what do you think about 3somes?
600383
I think this is very risky business, it can make someone feel so jealous and insecure. If he just keeps asking to have anthoer person in the bedroom it would make me feel that he's not happy with me sexually. I think if this is something that your going to choose both of you better agree its a one time thing, and also it better be with someone that you will never see agian.
449045
My personal opinion, is that if you are doing something of a sexual nature with someone who is NOT your partner, it is cheating unless you have the partner's consent.\n\nOtherwise, it is a betrayal. You wouldn't be getting "caught" if it weren't wrong for your situation. You wouldn't be hiding out if it were ok.
212845
Have you ever heard of polygamy involving more than one husband? I like it about as much as the idea of a threesome with two women. Don't men have enough problems with just one wife?
432518
Ummmmm - that should be pretty easy.  EVERY guy wants a threesome.  he is probably wondering how to approach you about bringing another girl into the bedroom....
343257
It really depends on the terms of the man's relationship with his wife.  I know a couple who are happily married but they have sex with other people (separately, not like a three-some).  Each knows that the other has multiple partners but that is the terms of their relationship and they're ok with that.  So, if this was previously discussed by the couple and the wife is ok with it, then no, it is not cheating.  However, if this is not agreeable within the terms of their relationship, then it would be cheating.  \n\nThe best thing for the couple to do would be to sit down and discuss this.  They may need a moderator, such as a couples counselor, or they may not.  But it needs to be resolved otherwise the guy will be miserable and the longer it goes on the more hurt the wife will be.  People need to be free to express themselves sexually and being bi-sexual is something that he sould have brought to her attention before they were married.  Now they've got to work it out.  \n\nIf this is a real situation that you know of, give my best to the couple and wish them luck for me.\n\nFR
191032
I've had a lot of sex.  I mean a LOT of sex.  With a lot of people.  Some at the same time.  Some of them were girls, some were guys.  And as happy as I might be about them, I don't see a bisexual "I love sex" slate being very sucessful.
835063
Three is not so bad, depending on the other person.  My boyfriend and I live together and still end up calling each other on lunch and breaks.  \nSome guys like that...others would not...
790247
Well, it has been to my experience that whenever there are 3-somes, there is always someone who gets a little jealous or insecure because things are not what they expected.  I, too, have been with both, and this is what I have found.  Being that I am a girl, the man usually thinks that the 2 women will be focused on him, but often, the 2 women focus slightly on the man, but enjoy each other more.  This is usally because the women who decide to "go there" are usually either close friends already, or have an attraction toward each other.  I have also been where I was the only girl.  I did not like this because there is something "unsexy" for a woman to see anal copulation when her "tool" is being ignored.  It is a little fun to orally explore each other (all 3) but that is about it.  Remember though, this is coming from a girl; it might be different from a guy's perspective.
923328
Fidelity counts for a lot, but how does your committed partner feel about a threesome?
1088069
My gf and I enjoy doing this.  Sometimes, when we are having a threeway, it is really hot to share with another guy or woman.
148223
Why dont you just ASK her to have a threesome or ask her what she thinks about a threesome? It's wrong if you have to be sneaky about. If all three are game, then not wrong at all. Don't worry about what others think about your morals. They are not you and don't live your life, but in order not to lose a friend, I would suggest just being up front about it.
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
312130
No. I don't think so. But the real question is where are they joined at. If they are joined and share one vagina when you had sex would you be cheating or having a three-some.
684097
Yes One Partner for whole life is OK for me, if you think to have sex with one partner for whole life is boring, than you are wrong, for enjoying your sex life you doesn't need several partner you need a different & good method of hving sex & one Strong man.
463788
I wouldn't ask my wife to have a threesome, and even if I did, I would drop it if she disagreed. I wouldn't want to jeopardize my relationship over something that would likely jeopardize it if it actually happened. That's just me =&#92;
223942
Sometimes I think people think bisexuallity should mean a license to cheat. My girlfriend is thin, I like having sex with plus size women. So using the logic I have heard some bisexual people use, I should be able to have sex with my plus size friends.\nMost sexual relationships involve an emotional quotient. It is hard to share intimacy with two other people and have everyone feeling equally cared for. Threesomes are often a recipe for disaster. My first marriage ended because my wifes buddy liked sleepinig with me so much and me her that I left my wife for her. There was a lot of pain all round. The ironic thing was, I was resistant to having a threesome because I was worried about jealousy. I kept saying it would hurt me to see her with someone else.\nEverytime since that she has brought up how cruel I was to leave her for her friend, I just say you set us up.
467071
I wouldn't immediately assume that.\n\nA threesome with two women is probably the single most common male fantasy.