are,nt some guys just better off if  they never approach women?
607195
YES! But you have to show some interest... otherwise she may never make the move
164522
it's hard doing that. \ncoz most guys just goes for the "great looks & no brain" look with girls......lol\nif he doesnt see you for the great person you are, he is not worthy of you.
392327
No, men like women are all different. Personally i can't stand the scary stick thin people - but some people do. I'm a firm believer there is someone for everyone, don't sell yourself short - while men often joke otherwise, personality is often the most important thing. \nEveryones beautiful to someone
930224
This is totally situational... but...\n\nIn general, I love it when a girl makes the move. As a guy, we have an automatic disadvantage, because no matter what, we have to work for it. Now, this is a gross generalization, but most of the time it is true: women can find someone if they really want to, any time.\n\nMen on the other hand, well...\n\nSo to have a woman come up and make it known that she's interested makes things easy. Not to mention, it's not like there's anything to lose really.
876466
Guys take that as you are not interested in them. It makes it hard to talk to you if you appear standoffish, and some might think you snobbish.
133614
I agree with the whole enjoy your life deal.. but I have to also say the best way to meet guys is RANDOMLY.. when a real man sees you living your life and enjoying yourself without having to have a man by your side you will draw the good men to you with your own self-confidence.. and it's not true that there are no good men out there.. don't fall for that crap.. the problem is that theres a lot less men than women.. so the percentage are even.. which means theres a lot more "scarlett women" who taint men too.. kinda makes me wonder..
975979
To put it plainly guy's don't want Girls as friends they want girlfriends, he wouldn't bother with you if he didn't feel someit. So chance it definitely darlin', its better to have tried and failed than to never have tried.
64736
Well, some guys do understand man. I dont treat girls like that. And i know alot of other guys that don't.\nSo, i think your predicament is kind of solitary.\nMaybe you should work that out among the guys that youre around, because people i know aren't like that.
479454
Completely wishful thinking. Most of my friends have been male, and I never fell for a single one of them. They were just friends and stayed that way.
24548
that is a negative. guys that jsut want some like newer poeople and guys that re looking for actual love would muh rater think that they are only have been and always will be there only partner
838293
Many unattractive men get beautiful women... I KNOW LOTS. Its all about attitude. I know this guy... who is chubby, balding and HILARIOUS! He has HOTT GIRLS all over him all the time. Its about confidence. He can walk up to ANY GIRL... even really REALLY hott ones and talk to them, and they LOVE IT... You'd be surprised how INFREQUENTLY hott girls get hit on. Its not very common because most men are a little timid around very beautiful people. So just have some guts, walk right up and introduce yourself. Good luck
844726
Unfortunately, many decisions are made by one's first impression and often they are based on looks.  If a woman will not talk to a guy because she thinks he's "too good", it's because she lacks confidence in herself.  She is self conscious about her own looks and therefore chooses not to take a chance of being shunned by him.  Rejection is the worst possible hurt...especially for those of us who lack confidence in ourselves and take it to heart.  Believe me, if this same guy approached the woman instead, this lady would be on cloud 9!  But she won't take the initiative to put herself out there because the risk is too great and the consequences could be devastating.\n\nIt's a double standard, isn't it?  Guys are supposed to accept rejection without question and not be hurt by it.  Grown men don't cry and all they want to do by talking to us is to get into our pants.  God forbid they might actually want to have a conversation and get to know us...maybe forge even a friendship.  It just doesn't happen that way.  Besides, we're better than that!  We won't give them the chance.  Women can be quite cruel.
459239
Well! ... if a girl approached me, I'd probably be less interested in her. Why ? well, that's the last "Man's Job" that we need women to do. Besides, it represents a "masculine" side of the woman, a side which we don't like to see in them (at least me). \nI approach girls everywhere! However, Clubs are NOT the place to look for a relationship, I mean, you know why guys are there, and they're not there to dance!\nI think you should stop approaching men, but try to grap thier attention, a quick look, clothes, perfumes...etc. I can't promise that all of them well approach, some guys with enough confidence will though.
918920
This guy's too cool for school, you're gonna have to take the lead on this one.  Men don't chase women as voraciously as the once did because they get scared they will annoy you and you'll just walk away.
604440
alot of men are intimidated by good-looking women. they feel that they don't have a chance. they end up losing in the end to a total jack-ass. jack-asses will do anything to get a woman so they can fuck-them-and-dump-them. they, in turn, ruin it for the guys that would probably be the best thing that ever happened to that woman. it does happen the opposite way sometimes as well. if a guy looks clean-cut and is very polite, give him a chance. remember, arrogance is generally a bad thing. confidence is another...
63747
It depends.  Some women are just stupid and don't know when you are trying to get to them, and some guys are just stupid and dont give strong enough signals.  I recommend commenting them about their appearance occasionally, it normally helps.
74517
It's all about the chase. Cut them down to their basest instincts and years of darwinism, Men are the predators and women are the prey because we have something (I won't get specific, I'll let you draw your own conclusions)that they greatly desire. If they are eluded, it makes the desire to attain the unattainable even greater. To keep a man interested, always keep them guessing and never be too available. When they are convinced that the chase is over, they become disinterested and look for something else to pursue.This is just an explanation of the instinct. Not all guys get bored and move on.