How can you forget about your one true love after they move on?
601717
well, first you have to forget about the idea of your 'one true love'. whether or not such a thing exists, she was obviously not it. for the other part - I'm sorry but I don;t know any shortcuts through a broken heart. give it time, try to get out and be around people who can distract you, try to find a job, hobby, or person to be excited about. One day you'll wake up and she wont be the first thing on your mind...I promise.
502156
the more u try to forget her , the more u will remember her. lost love is like sand , u cant hold it ...\nso get along with your current gf... i am sure u dont take her to places u visited with ur 1st gf .pls go to all those places and enrich ur heart with the new experiences. u cant delete the old memories , but u can fade them away by new memories. All the best !!!
1006946
The best way to get over one is find another. That's what my momma always told me & it's true. Lifes too short to pine away over someone who doesn't return your feelings. Move on sweety! You can do it! Have a positive attitude & find you another! Have a great day & God bless.
284876
stay busy. pick up a hobby or renew an old one. go to the gym. spend time with family and friends. watch movies. read books. but do not keep thinking about him. the only true way to forget is to let time pass by. you can only let time pass by if you spend time doing something else. \n\nand last but not least, learn to accept your loss. talk with a good friend about it. dont be afraid to reach out to a friend to talk. and if you dont have one to go to, find a therapist to help you. you cannot forget an ex all on your own.\n\nafter a while you will slowly forget him. but it takes time. good luck.
990229
You will never totally get over him, but you can move on and find somebody who deserves you and will treat you right. He will forever occupy a small place in your heart. If you accept that and just let it be there, you will eventually start to hate him less and then just remember the good times that you have shared in the past. You need to take care of yourself first. Its hard, but time will heal this wound. good luck to you.
652699
Why aren't you over this lover? I wouldn't waste my time thinking of anyone that left me high and dry for another person. You need to work on your self esteem because you are missing a person who obviously didn't care and respect your feelings. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will stay with you and not abandon you. Pray for someone to love you as much as you love them,  go out with your friends more, talk to someone you trust about your feelings, date people(you don't have to sleep with them) and go out and socialize
397628
Find som1 else. It will help you forget. Be open and dont shut others from you. If you dont let any1 in, and cling to her memories, you will never be able to move on. If she does not love u, dont waste your time thinking of her, find somelse who recognises your worth. You will be a lot happier. Its not empty talks, its experience talking. I missed out 3 years of my life clinging to memories
152026
hi. i believe with all my heart that any time you love someone you never get over that person. you have given to that one part of you so you will miss that part of you yet do not worry, as time goes you shall find another that will light up your heart and spirit. the one who will cause past boyfriends/girlfriends to fade a little into the background.\nyour ex will no longer take up most of your thoughts. someone told me this once, it takes only a minute to meet someone,hours to get to know someone and a lifetime to forget someone. time does heal what has been wounded.new love outshines old love.soon when you think of him, you will smile at the good times and move on to the next advanture. be blessed. i am glenna(wolfwomanreturns)
1179410
JUST DO IT! forget about everything and once they know , you will feel better than if you never did anything about it, if you dint you might still be thinking about that person for another 10yrs.
77634
You don't let go of love... love will let go of you.  When the time is right you move on & you won't even realize it until you see a picture or are reminded of them.. It may take months or years, but it will go faster if you don't try to hold onto it (don't think about them all the time, put up things that remind you of them)  .....  that is he best advice I have.. hope it helps you some.
672087
It is a lot harder than that, You cannot just walk away and pretend someone is from the past because that past once was the present ( if you catch my drift). Someone that you once love will always be a scar in your heart and if you loved her dearly, the space that she filled will never be filled by someone else, however that person is!\n\nTake my example, I onced had a very very strong crush on someone but I never told her, it's been more than 5 years now but I still wish it had turned out better than it had!\n\nSorry man but there are things you can't do in life and this is most definitely one of them!
134914
WHN U KNOW THE FACT THT U REALLY CANT B WITH HER THN TRY ACCEPTING THIS FACT\nI KNOW IT REALLY HURTS BT THERE IS NO OTHER WAY OUT THERE\nIT WILL SURELY TAKE TIME BT AS TIME WILL PASS U WILL FORGET HER\n\n\nONE MORE THING LIFE NEVER STARTS AND ENDS WITH ONE PERSON IT WILL GO ON AND ON AND ON \nDNT U THINK THT IT IS POSSIBLE THT MAY B UMEET A PERSON WITH WHOM U WILL REALLY FALL IN LUV\n\n\nDNT LOSE HOPE AND B JOLLY TRY TO B WITH UR FRNDS AND START FORGETTIGN ABT THT THING WHCH CAN NEVER B URS
1140066
I know it certainly is the pits. And we have all been there before. The first time for me I thought I could never live without that person and that there was no one else for me. It hurt so bad because they seemed to be able to move on just fine without me and I was a wreck. I tought I would hurt forever. But one day it just stopped. The hurt stopped anyway. That was a long time ago and I do still care for that person. It's not an "in love" with care but you will always care for your past loves. You cannot love someone so much and then just turn it off one day. You will always care and they will always have a piece of your heart. And it seems that there is always that one person in your life that you will never completly get over. You will move on with your life and love again and be loved back. And the thing is that it's okay. And ya know what else they might always care about you too. And one day you wont see all the bad just the good times you had with that person. The thing that helped me the most was to admit that I was meant to be with that person. Mabe for only a moment in time but for a moment it was right. And I know now that it was never meant to last, but man it sure was right at one time. People come and go from our lives like a swift summer breeze, and as soon as it comes it is gone. But it sure did smell sweet while it lasted didn't it. And what is so great now is that you get a whole new chance. You get to meet someone who will love you completly and be happy. Keep you head up and remember what a great person you are. And how lucky someone will be someday to be loved by you!
971805
I understand!  But life is like that.  It is never fair.  It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion!  You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy.  Take good care of yourself!
744034
Make yourself hate him, or try to remember things that he had done to hurt you. This helped me a lot to forget my exbf. \n\nAnd it took me 6 mths to move on and many years to let go of him. But at least it helped tremendously.
171487
You'll have to get over the heart break before you can move on. You have to be sure that you are emotionally prepared before you go out dating again.
92790
By taking it one day at a time. and working on the things you can control. \n\nWork on dating new people, and learning what you like in women. She has left you and is not comming back so you might as well move on also. \n\nIt's your choice you can pine over a lost love or work on making new memories with someone new. the choices are up to you. \n\nI would suggest reading the book\nWho moved my cheese it's small and oh so wonderful for helping you look at your life with a critical eye. \n\nThen I would suggest readong smart love. \n\nMay God Bless your life.