In the Marriage ceremony, it says, cling only unto him. That would be easy...?
610530
I think it means, as your children are given to you at your home, with your new,second husband, only for a certain amount of time. Then they will grow up and be on their own. So that is when, "Cling only unto him.." For no matter what, there is a reason you were brought together, to love one another. He must know that you will always love your children, no matter where you are or where they are! However, he also needs to know that it is you two together, as a couple..........you could also make up your own wedding vows!! Make your own service, it's your day! Good luck and congratulations!!:)
623180
well best wishes for your marriage and don't forget me in your marriage cermony just say ma name n i'll b there to see you both smilinng holding hands of each others\n\nand about ur Quest\n\nnuffin much special its like marryin g any other person but its special inthe case if you both love each otehr say you do and if you do you will be compromising with him ...there are some habbits on which you both needs compromises likes and dislikes matters alot to do compromises atlast you are living you whole life with each
915643
Easy, it marries it, later is alone to convince. Bye and good luck.
354406
I don't believe you can control true love so it's possible.  I'd hope that I'd be in love with the person I married so it wouldn't matter.
833932
Only if you decide to marry!
566423
no harm \nkeep loving him and marry him.\ncheers
57028
You cannot make a man ask you to marry him!! And besides that, why would you want to? Personally, I would want to know that I am being asked for my hand in marriage because the man loves me and wants it, not bacause I forced him into it. Often marriages where one person or the other felt pressured in to it, don't work out anyway. Best off to wait for him to do it from his heart!
1119306
Sometimes you gotta go with your heart... he may be getting cold feet (at the mention of marriage) especially if he was a quote/unquote  "player" before devoting himself to a relationship with you... sometimes the hardest thing is to think "is this the one?" The risk is in the leap of faith you take, by making the vows and all... will you really love him for the rest of your life?, visa versa on his part... sometimes open lines of communication is key... keep your head up girl! maybe he just needs some time to think about his place in this... talk about things then let it go... dwelling on it will only make things become ackwardly annoying to each of you.,..say whats on your mind let him say his piece, then go on to daily routine...
836248
I would feel hesitant about marrying him. Sounds like "he just not that into you". But I hope that isn't the case.
1104251
I sure agree with you that saying marriage is only about signing a paper and nothing more is very degrading and hurtful to what the marriage should be. A marriage should be a happy uniting of two people who love and cherish each other in the bonds of Holy Matrimony till death do us part. It is a commitment and a vow that should be taken seriously and not lightly spoken. Sad part is most people marry and do not mean a word they say and that is why to them it is only signing papers and nothing more. We need to get our values straight and look at this God's way . I heard today from our pastor some great statistics that married men live nine years longer then single men and that people who divorce live shorter then married people as well and we feel that because people who choose to stay married and commited to each other and do things the way that God designed the marriage to be that God will bless the marriages and lives of the people that do!\nhttp://www.marriagetoday.org
866036
whatever comes natural. Do what you "both" agree on. If this is difficult --dont get married--
260601
The Bible says that we are not to make rash vows especially to God.  Obviously you made your vows out of zeal to serve the Lord, so what has changed?  Why do you wish to break them now?  You said that your finding them difficult to keep, does that mean that you only want to make a vow that will be easy to keep?  And if so what would be the point of doing so?  I think it would be best if you kept your vows.
969377
In the strictest religious terms yes. But when does a marriage really start after we sign to tell everyone else that we are married, or when we know it for our selves.
1064777
No..  I just wonder how long their marriage would last..  Now days, they last less than 10 years..  Very few are still married more than 10 years...  HMMM  What's wrong with this picture..  Do they understand what their VOWS means????  When they say the VOWS, I guess they took some of the words out or change the wording...  It would not be "Until death do us part"..  It would be "Until we find someone else do us part"...
104009
Maybe you think that marriage is the highest expression of love between two people and maybe you want to experience that kind of once-in-a-lifetime love so badly that you think he doesn't love you as much as you would want him to if he didn't ask for your hand in marriage.\n\nWord of advice: he loves you and he might love you more than you could possibly know and comprehend. Give him a chance to show it in other ways than waiting for you at the altar while you walk up the aisle in a white gown.
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hi\nwell it depends on that what kind of relation betwin 3 of u\nand it especialy depends on u that yuo decide to marry to him or only a simple frindship.in case 1 u should let him to decide to choise .becouse life and future cannot extend with force and obligation. there shoud be love.
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I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to want to "seal the deal". I would caution against making a big deal out of it at this stage in life, however.\n\nThe two of you are already as established family. This marriage, if it is to happen, should not be a means of taking the next step, but confirming you have already taken it and are committed to one another, if that makes sense. If he does not feel this way, then you certainly do not want to push marriage.\n\nAlso... Having had a baby and (presumably) lived together, you're sort of past the point of the traditional big white wedding, if you know what I mean!