I am living in usa with my wife and 2 kids , my inlwas interfear much in our lie and my wife is a simple one?
601118
Ask your wife what she thinks when your In-laws "let down" on you.  This should open a conversation that will allow you to tell her how you feel as well.  She should understands why you are not at the same financial level as her older siblings.  Work together making your financial goals.  Check the progress often together.  She can set her parents straight if that's needed.  No one likes to be put down and should they keep up this behavior, I would make the contacts with them as minimal as possible.  (The natural consequences for people who are jerks...no one wants to be around them.)   Hope this helps!
967294
she would need to get documents from the india gov't. hse needs to be legal or wont pass immigration. Hopefully u really are in love and shes not in it to be with an american. My friend was in hungry and now she takes every dime and owns his life. its really sad how they turned out. i hope the best for you and your wife and hope its true
941274
This is a very unique question.  it sounds like your wife is a BIG GAME PLAYER!  But at the same time you don't want her little game to ruin your life.  Who knows what she'll do.  I'd tell her to go find another round of friends, and you're going to live your life.  She will keep you going through this bull crap for life if you let her.\nSounds to me like she's wore her welcome out where she just came from, and is running back to her rock that's you.  Well sometimes rocks crumble.  I would let her go, you're not responsible for her irrational behavior.  And in no way are you to blame for her actions.
327453
Married with two kids
505807
The only solution to this mess you have gotten yourself into is to come clean with your wife. Your marriage couldn't have been that happy if you felt the need to cheat in the first place. Maybe through counseling you can salvage your marriage. \nThis casual affair is not asking that you call this child yours. It IS your child regardless of whether you like it or not.\nYou made a mistake by trying to bribe this woman or asking for an abortion. That would make any woman angry.\nYou need to come clean NOW, if you wait, it WILL  come back to haunt you later.  Make sure you tell your wife yourself. it will be so much worse if she hears it from someone else. And believe me she will hear about it. You upset the other woman and she will tell whoever will listen about you.\nGood Luck!
44876
I would suggest you don't hurt your wife that way and come between two sisters. Will you really be able to live with yourself knowing that you came between two sisters. Obviously if you love the sister or anyone else, you should be asking for a divorce, but DO NOT tell your wife you are in love with her sister, dude.................
661179
It's kind of hard asking that question since I'm American and I know the American guidelines.\nThe only thing I can think of is to contact your court system.  Let them know your husband is a bigamist(means being married to more than one person) and that he's living in a different country and what can you do to make things right for yourself along with putting him in his place.
311077
You SERIOUSLY sound like you have major issues with your wife, from seeing all the questions you've asked. For one, get a life or, two, for God's sake, get a divorce or something instead of just bantering every hour uselessly about your wife.
635403
You need to get a different perspective - change your job.  You also need to develop a different strategy over your children.  Put yourself in a position that shifts the focus from the difficulties you have with your wife  that will continue obviously at least for the present, so that your children are not affected at least by your side of the argument.  They need you to be there and be strong.  They need a frame of reference with their father that will steady them and keep them grounded.  Kids pick up instability in their parents very quickly.  Do not do anything rash but continue on being a stable, grounded human being yourself and put your own issues with your wife away.  The kids now need a new life with both of you.  Please make the journey for them is as free from your own and your wife's issues as possible.  They do not need the bitterness, retaliation or confusion that comes with this.  As for God - pray and ask His direction.  He loves your kids too so you definitely need His wisdom.  Ask for it - you will get it.
239761
Tough one, need to contact an attorney.  She seriously has some issues.  I would think she's bluffing about the whole thing if she will not provide proof.  \n  She must not be over your hubby or is a drama queen.  Don't think you can charge someone criminally for lying, too bad.  You may have some civil action, possibly.\nGood luck.
337196
ask for joint custody. thats the only thing i can say or else go to counsleing to work on the marriage. do not i repeat do not stay together for the kids. it will only hurt the kids in the long run.
383925
It's unfortunate that there is a third person involved because he is going to blind her and confuse her thinking.  You really need to remind her to think about the children.  This person she is seeing is not going to take her serious with two children; I just can't see that happen.  Definately discuss this issue with her as well.  She is being extremely selfish; I don't know what led you to seperate but either she wants a divorce or she doesn't.  Talking to another person is a terrible idea if she wants to make things work out with you and you have to put your foot down and asap.  Best of luck to you!! OMG!
1107777
I guess you learned the hard way that you can't bad mouth family to family.\n\nI don't like lying, so I can't tell you to keep it up, best to just say, "sorry for the misunderstanding" if she says anything. Then, keep your mouth shut around the brother!
828062
Lets see...your wife and sister have run off with the minister, you haven't paid your mortgage in 8 months, your wife's cousins stepbrother is coming to live with you....all from your previous questions.\n\nWhy do you need to tell lies to get people to notice you?  Why if you are going to come on here an lie don't you get your story line straight and stick to it.\n\nI doubt that you are old enough to be married, I know from your line of BS questions you are not mature enough.\n\nSo...why don't you grow up?
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well chances are, she IS lying to you.  It may not be that big of a deal, and there may be some good reasons for it (although I dont think theres ever good reasons to lie)\n\neither way, I am sure she has her reasons, if you cant bear with it, leave her.
944311
You'd know better than us...But this woman sounds like she has severe mental problems. Could that be right?\n\nThere are just plain cheaters and jerks who don't care. But then there are people who are disturbed and need help. \n\nShe must be in the latter category. Who else would involve her kids in this? And bring them to a hotel where she's meeting a random dude? God knows what could've happened to them. Not to mention the diseases your wife could get! That'll mess the kids up real good for a long while. \n\nGet them in therapy please. And your wife too. She needs help.
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need more info. Do you have children or are you still living at home,etc.