Why cant I find him? Or ok will I ever get married? What do I do? I wanna be happy!?
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As to your question, "Will I get married?" ... I think yes, most certainly you will because that's what you want in life. About "Why can't I find him?" ... we all look for someone, just like you, so that means there's someone else out there looking for you. As for how do you find each other, you can only control you so my suggestion is ... be patient, see life with your eyes wide open and most important of all, be true to yourself and let others see you for who you really are. Sometimes the one searching for us can't see us because we're often trying to be someone we're not in the hopes a new image will help us find the one we seek.\nYour 'someone' is looking for you ... keep that smile you have and let them find you.
1018915
You will find him one day. Dont give up hope, keep your faith and keep looking, he will pop up someday.
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Grin and bear it, dear : And be on the lookout for an even better guy !\nThe world is full of nice guys, waiting to be found !
198211
He's going on a mission!!! Honestly, it is hard to move on.  Especially when it feels like you have found the one.  Just realize that he is probably someone else's future husband.  You are probably young and it won't matter.  Hey, if you are still around when he gets back from his mission, see how he feels then.  Don't wait for him though.  I would advise against that.  The chances of a girl waiting for a guy on his mission are 15% and the chances they will get married are less.  Anyway, tell him good luck and I will be seeing him out in the field in a little over a year.  Hope this helps.
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You are thinking too much about the wedding. How old are you? There are a lot things I need to know to explain what you have seen. But one thing is for sure that you are in the hunger for the touch of love, why don't you get married too? Let me know about you if there isn't any problem. You can find my contact information in the address below, that's my personal page.
810753
You have to keep living your life!  Go out and meet new people and have fun.  Don't wait around for him.  Good Luck.
286156
Is he married? Are you? If either is true change churches right now before anything happens. Both single? Ask a mutual friend to help.
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hey, that's cool that you're old fashioned.. hard to find. Just, care about him. ..um, if you know he's leaving, get his stuff together for him. Don't be so shy that you're trying to act like nothing's there.. but, don't push things, give it time. The most powerful and long lasting marriages, usually take quite a bit a time in the making. They don't just come over night. The whole "love at first sight" only takes place in fairy tales, because how could you love the person, if you don't know them yet? Give it time. Just be there for him. Don't be afraid to be friends first.. if it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be. if it does.. aren't you glad you didn't rush into things? Hope this helps you some. take care. :)
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I understand where you are coming from and I too am single and feel that I will be forever unless I do something pretty soon!. I am a very lovely and single, beautiful 33 year old and grown out of pubs and clubbing where there are streams of teenagers and mid twenties.  \n\nThere is no where in my town appropriate for people of my age socializing-wize and used to meet my partners whilst at University so now I am no longer a student, this makes things akward again!.  Everywhere I go, I see married couples and loved-up youngsters or singles like myself. Most are all now on the internet but I am so wary of that stuff when there are married men posing as single on these sites and men who post on every sight in search of more than one love-interest.\n\nIt is diffocult I must admit but the trick is to remain optomistic and be very specific about what you are looking for in a man and then go to places that you are most likely to meet these types of men. Bars and clubs are okay, but there are a lot out there looking for fun only and unless you are prepared for that and happy with it until you get to know a guy, then sitting around will do not much good either.\n\nI am more conscious as I have gotten older but also more decided about what I want in a man and that is friendship.  This is the best basis for all relationships to be lasting.  I am determined to be married but once I get myself off my but and start making things happen.
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Guys he has to be married because the guy asking the question is married. You just need to go out there and keep lookign they are out there but you just have to take the time to find them. I am in NC and was looking for the same thing. Just keep posting personal adds you will find him soon.
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If you just met him, first you have to pray and ask God if He is the right one and you have to get married then you can let him move with you since you are more established. remember you are not a cat or a dog you can't just move in with a man and start having babies. come on you can do better than that.
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This worked for me. I was so stressed out, because I couldn't find a guy. So I stopped looking for him, and eventually I found this really great guy! Just a suggestion.
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Love is exist. I think both of us have our soul mate. But not everyone can get it soon, maybe someone can easy get the soul mate, and the other not.\nU have not find your soul mate yet, but someday you'll find him. Don't be hurry to find him, just be going on with your life. One day when u get it you'll realize it.
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hun i know its a weird feeling when u dont know if u want somebody or not when u dont know if u have feeings 4 somebody or not n ur just lose n confused n want help but dont know who 2 go to when u just wanna break down n cry cuz u dont know what else to do when all u can do is think abt that one person n its complicated when u dont know if u like him or not . but like u said dousnt matter if ur not attracted to him if u like his personality n feel like u can trust him n be safe in his arms thats all that counts n it dousnt matter abt ur age k look if u really like this guy  go 4 it look the wedding is coming up if u dont do anything abt it not make a move i swear to god ur gone regret 4 the rest of u life its gone drive u crazy ur gone be more sad n confused just think how awwful it will be if nothing happens on the wedding n u go on like this 4 the rest of ur life thinkin abt him n just wondfering if he was the right one or not evey day. omg that will be so bad thats y plan out think abt it what r u gone do at the wedding look dousnt matter what plp think ur not gone sit there all shy n stuff ur gone go up to him n talk n dance n tell him srry 4 not sayin bye u were in a hurry n that u had a great time last time n thank him 4 it it may sound crazy now look but trust me when  ur at wedding  ur gone be so drunk its not gone be hard to say all that to him lmaoooo but seriousl do it k see what happens. i just wish eveything turns out right well good luck n be strong k i luvv u hun take care remember eveything happens 4 a resane
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Church, start praying that God will bring a decent man into your life... If you are religious try a relegious online dating service, that way you don't have to go through the shinadigans of other sites... Good luck in finding him......
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I say take a chance and look him up. There's no point in always wondering what if. If you find him and he's not interested then you can move on because at least you'll know one way or the other. Of course if he wants to be involved then maybe you'll get a happily ever after! Good Luck!
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no u will find him soon ... just dont run after it ... one day in spcial moment ur heart will tell you ...thats man loves me ...