Are guys always nasty? (just guys please)?
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No, of course guys aren't always nasty. Adolescents are especially immature emotionally, and this often comes out in being "nasty." Sex, though, is something that is influenced by hormones, and, to some extent, is difficult for guys not to pay attention to. But, whether they have to talk about it all the time (or, how they talk about it) is more a function of their emotional and social status.\n\nAs adults, do men always think about sex? Well, often they do. But, hopefully, sex has a more balanced place in life when most men are adults. Remember, though, that some adults don't always mature emotionally, so they may still be crude or whatever. But, that isn't the majority of men.\n\nI do also think that society's view of women as sexual objects plays into this, as well. I'm sure that it doesn't feel good to have guys always think of you as a sex object. To some degree this gets better as you get older, although there is still a lot of pressure on women around sexuality.
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To macho guys,  who want to be in control, yes I guess it is. To a lot of guys, though, it's a big turn-on.\n\nJust first be in decent physical condition and at least average attractive, or normal-looking.\nAnd not crazy. Or abusing drugs or alcohol beyond the recreational phase.\n\nStandard Answer-to-all-questions-like- this: Be yourself. If you can't do that, find out how to be yourself.\nIf aggressiveness suits you, go with it.
315762
Yes, girls are sometimes mean. Men are sometimes mean, too. LOL.
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Guys sometimes go with girls who are nasty because they are easy... so he won't have to work too hard to get her and he doesn't have to date her or anything, so it's just like easy and free sex. \n\nI don't know why they go with your best friends... maybe your friends are slutty or the guy really likes them because they are great girls.
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OMG - is this meant to be a dirty question or a serious one???
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I can't speak for all women, but for me, more often than not, a bad boy represents a challange. I think in general , most people, including men, can't resist a challange. Of course, bad boy is a relative term. There has to be a softness there to balance out bad boy traits. Rough, dangerous guys are incredibly sexy, but it isn't at all sexy when the bad boy in question is a complete asshole. Assholes are never sexy. Like I said he has to have a soft spot or some sort of weakness, whether it be kids, animals, his mom, something that shows he is still human.
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Guys, and also girls, can be mean sometimes. However, You are responsible of the way those guys are treating you. If you project a personality of zero tolerance for disrespect of your person, your time, or your property, those guys are going to react and start treating you well.
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oh boy what would i give for a guy like that!!!...shame from my experience they seem to be myths..~sighs~
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That is not nasty. If you think that is nasty then sex should be nasty.\nBut you try the oral thing and then and only then you will know why you need a tongue even though you got a penis.\nSince it is the first time, tell him focus on the clit and use his fingers too.
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Nice guys are normally gay.  What you need is a guy who is generaly not nice, but is nice to you.
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Because being a bad boy means you are a CHALLENGE baby! Nice "sweet" guys often come across as predictable and boring, and that is why even I am not a "nice" guy. \n\nTo sum up, dump those losers and come roll with me - but I'm picky! lol
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Well, poor old 'Pink Blush' has her tushie in a tangle! (Calm down dear!)\nNothing is wrong with this Irish guy. He is treating you with something that you seem decidedly ignorant of....RESPECT.\nNot all men are only after one thing. Some of us can engage our brain before our hormones, despite what the man hating feminist news paper agony aunts might suggest, not all men are bastards. \nHowever I suppose I should not be surprised that you don't recognise respect when it is shown you as you don't appear to have much for yourself. You 'just want to have a good time' and are seemingly surprised that 'he wouldn't even have sex with me.' \nFirstly you can have a good time with someone without it ever having to involve shagging them. Secondly, most people view having a sexual relationship with someone as an important part of that commitment to each other and as such experience greater pleasure from it than just a quick casual ride on the local "I'll shag anything, me" bike.\nYou seem to equate 'having a good time' with sex only. The guy you have met obviously doesn't. Maybe he  just wanted to get to know you and wanted to see how things went from there. Instead he found someone who was perfectly happy to strip off and bonk the first available male that came along at the first available opportunity. \nJust because he didn't want to have sex with you does not make him abnormal. I don't think he has any problems and that you should look a little closer to home. Having someone throw themself at you, like some rampant good time had by all, is not always very sexually attractive and can be very demeaning.
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I know for a fact that not all guys in a bar are scum. I was a stripper for 4 years. I recently quit due to back problems, but I still keep in touch with alot of my regulars because we became real good friends. I am married, so nothing nasty. \nYou just have to be careful because there are some scumbags out there.
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For those that think that it is easy for a guy to confess or admit, it definitely isn't true(Personal experience). Sometimes all they need is a little hint. If you do not want to tell him, i suggest you look for the extreme. Guys whom usually like someone will act exceedingly rude/polite as a rule. Good Luck!
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yes is an easy answer. \nthe bad bit... men are or can be total brats. like women, petty, posessive and unthinking, so we hit out, wrong or right, we can hurt so we do. (not just men).or we pick up the phone expecting to hear you saying to another boyfriend Hi Mick - or we have at least another girl we hope we can connect with.[not my style]\n \nthe good bit, we are also a bit stupid (not much) so some times we need to try to fix things. But we are stupid, so we don't phone and say- "hey I'm studid can we fix things?"  We don't think- we do silly things. we miss your voice, we wish things worked out better, we wish you would smile, and when you pick up the phone you would say- take me to the pub.\nman or woman, we are complicated, complex and you must have a better insight to his style than anyone here.\nIs this guy a total nut or is there hope? \nyour call.
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i don't think there's anything wrong with it.  i really admire women who have so much discipline that they can make their bodies look like that.  it's not nasty at all.\n\nand to the girls who said they shouldn't be stronger than the man--why not?  some men are secure with having a partner who is better than them at some things, and a guy who is comfortable with himself is a turn-on.
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I should hope not .. People say Im pretty and I have hot guys always pestering me .. but they arent nice guys .. they only care about a girls appearence. I like nice guys!