my date told me lets go together , instead of meeting her at the bar on saturday.?
596645
wants to get laid - easier if she is with you.\n\nOr perhpas she trusts you
1065276
A simple " I had a great time, we should do this again, I'll call you " is very acceptable for a first date. However don't wait a week to call her, by then she thinks you probably weren't interested and just being nice. If you say your going to call her a 2-3 day window is not pushy yet still showing you are interested.
561720
Maybe Maria is finding it very difficult to get a date and maybe you are the right person at the right time. \n\nPlease describe yourself, attach a photograph and your contact details and let me see if I can get her to drive over to your place. :-)
191305
If this is a first date... no, it will not lead to other dates.  Only your wit and humor will lead to 2nd dates.  What you have planned is a way for her to get free stuff.  Have her meet you for lunch, show up a few minutes late and let her order her own.  Why spend your hard earned dough especially if she earns her own.  All that says is "I am willing to pay you for your time"!!!  Lay on the cocky/funny... bust on her 1970s shoes/bag, if she can't take a joke... forget her.
1037896
That would interfere with our saturday night dates
99674
why not make one a lunch date, and the other an evening date\nwhy same venue? you are better off proposing a diferent venue for one
425749
Do you pay?  I'm not saying she a golddigger but she ain't messin wit no broke nigger!  LMAO\n\nSerious though... maybe she needs some more time... if she a shy girl she might want to take things really slow...\n\nAlternatively maybe she thinks you are 'friends' and doesn't know that they are 'dates'...\n\nOr she just might think that you are who she should go out with so she's trying but she is just not into you physically...\n\nMore information of the girl herself necessary to answer this babe...
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well, you can't blame the girl if she really is busy. some girls though say this to let you down without hurting your feelings. so why dont you try again some other time and see what she says. or ask her to pick a date/time when she's free so you can hang out.\n\ngood luck!
341869
Umm, this is a no brainer! You are a free bird either way dear! You need to call a few people and go out. Until you make a solid commitment to go steady, or call each other b/f and g/f you can date date date!!
415463
She may have been trying to impress you.  Making herself up nicer for you.  I would consider it a compliment.  Lunch would be a friend like thing to do and dinner in a business setting is more.  If you feel it may be more, talk a little more, go out, never know what will happen and if nothing does, at least you have someone that can get you free drinks :)
793929
It is a good possibility that she is hinting at you. Maybe you should suggest that even though you agreed to remain friends you should try dating anyway.\n\nSometimes once an idea is in your head it plants the seed. Perhaps that seed is there for her and she just needs your help to germinate it.\n\nTake care,\nTroy
747315
Are you asking for presents from a guy so that you will go out with him? That makes you a common whore. Don't do that. If you want to go on the date go and if not then don't go. But do not expect to paid to go. Disgusting.♠
320535
depends......did i have a date last night
412385
all the way doesn't seem much like a date as it does a rompfest.  \n\nIf there's dinner, dancing or movie and kissing and talking I see that being an awesome date.  \n\nAnd if both parties feel comfortable "going all the way" then I guess all the better.  But please I hope you don't feel like you have to do it just to make the date good.  Cause the date can be incredible without it going that route.
211695
She sounds immature.  This is called "playing games."  If you want to stoop to her level- tell her you're hanging out with a girl tonight.
450266
Call her to confirm the date . . . that is it.\n\nWhile you are on the date . . . make sure you get separate checks . . because if she is independent like she says she is . . . she should be willing to pay for her own meal.  If she objects . . . tell her that you are respecting her independence and since you asked me out . . . the asker is responsible for the entire bill . . . and I would rather pay my own way.
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The new place in town or local happening. Resturant, art show, wine tasting event.... I'm sure you can find one that you would both be open to trying, whatever it is. The important thing is that's neutral ground so there is no baggage for either of you. If its a bomb she wont blame you. If its great you get kudos for originality.\n\nNo dinner and "anything", keep it short. If its not working you both have an out. Bad dates are torture and should end quckly. If it is working the night/day is still young and you can show the spontaneous side. If your not the spur of the moment type have a few ideas for part 2 of the date ready and fake it. Neutral ground rule applies here too. She's not ready to meet your friends or check out your haunts if she's not sure she's into you yet.