I really love a girl in my class. Really love. Ive liked her for three years. I am in 8th grade. What do i do?
609146
i don't know you, but are you sure you're in love, or just huge crush turned in to great like.  Love is a big thing.  When you're that young, girls are kind of afraid of "love." To them, it may seem that you only have one thing on your mind, because that's what girls are taught.  Get to know her, and become good friends. After that, when you're closer, see what happens between the two of you.  And remember, you're only in 8th grade.  If this girl doesn't work out, there are other girls in the world and she will not be the only one in your life.  Good luck.  Hope this helped.
348191
well, it wont hurt as much u should just ask her out. Maybe she is tired of flirting bc u have been talking to her for the past school year. i would get tired with that toooo. ask her out. Ok. Since u talk to her from the beginning u should know what surprises her to so u should surprise her. Its sweeter that wayand the more sweeter it is, it most likely for her to say yes
443754
you got to place your foot down first, ask her out. she seems like your girl, i would say yep to a guy that i know a lot about. and she isn't the most popular that gets bad grades, she actually pays attention to school.\ngo ahead, find the courage within you.
808256
talk to her one more time.ALONE!!try to tell her how much u like her.leave physically.go for the heart.know what is in her mind.\n ask why doesnt she like u? is she bored?do not give up.but do not harass her too much. go slowly.when u talk to herbe calm,coool.keep ur hands straight n loose.look into her eyes.keep distance. n say it with all ur heart.if this does not succeed then curse me as much as u want.\nive written this with all my heart for u cuz even i like a girl,but its different.ive helped one before. it worked!!!\nGOODLUCK!!!
785148
Be kind to her; make friends with her. If both of you are smart, perhaps she will be first in the class at times and you will be other times. Education is not about being first; it is about learning.
1182832
At first it feels like hurt thats what i felt i been i there but you must realize that if you love and she only likes then there is a difference in your equation i say just give her your all and let her know how you feel and if she doesnt apperciate it then still be friends but change your love to like cause love cant last forever with a girl that only likes
632390
get another girl you know to ask the girl you like questions about how she feels for you but make sure this girl won't tell anyone. Make sure the girl makes it seem like she's just having a conversation about guys in your school. Tell her to name some other guys and ask the girl questions about them as well.
903608
Seems like you really love this girl. Well a lot of people get married and talk about working and going to school at the same time, but you have to remember that if you do that, you have to have time for her too because what's the whole point of getting married with her if your not going to give her attention. If your planning in going to school first, why not go to school for 2-3 years first then get married and you could finish your carreer too. You should talk to her first about your feeling and tell her you really do love her and you want to marry her, but also tell her you want to finish your carreer to give her and you a better life. Talk with her you'd be surprised what she may tell you. Good luck. Hey if it helps. I've been married for a little over a year and my husband is so good with me that he lets me work and go to school at the same time because it makes me happy. I still have four more years to go and he helps me out a lot that make me appreciate my husband, but then I do help him a lot too in anything. So hope every thing goes great.
436697
Be mature and do it yourself. But maybe don't just go up to him in class and be all, "Hey I like you!!!" Try to hang out with him first, you know, as "friends."  Then when you think the timing is right, let him know how you feel.
855480
wow hun you have sooooo many years ahead of you to worry about that. I know you like her and you just wanna be with her.. but chances are it wouldnt work out anyway.. not because you arent a great guy.. but because relationships that young really never work out. you will find someone much better further along in your years. for right now concentrate on school and your friends. there will be plenty of time for dating later :)
887696
If you're serious, dont, no matter how much you loved this girl, she is definatly not worth your life,  There are plenty more girls out there, girls that you deserve and that deserve you.  Seriously, you'l find someone else, i thought i wouldnt but i did....\n\n\n\n\nIf your not serious, and this is a joke, well then you are just plain sick....
366396
Talk to your friend and tell him that you really like this girl for other than friendship but you don't want to hurt your friendship with him.  And if he says ok, I would talk to the girl and let her know that you are interesting into getting to know her on a different level other than friendship. Being open and honest, is the only way to be in this situation.  Good luck
415340
8th grade, 7th grade\nthat's still not love dear.\nIm happy for you that ur experiencing the happy side of life\nwhat u could do is call him up, invite him to hang out at ur home, ask your mom to bake cookies for you and you prepare video games or essential fun things u can do.\nhope that works.
1145793
Try hanging out with her outside of school. Do things with just the two of you and see if she goes for it. If something seems to develop, you can try to take it to the next level.
566682
It's Puppy Love!!! How cute!!! Remember as a teenager you are still too young for some responsibilities don't jump the gun and also if you have been in love for 3 yrs. then you can wait  3 more and then you'll know if she is still the one and if she is then you can be together forever. Right? Right! And if not... then the one will come later.
301960
All I can say is this:  W/E you do make it clearly know to her that you have these feelings for her but let her know that if she doesnt feel the same you will always be her friend and always want to be close with her.  \nRead this below - MAKE SURE YOU TELL HER HOW U FEEL\n\n 10th Grade\nAs I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me.\nShe was my so-called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky\nhair.\nI wished she were mine, but she didn't\nnotice me like that. And I knew it. After class she walked up to\nme\nand asked me for the notes she had missed the day before, and I\nhanded them\nto her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I\nwanted to tell her. I wanted her to know that I don't want to be\njust friends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't\nknow why. .\n11th Grade\nThe phone rang. It was her on the other end. She was in tears\nmumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over\nbecause she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat\nnext to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she\nwas mine. After 2 hours, a Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of\nchips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks," and\ngave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to\ntell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just\nfriends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why.\n12th Grade\nThe day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is\nsick," she said. He's not going to go. Well, I didn't\nhave a date and in 7thgrade we made a promise that if neither of us had\ndates we would go together\njust as "best friends," so we did. Prom night after\neverything was over I was standing at her front door step.\nI stared at her. She smiled at me and stared at me with her\ncrystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she doesn't think of me\nlike that, and I know it.\nThen she said, "I had the best time,\nthanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her.\nI want her to know that I don't want to be just\nfriends. I love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know\nwhy??\nGraduation Day\nday passed. A week passed. A month passed. Before I could\nblink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body\nfloated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. i\nwanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I\nknew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and\nhat, and she cried as I hugged her. Then, she lifted her head\nfrom my shoulder and said,\n"You're my best friend,\nthanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek.\nI want to tell her.\nI want her to know that I don't want to be just friends.\nI love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why. .\nA Few Years Later\nNow, i sit in the pews of the church. She is getting married, now.\nI watched her say, "I do" and drive off to her new life, married\nto another man. I wanted her to be mine but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said, "You came!."\nShe said, "thanks!" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to\ntell her. I want her to know that I don't want to be just\nfriends.\nI love her, but I'm just too shy. And I don't know why. .\nFuneral\nYears passed, and I looked down at the\ncoffin of the girl who\nused to be my "best friend." At the service they read a diary,\nshe had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read:\nI stare at him wishing he were mine. But he doesn't notice me\nlike that, and I know it. I want to tell him. I want him to know that I don't want to be\njust friends. I love him, but I'm just too shy, and I don't know\nwhy. I wish he would tell me he loved me.\nI wish I did too . . . I thought to myself, and I cried.
619776
go for it what do you have to lose....it's the end of school you are going to regret it if you don't at least aproach her..i had the same issue..her name was maureen and I thought she was just the cats meow...i sent her flowers at school she did not know that they were from me ..I got her number from a mutual friend and called her up with all the might i could muster. \n  turned out she was a sister of a friend of mine from junior high that i had never met lol\n\nthings didn't turno ut the way I wanted them to but at least i went for it and I now have no regrets about it\n\nI think thats why they call them crushes...because you are bound to get crushed in MOST cases but not all\n\nno regrets just go for it