what will i do to meet up with my lover sexual urge and style of having sex?
599578
either start taking mega vitamins each mornign or slug back a shot of something befor e sex time.....or both\n\n\n\nor.....bring a couple friends of yours in......ya kow! to take off someof the extra work
564459
Well, maybe the two of you should exchange pictures and then he can decide if he still wants to meet? If he does, I recommend you meet in a public place, like a wine bar. When you are with him, do not leave drinks unattended. Do not accept opened drinks from him either - you never know, roofies might be his best friend. Do not get drunk or even slightly merry. Drink more water than booze. That way, you stay in control.\n\nOther than that, if you agree to meet, it doesn't mean you are overly eager. Just continue the conversations you have had so far and play it by ear.
261458
1)Both of u take a break and go for a holiday somewhere exotic...the change in scene might do good.\n2)bring in an element of mystery in your sex-life...play sex games.\n3)get sexy lingery and initiate sex.
496488
The single most important thing is to not rush anything.  Take it slow and easy.  Lots of kissing.  Lots of caressing.  \n\nEspecially since this is the first time for both of you, take the time to explore every inch of each other.  Watch each other's reactions as you touch this or caress that or kiss the other thing.  \n\nYou may even wish to take a bath or a shower together beforehand as another way to relax and get to know each other's bodies better.
686589
Well, it helps to be close to the person physically and mentally.  Don't rush.  Start out by kissing and caressing each other.  in other words foreplay.  Believe me, things will fall into place if you just relax, do not rush, a gently kiss and caress your partner.
937700
be safe. Meet him in a public place. Don't give him your address invite him to you home or go to his until you know him better. Tell somebody where you are going, who you are meeting and when you expect to be back. Take a mobile phone. Either drive yourself or make sure you can get back by cab or public transport yourself.\n\nHe's probably a really nice guy, most people are, so he won't mind you being cautious.
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Is there such thing as proper guide?\n\nJust simply get to know your body and so as your partner. Openly tell each other where and what makes you feel aroused and WAY to go. \n\nDo not be embarrass to share that to each other. You will be surprise how closer you guys get.
837636
make it to a next step.. be friends with benifits... If he is busy.. then he will appreciate the sexual gifts from you.. sex releases stress.. and might bring you 2 closer...
499097
Try looking in a sex manual...
507734
My advice to you is be honest and open with him, You can please yourself while he is making love to you. Communication is the key here. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't.
304300
Try new and exciting things together that neither of you have ever done before.  Any interest in sky diving?  Bungy jumping?  Not that advnturous?  Join a gym together and work out together.  Play board games FOR SEX BETS!  If u win u get whatever u want and if he wins he gets what he wants.  Makes it much more interesting!  Pick something u have ALWAYS wanted to do and then just have him join you!  Or ask him if theres something he has always wanted to do but hasnt and do that with him!!!!!  Good luck to u!
753900
It depends on what sort of people you are. The worst case scenario is that nothing will work and you are better being apart but before you rush into that, try other things first and be optamistic.\n\nFirstly, try places other than the bedroom to have sex (I've had it in the car and I love it!!) If you really want sex only in the bedroom, make it a little haven where talk of work or bills or anything which takes your mind off the act is left at the door. \n\nAlso, try and make one night a week a special night. Get dressed up and go for a meal if you can or plan an early night and give some attention to each other...\n\ngood luck
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First off, follow your instinct about not having sex with him!  ESPECIALLY under these circumstances, it's almost assured to make things difficult.\n\nThe real issue is:  How real do you think this relationship is?  And, how far would you go to take it to the next level?  If it is ever to be, one of you will eventually have to relocate.  If that's a possibility, proceed (but still don't get sexual!)  If neither of you are willing to relocate, then you are only torturing yourself for no reason.
578842
Your in lust for him, it sounds like you need sexed. Relax, you will find someone
194349
Gently and vulnerably let him know how much you'd enjoy experiencing the passions this intimate act will lead you to...and be willing to do the same orally for him. (Contact me for more details: meister_of_subs@yahoo.com ~smile~)
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Do something you wouldn't ordinarily do with him.  Whether it is trying a new position or experimenting with other sexual activities, just be creative and I am sure everything will work out lovely.
611481
try her to make her our date or lover