my sister is mean...?
608338
I have four sisters who live 30 minutes from me. Each one of them has been mean to me a many of times. There were times when three of them would gang up on me. Calling me names and pointing their finger in my face. After awhile I \ngot tired of it. So one day I asked God to give some boldness. He did. So one day when two of them had came in my face I told one to shut up and the other I told her she's not my momma. And I walked off. They don't mess with me no more because they know I don't play that. You need to \nget you some boldness and stand up to her. Let her know that your are tired of her being mean and rude. Once she sees your other side then she'll shut up.
1004617
man up and say your sorry.  don't teach your little sister to accept less and don't let your little brother think it's okay to talk mean to people and not say I'm sorry.  YOu are their role model
992082
yeah right shes mean!!
662390
well. I'm usually hard on my little sisters. It's because I want the best for them. I want them to do better than they think they can. I don't know what your situation is, but your best option is to talk to her about it. If she's older, she'll comply. Tell her that you'd like to have a civil and professional conversation at the dinner table with her. You may want to have your parents there just as witnesses. Nothing more.\n\nTalk to her, and find out why she is being so mean, and find a mutual solution.
954701
Being mean is never cool.  Just go on with your life, ignore the nasty, mean friend and get involved with school activities where you get to interact with all kinds of people.  Do a school play or join a volunteer group that works with Habitat for Humanity.  In no time you will have lots of new friends and she will be a memory.\n\nBut, don't bother trying to get down to her level - if you change who you are to get even with her - then she has won!  the biggest way to show her actions mean nothing, is for you to do nothing....she can't hurt you if you don't care.
180964
Just because she is a blood relation does not mean you have to tolerate her verbal abuse.You are well within your rights to tell her to put a sock in it.I would not blame you at all if you decided to trim back on the time you spent with her.Sometimes it's the only way to deal with negative family members.
264167
It is perfectly normal for the older sister to not get along with her younger sister.  I feel your pain.  My sis and I never got a long growing up.  But, now we are the best of friends and would do anything for each other.  Remember, they are younger and you know better.  So, ease up on them.., give them a chance to grow as well.  Be there for them and one day they will thank you for it.
478723
My relationship with my sister! \n\nFor the past 4 years my sister has been "self-destructing". My parents and I have exhausted all efforts financially and more importantly, mentally. You can only do so much for someone that you love, and if they don't want to help themselves and don't see your efforts and love in trying to help them, then what do you do?! So now we are trying the "tough love" tactic and I am sad and scared she don't realize all that we have done and are trying to do for her. She is pissed off at us! I just hope we are doing the right thing!\n\nWow! this was a personal question! But you know what? I feel somewhat at ease answering this question. Thanks! :)
123636
She knows she will get a reaction from you when she makes fun of you.  If you react in a different way it will either soon bore her or she will not like the reaction she receives.  So you could ignore her or you could give her a dose of her own medicine and put her down.  As a last resort for someone who absolutely will not stop this type of behavior, warn them that the next time they put you down you will do something about it, and you must follow through. It is more important for your well being and peace of mind to take this extreme action.  Unfortuanetly in life there are some people who are just real jerks and this is the only way you can deal with them.
833769
You definitely have one of those situations that requires you slap your self in the face immediately!\n\nYour problem reminds me of a saying: "You can't drown in a puddle if you just stand up"\n\nThe reason you haven't said anything up to this point is, you don't want to embarrass your sister (you said it).\n\nThe insanity is: Your letting your sister get away with being rude in order that she doesn't get embarrassed!\nDo you see where I'm going here?\n\nYour sister brought a problem into your home and is making it yours.\n\nYour option is clear, take your sister into the bedroom in private and tell her the truth and, she has two choices only. One: Tell her friend it's time to go. Two: Your sister and her friend need to go.
512974
you all are so mean can't you tell that she isn't from America don't make fun of her cause she can't spell at least she tried enough to ask her question. Honey your sister may be prettier than you on the out side but beauty is only skin deep anyway. Your parents love you both equally they just might not show it sometimes or they show it to you in a diffrent way than they show her. You never know she might feel the same way you do.
748597
i have 2 sisters both can be quite bad so i no were you are coming from one is older than me as one is younger i would ask her what is going on try and sort it out but dont be to hard treat her as a friend and she might open up to you in a good way good luck any more advice needed you can email me on your friend waiting  lauzmargretjones@yahoo.com
382308
don't be mean to your sister.
533573
O MY GOD . I HAVE A SISTER JUST LIKE THAT . WHAT YOU DO IS STOP , GIVING HER MONEY . AND LET HER DEAL WITH HER OWN PROBLEMS . WASH YOUR HANDS  OF HER . AND LET HER GROW UP .
842116
hahaha, thats a good one. maybe you should compromise with her. talk with her, address the issue. Let your voice be heard and let her know. If you don't she will continue to ignore you. Or you can encourage her, maybe you two should go exercise together and that  way you can get her off her ass
86474
Talk to parents.  I know it's hard but try to ignore her by not being around her.  Sounds like she is very unhappy and becoming a bully.  Try to talk to her about how you feel too, but definitely let parents know of her abuse.
186488
Control yourself and discipline your sister. If your sister insist having ___ with you, consult her to a psychiatrist or tell your parents.