i just found out my bestfriend has a huge crush on me, and i like him too, but im rather afraid to admit it...
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Well then, it depends on your point of view about how precious the friendship between both of you. If you have your ups and downs and you're sure that he can be trusted and befriended for the rest of your days, then go ahead tell him. Whatever happened with your relationship, a best friend will never go away. If bad things happened, then you can always returned to the first stage. And make sure that you tell him that...\n\nDespite that, I would strongly advice you to at least give him hints first that you liked him. Don't go forward first, and let the man do the job (honestly a man will feel greater if he moved on first). At least gave him hints, one or two that you can and have liked him more than a friend.  \n\nSlipped in some sneaky talks about relationship when you're talking to each other. The word, "What if we're..." can be a good trick to use. I'm sure if you managed to pull this one of, he'll realized your feeling towards him and move ahead to do what his heart says. \n\nA best friend is someone worth having, worth caring and worth fighting. Who knows, he can actually be your 'best friend' for the rest of your life. Good luck!
58929
I have the exact same problem i am so scared to ask him becouse i do not know what he will say. Maybe you should try to talk to him and work your way up. Maybe he likes you to.
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I don't feel there is anything really to be done.  The only thing I would be concerned about is the fact that if these two men are your best friends and you share everything together, then why didn't tell you in the first place instead of you finding out like you did.  \nI can understand the frustration and surprise at finding them in that situation.  As for the crush, only thing to do there is to get over it.  There isn't a chance there.  I would talk to them.  Be honest.  Why didn't they tell you?  Is there a trust issue that you were not aware of that they couldn't tell you up front?  That sort of thing.  I think it's the best advice I can give.  I hope it helps you out.
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just confront him n tell him bout ur feelings that u have a crush on him... i think he would understand since he's a close friend n u should express ur feelings... just make sure it doesnt harm the friendship but do tell him bout what u're feeling for him...
427793
If he is your best friend then you should be open to telling him anything. Let him know how you feel about him and he should be okay with that. Maybe throw some hints out there that you have slight feelings like that for him and ask him about when he tells you he loves you.. does he mean he "really" loves you or "just as friends" loves you!? You have to find out what his feelings are to be able to decide really what you should do!\n\nThey do say that the one you are supposed to be with is going to be your best friend. \n\nGood luck and I hope this turns out being the way you want it to be!
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Don't tell him anything!  Most likely what you're feelinig for him right now is just a result of being lonely. If you really liked him you would have been extatic when he asked you out two years ago.  Don't ruin a good thing.  Just work on trying to like someone else, because most likely it won't work out and things will never be the same.\nI've made the mistake of trying to date a guy friend twice, and both times it turned out horribly and we aren't nearly as close now.  Don't make the same mistake!
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First off, take a deep breath.  Calm down.  Now, crushes are okay, as long as you can control them.  As you said, they are unstoppable.  But they are not supposed to be uncontrollable.  Just act as if you don't have the crush.  Act the way you normally do in front of him and do your work the way you're supposed to.  DON'T let him know that you like him, as it would only cause awkwardness and a lot of bad feelings.  Nothing good can come out of telling him.  Ride it out.  Eventually, you will find another guy that you are interested in.  This crush may seem like it will last forever, but it won't.  Soon enough, you will either fall for a hot guy you just met or you will see an old friend in a new light.  Until then, just play it cool.
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give it more time, that is probably because you still like him, try to get hi out of your mind by going out with your friends or doing something, yea it won't be easy, trust me, when yu see him tell him what you feel so you can get it off your chest, talk to himthen after that see what happens.
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I know how you feel. I've been there. The best thing you can do is go up to him and start a casual conversation.  It doesn't have to be anything gushy. It can simply be about music, movies/tv shows, or any other interest you may have in common with him.  Do you know anything about him?  I know it's scary but you soon get use to it.  I use to have a major problem like that. feeling scared of rejection. Be yourself.  There is no point in him noticing you if it's not you.  Plus, trying to be someone else is very uncomfortable and you end up worrying even more.  As I said, trust me i know.  Walk up to him.  Find something appropiate and causaul for the circumstance. Is it at school?/work?/anywhere else. Do you know what kind of music he likes? If you don't, ask him.  Maybe you'll find a common interest. Just say,"Hey! What's up! So what kind of music do you like?"
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Yeah, I totally have a crush on my bestfriend's boyfriend, he's so hott!  U handle the situation by being a good friend don't do anything, not like i would ever get the chance, but friends first.
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It's obvious you like him and he absolutely likes you too, the problem is you are both afraid to come clean. Let me tell you a story, my cousin really liked this in high school but she was really shy and he thought she would embarrass him so they never spoke, until college, she saw him at the library and they finally spoke to each other, reminiscing on the past they both brought up some things about high school, she told him that she had a crush on him and to her surprise he was madly in love with her, he told her how he'd admire when she'd walk by and she told him that she would stare him down when she saw him. Unfortunately they never got to be together because he was happily engaged to girlfriend and she was already involved. So the moral of the story is, if you see something that you want, go for it, it may work to your advantage. Good luck
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if you guys are best friends then there might be a chance that he might be thinkin the same way as you. build the courage and just tell him your feelins. if he's really your best friend then he wont hate you, or avoid you.
150691
You can feel it just in you! People just tell you things cause they are jealous. Just follow what you want. :) HE IS JUST TO SCARED TO ADMIT IT.
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you should definately tell him . it happened to me too. its great if he's your friend because you already know a lot about eachother and your comfortable with eachother already so definately go for it! dont worry about it.
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Oh, kind of an embarrasing situation. I would first talk to my best friend about it. Have her pave the way and tell u if he fancies u or not. If u get a positive feedback, start by taking him out to a movie or something along with your friend, once things are cool, u guys can start the real dating
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falling in love with my best friend, and knowing that he loves me back
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there's this guys that's like my best friend and i'm not sure if i like him or not, but i wouldn't tell him cuz i don't want to take chances with our friendship :P