Is it ok if I let my bf go to Pornstar Karaoke?
608618
sure let him go hell probably go anyway so why fight about it
1090585
i honestly don't think you should as long as its only pictures he is taking, i mean why don't you tell him that u are uncomfortable with that, if he respects you he will delete them from his fone.\n(i hope you get the response you want! xx)
263792
All men watch porn and all men m.a.s.t.u.r.b.a.t.e and all men do both at the same time if they have the chance, and this has nothing to do with loyalty or fidelity to you. This will be true for every boyfriend you ever have.  So the question for you is, do you want to accept this fact or not.  If you are accepting of it, that's one more thing that will make you special to your boyfriend.  If you are not, and your bf feels he has to conceal this part of himself from you, then you are inviting the seeds of dishonesty into the relationship and inhibiting closeness between the two of you, if only in a small way.  That's what's at stake here.\n\nHow about watching some porn together with him?  That would certainly demonstrate acceptance on your part.  If that sounds too uncomfortable or scary, then watch some porn by yourself first.  At the very least, it will get you over the shock and embarassment stage of looking at porn.  \n\nWatching porn and maybe fantasizing about different things is not the same as doing them, and you shouldn't feel bad about having "shocking" thoughts cross your mind.
566069
People, enough.  If you let him do it, then you should leave and not be around crap like that.  You women are strong, stand up for youself instead of bitchin about it.  Geeze
990145
Okay...only if you go to my boyfriends mysapce and listen to his songs.  Its all about promotion right?  You scratch my back, I scratch your back.  \n\nwww.myspace.com/kevae
1080455
OK, so you go to strip clubs together, you buy him porn mags and everything has been ok ? So think about it, Why wouldnt it be ok for him to lookat porn online ? Its ok for him to read it and look at in magazines, so of course he is going to think its ok for him to do it online to. Now realize that this internet porn thing is all new to him, he has been opened up to a whole new world of porn and he is going to continue to look at it every day because there is just sooo much out there. I doubt that he sees it as not having a need to finish with you. Because every man will say the real thing is better than a hand. Im thinking he probably just jerks it so much in one day that when it comes down to doing the real thing he is just to worn out. Maybe just tell him whats on your mind and tell him next time hes looking at porn, to hold off from masturbating all day that way you can get all of the sexual tension released on you later. Basically, you need to talk to him about and see if he notices the change. If he does talk about it together and try to come up with a resolution together. Tell him how its affecting you and as a decent man he will try to help you out as much as possible. Maybe try sitting down with him and looking at the porn together and then when hes ready to jerk it, he will have you instead ?
396300
You know what it should not matter but it does. He doesn't like it and you guys need to talk about it. I personally like to dance with guys when i go out too. but if my boyfriend doesn't like i would stop it. it's not worth it.
635581
well as i know if u have good understanding with ur boyfrnd n if u trust him so always belive him. so i will say u should allow him to dance with another women. well wish u a best luck for ur future n may god bless u both.
990993
If you wanna do that with your bf, than it's your business.
391475
he shouldnt have to.  Watching porn is nothing to get upset about, who is he sleeping with every night?  those girls arent real and most guys know that.  Stop making him feel guilty!
809331
Woah this is a big one.  1st of all i'm female and don't agree with men treating women like meat. (I'm sure if a girl told her father she was a porn star he wouldn't be too proud.) Now, if this girl's bf cares about her the same way she cares about him, he would stop looking at porn out of respect for her reasons.  Maybe she needs to find someone a little more caring to her opinions.
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Is your boyfriend doing this? Or are you just wondering heh? I think that would be pretty weird, I don't blame you for being concerned about it. It is true that some guys have porn on their computers even during a relationship, but going to strip clubs sends a pretty overt message to you I'd assume.\n\nPersonally I wouldn't do it, I think it would be disrespectful. I'd only go if my girlfriend was into the beauty of the female body or something, thus taking her with me.
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GO AND SPEND SOME TIME TOGETHER AS SOMETHING YOU BOTH ENJOY THEN AT NIGHT OR MAYBE TAKE HIM TO A LINGRE PLACE AND HAVE HIM CHOSE WHICH ONE LOOKS SEXY, THEN GO HOME AND HAVE YOUR ENJOYMENT WHILE LISTENING TO JODECI OK.!!!
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tell your boyfriend to buy the 2006 calendar in case he forgot that we're in the 21st century. It's totally cool for you to go clubbing. A club isn't just a hook up place it's also a way for u to unwind through dancing, drinking and chatting with your friends. \n\nAs long as you're not picking up guys or giving them your number or letting them write their number on ur bra, it's totally cool and guilt free to go clubbing. \n\nI don't think that the clubbing is the problem at all. Don't feel guilty to want to have fun. you need to have your alone time too even married girls need alone time and girl times. explain that to him. i think the problem really is his trust. He doesn't trust u enough in a setting wherein there are lots of guys around for u to pick. \n\nYou might be able to resolve this by taking him clubbing once or twice. show him that the club doesnt have to be a threatening place that it's actually fun and can be fun for both of u.
760147
well dont be an idiot about it. you obviously know what he's trying to do...so dont let him..tell him what the deal is, and that hes not going to use you to compete with your bf
372233
This is OK, every one is allowed the space to fantasise.\nIt's what you do about your thinking that's the main issue, and if you don't cheat then it's all good.\nIn a way it is even a good thing, it can reassure you that you have made the right choice by being with your boyfriend.
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Hey I worked it out with the BF - if he can go to those places I can go to those places.....and then we set 'boundaries' about what can be 'done' at those places.\n\nStrip clubs included.\n\nNo Lap Dances\n\nNo Touching\n\nSo far he has been wonderfully honest as I have been with him.  He's been great.  I went to a strip club with my GF just to see what it was like (I had never gone) and /shrug .. it was a show!! LOL  But I doubt I'd ever go again.  If he goes, I see it as a male 'bonding thing' and as long as he comes home to me, it's all good.\n\nWomen who TRY to control their men too much end up losing, because the man will just lie next time he wants to go, and I'd rather know and trust where he's at, then wonder what he's doing, and 'if' something got out of control.  \n\nIF it got out of control, I have been VERY Clear, that he must stop, come home and talk with me about 'why he WANTED to get out of control' because that means there are problems with 'us' that we need to work out.  We both agreed to those rules (Didn't wanna type the same for me but true for me to) and that we OWED each other that respect to try and fix it before we 'messed around'.  Just how I tried to address any future issues.  I just say ....... how was the 'Tit*y bar dear?'  And laugh it off.. he is comin home to me :)  And men who don't wanna come home/be with their mates, have very telling signs they don't want to be...  Do I like it?  Not really.. will I ever try prevent it.. nope.  If I can't trust him, we have no relationship anyway.  :)  Good luck with you and your hubby!