My sister recently came back....?
602374
mmm, have you talkeed to her about it?\n\npeople generally don't just disapear without reason. \n\nare there fights in your family?\n\nIs she happy with her life where he is?\n\ncan any of the problems she's having where she is be fixed.\n\nmake an effort to make her life better and she wont want to leave it.
1008166
ask your sister if she uses a mailing service that automatically saves sent messages..if so..email her and explain asking her to send it again!\nin the mean time, check your block list and make sure that your spam filter accepts your sisters email\nif it has deleted it, then chek the trash can or look in the spam folder..it may be there
1075472
you can't force her to connect back to you... she's at this age where she's having identity crisis and probably wants you to leave her alone. it is true that teenagers are a little self-centered as if the whole world revolves around them -- im not saying this to degrade anybody, i WAS in this phase too! when you gain more experience as you grow older, that's the time when you learn to be selfless and humble. you start to think about other people. there is no specific age for this... these things you learn through hardships no matter what. i've dealt with a lot of things, so i learned quicker, and i kinda grew up a little too fast. my life passed me by though -- i didn't get to enjoy hanging out with friends or having boyfriends, but i have learned to be selfless. what matters to me now are the people i love... they matter more to me than myself. \nanyhow... there will come a time when your sister will mature as well, and you'll probably be matured at that time too... and i bet you will be as closest as you can possibly be. i have friend who fought with her brother constantly when they were younger, but they became so close when they got older when she finally moved out.. she would always tell me how much she misses her brother. so give it time... this time will come. (as long as you don't change and forget all about her)
911516
you can get info online. go to department of corrections. if she is prison her name will come up. I check for people from my past all the time. I am close to my sister who has been clean for almost four years now, but I used to worry about her all the time. Sorry for the pain you are going through. I said a little prayer for you.
1044665
That sounds very rude and inconsiderate to me.  If she asked your sister then she asked her so she should stay.  She can just let her friend know that the spot has been filled because she declined.  I dunno man, but to me she is already setting a bad example for married life if she can't even stay true to her word and cant even show respect for your family.  Looks like you got some thinking to do.  Good luck.
1040641
This sounds horrible, I would be livid.  Say something, let your sister know that if she is going to come by she needs to clean up.  Have you discussed this issue w/ your parents b/c all of you may need to confront her about this.  There is nothing worse than a trifling visitor.  But do not keep your feelings about the situation bottled up.  Or beat her at own game, go to her house and mooch off of her.
873578
that sister should have her letters taken away. these are not things to be "traded" . you both need to be put on line again. you obviously didn't pledge hard enough anyway.
291093
Ask her if you can have some time apart. I hope that helped.
1044647
just be there for her. if she needs something or needs to talk be there . in the meantime you are gonna need someone to talk to you yourself so you can be a good support for your sister............................good luck! e mail me if you want. I had a 3 yr old with cancer\nterrinjohn89@adelphia.net
513201
Maybe she has been doing exercises called "Kegles", or maybe you just imagined it. Whatever the reason, if you are back together don't worry about it, just move on with your life and be happy!
618865
you can both have mesanger just not on at the same time.\n\njust download msn once and login depending on who is on the comp you or your sister
585597
Pray. And realize you can't force her to come home. All you can do is be there for her as a sister and let her make her own mistakes. If you push or manipulate, she won't feel safe in turning to you.\n\nAnd I'll be praying for you as well... :)
303041
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
871691
u can't get her back enless u'v been away from her 4 only a couple days. if not, ow you in trouble. if u really want advice than ask her not people online. tell her u need her not us. if she understands u 2 where meant 4 each other . good luck. e-mail me and tell me how it works out at kayseasbq_10
502219
Have you called her to ask and make sure she isn't mad at you for some reason?  If she isn't, then maybe she has found a boyfriend, or another girlfriend, or maybe she is just kind of depressed.  People go through this kind of thing every once in a while.  Just give her some space, and if she really truly was a good friend, she'll come back after a while.
121642
Wow that sucks, my sister's the same.  Act the same way as you would with the person you were with previously.
1045035
I think you should ask her.  Tell her that you are concerned for her.  Be very gentle and loving.  It could be that they are just very close, you will never know unless you ask.\n\nYour goal should be to restore her, not to tear her down.