wat do i do when a nerd asks me out?
602887
if you like him, say yes\n\nif you dont like him say no\n\nhes just another regualor kid
1056731
Go on the date, but treat her like she's not dumb, ask her deep insightful questions. One of two things will happen. \n\nA) She will realize you are too smart for her and never want to go out with you again.\n\n B) You will learn the dumb thing is just an act, a lot of girls still play dumb because they think that's what guys want.
175885
Don't worry about what kind of sign she is giving you. If you like her then go for it and ask her out. Quit worrying about getting rejected because it's going to happen. Get use to it. The more you ask the more you'll date. Remember, don't be a jerk or play games with them. That's just uncool. \n\nGo up to her and just start talking. Talk about anything. If she's interested the conversation will go -- and don't walk away without asking if you can all her.
859876
I dont think it is rejection. She is listeing to you and answering. I bet she doesnt even think to ask you becasue she is so conentrated on you what you are asking her. (You know she prolly is nervis and doesnt want to say the wrong answer) I would ask her for a sudy date or something and see what happens. :) Dont think to much about it I promise girls arnt that complicated! :) Good luck
767345
Well usally  that is when people generally ask people out. If you have a fear of being rejected then i would make sure she is interested in u first. But if she is i think u should ask her out!
742008
I will tell you as a tutor I have liked a few girls I tutored and wished I could have asked a few out myself but I didn't want to lose the money from tutoring if they said no and thought I was being bad.\n\nHe is probably thinking how to get you to ask him out!!!\n\nSince he is the one in a PAYING position here - you NEED to ask him out!  Why not take the chance?  What do you have to lose?  Nothing.  He just might feel awkward but if he asks and you don't like he may lose the job.\n\nSo, you are in a MUCH better position to do the asking!\n\nGood luck!  Just do it!
390074
u neednt look like a fool. just be yourself !!! guys love people being themselves!! who knows? chances are that if he thinks u r soo cool, he himself might ask u out\njust treat him as if he's ur best friend and dont flirt.\ngood luck girl
347410
if you are embarassed of asking somebody out, the best answer is try to be friends first.  the geeky way out of this situation would be to sent her a note of compliment and asking nicely if she would like to go out sometime.  hopefully no one will see it and make u a laughing stock of the class
1048961
if you are nervous ask face to face, first ask him for his email address.  If he asks why you need his email , just say you have something to send to him.  Then ask him out by sending him email.
317388
Ask if he has seen a movie that is playing in the theaters.  If he says no, ask him what he thinks of it.  If really wants to ask you out, he will jump.  If he doesn't want to, he won't give you much of a response.  If he's already seen the movie, try another one.
797034
Did you talk to her/him?   Ask them out if they reject you, get over it- but try not to stare that definitely freaks a person out!  good luck
30645
I just tell him how I feel and then ask him if maybe he'd like to go out and do something sometime.  Lifes to short to be beating around the bush..take a chance, whats the worst that could happen? He may say no, or laugh, and then you can just move on and never wonder "what if I just asked him out", he may say sure sounds great, you could have a wonderful romance or make a new best friend... You cant lose, just be yourself.
1093660
aww thats nice he wants to take you out. next time he asks you, just simply ask him if it can just be you and him this time. he should just take you and him then!\n\ngood luck :)
1073528
I think it might help if you could change your perspective and try to see it from a woman's point of view.\n\nObviously, if the person you want to ask out is someone you have strong feelings for... you have have a lot at stake emotionally and that's going to be scary for anyone.\n\nBut, in general, having someone take an active interest in you or ask you out is flattering... even if you are already in a relationship (sometimes, especially so!), you aren't in a "dating" place in your life right then,  or if the person asking doesn't click for you.\n\nSo, don't make it about whether or not YOU get a date.  Just make it about giving HER something to smile about, maybe.\n\nAlso, please remember that most of us HATE hurting guys with rejection... so if you really want to leave her with a smile, you have to look like it would make you happy if she said yes, but doesn't crush you to the core if she says no.\n\nIf it REALLY freaks you out to approach women, I have two suggestions:\n\n1) Get into something where you are around women more... join a book club or a take a class and get in a study group with women... it gives you guaranteed stuff to talk about and is very good practice.\n\n2) Set up minimum attempts each week.  Start with just one a week.  Whether she says yes or no isn't the point.  It's good practice... and after a while you'll feel more comfortable with it - especially if you luck out with a "yes" every now and then.  (PS Don't start by asking the women out where you work.  It looks really bad when guys do the "rounds".  The complement becomes an insult at that point.)\n\nBest of luck!
351050
You don't...it is up to him to make the next move.  You had a great time...if he asks you out again, then you know that he did too!
244005
-ask her when no one is around. so you wont feel embarrassed or anything if she rejects you. \n- dont ask her right after playing sports. girls dontlike guys who stink.\n- ask her politely. but dont seem desperate.\n- say something like "i bet you 100 dollars that you're going to reject me" then she cant say no.\n- just ask her. dont start goingon and on about how much you like her. unless she asks you. and if she asks you why you want to date her and not someone else. tell her "because the alternatives are unthinkable" or just whatever.\n\ni hope i helped
66700
Don't use a pick-up line - she'll see right through you, and determine you too nerdy to continue talking with.\n\nJust be cool. Ask her a question that gets her talking about herself and, even if you have to fake it, act interested. Girls love that!