i   fall with a man without meeting him.what will u advise pls help.im married.?
603534
Can't understand your question.
1139635
Hold Up!\n You met this guy online how long have u been talking to him for? \n\nIf you ever choose to meet anyone off line all I could advise would be to not travel alone, take a friend and meet in a public place like a shopping centre.\n Your friend doesnt even have to be with u but they can watch u from a distance. U have to be very weary. And only meet him when u feel comfortable. \nIf u dont wanna meet up keep dropping excuses he will get the hint1 Becareful :)
872898
Instead of telling him you miss him try meet him and make it look like an accident so that you can have a chance to know him more. And when you do meet him, talk with him so next time he won't be so much a stranger! It's not easy to begin with, but will be easier and such things need some time to find their way
961495
Same thing happened with me and I mentioned this really great resteraunt in the area that I had never been to before but everyone had raved about and he mentioned that we should go sometime. It worked and we're married, (not saying it has to go that far, but you get the idea) Just mention something like that and see if he bites. If that doesn't work then talk about some 'guy' you've been talking to (whether he's real or not doesn't matter) and see how he reacts. This way you can get a good feel for where he is at in your relationship without risking anything. But if you feel like you couldn't just be friends with him if he didn't like you romantically you might as well risk it.
226937
you need to put yourself together. Go out and do things that you like [ helps take your mind of him ] Find someone to share your life with. In any event you need to move on. Life is to short, to sit around and do nothing. Know how you feel, been there. Hope this this helps you. Don't think about what happened. move on
256475
Sounds like you waited too long already.  If he isn't married or involved with someone he is still someone with little time to give you--or he would be with you now.  He doesn't sound worth another second to me.
666216
you better meet him there..and make sure you have at least four other people with you when your with him..\nbe careful\nvery careful
1072071
When you meet him, do it in a public place, and take someone big and strong with you (maybe your dad?) just to be on the safe side.  \n\nI met my husband online, and we've been together since early 1999, married since the end of 2000, but when he first came to see me, I took a 6'3" friend with me to the airport to pick him up.  Also, I had spoken with his mother, sister, daughter, and colleagues before we met.  \n\nThere are a lot of good people out there, but there are some rotten, vicious ones too.  Some are altogether different from the way they present themselves online.  You can't be too careful.\n\nGood luck!  Be safe.
810753
You have to keep living your life!  Go out and meet new people and have fun.  Don't wait around for him.  Good Luck.
989249
Get a hobbie. Make new friends. Do what you did before you met him. Don't waste so much time on him. By all means, move on. Who's to say that you might not meet someone better tomorrow?
230480
Dating people you have never met is VERY dangerous. If you do decide to meet him, let people know where you are going, and make sure it's in a public place with witnesses and good security (people and cameras.)
1176705
Don't guess if he's married or not.  Find out for sure.  Do not pursue anything until you do this.  Drop it immediately if he is.
373781
First: Sure, it doesn't matter how two of you got introduced each other - through net or social program or at a shopping centre; just couple decades ago freely dating around was same as today's net relation and soon it will become normal exercise in society. So don't worry about how you began. but sure you should consider little longer time to meet him to check his interest keep rising or dimming without having some fun, not in a rush.\n\nSecound: to find out about him - at least try to know and meet his family, friends that he associate with soon you can in a usual manner, before get attached deeply, - well, rest you will know as time pass by. there is no masic pill to be confirmed about any one instantly - so be slow, have control on self,concentrate to figure out he is honest minded or not, and ofcourse, be careful in the beginning. people get hurt / been cheatted - no matter from where they find partner if dive into "Cool" just as swimming pool. Another thing i believe: who ever begin with too charm/ impression - often appears as bitter in later part.\n\nFinally: Just let you know that i found my girl friend through net two and half year ago - we have wonderful relationship that we both proud of, and very happy. this year we are going to marry. personaly i appreciate myself that i never allowed myself to  any cosmetics bundles or showing around * thing * ; feel lucky to get a real lovely girl. you are welcome to look at my yahoo profile " ravinecord " ( although i blur the picture a bit).\n\nSo be confident and in the beginning sure be careful.\n__ best of luck.
391932
Go up to him and tell him how you fell. Don't regret not telling him, cause when someone else does you will be pissed that it wasn't you first!
827179
he was never yours to begin with. You need to find happiness in your own backyard. find out what you need to make your own marriage happy, and filled with the  passion that you shared with this other man.
319768
Wait until you meet him face to face then make that decision!\nI knew my husband for many years, many of our younger years\nwere apart! In some ways it made us stronger but also mad us weaker! He communicates better through the computer. I strife\nfor face to face and that's the way it should be.\nIf you want to marry this man? Be sure to know him face to face first for awhile. Communicating is so important!
242753
My advice to you:\nAll you have to do hun, stay truthful, honest, and love your man. And hopefully he does the same for the rest of your lives. There are no precautions you can take to avoid divorce. Fate brought you 2 together, and your fate lies with you 2. Let it take its course. If youre unsure of this marriage, do you think you should or are ready to get married? Make sure that you guys are 100% ready for this. Get some pre-marriage couseling if you'd like. Like meeting w/ your pastors. Usually that is the first step b/4 getting married anyway. You cant avoid the unavoidable. If its meant to be, it'll last, if its not, it wont. But best wishes to you. And a lifetime of happiness and love!!