why wont anyone believe me abou the hook up thing?
597254
Because you probably are a fag and everyone knows it
735004
Welcome to what we call LIFE!  Im sorry to be so rough here but...Get Used to it!  Things arent always what they seem most of the time anyways.  On the rare ocassion two people are lucky enough to discover each other it comes with No Guarantee's!\nAnd as such....there are no guarantee's that someone else is going to like you as much...or the same way...you like them.\nIts a Crap shoot.....or its a numbers game....depending on who you are.  If you sit at home and dont go out and meet people very often....its a crap shoot.  If your someone who is always meeting new people, and out and about all the time....then its a numbers game, and its only a matter of time before you hook up with someone else who is equally (?) as interested in you... as you are in them.  Remember...there are No Guarantee's!  But one thing I have found, is the universe has a tendacy to unfold just the way it was meant to.
829652
Guys aren't always liars, it's just that finding ones that aren't is the trick...guys don't want commitment, just sex, and they'll do anything to get it (that's how the trojan war started), whether its lie, cheat, steal (and usually, it's all of the above). I know some great guys, who don't lie, but they've fallen victims to lying, cheating girls, and they've vowed never to date again, bcuz every woman knows that there needs to b at least one decent, loving, caring and hot guy in the dating world...
1181563
exactly! why don't you guys get this stuff?! i don't like to make teh first move- i think it's the guys place, and man dropping hints that they don't get (no matter how obvious) gets ridiculous after a while! i think i have done everything but walk up and kiss the guy! come on PAY ATTENTION GUYS!
348993
any one that says they dont do it is a liar whether they are in a relationship or not(unless of course its physically impossible for them!!)so i wouldnt worry mate people have needs they need to cater 4 if it makes you happy why stop.
102817
umm...you don't have a bf/gf standing next to you holding your hand...\nYou could just wear a t-shirt that says, "I'm single, let's hook up"
1112535
Because you don't believe in yourself.\nIf you do, nothing and nobody could disappoint you.\nYou will always be more stronger after a deception, if you do believe in yourself.
1011925
You cant mate - in business its hard enough trustin people you know!! You will find out in life that the only person you can trust is YOU - and some people cant even do that!!!!!!.
792455
Um....None of the above...call me old fashioned, but i dont go screwing people based on appearance..I wait til I know the person and if there is a genuine connection.
397945
Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!
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It's the idea that gets them going.  People, in general, love to gossip.  If it's your partner that's assuming you are having sex with someone else, then it's probably a matter of insecurity. Then you must ask yourself if you are being honest with your partner.  Have you included your partner in your friendships with others, or are you being secretive and elusive about them?  Did your partner find out about your opposite-sex friend(s) from you or another source?  If it's just other people making assumptions, just ignore them.  They obviously have nothing better to do than worry about what you might, or might not be doing.
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I hate the phrase "hook up" I am never sure what it means. Is it sex, fooling around, dating, a relationship, etc? and why do so many teens use the phrase, do they think sex and relationships are just a joke? \nSo, I don't know how to answer your question, if you are talking about meaningless sex then you probably shouldn't. But if it's just fooling around then go for it. But it is your choice
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I don't know you or your history so I am going to take a blind crack at this. \n\nIt seems like it is so important that you hook up with someone that even a guy coming up and asking you stupid questions can catch your interest. I can see where that could be fun and even a bit funny, but I think the fact that you were overjoyed is telling about how you value yourself. I believe you are putting too much stock in having a boyfriend (most likely to boost how you feel about yourself) and that is making you come off as desperate. Relax and let things unfold in normal time. Don't rush it just because your insecurity HAS TO KNOW RIGHT NOW! That will blow it for sure.\n\nBecause it is so important to you, I am sure that when you tell them that you "like them" it comes off more like this: \n"I like you and want to marry you and have your children and be close to you as my only one forever even before I know what your favorite color or your middle name is". I'll bet that is a big turn off.\n\nYou are definitely moving too fast, pushing too hard and sending the wrong message (that you are desperate and high maintenance) Your standards are too low and you are worth much more than any guy that is willing to say hi to you. \n\nSo, take a deep breath and see if this guy is really good enough FOR YOU instead of the other way around. Remember that anyone that ever rejects you is doing you a big favor in the end by eliminating themselves from your consideration and not waisting any more of your time with a relationship that would eventually fail.\n\nI wish you well and good luck.
240233
maybe there are not pretending.....\nmaybe u r pretending(or presuming) tht they like u
213169
Hey you wanna go out with me?\nJust playin, but some people even be thinkin they can fall in love with someone in here.
204788
I believe I know what you're talking about and it's sad that you and other people have to refer to love/romance/sex as "the game".  I don't like playing games when it comes to my heart and I refuse to play them.  That's why I don't follow specific rules when trying to meet people.  I don't waste my time on certain pick up lines.  I try to look good, but I'm not going to change how I like to appear for a woman.  I'm not going to try to act better to impress someone either.  If you are really looking for a relationship with someone, then why do all those stupid things?  Your true self is eventually going to reveal itself in the end anyway and a lot of break-ups happen because people find out months or even years later that they really don't like who the other person "really is".  So yes, I am 28 years old and I've been fed up with the game since I was a little kid.  I started observing B.S. things about relationships and how to start one very early in life.
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I tell people that I am, but they rarely believe me.