What does it exactly mean when a woman says "I love you" but "I'm not in love with you"
595627
She loves you but not willing to give you 100% of her heart and soul..She obviously cares but is in doubt of a future with you..She seems to be questioning her own motives for being in a relationship with you..Maybe shes not totally satisfied with the relationship or feel solid enough in it..Seems to me she is willing to be friends but from a distance..Do not give her an alternative..thats instant death!Give her understanding and your friednship but your heart would be more appreciated elsewhere..Good luck!
635442
Yes they mean less in a foreign language.  My girlfriend and I speak different languages natively, so we alternate on whether we speak of love in her language or in my language.  That way we both get to say and hear the words that mean the most to us.
204826
A guys usually says what he means. There is no hidden meaning whatsoever. If he says that he doesn't love you no more, he means it. Don't let him play you.
816339
Games People Play\n\nThe term Mixed feelings is a polite way of saying she finds something about you that she does not care for.\n\nStart Dating another person as soon as possible.\n\nYou should not have to face difficulties that soon in a relationship.\n\nSometimes, we all look for more in a relationship than what the relationship can give back to us.\n\nAsk your self this question: Am I in love with this woman? If you are, she may not be in love with you. \n\nPerhaps, this relationship will only be as friends.\n\nBest of Luck to you.
817176
If you aren't comfortable with it then turn your response into something humorous.  Say something like, "Yeah, I love me too".  I can't say there is any particular "proper" response, because some people do fall in love very quickly, while others don't.  If humor doesn't work, simply let her know that you don't know her well enough to feel that way towards her.  Unfortunately, there will be negative responses, but it's better than getting stuck in a situation you really don't want to be in.  Most of the time we want a guy to care as much about us as we do about him, and a lot of women don't realize that a guy is showing us he cares when he's honest and doesn't say "I love you" just because he feels like he should.
715734
I LOVE YOU,\n\nwell it is more of the way how you say it. A dry I love you bares no sense or meaning at all. But if said with in from your heart and with true love and with intimacy and passion, woman let me tell you this- It will swipe you off your feet-yep it is that dam-good
453386
You've just answered your question. Now, I consider myself to be a gentleman.\nBut, look at what you said here. The women are the ones falling in love in your scenario. The guy is just dating and enjoying what's happening. The woman here is probably reading way too much into it, or she's the kind of woman who's "in love with falling in love".\n\nBy the way, when I was dating the woman who became my wife, I was the one who said the "I love you" first.\nHer response to that?... she said, "I know you do".
1163328
she doas but she don't like you.lol.of curse she loves you she can't live with out you.
1104327
When he said it should not have much to do with whether or not she believes him. Deep down does she think that he loves her? Apparently she thought that he loved her before he said it, other wise she would not have had sex with him. \nI am still amazed at how much importance some women put on a man saying those three words. I have always put much more weight on actions than words. Kind of like Missouri "Show Me."
40655
Personally, I am very cautious and only say it when I mean it, because somehow it does scare most men.  In my opinion (just my opinion), some women are insecure and feel if they say that, it will show that they are giving affection to only YOU, that one special man.  Just like men, women aren't always honest and sometimes say what they think the man may want to hear or that it will benefit them in some way.
633439
at this point in the relationship it really does not matter. if she told you she was not feeling you then take it as she said it. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU....so in her world it doesn,t matter how much you love her,she doesn,t love you. sorry
83944
I love you because I need you is selfish. It is stating that I have no regards for your feelings, I just want you here for my own purpose. I need you because I love you is stating that I can't imagine life without you because I care deeply for you. This guy I worked with asked me what he should have said to his wife when she asked him "Do you love me or are you in love with me?" I said you should tell her "I love you "because" I am in love with you."
852635
Lack of Respect\n\nMen need Respect to feel Love\nWoman need Love to feel Love\nIf you don't get respect you hurt\nIf she don't get Love she feels hurt\n\nSomewhere in there is your answer... She is showing you no respect and that's why you feel that way inside and she is probably doing it deliberate
676158
I think it is safe to say that you are not IN love with her. It sounds like you love her but more as a friend rather than a girlfriend. Be honest with her now because she needs to know how you feel. Things will be ok.
227286
When you are in love you are completely in love or just not in love.
1139666
to not make her feel like u love her more than she does u!!!!!!
553968
Obviously a different form of Love. It is kind of odd for people to say that. I've never heard this myself, I would have to say it's very strange. Next time you hear somone say that, ask them what it means. LUCK TO YOU!