my man still talks 2 his ex is that a bad sign?
599989
It's all about trust.  He told you nothing is going on, so believe him.  It really doesn't sound like he is cheating, or else why would he tell you who he was on the phone with in the first place?  You can be sure he loves you by his actions.  Taking on a baby that isn't his own?  Wanting to name your child??  That sounds like love to me!  He may have loved this girl at one point but he has moved on.  He has learned to love you more than he loved her.  Everything is okay.  Explain to him that you got plain old jealous and reacted wrong.  And then go take him out for ice cream ;)
280691
Like they say...don't know what ya got till it's gone..guess he's now realizing how great of a person  you are..this is a decision you have to make..you've been with your current boyfriend 2 1/2 years..do you really want to give all that up for something that may not work out..look in your heart and decide what you want and how you feel...if things are going good with your current man I'd just tell the ex sorry I've moved on and have someone...if your not happy then maybe you should give it a try but this is something  you should think long and hard about even pray about because it will be a life changing decision..the best of luck to you
469555
It sounds like he still loves his ex and obviously can't take the hint that she wants nothing to do with her. I would say you need to ignore him awhile then try to talk to him again about the ex, if he gets mad then straight out tell him that he either stops with the cards and flowers to the ex or you will be gone, why stay with someone when their heart is with someone else!
688391
may be he had known something abt u that he dont want in his girlfriend or may be he dosent know how to continue talks and make a relation.So accept the reality,leave him and search 4 the other.U would find a better one
179403
I think you should move on he is cheating on you right now with his ex he still in love with her
1149072
I asked my husband about his ex before and he asked about mine.  The thing is you get hurt because he is telling you about someone he has had a prior relationship with, someone he has been intament with.  Its hard knowing that someone else has been with the man you love.  I am sure your husband wasn't the only one you have been with either.  Tell your husband..." I am sorry that i am always asking you about your exgirlfriends.  Its just something i need to know about.  If I seem a little upset its because its hard picturing sharing you with others.  Also tell him .." When i get upset i need you to reassure me that i am the only one you want to be with."  My husband reassures me all the time.  He is always telling me how lucky he is to have me.  I am able to trust him because he tells me I am the only one for him.
582718
A week straight? And he's already said he loves you? But he hasn't taken his ex-girlfriend's voice off his voicemail? This guy is playing you. Dump him fast. He's a jerk and is stringing you along. He still has a girlfriend and is just looking for a little action. You deserve better.
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
940816
welp-i left my man of 3 yrs. & dated other people-i was split up w/him for 2 yrs.-i had 2 other serious relationships n this period & i still missed my ex-& snuck & called him & even saw him once or twice-but n ur situation u may not have 2 worry about that if he's not talkin 2 her--but her---well hunny-if u want 2 b n a serious relationship-it really don't sound like she's the one!!
251743
That is too close to cheating.  Think about how your wife will feel.  How would you feel is out of the clear blue, her ex called her and wanted to know how she is doing.  Would that be okay with you?  What if he  had lingering feelings for her?  Use common sense.
258790
ask his ex-girlfriend do they still have any chemistry or had any really close contact (you know) with each other during the time that you were going out. if she seems like she still likes him then you should be really suspicious and start testing his loyalty to you and try to find out if he is really cheating.
1068394
Are you kidding me? My lady would have my nuts for earrings if I tried to pull something like that. No other women comes before her. Ex-lovers...Nope, don't even bring the name up. Not if i want to sit and listen to her bitch at me for the entire night. If she even thought I was emailing and having open communication with an ex. It would be my a**.  You are his women and he should have at least a speck of decency and stop it all together. If he does not your relationship will break down for sure.
478078
even if you want to tell him how you feel, i dont think its really gonna help. cause you said he already misses his ex and everything. so he must still have feelings for her.
643785
who brings up the past, you or him? if him he could be feeling jelouse or insicure.If he does keep bringing it up and using it as a stick to beat you with maybe hes not the suportive partner you need.we all have pasts, but its the future thats important in a relationship.\nHave you ever both sat down and talked about both your pasts, once its out in the open there is nothing to hide,
613871
If it hurts you that he is talking to his ex, and you have told him this calmly and rationally, and he is still doing it - there is something wrong.  In a healthy relationship, he should understand your insecurity about it and possibly decrease or eliminate contact with her until you feel better about it.  \n\nSeek some sort of couples counseling to \nA. Find out why he would do this\nB. Work out your trust issues from your past relationship.  \n\nIf you don't address these issues now, they certainly won't magically disapper once you are married.  Take the time to solve them now so that you have a clearer plan for your future.  \n\nGood luck to you.  : )
973345
No way this is normal. You need to put a stop to this-pronto!   There is a reason she is the "ex" so you have every right to remind him of this. He should be over her by now and have made the commitment of being with you. He's married to you now so he hasn't any reason discussing anything with her or being under her control. With exception of talking about the kid anything else concerning the two of you is is none of her business. He's out of whack for communicating with her like this. Time for a reality adjustment. So get up close in his face and tell him in no uncertain terms to shut that big mouth of his. What a lot of nerve. If you're wondering about what I think I think it sucks big time and is callous and disrespectful toward you. That shrew of an ex needs to be put in her place also. Who cares if she went "nuts". She's nuts if she thinks she had any say about the two of you being married! Who the hell is she anyway? Tell her to butt out of your lives. Share a relationship with the ex? God no!! So put your foot down unless you're considering becoming another ex.
193651
You know if it's emotional cheating or not...are you looking forward to talking to your ex?  It could be an indication theres an issue with your current relationship....