so I work with peoplee who do not like me. Don't get me wrong I know that not everyone is going to like me.
609464
Assert yourself ..call them on it..when they decide to start talking ..tell them.. so why couldnt you say that while they were there..I would say i know yall do the same to me when i leave but you all need to grow up...ppl like that are so phoney that they will like you just because you said something..funny thing is i always rub ppl the wrong way when i start a new job..but once i establish they better keep it light around me,, they respect that.  try it.
869123
They probably just don't like you
1129518
There are a few people that I dislike, but I don't "hate" anyone. Every relationship I have with people, even the bad ones, shap me into the person I am today.
1107648
they're just judging you! they are taking you for the wrong reasons, which means they aren't worth your time! they don't know you and  so they have NO right to be saying that stuff about you. the studies show that people who put other people down like that, are doing it because it turns out that they are actually jealous. they don't know you and don't know who they're dealing with, so just ignore them and show them who's boss! don't worry bout them K? they're just jealous. dats all. i hope i helped! have a very nice day! : )
1055076
i have a similer problem at my work. she is always talking about other people and the way that they do things. she wants everybody to do it her way.one day i had had enough of her and i politly told her that everybody is not the same, as long as you do the job and do it the right way, whats the difference., as long as the job gets done. we talked for quite awile on how people do things. it kind of opened her up to new ideas on the job.
962005
I keep my personal life separate from work.  I do not think the two should mix.  I get along with my coworkers.  I am polite and friendly, but I never forget the line.  I have seen too many people routine their careers and professional reputations by forgetting that.
682710
listen to your employees.  That is the problem where I work at.  Don't have favorites and treat everyone equal
67955
If you are a religious person, try reading T.D. Jakes book titled "Working in a Hostile Environment".  The most important thing to remember is that, you are at that job to work.  You do not have to be those people's friends.  If they don't like you it's probably because they are jealous of either your knowledge, or your looks.  Sometimes both.  Older people have a tendency to be "afraid" of younger people because they think younger people are after their jobs.  Be diligent and know that you are put there for a reason.
746556
I found that it usually how you treat and deal with people which results in how they act toward you.  It helps to be friendly and  polite. \n\nDepending on the situtation, some workers will  see you as an impedance or worse as a threat to their job.   Others considered their behaviour as being professional.
737803
i bet everyone likes some part of their job, but dislikes another part, especially if the job changed after they took it.\nit's only when the dislike outweighs the liking bit that folk make extra efforts to change to another job, and then the cycle starts again.
964939
Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.\n\nbefriend this person, don't complain about them any more, and wham when ever they say  bad - you can casually mention to the boss which is negative about the job or your boss let your boss know :)  Yeah be a backstabber/brown noser
1103161
Stop acting like God's gift and they'll start paying more attention to you.\n\nA wise old boss once told me, "When it's everybody else, it ain't everybody else."
784147
When dealing with an envious co-worker, I kill them with kindness, and I'm not talking about lip service. You must be genuine when doing this for it to work. Obviously they have massive insecurities, and perceive you as some kind of threat. I would also suggest keeping ones personal, and professional life mum. In essence, do not give anyone a reason to hold you in contempt. The old saying is true, "keep your friends close, your enemies closer".
313182
Could be that everyone around you sees that you aren't right for each other.
438256
Do your work the better you can and try to ignore the bad people. Don't mess with these kind of people. You know who you are and the other people must not affect you. Be satisfied with yourself. This is what matters. Good luck.
616546
I just be myself, if they don't like how I am or my attitude towards things in life then they weren't meant for me any way.
1014156
Because you are asking them to do something...maybe they don't like you