this  guy  i been talking to  and  I'm about to go out town for vacation?
361392
What the hell are you talking about?
995777
It could go either way, maybe he wants to talk to you about taking a next step in your relationship.
957028
Keep the conversations going. Ask him to send you postcards and stuff so he has to think about you while he's away.
314636
move on and stay busy for a while w/out seeing the guy.
873319
This guy was just testing the water. Move on. If this guy happens to call sometime and wants to go out that's up to you' If he doesn't don't sweat it. Go to the next one.
934429
Don't ask him b/c then he's going to take it as if you have been waiting around for him to come back to you.  Talk to him, try to act as non chalant as possible, and see what kind of vibe you get from the context of the conversation.  You dated him so you know what he's about and will be able to decipher better than anybody what's he's getting at.
872707
Well, yes....sounds like a booty call to me...check his cell phone for strange numbers....and sneak up on him after you tell him you have to go spend the night with your grandma or something...
203028
First of all, self confidence.  Be brave, walk up to him, and say, Do you want to hang out this weekend?  The worst that can happen is he could say he already had plans.  If thats the case, if he's a nice guy he will offer a day or time when he's free and make plans with you.  If not, then he's probably not right for you.
777376
This guy seems to have the ego the 'size of montana' as the expression goes--based on your brief description.  So he tells you he doesn't 'want to be held down'.  I'll bet he would like everything at his convenience, on his time table, and on his terms.  He is probably not going to give you very much attention...and his playing hard to get may be what attracts you.  You may not have the option of spending time with this guy.  Wait and see what develops before you get too carried away (for your own sake)--you need to figure out what he has in mind and ensure that suits your needs as well.  I'd suggest not contacting him at all....and see how frequently he contacts you.  It may be that you don't want such an infrequent love in your love.  Think about it--you may be swept off your feet at this point but if he is going to be cold, it may not be worth it.  I don't mean to be negative....but keep your options open and if you see someone else that interests you in the meantime I suggest you go for it.  He plans to keep his options open...that's probably what he meant when he said he didn't want to be held down.  What a guy!
939950
Maybe he is really busy with something...wait a bit more...it has only been 6 days since you last talked...and you don't talk everyday...so maybe he is just a little busy....
1116532
well, how good do you know him? if you know him well, then just put something cute! it's summer and you should enjoy it! get a fling! go on vacation! celebrate!
360885
Why not? Better snag him if you want him...Wait too long and he might be talkin to you about his new girl :)
521746
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)
158603
His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
390151
well u can tell him to meet somewhere, without c ing u, check on him & decide leave or stay. and go with someone else!its safer & u ll have more fun. just keep in mind that the world is full of psychos.
1139635
Hold Up!\n You met this guy online how long have u been talking to him for? \n\nIf you ever choose to meet anyone off line all I could advise would be to not travel alone, take a friend and meet in a public place like a shopping centre.\n Your friend doesnt even have to be with u but they can watch u from a distance. U have to be very weary. And only meet him when u feel comfortable. \nIf u dont wanna meet up keep dropping excuses he will get the hint1 Becareful :)
1082716
possibly.  Just do this...dont message him everytime you see him online.  Let him message you first sometimes, Im sure you are a busy person too.  He could just be busy (like what he told you).