Is it OK to date a girl at your work especially if you are in a high management position?
611547
It's not something that's generally recommended;  if the couple breaks up and has to continue working together, there's a great deal of potential for it to turn into sexual harassment.
837116
Unless you are very, very, very attracted to each other, it is not a good idea.  What are you going to do if the relationship falls apart?  Will one of you be passing on nasty stories about the other to co-workers and bosses?  You have to consider the possible fallout from a relationship gone sour.
797371
It depends on how far gone you are.  If you didn't have the guts to even talk to her till this night, then she may not be the girl you think she is.  Don't give up a job for this girl.  It may not work out.  On the other hand, if the job is just a relocation, and not an advancement in your career, what's the real harm in staying?\nIf this girl is really for you, she will be there when you get back.\nHave faith.
983983
Girl lessen to me don't ever get involves with a co worker that way if he really wants something good out of this he would be the one to come over and say something, you guys are flirting so if you ask him he is going to say yes. take my foolish advice do not ask him.
296587
Getting involved with someone you work with is NOT a good idea. Any time there is a problem in the relationship, it can cause a problem in the work situation. If the relationship fails it can cause problems for you at work. Many businesses have rules against employees dating, because of the problems it creates in the work place. It can be grounds for termination if your company has a rule against employees dating.  If you truly feel a person is right for you, I suggest that one of you find a new job before getting involved in the relationship, or at the very least, make sure there is no company policy against employee dating.
753603
OMG YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!!!UR NOT THE BOSS OF ANY1.....unless u have ur own bussiness.....but yeah u have to be sure that u show her as much love as u can(and not sexually) and maybe she'll do the same...being w/someone does not mean that the man or the woman is the boss...it should be an equal share of power.
261904
I'll tell you this, your job and your material posessions don't mean anything if you lack the personal qualities woman like to see in a man.\nAre you confident and natural?  Do you make women feel relaxed and safe?  Are you good at carrying on a conversation?  Can you pick up on the subtle cues of attraction?  If not, you're screwed.
388815
Hold on there bother. First thing is first. You must make time to spend with her if you want a lady. Women do not like workoholics. Once you get situated then she will come to you. Make sure you have balance before you date. If you\ndon't then it won't work out.
1187381
I've dated a boss of mine.  Heck, even the girl who worked my job before me -- she quit because she married my new boss!  Go for it.  Just remember -- work is work, relationship is relationship.  And wait until he ends it current one before you move in on the prize.\n\nI actually work with my fiance -- he's not my boss, but we met here and have been together for 2.5 years.  Studies show that us overworked Americans are turning more and more to workplace relationships and employers are becoming okay with it.
704556
there are women in my workplace who have ascended to managerial positions, starting out as secretaries/assistants, with only  a hs degree or an associates. men don't have that luck.\nAnd besides, any word or stare can be considered harassment, making women untouchable in an office.
720893
I've been there. It can get pretty complicated and feelings can get confused. let your friends know that as a manager your first obligation is to the company. Let them know that you value their friendship but dont want your friendship to hinder your performance at work. Usually most "good" friends can respect that if not then thats a whole other ball game.
1138575
yes...it's been heard that a man should always put his family first above all else. except God obviously. being "married to your job" can hinder any relationships you might have. also depending on what you do and whom you work around can hinder it as well. it just depends on if the girl is the one you want to be with...how you react is what she'll see.
787173
Think twice before you start something with someone you work with. If she is not interested in you, you will feel uncomfortable around her in the future. How will that affect you at work?
23914
How to pick up a girl at work? I've dated five women at my job and one more that I did not work with. Right now I am married to the woman that I have met outside of work.\nTake my advise, you can not mix a relationship up with your job, it will never turn out correct. You will either lose the girl, the job, or both....
80495
That sounds really awkward.  If you can, look for another job or another position in the company.  That would make it easier to have a relationship with the girl.
707120
Open communication is usually best. Don't date people from work. You're at work to work; be professional, not personal. Why poison the well you drink from?
250493
Bad idea!!!!  In most situations, your job will outlast the relationship.  Do you really want to work next to women who you used to date?  I don't know whether you've noticed it or not, but women like to gossip in the workplace.  They will shred your reputation and make life pretty unpleasant for you if they decide that they don't like or trust you.  It's hard to stay on good terms with an ex-girlfriend.  Don't do it!!!