For the guys... How do u feel about dating a VIRGIN? That WONT give it up!?
598307
That's good! If he's won't wait then he's not worth giving it up to.
735374
Still the gymnast, now even more so.  I wouldn't want to date  a virgin, what good would that do me?  Give me the girl who puts out, her money doesn't hurt either.
1137368
Never lie! It's not a good way to start a relationship. The man will respect her more if he knows shes untouched! Not only that, she should be proud to be a virgin!!!
635967
when the time is right and you meet the right person who wants to do it. *winks* I have a friend who loves being the first with a virgin.
869976
You're on the right path. Hold on to your virginity and be honest about this. Most of them are jerks, but this will weed them out and you'll eventually be likely to come across a decent man.
214772
First of all being a virgin has nothing to do with being in love with someone. I commend you on being a virgin. If you really feel that you love this guy I don't see any reason why you shouldn't tell him. The minute you fall in love with someone your heart becomes vulnerable to hurt. But, you do get over it. The real hurt happens when you have given up your virginity to this guy or any other guy. I would take it slow and you will know when you are ready. Don't do anything just because he may pressure you. Believe me if he truly loves you and respects you he will let you decide when and if you want to give yourself to him totally.\n\nI was a virgin when I got married and to this day I have no regrets. I find these days that girls give up their virginity too fast and lose all respect for themselves. Be proud of who you are and never let any boy, guy or man take that away from you.
379101
When a girl is a virgin that means no other guy has had apart of this girl they are seriously falling for. If she isn't a virgin and lost her virginity to some one else, it doesn't feel quite the same - especially if the male is a virgin. Being a virgin means your pure and fairly innocence and that no other male has had a part of you. Considering how territorial men can be, I think that's the reason why.
556380
Listen to yourself on this one.  You know what will make you happy.  And you should not be doing those things until you can handle the full weight of responsibility they can bring.  Be yourself and hope that you can be OK with the out come.    If you asking the question you are not ready to loose your virginity, just a little hit.
750973
being a virgin is great beth am glad to hear that am a virgin to and yes guys love them.  its good to be that way only give yourself to your husband and nobody else cause once you give it away thats it. far as scaring guys off i don't know but in my personal oppion being that way and you lose it to some radom guy is ver disturbing reason why is because you do fine somebody you love very much and he is a virgin and you know he is going to marry you when you both get married you can't give your first to your husband and i think that he really deserves to be your first keep up the good work beth
335685
Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
344044
Ask yourself...do you love her as much as you think you do? cos if you do, you wouldn't bother to find out whether she's still a virgin. Does her virginity really matters that much to you?
344661
Well, hopefully, he is just now learning his way around all of the issues and, probably, isn't really sure WHAT he's looking for at this point, except that he would VERY MUCH like to lose his virginity, and you have to watch out for THAT all the time.  Just be gentle and understanding and careful with him.  Don't let him take you farther than YOU want to go.
508460
it depends on what your reason for being a virgin is.  if you are saving it for the ONE then keep him at arms length until you think he is the ONE.  if virginity doesnt matter to you then I'd evaluate if he's really the kind of guy youd want to lost it to, keep in mind its an emotional experience and lots of guys can be dicks.  i personally waited for my husband and its the best decision i ever made. and dont forget to make him wear a condom, you dont want to get cooties your first time!
79190
Nuthin' wrong with being a virgin. Your spelling could use some work though. *disengaging grammar nazi funtionality*
462181
It's sweet 4 a man 2 b a virgin.I remember wen I was 20 and popped a 17 year old lad's cherry.it felt GRRREEATTTT!!!!!!!!!Knowing that he would remember me 4 the rest of his life.
1022683
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
131757
I think it's wonderful your staying a virgin thats the way it's suposed to be..your suposed to save it for when you married thats the most wonderful gift you can give your husband...if this man doesn't respect your decision then you need to find someone who will..it's hard in todays world to find someone to respect that but you will and when you do you'll know he truley loves you if he will wait for you..good luck