i am upset with my friend?
596711
Believe in yourself dear...I know how you feel coz I went thru that...you have said so that they are not your friends and I know that letting go is tough...just try to engage in activities that allows u to know more ppl and gradually, u will be able to let go...dun let this ruin ur life! Friends come and go, dun hang on to those who are not worth hanging on...the vast world has friends for you...
564740
Its a small fight- all friends have them every once and a while.\nTell her your sorry for what happened, and that you want to put it behind you because your friendship is to important to think about stupid little stuff.\nListen to what she tells you and how she feels.
1163025
Whatever you do you should handle it calmly and spare his feelings. Because right now like you said he hasn't gone too far but yes if you fear it will go beyond what you want it to be then is best to resolve it quickly. handle this face to face and be strong about it. Tell him that you feel that your friendship with him seems a little too personal and it makes you feel bad and you do not want to feel bad at all. That you cherish the friendship but it will never be anything but a friendship. If he can not understand or accept it then I suggest you end it completely.
1101058
Your friend has hurt you, back stabbed you.\n\nAnd you are hurt and angry, after all she did the wrong thing.\n\nI am sure all the negative feelings are making you unhappy?  How long do you want to feel unhappy?\n\nYou don't need to accept your friend back but you do need to forgive  her, even if you never speak with her again.\n\nIts good for your mind and feelings.\n\nIf you have not done so already reads the Lords prayer from the Bible.  Among other things is says "forgive us our sins as we forgive others".  None of us are perfect and all of us need some forgiveness.\n\nregards\n\nPeter
22005
Why is he sorry if it is not right for him? You should not get mad. You could still be really great friends. Let him go and if it's meant to be the person will come back.
609228
no.....let him know you care, eventually he'll come around and you two will be happy, don't be annoying though because I'm learning the hard way... it isn't fun dealing with a mad friend, especially when he's mad at me\n\n\ndon't treat him any different\nenjoy your friends while you still have them\n\nDena
424688
Well this is going to sound really cliche, but if they are hurting your feelings then they probably aren't true friends.  But I bet you they don't have many other friends either, and they don't want to lose you as a friend.  \n\nIt's hard to know exactly what to say without knowing specifically what the problem is, but you might try saying "could you please stop" then explain why what they are doing is making you upset.  Here comes another cliche: if they don't stop hurting your feelings then you need to find new friends.
704713
you should have a heart to heart talk with her. you have every right to get upset with her after all she didn't honour your request. but you could have handled it better. \n\ncall her and ask her to meet with you. apologize for reacting the way you did but not for the reason. it was your life she was discussing with her friend and you have every right to choose who knows about it. but don't let your friendship end because of it. if she cares enough she'll understand where your coming from. \n\ngood luck!
372080
Wow, I'm SO PROUD OF YOU!  You are mature beyond your years!\n\nSometimes, we risk others being mad at us when we do things to help.  This is very serious, and you definitely did the right thing.  If she does find out, and gets mad, it will be hard for you, but not as hard, as you said, as if she were to seriously harm herself.  I hope you told an adult.  If it continues, and the adult doesn't do anything,  you need to keep trying until someone does help her. \n\nSomeday she will know that you were a true friend to her.  Hopefully, you won't have to deal with her anger.\n\nGOD Bless You!
664258
I think he is. Did you try to explain to him how much it hurts you when he withdraws from you? He needs to tell you when you do something to upset him so you can work it out and get it out in the open. He is holding things in which only makes it worse. Make sure he understands that he has to be open and honest with you in order for your friendship to last. That is part of what being a good friend is. I wish you luck and hope you two work things out. Good friends are hard to come by so that makes it worth trying to work things out.
522020
Sorry, there's no way to do it without hurting their feelings.  Plus, you don't like them enough to continue the friendship, so why are you worried about their feelings?  I mean, I know that sounds harsh, but it's true, isn't it?  This person must have done or said something you don't like or that you found offensive.  Bottom line:  If that person has hurt your feelings in the past, why spare theirs?  Good luck.
482544
All you can do is continue to be a good friend by listening. None of this is your fault, and you are not responsible for resolving the situation. Just make sure you are always there for your friend, as a good listener.
471897
This is like most relationships. Its give and take...Your friend wont be a real friend if she cant deal with your feelings and opinions. You may be wrong, so what, you have the feelings correct or not. If you talk things out you will find a common ground.
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
493682
Maybe it is just a misunderstanding.  You need to approach your friend and make the overtures.  Ask him/her if there is anything wrong and tell them that you have been concerned that you may have upset them and if so that you would like to make amends.  It might not even be you, or it might be something that someone has said about you.  Only by approaching your friend can you get to the bottom of it.
1068514
We have all have one or two Friends like that in our lives.\nYou are holding back becos, she is ur friend and u really care about her.\nBut part of that caring means u have to be honest with her about how u feel. She probably doesnt know how annoying she really is...so hopefully, u'll be up to the task of helping her to be a better person.\nHope ur Faith teaches Patience? Cos u'll probably need it.\nAll the best to u and ur Friend.
152533
6 years ago - what you're friend said to you was very insensitive.  It sounds as if she finally realized what she's done wrong, but if she acted as if nothing's happened and can't seem to recall the hurtful things she's said to you years before, mayB U need to remind her that what she said to you (when you were in a state a mourning) was very hurtful and let her know that her remark had placed a damper on your friendship.  Honestly, we're all human and we all do make mistakes with the things we say or do.  I'd say give your friend another chance, but be clear on the reasons why you haven't kept in touch with her all those years and be honest with how you really felt.\n\nAt least this is my opinion.  I've also learned from past mistakes and I've lost some valuable friendships, because I've never expressed to them how I really felt about certain issues.