what are good ways to get a guys attention/flirt with him without over doing it?
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dont be a tease, that sh8t is played out
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Most women are too busy playing "hard-to-get", it's human nature.\n\nHere's three ideas to think about:\n\n1)  How about you get his attention by smiling when you catch him looking.\n\n2)  The best way to show confidence is to approach him.  (I think all ladies should use this advice).  The probably wouldn't be much use for dating sites if women approached men.\n\n3)  Or if your passive aggressive use your network of friends or co-workers and start a rumor that you like a particular guy.  Trust me he'll find out and seek your attention if he is attracted to you.
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One word FLIRT and the rest just like talk to him make him notice you when you get at the level where you both like eachother ask him out and kiss him!!
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1)do NOT try to hard\n2)be yourself\n3)be sweat  NOT desperate\n4)be extra nice to him do him favors \n5)flirt but dont flirt alott and not too much of a flirt
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Depends on the guy, and how your relationship is. He likes music get him a CD. Sports equipment is always good. If you like him good way to flirt is getting him a gift card to a clothing store and offering to help him pick out some stuff.
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guys are simple, most of them liken unto animals so the simplest approach would be the best. Simply say "I,ve notice you and was wondering ,totaly open and give him a way out, cause we feel at ease like that, if there was something you found about me you would care to know more about. Then even toss in there that you would like to know whats up with him, that would let him feel accepted and eased and let you have a moment not on the spot. Simply bring up the ? of the matter is basicly the best way to approach a guy cause we are simple carbin units waiting for an oppurtunity
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Communication is a good start. Don't be too shy. Make her LAUGH! That's how guys get my attention. Be charming, give her compliments, ask her about herself; like what she likes to do, or her favorite restraunt. Then maybe if you think she's flirting with you, ask her on a date, to the movies, out to eat, anything romantic. It could even be a double date! Those sometimes seem to break the ice a little bit and make everything less akward for your first time!
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So times if you are to shy to let a guy know that you like him, the best thing to do is to let him know with actions.  Treating him just a little bit different than a guy friend.  You know, look directly at him when talking, smile, give him that little extra attention.  He will get the message and most of the time that is a lot better than coming on too strong, good luck!
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i have been in your shoes! okay a couple steps \n\n1) flirt\n2) make friends w/ his friends\n3)flirt\n4) make friends with him\n5) ask his friends who he likes\n6)flirt \n7) casualy invite him on a friendly date, like a movie or bowling \n8) borrow his pen and write your number on his arm -- if he likes you, he'll call, and this way he doesnt need a lame excuse to ask u for ure number like "i need hw help.."\n\neven if he responds to ure flirting in a positive way, like flirting back or blushing, that is a good sign\n\nbtw those steps are not really in order, just a couple suggestshuns\n\nthis always works for me, i've only been turned down once or twice, no joke
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I think my personal favourite so far has been a gentle claw at the back of the neck during a kiss.  Thaaaat'll do it.  :)\n\nAs for flirting, practice the floor hook.  If you get the sense a joke or the end of a funny story is coming, look down and adjust something on your shoe, or the table.  When the punchline comes, half-grin and look into his eyes without moving your head from its position, angled down and to the side.  Hold it there long enough and he'll have to start flustering, unsure of what he just did.  \n\nNot only are you showing off an attractive profile and being playful, you put him in a position of being self-conscious and fluttery: emotions he'll associate with dating.  Floor hook.  Never fails.  (I should write a book.)  :D
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As a girl if you want to get attention from a guy, there are many efficient and fundamental ways to do so. Let's assume that you do not know very well the guy but would like to know him better or to date him. The most common ways to get his attention: \n\nSmiling politely at him; make sure that he sees it.\nSay "HI" to him whenever you see him in the hallway; a little hand wave is great as well.\nTry to share common interests. If he loves sports, perhaps join him in the same activity.\nTalk to one of his friend to learn more about him or to send the message.\nSend him a card on Valentine's Day. \n\n\nCommunication is very important. You might want to take the first step to talk to him; this can be as simple as "Hey, what's up." in the hallway. Don't forget to include a nice smile.
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This may or may not work for you but when I was younger someone shared with me 10 things to get a guy to notice you. Here goes:\n\n1: Don't just begin with hello. Now the first way to get a guy to notice you is to say hello, now that's obvious but the trick is to say it like this, "Hello or Hey, (insert name here). Because when you personalize it, it's more sincere than just Hey! Hopefully it will lead to him saying,"Hey, (insert your name here).\n \n2: Touch him (No, I don't mean that way). Body language speaks more than words. For example when you're joking with him a light tap on the shoulder. But becareful of only doing this occasionally because you don't want him to think you're harassing him and avoid fixing his collar because it might just remind him of mom. The trick is to be subtle.\n\n3: Smile. I forgot to mention this, after saying hello adding a bright smile. Don't forget to look into his eyes when you smile, 100% charm baby!\n\n4: Accessorize. Yep, great conversation starters. I used to have a mood ring and conversations always began with questions about my ring. Or try a T-shirt with funny slogan or vintage cartoon character. Anything that shows your personality and something you have lots to say about.\n\n5: Bump into him. Now, you can't get him to talk to you if your paths never meet. Take time to figure out his schedule, where he likes to hang, when he heads toward the restroom or what time he rounds the corner. This way you can 'accidentally' bump into him. Warning don't become a stalker now you want him to notice you not be scared of you.  \n\n6: Another way to do this is put yourself out there. He can't notice you if you hide in a box. So if he's on the football team try the cheerleading team. If he's doing afterschool activities, try something also.\n\n7: Give him a nickname. This is a tricky one but you can add it to step one. The thing is to use a nickname that only you call him. For example if you two are having lunch and he spills his soda you can call him 'fizz'. Use something creative but not offensive.\n\n8: Ask him out. There's nothing wrong with you making the first move. Ask him to grab a bite to eat or a cup of coffee. Start out as friends that's how most of the best relationships start out as anyway. This way you get to know him and he'll definitly notice you. Now I can't say I had this much courage so what I did was get my friend who is not shy to ask him and his friends to go hang out at the local coffee shop. Worked for me.\n\n9: Laugh at his jokes. Make a comment on something he said in class. By letting him know that you think he's cool he'll start seeing all the cool things in you. It's like when you show him you notice him then he'll notice you.\n\n10: The oldest advice in the world is, Be yourself. Have confidence in who you are. With just that you can attract almost anyone in the world.\n\nHope this helps and good luck with everything:)
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before asking a question type few words of your question in the search.....you will find more than 500 questions already asked on this issue....\n\nThe easiest way to approach a guy is to smile at him...and try to talk about general issues.....like abt wheather, baseball, football. If he is interested he will definetly join you in the conversation.or else he would give one word answers and ignore you......Belive me when a pretty girl tries a guys attention ....no guy can ignore that....
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First find something that he is interested in and talk to him about it, or just ask what does this do? Guys love to know that some woman needs his help! It will make him feel better. Plus, it will give you a little flirting time. \n\nIf you don't feel up to that, then go for the almighty approach and get him a little jealous. Mention something sweet that someone of the opposite sex done for you. Maybe someone that he knows or works with. It does the trick most of the time. He will feel guilty about not being the one there to do it. \n\nOr you can always seduce him. The poor sap does have it coming if he is too afraid to confront you about liking ya. lol. Suprise him. Win him over. Drop something and see if he will pick it up. Show him signs that you need or want him. He will give in sooner or later. Whisper in his ear. He will like it. \n\nWell, good luck! If this doesn't work then he isn't a man. lol. Also, if you want him to come to you, then you need to make him aware that you are interested as well. Don't take the easy way out or he will give up. Smile back and flirt. I'll work!
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
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Sweetheart, you want to be confident, but vulnerable.  compliment him and laugh at his jokes.  make eye contact for 3 consecutive seconds.  most importantly be yourself!!!
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The trick is to never(ever) let a guy know that you are interested in him. Just give him signs and keep him in mystery. Flirt with him without him really knowing you are doing so. Its the mystery about the girl that really makes a boy interested in her