how to get over a guy you have to see all the time in the work enviroment?
613185
That is pretty tough to deal with.  I had something similar when I dated a neighbor for a time.  The best thing to do is try to move on.  Get out there and meet some new people.  The worst thing you can do is dwell on the ended relationship, it will only make you feel like crap.
310619
be honest with your boss. if you only want to be friends just tell him in a nice way that you find it difficult to date any one that you really like as a friend and you cherish your friend ship, so you don't want to let sex or any thing else come in between your relationship because a Friend is hard to find and easy to loose
1100166
get yourself busy and try not to think about him that much...... in time you will learn to accept things as they are and you will not be feeling hurt as much as you are feeling now.  definitely he is not for you.  and since you were the one to leave him, it is easier to learn how to forget him.... life goes on.  do something worthy, go out with your friends, meet new people, and start living life again.
333753
you need to seriously cut down on spending time with him and phone calls, etc. he's just not into you that way. the only way to get over him is to distance yourself.\n\nCall up some other friends and become very busy and important!! \n\nYou might be surprised how much you won't be thinking about him after a week or two. \n\nGetting away from the situation always puts things in perspective. you will come to find that he is not amazing enuff for you to agonize over!
1052872
You may have these feeling, because you are jealous . You broke up with him for a reason, and now he has another man. Hold your head up , and just go out with friends, and have FUN. do things to forget him. Don't "look" for another guy, rather, let them find you. that always seems to help me when i can't get over a guy.
797592
the best way to get over a guy is get under another
1010435
don't do it....i did just that thing and ended up very sad and very screwed over. after we broke up i still had to see him everyday, so that made it even harder cause i still cared very much for him. think hard before starting a work related relationship with anyone
1077283
getting over someone takes time.  All you can really do is surround yourself with friends, positive energy and anything that comforts you.\nGood luck! and be strong and true to yourself.
319683
PRAY. I KNOW IT MAY BE HARD BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM I KNOW I'M GOING THROUGH IT NOW FIND SOMETHING TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME. PLEASE DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF JUMPING INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WOULD BE DOING IT TO GET OVER HIM YOU MAY THINK THAT IT IS GOING TO HELP YOU RIGHT BUT IT WILL HURT IN THE LONG RUN
892726
Work relationships are bad news.\n\nFocus on someone that is not in your business world.
109862
He is your brother you are not supposed to get over him just redirect your thoughts into the positive instead of the negative...think about what you can do to make his time there better and do it....just be a good sis
793349
He's not the only guy in the world.  Pick yourself up and move on.
769713
The answer to it is simple\n\nGet yourself a life, get busy, get so busy that you don't sit still even if its working two jobs, the busier you are the more resentful you will be of this idiot messing you about and taking up your valuable time.................\n\nWhen you can go a couple of days without thinking about him you have been cured of leaning on him.........then pack one job in and get partying\n\nblunt advice but it worked for me good luck love xxxx
633198
Girl i feel your pain. Im in the same situation. I had to let him go and just be friends with him. I mean i loved him to death but when you don't spend time with each other, you will eventually move apart from each other. Im not encouraging you to break it off with him if you don't want to. Just try to request the same days off from work and set them as y'all days anddon't let anyone get in the way of that. But if he can't cooperate, then thats when you leave his @ss.
543570
You say you have a new man, if you have you owe it to him to pull yourself together. You needed time to grieve and it doesn't happen over night or from a bottle. Loosing someone from your life is painful, in my experience the most painful thing I have ever had to endure, reminders don't help but they don't go away and you need to look and then dismiss. It will get easier, that's what I keep telling myself and in my position I work with my lover of three years so I get a daily reminder that I wasn't good enough. You need to refocus your energy only concentrate on the good things, accept that from time to time he will pop up accept the thought then find something else to think about....like your new man if you don't make an effort this relationship is also doomed.
733808
I had two workplace romances a long time ago.  Neither of them caused a problem when we broke up.  How long have you worked with him?  Do you sense even a hint of a vindictive streak?  If so, keep away.  If not, tread carefully and take it slowly.
156944
Depend  on your relationship with the persaon\nif he is you play mate tell him or her your job has stop \n and see he/ her reactionh