why does the guys that appear to be amazing end up being this loser?
612460
Because you are making your initial judgment on superficial things, looks good, lots of money, nice car, whatever. Only once you get past those things can you really tell if someone is worth your time or not.
545761
We think we are not worthy of you.\n\nAt least that's how it sounded in my head.  More often people call it 'lack of confidence', or a 'fear of rejection'.  Girls don't realize how truly terrifying they are to a young guy.  But most guys get over it.  Or at least, they meet a girl who they feel comfortable enough around.  It's perfectly normal.  It even has a name.  It's called 'Natural Selection'.
297812
I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
712310
thats bad. i think its wrong. i mean you souldnt just not like someone because they look bad. (just as an example.) or the opposite, completly fall for a big jerk because he looks hott. i just HATE it when people do something like that. both as just examples. i've seen it happen a few times though.
178886
Well that sounds too good to be true, but then again theres me who always ends up with players and I think I am a nice person who is attractive and yet I'm lonely so whats with that?  Maybe some people just have bad luck.
550218
men are like that cause they are big babies..  it's pathetic i know  but thats just the way it is.. love em or hate em..lol
355074
because they are stuck with that guy already and are unable to move on, cause they already have low self esteem and think that no one else will take them... so they just conform
884385
Most like the assertive type,,, a take control kinda guy,,,,,,,, but they are the first to trash guys because guys are just ass holes,,,,,\n\nnow if they dated more quiet reserved guys they would see a whole other side,,, but the "nice guy is usually left in the dust,,,
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I think they must know they lack, so in the beginning they are extra special to the girl.  They treat her like a queen and make her feel worshipped.  Then, after they have the girl hooked is when the bad comes out.  I smart girl that has enough self-esteem to know better would get out fast at this point.  A lot of times, the guy makes the girl believe she is nothing without him and he demolishes her self-esteem so that she doesn't have the strength to leave him.
293041
Honey,I have tried so many ways of meeting that special guy.  You know what? I have met alot of nice people and not so nice.  You watch and see, it will happen when you least expect it
453195
They have low self esteem,have the illusion that they can change him,or are comfortable in the relationship they are in or at least they feel it is easier to stay with the jerk than be alone.\n\nI don't want a loser or abuser at all,just not sure where the good guys are.
886829
Some guys can be real jerks.
397359
Because they're afraid to be judged infront of their "guy friends." \n\nGood luck!\n\nMichelle
579948
because you have an idea of who they are and in the end they turn out to be so messed up!! \nyou just can't see how bad he is! not even the little details until he/she hurts you really bad!! and notice he is not the one! it sucks
908523
Thats what turns some guys into bad boys..\nThe nice guys get tired of the women taking their baggage out on them and become assholes.
147226
Because they can if you allow them.   Not all guys are like that, but the ones who are deserve the self-absorbed a**holes they attract!
604440
alot of men are intimidated by good-looking women. they feel that they don't have a chance. they end up losing in the end to a total jack-ass. jack-asses will do anything to get a woman so they can fuck-them-and-dump-them. they, in turn, ruin it for the guys that would probably be the best thing that ever happened to that woman. it does happen the opposite way sometimes as well. if a guy looks clean-cut and is very polite, give him a chance. remember, arrogance is generally a bad thing. confidence is another...