HOW do you know if a guy is gay?
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It's all in the eyes.
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Don't make the mistake of assuming someone is gay by comparing them to a "laundry list" of stereotypes.   I know many guys who like to shop, wear great clothes, and listen to techno.  They're not gay.\n\nI know many guys who love to play football, drink beer, and don't shower.  They're gay.\n\nIf you want to play games and possibly offend people, then sure, look for "signs".  \n\nThe truth is that there are no SURE FIRE SIGNS to be certain about ANYTHING about ANYBODY. \n\nBe an adult, and ask him.  It's simple, direct, and if he gets offended, let him know that you want to know because you're interested in dating him.\n\nBeing upfront, mature, and understanding will get you far in life.  Playing games and stereotyping makes you just like everyone else.
173843
He is full blown gay. If you have gay tendacies than you are gay.
66489
Get to know him. Mention a news story that you've seen on gay people or a friend you know is gay or tell him that you are gay/bi, and ask him what he thinks. If he reacts well to gay issues, just tell him you like him. Even if he doesn't feel the same way towards you, if he's comfortable with gay people you can still be friends.
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Are you gay and looking to find out if he is too, or is he your boyfriend and your not sure. I need more details to work with... But my advice is not to worry about it. Just be supportive, and if he is gay he will tell you when the time is right.
422179
i don't no but just ask, or if not tell him u want to watch a gay adult movie and see if he gets excited over it.Plus i think some men are feminine and no necessarily gay. Additional some men are gay and not feminine
1062664
u can tell if a man is gay most of the time. females r hard to tell that thier gay unless shes a butch.
889743
if u r gay he may be interested indeed!\nbut if u r not then maybe u ve gotta see more signs b4 drawing conclusions!!\nthink bout it!
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How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet. \n\n\n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay. \n\n\n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay. \n\n\n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n\n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffee is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too. \n\n\n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious! \n\n\n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone. \n\n\n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
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umm... be fully aware that the guy's either doing one of 3 things: 1) just being a friend and lacks the confidence to do anything about his desires (straight) 2) just being a friend and wants to show  you his home decor (gay) 3) trying to get you comfortable to have sex with him sooner or later,\n\nBe careful.
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Well, if you catch them engaged in a sexual act with a person of their same gender then that would be a good sign. \nI almost cringe to even answer that question because I do want to perpetuate stereotypes of homosexual people and I do not want people to think that there are real "signs" of being gay as though gay people are so different. Bottom line, it's probably none of your business. If you are a family member or are concerned for a friend's emotional wellbeing then maybe you could ask them. But if they are not "out" then you should not tell. Sexuality is a very personal thing and having a sexuality that is different or considered "wrong" by  mainstream society or that person's family can be especially painful. Again if you are a family member or a concerned friend then offer a sympathetic ear and your ability to be sensitive and keep a secret. Otherwise, concern yourself with  more pressing matters.\n\nRemember when addressing this that any sexual prefernce is not chosen. People are born with it. And even if people believe it is a matter of environment and not a matter of biology then know that it is still out of that person's hands. Please remember to be kind and understanding of all people and their sexual orientations.
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Be careful, he may be playing you. You should try to find out the status of his current relationship, whether he's happy or on verge of breakup or whatever. But to be honest with you If a guy is "Friends" with you he's considered dating you, unless ofcourse he's gay.
875448
i dont know the guy probably was gay
1004258
He's gay anyway. Oh, are you a man... sorry... don't know the answer to your question
398148
You need to be honest with him. If he's straight and not into you then at least you will know. Maybe he wants to know because maybe he's interested in you. Either way you need to be honest with him. If it's meant to be it will be. Show him respect always and by being honest with him it shows him the utmost respect. Good luck honey!
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There are no tests parse.  It is what a guy feels.\n\nIf a guy is turned on by other guys and not really by girls -- particularly when he is masturbating -- then he is gay.\n\nIf a guy is turned on by girls and not really by other guys -- particularly when he is masturbating -- then he is straight.\n\nIf a guy is turned on by both, then he is bi.\n\nAll of this presumes that he can accept himself however he is and is not trying to force himself to be one way or another.  If he is trying, for example, to force himself to be straight, then he can suppress his homosexual feelings for years, but they will conquer eventually if they are there.\n\nIf you have further questions just ask.\n\nKind thoughts,\n\nReyn\nbelieveinyou24@yahoo.com
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well if the other guy you thought is gay, is not...\nthen the best thing for the gay guy to do is too either see for himself cuz the 'straight" guy may be lying, or to find someone else