i apoligized for a mistake. but she keps hurting a lot. the mistake was due to my posessiveness.?i ve realsied
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If you apologized and you were sincere, there is not much else you can do. Did she forgive you? Maybe you can just keep being nice and take her somewhere special to make it up to her. Most important, trust her. Possesive men are scary. Show her that you trust her and maybe not call her too much. Let her have some freedom. Good Luck.
118233
your behavior seems very irresponsible.  look at yourself.  take responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your actions.  Learn from your mistakes in this relationship
859679
Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
630674
I dun wish to be in your position...but if I were you, I would speak to the first abt my feelings and tell her that while I really appreciate all she has done for me, it would be great if she can be a little tactful...tell her she hurts your feelings sometimes, and remember to tell her how much her advices and thinking have help you a lot! \n\nAs for the second...seek her advice when you think you need it. She might be waitin for you to ask...but too shy to tell you her opinion without you asking...=)
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Somewhere in our lives something happened that we never really were able to get over. It takes going back and seriously understanding the reasons why it happened. If someone hurt you, you need to finally figure out what it was that brought it on. If it is something you can control about yourself, you are half way there by realizing it! If it was something that another did because of a flaw in their personality, you have to come to terms with the fact that you were not responsible for their decisions and those are things are are not in control of. But the main thing is to trust in who you are. Believe the good is there and obvious to the right person. Know what you are attractd to and what makes you happy. Be proud of your attributes and those around you will sense your confidence. But your doubts may be deep seeded..........find someone to talk to about them......and discover what placed them in your head to begin with. Good luck!!
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If you really feel bad for what you did apologize to her..but if you are just asking because you know what you did is wrong but do not feel bad about it then do nothing because you will hurt her again, eventually.Hope this help!
1099246
you should say that you are sorry........ you think about it alot because you really have a good heart and it never hurts to apologise when we do something wrong.  You need to apologise for her but you also need to apologise for yourself........
383895
hmmm, a guy just did that to me recently.  She has gone through a lot of thoughts in her head by now.  If you want any chance at all, you need to own up to the fact that you hurt her by not talking to her, and apologize and say you'd like another chance.\n\nWhy did you stop talking to her?
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Apologize.  Acknowledge that you are human and have done wrong.  Ultimately you will have to forgive yourself and move on.  (Easier said than done, I know)
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You tell her that what she did truly hurt you, and see how she reacts.\n\nIf it doesn't seem like she's really sorry or just doesn't seem right, tell her you were JK and you're surprised she took the bait. (Lie, but it saves face and makes her mad. Spite is a sin, however.)\n\nIf she seems genuanly (Spllng?) sorry, it should all be good. Just remember, Her BF has priority, she herself proved that.
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i made a mistake.. please forgive me.. i love you
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Hey she has to understand that some people have their own oppion. But you should still have made sure that when you said it you need to be really nice about it. Some girls are more sensitive then others. i think you should chill a little and then just go up to her and say you didn't mean anyoffence. you didn't actually mean to hurt her. and that it does look ok. Even if you don't like it. It does involve some lying but at least someone does not hate you. I bet if you try that she will not be mad at you anymore. But whatever you do just try to realax!
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Sometimes our decisions are wrong and we have to pay for those mistakes. You have hurt several people, perhaps because you did not consider the magnitude of your action. Take some time to think about how they feel now and how you can fix the situation. I know you feel bad, but you are not stupid. Try to learn from your mistakes and value your life and happiness. If you give love and respect to others, you will receive love and respect double or tipple than you did. Good luck!
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well what did you do.. if you dont want to say it online, that i fine, but you should give her some time!! b/c running up to her right after it happened is never a good idea!! jsut let her some time to breathe and then try again!! let her kno that you are really truely srry!! try giving her a present or a card or something that tells her how you feel!! adn then.. dont ever do it again.. unless you really just want her to NEVER forgive you!!
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That is why we have a saying look before you leap. I also learned from a seminar that we should breathe deeply, relax and count to 3 before saying things especially when you are mad or anxious. These are times when we say things abruptly that seem to be right at that moment but realize after that the words that we said could have been said in a better way.\n\nThis should be a good lesson to you. With regards to your problem, Having said sorry and making her feel you are sincere should be enough. It is now up to you if you want to win her back by starting from scratch. Earn her trust again and make her fall in love with you again. If not, move on.
404642
Man,your apology is good enough...email her a freakin love letter but not too long and not real short.She'll come around-don't worry!
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You really have the patience and you do care for her a lot. But i feel that she does not deserve someone like u. Find someone else.\nI know that it will hurt. But reality sucks and you have to accept it. I am really sorry dude.\nBut them again, if you really love her. Give her one more trial. None of us are prefect and we commit mistakes. Just conside this as a foolish mistake by her and give her one more chance.\nForgive & forget. As long as it does not hurt u.