what do you do when things just keep getting bad?
613167
Hi,just to let you know YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE!WE all go through the rough times in life "belief me".I have been through it all I have also felt the same way.I have felt as if "why me""not again"BUT through it all I have to honestly say it has made me a stronger person.I guess that's why they say that life is like a roller coaster...you have your ups & downs.I know right now it might seem as if everything is caving in on you...STOP,BREATH,TAKE CONTROL,How? by saying well 1st IM ALIVE 2nd LOOK AROUND NOTICE ALL THAT YOU HAVE AND HOW FAR YOU HAVE COME 3rd START BEEN THANKFULL FOR ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING & NEVER FORGET THAT A PRAYER WILL GO A LONG WAY.this is something I look @ every so often it says...Have FAITH in yourself and always do your BEST.Watch your THOUGHTS;they become your WORDS.Watch your WORDS;they become your ACTIONS.Watch your ACTIONS;they become your HABITS.Watch your HABITS;they become your CHARACTER.Watch your CHARACTER;it becomes your DESTINY...I pray this will help a little.I WISH YOU WELL!!!
1141197
first of all contact ssi and explain the what is happening and see what they can do also ask the legal dept at the hosptial social services see what they can do to help. I hope things get better and you are in my prayers.
549423
Bad situation. Maybe things just feel distant because of the rough time he's going through. Hang in a bit longer,after the rough times are over,and take it from there. Good luck with everything.
111634
Condolences.\n\nJust continue doing what you're doing right now. Just be there for him. If he gets mad, try to understand him because you know what he's going through right now. And don't forget to pray for him.
818598
When things don't go MY WAY!!!
178026
Sometimes life is like a roller coaster... not just the ups and downs, but the feeling you have just before going straight down.  It is so difficult to comprehend that\nwhat you are going through is temporary.  A smooth sea doesn't make a good sailor... all the rough times will \nbenefit you in the long run if you stick it out.  It's\nnot the problems in life, but how we deal with them.  \nTry getting involved with something you can do to escape\n(art, music, reading, volunteering, etc.)  Focus on the \ngood things about yourself and your life.  Try to be \npositive even when you don't feel positive.  Remember,\nnot too many people will be concerned about your problems\nwhen they have problems of their own.  Relax.  Smile.\nThe sun is still shining and in spite of Chicken Little's\nrumor, the sky is not falling.
1112319
be patient with yourself. there are good and bad days for all of us.....things will improve. if it is really bad, please go see a therapist. there is nothing wrong with talking with someone about issues that you have... it helps you get it off your chest... good luck to you and god bless
192977
first off pray,an then remember this life is no joke but it is something that you only have one of,try to always keep your head held high an your mind open that hey things are bad but they could be worse,an if things are worse you have to be strong you just have to put your self around positive things,loved ones an have someone you can talk to.If there is family members,a friend or someone you can talk.Have something or someone that is positive around.No matter what life throws at you a break up with someone special,death,drugs,or whatever always remember there is always life ahead of you an you can make it.Be strong an remember that you are in control an you can do this.Remember put all the negative things behind you are to the side even an put positive things in your life.Because there is always tomorrow,an there is love out there do not ever give up.because you are a strong person do not ever forget that,no matter what has happen or will happen. no matter what you have an will always be strong. because it takes strength to do what you did [ask for help]it takes a lot for someone to reach out to someone for advise.
839698
As stupid as this might sound look at it this way. Things can't really get worse so they have to get better. I like to believe that you are always where your suppose to be and not necessarily were you want to be. Maybe you were able to determine your destiny before you started living your life and choose this way because it was the better way. Use this situation to figure out what it is you want out of life and do what it takes to make it happen whether it means going to school, accepting a job your not crazy about, moving somewhere else. Take it one day at a time and remember what goes around comes around so do good things so that good things happen to you. Problems are messages and maybe the only way for you to learn this message was to go through these hard times. \nGood luck.
929094
just tell things aren't working out sooo well....and break it off....
159023
When you are not willing to take any more.
247841
If you can't seem to get back in control, try calling the distress centre. They are located in the Emergency section of your phone book. The individuals who answer your call know what you are going through and are great at giving you any local referrals you may need, or they are available just to listen. Don't be too hard on yourself, as this WILL pass. Good luck and God Bless.
727706
Just hang in there maybe he is right you guys just need a lil break my friend has recently gone through the same thing and all they needed was a break from eachother and they were as good as before so just hang in there even if it hurts i might be worth it in the end you just never know someone once told me life is like a roller coaster it has its ups and down and turns along the way but it sure is fun because you never know what will happen and if life was perdictable it would not be fun it would be boaring so like I said just hang in there if it was ment to happen it will just hang in there. GOOD LUCK!
2886
Things happen. You've just got to learn to live, despite anything that has happened to you. I wpnt say that I know what you're going through, but I will say that I've had a bad couple of weeks before too. Just gotta live around it.\n\nPS- I hope that you get to having a better week. Merry Christmas.
288696
Call your local Crisis Line and ask them.They will talk to you and suggest various ways to help.Sometimes they will send(with your permission)a counselor to your home to evaluate your problem
690840
Now, it sounds as if you already know where this is leading. You know you have a problem. You should know that you need to seek help. Go-find help-talk to someone-get on meds-get on with life. Everyday can bring something new and different. Go find it.
205638
I usually deal with things pretty well, but once in a great while I'll need to call a friend or catch one of my buddies online & say, "I'M P*SSED OFF!!!" then rant for half an hour or so.\nIf you need to talk, I'm around, so you can use me, I guess\nBUT if you're one of those who ALWAYS has something to complain about, and life just SUCKS, then you should look into changing your outlook, because I don't have patience for whiners (I live with one, and I'm just this side of knocking out the rest of his teeth for b*tching about everything & doing nothing to change his circumstances).