Why if it, you treat a gal fine, she'll still leave you for a abusive man?
607231
That's not always true. People have different personalities and it's just who they are.
977714
Nice guys always finish last. It seem woman like to be treated like dirt. hence the old saying treat a woman like dirt shell treat you like gold!
319756
I'm not intimidated by my ex's new gf bc he used to beat me and was very verbally abusive to me too. Plus she's still a minor and he's 24. So if he goes to jail for it, it won't be my problem.
1035686
She won't stop beating you up.  She is an abuser.  Just like men are abusers.  How can you like someone who abuses you?  Please try to think better of yourself.
893182
I know how you feel. It seems no matter how much you do for them or how well you treat them they still disrespect you, show too little appreciation, and there never seems to be enough of a  balance, or reward in the relationship for men. IE women take more than they give and think about their own needs more than their partners. I can't give up though because I want to be happy with someone and will keep looking until I find that woman who gives as good as she gets
853521
Not all girls are like that, maybe you were to submissive and forgiving and she needed someone manly and masculin by her side, and well, she will keep cheating on you because i don't think you will change...
410083
Now, this is a very interesting and intriguing question. Actually, the issues are really big since the victim would always be doubtful about your every move. She can't stop but think she could get abused again. But, if the man makes her feel real comfortable at first and gain her complete trust, there would not be any issue later. I would go out with someone like you but would want you to letme know whenever you feel insecure with me. That would, by itself, slowly get you feel secure and then move easily with me.
594624
Some are attracked to jerks because they think that they can change them, which will never happen, they fall in love with the man he could be not the man he is. If she is getting hit then you need to talk to her about gettting out of the relationship and getting help. If you like you can write me poetry any time, I love it.
725994
If by bitchy, you mean a girl who knows her own worth and will not allow anyone to run over her and will tell you when she thinks you have disrespected her, men like this kind of woman because she challenges him to be his best.  He knows that if he wants this better kind of woman, he must be thoughtful of her feelings, work hard for a living because she will not just accept any excuse for a man, have plans for his future (which will not necessarily include her if their plans do not match) and be a man not an excuse for 1.  If you mean a girl who is rude and crude for the heck of it, it is because he is stupid.    By the By, if you feel that you must always agree with your bf or risk losing him, I feel sorry for you
368542
THANK YOU!! women hit hard and men are beaten a lot adn the women are never punished but if a man touches someones shoulder to hard BAM! you get a restraining order and a filthy record. the answer is do the woman thing and call the police. she as a woman is hitting u and putting u in the position of the classic woman. so do what the classic abused woman shoudl do and call the police. have HER arrested...damn good of you..
969033
He has got to take it like a man and just let her beat on him for a while. If not, then its off to jail he goes. Here is a tip for the next time, DON'T TOUCH HER!!
678819
If a guy is being abused, it's because he's letting her do it - same as for women.  You have the option to not hang around.\n\nThe reason they say that is because young women tend to go for the "bad boy" - a guy that will be bad to everyone but THEM, so they can say they "won" by changing him - but older women know that is all a fantasy and a lie.  There is no such thing as a bad boy who can be changed by a woman to good.  When a woman learns this, they go to the nice guys who have waited patiently for the women to grow up and figure this out.
479925
You have the audacity to say "what's wrong with females?"  Your problem is you have two heads, and you're thinking with the wrong one.  Do you want a miserable life, full of drama?  Then by all means, go after her.
485739
Yes they do because they are stupid and undeserving of pity. If they are too stupid to leave when someone beats them they deserve it or like it. Most wiil say Im scared to leave or I have nowhere to go or but hes a good provider or he takes care of the kids etc.... Its all bs. I had 3 ex gfs slap me before and I walked out and never spoke to them again, I dont put up with abuse but some sick and twisted people like it. Feel no pity for them as they arent even human, even a dog will try to run away if it knows its going to get beat.
857018
Sometimes you don't know what you have until it is gone.  The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.  Now she is with someone abusive, and she my realize how good it was to be with someone that treated her better.\n\nI don't know if she wants to continue to be abused by the guy.  She may want to turn back the clock and be with you.  Saying she loves you and hoping you loved her too.  \n\nIf she isn't going to leave the guy, then you can tell her that you still love her and because you do, you can't stand to see her abused on a regular basis.  You need to distance yourself from her because you can't stand by and do nothing.\n\nIf she doesn't come back, then move on.  Think of the good times and look for someone else that can share your dream.
308932
Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
377053
Some women fear the men that abuse them, and so if they leave they could be subject to alot worse.\n\nSome need the financial help.\n\nSome stay for kids.\n\nSome are dependent on their partners.\n\nSome are scared to be alone.\n\nThere are hundreds of reasons why women wont leave.