How do you become a good lier & suck up to adults you're not related to?
603022
its never wise to lie to an adult ,you will 9 times out of 10 get caught and adults are not usually so stupid as not to notice when they are being sucked upto ,so my advice is forget it, your more likely tobe liked for who you are than you are for trying tobe someone your not .
133498
dont touch your face or cover your mouth, dont dart your eyes, dont pause, dont fidget, these are all tells, dont ever say i swear or any thing like that just keep it simple and to the point. and if you really want to lie well convince yourself. use this advise only for good.\n\n\nand if you dont want all the hastle dont lie.
79125
try fast food. good place to learn to put up with people who think they're more important than they really are...lol. no really, good work exp. there.
196539
i've done that before..but i knew them for 6 yrs before i did it! thats a long time..but this is what i did..i went up to them and i told them they werent the type of person i want to be my friend or be in my life..and there not a good person in the inside..and than i said im sorry but can you just leave me alone..im sorry\n\nwell thats it....Hope I Helped!
1161957
This really hits me close to home because I have gotten on peoples nerves by pretending to be something I am not to be well liked well received as well as to get attention.\n\nI have "put up a front" because I have been hurt or I wanted to impress someone or be accepted and popular.\n\nTake your friend aside speaking the truth in love and ask him/her why they are acting differently? Encourage them to be themselves, there is nothing more refreshing or more genuine than a person who chooses to be themselves and be comfortable with who they are as a person.\n\nPeople have taken the time to speak with me privately and because of that I am learning just to be the person God made me any more or less would be a step out of His plan.\n\nI don't know who old you and your friend are but as a teenager young people want to be secure and feel special and accepted by their peers and sometimes people will try to the ends of the earth to impress people, but the bottom line and I am learning this in my mid 30s id not everyone in life is going to like you and you are not going to be well received by God.\n\nEncourage your friends to work with what they have and use the resources that God gives them. There is an old saying bloom where you are planted. Be encouraged
55887
you must be honest and open to them.  don't ever let them find out on their own; thats just bad. if its for a job most places require you to tell them when you fill out the application. if the offense was against an adult you have a better chance of getting more understanding than those with which was convicted against a child. speaking as one who's been offended you should really be brutally honest. you might be working to get trust bigtime from whomever you tell, but you shouldn't hide it and there is no easy way to  tell them but don't lie about it. keeping it from them would be a lie.
968259
here's something my grandfather told me to do when i was little about lying. \nEach time I lie I have to pinch myself or have a friend pinch me.
1148174
Be professional and mature and remember to think as the higher person because the person who is making fun of you is obviously extremely low and you don't need to stoop to their level.  Just tell them you do not appriciate what they are doing and walk away from it.  It really makes you look like much of a stronger person.
304483
*HINT* \n\nKids liked to be talked to as adults and they love to be listened too, most adults ignore them or tell them to shut up, they just need to be treated with the same respect. Have fun.
132427
They really aren't your friends. Ditch them and find people who can be real.
510890
Why is it that the nice guys and gals get crapped on.  I work in a factory where the same kind of thing goes on all the time.  One person won't speak to you because you speak to someone they don't like and so on.  Sounds like you work with a few kindergarten mentality people.  The way I deal with this foolishness is to tell the "children" I speak to whomever I chose to and if you don't like it, too bad.  Being in my mid-40's, my selective hearing is very well developed so I tune out the trash talk and gossip. I also tell myself, I don't have to take these people home with me. Be glad yours is only a part time job, imagine 40 hours a week with such childish ignorant behavior.
261733
i usually tell them there's a "responsible" adult there and give them their phone number. bring some of my friends home to get to know my mom. just don't do anything that would get you in major trouble...trust me!
902913
Just be honest..or make better friends that aren't trailer trash...
675658
I can't understand how adults behave this way. That means their minds still immature. Ignore their behavior, enjoy your life. Create your own world and live in peace. Sometimes people who are not of your relatives are more kind and gentle so create good relationships with others. Always help people, one day someone will be there for you.\n\nAt this time don't make their attitude put you down. Whenever you talk to any of them, just show them how happy you are for them that they are independent and have their own jobs, show them how proud you are that you have such sisters, ask them how they are feeling in their new job, and whether they need any help, just be kind to them, one day they will care. Never show that you are feeling bad that you don’t have job. Don't forget to pray for God to help you, he is always there to hear you, and keep on looking for a job and hopefully sooner or later you will get one.\n\nWishing you the best of luck!
942016
Not enough information, such as how old you are, or if you're living at home. I'm guessing you're 14. Anyway, you can't make them go away, but you CAN make them lose interest in you by not reacting to anything they say. Get a life - like join a sport club or some group, or maybe get a job. Those things really are more interesting than a bunch of F.A.S.s. and if you are really busy, you'll foget about those losers.
1017900
ACT FRIENDLY.  Don't remind them of their visciousness.\n\nBut don't trust them about anything.
736242
Create a new account and be a good person.