My friend wants to have sex with me, good idea or not?
606769
what is more important you friendship or showing her you are good in bed
1010828
what a biatch, sounds like one of those teasers. She might tease you forever. But you still have a  chance buddy, make her jealous. Invite her to join you and another female friend. Ask her to help you out.
1169756
It's possible as long as neither one of you want a sexual relationship. Could build a stronger bond or could make things really difficult. I say you should go with how you really feel about it. A lot of people couldn't be friends after something like that, but if the both of you are mature about it, then I say go for it. Good luck.
435488
umm,Yeah u should do it!  lol\nthat's secretly every- ok well maybe not every, but a Lot of girls' fantasies.  \n but umm, make sure u establish boundaries and guidelines first. ask her wat she doesnt want u to do.   maybe she doesnt want u to actually have sex with her, just some other things.  she may not want u to kiss her friend- some ppl feel that's too intimate.   ask her in private, then make sur to discuss it btw the 3 of u together.\n have fun!!\nlet us know how it went
583280
liking someones company and wanting to be intimate are two totally different things. He's respecting you and the decision that you have made as far as your sexual orientation, why not do the same for him. That's the quickest way to ruin a friendship.So just suck it up and drive on. If it becomes too much of an issue for you you might have to rethink your friendship w/him.
148766
Believe me, she won't be your best friend anymore if you do have sex with her.  Things between you will change and your relationship will not be the same.  What's wrong with the way things are now?  Sometimes it's just better to leave things the way they are.
450349
YES! This is a no go area, if you are calling this person your "best" friend rather than just a friend you already should know that this person is not like other people you hang out with. It will be gone forever and you will have a relationship, and there is no taking it back. It's about self control and being honest to yourself, if you want a best friend steer clear of that, if al lyou want is sex or a relationship then think hard about the friends you make because it can be a world of hurt
840510
I realize that you dont want to hurt this guy and I do know where you are coming from (I recently lost my guy to a friend of ours). Now I know that you say that you dont want to date him, but why? You are single and I dont think the question here should be will sleeping with him hurt him I think you need to think about you, if you dont like him enough to date him then why would you want to sleep with him? Why not take the chance and see if that friendship could turn into something else, I mean you are already talking about sleeping with someone who cares about you so you must feel that he is sincere. One thing I have learned from experience is that the best relationships I have been in were when we started out as friends first. No I dont think it will hurt him I think it will hurt you especially since you say that youve been used by every guy that you have slept with. No I dont think that he will be hurt in fact it sounds like he is already enjoying hisself by making out in front of his friends "for some fun" and it "would make us stronger". It sounds like this guy already considers you his girlfriend. You need to look at the situation very closely. Either go out with the guy or just be his friend but whichever you decide stick to \nyour decision.  If you decide to be just friends then no more making out in front of his friends - okay? SLP
1104717
I think he would like to taste you and if you enjoy it then let him give you some HEAD!  Just be sure that he knows that does not change you from being his friend he might need to learn a thing or two so teach him be a good samaritan and help out your friend you could be helping some girl out by letting him practice so go for it.
1013325
If he is your friend then he wouldnt be involving you in this. You need to report him ASAP. If you begin to question your self  on the morality of turning him in think about this.....if he has sex with someone and then coincidentally you have sex with that same person now your at risk.... there are condoms in this world there is no excuse to pass on HIV to anyone. He is being selfish and is ruining many peoples lives in the process. How would you like to be one of the people he has sex with? even if you dont end up with HIV the trauma of worring that you might have it is enough to ruin anyones lives. If the friend passes it on then he is in a sence murdering that person ...its just a long needless painful death....do you really want to have friends that are so thoughtless?
543984
You don't have to do something you don't want to. \nFirst, can you trust this guy's friend? He might be lying to you. \nSecond, if that boy really wants to sleep with you and that you don't want to, he's a jerk, and you don't have to lose time with him. \nYou will have sex with someone when both of you will be ready. It is not right to have sex just to have/keep a relationship. You'll remember your first time your whole life, so you have to make it a nice memory.
792436
you can be friends without having sex. it's okay to think about it, but if she is not interested in a romantic relationship, do not act on your sexual feelings unless you want to ruin a good friendship.  take it for what it's worth, the friendship, a lot of guys never get the chance to have a female friend.  consider her priceless. treat her as you believe a mature christian guy should treat a woman who is not his mother or sister.
7727
I agree with the suggestion to maybe tell her she could bring a friend along when you meet for the 1st time, this would put her more at ease and make her feel safer.\nI notice that you said you met on your phone..I assume a telephone chat line??Have you exchanged pics??\nShe also seems like she has maybe been in some not so great situations and has some concerns about guys just wanting to meet her for sex??\nHave you discussed this with her??Does she know what it is that you are looking for clearly??\nIF you are not looking for sex but rather are interested in her without sex being a focal point..do what you can to reassure her of that.\nGood Luck
448277
no it might not be the smart move because you don't know the guy and he might just want to be laid you should wait and learn more about the guy before moving that fast... plus it can be really dangerous..  Unless your into that and you can take care of yourself then go ahead try it....... becareful tho :)
15207
One of my friends did it, and she says she didn't make it happen, it just did.  If you show intrest towards a relation ship, above friends with benefits, and she responds, it could turn out to your advantage.  Your not going to make it happen, it's just going to or not, all you can do is show her it's something you want!
766725
Did your friend bail because she wanted your company throughout the night, needed someone there?  Or because she wanted sex from you?  If it is the latter, I'd say.. find a new friend.
180153
talk to him, since you guys been friends for so long, it easy to talk to him. but i dun think you should have sex with him just for the sake of having sex. unless you two have a thing for each other. sex can be out off too a later date