How does  one know that one is ready to experience a woman for the first time and forever thereafter?
598455
when she says "yes"\ndid you think you could decide it yourself?
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once you decide to take that step, you will wonder what took you so long----making love to and being made love to by another woman is a wonderful thing.It is a very sensual experience, and I think that when the time comes, you will know what to do. It will come very natural. Now as for approaching someone, I think the main thing is to make sure that she is receptive to the advances of another woman and then just put your best foot forward---Good Luck
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Trust & Patience, dear boy, trust & patience. She'll need to be very aroused & lubricated. No matter what, there's going to be some discomfort that first time, but as long as you're both relaxed & groovin' it all, she should be fine. You'll need time to do this right, so don't let this be a back seat sort of thing!
715885
Two steps:\n\n1. Believe in yourself\n2. Resort to more of foreplay
452710
be confident in yourself and make her feel cherished and special.  find out what her interests are and learn about them.  remember the small things and offer attention and affection.  girls need to feel this in order to open up to a man.  thank you!
1013086
Simple, well it is simple for a woman. Sex for the first time hurts, and it is only something to sharewithsomeone you love. When a woman has not had sex yet she does not know how good it can actually feel. Next she does know that it is going to hurt. Would you put yourself in pain for someone you don't have feelings for? I dn't think so.
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If she knows you exist, thats a beginning.\nFind out what interests she has, value her mind and feelings.\nIf you havent met yet make lots of eye contact and smile (not too hard though)
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My advice to you is...first and formost...don't let anyone do anything to your body unless you are absolutely ready. \n\nYes. The first time can be painful if not done with care, patience and tenderness. \n\nIf you are ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE that you want to lose your virginity, you MUST set the ground rules. Make sure your partner knows that if it becomes too uncomfortable that he is to stop what he is doing IMMEDIATELY. A condom is essential. You never know where someone else has been. Another essential is a lubricant such as KY Jelly or Astrolube.\n\nBefore you just let some guy ram his bone up inside you, make sure he opens you up GENTLY with a lubricated finger. Have him work it in and out, gently at first... then faster and deeper as your body permits. Then when this is comfortable, try a second one. You must relax if you want it to be less painful. Then when YOU feel that you are ready for something more, you decide wheather or not to go further.
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yes, I do because if you wait for your first time it will be magical you will feel something that you'll never felt before. Again it is important to wait because the first when you make love to your husband you'll be glad that you did wait because I know I did and its also important to wait and see if hes the one because if he can't respect your decision then his not the one for you.
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Do not lose your virginity with a stranger--you can only lose it once--make sure it is someone whom you love and can reciprocate that love back to you when the time is right.\n\nWhy not wait until marriage?
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Seriously its when you feel comfortable. Id give it a month myself, get to know each others personalities first, then the sex will be even better.
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First times are only as awkward as you make them. RELAX...communicate, ask and offer. \n\nIf having a couple of drinks helps, so be it. \n\nIt's only awkward until you get into it. Seriously. Once you're both naked, most of the awkwardness leaves.
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Wait until you are positive you have fully matured mentally and have made every effort to think through it, then wait a few months and seriously think about it again.  Then make up your mind if you are ready.\n\nSome things to consider:\nMake up your mind about what you do and do not want to allow to happen before being with someone.  Set a line and don't cross it just because it feels good.  You set the line for a reason.  Maybe set another line for if you get really passionate and want to go further.\nAre you thinking this through while calm and not horny or around the other person?\nDo you want to marry a virgin?  If so, you might think about being one too.\nDo you want to risk STDs, some being incurable or causing death?\nDo you want to risk pregnancy?\nDo you want to risk sex becoming a big issue when deciding your emotions toward a person or whether you should stay together?\nHow will you feel if you break up with this person after having sex?\n\nI'm not saying sex is bad or wrong (it can be a great thing), but it is a serious issue that must be thought about appropriately.  Don't think that you have to have sex as soon as possible, it will still be around when you get older.  You can only have your first time once.\n\nAlso, discuss any boundaries with your partner so that he or she is able to respect them and help you keep them.
10315
look and figure out what you want in a woman and in a relationship and decide if you are ready for committment and a relationship that is worth fighting for, dont settle for less take care
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First of all I would say the most important thing is to be yourself around any girls that you fancy. As soon as you start trying to be someone you're not you will probably lose your chance of bagging the girl you're after.\nThe second thing to mention is that there is a very big difference between a one night stand and a relationship although a one night stand may lead on to something later on.\nIt sounds like you are after a one night stand. I would say you should go about things in this kind of order.\n\n1.You've gotta set yourself up to win from the start. Make sure you are looking good and the chances are this will make you feel good. Make sure there is somewhere you can go to make sweet love ie. your house, car, hedge, bus shelter.\n2. Find a way of starting conversation with the girl you like the look of. Just stay relaxed, play it cool and make her feel like she's special. Try to appear genuinely interested in what she does (even if you're not).\n3. If you've been chatting/ flirting for a while and you feel comfortable with the situation the likelihood is that she will feel comfortable too. By this time you'll probably be recieving signs as to whether she fancies you or not.\n4. Start getting closer to her, put your hand briefly on her arm, side etc. If she doesnt back away try leaving your hand there a bit longer each time. If she gets close to you as you get close to here look into her eyes and you'll know whether or not to go for the smooch!\n5. If a girl will kiss you then she obviously atleast finds you attractive and maybe will consider sleeping with you. Im assuming you have plied her with alcohol since you met her- if not start now. Champagne's a good one. Its not essential for her to be drunk but it often helps.\n6. If you are flirting loads with each other/ feeling each other up then even if she doesnt sleep with you, you can be very pleased with yourself.\n7. At this point if she hasn't dragged you out of the bar or wherever you happen to be you may have to initiate the move to somewhere more private. Some girls like subtlety and some like blokes who are upfront. Sometimes it is good to say "do you want to come back to my place?" wink wink or "do you fancy coming back to my place for a coffee?" or "can i walk you home?"\n\nLast thing to say is that most girls want sex just as much as guys do!\n\nSomeone else can go into the details- my fingers are tired! Hope that's of some help.
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i think that god has someone spl. for you. and when you will meet her you will not regret. do give your first kiss to the best one. who will be committed for you and you only. like indians.\neither they are crazy but still they have very pious love.
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When you see her, you'll feel like butterflies in your stomach. You'll just want to hold her for hours, not even saying a word. You'll want her emotionally, not all just for sex and fun. You'll feel so comfortable around her, but when you want to say something intimate, you might get nervous about her reply. You'll do everything in your power to try and please her....make her happy....comfort her. All that jazz.\n\nGood luck and know that if you do love her, you'll be willing to wait a lifetime....and you'll never let her go. You'll be bloody persistant at it.\n\nBest of wishes breaking the ice