Pain after intercourse?
598644
If it happens too often, then suggest you consult your  gynaec. Could be something is the amtter.
207411
I honestly didn't think it hurt too badly, but everybody has a different tolerance level for pain.  After a few minutes, the pain will get better because the area will go numb and you'll be used to the sensation.  Good luck!
1105329
it all depends on who your having sex with..i have decided to wait because every time i do have sex!! IT HURTS!! so im just gonna wait until i find someone thats right for me(u know marrige) then maybe i will like it...(so dont just go around experimenting make sure you know what your doing and you love somone then maybe sex will feel GREAT!!!
1010467
First of all you should'nt be having "rough sex" in your condition. Secondly go to your Ob/Gyn immediately.
867572
It may or may not hurt, depends on how great the foreplay is. If the foreplay is great and you're lubricated enough, trust me, you won't feel as much pain, in fact it can get very pleasurable after a while. If the foreplay sucks, and your not wet enough, believe me, it's gonna hurt, but just relax and make sure your totally ready!
232641
Many women report occasional pain or discomfort with vaginal penetration (of a finger, tampon, penis, etc.). Others experience severe pain with every episode of penetration. This is called “dyspareunia”. There are different kinds of pain that a woman can experience during sex play or intercourse. Some of these symptoms can be relieved easily with the use of lubricants, while others must be treated medically. This channel focuses on normalizing the experience of pain during certain sexual behaviors, with the accompanying reinforcement that there are definitely steps a woman can take to eliminate the pain. Above all, if any kind of intercourse or penetration is painful, a woman should stop this behavior immediately and seek treatment, so she can avoid potential physical or emotional harm.
438671
First-time sex shouldn't be painful, provided you are with someone you love and you feel completely relaxed with. You have to be completely ready for sex and totally comfortable with the idea. There should also be lots of foreplay to make sure you are well-lubricated. Provided all this is true, you shouldn't experience any pain.\n\nHowever, if a girl feels unsure about having sex, or unsure about the person she's having it with, her vaginal muscles will tense up, which can cause a lot of pain. This is true of any sex, not just first-time sex.\n\nBe safe, have fun.
1180337
ask your doctor. It hurts the first few times but if it's been awhile since you lost your virginity, definitely ask your doctor something could be wrong. Or he's putting in the wrong hole. Heeheehee.
602165
I can see why you're worried. Sex shouldn't be painful. It shouldn't make you bleed, either. That said - it doesn't mean there's definitely something wrong. But it does mean you need to get this checked out. \n\nSo please visit your GP and explain everything. You can ask for a woman doctor, if you prefer. Your doctor is likely to examine you internally to check all's well. It may be your vagina is inflamed for some reason - this would make it sore and likely to bleed. \n\nNext time you have sex you'll probably be scared in case it happens again - so please put your mind at rest and get this sorted.
43292
my first time hurt, but i was real tense..lol...\nbut after that it didnt hurt anymore!
1083013
You need to go to your local health care professional and have this check \nIf it hurt to have sex there maybe a problem
286483
There is not a lot of info out there regarding what can happen after surgery.  You might search out a doctor who is comfortable talking about these issues.  Here is some info I found:\n\nAnal sex shouldn't hurt. Having hemorrhoids can make anal sex painful. People who find anal sex painful often do not use enough water-based lube; others are not relaxed or aroused enough. Using lots of lube — which makes anal (and vaginal) sex more slippery and wet — can increase pleasure for both you and your partner. Relaxation will also minimize or prevent the possibility of tearing the thin lining of the rectum, and make insertion easier and more comfortable. Some people relax by taking a warm bath; others begin with a massage, starting with the butt and inner thighs, then gently playing in and around the anal sphincter with a finger. As the sensations become more comfortable and pleasurable, some people experiment by placing more fingers inside the anus. Others might progress to a small sex toy, or be ready to be penetrated by a larger toy, or even a penis. Communication with your partner about what feels good and how you want to be touched is essential for enjoyable anal play.\n\nAlthough you can have anal sex when you have hemorrhoids, it's better to wait until they've healed. Friction and pressure from penetration can cause further irritation, discomfort, and pain. In addition, hemorrhoids that bleed may place you at increased risk for HIV infection, since the HIV virus can be transmitted more easily through an open "cut" or "wound." Whenever you have anal sex — if you have hemorrhoids or not — it's safer to use condoms and lube if you don't know your partner's HIV status.  http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1925.html?CFID=277115&CFTOKEN=97076474\nI am a woman who recently experienced my first hemorrhoids. They were painful, revolting and extremely embarrassing. Sitting in the stirrups while my doctor treated them was humiliating enough -- I couldn't bear to ask her this question: how long should I wait before I have anal sex? PAIN IN THE... \n\nAgain with the ass and me calling doctors! The Hassle Free Clinic says you can proceed with anal sex "when you feel comfortable," but use plenty of lube and take it slow. \n\nSome invasive surgery in the genital/anal area takes about six weeks to heal completely, but a hemorrhoidectomy, according to Heidi at Dr. Stubbs' office, may take only a week, depending on the severity of your condition and whether the procedure is done at a hospital or clinic. Looks like you'll be riding that red-eye flight again in no time. \nPick up a copy of the book Anal Pleasure and Health, by Jack Morin. Morin offers a seven-step program on hemorrhoid self-healing -- in case you have to deal with this again. http://www.eye.net/eye/issue/issue_05.17.01/columns/lovebites.html
387614
Well the pain cant just be from talking about pain sex. The pain can be from mid point of your period your 18 so your body is about sone growing and is telling you that its almost done I had the same problem as well. I now only feel that way mid way between periods. That is all I can think of about this subject.
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I think you should seek counseling.  Also, the abortion thing may be a much bigger part of this then you think. Have you always experienced pain during intercourse? Did you tell your doctor about the abortion? I know you might be embarrassed, but you really need to tell him/her.  That could be a big part of the problem.  It is not uncommon to hear about infections or internal injuries after that procedure.  I would make sure you are open about that with your doctor and then ask him/her for a referral to a psychologist so that you can start to recover from the psychological impact this has had on you.  Sometimes it may take years to recover from this.  If your doctor does know about your experience and the physical pain does not go away I would see a GYN and get a second opinion.  It is not normal to have physical pain during intercourse.  He/she may be missing something.  I really hope that things work out for you and I understand what you are going through.  I have been in a similiar situation. - Take care : )
981113
well there could be many factors.\nfirst off, he could have popped your cherry (wether ur a virgin or not because mine wasnt popped till i got with my fiance)\nor he could have just been to rough and tore some tissue in there and the pain above ur hip bone could be from him being to rough or maybe u just havent had sex in a while because i still have that pain from time to time when my husband is too rough. you shouldve told him to stop when u were having the pain. becuase if ur not able to talk to him and let him know how you feel and when somethings hurting then ur not ready to have sex yet (atleast with him that is) now if it was unprotected sex u could have gotten pregnant and ur having implantation bleeding (which is when the sperm implants, but that depends on how much your bleeding) and last factor could be that maybe you started your period today. but to be sure maybe you should ask you doctor.\ngood luck with everything.
520777
That can be caused by lots of things. She should definitely go to a gyno and have it checked out. One possibility: my husband is pretty big, and we have to be careful about angle or I'll be sore afterwards. If you're bigger than average, maybe y'all need to try some different positions to see if that helps. Also, make sure she's lubed, relaxed, and turned on.
879016
It could be raised hair follicles.  Try not to worry, it can't be anything serious.  Its definately not a sexually transmitted problem as it started before you had sex.  If it was any serious illness you would be having major symptoms and pain by now.\n\nAll in all sweetheart it doesn't sound like anything to worry about.  If you don't feel comfortable about seeing your doctor, go to your local GUM clinic to put your mind at rest.\n\nTalk to your girlfriend about it too as she will put you at ease if she is the girl for you.\n\nGood luck\nBubble x