why do people get married and then get devioce in 3 to 6 months?
597694
Maybe they just do it for the party and the gifts?
321989
From what I understand, it can be planned in a year's time.  You can find wedding planners that give you step by step instructions on what to do each much, so you won't get overwhelmed.  But on another token, I've seen people get engaged and wait at least two year or so, to get their debts caught up and all so they can actually have a 'fresh start'.  Good luck.
177224
If you are ready to take the next step and you feel it's right then it's the right time. I'm getting married in November and i know it's the right thing to do. I love him and there is no point in waiting, i'm 25 and my family and friends enjoy his company which made it easier for me to make my decision. If you don't have to change your life to involve the other person but gradually include them, then it's good. Don't think that maybe someone/something better will come along and you might miss out, that's wrong.
599898
Being married increases your lifespan by about 15 years.
1051005
when you are married. duh.
88646
It's a sign of self respect for both you and the person that you choose to be with for the rest of your life. It is so much more special when you save it for the special someone that takes your hand in marriage. \n\nIt's not old fashioned thing, I think really it is common sense and remaining abstenent until the "right one" comes a long really says a lot for your character. :)Believe me, it is well worth it to wait.
814871
Why marry at all? Enjoy life before you get tied down.
8514
There's a special someone waiting out there for each and everyone of us. might even be so near as to be your checker at your favorite store. One day when your thinking all else fails you. he/she will surely come along. as easy as spilling soup in your lap. even if it takes two years later. a joke to be told about that day. It's gonna bring a grand day in your life. yes my friend one day you will get married.
1052469
God will let you know when the time is right or the person.  God does things on His time for us.  Not on our time.  Maybe God knows that you may get hurt so he wants you to wait a bit.  Maybe there is someone else God had in mind that will come along.  Maybe God wants you to be more financially secure before heading into a marriage.  Maybe God wants you do to other things before getting married.  There may be various of reasons but if God is not ready for you to get married, then by all means wait.  He has His reasons.  Be patient!
24361
It is different for everyone. Some people are not out to be married just to be married, but they find someone they love, and decide they want to be with that person forever. Some are scared of ending up alone. Some people do it because it seems like the thing to do, the next logical step in your life. I knew a guy who did just that. He had a long time girlfriend, he graduated college, and just fell into the pattern he thought would be normal. It did not last though. Marriages should be based on love and trust, not a fear of being alone.
1114007
What's with them is the fact that they don't know how to honor a committment. They are selfish in that they guage the success of their marriage on how THEY feel.  Once the new car smell goes away, they think it's time to trade for a new one.   It takes effort to keep a marriage exciting and to pull through the periods of time when things are a little low, which is inevitable.   However, a lot of people are too into themselves and not their marriage.
345456
You should wait at least a year or more before getting married again, as you sure don't want to make the same mistake again............
53727
Because people are lonelier nowadays, and once they find the probable "perfect one", they don´t want to let the other away. So they marry in a hurry, to find out later on that the "perfect one" is not that perfect, and in fact has dozens of imperfections. So they start early and finish early also.
851401
cause people are into the easy way out, quick fixes ect ect most people these days dont take being married seriously enough so they end up calling it quits after only a few years.  its not about them being young, its about how mature they are as a couple and how much they love eachother. also its really hard just starting out money is usually tight so its easy to fight.
454371
Forget that...it takes too long.  Make somebody to get married!!
506876
My boyfriend and I are both divorced, and we're both a little marriage shy, so I totally understand your problem.  I want to know why 2 years is such a long time before you get married?  Most marriages are dissolved after a couple years because the people didn't know each other, I hear constantly "Well, we got married and I found out......"  That is not how marriage should be.  If you are going to spend the rest of your life with a person, you should know them in and out beforehand.  I'm a firm beleiver in living together before marriage.  Try that for a year or so, if you guys are still madly in love then you can START talking about marriage.
828578
2 weeks.  The marriage only has to last 6 months.