i love others but nobody loves me. what do you think is the problem with me?
594925
First of all, I'm sure that people love you, that is human nature...if you are young and are speaking of love in a boyfriend/girlfriend way, that is meant for later on in life.  Focus on yourself, find hobbies that you enjoy, find talents in yourself that you never knew existed, and people will come to you!!!  I PROMISE!!!
1032387
it sounds to me that you are very lonely, depressed, isolated, unhappy and don't have any confidence.  Is there anything positive in your life.  Do you work, have friends, family, can you do volunteer work.  First of all you're not stupid, you know the english language, you know how to type, can use a computer and have the insight into yourself to even ask this question.  YOU ARE NOT STUPID!  I need more info about you to help you, but it sounds like you need something positive in your life or someone to talk to.
919733
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE YOU HAVE ISSUES THAT YOU NEED\nTO ADDRESS ABOUT YOUR SELFESTEEM. IF YOU NEED\nANY ONE TO MAKE YOU FEEL ALIVE AND WORTH IT\nTHAT  MAY BE THE PROBLEM. AND YOU NEED TO TALK\nTO SOMEONE ABOUT THAT, YOU DONT NEED ANY ONE]\nTOMAKE YOU YOU FEEL ANYTHING. YOU HAVE TO LOVE\nYOUR SELF BEFORE YOU CAN LOVE ANY ONE ELSE.\nAND AS FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND. HE MAY  TREAT YOU\nLIKE A QUEEN. BUT UNTIL YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE\nA QUEEN IT WONT MATTER. BUT TIME TO TALK TO]\nHIM AS WELL IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY THEN TIME\nTO BE HONEST WTH HIM AS WELL AS YOUR SELF.\nGOOD LUCK.
634036
I think it goes alot deeper than you just getting bored with different people....Have you ever thought maybe its your problem???  People always want to blame others for whats really going on within themselves...Take a good look in the mirror, you'll figure it out eventually....
667800
What a strange request, most people want others to love them!\nReally whatever you come up with not everybody will be against you, there will always be some one that will agree with your point of view.\nYou could have a go at pet lovers, but there will always be pet haters to agree with you! Religion? but the same thing applies.\nThe only thing I can really think of is knocking little kids about, you won't get much backing there, but I don't recommend it!! You would get knocked about yourself, you don't really want to go that far do you??
533323
I never really loved myself until I realized that I have worth.  And I never realized that I have worth until I realized that God loves me for who I am.  The fact that I'm human and that I make mistakes didn't seem to matter.  God loves me.\n\nKnow that you are worthy of being loved.  You do not have to earn that kind of love from anyone.  God loves you no matter what.  If that's something you don't believe, just trust that somebody loves you.  \n\nGive yourself permission to love yourself.  Once you can do that, it will be easier to have self-esteem.  (But it doesn't come all at once.  This is something that comes over time.  I know since I had that problem too.  It took me years to get as far as I have).\n\nDon't put yourself down for the things you do wrong.  Everybody makes mistakes.  Think about the things you are doing right.  And if you want to change the things you do wrong, just do your best.  Nobody is perfect.  It's okay to make mistakes.
462221
Most often people feel lonely because they haven't learned to love themselves very much. Often it's because they spend so much time trying to please others or to be all things to all people that they don't take the time to learn what THEY need themselves. It's hard, but you need to learn to be happy with yourself, about yourself, and by yourself. If you can do this, then you will not find yourself lonely, or needy. In turn, others won't be turned off by you because you seem lonely, and sad, and needy. You will suddenly appear more interesting and desirable to someone else. It may sound contradictory, but I think you will find many people will agree with me.
650006
Maybe you have not lived on your own enough to know yourself. One must learn to know & love themselves before they can love others. \nI do not like being alone all the time, but I like my own company enough to know that I would rather be alone than with someone that is not right for me or that is going to treat me badly.
337665
you are who you are..and you can't be everyone else..accept yourself for who you are..and remember that you're not the only one that feels shy when they walk down the street..etc...and just love yourself..so that others can love you too..and believe in yourself..and say to yourself..if i dont love my self..noone will love me...and if they don't love me..who cares...i love myself.
565498
Why people don't like me =(
382723
The people that don't like you don't matter.  Suround yourself with people that care about you and like you. The others are ignorant and perhaps insecure about themselves and their preferences. Take care of yourself and forget about those silly people. There will always be people who don't like you for whatever reason.  Don't focus on it.
930006
i think your question is an excellent one. for me its a chemical I'mbalance and luckily for me i have friends and family who urge me to seek help. what my problem has always been is not being the person i should be.i felt like a failure as compared to my peers. but what had to realize is that everyone is special and unique. and you as an individual have to take a journey inside one self and realize that. try to think about the good and don't focus on the negative. talk to someone, make a change. i did and im learning how to love me.  Mary J Blige said it the best if you don't love yourself how can you love anyone else.
1107488
Why do you want them to grow faster?  Try to accept yourself the way you are and love yourself.  If you can not love yourself......you can not love others.
1186250
i could not imagine what you are going through. i personally have never experience or been in that situation.i think you do not love yourself or feel worthy for someone to love you.that is very important no matter what family drama or life changes you have to go through you must always remember to love yourself.
380962
Congratulations. You have enter the "man search of meaning" realm: Love/hate relationship with yourself and outside of yourself. You are your own worst critic, so maybe it is time to refocus. Start loving yourself instead of hating yourself. Stop judging yourself against everyone else. You must have a life before sharing a life. So focus on your life, who you are, what you want, and how to get it. But you already knew that, so the answer to your question is already within you.
552787
maybe you should.  Try be a little more open to people, accepting them for who they are.  Maybe it is you - try to calm down a little?
55713
Ok!!!!  Trying loving yourself first.  Life is nothing if you don't love yourself....then you will have someone to love.