what would you do if you had to change the life of a total stranger?
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I sthis in response to Oprah's question?
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By being yourself! Try random acts of kindness...
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I would approach him privately, and in a matter of fact way, tell him the entire story.  Be calm and serious about it, do not stumble over your words or hold back.  It could change your entire life.
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I don't think there is anyone alive who wouldn't change something or many things in their life if they could. However, the reality is that we can't, so we must live our lives with the knowledge we have learned from each regret. All things happen for a reason. Even though we may hate somethings about our lives I am sure there are awesome things that have come out of those terrible ordeals. For instance anyone who has gotten married only to get divorced, but had children, would say that having their children was the best thing that ever happened to them. Even though they had to go through it with that old hag or that jerk! So, we can complain all we want, but instead I would like to challenge you to thank the old hag and the jerk for the greatest gift of all......your kids!
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Put everything in perspective...what's the worst that could happen as a result of everything you mentioned above?\n\nCan you find some other interests?  Meet new people?\n\nThings will turn around soon, nothing remains constant.
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The kindest thing i have ever done for a stranger is well there was this homeless guy that always came down my road ever single day and i invited him into my house one day and i gave him some hot food and now he comes over almost everyday and i make him a hot dinner. I really enjoy helping strangers i volunteer at alot of places.
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Help those who could not help themselves. Give back to everyone I have received from. Lighten loved ones debts and medical expenses so they can free their spirits from worry and stress. Postpone working, seek knowledge to enrich and satisfy my own interests. Renew my wedding vows some place beautiful, have a big celebration with my friends that I never have time to see. Move from my current surroundings to keep my identity as a person that can do without everyone telling me what I should do.
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You already have a good start just by being aware of things you need to change. The best way is to ask God to help you and make you into the man He wants you to be.
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how can i change myself
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I think you need to get this guy out of your system and close the door on him once and for all. You cannot change him, don't waste your time trying.
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they should do anything to change their losing image
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I would go to a homeless person and ask what I could do for them?  \n\nI would go to some one that has been through trials and tribulations and offer my assistance in any way I can.  \n\nI would pray for everyone that needs Salvation... \n\nI would "witness to those in need" if the LORD puts it in my heart and leads me down that path...\n\nIt doesnt have to be a close friend, just some one in need, even a smile or a handshake or a pat on the back, everyone needs reassurance that some one is "there" for them...\n\nJesse
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i would probably freak!  i would walk around trying to find anyone, cuz how do I know I'm the last person?  I dont't relly even know what I would do?  is there still electricity and lights?  Id definatly get my new car and new house!  but I wouldnt have anyone to show it off to.
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I wouldnt change anything...you live and learn....everything that has happened to me has gotten me to where i am today....dont get me wrong, alot of bad things have happened...but i look at it as if i wouldnt go through it i wouldnt have my beautiful baby girl that i love more than anything in the world....
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Neither. Just change track for a while, do something completely different, visit some place new, start learning something you never have, meet people who are not 'your kind', do something crazy - your creative juices will start flowing again. Stop being you for a while, and you'll see.
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If I could keep the years I have already had and swap now I would swap with my friends little boy. He died as soon as he was born and never got a chance at life. So I would give him what I have left if he wants it
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I have taken a complete homeless stranger to breakfast, coffee, and conversation...That was five years ago. We still talk, he is no longer homeless, and he is not a stranger anymore...he has become one of my closests friends:)  It is unique for me because normally I am a stand-offish kind of person.