i have been dateing this guy for almost 3 months?
608100
Give him a little something, I mean, it is only 3 months.
245371
No, if you have only dated for 1 month, you havent begun to really know each other.Take your time to see if you have the same interest and to let your feelings for each other develope or not develope.The relationship is still new. wait awhile and see if you still feel the same.
111324
you have been datong him for 3 months right? well then tell him that you want it to be serious.
138079
i think he's gotta commitment problem. if u go w/ him, he shows signs of being a potential cheater. go 4 someone else! u can do better.
876514
It is three years later, and you are both three years older and more mature.  Now is definitely time to find that chemistry again. If you still care about this guy, go and re-introduce yourself to him.  He may not be available right now, but it doesn't hurt to find out. :-)\n\nGood luck!!
934429
Don't ask him b/c then he's going to take it as if you have been waiting around for him to come back to you.  Talk to him, try to act as non chalant as possible, and see what kind of vibe you get from the context of the conversation.  You dated him so you know what he's about and will be able to decipher better than anybody what's he's getting at.
1055229
take a hint... if he is dating someone else while dating you... he is just after some action. Move on, find someone that is right for you, that makes u feel good, that treats you right. good-luck
38457
Yeah, I guess he's a possesive guy - be careful with that, he may not be the guy of your dreams...after all, a relationship is based on trust. Think again.
826906
it is kind of a man thing but i would wait for him to ask you again and if it dies down than you need to ask him wat was up. but wait like 2-3 month
664776
Hmmm you seems like a girl with right head who knows what she wants.i agree with you,wait for some more time and see where things go and if he is really not ready after summer which is about 6 months or so then he really dont want to be with you in long term thing and yes seems like he really do like you.i wish you all the best and i hope you get what is best for you.
114235
Unfortunately, you can never know for sure if a relationship will last. You don't even seem to be sure that YOU want to be with him for the rest of your life. If you were, you wouldn't be asking this question. But in reality, it takes a lot longer than three months to get to know someone, so I say just try to get to know him a little better and ask yourself if he's someone you want to devote your life to. With your commitment, it can become reality.
785678
He is extreeeeemely busy... if you are "dating" and he hasnt contacted you... eh... well.. he is a man.... and welcome to the game of "love"
788565
I wouldn't sleep with him yet. 1 month isn't long enough to be able to judge what his true motives are. Make him sweat a bit longer. If he likes you, he'll wait. If he waits, you know he's with you because he likes you, not just because he wants to get it on.
888863
It sounds like he's making every effort he can to see you. Some guys just aren't real open about being affectionate in public...that shouldn't stop you from seeing him. He's calling 2 or3 times a week & flying in to see you...sounds like he's really interested. Give him a chance!
305027
Well just tell him, explain it the way you did here. Since you two are already intimate, no guarantee that he will wait around the three months. In the future wait longer before you become intimate with someone, instead of changing your mind after wards, and cutting them off. That is going to send some pretty mixed signals. Hope it works out for you, if he does stick around he's a keeper ;)
299364
Absolutely not! Just tell him you needed some time because it came as a shock and ask yourself if you want to date him ; if not ... try to explain him kindly that you don't really think about him as being your boyfriend and that this wouldn't be fair to him in the end
120657
A guy thinks..."SCORE!!!".  The fact that he called you back and is still dating you doesn't really mean that much.  You could just be easy for him to hit.  Test it.  Tell him how you feel about the situation and tell him you want to take a break from sex for a while (a couple of months at least), and restart your relationship on a non-physical basis.  If he really likes you for who you are there will be no problem and he will respect your need.  If not he'll hit the bricks and you'll be better off and you will have learned a lesson for next time.