After breaking up with ur GF/BF is TIME your allied of enemy?
606589
I think it can be your enemy depending on how you handle the break up. If you are able to do stuff throughout the day, months etc that occupy your time you could be alright. If you spend all your time worrying about the break up then time can be an issue. Time does heal and time does give us chances we may never have had otherwise.
97325
My friend.  you're going to hate yourself afterwards.\nI had a trophy girlfriend too.  We were hot and heavy for about a year, but I knew she wasn't the one.\nHowever, I stayed with her for three more years seeing how hot she was.  I could have easily cheated on her, but I didn't because I just wasn't the type.  Eventhough other girls were yearning for me because of how hot she was; that I must be doing something right horizontally *LOL*\nShe eventually started treating me like sh+t too, and I simply "took it" thinking I couldn't do better.\n\nI wish I had broken up with her after the first year because we would probably still be friends now and perhaps with benefits.  But we learned to hate each other within the three year's time and we went our separate ways not in good terms.\n\nI know you'll never find someone better, but I hope you don't waste the time holding on to something that's not there like I did.\nFortunately I was willing to forgive her and myself and moved on.\n\nI wish you the best.
1078510
Well I think that depends on their relationship before they broke up and their relationship now.If he is still interested in the ex then no. But if he genuinely just a caring person who wants to be friends with his ex because that is the type of person he is and it is not coming between your new relationship then yes.
1010435
don't do it....i did just that thing and ended up very sad and very screwed over. after we broke up i still had to see him everyday, so that made it even harder cause i still cared very much for him. think hard before starting a work related relationship with anyone
325114
depends. do you really want to continue with whatever broke you up? usually when things are over it's best to leave it like that.
525609
The answer to this question depends on the reason for the break-up. Your break-up sounds like it was nasty.
534456
its hard but if you just cant do it then your probably not over her and still want to be with her. was it her or you who broke up
621397
If your trully friends the answer is simple YES! In time after you both calm down and have a chance to talk over what ever caused the fight in the first place but No! If you weren't really even friends in the first place.Just remember in any relationship you have to have a strong communication and a heart that can listen along with your ears.
526185
Do you like him? As it seems you do and you guys hang out. do you want to be friends or more? Think, if you are more than friends and you break up. Will it affect your relationship? which do you value most? think about it.
887864
If you want to break up with him, do so. But you shouldn't try to keep what isn't yours. This will only make you an enemy for life and potentially drive him to do something bad to you.
845912
Breaking up with a GF. That pained me greatly.
574207
Depends why she is your ex and what sort of help she needs. It also depends on whether you have a new girlfriend and whether she would mind you helping your ex out. Only you know your situation and only you can decide...
462997
my ex and i always fought. and i'm not exactly the best guy. i tried my best though. but i realized that i dont make her as happy as i used to and that probably, others can. so i gave her up. i broke up with her, because i want someone who'll be good to her... someone better than me. (dont do this if you and your girl are really into each other)
41762
well i had a bf and he broke up with me for soem girl that hated me!yeah it does hurt really bad so bad that you have nightmares about him or all you can think about is him i have had him coem up to me and say i dont wanna talk to you just because we broek up its not write to go out then becoe worst enemys i hate that i always want to be friends with the guy!
1089897
Wait for them to break up and GO FOR IT!!
19905
No, you shouldn't especially if you had strong feelings for her.  I recently broke up with a guy I've been dating for almost 3 months.  He wants to continue the friendship but I told him no, not this time.  I said maybe later when I'm completely over him, and it will all sort of happen by itself if we're meant to be friends.  Good luck.
957356
Rarely! that all depends ,I guess,on how the break-up occured and if you both have totally resolved whatever it was that broke you up before.Trust me, if you are still angry about something from the past,it will come back to haunt you.Also, alot of times people fall back into the same bad patterns of behavior that may have broken you up the first time..So there is really no right or wrong answer here .It's totally an individual choice!