Which have you done more - broken a heart or had yours broken?
594196
Sadly... had mine broken by others.
199874
well i have done both so i cant really say but if you have to then handle up learn from your mistakes and try not to let it happen again
358218
Nope, you should have been treated that way.\n\nWill you do it again?
366190
There isn't a way to "Cure" a broken heart.  Time is the only thing that mends it.  I've tried everything and I can tell you that ONLY time will work. \n\n However, there are things that you can do during this time that will make it mend stronger.  Get involved with your friends again.  I know that you left them behind to be with that girl.  So start going out with them.  Have some fun and go out to eat and then a movie.  Go on an adventure like rafting or go help a charity.  \n\nPutting other things higher on the list than that girl will help you mend stronger.  The more things that you have on your mind besides her, the better things will be.
1143065
Yes.  We do get heart-broken.  It happened to me 28 years ago.  I never dreamed it would still bother me after all this time, but, it does.  Guys sometimes act like nothing bothers us but it does.  We feel.  We love.  We hurt.
227349
I think not coz being brokenhearted once is enough. If a person really loves me, he would never ever do something that could broke my heart. why reconnect when there tons of other people out there thats far more better
962334
What a great question, you perversely cheered me up just by asking it.  My vote goes with the broken heart healing faster, because it can partly depend on a certain amount of time passing, combined with meeting someone new.  Unless you're a Miss Havisham type.\n\nBut I've known people with truly crushed spirits and they are dealing with something deeper inside themselves.  Both scenarios are difficult and cause prolonged introspection, but having a crushed spirit does not necessarily involve an outside person who can be 'blamed.'  Even if  it does, there's just the person left alone with their crushed spirit -- it's a more individually-based source of misery, so the person would have to find their way out completely by themselves and find a reason for living.  The external factors are less important than they are when a person's heart is broken.  It's worth watching the film 'In the Mood for Love' and the sequel, '2046' in which the characters get a dose of both, so there's no escape.
203001
I regret getting married, because I put my ex-wife through so much stress and mental pain; we should have realized earlier that we were not meant for each other.  But, "'Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all."
975809
Well, I've always been very sensitive, and can get into some pretty bleak arenas emotionally.  My last break-up hit me very hard and took a long time to get over.\n\nHowever, I have a chronic disease that can be pretty darned painful - to the point where I went to get xrays before I was diagnosed because I thought I must have broken something.  So I guess I'll have to go with physical, because I'm very aware that if I don't keep my disease under control the pain will be constant.
682316
i screwed up my past. I'm lucky to have him now. he cares enough to make my life a better life. sometimes is really hard to do something i think it's true, but I'm glad that he is there to always give me the better alternative and guess what...I do much better .
541032
who hurt you? who made you cry?
113176
Yes, love does hurt..once its gone...Have you ever broken up with someone? ...
921952
i can undeerstand, i was wit a guy i KNEW wasnt rite for me for 4 years....i was crazy abt him and d mere thought of losing him made me sick...after 4 years he dumped me coz he had another girl he liked more..i hurt so bad....but i survived, but i know it wud have been much better for my self respect if i had listened to my head and dumped him earlier,....hurt u will b, but better tht u take d initiative now then later, tht will hurt more..
285468
for me its my heart...\nand its been broken several times and never mended
588686
Why, what have you done, and when did you do it?
1047331
Yes I have.  My ex boyfriend is a cancer.  He was not good at "working" on things unless it benefited him.  But that is just my experience.  They might not all be the same.  Good luck.
193145
The best way to mend a broken heart is to accept the fact you can never have him again and move on by making your days busy and by doing things that will make you happy. Be with your friends because they will really help you ease up the pain.