i am harming myself!?
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I believe you are in depression. It would be very good for you if you break your resistance and go and see a psychotherapist but in your case it is normal to resist a little. \n\nThere is very good on -line information for fighting depression.Just click on the below link. It is never as good as talking to a person, though. Anyway, take one step at a time, maybe you will feel like seeing a specialist later. \n\nTake good care of yourself; there is only one of you and keep your chin up :)\n\nhttp://www.google.com/search?num=20&hl=en&safe=off&rls=GGLR,GGLR:2005-38,GGLR:en&sa=X&oi=spell&resnum=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=how+to+fight+depression&spell=1
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i used to be like that but i started harming myself... i dont say go buy a razor and slash your wrist i am informing you that crying over little things is better then giving yourself a reason to cry... just talk to people and blink back tears thats all i know..
781679
Tell someone! Your being abused!!
724612
Talk to someone, you are asking people now, but do you have someone you can talk to close by? I agree with the others and seek help, ask family or a close friend to go with you. Feel free to e-mail me and I will talk with you! When you feel the urge to hurt yourself think about something else to do, like go for a walk, make something to eat, draw a picture, anything! Sometimes people dothings to themselves because they need attention, or someone to talk to, or a friend. You are reaching for help, so you are headed in the right direction!
451246
Don't try something dangerous on yourself especially that 'thing ' is very important for your life!You have nobody to hold accoutable for if antthing goes wrong. \nGo and see doctor.
834290
the other night you said you cut your hand on a knife, did you really do it yourself? ryan you need help honey. Its ok to see a therapist and get all the things out that you needed to say a long time ago
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Self harm is very common, people do it in all sorts of ways.\n\nIf I was your friend I would want you to tell me about it, so that I had peace of mind that you were safe.  Are you safe?\n\nSelf harm can be done in a safe way, if you cut yourself make sure that what you use is sterile, and is not going to cut you too deeply.  I would much prefer that you didn't cut yourself, and that you spoke to a counsellor.  \n\nI know that this is your way of coping with things, but trust me, hurting yourself is not going to help you in the long run.  All it will do is cause you more problems, more upset and more loneliness.\nTalk about it, get help.\n\nDon't worry about what your friends will say or if they think your weird, because its done now anyway.  This is about you.  Sort yourself out and don't worry about your friends reaction, that should make no difference to how you change your habit.
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Self mutilating is another issue. I'm sure you had to see a Dr. to determine that you are Bi-polar. PLEASE,PLEASE go and talk to the Dr. I had and I mean literally HAD a friend who was Bi-polar, and was also a cutter, and she did such a good job, that she is no longer here in this life. The only way to help yourself is to face it and get the help you need. Praying for you...
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It sounds like you might be suffering from depression, I had similar feelings of self hatred when my depression was bad. I self harmed as well. I've been seeing a psychiatrist and have been on antidepressants now for the past 18 months and things are a lot better. But you need to admit that you can't handle this alone and get some proper professional help. Go and speak to your GP, explain how you feel and hopefully he should be able to sort out some help for you. Take care and stay safe.
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You will have to do a lot of thinking and maybe a phsycologist could help you in some way. Just keep on thinking positive and dont let anyone put you down. Its alright, we all make mistakes. If you hurt anyone just give them some time. Everything will be alright. Just keep on going and hopefully life will be back to normal in some time.\n\nif it was something really bad forgive yourself and also ask the one you made the mistake to for forgiveness. Also ask God for forgiveness and for strength to help you at this time. ;)
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Go talk to someone now!  A parent, friend, family member, someone who cares for you.  Have someone else to help share your burden.  I am sorry for how you have been treated, and I DO understand, believe me.  But you must realize that such people are hurting themselves, and therefore they will hurt people.  \nYou seem like you have a pure and tender heart.  Don't take it so much to heart.  People need you!
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u shouldnt cut yourself you are putting your health at risk by cutting
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i was also into self mutilation and i used to cut myslef too.  i also have my reasons to why i did it. best way i think is to talk to someone you are close to. you are too young for this type of thing.
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Cutting yourself is not a good thing to do. I know at the time the inner pain is calmed by the physical pain but it is not the answer. Just think of the scars you'll have for a start. \nYou need to talk to some one about whatever problem you have. Don't bottle it up inside. \nWhen you feel the urge to cut yourself try this instead.\nGet an ice cube. Put it in your hand. Make a very tight fist. Keep squeezing till the urge passes.\nThis may sound like a silly suggestion but it worked for me.\nHope things look a little brighter for you soon petal. x x x
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That I am to scarred to commit suicide!
902456
She thinks you are bluffing it.\nIf you feel like killing yourself call a suicide prevention line
680766
That's sad & dangerous.. Sounds like you need a hobby; not a boyfriend. You need to respect yourself a little more before you victimize yourself.