How do get a girl, who I care for greatly, to open up to me?
601842
If she is facing the death of her father......she can't think right now......................she is griped with his mortality and probably her own. She ain't thinking about you cuz. Not to be cruel, but unless you have felt this you are just unaware.\n\nThe very best thing you can do right now is, first, let her talk about her dad, her fears of his death. She may not talk about it.......it may be too painful to think about. She may be trying to ignore the way she feels with what is going on.\n\nThe only way you can do that is to make sure she knows you have her back and that she has a soft spot to land. She is fixing to HIT BOTTOM. You can't lose a Daddy without hitting bottom.\n\nThe only thing I would say, is stay fairly close without being needy or pushing yourself on her, she is needy right now although she may not even know it, just stay fairly close, close enough to catch her when she falls, because she is fixing to fall with the death of her father.\n\nShe will pull away, it is natural faced with what she is faced with.........don't take it personal.....\n\nGrief is an incredible different journey for all of us. Be patient, she will most likely find her way back........but be aware.................it may take a while!!!!!!!!!\n\nGood Luck to you both!\nK
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Ooooh, touchy subject.\n\nThis is how you do it. I can't guarantee it will work because she maybe very sensitive. \n\nSounds like you have a needy GF. Best way to do it is in person. Preferably, do something nice for her first, take her out on a nice date, a nice ralaxing one. Tell her how much you care about her. Ask her if she knows this? Pay attention to her reactions now! If she looks like she's not sure, you Re-Assure her. Then tell her you want her to do things on her own, things to better herself with. Say she should spend more time with her friends and family because you think it's important that she does that. Tell her you want an independent girl. Tell her you want her to be happy on her own and with herself. And you want to be there for her to add to her happiness. Because between you and me and whom ever is reading this, we are responsible for our own happiness, no one else. You can tell her that too in a nice way. \n\nYou basically make it sound possitive so she doesn't take it the wrong way....Then you tell her that you love to spend time with her but you also need time for yourself too and this is why you want her to do things on her own more. Then tell her again that you are not going anywhere, that you are there when she needs you. \n\nMake sure you give her a hugs and kisses afterwards...."Affection"  - - - i don't know any woman who doesn't go gaga for it.\n\nGood luck!
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Just tell her you have feelings for her, and she how she reacts. I think laying it out straight may scare her away if she doesn't feel the same. My guess is she probably does so you have nothing to worry about I'm sure!  I wish you luck. I hope you find someone as great as I have found!
877841
Whatever SHE is interested in.  Find out by talking to her what those things are...and let her do the talking..you'll find out more about her to love and appreciate - and she'll see a real gentleman in you.
1009868
TO GET A GIRL TALKING..YOU JUST BASICALLY HAVE TO MAKE HER LAUGH A LOT AND ASK HER QUESTIONS ABOUT HERSELF....\nWHEN A GIRL LIKES A GUY IT TAKES TIME FOR HER TO GET COMFORTABLE AND BE OPEN WITH HIM... JUST BE PATIENT AND IF SHE STILL DOESNT GET COMFORTABLE THEN LET HER KNOW, HOW ARE YOU SUPPOSE TO GET TO KNOW HER IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO TALK AND NOT WILLING TO OPEN UP FOR YOU. \nJUST GIVE THE GIRL A CHANCE AND MAYBE YOU WONT REGRET IT...
181939
The best answer is to be there.  Let her know that you are interested, and that you are there for her as a friend at the very least.  You can't "make" anyone change their minds... but if you demonstrate your ability and sincerity, then they at least have the option.
334311
Find things she is interested in and do them with her. Let her get to know you as a person. It also depends on your ages. She probably just wantes your attention, so give it to her.
583638
just try to be open and honest with her and express your love for her
445175
Just speak from your heart. Tell her everything that she does that you love. Tell her what you love about her character. Tell her of things that remind you of her. Be real. She will love it.
126489
JUST WALK UP TO HER AND WHISPER IN HER EAR THAT YOU CARE FOR HER
888641
I bet she doesnt feel comfortable opening up to you.  Do more mouth zipping and listening, maybe she will come around.
228261
Be bold, ask her out. \n\nMovies, dances, lunch, whatever.\n\nIf she tells you she has a steady boyfriend just let the subject drop and try to stay in touch.  Eventually things will change for either you or her.\n\nRemember confidence is key, if she turns you down don't take it personally.  Explain how much you admire her and let her know if anything changes you'd love to hear from her.\n\nGood Luck,\n\nArmus
284883
don't ask, do. some girls love those stuff but are to shy 2 say anything, eventually shell get uset to it if you keep it up and will wanna open up to u, just remember it takes time.
129109
you dont 'show' her...we are not animals....just tell her your feelings are growing rather quickly...but for god sakes, man, dont scare her away...maybe shes a late bloomer...she'll come around if your sincere...peaceout !
912659
you might want to start by getting her attention. let her to get to know about you and pick it up from there then slowly build a relationship with her. i can't guarantee you that she'll fall in love with you. but at least you'll have the chance. besides you can't force someone to fall in love with you. good luck to you.
515871
Well, just show her you care. Eventually, she will realize that. Maybe it's hard for her to say things, because as you have said, it is too soon. Give it time, and try not to push her into doing/saying things. I know you really care for her. And if it doesn't work out between the two of you, just try to be her friend. You don't have to be her boyfriend so you can help her. You only have to be there, to listen or anything. The best way here is for you to be patient. You don't have to rush things. And then maybe, not someday but in the near future, she'll come to realize how special you are.
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Do everything that u would want a person do to u, for u to feel their love. Do what ur love tells u to do to/for her, dont hold back, and deff. dont let ego stop u. Look in to her eyes,eyes speak louder than words, girls sense these things. Listen to what she saiz, the lil things matter. Do what no other person will ever do for her. ALL U HAVE TO DO IS ALWAYS SHOW AND SAY HOW MUCH U CARE. Girls need to be reassured all the time. Actions speak louder than words, BUT words are needed also.