which is more important happines or love?
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Hopefully you can have both.
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i think the're both good.But I am going with love because you can have a friendship and be in love with the person!
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It hurts\n\nFortnuately it gives more joy than it hurts, so it is worth it to love and be loved.
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Love and Connection\n..my darling son:)
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Affection is all the sweet cuddling, touching, holding hands, caressing and the like, but it can be done with or without emotional feelings behind it.\n\nLove, on the other hand, can be present even without physical affection. It can be in the little things you say, or the little things you do. It can be in a glance or a smile. Love is sacrificing yourself to make the other person happy. Yes, it may be accompanied with all the affection, but it doesn't need to. Love is a commitment to cherish someone for the rest of your lives. It lasts longer than a touch or a glow ever can. It's eternal.
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That's a big question.\n\nIs it better to take the risk of pain and have the possibility of love/happiness with another person, or to avoid the possibility and the risk altogether?\n\n\nIt's all up to you, and it depends on what you think is important. \n\nIf it's more important to you to not get hurt, then avoid relationships-- or, at least, emotionally invested ones.\n\nIf it's more important to you to have a possibility of happiness with someone else, then take the risk.\n\nLots of people decide to stay distant to avoid pain, but I would argue that the risk and the pain and the love are what life is about. Life is about experience, and about being present for it. Take risks, get hurt, feel love, laugh, cry-- do it all, because without it what is the point of life?
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Yes, but the love is small and grows.  The feeling is usually infatuation.  Love is commitment and sacrifice.
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Lovin by heart: You love sentimentally -- You think you lover is perfect, and if he/she has negative traits, you just tend to ignore them, you tend to idealize your sweetheart. The love is strong, so intense, and honest, yet it could be blind.\nLovin by mind: You love rationally -- You think your lover is good enough, and if he/she has negative traits, you tend to accept and live with them, you tend to turn the idealization into reality. The love is firm, cuz you learn to accept each other
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love=making your mate happy
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Emotionally is more important.
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Happiness is more important.  I'd rather struggle with someone I love then be provided for by someone I didn't.
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You should choose which one makes you feel happy.
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Loving someone is more rational, you are more aware of their good and bad points and love them anyway.  Falling in love isn't rational, you only see the good, you don't see them in all their humaness.
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Both but you can't have religion without love.\n\nYou have to love yourself and your religion!
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i think that the idea of loving and being loved is not the real purpose of life.  personally, i think that love is just a part of it.  Happiness, i think, is the real purpose of life, and therefore balance.  i think that balance is all, you need a little bit of everything...
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Love is the chemical reaction that drives humans into reproduction which is vital for the continuation of the human species. So yes, it is necessary in life. \n\nOn a more spiritual note, it is nice to have love in your life, and many would say their life would be incomplete and meaningless without it,.
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Love is the feeling of attachment to a person whom to want to make happy with you and also you happy with him.. Also willing to endure life as long as you are together... Love accepts me as what I am.