If you and your partner are madly in love but you feel some insecurity what could this mean?
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The first question you need to ask yourself is this...who exactly are you marrying? Your sweety or your sweety family? It's you and your sweety who has to live together (unless you're living with the family too) and while being accepted into the family is a good sign of approval, remember they have their life, you have to live yours and find your happiness. Good luck!
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I know what you are probably feeling- nothing is wrong, but it scares you to think that maybe something bad could happen to your relationship.  I think it's a normal thing, but what I try to do is not think about that possibility and focus on the present, focus on how wonderful things are, and not think about the 'what-ifs'.
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insecure -- love\nDon't match!!
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When you find yourself constantly thinking about that person, when you get butterflies and are excited just to be near that person, when you cant wait to see him/her, when you dont want to be away from him/ her, when you sit by the phone waiting, when you feel sad cos they feel sad, when you would do anything to have that person with you, when you would do anything to make that person happy, when you would give your life for the sake of that person, then you know you are truly in love.\nOr maybe im just a hopeless romantic!
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Insecurity. Indecissivness. Could be like a ex of mine.\nCouldn't committ fully to me, But didn't want me with\nanyone else.
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In a relationship, jealousy equals insecurity. When you find yourself feeling jealous, you need to stop and ask your self what you are insecure about in this relationship. Is it his feelings for you that you arent sure about? Do you think he's untrustworthy? Do you feel like you aren't good enough for him? Have you been cheated on or left for someone else before? A lot of times, it helps just to identify where these feelings of jealousy are stemming from, and then you can understand them better and how to deal with them.
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i think a lot of people feel that way sometimes about their partner. it's not that you don't really love your partner, it's just that you want them to be at their best all the time.\n\nlet's be realistic, a lot of us tend to judge our friend's partner's looks at times so i think it's just normal for us to be conscious on how our partner looks, the way we are about ourselves.\n\nme, for example, i really love to dress up and look my best at all times (even before going to sleep) because it makes me feel good when people compliment me with the way i look so, i also try to make sure that my husband looks his best at all times as well. BUT, i don't push it. i try to be subtle in letting him know that because that might hurt his ego. i want him to look good not only because i look good but i want him to feel better about himself when people compliment him for looking good.\n\ncall it shallow but i believe being at your best will help make you feel better about yourself, enabling you to have a good outlook in life...  = )
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It's a fact of life that people who are 'in love' will eventually simply love one another. It's impossible for the raging fire that was once your feelings for each other to continue indefinitely. This is very normal. Eventually, you will feel the same and you will accept it and be happy that you have someone who loves you. There are people in this world who never have that.
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You have reached the highest and deepest state of love when you feel that someone is your soul mate. You will feel like they know you like no one else in the world, you can read their mind and feel what they feel, like they are always watching you even miles apart! You will communicate without words.\np.s.- it's a torture if you can't be with that person :-(
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...wish to share, am a returner favourer kinda person.\n\n1.26 11:51p est Stupendous Man, silly of me to confuse you with that little guy Calvin, guess I thought he looked a little like you.\nFor me it would depend what those differences were. If we're talking about weaknesses in character, then have to say I have seen that used as a weapon, friend on friend, sibling on sibling, and of course spouse on spouse. \nI had a realization once that I turned into a caution motto, "There is no one in this world who loves you so much as to not say a negative thing about you behind your back." (yes, very familiar with feeling betrayed, but let's leave that) And I guess a similar expression would be, "There isn't likely to be anyone in this world who loves you enough, never to hold your weaknesses against you." Whether that weakness is being too emotional or not emotional enough, or having to much to say or not being able to verbalize worth a poo, ya know the contrast between one personality and it's opposite.\n\nI guess what I am getting to, is that it's possible to love someone and know they have this difference about them, and SOMETHING ELSE gets in between you, and in the course of having it out one spouse retaliates with pointed references to this "difference". IT ISN'T because they were always really bothered by it and just never brought it up before, it's more that they were running out of arguments about the actual issue at hand, and needed some grounds to prove their "right"geousness in the fallout.\nFeeling misunderstood on both sides is where the real problem is. It's not necessarily a communication breakdown, it could be the gradually ending of sympathy, feeling unequal in a relationship, feeling undervalued. Then it's "who cares if you're sensitive about this difference, I want to right no matter the cost, I want to be heard whatever might fly from my lips"\nIt's sad and unnecessary, but it comes from people's focus on theirselves. If more people tried to see it from the opposing perspective this world would be a much more peacful place.
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You will know when you're both in love. There will be a feeling like you can't get enough of that person.  Like you belong together. You will feel completed and happy with your life.
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You are in love when you see the person at their absolute worst and you aren't turned off in the least bit. \n\nYou are in love when you know you would do anything to make them happy for life.
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It affects me much because when you are in love so bad, you will keep on striving to keep your partner next to you by giving him or her the best thing you could, including the well shape of your body and your healthy body as well. No one wants to have big fat unhealthy junkie partner.
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It is only natural.  Ive been with my partner for 5 and a half years and pregnant with my first child.  We love each other dearly and we both often say we are each other's "soulmate".  But regretfully your partner cant be the romantic you want or need him to be all the time.\n\nIts beautiful to be in love with someone u care so deeply about, but at the same time people also need their own space to grown and learn.  Im also in the same type of situation as your partner, but im the one that sometimes goes a little cool.  \n\nIts not that i dont love my partner, i love him to the ends of the earth.  But i need my own personal space and be alone or with family and friends.  A relationship isnt measured by what u can do just with your partner, but also being able to be an individual and still have your own room.  If i become despondent, he knows i want time out.  I dont want time out from the relationship, i want time to be with "me".\n\nDont fret, i think everything will be fine.  But at the end of the day, just be alert if you lose communication with him or he doesnt appear attentive to you at all.
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When its infatuation you always wondering if the other is cheating or is this going to cause a break up. Basically your constantly worrying and have no trust. When your in love you trust that person completely and know you are going to be loved no matter what you do or how you look.
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you constantly think about the person your with, you tlk about him constantly everytime your with him you heart misses a beat you get tingle in your stomach theres lots of things to determine that you are in  love but to defie the meaning of love well hu nos what it is! also theres a fine line between love n lust
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When you feel like your whole being is being entwined with the other person's. When you look at them, and can't imagine life without them. When you don't feel 'in love' but you know deep down that part of them is inside your heart, and part of you is their's to keep. When no matter what they do you know you just need to make it work.