Do men go to heaven?HOW- all they do is jerk off and think of sex every 15 seconds???
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men tend to mature and do that less as they get older and closer to death.
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"As a man thinketh in his heart so is he."  (Proverbs 23:7)\n\nOne can't prevent urges as much as what causes the urges.  All urges begin in the mind...with a thought.\n\n“Keep thy heart more than anything that is guarded; for out of it are the issues of life”.  (Proverbs 4: 23)\n\nHow does one "guard" their heart?   "Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh." (Galatians 5:16)\n\nOne walks in the Spirit by filling their heart and mind with good things, especially the Word of God.\n\n“Thy Word have I hid in my heart, that I might not sin against Thee.” (Psa. 119:11) \n\nThe Word will transform the mind and cause a change in thinking.  \n\n"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God."  (Romans 12:1-2)\n\nHaving a renewed mind will help one think on the right things.\n\n"Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honorable, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."  (Phil. 4:8) \n\nAlso, "Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus."  (Phil. 2:5)\n\n"I will set no wicked thing before my eyes"  (Psalm 101:3)  \n\nXXX-rated movies, R-rated movies, and other forms of pornography are not options if we want to obey God.\n\nIf scripture is heeded, one can actually change and renew their mind so that sexual urges do not dominate the thought life and other actions associated with these urges take over like a domino effect.  \n\nRemember, Potiphers wife grabbed Joseph to pull him into her bed.  What did he do?  He got the heck out a there!  He ran.  He overcame temptation by fleeing.  \n\nSo, we are what we think, according to Proverbs.  The Word of God can change our thinking.  We can walk in the Spirit, and not fulfill the lusts of the flesh by doing so.  Walking in the Spirit entails reading and studying scripture and allowing it to be the guide for our thoughts and actions.
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I am not a Christian but my best friend is, and the truth is that true Christians that are actually devoted to church and go everyday don't even follow this rule.  I know my best friend does't.  According to the bible, thats the only reason you're suppose to have sex, to reproduce.  But no, not from whai I know and not from what I have been told from a Christian.  Christians do have sex for recreational purposes.
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It's simple they actually hate this God that uses the threat of hell to lure them in and now they want to make sure the rest of us are as miserable as they are.\n\nThey can't have a good orgasm anymore because their God has an eternal limp dick and so we are evil if we have sex! (Unless your a priest then have all the gay sex you want God understand)
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Ya I think you're right and that it is true in most men in almost all countries around the world. Probably between 45-50 years of age, men start losing their impotency and can't get orgasms anymore. Their strength to get it out finishes fast while having sexual intercourses finishes. Additionally, the urge to get the sexual drives results in Viagra addiction. So, men start getting it again but, somehow studies around the world (from newspapers I've read) have indicated that men selflessly try their level best in getting that urge in their bodies to produce orgasms after either masturbating or while having sex with women.
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Its possible that he does not masterbate due to medical problems (missing parts, etc.), but its unlikely.  \n\nBiology lesson: The male testes constantly produce sperm along with semen in the seminal vessicle.  Just like urine, it has to come out some time or there will be damage.\n\nIts possible he just has a lot of wet dreams, but if that were true, he would be so horny that any female within a mile would be at great risk for being raped.\n\nYou need to go to another church because it doesn't say anything in the Bible about masterbation being a bad thing or a sin.  Your preacher might as well of said that it was a sin to pee.\n\nThe Bible does say that premarital sexual intercourse is a sin, but masterbation is not sexual intercourse.
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I believe indefinitely, for a woman.  I lived at the hospital with my husband for 3 months, 9 yrs. ago.  The thought of sex was not there.  He did die.  When you don't think about sex, there is no problem.  I could go on indefinitely without sex.  And I don't need to masturbate.  Keep busy at all times.  Life is more interesting and fun that way, anyway.
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WELL, SPEAKING AS A MALE. IF YOUR TALKING ABOUT DURING SEX THAN SOME MEN CAN GO AS LONG AS THEY WANT. I KNOW THAT THE OLDER YOU GET USUALLY THE LONGER YOU CAN GO AND IF I HAVE A FEW BEERS I CAN GO ALL NIGHT.  NOW IF YOUR TALKING ABOUT A MAN WHO NEVER HAS SEX AND DOES NOT MASTERBATE, WELL THAT SPERM IN THE BODY DOES HAVE TO COME OUT. AND USUALLY A MAN WILL HAVE A WET DREAM IN APPROX 30 DAYS TO EXPEL THE OLD SPERM WITH A NEW BATCH.  MOST MEN MAY NOT KNOW THIS BECAUSE MOST MASTURBATE AND NEVER REACH THE WET DREAM TIME FRAME. BUT EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT AND SOME MAY DO IT 10 DAYS SOONER OR LONGER. I HEARD THIS FROM A DOCTOR WHO STUDYS IN THAT FIELD.
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No.  The way to heaven is through the beleif that Jesus came to the earth and died for your sins and was risen 3 days later.\n\nHell is the result of lack of God and heaven.
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That's exactly what will happen to the idiots who become suicide bombers. \n\nThey'll be condemned to be  surrounded by 72 sexy and provocative women who will remain virgins forever, and they'll be sexually frustrated forever. The only minor detail is that this won't happen in heaven, but in the Place Below!
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im not a guy, but those answers made me sick so i can not resist to write smth. i had quite a number of men so NOONE LASTED MORE THEN 3 MIN if it was first time after a break of a week (i mean only intercourse, not counting foreplay, but foreplay wasn't too long either). those guys are lying or they have some problems with their dicks, because it is really abnormal to have 20 min intercourse when u didn't have a woman for weeks. those guys should see a doctor. and the one who can last for 1 hour. did he ever ask his woman isn't she bored to death by doing stuff for 1 hour? or is he just staying inside of her without frictions and waits when he finishes? so don't pay much attention to those guys. they re just boasting. ask women. they will tell u more truth about how long their men last.
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I went back and answered both of your questions.  I hope that helps.\n\nBut understand this, the arguments and thinking of men are not to turn you to God, they are to cause you to open your heart and mind and turn yourself toward God.  Only you can make that choice, not only for today but for eternity.
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Feel bad for sinning?!?! What, are you nuts?? Christianity ROCKS! I go out on Sat nights, get hammered, have sex with multiple women, and sometimes even men. But I then go to Church on Sunday, so its all good!!! You should give this bombass religeon a try! Its freakin awesome! I can look at myself in the mirror and sleep well at night knowing that Im a better person than you are cuz Im going to heaven! Youre on your way to hell! HA HA HA!!! \n\n(This was a rant...Im not really Christian...)
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The guy above me is an idiot.\n\nIf you need more tips on masturbation, check out www.jackinworld.com.\n\nOr just talk to your guy friends, they might know something you don't.
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Hmmm.. not invented.. created.  Since he created us to "go forth and multiply", I think sex figures in there somewhere.  And it is great.  Otherwise, if it wasn't we wouldn't want to do it.  Humans are the only "animals" (indulge me here a minute) that actually have sex for pleasure.  God is not stupid for sure.  We have to deal with all the heartache of raising a family, (heartache - are the kids safe, are they getting enough, ect.) there has to be something that releases all that anxiety.  And I also feel that the right kind of intimacy with the right person will always be great.  It is afterall very natural.
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Mrs. C., homosexuality, pornography, and "dirty" thoughts about people (anybody) are all sins. we all deal with sins and we're all tempted with them. you're specific sturggle, although black marked by society, isn't any worse or much different than anyone elses and you have to deal with it the same way.\nfirstly, I strongly suggest talking to a church paster or elder whom you trust. \n\nthere are a few verses that really help out in times like these. I've really learned to use them a lot:\nthe first one is 1 Corinthians 10:13 (I'm not going to quote them because it'd be too long) just take not the last part of that doesn't say he'll take the temptation away. but give you strength to deal with it, which you may have to endure the rest of your life. \nthe second reference is Ephesians 4:22-24 which gives you a (adimatably ambiguous) step by step way of dealing with sin. the key in it is training your mind. *you have to take control of your thoughts and MAKE them be submissive to God*\n\nwe all have our struggles and trials and vices. they're hard, but thanks to God, we don't have to be victims to them anymore. we have the strength and help that God provides. this doesn't mean it'll be easy and this doesn't mean that they'll leave us alone, but it does mean theres hope for us to stay away from all out sin. \n\nI'll be praying for you. I do hope you see a paster or someone that can help you, and please, stay away from the porn, if nothing else, it'll definately limit the sourse of temptation.
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is sex your only road to happiness. That would make sense as to why you have blown it so far out of proportion.\n\nDo you binge drink? I'd start with changing that. Imulsive people are easier lays though. But why do you think demoralizing christians is sexually good? Rape is a power strugle, and the endorphine release of sex reinforces what ever kind of sex you try. While sex as an expression of love makes it an unselfish act. Yet, sex outside of love is only limited by what you try.