why do most of people judge us by our appearance?
608420
Because it's human nature. Plus, when we see someone, we only see their appearance before we get to talk to them and get to know them. After talking to a person, we are able to judge them based on their personality. I think in middle school or high school, looks matter much more than later in life. When we are younger, we are more immature and superficial.
522656
It is human nature. We want want we can't have. We want what the other person has. We want to be seen as the best in the world. It is a confidence thing really.
944832
I have no idea what it means but i see myself in many of mine.  Maybe it is a way of your mind giving you a real look at yourself, maybe you subconsiously think there is a flaw everyone sees.  I dont know.  Good Luck figuring it out though.  lol
807616
I believe we do discriminate people who are\noverweight, different culture, or less than Anjelina Jolie.\nI don't know why we do that.  I think it is maybe \nfear that we might be the same.  Or maybe we\nare just ignorant beings who do not look into the\neyes or smile, but just take the easy way out\nand judge by outward appearance.  After all, we\nare judged by whom we "hang out" with.\nGenerally, our world lacks compassion, respect,\nindividuality, \nHow many women do you see that look like a\ncopy of the long term "Barbie"\nWe lack character and that is sad .\nWhen we get to the other side-there is nothing\nbut beautiful, so try to forgive the ones around\nyou that demean you in any way.\nReal ugly doesn't make it to Heaven.
615017
It took me 35 years to learn this one.  One's own perception of self is very powerful and it's hard to understand when others don't see you the same way.  The reality is that 99.99% of people don't know what's in your head whether you feel good or bad about yourself.  You need to learn to see what others see in you.  Yeah, they could be yankin' your chain hoping to pull you out of your funk, or they could be genuinely honest about what they see.  It won't matter until you get over yourself, until your own perception goes beyond "fat and ugly".
108763
the reason why people do is on the level of acceptance, which is not right. people feel that if they are with someone good looking then it will help boost them in some way. my opinion you have to be true to yourself and not put up a front in order to feel accepted. if your not true to u, u are lying to yourself and that's not good.
487449
I try not to judge by appearance but sometimes it is difficult.\nWe tend to believe in many cases that their personality is tied to their clothing.How many times have you heard someone comment that a woman looks like a hooker because of her clothing or she looks poor or rich.\nClothing can say a lot about a person but I try to see past that and see the person behind the clothes.\nSome people dress for shock value or to try and blend in to the crowd or to not blend in and hide.
806088
there is "some" truth to all stereo types, thats why they are stereotypes. but it is wrong to judge everybody based on them because even though a large enough cross section of a certain group may in fact fit the stereotype, not all do. we need to evaluate every body based upon their own individual identity
68584
For the same reason people choose cars, art, or anything else, we are a visual society and the first impression we get of anything is visual.\n\nIf the visual thing was not so important car manafacturers would make one model of car that was functional and everybody would want one.\n\nSome people choose to express themselves with tattoos, piercings, dreadlocks, the way they dress, and in many other ways, since this is a CHOICE they made they are being judged by their real selves.\n\nPeople are judged by their families, any group makes a reputation for themselves and will be judged as a group, unfortunately children of people with bad reputations tend to be judged based on the family reputation, To change this they must set themselves apart from the reputation and make their own.\n\nThe majority of voters in america perpetuate this by voting for a candidate based on the political group they are a member of and not the qualifications of the person themselves.\n\nThe last time you watched a game, did you notice the individuals on the team, or did you just notice the team as a whole? \n\nwhen you look at a car, do you judge each part for it's function, or do you choose for the over all appearance and function.\n\nI guess what I am trying to say is, Our society judges people based on more that just themselves, a lot can be learned about an individual based on the choices they make. If you as an individual is part of a group with a bad reputation, then you will be judged as a bad person too, if you choose to have multiple piercings, you will be judged by the general population as being part of that group, good or bad, you will be placed in that general catagory because of your choice to visually associate yourself with that group.
24410
Because right or wrong, better looking people tend to get treated better in society.
708141
It's not. Normal people don't love everything about themselves. If they do it's some kind of mental problem.\n\nEveryone thinks that they can be a little better here or little better there.\n\nHowever, if you think ur totally ugly, you need to check your self esteem. It's ok to be a little unsure, but if people are telling you that you are fine, then why worry?\n\nAfter all, even the best looking person in your school is not the best looking int the world, there is always someone better.
358914
unfortunitly we live in a society where people judge before they get to know anything about a person. Depending on your looks you might get stared at,.. I know the feeling,.. i am Latin,.. thus i have a certain look that makes me seem tough,.. i am the nicest person you can come accross,but because of that i come accross to people as someone with an attitude... I have learned to just brush it off,.. although when people always assume you have an attitude its hard to just brush it off,.. \n\ni dont know what to tell you,.. all i can say is that i know how you are feeling,.. just ignore it,..
352515
Because they don't want you to thinkl that they are ugly. They have low self esteem about themselves.
1069882
Looks can be deceiving.  Beauty is only skin deep, (there's a song on this), and it's saying the ugliest person can be pretty if they act that way with everybody.  Your attitude and actions determine whether you are pretty or ugly, not your physical appearance.  Although, keeping yourself looking decent does help.
625081
Well the fundamental problem with humans is they tend to analyse people from time to time. From that guy behind the McDonald Counter to our best pal or buddy. We are constantly watching them, observing their moves, actions and analysing what does it mean anyway. So, we judge people everytime without even knowing them. We judge by how they wear their clothes, what they wear, how they work, how they eat to the most nonsense ones like how they sneeze. With our limited knowledge and understanding of people we start thinking in a direction and gives reason for the actions such as "Maybe he is lazy because, he is fat!", "His clothing is so sloppy, how can his work be good ?". \nSo yes not only me but I think everyone I know of judge people before even trying to understand them (how are they are as humans beings? are our judgements right?). We never really make that effort, maybe thats the reason why there are so many human conflicts. \nBut at the positive side, whenever I have made an effort to understand the other person without prejudice I have always surprised myself, on how wrong I was in my previous judgements.
246815
brains, because beauty is in the eye of the beholder.\nYOu could think that you're the most ugly person in the world, but there will always be someone out there who'd look at you as a goddess.
393677
I wouldn't judge anyone until I got to know them personally. We are all different and are all able to be liked or hated no matter what colour our skin is. pre-judging people is one of the main faults in our society, we should just take people for who they are and not worry about what others think of us.