why r all men unfaithful?
601760
not all men are unfaithful.\n\nwhy do women think that that all men play away, women are jsut as  likely as well.\n\nsaying that is a sexist generalisation of men.\nmany men are extremely loyal to there partners
840243
Some people will do whatever they can to get what they want, but other people might try to do the right thing.  Stick to the type of people that you yourself are.  Not all men are lying cheaters.
515207
Men cheat more because they want to feel they still have it! That he is still a man! But women do their share of cheating to because their husband are not giveing them what they need, they don't make them feel loved by them! I would probly go with 60% men and 40% women!
543692
They cheat because we let them. We sometimes let ourselves go instead of keeping the romance alive in the relationship. My ex-husband slept with a 13 yr old when he was 26, right before we got married. I had gotten comfortable, I knew he was mine and I didn't have to worry, not!!!! Always be worried, there is always another woman who will be better and can do more than you're willing to do. So we have to keep up ourselves and make our men see that we are willing and trying to stay the woman they fell in love with.............
104317
I think men cheat because they need to know that they are still desired. \n\nI feel they reach a point in their marriage where they know in their heart that they are loved by their wife....but they start to question whether they have been all they need to be. Perhaps his wife doesn't tell him how "necessary" he is anymore. Perhaps his wife doesn't seduce him the way she used to. Perhaps she doesn't brag about him to her friends the way she used to. He needs to know he is still worthy. \n\nSo one day.....someone notices him.......and man...it just feels so good to be noticed again! And then maybe he sees her again the next day......and the next day. And her smile starts to become addictive. He becomes intrigued about who she is......and why she has noticed him. It might start out as a smile.......but it will become a kind comment.....and then a need on her part to 'run into him' just as he has found it necessary to run into her. \n\nMany times the affair is not intended. But all of a sudden it starts to fill a hole and fulfill a need that he realizes needs to be filled. She tells him how necessary he is........she craves the intimacy.......she tells him what a wonderful person he is. All the things that were lacking in his marriage. His needs are being fulfilled.........just not by his wife.
1004094
You have to remember slavery happened for a relatively very short period of time.  No black Man today even has a relative alive who was a slave.  Anyway...Black men cheat the same reason white, Mexican, Asian, Indian (and the list goes on and on),Men Cheat.\n\nMen Cheat because there is always some needy sleazy chick who will do it with him.  It's not just the guys fault...it's the undermining, devious, needy, cheap $luts that make men cheat.
29306
I think some husbands cheat on their wives for the same reason why all men cheat... they want to see if the grass is greener in other pastures. They may not be getting the attention they want at home or they may simply just be jerks and not care about their wive's feelings.
193371
If you have married the man or woman that is right for you and who truly is in love with you, then you will not have to worry about them being faithful. Someone who is in love with you is not going to be unfaithful because nobody else will compare to you in their eyes. The problem is that so many people are in such a hurry to get married, that they settle for someone and try to make it be true love. That is why we have so many failed marriages today. =-)
180046
it's usually the men, women tend to be satisfied emotionally and physically by just one man if in love or married, it's their nature and that's how they are made, a woman just wants one man to love, take care of and be faithful to... men just never have enough and always looking for more with greed , like beasts...(it's also how they were created....)
130211
Because they only think of themselves and their needs and desires. Men are selfish bast*rds.
369433
most men do seem to prefer sex to love, and dont hesitate to cheat (in my experience).  there are some good guys out there, who want to love, but they are VERY hard to find.
526121
Because you allow men to cheat on you. It should be over when they cheat on you, not when you retaliate against them. If a man cheats on you and you accept it without ensuring that it will never happen again and you just do the same thing, the relationship is already over.
848778
In this era of fast food, one night stands and relationships sans commitments; the boys who could lie, deceive and act like hell are going to have more girlfriends. \n\nIt is all about the ethics, morals and values. And you know like begets like. So, the kind of guys would always get unfaithful gals.\n\nIf you are really for the quality of the relationships; please do not try to add numbers.\n\nAnd always remember that the guys having more than one girl friend are not LUCKY.
161917
There have always been those who will not totally commit.People have cheated and been unfaithful fo hundreds or years.Now as to why;Although I am not a psycologists,I do have some experience and I truly think that most every individual is concerned about getting older and losing their appeal to other people.They often combat this by trying to stay as available and see as many people as they find attractive while they`re young ,so that when they`re older they won`t feel as though they have missed something!
609851
It's very hard to fully trust a person after they cheat. Even if you forgive them, it's always in the back of your mind that they did it. However, some people have moved beyond a cheating history and married and lived happily for many years...if you truly believe that he won't cheat again and that you have it in you to marry this man, then you should.
305633
Men are weak and so are women.  Both cheat the same, actually statistics reflect that women cheat more; women are smarter at not getting caught, we've learned from men in all the prior decades.  \n\n[Married] humans can fall weak for someone else and realize at the end that we made a huge mistake because we realize that the person we are with is a "better" person.  \n\nThe grass may seem greener, but it hardly ever is.  When humankind realizes that, cheating may not be such a big problem.\n\nMen are smart about this, knowing to differentiate between "love" and "lust". That's why they run home and tell their wife they LOVE them.
116631
You cannot learn from other peoples mistakes, most unfotunately. A lot of people don't even learn from their own mistakes. or how would you explain some women/men always falling for the same type (e.g. cheating abusive etc.) be a friemnd tell them abotu your experience in a similar situation, give them advice and be there as a firend when they fail...