What do YOU think is an appropriate age to start dating?
609011
Yes, I do think 13 is too young to be dating. I think 16 is appropriate, or at least till you are a freshman in high school. I think the point being that you are too young to deal with some of the things that you will inevitably face while dating. Just take your time and be young for now...I didnt start dating until I was 16 and I dont feel like I missed out, because when I did start dating there were less restrictions on me and I could drive...because lets face it, you really dont want your parents to drive you on a date do you?
863998
There are no rules.  When you feel comfortable, then you're ready to date.  Dating can actually be very healing because it will help you reaffirm that there are people out there with whom you can have a genuine relationship.  It helps to talk with other people who have been through the same thing.  There were two books that helped me: "Happily Even After" by Alan Cohen, and "Spiritual Divorce" by Debbie Ford.  My ex read them, too, it helped both of us and we have a good relationship now, which is important because we co-parent our kids.
771515
Especially around your age, I would judge based on maturity more then age.  I've seen people with a 4 year difference have a great, stable, long term relationship.  In general, though +/- 2 years from your age is a good guideline.
243620
I think it's too young.  People in middle school haven't learned enough about themselves yet to be ready for relationships.... Dating so early leads to too much confusion and hurt.  When people are more mature and know themselves better, they're able to deal with the complexities of relationships much better.  It's too bad there's so much peer pressure nowadays to start dating early.
1117544
Why 16 or seventeen? I think it's silly. You should start dating when you feel like you're ready for a serious relationship. It's not age dependent, but it's rather your what and how you feel about initiating such a relationship. Remember, it's not a game, not an experiment. It's not fair to experiment with people's feelings, but if you feel like you're ready for a relationship, go ahead. I'm 22, but I still don't feel mature and brave enough to initiate a romantic relationship. (plus I don't have the confidence to do that, but that's another story)
40891
how old are the guys?  I'd be concerned if they were a lot older than the girl.  It's best to go out with a group when you're younger, reserving individual dating until you're older - like 16 or 17
458349
About 18- 19 years old is ideal
274982
my mom let me start dating at 15, only because i grew up with the guy and she was close to his parents, but I would have to say, high school is the "dating era", so in my opinion I would say your first year of high school would be suitable....
243654
25 to 30 years old. But it depends on how mature you are and how well is your relationship
365256
i think 10 years younger is ok and no one 10 years older would be sufficient don't you? Why are you worried about it anyway? Date who ever as long as it don't consist of going thru the high schools with the trunk of your car filled with a Playstation and candy and sodas to lure your dates.
619792
Age should not make a difference. I should know, I am dating a younger man. So as long as the age is legal I see no harm in it. But, honestly, what do you think you have in common with a 20 y/o?
503808
Nope, Age doesn't matter. If the relationship is good, that's all that matters. As long as you are both ready for every step together (Kissing, sex, marraige kids).
193123
you should specify an age so that you will not get guys that are way too old for you. Unless you do not mind!
955609
16 is ok as long as you are dating your school pal. Else wait until 21
286051
The question is are you ready to date? You will know when it is time to start dating again. I would still suggest at least three months by yourself first. Get to know yourself again.
971859
age is nothing but a number, only way its not ok is if it really bothers one of you two, no one else matters, i'm a 26yr old guy dating a 36 yr old woman and there is nothting wrong with it, nor is it wrong to be 26 dating a 19 year old
694540
i'm 20 and with a 29 year old man. i think its ok to date who ever u want as long as its legal.