How can stay at home mom get out of frustation she is facing after quitting the job and have moved to new city
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Can you tutor students?\ncan you take in work at home such as medical dictation, book work and record keeping?\nHave you found a group of mothers yet where you live? Get out and socialize with the child. Get some help from the doctor for your depression and find a way to feel useful and take time everyday for a walk and exercises you child will like it too. Are there people who look after young ones in their home that you can use? Could you find some one to come to your home if you gain employment?\nStart to think what you can do and find a way to make it happen. Good luck to you.
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I know that ur scared that ur mom will be angry with u for being pregnant and truthfully she probably will be but if u have a good relationship that will subside. I know from personal experience my mom was really angry and we didn't get along for a while. Finding a place to live is great first step in taking care of u and ur child just make sure it is the right thing find a place and then talk to ur mom because it will hurt even more and make her more angry to find out from a third party. You have a rough road ahead of you there are places to go for help WIC and welfare if u really need it. But first give ur mom a chance.
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Hey I'm going through the same thing right now!!!! I have walked out before but it was EXTREMELY HARD to find another job and guess what the one i have now is WORSE!!!!! I hate everyone here to but my problem is that i don't take anyone crap!!!!! I tried to fix a problem i have been having here and it only slapped me in the face, for me i cant just walk out because I'm scared of not finding a job quick enough so i don't fall behind in my bills!!!! I'm trying to stay but I can relate to you.... If you can afford to leave then just walk out if you cant and need this money then stay and look for something else you might have better luck then i did GOOD LUCK hon
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Perhaps you could try asking your former supervisor how you could avoid putting yourself in the same situation at your next place of employment.  If you live in a right to work state they don't have to give you a reason.  Good luck to you.
1076649
Your mom isn't going to change now. She is not going to change unless she wants to. I think you realize this. You need to step back and deal with your own life. She isn't good for you, just because a mother gave birth doesn't mean you have to have a friend in her.
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Please do not get disheartened moving to a new place i s avery difficult experience everytime even for the most adaptable person. But all one needs to remeebr is that these difficulties are all temporary. soon, u will start finding things that you will like in this new place and one by one things will start falling in place and you will have a great time here. So keep the faith and remember to keep a smile no matter how hard the times are..the good momments are around the corner.
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I guess when you realise that what you have now isn't the same as when it started and it isn't something you want anymore. Just break it to her honestly, but don't be brutal. And that public place thing? It really is a good rule of thumb if you just want to get out of there, but if you live with her or still want to be friends, sit down and talk it out (even though she might do most of the talking about mean stuff) good luck and I hope all goes well.
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I take it that you are commuting to college. \nI graduate and start college in January and will also be commuting.\n\nI gave a lot of thought to the whole "moving out" ordeal.\n\nThe first thing you need to do is make a budget and find a stable well paying job.\n\nIf you are smart and use student loans, you may be able to have your rent covered in off campus housing (my sister does this.)\n\nMake a list of your estimated expenses: car payment, groceries, cable, cleaning/laundry, clothing, entertainment and leisure, beauty products (shampoo makeup etc.), unexpected purchases, phone line and anything else you may need.\n\nI made two columns, one for the expense then across from that i put the estimated cost.\n\nMy monthly budget was 1,280$ and i subtracted each expense from my budget. Keep in mind all of this is without taxes.\n\nIf you are living with your mother as of right now, who will take care of your child while you aren't home? You don't have to move 50 miles away from your moms house. Ask her if she would be willing to watch her grandson while you go to school and maybe help out a little.\nYou would be better off living an equal distance from your mom's house and from the college. (To save gas)\n\nAnother thing, make sure you open up a bank account if you dont already have one. Try to put a decent amount in from every paycheck so you have something to live on if you do happen to run out of money.\n\nYou probably have an idea of most of these things, but you really need to think hard about this decision.\n\nIf your mother doesn't have a problem with you living with her then why not just stay.. hey its free living quarters.\nIf you dont mind staying for a bit longer, you should save up a decent amount of money for a security deposit, and a few months of rent.. just to get yourself going and both feet on the ground.\n\nLook around at flea markets and yard sales for furniture in good condition (or the classifieds). Instead of going and spending all of your money, you can find decent pieces for a lot less than you would normally pay.\n\nFind ways to save money and use it towards things you are going to have to pay for in the future.\n\nIf you have any more questions you can send me a message\n\nI hope this helps and good luck.
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Well, is there anyway of compromise? Is the distance between the place of his new job in september and your stable job place too great to commute from a place that's in between the two places?  \n\nIf it is commutable distance for you two, then I suggest that you and your husband staying in a rental home or a reasonably priced apartment that's nearer to your two job places and renting your new house or keeping it for your selves for later.  After all, being so far apart from your husband seems to hurt your relationship with him to the point that it might lead to a bigger issue in future (like god forbid, a divorce).  Communication and intimacy are important keys in a relationship; without them, a person can lose many things in life that he/she might regret later.\n\nHowever, if the distance seems to be too great, then you can stay in your new home by yourself while your husband again goes to the job place and works but I would like to suggest that you two take many oppurtunities that you can to make up for the lessened communication and intimacy in your lives by visiting in the weekends or monthly (whatever suits your schedules).\n\nWhile stable jobs are important to life, a stable relationship is also important to life.  It's up to you two to calmly figure out the balance between the supporting your relationship while having jobs so that both will be happy in the end instead of being frustrated about not understanding the different levels of importance the two of you give to the relationship and work.  After all, you two are individuals and as such you two have different ideas and beliefs over what's important to each of your lives.  To find out the differences and to understand and respect eachother's ideas and beliefs, please do talk seriously about it so that you two can better balance between your relationship and works.\n\nGood luck!
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Being a stay at home mom is a job as well as work away from the house. I think by jobs or work place they may just mean business obligations such as "being boss" handling financial matters or dealing with cashiers, husbands, banks, bills etc. I think you have the most important job in the world why bother to know what might happen in the future anyways? Enjoy life with your kids one day at a time and be thankful for the time you spend. Don't be anxious to rush off to a 9-5 job. Your kids will miss you way too much. You are doing the right thing. Those astrologers don't know you personally and how wonderful you are as an individual.
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there isnt a thing you can do ... i am sorry.... i have a iffy relationship with my mother too... (and i also work with her)....\ni have tryed since i was young to get away from her but somehow it never works out ... although my brothers seemed to have managed it!...lol oh well... just as i get older i try to ignore her "ways"....sometimes its hard ... but at least i do live away from her with my children and husband... but its hard and i think it probably always will be.....just breathe..... and work hard to get your own place!...lol... where you can interact on your terms!... good luck!!!!
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Find a support group.  Get to know your neighbors and other members of the community either online or personally on your free time.  Going through a crisis such as this is tough, but it can be made easier by having people to discuss matters with.  The thought of having a regular set of people to take your mind off the situation at home allows you to not wallow too much on a situation that you have no other choice but to deal with ... think "Desperate Housewives" ;)
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wow-i can relate having moved in w/friends a month ago after leaving my husband. be honest and upfront. sit her down w/your facts written out in front of you.\n\nHave a time-line for you to leave if she cannot pay her share. If she's in over her head - offer to help her find subsidized housing/sell her place etc.\n\nIt's awful to lose good friends over money, honesty is the best policy before you and your other half resent her or worse. Good luck and Happy New Years, Pat
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well it is ur life and ur an adult so ur mom has 2 get used 2 the fact that ur ganna move away sometime u should ease her into it tell her that u will visit her and u will call her and then she can go somewere diffrent 2 visit u good luck
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There's a website and newsletter than you can subscribe to about this exact topic, and a book you can read.  Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D. has a free newsletter/eZine called "Great Career Moves" and a downloadable book called "Making the Big Move" as well as other relocation resources on her website.
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Try the DSS (Department of Social Services) and see they can help. As for jobs, maybe you can baby sit at your house, wash other people clothes, keep their pets in your yard while they go some where. All this is assuming you can not leave your baby. Just a few ideas. Hopefully some one else will have a better answer.