I'm a 19 year old girl that is afriad of dying is that normal?
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I have been having fear of that lately also. Im 25 and i have 2 kids, Im in perfect health, but I have alot of anxiety and I know its all in my head. Im making myself "worried sick." Try to think positive, okay. Its hard for me to do that as well, but I try. best of luck to you. Im not sure if its normal, i think that people to go thru fears of different things though. Maybe youre just going thru alot right now. Dont let your mind get to carried away with things that most likely wont happen. 'Cause then you begin to play tricks on yourself and began to feel physically ill. Best of luck and hope I helped.
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You need to talk to someone about your fears of dying.  The are not crazy and very real fears but something that you need to talk about.  One thing to think about is a friend of mine who has died twice but been sent back because "it wasn't her time".  She has full well been on her way to heaven and is able to describe the wonderful feeling.  She can't wait to get back to heaven and has told me many times that if anything happens she does not want me or anyone else to start CPR on her.  You can bet I will honor her wishes.  You will not forget things when you die but will be able to see and reuninte with all the people who have died.
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Actually, it's probably more normal then you think it is.  Life doesn't have a manual and there's no "this is how you should live" guide for dummies.  Life is how you want to live it... just as long as you want to live it.  :)  It sounds like you do.   It just sounds, to me, that you have no way to cope with your pain.  And some how it needs to come out, and you only know one way to get it out and that's to feel it come out by cutting yourself.  Actually seeing a cut and feeling the cuts pain and maybe that is how it is released.  \n\nI read a book on a guy who attempted committing suicide and he was such an inspiration, not an inspiration because he lived but an inspiration because he actually felt enough to not want to feel anymore.  He said that his probably was that he had too much pain to cope.  Cope is a strange word too.  the ability to cope.  I suppose cope is a funny way of saying "handle" and yes, sometimes life is too hard to handle.  \n\nIf I was you, I would find an outlet.  yet every day i would take time to really find things I enjoyed about this world.  It might be as small as the smell of a flower or the smile of the toothless man on your way to work, but there has got to be something in this world, which makes you think "this makes it all worth while."  \n\nI believe we are all put on this earth for a reason.  Why or by whom, I don't know.  I don't have those answers and sadly, no one on Yahoo answers has those answers.  Yet, if we have a reason, I wonder what each of our missions must me.  \n\nI am sure you have a beautiful purpose.  :) I hope you find it soon.  You seem like a beautiful person.  \n\ntake care,\nheidi
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sure it's normal. the french call an orgasm "petit mort", a small death. don't worry, just say no to masturbation, and get a live partner.
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Please don't die. It's very important to me that you don't kill youself. I'm sure you are unique and you can discover beauty in life. Hope to read a question of yours tomorrow, in order to know that you are alive. S T A Y  A L I V E.. Every flower in a garden lives only a few days and think about the beauty it creates. Now imagine what beauty- in the precious lifetime you have- you can produce if you believe in yourselve! Don't let it get lost!
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It is very common for people to feel guilty for asking for help. Many people feel like they are just trying to 'act sick for attention' or whatever.  I believe that you want help and think you need it. You are not acting and not just seeking attention even if that is what part of you might be whispering.  I don't know you, but it sounds like you are having a very awful time right now and I really do believe that you are of great importance to those around you even if that doesn't remotely seem true.  Heck, I happy to even have you here to be typing to you.  Death is just too final.  You are taking antidepressants so perhaps these feelings of suicide are coming from the mood disorder you are suffering from.  It is nothing to be ashamed of! many many people suffer from things like this.  Believe me that it can and will get better! This is just one phase of your life and you have so much more joy to confront as you continue to move through life.  Seek help.  Call up a help hotline, they can be very helpful.\n\nHelp is out there.  I hope i have done a bit to help you. It is not much, but I don't want you to keep the world from having someone as special as you.\n\nAlso, I don't know how old you are, but younger adolescents sometimes react poorly to antidepressants and it can make them suicidal.  Call up your doctor.  Find the number and just call him yourself if you don't think your mom will help.  This may or may not be the case, but something to ask your doctor about.\n\nI will hope and pray that you will come to know how much of a joy you are to the world and that you will get past this and find out that this was a rough patch.... very rough.. but has passed.  It will pass. Find help and believe you can get past this.
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Oooh dear.\nYou're in trouble.\nBut the problem is not below your neck.\nTell your family and ask for help.\n\nIf you stay like this, your bone and tissue structure will be so weak when you get older that your life expectancy will decrease significantly.\n\nDon't wait any longer
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It shouldnt be unbearable OMG im gonna die painful....if it is see a doctor....maybe you arent ready
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You are normal.  If this were abnormal, your mother would be taking you to the doctor.  In the beginning, periods can be very irregular.  In fact, they can be this way throughout your teens.  When I was younger, mine came between 25 and 35 days apart once they got going.  In the very beginning (I was 11), they were even more sporadic.\n\nHave your mother buy you a book about the changes your body is going through to help you know what to expect and why everything is happening the way that it is.  Not only will this make you feel better, it will also give you a point of reference to know when something is NOT normal and when you should go to a doctor.\n\nA good one might be: \nWhat's Happening to My Body? Book for Girls : A Growing Up Guide for Parents and Daughters (Paperback)  by Lynda Madaras
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This is normal if youre like in a really bad situation an that happenes just think of the most disgusting thing u can think of an it will probably wear off. But yeah its normal every one your age and even from 13 has this.
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If you are passing out you MUST SEE a doctor.\n\nThis is not normal, nor is it safe.
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What is 'normal'?  When you can answer that you can answer your own question.\n\nThe chances of heart attack at your age are slim, assuming you are a 'normal' person.  In other words, as long as you aren't obese, do some exercise, eat sensibly and there is no history of heart attack at a young age in your family, it's not something you should worry too much about.\n\nAs for being normal, back in the 80s one of my younger sisters (she'd have been 12 or so) was constantly worried about the threat of nuclear war.  So as I say, what is 'normal'?\n\nMind you, if that is all that you have to worry about in your life then you are quite a lucky person.
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u r only 13. its normal. dont worry. it will take its own time.
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I am not sure how serious honey, but this definately is not normal..Have you told your mother or an adult about this? You really need to, because blood clots are nothing to mess around with.  It might be something that can be corrected very easily with medication.  I would not wait until something really bad happens.  Please talk with someone today about this.  The longer you wait the worse it is going to get.  Everything is going to be ok : )
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You are not clear as to what your question is.  You don't say how old you are.  Death is something that we all face and that you are ill is very sad.  I am sorry.\n\nDepending on your ages, good communication with your husband is vital.  I say this because different generations handle communication differently.  If you have good communication, it's important that you find a way, perhaps with a counselor, to talk about your fears.\n\nThe fact is that we all die.  When faced with this type of thing it's just more in our faces than when we age normally.\n\nFor your own fears, I suggest that you find a book called The Book by Alan Watts.  It may give you some insights which you may put into practice.  \n\nYou don't have to face this alone.  Dealing with the reality that you are facing will take courage.  Finding someone to talk to and a knowledgable person to speak with will help.  \n\nCommunicate your feelings to your husband, if you can and take care of your own needs, too.  \n\nBe brave.  Breathe deeply.
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Try to live my life to the fullest because I'll know that someday soon I won't be around much longer. I watched as my uncle slowly died from complications caused by AIDS. I was only 12, it was very hard on my family, especially my mom, because they were best friends. It's a terrible way to die.
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Yup, U want die, dont you? Tell you what, think of it that way, do not ever tell me that you are the most unlucky ones on this earth, no one is, as long as they are born. You are chosen among maybe thousand of infant to be on this earth, and as long as you are not in Africa, you can get over your problems. Of course, I am not your mother, but I can advise you to make the best out of life. From what I heard, a cancer patient has more hope than you. Anyway, get conselling, and always remember, we are here for you....(well, not we as in WE, but u know, ur parents and all that...., although i have a feeling they aren't...) good luck.