how can you tell if someone  want to be your friend  or is just being nice to you?
607689
Go ahead and have the self confidence that someone wants to be your friend.  You won't be annoying if you see her a couple times a week for an hour or whatever.
109404
you can only get a true friend if the person you befriend is a person that wants to be a friend.   in other words, it's not something you can do, it's something you get.  it does help to be a true friend to the one you want to be true to you.   that will prove to them that you value them and thus they will in time, return that value to you ..... good luck and i'll be ya friend
32400
I would get a mutual friend to ask around a bit discreetly. Just get them to say something like, "hey have you ever thought about being more than just friends with so and so" and see what he says. Then based off of that you will know how to act around them. Friendships to relationships are always a very hard transition.
478826
find a nice way to tell het that s what friends are for
631610
You learn who are your real friends simply through experience.. Time will tell if they are true friends . It is very hard to find a TRUE friend. But if they are true, they will never lie to you or hurt you. They will be there for you through the good times and the bad, not just when things are going good. But there's no way to tell you who are real friends and who aren't.. That's something that you will figure out for yourself over time.
771290
maybe it is actually just a friend, ask him
659406
First you have to know her but make sure you don't become her "friend", get the point?  \n\nIf she thinks of you as just a "friend", it's game over....\nthere are plenty of tips around the internet\n\nbut one of the most common is to be funny\nyou don't necessarily have to be nice and don't be rude\nbe intriguing.
877397
I think you should be his friend.  Which means saying hello when you see him and smiling and, if you want, asking him to sit next to you.\n\nand if he doesn't respond in a similar fashion, then try not to take it personally, yet continue to be friendly.\n\nDon't get bogged down by the details.
674607
The same as any friend.  They should be supportive, encouraging, pick you up when your down, and laugh with you in the good times.  Only real difference is that there is a deeper emotional attachment, not physical, since that can easily fade.
265627
ask them!  if they are a friend they will tell you
221052
You being totally honest and up front with them. No faking fealings. Be yourself and not what others want you to be. If they dont like the real you then they are not worthy of being your friend.
514210
I take it as a positive sign... girls by nature are abit shy and at times may take her own time to be ur friend... but thats the time u need to keep ur patience.. u cant force someone to be ur friend.
542572
this is not a way of finding a good friend.... How can u know that he/she is good?
272791
Don't be mean.\nI think, treat her with respect whether you like her or not. If you don't like her, tell her you only want to be friends. If you do, then wat r u waiting for.
953470
be direct. its no big deal.\n\nif they are your friend they will be flattered either way, if they like you too they will respond.\n\nif they are dismissive you have just learned a valuable lesson\n\ngood luck
114718
if you are friends wit the person disappear for some few days and see his reaction after that you become closer to him then pull away and see his reaction to that too by doing this you get to know how much he wants to be wot you friends would just comment and brush it off but when he starts to take an interest in you it becomes a little more important where you hve been
599799
well if she shows some sings that she cares about you then she is true friend, if she likes you just coz you are smart, pretty or intelligent thn she is not your true friend.\n\nif she likes you for who you are, then she is your true friend.\n\nif she is jelous of you then she is not your true friend.\n\nif she tries to change you then she is not your true friend\n\nyou cant ask this question to someone else rather than yourself. do you think she is your true friend by heart? if yes then yes, she is your true friend.\n\nyou have to be true friend if you want someone to be yours.