can one be happy ,delight, without others?
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YES. GOD WILL BE WITH YOU ALLWAYS.
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i am happy when all people around me are happy.People i love and respect are happy with me.Also it will make me happy when someone say to me that i am good person who helps other to be happy.
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Being a good person is more important.\nIf you're good, then good things should follow which will help you to be happy.\n\nIf you're happy without being good, you may be a person that people don't like. It's up to you though.
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Hello! Can understand what you mean. Have not got too much self-esteem neither... but I have come to accept that it is not okay for me to feel that way somehow. I want to change it. Think one really needs to decide deep within to change it. There are many beautiful suggestions here. A counsellour I saw some time ago told me that I should say out loud "I am a wrothwhile person and I deserve to be happy." ... and it worked. Just that I became kind of lazy :o) . What might help you as well is the link below. It might seem childish but it really does help. Enjoy it and good luck to feeling better toward yourself :-) !
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Becasue happiness doesn´t come from things.  Happiness is the result of living your life to the fullest and enjoy the company of those around you.
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WOW! you sure what a lot don't you? There is no way that a human being can always be happy, just like there is no way that you can always be sad. You can have a general good outlook on life and try to be happy with the situation that you are in. If you live a honest, decent life where you try your best you will find happiness.  If you help your fellow humans by volunteering of your time, talents and/ or money you will find happiness. Thinking of and helping others lets you know that your situation could be a lot worse.  In turn this makes you thankful for what you have.  If you try to always find happiness through materialistic things that you own, you are doomed to always be unhappy for the most part.  There is always something new and better around the corner. If you spend  some of your free time with family and friends ,you will find happiness.  You sound very young and unsure of yourself.  Be proud of what and who you are.  God bless you and Good luck!
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You can not make yourself happy alone unless you love to be alone.  If you love to be alone, you will find ways to be happy.
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Other people are not going to bring you happiness.  Only you can do that through your choices.  Whatever it is about the town or city you're in that's keeping you from being happy isn't going to go away just because of some guy.  Not to mention, about the most abundant luxury in this world is the opposite sex.  Which is to say, there are plenty more guys out there and yes, the one you are with now is not the ONLY one you are compatible with.
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You can't satisfy anyone without pulling yourself apart trying to accomodate them. You can't make everyone happy. We try to seek approval from others because it adds to what we think our self worth is. We want people to be proud of us and like us, it is just the way we were taught to put others opinions and values over our own.
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to be happy, make other people happy, to be loved and give love... :-)
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If you try to mirror others, you'll eventually lose all sense of yourself. AND, besides, it is just not possible to be all things to all people.\nIn short, "to thine own self be true." In the long (and short) run, you'll be a lot happier and certainly more satisfied.
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It can work but don't expect to be happy.\nWhy would you want to do this to yourselves?
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YES!!!!!!!IT IS POSSIBLE TO BE HAPPY ALONE,BUT WOULDN'T LIFE BE ALOT SWEETER IF U HAD SOMEONE?
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YOU CAN'T.... a person makes themselves happy...we only add to another's happiness... good luck
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OK.. you confuse me... lonely? Ok Ok! Sometimes its good to be on your own, find out who you really are. Its always good to get back to your roots and the reason you feel lonely is because your not yourself. Remember... You dont need anyone to make you happy. Once you are happy and whole... Then youll stop being lonely and be able to make others happy and whole aswell. Take care. Heidi
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having nobody to be loved
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To each his own.  I'm no one to judge, and neither is anyone else.  I'm sure I like something that most people don't agree on, but I'm not going to stop my life, or stop enjoying it, because of what people think.  If you're happy, that's what matters.