I am confused, Ladies please advice?
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She's a bit insecure, and like the idea of having you on a leash.\n\nshe is playing emotional mind games with you and keeping you hanging on, pretending that you may have a chance.\n\nShe may also have broken up with you because she wanted to start another relationship with someone else, and then the other guy blew her off - she is stuck in a rut and has no-one to give her attention - and she knows that you still have feelings, so she calls you again, and makes a re-connection.\n\nshe is playing games with you - trust me, I have done this to a few guys, it's not nice but it's part of life.\n\nif you really wanna give it another go, try and get back with her, but give her conditions and ground rules, so she doesn't take advantage of your naivety and vulnerability, cos she knows that you are a bit soft and gullible, etc... sorry.\n\nanyway, if i was you, i'd GET RID!
993472
You could beat yourself up for days trying to decipher the complicated code of women.  The best thing you could do is just ask her flat out.  Ask her if she is having doubts, ask her if she would want to try to work it out again.  If the answer is no, then it may hurt, but at least you'll know once and for all.
163749
WOW! She must really Love you if she is making sure that it is okay with you.  That is very promising.  Women can be better friends with males than females. I say you let her and then if it bothers you let her know.  It is obvious she considers what you think! Good Luck!
612992
That might be your interpretation of the situation. You need some counseling from a professional to help you figure out what is going on.\n\nGood luck!
346069
Maybe you wernt a good partner and she doesent want to talk to you, or possibly she still likes you but is mad. Maybe she likes you and someone else and is confused. You should be the go to guy in this case and go to the girl and tell her how you feel. Be prepared to either break up or be drawn closer when you talk to her, but dont get your hopes up....
106166
Well, it's something that cannot be answered just like that.  A woman just knows that a guy is for her or not for her.  It's instinct.  Hard to describe.  I would want to know if you're seeing someone or married.  That would be my first question if I met you in public.  You are good looking, BTW
981658
Been there done that.Yes shes confused.Shes probably not sure who she wants to be with so when something happens she bounces back to the other.Kinda like a safety net so she doesnt gert hurt.\nTell her you wont be with her unless she makes up her mind.And If she does it again, dont go back.Shes toying with you and will do it as long as you let her. BELIEVE me.
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
748450
I THINK THIS YOUNG LADY IS PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU\nI UNDERSTAND THAT BOTH 0F YOU HAVE THINGS GOING\nON IN YOUR LIFE.BUT TI SOUND LIKE SHE NOT REALLY\nTHE ONE FOR YOU. ALSO THE FACT THAT SHE 24 ,MAY\nHAVE SOMETHIING TO DO  WITH WHAT GOING ON WITH\nHER. ALSO SHE MAY HAVE SOMEONE ELSE IN THE PICTURE\nAS WELL.
657685
Give her time to breath and decide the next course of action. Sometimes we woman are polite about things and need to figure out what to say to a guy. She might be busy too. That's a good sign because she has her own life. Don't rush it.
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REPEAT THAT FOR ME I AM A LITTLE CONFUSED???
769042
No man or women should have to feel doubt when it comes to love. You cant enjoy the wondering about that. im sorry but it seems like maybe she hinted to you that she doesnt want you any more. some women dont see men for the brains that they have. and if she found out you lied.. well you know.
991908
Hope this works out for you. its probably a bit raw at the moment. could this possibly not be the first time this has happened, as im sure she is trying to tell you something and get a reactionary response. she wants you to want her and fight for her not just give up. im thinking that she wants you to commit after 8 years. she doesnt want to ask you to make it a more secure relationship possibly not long distance. she wants you to come up with that idea and put it to her. so she can feel loved and needed. thats what im thinking and im a chick and sometimes we can be a bit weird like that. so give it a go when things calm down have a honest talk with her and ask her what she really wants or doesnt want from you and decide what you are ready to give. if you arent ready to give everything - why have a relationship anyway. take care and give it some time.
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shes confused and doesnt know what she wants. yet at the same time she doesn't want to loose you. she will eventually talk to you again. but this time, don't be wide open and just take her back everytime she wants you back. cuz shes gonna do it again. make sure she knows your getting tired of this
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Gah, that could never get answered here man.  But on a high note, i'm jealous, u got most mens dream lady.  Most likely, if u tell her what u just told us, she would get a kick out of teaching u, that would be the best advice.  Anything u get told on here could easily be coming from a 40 year old virgin with a wild fantasy life and be disastrous for u.
92260
Are you kidding???\nWomen are so confusing it is scary. A way might seem right with one woman, and a total disaster with another.\nJust keep at your style, perfect it, and you will start to succeed.
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Go in with an open mind. \n\nSure, when women want to talk, it's always seems to be about the relationship, but go in with an open mind.\n\nShe wants to talk to you about it, whatever "it' is. You may be surprised.