Will things ever get any better? Period question?
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If you need to ask specific questions, contact your local Planned Parenthood. \n\nYour periods should be more regular as you get older. They will be irregular around the first few months that you start having sex. As you get older though, you'll know when you are about to start. Keep in mind they are PRE-menstrual cramps, if you are getting them, your period should be there within the next few days. \n\nAnd to answer your question, yes, it will get better
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I have had several times in my life such as yours. The best thing to do is to try to look at the good things in your life rather than the bad. Life has many ups and downs, however the downs stick out more than the good so it is important to try to focus on those things that make you happy. Time tells all and things will surely get better. Your attempts to make them better will only help along the way.
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PMS, sweetie!  I am 34 and mine seemed to get worse the older I get, too.  Change your pill.  It might help.  Your body may be changing and you may need a different  percentage of certain hormones then you used to.
865078
No they are not more painful than your normal periods.  Sorry to hear about your loss.  It is hard.  I also lost 2.  In a month or so it probably will be regular again.
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Your hormones could be out of wack right now. I had the same problem. You will need to seek a professional so your condition can be properly diagnosed. They may give you a prescription for birth control pills just to regulate your period. Good luck and take care!
645514
I understand what you are saying. Periods suck!! Try talking with your doctor and express how you feel. There are different medications that will allow you to have only 4 periods a year. The only sure fire way of never having a period is having a hysterectomy and you are way to young for that.
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i turned 34 two months ago, and i know where you're coming from.  i also had a tubal, which i thought was affecting everything from my mood, to my body fluids, and i even stated LOSING weight! (tried before, didnt happen).  maybe it's pre-menopause, at least that's what my ob/gyn tells me;  it could also be hormonal changes other than pms- my doctor told me to start exercising and take b12 supplements. hope you feel better and i hope this helps!
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Yes, my past comes and bites me in the ass all the time...some days I wish I could have a "do over"..so I could make better choices...I know youre not feeling sorry for yourself, it's just so frustrating sometimes...like you want to scream"I'm Sorry, I'm trying my best, I'm not the same person !" Hang in there and keep making good choices and doing the right thing now...
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Hey, you know, I am kind of in the same boat as you are, except for I have pretty much gone through having to hear my ex-husband cry to me every single time that I spoke with him to let me know how much is missed me.  I have two young boys with him, and believe me, it has been really hard, but thanks to my dear boyfriend who I now love a lot I have made it through.  I have been thinking about living with my boyfriend too, as my divorce will be in June, but it seems like I can't wait that long.  I don't know, but I just know that women seem to want things done much quicker and we don't like to wait to get what we want.  I would say to do what your heart tells you to do.
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I'm only a guy and English at that. See your GP, the most likely treatment will be a hormone pill of some kind - probably the birth control pill. If your GP doesn't fix it. Ask for a referral to a gynecologist. They have more experience and a wider selection of medication to choose from. Stress can make it worse - so try and chill out. Hypnotherapy has been known to help improve it.
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I assume you mean you have a period often and you don't like it? If you are on a normal 28 day cycle then don't worry about it. The problem with taking a drug to "fix" our natural experiences is that there are short and long term side effects that may be worse than the original experience. The first step to improving your period is to eat a clean diet (fresh fruits and vegetables) and find an exercise program that you enjoy (maybe Yoga or Tai Chi). This won't solve every problem but you will be healthier and feel better during your cycle.
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I have the same problem its happened about 4 times to me. But i think that its meant to happen. i know its hard right now...and i know everyone says it will get better and i truly think it will. But you just have to remember there are a lot of good people with good hearts out there. And one of them is absolutly meant just for you. I hope that you find that someone soon.
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Oh, honey, I am so sorry!  This is exactly why I had to go off the pill.  You would think it would make you more even-tempered, but NO.  At least not in my case, and apparently not in yours, either!  That's not to say I don't still have PMS ... but one thing that helps is being able to know what it is.  When you know you're reaching that time of the month, prepare yourself & your family!  As soon as I can tell myself (and my family) that I'm in a foul mood due to PMS, I feel like I can better control it.  Other than that, I would say you can ask your dr. if it's okay to take things like St. John's Wort, or if he has other suggestions.  He may suggest a lower dose of the pill, but it sounds like you've already tried that.  But he may have other suggestions as well.  I feel for you ... it's not fun for anybody!
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Not at the moment. Everything just feels so wrong!!
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sweetie, life will indeed have these types of time periods. The very very MOST important thing you can possibly do right now is try and believe with all your heart that this tough time will pass and that it will get better. It may even take a little bit of time but chances are your life can end up being even better than it was before this hard time started. In the meantime, write out your feelings in a journal and/or talk with a close friend or relative you trust not to judge you. The choice is ultimatly up to you. You can either try your hardest to believe that life will turn around for the better and aim for that goal of better times or give into all the negative energy around you. Please don't give in to it and give up. It will pass.......just believe in the better things and in yourself.
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Don't see those as signs of doom, I think they're signs that God is testing you early on to see if you both have what it takes to make it. Things can always get better, don't ever think things could get worse, or they will!!\n\nIt sounds like the wedding started the whole issue here. I suggest planning a vow renewal on next anniversary, put your wedding dress back on, do it all over again, but this time, BE THOROUGH!!! I didn't have enough food at my wedding either, hubby and I didn't get ANYTHING to eat except wedding cake, which had to be repaired before the wedding since it slid in the back of delivery van and crushed one whole side of it. Plus, 3 of the 4 air conditioners went out in the hall, in July, and I was wearing a long sleeved silk wedding dress that weighed 48 lbs. Plus, I was 5 months pregnant!We didn't let that ruin our day, we even stayed and cleaned up! \n\nYour marriage is what you and your hubby make of it. So what if it started badly? Thats not a sign of doom!! If you love each other, then thats all you need.....If you want to, take my suggestion of a vow renewal, wear your dress, and have a small quiet dinner for close family and friends this time. Do a BBQ or something..........I bet things look up after that for sure...GL;)
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You will feel better with time; and you are not the only one who experienced this. So, move on and know life will get better. Also, you will have a better idea of what to look for in your next relationship..