i met him again, but how do i forget him?
600655
I don't think you can ever forget him, unfortunately for you and the rest of us who may suffer from similar problems with our past.  You obviously need to resist him.  You can try to avoid putting yourself in positions where you will run into him.  You know enough about him to know what many of his habits are and where he often will frequent.  It will not stop chance meetings as there is nothing to do about them, but it should limit many of the more risky run ins you may have.  Otherwise, the best hope is that you immerse yourself in some hobby, activity or volunteer somewhere...anything to occupy your mind.  Otherwise, I am at a loss as to what you can do, other than moving away.  Just stay strong and hold to your convictions.  Remember why you are not with him and drill the negative thoughts into your mind, remember the bad times, the bad things and hopefully your desire for him will fade.  Good luck!
626024
You will never forget him.  Right now it hurts but everyday it will hurt less and less.  You won't think of him as often.  And one day you will meet a man that seems to have walked out of your dreams and when that happens you won't remember the name of the one that hurt.
1029678
maybe you can add him on your ignore list. that way he wont be added on your contacts. \n\nhope this helps.
45405
YOU DONT. YOU JUST PICK UP THE PIECES, GO OUT THERE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO LOVE YOU WITH EVERYTHING INSIDE THEIR SELF. LOVE IS  NOT HARD ITS THE TRUST YOU GIVE TO SOMEONE THAT IS HARD TO ERASE. YOU WILL BE HURT FOR A WHILE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT BUT YOU DONT NEED TO HEAR FORGET ABOUT HIM. YOU NEED TO KNOW YOU CAN MAKE IT. REMEMBER BE NICE TO HIM . IF HE REALLY MISSES YOU HE WILL CALL YOU. DONT DO OR SAY ANYTHING THAT WILL PUSH HIM AWAY
332468
LOL@gomez_leovinus! Anyway, only time will help you get over him. Enjoy fun activities in the meanwhile. Go out with your family, female friends and enjoy life. He is not your everything. Forget about him. Trust me, you are NOT the only person that had to get over someone they really liked, it's a part of life, it's natural...deal with it. We all had to get over it as well and have to live and learn. You can't force him to like you. That will never happen therefore, the best thing to do for yourself is forget about him. He'sa waste of brain space lol. You'll find someone else that actually likes you back and appreciates your company. Time will heal your saddened heart :) You need to try though. Good luck!
1184511
Yes But sometime I forget about HIM....... :o(
989249
Get a hobbie. Make new friends. Do what you did before you met him. Don't waste so much time on him. By all means, move on. Who's to say that you might not meet someone better tomorrow?
729520
Start by ignoring him.  He likely wants the attention.  If that doesn't work, you might wish to lose your identities that he knows and carry on.
713109
You might never forget, i still think about someone from 15 years ago. Unless they were total a__holes why forget? Keep the good parts and look for someone that has those parts in them as you move forward. Relationships and friendships come and go, but you need to be able to talk it out with someone to at least start the healing. The mind and heart suck sometimes!
391990
Find something else to do with your time so you arent thinking about him all the time. Hopefully when you are engaged in other activities you will also meet someone who does like you
719810
Do not listen to his voice. Do not call him. Do not answer or return his calls.  Throw away cards, letters and all things that remind you of him.  Make yourself busy and take meticulous care of yourself.  Give your time to your other friends and family members whom you may have been distant with.  Catch up on some hobbies and volunteer work.  Make appointments for yourself to do the things you enjoy every day in the week. Every night, have someone to talk to who understands what you may be going through. Whenever your thoughts stray toward him, think only about the way he disappointed you and hurt you and remind yourself that you deserve the best. The longer you were with him, the longer it may take for you to get over him.  Nevertheless, you WILL get over him.
457457
Past is past but the memories we left behind is hunting us deep within our hearts....next time, you see him...give him a smile and look away and never say things you never ment to say....
863787
You can stop when you stop checking up on him. As long as you dig around to see if he is okay or listen to stories about him, you are feeding your fantasy/dreams/neurosis.\nStop all check/sightings/following. Then when you start to think of him, repeat the mantra "I distinctly remember forgetting about him." This will help reprogram your mind.
566045
All I can say is that time heals wounds and you will think you are never going to get over him but time will do it. Try not to think of him if you start to think of him start thinking of something else. Stay busy all the time. Put away anything that has to do with him like stuff he gave you and don't listen to the same music that the two of you listened to. Put pictures of him away in the attic or somewhere its not easy to get to. Then one day you will be able to look back and it will be a lot better. All of a sudden you will not think of him as much and you will then be on your way. Good luck I know its hard. It is one of the hardest things but if you ever get hurt next time you will be stronger.
939537
i have found the best way to get over someone is to think about them as though they have died.  that way you can keep the memories you have about the good times you had with him but accept there will be no more.  stay busy and go different places and do different things than you did when you were with him.   try very hard not to see him or hear about him.  it's a cliche but time does really heal and every day gets a little easier.  don't stay home and be sad now even though no guys measure up right now.  the next one who will measure up is out there and you won't meet him while you're at home feeling sad.  and once you meet him you'll wonder what you ever saw in the guy who made you sad.  good luck!!
690401
Not Instantly, but it helps! Do things to get ur mind OFF of him/her. At first, you'll spend the whole date comparing them. And then eventually you'll have a whole hour without thinking about them, then a day, then two. It gets better. Do stuff you like. Remember your life before you met them. Good luck darlin, You will get over it, It just took me some time.
262795
Just be assertive.  Next time you see him just say something like "Hi you know that every time i see you i think i would like to buy him a coffee; would it be too forward if i offered to buy you one now?"  Remember this could be the last time you may see him, hence if you dont do it soon you may forever regret it.  What have you got to lose? think about it!  Good Luck