What is a bad boy and how can a nice guy become one.?
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read this http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html girls will eventuall grow out of that, im in your exact position, you may not have a girlfriend but in the long run, you will be a winner on it. I hate how it is but thats how the world is, have you tried to ask someone out? even to just a group outing (don't call it a date), or if your in hs, have you asked a girl to a dance? the girls always like nice guys, but they usually take us for granted, as there and someone to talk to. all i can say is try what i said above read the stuff on that site and be confident. best of luck\ncontact me if you have anymore questions, maybe i can be a bit more helpful since im where you are
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bad boys are exhilarating!!!    i like to be kept on my toes!!;-)\n\nreally though i like to find guys who are caring, etc. after you get to know them.  but in the beginning i'm into the a**holes.  its a rush to be overpowered and out of control once in a while!!\n\n;-)
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i really want a nice guy
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the best thing to be is a badass hardworking nice guy.......no problem.......just give it some thought.......\nyou just have to work hard, be nice to everyone and dont be concerned about being politically correct hence bad ass.
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Can a guy be too nice?\n\nThe answer is yes. How is this possible? The general rule is that by being too nice, the relationship becomes too platonic. What this means is that the emotional state is more like that of being 'friends'. The level of attraction then naturally goes down, because you will be seen as 'just a friend'.\n\nDoes that mean you have to be a bad guy?\nGetting the balance right is the most difficult thing. Some guys are naturally selfish in a relationship and need to work on being less self-centered (I guess being nicer).\n\nOther guys, especially when you are crazy about a girl or a guy, can be too nice. Thinking this is quite natural. That a girl or a guy is the center of your world and that they alone can make you happy. Depending on the realtionship, especially if both partners do not feel like this, it can sometimes come across as overpowering, or as dependence or neediness. Which will not work either. \n\nDoing things you like, creating a good feeling in your own life and being confident with who you are, seem to be some the best qualities. Being happy in your own world.\n\nFriends make good lovers\nHowever sometimes, you can connect with someone so strongly that your friendship becomes stronger and stronger and stronger. Until it naturally develops into a relationship. Though, I think for this to happen there has to be an amazingly strong deep bond and perhaps a degree of unwriten mutual physical attraction.\n\nI hope this has helped. I was sorry to hear about this, especially if it happened unexpectly. It may not be that you are 'too nice'. But you just didn't meet the right girl. Seems like ya got a lot to offer, this aint the only gal in the world, get out there.
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Maybe you're just a little more mature than others your age.  There's nothing wrong with being nice, but that's not enough.  You need to add some flare, like humor, or be like Napolean Dynamite and use a skill. haha.  But you get the idea, nice is just nice, you need to express more than that in your personality because the nicest guy in the world could be very boring or very exciting, it just depends on what else there is besides being nice.
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Listennnnn... Can i be real with you? I can... thank you. First off not all guys are jerks i know ladies i know there are dogs out there but there are some female dogs ( i aint gonna say it) out there too. But if you always on look out you might push away some real good guys. A good way to tell is look at his friends and how he acts with them if most of them are assholes he might be too. Ask other girls about him. Other thing is most girls let there friends pick there male counterpart I say what do you think do you feel he is? So Listennnnn to ya boy give him a chance you only live once.
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nice guy=very sexy.if i was 10yrs younger your search would be over lol keep lookin huni you,ll find her xx
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Bad boys are apealing for a time....they are exceiting.  But in the end what most women want is  a  nice guy who treats them right.  My husband tells this story about this girl he when with and she  dumped him for a bad boy.  After he and I got married we ran into the women at a  club and she told my husband, "You were the best thing that ever happened to me and I was so stupid.  He turned out to be a real jerk."  Of course, by then I  had already snatched him up and she was left out in the cold.  But she really regretted dumping the nice guy and getting  in with the bad boy...she got burned for it in the end.  I suggest that you forget  her and look for  a nice girl.  The nice girls are probably not the most popular girls because the popular girls are popular for all the wrong reasons.  And the nice girls are not popular because they actually have ethics and values.  When I was in school I wouldn't have sex, wouldn't drink, wouldn't smoke and wouldn't do drugs....wasn't allowed to date until I was 16.  My parents made me dress modestly.  Guess what?  I wasn't very popular.    I wasn't  asked to prom, wasn't asked to  the home coming dance and all of those things.  What  a nice guy needs to do is look for  a  nice girl and forget about  who's popular.
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My best friend is one of these girls, and she always says she enjoys to be with bad boy so that she can show    all his weaknesses and good sides. Many "bad boys" are in fact really good persons who are only afraid of showing their personality."Bad" and "Good" is often misunderstood.
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It's not really being a "bad boy". It's more in the confidence of the guy. It's how he presents himself to other people -- if he's unsure of himself, it comes off as more desperate than anything else. Where as if he's confident -- it makes him that much sexier.
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I've dated several "bad boys" and frankly I would rather spend the rest of my life single than date another.  Nice guys finish first in my book.  Bad boys can take a hike.
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there is lots of women that like nice guys. the bad guys usually get the attention because they make a move first. go ahead and be nice, but not shy.
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whatever, no women really want a "nice" guy. We say we do, but I've been with nice guys and I walk all over them. The balance is getting a guy that is mostly nice but has boundaries and will not let you walk all over them. a guy that has enough self confidence to stick up for himself and you know that he would be ok without you but he really likes being with you. Men that are like this are married. Men that are gay, I agree with one of the other comments, they are 'safe' and therefore we are more attracted to them. If they are not available you can't have them, and if you don't have them you can't lose them, and they can't hurt you.
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nice guys - friendly, reliable, nice\nbad boys - exciting, adventure
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Just be yourself!!! Dont change for nobody!!! Personally I find  the clean cut gentleman more attractive, but I like a bad boy attitude.
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I like the thrill of goin' out with a 'bad guys'. i don't know it's sort of hard to explain. but thing is it depends, on what kind of girl you're talking about. Me for example, like both. i think that 'good guy are very sweet,cute,kind, and caring. And i think 'bad guys' are rebelious, funny, risk-takers, and i'm-bad-and-you-love-it-sexy. But you've got to admit, all guys aren't exactly perfect angels, everyone's got a little naughty streak in them.