What is the best strategy for a girl who plays hard to get and you like her??
601497
let it be!\n\nif you have a bird set it free \nif it comes back it is yours \nif it doesn't \nthen it never was\ni don't know who said that\nbut i know you have not been ordained to one person move on\nand let sleeping dogs lie\nshe may regret it and seek for your notice ,if she does that ever act cool and if you are still interested tell her you like her if not just be nice to her and say nothing more \ni'm sure that will serve her right
401555
be ur self\nif she really likes u for u thats the way to go\n\nand dont try and feel her up on the first date lol
661074
Dealing with a girl whom u love so much is easy. First make her feel easy with u and then go for a date with her. Then u can have some more dates and she feels more easy to move with u. Then u can automatically deal her. Thank You.
655804
flirt, of course,  heres some ways how to:\n\n1.charm her\n2.eye contact, look deep into her eyes\n3.smile when she looks at you\n4.compliment her!\n5.ask her for help at something shes really good at\n6.brush past her everytime you see her(it gets you noticed, and if you do it enough, she'll be like,cool what if he likes me)\n7.ask for her opinion on things(you'll let her be heard, and it shows you care about what she thinks)\n8.tilt your head slightly when she talks to you, (because it will show her your really interested in what shes saying)\n9.if you sit by her somewhere and she folds her arms, or puts her legs up, gradually do the same (mimicry is the greatest form of flattery)\n10.write lil notes to her pretending your bored or something, get her to write back, then you two can have your own secret little conversations, and doesnt every girl like getting a lil note once in a while? you can even probably tell if she really likes you or not dpending on if she writes back and how.\n \nthere, hope that helps!!!
150623
First of all, it's important that you be yourself.  Don't make yourself into what you think she may want, it'll end in failure.  Girls like to be approached by nice guys who are real.  Be inviting and fun.  Make her laugh and show that you have a genuine interest in being more than friends.  Don't rush anything, or be too bold, but do be honest.  Good luck!
943272
Bowling [?]\nSorry, that just popped out of my brain.\nIf you're trying to "score" on your 3rd date, then you need to do everything that you and your peers would not normally do that girls say that they wish their boyfriend would do. [Relax, you'll only have to do this once per girl.]\n\nExamples - Take her a restaurant that you hate but that she has said she loves. Go watch a chick-flick [romantic comedy] at a nice cineplex.  Ask her best friend for suggestions. Even better, ask her mom! Send her a bouquet of flowers the day of the date or arrive with a single long-stemmed rose. Dress nice. Brush & floss. Open doors for her. Wear a little bit of cologne and clean undies. Clean your bedroom before you leave for your date. \nYou sound like you're crazy about her. Express that emotion through extravagant gestures [that you can afford].
373443
play hard to get, but in a flirtatious way. like say something to make them smile, and keep them guessing your motives. it works because they stay up at night talking to their girlfriends,and playing with the thought of a possible hook up.
536369
No! play hard to get!!
172767
I would just say be yourself ... if she doesn't like you, then move on.  Don't try and be something that you think she'd like, once the act is over, you'll lose her interest again.
41557
the best way to get a girl.. be orginal, be funny, and most important of all be confident. if she says no just like it doesn't bother you.
979545
you already told her you like her, so now it's her turn to make a move. stay casual with her and act cool.patience is a virtue! good luck buddy!
1164662
Just ask her out.  Making a move and showing that you're interested doesn't make you a "player."  Quit worrying about it so much, get out of your comfort zone, and just DATE.
391162
court the girl you like!
928207
Maybe you should flip the script on her.  Reverse the situation and YOU play hard to get.  As a matter of fact. A great way to put her to the test.  Conjure up an imaginary love interest and tell her that YOU have plans.  Then sit back, look at your watch and count the seconds until she comes running behind you like a little puppy.  Girls love what other women have.  Whether it's their, shoes, purse, or their man.  Then you will be able to tell if she's real.  She doesn't want anyone else to have you, but she doesn't wanna do what it takes to keep you!!
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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if its going to happen then try and prolong the wait for him as long as you can.guys love it when a gal plays hard to get,especially if the playing hard, is done in a sexy and flirty manner.Then when you finally give it up,he'll be loving every bit of it.and give it to you right.\nEnjoy!
338376
This worked for me a few years ago... My ( now x girlfriend ) played hard to get... I ended up asking her out at one point... Anyways, play hard to get, and when the time is right ( if God allows it ), the guy will ask you out... TRUST ME... IT WORKS...