are other people scared of other peoples actions, what should you do if you think something will go wrong?
828153
That's a good question. I never really thought about it before. Right now I don't have and answer but next time I see someone getting scared of other peoples' actions I will definitely take that to mind. I am really sorry I don't have a good answer but I really want to get back to you on this.
1015288
People like you are scary.  What is the question?
86724
you have a bad attitude if other people just plan don't like it ...  don't worry about "them" your attitude is most likly just fine
186526
POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE!\n\nTell yourself that yes, people are interested in you, they do want to hear what you have to say, and they want to hear it clearly and consisely. Practice at home. Rationalise the way you feel! Why are you scared, and what is the worst that could happen?\n\nIt is only by facing our fears that we eventually grow out of them.
665550
It's not a bad thing if it is what you want to do, and it makes you happy. As long as what you do with your life doesn't hurt someone else, then do what you want. Don't live life for everyone else. But be careful, because there are alot of crazy people that hate others for being different, and will hurt others. Be yourself, but be careful.
1054622
I know what you are probably feeling- nothing is wrong, but it scares you to think that maybe something bad could happen to your relationship.  I think it's a normal thing, but what I try to do is not think about that possibility and focus on the present, focus on how wonderful things are, and not think about the 'what-ifs'.
750835
DON"T Say you are sorry if you didn't do it...just ask the person why they think you did it? Why would you cause this problem ? Have them think about it....also ask them if you can talk about it....maybe you did do something that hurt that person and don't Even know it...people get hurt over things that would NEVER hurt us...that is why there is conflict....Different prospectives!!
511318
Physically i don't think you can avoid pain with being too cautious or in the end you will be a phobic who can't do anything without being scared. But socially if you are too careful you will miss out on some of the best things simply because of playing it safe which will ultimately bring you pain in the end.
903345
Before these strangers do evil against me then i could be untrusting, but i am a human being as these strangers are. If a person mistrusts all strangers who are unknown to us, then what kind of world do we live in. I for  one will not live paranoid or scared of who wants to hurt me next. The reality of our world is one of unfortunate pain and suffering and death, but there is also amazing beauty in this world as well. One that comes to mind is how a infant smells and loves so overwhelmingly, that the pain of labor or the news reporting another killing, gets put aside for that moment. Take that moment when it comes along..
243925
Lack of control of the situation.. People are afraid of what they can't control...
807613
ALL people are selfish but to different extents\n\nif somebody let you down it doesn't mean you should completely stop trusting people - just be more careful who you trust next time
1148901
You don't have to be afraid of it happening if you stand your ground.  Say it does happen.  When you see them next and they say, "It was a joke, I would never do anything with you,"  just look them in the eye and say something like, "I'm sorry that you have nothing better to do with your time than to pull jokes at someone else's expense, because I certainly do."  If you carry an attitude that demands respect, they won't pick on you anymore.  And if you start having that attitude now, it isn't going to happen at all.
829956
Everyone makes mistakes.  Some people make the same mistakes over and over again, and some learn valuable life lessons from their errors so they become better people for it.  Some people let their past failures consume them and they won't take any chances in life for fear of making another mistake, others keep trying and don't continue to beat themselves up over past screw-ups.  BOTTOM LINE:  Take what you learn in life and apply it; and don't let fear of what might happen stop you from trying something new or taking a risk.
522689
Try to rationally diffuse them. Think about the worst case scenario and if these fears are imaginary you will eventually realise that nothing is going to happen. Its probably more difficult than it sounds - its not always easy to put something out of your mind but persevere and you'll be fine!
244458
Ask yourself whether the behavior is one you admire in other people.  Ask yourself whether the behavior will make the world better or worse (not just for you, but overall).  Ask yourself whether you would want to be on the receiving end of the behavior.\n\nIf you don't admire it in others, if it will make the world a worse place, or if you wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of it, then it's probably wrong.
671294
i wouldnt befriend ppl who jumped my friend no matter if she was wrong. violence is never justified, but thats your decision. if you are scared of your 'friends' then you prolly shouldnt be their friend.
249778
Everyone feels nervous or afraid at one time or another.  But, if you want to be successful and do everything you  want in life, you’ll need to overcome occasional attacks of fear. Eleanor Roosevelt once said: “You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.”  It may make you feel uncertain to even think of attempting to do things that scare you, but isn’t it even more frightening to miss out on your dreams and aspirations? \n\nHave you ever done something that initially scared you, but then in retrospect you realized that it was not as scary as you originally thought? Your imagination had actually taken your fear and magnified it in your mind. Remember, your imagination is incredibly powerful. \n\nBefore you can eliminate fear from your life, you’ll need to identify exactly what it is that you fear. Start by forming a written list of things you want to do, but have avoided because of fear. It doesn’t matter if you have a few or a lot of items on your list, it is up to you to name them and begin to delete them – one fear at a time. Then, for each of your fears ask yourself the following questions. Each answer will help you understand more about your fears and move you closer to overcoming them.\n\n1. What is it that is making me afraid?\n\n2. Is this a fear I want to overcome and delete from my life?\n\n3. Am I allowing this fear to keep me from achieving my dreams?\n\n4. If I did the thing that I fear what would happen to me physically?\n\n5. What would happen to me mentally?\n\n6. Would the opinions of others matter to me if I did this? If so, why? \n\n7. What’s the worst thing that could happen if I did this? Could I live with this outcome?\n\n8. What’s the best thing that could happen if I did  this? Would this outcome make me happier than I am right now?\n\n9. If I never overcome this fear would I feel regret later in life?