my manager is giving me a tough time.?
606495
Train yourself to be ready to be good with comebacks and do it confidently.  It's hard to do but well worth the effort.\n\nIf you don't like the job, find another job and give this jerk the snubbing of his life!  That will REALLY put him in his place!
212746
Sometimes my boss is a real pain.  It wouldn't be so bad if the person had any common sense about things.  I mean some things my boss thinks up is so asinine!
204938
Blowing things off for management to do is ok but it's really not the answer.  Management expects the employees they pay to work out their own issues.  \n\nIf an attempt to work this out with her has already been taken (you've actually DISCUSSED this with this lady) and nothing was done, THEN you discuss it with management.\n\nIf you haven't talked to her already, then talk to her.  Let her know what the problem is.  She honestly may not be aware that she has a problem.\n\nAnd you would be doing her a greater service talking to her personally rather than letting her hear it from management and then finding out that everyone was talking about her behind her back.  Bad form!!!  Talk to her.
498792
Well It sounds like yo work right.. ?  and the Mrs stays home with the kiddies...  well look bro... she is probaly stressted out. and needs a little attention and some love..=)\n\nI am sure it is hard to handle... I have friends at work in the same postion and I hear the same thing from him. My only advice..  is listen to her... I know I know its hard to do..  But I tell once she gets out what ever is bothering her... she will feel a little better..  =)\n\nI have four my self....    so I know a little about your situtaion.. take care..
683935
There is a book I bought a long time ago called "Coping with Difficult People" which is like dealing with difficult people. You can buy it at any bookstore under the self-improvement section. Also, talk with your boss and maybe he can resolve your problems you may have with a co-worker. Don't worry, we've all been there. I sympathize with you. However, just a suggestion, you may not want to use that kind of language on Yahoo Answers.
771758
What a drag.....Sounds like maybe you should take you resume somewhere else.  Some people have to downgrade everyone else just to make themselves feel better, superior, or whatever reason.  It's obvious he's got issues.  You're only going to be able to put up with him for so long before you'll probably snap.  Start looking for other employment because I doubt very much if he'll ever change.  Unless you feel like stepping up and being the one to change him.  Confront him with the problem.....maybe he needs to hear how he treats people....\nI sure hope whatever you do things work out of you...\nGooday! ! !
890763
Yes I went through the same thing.  I found at that point there is nothing you can do.  Although you probably never deserved to be in this sitution I find that usually people need to gang up on one person and bully them.  It is not acceptable.  I went on meds because of it and when I was done working there I came off of the meds.  Management was involved in this case and I was approached by a laywer to sue these people.  I choose not to, the reason being that it would have cause more stress.  I now have a better job with better pay and I no longer take meds.  Please hang in there.  Start looking for a new job right now.  They cant fire you without a just cause, worse come to worse you will be asked to leave with two weeks pay.  But find a new job, being unhappy is not worth it.
836283
Remind her who you report to...follow the chain of command. Is she your immediate supervisor? If so, then you have to comply with her requests, if she isn't, then you are within your rights to turn her down. Have your co-workers handle her the same way. She will soon get the message and back down. Try to keep one step ahead of her always.
853072
you do need to report it to your manager, you also need to tell her no.   learning to say no will help you get your own work done, and allow the boss to see that she is not doing her work. if you continue to help her,  it looks like she is doing her job.
938786
yeah quit right in the middle of a really buissy night...just tell your boss to take the job and shove it your walking out...if hes that much of a jerk leave him in a pinch.  hope you find something better...i had one of those bosses once... i quit told the other boss and the other one said yeah i know hes real hard to work with sorry about that... so people understand.  some people you just cant work with.  good luck.
233247
Tell your boss. She is being irresponsible.  You are being taken advantage of, you need to stand up for yourself.
736695
It's time for you to go over your immediate bosses head to upper management.  Before you do, I would document and entire weeks worth of instances along with date, place and time the harassment takes place.  I really feel for you and I hope your situation improves soon - God bless!
726346
Hi Ena,   Tell your boss you need a break, and need to take some time off.\n\n  Clowmy
1119617
Ask your manager to keep going over the parts you don't understand. Don't appologize, just tell her you're trying. Take it one step at a time, Driver thru comes with weeks of experience, not days. You're fresh, give it a month, you don't like it after that try working in retail, like goody's or payless shoes. Really easy work. Don't give up on yourself, sounds to me like you are doing ok! Good Luck!
654225
well does she act diffrent around the owner ? if so i would talk to her about it and then if she didnt lighten up then i would talk to the owner .. i also had this problem and most owners dont know about it or tolerat the fact that they are treating the worker s badly ... mine got fired... sometimes you do what you have to
443286
Yes, Go back to work. Be tough, tell her you didnt appreciate what she did and how unprofessional it is to act like that. It seems like they still want you to work there and everything, you arent the first person to ever get mad and walk off the job, but if the abuse continues or gets worse then you will have to consider something else.
260612
Humm well Human Recourse Manager's job is very challenging because you have to act sometimes against your wishes and have to talk and convince people about your company.