Are there any tips on how to tell my BF how i feel and the dream i had about him?
611901
i think it would be better if u confess to the other guy that u are in a relationship. it is quite possible to fall for other people while u are in a relationship. its natural so dont worry ok? just take your time to know this guy.. it might just be a crush since u say that u love ur boyfriend. may be after sometime u will realize this new guy is just not ur kind. tell him the truth about u being into a relaionship. dont lie. it could harm ur relationship with ur boyfriend in future. and about telling your boyfriend..i think u should just tell him u have made a new friend nothing else.. tht is it.... dont worry. hope it was of some help.
81380
Well first of all what are u wantint to tell him??? If you are wanting to be gf/bf/ then i would say hey look i like you and tell him how i feel and at the end say and i want to know if u feel the same. Look now this is to you dont be scared bc if ur scared then it will go wrong so just take a deep breath and just tell him the only this he can say is i dont feel that way, so just try u will never know how he feels unless u try ight girl go and get ur man
1050738
always be honest... tell him how you feel.
852344
if you feel that strongly about saying it, do it. just tell him how you feel. tell him that you don't want to scare him because of his previous relationship, but you've been feeling that way, and its killing you to tell him, even tell him you feel like a teenager again. and don't get all upset if he doesn't say it back. if he doesn't say it back, he might not be ready yet, doesn't mean he doesn't feel that way, but he'll say it when he's ready. "It never seems the right moment." - there is never a wrong moment to tell someone you love them.
118091
girl u must tell him ryt away............ you dont know maybe he loves you too,theres nothing wrong for telling your feeling about him.........we have freedom to tell.......good luck girl
646518
Whatever you're sending via text-message or giving to him should be a reflection of your relationship and your time together.  My bf and I have an inside joke which we send to each other all the time, not because of the actual text but because when I receive it I know he's thinking about me.\n\nIf you send a simple note that says 'just thought of you and it made me smile' that could make his day.\n\nGifts - same deal.  personal and thoughtful is the way to go.
319141
tell him you love him and how you feel about him!!!:P
99941
I have dreams like that too! and I wake up furious. then I tell my husband about them and we both get a big laugh. \n(he has the same kind of dreams too. like one time he left me for Natalie Portman and then saw me walking down the street and regretted leaving me!) but the best way to feel better about it is to tell your boyfriend and have a big laugh. he will reassure you that he would never do that and you will feel a lot better!
925688
Hi,\nhen I wanted to tell my bf the first time how I felt, It has to be the right moment, my moment was walking through a fair holding hands and then I just looked at him and it came clear this was the time to tell him, so all I said was, 'you know what...I love you'\nand then it was just fine after that, he picked me up in his arms and twirled me and then said I love you too.\nIt was great, but like I said it has to be the right time.\njust say it like you mean it, ok?\nGood luck! (^_^)\n\nCowgirl In Need~
1128917
I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
532074
ya i have.. all i have to say is that you have to approach him youself.. for this work you have to become your god yourself. he only gives the heart to love.. until and unless you tell him all your feelings no miracle gonna happen so don't worry about anything and dont hesitate just tell 'em everything and the perfect way to tell him is talk to him. don't take the help of letter it is not good way to express your love.. if you feel hesitation don't worry take the help of electronic media i.e. your mobile i wish best of luck for you, reply me to ramblingdesires@yahoo.com i am sure its really gonna help you.. BEST OF LUCK again
449830
Don't worry, it was just a dream. Since you were thinking about telling him you liked him, that might have been your mind's way of backing out and coping with the stress. Brace yourself when you ask him and I bet'cha he won't say that.(I should know, I'm a guy myself.)
890282
maybe you are afraid to let him know how you feel. since this is your first bf you probably don't know how to express your true feelings. just hang in there and things will come to you..when it feels right deep inside the words will come out..
385901
tell him how you feel.
123314
i wouldn't say u dream about going out with him just be yourself and let mother nature take her course. E-mail me at maxxruby@yahoo.com
178111
tell him how you feel about him and tell him what is on your mind
1158709
Just be honest and talk to him about the things you said and how you were feeling at the time. That way if she says anything, he has already heard it from you. Good luck.