I  a have friend who is coming to stay with me for two months and I don't know how my dog will react.?
611895
that has to do with baseball how????
259491
You shouldn't worry a lot. Everything will be fine. Just give her some time. if she really is a good friend, then she will tell you what has been going on, and why she has been reacting that way.
893832
I assume you have a Psychiatrist.\nThis is only adding to your disorder - the stress.  Ask him/her for help.  There ARE people and/or places who will take animals for a "vacation."\nDo NOT avoid getting the help YOU need because of this.  As you said - you're no good to your pet (what's a chi?) in your condition.  What would happen if you were not here to be with him?\nAlso - Hospital social worker should be able to help. There are a lot of good people out there who would take him for awhile for little if any cost.\nDo you have a Social Worker with Adult Protective or Social Services?  Someone will help!!  First - you must help yourself!!
616744
She's obviously a desperate dog, who has nothing better to do with her life than try to harrass you. Whatever you do, if you love him, DO NOT badger him and DO NOT start feeling insecure, that is what she wants, you have to trust your man, make this experiance bring you closer together. He will respect you more for being totally honest with him and standing by his side.  The next time she calls you laugh at her and let her know how stupid she is being, make her realise that is why he is with you and not with her
725930
She hasn't called u cuz she's avoidin u.  N thats not a bestfriend, bf don't bail out on any situation. She has no concern for u n your family now that she has a place.  n her boyfriend stayed with her, i'm sorry but sounds like they took advantage of your hospitality, giving them both a place to stay. If she's a real bf she'll find a way to get her half n help out.  You r a good friend to her, u might have to reconsider your friendship. Hope things work out for u n family.
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
636085
WOW- where do YOU live? You should tell his parents that his has happened a bit too often and next time you see him on your property, you'll have him arrested for trespassing. Be sure to call the cops and file a complaint so that when it happens again, they'll know and be ready to arrest him.  It seems they've been warned enough times, and besides, already should know this is extremely inapprop[riate behavior.  As for your poor little pooch, maybe you can try a chastity belt?  LOL- seriouslt though, short of locking up the dog, I'm stumped on that one!
1095350
Withhold any form of affection. That usually works. Or if you're really smart about it, you'll accidently let loose the dogs somewhere in a desolute forest or park of some sort.
151994
Gotta be honest, I think your being played.  How do you think she would react if you asked to spend two weeks with another woman???  She's already made up her mind and is just stringing you along.
683397
If this is true, I hope she dumps your sorry butt!  A pet is like a family member to many people.  The fact that you did something so callous and cruel shows me that you have the capacity to become an abuser.  She needs to drop you and fast.
672009
It depends do you want her as a friend. If you do, you might just want to let sleeping dogs lie until she realises how wrong she was. No point in winning an argument and losing a friend.
609962
im sorry\nthe same thing happened to me w/my x. He would move out anywhere from couple days - month. \nwell eventually i had enough we are not together. \nleaving for while wil not solve any problems at all either.\nwell good  luck to you i hope things work out for you!!!
1032075
No you have needs as well and you have to make him aware of them. Sometimes guys we don't catch on to sublte hint then three months from now we come home she's crying and we can't figure out why. Then you unlaod everything that you've had bottled up for the last 5 months and the whole time he could really be clueless. Let him know what your thinking and why and see what he says, but assuming is never the way to go. You just moved in so establishing communication is key. Here is you first chance to do so. I hope it all works out well.
343623
There is nothing wrong what-so ever in the way you feel.  She has little respect for you and she should be more thankful that she has a place to stay.  You should really try to talk to your fiance, and see how he feels about it.  Its not fair that your mad and take it out on him, if he has no idea that you feel a certain way.  If you talk to him and he doesn't do something or understand the situation, it looks like you re on your own.  Talk to her then.  You should try to set some boundaries.  You re making it too comfortable for her to stay.
450145
why do you want to live with your girlfriend when she has a dog --- find someone less kinky and more aware of your needs and phobias
576174
it doesn't sound like u'r happy to me! i think that he wants to control every thing u do, i say NO don't stay with someone who treats u as a pet.. you have your own thought and use that brain of yours u really know that u don't want to be treated this way.. god gave u two feet for a reason.. stand on them, and walk away.. there is someone else out there that will treat u better. And will want u to be who you are.....
934321
Ouch!!\n\nOK to me you are doing the right thing in being honest and stopping the sleeping part of your new found friendship with this lady but I cant help feel this new friend is trying emotional black mail on you if she is living with her ex as you mentioned and who isn't to say she isn't sleeping with him why she has been with you?\nI would be more concerned about STD in this situation than her letting go.\nJust stand your ground and be firm and stick to what ever you decide.\nI think your current relationship will rekindle if you both put time and effort into it like you are.\nThey say a break is as good as a holiday.\nSadly some people can think they are in love because they are craving for any type of attention which they could be lacking in there own life or present relationship so they go and search for it else were.\nWe are all guilty of that at some point of time in our life! If we are honest.\nSo once someone nice like you seem comes along and gives them that attention and gives them the inner emotional needs like sex or comfort,then financial help and any other type of assistance whether its companionship or just a cuppa and chat and most times can be taking out of context making it hard for you in this case to break away or "get away".\nSadly some people cry wolf when they see another vulnerable person like them selves which is an easy target to latch on to.\nAs she has found with you!\nPlease just end this other connection with this other lady but sadly I cant help feel she may start giving you a hard time if not your partener of 2 years. \nAs she will feel jealouse of you going back to her and most probly wonder what is wrong with her for you to leave her after a month but honestly this her thinking and doing and not yours.\nDont fall for any emotional words as they are based on making you feel guilty..\nBe strong..And good luck.