I have sexual feelings for a friend whom is the same sex as me.?
613357
the best way is to hook up with a girl n if you like it then well your a leziban. but then again you have children. i think every girl and every guy thats straight has at least one girl or one guy they like. its normal. but dont tell her u will ruin the relationship
17654
Being homosexual is having a sexual attraction to someone of the same gender.
457696
honesty is good, but are you reallly sure you're bisexual? think about it. If you are, then tell then you're still the person they are friends with and it shouldnt change ur friendship just becuase you have a different sexuality preference. Unless she feels like you're going to like her, then explain to her that just becuase you like girls too doesnt mean you like every girl, just like she doesnt like every boy. Tell ur bf. Hes gonna be mad most likely...cuz no one wants to share their gf... but its unlimately up to you. do whatever feeels right.
112562
you just kow. but the other person has to feel the same way! so ask them, or tell them how you feel
80105
Do what feels comfortable for you and then gauge his feelings also and go on from there... To answer the first question YES you can really like EVEN love a Good friend.. I married my best friend 19 years ago, and we are still married and best friends.. There are never any right or wrong feelings that you feel, it is only the way you or others may act upon them... Best to you and good luck
726275
tell her how you feel!! you never know she may feel the same way. take a chance and tell her everything.
96791
You think you are, but you could be curious about trying things and you believe your bestfriend is the closest person and female, to try this on. Take time to think about it, tell her that your having these feelings (about being a lesbian).
653392
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
384408
I can only hope so..If they both mutually want it and enjoy it. And don't try to put a label on it (gay, bi, whatever..) just enjoy what you do.
1019198
tell her you dont want to lose her as a friend but your 100% straight and only into males - also tell her your flattered by her interest - but you would rather forget it ever happened and just carry on as before hope this helps :-)
282396
it really all depends on the person. has the person had feelings for the same sex before the sexual abuse. a person will be with someone because on how they will feel towards that person. I have friends that are in same sex relationships and has never been sexually abused. I myself had been sexually abused and I still feel for the opposite sex and not changing my sexual preference
262650
then how about asking your friend to help you out....? you could ask her to try to jokingly ask him about being with you or how he feels about you? its better if you get a guy to ask about it because usually guys then to answer more honestly to the same sex....
802387
just go to him and tell him how u feel, and im positive he feels the same way, if your close friends then he must know u and he would like u for who u r
705036
I have reservations when you say you have "feelings" for this lady? I wonder are these feeling recipricated? Are you getting clear signs that she has feelings for you or are these feelings of yours entirely related to unmet needs of your own? This situation can go one of three ways.....\n(a) If she has feeling for you and is consciously sending out these signals then the relationship may develop into something more.\n(b) If these feeling you have are a result of unmet needs of your own then it is a very dangerous situation and your friendship may be doomed (should you try to take things further).\n(c) If (a) is the case then the relationship may develop but I doubt it will be a sincere and lasting parnership. Why? Because she has only recently committed to a life with someone else. If she is willing to sacrifice that relationship already then she is either selfish or very immature (probably both).\nSorry, just my thoughts.\nMichael
569068
I'M IN A SIMILAR SITUATION LIKE THAT. ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IS A MALE AND HE EXPRESSED HIS FEELINGS FOR ME AND I TOLD HIM THAT WE WOULD BE BETTER AS FRIENDS. WE ARE STILL AS CLOSE AS WE EVER WERE. I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD FEAR LOSING HER AS A FRIEND BECAUSE IF YOU ALL ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, YOU EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS TO HER SHOULD NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU TWO HAVE. I BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST AND YOU SHOULD JUST GO FOR IT. GOOD LUCK...
503723
As long as he still consider it in his dreams, I think it's okay.\n\nC'mon... he's your best friend! Just tell him that you don't like the idea in his head, and tell him to stop thinking about it if he still wants to have a good relationship between both of you.\n\nIt's natural for him to have feeling for you since he probably knows you better than most people, that he feel something sexual for you. But that thoughts can sometime arose from a thing called loneliness.\n\nTalk to him, and tell him that you didn't liek the idea, and that his weird thought might endanger your friendship. Tell him that you'll still be his friend even if he's gay, but there's still a line you need to draw to avoid the worst possibility in your friendship.
172723
you know your in love when you and your "friend" feel sum thing special in side \n\np.s give it time yoo'll know