Live with them or without?
597650
Children do don't make the relationship work never marry because of a child and never stay together because of a child it will only make your life a living hell and the children's too! Don't use children to get into or keep a partner its not right! The only way a relationship is going to work if the couple truly love each other!
57846
NO WAY!  My husband and I live 3 lives in our home.  My life, his life, and the life we share together.  We dont let those 3 collide.  He has his friends, I have mine and we have joint friends.
246817
are you planning on living with your family for the rest of this life?
1063629
This is going to sound a little harsh but, if she enjoys living alone, your companionship with her is going to be necessarily limited by the fact that she does not want to live with you right now.  I advise taking up hobbies and enjoying the time you have to be alone right now.  If you are meant to be together, she'll come back to you.  If not, then you won't end up wasting however long putting your life on hold and waiting for her.  During this alone time, you may want to explore why you "need" companionship and whether you are using a woman/companionship to fill a hole in yourself.
965119
if ur flats are only round the corner i think its a great idea lol u dont have to do his housework too! i dont see why a married couple cant live apart if anything i think this will keep u happier as u wont have so many arguments about stupid things that u do when living together!!!
461746
Well, go with the old phrase "if you love someone, set them free."  Life works out in the strangest and most wonderful ways.  There may be some exciting and wonderful adventures awaaitng you when you move.
438138
Not if they want to live...
494720
of course he/she would love to live wid his/her lover b'coz its difficult to have tht person's love to whom u love.. ..\nbut though if i had a choice between them i would surely like and love to be wid my friends 'coz they helped me ever in my difficulties in my life and never left me, they spent long years wid me helping me ever. though it would surely be difficult for me to live my love but if any situation like these would come than i will truely choose my freinzs..
911197
Do what she says or go live on your own.>
160865
choose the one who lives closest to you
170804
Yes, it's reasonable to expect fidelity in your absence.  I don't think it [is] healthy to be away from each other THAT long repeatedly.  In other words, if your lives are such that one of you IS going to always be gone 50-70% of any given year, I can see trouble.
1109151
Do what's best for yourself.  People will come and go all your life, but you'll always have you.  If you think the relationship is stronger with the one who is leaving, that's who you should stay with.
682957
I did have to make that choice, either stay living with my boyfriend or come home to live with my parents that are in bad health and failing fast. I choice to be with my parents and can only hope now that I don't loose my boyfriend in the process of all this. So far so good as I have been here with my parents for over 2 months now, him and I are still going strong.I either go see him or he comes to see me and talk every day on the phone.
97502
When being with them is actually more painful emotionally and/or physically than if you were not with them. Sometimes it is just worse being with them than without them, then it is time to let them go. Another would be when they do not respond to you, when you deserve respect and love.
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Most people would say "Could you live without him/her?"  I say "Could you die without him/her?"  Who's eyes and heart and soul would you want with you if you were on YOUR deathbed..............think about that.........no one helps you on that journey....but who would you trust implicitly?
1135367
I do that,i don't know why but i do! I think you just need to be happy with yourself and being alone.To make sure your not dependant on someone else for happiness,then you'll want to move in because you'll be brining happiness into the relationship!
112563
When its time, God will call them home.  When our job is done here on this earth, then we must go.  Only God knows.  The more time you spend wondering, is time not being spent with your loved ones.  Cherish what you have, NOW.  Live and love everyday like it was your last.  Who knows, maybe my last job here on earth, was to answer this question.  Tomorrow on my drive to work, it could be time for me to go.  So now, I must call my mother and father, and tell them good night, and I love them.  Cherish your yesterdays, dream of your tomorrows, but live today for those dreams of tomorrow.