What else can i do to make my girlfriend get over my past?
595532
You need to find someone that is going to love you for you no matter what. She's obviously looking for that perfect someone that just fell out of the sky without a past. Good luck to her and let he go. Maybe shell realize that you are a great person no matter your past!!
336737
I kinda` understand your girlfriend but the situation you`re caught in too...I think that the love chain brought the two of u back together everytime you two broke up.It`s hard to stick without your beloved.The fact of ignoring her love was not a good idea at all,even though i believe that u have done it just to satisfy you self-ego...and now you are the one who wants to get close to her again...After brokin up several times i think that it`s better to take it slow,show her that u care about her ,without pressuring her cause this will scare her away even though i`m sure that she still loves u...She`s hurt...and all u have to do it`s to gain her confidence again,dip a deeper place in her heart than u already have.By rushing her u will not receive anything.Do simple things for showing her how much she meens to u,that u can change and that the two of u together can work it out.It`s all about motivation and how much do u really want things to work out...and of course...u need love from both sides...\n I hope that my answer will help u in some way... :P
1159093
Sounds like she is very insecure and doesn't trust you.  Maybe she isn't really ready to settle down and she is using the past as an excuse.  I would suggest some premarital counseling for the two of you.
293078
Leave it alone! He does not need to relive this with his girlfriend. I'm sure you've made it clear that if he WANTS to talk, you're ready to listen and that's ALL you should do. You're not his therapist and you are not qualified to be his therapist. You're his girlfriend and need to respect his boundaries and quit prying into pieces of his past he does not want to dwell on.
575416
You can't! You blew it! Time to move on. A woman will forgive, but she will never forget. Neither should you and next time you meet someone you really care about, consider not doing things that will make her not trust you.
71625
i really dont know but maybe... show her the things that were associated with her past, talk to her always... and if she has medicine, advise her to take it as to what's doctors' advise. love her dearly.
249889
I would tell her that she deserves more than to cling to a relationship that's over. There are a lot of really great guys out there that would treat her as she deserves to be treated. Tell her you hate seeing her waste a single day of the wonderful life she could have, but that it's up to her to take that first step to put the past where it belongs...in the past.
877553
forget about her and the ring , u r a married man now so act like it , put the past in the past
479575
The best cure for that is time. If you want to speed things up try talking with her as little as possible. Also hang out with old friends that you have not seen for a while, friends you do not have in common with your ex and who are fun. They will make you remember how life used to be when she did not exist. It helps to start imagining day to day life without her.
502156
the more u try to forget her , the more u will remember her. lost love is like sand , u cant hold it ...\nso get along with your current gf... i am sure u dont take her to places u visited with ur 1st gf .pls go to all those places and enrich ur heart with the new experiences. u cant delete the old memories , but u can fade them away by new memories. All the best !!!
745806
Prove to her that you are loyal to her. Tell her that the past is past. Find a way to tell her how you feel and make her happy.
640385
Make fun of yourself and how you get into trouble.\n\nIf you can make her laugh, then act like a friend for a very long time without being pushy.\n\nIf you don't have this kind of patience, get a new girlfriend.
632148
the question is how you feel about that part of her, because nothing you say or do will undo her past.  if you can handle that part of her and any trouble it may cause between you, good luck to you.  if you know right now that you hate it and that it will cause trouble (and the fact that you're asking this implies you're not quite ok with it) then i would really think twice.\n\nbut in either case, talk this out with her; both your feelings about her past and her feelings.
958669
Wait, you might want to give her some time to get over her boyfriend first. It would be better to approach her once all of this mess has cleared up. When it does, simply come up to her and say "hey, I'd really love to catch up with you- did you want to go see a movie this Saturday night?" and take things from there. Be patient with her- it might take her a while to get over her previous relationship, so you just need to give her time and an open ear, so that she can talk to you about what she's going through. Good Luck!! :)
1157482
Time heals all wounds. Be patient, and do things that take your mind off of her. If that isn't working because everything you do, you say "I remember when we did this together", then go to your local strip club, but don't be a mope. And don't think you are going to get lucky with a stripper, because there is a 99% chance that you won't. Spend some dough and get a couple of dances and you won't be thinking of her, I'll bet.\n\nGetting over your gal is going to hurt. It might take some time. These are the best bits of advice I can give, as we are all different, and we all get over things in different ways. Me, I mostly prefer to be left alone to deal with my grief. But one thing that I know will make me feel better is to do something nice for someone else. It doesn't have to be someone you know, either.\n\nHope that helps.
991510
That's a tough one, maybe you two can hang out and try to avoid conversations that will stir up feelings from the previous relationship, but then it will seem like they are avoiding the situation, so maybe the best policy is to talk about whatever has happened and ask the person how do they think they can move forward. Maybe they may say they need sometime to themselves or something, or maybe you can suggest to them that they take up a hobby, like exercising, or jogging or something like that. Hope this helps!!!
379799
Forget it.  You'll get over her.  You won't respect yourself, and she'll never respect you either if you let her walk on you like that.  You don't just casually leave someone.  How would you ever trust her again?   You'd spend your life worried that if you don't jump through her hoops, she'll bail again, and she probably will, too!   \n\nJust tell her, "I'm sorry.  I wish you all the best, but that ship has sailed."  You don't need to humiliate her or rub her nose in it.  Take the high road, which will make her realize all the more that you are a decent guy and she shouldn't have done that.  You can't fix this one, but maybe she'll grow up a little for the next guy.