At what point do women grow up and start to appreciate men who are good to them?
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It is often not the first or tenth time we sit on a hot stove that taught us the lesson. It is when we have tired of having our butts burned that we remember the stove is just too hot to sit on,and we start to learn how to test  the heat cautiously,and with a more learned approach.
438923
It may seem like it, but eventually life experience will teach you that nice guys don't finish last, most young girls just have to through the illusion of the not so nice guys to realize how they really want to be treated. If you are truly a nice guy, don't let the disappointments of other peoples actions make you change...they'll need you before you need them and they'll be the losers when you are the successful one... by then, they won't matter to you. Check out the "gorgeous" girls 10 years from now!
551313
Several women have said this. They feel men are better friends to them.
277412
Yes There are Those women are mature women who know that personality of a person will taken them deeper in there relationship and will make the relationship last more than just a few years, because in five  ten twenty years looks change and than what you don't like that person any more that's just shallow. Wise and mature women know that and want personality in a man to hold onto to in the years to come.
954037
Guys like women in their late twenties and thirties because they have experience and are more mature.  Those relationships (older woman, young man) last for a good while if they're stable people.
932782
Some younger women and girls may like the bad boy type - because they are stupid - and don't know any better.  When they grow up - they know what is the better type - the good guy!  The one that is going to be a good husband, father and your best friend!:)
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Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
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Many men/women tend to look past that quality which makes that person special.  Our society rewards beauty, and while this is not fair, it is a fact.\n\nFor those who are guided by their own standards and phiolsophy, we see the person for what they are. Caring, loving. Worth having.  Hope this has helped.
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It is hard in the world to find a good woman and if you have one hang on to her. Women can be foolish at times and have their bad days but so what we do also. That young stuff doesn't really want you. What they want is the quest of seeing if they can get you.............
314633
women unconcisly look for happiness in an man.I went four years found one was happy and then lots of women started hitting on me because i was happy.Have that shine of happiness in your eyes.
701115
Well what happens it, us woman like the bad guy early on in life.  We think we can change them and some of us even have fun trying.  As we get older, and more mature, we realize that what we want is a guy we dont have to change.  One that already has all the qualities we want and one that is honest and caring.  One that makes us feel secure.\n\nMost woman who are ready to settle down look for the NICE GUY!
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Women always say they want a good guy. But between the ages of 18 to 25 women go out and party. Clubs, bars, Vegas, Spring Break anyone? The question you should be asking yourself is, what kind of guys was I dating in previous relationships? Why didn't they work? Then take a look at yourself and ask why would anyone want to be with me? What do I have to offer? Have some confidence in yourself, get to the gym, because we all need to work out and be healthy. Then get involved with something. Find a hobby. Then find people with the same kinds of interests. THEN YOU WILL FIND A GOOD GUY FOR YOU.
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When she's ready for it, matured enough to find a good man , regardless of the age.
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If you believe good men are hard to find when you are in your twenties, the barrel is even drier as you get older.  Our society is more interested in immediate sexual gratification.  There are not many men who want to commit and work on having a healthy steady relationship.  There are some who desire a relationship---at least in theory--but they will not put forth the effort or time to have a mature relationship.  \n\nWhen you become older you should mature emotionally and childish behaviors and ideas die.  Change is a very frightening thing for many people and they would rather stay at the status quo then work to improve communication skills, their lifestyle or their backwards thinking about relationship.  If you want a relationship, I would tell you to know your needs and what it is you want from the relationship and do not compromise.\n\nThe picking is slim for a good woman.
558999
How do you mean? Sounds like you've had some experience of this. Not all guys change dramatically. Take me for example, my best qualities have only improved gradually over time while my weaker ones have faded. Its a gradually change into become more confident in myself.
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i think they feel more appreciated. older women are more appreciative of little things than younger women, and they understand a little bit better what it takes to be a good gf/wife than a younger woman might. This is just a guess, of course
710868
well.. if a guy attracts you, that means he has good qualities that other ladies dig, so yea a lot of the great guys are taken..but they're still out there