if a girl asks you about your fantasies and it is about guys and she asks if you are gay should you tell her?
605813
Only if you're comfortable with everyone knowing because she will spill the 'secret' to someone eventually.  If you're already 'out', then just tell her.
609498
The fact that you are asking indicates that you are considering it, if you weren't you would have told him no flatly right out.  He must detect that you have tendencies because I doubt he would bring it up otherwise.\n\nYou have to ask yourself some tough questions, are you gay, bi-curious, you need to search your soul for some answers.\n\nIf you are, you need to acknowldge it and accept it, there is nothing wrong with it.  \n\nIf you are straight and want no part of it, you need to make that known to him right away, if he's your friend he would understand, if not then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him.\n\nGood luck.
117443
Tell her that you're gay, but to not tell anyone because you don't want to come out yet.
298460
Telling someone that you're gay can really help a lot, just because you don't have to carry around your secret all by yourself anymore. Probably the best person to tell that you're gay is a female friend, since they will likely have less problems with it than a male friend. If you're gay, chances are that you'll have more girl friends than guy friends. However, pick carefully! Don't tell it to someone that you've had a fight with recently or that you're not totally comfortable with them knowing. Think about whether this person could use the information to get back at you for something. It's your choice and depends on your family, but maybe you want to tell your parents. However, if you think that they'd react badly and still depend on them, give this some thought. Parents can react better or worse than you'd imagine. Another option might be a sister, if you have one. Be very careful before telling people at work or school. And before telling anyone, ask yourself: a) Is this person a religious fanatic who would be violently opposed to gays and set me on fire with kerosene? (If so, not a good choice) b) Would this person use me as their 'gay friend' to go shopping and get fashion advice? (If so, and this might be surprising, also not a good choice. You need a friend that will love you for you, not for your gayness). The people you tell should be people that will just say 'okay' and you can move on with your lives and you can feel better about it.
613687
Actions speak louder than words so make sure she doesnt think your gay. make a move man and get as far as you can.
496252
women always like to hear how beautiful they are so tell her.  You have to ask yourself if you can handle what happens if you never tell her, because some other guy might be braver than you.
982864
You say you definitely like women, but the question is in what way do you like them? You say you have fantasies with certain men, I guess you mean sexual fantasies? You than state you don't like men. I do not know what your sexual orientation is because you have provided few details. If you sexually fantasize about women only, then you would be straight. If you sexually fantasize about men only, then you would be gay. If you sexually fantasize about both, then you would be bisexual.
1000215
whoa.....you man ho you!\n\n:)\n\nUhm, depends. if she is going to be another notch in your belt, dont tell her. for me it would eb a turn off, just cause thats gross.\n\nIf I really liked the guy, i would probably WANT to know, but you know what they say, truth hurts.\n\nMaybe dont go into all the truthfull details, just allude to a sex past if you really like the girl and want to get serious.\n\nHonesty and trust and truth and committment are the biggest things for a future, not what you did in the past!\nGet yourself checked though
152290
I KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!! AND I KNOW YOUR TALKING ABOUT ME. WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS SINCE 6TH GRADE. I WOULD NEVER SAY ANYTHING TO YOU OUT OF THE WAY. I MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE??\nYOU CAN ALWAYS TALK TO ME ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS. HOW COULD YOU ASK A QUESTION LIKE THAT. I WAS JUST BEING A FREAK I HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE WITH A GIRL SO I DID. I DON'T HAVE TO BE CURIOUS ABOUT IT ANY MORE BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT. I LOVE MEN, YOU SHOULDN'T BE WONDERING IF I'M COMING ON TO YOU OR NOT WHEN YOU CAN JUST ASK ME. WE ARE BETTER THEN THIS.
1054883
I believe it is a choice.  Here is my reasoning.  Right here on the Answers site I have asked both of these questions: "Straight women, do you ever fantasize about sex with girls?" and "Straight men, do you ever fantasize about sex with men"  For the first question I literally got about 40 answers saying yes (and one no), but the secon question all answers were no, exept for answers from guys stating that they were gay, but were SURE that straight men MUST think about guys.\n\nSo... 99% of straight women will openly admit fantasies about women, but no straight men will admit fantasies about men.  This of course leads me to believe that ALL THE STRAIGHT MEN ARE LYING, and ALL straight people THINK about sex with the same sex, that then leaves ALL PEOPLE with the choice of who they WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH.\n\nThank you for listening!
302447
She'll probably use another guy to make you jealous. and if you've had previous experience with this stuff than it's probably a given that she likes you but she doesn't want to tell you her dirty little secret. Maybe she thinks that you will hate her if she says something. You should probably just needs sometime to get the courage to tell u. BE PATIENT!!!
748221
ask him/her what he/she thinks about a certain actor or actress you think is hot. or talk about gay rights and see what he/she thinks and says and are they comfortable talking about it or would they rather not discuss things like that
925194
Tell her the truth bro...The whole "Gay" thing will backfire on ya because then she will tell everyone you know and then people will think your gay....Tell her the truth...I would rather people think that im an A-hole for telling the truth...then think that im a fag for lying.
739469
If you want to know if someone else is a lesbian, ask her.\n\nIf you want to know if you are a lesbian then answer this quick checklist:\n\nDo you want to f*ck women?\nDo you have sexual feelings about women?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of women?\n\nIf you answered yes to one or more of these questions then you are a lesbian or bisexual woman.  If you answered no, then you are straight.  Next ask yourself:\n\nDo you want to f*ck men?\nDo you have sexual feelings about men?\nDo you ever touch yourself thinking of men?\n\nIf you answered Yes to one or more of these questions, then you are bisexual.  If you answered no to all of the above then you are a lesbian.
767038
Well considering shes your teahcer there isnt much you can do in that department. i mean you cant really approach her. i mean i guess you could. Really , I just think you should explore the fact that you like girls and go from there. If you feel you really do like them for sure and you may be with women in the future then you can consider telling your parents. From my own experience though, you must know that more than likely if you tell your parents now that you think you are gay or bi they are unlikely to believe you so be prepared and have a strong support system from some friends.
1172908
is this a gay thing? talk to her, i guess
1109946
If you come out, it should be about you, not your friend. You could mention to your friend that you might be gay, but dont be trying to 'convert' him. You are either born gay or you are born straight.