when should me n my boyfriend do it?we have been going 2gether for 8 months now help me.?
602044
okay listen it dont matter how long yall have been going out wat matters is de love in de relationship and having sex comes spontaniously not planned so wen that day comes which it will let things happen dont get worried or nothing just give some time to time itself aight and best luck fo u and your men sweety
1175444
no. sometimes its better to take things slowly, and get to know each other really well. then when you know you trust them, you can go ahead and do the things that you wanna do. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we havent had sex yet. he knows i want to wait, and he respects that. but if your man does'nt want to wait, then he is'nt worth your time. no guy should have to be that way.
709736
I was in your exact situation.  Seems like the timing is never right, there's always something. Just tell him how you feel, and that you are ready to get this ball rolling.  Don't give him an ultimatum b.c you are right that will just push him away.  But definitely stress on the fact that you aren't getting any younger.
179511
Do what your heart leads you to do. If we push something and it is unnatural it is not meant to be or work out. If he feels as you weekends will work, the relationship will grow and arrangments in the future will blossom. Do not leap walk slow........this is your opportunity
627692
Real gives good advice.  Pushing him won't help anything, but if it doesn't happen naturally, in a reasonable amount of time, obviously he's not serious enough about you.  You don't want him to do it just because you forced him to.  You want HIM to want to do it.  Same goes for engagement/marriage.\nI would say that it could take up to six months before he is sure he wants to take it to the next level.  Depending on your age and how often you see each other.
711749
hey, youre heart isnt in the right place man! you have a lifetime to wait but a lifetime to waste. your will must aligned to the will of God in your life. The woman you love 8 years ago will not be the same woman you love at this very moment. Put yourself in a mirror and tell yourself what a handsome guy like you wasting your life in waiting. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..Go back to the basic.
191817
Really at that time you where not officialy committed at 2 week's so let the guilt go. Some thing's are better left alone and if you care for him this is one. Old saying let dead dog's lay dont dig them up. You have now falling in love but at that time you where not and now you start your life happy together the pass can haunt you for many year's if you say something are even lose him. Keep your beautiful relationship in place you will never sleep with another man but him. Ya'll have a great life together ok.
600177
Marriage is a huge commitment. It is very good that he cares about you enough to wait until he has everything together. 2 years isn't really that long, especially if you are young. It sounds like you have a good man on your hands. I wouldn't worry, he will ask you when the time is right. Don't pressure him, it will push him away. My only caution is, there may never be a 'perfect' time to get married. He may not have his dream job.. and as far as the house, i would wait until after marriage and buy one together. \n\nIf you don't feel that he's worth waiting for then get out now
1166786
I didnt know thare was a time frame for things like that.I guess it all depends on how far into the relationship you are.I just don`t think thats something you plan out.
458107
Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.
699499
Give him three months at least. That is a decent enough time for anyone to gather one's senses and wits back. Then, tell him that you are confused about his interest (or lack of) in you and think that it will be better for both of you to move on. If he agrees or doesn't improve by that time, its time to move.
1053081
Even though it will be a hard thing to do, this situation will show if your relationship has what it takes to make it. Sometimes, if you look at it in the right way, these "moments" make a relationship more stable and able to go through the test of time.\nGood luck.
1073825
Look at the bigger picture....the outcome!  Put yourself on a schedule so that it becomes a routine.  Find a partner who enjoys going and you can both be a support system to eachother.
402233
Talk to him, and see if can work. If he is too difficult then maybe it is time to walk away. How long have you been 2gether?
942473
I know a lot of people say do it anyway, but l can see where you are coming from.. It's hard to say when or if he will come around to your side of the coin but as you grow with him l think he will get used to the idea, and be happy for the two of you..
306201
you're fine...don't get hung up over it. Sometimes we do things because it just feels right...it doesn't matter if you wait one day or one year, it's what you are feeling that matters. Live for the intensity of the moment.
1080500
say it when you mean it. well done for not saying it just for the sake of it. be flattered that he told you that, i would be. it doesn't matter how long you are together, 2 days, 2 weeks or 2 months. whenever you feel it is the right time to say it!