u think its ok leave, a guy leaves a pregnant girl for someone else cuz he didnt know how to face the pressure
607972
"""""Double standard alert""""""\nIf a woman pregnant and she dont want to be with the guy other women cheer her on telling her to raise the baby by herself and take the guy to child support \nIf a guy leaves a woman and she is pregnant, he is wrong no questions asked- this is wrong\nLET FAIR BE FAIR
566069
People, enough.  If you let him do it, then you should leave and not be around crap like that.  You women are strong, stand up for youself instead of bitchin about it.  Geeze
164943
You are poor girl,you know that he has a gf and she is pregnant and will give him his baby..what is your place between them? I think he is just using you for his desires
426931
no!!! he made his choice to give you up. no offense. but he went off and got another girl pregent. if you take him back you are creating difficulties for yourself, him, the mom, and the baby and both families. he made his choice. he is missing out on life while you are enjoying it. plus being single ROXS!!!!
894128
If guys got pregnant, there'd be A LOT LESS SEX going on!!!\nAnd we don't get pregnant by ourselves, do we?\nAnd while you're trying to start crap, let's explore the reason why men leave their pregnant girlfriends.\nAre they immature? Yes. Are they willing to 'play' but not 'pay'? Yes. Are they God fearing? No.
585528
i would but not for too long, i wouldn't want to get stuck with the kid to take care of. also why is she prego with out the man by her side... sounds kind of fishy, but everyone has their reason.
216584
I dont think that just because you leave him that it will sacrifice your daughters happiness. You dont have to be together for him to be in her life. You're doing more harm than good for all three of you by staying in an unhappy relationship. If you truly care about him, let go and give him and yourself a chance to find someone to make you both truly happy.
238870
First of all, winning his heart has nothing to do with having that baby.  To do with winning his heart.  I am assuming that you know him well enough to know what his feelings for you are.  If not just talk to him about it.  As for the baby I sure hope that the decision you made to keep it was for the right reasons and that you are prepared to raise it without this lad.  Don't mix the two together and start telling the truth and to hell with both of your mates or so called mates.
140504
Umm .. that relationship comes with to much baggage. A baby and a husband you dont need!! You can surly find a nice single girl.
723655
Uh, no.  This guy's a loser.  He leaves you for someone else, gets her pregnant, then leaves her and wants you back?  What are you thinking?  Well, maybe you're not.  Let me do it for you, tell him to take a hike and get out of your life.  You don't deserve him.
992833
Leave him well alone sweetheart, he is cheating on his girlfriend with you. You and your babies dont need that sort of hassle in your life........ My mum always used to say "if it's meant for you it wont pass by you". Let him sort his life out if it's meant to be he will  come back to you without the baggage though. good luck beauty !
1153968
I think the first thing you need to do is get rid of this man.  If that is the kind of life he wants to live, let him live it without you.  I know it's easy for me to sit here and say that, but do you really deserve a man who is going out and getting someone else pregnant?  I understand your concern for the innocent baby, but if there really is a problem in the home contact DCFS and let them deal with it.   Do yourself a favor and put some serious thought into just why you are fighting so hard to stay with this man.  You deserve better, no woman deserves to be treated like this.
415007
Don't go back with him. if you did want a baby then you should get married first. but he'll just do it again and i'm sure that he slept with this girl for more reasons then u think
162605
No, it's not okay. You guys are way way way too young. I cant imagine what I would have done if I would of been pregnant at that age. I am now 21 and pregnant. Its hard enough now, but think of your financial assets. Can you afford a baby? Are you emotionally stable for a baby? Are you gonna be there to support the girl while she's pregnant? (b/c we need A LOT of support during pregnancy). Think this over, you have a lot going for you evidently, and if I were you, I wouldnt want to mess it up at 18. You got your whole life ahead of you, go have FUN and enjoy being a NON PARENT for a while at least, and enjoy your youth. It dont last too long. Good luck. And stay pregnant free!!
900553
Depnds on the guy I guess, and how serious they were in the first place. If they are going out with someone else the next day, than you definately made the right decision by letting them go.
595709
Trust your instincts, know that the season for this relationship has probably passed, and move on. It's better for a child to live with one happy parent than two miserable ones.
679850
You should be honest with the person your with. Why can't you leave? Due to maoney or kids? Remember the kids will adjust and if for money it's not the most important thing in the world...