when a women is contracting and she cant sleep what should you do?
604480
Hold her hands, maybe rub her belly lightly with a warm wet cloth.  Speak softly and don't allow all the chaos of the birth process to interfere for a little while.  Sleep probably won't happen, but relaxation is good.
655106
Give her some time....she's TIRED! She has been doing a lot, and needs a vacation. After she has had a few days rest, she will see that you are a good husband, and father. Then she will come back home. In the meantime, you need to do more for her when she does come back, so plan what you're going to do to help her. Help her pull her heavy load! I have a saying, and although it's 'country", it applies perfectly here: "Two mules pull this wagon!" Help her pull more!! Good Luck!!
160471
LOL, yes. That's why you have to rest after sex. To fill up the er... pump.
985812
talk to your local social services, or better yet, talk to the woman or parent of the baby, and tell her that you are getting interupted sleep, and if this continues, you will take action, that always work, a little threat I will take action if you dont calm your baby done, See what she says??
351277
lie dwn..hug a pillow or somethin n roll around on ur bed..works 4 me!
1128561
Fresh air helps A LOT. If you can't get enough sleep and solve the problem that way, make sure you aren't in a closed in, stale space. Eat something like a piece of fruit or an energy bar. Drink something cold and non-alcoholic. Move around, stretch, take deep breaths.
641860
Dude, you're either in the mood or you're not. Sounds like she has a sh*tload of stuff going on in her life right now. Don't take it personal when she says no. It doesn't sound like it's you.  The poor woman is worn out. Try to help her out a little more.  Good example: you had the day off, why wait until she gets home for her to cook dinner?  Have it ready when she gets home. It's the little things.\nSeducing a woman is an all day every day process. You can't take her to bed after a day like that and expect her to be "in the mood."\nSounds like you two need some adult time, anyway. Try to plan some time for just the two of you.\n\nGood luck!
60702
Be honest and kind with her. Tell her it's just not working out and that you two should take a break for a while.
247326
if she goes to sleep after
203463
I would suggest that you talk her into seeing a Dr.; it could be her hormones, post pregnancy, etc.  There are medications that could possibly help, or she may just need to talk with a professional.  Please just be there for her, be supportive, and be patient.  As an older woman, I speak from experience here.......many times, a younger woman won't have as high of a sex drive, as she will later in life.  Stress can also play into how a woman feels sexually.  We have lots to do, and there is never enough time to get it all done in, so she may simply be too tired to enjoy sex.  You might try giving her a massage, give her a nice, long foot rub, run her a bubble bath, etc., with the sole intention  of relaxing her.  Don't make sex the main focus though, or it could backfire.  Just let her know that you want to help her relax.  It might also be helpful to just sit and talk with her, let her open up if she can, and support her the best way that you can.  I hope it all works out for both of you........good luck!!
854378
did you say you were sleeping?\nshe ought to understand. ask her how she'd respond if she was asleep. eh?
871144
Well, I solve this problem by wearing two overnight pads and overlapping them when necessary. Sometimes it's not even that it's because the flow is all that heavy, just that gravity pulls it down your crack and makes it go everywhere. Tampon with a pad is good too.
1101312
Get a checkup with your physician to rule out any phisical or chemical cause. Don't do anything in bed except sleep & have sex. If you are still awake after 1 hour, get up and do something boring. Learn to relax - there are tapes etc. that can teach you. Don't stress about it. Enjoy what sleep you can get. If you are sleepy, SLEEP!
885537
Don't take it to heart.. I don't have a website, but I am a mother of a 2 year old, and a 3 month old... Being a mother is HARD WORK...as I'm sure you know.. And feeling sexy is the last thing on one's mind. When she lay's her head on the pillow, I'm almost positive that she is asleep 2 minutes later.. Things will get easier, and she will go back to her sexual self, but until then, just let her be, because you if you put too much pressure on her, she will just treat it as a chore.. You may want to try to get a sitter for the evening, and take her out.. Dressing up is not so much fun either but once the clothes and makeup are on, she will feel much better. You don't have to spend any money, just go for make dinner and go the beach, or park or somewhere, even your back yard and eat together. Get a bottle of wine to help her relax, and just have fun. No talking about money, kids, work.. ect.. I promise, this is a sure thing!
816217
You really ought to demand something is done, the epidural site leaking is probably nothing to worry about, but the nurses should put a dressing over it, it's not really good lying on wet sheets as this can causes bedsores then an infection will get in
787777
Get more sleep. But if that's not an option at the moment, use makeup.
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Drink a lot of water\nGet plenty of rest\n\nBe patient