I have trouble talking to girls, any tips?
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pretend they are guys with manners.  joke around with them, tease them, have fun with them.  They are people too that watch the same television shows and get a kick out of some of the same things guys do.  As for treating them like women...  flirt with them, challenge them, make sure they are always left wanting more and they will keep coming back.  Most of all...  Make them laugh.  Make them laugh WITH you, not AT you.  Good luck.
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I have girls to talk to?\nI have IM
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Looking good will probably get you 20% of the way when talking to girls. So what about the 80% you ask? \n\nConfidence. Body language. Humor. \n\nDude, girls are regular people just like you and me. Talk to them like you would to one of your buddies, don't think too much. Life is short, be a man. It'll show confidence. And remember DON'T THINK TOO MUCH.\n\nAlways, I mean ALWAYS look them straight in the eye. Don't look at their boobs or lips or nose or whatever...they'll know. By looking them straight in the eye (without quivering) will let them know you are not intimidated by them. You are in CONTROL. Be a MAN.\n\nMake them LAUGH. Say something random and remember to always SMILE. Not in a creepy way but more of a natural way. Girls don't like sex jokes so forget about those. They like cute and harmless jokes. Find something regular you do everyday and exaggerate a little bit to make it funny. And remember to look them in the eyes when you are talking to them.\n\nYou'll be fine if you master these techniques. May you use them wisely...and DON'T LET ME DOWN!\n\nP.S. Be a MAN. Don't post any questions like these ever again. Shows weakness...and girls don't like that.
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Well you're shy, so then the confidence thing will only work if you're slightly cocky.  So we'll ignore that approach.\n\nYou're best bet is to find something in common with the girl you're interested in.  If you can't strike up a conversation with somebody, it's not going to happen, YOU GOT to be able to casually strike up a conversation.  If it's someone you 'sorta' know, be able to say hello & find something that relates to her & you.  If not, then say something random that you like & see if she responds (NO PICK UP LINES!!!)  It really doesn't matter what you say, just the fact you said it.  \n\nNow from there you can ask for casual dates, if you are not comfortable asking for 'dinner' or 'going back to my place'  You need to be able to find out what she is interested in & then find something that would interest her in doing it with you.  If you're talking about movies, find a great movie nearby & ask if she wants to go.  If she like coffee, go for coffee, if she likes plays, find something like a play.  IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE AWKWARD!  All you need to say is 'Hey you like ______?  Me too!  They're showing ____ at the ______ on _____!  Would you like to go?'  If she says no, than move on.  If she says sure, casually ask for her number so you can 'coordinate' it & give her one phone call so she knows it's all arranged & off you go. \n\n* Important at the end of whatever you're doing don't just go straight home, find something else that can detain her for awhile, so you can talk about whatever you chose to do.  This'll show your interest & then you can plan (Or run away) for what happens next*
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Dude just be yourself and get the courage up and talk to her and don't be shy about just relax and i'm sure things will go just fine. You shouldn't put yourself down you have to learn how to accept who you are 1st then that confidence will take you a long way.You can tell if she likes you when you start talking to her she'll act really shy and nervous around you and also look at you from time to time.So i hoped this out.-PEACE OUT
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Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
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First this is not a problem at all. Take this junk out of ur mind. Making friends with girls is not a problem provided u appear nice, good , trustworthy, compatible and so on and so forth. just look for tht secret charm within urself that makes u different from other men and make sure u look confident and positive when u talk to girls. dont try try to b a casanova and also dont try to ape somebody. be natural and urself. thats the trait any person loves in another person------something 'different'\n\n(gimme 10 points if it works)
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Talk. Don't hold back and just tell the girl your feelings. It may be difficult but it is the only way she'll really know how you feel. That is what most girls look for, a sensitive guy and one that isn't afraid to come forward, because many girls are too timid to say something. Then simply feel it out from there. Ask her to date or what have you. But no better way than to talk.
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be cool and relax..don't try too hard...find a girl that you are interested in and just start talking to her...show interest in her other than sexually and things will go from there...promise
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The best way to end up talking with a shy girl is to go through her friends.  She is shy so she is probably a little insecure.  If she see's that her friends accept you, she will in turn accept you.  Get everyone into a good conversation and make sure you include her in it.  If you show that you want to know some stuff about her she will begin to open up.
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You defenetly have the same problem as me... Just keep trying new girls that what im doin
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Be confident, even if your not just give the impression you are (women love confidence).  If you see her out and about with some mates go talk to her, but talk to the friends first to calm your own nerves and to get their aprooval of you.  If they like you and see your a genuinely nice and funny guy she will become more interested in you.  \nStart chatting to her when you feel more confortable and talk to her and try to find out things she is interested in(music interests, where she likes to hang out, favourite movie)... before you know it you could find you have alot in common and kick off really well. If however you come a road block and there is just silence between you or you feel too nervous, makeup an excuse and leave (eg "I have to go meet my friends now, they're lost with out me... nice chatting to you see you later in class").\n\nNext time you see her again go chat, see how she is, if her friends are around talk to them aswell...but most of all don't mumble and be assertive! Again if your conversation comes to a stand still again make and excuse and leave ("got to go back to class").\n\nAfter a few times of chatting to her(and her friends) and finding more out about her each time you should have a few ideas on what she likes.... the next time you see her speak to her and ask if she wants to go to the cinema to that film she's really wanting to see, or if your feeling adventurous ask her to go swimming (although not alot of women are too comfortable to get into a swiming costume with someone they don't know too well) either way what you decide to do, make sure its something fun and nothing too formal like going for a silver service meal..... and nothing like going to McDonnalds either LOL!  Also this doesn't have to be just you and her you can get her to bring a friend and you yourself bring a friend.\n\nAssuming all this goes well and you've been out a few times and really starting to find you both like each other go for the kill and ask her marry you.....just kidding. ask her to go out with you or go steady (what ever you call it in the US).
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If you aren't that comforatble around girls, get with a shy one so it can seem like you are more brave... =) But if you want to break out of your shell, get with a girl that isn't shy and will always have something to talk about, so you wont have to think about what to talk about.Don't try to get a GF rite now, you should talk to a lot of good girls and get comfortable first, then get a GF.
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be aggressive, B-E aggressive. Don't flirt with everyone, or else they will think you are a whore. And for gods sakes, buy a guy a drink every once in a while. Why are we afraid to talk to girls?  Maybe it's because we know we are going to pay $10 for your drink, and then get a fake phone number.
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FIRST OF ALL, DRESS NICE WITH CLEAN CLOTHS. KEEP HAIR CLEAN AND TEETH BRUSHED. LAST AND MOST IMPORTANT. ATTITUDE. IF YOUR OUT GOING CONFIDENT AND NICE YOU WILL CATCH THEY EYE OF THE OPPISITE SEX.  I USE TO BE REALLY SHY AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO GIRLS AND HAD FEW GIRLFRIENDS. THEN ONE DAY I GOT FED UP AND DISNT CARE IF I LOOKED LIKE A JERK ANYMORE AND I STARTED TREATING GIRLS JUST LIKE I WOULD TREAT MY NORMAL GUY FRIENDS AND BAMM. NEXT THING I KNEW I NEVER HAD GIRL PROBLEMS AGAIN. SO CONFIDENCE HAS TO BE THE MAIN THING. DONT BE AFRAID TO WALK BY A GIRL YOU LIKE AND SAY "HEY I LIKE THAT SHIRT IT LOOKS COOL" THEN WALK AWAY IT JUST MIGHT SPARK UP A CONVERSATION BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU
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You can start a conversation about anything... the weather, school, anything.  The most important part is to just try to relax and not look like you are trying too hard to find someone.  Girls are attracted to guys who look like they are having fun.  Compliments might work too.  Tell a girl you like her hair, or the way she smiles.  Good luck.
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The first step, smile. see if you get a smile back. If she holds your gaze that is an invitation to approach her. You could say a variety of things, compliment her clothing/hair/eyes ettc, talk about the weather, the band, anything at all. Something as simple as "Do you go to alot of concerts' can be the beginning of a wonderful conversation. Don't be intimidated it it takes a few tries before you find a girl that wants to talk. We have been raised to be vary. You are in a casual environment though so just go for it. What do you have to lose?