Why would your girlfriend ask you to not come over when she is sick? is that a sign?
609195
She probably feels awful and doesn't want you to see her like she is.  Also, she probably doesn't want to risk you catching whatever she has.
488010
It's good that you seem like a good man if you are showing all the signs that you love and care for her. However, your girl seems to have had enough of you for whatever reason. I think she may feel overwhelmed by the living arrangement you guys have chosen and she finally figured out that she needs her space. Maybe living together put a strain on the relationship and she feels smothered. You can't make her stay if she so desperately wants to go.
412321
Your girlfriend needs treatment and it is probably too much for you to handle to be in a relationship like this (you didnt say your age).
95915
Yes, if she has a partner who supports her, gets home by end of school hour, and has at least three days off per week, like Sat, Sun Mon.  And she has good health so she is not sick from the work load.  Good for you if that is what you are striving for.
1127482
Either she's done with you and can't tell you, or she needs to breathe and prefers a complete break for now!!\nI don't know but in either case, it's quite alarming.\nTry to set the communication back.
1062075
If he is the love of your life why would you even have the thought of leaving him. He is sick and is in time of need. Stay with him and support him 100%. That's what a relationship is.
264426
There are many, many reasons. Firstly, she thinks about getting pregnant. Second, getting and STD. Third, love. And judging by your comment they know you won't love them. Forth, they are just not ready to. Fifth, they might just not find you sexually attractive.
483178
giving an enema should be a last resort. Giving it that often is quite unusual. I agree with you She's sick. and if your boyfriend says he's the only one that it didn't happen too, He knows that it is wrong and is probably embarrassed. I would never leave my child/ren alone with her!!!
285825
It kinda sounds like she is giving you a hint.  But I can't speak for her.  Do you think you could work up the nerve to directly ask her if she would like you to stop calling?  Explain that you understand she is dealing with very serious and sad issues and that you are more than happy to give her room if that is what she needs.\n\nYou sound like a very nice person.  I hope it works out for you.  All the best.
846404
Don't you know you aren't ALLOWED to be sick?  That might put your husband out. LOL  I think it is because men aren't very nurturing and they don't want to see you feeling bad but they don't know how to make you feel better.  And, having to pick up your slack is annoying to them.  Let's face it, our husbands would be lost without us.
827607
It sounds like she may have some issues with food. Does she ever complain that she feels fat or overweight, does she seem obsessesive about her body? \n\nShe is underweight at 101lb and if it continues, it could get out of hand. It might be difficult to encourage her to see a doctor, but she really needs to get checked out.\n\nIf it continues and she won't see a doctor, you may need to tell her parents. This may seem like the ultimate betrayal, but there really is no other option or she could become quite ill.\n\nGood luck and you really sound like a wonderfully caring and supportive boyfriend. Take care : )
189584
Thanks I would love that!!!\n\nPray I'm not going to be sick for along time. I've been sick this whole winter and it stinks.\n\nThank You ~RZ~
910952
no idea, maybe because we spend more time inside with each other, the sick people in our family....sound good to you?\nall the sneezing and touching, yuk....!
139376
lol okay many will come up with different opinions on this. I remember a day when my grandmother told me that sex while sick breaks the fever and pushes out the illness. However, she was a very active person sooo.\n\nHowever, on a realistic view. My personal opinion is this. If you feel well enough to have sex without coughing up a lung or passing out into a deep sleep just when she's getting into it, then umm...go for it?
226094
Don't over-analyze this. If she's normally in a good mood, she has a right to have a day when she's not feeling so hot. Maybe it has nothing to do with you. Give her some space and allow her to be moody. If she's not being nasty to you, then maybe it isn't about you at all. Just say, "Honey, I hope you're okay. If you want to talk, I'm here. If not, then you don't have to." And then leave it at that.
173635
When she don't want to have sex with you and when yall do have sex the emotions you have been getting stops.When she just wants to be gone away from you all of the time she is by her boyfriend and being treated good she comes home a day later and sleeps on the couch or at the bottom of the bed.
495162
serious talk, that is! i know it's hard but sometimes we have to take matters as they should...you have tried so many things to help her and i think it's about time to be honest & straightforward..\n\ntell her that you love her and you are concerned about her health...putting on so much weight can be tough on health...tell her that you want to stay with her for as long as you can, but how will it happen if she'll get sick by being overweight...big doesn't mean healthy and she knows that..ask her why is she behaving like this, there must be something bothering her...if none, be firm but reasonable..\n\ntell her that you want her old self back and you love her taking care of herself too...challenge her, tell her it would be nice if she'll look like your girlfriend and not a mother and sloppy...just be thoughtful when you suggest...\n\nyou can do it..