Why is it, when ur single no one wants u until one person does and then thats when all the others want u?
609101
Yeah that is the prob. When i started dating my BF, i got lots of other proposition while with him, esp old flings but now that i've broken up, no1 is interested and am oh-so-lonely
43276
I think everyone likes the feeling of knowing other people like you and accept you.  Not many people like loneliness or being alone or left out.  It could be fear of being alone or feeling 'not wanted or liked' by others.  Pretty much everyone belongs somehow to some 'group' no matter what kind; we just do.  At least this is what I think.
32222
hey....even i get the same feeling when i c couples......but then its better to wait 4 the rit 1 rather just move in with the crowd......n \nfrom ur post, it doesnt seem like u wud jus do smthin coz evrybdy is dng it.......... \n\nBeing single has its advantages...I am not sure I have a satisfactory answer, anyway.\n\nI guess the main reason is that you have very eclectic tastes and you are extremely picky. You like what you like. What you don't, you don't. \n\n\nSOMEONE SOMEWHERE IS MADE 4 U...\nIt's only a question of time...
798115
Cause theres only one me.
577709
there are more singles then their are in a relationship.... I feel the same way sometimes too.... I dont want a gurl keeping me on check every hour... Well some nights i do wanna just cuddle in bed or something.... But yeah alot of us feel the same way as u....
809324
Why do you have to choose?  Your a single guy who is looking for fun.  Be honest with what you want and if they can't respect that you don't want to be settled down, then why even bother with any of them.  If you are more happy being free then what do you have to loose?
294873
That is definitey wrong.  If you want an exclusive boyfriend then you have to be mature enough to make a decision that you are ready to be with "one person".  Sounds to me like you're still unsure of yourself and maybe afraid of being alone, but if you keep playing around with 3 guys, behind their backs, it's gonna hurt a lot worse than not having a boyfriend at all.  Maybe you should reconsider whether or not you are ready to commit to one person?
98126
sounds like you just haven't found the one  your looking for yet cause when you do you won't want anyone else..if you get bored with one man and move on to another theres nothing wrong with you..its good to shop around and compare before you settle down...when you find that special someone that you care about you'll no it..till then just have fun and be happy
149200
its because you feel bad for yourself. if u think about it humanity is a bit selfish. now that your alone you wish you still had a partner.
994844
There comes a time in every dating relationship when someone needs stability.\n\nIt seems you've been very flexible, very commited, and very patient...yet...you only get quality time...6 times a year.\n\nHopefully, no one has asked you to see yourself dating anyone else...however if you're not getting what you want from the relationship....don't you think you deserve something more than intermitten companionship
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Because you r no longer available is why!!  lol  You will not be asking them for a committment or strings.  They can have their fun with you and run!  They also see this as a challenge- your married say- all of a sudden millions want u and why?  Cus its a personal challenge to see if they can take something that belongs to another!  These people r entirely insecure and need approval constantly!  As soon as someone finds out I have only slept with one guy my entire life all of a sudden I have 50 wanting to show me all the things Im missing out on!  GOD!  lol
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It depends on the day of the week, the time of month or if your close to valentines or christmas etc.\nBeing single is ok, I am completely independant, am not answerable to anyone and very rarely disappointed.\nBut that doesn't stop me feeling lonely when I'm sat in on my own, sadly answering question after question on here... \nI think it would be nice to find companionship, but then I meet someone and before it develops into a relationship it gets all heavy or complicated and think I can do without the hassle.. \nI have plenty of friends and will keep it that way until someone totally special comes my way.\nNot getting into something on the premise I am lonely, if I did that, I could let any kind of scumbag into my life, and they would probably leave it just as quickly having stripped me of my confidence. I am not prepared to let that happen.
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I used to believe in soul mates.  I used to think my husband was "The One" for me.  Unfortunately, things didn't work out for us, and even though I don't think I could ever really be as close to someone else, I also know that no amount of love can keep two people together if they don't take care of their personal problems, and work hard on the relationship.  \n\nNow I'm starting to think that people don't have a "One" person out there for them, but they associate with people that they find comfortable, people with similar beliefs, and who treat them the way they are used to being treated.  The more someone treats you the way you are used to being treated, the more they seem like "The One".  Unfortunately, that means that if you're used to being abused and mistreated, you will most likely select someone who abuses and mistreats you as your significant other.  :(
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It's how you look at it.  Like yourself and screw everyone else.  It's "all about you".  Don't let others make you feel like your less than them,   "they are doomed to walk the earth without you", too.  I used to be married and that was the worst doom in my life.  Now I love being single and would have a hard time giving it up.  Our culture puts to much emphasis on that stupid word "dating"-------just be friendly and don't push relationships too fast, if at all.
150503
I'm sure it sucks because you feel like the outsider right now but it isn't as bad as it seems.  Not all of their relationships will last and all too soon some of them will be single like you and before long you will be the one with a boyfriend and they will be the ones that are single.
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Lots of people experience this. Often these kinds of feelings can cause us to act in ways which are not in our best interest.  (e.g. to perpetuate a dysfunctional relationship because we like the way another person makes us feel some of the time.)  Ask yourself: Why is he my *ex*-boyfriend?  Something in the relationship wasn't working for one (or both) of you.  Is there chance that that problem can be overcome and resolved permanently?  Try to look at your own self, and identify ways which you might like to grow as a single person.  You don't actually need this guy, even if it feels like you do.
350235
Hmm it's hard to answer why a single person is single. I'm single too and I'm just as frustrated that I can't find someone and be happy like the rest of my friends. I think what it comes down to though, is you need to be happy with yourself first. When you're not, people will see that and it becomes a turn off or people become afraid of dealing it. Just from reading your question, you sound angry at the world. But really, you're the one that has to make it happen. Work on yourself first and I'm sure that person will find you, notice you. Good luck.