How do you stop loving someone who has fallen out of love with you????????
608794
Time and falling in love with someone else.
425646
awww :( i'm sorry...try to go back to the someone that you love....tell her how much you love her...if you want her back....6 years is a long time, and its not too late to save it from slipping away
10075
You cant, the only thing you can do is move on from it. If you really love someone, you will always love them no matter what.
196974
You can't force someone to love you.  Stop wasting all your time and energy on someone you can't have and who doesn't want you.  There are probably a ton of guys that would feel so lucky to have your love and would love you back so quit wasting your time and move on with your life.  It is his loss...
870425
I don't think that you can ever really fall out of love with someone.  Everytime you fall in love, you leave a little piece of your heart with them.  The best thing you can do is find something that can fill that empty dark hole.  Good luck.
917236
even though we say that he is no good for us..we still continue to miss and love that person..and that is the right way to heal..admit that you do or did love that person..next just reassure yourself that you WILL be fine..if you need to cry.. cry..let it out...I wish I could tell you move on..but the truth is that the sh*t hurts like hell..you heart is hurting..part of you feel like you cant go on...\nit took me 2 years to get over a guy that i feel in love with..I remember those sleepless nights..all to well..I loved that guy soo much and it hurt me to know that he could sleep with me and act like he wanted me ..but thats all he wanted was to sleep with me...and to be honest from time to time I still think about him....but today i am glad that we are not together...he is who he is and he likes what he likes...I have moved on but honestly if I see him today..i know that apart of me will melt..sometimes in life we have that one guy that just does this sh*t to us....treat us like sh*t..uses us only for sex..cheats.. lie..and all in all we still fall in love with them and they make us weak in the knees....he is one that we surrender to..\ngive it time...just accept all the emotions you are going through.\npray...good luck
473362
That's a pretty messed up person u're talking about...u're obviously so in love with him...u need to decide to stop loving him...and getting on to better people who deserve that kind of love..\n\ndo not assume u know what he wants deep down...plus u being available to him now...will make him want to go back to u less...if what u r saying is true u need to be unavailable so that he has to break up with her to b with u again...and try to relate what's going on with the reason he broke up w/u in the 1st place
50434
Contemplate and think about the reasons that led up to you feeling that you need to part from them.  Then think about what you want to say very carefully and then tell him.  After you tell him that you don't want to be with him anymore and then why, cut off all communication.
870844
I've never stopped loving anyone I've been in love with.\n\nThat said, some relationships just are not healthy. I just left one 10 months ago, even though I was in love with them and they were in love with me.\n\nIt has been extremely hard dealing with. I still have to be around them at the dojo, which makes it much worse.\n\nTime does make things better. I can now talk pleasantly with one of them. The other may too, someday.\n\nIt still hurts, but not as much as it did. I still would like to go back to them, but the reasons I left haven't changed.\n\nSo I just deal with it, day by day.
1184616
that already happened to me...its very difficult to get over this guy...specially if he always talks to you..i bet he only thinks of you as a friend, so when he comes talk to you, always smile and be nice (because someday..act like a friend...but you should try to replace him... look for some new guys and eventually kiss them...make new friends and go out with them.... be sure to always be occupied and try to think of him the least possible... each day that passes you will see that your love will decrease...
938797
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
1085801
Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
554919
Start pulling away gradually.  Start doing things with your other friends but don't completely desert this guy either.  If he thinks he's in love with you, it would hurt a lot for you to suddenly ignore him.  Just spend less time with him and have shorter phone conversations, etc.  He will begin to see something is happenng in a short time and will be ready for a break.  Be kind just as you would want someone to be kind if they were breaking it off with you.
46666
Pancharito is right! I know you want to be friends with him, but you are in love with him. You will always be tempted to just crumble and tell him you want more. But you have to respect his wishes before those of your own if you truly do love him. *sigh* That's the part of love that is so hard. You'll never really fall out of love with him. But distancing yourself will make things easier for you. Get involved in activities you love and it will take your mind off of your heart. Besides, you might make some great new friends through your outside involvement. I do wish you luck........I know it is hard!
839019
I think you've done the best anyone can do to try and open him up and if he isn't then get rid of him. He will regret having lost someone as nice and good as you and there's nothing that will change, because you deserve better than him and if he isn't willing to try than move on. Find someone who will love you back, has feelings and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated (which is very good, just so you know). Good Luck
371213
The answer to your question is forgiveness...You must learn to forgive the love of your life...There had to be a possible reason why that person ignored you...You get past the hurt and pain by giving em another chance...I think you don't love that person..if you did u would of not given up on love \n\nI know what you are going thru...The love of my life is far away from me...but I still love him...Nothing can make me stop loving him...not even distance or time...Love is not easy..Love is a battlefield..
77634
You don't let go of love... love will let go of you.  When the time is right you move on & you won't even realize it until you see a picture or are reminded of them.. It may take months or years, but it will go faster if you don't try to hold onto it (don't think about them all the time, put up things that remind you of them)  .....  that is he best advice I have.. hope it helps you some.