shall I go on love a married man?
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Most married men who have extra marital affairs would tell you that they have problems with their marriage otherwise why would they be looking for someone outside of their marriage.\n\nI would say the reasons given may or may not be true, who knows for sure. But one thing for sure is, nothing fantastic will come out of this relationship you have with him. \n\nWhy pick someone who cannot give his all to you? \nAre you happy being the number 2 woman in his life?\nAre you satisfied with dating him in the dark? \nHe cannot spend time with you on weekends? \nWhen you have problems, he cannot be with you, because he has to look after his wife or children first?\n\nYou can live without him, it is possible, alot of women have done that before. At this point there is an attachment or even love, but love is a choice, you can choose not to love him anymore. For the sake of his marriage and your future, you need to leave him immediately and let him work out with his wife. It's painful at first but you really need to pull yourself together.\n\nThink of your future, don't you want a normal loving family with a good, faithful husband and kids? \n\nIf one day he really is with you, can you be certain that he will be faithful to you (now you know that he is unfaithful to his wife just to be with you?\n\nA loving honest sincere marriage cannot be based on betrayals. As a friend online, I hope you will not make decisions on just your feelings alone, but logic and wisdom.\nDo not let yourself or your family or friends around you down by making a mistake and being a third party.\n\nLeaving him and letting him work out with his own family would be the best option. And further he already let you know he cannot commit to you coz he will not leave his wife. Why choose this option where he cannot give you a future?
810216
You should not even have gotten started with a married man...\nQuit whenever you get tired of it...
513911
i don't know if u married him or not but i think u must find one suitable for u , i am single and i Love my life i am not die if i am not have a woman but i don't go love and  married woman older than me by 18 years i think i will be her son yes he can gave u many thing but after little time u will know the fact u need to be with one can understand u u say u not in love with him anymore then what u feel now just emotion because i think u r single and alone if u need anther help contact with me have a nice time and good luck
1096682
well if ur in love with this man, and really don't want to get back with ur husband then i think uv answered ur own question. go for it girl \n\n\nPS ARABS MAKE THE BEST LOVERS TRUST ME, (WINK,WINK)
306390
NO you may be in love but he isent if he wants to see other woman.so dont get your self hurt.so just let him see\nwho he wants and you find the real man of your dreams.\ni dont think this guy is for real.deap down you no that.\nit will be hard at first but life and u are worth more\nthan some man who dosent want you.sorry i no how it feels\nim married to one.
339467
Chances are slim, plus why would you want to see him and even think of a future with a married man? Women amaze me that we would even think of doing other women this way. Show some pride in yourself and walk away...K
310535
about a zillion to one. Married men never leave their wives. You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too if you are cheating with him.  Just remember he is getting something from you that his wife is not giving him.  If he would cheat with you on her what makes you think you are so special that he would not do the same to you if in fact he did leave his wife? How would you like to be his wife. Just remember what what comes around goes around. Never date a married man. That is so wrong. They will tell you anything your little heart desires in order to get laid. Trust me I know.  That is wrong on so many levels.
80105
Do what feels comfortable for you and then gauge his feelings also and go on from there... To answer the first question YES you can really like EVEN love a Good friend.. I married my best friend 19 years ago, and we are still married and best friends.. There are never any right or wrong feelings that you feel, it is only the way you or others may act upon them... Best to you and good luck
357128
Well, first of all don't start any relationship with a married man... (think of a family that you are about to ruin and ask yourself "If I get married, would I want my family to be destroyed by my husband's cheating?" If your answer is no then you'll know how this man's wife would feel if you will agree to be his other woman... second of all, find a single man who will love and accept you for what you are. Afterall, you can fall in love without having to ruin anybody else's life
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Back away from the married man and no one gets hurt!LOL Seriously though, don't put yourself in a position to where you become involved with a married man. He will NEVER,NEVER,NEVER be able to be there for you when you need him, on holidays, for vacations... he'll never be there in the night when you just want someone to talk to or snuggle with...he'll never be totally with you because he already HAS someone he is obligated to spend his time and money on. You can get past those feelings for him that you are developing if you stay away from him as much as possible. As for the other guy, if you have developed feelings for someone else while you were with him, then maybe your feelings for him are not what they should be. Try staying away from both men for awhile and give yourself some time alone to sort out your feelings. Right now you can't be good for either one of these men OR yourself. Good luck to you!!
561757
Now I got your problem- Sweetie... You have to move on your life.. for all you know he might have been married all the time you had chatted with him.. And you dont love him... this is not love... love is when you actually let go of the person whom you say you love and when that person comes back to you... you can say its love. Right now its nothing more of an attraction. Get out and meet new people.. try n get over him... if he doesnt want have a relationship with you stop pusuing him...!!!
144932
If you're asking this question then you definitley are NOT ready to have sex with him. When you are ready you will feel it in your heart and you won't think twice or have to ask someone's opinion, so probably after your married would be best.
651676
STOP LIKING THEM:). I mean look, if you are wanting to get involved with someone, don't get involved with a married man. It is not fair to you or his family. Maybe you are a type of person who looks for the thrill of a chase and not a commitment...lots of people who are attracted to married men are like that. I think what you should do is try to find someone who is unattached who you can be with and give them everything you can give them. It is much better for you in the long run, you will not feel guilty about having a man leave his wife or children, and you will feel better about yourself in the end as well! GOOD LUCK and success!
26544
See a marriage counselor.  They are pretty good at letting you know if it will work out.\n\nIf you love him, he is probably right for you.\n\nBelow is a fun Mr. Right quiz...
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if u love him & he loves u then yeah try it  (good luck)
605522
A married man is not going to leave his wife for you. There\nis nothing you can do to make him leave her. That is his wife. they have been together before you came along. How\nwould you feel if you was married and some woman told your\nhusband to leave you? how would you feel once you found out?  You would be hurt. you would be crying and depressed.\nWell that's how his wife would be if he left her for you. \nHe will cheat on you too if he married you. Then divorce you and marry the mistress. Is that what you want to happen?\nBecause it will. It's reality.
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Can't understand the question but if your in love now go for it...............