I am married and have a married boyfriend  can we later get married and live happily?
603683
I am in this same situation right now and yes I do we are soul mates and we know the road ahead is gonna be a rough 1 but together WE will get though it.  I have got much negative feed back from the ones that know we are together but as w both say If this is what we want then who cares what others feel so on that note feel free to e-mail we can talk if you want the positive support is always nice to have and get
1136866
Its whenever you are comfortable enough to do so, and where your values stand.  My now fiance and I moved in with eachother after only two months of dating.  Some people think that you should not live with eachother until you get married...I disagree...
185661
Get married - if you are not a same sex couple - and live happily ever after.  My wife is still my best friend after 38 years.
557598
Not if either one of you are married.
589075
Maybe get engaged.  Have you lived with this guy yet?  Man alot of factors go into this.  I wouldn't get married yet.  Anymore I would say you should live with someone before getting married.  That sounds crazy to some but i think if you had to live together for a year before getting married the divorce rate would go way down.
320224
I'm married for 13 years and my marriage it isn't perfect,but after all this years I think is better being married than not,because you have more than one possibility to share your happy (or not happy) moments with the person you love,one way or another.Happiness and unhappiness are hard to be supported alone.
212570
Its obviously possible, because you are feeling that way. Are you newly weds? If so, maybe you just aren't quite comfortable with all that yet. You should wait until you two feel comfortable.
487614
your marriage is what you make it. both of you bring honesty, trust, respect,love,communication, and commitment and you will be fine. good luck
658302
Yes, you are still legally married.
266557
If someone asks you to marry them, you had better be in love before you accept. And if you Do love this person, and that person loves you, you have no need to change each other. You accept each other for who, and what, you are.  Now, after you marry, either of you might change  in some ways that might cause  discomfort in a relationship. And that needs to be worked out. But don't try to force change on each other, It will not work.
607902
Yes, you can. You are married in the eyes of God and not living in sin. \n\nAsk a priest if you need more assurance.\n\nWith love in Christ.
380832
YES!  My husband and I both waited until our wedding night.  It was a wonderful decision.  I pray that my children do the same.\n\nYou will find a wonderful man who respects you and your values. Don't settle for anything less.
131691
Yes.  I believe that a trend that is emerging in the dating world is to take a cohabitating, married relationship on a test run before actually tying the knot.  Living together is an effective way to see if you are compatible after a long time of dating and not cohabitating.  However, don't be suckered in to living with someone who won't marry you, who is basically playing you on an "extended test run".  They can't have it both ways.
547556
I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to want to "seal the deal". I would caution against making a big deal out of it at this stage in life, however.\n\nThe two of you are already as established family. This marriage, if it is to happen, should not be a means of taking the next step, but confirming you have already taken it and are committed to one another, if that makes sense. If he does not feel this way, then you certainly do not want to push marriage.\n\nAlso... Having had a baby and (presumably) lived together, you're sort of past the point of the traditional big white wedding, if you know what I mean!
88680
You need to decide what your beliefs and boundaries are.  If you don't mind living with someone for the rest of your life without a legal marriage, then do it, if not, then give him an option, marriage or you are gone. Most states have the policy of common law marriage anyway, after 5 years (varies per state) of living together you are considered legally married anyway.
129685
This tells you what your life with him will be like IF you get married.  Now ask yourself, "Is this what I want?"  If not, then thank goodness that you two aren't married and move on.
1154231
My husband proposed after we were together for 3 months and we got married a month after that.  We have been together for almost 5 now and happy as ever.\nIf you love him and he loves you (do you guys say you love each other) than I say go for it.\nLove is love and if you know it and you are happy you will make it work, love has no time limit, when it is true and pure the possibilities are endless.\nGood luck!