im going out with my exs best friend and he put his hands on me??
606154
so why go out with him you are asking for a repeat.
678633
YOU BETTER NOT DARE GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIEND'S EX-GIRLFRIEND! DON'T BE STUPID. USE YOUR COMMON SENSE BOY. FRIENDS NEVER EVER DATE OTHER FRIENDS' EXES. SHE IS AN ASS FOR SURE AND ONLY WANTS TO HURT YOUR FRIEND, SERJIO BECAUSE SHE KNOWS IF YOU END UP WITH HER SHE WILL DESTROY YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH SERJIO...THAT HEIFER. I KNOW I SHOULDN'T BUT I HATE PEOPLE WHO LIVE TO RUIN FRIENDSHIPS...GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. DON'T YOU HURT HIM. HE IS YOUR FRIEND!\n(relaxes) ok...i've calmed down now. no more yelling. stay loyal to your friend please.
835268
I would definitely say this guy likes you. but do you want someone in your life that could do what he has done? he is with your EX best friend she is an x and so is he. You sound like a young woman who enjoys life and is attractive. My suggestion to you is remain friends with this guy but nothing more. expand your circle of friends, open your horizons. You may just find a guy that will tickle you and only you, If you continue with this boy don't be surprised if you end up in tears or being used.
499254
possible the best friend liked you and didnt tell and now hes not wanting anything to do with you and maybe even he dont like the b/f because he knows who he is and what he is like behind closed doors... lots of different possiblities but dont close the door with your best friend... loves come and go but best friends (if they are) are VERY hard to come by!!!
53252
Why not? hes your best friend. My best friend and me are closer than her boyfriend.  Its best if i know other issues involved but for the question alone, i dont sense any reason why not go out.
525300
NO ARE YOU KIDDING, HE OBVIOUSLY KNOWS HE HAS A HOLD OVER YOU. AND APPARENTLY GIVES YOU NO RESPECT, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU NEED TO BE TREATED.
602047
Ask her if its ok to go out with him. After all, its her ex and its wise to ask as certain people find it unsettling to see their ex's going out with another person already even if its with their best friend. It also depends upon how long they have been seperated. If it was quite long ago, ask her else look out for someone else.
1071254
To spare him, dont go out with him. Since you are not into him fully... dont bother. You'll just want your ex.
830981
had a conversation w/ his best friend where his best friend told me he luved me (i liked his best friend for 4 years) and that he (being the best friend) wanted to make out w/ me.\n\nmy bf still doesn't no
675332
well i kinda had the same problem... i always say keep ur friends close but keep ur ex's even closer... he shld know ur x is ur friend and that he shldnt control who u hang with or who u talk to.. tell him that ..
121929
Hey girl, Now this is a big situation. I had the same thing happen to me. You have to think for your self is he the one? Or is he just a friend. If you decide he's just the one embrace it!
351022
go on a double date- with your x,him, and one of your friends. have fun.  after a while ask him if he wants to go out to eat or something. Good Luck!
609148
Well, I hope you're not friends with your best friend anymore because that's not what I call a true friend. She told you she would never go out with your ex because she loved you like a sister, but that's not the case. You should have never dated your ex-boyfriend's best friend either. If you like other guys such as your ex's best friend than you're not in love. You may really like your ex, but there are other guys out there. Your ex is not worth it. Not only is your friend doing you wrong he is to by being with her.
1008566
sweetie I wouldn't do some thing like that. you have to be carefully because It will cause a lot of trouble between him and the so call best friend and u would be in the middle of the whole thing and you don't want that
793132
He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
330939
oh you like him, or at best the attention he is giving you and want to justify the fact that he is your ex boyfriends mate, well it is not a moral issue really ,if you fancy him and he makes a move tell him how you feel as regards his mate,being your ex and go with your heart.\n\nGigi
1056849
Going out with boyfriend....