why my wife dont kiss my daughter?
609209
maybe you should start out by ASKING HER
874680
get her in a room alone with you and take off her clothes and fore her to do you.\n\n\nNO.\nI'm kidding!\nShes probably doing this because of religous reasons\nOr maybe its a little to fast for her.\neither way its really had to convince people like that\n\nThe last thing you should do is constantly bring up the\nfact that she hasn't kissed you.\n\njust let time do its magic.
1082332
First off, she is NOT your wifes best friend if she would make advances towards you. If I were the wife I would not want to know if it has all been stopped and I mean stopped. Do NOT ever be alone with this woman again. She (and your stupidness) could ruin your marriage. I've been in this situation with my spouse of 35 years. I was the stupid one and I too came to my senses. When he tried again I told him it never happened. He got the message. I vowed never to put myself in that situation again. I did NOT tell my husband and the other person eventually disappeared from our lives.  I am glad I did not tell.  There would have always been that doubt planted.  I know I have behaved ever since but he might wonder. Should the best friend decide to tell then you have your problem to deal with.  Avoid her unless wife is around. Some will say it was just a kiss but there is a seriousness here.  Good luck
660677
Your daughter needs professional counselling.  Once a young child develops any form of sexual urge, she will continue to practice it herself.  Psychiatry may be able to change some of this.  Sorry, but daddy has to leave the picture entirely, NOW!  If necessary, get a court order.\n\nYou will not get professional help on this type of Q&A site.  Go to real psychiatrists.\n\nAnd, I do pray for you.
93499
just have a talk!? communication is the best way... talk to her mother and tell to her that you don't want to have a sex relation with her because she's the mother of your girlfriend,the one that you love. And not only that, explain to her that it is bad to have a sex relation with her because you love her daughter and her daughter is the one you want to be with in your entire life. And her daughter will get hurt if she'll know about it and try to ask if she love her daughter. ok that's it...now it's your turn...
942323
Wow, I give you a lot of credit! I would have lost my patience a long time ago. I think before you look elsewhere for physical contact, suggest going to counseling with your wife. She obviously has some issues she needs to overcome and you should try to stick by her while she works them out. If she refuses to go to counseling, I would be very tempted to get out of the relationship rather than cheat which is only going to complicate things further. Good luck!
717680
she's your girlfriend and she wont kiss you? umm ok thats a new one.. in any event you can't make her kiss you.. you could be the pope.. if she dosen't want to kiss you you can't make her so just accept it
271149
You have to take her aside and ask her with all seriousness, is she in a relationship? Did she do anything she should be telling you?\n\nIf she says no - I know it will be hard, but you have to confront her. Set down some ground rules - no having sex until she is old and mature enough to manage a relationship.\nHer education and her health is the most important thing.\n\nYou have to question her, Why did she have sex? Did she felt pressured? Did the guy force her to do so? Did he manipulate her? (If you dont have sex with me means you don't love me, said by many cheap guys who want free sex).\n\nYou have to teach your daughter to respect herself and encourage her to reject guys who are after an easy victim to let out his sexual lust.\nMaybe she's been having some problems in school. Peer pressure is a very big thing. Have you been focusing on your daughter enough?\n\nI really sympathize with you, because if I were in your position I would be terribly hurt and at a loss of what to do. \nBut you have to be strong, sit your daughter down and talk to her. Tell her she's too young to be having sexual relationships with boys. At this age, all boys want is a girl, an easy victim he can sexually experiment on.\nThat's why if I were you, I'd never let my daughter be some boy's "experiment" She's worth so much more than that, she deserves a boy who will appreciate her and not use her for sexual release.\nRight now you have to be firm with her. Children needs guidance. The whole "I'm your friend" thing - it works, but don't forget you're her mother too and you MUST lay down strict ground rules for you child and monitor her activities more.\nI'm sorry you had to see that.\n\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)
415592
i know how u feel me and my girl kissed when she left my house one time and my sister-in-law saw it....dont feel so bad if u love ur girl then just try to get a long w/ her mom even if she dont like u. if she loves her daughter then she will love her and her mate just the same. give it time it will get better. it did for me
1054247
Talk to her. Communication is what is needed. After 7 years and a DAUGHTER, you cannot walk away. Find out what is bothering her. You have a family together.
908245
She was moving too fast as far as your daughter was concerned. Three months is not that long really, and if you had a problem like this with her this early in the relationship with her not be understanding about the sleeping arrangement, then she will not be understanding about other things that have to do with your kids. She is immature, and you are better off finding someone who has the same family values as you do. She wasn`t putting your daughter`s needs ahead of her own, and that is childish. You need someone who will think of others before themselves.
825199
My wife is bisexual, and very attracted to women. I can really understand that, since I'm attracted to women also. I've never understood the fascination with guys. I look at a woman's body, and it's like a sculpture or a painting. I look at a guys body, and it's like a tractor or a backhoe. Really, I can see why it used to be called a woman's chore. To me, snuggling a guy seems like it has to be something like snuggling a piece of equipment or a rock. But snuggling a girl is like having an extra pillow or two.\n\nOK, that in mind, and knowing that my wife likes girls also, what rational reason can I give for denying her the right to date another girl?\n\nAlso, I'm not exactly sure where to draw the line between a friendship date and a romantic date between women. My wife would only rarely make out with or make love to her girlfriend. About seven out of ten dates were just normal girl stuff: going to the mall, hanging out, talking, shopping, watching a movie, etc. Am I supposed to forbid her to hang out with other women because she finds them attractive? Really, where's the fair in that? No kissing? Does that mean no kissing on the cheek? No kissing on the lips? No tongue? She kisses everyone on the cheek! Half her friends she kisses on the lips. (In some cultures, everyone kisses everyone else on the lips.) Am I really supposed to micro-manage my wife's friendships and carefully consider which ones I consider "too friendly"?\n\nAnd there's also the fact that I want my wife to be happy. I want her to be safe, and I want to be the one to make her as happy as I can, but I want her to be happy. If she needs a man, here I am! I can be all the man she will ever need. If I can't, she's lied to me on several occasions when I asked her. I'm not so good at being all the woman she might need or want. Try as I might. Like I said, I can really understand her desire to be with a woman, its her desire to be with me that baffles me. So I understand it, and it's real, if I deny it, I'm the cause of her misery. I don't want to cause her misery, I want to apease her misery. Do you want to make your spouse happy, or miserable?\n\nWhy does my wife still let me go to Martial Arts classes now that we're married? Because try as she might, she's just not a martial artist, she doesn't have anything to teach me... I can't get what I need from her that way. Along the same lines, when she craves a woman's touch, I can't do anything for her. Should I also stop eating anything she hasn't prepared for me? Should I not sample the food of other people at a potluck, saying, "No, my wife has food for me at home." Should I give up pickles, since my wife doesn't pickle things herself? Trust me, I've got no problem turning down other people's pies... no one does pie like my wife. Or cake. Or pasta. Or potatoes. If my wife didn't want me to ever eat potatoes fixed by another woman, I'd be just fine with that... my wife can more than fulfill my potatoe need. But she doesn't pickle, and I happen to really love pickles. So I get pickles from the supermarket, or my grandmother (who happens to make excelent pickles.) Is my wife jealous? No, she realizes that she will never compete with my grandmother in the pickling department, and focuses on where her strengths are. I've done the same sexually: I'll never be a woman, but I can be the best man she's ever imagined.\n\nNow, if you ever saw the Japaneese comic book Ranma 1/2, if that were real, I'd hop on a plane to China and go take a dip, then my wife and I might talk about renegotiating.
513554
It must have been some fight.  The thing to do when you and your wife fight is to kiss and make up  - that's the fun thing to do.  a family fight shouldn't cause hatred of all women - even angels - You are too emotional over it. Like I said, kiss and make up - soon.
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Talk to your wife! Tell her the situation without getting upset with her. She loves her daughter and knows that her daughter is out of control but who will take care of that child her daughter had? Maybe she feels it is safer for the grand baby to be with the two of you and not left all alone some where. It does seem too much for someone of 23 to act with such disrespect and she seems childish in a way. Set rules with her and tell her it is your home and not to bring strangers into your home again! If u set boundaries and that doesn't work then i would make her leave your home instead of ruining your marriage! I would only leave your wife if she wouldn't respect your wishes for things to change and put her foot down as well. Good luck!
565257
First have a serious one on one talk with your daughter and ask her what she really wants, it's not all for parents to decide for our kid. Then after you got her thoughts, talk to your wife. This is your family's problem, it must be between you and your wife first before it goes to your parents. Remember you already have your own family life, your parents should understand that.. Then when you got your wife on discussion,tell her what your daughter really wants and after you got her reaction, talk with them; you, your wife and your daughter, and discuss everything and weigh all corners and make the decision.You are the head of your family, act like one.
81069
Remember what it was like in the begining and don't try to do the same things over again change it up a little. Don't be afraid to try something new, but with your girls consent. Be willing to listen when she wants to talk, or sit her down and ask her why she acts the way she does when other people are around. Tell her you are willing to try new things to rekindle that old flame and if she's not down than it's time to move on, just don't lose touch with your children there whats most important.  Good-Luck.
540819
Treat to to a nice dinner with both kids.. and maybe both kids can prepare a surprise ( a song, poem or whatever) give her a Kiss, tell her you love her. :) good luck!