Is it normal for my boyfriend to look at other women when he sees attractive women? Should I be concerned?
601703
natural. if he starts looking at other men then watchout.
1035398
Your man suffers from very low self-esteem.  He’s telling you these things to let you know that other women desire him.  The only problem is that more than likely, these women don’t exist.  Give this exercise a try, wait a couple of weeks and tell him a guy tried to hit on you when you were out.  He will become jealousy.  If so, my theory holds true.  \n\nUltimately, you really want to eliminate this problem as soon as possible.  Tell him how it makes you feel and ask him not to tell you these types of things.  Personally, I’m not into game but it sounds like he needs a dose of his own medicine.  Good luck and God bless.
335384
Sometimes I get that way with my boyfriend too but what helps me is that every time I am with him he will out of no where tell me that he is so happy to be with me and that he wouldn't know what do to with out me. You should start doing that, she might still get jealous (cause that's what women do) but she will trust you more
288878
Men are very visual creatures. If they see something they like, they look. Hell, women, look, too! There is no shame in that. The most important point of the matter is that even if he is looking at other women, he's going home with you!
730294
he probably thinks there is nothing to worry about and laughs that you are concerned..my fiance does the same thing if i act even the tiniest bit jealous or anything, he thinks it's cute. your fiance probably doesnt  see this woman as a threat
297727
It IS a guy thing. Even the most commited guys look at other girls. Maybe even sexually. If you (can) trust him, everything should be fine. Perfectly normal, all guys do it...sorry! *lol* Don't worry.
954924
You should be asking him not people here. If you have not asked him, why not? Is his actions really that bad? Sounds like you are slightly jealous, but why? Do you feel he is attempting to impress another female?\n\nOther than being jealous I don't see a motive for this being a huge issue.
1146923
I think every woman can look at another woman thinking wow she looks nice. ( I like her hair, body, bootie, whatever.) I have no problem saying to my husband damn that girl is cute. Although I know when it comes to intimacy I want to be with a man. \nSo just ask yourself if you are just admiring other woman? Or do you think you would prefer to be intimate with one rather than a man? In your heart you should know... Be proud of who you are! :)
1024548
some women are threatened by pretty women that are confident. IF you are not flirting with the man just talking there shouldn't be an issue but if you are flirting an insecure woman will definitely jump on that.  I am a friendly person and i talk to everyone and my husband is OK with that and he is also and i am OK with him speaking to women.  Do i get jealous? Only if there is a need to be. He has never given me reason because to him i am the most beautiful woman he has ever laid eyes on. I don't feel like i am prettier than the next but he does. See sometimes men don't let the woman know that she is the most he'll ever want so anyone else he speaks to she is gonna compare herself to and that is why women get coo coo. Good luck to ya
980432
Tell him you're feeling like he could be interested in someone else.  He'll either 'fess up, or do everything under the sun to reassure you that he would never even dream of glancing at another woman.  Either way, trust your instincts.
1042288
i don't know, but you're not wrong to be jealous, just don't go psycho on him! guys will always look at what catches their attention, just like women. i know i check guys out all the time but that doesn't mean i don't find my man attractive! it's natural to look, just don't stare. don't make it obvious that you're looking. same with him, if he's staring and drooling all over the place call him on it, if not let him look.
996148
In most cases, just looking. We mean no disrespect to the lady we're with, it's just that the female body is BEAUTIFUL, and we enjoy looking at it. Don't get upset, in fact, point them out to him. It will ease your tension, and might make him think a little. Good Luck!
85050
It sounds like your boyfriend is self conscience of your relationship and he is he sure of himself.  Have you made attempts to reassure him that he is the only one and that when you go out you are just having fun with your female friends.  \n\nI think many times we as women forget that men can also suffer from low self esteem and can be just as self conscience about relationships as women.
173649
Yes it is normal. I really don't think it is a sin to think other men are attractive.  There are some really attractive guys out there.  But the thing is you care about your boyfriend.  You love your boyfriend, and you will never cheat on your boyfriend... Everyone looks at other people, it is called human nature- My advice is look- just don't lust or derive.
47888
Yes.  As a man when I look at another women I'm checking her up and down and if I see she is looking I quickly look away.  If the woman saw that and came up to me and started talking I'd lay on the moves and try and get her somewhere private.\nAll men with exceptions of course will try and think and do the same.
862727
Weeell, i've been there before. it upset me a lot because he didn't just "look", he gave "several glances" to "several girls" "several times" whenever we were out.no matter what anyone says, its awful.its also absolutely rude to you.i'll guess, not only were you jealous, you felt insulted.the thing i worried most about was, if the girl and other people noticed what he was doing,they'd ask themselves why and check me out, too.maybe even feel sorry for me.i didn't like that thought one bit.i'll tell you what, there are men who are real gentlemen who wouldn't do that.if you're he's girl, he should give you undivided attention, have eyes only for you when you're together.that's what he'd also want from you.no, its absolutely normal that you're upset.i think its just really rude what he's doing.you wouldn't want to be rude enought to check other guys out infront of him, would you?although he does deserve an equal dose of his own medicine.honey, if you're beginning to feel insecure all the time, its not always because there's something wrong with you, although you can help yourself and do something about it.but most likely there is something he's doing to cause it
285221
Every guy notices other women from time to time, we can't help it. But to make it so obvious that your girlfriend notices and is bothered by it, well, that shows a deplorable lack of class. Also, calling your girlfriend "ugly" is really beneath contempt.\n\nCall him on it. Make sure he knows how much he is hurting you.