I told the guy who like that I like him despite hes my friends ex...more in the details.?
815606
I agree with FSJD. Be careful.  But if you and him click, I don't see any reason for you not to date him.  Your friend is no longer going with him.
358527
It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
448676
he heard you liked him.So he sent you signals to see if it was true.So your now labeled as "this chick that likes me".just act like you lost interest and when he resends the signals to see if you still like him then ask him what hes doing.Like dude whats up you sendin me signals you want to get with me or what?then if he says yes or no its not a rejection just a question about  what HES doing
330939
oh you like him, or at best the attention he is giving you and want to justify the fact that he is your ex boyfriends mate, well it is not a moral issue really ,if you fancy him and he makes a move tell him how you feel as regards his mate,being your ex and go with your heart.\n\nGigi
412036
OK SWEETY,\nIT SOUNDS LIKE TO ME THAT YOU OBVIOUSLY DONT LIKE THIS GUY.LOL. BUT YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HIS FEELINGS BELIEVE ME I HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT. THE BEST THING I CAN HONESTLY TELL YOU IF HE IS YOUR FRIEND TELL HIM STRAIGHT FORWARD BUT KINDLY YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I SEE AS YOU THAT. DONT LET HIM FIND OUT FOR HIMSELF CUZ HE MIGHT THINK YOUR PLAYING HARD TO GET AND THEN U MIGHT JUST END UP HURTING HIM FORM NOT TELLING HIM. GOD BLESS ADN I WILL PRAY IT WORKS OUT.
928405
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..
841052
u said it..she is his ex which means he cant love her and the proof is that they hang out normally and that means they r friend and u said he clings to u then he likes u..try to make that turn to an affair and cling to him and if u love him really continue to the best in ur relationship and hint to him with ur love..he must reply..good luck
979058
Wow.  Well, there is nothing you can really do to control the outcome of this situation, that depends on who truly has feelings for who.  I think John probably really likes you and not Haley, because if he still liked Haley he would probably be already trying to get back together with her by now.  I think Haley just wants to believe he still likes her because she likes him, and people can make themselves belief what they really want to believe.  \n\nIt is kind of disturbing that you would date your friend's ex especially when you know she still likes him.  Maybe you two aren't truly friends?  I guess you can just stop hanging out with Haley.  And she can't come between you and John if John truly likes you and not her, right?\n\nSo I guess just tell Haley that you think she is kind of obsessed with John, and John is with you now, and you are sorry but you really have feelings for John, so you think it's best if you and she don't hang out for awhile.  This will hurt her, but I guess she needs to get the message that John is taken now, and she needs to back off.
390825
He was defiantly flirting.  Odds are that he has always liked you as more than a friend and though this was a good chance to give it a shot and see what might happen.  Chances are though that if something had happened he wouldn't have left his girl friend.
298068
The 1st mistake you did was to tell him you liked him. Now he will just take advantage of you. Don't put yourself up to be hurt you know better than that. Forget about this guy before he realizes that he has a hold on you
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
93558
the truth is that  you might be getting fooled and he might also be for real. the truth is since u say he likes another i think you should let him stay as an ex. he might never have gotten over you and be somehow attached to u or might be possesive or he might just feel like he still has to finish up some things he could not whebn you are together. since u are the one who likes him u might get hurt if he does not reciprocate so i think , keep him as an ex.
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
465419
ALRIGHT HERE WE GO.IF YOU REALLY LIK ETHIS GUY AND THIS GUY REALLY LIKES YOU AND THE TWO OF YOU ARE SURE ABOUT EACHOTHER THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? GO FOR IT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIS EX. SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON.MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE HAS TURNED INTO YOUR DIRECTION BECAUSE YOU ARE THE REASON THAT SHE COULDN'T BE.ALSO THE EX S JUST OVERLY JEALOUS BECAUSE HE MAY NOT WANT HER BACK AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BUT SHE CAN'T HANDLE THE THOUGHTS OF SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME.I WOULD SAY SCREW THE EX AND DO WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS RIGHT ASLONG AS YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AT THE SAME TIME.GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!
820493
It sounds like he does like you but isn't ready to make it more evident yet.  Relationships that are built on a solid foundation of friendship last longer than those that are just built on passion.  Invite him when you are going out and let things develop as they do.
722026
I think the guy likes you..but he's shy. Since he knows that his friend likes you, he probably doesn't want his friend to know that he likes you too..
48123
Don't wait to tell him. He may think you only like him as a friend and he doesn't want to cross the line. What if he ends up with someone else and you are still alone?