How can I find a girlfriend not through going to pubs and nightclubs?
819293
yeah 1-900-im a sucker try that
900060
1. Join a gym\n2. Join a book club and invite someone out for drinks/coffee after the club\n3.  Join an athletic club, like a community softball/soccer league - again, ask someone out for pizza/beer after a game\n4.  Go to a jazz club and pretend in your mind that are meeting someone. That way you'll feel like someone you know is really coming but you can still start up conversation with someone you meet there.  \n5.  Take a class (anything that interests you, photography, science, etc) at a local college or community college. That way, you can meet folks who have similar interests as you.\n6.  Go on a singles cruise\n7. Do speed-dating\n8. Ask co-workers out for drinks after work or just to lunch\n9.  Find activity pals on yahoo.com or other websites and go meet them.\n10.  Just say "hello" - you'd be shocked at the response you get!
599292
Stay out of the bars when looking for quality women OR lower your expectations. There are surely good women in your area you just aren't meeting the right ones because you're looking in the wrong places or you just expect too much out of them. Good luck hunting!!
682749
The best thing you can do is go out and be around the general public. I know far too many woman who just stay at home all day and cry over why they don't have boyfriends. I keep telling them to go out to the mall, or a bar, or a club, or something, but they never do and the only people they can blame are themselves. So, basically, get out and go to fun places. You can meet a good significant other anywhere.
577067
At church, the gym, bowling allies, just about anywhere you are doing activities of some sort. At least that way you know she's not a homebody and likes to have fun.\n\nMake sure you're out of your house and not just sitting at home on the computer waiting for her to show up at your door. I don't suggest the mall unless you have a lot of money and like shopping (if they are there when you meet them, they'll be there 3 times as much when your dating them.\n\nGood luck!
123830
there is no secret place to meet someone. it can happen anywhere at any time in any circumstance. You have to put your best foot forward at any given moment and behave like that person of your dreams is around the corner. Take extra time in the things that you do and look around.Start calling in favors with friends and get set up on the infamous blind date as painful as it sounds. Join a gym, play bingo, get out there and hunt like your ancient ancestors did.
1138114
Well it depends on what type of female you are trying to meet. There are many places to go. If you are looking for a conservative type female who doesn't go out much, you can try the library(like a Barnes and Nobles or book store), coffee shop, or mall.If you are looking for a more out-going female, then you have the clubs, pool halls, bowling alleys, and bars. Now it where you meet this female will also depend on how you will need to approach her. Believe it or not you can actually meet a female at the grocery store. Everyone has to go the grocery store for something. Of course, like before, you will just have to approach her different than you would a female at the club.Hopefully this may be of help...If need more explaination or help, do ask. I'm not an expert but just have experience.
779750
time to find a girlfriend
257550
i am sure there is. Just get out there and meet people, and you will find someone that is just for you. It doesn't happen over night and it won't happen unless you get out there and talk to girls and meet them. So go have fun and your meet your signifiant other.
32904
it depends on how old you are. if you are 18-21 you could find someone partying.(if you are a party guy)it all depends on what type you are. or you could simply walk outside down the street and she could be right there waiting for you! you have just got to take chances and understand that it might not work but dont let that bring you down.
159940
hmmmm\ntry try try n try until u get the girl. the other day i was talking to my husband bout dubais night life so he told me that there is no concept of dating in dubai unless the girl gives u a chance so u better look good who know sumone will soon get in touch with u or mayb u have a secret admirer
449439
It depends on the type of girl you are looking to find... Church and bars are not the best place to find one... try something your interested in like maybe a hockey rink or health club...the library, movie store...Walmart!!! Good LUck
929097
Try to make new and different friends... hang out with new people, and then when you meet their friends, thats where you will probably find a new girlfriend...
20824
Are there any clubs in your area that have activities you like that you can join?  Does your town ever have any fairs or anything that you can go to?  Try asking a friend if he or she knows any single ladies looking for friends to do things with, and start out that way.
198991
try going to clubs in your area.
559710
I'm 26, and not 2, and not from CO.  Go to a bar and find someone.  \n\nGood luck!
440741
Then go place a personal ad to find women.  This isn't for that purpose, if you read Yahoo!'s Answers Terms of Service.  \n\nhttp://www.match.com