What do you think of reconciling with someone you love so much but she keeps on cheating on you.?
599314
She's not going to make you any happier, even if you shower her with diamonds. She's a cheater and she'll always be that way. Find someone who's worthy of you.
584899
she doesnt sound like a honest person, i think you better move on before you really get hurt...sometimes loving someone means letting go.....
996764
baby, you need to open YOUR eyes.  sadly, she'll likely only realize how much you love her when you're not there anymore, when you've moved on for good.  sweet-heart, she's using you for a back-up.  you are feeding and satisfying her hurt ego.  this is not good for you.  I'm sure she doesn't intend to use you because when you've been cheated on you're an emotional mess, but she is.\nmove on, sugar.  this relationship is destructive to you.
116127
well if you are going to take him back then you have to get over it. otherwise let him go. i cheated with a guy and we got back toghether and he treated me bad because of it instead of like loveing me and us chillin because i was faithful to him for a while and well guess what i did it again and we are now broke up. but you are not wronge to give him another chance. people do change and though it is not an excuse yall were both going through some pretty bad stuff so i mean he could really be sorry. but if he does it again which he may not then leave him unless you want to give him another chance (there is no such thing as to many chances but when you get tired of soemthing you area tired of it) so i hope if he does keep cheating you will leave cause youdeserve better but its really up to you but this could work out for yall and i hope it does. good luck and God bless.
158846
Yes forgive her, but move on without her.  You will never be able to truly trust her again.
1043413
First of all, don't lower your standards to hers, don't cheat...I understand the love connection and you both have been together for a fair amount of time, but her being unfaithful now doesn't make for a good choice of a wife later...they always say they were going to stop, but allow to continue an affair until its discovered and not voluntarily revealed.  I find that important when it comes to determining if you should continue in such a relationship..I recommend ending it, but to answer your question, it would take a love that thru sorrow and regret for what she has done...that could convince you that this will never happen again...talk to her, find out why and how this happened , take all the information you can get and determine if your heart can forgive and forget in order to make such a shaky relationship last...good luck.
427321
Well I think you did the right think by breaking up with him. That takes a lot of courage. But now you need to stay strong and stick to that. He cheated on you and yea, he probably says he changed and won't do it ever again, but the truth is, you won't really be able to trust him again. You will always wonder in the back of your mind if he is cheating or if he will cheat again.\nIn the long run, you will just end up miserable. So yea, he wants you back, but too bad. His loss and he should have thought about that before cheating on you. \nDon't give in...Be strong.
616296
The most smart thing 2 do would prolly b 2 leave em cuz dat sayn "once a cheater alwayz a cheater" but errebody iz diffrent...But wen u love sumbody it ain't as easy as errebody say...But if u love him & wanna give it anotha try id say go 4 it cuz errebody deserve A 2nd chance but don lisin 2 nebody follow ya heart gurl do watchu feel iz rite!
22597
Don't give her another reason to not trust in you and be patient with her you just have done something real bad to her you can't blame her being aftraid to trust in you again - imagine yourself being in her shoes before you say you have lost your patience on her.
309070
Most relationship decisions come down to one question; Can I handle it, or can I not? It's obvious she has no plans to stop cheating. What you have to decide is whether you love her enough to forgive her and stay with her, or if you can't. \n\nIf you decide you want to stay, you need to talk to her and try to figure out why she's being unfaithful. Once you have a reason, then maybe you can work through it. If you can't forgive her, or she won't stop, then you have to decide if you can handle being married to a woman who sleeps with other men, or leave her.\n\nMy personal opinion is that she does not love or respect you and you should respect yourself by leaving.
136609
She shouldn't accept his excuses once, far less ten times. She may be loving and faithful to him but his actions clearly demonstrate that he does not share similar sentiments toward her. She needs to be loving and faithful to herself first. After ten times of cheating this is a habit for him and he's not going to change and she's just hanging around waiting on heartache if she stays.
195121
well your answer lies on one thing where is she at now as well who else has she been with in this matter you feel for the oldest thing going that is being played for a stand in . i have been there did  it as well not worth it in my opion how do you think i caught my.ex. wife. she was cheating i had the sence to get rid of it. grow up like i did. nt worth it my friend she this woman you are talking about is a player if she was with you you might thing who else has she fooled with you dont want to end up in court over this woman she aint worth ita woman like that cant love she has something called a whoreing spree ?
363616
I can truly say that i have been there.  I chose the one that was leaving to the army for 4 years and he cheated on me 2 times.  he has been back for 1 year and although i have a hard time trusting him, we are together and are happy so far.  You just have to think whether or not you want to go thru with it and forgive if it happens or if you think you deserve better.  Good luck
981595
sorry to hear that both of you started the relationship on deceptive terms.  she's being a hipocrit.  and I know you say you love her, but why would you want to be with someone that has cheated and lies.  trust is the foundation of any relationship, without that you have nothing.  you will be in the relationship always having questions about this that or the other.  to much stress and not being happy.  keep looking for something better.  good luck
828196
Very, wery possible. No once aperson cheats it is higly likely they will do so again.\nAdvise him, to take caution.\nPerhaps it would be best for him since the past cheating is knowledge to forget this gal. Find him someone more stabel.\nHE could get into a bad realtionship with this gal and relly get hurt\nSounds like she wants to jump from one man to another.
282037
i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new
1068917
I couldn't and wouldn't.  I love the man I'm married to. If you love the other person...how can you betray them?  He/She may never find out...but.........you would always know. Can you look them in the eye after betraying them?  Could you live with yourself?  Would you feel the guilt?  Then maybe one day...the guilt builds up, you feel your mate deserves better than what you've given. There goes the relationship.  Besides..........."How can you REALLY be SURE you can get away with it?"    If it ruins your relationship, you didn't get away with it.  Think about it.   The grass isn't always greener on the other side. And you usually find a lot of weeds.    If the person you want to have an affair with is willing to do this knowing you're cheating....how can they trust you not to cheat on them if it were to lead to more than an affair?   Cheating is never the answer.   Be true to your man/woman.  And....be true to yourself.