Why I can't fell in love with anyone??? I'm not very young, but have never been in love. what's wrong?
608923
ur not hot? just kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u just have 2 wait 4 the perfect person.
673171
there's no such thing as an specific ages that people can fall in love, you can fall in love the first time you notice the difference in the girl or boy you like, it comes naturally... so in your case, 18 or 14 is absolutely fine to have ur first feeling for someone\npeace
1142624
Continue to be as wise and well centered as you clearly are. Celebrate that and just get on with it.  First loves does actually work out you know.  I am 40 and single so not for me...........but I have 2 close friends who met their husband/wife when they were 14yrs.............so who knows.  love is a mystery  and all the better for it!
143179
no you are fine, you should fall in love when you meet the suitable girl\nas long as you didn't met her, you won't fal in love. logical huh?
475205
im not so sure its possible. i mean you could love certain qualities about that person but you dont really know them as a person. you havent ever spent time with them you havent had time to build a relationship. you might like to look at them and drool over them but i really dont think your in love with them.
356372
i know the feeling. i'm in a relationship that is not going very good right now and it is killing me. i've had guys lie straight to my face, dealing with them cheating on me and one of them broke my jaw! but as they say time to move on. keep trying u'll b amazed at the strength that comes from within. not everyone is a bad person and if keep saying no to everyone that comes along and ur scared of being hurt then u may miss out on mrs. right. i'm only 19 yrs old and i have been in may reationships and i know that ur only 21 there is still time out there but also i understand the need to be loved and to love someone. there is someone out there b glad with what u got!! most people go their whole lives and have never loved someone. and u r starting to love someone but who knows? maybe she feels the same. i wish u good luck
1123370
there are so many reasons to love someone you hardly even know. i got myself mixed up with a guy i didnt really know. in my mind i gave him qualities of a character in my favorite book. so out came the perfect guy!!! but he really wasnt that perfect. So you may really be in love, but you are probably not in love with this actual person. you are in love with somebody you invented that you gave the face of a real person. a summer is an eternity when you are in love. Live ur summer fast and hard with no regrets. it helps a lot. dont mope around at home. find some friends to hang out with, and dont think too much!!! thats a big problem for me. i think too much. only time will tell. and i guarantee you, somebody new WILL come along, that you love even more. this experience will make you a thousand times stronger.\n\nif u wanna talk n e time email lizziesista@yahoo.com im totally up for giving u more help if u need it.
721612
youre only 10.....get on with your education and stop screwing around. theres no way in hell you are in love. maybe get a dictionary and look up what the word means
141933
Hi there sweety,\n    This is SO like my story when I was your age. I was SO deeply in love with him, yeah, some people say that this is not love, that you cannot love, but they are wrong - they only say this because they haven't been in your shoes.\n     One thing is true though - it can never happen. You can choose what to do, but believe me, there is NO WAY he has feelings for you, he may think you are a bright student at the best. \n     You see, even if you feel mature enough for him and think that you can have something together - he is waaaaay to old and experienced to get involved with someone at the age of 20, let alone 14.\n     I guess that no matter what we say to you you would still love him, but do try to keep away from him and don't tell anyone about that. I wasn't so wise as to hide my feelings and my classmates found out and uh it was so embarassing for both me and him...\n     So best of luck, and let me tell you this - if you love him and not someone your age you probably are a bit more mature than your classmates but don't worry - in time you will discover love again.\n\n     Best of luck!!\n\nps: e-mail me on yahoo if you wish
543991
not sure what your question is exactly, but trust me, you are still very young. everything seems all crazy at that age, i know, but everything changes as you get older and i can tell you that love definitely does exist and it'll find you when the time is right. until then, try to enjoy all the other things that are SO GREAT about being young!!! because, not to sound like your parents or anything, but once you are older, and you find someone to love, you will wish you hadn't wasted so much energy on it when you were 17! HAVE FUN!!!!
663405
I fell 'in love' at the age of 15, but...had absolutely NO idea what that mean't until I was 21!, and by then it was someone else.\nOf course it's possible to be in love at 16 and alot younger, this happens all the time. \nBut in my experience, you need to have a slightly more adult perspective to gauge 'love' in the 'opposite sex' sense.
495249
Its one of the great mysteries of life - sometimes, we just arent attracted to ppl I think! I know exactly what you mean - a little while ago this guy liked me, and was awesome, really smart, really cute, really funny and a very good friend. I loved him so much, but I just didnt want to be with him romantically. I got really angry at myself at first, because I felt as though I SHOULD love him, but I just didnt. Dont know why. BUt I DO know that you cant force yourself to feel for someone - no matter who great they are. You need to let it be natural, and one day I bet someone you least expect will be the person you feel for most!
481483
ANYONE CAN LOVE YOU BUT YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST...SOMEONE YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW MIGHT LOVE YOU BUT MOST LIKELY LOVE IS NOT GOING TO FALL IN YOUR LAP...GO OUT, MEET NEW PEOPLE, START A FRIENDSHIP WITH SOMEONE NEW AND MAYBE YOUR LIFE WILL TAKE AN EXCITING TURN...
1060547
It's a beautiful thing to be in love when you are young.  You haven't had time to experience being hurt, disappointed and disillusioned by someone.  You love that person with complete abandon and believe that you can have that feeling forever.  I think that it's possible for young love to last.  If you are willing to stand by each other through the good times and the bad times.  If you accept the changes in each other as you go through life.  I Wish You Much Happiness!
388291
Falling in love is not anyhow a task of life, where you are gettin some problems that can be solved out by asking somebody,"what could be the possible sollution to my problem for this ? " .\nwel its a feeling -----\n                        " direct dil se"\n\nyou wont get any clue when you get the person in front that ya this is the persom whom you have to fall in love.\nrather its very uncertain.\nwe; my dear i cant't exactely tell you how to fall in love,\nbut ya i could tell you the sign when you fall in love---\n\n- you continously keep on thinking of that person\n- if that person hurts you, you feel bad and again after tryin hard not able to forget him/her\n- you feel as if that person remain always with you i.e you like his/her company\n- you feel good when that person is happy and you feel bad when he/she sad and want to help anyhow\n\n\nwel my dear anything related to the signs if you feel ,,,\nit means you r in love, and if you want to fall in...\nthen just go ahed with these. and surely u will fall in love ..\ngood luck
729474
i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you..  there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude..  feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..
633058
i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!