Why do men treat women like they are a peice of meat???
609343
some men r jerks because they think thats how it is in society, and then there's the real men, who understand a females feelings, and better yet treat her like a human being
394229
I think it is the WOMEN that say all men are jerks that are causing the problem with the men out there. Maybe if they knew how to act and treat a man, they wouldnt think they were jerks.
792256
Men are men! Some speak different languages, some different ideas and values. However, they are all men. The way they treat you is an individual thing, depends on the man. God bless****
974897
Because they are insecure creatures and do not believe they are worth being loved in a true and pure manner.  The best way to handle a woman is to be manly with her plain and simple.  I call it "being Sinatra" ... After you practice being a take charge type of guy she will respect you....Stop asking a woman "what do you want to do?" and start making plans and sticking to them...That's what women want and that's what they respect because they only knew from what they saw their daddy doing, and he was always in charge of her.....Once they get older they find all these mamby pamby boys that are always trying to be nice.  Be nice when you need to be and be manly all the time.  good luck damn it.
186164
Lol it's not just females, I think males have the same problem. If I can't find a female who can take care of family together with me, I would rather turn myself into a monk! (yeah of course it's a monk who eat meat, dating around, go to las vegas and play poker, etc...)
802732
Too bad you are in another part of the world. I love to be treated like a Lady and very few men know how. One of the problems is that just like you, you treat some one that way and they don´t want to be treated that way. Is it old fashioned? I don´t think so. I think it is sweet.
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
900585
Well, you know guys and their EGO , not a lot of guys are sensitive than you are,they think  that when you get really cheesy , you're losing your manhood...they are wrong . it's actually more appealing to women if they see the sensitive side of a man than trying to keep it to themselves and feel sorry for it later.
99228
dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
195574
i'm also tired of idiot ignorant wannabe men.  here i am, a young boy, who always figured i was just a little boy.  but lately i've realized that i lead by example, i can actually skew the curve of what a woman should expect of a real man.  any guy who loves a girl should treat said girl like the dread pirate roberts in relation to the princess bride.  you ask your man "would you do the dishes?"  he should say "as you wish" and then get busy doing the dishes a.s.a.p.  you ask your man "have any interest in sweeping the house"?  he should say "as you wish", and then get busy sweeping right then....not tomorrow.  you say "make me dinner, sweetie".  he should reply "as you wish", and he should get off the couch and make you some good healthy real food........not run to mcdonalds with your credit card.  i wish you luck.
357944
It's a testosterone thing. \n\nIt's apparent you're in charge. I've been kicked, slapped called backwater sexist pig, and worse for holding a door open for a woman. I hold the door open for everyone.\n\nI've been called un-chivalrous, rude, and backwater sexist pig for NOT holding a door open for women.\n\nI've also been hit by a girl, and defended myself (when I was younger) and called sexist for hitting a girl. What about equality?\n\nI humbly request that you stop the Door thing, the the attacking, and the "which dress makes me look fatter" things. It just makes you look like whiny little brats. It gives men the illusion that you are too whiny to be in charge.\n\nBasically, it's delusion, testosterone, and not wanting the times to go past 1920 that makes men think they are still in charge.\n\nThere are some enlightened men like me who know what's going on, but there are some like the ones you described who have no clue that y'all have all the power.\n\nI hope this answers your question, Mam, sir, Master, whatever you want to be called.
993619
well some men do treat there women really bad and i think they get it from there parent on how there dad treated there mom it to bad how some men can be real ass hole but the women have a choice to they can always leave but the funny part about it is that the women that leave come back to there man i dont under stand that
695301
I dont like it when boys/men dont know how to treat a lady with respect
482579
I know this was for the Ladies but I just want to say right on man. I swear its the truth. If you don't beat or degrade a woman somehow then they don't like you. Some of us who was raised to treat women with respect just get screwed.
504331
No, your not a whiner.  He is using a double standard and basing it on your sex which makes it even worse.  This man obviously has some very definite opinions regarding women and their place in life.  I don't get the feeling your the type of woman that is going to be able to put up with this attitude and belief of his in the long term.  You need to find a man who respects women and sees them as equals.
196729
Simply put because they are BONEHEADS!!!!!!\nFor real though because it's in the history of men. And because they don't understand the word "comittment" which in turns makes me want to say " Screw Them All"!!!!!!!! On all real just talk to him and asked him why?\nThen in return you can come back and explain to all us females what's their problem is.