ppl why dont guys get the courage 2 ask me out when they say im pretty?
604440
alot of men are intimidated by good-looking women. they feel that they don't have a chance. they end up losing in the end to a total jack-ass. jack-asses will do anything to get a woman so they can fuck-them-and-dump-them. they, in turn, ruin it for the guys that would probably be the best thing that ever happened to that woman. it does happen the opposite way sometimes as well. if a guy looks clean-cut and is very polite, give him a chance. remember, arrogance is generally a bad thing. confidence is another...
508596
isn't it terrifying? guess what, THATS WHAT YOU EXPECT US TO DO!!!!!! thats why women made it up that guys are suposed to ask you out because you chics are way too fragile to deal with the rejection. tough crap sweety. ask the dude out and if he says no then take the hit and move on like any guy would do. it's a huge blow to our ego to be rejected but we cope. so if he says no simply say "thats cool." and keep on with the conversation. wow thats tough isn't it?
672551
Because, society is shallow. and the person you want to go out with is most likely shallow.\nThe want a told beauty instead of their own... culture today has named and shamed the people who they think aren't beautiful...\nAnd it might be because you havent asked him :)
709628
Why don't you try to ask me out ^_^ j/k If you think you are about 80% pretty then flirt with the guy you like, there is no way that he can resist not to ask you out lol... Unless you have a bad history ^_^
389884
Honey that's great! In the world of tease with no please it's great for a guys self esteme to have a cutie ask him out and if he accepts then Oh so cool, but if he rejects then let it go and don't worry, this ol' hippie thinks that is sexy. So go get em'
333388
You need to accept what you are and develop positive qualities.  Did you know that the image you project is directly related to how people respond to you?  If you are confident, people find you attractive because this is a desirable trait.  Change you attitude about yourself is an authentic manner, and people will respond.\n\nI have seen beautiful women and "hunky and handsome" men not get a date.  It's because of the insecurity and arrogance they portray.  Sexy is a state of mind.
761751
Sure you are pretty and even though you don’t want to hear about the inside pretty the boys don’t only look at the outside they look at the inside too. How could people on this site tell you that you are not pretty, as you do not have a picture of yourself up? And even if you did it might not be a good one and some people do not photograph as well as others but that does not mean they are just as pretty as the other. As the saying goes - God made you the way you are and he don’t make no junk. There are plenty of girls that are not pretty that get lots of boyfriends and don’t you settle for someone beneath your standards. It’s really nothing to worry about, you are what you are and make the most of it.♫
443997
Some men are insecure about being approached by ANY women. Also, many men are afraid to approach WOMEN.  The prettier the more difficult to approach a girl -- because they're afraid of being turned down.  \n\nI'd continue to do what you're doing--work the odds.  Just because you get turned down sometimes, doesn't mean you will always get turned down.  Just make it clear you're interested -- stay approachable.  Guys are so weak about being turned down.  And they play the double standard by acting like women are too agressive if they do the approaching.  Not all though.  So you've got to play the odds.  Trust me, it will all work out.  Just hang in there.
301991
Absolutelly not go for it, from a guy we are very chicken at times especially the nice guys the more agressive guys that would ask you out without breaking out in a sweat are probably not nice guys. Being confident is a sign of knowing what you want and sure of yourself a rare thing. I wouldn't say it would come off as desperate. Just knowing what you want and going for it!
612470
it's very brave of you to admit you're nervous; i think you're braver than you think. why don't you let the girl know? "Listen, it's hard for me to talk to a woman as pretty as you." she will understand you are nervous, plus she will be so flattered.
423007
Of course it is possible.  Guys tend to fear rejection.  If they are insecure and don't believe that a girl of your looks would go out with them then they would rather stay away then risk getting rejected.  Hopefully you will meet a guy who sees you for more than your looks and is secure enough in himself to not worry about you rejecting him.
704825
guys are not likley to make the first move they have this big fear f rejection, so if you want somehting to happen then you need to make it happen
618391
I am sure you are very pretty. This guy may genuinely like you. That is quite possible. Perhaps it is not only your looks but your inner beauty is also beckoning to him. I have seen women that I thought didn't look that great and as I got to know them they were transformed. Their inner beauty shined through. \n\nAlso honey don't let you low opinion of yourself sabotage your life.
332061
He thinks you're pretty. He would like to flirt with you and get to know you better.\nDon't worry a lot of women don't seem to get this common tactic that men use to get your attention.
575055
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think 15 to 16 is the average age most people start getting asked out, so it could be right around the corner for you! Just to be sure, take a quick once over inventory of yourself. Are you clean? Do you smell good? Are your clothes clean and your hair brushed and your teeth brushed? If those answers are yes then more than likely it not you, it's the guys being too shy. You could probably help them along by talking to a lot of people. This shows you are approachable and friendly and will make it easier for a guy not to worry about rejection. Have fun...the most exciting times of your life are about to happen!
235465
Maybe you seem to come off as too perinoid. Maybe if you stop being so concerned with the way you look then you might be able to get a guy alittle faster. Hell, be yourself.
650909
I would go up to the guy and ask him out.  He probably will say yes, since he said you were beautiful.  Just ask him out\nwomen can ask guys out too.  Don't think him leaving has anything to do with him not asking you out.  He probably didn't ask you out because he thought he wasn't your cup of tea. ha. brit humor