my ex g/f wants to start dateing again and i still love her but i dont know if i can fully trust her?
600938
Be careful with that. If she is just lookin for another guy or something you don't want to get hurt. She first needs to gain all your trust back, I think before you should start dating her again, unless you want to get hurt.
926483
I don't think it's a case of her swallowing her pride, if you were the one who wanted to play the field. She's being cautious. If it were me I'd probably do the same thing. Actions speak louder than words. If she were eager to jump back into a relationship with you, she'd be there. I'd go on with my life if I were you. Going through "everything" together does form a bond, but that isn't a basis for a lasting romantic relationship. If it's meant to be you WILL end up together. If it happens, forget the past and start fresh. Good luck to you both!
96482
If she is your EX, then she isn't cheating on you.  And if she is an EX, why would you care what she thinks?  Obviously, you are better off with this woman being your EX, leave it alone and move on, you are better off without all this mess!
1116536
if you really think that in her heart she really wants you back, maybe going on a few dates may send a different message to her - that you really don't care about her as much as you said. She seems as if she is taking her time to think about what happened with your relationship and if its a good idea to reconcile. The important thing is that you've been sincere and you let her know how much you love her and would like a second chance, give her as much time as you think to make her decesion, but waiting too long will prevent you from moving on with your life
366542
The question is does she love you back?  How long were you dating before you broke up?  Me?  I had a relationship for 7 years and I still love him but we grew apart.  I realize now that I love the idea of being with the person I once knew.  If you have not spoken to her in 2 years, she is probably not the person you fell in love with anymore.  I would err on the side of moving on!  Nothing will ever be the same as the relationship that you had with this person.  I guarantee it.  But don't let that close your heart to new and better relationships.  Use what you had with her as a learning experience.  Don't compare her to the other women you date.  That is a fatal mistake.  I know its hard ,but you have to move on with your life in your mind, your spirit and your body.  Please don't hold your relationship with her on a pedestal.  Clear your heart and keep moving!\n*Muah*
360904
just forget about your ex. she broke up with her man and now wants you!! dude, you are worth more than that. Maybe you should give yourself a break from the gf drama and just date this girl or just be friends for now. Time is good for yourself right now cause it is obvious you still have feelings about your ex and this is not fair to you or the new chick. It is called rebound. Give yourself a break dude, even you deserve the best so take time to heal.
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.
813544
How do you learn to trust again?\n\nThe easy but true answer is the Nike Response:  "Just Do It."\n\nRemind yourself that your current partner is not the one who wronged you, and your current partner shouldn't pay for your ex's betrayal.\n\nOwn your feelings and actions.  You CAN help jumping to conclusions.  You steer your life; your life doesn't steer you.\n\nYou have to relive your past as long as you decide that's what you want to do.\n\nDecide to be happy instead.\n\nGood luck and best wishes with your new relationship!
176606
You and her are a totally different relationship from any relationship she has had in the past.  You honestly have no reason to not trust her until she cheats on you.  People grow up and people change.  If you judge someone by their prior relationships then you aren't being fair to them and giving your relationship an honest chance.  Stop worrying about this or you will create a problem that doesn't yet exist.  Life is too short to waste worrying about something that might happen.
913285
If the two of you were broke up at the time, there is no need to question her activities.  If you are really starting over, focus on the future, not the past.
429687
you shold be able to tell if you dont, then there probably is a reason for doubt... and you should ask her. why not?\nand... she's your ex? you don't knowif she cares about you? that's unusual.
931603
i sure hope so because, im in the same situation and although you want to date around, ect., there is still that small chance of getting her back or realizing you are the one. dont push it but at the same time, dont wait. best!
307926
First, you need to make sure that she is not under the impression that there is any chance you guys could get back together. Remember you broke up for a reason and if it was a stupid one than maybe you should reconsider the relationship. Another thing you need to be careful of is that fact that she may be very unstable if after 2 yrs she is still crying over your separation. By now she should of moved on at least a little bit. I'm not saying that she should be with someone and madly in love. I am saying that she should of by now, come to the realization that there is nothing more there. Another problem may be if she hasn't seen you move on, this may fuel the flame sort of speak. If she sees the fact that you are single and not looking she may think that you are just waiting for the right time to get back together with her. Hopefully this helps......
270871
Ask her! If she is worth marrying you should be able to trust her? Right?!
245840
i have been in the same situation, but it takes time and you being honest to her. you will eventually get the trust back
271160
If I was you I wouldn't take her back. If she did it the first time, shes gonna do it again!. Find a real woman that will respect you and love you. You sound like a good guy, You deserve better!!I always think if you are not sure about something, don't do it.. SHE WORTH'S NOTHING! Trust Me!\n\nGood Luck. Hope you find the right one :)
158846
Yes forgive her, but move on without her.  You will never be able to truly trust her again.