how should a lady of 32yrs with bulky body attract males?
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show what you got is big breast guys wtih a choice like that will date u definately
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Little fat, and preferably curvacious. Height does not matter much so long as she's not very short or very tall. Hair color, eye color, and skin color don't matter so long as she's attractive. Age only matters to the extent that she can not be under the legal age or is too old to be attractive. Intelligence is important. Official education is unimportant, though knowledge is. Self-education is attractive because it shows initiative. What is most important though is character. A woman must be civil; she can't be jealous or dramatic or demand that her man have a great personality and sense of humor, or buy her gifts or talk to her about the man's private thoughts, and she should expect no less civility from the man. She should prefer touch over talk. A desire for children is also a plus.
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Read the book The Rules. He got a lot of ideas from it, some of the rules are exactly the same for men and women, like rarely returning calls and being hard to get. Also, get Dave's book, because almost all of it can be used as a women to pull men.\n\nWhat qualities make a guy desireable? He should not be egotistical, care about others, have a life and goals outside of you (you don't want a stalker or a 'clingy' guy, do you?), well traveled/educated, a good cook, and so on. Basically, take these fundamentals you find in Rules and DDA's material, and SPIN THEM AROUND and give them to YOURSELF. \n\nAnd, please never mention David again. You'll make him popular and spoil his works.\n\nOr do what Dave Chapelle suggests; "make him a sandwhich, play with his balls, and try not to talk so much." He'll love ya and it requires much less reading.
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Making eye contact is a must if you want to be subtle. No intense psycho staring. Size matters to a certain extent, it will depend on the woman. Humor is good, but the type of humor, again depends on the woman. There are no perfect set rules for attracting a woman. Pick someone you admire and try and come close to what he does when hes around women.
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of course there is! not every guy is attracted to leegy blondes. its just not the socially accepted thing for guys to brag about ther attraction to larger, curvy women. so men dont go shouting it aloud. but yes, there will always be guys out their attracted to your type. and no you are not old or anything. you are only halfway in you life. you just need to know where to look. check out some dating sites. goodluck!
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I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
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I am a tall, curvy, voluptous woman who would be considered by\nothers as "plus-size". I work out 3x weekly on weight resistance\nmachines, walk a great deal, and stay active in my lifestyle. My\nclothing size averages between 18-20 womens, at last check my\ncholes. count was 170, and my blood pressure is excellent. Tho\nI am a large woman, I am healthy and in great shape. I dare say\nthat there are more parts of my body that are toned and firm to\nthe touch than those women who bodies are smaller and lighter\nin pounds but not in as good shape as I am. \nIt's your mental attitude, and your image of yourself that counts.\nNo matter what size-stay healthy! Get regular exercise! Take care\nof your appearance, and do things to enhance your beauty-take\ncare of your hair, nails, skin. Wear makeup, jewelry, anything that\nmakes you feel pretty!\nPS. My boyfriend adores my body, and is extremely demonstrative\nin showing his appreciation of it's womanly gifts. Some men just\nwant a woman with a big bust and backside, with a definite waistline to contrast it all with! Keep your curves girl!
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First thing I notice: clothing. what you wear says a lot about who you are. generally I look for clean clothes, comfortable, perhaps buttoned shirt or polo. Jeans and their fit say a lot about a person. a person who wears jeans that expose their posterior and most of their boxers says "I'm a faux gangster tryin' to live tha thug lifestyle before mommy comes and picks me up. I have no ambition and fewer prospects." (I should mention that I'm in my early 20's, and this is still the impression I get about guys around my age) a guy who has slightly baggy pants, but shows no a** tells me "I'm relaxed and easy going overall. I'm not too conservative, but I'm decent". a well dressed man in slacks and a nice shirt says "I'm corporate. I make money and I'm doing well for myself". guys who tuck in their shirts and wear tight jeans with big belts say "I'm a dude, and I don't take S**t from women" (basically, it appears they have a stick shoved in their rectum... and who wants to date that?) guys in dirty or seriously ripped clothing says "I don't care about me, and I'll care less about you". and guys in all black with black hair and black painted nails scream "I want to suck your blood and make love to your corpse". Run!\n\nThe next thing is build. since I'm a bigger woman, a man with a small frame is not a good suit for me. I'll break them in half before anything good gets going! then again, huge muscles are kind of creepy, in my opinion. a medium build of medium height is sufficient. weight doesn't really bother me all that much. it's preferrable to be shorter than the guy, but I'd hate to be accused of being sizist. you just don't know who's a good guy until you look.\n\nNext I look at what they are doing. are they flirting with everyone? not really a good choice. their attention is easily divided. are they having a good conversation? that could be interesting. are they looking around? they're interested in what's going on, and so might be easier to approach. are they approaching me? sure, I'll give you the time of day. are they being infantile? Sorry, I'm not a pedophile. I want to be with a man! there are many more situations that can make me assess things in all kinds of ways. but the number one rule: if they are with another woman, HANDS OFF! you automatically assume he is interested in her, and poaching is not cool.\n\nThe last thing to scope is the face. look at the eyes. You really can see a lot about a person in their eyes. knitted eyebrows, small, hard eyes, round, open eyes, laugh lines, etc. all the little details in that area give clues about who you are talking to. the mouth: is it tightly set? is it smiling? scowling? laughing? frowning? going up to a moody guy is not my idea of fun.\n\nOther than that, it's a free-for-all. That's just the preliminary 2 second staredown that I give. for more permanent situations, I'd have to write a book, which I don't think many people would want to read. hope that answers your question!
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Dude listen, get the book "the system". It works, women love cocky and funny guys. If you find yourself interested in someone, treat them as you would your little sister. It drives women crazy!!!!
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Before you find a woman find yourself first. Meaning find the comfortable you. If you're not comfy & confident w/yourself no one else will be. I'm 26 & dealing w/the same thing with the exception of looking for a man but what is working for me is exercising. I'm not at it hard core, droping weight fast but I know I will never be TRUELY confident until I loose at least one roll. LOL. In the mean time, I find it necessary to except me as much as possiable. They are probably few a far between but there are women who look for personality before anything else. My personal opinion, you can be fine w/a 6 pack & be an as$hole & that will make you ugly but be big & wear it well w/a great personality & that will make you sexy. Maybe you could try exercising, it may make you feel better then you can say what I said I will if I ever get where I want to be (don't know if your familiar with him) "back then you didn't want me, now I'm hot & you all on me". Confidence on the inside will shine through & you will be sexy on the outside, regardless of size & looks. I like a thick man & I know I'm not the only one out there!
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I seen your picture, you are a hottie with potential.  Attraction is something must deeper than that.  Guys aren't attracted to women, it's the women who attract the men that get noticed.\n\nIf you as a women wasn't interested, nothing will ever happen to get you noticed.  Just be yourself, and be a lady with class.  If you like someone, and they like being around you without you looking at the clock that is the guy you want to be with.\n\nFun, is the magical word here.  Don't be one of the guys, that will never get you noticed.\n\nDress up in some nice clothes, stop wearing the same thing over, and over.\n\nChange the way you look, experiment.... You are hot without trying, imagine the attention you will get if you worked on it.   \n\nChange your hair style first, then get some designer glasses and shop for new clothes.  Never wear cheap shoes.  \n\nGet yourself a pair of Nine West, and treat yourself to nice clothes.\n\nAlways buy a piece at a time now, for Spring and Fall next year around Feb.
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Girls with straight hair want curly. Curly headed girls want straight hair. Blonds become brunetts. Brunetts become blonds. Large chested women want breast reductions and small chested women want implants. Do you want bigger breasts to attract guys? I won't lie; a nice set of breasts can attract alot of guys, but only inside beauty will attract AND KEEP a guy. If you are a loving and kind person you WILL get a guy. \n\nAll the above said. It is understandable that a woman wants to be as attractive as possible. Without surgery one way to get a bigger chest is to do wide push ups. This does not build up the breast tissue itself- that's impossible, but it builds up the muscle underneath making them appear bigger. If this seems like something you would like to try start slow and work up to 30-40 WIDE push ups twice a day. Your palms should be well outside your shoulders
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(he HAS to be outgoing and daring *SO SEXY!*)\nnot in order but all very important\n1. working on cars (that's a manly man's job, and if my car breaks down i need to know he can fix it!  very important)\n2. hiking, likes the outdoors (but he can't be all hippie  like)\n3. white water kayaking/ rafting when i went white water rafting i LOVED my guide, he wasn't even that attractive (lots of muscle though) and seeing him in his bathing suit paddle ahhh that was hott\n4.  Lifeguarding you ask any girl, lifeguardes are hot!  always tan, and they have to be muscular in order to save you\n5.  Boating is very cool, seeing a guy out on his boat driving with a bunch of friends is attractive\n6.  rockclimbing, even in an indoor gym, i love to watch a guy flex his muscles in a non-vain way\n7.  football (means you're tough)\n8.going to the gym is nice, but not overboard, like going to the gym everyday, too much, but like once or twice a week, just don't get too into it\n9. playing some kind of instrument also gives a nice little touch to a guy, not a gay one like the flute, but the guitar, drums, or even the sax\n10.  offroading its really cool when a guy has a big jeep or idk, something with big tires and goes wheeling in the rocks and mud, and then he takes his girlfriend with him, idk y but i like that!\n\nwell there's 10!  i hope this helps!  if a guy had any of those qualities i would be attracted to him, so having more than one, you'll be dynamite!\n\np.s. snowboarding and/or surfing are MAJOR pluses, i like guys doing those more than football or surfing
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this depends on the type of guy you want to attract.  I you just be yourself then you will naturally attract the one that is right for you.
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Real answer.\n\nThe truth is, Sarah, you won't have to go out of your way to use it, and it will be better if you don't anyway. People are naturally attracted to beauty, elegance, and high quality. Attractive people have a much better likelihood of success in business.    Just like people that dress well, are charming, and are likeable.  It all comes down to being likeable.\n\nAs an attractive woman with sex appeal, people will want to like you, although many will let envy and jealousy prevent themselves from doing so, and blame it on you. (I'm sure that's happened to you before.)  But that's just a burden of the blessing that you have. And what will help you most is to manage that burden. \n\nHow? By seeking to understand first, then to be understood.  By showing interest in others first, which will make you interesting in their eyes, and just by being "down to earth".  If you do those things, the blessing of your physical attributes will come off as being non threatening, and amiable.  You will multiply their effect.  Everyone will want you on their team.  And that makes you a leader.\n\nIf you make a concerted effort to use your sex appeal, the guys will want to sleep with you, and the ladies won't like you, and you will have to manuever through both enemies, and hard-ons.  A lot of extra work...
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I'm a guy, and I like thick girls. Of course, that's just my preferred body type. It's not all I look for.
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WOW thats a hard question,,,,since you are only temporarily plus sized,,,,,, I think I would advertise on a normal singles web site , something like already damaged soon to be normal sized female seeking wonderful man with a huge wallet!  Whatever your style, go for it honey!