I like a guy but dont want to ruin the best friend connection here. What to do??
595804
I'd say that depends on the depth of your friendship.  If you're truly great friends, the friendship *can* survive.  But I'd really recommend talking it over thoroughly first.  One of you might want a strict "friends with benefits" arrangement while the other falls in love, and that ain't gonna end up well.\n\nI've had several "friends with benefits" relationships, and they ALL ended up remaining good friends.  But, of course, your mileage may vary.  It's up to the two of you to evaluate your friendship - is it worth the risk for a little fun on the side?
614960
No, don't start something that can't last. If you think it can last after you move then give it a try. I think the guy needs to tell your friend that he has feelings for you. If your relationship will ruin your friendship with your friend then don't do it.
484776
well first you need to decide if you do or dont like him that way if you dont then just sit him down and tell him ya know hey this was a big misunderstanding and your a great freind but im not ready for that type of relationship with you and im sure hel;; understand because guys bounce back much faster so no worries he will survive
117402
If you like him alot then ask out he will probably understand I liked my best friend and know he is my boyfriend so go for it if you wait someone else might get there first
666090
Two things that may happen. Either your bestfriend will accept it and ask you if you want to move the friendship to another level. Or he will be surprise and will start avoiding you especially if he likes someone else. It will surely be a tough decision and you are the only one who can make it.
297705
stay quiet. or take the chance of losing a friend over a guy. it is your choice!
529659
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.
920844
woooooow your just about 4 or 5 years younger then me and you still seem a little young, girly you are a little too young, but anyway you need to ask yourself whats more important, your BESTFRIEND or some boy thats going to end up breaking your heart anyway...i dont want to make it seem horrible but who's to say the same thing he's doing to your friend he won't do to you?  how do you know if he's going to be promising your best friend a 'relationship' when you and him are together (3 years from now). just know that boyz come and go but friends last for ever. so ask yourself is he really worth it?
168355
First talk to his friends or if you don't know them get your best friend to talk to him for you...find out who he likes. If he likes you, there's no need to be embarassed b/c he won't turn you down. But if he doesn't, don't worry about it. You can't like him THAT much. Move on. You'll be glad you did when you meet that one guy and fall in love for the first time. You'll wonder what you saw in him in the first place.
115058
Well..if it was me i wouldn't go out with my best friends bf, cause it just wrong. No matter how hot the guy is. And plus (this is an old saying but who cares? xD) Theres pletty fish in the sea..meh..i guess you could not ingore him though just if things starts getting back to flirting and more than flirting, then i subject to stop with the flirting if it gets to far (hopefully that might answer your question.. >.>'')
519567
Man...thats a hrard one. But If I was you then I would just keep your feelings to yourself. A friendship is way more important then a guys...I know it may hurt but who knows...maybe one day you and him can be together??? Just give it time and you will get your chance...just try to saty outta the way so you don't get hurt!
141358
Do you like him back? If you don't then you ahve nothing to worry about. If you like him, then discuss this with your friend. Guys come and go, friends are forever.
791885
Just tell him the truth...that you like him as a friend and would not want to go further than that...he deserves the truth...and if your friendship is solid..he will respect that...
770924
Girl, go with the flow.  He probably is freaked out about it and wandering if he should or shouldn't.  When you have been friends and I mean best friends for so long it is a big step to cross that boundary because most of the time once you go all the way you never can get the same friendship back.  Give him time and it will work out if it is meant to be.  Some things just are not made to rush>  Good luck.
39145
i dont think going for him after your best friend had him is such a good idea unless shes cool with it.  but i do think he likes you though..try kissin him on the cheek once or twice over a week span and see how he reacts..my e-mail is foxybabe0483@yahoo.com if ya wanna ask some more!!
1008566
sweetie I wouldn't do some thing like that. you have to be carefully because It will cause a lot of trouble between him and the so call best friend and u would be in the middle of the whole thing and you don't want that
1035613
How much do you like him?  Because if you all was friends first would that mess up your friendship if something don't work out?  Is it worth it to mess up a friendship? Try asking him with a trick question and get his understanding on it.  You might need to think this really through, because you could lose your best friend.