Why do guys have to make a girl feel bad about themselves?
609696
Come on now!  You already know the answer to that question, so just move on!
222061
I think they must know they lack, so in the beginning they are extra special to the girl.  They treat her like a queen and make her feel worshipped.  Then, after they have the girl hooked is when the bad comes out.  I smart girl that has enough self-esteem to know better would get out fast at this point.  A lot of times, the guy makes the girl believe she is nothing without him and he demolishes her self-esteem so that she doesn't have the strength to leave him.
82870
Firstly they are afraid of commitment and they want to feel like they are men they want to feel superior and one way that they think that they can do that if by having many girls.
378999
there is nothing wrong with you, people blame their own faults to someone, which is not right. people who do this are insecure and they want to feel "big" and that's not right. assert yourself and stick up for yourself and they will stop. don't be scared to voice yourself.
409726
Just like women we dont want 2 be hurt either. I just think that men are not programmed to be that way, its sad but true. We also dont want to feel like a wimp so we hide those feelings and never really show the real us, until sadly its to late.  Words of advice ask once, then try other ways of finding out what u want to know.
1165592
well maybe you feel like your not attractive if you know you arn't then yeah i guess it makes since but i am one god damn mother fuckin hot ass hell and i know it but somedays i feel like ugly as hell as some guys friends and tell them to help you out ask them to rate you fairly unless you feel like you'll be depressed about it
759016
They are kind of shaped by our society...\nA girl feels obligated to impress the guys that she likes, (usually regardless of fashion) and attract them to her. If all goes well they will go out.\n\nThis is just an average case, btw; many guys care about their looks, but don't need to spend as much time on dress, hair, and accessories!\n\nIf not the above, they like dressing up to reflect their mood or personality...It's one of the best forms of expression!\n\nIt's just how it is ;)
557685
Maybe because he feels nervous or tense. I don't think the girls are supposed to.Even if it is Ladies First.
39046
Because they enjoy the sense of "power" they feel by making other people feel bad. They're miserable, so they want other people to feel bad so they can feel better about themselves.
967848
It's an ego boost, which satisfies that part of the male psyche which has an imaginary harem at his beck and call.\n\nWomen are equally capable of behaving like this.\n\nIt's also a safe way to feel good about yourself because you know it doesn't have to go any further and you are in control, you've got someone liking you and perhaps dangling on your words.
902531
that is very odd. girls are the ones who act like that after having sex with a guy. he may have been a virgin and is still not comfortable around you or he might be feeling guilty about something he is hiding from you, for example: he might be hiding the fact that he has an STI
441914
Because alot of women are insecure and want control of situations that either hurt them or make them feel vulnerable. They will get really defensive and try to assign blame in order to maintain control. Men on the other hand feel more out of control when they actually let out what they are feeling so they just try to avoid the whole thing so that they don't lose their own feeling of security. Basically people in general don't understand why the opposite gender reacts the way it does and thus arguments are born.
163906
IT'S HARD SHOWING EMOTION BECAUSE THAT'S THE WAY IT IS BUT WE HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS GIRLS DO. WE DON'T HATE WHEN GURLS SHOW EMOTION WE WISH WE WERE DOING THE SAME THING
480660
You didn't do anything wrong.  I'm guess that this was just moving a lot faster than she had planned and she became uncomfortable about how much she had revealed to you.  She was embarrassed.  At what I am guessing is your young age, girls feel a certain urgency that guys do, but then their mind puts the brakes on big time because they know how they are supposed to feel and act.  It's a balancing act with girls between what they want to do and what they know they should.  You're OK.
601679
Because guys like to rile girls all up to get them upset. It's fun for guys. Sad but true... \n\n\nPS- you're "question" here did make me laugh. haha.
387667
It has to be an ego thing. I have noticed that most guys dont show how they feel, ever. They hide most everything about themselves. Its got to be a derivitave from the "boys dont cry " way of thinking.
990538
They feel insecure and inferior of themselves. Or maybe their gfs are those type that fools around with other guyz thus they don't trust them ;)