I really like a guy who is shorter than me what should I do.?
608845
Are you serious?!?! This is such a simple question! the answer is obviously, tell him you like him, see how it goues! Age never matters if you ask me, and being short myself, neither does size!  How to approach him is an age old question that all relies on how you decide but the hardest but probably best one is just do it, ask him! And about the smoking,... I know for a fact relationships have a way of being able to break bad habbits! (especially if you're under weight and threaten with something like not eating for a month) but be sure to wait a while before you try to make any ... forceful suggestions or else he might think you're a jerk!
30752
i am a tall girl that has had problems similar to yours...except that often guys won't date me- they feel intimidated by a taller woman. it is merely preference and there is not much you can do about it. i am sure that there are plenty of girls out there who like shorter guys....be patient, the right girl will come along.
531255
Get closer to him.  Make subtle moves that u feel comfortable with.  U never know unless u try
785986
Just because a guy is shorter than you isn't a good reason not to be with him. You said your still in school, but you didn't mention how old you and this guy are. If you two are in middle school (5th - 8th grade) then you guys are just starting puberty and he's not necessarily going to be short and skinny forever, and there's a good chance he's going to get a lot taller and put on more weight and muscle. If you guys are in the beginning of high school (9th - 10th) that would put you roughly in the middle of puberty, he might grow a little taller and he still might put on a bit of muscle. If you guys are near the end of high school (11th - 12th) than you guys are nearing the end of puberty, in which case he's not going to get much taller (maybe a 1-4 inches if he has a late growth spurt) and he might stay skinny, but maybe he'll get into lifting weights and build up some muscle.\n\nYou mentioned that you're "tall and chubby"... did you ever think that maybe he's under the same pressure not to be with you because of the way YOU look? The fact that he likes you and asked you out means that he's more interested in hanging out with you and getting to know you, than being concerned about how you look. There's a good chance that his friends and other guys around him are going to give him crap (if they haven't already started) about liking you. \n\nChubby is a middle ground between "Average" Weight and "Fat", and most guys your age don't acknowledge this weight class. To them your either "Average" or "Fat", their is no middle ground. Right now this guy is interested in you, which means he thinks your nice and your "Average" weight, but the guys around him maybe saying, "Dude, she fat. How can you like her?" If you snub him because of his height, he's going to bail, and he's not going to like you as much as he did.\n\nIf you really want to be with this guy, then looks shouldn't matter. You have a chance to be in a happy relationship with someone that is interested in being with you. The fact that you said yes when he asked you out shows you like him, if his looks were such a problem you should have said no. \n\nHe's able to accept the fact that you don't look perfect, and is willing to be with you. Why can't you do the same?
813450
I'm sure she already knows your shorter than her from the pics you send her. Height isn't everything, if you don't have that connection between two people you don't have anything. I wouldn't worry about it but since you are tell her she's taller than you and ask her how she feels about it. If you have won her over with your personality she isn't going to care about your height.
522247
depends, not all girls like the same thing.  personally, i would date a taller guy. why? mayb because i'd feel safer around him more than a short guy.  or mayb i think it doesn't look right when a girl dates a shorter guy.  i'd say both.
1060635
well first of all, do your shoes fit me? but if i was in your shoes, id let him down by telling him all thats wrong with him, that hes short and stuff. or ignore him. or do it the affectionate way and let him down easy by saying hes not your type.
170488
Why u not trying something other than dancing.If u really love him then height is not a problem.
280537
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  Just be try to be confident and talk to him!
17848
if you like the person why not?  what if he/she didnt like you because you had, short hair...etc etc...you see?  its all relative. ....shouldnt judge.  Love is blind, and sometimes the person you marry may not be up to par with everybody else, but maybe that person loves you the most...see...so who would take care of you if you were crippled later on in life?  it may sound corny but its true..Im 5 feet 3 and 3/4.  My girlfriend was 6 feet.  She was scared I wouldnt like it.  But, i asked, and she explained.  Then she saw that I didnt care, so she went for it.  She was a model and I was a nobody college student.  Now im a somebody...I liked that she see me that way.
721444
You gotta be kidding me. Shy?? Short men are more sexy and has that alluring thing going for them.\n\nMany taller women are attracted to shorter guys.. so just go out and talk to them....don't even care about the height factor.
294303
be smart, funny, and hot(but don't gross him out). joke with him about you two a lot (like touch him close to his balls but not actually doing it). try to get to know him better, and if he starts joking back, go for it.
80041
If you like him get back with him being short is just a minor detail, there is no such thing as the perfect guy, so if him being short is the only thing wrong with him, then you are doing good. But, he may not want anything to do with you because he might think your shallow.
61427
If u really like this guy well, just one morning get dress up do your hair or thins and when you see him take a deep breath. Ask him out on a date or do u want to go out with u\n\nGood luck..
1114553
Talk to him!!!  Find things you have in common.
358975
Most girls don't want to date a guy shorter then her. So I guess your best bet is to find a girl shorter then you.
559299
let him know how you feel! you never know he might have the same feelings for taller girls. the world is full of surprises, you really won't know unless you take the risk.