have you been raped, did u share your expericence with anyone?
602927
Yes I have been raped and I did talk about it with people and I still do . I think it helped me to overcome the trauma. If you need someone to talk to or want to know my story you can IM me anytime..
436161
yes but what guy would say he was raped?
1179897
How are you finding this out if it isn't being reported? Are you a victim or are you one of the rapists?
725056
rape. it should be self explanatory
790916
No that has never happened to me.\n\nWhat do you mean by "I would also like to hear from those who may have done this to someone else."\n\nDid you not do it all to yourself?
945831
My friends experience out shines any I have had. One night at a nightclub, both of us a bit tipsy, I hear her laughing from the stall next to me "OMG! I forgot to pull down my underwear!"\nTrue story...think they ended up in the trash.
1092547
I have been there. My ex-wife accused me of abuse..the part she didn't tell was she had a boy friend and she wanted lot's of $$$$.\nThank God she didn't win..it was thrown out of court..I wish I had it on video tape. She became confused in her story. I could have got some very serious time in jail. I could have sued the hell out of her..but I let it go
278515
The only thing you can do is be honest about what happened, and tell her how hurt you are that she does not believe you.\n\nYou should also talk to a rape crisis center so they can help you deal with what happened, they will give you the support you need and not judge you. \n\nBlessed be,\n\nGypsy
136945
well rape is a touchy subject. i from experience was a rape victim and it is not something the person talk about. but when the time is right the person will tell u or you can let the person no that u care and ask and if they dont tell try to be understanding as to why she dont want to talk about it.
1100794
ok first off please dont give out your personal info....some rapist guy can easily get it an it will happen again to you second off do you remember any detectives or the states attorney that worked on your case?,,you should contact them..also you should have gotten a report if you are indeed the victim...if not then you should write the courts explainingyour situation an im sure they willl be gald to give you a copy..also you can try to find oit here on the web or go to the libary an look up all the articles from the time period an you should be able to find it there..take care an good luck!!
735359
Thank you thank you thank you!  I've felt the same way for years and some people think I'm crazy for thinking it.  I've been raped countless times and know people that have been raped.  Sex offenders deserve to be castrated or worse.  Some one who could do something like that and not think twice about all the things their taking from their victoms need to be severely punished.  And they let thes freaks go to walk our streets where our children play, can you believe that?  I agree with you 100%!!!!!  They should be castrated then given life in prison to suffer.
282180
Sure have and it wasn't the best experience in my life I can tell you that. Was being charged with two felonies. Could have faced 20 yrs in prison. Both charges were dropped though. \nA shout out to all the girls in Unit M, county jail........J/K.
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Go to  a hospital right away.  They have 'rape kits' there to help collect evidence to arrest your attacker.  They can also call the police for you.  \n\nAlway always remember it was not your fault and it was a horrible act commited against you that in no way lowers your worth.  After seeing the doctor and giving yourself time to recover physically perhaps see a therapist to help talk out your feelings.  Sometimes its easier to talk to someone you don't know.  Also remember you are not alone.  There are many of us out there who have been raped and are trying to stand tall.  Support groups can help you get throught this too.  After awhile, try telling yourself that while what happened to you was horrible, it was a small portion of your life and that to let it follow you around forever is giving your attacker control over your life long after that small moment is past.  Thats why therapy and support groups can be important.  The rape will make you different as we are all summations of what happens to us in life, but don't let it control you forever.  \n\n*HUGS*
906435
yes\nit was a random punks face...\nits a long story... but my gf at the time was raped by some piece of shit... and i was so angry that i went to a guys house that a few weeks earlier had accused me of stealing a car radio well i was skateboarding... the incident was so stupid... I was wearing a black bandana on my head and one over my mouth and skateboarding near my gfs house... I was 16 and this kid runs up and starts to get all aggressive with me and says i stole his sisters car radio... this is 3 am... and he starts to push me... i carefully kept my anger down and explained to him first of all I have never stolen anything... software and mp3s and movies offline dont count(sharing is caring) and how the hell would i hide a car radio in my pocket well skateboarding...\nfinally he gets really beligerent and i tell  him he needs to go or it will end bad...\n\nwell that was that... so the next couple days i asked around who he was and where he lived....so a few weeks later My girl gets raped by this moth$er F$cking prison trash just got out... so i am so pissed i am ready to kill the rapist... and to try to calm myself down... I find the guy from a few weeks earlier... this time my face was uncovered so he didnt knwo what i looked like... knocked on his door waited for him to answer and said I am gonna hit you...i dont believe in sucker punches he hit me first and i broke his face hitting him over and over again... he never saw me again not my neighborhood... and i had a nice calm feeling after... went and dealt with the situation with my girl.... with peace.
658940
How exactly does a 22 year old man get raped by a woman?\n\nIf this is for real, you should seek some counselling. The odds of a repeat occurance are extremely low.
1047561
only when ive been date-raped.\n\nAlso, please dont wait long to award best answer points to me. I don't like to wait.
839315
Being raped is very degrading to a women it takes away her pride self respect makes her feel worthless, and ashamed. The women who don't report rape is out of fear from the assailant or being ashamed. Ashamed might not be the correct word to use. you get the point though. I don't know what I would do. I would hope that I would have the courage to report it so it wouldn't happen to someone else.  I had a friend once she was in her mid 40s she waited until she got married to have sex. She was 18 on her wedding night her husband tied her to the bed and sodomized her. she came from a family that taught you that your husband is the law and what he does to you is his business and you didnt question him. She is no longer married to him thank goodness. For anyone out there who has been raped my heart goes out to you.