how can I get back his love again?
608873
I have a fiancee' in another country, and can relate to what you and your boyfriend are going through. \n\nIt is extremely difficult to maintain a relationship at such a long distance. My fiancee' and I have dedicated our hearts and our lives to each other. We both are doing everything we can to bring each other physically back together again.  It has required incredible commitment from both of us to go through all that we have so far.\n\nYour relationship, unfortunately, has doubt and commitment issues fro what you have described. Such issues are tough enough to deal with when you are face-to-face let alone being thousands of miles apart. Assuming that one of you lives in America, dealing with the immigration and visa issues is going to be a task and huge commitment in itself. ANY doubt of commitment is going to show through when you two deal with these issues.\n\nIn my opinion, you need to bluntly find out if your boyfriend is actually willing to commit his life to you, and a good test is for him to work on getting a fiancee' visa for you to visit him or vice versa. If he is serious about getting married, then he will need to do this sooner or later. If he is not willing to commit at least to that, then there is no need to continue the relationship. \n\nGood luck to you!
454419
Ask yourself do you really want him back?? Or do you want the feeling of being in a loving relationship?? If it is him, that you want back, does he want you back? I think that best thing that you can do for yourself is to go on with your life. There are others out there and you are holding yourself back wanting what you can't have. We always want what we can't have,but while you are pining away for the past you are missing out on the future. If you two are meant to be together than it will happen. You can't make someone want you and you can't take him back, he is not yours he belongs to himself and he has to find his own way in life.
64913
Time heals all wounds. Take it slow. Just remember when you were hurt. It took a while to learn to trust someone again, right? Just be there for him, be honest, and enjoy each other. When the time is right, he'll know it, and he'll let you know.
52940
If the fold is from you try and work it out \nexpecialy if you love him faigt back.\nBut if it is him give him some time he will \ncome back after he realise what hi miss.
796569
why not send him a card and in the card let me know how you feel - if you are truly sorry - and want him back in your life - tell him this - let him know that this was the very thing he had to do to you to make you grow up and respect him.  but, remember, you really have to mean these words, you just can go back to your old ways with him - because the NEXT time, (if he forgives you, and, i think he will) he may not change his mind.   you can just get so many chances - until the person you are hurting, gives up on you. so hold true to your word to him, if you go with this idea. i wish you well.
399514
if you really want him back too, i suggest you do..but if not, tell him straight out..i also suggest you rush thinking about it because if you take too long, he might pick up and leave, something you might not want to happen..
741399
He didnt seem to treat you very well hun, you obviously had problems within the relationship, did you try telling him how you felt or did you just split up with him without discussing how he made you feel?\nIf you want him back then you need to talk to him but this time make sure that you tell him how you feel, take control a little.\nIf he only wants you back on the same terms as you had before then it's obvious that he is just using you hun.\nTry talking , but it does sound like he was using you a little.\nDont let him rule when you do things, be brave , ask for what you want when you want it, if he says no then cut your losses and find someone who truely appreciates you.\nGood luck, hope all works out ok for you.
529702
Sweetheart, it's going to be tough... but you're going to have to give him his space and somehow prove to him that he can trust you again.\n\nSorry.
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
1003294
i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...
350784
You don't get over it, you learn from it. You look at why it didn't work out, and hopefully change things so that the next time you are in love you will not make the same mistakes. Or you could try and get it back. You know the old saying, if its truely love and you let it go, it comes back to you. If it never returns it wasn't truely love to begin with. Or my personal favorite, find someone that looks exactly like your love, F**** him dump him, laugh with your friends about it later.(just kidding)I find a little laughter and joking sometimes eases the pain ya know what I mean!
717472
the best way to deal with love is to lay it on the line.  your heart is broken without him, you cant lose much more by telling him how you really feel.  i say honesty is the best policy and if he loves you too, hell take you back especially since its not because you did somethign stupid.  you just told him no, but realize your mistakes now.  tell him you love him - im sure he will be incredibly happy!
197138
of course forgive and don't forget it TRUE love cant be broken, but it can be restored. but if you feel like it will happen again lay down some ground rules and keep your eye on him.
576963
well just hope he comes back\n\nmake some new friends and get on with your life
404073
go right ahead.... make ur move and get ur man back
256228
It will not be easy, but the best advice I can give you is to pray and ask GOD to take away the feelings that you have for this man, and to renew the love,desire and passion you once had for your husband.
708318
Call him and Congratulate him.\nThere's not much you can do, but if he is still in love with you he will end it and come back to you.\nDon't forget everything happens for a reason, you may not know the reason now but you will someday and look back at it.\n\nGOOD LUCK