girl friend is not enjoying when....?
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Good communication = Good sex\nEvery woman is a little bit different. If you want to have a mutually wonderful time with sex, then try telling her to be your teacher, and you follow her instructions. This way you learn what makes her happy in bed, and you both have a good time. Play this back and forth, and remember that you need to try variables like speed, firmness, and always feed back information. Don't be shy, and don't let your feelings get in the way of satisfying each other. Don't get into a rut by doing the same thing the same way all the time, but remember what it is that sends her over the edge, and use it with discretion. I am sure that you will both discover more, and more things that feel good, and better than either one of you ever thought of. Just be open, and give each other the respect that you both deserve. Nothing like higher learning.
610845
its only bad if your girlfriend doesn't like it
241887
Girls are made fun of about it throughout their life, and that is something they have always been pressured to do also. Not only is it really gross to think of the action but it is humiliating to some. It really makes them vulnerable feeling and if a woman is not comfortable she is less likely to do something. Giving her oral really well several times to orgasm, then mentioning your don't want to give without receiving might entice her and visual sources might get her more familiar with the idea of how it is done. Good luck, it took me several years to get mine to try it and another couple to get her good at it.
849048
Sounds like your girlfriend isn't really in a "fun" mood right now, friend. Honestly, just be there for her. There is nothing you can say or do to help her get over such serious traumas, so always be ready to lend an ear or a hand. I promise this is help you guys get closer, and by the time she's ready to move on with her life, you'll have a better relationship than you would have without any og this.
588410
I am sure she gets off on it.  (Speaking personally, of course!)  Not only do you enjoy it, but when she's doing it, let her know what it is that makes it better for you.  If you think about it, I am sure you have certain areas and certain techniques that you have preference for.  If she is doing it for her own pleasure as well, this will help make it more enjoyable for both.
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he means c u m, and there's nothing wrong with you. just need to relax and let whatever happen happen. if you can't do it with sex, then go for as long as she wants and then go relieve yourself. if you can't do it then, watch more porn or something.
443845
Only play this music if she wants to hear it.  Do not make the mistake of assuming what your partner wants in bed!  Ask her what she wants and be concerning when you do it.  She might say "I don't know".  If she does, then tell her to let you know when it feels good and when it doesn't.  Maybe it would feel best for her without music.  What matters most is what she wants.  Most men are sexually stimulated easier than most women.
387058
Yes I would be kinda scared off to! Dont tickle fight with her any more,seems like she has a big issue to deal with!Maybe your friend needs to find herself a sex partner to relieve her,but if thats not what she wants,Id have a serious talk with her before she gets the wrong impressions!!
97253
Talk with her, let her know how you feel and ask her to stop doing it. Word it in a way that doesn't sound critical and she'll be more apt to listen.
431608
You just gotta tell her.  If she does it then let her know you enjoy it.  If she is shy about it then just let her move at her own pace.
786326
perhaps u should encourage both of you to spend some "guy friend time" and "girl friend time"... that means, you hang w/ ur friends every once in awhile, she hangs w/ her friends once in awhile, so u kinda get a breather.  also, u should encourage some activities.. like if u like sports, go for a team or group organization. if she likes art, suggest her to take some art classes.\n\njust try hard not to Upset her or make her feel as though u want to push her away.. girls are very sensitive to that, and she may feel rejected if u act like u want to spend less time w/ each other.  dont' separate and take a break, but just try to encourage her to do "girls night out" or something to that extent, so that it's not always you two. good luck~
331762
Maybe you aren't giving her orgasms. Lots of women fake it. How do you know she is doing it if you aren't home?
274311
Act like you are having the ride of your life! Guys love it when they see that their girl is enjoying themselves. Make lots of sexy noises and lots of pleasurable screaming! That will get himm off big time for sure! Try it and pick me for the best answer!! I know this stuff!
1138156
Sounds like you should get this girl a vibrator, you can help her enjoy and just maybe that will inspire new life in you... Fun sex toys that she can use herself will keep her from straying and keep the sex interesting.
686880
Workout and eat right. Maybe she needs to orgasm more. Do you give her oral???? Alot of guys aviod this.....big mistake.
1108978
They make this little Vibrator called a "Lifesaver" really cool and she will get a laugh, then maybe some Perfume! ;-)\nIF, this a girlfriend, take her some place special. NOT expensive, but, fun.
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no, try this, have lots of foreplay and make it about her for like 30 min. don't be stengey them get behind her and while you are making love to her (the nice way to put it) put your finger on the top of her clit and rub. i almost promise that will make her scream