my bff wants me 2 dump her bf 4 her! wut do i do?
595183
Tell her that she got herself into it and she could get herself out of it. And if she gets mad at you, then she really isnt your best friend.
510694
I wouldn't try, putting yourself in a position to lose a friend.  Just be her friend and encourge her.  Now getting your bf to talk to his friends on the real quiet like is fair game.
191896
I went through this myself, and the best advise I can give you is to let it roll off your back.  If your friend who is/was your  best friend believes someone over you than she was never your best friend to begin with.  The other girl who is lying, sure it would be nice to call her out, show who she really is, but then again, your friendship with BF will never be the same anyway, now the trust is broken.  As hard as it may be you should just try to get past this betrayal and find another healthy friendship with someone else. Sometime when we are in relationship rather they be romantic, or just friendships, we discover one side has stronger feeling than the other.  Never sell yourself short.  You seem intelligent, I doubt you will have any trouble finding a new buddy!! Good luck to you!!!!
128480
It's time for you to call her bluff.  Tell her you're uncomfortable with the situation as-is & get some distance from her.  If she ends it with her current BF, go-for-it...otherwise, get away from her.\n\nSHE has got a choice to make.
276102
screw them both!! If she was your "friend" she wouldn't have had done that, and if your boyfriend was really my "boyfriend" then he wouldn't have slept with her either... I hope you don't talk to them anymore... step up for yourself!
483833
If u think she likes them more than u why are you best friends with her? also if u know your boyfriend is bad why don't u get rid of him? In fact get rid of them both and you'll probably feel a lot better!x
297701
you should tell her that her bf is not right for her if is treating her like sh@$. She needs to see that he is not right for her and that she need to get away from that relationship she is in now and move on to something that is better for her
563534
You sure you want him for him or just to stick-it to your  "friend"??  I wouldn't call what she's doing the act of a friend!  You certainly don't need any more "friends" like her!\n\nForget Josh - you're too good for this fickle slob!  And what he's doing isn't "sweet".\n\nAdjust your standards and go find a "real" bf - they're out there, believe me!
152079
1. Being on the verge is for marriage, not bf/gf.\n2. She's doing this to him. Do you think it's gonna change with you? (of course you do)\n3. She's dodging you cause she doesn't want to really leave her bf, but she's attracted to you in some way, and wants you both. Force her, today, to make a decision. Tell her that if she wants to be with you, then to cut the other guy off tonight, and to let you know when she does it. Then plan something for tommorrow and see if she really did it.
702284
She is playing the "boyfriend" of hers for a fool. I mean, she is, really. I think that, once this all blows up in her face, she may want to run and cry next to you about everything. This is what I think you should do.\nI think you should ask her what her problem is. Then, if she wants to date both of them, then she will be the one who will break up with him-with no help. This is her mess and she will be the one who will get out of it. Do not do anymore with this mess she is getting herself into. If that boyfriend ask you about what is going on, just tell him that he needs to talk to her, not you, because you are out of this.
822658
eeew i hate that!  tell her to back off (but b careful cuz she might tell your bff that your jealous or something) or go to like a school counselor. i know it sounds weird but they can kinda give u better advice then we can
516520
Girl ive been there before. Its sucks. I know exactly how you must be feeling. This friend of yours is not a true friend. She knows you like this guy and if they get together seeing them together could hurt.\nIf you dump her, you'll look bad - like you let a guy come between you, but keeping her - you'll find yourselve questioning her loyalty to you often.\nBrave it out to keep your rep intact, but watch your back while she's still your friend because friends like her - definately dont remain friends.\n\nSorry about it. Look on the bright side though - another guy will come along one day and who knows? You might like him better than this guy and he might kiss the ground you walk on!! :))\n\nJust think positive always.\n\nGOODLUCK.
616527
The LAST thing you want to do is tell EITHER of them. You state you dont WANT to love her. Then stop it, she is with your FREIND. Show some character and dont interfere with THEIR relationship to satisfy something that you state yourself that you dont really want to begin with. Women DO come and go...but FREINDS can be forever if you treat them right.
406387
She could have been friend with your bf for years . . . while you are new to the picture.\n\nSounds like you are one of those jealous types . . . and she doesn't know how you would react if another person talks with your man.\n\nYou are already getting on his case . . . when he said nothing is happening . . . and to prove it . . . she want you to come join them on events their group of friends  always do.  \n\nIf you want to learn more of what your bf is about . . . go . . . and become friends with them . . . I bet you they have stories you never even heard before.  If you are too self-centered . . . then dump you boyfriend and get another sucker . . .
455168
Just go ahead and dump her.  She deserves better than someone as shallow as you.
611276
You are not her friend if you are trying to steal her man! There is no way that you can still be friends with her and take her man.  And you call yourself her best friend......that's wrong on so many levels.  I hope she whoop yo a*s*s
628687
If I found out they were dating behind my back, I would dump BOTH of them, not 1. Just to make the process more efficient! :)\n\nCheer up, sh..t happens, you know.\n\nGet a new best friend, and a get a new boyfriend, too.\nHarsh to say, but this may be the only clean way out of this mess. \n\nDon't torture yourself... but defend yourself, as much as you can. Don't let your self-esteem go down beause of the two pigeons.