indian wife+ chinese food + UK house+ US salary ....do u think is this still the best combination??
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indian wife + indian food + indian house + indian salary... is the best my friend.. India rules!
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Hi Jildikoo,\n  Besides english, I would strongly suggest learning chinese as China is quickly becoming the largest trading partner to many countries on the planet. My guess is that anyone who is fluent in chinese in the next 5-10 years can write their own paycheck. A business background would enhance that paycheck considerably. Make no mistake about, China will be the next superpower within the next 15-20 years. My second language would probably be Indian for pretty much the same reasons. In both cases choose the most spoken dialect.\n As for learning Russian, I can definately recommend it if your looking to score some of those tall hot looking blonde Russian babes and ordering Beluga caviar and vodka all night long. \nпозволяет стороне (lets party in Russian)
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I won't rehash the advice given by the first two answerers as it is spot on.  \n\nJust make sure you two plan on being in the same area for a good amount of time.  How long have you been married?  Of course the only concern is you are both so young, and if your plans change or one of you decides to go to college, it could create a mess for you.  \n\nBut as long as everything remains stable, owning property is always a good thing.  I just bought my first house with my girlfriend and I was 26.  Just turned 27.  We had a great experience.  We bought a house that needed a little work.  Got a great deal and with a little cash and sweat equity it is in great shape now.  \n\nGood luck!
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it is a very very slim one...but if you are willing and ready for the adjustment in your whole life, take a chance but you better be well prepared for that. \n\nit will take a very long period to deal with, i know it from the heart cause i've been there. think of the consequence of the future (children i may say-illness or complications), consideration of each others culture, not only you and your partner but include the closest family as well. the food, the tradition, the language, religion, beliefs, i know there are lots of barriers that needs ironing out. just naming the fews....\n\nit's a great challenge for everyone and if i can move back time, i highly doubt it that i will go for it...
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I am neither Indian nor Hindu (nor Buddhist), but I think the answer depends on several factors: a. How strong are both of you in your faiths?  b. How much do you both have in common?  (The more things you share in common the more compatible you will be.)  c. How much do you fill each other's emotional, intellectual, and spiritual needs? \nIf one, or both, have strongly held religious beliefs, there WILL be conflict in your marriage, especially if neither are willing to compromise.  (Personally I don't agree that you should compromise your beliefs.)  Compatibility is more important than physical attraction, because looks fade, and after a while you stop noticing what the other person looks like.  And how well he treats you, day after day, year after year, the feelings you get from being with him, are more important than money in the bank.  Money gets stolen, or spent too fast! but emotional security is priceless.  If he has lived in Mexico for a long time, or you in India, then you both have some cultural things in common, which is a good start.  But if you are both from completely different cultures, the outlook is bleak.  You would have to work extra hard to overcome that handicap.  There.  Has that discouraged you enough?  (Just kidding.)  It all comes down to you personally.  What do you want?  Are you willing to take the time to get to know him well enough to know whether he's the one for you and that you're compatible?  It does take time, unfortunately.
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The best thing I did to save money is own my own home.  It's paid off as well as any debts a person would normally have.  This has allowed me to have my paycheck for my own use.  I've built on to the house using money earned one week at a time.  To get like this I cook my own meals, bring my lunch, drink homemade tea instead of soda.  I shop carefully and buy used when I can.  I live well at 7.15 an hour part time.
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Depends on your budget. If you got the money, take her out to a nice dinner, spend the day lavishing her with attention and shopping, that sort of thing.\n\nIf the cash situation is not so good, then there is always cooking dinner for her and renting a romantic movie. Even if you completely flub dinner, she will still be happy you tried, and hey, there's always chinese right? Good luck!
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I'm only 26 so unfortunately i have a little way to go but i can tell you i know hundreds of retired couples who live here(France)and they say it is the best place to retire because 1.it is a lot more cheaper than most other countries to live in (especially England). you have nice weather it is very quite and peace full 2 there is so much history so you can go to some very fascinating places and if you are from Ireland you wouldn't have to travel far to see your family 3.the prices for house in France is very cheap and most importantly the people are fantastic and if you cant speak french it doesn't matter because there are many french/English speaking people.....good luck with your search and may i add congratulations on your retirement!
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Don't do it. Not worth the trouble. The communication, and the overseas issue is going to be too much to worry about as opposed to visiting a good ol' American bank. A couple dollars isn't worth the stress. \n\n"Nothings better than home cookin' "
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oh that will be a match made in heaven for the inlaws.. =) hey ive seen it before, things could work out, if its love, go for it
608399
Gone are the days when man used to earn more. Do not feel inferior that your wife is earning more than you do. Do with whatever amount that you can earn without having to worry and get along with your life. You will gain more request form her if you are prudent in the manner you manage with the little that you have got.....goddammit she is your wife man.
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I've been the bread winner with a not so attractive woman (and later on her personality got uglier than her looks) and I am now married to a gorgeous woman who makes more than I do. Either way it didn't matter to me. Right now we live as what ever money she makes, she spends and what ever I make, I spend. We split the common bills down the middle. Works great. \n\n(I'm still kind of old fashioned where I don't judge a woman by her looks/status/money, I still judge them by their personality) Works great.
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IT SEEMS OK. LOANS PULLING ME TO BLACK-HOLE. ETHNIC PROBLEM BREAKS UP ALARMINGLY. INDIANS THINK TANK WORKING WISELY. IM SURVIVING ONLY WITH KASHMIR ISSUE.. USA HELPING LITTLE BIT.CHINESE FILLING OUR NATION WITH WEAPONS..BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO FILL MY PAKISTANI'S STOMACH. OK. IT SEEMS OK.I CAN DIVERT HIM TO INDIAN ENEMITY.
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NO, don't marry someone with expectations of them changing.  you should marry her for who she is, not for who you'd like her to be...do that, and you'll be sadly disappointed.  honestly though, it sounds like you are way too indian (no offense) and un-americanized to ever be able to keep up with an american woman.  this is not india, women here have opinions, attitudes and mostly, they are not affraid of getting a divorce (unlike indian women)  and taking half of your belongings; not to mention that you'll also be paying them alamony checks each month too.  now, that's part of the american culture--can you get used to that?  you better answer that question first.
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here are the facts: you must present yourselves as man and wife for no less than two years. yes she can grab your money and split and tell immigration;  however there are steep criminal penalties for this in the USA  which means she would have to be stupid to tattle on herself and risk going to prison.  worried about her cheating on you?  sex is not part of the bargain pal. dollars for citizenship;  you pay for EVERYTHING ... house, fake wedding pictures, a nice diamond ring, a honeymoon, etc etc... if you expect to get laid too then you can expect to pay for that as well. and fifteen thousand AMERICAN dollars is cheap;  at least 20K  for the basics.
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Y DIDN'T YOU ASK THOSE CN GIRLS??\nOH .. PLEASE NOT ONLY CHINESE... KOREAN..FILIPINA..THAI...LAOS..VIETNAMESE...RUSSIAN...POLISH..IRISH... SCOTISH.. BRITISH..FRENCH.. SPANISH..MEXICAN..  AND THE REST OF THE NATIONS (WHATEVER I'M MISSING)... \nMAINLY GO FOR GREENCARD.. 2ND.. MONEY.. 3RD.. PROBABLY LOVE (TAKE A LONG TIME TO DEVELOP THIS STAGE AFTER GREENCARD)\n\nDON'T THAT DID NOT WANT TO GOING OUT W/ FOREIGNER CUZ THEY LIKE TO STAY IN THEIR OWN RACE AND CULTURE.
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You would have to leave India I believe for this to happen, but just stay there and see what happens first. You said have fun with friends and make big money. You are forgetting the part about all the beautiful big breasted women that will do ANYTHING to get back stage and party with you ... guys. lol