What do i do if my boyfriend talks about other girls when he is around me?
601073
maybe he wants you to be just jealous or be mad. but u should take this problem seriously maybe he is not the right guy for u or maybe he like someone else. just go and tell the problem to him.everythings going to be allright. good luck
1051583
let your girl know that as much as you enjoy being with her and her friends that you want to spend some alone time with her to talk about somethings that you are not comfortable with all her friends hearing from you cause you know if there that close she will tell them anyways
226066
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
233229
Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
298413
I can tell that this issue is really bothering you and hunny, you are tooooooo young for this. You actually sound mad, it was like you were on the phone with me venting while I was reading.\nWell, I am a strong believer in the word and I have read that where the mind is the body follows. Meaning your boyfriend wants to sleep with other women if he hasn't already done so. When he is looking and admiring all thoose other women he is lusting for them.  He shouldn't disrespect you like that and you need to leave.
217348
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and half years, and I have never once caught him looking at another female. Girls come onto him all the time. He used to work at a restaurant and all the waitresses would hit on him and ask him out and he would tell them about me and how much he loves me. All his friends ever say to me is how he is so committed to me and is so in love with me. If you catch your boyfriend looking at women, talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel and tell him that it hurts you when you see him looking at other girls.
651164
Now does he say "Wow she's pretty!" or does he say "DAMN!!! lokk at that girls butt" If he says the former, well than maybe you should lighten up a lil' bit.  He compliments you too, and obviously thinks your something special.  If he didn't he wouldn't want to be exclusive with YOU.  If he's fun to be with and he's nice to you than your insecurity is not justified.  Take the time to enjoy yourself and focus on the good things, instead of the tiny bad stuff.  If you find it still bothers you open the lines of communication and let him know
700301
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
130332
Your boyfriend is arguing about this with you because he wants you to have more experiences with girls so he can call you a bisexual and brag about it to all his stupid friends.  Then, when they ask in disbelief, "Nu uh, how many girls has she been with?"  He can actually give them a number that is higher than one.  Don't you get it?  Jeez.
421107
Unfortunately a lot of us have a past and often that past will haunt us for years to come.  You need to realize and accept that this other girl and the relationship he had with her is his past, just like other relationships you probably had with other guys.  He has made a choice to be with you and only you and not her.  By not accepting this as a fact and a wondrous thing and instead letting his past relationship affect your relationship with him you are risking any chance at ever being truly happy together.  Do both of you and your relationship a favor and stop dwelling on his past and focus on your future together and making it so special that the past will be a distant memory.
557308
There is a difference between flirting with girls and talking to girls as friends. \nIf you think your boyfriend is flirting with others and you don't feel comfortable with that you should tell him, but you shouldn't try and keep him from talking to girls that are his friends.\nWhen you try and do that it makes people feel alot of negative pressures and he could think you're trying to hard to control him and walk away from the relationship. No one likes to be controlled, especially when they're not doing something wrong. \n\nI can understand you worrying about his flirtations, but if he's only being friendly and talking to people he knows, then it shouldn't be an issue.
108970
If he is constantly flirting with other girls, then it's understandable to be jealous. If you told him you don't like him flirting all the time and he does it anyway, then you should break up with him. He won't stop doing it, and his behavior is making you unhappy.\n\nBUT (and this is a big but) if he is just talking to other girls, you are in the wrong and should try to control your feelings. Boys don't put up with girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or be friends with. You are going to drive him (and many other boys) away. You should try to reevaluate your feelings.
228976
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
212987
Talk to him about. You have to COMMUNICATE with the other person involved in your relationship. But I would give him the benefit of the the doubt with this one, it's kind of stupid to give another girl your number when you're physically with your girlfriend.\n\nIf this crap continues, confront him.
633656
You should stay away from him.  If you were dating him you would expect and hope that other girls would not do anything to hurt your relationship so you should respect their relationship and do the same.
954924
You should be asking him not people here. If you have not asked him, why not? Is his actions really that bad? Sounds like you are slightly jealous, but why? Do you feel he is attempting to impress another female?\n\nOther than being jealous I don't see a motive for this being a huge issue.
788601
I would be really careful with this..you don't want to appear to be the 'over anxious' girlfriend, but neither do you want to be taken for a fool.  Keep an eye out for what is happening..and make sure that there are no obvious signs that he is 'cheating'..as in a lot of time spent places that he cannot or won't explain to you.\n\nChances are that if he is willingly talking to this girl in front of you there is nothing going on...\n\nThe best way to find out is to ask him..and if you don't like his answer do something about it...