How can I keep loving my best friend if she won't let me love her?
604109
he's right you cant, it is hard to love some one who doesn't feel the same but if you don't want to lose their friendship you just need to let her go, and realize that all you will ever be is a friend. and love her as a friend. and let it be.
108226
just try to be away from her.\nthe day u fell u cannot do that\nu r in love.\n\ncheers!!
57553
you dont. you shouldnt ruin a good thing. be grateful you even have a best friend.
482792
My best friend is a guy, and I've been a little in love with him for years.  He'll make some woman a great husband someday.  BUT... We've made it clear from the get go that there won't ever be more than that.  We're TOO close and know each other too well, in some ways.  And the chance for ruining the wonderful friendship we have? No way.  You have to be up front and completely honest.  I think your friends were not mature enough to deal with their feelings.  There's nothing wrong with having strong feelings for your best friend, or even saying so, but to try to hide them or avoid them will just breed resentments.  Next time you get close to a female you don't intend to date, make it clear up front, letting her choose whether to stick around.  Some will, some won't.  But at least then you don't lose someone that you're already quite attached to.  Been working for my friend and I for 13 years now.  Good luck.
255485
try not to bring the subject up again for a while beome more of a best friend before bringing the question again let her know that she can trust you and that you're willing to treat her right like nobody ever will then you'll be good to go above all just let her know she can trust you and that she can tell you anything and you'll always listen and try to understand
757658
Love is always tough, especially when it's one-sided. And when you add to that losing a best friend because of your genuine feelings that's doubly hard. \n\nBut it's not reasonable that your friend won't even talk to you. If she was as good a friend as you say she'd be able to get past it and still remain friends.\n\nI would suggest finding a good LGB support group near where you live.\n\nGood luck.
368947
Just try to be her best friend EVER and try to make her happy by completing all of her wishes. BEST OF LUCK DUDE!!!!!!!
870219
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
782652
The world is changing. One day the world will be fine with it, people will find something else to hate. You may want to make sure she feels the same way before you make any drastic moves. And it may not be love, like boyfriend/girlfriend/marriage love. Maybe its the love of a best friend. I love my best friend, but its not that type of love. Time can only tell.
1039388
You really can't. Just be as gentle as possible. Her feelings will be hurt because she can't have what she wants. But she will get over it eventually.
1057777
It's so hard I know..I have been in love w/someone for about 4 years..my best friend...want her so bad...but it's not happening...so you choose your pain..be friends and love from afar...or just get away from the whole situation & move in different circles.
849503
just let them be, u can't force them whom to love. that's their choices.
99637
So she IS aware of this love or she isn't??  Have you tried just asking her on a date?  I mean, proposing would be rushing it a bit considering you haven't even tried romance yet.  If she's aware you love her and she's your best friend, the only reason she might say no is to keep from risking your friendship.  if the realtionship doesn;t work out, she looses a friend.  if you just stay friends, what does she loose?  just ask her if she might be interested in turning your friendship into something more.  if she says no,  just let her know that if she changes her mind, you're still game, but otherwise you want to remain the great friends you've always been.
1007274
of course u have to keep talking to her...she is ur best friend !!!! she has the right to be mad,she was refused by a guy...be patient.plz to handle  it u have to be with her n good and bad...she is talking like this now bcs she is mad...be patient she will come to apologize !!! friendship means we have to support each other in ur bad and good times
19934
Honey, I'm going through the same thing myself. All I can tell you is that you can't make her love you. If things are meant to be, they will work out.  But in the mean time, realize that you don't need someone to love you to feel like a whole person.
301421
Hi\nif she wont return U Should forgot her as love .i mean U can have relation to her as e friend but No love and find new Love for your self but firs be sure that she wont return or she agree with this decision