nice answer sweet seduction---------how do u get up the guts to say what u wanna say to a guys face?
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It has very little to do with guts sweetie,it has more to do with self esteem, and knowing that I ultimately am responsible for how I am treated.
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I can't answer for everybody of course, but if I like a guy and want him to make a move I'll let him catch me looking at him, smile shyly and then look away quickly, as if I'm embarrassed that he caught me. I also might say hi to him and smile, or say something to get him talking. Good luck!
268672
Sweetheart, you want to be confident, but vulnerable.  compliment him and laugh at his jokes.  make eye contact for 3 consecutive seconds.  most importantly be yourself!!!
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Just try to be yourself, and have confidence. I don't know any girl who doesn't like a man with confidence, but don't be cocky about it. Slip it in casually and don't make to much of a big deal about it. Something like "hey hows it goin? If you're free tonight did you want to (insert whatever you're asking her to)?" Whatever she says stay calm and say ok that's cool. And don't linger around for to long after, that makes things weird.. Good luck. =)
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Easy. Do not flirt around as if you are despo. Play it cool and easy. Indulge yourself and do things to grab his attention. When he is with others, quietly join the group and indulge in the conversation. Make some smart comments, try to show a bit of attitude. Believe me this works.
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sometimes guys can't figure out what to say to a girl.  ask him a question, his response may give you a clue into how he feels about you.  including him into the conversations is one way that you can establish contact with a shy person, without coming right out and saying, "So... do you like me, or what?"  establishing conversation is the best bet for you, I would bet on it!  Guys also aren't like girls, they don't like other people's "he said... She said..." comments as much.  It doesn't accomplish anything for you either.  If you think he's cute, but you've really never spoken to him, you may find out that you're looking at the wrong type of guy for you, once you get to know him.  Get to know him, then worry about the rest.
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guys are simple, most of them liken unto animals so the simplest approach would be the best. Simply say "I,ve notice you and was wondering ,totaly open and give him a way out, cause we feel at ease like that, if there was something you found about me you would care to know more about. Then even toss in there that you would like to know whats up with him, that would let him feel accepted and eased and let you have a moment not on the spot. Simply bring up the ? of the matter is basicly the best way to approach a guy cause we are simple carbin units waiting for an oppurtunity
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Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
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Hi. Then make some kind of general comment. Small talk usually works best to build a illusion of a relationship and then bring on the lines. This may or may not work, but it's better than walking up to a girl and saying "hey baby, wanna fuck?"
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well, u just have to make way on ur shynessor ur never gonna get to hook up w/no1.....just be nice, smile, make sweet jokes..just go for it dude! in the nicest way u can, have that in mind, cus we like to be approached nicely, dont be shy but dont u ever try to get our attention ridiculizing us in front of others, for a change, thats completly not correct if u want to get through ur shyness w/chicks...just be urself in the nicest way u can ok!
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What do I like to talk about. What am I interested in?\n\nMe.\n\nAsk guys about themselves. Listen. When it's your turn to talk, tell him about your feelings, be honest, but make your point and stop. Then ask him questions about things he's talked about and listen some more.
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just start off with something to make her laugh or compliment her. i know thats what makes me want to talk to a guy...it even leaves me wantin 2 talk 2 him more sumtimes. Hope this helped
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sorry but that is the answer, you have to fight that shyness and be bold.  it doesn't have to come out as forceful.  Maybe your hints were too subtle.  Just casually mention, 'i really like you,' and just go on with the conversation. it doesn't have to focus on that issue. just be calm.
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I cant say anything,only this:\nIt happened when a man cant be enough brave! What do u wait for????? U know, some girls,women cant or dont wanna do the 1. step. And i think, its urs, i mean men's way to tell it if they want something from a girl. So let u go shopping, buy a nice card with flows, and a big ,very tasty choch,and go home very fast. When u arrived, go into ur room, and creat a little, not long poem only for her! If u cant , plz search in the net. After u have to write 1-2 sentences abt her beauty, and abt what u like in her. After sign it, and do them into a sweet ,little box, and take a little photo abt u in it,too, dedicated for "the nicest blonde girl in the world", and plz dont forget to write ur phone number or email address in it!. Take this box into ur car, and go for a ride, around the campus,untill u will find her.Or take this box into ur pocket and bring it always with u untill u will see her again!!!! And if she is near u, dont waste any time,go  and tell her some sweet word and give the box to her. After u can go, and i hope she will use ur address or number soon! Best luck! Maybe if u will try it, i'd be very happy if u will send me a mess, how was it....
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Approach him!  You are a woman, prove it and be the assertive one!  Who says a guy has to make the first move??  ;)
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
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Girl, you need to be brave. IT ISN'T EASY! approach 'Him' and say, "Hi." and if he says hi, then you say, "Hows it going?" And if he says good, then you start out in SIMPLE conversation. Make him feel acquainted. Then, you say, "Wanna get together sometime?" And if he says yes, you say, "Cool, when?" If he says no, you say, "Well, maybe some other time I guess." If he says, "uh-uh-uh-uh s-sure," then you are in luck. If he doesn't want to talk to you or anything, you just say, "I hope we can be friends sometime." You approach him like this: You see him, you walk over. Thats all there is to it. Good Luck Girl.