is it okay to marry a guy that you dont really know well?,but you love him so much,,?
604863
There's a difference between really loving someone and not knowing them. You can implicitly trust someone and convince yourself that you are in love, but what does that mean, and for how long?\n\nFor all you know, he could be a con artist whose real name you do not even know. He might marry you under an assumed identity, sell your stuff and leave. He might even take your dog!\n\nDon't be stupid. Yeah, it's okay, but only people whose primary "virtue" is recklessness do it.
1001150
well u shouldnt marry someone u dont know that well to begin with
154410
marry him!!\nowh wait..before that..\nfirst of all..only you can sort this out..if you think you can cope with problems you may face..(due to the 'no qualifications' thing)..then you should indeed marry him..\ni advise you that its the best anywayz..but ever heard of this?\nwhen poverty knocks on the door,\nlove and trust flies out the window..\n\nmake your own decissions..age is no issue!~
190794
Ask yourself if you can live with all the in differences sounds like it might be difficult to always have him being the one who is right and in control you have to do what makes you happy any relationship is a 50/50 deal :)
212939
Thats good,marry with him and dont leave him
71696
may be husband is too good..but u r also good for understandin all this..just love him with all heart n soul..always keep him happy..god bless you both
250264
If you love him, it shouldn't matter what other people think. There will always be some kind of doubt in relationships and that's fine. If you're not sure about the guy then ask yourself, "Can I see myself with this guy for the rest of my life?".
711457
you're definitely not in love. its all infatuation. would caution u to think twice before making such decision (to marry). when u have doubts, don't do it.
487614
your marriage is what you make it. both of you bring honesty, trust, respect,love,communication, and commitment and you will be fine. good luck
624104
sounds like a perfect couple !! Enjoy your life and don't worry..
487881
Its not the age but the person thats important. if you are hasty and pick the wrong person you might regret it all your life. wait till you are a bit mature to understand difference between a cool guy and a good guy. Marry the good guy, then indulge yourself.
474655
If you have to ask, then no.  Why haven't y'all married before now?  Do you love him?  Do you want to marry him?  Be honest with yourself and you'll know the right answer for you....
85538
I think it's fine. Sure, there are risks, but it is possible. One of my friends fell in love w/ a guy she never met but fell in love with him anyways. Then, of course, they actually met and have plans to move in with each other very soon. It just depends
8427
Why in the world would you agree to this?  If he is worth marrying he will wait and you should wait.\n\nResponding to youknowit below:  All the more reason to wait and have a nice wedding.
485512
That all depends on your current relationship and wheter or not there is love and trust for eachother. Really the only ones to answer that are you and him.
153785
i don't think you should marry her.  if you can't trust her to share important details when you ask, then you won't likely be able to trust her about other things.  you have no obligation to "do the right thing" for her.  you do have an obligation to do the right thing for yourself.  i believe that obligation is to find a woman you love and trust if you intend to be married.\n\ngood luck
285530
Marriage is a life time commitment and 18 is a bit young to know what you really want in your life.  At 18, you are still in the very beginning of your life and there are still many things for you to experience.  I understand that if you actually consider to marry this guy, you must really love each other.  Ask yourself this, will you be happy to spend the rest of your life with him?  If you are sure of that, maybe you should seriously consider marrying him(provided that he feels the same).  Some people actually got married at a very young age and have ever lasting marriages, it really depends on the couple.