is sex better than communiction?
827141
No. \nSex is oftentimes based on confusion and falsehood. \nConfusion because I'm sure most people mistake lust and physical pleasure they experience during sex for being 'in love', and they don't even know what it is they're feeling. \nFalsehood, because a lot of it's straight up fake. Fake moans, fake orgasms, fake love = 50% fake. \n\nDuring communication, regardless of the means, all aspects of it are intentional and genuine; real. \n\nCommunication is better by far. Generally speaking, anyways. If your talking about relationship wise  - which would make sense since this is the 'Relationships' section of yahoo answers - I think it applies the same way.
367110
It was ok; I have done a few. Mostly with people I met online, couples. And I was mostly single; meeting other couples. Keeps the emotions out that way. It is a pretty shallow experience, really. Sex one on one or even alone is better, alot of distractions with more than two people and pressure to perform. I think allowing other people into your bedroom is avoiding the real underlying issue within the couple.I had a boyfriend once that was always pressuring me to do that it got to be a real turnoff and we are not together anymore. If you are a sex a holic and can handle it emotionally go for it. It just wasn't my thing.
856135
In my experiance, sex within a relationship (that is going well) only gets better as you learn what each other likes and dislikes in the bedroom. As you become more accustomed to pleasuring the same person you are undoubtably going to get better at it. As long as you are interested in whether the other party is fufilled that is. So if it is getting better then you will do it more, stands to reason doesn't it? Obviously if you are a selfish person in bed then its goin to stay the same because aslong as you get your fill who cares about the other person???\nI can only speak from experiance of a good relationship but i can guess that in a bad one it wouldnt be too great, after all if you cant stand to be around one another then why make the effort????
385871
After Marriage if you dont have sex it wont last, being innovative and active in the bedroom is a very good way to keep me around and happy. I want to make my lady happy in the same manner. Communications is the key, the best sex organ is the mind. Good Luck Happy Easter
244046
No its not!!! Because the bottom line that once you marry the sex life becomes less and less. It may not be right away that this happens but its true it does happen. When you are thinking of marriage you should make sure that this person is the one who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Marriage is about uniting as ONE!Its my opinion that communication would be the most important thing in a marriage up under have Jesus at the roots of the marriage! Sex does play a role in a marriage because  two people who are married feel the most connected when they are making love as the should but its not the most important thing. Marriage includes making decisions together, compassion, understanding, just letting the other one know that you are there for them no matter what, friendship.  So have fun with your SEX but remember marriage is more that just SEX if you marry for this reason then you are going to end up unhappy and wanting out! Truth of the matter, things change so will the sex life.Good Luck to you!
469484
I agree skin to skin is best sex just remember that AIDS is \na factor in this world
643928
No!  Sex is something to be shared between lovers. By doing something like that you cheapen it for you both down to just an act.  \n\nSex is meant to bring lovers together - to teach trust and compassion for one and other. \n\nFantasy fulfillment and roll playing are good thing for lovers.  Just don't through it all away and have no place left to explore.
598442
it is ok, but having sex with a woman is better
498885
Why?\nBetween the two solutions, sexing and abstinence, having sex is the best choice unless you haven’t decided to get a chastity vow. It’s medically demonstrated that sexual activity is healthy for whole body and for sexual system mainly in both sexes.  \nDr. R. W. Bernard in his essay entitled "Science discovers the physiological value of continence" states:\n"[I]t is clear that there is an important internal physiological relation between the secretions of the sex glands and the central nervous system, that the loss of these secretions, voluntarily or involuntarily, exercises a detrimental effect on the nutrition and vitality of the nerves and brain..... \nOne study suggests that frequent ejaculation may lead to a lower risk of prostate cancer. Indeed, there have been numerous studies indicating that excessive repression of the sexual instinct leads to an increase in the overall level of aggression in a given society.\nIt is necessary the balance. An absolute license is bad; an absolute abstinence —even though some by nature or circumstances are urgently called to adopt it— is also bad. They are both alike away from the gracious equilibrium of Nature. And the force, we see, which naturally holds this balance even is the biological fact that the act of sexual union is the satisfaction of the erotic needs of any person.
775394
Maybe she/he didn't like the toothpaste you're using!\n\nOK, seriously. Kissing is very, very intimate. Considering how sex today has become so common and easy and in-your-face (people who don't love each other) that kissing has grown to be much more intimate, especailly when you truly mean it.\n\nSometimes a really proper kiss can be better than just having sex (which can be obtained anywhere: hookers, clubs, answering those adverts they have at porn-shops). Kissing can therefore be a way of pleasuring your mind and emotions which is also more important than pleasuring your groin (which can be done with a hand really).
726519
Interesting article in the paper today... It made page 1 of the Kansas City Star.\n\nApparently, casual sex is not as big a factor in getting STDs as poverty or lack of education, according to a British report. They gathered statistical data from 59 countries for the report.\n\nIt seems that the only people really at high risk for death-by-sex are people who are too poor or too stupid to buy condoms. \n\nDarwinism in action...\n-SD-
795747
I think it's a little of both. People are more comfortable with their own sexuality because it is more acceptable than it was, but I also think the advertisement of sex is due to the fact that people want to see it. I do think kids are more permiscuous, particularly teenagers. I never saw the glory in that, and didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 19 (I'm still with the same guy, and haven't had sex with anyone else, he only had sex with one girl before me, and was about the same age when he lost his virginity). However, I've seen my friends have sex and one night stands more often than they change their underwear. Kids now don't take sex very seriously, and as a result, they have a lot of sex and no love. And I think that's advertised just as much. Loveless sex.
1036318
Sex will always be biological... no matter what happens technological wise sex is an attractive method of showing a relationship.\n\nSaying this, there would be a market for high level of reality in artificial methods (there already is a merket for simulation of sex)... however this would only be desired as a replacement for masturbation.
400390
Yes, because standards in today's society are not emphasizing the fact that you should be married to have sex. Everything is much more free-spirited, and do whatever you want kind of attitudes.
66286
sex is great or can be great but you can have sex with enyone. there is tru love out there and when you sleep with that person it will be different because you love each other. trust me sex is good but better the way God intended. one man one woman one marriage.sex is not related to love do not make that mistake.  if yo u are in love it WILL be good.sex is bonus of love and marriage. people say that sex is important in a relationship and it is once your married to be taken care of physically and emotionaly but it all goes back to what i said. if your in love then you will be taken care of physically and emotionaly. if you use sex to find love all you have is a fling. and if it is real love than you have a great relationship AND a good sex life. see the differences. i hope this helps you and that you find true love to see for yourself. in short. sex is great but tru love is out there.
597562
Sex with someone is better than masturbating by yourself !
830785
Love is a much deeper, stronger emotion than just sex. Now sex with the person you love is a different story...thyere's nothing better.