I recently lost my aunt to an anerysm of the brain. I want to understand what happened to her during this....?
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An aneurysm is a ballooning out of a vessel wall and can actually be located anywhere. Common sites are the brain and the abdominal aorta.When an aneurysm of the aorta ruptures (breaks) death is usually rapid due to the quick extent of blood loss. A brain aneurysm causes stroke like symptoms and the aftereffects are those of a stroke. There is a possibility she had a heart attack as a result of the stress of the aneurysm.
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Wow...I am so sorry to hear that. Losing a loved one is very tough...especially ones that are taken from us so young..not only having to deal with her death but having her hopes and dreams die too....it's just heart breaking..My deepest sympathy for you and your family.\n\nI really like the idea that someone mentioned above.....naming your child after your sister...whether it be a middle or first name...I think that would be a wonderful way to honor your sister.\n\nAlso KEEP doing work with charities that support Epilepsy..I think that's awesome. Not only would you keep her memory alive by doing that...but your words or stories about your sister may bring great comfort to someone in a similar situation.
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im sorry about the first idiots responce ! good grief whats wrong with people ! i could not pass this one by without takeing a minute to tell you how truely sorry iam . i lost a nephew and witnessed first hand a mothers grief . you and your family are in my prayers .
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It took my aunt several months (approximately 9 months) to recover. She did experience pain in her face, neck and along the sides of her left arm. The Doctor prescribed her very good medication but had no information to offer her as to why she had the pain. Hope you get well soon! God Bless!
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I've had a guardian angel since I was 9. She only comes around when I or one of my kids is very ill. I was near death the first time I met her at age 9. Ten years and 700 miles later, she was rubbing my newborn son's back in his crib during the night. We ended up at the ER the same night because he spiked a fever of 105. She was by my side 5 years after that when I was in the hospital fighting for my life after surgery in which my lungs collapsed and I had an anaphalactic reaction to the anesthetic. Her touch is always warm. I have seen ehr once when everyone was well. It was 2 years ago when I took a genealogical cemetery hunt, and found my great-great-grandmothers grave. She was there. I think that's who mine is. Perhaps your is an ancestor?
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Several years ago I had an unusual experience concerning an uncle, a distant relative who lived over a thousand miles away. \n\nWhile driving my car I suddenly felt the unmistakable presence of this relative that I hardly even knew. He was more like someone I had heard about than someone I knew. It was very strange; it felt as though I was momentarily lifted right out of my physical body. I seemed to be suspended somehow beyond space and time, bathed in a love so intense It felt like I could have just disappear into it at any moment if It would have let me. It only lasted for a few seconds, but it seemed to last forever at the same time. I realize how crazy this must sound. The experience was so strong that at first I was afraid I was loosing my grip on reality. I finally managed to chalk it up to an over active imagination.\n\nThree days later I got a call from my aunt telling me that this uncle we are talking about had gone into a coma and died the day I had the experience. It felt like ice water had been poured down my back when she told me this. I had lost any real ideas of God or faith and had become somewhat of an atheist. Needless to say this experience caused me to rethink some of the conclusions I had come to. \n\nI feel blessed to now understand that even in our darkest confusion something loves us so much that it went out of its way to assist me and bring me back to a state of absolute certainty about Gods love for us.\nDuring the experience it seemed like there was a vast amount of information that I was somehow allowed access to. One thing that I came away from this experience understanding beyond any shadow of a doubt was that any Idea that God is unhappy with us or would judge or allow us to be punished for any reason is simply impossible. \n\nI can’t explain the love I felt with words. They simply don’t make words big enough or complete enough to do this. The only way I can begin to convey this love to you is to say that there was simply nothing else there. Nothing but love. No hint of judgment, no displeasure of any sort. It is as though God sees us as being as perfect as we were the day we were created. It is only in our confused idea of ourselves that we seem to have changed.\n\n I hope this is of some help to you. Good luck. Love and blessings. \n\nYour brother don
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Dear Vickki, I am assuming you have lost someone dear to you in death? I am sorry for you pain. I know the days often seem so long. God does not promise us a life without difficulties and sorrow. He does promise his grace, his mercy and his endless love. It is so hard to understand but someday we will! I hope you can find comfort in knowing you will see your loved ones again. Think about all the wonderful times you had with this person while they were here on this earth. Thank God for blessing your life with their life. By thanking God, you will find the most amazing comfort. Peace will come and you will be able to go on. Hold on to the  the memories and treasure each end every one. I will pray for you and that your pain will be eased. God Bless!
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I was 9 when I lost my mom. Not an important event goes by without me thinking of her and missing her. Im 28 and sometimes I get mad at HER for not being here for things like her grandchildren or to give me advice. It DOES get easier. I say this because the pain only goes on for so long then you adjust to it. Pain will be there it just won't be as horrible as it seemed in the beginning. I just hope to see her someday when its my time. It sucks more than anything in the world to lose a parent. My advice is n to see a counsler or better yet find others who have lost parents and share stories and tears if need be. Your on a good start here finding others. Maybe there is a loss support group in your area. I didn't like the counslers when I was younger due to the fact we had no connection. They didn't lose their mom but wanted to talk to me about my loss. Good-luck and keep your head up. Remember God doesn't give us more then we can handle (sometimes it feels like it)
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I am so sorry for your loss.  I would like to say that I think your mom would be proud of you and would love knowing that you love her and you miss her.  Instead of spending today being sad at her loss..spend the day rejoicing for the woman that she was and for the memories that will live on in your heart forever.  ((((((((hugs)))))))))
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Ya, Ofcourse.\nActually I & my family slept with it for complete 2 nights in complete anonity.\nBrief description: Actually, in our relation, there occurred a death.  The dying person was a lady (married) and having a 3 month old baby in her womb.  Then there is a long time interval of nearly 3-4 years passed in Court and legal cases, etc.\nNow I come to main issue.  Due to this court and legal matter, all the family in-laws members of the deceased lady were in jail, except 3 children (one boy = 4 years old named Mannu, actual son of deceased lady, one girl = 5 years old named Komal, and other boy = 6-7 years old named Kapil).  These three were very small and have to live in their home, lonely.  So, all the other relatives decided that to help them, one by one among the left of the relatives, will stay at their home in turn matter.  So, this turn matter continues.\nNow what actually happened is that, one turn came of this girl, named ASHA (21-22 years old).   She was living happily at their home, lonely with those 3 children.  Then, suddenly after 3-4 days, the parents of Asha were continuously being informed by neighbours of place, where Asha was living with the 3 children, that Asha is not doing work, she continues to sleep,etc.  Their family members thought it is a regular issue of this age that, this age girl not wants to work and stay away from their home.  They thought it to be a normal issue.  After 1 ½ days of these issues being continuous, my (me, Parmod from romeonaamera@yahoo.co.in) family decided to bring the girl back home.  So, my elder brother, Manish brought her home at night 10 pm.  She came normal, actually not normal, and she did strange gestures of ghost like, which I cannot explain verbally.  We thought that this may be due to living lonely in a home, having occurred a death.  So, we neglected her gestures.  But after one day, when she was at our home, her own parents came to take her to their home.  To our shock…..\nAs soon as this girl, saw the first sight of her mother, She did a very strange (actually ghost like) action, which is totally dramatic and dreadened.  We all thought this is also normal, of a child, on seeing her mother after a long interval of time.  So, we all neglected this also.  But.. to our very anonity.  This girl, was actually intercepted and entered into by the ghost of the lady named Madhu, which I described above as the dying person.  In the evening of that day, she actually is starting showing her actions, etc.\nQ. 1What is our name?\nA. 1Though her real name is Asha only, but she took the name of the dying lady, named Madhu.\nQ. 2Where do you live?\nA. 2.Though She lived at near Shahdara but she explained that she has come from the home of Madhu (i.e. from Ghaziabad).\n\nThese are only some of the few questions among a large number of other normal, and small questions, which she also explained if she was not Asha but actually is Madhu (the dead lady).  Then after that day, we all family members took her to a priest to make look into the matter, if what she is saying.  (Only Indians can understand nowabout this).  The pandit (Hindu priest) also inquired with the girl and after many-many questions, just concluded that this girl or this person whom, I am speaking is not Asha, but Madhu (the deceased lady).  Can anyone understand, what I am saying?  The matter, which the Asha was speaking (the actual live girl), is not spoken by this girl, but by the dead lady named, Madhu, whose GHOST had actually entered into the body of a live girl Asha.\nThen, this girl was returned to our (my own home).  She remained with us for complete two days and 2 nights.\nOh my God, only I and my younger sister can tell, how we have spent those 2 days and 2 nights, with a GHOST in our home.  That ghost actually did not slept for that period spent at our home and continulusly mourned of .  The GHOST Madhu continuously asked for meeting with her child, (discussed above, one boy 4 years old, named, Mannu).
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In Oct. 1985 i had a near death experince..it happend at the result of a motorcycle accident.it is a very long story for me to write but im in the process of writting a book,in short.\n\nafter the accident i got up and thanked god that nothing happend to me,but when i looked down i saw my own bloody body is lying down on the road,at first i was extremely scared.coz i didnt know who am i?and who is the body is lying there.after following my body to the hospital and hearing that they pronounced me dead.i thought of my mother and in an instace i was at home and could read my mothers thoughts.i was there when they got the phone call from police letting them know i was dead.and right after i travelled through the tunnel.at the end of tunnel i saw my dead grandmother standing.i also saw my cousin who had been drawned years earlier, a lot of dead family members but before they can embrace me suddenly my dead dog jumped on me.boy i was happy to see him.a lot more happend when i was there.i cant write about it coz it will take hours to explain,finaly i was told it is not time for me and i had to return.i resist it.and i said there is no way i will go back this is home and i want to stay.they told me that they will show me a hallograh,it was a about my purpose to fulfill,and they told me i dont remember anything after they show.next thing i woke up with incredible pain all over my body with a white sheet over my face.i removed the sheet.first thing i saw was a nurse screaming halelua.it is a miracle.my experince is incredibly close to betty eddie's experince the author of embraced by the light,at first i didnt realized what happend to me and after years of reading i slowly grasp the reality.after that my state of conciouness has been alterd.i know stuff without knowing why.i hear people and dont know why.people around me consult me before opening up a bussiness they think my opinion will help them.if i feel bad about something they dont do it.i dont realy know whether im right or not.but this is what they feel and believe.about your husband,i promise you he is healthier and happier than ever,every day he is watching you.sending numerous siganls to tell you he is ok and he is with you.but you have to educate yourself and practise to talk to him.it is easy.it just needs your determination and commitment,i talk to my mother who died in 1996 all the time,she has warned me about a lot of dangers.you are destined to wake up.continue searching,a lot of good thing will happen to you by 2009,i promise you,YOU WILL WAKE UP,just listen to your intuitions,listen to your higher self,you will know the truth,it will come your way.\nmay love and peace be upon you\nrobert\n*ps for years i havent talked about it.but it is not a secret anymore.thousand and thousands of people have NDE,humanity is ready to hear about it.we are destined to wake up.by dec. 21, 2012 the one that are suppose to wake up, they will,we are destined to become 4th dimension enteties,just pay attention to your surrondings,try to see it.time for the change of conciousness has arrived.
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I'm sorry for your losses. I have a similar story but on a longer time scale...since my graduation from college party in May 2005, 3 people who attended have passed away. My mom's best friend, my best friend and yesterday my grandpa.  I'm not sure why things happen like that but after talking to people at work they all have similar stories. I think it's just how life happens and no sense can be made of it. \nNot to mention my grandma, best friend and grandpa all  passed in November 2001, 2005 and now 2006. (It's a tough month)\n\nIf it weren't for the bitter the sweet wouldn't be so sweet.\n\nBest of luck to you.
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That is Deep! I appreciate people taking the time to express their loss,their memories.I'm sorry for yours!At least you seem to have accepted the tragedy and found some peace.Life is so strange,it is 4 21am I have been up since 1 25 on this computer reading and trying to answer some things I know alittle about from life's experience.My boys are asleep,so is my dog.My wife died in my arms a month ago today,I could not help her with CPR nor could the rescue team,41 too young, but everyday I see her in my sons,it will take along time to recover, as they say!God Bless You too!
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you are in tune with things of this nature is all. you recognize this instance because you were so close to your grandmother. you may very well have done this before but not realize it. you should be more attentive in the future\nand see if you notice a pattern develope.It is a scary, yet\ninteresting gift to have. alot of premonitions are kind of vague, but you caught the details of your grandmothers death. I did the same with my grandmother. she sat on her porch as i left her home.I looked back and saw a kind of glow around her. I knew i would not see her again. She died \nless than a week later with no warning.You should follow your intuition on these matters.
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first of all, your friend was trying to protect you.  When things go wrong like that we as humans always seem to hurt the ones we love and those closest to us. maybe she was trying to safe you the pain and anguish of having to watch her die.and I am sure she was scared, both of dying and of how you might react.  It is always hard when a life ends with unfinished busines like this. I am sure if you knew the facts, then you would not have said these things to her, but i am sure she will forgive you.  WHen you went to the hospital did you tell her you did not mean what was said, as I am sure she appologised as well.  Only thing that can help is yourself, you have to accept that this was not under normal circumstances that this happened, and your friend did start by saying hurtful things to you.  People deal with things differently in life and this was her way off dealing with things.\n\nBest advice I can give is for you to give it time, and if time is not the answer then find someone who you can talk to, a friend, doctor or a councilor.  Try going to her grave and talk to her tell her you are sorry.  Perhaps you can raise funds in her name for the cancer unit at the local hospital as away of easing the burden.  If you are a believer in psychics and mediums, then they can help you con5tact her or pass on a message.  my e mail address if you need to chat is trishaf2001@yahoo.co.uk drop me a line f you want and we can go to msn and chat there  hope this helps.  just remember the good times \n\ngood luck
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Wow, what a tough situation.  I am so sorry for the loss that you are experiencing.\n\nI guess the point of making a last visit is to say your goodbyes and let the loved one know of your love for her and add some comfort you can in any way to the scary process that she's going through, as well as be around to help your other (healthy) relatives.  \n\nIn that sense, it's a good idea to ask your aunt.  My grandmother's cancer seemed to already affect her brain during my last visit with her, but we still had a great visit and it was a time that I won't forget.  You might want to ask her when she would like you to come, or how your presence can be the most helpful to her.  This goes for your other relatives.\n\nTimes like this have a way of stripping off people's fronts and exposing their real needs and desires.  I have a feeling that if you are honest and sincere with them, they will be honest with you, too.\n\nI also think that you can pray and ask God this question.  He knows everything, so He'll definitely be able to guide you as you deal with this difficult time for your family.\n\nMy best wishes to all of you.
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so sorry about your mom .was there an autopsy done on her?if you know the people she was with ask them what went on if you cant get a straight answer go to the police tell them you feel something isnt right about your moms death give names if you no who she was with .just keeping digging for answers sooner or later some one will let it out as to what happened.