am in love with a guy who is ten years older than me and wants to marry me what do you think?
602226
It's quite possible that he just fell asleep, don't jump to the conclusion that he's lying to you. If you're in love with him and he makes you happy, then go for it. Take a leap of faith.
866543
You must listen to your heart.  Are you really in love with this man or just adoring his mature ways?  Good Luck.
850255
give your ex of 10 years a chance.....you know he loves you...and adores you!!! whats better than that?
341951
If it's true love it'll be there tomorrow or 5 years from now.  \nWhy rush to marry.  \nIt's only an expensive piece of paper to tell you something you already know.....you love the guy. \n\nIf it's meant to be...it'll be and it'll be there in years.  If then you feel the urge to marry then do so.  \n\nFor now enjoy each other and your relationship.
668150
Why would you care what other people think?as long as you are both of legal age it's not a big deal or anything.I am 10 years older than my man.does that matter? NO
439274
Be honest with him about your age.I think he's too old for you - a four year age gap is a lot at your age as you are both likely to have different interests and intentions.Find a guy whose 13 or 14
276342
Sweetie, age has nothing to do with nothing okay.  If you like this guy then go for it.  You never know, this could be your true love.  Just remember, "It's better to have loved and lost, than to have no love at all."
892787
well 1st, i am in the same situation now.\ni am 16 but he just turned 19.\nhe tried to propose to me also....at 16 yrs old, yea we do love you. but as women we cant be sure if we will still love you forever and ever, we haven't had time to find ourselves yet. or even really experience life. so when she says no its not a blow on you. we do it to protect you frm gettin hurt in the long run.
269161
I believe that with time if someone loves you they will want to spend their life with you. It would be according to how he feels toward you and only you know that. Talk with him and ask him what he sees in the future for you and him...K
336259
you should always marry for love. you should love the one you marry. your love will grow as the years pass.
876899
If you're 30 and she is 10, stay away from her.  However, if you are 70 and she is 50 - go for it, if the feeling is mutual.\n\nIt IS wrong if she is a minor or of immature character.  It is NOT wrong if you are both legal, competent adults in love.   If this is the case, and you love her - I hope she loves you too.\n\nLoves involves a shared life, shared values, mutual respect, and regular communication.
58319
There is truthfully a one in a million chance that he actually loves you. Just cause of your age. Don't let your lonliness blind you. Just be careful! I hope it does work out though. True love isn't something to can find everyday!
1089819
I understand your question and I know the answer to it. You WANT to marry this man, not live with him. You should tell him, we either get married, or I have to move on. Then do what you need to do(and we both know he won't marry you) so you need to move on. Pretty simple really. He is NEVER going to marry you, if he has not in ten years. Good Luck!!
129640
If you aren't sure, wait.  If he really loves you, he'll be willing to wait a couple more years.  Your parents are right, the statistics on marriages before 22 are much less promising than if you wait.  The reason for this is not to say that you aren't in love now, but so many people do a lot of growing between 18 and 22.  People can completely change peronalities, life styles, morals, values, and everything in those four short years.  Being married while going to school and going through this transitional time in your life, could put quite a strain on your marriage.  Talk to him, and see if he will wait.  Never go into marriage if you don't know with all your heart that he is the one, and the only one, the one you love with all your heart, who you can imagine spending the rest of your life with, and with no one else.  Good Luck! :)
251561
Well if they want to get married, of course. Age is a number that's only determined by how long you've been alive, it doesn't determine that you love someone who's the same age as you.
291528
You should talk to him about it. Ask if he sees himself marrying you in the future. Time doesn't matter always. I've been with my boyfriend for almost six years and we're in school and life is happening so we're waiting. Besides, the longer you date the more you learn about each other before you get married!
626873
Well honey, you can fall in love in a year, and I think maybe it is love, I would say to go for it, and see what happens, I mean you seem young, so GO FOR IT... Lust comes and goes, but if it is true LOVE grab him up