Would you still talk to person who hurts you.If he/she your friend!?
606557
Well, if the person is my friend, I will talk to him. People in our life who loves us the most, also expects a lot from us. If their expection is not fulfilled, they are hurted and to combat it, they retariate that hurt back to us.This type of people will straighly deny about expectations, in general. After hurting you, they are also upset.\n\nThen if the person is just a acquaintance, and he enjoy himself after hurting you, you must get rid of them.
1101058
Your friend has hurt you, back stabbed you.\n\nAnd you are hurt and angry, after all she did the wrong thing.\n\nI am sure all the negative feelings are making you unhappy?  How long do you want to feel unhappy?\n\nYou don't need to accept your friend back but you do need to forgive  her, even if you never speak with her again.\n\nIts good for your mind and feelings.\n\nIf you have not done so already reads the Lords prayer from the Bible.  Among other things is says "forgive us our sins as we forgive others".  None of us are perfect and all of us need some forgiveness.\n\nregards\n\nPeter
363927
YES!!!!!!!! It may hurt, but it's gonna hurt them more as time goes on. Even a note, just something!!!!\n\nI would want to know, no matter how much it may hurt. The facts are it's gonna hurt no matter what, so let me know so I can get on with my life and find someone who deserves me and plays fair.
737643
well did she apologize for what she said that upset you is she trying to be your friend do she even care that u are not speaking to her people say life is to short and we should charish our friends and life is too short but is she really a fried u wanna hold on too that dont care what she says to hurt you
458267
You should always be honest with your friends, even if it might hurt...after all that's what makes a friend!
925266
yes, why not!\nespecially if you do not care about your friend!!!`
1154093
If the line was really crossed and your friend never  owns up to her part in things, do you really need her around?  \n\nFind some real friends who will be there for the good and the bad times.
1067837
If your friend is really a friend and you want to salvage your friendship, I think you should sit down with her and discuss how you really feel.  You should let her know that it really upset  you when she did what she did, and that you don't relish the chance of that happening again, that it's not acceptable behavior from someone who says she's a friend.
98345
Depends on whether that person knew and did it anyway.  And what you did to stop that.\n\nIf the person did it knowingly, then I would speak to them.  Maybe they were trying to edge you on to do interact with the person.  If you didn't do anything except sulk then you should do a paradigm shift and think what you could have done.  For instance, you could have cut in.  Unless the person is a jerk, they would oblige.\n\nBut definitely talk (not argue or berate, at least at first) with your best friend.
1117156
I would tell him that when he needed us we were right there for him, just the same as if he needed us now. It shouldn't be any different when the tables turn. Friends help friends out especially in their time of need, and if he feels that way after you talked to him just tell him that he burned his bridges and if he needs you again you will ignore his call for help. Because that's not fair to you guys.
547130
Decide how important of a friend this person is, if it is a very important friendship apologize to them even though you have done nothing wrong, if the friendship is not too important just let it go and maybe this person will get over it!
1126628
nope.If someone hurt you that deeply,stay away from them.I'm sure you can think of someone to call.Or go for a walk or go visit old ppl in the nursing home.Theres plenty to do.
155290
Hopefully for you the other person has similar feelings. Otherwise, it is another broken heart, maybe hidden, while a good friendship can continue.
1007158
i think that if your "friend" did this, she is not really a friend at all. A friend is someone that you can count on through thick and thin, through any situation that you may be going through. A "true friend" will always be there when he/she is needed. He/she will never turn their back on you.
232306
Oh baby.. Ask ur heart.. Is it really possible for u or the other person to b 'friends' after having broken up? U'll find the answer if u ask this to urself honestly..\nI believe that just to make matters uncomplicated and simple u can 'say' him/her that u'll remain friends just so as to console her at the moment.. but i m sure u wont be able to take this friendship to far..as u r aware..a broken heart stings!
977955
That 'friend' wouldn't be yourself now, would it??
204141
Depends on what he said.  \n\nIs there any truth to what he said?  If there is some truth it may seem mean because it was coming from your friend. Plus, our friends know us better than we know ourselves and yes it may have been hurtful and yes maybe it could have been said better but if it was said out of love no matter how mean, you need to talk to them and straighten it out.