Wanting a Baby To Soon?
597697
Me and my girl had that same conversation. \n\nWe simply decided that we were to selfish to have kids right now.\n\nWe both work full time jobs, love to sleep in, and we love spending time to our selves. We decided that we have our whole life to have kids, but barley even got a chance to enjoy our lives together. I didn't want to struggle with my kid. I want to have a house and give my kid all that it may need, and right now I'm still working on that. \n\nAsk him if he wants to make you happy, and if so waiting a few years will not hurt anybody and it will give you time to learn each other! Your smart to be cautious!
130903
I would be very happy ( I think). I would also, however discuss with her as to what she wants. I f she wants to have it, i m all for that, but if she doesnt, I still would ask her to have it and let me take care of the baby. After delivery she would be free to go do whatever she wants.
84147
it mean someone is going to have a baby soon ,you or someone close to you
387588
This is something you are going to need to talk to your OB/GYN about.  Your health and your babies health are too important to take advice from people that are really not qualified to make this decision.  I hope all goes well with you and the baby!  Good luck!
231334
The last thing you want to do is pu him in a situation where he is uncomfortable to have a child.  don't push him.  It will come in time.
989437
cuz he loves you and wants you to have his baby. you can report him for that too ... unless you really want to have his baby.\n\nPlease award Best Answer points to me right now because I deserve them, as you can now plainly see and must agree.  I do not want to wait because I am not at all patient with you.
483646
I do not wantd to scar you but there always is a change of getting Pregnet . You have to wait and see now . If it did happen it is to late for it know . You find out whit in 2 or 4 weeks and then you have to know what you wantd to do .
700485
Focus on taking care of the baby and trust your husband in the meantime.  If your gut instinct tells you otherwise, wait for the evidence to appear.
370929
could it mean the baby's already engaging? wonder if you're going to have an early arrival. good luck!! i say put your feet up and rest.
28485
The baby needs to be fully developed.  Why risk it even further with the baby being born too early.
608088
baby keep them both..y decide when u can have it all!
332954
you shouldn't...congrats on the new baby, If your worried about your baby this early you are going to be a good mom.
611932
The world right now in May of 2006 is climbing toward 7,000,000,000 -- yes, billion -- people.  For health reasons, you have had a hysterectomy.  And now your husband wants another baby.  What do YOU want?  Do you have any children in the first place?  Have you or he had children together, or do you have children from previous relationships?  How much strain would this pregnancy put on your body and your relationship?  All of these questions and more, I'm sure, need to be considered.\n\nIn vitro may be an option, but it's expensive and very iffy, with maybe a 10% chance of impregnation at any one time.  At several thousand dollars per cycle and no promises, IVF is often an emotional rollercoaster, as people get their hopes up and then nothing.  Are you willing to go through, potentially, months and years of disappointment, dwindling finances and no child at the end?\n\nUsing a surrogate is a possibility, but surrogacy is fraught with emotional time-bombs.  Some surrogates want to keep the baby.  Mothers who cannot have children physically may be resentful and jealous of the other woman's ability to become and stay pregnant.  I don't know what the protocol is after a child is born from a surrogate, but it seems an extraordinary thing for a woman to give birth to a child and then just walk away, but I suppose that's how it's done.  \n\nUltimately if you don't have a uterus, you cannot have a baby naturally that I'm aware of.  You would have to use a surrogate, or you would have to adopt.  I'd suggest you do some research and reading first, talk this over with your husband, and talk it over with yourself, and think about what you really want.  \n\nIt sends up a big red flag to me that after a hysterectomy where your uterus is removed, your husband suddenly wants a baby -- and obviously you cannot do this.  Is it really a baby he wants, or something else emotionally?  Having a baby complicates relationships and never solves any problem.  Babies even when wanted bring stress to a relationship.  Perhaps some marriage counseling and/or some very honest talks are very much in order.  I wish you the best.\n\nGood luck.  Cheers, K
767362
Just let things take their natural course, and you'll be surprised!\nLet him come after you, after you have the baby, it is quite likely he will. Just let it happen. Relax and good luck with your baby.
64630
Definitely babies, I can't wait to have mine. I'm due Feb 12th AAAAAAH!\n\nOther than that, a hug from my hubby, an unexpected kiss, or an unexpected tiny little surprise, like when I was craving mcdonald's ice cream cones and my hubby showed up with one after work, that melted my heart... and the icecream was melting too *lol*
997976
you need to speak with a Dr.before you start any medication if you are considering a pregnancy. if you are having major problems in your life, why would to want to have a baby before you resolve your issues. please note a  lot of medications cause major complication to a developing fetus if they are taken during a pregnancy. you need to contact a Dr.  for both your sakes.
870587
I was feeling the same way not so long ago.\n\nMaybe it's just a female urge, but I really wanted to get pregnant. I wanted to have a baby who was half of me, and half of him, I wanted a baby I could love and watch grow up.\n\nBut, I realized the life of that child would be deprived. As much as I know I would love him or her, they'd have very few chances at a good and equal future. If you guys aren't seeing each other enough, maybe you should talk to him about it. If basketball comes before you, then maybe that relationship just isn't the right one to commit yourself with a child to. Who knows when he'd leave you?\n\nBut, if you are pregnant, I suggest you seriously discuss it with him, and if you aren't completely sure he can provide for you and the baby, then maybe you need to think about adoption. It's a hard decision, but if it's in the best interest of the baby, it's quite possibly the best decision, too.\n\nGood luck,\n~Morgan~