i work with a girl, we made out one day, i want to write her a letter and mail it. cool or not cool?
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Oh yeah, write her a letter Shakespeare. Also make a photo montage of you and her along with an original poem and a hand knitted macrame pot holder.\n\nLesson #1. Never put it in writing. HR will love to fire you for it when it all goes south.\n\nLesson #2. Be cool. Chicks dig guys who are masculine and appear to have it together, dont blow it by acting like a wimp. If she tells you it wont work out, say, "that's cool, let me know if you change your mind, I'll be around." then walk away and do not look back.\n\nLesson #3. If you talk to her again, keep your inner child and feelings to yourself. One woman in the relationship is all you need. Get in and get out. Fast.
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i think its a great idea, go ahead and make a friend!! one of your letters might just change someone's week or month! i imagine it can be very rough... so i say again, go for it!
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what's 7 hr. drive if this turns out to b something really special??? why get your buddy in the middle? give it a few days and then call her...send a cute card..just to say"HELLO"..if its meant to be then where ther's a will, there's a way..best of luck to ya!!!
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hmmm...you can do the the "non verbal" way...send her some greeting and write something sweet ... but be original man !!!\nno copied text !!! women like originality...be cute if you can...she will love it !  Good luck!!
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Just make sure that there are no work regulations against dating within the company -- but otherwise I'd say go for it. If things go sour, just make sure that they don't rot and decay - because like you said, you do have to see her all the time.\n\nAnd don't send it "secret admirer".  Send it from YOU - that way she'll more than get the hint that you like her.
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Since you wrote the love notes, I think it's best that you give them to her and let her read them. We all feel a certain inspiration when writing and sometimes there are things we feel we can express only through writing. Your first instinct was to write her not talk her.  So I believe you should stick to your original plan.  Unless of course you strongly feel otherwise.
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ok, you're going to hate me for answering this question honestly but oh well. Two years ago, this guy who i'd known for about two months and i knew liked me. The problem (i think....it still confuses me today) is that i wasn't as into him as he was for me. He wrote this really long nice letter (but he spelled my last name wrong and a lot of other stuff). When i got it, i was somewhere with my friend. I read it, i let her read it, i copied the address on the envelope to reply, and i ripped up the letter. I have no idea why, but i wrote back with a letter saying sorry, stop calling me. All i know is that i felt tied down, and i guess i don't want anyone to ever love me. i knew that he hurt after that but in the end (because i'm really a nice person) i can't stop thinking about him and what i did (2 yrs later) while i'm sure he's forgotten about me. I have no idea really why i did that. So after that i never got in a relationship far enough to be a girlfriend. So, my answer is...i have no f.ucking idea why she did that, or what you should do. maybe you should move on from this girl, she'll realize what she did later (if she'd a good person.) Sorry i couldn't really give you an answer->i don't think there is really one. Much Love!
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Cool it Chap. Tell ur (a) about it. Its gonna be fine.\nDon't worry.
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Write down all the reasons you like and love this friend. How long is your friendship? Does this person have integrity, honesty, good-will towards you and others. Do you have fun with this person? What is so fun about this friend. Can you name a time that stands out..  Has this person been a good friend to you.  \nWhen you write your letter it should come naturally. Don't have to be mushy, just be honest, but make sure you state why and what you love about this person. Remember though: Actions speak louder than words. Something to think about, and a good lesson to learn from.
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Maybe "spineless dweeb" is a bit strong, but that's heading in the right direction.\n\nWhat's the point of sending a letter to a girl telling her you like her and then not signing it?  How, good brother, is she going to answer you?\n\nMaybe you're not ready for a relationship just yet.  Your question suggests that you are very young.  If you like someone and you want to be liked back, be friendly, kind, polite, and sincere with that person and if it's going to happen, it will.  If not, at least you've made a friend, right?
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well before you write love letters you might want to work on your spelling... but love letters or card without an special occasion are always great. So are little presents that show you care or pay attention, for example a DVD or CD she said she was interested in, or a book with little stories or poems you can read to each other. Flowers and candy always work too. but since you hardly know this Girl why don't you start by taking her out and see if you like her once you know her. Take her out or something, i think you are far away from Love with this one here.... get to know her and take it from there.
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Well even though you only knew him/her for for a short while, if it is sincere good luck or good-bye then it will be ok since you have not known him/her long. I would probaly start the letter of by saying I know we have not known each other long.......
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It's gonna hurt his feelings no matter how nice you tell him. Here is a letter one girl gave me.\n\nhey josh. i'm not gonna marry anybody till i'm 30 ---at least. Which means i dont have to start looking for anybody to have a special relationship with till i'm 25. lol  i'm very flattered that you like me, and i would be lying if i said i don't like people saying i'm great to be around. you're great to be around too. but i don't like you, the way you like me. i'm not ready to be more than friends with you or anybody else right now.  i'm being straight up with you about this, because i think that's the way to be. i dont like games. i don't want to hurt your feelings. i just want you to understand me, i'm friendly towards you because you're a nice guy. and someday, maybe soon, you'll meet the right girl, who will feel like you feel. but for now, i hope we can be buddies, you and [sister] are alot of fun. thanks for the compliment of your e-mail, your friend [name of freind]\n\nThis is just one letter, please don't copy it verbatim. Hope it helps you as a starting point. I blanked out the names to protect the innocent.
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You managed to write this question. Just write a letter telling her how you feel. At least the two of you will know where you stand with each other. Honesty is the best policy!
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If your shy write her a letter. Girls love, love-letters!!
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I feel you should be friends with her even if it means she's leaving work in may. When she leaves, you can show or tell her how you feel. At least your work will never get in the way. But it's always best to go with the flow. Don't push it. You can ask her out on a date but don't tell her that. Treat it as you guys are hanging out as friends. That's all I can think of. Hope it helps!
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the girl has made it clear she likes you by initiating the date etc..\n\nI'm sure she would love it if you made her aware of how much you like her.   if she kissed you or told you she thought you were cool or whatev3r you would like it wouldn't you.\n\ndon't leave it too long cos she may be thinking you don't feel the same. so go for it!