how do you tell a firend that you think she is a snod?
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sounds like a bunch of drama.  just confront your friend telling her how u feel.... but i donno how much thats gonna work.  this situation sounds like middle/high school stuff
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you should tell her but not be mean about it..its better than her lookin like a fool.
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BE patient. BE persistant.AND  claim  your territory. AND tell  her  everyday your different. AND  by god show her you are  different.
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Tell her you like her shoes or her earrings, something small that is not near her chest or butt so she doesn't think you're thinking of her just sexually. It sounds lame but women like people to notice the small things they do to look nice. Tell her she looked interesting and you just wanted to see if you could chat with her. I think often the best conversation starters are movies, books, and music. They are pretty universal and most people have an opinion about what they like and don't like. It's also a good way to get a feel for whether or not you are compatible. If she seems excited about a subject or her eyes light up when you are telling her something go with it and try to explore it further.
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make her think its her idea
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by not telling her that shes "a temporary one"
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Boy this is a hard one.  Don't you think she might aready suspect it anyway?  I don't know.  Just sit her down and tell her how you feel.  After the shock she will be spuportive, I am sure.  Are you sure you want to tell her?
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no easy way, she will find out eventually so just be honest. Good luck.
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you dont 'show' her...we are not animals....just tell her your feelings are growing rather quickly...but for god sakes, man, dont scare her away...maybe shes a late bloomer...she'll come around if your sincere...peaceout !
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accordin 2 me.............first speak 2 her........get 2 know her........n then if u feel that shes just the 1 perfect 4 u........go ahead n just tell her
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OK, Andy, first off, the next time she calls you Andy say thanks for the compliment but my name is Ryan.  Then compliment her about whatever it is that caught your eye about her.  Ask her if you can walk her to Science......keep your spirits high and don't be afraid to speak.  You will never know unless you SPEAK MORE THAN ONE WORD AT A TIME!!!
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If you are mature, you take her aside and tell her as kindly as possible that you don't return her feelings.  If you are an immature heel, you use her, or just slink away without saying anything.  That is really cowardly if you ask me.
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WARNING:\nNEVER tell them how you feel with words!  This will work, if pushing someone away & ruining any potential intimate relationship is what you are looking for.\n\n\nWhat you are really asking here is not how do you tell someone - it is how do I make them feel attraction for me & how do I tell when they do so I can take this relationship to another level.\nAllow me to explain ...\n\nOf all the ones given above this is the closest answer to the right way to go about things without spoiling anything you currently have between the both of you:\n"weather she says yes, or no, kiss her on the lips, then say lets go" - though it is whether that they meant to type not weather as in climate :)\n\nWhy was that good?\n1. Because you are being commanding & decisive & leading.\nThese are behaviours that display attractive qualities in a quietly confident & even in a brashly confident guy.\n\nThey are not too attractive if you are a bully though alot of women will sadly still be compelled even if you were to take it too far down the bully route - though I am certain that is not an issue here because that type of guy does not ask to do anything or for advice he just does, so that is for another question.\n\nIt's difficult to give you the precise thing to do & when - alot of it sadly has to do with reading soemone's mood or knowing how to proceed in a way that does not make things blatant so that you can abort any advances before you create an embarrasing situation which she will feel the need to get away from.\nA friend came up with a good trick for working out when this is likely to be the result by running what you are doing as if it were about to happen to you.\n\nSo if you are in a close 'moment' & you are thinking of doing something, pay complete attention to being in the same mood as your friend, be them with all of your being as far as you can... now imagine you doing whatever it was to 'you' (you are in the role of your friend remember so you should see you coming up to kiss you as they would etc.)\nHow did it feel *to them*?  Was it awkward?  Was it a pleasant surprise etc.?\nIf it was not completely positive then you should think twice before proceeding.  Think of something else.\nTougher to do when you lack practice at thinking like this & you are pumped up with lust & love chemicals coursing through your mind making you groggy I know.\n\nIf you are thinking of 'going in' & can't do the empathy test above then a sure fire way of gauging the waters is to casually but deliberately grab the ends of some of her hair & run your fingers through it as if you were running your hand through something very soft.\nIf she does not respond in a way that clearly says, 'what are you doing?' with her eyes or body then do it again, look her in the eyes if you can & say, 'your hair is so soft, I really like the way it feels'.  Keep looking her in the eyes you are trying to gauge a reaction & looking her deep in the eyes causes attraction in both of you, I *know* this; it can be a very powerful reaction when it does try & not to lose control if it does hit you (the chemical rush I mean, not if she hits you, she should have no need to hit you ever!)\n\nIf she has reacted positively & not sunk her head, shoulders away from you etc. then she will 99.9% be receptive to further touch & a kiss.  If she goes, 'yeah thanks I use good shampoo' then you can matter of factly agree & come back to more 'dry' conversation.\n\nIt can be tough to turn a friend into a lover.\nI personally never tried though I had a lot of friends who were girls.  Many very pretty.  Many who I got on with very very well.\nHowever the thing to realise is that they are all girls friends or not & that we are all people & we all have the same anxieties & concerns. Though men & women definitely see things differently when it comes to courtship & do defintitely have different roles.\nI could sometimes see t
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It depands how old you two are. When your having a great time or she is wearing something new tell "you look beautiful!!" and if you need to be obvious then when your talking to her make a point of smoothing hair out f her face or giving her a hug and such things like that. Eventually she will get the hint and then you need to tell her after about two weeks of treating her in this way.
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Ask her, be upfront. Have patience if she says "I dont know"\n\nCollege does weird things to people man, I can attest to that.
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Well, I'm not a guy, but let me try to help U:\nU're an educated guy, U're so smart, but maybe she has seen in this other guy something she likes the most and maybe it's something U don't have, I don't blame her for that, but I do blame her for telling lies and trying to justify herself in that way.\nThere's another thing: If U're that kind of smart and polite, show to her that U can respect her decision, don't approach to her anymore, she's the one who has to make the balance, let her be happy, if she wants to be with this other guy, U'll have to focus on someone else, besides, sometimes we just judge for appearances, and maybe that's happening to U.\nNever judge a book for its cover!\n\nSee... as U added some new facts, let me tell U, about your image, don't care about it, I mean, the time will make the difference, let it to the time, and U'll see that she's the only one who is going to be judge by your classmates and friends, maybe they cannot realize what kind of girl she is, but, I'm pretty sure, if U're right, time will give that satisfaction to U.
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If she can't get the hint, then she's too stupid too even know what you're talking about if you tell her flat out. In this case, it doesn't really matter. That's cool you wanna be sensitive though. Just try to make sure you show no "what could be signs" of liking her, and she'll eventually get tired of chasing you and find someone else to bother.