how can satisfy my wife after my bout  with cancer. tried toys already.i missed my old self?
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Your potency will probably return gradually.  Impotence is a common side-effect of radiation and chemotherapy, but it's thankfully usually not permanent.  Tell your doctor and he'll advise you, but you can figure that you'll have a few months of sub-par performance.  \n\n(I had advanced lymphoma and was impotent for two months and sterile for about 4 months.  Had to use viagra for the first year in order to achieve penetration, but don't need it anymore.)
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Good News.... She is NOT gone.  She is always by your side.  She loved you for 17 years also, and she would want you to be happy.  Did you ever want to take up a hobby that your wife thought was ubsurd?  Do it now if so.  There are a million support groups for grieving spouses.  Being around people thgat feel the same way you do is very healing.  Always remember this... she will be waiting for you on the other side.
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I suggest sitting down and talking to her about it candidly. Try new things, buy her a new "toy", something sexy to wear to bed, a little porn (it works, for either arousal or a giggle sometimes, I swear) a makeover day...Chances are she's not sure how to change the same issue you're not sure of either. You both probably need a change, try something you never thought you would, and I bet the spice comes right back!..GL;)
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You want to satisfy your wife? Clean the kitchen after dinner. Bring her flowers. Sing to her. Give her a foot massage. \nThis will help you in two ways. You will be pleasing to your wife, and she will want to please you too. You will be together more often, and you will get better at holding your orgasm. It takes practice. You get practice by helping your wife. Try it.
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My wife is not dominant, but she uses toys on me. Want details?
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I have first hand experience in dealing with cancer.  What would be very helpful?  Offer to clean the house, offer to make dinner.  Help the wife so she can focus on her husband.  Also, visit him.  For my mom, I put together a "hospital kit".  I included a washcloth, bar of soap, shampoo, magazines, new pjs' etc... whatever they like.   And once grand-dad is able to, bring your daughter often so he can see her.  That will really cheer him up!
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Well Dude you might try marriage first and learn that women are more than a sex toy! Respect them man they are precious gifts from God! You want to satisfy one- hold her- be a man and wait until you have put the ring on her finger- or you can have some time alone by yourself- if you get my drift!
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First of all you dont always need to ask the Ladies a sex question. Ok here I go.... my wife and I have been together since 1997 So I know what you meen about old hat lol. \n\nWhen my wife and I were dating I ready and looked up so much crap online and in books on how to find all the right spots. She never complained one bit....\n\nSomething new.... have her learn Kegel exercises. Doing this will give her the abilaty to squeeze in whenever she wants to giveing more pleasure to the both of you.\nHave her do it everyday it will be good trust me. \nFind her g-spot curve your middle finger uppward about 2 or so inches inside and press firmly making circular motion with your finger. She will let you know when you found it. While you are doing this now that she has been doing kegel exercises have her squeeze in on you as your fingering her spot. After a short bit she will get so tight that you can barely move your finger... pull your finger out 9 times out of 10 she will have a female ejaculation "she will squirt or gush" Totally differant from her normal orgasims. If you havnt already get into sex toys. \n\nNow she might say no you are all I need yadda yadda. Do it anyways In no time you both will be having fun. Check out Xandria.com or Hustler store online. you both can shop together just doing this will excite you both just thinking about what you will be doing. \n\nTry public sex.... Go to the park walk the trails take a backpack with a blanket and towels and find you a nice spot. Go camping just getting out of the norm will help out alot. Hope my rambling helps\n\nAny other questions just ask.
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Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
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How funny -- my husband has done all of the things you listed (the song is still top of the list).  \n\nHe gave me an awesome b-day present of a hot air balloon trip for my 30th b-day (don't know if I could stomach it now) and another great gift was a surprise gondola ride (wine and chocolate covered strawberries as we cruised Coronado bay as the sun set..)  Horsebackriding was also a fun gift -- the trick is that these were all surprises and the fun part was in guessing where we were headed and then the fun of getting there to see what we were in for!\n\nSo try a neat "experience" like these.  Another cool thing (but you have to really know your wife) is a big household project that you could care less about but you know your wife would love (a fancy new front door that you install -- or have a professional insall -- a cool new chandelier or modern light to replace the old one above the dining room table - just be sur eto get advice from her mom or friend on the taste / appearance of what you select).\n\nGood luck -- you sound like a great husband and I know that takes hard work and dedication  :)
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look into support groups, ask your doctor about groups that meet.  exercise in warm water is really good.
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Book her an appointment for a pregnancy massage. She will feel like a new woman trust me. This is one of those anniversaries where the hubby is to pamper the wife...sorry. But maybe you can go out to dinner where you had your first date like my hubby did. Very romantic. Just let her know how much you appreciate her and be very sympathetic of carrying a baby (it is very hard in the last months). just a couple of suggestions!
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man, take care of her , be there when she needs you , have patience , try to rise her self-confidence , don`t let her see  your worries and be the supporting shoulder when she needs one. try to talk to the doctor and find out exactly what her status is , there are many forms of cancer that can be treated  and in chase something bad takes place...be there for her...forever...  you`ll have a lifetime to know that you did something well. take care man and hope for the best
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Go and have a complete physical first at your doctor's office.  Mention to him you want to get into some sort of exercise program or even a little dieting.  He can determine what is safe for you at this stage of the game and what is not safe.\n\nYou might want to start a walking program -- maybe even with your wife or perhaps a buddy.  You might want to join a gym or go swimming regularly.  It's up to you -- what you like to do or what you used to like to do.  Make it fun and not a chore.
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See what the dr says first if he reccomends surgery then i would also get a 2nd opinion. I did and found out i had cancer I am fine today and fully recovered . Have never had it a 2nd time thank god . Hopefully never will. God bless you and your husband. Good luck to you as well.
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Walking and sex worked for me.  Unfortunately, sometimes you will stay at that point for a couple of weeks.  Don't worry...it'll come...promise!  :)
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New ideas and posistions and lots of flavor.... Sex board games, and couples toys! Orgasm and anal beads. Candles and rose petals. Trying new toys alot and new posistions. Gotta keep it exciting and lots of foreplay, teasing and oral!