My BF left on Monday for a family reunion & said he'll be back. Do u think he will?
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he wants to come back, and if he gets the chance, he will return. if he doenst return, he wants to make sure that you understand its not his fault. if he returns late, he wants to be sure that you will still be there. he packed stuff so as not to be bored. your not in his arms when he leaves, how content do you think he will be?
580838
I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
868340
Yes....he'll come back. When he wants sex AGAIN. But get prepared.....he won't stay.
875520
ask him if you can go with him to his parents for the holidays... if he says im not ready then,,, i think its time to tell him the same..... if you was the same age, would he already introduced you to his friends and family???? my guess yes ..... if he wants to hind you from everyone then,  there is really something wrong,,,,,  i hope you find happiness but i dont think this is it ,,,,, good luck
1098534
it is not too late my dear... he just left right?... please wait for a week maybe he just too busy arranging things in their new place... patience....
277728
I HOPE U TOLD BF#2 ABOUT  BF ON LOCKDOWN. IF HE IS A BIG BOY HE'LL UNDERSTAND THAT IT WAS JUST ONE OF THEM THANGS.AND I HOPE YOU DON'T THINK FOR ONE MINUTE THAT THE BOYFRIEND IN JAIL BELIEVES YOU WERE FAITHFUL WHILE HE WAS AWAY.
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he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
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I'm sorry, but he's not.  My hubby is on cycle break, thank goodness.  However, I'm checking on this for you as we speak and I'll do an edit when I have your answer.\n\nEDIT:  I'm so happy to help in any way that I can.  Military life comes full circle for many of us.  We were the "young'uns", now, we're the "old folks".  Never be afraid to ask questions.  Military life is a life like none other and we ALL need support.\n\nI really am glad you asked a question and specifically pointed me out.  However, my info is pretty limited as of right now.  Ft. Sill is closed due to our weather conditions.  Hubby won't be able to check much until he goes back in.  Anyways, this is what we have:  19 January should stand as graduation date.  That would be 9 weeks BCT and 2 weeks exodus.  We do fill up fast here and I'm glad you worked it all out ahead of time.  Hubby is going to try to check on exact dates of exodus.  Is your son coming home??  What a great present I'm sure that would be for you.  I'm glad his letters are upbeat.  That's a good sign.  Most of the Drill's here are cool.  We love all of them in our unit.  They really want these guys to succeed.  The phone number to the unit I think your son is in is (580) 442-1304.  I'm sure you already have his number, but this is what I deducted from the info you've given.  Your best bet is to call them....they do need to answer your questions.  I know they don't like to be bothered by family members, but you have a lagit question and they can answer it.  Since hubby is in a different unit, it's hard to get exact info other than knowing everything is on schedule for what's posted and that's the same he has.\n\nGood luck and I'm sorry I couldn't be more helpful.  If I do find anything else out, I'll be sure to post it on here.  Be sure to yell "HI" to me while you're in town!!  I can't even begin to tell you what an awesome experience graduation will be.  Enjoy!!\n\nEDIT2:  I wrote your e-mail addy down.  How did you find me??  I haven't answered any other questions of yours and you seem to know me so well.  Anyways, glad I can help and if I find anything else, you'll know about it.
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Believe me, there will come a day that he will contact you. Sadly, he will be grown probably before that happens. What goes around, comes around..this will come back and bite her in the butt!\nAnd yes, I miss my grandma terribly...wish she was still here.
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Sounds like the bf has some real issues.  He really did you wrong.  If he is serious about getting back together with you, he needs to prove himself.   I'd take anything REALLY slow.  Keep your eyes open, see if you can trust him again.
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I PRAY he brings our soldiers home...this very time last year I was in deep depression because MY own husband was over in Iraq...he spent over a year there but made it back....I still have nightmares sometimes and think he's still there, even......so I DEFINITELY hopes he does his best to bring the boys back home.....all of them.....
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You have already apologized. Accidents happen.  Not only that, but before he came into the picture, your family was there, and if he should decide to walk away, your family will still be there.  Don't blow your mom off, think of all the time she spent on you!  And, it's not like he will be sitting home waiting if can go out with his own family.  so the both of you can do your own thing for awhile and meet up after both of your obligations are met.   I'm sure his family will understand how important your family is to you and be ok with it!
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reports ??? as in other people coming back and saying this to you ??  hmmmmmm.....  well if he is telling other people this....  something is definitely going on ... ask him if he is happy/ unhappy  etc... in the relationship and if so why.. and  if he wants to work on it... if he still wont answer you/ talk about it, brace yourself... he may be planning a surprise...and may have already made up his mind to leave  and is just waiting for the right time.. IE...like when he has enough money put aside etc..and you could come home from work one day to find him gone...   so prepare yourself in the meantime financially as well  and consult a lawyer  without telling him, to find out the best way to protect your interests just in case.. its much better to be prepared  for the possibility than be caught by surprise ! best wishes !
260996
just keep it going..i'm away from my bf too and not likely to meet soon..don't lose touch to keep it fresh...
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sure... Just remember to share when he returns lol
193724
ARE YOU IN COLLEGE?  DON'T COME HOME EXCEPT EVERY MONTH OR SO TO VISIT FAMILY.  CAN YOU TALK TO HIM AS TO WHY HE BROKE UP?  GOOD LUCK!
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I would have to say that this guy isnt worth investing any more time into.  He breaks up with you because he knows you'll be there when he comes back.  \nYou need to break it off with him and work on your self esteem because Im sure you are a great girl and can do alot better.