cant face him to tell him the real fact that i dont love him..can it be on the phone?
599780
No,please dont.At least give him that right to know where he went wrong,he deserves that much am sure if he loved u?Meet him,let him know why u cant/dont love him;answer his queries if he has any..ask him anything u wish to ask.And...dont just break up or walk out.....dont part as enemies please.Try to be friends coz since u had a relationship for sometime,u understand each other better than others.Am sure if he loved u true,he'd always be there for u.All the best.
853627
tel him how you feel, adn that you are truely adn deeply sorry, thats all you can do.
734703
just talk to HIM about it...be HONEST.
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
370232
HES NOT MAD AT U BUT U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT HE MAY HAVE OTHER THINGS GOING ON IN HIS LIFE WHERE CALLING U MAY NOT BE THE FIRST THING ON HIS MIND NOT SAYING THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO TALK TO U ITS JUST THAT HE MIGHT EVEN BE BUSY AND IF YOUR GETTING MAD BECAUSE HE DIDNT CALL IT MAY BE BECAUASE YOUR STARTING TO CATCH FEELINGS EVEN THOUGH HES FAR AWAY. also if u had other things to do and were busy then u wouldt pay that much attention to it and also if its that much long distance i dont think his phone bill is to happy things change and so do people so dont get upset try to remain calm and open minded his situation may have changed
1063580
You can't, really, if they don't want to be with you. I'm going through the same thing too, and the best thing is to just say how you feel. I did, and things are okay, I guess, but we haven't talked since them but i see him tonite. But yea, don't make up cheesy bullsh*t, just tell 'em flat out how it is. Good luck!
236222
if you are tellign this person this because you care about them, start like that. tell them "i care about you, i love you, (etc.) and this is why i have to tell you this..."\ni think that it is better to talk t the perosn face to face and not by email, phone.. etc. it will just make the person feel like it is real and they will be able to see the concern you have for them.
283536
I was in a relationship like that. HE only lived an hour away. BUt we were on the phone all the time, and every chance we had we were together.Now we are married. Sounds to me that your guy might not be ready for what you want. Tell him how you feel about him not calling or blowing plans off. Maybe he will take your feelings into consideration or he his just telling you what he thinks you want to hear.
1176902
Put his head in a vice may do the trick...\n\nSadly, sometimes there is no way.  I am certain that even in your own dealings there may have been a time where you may have said something and thought that it was nothing at all but it may have hurt some one.\n\nEven in the matter of love there are times where you may be hurt and the guy just really wants to be away from you and doesn't care about your feelings...
859806
You need to speak with him face to face about this - so he can see your body language as well as hear your words - so much can be easily misconstrued in a phone call - reassure him all is ok but that you really need your own space too.
206779
tell him 2 quit calling!
1008704
This sounds like the classic case of him meeting someone and he doesn't want to tell you because just in case it doesn't work he has you hanging on the side. If he confirms it to you. It becomes real. Seeing you made him miss you threw him off. thats why the text. He seems to have the " out of sight out of mind" thing down. My advice stop calling, text, etc. He knows your patterns. You are being to conveint for him.This will have him approaching you instead. Right now you are to predictable to him. Mess with the pattern.Throw him off balance. He calls " look im busy right now can I call you back" then don't he will call you back.. I SWEAR!! tell him sorry I got busy. Don't get into it with him on the phone.. NEVER. keep being busy but say we need to talk, but I can't on the phone I gotta go now if he turns the topic, don't get mad.I know its stupid to play these games but this is the reality of it. THEN!! you decide if you want to put up with it. Confront him when YOU are ready. Then you choose to stay or go. Tell him not playing these games.\nKnow your worth. Don't be a door mat. good luck.
646441
Just tell this guy that you need to talk to him about something serious. I'm sure he'll get the picture. Then tell him how its really important that you see him and not talk over the phone. If he tells you to just end it, then do it. Good luCk!
283572
If you ever truely loved him than you owe him the truth so he has a ligitimate chance to move on. Tell him it just isn't working out anymore. Tell him the truth in the most respectful manner possible. Sorry but there just is no easy way to do it.
367747
You can edit this into the other question you asked, but it is not his way to show you he loves you.  It is his way to show you how immature and how unable he is to deal with situations or problems.  You need to leave him, youa re already making excuses for him and that is not good.  He will only get worse and you do not deserve that.
997888
He's bullshiting and he's playing you.. I'd raise my question about her present in his place. And what's the point of answering his phone when he has a hand 2. Unless his mouth was bz on something else.. Serious, if you want to continue your relation with him then straight this thing out. If not then he's NOT worth your time honey.
646462
Believe me he's just doing this just to see how far you'll let it go. But if you are uncomfortable with this then tell him to stop. If he does not stop then you need to stop talking to him on the phone until he can talk to you like he got some sense.