How can Muslim men get married to a Muslim wife?
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U r wrong , Most of Muslim woman DON'T Cover their faces , We Cover Our Hair , as this is called Hejab , but covering the face is in countries like Saudi Arabia and they minority not majority .. \n\nAnd Mostly Muslim men know about the girl from her family and friends and her acts in her surrounding community , but still it's essential to talk to her and know her in a good way before the marriage and he could come to her home and talk to her also they could go out but with one of her family members like her sister or brother , \nThere's something to know , in Muslim marriage , one of the most important factor of the marriage it self is the woman acceptance , means that when the religion man "Sheik" begin the marriage steps she must be asked if she agrees to be married or  not , if not , the marriage cannot be done , and this is made to make 100 % sure that she is Happy with the marriage . \n\nNow a days , boys and girls are in the same colleges , and it's easy to know the good and bad girls from their behavior and also to make a respectful relation ship with any girl to know her better ... \n\n Hope i was clear ...
892343
Consider your choices: One of you have to convert to the other religion or see if there are any civil ceremonies instead of a religious one.\n\nGood luck, congrats
1117504
1well decide who is hotter of the two \n2 which 1 do u think you can have better, more intelectual conversations with \n3 tell the other to fuck off  \n4 go with the other 1 \nunless you are a muslim thenn polygamy is ok,  then u can marry them both
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She is not, I am Muslim and I can say that. maybe she really loves you but your relationship seems impossible. in our book male Muslim can marry Christian,Muslim and Jew woman, but female Muslim can't marry but Muslim man. so she is probably if she told her family they would prevent her from seeing you at all. so she keeps finding excuses to be with you as long as possible. talk to her outright and tell her what I just wrote and she can't deny! good luck.
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For Muslims? yes\n\nWill she convert to your religion to prove her love? \n\nDoes not look like it otherwise you would not been asking this question.\n\nSo she keeps her religion first and you secondary .\n\nWhy she does not open her mind ? and convert to your religion?\n\nAll Muslims are going to tell you that you must convert . But it goes both ways.\n\nIf she wont be Muslim anymore You will not have any problem marrying her.\n\nThough under civil law you can marry her, without either of you converting.\n\nAfter marriage a girl is supposed to join husbands family, it looks like you want to do opposite.\n\nAre you sure about conversion? \n\nIf you convert then what? \n\nWhat Islam has in spiritual section which advait Vedanta does not cover ? We do not have a one book religion not narrow definitions. There is so much to learn that whole life time is short. But the freedom Hinduism gives is unique.\n\nYou will be just getting loosing your family and if your marriage somehow did not work, you will have already lost too much. Because the moment you leave your religion for marriage , you lost an identity , you had since birth.\n\nUnder civil law you both Will be better off. Nobody will be loosing his/her personal belief yet get full benefits.\n\nOr you care more for the relationship to continue than her?\n\nGet another Girl will be my suggestion If she insists that you should really convert.\n\nOtherwise you are going to end up frustated after a few years.
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Actually, Islamic law states that you may have more than one wife, provided you can take care of them all equally (monetarily and emotionally), whether that actually happens is another question. But under law, that is what is supposed to happen. In the US, it is against the law to do so, and people living in the state must recognize those laws and understand how it affects them.\n\nAs to your question, Muslim women enter these relationships apparently due to their beliefs in their religion, or perhaps due to pressure from other Muslims.
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If he is really in love with her.  It doesn't matter what is his religion. If he wants to marry her, he must first convert to Islam, or he can NOT marry her.  It is as simple as that.\n\nAll it takes to become a Muslim is to profess the belief in Allah and his prophet is Muhammad.\n\nMuslims believe in God, and they call him Allah, that is what they believe is his name.  They believe Allah has 99 names.
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As a Muslim, let me tell you its a great religion -- really satisfies the soul.\n\nIt is a COMPLETE way of life for an individual.  It is also the most moderate of religions, in that it has a deep spiritual side as well as a deep practical side.  For example, when you pray 5 times a die, you pray directly to God, just you and Him.  As a Muslim you believe in Jesus, Moses, all the other Prophets, INCLUDING Muhammad (peace be upon them all).\n\nIts a great religion.  Do NOT listen to what the media says.. learn about it from the sources yourself, dont depend on others.  www.whyislam.org\n\nRegarding your situation, as a Muslim, your husband will probably become more kind and modest.  He would also start praying 5 times a day (dawn, noon, afternoon, sunset, night), fast during the month of Ramadan, should go on the pilgrimage to Mecca once in his life, give charity, and believe in one God.\n\nBe supportive of his decisions.  Important:  Do not hold him back from practicing his religion.  He can not force you to practice, but you should not force him NOT to practice.  Dont let it become an issue in your relationship, thats key.  Remember that.  Its a religion for him.  I have personal experience with this.  Do not make him choose girl vs. God, unless you really dont want him. \n\nWho knows, maybe you'll become Muslim too! \n\nWell, best of luck, I hope it works out.
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The guy should not be shoving the religion down your throat.  It is up to you to convert when and if you ever are ready. It's not a requirement because Muslim men are able to marry women of the book (ie, Christian, Jew, etc), but if you want to have children in the future, it will become an issue because Muslims who marry outside the religion want their children to be raised Muslim.  I will tell you that being married to a Muslim is difficult, just as it may be with any man of any race or religion, but there are so many more rules and a lot of jealousy and insecurity for no apparent reason.  Best of luck to you. :)
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I'm afraid that I do not know the proper name for a Muslim celergyman, please forgive my ignorance about that, but you could go to a Cleric in your Mosque, tell him that you feel ready for marriage and seek his advice about how to meet girls with a suitable background. He would know which families in your area have daughters of marriagable age and probably would be the person best able to judge which of the young women you might be compatable with for marriage.\nGood luck.
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no i am Egyption moslem and her in EGYPT we cannt do that and in islam it is haram thats mean that the islam is right and the arab is think good \nits realy bad to live with your love without you marry
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Hello Levente...\n\nFor a practising Muslim, any kind of western style dating is not allowed... Holding hands, hugging, kissing, oral sex, even being in the same room alone together are banned!\n\nLet me explain...\n\nOutside marriage any kind of fornication is a sin, and by fornication a mean anything even a lustful look. There is a Hadith that says that it worse for a man to have an axe through his head than even accidentally touch who is not his mahram (wife or blood relative) women.\nFor women (like me) when I'm outside or with non mahram, I must wear hijab (cover myself fully) and I'm not allowed to be alone with a man. etc etc.\n\nWhen I do decide to get married it is not Islamic to have a long engagement etc. And I won't be alone with my fiance until after marriage. Typically family and friends help find prospective partners, and then arrange a meeting where maybe they leave us 2 in a room, and they wait outside with the door open! And then if you are still not sure it is OK to ask questions by phone etc, before you get married.\n\nAs you see it is very different from the western version of romance!! \n\n\nOf course not all Muslim women follow the Koran as strictly as this and we do live in the modern world..but this is the ideal!\n\nAnd I forgot... Its the same for men too of course they are not allowed relationships outside marriage too
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he is not worth your time and effort. By the way, Islam does NOT allow a husband to "CHEAT". that is plain down pathetic for someone to even say something so stupid
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Yes only if you convert into Islam.Don't pretend that you are Muslim if you don't mean it and don't become a Muslim just because you want to marry a Muslim girl. You should embrace Islam only when you are ready and I truly hope that you do that with honesty.\n\nDon't marry your girlfriend if you are not a true Muslim yet. You will get a lot of troubles then. I hope your heart will open one day to accept and practise the real Islam before you marry a Muslim girl. May God bless you.
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Yes they do. They call them people of the "book".\n\nMuslims do not allow women to marry outside their religion though. even to the people of the "book".\n\nThey had one book and thought they had hit a jackpot.\n\nBut seriously speaking they used to behead people who refused to convert and take their women in. so it was declared legal.
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right ...thanx for sharing ... i would give some references from Quran , which would tell how much Islam respects Jesus and Marry :\n\nAnd when the angels said: O Mary! Lo! Allah hath chosen thee and made thee pure, and hath preferred thee above (all) the women of creation.[AlQuran 3:42]\n\nAnd remember) when the angels said: O Mary! Lo! Allah giveth thee glad tidings of a word from him, whose name is the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, illustrious in the world and the Hereafter, and one of those brought near (unto Allah). \nHe will speak unto mankind in his cradle and in his manhood, and he is of the righteous. [AlQuran 3:44,45]\n\nAnd because of their saying: We slew the Messiah, Jesus son of Mary, Allah's messenger - they slew him not nor crucified him, but it appeared so unto them; and lo! those who disagree concerning it are in doubt thereof; they have no knowledge thereof save pursuit of a conjecture; they slew him not for certain.\n[AlQuran 4:157]
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marry the one you love. my wife is a sikh and i am a englishman and she had the same problem with her family.  the guy you dont know will treat you like trash so dont do it. stand your ground the world is changing be yourself and do what you want.