Is it cheating if you receive oral sex?
610583
Conventionally;\nIt's cheating if you kiss another on the lips\nIt's cheating if you french kiss another \nIt's cheating if you masturbate or get masturbated by another\nIt's cheating if you have sex with another (i think you already knew this one uh!)\nSometimes it's cheating even when you are having sex with your partner but you think about the other (which doesn't explain what you are doing with your partner then...but i do understand to some having sex is just a cheap substitute of the Gym).\nTo make it brief, it doesn't take a full sexual intercourse to CHEAT. It simply takes the will do to it. The extent to which you do it can be affected by many factors (People around, sense of guilt, lack of time) but that doesn't mean you're being honest nor a simple kiss diminishes the hurting effect of being cheated.\nAfter all, to prove what i say, you simply need to wait till your partner will kiss someone else in front of you to see if your self-estime goes up or down or if you feel "special" to him/her.
1128904
Cheating is anything you wouldn't do in front of the person you're with. If they'd be fine with you cuddling with another person then it's not cheating, but if they would mind and you wouldn't do it in front of them, don't do it behind their back.
449045
My personal opinion, is that if you are doing something of a sexual nature with someone who is NOT your partner, it is cheating unless you have the partner's consent.\n\nOtherwise, it is a betrayal. You wouldn't be getting "caught" if it weren't wrong for your situation. You wouldn't be hiding out if it were ok.
1082334
Actually, according to a large amount of men, oral sex is not sex.\n\nI honestly am not sure about the answer to your question. I know in my state, oral sex is considered sex because it is actually illegal here. (Friend got a ticket once for doing that in her car with her bf) The charge was for 'performing an unnatural sex act'.
101837
Oral sex is just part of a wonderful sexual experience for two consenting adults. \n\nHowever, based on some of your previous questions I believe that you are a very young girl who has a lot of questions about sex.  \n\nOral sex is still sex, and carries some of the same risks of getting STD's.
425286
If you give the impression that giving oral sex is gross, a chore, a favor, or in some way not pleasurable for you, it takes so much away from the experience. It can be very pleasurable for both. I like the way it excites my boyfriend, and a little whipped creme seems to help! It's a great step in foreplay.\n\nThere is nothing wrong with it...you just have to come to an understanding on how far you will take it, as in...where it's going when he/you are there. And it can be just as pleasurable for women on the receiving end.  There are alot of articles and Q & A's on this question by searching the interenet, my suggestion...don't knock it til you try it!
973674
You can easily get an STD from oral sex--like herpes, AIDS/HIV... Use flavored condoms or if you are in a monogamous relationship you should both be tested before going without.
705420
Well, Men dont have to cheat, and SHOULDNT.  If your not happy with the relationship your in, than you should let it go before even thinking about cheating.  when it comes to STD's remember even if you practice "safe", theres STILL always a chance of getting an STD and even infecting your loved one (the innocent/noncheater)!!  another word of advice is............ "what comes around goes around"!!!!\n\nTreat eachother with respect and you will be surprised how happy you can be together!!  Goodluck!!!
1153907
no i'm not cheating......i love my guy n i'd never leave him no matter how hot the guy across the street is....you have very good princeples,don't let these idiots trick u into thinking cheating on ur partner is cool,cuz it's not hun.....it just hurts people n gives u a bad reputation..........good luck,luv ya
653081
Sex is really great as long as you are with someone you really love. Oral sex is fantastic, try it, you will probably like it. It is another way of showing him how much you love him
263023
That's like asking if making out in the coat room counts as infidelity.  It doesn't matter where you are.  If you are cheating one someone it's considered cheating.
1135666
I don't know how that myth got started.  It's almost like people think "Well if it rhymes it must be true."  Sorry chief, if you're in an exclusive monogamous relationship then eatin' is in fact cheatin'.
424495
Men don't see it as cheating. We see it as sex, and sex is fun and good. Men can keep sex and love completely separate, If women have sex even 2 or three times they begin to love. It is primal instinct. Women are driven to look out for the safety of the offspring and this is done by attaching themselves to an alpha male. Men are driven to propagate the species by spreading their seed as often and far as possible. We are not far from the caves.\n\nj.swaney@yahoo.com
192337
If you are asking, probably! Ask yourself two questions: Does it make you feel guilty? Would you object to your partner doing what you are doing? If you can truly answer NO, then you are the ONE man in the world who isn't cheating!
670151
"Technically" we consider it to be intercourse. (If I was asked if I wanted to/or had had sex with someone...that's what it would mean to me). Oral sex and foreplay are sexual activities, so I would consider myself involved in sexual behavior if things only went that far, but would not consider it the act of "sex".  I hope that makes sense!  You know us woman, we can't answer a simple question with a simple answer.
584871
sorry but cheating cheating as long as you have a threesome and both participate
181347
Yes I have cheated but I figure it was mutual because I had also caught him cheating and he did not know so I cheated on him with another friend of mine and went home to him so he could perform oral sex on me right after sleeping with someone else an hour ego. I would say I did it out of the anger of being with him for 5 yrs. and him throwing that away in one night.