I WANT to know how much you think my boyfriend loves me  heres what happened....?
609229
Gambling can be an addiction like drugs or alcohol maybe he could get some counseling and work it out. doesnt mean  that he doesnt love you. give gamblers anonomous or something like it a try.
662650
I knew I was really in love when the following happened:\nI cared what his honest opinion was, and I could talk about absolutely anything and everything.  When something bad happened, I wanted HIM to comfort me; when something funny happened, HE was the first person I wanted to share it with.  When I thought of the future, HE was in all the scenes.  It goes beyond butterflies and beating hearts, but sounds like you are on the right track.  Good luck!
1003515
You should judge him by his actions not his words, if he treats you right and does everything to show you that he loves you, than he probably does, some guys don't show thier feelings very easily. Could be something that happened in his past or whatever. But if he's doing all the right things, you shouldn't focus on it to much.......
123729
maybe he does still love u he just doesn't show it completly ... if he didn't love u anymore ... would he still b w/ u?\nor maybe he's just bad at showing it ..
580816
Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
643810
ask urself one question.. how would u feel if he did that to u? do u love him and want to be with him ?(current boyfriend) if u dont... end that relationhip before u try to start up another one...its not fair to anyone involved
585576
Maybe after:\n\n1. HER DIARY\n\nTonight I thought he was acting weird.\n\nWe had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment.  Conversation wasn't flowing so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed but he kept quiet and absent.  I asked him what was wrong; he said nothing.  I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset.  He said it had nothing to do with me and not to worry.\n\nOn the way home I told him that I loved him, he simply smiled and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say I love you too. When we got home I felt as if I had lost him, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there and watched T.V. He seemed distant and absent.\n\nFinally, I decided to go to bed. About 10 minutes later he came to bed, and to my surprise he responded to my caress and we made love, but I still felt that he was distracted  and his thoughts were somewhere else.\n\nHe fell asleep - I cried. I don't know what to do.  I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.\n\n2.  HIS DIARY \n\nI shot the worst round of golf in my life today, but at least I got laid.
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you need to consider a couple of things. \n1. how long have u been together?\n2. are you willing to stick around for a second time?\n3. what actually possessed him to do that?\nanswer these honestly and if it doesn't look good, leave!\nit could've been an accident but chances are it wasn't, sorry and be careful!
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If he doesnt say it all on his own then maybe you should stop saying it for a couple of days just to see if he does say it to see if he even misses you saying it at all. Or you could just ask him if he really does love you and if he says yes then you should be able to ask him if he was just saying it back b/c you said it to him. Don't argue it out of him just tell him that it hurt you and that the whole time you had to sit back and literally question if he really loved you or not. Your in a relationship talk to him.\nGOOD LUCK MA MA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
553456
I think you are really sweet! Jeez, I wish my guy was that sensitive. I am betting she loves you the way you are, and I wouldn't really change anything. Just tell her what you told us about what is in your heart!!
451565
I think he do love you, due to the fact you lost your women head to him so there are feelins all around you teo relationship. Just give it a try it want hurt, Just be careful with yourself
605551
You said yourself, he is YOUR boyfriend, he has, I understand, said that he is serious and that he loves you.\nWhy are you insecured?\nThere two points I want to mention here:\nTrust is the strongest feeling and if you are going to build a future together you must trust him and his feelings for you.\nAnd second, a woman just knows if her man loves her.\nCome on, believe in yourself more, you say you are a bit on the heavy side, well....this guy knew this and still he fell for you...didnt he? \nEnjoy this lovely time...your love...his love for you..dont go around seeing possible ghosts....\nHow would you feel if he asks you..do you really love me? are you really serious about us?\nBe happy mi girl...just be happy!
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Hey I just wanted to say thank you for your response to my question, I think it really helped and it wasn't mean. I also think that you are right, he called me this morning and told me that he was knocked out and didnt get up until 12:30 or so. I guess it is still taking me some time to really relax and trust him but I think your response was the best. As far as your situation, my boyfriend is actually 28 and im 18 so yeah, think about that one lol. Thats 10 years older then me, but he loves me and I love him and its been the best relationship I've ever been in. I think true love prevails over age and just as long as you guys can respect each other and love eachother and probably give her some time to also grow, you guys will be just find. Age is really just a number I just feel like sometimes our decisions or the stage that we are at life can sometimes conflict. Just make sure you two continue to communicate and understand eachothers needs and wants to go about things the right way. G-luck.
835918
You can't tell if he loves you by the things he did and it's too early to know about things like that. But by what you are saying, that guy really does like you a lot. It must be so exciting!
202755
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
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Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
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1st you have to evaluate why you argued.  Maybe it was his fault, maybe he should make it up to you.  Don't automatically think you always have to make it up to him.\n\nOf course if it is upon you than it really just depends on what happened.  It could just be you need to give him some time.  If he loves you he'll let you know when he's ready.  Don't push it