why is life so hard? i need help can anyone please help me?
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I am so sorry for you loss.  It might help to talk about it with your family...\nLoosing a family member can not only be hard...but stressful and draining.  So many things can be done...so many things can help you.  The thing is finding what works for you.  \nIn every life...there is death.  Neither one can be fair at times....I am so sorry.
660708
The tough choice in life, i was in a similar situation a long time ago, the first question is, do you have a good support system or the father of your children that can help take care of your children temporarily till you get your life together, it seems from this letter that you have to prioritize with  what you have to do before you end up homeless. My only suggestion is survival and a strong will get you through, and only you can help yourself even if there are tough decision you have to make in order to survive.  always, empathy in CT
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It sounds like you are there.  It's called tough love for a reason.  Sometimes people just need to hit bottom, and hit the bottom bottom of that bottom before they really truly get it.\n\nYou tried.  I hope you find peace with your decision, you need to take care of you.
36079
Hard? maybe\n\nToo hard? no.....we can handle this. \n\nNo matter what it is, there is someone that will listen, someone that will help you. That's how it becomes not "too" hard. But you have to let someone know you need that aid. Many want to help.....don't be afraid to reach out.\n\nFor example......asking your question on here was a big start!! Next......call someone......and talk to them about it too. I so hope all works out. Good luck! (and reach out.....don't forget!)
44616
These things are emotional and you need to get profesional help to get through them. No one one here can type anything that will help. Go find a counselor. (Some will probably be jerks and say stupid things about you) Good Luck!
674542
First let me start with You have depression. You are in a funk right now. I too have my moments when I think that God has forgotten all about me or has even played cruel jokes on me. It is the depression. You mentioned God so that means that in doing so you have not forgotten him,he too has not forgotten you. It seems like things are so hard to take but everyday you have something good. you just have to look for it.  If you were to end life now all would be for nothing. besides the pain that all who love you feel in that event is so unfair. I have had to endure that kind of pain and I don't want to go through that again. However it plagues my family everyday. Things always get better. If you take medication are you taking it? Is it adjusted correctly? If not maybe you need to see a doctor. good luck to you
397465
I tried to help you the best I could. Do not ever give up! This will take you time to think over.  Time will tell. Good luck my friend.
1177473
Just like everyone else in this World including Yourself Life has its ups & downs!!!! For every darkness, theres a streak of light waiting to dissolve it & the cycle continues!!! Experience Lifes challenge Bravely & Calmly & I am sure u will enjoy life!! NO PERSON IN THIS WORLD HAS IT EASY!!! It is upon u to make it easy!!!
575884
Nope everyone breaks down at times. Life aint easy. We have all had our share of bad times. If this is a real bad problem seek counselling and good luck xxxxxxxxx.
278752
you are being too hard onyourself.  You need to work on you.  Take a walk and try to just enjoy the day without worrying about what others are thinking all the time.  Try volunteering your time to help other.  Nothing will give you a perception that your problems are so bad when you see what other people go through.
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You need to take some time for yourself and figure out what you want in your life. Get away from everyone and be alone somewhere that you can just think. Where are you at in life? What do you want to accomplish? What is important to you? How are you going to do this?  Life is a mess sometimes, take time to clean it up.
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Sometimes life give people bad turns.  All we can do is try to learn from and understand what is happening and why it is happening.  Just remember that with some time things will get better.  They always do.  It sounds like you are in a hole.  Just dig yourself out of it.  When you do, you can look back and see what you came through and then you will be able to use what you have learned to encourage someone else.\n\nTrust me...I am going through something very difficult right now, but I know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.  Sometimes I get very sad and angry and all that, but I am just trying to tunnel my through with the hopes that things will get better.  I believe they will.\n\nIf you want to talk, send me an email.
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marcelline\ndear we all fight life that is part of life stress. If you have a familly is a big stress if you work hard is a big stress i think we have to find the solution of it and the solution is to stay at home and don't do nothing wich is not life you have to learn how to live your life think about yourself try to find at least an hour or two for you to relax like walking it make you feel good life is how you make it and life pass very qwickly and it is not worth  it  we live all our life with problems so try to do meditation before you go to bed think about something that makes you feel happy and for sure you relax take care of yourself and be happy
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these feelings are normal.  everyone questions life at some point.  hang in there.  see if you can talk to someone like your priest or a counsellor... it's good just to open up and let your feelings out.
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I think that everyone at least once in their life falls on some bad luck. \n\nIf you really are in a jam and are feeling overwhelmed then I would suggest going to your local Social Services department to ask for help. If you qualify, they can point you to a number of programs that can help you manage the money you do have better and give you assistance. They even offer job training through other county and state agencies.\n\nYou can also consider contacting your local church or religious organization for help. They often can be of great assistance. I have even heard of them helping people make a mortgage or car payment if they are in dire need.
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I'm saddened to hear that you live in this state.  Sounds like you were traumatized a year ago.  I've been through this. It's a horrible feeling. Asking these questions and reaching out for help shows that you are beginning to come out of it.  To return to reality,  face your troubles no matter how much it hurts.  Talk to a counselor, pastor, friend, teacher.  Continue to ask questions if it makes you feel better.  I wish you a bright future!
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Are you serious? It looks like you have a heavy burden on your shoulders. Nobody hates their life so much without realizing they need help. What happened to you in your childhood?\nYou need help. Professional! Immediately!