how do you think a women should propose to a man when the girl does not know whether he loves her or not?
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Why would anyone ever propose to someone when they do not know if the other person loves them?\n\nThat is getting a bit ahead of the natural flow of things,and marriage is NOT dating so wait until you KNOW it is right.
87498
Whatever you do - make sure it's something she'll want to brag about it later on. Once her friends know you've proposed, the first thing they will ask is "tell us! tell us! how was it??". And their different stories are like trophies in a competition  to "who was proposed in the most sweetest and awsome way". So, try for it *not* to be a casual thing.\n\nDoesn't have to be at an expensive restaurant or with a bunch of frills. An important thing is the surprise. So don't take her out to some ultra fancy place if you never do that... she'll smell your intentions from a mile away. Take her to a special but known place - area - that she already likes. Someplace you both are comfortable at. That will let you work it out in a relaxed way. Also helps because, if you  just don't get the right opportunity, you can always repeat it later on and it won't seem odd nor will it cost you the huge bucks to do so.
411076
DO YOU REALLY NEED TO ASK?OBVIOUSLY ITS NOT THE BEST IDEA.IT MIGHT BE FUN AT FIRST BUT I GUARANTEE THERE WILL BE COMPLICATIONS.FOR EXAMPLE DO YOU WANNA MAYBE END UP WITH HER?WHAT IF YOU DO END UP TOGETHER AND SHE DOES THE SAME TO YOU?AND EVEN IF YOU DONT WANNA BE WITH HER SOMEONE ELSE DOES AND THATS JUST MEAN TO DO TO HIM.
84460
Well first of all she should be open and honest with him. She should tell him stright up how she feels. Its okay to tell him to wait, if he loves her he will wait. If she really love him and shes ready to take the next step in life, well maybe its her right time. Its all depending on her feelings for him and also her love for him. She needs to follow her heart.
629985
If you must ask about whether to persue her or not, the questioning in your own mind must be telling you something which is leading you to the assumption there are reasons against both actions.  It depends on how she makes you feel when you are with her and without her.  Sometimes we can hurt like the devil because we love someone so much that when we are not with them we feel we have been left in an existence without them, to fend for ourselves.  This is the pain that is instilled with the actual emotion of loving another who is a positive influence in our lives.  Yet, if she is someone who does not strengthen you in how you feel and takes from you with nothing in return...tis best to walk away and find a woman who will bring to you all the wonders of love and life without having to comprimise who you are and how you feel.  Love isn't easy, nor is it blind...and sometimes looking in the wrong person can confuse the hell out of us.
688044
if u have a best frnd and u wanna propose her go ahead.\nu have 95% chances to succeed.\nreally, after coming that close , love is just a step ahead.\ni hope she says yes!\ngood luck!
1050485
What ur daugther says seems logical.The reason behind her asking this may be her insecurity once u enter into another relationship.And as far as the person who has given u the proposal may not want to jeopardise this relationship with u for this reason . As the old saying goes the greater the distance more the love.But also make it a point to discuss this issue with his youngest son in order to avoid trouble on a later date . GoodLuck.
146860
Dude, she is your fiancee and ur not sure if she loves you? You should of known this before she became your fiancee. Look into her eyes when you say I love you and if they glisten or if has that affectionate look when she says it back, then yeah she loves you or atleast thinks she does. Only time will tell. What makes you uncertain though is what I am wondering.
135100
This one is a challenge. First I think you might be asking How do you get your boyfriend to propose to you.  The answer, Take a reasonable amount of time to get this answer and allow him the same. Its an excellent idea to find out where his heart is, in the matter. Perhaps without him even knowing  So here.\n\nStep one:\nStart journaling, write down things that he says about love and family try to find out when does he think its an ideal time in life for a man to get married. What you're after here is will he marry you. \n\nIf he does not have lots of money does he think he can get married before making a lot of money.\n\nDoes he love little children? See how he behaves around them does he play with them or avoid them.  This is an obstacle it reveals his level of comfort with getting married now.  My best friend avoided little children - he's still not married.\n\nWould he die for you? spend all his money on you. Sleep out in the rain if you say that how it ought to be - does he love you?\n\nStep two:\nThe journaling and questions that you ask should reveal the answer to will he marry you.  Be sure not to blast him with all these questions at once. its best to recall situations you have previously encountered and be alert to others that occure.\n\nStep Three: \nBe aware of obstacles Which could be,\na) he does not want to get married \nb) not at this time in his life\nc) he requires education\nd) he does not love you \ne) he does not know what he wants\nf) he requires adequate income\ng) he's scared\nh) Other (well, you did not expect I would think of all of them)\n\nStep four:\nDevelope a plan to overcome all the objections that might arise. If he requires education then let him or persuade him it will be ok to marry first however you must overcome his objections.\n\nOnce you know what his answer is on the question (what a place to be in a relatinship)  be sure no obstacle/objections remains. You can suggest that you both get married. At this point there is only one anwer and you already know it.\n\nyou can ofcourse skip all the above and just suggest that you both get married.  Good luck
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Hey Cookie,\n\nwell from my personal point of view.\n\nwhenever you are proposing someone, make sure u think about all the SIX senses of a girl. \n\ni.e. when you propose make sure you keep all of her senses engaged.\n \n - sight (make sure you choose a good location and a good gift)\n - smell (wear a good cologne, roses which smell great)\n - sound (music, nature's sound like sea, waterfall)\n - taste (yes, champagne, ice creams, choclates, )\n - touch (when u do that, make sure you make it more intimate and hand in hand works)\n\nand yes, the sixth one\nYes, she will know it before you do it. so just keep this thing in mind.\n\nCheers,\nGyaan Guru\n(P.S. if you liked the answer, vote for it as best)
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You would propose to her like any other woman. Take her to a nice restaurant or walk in the park/beach. Then when you feel that the time is right, tell her how much you love her and wouldn't change one thing about her. You could then tell her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her and so on, use feeling that come from the heart. Then ask, will you marry me? Whether in English or Spanish, it doesn't matter because it came from within and that's a language we all speak. Hope she says, yes!
110887
Maybe you should express courage by telling her how you feel and asking her how she feels.  Try this before you propose to her.
1067435
bring here to a fancy restaurant but before that, ask the personel of that restaurant to help you make that night such an unforgetable experience to both of you especially to the girl. when youre about to propose, the lights should be turn off, and only the candle on your table will remain lighting, then the staff will then roll down the big white banner with different lights with big letterings asking the girl. "HONEY, WILL YOU MARRY ME?" beleive me, it will work.
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Honestly...I wouldn't do it. Proposing to guy is like having him walk down the aisle while you wait at the alter. I know many people throw out traditions in today's "modern" world but I still wouldn't do it. If you've changed your mind about getting married, talk to him about it first or drop a hint that you wouldn't mind have something sparkly to wear on your ring finger. Proposing to my wife was and still is one of the greatest moments of my life and I would hate to have that moment taken away.\n\nAlso...his buddies will NEVER let him live it down ;o)
993889
AHHH!!! wow... its...umm? nice? it is but i REALLY wouldn't go throwing it around. make sure you have the RIGHT girl for you. hell I'd use it to propose to her.. then it would be nice!
682782
The better question is, do *you* think now is the right time to propose to your girlfriend!
400979
There is no way to MAKE him propose to you. If he is not ready, then you should not make him ask you because it will end in heartbreak, no doubt about it. You can let him know you are ready by telling him, so he can think about it on his own terms. When, and if, he is ready, he will ask. Do NOT do anything that makes him feel guilty or make him think he has to or else (unless you honestly consider it worth the risk to lose him, then you can give him that ultimatum). \n\nRemember, this is not just about you. He is also apart of this. He needs to be comfortable and happy with asking you, and this is something he will so when and if he is ready. Have you two already talked about getting married? If so, then its a matter of time. Maybe he is saving up to buy the ring, or waiting for a special time. If you have not discussed it already, bring it up. Ask him if he wants to marry you someday (don't put a time limit on it just yet) or if he can picture a future with you. If he says yes, maybe over time discuss it more. If he is not sure, give him time. Let him know you love him and would love to spend your life with him, but you understand he needs his time. Never rush him, since he may do it to make you happy, but later call off the whole wedding because he is terrified and not really ready. What would you prefer, waiting to get engaged later and him being completely ready for the commitment or asking now and calling it off months later, ruining your whole relationship just because he felt rushed?