why do we always have to be someone else that we don't like?
820676
It's insecurity. It's a defense mechanism that we put up to not being hurt or show your true feelings for fear of getting hurt. I've grown out of it when I left my teenage years. Now I just be myself and let people see the real me. I'm actually quite a cool person :P
632498
I think it has a lot to do with unreal expectations that we as people can put on ourselves, others, and on situations. When we are young, we are emerging as people so it is understandable to be insecure. But as I got older, I was able to gradually accept who I was and no longer had to try to fill the role of some fantasy character that I imagined that I could be. I just learned to let me be, let them be, and to let things be. And now I am happy.
1044674
you can't-- as the old saying goes-- you can't please everyone/ no matter what you do, or how you act... there will always be people who appreciate your qualities... and also "haters"  either they are jealous, or just miserable people... but!  you cannot let other peoples' opinion of you dictate the way you view yourself-- or let others' opinions change you in a negative way, otherwise you will be in a perpetual state of trying to please others.. and you cannot win that battle, without losing others.
416439
easy, pple tend to hate u, just because u act differently when yourself, but its nothing really. also its because of the "role" figuare is probally the one they compare u to. If they hate u, ask yourself this- "Do I care about what they think?"
144318
looks is always a good thing but personlity stands out more because you don't want to be with someone who has a bad attitude or who does things you don't like or who doesn't share anything good or worthwhile in common with you.
1137661
Because we have already born with our personal skills, temper, mood, state of mind...\nAnd it is hard to understand but is like been tall or short, It is the way we are, is people who love us, who have to accept us as we are... Why are you trying to change, found people who like you as you are instead...
255088
I think really it's only human to want the things we can't have. The ones who love us the most only want the best for us which means putting up with the bad things as in not being able to go out, a crappy curfew, etc. So we end up hating them for a while but in the end they only wanted the best for you. The ones who hate us, they let you do whatever you want to you tend to like that freedom.
1022343
YOU can't change anyone.  If a person is going to change, they are going to change for themselves and if they attempt to change for you, you are going to be surprised later on.  It is not right to try to change a person.  You are saying you don't like the way they are about something.  If you can't handle the way someone is - we all have "flaws" -- then just step away.  What if someone wanted to "change" you????
345302
People disagree because they have their own personalities.
36751
Some people don't like anyone who is different than they are in any way.  This includes race, religion, sexual preference, national origin, etc.\n\nSome people fear what they don't understand.\n\nSome people come from a family where prejudice has been handed down from generation to generation.  Unfortunately, they don't even understand why they don't like something.\n\nSOMEDAY I hope we can all learn to understand and accept each other...
1169739
You take a look at yourself. We're often most annoyed by our own worst traits when seen in others.
974814
It's the only way to be. "It's better to be hated for who you are then to be loved for who your not">
450325
A person either likes you or not.  You can't go on in life changing who and what you are to conform to what makes other people comfortable.  First, it won't last too long because you are who you are.  Second, it will get tiring and frustrating because you'll have to keep up a "front" for that person, to keep them around and you will eventually come to resent them.  Just be who you are and accept the fact that people will like you for who you are or not like you for who are.
898035
i hate mine i just pretend he's someone else
1032847
People don't like me.  They aren't nice to me.
970430
I think sometimes people are looking for a way out of having to accept someone who is otherwise cool but also a bit of a threat to them in another way. Not right, not fair, but it's what some SMALL MINDED individuals do....
806393
yes, i've had that happen to me.  i think it is because we've known that person before in a previous life.\n\nhave you ever met someone and you felt like you've known them forever, while others that you meet you dislike instantly?