how does a leo girl handle her moody cancer boyfriend?
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I am a cancer male as well. what you do is keep reassuring that he is your love, we need alot of nurture and love and tender care coz emotionally we are brittle. but if you keep him reassured he is your world, he might ease up a little bit good luck with him
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I don't think it matters about the person's gender, but as for the horoscopes: (from yahoo astrology, the website listed below)\n\nWhen Cancer and Aquarius make a love match, it can be a case of opposites attracting. Cancer takes an emotional approach to life, Aquarius, an offbeat, unconventional approach. While Cancer often retreats into its shell, Aquarius takes every opportunity to be the extrovert, the organizer and party animal. They love to find themselves amongst friends; social settings are simply their thing! If a Cancer and an Aquarius can find a way to combine these qualities in a positive way, they can go anywhere together. \n\nBoth Cancer and Aquarius can be ambitious and determined. They want to get their way, and neither likes to conflict. Cancer can be old-fashioned, attached to tradition and routine, their morals more conservative than progressive. Aquarius, on the other hand, is very modern and likely numbed by routine, yawning at the dull and the boring in which Cancer sometimes finds comfort. Cancer may be intrigued by their Aquarius lover's sense of excitement, but this traditional Crab could get frustrated trying to keep up with this revolutionary's mind. Though Aquarius won't appreciate the possessiveness of a pinching Crab, they could find great comfort in the solid base Cancer provides. Just try to get them to admit it!\n\nThe Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Saturn (Karma) and Uranus (Rebellion) rules Aquarius. The Moon is a radiant, feminine energy and Saturn is a cool, contained masculine energy. Uranus is about all things abnormal and novel. The Moon is emotional and concerned with growth and domesticity, both of which become central themes in many Cancer's lives. Saturn deals with hard work and the discipline required for achievement, while Uranus symbolizes forward thought. This combination makes sense for an Aquarian, as they are futurists unafraid of getting their hands dirtied by labor. Cancer mates can teach social, intellectual Aquarius lovers the value of emotional impulses, and their feminine influence will bring beauty and comfort into the home. While Cancer teaches the valuable lesson of an open heart, Aquarius can come right back with the usefulness of a detached heart. Aquarians are blessed to be able to extricate themselves from uncontrollable situations and to reevaluate goals if they get off-course. Not necessarily cold, Aquarius could still benefit from Cancer's warm, feminine Moon-based influence. \n\nCancer is a Water Sign, and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Aquarius sees life as an intellectual exercise, a constant exploration and expansion of the mind. Cancer's more pragmatic. Cancer stops to ask, 'how does this feel?' while Aquarians keep asking 'what else is there?' It may be tough for one to get where the other is coming from, and conflicts can arise if Aquarius gets a little too cool or Cancer too emotionally demanding. They may end up working at cross-purposes: Cancer asks for more and more, Aquarius may pull further and further away. By accepting that their worldviews are dissimilar, Cancer and Aquarius can move on and celebrate their diversity, learn to say 'vive la difference' rather than feeling threatened by it. \n\nCancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Both persevere when working toward goals. If they have a set path, they'll follow it to the end. With this sort of shared perseverance -- and if they both place a high value on their relationship -- this couple will never be dissuaded from that knowledge and will constantly think of one another. If they run into snags, Aquarius will discover that Cancers, though they may seem shy and retire into their shells, can actually be very tenacious and dogmatic, not above using emotional manipulation on their loved ones. Also, Aquarius could be bothered by Cancer's over-emotionality. If they agree to work toward a common goal, these two can get along.
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Give her all the supports you can by encouraging and giving medical attention. You have not told what cancer she is having the stage and grade of the disease so that I could have suggested the possible medication and treatments. Any way act as per the advise of your Oncologist. The treatments generally are - surgery, chemotherapy and radiation therapy. The treatment side effects are more killing than the disease itself. What to do you have to fight the disease as -\n\nCANCER IS STILL AN ENIGMA.  Best wishes for speedy recovery of your friend.-
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i understand you are very frustrated...\n\n... i can see that you want him to make a decision\nbecause you hate being taddled along and dragged about\n....\nand you want a definite 'relationship' or 'not' kind of\n... relationship...\n\n... and i bet you... he understand that as well...\nbut put yourself in his shoes..\n\nif you had a boyfriend and were getting along fine...\nand suddenly, a single guy enters your world...\n\nand completely blows you away...\n.. now what would you do?\nyou might say, 'i'll take him,' but it's not that easy...\n\nhe's struggling...\nand i might take a step further to say...\nmaybe his girlfriend is on him about this...\nmaybe she's getting the hint he's not 100% committed to her\n\nmy best advice to you is... give him time...\n\nif you constantly prod him, he might completely ignore you..\n.. if you give him room for thinking and reconsidering,\nhe will seriously weigh it out...\n\n... moreover, he will see your understanding side\nand your compassionate, openness and he will run to you..\n\n.. meanwhile, you go out and have some fun...\ni don't mean cheat on your soon-to-be-boyfriend\nbut go out and meet your friends... guys and gals...\n\nmeeting other gals will set you back to your\ngiggling-chatty-girly mode, which will ultimately put you\nin a euphoria of confidence..\n\nplus, guys will drool over you, and you can neglect them\nand gain higher self-esteem...\n\ngodspeed
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just talk to him and make Sheree you dont make him feel handy cap try to avode his cancer i have lug cacer and im 14 and im tyered of people telling me how bad they feel for me i just want to have peiople talk to me normaly
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YOU ARE ALREADY UNDER THE EFFECT OF SADE SATI SINCE 05 SEPTEMBER 2004, WHEN SATURN ENTERED CANCER AND YOU FACED SATURN RETURN. AS YOUR EIGTH LORD SUN IS  IN ITS OWN HOUSE LEO,SATURN CANNOT DO MUCH DAMAGE TO YOU. BUT AS YOUR SEVENTH LORD MOON IS WITH SUN AND THAT TOO IN THE EIGTH HOUSE AND NOW UNDER THE AXIS OF STAURN-KETU & RAHU THERE MAY BE TROUBLES REGARDING SPOUSE, PARTNERS AND BUSINESS AND MENTAL ANXIETY AND INDECISION.\nPLEASE PRAY TO LORD SHIVA AND HANUMANJI EVERDAY, IT IS BETTER TO OBSERVE FAST/EAT VEG FOODS ON MONDAYS AND SATURDAYS.\nIT IS BETTER FOR YOU TO CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL ASTROLOGER.
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Cancer With Cancer:  compatibility = 3 /10 \nThey both take words and actions to be literal truths and that can mean some consistent pain and unrest for them. They tend to see themselves as martyrs, vastly giving individuals, and when one does not see this in the other then the reaction is shock. They will waste a lot of time together, better spent on other things, in the middle of petty bickering and dredging up the past mistakes of the other. First thing you need to do is get a manual that tells you who goes first and on what night. Otherwise you are both going to just sit there and wonder. How "did" you two manage to get together anyway? Whose initiative was it and will he or she call again? A movie that needs a director! And by the way, try to avoid those emotional scenes, unless you really are acting. \n\nLove & Blessings \nMilly
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It sounds like a Horoscope to me.  Is she a Leo?  If you are so worried, JUST ASK HER.  Communication is a major key in any relationship.  Without good communication between yourself and your partner, the relationship is doomed to fail.  \n\nGood luck, it doesn't sound like anything serious ;)
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Ok hun, first of all you need to recognize that you are in a borderline abusive relationship.  Verbal assault and neglect is a form of abuse.  What will prevent him from taking the next step and hitting you or something!?  \n\nIt is clear that right now, you are in a time of need.  You say that you are lonely, so the first step is finding some kind of group to be a part of.  The good news is, is that there are many groups for women with cancer that you can be a part of.  This will help your social aspect.\n\nNow the hardest step for you will clearly be to let him go.  It's like standing at the edge of the diving board waiting to dive in right?  The hardest part is just doing it.  So close your eyes and just do it.  You know deep inside that it will be for the best.  When you do it, tell your friends and they will help you so that you won't try to go back to him when he tries his sweet talking-because you know he will try to sweet talk you to get back in.  \n\nYou are a great woman and you don't need to take this kind of crap from him!  Take care of yourself, because he clearly won't!
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It is up to her oncologist. Get a good one. Maybe she will be given radiotherapy. She should stop eating too much meat, do alot of deep breathing cos it seems cancer cells don't like and can't survive on oxygen but thrive on carbon dioxide. Take alot of fresh fruit juice (buy a juicer and start juicing). Take wheatgrass and more vegetables.  Read up on ovarian cancer on the internet.
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Taurus women, how very earthy they are!  Depends on what your comfort level is, really.  From your description, you almost sound dead on for a guy Cancer!  They too, are homebodies, tend to be moody, and are pretty good with finances.  My brother is a Taurus guy and married to a lovely Cancer girl.  They fight like no body's business, but they love each other the same way... like no body's business.  Capricorns will tend to walk all over you, and squash you with their boot heels on their way up the social or business ladder.  Avoid fire signs, like Aries, Leos, and Sagittarius like the plague!  You will do nothing but fuss and holler til the cows come home, and maybe even then some.  A Cancer guy will nurture your earthiness and bring out all kinds of wonderful things you never really thought you had.  They make good parents (watch that they don't smother - bad tendency to do this) and are protective of those they love.  Air signs, like Aquarius, Gemini, and Libra, are too flighty (not ditsy) and all over the map for you.  Plus, Gemini's can tend to have this cruel intellectual streak that will make the strongest person quiver.  A Scorpio might work, if the planets are in good order, but they can be a bit too possessive and love to be in control - not something a Taurus can give up easily, if at all!  I believe a Cancer guy is your ticket!
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Leo the king and/or queen of all they survey. You are a natural leader, kind and loyal to your friends and family. Your pride and ego can get in the way of things if you let it. Bet you love sex huh? When you get mad it is like big black thunderhead clouds huh? When you get stressed out, I bet you get a painful dull ache just below your shoulder blades in the center of your back huh? Watch out we suffer from heart problems in later years (its because our hearts are so big and we give so much of it away saving little for ourselves). Relationships with leos from the opposite sex are absolutely amazing...just remember that it is as easy to bruise another leos pride and ego just as easily as yours is. We are fire signs. We tend to have extremely sharp double bladed tongues....mind ya dont cut yerself. Sometimes we can be lazy huh? I also bet you are best at getting the ball rolling on a project then handing it off right? It's ok we get bored with routine...don't we ;) If you haven't figured it out I am a leo...I am a king and when I walk into anywhere people notice me...I also notice other leos (we get along great until some sort of competition starts...lol). You know an old man once told me there is a reason a group of lions is called a pride...go figure :) Always be good to your subjects or they can and will tear you down like so many other bad kings and queens.
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first of all he needs to "GET IT" he needs to get how he is hurting you and changing you, and you and only you can do that! so you need to sit down and and tells him everything dont even leave a fly out just get it all off and if he dont care then hes not worth it any more. you sound perfeclly normal and im sure you are very beautiful  , you should never give up on your self no matter what because there are people that loves you to death and its like giving up on them...you cant controll the way people treat you but you can controll how you react. dont trap your self with the thought that if this relationship is over then your life is over...i think if this over then its time for a make over and a fresh new start...wont that be super my beautiful?!
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God speed to Irina.I promise and assure you I, my family, and friends will hold her son in our hearts and prayers. You as well for being such a good, kind, caring & loving friend. Please tell DIM to look up at the stars the night of his birthday, the brightest one will be blowing him hugs and kisses from us all.God bless you both, time is needed to heal, but I somehow feel you'll get him thru.
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it's sad to know that the spread has already begun to the rectum....i just lost a friend to this malignancy....am really sorry to say this....but HOPE your friend will be able to fight it out. let her go in for the next operation/surgery. If you feel Her condition is deteriorating and is definitely not gonna make it....All you shud do instead of agonising her with more Chemo & Radio (consult her doc and ask for percentage of survival) is to try and improve her quality of life. Try to engage her mind into stuff she always wanted to do.. as in Singing, Painting, Music etc. Keep her surrounded by cheerful people always so that she does not sink into depression.. Sometimes this gives a boost to her immunity and she may be able to fight longer. Give her the best that you could before she leaves......SORRY BUDDY.....BUT ALL THE BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR FRIEND.
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Unfortunately there is no one who can say for sure whether or not your friend will survive this cancer.\nthere are alot of places that you could research to find out the statics and survival rates for people with this kind of cancer. American Cancer Society, John Hopkins Research Hospital are a couple.  the better half of her having cancer is that at her age AML is the better of leukemia's to have. The very best thing that you can do for her is just be there, be there to listen whenn she needs you too, be there when she needs a helping hand, and always keep an open mind.  being patient is always good too, you have to remember whe things happen that are not expected that doctors, nurses and anyone else involved in her care are just human and do the very best they can, but sometimes the body does things that are not expected even to them.\ni wish you and your friend the very best of luck.\ni hope that all will work out for her.
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Cancer & Aquarius \n\nWhen Cancer and Aquarius make a love match, it can be a case of opposites attracting. Cancer takes an emotional approach to life, Aquarius, an offbeat, unconventional approach. While Cancer often retreats into its shell, Aquarius takes every opportunity to be the extrovert, the organizer and party animal. They love to find themselves amongst friends; social settings are simply their thing! If a Cancer and an Aquarius can find a way to combine these qualities in a positive way, they can go anywhere together. \n\nBoth Cancer and Aquarius can be ambitious and determined. They want to get their way, and neither likes to conflict. Cancer can be old-fashioned, attached to tradition and routine, their morals more conservative than progressive. Aquarius, on the other hand, is very modern and likely numbed by routine, yawning at the dull and the boring in which Cancer sometimes finds comfort. Cancer may be intrigued by their Aquarius lover's sense of excitement, but this traditional Crab could get frustrated trying to keep up with this revolutionary's mind. Though Aquarius won't appreciate the possessiveness of a pinching Crab, they could find great comfort in the solid base Cancer provides. Just try to get them to admit it!\n\nThe Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Saturn (Karma) and Uranus (Rebellion) rules Aquarius. The Moon is a radiant, feminine energy and Saturn is a cool, contained masculine energy. Uranus is about all things abnormal and novel. The Moon is emotional and concerned with growth and domesticity, both of which become central themes in many Cancer's lives. Saturn deals with hard work and the discipline required for achievement, while Uranus symbolizes forward thought. This combination makes sense for an Aquarian, as they are futurists unafraid of getting their hands dirtied by labor. Cancer mates can teach social, intellectual Aquarius lovers the value of emotional impulses, and their feminine influence will bring beauty and comfort into the home. While Cancer teaches the valuable lesson of an open heart, Aquarius can come right back with the usefulness of a detached heart. Aquarians are blessed to be able to extricate themselves from uncontrollable situations and to reevaluate goals if they get off-course. Not necessarily cold, Aquarius could still benefit from Cancer's warm, feminine Moon-based influence. \n\nCancer is a Water Sign, and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Aquarius sees life as an intellectual exercise, a constant exploration and expansion of the mind. Cancer's more pragmatic. Cancer stops to ask, 'how does this feel?' while Aquarians keep asking 'what else is there?' It may be tough for one to get where the other is coming from, and conflicts can arise if Aquarius gets a little too cool or Cancer too emotionally demanding. They may end up working at cross-purposes: Cancer asks for more and more, Aquarius may pull further and further away. By accepting that their worldviews are dissimilar, Cancer and Aquarius can move on and celebrate their diversity, learn to say 'vive la difference' rather than feeling threatened by it. \n\nCancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Both persevere when working toward goals. If they have a set path, they'll follow it to the end. With this sort of shared perseverance -- and if they both place a high value on their relationship -- this couple will never be dissuaded from that knowledge and will constantly think of one another. If they run into snags, Aquarius will discover that Cancers, though they may seem shy and retire into their shells, can actually be very tenacious and dogmatic, not above using emotional manipulation on their loved ones. Also, Aquarius could be bothered by Cancer's over-emotionality. If they agree to work toward a common goal, these two can get along. \n\nWhat's the best thing about the Cancer-Aquarius love match? When they decide to come together, they are an in