why cant I concentrate on 1 women?
606994
IT' S NATURAL TO BE ATTRACTED TO OTHER FEMALES, BUT TO MAKE IT SEEM LIKE YOU ARE SINGLE IS JUST DISHONEST TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR GIRLDFRIEND.\n\nI THINK YOU SHOULD STAY CLEAR OF SITUATIONS THAT PUT YOU IN THIS POSITION OR JUST BE HONEST UP FRONT AND DON'T EXCHANGE TOO MUCH INFORMATION WITH OTHER FEMALES- JUST TELL THEM YOU THINK THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL, BUT YOU HAVE SOMEONE YOU ARE HAPPILY COMMITTED TO. FOR THE MOST PART A RESPECTFUL FEMALE WILL STOP THERE AND NOT TRY TO STEP INTO YOUR GIRLFRIENDS POSITION.\n\nIT'S UP TO YOU TO LET OTHER FEMALES KNOW YOUR POSITION AND WHERE YOU STAND .\n\nYOU SHOULD ALSO SEEK COUNCILING OR GUIDANCE BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED TO MAKE SURE THIS IS THE RIGHT TIME FOR YOU. YOU MAY BE ONE OF THOSE MEN WHO ALWAYS CHECK IF THEY STILL "GOT IT" WHERE THEY ATTRACT THE OPPOSITE SEX. NO MATTER WHAT- DON'T HURT YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S FEELINGS- SHE MAY THINK YOU CHEATING \n\nGOOD LUCK
667653
Well it sounds to me that u need to just stop and re-examine ur feelings for awhile. Look inside ur self and see what u really feel for each woman. I would normally say "follow ur heart" but uhh it sounds to me lyk u need to know what's in ur heart b4 u do that. Don't forget u can't love more than one woman at the same time. One of them's gta be based on personality or looks alone. U'll have to figure that out, ask urself out of the two who will make you the happiest? Out of the two who will really BE there for me? when u figure that out, go for it! whoever that may be. and Remember Love is a choice we make from moment to moment! Good Luck!
409521
maybe just a fear of the next step with your great guy. sometimes,women think of other women because they have a subliminal fear of hooking up with mr. right and having left a stone un-turned. take it easy and let yourself think everything thru. you'll know for sure. give it time.
196216
Like attracts like, maybe the problem starts with you.  Take a deeper look at yourself first and see if there is something about your personality and or approach is attracting these type of women.
820054
No insult here, but your runner up in the great sensual game of her life.  Of ALL the people she has met... YOUR SECOND.  The other woman ... SHE'S FIRST.  If the other woman didn't exist, you two would be romping around in sensual glee... but, my dear, you are Al Gore to her G.W.Bush.  Painful as it may be your 49% to her 51%.  If you can deal with that and WAIT until it MAY POSSIBLY SOME DAY GO BAD, then you are pathetic and don't have self esteem, because while she is deep down on the other girl, your going to be all alone eating bon bons and ben and jerries just waiting for your turn to taste her.  FIND SOMEONE THAT'LL MAKE YOU NUMERO UNO.  Don't settle for runner up in someone else's race. You want someone to say "You are the only person I have ever wanted to be with for my entire life."  Instead your waiting for "Now that the other girl is gone, hey lets have fun."  Grow some self worth, grow some balls, and find YOUR mate.  Go right now, find someone else.
755002
Yes - unfortunately, I have.\n\nI tend to get obsessed with women I can't have and I can't figure out how to back out of the situation gracefully. Unfortunately, this means that I end up getting embarrassed, and getting my feelings hurt.
850471
You need to talk to a professional therapist, these women have obviously messed with your head and you need to get all your emotions out in the open and then you will be able to move on, and you will be aware of what(not) to look for in a woman.
115382
Perhaps you are afraid to commit to someone. And you possibly keep passing these girls by cause you know deep down they arent right for you. When you find the right one, it'll all fall into place.
92260
Are you kidding???\nWomen are so confusing it is scary. A way might seem right with one woman, and a total disaster with another.\nJust keep at your style, perfect it, and you will start to succeed.
79895
you can't stop thinking at her but you must do something else. follow my advice and will be pas this\nproblem. trying to find somebody else.Trying to consolate with idea :it's something human will be pass or " the man it's a man"or "follow the heart" or "pls :keep going ma man /it's my word in my contry/"(noroc)!
55897
you can't. A physical attraction to someone is not something you can control,it's in your brain chemistry. The best thing to do is find someone who doesn't make you compete with their past. You are better than that and I don't even have to know you to say that. No woman deserves to be treated this way.
379256
A woman can like as man guys as she wants and yes I think it is normal to like more than one. But when she is committed to a guy , she needs to set those thoughts aside and focus on her guy.
548314
It sounds like to me that maybe you and your girlfriend were at one time very close, and was her passing away a surprise. Maybe you still have feeling for her, or wished you'd maybe did things a little different. It may take you a while, but you will eventually find someone. Do you compare every woman you see to her. She was your first, and you will remember her forever. Hang in there, and good luck, be patient,and its okay to think dirty thoughts while you masturbate, everyone does!!!
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1st if you don't like that woman why you made Relation with her ! \nanyhow If you are handsome Realy girls will come to you by them selfs , you have to be Nice charactor fistly and doing well with girls then girls will come to you , and you have to choose , \ngood luck ;)
483985
It is called coveting... and it is a normal emotion. Why do you feel you can't get a woman? There are millions of women out there just waiting to be noticed. You will never find a mate if don't get out from in front of the computer and mix with the opposite sex... All of us have fears of rejection, but you just have to take the leap and put yourself out there, the risk is worth it. Peace.
790207
You should stop obsessing over this and get on with your life.  There are lots of nice ladies who will like you.
570132
I have that Habit too, i am completely Heterosexual, but sometimes i find women attractive, it happens, i think it's completely normal. I just thinks it makes you an open minded person. If you want to prevent yourself from doing that, when you notice yourself looking at her because she is attractive try to find something that makes her unattractive and replay it in your mind...\nbest of luck