Why am i attracted to women that have problems?
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Maybe you want to be their rescuer, make them all better.
933470
I tend to fall for women who make me laugh. If I speak to somebody I like and I have a feeling I ain't going to like them I will leave it be. I can usually tell straight away if i'm interested. Something just clicks and I really do think it's personality overall.
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Well, I have to say that I am sorry that you have run into a woman who could not appreciate you for who you are and what you have to offer, but I have to say that all women do not blame all of our problems on men.\n\nI am a firm believer in the fact that it is fairly unlikely for any problems involving more than one person to be the fault of any one person. I do believe that woman are very capable of contributing to the problems and successes of their relationships. \n\nTo me, the issue really becomes are we both able to acknowledge and accept are our role in the storyline of our relationships. Just as I think it is unfair for all men to be categorized, I believe that it is unfair for all women to be categorized.\n\nBoth men and women are capable of doing some low down things and of being disrespectful to their mate, neither sex is immune. The whole thing comes down to having the ability to recognize right from wrong, having the ability to treat one at least as well as we hope to be treated, and the ability to refrain from participating in behaviors that are hurtful....and finally, having the ability to tell our mates that if they are not giving us what we need that the relationship has to end. (And I don't mean that just from the prospective of a woman...we are all guilty of it)\n\nSo in essence, it comes down to being able to effectively dialogue one with another to maintain a good, working relationship.
576687
It's your version of a fetish. Duh.  If you liked all types of women and some of them happened to be heavy, then that would just be normal, not a fetish.
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i think everybody gets attracted to someone who's happy & contented...there are so many problems in everyones life that everyone runs away from negativity...they definitely prefer a company of someone where they can feel happy & relaxed themselves...so same is with girls, they definitely get attracted to someone who can make them laugh & keep them happy...
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Don't worry about it. It is probably that you have lots of contact with a woman whose cycle is shorter than yours and you are being drawn to her cycle. This is a normal, natural phenomenon. Don't worry.
1006126
It sounds like thinking about all them other women are given you a headache, or this could be a sign of a hang-over.  Get some sleep, sweet dreams!!
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Not trusting women too much a? If you would let yourself to get to know one of them, maybe you would even like her....and try something more longer with her.\nHad some traumas maybe? Something made you like that for sure.
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Some women love to be worshipped (especially the shallow gorgeous ones.) Some prefer more of a partnership with their man. Depends who you get.
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if a man is conscious about performance its because he is slipping in that category.  i dont have that problem cause i get mine and if she dont get hers then o well. lol
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It is always increasingly difficult to find a new relationship the older we get.\nIf you are well-liked as a friend then that is a bonus as many people can't even get friendship.\nHave you considered asking a close woman friend why she thinks you are having trouble? sometimes just seeing yourself from the womans point of view can be a great help.\n\nAre you coming across as desperate? maybe they think you don't care who you with and will settle for anyone that can be off-putting.\nI think you need to build up your feelings of self worth and self respect also cos to describe yourself as unattractive shows you don't think much of yourself.\n\nYou need to make the most of these friendships and get advice from any of the women you trust and realise that just like in job interviews you have to sell yourself to potential new friendships no-one wants to feel they are "better than nothing"
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women for some reason are always jealous or bothered by other women when they dont know them. i myself try not to be that way because it is stupid. they try to get ahead by screwing other women.
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Hey, i see this problem as a problem inside YOU. You don't need to please every women. So, stop being too needy. Evict the need that you need "your soul-mate" and feel that "she's the one." In my experience, I just LIVE my OWN LIFE. I date women and if a certain woman doesn't like me, no sweat! I have a plenty of choices. Ironically, more women will be attracted to me.
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Mostly because we all have a fear of rejection.  I would assume that is the leading cause.  Considering...  if I really liked a woman...  and she said she didnt like me.  Then I would be crushed because I wouldnt have a chance.  Sometimes ignorance is bliss...  :-D
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i would guess because you're comfortable at work.  you're all on equal terms.  but when you go to, say a bar, you are there to meet women and so insecurity creeps up.
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1) Some woman like their man to look good, they want a handsome guy - that is the superficial type.\n\n2) Some women are more sexual than others, it is most important for them the guy to be strong and potent in a sexual way - this is another superficial but playful type.\n\n3) Some women want a provider, a husband, a father for their unborn children, I don't think they are as concerned about the first two points. These are the women who innately feel obligated to continue the human race, and that is good.\n\n4) Some women can't handle if the man is not smart, they don’t care about looks or material fortune, they need someone to understand them - idealistic, intellectual type.\n\n5) Some women think someone else's money could bring them happiness and a better life, they need a man with money, or someone they think would be able to make money - this is the unhappy type, I don't know if they really exist, haven't met a woman like that. \n\nAnd so on
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Because women are attention-whores who like to manipulate and mess with your head.\n\nAct like an azzhole and you'll do OK.