My friend is pregnet and i want to help?
596963
Maybe you can help her by just listening to her.  Sometimes just being a good listener is more help than you think.  She is probably afraid to tell her parents.  You might offer to let her "practice" by telling you, just like she is going to have to tell her parents.  That might make it so it's not as hard telling them.  Did she take a test or see a doctor?  She really needs to tell her parents as soon as she is sure that she is pregnent so they can help her get the medical attention that she will need.\n\nLots of luck
651405
This sounds to me like my situation a few years ago, phantom pregnancies, if at all posible ignore this person's remarks lies and rot she is a very unhappy person and trying to drag up b/s for you to get upset and angry about ignore it [it will not go away]but still ignore it or speak to her as you are speaking to a child and tell her to grow up
572484
Be her friend!  Help her plan for the baby first of all and then help plan the wedding.  Just buy her something wherever she's registered.  I think right now she could probably use moral support from you than material things though.
838383
Don't be so selfish.  Give her some time to recover, and help her take care of the baby.
1129671
Don't do anything about it just let her wear diapers and be there for her if she need help changing them
548644
Step up and look after her. If you got her pregnant then you've got to be responsible. Talk to her, decide what you want to do with her and support her. Children need parents.
1105794
I've never been pregnant but I would figure you are pretty much bang on with what you said.  I mean, you hear all of these stories about post partum depression and they can't be all fake so, it would make sense that her hormones are still a mess.  She's been pregnant for 9 months and her body probably hasn't had a chance to flush those hormones out yet.  I'm sure if he gives her some time, she'll accept.
512007
That question depends on your future w/ your current baby's daddy.  If the relationship looks like you guys will be married then you don't want to jeopardize that because of your child.  If you can keep your friend and remain faithful no matter how hard times are, then I see no problem w/ you guys being friends as long as the benefits are only talking
842764
OK you need to do what you feel is right. I think that you need to tell your current g/f a/s/a/p you don't want her finding out later from someone else. It is so nice to see you wanting to help out this woman and her child. But I do think it would be wise for you to get a paternity test done. She is the one that offered you one. I really don't know what else to tell you, except you sound like a really great guy and her and her daughter would be very lucky to have you in their lives.
696679
Be as honest with yourself and others as soon as possible... I know it is awful to be where you are at right now, but telling someone in your family or hers that you have the best relationship with is going to be your best bet long term.  You need support.  Since you are both minors, it is unfortunant that you have this in front of you, but I don't think it is a crime... If one of you were an adult that would be a problem.  Be as strong as you can.  This will get better.  There are other choices.  There are many families out there that wish to adopt a child.  But still at least be there as her friend and make sure she gets the proper medical care and emotional support.  Please don't wait any longer to tell an adult... Time will make matters harder to deal with.  I suggest not to break up with someone because of her medical condition.  She's got to be emotional too right now.  If you have other problems than the pregnancy, consider doing so because of that.... But you should really be there for each other since you both created the dilema.
737708
I think you should talk to your friend and ask him why he wants a baby and if he's ready for the commitment.\n\nGood Luck.
1180394
just be supportive. Give her a hug and tell her you will be there for her.  If she is over 18, you should strongly suggest she get help, and tell her you will be there for her every step of the way. If she is under 18, you should do the same, but if she refuses, you should tell an adult. She needs help you cannot give her. All you can give her is support and friendship.
425692
Friends dont turn on friends just because of a baby this is what you have to do since you two work so close its time for a talk its worth saving your friendship any this cannot carry on this way so when you go to work at break time talk it may be something in his life he may need your advice. My best freinds have always been females so talk.*
54019
I think that you should lean on God for help and friends. I am sorry for what he did to you. Focus on the baby.. if you need someone to talk to I would be more then happy to be here... I'll pray..
793575
You need to take a look at what you are asking her to do:\n\nhttp://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html\n\nLike it or not, if she is pregnant, you are a father and need to take responsibility for your child.
57023
Yes, support her and help her through this pregnancy.  If she decides to keep the child (which will be difficult, but possible) help her finish high school by getting her homework for her.  If she decides to give the child up for adoption (the best choice) help her through this time by being there for her.  If she decides to end this childs life, pray for her, but don't give up on her.  This is not a good choice, I have been through it and I still regret it to this day. I am forgiven, though......
666251
yes you can, some people even have peroids while they are pregant, which shouldnt happen but has.