Since the soul and inner person is where the personality is....why dont ladies like fat men?
609730
its not that we dont   its that we dont notice them first. Most women that u will talk to say that they give everyone a chance, which sadly isnt the truth. But before u call us meen, lots of men prefer skinny women. And some women really like bigger men
392182
In reality it depends on the person. I think as we get older we appreciate more of the inner qualities of the opposite sex. When we settle down, we want someone we can sit down and talk to.  A beautiful girl is meaningless to us if she has nothing to say or has no goals in life.  I think guys choose a combination of both personality and beauty (beauty in the sense that the girl takes care of herself and has good hygene), but personality dominates of the two.  For me its the heart of the girl that matters and I don't want or expect any favours from anyone, if a girl does things from the heart, then thats what counts the most.
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superficial questions, one more time, most real serious relationships start with inner deep down soul mate issues, people who only look at the outer vessel of a human love interest will only be happy with partners while they are attracted to their body, soul mates are forever! bodies lose their looks eventually, but in my minds eye beauty lasts forever when both parties are on the same wave length! true love rocks:)
50904
This is a tough one to answer. In my case yes looks do matter to an extent. There needs to be some physical attraction in the beginning not that its the most important just a percentage. Body type really depends on the guy. I have dated several women with all different kinds of body types. A good personality is a must, its a real downer when your partner is always in the dumps or is angry all the time. I myself enjoy a good conversation so intelligence is a must (not a rocket scientist just bright). Tallents are always a plus, its nice to have a tallented girlfriend but not a necessity. All in all what I'm looking for in a woman is one that loves me as much as I love her. Someone that will be there when I need someone to talk to or be comforted. Basicly a best friend, I think that if your partner is your best friend your practically invincible.
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I find there is somewhat a pattern to body types of women and their character...some for obvious reasons and others for personal choice, I mean you won't generally find double DD's running in a marathon, but small and certainly flat chested are...so I'd say women tend to pick and choose what they are best suited for and there will always be men that will be involved in that lifestyle and attracted to those who share such same interests...I can't personally contest to this, but perhaps it makes for a better relationship to be attracted to a persons character more than their attributes, (breast).
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603997
Hey, men and women both are attracted to physically good looks but personality works both ways, too, being a powerful attractor.\n\nSome men and women might even be judged as average looking by the world but never be alone because they make others feel great to be around them.\n\nI've heard women talk about this, and I've found myself attracted to girls who, at first glance, wouldn't normally be my type.\n\nBe smart, funny, kind, considerate,  a good listener, and fun, and see what happens.
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I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
58373
if youre really really fat lose weight, men dont mind women being a little overweight but very few except weirdo chubby chasers desire obese women sorry  but its true.
965855
Its just the sexy appeal. Not ALL women like it... I don't really care, I mean its nice to see a guy take care of himself and have a flat stomach maybe with some muscle there but when its too cut, thats just overboard.   Why do guys like women with large breasts and flat stomaches and long legs?  All the same thing...
55979
Personality has a lot to do with it. A larger person with a great personality is better off than a small peson who sucks.
37146
A wise man one asked me, 'what is the perfect woman's body shape?' I didn't know of course, so he replied, 'the shape of the woman whom he loves'.\n\nPeople can be easily influenced by what their friends think, men as well as women. It seems to me that men want their friends to think highly of them, perhaps even jealous of them. One of the ways of doing this is to have a 'desirable' girlfriend. Unfortunately, (especially in the US it seems) men are very fixated on having a 'hot' woman, I suppose to make themselves to be seen as successful, or more desirable-\n\nIt's a pity that people can be so shallow, life is not about looks it's about having fun!\n\nSo, it sounds like this guy probably did like you, but then was influenced by others, and instead of being strong about it he succumbed to his own feelings of inadequacy.
644085
the first thing is body, natural male habit.  But after that it's the personality.  No matter how good looking the girl, nobody likes a lousy human being
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Everyone has there different levels of attraction to others. The only reason why anyone would think it is unnatural to like someone bigger than a stick is because society makes it an issue. If you like a girl with a lil meat then hey why does it matter what anyone else thinks. You know thicker women used to be reveered and of importance to men because it showed that she was healthy( i am not talking about the morbidly obese) Skinny women used to be thought of differently than they are today. All in All the way a person looks on the outside isn't really important. The most beautiful slender girl in the world can become the ugliest if she is a b***h with a horrible attitude and is ethically and morally challenged. I've dated  a couple of guys that weren't considered hot because they were good people and treated me well. I did marry a hotty though but not for his looks, for his heart. He is the greatest person I have ever known with the biggest heart and best attitude. Awesome sense of humor too. If hew didnn't have all that I wouldn't have married him. I mean think about it, if a person only has their looks to go by what do you fall back on when it's gone?
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Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
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it's not all about the looks, it's about personality and heart, the person inside, even fat girls are pretty and attractive, make sure you always look the best you can and add a little lip gloss and smile and be happy.  heh you born ugly you stay ugly, but if you fat, well you can loose it. i use to be model, now i am fat, 30kg overweight, and believe me when i say i have seen some hunky guys with some girls that are fat, and some even not so pretty, so just because you fat, has nothing to do with finding a man. it maybe not your time yet that all
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I prefer a man that has a "thick", I dont like muscular, but I like a bit of extra fat on my guy. Thin, makes me think he is weak... but that is just my opinion on it....