what to do about my ex bf?
604211
just ignore him and move on\n\nthanks; i just reached 2000 points!
1016569
What did his mother do to you? I mean, come on. What kind of friends ditch you after your guy's ex told them not to talk to you? Drop those 'friends' that you had. You are dating a guy who is single. She's his EX, remind her that. \n\nYou're not doing anything wrong. Your college mates are just babies, so ignore them and find some other mature friends to hang out with. \n\nAfter all, your bf and you love each other and you're not doing anything wrong - who cares what the others think? You're not dating your bf to make them happy. You seriously don't have to care about them. Better friends will come along.\n\nGood luck!
666915
Think about all the reasons why he's your ex...after all that thought and consideration, you'll realize he's your ex for a reason...Move on!
133365
There is not much you can do.  From experience it is best to keep your distance. It will make it easier for your ex in the long run trust me.  Cut your losses and move on before you worry about something that just takes time to heal the wounds. If you keep hanging around and continue to permit yourself to be subjected to him you could possible make it harder on yourself and get hurt in the long run.
180264
Well you would have to ask yourself why you broke up with him in the first place. Did you only break up with him because he moved away, and then he came back and you got back together? Or was it something that you didn’t like and couldn’t resolve? Is he the type of guy that you want to be with and is he worth the trouble. If he is, then good. Here’s what you do to resolve this issue. You tell him that you want him to do something about this other guy harassing you. Men are really easy to figure out. We're problem solvers. You just telling him about this other guy may not move him into action until you tell him it's a problem. With guys you have to be specific with what you want from us. We see a problem, we try to fix it. If we don't see a problem, we probably won't act on the situation unless we're told to do so. If you tell your boyfriend that this is a problem and you want him to do something about it, I guarantee you he will. Especially if he really cares for you.
929891
Even if you still have feelings for him sometimes it's best to just let go.  Me and my gf mutually broke up back in May...and decided to be friends...well that was fine until she started dating someone else almost right away (after we were together for 2.5 years) so I got pissed and stopped talking to her.  It was hard cause I still cared for her at the time but not TALKING or SEEING her since then has really helped me to get over the whole thing and move on.\n\nin summary......Stop talking to him, but don't become enemies...be civil about it.
78154
You are young girl, you should definitely just forget about your ex and move on.  There are plenty of opportunities and good looking guys out there for you to have your pick.  Have fun and forget about what your ex thinks about you. His loss.
636790
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy,treat yourself well,stay away from your ex,and move on,my friend.Best wishes:)
1071254
To spare him, dont go out with him. Since you are not into him fully... dont bother. You'll just want your ex.
832633
Do you really want a bf who stalks you around, keeps you from other guys' company and is overly possessive? He might only be interested out of jealousy. Go with the new guy. Time will tell if your ex really cares.
476642
Hmmm...the best way to get over your ex???? Get a group of friends together and go out and have a good time! Go dancing, go to a movie, even invite them over to hang out. Do anything you can to keep your mind off the ex. Then, throw out anything the ex ever gave you. Get rid of it all, burn it if you want. Have a "cleansing". Take a nice long shower, indulge in some bubble bath even, do something nice for yourself. Go spend some money if you've got it, and then, when you are ready, go shopping for another person to be with!:) GOOD LUCK!
465214
It depends on who broke up with who but you could contact him, but just don't sound too desperate. Just act friendly, ask how he's doing and maybe you two can hang out at some point. Then let him make the next move.
1171190
You can still care for him, but think about the reason why he is your ex.  And the fact that you haven't talked to each other since the breakup shows that there was obviously something wrong with the relationship.\n\nDon't waste your time dwelling on the past and wondering "what if..."\n\nLook to the future and think about your own needs.
93910
no one can make you forget the ex-boyfriend except new boy friend as he did.so ask your self did he thinking about you? if yes call him.. if no (and i think so cause you told that he have a new one) so live your life . he isn't the last man in the world. and ofcourse you are bretty. find the one who deserve you.
789166
Why do you call him your BF if you don't like him.  Quit using him.  Break up with your so called BF for his sake.
398975
Hay ..i just broke up wit my bf a month ago....the only way u will win his heart back is stop calling him and stop seeing him..dun make contant wit him not even if u wanted to ...u hav to be strong .. i know it hard to do and it imporsible to do it if u really love them ..but u want him right!! dun beg him to come back to u ..the more u ask them to come to u the more they will run away ..pretent u dun need them to make ur life happy ....that way they will wonder why!!!and they will think they make a mistake.. People wanted wht they can't hav ...i try this idea to my ex and it kind of work ...altho we didn't get back together he stay willing to be my friend ..if u r friend wit him it always hav time to get back ..and now he said he miss me ....i hope it will work for u if u try my way ..Be strong ...if he didn't come back he dun derseve u ...girl u hav to be strong ..mostly Move on wit ur life ....
21968
totally ignore him. pay him no attention. he'll eventually get tired of everything he is doing right now.this ex bf of yours might be an egoistic one that's why he is telling other people lies about you but if you know yourself that you're not the person he is talking about, i mean you know that what he says is not true you should not get affected. good luck.