what should i do when my love is away?
611922
how do you feel by the end of the day? are you sad because your on your own?
1124902
Love is worth your life!! i would ask for a phone # or e-mail them but if they havent moved away yet tell him/her how you feel and if they are grossed out nor mad then you wont have to see them but if they love you back.....they'll try their hardest to make it work.
182549
If your job is what is taking u away here is an idea that may help her adjust.  Buy little things- I dont mean diamonds and gold- just little things and send her something each and everyday!  Make sure once a week she gets flowers.  Send her cards of love every single day.  Call her on your lunch breaks just to say u love her- send her photos on your cell phone of u missing her!  I would also try to move closer to her before she gets too lonely!  But some of these things will make her soooo happy and make her feel so loved she might just move to be near YOU!
879211
I would have to say stay with him, and try to make things work. Of course, if you loved him like you say you do, you wouldn't have to ask this question. You know he won't be gone forever. He'll be back. True love knows no boundaries. No distance should keep you from staying with him. Especially since the move is only temporary.
346666
go where no one can find you even if its a hotel. turn off the phone take a warm bath and just relax
719810
Do not listen to his voice. Do not call him. Do not answer or return his calls.  Throw away cards, letters and all things that remind you of him.  Make yourself busy and take meticulous care of yourself.  Give your time to your other friends and family members whom you may have been distant with.  Catch up on some hobbies and volunteer work.  Make appointments for yourself to do the things you enjoy every day in the week. Every night, have someone to talk to who understands what you may be going through. Whenever your thoughts stray toward him, think only about the way he disappointed you and hurt you and remind yourself that you deserve the best. The longer you were with him, the longer it may take for you to get over him.  Nevertheless, you WILL get over him.
237230
Time.  That's what you need.  It always seems to hurt a little less.  Don't pretend the person is not gone, but.... don't dwell on it either.  Make sure to stay in contact with those that you love for support.  Those that care for you will come through NOW- more than ever.
187184
cheer up shinny star,shit happens but we must mourn our losses,dust ourselves up and move on with our lives.a wise person once told me that it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,if it was really meant to be he'll be back,but if it's not dry those tears and brace yourself cause love is hard babie.4yrs is a long time,take your time to heal don't jump into anything on the rebound,forgive yourself cause you're blaming yourself.life goes on and that dreadful feeling will fade away with time,most importantly,forgive urself
581816
talk to her...tell her that you love her but you really need to have time off together with your friends like she does...she's probably scared of what you might do if she's not around...so ensure her that you love her and you just want time with your friends because they need you too...tell her to think of this as time to miss each other so there's more "spark" when you are together again..
1010426
First, let them know that you will definitely miss them after you leave.\nThen just tell yourself that this is something which you must get through.  If you can, call them at the end of your first day and maybe after a couple more days.\nTell them, of course, that you miss them but don't dwell on that if it only makes you sad.  Tell them what you are doing, how you're keeping busy, what fun you're having and what interesting things you have done or new people you've met.\nA week can seem like forever but it really isn't that long of a period of time in the overall scheme of things.  And of course, the busier you are - the quicker the week will pass.  The more free time you have, the more likely you are to dwell on what you are missing and then likely get bring you down - so just make sure to keep busy.  Not just with yourself but with others as well.\nRemember, it WILL be hard this time but the next time it won't be as tough.  I guarantee it.
1085801
Try not to dwell on it. The more you spend time thinking about it the worse the situation will become. Loving someone doesn't always mean being with them so be as supportive to him/her as possible without becoming more emotionally involved. Focus on other aspects of your life that get you out of the house and spend time with other friends. It won't be easy to get over not having your love returned in the way you would like but you'll have to or you might risk losing your best friend.
485760
Use this hard time to take care of yourself.  Take time to do things that you enjoy that perk your spirits(bubble baths, yoga, workout, massage, etc.) and keep your heart healing.\n\nYou have a pretty good perspective on what you want to do and how you want this breakup to work.  No matter what you tell yourself in your head, though, your heart will still hurt for a time.  Good luck.
260996
just keep it going..i'm away from my bf too and not likely to meet soon..don't lose touch to keep it fresh...
174062
maybe take a trip together to a cabin in the mountains or a nice hotel on a romantic beach to save your relationship. a nice weekend away will usually ignite any flames that are left. however, from your details it unfortunately sounds like your relationship is almost doomed. you even say you don't know if you ever really loved him, (or were in love with him) which tells me that you may already know it's over and just don't want to admit it. try a weekend away, it may help, also try to be open with him and see how he responds.
1117142
Acknowledge your feelings and enjoy your time together.  Some soul mates come and go and some stay forever.  Good luck.
202971
I'm assuming that you are talking about a loved one in a romantic sense here.  I guess you can call them?  E-mail them?  SMS them?  Fax them?  Chat on MSN/Yahoo Messenger and AIM to them?  Make the most of the time you guys have together and just enjoy.. When you are not with them, just remember all the good things that happened when you were with them and look forward to seeing them again! :) Hope this helped somehow.
882513
Oh, god, that sounds awful! The only thing I can think of is breakfast in bed on a Sunday, and making it your special 'together' day. I'm really sorry I can't be more helpful.\n\nI know that to keep romance alive it's good to leave little notes and things in unexpected places, or a sweet wrapped in a note saying 'I love you', and left in her pocket so she finds it later. But that won't help the situation where you just don't have any time together.\nI hope you get some good answers, but I'm stuck.