LADIES ONLY!  i NEED SOME HELP HERE!?
596825
I think maybe you are spoiling her too much and she is taking advantage of it. Set some rules just to see what happens.and if anything maybe you should consider leaving.\nGOOD LUCK!!!
132476
hey girl just be brave dont worry about anything!!! if you choke up just play it cool take it slow!!!
531964
If this is a female... honey ... guys and directions are two things that are impossible to go together in the same sentence/question... practice on another female, trust me a woman knows what a woman wants!
1018749
Ok here goes i am gonna talk here for a while so i hope i dont bore you lol. Romance her and spoil her rotten ... Treat her like a queen. Make sure you let her know and feel how special she is to you every day and how sexy and pretty she is! Love her in actions and deed and tell her how much you love and treasure her and that she means everything to you and that you are so glad to have her in your life as she makes you really happy! Hold hands and spend lots of time together with her. Buy her little gifts here and there just because and cards too! Buy her a special pretty necklace! Take her to dinner at a romantic resturant like the Olive Garden or something like that! You do this enough it will become and habit and a way of life for you! The secret is to treat her the way you want to be treated and love and cherish her for who she is! Always find ways to make her feel special and call her throughout the day too just to say hi and that you are thinking of her and that you love her! Also be a good listener and communicate with her. Always be honest and faitful and never hide things from her and be committed no matter what.... If you do this trust me it will work and she will be yours forever!
650125
I'm so happy for you two!  Great job on waiting.  \n\nI know you two have waited for the sex but I'm not sure if you guys have done the all the things that lead up to that point.  There is a lot of fun to be had with foreplay.  Also, keep in mind that he will have an O within minutes of you guys starting your festivities.  Hopefully, he can go the distance and be able to get it back a few more times.  If not, there is no rush!  Having good sex takes patience and willingness to learn and experiment.  Don't forget to talk to each other about what you like and it wouldn't hurt to read some sex tips books together.  (Not a suggestion on how to pass the night but just in general.)\n\nI don't know if you guys are in a hotel or what but I would make sure that some chilly water and a snack with substance is on hand for later.  Also, a friend told me that she wished she had a pretty robe to wear when she came out of the restroom in her lingerie.  Since it was the first time for him to see her in that kind of dress she felt a little awkward crossing the room in such attire.  \n\nIt sounds to me like you already have it covered.  You guys waited so it will be unusually special, the strawberries are tasty and cider is very good (both flavors).  Just the fact that you are planning and being thoughtful covers your side of being romantic.  Make sure that he doesn't rush because the more anxious and rushed you are the less pleasurable it will be for you.  Have fun!
739443
wow!! your a much better man than any i know if you have been around for 7 months and no sex! i just turned 28 and i dont know how you do it!!! yep, you love this one for real!  i would sit down and have a deep conversation with her about your feelings.
150254
First off, don't presure her, reasure her. Take it slow, when you do eventually.....um do it. Condom, lots of lube, and ease it in. Don't ram it in and start pumping, just let her muscles relax around you. When she feels comfortable, then move, and just make sure to keep asking her if she's okay, and if it hurts her, stop, let her relax, and try again. Comunication is the key. It will hurt the first time, but that's a given, just try not to add to it. But let her know you'd like to try it, and tell her you'll be gentle. (and for the love of god, be gentle, a girls first time can be stressful and painful)
939047
Use KY's jelly or Durex's lubricant to make things go smoothly your way. By the way, what's with her small....?? I just know your staff = manhood is really big. I think she's going to enjoy very much and maybe you're going to blow off her mind & body.
455842
find your g spot, do this on your own first, it will make it easier for your guy to find it, try feeling insde, just at the entrance,  go up a bit and you should feel a squishy bumpy spot, play around with that and it might work, if not, just keep at it, it is just at the entrance and up, near the front... you have to get use to your self and get to know your body!
166982
follow her signals. some like it rough, some like it gentle. some like it fast, some like it slow etc. go with what ever your getting the most reaction to. Just remember its not all about you.
801159
Definitely see a doctor. It could be an infection so you want to try to get help for it before it turns into something serious. Hope this helped!
497134
you need to break it to her slowly. tell her it has to be over but yall can still have sex when one of you needs it. kind of like fu*k buddies. see if she will go for that and then slowly ween yourself off of her.
532108
Just become really good friends before you start a relationship! Trust me, I've gone into a relationship based on physical things (without a strong friendship) and things didn't work out! I think it's great that you are willing to wait until she seems ready to "make a move"! I wish more guys were like that. Find out what type of things she likes to do. Maybe you could invite her to go bowling you and a couple of friends, or go to coffee(i suggest Starbucks), or out to eat,  or somewhere else that you guys could just talk.  I know the movies are fun but you should do something where the two of you can talk. You can't really get to know someone that well by going to the movies. To keep her interested in you maybe you could just flirt with her a little, every girl likes to be flirted with every once and a while. Good luck! If you want any more advice on it you could always contact me.
638003
Give yourself a call and spend some alone time together. I am sure she will be thrilled with the attention. Have Fun!
138947
go with the flow...your bodies will tell eachother where, how, and how long...good luck
478029
Being a female myself. Try not thinking so much. If she loves you she will appreciate whatever you do. i personally like the little things, getting flowers at work, him calling just to say I love you, He once covered one of my walls in my room with post it sticky notes (each one with something he liked about me written on it) not sure if she'd likeany of those but they might help. GOod luck. Feel free to email me anytime if you need to talk. w061204@yahoo.com
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I suggest a 12hr sex session... or 24hr, even better! You guys should be gagging for it if you've been apart for the past 6 weeks.\nMy 19yr old flatmate got a dr who figure and a haircut for her man for their aniversary this weekend. \nI think you really have to work this one out for yerself tho, you should know him really well by now, probably better than anyone, and you'll be able to find something i'm sure. \n\nI'd still go with the sex tho!