Are we "talking" or talking?
594164
Sounds like he likes you.  He may be thinking of you when he says he doesn't want to start a relationship before returning to Iraq, in that such a relationship can be very difficult with the distance, not to mention the looming specter of death.  I say appreciate it for what it is, enjoy the time you do spend with him or talking with him, and let it be for now.  If he returns, you will be able to see pretty quickly about striking up something more serious if you both want that.  Or maybe you'll fall for someone while he's gone.  Don't try to plan too much, just let it happen.
630415
What the hell are you trying to say?
294696
How's it going? What's happening? How are you? It's usually a conversation starter...
579589
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TALKIN ABOUT
266221
What the heck are you trying to say.
616474
What Are you talking about?
501360
are you asking or stating an opinion?
866918
Is this the one your talking about?
444107
What in the hell r u talking about?
116809
wad r u talking abt? i don understand
520155
Have we heard you speak? kind of hard to answer
595031
what the hell are you talking about?
989938
are you speaking english?
315671
They are both correct. The first is just more emphatic (use of the auxiliary verb 'have'). They have slightly different meanings, that's all. If I was going to argue with someone then I might want to 'have' a talk with them, but if it was just a time-wasting conversation then I might just 'talk' with them.
191861
They are both correct.\n\n"I want to talk with you" implies that the conversation you will have will be a little more two-way, equal, mutual.\n\n"I want to talk to you" implies that you have some information you want to communicate, in a mostly one-way direction.
1186531
1. Are you talking to me?\n\n2. Well I don't see anyone else here so I guess you must be talking to me ?\n\n(with apologies if I haven't got the quote exactly right)
1005515
what r u trying to say