Do i tell her i know about the other guy?Should i confront her or keep silent and stay friends?
612624
Its not fair of her to not be honest with you.  I would tell her that I know about the other guy... How could she tell you that you are soulmates, but then not want to be with you? Isn't she living in sin by seeing the other guy? The whole situation sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too.  She is not being fair to either of you.
928982
no I wouldn't confront her. I would talk to my husband instead. I don't have a relationship with the girl. But I'll make sure that she knows the guy she is having sex with, is married. \n\nHave you heard about the saying that goes "the sweetest revenge to a cheating husband is to give  him to his mistress?"
342479
Well if they are true friends and still be your friends, then nothing to worry about. Otherwise, it may be hard to tell them. It is always hard to tell a secret but if you really want to tell, then do it. And be proud of it. \nReally, I wish I can help you out. Still, good luck with telling your friends!! I am cheering you on! :D I support ya. Hope they will stay friends with ya. Good luck.
1026188
confront her and speak ur mind. u guys should but pursue the guy and at the end, he will chose who he likes best. but make sure u guys talk abou it that no matter who ends up with the guy, that u guys would still remain friends.
312906
No, I don't think you should stop her. You know that the guy you like isn't interested in her. And if she is your real friend, then she will tell you her real feelings. But if she knows you like the guy, then she will fight what she feels, so that she won't hurt your feelings. And I also think it's better if you tell her what you feel about that guy.
340739
hmm i dunno if this is possible but why dont you both invite them somewhere, cinema whatever as friends, bowling i dunno. See which one of you gets on naturally with him more. you never know there may be a speical bond between a certain two. talk to her afterwards about it and tell her how you feel but say you dont wanna hurt her. at the end of the day, its kinda up to him, it may just wanna be friends with you both!
574733
you know you should, but I won't tell you, friends usually change the story a little, you don't have to SAY it, just give him a sign, but you are just avoiding the real answer and you know it!
249351
Well since you two alreday know each other well just ask her if she thinks that it is going anywhere and see her reaction.  If she says no then don't waste your time, it will just be annoying if she is seeing someone else.
374638
Forget about her, she just said she would think about it b/c she didn't want to hurt your feelings. And if this other guy is a friend of your...get revenge!
136773
I think the best thing for you to do is just be honest with her.  Let her know how you feel in a nice quiet moment, you'll know the time.  Share your feelings.  At the very worst, the two of you will stay friends.  At least you won't have to worry about not knowing.
624679
just tell her the truth about how you felt about the guy before (but not 'n' more)just friends after all.
874963
i think that you should confront her but not be so mad about it. than you can ask the guy to a movie or something. get a little revenge back on her.
930120
You could try talking to her and let her know that you are concerned about your friendship.   If she is really into this guy then it might be hard to get her to see your point of view.  But I think you should definitely talk to her.  Good Luck!!
124063
i recently found myself in the same situation, so i know what you're going through.  the guy gets mad because he's worried that (like the other dude said), you guys are talking about him behind his back.  he may also be worried because you two may find out that he was cheating on both of you with the other one...as in my case.  Regardless, if you two really are friends and have lots in common, then screw the guy and thank him for a really good friend.  It'll really piss him off...
879018
you could always take the risk and tell the truth ... well, i know what ur trying to say here and personally what I can say... if ur both nuts about each other, there is a big possibility that the girl already knows about that little secret of yours and she is just waiting for you to admit about that lie you made...
152679
First of all, are you leading her on in any way?  If she is stalking confront her.  Tell her she's freaking you out.
584506
I have always been the type of person who wants to know.  Most people on the other hand live with the rule that ignorance is bliss.  Do you know what kind of person your friend is ? But chances are if you tell you will loose both friends and they will work it out and continue their relationship.  What you can do perhaps is make it so that they will stumble upon it themselves somehow.  This way you did your part and you dont have to loose any friends.