can i live without romance?
599397
Some people can, some people can't. Since you had to go and literally ask this question to the entire internet, my guess is that YOU can't live without it. Otherwise you would've have asked it in the first place.
1135367
I do that,i don't know why but i do! I think you just need to be happy with yourself and being alone.To make sure your not dependant on someone else for happiness,then you'll want to move in because you'll be brining happiness into the relationship!
55031
I could not fall in love with anyone who opposed the very ideals I live for, so the answer is no....
73748
Only you know.  Romance and love are often motivated by forces we do not understand.  Be honest with them and yourself.  Follow your heart.
599025
Honestly, I think not.  Mainly because you said they have different thinking and also different lifestyles.  You want to marry someone you can talk to, and spend time with.  If you are unable to relate intellectually, and if you don't have common interests, the chances that the romance will wither and die is great.
445132
To me being romantic is like climbing a steep rocky hill then throwing yourself off of it. It's hard work and you can almost be sure you're going to get hurt plenty of times....by you'll feel more alive than anyone else you know :)
820396
yes. if you do NOT love to keep pain OUT, then you also cannot let LOVE IN!! it's a risk but one worth taking!! just use your HEAD and not always your heart for guidance!!
887046
I think that is a fabulous idea. I believe everybody needs love, but timing is very important. I am a very independent person. I didn't want to be one of those needy or high maintenance chicks that had to have someone to take care of them. It turns out that guys really dig people like me and you usually stumble on love when you least expect it or when you aren't even looking. I think you should focus on studies now. Pamper yourself once in a while, and just be happy with yourself...the rest will fall into place.
453421
Not if you love your wife. If you are lacking romance in your marriage, or sex, then talk to your wife about it. Try to get her to understand your feelings about what you desire and see if the two of you can spice up your lives. There is a book called "The Everything Romance Book", it is a great, easy read and gives awesome suggestions on how to bring back romance to your life. Do you really want to ruin 33 years of memories and love with your wife to be with someone whom you are probably just attracted to because she is new?? I would talk to your wife and forget the other woman.
282517
Absolutely, a long as it is in a healthy way - you are not obsessing about it or use it as a replacement for a relationship. Just remember to be safe and dont go in for anything dodgy with people you dont know or dont trust implicitly.
255239
no...........u must learn to love urself before u can love anyone or anything else. it u dont love urself how can u love another? u cant.
901919
I think I could do without love, but not sex.
770248
It not necessary. You may  just not be attracted to the guys around you and that's fine. Some day some guy will knock you off your feet and that's the one. Don't worry about it, I'm single and I love it for the most part. Every thing will fall into place for you, don't kill your self over it.
942294
life is hard with romantic love and without it Life would become unbearable
735678
You should have the willingness to make a meaning out of any relationship. In this case you should be willing to commit in a love relationship for life-time without hassels any day of your life for any reason.
206804
love is the mos important and beautiful feeling and sex is just a outcome, So without love, sex is nothing
552908
absolutely not.\nyou can love anyone, so what? don't be a self-made martyr