hooking up? Help me figure this out?
610640
stay the good girl you have been this long without a man a little longer won't kill you and anyways at that age they are only interested in one thing
963948
Forgive yourself for an error in judgment and focus on what would be in your best interest at this point.  The guy satisfied his sexual curiousity and can't let go of a minor offense (i.e., hanging up on him).  A guy like this will only hold you back.....walk away now and you'll be proud of yourself for putting your own needs first.  You will gain strength as time moves on.  It's just a matter of developing the resolve to stick to your guns; as you meet new people and start to date new guys, this memory will fade.  Trust your own instincts and move on.  Good Luck
287145
Kind of like Hithere mentioned, but more specific.  If you just ask to hang out with him sometime that won't do anything.  You're missing a specific date and time in there and what to do.  The guy is just going to be like "Sure, let's hang out sometime." and that's it.  So you have to have something specific in mind.  "Are you free this weekend?"  Yes or no answer.  "Would you like to go to... with me?"  Again, yes or no.  "Cool, what time can I pick you up?"
494143
Love is treating me real bad. Three different women want to have sex with me this weekend, but ... \n1) one of them is married, and 2 live with boyfriends.\n2) I have a girlfriend who lives in another state. I haven't  cheated yet, why start now?\n3) I am skeptical of a woman who solicits sex from me. I just am. All the fun is in the chase. That is where intelligence comes in. How can I be subtle with a woman who is oblivious to the subtle things in life?\n\nThis may come as a surprise but I have had enough sex. I am ready to shut the game down, but every girl I meet thinks I am still a player.\n\nI'm serious I have got to have a girl with a brain; no compromise. I don't care beautiful a girl is. What I want to know is; can she spell beautiful?\n\nSo ...
191296
are you serious?\ngoto yahoo chatroom and pick-up someone there to hooked with you.  We're more interested to answer questions here than be bothered by that.  Sorry darling...! no offense to you.
685922
Why is that bad? It's natural that you would feel that way. If you want to hook up, go for it. Just make sure the guy understands you will be moving soon. Be honest about your feelings. Go and lean on someone, girl! We all need that from time to time.
398842
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
737760
I'm in the same boat as you... just use this time to re-center yourself.  Go out and just sit and have a beer by yourself.  Just sit and think.  A similar soul might approach you and share in your misery for a while.  Eventually, it will pass.  If you want a shortcut (which I'm not recommending); playing on a girl in a weak situation will make you feel powerful if a little guilty.  I am NOT advocating date rape of ANY SORT!  However, alot of guys are too nice for their own good and don't realize that a 24 year old woman is completely in control of her situation.  Smooth talking and being a player does not necessarily mean you are taking advantage of someone.  Girls like sex just as much as guys, and almost every girl worth her salt has some douchebag at home that they are on the rocks with.  In other words, go hook up with someone hot, by any means necessary short of physical force or breaking up a marriage.  It will boost your confidence in the short run, but don't forget the "re-centering your self" part.  It's the only way you will find true happiness.
37945
If she is a friend, a good friend, she should understand your motive and respect your honesty.Who know maybe somewhere down the road you two probably can hook up and see if there are any sparks for each other.If she is a friend she should understand.
605332
lol... you are hooking up with the wrong guy.. most men i know luv it!!find a guy that isn't all about himself in bed, and who wants to see you pleasured. usually the older ones are better girl. more wise and more experienced, and boy is there something to be said for experience...
549971
I have the same problem with guys, maybe we should hook-up ;D
182955
*Pondering a moment for I do not see the prob here* So ask the guy you are most interested in out. It is the Naughties (double zero decade you pervs so keep it clean) after all. Take the initiative and snag that guy...
146579
If you are having this kind of a delimma, you may not be ready to be in an involved relationship.  You need to find someone you can date and have fun with but not be seriously involved with.  It is hardly fair to the person you are allegedly committed to for you to be considering a hookup.
1032742
hook up with one of her friends
281282
Hey I was hoping for an answer to this one as well but I'll answer instead.  \n\nRemember all the game you have going on, you know you are an awesome person!\n\nIf you have something in common, use that to see if there is a connection.  Don't force it, but see if there is any spark between you.  You know when it's there.  If not, let it go.  It's a big world, and there are lots of guys who would like to get to know you better.  :)
937566
Just do whatever makes you feel confident. Girls like guys that are confident so just go for whatever you feel comfortable with. I don't think there is a wrong way to hook up unless it's by your parents. I have been hooked up using both methods and they all worked for me.
547918
There's tons of ways to meet women. Maybe try personal ads and party lines. If you meet anyone are are worried about whether or not you'll want to hook up with em, meet at a bar or somewhere else public and talk for a lil while first. Have a friend call you about 20 minutes after you meet so you can make an excuse to leave if you don't have the heart to tell her that you're not attracted to her. If all is going well, and you and her click, take it from there. You need to meet up with someone that has mutual interests. If you're only interested in sex, you need to hook up with someone whose only interest is that as well.