juz wanna know what is the best way to reject a guy  by not hurt him and still be fren...?
612637
My honest opinion: Try to tell him that you are pre-occupied with work/schoolwork and rather remain good friends.\n\nIf the guy is really in love and you don't really like him (as a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship), you better tell him your true feelings. \n\nHe's gonna get hurt, but the truth has to be told for the 2 of u can move on.
431978
Go up to him and, with a smile, a little wink and as little fuss as possible, give him a little note that says "Are you going to ask me out to dinner or not, you son of a b*tch?" \n\nWalk off before he has chance to open and read the note.\n\nThis way, you don't even have to say anything and he'll do all the work. Also, if he rejects you and shows the note to his mates, you'll seem to them to be as cool as you like; avoids the whole humiliation thing.
997778
Just tell him that you can only seeing yourself being friends right now.  You don't need to hurt him and tell him it was a joke though.  That's so mean! Just tell him you don't want a boyfriend now and that you're sorry, things just aren't going to work.  Going out on a few dates wouldn't hurt, but if you really don't want to just say so.
65802
If your not scared of rejection then go right up to him with all the pride in the world and say are you involved with someone, let him answere first before you tell him why and if he says no then tell him how much your digging him and if he say's yes then say oh cause a friend of mine liked you. But if your scared of rejection then write him a note and hand it to him and walk away with a smile
276330
Just tell him that you dont want to have a relationship and that you just want to be good friends!!  Good Luck?
306813
The most important thing is to be honest. Tell him that you just don't feel the same way he does and you only see him as a friend. Don't be mean or rude about it, just tell him the truth. If you lie or try to say stuff like "it's not you, it's me" it'll just make him mad that you couldn't just tell him the truth. \n\nIf you're good enough friends, he should be able to accept that. Rejecting someone is never easy and you have to take their feelings into account. Just tell him the truth and be sincere.
200248
Well if this guys likes you a lot, it's tough. There's no easy way to go about it, but the best thing is to be honest and let him know how you feel about him. If you tell him he probably wont want to be your friend because he'll be hurt so don't expect him to be cool about it. Just be honest and if you'll be friends it'll be up to him if he can accept you as such.
383502
Well, I will wait awhile to talk to the guy that likes me. Like if he calls me, I will wait a week or more to give him a call back. I do this from the start to make sure that he realizes that I don't like him in that way, but still want to be his friend. Best of luck.  There are plenty of fish in the sea.
1152229
I think you need to ask him about it and tell him how you feel but dont scare him off. Say something like i am beggining to kinda like you...But if you are not into me then i would love to still be friends. But tell him that no matter what happens i want to still be your friend.
367992
just say no.... end of story......\nyou hate him... and chances are a no isn't going to break his heart
1085512
Aw. Well, just sit him down and explain to him your feelings. Tell him you just want to go back to being friends. There really is no easy or "nice" way to do it because he probably will get hurt. But whatever you do, let him know you still think he's a great guy and that you value your friendship.. =). Hope that helped a little, haha. And thanks for answering mine.. our ages are 16.
158387
Give him a playful hip bump or a light punch to the gut or shoulder.   If that does not work he’s probably not interested.   Ignoring someone works too but only if the guy knows you even exist.  I find ignoring works only if you’re all ready on a talking and friendly basis but it also can be damaging to what ever relationship you have already built with this guy.  So if it’s an all or nothing situation for you then ignore him.
458402
tell the truth, just not in a harsh way.\n\nsay one of these if you feel like on of these\n\n1)you already have a boyfreind but if you didn't you would say yes\n\n2)he is really nice/cute/smart (whatever) but i just dont feel that "spark"\n\nalso tell him that you are flattered, that helped when i got rejected.
905333
Be honest with him if he gets mad at least at the end he can respect the fact that you were upfront and honest. Just explain to him how you feel and tell him that you don't really want a relationship right now but you still want to be friends with him.
496749
Grow the nerves to talk to him or get over it. your only hurting yourself
357841
The best way is by starting a relationship built on communication.  Tell him how you feel and say that you would really like to go out with him..  You really have nothing to lose!  You want that date and can't have it unless you ask.  If he says no, you can move on and not waste time pining over him.  Good luck.
456167
Don't listen to the people who say that the guy should be asking you out. If you let oppurtunities pass then you're never going to get anywhere in life.\n\n1.) Get to know him.\n2.) Get close to him so it's kind of obvious that you want to be more than just friends. Play with his hair, touch his hand, touch him casually in neutral places like his arm, leg, back, etc.\n3.) Tell him you like him.\n\nIf you get to be good friends, tell him that if he doesn't like you, it's okay, you're fine with staying friends.\n\nEasy as pie.