how do u get a girl to go out with you not for the way u look but the way u are?
596181
When you figure it out let me know.
639032
#1 Just be your self and wear a big smile\n#2 Don't over do anything just look like plain Jane\n#3 Talk to them ask them if they hang out here often
1018588
MAKE?  Can't!   But you might have better luck if you treat her like a lady.  You could ask a few times and give her an idea of what a night out with you would be like.  e.g. where you'd take her what the mood would be like, sort of paint a picture and just let her make her decision.
78788
There are no such "effective steps " over this issue. The thing is: either she likes you or not. So you just have to find it. Now she could be more willing to go out with you on a date if you treat her gentle and with respect. Tell her in the most nice way you can to hang out :)
729223
next time she stares at u go up and give her a kiss cuz yo ugly ass look like u a dike anyways so just come on out the closet u stupid trick!!! by the way ur welcome!!!!
129496
just do it tell her you like her and ask her to go out with you theres no really right way just get to the point and be straight forward
387960
Am I missing something?  If she is a nice girl and the two of you hit it off, go out with her.  If you don't have anything in common, don't string her along but don't be mean. Either way, be tactful and a gentleman.
728412
If a girl likes you and wants to go further she turn her whole body in your direction making it obvious. If you go over to her say in a bar start to talk to her but stand toe to toe to her if she doesn't like you she'll step back given you a look to back off. If she doesn't chat for a bit keep it simple try to be funny keep smiling then if it looks good ask for a dance or offer a drink then take it from there.\nIf a girl turns you down walk away head held it happens all the time don't look like a sad puppy you'll never no who's watching.
776965
Heres how it sounds dumb but it works, If you already know her and you have somewhat of a neutral relationship just straight up ask her out say "Go out with me" she'll probaly say "what?' or "are you serious" or try to wriggle out of it, if that starts say "its the right thing to do" Dont be afraid, just do it! the worst she can say is no and if she does no biggie you guys can still be cool just dont put so much pressure on the situation.
575264
well most girls go for looks in guys but to tell you the truth  girls should go for personality and how that guy treats her becuase most of the really good looking guys are jerks and will most likely will dump the girl and leave her to drown in her tears or he will not even go out with her so try to be the really nice guys that way you don't have to be good looking just nice and charming
544780
By introducing yourself in a nice confident manner if she responds offer to buy her a drink or even take her out.......oh an when she talks to you look at her eyes not her chest lol its annoyin when guys do that when am tryin 2 say sumat
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THE 4 STEPS TO HER\n********************************************************************\n1) show her some respect \n2)start little bit of talking to her  \n3)DON'T follow  a  girl or she will ignore U \n4)NEVER LOOK ON ANY GIRLS BODY PART LIKE HER BOOBS ETC.\n (IF THE GIRL WATCHES WHERE YOR EYE IS GOING THEN SHE WILL KNOW WHAT R U LOOKIN AT)
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Well if she already knows just go up to her, in a real confident way and say hey how are you ?  just start a conversation about something iteresting and just say after a while lets go out, lets go see a movie or something yeah ??  She will say yes hopefully, if she doesnt then sorry shes not into you.  So either she does or she doesn't.  And that is not attractive either, not having good self esteem, why would you even say that you dont think you are good enough for her ??  Be confident, not self loathing but confident that is very attractive in a man.  So dont even think that you are not good enough for someone.\nGood Luck =)
597907
Tell her she seems like a real nice girl and you would like to get to know her better then ask her if you could take her out some time.
871705
Don't try so hard that you look like a show off. Play the game and if she does not pick you when you are as good or better than the others (not your own opion on being better) than she has a problem not you and it is time for a change.
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don't ask some to go out if she doesn't close to you because she will think that you are boastful. . . and if you are close to her it was good but ask him in a sweet way so she will be atracted to you. . . girls like sweet guys. . .
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The best thing to do in this case is to just be honest.  If you lead her on you'll just end up hurting more.  Don't be mean about by saying something like "I'd rather wander into rush hour traffic naked than to be with you".  She may get the wrong idea then and it will really hurt both her feelings and definately her self-esteem.  A lot of women I've talked to tell me that they want to feel desirable, so you have to keep that in mind when dealing with her.  Offer to go out on a date or two to see if it works out, but make it clear that it's just a date and that you have not made any formal commitment yet.