I can't control my Sexual desire.What I can do?
598121
the attitude that it is self abuse has you feeling some form of guilt of you would not feel its abuse that atitude has created this thrill that youve either become addicted to or feel ashamed of you need to revaulate your defination of masturbation masturbation is not a sin when tye "book" refers to spilling seed it refers to coitus interruptus "pulling out" before you ejaculate during vaginal sex so rub one off and enjoy it dont feel guilty at least your not having extramaritl sex which by the way is forbiddin by "the book"
681877
Take estrogen to dampen your male urges.  That is guaranteed to work.  One point worth mentioning to you, we women have incredible self control which you men lack--hahaha.
1099406
Sheesh!\nYou need to abstain from sex if it is draining the life force out of you.\nYou've got to stop enjoying yourself so much and start navigating this hell we call our lives. \nSmarten up and get happy, damnit!
221594
I don't beleive you can.  Maybe find someone that can help you keep it under control.\n\nGood Luck.
566316
HOw will that solve the problem?? Self-control boy!! Don't put yourself in positions where you can easily fall into temptation. If you know that sitting with a certain person alone in a room will cause you to sin, I'd advice u not to do so. If u are extremely tired you wouldn't have bad tempting thoughts, so try having a busy schedule. When temptations come anyway, try to think of anyother thing, such as a school math problem, a project, your schedule tomorrow. However, it ain't easy. If you can't handle it, don't date at all. I've been there, and I've managed to control myselft. Remember IT AIN'T EASY but IT'S POSSIBLE!
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Many men sexualize their emotional needs. You can begin by journaling. Journal daily on your moods & feelings. You can start with the HALT method; hungry, angry, lonely or tired. As you become more aware of your emotional needs, you can begin taking active steps to meet those needs in healthy ways instead of eroticizing them.\nYou may also want to consider an accountability partner and/or some good therapy. I think there may even be some sexual accountability groups online.
388775
You're going to hurt yourself for nothing. That's not the only tool in your arsenal (or it shouldn't be, anyway).Your biggest sexual organ is your brain...used properly, there's nothing you can't accomplish.
1032750
I think anytime someone is unable to control a behavior, there is going to be a problem. Fertility & erection should not be a problem, but the obsession will.  Talk with your doctor about getting some help.
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
28957
Pay more attention to your partner than to yourself.\nLearn control.
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SPENDING  MORE TIME CARESSING AND KISSING HELPS MANY WOMEN BECOME FULLY AROUSED.\nDONT DRINK ALCOHOL, IT CAN DELAY ORGASM IN WOMEN.\nDO KEGAL EXERCISES TO STRENGTHEN YOUR VAGINAL MUSCLES AND AID IN STIMULATION.\nHEART AND BLOOD PRESSURE MEDS CAN AFFECT SEXUAL DESIRE.\nTAKE A HERBAL BLACK COHOSH, CHASTE TREE BERRY OR GINSENG SUPPLEMENTS, IT CAN PUT SOME SPICE INTO YOUR LOVE LIFE.\nIF PMS SYMPTOMS SQUASH YOUR LOVE LIFE TRY A LOW DOSE ORAL CONTRACEPTIVE, IT MAY SOLVE THE PROBLEM.\n33% OF WOMEN SUFFER FROM LOW SEXUAL DESIRE.\nDURING MENOPAUSE, HALF OF ALL WOMEN EXPERIENCE SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION.
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Dear Chocolate,\nAll joking aside...it seems to me you are very hungry for affection...which is translating into sexual desire due to societal influences.  Its true your hormones are part of the issue, but deep down its about finding sincere tenderness to satisfy your unmet need for affection.  A loving touch is what you need, not sexual contact.  Try showing sincere affection/tenderness to those close to you...then they might return the same...and you may find some peace.\n\nAll the best to you!
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God bless you, my friend.  You are certainly obeying the Lord's will by abstaining from homosexual behavior while you are under the tremendous temptation that sex imposes on a young man. As with so many of life's tough problems, you must put yourself completely in Jesus' hands if you wish for a completely satisfactory solution.\nThe One who made the blind see, and the lame walk, is perfectly able to heal you of your desire for sexual immorality.  I pray you will direct your efforts to Him, and only to Him, as you struggle with your particular temptations.  Give Him your will, your heart, and your fleshly desires each morning, and whenever you feel the pull of sin.  And TRUST in Him!  Remember, He often told people that it was their FAITH that made His miracles happen.  \nI can't tell you how much I admire your courage in sticking by the Lord and tackling this difficult problem instead of just giving in to it as so many others have done.  May God look upon you in perfect love and mercy, and may He richly bless you with faith, and strength, and healing.  You'll be in my prayers, friend--hang in there!
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self-control. but given you are male i'm sure you'll come up with every excuse in the book about why you can't exert self-control. i suspect you'll do your looking anyway and when you have a girlfriend i also suspect you will be slapped frequently. lastly, i suspect you will be single much of the time until you figure out how to exert self-control.
62263
U cant control ur feelings but u can control ur actions.Preserve ur dignity,move on and hope 4 the best.
1149922
You can't change your sexuality... you can only choose to accept it or not to accept it. You can try to keep your urges under control, but know that it's going to be very difficult and very draining to try and suppress who you are. Why not just accept yourself?
337164
Get a girlfriend who will pamper your fetish. Go to spa's for vacations, Buy exercise DVDs or videos. Enroll in exercise classes.If it is becoming a fixation to the point of ignoring responsibilities and maintaining a healthy social life then you need to get counseling. Otherwise enjoy.