wt do guyz actually look for in their girl?
610704
Each guy has a different idea of the type of girl he is attracted too... Some guys like tomboyish girls... Some like eye candy... Some like down-to-earth girls... Every guy is different...
1128022
wow... that's almost poetic. seriously.\n\nnow as to your question, most guys notice looks first. after all, they see you before they talk to you. it's only now that online dating, chatrooms, and email penpals that have taken over that personality has a chance to shine before your appearance does.\n\nwhile looks are what will initially reel a guy in, it's personality that makes him stay. you know how parents used to tell their kids looks don't matter as much as personality? well they're half right.\n\nlooks are necessary in a relationship. if you can't feel something physically for the person you like personality wise then you WILL have problems. and while not everyone has a supermodel body or superhero looks, they usually have one feature that is their best (eye's, hair, smile, and yes.. their body too)\n\nnow that they have a starting/point of interest. the fun begins and the personalities of the individuals comes out and you find out whether you are compatible with each other. this is where a cute or plain girl can become beautiful in the eyes of a guy... and where a guy who at his best can only rate "cute" uses a sense of humor to go a bit higher in the scale to a "really cute" (or so i've been told :P)\n\nthis is also where a really hot girl can show how shallow and empty headed she can be... just like the bad boy "hot" guy can show how his head is comparible to a piece of wood (yes yes i know... these are sterotypes... but they are stereotypes for a reason. i.e. there were enough instances that it BECAME a stereotype. i know there are exceptions to the rule, trust me, i've met them)\n\nyour looks let them know there is a girl nearby... your personality lets them know that YOU are nearby. hope this helped ;)
1036231
Everything, not just good looks, or good heart, or very funny. In my opinion I look for a girl who I know will be good not just in sex but in giving me all kinds of attention, like remembering my b-day, or buying me things she wants me to wear. See its all about the little details that makes the difference. Yeah she has to look good, not perfect but good. She has to always look out for her self, like always dressing nicely, wearing appropiate makeup, keeping her figure healthy. Also you want a girl that you know she loves you, but not to the point where she starts prohibiting you to talk to girls at all, or from having any female girls. she can be jeallous, but not a selfish freak. I dont want her feeling insecure about her self either, she has to show me she knows what shes doing. Best of all she has to make me feel like Im wanted, like she is proud to be my girl. I dont like girls that limit her self to everything. I enjoy sex, and if my girl cant be creative then she isnt completer.
1162564
What kind of girl are you looking for?
449299
what i look for in a guy is basically someone i can have a good time with.  I go for personality first and he has to be able to make me laugh and smile. no one likes a serious stiff guy. but u have to be careful also that the guy isnt took much of a clown. Looks always come second to me because sure u can have a good time showing off your boyfriend if he's cute but u cant always have a good time with him.
105895
I myself look for a girl that is almost always happy and smiling. I also look for looks that are at least decent and up. Most important though, is their smile.
209584
Openess and honesty.  Same thing women want, at least in my opinion.  Guys, just like girls, get tired of all the games.  Eventually, after all the bouncing from one girl to another and all the sexual exploration, most guys are going to come to that point where they want to find somebody that is more than a sex toy, but also a companion and friend.  \n\nBasically, just be yourself, be willing to take an occassional risk(putting yourself out there, saying that deeply personal thing that you might be holding back), and time and nature will do the rest.  Guys may be pigs, but deep down, guys want to find a girl they can respect.  They want to find someone that will take the time to understand and get to know them.  THAT is the girl that a guy will decide to committ to, not the girl he got drunk and took home after knowing her for a day.  So, be yourself, take some emotional chances, and let him know how you feel!
1122249
I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
563970
depends on what your talking about...\nA guy will probably chase the big breasted slim "better" looking girl but in the end alot of the guys would not want to persue a relationship with a girl whose not fun to be with and has no connection with her.\n\nAll guys will look at the "sexy" girl wearing the least clothing but that doesn't really mean he'll want to be with her after meeting her.\n\nAll men are differant in what they want in a relationship and what the ideal girl looks like and wears, the older they get the more they can appreciate the inner beauty of a woman.
482985
Signals:\ntouches you while you are talking\nlooks straight into your eyes\nshows interest in things that you like (music, books, movies, etc.)\nhangs out with you even when she doesnt have to\n\nGirls really look for a guy who is caring and funny... she wants a guy who she will always have fun with but he still respects her.
1105573
I'll be honest here ... \n\nYes looks are important ...\n\nIt may not be the only thing that's important when dating and getting to know somebody, but it sure does count in my book ...
88972
That's a tricky question, cuz not all men are the same.Like me, I look for nice personality, honesty,and someone to love me for me, not for what I have.Most importantly, she has to have high self esteem.All the physical things come in a little later.
469649
Well it depends what a guys intentions are....if a guys intenetion is to get sex fast which is not what most girls would do....then a guy will pick up the hottest girl in the bar or nightclub and wont care about the personality.......but if a guys intentions are a real relationship then he will look for looks and personality believe me...i wouldnt wanna go out with a bit.ch and feel uncomfortable with unless all i wanted was just sex.......now the reason why its in our head is you have to go back to the caveman thinking.....the male caveman wanted a good looking childbearer who would give his kids good physical qualities...also he wanted a wife that was a good mother.........now the female cavegirl wanted a man who was a provider and could hunt and be strong and confident which was what women want now a days....so looks didnt matter all she needed was food on the table\n\ni hope this answers your question and i hope i deserve 10 points for this detailed answer.
303759
Try to know what he looks for in a girl and try to change yourself to that. make sure you make him know that all your efforts are to impress him.
1032483
It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
678739
i dont quite go on looks. Looks dsnt matter.. but the personality does. if a guy has a good personality and he'z sweet and easy to talk to and friendly .. datz enough. the guy i would be attracted to wont be BORing... i would go for a decent guy.. not a guy who just wntz 2 hook up with you.
900557
girls need to look at a guy and immediately feel safe with him. He needs to have that quality,. he should be genuine and should be a good listener.