i want marrie who i love her she is also ready but our family are not ready so what will i have to do?
600485
The solution that will please everybody is to wait.  If you are so much in love neither of you is going anywhere then just enjoy being together and please the families, you have your whole lives to spend together enjoy it.
438360
I am in that situation too. I really want to meet my boyfriend's family too and don't want to be too pushy. I know that he doesn't want me to yet and don't know why. I would say maybe he feels that he is not ready for this step yet. He wants us to know more about each other first and then meet our families.
779154
try to talk to her one more time, go there personally, tell her what's in your heart, and tell her u need to be with her, and if you can't have your family back, than u need to move on with life, because your not happy being alone. and wait for her response. if she isn't interested than there's no choice but to file for divorce and move on and start over again. but confront her first with how u are feeling, before u file for divorce.
1062610
dont pressure him but let him know that you think you're ready to spend the rest of your life with him and that you guys have 2 beautiful children.  he should know what to do and what's right especially when you guys got saved.  good job on that, it feels good to have god doesn't it?!  best wishes for your family's future!!
1033443
It is okay not to like everything in your love ones lives. This is what makes us unique. Just remember to use good manners and not show loud and rude behavior during the family game watching time. \n\nGood luck and I hope you and your family find something that you can all share in and equally love.
268811
Just tell her. If you're married she'll understand and listen to what you have to say.
202572
Please Show her Love be there for her but tell her that you want tolerate this behavior in you and your sons life again atleast give her a chance to correct her mistake.you may still be mad at her but be there for her let her know that you still love her and that you want your family back dont desert her.thats what the devil want put God in your life more than ever know he can help your family with God all things are possible if you have faith.Know is the time that you remember your Marriage Vows.SICKNESS AND HEALTH THROUGH GOOD N BAD.GOOD LUCK
292878
Depends why you think this is neccessary.  Does your family not like your guy?  Or does your guy not like your family?  You should consider why your family/your guy is asking to give up the other.  If they loved you they should be willing to except your love or your family.
242721
Your family wants you to get married or they just speak about it often? I am not really understanding what you mean. If you want to find a girl to marry than you have to get out to meet them....Lady
214768
You will have to just tell them this is what I want and you are alienating the person I want to be with and the person I love. Say to them you don't have to agree with this but show me some respect and be civil to my soon to be partner. If you stand firm and maybe come a little clean about your part in the problem, this should help, but some people just are stubborn and you'll have to deal with that.
1126901
You say you wee never loved in your life. den you say you got married to a "very loving and caring man"  but couldnt love him? why on earth is that so? u had an unhappy childhood so you kno what it feels like. now tell me. do you want the same for your kids n your lovers too? No point ruining his family even if he himself thinks he is in love with you. talk to your husband bout ur problem of not feling hapy in the marriege. i am sure he'd help. you can aslo go to a counslour. in fact you must. not because you are crazy but because like many others you to are confused bout wat u want in ur life. it seems to me der's love all around u but u dont feel it coz of a hard protective shell dats grown around u to block out da hurt u suffered from. break dat shell.\ni know it's not easy but if u just decied to try n work out ur life once den it's half the batle won. you owe it to ur husband n family dear.\nall the best n do keep in touch.
578794
I hope you mean 'Why can't I marry someone I love?'\nBecause what I can see from your icon and your name. You family has already promised you to someone. If you decide not to follow through you will have put 'shame' or you have made your family lose face. If it is that situation, I know how you feel. I am not a piece of property to bargin with. That is why I know the anger/sadness you feel.
1116311
Your spouse isn't supposed to make you choose between your family and him.  But what it does mean is that your spouse should be your first concern from now on.  You are supposed to support and love your spouse.  It doesn't mean you dump your family though.  \n\nExample:\n\nHis mother constantly puts you down.  Your husband is supposed to stand up for you.  He has to put you first before his mother.  You are his wife and life-partner.  He is supposed to stand by your side.  He can still love his mother, but you must always come before her.
1080521
If you love him and he loves you, you will overcome this. The families will learn to except you , or they will loose there son. A real man would tell there parents,,,this  is who i love and i will marry, except my wife, or i wont be coming around no more, i have a new wife , and that,s my family. But it takes a real man to stand up for his wife / women. Once that happens, things will fall into place. But don't have a man do all this for you,,,if you don't truly  love him. That would be so cruel, never lead a man on. Be sure of what you want before you take that step together. My Thoughts are with you. ~*~*~*~ Peace.
413566
wow so um try talking to your cousin about both of you waiting to see if maybe there is someone else for one or both of you then tell her how you feel and what you want to do if she cares for you both she might refuse to come between the two of you. i hope all goes well and if it doesnt there is more then likely another girl out there
554175
Just love her. If you really do then all the stuff that would make her happy you just naturally want to do and will do for her.\nYou will always be thinking of her and if you go to a store you will look for things for her instead of yourself. You will think very long and hard to come up with little gifts she will be overjoyed with. and because you love her the best thing in the world will be when she is pleased by the thing or gift you got for her. your pay back wil be just watching her being happy.\nYou will go out of your way for her to try to help her out of a bad situation and you will always put her before the things you would like to do.\nAnd if she really loves you she will do the same for you and you should always be in harmony because you both love each other more than you love yourselves.\nThat is the secret of a happy and long marriage with minimal fighting and stress. This how we work together and for the unity of the family. If you care more for her and she for you than you do about what you yourself want it is going to be great! Enjoy!
1133189
If you truly Love eachother,and you are ready and willing to be strong and stand up for yourselves.Then do not let anyone stand in your way.I am assuming that you belong to India.My best advice is that you are going to have to make a choice between your happiness or making others happy.This is your life after all.You may face all kinds of issues,but if your Love is strong enough you will be together.Have faith in God and eachother.Dont get married illegally.Just go to a court and have a court marriage.Your families may not accept you.Be prepared for that.I wish there was some better advice in the universe.But always follow your heart no matter what.Because you wont be happy unless you do.Regardless of culture never allow anyone to control your life.