Crushing on a Boy in a relationship.?
612311
you've already done it to your friend, so i think that you should be thinking of ways to apologize to her, before the whole school finds out, which they will because it's h.s.\nand before you lose your so called friend.
718882
I think you should do what your heart says. If it is telling you that you love this guy, not a little middle school or high school crush, but actually love the guy, its a tough decision. I was in the same position about 4 months ago, but luckily it worked out for me, my friend did get over my now boyfriend. But I had to sit down and have a talk with her. I actually asked her permission to date him. I didnt want to lose a friend over a guy. It can work, and if she says its ok, then she would have no reason to be angry, but if she says no, she doesnt want you to, then just think of how akward it would be to go out with him? she would always be angry, and it would hurt her alot. What if she made a move for him without talking to u? wouldn't that hurt you? Talk to her, and really consider what you say, how you say it, and listen to what she has to say. do it when things are not rocky, or else it will go horribly wrong. It sounds to me like you two need to talk it out, and if necesary, not have either of you date him. it is weird for a while...trust me. and if she says its ok, then it may be akward for a while, but eventually she will be ok with it unless she really does like that guy. And also be sure this guy is really worth it. Trust me, if its a crush, it could ruin both friendships. just have one on one time with him and talk things out with him too. remember, comunication is key. without it, it can all splash in your face. and listening to how ur friend feels is always important, so dont blow it off, or she will be very upset. more than if u hadn't asked her in the first place. just talk to each of them one on one, get a perspective from both of them, and be sure this guy is worth it and make sure he isnt best as a best friend...make sure u want to take it to the next level. who knows, maybe u guys can be as cute of a couple as everyone claims me and my bf is...and one more thing, GOOD LUCK!!! :)
1044258
There is NOTHING wrong with your friend to like a boy romantically. The only thing is, if the boy he's crushing on has a girlfriend, then he should back off. If you were truly his friend, you would accept him for what he is, not what you would like him to be.
511888
well good,, this tells u tht u really don like the guy u like now,,,,go n try out the guy u start liking now whom u hav crush now,,,maybe hes the one...
781793
You should not break their relationship being a friend.  Meet other boys. You will find some one of your liking.
9816
there's  a big difference between a crush and love. a crush is merely an infatuation or admiration of the persons physical attributes or good personality. but you've been with your guy for 4 long years and there is no doubt that u really love him.  just dont let this tiny feeling for your crush get in the way of your relationship. guys have crushes too..
103964
when it's a crush you love him or so you think...so much you are willing to overlook things about him you can't stand like, he lies and steals, but he is so sweet to me and so cute. When you love someone they may have faults but you can overlook them because they aren't a big deal. It has nothing to do with how cute he is. You are happy when you are with him. Even if you are seperated for a long period of time. He is all you think of. You are not interested in other guys. You would not want to hurt him in anyway as he would not want to hurt you. You couldn't imagine being with someone else. Their love feels like it completes you. If years go by and you still wonder how they are where life took them, are they happy? You probably loved them. I had/have that with my first love. Sometimes Time tells. Crushes you'll barely remember their name or what they looked like. Trust me. It's been ten years since I have been high school and many guys I dated are a vague memory except for my first love.
1005987
Yes, its close. Problem is not in closeness. You get a crush on any guy anywhere, if it is gonna create any problems for you then your home cant remain un affected. I would say, do not base your relation based on distances of your houses. If he is really worth it go for it... And when you said 'if anything were to happen' it indicated that you are not very mature in your thinking process. I say be careful. You cant afford to ruin anything be being careless. Its your responsibility to decide and think in the welfare of you and your family. Neighbour means they have and interaction with you and your family too. Bottoml line is its more likely to get exposed sooner. Take care
487802
First of all ... Calm down... I know it is easier said then done but if you don't then you might just end up looking like a idiot.  Second.. Does he know you are crushing on him?  If not then I suggest you just start talking to him.  \n\nGood Luck!
211401
It's ok to have a crush on someone older than you, I was a sophomore when I met my bf (who was in 8th grade) and it always feels like we're the same age.  But you should be careful, some boys can be real jerks, especially high school boys. so just don't let your guard down :)
196364
Ask yourself a question. Are you jealous of the crush she has on this guy?  Or is it that you are jealous of the relationship you have with her?  It's hard to share sometimes, isn't it?
386275
Well,I like 2 men that I had been talking to,but I still won't go there. You'll have so much trouble if you try to have them both,and No way could you be in love girl!!! This is called "Crushing"!!!
49206
One can feel attracted towards other persons while you are in a relationship. What matters is if you act about those feelings or not. Think about what you currently have with your boyfriend, do you really love him, do you see him as part of your future? If your answers are yes, then nevermind about the other person you are liking, just stick to your love. If the answers are no, well you should have a sincere conversation with your boyfriend to see where are you going with the relationship.
1030560
You should have friends that are boys.  I wouldn't think that you are ready for a one on one relationship with a boy yet.  That will come later when you are about 16 or so.
352635
Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.
1065728
hmm then there is problem...forget about them and start thinking about hot and sexy boys who can like you and date you...\n\ncheers!!!
530283
Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.