How do I tell my daughter who she is and where she comes from?
822375
Answer her questions in a way she will understand.  \n\nNo need to give her 'graphic' details but if she asks about her father or other relatives its okay to talk about it.  And its okay to let her know that you don't know the answer.\n\nEven at seven is is old enough to comprehend the basics.  You might hold off on telling her that her father is in prison unless you don't mind risking the chance of her repeating this outside of the household.\n\nI worked in a school with children in similar situations and they understood their parents were in prison and had no qualms about discussing it freely.  So be mindful of it.
1099680
im 19 and i am also greek...both my dads parents r full greek from greece.  i havent seen my dad since i was 8.  i have all the greek features except the black hair...mine is brown.  i am proud to be greek and if your daughter is too then your husband needs to respect that and atleast act like it doesnt bother him for your daughter.  it never bothered my step dad that i told people i was greek.  i would let her enjoy her heritage bc it is something to be proud of and if she's never known her real dad then its prolly the only thing from him that she has and there is nothing wrong with that.
257890
First don´t say "Hi my name is ___".\nInstead compliment her and ask her name, something like "You look great whats your name ___"\nOr ... tease her something funny like "I think I have the same dress at home its great".\nThen get her to talk about herself and try to keep it like you are in total control and casual. She will ask for your name and number later.
128602
You can't.  you can get something closer to her id.  like one digit different.
272021
Easy. Go the the County Recorder's Office in the county that the child was born and request a copy. There will probably be a small fee.
805504
Contact the consulate again  and they will help you!!!! However I encourage your daughter to wait until she is of legal age!!! She is still a child and it is hard enough to take on the new role of mother plus now a wife too!!!\nSounds like a recipe for divorce in a few years from now!!\n\n\nRemember that is only my opinion on marriage for the young!!!  I do not know what your personal beliefs might be and I would not wish to disrespect any of your cultural traditions or religious beliefs!!\n\nGood Luck and may your grandchild be wonderful!
966190
don't be afraid- just ask her. But just in case she says something nasty ask her where her mom is and what her name is.
23361
I have used www.intelius.com in the past to find people.  They have people listed along with their ages, so you will have a good chance of finding your daughter.  You will have to pay for detailed information, though.
434236
actually, a clever way to find out where she is right now would be to go to the church where her dad was a priest... they maybe of some help i suppose buddy.\ngud luck!
810431
Tell her you're trying to find your roots.
261466
what you actually wanted to ask?? if you talking about your daughter then you can make her like you but do not force her to be like you give her love……………
328334
NO NAMES,  NO CARTOONS, they will pass with time. pick something that will remind you of her. a rose, a heart, a devil, whatever, just dont do names..... unless its your kids or something that wont ever change.
1166616
withont dna on their daughter who knows
511295
call the school she is graduating from.  Or, *gasp*, ask your daughter.
1130838
Contact child protective service in regards to her children and as far as you daughter goes, move so she can't find you.
664165
You would need a lawyer to get that done. If she has your name on the birth records then you will have to prove the child is not yours by dna testing. Wish you the best..
448699
She's telling you the truth. Put your energy into your daughter and stay focused on postitive things.