five, friends 1 guy 3 girls the guy has dated 3 of the four, problems what do i do?
607586
well a friend is a friend i think they should be friends no matter what i mean dont let 1 guy come and  end a friendship a booty call is not worth the friendship and that is the only thing he wanted so never end something good over something dumb
295655
You want to be a good friend and I understand that but if I were in your shoes I would let it happen. If you make a big deal or say anything about it period shes going to wig and maybe end up dating the guy even longer just to spite you and that's just counter-productive. In my opinion she made a bad decision dating one of her friends X's but since that's not the question it's neither here nor there. The point is, she knew how he was before she started dating him, she should have known better. I'm not trying to be cruel but people learn things best firsthand. Be supportive, hope for the best, Maybe your X has changed but be ready to console her and help her move on when he screws her over as well.
527786
Not good business to date your friends exs.  Tell him you feel like he has cross the line of your friendship, because he use to date your best friend.
669631
Your best option here is Number 5......which you are yet to meet. Go out with your friends and have a good time. I see a big number 5 in your near future! Have fun dating him!!
620325
Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?
451008
Not much u can do, that is part of the danger of dating friends from your group of friends, like sleeping with a co-worker, things go bad, u are stuck with them.  One suggestion though is finding another guy will, if he has/had any feelings for u at all, make him want to not be around as much when he knows u both will be there.
468175
nothing. be a good friend and respect what they have between each other. don't try to be with someone that is already with someone else. there are a lot of people out there, why fight over someone especially if your friend is dating him?
526843
That's bull.  You can date as many guys as you can handle.  My friend used to date as many as 8 guys and even squeeze in an extra 5 if space permitted in her calendar.
360029
WOW, that must be something to have 5 people fighting over you, what you need to do is decide if you want to be with any of them, you pick one, and then tell the rest that they need to back off, as nice as possible with getting your point across.  If you don't like any of them in that way then you need to do the right thing and let them know that you are not interested in a relationship with them other than friendship.
1151950
well , if you really love them , you would wait, but if you hear that he has been dating other girls , hanging out with others , then you should be not concerned about him , because long distance love doesn't work , I've already had 2 friends that broke up and that's just sad
314485
To be honest if you had any feelings for any of them then you wouldn't of put yourself if this situation to start off with. I think you should break up with all of them and find someone out there who you'd never cheat on!
496673
well if you wanna casually date, date em all what the hell why not?? but if ur looking for just one guy, figure out which one is the best choice for you, then go out with that one. most men are childish that's just something that cannot be helped lol. newayz, its ur choice, you've got 6 guys to pick from have fun!!!
202821
Your friends are right.  You need to break this cycle and stop living your life waiting for something that may never happen.  You deserve a man who will choose you first over all other girls and not one that can't make up his mind and picks you only when it is convenient.  This guy is just playing you and keeping you around for when his other relationship has problems.
50902
wait until you know how you feel. there is a difference between dating and having a boyfriend. it is totally okay to casually date more than one person at a time as long as they understand you're not exclusive. if you decide that you have very strong feelings for one person, stop dating the others and go exclusive with that person. don't pick one guy and stick with him unless you're sure about it, because that's not fair to him. if your emotions are going back and forth, that probably won't change even if you become his girlfriend, and you could ruin a good friendship. right now i'm rebuilding a friendship for that very reason, and it's slow and sometimes pretty awkward.
947330
Hello:\n\nI've been with guys who have pressured me in the past, and trust me - it's really hard to say no. But ultimately that is what you have to do. If you are not comfortable with something, that is your decision. And if your guy loves you, than he has to respect you, and that means he will wait for you. \n\nBe strong and stand up for yourself. When I am in a situation where things start to happen, there are a lot of signs and ways that I can stop something if I wanted to. The first would be being in that situation in the first place. It is possible to hang out with your guy without being in a sexual situation. Maybe you need to plan group events, I mean he's not going to try to get you in the sack when you are hanging out with 5 of your friends. \n\nI hope this helps, and good luck!
513246
The girls just don't want to be tied down. However, I must tell you that there's someone out there for him. Instead of trying to please the girls, the girls should like him for all of who he is and what he has to offer. Personally, I would still love and be with my boyfriend Tony if he was in the same predicament as your friend. First off, tell your friend to lay it all on the table when he meets a girl and thinks that it might lead somewhere. If the girl doesn't accept, then no feelings are too hurt (the girl gets to scram and your friend gets to go for someone better). Second of all, a girl who's meant for you friend should accept everything about him. So, if she's the one, she'll help take care of everything and not demand money all the time. He seems to be a rare gem in the dust and so tell him not to despair. The right one will come along. Meanwhile, just hang tight and hold on to his morals. Good luck.
319106
of guy #1 wantd to go as friends in the first place, then as a friend, he would understand his situation and not have a problem with you going with guy#2 and you should tell him soon so he will have enough time to get anothr date.