My best friend(who is a guy) loves me but I have a boyfriend...?
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Make a list (lists rock!). Put each boy's name on a seperate side. Then put good qualities starting at the top and bad qualities starting at the bottom. See who stacks up better.\nBut honestly, who treats you better? Who do you think about more when you daydream? Who makes you smile without even trying? Who is nicer to you? Who is the easiest to talk to? Who matches up to you the best in wishes and dreams? Stuff like college, kids, family, religion, likes and dislikes. Yeah, you prolly aren't ready for the kids and 2 story house yet, but dating is a process of finding what kind of guy you want to be with forever. Don't stay with a jerk. Don't date guys that are selfish or put you down. If they are mean to other people or their family, that's a bad sign too. And when in doubt, follow your gut!
1066733
you shouldnt tell your friend about anything you and boyfriend do.\nthat way you can keep your boyfriend and your best friend.
657297
It is obvious that you care for his guy. So tell him that. Tell him that you love and care for him but not with the passion that a girlfriend should have for a boyfriend. Tell him that you know it will be hard to change the level of your friendship one notch down...but you still want him to be your friend because he is your best friend.\n\nI know that this maybe hard for you to do..it will hurt you both but think of it this way...suppose he too want you only as a friend as well and is also afraid to hurt you?
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Is your best friend male or female.\n\nIf it's a male and not gay, your boyfriend does not understand your realtionship with your male friend, you need to break it down for him. Make him feel less ensure about you relationship with him.\n\nIf your best friend is a female, he may sincerely not like her attitude of ways. Try to convince him that she does not mean to offend him. That is the way she is with every one unless she is seeing something that you don't. \nPlease tell him not to make you chose between a friend you have known for years and him who you like a lot.\n\nTell him you are only trying to make the two people that you really care about to be able to tolerate each other. \n\nDon't make it a habit of inviting your friend with you all the time. You will give your boyfriend the wrong impression.
961146
if his cuter than your boyfriend, leave your boyfriend and get his best friend;) go girl! go!
555496
dude the guy never liked you.... why you stressing?\n\nmove on.. obsessions like that are unhealthy.. find someone who's as crazy about you as you are about them. You can't get mad if the guy liked your best friend, he's entitled to like whoever he choses. \nif he was your boyfriend and liked your friend secretly then u'd have a problem but so far no problem.. get over it
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I WOULD PICK MY BEST FRIEND. WHY WOULD SHE LIE TO YOU?, AND OF COURSE HE IS GOING TO "SWEAR" THAT HE DIDN'T BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT YOU FIND OUT. YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BEST FRIEND BY STAYING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND WHO SHE SAYS IS A "CHEATER", AND YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BOYFRIEND BY CHOOSING YOUR BESTFRIEND WHO HE SAYS IS A "LIAR". DON'T BE BLINDED BY LOVE, AND REMEMBER TO LOOK AT THE FACTS, BECAUSE EVERYTHING WILL COME OUT EVENTUALLY. YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE ULTIMATE DECISION.GOOD LUCK!!
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He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
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Hi. I am Renee. I have some advice for you. Ask your friend or your best friend to ask this special guy's best friend or friend if he likes you. If your friend "reports" that his friend doesn't know, then ask him yourself. I had that happen to me once. I asked him . And guess what? He became my boyfriend 2 days later. Hope you follow my advice!!
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I understand that you are merely trying to protect your bestfriend and make him realize that she's not the right girl for him .... i guess he would be protecting her because he's in love with his girlfriend.  Maybe she was being mean to you because she's jealous about your relationship with her man. Hey, that's human nature... she probably sees you as a threat.  Just let them be, maybe someday he will realize all these .... and mind you, these things don't usually last .... give them a few months :)
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How old are you? I get the feelin that you're not that mature. Your BEST FRIEND broke up with her boyfriend and youre already  in the line to get him? C'mon, you're kidding. Of course she's mad at you! Don't go out with him if you wanna keep this girl as your friend. Haven't you heard; guys come and go, friends are forever.
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
219083
Well..We don't want your boyfriend to get jealous...Who ever you have feelings for the most, go for...But know that you will probably damage their friendship...And ask yourself is it worth it...
925853
Wow, ok first thing is the boyfriend probably has a right to be jealous...if you and your best friend are as close as it sounds, I'd be jealous too. You need to step back a little bit, they are in a relationship and you should keep the friendship boundaries in tack. Dont over step them. Also, if you feel your best friend looks at you a little differently then he should...talk to him about it, honestly, if he is your best friend you should be able to talk to him about anything. Keep in mind, he is taken and you have to watch it when your hanging around him....best friends last forever, but when someone else is involved things get messy and the best thing for you to do is stay his best friend....emphasize on Friend. If he wants to pursue more with you then he will do the right thing, if not...then let him and his boyfriend be in a relationship. Good Luck, I hope this helped a little
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This always seems to happen. Best friends are best friends because they like the same things...including guys. She isn't doing it to hurt you, she can't help the way she feels. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. See if he has any friends that she may be interested in. If you have a strong, open relationship with your friend, maybe you could talk to her & find out her intentions, tell her how much he means to you & warn her what it could do to your friendship if she tries anything on with him. Don't be mean about it though, not unless she intends to steal him from you.
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Why not? hes your best friend. My best friend and me are closer than her boyfriend.  Its best if i know other issues involved but for the question alone, i dont sense any reason why not go out.
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only u can decide..... no one can help u...... go with person who understands u better...one who is more caring,loving,protective,respects u.....and it also depends whether ur best friend likes u that way or not......give it some time......dont rush into anything