My girlfriend broke up with me to see other people so we know if we are really right for eachother.???3?
826980
Girls know what they want and she thinks she is being kind by giving you excuses.  Before you get hurt any further get yourself away from her.  Don't even talk with her.  There are plenty of other girls out there that will want what you have to offer.  If this girl has to make up excuses - it is over!  I have been down that road many times.  It's hard to tell someone that you have had relations with that it is over.  Most caring people don't like to hurt others so see it for what it is - over.  I am so sorry for your situation but unfortunately the truth hurts.  I also have been on your side of the situation.  You are looking for any gleam of hope for this relationship to work but unfortunately its only one sided.  It hurts.  The sooner you walk away the better off you will be.  Ten months, while it is a long time, it would be worse if longer.   The "perfect guy for her" is more than likely her way of saying she honors your friendship.  When women are in relationships and opt to get out they want their cake and eat it too.  It's ok for her to move on but she doesn't want anybody else to have you.  Hope this helps and good luck to you.
1093874
You should respect the other girl and move on. Why should you be the reason why they broke up.Do you want it to come back and haunt you later. How would you feel if you were dating a guy and someone made him brake up with you so they could go out with them.Remember love hurts it does not need help.
718321
It doesn't sound like she is your girlfriend anymore. I would have said that she needs to make her choice, but it sounds like she did. What should you do? Bow out gracefully and make yourself scarce. Find a new girlfriend.
125846
Unless you have an open relationship and don't mind her getting down with other people, I'd say you have to decide whether you're going to be able to trust again, and if you really want to be with this person...\n\nMy guess: not likely.
432070
What you can do is be happy that she is happy in another relationship, and move on. It may hurt, but that is the only choice you have. She is not going to come back to you right now because she is with someone, and unless your personality has changed signifigantly in that time, she will not be interested in you anymore. It sucks. Most people have a long list of people that they had to break up with before finding the one and they all hurt.
443691
Give him a chance.  If you think later that you dont think he is right, then breakup.  I wish the people I asked out would...
471969
What?  I have no freaking idea what your question is anymore.  I am not even certain of who broke up with whom. I am not sure if you got back together again or what.
299185
Sorry dude, this is the way of the world. The truth is that you were dating "the kind of girl" that would do that. So, it's better that you not be with her. \n\nConsider yourself a free man. Go forth and date other women. Just make sure you don't take her back or act like it is ruining your life. You need to be the better man (or at least act like it). Your best bet is to show confidence and near indifference to what happened. Other girls will flock to you.
574197
if she broke up with you then she isnt your girlfriend any longer.. but if she was cheating on you when you were together then be thankful she ended it.. once a cheater always a cheater...let it go and find someone that you can be happy with.. if you think she was cheating then more than likely she was or had plans to... move on and have fun.. life is to short...
407294
break up find someone else
80981
did you talk and explain to her why you broke up with her. communication is very important. you should talk to her. stay come and try to step into her shoes. if that dont help well than its something she has to get through but atleast you know you made an effort. its like what is that saying you can lead the horse to the water but you cant make it drink.
1072259
Seems she still seeing if you are the right one.  She probably needs a little more time away from you to sort things out.  You should be content with the fact that she still cares for now.
6018
You're either in or out.  I don't think it matters if you act like it.  If you both decided you're not a romantic couple any more, then you're free to see whomever you choose without guilt or worry.  \n\nOf course, you may be having doubts that splitting up was the right thing to do.  Maybe it wasn't even your idea.  Then, to you, seeing someone else could feel like cheating.  You have to decide for yourself whether it's really over.  As long as you're not sure it is, you'll probably continue to feel guilty about seeing other people.
885813
if she broke up with you let her go people come and go in our lifes for a reason   shes not the one for you there are plently of other fish in the sea one that is meant for you
290534
You seem so bitter towards your exs. Perhaps you are not as good of a person as you think. When my last relationship ended because she had been cheating on me for a few weeks and told me that she was breaking up with me, I held absolutely no grudge, I was just happy that she was happy.\n\nYou will find someone who is right for you, just be honest and true and you will find someone who loves you for you.
594664
believe it or not, right now i am in your ex's situation and when i told my ex that i want it over means, i want it over. fullstop. i'm not seeing anyone else but i just feel like being single again and spend more time with my pals. i realized that having a gf too early was a big mistake. she didn't do anything wrong in particualr, and she's a very nice girl. i just need some time alone. hope that "answers" your question. good luck though :)
954859
you should go back out with her because she miss you from what you saythe reson i know this is because me and my b?f have been going out for about 1 1/2 we have broke up once because of a miss under standing something that happened and i know how you feel because i felt the same why my grades droped and i droped out of all the sprots that i was in like cheerleading, horse back riding, soft ball, volley ball  so yes you should go back out with her and you should email me at sweeetsugarplum_2011@yahoo.com