Why are people so mean about your monetary status?
599914
*hug* i think you need a hug. i think it's great you have a college degree and i sure wouldn't be giving you a hard time for having a part-time job. the fact that you choose to work instead of sit on your butt all day is good enough for me! :) hang in there...this world is full of sin...hence the mean people. just know who you are and smile! :) feel free to IM or email me anytime.
460835
When you give something, people will get greedy and ask for more. Look whats happening in Europe right now. Not only do they have paid leave, but their working hours are shorter, and they work less days per week. But see the effects? Their economy is in all sorts of trouble right now. Low growth rate, high unemployment etc. There's always two side to a story. So hope this will make you feel happier that you still have a job thats paying you a decent amount of money to begin with. :)
639667
Yes, my ex boss was mean to me all the time. She used to yell at me and tell me that I needed to grow up. I used to get the blame for stuff that I knew that I had not done. And when I would try to defend myself she would say, "Well maybe you just spaced out from all the medication you are on!" And I am not on any medications.\n\nThere was also a time that money turned up missing that I honestly believe that never existed. My boss mentioned it in front of customers. And then in the end she fired me over it. I did not take it but in the end I had to pay that money back.\n\nMy best friend who still works there says that someone who once worked with the boss says that that they have done that to people before. And that the money was probably never there at all.\n\nOther people say that they probably did it for unemployment. Either way I had money taken out of my paycheck without my permission and I did not take that money in the first place!!! No police were involved in this or anything.\n\nI never did anything about it. I didn't know what I could do or that I even could do anything.
917390
offcourse its good for people \nits money money why people be upset from money ?
387921
Well strangers are mean, usually they are in a big rush and they are thinking of a million things and can be quite rude..\nBut family and friends usually take out external problem's and internal stress on the ones they love. Don't know why but that's human nature.\nAnd allot of people, that work for peanuts are mean, cause they don't know if they can make ends meet or not.And they are tired and hungry and miserable...\nTry to imagine the next time someone is mean what it is to walk in their shoes for a minute and you might understand more...'\nAnd sometimes they are just down right mean through and through..
611917
People are rude for different reasons. Some are just having a bad day, some are just uncultured. Its better not to let them get to you, and just ignore them
720809
I did not quite understand your question but I get the impression you are a successful and rich man who is having trouble gaining the trust and respect of his peers and your "financial constraint" is having no time because you're working all the time, rather than having no money.\nGaining trust and respect depends where you are living.  In some countries, attempting to conceal your success and learning to relate to those who are less successful gains more respect.  In other countries, displaying your wealth gains respect.  While again, elsewhere, being generous can be a sign of kindness, or it can be a sign of wanting attention.\nFind a person you think gets a lot of respect from society - either someone you know personally or someone on TV - and observe how they act.  Have you ever noticed that one person can tell a joke and everyone will laugh and think they are so funny, yet another person can tell the same joke in the same way and no-one likes the joke and no-one thinks they are funny.  It's the same for different personalities.  Someone can be arrogant yet be popular, and another person could be arrogant yet hated.  But the latter could suddenly become modest and making fun out of himself and suddenly everyone loves him and respects him.\nBut don't feel the need to change for society.  The moment you stop worrying about what other people think will be the first step you take to being treated differently.  It does show.  Good luck, whatever you do!
415473
Life is mean to people that don't have also, or in other terms "poor people", because people don't understand things they don't know. People are all for themselves these days. They are all about bettering themselves, and their family. They don't care about anyone else, and you are a "poor person", then you can't do anything for them so they don't care about you, therefore run over you. Since America is based on money, and money only these days. If you have a lot of money you can do a lot of things. Why...... because America is based on money, which is a good thing for the people who have the money, but It's LIFE for the people who don't
628256
Here's a tip for you.\n\n\nProfessionals don't discuss their salaries.  It's often viewed as rude to ask another what they earn.
1011743
unfortunately i think this is a problem between all races/colors/religious groups/political groups/ethnic groups etc.  i was once called a "racist white b***h" because i walked up to a guy and said "i had your paycheck ready but i screwed it up and shorted you so give me five minutes to fix it and i'll bring you your new check".  he said i shorted him on purpose because i was a racist.  there are angry jerks in every group.
766267
I hear ya. It gets annoying to me too. Sadly, I think people have forgotten this basic rule of life in a lot of cases. I always lived by the rule that I cannot change others, only hope they see my actions and respond accordingly. Getting harder these days though. Seems it's all about the size of your bank account and makes no difference how it got that way. People put more emphasis on the price of the home rather than the decency of the people who live in it.\n\nFor your sanity, just try to remember that doing a good thing is it's own reward and at the end of your day, you have only your actions to answer for.
211563
because they feel like they owe you something and nobody likes debt. also it takes putting your pride aside to ask for help-they may just be disapointed in themselves for not being "perfect"..
506448
Nothing, people put too much emphasis on money. It gives them an excuse to accept their life isn't perfect.
291421
If you have so much money that people are always asking for some of it, then a level of your privacy has been taken by those people.  To me that is too much money.
621387
1.  Material things are not necessary.\n2.  Someone yelling does not mean that they are mean.\n3.  People who have no money can not be picky about things.\n4.  If you've got something special, hang on to it instead of looking for better things.\n5.  You can't get money from a tight person or someone who doesn't have it.\n6.  You answered that one yourself.
124401
Maybe they don't have the cash, maybe they are worried about your safety, most likely they have some concern...you should be talking to them instead of Yahoo Answers....
396933
I think, some people really need the money and get used to that kind of life ... and others just like to be that way..\nin both ways it's really sad to see people in that situation