Can children achieve orgasm,if possible from what age? Is there any difference between male and female in this
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Kinsey et al. (1948) reported that orgasm is not rare among children, both boys and girls, and has been observed in boys of every age from five months on and in an infant girl of four months. To understand the capacity of infants and small children to reach orgasm, we make a distinction between those who stimulate themselves and those who have been stimulated by others. Given the lack of capacity of infants for sustained rhythmic stimulation of their genitals, to determine the capacity of sexual response in infants would require stimulation by persons other than the infant. Kinsey had access to such data and reported on stimulation to orgasm of male infants under one year of age as follows:\n\nThe behavior involves a series of physiologic changes, the development of rhythmic body movements with distinct penis throbs and pelvic thrusts, an obvious change in sensory capacities, a final tension of muscles, especially of the abdomen, hips, and back, a sudden release with convulsions, including rhythmic anal contractions-followed by the disappearance of all symptoms. A fretful babe quiets down under the initial sexual stimulation, is distracted from other activities, begins rhythmic pelvic thrusts, becomes tense as climax approaches, is thrown into convulsive action, often with violent arm and leg movements, sometimes with weeping at the moment of climax. After climax the child loses erection quickly and subsides into the calm and peace that typically follows adult orgasm. (Kinsey et al. 1948:177)
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I am 33 years old and I have only had one vaginal orgasm. This is very common and you are not alone. It takes a lot to get there. A lot of passion and romance. Then again a lot of women never get to experience that..My hubby and I use toys and we can still orgasm together. This is a great thing....I hope this helps, Good Luck..
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Well, males are more likely than women to get at least one orgasm, especially if the male controls proceedings.  Many women do not get to orgasm via penis in vagina sex.  Those women are thus (obviously??) likely to desire sex less than those men.\n\nIf women explore their sexuality, they can become multi - orgasmic, and can achieve massive prolonged orgasms, that might well exceed what men experience.  They might desire sex even more than the men involved.  I suspect that only a minority of women do this, however.
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If your comfortable with each other then an orgasm is not the "be all and end all" of making love to each other, therefore I would say its nice to achieve for both sexes but not worth losing sleep over.
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This could not be further from the truth. In fact its quite the opposite, when a girl gets comfortable enough with herself that she can masturbate to orgasm she often finds it easier to orgasm during the real thing. Also understand that there is more than one type of orgasm that women can have, a clitoral, and a g-spot. \n\nAs for your sex drive question, different people have different levels of sexual anticipation its normal and you should consider yourself lucky.
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What matters is knowing your own body and what you like - BUT also being open to trying new things.  Every woman is different.  Those who enjoy sex usually have done some exploration and know what their body wants and likes and are able to communicate that to their partner.  I know many women who will stimulate their clitoris when they are being penetrated.  I know many who cannot orgasm without doing this - but - it also increases the intensity and enjoyment of being penetrated.  As someone else mentioned - try different things, and yes age and experience makes a HUGE difference.  Having a partner you trust and can communicate with is also crucial.  Inform yourself with knowledge - buy a book or two or do some research on the web about this.
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Hi there,\nPlease take the time to read everything I’ve copied and pasted for you.  It will answer any and all questions that you may have. I’m just good at research, but all of the effort I put into this article for you, isn’t worth the time if you don’t read it.  This is one of the most common questions asked on yahoo answers, so you aren’t alone.\nGood Luck!\nRead this, maybe you will be more informed!!!\n\nDon’t feel guilty about it, it’s your body and it’s fun.\nJust don’t announce it to the world, some things are better left private :) Everyone does it, people just don’t talk about it!!!\n******************************...\nMasturbation is quite common in young children. In most cases, it is considered a natural, normal behavior in children of all ages. Children often begin masturbating at around eighteen months of age. Masturbation tends to peak when children are between the ages of three and five. It then declines in frequency until puberty.\n\nMany parents are surprised and/or shocked to find their children masturbating. Parents should keep in mind that masturbation generally causes no physical harm to their children. In most cases, problems result only when adults overreact.\n\nFor parents to deal with their children’s masturbation they must know when it is normal and when it might indicate some underlying problem.\n\nWhy Children Masturbate\n\n*Pleasure. Children learn very quickly that it feels good to masturbate.\n\n*Self-soothing. For many children, masturbation reduces tension. These children may masturbate when they are upset, tired, bored, or feeling stress.\n\n*Exploration. Many children will masturbate as part of the natural curiosity they have about their bodies.\n\nWhat Parents Can Do\n\n*Ignore it. Masturbation is, after all, a normal behavior for most children. Parents can best handle it by treating it matter-of-factly. Parents shouldn’t try to get their children to stop masturbating by punishing, threatening or scolding. If they do, they run the risk of giving their children the idea that their genitals are bad and/or dirty.\n\n*Remain calm. Parents should try not to overreact. They should also keep in mind that no physical harm will come to their children as a result of masturbation. If parents overreact, they may put fear into their children about their bodies.\n\n*Don’t be surprised. Masturbation among young children is very common, and quite normal.\n\nWhen Children Masturbate in Public Places\n\nMasturbation is something that should be done in private. Most young children, however, don’t know the difference between public and private behaviors. In these cases, children must be taught. Parents should treat public masturbation as they would any other behavior that is not acceptable in public places, for example, nose picking. Here are some specific things that can be done to minimize masturbation in public places.\n\n*Explain. If parents discover their children masturbating in a public place, they should tell their children that is something that should be done only in private, for example, in the children’s bedroom or the bathroom. Parents should use words like, “It’s all right to do that in the bathroom or the bedroom, but not in the grocery store or when other people are around.” Parents should try not to criticize, nag, or punish their children. They should treat the behavior matter-of-factly.\n\n*Offer alternatives. Parents should provide their children with something else to do with their hands while they are in public. They could also try to distract their children from masturbating by suggesting some other activity.\n\n*Be consistent. If children, for example, masturbate while they are at day care, parents should work out a solution with their children’s day care provider. It is important that the behavior be treated in the same way by parents and by other care providers.\n\nWhen to Seek Help\n\nOn rare occasions, children’s masturbation habits may be an
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It depends.  Was there sex involved?  If so, there's a condition called orgasm retardation.  It can be caused both physically and psychologically.  Have him see a "bone" doctor.  If that doc doesn't solve the problem, then have him see a head doctor.
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No, masturbation is normal for both boys and girls. It can also be a pretty good exercise. So it's actually good for you.
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Well, its not fair if boys have all the fun, is it? I mean, girls have to undergo periods, cramps, irritation, ten months of pregnancy, labour pain and all that. Multiple orgasm is the consolation price for them.\nFor boys, it wouldnt be fair on the part of God if he gave them multiple orgasms too. \nSo, in my belief, its just and fair. Girls deserve it. Boys dont. ;)
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The feeling of approaching an orgasm is different for each male and is extremely difficult to describe. Certain muscles contract and your brain releases certain hormones, but other than that the feeling is individual (this question is akin to a guy asking a woman how painful childbirth is; there's no way an individual can measure another individual's pain or other physical feelings)
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It's possible to orgasim with any sort of stimulation really. The only drawback is that it is difficult for most women.\n\nFor me the weirdest one was while I was playing a 2 person fighting video game. How odd is that?
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well, when i was 5 or 6 i would play with myself but i got the idea that it wasn't ok. When I was about 11 I discovered how to orgasm (and the art of discretion)
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Well, because you don't.  Neither males NOR females can experience orgasm with direct contact with the sexual organs.  Now, of course, if you are standing there diddling yourself in public (how classy) that is a different situation, but you don't have orgasms from just standing motionless or simply because you're looking at a cute guy.  Try selling that story to someone who is a bigger fool than me.
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You can easily get it by tittilating your organs by various means. I hope you understand what I mean. After that you expect to get many more such orgasms.
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i think the answer to the question you're asking is this. it takes a while to excite women because they are less experienced than men. boys usually begin to play with themselves in middle school, while some woman dont acheive orgasms until their thirties, if ever. men know what they want, sex is often more enjoyable for them. but if you are with the right kind of woman waiting to excite her is well worth it.
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No. Actually, female orgasm increases the likely hood of becoming pregnant.