Can you love somemone but not be 'in' love with them?
607709
yes you can love someone but not be in love with them like i am in love with my girlfriend right now but i also love my best frend that i have known since kindegarden
723076
No one can control their feelings. If you love someone it kinda comes naturally. When you and that person stop talking it takes a while to really get over that person especially if you were really in love. Even  though some might say that they don't love someone  any more 9 times out of 10 it is not true. We have to let nature take its course.
210996
loving a person is accepting them for who they are, being in love with them is a type of worship that is hard to maintain...just my opion but i like to beleive that was the easiest way to explain it...
781007
You can still be in love with someone but that doesn't mean you should have a relationship with them.  Sometimes loving someone means you let him go because you two just don't get along no matter what.
587512
No. If you dont know them then you cant be in love with "them".
945960
no he cant cause when u love some one u cant love a second person,i cant call it love,its just a desire.........maybe its just about sex for the second person
552908
absolutely not.\nyou can love anyone, so what? don't be a self-made martyr
296734
You can love two people at the same time loving each for different reasons but you can not be inlove with two people.
35475
Unfortunately (considering the circumstances) yes.  you never love the same way twice.  So you can love one person very much, and another person just as much, but love them differently and for different reasons.
859125
that's the really cool kind of love your talking about there, i have that with my wife. If you can explain why you love someone its not really love. \nThe kind your talking about  is always there you cant explain it, it don't matter if you argue or fall out, its still always there, its a wicked feeling, and it don't happen that often, if you have it then good for you, you stay in your bubble my friend.
818297
You can't be with one. If you try that, you'll still have feelings for the other one, right? That wouldn't be good.
696777
Sure you can, just make sure the person/people you are with understand that you do not love them, otherwise you may break someone's heart.\nI've had some very wonderful and fulfilling relationships that did not involve love.
624161
the same way you love someone very close. it cant be love if you can't ove them from a distance.
1080059
you can not make someone love you . i think that hurt s alot .  you think you love an ought for both of you.
38080
I don't think everyone is capable of really loving someone, totally selfless, when the other person's happiness is the most important thing, and not yours.\n\nSo, unfortunetly, i would say no...
28148
Love's not something you have control over. You can't make yourself fall in love, it just happens.
283691
Yes, If that person feels as strongly about you as you do them. When you are in love it is hard to think about anything else.