is there anything special i could do to make my sex life with my girlfriend more exciting?
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invite another girl...\nor another boy\nbuy a popper..\ntie her...kick her..bite her...lick her\ni dont know..\nbuy the kamasutra...its cheap.
1090781
My sexy girlfriend is way better
427375
You need to sit down and have a talk with your partner.  DO NOT make it an accusatory conversation!  Tell her that you are satisfied with her sexually, but want to try new things.  Give her some idea of what you're looking for, examples, whatever.  Ask her if she has any ideas, also.  Throughout the conversation, reinforce that you are very pleased with her, you just want to experience new things with her.
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Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
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there are sooo many things to do to increase your sexual drive... if that's the question... \n\ngo to a sex shop. they have fun games (not necessarily vibrators), and lotions... and things that tast good, and warm up that you can put on her body... find out what her needs are, or what she wants that you dont do for some reason... try something new... and make her body feel like the sexiest and beautifullest body you have ever seen or touched.
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take care of yourself, if you know what i mean, before having sex with your gf. youll last longer that way, and might even get a better org.
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Pay attention to the "spots" on her body.  It's very psychological as well as physical.  clitoral stimulation while performing is a real good trick.  If that doesn't work then simply ask her.  If you are open enough to have sex then you should be open enough to talk about what the needs and likes and wants are.
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Give her loads of compliments and take it slowly. Take your time over foreplay and give her lots of attention. Talk about things you enjoy and get her to show you how she pleasures herself. She is the best person to tell you what she enjoys so make talking about it fun and lighthearted and be open minded to her answers.
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Honestly, we would have to know what you are doing NOW in order to tell you what would make it BETTER...you know?  Good advice is always ask, ask, ask!  If she knows what she wants then you don't need to ask strangers.  If she doesn't know what she wants or is embarrassed to talk about it, here are some things to remember:  stimulate the clit, be gentle, be generous, use your hands on other parts of her body, make her feel sexy.  Talk to her about what she likes and pay attention to how she responds when you do something.
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There's so many things to talk with your girlfriend,,starts with the basic,,what does she like? movies,music,books and everything you could think of,,find out what interest her,,what makes her mouth dry,,what makes her mind blow,,and if your comfortable enough,take the conversation to the next level,,talk about sex,what position does she like best,,what makes her reached orgasm,,what did she like you doing to her,,what are her sexual fantasy,,if you cant think of anything to talk about with your girlfriend,,you must be a very boring person...keep the faith
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No No No this ain't gon play.\n If you really care.  I mean if you really, really care, then acquaint yourself with some of the many many books on the subject and spend some time discovering tthe complexities of making love. Don;t just tke the easy way ou by asking somebody else who has not necessarily got the word on anything but their own possibly narrow experience.\nTake your time and learn the ways of love, Just like you need to with the one you are with. While making love to her,Slow loving attention and showing your appreciation for things that you find particularly attractive and unique about her asking her to let you know what you are doing that she especially likes or would like from you.--all these thing go a long way toward memorable,  mutually satisfying sexual relations.\n  Be attentive to her talk, her clothes, hair, perfume,  her style, her preferences, her needs OUTSIDE the bedroom and all the rest of the time. That's when she learns to regard you as a truly big man. and she develops a stronger longing to be close with you. Follow my advise, make those little efforts throughout the week,  and you wont be sorry when THAT TIME comes. Because love-making begins long before you lie together and if it doesn't, you won't be lying together long if at all.  Believe me .
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Are you looking for just role play or to try things you two have not done yet like anal sex, toys, movies, ect... To role play, I would ask her what turns her on, like a man in a uniform, a boss/secretary, exotic men, ect. Then surprise her with costume/decorated room to the theme. She may be too turned on to turn you down. On the toys/sexual items, you should ask her and NOT surprise her, you might get socked! She should feel comfortable with whatever new things you guys try. If she is a little reluctant, try to push the issue a little because most people are afraid to try new things, but once they do it, they like it. If she is not budging, leave it alone and maybe ask at another time. Good Luck
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Wow... so many people answering "just don't make it feel as good".\n\nWhat's the point of having sex last longer if it's BORING?\n\nOkay, in order to make it last longer and still feel just as good, without having to resort to doing things like use a topical anaesthetic on your penis, do this:\n\nFirst, when you're having intercourse, pay attention to the muscles you're using to thrust with.  Chances are they're the muscles in your butt and in your thighs.  Believe it or not, that makes you have an orgasm quicker.\n\nInstead, let those muscles relax and switch to thrusting with your lower back.  It will keep intercourse feeling just about as good as always, you don't have to lose any of the sensation, and it will last longer.\n\nSecond, if you prefer an approach where the female gets to be on top, lay down and instead of keeping your legs flat on the floor (or mattress, or whatever), pull them up so your thighs are at a forty-five degree angle away from you.  Then while she's on top, let her lean back against your legs.  This not only gives her a bit of support to relax on, but it points your penis down and away from your head, which again prolongs the period before you ejaculate without having to sacrifice the sensitivity.  \n\nThis also works if she likes to face away from you.  All she need do at that point is lean forward and brace herself on your knees with the palms of her hand.  It puts your penis at the same angle and provides the same effect.\n\nNo fancy toys, no de-sensitizing lubes needed.\n\nAlso, as always, I recommend learning to become multi-orgasmic (yep, it's possible for men, too).  Check out the books "Any Man Can" and "The Multi-Orgasmic Male".  Both are excellent instruction manuals to keying you into getting to not only last longer, but have a whole lot more fun than you thought possible while doing it.\n\nAny more questions, just let me know.  =)
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KEEP IT FUN.\nNOTHING MORE.
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Try new and exciting things together that neither of you have ever done before.  Any interest in sky diving?  Bungy jumping?  Not that advnturous?  Join a gym together and work out together.  Play board games FOR SEX BETS!  If u win u get whatever u want and if he wins he gets what he wants.  Makes it much more interesting!  Pick something u have ALWAYS wanted to do and then just have him join you!  Or ask him if theres something he has always wanted to do but hasnt and do that with him!!!!!  Good luck to u!
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Talk about sex in your email and what you want to do to one another . Just be true to her and don't let your hormones ruin your relationship .\n\nAngel
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Keeping things exciting is always good. I think that it shows alot about you that you thought to ask that question. There are lots of books and videos out there that will give you some ideas. Have you ever looked at the Kama Sutra? Give it a try with your partner, it can be very fun! The "rainbow" is a good one to start out with. Trust Me. Good Luck.