should i continued our relationship in order to tackle her as well?
604838
is she in a relationship with the sailor? if she is, then move on and forget about her. she may be using you and your money while he's away. in that case, she will dump you as soon as he gets back.\n\nif she has told you previously that you are just friends, then i would say leave it at that. but don't let her take advantage of you. that's not a real friend.\n\ndon't feel discouraged though about being 22 and not having a gf. you're not alone, and it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. you will find another girl. don't worry about that.
592248
not unless you tell her how you feel. move it boy, before you lose her for good.
618433
She's certainly got you under the thumb.  It seems as if it's just you making the effort with this relationship.  Do you really want to be in such a one-sided relationship?
767861
First, does it seem like something she would consider?  If so, then go for it man.... otherwise you'll just be wondering what could have happened, and maybe be hurt if she finds someone else.
789411
Then be there for her, carry on doing what your doing.. Its hard and it will only get harder but have to show her your willing to put the effort in you could be the best thing that will eva happen to this girl. Stick at it. Show her you are there for her when eva where eva what eva the reason. As long as she feels comfortable around you and she feels she can talk to u it will be fine. The only thing you two should both do is promise to be honest with each through and about everything break it and you'll lose everythign keep it and she will come round.\nWhat eva has happened in her past it sounds like its going to be really ahrd for her to get ova this but she will it may take days weeks months probably years and even if u two do get together dont expect it not to crop up every now and then cos it will.\nMy advice is do nothign stick at it your working towards it you just need to give her time but keep going it sounds like your doing a good job of it at the moment keep going...
304218
maybe she sees you as a really great friend and someone that she likes to spend time with. i don't see the problem here. you love her, she wants to spend time with you, and dude, you will be in Scotland! She obviously enjoys you're company, which is a great start to winning her over. spending more time together will show her that you are the one she should be with or show you that maybe she's not what you thought. it's a no brainer man, go with her.
695656
sure, call her, what have you got to lose, she can only say yes or no, right, but a little bit of advise, that you didn't ask for, lol, i don't recommend that you wear your heart on your sleeve as you are doing, you may get hurt, an you sound like a nice fellow, sometimes girls will take advantage of a nice guy.anyway, good luck an have fun if you two do go out!!
1104020
Just ask her to do things together...learn about her, what does she like to do...do those things with her...let things progress slowly...
370799
You have nothing to lose so go for it, if you dont act on it right now you will then say...if only i had told her...so just give it a try.  If it doesnt work you can just move on like you did when you first left her...
287249
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
783868
...it sounds like another grrrl has made a very big impression with you?....hmmmmmm,...me thinks you may want to have a long conversation with "her",...just to explore each others true feelings for one another...if the two of you truely care for each other?, then you can decide if you want to take "it" to the next level...\n\n...whatever you decide, be honest with yourself, and her...best of luck,...*kiss*
165195
Becarful with that, its a tricky situation.  You dont want to mess up a good thing, but you dont want to miss out on something that could be better.  Try and find out if what she feels toward you.
369407
The question really is "Do YOU want to go there?" Yes, relationships usually do work better if you are friends first...but the fact that you are asking makes me think that you have some doubt as to whether you like her enough to become romantically involved....
364428
pay attention to what she responds to and what she doesn't. for instance if you do something to her and the response is oh yes, yes, yes, keep doing it. but if you do something and her response is stop, eww,ouch, get the f*ck off me then you no not to do it. don't worry about it too much. you'll figure out.
874484
If u want to experiment, go ahead as per her guidance.  If u like her ultimately and can not leave her without hurting urself, u can even marry her.
671708
If you didn't try the last two times, then you are stuck. Only if she is willing, can you get a chance and you have to do all the work.  Lifestyle changes, behaviour shifts anything she states and you will have to mean it.
1001034
Mhmh...yeah..of course you should! So that she would understand how much does she mean to you.. ;)\nGood Luck ;)