should i contact him?
608195
If you were good friends in school then there is no reason not to.\nUnfortunately as we get older we get so busy at times that we forget about the great friends we had in the past. There are so many people I wish I would have kept in touch with, but did not. \nSo, don't make that mistake.\nAlso, it has been my experience that when You are thinking about another person alot like that, he or she usually is or has thought about you.\nDo it!
680878
Well go e-mail him and ask him.
465214
It depends on who broke up with who but you could contact him, but just don't sound too desperate. Just act friendly, ask how he's doing and maybe you two can hang out at some point. Then let him make the next move.
521746
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)
633956
Just wait for his call, he will contact you again and you wil soon enough find out what kind of relationship he wants with you. By the way, what kind of relationship do you want with him? That you have to ask yourself too
223592
I'd just write to him and say that you want to keep in touch by e-mail.  :-) \n\nDon't worry about the whole secret admirer business. :-)\n\nStu :-)
1092856
well you need to comunicate with him..you show a concern so get up the nerve and ask what you need...
701708
hey...this is almost similar to my situation! only i see him evry day at school (university) we're good friends and email...contact him thru phonebook or something...track him down!
1010776
Sorry to say this, but do not contact him again.  He's probably freaked out and isn't that into you so he doesn't really want to tell you that.  If he wants to be with you or he likes you back, trust me, he will MAKE SURE to get in touch with you.  And if you contact him again, it will freak him out even more and he'll probably never want to take a chance.  Just be patient and wait to see if he contacts you, and if not, move on.  There are plenty of other guys out there who would love to be your man.
321098
yes!!! if he likes u, he would've called by now. hes probably playing mind games with u. he's stringing u along.  move on!! lots of guys out there who would actually call.
434928
How long have you been talking to him??\n\nI think you need to meet before you can truely know what you feel.
721287
You said he talks to you when he has a problem - does that go both ways?  If it does, it should be okay to ask him for his number, in case you need to talk.  Then see where it goes.
188265
i really dont know how to help you because guys are different from girls...if it was a girl then i could help since i am one...anyways, honestly, if he hasnt sent a reply in over a month, i dont think he ever will : ) but i could definitely be wrong! mayeb he never got the email or something? just go with your instinct!
907996
maybe you should take intiative..but dont come on to strong...dont show him that you like him so much just make it seem like a chat buddy.....i was actually talking to my now current bf for like 2 months b4 i actually met him....and one day he surprised me with a call....so ya. just go for it...if this guy doesnt respond to your call then well dont waste your time on him.\n\n\nhope i helped :]
400172
phone him   or send a letter
239955
ask him. but be careful
1053973
Give him your number this time and talk on the phone.  See if your personalities click.