if the guy you really love and have been with for 3yrs leaves you over and over again and keeps coming back?
599186
One day you will see the light..\n\n#3 Years is hard to give up but you have to be more independent and stand up this is why he does this because you got to be stronger.\n\nWISH YOU THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!
367879
Yes, I was in a similar situation in the past.  It is very hard to find out that the person  you love doesn't have the same feelings as you.  I don't think you should let him go with the hope that he will come back.  It may or may not happen.  It isn't a matter of whether you let him go because is sounds like he has made his decision.  He is probably crying a lot because he knows that he has hurt someone that he does love.  This probably makes him feel guilty.  You really need to accept that he is leaving and make sure that you don't become an old crutch to him after he goes.  If he wants his independence, don't let him keep coming to you when he needs help or gets lonely.  This won't make him come back to you, it will only make let him have the best of both worlds.  It will be hard, but you don't want to end up a doormat.  Take the time to do things that make YOU happy.  Do something that you've always wanted to do but couldn't or wouldn't because you were with him.  Hang in there, it will get a little better each day.  Good luck to you.
329816
I think you should just walk away hun, I know it hurts but I was in a similair situation and he ended up finding someone to date and left me hanging on, and i held onto him for too long and it hurt even worse, at least this way you can get back to your life and finding that one for you, and come back with some of your heart. I just hate to see you hang on liek this and then if he leaves you for someonelse have you left brokenhearted and left to pick up the pieces.
363616
I can truly say that i have been there.  I chose the one that was leaving to the army for 4 years and he cheated on me 2 times.  he has been back for 1 year and although i have a hard time trusting him, we are together and are happy so far.  You just have to think whether or not you want to go thru with it and forgive if it happens or if you think you deserve better.  Good luck
24016
He can be in some emotional turmoil. If that is not a case then leave him,he is not worth you
1146264
asked him why he hasnt left his gf yet if he truly loves you. He might be just using you or just making you a "in case" person.. If he cant give you a definite answer, you should just tell him that you cannot wait for him anymore and that you are moving on..
235242
If he is cheating on you after 3 years you really need to find a real man one that wants you and no one else. But if you want to try to fix it find out if he still loves you and why he is doing this to you.
506481
Damn, that sounds like me.  Gonna be tough starting up any type of relationship w/ anyone after breaking up w/ someone that you were w/ for the past 3 yrs.  I dunno how I would let down my guard.  Just be truthful and true.  Don't be fake, be sincere. I really don't know...
393466
If he wants you back he will find a way.  You might have to accept that he has moved on and try to do so yourself.  The pain goes away if you let it.x
260315
No. move on you may find someone you really love and that really loves you!! Someone may be waiting for you to move on.
1004180
They always say if it is true love then he will come back to you, just let loose and be yourself don't go out finding mr. right, let mr. right come to you, i know sometimes we get inpatient but it is better to wait then to date a loser and just settle for just anyone that comes our way, trust me in a couple of months he will feel it and you might just here from him again and he will want you back, only if it is true love
446389
Memories are forever, you won't totally forget them. But I would try to keep busy, and be happy. After 3 yrs I don't think he's coming back anytime soon. Go out and mingle. Chances are you'll find someone else to think and talk about.
98528
I hate to say this, but if he really loved you then he wouldn't want to be with someone else.\n\nJust let him go.  If he comes back, then you know he's yours.
350772
If you really loves someone you've got to set him free and if he returned in kind you'll find out he's yours..
614689
if he's changed from what he used to be like before.. then yes... unless you were the one who dumped him and now you want him back.. again that would be a yes..\nbut if he broke up with you and the two of haven't changed.. then no because that would just be a repeat of the relationship you had before.
28236
If you get the feeling he doesnt love you anymore, then I would let him go and see if he returns.  If its meant to be he will.  For now, I think you should move on.  You dont deserve to stand on the side line.
985905
dont give him the satisfaction in telling him you're going to leave him. some men get off from knowing that you'll stay no matter what. he sounds selfish and the only way of knowing is leaving and see what he does. if he comes back, he loves you. if not then you know why...