Why is it that when a girl is a virgin she is saving herself for honorable reasons but when its a guy ...?
611028
Frankly, If I were a girl (Having reached the legal age), I would have sex with the boy7man I feel I love without feeling that I have lost my dignity. Dignity is how we present ourselves before the public and before ourselves. I have seen non virgins that a lot noble and I have seen virgins that are a lot bitchy.
78368
No there is nothing wrong to being a virgin at 18 and you shouldn't be concerned about what guys think be secure with yourself in being a virgin.Losing your virginity is not a race.I lost my virginity at seventeen and I wish I had waited because I lost it to the WRONG guy and truely regret it.But it is just my opinion that guys like virgins.You are fresh and un-touched.You have got something going on that alot of girls don't.Guys like the idea of having something that nobody else had.My guy knows I am not a virgin but just the thought of another guy that has been up in there causes him to cringe he doesn't want to think about it.Be proud you are not a hoochie that gives it up to every body that gives you a second look or shows interest and be very selective to whom you give your virginity to.
129493
What difference does it make whether she was a virgin or not?  You did it anyway.  You weren't trying to save her in a pristine condition were you?  Get over it.  You don't believe her, don't trust her, then move on...
566716
why do girls have sex with boys like this in the first place?  Girls should have a little more self respect and not jump into bed with someone they know for a month.
1106918
Not at all. It shows someone who is in control of their lives and makes choices for them not because other people. Or just have not found the person they wanted to lose their virginity to.
461175
Just off the top of my head:\n * To be "special" to the lady in question - offering virginity is a precious gift\n * To show that they were safe from STDs\n * To show that they have strong will, and that you are the one to break it down.\n * Wants her to take the lead - it is FUN to be seduced.
926338
I am honestly somewhat more attracted to virgins, something just seems special about being her first. I don't really care that much though, I just like who I like regardless of weight, height, gender, race, and etc. Virginity isn't that big of a deal.
805488
I respect girls who are honest about their past relationships regardless of if they are virgins or not.\n\nBasically I consider it an irrelevant factor.
228181
A person's innocence or virginity can never be regained once it's lost. Also, people often regret giving themselves away so freely; you don't often hear "I'm really sorry I saved myself for the one I truly love". There is certainly less risk of unwanted pregnancy (a major trauma) and disease, when you're abstinent till marriage. A person who makes this choice also shows that he/she can think for him/herself and is not a victim of peer pressure. It takes strength and character to make this choice. \n"Love your neighbor as yourself". That means love yourself first. Nothing about you is cheap. Take care.
454795
since i was raped i got no reason to say i am still a virgin.  i have had sex for the longest of time.  but for the past year that has changed and waiting for that special person.  cause for some odd reason i am very single.  hope she understands where i am coming from once we meet.
397288
Looking at their hymen is NOT a way to tell if a girl is a virgin. The only way to know is to ask and trust that she's not lying.
430470
Why are you in a hurry to have sex? You have something that you can only give away once, so why not save it for someone who has also thought enough of themselves to save their first time for you? There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin...ever! Waiting for that special someone it the ultimate sacrifice. Think of how great a wedding present you could both give each other. One that could never be bought with any amount of money. You would also not have to wonder how many partners you are now sharing with the one you love. I'm sure you'll get many suggestions about appropriate ages. But you are putting your future into the hands of strangers, many of whom don't have your best interests at heart. Many will tell you to follow your heart & do whatever feels right. But feelings come and go. What you have can only be given once, then it's gone. Once you give it away, something seems to happen, deep inside your soul. It doesn't seem as important any more. You end up giving it up to your feelings, using it to get what you want. That's not what you were made for. Yes, I know I sound old fashioned. But, I was once where you are, even though I'm a gal. I wish that I had never made that first decision to give away what was supposed to be saved for the one I would eventually give my heart to. Please consider what you're doing before committing yourself to giving this special gift away. Be careful with your heart. <*)))><
1178572
Did you expect her to be a virgin?  Come on, seriously.\n\nShe's with you now.  So if she liked their shafts that much, shed be with them.  Maybe at the same time.\n\nJust get over it.\n\nThis is exactly what I mean when I say that I wonder if a relationship isn't just a license to OWN somebody's SEX.  It's silly.  You're getting jealous over the past.
1069443
dont worry about what people think. if you know in your heart that you feel it is right not to have sex,then your right. the only reason that they think its stupid or wrong is because they cant turn back the pages and become a virgin again. it is much better to know that your thoughts and emotions are more important the sex. And if you find another person who is willing to wait as well then youll know that if something happened and you werent able to have sex that they just might stay with you.
83670
no its perfectly natural. in todays society there are very few girls who stay virgins til they find "true" love or marriage. the fact that you have stayed fairly innocent this long is great. if you have....tension...built up its good to release it and if you choose sex thats fine, if you choose the other route, thats great too, as long as you dont let others pressure you into anything before youre ready
176350
She is still a virgin.  Playing with oneself does not equate non-virginity.
558003
i prefer a virgin (i'm a guy)