i just want to know. plz help im 15 and already thinking about the "one"?
815900
It may just be a really close friendship, but I started dating my husband when we were 16 and we have never looked back. If it was meant to be, then it will be, dont try and rush it or anything, just be there for her and see what happens
778766
i used to ask the same thing when i was a 15 year old high school student now i'm a 21 year old college senior sometimes asking the same question. it's just the stress of the situation that's causing the doubts. hopefully you can keep it together and before you know it you'll be finished with high school. don't think about the future expectations too much. just live your life.
642812
for now.  You are too young to settle for one guy for life.
925544
Life is risk. I am in the same situation as you, except the girl I'm after has a boyfriend, but I'm going to tell her how I feel anyway. Stupid? Probably. But I don't want to look back in a few years and wonder 'what if'. You may lose a friend, and you may gain a girlfriend / boyfriend. Remember, fortune favours the bold. :)
487881
Its not the age but the person thats important. if you are hasty and pick the wrong person you might regret it all your life. wait till you are a bit mature to understand difference between a cool guy and a good guy. Marry the good guy, then indulge yourself.
33571
the one ur heart belongs 2...if u want it or not..cuz if u have the one beside u b happy and u know u wake up 2morrow with him beside u..if he aint with u u wish he could b there..so either way the last thought is gonna b him
605790
stick with the 1st one, love is not disposable . if you go for the second then you hurt the first which it sounds like you dont want. are you too young to make the move to marriage because of age if so just wait until after your old enough. you'd be marrying him not the mother and after words tell her to mind her own business. later you may find the second one is not the one he seems to be.
651915
You are only 15. Wait to find out if you are in love when you have meet other guys. You think you are in love now because he is who you have.
160383
Are you trying to decide between two guys or is it just one?  If it's a choice then go for the one that you like.  Most of all don't worry too much about it and don't be too serious you are young and have an entire lifetime of boys liking you. : )
600142
Depends on one's age.  And it merely sounds as tho you're both at a tender age of not knowing what you want in your lives just yet.  Some take longer than others.  And some need many experiences and lessons along the way.  Do whatever you feel comfortable with.  Please dont make any life committmants until you're totally ready yourself.  :)
83503
live life to the best u can girl. im 15 and trust me you dont want to even tink about guys..THEY SUCK!\nbut if you like the other guy more....dump your b/f
318337
yes, grow up.  I would guess you are around 14-17.  This is not uncommon to get this feeling.  I've been there, you will be there again.  The girl you meet that makes you feel good to be you and doesn't give you reason to worry, is the girl you want.  Don't settle for less.  There are a lot of unstable girls out there.  But remember, your young, girls at this age are just growing up too.  Don't be too hard on them.
106836
choose the one that you can picture yourself with in the future. The one that you wont regret yourself with, wont be embarresed, and the one that your heart rips open to. The one that you miss right after he leaves your door step,etc.
323015
You're only fifteen? Girl, you don't even know the meaning of love. Just enjoy life and have guy friends. Eventually, you're going to find someone that loves you and you are head over heels about them. You're trying to grow up too fast. Trust me, enjoy your life and don't try to committ yourself now. 'Cause when you committ, it isn't all roses, you have to deal with the good and the bad. Stay away from those problems as long as you can.
645996
Yes, I did have that at the time. I'm 25 now, so I still remember it very clearly.\n\nI'm not quite sure what you mean by mature. Do you mean sexual, or deep? \n\nIf you mean deep, well, take her for walks and talk to each other, get to know each other's innermost thoughts and desires. If you open up a little bit with her - talk about your hopes and dreams, etc. I'm sure she will with you too.\n\nAs for the sexual side - I don't know you from Adam, I'm not going to even try to help you decide if you're ready or not. What I will say is this: You know how so many adults warn you to wait until you're very sure, not to rush things, etc? It's because many of us regret what we did when we were younger. Being in love at 15 is the most powerful thing in the world, and it's hard to think about what you really want when your feelings are so strong you feel like your heart and skull will explode with the power of it all. Some people (I daresay many people) make a decision they later regret.\n\nI don't know whether you and this girl will last the course or not, but I can tell you this for free- you will always have a little space in your heart for her. Your first love will always be important to you.
458873
im 15. so yea if you want sure and if u can keep it a long term relationship then koolz just have fun.
483003
when i was in highschool i felt the same way i was with my highschool sweetheart for 3 years before we sllep together and it was after i was out of highschool i was 19yrs old when i got my virgin brook and he is now only my baby daddy my son with him is 6yrs old and since that i feel i can not love anyone else since now i have a cold heart with men it is like i am looking for him allover again so make sure YOU wanna do it GOOD LUCK