I'm gay and i think it's totally wrong and i tried to switch back but i simply could not , what should i do ?
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Get some support to help you live as you are rather than how some other people think you ought to be.
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You are not as confused as you are scared.\n\nIt is not easy to admit alternative sexual preferences, and going out with someone of the same sex and being seen is admitting it.\n\nYou obviously have the feelings and are just not brave enough to stand up and let it all hang out, so to speak.\n\nIf you cannot find a way to take the bold steps on your own, you should seek advice, even professional counselling.\n\nRemaining as you are now is not good for you.\n\nWell, you have taken the first step and asked for help here, so I hope that you continue along this road and find a way to accept what you are and who you want to be.
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What?! I'm GAY?!?! NOOOOOOoooo!!!
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Deal with it. \n\nAccept it, and say that you are not gay(unless you are...).\nTell him to accept you as a hetero.
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Im afraid that you are gay at this time.
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It sounds like you are really running from yourself.  Until you come to grips with your sexuality and be comfortable with it you will continue to be confused.  If you like guys, it's Ok.  Or maybe it's just this one guy?  He's especially attractive?  \n\nFace your fears and see what happens.  Hang out with him in a group of friends and get to know him better.  If he likes you, make out.  It may be more of a fantasy than a reality for you.  You are at the age that you need to find out who you are.  When you decide what you like and who you are, be comfortable with it.\n\nIf you try to live a lie to please family, friends, society, etc... you will never please yourself.
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This happend to someone I knew.\n\nwhat I suggest is keep on truckin' and be who you are.  Unfortunately in our society there will be people who will not accept for who you are, family included.  \n\nSometimes its too hard on them when they see you as a woman, some families prefer to just turn a blind eye and pretend that everything is alright.\n\nHopefully you have an open-minded family.\n\nClose-minded religious folks + GLBT is like oil and water.
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Don't change who you are. Your not committing sin for  being Gay so don't worry about it okay.
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My best guess is that you don't think that it is wrong (even after you do it).  My best solution would be that you seek some psychiatric help (I mean that in a good way).\nEven a better solution is that you go to a bar or something and seek a permanent soul mate (if you don't have one).
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I've changed sexuality (or rather my perception of it) First I was straight, then I was gay, then I was ashamed & scared so I thought I'd be straight...\n\n...I was in my twenties before I realised I was Bi - would I change it? Not on your nelly.\n\nI hope you have a fantastic time in college - but remember you're also there to study LOL!
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Light b, you have the freedom to be anything you want to be.  Your choices are like the steering wheel of a car.  Each choice you make in a certain direction moves you more in that direction.  You are not a victim, you are a free spirit.  If you don't want to be gay, then don't make choices that are gay choices...make choices that are more in line with who you really are.  Don't let any one else tell you who you are, be who you are and be authentic.  Feelings are like the weather, they move and flow along, change, multiply...they are not constant.  If you have certain feelings fine...they will just move by if you don't grab onto them.  They can be like clouds just passing through.
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Oh, but I thought it was just so "impossible" to be gay and a Christian, too...\n\nI feel bad for people like that who live their entire lives ashamed of who they are.
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First stop calling yourself Gay or Bi. Then stay away from gay people or at least from their organs. Do away with the gay mannerisms. Become who it is you want to be: A MAN! Your a man now and you want a woman to keep you warm. Go to the STRAIGHT bars. Buy a woman some drinks. Make sure she sees all that money in your wallet. If that doesn't work out, go to the next woman and so on. Think of it as training. You'll find the woman of your dreams and have fun finding her. Have fun. Be happy. Just don't be GAY! \n\nOh, and Tessa...Our sexuality is in our minds, not our genes. Because if it was in our genes, we'd find the gay gene and ERADICATE IT!
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I can't claim to know anything about your problem, I'm a straight female.  But it just broke my heart to read your question.  This must be so difficult for you.  I don't know what to tell you to do, maybe you should try to wait for the right person to come along before you say anything, at least then you would have some kind of support.  I can't speak for your parents, of course, but if my child came to me and told me he's gay, I would be loving and supportive, a parent always loves their children, no matter what, at least that's the way I feel about my child.  I just wanted you to know I feel for you and wish you the best! :)
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I'M NOT GOOD AT THIS BUT I WILL TRY TO HELP YOU OUT...WHEN YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP (if you are) WITH A GAY, HOW DO YOU FEEL?ARE YOU HAPPY?CONTENTED?SECURE?YOU NEED TO WEIGHT THINGS OUT, HOW HIGH IS YOU LEVEL OF HAPPINESS. \nand when you are in a realatonship with a opposite sex, how do you score yourself when it comes to commitment, happiness, security etc.\nIf you feel you are more comfortable with living with the opposite sex then by all means convince yourself to divert your attention to the opposite sex. \nall you need to do is to assess yourself what you really like, what makes you happy...the important thing here to consider is HAPPINESS- YOUR OWN HAPPINESS.If you think you're more happy to be with a gay (anyway, some gays do share deep feelings not just sex- just find the person) then go for it, If you think you're more happy to share your life with the opposite sex (other women too just want sex,sex and sex again) then open your eyes and your heart and start looking.\nGood luck...I hope I helped you in a little way.
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That sounds like a problem with the other people, not you or your friend. \n\nI'm sure he isn't the only gay guy there. Perhaps the only one brave enough to come out, knowing that uninformed people will look at him weird. Share his bravery; be yourself, hang out with who you want. If people want to hold that against you, that should teach you something valuable about those people. And the next time someone else wants to be themself and come out, or be friends with your friend because he's a good guy, they'll be that much more likely to do it.
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Omg...I didn't get a chance to read all of it becuase I was soo scared for you. DON'T KILL YOURSELF! Please do not do that please. Life isn't as bad as you think it is. There isn't anything wrong with being gay and if you asked god to make you get rid of this problem. Maybe he's not listening and sometimes don't worry about that because we all don't know why we're here. Just live, be happy, and even if you're gay you can have a good life. I'm sooo scared that you might do something terrible. I tried to IM you but you don't accept those but whatever you do. Dont end your life. There are so many people that care about you and love you and it's soo sad to know that you feel this way. I've been through this. I wanted to kill myself once but I never had the guts and I'm glad I didn't because life gets so much better you just have to get through the hard parts. Don't listen to what people and society tell you. They are not you and they don't know how you feel. If you feel that you need to distance yourself from your family awhile then you need to do that but don't hurt yourself. That is the worst thing you can do. That wouldn't be helping your family at all. That would be killing them also. They love you even if you are homosexual I'm sure they do. If they say they don't then their lying becuase their homophobic. So keep your head up please. I don't want you to kill yourself. Email me if you need to.