my guy friend is being a jerk to me for no reason. why would he be acting this way?? he wont even look at me?
599869
Ask him why he's acting like a jerk. If he sais something stupid,ignore him. 1 less person you have to worry about.
859568
well if he is acting rude around you...then you need to get over this guy. it isnt worth it if he treats you this way. also start doing little things by urself then move on to bigger things and you could get out of ur wimpy stage!
766818
Because he doesn't want you to have his number, period. But he's got some feelings about how to treat people in general ( just your average nice guy- they are out there) and he doesn't know how to tell you. Doing it this way makes him feel less guilty and it's the ONLY way this particutlar person can tell you without feeling like a jerk.  Don't ask his friend for his number. His buddy is his buddy and probably won't give you the right one. Then you'll feel like a fool.
953279
He sounds like a jerk. Give it up. You know he's playing games with you, you just wanted to hear it from someone else. Yes- give it up.
422223
most guys r jerks because they acts like jocks or they try 2 show off way 2 much. most girls dont like that. just, be yourself.......good luck with the long term!!!!!!!!!
1000080
Listennnnn... Can i be real with you? I can... thank you. First off not all guys are jerks i know ladies i know there are dogs out there but there are some female dogs ( i aint gonna say it) out there too. But if you always on look out you might push away some real good guys. A good way to tell is look at his friends and how he acts with them if most of them are assholes he might be too. Ask other girls about him. Other thing is most girls let there friends pick there male counterpart I say what do you think do you feel he is? So Listennnnn to ya boy give him a chance you only live once.
670457
Hmmm ... could be he's offended by something and you'll never know unless you ask him.  Perhaps someone told him some gossip and instead of checking with you, he just assumed the worst.  Or perhaps one of your 'friends' told him something and he figures since you hang out with them, you agree.  Either way, be direct with him.  Phone him and say "hey - saw you today on the bus - did you see me?".  That'll give him the opening to tell you whatever's bothering him.
1140183
He is Up 2 No Good!!!!!!!! This is called DANGER!!!!!!!!! No Girl Will Have A Guy That Does That Type Of Flirting, Keep Fishing There is More Out There Besides That Jerk!!!!!!
1020888
Honestly he might not be interested or do not know how to react. Give him a little time and if he start avoiding you or acting differently toward you in a negative way, you might want to confront him and tell him it is cool that he don't have feelings for you but you don't want to lose your friendship.
636802
This boy is doing exactly what you seem to want..he is noticing you but in a very clumsy way. He doesn't know how to go about getting a reaction from you so he is trying every angle, sometimes sweet, sometimes sneaky, but always for the same reason. I would say he is behaving in a typical adolescent boyish way.\nWhy don't you ask him for a date, that should put him out of his agony :-)
1067362
Why would you kick his ass (if you could)? What would that solve? \n\nYou seem to already have pity on him. Show him the pity. I sure that would piss him off...and he would be reclusive. He doesn't sound like a good friend. Forget him and move on. He seem like a dick. \n\nViolence is a last resort. Only if he strikes first. Trying to kick his ass will get you no respect. What would the girl your "friends" with think?
790611
Either he likes you or feels bad that his friend is a creep.  Either way, take it with a grain of salt, and go on.  I wouldnt spend one more minute worrying.  People get sick of people like him and start not to believe anything he says.  Just tell the other guy, thanks for the warning, and leave it at that.
552010
I think this is a weird situation.  How can you tell hes pissed off with you, if you dont chat to him. Why do you think he likes you if he ignores you?  When its just the two of you, you dont talk.\n\nI think you are mistaken. I think he just acts normal around this other girls and he actually doesnt like you.  At all.  \n\nThats what it sounds like.
862727
Weeell, i've been there before. it upset me a lot because he didn't just "look", he gave "several glances" to "several girls" "several times" whenever we were out.no matter what anyone says, its awful.its also absolutely rude to you.i'll guess, not only were you jealous, you felt insulted.the thing i worried most about was, if the girl and other people noticed what he was doing,they'd ask themselves why and check me out, too.maybe even feel sorry for me.i didn't like that thought one bit.i'll tell you what, there are men who are real gentlemen who wouldn't do that.if you're he's girl, he should give you undivided attention, have eyes only for you when you're together.that's what he'd also want from you.no, its absolutely normal that you're upset.i think its just really rude what he's doing.you wouldn't want to be rude enought to check other guys out infront of him, would you?although he does deserve an equal dose of his own medicine.honey, if you're beginning to feel insecure all the time, its not always because there's something wrong with you, although you can help yourself and do something about it.but most likely there is something he's doing to cause it
470345
no not normal. Very inconsiderate towards you. try talking to him later and calmly ask him to look at it from your pov
349712
He may be doing this to get on his friend's good side. He may be doing this because he is angry at you or jealous of you. (He may have these feelings even if he hasn't expressed them to you.)\n\nWhat he did was a violation of your trust and your privacy, and, yes, you have every right to be angry with him if that is how you feel.
626067
Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!