if i do not possess a boyfrend then does it means that i am not happening and attractive?
605239
You may be attractive but I can assure you that you are introvert who wants to make boy friend still unable to find one.
156645
I don't understand the question?\n\nI learned a long time ago that if you think you are unattractive, you will be unattractive.  If you think you are a worthy "catch", everything will fall into place.
372965
No, it means you are a freak and want to show it, just kidding, This means to me that you found a guy that you like and want to date him, times have changed alot and people some too, I believe you will still get those stares in disgust and a few comments here and there, but you are where you want to be.
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I cannot tell a handsome man from one that isn't. I feel rejection to the very idea of me with another man (which does not mean I feel rejection to those men who do have sex with other men, just to the idea of me in that situation). I have never fallen in love with a man or boy. And I am never aroused with men. Plus, I have an education which I'm sure would not make me repress it, if I were gay. So, I guess I am physically unable to feel any homosexual drive, which is a bad thing, since it would double my chances if I weren't so picky, and looking always for women.
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I think that guy was just interested in flirting with you because you were younger.  He might have just wanted to see if he could get a response from you, or maybe he just wanted to get into your pants.\n\nIt is possible to think someone is attractive without being attracted to them.  I think some of my male friends are attractive, but I am not interested in anything other than friendship with them.  I also think that some of my female friends are attractive, but I am "straight" and not interested in them either.  \n\nI'd say it noticing how people look, and how they look to you.\nYou don't have to act on it.  But if you do, ie you go after everyone you think is attractive, then you have issues and people will not think very much of you.  That's my theory.
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That one might be considered asexual ("without sex).\n\nIt's possible, though, that you haven't found anyone that you're interested in, so I wouldn't be hasty to label yourself as asexual just yet.  It may merely be a matter of finding the "right person." (Just an opinion).
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This just means that you are not deeply in love with this person. It will come. Once you get to know him better you will feel different. Whether your not attracted to him or you just cant be yourself around him. I've expierenced this situation and know exactly what to do. Follow my advice and you'll get somewhere in life.
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Are you that guy? ^_^ LOL... I'm just kidding...\n\nYour question can have different meanings. Do you mean:\n1. If a guy has a handsome look, does it indicate that he probably has no brain at all?\n2. Why do I meet with a handsome guy with no brain at all?\n3. Why does a handsome guy seem to me having no brain at all?\n4. Should I make friends (or date) with a handsome guy who has no brain at all?\n5. What should I do with a handsome guy with no brain at all?\n6. (Other)?\n\nDifferent meanings of the question can lead to different answers. They are respectively as follows:\n1. No, a handsome guy does not mean that he has no brain at all.\n2. YOu have good luck in meeting a handsome guy but bad luck in finding out he has "no brain at all". -_^ Well... sometimes it may sound worse than it actually is... You may need to take more time if you still have patience to keep up with him! ^_^\n3. It may be due to some misunderstanding or prejustice. It takes time to learn a person well. He may have some/many shortcomings...something really bothering or offending you but he should have other merits.\n4. The combinations of answers of 2 & 3. It depends on your personality and willingness.\n5. If you'd like to still make friends with him and take more time to learn about him, keep on. If you think you cannot communicate (or put up) with him or cannot learn anything from him, quit contacting him.\n6. Please give more details ^_^
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There's no need to declare yourself anything right now.  In a year or two, you will know if you are or not gay.  \n\nYour attraction may just be envy of guys who have matured physically ahead of you, or perhaps what you want to be  That doesn't make you gay, it makes you human.  \n\nRead up on it if it still nags at you.  Ask more questions.  Talk to someone you TRUST.
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i don't have a husband
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You say , listen, I don't want to be involved with anyone right now, or at this time in my life, so you need to understand I'm not trying to be rude, just honest. I don't have the time or desire to date anyone right now. But I'm sure there is a guy somewhere out there who will be interested in you.
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Even if looks aren't important to you, gender is.  Attraction and arousal are dependant on pheromones and how you respond to them.  If you are not stimulated by the pheromones given off by members of your same gender, you aren't going to feel an attraction.\n\nYou can still feel a close bond and love, but you aren't going to feel the sexual arousal unless there is something "triggered" in your body by members of the same sex.
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Don't worry yourself about it.  Your turn will come and the "pretty" girls will fade out.  As long as you have confidence in yourself, you should just be happy with that and not so focused on having a bf.
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It doesn't mean you are unattractive, it means you just haven't found  anyone worth your time yet.  Keep going out and meeting people, and it sounds lame but it will happen for you - and probably when you least expect it.  \nIf you want to speed things up, try getting a new hobby where you interact with people, if you attend church get involved with any singles activities there, you can also try an internet dating service.
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no...\nit doesn't mean anything...\nmaybe he isn't mature enough for you...
316337
No. You've got a boyfriend. Also you don't listen to him either!\n\nPs. Race/colour/Nationality doesn't matter, but being attractive does.
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Your subconcious views him as confident and capable.  Hes also making you laugh which is a great way to attract any women.  On top of that your subconcious is telling you this guy isn't needy and your not going to have to take care of him, rather hes capable of taking care of you.\n\nBest of luck....