I want to try out for cheerleading next year but I'm afraid it will ruin my relationship with my best friend.
829337
Hey, if you wanna do it go for it! explain to your bff that this is something you REALLY want to do good luck!
436196
I'm a cheerleader too, I know how you feel..I live in a small southern town where football is life and all the girls love to be cheerleaders. We have over 200 girls tryout every year and we also only take 12-15. But the best thing I can tell you to do is smile non-stop, show tons of spirit, practice what they teach you, and most importantly be a confident in yourself and you should do great!! good luck
533690
Girl your body is your body. There will be men that will love it and men that may have a problem with it. Yah there are surgical procedures that will help that, like trimming it. If you feel that strongly about it then you should have a heart to heart talk with your mom. You dont want to cut them yourself girl. lol. That could do lots of damage. Just keep them tucked in or something. wear panties that will hold them in when you are doing cheer. And just no matter what have confidence. If some bitch says "damn you got some fat pussy" to you when you are in a cheer outfit, just be like "and???? I know I got a badass body!". \nWe are made how we are made and if you dont have the money to change it then just do what you can to take care of yourself and enjoy your life. If people got a problem then fuck em, they aint worth your time. Beauty is seen differently by everyone.
477360
Make him understand that you do not love him. Try to avoid him all the time. He will not be around you to be insulted. You have to break up your relationship with your best friend if you are not ready to take him as your life partner. Because things will never be the same again. But I would like to suggest you to take him as he wants. he will be able to make you happy as he is your best friend.
437147
Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
27733
2002 gives good advice.  Don't strike out just watching the pitches go by, take a swing.\nJust don't get weird, make sure Hannah understands her friendship is most important to you.  If she goes for someone else, she should know it won't mean losing your support.  Don't place all your hopes for happiness with her, keep looking.  You all might end up swapping horror stories and discover you are really well suited for each other.
606511
No way not at all! From reading your question, I can tell that you are probably not one of the cheerleaders that do it for the popularity. There are two cheerleaders:\n1. People that do it to get a boyfriend and to be more popular\n2. People that work their butts off everyday at practice, and that know that it's not all about the skirts and cheering for hot guys\n\nSo type 1 cheerleaders might be a little bitchy, but I am betting that you are type 2 cheerleader, so no I don't think you are mean. I DO however think that you are probably the best cheerleader on your team/squad because you take it seriously. GOOD LUCK!
1023868
Your gonna have to talk to your best friend. He's going to have to convince her that your ok, I mean if he likes you and they're in a relationship then she shouldnt have a problem either. She's Probably just a BIATCH.\nI had that problem too. Except My friends girlfriend tried to kick my ass later. ShE had a TaZeR (ouch) =( But eventually she got over it and I got wit her friend We still going out right now.\n\nBut gewd luck wit dat anyway yo
86252
You are both obviously old enough to run your own lives.  As long as you two are both happy the other people in your lives will just need to learn to deal with it.  It is never easy for people to watch the survivor move on but how they deal with it is their choice and not something you can control.  Everyone deserves to be happy and you both have been lucky enough to find each other so don't let anything or anyone get in your way.
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
447965
Dont listen to other people if they critisize you. Its a free sport not just for girls. Many guys try out for cheerleading. Guy cheerleaders are very strong. And sometimes when guys are brave enough to stand up for what they want to do then girls fall for them very easily. Just trust me and do it! If my bf tried to be a cheerleader i would not critisize him i would be excited for him. dont be afraid just do what you want to do. and if you friends make fun of you then their not your true friends.
1116711
Boy thats hard...Especially because its your best friend It all depends on if you are willing to risk yourfriendship. I always have started out by saying ya know I had the craziest dream about us... just to feel the situation out and see what response I get then go from there. Good luck...
1152607
Real friends let friends do what they want. Let love go into your cheerleading, don't worry about someone who hates you.
630118
i think if you found out your best friend was planning on ditching you next year i would ditch her before she ditches you.i would also getback with my xbf and make sure you look really prettier than her.or if you dont want to get back with your xbf just make sure you find a really hot guy to flirt with to make her jelouse. make that chick wish she were you!
928793
Wow i feel the same exact way as you! My mom says i can but she never actaully called or anything. But i cant do a backhandspring lol, buts thats the reason i want to join.
195766
U should go to your local cheerleading squad and ask for a private lesson to learn the basics so that when they say something like everyone show me ur Herky u will no what to do. I hope u take my advice and make the team!!!!
78037
Don't cheer unless you want to do well in the sport.  You will be bruised & sore.  Every cheerleader gets kicked in the face at least once... it takes a lot of strength.  It's not a giggle fest like some people think.