i cheated on him......?
603710
It's worth trying.If he's still with you that means that he's got strong feelings for you but he also can't get over the fact that you have cheated on him becouse he THINKKS you don't care for him as much as he does for you.\ndon't play games with him.if you love him too,try to get his trust again..
1165758
Too bad he didn't think about all of that when he made the choice to cheat.  Sometimes it's too late to go back and try to fix what was broken. Forgive and move on.
1030318
Would love to help but there is no question here. Did you delete it by accident?--Why do you think he has cheated?
826303
Yes he cheated. Think about it why would some girl call u out of the blue and say that she is pregnant by your man. That might not be his baby but he hit that at some point move on and find somebody else.
1147327
Well I'm confused about a couple of things. Is he your husband of 18 years or your boyfriend or is the boyfriend someone else other than the other two guys you were unfaithful to your significant other with. YES of course you cheated. You engaged in a sexual act with not just one but two other men.\nAlcohol is no excuse for a lack of self control. You may not remember in the morning( though you did) but you certainly know what you are doing at the time it's happening know matter how intoxicated you are. Where exactly did your husband or whatever he is crash out? Was he in the camper van also.? My Gosh what were you thinking? I'm trying not to be judgmental here, because I hate that and it serves no purpose but heavens above, I can't find a reason to condone infidelity. 18years is a lot to throw away, you should have thought about that before you cheated. I would not want to stay with a person that was unfaithful. If your man does find out the responsibility is yours and yours alone.
1003390
Gurl once a cheater always a cheater. He disrespected you by cheating on you on, while you saved yourself for him. It's not ok for anyone to cheat on anyone. People do what you let them do to you. If you forgive him for cheating this time it's likely he'll do it again. But since you say you love him I would suggest you both seperate for a while and see if you can't find a better man than him that will treat you like the diamond you are. Good Luck!
602655
Most likely not.  Men who cheat tend to keep on cheating.  The real question is did he confess it or did you find out?  If he confessed he's at least show he regrets it, and is trying to be more honest.  If you found out he'll just be more careful in the future.
1098842
just a thought...........break up with him.  why cheat.  im sure u wouldnt like it if your boyfriend was cheating on you.  to each his own i guess.
760256
Well, if he didn't cheat on you physically, I think you are ok, but if this isn't the first time hes done it, dump his @$$.  Take him back for now, keep him on "probation" and see what happens.
84750
i think it is possible for a man to cheat and then not  do it again. the only problem is that you will never forget what happened. and no matter how much he says to try to convince you that he will never do it again, it possible that in your mind he will always be a cheater, therefore you may not be able to trust him.\n\nyou have to make a promise to yourself that if you forgive him, you also have to forget.\n\nalso, if you do forgive him for cheating, it shows him that that is something that you are willing to forgive. because you show that cheating is forgivable, he may do it again.\n\ngood luck with your decision - it is a hard one.
181347
Yes I have cheated but I figure it was mutual because I had also caught him cheating and he did not know so I cheated on him with another friend of mine and went home to him so he could perform oral sex on me right after sleeping with someone else an hour ego. I would say I did it out of the anger of being with him for 5 yrs. and him throwing that away in one night.
687856
Well first I'm curious why u broke up with him. If it was because he was cheating then he really isn't worth it.\n\nIf its something else, try approaching him as a friend and get an idea of how he feels about you. Work from there.
263963
Take a moment to get the act of cheating to suck in and your emotions under control. Get all your thoughts together in a logically manner. Tell him exactly how you feel,in a lady-like manner because he will expect you to be bitter so don't give him that satisfaction,  don't hold anything back because you don't want to later regret not saying something. Move on with your life and don't look back, don't let him make a fool out of you again. Best of luck.
75868
Confront him first. If he blames you for his cheating and shows no remorse then give him the boot!
1024735
I suppose he've cheated you.\nOtherewise some kind of accident occurd.\nNow its hisduty to contac with you.\nYou are a nice girl look at your future.
128509
i don't think that he is cheating. it may have felt like an weird situation but life is full of thoes. your best bet would be to talk to him and let it go until you can prove something. and. . . .next time you guys are out try judging the girls with him. men love that and you will show him that you aren't too jealous. just try to fell a little more secure in your relationship. good luck!!
1170862
Now, this is my favorite one: 'Let him go, if he comes back, he is yours, if he does'nt, he never was' \nI believe in this, because it happened to me. \nI am guessing he cheated on you, or something.. and now you have trust issues. \nHappens!!\nDont wait for him to screw up, it wont work. I know, because I waited for my gf to screw up after she cheated and we got back.\nYou will only end up screwing your thought process!!\nWhat you are doing right this time to you are a lot mature and hopefully going slow. Which is good. \nLove him for what he is to you and for what he will be for you tomorrow. Dont resuscitate the past. \nI strongly feel you are going to make it. Just take it one day at a time, discussing your future and stuff is good and sounds ideal, but if you have had trust issues, I would not recommend you make long term plans.\nWhat say??\nCheers!!