How do I get the hot guy that I like that likes me back to go out with me without me asking him???
611072
just ask him out theres nothing wrong with asking him out..
1084706
If you can't put yourself out there, ask a friend, but remember not to shoot the messenger if you don't like the answer.  Is this boy a part of your group of friends and you get the feeling he likes you back?  Go ask him on your own!!!  Is this boy even aware of you?  Go ask him on your own!!  What have you got to lose?  If you can do this, you can do anything, start now!
822988
let him know you like him and see how he reacts to this then say maybe we can go out some time. that way he can be able to ask you out instead. then you don't have to worry about it.
57057
Damn baby, I wanna date you...LOL. If you like getting walked on, then keep taking him back. If you want to respect yourself, kick him to the curb and keep moving forward with someone that will treat you better. Don't put up with crap. People will only do to you what you let them do.
328976
go out with him and dont give him any signals or body language that would encourage him to do anything... it sounds like you dont know him too well... make sure you get to know him before you let yourself get close again...
332099
Better yet, why don't you just ask him to do something together alone.  If you are around him as much as you say, you should know what he likes to do.  Ask him if he would like to go with you to do something without everyone else. You know, tell him that you think that he is a cool guy and you would like to have a chance to just talk to him without everyone else being around. He should be able to get the picture.
163588
There's no easy way to do this.  But I'd try to keep two things in mind:\n\nFirst, you're under no obligation to like someone just because they like you.  \n\nSecond, you are under an obligation to be honest, direct, and kind.  \n\nAs a guy who spent a lot of his teenage years getting turned down for dates, I'd say the way to go is to be polite, direct, and firm.  Don't express revulsion, or hold out false hope.  Just say "I'm sorry.  I don't feel the same way about you that you do about me, and I don't want to go out with you."  There's no need to be mean, but at the same time don't be apologetic about your feelings.  Don't tell him "maybe later", don't tell him it's because you're seeing other guys, don't tell him you can just be friends.  Break the news to him calmly, politely, and then -- this is really important -- LEAVE.\n\nLeaving is very important.  Guys have a nearly infinite capacity for self-delusion.  If you tell him "no" and then hang out with him, he might convince himself "Oh, she's just saying that, but really she likes me!  That's why she's spending time with me!"  Believe it or not, the kindest thing you can do for this guy after you break the news is to get out of his life and stay away from him for a while.  That will help him get over you more quickly.\n\nGood luck
410777
Tell him you like him but don't go up to him and just say Hey I like you... that might catch him off gaurd and he might say something he'd regret, just walk up and ask him who he likes, and tell him you know someone who does and she wants you to ask him out for her and when he asks who say me. Than see his reaction if it's kinda mean it means you caght him off gaurd and he'll probably try to fix it later and you should let him.
30836
i'm trying to do the same thing but maybe you should flirt with him or hint at him and maybe ask a friend who knows him to hint too when you're not around. you know have her say stuff like " yeah she's single ya know. she's been looking for a bf but no guy is brave enough to ask i mean if anyone asked she would probably say yes easily."
1109534
That is so cool!\nThe same thing happened with me and my crush\nand now we cant stand one moment apart!!\nThat is totaly flirting, and like \nyhea!! \nIts normal for him to be nicer around you when his guys arent there, cause you know.. They got to be cool and all..... Dont take it personaly.\n\nYou should ask him out, or send little hints, you know, give him signals for him to ask you out.\n\nTry it. \nThe rewards are great.\n\nGood Luck.
214119
Make a move.  Put yourself in a situation where the two of you are alone by yourselves.  Then just pull out all of your typical female tricks, touching of the arm, giggling like a fool and maybe leaning in a little too close to his face.  If he likes you he'll take this opportunity and lay one on ya.  This way your not making a fool of yourself by talking to him and finding out he doesn't feel the same way you do.  Talk is over-rated.  Oh and if he's spending this much time with you my bet is that he's hot for you too.  Guys don't have friends that are girls, they just hang around long enough to get in their pants.  GO FOR IT!!!
348755
First, relax... don't get bent out of shape for nothing.  If he likes you and you wonder, ask him.  If he doesn't ask you, don't bother badgering him for an answer.  \n\nAbout this chick that he dated or is dating, you shouldn't worry about that.  You are going to find that most men have gone around at least with one woman before he comes your way.  I think you should just relax and let the good times come.  If you think he likes you, ask him if he wants to date you.  Ask him hypothetical questions... just relax.
874167
Yeah, tell him girl! u have nothing to lose! I know it's going to b embarassing afterwards if he doesn't answer or he says "no", but really, that's still ok, things will b fine in a few days! u can still work to impress him or go for another guy later. But imagine if he likes u back! If you can't work up the courage to ask him face to face, write him a letter, tell him on msn, tell a friend to tell him, get to know him better... Really, there's nothing wrong with telling him u like him, but if he accepts, don't forget to ask him to a movie or something, or u guys might b just hanging there not knowing what to do after. Bottom line is, go for it, be romantic!
1063505
The same way a boy does it:  Go up to him and say, "Would you like to go out with me?"  But, be prepared to be rejected.  It's what boys suffer all the time.  Embarassed?  Why?  Aren't you being honest with him?  If he rejects you, that's HIS loss...not yours!\n\nIf he does reject you, you don't want him, or you THINK you want him, but it's for the WRONG reasons!  Just face the fact that you made a bad choice, and ask yourself, "WHY him?"  The answer will be you discovering your TRUE love.  (Obviously, you chose him because getting him would satisfy some inner shortage you fell about yourself.  That's NOT "love".  Love yourself FIRST, and Mr. Perfect will find YOU!)
411667
Wait for another time.  It sould like it may end up being too stressful if you have to be misleading.  Think about how great it would be if everyone could be open.  If he doesn't know you like him then you're more likely to be disappointed that you didn't have quality time with him and it will be all your own fault.  If he's the right guy for you, you'll have a chance to be with him and enjoy the fact that not only you like him but that he likes you.  Wait for that to happen and you'll enjoy yourself more.  Even if it doesn't happen, you'll be glad you didn't push the situation.
290088
tell him that you like him, and ask if he'd want to go out to a movie or something as more than just friends. If he says no..don't sweat it. There are plenty of men out their. I'm sure you're a cute girl, you can have anything you want if you work hard enough for it. Good luck! If he turns you down then you're too good for him anyways
697712
I think he just says he likes you so he can bang you! When you ask him out he says no because he doesn't want to be tied down to one person.  He wants free range to whatever hot chick will have him.   If you wanna have fun play some games with him, if your looking for a relationship dont bother find someone else who cares about you and your feelings!