Please help....I'm really scared!!!?
605912
It will be just like if you were pregnant and they did the thing with the jelly on your stomach and used a little roundish type object and rub it on your belly like when they look for the baby...you probably won't even have to get totally undressed...just wear something comfy that you can pull down a bit (just below your navel) and a shirt that you can pull up (just under your bra).  It isn't scary at all and it doesn't hurt.  They can see gallstones and such with this procedure.
130235
We need more information. What are you scared of exactly? Are you afraid to leave the house or afraid to speak your mind...i'm not fond of clowns myself. With only this little bit of info i would say maybe find an outside party like a counselor.
552463
I don't know..but thanks a lot..I'm going to bed and now I'm scared.
920048
try looking at the skirts and blouses last. maybe take a cooking class, joining the theater class. Put yourself in the middle of the fear. things will get better.
35300
I'm going through the same thing ... fear in general that something horrible will happen to my children. Poor little guys, I rarely let them out of my sight and I know that's not healthy for them ... I've tried everything from counseling to meds, even stopped watching the news and reading the paper because of all the horrible things that happen. Nothing worked. So this is a little out-there, but it's what I do ... it works for me.\nMy grandma, whom I treasured, passed away 2 years ago. I know she's in Heaven watching over me and the kids, so when it gets really bad, I just say "hey Maw, hang on to this (the fear) for me for a while, will ya? It' a heavy burden and I can't handle it on my own."    Not sure how, but she always manages to make me feel better ... even now. Maybe you can try asking for help from Above too ... and just remember: Change the things you can , accept the things you can't, and pray for the wisdom to know the difference. Good luck!
24436
Yeah, have some fun and new experiences. And if u get scared u'll get some comfort 4rm him. hehe
447455
I think u have been shocked with electic current recently. The fear will be finish by time. By the way its good to be very cautious with electricity.
994357
I have two kids...and you will get over that fear when you do to.  \n\nBTW my hubby has never seen this in 11 years...but the kids well...they just come on in.
402136
have you been watching nightmare on elm street? seriously heres what to do buy some lavender oil from the health shop sprinkle it on your pillow drink some warm milk (if u like put a tiny drop of whisky in it) take a warm (not hot )bath then get someone u really trust to sit with you as you drift off whenever i get freaked i make my partner go downstairs and make friendly noises like walking around watching tv etc etc you will wake up what is happening to you is a form of panic attack all u can do is talk yourself through it believe me it scared me really bad but now i have trained myself to tune in to myself when i feel really bad its hard but you will get through this another good tip is find a radio phone in show and listen to that as you drift off or try talking books hope this helps thinking of you rachael X
580123
tell him straight that he dont stand a chance.mention to him that he's scaring you..just tell him what you really fee..but in a nice way ok? goodluck!
645932
Watch out for the blonds. You have a right to be afraid. They are really, really dangerous. Careful.
161573
hey thans for the advice on my boyfriend i just really am scared! oh and mine is trapped in the closet all parts its just drama i love to hear it but not be in it
584392
If you're scared, let it go, you're not ready.  you don't have to force yourself to do something you're scared of.  How old are you?  what are you scared of?  pregnancy?  STD'S?  You should be scared cause condoms are not always reliable, they do break, especially if you don't know how to use them properly, or if you use with the wrong lubricant.\n\nYou also need to make sure you really trust the guy you're with.  Is he pushy?  does he keep bugging you for it?  If he loves you he will respect that you need time to be ready.  Sex is a big step and you should ONLY do it if you feel he will be there by your side in case anything goes wrong.  Do you think he'll be there if something goes wrong?\n\nRemember that having sex involved sharing your most intimate and vulnerable moments, bodily fluids, can you trust him with that? \n\nIf you're older and still have a hard time, then it may be time to seek counseling on why you're afraid to be vulnerable.  Were you molested, raped?  it might take time, just make sure that you're with someone who wants nothing but for you to feel secure, and ready to do so.
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Let everything cool down tonight but tomorrow sit your father down and be honest and tell him you are scared and worried about what happened. If you have a trusted family member ie. aunt, grandmother, mother then I would let them know what is going on. If this happens again then I would talk to a counsler at school to get them involved before things get out of hand.
1117045
That my husband will be sent off to Iraq any day now. It scares the hell out of me and I can't do anything about it. They had a set day for him to leave, but that changed, which is good because he is still here. But now it's up in limbo when he will actually be leaving and it's killing me because I won't be warned or anything in advanced.... that just sux cause I'm so use to him being here, and then him being pulled away from me and going to the worst place ever (Iraq).... I can't imagine him being there in that danger and everything! It just scares me soooo much!!!!!
945745
Don't be scared. Your hormones are out of wack. You need to see a doctor. They will probably do a blood test. It doesn't hurt.
642921
yes....it`s TERRIFYING!!!!!!   :(  I HOPE YOU`RE BETTER, NOW!!!