I am going to be engaged and I want your support.?
602247
I am sure she loves your way with words
372771
hey i think that is so sweet it is like you guys are reminding each other why you wanted to marry.i say noone has the right to call you weird if you are happy. keep up the good work you guys give others hope for happy marriages.
1147473
I dont believe your making it unreasonable but  maybe you two can compromise.maybe the wedding at the church and the reception at the tea garden or the wedding at the tea garden and his choice for the reception.I think that whatever you two choose on will be a good choice and I wish you nothing but happiness. Good luck and CONGRATULATIONS!
665759
Remember, it's a DAY in your life....just a day.  It may be a "big" day, but it's just a day.  You should never let the wedding interfere with the relationship.  Have you asked your fiance to get involved with the wedding ?  Who is paying for it ?  If your family is footing the bill, he may be reluctant to express his own wishes.  (Or, he may not really care - in the "whatever you want, honey" kind of mode....)  If you want his help, then give him specific things you want him to do and how you want him involved.  Again, don't let this run your life.  You have waaaay too much on your plate (job, school, wedding plans) to have to spend more energy on this kind of concern.  And, you might need to consider his lack of reciprocity on the "little romantic things" - the male personality doesn't natually "court" his mate after he has achieved his goal.  (IE: you two are getting married; he no longer has to woo you.)  So you two are going to need find a level between your desire to be courted the rest of your life and his lack of interest in doing so.  Takes two to tango and if you dance alone now, you may be dancing alone the rest of your life.  Tell him you need help on the wedding (and, as I said, what exactly you want in the way of help) and tell him that you want to continue to "date" him - at least once a week - movie, dinner, dancing, whatever you did before you got engaged.  TALK - talktalktalktalk!
206740
I would try to make it a huge memorable experience, it only happens once (hopefully)  Also, long engagements are great and I would definitely find a pre-marriage counselor to help you through issues you two do not even know you have yet.  Congratulations and best wishes on your happiness in life.
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
1055228
I have found sherry and she is the most important person in my life, i love her very much and am going to marry my girl one day. Hey i will send you an invite.
468279
you definitely should. isn't it time that the both of you made another step toward the ultimate commitment to each other? you have been together this long and have already talked about getting married. i think you should do it. god bless both of you.
880530
You will be married this year to a nice and sobre fellow. Good luck
1070722
have a fiance! and yes he does!!!
1085420
i've been engaged for almost a year now we are holding off for those same reasons dont let people rush u into is...im also 21 and i kinda wanna wait and have fun being engaged then settle down...;good luck
1184610
Stay strong in God's Word.  The very fact that you are concerned and asking about this is His sign to you that it is not right.  He will lead you to your heart's desire.  When you get married you will find that waiting was THE best thing to do and the RIGHT thing to do and you will have NO REGRETS.  Stay strong and stand firm and you will be blessed.
152131
yes..the guy that i am getting married to has that same belief
1042040
Instead of him telling you that if that's what YOU want then go ahead and do it, which doesn't sound very convincing on his part to me, he needs to actually say directly that yes that is what I want to do too, not if that's what makes YOU happy because he isn't including himself in that equation and that kind of leaves him room to get himself out of it if he up and decides to take off before hand. So no I wouldn't make plans just yet not til you hear him say He is ready and wanting to and he buys you an engagement ring. Then if that happens you can probably be more sure of it being a true thing.
1157331
you are great!! i wish you good luck in that..and just wan to tell you that you have chosed the right way...go for it.. an advice from a muslim girl...
341104
So long as you are speaking from your heart...she is right, it won't matter, where, when, or how you ask her...she will love it.  These are the words women wait their whole lives to hear, it doesn't need to be some over the top production, just an honest, heart felt proposal.  Good luck!!
866147
We have to start explore being in relationship. I hope you are made for each other. Good luck.