(dating) do you girls give an opportunity to average looking guys to show there personality or mostly not? why
595090
Absolutely! Average guys normally have the best personalities as they're not pretentious or into themselves.
16190
The obvious answer is most men do not think the "attractive girl" in question will respond favorably to thier advances. I have to say in my experience, the quintessential "attractive girl" doesn't respond well to being hit on. They are stuck up an arrogant and troll the bars like Preying Mantis' waiting to humiliate and destroy the egos of as many men as possible before taking home NONE of them.\n\nJust what I've found....
802353
As a guy, I'd like to apologize for posting here, but I have to call BS about looks not being all that important.  See that gorgeous girl in the mall?  Who's she with?  An average guy? Nope.  She's with a muscular macho guy.  I'm not generalizing here.  Sit in the mall and count the attractive women.  Attractive women only because beauty is what men choose.  Desirable women really do get desirable looking men.\n\nFrom my experience girls want\n#1 Fun\n#2 Personality\n#3 Looks\n#4 And a bunch of other superficial things. (Yes, anything that isn't necessary for survival is superficial)\nAnd finally security.\n\nAnd to answer the guy above me, girls want a guy who deserves her.  Of course no guy deserves any woman, but she doesn't want to short change herself by being with a loser.  A guy who eats, sleeps, and dreams about this girl gives the impression that he doesn't deserve her.  She feels like she's with a loser.  Later on in the relationship, that's when you shower her with affection and love.  But don't get too clingy too soon.
78622
if I want to date somebody, I depend on personallity, but she should be a good looking person too in order to give me a good impression about her.\n\nface it, if I met a girl for the first time, I can't judge her personality, but I can judge her from what she wears or what she looks like..etc
394691
i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.
1181005
Deffinetly personality. Looks aren't really important to me. I mean, yeah, clearly if he's got a great personality and he looks hot, I mean, yeah, that'd be a great bonus, but as long as he's got a great personality, I'm set.
989080
It's up to you what sort of girls you go for. For some people looks are important and for others its personality. Just be careful about ignoring the not so good looking ones. I've known a few people, both male and female, who insisted on good looks, and ended up falling in love with average looking people, but with a beautiful personality. If someone has that special something, their looks will be beautiful to you no matter what.
320945
I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
482645
Believe it or not some guys are not out just for looks. Now I am not going to lie there has to be a physical attraction. However I have dated some drop dead sexy women who have tried to use me as a rug, and I would not allow it so I got rid of them. I have also dated some normal everyday looking women who although were not model material did treat me  the way I prefer.
1101155
honestly i feel that looks doesn't matter as long as one has a nice personality..looks give the 1st impression but ultimately it will be the inner beauty that really counts..a lot of girls are infatuated with hot-looking footballers and diss at the uglier ones..but do they really know the private side of the footballers that they are infatuated with? many good-looking footballers do not turn out to be as great as how they look..while many others who are average shine because of their nice personality..as long as people feel nice and comfortable around them..nothing about their looks will matter at all...
1115980
As long as you are a good person.. what does it matter what guys like.  You are what you are... they can take it or leave it!
321825
Well looks are only part of it.  I know that one thing I find sexy about models is their confidence level.  I've met some women that wouldn't be considered very attractive physically by society standards that really shine because of confidence.  Of course there are guys that are so superficial that all they care about are looks but those guys are typically losers.
352897
it depends if the guy has a nice personality. =)
360379
No, I think it makes you stand out even more. I give you a lot of credit doing what you're doing. I would date a girl with kids, as long as the kids weren't complete Hellers.
167418
Guys who only love women for their looks are downright shallow. Not all guys are like that. There are guys out there who actually are attracted to a great personality. They are rare gems indeed. Look out for these rare ones. The rest are just shallow.
417401
Well, if you have a talent, show it off.  Girls are interested in guys who have unique talents.  I'm not talking about being able to squirt milk from your eyes.  I'm talking about respectable talents.  For example, if you know how to draw, show her your drawings or if you can cook, invite her over for dinner.  Stuff like that.
570499
Most guys are prone to looking at the package\nbefore evaluating the person themselves.\n\nThis means, most guys will say "Damn she's hot!"\nand use this as a basis to want to get to know a\ngirl better.  Is this right?  No, however it does\nhappen because we use our eyes first when we meet\nsomeone.\n\n(Using the eyes applies to girls too.)\n\nOnce the initial reaction is over, the hottest \nlooking girl in the world will not hold the\nattention or affection of a guy for long if she\ndoes not have a nice personality and is for the\nmost part a good person.\n\nThis does not mean to say that an average looking\ngirl has no shot with a guy.  As a matter of fact,\nwhen it is all said and done - A guy dates a hot\nchick and will most often marry the average girl.\n\nYou may not agree with my answer guys, but it's out\nthere.  Feel free to discuss further.