do i have 2 choose or can't i juz be friends with all of them?
602781
First off, please please speak and type in proper english. And if you want to date all four, then do it.  Don't make a commitment to any one of them and you shouldn't have any problems.   Until you commit, you are free to date whomever you want.
1014683
I have to many how can I possible choose one.
224220
All of my friends are my best friends, or else they wouldn't be friends at all.
152164
I have known only four. They were all good friends. Actually, everybody has both good and not so good attributes.  Look for the good and ignore the not so good. Life will be more enjoyable that way.
557855
If you don't want to be friends with someone, that is your choice. I can understand why you prefer to have friends who are respectful of other people. If I were in your situation, I would keep my distance, I prefer to be with friends who treat others the way they would like to be treated.\nHope this helps.
992412
it all depends with how you love them.as far as i know love is the most important issue here,ive learnt to love all my pals and there those who are special ttttooooooooooooooo much to me.as from my point of view girl you cant have more than two best friends.its like trying to eat two of your favourite things together
901690
i just went through the same exact thing it was heart breaking! i simply told my other friend that i didn't get along with her other friend and i would NEVER ask her to choose, but i would like it if we could spend our own time together. now she seperates the weekends and spends like ever-other one with me. and because i was so laid back about it and her other friend was kind of rude she is starting to see how it really is. she is spending more and more time with me and complaining about the other girl but i try and not complain with her that way she thinks i am just a listener\nall the while i am dancing inside lol
691070
Let your best friend hanging out with whoever she/he wants, it's your right too to hang out with other friends despite of your best friend like it or not. You cannot force your best friend not to be friends with people you don't like, if you do force, then your relationship is over.
1054965
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
1031307
I think you made an excellent choice.  Good friends are hard to come by, and it has been my experience that they usually come in single digits.  I used to be a "group girl", had my clique etc., and I thought having a lot of friends was worth it.  I'd ignore the backstabbing and hurtful remarks.  Then I realized that I'd rather have one good, true, caring friend than a bunch of people that (in all honesty) barely knew me or cared about me.  So now I have just that, and my life (socially, spirtually, physically, you name it) has never been better.  My best friend has helped me to love myself and picks me up when I've had a bad day.  The "group" could care less...unless I happened to suddenly be a little more popular than them for some reason or another.  A lot of their antagonizing was jealously for one thing or the other, and that is probably your case as well.  Good luck with the future, and there's no doubt in my mind you'll find someone(s) worth your time. :)
244618
Just be silent and find out what they are all about.  Just listen.  If you truly want to be their friend, you will not impose your ideas upon them if they don't want to accept them.  You will just have to leave it at that, let go and let God.
18030
We 're not bestfriends anymore when feel bored with seeing one another, or one of us become colder with us. I know that hurts. But let your friend go if he finds the new one better. And you, I must say that trying to be friends with the new kid is a good way, but what if that kid reject you? In my own opinion, I think you should learn the way of being independent from a person, dont be like "I am lonely without him", because you should be able to have more than 1 friends :) Well, it takes time to get thru, but the one who leaves you to go is not a BEST friend, just a normal friend, so just keep a normal relationship (dont break it though).
747832
u can't unless they accept u as a friend
145183
first you said your pals are bad right well you can not be friends to her.them you can get a new pal that is not bad.then you can have fun with your new pal.
815774
yo cant unless you delete all your other friends, and just keep one.
362137
i think you should spend some one on one with each of them. don't be in a very big hurry to choose or you could choose the wrong one. if they don't understand that you need to make the right decision they should understand and give you the space you need.  good luck and, god bless you!!!!
626590
maybe you should tell them that you refuse to choose as they are both your friends and you value both of them and both friendships. If they are truly your friends they will see the position they have put you in and understand your decision. There is nothing worse is there than being stuck in the middle of a silly situation between people you care about. Friendships, good and lasting ones, are something to cherish, built on mutual love respect and trust for each other. If you can get them to see that I'm sure you will be able to work things out.Good luck sweetie