How can a guy know when the girl is playing with his heart or being real?
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Follow your instincts,they are usually right. If you don't feel comfortable and are asking this question here there is probably some playing going on.\n\nWhen real love,true love comes into your life,there are no doubts,no fears. There is trust and endless happiness.
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You can tell! You can feel it! alway follow you gut. you intuition will not let you down. \nYou'll know by how he treats you, talk to you, if he complimises for you, share with you, go by what he do-not what he say!\n\nalot of guy will say thing and don't mean it, always go by their actions.
678412
1:DO YOU TRUST HIM AND DOES HE TRUST YOU.\n2:DOES HE MAKE YOU LAUGH AND DO MAKE HIM LAUGH\n3:DOES HE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM.\n4:HAVE YOU TOLD HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM\nLOOK BABY GIRL THE ONLY WAY TO REALLY KNOW IS TO ASK BECAUSE A CLOSE MOUTH NEVER GETS FED, BUT WHEN IT COMES TO TRUE LOVE BELIEVE ME YOU WILL KNOW BECAUSE IT WILL BE HARD AS HELL TO SEPARATE THE BOTH OF YOU. GOOD LUCK
33280
Girls have a tendency to just "know" when a guy likes her...but the major signs are: acting or saying goofy things, lookin' down at their feet, acting embarrased, fidgeting, constantly staring at you but looking away in embarrasement when you catch them.  They also tend to have a sparkle or lust in their eyes.  They may ask your girlfriends questions about you to learn what you like, don't like and if you're single or not. \n\n-Also a side note (hopefully you're okay receiving this info)-  What I've learned is that if you want a guy to approach you, then you gotta make and keep the eye contact, smile and tilt your head a little to the side (as if embarrased).  Maybe play w/your hair a little bit.  But if you keep a stiff face, posture and no smile...he'll think you're not interested, maybe a snob or just plain mean.  Men have fragile egos...they need to know that we won't chew them up and spit them out.  \n\nHope this helps....good luck.
200940
raffy_12001 - u dont kno what your talking about. When the couple is really in love, that couple could feel it. All theyed wanna do is thinking of each other, see each other, have fun with each other. You could tell by a lot of reason if the couple is really in love or not. Do they laugh? Do they seem dead? How do they hold hands? Tightly with a firm grip or really loose? You`ll definetly feel it, when your BOTH in love. Its a sensational feeling you cant describe.
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Does the guy know that you like him? And if he does then you can express that you're interested in him, but don't get carried away. Some guys don't like when a girl flirts too much. Maybe he just might come around and notice that you are worth being with other than that other girl. If not, like the saying goes, There are other fish in the sea. So there will always be someone else out there that will treat you right and make you feel important. However like they all said before me, if he does seem like a player, then don't call him back cuz you will only get hurt.
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You cannot...trust me.\nHowever,you can tell when he has put some or alot of dedication aside for you-if he chats/emails alot...if he responds on time/most of the time...and if he always checks to see if there are messages from you in his box.Those are some signs that means he cares for you somewhat-if he cares you will notice by the kind words in his message concerning you...words like-I love you,I miss you,I want to be with you so much,I want to make love to you,I think of you all day,I can't stop thinking of you...and the list goes on.True love comes with real experiences & time...you're in a virtual relationship(are you not?)...this does not count as true love...but may be the start of a beautiful relationship...which can lead to love.
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I've talked with girls who say they wish us guys came with a users manual. We can be hard to read sometimes. Try this. Look into his eyes. Do they lock onto you when you walk into the room, or do they dart around? Does he treat other girls like he does you? The greatest tool in knowing how someone feels is communicating with them. Find a quiet place where you're alone. Ask him what he's feeling about you. Give him time, and he'll open up if he's in love with you.
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I think there are several ways:\n1) by how often he calls you\n2) if his friends know about you (as his gf)\n3) if he has introduced you to his parents\n4) if you have met his friends\n5) if when you ask for things, he doesn't think too hard about helping you out (unless it's something crazy)\n\nI think those are some easy ways to tell if a guy is serious about you or if he is just messing around.
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love is a mutually heart-felt miracle...\n\nif you're in love with someone, that person will feel it\npulsing in her heart too...\n\nbut if it's only your heart that's thumping, then\nit probably is infatuation..\n\nBut, let's assume you love her... really, REALLY lover her..\nthen it's easy...\nsince you're the guy, you have to define yourself\nstrong, accountable and smooth...\n\ntake her out on a date....\n... if you already are seeing her regularly\nthen you're one step closer..\n\ninstead of being gentlemanlike, swiftly\nland a kiss on her lips when you see that she's ready..\n(she smiles a lot, laughs a lot, her lips aren't tightly shut)\n\nwomen on dates are always looking for physical skinship..\n... and when they get a strong one, they won't know\nwhat to do...\nand since landing a good kiss on her is out-of-the-blue,\nshe'll let you handle the situation from then on..\n... she'll merely follow your lead on whatever...\n\n... then, it's easy street...\nyou won't even have to say the cliche-ic, long-dreaded\nthree words, "i love you"\n\ngodspeed
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Just be you. I dont think that us ladies give guys enough credit as far as being able to see through fake or phonyness. But while being yourself, notice things that are important to him or that interest him. You can only learn what these things are by talking and interacting with them. Good Luck
1092116
Don't you just love the adrenalin that can be generated during that period in wich you both are that damn excited without even notice what's in the other's mind? Don't be insecure, try to find out HER intentions with you and drive her crazy... You always can notice what a girl wants from you if you just pay attention...
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Girls immediately are able to sense a guy who has a kind heart even if there is a lot of noise and confusion. It was obvious that you didn't want to hurt either of them. You are a kind soul.
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If the girl likes you she will often look at you with a sweet eyes and not with a seductive eyes. Girls who love to manipulate guys has a seductive look on their face and in their eyes seduction is so clear. You will know that she loves you when her eyes sparkles and her smile are sweet. If it is her first time to have a crush or serious chrush she will shy away. If she loves you she treats you differently than other guys. If you remain gentle to her no matter what she do out of her shyness or uncontrolable feeling that leads to an appropriate action she will come to love you more and one day express it in a better way. \nIf you become her lover she will care for you, would want to see you often, would want to know what you are doing for the momment, would listen to you, would feel what you feel like you two are same people lol, she will be honest to you, she will be afraid to let you down, she would want to know the new you every now and then, she would want to be love by you, cared by you and understood by you and if you will not be able to give her what she needs she will be leave you but never forget you.
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you will know it when it happens just when guys are like i love u somtimes they said it bc they think if they say it to a girl that makes them want to have sex so just be carful
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The same reasons girls like playing with guys feelings.
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All this stuff is a game / play of minds / errors / virtual lies to others or him/herself.\nDon't worry too much. Take it easy.\nDon't be attached too much and you will not be vulnerable.\nYou always have time to decide for yourself.\nIf something happend in unpredictable way, let it go in this way, because it means it's better for you and it was not predefined for you, and not your destiny.\n\nConsider yourself as a part of game. Don't accept such discussion being closer to your heart. You decide what to do.\nIf something touches you, it's an interesting material for your investigation of yourself. Don't hurry, you never miss your single love. It's not that easy to miss something real.\nIf it's real, it's so big, that it always finds you, not matter what.