A married women with no sexual urges.?
597375
did you loose the urge after children?\nthis happens some times...\n\nbut you know what feels good when you touch yourself so i think you need to tell him, and he needs to tell you what to do so you can acheive pleasure together.
1136228
i've been reading your other posts, and you seem to be really hung up on your wife's sexuality.  You DO realize she's more than whats between her legs right?!  she's a WHOLE PERSON and her sexual exploits of the past are past.\n\nthe first thing you need to do to control these insecurities is the realize that it is YOU that has the problem, not her, so don't you dare take it out on her.  \n\nfrom the number of posts i've seen from you on this topic, i think you need more help than we mere yahoo answerers can offer.  get help, on your own...don't drag her into this.
1171086
It sounds like you're lonely and craving an understanding and intimacy that you're not getting from you wife.  Before you make a huge decision that will alter yours and many other people's lives, really think about what you're thinking about doing.  My guess is that you and your wife had a very passionate relationship that cooled down after you married.  Once you married, life's monotonous routine got in the way of passion and communication.  Now you're looking outside the marriage for that spark.\n\nBefore you act, do yourself and your wife a favor and talk to her.  Be honest about your feelings.  Maybe her job/friends/family etc... consume all her energy.  Maybe you'll find that she's just as lonely as you are.  Give her a chance to work with you to make your marriage work.  If you feel you can't talk to her, then suggest couples counseling.  If that fails, then I would consider the possibility of ending the marriage.  But before making that decision, please please please give you and her a chance.  Don't give up yet!
345695
First I must ask you. did you marry your husband out of Love? Second and I'm asking this because I was raised LDS(Mormon) And sex was very forbidden but we did kiss Didn't you ever Kiss? If you did didn't you notice his lack of arousal? It sounds as if he has no physical problem, but a mental one. I say that because I know how it is to be raised in a religion that believes sex is bad, It is a sin to want to make love to a women unless it is for procreation and therefore it is wrong to let yourself succumb to natural desires. My Father was a Mormon Bishop (God rest his soul) We had this discussion over sex many times. I asked him how God felt about it and his answer was always, What goes on in the bedroom between husband and wife stays in the bedroom. But you have not said if you and your husband ever talked about having children. Maybe he he is afraid of that or maybe and excuse me for saying this, but maybe he is Gay?  I've given you my answers and I don't think you are wrong for wanting to get out. A man and a woman need to have the same goals. It sounds like the problem is with your husband even if he can't get an erection there is other ways to please you. I tried to not be to gross. Hope I was able to help. God bless and you take care. Reed wrwoodall@yahoo,com
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sometimes its the stress of having to care for the infant that causes her not to be aroused.\n\nTry getting a relative/parents to take care of your kid while you and your wife go out for a date. Try flirting with her like the both of you are on your first date, nice dinner out, movies etc.. and have a suprise of soft music at home that you 2 could dance to.. thereafter, with foreplay .. \n\nhopefully she will not take hours to arouse and that the both of you will have a more pleasurable time..\n\nall the best!
675909
If the wife was REALLY ready and REALLY willing ALL THE TIME, there should be no need to masturbate
139188
hmmm thats hard to say, maybe shes like a lot of women and doesnt really have a strong sex drive, or flat out just doesnt enjoy it.  I on the other hand could have sex on a daily basis.. well depending on wether or not there was compatability... good luck
805630
yes that is normal for you not to be attracted to your wife she has now become a fat cow and that isn't what you married, just try and deal with the next two months, the 18 year old will get you into trouble because by the sounds of it you are a lot older and that normally spell trouble
328809
one not involving sexual relations
959641
Well, you already know that the answer to that is to have a ham shank don't you, but what I don't understand is, you say you don't get turned on by women any more and you feel like what is so great about women, so why on earth are you getting married, and in only 1 months time, you contradict yourself here.
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oh you poor thing...you're not bored\nyou are utterly\n\nE X H A U S T E D \n\nbuy the wife some toys and tell her you just want to watch her once in awhile...maybe that can give you a much needed break and it can also serve to spice things up\n\ngood luck dear and get some rest...\nmy hubbie has the same problem
870637
dont want wife pg in her 40.s
1170697
Try looking at the situation from her point of view.  If she was a virgin when you married she, obviously, in inexperienced in sex.  If she had a strict upbringing she may have been told old wive's horror stories of "being with a man"; she may have been taught that the only "proper" way for a wife to have sex with her husband is the missionary position and that women aren't supposed to enjoy sex;any other form of sex would mean she was a whore.  She may be afraid that she would hurt you or that she might not "do it right".  Explain to her what you want to do and that she won't you and that it would please you very much; that wive's are allowed to enjoy sex and try different things with their husbands. Get her a "pillow book" and read it together.  \nGood luck!!!
649114
sex is not everything that is true but having no sex even after marriage is something unnatural if that persistsmay lead to unwanted situaton if your partner feels the same only than it's ok
830283
well you must be as old as me or older and i ask why are you wasting time on here talking about something that important.  I got lucky and found this site to stop me from being bored out of my mind at night at work but other then that i spend time with my woman and take care of her in any and every way.  So your wife probably isn't the problem.
384232
You say you have no sex experince but are you sure? Do you masturbate? DO you watch pornographic material? Do you think about her naked body and what sex will feel like? Well the last question is obvious but the other 2 still need to be answered. If yuo are a virgin I congratulate you! The best thing to do when you don't know what to do is just enjoy your honeymoon!\n\nTry to relax and just kiss her gently.  Soft touches and kisses elsewhere never hurt the beginning of sexual activity. If she asks you to stop though abide by her wishes and just continue when she is more relaxed and wanting it. Mostly likely you are the one that may get the surprise of your wife having sex with you.
42098
I'm married and have not had sex in a year! (Idiot for a husband) Actually, it varies from person to person due to psychology and hormones.