how do i get a girl to go out with me if we both used to date before and we live in two seperate states?
605223
isn't there a chance of combining friendship and love?\ni think you should follow your heart if there isn't any option  for having everybody happy...
679922
I think you need to give more details on your situation because I don't know what you are asking. What do you mean by you are "seperated"? \n\nDid you two once go out as boyfriend and girlfriend and was living much closer to each, but now live far apart but now the relationship is long term?\n\nAnd what do you mean you have problems talking to her on the phone? Describe what the problem is.....\n\nMore details please...
1000409
Sounds to me like you just have to stick with the movies, or get her over to your house.  Or just go on a group date, over at someones house to watch a movie or something.  Just hope that everyone else does the same.
60675
Simple. Works everytime if she is interested.\n\nGo up and introduce yourself and ask her if she would like to go out. Have an idea what you want to do. Like movies, dinner or hang gliding.
56811
Show her the new you, show her what she has been missing for those two years!! \nCharm her\nAnd BE YOU!!!
763835
just ask her to do something with u and don't make it like a date so u both can know each other more then if u feel comfortable then make the move
220437
I think it all depends on how close you guys are. just try talkin to her.
119484
Ok, so you live elsewhere other then california. Your girl's IN cali, but you like to flirt with other girls from the same state she's in but you're not? Doesn't sound like you have a problem with long distance relationships. Sounds like you just don't want to be in one with your current girl. Let her know so she can decide for herself whether she wants to be with you. You owe her that much. 'Sides...statistically...she's probably doing the same thing. Good luck!
915898
Make a DVD with pics of you two together....burn some great music in the background, y'know, songs that have a special meaning to the both of you.\nIf you don't have enough pics of the two of you together, you could use pics from her childhood AND your childhood. Work from thos up to the present on the DVD.\nI think this would be tremendously sweet and should score you big points in the romance department!
291219
i used to ask myself the same question about some chick....but yeah as much as you would like to think you're dating you're not dating unless you call it a date....but it seems you're close enough to the girl...so start making some moves man, i'm sure she wont mind...you know little things and stuff, try to make it offical and just talk to her about...i know my other friend was worried he might ruin it friendship by asking his best friend out...but i believe you got nothing to lose and all to gain
398161
This is your second chance. Not very many people can get second chances. So bite your tongue and work with it. If it is mean to be, it will happen.  If it isn't at least you had the second chance.  Just be patient and don't push.  She obviously likes you still. Give it a whirl and see how it goes.
479384
Take her for a walk in the park or a picnic. If there's a river a walk by it would be nice to. Go window shopping at the mall. Or just a walk around the neighborhood. As long as your together what difference does it make.
184142
Well if u give her a chance that she could be good, then u and her will have a good life again. All u need is let her friends come to the house and have fun with her friends and then next time u bring ur friends in the house and see if she is having fun with ur friend. If u want that u and ur step sister be together u should talk about what u like and what u don't like or just have a girly talk. Maybe u could have a double date with to cute guys and after that u can talk about the date that u had with the guys.
474918
go ..have your relationship like she wants...just dont tell her you did all those girls you "dated"
430904
1) From the other girl... MOVE ON! They are all different.\n2) Play hard to get. Stop calling her, stop paying attn. to her. This is hard to do, but if she likes you she WILL find you. If not! You're wasting your time.
1157157
Straight up is always the best way. And be direct, don't beat around the bush.\n\nExamples: Since we've been seeing each other have you been \n                   dating anyone else.
209163
Start with chit-chat.Then go out on a bunch of dates where you both are with a big group and when you feel you've made a strong emotional bond she is yours.\nTHIS IS FROM A SHY GIRL TO A SHY BOY.