why is it, that if a woman works hard, gets her own place, car, etc, does not have a husband or partner she is
818470
You go girl... I agree with you 100 %.... I have bought my own house, my own car, but I have worked my ass off for it too.. If I left it up to a man to do for me, it would of never got done..Good luck to you and all you do...
633255
Women often stay in those types of relationships because they think they can't do any better than that (i.e., low self-esteem).  They also may not think they can "make it" on their own, especially if they do not have a college education.
1137763
because society has ingrained it into us to have the mentality that men can do whatever they please and that women have this precious virginity they are to guard against all except their husbands and they are to submit to them. a woman who sleeps around is synonymous of power and independance and belongs less to her future hubby than she would if he were the only one she ever "gave herself to" its all societal--you wont find that to be true in matriarcal societies...
694882
Wow!  That is quite a burden for a young man just starting out.  I live in the US.  Here and in most western societies it is common for women to work to help support the family.  I've been married for 28 years and did not work only when my children were very small.  Once they went to school I went to work.  How else can a family have a decent home and vehicles?  I'm sorry that your girl's family rejected you - maybe it wasn't meant to be?  Once you graduate and are in a better position financially try again.  Hopefully your girl will still be unattached and available if not then you know she wasn't meant for you and your real mate is out there waiting for you to find her.  I wish you good luck.
410498
Women don't NEED men in their lives.  It is nice but not mandatory.  If a woman feels they always need a man in their life, they need more assurance in herself and more self esteem.  Until you can live on your own, you can't attract a guy worth being with.
448336
You know I wonder about that myself,I guess it has to do with the way women were raised thinking that a man should provide for them and buy them stuff, WRONG! if you want to have a nice house an a nice car then WORK for it I did!
791791
Trust me it happens with older women as well, and not surprisingly there are some men who experience settling for second best instead of being patient. The root of the problem is while we want to have a successful career, money in the bank, a big fine house, and the 2.0 children, we don't want to wait until the right person comes along who feels the same way about certain things in life as we do. Therefore, we settle for someone far less mature and serious about life than what we had intended because we don't want to be alone. We hate being alone, we hate spending time with ourselves, we can't stand the quiet. For some reason we believe that it is easier to be with anybody than with nobody.
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Lots of reasons.  Society as a whole has this image of the perfect woman...she's cute, she's young, she's way too thin, she has lots of money and friends, doesn't seem to work, and always has a balanced life even if she has a job, kids and spouse.  Real woman struggle to even come close to what the media and advertising and magazines have set up as the normal standard for women.  It also doesn't help build self esteem when the men in your life are all of a more immature or shallow nature and subscribe to the above impossible definition.  As a woman ages and matures, she gains back a whole lot more self esteem and keeps it intact.  I hope this answers your question.
1185557
I think sometimes women get so caught up in taking care of the family, and their careers, that they often put other people's needs in front of theirs.  This may delay a woman in seeking medical treatment at times.  As a woman with a family and career, I find it difficult to take care of my health needs; however, I do pay attention to them, and address them.
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because there are people who feel that women can't handle it.  Historical its was though once a month "you what time im talking about" a woman lost her mind and was bed ridden.  this set the pattern that woman were not fit to be in the postion to lead.  There are still woman who once a month lose there mind and are bed ridden whick keeps the notion in motion
100267
Basically just like everywhere else. There are a lot of working mothers but many men do not feel that women are equal in business.
88301
Women have completed their single lives way before men do. Women usually date more often than men do because it's much easier for them.
809745
A possible missed opportunity.  She's not happy in her present life situation and is looking for something or someone to give her happiness (sadly she doesn't yet know that you have to make your own happiness).
817960
Thats not very nice, We try our best, all we ever want to do is help you out. If we allow you to get on with things by yourselves, such as cooking, cleaning etc. its only because we want you as women to feel independent and that we wouldnt want to infringe on your rights as a self sufficent woman.
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Its not like that at all. Historically women have been assigned a predetermind role in a male dominated society and most women choose these career options so that they have good opportunities for growth. Women have all that one needs to become a pilot, politician, construction engineer or a fire fighter etc etc. But since they are all men dominated they have to struggle too much to succeed as men constantly feel threatened by their presence. \n\nNot many women are employers because of the simple fact that men with thier super sized egos find it extremely difficult to work for a woman
734614
BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT GOOD PERSON TO GO IN SOCIETY AND WORK.  THAT IS WHY THEY SEND THEIR WIVES TO WORK AND BRING BREAD AND BUTTER FOR THEM.
1095761
I bet that its because the men dont have cars so they find a chick to take advantage of