how can i keep my man happy for the rest of his life?
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1. Support him as he chases his dream (if you kill his dreams, he'll never forgive you)\n2. Encourage him and tell him how great he is (even if he isn't, he might just live up to your words)\n3. Be sexually easy and don't play mind games\n4. Never talk to your parents about problems in your marriage.\n5. Agree to communicate about money so that it never comes between you.
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wow if you can afford it, try paying a pilot in a small jet plane to write it in the sky for you.  Or have it advertised on a flashing billboard. If money is a problem, a simple gesture of how much you adore him by saying so, and ask him to spend the rest of his life with you as your husband.
501471
Do fun things with your guy.Learn about each other.\nand it will go just right.
720021
you cant.. just give him some space,,, and when he is feeling better, then try and make him feel great.
930575
Hi Miss_Perfect,\n\nThe best way to a man's heart is through his stomach so I'd say make him his favorite dinner, favorite dessert, candles & favorite music playing. This works always because you took the time to make him happy.  If you make his lunches you can always put little love notes in especially for him. And why not surprise him with a big red bow tied around your nake body!!
92807
Get to the root of the problem.  Find out what doesn't make him happy living with you. Listen to him acknowledge him his voice. Try to work it out between both of you.  There is an answer.
577260
well first find out what he wants or likes.  maybe a homecooked meal, men love home cooked meals.  you can take him out to a good dinner and movie or concert.  men enjoy surprises just as much as women.  a good video and a night watching it together.  just use your imagination. if he loves you he will truly enjoy anything you do for him.
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he sounds really stressed, try and not be so intense, Life should be made up of segments of things.. ie, friends, family, work, hobbies it sounds as if your life is just all about your relationship, make urself happier in other aspects and definatly calm down on the pleasing him and making ur relationship stronger, do things that'll make u a happier person, not just him.
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Gat him something to gain his confidence and know that your serious about having soemthing forever.  Give him a gift that will last a while and is from the heart.  Tell him you would like to exchange commitment rings and also go away to have a special weekend and rekindle things and also go take professional pictures together to have.  That should help you get things together in your relationship and will be special.
677849
it's tricky, too much of a good thing can be bad in the long run. switch it up by letting him treat. if his attitude turns negative then he's with you for the doe and you need to bounce.
646474
Depends on variables. Goals, communication, honesty, etc., it takes a lot of hard work to keep a relationship going and going and going, for the next, what, forty years? If you can envision yourself and this man forty years from now, all wrinkled but still smiling and holding hands as you take your daily walk, well then, there you go!
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Well, can only answer for myself, But I would enjoy something or even just a thoughtful gesture from your heart over something thats store baught anyday.  Use your imagination.  Special dinner of his favorite food that YOU have prepared for him, a special evening to just yourselves, make it romantic, make him feel that he is the one and only man that has ever existed in your life.  Remember it is all about him that day.  Start from the time you wake up in the morning till the time you two finally fall asleep that night.  And I'm sure he will be doing something special for you, so be patient and work together so that both of you feel that the plans you have put together have went smoothly and fully.  Good luck and congratulations.
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If it is not something you are comfortable with, then you shouldn't have to do it just to keep the relationship going.\n\nHave a chat with him and find out if he is understanding enough to give that part of his life up (He should, if he loves you that much.)\n\nIf he's not willing to give it up, then you have to decide if it's something you can put up with, no matter how much you like him or how great he is.\n\nIf you can, then stay. If not, then leave him as you will never be happy with him and will get more stressed out as time goes by.
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first off, congrats. it's not easy to make it to 10 years, so cheers for you!\n\nnow, let's get down to business. here's a couple things to try to keep that spark alive, or hopefully to ignite things if they've gone a little cold.\n\n1) give sexy gifts spontaneously.\n\nlisten, you're not kids anymore; you love each other, and sex is part of that. you don't have to be embarassed of being straightforward about your sex life. that being said, it's okay to give each other sexy, suggestively romantic gifts. a couple of ideas:\n\n-for the man: get your wife something romantic, like a bottle of wine with a ribbon wrapped around it along with a sexy romance novel for those nights when you can't be there. the book will get her mind racing with all these creative new ideas for your love life, and the wine will provide a bit of "liquid courage" to get the ball rolling. =)\n\n-for the woman: honestly, nothing can be sexier to us than YOU, simple as that. but show us that you're in the mood, and that you don't mind sex as a way to express love. pick up a bit of lingerie, and surprise us in a place that's NOT the bedroom. \n\ntry taking your man out to lunch, and telling him in the middle of the meal that you've got a lacy black thong on. then, watch how fast he gets the check taken care of so that he can whisk you home. ;)\n\n2) communication.\n\nwe've all been there: it's been a long day, and the last thing you want to do is have a marathon sex session when you come home. for the guy, watch your woman's mood -- if she's been picking up after the kids all day, DON'T bug her about when dinner's going to be ready. instead, make her feel appreciated and maybe even lend a helping hand to the things she has left to do. the appreciative feelings flooding through her system will shoot straight to her crotch. trust me.\n\nand for the lady: take care of your man -- he won't admit it, but he's a big baby. he's probably super stressed from his day of work, and even if it seems like he wants to talk about it, don't let him. instead, completely take care of his needs -- give him a back rub, make a nice steak or something (i like pasta, personally) and don't try and bring up the things he's stressed about. you'll be amazed that, as his mind is relieved from the things that stress him out, he'll have much more time and energy to focus on you.\n\n---\n\nwell, that should get the ball rolling. i would post more, but everyone here at Y! Answers has the attention span of speedy gonzales (not a racist joke) =U|\n\ngood luck, and may the relationship spice up dramatically!
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hmmm.......... i have been giving suggestion in this regard to a lot of people and i guess they liked it also...\nthe problem here is there is a monotonous life schedule which is going on..... you have a routine life and people do get bored out of their routine life.....\none thing i would suggest is stop bitching about each other.... this is the worst thing to do in a relationship.... ater all this, you two are together for 5 years means that there is something which is still there which is binding you two.... it can love, it can be lust......\ndo these to spice up your life.....\n1. give him a surprise party..... without any occasion\n2. always be a pleasant surprise for him.... keep him guessing what will be your next move... that will interest him...\n3. Perform a striptease in front of him... totally unexpected...\n4. for once, dont bitch back..... arguments leads to arguments......\neven though he does, you have to keep your calm, and try to love him, even though he might be busy bitching..... put your arm around him and kiss him on his lips.... the words come out.....\n5. don't hear whatever he says, when he is bitching.......\n6. give your love to him...... it can bind/heal/patch almost any kind of relationship.... it can cure the bitterness between you two......\ntake care and good luck girl
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Some people do know that their love will last for ever others dont know, but are you happy and is he happy? do you make each other happy?\nAs Long as you are both happy why should you worry?
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Ask yourself if you can live with all the in differences sounds like it might be difficult to always have him being the one who is right and in control you have to do what makes you happy any relationship is a 50/50 deal :)