I have feelings for my girlfriends friend.?
600260
You've never met either of these girls and already you're in love?? You can't know a person just by phone or letters or however you're communicating.  Have you seen these girls in a picture? You have to get to know their personalities before you can start having real feelings for someone.  Not just by the way they look in a photo.  If you want to go meet them and then decide, then do that.  Do you plan on living there or something? Why would you want to date someone you can't see all the time??
855816
i would tell her....you having these feelings and holding it in is already changing your friendship more than you realize, but be carefull how you go about it coz sometimes nothing good can come out friendships evolving into more espeacialy if she doesnt feel the same.\n\nid suggest a strait forward conversation with your friend.    \n                                goodluck!
240639
i completely understand what ur going through, i was in the same boat a you. my advice is, if he really is happy with his girlfriend right now, i wouldn't say anything. because right now you're his friend, and you should be happy for him, unless she really isn't good for him (meaning she doesn't treat him right). but, if and when you do tell him, make sure you do it in person. just tell him that he is a great friend, and that u love being friends with him b/c he is such a great guy. then tell him that somewhere in the friendship your feelings changed, and now you like him. that's all i can really tell you. i hope i was some help.
581798
You should just be honest with her and tell her how you really feel about her feelings for you.If she is really your friend,then she will back away.If she doesn't,then drop her for someone who really cares about your feelings,not just theirs.Also,No you are NOT prejudice. Be Blessed!  Monica
808533
if your a real friend thenjust tell her how you feel. honesty is the best answer.
272154
tell her exactly how you feel. if she still wants to then yes. establish that you are not interested in anything more serious.
866525
hmmm...i dont think so...look if you like your friend that has a girlfriend is not right to end  your friendship with him, coz in that friendship love can grow and if the girlfriend leaves your friend you could tell him your feelings to him and you could end up together well good luck wid u 2!!
524354
I think you would be very smart to ask your friend first what he thinks about it. But be ware that he might still have feelings for her, even though he broke up with her. But still ask amd make sure that it is cool with him. And if its not, dont push the issue leave it alone. And if he is down with wit, go for it. Good Luck!!!!!
533269
sorry 2 hear tht... yeah i saw ur other questions about ths guy b4. actually i also experienced ths kinda situation b4. at first, i was really good friend with ths grl & passed 2 funfull yrs until i found out tht i love her. and i had hint tht she loved me too. but other things came up i couldn't give her a chance 2 express herself. but whn i expressed myself, she rejected saying tht she never felt like ths towards me, which's a lie. also all on a sudden she hooked up with some1 else to take myself off her mind & replace me with him. the most shocking part is, being heartbroken i still tried to be her friend but slowly she made a distance between us & destroyed our beautiful friendship.\n\nmy point is, affection towards a friend happens all the time. but there r some issues involved regarding friendship, other ppl around u etc. as a friend, u were suppose 2 knw tht he already has a gf. but u didn't, which is not usual. so mayb he doesn't hav any gf & story of having a gf is the most reasonable way to dump u with hurting u less. and don't bother if he doesn't like u or not. if he didn't like u, u wouldn't be yur friend. but it can be true tht he's not feeling attracted 2 u as he told u. tht doesn't mean tht u r not attractive or he doesn't like u. there can be a lot of different reasons involved regarding friendship or something else.\n\nfrom my opinion, look into yur heart. if u think tht u really want him & u knw tht he has actually feelings for u thn stick 2gether & mayb someday things'll work out. but the downside is u donno if thts gonna happen. so there's a chance to get heartbroken again frm the same person for the same reason. on the other hand, continue being friend & move on, find another guy who understands u & doesn't hurt u like ths. but whtever happens, yur friendship wth ths guy will not gonna be same frm now on.\n\nhope ths works. feeling sorry 4 u!
338300
Well, if he is aware that he has developed feelings for you, then he should first break up with his girlfriend and then get together with you. Because so far what you described is more like a fling or a crush. You can do very little now, you have done what you were supposed to: show her your feelings, which by the way IS NOT WRONG. You should honestly talk about it with him.
978094
ugh. thats reallly tricky. its sorta against the "friendship code" yeah....but it just depends on whether the friend hes been with cares and how close you and her are.....and if she's fine with it, then go for it....and if she's not....you have to judge on ur own how important that friendship is to you.
340739
hmm i dunno if this is possible but why dont you both invite them somewhere, cinema whatever as friends, bowling i dunno. See which one of you gets on naturally with him more. you never know there may be a speical bond between a certain two. talk to her afterwards about it and tell her how you feel but say you dont wanna hurt her. at the end of the day, its kinda up to him, it may just wanna be friends with you both!
741239
It's always hard when you start having feelings for a friend, you don't want to loose the friendship, but at the same time you want to have more.  Take it day by day.  Invite her to do things on a casual level, dinner, movies, shopping for Christmas gifts.  In time, if she does have more feelings for you, you will know it and it can go from there.  Be careful, if the only thing she wants is friendship, take it because if she is as special as you say, you don't want to loose her.
358723
aren't you supposed to like your friends?\nnow if you were thinking of as a girlfriend - tell her you have guy friends already
399057
First ask yourself these question? Did you know her before you knew your girlfriend? Is her friendship worth your relationship with your girlfriend? If you say yeas to both of these question then you should still be friends with her. If that friends doesn't do for you or you can't trust them and call them a real good friend then let them go.
205508
stop thinking this ............you will loos eyour best friend as well as the girl friend .........keep your emotion for time being withing and wenever they broke off ......propose her
391515
If it is complicated for you to tell your bf how you feel then you should keep things the way they are and not risk loosing a friendship..Time will only tell if she has these same feelings for you or not..