are people as bad as they seem?!?!?
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He was never your friend. Why shopuld you care for someone who says he doesn't care for your friendship.\n\nIF YOU HAVE BEEN HONEST, i GUESS THE LEAST YOU CAN ASK FOR IS HONESTY.\n\nAppreciate yourself and try to talk to him first, if things definitely will not work out let him go and be happy on your own... Actually he is the one that will have lost a friend, not you, understand? :)
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sadly you will learn the more you are on here that there truly are some rude and nasty people on here. But not everyone is like that, there are many great users on this site too. Just try to ignore the idiots. Not always easy, granted, but the best way to go. Hope it gets better for you...much luck!
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You will find silly people all through life! People sometimes just have terrible dispositions, and I don't know why! I think that people on here know that you don't know them, and they will never truly have to explain why they act the way they do. Therefore, they can be as rude as they want, and no one will ever know it was them. I don't take the website too seriously, but I respect people, and give honest answers. It would be nice if everyone played fair, but that isn't likely. I hope you have a good day, and try to have fun!
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Sounds like you've got some life experience under your belt.  I am much more afraid of fake people like the super-nice type you described.  You never know what to expect from them.  If they're genuine, great.  There's a rare treat, but if they turn out to be the typical backstabbing schmucks so many shiny happy I've got my best customer service voice on people are, you're better off with the cold type.  At least you know what they're all about.  Great question.
339191
Rudeness is in the eye of the beholder.  I don't think everyone who is rude, intends to be rude.  It depends on how sensitive the affected is.
1001994
unfortunately thats how some people are. they dont see the bad in themselves, just the bad in others and that pretty sad.
663254
Pumpkin, People are mean, shameless yet extra ordinarily kind and friendly too.\nWelcome to the Real World!!\nNow, the world is not really filled to the brim with nasty a** wholes, but has a LOT of good minded people ( Like ME ).\nTestament to this?? The world would not exist beyond a week if everyone in this world were mean, cruel and all things bad.\nTake the sour with the sweet like my Mom used to say..\nLearn to weed out the bad people out of your life and put more varieties of the Good seeds into your life.\nA little too much preaching?? \nCertainly not, I dont believe in preaching, but this is real life experience. I live in India but I am a Mid Eastern by birth. I didnt know that the world had people who would take for a ride with your money ( literally ), I dint know your roommate would steal all your stuff overnight, I didnt know that you could sleep in a park bench like a homeless in Winter. But I have been there, done that. I came out of my house at an age when I should have been in College, got a job, worked my way up and now live in a house with amenities that I never used, when I was staying with my parents.\nNone here are smart a** but fearful normal beings, that hide behind a Computer Monitor and say ridiculous things about other people. I bet that all the people who say those hatefull things would be a doormat in real life... The Internet is just a facade, and I would urge not just you but anyone who feels that the world is mean, to just ignore this and embrace this technology for what it really is. Bringing people together. Isnt this wonderful?? I mean I get to give you a good piece of advice though we sit thousands of miles apart.\nIf you think this is crap, and if you want more, mail me at stillfreezing@yahoo.com\nAu Revour!!
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Many people are prejudiced against people they perceive to be poor. At least you got to see how it feels to be on the receiving end of that, and hopefully you will help and be friends with those who are deserving instead of blaming them for their circumstances. No disrespect meant by my comment--we all learn something new (hopefully) every day.
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thanx for the Advice, i always new there are "Evil" people out there, but we all have to be careful with who we really interact with them. if you get sespicous about something you must attack him/her with honesty. thanx again
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1 + 1 = 2 and yes people are as messed up as they seem. I have a theory as to why. I think people are so messed up because they wont stop and look in the mirror. They can not realize their own faults or admit to them in any way. So they walk around picking out the faults of those around them and beat them in the ground with them. They try to make them feel as low and petty as they themselfs feel. That way some how they can feel better about themselfs, like they are better than you. So, there is no way they are the scum of the universe, they are better than you, in their own minds. Thus creating a visious cycle of negetivity pain from one person to the next. Another reason people are messed up in lack of comunication. I say apples are green you hear stawberries are red. How can we ever be on the same page when we precieve things so differently. When you don't understand something you get frustrated and frustration leads to anger. So how are we ever suppose to listen when we are closed minded and to angery to hear.
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Take stuff on here "with a grain of salt" as we say where I live ... some people will be rude and others will get upset when they are rude ... it is just Q and A from total strangers ... not exactly of earth shaking importance in the overall scheme of things ... don't let it get to you ...
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I used to work on the railways and had to check the tickets of the people before they boarded their train.  They had to pass through the booth I was working in.  As you can imaging lots of people may well have had tickets that wern't legit or were out of date ot that they had modified in some way, so not everyone liked to show me their ticket to closely!\nBut the worst people of all were not the young kids, or those scruffily dressed, it was the smartly dressed people, the men wearing a shirt and tie and suit, they were by FAR the worst.  They always thought that they were above me and used to talk down to me, and one man said that I was a nothing and this was the best job I could get.  \nSo when I used to find a "posh" person with an invalid ticket, or a ticked that had been altered in some way, I cant tell you the pleasure that gave me to book them!\nIn fact 70% of all prosecutions were given to people in the legal profession!  These people got a criminal record for fare evasion often for less than £1 (or $2)!
440991
You should keep in mind that there are a lot of people who are much much more worse off than you! Think about what you have, not what you don't!
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Some people are unrefined, rude and just plain socially bankrupt.  A cross section of our society as a whole unfortunately.....ignore them.
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Mean and rude people.
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Actually good and bad boil down to perception of the person.  For some what is good to them is bad for another and the other way around.  It just depends on the person and their perception of it.
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UMMMM....probably because people get so deffensive!!!