TEll me, Uncontentment is mans worst behavioral nightmare.?
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Too much focus on the self, me, me, me, so that's where the problem lies. When you focus on others, giving, caring and sharing, you become more happy because you tend to think less on your own problems and realize that there are those who got it way worse than you.
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Ha ha... I smack my guy friend's head if he deserves it... He says some pretty stupid or mean things, and he requires a good smacking for it. He says that I'll give him brain damage one of these days... I'm called abusive and mean too... Oh well... :-)
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That depends on what context you are speaking of, since this is the dating/romance section of this site I assume you mean in that area? IF so, here goes. I think that the worst thing I have ever done in a relationship is make the man I was with at the time feel inadequte so that he would dump me. I was having terrible commitment issues at the time and really felt smothered and trapped. So.... instead of facing the problems I had and working them out like an adult, I just started to complain that he could never offer me what I needed to ever be happy with him. I complained that he didn't have enough money, intelligence, etc... I actually told him that I faked every orgasm I ever had with him. I was horrid to this poor man, and he didn't deserve any of this, ALL of the problems were mine. I made a terrible mess of this man, and to this day REGRET it more than I can ever say. I have since tried to explain this to him, but he never wanted anything to do with me again. Who can blame him! That will haunt me for the rest of my life. I hope that he is happy in whatever relationship he is in. He was a really great guy. If he is reading this, then KNOW that I am truly, honestly sorry.
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Yes, this is a powerful statement. I agree. I get so tired of seeing people piss all over anything that is good and right. It's true, being happy and whole is seen as unsophisticated. Isn't America so CLEVER these days with their cruelty?\n\nI am in a bad mood this morning because of this...
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some sadist/masochist somewhere.  Ugh.
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it doesn't sound to good, he sounds like he's a nightmare to live with. my advice is leave him before you get hurt anymore.
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Explain yourself or shut the hell up.  \nIt hasn't. \nHuman rights are not suppressed by use of behavior science... wtf?
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Some men need to feel like they have control over EVERYTHING.  Believe me-been there done that.  I dated a guy who was extremely controlling, manipulative, and verbally abusive.  Took a year before I gave him the boot.  He needed to be in control of everyone and everything around him.  I think it's a sickness.
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Wow!  Get out, This man is only going to bring you misery.  He is not going to change.  Are you willing to live like this.  Don't you want to be #1, and thought off as the only one he wants.  It's okay to fantasize, but not like he is doing.  He is totally disrespectful to you.  NO WOMAN DESERVES TREATMENT LIKE THIS.  You are a better person than this, and deserve someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.
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through lucidity---if he is as you describe, he has hang ups...and in that case, all you have to do is expose your casual and regular personality...so that when he tries to put you down, say...you take it as if of no importance (effectively ignoring it and not caring)...this, as you will learn, pisses THEM off...because you expose their hang ups of trying to put others down...and their NEED and importance to do so...because inside they are insecure...\n\nif you just don't  care about it, and just do your job, as long as he does not disrespect you or make you do something that could be concidered disrespectful (in which case you should beat the shit out of him and quit your job)...you should just do your job to the best of you ability, and not give a shit or care about what he does...\n\nyou just go home and have fun with friends or co-workers--no biggy. \n\nIf he is "uncivilized" --I don't know what you would mean by that--I guess, in my case, I wouldn't  care---he's uncivilized, its apparent, its his problem--and most people will look down upon him for it, and laugh maybe if its really bad (say he farts a lot in public)-- there is nothing I can do--except educate him if he is willing so people don't laugh at him--otherwise, just don't care--\n\nsay, if he starts picking his nose or farts a lot, you don't have to 'tolerate' it...you just don't look or be near by him--end of story. \n\nif he is rude---just make it apparent that he is being rude and just do your job...\n\nwhat you have to realize, is not to let it get to you, imagine him as made of cardboard and electronics...he's a peice of crap--if he "subtly insults you" or pushes your buttons--you don't give a fuck--unless he goes to far, and then you make a point of demanding respect, in extreme cases ,this requires you to quit your job..\n\nOtherwise, don't be so 'finiky' I guess is the only advice I could give you.
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Yeah I've heard of this and I think it's disgusting. Free will is one thing, but there's such a thing as taking it too far. Men and women each need some privacy.
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I believe that HORRIFIC is the word you are looking for.\n\n~ ♥ ~
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Triggers are evil and should be avoided at all costs.  Try to find another way to accomplish the task
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hey w8 a minute.did that jm guy reli just say rape is a necessary evil.dude thats fucked up.omg ro ur pregnant!y dint u tell me.we need to talk ; ) lol
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I've been robbed at gunpoint before, and - in my experience anyway - I went into an almost dream-like level of hypercontiousness.  It was like everything was moving in slow motion and I was totally aware of everything going on.  I don't remember feeling 'afraid', per se. The language fails an adequate description, thus there really is no way to answer this question unless you've been through it, and even then, it's hard to express.
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give him the silent treatment..we hate that
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too much control is bad\nits interesting