What makes you feel guilty the most?
602986
Hungry children and half of Affrica has aids. no one cares.\nThey don't have money to steal. Iraq will cost tax payers $2 trillion over 10 years. Our young people are screwed.
982591
i personally do. i suffer from depression (pretty extreme at times, along with self harm) and some ocd tendencies, and i feel guilty alot. I feel like i'm a burden on my family and friends. I believe that that is a problem among those with mental problems. That's why lots of commercial say "Depression is not your fault" or "you are not a bad mother if you suffer from post partum depression" and stuff like that. People with a mental illness are naturally already in a very vunerable position, and if others around them don't except thier illness in the best of ways that can exacerbate the situation. Such as depression, they are naturally already hypersensitive to any sort of criticism, which can make them hard to deal with and lead others to be more critical of them, and is really  just a viscious cycle. So, i personally feel guilty and i believe that alot of people feel guilty about thier mental illness's, whether it be because of the disease itself (one of the symptoms being guilt, such as ocd and depression) or just seeing the stress they put on others and feeling guilty about that.
170845
whenever someone makes you feel crappy,even if it's some picture in a magazine or on t.v. it always helps me to say \nF**K YOU!!
761315
Nope, never.  I don't feel guilt very well, and when I do I usually just end up laying a huge guilt trip on someone else accidentally.\n\nThis morning, I kind of blew off this guy that wanted to pray for a girl who's about to get chopped up into donated organs, and then like ten minutes later, I was talking to this lady who's been stressing out about doing this speech for me that she'll be giving on a retreat for kids, only we don't have any kids signed up yet.\n\nShe said "There better be some kids by the weekend, because I'm gonna be mad if I had to do all this work and nobody shows up!"  and I was like "Yeah, me too." without even thinking about it.\n\nOnly, she's giving one talk for the retreat, and I'm supposed to be in charge of the whole thing.  God, you should have seen the look on her face!  She just about fell over appologizing to me "Oh, I'm sorry, here I am just thinking all about myself..."  I bet she still feels guilty.\n\nAnd now... umm, what question was I answering?  Oh, yeah, you're totally cheapening the whole meaning of cutting, you should stop that right away...  Well, cutting isn't good for you anyway, but, lots of people cut, and some of them lie about why they do it so people won't think they're just weird.\n\nReally, when you hurt yourself on purpose you usually feel guilty no matter what.  That's your body saying "You shouldn't be doing this."  That's a bunch of christians quoting that whole "Thy body is a temple of God" don't desecrate it bit.. and that whole "Thou shalt not tattoo thyself no scar thy body for the sake of the dead" verse.\n\nWell, I've made a good and thorough jerk of myself here, so now I'm off to ask a question about where all the trailer parks are, or something.  Then I'll go to bed, and tomorrow I'll figure out how to apply to this college that's almost two thirds women, since they seem so desperate to have me, a guy, go to school there.  Geeze, don't twist my arm or anything, huh?
714007
confront mom and ask y she's laying on a guilt trip. afterall it's not just your happiness it's her's too and maby an outside souce (you) should point that out
1022240
There is no justification for pushing guilt. God does not make you feel guilty. That is from the dark side. God will convict you of sin by making you aware. The devil likes to make people feel guilty so they will self medicate through everything from sex, to drugs, to work, etc. It then becomes a round robin because you then feel not only guilty for what you might have done off target, but you will also start to feel guilty for the addiction that is robbing your reality. You then need more of what ever is keeping your mind off of the problem and that opens the door for more guilt. Don't let another human being judge you period. If they are not trying to help you tell them to buzz off and keep looking for help. If you seek you will find. God will never point out what is wrong with your walk without a solution. Satan is the author of guilt.
188638
Guilty.  Sometimes Not Guilty.\n\nWhat exactly were you trying to find out?
688857
Being honest about your feelings you should keep it straight forward and to the point knowing that you have done this will make you feel alot less guilty about hurting his feelings
717967
Guilt is not going to change your circumstance, it is going to add to your stress. Guilt is a disease. (best taught by religion) \n\nYou have to do what you have to do, and only you know what that is for sure. \n\nIt is there own problem if they cannot understand and accept what you are asking for. \n\nNo one should ever feel guilty. But that doesn't mean succumbing to there needs to rid yourself of guilt. That will make things worse and leave you open to being manipulated with guilt in the future.\n\n You are are responsible for your own happiness. They are responsible for theirs. \n\nIt sounds like this will just go on and on if you don't cut them off now and deal with it. Then, it may only take a short time to figure out. You won't know unless you do it.\n\nThey will have there own guilt to deal with for not giving you the space and freedom you required.
183222
time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
410656
Guilt should stay with you, at least in some measure.  That's guilt's purpose - to make you regret your actions, to make you want to change for the better, and to teach you compassion for people that you have or would have hurt.  \n\nHowever, it is understandable to want to ease the pain of guilt and find a way to use it as a motivator for something constructive.  In that respect, some people would say "religion," some would say "prayer," some would say "meditation."  Those can help for some, but those mainly focus on changing who we are inside.\n\nIdeally, I think that people should also find a way to do something for society that is in some way related to their crime or the person(s) that were harmed.  Like if someone harmed or killed a child, I think they should look for a way to do something for their local schools or Little League or something like that.  If the victim was an old person, maybe they could do something for a local seniors' home or center.  If the victim was someone that did things as a community volunteer, they could find an opportunity to be a volunteer.\n\nOf course there would be some circumstances where someone would have to really think hard to find an answer that works.  For example, if the person had molested a child, then obviously they shouldn't look for a way to work where there are children around.\n\nIt's a worthwhile way to make amends to one's community and whatever group their victim would identify with, it can just take some time to figure out exactly how to best go about it.
267595
I know how you feel. There is one fellow from a long time ago who was tormented as a child as I also was. One time, our collective tormentors goaded us into fighting one another, promising to end the torment of whichever one of us won.\n\nI have felt badly for years that the one I should have had the most empathy for was the one I ill treated, not our tormentors. \n\nBut does finding that person and apologizing make them feel better - or you? I asked myself that question, and realize that it would be of little benefit to the person I feel accountable to - it would only assuage my guilt. All I would be doing would be bringing up a long-past horror I know I don't care to remember. \n\nIf this person was ever going to forgive you, chances are they already have. Don't make them relive something simply for your benefit. Unless you were actually planning on reestablishing a relationship with  this person, take your lumps privately. It is the only decent thing to do.
352016
Guilt is an inner voice that is trying to tell you that something is not right.  You need to look at that guilt and understand where it is coming from and why.  We all have an inner conscience that tells us when we have strayed from the belief system we hold to.  We need to forgive others, or ourselves, make a firm amendment not to repeat the cause of that guilt (the action, thought, etc.) and if necessary make restitution to whomever we have hurt or damaged by our action.  I am talking about actual guilt that is a result of a wrong action on our own part, where we have violated our own inner beliefs and not someone elses attempt to use guilt to shame or control us according to their own agenda.
150569
MOST guilty of? I would have to say lust. It has gotten me into trouble way too many times to count!! "blush"
451002
Because they either feel guilty, got drunk, or fell in love.
208827
Guilt is created by the society in which they're raised. People in India probably wonder if we feel guilt for eating cows and drinking milk when it causes the cows to be locked their whole lives in factory farms where they can't move or see the sun. Biologists who study pig intelligence probably wonder if people who eat pigs feel guilty, given that they are far smarter than dogs (which most of us don't eat). North Americans often wonder why South Koreans (who do eat dogs) don't feel guilty. It's because guilt is not based on logic and reason. It is based on culture.
456590
I'm actually having that same problem. In my case, yeah, I made a mistake, but I fessed up to it, was honest about it, and tried to apologize for it. I still feel like the other person is trying to make me feel guilty, and I refuse to be around people who are always negative all the time. I thought that I liked people like that, and maybe I did once, but now it just brings me down. I want to feel better, not feel how alone I am, and how much the world sucks. That's my story.