I need advice really badly....?
595039
listen to what your gut is telling you and act on how you feel, don't make things complicated by thinking too much. your story sounds great, but remember sometimes your gut may not tell you things you want to hear..
507750
Just move out, did you consider doing so.  What you're about to do might seem nice and hot now, but will you be able to deal with this in the future??? Can you just think of how terrible the consequences might be?  Start thinking of it backwards, if you will be able to deal with this and the possible consequences of this than go right ahead, if not, I suggest you take a real action like moving out, we're all weak and if this is how you feel now than there is a big chance that you both might weaken again one day.
702461
trust me, thats a very bad idea\ndont look for a girl just cuz you feelin sh!tty\nit will lead to a dependancy on others (your girl)\nthe best way to deal with your problems is good help, not dependency\n\nso im sayin you need to talk and somone to listen
892209
You should still talk to your counselor.  He/she has dealt with these same issues before, and may be helpful in suggesting things you can do to make it easier on yourself.  They are there to assist you!
1178537
You are so far into the material and emotional world that I cannot help you.  My advice is to drop all girlfriends and boyfriends and have no relationship whatsoever until you can get your head together.  You are a living soap opera! lol hon get some help!
598842
Go back to your therapist. Also look for a single-mom support group near you or online, (email me if u want!) Trust me girl I know from the bottom of my heart. My ex husband ASKED me for a divorce while i was in school. But I pulled through, we struggle every day but I thank God for my true friends that have held me up. If you are suicidal you definitely need to talk to someone. Biggest thing you can do is make it an absolute priority to take time for yourself. Put the baby to bed a half hour earlier and go take a bath, turn on a workout video, chick-flick, whatever, have a glass of wine, paint your toenails...anything you want as long as its just for YOU. Remember a happy mom makes a happy kid...NOT the other way around.
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Yes, I think that maybe you should tell someone that you really feel comfortable telling. I mean after all this is a very serious situation. Things will only get worse if you dont do something now. Good luck!!
560486
counseling helps, but there is no cure. will power and support from family is what you need. or a friend for that matter. some of us can relate to you more than others. find someone to talk to sweetie.
1128024
put an end of this relationship if it hurts you this way...seriously...try to get your life back...simply tell him "I want to break up. I can not stand anymore of your "friend to talk with"...I do not like secrets, there should not be any secrets between us...try to learn something from this...bye  bye forever"...and really bye-bye...or else you would live like this forever...my friend lives like that...and I know how you feel...for your own good, let him forever, he will not change, trust me...I am a little hard on you, you do not know me, but I do want to help you and all women that live like this...YOU DESERVE a person that is devoted to you, that adores you, that tells you everything that happens to him, that lives for you (and you for him, of course)...you would like this, don't you?...I thought so...you just need some courage...
865029
Is it really that bad?  If so then get out!  If not then just put up with it.  It's tough as hell out here.  Think long and hard before you jet.
170862
yes! i am in desperate need of help...
288696
Call your local Crisis Line and ask them.They will talk to you and suggest various ways to help.Sometimes they will send(with your permission)a counselor to your home to evaluate your problem
548694
basically find a local family therapist to help guide you in this very tough time... you need to discuss this matter at length with someone who is capable of guiding you thru this...
1081369
go immediately to your parents and tell them, 2 years is too long and it needs to stop, if you can't go to your parents then tell a friend and hopefully your friend will tell her parents. (then they might be able to help you)\ni wish you lots of luck.
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Don't force it, bro.  Don't even try to put yourself in a situation.  When the time comes, you'll just know.  \n\nSorry, this must seem like lame advice, but trust me, it's better that way.  I'm speaking from experience...
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well the best thing  to do is meet some one else some one who u can talk to and some one who will listen good luck or simple jus think of something or some one you can talk to email or call them up and tell them up any more prob's emergencies u can email me i am 14 and my add. is freak1altm@yahoo.com
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I dun wish to be in your position...but if I were you, I would speak to the first abt my feelings and tell her that while I really appreciate all she has done for me, it would be great if she can be a little tactful...tell her she hurts your feelings sometimes, and remember to tell her how much her advices and thinking have help you a lot! \n\nAs for the second...seek her advice when you think you need it. She might be waitin for you to ask...but too shy to tell you her opinion without you asking...=)