what to do when you don't want attention from somebody you don't like romantically?
827002
Don't do anything any differently, Augustine...  he will drop off the radar, in time, trust me.  But by doing nothing differently, you and he will establish a strong bond of friendship, which will benefit you both in times ahead.  \n\nLet him have his love~sexual, fantasy... Do nothing to enhance, nor deny it, he will learn, and that learning will be very good for both of you.  \n\nBoys are like this, ~~ thinking of sex, every 1.000000004 seconds or so, with partners, or alone, whatever.  You can't change that, so just understand it.  To Boys, sex is a conquest, a relief, an end which justifies the means.  \nSoooo, Let Him Fantisize, let him hang, he will figure it out, in time.
82098
If he doesn't like you, nothing you can do will change his mind. \nWHY! would you waste your time when there are hundreds of other guys out there who would jump through fire to be with you? I know you think you love this guy, but what is really attracting you? the fact that he doesn't want you?
589424
Just simply tell him in a nice way that he is making you uncomfortable and you are not interested .
693084
Tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate his friends "attentions".  That should cure it....
860960
Well, if you don't like him, don't worry about what other people are saying. Just don't lead him on.....
818008
It all boils down to you wanting attention. You want this guy to pay attention to you even though you have no feelings for him. Your jealous because the attention is not on you. You can't expect it to be about you anymore. It doesn't work like that.
889366
I think it si a sign of insecurity for someone to lead another on.They are feeding their own ego.I agree with you and think a person should back off if they have no interest in the person they are flirting with-especially when they know that the person has feelings.There ARE people with more cahrachter than this.I hope that you find one,and I believe you will-Otherwise,are you sure the person in question does not really like you back,and.how do you know?
340309
Don't kiss anyone you don't want to kiss? :)
760915
You want what you can't have.\n\nIf you act like you no longer care for him, I guarantee he'll suddenly be hurt by the loss of your attention. Make yourself that unattainable object of his desires.
229849
it is like this, what comes around goes around. maybe you will get the "thanks" from other people. however, do not do things if you do not feel comfortable with them. just let this person be. he may be a character but if you are not emotionally close to him, then just let him be. just do not be bothered by him. now, if you are close to him, you might try to talk things out with him or try small jokes or little hints regarding what you want. if it still won't work, just let him be.
695352
This just means that you are not deeply in love with this person. It will come. Once you get to know him better you will feel different. Whether your not attracted to him or you just cant be yourself around him. I've expierenced this situation and know exactly what to do. Follow my advice and you'll get somewhere in life.
1053244
you aren't in love - you are infatuated. \nshe doesn't want you - give up, heal & move on... you can't find happiness with someone that you have to convince to like you.
541325
Distance yourself. You won't want to, but staying close to someone you want but can't have just isn't healthy. Don't tell the person or anyone close to them what you are doing, as they might try to convince you otherwise. Just try to get away for a while. You don't have to cut the person off completely (although that is an option). Don't call him/her, don't go places where you know he/she frequents, and make yourself scarce. Take the time to reflect on your situation and learn more about yourself. \nDate. While you are distancing yourself from said object of affection, try to date people that you like. Don't settle for whoever asks you out, or you might end up making someone fall in love with you who you don't love back! Approach people, try new things. You might want to compare everyone to the object of your affection, and you won't think anyone measures up. Stop this right now. You know there's someone better out there. Go find him or her!
902420
maybe the way you reject them is abit direct even though you might think you're being nice about it. I think the best way to reject someone is just say ur already involved with someone else. hope this was helpful.
407806
I got the same treatment from my ex-girlfriend.  I think they just don't like you and can't come up with a really strong arguement for it.  In any case, you should move on.  In fact, if you lose all feelings for him and he sees you ignore him, he might actually become attracted to you again.  But you really should move on.
821840
If you do not like him, just be frank and direct with him once and for all. Tell him waht a loser he is and how he makes you pity him. Or if you like him have "the talk" with him, but he needs to know no matter what u feel about him always flirting with you. Then he should stop.
758752
hmm.. \nprobably just try to tok to him more.. get more comfortable around him.\nif he senses that you feel uncomfortable around him he might think you don't like him or don't want him around and avoid you or sumthing..\njust try your best to get more comfortable around him