What would you think about a boyfriend who secretly.....?
609560
Wow...so now you know what a dishrag feels like...
469709
I wouldn't trust him because sometimes flirting can lead to other activities that are not in a Girlfriend's benefit! Men who flirt too much are show offs! They want to know that they can seduce girls! They're powerful that way, and so No, I wouldn't trust a flirty boyfriend! There are so many girls out there trying to steal one's BF, wouldn't want mine giving them mixed signals, if you know what I mean...
656836
Assuming you meant Cheating not cheaping :o) \n\nThe first question you need to ask, is to ask yourself who is more trustworthy in this situation your friends or your boyfriend? \n\nThey may know that he is sneaking around behind your back or your friends may just want to mess your relationship with your boyfriend on purpose. \n\nThen second ask your friends why they think he is cheating on you (Do they have proof? Seen him with others? Who?) and if they do you need to ask your boyfriend if what you have heard is true.
976585
Well the reason he is not openly flirting with you when other people is around is because he is a smart guy he has a g/f so he does not want anyone telling her and having her get a red azz with him about it..lol  you could say to him when he is alone with you .how come you only flirt with me when we are alone. maybe then he could give you some insight as to why he does this. but how can you get him to see you are really good for him . i don't you think you can . maybe he just See's you as someone he wants to flirt with and have a good time with behind his g/f's back . he might be a player.
439405
Sure, as long as they are both okay with it.  If you are really good at keeping secrets, what he doesn't know won't hurt him.
1056647
i wont listen to them. For what reason is he my boyfriend. Of course because he must have been loyal & sincere. But yes if some very close friend would have told me then my case would be different. I'll try to investigate about it.Then i'll ask my boyfriend myself if he has been cheating or not.Cheating is not a big issue till its just flirting but if he would be dating other girls then i would simply hug him n say go0d bye baby...
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Think of it the other way around.  Say that he is wondering the same thing.  If he was honest enough to tell you about it, what would YOU say and do?!  Your boyfriend deserves your honesty: at the very least, have the courtesy and the courage to let him know how you are feeling.  And be prepared to crush his feelings.  If you play the cheating game, YOU KNOW it will eventually come around to bite you on the ass!  Whether it's your guilty conscience, or the inevitability of his finding out some time anyway, he WILL find out!  Do you know the difference between right and wrong?  Of course you do!  Are you willing to risk your relationship with your boyfriend?  If you are, you have no business being his girlfriend, and he's much better off without you!  Like you girls say about us, think with your big head (you know what I mean!).
1103894
Yep! Sure I would hide him and talk about what he knows for hours and days long :) Where would I hide him? In my home cuz I don't live in the USA and it would be soooo hard to find him in my house ;)
153334
The real answer comes as a question. If your boyfriend is secure in your relationship with him, he probably won't mind. On the other hand, if it really bothers him, then he is responding to an offhand remark as if it is a threat to your relationship. In this case, it may still be alright to others, but if you're smart, you won't continue to do it if you know it upsets him. Here's the real big question you  need to answer, and only you can. If your boyfriend is getting really bent out of shape over an innocent remark because he's that insecure, do you really want to invest more of your time on him in the first place? \n\nNot to tell you what to do, but my experience has taught me that jealousy and insecurity are symptoms of greater emotional problems. The person with the problems needs to first acknowledge them, before he can ever get the help he needs to overcome them. As long as he thinks you'll put up with it, he never will admit he has a problem. Don't deceive yourself, as many young women have done, into thinking that you can change him. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY. Better for you to just move on. This may sound cold, but it's probably the best for him and certainly would be for you.\n  Hope this helps you.
468794
When they have a lying boyfriend who never confesses about the things hes done...
857482
He's a boy, but probably not a genuine friend.  It sounds as if he is hiding something under the guise of selective privacy.  You are right to be suspicious.  If I where  you, I wouldn't snoop.  Rather, I'd just dial the relationship back to a less serious level.  Take control and put him in a position, where he can't take your relationship for granted.  If you are living together, I'd move out, regain your full independence and just date.  This process will prompt him to either want to commit or continue to play the field.  In any event, he's got to come clean for you to ever be able to fully trust him.
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I don't think you can hide something without conciously knowing you hid it. I suppose you could forget something, but then it probably wouldn't be 'in your eyes' as he put it. If you truly aren't hiding anything, but he thinks you are, then the problem isn't you, it's him. He's got a trust issue that you two need to talk out. Whether it becomes a huge issue or not is up to you two. As for why someone would hide something...sometimes it's because they hope something will just go away, or they're really afraid it would end the relationship. But again, if there is nothing you are hiding, then you need to sit him down, remind him of how you feel about him, and assure him that you are hiding nothing. If he can't accept that, then it's going to put a strain on the relationship. Ask him why he thinks it past the look in your eyes, and if there's anything he's unsure about, worried about or experienced in the past that would make him think it. If you love him, and he loves you, then you'll work through it. Just go in knowing there's nothing hidden, and positive that you'll smooth over a minor wrinkle.
923522
OK, lets look at your question...  "while I was housesitting this week I accidentally ran across undeniable evidence that he has a boyfriend".\n\nNo, you did not "accidentally" run across "evidence", you were being nosy. To justify you being nosy you then turn around and say "he's been LYING to me over and over for months and months". If you feel so hurt and angry, how do you think he will feel when he finds out about what you have done while housesitting? Yes, you should confront him...  about you being judgmental and not being the true friend that you have pretended to be to him.
1019685
If your not have nocturnal emissions, I wouldn't worry about it.  But don't tell your boyfriend.
1159748
LOL!! That was a beautiful way to handle that situation!! <bowing humbly>  There is nothing wrong with what you asked him and if he's never talked to you like this before, I would be a little suspicious.  Why is he so defensive?  It was an innocent question, nothing clingy about it.  Something doesn't sit right with this...I could be wrong...but it sounds like he's trying to hide something.
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i think he just dont want his parents finding out. He wants to keep it a secret maybe cuz he dont want to lose you cuz maybe he thinks if his parents find out then he wont be aloud to see you and he dont want that to happen dont break up with him just because his parents dont approve if they love him they should accept him for being gay i have a friend that is dating one of my friends that is really religious but he's not and he hasnt told her because he dont want her to break up with him for it so maybe you should just talk to him and find out what the reason is for him hiding you and maybe get him to talk to his parents
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I agree those are what most people think, and the main one is Why? I think it comes down to, did I do something wrong, why did he/she do it? If your friends or family know about it and don't tell you I feel that's a huge betrayal. They either don't want to get involved but I think it's wrong for them not to, because then you look like a bigger fool when everyone around you knows but you. Both sexes need to be honest if they're cheating because it catches up  with them in the long run anyways. JMO