Gosh, I really like this guy, but I went to a dance and really hit it off with another one. What do I do?
594364
So...talk to this new guy more and make sure it's not just one of those "really good at first...not so good deeper down" kind of things. You might not want to ditch your original guy if it turns out the new one isn't so great after all.\nAt the same time...if your old guy isn't showing that much interest....wouldn't you want to be with someone that actually shows solid interest instead of hesitation?
273944
You need to get to know the both of them and see what they offer, and are they good for you, dont go out with them just cause there hot, thats taking advantage of them,but try and get to know them. You might just like the other better than one!
1074813
If you all like the same guy - there are going to be 2 people getting hurt.  Talk with your friends and try to come to a conclusion where either 2 of you back off and let one girl have a chance or you all decide to leave him alone and just stay friends.  This situation does have potential to cause problems between you and your friends, so be aware of what the consequences might be and if going out with a guy is worth it.
263880
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
122185
just go with your heart. Im sure which ever one you chose will be the best for you. I personally think you should go out with the guy that you talk to more. The other guy youve dumped before so youve had reasons to not like him.
915282
I bet you kissed the other guy cause you wanted some attention that Greg was failing to give you. This happens. I kissed a guy and lost a boyfriend. He wasnt your boyfriend so dont worry about him. Im sure you are not leading him on and being cocky. Give it some time. Let him come to you. If you werent together you shouldnt be trying to prove anything to him. He has an issue with it and in time he will tell you what it is. In the meantime carry on with the norm.
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
52685
You never know how until you try and learn.  I tripped over my feet and still do (shhh don't tell anyone).\n\nYou are shy, block out the world.  It's you and him on the dance floor.\n\nPeople don't like you.  That's their problem.\n\nThe girl should go.  Make him happy and fears should not stand in the way of either persons happiness.  To do it takes courage and shows it's true colors in the face of fear.
323214
NEVER ever NEVER miss a chance to meet someone new, even if just to be friends there was obviously some chemistry being you both saw eachother more than once and were both too uncertain to make the first move, sometimes being a little more aggressive can pay off, just imagine if you would have just said hello and introduced yourself, you could have possibly at worst have a great new friend to hang with.. my personal advice for the future is you only live once and make the best of every experience you have in your life no matter what it is!! Good luck on your next chance at Mr So Hot!
792485
If guy #1 likes you, go for him! but you sound kind of shaky on that because he moves away from you when you talk right? Maybe he's just immature. or maybe he's lost interest. if he shows other signs of lost intrest (like not looking at you, feet pointed away from you, short, abrupt answers) then i suggest you go for guy #2. \n\nI hope this works out perfectO! :P
88059
That's easy. Move on. What are you standing around waiting on? this guy likes someone else. you go and hang with the ladies. Someone else will be by to notice you. It's not the\nend of the world yet. There are more guys out there.
134807
Keep yourself busy..take up something new...For example, you always wanted to learn ballroom dancing..go for it..do something that you never thought you would do to keep yourself occupied...at the same time, you can meet new peopl, and might find the other guy to replace him...
46638
Aah - that's a sticky situation! I would hope that you have only sent "signals" to one of those guys. And you also need to decide if guy #1 is worth the drama. Because there may be some for a while. But after a couple of weeks I think guy #2 will get over it. He just has to find something else to think about other than you:) Bottom line - if you have strong feelings - go for it and let the best friend know without saying a word that you are unavailable to him. Good luck!\n-GirlShrink
805647
You should talk to him about it before the dance. Or ask him if he wants to dance while your there. If he doesn't, tou should put on the flirty face and say please. But I think he'll say yes. So don't worry.
242804
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
608478
You've already got a good head on your shoulders! You know what's right and wrong. There's no problem at all with you sharing a dance with a guy (As long as you remain vertical). I would answer in the exact way you already suggested - "Sure, but I am married". Let's him know up front that you're committed, and still allows you both to share the dance he asked for. Good luck!
1042638
Leave him behind, if he had another girl on his arm the very next day after you asked him out, then he is definitely not serious about a relationship, he probably said yes to keep all his bases covered, just go to the bar have a few drinks, maybe play some pool, sit back and unwind you'll most likely meet someone that serious about a relationship in no time at all. And if that's not your goal then grab a rebound guy" been one my self a few times" and show him off to your ex and see what his reaction is. well that's all the advice i can give with out breaking a million more of the guy codes, but hey good luck with what ever you chose.