Ladies - Is it really all about confidence?
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Yes, confidence is a big part of what attracts women to men.  And muscles help, too.\nYour wife is lucky.  And so are you.\nDon't let it go to your head, big guy!
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None of the above.  Self confidence is number one.  Than it's his soft side ( helps old ladies cross the street, etc).  And than it's his eyes!! We must see that he is confident in all that he does, and doesn't question himself. Having someone there to help us out with a problem ( his soft side, again) is a major plus.  He must be able to look you in the eyes when he speaks to you.  That's where all of your emotions are- in your eyes.  Girls can also tell if you are lying that way.  Its all about trusting that a man will be there for you always, and not hide anything from  you.  That is what will impress her. Looks go away in time. Money can't buy love. Height goes away in time, also- people shrink! Humor is a good thing, for sure, though!
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darrrrrrrrr lagta he, to chhod do use, its all abt confidence. be a man, buddy
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confidence, sense of humour, is genuinely a nice person. also, when a man is "less good looking" than a man, the woman might feel she has more power. also, she might have been cheated on in the past, and with a fat man, she might think he wouldn't do that.
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Absolutely!  Self confidence makes you beautiful.  I think that's where "inner beauty" comes from.
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There are no guarantees like what you are looking for. It is probable that your insecurities are a sign to you of the obvious and likely possiblility. What amazed me, and I wonder how many picked it up, was that you did not say that you were fearful of losing her to another female. Now that is interesting!
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I can't speak for all women, but me personally, It was more of a turn on... something about the shy smile, and being worried enough to care about the impression you're making, intrigued me, made me want to know more. I am speaking from personal experience, my hubby of 20 yrs. now. But I was always very "turned off" by brash over-confident males.
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Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
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No one can make you more confident.  You have to do that for yourself.  If you go looking for some guy to boost your self-esteem, you'll attract a guy who will tell you anything you want to hear to get you in bed, & from what you are saying, that isn't something you are ready for at this time in your life.  Right now, you need to focus on you.  Try to work on school, a job, & make the most of yourself.  If you start setting new, realistic goals for yourself & achieving them, your confidence can't help but go up, & guys will notice this.  Good luck.
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Being nice goes a long way for me. Of course we all want to have an obviously attractive mate. However, I've met really pretty girls with terrible attitudes that make them the ugliest of creatures. And I've also gone for some really nice girls that may not be the standard in beauty or physical form.\n\nAnother good quality is confidence. Not conceit, but knowing ones self to be good. Confidence is a secret weapon of both male and female. People will be attracted to such a person and may not even know why. \n\nIt also helps if you keep yourself well. Regardless of your physical shape, keep yourself clean and fresh. I've seen too many girls who think that they can just slop by. Every guy wants girl to 'look' like a girl.
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Being confident fo sho!!  When a person has confidence you wont always notice the teeth, or the cash flow issues, it presents a hotness unlike anything else
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confidence and a smile\n\nI can't resist!
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it depends on the man.  but don't dwell over it men like women that are confident about who they are. be happy. :)
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Yes sweetie, u need to be confident but also relax and try to be urself!
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Im a guy and a pretty shy one when it comes to that. I think it would be a lot easier on us if you ladies would speak your minds and let us know a little more. Besides, he would probably feel intimidated and you would probably keep the upper hand in the relationship if it goes that way. Personally I like it when a woman takes control and isnt afraid to be herself. good luck!
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Girls like confidence, a sense of humor and attentiveness. If she talks, listen. Compliment her (be honest though). Maybe you don't feel confident, but if you pretend you are, you'll convince yourself. We ALL get nervous around "the one"- even in our 20's. There's more to being attractive then just whats physical about you.
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I'll tell you this, your job and your material posessions don't mean anything if you lack the personal qualities woman like to see in a man.\nAre you confident and natural?  Do you make women feel relaxed and safe?  Are you good at carrying on a conversation?  Can you pick up on the subtle cues of attraction?  If not, you're screwed.