Is it silly for me 2 go for a sunday stroll with my gal at the beach even when we have been married for 15 yrs
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No Thats wonderful!!! I cant get my husband to take a stroll in the backyard. Your wife is a lucky lady.
572616
I do it. It`s cool man. Dont worry about it. Only you and your lady should care about it.
1040743
i was married at 15 and we just celebrated our 15th on june the 3rd....people will make comments but that is they are THERE comments dont let them get you down...if you know in your heart it is right...than GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!! i dont ever regret marrying the love of my life......
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After 36 years of marriage i guess i am just about qualified to answer you. It is a hard road to travel.. believe me!! you have to work at staying married for this long. It is not all sweetness and light as there have been times when i have wanted to just pack up and go but i have a deep sense of responsibility to my family, even though our kids are all grownups now.My wife has no doubt felt the same at times. So the answer is..Think about what you are going to do, before you do it and consider what effect it might have on your other half. Tell her that you love her often and show it!! Flowers and little treats work wonders. Keep your lust alive as sex is important even as you get older. It is the best way of communicating your love for each other. Do not have secrets that might hurt the other one. Be truthful. Make time for each other, hold hands when you walk out together. Sneak a kiss in public. Look after each other and always back each other up. I could go on and on but i am sure that you get the idea. I am 61 and she is 56. We still sleep together  sharing a double bed. Like I say,love, lust, hard work and consideration are important as is being freinds as well.
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if you are both adult about it you could have a great time without wrecking your relationship.\ngo for it.
47892
No...enjoy it with your spouse...or at least be upfront. dont hide it like you are ashamed.  that is when it would feel like adultry
731694
Congratulations!!  Glad to see people saving their marriages these days!\n\nHow about a second honeymoon?  Doesn't have to be expensive.  But maybe a cabin in the mountains or head south towards the beach.  Somewhere romantic where it's just you and her.\n\nGood luck!
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That is a question that only you will know the answer to...it is a matter or where the two of you are in your lives.  If you know you are going to marry her someday then it is only a matter of finding the right time that will be memorable.  \n\nIn terms of have you been together long enough I would say yes based on what you said.  I know 4 different couples that got married less than six months from the time that they met and they are all still married.  The least ammount of time being ten years and the longest being thirty two years.  My adivce would be to do what is right for both of you and make sure that it is something that you will both remember.  I hope this helped
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Yes it is..You really get to know your spouse..what their feelings are toward marriage, having kids and respecting each other.. We went for a weekend and it was really alot of fun.You meet alot of of other couples also..
454312
You did not say how old you both are, so I can only assume you are both old enough to get married. If true love is what you have then God bless the both of you.
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Well my lady and i are into our 10 month and we met when i saw her across the mall.I have never walked up and introduced myself like that before,but i had this urge that couldn't stop.\nWe are soul mates,and are happier with every day that passes.I am glad that you have found love,and as you can tell from your own experience that it is possible.
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sounds like you better invest in some good running shoes & figure out which way is the quickest way out of the house. You sound very young to me, but just know that this woman is married and isnt likely to give that part of her life up the way she gave you other parts of her. I know it feels like love but it really isnt. What it is is lust, learn from these encounters with this middle aged woman and it will make you more worldly when you find a girl your own age to date or to marry..............
307561
No, my best male friend is going out with a much older women... They love each other and they might actually get married... As long as your happy, thats all that counts. Heidi
13489
not a problem. married a woman that is 7 years older than me. and have a couple buddies that married older woman
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No one (and I know from first-hand experience) is guarenteed of tomorrow.\nYou could do this for your 3rd anniversary in March.  Won't hurt a thing and she will get to be a part of it.
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I really believe that you need to court each other again. I know it sounds silly but we're talking about the rest of your life here. In life sometimes we loose sight of how we got there. good luck!
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If you're happy. You are old enough to make your own desicion. I know a couple where the woman is 10yrs older and they've been together 15 years.