Should I date the guy I lost my virgnity to?
608723
look...dating sometimes is not the answer...\ni don't know if you should date him or not....but first you have to be sure that he wants to date you....if he doesn't want to date you then don't....coz like this you will make your self a whore running after him....\nand don't feel that you are a whore if you don't date him...\njust forget it....and live life the way it was
293580
Don't say you're an idiot...I don't know you but I'm sure you are a nice girl...no one really is an expert or born knowing how to deal with relationship matters...for what is worth it sounds like you wish to have a REAL relationship...you mentioned that you guys had agreed on not having a relationship but see now you have feelings for him...and the longer you wait the more damaging you are doing to yourself(if he's not interested). Tell him how you feel about the situation.if he runs away then YOU'LL KNOW that he is not the right one..BUT DONT FOOL YOURSELF and hide your feelings...BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.
108789
It doesn't sound like you invested too much time in this guy. The best thing to do is just move on. I'm sure there are many guys out there who would put more effort into getting to know you and having a meaningful relationship.
743815
It may be a good idea to remember why you got a devorce to start with.After that if you are still thinking about him just go along for the ride and see what happens.If you rush it things could go bad again.
869893
If his disability didn't affect our relationship directly, I'd definitely date a man I liked with a limp, lazy eye, missing arm, unusable legs,..whichever. In fact, it'd probably end up being something endearing to me.
594364
So...talk to this new guy more and make sure it's not just one of those "really good at first...not so good deeper down" kind of things. You might not want to ditch your original guy if it turns out the new one isn't so great after all.\nAt the same time...if your old guy isn't showing that much interest....wouldn't you want to be with someone that actually shows solid interest instead of hesitation?
336623
you need to ask the guy in question if he will give you another chance.  don't be surprised if he's a bit wary, after all you dumped him without really telling him why.  before you do any that, it may be wise to think over the reasons why you actually like him.  are they real reasons that you can build a realtionship on?  ultimately though, if you don't ask you don't get so go for it! you'll only regret it if you don't! good luck x
386980
Just be honest and tell him the truth. I am sure that he will understand why that you are not ready to date yet. If the guy leaves you then you dont need him. Good Luck.
915973
One thing I don't understand is your attachment to your previous relationships (past). You are not that desperate, are you?The relationships did not work, period. Move on. Don't date anybody just to date somebody. Find someone you really like. You will feel it when you see him. Forget about the past.
983526
Look around.  You shouldn't have to put your life on hold just because he needs to get his in order.  If you are meant to be you will reconnect.  You're a free woman...get out and date!
1064568
Congrads!! You have matured faster than those around you.  (And you have found a good guy, I assume, which is what most of us single girls are trying to find.)  So would it be better to date a really cute guy that you don't like or he gets in an accident and he isn't so cute anymore?  As you get older I think its less about the outside and more about the inside.  So while your friends are chasing the fine ones you chill with your honey and hope that they might find one as good as you.
298586
Wow! It would make a great movie if you did find him. I'm wondering (by looking at your user name) if you are really ready for a new relationship yet. aybe it would be better if you kept him in your heart as "the one who got away." Just make sure not to measure every man you meet against your fantasy.
854641
first of all, i am so sorry you are in this position.  i was in a similar situation not too long ago.  i dont think it is a bad idea to date someone.  you just have to be sure you are honest with the guys so that they know what they are getting themselves into.  i dont think you should stop living because this guy was a creep to you.  asfor the trust issues, i think it takes a long time to feel safe again after you have been betrayed (believe me, i know) take your time and dontr rush into anything.  God bless you and you baby.
1152314
i would date him and see his personality i wouldnt continue dating him if he had a terrible personality
468591
Depends on yuor feelings in the relationship. If your looking for someone to be something serious then you should move on and keep looking. If your only looking for something fun and flirty just stick with him.
838373
You have too much baggage. I wouldn't consider dating a guy who has too much of that.
434730
You are too available for him. Back off and see if he comes back around. If not, move on!