Would you date a guy that you dated before you were married, .... please see inside for more?
596873
Remember that all guys are trying to get L@id and I’m thinking that he is preying on the fact that you just got a divorced.  Take it slow until you figure out what his game is.
384813
If it has been that long then you can feel free to date again. The only thing is I would not let my children met anyone until I was sure he was the right one. You are a free woman to do as you please/////////////////
376951
yes i would. i am 29 and cutt off is 39. i dont date more then 10 years older then me.
1042946
I met my wife at work. I know that they say you shouldn't date at work but it worked for us. We were friends for 5 years they dated for a few months and got married. We have been married for 5 years and are expecting our second child.
219336
I would bring it up with him. You are already living together which is a huge part of marriage and so what's the holdup?
210145
Gut feeling.  How do you feel about him?  Would you cheat on him or would he cheat on you?  What are your life goals and are they similar to his?  Are you financially ready?  Etc...
365701
I did have sex before marriage and not to sound sappy, but if I would have known that I would meet my husband someday, I would have waited. Youth can be so blinding... I never thought I would meet a great guy someday and want to give that to him.
1133697
I didn't really date him .. we were best friends that did everything together.\n\nI slept with him a few times through out our friendship and a few months ago we started "dating" exclusively.  So there was no #'s of dates before we slept with each other.\n\nIt's not a math problem or a right way or wrong way.  It's life and sex comes & goes ...
695017
I would just cause it did not work out for them does not mean it wont work out for us, plus I would date him a little longer then he was married the first and second etc times.
1131342
You can look at it two ways.  Before you were married is before you made a commitment to each other or if he did it once he will do it again.  Not to make you feel worse than you already do, I have been where you are and thought it was before and dosn't count  believe me a leopard doesn't change his stripes and the first time is the hardest.  If it happened once it will happen again.  Learned it the hard way  D
836248
I would feel hesitant about marrying him. Sounds like "he just not that into you". But I hope that isn't the case.
503557
Let me tell you my story. 15 years ago I met my husband in our work place. I started our conversation with, Can I ask you a question that a few of us girls have been talking about in the break room because you would like a man's point of view on it. Of course he said yes, so I asked him how he felt about dating between people in the work place and how he felt about women making the first move as for asking a man out. I told him I wanted his honest opinion. \nHe gave it to me...so I asked him out. Now we have lived a very happy life. Good luck with this man and I hope he is everything you wanted.
141242
Actually time is not really an issue.  I know pople who dated for 4 - 6 months and got married.  But there a re also people I know who have been dating since the beginning of time but they are still unmarried.  So obviously you are marriage oriented.  Bring up the marriage topic to him and see his reaction.  Positive or negative.  But you can also ask him directly to be sure  --  "do you plan on marrying me?" But be prepared for either getting really hurt or a pleasant surprise. In my opinion, if you are unsure then the answer is no or not yet.  Usually the guys will drop in a lot of hints on the fact that they want marriage early on in a relationship.  Does he talk alot about your future together?
1092199
Yes, I have.  But then I've only dated one guy.  He is white and I'm Indian.  I really enjoy his company though and he is a very sweet person.  I would have liked to date an Indian guy, but all the ones I have met seem very rude and far too shallow.
1101875
Yes i sure would and i would give him another chance.. I would date and hit on him big time lol.... This is not stupid at all. You also can go to http://www.marriagetoday.org that is a great site and also http://www.crown.org and they are a great help for finances and things like that.... Hope this helps you some and i hope and pray that someday you and your ex can reconcile your differences and rekindle your love and marry again! I love it!!! You go girl:) I am so happy for you and for him... Wish more people were like this. We all could learn from you!
604282
if you are happy, then it doesnt matter how you met. \nHeck, I met my husband while I was dating one of his friends. We just clicked. Things happen for a reason. Good luck.
29448
i'm 29 and i can so relate to you.  i mean dating itself is so confusing and once you are dating someone it is confusing to know how often you should date them, before it becomes exclusive.  i am going to keep coming back to your question to see the answers.  sorry i couldn't be more help.