is it right to lose virginity before marriage?
603083
maybe do you want to lose it? that's not the best question because um.....nobody know the answer
462008
Abstinence is the way to go.  There can never be any physical, emotional, or spiritual regrets when abstinence is the choice.  Sex is a wonderful and serious form of bonding between a man and a woman, and something this important can wait until marriage.  \nThere are plenty of men out there who would try to persuade you to give up your virginity to them, but it is only for selfish reasons.  Any man worthy of your affections will respect your decision and admire you for it.\nHang in there, it will be worth it.
742844
I am all for abstinence.\n\n\nThis is how I feel about it ...\n\nYou should stay a virgin till you're married.\nGod intended it to be that way.\nBut many, MANY people abuse that.\nAnd God looks down on those people.\n\nYou don't just give your virginity to just anybody.\nIt is the best present you can give your future husband.\nIt is you... it is all of you.\n\nIf you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.\nYou'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.\nIt won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.\n\nSex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.\nIt takes two very mature people.\nYou do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.\nMost people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.\n\nI am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of more than 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
185126
i think both are equally important. in my own honest opinion a person should lose his / her virginity only to the most special person for him / her.
107935
well, In India sex before marriage is definitelty offensive, and well, there are exceptions of course.. like in some other countries where people who wait till marriage are an exception..
525305
Sex before marriage is NOT allowed before marriage if you are a Christian.(which I am) and people that are not following Gods no sex before marriage rule are not real Christians. God does NOT force us not to have sex before marriage. You CAN do what ever you want. But if you are a real Christian you will follow Gods rules. But God IS NOT forcing you to do it. but if you do you are not a real Christian. just because someone or everyone does something bad does not mean you should. hope this helps and I hope you make the right decision and follow Jesus.
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,
113060
I am still a virgin, because I am not married. It annoys me so much that people now think that marriage is an option before having sex.
158777
Sex is never necessary--period.  Sex can lead down all the wrong roads either through an unwanted pregnancy or through an uncurable STD that will be with you as long as you breathe.  Don't rush into anything.  Your virginity is something you can NEVER recapture, and you should place some value on it.  I'm not saying wait for marriage, but wait for the right person and the right time.
1011614
Uhh...I think it is not a matter of religion but of a moral standpoint.  I do not believe there is anything anywhere that says "You cannot have sex untill you are married."  Like I said...maybe it was a moral issue in the 1900's.  You know what....I think you are on to something.  If people would wait until they got married to have sex there would be less spread of disease, abortion and teen pregnancy.  Plus...if you get AIDS could you imagine yourself saying that "The sex was WAY worth it!"  lol  Is it really so bad?  Half the time I think it is more fun on my own anyway.  hahahaha
30499
I believe in no premarital sex. Say you meet someone you supposedly love, and you decide to have sex. Then if it doesn't work, you have no way to take it back. Then after that you find someone who is a virgin and you love them, you are going to regret your first encounter. Yes, I'd rather wait.
233691
I belive that love before marriage is essential to enable a life long loving marriage. Apologies if I wrong, but are you actually asking about sex before marriage?\n\nThis is a totally different question - and the answer must be, as far as I can see, that it is totally up to the two people that are in the relationship.\n\nYou are correct that nowadays many youngsters (and, of course, some 'oldies') have casual sex - this is their own choice and as long as they protect themselves from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases who are we to judge?\n\nUltimately, we all have our own cultural and personal morals and standards to live up to and as long as we are comfortable with our individual choices and do not cause intentional pain or suffering to others we should do as we see fit. \n\nLove and sex do not have to be entwined, but in my experience the latter without the former is never as satifying to the body or soul.\n\nGood luck in the choices youu make..
360628
I lost my virginity at the young age of 14...If I had the choice, I would take it back...There's no REAL love in just sex...& yes, I agree w/ you, losing a virginity at a young age is wrong...So I have to say, that, whatever I say or anybody else here, won't matter to you if you want to do what you want right?? Here's my opinion, if I were you, I would wait until you're married...I didn't & I wish I would have waited for my husband...I took that away from not only me, but my husband too..
935397
I'm not going to tell you to wait until marriage like most answers you're going to receive..\nYou still have 4 years of high school.. so your odds are pretty good that you can lose that virginity if you want to.\nDon't worry about it...I'm sure you'll meet a girl.
88322
No, it is definitely not ok to have sex if you are not married.  It can lead to all kinds of problem, not to mention diseases.  Oral sex is too far to go before marriage.
1110403
You know what you should do before your first time?  Fall in love.  You don't need to worry about anything else but that the person you are giving your virginity to is the right person.  Everything else will fall into place with that.
1187712
My virgintiy was important to me.  Me and my fiance gave our virginity to each other and we considered it to be the most precious and beautiful thing that we could give each other.  It is very special to us that we lost our virginity to each other.  I hav found myself and (i know some of my friends feel the same), that when you lose your virginity to someone, it is as if a bond almost a blood bond has been formed between you both.  and no matter what else you do, it will always be with you.\n\nVirginity should be equally important to men, i believe it is to many men but they are loathed to admit it because of the way they have been socialised.\n\nIf I loved someone and they were not a virgin i would marry them if they loved me but I would much prefer the situation I currently have.  I am lucky to be marrying the man who i lost my virginity to and who lost his virginity to me.