what would you think about a girl/woman who just got engaged, but still doing other guys?
603142
It's hard to say why she's doing this.  She obviously has some problems, but so does the guy.  If he has been told about her, and refuses to believe it you should just wash your hands of both of them.  There's nothing you can do.
593926
You know what spooky it ain't you it's her she want another man or is already seeing one. i know i have been there with my ex-fiance when i started giving excuses for not sleeping with him i had my own thing on the side. so don't be a fool you better go get you some cause she already is.
558406
Have u asked her about it?  U guys are basically doing wut a couple would be doing. You are just missing the actual label of boyfriend girlfriend and maybe some intimacy.
315644
As many as she wants, there is no limit to how many people you can sleep with. I doubt a prospective hubby would ask a question like: so by the way how many guys have you slept with before you met me? I say experience is the best teacher and if your fiance has been quite promiscuous but finds you to be the one she wants to spend the rest of her life with then you must be doing something very good that she enjoys so make the best of it and enjoy your lives.
151994
Gotta be honest, I think your being played.  How do you think she would react if you asked to spend two weeks with another woman???  She's already made up her mind and is just stringing you along.
55398
If she's already engaged you shouldn't try to be hers. If you really like her just talk to her more and just be real close friends. Don't let her fiance get suspicious.
457326
She could be like a lot of women...meaning that eventhough she's in a sh*tty marriage, she's still gonna be faithful to him because the bond of marriage does mean something to her. If you try and push the issue with her you're only gonna make her uncomfortable and she'll push you away. I say just bide your time cause eventually she'll realize she's with a d*ckhead and leave his *ss. We all smarten up at some point :D.
866822
This person is not your "opponent", because if this your partner, then you 2 are not in a competition for her. However, the real issue here would be, if your gf is flirting back and how this person's advances makes her feel. \n\nIf it is a matter of the gf being drawn in by this, then you've got a problem, not with the other person, but with keeping your gf attention. So yes, you would concentrate on possibly complimenting her more or doing things that entice her. \n\nBut, if she is non-responsive to this other guy's advances, then there is no problem. It's no big deal that someone else like her; I always say, WHO WANTS SOMEBODY THAT NOBODY ELSE WANTS! As long as she's with you, you have nothing to worry about.
335671
if i were a guy i would do it. it's nice to have variety. i love a man that can have fun like that. that makes things not dull. with and without others around.
13837
In my opinion, yes. What happened to those vows you made? The only way it is not horrible is if you talk to her about it and possibly "swing" with others and are agreed on all of the boundaries.
1169755
well when I was engaged to my fiance I went out every saturday and usually did not come back home till like maybe 5 or 6 in the morning.  I went out with my cousin and some of her friends and we went out to the same spot every weekend.  My Fiance did not mind.  I mean its jut like him going to hang with the boys.  They might not go to a club but they are hanging out and sometimes might go to a bar for a drink or something so I dont see anything wrong with it at all.  And no I would not be upset
1120120
That's personal.  Do something you know she likes.  I knew a guy who asked a girl to marry him on a Vegas trip.  He was dressed up as Elivis and at a casino, he got on one knee and popped the question.  They got married in Vegas that night.  But that is just ONE couple's STYLE.  Everyone is different.  The key is to do something you know she'll LOVE.  You know her best.
228468
Take your time.  If she gets used to the idea, she might go along with it.  If she's determined to be single, you're wasting your time.
985892
Well, it is not advisable, but it is not wrong. Work is a place where you interact with others, get to know them well, see sides that u would not normally see. I personally met my wife while working together in the same company. We dated for 3 years and got engaged while we both worked together. Managment was cool, we did not have any problems, but fortunatly I was able to find another job a few months before our wedding. I do not have any regrets, neither does she.
551453
Yes I am presently engaged to my guy. We have been doing this for about a year. We put God first and then used our faith to keep us going. In two weeks I will be his wife, if I had to do it all over again I would not change a thing. We have our challenges but with computers, webcams, telephones the distance seem very short.
28710
I would not throw stones at her but assuming I found out before a considerable amount of time had been invested in the relationship, I would have to say no way, outright and break it off quick, not my type of girl.  Not the type of girl to start a family with at all.  \n\nThat said if I found out after a year and she had moved accross the country to make a new start and truely seemed to be the right kind of girl now.  Well then Perhaps..., especially since you probably both need to be tested for a suite of diseases.
633762
Please whatever you plan on doing, Don't make it public because then you will never know if she just said it because everyone was watching. Don't tell your friends or family till she says yes it will be more of a surprise. And with every answer you get here think what could go wrong, you want it to go as best as it can. So no chocking on the ring she ate in her food. Good luck and things happen for a reason.Oh and don't bend down to tie your shoe that really gets girls mad because they think you are trying to propose and end up looking like a jerk.