how do you learn to love a grown up lady. for you to be in a serious relationship with her?
612438
Learn to love?  You either love someone, or you don't.  If she invited you to her apartment, she's interested in you.  You need to have some self-confidence.  As for the love, don't jump to conclusions, just wait and see if it develops.
1172974
Respectfully treat them as ladies. Discover what they enjoy and do those things for her.Be honest and truthful in your relationship.
1106624
go for it\nget into the relationship\ndon't loose her
569398
LOVE! that is the only thing a girl wants is love and respect, if you watch what your doing you can keep a girl forever and i can help you with that one other thing do not act imature mature girls hate that..
42240
well i mean you really cant force yourself to love someone, but i mean find a women that has your favorite qualities and just be yourself.  You dont want to act diffrent, she has to like you for who you are and who you are not.
1118350
Sorry, unless she figures out her life and straighten up, there is no cure for her.  How will you build a loving relationship if you can't trust her?  Find someone you love and trust.
1167883
I met a lady on line and finally met her. She was about 10 years older than me and we both knew we didn't want to get serious, just have fun. We had a great secret and private relationship for about 4 years before she started to have physical problems.\n\nThose are 4 years, though that I will never forget. Unlike women my age, this lady really appreciated me and made me feel good. I went out of my way to appreciate her too. Sometimes I wish I could find somebody to take her place, but at least I can dream about her.\n\nTX Guy
39715
well ,you must treat her like a person more than of her age.. \nyou must also consider her opinions....
877841
Whatever SHE is interested in.  Find out by talking to her what those things are...and let her do the talking..you'll find out more about her to love and appreciate - and she'll see a real gentleman in you.
635201
Well you probably aren't going to be able to build up a relationship with her in till she realizes she needs you which probably wont be in till shes in her 20's. Just let her go, you are doing the best you can.
75509
It can be simple and hard at the same time. It depends on what kind of person you are and what kind of person she is. Women like to hear the words plus to also get the feeling of love. So say the words and then show her how much by giving flowers or write a poem of your love. There are so many ways. You could just simply cuddle with her. Just love her the best way that you can. In time and in small ways she will let you know how to love her.
1072610
Open the lines of communication with her. Start by listening to her more (not talking more). \n\nAsk her about her hopes and dreams, about what she thought her life would be like when she was your age, ask what she thinks her best qualities are and what she thinks your best qualities are, ask her about family traditions and stories. \n\nShow her that you love her, that you are invested in your relationship with her, that you take her/her words seriously, and that you're capable of thinking for yourself but can appreciate her wisdom. \n\nAfter a couple of weeks, hopefully she will begin to be more open with you and will start asking you questions in return, and then you can tell her about choices you've made, your feelings about those choices, and how you think they may impact your dreams/plans for the future. \n\nAlso, be willing to consider asking her for help in quitting smoking. There are few things that will make your adult life more difficult than being a smoker (tobacco costs are rising, few public places allow smoking, the smells associated with smoking are considered especially unattractive for women, the money you spend on tobacco supports corrupt politicians that make major decisions that hurt your life, it's harder/more expensive to get health and life insurance as a smoker, smoking increases your medical bills as it makes you more prone to upper respitory infections in winter and cancer in middle age, etc.)
872968
if you are quiet serious for marriage with her then plz go a head and take very good care of her self.\nregards
696924
Before you talk of love, you need to get her into a romantic setting.  Her willingness to go with you into a romantic setting expresses her interest in you.  So invite her to a nice place for dinner, and talk of who you are, listen to who she is, take your time, and see what sort of reactions you are getting.  Talk of love only after you can tell from the way she is acting that she will not laugh at you.  \n\nDon't let the age difference bother you; it's not excessive.  A man of 30 is very close to at the peak of his powers, and a woman of 21 is almost exactly at the peak of hers.  So you two should make a terrific couple, with education and interests you share.  \n\nGood luck!
104616
if you are truly in love with this woman why would you even be worried about being straight forward...wouldn't you be screaming it from the top of a building... women want the moment they have been proposted to, to be a moment that they can tell there children and grandchildren...no matter what you do make it your own...this is for you too...this is a memory that will last a lifetime...\nCONGRATS!!! and good luck....
163617
1. Buy a license. They LOVE that.\n\n2. Communicate clearly and honestly. They love that\n\n3. Stick around for life. They love that\n\nTHEN....she will feel good when you meek love.
649933
how to please her,love her,