Should I tell my girlfriend I like her the way she is or should I tell her she needs to lose weight?
606252
I like that you are concerned but not being an @ss about this..good job! Now..try and get her interested in working out with you. It doesn't have to be what you are doing...take her on walks, bike riding, hiking. Find something physical that she likes and try and get her motivated to do it more often. Exercise doesn't have to be a chore if you find something you really like. I applaud you for choosing to try and ger her involved in something that will better her health. Good luck with finding something that will work!!
628808
If you love her you should tell her before someone else. If she loves you, you get her, and if she doesn't, you move on.
3989
I think that u should b a man and tell her she will either respect u for your honesty and either she likes u too and u guys hit it off or she hears u put and accepts it and just want to remain as friends...Makes sure that u can tranfer easy into friend to boyfriend and girlfriend because there is a difference so just b careful...
836436
Tell her she's not fat, make sure she knows that you think she looks good, healthy, pretty, that you don't like it when girls are too skinnny and unhealthy looking.  If you suspect a serious problem, anorexia or bulemia, please seek professional help with her.  Good luck!
688235
just sort of tell her in an indirect way like if you happen to see someone with low cut pants say "things like these make my skin crawl..."then continue with the conversation telling her how you feel about pubic hair  and too much skin that way you will let her know without hurting her feelings. girls do like straight honest guys but putting a sock in it might just scare her away and since you like her i don't think that would be a very good idea.
135389
really depends if you want to keep ur relationship, is best to keep it to yourself. Some truths are best untold. Unless you've decide to bring ur relationship to higher level of trust, then find the right time to confess... be ready to get hurt, but its worth it~ she'll understand... after dat, make sure u stop doing it again... Ur Choice =)
285498
the best thing to do is sum up all the courage and see how she feels for you, if she feels the same way, what's wrong with telling her you love her? if you really love her and she likes/loves you back, let her know and then you can have a great relationship. if not, then at least you told her.
733871
Theres no simple way of telling her how ur feeling its going to hurt both of yous but its best if u just tell her the truth, straight out.. If youre at the point where u wana break up with her or spend time apart i think maybe its time to move on.. If it is really meant to be with you and ur girlfriend love will find its way in the end.. Good luck n be strong!
1008563
Well my girlfriend who is truly my soul mate is chubby, but is really beautiful and has a great personality. I wouldn't say that I'm dating her because she's chubby, but I'm dating her because I lover her eyes, her smile, and both her inner and outer beauty.\n\nTo me she could have been skinny --- fat and I would still date her because of who she is.
1138060
Because your afraid to say the wrong thing! No one wants to mess up! just remember that if she likes you, she wont care what you say just NEVER say : "You look fat" that will get you into a hospital!!!
1124786
she's your girlfriend right? just tell her. if you can't tell her this, then the relationship is doomed for destruction.
940477
It depands how old you two are. When your having a great time or she is wearing something new tell "you look beautiful!!" and if you need to be obvious then when your talking to her make a point of smoothing hair out f her face or giving her a hug and such things like that. Eventually she will get the hint and then you need to tell her after about two weeks of treating her in this way.
159714
If she's already dating you, it shouldn't be something you should feel obligated to do (she already likes you enough to date you). You could still buy some as a special gift, maybe a "hey honey, tonight I'm your fantasy! grrrr!" lol. Ask her what else she likes, incorperate. But no, you should't just change yourself cause she likes it. Be yourself.
1100876
If she is going to behave like that then ...don't have her as a girlfriend.  It is up to you to be proud of your feelings and not feel humiliated.  If she humiliates you then you allow that feeling.   Telling someone how you feel should make your relationship stronger.  Make sure that she knows that she is your girlfriend though...then just tell her...
51640
Be honest with him. If he is a little over weight, encourage him to lose some without sounding insulting. For example, rather than saying "Well, you could lose a few pounds." say "if your not happy with your body, try to establish a healthier lifestyle." Be supportive rather than letting him wallow in self pitty. And if he does lose weight nothing is more encouraging than commenting on how much better he looks.
593324
you should tell her but not be mean about it..its better than her lookin like a fool.
688809
If she is your girlfriend, you have to tell her.\nIf she is your friend, you have to tell her.\nIf she is someone you care about, you have to tell her.\nIf you don't give a damn about her, then play with her.