Should i go out with my ex after he lied to me and Cheated on me?
602655
Most likely not.  Men who cheat tend to keep on cheating.  The real question is did he confess it or did you find out?  If he confessed he's at least show he regrets it, and is trying to be more honest.  If you found out he'll just be more careful in the future.
427321
Well I think you did the right think by breaking up with him. That takes a lot of courage. But now you need to stay strong and stick to that. He cheated on you and yea, he probably says he changed and won't do it ever again, but the truth is, you won't really be able to trust him again. You will always wonder in the back of your mind if he is cheating or if he will cheat again.\nIn the long run, you will just end up miserable. So yea, he wants you back, but too bad. His loss and he should have thought about that before cheating on you. \nDon't give in...Be strong.
119912
If you doubt he loves you now than it is probably true. Also I would not want to be with someone who cheated on me. He will do it again if given the chance
478205
Good decision. But if it was the first time that he's cheated on you, maybe give him another chance. If not, then you don't need someone like that.
491967
Sorry angel,  You will never know if he will do it again, how did you find out the 1st time? I mean did he tell you or did you find out? was it 1 time or 100 times? If he cheated then he would lie about how many times he cheated. You are the only person that can determine if you can trust him again or not. You have to decide weather the relationship is worth the worrying or not worth it and find someone to be with that you can trust.  good luck  god bless
354095
If you chose to go out with him that is your choice. However know that you might get hurt. Go into it knowing what your expectations are and let him know and do not expect more out of him then you think you can handle.\nI think it would be much easier to be with someone you can trust though that is just my opinion
1127003
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!
1017012
I would not trust this guy. Even if he never physically cheated on you with this other female while you were going out, he obviously had feelings for her. He would not have been with her two days later if he had not been harboring feelings for her for a while. You may hope that he will eventually grow up, but how patient and how many break-ups and reconciliations are you willing to put up with. I feel you will be better off keeping on a friendship level for a year. Date other people and have him date other people. You may just find your ideal mate instead of wasting your time. Or in a years time, maybe he will have his priorities focused on you.
116127
well if you are going to take him back then you have to get over it. otherwise let him go. i cheated with a guy and we got back toghether and he treated me bad because of it instead of like loveing me and us chillin because i was faithful to him for a while and well guess what i did it again and we are now broke up. but you are not wronge to give him another chance. people do change and though it is not an excuse yall were both going through some pretty bad stuff so i mean he could really be sorry. but if he does it again which he may not then leave him unless you want to give him another chance (there is no such thing as to many chances but when you get tired of soemthing you area tired of it) so i hope if he does keep cheating you will leave cause youdeserve better but its really up to you but this could work out for yall and i hope it does. good luck and God bless.
1107373
if he lies to you about everything, it s obviously no trust there. I know it s cut and dry to say this but if there s no trust, the relationship wont work anyway. It s up to you to give him another chance or not. I think you should talk to him straight forward. If you want to give him a chance, go ahead. After all that, if he s still a liar, break up w/ him. Keep in mind, at least you tried your best, if it didnt work out, too bad, you move on.
448680
OK forget getting with someone else- the issue WILL resurface if you don't deal with it. First of all cut off all contact (for a while at least). It doesn't help to keep calling each other. If you have to see each other (like at school or work) then make a concerted effort to change the way you communicate with them. Second, yeah forgiveness- you have to go over all the bad stuff that happened but once you forgive them the burden is lifted and you're free-er. You will stop hurting a whole lot after you manage to let go and forgive, trust me. Next figure out what happened and make a decision that you will never be in that type of relationship again- if the person cheated you will feel like you have no control over that kind of situation and it could be true to an extent but it's important to realise that cheating is about them not knowing their worth or having self respect and know that as long as you do have self respect and know your worth you will never be hurt in quite the same way by a cheater (or anyone else). Get busy. Get a life that doesn't involve your ex or things you used to do together. Have fun, spend time with your friends again and find out what's important to you- minus your ex. Above all else- be totally healed before you consider getting with someone else and if you do meet someone and you're not ready then just let them know and if they like you enough they'll wait til your feeling better about the whole dating thing, if not forget them.
219384
First off, you didn't cheat.  You were broken up and living your life and moving forward.  Personally I think it was a bad choice for you to get back with your old boyfriend.  He guilted you into it, and the truth is that nothing has changed.  You deserve to be happy and I don't think you will ever be happy with him.  End this relationship and realize that if he wants to lay in your yard and cry that is his choice and your not responsible for him.  You should never feel bad for doing what is best for you.
884575
he has a guilty conscience, dump him, forget him and move on to someone more deserving of you. Once a cheater always a cheater
859871
Well for one you cheated not him, does it even matter if he's cheating anymore, you already ruined the relationship, move on.
259682
Dump him. I've been cheated on before. I'll never put up with it again.
869248
The question is, where does your heart lie. with your ex or with a new guy. you should follow the path which you trust more, who respects you more, and knows who can treat you best.
159927
Sure, if you like being used, lied to, and then dumped as soon as the next opportunity comes along. Honestly, why would you want to go out with a "playa"? Show him you're better than him and turn him down. He'll be shocked!