has anyone ever been contacted by a deceased loved one and what happened, and what did you do?
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Yes. When my infant son was sick he had a certain odor about him that I could not do anything about. When he passed away, I could "smell" him on at least 3 occasions. I then told him I was OK and that he can go to the Father. Ever since I said that to him I have not smelled that scent. I brought this up to my husband and he said he noticed it a couple of times too.
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You need to get in touch with the executor of the deceased's estate to find out the particulars.
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please give some more details.how you lost her?was she your wife?any old contact number etc of her?
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I am so sorry that you are mourning the loss of your loved ones.  Although I have never experienced the death of a descendant, I have seen how much grief death can cause.\n\nIt seems like you are already doing one very good thing that can help you a lot: prayer.  As you continue to pray, God can speak peace to your heart.  I have also found that reading scriptures is a good way to invite the presence of the Holy Ghost into my life.  Whenever you participate in something that is true, He will testify of its truth, and His presence can give you comfort because He is a Comforter.\n\nAlso, you can learn a few doctrines that can be especially comforting in times like this.  Our Heavenly Father has made it possible for our families to be together forever.  Death does not need to be the end of our family relationships if we don't want it to be.  It is possible for you to be joined to members of your family in a way that you can continue to enjoy your relationships forever.  To learn more about this, I encourage you to speak to a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
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Dear Vickki, I am assuming you have lost someone dear to you in death? I am sorry for you pain. I know the days often seem so long. God does not promise us a life without difficulties and sorrow. He does promise his grace, his mercy and his endless love. It is so hard to understand but someday we will! I hope you can find comfort in knowing you will see your loved ones again. Think about all the wonderful times you had with this person while they were here on this earth. Thank God for blessing your life with their life. By thanking God, you will find the most amazing comfort. Peace will come and you will be able to go on. Hold on to the  the memories and treasure each end every one. I will pray for you and that your pain will be eased. God Bless!
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Of course you should call him up! While your at it, say something like, "I am so sorry for your loss, i know he meant a great deal to you." \nDuring times like this, it's not so much what you say, it's being there to listen. A grieving person usually wants to tell someone their memories of that person, share moments they had. It honors their memory and keeps them alive in the minds of those who loved them. \nI think it is cool that you are concerned enough to want to do the right thing! Good luck.
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From, my mother who lives in Mexico and I have not seen her for 6 years. I would like to recieve all call from her, because I love her, she makes my day when we talk over the phone. She is my mother and she is my Holy Mother who gave me birth.\n\nShe is the person I will always want to hear from. Thank you Mommy!
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Please accept my sincere condolences.  This must be particularly difficult, as your family is dealing with three issues:\n\n1)  The untimely death of a loved one;\n2)  That death was by a horrific manner;\n3)  There still are unanswered questions.\n\nYour question is timely, as I had a cousin who died under similarly questionable circumstances.  Answering your question has spurred me on to action.  I'll be requesting information on her death shortly.\n\nAs a family member, you have a right to contact the police department (which appears to be the Alaska State Troopers) in the area in which he died.  Now, keep in mind, they may only release information to immediate family.  You do have the right to request informaiton, though.\n\nYou might also request a copy of the report, if the case is considered closed.  If the police department releases one, it is likely to be redacted (edited, with names omitted, possibly).\n\nConsider also requesting a copy of his death certificate, and an autopsy report, if an autopsy was done:
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First of all I want to say I am sorry for the loss of your father, It is always very difficult to lose someone so dear to us.\n\nI would like to share with you this really amazing experience I had  a few years ago.  I awoke from my sleep,  and from the early morning light in the bedroom I could tell it was about 4:30 in the morning.  I remember seeing the bedroom door and the dresser from where I was laying in my bed, my bf was sleeping beside me, I could hear him breathing.  \n\nThen all of a sudden this man's form gradually appeared beside my bed!  I remember being a little frightened at first, but at the same time feeling rather strange and ab it curious,  I remember looking at his face and noticed that his eyes were black and piercing, he looked a little curious himself but I would not say he looked happy or friendly, he was just staring right at me.  I noticed that he was wearing a checkered shirt, and that he seemed like a  big man.\n\nIt was within a few seconds that we were just staring intently at each other, when I ever so slightly tried to nudge my bf to wake him up.....the split second that I did that I noticed that this apparition's eyes darted over to my sleeping bf, he than quickly drizzled away right before my very eyes!\n\nI woke up my bf and jumped up and turned the lights on.   I explained everything that had just happened in detail.  \n\nHe said it may have been the man that had just died a year before of cancer, and  that he lived in the suite below. (it was a 3 level house that was a rental, and he was the owner that lived on the main level with his wife).   \n\nThis has never happened to me again, I have never been visited  by this person since than.\n\nI believe that your father knows how much you love him and that he watches over you like an Angel.  I believe that our loved ones that go before us just know how much we loved and cared for them.  \n\nAs to your question "is it possible to make contact with the dead"?  I suppose it is possible, but I would be very careful, because I have also been taught that while trying to make contact you can also open up the channels for bad spirits to enter into your life as well.\n\nTake care and remember God comforts those that mourn, and that he is always there for you all you have to do is call on him.\n\nGod bless you and your family
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I’m really sorry for your loss.\n\nYour experience is very normal, and I’ve heard as much from other people, especially if they had a good steady relationship with the parent who died. My grandfather died recently (he was in his 90's), and my mother is going through the same thing, even though she was prepared for it.\n\nEven deep friendships have the same sort of “resonance.” One author wrote about his best friend dying in an unexpected accident and said that every time he saw a white SUV of the same model as his friend’s sitting in a parking lot or passing him on the road, he had to fight the urge to pull over or turn around and look for him. His head knew that his friend was gone and not coming back, but his heart kept hoping anyway. \n\nThere are so many cues around us that we associate with someone we care about, and even when they are not there, we are still cued to respond.\n\nI know it’s distressful, but unless you are doing some dangerous things because of the feelings or find yourself unable to function on a daily basis, I would just say you’re very normal. \n\nLook at it as a clear indication of how much you loved your father and what a good relationship you two had together: Even though he has died, his presence still seems very real to you. \n\nHe is in a sense “always with you.” \n\nThat’s actually something special -- it's an experience that some people never have with their parents or anyone else. In a way, although you are suffering his loss, you are still very blessed.
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Although divorced now, when I was married we just had our first child. Shortly thereafter, my father-in-law was diagnosed with terminal cancer. He stuck it out with us for two years. As his time approached, everyone knew and my wife (at the time) gathered with her brother and mother at his bedside. I stayed home with our son. That night at about 11:30 he passed. About 1:00 am that morning, I awoke to hear our little son talking in his room. This went on for about 20 minutes. Then quiet. I fell back to sleep, and upon awakening in the morning went to get my son. When I did, I asked him about his talking last night. He said yes, he was talking to Pa pa. I cringed and said what! He repeated, he was talking to Papa. I said where was Papa. He pointed to the window in his room! I was in a cold sweat, and didn’t know what to say!\nSuffices to say, from that point on, I believe there is more death than we can know!\nThis is a true event!
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Let me give you an advice..\nDont let the ignorance go too high please..\nFrom my experience i have lost a person..\nSo i please beg of you..\nThis is coz i cant see something special go to ruin..\nMy best wishes to you to have everything fine..
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Wow, I'm sorry to hear about that.  You definitely should call her right away.  I would start by telling her your heart goes out to her in this tragic time and that, as soon as you can, you will be there to assist with anything and everything she needs.  Ask her if there is anyone she would like you to contact, and anything she would like you to bring when you come to visit her.  Then make sure you follow up on everything.  Unless you've experienced the same type of lose, don't ever tell her you know how she feels, or you know what she's going through...she might take offense to something like that.
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Hi hon!\nThis happened to a friend of mine also.  He was 19, had cancer.  Was on some serious medication, but was getting by.  Then we all stopped hearing from him.  Visited his house, but his mom said he had died.  But his shoes were in the hallway.\nSo we all grieved, and moved on.  \nYears later he showed up on one of my friends doorstep.  His mom had told all his friends that he had died.  What a bitch.\nMaybe he didn't want people to see him like that.  Maybe his mom thought his friends would stress him out.  I don't know.  All I do know is we aren't friends with him anymore, we wish him well, but what a terrible thing to do to your "friends".\nSo I shared a little something with you there didn't I?  Take it for what it is, an experience.  Perhaps you aren't getting the whole story either!\nHave a great week...
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My mom met one, once.\n\nShe and my dad used to bring food to this old lady, Ms. Florence, who was about 90. They'd do things like get her turnips mashed with potatoes. When she died, she went and said good bye to my Mom. She knew Miss Florence had died before my great great aunt called with the news. Kind of bizarre.
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well if its not yours it depends on the reason.  I know some people who have family members that died and have profiles and its almost impossible to get them down.  If it is because someone is saying they are someone they are not you can email them and they will tell you what they want you to do.  This happened to 2 of my friends.  As far as anything else you would need a very good reason.
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you are a prime example of someone that cares in this world, and to the people that have missing relatives, your help is greatly appreciated!!!\nThanks