Im confused and i need help wit my boyfriend.?
605551
You said yourself, he is YOUR boyfriend, he has, I understand, said that he is serious and that he loves you.\nWhy are you insecured?\nThere two points I want to mention here:\nTrust is the strongest feeling and if you are going to build a future together you must trust him and his feelings for you.\nAnd second, a woman just knows if her man loves her.\nCome on, believe in yourself more, you say you are a bit on the heavy side, well....this guy knew this and still he fell for you...didnt he? \nEnjoy this lovely time...your love...his love for you..dont go around seeing possible ghosts....\nHow would you feel if he asks you..do you really love me? are you really serious about us?\nBe happy mi girl...just be happy!
607813
Honestly i think he's just confused and needs time with out you so that he can see how much he needs you. He might just need room to realize that you all do belong together. Talk to him get all your feelings out because if you keep anything in and away from him you will lose him for longer than planned. trust me. My boyfriend and i were about to take a break and i told him exactly how i felt i was scared to do it because i didn't want him to feel like i was making him stay but he said that he was glad i told him because it let him know that i care deeply for him. Just try talking to him about it and see what happens from there.
707753
It sounds like he's confused, too.  Give yourselves some time before comitting to an exclusive relationship.  Stay friends for awhile and tell him you think you like him, too but want to keep things at a just friends level for awhile.  He'll respect your wishes and it gives your relationship time to progress as it will, naturally.
854097
Uhhh ask the other guy if he feels like there is something going on between you too? then if he says yes dumb boyfriend then get a with him!
459092
Call him on it.  It sounds like neither of you trust each other, so if you get down to the root of the problem, hopefully you can overcome it.  Have you done anything for him to feel betrayed?  It sounds like he's reading them.  Just call him on it and have a conversation about it.
529123
the first thing you need in a relationship is honesty and the ability to trust, and it looks like your boyfriend has broken these, explain to him that you need to trust him and that he must be honest in future or your relationship cannot proceed any further. good luk hun
721065
The best thing to do is ask your boyfriend what he likes and get him to help you out.  Good luck.
376714
This sounds more like it's confusing than like an actual problem.\n\nTry to relax and let your ex make up his mind.  He's obviously not sure what he wants at this point.
243167
He must be very confused with his sexuality.  Girl don't let him uses you as an experiment.  A relationship is a one to one contact only. No one else should be involved but the two of you.  Maybe its time to let him go.  If he's serious with you, then he wouldn't want to share you with anyone else.
198528
Ask him, point plank, what his intentions are. Perhaps it's time to find out what kind of future your relationship has. Be very clear about what you want and expect from him.
838355
One word of advise follow your heart obviously from what i read sounds like he's not the one for you if he was you shouldnt have these doubts in your mind no person should have doubts in their relationship and if they do then give yourself a break and get in touch with your inner emotions after all they will give you the answer you're been searching for.Iwish you all the best.
429838
WHat i say you should do is get himback i mean if you really like him that much i should know i had the same problem wit my boyfriend but if yall do get back together its going to take time because thats what my boyfriend told me "i just needed time wit being wit you so i can see how you are" so just give it time if yall get back together.
289012
Well at least you have some morals in asking yourself this question.Just talk to your b/f and see for yourself how he thinks things are going.If it is not happening,then finish the relationship,get yourself over him totally and then see what can happpen with this one you keep thinking of.
555124
Talk with him and find out what exactly is making him feel this way. Not a normal thing for a guy who is sure of him self to go through.........
635786
It sounds like you need to talk to your man. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him where do I stand in this relationship? Then come right out and say Do you still love me?
483757
Always talk to him. If you keep things inside and dont resolve, it might create misunderstandings. Be sure to listen to him to and to think positively together
108070
sounds like he wants s*x with you,  the decision is yours   if you dont want to jsut explain to him that you dont if not...have fun ;)