I am trying to ask a girls out, any thoughts?
829821
They don't dig you; trust me.  You need to stop being such a wuss first.  There is nothing more unattractive than someone without self-confidence.
473087
You can never 'get' a girl to love you... she needs to want to offer you her love.  ASK HER to go out with you.... stop the guessing game
75454
Walk up to her, hand her some flowers, and ask her out. Keep ot simple. Don't freak yourself out. Make sure the date is amazing and you'll be fine! If she says no, stay cool and get over it. There will be more girls! Trust me!
562150
Did she give you the phone # ?  If so,then I guess she wants you to call. And that could lead up to asking her out. If you got it another way, will probably be the only reason you're seeking help on how to attract her.
241398
You have a great start.  You are good friends.  Ask her out.  She's probably wondering why you are taking so long to ask.  Good Luck!
823018
Go for it mate ! Ask her out . When you see her walking out or in the gym, take a deep breath and just ask her . If you dont you will always wonder what if . You will regret it if you dont . Trust me i know !!!!!!!!!! If you dont ask her some other geezer might get in there before you. Just say " Do you fancy coming out for a drink?"  How easy is it to say that. DO IT !!!!!!!!!!! Good luck young jedi ! If it turns out that you land up getting married can i get an invite to the head table. If you pick this as best answer let me know how you got on when you leave feedback.
91802
Just be honest.  Tell her you like her and youre interested in taking her out.
1144521
put your act together man! gather all the guts you have and go for it. just ask her out on a little date.
715407
haha, doesn't look like you're getting the answers you're looking for. Bottom line, don't be afraid of asking girls out, no matter what your occupation is, she might say no... but she might say yes. If you don't ask, that's a definite 'no' so take your chances. be brave, you ARE in the national guard.
618863
first of all you don't want to be too pushy because that can be a big turn off for some women. maybe you  can ask her out next weekend like to a movie or even just to get a few drinks, the later would be better as this would give you a great opportunity to get to know her and her interests and in turn she'll ask you about yourself, however if she doesn't want to go out you could suggest just calling her at home to talk a bit or going to HER house for a while but remember you don't want to seem desperate as this will get her packing, good luck
846491
If you are too shy to verbally ask her out then maybe you are too shy to be dating. Wait until you mature a bit then try again. How can a date work with just letter writing?▲
922408
yes but time is of the essence! when you ask her out show her a soft side( I wanted to tell you how I felt  but I was afraid it might lead to you rejecting me) she will eat that  up !
462595
Ask her can you have a quick word alone. Tell her that you are a bit nervous but if you dont tell her whats on your mind, you may regret it forever. (she will apriciate you for having the bottle to do and say this).  Tell her that you realy like her and it would be great if she will go out with you OR if she will be your girl (but dont go over the top). It would be nice to get a positve response, but be prepared for a negative one. DO NOT worry about a negative response as this may stop you taking action. And besides you will get over it in a few hours. Make a decision, do it, or dont do it. ASAP.
58360
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
83510
You need to think of what it is about yourself that a girl would like, what you would like to know about the girl and what you could do together if she did say yes. Form this into a conversational gameplan and go for it...
593337
Leave her a note or a message, from and anonymous person telling her where to meet you, or just breathe slowly and try asking her out. It will be nerve wrecking, but it might be worth it!
878897
just ask her out!! the worst thing she can say is no. and if she says no then just ask someone else out. oh and if she already knows you like her.... ask her out. before she moves on!! =]