my beloved has been talking to these two girls for the past 2 months..pleas help?
613499
In a situation like this one good move to make is to sit down without and distractions and talk things through. He will probably accuse you of not trusting him but reassure him that you do it is just uncomfortable for you to know about these other girls. If he loves you or even remotely respects you then he will understand. If he does not understand then he is not worth your pain and suffering. Your life is what you need to focus on and not how your actions will make others feel. Make yourself happy first! If this is upsetting you then talk to him and confront the issue before it gets to far and to in to it. Just go slow and politely and it will work if it is meant to be. Just have an open mind but a firm grip on your feelings.
511712
There's not much you can do.  If you tell her, you risk the chance that she'll think you want to get back together.  Are you really sure your not just being paranoid?  Not everyone plans their life around their enemies.  If you really have proof, just go up to her and ask her if the other guy is what she really wants. hope it goes well.
95172
If it were me, I would tell them both that their friendship is more important to you right now and try to explaine that you might not be ready for a stead relationship at this time. That way you're not having to choose and possibly breaking up what the 3 of you have right now. Sometimes the best things are the hardest to do, because it's almost certain you will lose 1 if not both if you choose.
309400
i had this same problem a few weeks ago. you just need to talk to her calmly and normaly. its just like having a conversation with anyone else. girls are people too. you just need to talk to her and be calm and cool.
872838
Ask her straight if there is still a chance for the two of you when you are alone.\nOr email her. Sometimes it is easier to write things than say it.
592056
Find yourself another girl for that month and your current girlfriend she just wants some time to have sex with this guy that's if she haven't already.  Don't let her play with your emotions if she needs time let her go for good.  If she really loved you she wouldn't be asking for time because another guy.  Come on shes obviously a whore.  Don't buy her any gifts and for that whole month don't call her shes gonna realize she lost a great guy that B.I.C.T.H!!!!!!!!!!
738630
Let her read this, then have a little chat with her.  If anything is to happene between you, you'll have to have a real conversation sooner or later.
261032
You've blown it man. She won't trust you now. Let this be a learning curve.\nBelieve me, you have more fun keeping your mouth shut.
508239
how long have you been talking to her  do you think you know her enogh ask your self first then do what you think is right peace out!!!!!
435750
you could hope that and I sincerely hope that for you. 2 yrs is a long time to just let go. OR maybe she's just materialistic and wants to keep them to show off to her friends. Either way i hope you end up happy and she gets what she deserves.
366542
The question is does she love you back?  How long were you dating before you broke up?  Me?  I had a relationship for 7 years and I still love him but we grew apart.  I realize now that I love the idea of being with the person I once knew.  If you have not spoken to her in 2 years, she is probably not the person you fell in love with anymore.  I would err on the side of moving on!  Nothing will ever be the same as the relationship that you had with this person.  I guarantee it.  But don't let that close your heart to new and better relationships.  Use what you had with her as a learning experience.  Don't compare her to the other women you date.  That is a fatal mistake.  I know its hard ,but you have to move on with your life in your mind, your spirit and your body.  Please don't hold your relationship with her on a pedestal.  Clear your heart and keep moving!\n*Muah*
805628
Sounds suspicious to me.  Are you sure she's his ex?  How long have you been together?  Call her back and have a girl to girl talk.  She'll give you her side of the story.
799023
Please don't do the typical guy thing and feed your ego with the other 3.  If you like the one you are with tell them you are unavailable and want to see we things go with the current person you are seeing.\n\nYou seem like a good guy for being concerned and asking.  Don't hurt her or you may lose a good thing.\n\nGood Luck
156700
don't hook back up with her again, I have a feeling shes just playing the "I wonder" game. Dont let her put you through another long, heartbreaking year! I say go for one of the other girls you mentioned, but please dont hold back your feelings just because that girl hurt you, we all should get a fresh new start with each other right, good luck.
318701
Ask her why she is obsessing about you, and to stop stalking you.  People don't like to be called "stalkers".
758438
I understand you have a connection with her kids, but sorry guy your wasting your time.  She keeps coming back to you even though she walks all over you...she knows you will be there and relies on you to be there.  You need to put your foot down and tell her you are not her doormat_
1077699
That is not fair 2 the girls. u need 2 dump 1, but stick with the other 1. u should keep the 1 that is ok with u havin 2 girls. she seems loyal & obviously ♥ u....a lot.\nDon't keep these relationships up, or ur gonna loose both the girls.\nHave a great Day!! :-)