For women only to respond please: Two men at once - pros/cons - should I try it?
610166
Anna, head down to the local bar.  Wear something real slutty.  Strike up a conversation with two guys hanging out together.  Tell em' you want DP.    Next thing you know, you'll be getting banged like a screen door in a hurricane.
10560
Hello Myca. I couldn't help but pick out your question, for obvious reasons of course. Let me go straight into it. The quick answer is NO! (Not with a friend first!) YES! If you think the relationship can handle it with someone that ya'll can meet and get to know for that purpose. OK?? If you would like to know why then read the following.......\n First of all I commend you for stating that you don't desire a man in this, (I'll comment on that later). Second, you’re lucky to have a man that hasn't shoved the thought of this down your throat since you both met (even better since this incident). Anyway, "Is it a good idea..?" you ask. Well in this case it's one of those grey areas we all see every now and then. From experience and dealing in "The Lifestyle", as they say, I recommend that you and your husband start with an unknown. The reason for this is simply because should you both decide to go through with this if it turns awkward or it just wasn't good or it was!! See that way you hurt no one and you both get to figure if it's something ya'll would like to consider doing again. Now let me say this, please understand that men and women are totally built different mentally and emotionally. I'm not trying to drag this out or be your counselor but these are thing people should take into consideration before doing things that may destroy something that's perfect already. So make sure that you both have a very, very open discussion about the possibilities of (Jealousy, How you both feel before and after the act, Jealousy!, Can one of you stop if other is uncomfortable?, JEALOUSY!! and disease). I'll take it that you both are very wise and know your partner and your friend. So if you trust and KNOW them well enough to not warrant any foreseeable problems, then HEY! ENJOY!! But remember, the beginning is always Bliss, but look further down the road!!
1067822
Just like your husband, I work in another city. My wife does that too. In the matter of fact, I would ask her occassionally if she did it. It brings no harm and it's healthy. Better that than having her with another man releasing her sexual urge on another.
554903
I don't see why it would be a problem. Try it out if it doesn't work get rid of one and try it then try the other and see which you like better. Hope it works for you.
900024
Yes most definitely. The second man must have that little extra to 'rock her boat'. A woman does not always, even if she is doing a bit of harmless flirting, want to sleep with him. Some women may not give the signs but may want to hop into bed with the guy..
200475
You can, but it takes a VERY long time, and if you two are separated by large distances, it makes things more difficult.  I don't think many men are patient enough for this to work the way many women would feel 'safe enough' for it to work out.  That's just my 2 copper.  Good Luck!
654460
HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont
22709
Ah, the old "hump & dump".  It's not wrong (unless you're married or in a committed relationship).  It can be fun.  If you're a chick, you can just go to any bar in america and walk up to a guy and tell him you are looking for a one night stand and you're all set. You'll just want to make sure he's not gay and make sure he's not already with another chick (if he is, you may have to just wait until she goes to the bathroom-he'll figure out a way to ditch her unless she's his wife or roommate). If you are a guy it is a bit more complicated.
396781
They can get a man of their own and probably do. If the man is interested then why not.It takes two. You can't blame the woman. The men are willing.
820389
Go for the 3some man!!
405467
Sadly, currently i am the other man in that kind of triangle.(except she is not marride but living with the guy) I am in love with this woman.  But she will never leave this guy.  I was being used the whole time.  You are not in love with both of these men. You just crave attention anyway you can get it and dont wont to feel guilty.  I bet if you look hard enough one of these men really do luv you and is the best for you.  But you are not a strong enough person to do the work it takes to be in a real relationship.  No matter what these men are going to get hurt. AND YES IT IS YOUR FAULT!!  you are the bad guy in this!
353759
I had to think about this question a bit before wrestling it down.  I think that the first choice and the second choice are the same for men and women.\n\nIf things are the way you suggest, women would not need a man, ever, since their first choice is always satisfied, n'est pas?  :)
1114365
Male Male Female, a threesome for all those that don't know...I'd say if it's something you aren't happy with then don't do it...if he insists then he is not the man for you. Simple as...
239821
Try the other man. If you can trust him go for it.
1023580
sounds like you are attraction the wroing type of men.  A good thing to remember, is you dont HAVE to make this decision...there are more than two men in the world. Maybe you should consider ditching both of them and looking for someone new! Also, money can't make you happy if you have no one to laugh with.
773556
yes i have with another girl and a guy and with two guys. Thing was i was not dating either of these people. It can really mess with the relationship so if its something you do agree on do not have a mutual friend join you it can make things very awkward between you two as well the two of you and your friend. Also talk about what the boundaries are for you both. What shes okay with you doing to the other woman, what shes comfortable doing with the other woman, and what is going to far. Having a bit of sexual play is good for a relationship, but if its a relationship you want to keep make sure you respect each others feeling on the matter.
92260
Are you kidding???\nWomen are so confusing it is scary. A way might seem right with one woman, and a total disaster with another.\nJust keep at your style, perfect it, and you will start to succeed.