Can anyone tell me something romantic I can do for my butch that isn't going to be too sappy?
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One thing you can do for your butch babe is a wonderful meal, a foot massage and a strip tease. Most butch babes like anything that has to do with lipstick, lace or high heels. Be as femme as you want to be and I'm sure she'll eat it up.
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oh! that is so cute! just petals,no flower? okay. put them in a basket with a card and the ring box on top. she might cry,but it will be soooo romantic!
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How about a simple 'Congratulations' and a kiss?\nNo?\nWell then.. Give him something he likes! And to find out what he likes, ask him!
111234
hey dude... give her a rose as of now 'coz ur sayin u dont luv her yet .even a greeting card will do. good luck!
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How cool that a GUY is asking a question like this.  Hats off to you, bro.  You sound like a real romantic.  This being the case, why not break the mold?  Don't just go to WalMart, and pick something up for her - CREATE an afternoon for her!  I did this for my wife on our first anniversary.\nCreate a custom day-spa for her, made up of all kinds of things that she likes to do, print it up, and give it to her.  An example would be:\n\n9:00am - Tennis at the courts where we met\n10:00am - Go for a walk & talk about our dreams\n11:00am - Spend some time playing with her little sister\n12:00pm - Customize picnic in the park, featuring her favorite sandwich\n1:00pm - Non-sexual backrub on the beach (women really dig "non-sexual" affection - it makes them feel loved and comfortable, as opposed to a tool that you are using to meet a need)\n\nYou get the idea.  Finish it all off by cooking her a special dinner.  Even if it doesn't taste that great, she'll love the fact that you thought enough of her to get a cookbook from the library, and arrange a candlelight dinner!  The key to the whole day is to focus your concerns on her needs.  Stay away from expecting anything in return from her.  Make this day about making her feel like a princess.\n\n*Also, as a side note, something that I did with my wife because I could tell early on that she was the one...secretly start a journal.  Write down loving thoughts that you have about her (and DATE every entry).  Write down notes about things that you do together & dates that you have.  Continuously write down why you love her, and why you are so excited to be with her.\nThen, on your wedding night, GIVE IT TO HER AS YOUR WEDDING GIFT!  I was SO glad that I had done it.  My journal was packed with stuff that I had long forgotten about, and she absolutely melted!
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um, yes, surprise flowers are nice. Maybe a hug from behind when I don't see you coming or a hug or kiss in mid conversation. A pounce while walking in the park or something. Anything that is spontaneous and would make me laugh.
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Just be very subtle, show your sweet side but don't try so hard. Don't seem to obsess over her, kick it down a few notches. You can still be romantic, just make sure not to come across as too feminine or lovey dovey. You can do sweet things for her and she will get the hint, you don't need to "show" her you are a romantic.
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Come up with ideas that tickle all five senses. Silk scarves evoke sensual touch and are unusual enough to be unique. You could try a picnic at a botanic garden, park or beach. Cook together. Romantic massage or candle lit bubble bath might get some passions going. \n\nThe old standbys work really well. Bring flowers, candy and play soft music and canoodle on the couch. Take a moonlit walk and write a poem. It doesn't have to be good, just heartfelt.
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Don't cheat on her, buy her flowers every now and then. Make her feel special, compliment her. Bring her over for dinner at your house. Don't get in fights over silly things. Don't pressure her to do things she's not ready for, etc. I wish your brother luck! I just love romance!
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Candle-lit dinner.. Bubble bath (with candles, be careful), Nice romantic music... Sometimes men appreciate flowers, maybe rose petals around the bed or something... Good luck!
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How about a playstation/computer game. Just make sure he doesnt have it already\nMaybe also a video of you, like a message to him. it doesnt have to be erotic, just sentimental.\nGood Luck
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It isn't really about giving her something romantic per say, but about expressing what is in your heart to her.  One of the best things you can do to show you care and you concern for her 'drifting' is write a letter.  Express yourself in this letter and let her know exactly what you feel.  \n\nHighlight some of the great areas in your relationship from the beginning until now and tell her how your love for her has continued to grow over time.  \n\nAnother thing you can do is a few weeks before your anniversay, tell her that you want to treat her to a special day because it means a lot to you.  Let HER plan the events for the day.  Or, ask her for some ideas of the things she'd like to do that day and then plan the day based on what she tells  you.\n\nOne hot thing to do is go back to a restaurant or place that was in the beginning of your relationship when it was just getting started. \n\nAnd, then your typical stuff: roses, jewelry, etc.\n\nHope your anniversary is the best!
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Before he comes over, sprinkle red and white rose petals trailing from your front door, to the living room. Watch your-guyses fave movie together, and after that, go out to eat to a fancy resteraunt. I know it doesn't seem like a present to you, but it'll mean a whole lot to him <3 hope it works out!
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Okay, so i'm back ..hehe...i was so intrigued by the thoughfullness and sincerity of your last question I went to see if you had any others.  And you do...and some really sweet ones at that...\nSo heres my two cents:\n\n* CUDDLE!!!!!(issue addressed though...do it do it do it!!!)\nAlso plant sweet kisses on her...its especially sweet when she's sleeping...it implies so much....you think she's sleeping and unaware..but she is!\n\n* Introduce her to new things!  This will score big points and make a lasting impression...every time that event or occasion comes up you will be forever imprinted in her memory and associated with it.  (I was introduced to football!  of all things...and became a huge Steeler fan...cant look at football now w/o associating it w him.  Also shared my first Symphony w/ him, first baseball game, first game of mini golf....GO FOR THE FIRSTS!!!!\n\n*Be a gentlemen.....show her chivalry isnt dead.  Even someting so common as holding her elbow or hip when opening the door...or standing when she gets up from the table, warning her of puddles or cracks in the sidewalk, or standing on the side of her thats facing the street....just says so very much.  Girls like to feel like they are being taken care of...and that is SEXY!!!!!!!!!!\n\n*Make her dinner....may sound unoriginal or common, but if done right can be so very....sigh sweet!  Especially when you take it to her at work.  Presentation is key.  Throw in some fresh strawberrys and grapes for the desert and a box of chocolates......(writing this I can see Ive been spoiled)\n\n*Compliment her....don't over do it though....say it only when its warrented...that way she knows its genuine.\n\nOkay, so my two cents turned into a novel..but the above really has made a huge impression on me...and that says alot.  But good luck to you...sounds like you are already on your way to being pretty damn awesome.
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Well, can only answer for myself, But I would enjoy something or even just a thoughtful gesture from your heart over something thats store baught anyday.  Use your imagination.  Special dinner of his favorite food that YOU have prepared for him, a special evening to just yourselves, make it romantic, make him feel that he is the one and only man that has ever existed in your life.  Remember it is all about him that day.  Start from the time you wake up in the morning till the time you two finally fall asleep that night.  And I'm sure he will be doing something special for you, so be patient and work together so that both of you feel that the plans you have put together have went smoothly and fully.  Good luck and congratulations.
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a romatic sun setting dinner on the beach or boat!!!\ngive her 11 real red or pink roses and 1 fake rose and say i will LOVE YOU UNTIL EVERY LAST ROSE DIES. don't tell her one will be fake but remember one will always be there.  I know I would love that. Also get her a teddy bear to hug when she misses you.(build a bear is what i reccomend) \n\nI hope I helped
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okay well where did you have you first date. if that doesnt fit you can alwayd try the candles and roses thing. if you go a little before valentines and ask for the throw outs of roses so that you can take the petals it shouldnt be to pricey. also a favorite light meal and a chocolaty dessert like a crockpot mud cake. there is also sitting on the porch with a blanket and a pot of warm spiced wine just sitting and watching the stars.