is wrong to be a married cd?
611731
NO it is not. If you are happy with your partner so be it. Do not let anyone tell you any differently
347187
I think it's wrong if you're partner doesn't like it. If your partner is ok with it, then do it! But it depends on you and the other person.
403028
That Bible does teach that, it can be a bummer if you aren't married whether you do or don't.  If you do, you feel guilty (at least I do) and if you don't then you are frustrated.  I would rather be frustrated (but, not always).  I am still working on it and as long as I am not seeing someone I am in the clear.
491194
If you're not a Christian, then it isn't wrong, necessarily.  You need to define what's acceptable at the beginning of a relationship, and then if you don't violate any of those pre-defined rules, it isn't really cheating.\n\nIf you and your partner decide it's okay to have sex with other people, but it's not okay to wear blue lipstick, then don't wear any blue lipstick!  Just have sex with other people, you'll be okay!\n\nIf you ARE Christian, it's wrong because God defines our morals and he says it's wrong.  He says we're to be faithful to one other for the rest of our lives after marriage, and not to covet someone else's love.
161773
Where did you get the idea that sex is wrong?..There is no written rule there. The bible says "you can be married if you feel you need to be , but you don't have to be".. It actually says "pick one and stay with them" That is Gods own personal advise on that subject!..You don't have to be married, just monogamous. quit kicking your own arse and be in love for pete's sake!
748886
IT IS NOT ANY OF ANYBODY'S BUSINESS !!!\n\nNO ONE SHOULD BUTT IN ON YOUR MARRIAGE, SO YOU SHOULD NOT BUTT IN ON ANYBODY ELSE MARRIAGE !!!\n\nPERIOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
706352
I think that's a comon feeling.  You're in a rush to "start" your life and that usually includes a husband and kids. Try not to rush it because after you get married to the wrong person you'll realize how silly it was to think that way. 50% of us marry the "wrong" person. We have to be happy as ourselves before being happy w/ others. Suppose it never happens? You need to fulfill your dreams.
753934
marriage is a religious and social status.  i've been with my partner for 5 years and we are not married.  our relationship is great. he is always there for me, as i am for him.\ni'm not saying marriage is not a beautiful thing.  or that i don't believe in it.  i'm just saying that some people don't have to have approval from society and the church.  i'm not knocking it, i'm not saying we aren't going to get married.  i am saying that we're happy with our situation right now.
1138062
Honestly i think there is nothing wrong wiht it, Who you love cannot be controlled no matter what you do. And i beleive you shouldn't be held from the one you love beacuse of gender. So i beleive bush is wrong for holding a group of people back from marriage. and thats my honest opinon
457976
romadgo..utter rubbish!...Nothing wrong in common law marriages, I do not live in the US, I am pagan and as a pagan I got 'wed' we had a handfastening ceremony.  Just because its not recognised by law doesnt mean it doesnt work.  Many of my friends live with their life partner, and have kids. A piece of paper doesnt keep you together, love does
154067
sure it's not wrong, it's great you still in love and you keep your sex life active. Have a wonderful time :)
270078
My opinion about your situation is...\n\nIN God's eyes you are already married by virtue of having fornicated.  Thus, if you  make it legal by civil marriage, then in the eyes of God, technically you are fine.\n\nYou have already asked forgiveness, and God does forgive.\n\nIf you saved yourself for your boyfriend, and you have been with no other person, and in love you have fornicated, as you say, then you ARE married, by God's definition.\n\nNow, in the eyes of the "law" you are not married, but that can be solved once you give yourselves to eachother legally on paper.\n\nOf course, I don't know your age, and this advice is given with the understanding that you are of age.  Else, I would advise against such activity, until you are an adult.\n\nOf course, you already feel guilty and are giving in to his desires.  Yours may not be as strong, or might be once the guilt is removed by virtue of marriage.  ON the other hand , he should respect your wishes to be chaste, until you are married.  That will truly determine his love for you. This is a hard thing, because you love him, and the unknown is whether he would wait and also be faithful in the process.  \n\nI hope it works out for you..
446702
I really don't think it's an issue of what's wrong or right or if you "sin" that's a bad thing.  The point of all the preaching is about what is best for you spiritually.  The people that do the preaching have turned it into what's bad and good and make it a morality issue.  \n\nReally, what you need to think about is what does sex do to you.  Promiscuous sex solely for seeking pleasure can run the risk of addiction, disease, etc., and isn't good for the soul or heart.  In a karmic sense, sex in marriage as an expression of love is less of an attachment - meaning one is less likely to get caught up in it and with love and responsibility of the marriage it kind of nullifies the lust from sex.\n\nSo the question is what is your spiritual quest or goal?  Nothing?  Just getting to heaven?  Or do you want to become a saint?  If you just want to get to heaven then I don't think sex in marriage or with commitment and love will keep you from that.  If you're looking to be a saint then letting go of desires and being celibate is probably necessary.
1040814
Nothing wrong with a civil union between any two consenting adults. The word "marriage" is a religious term describing the union of one man and one women, and just because gay people want to form a union shouldn't change the meaning of the word.
546670
No but goes back to the bible. It is written that only a husband should know his wife in that manner. Meaning that you should Waite for marriage to sleep with someone. If it is against the Lord, if you follow his teachings then it should something that you are against.
16412
I believe so. It's in the bible. Fornication (sex before marriage) should not be committed. Share that special something with that special someone.
367650
I don't believe there's anything wrong with it.  Additionally, if you and your partnner are going to be together long-term, the exwife will just have to realize that it's unrealistic to expect for you to not be in the children's lives.