Should I Forgive my best ex best friend?
599580
I think that we have all negleted a friendship when a man came into our life.  It sounds like she is the kind of person who has never had a boyfriend, or someone who really cared about her, and she wanted to do anything to hang onto him.  Forgive her, she just wanted someone to love her like your husband loves you.  You will always have a special place in her heart and now she realized that she screwed up by not being around
198460
Well, no matter what, I think you should forgive her, but since she brought someone else, that's really low, and I think you should waste time with people like that who can't solve their own problems without someone who's really pushing them to another perspective. Forgive her, and tell her that, but that doesn't mean that she has to hang out with us, Nicole, trust me.\n\nYou people are really... well, Nicole got hurt, and I personally know her, and she is DEFINITELY NOT selfish, so get that out of your heads, people! Our friend IS mean, she sent me REALLY mean IMs, so answer to THAT, OK?
421685
It's up to the best friend to be honest.  But if you go for it, be prepared for some serious backlash from your ex.
609148
Well, I hope you're not friends with your best friend anymore because that's not what I call a true friend. She told you she would never go out with your ex because she loved you like a sister, but that's not the case. You should have never dated your ex-boyfriend's best friend either. If you like other guys such as your ex's best friend than you're not in love. You may really like your ex, but there are other guys out there. Your ex is not worth it. Not only is your friend doing you wrong he is to by being with her.
270776
Sleep with his or her best friend.  If he or she forgives you that means you are loved.
185078
I know you already feel awful about the situation so i won't tell you how wrong you are.  Too late now anyway.  Personally, I wouldn't tell her.  She is definitely gonna be mad as heck and the friendship is gonna be over.  If you don't care about that-then tell her.  If you do care ask God to forgive you, keep your mouth shut and NEVER DO IT AGAIN!
512889
depends on how good of a friend this person is to your ex. If they are best friends then that's breaking the unwritten rule and is pretty bad. If they're just casual friends, I don't think it would ruin the friendship.
600169
You should tell her that you forgive her for what she has done that you know it was an accident that it just really hurt you and that you shouldnt have let that come between your friendship and that you really miss her and that you just want to try and fix things so they can be back to the way they were and that your sorry you took so long to tell her this but if she could find it in her heart to forgive your reaction to her ruining your important thing and become your friend again.I also dont think you can move on from it because that is a long time to have a friend and if yall were really good friends like you say you will never forget her and you will wonder all the time what if i had told her i missed her and we could have been good friends again so i think you should try and fix the friendship instead of just trying to forget and if she says she doesnt want to will then atleast you can move on knowing that you tried thats all you can do good luck i hope i helped
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
821467
You can always forgive, there are no limitations there. You can never forget because once something has been done the memory will always be there. The real question should be should you forgive and that will depend upon a lot of factors. Is this a constant reoccurring problem? Is your friend hurting you intentionally or is s/he just not tactful or too bright? If the hurting is intentional I would point that out to the friend and tell them that if they value your friendship their behavior will need to come to a stop. If they refuse to stop they are not a true friend and you would be better off not associating with them anymore.
582473
hi, i was once like you or some thing like you. all i wanted in the world is not to loss my friend that i had before i did the worse thing ask her to be something different then that and the truth was she did not like it. i feel like being a friend was more important and i would help her and i will help her as long as it does not pass the lines of friendship. if you can get over what she has done why not be a friend even if she will never give it all up this is due to the fact that you are a better person if you don't hold hate to that person. but if you feel like she does not like it, you being a friend, then you should back off due to the fact that that's the best move that you can do as a friend. so yeah i do say that its OK to be a friend of your EX and forgive her but also see if it will be good for you and her. if you feel like it is wrong then don't if she feels weird about it then don't otherwise go for it\n\n               kfh king
519581
yes, i think you should make the first move. why let something get away when he was your first. if you don't then why be mad your the one standing back letting her do this. best friends are few and far between and if she'll do this to you then what else will she do. so tell yourself the truth she is not your bestfriend.friends stand beside each other not behind each other.
387839
This will probably haunt you for the rest of your life if you don't come clean with your friend. Take her to a quiet place and just be honest with her. Remember friends should be able to tell friends everything! Of course you must expect her to be upset at first but if she is truly your best friend she should forgive you. Be honest. Tell her why it happened and why you are telling her the truth. This will also let her know what type of guy she is dating. \n\nI hope it works out for you.
629794
I could forgive them as I believe thats the only way to move forward, and then get rid of him and dont talk to her for a long, long time.Siblings should know better and that crossed the biggest line...
659919
The forgiveness part is easy it is he forgetting part that takes a lot longer to accomplish.  I think that you can forgive a person in your heart, but still not want to be around that person for some time.  If you act like nothing happened with this person, then she or he will continue to think that they can treat you this way.  I feel that we teach people how to treat us, and you don't want to show them that it is OK to hurt you. I say, give it some time, you'll know if they are truly sorry, and deserve your friendship again by their actions.  Good luck, hon.
466723
One can forgive, but they cannot always forget. It seems like it may is time to move on if you have attempted to address the issue to no avail. \nThere is someone better out there that will treat you as you deserve to be treated.
126618
I don't wanna be too judgemental, but I'd never do something like that. However, it all depends on you and on the person you wanna date. And, of course, it also depends on your friends feelings, but, in any case it can be extremely difficult for all people involved. So, in my opinion, it is much easier to stay away from ur bestfriend's ex and not complicate ur life.