Falling for someone too soon?
597555
My personal philosophy has always been to jump in the water whole body, that way you get used to the cold faster.  I met my now husband and new I loved him before we ever dated.  We were married less than 6 weeks into our relationship and are still just as in love as we were then, 2 years into it.  I think sometimes people take too long to try to get to know each other and then if they do get married they have too much baggage from single life.  I say just jump in, if you heart gets broken, don't worry there is a towel just over there to dry yourself and your eyes and the towel boys kinda cute too, huh.  Best wishes
350044
try to make that person feel how much he/she means to u...in ur own little ways..ive experienced that and im tellin u mine was harsh coz after realizin my mistake he told me he's got gf already, just after 2 weeks! that was my first time to cry! and it hurts! damn lol but if u really want someone,its worth a shot..u only live once,.why not risk..who knows, he might also realize how much u mean to him
510426
I am in the same boat. There is this guy who I am totally falling for, but we are taking things slow...as in just friends for now...slow. We talk, we laugh, we just have fun, we have so much in common, including our birthdays...LOL. I would take it as a definite sign that you are head over heels in love and that you just want to spend every waking moment with that person. Don't worry, you're not alone, I know exactly how you feel right now.
751675
nope never to soon to be in love and never to late. \n as far as your relationship goes if at this point your feeling UN easy about saying it then don't just wait but you certainly say i am really getting to like you more and more that sort of thing but love is wonder full and powerful like a great rapids don't jump in with out looking at the water and finding a good spot to start off even then watch out for rocks and under tows
193739
you can, or you can wait and get to know each other better. especially if you dont want to end up dating someone who actually likes someone else. you've got plenty of time before you need to start worrying about this stuff...i know most people are dating by this time, but i waited till i felt i was more mature and the relationship would actually mean something, and i'm very happy that i did.
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
988628
Just let it happen naturally.  The more you think about it the more you will stress and it probably won't be the right time if you over analyze it.  Relax.  Enjoy the relationship you have and let the words flow naturally.  Your soul will speak when the time is right, don't let your mind or heart rush too fast.  \nHappy for you that you found love.  :)
646644
I use to.... I never thought that I would fall in love with anyone.  I really wasn't interested in having a long term relationship.  Then one day it just happened, I becames great friends with a man that I thought was a total dork at first.  One day our frienship blossomed into much more.  It will happen when you least expect it, so my advise is to just have fun and don't go looking for love.  It will find you  :)
981717
Hey have u ever heard the term opposites attract.... sounds vague isnt it because u enjoy with the like minded guy more... but someday it will get boring sharing similar  thoughts all the time because sometimes u just feel like getting out of your world into a new world. In your case i would suggest as a friend to play a waiting game for some more days. Your heart will surely give you an answer and it would not take more than a week. All the best.
148259
I dunno, how fast is too fast? Is there any standard period when someone can say I love you? Maybe you can try dating more with this guy and know him much better. Maybe after that you can tell...
399234
hi, see life is very short you will never knw that in future who and hw anybdy will come in your life but the right nw u like that guy as long as you concern you are pretty happy with that guy so dont think anything else just do what your heart says bcz you wont feel bad after you lose the chance to spend some time with that person to whom you like to be with...........just goooooooooooo
494332
If you've only met once then I would be very nervous. to say you're in love with someone that soon is too stalker like for my taste.
814747
There's no "right" time. It just happens. Hopefully you decide to have your first time with someone you really care about or love even. If you're asking this question...you're not ready.
374607
Maybe you fall in love with the idea of love.  You're probably an optimist (like me) and can recognize something lovable in a person in a short period of time. However, what time and experience will give you is the discernment to determine what kind of love it is or to what degree you love the person... whether it's an infatuation, a crush, a sexual attraction, a deep commitment.  My advise is to find out what you want out of a romantic love relationship first. Be clear on this and when the right person/right kind of love stares you in the face, you will recognize it.
708879
you are doing the right thing... she's hurt, it ll take her time to trust anyone... even ppl like u who has good intentions.. well if u really feel u ve met the right person, its worth the wait... but be prepared for the worst too... its upto u, whether u think the wait is a waste of time... midly (not in ur face) prove to her u are worthy of her trust.. i hope u like this woman !!! anywyz, good luck with it :)
302206
It's normal, but take your time and enjoy the moment now. Those things will come. If your in a rush to get all that now, you may regret it later.
1131650
falling for someone who was out to hurt me