one of my best friends like's one of my teachers in high school what should i tell her?
595670
Tell her to go after someone her own age.  She isn't going to win the teacher over, all she can do is get him in trouble.
1009184
Tell her how you feel.  She'll either be flattered and say let's remain friends -- or be overjoyed that you finally noticed.
228656
Oh wow, tough situation. It would help a little with these type of questions if people told how old they are. If you all are adutls though, just let her know how you feel. Also your best friend doesn't sound like too good of a friend if you even think he might say yes. But then again, maybe he doesn't know how you really feel about her? You should tell him. Real friends wouldn't do things to hurt others. Also, maybe you acted all cool or whatever when you broke up so she thinks you won't care? Honesty and straight-forward communication is always the best policy in every relationship. If she doesn't love you back that's rough but at least you can try to move on. It's a fact of life that at some point we will probably like someone who doesn't like us back and vice versa. It's not pleasant but it's also a good reminder to treat others how you want to be treated...karma can come back and bite you in the butt!
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r u friends with any of her friends cause that would give you an in, just start with hello in the hall and stuff like that i mean you really need to know more about her before you can think she is perfect for you, maybe give her a couple secret messages on her locker or something and then reveal who it is....
69217
You showed a lot of courage writing a love letter. So, it's clear that you have made your feelings known to her and, since she is still talking to you, you did not totally scare her off. All good things.\n\nBut you do say she already has a boyfriend, so you should respect that part of her life. Given the situation, talking to her and being her friend is a great way to find out if your feelings get stronger, weaker, or stay the same as you get to know her better.\n\nWhat do the two of you talk about already? I would stick to what you are comfortable with for a while. How did you get to know her in the first place? Talk about the stuff you have in common. Nothing too deep in the beginning. That can come later as the friendship grows. Talk about classes you have together. Ask about how her after-school activities are going if you know what they are. Is she a cheerleader? Head of the math club? A guitar player in a band? Ask her how the stuff she cares about is going. Or maybe you can talk about music or TV you both like. \n\nHang in there!
624679
just tell her the truth about how you felt about the guy before (but not 'n' more)just friends after all.
957526
You could ask your friend to ask him, choose a friend that is in the class that you and him are in also. Tell her/him to say if he likes you. If he asks why just tell him/her to say that he/she sees him flirting with you . \ngood luck!
604391
I'm sorry you're going through this but it's quite common in high school.   People are very insecure in high school and the more insecure they are, the more they behave the way your friend (and the others) are behaving so you must first understand that.   Secondly, the best advice that anyone can offer you is to ignore all of it as much as you can, with everyone except your family.  Don't talk about ANY of it with ANYONE at school, no matter how much you think you can trust them.  People are going to talk because doing so makes them feel like they are more in the "circle" than you.  So you have to rise above it.  It's the only way.  You've already talked to her so she is CLEAR on how you feel but she is allowing her insecurities to take over rather than your friendship.  Ignore it, ignore it, ignore it.  When you ignore things and people, they lose interest and get bored and move on to something else.  If anyone tries to talk to you about it and asks questions, simply say "I have no idea what the issues are".  Don't say "her" issues say THE issues.  This way, you're not directing anything towards her and she'll start to feel stupid.  Trust me.  Ignore it and repeat what I said above "I have no idea what the issues are" over and over again.  It will pass.  Thirdly, try your best not to obsess over it.  This has nothing to do with you.  NOTHING.  People have their insecurities.  They always have and they always will.  That never changes, no matter how old you are.  Everyone has insecurities; Presidents, world leaders, Bosses, Celebrities, Singers, parents, friends, family, religious leaders, everyone.  You have your own as well so stop obsessing and understand that you can't change her behavior.  You can only let her get bored with her own behavior-and that is by ignoring it.  Think about other things every time you want to think about it.  You can't change her but you CAN change you and your reactions to it.   Good luck and STAY STRONG.
655570
Well, if this is highschool, you need to have Tina pass a note to Monica who passes a note to Jennifer who passes a note to Brenda who sneaks it secretly into his backpack. The note says: "If you like Candie, wear your cap backwards at lunch tomorrow and sit on your math book." \n\nIf this is post-highschool, approach the guy and ask him out yourself. Fear no man.
501708
Tell someone else. Someone care and doesn't want you to fail. Go in after school one day. if she doesn't help you...tell your principal,\nany teacher like that doesnt deserve to be teaching\n\n~Brendon\nhope this helped...if you need more...\nschweermo@yahoo.com
32027
Try to be a best friends of each other and at the right time tell her what are your feeling towards her.\nHope it'll work!!!
877218
If she smiles and says hi she probably is happy to see you and has positive thoughts of you.... I'm telling you from experience!  I know sometimes teachers are really focused on the lesson and may seem short with you.  I know I am trying to think of things more from the student perspective... like how hard it can be to offer an answer in class, etc.  Sometimes my students have said I was mean to them and I didn't have a clue as to why they'd think that.  go see your teacher privately and very nicely tell her you were wondering if you had done something to offend or aggravate her in class.... be honest.  I know I would want to know if one of my students thought I was mean to them.....I want my students to be comfortable in my class every day....
57839
Make sure that you name one of them after your teacher.  She won't be able to resist bumping your grade up a notch.  Also name some of the others after your friends in the class.  That way, no one will think you're kissing up to your teacher.  And don't forget to name one after the object of your affection in the class.  What a way to get that person's attention, huh?
439683
Tell her how your feeling and that you don't want to harm your excellent friendship, but tell her
620359
she is jealous of your friendship with him especially the fact that you have been since kindergarten \na lot of people are like that\nshe is afraid of losing you \nprobably the only one person she hangs out with \nis you so ask her to try a different approach when all of you guys are together\ncause the one she has now is just causing friction \nask her to try being nice and talk about something that interests her and him\nboth\nif she is a real friend she will at least try to approach him with a different attitude
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If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
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People who are good at teaching usually care a great deal about it.  I'm betting that the two things that would bring her the most pleasure are:\n1) to know you are going to be the same kind of teacher she is; and \n2) to know you'll remember her as someone who formed you to the teacher you're becoming.\n\nSo the question is, how do you pack that in gift wrap?  Some ideas:\n--have something made that she can keep on her desk or in her office, to remind her that you think she's great.  A silver star engraved with a personal thankyou.  A desk nameplate engraved with her favorite saying (my favorite teacher's saying was "look for the entertainment value!" which got me through a lot of tough times.) Maybe get a good photo of her and have an artist turn it into a pastel or drawing of her, and sign it with an affectionate thank-you.\n--Write her a letter, (on paper, in handwriting!) to thank her.  Give at least two concrete examples of what makes her an outstanding teacher and how that helped you or formed your values or your skills.\n--Find a way to honor her publicly.  Write a letter to the Dean of Faculty or to the local newspaper, describing what she does and what value it has to their community and to the world--a generation of better teachers is a fantastic gift to the world.  Have a party for a few of her students, present and past, who feel as you do, to honor her.\n\nTeachers live for the priceless moments when they are reminded that despite the grind of the daily work, they really are changing the world.  You can give her one of those moments.  Lucky you!