Do elder ladies long for young companion to fulfill fantacies and feel life better if becomes a possibility?
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Some do it to feel young again and fulfill their sexual desires.While others feel are not satisfied by their spouses thus seek it from young partners.
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I say, GO FOR IT! I am 55 myself, and recently spent one of the most memorable nights of my life with a 24 year old woman. Joy beyond compare.
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depends on the man.. mature ones who know what they want out of life and are looking a mate to share it with want true love someone they can be proud of and cherish.. the others who just want a good time and to live in the moment want sex.. someday they may settle down and see that there is more to life than that.. even though that is a great part of it.. its the frosting on the cake!
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absolutely!\neveryone seeks love and cherishes it when they find it.
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Nothing, it is an advantage as long as what you are seeking is someone who thinks young but is an old girl.
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My condolences to you and your family, her near and dear ones.\nI am sure that that's exactly the way she would want it, because it would  cause her discomfort to know that someone could be neglecting their lives and duties to spend time with her.\n\nLove, specially for a grandmother, even if not expressed verbally or by those kind of actions is definitely felt by them, as is their love for us. \n\nI am sure that she must have lived a full life and over the past century seen exciting times-she was born about time man took to the skies for the first time, horse carriages were a norm, to the  modern way of life, of excitement, two world wars, Korea, Vietnam, Kuwait, Afghanistan, Iraq........................, space travel, moon, Mars, Halley's comet, Hale-Bopp, radio, television\njust think of human achievements, the build up to the modern age, the experiences that she must have had! She's had the best of both worlds!\n\nAnd I am sure that from somewhere up there she must be smiling and touched when she sees the concern you've expressed in not telling her that you loved her too often. As I said don't worry, grandparents understand the love and concern you feel for them, without being told! \nst
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Hey Tasha, you are in the best time of your life. Just ask me I am 68 and still poor. Remeber a man or woman who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination
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Well i suppose it is natural to be attracted to these women especially when you say that you are still young and outgoing, regardless of your age. However do not expect too many invitations, unless it is for your money. I am 31, the only way i would be with a man that much older is if he was really rich and i was desperate, or maybe i fell completely inlove. I think your chances are slim. It is not abnormal but a hard call.
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I'm searchin for a woman  with personality,wit,and charm,and a great sense of humor like myself.I'm 49,white,and have parkinsons disease.It's controlled well with meds,enough to where I can go fishin most every day as I currently don't have a girl to share life with.I guess this is where most women probably hit the exit button but the thing is,(and believe me i'm not trying to come across like I'm arrogant or bragging on myself)but I got a whole lot of lovin for the right lady,I'm honest,I could be her best friend as well as lover.However ....WARNING......I am without doubt a a jokester who loves to cut up and enjoy life ,but am serious when I need to be.
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If you've made it to 45, then there is plenty of life ahead!!!\n\nCan there be happiness? Well, I think it is important to qualify what 45-year-old happiness should look like. The women I know tend to look for the same "type" of happiness that they had when they were younger.......big mistake. They get jealous of happier/younger people around them.....big mistake. They find themselves having to deal with the consequences of spending wayyyyyy too much of their life and heart on the bad choices of men in their past......big mistake. Many of them have to deal with a life splattered with addictions and physical challenges that are sometimes self-imposed (or could have been avoided).\n\nI"m 50ish and would LOVE to have some good lovin' from someone who can name all 4 Beatles!!!!!! But my experiences with my old classmates and others of my generation is just really weird.........I'm sorry to say.\n\n\nAdd to that the mostly dysfunctional children, the psycho-exes, the Change, too much debt and the bitterness.......ohhhhhhhh the bitterness.\n\n\nAnd then comes the insecurities........\n\n\n\nSo........do I think that 20-30-year-old women are any better???? Hell no......just younger and more "optimistic, sometimes. They are falling fast towards the very same problems the older women experience.....and that is very sad.\n\n\nSo.......what does a man of integrity do??\n\nWell, I surely don't think Yahoo!answers can help. I do what I can with what I possess. Maybe I'll be surprised, one day.
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I do not think mature females feel shy with somebody they trust and vice versa....\nPity if they would !
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I can't speak for all older women, only for myself.  I agree with you, there IS a human need for "company".   I find what I miss the most when I'm not partnered isn't the 'physical intimacy', it's the 'emotional intimacy'... the closeness of being with another.  \n\nAs for older women going lesbian, I've done that.  And for me, it wasn't due to not being able to find a decent male partner. It was because of my life experiences with the men I've chosen in the past.  I've been married twice to men who turned out to be violent.  Neither of them seemed to me to be the violent type when we were first married tho.  When my last marriage to a man ended, (and I got the heck outta dodge), I made a promise to myself that I would never - EVER - pick another man.. No matter what!  That was 19 years ago... I raised our 3 sons alone, and didn't look back.  \n\nThen when my sons were nearing their late teen years (about 6 years ago), my thoughts began turning to my future.  Did I truly want to be alone for the rest of my life?  I missed the emotional intimacy of being in a relationship.  But I was still as determined not to choose another man, because for whatever reason I chose the wrong ones each time.  I was in therapy and working on my issues too.  \n\nAnd it suddenly dawned on me.  LOL  I had sworn to myself not to choose another man, but uhhhhhhh... ermmmm.. who did that leave then??  Unless aliens were landing on earth, that only left women... The more I thought about it, the more comfortable I was with the idea.  Of course I questioned myself, questioned my therapist... Would it be right for me to be with another woman?  I spent a few years tussling with it all.  \n\nI didn't go looking for a female partner, it just.... happened.  My first relationship was with a woman who was a very good friend of mine.  And I realized that it did feel right to be with her.  After several years I moved in with her.  My sons were on the verge of being on their own, and they were very happy for us.  Life was just fine... until she suddenly died from a blood clot from her leg to her lung.  Then booooom!  My life fell apart... I spent a few years wondering - what the heck??  \n\nMy second relationship with a woman - I went looking for her.  (I wrote about that in another question in here).  That was a disaster waiting to happen.  sigh.  \n\nBut I learned some very valuable lessons.  Among other things, I learned that relationships are relationships, no matter who that is with.  I didn't just choose the wrong men - I chose the wrong partner, period.  Back into therapy to learn how to choose the right "relationship".  I realized finally that men aren't inheritently evil, neither are women.  I simply had issues where I (unknowingly) chose the wrong person, the one who would end up being totally wrong for me.  I did that over and over, male or female.  So now I'm learning to deal with my OWN issues, so that one day I'll be able to recognize the right person when she comes along.  \n\nOh yeah, I still prefer women over men for a relationship, but now it's for the right reasons, for me.  \n\nAnd thru the years, in talking with other older women who've 'gone lesbian' later in life, many have chosen this lifestyle because of their earlier life experiences.  Some because they (like me) have been hurt by men so much.  And they (like me) have learned the hard way that women can hurt women just as much (if not more) as men can.  Some of these older women have realized that they've 'bought into' the pressures and/or expectations of society, and have gotten married to men because of that, only to realize they weren't happy, they weren't being true to themselves.  It has taken some of those women quite some time to realize or admit that to themselves.  The lucky ones are those who realize it early on and avoid years of misery.  \n\nWell.. I g
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When u say mature does it mean you want a lady with 35 years and over? every one longs to have some one who's there to listen to you and provide a wonderful shoulder to cry on. wish you the best in your search
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I value friends that I can spend long long long times apart from and yet when we get back together it is as if we parted only yesterday.  Once I went to a high school reunion and in many ways it was as if my crazy friends and I were 18 again.  It was fun to see them again and relive a little of my misspent youth with the advantage of seeing it from an older and hopefully wiser perspective.  I do not expect nor want to spend years parted from my lover.  If we were forced to be apart that long, I would not want our relationship to be frozen in time as was my relationships with my high school chums I had not seen in a decade.  If my lover and I were parted for that long it would be too painful and unnatural to immediately try to relive the "glory days" of our long past relationship.  Rather I would prefer that we would come together again with an understanding that we had both grown and changed and a gentle time of rediscovery to truly get to know the new person she had become and to share who I had become. \n \nWhom would I want as a dinner guest?\nA great cook, preferably of Italian cuisine.  It wouldn't hurt if she were very dazzling conversationalist.  I wouldn't mind if she were easy on the eyes.  It wouldn't bother me if she had an appetite like a bird so there would be more for me!\n\nWhom would I want as my lover?\nMy wife.  We have been together for many years.  She is the mother of our children.  She is the keeper of my soul.  I have no desire nor need to touch another.  However, I am a red blooded straight male, so of course I do find other women attractive, but to actually consider taking them as a lover is out of the question.  I realize for me, my wife being my lover is not merely a physical act.  It is part of the very fabric my life is woven from.  To risk all that is my daily reality for the short lived physical pleasure of a new conquest would go against every shred of wisdom I have gained from my years of life.\n\nWhom would I want as my close friend?\nSomeone who has a close relationship with God.  I am not perfect, so if we are to remain friends for a lifetime, they will need to be forgiving and loving.  The other advantage to having friends who have a real relationship with God is that the friends don't tend to make unhealthy demands of the relationship because they are being fulfilled through a spiritual relationship that no human relationship can fill.
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Yes.  Taking care of your elderly family members is a sign of gratefulness.  After all the love and things they gave you, they deserve it a lot!
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when they are all you think about, and you can look into your future and see your self growing old with the same person.  Its the best feeling in the world to know that you have found the person that will make you happy for eternity. enjoy it and don't rush :)
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older men like younger women bacause it makes them feel younger