sex with wife friend?
595893
Enjoy it while it lasts, cause ur up sh-t creek. Get a Lawyer.
341034
Firstly, why did you get married and you're bi? i mean you're not sure of sex you like more, i find that's its wrong more wrong than being homosexual just because its unfair to your wife and to "your best friend" choose one or none. Does your wife know you're bi-sexual? You need to be honest with yourself-as to what u like,if you don't know or can't choose then you need to be honest with your wife now before its too late... I've seen thing like this destroy families and i affects the children. Make your decision before it's too late.
736164
Well......see it was when you said you were having sex last night that she became skeptical. Afterall... she knew you were with your wife. Sex with your wife? *smacks his head* Sheesh....what were you thinking! Of course your girlfriend isn't going to buy that. \n\nI suggest you write your wife a cute little note like we used to do in 6th grade and say:\n\n"Hey sweetie... I enjoyed making love to you last night. Did you? Check one:\n\n______ yes      _________ no\n\n(oh and will you sign your name at the bottom as well?)\n\n\n\n~~~~~ \nThen show this to your girlfriend. Surely it will be as good as an affadavit.
1020751
How old are you? And why are you even thinking of having sex with a g/f when you should know that sex should be between a man and women that are married? What had happened to you people these days?
890663
No,I would not be ok with it at all.Do you trust you husband will never cheat on you?I had the same situation with my husband and it turned out this women he was such good friends with was trying to get him to bed and away from me.Your husbands friend may not be this way but look for signs!
365069
Yes... well not really.... but sort of.....but then not so much.....\n\nIf your wives friends are relatively decent human beings than no.... it's not a test.  Women tend to think of a friends husband as sort of a big brother and its safe to flirt a little.  We even think of you as a surrogate husband.  They can get you to lift heavy things and kill the bugs but they don't have to sleep with you.  But don't make the mistake of acting on it because they would tell her in a heartbeat....so ya sort of.\n\nIf your wives friends are hoochies then they are probably really trying to get in your pants.  In which case they aren't really her friends.... still they would tell her in a heartbeat if you even hinted at interest.\n\nThe next time it happens, just grab your wife and kiss her.  That will show them you are devoted and make your wife feel good.  Chances are that your honey bunches has noticed it too and might be feeling a little insecure about it.
582012
It seems as if you have a very strong desire to remain faithful to your wife.  That is definitely a good starting point.  I would not, however, do as one person suggested and ask your wife to not bring this friend around anymore.  Doing that would only serve to justify (in your wife's mind) her fear that you may do something with her friend.  And, I would not have a sit-down conversation between the three of you either.  This route may make any already sticky situation far worse.  The fact of the matter is...this situation exists solely between you and your wife.  Having said that...here are a few suggestions.\n\nFirst, your wife seems to be at a point (emotionally) where she needs some very strong reassurances from you.  I believe this is where the two of you need to start.  Though you have not metioned how long the two of you have been together...I am assuming it has been quite some time.  The fact that you have children together only serves to lend credibility to this assumption.  I am going to go a step further and assume that because the two of you have been together for quite some time AND have children...the time that the two of you share intimately has decreased tremendously.  This is neither a bad thing...nor is it unusual.  Life has taken over and each of you spends more time tending to the responsibilities of life than you spend nurturing the bond that brought you to this point.\n\nIf the above assumptions are accurate...then I would suggest shifting gears a bit.  If your wife is, in fact, seeking some reassurances from you...I will tell you that the physical, mental, and emotional ones will go alot further than the verbal ones.  Yes, you have stated that she does not have to worry about what you may or may not do with her friend.  However, have you done anything physically, mentally, or emotionally that would serve to back-up your verbal statements?  If she is truly concerned about this issue...it may help if you let her see and feel your commitment to her in addition to hearing it from you.\n\nArrange for a night where the two of you are alone.  Bring her flowers, take her out for dinner (or actually make a dinner for the two of you), make her your sole focus for the evening, and let her know just how much you love and appreciate all that she is to you.  These are simple things to do.  Unfortunately, many people overlook the value in such simple things as the demands of life increase.  If you were to take the time to do the above stated things on a regular basis...I am sure you will find your wife's insecurity would diminish.  Good luck to both of you.
1183942
Married people do not have friends of the opposite sex, or at least I don't believe they really do....but they do have acquaintences.  As long as you are not flirting with him you are doing nothing wrong but maybe back up a little because if you care about him as a friend then you should respect that marriage comes first and you shouldn't want to be the center of their argument.
252221
You can't choose what you dream about.  Your friend is insecure with himself.  He needs to understand that his wife loves him and its not like she is actually in contact with the sportsman so he has nothing to worry about.  On top of that, its not like she's acting on these urges.
1179974
He is a married man, and has no business being friends with other women, if the friend ship doesnt include his wife, she has every right to be upset about it, as she shouldnt have to share her husband with anyone else under any circumstance.  He sounds like a disrespectful jerk to put her through this kind of thing as its not normal in a marriage.... So listen to your "other" friends and back off, you are over steppin your bounds!
194822
Tell her husband that your having an affair with her.
377614
Another wife/girlfriend.
252315
Hey this is me again...I don't know if I'm getting this or not..Are you saying that you are married but also want another woman, and that if your wife loves you she will accept it?  Wow, isn't that asking alot from your wife?  Not that I'm judging you.  I am the last person in this world that has a right to judge anybody!!Can I e-mail your e-mail address maybe you need a friend right now?
167253
Put on a porn film just while having sex with your wife!\nShe could be agree and consequentially you could lose interest in it.
416078
I've experienced a slightly different situation, I'm very good friends with the husband not so much the wife but I found out that she was cheating on him.  When I told him he totally denied it, refused to accept that it was true and doesn't believe me.  Then he got mad at me for pushing the issue so I guess it depends on the person how they'll react when you tell but I would.
291578
tell him you have a headache.  That seems to be a tried and true formula.  Unless you're talking about your husband having sex with someone else, in which case I think you should let him have his fun.
522118
You are asking for trouble. You will betray your wife, and even if she doesn't find out (which she probably will) your relationship will never be the same. A lot of girls flirt with married men (sometimes because it is easy because they are unavailable), so if she is just flirting you may also lose a nice friendship with your neighbor. Either way, she doesn't have anything to lose, and you have everything to lose. You could end up having both women throwing you out on your ear - and you would deserve it. You would be a lot better off not flirting back and not spending time alone with her.