GUYS explain the word sexy in your own words...?
600059
Sexy is great, but there is a difference in sexy when a woman is concerned. You got the ones trying to be and do sexy things on purpose, and for most men it often works. What I like is when a woman is just naturally sexy. Watching her lips when she talks, and the way she handles herself with others, the way she walks, her smile. There is a lot that factors into sexy. When it comes naturally, when she isn't even trying to be, thats when it is at its best.
340733
Attitude.  Self Confidence, Self Esteem.  When you are comfortable in your own body, it shows up in the way you move, that is incredibly sexy because it's natural and real.
338787
being sexy is in your personal makeup, you either got it or you havent!! A woman can look and feel sexy even while covered head to toe in clothes! she will project her inner confidence outward and that is the defination of sexyiness.. whilst slutty is common acting in a sexual nature to pretend you are sexy, thats why alot of woman who wear revealing clothes look cheap because they dont feel it deep down its just on the surface. Flirty is when you tease in a caring and loving way joking but not out to hurt anyone. Easy is when you do things to manipulate people and situations for one reason or another but mainly to get what you want.
252271
When a man tells me how badly he wants it. And also, when he whispers into my ear and his voice is sooooo kind and deep and ragged. Thats sexy.\n\nSometimes I like to just be taken by surprise..thats the best.
435007
What exactly are you looking for when you go out dressed like that?\n\nAre you dressing sexy so the guys look at you or because you feel sexy and dress that way out of your own confidence?\n\nMen see confidence and that is why they approach. You can be in the tighest, shortest, cleavage, skin showing outfit, but if you don't have inner confidence-Men can see that and stay away.\n\nYou may not even know but you may give off an "unapproachable" vibe. Guys may find you attractive, but something about you is revealing you are looking for something. I was told not too long ago- I give off that unapproachable vibe-Well- I quickly worked on that...It's still a work in progress.\n\nSeriously though, I used to think that if I didn't get a guys number or hook up with a guy at the end of the night that it was a waste. Now I don't even care- and I have found that when you aren't there to hunt your prey- they seem to fall all around you.\n\nSo think about your intentions and your actions. If you are going out just to meet a guy and you are dressing all sexy just to attract a man then yes, when you walk out at the end of the night- you will feel lonely and strange.\n\nBut if you are in there and you have your drink-find your inner confidence- only you will find it. A man won't, your girlfriends won't, not even your family. You have to find it, and truly believe it- because girlfriend- you are fabulous. You have to believe in yourself. Believe me- I went through it and today, while I am still single- I am confident!
732949
you are likely very beautiful.  if guys say it, they think you are hot.  if women say it, they might be jealous and are trying to make you feel bad or slutty.  ignore the girls!!
845778
Sweetie, if some guy doesn't think your sexy because you've cut your hair then he didn't really think you were sexy to begin with.  If you are comfortable with yourself then you will be sexy to whomever is attracted to you.  Be confident in yourself!
223340
dress the sexiest you have ever been so sexy when u look in the mirror u say DAMN!! to your self. not to slutty or to reveiling i would say comfortable but sexy. clean hand to bottom of your feet. and confidence in yourself and in what you are tryin to persuit. relax dont make it seem rehersed natural is always good.trust i bagged a few shorties that way and im a girl it works for guys and PLEASE BRUSH TEETH the smell can also tally your vote on what they think. have gum but dont chew when u talk or a small ment u know what u like to smell on another persons breath and you should bave that aswell. GOOD LUCK!!!
24172
To me, sexy is confidence, respect for himself and others, and to be motivated to pursue his dreams and goals.  A man who is authoritive, yet is willing to learn and be taught, listens well, has high personal goals, and I liked how someone said must have all of his teeth, is a sexy man to me.
72828
i'm a ninth year french student and here is my response;\n\nyou could just say "sexy" or "tres sexy", which would probably be what most french ppl would say nowadays, its most modern\n\nor you could say "sensuelle" for girls or "sensuel" for guys\n\nor you could say "belle" for girls and "beau" for guys\n\nanother popular expression is " beau comme un dieu" or "handsome as a god".
857405
I think being sexy has to do with different things...they go all the way from personality to things that no one else, but me, can perceive...like the way she looks at me...the way she talks to me...her unique scent....so many details....i think it´s hard to think about only one thing!
542932
Yes, I am sexy...thanks anyway!
944833
The sexiest organ you have is your brain. It's how you *feel* when you wear - whatever. \n\nThere are women who look out of this world sexy in blue jeans and a tight white tee shirt. Know why? Because they feel sexy and transmit that 'sexy' vibe. The actual clothing isn't the thing - it's if *you* feel it. Don't "do it for him" - that sounds to us guys too much like "take one for the team" (as in, allow yourself to be hit with a baseball in the head just to get on base).\n\nBabies change your body tremendously.  Don't worry about what once was - enjoy what is now. It's still you inside there no matter what and that's where the sexy woman is who gives off that vibe. Any man who can't see that is a dolt who lets his pecker think for him too much. \n\nIf you think lingerie is sexy, wear it! You'll feel sexy. Men love it. Get a sitter and tell him "post-baby or not i want to feel sexy - let's go buy some sexy lingerie for me to wear tonight." You'll hear the tires screeching as he pulls the truck around front.
452022
Complement her on her looks or fashion sense...then after a few sentences...tell her that not only is she beautiful bur smart too... DO NOT tell her she is sexy until after you have spoken to her a few times..If you do she will think that you are only interested in the one thing..if you wait, she will think that you are more aware of the things that she prefers to be recognized as..like smart and beautiful....tell her that she is sexy when it shows that she is trying to be sexy for you...She will look upon that complement as an achievment for her..not as a pigish remark from you.
347593
guys are most often turned on by what they see. lingere is a good start. alright ill cut the crap.....just act like a stripper.
32223
It's not really being a "bad boy". It's more in the confidence of the guy. It's how he presents himself to other people -- if he's unsure of himself, it comes off as more desperate than anything else. Where as if he's confident -- it makes him that much sexier.
450601
What does a girl being sexy have to do with her wanting to talk to you?