Why do I bite my husband?  I like the feeling of it, but I don't know why I do it and I can't stop myself.
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perhaps u need a rawhide chew
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As you can tell there are people who not only fantasize about the same things you do they often practice these sexual behaviors. It's not my personal choice but i have seen and read a lot on the issue. If you do choose to try these things make sure you have an understanding with the person you are ingaging in this with. Have a code word  that lets the person know when to stop if your hurting to much or just choose to stop in general. There are people who have died from being choked during this because they did not take these percautions. Just be careful. This doesn't make you sadistic or sick. It's just your personal desires, everyone has thier own yours is just more extreme then most.
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You loved this person with all your heart when you married.  If you feel you do not feel this power for your spouse now, it is because you have not been putting yourself on the line for your other half.  God said you will become one flesh.  You are taking a sword to your self and marriage, turning your back on your spouse.  \n\nYou are seeking that magic, hoping to find it in a complete stranger.  The magic is still in your spouse.  All you have to do is kindle it.  Your spouse is looking for that tenderness, too.  \n\nStop the disrespectful words, acts and thoughts.  Make the effort to soften your words.  You will not be judged on how your spouse responded to your actions but on your actions toward your spouse.  Marriage takes effort.  The ceremony does not freeze your relationship in that moment in time.  The humdrum of everyday life soon sets in, and marriage becomes a 'drag', but only because we let it.  \n\nIf you are a child of a broken marriage, then you expect to  make things better by moving out and moving on.  Break the cycle of destruction in family.  Have you children to think about?  Can you put yourself in their place and see what your actions are doing to them?  Can you remember the ache?  Can you do more for others than for yourself?  Can you give when it hurts?  Can you speak softly when you thinking hurtful thoughts about your spouse?  NO.\n\nDo not look outside your marriage for the solution to your marriage troubles.  Look inside yourself.  Do not muddy the waters by adding another person to the mix.  You can't offer them anything but sexual exercise, and should not be offering that!  Your body belongs to your spouse.  Get professional help.  There is no shame in asking for help.  I hope you will calm down and stop the flight inpulse.  Stay and fight for your family.  You made the vow. Now keep it.
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It's kinda weird, but I do know when my husband is hurt of really upset about something.  My stomach kinda gets really tight and I feel sick. I call him and find out what's wrong.  As soon as it's resolved, I start to feel better.  It's very scary to know things like that.  I can also tell when he is going to get sick.  It's really weird.
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I think that it is because most of the time it is okay that you seduce us because it gets me in the mood, exspecially if  i am not in the mood already , most of the time i have a weak feeling for my boyfriend biting me on the ear and whispering what he wants to do to me when were alone. But most of the time i deny that it makes me in the mood, but it really does, so i would try to seduce a girl. Good luck
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Sometimes, I have to tell my husband about the things I am doing for him (or not doing to him).  Sometimes he has to do the same for me.  \n\nI know, in an ideal world that if you do the right thing, everything else will just fall into place, but that has not been my experience.  We are human, and as such, we are sometimes completely self-absorbed. When we are in such a state, we will never see the kind actions of our spouse, no matter how wonderful they are.\n\nGently point out to your husband the things that you do out of love.  My husband and I reached a turning point in our marriage when I finally stood up and said "I AM a good wife, and here is why..."  It made him look at me in a completely different way.  He began to see things he had overlooked before, and consequently, began to appreciate me more.
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Cuz you're resisting the urge to hurt someone, maybe??  I never knew you had such control...at least you haven't with me.
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If you can control yourself, anything past kissing is too far. Even just feeling up is intimacy, and can easily lead to other things. Waiting for sex is meant to protect us, not to torture. Now saying all that, I didn't wait. I had a baby and married the guy right before the birth. But the great part is forgiveness. Thank you Lord for forgiveness! But asking forgiveness means you'll try your very absolute best to not repeat your past mistake. So try to find a guy that thinks the same way you do. It'll make it easier if you are both trying to stay pure. I asked for forgiveness, I'm still married (happily) to the only guy I've ever been with. So even mistakes can be turned to good. The hardest part is being human. And since we all are, its hard. So just pray for a great forever kinda guy to come your way. Then you don't have to worry so much. And when you get to the marrying part, make sure he wants forever, just like you do.
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Sweetie, why do you have two unhappy faces, and you think that something is wrong with you?? If that is what you enjoy, then go with it..You might see from one of my questions that I absolutely love to slip my tongue in there!\n\nIt is so exciting to watch a woman swirm with enjoyment when I am doing that to her :) Mainly because it is so BAD :P Bad in a good way!!
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He may not be slapping or punching you, but forcefully grabbing you is physical abuse. If he is verbally, emotionally and mentally, sexually you need to examine whether or not you want to stay married to him. It doesn't sound like he respects you or your wishes. If he did he wouldn't be forcing kisses and hugs on you when you need some space to sort out your feelings. Only you can know when you've had enough and are ready to leave. What you are describing is abuse. You may not want to see that, but I heard your story from hundreds of other women in the 11 years I worked for a domestic violence program. I'm sorry if it upsets you to hear it, but I hate to see any woman treated this way.
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He has some serious problems with control. I would think if this is the way I wanted to live. He has no right to tell you that you can't do something. He is your husband not anything else. K
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Probably for bad behavior.  It happens to me all the time.  Ouch!  Mom! Stop that!  Bye!
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when something is really good you just want to bite it and have a piece in your mouth to savor it. I think that the feeling applies to all feelings of wanting.
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I think it just means that you are wanting a little spice in your sexual relationship with your husband. Things may be getting a little on the rutine side of things and you just want a little spice to make it feel as naughty as it did before. I would go out and get a new nighty or a wig and do something with yourself really off the wall........... something that would make him feel as though he is with another side of YOU. It will excite him and you will get the 'spice' you are looking for.\n\nWhen you are with a man for the first time, his touch is all tingly and makes your skin feel all crawly inside, in a good way. When you change up your sex with a partner you have been with for a long time, it does the same thing and gives you the same 'new' feeling. I hope this has helped.......... :) Blessed be.............
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dont know why you can't stop.  but you can try to stop perhaps if you think of all the people that touch the things that you touch before you touch them. and how people could have just wiped their butts, picked their nose, picked up their dogs poo, had sex, scratched their butt, held their willie to pee, cleaned a litter box, grabbed some rotten food, took out the trash, or changed a tampon and didn't wash their hands and so after you touch what they just touched, you have all that nastiness on your hands and when you bite your nails, you are putting all those germs in your mouth.  hope that helps.  the gross factor made me quit biting instantly.  good luck.
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i know exactly how you feel hun, my husband has been doing this for years and like an idiot i've always believed he'd stop.It makes you feel worthless and very rejected....we have talked about this and decided to go for counselling to see if we can work things out. I truly believe it is like an addiction....he just can't seem to stop, he does for a while then it all starts again.....i wish you luck sweetie and hope you can sort things out x
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i have heard that married men have an internal feeling/thought that he shouldn't enjoy oral sex from his wife.  like its something a wife shouldn't be doing.  i would just tell him how you feel.  tell him that you really enjoy it and that its okay because your married.