whay can you do when you officialy move in and its not nearly as exciteing in other words the honeymoon is ove
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well just make it COZY and warm just like it USED 2 be.
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Wow!  I know how that can be stressful.  Take them to a quiet restaurant where there won't be too much noise, maybe call ahead and see if you can get a quiet corner reserved.  Or, plan to get take-out from a nice place, lots of them have curbside service now, and have dinner in your parents' or the new in-laws' house (not sure who's coming where) that way you won't have to cook, but the environment is just you guys.  But the good thing about being at a restaurant is if things are kind of akward, you have a natural ending time, at the end of the meal when its time to leave, and no one has to feel weird about kicking anyone out.\n\nGood luck, hope it goes well.
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Its obviously possible, because you are feeling that way. Are you newly weds? If so, maybe you just aren't quite comfortable with all that yet. You should wait until you two feel comfortable.
539328
Slow and steady is the key. Dont get excited too soon to avoid that.
540998
you need to leave the country to somewhere you can actually do something. it'll be a fresh start, a new chance. at the rate you're going, not only will stress and depression affect that relationship, so will the added burden of complexes. an idle mind is a devil's workshop. migrate - take your wife to somewhere you both can live in happily, because wherever you are is obviously not the right atmosphere
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DO relax and enjoy yourself; unwind from all the excitement and stress of the wedding.\nDON'T put high expectations on yourself & your partner to have wild, passionate sex all the time.  You will have plenty of time for that.
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start getting in to things that you have always wanted to do and coudn't while you were married. it will help you alot faster and move on with your new live.you can do any thing you want to do now. just have fun with the thing you choose to do. and who knows you may find love again that if you want that. good luck.
530200
Try having a baby...you will be 'upgraded' to a parent and that feeling will definitely revive all that jazz...it will also bring you two closer in body and soul.
600252
whats more important is what not to wear out. That is your welcome. Go to the wedding and get out.
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Wow, congratulations, if things are great, for example, my boyfriend now husband went to a hotel and had a room with a Jacuzzi, went for dinner and spent the weekend.  It feels just like you are far away just by yourselves.  Other than eating we didn't leave the room.
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Just move out, did you consider doing so.  What you're about to do might seem nice and hot now, but will you be able to deal with this in the future??? Can you just think of how terrible the consequences might be?  Start thinking of it backwards, if you will be able to deal with this and the possible consequences of this than go right ahead, if not, I suggest you take a real action like moving out, we're all weak and if this is how you feel now than there is a big chance that you both might weaken again one day.
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It has not been long since you both move in. Let the relationship breath, has he show any of his true colors yet ? If not, you may want to see how living together going to be. Just slow down and take one step at a time. \nHave you and him talk about marriage already ? If so, maybe he not ready to pop the question yet. Or maybe he waiting till the right time, he could want to surpise ya. \nHope everything turns out for the good.
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I would miss being around him, his hugs, his kisses, his love....  But that's good, because when you get home.  It's going to be like a honeymoon again...\n\nSometimes it is healthy being away from your spouse.  Gives you a chance to miss him.\n\nHAVE FUN ON YOUR VACATION...
500908
Sleep. After the huge wedding and reception and the big stress relief you will feel when it is all over, all you will do that night is sleep. However the next night will hopefully be a different story. =)
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Mom in Law is experiencing a new life and as everyone else goes thru it, it'll come as being routine in time as well.  Things will settle down and she'll see the light again.  Give her a chance to live a little..... life's too short.  You sound a bit selfish, sorry to say. Most people WANT their inlaws out of their business. What's wrong with the brother fixing up her house? Nothing. Not to be critical but you remember how it is when you feel so alive when you first start dating someone? Well?  It's your mom in law!  She is feeling alive and beautiful.  She loves your children I'm sure and in a couple of months when the newness wears off she'll be back. :))))  Take care!
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Relax...it takes more time for some then others.   Key...relax, enjoy it will happen.
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You can't make it feel new.  You can make things more exciting.  Take a small trip together - camping or something or take up a hobby together or learn a new sport or something.  Don't worry about the bedroom.  If things are good out of the bed, then the bed will take care of itself.