For all the lesbians out there!! What is your current or past longest relationship??  5yrs and counting here!!
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Good on ya mate!  I love to hear that there are some long term relationships out there.  I've got 26 years in mine and there have been some tough times....and it looks like more on the horizon.  But I am optimistic.  We've made it this far.......I'm sure we can handle this storm like we have all the others.
599764
I would have arranged to meet my current wife(my 3rd) when I met my first wife. Then she would have had my children. First wife lasted 6 years, current wife has been with me for 27 and still going strong. It took me three tries to find true caring and love.(Oh yes, #2 lasted for three months!)
447429
Yes.I was married 5 years had a child with him.Left him for my lover.Been married to him now for 12 years.Still going strong.With 2 children of our own.We(all 5 of us)Are very happy.
511510
I was soooooo in love with my boyfriend about 3 years back.  We'd been together for a and a year later I found out he had another girlfriend, longer than me.  Now I've become very sceptical of men, even though my BF now is the sweetest!  I was soooo hurt the day I f9ound out that I pinched myself to see if I was in a nightmare.  When I got home, shook myself to sleep.  That hurt a lot!!!  What about you?
862306
YES!!! I held off getting into relationships for 7 years until I could finally move out and transition. Now that I'm transitioning no one will date me. It sucks...
68484
I had my first girlfriend when I was 5 Years old!
1034549
Met my wife online. We have been married 5 years now. I encourage people to meet each other but at the same time be smart and take safety measures.
57769
Interesting to hear the female side of this one...I was 25 and she was my good friend at the time.  She was experienced and we were both well liquored.  Afterwards I wished I had started a bit earlier since sex is very nice.  I had one additional partner before getting married and still feel lacking technique-wise.  Looking back it did impact our relationship but after some time passed we got back to almost normal.  But the one night was not a topic of discussion (yes only one night..I don't know what I was thinking when I said we should chalk it up to experience and stop there).
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I'm an older girl.....34....but am VERY curious about how teens deal with being gay/lesbian. I didn't come out until 2 yrs ago and didn't have to go through all the hard stuff as a kid/teen. How do you handle the dating scene? I can't imagine it. I'd have been scared to death to ask someone out for fear they'd 1) reject me and then 2) cause me no end of hell in school for it. Would love to know your thoughts on this! Send me a message if you'd like to share!     :- )
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I met my wife online 7 years ago on yahoo personals.  I liked her ad so I emailed her.  She emailed me back, and we chatted on instant messenger for a few days.  Then I called her and we talked on the phone for a week or two.  \n\nThen we went out on our first date.  I met her parents that night, we had a great date and saw each other every day after that.  We got married 5 years ago and have two beautiful children.  I don't regret it for a minute.  It is a wonderful experience and I wasn't good at finding the right woman at my college, my girl was at a different college and I would never have met her otherwise.
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there are TONS of stories of people meeting on the net, its been going on for longer than many realise. a friend of mine just celebrated her 5th wedding anniversary with the man she met on the internet. they also have two kids, she is a teacher, he is a chiropractor. dont sound like crazy people to me lol. i also know another woman who has been married the same amount of time and her husband moved from overseas to be with her, they have a daughter turning 4 next month. \n\nto me, its not really that different than how many relationships do or dont work out in 'real life'. if i count how many bfs i have had since i was 15, its over 30! so that means i have had 30 failed relationships so far and only one of them was met on the internet (but it still lasted 4 years and we had a daughter). out of the couples i know so far that met on the net and got married, not one of them is divorced. NOT ONE. yeah there is still time i suppose but other couples i know that met in person first have been married and divorced already, over half of them if i sit and count. so whats that say about the odds?
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It depends on the woman.  Personally, I've been with my bfriend for 5 years (it'll be 5 years on May 15th) and our sex lives are the same like it was when we first started dating.
210629
Yes, I had a "relationship" with two men for about a year.  That was something very erotic that we all enjoyed.  Ahhhh memories!
882882
In Jan., it will be 18 years (actually 19, if you count before we married)! EGAD! While dating, tho', the longest one was only a year. I didn't like commitment 'til I met the right guy.
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I met my girl in a game chat room. We've become gf/bf and it's going great. I hope we can say 4yrs, too, soon. And many more, of course.
406909
Hi Superdork!! ha ha.  Yes I'm feeling especially sexy today. My husband just gave me the longest kiss before he went to work. Lucky me.
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I met a lady on line and finally met her. She was about 10 years older than me and we both knew we didn't want to get serious, just have fun. We had a great secret and private relationship for about 4 years before she started to have physical problems.\n\nThose are 4 years, though that I will never forget. Unlike women my age, this lady really appreciated me and made me feel good. I went out of my way to appreciate her too. Sometimes I wish I could find somebody to take her place, but at least I can dream about her.\n\nTX Guy