How do I ask my wife to try....?
596220
Just tell her how you feel. Tell her that you are glad that she is willing to experiment with you and you are happy that she has been willing to try new things. Then tell her how much you love what she does to you and slowly bring in to the conversation what you want to try out. Good luck! Have fun!
312462
just show her this question ...
1050807
If you're asking for a way to say that without hurting her, unfortunately there isn't one. Do it like pulling a band-aid. Anything you tell her will break her heart. Say it soon, so you aren't leading her on, and be ready for the question "Why not?", because it usually comes up. If you don't have a reason why not, are you sure it isn't worth a shot? Good luck with that, it's a hard situation for a nice guy to find himself in.\n\nIf you're not such a nice guy, just ask her if she can wait for six weeks because you're having a "flare-up". That'll do it!
861937
Ask her if she's made a New Year's resolution.  She'll rattle off some things, then will ask you what you resolve to do.  Tell her that you resolve to be a faithful and loving husband; you resolve to honor and respect your wife; Just tell her you resolve to do all the things you would do if the two of you were married; it could be a combination of the serious and the silly (I resolve to grow old with you, I resolve to always put the seat back down...) then tell her that you need help keeping your resolutions, but not just this year, but for a lifetime- then ask her if she'll help you.
598782
ask your wife, maybe she will serve them to you
933494
I enjoy riming my wife very much and once she let me try it she started to ask me for it... it is the fastest way to send her over the edge... she won't return the favor yet though!
602223
Make sure that she is relaxed and in the mood for intimacy before you initiate a sexual encounter with your wife.  She will probably respond best if you are considerate of her feelings outside of the bedroom and take your time to please her.  If you do that, your reward will be worthwhile.
259217
it's true it sounds like your wife doesn't want it as much as you do, but she is so spoiled and blessed to have such a good husband who is considerate to that. i admit i don't always want to when my husband does, but i rarely tell him no. even if i can't do it i'll be considerate to him being in the mood, and help him out orally.
186732
Just tell her you would like her to try it then if you get the desired reaction you can tell her how awesome it looks etc and she may continue doing it...otherwise be happy with her the way she is
196054
Ask his wife if in doubt....K
1150908
Try to compromise with ur wife to make up sometimes for sex as u need it.
1014721
You need to talk to your wife about this and see what you can do to get her on your level! I know excercise always seems to bring on more energy, especially sexual energy! Maybe she could try this! Keep things exciting and stirred up to keep her interested!
414853
talk it over with her and find out why she wont. Have her comfortable with the idea and dont press the issue or else it could make he like it even less.
411176
Don't use words.  Use body language.  Use your hand to gently carress her leg, inside of her thigh, kiss behind her ear, nibble on the earlobe (don't bite hard--what a turn off), try to unbutton her shirt or slide your hand up her shirt, try to lay her down on the couch, floor, bed whatever and climb on top of her (not r.a.p.e though!) and try to persuade her from there.  You should get the hint!
1083465
Start making a good faith effort to make things go better between you. Then keep making that good faith effort day after day until it pays off. And then keep right on making that good faith effort day after day, or she will feel like you tricked her, and you will be worse off than before.\n\nIn short, there is nothing like a husband who tries hard to make the marriage a good marriage to make a wife feel friendly toward him.
243080
By now you should know what drives her crazy physically..so, start the seduction sooner than that...do a chore that she normally does, clean the house, do the dishes. Start wooing her with those things before you get frisky. Then when you do get to that point she will be much more relaxed and open...maybe ask if she has any fantasies you can fulfil or just explore her body and ask along the way what she likes. Good luck!
1153998
What's wrong with coming out and asking for it?\n\nAnd no, that's not entirely a rhetorical question.  I ask because for years, I used to think that if my wife REALLY loved me, she'd just KNOW when I wanted sex.  (Which, let's face it, is pretty easy to figure out -- if I'm breathing, I want sex. :-)  A lot of this is because when we were first married, we were at each other all the time.  (In our past relationships, we had both been the one who wanted it "too much," so it was such a joy to find each other and explore our own upper limits instead of hearing from our partners, "Jeez, we did it yesterday, how many times a week do you WANT it?")  When the frequency dropped after we had children (it's more difficult to throw your partner to the livingroom floor and have wild, loud sex at 3 PM on a Saturday afternoon if your kids have friends over playing Nintendo), this bothered me for a while.  I thought it meant she didn't love me as much, I thought it was Something I Did, I thought it was -- you get the picture.  \n\nThings have really improved in the past couple of years, since I learned the simple act of saying "You know, I'd really like some kind of sexual activity tonight.  What are you up for?"\n\nSo the answer is, go ahead and ask her!  \n\nAs another Wicked Sex Tip: In my experience, one's chances of getting lucky increase exponentially after a really good backrub.  Find out where she's always sore, learn what relaxes her, and be generous.  Besides, if nothing else, you're running your hands over the naked body of the woman you love, and that's on my top three list of favorite activities in and of itself.