why man's behavior toward his girlfriend changes when they get married? ?
815010
Because some men think that after they marry the challenge is over.\n\nmandy
1127334
He's  a jerk, accept it now and move on.  \n\nHE WILL NOT CHANGE ONCE YOU MARRY HIM.
578158
yeah sometimes they do, but that relationship often doesnt work out either. i see your dr phil nickname,, i watched a program of his a couple years or so ago where they stayed in touch with people where they met when one or both were married, had an affair, and then eventually left those marriages and moved in together or got married. the divorce rate of those new couples was HIGHER than the country avg of about 50%. it turns out that the trust issues transferred into the new marriage because they both already knew how deceitful they could be and started wondering if the same would happen to THEM now. it usually spells disaster. if the married person is unhappy they should leave the relationship and be on their own for awhile before starting something new. instead of stringing everyone along.
1057522
YOUR RIGHT men are dogs and it's not always the girls fault  for what they do (i admit sometimes it is) but I do think that your friends are using the fact that you are angry with men in general against you.  They need to ask themselves if they would feel the same way you do if they were put in those types of positions.  Don't stay mad thought cause one day you will meet a really nice guy that deserves you and you don't want your bitterness to ruin that.  And NO it isn't you I'm married to a  faithful man and I feel the same way you do.
201462
Not good.  First, he is taking you for granted.  He sees no consequences for his actions and treats you like the dog that gets kicked for no good reason.  He may have frustrations, but has failed to learn or remember who really cares for him above all others.  This is a sign of emotional immaturity.  He needs a wake up call and needs to grow up.  How would he feel if the shoe where on the other foot?  He probably wouldn't stand for it, so why should you?  Don't.  The next time he pulls this crap, I suggest you react in a calm, yet defiant manner by explaining that you care for him, while he seems to have forgotten what a healthy supportive relationship is.  If he wants someone to take out his anger on, then he's got the wrong woman.  End of story, so no more of this behavior against me...no hard feelings.
1010884
I think what happens is many people get married before they realize the responsibility that this involves. Sure the wedding day is great, a big party where all of your friends bring you gifts and your the center of attention but after that, the two of you both need to make an effort at all times to keep things interesting, fun and loving. Many people are just not mature enough when they marry. I think that is the issue most of the time.
430437
Because usually they are closer to their mother than the wife..plain and simple. They act like they can't do anything without her permission. When you marry it is good to still be close to her, but you also have to know who comes first and more important she has to know that...K
45555
Jealously, dishonesty, resentment, and lack of communication makes marriage unstable. Trust and honesty makes life stable.
1152402
You mature together so things definetly do change.  People grow and change.  The question is-will you still love the person they have become?  That's what keeps the marriage strong.
339552
If you are worried about men appearing to be really nice and then turning in to "not to nice" after marriage, you should wait a few years before getting married. A person can pretend to be nice for a short while but can not continue so for too long. At the same time, you need to look at yourself to and see whether what you do is making the man change.
269692
This might have something to do with her depression. As her moods change, how she sees the world and feels about it change. Love does also evolve and change the longer your with someone. I have also found that when I'm mad at someone it can sometimes overshadow my love for them.
434278
Maybe, he has become more maturer with more life experiences and with age.  Also, when you are married to someone, you have more expectations from them then you would have from a friend.  Sometimes, with friends there is more emotional separation so you are more able to make clearer and better choices.
424569
marriage is between a man and a woman.  bottom line.
536037
well seems like a difficult question. the truth is that it all goes down to the character of the said individual coz sometimes even if theirs a faithful person who really loves her, she might have the notion that that person is after her money.\nsome men are "money-craze" they would go an extra mile to get what they want,they might claim to love you when what they mean is that they love your "pocket" and if it ever runs dry then you start seeing them in their right colour so like i said it all goes down to character and destiny. there are angels as well as devils dressed as angels.again some men are too scared of marrying rich women because they feel that there will be no respect for them.as they not completely the bread-winner of the home.more so since her father is very rich, there is the likelihood of constant interference even after marriage.
247279
Well, there are a couple of reasons I can think of. First, maybe he doesn't feel his wife is treating him well (emotionally or sexually) and what better way to improve the way she treats him that to invoke that monster of jealousy...that usually makes women go overboard with sex and niceties in order to keep her man from straying. The second reason may be that he simply wants to be honest with her...doesn't want her to find out from someone else.
1144968
Yes, some women change, because the man changes after marriage.
1061010
Ok this has happened to me Men do things like this for a number of reasons: they feel they are not getting enough attention, they are bored and restless in the relationship or you are having trouble getting along,,,but whatever the reason this is UNACCEPTIBLE! \n\nConfront him ASAP tell him how you feel about him and how much this hurts you, find out what prompted him to seek companionship outside your relationship.\n Perhaps its merely sexual reasons. If this is the case try to spice it up a bit. If he refuses to communicate I would reconsider setting a wedding date