i gave money to a lady for a car asked for it back she said she spent it, what do i do?
606584
You should have sayed you LOANED her money. When you GIVE you don't get anything back! Sorry.\n\n2 weeks is probably a little late. You could try going to court and make her fix the tranny if you have that in writing, but a sale is a sale, sorry!
586679
Go to where your car is impounded and bail it out. Wherever your car was, the tow company thought they had a righteous tow and picked it up. \n\nOther than that, if you think you have a beef with the person who had your car towed, I would suggest consulting a lawyer about sueing the person for the money in small claims court. \n\nI know it sucks and a man needs his wheels. Get the car and document how much you paid, including any cab fare or other expenses. Best of luck.
927305
its alwas asking to borrow money from me.
283205
"Trying to pull a fast one"? Honey, don't look now, but shes already pulled it. What's worse, by not confronting her you appear complacent, even willing, to let it ride. If you want the money back, tell her so, After all, IT IS YOUR MONEY!
805884
She's just trying to scare and intimidate you.  It's her word against yours...except you've got physical proof that she did in fact commit forgery.  That's a BIG offence.\n\nYou should contact a lawyer immediately and start working on suing her if you want your money back.    \n\nYou can't go to jail for lying...we'd all be in jail.  \n\nI'll tell you for sure, if you guys end up in court and she uses that excuse the judge will ask her: "why did so-so give you $150, what did you buy with all that money, why did you take the Ipod?"  You can say, I never gave her nor allowed her any access to my money.  \n\nThe worst that can happen is that you guys go to court and there's just too much back and forth that the judge will dismiss the case.  If you plan it out properly with a lawyer you could get your money back and she could probably pay for your lawyer fees too.\n\nGood Luck.\n\nDon't get intimidated!
1164574
how would you wanted to be if it was your car tell her and offer to fix it and buy your own car
2762
Whatever you do, don't let it get reposessed. Try to sell it for whatever is left to be paid  on the car finance agreement or check with the dealer if you find someone to take over payments.
432021
Well go with what she likes what she likes there is bound to be party supplies for what she likes. She wants a car start a savings account ( If she doesn't already have one) and tell her to save money in it to save up for a car alot of people do it.
486678
SINCE THIS WAS 1ST PARTY COLLECTIONS THERE IS PRETTY MUCH NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT.  THE FDCPA ONLY COVERS 3RD PARTY COLLECTIONS, AND THIS WOULD BE 1ST PARTY.\n\nTHERE ARE REALLY NO LAWS COVERING 1ST PARTY COLLECTIONS, SO, YOU ARE OUT OF LUCK.\n\nWHY WOULD THEY HAVE ASKED FOR THE TITLE TO THE CAR, THEY SHOULD ALREADY HAVE IT IF THEY WERE THE LIEN HOLDER ON THE CAR.  WAS IT A SIGNATURE LOAN OR DID YOU USE THE CAR AS COLLATERAL ON THE LOAN.  YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE HAD THE TITLE.  YOU DO REALIZE THAT EVEN THOUGH YOU GAVE THE CAR BACK IT IS STILL GOING TO SHOW AS A "VOLUNTARY REPOSSESSION" ON YOUR CREDIT.\n\nGOD LUCK!
1061602
Did you specify how you wanted it spent?  Was spent to do His service?  I wouldn't ask for it back, But next time I would be very specific or give the money directly to the place you want it to go
1069486
I'd try to return the car to the dealer\n\nand see with credit services if it hurts my credit
353187
You poor thing this must be really hurtng.  If I were you the next time a problem presents itself I would not offer to help no matter how hard it is don't bail her out and make a point of saying "Oh I'm sorry but I really cant help you out at the moment I'm a little strapped myself this month" and see how she reacts to you.  If she gracefully tells you not to worry that it isn't your problem and she dosen't treat you any differently after your refusal then you'll know it isn't the money she's after but if she becomes cold and distant when you don't hand out to her then I'd seriously consider getting out of there while you still have both some pride and a bank balance.  Good Luck.
865260
Yes.  Give her a simple reminder that there is some money still owed for the dress.  She may have just forgotten.  Give her a chance to pay you back.
354105
Yes ,refund and I paid my car off with it.
100883
I would give it back!  I once noticed a lady who had just gotten a quick loan and dropped an hundred dollar bill on the ground.  I picked it up and gave it back to her. She was so thankful.
915959
I'm with fr_chuck, you can save the money (do not pay), and let it hurt your credit a bit. Otherwise you pay the price for a good credit rating and she keeps the car as a bonus. I am so sorry there are such users, liars and cheats in the world.
1013417
This is easy! Take the car back and tell them you expect a full refund. If the bank is changing the terms of the contract it is void. Meaning you never bought the car and all your money should refunded without question. Find a better dealership to deal with on your next vehicle. \n\nIn most cases if the dealership wants you to come back to do some bargining that means they had an error in their math and they short changed themselves. They want their money. This happen to my brother in law on and Audi TT. They screwed the numbers up and shorted themselves about $4000. He saw the error signed the papers and drove off. only to get a call 3 hours telling him he owed $4,000. He said sue me and hung up. They called him everyday politely asking if he would do the right thing and pay them the money and he refused. He told them all the years of getting screwed over by car dealers, it was nice to share in their joy of screwing people. I don't blame him.