I messed up with my GF and she broke up wit me and i still love her and she still loves me.What do i do?
603495
Talk to her. Communication is key.\nAsk her what went wrong and what you can do to fix it.\nLet her know how you feel, but dont push it. dont force her into feeling something. because then it wont be real. remember, force is a crime.\nthings like this take time. be patient.\nGood luck
382876
Look I know how is it,but the truth is love is only that matters.That's your first mistake. The second is- your rushing things-getting over takes time.Don't over analise things. If it's not too late- you can still be with her,but who knows - one day you might be rich and able to feel confident but in her heart to be just a bitter memory?! You never now
1156925
Look im gonna be straight w/ u .... If u cheated on her apologize and go leave her alone. If you beg 4 forgivness u just mite get it, BUT she will NEVER trust u again. She may not say it she may cry ask why and take u back, but wait a few months things will slowly change she mite bite ur head off 4 something small, she may start calling u 20xs every two hrs. Follow u... its endless, but the worst part will b all this time u r thinking things r getting better, she is blowing up w/ resentment over the "mistake" i figured u called it and one day you will wake up and see a different person and you wont understand where all this hate/ mean/ bitchy snaps r coming from, cause u forgot about it and moved on, believe me she never did she just had time to get over the shock the heartbreak, the broken trust, and now she hates you for what u did but don't exactly know how to handle the situation. One day things will b fine the next she will just look at you eating and want to smash your face in. I am so not kidding on this, IF IT WASN"T CHEATING....Go with the whole truth a sincere apology, let her know you love her and only her, ask HER how she feels, listen to every word and tell her, if you mean it, u will do everything you can to make things right 4 her. Do not lie and just take responsibility for what you did, b4 some jackas* rats u out. If u feel shes the kinda girl that would want something, get her something she likes so she knows you really know her,  you listen and of course remember what she says. Good Luck
629767
You need to think about why the relationship ended in the first place. Somebody was obviously unhappy. If you truly believe things have changed then all you can do is let her know that, tell her the door is open and let her make her own decision. If you try to do too much to influence her you will turn into a bunny boiler. Just concentrate on being happy by yourself and making your life as full and enjoyable as you can. Someone will see you for who you arw and fall in love with you, either your ex or someone completely new! Just enjoy it cos we're only here once.
88350
just say u still have feelings for her even if u try to hide them by being cool or showing off. and say that you cant believe you everlet a girl like her break up with you (or that you cant beliieve you broke up with a girl like her!) good luck man! im proud of u for trying to get back with her! y cant all men be like u?!!
425646
awww :( i'm sorry...try to go back to the someone that you love....tell her how much you love her...if you want her back....6 years is a long time, and its not too late to save it from slipping away
112072
Ask yourself if why you want her back.  Ask yourself why you left.  Is it because you feel guilty?  Did you desire someone else and now that it is over you want her back?  Examine your love for this person.  If you truly love her then you will be concerned about hurting her again.  Maybe it is best that you don't go back.
80981
did you talk and explain to her why you broke up with her. communication is very important. you should talk to her. stay come and try to step into her shoes. if that dont help well than its something she has to get through but atleast you know you made an effort. its like what is that saying you can lead the horse to the water but you cant make it drink.
551961
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
383690
Right now buddy, the best thing that you can do is to love yourself... If you don't know how to love yourself, how can others love you back... Always remember that ok? I know that you are in a very tough situation now, that's why you find it very hard to eat and to sleep, and that's normal, but you should take care of yourself because that can lead to too much depression which can be harmful for you... About getting her back, I think that you should follow the advise of some of your friends who are girls because they understand what a woman feels after a hurtful situation like that, unlike us guys who are tougher and can handle situations like that... Always remember that girls are emotional and its really hard to earn back their trust, you must first prove to her that you are sincere with your apology and show her how you still love her by waiting her make-up her mind... Give her time to think because girls always want assurance before they make a tough decision... And always be prepared and be open-minded whatever her decision will be, you should learn to accept whatever her decision is because that is your consequence, you are the one who cheated... And don't be too aggressive on her, let her think... Actually, your girl is too kind coz she still accepted you to be her bestfriend for now after wht you have done... The only key to get her back is give here some space and time to think and prove her how much you love her by waiting and accepting patiently for her final decision about your relationship... Goodluck buddy... And don't do that again because it is not only her trust that you will lose, but also the trust of your future girlfriends if ever...
574197
if she broke up with you then she isnt your girlfriend any longer.. but if she was cheating on you when you were together then be thankful she ended it.. once a cheater always a cheater...let it go and find someone that you can be happy with.. if you think she was cheating then more than likely she was or had plans to... move on and have fun.. life is to short...
859617
you did the right thing. dont feel bad honestly. if you kept dating her then youw ould have made things a whole lot worse because later on, she might have fallen in love with you. leave things the way it is. tell her to call you once she is okay enough to accept things with how they are and you just want to be friends. that you will always be there for her even though you arent with her.
1152170
Try to talk to her. See why she left you. Try to negotiate with her. See if you can fix the problem. There is also relationship councilors. Visit them. I know you guys can work it out. Good Luck!
389113
Unfortunately..not until she is gone. We all make that mistake. If you really love her and she still loves you...GO GET HER. You can work it out. The main thing is YOU LOVE EACH OTHER...everything else is 'details'...and details CAN be worked out. Just be glad you realized it now and may have a chance to fix things. What's the worse thing that could happen? She could say 'no'. I think it's a chance you have to take. Be honest with her...and yourself.
887860
Move on dude' let it go. She didn't love you. It was all a act. I have seen women do it over & over. Some just want to see how far they can push a man. in other words' Use him.     Don't feel bad' Move on' Go find one that deserves you.
645880
She either wasn't ready to get involve in a serious relationship or she is seeing someone else. in either case she was looking for an excuse to do that.\nI'm sure you done every necessary thing for her but there are always people around your GF will have something to talk about and poisoning her mind.\nunfortunately it doesn't end there, after breaking up, you will be accused  about stuff you never did and you never said, and most of it about stuff you never meant it that way, so they start lying and making accusations in order to have a proof and good excuses for their act among their family and friends, and that's where all nicest things you have done for her, all wonderful moments you had with her, all pain you took for just being with her, fades away just like that. all of a sudden you become this cruel and nasty person in eyes of others,who hurt her all these times and now you better be away from her, because you are noting but pain for her.\nI have one thing to tell you: Don't blame yourself, she is an idiot. we all fall in love, we learn then we should move on.
587927
Damn that sucks. Caught in the act. Damn you really are in some serious S**t. Well I don't blame your first girlfriend for not wanting to talk with you after she caught you getting a bj from another girl. I mean I wouldn't if I was her. Well lets just say, you'd have to pull some serious s**t out of your a** to get her back cause I don't think so she'll settle for anything less than a "I'm sorry" statement. As of right now, you're on your own. But don't be surprised that she won't want you back. If she does take you back, you better take your relationship more seriously with her. But good luck. And hope things goes back to normal. Sorry, but this is a problem that you have to cure for your self. I don't think so no one can help you but your self right now.