for guys that are shy do oes the really have to make the first move?
612750
i dont totally understand your question\nbut shy guys generally dont make the first move so if that is what your after then you will probably have to go first and normally if you talk to him a few times he wont be as shy
779826
haha yes, there's another guy out there like me! Yeah, he shows that he's interested. The thing with shy types are that a lot of the time, they won't start the conversation as readily, so you'll have to start it, but once they get more comfortable with you, it will get easier :)
359035
I think a guy should make the first move. It depends on the guy. Some guys are so sweet yet so shy at the first time. So if you want him to like you, then you should make the first move. Ohterwise, let the man be in charge then after you will be incharge of him until you break up.
374844
Honey you have to allow the guys to make the first move. Don't be scared you will know what to do when the time comes, it's natural.
844129
Approach him!  You are a woman, prove it and be the assertive one!  Who says a guy has to make the first move??  ;)
60637
YES!\n\nSome guys are shy, and the location, such as at work, might also stop him from making the first move.
980103
You can always make the first move by approaching him and just introducing yourself. I know this might sound cheesy, but how else are you going to know if he's interested in you unless one of you makes the first move? Hope this helps and good luck :)
1004092
No, as a matter of fact I like it when a woman makes the first move. Making the first move shows that she knows what she wants and she isn't afraid to go after it. It also shows that she is very comfortable around a guy and that she is very comfortable in her own skin and honest with herself pertaining to her own feelings.\n\nAlso, for me in-particular it's a major turn-on to know that a woman wants me bad enough to boldly make the first move.
337246
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
254166
Some guys will,but others are too "shy" to do so. They are afraid of rejection or seeming weak because they admitted their feelings. It makes them vulnerable and they don't like it.
587799
You can make the first move in a club or a social environment, but online is different (with all the weirdos). So, a guy would ask you first to make sure it is alright.
562726
No.  Let him make the first move.  It will be more rewarding for both of you.  And you will know that he is interested on his own rather than just because you are available.
521423
I can't answer for everybody of course, but if I like a guy and want him to make a move I'll let him catch me looking at him, smile shyly and then look away quickly, as if I'm embarrassed that he caught me. I also might say hi to him and smile, or say something to get him talking. Good luck!
341965
i use to be shy just liek you. but get comfortable. it depends what kind of a gurl she is. if she is one of them flirts then you have to take control...if it is one of them shy gurls u gotta go say wassup and do ur thing. evreyone has thier on type of game but you just gotta do what is in ur heart.
730873
Shy guys won't make the move. Guys don't pick up on hints either. You could walk up, give him a kiss and he would still ask "What was that for"
942705
You really have to be an extrovert around shy guys and bring us out of our shells. We may have the major hots for you but unable to articulate that emotion into anything less than senseless jibbering when you are around. Ask the guy out- be bold, go do something together that puts you in close proximity without feeling like there is alot of pressue. Some guys will respond and there is room to grow and some guys might not. Believe me, if he likes you you should start to see him melt-but keep at it if the feeling is returned!\n\nGood luck!
460026
HE MAY JUST BE SHY WHEN IT COMES TO PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS SO MAYBE YOU NEED TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.