To all the HUSBANDS out there...?
598440
Things I have done in the past include - \nThe two of us getting away to a bed and breakfast up in the mountains. No TV, no radio, just the two of us together in a beautiful room with a giant bathtub for romantic bubble baths, a fire place and during the day we can take long hikes together and have a picnic out in the forest.\nAnother time I gave her a spa day at home!\nShe woke up to breakfast in bed made by me, afterwards I got her in the bathtub where I washed her hair, shaved her legs and then dried her. Later we go to a romantic dinner then come home and make love by candle light and soft music.\nWe usually do this for her birthday every year. She keeps requesting it!\nGood question
556068
Holy crap you sound EXACTLY like me. Keep doing what you're doing. Sorry to all the wives out there, but you have no obligation to anyone except yourself. He's the married one, so he has to take responsibility for his actions if she finds out. Enjoy yourself. Life's short.
712857
make it unique!! specially designed for her!!! My hubby prepared a video.... showing him n me in a few romantic moments & then proposed me in the video itself. He invited me home & told me that we'll be watching a movie but instead he showed that video clip after dinner. as soon as he proposes me in the video he paused it & took out the ring. I loved it!!! & I said yes.
641761
Yes actually. I keep trying to get my husband to go and work out of town and just come home on the weekends or every other weekend. We fight too much and maybe if we didnt have to see each other everyday we might look forward to spending time together!
185617
I have been an Army wife for 4 years and and been with my hubby for 6 years. Yes I Love him more, its more like a deeper love. It takes alot of understanding, but its worth every deployment, and every fight over the little things. He is the bravest, most loveing man I know. I thank God every day for bringing him into my life. GOD BLESS OUR TROOPS!!!!!!!!!!
147616
BEING LOST.....or......BEING A HUSBAND!
788623
Yeah I bet it is very trying, but being a married stay at home mom isn't much better 90% of the time!! Husbands slowly become another child to contend with after awhile.\n And I know its been asked several times already, but How the heck are you a *single* stay at home mom??? And about to buy a car at that!?... please, let me in on the secret because I need a car as well!!
1005335
Okay, I know Im a gal, but I must say this.....I LOVE the fact that my husband speaks his mind. We have had arguments of opinion, but I would HATE him if he just agreed with me to please me. I want a MAN not a wimp. I fell in love with my man for being who he is, not want he thinks I want. We have a very strong relationship because even when we disagree at least we are comfortable enough to be who we are without fear. Love that about us!
1011588
I am so proud of you gal!! And even more glad that you decided to post your experience here for other woman to see that its doable..  a lot of woman just think its impossible, its hard but not impossible!! I am happy for you and your kids, you do not need a man like that in your life! I bet you will find better just give it some time as for him thinking that you will not make it on your own prove him wrong!!\nWish you and your kids all the best!
203009
I am married.  I love him and still lust him, with all my heart.  He turns me on both mentally and physically and he makes me feel like I am special in his life too by doing things for me all the time.  He's kind, gentle, honest and hard working.  He makes me laugh, he loves me unconditionally ... my heart still skips a beat when I think of him :) ... just talking about him here, makes me smile and realize how lucky I am to have my soul mate with me!!
115841
you already chose!! Keep hubby
1119690
My husband and I have two children. It's hard. What we do is several things....sit outside together, have dinner in a public place, walk around the block together, sit with each other on the couch, switch kids with a friend so we don't pay for a babysitter, and we just lay in bed together. We don't have to say anything alot has to do with body langauage and facial expressions. How does your husband treat you? Does he do little things like doing the dishes, make dinner, or open the door for you? The littlest things count not just communication.
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It makes me feel so very special, loved, and most of all, appreciated, when my husband helps me with dinner AND the dishes, and spends time talking to me about my job. He tells me how proud he is of me, and how lucky he feels to have me as his wife. He makes sure to acknowledge how hard I work, both inside and outside of the home.\n....And of course, I do the same for him!
878307
i definitely am not one of those people!!!!  i would never want my husband to be with anyone else!!!!  i am the only person he has ever been with and i don't want that to change ever.....he is one of those guys that wouldn't anyway....he never pressures me into doing anything i don't want to do and i would never do that to him.....i have one of the few good men left in the world!!!!
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Does it end? Cuz we've been together over 3 years, just got married less then 3 weeks ago and it still feels brandy new to me.\n\nAs far as your husband talking like that to you, clean your dishes, make your own meals and when he leaves his stuff around put it into a box and leave it on his side of the bed with a note saying, since I don't have time to clean up after your mess working full time and going to night classes, you figure out what to do with this junk. I actually can't stand when guys do stuff like that.
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I wish my hubby had a higher libido...after having five kids and being married for several years our love life has gotten boring and his sex drive has gone down. We are always paying attention to the kids and dealing with other things to even begin thinking about intimacy. \n\nI would love it if I actually had to worry about tuning myself up to meet his needs! It would make me feel more desirable...
648549
That is very strange...my husband and I are going through the same thing right now.  We've been married for 11 years  It has been frustrating.  Lack of passion has been the worst I think.  We are however determined to get through this funk.  He is reading a book called "For Men Only" and I am reading the companion book called "For Women Only" it's by the authour Feldman, Shaunti. Another good one is "His Needs, Her Needs" I can't think of the author off the top of my head but it's a good read too.  I hope that helps and I hope that you two will become more passionate and in love because of it.  Best wishes...   :)