What do you do if a guy 2 years older than you digs you, but is too afraid to say it?
612199
You are too young for this kind of things, Why dont you wait until you are ready for marriage.
59284
Ok, so, the biggest thing is that every guy is, even if he seems really macho and cool, terrified. He, like me, is scared that if he moves too fast, then you might get scared off, and then he'll be left flying solo again. Just get him in some sort of romantic situation and put your head on his shoulder and say I love you. If he is still scared, he ain't worth it.
182926
I think he's old enough to do so but if you still find it wierd or unfaithful, ask him about it. If he denies make sure you have proof for back up. NOTE: Don't try to make him look like a bad person, talk as nice as possible
824236
The best thing to do is not rush anything.  That is what freaks guys out the most. You can paint paintings but do that kind of thing in moderation.  Don't smother or be clingy.  Resist the temptation to go all goo goo gaa gaa over him right off the bat.  It isn't wrong to feel that way about someone just keep some of it under wraps for right now. If it lasts there will be plenty of time for that later.  Just take a deep breath and relax. If you get some big bubbly surge of lovey dovey feelings just bite a pillow or write it in a journal.  Don't call him and go "I looooove you much I don't know what to do!"  Don't go to the extreme of pretending you don't like him either. It works for some guys but to others it is a turn off. Good luck.
344180
Focus on the intellect piece. I would just tell him how much I have learned from him and that you want him to mentor you. Older guys really strive to lead by example. Focus on the Physical is so common nowadays, so try alternative approach. It works...\nI would not focus on expressing my feelings directly because they may take it as just a temporary infatuation and younger girls do have tendency to look for a "father figure". and it does come across as just a crush. so if you want more, you need to show him that you are actually interested in having intellectual discussions with him and it will just grow from there.
771738
It depends partly on how old you are.  Until a guy is around 13 or 14, he does not know how to deal with those special feelings toward a girl.  So for a 13 year old guy friend, you're kind of out of luck.  Just keeping being a supportive friend.\n\nFor a guy 14 or over, you can give it a try.  First start by talking about dancing and see if the thought of dancing with a girl appeals to him.  Then hold his hand when you're walking together for a few seconds and see how he reacts.  If he is still smiling, then ask him if he wants a hug or something.  Then if he  has not turned to run yet, you can start off the conversation by saying you want to be friends most of all.  But there is something you have to clarify, and you are asking because you want to protect your friendship.   When people get to be a certain age, they start to think about the opposite sex in a "different way", and you are starting to be in that situation.  Then you ask if your friend would be offended if you told him how you feel about him.\n\nIf he is not ready, he would change the subject or look really scared.  Then  you'll know.  He won't be offended because you've already prepped him and warned him not to be offended.\n\nOpenness is very important if you are friends already and want to move on to something else.  When you grow up, you'd want to communicate with your boyfriend of husband in the same, gradual way.
1023344
How old is he?  Most younger boys think its cute to not say they like someone just incase someone might make fun of them later, but if he's older, prolly not.  Most older guys I know are extremely direct with what they want and dont play around, but I also have some stupid friends.  Talk to him alot and see if you have to do all the work; does he laugh and make comments even when you say stupid things?  Does he stare at you even when your in a large group?
684815
Firstly, he is WAY too old for you. he is ten years older than you!\n\nSecondly, no you shouldn't talk to him again. He has a one-track-mind and he isn't worth it.\n\nAnd thirdly, in answer to the title, some men don't realize that just because we don't have c*cks doesn't mean we're not human. It's the whole '4 Fs' thing again - they can't eat you or fight you (and if they fear you they'll get laugfhed at by their friends) so the only other option for them is to try and f*** you. I think it's a guy thing.
773009
you talk to his friends, so oneday when you see him just say hey, n ask him whats up\nfind something he likes and you like too, great convo starter when you have something in commen\njust take a deep  breath n talk to him, its not hard, just get over your fear n do it
714614
Take it from guy. He will end up hurting you probably. If guy says something like that need to just let it go.
691598
Just tell him.  So what if it hurts his ego, at least he'll learn that what he does isn't funny or amusing.  If a person is 24 and shooting peas out his nose, his ego should be the least of his worries.  Personally, I'd rather have someone tell me that I'm a pompous blowhard than have people let me live in a fantasy world where I think I'm the Messiah.
373405
Hey, it depends. how much older is he? and is he mature? or is he a looser? honestly i say go with your feelings, telll him that you love him because u can't hold inside forever or you'll burst.  Maybe he'll say he likes you to and maybe not.  Whatever happens happens. just go for it girl! i did. and i've got the love of my life now. he's only 4 years older than me, but we're in hs so its pretty big difference, and we're getting made fun of and lied about. but it dosn't matter. he's so amazing.
458106
Best thing to do is ignore it. I know it sounds lame, but when he gets a reaction from you he knows that he's affected you in some way. And by taking the higher ground, it'll show who really is the more mature one
142334
I find it hard to think much of a guy who says he loves you but would let your older brother get in the way just because he is scared of him.  Tell him to grow a spine and fight for the one he loves like a real person.
399644
Life is confusing at 14. It's confusing at a lot of other ages too. Just look at all of the different answers you have and you will see what I mean. Here's my best advice.\n\nWrite your friend who moved and tell him that when you told him that you loved him it was true, but your love for him is a friend's love, not a romantic love. Tell him that his friendship is important and that you love having him as a friend, but the romance is not there for you. \n\nFind some ways to be around the new shy guy. It's ok to be shy at 14 - for guys and girls. If you get into some of the same activities you will have some chances to find out if there is a spark between you. Be patient. If you are both shy it may take some time. At 14, it's ok to use friends to pass along the message that you might be interested in getting to know him better. That can work pretty well sometimes.\n\nI like that it matters to you how your friend feels and that you are honest about your fears and feelings. That makes you a lot more special than some of the people who have answered you. I hope it goes great for you and that this works out just perfect for you. Good luck.
65802
If your not scared of rejection then go right up to him with all the pride in the world and say are you involved with someone, let him answere first before you tell him why and if he says no then tell him how much your digging him and if he say's yes then say oh cause a friend of mine liked you. But if your scared of rejection then write him a note and hand it to him and walk away with a smile
580123
tell him straight that he dont stand a chance.mention to him that he's scaring you..just tell him what you really fee..but in a nice way ok? goodluck!