If a best friends steals a love interest, are they really your friend?
605517
man they're gays! leave them alone
1007158
i think that if your "friend" did this, she is not really a friend at all. A friend is someone that you can count on through thick and thin, through any situation that you may be going through. A "true friend" will always be there when he/she is needed. He/she will never turn their back on you.
453929
As I see there are two choices\n\n1- yes, your intuition is right, just because you are feeling it, it´s your friend and you know how it behaves.\n\n2- no, it´s you the one feeling attracted and pretending to hide behind "the feeling"\n\nEither case, in love and friendship only the one involved know...
465995
Do you really like your best friend???  Pick which one you want cause you can't have both!
339511
Yes, but it took time. I caught my fiance with my best friend.. scene right out of a bad movie. They didn't even stop what they were doing to acknowledge my presence. I forgave both of them, after a long period of hurt and anger. I will never be their friends again, but I don't consciously hold a grudge or wish them ill will. Now forgetting... that is another story. I don't forget too well, and I think that's a good thing.
444281
Usually.  I have a best friend who I know will not judge me and can keep secrets.  I'm lucky in that!
458476
Been there with my best friend. She did that to me a few times, but I finally had enough and told her if she didn't find her own men, I was not going to be around her anymore. Its a trust thing: You trusted her with the knowledge that you liked this guy, and she went ahead and screwed around with him....Not Cool!!\n\nHowever, if the guy didn't know you like him, then its not his fault. If he did, he holds half the blame.\n\nI'd do the same thing again with my best friend, I'd let her have it! My best friend decided that she'd rather be my friend than have anyone I liked!!...GL;)
1064582
First I want everyone to know that this was a long time ago and I changed myself drastically because of this screw up. I slept with my best friends crush the night of their first date. I regretted it instantly but decided to keep it to myself and no harm would have came from it, but someone found out and my best friend and I, well.....lets just say were not friends anymore.
785100
Not really. One party might be feeling guilty and trying not to hurt the other more, or just as likely, trying not to make an enemy unnecessarily.\nLovers can drift into becoming friends but fall out of love at the same time.
776977
a best friend is someone who you can share everything with your past your present your future ideas........everything.....your future ideas may or may not include your best friend but a best lover is someone with whom you see your future......your future ideas have him in it........u may not be able to tell everything to your lover........but a best friend is someone who is happy when you are happy who is sad when you are sad..........there is no romantic involvement with your best friend......when you look into his/her eyes you know that you are just their friend but in case of a lover just looking into their eyes give you goosebumps......but anywhere down the line....best friends become best lover too...........that's beautiful..........
1017966
Are you friends with his friend?  If you weren't doing anything inappropriate, then it could just be your self-concious identifying a person you'd spent time with recently.
437147
Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
191715
The best friend is a human being, so he thinks, feels and maybe some times he judge you and he don't always say what he think. \nIn my opinion, there are situation when you can't trust him. sicerely, i don't have a best frind because it's better to have a small circle of good friends. But it's good to have someone who can help you when u have a problem.
728195
best friends make the best long time partners. they know all your faults and love you in spite of them or because of them. run with it.
59299
these things have a way of working out. trust me. Its possible to still be best friends with everyone and still be attracted to one of them. Your other friend is just going to have to accept that PEOPLE fall in love with each other especially if they r close. That means if she is your really your friend u r going to have to tell her what's happening she deserves it. maybe you're going to have to make some "rules" for all this to happen. just remember theres nothing wrong with love
537262
Yes, certainly.  Then, my best friend finds out and she starts hounding a confession out of me.  Of course, you sometimes cannot hide things from your best friend even if your best friend is at least 20 years older than you (which mine is in her 40's and I am in my 20's).
450349
YES! This is a no go area, if you are calling this person your "best" friend rather than just a friend you already should know that this person is not like other people you hang out with. It will be gone forever and you will have a relationship, and there is no taking it back. It's about self control and being honest to yourself, if you want a best friend steer clear of that, if al lyou want is sex or a relationship then think hard about the friends you make because it can be a world of hurt