I was best friends with neighbors until they flipped out. How do I handle them now?
595635
be glad no one was physically hurt, stay away from people who don't know the difference between adult matters and children's squabbles!
123191
Sweetie, I'd delete them right back.  You were friends for seven years and they zapped you just  like that?  Your friend didn't consider you a friend.  You have to face it and find a better friend.  Your friend left you for a reason and because they were really cold, you should just  let them go.  They are saying they don't want you around.  Nothing you can do about that.  Can't force a friendship on someone who doesn't want  it.   I can be your yahoo friend if you want.
841788
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
540342
Find out why they stole whatever they stole.  Then, either call the police, or just lop off their hand.  Either way, I'd find a new friend.
359227
First get a friend.\n\nAnd to the third answer, what the heck does "react with them" mean?
1081342
talk to them\ntell them how you feel\n13 years of friendship is something you should try to work out\nyou might find that they have changed\npeople do grow over time\nmaybe they have matured\n\nespecially try to work it out with the one who was mad. Don't let a fight ruin a friendship.  Friends fight... that is inevitable... but the whole point is you work it out, make up and move forward.
256934
well if the reasons were justifiable then what you need is to do is start in a totally different circle then the the one they are in.If you have any interests go and join a group that is in your area.From there you could find a new friend.
522752
First, understand truly the view points of each one individually, and why they're angry with the other.  Then, get them together in a neutral place and YOU do the talking.. say.. this is how A feels, and this is how B feels.  And explain to them that you will not take sides, and that you will not talk to either of them until they've resolved their differences.  It's the best way to get them back to being friends, and it's also the best way to maintain your integrity.
714246
Pull out the knife and move on.  Best friends don't stab you in the back..... so perhaps the friendship was one-sided.\n\nBest Wishes,\n\nSue
319907
If it got to the point they had to call hte cops I would say you blew it.  If you aren't really willing to accept that answer and you are willing to do ANYTHING to be friends with her again then patience is the key.  You have to prove to her that you are sorry and will never act that way again.  Let me tell you earning back someones trust is never an easy thing.  Be patient...wait for her... do what you can to show her you are sorry subtly and if a fight starts refuse to engage in it...
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
670113
Self respect says you got to take a stand, or you wouldn't be asking this here.  Think of it this way, would you want friends that can't be brave unless they have back up? or the one that stands alone, and cares enuff about you to keep coming back for more?  Choose sides, then, side all parties down, and tell them straight out what you just said to us, we used to be kewl, now we are not, I can't take it anymore, lets work it out, or I got to choose sides.  And don't let the 2, lay all the blame on the one.\nPersonally, I wouldn't even try talking, I would take the loner's side, and just see what happened.  If they left, fine, I expected it, but who knows, might scare them into backing off.
364707
This is a tough situation.  This person has been your best friend for some time, but has taken a big turn for the worse.  My advice is to call or write her, and without getting too emotional, tell her how much you were hurt when she didn't come to your Quinceanera.  Hopefully, she will understand that this meant a lot to you, realize the importance of your friendship and try to make it up to you.  However, if she doesn't even after you've explained how much she hurt you, then she isn't acting like a friend any longer.  It will be hard, but you'll need to let go of her.  You deserve to be treated better than this by your friends.\n\nGood luck, and if I can be of any help - just write.
104079
try to make peace with them, you dont have to be great friends just make peace so your not enemies
267367
Find new friends. If you can't do the obvios thing and just go ask the police you are line to be where he is. Stop the drugs, work hard, etc. because you will realize this later. But I sound preachy. You will someday know what I say is true.
64578
You know what. You have exhausted your options. It is unfortunate that your only course of action now is to either demonstrate how they affect you by demonstrating the same behavior and hope they are smart enough to notice, or move. Good luck.
818296
get them fucking out ! if you didnt do it and they dont trust you they are not your friends and if they are not your friedns why would you share with them ?! find better friends oviaslu these are biches !