one of my friends broke up w/ his gf and now we (the girl) talk a lot and have a lot in common should i ask?
823272
If you respect your friendship with the guy, I would recommend talking to him first and letting him know what's going on before you ask her out.  See how he feels about it.\n\nIf you don't care about your friendship with the guy, just ask the girl out.
1175232
ur friend is a player !! She doesn't deserve him!! But still wait 'til they break up. tHEN ASK HER IF IT'S OK.
549298
You should go ahead and tell him how you really feel. Who knows? He might like you as well. You could give him some breathing space for a while because him and his girlfriend recently broke up. Make your move and tell him. If all doesn't go well, there are plenty of guys out there. It can give both of you an opportunity to tell each other how you really feel and get your feelings out in the open.
368806
I wouldnt because they were your friends before you met this girl plus if your friend says luv ya that is different than say i love you.Plus if your g/f really likes she would understand
975168
She may be guilty that she had hung out with you so much even before she had been dumped.  The girl may also think that her boyfriend dumped her because she had been so close with you.  I don't think you should push anything or talk to her right away about it.  Give her time and if she ever needs to talk, imply that you will always be there for her.  That's most important and casually smile or say hello to her when you see her around.  You shouldn't do anything drastic or you will confuse and scare her away.  Good luck on this, I know relationships are hard!
734150
Friend - It depends on the reason for the break up.  Does he know it bothers you?  Have you discussed that he may still have feelings for her?  Not all break ups are the same or follow any rules.  GBU
876829
I would jsut talk to the girl and tell her what i think is going on between them and let her decide if she wants to break up with him or not because if you cause a break up and your freind finds out she might be angry with you!
521752
THIS IS NOT AN EASY SUBJECT!! FIRST HE NEEDS TO ASK HISSELF WHAT HE WANTS FROM HER A FRIEND OR A GF! CAUSE ONCE YOU CROSS THAT LINE ITS HARD TO GO BACK. AND HE DOESNT NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THE GF HE HAS RIGHT NOW. WHAT IF HE LOSES HER AN THE OTHER GIRL DOESNT HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS FOR HIM. BE CAREFUL IF YOU ARE GIVING THIS PERSON ADVICE. SOMEONE COULD GET HURT!!!
592660
What a mess!  Tell your friend, she deserves to know.If you talked about your ex around your friend. She'll know to drop him, because she'll know what kind of guy he is. You won't lose a friend, but she'll need you to be there.
699860
You shouldn't do anything but be a friend to him. You should ask him though if he's really interested in continuting a relationship with her. You never know he may end up with you in the end... but don't get your hopes up or your feelings too involved, it could get ugly. If his girlfriend still feels for him she could get upset if she thinks your stealing him away... be aware.
947462
He's a good friend, and she is 'just' his girlfriend.  You are fully within your rights to take him for yourself.  Just convince him on a purely logical level, and then call her up and let her know that he's not with her anymore, or something like that.
616801
who cares we are no longer together and he is my EX but as for my friend I would rethink our relationship because she may have wanted him long time ago--leave the past in the past and do what you have to do for you and take care of you let that go
35131
Asking about your love-life.  Using tactics to get you to call more often.  Asking you to visit.  Girls are much better than guys at remaining friends with their exes.  You can't really be sure that she is still interested in being more than friends unless she comes out and says it.
529969
ask urself the following questions..?\n\n1. Do u still have the soft corner for ur ex...\n\n2. Do u have any problem if ur friend datesur ex with her permission.. ?\n\n3. Do u think that girl will be right for ur friend..?\n\n4. Why are u giving your friend a feeling of guilt when he dates a girl who is ur EX..\n\n5. Who are u to poke ur nose in ur friends affairs.& poison their relationship\n\nask urself these questions and u will get the answers...
763351
Simply, curiousity with a little bit of wonder, maybe even jealousy.  Jealousy is questionable.  However, you don't understand why he was with her and really you don't need to or have to.  You might want to know why they broke up.  You may have deep down fears of them coming back around to each other since you don't understand why they were even together to begin with.  What you should remember is that he is with you and not her now.  If he isn't doing anything to see her, be around her, or have any sort of contact with her you really have nothing to be worried about.  If he is, then have concerns.  If he talks about her etc.  Put it out of your head if those things aren't happening and just enjoy that he is with you.
914428
She's the ex,no matter what she says or wants he's with you now and that says it all,if you trust him this shouldn't be a problem. Don't let this break you up, you have made the effort to be friends with her too by asking to meet her so if I were you I would just let it drop. Good luck x
658657
Firstly, I would personally ask her openly what she wants. You will never know until you ask. She maybe leading you on or taking advantage of you, or perhaps she just wants to be friends and is giivng you mixed signals? \n\nEither way you need to ask her and tell her (if you think that its appropriate) that you are interested in her. It may seem embarressing but otherwise you will never know- and you might be chasing something that is non existent.\n\nhonesty and communication are the key!\n\nSecondly, you have to wiat until the current relationship she is in, ends. Whatever you do, you must not be a factor in their breakup or to be the third person in the relationship. You must have respect for others, as they would (hopefull!) do for you! there is nothing wrong with flirting in the meanwhile if you are both interested.\n\nIf she is interested in you and tells you so (once you have asked her!!) tell her that she has to split up with her current partner. If she doenst do this, then she isnt interested-or is in interested in you for the wrong reasons.\n\nI hope this helps! xx