i m fearing to talk with my superiors what should i do to talk bravely?
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Stand in front of a mirror, look yourself in the eye and practice what you want to say out loud.
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1) Don't read off your notes (or Powerpoint presentation or overhead transparency)\n2) Don't dance around or ring your hands or play with your hair\n3) Talk loudly and clearly (without shouting) and make sure your voice doesn't go too high-pitched\n4) Make sure you look left, right and straight ahead for about 3 seconds each (otherwise people won't feel included and will start chatting amongst themselves, which will make you even more nervous)\n\nThese are the basic guidelines I give my students.\n\nGood luck.
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it'd be a difficult task for anyone if they had to refrain from speaking to people about things at any given moment but even the best known speakers in the world had a time when they were nervous.  Since there is no way to avoid this here is what I suggest:\n\nFIrst start reading your presentation out loud to yourself, to get familar with your content the biggest fear you are likely to have is not saying the word right or stumbling and looking foolish which you don't want.  Then practice in front of a mirror, then family, then close friends.  When the time to go up to speak, take several deep breaths and plan your walk to the podium, this seems like something someone should know but when you only have it in your mind to walk up to the podium and speak people don't watch were they are going and sometimes bump into something around the area and that can be a bit embarassing.  Just remember it's just a report, speak well, let your eyes wander around the room and be cool:)
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Just be yourself.  Do your best to communicate openly and honestly.  The words will come out when they need to come out.  Do not be afraid.
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A lot of people are afraid of speaking in front of a group, you're not alone.  This is a good chance for you to get used to it in front of your classmates.  Remember they are as scared as you are when its their turn.\n\nStudy your presentation so you know it well and give it your best shot.  If you mess up, just smile, pick up where you left off and keep going.  You'll be a good example to everyone else who follows you.
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Why be scared to speak openly to someone you say you care about.\n\nIf you want certains things done and done correctly, you need to ask or tell him. He will either do it or he won't. When it is all said and done you know where ya stand.
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I would suggest just start asking people questions about themselves.  Generally people enjoy talking about themselves.  You want people to be more "open", but you need to respect their boundaries.  At my job, we talk all the time and share our lives.  But it is a very professional atmosphere.  There can be a good balance struck.\n\nBest plan of attack is to be a great communicator by listening.
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Seinfeld... what a great show I definately remember that episode.\n\nThat hurts, when people won't even day hi to you.  That is so rude.\n\nI say continue to be the bigger person.  Don't stop saying hi.  Make small chat, go right up in there with the group and see what they say to you.\n\nThere is also the possibility that you may be slightly paranoid.  Don't be!  Stand up for yourself, and don't sink to their level.
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Urs is a typical problem. If u dont mind, Il suggest u 1 thing. Consult a Psychiartist and get solution to ur problem. It will definitely help u. If u dont like the above suggestion, then I can suggest u a few things. First of all observe all types of conversations around u and get an idea how the people are talking (If they are ur friends or relatives, its better). Just start interacting with people by saying hi, how r u? How is ur work going on? For the people whom u dont have any conversation, just smile and say how r u? It forms a good impression to that person on u. At the same time dont talk unnecessary matters and dont make kidding. Just ask abt their future plans and a best one is u can adopt flattery also, but in a decent way. Be positive & appear positive in every word u speak. Ur postures and gestures should be good while ur speaking and u should be bold and confident enough. I think this would definitely help out u.\n\nIf u also think like that vote me as best. All the Best.
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Speaking in front of an audience. I'm still not sure that I am all that comfortable with it, but I keep practicing by having weekly meetings at work with my employees so that it will be easier when I have to do in in front of my superiors.\n\nHope this helps!
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I would advice you to be remain what you are...dont be diplomat..be a transperant person...just do your work and go home....the abussive bosses doesnt work for long term..they get kicked off soon...so just have patience...do well in your work..dont give chance to anybody to point out mistakes...just ignore your boss....best of luck buddy.....chill
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Think about the struggles and opportunities that these people encounter on their job.  Ask about them as if you are planning how you will achieve them.  Be genuinely interested - this will automatically make you personable.  The people will love to talk about themselves, and they will think about you doing the position which gives you one foot already in the door.  Talk to other people in similar positions.  Do a lot of research and just close your eyes and think about what your day would be like in that position.
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Stand up to them and refuse to be bossed over. Most of the times these bossy goons get scared as soon as you confront them.\nThe worst scenerio is that you may loose the job and u r contemplating that anyway. So if you hae to go out , go with a bang and not with a whimper.\nIt might help to do a bit of lobbying beforehand to make sure you have support from your colleagues.\n\nAs Votaire said, "Of course u can kill a flock of sheep by chanting incantations, but there won't be any doubt if you feed a bit of poison beforehand."
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Stay strong, Hold your head up high and go for it. Unfortanatly rude people are everywhere. Just remember to keep the faith and believe. Nobody is better than you.
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I faced this problem. The way to approach a solution is to think of whether the present uncomfortable situation will be remembered a year from now. If no (its mostly no), then please do yourself a great favour and go ahead and talk, because I personally guarantee you that EVERYONE likes to be spoken to. Ask some questions. Smile. And feel at ease, because you're already worth it, and you don't even need that person's approval.
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just go talk to her! If you're that scared, start it off slow, first just say hi, then you can start conversations.
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Well you befriend them and ask them in passing conversation. Don't make it a direct question other wise you may freak them out. \nIf at school talk to them about a class you just had.\nIf at work tell them how much you need a holiday cause you are so busy. \nIf a friend say i'm dying to catcht this movie, you might get an invite.