moving in with boyfriend...?
815985
It totally depends on the situation. How long you have been together should weigh heavily on your decision. I would highly recommend not moving in if you are newly dating. Let the relationship advance first. \nAlso, have the 2 of you talked about what should or should not be expected of each other once you do move in together? Set some ground rules in advance and the transition will go much smoother.(bills, food, talk about how everything will be paid for.. split down the middle or are each of you going to cover different things each month?)  It is hard merging 2 people into one house. Each of you will have your own expectations and it will NOT be the way either of you think. \nNot all guys are just looking for someone to help with the bills or house. \nI moved in with my boyfriend on my 18th birthday, after we had been seeing each other for 5 years. We moved in together and never looked back. I am now 30 and we are happily married with 4 children. \n\nGood Luck!
606834
spend time with my boyfriend.
817123
Date him, sleep with him, move in with him.  If at any point you feel that it isn't working out for you, tell him and leave him.
425360
Go with your heart. I am in a very similiar situation but we are madly in love with one another. If you are questioning whether you should move, you are not yet ready to do so.\n\nYou will know when the time is right.
1148996
her parents will allow you to rent the basement. you will have your own space, so it will not be the exact same as when you "move in " with a girlfriend.  Besides, you need to ask yourself the question...how do you feel about this girl? do you see potential there? if so, discuss with her the situation, that the living arrangement would really help you out financially, but you are worried that it might be moving too fast in your relationship.  most importantly, if you do move in ...respect her, respect her parents, and don't be late paying the bills....it will look good for you all around.  good luck...i say do it!
805638
you need to get a lawyer, try legal aid they may be able to help you as long as you are in there income guidelines, he can stop you from being able to move and this will probably affect the current visitation agreement you two have. It will probably come to one having the child during the school year and one during the summer, also alternating holidays. that is if that's what he goes for, he could also go for total custody. Before you move you need to get the courts permission or else you can be charged for this. Be careful, it sounds like you may have a fight on your hands, don't let the thought of you wanting to move in with your current boyfriend, make you lose your child, do everything the legal way so you are all legal and still retain custody.
572356
you are only 19,just because he does'nt want you moving in does not mean that he is not in love.you have only been togeather for 8 months it's far to early,just carry on doing what you are doing and not tell your parents,and why do your parents not like him?.it can be done i was only with my partner for 8 months and 12 year on were still togeather,but im only one of the lucky few as not very often you hear relationships would survive that.
705529
Do it. Just make sure you take care of yourself. Start a little savings account in case things don't work out and you find yourself suddenly without a roommate. Do you really want to get to know your man's living habits AFTER you've signed a legally binding document?
1013871
If your boyfriend is not going to be bothered that you move n with someone else to "see" how he deals with it, then this relationship is over.  Perhaps the flame has died.  It happens sometimes.  You two need to sit down and talk about your relationship and where (if anywhere) is it going.  It is time for you both to be open and honest and make concrete decisions regarding your lives.
969186
Whats wrong with moving to Hawaii?  I live here!!!  \n\nFirst of all, how long have you 2 being dating?  Depending on that, would tell me whether or not you should even bother to tell him.  Obviously he is moving due to some serious reason, whether it be a job, or school or just a new place to start fresh.
450218
I would probably give it a bit more time.  Your still in that honeymoon stage where you haven't gotten to know each others bad habits all that well yet.  When you move in together then you have to live with those bad habits plus you have the added pressure of dealing with all the finances and living expectations that go with it.
430299
first of all how old are you? and how old is your boyfriend if he is 18 or over and you are like 14 15 ya i can see why he is to old but on the other hand if you are like 16 17 that is ok its not to old. but if you are still living in your dads house you need to do what he wants untill you are old enough to move out on your own and believe me the way this world is now you dont want to do that any time soon.
394634
why not move in with you? Who is this guy? \n\nDon't let her, but also don't be possesive of her. Figure out why she wants to live with him, and also talk to this guy to figure out what he's like.
151129
I'm sorry, but this isn't your choice.  It is their house and their rules.  You can ask them but you need to respect their decision.  If you don't like their answer then you and your boyfriend need to get a place of your own.
924854
That depends on what you are looking for and what he "expects"from this.\n\nAre you romantically involved or do you both want someone to "share expenses" with?  \n\nIf you are "involved", even though you may have know him for a long time, I think it's too "soon" to move in.\n\nIf you want a roommate, how will both of you feel if the other person brings home a "date"?  \n\nOnly you can decide this and you have to seriously think about what both of you want from this relationship.  I'd say you are probably better off getting your own place.\n\nGood luck with whatever decision you make.
690077
Only you can gauge if you are moving too fast.  If you love eachother and are going to get married it might be good to be close to one another.  I don't know that I would recommend moving into a house with another couple/child as it might make things difficult/complicate things.  \nAs far as the finances go with you and/or him still being in school that is understandable and doesn't mean that he won't be a good husband and support you.
409929
start out as you mean to go on. Most guys end up letting you do all the cleaning, cooking etc. If that is fine with you then ok. If not then do not let them get away with it. It is no use letting him do what he wants now and then complain about it a few years down the line. Talk about who will do what around the house, who pays for what etc. \nThe last thing you will be thinking of right now is breaking up. But if it should ever happen who get's what? Talk it all through now and write down what was agreed upon. Believe me it will spare you alot of heart ache in the future. Keep lists of who paid for what.\nOh and make sure both your names are on the lease.  \nHope everything goes well for you both.