unserious question.....What if you your friend has just had a baby..?
603663
I would take the baby and run and get rich off of a future telling 3 month old that can talk clearly.  That way you wouldn't have to ponder weather it's a truth telling baby or a lying baby!
432727
I think you have to get permission from the baby first...I could be wrong...don't quote me on that.\n\n\nYESYESYES!!!!!
189509
fly anyway and go home if that's what you truely want.  trust me, i know- it's not alright to be alone while having a baby. be with family or real friends.  otherwise fly someone you know out to you.
967423
Many new mothers go through some emotional weirdness and don't want anyone other than their spouses and themselves to handle a newborn.  Let your sister know that you're there to support her, but don't be intrusive.  Eventually she should come to you once things settle down a bit.
1054092
Your best bet is not to stress about it, the baby is in control- the worst that will happen is a c-section- which I understand may not be your first choice, but once the baby is here, you won't care how they got here... \nAnd stressing is not good for either of you right now.
285015
Yes.  I was talking with a friend of mine and told her that a mutual friend of ours was pregnant.  Another friend that knew the supposedly pregnant woman had told me, and I trusted her because she was roommates with the woman at the time.  My friend said the woman wasn't pregnant, she was depressed and had put on a little weight.  I said no way (not very nicely) and my friend got angry.  A couple of days later, I asked the woman if she was pregnant and she burst out crying and told me about losing her boyfriend.  I was so embarrassed.  I called my friend and asked her out to dinner and while we were eating (she is a forgiving soul, and I was picking up the tab :)  ), I apologized and said what a jerk I was.  She agreed with me and let it go.  I try to verify things now.  If I am going to take a strong stand on something I say, I want to be well informed.
332954
you shouldn't...congrats on the new baby, If your worried about your baby this early you are going to be a good mom.
439568
try asking if she needs anything for the baby or send a small card or present,that might get you talking.  I split up from my husband when i was pregnant, it was hard but my little boy knows no different and is bright and happy,  it was hard to let go of the fantsy of a perfect , happy family but what's that these days.  try not to worry, she will need help when the baby comes and will likely turn to you, chin up
54019
I think that you should lean on God for help and friends. I am sorry for what he did to you. Focus on the baby.. if you need someone to talk to I would be more then happy to be here... I'll pray..
568089
Buy two pair of baby bootes. On one pair attach a tag with her due date, wrap as a gift.  Do the same with the other pair but put your due date on it.  Present her with "her" booties first, then with "yours".  Watch for the reaction when she realizes that the second due date is yours!  \n\nShe will be so thrilled to know your baby's will grow up close in age.  Congrats on your pregnancy!
871368
I think you need to be more understanding of you friends situation.  She is a Mom now and that seems to be very important to her.  You have to accept her for everything she is and that includes her children.  Things change and you must adjust to that change.  Good Luck!
822630
wow well i would forget your friend she'll get over her crush.  If i were you i would try to contact the babies father.  and i know you might be scared now but a baby is a blessing and i would just spend the next nine months getting ready for the arrival.
665101
I would get a few different opions from actual doctors instead of us average joes. I wouldn't want you to do something even it's natural. Some people are allergic even if the baby isn't born yet if it harms you then it could harm the baby. Congrats!
979187
I can choose to answer this question or not.\n\nOur daughter will have her first child in 7 months!\n\nAre you happy enough with my answer to give me ten points?\n\nThank you!!!
770327
you know what? as her friend you have a duty not to pressure your friend into anything. it wouldnt be you living with the demands of a baby, it wouldn't be you pregnant and going through labour and it wouldnt be you having the abortion, you should just support your friend in what would be an extremely difficult time. abortion is more than a woman deciding she doesnt want a baby. its an extremely difficult choice to make and contrary to some popular belief its not done on a whim and forgotten about. your views are fine, and no one would be pressuring you to abort just because they believed in it. anti abortionist believe its a selfish act when actually its the most selfless thing you can do. if your not capable or dont feel capable of being a mother then why should that  child suffer at the hands of someone who cant cope? if this situations arises with you again i suggest you keep your views to yourself and direct the friend to some counselling which is impartial so she can make the right decision for her. sorry but the woman has more rights than an unborn baby and i'm a mother of three, abortions also happen for different reason, i,e, rape, abuse, contraception failure, malformation with a foetus, dont tar everyone with the same brush and value other ppls views as you do your own or how can anyone take you seriously if you close your mind to other points of view? rant over! n dont mention adoption, theres enough children in this world without loving parents but cos they arnt sweet little babies they stay on the scrap pile.
514290
Hi\n\n   I know this may seem harsh but the best thing you need to do is think of yourself and the baby. Being in a stressful situation like that is in no way shape or form good for you or your baby. I hope I helped
758674
When I read this for a minute I was trying to think if one of my friends was asking the question. Lol. This is my mom! I have two kids, and she has only watched them a handful of times, and that is when I ask, like I have a doctors appt. ect. This was EXTREMELY hurtful when I had kids, because she too spends more time with her nieces, which are older. Anyway, I finally talked with her about it and she just explained that younger kids aren't her strong point. When they get older they are easier to care for and won't make one so flustered about getting into things. I've just learned to deal with it. I would advise you're friend to talk to her mom about it, I wrote a long three page letter, that wasn't rude, it was humble and got alot of things out in the open, that was probably one of the hardest things I've had to do. But in the long run, things have been SO much smoother between us now. And she understands that it would be helpful for me to get out sometimes with my husband. Anyway, hope this helps. Remember she can't be defensive and rude about it, her mom is not obligated to watch them. But I've been there and done that. Good Luck!