there is a guy that is madly in love with me but I dont have feeling for him though I do eat his money, what..
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Give me da money honey\n\nI eat his money, he's in love with me\nOh I'm a trifflin friend indeed\nOh I'm a gold digga way over town\nHe really digs me\n\n(I take his money)\nNow I ain't sayin he don't love me (When I'm in Need)\nBut he ain't messin with no dumba** sista\n(I take his money)\nNow I ain't sayin' I ain't a gold digger (When I'm in need)\nBut I ain't messin' wit no broke niggaz\nGet down boy gone head get down (I gotta leave)\nGet down boy gone head get down (I gotta leave)\nGet down boy gone head get down (I gotta leave)\nGet down boy gone head\n\nYea I the bomb\nMet him at the auto salon\nI got me sum louis vuitton\nUnder my underarm\nHe said I can tell u ROC\nI can tell by ya charm\nFar as boys you got a flock\nI can tell by ya charm and ya arm\nbut I'm lookin for the one\nhave you seen her\nMy psychic told me she have a ass like Serena\nTrina, Jennifer Lopez, four kids\nAn I gotta take all they bad ass to show-biz\nI said here are my kids but then they got their friends\nYou buy me da Benz, they all need to get up in\nWe wanna go to LA but you gotta pay\nIf you messin wif me boy then i'll make you pay\nYou know why\nIt take too much to touch me\nFrom what I heard you got more money than Busta\nMy best friend say if not, there's always Usher\nI dont care what you say cos I don't love ya\n\n(I take his money)\nNow I ain't sayin he don't love me (When I'm in Need)\nBut he ain't messin with no dumba** sista\n(I take his money)\nNow I ain't sayin' I ain't a gold digger (When I'm in need)\nBut I ain't messin' wit no broke niggaz\nGet down boy gone head get down (I gotta leave)\nGet down boy gone head get down (I gotta leave)\nGet down boy gone head get down (I gotta leave)\nGet down boy gone head\n\n.....
367078
I think it depends on a few things.If you feel like he's useing you for sex, don't give it up. Now if you enjoy the sex with him, take his money and his sex. let him be gone.
456470
you have to revaluate your relationship with this person. If you are truly in love ….well it would be a horrible mistake to leave. However, are you sure it is not just because you want this to work which is making you feel as if you are in love?? Talk to your family about this problem and ask their advice (since they know you better then me). Work it through with this guy and see if there is a compromise. Make sure the sacrifice is not only one sided otherwise it might haunt the relationship in the future. Make sure you know this guy and understand who he truly is because people can seem different over the net or phone??. Think and ask for guidance from those closest to you. And most of all discuss it with all the people which will be affected.
272339
That's really sweet of you to care about him enough to think so hard about the consequences on him. . .most people love carelessly.  For God's sake, go after him!  You'll regret forever if you don't at least try to.  And even if he isn't interested or is in a relationship, he will feel good to know he means that much to you.  I wish you the best of luck. . .I like love stories that have happy endings. . .but I also know that most love stories don't have happy endings so love stories that end with emotional closure are OK too.
366218
Why is he there ? That's what you ask him next time he says that you don't love him .He may be pushing you toward something he wants but you don't .Selfish ego guy , run !
1141162
Why do you 'want' to love that sort of individual? It's mind over matter thins time girl.  He is all about perversion and betrayal.  Try to think about the principles behind what he has done to you.  He will not choose you over his lifestyle.
227555
Either he IS in a relationship or he ISN'T in a relationship.\nThere is no such thing as 'kinda in'.\nYou are infatuated because he is unavailable to you. Stay out of it. Please try again.
1037397
Honey if the Dude is truly in love the only person he would be looking at is You.And is he ashamed of you?Girl it sounds like this dude is playing with Ur feelens. Or are u just a spare tire to him and when he needs u he calls.Take it from a guy who has been playing around all his life.I hate to say this leave him and I am sure he will come chasing u and when he does u set the rules .OK Try it it works
1059363
at least have some self respect and move on...you are just obsessed...what ever you think of him is all in your imagination and it's not real!! there's no mercy in love.....
570470
Did you know all this before getting involved with that person? If so I can image he does feel that way. If not than maybe the love wasn't as strong as you thought. You can only do what you feel you can................
808867
I would give them both a shot. You never know maybe the guy with money is for you. In the end, only settle for love but give each guy a shot. If he drools over you and is good to you. Love can grow
164542
Sounds like a crush.  Does he feel the same way?  Get to know him better.  Find out if he's honest and loyal.  Meet his family and his friends and see if he acts the same way while you are with them that he does when the two of you are alone.  This is not love, but it can grow into it if you both like each other and you are both honest, loyal people.  Do not physically act on your emotions until you know he likes you for who you are.
507783
Well this is considered having your cake and eating it too.  A guy will take whatever you are willing to give and it will do anything to keep it that way.  What you should do is not talk to him anymore and tell him that you are worth more than being second, if you keep talking to him then it will always be that way, but if you put your foot down and say no then he will either stay with his girl and you will know that he never really wanted to be with you or he will leave her and get with you and then you will know where you stand.  Good luck!
1033654
If you like dating him.  Date him.  Perhaps he has morals and doesn't want to use you.  Or maybe you should just move on to the next guy.  \nIt sounds like you've been around and It sounds like you are going to hurt this fellow.  Better to end it now before he falls in love with you if he hasn't already.
127541
Because he is having his cake and eating it too....\n\nIf he is doing this to you, he has no respect for you, even if he says he loves you and can't live without you, and the longer you allow him to do it, the more advantage he will take of you.\n\nIs he really worth the trouble?
1139932
It sounds like it's a matter of how you feel about him, rather than how me could make you feel loved.  Love can take time to grow, but when you do have that moment, then you will know it when you experience it.  Until then, You should be honest that you don't feel love yet.  If you hide it or are dishonest about it, you'll only be doing yourself and any bf you're with a disservice.
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tell him straight away how you feel about him.  if he reciprocates then good for you.  if not at least you will be in the clear.  If you do not hurry someone may beat you to it and then you will be left with nothing.  Take a chance.  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  don't think that love is a game of chance.  Don't ignore him.  instead shower all your attention on him.  this is your self created mess and only you can clear it up.  all the best.  God Bless.