Help me!!! One of my best friends is a "Mean Girl"?
605777
make some new friends that will teach her not to be mean she will be all alone
452118
A friend does not talk like this about another friend.  Maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself to determine who the real "brat" is.\n\nHow do you think your friend would feel if she heard that you are talking behind her back and making fun of her?  How would you feel if it was being done to you?  Never, ever treat someone any differently than you yourself would like to be treated.\n\nMaybe you need to tell your friend what a "brat" you are and suggest that she deserves a better friend than what you are capable of being.
267683
she is your friend but aparently she cares tooo much about herself..so much that any little thing u say she takes it as an insult ffrom you to her...when she says somethin like that u shoud quickly tell her, " i wasnt talking bout you, your make up looks cool and ur my best friends if u looked bad i would tell you" and tell her u were just giving an opinion ...but dont let her bit*h at you...because if thats what she does you may consider getting a New BEst frieNd
186334
Tell your friend that if she wants to be friend with this girl that you dislike, then its fine with you, but you rather not be friends with someone who talks badly about you. Tell your friend that if the friendship you both had together was so bad and that she thinks she has to be like that to you, then maybe the friendship you had together was not worth it in the long run.. Being friends with her may not be the best thing... Tell the girl that you dislike, that if she thinks she can talk bad about you, then fine so be it, but yu dont have to deal with the crap. Tell the girl you dislike, that she needs to take a good look at her life, and maybe she'll be able to find true friendship. That friends dont just grow on tress but you have to make them the right way. That it will bite her in her butt in the long run.. No one wants to be friends with someone who talks bad about others, or lies to make friends.
375154
first of all why is she your friend? second ignoring is the best weapon always. just ignore her. her threats to commit suicide is just the weapon to control u. trust me she won't do anything, or if she does she certainly will fail with her attempt.
211524
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
373118
Unfortunately you can't pick your friend's friends, and giving the ultimatum it is either her or me will most likely make you look like the bad guy.\n\nJust take the high road on this one.  Most girls say mean things because they are jealous or insecure. Don't bad mouth the other girl back, even though your feelings may be hurt.\nIt will just make her come up with more hurtful things to say.   \n\nJust arrange to spend time with your friend alone. Remember that she is free to be friends with whomever she likes.
727364
Sounds like you are willing to listen to her and be a good friend, but she isn't being nice to you at all. You don't need someone like that! I'm sure that there are lots of other people that would appreciate your friendship and treat you a lot better! Don't even bother with this girl if she's going to act like that cause she'll just pull you down.
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This stuff happens all of the time.  What you should do is plan things with other friends.  I know you guys are "best" friends, but hopefully you have some other friends.  I'm in a similar situation, but what I do is be as nice as I can be to that other girl and if she's not nice to me, then there's really no excuse and you can hate her justifiably.  Try to keep dates with Blaire that are only the two of you and just say that Krysta isn't very nice to you and you don't understand why because you've been trying to be her friend.  If you're in high school or younger, then it's a really hard situation and I'm sorry, I know it hurts.  You'll be ok though.
657141
First of all...she is NOT your Best Friend.  Second...she is probably jealous.  Ignore her comment.
724100
I have the same problem. my friend thinks just because she's sooooo popular she can stop hanging around her best friend. maybe you should tell her she doesn't know what type of friend she's leaving behind. if she doesn't listen to you, don't hang out with her anymore and ind a new friend.
196629
Mean? In what way? Stealing the last cookie in the jar? Yelling at you because she just tripped over all your textbooks lying over the floor? \n\nSisters can be mean-spirited to one another at some point or another. However, the key is to accept the other and to treat them like a live-in best friend. Try to tell her that yelling, snatching remotes, and the like upsets you. Slowly and surely, try to build a communication bridge between you two. \n\nBecause, i know, it's always a good thing to have a close sister when you need help dealing with the outside world. I have an older sister, and because we have such a close relationship, I know sisters are the best thing in the world.
778299
There always seems to be girls like this in school. Her meanness will show through eventually. There was a popular girl in my college class once who everyone seemed to idolize. She was really mean to me. Invited everyone to a party but not me. At the end of the year party, which she couldn't attend, everybody let out all their anger and frustration about her. Seems I wasn't the only one she was mean to. I was kind of mad because it made my year awful and somebody could have told me. Anyway, hang in there. Don't do anything stupid. Her karma will get her in the end.
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Why would you kick his ass (if you could)? What would that solve? \n\nYou seem to already have pity on him. Show him the pity. I sure that would piss him off...and he would be reclusive. He doesn't sound like a good friend. Forget him and move on. He seem like a dick. \n\nViolence is a last resort. Only if he strikes first. Trying to kick his ass will get you no respect. What would the girl your "friends" with think?
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
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Your friend is very insecure- if she can make you look bad she feels superior.\n\nYou need to find another best friend because if she were truly your friend she would not do the things she does to you.\n\nWith friends like her you certainly do not need any enemies