what do men think of women who give out on the first date?
820609
they usually think there is no need for a second date, just turn up and ride.
1017625
It really depends on who asked who out.  I think it's a natural assumption to make that whoever makes the invitation should pay.  As the other person, I think the polite thing to do is to offer to get the tip.  It's a very good gesture, and they can also say something like "I'll get it the next time"  It shows that there is interest there at the same time.\n\nIt's traditional to for a man to pay, but some women find that going dutch is better because it shows that they aren't a gold digger and that they are independent.
550008
'Men are mostly a convenience as they haven't the capacity to listen and respond, are not compelled to communicate as women are. I really dont think they view them as stupid, or ignorant for the most part, though geography has much to do that. No role playing, be the strong women you are. I am , have paid a fair price for it...and so it goes...I have lost nothing I never had and I have had a LOT. I will NOT be bored or play handmaiden to an armchair quarterback...Listen up men, learn your lady's favourite everything. Take a hint....this really works!!!! Please her and you will be pleased in reciprocity. I know. Women may be more petite and therefore seem like bait or the underneeded or we have been treated as convenience stores. Well we are NOT THAT ! All For Now......
296255
It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
1087588
it depends.  if its the first date and she's got her hand down my pants before we get our appetizers... that might send up a flag.  but if we've been going out for a while and she just knows what she likes.....then thats totally cool with me.
101820
Hell no...guys are stupid, they won't know what you want unless you tell them or show them...besides, nowadays it's totally commonplace for girls to make the first move!!
288130
That depends on how bad the first date impression was.\n\nIf she thinks there absolutely no chemistry, no hope, no nothing, pretty much nothing you do will work.\n\nOtherwise, if it was just a blah date, then tell her that you would like to take her out again since you realize the first one wasn't how you wanted it to go.\n\nThen try again.
53001
well im a guy and i know how it is. on first dates guys would like to get a little lap dance and mabey a kiss on the first date.
132843
On the last date I went on, we were eating at a restaurant and when we got up to leave, my date helped me put my coat on.  He was really good at it!  I made a comment about it and he said that his grandfather had taught him how.  It was a smooth little detail but it was very impressive.\n\nBy the way, in case you're wondering about the trick, he said it's to hold the coat lower than you would think.  This makes sense because it's hard to put your arm up when it's behind you.\n\nThat was a little thing, of course.  What really attracts me to a guy is a positive attitude and if he's willing to just have an open conversation with me.  If I feel like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going and on a positive note, that's a turn-off.
825852
It's a good idea on the first date - that way no one has any right to expectations of "tit for tat", so to speak.\n\nIf the first date goes well, I've always taken turns.  That sends a clear signal that you're on equal footing financially but want to continue seeing each other just because you like each other.  If you can't afford the same type of restaurant, pick something in your price range when it's your turn - or eat in.  Nothing beats a home-cooked meal for ambiance!
343889
nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
912621
WELL THEY MIGHT NOT BE THE RIGHT WOMEN FOR YOU TO ASK FOR A DATE. I THINK YOU'RE  A NICE GUY, PROBABLY YOU ARE TOO NICE FOR THEM...DON'T WORRY JUST BE YOURSELF AND YOU COULD GET ATTENTION FROM A SPECIAL ONE!!!
252785
Anything is a good date food, unless it's something she is allergic to or doesn't like.  Girls have the best eating habits on first dates, we act so cute like we are not hungry or like we actually chew our food 32x's before we swallow and have the best manners.  But when we get comfortable with a guy, eating together is like eating with the guys!
49183
There are so many "worst" things a guy can do on a first date. \nHere's a short incomplete list:\nnot showing up\nshowing up smelling bad, looking god awful\nwearing dirty clothes\nnose hair\nbad breath\nno cash\nno gas\nno car\nbeing cheap\nstaring at other women\nstaring only at her boobs\nnot opening the door for her\nbeing mean\ntrying to have sex with her\nnot trying to have sex with her\nforgeting the condoms\nthe list goes on and on and on....\nBe aware that there potentially can always be something that will piss her off.
440212
What an excellent question! Girls, not so much women, at least secure women do not do this. I fins from past experience that most girls or insecure women feel the need to do this, then get mad, when they really have no right to do so. If you don't want the looks in a suggestive way, then dress with some class for god sakes! \n\nGirls today more than ever seem to lack the most basic of proprietary skills, class and social graces. If you don't want men to look at your boobs, buns or other areas than don't wear the slutty clothes. Have some self respect and dress with dignity. \n\nBesides a real man, a man worth keeping would not respect you for acting or dressing in such a manner and actually the classy look in the end will garner much more favorable attention. No good man wants to think he can have his way with you on the first date, that is if they're being honest with you and themselves.
80788
screw what men expect. i'm a guy, if you don't limit us, the possibilities are endless. i mean, at most a kiss? after all it is just a first date.
1004092
No, as a matter of fact I like it when a woman makes the first move. Making the first move shows that she knows what she wants and she isn't afraid to go after it. It also shows that she is very comfortable around a guy and that she is very comfortable in her own skin and honest with herself pertaining to her own feelings.\n\nAlso, for me in-particular it's a major turn-on to know that a woman wants me bad enough to boldly make the first move.