would you rather be loved for who ur not or hated for who you are?
603027
I'd rather be left alone
123488
I can answer that with another question.  When you feel bad because of the way someone treats you, does that make you want to be just as bad as they are?\n\nWhy would you?  There is great honor in being better than those around you.
1113333
I would rather have a huge heart. The bigger his heart, the less likely he is to treat me badly. Love is done not from the asset but from the heart.
1088176
It is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not.  Be honest.  Be proud.
766862
love.... would u rather...\n\nknow someone likes u but have them not ask u out..... or have someone pick u as they're first choice if they had 2 pick and ask u out?
946021
Good to know I am not the only gullible, trusting, honest person out here.  I wouldn't want to change to be more like them as I sleep better at night knowing I did not try to screw someone out of their self worth.  Also, it will catch up with them in the end, as they will want happiness, but it will not come.  Being like WE are also makes me strong in my convictions, which people like THEM are not.  We can stand for what we want, love, believe in, hate, etc.  They live a lie all the time, they are what everyone wants them to be.  It would suck to be that way to me, as being myself makes me so much more independent.
966583
Most definitely.  I would rather be called Hey you.
1168182
Be yourself. If someone can't like you for who you are then you don't need them.
994245
I would change my attitude problem, It seems I offend allot of people! But Honesty I just wish they would think about my feelings too! I'm human too right?And dammit don't I deserve respect? Some laugh at my remarks like I do it intentionally, when all I'm trying to do is just get you people to like me? Just for who i am? Am I Not Human Too? Ahh Fuckit! I lied I Don't really want to change I LOVE being a Assshole we stick together right Lisa?
383547
" i hate myself for hurting you " or " still friends ? "
2046
you are who you are...why would you want to change yourself? life is not about what others think of you..its what you think of yourself. if you're bi, you're bi. be true to yourself!
774305
Neither. It's pure selfishness.\nYou give to get approval, in return. You only care about yourself.\nIn actuality you give nothing.
1147100
depends, would you rather be nagged but in love...or would you rather be lonely for a big chunk of your life
296651
maybe he/she hates u more than u hate him/her!
155150
I would rather be loved and forgotten.  Love is the ultimate. It would be terrible to be feared like Hitler and always remembered.
952603
I cannot hate people, but I do hate some of things people do..especially to each other.  It is so much easier to love.  Hate burns a lot of energy.
504746
who do you like more? who do you think you would have more fun with? who do you think you'd get along w/better? who asked you first? \nhopefully that's enough questions to help you answer your own question. lol