Why do I miss her so much?
608681
Because you probably loved her an awful lot, and any breakup or end to a relationship is a loss.  \n\nHugs.
555862
My heart goes out to you. You're worth better. And I'm not just saying that. If she doesn't miss you, she's a fool.\n\n Girls do strange things sometimes, and sometimes even we dont' know why we do it. Maybe she needs some space. I wish I had a brother like you!
733875
Hi.  It sounds as though you have an underlying depression.  I would say that of course you miss your finace when you are away from her but I doubt that is the underlying reason for feeling down when you are away from her.  Just wondering if you have been subtly depressed most of your life (dysthymia).  If you have true clinical depression then it wouldn't matter if you has zillions of dollars, a fantastic job, gorgeous fiance and tons of friends.  Real depression shows no mercy to anyone---no matter how great your life is and all the things that "should" make you happy.   If your body has a chemical imbalance (even a slight one) then nothing on the outside is going to take that empty feeling away.  I would definately talk to a doctor if you are not feeling good.  Doctors today treat depression regularly and are not judgemental.  I know because I have everything to be thankful for, great husband, great son, good health, nice home etc... but for some reason I sometimes have a sad empty feeling that seems to creep in out of nowhere.  That is just mother nature screwing with my physical self.  Being away from our fiance may trigger depression but it is not the underlying cause.
832676
you know her better than anyone. go get her, but your powerless if she has stopped loving you. :-(. what a sad situation for you, i hope it is all a mid life crisis and hope she comes to her senses and realises how much you miss her! good luck! if you know where she is write her a letter
688533
man dude either you gotta get away from her completely so you don't see her all the time or you gotta try to get back with her, or learn to live without her. it's not easy either way but you've got to choose one!
1110527
oh dear.. this has happend to me too. The best thing to do is try your hardest (though challeging) to move ahead with your life. Time to look for new friends! Be confident, and calm. In a month or so, call up your old friend again, maybe by then she will have missed you, and ask to be friends again. If not, well, there are plenty more fish in the pond. It is the cold, hard truth!
1416
maybe cause your used to him being with you and you miss him
558353
Hello nic@nite! This sometimes happens wen we are missing something in our lives that we once cherished a lot! This is a way by which our subconscious lets us know that we need to do something to fill that void. It may or may not have anything to do wth that girl, but it surely has a lot to do with how you felt wen u were with her. Pls do a bit of intropspection and find out wat aspect in ur life is 'suffering', be it emotional, n so on.. I'm sure dat u wont be hurting again if you do dat, as it is just a reminder to let you know that u need someone or maybe just urself to fill that void. Blessings!
73335
you were probably so busy with other things that you forget about your lovelife.. start to go out, socialize and meet new people.. who knows you might meet her..
1019813
This is definitely not a healthy situation. You need to try and take a break. It is obvious that she has an amazing control over your emotions. True relationships are ones in which both parties can be strong without each other. Although your life feels incomplete without her if it were meant to be so many problems would no be going on.
385419
idk..where did u go? and why would i miss u?
30475
it hurts so bad cuz she was ur bff and a sister...its ok  jus email,call,write letters, i bet she still gonna b there for u no matter where she is! try to find some1 u can relate to and b open wit sure no1 will replace her but will help u solve ur probs and understand u.... a frenz,bf,bff,cuzzin,relative,family members etc
272389
if shes not with you, its not true love...your true love will love you just as much with no hesitation. youll probably feel that way for a long time, but just dont sit a nd mourn for her, because shes probably getting off on the fact that you are miserable over her....find a suitable rebound lay.
349883
i know how u feel...it sux putting in that much time and winding up where u were before u met her....my best advice is to go out and meet new people...go to the mall, bar, library, or even a grocery store...but whatever u do dont jump into another relationship just to fill the void u have now...
507420
she misses you....i dont think she really wanted to break up with you...its that or she still cares for you..not exactly loves you but she still hopes the best for u...maybe you should talk to her sometime and just see how shes doing..maybe start going out again ..
64963
Because You want to be around her...and shes Not there...
182549
If your job is what is taking u away here is an idea that may help her adjust.  Buy little things- I dont mean diamonds and gold- just little things and send her something each and everyday!  Make sure once a week she gets flowers.  Send her cards of love every single day.  Call her on your lunch breaks just to say u love her- send her photos on your cell phone of u missing her!  I would also try to move closer to her before she gets too lonely!  But some of these things will make her soooo happy and make her feel so loved she might just move to be near YOU!