When my girlfriend comes, she screams.  It's embarrassing b/c I have housemates.  How can she be more quiet?
606747
Just tell her. She could control it if she tried.
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Tell her you have to talk to her about something (maybe pretend you need help on homework? I dunno) and take her aside to a place where no one else can hear. Then, ask her.
748455
She may not be aware of how loud it is and how thin the walls are.  I would knock on her door and in a friendly way, tell her the music is too loud and bothering you in your home.  Ask her to turn it down.\n\nIf this doesn't work and you do not get a positive response, call your local police department and ask what ordinances there are on noise and loud music.  If there are laws (be aware that this is going to piss off your neighbor), you can ask the police to speak with her.  Normally, they will warn her the first time.  \n\nIf she turns it up after they leave.... which inconsiderate people do, you can call them again.  If there is an ordinance, there is a consequence, such as a fine.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
750143
Dunno I hear them screaming across my window and upstairs, it's annoying when I am trying to sleep
866415
i sympathize with you. i am living with a slob. she will fill an ash tray to the top before emptying it.  I started emptying the ash tray and washing it. then i started putting all her [on the floor] stuff in the floor in her closet. then i started placing the broom in the kitchen door to bug her. we laugh a lot about my antics but it is starting to work . you don't have to yell or even look angry. just send the subliminal messages along and if he has a brain he will get the message.
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There's not anything you can do ... just keep going in and being yourself,if you go in now and act all weird she'll pick-up on it and it will make the problem worse.Believe me all she wants to do is forget about it.
655432
Try learning how to spell better....anyway...try telling her that you aren't embarrased of her. Get her to believe you and trust you. Introduce her to other people/other friends so that she knows you're not embarassed of her.
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Try talking first; give them the benefit of the doubt that they don't know they're bothering you.  I always say something vaguely guilt-inducing like "I'm sure you would never intend to be loud, but these buildings are really old and the walls are thin, and I can hear a lot."
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You are not going to get her to stop unless you embaress her. Or you need to talk to her about what she is doing and how it makes your feel. Telling her to shut up is not the way to go.\n\nAlso you need to ask yourself why do you want her to stop. Are you jealous of the attention? If it is not hurting you why should you be worried. People that lie like that will get theirs in the end. She'll bury herself in her own hole without any help from you.
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Tell her next time "I'm sorry but, it is difficult for me to here you in the other room." When she says "I don't mean for you to get up" Say " You can try buzzing me on the phone" In other words state the problem offer a solution. Instead of getting frustrated.
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"remind" her of something embarrassing in front of your guy, or even start making out with him in front of her or mid-conversation. that'll shut her up!
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I grant you exhibitionism is annoying, but can't you just close the curtains on the side of your house facing them?  It seems a shame for you to move out just because of that.  It's sort of like letting them control your life, isn't it?\n\nHave you tried asking them to close their curtains?
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ask her why her breath smells.  that will make her paranoid all the time.
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hahaha! nice one, yep i can imagin the scene in my head, i dont know why she jus walked out, there must've been more, did she not say nefing?? even it's over. it's not your fault what your body dose, but maybe u should've said sorry or jus o dear that was embarrassing, \n\nmove on or go fone her mate\n\n_X_mary_X_
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Ive had the same problem. The way I would handle it would be to tell her as it is. Just say "listen, im not tryin to be mean just please let me have my space, stop copiing my style and get your own please" And walk away.
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YOU'RE PERFECTLY JUSTIFIED IN BEING ANGRY. If you pay rent you have the right to something called "quiet enjoyment" of the living space.  The fact that the noises are sex noises is not the point.  It would be just as much a trampling of your rights as a rooommate if he played his stereo really loud for 45 minutes (or for 45 minutes more than he agreed with you he would, as the case may be.) Bottom line is, he doesn't have the right to be excessively noisy at any time of day, with any kind of noise (and neither do you.)\n\nFiguring out how to f*ck his new girl without inconveniencing his roommates is his problem to solve, not yours.\n\nHaving said all that, the truth is men will say anything and do anything to get laid, including making promises they won't keep.  Keeping promises to roommates is not much of a priority here. So you're probably better off with a different rooommate, like maybe a female one.
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You know its not true ignore her. I've been there and he told her that as long as she lived she could never walk in my shoes. Just be calm. Ignore her . Her mouth will be her undoing eventually. You get agitated and she wins.