what way is the best way to quit loving someone you dont know in person??
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Is it really possible to fall in love with someone online and that it would be "real love?" How could you know if the person you love is who the person is? It is so easy online to be anyone a person wants to be. And it is very easy for a person to adjust his or her personality to be what he thinks the person on the other computer wants him to be. Sounds like you are dealing with an infatuation, and yes, you need to turn your computer off, and get real. You have absolutely no idea if that person loves you, and if he does you should be very suspicious.
671436
Well at times life puts you through a test and you need to make do with what you have and decide likewise.\n\nIf possible, you should decide on moving away from him.\n\nIf you are dependent on that person and / or tied with him for some reason which would not allow you to move away, then try to stress less on the darker side of your life. If it's just something that you can't really do anything about then at-least deviate your mind and attention away from that person as much as possible. Try occupying yourself with something that takes your mind away from him so you don't keep pondering on the fact and getting yourself more depressed.\n\nLast but not the least, I don't really know your relationship with this person or your history with him, though would still suggest to analyze your situation once again to see where the wrong lies. There may just be ways that you can salvage your relationship with this person. Depending on your situation, it may just be worth the try.\n\nHope you find a way out of your problem soon.\n\nAll the best.
1061135
The worst way to miss someone is sitting beside him knowing that he can't be yours.............\nDon't let this happen to you........\nYou are still not in a position to be friends with him\nKeep distance.......... \nor \ntake some time and then propose him....... if its okay with him, you got it, else tell him what u actually feel and then ask him to leave.......
1089813
Simply tell her that you are do not want to continue an online friendship. If you have actually met this girl in person, you have to be a little more creative with your reason to stop seeing her. Tell her that you just don't have any feelings for her and you don't want to take it any further. It had only been two months, and you don't want to continue something that isn't going to go anywhere in the future.\nGood luck!
159653
Love is strange in its own magical way. Love is like a dam. Once it's released, you never know when the flow will come to an end. Right now, your love is still flowing all these years. If you really want to forget her that much, then do something different to approach this thought process. If you know she loves you as well, then go get her. Don't waste time crying in your hear...in your soul. If know she doesn't feel the same way, then think differently about how you feel about her. Think of it as best friends kind of love: you love her because she matters to you greatly and that your friendship for her will never change. Accept this "new" change of yours and think that everyday. Better to be friends than to be in that hell hole of unforgiving love. Sometimes to have a friend love you is just as loving as having that special someone by your side. Try to move on each day if you can and just remember you loved someone who was wonderful and great, but with conditions couldn't happened. Some where in life, you are bound to find someone new. It might sound a little stupid, but maybe the person who you been looking for could be right in front of you. Just keep a clear head and watch for hints. Maybe the person has already been hinting they have feelings for you and you just haven't realized it. I hope I helped in some way.
70203
Write them a letter,\nCall them on the phone,\nTell them "friends forever"\nYou will never be alone!
935637
find someone new and concentrate on him!
719810
Do not listen to his voice. Do not call him. Do not answer or return his calls.  Throw away cards, letters and all things that remind you of him.  Make yourself busy and take meticulous care of yourself.  Give your time to your other friends and family members whom you may have been distant with.  Catch up on some hobbies and volunteer work.  Make appointments for yourself to do the things you enjoy every day in the week. Every night, have someone to talk to who understands what you may be going through. Whenever your thoughts stray toward him, think only about the way he disappointed you and hurt you and remind yourself that you deserve the best. The longer you were with him, the longer it may take for you to get over him.  Nevertheless, you WILL get over him.
1106274
talk to them individually and find out how they feel about you... \nthat should eliminate at least one of them... then list pros and cons until you can figure out who is your best match...
305827
Find a new person to love.
202971
I'm assuming that you are talking about a loved one in a romantic sense here.  I guess you can call them?  E-mail them?  SMS them?  Fax them?  Chat on MSN/Yahoo Messenger and AIM to them?  Make the most of the time you guys have together and just enjoy.. When you are not with them, just remember all the good things that happened when you were with them and look forward to seeing them again! :) Hope this helped somehow.
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Have your mind made up. This is the hardest part. Make sure this is what you want. If you think there is still something left inside of you for this person, chances are you will go back and will repeat these steps over again. \nMake a written list of all the reasons why things will be better if the relationship is over. Think of what will happen if you stay with this person, and how many years of your life you could end up spending on an unhealthy relationship. Keep this list close to you at all times. \nThink ahead. Have a day when you decide it's over and you are going to move on. Don't just jump up and leave on an impulse. If you can, talk to that person and say, "When rent is up this month, I am going to find another place" or "I'm moving in with my parents" or "You need to leave at the end of this month." This gives the person time to make arrangements. And, it's much easier to go back on an impulse then it is to go back on a calmly and clearly stated intention. \nKeep the peace. Don't allow the person to suck you into the same old arguments, guilt trips, or drama. State your intention and walk away. Case closed. There's nothing left to do but follow through. \nOnce on your own, treat yourself. If you don't, you may get bored and call this person. Make some new friends and constantly have something up your sleeve. Do things that you were not able to do because of this person. This will let you know that you have still got it and make you feel good inside. \nCut off all communication. Even if you intend to stay friends, it's a good idea to avoid contact with this person for at least a month after you break up. Otherwise, it's extremely easy for them to slip right back into their old role in your life and start the cycle all over again. \nTry not to think about or bring up old memories. If friends start talking about this person, tell them you don't want to talk about it, whether good or bad. Get rid of gifts, photographs, and any other relics of the relationship--or at least put them way out of sight. \nPrepare for the possibility that your ex may say things to your friends, family or co-workers and make you look bad. He or she may not have been ready to let go like you did. Be the mature one and laugh about it. Eventually it will stop. \nRemember that this was just not the "one." Oh well, things couldn't work out. This is life. Make sure you still have what it takes to be good to the next person you are with. Remember the traits of the person you left and compare them to the person to are interested in. This will help it from happening again.
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Get rid of that thought. You don't know this person at all. You don't know his likes or his dislikes. You don't know if ANYTHING that he has told you is even the truth or not. You have never met him. AND PLEASE do not agree to meet him at this point in time. Wait until you actually know him better and then you don't really know if what your told is the truth. But and this is ONLY if you do decides to meet him. Do so in a VERY BUSY public place. Somewhere, where there is a lot of people. And if you can bring along a friend. All this because you really don't know him in the least. Talk to your parents.
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do u love someone new or who u have known for a while? who is nicer and more affectionate?? just follow your heart.. .. do u really want to end it with ur husbband??way down deep u may miss him and love him more.
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Like Nike, Just Do it.\n\nBetter late than never, get it over with and don't waste another day of your life with someone you don't truly love.\n\nGood Luck
1106212
Quit getting in others life if you really love them...\nThat is not of your business and the one who must care about the true love must be them with or without ciberflirts (that some-must-times are just silly-games).
702118
just tell her that you feel like you both have grown apart and no longer have the same interests and that you don't want to be friends anymore or hang out. people usually will leave you alone if you say you don't want to be friends anymore. if you don't feel comfortable telling her in person, then email her or call her up on the phone. telling her is better than trying to avoid her. some people need bigger hints.