i got in trouble for hitting my brother and i have to make it up to him. how can i do it?
605242
Honestly, It needs to come from YOUR heart...not ours.  I'm sure if you take the time to really think about it, you will work it out.  My brother used to abuse me horribly...the best apology I ever got was the day he grew up and stopped.  Tell your brother you love him and that you will never do it again. You and your brother should have a beautiful bonding relationship....as I see in my two boys.
232437
look....if danny is ur true friend then he should understand that wot happened was a mistake and the fact that u let him beat u up was all u could do to say u were sorry.but u can go to lisa and ask her try explaining danny the whole thing..that it was a mistake,and wud never happen again..but lemme tell u 1 important stuff,dude..once u lose some1's trust,its not hard..but its impossible to get it back!!even if things cool down between both of u,hez not gonna trust u anymore,dude.im sorry to say this,but its a fact.happened even with me.hence it wud be better to slowly cast away from danny(as well as lisa).if thats not possible(e.g. if both of u r in a grp)..then try maintaining a VERY formal relation with the 2 of them.in course of time,he might realise your true worth.but therez nothing else to do than wait and watch.hope it works out for u,dude..coz i have been in similar situations and i know how awful it feels.best of luck!!
389894
yea go to court...... u get money and can stop it from happening again... be a hero not a zero :)\n\ntell them u bout to go to court... give them a little more time to reply and if they don't then just send them the court date and say i'll see u in court... make sure you have all ur evidence and papers against them\n\nGood Luck
223175
I have the same problem. My mother has been with a man for 7 months now who is intent on getting his mates to beat my younger brother up. Keep in mind this man is 41 and my brother is only 22. This man is also a druggy and a alcoholic who associates with nasty people. My mum does not see this man for what he is really like, a low life scum bag basically. What i suggest is you go below the belt and think of ways that would maybe scare him off. Involve your friends if you can, male or female. Dont do anything that would break the law of course, but devise a plan that wont back fire on you from your mother. Maybe prank phone calls to his mobile number prenteding to be his secret love affiar while he is with your mum in the nights ?? Belive me she will go nuts after constant calls night after night. It nearly worked for me. If you want to contact me for ideas i will greatly help as last year i near enough made it a no.1 priority to get rid of my mums b.friend as i hate him with a passion.
635074
2 timing s(ut !! why not just tell him the truth!! maybe your affraid of what abusing another human like that might make him do?! flip out, break out, kill someone? try to remember, your not the only one on the planet. oh, and don't worry, KARMA will burn you in the arse for fu(king with peoples feelings for your own self-endulgance.
609531
the best way is stand up to them.... if they hit him then he needs to take the biggest one, walk right up to him and punch him as hard as he can in the nose,,,,,,,,, they might fight but no one will mess with him after...\ni work with kids ( self defense) and there is just so long a kid can take things like that..\n\n \nif he lets it go it will only get worse...
469840
Just tell him you are very hurt, and leave him alone. If he wants to make it up to you, it must come from himself, not on your demand.
896640
It was with my older brother. We always fight, it ends with him hitting me. : (
756948
Be the smarter person and walk away form it.  I told my son never start a fight but don't let anyone get the better of you if they physically try to hit you first. In other words never start a fight but finish it if you are forced to defend yourself.
321499
Give him time and space to get over what you told him.\nI'm sure that one day he will return .. as the brother you've always known him to be.
257610
Well first thing I'd do is make sure the kid that pushed you stops messing with you. I would start by letting one of your parents know about the problem or you could go to the Principle of your school since it happened at the bus stop.  Which ever you decide I think the guy who caused the problem should have to pay the price not you. If nothing else works I'd open a can of whup-ass on the fool who pushed you. You might still have to pay for the torn pants but the guy might not mess with you after that.
155982
Unfortunately it is not going to be easy and at least one person will be hurt.  You really must break this to him very gently otherwise it could backfire or he could get so angry that he causes you physical harm.\n\nI would recommend meeting at a restaurant or some other public place to break the news to him because he is less like to cause a scene.  Further more if you meet him you have your own transportation to get home safely.
1006149
no, i do not think you should.. how would you feel if some real damage happened to  your brother... and there very easily could be.. you do not know what could happen and neither does he...people jumping on your stomach can do great damage.. he wants to prove he is tough .. for why... i would not go along with it and have it on my consious anyway...but you are the one that has to live with it if damage is done... so i hope the best for you all..
232839
You are honest enough to realise that you have done something wrong to someone, which itself shows u have taken responsibility of it. You cannot immediately confront him as iam sure he too is just recovering from whatever it is you have done to him. You have to wait, be patient. Once when the time is right, when things are a bit silent, you have to talk to him and get it over with. Meet him alone in person and in the first instance, start apologising  and then u owe him an explanation on why u had to do it. And last, tell him how awful you feel about what u did. And wait for him to react, listen to him, positive or negative...it doesnt matter..as much as you have admitted your mistake, give him a chance to let whats in his mind to come out. You have to take it from there, i guess. If that person has forgiven you, then great..but if he hasnt, and goes on abusing or accusing u and making u feel that you have sent him to hell, well...listen to it and simply walk away..you cannot force him to forgive you...\n\nYou did your  part and i'll bet u will feel a lot relieved. It wont irritate you in ur mind that you didnt clear it up, so well done, you have done ur part! pat urself for being brave!!
65707
Probably not.  Get your brother to give it back to you.  Has it been filed with the County Recorder?  See an attorney.
1181233
Call the police.  Direct confrontation can result in grievous injury or lawsuits
530807
The best thing that can be done for your brother is to let him have to get himself out of trouble.  Don't bail him out if he gets arrested.  Don't give him money to cover his bills.  Don't talk to anyone that he has wronged, make him do it himself.  Making him face the consequences for his actions is the only way he will learn that it really doesn't pay to get in trouble.