Should I have sex with someone I don't care about to get over my ex?
601226
no, never use your body to get over someone. it just ends up hurting you in the end. you'll feel dirty and used. If you need to end this relationship do it the right way. you'll feel alot more better. and then you won't have that feeling of guilt that you hurt the other person. but what i really want to say is if you and your boyfriend really love each other then if i were you i'd say screw the world and go off with him. you'll never find someone that you love as much or the way that you do him. think about it.
467754
Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over someone else, I've slept with another woman to forget someone that I had broken up with before and I can tell you, it doesn't work. You feel like dirt the next day and you'll find yourself eventually wanting to get rid of the new person your with because (s)he's is the one you hooked up with to forget the prior person you were with. Also, heavy drinking doesn't help either. Trust me.\n\nGive yourself a few weeks or months to figure out what you saw in him that attracted you to him and then figure out whether they were valid reasons to become romantically involved. Did he have a cute bod and a crappy personality? Always remember, looks fade but stupid is forever. Or as recall, John Lennon once said: there's no way you can hide when your cripple inside.
647432
It is understandable that you are still in love with your ex. What I DON'T understand is why are you broke up and still having sex with him EVERYDAY?!?!? That's not broke up... that's an out for him to do you and any other girl he wants anytime because you are "broke-up". You're not his girlfriend any more so you have NO SAY in who else he screws and sice you are "broke-up" he can do it guilt-free as well on a "broke-up" technicality.
891005
Honestly if you still love ur ex dont cheat the new person out of finding someone that loves them entirely. I mean would you want someone to treat you with half of their time and attention cause that is what you will really be doing especially if you start hangin with your ex and you have the feelings still. You will cheat. I would honestly break up up with the new person to prevent hurting them and dont run back to your ex because there was obviously some isues as to why you guys broke up in the first place. So just stay single you can still talk to your ex and communicate to solve the problem and then maybe try being together or you have to decide that you guys are better as friends and thats its. That way when you are with someone else and your ex wants to hang out it will be as friends and you dont diss your friends. I speak cause I have been there and done that. Trust me. make sure that you are completely over your ex though, otherwise you will be in a world of hurt
324673
Well I guess it depends on how long you were with your ex boyfriend, and if he was your first true love, sometimes it is hard to get over and ex, if it is feelings you are trying to get over, they go away with time, as far as the sex goes, you just have to stop and think there is more than one fish in the sea..
588721
It depends.....how did I feel if I slept around on someone I didn't care about??? Well, honestly, not too bad. I don't sleep around if I'm in a commited relationship though.
763436
i think you shouldn't have sex with a guy unless you've been with him for like over 6 years or your married (even though some ppl think thats too long) but if you really want to be with him again why don't you ask him out again. and if he's with someone try being friends with  him and if/when he breaks up with the girl he's with now you could be there with him and then you guys could/might get back together.! hope it works out and hope you pick my advice! ^_^
144545
GOOD question. It all depedns on both of your levels of maturity and self-restraint. If you had a good freindship before you might be able to keep it up after. Just be willing to distance yourself from him/her in the event you find someone to be intimate with. It never works out with your current man/woman to be spending too much time with the ex. Too much opportunity for "heart string pulling". As long as you have rules and bounderies things should work. I'm fine with my ex. She has the kids, her new girlfriend...No reason to be bitter. It's just how life panned out. Good Luck!
801644
YAWN.... he likes you. Persue him. PERIOD. Hell give in and you two will get together. You say he doesnt believe that you got over your ex but i can see how you have if your ex wasnt good to you. Its easy to get over a jerk. So go for this new guy. Persue. I know guys are supposed to persue, but i think it will be to your advantage to persue this fellow. Good luck!
630078
No that's why he is called an ex cause things didn't work out so that means that you do not sleep with him or her at all.
862795
Sounds like you want to use the other guy to get back at your ex.\nWell here is what i think. You ex is going to think that you are crazy. He may think that you hooked up with the guy just so you could be close to him. Do what you think is best hun. I think that until things cool down you have to stay away from the ex. Even if you want him back you do not have to come off as looking desperate and crazy.
893032
You don't want your friend to fornicate with your ex, that's understandable, but you're no longer with him so they're gonna do whatever they want. It bothers you because either you're jealous, concerned because you don't want him messing with her heart (if he's the reason you guys broke up), annoyed that she's going for him even though she's well within her rights, or you still got feelings for him. Or maybe you're into your friend? Whatever, get over it, he's not your problem anymore, right?
543666
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
190121
There's no hard-and-fast rule.  The consensus seems to be that it's not a good idea because of the harm it may cause your ex and the awkwardness it may create in the new relationship.  However, if your ex is out of the picture, and it's unlikely you'll see him again, and his status as your ex doesn't pollute the current relationship, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't explore it.  If it's inevitable that he'll find out, and you've been with him for a long time, you should wait a while before pursuing his friend, and you also should consider letting him know your intentions.
40252
You have to follow your heart.  if you don't have feeling for the person you're with, it's time to move on.  It's near impossible to not hurt who your with now, but in the long run you're going to feel better for it.  Plus, it'll spare the person your with of even more grief in the future.
1138465
no... you dont have to do a physical browl for her like old historical days....\nthis is simply wrong.... if you are not alone in her mind, then it is high time you should talk to her about it....\nalso it depends on whether you came first in her life or the other guy...... \nif you came first.... then you can't do anything except talking out things with her... ask her as to what is the issue.??? finally ask her to decide between the two... \nlisten buddy, whatever is the case.... you cant force love on anyone... and i mean ANYONE..... \nAccept it buddy... she thinking about another guy , only shows that you are insufficient to satisfy her need for love.... \nnow, if you came second in her life, that means she is not able to forget her ex.... you have to love her so much and help her to forget that guy..... there is nothing much you can do, than just loving her....
398127
I would recommend you not to do it. Although your best friend's relationship is over with that girl, he might have the feeling that he had something special with her.\n\nAnd when he sees that you are having the same/similar relationship with her, he will feel bad about it. And yet, he might get paranoiac that you had this thought always in your mind even when they were together. Besides, the idea that you are having sex with someone he once loved is disturbing. Men can easily forget a girl when they don't see what she is doing but this way, he will often see you and his ex and this will be disturbing for both of you. So at the end, you will see each other less and he won't be your best friend anymore. \n\nBut on the other hand, if he is not much devoted to her and tells you to go on, then it is OK.