how do i get a boy to like me if i hardly know him and we barely talk but he said he likes me but he has a g/f
608197
If he's mentioning his girlfriend, it may mean a lot of things, but a couple are:\n\n1) He's pretty happy with her but wants to keep his options open (jerk)\n2) He's using the girlfriend thing as an excuse not to get more involved with you.\n3) He doesn't know what he wants and will say anything to avoid making a decision about who he's 'dating'\n\nYou can't make someone like you, but you can scare them off!  Don't be eager to get this guy...take some time to get to know him if you can...really casual.  If you get along and it's meant to be, things will change.  Also, you may realize that you don't like him as much afterall.\n\nOne sorta sneaky thing is to learn about him and his girlfriend - what bugs him about her?  If you're the opposite, make it known (subtle!)...that mixed with your good personality and easy-going ways might catch his attention.  Good luck!
672129
you cant get him to like you but you can in a way tell him that you like him\ngive him some signals, you know what i mean\n\nlook at him whenever you can, but make sure that only he sees it,\nthen smile at him, look into his eyes\ngo past a group of your friends just to say hi, its just as simple as that, make small talk, for guys to gals and tother way around, all the guy really cares is talking about anything, small talk is good\n\niunno, thinka something...... hope this was helpful
342418
start out by trying to build a friendship. try to get to know him and then it may become more obvious of whether or not he likes you too.
971093
don't tell him...get a friend too. just tell you friend to be like...." i know someone who likes you! " and when they ask who...they will be like..." (your name)"  that way...things can get rolling and in no time, you will have a new bf.  guys are pussies, and once they know a chick likes them, they will start to like yuo back and realize your awsome...which you are..cus everygirl is...\n\nsavvey?
789927
he sure likes you!Something like this happen to me i went to my friend and talked to her and she didn't mind me going out with him so i did and everything was perfect just be careful you don't want to lose a friend just for a boy\n\ngood luck\n~jenna~
50414
you have to talk to him yourself and tell him you like him!\n And then see how he feels about you!\n     Then if he feels the same way about you ask him if he would like to hang out sometime!
187261
OK  First you find the boy you really like. then act normal go up and talk to him! It may sound stupid but that's how I got my boyfriend cause he started to like me when he got to know me and I talked to him!
46439
dont try to start out with saying you like him. don't give him a hint, either. boys like to play games in order to get girls to like them. start out by introducing yourself and complimenting him on his game. just act like you want to be friends with the guy. later on, then give him the hints that you like him and hopefully, he'll do the same.
809900
He obviously just liked you as friend, but you have more feelings for him than that. However for the time being, give him space and hopefully he will start talking to you. I know that it hurts but if he doesn't like you in that way you will have to find someone else.  The next time you see him, don't say anything just smile and then after that just say hello. Give it time and hopefully he will start speaking to you again
338768
Hey girl, don't worry about it.Get your flirt on and if he likes you then he should eventually come.but if you are impatient get some confidence and ask him.You aren't alone.i am waiting for a boy to tell me too.i am alittle shy in that area.
1016522
ok you gotta talk to him!  If you're not communicating, then your relationship is dead, even if it's just friends.  Try and forget you like him, then you won't feel so nervous about talking to him. \n\nBelieve it or not, I like girls who talk to me and act friendly.  If they ignore me, i just assume they don't like me and I move on.  So break the silence!
998011
he does like you 110%......well, i'm a guy, usually it's pretty hard to talk about stuff like that after he might not know you like him, he wants to do so much stuff with you to be sure that you like him because he's waiting for you to make the move first....you could tell him that you have to talk to him, he will, unless he's an idiot...believe me he's more worried about you not liking him, ect.  if that made sense to you (it did to me obviously), Good luck!
874845
Well first of all do you like  him?\nIf so try these things to get him:\nHow you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nand make sure you have expectations like these(my personal ones)\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nGood luck to you!~Alison~
465315
The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
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i'm trying to do the same thing but maybe you should flirt with him or hint at him and maybe ask a friend who knows him to hint too when you're not around. you know have her say stuff like " yeah she's single ya know. she's been looking for a bf but no guy is brave enough to ask i mean if anyone asked she would probably say yes easily."
881961
you should flirt with him a little so he can start getting the message also make sure he doesnt have a gf
413156
1.) Make him notice you and get to know him.\n2.) Get close to him so it's kind of obvious that you want to be more than just friends. Play with his hair, touch his hand, touch him casually in neutral places like his arm, leg, back, etc.\n3.) Tell him you like him.\n\nIf you get to be good friends, tell him that if he doesn't like you, it's okay, you're fine with staying friends.