If you meet a nice guy, is it safe to assume he wants sex right off the bat?
599494
Yes, but if he's real nice he might not want to have sex with women.
163070
A a guy, I can tell you all men at first think they just want to have sex with you. But if you allow enough time to pass before this occurs, you and he will know if there can be more to the relationship than that. I would give it several months at least to be more sure he enjoys seeing and knowning more about you, and not just want sex, before you allow things to get physical. In otherwords, time will tell in ways your heart at first can not.
713668
Id think, it just depends on who the guy is and what hes got on his mind. My experience is, being a guy, he may want you to just get to know him for real, and he do the same with you. However, sound like to me, really, he just wants to be friends and thats it. Most guys will do this when he wants to get to you, in a sexual way, then hes gone, its a conquest thing with some guys. I guess it all depends on him, and what hes really after. Id just ask him and find out what hes got on his mind. Good luck.
783201
Not calling just makes me think they've moved on and if I find out it's been a head game, that just ticks me off. Honestly what works for me is just being nice to be around. Nice isn't the word I want, but seems to fit the best. You also may have a partner who has a personality that is content with certain levels of partnership and this is something you'll have to think about if it applies. I'm very independent, and am not comfortable with someone who wants to hang all over me. I don't do that myself, and for me it's a bit creepy and makes me feel suffocated. Just my take on things, if you really want to know, ask your partner he knows himself better than anyone else. Good luck!
1139489
I would not judge someones character based on fulfilling sexual needs on a 2nd or third date, but I would think tha having sex that soon, you might be thought of as a bit on the loose side.  I think I may be old fashionned, but I would think that maybe some kissing, or heavy petting (yah, how corny is that?!) could happen on the 2nd or 3rd date, but I'm not thinking sex at that point.  Well, I might be thinking it, but I don't think I would want to do it.\n\nBut it could also be that you spent alot of time using other mediums ... e-mail, IM, text messaging, telephone, etc, and that can shorten the timeframe quite a bit ... hopefully there is a good amount of honesty in those conversations.  I think that if there is alot of that, exceptions could be made where kissing could occur on the first date, as long as it's OK with both people.
301991
Absolutelly not go for it, from a guy we are very chicken at times especially the nice guys the more agressive guys that would ask you out without breaking out in a sweat are probably not nice guys. Being confident is a sign of knowing what you want and sure of yourself a rare thing. I wouldn't say it would come off as desperate. Just knowing what you want and going for it!
1034818
There is no percentage concerning this question.  People who want to have sex are going to have sex anyway, and the people who are not, are not.  We will never know who is wiiling to go into something so deep so quickly, b/c we are not everybody to know the answer to that question.  Are you willing to have sex after the first dinner of getting to know someone?
815360
He gets what he wants from you (sex) without needing to offer you anything.  If he was "scared" he wouldn't have had sex with you. Now he knows you'll write him emails and sleep with him and he doesn't need to do anything. Easy.
631852
no some guys are just genuinely nice. i do favors for any friend, male or female. just because a guy is nice to you it doesnt always mean he wants sex.
572891
It all depends on his personality. If he was a nice guy, I'd go out with him. If he was a putz, then no, I'd kick him to the curb. But I do know that I would feel safe if I did go out with him.
34386
THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL HAVE AN IDEA TO THIS QUESTION IS IF YOU STARVE THIS GUY (NO SEX) AND WATCH HIM EVOLVE IN TO WHAT HIS INTENTIONS ARE. KEEP A GOOD WATCH AND PAY ATTENTION TO HIS DEMEANOR.
329577
nope sorry! is he a nice guy?
124661
My dear... just stop sleeping with him! under all circumstances!!! he will be nice in the beginning and soon will lose interest if he just wants to get some. do not settle for a such a man
75526
It is normal for a guy to want sex everyday, but to expect it is a different story. Every so often a quickie to quench his need is understandable, but you need to question if he doesn't care if you are in the mood or not and still expects it.
981349
How is this in any way your business, unless you plan to ask him for sex?
501117
it depends how long you have known this person. If you just met him, be careful. also depends who's idea it was to go out for coffee and who instigated going back to his place. If he instigated it, watch it, a guy who invites a girl over to his apartment usually wants to get laid.
745925
if he was just after sex he would be asking in person === he prob sees the emails and phones as safe --- ie no chance of real sex \n\nin person he allows you the control --- so your feelings and his respect for them means he will wait until you are ready --- no matter how long it takes