Someone hurt my feelings, both of them.  What should I do?
608364
My my....did you use the wrong brain again?
112562
you just kow. but the other person has to feel the same way! so ask them, or tell them how you feel
750835
DON"T Say you are sorry if you didn't do it...just ask the person why they think you did it? Why would you cause this problem ? Have them think about it....also ask them if you can talk about it....maybe you did do something that hurt that person and don't Even know it...people get hurt over things that would NEVER hurt us...that is why there is conflict....Different prospectives!!
742758
Well, if there isn't anything between them yet, there is no problem. Think about it and reverse the situation, if you were talking with someone in the manner you suggest, how would you feel if another attempted what you are contemplating?
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
399285
dont listen to the person above me maybe he really neede a friend at that monment and you cut him off or maybe he really wanted to tell you something i think you just hurt his feelings just apologize and ask him whats up with the way hes treating you
283086
Just be open and honest.\nImagine it was the other way round, woudn't you rather someone was honest with you?\nYou will both be mortified but once it's said it's said.
41840
Very cool question.\n\nWhen a best friend hurts your feelings, it is like a brother or sister hurting your feelings.\n\nFirst you feel shocked, then betrayed, then anger, then sorrow, all at once, or maybe just a few, or one after another.\n\nIt can really make your head spin.\n\nIf your head is really spinning and you can, GET AWAY from this person and cool down.\n\nNow the big secret: WAIT, CONFIDE, WRITE, TELL\n\nWait minutes, or even days. Meanwhile confide in a super confidante like your Mom or Dad, not another friend -- they will blab. This will make you feel a tiny bit better. Write out your feelings on a piece of paper, not in emails or online. When you have all your feelings sorted out, tell the person in private. Finish by saying, I will feel better if you formally apologize to me. But be careful, they may not know that they offended you and may run all around telling everyone you are touchy and too sensitive.\n\nSorry this happened to you. \nHope you work it out.
232437
look....if danny is ur true friend then he should understand that wot happened was a mistake and the fact that u let him beat u up was all u could do to say u were sorry.but u can go to lisa and ask her try explaining danny the whole thing..that it was a mistake,and wud never happen again..but lemme tell u 1 important stuff,dude..once u lose some1's trust,its not hard..but its impossible to get it back!!even if things cool down between both of u,hez not gonna trust u anymore,dude.im sorry to say this,but its a fact.happened even with me.hence it wud be better to slowly cast away from danny(as well as lisa).if thats not possible(e.g. if both of u r in a grp)..then try maintaining a VERY formal relation with the 2 of them.in course of time,he might realise your true worth.but therez nothing else to do than wait and watch.hope it works out for u,dude..coz i have been in similar situations and i know how awful it feels.best of luck!!
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
779624
Don't screw them both. Take a time and think all over. There are going to be consequences whatever you do. How you can handle is you.
409177
you should tell the person you're with now your true feelings, that you love him, you care for him, and love him.. but you still have feelings for your ex... tell him that you're sorry, and didn't want to hurt you.. but he's gonna hurt more if you stayed dishonest to him.. tell him that he'll find the right "one" for him, and you're not the "one" for him.. and when you've done that.. maybe now you can work things out with your ex! tell him that you still have feelings for him, and that you couldn't stop thinkin bout him! =)
672959
I would be extremely upset and want to hit them both. BUT I would think that they are both good for each other considering they put you in the middle of their little escapades. So think of it as just a loss and move on. If you don't hit them then you will be walking out of it in the end looking and feeling much better. It's all in good judgment.
214459
look, you made an honest mistake, i mean from the sound of things, it came from the right place. grow a bit of a spine and admit to her that what you did was wrong, but explain to her how what she did made you feel; that maybe she should have gone about it in a different way. don't beat yourself that much over it, you are only human and will make some mistakes, especially with those you love.
155942
If you really feel bad for what you did apologize to her..but if you are just asking because you know what you did is wrong but do not feel bad about it then do nothing because you will hurt her again, eventually.Hope this help!
630674
I dun wish to be in your position...but if I were you, I would speak to the first abt my feelings and tell her that while I really appreciate all she has done for me, it would be great if she can be a little tactful...tell her she hurts your feelings sometimes, and remember to tell her how much her advices and thinking have help you a lot! \n\nAs for the second...seek her advice when you think you need it. She might be waitin for you to ask...but too shy to tell you her opinion without you asking...=)
547130
Decide how important of a friend this person is, if it is a very important friendship apologize to them even though you have done nothing wrong, if the friendship is not too important just let it go and maybe this person will get over it!