i am in love with gay?
600188
He can't change his sexuality.  He is what he is.  Gay men are attractive sometimes because they are just more in touch with their feminine side (sometimes) and also because they understand the frustration of dealing with men in love relationships so they make great "sob sisters".
1123370
there are so many reasons to love someone you hardly even know. i got myself mixed up with a guy i didnt really know. in my mind i gave him qualities of a character in my favorite book. so out came the perfect guy!!! but he really wasnt that perfect. So you may really be in love, but you are probably not in love with this actual person. you are in love with somebody you invented that you gave the face of a real person. a summer is an eternity when you are in love. Live ur summer fast and hard with no regrets. it helps a lot. dont mope around at home. find some friends to hang out with, and dont think too much!!! thats a big problem for me. i think too much. only time will tell. and i guarantee you, somebody new WILL come along, that you love even more. this experience will make you a thousand times stronger.\n\nif u wanna talk n e time email lizziesista@yahoo.com im totally up for giving u more help if u need it.
227466
Of course it can happen! He might not be able to explain it because he doesn't understand it himself...he might be wondering how it happened when he has always been straight. It's probably very confusing for him. You say you're in love, and things sound very good. Don't question it with him. For now just let him express his feeling in other ways, through his actions!
1104718
You probably do love him. He's your friend and you can't help but love a true friend. Have you talked to him about it? You can always talk to a friend. Has he dated in the past? Have you thought that maybe he is into guys? Gay guys do make the best of friends for girls, they do hide in the closet for a while, and they'd be more likely to send you a gift than a straight guy would. Maybe you two should just stay friends for now, and get to know him a lot better. The more you know about him personally, the easier it will be to tell what his feelings are.
937022
tell him how you feel, and he deffanitly gay.
766481
He's gay... you can love him, but I doubt you'll get much love in return... :-)
274502
Just tell him.. if u dont u will forever wonder. If he is in love he will tell u..
184666
do you love him? or are you angry?..Was he gay to begin with of just in the closet?.. None of that matters really of course. If you like the friendship, but can't handle "gay" part (I'm guessing he's bi) Then you have some options. One you need to dtermine what kind of sexual behavior he exibits. Destructive? Thats when he'll do anything with anyone anywhere. If this is the case I'd get out, get checked and walk away. If he has a regular long term lover then you may be able to keep the relationship if you can deal with that side of him.. Personaly (as a bisexual) I will NEVER understand why people who are bi (and they know it going in) are not honest about it. I don't keep secrets with lovers. It's amazing how many women are just fine with that.. You can even find a permanant relationships where every one knows everything. But where I live there are litterally tens of thousands of married men who are bisexual living secret lives, destructive lives at that. They put everything they suppossedly car about at risk and thats not right.\n  Now youhave to decide weatehr or not you want to keep on going with this person or not. My own situation is BiPoly. bisexual+polyamorus (I'll wait while you look that up)..Everything is like a marriage of sorts between like minded people. Maybe thats for you if he's mongamous with his male lover and monogamous with you. Guess that would be duomonogamy. But you get my drift. For gay and bisexual males its rare to have these types of relationships. Socienty has forced them into the alleys and closets so its been a catch as catch can situation. By forcing it into the blue area it has gaurenteed anonamous stranger sex is a given. . But this is changing and more things are out in the open. It would be nice if everyone could just be open and honest with out fear of retribution, but that is not how it has been. Being suppressed is like slavory. you do what you have to do to be free wen you can be.
1090966
Hey bro, i know exactly how you feel. I actually used to be gay.  I knew that the bible talked against homosexuality and i felt trapped in this sin that i wanted to get out of.. Well i read this verse.. 1 corinthians 10:13\n\nNo temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.\n\nthat verse changed my life, God will name THE WAY of escape that you my brotha will be able to endure and overcome it.\n\nThat WAY is Jesus! He delivered me from homosexual attractions and now im delivered and straight!  Of course, people will say oh no, im denying it, or i was never gay, but bro as i live, i am a testimony living and breathing of the glory and almighty power of God, that God is powerful enough to change sexual orientation and take that desire away. \n\n Id love to talk to ya more bro, please feel free to email me and i can tell ya my complete testimony and how i was delivered.  Im praying for ya bro, hope to talk to ya later man.\n\nGod bless\n\nps. might i suggest for you to be sure to try ur best to read like 1 chapter of the bible a day at least.  Its not long, and i promise you its worth it.  Start in Ephesians then 1st John, thats my advice to ya :) cya bro
239938
Believe it! You can fall in love in love the second you see or meet them. (LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT) So in your case you proably do, and for all you know you probably knew you did when you met him. Just don't do anything stupid. Love is in the air. ITS SPRING TIME. LOL. At least almost.
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
1080668
Love is neither right or wrong. We cannot help who we love. What we CAN help is how we act upon it. For example, if the object of your love is married or someone otherwise completely unavailable, you should have the commons sense/morals or whatever not to act upon that love. On the other hand, as far as homosexuality, I would say that depends on your age, your maturity, and again the availablility of that person...are they free? I get the feeling you are very young and you may mistake attraction for love. Just be careful, be mature, talk with a family member or professional and...follow your heart. Just try not to hurt anyone along the way. \n\nDoxieLover
952105
I've been going through a gay phase with men since I was 12... years later I'm still going through that phase. I fall in love with guys and I can't help it.
496951
There is nothing wrong with you its just you have a certain taste in men their is nothing wrong with that. You will never be happy if you don't love all of him. If their is no physical attraction it will never work out. Sorry :(
559380
you may be lesbian, but right now u r confused, nothing else.\nThink about your desires, and then make a plan. leave confusion, and accept whatever u r. If you want to live a normal life, stick with your bf, and leave those thoughts of being homosexual. you may cosult a phsycologist.
599642
I dont think that means you are gay. But maybe you should sit down and really think about this before jumping into anything you might later regret
171314
In this situation you should probably try spending some quality time with the person sooner or later it will become totally clear of their sexuality and you never know if they are they may come out and ask you first, either that or talk to a mutual friend if there is one available, and try to get the dish on what they are into, basically the same thing you would do if you were straight, nothing really has to be different. The worst that could happen is that he says no but it is best to be true to yourself :-))!!!