What would you do if a guy says he loves you but then says he can't have the relationship?
605837
I've just been told the same thing, he says it's too much work, which I think means, I'm just not worth the effort to him, so I dont think he really loves me.
463790
Find someone else who will deserve my love and affection. I won't accept any other relationship that he has whether it is a fling or a serious thing or a one-night thing!\n\nHow will I deal with it? Ditch him and find another.
1146264
asked him why he hasnt left his gf yet if he truly loves you. He might be just using you or just making you a "in case" person.. If he cant give you a definite answer, you should just tell him that you cannot wait for him anymore and that you are moving on..
597690
Well remember the old saying when you love someone let them go if they come back they were yours and if they dont they were never yours..I think he doesnt want to be with you....move on girl there are so many other guys out there...Get over him and go get yourself a new guy;)) believe me its more fun.
709874
You probably don't want to hear this but...I don't think he loves you, I think he likes you and he was probably horny. If I was you I would just keep him as a friend and start dating other people and leave my options open. Good luck.
371167
a relationship which is weak cannot last. Move ahead in life if he has already decided to breakup
529388
it could be and it also could be he wants to move on but does not know how to tell you.  If he is not into the relationship end it before you get hurt
969544
"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere. \nIt sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
383881
You can't.  Period.  Sorry, but if you went into the relationship thinking you could, don't ever do that again.  Let him know that you won't tolerate being controlled, and if he can't live with that, than walk away as soon as you can.  He could turn violent.
1054086
he is stringing you along because he doesn't have any other options and you let him. Cut it loose, if he was still in love with you, he would want you with him all the time
642616
It sounds like a tough situation.  If I were you I'd keep trying.  Just be prepared if he gives you an answer you don't want.  Have you given any thought to what you will do if he says he isn't into you like that?
584431
it sounds like he just want's a "friends with benefits" relationship. Tell him that you want a real relationship, or nothing. You don't want to be held back from something new because he can't make up his mind.
966842
Your guy has too many girlfriends.  Don't accept it - move on.  He has way too many things pulling his attention from you.  Love is a passive emotion - we all love lots of things and people.  If he can't walk the walk he needs to go, and please don't try to force him to do what you want through guilt or "but you said you loved me!!" hysterics.  He has a child and that should be his number one priority.
1109955
ask him how he feels about the relationship and tell him your unsure about the limits of you love and c wat he says
196440
If you are not in a relationship, then the line has already been drawn.  He's overstepping his boundaries, and needs to be put in his place.  If he's possessive and you're not in a relationship already, please don't get into a relationship with him.
202755
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
44882
A guy would do what you allow him to.  If you endure the hurt and stick around and watch as he bring others over, he'll continue to do so.  \n\nHe knows you love him, no doubt.  If he loves you as well, you'll have to make him prove it or you'd have to get out of it and find what you want in a relationship.  \n\nAdditionally, you need to empower yourself and gain your independence....you'd be surprise the fish you'ld hook when you have control