is it ok for me to confess to a girl that i like her after she had juz broken up with her boyfriend?
820576
If she broke up with the guy for sure, and if you are not close friends with him, you can tell her you like her.  But understand that right now she is on the rebound, and not really ready for a new boyfriend.  Even if she thinks she is.  But you can start spending time with her if she is willing, and maybe something will develop from it.
172602
i think you should wait a while because you say she JUST got dumped. It doesn't seem right if she got dumped one second and is dating another guy the next (unless she dos that all the time). As for the figuring out part i think you should ask her directly but play it cool and try to do it when she is alone because you might embarass yourself if it is in front of a lot of other people.
769945
It sounds good to me. I would only do it if I KNEW she liked me, though. I almost did a similar thing with this guy I like, but I changed my mind because I wasn't sure how he felt. BE CAREFUL, and plan what you'll do if she doesn't respond the way you want her to!
408364
Yes, I would say that you are. I believe the only reason she talked to you was to transition and to fill a void that her BF left and then when her former BF changed it was a reason to give him another chance. I understand you think she likes you, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Leave them alone and if she gets hurt again you will know when to make your move.
474918
go ..have your relationship like she wants...just dont tell her you did all those girls you "dated"
299252
Why would you do that?  That's a pretty cruel thing to do to the girl you've been dating.  I know I'd be hurt.  I'd feel like you didn't want to be seen with me.  Either cancel with your formal date, or expect your dating relationship to end pretty abruptly.
1112252
That would depend on what your intentions are. If your just looking for a piece of a**than yes! Unless she is the kind of girl that likes to get it too. In which case its not so bad.\n But If your calling because you miss her and want to see if you can pick things up where they left off, than I dont think there is anything wrong with calling. Is she single? That might be an issue to consider also.\n If your just calling to talk to her because she is more of a friend than should be ok also.\n Either way, dont call if dont have good intentions. I think that everyone deserves to have a happy life and if you broke up maybe the reason was enough to just stay away from each other. But maybe it was just a mistake that can be overlooked with time and another try at love.\n Good luck with your decision!
789076
There are no rules.  Just be yourself!  If you worry that she will get back with her ex, then you will not really be having any fun.  Just try not to think about it, relax and enjoy the time that you spend with her.  Good Luck!
15270
What the hell?  LET her?  Unless you and her are looking for a one on one only relationship, it is okay for girls to talk to their ex-boyfriends.  In fact if you get right down to it, it's safer.  We break up with people for a reason, and we probably wouldn't date them again.  So no worries there.  If she is hanging with them alot, she might be trying to make you jealous.  She might want your attention.  Heck, give it to her!
192571
If she's very happy with her boyfriend, for the love of all humanity, DON"T TELL HER. You'll probrably make her confused, or you'll start to ruin their relationship, or you could make her feel bad if she doen't feel the same way about you. You have to think of her happiness as well as your own, so think before you say! But that's just my opinion.
252152
not without proof or a confession... unless your just looking for an excuse to dump her...
135389
really depends if you want to keep ur relationship, is best to keep it to yourself. Some truths are best untold. Unless you've decide to bring ur relationship to higher level of trust, then find the right time to confess... be ready to get hurt, but its worth it~ she'll understand... after dat, make sure u stop doing it again... Ur Choice =)
1177570
Just tell her you guys broke up- you both realized you weren't ready for the commitment and leave it at that- tell her your personal life isn't something you like to discuss and next time, BE HONEST.
383721
If she complains about her bf ask her then why are you going out with him if things about him make you unhappy .... ask one of her friends if they maybe know whether she still likes you if they say she does then after she breaks up with her bf go for it if she doesnt break up with her bf in like a couple days tell her how you feel about her :)
533678
:) hmm, a tough question, this one. I can't really say that she is supposed to leave her boyfriend because of you, or, that it is wrong for her to do so when she does love you and have no more feelings for her boyfriend.\n\nHowever, you have only known her for a little while. Don't you think you might just be expecting overly by speculating that she might consider ending her current relationship with her boyfriend?\n\nI only suggested that you should tell her how you felt about her as I know she will respect your determination/courage to let her know. Frankly, I didn't expect that your feeling towards her was strong enough to the point of contemplating whether or not she wants to be with you in the end.\n\nI don't really approve of this but who am I to judge since this is between you and her. No one can guarantee the outcome of both of your future. There's also a possibility after the both of you declare as couples, once you are apart, this sort of thing might happen again and she would leave you for another guy. First of all, imagine you're in the boyfriend's shoe; how would you feel if your girl left you for a guy whom she'd met only few months back?\n\nOn the other hand, it is her choice really, if she does sincerely loves you and her feelings towards her boyfriend is a thing of the past. I believe she is matured enough to think for her own good.\n\nBy the way, don't pressure her to choose between her boyfriend and you. It won't seem fair to anyone.\n\nI hope it helps.
751572
females like when guys can be straightforward with their feelings you should tell her that you had a crush on her for about a year now but you didn't know how to approach her on the subject and you know that she has a boyfriend and that  you don't plan on doing anything to jeopardize the relationship if it is okay for you to become friends
453884
You are right it wouldn't be fair to take her knowing what you now know. Tell her you are sorry but you just don't think of her 'like that' but she as has been such a good friend it is only fair to say it right out. \nOff course you could end up dateless then what will you do?