Guys.....why won't he have sex?  Why do I have to beg?
597125
Damn, I wish I had his problems, I am a man and I am going through the exact same thing. It's hard when you want to be with a person and you feel they do not want you. I have tried going on trips just the two of you. If nothing else works ask flat out what is up? This was a good month for me, I got it more than once a week, I still had to beg a few times but at least I got it. I know for a fact it is going to be different this month, I will be begging more but I love her.
429119
ask him why he says "no" everytime you want to get intimate. If he says he wants to wait, then give him some time and be patient. You can't push a man, believe me! If you really like him then respect his wishes, but first ask him why he says no. Talk things out. Maybe that should clear things up for ya.
886507
There are two possible reasons:\n\n1. You pressured him into saying it before he was ready, and he just said it to avoid confrontation.\n\n2. He wants sex without commitment or investing himself emotionally in the relationship.\n\nIf it's the first case, you two should talk. If it's the second, dump him. He's not worth your time, tears, or effort.
395111
He just wants to make sure he has sex all the time. He is a bad dude..dump him fast.
346855
Well obviously he'll turn it into an argument either way just because HE want's sex.He's not being very considerate is he, or mature. I think you really need to do some soul searching about this, and other demands he may make of you as well. If he demanding that YOU clean up the house, or You do that, or whatever, it may be time to tell him that he's being a selfish jerk and your not his sex slave. Or just go looking for a nicer guy who knows how to play by the rules.
905869
Guys are funny. \n\nPerhaps you're right and you need to take the initiative... but perhaps he's not prepared to have a significant other in his life due to a variety of reasons- Immaturity, past relationships gone bad- whatever the reason.\n\nI think that asking to hang out is a reasonable request- but if he's as painfully shy as you say- he might say no. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you- he's just too shy.\n\nAlso something to think about- If you're outgoing (I don't know if you are or not...)- then is a shy guy really the best match for you?\n\nAt anyrate- getting to know the guy better is good no matter what- you might find that he's just not the type for you- or it could lead to him feeling comfortable enough around you to finally ask you out.\n\nBest of Luck!
310500
maybe he needs sex, are you having sex?
229356
he is wanting sex.mabye a freindship also.but definatly SEX no matter how u try to justify him.u should have nothing to do with him.
970661
He is probably "up to" is wanting sex but maybe just a fun night out. Go to the concert with him if you want to but don’t let him pressure you into doing anything you don’t feel comfortable with. The price of a concert ticket and a trip out of town are not worth the price of your self-esteem and self-respect. Bring enough money with you to get you home in case of an issue of conflict of interests but that is good advice for any date if it is close to home or far away.↔
449651
YES!!!!  Call him but don't seem too desperate.  I guess only you two know if you gave it up easy or not.  There could be a long term potential but it has to be built on more than sex.  I say call, but don't be a stalker.  Lay the bait out ther and see if he will respond.  If he doesn't then you may want to walk away soon.  Sex confuses things.  Try to hang out one night without having sex.  That will tell you alot, because it will force him to talk.  Trust me, I've been there.. And without sex, talking is the only alternative- unless he bails, then you may have a lot of work on your hands.
1093099
Dont have sex if ur not ready, why does he keep pressuring u?doesnt he love u? Its obvious that his "manhood" stands priority over ur feelings, because if he love u like he's probably telling u then he wouldnt pressure u, someone who loves u would take the time to talk it out with you and see where the two of u stand on the situation it seems like he's just trying to score.
638046
he wants what he never got... he wants sex from you and will continue to chip away at you until you give it to him...best if you don't take any of his calls or respond to any messages....
67846
NO!! sex is something that you should wait until you get marry. and if you have to ask that just means you not ready. dont give it up just b/c this guy wants it. if he turely loves you tell him to wait and to keep his hands above the shoulders
391885
maybe you two need couples therapy... usually guys want it all the time, so maybe he is suffering from a low libeto... don't give up yet, you have options...
63688
if YOU want to have sex, then by all means do it!  but if it is HIM that is pressuring you, you need to tell him that you are not ready yet.  if he loves you, he will wait.  'til then, there are plenty of other things that you can do to keep each other satisfied.
82607
you need to talk to him, because to me it seem like either you are losin interest in him or you want more than just sex from him and it seems like thats all he wants..... you need to talk to yah man gurl!good luck
284348
That it's the sex.\n\nHow different is he acting?  Like he's not interested?  Then he wants only the sex.