my friend was dating this guy and he like me and would flirt so i told my friend was that right to do?
602264
I do feel that was right because you would want your friend to do the same thing if the roles were reversed. He obviously would of done something behind his girlfriend's back if you had given him the green light.\n\nShe is better off. Don't feel bad they broke up or guilty that you told her. You did good. Don't let nobody tell you different.
729844
I guess he did realise that it would not be right to do something that both of you would regret later. I think he likes you more then he lets on and would like to get to know you better before taking things to another level. There is no problem to see and meet each other as both of you know that nothing happened and it has not affected your friendship.
915483
tell your friend that you werent flirting. to make her feel better try to talk less to him, cause its obvious that she likes him, and you dont, so just back off for a bit.
550357
hes flirting with you he could actually like you.but do you feel the same way.???just go along with it and see if he actually asks you out.he could actually like u i say go for it
275188
Absolutely it was rape. Taking something that was not offered is wrong, he stole something from you that you did not want to give. He went ahead although you told him no and tried to push him off you. He knew it was wrong. He raped you, absolutely. The fact that you were dating does not mean he has any rights over you, he certainly did not have the right to force himself on you when you did not want to have sex with him. No means no. x
565407
I think you did the right thing by letting your boyfriend know how you felt about it. If he wants to have a moocher friend over, fine, but let your boyfriend foot the bill. If your boyfriend has a problem with that and wants you to pay for his moocher friends, perhaps a new boyfriend would be in order. Good luck!
721115
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
391072
Your friend knows very well that he likes you. You need to ask yourself if you really like him? There is no point in going out with him just for the sake of it. You don't sound very interested in him. If you do like him then go for it. Tell your friend that if he was interested in her he would have ask her out not you.
660040
I know what you mean. It's fun to flirt and joke around, even when you're not serious. He might not even be serious either. I'm friends with a lot of guys that act all flirty and say a lot of suggestive things, but we both know that they don't mean it.\n\nAnd no one's saying you have to do whatever it is he's saying.  You can just be a flirt, and if he asks you out, just say yes or no, but if you say yes, simply say, "Alright, I'll go out with you, but keep your hands to yourself for a while, ok?"
539073
thats messed up. do your friend know? Dont get involved cause she might say that you tried to mess with her
855197
Why not.  You know what you want...go for it.  It's always better to start out as friends.  You already know him and he's comfortable with you.  Just do exactly what you've written.  Strike up the conversation and see where it goes, tell him that you would like to date him and see what happens.  Don't be afraid...if it isn't happening, you still have a friend in him.  Good Luck
915157
well you weren't supposed to date the guys friend.  that's a no no.  now if he asks you out it'll be a miracle.
31449
Its matter if it was a close friend if it is he is off limits but not go for it, but either way talk to your friend and see how they feel first.
480422
Are they running to you as a friend wanting advice on how to date your friend...or are you getting what's like to be called "sloppy seconds"? Either which way, the situation your in does stink...tell your friend whats wrong - that guys that like her and coming up to you after they ask her out...she should straighten them out for you if she's a friend. IF not, a good kick in the "whahoos" will definately push all romatic ideas with you out of a guys head. Just an idea.
1016239
I believe you did the right thing as far as leaving him. Now for sleeping with his friend there is no excuse, unless it was to save one of your life. But he was wrong to push and slap you for it he could have simply left you.
94119
I would have to tell him, no at the moment I am dating someone else. Thank you so much for asking me, but I feel that it would be wrong to date you under the circumstance. NOW, if you are truly interested in this guy, take the high road, and break it off with the guy you are seeing.  Then perhaps pursue this other guy.  Show the guy you're with the respect he deserves. You can't have them both, so make a choice. I hope the choice is a wise one.
565080
you tell me and we will both know. it sounds to me that hes just being a flirt.. i wouldnt worry to much.. if he loves you like he says he does than the flirting hes doing is harmless. I am a flirt big time but my ole man knows that i am his completely and he trusts me.. if you trust him then let him flirt..if you dont trust him then step up girl and stand up for yourself and squash this now.. its kinda up to if you trust him or not.. your choice.. good luck