
yes if you have not gotten another love. however, it can be dangerous really if the woman has moved ahead to another love that is current. old firewood catches fire faster and if the first love reciprocates the gesture, hearts may be broken eventually and both of you in future may really be thinking the other is cheating - kind of if she's cheated to be back with me, is she not doing so to me now?
309130
I disagree with the others. If you are willing to take the time and be honest from here out, and honestly get past the cheating that happened almost a year ago, and she can get past the fact that you have lied to her over and over, there is hope. There is no doubt that you love her and she loves you. The fact remains that she only did it once and it was almost a year ago. Anything can be worked through if the love is strong enough, but it's not going to happen over night or even in a couple of weeks. It's going to take time, but it can be done.
7962
No!  Pass on the sloppy seconds.\n\nHe cheated on you once, he will do it again.\n\nFind someone that is worthy of your attention!
333235
be honest and dont cheat again
260959
cheating can always be forgiven if the cheater is truly sorry and you both really love each other and want things to work out. (so only 1 act of cheating)
478205
Good decision. But if it was the first time that he's cheated on you, maybe give him another chance. If not, then you don't need someone like that.
412387
Once someone cheats on you there is no going back.  I tried the whole forgiveness thing with my fist wife and ultimately it is something you just can't get out of your mind and since he already cheated on you before it is much easier to do it again.  I think he blew his chance with you and you will be better off with someone else.
616296
The most smart thing 2 do would prolly b 2 leave em cuz dat sayn "once a cheater alwayz a cheater" but errebody iz diffrent...But wen u love sumbody it ain't as easy as errebody say...But if u love him & wanna give it anotha try id say go 4 it cuz errebody deserve A 2nd chance but don lisin 2 nebody follow ya heart gurl do watchu feel iz rite!
460374
I think that you should believe her and give her a second chance. \n\nBut I would just kinda play it cool until you know weather or not she is lying. If she keeps on acting better over the next couple months then she probably is clean.\n\nBut dont put your self in the situation where you can get hurt. Dont get you hopes high just to have them stomped on. If she is clean great, but if she is not then just dont let it get to you. Just keep going on with your own life.
1066365
Everyone deserves a second chance but if it was something you can not get over don't bother taking him/her back. It will cause problems. Leave the past in the past. Start over new.