I am a 23 year old female with an extremely low sex drive. I just got married a month ago.?
604721
Girl don't fret it!!  I turned 24 in November...I had a very low if any sex drive! Now I'm a horn ball!!! ALSO....  Once I started to "expieriment" (for lack of better words) with my body, the most my sex drive went up...Girls don't hit their sexual prime until they're in there mid to late 20's...you've got time!!  For a right now solution....try watching a dirty movie, or reading a romance novel...it use to help me!!  GOOD LUCK HONEY!!!
298650
try not having sex till you are married. and then learn your ovulation cycle as well as use condoms. \nor you can just have your man pull out every time. \nI've learned my ovulation cycle and been active for over 2 years with no baby... I still use condoms though
724574
There is more to marriage than sex! But you must be honest with your potential wife and tell her about your problem. If she still wants to marry you, then go for it! There are other ways of satisfying a woman's sexual needs. And it is also possible that your ED either can be treated now or will be treatable in a few years.\n\nIt may even be possible for you to father children. Don't let this difficulty keep you from having love in your life.
830287
I wish my hubby had a higher libido...after having five kids and being married for several years our love life has gotten boring and his sex drive has gone down. We are always paying attention to the kids and dealing with other things to even begin thinking about intimacy. \n\nI would love it if I actually had to worry about tuning myself up to meet his needs! It would make me feel more desirable...
959641
Well, you already know that the answer to that is to have a ham shank don't you, but what I don't understand is, you say you don't get turned on by women any more and you feel like what is so great about women, so why on earth are you getting married, and in only 1 months time, you contradict yourself here.
193655
Wow ... your answers are all over the board here.\n\nSex is only what you make of it.  In May I will be married 17 years and we have sex at least 5 or 6 times a week.  Many days we have it multiple times.\n\nI truly believe a woman's sex drive is totally reflective on what and how she feels about herself and her body.  If she finds herself sexy she will want to be satisfied.  If she has a poor body image she may feel she is not worthy or not attractive to her husband and may avoid sex all together.  (Not with hold sex ... but avoid it.)\n\nIf you and your husband are happy with your sex life then what the rest of us do is totally meaningless.  Embrace your sex life and don't compare it to the rest of society.  \n\nBest of luck!
61436
If you did it in a new position and you went deeper than usual then yes, that is a very good possibility.  Is it near time for your period? You don't seem very experienced in sex.  How old are you?   WHY, OH WHY are you having unprotected sex?  Are you married?  You are just being plain stupid if you are not.\nI'm not being mean but I am trying to make a point to you.\nIf you are worried about anything at all please go to a doctor and get his opinion and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.\nThank goodness I have been married for many years and don't have to worry about all this.\nGood luck!  I hope everything is ok.
437633
I don't think I can ever get enough sex, wish my hubby would stop being a prude 2-3 times a month doesn't cut it for me.  There are other girls out there like me who crave it all the time, what are you waiting for start looking for one lol!
458702
I see nothing in your words that refer to "love".  All I see is that you aren't "gettin" as much as you used to.  If that's all love means to you then I suggest you go your seperate ways.  If, however, the reduction of sex is just one part of your problems, then seek some professional help.
559919
It sounds as if you might be heading into menapause. If not being interested in sex bothers you, see your physician. There are a number of treatments available which can help you with this.
859005
It could just be a mental thing, idk.   Try doing some erocit things, like when you move in, walk around naked, or build up your sex drive on a free day when you fave time to see what turns you on.
545691
The fact that your hubby doesn't want to have sex is a SYMPTOM of something else. You need to figure out the cause. It could be a PHYSICAL problem. There are herbal pills that you can look for at health shops which are safe and might help if he needs a physical/hormonal boost. Read up about Damiana and see if it might help. Then, it could be something like an EMOTIONAL problem. Something could have happened to him when he was a child. Often people who were abused are very sexual before they get married and then after they get married they don't want to have sex anymore. If this is the case, you need to be very supportive because they have feelings of guilt and low self-esteem. If it's not something that happened in his past, then it could have something to do with the INTIMACY between the two of you. Maybe he has an unmet NEED. STRESS also affects a man's libido!! Mabye his work is putting too much stress on him and he needs to do something about it. You need to find out the source of the problem. Counselling can help you.
1067179
Try keeping mobile phone in Vibrating mode in ur vagina when ever u feel like having SEX....... \n\n\nI think u need to wait till u get married or atleast have sex monthly once and then 3 months once and then U understand wht i am telling .....\n\nONE more impt thing is Stop thinking abt tht often ,,,,, U have lots of things in this world apart from tht,,,, Try visiting Blind school or ORPHANS school involve in helping them ,,, and divert ur mind for few days and every thing will go righttttt...
697253
well, i would say that she is just not interested in you, no offense but, if she was never like this before then i would say you two need to get into counseling to help her to want you.\nWhat takes away 95% of  a women's sex drive? Wedding cake
58146
Have you been diagnosed with post partum depression?  You have to determine why your drive has decreased.. tired? fear your child may pop in?  Just not into it?  If you're going to attempt changes without the assistance of speaking to your doctor, maybe you need to spice your sex life up.  Initiate.  Be assertive.  Try new things.  Time away with your partner/spouse.  Good Luck!
207944
Take it slow.  You've just been through a very traumatic event, and is it any wonder that you have no sex drive?  You are probably feeling hurt and abandoned, and maybe just a little down on yourself.  Start dating, don't rush into anything, and something good will come along.\n\nBest wishes to you.
894475
If she has a lower sex drive because of a condition such as pregnancy then going without sex for a little bit longer won't hurt you.  \n   If you're becoming unhappy in your relationship because of this sex drive difference, then you might want to rethink things before they get any closer to marriage.  You can't turn back once you take the plunge and if she's not pleasing you now, it won't get any better once you're married.\n\nGood luck!!!