He cheated on me. Should I take him back?
610419
Forget him and its not worth your time and enegry .. Maybe sex is great for you .. but theres no love in it if he cheats on you several times. it shows me its about sex thing . even he knew you had a son and u are looking for a serious relationship for possible marriage. it shows you clearly of what kind of guy and is not suitable to fit your lifestyle . he knows u are angry at him for that. always remember that once a man cheat and will always cheat again. dont ever blind that yourself. there are many good guys out there. most guys who have many possibities arent great looking men .. i have seen so many good guys who arent like models, best looking or else.. Maybe you should go for a guy who can offer everthing to your needs.  the guy you are with doesnt give u the needs for a good healthy relationship as you need it .. do u think he will MARRY you since u are with him for a year.  it shows me that you dont have the right tools for him and he DOENST have teh right tools for you .. EVEN commuication plays the most important in role for a leading healthy relationship .. u cannot depend on him for ur issues .. look at him???  think if he was your husband and doing things like that .. it will be a broken heart for you in many ways and leading to a divorce. then he said pleas forgive me ..  its not good enough . i dont mean to come so strong because i have been in this situation before with my ex boyfriend of 3 years and it leads to nowhere.   right now, im with a much better guy and he is my SOUL MATE fiance .. he has all the needs i need and i have all the needs that he needs from me. Commuication is great all the times even we do have ups and downs in our relationship which is normally healthy but we maintain gooc commuication all the times and carry what we promised ... so think about it ! dont be stuck for him for sex or whatever it is ... find someone who can do a better job as a true man .. not a party boy or toy boy for the future..
590569
Mandy,\n If you have reason to believe that he even thought about cheating on you, then hit the road. Leave this idiot in the dirt, and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.\nGood Luck.
435783
He made his decision long time ago. He cheated on you, let him prove that he wants to be wtih you. But what you should be asking yourself is can you get past his cheating and never bring it up can you forgive him and will you get past this and be in a healthy meaningful relationship. You owe it to yourself and to him.
1041332
wake up,he cheated on you so why have him back.chances are you will never fully trust him ever again.time to move on girl
150364
my personally opioinon is yes. i would give him what he deserves and then after he sees ive been cheating ill leave him. a cheater will always be a cheater. if he cheats on you once he will cheat on you again, even if he tells you he will stop if you stay.but truth is he wont.so if you choose to cheat on him back, that would hurt him and then to see you leave will make him know he ;ost something great.if i were you thats what i would do.
653925
If you strongly believe he won't cheat on you again, then take him back. But, I hate it when girls cheat on me, and both of the girls who have cheated are no longer with me. I broke up with them as soon as I found out. If there is no trust in a relationship, then it won't work out.
1127003
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!
176460
Cheating is NOT OK...the fact that he did that too you in the first place is soooo not cool. I'm surprised you didn't do away with him then! The thing is if you didn't do anything about it when it happened...he's probably thinkin sweet i'll do it again...unless he's really genuine. Just ask yourself...If he's hurt me this much this soon, whats to come in the future...? And what might come in the future is heartbreak...and you don't want that. If you break up with him now, you can do it on good terms, and possibly hold up a descent friendship!! Just pretect your heart...good luck!!!
282037
i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new
358384
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't go accusing him yet. If he does happen to cheat on you while in New Mexico, then he isn't worth your time. You can only forgive someone so much. When he gets back, talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't feel safe when he's around his ex. If he is the right guy he will understand.
1130437
I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
42058
Get rid of him! Once a cheater, always a cheater! He`s not worth it, all he`ll ever do is cause you pain.
812177
I say no, honey, if you don't want to be hurt again then stay away from him. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better. And for the time being when you don't have a bf, get closer to your girlfriends! They won't cheat on you.
760256
Well, if he didn't cheat on you physically, I think you are ok, but if this isn't the first time hes done it, dump his @$$.  Take him back for now, keep him on "probation" and see what happens.
930337
sounds like he regrets breaking up with you, kinda like you don't know what you have 'till it's gone.  it's your choice if you decide to take him back.  if you really care for him and feel he is being honest then go for it.
244799
like a fool i took mine back and we were married a week later, but i still find it hard to trust him. even tho hes the one who told me he was cheating. we have been married for 2 years now and together 6 and so far he hasnt done it again ( that im a ware of) if i had it to do over i would have left him.
315689
I'd let him go. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you can't let him go make him stand on the sidewalk by a busy road holding a sign that says "This is my punishment for cheating on my girlfriend". I saw a guy on the news who did that to try to win his girlfriend back.