How do shy girls reject guys?
603428
I dont think a shy girl would reject a guy but I think she would say "im sorry". I dont tink any girl cud be so shy and jus stay quiet. I dont tink any guy could even have a crush on a girl who would jus stay silent so yeah she would say "im sorry"
443997
Some men are insecure about being approached by ANY women. Also, many men are afraid to approach WOMEN.  The prettier the more difficult to approach a girl -- because they're afraid of being turned down.  \n\nI'd continue to do what you're doing--work the odds.  Just because you get turned down sometimes, doesn't mean you will always get turned down.  Just make it clear you're interested -- stay approachable.  Guys are so weak about being turned down.  And they play the double standard by acting like women are too agressive if they do the approaching.  Not all though.  So you've got to play the odds.  Trust me, it will all work out.  Just hang in there.
225974
I think shyness is the same for both genders.  It's just that when initiating contact with the opposite sex, it's still kind of expected for guys to make the first move.
725322
I find shy girls far more attractive than boisterous outgoing flirting with everybody girls.  'Course I'm shy too.  But there goes the opposites attract theory.
515162
Yes, they're scared! Girls say yes or no and have that power. But, girls must wait to be asked. What suspense! That's scary, isn't it. Ther's a trick, if you can do it.  Why not (gulp) just quiet and confidently approach the guy when he's alone and tell him directly you'd like to go out sometime and it's OK if he isn't interested... and mean it. Just say that. No babeling. Courage is impressive, to me.
374268
maybe they feel intimidated. go up and talk to them show them you are interested.believe me if you are so cool as you say you are, that shy pretty girl would melt in her shoes if you would only show interest
1005093
all of the above....\nbut i want a shy girl.....
463959
Being open and honest is the way to handle all interpersonal relationships.  Just give them a warm smile and say... "Hey, you know... I like you."\n\nIf they reject something that simple and innocent, it would never have worked out anyway and it's best to just drop it and move on to someone better.  If they respond positively... then great!
373457
You pretty much rejected him in his eyes.\n\nNow you are wondering why he is shy and does not ask you out again? I mean cmon. It is your turn to make the move, otherwise he will be gone.\n\nGuys are not just commodities that you can use whenever you have nothing else to do. We do notice.
910160
People who are shy are usually shy for a reason. You know that rejection is by far the most likely outcome if you were to ask women out. \n\nShyness is nature's way of stopping a guy from making stupid mistakes like the one you did in the club.\n\nYou'll most likely be alone either way, so you need to decide is it worth the prospect of many many rejections on the slim chance that somewhere along the line there is a woman desperate enough to not only have any interest in the first place but to want any sort of a relationship?
942705
You really have to be an extrovert around shy guys and bring us out of our shells. We may have the major hots for you but unable to articulate that emotion into anything less than senseless jibbering when you are around. Ask the guy out- be bold, go do something together that puts you in close proximity without feeling like there is alot of pressue. Some guys will respond and there is room to grow and some guys might not. Believe me, if he likes you you should start to see him melt-but keep at it if the feeling is returned!\n\nGood luck!
665240
The best way to end up talking with a shy girl is to go through her friends.  She is shy so she is probably a little insecure.  If she see's that her friends accept you, she will in turn accept you.  Get everyone into a good conversation and make sure you include her in it.  If you show that you want to know some stuff about her she will begin to open up.
505518
Real easy. Tell her you are interested and ask her to dinner. If she's not game, she's probably not interested. If you're direct and assertive her shyness won't get in the way. Don't ask her to come out with you and your friends, either.  You want to make yourself clear that you want a romantic dinner.\n\nDon't worry so much about rejection.  It happens.
499008
Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
804665
i think shy guys r cute, but at the same time a girl wont ask a guy, so u have to have the balls to go up to her and atleast say hi, cuz a cute smile here and there will have her playing with her hair and thats a sign that she likes u, just be normal dont act like someone else and just talk about anything and then ull start to have a conversation and things will lead to another and good luck from there
508596
isn't it terrifying? guess what, THATS WHAT YOU EXPECT US TO DO!!!!!! thats why women made it up that guys are suposed to ask you out because you chics are way too fragile to deal with the rejection. tough crap sweety. ask the dude out and if he says no then take the hit and move on like any guy would do. it's a huge blow to our ego to be rejected but we cope. so if he says no simply say "thats cool." and keep on with the conversation. wow thats tough isn't it?
442691
Ask a girl out. Just cause you're shy doesn't mean you can't ask her out. It just means you'll be a little nervous doing so. That's just fine.