i just started going back out with my ex, now what?
606839
The next time you see him, give him a hug and kiss him. He obviously wants that to happen because he asked you back out. I also think that you two should have a talk about what each of you is feeling and what feels appropriate to do/say.
388288
Whatever the reason for your ex being your ex. Put yourself in their shoes and think about the situation and what you would do. Be true about the considerations...it only help u know wether it's worth trying to get back together.
410024
why is he your ex. think about why you broke up in the first place evidently it was bad enough for you to part. once a zebra always a zebra. it is better to go forward than backwards
24542
I'm going through a similar situation. I left. Don't do that. You both need to decide if it's worth trying to get the closeness back. Be open about the things that you enjoy doing together and things you don't. Try and figure out how you two grew apart. And do it together. No matter how hard it is. If it's worth it, take the time to make it work. It wont happen on it's own.
943358
You mentioned that you were confused with your life. Perhaps you should try getting a better foothold with your own life before you do anything else. Getting back with her while you remain in a state of confusion isn't going to help the both of you. And if you really want to be with your ex girlfriend, I'd suggest you come clean about your feelings to her and your present girlfriend. A girl wouldn't want to patch if you're already seeing someone else. Don't give your ex the wrong impression that you are a 'two-timer'.
778544
The pressures of a relationship are gone. Also, some women and men like what they can't have. So, enjoy your friendship. If you want to get back together with her, then you should take it slow. I am trying to get back with my ex girlfriend but I have to have patience and wait. Good things come to those that wait. If you just want her as a good friend, that's already done. Just have fun with her.
129813
how long have u been broke up?  is there any chance at all that u may make up and get back together soon?  cause if there is then you shouldn't go make that mistake and injure the chances of that.  it makes things way more complicated.  But if not then u should definetly do it b/c if u r feeling down do something to make u feel special and worthwhile for a lil bit.
44991
Don't call him, don't answer his phone calls.  If you broke up with him, don't pay any attention to him going out with other ladies.  You will just get jealous and want him back for the wrong reasons.  If he broke up with you, that sux.  Don't let him play any mind games with you.  If he wants to get back together, tell him you have moved on and that he can't mess with you anymore.  Then move on and be done with it.  Don't watch any movies or listen to any songs that you shared.  That only makes it worse.  And don't hook up with him out of desparation or because ya'll don't have anything better to do.  Your life will be miserable for it, I promise.
471969
What?  I have no freaking idea what your question is anymore.  I am not even certain of who broke up with whom. I am not sure if you got back together again or what.
3408
The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
838388
START DATING AGAIN !!!
967454
It depends on how long you were going out with the person.  If a long term, I would say no, even if there are no feelings any longer it's still just confusing.  You liked that person once and it could happen again.  That's what usually happens after u break up with someon you forget why u did it.  Then you want to get back together again.  For most cases I would say it's a bad idea to be friends with ur ex.  Too many feelings there!!
994690
1st it depends on how long you were with her, you need to give yourself time adjust after this. Because its just a process you have to go through 2 feel good about yourself again. It will take as long as it needs 2. you will know yourself when you r ready to get the ball rolling again! There is no point on going out on the rebound as you will still have feelings for her. You will just end up getting hurt or hurting someone else its not a good idea to rush, it took me along time b4 i let anyone else in my life after my break up! She messed my head up so much it. i don't know your situation but all i can say and i think a lot of guys would say the same take it easy nice and slow you have all the time in the world. \n\nbut if you want to go out and meet someone do the same as you would have b4. Have a good time talk to them n ask them out there is only two answers you will get!!!!!!!!!
132566
i think its okay if you're okay with it. do you want to go back to your ex?  if so, talk to him about it first. commmunication is key.
141921
Have you gone out with many girls since your separation?  If not, then you are probably moving too fast, thinking too far in advance.  Slow it down.  Stay with the girl you like, but BE SURE TO GIVE HER TIME TO HERSELF.  That means a day or 2 apart at a time (phone is OK).  Otherwise you will feel "clingy" to her and all women hate needy/clingy guys, which could cause her to dump you.  \n\nYou have to control your emotions yourself.  That sounds funny, but it's true.  You have to think about how you feel, how your life is, factor in the good and bad possibilities of what could happen based on your actions, then choose what you feel are the best actions.  Control your emotions or you will lose her.\n\nI've been separated from my ex for 16 months, officially divorced for 6.  I've felt what you're feeling.  I've been back in the dating scene.  Take it slow.
1027491
Take some time for you. Your ex is your ex for a reason! If the new guys really wants to help than he'll understand that you need to be your own person for awhile. That wall is up because Mr. Right hasn't found a way in.
964660
What I would do,  -and what I think you should do-, is take it very slow with the new girl involved. Honestly, it probably wasn't the best idea for you to get involved with her, but I wouldn't say to completely break it off now - that isn't realistic, and it would just hurt her because she would get your feelings twisted. \nYou have baggage. You can't make genuine transitions from person to person while carrying baggage; it'll hinder you. You'll always carry what was left from the old relationship into the new one, so forth, and so forth, and it isn't fair to the present person involved that your own issues are unsolved. It isn't a problem that you still think of your ex; it's actually very normal. You've completed an important step by acknowledging that your last relationship couldn't work, so now just prove to yourself why you deserve to move on. \nEver heard the song 'Bag Lady' by Erykah Badu?......that one goes out to you, lol.... Good Luck and God Bless.