why  would a man 2 time a woman he loves.?
603875
most men think with there d**ks and carnt keep it in!! iv been there my EX who i was with for 9yrs and had a child with went an F-U-C-K-E-D a bar maid who was the local bike and she gave him a std and he even tried 2 cover that up by saying it was a yeast infection!! how dumb did he think i was so i was out the door like a shot and the girl them dumped him an he wanted me bk coz he did have a gud thing goin on but it left me scared and i have problems trusting men myself now coz of this, men r jst as much as slags ans woman r! fact of life.  gud luck hun x
1001036
I say there should never have been a 2nd time.  ever heard the saying. "Fool me once-shame on you, fool me twice-shame on me"  Stand your ground and don't let it happen another time. Because it's getting easier and easier for him to do it knowing that he has done it this many times already and your still there to go through it.  Let him know what he's lost and don't budge. If you stay in this relationship your pretty much begging him to do it again. Sorry but thats a true answer.  Good luck in the choices you make.
672466
Let's deal with this first. You need to understand that for a man, having a woman, even loving that woman, does not make all other women undesirable. GOT IT? Think about that for a second. A man does not cease being attracted to women in general because he loves one woman in particular. Digest it. Meditate over it. LIVE WITH IT. I dig where you are coming from on an emotional level because i had to enlighten my GF on this issue. I had to make her understand that my love is not suddenly questionable because i got a lap dance. u may not be ready for this type of reality. but print out this response. read it every so often and eventually u will come to the realization that not only am i right, but that you, just like my GF, are being irrational and immature.\np.s. HOW IN THE HELL IS WATCHING PORN COMPARABLE TO ASSOCIATION WITH "FRIENDS" OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. NEWS FLASH! IF U LOOK LIKE ANYTHING, ALL THOSE MALE "FRIENDS" WANNA SCREW U. IF I WERE HIM I WOULDN'T BE TRYNA HERE THAT SH!T EITHER!!!
824762
He should not try to marry her until she admits she loves him too. She should not make him look for the hidden messages behind her twisted lies if she really loves him. How cana  woman in love say she does not love him? \nHe should wait until he is sure she loves him, otherwise she could be using him only.
707719
I personally believe you can love two people at the same time.  We are complex beings and it is somewhat naive to think one person can meet all of our emotional, psychological, and physical needs.  It is however, very complicated and most people will not tolerate this kind of a relationship.  This presents a dilema for the person who has two loves - do you tell them both or do you hide this from both of them and try to have a relationship with both.  And if you do, how complicated will it get before you are found out?  You risk loosing both lovers....
475399
Cannot help loving someone . I f he has a girlfriend, maybe he loves her. If so better to find someone else. Unless he is interested in you.
605886
That is pure selfish. He wants other women and you too. Been there before....Not something to try and build another relationship on , a threesome. If he truly loves you, he'll put her to the curb and come back to you, no matter what. If he's asking you this, and is separated from you now, then his intentions aren't to fix things, its to have his cake and eat it too. Its not fair to you, move on, find someone who won't use you to get his kicks like your current hubby....GL;)
314092
It has nothing to do with realizing how another man can please him over a woman.  It has everything to do with weither he WANTS another man to.  In theory you would think that only a man knows what a man wants but then you are missing the glory of showing a woman just what you want all the while enjoying her.
888192
But...but...but...why would you want someone like that?  Once he's with you, he might still be attracted to those "taken women" still?!  Please reassess....you might be just heading for a lot of frustration and heart ache!
1172600
LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY!  It looks like he made his choice already.  A man will never leave his wife to be with the other woman.  If you guys were talking before he got married and he still married the other woman...I'm sorry to say, but he is not thinking about leaving his wife for you.  He has his cake and eating it too..so to say.  You are only hurting yourself if you continue to pursue this relationship.  Save yourself from anymore heartache and just end it.
347553
I admire the honest mature questioning. Do men get tired of the same woman? Genetically...deep down where the desire to procreate comes from I'm sure. But that's why we have a developed brain. We can move beyond the animalistic impulses and focus our attentions on the woman we love. If I, as a man, want something new in my sex life, why would I NOT express and share it with the one woman with whom I am comfortable and love the most? Some of us can think this way. Others.....not so much. Judge us not by others, but by our own actions.
1091730
I only read the first two sentences. Why are you with him? I would of left him after he cheated once!!
451565
I think he do love you, due to the fact you lost your women head to him so there are feelins all around you teo relationship. Just give it a try it want hurt, Just be careful with yourself
314822
It is so nice to see/hear two people in love.\nBut you need to be up front and foward with him, if you talk to him that much I am sure he will understand that EVERY woman needs time to herself. And if he doesn't now, he will later!\n\nGOOD LUCK!!
1155837
Sounds like they both have baggage. Its time to find a new circle of acquaintances. Two guys are not a large enough sample to decide on anything long term. These guys are not in love with you, they are in love with your sex. The first always has a special place but there are very few first and only true loves.
177333
because u love this person
298855
He may find these women exotic but it does not mean he'll leave you for one.  I see a lot of gorgeous women that I am attracted to but it doesn't mean I'm going to leave my wife for one of them.  It also means I would never settle down with one.  There are qualities about my wife that I found to be more suitable to spend the rest of my life with.  Men are very simple creatures.  After they have sex, sex is off their mind and what's left is reality, a woman you love for her being her or the woman you're done with.  The fact he's with you says he loves you for being you.  What is in question here is his respect for you.  Talk to him about it.