Would you hit a relative if you suspect the did something to spite you?
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You "suspect" a relative did something to you? You are not even positive the relative did anything to you.\n\nTake the mature way of handling this and ask the relative if your "suspicion" is correct. You don't hit somebody for something that you don't even know if it is true. Hitting never solves anything. Wouldn't you like to settle this situation and get it out of your life? It's always a lot worse in your mind than it really is when you face it.
973893
I agree with Bobounump youv'e probably caused him enough upset. And you need to be careful that getting revenge doesn't start taking over your life.
76271
I would report it...because it would have been an accident or self defense.
967275
I recognise this reply may hurt your feelings, but any damage done is minor compared with how you'd feel if you wound up in jail following a guilty verdict.
179410
I would find out what happened - if it was deliberate or an accident. However, I'd really get mad first.  Why was she touching my stuff in the first place?
237226
Why would you want to do that for. Revenge is sweet but also it can end up hurting you in the long run. K
850603
Forgive them, sure, why hold a grudge, but as far as talking to them later on down the road. Nope not really, I would be nice to them and probably say Hello but that would be the extent of the conversation. If they treated you that way once, they will do it again.
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It is always the fault of person doing the hitting. They should be far enough away from you to see when you are going to be turning, so if they're not it is no one's fault but their own.
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I suppose there may be a slight chance.  The chances of getting slapped, pepper sprayed, or humiliated are probably greater depending on how you approach the question.
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If he attacked, then it was a different story.\n\nI think you did the right thing.
559830
ah, who was mean to you? do you want me to beat them up?
177771
Not if it is a relative you know very well.  Otherwise, you should get help.
377455
Ofcourse not. Don't be destructive...however much the urge. You might start hating yourself. Revenge could be satisfying only in the short term. It's beneficial to let your anger out in constructive ways, like talking assertively to the person and letting them know if they have done you harm, or just write a letter to the person...saying everything and anything in your heart and mind, and destroy that letter. \n\nBut killing is abnormal. It's going too far.\nIt's mental and emotional instability if you wanna carry that out. And it's not justified, however angry you are.
950754
no, it would just perpetuate an injustice.  encourage that person to report to the police and tell him what matters most will be that "the truth shall set us free."
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Be cautious she may have found out something and wants some revenge.
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Revenge?  No.\n\nBut being forced to pay one's dues or punished for one's actions, absolutely.
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Yes.  The best advice I could give you is to report it right away.  Take notes every time something happens.  Believe me, it may come in handy.\n\nIf ever this happens to me again, I would automatically slap the person and handle the repercussions later.  The last time, my supervisor asked me why I hadn't reported it before, and why I didn't fight back.  The guy (used to be a friend so I gave him a chance) got away with it too!