i think im a lesbian. im haveing lesbian thoughts about my friend i just want to hear her moan wot should i do
612859
Phycalogy, saids if you are having thought about the same sex or dreams in a sexal way that it is complety fine everyone has them it human nature, And those that say they don't or never have are just lieing to there trueself about being human. Every-one has those thought at one piont in thier life or another. If you have been having these thoughts for as long as you can remember then it a posabilty that you are. Another way you can tell is if you have to force yourself to date the oppist. sex & in that relationship you can't force yourself to ever get seriuos with that person other than a kisses,hugs and hand holding even if they try everything under the sun. So the best answer I can give you is just be true to your real-self & listen to the little voice in your head and heart and you are the only-one that knows the real answer to this question.
372787
i feel as if sum my girl mates fancy me n dey flirt wid me n evfin den it starts gettin me do feel little sumin 4 dem bt i dnt think i bi or lesbian. bt dey drag me in and i cnt pull myself out
971556
You say she is Not a lesbian or bisexual.  You and her are both lying to yourselves.  She is just that.\nIf she is this upset about it, then she should go to a therapist to discuss her feelings and set a plan to come to grips with her sexuality.
700977
Sounds like you need to explore and learn more about yourself to satisfy your curiosity.  I believe two females can please each other quite well...just as well as a man.  If you like her more than being with a man, then fine.  Who's to say what your preferences are supposed to be?  Like the rest of us, you are just human.  It's for you to decide.  You don't need to label yourself as gay or anything.  You are just you.  Cheating is a matter of personal beliefs, but some might see it that way.  My feeling is that if you are truly wanting to try, then find an equally curious friend and just enjoy each others company and see where it goes.  You can just take one day at a time.  Relax & enjoy!\n\nBecause you are unsure of your feelings about all this right now.  I'd just keep it to yourself until you have a better sense of how your really feel.  Even after your additional details, I don't recommend bringing him into the mix right now.  Like you mentioned, too many things can go wrong.  No need to stir the pot right now.  Better to keep this a private matter for now.  If things progress, there will be plenty of time to tell him your thoughts and feelings if need be.
884692
If you don't know what her reaction is going to be, or even if she homophopic or not, you'll have to come up with something so you can start a discussion with her to see where she stands as far as gay people go, i suggest this so you'll know what she thinks before you say something to her about being attracted to her.
113990
how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
1048141
I dont think you can ask her to become a lesbian.  Like "hey you wanna be a lesbian with me". If shes not a lesbian already shes not a lesbian.
225099
well apparently you are not straight.  You might scared her if she does not have the same feelngs.  so lose a good friend or tell her how you feel and she feels the same way.  vey scary.........maybe ask her questions that might help you to decide how to make a move or not.  good luck
524173
hey take a chill pill.... its absolutely normal to fantasize bout another girl.... dont feel bad about it. be aware of your sexuality and preferences. live the way u wanna live.... n dream wat u want.... u live only once... so live life to the fullest.
54020
i can undersatnd why u feel so......i myself hav felt so very often.\ni think u ought to go and talk things out wid ur frnd.coz if u dont do so, sometimes if someday u lose ur friend, u shall regret abt not having given the relationship the care and treatment it needed. no dont avoid her coz of ur pride. but if she avoids u too much even if u hav been a very gud frnd to her,then if i were in ur place i dont think i wud hav continued seekin her attention. i think in suach a cse it wud b better to try and presrve the other frndships tht i hav........
2621
u sound like u r a homo-sexual just ask her wear she got them
739469
If you want to know if someone else is a lesbian, ask her.\n\nIf you want to know if you are a lesbian then answer this quick checklist:\n\nDo you want to f*ck women?\nDo you have sexual feelings about women?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of women?\n\nIf you answered yes to one or more of these questions then you are a lesbian or bisexual woman.  If you answered no, then you are straight.  Next ask yourself:\n\nDo you want to f*ck men?\nDo you have sexual feelings about men?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of men?\n\nIf you answered Yes to one or more of these questions, then you are bisexual.  If you answered no to all of the above then you are a lesbian.
1010828
what a biatch, sounds like one of those teasers. She might tease you forever. But you still have a  chance buddy, make her jealous. Invite her to join you and another female friend. Ask her to help you out.
612700
You cannot force your sexuality onto someone else...they will resent it even though under other circumstances they might be amenable.  You have to discuss it with her, apologize for what you did, and, if she forgives you, than ask if she might be interested.
791572
Go to a lesbian chat room.
547415
are u gay? thats what she deserves, so long as you let her call the shots. you force yourself on her thats rape.
436940
Well if you're not what u say you are then just be honest and tell her who you are.  But this is the Internet so there are two possible situations in which you might want to take greater care.  1.) if you're a lesbian, fine.  but if you're a lesbian and you have feelings for her- don't tell her about it.  I mean, she can know about your sexuality but if she's straight there's no reason to try anything with her.  that's like a four year old who has a crush on his teacher.  What's the point in saying so?  she wouldn't date him anyway.  \n2.) if you're really a man?  she'd probably not speak to you again.  if you want to continue being her friend, keep pretending.\n\nif it isn;t either of those, then spill the beans in a non confrontational way and don;t offer excuses for not telling her sooner- just apologize.