I like this one guy and he already have a girl friend. Should I wait for him or move on? I'm really confuse
612833
uuuuuuugggggggggghhhhhhhhhh!!!! i'm going to start copying and pasting this answer....HE ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND! he is UNAVAILABLE! what is there to be confused about????? and wait for what? for him to either dump or cheat on his girlfriend? well if he's willing to do either of those for a strange piece then he's a jerk anyway and woo hoo thats what you will win, the big prize - a jerk. they are a dime a dozen. find someone who IS AVAILABLE!! what would you want a girl who is asking this question about YOUR man to do?
601762
he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(
866469
Dont give him no time because look its your time that is getting wasted....go up to him and ask him what is he going to do...stick with you or go to that other gurl.....i mean its not fare to you that you have to wait for him to decide what gurl he wants.....Look if he really likes you like he says he does then there is no reason to even have to think about who he wants......he has to think that, that other gurl stoped calling him not him to her...why is he even going to think about giving her another chance when he now has a good ass gurl? Think about it gurl. Dont go wasting your time....Remember life is short.
732073
You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
844356
Let him go, obviously, he wanted your friend and he realized that you were still the girl for him.  What makes you think, that he wont do this again.  He finds another girl that he is attracted to and says   f-you...i want her now.\n\nGirl, go find a good  man becuz he doesnt even deserve you.
396009
Just wait it out and do what feels right. Wait for a little bit until you know them both better, and take it from there. Don't think that you need to make a decision right this very second. Give it a bit of time.
266100
if you like him then respect his choose to be with the other girl but if you love him starting to be gain his best friend ( someone with talking about his deep problems) & then i wish you luck!
970400
its not worth to lose the friendship for the guy..BUT you both need to be honest with each other..and face the facts, does he like YOU or does he like HER? be realistic. one friend is just going to have to sit back and watch this guy and them flirt and maybe be a couple and suck it up just to know her friend is happy. but seriously, be open with your friend and you and her need to be real and look at the situation.
678037
well he has a gf first of all. second does he like u back. if not then im sorry but then he doesnt. if he does and he is willing to break up with her to go with u...realise that u would be the reason he would be breaking up with her...do u always want that on your mind and wonder if he will do it to you? probably not. so think about it. \njust let time do its thing, if they dont work out then make your move...until then i would say just friends!!!
121929
Hey girl, Now this is a big situation. I had the same thing happen to me. You have to think for your self is he the one? Or is he just a friend. If you decide he's just the one embrace it!
749541
Honestly....If it was me I wouldn't waste my time. If he's really interested in you then you getting with another guy might make him see what he's been missing. But in all seriousness though. If he shows no sighns of leaving the other girl then you HAVE to move on. Finding a new guy might make you think twice about your first choice. Lifes too short to stay stuck on one guy. Especially in your teen years...if your a teen.
439685
Since she all ready knows of your feelings toward her and that your friend has a girl friend, I would say once more, that if she ever decides she's interested, you would like to take her out.  Leave it in her court and drop it at that.  If she does decide to give you a chance, AND You are still available, then take her out.  But don't wait for her.  Keep your options open, look for someone new, otherwise you are doing exactly what she is doing, hoping the one who doesn't care romantically will suddenly 'get smart' and love you back.  You both need to stop pining away for someone who isn't interested or available to you.
46228
Listen if u really like this new guy u should'nt let the past get in the way of the furture. Move on and try something new u might like it.
666100
Think about it.  If he leaves his girlfriend for you, what's to stop him from leaving you for someone else who likes him and tells him.  So you're screwed either way - find someone who's single!
1132978
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
247448
He has someone.  Why waste your time.  You are setting your own standard.  If you know he has someone, and he knows you know he has someone, but you continue to try to be with him you are allowing him to use you as a toy.  You would allow him to have his cake and eat it too.  Why would he leave his current girl if you will let him have "access" to you?  \n\nWhy do you want someone who will inevitable "do u like he's doing his current girl"?  \n\nYou are worth much more than that and believe me, if you don't realize that right now, later on, you will!!  \n\nGood Luck!!
898954
In my experience I have learned you should just get over him.  One of my best friends (that was a girl) liked me and it got really awkward for a long time.  But if you think you have a shot and it is worth the risk go for it.