how to control my desires related to sex?
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MARRY IF YOU ARE NOT.AND TRY TO FAST AS MUCH AS YOU CAN
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Depression and devastation can cause hindrance sexually and easily causes one to be less sexual. You may want to talk to someone professional, like a therapist, because I think it could be mentally linked.
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Many men sexualize their emotional needs. You can begin by journaling. Journal daily on your moods & feelings. You can start with the HALT method; hungry, angry, lonely or tired. As you become more aware of your emotional needs, you can begin taking active steps to meet those needs in healthy ways instead of eroticizing them.\nYou may also want to consider an accountability partner and/or some good therapy. I think there may even be some sexual accountability groups online.
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SPENDING  MORE TIME CARESSING AND KISSING HELPS MANY WOMEN BECOME FULLY AROUSED.\nDONT DRINK ALCOHOL, IT CAN DELAY ORGASM IN WOMEN.\nDO KEGAL EXERCISES TO STRENGTHEN YOUR VAGINAL MUSCLES AND AID IN STIMULATION.\nHEART AND BLOOD PRESSURE MEDS CAN AFFECT SEXUAL DESIRE.\nTAKE A HERBAL BLACK COHOSH, CHASTE TREE BERRY OR GINSENG SUPPLEMENTS, IT CAN PUT SOME SPICE INTO YOUR LOVE LIFE.\nIF PMS SYMPTOMS SQUASH YOUR LOVE LIFE TRY A LOW DOSE ORAL CONTRACEPTIVE, IT MAY SOLVE THE PROBLEM.\n33% OF WOMEN SUFFER FROM LOW SEXUAL DESIRE.\nDURING MENOPAUSE, HALF OF ALL WOMEN EXPERIENCE SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION.
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Stick to being picky because it is better to respect yourself than to have sex and then regret it.  For now just take things into your own hands and have fun.
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You sound like a sweet and intelligent young girl...with feelings!  We have all experienced this once in our young lives and I want to tell you that you need to give yourself some room!  Don't worry about him or the guys, they will always be there, and believe me, you will be noticed!  Take some time to be young and enjoy your time developing into womanhood.  You are feeling strong desires and this is normal, but the question is, can you take control of these strong desires and urges?  We need to be careful these days since with everything going around and the traps we might fall into!  Don't be too hasty and jump into something you are not to sure about.  You do well to listen to people with experience and age.  Don't fight them and their advice!  They really know what's good for you and people your age.  If anything, give yourself some time too weigh things out and reflect on what you've heard.  Good luck and have fun!
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I think anytime someone is unable to control a behavior, there is going to be a problem. Fertility & erection should not be a problem, but the obsession will.  Talk with your doctor about getting some help.
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Try to find things other than sex to work on...put your mind off sex. While you're obviously still going to have a high sex drive, it will help if you don't constantly think about it.
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Please try to continue waiting.. You should also talk to someone.. a priest or some kind of counselor.. a celibate priest could REALLY help you because they had to overcome alot of urges.. It does sound like an addiction but you really need to talk to someone about this.\n\nNow, on the other hand, you COULD be exaggerating this - I get the feeling that you grew up in a strict environment and probably were taught that sexual desires were very wrong.. Is this true?\nHow often are you acting on your feelings?  If it is happening more than 3-4 times a day, and if you are constantly thinking about banging every chick you see on the streets, then you have  a problem.. However, this is all about context.. If you are only doing this like 3-4 times a week.. and don't think about very much about it .. it is just the context of how you grew up and the guilt you place on these actions..\n\n\nI think you just personally place alot of guilt on yourself about this - that may or may not be justified\n\nHow old are you? What was your background? How often is this going on??   If you feel comfortable, please try to post more info so I and others can help you ..  If not, please refer to the links below..  You can take the self-test on the second link
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stop thinking about sex. find something or do something that can make you busy.
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first do you have a girlfriend otherwise i don´t see why stop\nsecond if you are in a sexually active relationship and u still need to masturbate to feel pleasure u need to get someone profesional with couples sexual disfuctions (it happens)\nthird remener to control your drive, anyway try another hobbies
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dude its normal!U are suppressing a wild beast :p .Just let it go man and try to have some more sex.Try not to think abt girls that much or ul become a "sex freak".Figure out whats the most thing abt a girl that excites u the most and go and ahead and seek it and try some intercourse once in a while and satisfy ur sexual desire.
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WELL JUST THINK OF THE THINGS MEN DO TO YOU THAT TURN YOU ON ... OR THE THINGS YOU WISH THEY WOULD DO. RELAX AND JUST HAVE FUN WITH YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN TELL YOU HOW TO PLEASURE YOURSELF EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN FAVORITE TRICKS TO PLAY WITH THEMSELVES!
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Be honest, but sensitive to his feeling; try to bring up the subject when you are not about to have sex or after you've had sex.  Give him hints as to what turns you on.  Find out what he really likes and offer to do it, if he does wha you like.
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You shouldn't.  Sex is a natural process.  Abstaining is unnatural.  The human sex-drive is second only to the hunger-drive.  Just use protection and don't knock her up!
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Slow down your pace. You would know the tempo which is best for you; just slow it down.\nAlso, you can control your orgasm with your breathing... if you hold your breath you'll come faster, if you make a deliberate attempt to slow down your breathing, everything else in your body adjusts accordingly (that's the core to tantric sex).
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Come on. Get A GRIP OF YOURSELF AND DO THE SEARCH YOURSELF. IT'S BETTER TO CONTROL YOUR LUST THEN GET INVOLVE WITH THESE KIND OF STUFF.