what do you do when ?you fall for someone and you dont have a credit card to make contact??smile only noContac
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then it might be a scam
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go outside!! it's a lot better to find a gf/bf when you actually MEET!! good luck!
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Don't 'be a card', and try to rekindle a burnt-out fire - by sending this bum a greet or gift ! [That's at least 5 to 25 dollars saved !]\nLet West be West, and East remain East - and do not waste ur time, imagining that this 'twain shall meet' once again !\nJust forget about this soul-less guy, and move on with ur own life : There are plenty of nice, decent and thoughtful men still around - for u to pick and choose one from !\nCheers !
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Yes.  You can fall in love with someone over the internet.  It is like meeting a guy from a bar.  You really don't know what their intentions are or if they are who they claim to be.  Love is a risk.  You have to be willing to take that chance.  Don't live the rest of your life what if.  If you get your heart brok- so what, move on with life.  I did.  I used to talk to someone that I never met.  I was falling hard.  We talked about everything.  Then...poof kramarillo_1 was no more.  He disappeared.  I did not even have closure.  But I got over it.  I dust myself off and gave it another shot.  I started talking to this other dude.  He sounded mean when we spoke on the phone.  It sounded like he had no emotion in his voice.  He came by plane to see me.  After that...game over.  Soon after that, I was selling all I owned and traveling with only what could fit in my car to start a new life with him.  I truly feel like Cinderella.  I have never been more in love.  I remember when we started talking.......we would have 5 hour conversations and talk periodically throughout the day.  We could not get enough of each other.  Even though we were different in many ways.......we completed each other.  I am so glad I took that chance.  Just imagine if I listened to my friends and family.  I would probably be single and lonely once again.  I found my other half.  But you do have to be careful.  There are many crazy people out there.  By talking to this person on a regular basis the true side will reveal itself sooner or later.  I have experienced the most mannerable person turning into a complete stalker.  You will feel it.  You know what's good.  Good Luck.
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Youve never seen each other? Hmmm well it would seem you are long overdue to meet the girl you love. You should prolly come up with a way to meet for the weekend and go from there, u know? And of course I agree with Beauty tell her your having these feelings and its time for you guys to move to the next step OR move on with your lives. Good Luck and I hope you get all you want in life sweety either way. God Bless
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It works.  I met my bf of almost 3 years through online dating.  That doesn't mean I didn't meet alot of incompatible people.  I used online dating on and off for about a year before I met him.  \n\nOnline dating is just another way to meet people, but it shouldn't be the only way you meet people.  If you're banking on it working, it probably won't because you've invested too much emotionally and your expectations will colour your experience.  It works when you stop hoping each person you meet will be the one and instead, decide to just have fun with the experience, regardless of the outcome.  Yes, even a bad date can be fun.  Think of the anecdotes you can share with your friends.\n\nI find it takes a few weeks to get a feel for how things work.  Then, it's up and down for awhile depending on who you come into contact with.  When it doesn't feel fun anymore, TAKE A BREAK.  Come back in a few months.  Change your profile to reflect how you're feeling.  \n\nIt's important that you feel good about yourself or you won't attract the people you want because who wants to be with someone who's down on themselves?  Online dating is really a reflection of how you're  feeling.  When you feel good about yourself, your online experience improves.  When you feel bad, it tends to be a not so good experience.  \n\nI was about to pull my dating profile because I found I was meeting lots of people through offline methods.  However, my friend pointed out that it wasn't costing me anything (financially or emotionally) if I just left my profile up.  \n\nI thought she made a good point, so I decided to rewrite my profile one last time and put it out there.  When I rewrote it this time, I stopped caring about what other people would think about what I wrote or how they might judge me.  Instead, I wrote a profile that reflected exactly how I felt and who I was at that moment.\n\nAnd then, I started to meet interesting people.  Shortly thereafter, I met my bf and things have been going well since.
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If he doesn't even call you, then the feelings are probably not mutual. Love is soooo much better when it's reciprocated. Find someone who loves you in return.
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Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
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this sounds something that has happened to me recently so i'll tell you what i think is the best thing to do...in my opinion the guy is scared of hurting you more in the future so he keeps his distance so you don't get too close in the wrong way...one way you can help this, is to just call him up and invite him to your place to play cards with you and some other friends or just to hang out...or invite him out to go to the new movie playing in town or just a casually lunch at McDonalds....well i hope this helps a little if you need anything else let me know
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if it's only been a month, it's probably not that big of a deal\nand he might not care for you like you want him too right now.\nmaybe he'll come around.\nsounds kind of pointless to pursue him, but good luck
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hey life's short, make it fun while you can, you never know where it could lead, and if you find a mutual attraction, GOOD FOR YOU, good luck, and i hope he calls back- just take your time, lots of nutcases out there
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I am in the same boat. There is this guy who I am totally falling for, but we are taking things slow...as in just friends for now...slow. We talk, we laugh, we just have fun, we have so much in common, including our birthdays...LOL. I would take it as a definite sign that you are head over heels in love and that you just want to spend every waking moment with that person. Don't worry, you're not alone, I know exactly how you feel right now.
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If you feel like you'd like to know her better, then give her a call.  When you talk to her, you can figure out who the guy was and if you'd like to pursue things further.\n\nI don't see how a simple conversation can hurt anything.  And, if she gave you her card and asked you to call....it probably means nothing is serious with her guy friend.\n\nAnyway, nothing like good old fashioned straight talking conversation, to work it all out.  Ya never know what might happen!
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If I was truly involved and falling for someone, I highly doubt their immigration status would mean anything to me.  It's just a piece of paper.  I would certainly continue dating.
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I would still talk with her. After all, sometimes you can have the most fun when you don't have much money. I am a helpless romantic and I would cook something up and we could go to a local park and have a picnic and other times can just plug in a movie and cuddling together. That doesn't cost anything.
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Trust me if you don't feel it it's not there. Go with your gut. you'll know when you've hit the jackpot. You can't force yourself to be into someone trust me I've tried and it never works.
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I have dated a few guys on line. My advice is this. Stay away from sites that are free. Pay the $25 usually men who are willing to pay are more genuine and are looking for a real relationship.  I have met a few crazies but 90% are nice men who are either shy or just busy with work