what should you do if you want your ex friend back as a friend but did'nt really know them well?
612973
If you dont know them well then how were they your friend to begin with?
246779
as you said this fight was stupid so yes definetly be friends again, you known him since first grade dont loose a relationship over that, youve been friends for way to long its time to move on and start having fun with him. besides what if something happened you wouldnt want to miss out on the oppurtunity to be friends....
974030
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
1099879
Depends on if you want your friend to really be your friend. You could ask your friend, but they would still get mad about it even if they said no. If you like the ex more than the friend then go for it. Good luck.
818035
Friends after the fact won't work dude.  If you want a relationship with her or still love her, tell her you want her back.  If that's a no go - you need a clean break - That involves your mate as well.   Explain you still have feelings for her and you can't be around her without feeling awkward.  Then find some new friends.
1094354
try to build the friendship again... by doing that you will give yourself time to asses about your true feeling with her...
1067837
If your friend is really a friend and you want to salvage your friendship, I think you should sit down with her and discuss how you really feel.  You should let her know that it really upset  you when she did what she did, and that you don't relish the chance of that happening again, that it's not acceptable behavior from someone who says she's a friend.
1045133
dont forget about him.. you can still be friends with him.. and hwo knows maybe one day down the road thigns wil pick up for you 2 again
375666
you will never lose a friend if the trust is there...between you and your friend...if u have done something wrong...accept and apologize...and if your friend did....then forgive and forget...\nlet the life keep going...and make your friend realise that how important he/she is in your life...\ntake care...i m sure you will get them back...best friends may be angry for a while but will eventually come back if they treasure your friendship...
627501
Know your reasons,and make sure they are FACT. Do not end a friendship over miscommunication. It is the hardest thing to try to earn back.If the friend really did a dirty deed, remember then, he or she was not ever a real FRIEND to begin with.FRIENDS are people you can trust with your life and the lives of your children. You give unto others' and they in return will give back to you without question in some way!
252132
Casually call him up...say "Hey it's been forever, I miss ya, lets get together and do something" Get him out and talking and casually bring up what the other friend asked you. Get the conversation going and see how it leads. Best of luck.
13645
To her face, calmly, lovingly, clearly. You must let her know she's a good and wonderful person but you cannot, and I do mean, CANNOT let her think there's a chance of winning you back, or she may put up a valiant try that will leave both of you feeling more hurt / guilty. Don't be afraid to have a little bit of space between you two for a few weeks after, but if you'd genuinely like to stay friends after that, go out to coffee and chat. Be prepared for the sting when she finds someone else a bit down the road; even if you dump her, it can hurt when she falls in love again and it's not you.
753308
No.  If you do decide to keep in touch, the friendship is never the same again because you're always careful not to say too much to them.  I have a friend like that.  We were inseparable for years until she blabbed to the last person I wanted to know what she said.  She apologized and I know she is truly sorry, but being drunk at the time doesn't make it okay.  We still speak, but only occasionally, and never like before.
726448
try using Friend reunited.
715014
I think you should hang out with both, just at different times, and eventually they might become friends again, you never know, so hang out with both!
319907
If it got to the point they had to call hte cops I would say you blew it.  If you aren't really willing to accept that answer and you are willing to do ANYTHING to be friends with her again then patience is the key.  You have to prove to her that you are sorry and will never act that way again.  Let me tell you earning back someones trust is never an easy thing.  Be patient...wait for her... do what you can to show her you are sorry subtly and if a fight starts refuse to engage in it...
953718
This guy would be mad to even consider getting back together with this girl. She doesn't deserve a second chance. To be honest I don't even know why you want a " friend " like her - you sound like a nice person !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk to the guy and give him your opinion - does he really want to go through that kind of sh*t again ?