i recently got into a fist fight with a friend and now she doesnt wanna speak to me how would i get her to?
596909
There is a saying TO WIN AN ARGUMENT AND LOSE A FRIEND. \nSo even in an argument it is better to allow your friend to have the last word and win rather than your winning the argument and the friend getting upset and deserts you.\nI am really sorry to note that you had to have a fist fight.\nIt shows immaturity of both. \nDefinitely you have offended her mentally and physically and she is upset. There can be guilty consciousness too\nIn any case since she is your friend and you need her friendship and feels her seperation so much no harm in your apologising to her fir your rude manner and behaviour and begging to be excused and assuring that such a scene would never ever occur again. \nDont look deep into it and ask why I should do it. She is at fault She only has to ask my apologies etc etc.\nSimply follow my advise. BE MAGNANIMOUS YOU WILL NEVER REPENT IT
931390
If she is making you mad try to gradually stop being friends...talk less and less 2 her....find new friends. If you stop being her friend all of a sudden she will talk about you.
1153044
you answered your own question. Listen to your inner voice. Drop her she will do it again. the only reason she is sorry is because she got caught. Do you think she would of apologized if you had not of brought it up? NO . With a friend like her you do not need enemies.
168969
The next time you are NOT fighting say the same thing to her that you have just said to us.\nAnd then jsut listen. And also when she is upset just stop talking completely. Do not say one thing. This is a great trick. Say not ONE WORD.\nLet her be on the defensive for a change, let her do the apologising. It is a great feeling. Stop talking to her, use all your strength to do it. Even if it takes several days, stop talking to her and let her start wondering what she can do to make things right. Put the ball in her corner and let her see how it feels. You will be doing her a favor by teaching her a valuable lesson and you will help your self esteem which needs  a lot of help, I can tell.
845683
You should tell her that it really pissed you off and if she wants to be a friend then she needs to not tell people your private things you share in confidence.  If she disregards your upset or request than don't waste your energy on her and  know that you can not tell her anything you don't want others to know.
354884
Have a real conversation, be honest with your feelings and direct...  If she tries to get together afterwards to "just talk" don't go for it, it's just going to be more painful on both of you.
588413
she is hurtful and resentful right now give her a little time 2 stew but keep trying 2 talk 2 her.try coming up with a new way 2 explain it 2 her maybe she is just mad because you did not ask her help 2 keep the play going.you willnot know unless you ask her.bug her a bit if you like her as a friend and she is usually a good friend then try repairing the relationship if not give her a lot of space and move on.
812314
Explain to her what happened & why you didn't say anything. If you guys are really best friends, you'll get over it. Best wishes!
121223
Get mad and get over it.  Do not try to get even.\nThese things have a way of working out for the best if you do not escalate what has already taken place.\nYou would be better off doing your best to ignore her.  In the end, this will "put her in her place" far better than any retaliation that you could plan.
1013684
I think you should talk to her and tell her that she keeps ignoring you and it's been hurting you. You shouldn't end it if you haven't talked to her about it yet. Sometimes it may be because you talk about something, that offends, or it just gets "annoying" or sometimes it can be because you call her too much. If she doesn't respond, then she isn't really a good friend, and maybe you should let her go for a while.
201581
Maybe you used that word "friend" to loosely... a friend wouldn't just close you out with no explanation If he's pulling that "passive agressive" '...I'm not gonna talk to you because I know you want me to but I want to make you suffer' routine... my guess is you really are fortunate that he has backed away from you. Hey, you know what is really great? When you just go on with your life in a joyful positive way and he eventually wants to talk with you again but then YOU have nothing to say and just go on with your business. \n\nI'm not saying to do this as revenge, just as a great way to protect yourself from having negative people in your life. Your "friend" may even learn how very immature his behavior is and actually learn to communicate his feelings.\n\nGood Luck and don't hurt.
582387
I'm sorry to hear that but shouldn't you try to talk things over? I mean, the friendship meant a lot to you. Well, give her some time to think things over then maybe, when you two are both ready, you could talk? Don't waste a very good friendship over some stupid things or arguments. You're friends, you're expected to argue about things. But friends always find ways to compromise and forgive each other, no matter what the argument was all about, especially if it was a  stupid argument. I hope it turns out for the best. Just think about the good things you shared and stuff. Maybe you could use that to win her friendship back or something. :) Goodluck!
450448
Well it depends on what your fighting over and how good of a friend she is, If she's a good friend then you should talk it over and she'll get over it because she's a good friend, if you don't care about then friendship at all then go a head and move on, if you value the friendship at all then talk.
1067009
You can't tell people something they are not ready to hear. You are probably right and she probably knows it on some level. When dealing with friends you are always taking a chance when bringing up an issue like that, that you will upset them. You did it, now give her time to calm down, then let her know you only want the best for her because you care about her but your friendship is important to you so you won't bring it up again if she doesn't want you to.
1129447
Physical violence does not equal friendship in my book.  This friend isn't a friend, but a bully.  You have another friend. Go hang out with her.  Obviously you know that what your supposed friend is doing is wrong because you are writing about it here.  Stand up for yourself against this girl: tell her to leave you alone, tell her to stop hitting you - and mean it! Tell an adult who can help you with this situation.  Friends don't hit/kick/bite/slap/spit or commit other forms of violence against friends.
484200
watch your back.\ndon't make a fight unless she does.
293373
Just give her the cold shoulder for a while or don't talk to her because if she is doing this to you she is not really your friend she is just a backstabber.But I would just give her the cold shoulder for a lil bit and see what happens.