for the ladies i am shy so what do you think is the best way to start a good conversation with a women?
595132
well, you can always give her compliments! Find out what she likes to do, what are her hobbies! Try to find a connection that you two can talk about even deeper! You'll be amazed at how easy it is once you start talking!! \n\nGood luck to you!!
444913
Just start with "Hi" or you could try and include her in a discussion as she walks past "Hey what do you think of zyx, by  the way I'm 'name' and you are ...?", or pick one thing about her that you like "hey sally, that's a nice necklace, is there a story behind it?"\n\nHave a look at the link below for more ways of approaching women, and the lessons learned can be applied to other areas of your life.
684968
Tell her you like her shoes or her earrings, something small that is not near her chest or butt so she doesn't think you're thinking of her just sexually. It sounds lame but women like people to notice the small things they do to look nice. Tell her she looked interesting and you just wanted to see if you could chat with her. I think often the best conversation starters are movies, books, and music. They are pretty universal and most people have an opinion about what they like and don't like. It's also a good way to get a feel for whether or not you are compatible. If she seems excited about a subject or her eyes light up when you are telling her something go with it and try to explore it further.
70254
I'll probably tell you things you've already heard but here it goes: 1~Be Open and BE YOURSELF- Approach her with a smile to let her know that you are interested and MAKE EYE CONTACT! dont stare! 2~Be Spontaneous- meaning Don't think too hard about what you're going to say - just really LISTEN to what the other person is saying and let yourself respond naturally. 3~Ask Questions - Show you are interested in what the girl is saying by asking for more details.EX what movie/food they like. 4~ Use Innocent Touch - When talking to a girl, lightly touch her arm when you're making a point or laughing at something she has said. Don't overdo it, just a few times in a conversation is enough to send the message that you like her. 5~Be Confident -People are drawn to other people who have confidence. 6~Whispering- thats a good one COMING FROM A GIRLS PERSPECTIVE! If you don't know what to say, compliment her, make her feel good about herself. A few other things you can try is look at her up and down to let her know that you are pleased with what you are looking at. When you are talking with your friends glance at her and smile. Good Luck Guys!
819523
first off... get some confidence.  walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.\n\nor.... \n\nyou can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
197586
The best pick up line a guy has ever used was none. Basically, being himself makes the best person to me. I dont understand pick up lines. I would rather hear, "hi how are you". Something respectable. Its all about presentation and inpresstions. If the girl makes u nervous, then just tell her. But be careful because mean women will use a man's niceness for weakness. So Good Luck
303830
You can start by a simple stare (and smile) if you are not comfortable with the direct approach. After you do this on a few occasions, you will be stuck to her mind and then the opportunity will come when it will be just natural to start a conversation.
213418
Start talking to girls. And talk. And talk some more.\n\nAnd when you've finished doing that, go ahead and talk some more.\n\nSeriously, the best way to get girls is to talk to them. Get to know them. Their favorite foods, their hobbies, etc. Nothing pleases a girl more than a guy who is geniuinely interested in hearing what she has to say.
389570
wen u see a girl u like...make eye contact..smile...and before u walk over to talk to her...breath...wen u go up to her don't worry about remembering a good line...just say 'hi'..if she smiles..u'll feel more confident and the words will come naturally..if there's no reaction from her theres no harm done..u just move on to the next :-).. remember to breath :-)
626742
Just speak...even random things....talk about the weather, or just start up a conversation. Are you shy? Or do you just not know what to say? I used to be shy..still am....but you gotta gotta learn to come out of your shell. Like I said...strike up a conversation no matter how hard it is...believe me, it works.
19280
Pickup lines are lame. What you have to do is have an excuse to make someone talk to you.\n\nHere's what you have to do:  Walk into the room with your hands full of 4 drinks (they have to be closed bottles of beer or malt beverages so that you don't look like some creepy guy trying to give some shady drink).  With your hands full, announce to the room:  "Who needs a drink?"\n\nPass out one or two of the drinks to guys nearby to the girl that you want to pick up.  Then, hand the girl a drink, even if she already has one in her hand, say "here, have another."  If she's at all interested, she'll keep the drink, saying thanks or explaining why she likes another brand of beer better, etc. and you can start a conversation.  Open your drink and start chatting.  If she's not interested at all, pass out the last drink that you have in your hand to another person in the room, then "realize" that you have to go get yourself a drink.  It's a great exit strategy if you've made an ass of yourself, non-threatening to the girl, and instead of a cheesy pickup line you have an excuse to start talking to her.
530051
The best way to flirt is to not be shy, but also don't be pushy.  Be nice.  Start with something simple - "Does it look like rain?"  "That guy over there is acting pretty weird, huh?" "What kind of _____ (drink, fruit, coffee, pencil - just about anything that fits the situation) do you recommend?"  If you're natural, a little curious, and not pushy (and she's not in a bad mood), she'll be friendly back.  Don't think about trying to flirt, just think about making good conversation.  If it does look like rain, you might ask about getting out of it.  If she thinks he's weird, confess to being just a little weird yourself sometimes, just for fun.  If she recommends a latte, try it and tell her it's great.  And just let the conversation flow naturally.\n\nOnce you're okay just talking, find a way to ask her about herself.  Just about everyone (and - sorry gals - women most of all) likes to talk about themselves.  And it's a subtle form of flattery to be interested in her.  True interest in a person - her school, her likes, her friends, her job - is the trickiest way to flirt, because you're saying both "You're interesting" and "I like knowing about you."  And everyone likes to be liked.  Pretty soon you're a good friend, and if you are good at being a friend, there's much better odds you'll soon be a boyfriend.\n\nIf you're getting signs that you've overstepped your welcome, bow out gracefully "Hey, its been nice talking to you" and move on.  If you try too hard with someone who just isn't going to work out, you'll not only offend her but also chance getting a bad reputation that will get around, ruining later chances.\n\nDO NOT use a pickup line.  They're lame, and 97% of all girls (women) know they're lame, they're just a come-on, and that you're desperate.  Only desperate women will respond to them, and most desperate women are not the kind you want for a girlfriend!\n\nGood luck - try this out, then come back here and give some other guy some good advice if it works!
997351
Make female friends.  Don't be pushy or needy or seem desperate.  I have found that all women are somewhat insecure and respond positively to indifference.  Go with the numbers.  Be a guy that a woman can feel comfortable around without being constantly dogged.  Spend a lot of time listening to them and not talk about yourself.\n\nHere are a couple of tips.....  Eye contact.  Make eye contact and hold it briefly (longer than a glance but shorter than a stare).  If her eyes hold on yours she is probably interested.  If she instantly looks away move on, she's not interested......  If  a woman knows you have noticed her and she begins to primp or play with her hair it's a good opportunity to strike up a conversation.  Again, don't be overwelming or seem desperate and don't try to move on her the first time.  Introduce yourself, be interesting, then move on with indifference.  The next time you run across her she will feel more comfortable in your presence.  I always try to find common ground, build on that, and leave her with something to think about.  I will get them interested and then leave them hanging.  It's like having to put down a book at an interesting point, you can't wait to get back to it to see where it goes.  Good luck!
1170850
The easiest way would be online personals.  They allow you to get to know someone and actually think about what you're going to say to them, since the first conversations are usually text based.  My new personal favorite is www.mate1.com  It's FREE for women and it has tons of questions you can answer about yourself like your favorite movies, brands, tv shows, music, etc and you can place funny comments in there to show off your sense of humor.  Another good one is Yahoo Personals and www.match.com  Don't believe the hype about eHarmony.  I tried it and now call the site eTramp.
705789
just say something normal to her, talk to her about anything at first and ease into it. you don't have to have the perfect line, if she is interested in you she isn't going to hold it against you if you're not exactly a poet the first time you open your mouth.
63005
Buy her a drink and let her to the talking. All women love good listeners. And dont ask yes or no questions. Ask questions that need a explanation. Let her think you want to know more about her.
793471
You can always give a friendly hello and smile. That should tell them something. If they're shy, think of a non threatening question and start up a conversation. No one ever said who should start the talking. At least not nowadays.