What is it with guys these days?!?
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I believe men have let society confuse them..and ofcourse whatever all they have been thru with whomever it was they went thru whatever they went thru with.
550218
men are like that cause they are big babies..  it's pathetic i know  but thats just the way it is.. love em or hate em..lol
64736
Well, some guys do understand man. I dont treat girls like that. And i know alot of other guys that don't.\nSo, i think your predicament is kind of solitary.\nMaybe you should work that out among the guys that youre around, because people i know aren't like that.
149746
which guys are you talking to ???? not me, i guess!!
738412
Men do. They are the ones that have to make all the moves. Well some women except them too. Things may have changed for the younger people. In all men have it harder.
1058786
there are tons of guys like that, you just have to find them. (we are all over the place) ;)
1167603
Lol, I'm still trying to figure this out. In all 3 of my relationships I have been chested on. It doesn't make sense, but guys will be guys. Some are just selfish and only want what they can get out of a relationship. I know its upsetting, but hey I'm sure there are good one's out there. The good one's are just hard to find. Don't give up, but don't allow urself to be played anymore. Stand up for yourself and say what you want and do not want in a relationship.  Let a guy know what you will accept from the beginning.
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I was very interested in your question and the answers you recieved. I have been with "bad boys", you could say i have a lil bit of an addiction...lol It's not that i am stupid or because i ws abused as a child. It's not that i am still so immature that i do not see the pitfalls of being w' one. This said, I will tell you that Brad is right! Women want men who are confident, strong and well....act like MEN! It's in our nature as women. How many guys do you know that think it would be soooo cool if only their girlfriend acted more like one of the guys? It is great in theory..she would love sports and all the same stuff you do right? Then think about it....... do you REALLY want a girl who acts like a guy? It's not that we want the bad boy all the time (although some of us genuinely do like that...diff. reasons and i'm sure you know a few) It's that we want the guy who takes his place in the relationship as the GUY..so that we can feel like a woman. It's not that you have to BE the bad guy, you just have to pick up the traits that we are attracted to in them! Be a man, be confident, upfront, and yea...I've told a few other guys this, don't take too much of our crap because we will lose respect for you and start seeing you as a wuss! Do you know how many times i have seen girls w' nice guys and they are soo bored and not attracted to him anymore..they start checking out the bad boys... they don't understand why..i mean their guy falls all over himself for them. Our backwards screwed up society is partially to blame but all these lil girls need to stop brow beating all of our men into p***y whooped lil sissy boys and then turning around and whining that he just doesn't do it for them anymore! Romance is not dead! It's that we as women, and i know i am going to get so hated for this..lol, have put you men in a position of not knowing just how to be men anymore..... you can be both... you can be well mannered, polite, considerate, very caring and also assertive, confident and strong! Then....just stand back and hold on to your socks! Because the woman you get then will be a real woman..who recognized in you what it really takes for a good balanced realtionship! Not one of these crazy lil girls running around crying that they want this and that and basically the equivalant of being with another chick..and then dumping you when they realize that for some reason they just don't understand..you just don't do rock their world..lol \n  Just be you...be some of what she wants and needs, the same as you would want from her, and be a man. Good Luck!
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Are you serious??? There are still guys like that? Haha. That’s quite funny because you don’t find many guys who think or feel that way anymore.  And when you do your lucky. The reason girls feel like that is because that’s probably all guys had wanted from them before. No matter how many times guy say “not all guys are jerks” The moment we start to believe some guys are nice and give them a chance, is when we end up getting fooled and hurt. Some girls get so hurt by the fact of being used and being told lies so that guys could get what they wanted. If you really are interested in a girl, prove to her your not like that. It may be hard work at first but in the end, it’ll be worth it. Goodluck.
458067
that sux, maybe its cause guys are itimidated by ur beauty and they think they could handle a woman like u
163209
yes I feel like that everyday. then the guys I encounter are less than stellar. I think we all have to have faith, live our lives for our self and have fun regardless of if he comes. If you just sit around and wait you will miss the pleassure of living your life! so cry a bit get over it and do something that makes you happy. you never know you might meet the right person while you are in the mist of having fun...
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why is a guy asking this ???
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Guys are like that, SOOOO immature. It's not your fault, I'm sure you're wonderful and don't deserve the weirdness of men...unfortunately they are such good kissers!!!
554803
Get Intelligent! Apart from the usual sex appeal guys are big on "girl intelligence"...Know why? Its getting rare !
1120407
People are so ignorant these days! So, don't worry about anything coz they are just making fools out of themselves. I also have experienced the same problems, but I stayed patient looking for and having good friends, and I did.
1063331
Quality men are hard to find nowadays.  Most men are either gay, taken, or like one lady said here, too brainwashed by the women they see on tv and in magazines they don't realize that most women don't look like that.  Women have realized that they don't need to rely on a man to take care of them, so they take care of themselves and in doing that they don't settle for any crappy man that comes along.
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we expect more nowadays, i think.\nIts not just, is this a guy who would treat me well and be good for me, its is this the guy I've been waiting for all my life?\nwomen are a bit more independant, they have heard too many scary stories about other women who have been "picked up" and hurt by it, and they have heard ALL the pick up lines.