why is it every one is einstein in relationships, until it comes to why we love?
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but we don't really love--that is the problem with the equasion-- we try to find an answer to our "love " question--but in truth -the question is really another emotional formula-- mathamatics and physics is difficult--infinite if you will--or must.\ncheers
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I believe people have a natural need to be with someone who loves them.  I think people take it way to far though and that is how they get into bad relationships.  They are just so desperate not to be alone that they will take the first person who comes along.  \n\nSo I think people like to have someone they love, but they don't need it as much as they think.
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We fall in love because we want to feel special, loved and we want to feel secure.  It feels good to be inlove.
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I feel your pain...humanity has a lot to learn about love.  It is not showing its love on this planet right now...but some are.  It begins individually. One light at a time, like stars in the night sky.  Until we learn to love ourselves and not project our negative stuff on others it will go on as is.  Let your light shine...
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Einstein liked to flirt when he was young but he was also obsessed with his Physics. For example, his first marriage ended in divorce because of his indifference to his wife and child. This was during the first release of his general theory. Their marriage was good for him because she was a higher math major and they worked together in their early marriage towards the release of his book.\n\nPBS had an outstanding bio on him about a year ago and it revealed a side of him and woman that I had never known before. I am sure if you got on the web and went to the PBS web site, www.PBS.org and looked under Nova and the name of the DVD movie is: Einstein's Big Idea. I know this is the one because I recognized the guy that played him when I saw it. Hope this helped and good luck.
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because that is the way God made us............ love is awesome\nand God wants us to love Him first..........
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The reasons why people fall in love are varied. Some talked about chemical attraction (pheromones), and apparently it plays a great part in it. Of course, there's also the physical attraction, and that's more linked to what people called "lust". \n\nI take it that you can make the distinction between going out with someone, and loving someone.  Also, I'm only going to consider that the two persons involved are not commitment phobics.\n\nWhen people fall in love, they unconsciously tend to notice only the good things about their partner. Also, they tend to do more things for their partner. So that when the passion goes away and you get into a routine, you notice all the "shortcomings" of the other. Sometimes, it works out, but sometimes, you realise that you'll never be able to live with this person.\n\nEven if you don't mind the other's shortcomings, routine can be difficult to avoid. It can be difficult to keep love alive when you share everything with someone. Also, in a relationship, you are bound to compromise at some point - if you want to stay with that person, that is. \n\nThere's a book called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" (it's a best-seller) and, although he could have summed up his ideas in 15 pages, I think it's a good book to read to understand how men and women think. Sometimes, you really want your relationship to work, but you don't know how to do it because you don't understand the other. Communication is VERY important in a relationship, but even if you try to communicate, you might be doing it the wrong way. I'm not saying this book has THE answer (everybody's different), but I think it's a good way to understand why couples fight for apparently no reason. \n\nI think that before people get married, they should go out for a while, then live together for a while, and see if they can handle their problems. \n\nPS: of course, sometimes, love just fades away.
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that's a unsolved mystery. love is defined by many people i would say it is when you know what makes you happy in a relationship and the person is doing everything they can to come close to that. same goes for you if you are in a relationship think if you are doing everything to come close to make the person happy. but look inside and see if you love yourself and why.
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Most of the time you have fallen in love with love as it relates to some individual and you think this person is perfect with out fl awes, even if that really is not the case. It may just seem like it to you...\nhope this helps some
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bECAUSE LOVE IS LIKE A DRUG, LITERALLY. wHEN WE ARE IN LOVE THE BRAIN RELEASES CHEMICALS IN THE BRAIN CALLED ENDORPHINS. ONE IN PARTICULAR IS THE CHEMICAL DOPAMINE. THAT IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HAPPINESS OR PLEASURE(ONE OF THOSE) HOWEVER IT IS THE SAME PART OF THE BRAIN THAT IN BRAIN SCANS LIGHTS UP AFTER A SUBJECT DOES CRACK. SO Love IS LIKE A DRUG AND WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE YOU ARE BASICALLY GETTING DOSES OF THE DRUG, BUT WHEN LOVE COMES TO AN END IT IS HARD TO JUST GET OVER IT BECAUSE YOUR BODY CAN ACTUALLY BE GOING INTO WITHDRAWAL SYMPTOMS IF YOU WERE DEEP ENOUGH IN LOVE. MUCH LIKE A CRACK HEAD. lOL BUT SERIOUSLY
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Love in my mind is good energy. Wether it is between two people or for many it is a part of what makes humankind what it is. \n\nOn the other hand I also tend to think that movies and television have given us a romantic fantasy world of what love should be.  This causes people to meet and think they have this perfect loving relationship very quickly. Then reality sets in and noone is that perfect so things end messy. I wonder what relationships would be if we were not given the impression that they can be perfect.
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Thats a phylosophical question, and humanity have not been able to figure out a direct answer to that. And I think its the way its supposed to be. Otherwise humans would try to controll love!\n\nOfcourse we can talk of compartibility, physical, and psychological. We can talk about pheromones and sense of smell. But all of those are just mechanisms of falling in love. \n\nPersonally, for me, true love is caused by the hope of finding your soulmate. People who have found true love, are very fortunate, with out it, life is incomplete.
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We DON'T have to. It happens naturally. LOVE is what rules the world. That's the connection we all have with one another. We, human beings, at the end, ALL we want is to be LOVED.
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All relationships are based on values, subjectivity and mutual or shared interests. \n\nThese are conflicting sentiments and their equillibium is very fragile. \n\nThere lies their fragility.
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Why not? Of course love can happen. People are people, we all have things in common wether you guys are in different circles. Anyway, we need to look at people as people, as individuals and not define them by groups or cliques or circles.
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Love is something which cannot be explained but only can be experienced... Its something which needs feelings, not only attraction... If the person you love is in pain, you should be getting tears with love... If the person you love needs help, you should do it for them before even them asking you about it... It's the way two hearts talk... I dont really know if everyone can be loved but all i know is everyone can love... And for you to be loved is the greatest gift of all...
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??? I guess it's something about your personality.  Damn, if I could meet another person that would make me fall in love... xoxo\nHmmm... we're on the same boat but on opposite ends.  I'm a guy that has problems falling in love or even talking to the person everyday.  Why?!?  I like my space, right?  I like my own time.  Maybe I'm not ready because I haven't found anyone worthy of my absolute (EVERYDAY) once a day phone call thing that everyone does.  Therefore, for that reason it is difficult for anyone to see anything going serious with me.  It doesn't bother me.\n\nI'm just saying we're oddly on the same boat but at two different ends.