should i divorce over this?
598198
He is out of line. He didn't have to throw away the cake.\nCalling you fat is so degrading. That's rude ansd mean. He\nneeds to realize during pregnancy and after aome women tend to pick up weight. That weight can go away by exercising, \neating lots of veggies and fruit, eating baked fish, yogurt,\ntaking vitamins and minerals. If he wants you to lose weight\nthen he should go about it the right way. Being rude about it is going to help or motivate you. Taking you by the hand and encouraging you is the right way. But if he loves who you are then your weight shouldn't even bother him. Beauty\ncomes from within and shines on the outside. If he keeps \nbeing rude about your weight then his love is limited and\nbased on how you look.
1162266
In my opinion the two people involved are obviously unhappy with their lives so they need to decide what exactly it is that they want and move on. If you're unhappy in the marriage let it go and be together but if there's still a chance that they can salvage the marriages than they need to walk away from the affair. In any case a decision must be made. It's not fair to anyone involved if things stay the way that they are.
219336
I would bring it up with him. You are already living together which is a huge part of marriage and so what's the holdup?
1080971
Get out as fast as you can. He will have to pay child support. But he isn't faithful & why have your children grow up around a man who messes round.\nYour happiness seems to NOT be important to him.
603316
Not likely....you were only married for a year and you came into the marraige with these things.  Get a good lawyer and you should be fine.  Find a flat rate divorce attorney....it will cost you more up front, (and possible  a little more in the end) but you won't get nickel and dimed with every phone call, email, and paper that needs written/filed.  Good luck....and it really does gt better!
244620
There is no doubt you should leave.  You need to because it is what is best for you and for your kids.  It also may be the only way he will reach rock bottom and truly work on his problems.  You and the kids deserve a life as hard as it may be that isn't lived around him and his problems.  You've given all you have to this marriage but he obviously refuses to give as much of himself.  You deserve more, and your kids deserve more.
541280
I really think you guys need to sit down and talk.  Tell him EXACTLY how you feel.  trust me, not talking is worse. My husband and I never talked about our feelings, and if your on here a lot you know my situation. If not, after 20yrs. of marriage, I'm looking at DIVORCE.
461970
Well, if you're willing to leave her and can manage on your own, or have someone who can help you, you can file for divorce. Only you know if the pain is worth the wife and what she offers. However, I think she's wrong to do this, and if she ever blames you, because of your condition or something, she married you like this. she knew what she was going to be going through.
680869
First and foremost, did you talk to her about this? If you have done this and many other things to save the marriage but nothing has changed, show up with divorce papers and tell her you want a divorce. But I suggest you talk things over first.
981082
I say she is cheating and divorce rather than separate. I have been there...my ex husband did this. It is an easy way to ask for a divorce. LL.
1134300
Who cares if she loves you or not! Her actions scream, her words are quiet. Don't be a fool...you deserve far better than this, and if it is like this at this point, do you really think it will go anywhere but DOWNHILL ? Wise up, send her packing (I am not a hearless person and usually pick the opposite side), for this one is divorced for a very good reason...and you are finding the reason. You do NOT need to have a significant other, you will be fine on your own, and ... guess what! It won't be long before you find (0r are found) another who will appreciate all you do, all you are, and all you will be. This one will never be that person. Good luck to you both.
670783
Ummm sir... what if your wife looks at this??? Yeah think next time!!! By the way I am your wife and I am looking at this and I think you should think (about getting a divorce). Can't have two hands in the cookie jar!
76252
Talk it over with her. You have to. She is family. You both need to solve this.
1055563
Run Run away.  This sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.  This has all the signs of being a future lawsuit against both the business partner and your husband, by the girlfriend.  You have answered your own question.  This women is not trustworthy so why put your business and your money at risk.  Say no even if you have to dissolve the partnership.  You will be better off financially and stress-wise.
918452
No! Explain your feelings to her, and leave it to her to decide! If she is angered, talk divorce. If she understands, why break a GREAT marriage?
276969
No, he isn't.  I think it would be in your best interest to look into getting a divorce.  He has basically abandoned you for someone else.  You deserve better than a guy who walks out on you.
767131
Bend over and take it up the A$$ just like you made her. After your butt has been split wide open like hers was, go to a marriage counselor and see if there's any thing left in your marriage.