Some guys want to be gay.What's with gays anyways? Why???
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Gay is not a choice, it's a fact.  I'm willing to bet that every gay soul out there did NOT want to be gay and had to come to terms with it.  \n\nI wish people would open their minds, their eyes and their hearts to accept rather than question.  The world would be a better place indeed.
391100
im not sure. but you bring up a good point. i always wondered about that. if guys are so straight then they should love the gays cos then that means more girls for straight men.
1178815
ok and this is a question for the gay section because?????
380433
I would probably agree with gay, he may be confused with his own sexuality. The only other explanation is he could be shy or a virgin and not really know what he is doing. The best thing to do is ask him. It seems strange.
1067809
When you're gay (like half the people who commented on this probably arent, so they dont get it) you don't choose it.  Theres a point where you realize you are different... and its usually kinda scary.  So yeah, its natural.  If not then why do most upper forms of mammalian life do it?  Hmm?  \n\nHello?  You idiots out there with no idea what its really like to be gay?  Tell me something,.. do you think we would CHOOSE to be something that gets us beaten up, politically isolated and denied some of our basic human rights?  Get real... telling us gay is not natural and we should get with the opposite sex is like telling you to hook up with someone of your own sex.
811551
the difference between gay and straight has not been officially figured out... or else they would offer a "cure" or something-- like for people who think it is a sin or for those who don't want to be gay.
731359
I think why people do things like that is because they are scared to be who they really are for fear of being thrown of "normal" society.  All it is, is insecure people trying to be the opposite of gay to try and throw people off.  I mean come on, you know how many bashers I knew in high school that I saw at gay clubs a few years later?
1002612
What you meant to say...\n\nWhy are Gay People Just So Damned??!!!
683099
Man, if wishes were horses, beggers would ride.  And incidentally I would crap gold coins to stave off my massive financial problems, world peace would reign, and everyone would live in a happy fluffy bunny butterfly utopia full of hugs and puppies.  \n\nWishes don't make the world go round.  Actions do.  You will live in secrecy forever if YOU choose to do so.  You'll be unhappy about being gay as long as you choose to be unhappy.  Oddly enough, getting your gay a$$ out of the closet and meeting some nice gay people, dating some nice gay men, and having the best mind-blowing gay gay gay gay sex of your life is going to go a long way towards making you happier.  Don't end up like these sad people:\n\nhttp://time.blogs.com/daily_dish/2006/05/an_exexgay.html  \n\nYou like dick man.  Learn it, live it, love it because it is not going to change.  Why are you gay?  I don't know and here is a thought, I don't care.  Why is blue blue?  Why isn't it purple?  Why do bird sing?  Why do we exist?  What is the meaning of life?  Hell if I know.  Do you really want to spend your life going crazy asking unanswerable questions?  Or do you want to live your life?
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That sounds like a problem with the other people, not you or your friend. \n\nI'm sure he isn't the only gay guy there. Perhaps the only one brave enough to come out, knowing that uninformed people will look at him weird. Share his bravery; be yourself, hang out with who you want. If people want to hold that against you, that should teach you something valuable about those people. And the next time someone else wants to be themself and come out, or be friends with your friend because he's a good guy, they'll be that much more likely to do it.
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because most men on the down low refuse to believe that they are even homosexual. they  just got to have a  REASON  for this  since  they  actually believe it is just an occasional thing and doesn't mean they are gay. such men are so terminally in denial.
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I don't think anyone wants to be gay. I really don't think that a person would want to be rediculed and shunned by society and alienated by their family and friends. I honestly think that that's just the way that they...just like ppl are heterosexual. People can't help who they are attracted to. And I think that society should be more accepting of gay ppl...after all they are ppl too. I support the gays and I am with them in their struggles. I think that I may be attracted to girls as well. And what the hell is wrong with that.
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Yes I think people are born gay. Why would someone choose to leave a hard and often rediculed life? And the discrimination they get is just wrong. Also have you seen some of the gay/lesbians? Some of the dudes have more female mannerisms then me.There is no way you learn that it is just how you are.
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Although I am not male...I would like to offer my opinion....I have a few friends that are gay and they are anything but effeminate! I know that when they tell people they are gay not many others believe. This is too bad that in this day and age, and with the access to all these tools to educate, many, or should I say most, still have this stereo type of what a gay man "should be". This is just plan ignorant and narrow minded. But then these people still probably are too homophobic to discover the truth...and get to know some for who they really are...not based on a preconceived label.
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I think gay people have some kind of mental problem maybe due to their childhood experience or simply they were dropped on their head when they were born.I dont understand this simple psychology of attraction of gay people...why on earth u would wanna like something that u already have.God didnt make adam and evan...HE made Adam and Eve,go figure why!Gay people are just mentally ill and not sure about themselves regarding relationships and sexuality.They should go see a psychiatrist and take therapy to come back to normal life.Damn u gayz!!
268906
Well I am sorry it makes you sick.  Not everything or every one is the way we all would like.  Some what disappointing I know.  As for WHY would someone like to be gay? I will tell you something.  I am happy with my lifestyle now. I am happy with the woman I am with.  But there was a period where I wasn't so sure.  Why you wonder.  Because my mother disowned me because of it.  My father bought books to see if they had the answers, maybe he did something wrong.  Or my personal favorite what my high school finding out and my teacher telling me I shouldn't eat with the other kids because it bothers them. \nDoes this sound like something we CHOSE?  Does this sound like something we ASKED for?  \nWe are stronger for the things we go through, doesnt mean we ask for the turmoil along the way.
1001193
because men are all secretly gay