he threatened to through a grape drink at me because I turned down an advance of sex,?
596307
i think you need to get the hell away from him if he is already threating things like that he is abusive
908962
just explain to him that u had a little too much to drink, and in ur point of view they were being quite rude to your husband!! apologize for overreacting and try to let it go.  \n\nat this point it doesn't really matter who's "fault" it is, because u both acted as u did at that time, under the influence of alcohol and a party atmosphere.  sometimes people get upset when someone kinda "ruins" the mood... =T.  try to loosen up a bit.. u could've complained to ur hubby (oh i can't believe those people, so rude!!) u didnt' have to cause a scene... u know? but u were defending him, so it's not like u intended to do anything wrong.  it's over and done, try to let it go, and promise to try to stay "Positive" and deal with things together instead of giving strangers a piece of ur mind for no important reason. good l uck
465967
Let me get this straight - he damages some furniture, something that could catch on fire, and he thinks you're the one who's freaking out? Gimme a break.\n\nWithhold sex until he apologizes. Then keep withholding it until he apologized for making you withhold it.\n\nYou're right, he's wrong.
255919
The question wasnt too clear but what ive gathered is that you like a guy and were playing a sexual game which you wanted to stop and he kept going anyway. if not disregard my answer. Obviously this game is over so if he took it the whole way and you said no you were raped. rape is not cool no matter how much you like someone and you should report it. If he did stop but touched you in ways you didnt want then you need to use your judgement as far as how violated you feel. since you started the game together you could always tell him that you felt he went too far and that you do like him but that he should respect you enough to stop when you arent comfortable anymore. if it can be resolved like that great, if not then sexual harrassment charges can be filed.
790287
Sounds like you were really excited to have him come to your party.  Too excited.  Too much pressure.  It sounds like he took your number to placate you.\n\nLet it go.
725720
yea u were wrong but u were provoked. i can't believe i'm sayin this but he's wrong. news flash toots, your guy is either cheatin on u or no longer interested in u and this was a convenient way for him to get rid of u. it's one of those 2 things, i guarantee it. good luck. be happy it's only 7 months invested b4 u found out what an @ss he is.
1115434
you where right all the way. you shouldnt use being drunk as an excuse because its you cant blame anyone else for being drunk.  if he didnt deserve the punch in the face from u about trying to kiss ur gal then he deserved it for being drunk. u shouldnt feel bad and if it still haunts u try to let the past go..
817776
I would go to the police department and file a report for date rape.  Get yourself checked.  The fact that he told you that he was going to drug you to get sex should tell you that something isn't right.\n\nAnd don't think that it was your fault.  It's not.
638046
he wants what he never got... he wants sex from you and will continue to chip away at you until you give it to him...best if you don't take any of his calls or respond to any messages....
821498
It means you should playfully wisper back, "I'll tell the police."  Actually, you should avoid this guy like the plague!  He obviously has extremely poor social skills if he thinks an offer of rape is sensuous.  NEVER be alone with him.
932208
You appear determined to take some revenge and most answers are telling you not to. I think somewhere in between is right. Phone the switchboard and leave a message - "tell him he needs to get an HIV test" in your best effeminate voice and then LEAVE IT ALONE. take the advice and move on
601305
He's just trying to convince you to have sex with him.  The truth is there are a lot of people out there who date and don't have sex.  Next he'll probably tell you,"well I guess your still a baby since you don't want to have sex. I'll go find someone else" LET HIM!! It's just another ploy to try and get you to have sex with him.  People who love each other don't try to force their partner into doing something they don't want to. Besides this guy is already a loser, do you want to be the next girl he got pregnant and doesn't have a realtionship with?
714668
You kinda scared him. If it was me I would back off. If he changes his mind, all good-- otherwise leave him alone.
1182202
If this guy was playing with you, why would you want to live like that.   You are a beautiful person, don't let someone bring you down and try to mess you up.  He's probably really screwed up and don't know how to treat people and "Misery Loves Company"\nLet him go and get on with your life.  You will find someone else in time who will treat you the way you should be treated.  God Bless
1040120
WHOAH!!!! And I thought I was sexually open minded, LOL!!!\nTry adding some Worcester sauce and a bit of vodka and calling it a bloody Mary!?\nPersonally, I think you swallow his ejaculate as apposed to his blood, unless your method of oral is excessively over enthusiastic!\nLOL again!
667675
You should seriously ask yourself whether you truly believe that he wants you not just sex! Why did he pursue you for so long yet flee the coop at the first sign of trouble!! That is truly immature! He showed that when he couldnt have you the chase was good but as soon as he got you it wasnt good any longer! You should consider whether he is worth the trouble!
57314
Sexual abuse hmm.. there are alot of diff.percautions I can list. Try being forceful and saying NO very harshly if you've done that and they persist then it can be considered rape depending on what they are doing.Here are 4 warning signs they are a space invader,they seem distracted,he wants you alone, he wants you wasted.