how do you get a shy guy u really like to open up to you?
597959
maybe he's just quiet b/c he doesn't know what to say to you. he could be really attracted to you, but afraid to say the wrong thing. some guys have trouble expressing themselves to girls--especially if they like the girl.\nhe could also be really shy all the time. take note of how he acts around his other friends (guys and girls). if he's quiet torwards them too, he probably just needs to work on his people skills
1067983
i honestly do not think that you can. just cause you are so nerves around him. you make sure that each and everything that you do when he is near is done correctly. my ? is dose he know that you like him? if not that's a reason way you get that way you do. what i suggest you to do is when you are w/ him act like you are not into him. it might help a lil w/ the shyness. act like you have known him for sometime. get close but let him show you something befor you open up.
1084658
As a shy person myself, I tend to relax and open up more around people who put me at ease...most of my friends are extroverts but not pushy...they will talk and be outgoing, but they don't force me to (they welcome me to)...if you really like this person then ask them out...a lot of shy people miss out on things in life because they are shy...it's a choice...you can't force someone to not be shy, and they have to want something badly enough to put themselves through the possible discomfort of opening up a bit and coming out of their comfort zone to get it...
221877
Overcoming shyness is not easy, but can be done. I used to be really shy too, but I started hanging around people who were outgoing then myself and I started noticing the positive attention they gained by being outgoing. I just worked on walking up to people and introducing myself and I learned that if I want something I should ask, the worse someone can ever say is NO. \nPractice makes perfect, the more you do it, the easier it gets. :D\nI now have lots of nice friends and I have been out on a lot dates. :)\n\nOh and as far as getting a boy to notice you. Don't overcome your shyness just for that. :) \n\nThe best way to get someone to notice you is just by being yourself. :)\nGo up to him, start off with a simple hello. :) Introduce yourself. \nLittle by little and believe me, it will take a snowball effect, before you know it, you just may have yourself a nice friend,if not, well, there are many others out there. :D\n\nHope it helped good luck
864421
this guy would love for you to come up to him and tell him.  trust me most guys are shy with women and wished the girls came to them.  try and see what happens, good luck
1091593
Maybe he needs something from you and he's just too shy to comfront you with it. Normally, shy men whos attracted to you behaves exactly what you have described. I think this guy needs encouragement from you, so he would be able to tell you whats on his mind. Goodluck!
157820
Slowly get him to trust you enought to open up to him.  Talk to him.
281820
A shy guy is going to stay shy.  That's part of what makes them so cute!  A lot of times, a shy guy is really attracted to girls that are more outgoing.  He did meet you after school, right?  Well, that's a good sign.  What did you talk about?  Pay attention to the things that he thought were interesting.  Be yourself, be outgoing, be honest.
1073644
Actually, you like his personality. If you like how he waits and where you stand in control issues.. isn't that part of one's personality. Just wondering. Since he is really shy, you're probably the one whose going to break him of his silence. Make him talk. If it doesn't work find other ways of communication. (Phone, letters, etc) Good Luck!!
804665
i think shy guys r cute, but at the same time a girl wont ask a guy, so u have to have the balls to go up to her and atleast say hi, cuz a cute smile here and there will have her playing with her hair and thats a sign that she likes u, just be normal dont act like someone else and just talk about anything and then ull start to have a conversation and things will lead to another and good luck from there
30216
So times if you are to shy to let a guy know that you like him, the best thing to do is to let him know with actions.  Treating him just a little bit different than a guy friend.  You know, look directly at him when talking, smile, give him that little extra attention.  He will get the message and most of the time that is a lot better than coming on too strong, good luck!
779868
You don't!! You cant make a relationship by making him like you but you can see his interest and look interested if he likes you then he will some shy guys need an extra push..
942705
You really have to be an extrovert around shy guys and bring us out of our shells. We may have the major hots for you but unable to articulate that emotion into anything less than senseless jibbering when you are around. Ask the guy out- be bold, go do something together that puts you in close proximity without feeling like there is alot of pressue. Some guys will respond and there is room to grow and some guys might not. Believe me, if he likes you you should start to see him melt-but keep at it if the feeling is returned!\n\nGood luck!
298693
most guys are REALLY stupid, so thats gonna be hard w/o a direct aproach. just smiling at him works wonders, they catch on. a little extended eye contact, just a little longer then usual. Also ask his best friend who he likes, and ask questions about him. and his best friend will probably tell him.\n\nGood Luck, guys like shy girls so im sure your fineeee
751414
Wow,okay first I'm going to start off saying this:Since he's the shy type dont make any conversation to personal or something you know  he can get embarrass or shy about,when you talk to him,compliment anything,his eyes,face,clothes,smile,etc. Anything you find attractive on him,you can be  extra nice,shy boys LOVE nice girls! Trust me,this will work! GoodLuck,hope this helps!!!! :)
415707
Hey If u like this guy then u should be more forward in asking him if he's interested,  but if being shy is still an issue then u should be a litle more flirtetous with him so u can get the right signals...it doesn't hurt to try
704599
If you're shy, you can start by talking to him about school, ask for homework help, stuff like that. After he's helped you, you can give him a little gift, or make him a thank you card. That'll show that you're interested in him without being pushy about it.\n\nIf you're really really shy, well, just smile at him whenever you can and find ways to get close to him, like join the clubs or classes he's in or get into projects with him. \n\nIf you're not shy, well, that's good, just go right ahead and ask him out. Don't be afraid just because nobody else is dating anyone else. It's your life and you must do what makes you happy.