Am I Bi, Bi-Curious, lesbian, or straight?
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You may simply be curious, period.  \n\nWe life in society that promotes sexual activity.  \n\nIt's a good idea to delay things especially at 15.  What looks fascinating at 15 may look different at 20.
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If you are attracted to the same gender as yourself, you are a homosexual.  If you are attracted to the opposite, you are heterosexual.  If you are attracted to both, you are bisexual.  And if you are attracted to neither, you are asexual.
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What you are - you are you - a unique individual - with feelings different from anyone else and experiences only you have had. \nYou need to do some thinking/soulsearching - You don't need to have sex with a guy to work out if you are bi/lesbian! Do 'straight' people have gay affairs to realise they are straight? No! \nFirstly - Are you attracted to men? Have you thought, imagined longed to be held by a man, for him to make love to you? How do feel about penises? Testicles, firm muscles and chest hair? Think about these and note your reactions inside, what you truly feel. \nRepulsed, intriguged, wanting etc. You say you have a girlfriend -  but don't rush to label yourself - I've seen people announce they are lesbians then later regret it a few years/months down the line because they are attracted to both sexes. \nI'm a lesbian I've never slept with a guy because a)it repulsed me the whole penis thing and b) I've never, ever been attracted to a man. I always preferred womens company, friendship and I was attracted to women before I knew what lesbian or gay even meant.\nIs it your friends that have more issues with this? I know we are in the 21st century but sadly some friends can never accept slight degrees of difference, you need to be one thing or the other - you don't - you have to be what you want to be. \nI advise doing an internet search on the Lesbian and Gay Switchboard finding the one local to you (they are everywhere Brighton, Lancaster, Birmingham, London, Isle of Mann etc) - emailing or telephoning them - perhaps getting some support from qualified staff and support group information. You stay strong and don't rush into anything - the most important question - What do you want? Who do you want to be?
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Definitely.  As a straight male, I will cop to the stereotype that I find lesbians erotic and exciting while I find gay men rather gross. (sorry!)
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Are you a lesbian or bi?  If so then probably not.\n\nIf not, the question is why are you asking here?\n\nHmmmmmm
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well i know im bi-curious not sure if its the same, but i know cuz i want to be with a guy, but i get very attracted to women sometimes, i think its more of a casual thing, but i know its normal for a women to be attracted to the same sex or at least curious, women know what women like! and women are usually better looking they were built to be admired and looked at. when a beautiful woman walks by, everyone looks not just men, even straight women! for your friend, me and my best friend were both curious and got together a few times and it was great felt as if it made our bond closer, but if its only one sided you can tell and should drop it and maybe look else where for your feelings, you dont want to scare her especially when shes a close friend. im sure if you are close enough she might be able to sit and listen to your concerns and maybe even help!
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It's cool that you're open minded, but you really have to find what you're compfortable with and not just do things for the hell of it. Being Bi or gay is not just something you just choose to do. It is a part of who you are. As far as what girls like, that is really something that varies from person to person. You would need to find out from your partner.
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either your gay.....or bi......\n♥
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girl no youre not bi at all i find a lot of my girlfriends sexy and even though ive never been with another woman i was curious so that doesnt make you bi. plus i love men
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ok you must be interested in becoming bisexual
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No!!\nI think you're bisexual and that's why you're asking this stupid question.
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It's natural to be gay/bi, but that's not an answer I can give you.  A clue, though, is if you really desire making love with the same sex.  Sexual desires are one thing, but true homosexuality is a love thing.  If you love females in that way, you may be gay.  You may be predominantly gay with a slight turn toward the heterosexual (hence, your sexual but not loving attraction to boys).  In the end, however, it is your decision.  I can only offer advice.
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I am too, but I have never done anything with another girl, so I don't know if you would just consider me bi curious.
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I think all women are a lil bi-curious i could be wrong... I am bi-curious but don't have the guts to go all the way... The only porn that turns me on is lesbian porn... Ask her about it.
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Sometimes otherwise " straight" guys look at other men. Its normal, and natural. Sometimes it is sexual, sometimes you're just checking out the biological compitition, sometimes you're just looking to be curious. Sometimes you get inspired to work out more if you see a buff body at the gym.\nRemember, "gay", "straight" and "Bi" are labels people use to judge you.\nSo you like women. So you're curious about men. No big deal. Do what feels right for you - and don't let others decide what works for you sexually. There is nothing wrong with experiementing. How will you know if you like or don't like something without ever trying it? LOTS of other men "try" things, whether they admit it or not.
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the question is... are you gay? becoz if you are, you're up to it. and if you're not, then you're straight. it's either you go that way or this way
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If you are only sexually aroused by thinking about or looking at women, you are straight\n\nIf you are only sexually aroused by thinking about or looking at men, you are gay\n\nIf you are aroused by both you are bi.\n\nIn any case, you are you -- be happy with that and believe in yourself -- always.\n\nDwell in love.\n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org