What can we do to stay together?
815050
If anyone ever tells you that they do not fight in a relationship...do not believe them.  As long as your communication is there and you work through the arguements - you will be fine.  Just do your best to not bring up the past, no name calling, no physical abuse, no destroying property.  It's OK to argue just do it constructively.  You both need to listen to what the other is saying.  You will be fine.  Good Luck!
188447
Communication, and understanding\nYou each have your own lives, let them cross but let each have their own space...!\n\nLearn everyday, bend every so often.\n\nBe open to new things, always try!!
1008341
1:  evaluate your relationship, you could both just be tired.\n2:  get a babysitter and go on a Date!  A real date, get dressed up, go to a movie, have a nice dinner, do something romantic and try to be sure the evening is dedicated just to yourselves.  Make-out....  you don't have to have \n  s-e-x   if neither of you is up to it.\n3:  excercising can raise your endorphines, help you feel better, less tired, healthier and better about yourself- he should excercise as well- you guys have children's futures to look forward to- so stay healthy..\n4:   talk to one another- go for a twenty minute walk or do some simple gardening together-  you need to reconnect with one another as man and woman not just -husband/wife or mommy/daddy-   your grown ups Say what's on Your mind- you may actually find something out about eachother that you don't already know.  If possible try to talk about Happy things .\n5:  find a place where you can get a massage together, the rushing blood will make you both feel invigorated-\n6:  is you feel very bad, and aren't opening up I would consider talking to a doctor or a counselor -\n7:  Turn off the TV and do something together!  Turn on the radio and play some songs you both grew up too, remember the good old days... \n\nGood Luck...
180785
leave your boyfriend.\nmarry her. have kids. teach them some values..\n\nit's always like that.. since the beginning of mankind. a man marries a woman.
285573
Move back into the same room, being separate will not help!\nTry  for a weekend get away.
1125789
Here's a few options..  \nplay card games, board games, video games, or whatever kind of games you would both enjoy.  \nWork on improving your house together (if you don't rent, or if you, redecorate!).\nListen to music, even better, dance to it!\nRead together.  \nCreate something together, if you're an artistic type.\nDo a puzzle together, or a crossword.\n\nHope some of these are helpful!
21788
Keep your chin up, and understand that will be a lot of time apart from each other. But if you really love the person, don't give up, no matter what. It is not easy, if there is not an official commitment to each other, but just keep the love in your heart no matter what happens.
80057
Not the fact that you can live with one another but the fact that you cannot live a day without eachother!!=)
702343
By treating each other the way you both want to be treated.  No matter how long you have been together, never take each other for granted.
858105
there's no point in living together when things aren't good. if not happy together, at least can stay happy apart.
605726
pull yourself together.\nyou know you want to.
178132
i think this question needs more details.  i do believe there are many devoted people who can keep a relationship together it is definitely dependent on how strong the bond between the 2 of you is.  it probably also depends on how long youve been together before you leave.  good luck to you and remember everything happens for a reason.  if youre meant to be together you relationship will withstand the distance, time and separation.
971681
hon if you know right off the bat you cant be together, walk away, dont look back and go have a great life   :)
622284
Say so up front...set the boundaries...\nSpend time doing things outside of being together\nfriendly - keep things single...and if you go out regularly go with lots of friends
603941
No, it certainly isn't enough to keep a relationship going. You have to have lots of patience and be able to communicate. Communicating certainly is tough right now and that's where the patience comes in. (Patience is also absolutely necessary when it comes to stubborn people as well!) Plus everything going on around us is bringing a lot of confusing feelings into play right now. That's not helping the situation and deployment just complicates matters. You guys are the only ones who will know if you can get through these tough times, but he mostly needs your support right now. He's physically in a world far far away from the life he's used to... and mentally, who knows where?
1121755
Be at peace.  You are with people that love you.  In the end that is all anyone can ask.
555407
Relax and enjoy .Things never go right all the time ,so enjoy it every time it does for as long as it does.