Lately I've been getting hit on by lesbians a lot. I'm wondering why?
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There is no way to know if a girl is gay or not. All woman look and dress their own way. We all sorta look alike in our own ways.\nGirls may think your a nice person and friendly. Theres nothing wrong with that. If they are trying to pick you up .\nIn a nice way you need to let them know your really not in to that kind of thing. They will understand.
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The only way to find out is to take small steps toward experimenting.  Take some time and get to know some girls that you know are bi or lesbian.  Hang out with them see what happens.  If you are unsure about that then just go hang out online at a place like anywebcam.com and get to know some of the girls on there and see if it interests you.  There is no harm is looking or even trying.
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I am not as aroused by lesbian sex as by straight sex.  I dont know why.  I never fantasize about two girls together.  In fact, I think it is kind of weird to see two girls making out...\n\nmorganch@yahoo.com
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This happened to me 17 years ago. I was in high school and there was this beautiful woman named Jennifer. Her mother was a teacher at our school and she was prom queen.. We use to stare at each other for days. One day she gave me a picture and wrote on the back. " I'm glad I finally found someone like me". She never told me what it meant :( . I think she wanted to tell me she was a lesbian but couldn't because of society. I was openly Lesbian in High School.. Now days have changed and maybe she will tell you. Try to mustard up the guts to ask her to do something with you. Then maybe you can get closer and be in the situation to ask her how she feels about lesbians...
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Because they are projecting their own homoerotic thoughts onto the women. You'll notice, most men who are crazy about lesbians are also homophobic. Psychologically they are saying 'YOU are the gay one..Not Me'. Most of the psychological community agrees on this.
212678
Ask her is she has ever had lesbianist tendancies. If yes, then tell her you have the hots for her. If not, go to the local gay club and pick up a girl who appreciates you.
570132
I have that Habit too, i am completely Heterosexual, but sometimes i find women attractive, it happens, i think it's completely normal. I just thinks it makes you an open minded person. If you want to prevent yourself from doing that, when you notice yourself looking at her because she is attractive try to find something that makes her unattractive and replay it in your mind...\nbest of luck
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I have no idea what the answer to this is, but have noticed the same myself.  Had a lesbian aquaintance who was always making fun of gay men, and a lesbian woman that I worked with hated gay men.  Did not understand it.
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Because you are more muture than them. you may have been in and out of relationships and now relise you are ready to settle down with one person. Another could be that your mates have been hurt by females and just want to have some fun with them, this way they can assure they wont get hurt.
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that happend all the time to me when i was single.\nguys love flirting with girls even if they have a gf.\nsome of them even pretend to be single.\n\nit's an attention game after all.  you were just tricked by him.\nignore those players and find a good honest one.
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females are always checking out other females. the beauty of being a female, is we can compliment one another and not feel gay. i some cases yes, we are attracted and in other cases it's admiration.
536194
did you try going into a lesbian bar?  plenty of bi women also go to places like that.
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i suggest that u let someone know, someone who can do something about it. You should also start watching yourself, b/c u might have a stalker. Don't get to worried, though. Depending on what's in the e-mails, your "stalker" might not be meaning to do anything serious. It just might be some guy that likes u or "hits on hot chicks..." had that happen to me before....
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Probably because that question is appearing on the gay,lesbian,page ummmm maybe thats why  lol
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Because they are really lesbians, but have not yet admitted it to themselves.  Or else possibly because they are being just plan unfair!
790207
You should stop obsessing over this and get on with your life.  There are lots of nice ladies who will like you.
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They seem to be hotter to you because they are unattainable, you always want something more if you know you can't have it.\nOne time to straight female coworkers wanted me to take them to a gay bar that I frequented. While we were there, I noticed how much they commented on the looks of the gay men and asked them about it. One of the girls responded "It's like window shopping, you like to look at things that you can't have."