i like this guy & im scared 2 talk 2 him but i want 2 go out with him what do i do?
594983
Send him an email- letter- note anything telling him how you feel. If he feels the same way, hopfully he does, he should talk to you about it. But even if he doesn't, don't be afraid to be friends.
843642
ok first off take a deep breath.  yes its ok 2 ask him out. wat u do first is talk 2 him 4 a lil bit. then casually bring up the subject. if he says yes thats great if he says no then at least u no and can move on.\n\ngood luck
1097518
ofcourse he likes you more tham a friend he probably talks to you like that cause hes nervous you shot him down but if ur interested in him and like him go ahead ask him out im sure he will say yes
281149
i was the same way you are. i liked this guy and i wanted to ask him out. i was afraid to because i was afraid of being rejected.the thing is girls arnt the only ones afriad of rejection. guys are also afraid of rejection.for all you know it he could like you back but is afriad that you dont like him, so he is afraid that you will reject him.just go for it. ask him out, you two could actually end up together at the end.rejection is going to happen to you eventually wether its rejection from a job,college, etc. so why not get over the fear and ask him. you only live once so make the best of it and take chances.
738942
A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
1121298
Here's the easy part:  Tell him how you feel.\n\nHere's the hard part:  You HAVE to accept his answer.  \n\nIf you have fear of rejection, it's only part of the process of relationships (and yes, that means a personal relationship with yourself).\n\nTell him direct.  Guys like that.\n\nGood luck.
790755
Don't be afraid! Do you want, one day to look back on your life and say: I wish I woulda..... No so just tell him that you like him and are attracted to him and see what he says. Life is short, you have to go after what you want and if it is meant to be it will unfold as such. Its like the lyrics to a Rolling Stone's song " You can't ALWAYS get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you get what you need. "  Take a chance!!!
140667
Just take a few deep breaths and realize he is probably just as nervous as you are.  He is just another person, no one to really be afraid of.  And remember, if you say somehting wrong/silly around him, he will probably just chuckle and forget about it and that's all you can do too
446131
do u like him too? if u know for certain that he likes u and u like him 2 then what r u waiting for! suggest going for a drink or something and take it from there. good luck!
41696
Be yourself and don't be scared to talk to him he is probably is just as scared to talk to you. Beleve it or not guys are just as scared to talk as girls are. So if you like him bite the bullet and talk to him before someone else does. Good luck.
1002826
Just say I've been liking you for a while and I was wondering if you would like to go out with me.  If you are too afraid to do it face to face, try calling him on the phone or you could email him.  Sometimes emails are better because you think of more and better ways to say stuff instead of face to face.  Give it a try, if he seems to like you, you probably won't be turned down!  Good luck!!
139418
Just tell him u like him and see wht he thinks because he might be thinking the same thing as you and just dont wnat make things feel uncomforable between to 2 of u.
105978
Just chill & don't freak out about it. If he likes you, just give him a chance.If he doesn't, blow it off.
654774
If he wrote it was too bad you didn't go out, he so likes you.  Call him and see if he asks you out.  If you really do like him, go for it.  If he doesn't ask, see if you can get up the courage to ask him.  He'll probably say yes!!
247644
I think that if you really like this guy you should. I went through the same thing.There was this boy that i really liked so i told him. If you are a little scared, talk it over with a friend you know won;t blab. My friend got me over my fears and i told him.
787672
If your too scared to talk to the boy then get a friend to talk to him for you and If y'all both like each other then y'all should go out.
471188
If it will be your first date, then let him ask to take you out.  But if the two of you want to hang out, then it's all right for you to ask first.  Since you are shy, find an event that you would like to attend and ask him if he plans to go.  That will help break the "nervousness" between the two of you.