if 2 people have feelings 4 each other,should u agree 2 B 2gether even if U dont have time 4 a relationship?
594278
hi when 2 people have feelings for each other ,but both have a life and want to persue it about the only thing you can do is date or rather go out with each other whentime will permit,get your carrer running and the rest will meet you someday when you least look for it,,,david
568433
It's not a good sign.  You should have a heart to heart and put everything on the table.  If this is not the right relationship, it's time to move on before you invest any more time and energy into it.
1112359
If the relationship is going to have a future be honest. It's something taht should be said, but not until you have established a trusting relationship.
590535
Depends on her feelings for you. Find out if the feeling is Mutual first then make a decision.
176778
Deffinately! Just as long as you stay platonic and make sure that it doesn't cause any problems in their relationship.
550240
You wouldn't have to ask. You'd just know. Theer'd be no doubts about your feelings or theirs. You'd both just know it was right.\n\nIf you have any doubs about someone or their feelings towards you, then it's probably not the right person for you.
572705
If two people do get as involved as you want then emotions are inevitable.  Even if two people try to make a commitment to not get emotionally attached it is next to impossible for one or both of them to stay emotionally distant.  Taking long walks usually means there is a commitment of some sort.  You want a physical relationship with no strings attached right?  Well it never works out.  One way or another emotions are going to get evolved.  If not the luvy-duvy type then the angry type.  Unfortunately many people have an idea as to what the ideal relationship is.  The guy is supposed to be the bread winner or the woman is supposed to cook and clean and many other things like that.  Everyone wants to pick and choose what happens when two people get together, but because the two people are different people then this is impossible.  You can't just pick and choose exactly what you want when you're with someone.  You want all the physical, but no emotional aspects of a relationship and unfortuantely for you it can't be done.
838022
tlk 2 dem both and tell dem how u feel. maybe you could be with both. or a couple hours with one and a couple hours with the other.
475535
You cannot define that in terms of time, there is a minimum amount of time that you should wait before considering it a relationship, 3 dates and by that I mean at least a 4 hour period of time with each other each date, but just because you do the minimum, does not make it a relationship, it just means you took the chance to develop the foundation for one.  Some couples know each other for years before developing a relationship, to confine it to time is a mistake.  I advise against making the mistake of believing in love at first sight.  I term that lust at first sight, ya it can work, but most of the time and I am talking about 98% type most of the time, it does not.  Make each other jump through the hoops that you normally would, no matter how much the first attraction is and define the time that the relationship starts after the 3 dates and when there is a mutual attraction.\n\nJohn B.
785100
Not really. One party might be feeling guilty and trying not to hurt the other more, or just as likely, trying not to make an enemy unnecessarily.\nLovers can drift into becoming friends but fall out of love at the same time.
513191
just wait. when the time is right you will both know it.  Dont rush you both could be heading into trouble.
401501
4 times! stop right there. It's obvious that hte two of you are not ready for a relationship or your just not compatable. Real love is never hard. Sure you have to work at it like everything but you do it cause you want to and it makes things so much easier. I think it's time for you guys to call it quites and that means as friends too, at least for a couple of months because you have to let your feelings die down. If say in 3 months you still want to talk and do that will tell you something.
574683
Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
7360
Depends on the circumstances. I am not relationship pro but thre are certainly instances where there is not other logical choice. Not supporting them, however, is not cool....
1141018
Communicating, learning its ok to disagree and 2 be ok with the other person's decisions. I think that supporting each other completely having trust and faith in the relationship. And not letting outside interference mess wit the relationships. Be 2 true 2 each other. Know that its ok 2 have friends outside of the relationship becuz girls needs girls night out and guys need guy time. and being ok wit that and trusting that if ur significant other is going out then its ok and that u kno their not going to do nething and u kno who they are coming home 2. Loving one another 4 u who are and not tryin 2 change the person. Understand that the person is not perfect and has faults. All these 2 me factor in on having a strong a relationship.
659968
I don't mind to have this friend but I would not force him or myself to have further step. It doesn't mean I don't want. I prefer to come naturely. If it's time that we want to be together, I think both of us would have the same feeling. No need to think that he should be my boyfriend/friend. Just relax and enjoy the relationship in this moment.
616533
well, if the feeling is mutual with this other person, i'd say yes. you either feel it or you don't and it seems like you do and good for you...