Does any one here believe that absence makes the heart grow fonder?
813322
Yes, you did the best thing.  You were honest with him about what you wanted in your relationship with him, and I won't give you the unprotected sex speech, and he didn't want to commit to you because he was already seeing someone else (and still having unprotected sex with you), which is why all of your apology attempts didn't matter.  I'm unsure why you were apologizing since you didn't do anything wrong but ask for a monogomous relationship.  You're better off without him and the fact that you wished him well just shows that you're taking the high road.  I highly doubt that this current relationship will last very long, but if nothing else, please protect yourself in the future!
96317
If you have confidance that you will not loose the focus on study then YES.Its possible to RISE IN LOVE rather than FALL IN LOVE
1099908
Very true and I like your view on the subject. I for one crave finding that one soul that I can connect to. The heartbeat that makes my own sing in unision. Sound corny, perhaps, but true neverless.\n\nGive me sincerity and my heart shall sing the highest note :)\n\nPS Forgive me for my lameness!!
92536
Yes Dear,,, Its Really Heartening to be in that Situation,,But if your Love is True and Pure,, then where ever u are what ever you are,, and where ever your Lover Might be ,,and what ever he/she Might be doing,, You must see that he/she  is Happy ,,When u have that Kind of Heart,, Naturally You will Blossom to a Greater Height and you get Far more Love than anything else,, God Bless you,, ""U have Really a Kind Heart"" can i be your Friend,,if u too desire,, just mail me at boreda_chan@yahoo.co.in
1022597
Sometimes.  But mostly because we need love and companionship just like everyone.  We could probably get this without being married but the committment of marriage makes us feel stable.
1137993
My spouse of 12 years died Jan 05..and I feel like a major part of my world died with him. The old saying time heals all wounds has some merit, to a point. I still have days when the grief is all consuming, and other days things are fine. I still have small kids that need me, otherwise I often wonder if I'd have the desire or need to carry on alone.
137635
If you deny your passions, that is deny what your heart truely wants or feels, those passions and desires will build up and punish you for your neglect of them. you can keep passions at bay by fulfilling them in little ways but do not ignore them completely. At least that is what I think. : )
62426
omg yes... there r so many of us.. trust me the heart is the most important part...i know people who thought they had everything but they were never happy because their hearts were unhappy... 2 me the most important thing is heart ... u remember that and u will have the love or ur life... good luck
646378
Yes. This something I do almost every day and how I've made some of my closest friends. I believe that every person has something good and beautiful inside of them. We all deserve love and attention. When someone is so low that they feel they don't want to live, that is when I feel closest to a stranger. I know how they feel because I've been there and I never have problems crying with them or helping them out. I'm always making friends because I wear my heart on my sleeve and offer anything I can to everyone. I love people and because I am so loving, they love me back. :^)
415968
Of course!  People say that you can always find someone better...and you might, but what if your heart doesn't want or can't handle "better"?  \n\nUm, but there's that old saying "if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours....".  I truly believe this is true.  \n\nI lost a really great guy almost a year ago.  Another great guy came into my life, but I didn't want him.  My heart cannot forget my ex.
952173
Yes.  I wonder what it is.  \nIt stirs such emotion that \nyour heart could just \nburst with love.
674160
Yes, in a way, you can. That is, if you equate loneliness with boredom. Exciting people are never bored. If you focus on your interests and spend time doing things you feel a passion for, you will love yourself and have less need for others to validate your existence. Then again, I suppose you might come around to wishing you had someone to share your passions with...
170804
Yes, it's reasonable to expect fidelity in your absence.  I don't think it [is] healthy to be away from each other THAT long repeatedly.  In other words, if your lives are such that one of you IS going to always be gone 50-70% of any given year, I can see trouble.
926757
if your heart felt like a brick in your stomach,and you walk around with a smile all the time n all you want to do is be in that person pocket ,THEN THAT IS LOVE the days n time scale does not mean anything only the feelings tell you from inside (( arrr love is the engine for all things in this world)) enjoy 100%  :-)
340192
YES!!!!!!!IT IS POSSIBLE TO BE HAPPY ALONE,BUT WOULDN'T LIFE BE ALOT SWEETER IF U HAD SOMEONE?
146487
Yes it special for me because I get to show my creativity. Even though I am not single right I never did feel sad when I was single because I always had my friend to back me up and we always showered each other with gifts and sometimes if it was during the middle of the week I would jump on the internet with a big box of cholocates (that my friend gave me) and look at single guys and maybe start up a chat with them and who knew sometimes I would end up with a midnight Valentine. :0)
495563
ABSENCE IT WILL MAKE THE HEART GROW FONDER