me and my husband r renewing are vowls and having a nice wedding in march. i need ideas on everything.?
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renewing vowels??  hehe!\n\nif you mean vows then i suggest getting your family to make everything, cuts down on costs. \n\nPick a theme.. like white, or roses or classic or something..\n\nthen think of what fits the theme and is cheap.. \n\nBrainstorm!!
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My husband and I renewed our vows at our church, as we were originally married at the court house 5 yrs before and we too could not dance. Unfortunately that seems to be the norm for that.  All we could do was fellowship basically. You can always dance when you get home :-) Congrats on your upcoming nuptials
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Don't feel like you have to stick with any old Anniversary traditions. \n\nTry giving her something to remind her of your wedding like a wedding photo in a beautiful engraved frame or a dinner like one you shared on your honeymoon. Share a dance to your wedding song.. I'm assuming you remember what it was.\n\n Or take her to wherever you proposed ( assuming it wasn't at home) and tell her you'd marry her all over again every year for the rest of your life, and that you love her more than you can really say with words. \n\nGood luck and congrats.. the 1rst year can be the hardest. I'm 1/2 way through to year 5.
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You could try a bed and breakfast which is always romantic.\nif you have done this, how about a weekend around your place? My hubby and I have done this before. \nFirst, make sure your house is very clean! You don't want to be thinking that you should be doing somethng around the house, this weekend if just for the two of you.\nNow, plan your weekend together, tennis, golf, even minature golf! Make reservations at your favorite restaurant, wear something sexy for him at dinner (possibly something absolutely sinful underneath a coat or sweater) and tell him what your going to do to him when you get home.\nGo to some local places that you may have been interested in but haven't made it there. Check with your local chamber of commerce too!\nGood luck and happy anniversary!
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Keep it simple. \n\nThe Venue - you can have this outdoors with a markee or hire out one of your favourite cafes. \n\nThe dress - find a dress you love and get a dress maker to copy it. You can buy the material yourself to even reduce the costs. \n\nThe food & drinks - you buy the alcohol and pick a nice red and white wine with champagnes for toasting. Pick two beers for the boys make one a light. Finger food is a great option do you know a friend or take away/cafe that maybe able to help out.\n\nFlowers - get them from the market fresh the day before and put a relo in charge or helping arrange. Don't ask them for a gift just tell them their help is enough!\n\nCake - surely one of your relo's makes a great fruit cake. If so you can get a cake shop to put icing on top to match your dress material. \n\nCars - you only need two cars, see what resources you have a use two cars in the family. Otherwise hire two cars for the day this is so much cheaper than wedding car hire.   \n\nPool all your resources together, people are so willing to help. Just say to them not to buy a gift in return for their help this will be appreciated and you will find that they will still want to give you a token.
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keep all of the stuff that you bought and reserve the cabin who says that you only have to celebrate your lvoe one day a year. so it next weekend. be different. do somthing that he wants this weekend and then do somthing that you want next weekend. have a good valentines day i hope that  you both enjoy it. just don't get married in vegas
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Have a small bridal party, one or two bridesmaids/groomsmen and ask them to pay for their own clothing for the day(or No bridesmaids/groomsmen).  \nHave the ceremony at the church where you are a member...if you have a church.  They often give lower prices and provide a lot of ammenities.  For example my chuch only cost $200 and they had a wedding/reception coordinator, did all the clean up after wards, served at the reception, provided plates/serving ware/utensils/cups and mixed the punch for the reception.  \nUse fake/silk flowers.\nHave a cake/punch reception instead of serving a meal. \nHave a sheet cake instead of a tiered cake, or have a small tiered cake for the wedding party/parents and a sheet cake to feed all the other people. \nLimit the guest list to Family/extended family. \nMake your invitations or buy them at Staples, Wal-Mart, etc.\nHave a basic ceremony, no unity candle(s).\nKnow what you want, don't let the sales people talk you into bigger/better/more expensive.  \n\nREMEMBER: The wedding day is about you and your soon to be husbands love for each other, not the decorations.
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You could always make a road trip to Virginia Beach. Take the coastal roads and stay in the clean but inexpensive "mom and pop" motels along the way. You can pick up those hotel/motel advertisement books in a Shoney's or Denny's and check out prices in there. Also use coupons for fast food that come in the Sunday papers. The best trips I've have had have been to pack an ice chest with sandwich fixings, milk for cereal,paper plates,bowl,utensils,etc and stopped at rest areas or overlooks to have picnics. Just enjoy the simpleness of the start of your journey together before the pressures of marriage and family get in the way. Good luck and I wish you and yours a great marriage.
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Depends on what you want really!\nI am planning mine at the moment, so we can learn together! I am having it at a register office. I had to call to book an appointment with the superintendant registrar. They asked me when I wanted to get married and booked it over the phone! Next week we have to take our passports and proof of address to the register office to prove we haven't been married before.\nWe are having the reception at a local pub owned by a friend, and the flowers I am doing. I am buying silk flowers I can keep forever. My friends are making food so we can have a big huge buffet!\nGood luck with your wedding, get in touch with your wedding date if you need any more help!!
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How about you throw an anniversary party to commemorate your 10 years of marriage and renew your vows?  That way you can invite your family and friends, wear a gorgeous dress, have him in a tux and write your own vows.  Renew the vows at the place you're having the party then have dinner and dancing just like a wedding reception!  Congratulations on your 10th anniversary!
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write him an email  with 365 words one word for everyday you have loved hime that much more because you got married!  congrats on ur first  year!!
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I would try to make it a huge memorable experience, it only happens once (hopefully)  Also, long engagements are great and I would definitely find a pre-marriage counselor to help you through issues you two do not even know you have yet.  Congratulations and best wishes on your happiness in life.
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I hope your wedding is lovely and I'm sure it will be. I think an outdoor wedding is a beautiful idea. Just make sure to have a back up plan for rain, and you might want to think of renting a large tent. If you have your wedding in a naturally lovely setting like a garden you will need to spend less on decorations. Maybe your site could inform the theme of your wedding. For instance, for a garden wedding, you could give something like daffodil bulbs as favors. \n\nThink about what the weather is likely going to be like in the area when you are married, and get married when the temperature and weather are at the most comfortable.   \n\nI think there is a book called The Everything Book for Outdoor Weddings (I might have the title slightly wrong but you get the idea). It would be in the Wedding Section of a major bookstore. I wish you all the best on your life together.
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www.theknot.com \n\nFirst make your guest list.  One for engagement party (if you're going to have one), one for wedding, one for reception. . . Then, trim it down.  Decide on a budget, then decide if you want to DIY (Do it yourself).  Pick everything from that budget:  The venues, caterers, rentals, dress, accomodations, florals, etc.  Decide on a date before you pick the above mentioned things.  It's easier to schedule a wedding that's at least a year away, because the dates you want are more likely to be open.  I could go on and on. . . just go to the theknot.com, maybe get a coordinator or some software.   You'll be fine, congratulations!!
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You need to center it around something that is meaningful to you and your fiance. You must share common interests. List them and then think about what you can do to use that as a theme.\n\nPersonally, I'd love to attend a costume party wedding. I think that would be a blast! \n\n.
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Pretend you're starting all over again.\nLeave little love notes in various places where he/she will find them when you're not around.\nSurprise them with candy, flowers, little trinkets, whatever and a little note saying you love them.\nAlways say I Love You before you hang up the phone, or either one of you leaves the other to go anywhere.  Give a kiss too, if you can.\nWhenever the two of you go anywhere together hold hands with fingers interlocked.\nGo to regular little dates like you did when you were younger: ask each other out to the movies, out to dinner, to rollerskate, a picnic, a walk around the mall, a drive in a canyon, a mini honeymoon; there's a ton you can do!\nTry just making out and setting rules that you can't break.  This raises the excitement of lingering near the "no go zone".  Like, no sex making out, no touching, whatever.\n\nHope these few ideas help!
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wow...that sounds really beautiful and I hope it comes true for u. As for me, my fiance and I are paying for our own things. We are having a nice wedding (with a wedding dress and tuxs). for the reception it is going to be one with  hay...music...liquior and a bbq. it is us. We arent the whole fancy stuff. Like a country barn dance like u may see in some movies.  It looks great in my head so I pray it looks good out of it.  2 months to go.