My guy friend and I talk about going out and being attracted to each other all the time.  I am a guy.?
599642
I dont think that means you are gay. But maybe you should sit down and really think about this before jumping into anything you might later regret
441940
i think you should take the risk...i started going out with one of my good friends, and we ended up falling in love.  since you guys started out as good friends, i think no matter what happens you'll always be close.  who knows, maybe he'll be your true love
966021
It's normal.  I'm the same way with a guy friend I like (except he knows I like him).  You can't help but feel that way.  It's human nature.  People are naturally territorial.  You'll eventually get over it.
871750
no you are not gay. there will always be times like this when you will be confused  by friendship over attraction. just let it go.
893161
yup, i'm in the same position except i'm the girl and my guy friend is just like you. \n\nso...it's not reciprocated? well, i suggest you get out and meet other girls. that's what i want my guy friend to do but he seems to be into me much more. and i know it's not good for him-i love him as a friend, only. \n\nit sounds harsh, but you might have to spend some tim,e away from her...get out into the dating scene. clubs bars etc if you're into that kind of thing. if she has any heart she will encourage you to do the same.
884213
kindof a rattly statement just to say you like the guy.....\ngive it some time and if meant to be will work out!
305901
Its good that you were honest with your friend, he knows how you feel about him now and also knows your sexual preferences. But if he is not interested then you need to let him be and just try to be friends, he is entitled to his own sexual preferences as much as you so it is important to respect that.\n\nIt seems like he still wants to be mates so you might be able to build a good friendship with this guy, most young men probably wouldn't want anything to do with you if they knew you fancied them (i'm assusming you're male) so he sounds pretty understanding and cool and might be able to offer you some good support.\n\nIf he does want more than a friendship at some stage he'll come to you.
1164761
My boyfriend says the same thing.  What he doesn't understand is that I am attracted to both sexes.  He thinks it's because I'm with him now that I am only attracted to men.  Doesn't work like that buddy
917072
I have a guy friend that takes me to movies and comes with me to church. We do a lot of things together but that doesn't mean he likes me. Many friends do things together but it doesn't necessarily mean they like you more than friends. Then again, me and my guy friend ended up going out so who knows, wait it out.
532072
You might feel like you're on a date, but that's just because you're straight.  He doesn't feel that way at all.  I had this one friend and I didn't think that I was leading her on or whatever and she KNEW I was gay, but she said that it was unfair of me to play with her like that and act like I was into her.  I wasn't GIVING her signals or anything though.  If he really wants you, let him come to you, you don't wanna lose a friendship just because you think you could convert him.  Things would just be WEIRD between the two of you.
858998
okay well since your shy have a friend (while you guys are messing around or something) ask are you guys going out? or do you guys like each other or just single him out and have them ask gee it seems like you like her...do you? and even if he says no see what he does like with his face and stuff.......
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
75089
it's nature ..!! it's the circle of life !! .. we get attracted to guyz n they seem to be sweet even if ur not atractted to him .. sometimes guyz r more fun to be with ..
1129641
If he's your best guy friend ... you already know you like each other.  It's workin' out just great the way they are.  Don't rush it.  Things will take care of themselves.
932245
i totally agree....i have this guy friend...that when i first met him...started flirting with me...we got a little closer....made out a couple times and i really like him...then he goes and says that he doesnt want a relationship and that he is just cuddly with his friends....it kind of pissed me off...especially because i liked him....we are still good friends tho.
193463
I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
107911
Look! To me it sounds like you like the guy more than a friend so you should like give him hint's and flirt just a little bit. If you don't see nothing hapening then it looks like you all wer just ment to be friends.