Do you think it is right to go with the ex-boyfriend's friend?
611852
if your ex's friend is willing to go out with you then he isn't much of a friend. there is an unwritten rule that you don't date your friends ex's. that goes for both men and women. it can create problems down the line and hassles that are just not worth it. now having said that you cant help who fall in love with. so if you both feel the same way and are ready for the possible consequences then go ahead and see where it might lead. he could be your soul mate. good luck to you witch ever way you choose.
914428
She's the ex,no matter what she says or wants he's with you now and that says it all,if you trust him this shouldn't be a problem. Don't let this break you up, you have made the effort to be friends with her too by asking to meet her so if I were you I would just let it drop. Good luck x
769610
you should go with him and if your friend gets mad at you then she is not a real friend.just because she does not like him does not mean she has to start being friends with him.but if you do go with him and yall are still friends just do things with him when she is not around.
529969
ask urself the following questions..?\n\n1. Do u still have the soft corner for ur ex...\n\n2. Do u have any problem if ur friend datesur ex with her permission.. ?\n\n3. Do u think that girl will be right for ur friend..?\n\n4. Why are u giving your friend a feeling of guilt when he dates a girl who is ur EX..\n\n5. Who are u to poke ur nose in ur friends affairs.& poison their relationship\n\nask urself these questions and u will get the answers...
561546
NO, don't be friends with the ex. ESPECIALLY if he's being an a*ss
800922
This should definetely be his decision....only he knows who he has stronger feelings for...but you didn't necessarily state why they broke up....if it was because she did something to him, you might want to convince him and let him know that you would never do that (and keep your word about it), but other than that, I think you're just gonna have to lie and wait...just be his friend in the mean time, don't pressure him to choose a you or his ex right now
190121
There's no hard-and-fast rule.  The consensus seems to be that it's not a good idea because of the harm it may cause your ex and the awkwardness it may create in the new relationship.  However, if your ex is out of the picture, and it's unlikely you'll see him again, and his status as your ex doesn't pollute the current relationship, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't explore it.  If it's inevitable that he'll find out, and you've been with him for a long time, you should wait a while before pursuing his friend, and you also should consider letting him know your intentions.
802492
Your best friend has NO BUSINESS going out with your ex-boyfriend in the first place! If she really was your best friend, then she should step out of the picture, so that you would have a chance to maybe work things out with him. Once she goes out with him, it will never be the same.
283460
I don't get why people feel betrayed when a friend goes out with an ex. You broke up, so it's not cheating, so get over it.
652508
IF IT'S OKAY WITH HER.....AND MAYBE IF SHE ISN'T ATTACHED TO SOMEONE.  THEN YEAH, IT'S OKAY TO PLAY WITH YOUR EX.
852768
I think you might not want to because they might be the same and he just wants so booty..so i would check him out first....and i don't think you should worry about your ex because you caught him with another girl when you guys were still together!
565834
Personally, when I found myself in this very predicament, I made a conscious decision to approach the situation from an honest, adult perspective and expressed my concerns to both my friend and my boyfriend. \n\nBecause I trust my boyfriend, I explained how uncomfortable my friend's behaviour toward him made me, and asked that he help me by not reacting positively to her flirting. He was happy to do so, because he found her behaviour just as inappropriate as I had.\n\nI explained to my friend, privately, that, although I value her friendship, her flirting behaviour toward my boyfriend made me uncomfortable and was jeopardising the future of our friendship. I asked her to tone herself down and respect my feelings. When I discovered that she could not oblige me that, then I did, and still do, my utmost ensure that my boyfriend and my friend spend the least amount of time together as possible. It doesn't mean I don't see either of them less frequently, I just don't see them at the same time anymore.\n\nIt may be that my friend is jealous of the fantastic relationship between my boyfriend and me, and either consciously or not, wants us to split up so that I may be as miserable as she is in the relationship department... who knows. \n\nEither way, the key is to remain adult in your thoughts, and not give in to the childish part of yourself that goes "OMG what a b*tch I can't believe she's trying to steal my boyfriend I'm going to make her pay" or similar, and to trust the man you love.
585094
whether you approve of it or not, it is her decision if she wants to be friends with him or not. telling her who she can be friends with or getting angry about her being friends with an ex is just going to make you look controlling or jealous. i think you should trust her and let her be friends with him. if she starts spending too much time with him let her know it makes you uncomforable but dont try to force her to do anything..its just going to turn out badly.
383008
Definitely HERS.  Your ex is just that - your EX.  He no longer has any responsibility to you and doesn't have to answer to you (even though he should no better).  But your "friend" should DEFINITELY know better.  That is just something you DO NOT do to your friends.  She should have come to you and explained the situation and told you that she really likes this guy and asked you if it would bother you if she dated him.  Instead, she snuck around behind your back like a coward.  That is not friend, honey.  Get rid of both of them.\n\nAs for kicking someone's ass - it's so not worth it.
602047
Ask her if its ok to go out with him. After all, its her ex and its wise to ask as certain people find it unsettling to see their ex's going out with another person already even if its with their best friend. It also depends upon how long they have been seperated. If it was quite long ago, ask her else look out for someone else.
981071
I honestly believe that it is.  Even if your ex-husband says "go ahead...i'm okay with it"...trust me...he's NOT okay with it.  How would it make you feel if your ex-husband started dating YOUR best friend??  Always think about how you would feel if these things were being done to you.....  On another note, after a divorce or a break up, find yourself, and then find a FRESH relationship, one thats not going to continue to remind you of the one you just had.
218653
Sure, why not...I'm mad at my ex, but he thought I liked a friend of mine(and thought I was cheating with the guy) when he was cheating on me!  Long story, but just use your intuition on this one.