Have you lost your friend because he/she had fallen in love ? Please read my sad story and give suggestions.?
612435
if you guys are friends then you both need to talk about it...i went through the same thing....me and my best friend have been friends for 10 years...and we were closer then ever before we both got into relationships...but once love found its way into our lives things changed...alot of things changed...and thats to be expected if you are going to start a relationship with a man....he becomes one of your closest friends as well....its hard...but you both need to sit down and talk and let eachother know whats bothering you...and come up with a way to fix the problems....thats if your friendship means that much to you....make sure that the both of you take time out to spend with eachother every now and then...because ever girl needs to have atleast that one girl friend that you can go and have a cup of coffee with and laugh about the good, bad and sad times in eachothers lives...well i wish you the best...and i hope that you both can sit down and talk things through and try to come up with a way you can maintain your friendship with one another....friendship is a beautiful thing...
1057777
It's so hard I know..I have been in love w/someone for about 4 years..my best friend...want her so bad...but it's not happening...so you choose your pain..be friends and love from afar...or just get away from the whole situation & move in different circles.
126931
The simple truth of the matter is this. She doesn't love you, all she wants is something she can't have and that happens to be you. Trust me the only person who will get hurt in all this is you. I have lost a good friend because of this exact same thing and let me tell you it was never worth it.
774570
i know how you feel. my friend did the same thing and unfortunately she has changed alot and we are not close like we used to be. but that doesnt mean that it has to be that way for you too( hopefully it wont! )\n\nat first my friend was confused i would try to help her out as much as i could and now i guess shes made up her mind (she has a gf now) and i just let her do her own thing. \n\nits sad becuase we hardly talk like we used to.  oh well what can you do
853517
aawww, that is sooo cute, i was really moved to tears..\ni hope you really find that person..\n\nGood luck.. ^^
1020579
When that happened to me many years ago, it was devastating to loose a friend who I thought was "a friend."  Now, as time passed, I figured that she was an acquaintance, some one who comes & goes in your life time.  If she was that weak minded to just take his word for something as important as that without consulting you to straighten it out, then she's not your friend.  Get a new one who values your friendship.
738683
Unfortunately that is what life is all about. You love and lose but one day you will find the right person. These are all learning experiences. I have had it happen to ne a few times whether it was from a so called friend or a lover. And I have learned alot from them too. Keep your head up high and love yourself.
527647
I have never fallen in love so cannot help. But, as far as I listened from my friends the best way to get sure that one is in love is to check if u have similar feelings towards other guys like him and what life means to you without him ;)
614010
my first love died when i was 14. i loved her with all my heart. i think about her every day. it has ruined all other relationships i've tried to have with people. i wish she could be with me now.
754372
i did twice, almost at the same time. i was dating this guy that i absolutely loved. we dated a year before we ended it. it was really heartbreaking. he didnt cheat on me or anything, atleast i dont think he did. i thought we were going to get married! in the middle of that relationship, i also became friends with this guy who had a crush on me. i had a crush on him too but we never dated or anything because i was so in love with my boyfriend. my friend and i stopped talking because i wanted to be with my boyfriend and i felt i was cheating on him because i had a crush on him. anyway, bad idea. i got my heart broken twice.... my boyfriend dumped me and i lost my chance with my friend =( im glad to say that my friend and i are friends again and still close. i still believe i lost my chance with him though =/
858633
I feel bad for you.  I'm so sorry that you have lost someone in your life that sounds like a soul mate.  I hope you will always be friends with this person even if you are not "in love with each other or anything like that."  I would not accept loosing this person in my life if I was you.  Not with computers and pen and paper and phones.  I would talk to my Mom about it and I would contact him and tell him how you feel, that he is important to you and that you would like to remain friends even 3000 miles apart.  Good friends are worth the effort.
876588
i know how that is.. i actually was friends with this boy for 13 years and we were so close and we always had feelings for eachother but never said anything. well i now live 15 hours away from him and we lost everything! it hurts so much to think about him but now he has a girlfriend so its way to late ... it kills me everyday to think what could have been!so my advice call him and let him know NOW!
173300
i have sort of had this experience.i fell in love with this guy.our relation was going on steadily when another woman came in his life and he ditched me.i did not ask for explaination and just walked out of his life.i was so heartbroken.i lost faith in everybody and am afraid to love once more.whenever i see that guy i get very angry but pretend as if nothing has happened and try to enjoy but actually inside i feel sick.i think u should move on.it is hard but tyr and slowly u will forget.
617859
I want to say that your friend is wrong for going about it the WRONG way. She should have been honest and maybe it wouldn't feel so bad when it's happened. You have every right to feel betrayed because she was not completely honest with you. Nevertheless we all are humans and as the person before me stated, people act on their instincts. She had a crush on him, or maybe she thought she did or whatever it may be, the realization is that they're having that special thing while you're hurt from it. What I would do is move on. I'd give her my well-wishing and if I could handle being friends with her, I'd maintain contact with her. Don't fall for the "third-wheel" plots, I hate those, make sure to avoid them because you may find yourself becoming extremely angry at your friend and her not knowing it. That's all I can see myself doing in this situation is just moving on. Good luck with this.
1015208
I fell in love with a guy last year, but when I asked him out he said he can't, and that I was going to University... I wondered if that last comment was because he'd said that he had a girlfriend who moved away to Italy, and that his experience was affected by that. Anyway, I was heartbroken, and it's been a year, but I still think of him with love. \n\nI've done the whole trying to meet other guys, but none of them make me feel the way I felt about him. There may be plenty of fish in the sea, but most are a bunch of red herrings! \nI think he is a fool for not realising how much he means to me. \n\nI said this to someone else, that it's all very well people saying "move on and get on with your life" but if you love someone it isn't that easy. I think you should avoid her, as she is spoken for - give yourself a break. I had no choice, as I moved away. \nI now remember that guy with love - the way I see it, the love was floating around like a cloud, where I'd breathe it in all the time, whether I meant to or not. I now imagine that cloud of love to be sealed inside a large glass jar. Sometimes the essence still comes out, if something reminds me of him, but I have the lid, so I keep those feelings safe. I still wish we could be together, but I also hope that I might fall in love again.\nWhoring yourself is not going to help at all. Give yourself all the time you need to get over it - I speak from my experience, but yours may be different, but it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. \nJesus still loves you!\n\nI recommend this a lot: See the film "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind".
1099485
I think you should talk to her about your feelings and if she is free and willing to try things again, then there you go there is a good opertunity to ask her out. But she may just be content as friends I would not tell her you are in love with her though. It could make things worse.
451706
Let me give you an advice..\nDont let the ignorance go too high please..\nFrom my experience i have lost a person..\nSo i please beg of you..\nThis is coz i cant see something special go to ruin..\nMy best wishes to you to have everything fine..