what is the feeling if its your first time to have SEX?
613691
Well, what kind of 18 year old are you?!? I cant believ you don't know this stuff before?!?! \nAnywayz, 1) girls bleed cuz there hymen breaks\n2) just get a bed, a condom and don't forget the girl\n3) To avoid having a baby is something called birth control. you can use condoms, or she can take The Pill.. or any other way (but mostly, those two are most common).\n4) you can learn about sex from SCHOOL (if you went to one) or just look up some websites using yahoo search.\n\nbtw, your weird and freaky..
1039979
IT Is because you wer happy of having sex, and sad of losing virginity
902451
Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
97001
It's different for each person.  I assume by your avitar that you are female.  If that is the case, it will probably hurt the first time, maybe the first few times.  \n\nI would recommend waiting until you are married, it is definitely worth the wait!  It's also nice to know that your first is someone who is planning on sticking around.
838385
Wait until married...  Funny girl :)  and most of the time totally unrealistic (6000 years that some are trying to control sex life of other people... just wake up, it just doesn't work !!)\n\nIf you feel it, you're ready to begin to consider it.  But wait until you feel comfort, take your time, change of partner if you feel pressure, first times can be really important for the way you'll consider sex and love for the rest of your life.  And most of the time, the first time isn't really enjoyable for the girl, she has to learn how to relax and first time are most of the time not really relax :)\n\nSo, look for comfort and respect.  It means also good place, good timing, good guy/girl, love or something near it, and respect.  And to not fear AIDS or a too soon baby, be prepared.  \n\nYour doctor can give you good advice for those last things, but sometimes for the rest too.  Follow your feelings :)  and when you feel ready, enjoy the ride !
438671
First-time sex shouldn't be painful, provided you are with someone you love and you feel completely relaxed with. You have to be completely ready for sex and totally comfortable with the idea. There should also be lots of foreplay to make sure you are well-lubricated. Provided all this is true, you shouldn't experience any pain.\n\nHowever, if a girl feels unsure about having sex, or unsure about the person she's having it with, her vaginal muscles will tense up, which can cause a lot of pain. This is true of any sex, not just first-time sex.\n\nBe safe, have fun.
277384
No you don't need to know sex moves for your first time, it will hurt too much, wait a while before experimenting any moves.
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If you truly couldn't wait, you would have gone out and done it :)\nIn your heart of hearts, you obviously want to wait until there is someone special in your life, and that is a good thing!\nCelebrate the fact that when you make love, it will be that - making love.  And not some cheap one night of sex which would leave you feeling worse.\nI know it must be very frustrating, but I think you are craving having someone special to spend time with more than you are craving 'sex'.\nThere are many people, male and female, who make the desicion to wait until they meet someone special until they have sex.  I didn't wait, and I do regret it.  Meaningless sex leaves alot of people unfulfilled - it left me feeling worse than I felt before.  This might happen to you too - often you can feel worthless and you self confidence drops after a one night stand.\nDo you really want your first time to be with 'just some random girl'?  Would it not be more special to wait until you find someone you truly care for who cares for you?\nI hope its not coming across like I'm telling you that you have to wait - if you really want to just have sex then you can do that - I just want to let you know that some of who did that wish we had waited.\nI don't know if you would actually be able to change how you feel - you are 24 so you are a grown man who knows his own mind, and it is likely that deep down you know you would be happier waiting.  I hope you don't feel presuriesed in to having sex - I've known a lot of people who has presuriesed mates 'jokingly' only for it to come out later that they themselves hadn't had sex and weren't comfortable with that fact, and were just trying to shift attention.  Mates have a way of making us feel small for taking the sensible route sometimes.\nYou made a positive descion to wait, and I think it would be best for you to stick to that descision.\nIf you've yet to meet anyone special - get out and meet more people.  Make new friends - the more people you know, the more chance you have of meeting someone who you click with.\nGood luck, I hope you can make the right descision for YOU!\n\nEditted to add:\nThe only way you can 'control' yourself is to think things through and look deep inside yourself so you know what is the right descision to make.  Only you can decide wether or not to wait, so if you find yourself feeling like you might be tempted to just go out and get laid, take a step back for a couple of minutes, and ask yourself if that is what you really want.  Listen to your heart and your mind, and remember that purely physical urges will pass, but the negative feelings you may have if you have an unfulfuilling sexual encouter can last a lot longer.\nHope this helps.
700825
I loved her, respected her, and cared for her very much.  I was very, very gentle-and listened to her every wish during the event.  It was a little painful to her, to say the least...which made me feel bad, but she loved me also, and made me feel not so badly about it.  It's not really like having "sex"-that first time.
6760
YOU FEEL IT. ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR FIRST FEELING CAUSE IT TRUELY WILL NEVER STEER YOU WRONG.BELIEVE ME BEEN THERE
337661
I wouldn't know, I was raped when I was a little girl & so my first time at 16 did not feel like it hurt. That's too bad to have had that taken away. Oh well, life goes on. I'm sure it hurts though, and the anxiety of the moment probably doesn't help either.
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it all depends on who your having sex with..i have decided to wait because every time i do have sex!! IT HURTS!! so im just gonna wait until i find someone thats right for me(u know marrige) then maybe i will like it...(so dont just go around experimenting make sure you know what your doing and you love somone then maybe sex will feel GREAT!!!
459614
Unless it's traumatic, your first sexual experience is highly significant - whether you are a man or a woman.\n\nYour first love is also highly significant.  Even if there was no sex involved.
519640
Yes. Partly it's physical, partly it's fear and not knowing what to expect. Partly it can also be if your first time is your guy's first time, him not knowing what he's doing and rushing things can hurt. \nIt gets better the next time.
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If it is the first time for both of you to have sex, may I suggest taking things slow.  Especially if it is her first.  Alot of my friends didn't care much for sex at first because their first partner's were too rough and not the most considerate.   And I think any lady out there would also suggest taking things slow.  It's not a race.  Enjoy yourself and for god's sake use a condom.  Communication is good too, make sure you are both cool with whats going on.  \n\nMy first time I remember it feeling like my head was a blur and I was a bit dizzy, but It was a good feeling.
635967
when the time is right and you meet the right person who wants to do it. *winks* I have a friend who loves being the first with a virgin.
1172441
I have heard of girls who had a good first experiance and came durring the experiance kinda get addictided to it like a drug and connot help wanting something up there all the time. You need to learn control though or else you'll end up with one of two things. And STD, or other illness (make sure the things you put up there are clean honey) or you will end up pregnant.\n\nBest to remember that although it feel good and is instinct, you control your sex drive, your sex drive does not control you.\n\nTake it one day at a time