dose any one here think that it is hard to find a girlfriend or boyfriend?
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I find it hard to find one I can actually truly love.
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Well I'm sure you will have no problem finding someone you just have to look in the right places, which might be a little hard because sex is basicly all guys are looking for.
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Of course not.  It is your life and there are times when it is easier and best if you are single and able to focus on other things than relationships.
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Its the perfect companion. And I do believe that everyone has one.  Though everyone may not end up with theirs I beleive that there is somebody made especially for everyone.  And its hard to find that person because people get soooo caught up in things that don't matter like sex and money.  But your soul mate will be able to satisfy your every need without even allowing you a doubt in your mind.  It's hard to find that person but when you do.... it'll be obvious.
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im a girl so yea im anwsering as a friend lol but your really pretty or i mean your avatar i think you have a very good chance of getting a boyfriend if you already dont have one
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I asume you are talking about girl that you fell in love with and know you are losing her. Well it's not the end of the world and the reason that no one is answering you is because frankly people get tired of answering the same problem.  It's seems like every person on here is obessed with some one and goes crazy if single or something. it's totally obsurd. There is more to life that just having a boyfriend or girlfriend. First you need to find yourself rather someone you think you are in love with.  "You have to stand before you can walk"
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a lot of people out there are single. just always think positive and remember that there is one special girl out there who is probably looking for someone like you!! keep looking and good luck!! ♥
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I think it depends on where you are looking and how!!  My friend asked the same question but was only looking in bars and just really wanted a girlfriend so he didn't have the highest standards.  Many times it's when you aren't looking and you are happy with where you are that someone comes along.  I met my boyfriend through a mutual friend.  Meet up with people who enjoy the same things with you.  \nTrust me... there are great honest girls out there.. you just have to look hard for us! :)  Good Luck :)
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No this is  okay but be careful. It is hard to find the right person..
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yah thats so true and that happens with girls too you know!!\nlike yah you can't find a good guy but then all of the suddin when you actually have a boyfriend..their's a million guy trying to know you .. but if you brake up with your boyfriend you will go back to the case were their is no one...isn't that just crazy!!
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Shouldn't a man also appear to be "hard to get"\nThis shows either you are a "Thinker" or there is a girl in your life who is making you feel weak for her. Well men and women are the same, both have feelings.. there is no need to make it difficult to get but it apprears so because females don wanna be friendly with all males. They think about their security. Men feel safe so they take the first step in a relation
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Well there is nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend at 18.I'm 22 and don't have a gf and am still happy.Of course at the right time she will show up.Maybe u can add me to your messenger so we can chat.my IM is bcoxy06@yahoo.com
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I would say they dont usually because of work.  However, you could be that way anyway even in a relationship and that wouldnt be a bad thing.  I know for me personally, im a very hard worker but if i had someone in my life, that would be my first conceern, so it is possible to be a hard worker and a good companion.
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I think there is someone for everyone and we as humans seldom find that one for us. We're fooled, though sometimes, and believe we have... I think that's the worst thing that can happen. When you do find your soul mate.... you'll come together magically... it wont be a simple thing... It will be a twist of fate... \n\nWe never have to make do... You should never stop looking either, because when you do... that's when they'll show up.
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Hmm it's hard to answer why a single person is single. I'm single too and I'm just as frustrated that I can't find someone and be happy like the rest of my friends. I think what it comes down to though, is you need to be happy with yourself first. When you're not, people will see that and it becomes a turn off or people become afraid of dealing it. Just from reading your question, you sound angry at the world. But really, you're the one that has to make it happen. Work on yourself first and I'm sure that person will find you, notice you. Good luck.
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Do not worry about trying to find a boyfriend. Just be yourself. Get involed in 4-H, school, and other local ativities. Someone is bound to respect your abilities and want to get to know you, then see what happens.
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not all guys are like that. i know i'm not. i can think of only one thing in life that comes before a serious relationship, and that's my daughter. i know plenty of guys that would love to get into a serious relationship, but they need to find the right person first. it takes time, but you'll find him sooner or later as long as you don't give up on love