Am I still in love with me ex?
611151
I think you may just be holding onto memories of the past and what you wished it could have been. Life is too short to dwell on just one person... he  seems to have moved on. IF he's yours and he's meant to be with you, then he'll come back at the right moment. If he's not, then just accept it. Life goes on. HOney, there's thousands of single people outhere who want a loving relationship.  You jsut have to get yourself out there and enjoy your life safely. THe right person will come along when you least expect it. Let him be, and all you can do is wish him well, and just hope for the best and be happy for him. Things happen for a reason. Maybe is best that you keep your distance from him until you have sorted your feelings out. Best wishes to you. GOd bless,\n\nLATINA
647432
It is understandable that you are still in love with your ex. What I DON'T understand is why are you broke up and still having sex with him EVERYDAY?!?!? That's not broke up... that's an out for him to do you and any other girl he wants anytime because you are "broke-up". You're not his girlfriend any more so you have NO SAY in who else he screws and sice you are "broke-up" he can do it guilt-free as well on a "broke-up" technicality.
592576
it sounds to me as if he is using you. He is keeping you on a string in case things don't work out with his ex. If there is nothing going on between them, than he wouldn't have a problem letting her know that he is in love with you. I think you need to move on and find someone who will treat you the way that you deserve. You don't deserve to be used. Good Luck\n\nk.m.
1129422
May be he is observing u, and wants to see if u change at least now .U will have to change if u want him back, and stop playing such fools cause its not a movie its ur real life. If he truly loves u , be assured he is urs and will not go anywhere else, but u have to take the first step towards him.Because u r the reason for this mess
376422
the fact you are trying to hide it is what shows so obviously...no one can hide true feelings... get a rebound, thats the only way to get over someone. your ex sounds like a jerk!
25153
i still am in love with my ex girlfriend and i told her that she is the one for me and someday she'll see it..i told her im not gonna give up on her ...so my addivse is ...win her back..lmao
147968
How in love with your ex could you be after only being with him for a month? If he did you wrong after just being together for a month, then get rid of him altogether. You've been apart longer than what your relationship lasted, give it up and give the new guy a real chance or let him go to find a woman who knows what she wants.
218642
U r asking what u should do... ?? U know that right..and u r the only person who knows that.. \n    If u love ur ex, then what on earth r u doing with ur present bf.. fooling him? What for.. For gaining the attention of ur ex?(which I think u have gained considering he wants to marry u).. So congratulations miss, u r successful.. But tell me one thing? Will u b happy with this lad  proposing u? I have most often come across ppl who go back to old lost loves and end up being even more hurt.. U have got to set ur priorities right!! Although thinking from the heart is what u would do, but making a little use of the head too is advisable!
1052964
You were with your ex for so long that now you feel like no one else can compare. You are so young, now is the time for you to find yourself. To find out what you really want out of life, and a guy. No way you can no that if you have no experiences to base your decision on. I say you move on and focus on you for a while. If its meant to be with you and your ex... you'll get back together again.
941054
So let me get one thing straight does your ex think youre gonna be with the guy till the end with him or is it the new guy I think you mean the new guy  just tell him straight forward how u feel\ndont beat around the bush! be sraightforward with your feelings!
1031643
First, I respect your courage for writing here, but I would take the most serious advice from those who know you best... those closest to you. There aren't enough details in your story for anyone but those who know you to give you good advice, but a lot of people have similar feelings. When I was single I always pined for my ex's... the bad times didn't register and all I remembered was the good times. This doesn't mean that they didn't happen and that what drove me from my now ex's wasn't real. We did break up for a reason, and our incompatibility was something to be considered. No matter what you do, even if you did get back together, you can't relive a memory. This isn't to say you shouldn't talk to your ex or figure out what you're feeling, but I'd say take your time with it. If the feeling is really real, if the relationship is meant to be, then it's worth waiting for. A lot of times things seem good at the time, but if we waited, we lose interest or realize what a bad decision it was. Even so, you have a fractured relationship, and it's going to take a lot of care and thought to bring it together... either way, protect your own heart and take your time. Find someone you really trust and talk to them about it and let them speak into you... tell you a no bs assessment of what they can see from the outside. Even if you don't agree with them, it'll get you thinking. I wish you the best with your relationship, whether it's meant to be repaired or not. God bless you,\n\nBrian
955717
Your relationship with your ex is not completely over, you don't have closure OR you were so content in the  relationship you cannot adjust to the change fast enough.\n\nYou have to analyze your feeling honestly and openly and you will get the answer.
813123
Sometimes you have that connection and other times you do not. In my opinion that could be why you and your current husband may be having a bad connection because you are still in love with your ex, even though I do not know more of your situation. Been there done that. The heart wants what it wants and even though you and your ex are still not together the realtionship that you guys had togther will always be in your heart. That is until you decide to give your husband now that part of you heart, which it seems you are not willing to do right now. Hang in there everything happens for a reason. Good Luck.
545326
Hey,\nI've been in this situation b4. The best thing to do is to give yourself some breathing space . Take your mind of this. Try to relax and distract yourself. If you feel that strongly bout your ex, the best thing to do - confess it 2 him. Maybe he feels the same way. Maybe he's just not wearing his feelings. Always b optimistic. The glass is half full........... Frm wat i have read u r  strongly in love with this guy.........express it! Best of luck
662021
On the market at the moment,but i have a crazy ex who thinks we are still together!!
614689
if he's changed from what he used to be like before.. then yes... unless you were the one who dumped him and now you want him back.. again that would be a yes..\nbut if he broke up with you and the two of haven't changed.. then no because that would just be a repeat of the relationship you had before.
154320
truthfully your ex's never get over you entirely. in any relationship with a true connection there will always be something that reminds you of why you were together. even in bad breakups and relationships you never really get over it you just find something or someone else that lets it fade away but i know when im reminded by someone of when we were "together" my mind rambles on about them for a while.  you just can tell when they have gotten over you enough to feel comfortable around you without wanting or wandering why everything is the way it is now. hopefully you will remain friends. then you cant say you lost anything.