what  can  u  tell  someone  to  help them  not  worry  so  much  about  what  a  girl had her dad say to?
602128
i'd say he's safe and there trying to start **** unless she lied to get him into trouble
127054
From my grand-dad:\n\nBut the greatest bit of wisdom that he ever told,\nWas how to judge a woman, before she grew too old,\n'Before you wed a woman', he said with quite a shudder,\n'Stand back and have a bloody good look - not at her - her mother'.
408727
Don't respond. Just nod and smile but don't make conversation. Be respectful because no mater what she feels about her own dad, showing disrespect to her father doesn't reflect well on you or your friendship. \n\nI've been in situations similar to this and sometimes holding your tongue is the most civil thing you can do.
446721
First explain to your bff that its going to be hard for you not to hang out with her since you guys go on trips and stuff like that then you need to ask your dads gfs daughter why she said that stuff about your bff maybe your bff did something to offend her try to get them to make up and if that doesn't work then your bff is just going to have to accept that you cant really get away from you dads gfs daughter
202162
Tell your Mom or Dad! You should confront him about it and tell him that he's making you feel uncomfortable and you are not happy discussing things of that nature with him. Try and avoid being alone with him. Get someone to be with you when you talk to him about it.
1036888
That is a very hard question. Could you somehow talk a little more to the girl? if not I guess the best thing to do is stay out of it. You could tell her to go to a counselor and tell them her problem and then the counselor could talk to the parents.
463382
I would tell their parents.They can try to get them into professional counseling.It doesn't go away on it's own.They may have more serious issues that need looking into.You are a great friend to try to help them.They may get mad at you at first but they will thank you later.Just tell them you care about them that's why you want to help.
1130859
You can do a few different things - tell her the truth that you are scared of her dad, make up some reasons why you can't stay over,  or just invite her to your house even though your parents think she's weird.\nHonesty is usually the best way to go - you could try staying at her house one night and seeing how it is - if you don't like it you don't have to stay there again, it's just one night.  You might be surprised to find that her dad is a really nice person or if worse comes to worse and you still don't like him then just tell her the truth and don't stay there anymore.\nJust because your parents think she's weird doesn't mean you shouldn't have her over to your house.
995421
Everyone has left pretty good advice so far.  I know this could be hard...you want to be a cool dad but you are concerned about your daughter.  Do whatever it takes to make her stop.  Being cool doesn't do anything, I know that from personal experience.  Do something and do it now.  Make your point known.  My parents did stuff I hated as a kid, but when I finally grew up, I realized their wisdom and how their strictness on such things made me who I am today.  Be strong man, and good luck!  I wish the best for you in this tough situation!
946595
Well, I think most people are willing to admit that it's a natural part to growing up. Your dad may just not be too good at expressing his thoughts and just blurted something out. \n\nIt's probable that he really doesn't care and will just shrug it off. There are a couple things you can do.\n\n1- Don't worry about it. Everyone does it. There's no reason to make a big deal about it.\n\n2- Talk to him. Say that you feel embarassed that he walked in and weren't expecting his reaction.\n\nChill out. Parents are willing to talk about more than we give them credit for. Good luck.
535226
its ok to talk to them about it, dont be scared
966190
don't be afraid- just ask her. But just in case she says something nasty ask her where her mom is and what her name is.
356944
dont say nothin its really none of there business you are who you are im sure they already know my mom said shes known for a while your mom knows shes just scared to say anything dont tell them separate if you wanna tell tell your mom first then  have her sit down with you and your dad
271992
this dad needs a good talkin to
206264
How about better communication?  You are with her Dad, she's probably a bit jealous.
349965
I definitally think you should call him! If he is having issues about him thinking that no one cares about him like his parents, maybe him knowing that you care regardless and someone that isnt soposed to care or isnt responcible to look after him cares or loves him enough to look in on him, might just make him see that regardless of what his parents are doing or not doing somone out there gives a shiznet about what happens to him and someone is out there to give a helping hand and give guidance when they dont have to do it, by all means stay in touch with this kid, if he really doesnt have his parents he can have you, i wouldnt pressure him to talk to you about everything but just let him know that you will always be there and you will always hear him out, no matter how lost or confused he is :) Dont be just one more person to turn their back to him, thats just going to make his situation worse ya know :) *HUGS* its awsome that you care!!!
596963
Maybe you can help her by just listening to her.  Sometimes just being a good listener is more help than you think.  She is probably afraid to tell her parents.  You might offer to let her "practice" by telling you, just like she is going to have to tell her parents.  That might make it so it's not as hard telling them.  Did she take a test or see a doctor?  She really needs to tell her parents as soon as she is sure that she is pregnent so they can help her get the medical attention that she will need.\n\nLots of luck