Hi I am a little worried because a told a personal secret to my parents.?
612760
Be honest. If your Dad is going to say or do something, it's better to warn her upfront. \n\nDid you tell because you were worried about her?
181078
well ppl should be careful while chatting on net. I mean you never know how the person is. I am not scaring you but I have come across many cases where girls have been abondoned and some have also got pregnant. I am not saying that it can happen to you but you should still be careful. Just introspect and analyze where this thing is going? Is it safe? Will my parents be happy with whatever I am doing? After all your life is a part of others'.
377922
Tell them now!!!!You had the courage to write this on the Internet ...go and confront them...!How old are you?I did a tragic mistake in my life and never told my parents....and then i was left without friends alone...i couldn't seek support from them cause they could have never trusted me again if i told them coz i lied for more than two years...tell them now!!!have courage..if you need to chat email me...,be strong this baby needs love
1020598
not necessarily, but I would not tell any of my secrets to anyone who I do not know really well. You need to trust him first, know him and feel comfortable to talk about it....
332814
Why can't you tell your Mom? Where are you getting teased at? I would walk away and I would seriously think about telling someone who you can trust that will help you.
825991
You will have to use discretion on this one. You  might do more harm than good in telling the person about this.
999142
leave the room and then politely and privately alert them to what you just wrote...youre doing nothing wrong by choosing not to hear about someones personal private life especially at your age
968383
There's not much you can do at this point.  If you told someone something and they end up telling someone else, and you didn't want them to, then you have learned an important lesson in life which is not to trust anyone.  Sometimes it's best just to keep things to yourself if it would be hurtful to you for them to get out.  Hopefeully the person doesn't tell - then you will have found a trustworthy person, but they are rare.  I hope you will learn from this and be more careful who you tell things to.  Good luck.
187980
You should tell your parents. It is better for you to tell them than it would be for them to find out. Trust me on this one! Just tell them that he is more of a friend and try to explain to them your reasons. Ussual works.
627679
Someone in your family will know....your mums mum, or mums sister or cousin...there is probably a female family member that she confided in at the time....or maybe even your "dad" would know...
904676
I think that you should respect your parents call on this one hun...sorry.  You are only 13, and your parents love you and are protecting you from experiances that you are not yet ready to handle.
687293
Tell another adult that you trust.  Parents and teachers are great listeners.  This is something that you don't want to let happen any more.  Tell someone and if they don't listen tell someone else.
41071
Well if they told us then it wouldn't be a secret.:) Seriously, probably one of those deals where if they told you, then they would dispose of you soon after. You know, one of those 'matter of national security' deals.
9371
Parents can be pretty weird about their past. for one thing they don't want to give you any ideas that they are less than perfect... They never made mistakes or did silly things.\n Just don't bug him he will tell you things when you least expect it. I have told my kids things about my childhood and they freak out. One daughter will actually cover her ears at times and she is 31. Geez
361482
Well, yes and no. I would be mad if I asked you and you wouldn't tell me because it sounds like you have something to hide and that would make me curious to see what it could be but on the other hand it is kinda invasion of privacy personally I probably have done the same thing. Sorry\nGood Luck
1086684
if you got to ask, you don't need to know yet.if you are that curious ask the folks that love you the most....YOUR PARENTS,please don't push the issue online.there really are some scary people out here that only seek to give you mis-information.
197449
I wouldn't say anything unless I was asked.  You could drop a few hints to your parents, like you want an iPod too, or something to that effect.  That way it takes the monkey off your back and puts it on them.  You still have your relationship with your bother, he's in trouble, and all is well again.