Are all white men slobs when they get married and have kids? Think wifey = mommy???
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white man like sex. white man like food. white man get them both, white man content, no need for white man to clean up.
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I dont feel bad. They probably make their wives mad on purpose so they get divorced and like half of their money. Jerks, smart, but still jerks.
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Personaly speaking, all my life people have called me "bubble butt" even when I was skinny.\nSo I guess it's FALSE that white people have no\n"junk in the trunk".  Truthfully, I suppose I'm glad I can fill out my jeans well and I haven't heard any complaints from the men in my life !!
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Well, some people are morons. However, some military wives give the rest of us a bad name. My husband was in for a while and some of the other wives I met were crazy. They were lazy (various excuses for not working from...they were "too depressed because hubby was gone" to they "married a Navy man so they wouldn't have to work"), needy (always calling their husband's command complaining about time off and other matters that were none of their concern), and snobs (so many of them looked down on the wives of lower enlisted...as if they themselves had any reason to...they weren't the ones in the Navy). So as with any group, the ones who deserve the title of bi*ch ruin the image of the whole group!
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1ST OF ALL,SEGREGATION,PREJUDICE,AND DISCRIMINATION ARE JUST IGNORNANT!!! WE ALL ARE HUMAN BEINGS,OF COURSE WE HAVE DIFFERNT CULTURES,VALUES,ETC.BUT SO DO ALL WHITE MEN? WE ALL SHARE THE SAME BLOOD,WHETHER WE LIKE IT OR NOT! SO Y SEGREGATE?
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I think women are becoming the superior wage earners. I saw a stat that by 2010 3 in 5 wives(In the US) will outearn their husbands.\n\nI don't think it's because men are sponges though. I see many more women conspiring to lay around the house and live off their husbands. It's just not working out because women are more ambitious and acquire more skills and education. Men try but they can't keep up.
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Hi perksofbeing...,\nProfessionals have said yes. So has many husbands, wives, mom and dads. Good Luck: Blueladybug
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Do you mean like in MR MOM? Well, we guys have different ideas about taking care of the house, but responsibilities are what they are. The bottom line is in how responsible your guy is (or you are?). Otherwise there isn't much of a difference and this is happening more and more across the country due to injuries of husbands or better jobs for the wife or whatever. Well, hope I helped a little.
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You'd be half of all women.\n\nI can't really blame them, though.  How many of their husbands let the beer belly get out of control after then honeymoon?\n\nedited: I just noticed, you're French.  Let me rephrase my answer.  You'd be half of all American women.  European men are the same as American, though, so I'll let the other half stand as a universal statement.
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I would say its very common now for a black man to marry a white woman.  Have seen this many many times.  BUT you very seldom see a black girl and a white guy!  A woman knows by timeshe is 12 years old who her dream man is!  Hell we have our wedding and kids planned!  lol  Mine was the Marlboro man.  I dont think its really a choice u make.  You r either attracted or not.  I like my redneck cowboys!  Marrying a black man is not something I would look for in a husband.  Its just not my preference.  But if someone else does it certainly does not bother me.  Ummmm unless Vin Diesel asked then maybe.........lol  Nope love my cowboys and have since I was a little girl!
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my husband does it all the time. he will do it in public just to embarress me. he is white, i think all you guys like to grab it!
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I don't understand why married men think they still need to go out 'with the guys' once they get married...\n\nAfterall, they ARE grown up, they should act like it... they are not some hormonal college kids out looking for girls or whatever.\n\nThey grew up and got married... they shouldn't be out acting like they did when they were single.  He made the choice to give up the 'single scene' when he got married.  He needs to grow up.\n\nWhy can he not be happy going out with just you?  You are his wife, afterall.   He can still have friends, but what's the problem with them hanging out at the house?  Maybe get together for cards or something like that?  There are lots of things guys can do if they feel the need to 'hang out' together.  Heck, the friend can even bring his wife (and kids, if there are any) along to your house!  That way, you can all hang out together.  Married couples do that all the time!\n\nNo way would I put up with that!  I had a man like that... he wanted to be a husband but still wanted the single life...  and you can't have it both ways.  You either want to be married or you don't.  Simple as that.\n\nHe is not only a husband, but a father as well!  He needs to get his priorities straight!\n\nP.S.~~  Your husband has no problem with the way the friend speaks to you??  Perhaps you should tell the immature friend that you know who wears the pants in HIS family... his Mommy and Daddy!  Tell him to be a man and get out of Mommy and Daddy's house and support his family and back off from yours.\n\nHe has no problem belittling you so I would have no problem doing the same to him.
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Where are you getting you information to be sure that this is true? Unless you interviewed and surveyed each and every Black man, White man,  and women of all races on that subject and got those answers that you are posting,  you are just generalizing what you see around you not actual fact. I live in New York and see quite the opposite of what you have seen. I have seen people all of different races going out with and married to Black men. I have a friend who name is Arthur that is married to a Japanese woman and a friend who passed recently, that was married to a Chinese woman and they have a son together. As far as Black men and Hispanic/ Latin women, I have seen plenty of my Black male friends married or  engaged to Latinas that  they have children with. I am wondering what area do you live at because where I live, it is really diverse and that is my truth.
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a true gentleman will still be a true gentleman then. \n\nJust single moms who work the same job and do as well or better then men want the same pay, that is all!!! It is the single moms that are raising most of the kids. If the men are true gentlemen they would do what is right. I do realize some do, but many do not!!!\n\nMen have the upper hand some now. I see that changing soon.
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I think it is. I think we are supposed to get married and have a family. We then find what true love is. When you have kids its something unlike anything else and to me the marriage comes before the kids so without that....you don't get the honor. You don't get to know what it feels like. I believe that there is someone for everyone and God will put this person in front of you when you least expect it and you will know this is the one.
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I'm assuming that you are getting these comments from older relatives? Our society is currently in flux and it no longer behooves women to marry young like it once did. Women are more and more often to be the ones to put off getting married because many women see marriage at a young age as a trap into domesticality.\n\nI mean, who really wants to have to hold down a job, do the majority of the household chores, do the majority of the child care, and then have to deal with the husband acting like his wife is really his mother? I mean even the most responsible men don't seem to know how to eat a healthy meal (pizza is NOT a food group!), how to scrub a toilet or wash a load of laundry (or how often such tasks need to be done), or how to write a grocery shopping list or a menu for a weeks worth of meals. \n\nI say, you go girl! Marriage is a raw deal for women. Men definately got the better end of the marriage agreement!
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Yes, I do. I cook, clean, and take care of my son. I am from the south, so alot of women out there are like that. I have been told that I am old fashioned. I like to do it for my man, makes me feel good to make him happy. He does need to help out every now and then though. There is nothing wrong with the way you treat your man, and you do deserve a break every now and then.