What can you do to prevent someone you are in love with from searching elswhere?
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just be there for them. treat them good. and show them respect.\nIF they leave, you have done all you can
636965
You CAN leave him alone, you're just choosing not to.  If you know where you stand with him, and you choose to accept that, that's not really his problem.  It's yours.  You've got to get a spine and move on.  While you're being his booty call, you may well be missing out on finding your true love.  Do whatever you have to--  change your phone number, go see a counselor, have a friend monitor whether you've contacted him, but do NOT...  I repeat DO NOT contact him anymore.
45405
YOU DONT. YOU JUST PICK UP THE PIECES, GO OUT THERE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO LOVE YOU WITH EVERYTHING INSIDE THEIR SELF. LOVE IS  NOT HARD ITS THE TRUST YOU GIVE TO SOMEONE THAT IS HARD TO ERASE. YOU WILL BE HURT FOR A WHILE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT BUT YOU DONT NEED TO HEAR FORGET ABOUT HIM. YOU NEED TO KNOW YOU CAN MAKE IT. REMEMBER BE NICE TO HIM . IF HE REALLY MISSES YOU HE WILL CALL YOU. DONT DO OR SAY ANYTHING THAT WILL PUSH HIM AWAY
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I would say ignore them but that only makes them want you more. You have to TOTALLY ignore them. You have to avoid all contact because the slightest thing you do will only make the attraction stronger.
742736
find a good guy for her. a guy who would be ready to love her a lot and never hurt her.\n\nP.S. you can't stop someone from falling in love. \n        Love is inevitable.\n        We don't choose love, but love chooses us.
717781
Communication is the key, I know it's hard to have someone who is so far away, but if the love, trust, and communication is there neither of you will strsy. We all get urges sometimes and want someone else to physically be there to comfort us, and you can do that but don't cross the line with it. I speak from experience. If you need a more elaborate answer don't hesitate to ask.
64320
Well first off, why do you need to forget them? If they are just an impossible goal, let them go by KNOWING that it wasn't meant to be, and that you WILL find that special someone for you. Destiny....that's what it'll be, and you'll know it when it happens.
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Set a standard of who you would like to be with, and then search for him. But never lower your standards for anyone!\n\nAnd DON'T use yourself either!\nUse HOPE of finding the right person to keep you going thats what I do!
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The answer to your question is forgiveness...You must learn to forgive the love of your life...There had to be a possible reason why that person ignored you...You get past the hurt and pain by giving em another chance...I think you don't love that person..if you did u would of not given up on love \n\nI know what you are going thru...The love of my life is far away from me...but I still love him...Nothing can make me stop loving him...not even distance or time...Love is not easy..Love is a battlefield..
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You'll never find love if you keep looking for it.\n\nStop trying so hard.\nKnow that God has a plan for you and He will bring you the one in His own time.\nJust have faith in Him.
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How old are you ?? But you will find someone soon , you just have to stop looking !!
547965
Tell him you love him and that you woudn't cheat on him and that it hurts you. Tell him that if he won't stop, he would lose you 'casue you can't have a realtionship without trust!
28830
wow that has to be hard well all i can say is just pray for him and yourself and try to stay in touch with him as much as possible i know a person can't help who they fall in love with i hope it all works out. good luck.
458970
I know you don't want to hear this but You need to leave him alone, because as soon as you find someone else that you really love, a girl or boy is going to take him away from you. What goes around comes around.
368455
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]
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You can't.  Just be alert and watch for the signs....unexplained purchases, loss of interest in intimacy, trouble maintaining eye contact, a sudden change in mood or behavior, mysterious phone calls, a confrontational attitude, making excuses to leave, unfamiliar scents, etc.  Most importantly, do not expect honesty.  If they have something to hide, you'll be the last to know.
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I don't think its wise you become emotionally attached to this person who cannot be emotionally availible. It will only lead to distress and heartache.\n\nI would suggest taking you mind off the person. Its important to let her know that you cannot put yourself in this situation, because its an emotional strain.\n\nIf she truly values her happiness, she will do the right thing. Hopefully she will know better than to stay in such a destructive relationship, but that's something she will need to decide on her own.\n\nBe patient and more importantly drop all expectations toward the situation. Perhaps you should focus finding someone who is capable of investing the same about of love into a relationship as you are.\n\nYour happiness is at stake. Think about whats important for your own well-being.\n\nGood luck