I called my boyfriend and he gave me an attitude like bogus az hell even (after I called)Is it over HELP!!!!?
812941
you should've never called him back. he should be the one chasing you, not the other way around.\n\nanyway, no worries... do it now... don't call him anymore. sever all forms of communication. he's just wasting your time and causing unnecessary stress. if he does call you, tell him it's over. the reason being he's an a--hole. to disregard your feelings is crossing the line. if he doesn't call you, you needn't call him to tell him it's over. just keep that thought in your mind and try to move on. call some friends, seek comfort from them, try to keep yourself preoccupied so that you wouldn't have him on your mind.\n\nthen if it's finally official, you can go on dating other guys. you deserve someone better.
623547
be firm and dont waiver. stand your ground, do not return phone calls, do not "go out with him"
49411
perhaps you should stop reading things into it, don't try to figure out what he's thinking.  Come straight out and be honest with him, "look, I said those things because I was confused.  I feel foolish, and you may not want to hear it, but the truth is that..."  if he is any kind of a man, he will hear you out.  Don't play games, if he is worth fighting for, be straightforward.  He heard what you told him and he took you seriously.  Don't try to "make him call", just seize the opportunity and do so yourself.  If he accepts an intelligent whole-hearted apology and he feels the same, it was meant to be.  Next time, don't be so impulsive!
167853
This guy sounds like he's really confused and a bit immature.  I think you really need to answer that phone and tell him how much you were hurt by what he did to you.  Talk it over . . . you might be surprised to find that he's been just as torn up about this as you have been!
655513
Don't worry about what you did so much.  He flaked on you when he bailed on the road trip.  His phone had to be working, so He was blowing you off.  He hasn't been returning your calls until he finds out you slept with someone.  Being a guy and see this happen many times, I am almost certain that he has another girl on the side.  If a guy is into you, he can't wait for you to call.  he tries to figure out excuses to call you.  When his phone rings and he knows its you, he will immediately answer.  If he misses the call, he will call you back just as soon as possible.  It doesn't sound like your man does this, so you don't owe him anything.  If anything, he still owes you.  I wouldn't worry if he trusts you, you shouldn't be trusting him.  He isn't acting like a boyfriend, he is acting like he uses you for sex and when he ain't getting it elsewhere, he comes calling on you.  This all smells fishy to me.
454147
He sounds a little scary to me. You definately should not call him, he sounds like the type of guy who will turn out to be a stalker.\nIt's much better to be with a man who will give you some space and not leave 4 messages in two days. If you didn't call him back after the first message he should not have called you again.\nFor your own sanity and safety, find a man who isn't so desperate. At some point, this behavior he has shown will drive you crazy if you pursue this relationship.\nGood luck.
1167836
Time to be harsh, honey.  This is YOUR life and you do not see a future with him.  Wish him well, tell him your reasons why, and STICK TO YOUR DECISION.  You don't do yourself any favors by continuing to take him back if this thing is over in your heart and mind.  What he is doing is a exerting a type of control over you with the crying and suicide threats.  You are probably a sensitive and caring person and he is playing on those emotions to continue a game that will have no winner.  \n\nIf you have really and truly made up your mind then tell him and let that be that.  You have no control over what he does at that point and if he hasn't seen it coming already and began the process of moving on, so be it.  Not your problem.  If he continues to call or come around, ask him nicely not to.  If it continues after that, call the police.  Don't send him mixed messages.  Your position is that I don't feel the same for you as I once did and I believe it is time to move on with my life.  And let that be that.
301291
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
1100817
Don't call him unfortunately you have only been dating for 2 months which means you still have to play those ridiculous games.....Even if he is bad at returning phone calls....if a man wants something bad enough they will do almost anything to get it.  I would wait.  I understand you want to see him but You shouldn't have to put all the effort into it...there should be some on his end too.   You are better than that....and NEVER show up to a mans house unannounced it makes you look desperate and needy they HATE that.  Good Luck
1084425
Geez ... do you press him to commit to call you ..."so will you call me later? Why can't you commit to just calling me? It would mean so much if you did? I'm sure the president calls Laura, can't you give me that much?" \n\nAny of that sound familiar? If not, listen more carefully to yourself next time. You should be comfortable with yourself, happy with the girl you see in the mirror and truly grateful when he does call you. Give him encouragement. Tell him how much you love to hear his voice when he does call. Demonstrate to him that he has a place of loving refuge with you. Give him that, and he will give you so much more.
831224
my friend was in a similar situation, il tell u wot i told her.dont ring him anymore(unless he calls u).if he likes u then he will ring u.guys are lazy so wait a few more dayz but if he doesnt ring cut him loose!
850123
this reminds me of my relationship.. it's hectic. give him some time.. you already apologized to him. Tell him to call you whenever he feels like talking to you. GIve him some time you already said sorry so that's good that you've accepted your error.. but yea goodluck... try not to disrespect each other.. once you disrespect each other then it's really hard to work things out... and remember everyone has arguments... just be straight foward with him and tell him that you already apologized to him and to please not be in a bad mood... communication is the key! goodluck hopefully he's not moody anymore... and ask him why he's moody maybe something else was making him moody :P
780444
Don't call him, just don't. There is no reason for it, HE broke up with YOU. YOU are a wonderful person and HE was too stupid to realize it so there is no reason for you to go calling this moron. You deserve better than that and you never need to grovel to any man. No woman needs to grovel to a man ever.
890601
Obviously if he thinks you are crazy, then you are trying too hard. Just lay off for a while and see what happens. If it is really meant to be it will. If you keep calling him and calling him, it will only make things worse, and him like you less and less. I've been there.
285139
If your boyfriend believes her over you, you should be happy to get rid of him!! For real send her a thank you card if she gets him to break up with you, just say it wasnt worth fighting for you could of just asked nicely and i would of handed him over along with his shot record from the dog shelter and his favorite collar.... if he picks her over you he wasnt worth it!
827563
Wait for him to call?  He already called you several times and you didn't answer.  Why would you want to call someone who stood you up?  You are better off moving on, since he stood you up.  Do not let him walk over you.
530117
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!