So, I went out with this girl on friday.   We had a great itme... when should I call her again?
613789
You haven't called her yet??  Well I guess it would be best not to rush things.  But if you are interested call her tonight and make plans for the weekend.  You don't want her to think that you couldn't find anyone else and wait till the last min. to call her.  You want to give her sometime to prepare. Make sure to tell her how nice of a time you had on fri..  Good luck.
842313
If you are truly attracted to her, then at 8 tonight (if she hasn't contacted you by then) send her a text that says "Hey sexy/gorgeous/sweetie (something of that nature.) I was wondering, what are you doing tomorrow night? Would you like to go out again?"\n\nOr something like that. I'm sure you know how those things go. But anyway, you say that so you have a reason to get ahold of her WITHOUT seeming impatient or desperate. If she's really attracted to you, she should reply shortly and probably accept your invitation to go out again. \n\nGood luck with this - have fun!
954859
you should go back out with her because she miss you from what you saythe reson i know this is because me and my b?f have been going out for about 1 1/2 we have broke up once because of a miss under standing something that happened and i know how you feel because i felt the same why my grades droped and i droped out of all the sprots that i was in like cheerleading, horse back riding, soft ball, volley ball  so yes you should go back out with her and you should email me at sweeetsugarplum_2011@yahoo.com
534310
It sounds like you already are dating. I agree that it's a good sign that he called the next morning. Maybe you should mention a movie or a restaurant you've been wanting to go to or invite him somewhere if you feel comfortable doing that. Good luck!
1082506
you should wait for quite a while like maybe a week or so. you dont want her to think that she has more control over you. you want to be in control. then once she has your number, and she tells you to call her later or tomorrow, dont call her, wait till she calls you, that proves how much she actually cares for you and that your in control. make an excuse on why you didnt call her back.
4172
Ok you need to look at the fact that she went back on her word. Now it may be true that she spent the week with you but all she had to do was call you & inform you that she was going to the dance. Talk to her. Explain that you just want her to respect you that is all. Now dont be mad, calm down. If she does it again, start looking for a replacement...
429886
If she is willing to got to dinner with you again after that, then she might be willing to take it further. She might have started to like you again, but who knows? Either way, take it slowly. Don't try to force her hand like you did last time.
925085
Just talk casually and ask her where she's going at the weekend! Then say "do you fancy going out sometime"? If she sounds interested then just say "give me your number and i'll call you"! Good luck you sound like a nice guy.
1008631
I would send an email or text message today (DO NOT CALL) telling her that you had a great time and would like to see her again sometime.  No specifics, just sometime in the near future.\n\nHate to break it to you, but my dating etiquette says never ask a woman out for a weekend after Wednesday.  If she has something else planned (which she might), it will come across as a blow off.  \n\nHere's the workaround.\n\nIf she calls before the weekend (I'm assuming she has your number, if not send it via your text or email message), ask her if she has any plans.  If she says no, mention that you and a friend or coworker were going to see the game.  Tell her that he had to cancel (his parents are coming to town or whatever), and that now you are probably going to the game alone.  Then, act as if this great idea just suddenly hit you:\n\nYou: "Hey, you wouldn't want to go would you?"\n\nThrow a little surprise, like "Wow, what a great idea" in your voice.  If she isn't doing anything, and she likes you, she'll jump on it (the idea, keep it your pants for now).  \n\nDO NOT mention the fireworks until that day.\n\n"Ya know, there's a fireworks show that we could check out after the game..."\n\nIf she says she is visiting family or friends, DO NOT say "Oh, 'cause I was gonna go to the game and see if you wanted to go."  Massive conflict in women.  They don't like to hurt people's feelings for the most part.  By saying that, you put across the message "Hurt my feelings or your friends'."  \n\nDo not accept an invitation to hang out with her family or friends on the 4th (if one is offered).  You will be viewed as the interloper and scrutinized and picked apart by them.  They will tell her everything they find moderately disagreeable about you.  She will side with them (after all, she's known them for years and you for three days), and that will be the end of it.\n\nHopefully that will get you started on the right track. Cheers, mate, and name one of your kids after me.
74412
I say any time after the first day I met you. Even the day after would be okay. As you can see from the array of responses you've received, every girl is different. Go with what you think is best but I would say give it, at most, two days. Anything after that, she's forgotten all about you. I hope this helps! :)
851166
She knows you like her and she is playing with you.\nShe is playing difficult with you.\nNow, you must play difficult with her.\nWhen she ask you to call her on Sunday just tell her that you are busy as you are going out with friends and that next time.\n\nYou have to cosider the following:\nDo you think you are the only one that she is doing this thing to?\nDo you think that she really visited a friend or was she with another man in her list?\n\nIf she likes you really she will not want to lose you.\nShe will let you go if she has got other men to play with.
1000108
like 20 mins ;)..... well if she gave you her number she prolly wants u to call her...  if u wanted sombody to call u how long would u want them to wait?
302679
i'm sorry to hear usually women don't take rejections well at all.  you should reschedule when you had to cancel tell her hey can't today due to "insert important reason" but lets go out tomorrow or _______.  Don't just leave it at i'll call you.
863657
Yes, you should definitely call her. It's not completely over unless she states so. Probably she's holding onto the same ego that you are by not calling her.
695091
You need to ask how much she means to you. If you think she's worth it then give her another call, and have a chat and ask her for that second date.
1003635
Just ask her if she wants to go see a movie or get something to eat or whatever you're wanting to do...be specific. If you're wanting to see a movie, don't just say sometime next week, say next Friday night or whatever. If she says she's busy but seems interested, she probably is busy, so try another time. Just do it, and it's a lot easier than you think, and gets easier every time.\n\nDon't email her, because that can take too long to get a reply, she could miss it or not check until later, too many thing could go wrong. Calling her's ok, but if you want to take the chicken way out, ask her out over instant messanger. I will admit, though, that I have done that before. :)
935877
I think it's a little weird that she was pissed when you needed to leave the next morning.  It's almost insecure.  When she cut you off on the phone it does sound like a game.  I bet she is waiting to see if you call her, not IM.  If you really like her, get over the issue of calling her place and give her a buzz. Otherwise sooner or later I'm sure she'll call you. Be careful....it seems too soon for her to be so over the top about you not staying longer.