why does my coworker hate me?
599453
That is the best name you have picked so far.  Now you need a sexy avatar.
1031133
Are these issues about other employees that you don't know or from office gossip?  I would learn to do my job and feel the place first before voicing opinions.  They may start seeing you as a trouble maker and avoid you later.  Try to use your past experience in ways to benefit your current position to perform and excel your duties, then they will see you in a different way to listen more from your performance. Remember action speaks louder than words.
361948
You have to be realistic about this one because it will come back to haunt you if you're not. If at all possible distance yourself from this person. In other words, stay out of his or her target range. Next start racking up useful accomplishments for the office and your own time. For example, take a CPR and/or first aid class, earn credits or certificates important to your corporation, or do volunteer work on your companies behalf (i.e. Habitat for Humanity, Big Brothers & Sisters, Red Cross, etc.). If there is some activity important to you boss do that too if you have time. After your accomplishments be sure your boss knows what you have done but don't talk about it with others at work so your jealous colleague won't find out for a while. If things get bad at work because of this person you will now be in a much better position to leave with all your new contacts and accomplishments. Good luck.
198809
Favoritism is very very annoying. Unfortunately there is not much you can do about it, just bite the bullet. If it is going on in the work place, maybe you can talk to someone in your human resources department and maybe you can be moved to another team. (if that is possible). \n\nI know your frustration. I have seen it myself. It hurts and I felt like I was given the crap tasks . I felt like I was almost being discriminated against. :S \n\nGood luck. Be yourself and try to hang in.
795598
When i first started reading, I had a feeling your performance is not up to expectations and he trying to motivate you, but now I think he has a personal ego problem. Why dont u try and tell him that u have several urgent tasks and look busy? I know it is annoying, but leaving is not the solution. You will probably end up with a boss that has a bad temper or personality flaw. \n\nWhy dont u try and send him an annonmous note telling him that everybody hates his ways, but make sure he will never find out.
26478
Jealousy of another's superior skills or abilities engeders negative actions such as spreading false rumors about that person.  Another is a common mistake, arguing with co-workers about politics or religion. A former friend can turn on you once he or she discovers you do not agree with their beliefs.  Aggressive ambition also contributes to cutthroat practices such as sabotaging another's work, blaming another for your mistakes or taking credit for someone else's ideas. My best advice is to never tell anyone at work more than the barest of personal information, be pleasant, don't complain or join in ranking fellow workers. Also be a good listener and most of all, keep your mouth shut about your best work ideas until you present them to the proper supervisor and leave your strong opinions on non-work related issues at home. If you must vent or preach, write a letter to the editor or find a chat room online.
575162
those people who do that are just jealous. there has to be some quality about u that causes them to hate u for it. you just have to be the better person and ignore them. Because for everyone, there will always ALWAYS be someone who will hate you for what you are and what you stand for. u just have to decide whether their opinion of u will change how u think of yourself.
548633
I'm only 13 but i go to school with a couple of people who i hate as much as they hate me. they make-fun of people(teachers) and blame it all on me. the so called "nurses" that work with you are probably just jealous of the people they make fun of and you. I advise you to just smile and ignore them. if they make a rude and or inappropriate comment about anyone just walk away. but if this comment is about you say " at least i don't get my fun making-fun of the people who i am jealous about." and by the way i can tell that you are a very smart person by not joining them and keeping your personality alive.
729945
It sounds like you have a problem. Why are you so angry? I understand not likeing someone but  getting angry at them when they are trying to get along with you doesn't make sense. Normally people are able to be civil even when they dislike someone. That anger isn't normal and it's coming from somewhere.I think you need professional help to resolve this consuming anger issue.
723667
He may be jealous. I wonder why he was there in the first place...did he hear that your store was doing well, probably BETTER than his? LOL. \n\nYes kissing butt is something they expect. But your coworker not getting a raise for being an "individualist", I'd complain to the corporate office, that isn't a valid reason for not getting a raise. Then, once I got the raise, I quit and work for the competitor.\n\nIf they supress you, you will be their little worker bees. That is the way they think. It's all about control, manipulation, the bottom line. I suggest you seriously think about how you can break out on your own and not be a company dupe. You will wither and die if you stay in that for too long. Believe me, I've BTDT.
331750
look, honey, it sounds to me like you need to start standing up for yourself. if someone started yelling at me when I was innocent, I would politely tell them to back off. my guess is, people use you because they know they can. they know you'll give them money and never make them pay it back. \nso start getting a backbone dear, or it will be this way your whole life. when you know someone is trying to use you, learn to say no. and don't worry about losing them as a friend. with friends like that you don't need enemies. \ndon't let people get away with walking all over you, and don't let people talk to you any kind of way. you can stand up for yourself without being a jerk, and that's what you should practice. if you don't like something, say so.\nand when people call you names, consider the source. so the skanky girl called you a name, so what? she's the one with the problem.\nwhen you stand up for yourself and respect yourself, people will start seeing you differently. again, don't bend over backwards just to make a friend; that's not what real friends are. take care of yourself first and foremost.\nand remember, if you don't control this now, it WILL go on forever. your bosses, your lovelife, your neighbors, everyone will find ways to abuse you. \nI know it's hard to find that kind of confidence. but you must, or you will not survive. tell yourself every day that you are smart and you are a good person. love yourself. I know that sounds cheesy, but it is the truth. start looking for little ways every day that you can assert yourself, and once you get started, it will get easier.
594956
She can be a slave driver at times! That woman just pushes and pushes and expects me to do everything around the office! She gets a bad attitude at times too and she can really get on my nerves! She can be a royal "Witch"! She rarely lets me take my breaks and she always seems to be watching what I am doing and just waiting for me to mess up. Nothing I do is ever good enough for her. No matter how much I do each day, she expects more from me the next day. She expects me to work 7 days a week and I haven't had a day off or a vacation in 8 years! \n\nDang! I am really tough on me! I am my own boss! \n\nS.S.
439462
First of all you can not make someone like you. And I am not sure why you would want to.\nGo about your work like you do not notice. I had a girl at work not that long ago that didnt like me. She was very open about it and it got to the point where she wouldnt talk to me. In our workplace we HAVE to communicate. But she wouldnt. I just kept on talking to her acting like I didnt realize she was trying to ignore me and not talking to me. I still got my job done and honestly it annoyed her which made me feel better hahahaha!\n\nAct like you do not know they are behaving like children. If people want to act like that on their own time that is their business. But I am at work to do my job and if they do not want to be my friend that is fine...I am not there to make friends. However in the work place I am going to be professional about it.\nAll you can do is be the bigger person and make sure your work is not effected by your concern over their behavior.
804833
I think it is better to realize and get out now, if you get hired at the other job i would not mention my reasons for leaving in specific, this is not professional. And you could/should tell the boss about the rude co-worker after she is not a co-worker anymore. Someone needs to make them aware of her nastiness. God bless and Good luck on your next job, hope you get it.
583264
You should worry.  You are now an accessory.  Your coworker has just pulled you down with him.  He is not your friend.
897769
No one likes to be shouted at in a working environment.  It says a lot about your boss.  She needs to take some classes on how to deal with employees, and shouting at them is not one of them.  When she acts this way again, nicely tell her you are trying your best and ask her why she is shouting at you.  If she gives you some demeaning answer, find another job.  You don't have to put up with that.
514457
I understand how frustating that could be but don't get yourself all worked up over it.  Keep doing what you are supposed to do.  Don't worry about your co-worker.  I'm pretty sure that your employer will catch up to him or her eventually.