when your homosexual how do you know you are?
597449
You wouldn't ask this question.
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Light b, you have the freedom to be anything you want to be.  Your choices are like the steering wheel of a car.  Each choice you make in a certain direction moves you more in that direction.  You are not a victim, you are a free spirit.  If you don't want to be gay, then don't make choices that are gay choices...make choices that are more in line with who you really are.  Don't let any one else tell you who you are, be who you are and be authentic.  Feelings are like the weather, they move and flow along, change, multiply...they are not constant.  If you have certain feelings fine...they will just move by if you don't grab onto them.  They can be like clouds just passing through.
914079
either your gay.....or bi......\n♥
530564
It seems you are gay, i can understand your shyness
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How to tell if you're gay: \n1. If you are over 30 and you have a washboard stomach, you are gay. It means you haven't sucked back enough beer with the boys and rather you've been sucking-off the boys and have spent the rest of your free time doing sit-ups, aerobics, and doing the Oprah diet.  \n\n \n\n2. If you have a cat, you are a Flaaaayming gay. A cat is like a dog, but gay: it grooms itself constantly but never scratches itself, has a delicate touch except when it uses its nails, and whines to be fed. And just think about how you call a dog..."Killer, come here! I said get your butt over here!" Now think about how you call a cat... "Bun-bun, come to daddy, snookums!" Jeeezus, you're fit to be framed, you're so gay.  \n\n \n\n3. If you suck on lolipops, Ring-Pops, baby-pacifiers, or any such nonsense, rest assured, you are a Gaylord. A straight man only sucks bar-b-q ribs, crab-claws, raw oysters, craw-fish guts, pickled pigs feet, or titties. Anything else and you are in training to suck El Dicko and undeniably gay.  \n\n \n\n4. If you refuse to take a dump in a public bathroom or piss in a parking lot, you're in a deep homosexual relationship. A man's world is his bathroom, he defecates and urinates where he pleases.\n \n\n5. If you drink decaf coffee with skim milk, you like a high hard one in the poop-chute. Coffe is to be had strong, black (or with thick, wholesome milk) and full-aroma. A vagina-eating man will never be heard ordering a "Decaf Cafe Latte with Skim" and he will never, ever know what artificial sweetner tastes like. If you've had Nutrasweet in your mouth, you've had a dick there too.  \n\n \n\n6. If you know more than six names of colors or four different types of dessert, you might as well be handing out free passes to your bung. A real man doesn't have memory space in his brain to remember all of that crap as well as all the names of all the players in the Major league, NFL, NBA, college ball, PGA, and Nascar. If you can pick out chartreusse or you know what a "fresier" is you're gay. And if you can name ANY type of textile other than denim, you are faggadocious!  \n\n \n\n7. If you drive with both hands on the wheel, forget it...you hungry for meat-popsicle. A man only puts both hands on the wheel to honk at a slow driver or to cut the dude off. The rest of the time he needs that hand to change the radio station, eat his hamburger, hold his beer, finger the bi-atch in the passenger seat (whoever she happens to be), or, if he's Latino, talk on his cell-phone.  \n\n \n\n8. If you enjoy romantic comedies or French films, mon-frere, vous sonnez le Gay, oui? The only time it is acceptable to watch one of those is with a woman who knows how to reward her man. Watching any of the above films by yourself or with another man is likely to result in SHC (spontaneous homosexual combustion), which is what happens to fags when they flame out too quickly.
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tell them you're gay.
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You recognize a bit of yourself (if youre gay) in others, you can relate to what they are doing.  Straight folks relate to what there gay friends are like, so they might not always be as accurate.\n\nIts not just mannerisms and stereotyped behavior, its presence.
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How can we possibly know? \n\nHave you ever had sexual intercourse? Was it with the same or the opposite gender? Did you enjoy it?\n\nIf you've never had sex, are you attracted to the same gender or the opposite gender?\n\nThere is a growing number of young people who choose not to label themselves as gay or straight, but rather bi. According to the sexual studies of Dr. Kinsey there is a wide range of sexual attraction in humans, ranging from completely heterosexual to completely homosexual, with most people falling somewhere in between. If asked, a lot of people will admit to at least one same-gender experience, and yet they do not self-identify as gay.\n\nAbout the only advice I can give is to follow your heart. If you're unsure or uneasy, stop.
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It really depends on how you define being gay.\n\nFor some, being gay is simply something that happens once an act is fulfilled.  Personality, gender identification and intent are irrelevant.  So long as you had a homosexual experience, you are gay. End of story.\n\nFor others, the act is less important than the intent.  A guy, for example, might find himself having homosexual sex due to being in prison with other guys for so long.  But this does not necessarily make him gay.  Another guy, on the other hand, may find himself attracted to and willing to spend his life with another man in a sexual and passionate relationship.  He identifies himself as gay.\n\nFor others even, its more inherent in one's actions and personality than intent.  Being wishy-washy, talking with a particular accent to it, wearing certain clothes, all these are marks of being gay for some people.\n\nSo, I say decide first on what "Being Gay" means for you, then see if you apply to that definition.  That is, of course, assuming you prefer sticking yourself into a label.\n\nAfter all, why can't we all just be called sexual human beings?
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Are u a gay? I think they may allow you.
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You could be gay and you could be bisexual.\n\nIt's up to you to figure it out.
457064
Don't change who you are. Your not committing sin for  being Gay so don't worry about it okay.
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OK, all these people who say you are going through a phase, that's just them trying to "save" you. Every gay person I've ever talked to believes that people are born gay, which means you could probably tell at your age. Also, I've heard of people knowing that they were attracted to people of the same sex when they were even younger then you. People are coming out younger and younger now, this is due to growing acceptance, if you come from a place that does not accept gays, then i am guessing you are pretty sure. I probably don't need to tell you all this. Back to you question, do you know any other gay people? They can give you advice and understanding, also don't underestimate your close friends, and i hate to say it but you might find girls are more accepting then guys.
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Based on what you've said I will take a guess and think you are heterosexual.  You can't use your heterosexual idea of sex and try to understand homosexual activity.  For example, gay couples do not think one plays the "guy" role and the other plays the "female" role because they are both of the same sex...therefore they both play the same role.  Sexual orientation has nothing to do with social behavior.
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dude u are gay dude!!!!\ndude u are gay dude!!!!\ndude u are gay dude!!!!\ndude u are gay dude!!!!\ndude u are gay dude!!!!\ndude u are gay dude!!!!
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Well, if you catch them engaged in a sexual act with a person of their same gender then that would be a good sign. \nI almost cringe to even answer that question because I do want to perpetuate stereotypes of homosexual people and I do not want people to think that there are real "signs" of being gay as though gay people are so different. Bottom line, it's probably none of your business. If you are a family member or are concerned for a friend's emotional wellbeing then maybe you could ask them. But if they are not "out" then you should not tell. Sexuality is a very personal thing and having a sexuality that is different or considered "wrong" by  mainstream society or that person's family can be especially painful. Again if you are a family member or a concerned friend then offer a sympathetic ear and your ability to be sensitive and keep a secret. Otherwise, concern yourself with  more pressing matters.\n\nRemember when addressing this that any sexual prefernce is not chosen. People are born with it. And even if people believe it is a matter of environment and not a matter of biology then know that it is still out of that person's hands. Please remember to be kind and understanding of all people and their sexual orientations.
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You can't really determine your sexuality untill around the onset of puberty, but when that time comes and you're staring at the same teachers that the opposite gender is.,.. there's a clue that maybe you dont swing the standard way.\nBut let me ask you this, if they cant be born gay, that means you couldnt have been born straight, and was there ever a time when you were thinking hmmm, girls or boys, girls or boys...?