is it me or do girls really like guys that are jerks?
594624
Some are attracked to jerks because they think that they can change them, which will never happen, they fall in love with the man he could be not the man he is. If she is getting hit then you need to talk to her about gettting out of the relationship and getting help. If you like you can write me poetry any time, I love it.
225227
Jerks are selfish, manipulative bastards who see women as little more then sexual conquests to brag about to their buddies or mere objects that are there for their personal pleasure. As to ensure the post-sex breakup will be in their favor, Jerks often play the "sensative guy" early on so the girl will make most of the moves on HIM, and after he's done with her and dumps her for some other girl just like her, he can make it look like she's at fault for coming on too strong, and consequently she'll take him back if he chooses to return for seconds.\n\nOr if you use the term loosely they are idiots or stupid people. \nOr an insensitive, selfish, ignorant, cocky person who is inconsiderate and does stupid things.
928394
I have found that they do, its just hard to find them sometimes.  Many girls, once they get past the "ewwwww" factor they like dating a guy who is considerate, thoughtful and mature.   The only problem i ever found was that sometimes their bimbo girlfriends would interfere and try to "save" them from dating an older guy.   You have to have a girl with some self confidence and who can tell other people to f*** off.
70488
I bet you've given in to some of those jerks too and let them in.  You know not all guys are like that, you see them everyday.  You just avoid talking to good guys b/c you love the attention you get from the rest.
107508
happens a lot. ditch the girl and the guy. chances are that things wont work out with them and he'll be sry he was such a jerk! so dont stress about it, just ditch the guy. there are plenty of other ppl who wouldnt be so rude
295594
All guys are jerks occasionally because we simply don't see or understand things the way girls do.  However, when you are trying to work things out and a guy constantly screws things up by being a jerk it means that he isn't really committed to fixing things.  Your relationship is probably never going to be fixed or be what you need and deserve.  It is probably best to move on and find a guy who will love you and really work at having a relationship with you.
470914
Well, I'm guessing that girl is you.. and I think that girl should stand up to that guy and tell him what kinda jerk he is, but first come up with a good case for it, you know, find some examples of when he was doing that, so that you have reasonable case when you bring it up.
231971
Why are girls attracted to guys who are jerks? Do they think they're going to change?? Tell your friend that maybe she's not mature enough to date yet. She should be old enough to know that a good guy is way better than a jerk.
351341
Too much stereotyping here. Women don't ALWAYS go for the jerks. I sure as heck don't. if he is a jerk I will point him the other direction and make him leave. \n\nThere are men out there that are wolves in sheep's clothing(my ex for example) he treated me like a queen before we got married After we got married he became abusive. \n\nGuys are not going to be jerks when you first meet them. They are cunning. A lot of them start acting up once they know the girl is hooked to them. the girl is so involved with being "in love" with the guy that she cannot see that he is being a jerk and treating her badly. Of course the girl is going to blame herself sometimes because the guy has her convinced its her fault or it can also be low self esteem issues that cause this or the girl is so relieved she has a guy she just doesn't care and she is afraid that there is nobody out there better. \n\nThere are nice guys out there, they are very hard to come by and to say start dating nice guys is easier said than done. BELIEVE ME. You have to work very hard at it \n\nI know some ladies that are quite vicious as well and really it has been found that the women are worse than the men.
1072896
Are you annoying? Are you controlling? Etc., etc., there could be thousands of reasons, some not even having to do with you and having to do with the guys around you, they may just be stuck up jerks.
3634
ya,\n\nthey are everywhere you just have to know where to look.  If a guy acts like a dick to other people then most likely he is going to start acting a dick to you sometime or another.  Just find someone that treats people equal and is overall out going and nice to others.\n\nalso, if you don't show him that you want to be treated well then most likely he won't.  Give him what he gives you.\n\ntrust me there are nice guys, I'm one of them.\n\nEdit:  like the guy above me...avoid people like him.
1014369
Yea.. they tend to avoid.. and secretly lok a them or talk about them too all their friends.. scarey things... sometimes.. they may laugh at the dumbest things the guy does.. just to deperately show she likes him.!  they're not nessecarily.."dorkwads" they don't show interest as much..But.. they ARE interested!
1004802
I am totally on the same page!  I'm so tired of jerks.  Met a guy the other day, hot, seemed real nice.  He got my number, seemed real attentive.  Then he disappeared.  A girl was dancing like a stripper and he was all up in that!  Jerk.  \nI think the nice ones are too shy or already taken.
737585
Definietly NOT!\nThey have always had to grab ahold of my Jaw Slap me and say I am a good and decent person you MORON!\n\nThen I really like them...\n\nSeriously we are very dense and chase short skirts.\nBut like/love real women.
631852
no some guys are just genuinely nice. i do favors for any friend, male or female. just because a guy is nice to you it doesnt always mean he wants sex.
104703
The cute guys hate everyone who they think isn't worthy of their time and that's the factual truth. Even guys get a little of their so-called "wrath". Don't worry, one day when you blossom into a beautiful girl, they'll come crawling back after you - but you'll be just walking past them; giving them the cold shoulder...\n\nTrust me, your time will come...
629173
men act like jerks..cos they are born one!