Can someone get over you completely if they had said that you were the one?
603435
Ok...Sometimes we do think someone is the "one", but as time goes by being apart, usually the feelings also grow apart as life moves on. which means, we just thought that person was the "one"... Thats how it generally works... NOW, in the rare occasion.. it works differently.. I will use myself as example. I was dating a guy for 2 years, we both said we were the "one" each other wanted to be with (no proposal tho), well I ended up breaking things off (he had been jobless a while).. He wanted back with me for a while, but i wouldnt... Time passed by, we both lived our seperate lives, but talked on the phone occasionaly (maybe 6 times in 2 yrs).. We both had our new relationships and new breakups.. After two yrs of being apart I had a bad situation happen to me, and he was the only one who came running to help me.. ANd our relationship has begun again.. we both realized there were things we both were wrong about before, and  lessons were learned in our time apart.. The only difference is, noone cheated on anyone... That can really bruise someone's ego and self esteem, and make it hard for them to trust anyone again.. before your ex would consider being with you again, he'd have to gain trust in you back.. I'd suggest to him to try out being friends , hanging out (no sex) talking on the phone, etc.. to see what can be built up between you two. If you are meant to be together, you will be.. I'm proof of that
441309
no. even if you think that the person with you now is the one you really love, you need to save some for yourself :)
132377
you accept the reality and move on.Also, Believe that it is entirely their loss and not yours. cheers!!!
993386
Would you do for him what you wouldn't do for anyone else?  Would you go against yourself if he asked you to?  Would he do the same?  Could you walk away, or can you not live without him?  Do you feel for him so much that it hurts?
253157
Yes, or you would've never had closure! You would have been miserable, and wondered, and wondered,... what could have been if you could have just told her. Now, you both know and its up to her do something about it. Good Luck! God Bless You!
9543
Oh, Geez.  These people are crazy.  The only thing that will help you get over him is TIME.  If you think you were soulmates, you may never get over him, as a piece of your heart has been taken.  Time will still ease the pain, though.  Rumor has it that it takes half as long to get over someone as the time you dated them.  So.. if you dated for 2 years, it will take 1 year to get over him. If you were meant to be together... somehow, somwhere, you will hook up again, and you'll pick up right where you left off.   Chin up... things will be ok.  I promise.
691568
It's not up to someone else to decide--it's your call.  Make the decision, yes I'm over you or no, I still want to give it a shot but stick with whichever it is.  And remember, if it was that great you'd still be together.
1065122
I'm sure there is. Otherwise it would not make sense for her to go. I lost the love of my life about two years ago. Since then, I strongly believe in it. It helped and still helps me to get over it..
692305
on average it takes half of how long you were together to get over someone\nbut you will
361550
No, as this is not fair on the other one and you wouldn,t want them to do this to you.Get over the so called one that you love and find someone who is better,because if they are not with you then there is someone better then them.
121086
if i loved this person and really cared about her yes i would after all i would know what i was getting into and i couldnt blame no one on this matter my answer would be yes?
62412
Yeah, I agree with everyone else... you will never be able to forget teh man/women that you loved, but with time you will be able to move on and not be sad or hurt any longer. I am going through that exact thing right now, and after being depressed for wuite some time.. I decided I am not going to give up the rest of my life being miserable becuase of one person. So is started hanging out more, I started working uot more to feel better about myself and every time I get upset I reassure myself that I will find someone else and I will be loved again and I will love again!
255200
Depends on who broke up with who....I think the person who gets dumped hurts a little bit more, because not only do they have to deal with the love lost, but also with the rejection, and that hurts .
1169274
no i wouldnt but its always easier said then done. I wouldnt wana stay with the guy but im an emotional person and fall in love easily so i would find it hard to let go despite evrything that is goin on
1113969
i was still in love with my ex when i left him, it was the hardest thing Ive ever had to do, but he put me through hell and back , so i wasn't going to live like that. I figured i loved myself more than him. When i started to think I would take him back I would remember the hell he put me through and that kept my head clear, follow you head in this case , not your heart
31588
i Think it all depends on how much you love the girl. I know if the girl i'm dating broke up with me i know i'd cry and i probably wouldn't get over it for months, maybe years.
827121
Yes it's very possible. However, it's going to take time. \nYou're obviously not over this girl. I really believe that for as long as you're holding on to this girl, you won't be ready for a new love. \nI'm assuming she's your first love? It's going to be hard because naturally we compare everything and everyone to that one person. She was perfect in every way, right? and you want your next to be just like her; totally understandable. But honestly, we can't expect to find that same person again. I think that you may need a little more time to get over her; and I'm sorry to say, but you do need to let her go. It's hard to let ourselves open up to new options and personalities when we're still so engrossed on one option. \nAnd, I'm sorry, I'm not one to tell you how to move on and let go. It took me almost 3 years before i could completely let go of my first. But it will happen, i think the best thing you can do now is find out what you can learn from that relationship and try to figure out how, because of this relationship, you've become a better person. Then use those factors to find what you really need.