Girls can tell if a girl is beautiful so why cant guys tell if a guy is nice/sexy?
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Guys totally know if another guy is hot or not. I find that many men from Asia are really honest about things like that. While here in America I have never met a straight guy that will openly state what they think of another guys looks. If they didn't judge other men they would not know where they fall in line when it comes to looks. Also they have to look at other men and say I like that haircut or the way he wears his jeans that way then can pick up different looks. My son has just started modeling and he has found that he will be judging lots of guys to see how much of a chance he has for each job. They all rate other guys they just don't want to admit it.\nLove & Light
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Because until men get over the fact that they can think without using their eyes, it becomes pointless to pick out a girl based on what she looks like.  Number 1 reason why I have a major distrust of any online dating site.  I'm a guy, but it takes a real guy to say it like it is.  If you got no heart, then you don't (in my opinion) know how to view girls.  And it goes the other way as well.  If girls think that the best way to attract a guy by getting naked and then sharing their naked pictures online, then you are appealing to the eyes, but not the heart.  Unless of course the eyes have had free reign for so long that the heart is screwed every where he looks.
125166
Alright.  It actually is about what's inside.  Unfortunately, the first impression is based on physical appearance, unless you are blind, because that's the first thing you are able to see about the person.  Then you can move on to the other parts about a woman.  A guy isn't going to stay with a girl if she's drop dead gorgeous but dumb as a brick.  And if he tries, it will fail miserably.  I'd rather have a cute girl that has a head on her shoulders than a hot girl with an empty head.
58139
Subtle things.  Compliments are always good.  A girl loves compliments just don't over do it thats kinda creepy sometimes. Tell her she looks nice or smells good.
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I don't judge a girl on the way she looks, yeah looks are all apart of it but it's her personality that would draw me closer, not only her personality but the way she acts....looks aren't everything! I don't see a guy can like a girl only on her looks, it's never gonna last. Yeah sure she's hot but who cares if the relationship is only going to last a month, that's a month you could've been with someone that really counts.
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guys are attracted to girls that are confident in themselves. my husband didn't marry me because of the way i looked or dressed. he saw my heart and that's why he married me. THat's the truth, ask any guy
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Yes, because guys do not know if you like them or not.  I can never read girls right; when I think that they like me, how wrong am I!  I wish girls would be more open about their feelings, instead of playing hard to get.
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I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
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Would you know that sometimes to be a pretty girl is not good at all for her beauty because most of men think that a pretty girl always has empty mind. Even though she is a deeply woman. Everyone will have their own chance to look for a suit person as expected. Pretty or ugly girl will be unmeaning if you don't have a truly love or serious relationship. Be remembered that, depending on the viewer, this one to be suitable or unsuitable for someone. No woman is ugly. Hope you will have a serious idea if you want to have a nice girl indeed in your life.
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Hmm...I find that most girls are attracted to a guy's personality. If he has confidence in himself, girls would generally feel more comfortable around him.
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Well, I would think that, usually, we men are VERY obvious when we like a girl. Lots of looking, nerviousism, weird acting, looking for bad excuses to talk to her...
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Girls immediately are able to sense a guy who has a kind heart even if there is a lot of noise and confusion. It was obvious that you didn't want to hurt either of them. You are a kind soul.
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there are 2 things a person does not know about themselves... what they sound like and what they look like.  your own self-perceptions prevent you from knowing this.  If this guy likes the way you look, than perhaps he knows better what other people see when they look at you.  Your low self esteem will prevent you from seeing yourself as beautiful as long as you think you are not.
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Most males that I have known refuse to admit that they even notice if another guy is good looking. I used to think it was ridiculous, but I have to wonder. Many men do not notice beautiful flowers, decorations etc., so I think it is possible that they just don't notice other men. The only ones they seem to notice are the ones that could be a physical threat, and that is just self preservation I think. Women generally notice beauty all around them. We notice beautiful flowers, the clothes other people wear, decorations wherever we go, beautiful women and good looking men etc. Men notice beautiful women because they are of use (relationship wise) to them. I think that if something isn't a threat or is of no real use to men, then they tend to not notice and just look past them. \n\nA.H.
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I'm a guy, I have a girlfriend, most guys (in general, at least those like me) have a tendency to REALLY like a girl if he's looking at her a lot.. I mean, I may find a girl attractive and my eyes may look in that direction as a reaction, but if its something more than that, a guy might try to hide the fact that he likes looking in her direction out of respect for the fact that she might not want to be stared at... so it can be hard to tell if the guy wants you as more than a friend without asking quite clearly and in private.. not in front of too many other people, something like "what do you think of me, do you want to go out with me?" etc.. some guys are too shy to ask the girl they want to be with out without knowing that they'd approve of them in the first place, a lot of guys end up staying single because of this, and I have only asked one girl out and I've had about 6 relationships ... each one a major impact on my life, I hope this helps.
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If you are trying to say that girls/women are nice at the beginning and then not nice further into things...I would say guys can be the same way.\nIt takes time to truly get to know someone...and no one is perfect.
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Obviously, the first thing you notice about someone is their appearance. There are still a few of us guys that look beyond that though. I have dated some very good looking gals that I lost interest in due to lack of conversation. I have dated several ordinary/plain looking gals and had far better relationships with them. To some of us, what's inside means more than what's outside, but noone wants someone they aren't physically attracted to.