im in a situation i cant get out of please help?
828890
Go to the police and fast.  Also, get a restraining order to keep this creep away from you.  Call now!!!
1029142
You are going to have to create your escape plan. Start building a bridge to get out. While your doing it, do something you like to do after work and do it.Your happiness is more important than putting up with people that don't care and are stuck abusing you!
639423
There's no real way of getting out of this. Even if you call them up and try to explain the truth, they might just think you're lying. I think you're just gonna have to suck it up and do it. Next time, think befor you answer.
97141
First question are you being phsyicaly abused? if so you should like you need to ask yourself is do you want to stay in this. If you do you only asking for what is being handed too you. If you want to get out of it what you should do is seek a lawyer. if you can't afford it then seek Legal aid they can help you for a small fee or no cost. Some states sence he if he is phsycaly abusive you might be able to seek a court order for him to be exparte from the resendence and also request that Tempory Spoucal support be paid till the divorce is over. You can also in some states seek what is called a bed and board divorce. This means you get the marrial resendence. I would HIGHLY reocmmend if he is physicaly abusive to you contact a lawyer ASAP! If this is a problem you can file it down at the court house. And seek consoling as no women or man should ever have to put up with phsycal abuse.
516625
man thats a hard position to be in. im there too, kinda. i guess you need to ask them and see what they say, if you still don't think its true,you should let them go, if you don't it will lead to a really bad situation of distrust and hurt. you don't need to put yourself through that mess if the other person doesn;t love you back.
1108659
The situation is complicated.  You need an adult to deal with an adult.  So the best for you would be to find an parent, relative, friend who will speak up for you and on your behalf.  Only then will you get the real attention you need and the paycheck you deserve.  Otherwise, you are being taken advange of and it will continue as long as you let it happen to you.
326365
Write or email her, explaining things like you have done here.\n\nGive her some time, as well.  Usually, that puts some perspective on things. Don't make any more promises that you can't keep, though -- "I'll do my best but I can't promise" is more honest.\n\nIn the meantime, try and get on with your own life, ok... no point in panicking, really.
312453
you just think you are in the way.you seriously nedd to get out of this relationship,do you wanna die?this is abuse and it is so wrong,im sorry you are going through this.plz leave before it gets worse,he thinks he can scare you into staying cuz he can beat you up.saying you are in the way is a copout.plz leave.it will only get worse.ok,once they start hitting,they dont stop,next your family will be planning your funeral.plz plz leave  best of luck
71654
Talk.\nIf you can not talk, you do not have a chance.
890688
You state "any help would be appreciated". How did you get stuck with having to make the choice? That's a he ll of a responsibility. Good Luck.
507651
get help from someone you trust and can talk to.if it carries on get help from someone proffesional
709244
Break it off! If its not going anywhere then why do you even try! Thats like working a 40 hour a week job and not getting paid!
980777
Hang on for a couple of years.\nYou may end up wishing that you weren't emancipated.
699523
THERE IS NO WAY OUT OF IT !!!\n\nPAY UP !!!
431361
I think you should move out even if your not sure you can do the things suggested by the previous posted. Don't go far enough that you can't get help if you really need it and so people who care about you can keep an eye on how your doing, but also pride yourself on your new found independence and don't run to them for simple things. Get roommates if you can, it lowers your rent and helps you get a better feel for things - roommates usually don't operate like a family, they operate like independent individuals living under the same roof, and they can teach you a lot if you need to learn.
629030
u need to find some help b4 u get in a big problem
253934
JUST get out go to family frinds, Get the LAW invalved!!!!!  There are place that can help you!!