I am feeling guilty.Pls help?
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617233
Go to your GP and explain how you feel. They should refer you to one of their in-house councilors, which is free. Good luck
648613
The best way to handle this is to say, yes, I did this, yes it was wrong, if that's what you believe, which you must if you feel guilty, and then realize that people make mistakes. If you can apologize and rectify it, do so. If not, well, people are human. Only God is perfect.
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you must feel so mixed up and betrayed but try to focus on how lucky you have been to only lose three years and a few DVDs. Give yourself a holiday if you can and spend sometime with friends and family. Talk and cry about it until you feel better but keep away from him. I found out someone I lived with was a gangster and robbed banks for kicks. When I found out he was lying about himself and tried to leave him I got a beating and he hired people to kill me. Thank God I survived. My advice count your blessings, change your phone numbers and get this creep out of your life, your heart and your head. sorry you are hurting so much but real love is out there. keep the faith
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OK lets try and unravel this into its core components.\n\nA police officer [I am assuming] has told you that you cannot approach and/or speak to this person.\n\nYou however, feeling guilty over whatever it is that you have done, feel an overwhelming desire to be punished for your transgression.\n\nThis is a normal reaction for many people as they feel the psychological need for punishment as this provides a sense of "closure" and a shift in guilt.\n\nIn your case you actually want him to do something wrong as well, not just punish you, as this means that he cannot point the finger at you because he has done a horrible thing too.\n\nI know people will say..go to your brother first before coming to the temple...but that does not apply to you in this situation.  You harbour no ill will towards this person!  You cry out to God because your sin is before you.  \n\nGod always hears this cry and you need to focus on your relationship with God first.  This is the path to forgiveness for you, not the friend.  You need to understand that God forgives you.  Then, you may be able to forgive yourself.  Finally you may be able to approach this person and ask forgiveness.\n\nRemember, they may not want to forgive you, and that is their right.  Your peace and forgiveness with God is not dependant upon this persons responses to you, even though you did the wrong thing.\n\nGod may be workingnin that persons life too, and Gods timing is not always ours.  Also, some people just need lots of time to be able to forgive, and just because you may be in a hurry to receive it, does not mean you should hurry them up.\n\nThats why it starts with God for you, so that if this man cannot forgive you, you have peace with God that you did all you could to ask for it....and who knows, in time that might help this man to forgive you anyway.\n\nForgiveness is something you ask for from another because it gives THEM the opportunity to heal from the hurt you have done to them.....\n\nIt is never asked for to make YOU feel better about the pain and guilt that you feel for having caused it.\n\nIn your case, you cant approach this person anyway, so this is a perfect opportunity to seek a counsellor perhaps to give you some support with your feelings and how to deal with them.
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Hate to say this but you are putting you through the emotional rollercoaster.  It's possible to stop.  Think about being open and honest with these two about your feelings, doubts, and fears.  You'll feel better.  And remember, the world won't end if this connection you feel goes away.  You'll still be worthwhile and valuable as a person.
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You just do. Maybe you feel guilty after your betrayal, of 1.50 to 10 years ago, and can't stop thinking about the person you betrayed, and can't stop feeling guilty about not getting married sooner, nor about not giving your child a father, which is what all good mothers would do. Then you're ready.
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im guilty,the sunday paper,but i cant stop myself and i dont care
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Nope, never.  I don't feel guilt very well, and when I do I usually just end up laying a huge guilt trip on someone else accidentally.\n\nThis morning, I kind of blew off this guy that wanted to pray for a girl who's about to get chopped up into donated organs, and then like ten minutes later, I was talking to this lady who's been stressing out about doing this speech for me that she'll be giving on a retreat for kids, only we don't have any kids signed up yet.\n\nShe said "There better be some kids by the weekend, because I'm gonna be mad if I had to do all this work and nobody shows up!"  and I was like "Yeah, me too." without even thinking about it.\n\nOnly, she's giving one talk for the retreat, and I'm supposed to be in charge of the whole thing.  God, you should have seen the look on her face!  She just about fell over appologizing to me "Oh, I'm sorry, here I am just thinking all about myself..."  I bet she still feels guilty.\n\nAnd now... umm, what question was I answering?  Oh, yeah, you're totally cheapening the whole meaning of cutting, you should stop that right away...  Well, cutting isn't good for you anyway, but, lots of people cut, and some of them lie about why they do it so people won't think they're just weird.\n\nReally, when you hurt yourself on purpose you usually feel guilty no matter what.  That's your body saying "You shouldn't be doing this."  That's a bunch of christians quoting that whole "Thy body is a temple of God" don't desecrate it bit.. and that whole "Thou shalt not tattoo thyself no scar thy body for the sake of the dead" verse.\n\nWell, I've made a good and thorough jerk of myself here, so now I'm off to ask a question about where all the trailer parks are, or something.  Then I'll go to bed, and tomorrow I'll figure out how to apply to this college that's almost two thirds women, since they seem so desperate to have me, a guy, go to school there.  Geeze, don't twist my arm or anything, huh?
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I don't blame you for feeling this way.  Many poeple do.  Hang in there.  Don't worry so much about something you can do nothing about.  I guess we'll have to deal with whatever happens.
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i've spent years pushing myself to exercise when i'm sick and then i just end up feeling worse for longer. take it easy and don't feel too guilty- you'll get back to your routine soon enough. take advantage of the time you have to let your body rest.
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Feeling like crap is one of the consequences lying cheaters face. Sorry, but feeling guilty, worried and confused is what she deserves.
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I think you need to ask yourself why you feel guilty about it.  Do you spend too much time doing it?  If you spend way too much time on it, then it could be that you have an obsession with it or something, and that you should spend your time doing something better.  But if you are just spending an average amount of time doing it, I can't see why you should feel guilty.  It is a healthy thing to do.\n\nPerhaps you feel bad about your motives.  If your motives are wrong, that could be an explanation I guess.  You really need to look within yourself to answer this question.  For most people, this would not be wrong.  But each of us is called to do different things with our time that God has given us, and you have to ask yourself what God wants YOU to do with yours.  Only you can really answer this question.
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Just trust to your heart and the call of your conscience.That s when you have done some thing wrong you feel guilty or when you are doing some thing right you feel happy .
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Terribly, terribly guilty. Usually I apologize, and start crying. I don't yearn for attention, but if I am not getting attention because I hurt his feelings, I feel pretty dang bad.
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Don't feel guilty.  Get up and have a fantastic time with this new guy.  You aren't mourning, sweetie, you just broke up with someone!  Enjoy yourself and do what makes you happy!  Never feel guilty for doing something that makes you feel good!
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You sound like you suffer from PTSD or post traumatic stress disorder, relating to growing up either in a dysfunctional family or exposed to a lot of abuse. I recognize this from a professional stand point & a personal one.\n\nI know EXACTLY what you mean about feeling guilty for existing. Do you often put yourself down, mentally? Like when you do or say something that you later thought was bad, etc then suddenly find yourself saying in your head, "OMG, you're so stupid ____!" This has to do w/what your core beliefs are. Core beliefs are little internal, learned, beliefs about oursevles that aren't true. Things that develope over time when we've been living in an abusive situation.\n\nTo really get over these problems you are having, I seriously recommend you find a counselor or therapist who specializes in treating PTSD. It wasn't until I found one who did, that I learned to over come my issues w/assertivenes & learn to love myself & realize that I am a valued human being who has the right to exist.\n\n*hugs* If you want to talk more about this, I can go more indepth, click on my profile & send me a msg, I'll be happy to help you out, because I KNOW this feeling all to well that you are talking about.