My friend needs help.?
613903
You put a man in a fridge?\nPut him in the freezer and he'll be fine!
498438
Let her know that you are there to listen if she needs it.  Don't pressure her to talk or she may pull away more.  Just be there for her and when she is comfortable, she'll open up.  Maybe if you start talking about your problems or problems of a "friend" she'll feel a little more at ease about discussing her own.
558625
Well, first of all I would suggest medical help for her.  This is not something you can enforce by yourself.  She needs proper psychological help if she has an eating disorder, so if she is not receiving help for that, I would suggest trying to convince her of that first.\n\nAfter that, it is up to you as her friend to provide lots of positive encouragement, and make sure that everyone else who knows and loves her does the same.
1036636
By your description, it sounds to me as your friend doesn't believe he has a problem.  If this is the case, there isn't much you or anyone can do.  The choice is up to him, and him alone.  My best suggestion to you and your friends, is to be his sounding board and listen to him when he wants to talk.  Tell him many times that you care about him and want him to know how important he is to your life and the life of your friends.\n\nEvery once in awhile, ask him if he would reconsider about going for counseling.  But don't force this down his throat.  Be kind towards him and sympathetic to his needs and or desires.\n\nGood luck to you and your friends with him!  I hope I was some what helpful to you!
392824
You can pray for her. Make sure that she knows tha you are there for her. Be a really good friend to her. Maybe you could talk to her on the phone a little. Maybe she could get some help, it could be from you, God, other friends, or even a counselor
64294
have you talked to her since? she needs your support now more than ever! make sure to talk to her alot; she doesn't necessarily need to respond. ask her about her problems...make sure she knows you care. DON'T give advice to "fix" her problems; just show her that there's more to life! AND remind her of the people she'd be hurting (mainly you, other friends, parents, and siblings) if she decided to do it again. suicide attempts are always a very sad situation. get together with her and other friends; go walking, swimming, read a novel aloud to one another, watch a funny movie together, look at photo albums! make sure to spend QUALITY TIME with her. the next attempt she has may be interrupted by your phone call to hang out with her! good luck and keep it up! -sudo psycho...logist
849748
He has a problem that will only ge worse if it is not adressed.  Suck it up and tell him to get the help he needs.  If it is meant to be, then it will be.
628981
Hope someone can help you.
147726
Just keep being there for her.  He is obviously controlling and sounds like he may be abusive.  She should seek some type of counselling to find out why she would stay with someone who controls everything she does.  In the meantime, she needs friends like you who are understanding and are there for her.  Keep seeing her and trying to get her to seek help.  You're a good friend.
1101258
If you truly respect your friends wishes and well being you will do your up-most to confront on the situation and sit her down to work out a coarse of action that would most benefit her.  What she does with her life is entirely up to her, but that does not mean that she cannot listen to wisdom and reason.  Help your friend, but also respect their love for each other.
457136
get her some help quick.
180709
YOu can't help your friend as much as you wold like to you just can't. She has to help herself. (I know in NY there are places that will take you rehabs and stuff even if you dont have money , the state helps you) People that bad off NEED to hit rock bottom cause its the only thing that will make them turn around and help themselves. Sorry but its the truth.
467488
LET HER GET IT ALL OUT,CRY,THAT WILL MAKE IT EASIER FOR HER ANYWAY, TRY BE ATTENTIVE AND OFFER HER SUPPORT! SHE IS OBVIOUSLY HAVING A HARD TIME DEALING WITH THIS PROBLEM, AND YOU MUST FEEL QUIT PROUD THAT SHE'S TURNED TO YOU 4 ADVICE.SHE TRUSTS YOU, AND THAT'S WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR!!!!
152988
Well, honestly, the best way to help is to go to his parents, or to the parents of the young girls he is talking to. He needs help, or someone will get hurt. It is your obligation since you knoe to step up and do what is needed
1124001
You are being a friend.  Talk to their family and explain your concerns and hopefully they will be worried enough to seek help for your friend.  You can also call the local mental health center to see what they can advise you or if there is a hotline to call.  Your friend needs to know that there is more in this life than one relationship and how much they would hurt the ones that really love them and how it would destroy them if they hurt themself.  Just because one relationship doesn't work shouldn't end the world.   My prayers are with you.
697697
I would call crisis intervention if there is a listing around your area. If not, look up suicide hotlines and ask for advice. I hope your friend is okay at this moment. The best thing you can do for her is to be there.
962332
Wow that is a hard one, I think that your friend should tell her mom that she found the stuff and that she is upset that she is doing those kinds of things. I mean maybe she can get her to go to get help and talk to someone. Maybe your friend can also tell her mom that she is afraid she will die and she will lose her. A little bit of a guilt trip on mom.. Good luck both of you