I just asked a question about why guys try to stick their tongues down girlfriends mouth on first date and ?
598913
Those guys are just very materialistic, and are just concerned with their own selfish needs. Those guys are trying to see what they'll get you to do next. First they'll try to touch you, or hold your hand. Once they get you to shake their hand, they try to find when they can make they're next move. Not all of them are like that, even though they might want to kiss, or even just hold hands. You need to be careful, with even just touching. I refrain from even holding hands with my boyfriend. Touch is a very powerful thing. It's best to save any form of touching for when you get married. Try it with the boyfriend that you have, or if you don't have one right now, try it with the next one and see what happens. If he doesn't respect you for it, then you know that he's definitely not the right one. It'll be hard to get used to, especially if you've been touching guys for awhile, but if you refrain, then when you two do actually touch (even just holding hands) it'll be an awesome feeling!
491994
It sounds like oral thrush, you naughty girl, what have you been doing with your tongue?  I see from previous posts you're a man hater.
92311
this guy i was dating: i was "Dangerously In Love" with him,but all he could think about was my "Humps", so "Hypothically" he said "Wait", i only have "4 Minutes" so baby let me tell you about my "One Wish",i said no because i dont want to hear from no "Scrub", and from someone who thinks hes a "Hustler". so to end this conversation i told him that im going to just "Shake It Off".......
1117296
I agree, girl. Why not taste it demselves? Wen dey taste it demselves, den dey can talk. My boyfriend tried to tell me it was sweet. Ha, my azz. Oh, and btw, girls who swallow got guts.\n\nEDIT// It's NOT the same wen u kiss ur girl after she gave u head, just to let u know.
627433
The first two people being idiotic and just plain rude (respectively), I'm not sure what to do exactly here.  You must consider the fact that you had sex on the first date, however, also consider how much of a "good guy" he is (exclusive of the sex, although that is a bonus).
856572
to many wholes in this like swiss cheese. think about this for a minute here's a guy that you say is soooooo sweet  and smart. and yet he is with his girlfriend and trys to flirt and pick you up by saying lets hang out only you and me. whats wrong with this picture?\n\nSome sweet guy you have on your hands there. Can't you see he's not so nice of a guy if he's doing this right under his girlfriend nose. what makes you any thing special once he gets bored of you he'll do the same to some other poor sap. Tell him your not interested in being another notch on his belt. The guy has no class.
450366
He just wants to be short and sweet with the answers... its good that he's a great listener, most guys don't even have the patience to stay still for minutes... if u really want to know what on his mind, well just ask him... gdluck...
185120
The main reason is not to hurt the current guy or have him think we are slutty.  Also it is possible that she's only counting relationships, not the randoms.\n\nPersonally I do think that this is pretty sketchy behavior.  But mostly forgivable if explained.
533887
im assuming the conversation thing wouldnt be that much different between straight and gay relationships. \n\nnot sure if you already know them or not but if you dont i normally approach them with a little nonhurtful bust. \n\nex- (if a girl has high heels on) ill approach \nwow whats the deal with the shoes.\nwhat do you mean\nnothing.. they sharp\nohhh thank you.\nno.. that actually wasnt a complement ... i mean theyre sharp.. like could kill someone sharp.. so your like what 4'2 without those, right?\nthis sets you up as a challenge, original, starts a conversation and shows your confident. \n\nIf you already know them a couple of key points \nPeople are attracted to confidence. \nPeople are attracted to humor.\nPeople want what they cant have.\nPeople also love mystery.\nNot to mention talking about themselves\ni try to use these 5 concepts when trying to pick up someone\nwhether its your first approach or 5th date it doesnt matter really what you say nearly as much as the way you say it and the way you carry yourself when you do.\ntherefore.\nAct as your qualifing them rather than qualifing yourself to them. Unless they are stupid they will know you are interested when you come up or call back or set up another date (whatever stage you on) but dont be at their bekon call , make them work a bit to get you and give them gift of missing you. (obviously dont go overboard with this) \nadd a bit of confident humor in it. and give them some mystery by not talking about yourself much at all. if they ask tons of questions just answer them with what they would want to hear then funny it up \nex. so how many guys are you dating right now..\n- none..... my wife really gets jealous easily.\nor if they are really pushing this works great on women so i assume the opposite would be true.\n(insert nosy question here)\n"one thing youll find about me is i dont play 20 questions... i prefer truth or dare..... and im afraid you're just not that lucky"  see,... confident, sexual ref but not perverted, funny and sets you up as a challenge. \n\nuse these and he will probably ask you out. if not definetly shouldnt abject to a cup of coffee. good luck man. you'll do fine
425749
Do you pay?  I'm not saying she a golddigger but she ain't messin wit no broke nigger!  LMAO\n\nSerious though... maybe she needs some more time... if she a shy girl she might want to take things really slow...\n\nAlternatively maybe she thinks you are 'friends' and doesn't know that they are 'dates'...\n\nOr she just might think that you are who she should go out with so she's trying but she is just not into you physically...\n\nMore information of the girl herself necessary to answer this babe...
518699
That sounds really weird.  It sounds like she's either asking you if you're gay (or bi) or maybe even suggesting it.  I personally would question why either of you take something like that seriously.  Why would you get embarrassed (getting annoyed I can understand, but why embarrassed).  As for her why would she take offense?  \n\nMy guess is she is trying to ask you if you're gay. Are you? Answer for yourself, then deal with her on it. Tell her the truth, whatever that is, and dont worry or be embarressed.  After all either you are or not. There's no point in making it more complicated than that.\n\nOn the other hand what about your girlfriend?  Is it possible she is having gay or bi thoughts herself? You should ask her what exactly is going on.
1052620
why is a guy asking this ???
1006528
lol... ok but we all know that when you get here the talk will have nothing but sexual innuendo, and when the date is over is the last thing you will be kissing is my lips!!!! but you can stilk send me flowers the next day telling me that i gave you the best head you ever had!!!!!!!!!
16499
That is a personal question and being such everyone has to answer it individualy.  However its my belief that if you make out on the first date your too in a rush for life and need to slow down and smell the roses.
132843
On the last date I went on, we were eating at a restaurant and when we got up to leave, my date helped me put my coat on.  He was really good at it!  I made a comment about it and he said that his grandfather had taught him how.  It was a smooth little detail but it was very impressive.\n\nBy the way, in case you're wondering about the trick, he said it's to hold the coat lower than you would think.  This makes sense because it's hard to put your arm up when it's behind you.\n\nThat was a little thing, of course.  What really attracts me to a guy is a positive attitude and if he's willing to just have an open conversation with me.  If I feel like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going and on a positive note, that's a turn-off.
176701
Some guy feel the need to act like that in front of other people. Ask him if he could try to include you more next time your around other people. If there's another date request a private one, were he won't have anyone else to act up for.
47152
He, he, he.\n\nBecause guys want what they can't have. And as much as they say they want you, they also want to respect you (even if they don't think they do) which is why there is such a double-standard persisting in society, even in this supposedly advanced world we live in today. If a girl is intuitively ready to have sex on the first date, how many more mornings after actually happen? Generally, women are not permitted to enjoy sex as freely and openly as men, and so you're up against not just his desire for you on the first date, but also the whole of humanity as you ponder, tonight or the next?\n\nLet him put in an inch, and then he'll want to unleash a mile...you've got to hold out, because generally that means he'll stick around, growing more curious and enticed than ever before because there's a mystery about you, an air that you carry that he's forced to keep sniffing out until finally, you give in... Keep in mind this applies only if you're into this sort of thing. Women can be just as ruthless and incisive as men when it comes to getting laid. Which is great, since women, like men, should be taught to love (and respect!) sex too.\n\nI guess it all depends on what both your motives are. Do want to be chased? Or do you want to be chewed up? That is the question...