is it ok to like an ex?
605986
its perfectly fine to like an ex. you dated them and you obviosly dated them cuz you liked them before so whats the difference now.... try again!
717031
No, there are rules to dating your best friends ex you know. That would just be wrong.
1178005
No, keeping in touch with your ex, unless you were really close before is not good.  I don't stay close to my ex because he told a friend of mine that we screwed when I never even saw him in the 8 days we went out.  Staying close to your ex is never going to help you get over that person.  HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!!!!
465419
ALRIGHT HERE WE GO.IF YOU REALLY LIK ETHIS GUY AND THIS GUY REALLY LIKES YOU AND THE TWO OF YOU ARE SURE ABOUT EACHOTHER THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? GO FOR IT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIS EX. SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON.MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE HAS TURNED INTO YOUR DIRECTION BECAUSE YOU ARE THE REASON THAT SHE COULDN'T BE.ALSO THE EX S JUST OVERLY JEALOUS BECAUSE HE MAY NOT WANT HER BACK AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BUT SHE CAN'T HANDLE THE THOUGHTS OF SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME.I WOULD SAY SCREW THE EX AND DO WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS RIGHT ASLONG AS YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AT THE SAME TIME.GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!
717202
Go out w/ him! Who cares who his ex is as long as she isn't a good friend of yours then it really doesn't matter. If he makes you happy then go for him. If you just want to get revenge on the girl (his ex) just b/c you don't like her then just go out on one date w/ him, and at least see what he is like. Who knows you may end up really liking him in the end. Just remember who cares what she thinks, if you don't like her and they are broken up then he is fair game, and you shouldn't feel bad in the slightest.
1078510
Well I think that depends on their relationship before they broke up and their relationship now.If he is still interested in the ex then no. But if he genuinely just a caring person who wants to be friends with his ex because that is the type of person he is and it is not coming between your new relationship then yes.
95659
I think dating someone new is ok as long as you realize that you are still getting over the other person. It is important to not use the person to help your hurt feelings go away. Let the other person know you are fresh out of a relationship and not ready to take it farther,
1125169
I do the same thing.  Nothing is wrong with getting rid of the possesions that remind you of an ex-lover.  And if his feelings were hurt, TOO BAD!
1080125
YES you should apologize to your ex!! But remember the facts that the both of you are either just friends or aquaintance now beside the facts that both of you went into a relationship before.\n\nIf you still like her, you should tell her. And even if she doesn't like you anymore, just move on.No use being sad, because you've hurt her too deeply in the past!! and i believe, if you hurt someone now, you will have retribution. meaning in future, you will be that one being hurt!! So now, you're having what is your retribution, which is getting dumped. Don't feel so agitated by my answer.  But life goes on.. move on!! take care!!
930161
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93558
the truth is that  you might be getting fooled and he might also be for real. the truth is since u say he likes another i think you should let him stay as an ex. he might never have gotten over you and be somehow attached to u or might be possesive or he might just feel like he still has to finish up some things he could not whebn you are together. since u are the one who likes him u might get hurt if he does not reciprocate so i think , keep him as an ex.
488114
It depends on the situation. If you were still dating him when they got together, that's messed up and that's not a friend. But if it was an ex boyfriend, I think that's okay. As long as she comes and talks to you first about it. Not asking for permission, just letting you know what her feelings are. That's a true friend. I don't see anything wrong with friends dating other friends exs but they have to remember that friends come first
782517
It was hard for me when I recently got in touch with an (THE) ex. At first it was just friendly, and then we talked a few times and I was hit with so many emotions it felt like I was punched in the stomach.  He was my first true love (at 18) and I realized that I still have feelings for him almost 20 years later-- and we are both married to others with children.  I told him how I felt and it was not great/emotional/embarassing to be feeling and acting like a teenager, though he let me down gently and we are still friendly.   So its been a tough few months. With other exs it has not been an issue, simply friendly, occassional correspondance with guys I knew in middle school, high school.  I think its not an issue if there are not any feelings left but friendly, fond memories.  If you discover, like I did, that the feelings are as fresh as they ever were than its much more complicated.  Good luck.
330939
oh you like him, or at best the attention he is giving you and want to justify the fact that he is your ex boyfriends mate, well it is not a moral issue really ,if you fancy him and he makes a move tell him how you feel as regards his mate,being your ex and go with your heart.\n\nGigi
1069021
Yeah its ok to like him, and I think he likes you too.\nBest of luck
181408
There should be some reason that you like both of them. Can you let me know what are the reason. For example, there could be a physical reason that you are weak to your ex or current bf. And also there should be a reason for your ex-bf to like you, reasons like sex or money or he isn't getting attention from other girls etc. Be aware of it. Thanks.
402292
i think that you should just tell ur boyfriend how you feel. Tell him that although you like him so much u still have feelings for your ex that u need to deal with. the sooner you do this the less you will hurt him. There is no point of being with someone when ur thinking about another person.