My brother's girlfriend and I work in the same building lately she has been acting mad, sad, less chatty......
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It is best to leave family and personal stuff out of the work environment. People at work will use that against you when you least expect it and they will use it when you are least expecting them to.\n\nWomen tend to go through up's and down every month. Give them space, it is natural. Be respectful and kind and let them know that no matter what, your here for them. \n\nWhatever they are going through will soon end and then they will think about you and what you said, and respond. Then you can open up and ask what was wrong. They will usually explain or tell all then.
760562
Give her some space. She needs to cool down she might be mad. Give her a couple of days to think. Meanwhile you should have a long talk with God and everything will work out for you I'm sure.
220999
don't let it bother you.\nShe is feeling threatened now that you might steal her "dear little boy"..and have more influence on him..\n\nIt is common !! They start to feel jealous !
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Well It sounds like yo work right.. ?  and the Mrs stays home with the kiddies...  well look bro... she is probaly stressted out. and needs a little attention and some love..=)\n\nI am sure it is hard to handle... I have friends at work in the same postion and I hear the same thing from him. My only advice..  is listen to her... I know I know its hard to do..  But I tell once she gets out what ever is bothering her... she will feel a little better..  =)\n\nI have four my self....    so I know a little about your situtaion.. take care..
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i am sure your brother knows she is a jealous controlling woman.  He just thinks he can't find another woman.  First get yourself plenty of girlfriends and have him come over to fix something at your place, then have them make a move on him. find him a job so he can rebuilt his confidence.  i can only tell you what people have done, i do not condome revenge. Post her picture on paper flyers printed from your computer and have her number on it. put it in bathroom walls of men restrooms. the post should read I am a xxx so please call me and tell me that i am....next get a calling card and use it on a payphone. have your girlfriends call her and tell her things. when you visit so they will not know it is you.... order pizza to her job or place and give her name. so they will ban her from recieving pizza from that place when she makes them deliver and loose money..... call mental institutions and ask them to send you literature to your home address for your personal problem, such as drug offender, prostition, depression and give her name and address instead of yours, call from a payphone so it wont come back to you...call the school where your child goes and cuss at the nurse or the secretary and give her childs name and her name and ask to hold meeting with the princilpe and ask for a confirmation letter send to her address and use her name, when she fails to attend , they will loose faith in her....
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hey... i have the same problem, with the same lady, at the same job lol\n\nIt's harder than you guys think to tell her to piss off... She makes this groaning noise when she gets up, like it hurts her\n\nSeriously though, I would hate to have to stand up with all her weight on me but she needs to deal with it because we all got our stuff to overcome in life
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I understand what you're going through. And I hope that you will find something, someday that will make it all dissappear.\n\nAs harsh as I may sound, I don't think your sisters reaction is normal. She is being overly zealous. May be she should have herself checked out also. \n\nAlso, do you fight a lot. Is this just mere sibiling rivalry. Have you tried winning her affection?. If this is not the case, i suggest talking to your parents about your sister, and she might want to visit a behaviour consultant.
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Something seems to be missing in your story--or your girlfriend is schizoid.  But seriously, it isn't really normal to fight every week, so possibly she is still angry about whatever it is you guys have been fighting about.  I would think about the tone you may have had when you asked her to clean, I imagine you were upset because she wasn't helping, and that may have set her off.  If you want to save your relationship talk to her like an adult to an adult and try to figure out how to resolve your problems in a positive way.  Try to avoid accusatory and patronizing statements.  You two are probably just having trouble adjusting to living together.  Good Luck
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She is testing to see how much she can control your friend. Same thing happened with my brother. Have you tried talking to your friend about this, or is he totally oblivious to her death grip? Have your friend defy her demands, if she dumps him then she wasn't with him for the right reasons, if she doesn't dump him then life goes on.
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A job and a boyfriend?  Seriously, you sound like her little brother, and none too pleased about it.  Unless you can convince the parental units that having Sis remain there is a danger to your development, you may be stuck.  You could try talking to her to see why she's there.  Maybe she wants to leave but can't figure out how.  The worst she can do is blow you off.  There's always a chance she may ask for help or advice.  Stranger things have happened.
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You arent being a monster. You have right to say that. It sick that she  wants sleep with her brother.
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...its normal to be concerned... but you should talk to her about it. don't say anything negative, but don't talk about it too much. you should plan times that you can hang out. Maybe you just need more time with her. :)
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ask her out, and when you get back to her p;ace sit down with the brother and tell him what is going on
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Sounds like she is someone elses girlfriend
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Your girlfriend is dead wrong.  You were right to protect your little brother.  That's your job.  From your brother's reaction your instincts were right on the mark as well.\n\nYour girlfriend doesn't want to see the mean spirit behind your "friends" taunting of your brother.  The fact that they didn't respect your wishes further demonstrates their mean nature.\n\nFrankly, you need a better class of friends.\n\nGood job on standing up for your brother.
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l think it might have something to do with your job, for instance, do you do ANYTHING that puts your life in jepardy? You should talk to her about it. It'll make her feel more secure to know you care.
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If I were you I'd talk to your girlfriend about it see what she thinks.  She could get her brother to back off.  If not u may get the hell out of there.