My bestfriend wants to suck me, hes a man too? what should I do?
609498
The fact that you are asking indicates that you are considering it, if you weren't you would have told him no flatly right out.  He must detect that you have tendencies because I doubt he would bring it up otherwise.\n\nYou have to ask yourself some tough questions, are you gay, bi-curious, you need to search your soul for some answers.\n\nIf you are, you need to acknowldge it and accept it, there is nothing wrong with it.  \n\nIf you are straight and want no part of it, you need to make that known to him right away, if he's your friend he would understand, if not then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him.\n\nGood luck.
1116854
It actually won't matter what you get for him if you guys love each other as best friends. As long as it comes from the bottom of your heart, he will like it no matter what it is. You should make it if you want it to be the best! ^ ___ ^
800954
Forget about it and move on.  Not everything that comes out of someones mouth is meant to come out.  You know, sometimes your mouth moves faster than your brain can censor.  He made a verbal slip-up.  If anyone brings it up again, say:  "OH, I'd forgotten all about that!  I'm sure he meant nothing by it." Then change the subject.\n\nYou don't want to be with him.\nHe doesn't really want to be with you. \nAnd your best friend wants to be with him.\n\nForgive, forget, and move on.  :-)
1014542
I understand your problem, my best friend is completly straight and I am bi, when i say he is straight he is. But like you I have  a crush on him and still do,we have and still do go place with each other but I try not to let my self get to close to him. Just be there for her when she needs you but don't cross the line again unless she cross first.
1122332
well, i think u guys should cum 2gether and mebbe talk 2 him. make him undrstand that hes rong but dont tell him directly on his face coz he has ego and wont accept that. well thats all u can try i guess. gud luck
422899
Pay attention to wat he does! if he asks u how your doing or wats Up. if he tells  you about the new things in his life pay attention it might be his way of including you! tell your best guy friend you like him and tell him to pay close attention to wat your crush says in the locker room or guy things. dont flat out sk him or tell him you like him b/c it could scare him off! spend more time with him or ask if he wants to "hang out" sometime as just the two of you. you'll knoiw if you should tell him or not!\n\nP.S. If that doesn't work walk up to him and kiss him. Then say "i just wanted to know wat it would be like" and live like there is no tomorrow!
678395
You should be there for him! He has been honest to you and you need to support his decision! Thats what friends are for.  Thats so cool actually because id like a guy friend that was gay.  They are so sweet and caring and make the best friend out of everyone.  Accept his decision and carry on with your friendship as normal.
819239
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship
1055277
you've been friends for more than 8 yrs. If he's gay he would have sex with you already!! Sometimes there's a fine line being good friend and being in a relationship. Perhaps he doesn't even know how to express his friendship towards you. He wants to be grateful to you yet do not want to mislead you into thinking he wanted a relationship cause he is not gay. We are brought up with heterosexual mentality and define male as musculine and female as feminine. It confuse the heck out of straight guys how to handle their frienship with their gay men's friend. Especially those who have close frienship. I believe some of them do cross the line of sex. Which would make the situation worse. He is appreciative of your frienship and I bet he knows you are into him. In his mind he's probably thinking should he sleep with you to show his appreciation and betray his own sexuality? As for you I would not be so quick to invest that much emotion into that direction. Yes, I know it's very difficult and very tempting. Ultimately you have to protect yourself from heartbreak and more important to preserve your friendship with him. One of this days he's gonna fall hard for a girl and you gonna need to tear yourself off him emotionally.
657297
It is obvious that you care for his guy. So tell him that. Tell him that you love and care for him but not with the passion that a girlfriend should have for a boyfriend. Tell him that you know it will be hard to change the level of your friendship one notch down...but you still want him to be your friend because he is your best friend.\n\nI know that this maybe hard for you to do..it will hurt you both but think of it this way...suppose he too want you only as a friend as well and is also afraid to hurt you?
512479
Talk to him and tell him how you fill and why you fill this way! If he cares for you he will respect you until your ready. Believe me you won't regret it. Just try it once and see. You will probably like it!
225355
Are you Gay and in love with your best friend? If not, what's "brokeback" about it? Being that this is your bestfriend you are speaking of, ask if they are gay.  Then ask yourself if it would matter.
887689
If your like my ex my friends are more fun to be around ,they don't want to know when I'm coming home,where I've been, who I've been with etc..etc.. quit riding him like a mule , maybe you should give him sex more then once a month so he doesn't have to beg you for it, and then he might want to hang with you more ,unless he's gay and screwing his friends
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
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It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
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You obviously have more than a few issues…..Are you that desperate for attention?  You seem pretty young, so here is some advice for you:  No, you should not sleep with your best friend’s boyfriend.  She’s your BEST friend right?  I doubt the guy is your soul mate or anything; he’s just a guy who is paying you some attention.  That may make you feel good now, maybe even good enough to make you do it, but afterwards, you will (or should) feel dirty, and he will most likely treat you like you’re dirty too.  He will never respect you.  Do you really want to be involved with a guy who you have to share?  He won’t be your boyfriend. (You will be alone on Valentine’s Day, Christmas, your birthday, etc.)  You will only have him when your friend is too busy for him. Your friend may or may not find out, but you will know what you did, and that will always weigh on you.  The guy is obviously a cheater, and has probably been around the block a few times.  What if he gives you a disease, like Herpes?  You will have it for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.   If you think that you like sex now, wait a few years.  It gets a whole lot better.  You don’t want something dumb that you do right now ruining it for you for the rest of your life.  Have some respect for yourself.  Save sex for someone that you love and trust, someone who is concerned with your best interests. I promise you that you will never regret in the long run.  However, if you choose to sleep with him you will regret it, at some point.  Be a good person, stay away from the guy, and tell your friend that she is with a loser, before she gets hurt or catches something from him that ruins her life.  Since you don’t seen to have a whole lot of confidence, you should just concentrate on you for a while.  Stay in school; find out what makes you happy (not what you think makes other people like you), and just try to be a good person.  If you do, you will eventually be truly confident, comfortable, and happy with the person that you are.  You won’t want a loser like this guy anywhere near you, and you will most likely be pursued by some really great guys, because confidence is the most attractive quality that a person can have.
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Is his best friend a man or a woman? If its a man, your husband is gay. One man doesn't mistakingly suck another mans d ick. It just doesn't happen. You should check yourself for AIDS and move on because if he's into men and your a woman, there's nothing you really can do for him. You'll get your heart broken sooner or later. If its a woman, you guys may be able to work it out. First, go to the doctor and check yourself for AIDS, because if its hard for him to admit to one thing, no telling what he can't or won't tell you - make sure he gets checked if your going to keep him. You guys talk about it. If he comes completly clean, is sorry, and cuts the realationship with the friend loose, you should consider taking him back. Odd things do happen between men and women that are close.