How to judge the true and real love? shud one forget his/her first love?
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Dont Wait. Continue On with Your Life. You seem to be a Sweet Person. You will Make a Man Honored and Happy to be with You.
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I don't think you will ever totally be over your first love.  If it was love, then there will always be that special spot.  My first love died of cancer, so he always holds a special place.  I've moved on many many years since, and in love with another.  But never have forgotten, not replacing that love, just a new love.
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Because you never ever forget your first love. It will always be special no matter how many relationships you have. In fact, you can't really forget anyone you've been in love with. Love is a feeling you can't just switch off or leave behind. When you have been that intimate with someone and that close, no matter how badly the relationship ended, the good times will always be remembered and looked upon fondly. What you do instead is move on in life and focus on other things and other relationships. Go out, do things you enjoy, surround yourself with friends and realise that love can and will come again. However, if you believe that this girl was more than your first love, maybe you think she was "the one" then why not get in contact with her again? See how she is and see if your feelings are still there.
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I think it's possible to feel something very close to true love without actually meeting, but I think you can't know if it is real true love until you meet physically - for me the whole chemical thing is just huge, if I don't like how a guy smells, he has no chance. And there are so many aspects of our personalities that only come out face to face.\n\nThat said - I exchanged emails with my current bf for about a month before we actually met, and I was definitely well on my way towards falling in love before we met - which made a big difference, because I don't know if I would have been so attracted to him physically if I hadn't already fallen for him mentally.
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When your in love with some you will know.  Like when your with them nothing in the world seems to matter anymore.  You will be able to know when your in love and can tell its real cause you wont be thinking about other people in the same way.\n\nHoped this helped
76891
This is a hard one. If you love both the same, you cant really tell who is your true love. So what I would do in this situation is stay with the one you are with now. If the first one left you before.. he can definatly leave you again.. making the pain that much worse. Besides you are already with one you love. You wont be leaving anyone but continueing with what fate has brought you.
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First love is first love, you just tend to measure that person to everybody else which isnt being fair and that where all of us tend to make mistakes. We judge out partner based on how we felt about someone else. Now give him a chance and forget comparisons between your love for someone else and your boyfriend. He treats you right and he loves you, so why are you inesecure?
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Harder to leave!  Because whether your conscious of it or not, you've already started questioning the worth of staying or not.  You may love him, but you can't make him love you because you hurt or your miserable.  You got played, so swallow the lump in your throat, and go on with life.  There will come a time again in your life that you will find love.\nIf he was your first love, I'm sorry for you, believe me, I understand!! Unfortunately, you won't forget him, but try not to; make a conscious effort not to judge other men by his actions/mistakes.  They really aren't all monsters.
933845
True love will get you through just about anything.  First love is usually just a beautiful memory.  Those we love truly have a way of impacting our lives on many different levels and are therefore the most important.
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Realistically, you can't completely forget someone you used to love. At least, I can't. Everyone I've ever loved will always be a part of who I am. They are part of the influences in my life who have made me a better person. Even if they were horrible people, I've become better by the lessons learned. Don't try to forget...just open your heart to yourself and your own strength...and allow your life to "absorb" the hurt. Then the moving on will happen naturally, without the effort...and you will be a finer person for your experiences. (if you choose to be)
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I have had "true love" and never realized it until recently...After 12 Years! You won't understand until its time to understand, for now live for the moment, do what feels right, and .... just have fun! Really the words to live by, JUST BE HAPPY! at he end of the day, only TIME can tell, the old saying, if you love him let him go, if he comes back it was meant to be! Its soooo true!
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OMG I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!! (except I dated the guy for 2 years)..... I guess we never get over them.... thats what it means to love someone..... and we will only get over them when we find someone better.... but i dont think anyone forgets thier first love..... (I still cant atleast)
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Its never easy to just forget,love is an ever-fixed mark that is never shaken...OK i know this sounds googly but really love is inexplainable...undefinable...love is not just love..love can last till the end of doom...you just have to know if your love is true!!
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Different peoples, Different point of view about love...\n\nfor me..When LOVE is pure.. its unconditional.. u always give and not expecting in return.. always give in some time u will think "i have nothing to give" but it always has feeling to give.. and forgive.. even how deep is the pain and hurt it will be okay.. the more u stand still no matter how trials come.. how u hold him/her when the storm is hitting u so bad.. the more u sacrifice that more u feel love in ur heart.. When there is too much burden and worries.. and ur eyes are full of tears.. and when he/she/hey came and hug u tight and tell "i love you, things will be okay" it seems like there is nothing to worry, feels like im in safe place.. im protected.. \n\nLove is the feeling that is hard to recognise at first and when u have it.. its difficult to let go..
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No, and I NEVER will! First loves are important in our lives, and will always be in our memories. Mine has been gone for years, but I still think about her from time to time. What we have to do is move on(but we NEVER forget).
1186828
Zero or you are really young and or naive. if you have never loved anybody else how would you know that person is or was the "ONE"
297190
No  ... First love is not always the true everlasting love .. sometimes is mere illusion. i had and it ended years ago.. Now i love my husband .. Forget about it .. Never leave it obsess ur mind .. Wish u good life