Would you agree that being overweight distorts your whole appearance?
600580
Depending upon the weight-loss...  yes, your appearance will change.  This is obvious, for the most part.  As far as your attractiveness...?  Well, a lot of that has to do with your own level of self-confidence.  When I lost weight, I found people approaching me right and left...  people that I had never thought I'd have a chance with.  It didn't take long for me to realize that this was mainly cause I felt good about myself, and this, in turn, was reflected in my outward appearance.  It's amazing how beautiful a person can look with a smile on their face and a twinkle in the eye.  :)
807156
No, it's not funny what-so-ever. Who are they to judge who's heavy and not? Saying hurtful rude comments about someone's appearance, personal opinions, or lifestyles are the things that increase anorexia, bulemia, and suicidal attempts. Reading this you may think i'm being hypocritical, and I probably am because I have made fun of all different kinds of people. However, I am not proud of it, I regret it, and I believe that is another serious problem within our communities. Why is it that fat women are hideous and disgusting, but heavy men are perfectly acceptable? Look at these comedians...I don't even consider it a real job. Going to school to learn better ways to tease and make fun of other's.....that's sure something to write home about. The thing is heavy women need to realize that you need to try your absolute hardest to ignore it, and live the life you are in for who you are. Each person in this world gets made fun of whether they know it or not, nobody is perfect. But you are the only one who has control over who you chose to listen to and ignore. I think it takes a lot of determination to lose all of that weight, and personally I think you should lose weight for the longer lasting life, not the appearance. Obviously you're going to feel self concious, but it's your choice whether you want to pretend it doesn't bother you or take action and try and lose the weight. I support so many people in doing that, talk to a doctor for help, join a support group....but don't let other's comments bring you down.
1049128
To be honest with you it brings to much shame in my heart to share it with anyone.\nFor now I'll say its letting Princess NonO think I look like my avatar when in fact I'm your typical overweight American.
934895
It depends on whether that photo is really you or not. Since I've seen it all over the internet I think it's more likely that you're just being an asshole toward overweight people, and you need to get over yourself.
698916
My opinion is:  no.  I really don't like skinny models.  Also, I don't like really obese people.  Neither are healthy and could sustain life if it were not for a really invasive pop culture.  IMHO.  \n\nYou may use my opinion.  And may I add I have a really healthy appearance and I'm able-bodied.
735762
let me tell ya....ok i have a problem w/ weight too. i jus dont care wat ppl care most of the time....but sometimes i do. but u dont have to change for someone else if you do..do it for your self. and you could be big and beautiful. beautiful comes in every size and if you have to change to make someone like you they are not very good ppl are they? they will except you for who you are. so dint worry about it. ok hope this helps.....bye and good luck
563306
Nope, I am myself, I have my own style and personality and I love it! Plus magazines are bad influences showing 80 lb girls as "healthy" :-)
542224
I think she may still be self-conscious even though she's lost weight.  She had been a thick girl for awhile, and even though she's lost weight, her self image may still be a little low. Or, it could be just that she likes doing something different. Who knows...
167581
Only if it is affecting your health. If you are so large you have back troubles, yes, it may be the way to go, but if you are trying to improve your self image chances are you will only start to find other things you dislike about yourself. It's better to love yourself the way you are than to try to adjust yourself to what the world thinks you should be.
786412
I find it EXTREMELLY attractive... If you lose it, you'll probably end up looking like a sick anorexic!
722004
that's not true.  i know plenty of overweight woman who are beautiful.  it's a stereotype like everything else.
1174304
No, life is what you make it sweetie. I'm deformed, at least by society's standards. I'm overweight, and my clothes are above a size 16. I'm looked at as a piranha, but you know what, who cares? It's upsetting at times, but the way I look at it is, NO ONE IS PERFECT! Stay confident sweetie, and know that God loves you. Take care.
769629
You could probably deal with a little muscle. If you have good excercise and eating habits, you should look normal.
492204
Sure they help.  You spend thousands getting to hear "you look fine."\n\nIf it helps, Marilyn Monroe wore a size 14.  She was no supermodel.\n\nTry concentrating on what's on the inside.  The outside will glow with the joy you'll gain.  If you're a good person, that matters more than weight or a few minor flaws.
196884
I am a big fat guy.\nI don't know of anyone who would be satisfied with my body.\n:)
223485
I would be unrealistic to say that it does not affect my professional life. To my knowledge it does not, but I am sure that I have been passed over for a promotion because of my weight. Socially it does not. I am actually working on a book about fat-friendly places in my city. I had a roomate in college who was heavier than me and she would always just stay home. I am different. I like to go out and have a good time with friends, of which I have PLENTY! I like to enjoy life! I enjoy dressing up and going to plays, the opera, etc. I even do full-figured modeling on the side. I've never had problems dating. I have a tremendous love for God, and He sees me through. I stay active. I walk, I swim, I dance. Being obese does not always mean being unhealthy. People who are obese have to have confidence in themselves. Ask questions. If you are afraid to go somewhere because you don't think you will fit in a chair, CALL AHEAD! Ask if there are chairs without arms! Do not let life pass you by from fear. Do not stop your life while you are dieting "until you reach your goal"! Live now!
800536
you are fine. as long as you feel comfortable, thats what really matters.\n\ntoo many people are hung up on being thin and even when we are not overweight? we still think we are because of advertisements, Hollywood and models.