CAN YOU PLEASE GIVE Me SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!?????
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I'm sorry you're going through this but it's quite common in high school.   People are very insecure in high school and the more insecure they are, the more they behave the way your friend (and the others) are behaving so you must first understand that.   Secondly, the best advice that anyone can offer you is to ignore all of it as much as you can, with everyone except your family.  Don't talk about ANY of it with ANYONE at school, no matter how much you think you can trust them.  People are going to talk because doing so makes them feel like they are more in the "circle" than you.  So you have to rise above it.  It's the only way.  You've already talked to her so she is CLEAR on how you feel but she is allowing her insecurities to take over rather than your friendship.  Ignore it, ignore it, ignore it.  When you ignore things and people, they lose interest and get bored and move on to something else.  If anyone tries to talk to you about it and asks questions, simply say "I have no idea what the issues are".  Don't say "her" issues say THE issues.  This way, you're not directing anything towards her and she'll start to feel stupid.  Trust me.  Ignore it and repeat what I said above "I have no idea what the issues are" over and over again.  It will pass.  Thirdly, try your best not to obsess over it.  This has nothing to do with you.  NOTHING.  People have their insecurities.  They always have and they always will.  That never changes, no matter how old you are.  Everyone has insecurities; Presidents, world leaders, Bosses, Celebrities, Singers, parents, friends, family, religious leaders, everyone.  You have your own as well so stop obsessing and understand that you can't change her behavior.  You can only let her get bored with her own behavior-and that is by ignoring it.  Think about other things every time you want to think about it.  You can't change her but you CAN change you and your reactions to it.   Good luck and STAY STRONG.
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If she is asking you for advice, tell her to kick him to the curb and find someone that will appreciate her and show her he loves her. Why waste time and energy on him.  She probably will not listen to you.  Women like to wear blinders and ignore the advice of friends about the men in their lives.  If she is not soliciting for your advice---stay out of it.
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Be yourself.  It's the oldest and best advice.  She may still not like you, but that's the risk, and you keep your manliness and dignity.  Never, never forget this.
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the best thing to do is talk to someone you love and trust. Maybe your parents/gaurdian. Youve been through something terrible and you need some support around you and go tell someone immediately. Go to the police and have him charged. Its the best thing to do because you can prevent him from hurting someone else. Its scary but its the right thing to do
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Let your friend follow the advice of the butthead. Sometimes the best advice you can give is to not give any advice at all.
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This might help you out.\n\nGood Luck.
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Been there and done that...not fun!  I feel for you but you have to be strong enough to GET OUT!  I had family and friends to help me out behind his back.  I planned carefully because he was smart and inquisitive, very controlling.  Get mad and smart too!  Figure out his work schedule and get it all done in a short amount of time.  Get a restraining order against him before you go so that you are somewhat protected when you leave.  Go somewhere safe where someone is with you all the time and has speed dial.  Get a plan B so that if this is not an option you have somewhere else to go.  Don't make him mad.  Above all don't let him see you are nervous.  Keep him calm and level headed until you pull it off.  Don't change your routine or compromise yourself.  Be sure to delete all "help" calls off the phone and alert the police of what you are about to do and the day and time.  You can also have the police escort you out once they know the situation if you need to do it that way.  My prayers go out with you!
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Comfort your friend and tell her NOT TO DO ANYTHING! As in completely nothing... Tell her not to call her boyfriend, not to go to the guy's place, not to talk with his friends, anything that has to do with the guy. Play cool and she should act as if he's not a big loss. DON'T EVER MAKE HIM FEEL SPECIAL. You're all good and he's not the center of her universe. She was born without him anyway plus he is just an OBSTACLE. She'll get over him. Just always be there for your friend. Oh how I hate cheaters! Plus I believe in carma... I say good luck to that di*khead
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Advice on a guy . . help . . .
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Oh dear Lord.  Please tell them right away.  You need sone kind of help.  I have never dealt with this and have no advise, but please get up enough courage to tell her, she can help you.
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Try this.\nHope that helps.\n\nGood Luck.
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be a good listener first.\nthink positively and act accordingly.
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Move on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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the only advice i can give is none.  Your kids are adults, they'll have to learn from there own mistakes.  Just don't judge them or treat them different.  Only thing you can offer is your love.
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stay clam and do your best. Good luck.