i have a friend he is very sweet. i love him but he already has a girl friend.wat do i do??
606261
leave him alone is what you should do. if he becomes available then go for it but for now go find yourself another boyfriend.
1026015
What is she doing to make him think he can have her? You need to check her -- How strong is the friendship -- Remember girls come and go if you consider him a friend approach him and see how he reacts. If he acts like a  JERK then you know he is not your friend and then the problem is solved.. HE'S OUTTA HERE!!
967103
If he shows off, than be very careful. He may start to make fun of your feelings when/if he realises them. How much does he like this other girl? Does she like him back? If you two are friends, then you have it very easy to tell him you like him more than a friend. Tell him that ou do not know what it is happening. You are feeling for him something more. Tell him you realised you liked him when he told you about the other girl. If you are not so close friends, than tell him the same thing as above. Tell him what you felt when he talked to you about the other girl.
226066
I'm going to be as honest as I can without hurting you. Telling him you have feelings for him even though you know he has a girlfriend is inappropriate. If he's with another girl, you need to start looking for other guys. You don't want to bring a lot of unnecessary complications into your life because she thinks you're trying to "steal" her boyfriend. Teenagers are incredibly territorial and very immature.
269995
tell him he is nice and all but he needs to learn how to have a girl friend and tell him u did mean to hurt him in any way if u didn't.
224871
If he is confused and has feelings for this other friend then you need to seek out someone who will make you happy.  Don't keep waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want because it will be you who will suffer in the end and you may also question how deep his feelings really were for her to begin with?  You could end up with more issues than you have now and regrets.
700301
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
835658
Be careful.  You're playing with fire here.  Either continue talking to her, and realize that you'll have to confront the issue with both her and your friend, or resolve to stop the extra contact and keep it to a minimum (only when you're all out together).  Otherwise if you keep up the communications, you risk losing both his friendship and hers. And if you really think that their relationship is in trouble, give it time to either resolve or end, and then you'll either be in a better position to see about what future you could have with her, or you'll see that she really does love your friend and there's nothing you can do about it.\n\nIf she is conflicted now, and you try to make a move, then she might feel like you're taking advantage of her emotional vulnerability, and you ruin any chances of anything in the future.  So give it time, be patient, and try to be supportive to them both as a couple.
627680
There's pretty much nothing you can do.  If the guy you like, already has a girlfriend, then I suggest you move on and find someone else to like who doesn't have a girlfriend.  Trying to break them up or doing anything of that nature would be mean spirited.  Just remember not to do anything you wouldn't want done to you.  Good luck!
1017012
I would not trust this guy. Even if he never physically cheated on you with this other female while you were going out, he obviously had feelings for her. He would not have been with her two days later if he had not been harboring feelings for her for a while. You may hope that he will eventually grow up, but how patient and how many break-ups and reconciliations are you willing to put up with. I feel you will be better off keeping on a friendship level for a year. Date other people and have him date other people. You may just find your ideal mate instead of wasting your time. Or in a years time, maybe he will have his priorities focused on you.
365930
Stop messing with him especially if he has a girlfriend it just ain't right to do that to the other girl think about it this way, How would you feel?
901016
depends on how much the guy likes your friend. He might  just be leaveing more opitions for himself. If he likes that other girl more. then ditch him but if he does like your friend more. Get them together and make it official. If he is still cheating on your friend then get rid of him....
929276
I have the same problem! I dont know what to do! He has a girlfriend too! They have went out before and then broke up and started talking to me a lot and we started to hang out! then him and the same girl started dating again and have been for almost a yr! I try to get over the way I feel about him but when I am around him I cant forget about they way I feel!\nI dont want to ruin my friendship though!
220964
She should take to him as a friend, just hang out see his view of the relationship first and how it progress and if the 2 of your are really compatible and get along.Just breeze and it'll come to you.
129929
i think that you should trust him when he says that they are just friends. but if u dont then ask him to let you talk to her get to know the girl and if he saids no then there may be something going on
343030
Your problem is that he's still into her in his head and that's really hard to break down. All you can do is be there for him and show him the contrast between a great gal (you) and a cheat (her).
699860
You shouldn't do anything but be a friend to him. You should ask him though if he's really interested in continuting a relationship with her. You never know he may end up with you in the end... but don't get your hopes up or your feelings too involved, it could get ugly. If his girlfriend still feels for him she could get upset if she thinks your stealing him away... be aware.