help me about my feelings, whats wrong with me??
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You are in love with the idea of love.  After you get to know the person they can't possibly live up to your fantasy expectations because what you are looking for isn't real.
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You could be depressed.  It's nothing to be embarrassed about.  If you cry alot, and don't get joy from things you liked before, it could be.  Why do you think she is wrong?  \n\nLife is too short to feel so sad.  It might help you to be open minded about depression.  You have a computer - get more information, help yourself as much as you can.\n\nYour school counselor is probably concerned about you.  You can talk to your parents if you feel comfortable with that.  If you don't go do a teacher, friends mom, or other adult you can trust.  \n\nI have been depressed in my life, and it is so easily treated.  I should never have suffered as long as I did.  There's counselling, and or medications that can help tremendously.  Please don't give up.  \n\nI always remember life is too short, and I don't want to feel so sad.  Please help yourself so you can be a happy and content person.\n\nGod Bless
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Instead of thinking about how bad you feel, because she don't like you the sameway, you should think about how happy you make her when you are there for her and how much she may need you to be there for her. Believe me I is good to have someone to talk to when you have alot on your mind. Just try that and then if that doesn't help let her know how you feel and see where it goes from there.
62263
U cant control ur feelings but u can control ur actions.Preserve ur dignity,move on and hope 4 the best.
957990
A lot of people feel the same way you do. I understand what you go through.   Stop thinking so negatively about yourself and seek some professional counseling.  Ignore any advice that does not involve professional help or group therapy.
1069540
you are very depress and hurt behind something that has happen in your life or you are just a hateful individual that only See's the negatives things in life or in a person . your self-esteem is extremely low and you don't think so much about yourself or even love yourself . talk to your doctor , or even your parents someone in the family that will listen to you or even someone from church . please get help . or you could be bi-polar . talk to your doctor and tell him everything you told us here . wish you the best & good luck . god bless you .
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these feelings are normal.  everyone questions life at some point.  hang in there.  see if you can talk to someone like your priest or a counsellor... it's good just to open up and let your feelings out.
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Although I don't have the answer you want ... I can relate with your feelings. I don't know if just knowing that you are not alone in this helps or not. I went through almost the same exact situation about 6 months ago and it brought back all kinds of feelings of lose and sadness. I am sorry that you are having these feelings and hope you can learn to cope in some way. I still just push all of my hurt to the back of my mind...some days I am kinda ok and other days I cry at the drop of a hat--I guess its just something you have to carry with you for the rest of your life. Once again i am sorry and wish you the best. I am 31 years old myself with no other children-but hang in there and hopefully things will look up for us both.    :)
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Dont fight ur feelings.,,if u feel a certain way its for a reason...Or maybe its something that happened that u havent dealt with. If thats the case dont force anything just to make others like u, or happy,,cause u matter.
304130
first don't listen to "witness" second don't worry about it there is nothing wrong with you and it is just a fact that when ever feelings are involved we will get hurt but don't be scared of it, because if you live in the fear you will never find anyone that will make you happy!
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You appear to have very low self esteem of yourself. Being in that negative envionment will continue dragging you down. I am sure you are a very good and loving person and deserve someone who loves and gives back as you do. Being alone and providing for yourself is better than being in a bad relationship. So, start spending time apart from this clown. Go back to school. Get yourself a carreer. Envolve yourself with only positive minded people. Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you decide to keep things as they were yesterday, then tomorrow will be the same as today. If you just have gotten fed up with your life as it now is then just change your mind. You can do it girl. Go for it.
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I have no idea what is wrong with you.  You should seek professional help.  Could be an imbalance in your chemical make up and maybe a drug could help.  I think you should just look for the positives in life and also do what makes you happy.  if you do drugs, stop.  if you drink too much, stop.  if you are in an abusive relationship, dump him.  Surround yourself with positivity is all I can tell you, and I really wish you well and that you do not act on your suicidal feelings.  Maybe god can help.  ( am not religious by the way)
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don't feel bad about yourself..you mad have adult ADD..i have it...look at ADD.com...its where you get bored easily.can't focus....even if it's not that..you are not a bad person you just can't make up your mind..you wanna explore everything god has offered in this world that doens't mean theres something wrong with you..don't be so hard on yourself..im 27 have'nt had many jobs..a stay at home mom now and im always down on myself..feel like im not doing anything that contributes to the world...but i read the bible and everythings all better...start going to church and read the bible..jesus will change your views about yourself..no one is perfect...if  you feel you need to see a phyc. go...maybe it will help maybe not..if  you feel in your heart your a good person then just keep going and someday you'll find your way..if  you are unhappy about  yourself change it...you can do anything you put your mind to but no matter what happens or what you decide every one is beautiful in there own way and no one should down themselves...
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well you need to look at what the bad feelings are about...is it a fear of rejection, commitment, etc on your part, or is it more that he might physically hurt you or that there is a different type of situation that isn't good for you that may result....\n\nif you think that you are in harms way, then definitely get out of it. that little voice inside your head is usually right unless it is the fear of rejection or commitment... that one is a little more complicated.
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Hello there! I am sorry to hear you are feeling so down. People are so quick to say someone has depression. You say that you act like you are the happiest person on earth, but you aren't happy on the inside. You just have to believe that you do deserve happiness! I believe that you just have low self-esteem and self worth. 17 is a hard age! Believe me...looking back I felt the same way and wondered what the heck was wrong with myself. Just the pressures nowadays that are being put on young people is enough to make someone want to give up! I know to be happy is easier said than done sometimes, and it is a lot of work sometimes. Once you start believing in yourself it will get more simple. Life is too short not to have fun--experience life. I am not saying go out there and do foolish things, but enjoy the silly stuff. I am an adult and I still like to go to toy stores and play with the puppets! Because it makes me happy. I am not here to make anyone happy but myself. It sounds selfish, but before we can help others, we have to help ourselves. Just the fact that you asked the question on here shows that you are ready and willing to make a change for yourself. I have done a lot of "stupid" things in my life, but I have learned that loved ones are there for you no matter what you do. If people really love you, they are there for you no matter what! You can make little changes in your life. Use positive affirmation..when you start to feel those thoughts of hopelessness creep in--say to yourself that you are not listening anymore. If you are still feeling beyond hopelessness, there are many people you can go to to talk about it. It is not a sign of weakness to ask for some help and guidance. It is you standing up and saying you are sick of being that way and taking control of your life. I wish you luck and hope that I helped a little! Take care!
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dear friend there's nothing wrong with you...you are absolutely fine.....its just in your head that you are not well & unmotivated....... you just need someone to cheer you up & take care of you as you might be feeling lonely.....so just think positively & refresh yourself.........\nhave a nice day & live well..
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Snowbunny, feeling the way you do is perfectly normal. Sometimes you don't know what you had until you loose it, I kow how you feel... No matter who you talk to, its like nobody understands or they can't grasp what you're going through and so you can't seem to get over this depression because even the advice your friends or parents give you still doesn't feel good enough. You just want to cry, you feel like treating everyone around you the way you feel. Can't eat, Can't sleep and you can't remember the last time you really smiled from your heart, but trust me when I say, if its meant to be, he will come back and you guys can try again. It won't be tomorrow or next month, no one knows but trust me. And what ever you do, don't consider hurting yourself over something that might feel "like the end of the world" to you. I've got a scar for every heartbroken event in my life when I was either used or mistreated. 5 years of bad memories but looking back now, I found someone who loves me the way none of those in the past could, even though I thought so that time. Thinking of you snowbunny..... good luck hey!