how do you get an ex b/f to leave you alone even with a protection order in place?
611326
Move away for a longer time (rent a place elsewhere or move in with a friend or family member) till he no longer knocks at your door. And change your handphone or house number to a private number and make sure you give number to trusted friends or family only.\n\nI used to know a guy who does this, I moved away and changed my phone number and become uncontactable to him.
942887
File for a TPO (Temporary Protection Order) at your local county or city courthouse. If he comes within the specified distance from you, have his freakish butt arrested.
312696
you can get a restraining order to keep her from doing it
787782
Might try a restraining order.  Little drastic but would work.  Refuse to take calls from him and his friend.  If it is really bad parental intervention is always good.
67536
First off change your phone numbers, get to the police station and reuqest a restraining order and also let them know that you are being stalked by an ex - boyfriend. If you fear for your safety then you need to get to the police station ASAP. No matter what state you live in stalking is against the law.
236971
Call the police and get a restraining order.
948376
There ain't a nice way. She should not see him alone. If he bothers or threatens her, she should file a restraining order.
412186
Apparently talking and being nice and putting up with him, doesnt work. Maybe you should get the police to ask him to leave. Or you could throw his stuff out, not sure if you could get a restraining order- if you can go for it! It's quite evident that he's brining you nothing but hurt. Make a stand now for you and your kids.\nThe sooner he is out, the better you will be able to get on with your life. Once that's done, for GOD's SAKE, DONT LOOK BACK!
450624
Start with a restraining order. It should have more details.
609115
Get a restraining order and move the f*ck away.
94554
As long as you still have the marks, make a police report! This man (for lack of a better word) is trying to control you, and sounds like he has succeeded up to this point! Don't be afraid of him, because you can be protected!! You don't have to put up with abuse from anyone! If he's into crack and has another woman, you should just hold your head high, and walk away from a bad situation. It'll only get worse if you let it! When you make your police report, you can also request a restraining order. In my town, you'd be directed to contact Victims Assistance, and they will have the restraining order for you as quickly as tomorrow! Don't let him get away with anything! He needs to be locked up! Good luck to you! :)
707722
I'd say block their number, restraining orders are generally only issued if threats of violence or actual physical contact of a violent or threatening nature have taken place.
643257
Yes, of course your right...Umm since when does a snooty nosed 15 year old girl get off giving adults orders, especially to you whom she has absolutly no connection with. And because she is only a minor, there is no court on this planet that would even consider giving her any custody rights whatsoever as she has no connection with you or your child. Hell, your ex is also in the sh#t for mandatory rape, if he's going out with this girl and doing the business with her. If I were you, I would move away from all of them to give you at least a mental rest, they all sound like hicks and do you really want your child growing up around people like that. If she continues to do this, I think you need to ring the police yourself and tell them about the situation between this girl and your ex, or ring up a mental health team to come out and get her, she sounds pretty bonkers.
981745
call the police and get a protection order
238998
It sounds like a "No Contact Order." Which can be issued against a convicted abuser. The Prosecution would need to fear for your safety.\n\nIf this isn't the case. . .
358795
Get a restraining order.
1049465
Time to straighten his @ss up girl. Don't take that. When my 1st ex kept hitting me and my family/friends wouldnt help I took matters in my own hands, the last time I went through the wall he went flying through a window. My advice is hit back that shows you aint taking his sh1t no more. If you feel you can't hit back or you're scared look into some abuse shelters for women and if that isn't in question leave and call the cops have him thrown in jail and in the meantime while he's sitting in jail you find a place to go a place he wouldnt know the first place to look. If your family fears him in any way I wouldn't tell them where I was. Get a restraining order or most states have legal assistance and you can nail him with a divorce. Play it nasty "you fear for your life." \nThats what I would of done if things wouldn't of changed but they did after he realized he pushed me too far and was thrown through a window...\nI'm not suggesting you throw him through a window, I'm suggesting that you have him arrested find a place to go that he wouldnt know where to look and get legal assistance.