ok he gets on then gets off is he avoiding me?
831577
well see if he is busy and ask him why he does that .and if he keeps doing it i think its time 2 find a new man
521746
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)
1144518
Who knows what id going through his moind. One thing is for sure though. Hassling him will only push him further away if he is needing space. I know it's hard , but try not to call again. let him call you. Maybe he has just been busy. But if not, then when he wants to call you he will. If he doesn't call, then he isn't that keen and maybe wasn't worth the trouble in the first place.
1135019
I would call him sometimes guys get caught in thier own lives.IF you don't get a response back,i would move on.Iam sure you will catch a better fish.Itis know good to be sitting aronud being miserable when you could be out having a good time with someone else.Thier is a reason he is not calling,i would talk to him If he doesn't give a good anwser .i would move on.
297939
Depends on if he works or goes to school, he may be letting you know that he will not be there. If it is after the hours and he is there, then I would wonder why he dosen't want you calling.
938679
It's good to keep a guy on his toes every now and then, but only give him enough room to miss you, not to forget you. If he isn't calling then he is probabley not going to call, its the guys way of playing hard to get. So dont call him right away, and when you do call him HAVE A REASON. Don't make it just to chat, ask him something that he should know. Then he wont know if you just wanted to ask the wuestion or if you just wanted to call. Guys always want what they aren't sure they can have. But be careful if you play to hard to get he might get away.
320797
he's taking the time to message you..maybe he's just busy this week. don't worry about it unless it becomes a way of life. but in the meantime find ways to be busy yourself, it sounds like you have made this guy your whole life and that is never good, you can't be part of a couple without also being yourself.
403450
Only you know if you are really ready, and the fact that you are asking this question leads me to believe that you aren't. Sex can be wondeful, but if you have to guess if he is going to stick around, makes me think that perhaps you are not ready for the emotional consequences that could result in this encounter. If he really wants to be with you he will wait. If he doesn't then you know your answer.
706453
Wipe your eyes and move on.He has done you a favour if he behaves like that.you will find someone who wants you for yourself take your time there is no hurry and everyone is wanted by someone have patience.
315584
seems to me he's playing you!  Forget about him and move on to a person that deserves your love and attention.  \n\nThis idiot is just keeping you from meeting the right guy!
388324
Well, well, well.  I think the man is embarrassed by getting off so fast the 1st time.  Don't give him anything until he can tell u why he ain't upping the goods.  If both of u aren't getting off then how fair is that.  He has problems within himself that he needs to work out.  I think that it was just to good to him and he is afraid that u didn't want anymore because he came so fast.  Poor baby,  If u like him talk to him if not move on because it isn't u that is the problem its his $perm that is his problem it just doesn't have any patience. Give him a hug and tell him it's o.k.
277599
He is not interested in you. Probably, he is just having a good time just flirting with you. He is not serious. And since he replied in negative when you asked him out, he is not keen on you. It would be wise to forget him and move on.
777376
This guy seems to have the ego the 'size of montana' as the expression goes--based on your brief description.  So he tells you he doesn't 'want to be held down'.  I'll bet he would like everything at his convenience, on his time table, and on his terms.  He is probably not going to give you very much attention...and his playing hard to get may be what attracts you.  You may not have the option of spending time with this guy.  Wait and see what develops before you get too carried away (for your own sake)--you need to figure out what he has in mind and ensure that suits your needs as well.  I'd suggest not contacting him at all....and see how frequently he contacts you.  It may be that you don't want such an infrequent love in your love.  Think about it--you may be swept off your feet at this point but if he is going to be cold, it may not be worth it.  I don't mean to be negative....but keep your options open and if you see someone else that interests you in the meantime I suggest you go for it.  He plans to keep his options open...that's probably what he meant when he said he didn't want to be held down.  What a guy!
611993
Do you think he's been in an accident? Have you reported him as a missing person?  If he didn't leave you...or you are not separated or anything like that, I would say you need to get the police involved and see if he's been in some sort of accident or something. If you are separated...or something like that, then maybe he's just hiding?? I don't know, that's hard to say.
437459
wow. what a jerk.  he's so not worth your time!\nit sounds to me like he was leading you on.. i dont know if that's the case, but i think you should find another amazing guy who will actually acknowledge ur presence!
755556
He got what he wanted (your body) and until the need builds up again he dosen't want you around.  He is using you.  Leave him and keep your knees together in future.
362094
ignores u??? hmmm...seems he jus wantd to b physically involved wid u...ask him whts the deal n tell him abt ur feelings ...\nif he improves, good; else u shd nt allow him to use u more n move on...