What do girls do in order to keep themselves 'cool' and productive at work and school without a boyfriend ?
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I'm no pro at it, but you must take pride in your accomplishments. Do things to improve and enjoy yourself - to be independent, happy, healthy. Men are more attracted to independent, self-confident girls anyway.
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Take this long weekend, and treat yourself.  Get your hair done (new style), do your nails and get one new outfit. When you feel good and happy you attract the same to you.\nJoin a club or group at school that has both boys and girls in it.  Or join a civic organization in your town or church that has both boys and girls in it.\nTry hanging out with groups, it's easier to talk to someone in a crowd.  Don't try to hard or force conversation, just be yourself.\nYou can do this.  Have fun!
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simple, you dont.\nyou just have to be yourself, be happy with who you are, be sociable and good mannered.  women will smell that.  and hunt you down soon enough.\n\nemphasis on being sociable. you cant be found if your home most of the time.
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High school for me was a very memorable one. I just enjoy it. I don't study that "hard", but I study to have good grades. It's not a problem if you will have a boyfriend of not.  The thing is, you study so you will learn.  Having a boyfriend is part of growing up. It's just a matter of how you handle things especially your time.  \nJust remember, if you'll have a boyfriend soon, you must have the ability to handle things in balance. If you are reading your notes, have ur focus on it. After, then you can think of something else, boyfriend for forbriend, and friends. "You can't hit one bird with your gun if your looking in the other bird beside it"\nIf you will be able to handle it, then, you'll gonna make it to the end. God Bless.
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When I was single, I just used to ignore it completely and work all day or do stuff that won't remind me of that.\nPretend like it's not there :P
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well,  i don't think so . i use to be a confident little girl with no worries, but as the years went by, and people started to tease me (and there is a plethora of homework now) i am always concerned, or anxious about me and my school work. i need to learn how to just relax.  i think it is  many moments that lead to one.
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being clingy.. and emotionally un-stable.. and on the contrary being so rational about everything..\n\nbeing so materlistic when asked to judge a setuation\n\nphysically.. not caring for her self-hygeen.. like having dirts beneath her finger nails.. or having dirty feet, or not washing her teeth.. such things turn off any man.. and also being smelly.. \n\na girl has to be interactive personality with man's interests.. and also caring for her self as a girl and accepting -liking- her self as a girl too..
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not anyone at work that you know is single or divorced?\nperhaps at church?(if you are a church going person)\nor perhaps ask your fellow female friends if they know someone who is available(remember to ask if the gent is stable(mentally)lol....need to be carefull out there!....\n              good luck!
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Be proactive but not obsessive. Make the effort to go out to parties, dating events etc. If you have any particular interests try attending meetings for like-minded people. If you see someone you like dont be too proud to let them know, cos what have you really got to lose?  \n\nOtherwise get on with the rest of your life, exercise, meet friends, do things that make you happy. You will then be radiant and girls will flock to you cos they know you dont really need them. \n\nMost of all, TRUST that it will all work out as it's supposed to! All the best!
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Exude confidence.  I think that is the best way to celebrate being single.  Do things by yourself that may normally be for couples like going out to a nice restaurant, see a movie or show up to outings by yourself and meet everyone there.  It might sound silly, but it takes a strong person to show others you are comfortable being single within a dating scene.  \nBe proud too, that you can find your life fulfilling when your main goal isn't finding a good man, getting married and settling down.  There is NOTHING wrong with having that as your goal, but it still is not for everyone!!  There is a lot to be said about a completely independent woman with a healthy life, active career and great friends...so show it off!
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Managing time is high school was no problem for me. I actually managed to do quite a bit of homework before and after class and hardly ever had to take anything home but big projects.\n\nShyness is not something that you 'just get over' it's a habit you have to unlearn. It takes practice and risk-taking. My advice would be to join a club that interests you. That way, you'll have the opportunity to talk to a small group of people with similar interests. \n\nAlso practice making eye contact. Smile and give compliments. Try to cultivate a few friends rather than tap-dance for everyone. Remember that everyone's favorite subject is themselves, so asking people questions about them or their interests is a good way to have a pleasant conversation.\n\nGood luck to you!
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option A go to bed and stay in bed and make your girl feel like she's a priority\noption B stay up working all night like a chump\noption C go to bed, give your girl some good loving for a while, then get up and work all night\noption D stop pretending you are working when you are really just here on Yahoo Answers!
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First of all find a queit relaxing place with no electronics or distractions! (i go in the bathroom lol nothing distracting there!) second makes note cards and study witha freind.
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just chill and be yourself
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You say that as though you are ancient! I would not worry about not having a boyfriend at the moment. You are still young, after all. Even shy girls find a guy in the end so don't worry about being left on the shelf - your time will come!\n\nTo prepare yourself for a future of dating, get to know yourself. Know your likes and dislikes. Think about how you feel about things. It will sound strange but if you give everyday situations some thought and know how you feel about things, that is a great way to maintain a conversation - with a boy or a girl. Practice your conversational skills. Think about the facade you present to others. Maybe boys don't hit on you because you are so pretty. So maybe you should think about how you make yourself more approachable.\n\nAn engaging personality is worth more than looks. If you can work on your self confidence as well as your conversational skills, you are more likely to hook a boy's attention - and maintain it.\n\nGood luck!
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There are so many different ways.  Just being there for them.  Being concerned for what's going on in THEIR life.  Having fun.  Having girls' nights out.  Late night talks.  Sticking up for your friend when it seems no one else is.  Being their shoulder to cry on when their heart has been broken.  Being yourself.  Giving to the relationship as much as you are taking.  Acceptance of them and of you (you need to accept yourself and care about yourself in order to do the same for someone else, it's hard to be a friend if you don't treat yourself well).  Teasing.  I'm sure there's more! You're asking for advice and that's a way good start! Good question too.
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1. Breathe. Yes! It's that simple. Breathe deeply, but don't hyperventilate. Inhale as though you were sniffing a delightful scent. Then stre-e-e-tch your arms high over your head as you slowly and completely exhale.\n\n2. Set boundaries. Just like the stressed-out mom who sat in the playpen to keep away from the children, you can erect some barriers. Decide what you will do — and when. Better still, decide what you won't do and dare to say "no." Try to avoid anything, and anyone, who wastes your time.\n\n3. Clarify your goals. Decide exactly what needs to be done, and plan a smart way of accomplishing each task. Oh, and give yourself a pat on the back every time you achieve even one of your goals, no matter how small.\n\n4. Put yourself first. That's right! If you aren't functioning at your peak, your work and your relationships will suffer. Find time for yourself, and try to do at least one relaxing thing each day: Take a bubble bath, or read a chapter of a favourite book.\n\n5. Give yourself a break. It's okay to goof off, cancel a lunch date, or miss a deadline now and then. In six months or 10 years, who will remember?\n\n6. Get spiritual. Get in touch with your spiritual values, and align your plans and activities with them. For instance, read an inspiring book, then figure out how to incorporate what you learned into your day-to-day life.\n\n7. Take five. Right now stop what you are doing to cherish the moment. Savour whatever you're drinking or eating. Or go outside and smell the air, the flowers and the trees. Feel the wind, sunshine or rain on your face. Listen for tiny sounds. Take a moment every day to marvel at the wonders all around you.