Is it stupid to ask your friend to ask a guy out for you?
603024
Yes, it is. Have some courage, show her you care. Don't send a friend to do your work. Would you have your friend deliver the first kiss, or do the engagement ring proposal for you. Is your esteem low? Afraid of being rejected? Just go for it. The worst thing that could happen is she will say no. You will live through it either way and it will be good practice for the next time if its a turn down.
726750
Honestly, if she were a true friend, she wouldn't be all up on a guy you like.  You are right to not let a stupid boy come between you and true friend, but this friend doesn't sound true.
24686
I tell ya, when I was younger, I wish the girls would have been a little more bold, and asked me out. I was shy and couldn't do it half the time. Well, we grow up, but had that happened, who knows how things would be different...\n\nI say yes, go for it.. you might blow his mind...
1048554
I always recommend that you simply ask the person out, before it's to late or drives you crazy. It at least shows that you are serious. If they say no, then it is their loss. And if they say yes, then, well it can be the start of something beautiful. Asking them out via their friends is simply a cowardly way to do it. So go on, bite the bullet and ask her out!
815319
No your not being stupid at all. That is so common. If, you feel you two are good friends, just try (it will be hard) to talk to him about how you feel, and too see how his feelings are towards the situation. Tell him, how you feel and just say if you don't feel the same way that is fine I don't want to ruin are friendship. The worse thing that could happen is that he doesn't have feelings for you that way and he just loves being friends with you and hugging you and making you laugh. That is still a great relationship to have. \nBest of luck to you!!!
887816
well , for starters , maybe he likes you too. But he doesn´t want to ask you out because he feels shy , or because he thinks there´s something going on with that friend of yours. Regarding the religious issue , well, it tends to be a little bit of a bump in the road if you want to have something serious with him , because it´s a little frowned upon by some people , either family , community or friends to tell you the truth , but if you´re lucky enough  to like each other a lot and you hit it off with this guy , then that shouldn´t be an issue you can´t work through . And if you want to ask him out , then why not?  you won´t loose anything by asking , because there isn´t really anything to loose there. and most likely , nothing will ever happen unless someone takes the first step . So if you don´t want to wait around to see if  he decides to do it , then you can go ahead and make your move. Remember , fortune favours the bold.
1040935
I've been in this situation.  (Actually I had two friends like this one guy, and used me to get to him since I knew him well.  He wasn't interested in either of them.)  Just be honest with your friend.  Don't give her/him false hope.
682679
definatly no, in my mind, even if the girl asked the guy out, the guy should still pay,  and go for it, i dont see anything wrong with a girl asking the guy, if fact i wish it would be that easy for me.  also its hard for guys to tell if a girl likes them, thats the case with me, but anyways, thats my opinion.
101820
Hell no...guys are stupid, they won't know what you want unless you tell them or show them...besides, nowadays it's totally commonplace for girls to make the first move!!
290606
It depends. he might not want to go out with you even though he may like you becuase he may thinks that it will ruin your friendship
266295
go out with someone else like his best friend or better yet ask him out
737504
it's neither wrong nor awkward if a girl asks a guy out because it is being straightforward about your feelings rather than beat around the bush abt the matter and wait for unknown results thus causing more anxieties..It seems that more guys nowadays are more shy as they fear rejection..And it's up to the girls to carve out their own path to happiness 'cause afterall, we girls have the unique sixth sense of knowing who likes us and such..\n(^o^)
302552
Yes, go ahead and tell him now. Don't make him do the scariest thing in guy world - asking a girl out - only to be turned down. You can say "I am really glad that I have you as a friend, but I kinda get the feeling that you might want more. I love you and I don't want to hurt you, but I just don't feel anything but friendship for you."
456167
Don't listen to the people who say that the guy should be asking you out. If you let oppurtunities pass then you're never going to get anywhere in life.\n\n1.) Get to know him.\n2.) Get close to him so it's kind of obvious that you want to be more than just friends. Play with his hair, touch his hand, touch him casually in neutral places like his arm, leg, back, etc.\n3.) Tell him you like him.\n\nIf you get to be good friends, tell him that if he doesn't like you, it's okay, you're fine with staying friends.\n\nEasy as pie.
741859
For the moment forget about your own friend.  You said you " only think of the guy as a friend and but he's okay "...based on that alone why would you choose to go out on a date with him.  You don't have an interest in any potential relationship developing with him so based on that alone...don't accept his invitation for a date.  Now, in addition to that, your friend really likes him, so to add that factor in...certainly don't accept the date.
671564
The guys are stupid if they are going to judge you by your friends.  If they aren't willing to get to know you then they aren't worth talking to anyway.  \n\nAlso they are probably intimidated by you and your friends.  You and your friends probably have a lot of confidence and stand strong to guys which can scare them.  \n\nAnd if you all are always together that can be a major factor as well because you aren't as intimidating when you are alone rather than with your friends.
568888
well friendships between a guy n a girl mostly end up in a relationship. one way or the other. you wanna know if he likes you then ask him. n if you want to ask him out then do it. it wouldn't affect your friendship.