secret marriage in military?
609938
No reason for a secret marriage.  If you let the military know, you get BAH (housing allowance) added to your check.  That's why they are so hard on contract marriages.  People in it soley for the benefits offered by the military.  Why hide it?
887038
Interesting question, not sure why you would want to.\nMaybe you could do what my former brother in law did, he needed to be married to hide the fact he was gay, he found a lesbian woman who also needed to hide she was gay.\nThough they are still together, they do their own thing and it seems to be working out great.\nHope this helps.
775040
My mother's boss's husband (that's a mouthful) who's also an old family friend just got ordained online so that he could perform his son's wedding ceremony. It's completely legit as long as you check out the site. Apparently there are some scammy type ways to be ordained online but there are some legitimate ones. I'm actually thinking about him doing my own wedding since we don't attend a specific church and have no minister of our own.
1066609
You can do just about anything if you find the right site on the internet!\nIt isn't illegal......... how can it be illegal?? It isn't like you are marrying a blood relative is it!! In fact you aren't marrying a relative at all. It would certainly be a lot cheaper!!\nI was wondering about your dress though. Would you get one of those that is half dress and half tuxedo?? \n\nI am sure there is someone on Ebay that would be willing to offer you their services for the right bid! Hey you can even get yourself ordained on the net and literally marry yourself too!\n\nI would say that your biggest problem is trying to divorce yourself? Where would your other half of the stuff go??
476222
You mean like meeting a guy, dating, getting engaged, and then marriage?  Or the actual ceremony itself?
581713
well i know a few people whom had prearranged marriages,they didnt work out,and all were happier following what there heart told them rather than what had been arranged.\nwhat its like this way in other countries but in the us it really doesnt work,you cant rule either with the iron fist,nor remove rights,or live as muslims do in many countries,so to simply staTe the fact.\n  DONT DO IT.
365846
Ah, yes... I've dated an Army guy and later a Navy guy.\n\nIt's a common situation, but it can work. When they are away, they are surrounded by mostly other guys. If he has a pic of you, he'll probably post it up and brag to the guys.\n\nI am confident it can work, if you have a strong relationship to start with. If you love each other and stay faithful, it can most definately work.
881431
As a ex military wife there is always a chance for deployment.\nPlan your wedding the way, you want it. Keep a strong line of communications, you will be his rock. If possible meet as many wives, girlfriends that will be in your future husbands reserve unit, get to know them. They will become you new best friends and your rock. The military will make you both stronger and prouder than you ever image possible. Live everyday to it's fullest and always respect his wishes to serve his country, even when your scared for his sanity.
70172
I'm married to a Marine and met alot of military men.  I think you have to meet him.  Alot of the guys are genuine, but there will always be game players.  I'd really like to think that a young man in a combat zone wouldn't be out there just for his own amusement, so meet him, get to know him for real(BE CAREFUL, TAKE SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST) and then let yourself make a decision.  Good luck.  I hope you find your man!
511804
If you two are legally married, then if your husband is deployed to any other base, you will both be going together. The military does not force the spouse to leave the other spouse. Only if you are married however. If he is deployed to war...that is a different story. Depending on his job in the military as well. \n\nIf you need anything, feel free to IM.
684204
Yes, weddings on post are free if you are in the military. You would not have to pay for the building but you would just have to reserve it. You just would have to arrange it with your unit chaplain or soon to be units chaplain.  But of course the things that would cost would be all of the fixings the clothes, decoration and of course if you wanted to give the chaplain a donation.
182235
i read an article that said that men in the military would not feel comfortable, therefore would lack trust--and since they are entrusted with each other's lives, then it would be dangerous.\n\ni don't really understand that line of argument...you are given orders--then you carry them out, as i see it.\n\njust contributing
940673
there are groups on msn,, my wife is in a lot of them,, not sure of the exact names , but something like military wives and girlfriends stuff like that,, it located in the groups section,, I'm sure yahoo might have something like that to.\n\nand as far as everyone saying FRG, i would stay away from them,, they don't help, and it's nothing but a gossip are for the officers wives and staff NCO wives from what I've seen,, i won't let my wife get pulled in to the one for my unit.
350645
Working for these type of clandestine agencies can land you anywhere anytime. When you get your marching orders, you won't have time to kiss your wife goodbye.If that's your bag, go for it.
563102
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887153
Trust me, he wont be fooling around during basic training. They do a good job at keeping the guys and girls seperate. Plus, there's no time. I married my husband right before I left for basic. (he's a civilian). I was soooo worried he'd cheat on me while I was gone. And he was so worried I would cheat on him while I was in training. \n\nYou have nothing to worry about. Now, as far as tech school. He moved to Texas to be there while I was in tech school. Yes, a lot of people  cheated while there. They are horny ( 6 and 1/2 weeks without sex can do that) plus, thre is more freedom in tech school than basic training. If you can move to where he is having tech school, I would. I'm not saying he'd cheat if you don't. But it was very helpful for us. But it was the WORST time ever for us. Tech school is designed to test your ability to deal with more stupid and pointless tasks to evaluate your ability to deal with stress.\n\nIf you want more info on what it's like for him during basic training I can give you all the details and tell you what his day is like. You can e-mail or IM me. I hope this  helped.\nCongrats on being pregnant
850579
NO. your not officially married until it is signed by a minister/priest/judge ect..