When/How should I make my first move?
827346
What a sweetheart!  I remember your age.  Guys would usually just ask the girl if they want to be boyfriend & girlfriend.  Then the guy usually calls her at night and they hang out together at parties.  Does this answer your question or were you thinking more technical?  Good luck.
526389
If your friendship means a lot to you, and you think that its gonna be affected by your friend knowing that u feel for him/her, then dont.Or then wait for sometime, and be sure tht he/she feels the same for you.. And thn you can make ur first move.\nGood luck!
97689
i say make the first move,and those feelings you have will go,ask the right question.goodluck.ps.ask the ones that's in your heart and is going to make you happy.
873654
Just go up to her and start talking. She may like you to and waiting for you to make the first move. If she is your friend already then you two have things to talk about. Ask her to go skating or someplace that may not sound like a serious date but when you are out with her be nice like real date. He who snoozes looses and if you don't ask her out someone else will. ☺
257273
dont push dont rush be sensetive and drop a few hints make the first move and let things happen at their own pace if you go on to strong its all over
569488
make the first move by doing something to show your affection, if he takes the bait, go with it, if he doesnt, say you were just kidding, its a fool proof plan unless well, it might go wrong
572141
Dont just go up to her and the first thing you say is "wanna go out?", its too random. Start a conversation and then start working up to it from there.
481758
If you want to let him know you're single, TELL HIM!  this doesn't have to be direct, but there's nothing wrong with approaching him, amd introducing yourself.  The status quo says that men are supposed to make the first move, but the status quo does not assure you that you are going to get a date.  Break tradition and YOU make the first move.  Just by introducing yourself and being cordial, most guys will pick up on the fact that you are available and ready to mingle.  Chances are, he may want to initiate a conversation or date with you, but he may fear that he will be rejected due to the fact that you could be in a relationship.  Trust me, be cordial, friendly, whatever you want to call it.  Chances are, it will pay off in your favor!!!!!!
703466
well this guy is a pefect carbon copy of me.\n\nSo if you make a move on him he wouldn't look you down or anything, but as he is a man/guy he prefers to make the move. So what you basically need to do is to make it very easy for him so that he feels very comfortable to ask you out.\nI would say it wouldn't hurt if you become a bit bolder and show some confidence yet at the same time asure him that you are not embarrased by his shyness and you want him to ask you out. \nI know there are ways of doing this without talking much. I can't tell you since I am not a girl. But show him something. If you get the chance touch him ,like on his back or something. And show a lot of smile. The kind of smile the says " Come here baby, I want you" \nI still do believe he should make the move.\nI don't know this is exactly my problem. What I told you is what I think best if a girl acts in a way so that I would feel conmfortable talking to her.\n\nGood luck.
937219
Well, you need to get past this 'shyness' 'cause otherwise, you'll be stuck alone...for...quite some time. Unless some girl decides to talk to you first...but usually girls depend on guys to make the first move. Just take up the courage and (if you have someone in mind) go up and talk to her. CASUAL CONVERSATION, not some stupid pick up line...like...if you were a cardoor i'd bang you all night....of course, that's exaggerated. Don't annoy her though...cause that would be bad. Just have some casual conversation and see if she talks back to you and see how it goes. Also, with some girls, you can tell that they like you when they laugh at your stupid (really really really stupid) jokes and no one else is laughing. ALso, if they seek you out in a group, that could mean something.
452348
well, i guess you should make the first move.If she avoids you or rejects your proposal, then back off. There is surely someone more interesting around and who might be waiting for your proposal.
936552
Go up to HIM and start flirting. If he's making eye contact, it may not be a bad idea to make the first move!\n\nGuys don't always move at the speed we want them to move.
661790
Sorry honey, guys must do the first move, and if he did not do it it means he wants you only as a friend.\nNowdays women are becoming too open and agressive, and guys miss the magic of hunting and courting!!! we are cutting off their attributes.\nSo, sorry, but step back, keep him as friend and put your interest somewere else, in the meantime be sweet and nice to him, be always very well put together when you meet, so in this way, did not work with him sentimentally, you always will have a great supporter on him. Please, remember, be a real femminine woman "NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE"
304754
walk up and say this "hello, my name is ____. What is your name. I find you interesting." \n\nThat ought to be a good start. guys are sometimes too shy to make the first move too...
41801
The guy should make the first move.  That way, the girl knows that he is confident enough to go for it, and the guy doesn't have to sit around waiting for her to make a move.  Any confident guy will make a move on a girl he likes.
58200
if you put yourself out there and made the first move and he didnt grab at it, i wouldnt do it again with this guy. If he is interested, leave it up to him to make the next move. if you do it, it will just make you seem like you cant take no for an answer and he may be uncomfortable. Keep spending time with him, let him know that your interest hasnt changed, and if he's interested hopefully he will sum up the courage to act on it!
597680
not really. 90% girls expect you to make the first move, so expecting them to tell you first is like winning a lottery. i say you tell her first (if you like her, that is). you'll get your answer there and then