My Parents are out of town and he won't come over...WTF????
610909
Depends on his upbringing.  If he's either culturally or religiously conservative, he could be EXTREMELY sexually into you but really honestly want to be respectful of your dad.  (And don't say you're horny online, you're bound to get all kinds of guys hitting on you lol)
732362
tell him the truth..then he will know its not you that is rejecting him but your parents and THEIR rules...and he will feel better about things and you can then both commiserate together and can blame your uptight parents...btw,your parents are also imposing these rules on you because they love and care about you and want to protect you from EVERY nasty aspect of life(not possible though but when you have tin lids of your own you will worry about exactly the same things...)
364314
omfg! im sooo sorry to hear about that, your parents are fucking sick bastards i have to say! They sound like there are seriously menatally ill and need professional help!\n\nI have to say your bf sounds lovely for taking care of you and being there for you, i would personally give him a hug if i saw him.\n\nHave you reported any of these incidents when you were younger to the NSPCC for example?\n\nYou are past 16 so therefore, intitiled legally to leave home and im sure the local council could set you up in a new estate away from your parents. However, although you are past the age of using childline and NSPCC you can always call the smaratins for more help and advice who could arrange your house setting and also prosecute those demon parents of your so you can get your just desserts.\n\nIf you ever wanna talk just email me or message me on madness17@hotmail.co.uk\n\ni sure hope things improve for you and best of luck for the future xxx\n:)
1099922
yeah sure it looks that way. just don't jump the gun and get mad at your mom. this could all be unavoidable. just tell her you really want to come up and for her to not make any plans to prevent your visit. If she still continues to have excuses...i dunno, try talking to your dad about it. maybe he'll talk to your mom about the way it's affecting you.
1081494
Talk to him, give him a certain time to be home, and come home even earlier than that if you can! Always call about once every 30 minutes, so your dad will know that you are safe!! Hope my advice worked!
759533
What does your mom say? If shes on your side, then maybe the two of you can both talk to him.\n\nDoes your bf still live at home? Even if doesn't his parents could still talk to your dad.\n\nI don't think you should disobey him, even though you are old enough to be on your own, you are still living is his house.
1002439
i know it may be awkward, but i have an overprotective father too and  just talk to him. do not get defensive though. you could say something like "dad i know you're worried about me, and i really appreciate you looking out for me, but i need you to trust me. i know you might be worried that i'll be pressured into doing something i don't want to or i'm not ready for and i can tell you right now that will not happen." you just really need to open up to him and more importantly, listen to what he has to say. ask him why he seems worried. if you havent already, invite the guy over to have dinner with your parents. if he has just been coming over and hasn't sat down with them, they would probably be a little suspicious. make sure he brings flowers or something to eat, parents love that!! good luck!!
99405
Sure,go out with him. You have to like him first. If your parents don't like him,you can't bring him home. It all depends on you. If you respect your parents (and you should) find out why they don't like him. Then work on correcting that feeling. You will do this if the guy means enough to you. If he doesn,t,then move on. Good Luck!
217757
Is he ignoring you, or treating you like crap? Is he often absent from your home, or (if you're not living together) does he bother to call you when he gets home.\nWhat does your GUT tell you? It is usually right. Ever heard of women's intuition?
315035
They are in your house and will just have to deal with who you are. I know you feel like it matters what they think, but if you're already married to the guy then he obviously doesn't care what his parents think. Be yourself, and just try to be nice to them. If they talk down to you, etc, get your husband to talk to them and explain that he doesn't appreciate them disrespecting you in your own home. Stand your ground!
499025
This is how every serial killer movie starts off isn't it?  I would limit your contact as much as possible till he has his shit together. Try setting a schedule I will call you at X time on X day, and let him know that you are an independent person, and while you will support him he does not own you nor does he control your life. Set Limits! if he flies off the handle hang up on him and don't pick up until you're sure it's not him. Don't be afraid to cut him out of your life completly if you feel the stress is too much.
660228
How Old are you? I don't think that you would want the parents to answer the phone and I don't think he would think it's that funny. Here's an idea, try to call him during the day and don't hang up, maybe he would like you better for that.
969930
i broke up with my bf in october, and it is still so hard for me not to pick up that phone and tell him to come home... he moved everything out and i havent felt like i am at home in my apartment since... its hard for everybody... you just have to let it go for awhile, why don't you call up some friends and go out... you will see, he will be back before you know it.
6119
start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
1096323
Sit down and talk to him. Ask him what you can do to show him you're responsible and build up some trust. See what he says. Maybe it's something you're doing/wearing/how he percieved your friends that is causing him to feel this way. Maybe it's not. Maybe it is really your mom's behavior. Whatever he tells you, if he feels you need to make changes to (re)gain his trust, follow his advice. Do you babysit/do odd jobs/have a more conventional job for extra money? If so, bring that up. If not, think about maybe doing that this summer to prove you do have a sense of responsibilty. Do you have younger siblings? If so, how do you treat them? I'm just throwing stuff on the table. I have no idea of who you are or how you behave. I'm just someone who's probably about your dad's age trying to get you thinking from an adult's point of view about reasons that I might not trust my almost 15 year old. Good luck...and I hope you can use something that I wrote!
829118
Dump the bum and quick!  Sounds like there are some problems going on in this guys head and you don't need to be a part of it.  I think you already knew you have to get him out of your house and out of your life, you just needed confirmation and support from people not so close.  Well, you are getting plenty of the same advice; so listen to all of us strangers who only want the best for you - GET RID OF HIM . . .NOW!
905577
You didn't say your age, but I'm assuming you still live at home--hense the "grounding".    Parents have reasons for why we do things.  Sometimes they may sound silly and unreasonable to our children.  But, you need to respect your parents wishes and avoid that friend.  Perhaps in the future you will understand why your parents want you away from that person.