the last days i been ignoring to my ex and........?
597256
Always remember that an ex is an ex for a reason. Obviously you two broke up for a reason and she nees to see that. You should just simply call her and explain that you arent trying to be mean but you dont want anything more with her. It sounds like she has codependency issues as well if she is going from you to a gf so soon. Just simply tell her so that it doesnt get out of hand. Dont ignore her because that can send mixed messages and it could be hard for you to stop later.
601349
I was only with my guy for a year!! After we broke up i started hanging out with alot of my friends and guys!! This might sound bad but maybe you should look for a distraction!!!\nIt helped me
259930
I would second the motion that Mike made. I would also recommend finding new activities and make new friends. That way you can let people know you are available. And you can keep yourself occupied. And keep your spirits up too. Use this broken relationship as a learning experience. Good Luck. LJK
763130
Email him and say... Hey just thinking about you. I have not heard from you lately and just wanted to know  if you wanted to go out again some time, and then give him an easy way out. Then at least you will know.
593255
I read your question with tears in my eyes because I can relate to what you're feeling.  It's been almost 4 months since my relationship ended and I still think about him.  It is really hard to forget someone and I don't think there's a "cure" to stop thinking or missing him.  I have found that the more time has gone by, the easier it gets.  He's still in my mind, but not as often and it doesn't hurt as much as it did in the beginning.  I have very fond memories of our time together and a part of me will always love him.  Take care of yourself and good luck!
61389
You take it one day at a time. Get involved in other activities & hobbies & force yourself to ignore any of this person's attempts to get you back. You deserve better...just keep reminding yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt anymore...\n\nGood luck!
479575
The best cure for that is time. If you want to speed things up try talking with her as little as possible. Also hang out with old friends that you have not seen for a while, friends you do not have in common with your ex and who are fun. They will make you remember how life used to be when she did not exist. It helps to start imagining day to day life without her.
765532
Sadly and embarrassingly enough - I know that situation and have been on the girl side. I loved my new bf and just could bear the fact that my ex is just not noticing and forgetting me. Stupid enough I have been to start calling him and even meeting with him saying that I want his friendship. But really I just wanted him to be mine again even though I didn't really need him!!!\n\nBe careful women are fools!! It might not be the same situation, but based on what you said and what I've had it really looks like it!
587671
Hello!\nGive it time and keep yourself busy.  When you start to think about your ex, redirect your mind--call a friend, go shopping, go workout, have your hair done, whatever you want! Surround yourself with friends and enjoy yourself.  It'll get easier--hang in there!
1013684
I think you should talk to her and tell her that she keeps ignoring you and it's been hurting you. You shouldn't end it if you haven't talked to her about it yet. Sometimes it may be because you talk about something, that offends, or it just gets "annoying" or sometimes it can be because you call her too much. If she doesn't respond, then she isn't really a good friend, and maybe you should let her go for a while.
284281
I can totally understand how you must be feeling. Like you, i would definetly drop a few hints here and there.. but it seems he isnt responding, so that leaves to no choice but to leave it alone. Early April, i would present it to him again,in the most straightforward of ways and we would HAVE to at the very least, talk about why he isnt talking about any of it.\nBest wishes for you.
395462
it is prolly hard to forget your ex because it is either a relationship that has just ended or that you have many good memories of the time spent together. Or maybe you still have feelings for your ex.
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
628796
She's looking for attention even if it's negative attention.  If she's your EX and YOU want to keep it that way--for whatever reason, then continue ignoring her and eventually she'll get the clue.  I think she's trying to either get you mad by talking to your friends, or get your attention just to keep you hooked.  Either way, it's not very mature, but there again, you and her are still in school--the both of you have alot of growing up to do, before you become mature.
1096246
I would move on....he apparnetly doesnt care about you sence he left. I wouldnt waste time thinking about it. Do you think he is thinking about you?? I know its sad situation and I feel for you I really do, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to not think about him anymore. Go out and do stuff.
971805
I understand!  But life is like that.  It is never fair.  It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion!  You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy.  Take good care of yourself!
299537
Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you