How do i know if my mam really wonts to marry me?
612772
Sorry, dear..but i think it's time to  move on. Brace up.
196461
Tell her you're in love and that you think this is what's right for you. Be an adult about it and show her that you're serious about it. She's your mother, she'll understand in time, but it will probably be big shock at first.
197782
if you are talking about a marrige propsal just ask her when the time is right, she can no more than say no, also try to know that you are not the first to make a proposal of marrige, that is how most marriges get done,,
752903
I think that your communication is weak. She might be massageing her ego, or being curious, These are things that do come up when things appear to get old. Your reaction is what set her off. You care a lot about her. This is very hard but you must try and let this go, be strong and confident in yourself, that is attractive. She must be looking for some juice, look at yourself, and find out way, then dont cry. Dont be a whiner demander of all, and need s everthing as if mother was home. You have to accept that she loves life and all tha goes with it. We areHungry for love, You must try and live with some pain to build are heart for future desire. Be a cool bad ass man that has love coming his way. Dont just demand it. live it, be it.
384658
okay... i understand where you are coming from and good on you for saying something to your mum. JUST remember that mothers want what is best for their kids..and saying that i can tell you that you mum is prolly wanting the married life for you with a guy and one day have kids but you are on a different level that she does not understand. I think at this point in time you need to sit down and explain to your mum that you are a adult and she cant go on making decisions for you the rest of your life. You are in love and for that matter she should be happy that you have someone to love you in return! That is not to say that you wont have kids or wont do things in life that she thinks you can do with a guy. Also if you really really love this girl i would not take her home to be blamed from your mother on " YOU MADE MY DAUGHTER LIKE THIS" been there done that... you dont want to make your girl feel like your family will never come to terms with her being in YOUR life! As long as it takes to break that ice with your mum keep working at it, but dont bring your girl in the middle of it and you live to regret it because you mum might say some nasty things that will end up hurting the one you love. I hope this works out and if you ever want to chat about anything please drop me a line!
120306
No, she is too good for you. Just kidding dude, offcourse she will marry you. I bet you deserve her. Tell emily that i said hello. How is your family doing? Long time no see... keep in touch
508258
Just explain as civilly as you can that it's your lives. And point out, that if God didn't want something for you, it wouldn't have happened. All things happen for a reason, and she needs to accept that. Tell her you don't want to push her out of your lives, but she HAS to respect you and your decisions. They're yours to make, not hers.
608639
Time is the only thing which will provide answers for you. Perhaps your mother does not deserve your trust, repect and honour, and if that is true, I am sorry. Your mom is supposed to be the one to provide guidance to you, but for some reason you aren't listening to her. If your bf does not have legal status in the USA, you don't want to endanger him, so moving in with him would make him vulnerable. I suggest you stay with your mom for the present time, and take the time to figure out how to make things work. Maybe you can help you bf get legal status without marrying him. It is very difficult to obtain status through marriage now. Good luck in your future......just give it a little more time.
15133
Don't try to force anything. If it's meant to be it won't be so hard.  Go with the flow of the relationship and listen to her when she says no. Lots of us men don't realize that when a woman says no she means it. Don't be posessive, be kind to her and see how it goes.
438375
If you are postponing proposing I'd say you aren't yet ready to take the step of getting married. It takes a lot of courage to admit that. It doesn't mean you don't love her. I imagine you do love her. You just aren't ready to take the step of getting engaged. If she's truly ready and you are not, then you need to talk about it. You may have to set her free if you don't think you'll be ready for a long, long time. You both need to be honest with each other about what you want out of this relationship and act accordingly.\n\nAlso, talk to God. Pour your heart out to Him. Ask Him if marriage with this woman is what He wants you to do with your life. Listen with all your heart and soul for His loving guidance. God Bless.
642248
nope. she will choose him over you every time. only tell if they start talking marriage...
314557
She used to look at me with the most admirable eye-sight,listen carefully what I said to her and the family,she's not agree every time,but showed respect was really made me love her forever.And remind yourself keep  attractive to him by little thing like pick up something in front of him,it's works no matter how long you married.\nGood Luck
604653
Definitely keep open communication between you always. Talk about things. \nBut I suggest that you have a talk with your mother-in-law-to-be. Ask her for some suggestions. She not only has experience being married, but she knows your future husband.
878320
I look at it like this.When u get married u will lose all your rights in doing something alone.So u need to stand your ground and do this for u.Plus explain to her what u just said to us. If she doesn't understand then u need to really evaluate your relationship with her. I mean if she is this troubled about something this small then what happens when u two have real problems.I wish u all the luck.
904774
Believe it or not YOU ARE NOT your mothers keeper.  My mother went through alot of bad relationships.  It took a long time to understand IT WAS NOT MY PROBLEM.  You are old enough to be married so BE MARRIED.  You will grow old with your wife (hopefully, not all of life is guaranteed) Your mother will grow old with her choices.  You cannot change your mom or her choices
608015
Hey man, relax.\nFirst thing you can do is to trust her words: She said she wants to marry you. Then accept it.\n\nDon't worry too much. There is still time to talk about her attitude (accusing, do things that make you mad). Both of you should agree to change your attitudes to a level that is acceptable and comfortable with both of you. Otherwise, your relationship will always be on the rocks.\n\nTry to meet in the middle. and try to compromise for the good of you both.\n\nTrue love understands and cares. It is gentle, not rude, it does not boast, it keeps no record of wrongs.\n\nAll the best.
419547
You can't. Even when you do get out of the house. She's still mom and she's going to always tell you how she feels about things and 9 times out of 10, she's right. She's only looking out for your best interest. I understand what you are going through. I'm grown and my mom still be in my relationship.