How do you know if a guy is using you?
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I kind of think that if you have to ask yourself, "Am I being used?" Odds are, you ARE being used.  If someone does not make you feel your full worth, and if the energy he is putting into your relationship does not match your effort, then you should seriously re-evaluate the situation, because honey, you deserve one hundred per cent and no less. We all do.
736407
Why do you think he's using you?  You didn't give any information that would help.
426310
he does things out of his way to get your attention.\nhe makes more of an effort to call you.\nhe makes compliments often: your eyes are beautiful, i like hanging out with you, or i wanna hang out with you etc.\neye contact and smiles. and finally when he tells you or asks you out!
461521
u just know that is how.... there is no way of telling but if he is mean or runs around on you then it is obvious that there is a problam.... remember actions speak louder than words.
798890
He is just using you to get laid. He is telling you this. He does not want a relationship. He just wants to get his rocks off with no strings attached.>
421585
Depends on the man. Is he married?  If so, he's probably using you.  If he isn't. yes, we can love you.  But do we have to be absolutely committed to you to love you?  Commitments are tough for men to handle.
573164
if you have sex and then he leaves, if you call him and he never answers, if your always the one buying shit, if he never takes you out. If he's only around when he wants to be there. Girl if you feel like he's using you, your probably right. On the madea movie that woman said how do you know if your man is cheating? Do you think he's cheating YES then he's cheating
595748
His actions will tell you.  Love is a verb and requires action.  Does he keep his word and promises. Have you met his parents, friends, co-workers.  Do you spend quality time with you and does he call you frequently.   \n\nWhat are his actions like outside the bed room.  This is how you can tell if he loves you.  If he is only attentive during sex....don't count on it being love.
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you can tell if he is cheating on you, if he is acting strange when you ask him questions, if he isnt spending as much time with you as  he use too spend. only you can tell if she has changed since you started your relationship. if you are questioning his honesty now, then maybe he is cheating on you.
185570
Usually you can tell by the way a guy treats you. If you talks to you alot and flirts with you, and you do alot together then I am sure he likes you. Just ask him to get together and hang out and do something you both like to do.Then if he agrees it can be a safe bet that he likes you.
879262
you never know for sure unless you date for a long time, even if he sais he likes you, he could still be using you, so it is very hard to tell if he likes you
1052077
Sweetie, if you feel like you are being used... then it means you aren't happy. Therefore, talk to him about it. Say, why don't you pay this time.. or when he wants to do something say ok, well you pay because I had XXX bills this month so money is tight. Talk to him about making you leave after sex. If you don't bring it up, it will eat away at you.\n\nHere is a hint- if he gets angry/ defensive after you tell him any of this, then yes he is most likely a user and your instincts were probably right. If he says, sorry hun didn't mean to make you feel that way, or something to that extent, then he seems like a good guy.\n\nAnd girl, cmon now, real estate agent, successful woman, you've got it goin on- if it does turn out that he's using you move on! You're a catch and can do better!
612383
Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.
838994
Hmm...this is a tough one!  Everyone shows their love in different ways and everyone needs different amounts of "me" time.  If I guy was going to use you, he would be using you for sex.  If you think the only time he wants you around is followed by sex, then YES...you are being used. If he really cares about you, trying COMMUNICATING with him!!
556836
Move on ; he's using you .
387893
i think he is using you. ditch him.
329136
No he is not using you maybe he would like to work things out but that's up to you. If this gets on your nerves ask him to stop.