what i have to when friend say that she love my boyfriend?
603785
tell her frankly that anything can be shared between friends but not the relationships..........there is actually no right 4 u to say her ur opinion 'cos its all abt ur guy........the one whom u r really concerned abt ....\nso tell him abt this......he is the one who should know abt this........4m ur part u can say her clearly that u r helpless.......there is nothing to think over abt this....if she really ur true friend she would hav not said u this .........remember that .............atleast 4m here onwards stay aware 4m such friends.......its a good thing atleast now u hav come to know abt her character............
565834
Personally, when I found myself in this very predicament, I made a conscious decision to approach the situation from an honest, adult perspective and expressed my concerns to both my friend and my boyfriend. \n\nBecause I trust my boyfriend, I explained how uncomfortable my friend's behaviour toward him made me, and asked that he help me by not reacting positively to her flirting. He was happy to do so, because he found her behaviour just as inappropriate as I had.\n\nI explained to my friend, privately, that, although I value her friendship, her flirting behaviour toward my boyfriend made me uncomfortable and was jeopardising the future of our friendship. I asked her to tone herself down and respect my feelings. When I discovered that she could not oblige me that, then I did, and still do, my utmost ensure that my boyfriend and my friend spend the least amount of time together as possible. It doesn't mean I don't see either of them less frequently, I just don't see them at the same time anymore.\n\nIt may be that my friend is jealous of the fantastic relationship between my boyfriend and me, and either consciously or not, wants us to split up so that I may be as miserable as she is in the relationship department... who knows. \n\nEither way, the key is to remain adult in your thoughts, and not give in to the childish part of yourself that goes "OMG what a b*tch I can't believe she's trying to steal my boyfriend I'm going to make her pay" or similar, and to trust the man you love.
123727
Show him how much you care about him. Whether he is your boyfriend, or just a friend, let him know that there is someone who cares about him.
663347
If she's really your friend I think you NEED to tell her what happend. Just tell exactly what he said about her that will make more sence to her.  She will be devestated but it's always best to know.  Just turn the situation around, would you like to know or would you like your friends to tell you. Plus is not the end of the world, she will lose her boyfriend that dosen't want to be with her anymore but that's why you are there for!
523710
Ain't love strange. Us poor humans get all confused about the whole thing don't we? \nWhen you think about it love is what makes you feel good. It makes your heart go a flutter, keeps you awake at night, makes you smile all day and fills your heart and soul with the greatest pleasure that anything on earth can.\nSo.......love, like it's all the same and it doesn't matter who or what you love just remember as the saying goes; " if it feels good do it "\nTheres nothing wrong with having a friend that makes you feel good. Your boyfriend need not know because it really is all about you...not him.
458949
If your boyfriend says he loves you and not her, then you have nothing to worry about.  However, HE should be the one to tell her to leave him alone.  If that doesn't work, step in and let her know you won't stand for her drama.  Kick ass if necessary.
688809
If she is your girlfriend, you have to tell her.\nIf she is your friend, you have to tell her.\nIf she is someone you care about, you have to tell her.\nIf you don't give a damn about her, then play with her.
428191
I don't think it's possible to make someone love you. Maybe you are infatuated with her and she doesn't feel the same way. Long distance relationships are hard, and maybe she will break up with her boyfriend. It's not up to you to help her do that. What you should do is start out as friends, and just offer her friendship. Then, if she does break up with him, you can ask her out!
281462
You can't always win. If he has a boyfriend the best you can do is support him. From experience I'm telling you DON'T tell him you think you're in love with him! That will make your relationship uneasy and he won't want to talk to you because he'll be uneasy and wonder what you're thinking. It's always best to hold onto a good thing. Wait it out and see.
543252
A lot of people in this situation (just broken up with boyfriend/girlfriend), don't want to hear what they know they should do.  They want to hear go back to him, tell him you love him, he will come back to you, just wait for him, etc.  \n\nBe there for your friend, and if she continues to call you stupid, then tell her that not only has she lost her boyfriend, but she will be losing a good friend if she continues calling you stupid for your advice.
220570
Let's make it simple, "I love you and I'm in love with you, what do you think that." when wait for your friend's answer.
383136
hey hun... i think saying i love you should be said when the person really loves u. ur friend gt her guy to say it in  6 weeeks.. i am sure he has said it loads of times after that.. but when ur boyfriend actually says it to u it would mean a whole lot more than it wld mean whenhe says it when u want him to. you need to do anything to make him say it. you just wait till hez comfortable enuf to say it. at least he is not mis-using the word love.
938417
Ask her one day while the both of you are hanging out if she's ever considered you as boyfriend material .. it's gets the conversation started ... and you can still play it off if she freaks out and says " oh heavens no .. you're such a good friend - I would never want to ruin our friendship " ... it's a little embarrassing to confess your love to a friend and have them say - sorry I don't think of you in that way ... I've been on either end of that situation and it's a little uncomfortable ... good luck ... hope you get some great advise ... !\n\nJust remember the only way to find out is by talking ... make sure it's just the two of you ... that way there's no distractions ... if she doesn't feel the same way - continue being a great friend - that will really show her how much you truly care ... I've had a few guy friends that would just up & disappear after I told them I just wanted to be friends ... it sucks ... thinking back you wonder what their motives were the whole time ... !
946859
if u really love him then trust him\nhe may feeding her as a friend it doesnt mean all the time intimate lovers\njust trust him and show him that u love him from ur full heart \nthen he will find u as a wonderful girl trust him
230367
go with your gut feeling, trust that you will be better off in the long run and also listen really carefully to the context of her conversation to see if she shares anything intimate about her feelings about different things she may have done or things that she would never do. If you don't tell your boyfriend how you feel how is he supposed to know unless he is a mind reader.It takes two to play games.
568878
Adam,Adam,Adam!!! don't you know that actions speak louder than words?! Trust me,if you start acting like a boyfriend she will notice.and she'll probably say something to you,which would give you your golden opportunity to speak your mind.just don't be too overbearing-you don't want to lose your friendship if the boyfriend thing doesn't work out.
195825
if you love him/her, accept it, but if you aren,t you can tell him/her, he/she is friend for you couse this is the best relationship for you and her/him now. tell him/her if it become more than friend may be your relationship become not close again!