why do men prefer skinny women more than the plus size women?
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men prefer skinny woman due to what society thinks. I think a lot of men prefer skinny woman because they are embarrassed to be with BBW's. They think that there friends will laugh at them or make fun of them or whatever. whilst I have a bbw for a wife, I wouldnt mind seeing her loose the weight..now I dont wish that she was like a size 5 or anything that skinny but I would like to see her be somewhere around a 12. She has told me she wants to be a size 12. I would also like to see her loose some of the weight due to health problems and her annoying snoring! Remember Norma Jean (AKA Marylin Monroe)?? does anyone know what size she was?? no she wasnt a 5 or 7 or anything that skinny. she was around a size 12. people back in her hay day especially the guys, liked woman who had some meat on them. not too excessively fat but not stick skinny either. I think that hollywood is responsible for the change in peoples attitudes regarding the size of woman. I also think that society today is slowly changing its attitudes to be more favorable to bigger woman. But it will be a awhile before society and hollywood will totaly be acceptive of big woman.
1020070
I'm a middle-aged white guy and I've always preferred my women\n"thick". Preferably short & thick! (I'm 6'1") Race irrelevant but I do have a weakness for Latin, Asian & Meditteranean ladies. Only dated two "skinny" girls in my entire adult life but both were quite\nexceptional, in addition to being the exception to the rule!
14680
It depends. I like skinny-to-medium, my buddy likes to have "some meat on the bones". And we get less picky when deprived of female company long enough. :)\n\nMainstream western culture obviously tends toward skinny (just look at Barbie). In hunger-prone African countries, thick chics are the coolest. Arabs do not care, if the dress their women have to wear is any indication.
938131
Absolutely- Some women prefer their men taller than them, but its who YOU are that matters, and woman worth her weight is gonna know that and care about you for you.
718484
I prefer women that have little fat, and are not lacking in feminine curves. That is in part the result of my ideology, as I favor beauty over vulgarity. People (males and females alike) with little fat can have complex beautiful forms in their bodies, like architecture, whereas a big vulgar blob of fat can possess no such forms.
1083474
Not all men have the same opinions about that.All people are different and therefore some of them will like skinny and some fat ... Being skinny or fat is not the most important thing in a relationship.Love is blind , it doesn't see the size!
933753
skinny women are supposedly ideal ... which is why those who do not reach that "ideal state" talk badly abt them ... skinny men on the other hand, are not particularly "ideal", and as such, no one really cares if a guy is skinny or not ... :)
261753
Its all down to the individual,most of the lads i know like a girl with a GSH and a big pair of boobs which aren't normally found on skinny women,i don't know wot puts someone in the "fat category" but if you are happy within yourself then others will find you attractive!!!!!
195143
Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
174951
For me (and a lot of guys) it's all about proportions.\nThat said , there are a lot of men out there that say the fatter the better, these guys aside most (including myself) think like this:\n\nFor example, if a "fat gurl" as you put it, has no or small breasts then we probably not that interested.  In other words if her gut sticks out further than her breasts it's not good!\n\nIf however she has big breasts (ie curves in all the right places) then yeah we're probably interested.  I'm talking about real curvy women here, not huge women
434951
its all a matter of preference. some guys like what some guys like.  \n\nthe real question is: why are heavy men acceptable in our socety, but heavy women arent?!
259408
I know this is not going to be popular with most, but I don't care if a woman is skinny or a bit chunky, as long as she is okay with herself.  If she has a good body image she will be better in the relationship, and more confident which is more attractive than body shape
235959
thick to obese.they don't work out,so they don't expect you to,there is ALWAYS food around and they have almost always had to take time to educate themselves and develop a personality.most of the time they are just funner to be with and they usually will do more to please there partner than those so-called hot chick with the bad attitudes.I'll take a big girl with a sense of humor over a skinny girl that complains anytime.
544527
I find there is somewhat a pattern to body types of women and their character...some for obvious reasons and others for personal choice, I mean you won't generally find double DD's running in a marathon, but small and certainly flat chested are...so I'd say women tend to pick and choose what they are best suited for and there will always be men that will be involved in that lifestyle and attracted to those who share such same interests...I can't personally contest to this, but perhaps it makes for a better relationship to be attracted to a persons character more than their attributes, (breast).
225495
Image is really a state of mind. Not all men are into skinny girls.  Getting in shape will help in many ways, health-wise and more stamina in the bedroom is always good.  But if you have a negative self image, you need to learn to accept yourself first.  \n\nTo be sexier for your man, you need to act the part and believe in yourself.  Try some sexy lingerie too. Something about heels men are just just go ga-ga for.
201720
First of all no I don't think that is right but people have their preferences on what they like. You will find a guy to like you regardless of your size. I know because the men I have dated love a thick girl. As long as you have high self esteem don't worry about the ones who don't like you because of your weight. They aren't good enough for you anyway. If you want to talk hit me up. I'm Prettythcknsexy.
416730
we like normal girls.. lol\nwe dont want someone thin, we dont want someone fat..\n( well, most..)\nalthough, to be honest, i would rather have a larger girl, then a much skinnier one..\nbut i just want a normal built, girl :)