ok im going out with this guy my friend also really likes... (more detail inside)?
814592
If you love him, why would you break up with him? Talk to your friend, tell her that you love this dude and that's just how it is. I know that now-a-days we're all into the "friends before lover" thing, but it's important to do what you'd like to, as well.
517433
well. If it were me I would go with what i think is right. If I really like the guy I would first have a chat with my friend and see what she would think. If the guy likes u not her, then there is not much point in letting him go if ur friend isn't gonna beifit from it any! hope that helps!!!
994542
will what i would do is go out with the girl or in your case the guy you have more feelings for b/c but i would go out with iono thats a good question but i would talk to both and then figure out which one i would go and then maybe theyll make me happy and if they dont then thats a mistake i made and thats what i call chances just rember which one you know better the closest frined will long more then a boi you just meet follow your heart not your head iight anymore questions holla at me at babyboychris32@yahoo.com iight duces my frds call me babyboy so yuh holla
884070
if he likes you go with him. If your friends is really good friends they`d understand && be happy for you .
55996
Make a choice. Are you and guy #1 on a see each other only basis? If not no problem. If you are then you better decide or just leave it alone. You will lose what you have and might not like what you get!!
499454
Well, fess up first of all. Admit that you were talking to his friend.  But let him know if it was strictly just talking out of friendship or whatever it is. Be honest, if you were talking to his friend and you think that you're attracted to the friend, then try to date the friend if he's available. Don't keep leading the other guy on and letting him think that you're into him when really you're into the friend because you want them both or something like that. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm just saying you need to explain yourself. If he doesn't respond then let it go, as much as it will irritate you to leave something at that, you'll have the peace of mind to know that you did what you had to do and that you've apologized and offered some sort of explanation. It is his fault for burning any bridges. And remember to look at signs, this may be a sign that you're not compatible with him, if you can honestly see yourself saying that you wouldnt do this if the situation was reversed, then you know you're on different levels. Good luck with this situation.
796149
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
1139188
Ask yourself who is more important to you at this point in your life. Your age is not real important, but I would say that you are a younger girl, and therefore you need to ask yourself what your gut instinct is telling you. If you ask the guy out of he asks you, you are certain to loose a friend. Will the guy still be with you 1, 2, 3 years down the road? Will your friend still be your friend the same amount of time down the road if you and he are not together? Your heart and you feelings will cloud this issue. Don't follow it, follow your gut instincts, as they will lead you to a better and safer place in life.
407018
If you two are already somewhat friends then you should just ask him to go out to eat or maybe for a walk nothing serious at first. Once you take the first step you will feel more comfortable around each other and then you can see where the relationship lies. Good Luck!
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
1111056
Forget what your friend says, You are the one who is going to be dating the guy, not her. It doesn't matter who came first. but more who fits the position better...like a job position hehehe....who are you more compatible with and who can you get along better...who are you more interested in....whatever makes you happy is really what you should focus on instead of which guy's feelings youll end up hurting
288675
well do u like him? after u and him go out your relationship with your friend will never be da same that is if you don't lose her after going out with the guy
409394
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
391072
Your friend knows very well that he likes you. You need to ask yourself if you really like him? There is no point in going out with him just for the sake of it. You don't sound very interested in him. If you do like him then go for it. Tell your friend that if he was interested in her he would have ask her out not you.
396009
Just wait it out and do what feels right. Wait for a little bit until you know them both better, and take it from there. Don't think that you need to make a decision right this very second. Give it a bit of time.