why can't i find a good girlfriend.i believe in love .can you help me out.?
605022
It's hard to answer this question without getting to know you. Maybe you have to just talk more to different girls and get involved with different people in environments you wouldn't normally go near eg; church, charity organisations, sporting clubs, shopping malls whatever gets you out of your rut.
231669
Lower your superficial expectations.   Obviously, there is someone out there compatible for everyone.  It is just a game of statistics, lots of people, limited personalities/traits.\n\nAnyway, something you are holding as a prerequisite for dating is getting in the way of you finding your love.   Re-evaluate what you are looking for, and drop a few of your ideals.  I bet you will be suprised at who you find.
23937
There are many nice girls in the world and many personals that you can use, whether it be via teh internet or through your local newspapers or even in your circle of friends. If you are asking this because of fear that you will not find her, all you need is time because she will eventually come into your life. Love will find you soon, and if not, then know that your family and friends loved you just as well.
12155
You can't make yourself find your soulmate. It just happens. Some people are supposed to meet theirs and some aren't. Can't force it either way. I wish you luck though.
314214
We were just born at different times and different places that kept us apart.  Everything you described about yourself is qualities that I find very attractive.  I like someone who is open minded and opininated and independent.  You have awesome qualities.  When you are opininated that means you believe in what you are saying.  I have restored my own house and totally independent and can fix pretty much anything.  I cannot find the right girl to save my life.  Most girls are so boring it kills my spirit.  There are guys out there who would love a girl like you.  I think you need to move out of the city you live in and start fresh.  I think your life would change for the better in no time.  On the inadequacy and shame, see a therapist, they can get those things out of you.  We were all wounded in some way as children.  You have to go back in and reopen the wounds and let them heal correctly, otherwise they will fester for a long long time.
239337
yo!r u a f/m? jus curious. cool. now, i guess u r ready for a girlfriend. n' i think that maibe u should jus go w/ the flow. maibe volunteer. i've heard that u can meet ppl of ur interests wen u volunteer. but remember- if u do- i hope u volunteer for the right reasons. if there's anything else, email me. but otherwise, good luck, n' i'm sure that ur soulmate is out there (if u believe).cool. ciao!
641697
You sound like a great guy to me! We can appreciate a good man but the problem is we may not have good men around us, so unless you live anywhere around any of us we will still go around saying that we can't find a good man.
1050346
I have the same problem with women... i cant seem to find one that doesnt go for stupid druggies.... i would to find a girl who is intelligent, confident, assertive, caring, and not shallow..... maybe we are sharing sumting in common? =) im guessing this is common but other ladies on answers have told me to hold out for the best and thas what im doing.... u shud do the same.... sont cheat ureslef, set the standards high!
1128691
i am sorry to say this but you can't find love. it's something that just happens. and it happens really really quick. and you never know when it hits you. don't search it will happen when you least expect it.
1111821
no one is perfect and when you realize that you'll be happy with what you choose ,but the qualities i look for is honesty,caring faithful,a good sense of humor fun to be with ,someone who will love me for who i am not what i look like not that i look bad,my point being that outside looks are not all that important it is how you are as a person inside that counts.someone to respect me and care for me when i'm sick,a man who can give me space when i need it.love me unconditionally,and i must do all of the above for him.by the way i have found a man just as i have described and i have had him for 30 yrs and i hope you to find your ideal mate good luck
331991
You won't find them. They'll find you. It will happen eventually. It takes time though. Remember that good things happen to those who wait. If you're meant to find that one true love you will, other wise. It wasn't in the cards for you. But just keep waiting. Love is grand. and will come to you eventually. Hope you find what you're looking for someday. Best of luck to you in life and with your girl. Peace be with you my friend. \nJJJ
850251
You're lucky to have the whole range of people to choose from. I wouldn't worry too much if you can't find any guys you're interested in. Girls make perfectly good partners too. But I suspect it's not easy to find the person who's just right for you, whatever gender they are. I'd just keep an open mind, and who knows, Mr. or Ms. Right just may pop up ;)
472615
A very vague question which lacks detail. There are hundreds of factors which could be a reason as to why you can't find a girlfriend. I for one for one would not think it is due to your location or your bisexuality.\nPeople who are straight often find it hard to find a lover living in highly populated cities. \n\nIf you believe in love as a in a fairy tale manner where fate and destiny decide for us then you will only need to be patient and yor are sure to find love.\nIf you are a person who believes that you make your own love, then perhaps consider yor approach to finding love...
502735
no i can not help you with that..you need to look in your general area for a girlfriend..do not waste your time on this online relationship thing..it is not good.. why do you have to come on yahoo answers to meet a girlfriend?
987940
Because your trying to find a girl to "Love".  You need to take things a step at a time.  You need to find a girl you want as a friend.  Then maybe you want her as your gf.  Love is a patience process.  You cant just choose to love somebody.  It happens when you least expect it.
192228
Sweetheart, there is nothing you can do to find love. It will find you and then you won't know how else you lived without it. If you try to find love you could totally miss it cause you were busy looking for it. Be patient.
99057
You don't "find" love, love finds you. Just be patient and care about and respect yourself enough that you don't settle. Don't be in love with the idea of being in love. True love is worth waiting for no matter how long you have to wait. The right man is out there for you, just give yourself and him enough time to find each other. You will be happy that you did wait. My other advice is to make a list of the characteristics that you are looking for in a man. Once you have your list, try to think of where a man with these qualities would be found and then frequent those places if they interest you. Don't go looking for love, just put yourself into an area where love might find you. Good Luck!! =-)