My bofriend & i broke up cos he tut he mite move now he isnt any more. I want him back now, how do i?
601123
Well if you had broken up, then its really none of his business what you get upto... behind his back, or right in front of him. Pity that he did actually want you back, you might have blown your chances here...\nSit down and have a chat with him, explain the situation to him, how you saw it, and listen as he tells you his side of the story... Good luck.
1023159
first ask yourself whether u really want him back or is it again "just attraction".think over watever happened whether it is bound to happen again to bring back the same situation.....find out whether he's also feeling the same burn as u r or did he royally ditch you for no reason?...dont get baffled  up by such situations..keep your cool.....u never know..might be.. he is really in need of you.
1116158
dont try 2 get ppl back b the adult and 4-get about him walk away and everthing will b good :)
53630
Well, if he's moved on, you should do the same. It takes time, so don't think it's gonna happen overnight. Just try to be positive, and eventually, things will be OK in your life again.
332468
LOL@gomez_leovinus! Anyway, only time will help you get over him. Enjoy fun activities in the meanwhile. Go out with your family, female friends and enjoy life. He is not your everything. Forget about him. Trust me, you are NOT the only person that had to get over someone they really liked, it's a part of life, it's natural...deal with it. We all had to get over it as well and have to live and learn. You can't force him to like you. That will never happen therefore, the best thing to do for yourself is forget about him. He'sa waste of brain space lol. You'll find someone else that actually likes you back and appreciates your company. Time will heal your saddened heart :) You need to try though. Good luck!
948063
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
777436
He told you how he felt. You cant change or control him and thats what your trying to do. He was honest with you cuz you asked him to be. Theres nothing more to it, you are now broken up and have been so theres no more relationship. He doesnt have to answer to you for anything. He has every right to have a date if he wants just as you do. You are trying to control something beyond the break up and all that will do is prolong any hurt for YOU, not him. Move on and forget the friends thing for now. Maybe down the road but now you need to let go of it all.
6390
If he didn't even tell you he was moving he's not worth your time.  being hurt is hard, but you need to move on.  Good luck.
1026467
Set him loose and tell him do what you think is best. Then you both either do or don't see others while away. If you guys are meant for each other then you will get back together...but in all honesty you probably won't. We all go thru it at some point. It sucks but we get past it.
445356
tell him that you cannot do it by being friends .. stop talking to him even though it is hard .. if he feels something is missing in his life he will come back to you in the way you want ..but if he doesn't than understand that he wasn't probably your best friend or he doesn't like you so you have to get over him .. but try what I say my best friend did that to me and eventually I had to go out with him .. because I was gonna lose him ..
725860
Either call him directly or snailmail him a letter of detail expressing your concern for the direction your relationship seemed to be taking.\n\nHe may have had other issues to deal with and could not open up about them at that time - therefore presenting distance that you may have misinterpeted towards you.....\ndo not push, if he can share his feelings he will.\n\nExpress to him how much you have missed him and that you are sorry for hurting him also.\n\nIf he does not wish to continue dating at least try and establish some form of friendship - mutually.\n\nBest wishes!
283105
wow i'm sort of in that situation now. not quite as far tho. well, didn't you two split for a reason? i think you should consider those reasons again and see how it might be different if you were to get back together again. another thing, he "bumped" into you. he didn't call you. could it be that he's trying to find an exit to his current unhappy relationship and he knows it's easy to get back with someone familiar? i would think hard before even allowing him back into your love life. to be on the safe side, it never hurts just to be friends. and don't ever seem too available. if he really wants you back, make him work for it! good luck.
670567
Move on is the best answer. You broke up for a reason. Always remmeber that reason.
399514
if you really want him back too, i suggest you do..but if not, tell him straight out..i also suggest you rush thinking about it because if you take too long, he might pick up and leave, something you might not want to happen..
53612
Slow down a bit.  Get your mind off of that matter.  Breath some fresh air.  Get you feet back on earth.\n\nLet the relationship bloom on it own course without any help from you.  In time, you'll learn the appropriate action to make happen.
367246
Tell him you miss him & want him back and you would like to forget the past and move forward with someone you love.
881229
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship