My wife is too self-conscious.?
612784
Just keep telling her that you love her, show her that you are attracted to her.  Women are very self-critical.
738082
the wife gets this but she is a lot older than you .....
1021678
hey dont be so panic....there must be some reason why she is behaving that way...are you a nagging hubby( for a change...hahaha)...well it happens when person keeps complaiing about everything ..and when he is never happy with things....do you complain about the food she makes?? do you complement her if she prepares good food for her?  do you try to prove how she is wrong in bargaining?  may be because of some reason she must have lost her confidence...\n\njust talk to her and ask her..everything will be ok....you know what when we cross 60 we again start behaving like kids.....may be she has started behaving little early...so handle it patiently and as both of you dont have kid...you got to care for each other...\n\nso best luck!!!
554886
I would consider doing it in her presence! It portrays an image of not being satisfied by her! Think about it and imagine you being the one next to your wife masturbating while you arent that asleep!
499921
No, dear.  See, what is happening is she is letting you think you are right just to make you feel good.  She is wise, your wife.  It is one of her many clever ways, to once in a while "admit" to being "wrong."  Of course, she is never wrong!
903946
My wife is a better looking version of Audrey Hepburn...
527232
Wow!  That's a tough spot to be in.  Now, you're probably not going to like what I have to say but I wouldn't be doing you any favors if I sugar-coated it so here goes:  \n\nI would suggest you take her to a sexual health therapist.  A good therapist will have special training to help her through this.  You wife has nothing to be ashamed of and nothing to be embarassed about.  Pain during sex is very common and a good therapist will help her work out just how much of this is psychological and how much is actually physical.  \n\nIf I were you, I wouldn't even sort of suggest that it's "all in your head" to her but, well, you probably already knew that, right?\n\nGood Luck!
658042
Times have changed. Men no longer have to work and be the head of household. If this bothers you so much, why don't you talk it over with your wife? Maybe she doesn't realize that she is "in charge" so much. Some guys need that extra push or the reasurence that someone else will take care of it. Has your wife always been "stronger" than you, or did she just resently buff up? If she has always been like this, then you  knew about it before you said "I do." I am not stronger than my husband, but I do wear the pants. He knows this and he is ok with it. We do not think that he is "P.W." but he just needs someone to tell him and guide him in the right direction. If this doesn't bother you, then let it be. If it does, then just talk to her.
1014721
You need to talk to your wife about this and see what you can do to get her on your level! I know excercise always seems to bring on more energy, especially sexual energy! Maybe she could try this! Keep things exciting and stirred up to keep her interested!
377473
When she asks, just bend down and kiss it and say it looks fine to you, then hug and kiss her and hold her close to you.  Don't make an issue of it.  Tell her she is sexy and her body turns you on.  I know my wife's belly does.  It doesn't bother me at all.
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How many men present this morning have a neighbour or a friend with a wife who is more intelligent than your wife? She's a woman who has common interests with you, interests that your wife finds boring. She's talented, a classy dresser who cares for her body and carries herself in a noble fashion. You ask yourself, "Why doesn't my wife sparkle like that chick?"\n\nFriends, comparison is a deadly game. Don't do it! It leads to coveting, adultery and divorce. Coveting blinds you to your spouses positive character qualities. Coveting makes you despise your wife's humility, meekness and virtue. Coveting robs your spouse from the position of Top Dog in your life. She is no longer your most cherished possession, she is "The Wife." Coveting tears-up families like useless scrap paper. Don't do it!
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if you love her and trust her let her be, she is who she is and thats why you married her so dont change what you fell in love with (big mistake men make) she'll stop if she thinks it hurts you - we all check men out beneath the waist, don't mean were gonna screw em - men check out women too - just life- have fun\nBTW - your wife must think you are a super hubby too if she can be herself comfortably in front of you than that says a whole lot about her awesome husband
64511
I do. I was just discussing this with my wife last night. She is now so fake inside and obviously out.
829472
You are respecting her by discussin everything and moving slowly WITH her in mind.  There is no problem with anything you are doing.  The issue is what you were taught about sex.  Were you taught to be embarrassed about your body as a child?  To hide it, not to talk about it, not to touch it?  I think that is incredibly unfair. \nHow can we love and respect ourselves if we don't love and respect our bodies.\nWe are not just spirits and brains.  Our bodies exist.  It sounds like you are experiencing things in a wonderful setting - an intimate relationship with mutual respect.\nLeave the guilt at the door, but bring the respect to bed with you.
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ive been married 3 years one thing ive learned is just when you think you figured them out, the rules change.\nHere is what i've found maybe it will help you.\n\nnumber one be honest. it may maker her upset but she will get over it and be glad you told her what ever it was.\nnumber two be understanding. Dont get me wrong this is not a bad remark, but women are very emotional. Dont let yourself get out of control cause she melts down. Sometimes they just have to vent and are ok.
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Immature!\nHow about talking calmly with her. It is her body after all, and even though you may not approve of it, this is a very addicting drug, and maybe helping her instead of playing get you back's would be better. \nShe is your wife, I assume you love her more then anything, be supportive and understanding.
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sorry to say this, but your wife sounds trife! any woman who wont recognize a man thats willing to take care of you and you cant even make sure he comes home to a clean house? she sounds verrrry comfortable. like she knows she "got you". she probably talks shit about you to her girlfriends. do you go away alot? talk to her, if that doesnt work, tell her to kick rocks!! you dont sound happy with her, you should always be happy.