wat would u do if your boyfriend alwayz forced u 2 have sex?
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call the police.\ncome on are you telling us that you still love that ***.\nIf he knows that you still love him then it's blackmail,\nIf he feels that you hate hime then it's rape.\nIf none of the two then he's a psycho.\nbe rational and don't let emotions prevail your brain.\nIt seems that you're a very kind woman, and you deserve better than this freak guy.
407233
If he's not comfortable with it, don't force anything. He's probably against sex before marriage. Doing anything sexual if the other person is unwilling is sexual harassment or if you go all the way, RAPE. If you love him, wait for him.
291578
tell him you have a headache.  That seems to be a tried and true formula.  Unless you're talking about your husband having sex with someone else, in which case I think you should let him have his fun.
1012221
Just say NO!\n\nTell him that you are not ready.  That love has nothing to do with it.  You love him, but you are not ready to have sex with him.  Tell him that if he loves you, he will stop pressuring you, and respect your wishes.  If he insists on persisting, then ask him to take you home.  Tell him that he would be committing rape, and he will go to jail.
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im sorry. i thought i was in love with my bf too. he was 21 and i am 16. he always forced me to do things with him and to him i didnt want to do. if it wasnt for him i would still be a virgin. i never was willing to do anything he wanted me too. he was alot bigger than me too. and he abused me, verbally, physically,and sexually.untill he got me pregnant and forced me to have an abortion(somethin i regret so so much and never would have done willingly)after that i finally got up the courage to dump him and i found a guy my age. i know this isnt what u want to hear(trust me, i know, i heard the same things)but i dont think u should stay with him( i realize u might not want to take advice from someone that is younger than u by like a year)if he forces u to do anything sexually then he doesnt really love u or care for u. ur just a sex toy for him to manipulate. im sorry this is happening to u, it is somthing i wouldnot wish on anyone, u should know what i mean by that, its a horrible and emotional wrecking thing to go through, im still not over it nor will i ever be the same again. i have to go to counseling every day of my life for probably the rest of my life, i will probably be taking a high dosage of anti-depressants for the rest of my life because i let him take me too far before i was brave enough to stand up to him and get rid of him. my question for u is how long are u gonna wait, how much are u gonna put up with untill u break it off b4 u have life altering events like i did. i promise u that ur life will never be the same after  u put up with to much, it sounds to me like u have already put up with to much. please dont stay with this guy. do u know that him forcing u to have sex with him wether it be oral or casual, it is rape. i wish u the best and i will be praying for u. please contact me at purplollipop1606@yahoo.com and let me know what u decide. im very worried for u and id just like to know if u end up okay.
72146
Stop Pressuring him. \n\nWait until you get married to have sex...\n\nMake sure this is the right guy before you have sex. \n\nMight be the wrong guy.
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if youre going to argue...do it while having sex. \n\n(shrugs)
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im guessing you never tied him to the \nbed before. so heres what you do \nhave your way with him \ndo anything you want to him sexually \nafter all hes tied  down and wont be able to stop you \nyou both might actually enjoy it
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7th grade???? thats wayyyyyyy to young, sweetie u have a whole long life ahead of u to experience it, wait, and if ur boyfriend refuses to wait then dump him. i hope ur boyfriend didn't give u ideas to have sex, and don't let him pressure u if he does, trust me just wait for the right guy to come along, but really u should wait till after u get married, that would be the most moral and best thing to do. i hope u make the right decision, good luck.
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he made fun of you during sex? what an asshole. how would he feel if he took off his pants and you laughed at him? \nyou need to tell your boyfriend how his stupid comment offended you and made you selfconcious. and if you try again (which you should even if it's not with him) take your time. it can take a while to learn the right rhythm but you'll get it. practice makes perfect.
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Treat your boyfriend as you would want yourself treated.\n\nThat is, if your boyfriend were in the predicament you were, what would you want your boyfriend to decide?  Would you like him to do what you are thinking about doing?\n\nMy guess is that he would not want you to do what you're thinking about doing.\n\nNow, if you break up with your boyfriend, that is another story as you will no longer be in a romantic relationship and do not need to consider his feelings when you are making romantic choices.\n\nOn the surface, having sex with your friend to me sounds like a very bad idea at this point in time.  If you break up with your boyfriend, I might have a different opinion.\n\nOverall, respect your boyfriend's feelings while you are in a relationship with him.
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What the hell you doing on the computer if he's going to have sex with you now?  Get undressed!!
1065756
Maybe get yourself another boyfriend.
473799
leave him.  That would freak me out
947476
uh....... depends on what turnes you on more.\n\nbut i would say neither but then again, ask boy #1 if he would ever hurt you. and if he says no, then trust him, untill he dose, and boy #2 will just try to get in your pants (aka have sex with you) he may even rape you or force you agains your will to have sex with you. and whan he said you have to returne the favor he ment for you to have sex wit him\n\nmy fiance use to be kindof evil but never that bad he dont hit girls in the first place b/c hes a gentlman i would just say 4get those too just be friends with them and try to find someone else  and remeber this\nyou rather be safe...than sorry....
700216
Break up and find a different boyfriend.  By staying , you're encouraging him to stay the way he is.
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Having sex with my boyfriend.