why do ppl have crazy wedding sometimes ?
607825
some poeple arnt just happy getting married they have do do silly things like get married on titanic wreck (wich is mocking all the people who died on the ship) i all for fun weddings and having a laugh as your getting married not burried but dont do dumb things to better someone else
728483
I was at a wedding, where the bridal party were placed on a few ascending steps. This one poor girl, right in the middle of the ceremony, fell off, head over a**, landing with a very loud thud. It took all I had to keep from laughing out loud in front of everyone. When the ceremony was over, and we left, I laughed till I cried.
670334
There is a middle ground.  My wife and I planned our wedding together... We "ran" off to Vegas and got hitched... with about 50 of our closest friends and family members in attendance.  Those folks who couldn't make it to the wedding were encouraged to watch us online (via webcam) and we have made our wedding video available on iFilm for anyone who might get a kick out of it (we had an Austin Powers wedding)!\n\nhttp://www.ifilm.com/ifilmdetail/2692681\n\nHope this helps!
351834
Everyone gets off on different things - but if you have issues with it, maybe you should try to figure out if you can handle it. There is no point getting married unless you are 100% sure, otherwise it is a recipe for disaster
343114
Because people confuse marriage with weddings.  People spend so much time planning the perfect wedding and forget about whats going to come after the flowers have died and the cakes been eaten.  They don't realise the commitment they're actually making and when this sets in after they become so unhappy that it inevitably leads to divorce.  Some of the most happily married couples I know went off and got married alone in little ceremonies with no trimmings and they're still together like glue because they knew it was a marriage they were having and not a wedding.
96214
because men really don't care what color flowers you pick out and other girly things. Also girls have been practicing the wedding their whole lives. Planning a wedding is very stressful and I think guys just see it as another day. Women have this picture in their minds of how the wedding is supposed to be and so they don't stop until it is that way. Guys don't see this picture as it is so they don't understand how things are supposed to be.
1012287
I think it would be fun and different. I been to straight weddings and sometimes they are boring.
433553
I see a lot of people who dont respect their own or other marriages, it's sad. I feel that if one finds that "special person" they will, no matter what, respect that other person. AS it is said, Love never fails.
764203
I didn't myself - you dont realise what a control freak you are until it comes to your wedding.  I wanted to be in charge of every little deal because I didn't trust else as much as myself to get what I want.  I'm a very strong minded person and know my own mind so was best left in charge.\nI loved every minute of planning my wedding, it's part of the fun of getting married - I'd do it over again in a heartbeat.
172936
yes it happens. its up to the ppl involved. that sort of lifestyles suits some ppl, and disgusts others.  its up to u to know what u can and cant handle.
833963
In regards to weddings, it doesn't have one. Unless you count the mothers taking over. The mother of the bride has her own opinions and is trying to plan her daughter's wedding, simply because her own mother planned hers so she feels that is the only way to do things. Then you have the strife between the mother of the groom and the bride because nothing the bride chooses will ever be good enough for her son.
992579
It is going to be very expensive to have such a big wedding. You need to figure out the cost and make sure you get the money in plenty of time. You don't want to get stuck with huge expenses.
755359
i wasn't nervous either...some ppl just aren't. no big deal. i HATE that ppl think we are suppose to "act" a certian way. \npersonally i think some ppl that act that way just do it because they think they have to for some reason.\ni was cool as a cucumber...even when my dad was half an hour late because of a tire blowing out LOL...never sweat the small stuff...i had my guests there, my groom there...no body was going anywhere..we just waited. HA!\n\nBUT...i didn't see anything about a photographer...or the grooms gift.\n\nya know...i think some ppl don't bother w/ a grooms gift, but thought i'd mention it. my hubby and i didn't mess w/a gift we just sent a card to each other before so we could read something sweet from one another. \n\nand ya got the old fashion stuff...something old, something new, something barrowed, something blue?
952042
People tend to have irrational attractions to celebrities, for reasons I don't fully comprehend, but weddings especially, for many of the same reasons people are interested in "normal" weddings.\n\nAs sad as it may sound, a lot of people will probably never find true love in their lives, and a wedding gives them a way to live this scenario vicariously through others. A high-profile couple like the two of them just has wider appeal because they're celebrities and more people know about them.
667847
Because it wants everyone to get marries, and be fruitful and multiply. Well....certain types of people at least!
1007962
Yes, hardworkinmama, you're being over superstitious. Forget what's gone on so far, and concentrate on preparing something fantastic for you and you're spouse that will top your wedding night. He'll be pleased, and you can dispel the old 666 curse.\n\nCongrats & Bella Notte....
306671
My wedding was perfect to me because it was so stress free, we got married in Jamaica on vacation, everybody knew it was not like we eloped or so. but we just got our paper work together send it of and the rest was being taken care of by the hotel (thank you 'sandals' montego bay) the decorations, flowers, dinner, cake, drinks....we got married on the beach, lot of flowers.  it would have been a nightmare for me to plan a big party and try to do right by everybody and spent a whole lot of money on them. because my wedding was about my husband and me...and not a bunch of relatives. when we came back we had a small casual reception/BBQ. that was the perfect wedding for me