when her daughter was calling me i did not say anything,she told her mother i was messing with her.?
606804
this doesn't make a lot of sense but from the sounds of it you need to get yourself far away from this situation asap. document everything and if the daughter is calling change your number or block hers...either that or every single time she calls call her mother and tell her she called again, get your kid under control. you could end up in big trouble.
883574
i really feel sorry for you sweety but your daughter seems to have made her mind up , i know its hard but just think you tried your best and its your daughter who is the spiteful one not you , try and enjoy the day best you can and spend it with other loved ones maybe when she gets older and her kids grow up she will realise the pain she gave you , hope you have a nice xmas and chin up hun xxx
417408
first of all, pretty stupid move. but whats done is done, right? u should try telling her that u never meant to hurt her and that u were just kidding around.
743707
Instead of wondering what is wrong or what you might have been done to offend or upset her, just gently ask her today when you are talking on the phone. My motto is....Go straight to the source. \n\nGood luck and I hope you enjoy your party!~
603258
I wouldn't leave the state because, eventually, she will wise up and realize she needs and loves you.  That you are the only mother she has.  \n\nI would, however, not contact her (for 2 months).  I would want to know how long it would be before she missed me...but that is because I would be curious.  After 2 months, I would make contact again because I would never give up.  I am not recommending you do that...you need to decide for yourself what course of action you want to pursue.\n\nI'm sorry that your daughter is treating you like this.  You are obviously trying but she is just being obnoxious and rude.  Sounds like she is siding with her father over the separation and there is no way to know what he is telling her.  Just take it a day at a time and someday, she will wise up.
904887
First of all, this isn't your fault it happened. And don't worry about your mother. YOU have to do what you need to do to help and take care of your own children. And if that means taking them to counseling or reporting them to the police-then do what you need to do!!! \nIt's up to you whether or not you report your son, but either way, I'd keep him away from your daughter. I would also seek counseling for your daughter if she isn't already. This is a very sad and sensitive issue. But she probably needs to talk to someone.  You may even need to talk to someone yourself. This must be terrible for you as well. I couldn't imagine going through something like this. It's always best to hear the victim out-and that is your daughter. Good luck in what ever you chose to do. You're in my thoughts.
449333
I have to be honest, if you see this girl pull her aside and tell her if she lands another finger or if you see her talking to your daughter you will take matters into your own hands. If she tells anybody else you threatened her.deny it..your the adult, then most likely the parents will start looking into it. I am serious! It works.
539073
thats messed up. do your friend know? Dont get involved cause she might say that you tried to mess with her
707897
You did nothing wrong.  When you have a chance, talk to her alone, face to face.  It's her fault in the first place for playing baby games.  Tell her you can't apologize for something that wasn't your fault.  That you hope you & she can be friends.  Let her know what she did wasn't cool & you felt awkward when confronted.  You actually stuck up for her!
333950
no because she sounds that she is messing with ur head
1014595
it was awful, i believe these people are real, i just dont know why thhey behave like that, she was unbelievable to do that to her own daughter no matter what , i cant concieve hurting another human never mind my own child.
501377
Don't worry..she probably doesn't mean it. She'll take it back later. My mom has told me that a few times.
678215
First, find out what it is she really said before you make any assumptions.Second,if you didn't do anything wrong and she really is calling you a brat then she's not worth your time.As for the spider thing...that's most likely the reason why she's not going over anymore.
999748
Let her think what she wants to think, they are brokin up and you cant convince her anyways, so leave her be, and if she continues to text u, call the police and tell them that she is harassing u.
1038031
you created your daughter so why would you compete with her....the mom seems insecure to me.......she needs help maybe she feels that she is losing her touch....
68940
YOU did not do a bad thing.\nSHE did a terrible, cruel, juvenile thing by using your generosity as a weapon to play head games with her boyfriend... if she's not talking to you, count yourself ahead.
772614
Tell her that until she apologizes you don't feel like talking to her.  Watch her reaction if she is sorry about what she did. If she is - give  her a second chance ... if she is not really apologetic and doesn't think she did something wrong I would NOT talk to her again.