Are there stratigies to do to not be insecure?
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You know being a little insecure in the bedroom can be ALOT better than being over confident.  If you don't become paranoid that is.  Pace yourself and awlays imagine what you might be able to do better on, that way you are always wanting to please her, instead of sitting back brimming with arrogence.   However... don't become paranoid... as you will ultimately stress yourself out and risk decreasing stamina and sexual performance.  With your partner telling you that you are the best... take it as a compliment, but dont take it to heart, because god forbid you guys one day spilt, you run the risk of having that one retracted, lol
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use lifestyle  extra sensitive\nits like not wearing anything
580292
Some people are insecure because they have had bad things happen to them
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Confidence in yourself is good ,cockiness will get you shot down .You need to be put in your place
1017706
Worry about yourself. Don't try to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders, it'll get to heavy!
513075
The best thing is to just be yourself,and don't try to hard.Also conpliments work wonders! Just don't go over board or you might scare her off.
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Start giving yourself Brownie points for every good choice you make. Confidence and self-esteem are earned, nobody is born just possessing them. Every time you make someone smile, remind yourself that you have that ability. Do your work honestly and well. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Give others sincere compliments and don't always expect others to set your standards of decency or to make you happy. Remember, you're not transparent. People can't tell how you're feeling. Eventually, feeling confident will become second nature. But above all, be kind to yourself and others. And just have fun!
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Deal with confidence and corporate type... dnt be an underdog.... gluck... =)
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Be yourself and don't worry about it.
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Stay smart.......avoid trouble......learn to retreat..... and skinny people usually live longer so you can eventualy enjoy the BEST revenge by staying cool.
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think of the defense system of your country. the stronger it is the more It'll be able to defend off incoming threats. well the body's the same way. so eat good an walk alot so you can get some fresh air in your lungs... or in some cases fresh smog, but a little sunshine never hurts.
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insecure.. no confidence in self.. maybe, i'm one of them.. =)
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i think it depends on how settled and content you are in yourself.  the more stable you are, the more confident you are.
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You can't live your life trying to please others and worrying what they think about you. Just be who you are, you sound pretty confident and self assured. You go girl!
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Take a long hot shower, try to inhale from your nose and exhale from your mouth and think about how difficulties make us stronger by overpassing them. Wear something nice, go out with some friends, talk about it with them. We've all been there and believe me, it will be allright before you know it.
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have fun,if someones falls around you help them up and there isnt really a technique.watch around you and avoid the idiots who just wanna start fights.90% of the time they get booted by security.If ya see someone interlock there hands next to you thats your ladder to body surf.its usually all fun.make sure your shoes are tied tight as well.
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worry less about what is cool - and start thinking and speaking the way you feel most comfortable.\n\npeople will respect you for it, andf you will be happier in the end.