Is it try that a nice guy and a nice girl can have a longer relationship together?
597036
because they will have more power in the relationship. Also girls think that nice guy are weak and can't stand up for themselves and there girls.
468023
if you both like each other, be nice to her, and go with the flow
424273
YES!!!  My boy friend and I have been together      for 8 years now, and we have a beautiful little girl... As long as you both love each other and want each other you can date as long as you'd like...  GOOD LUCK!!!
1037441
You may see it this way, however if a guy or girl are in a relationship based on superficiality, the relationship wont last. Common sense does prevail eventually.
1123453
yes, if the two people are willing to work through hard times! there will always be ups and downs in a relationship, we need two people who are willing to work through it all.
1214
Girls do like nice guys. I had a bad boy phase myself, but after I got sick of their games and lies, a nice guy was the one who won my heart afterall. Sometimes it is hard for a girl to see that a guy they are dating isn't nice at first. Alot of jerks act super nice to get into bed with them, and even abusers have been known to act really sweet to the girl to gain their trust and then ruin their self confidence bit by bit, but the whole time, the girl may not see it, they see the "nice" guy they fell in love with. They sometimes never realize it was an act all along. Outsiders realize that this guy is a jerk, but the girl is so naive, they think that he really is nice, deep down. Some girls also feel they do not deserve someone nice. I felt this way for awhile after a mentally abusive relationship. I thought noone decent would love me. But I was wrong, and the girls who only date jerks are too. Just hard to make them see it. Find a girl who is ready for a nice guy, they are out there, justhard to find nowadays ;)
79620
I like nice guyz because they give you RESPECT un like bad boyz who don't. To me it doesn't matter if they are alone or with their friends but it would be easier to talk to a guy that is not with his friends.
1127283
If you get the person you want, and that person likes you, then you have won half the battle ( and thats only half the battle )\nYou have to be the way, that person likes you to be.\n\nTake a hint from 'Hitch'\nLearn how to be a nice person, and your partner will adore you for that!!
371956
two people can feel they are right for each other when they first meet, definately. i had it happen to me, five months ago. we were together for a couple of weeks and then i had to go back home... its been 4 months and i still havent even thought of having a relationship with anyone else. we talk every day, the feeling Is still the same. so the point is, it can last, for sure! :)
623265
by being nice, just let him/her know that you are there...if she/he need you. time and patience do some magic.
522384
yes, but seeing if the relationship can actually work might take a little longer*
565289
I think a lot (not all) females enjoy the bad boy look but would prefer a nice guy. But that nice guy also has to be able to stand up for what he believes in. Basically not be a push over
569038
i know how you feel b/c i can never stay with the same person for a long time. the guys talk about what ever and dont care about me or what i think. if your were a nice guy who did care, i probably could get attached
851376
relationships like food and education, music preference, excercise and so many other things in life are all about need and satisfaction. those aren't the only things, but they're important.\n\nyou have to decide if you're getting what you would like from a relationship, what you're losing from the time spent and the emotional investment you're making. how much of it does he appreciate? how much is enough?\n\ni think that if someone loves you, then it usually comes out int heir behaviour. what is love? it must be made up of loyalty, faith, a great fondness for e/o, wanting to see the other one is happy, willing to do a lot for the other and caring. if these things don't show, there are few conclusions to reach about these... he may appreciate or need you greatly or be jealous of you but love?\none day he will treat someone in a very special way, compare that to how he's treating you. I can't say whether he does or doesn't love you, but you can.\n \nhis personal taste is reasonable even though it may not be compatible. if a girl didn't like my taste in music or share my love for food and films and books or theatre then our relationship would be different. we would be compatible in a different way but it might be more difficult to associate but if the compromise is worth it, then fine! if it's not then don't waste yours or his time ...\n\nMR PERFECT EXISTS!! I know he does! to any girl reading this, mr perfect is probably a guy who was brought up well, who loves the same things as you and has fewer bad (or less compatible) habits. I'm trying to be Mr Perfect for the right someone somewhere and I think that's the only way you're going to get somewhere. being pretty and nice and moderately reasonable is a good start!\n\nwhatever you do, I hope you have fun and you find the best things that suit you quickly and enjoy them for a looong time!
656301
yes it can, but you both have to be honest and trust each other. good communication is also another key factor in making this kind of relationship work.
243302
Your right but there are some exceptions.  There are things often that you know you can't work through or differences that exist that aren't even things that involve working through.  You can try everything possible to make a relationship work but at some point no matter how much you love someone you have to be honest about if it is really a relationship that can work.
509109
yes of course. love may last for 2 days but frienship would last for ever