WHY is it sooo hard to get a certain (great) PERSON out of your MIND???
612979
It's so hard because they are what you have longed for all your life... I have 'someone' in my mind in the exact same way!! I think about her constantly, I am consumed by her. I'm loving it, its the best feeling! I think about where she is and what she's doing all the time, I imagine her on her way to work - what she's decided to wear that day, which perfume she's wearing, did she remember to take her phone to work! (LOL) I imagine her reading my emails...I imagine her smile, the way she smooths her hair. I can see her rolling her eyes at some stupid joke I have made, but smiling after... I think about when I see her and the look on our faces and the butterflies in our stomachs...\n\nI cant get her out of my mind, to be honest I dont want to even try!\n\nIt's so hard because she is EVERYTHING I could wish for, and more...
633058
i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!
1095403
when he cant stop thinking about her...
123228
if you think its best to forget him, then you need to get busy, and stay busy. the best way to get your mind off of something is to put your mind on something else. although i dont believe you will "forget." forgetting is something we rarely achieve.
754718
It's a side effect of having individuality.  The same differences that we find intriguing in one person can be annoying in another.  :)  The best way to deal with this situation is to deal with the person in a professional manner when required, and attempt to minimize contact with them when you can.
717781
Communication is the key, I know it's hard to have someone who is so far away, but if the love, trust, and communication is there neither of you will strsy. We all get urges sometimes and want someone else to physically be there to comfort us, and you can do that but don't cross the line with it. I speak from experience. If you need a more elaborate answer don't hesitate to ask.
579948
because you have an idea of who they are and in the end they turn out to be so messed up!! \nyou just can't see how bad he is! not even the little details until he/she hurts you really bad!! and notice he is not the one! it sucks
47435
I would love to say it's easy.But it's not you really have to think Long And Hard about if you just want a person for now or the rest of your life think of someone who really understands you,makes you laugh,but has a beatiful way to make you cry then try to see yourself years ahead with him and if you see him/her with you Thier the One. Bye
776624
Forcin' yourself 2 believe that this person is actually a bad person is really doing nothing but fooling yourself.\n\nEverybody that we meet has some form of impact on our lives...this one particular "person" just had a very BIG influence on you.  Of course, it's going to be hard to "get over them", but you have to come to an acceptance that it's over between the two of you.  It'll be hard, but that's the only way you'll ever TRULEY move on.
665341
Not in love you say?  What about obsessed?  No that wouldn't be good.  How about worship?  Now if you worship someone, it's many times a day.  If you just meet someone in the hall for the first time and then think about them often...that's a crush.  You want to know more about that person...so it is natural to keep thinking about them.
448318
That is a great question. But here's my thing...why can't two people just enjoy the silence? Isn't it good enough sometimes to just know the person you love/care about is on the other end of the line, spending time with you? Why are people so afraid of silence.... Maybe I'm just weird like that.
368337
IDKY But it seems i have the same problem right now. I can't get my boy friend out of my mind, and he too lives in a different state...LOL...Hmmm. imagine that. weird.
197929
This happens to me for 2 reasons.\n1. If the person is creepy looking or seems to be looking at me ,it freaks me out for a while!\n2. If the person is good looking,well then it doesn't hurt to keep them in your memory for a while!
134939
u cant stop thinking about that person
617206
It may be impossible for you to avoid them because of your Aura, you may naturally attract these kind of people.  So until you go through your changes and mature, when you meet a person that is dominating just leave them alone stop calling, walk away, what ever it takes.  It shouldn't be that hard if you don't want that kind of person in your life you deserve what you want.  Don't settle baby-doll you will be fine, get strong, and stop playing around claim your shit and enjoy.  Good luck.
911244
The same thing happens to me, and I don't really understand either.  It might be their conceitedness, but it really depends on the person.  It takes a while to find a good person, so keep at it.  Think of it as a way to filter out the bad friends and colleagues; going for the best instead.  If they don't talk to you, maybe they're having a bad day, or even going through the same thing as you.
100222
Just do it.\nDon't try to do it. It takes you learning to keep your mouth shut. Everytime a wild thought pops in your mind. remember to shut up and listen to the other person.