I havent had a boyfriend forever and i dont know why im young and nice and i have guy friends someone help me?
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hope this doesn't sound obvious, but maybe your just not ready yet, relax, you're normal:)
277308
Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
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I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
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hey dont beat yourself up over it ..im 18 and never had a bf  and i consider myself a really nice person..i guess the saying goes nice guys finish last which is a shame...maybe your trying to hard and it just doesnt work out when your with a girl ..you cant compare yourself with your friends because everyone is different...looks arent everything most girls are looking for a good personality and someone that will treat them nice...some girls are looking for the so called "bad boy" type which really gets them no where.. maybe your looking in the wrong places ..you can always try a dating service which my cousin did shes 32 ..she has met some nice ppl and shes now getting married to the guy from the dating service..or just ask some girl that you are attracted...just be yourself and have confidence in yourself..dont go up to the girl thinking why dont girls like me ..just take your time your young
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Be yourself, if you are fake, guys will know!\n\nAnother point of fact is, you don't need a boyfriend, you are whole as you are, so stop being desperate.\n\nWinning something has nothing to do with getting a boyfriend, you can be pretty on the outside, and seriously ugly on the inside, are you ugly on the inside?
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you dont say how old you are, but i guess you're young so i would say just be yourself and dont feel pressured to have a boyfriend. when its right you will know and things will just flow with the right person without you having to try hard. So just see how it goes and then you can decide if he is the right guy for you or if you are ready for a relationship. good luck
43497
The fact that you're asking this question reveals that you are still quite young.  Don't worry so much about getting a "boyfriend" at this point.  There will be plenty of time for that later.
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Hello Adri ----\n\nYeah, you seem 2 be in your teens or early twenties.\n\nListen, .....don't pay attention to all the ladies here telling you that men are trash and are no good.....they say that because that's the kind of guy that they've dated before and went through the same stuff as you are going through right now. \n\nEveryone in their life receives a "Broken Heart"......and it's like graduating. Someone showed you that life is not all roses, my dear. ....however , do not think that ALL Boys or Men are slime....because we are not the same. \n\nThis "guy" that dumped you for no apparent reason did not truly appreciate you as a person......maybe he looked at you for what you had and not for the person that you are. \n\nPlease do not be bitter......but look at this as a learning experience, not as a disappointment. If you were the best girlfriend that you could be.....that's all that can be expected of you....is to try your best, young one. \n\nMen and Women can be so negative towards each other because we let emotions and feeling get in the way. However, we fail to look at ourselves and realize how lucky and unique we are as individuals. \n\nBe the beautiful person that you've always been....and never, ever let anyone break your spirit, ok ?? \n\nPeace and Harmony 2 U    :-D \n\nSincero.
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well first of all don't put your self down  like that. even though i don't know u i think that u aare a nice guy becccaues any girl would love to have boyfriend like u that does care about that girl even though she left u try to find someone better becaues she wasn't the girl for u but she will notice what she lost it will be to late but she will notice it and she will be soory because there aren't any guys like that anymore well there is but not much but she will know what she lost and u will find someone that aprciates u and that won't have a bf while going out with u well g2g email me if u need anything later take care
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having a boyfriend has its ups and downs and it is nice to have one, but you're still an adolescent. patience is a virtue. someone will eventually find you.
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It is okay to have some time between relationships with guyes.  Hang out with your girl friends, be nice to yourself and  treat your self.  Work on your shyness by voluteering for things that gets you out of your shell,  talk to people.  \nThe best place to meet nice guyes is in church.  God loves you and if you go to church, God will bring nice guyes into your life.  You are probably a nice girl, dont settle for a scum-bum over the internet.
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My answer is . . . dump his A**.\n\nBut I do have a question for you . . . is why do you have a boyfriend . . . you are too young to have a boyfriend.\n\nPlus . . . what do you want to do in your life . . . have a well paid career or ask if I would like paper or plastic. You tell me.\n\nI tell guys . . . don't get married - - don't even be in a serious relationship with a girl. . . until you have fulfilled your career goals . . . because if they do . . . their girlfriends are going to complain that you spend too much time at work or school and don't spend enough time with them. (This can be reversed)\n\nSo what do you do . . . sacrifice your education or career and for them and then they will complain that you spend too much time with them . . . you are smothering them. (it is a double-edge sword)\n\nAll the boyfriend is going to do is waste your time and money . . . and when you make serious mad money . . . when you are in your mid 30's . . . you can afford the best.\n\nI hope you take this into mind . . . don't get into a serious relationship . . . you really should have a boyfriend . . . if you expect to do good in college. . . and I am not talking community college . . . I am talking University . . . you should expect the best of yourself . . . and you will get the best man for yourself later down the line . . . someone with the same dreams and goals as you.
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Well it depends on the guy you're looking for. Guys really like it when you can relate to them about something. It's hard to start a relationship or keep one going if you don't have something to talk about. And always show that you're interested. If you don't have a boyfriend right now then it can't get any worse if u try so it's always worth trying to get a boyfriend. You don't have to be hott to get a boyfriend, be yourself and as long as you try everything'll fall inot place. Give it time, be patient. Everything'll work out.\n\nGood Luck!
600556
Your to young to have boyfriends.  Go out with your girlfriends and make fun memories don't stress over boys and the drama that comes with them.
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It sounds like you are scared that what happened with your one boyfriend may happen with the next guy you fall for.  So take a moment step back and don't rush in to anything with anyone.  If you can manage it even take some time off for yourself and enjoy life.  Hang out with your friends or even your family and let your mind clear up.  Give it time and if you meet someone take it slow and let things mature and if it works out then great.  Otherwise if you do go out with a guy make sure to let them know that right now you are not looking for anything serious but are great with being friends first.  \n\nEither way don't rush it as fate (if you believe in it) will drop a bomb on you and next thing you know you are dating.
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im a girl so yea im anwsering as a friend lol but your really pretty or i mean your avatar i think you have a very good chance of getting a boyfriend if you already dont have one
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sweetheart, you sound like your 25 and going through a mid-life crisis...Don't "look" for any of that, just let it happen.  I know at your age <<under 16 right>> you may feel ready for a relationship, but your much better off with a guy friend than a boyfriend.  Think about the important things like school, friends, parties, fashion....Trust me, boys are trouble....Don't end up with someone and get pregnant at an early age, there is more to life than that....Look for that care and love from your family, you'll be better off.....If your reading this and thinking that you've heard this all before its because its true.....trust me i would know...