Indian ladies.advice me..How can I control my feelings?
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Im also in the same state like you.I got married with an impotent and he hide the truth.Then he showed me his ugly face.Tortured me to hide his impotence.\n\ni got separated now.And I decided to keep my virginity till my death.\nYoga helps  to control myself.Pranayamam is another way.\nIt will be tough to adapt first.After trained well it will help much.\nNever feel that you are cursed for something.The ugly men missed the golden opportunity to have our heavenly body.\nOne more thing.Dont reveal the sadness in you to anybody.\nthe pigs may take it as the advantage and they will try to impress you in many ways.\nReally keeping the virginity is the proud thing.You will realize it one day.
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Love is a like a mirror. Happiness reflects happiness, and true love reflects true love. Being that you're an Indian and sincerely in love, one thing to know is, Indian people are vulnerable and fragile to each others feelings that they can't bear any distance...especially in the matters of heart. Don't worry, she'll talk to you soon and try to express your feelings somehow. Maybe a note or e-mail or something that would show her how much you love her and she will come back running to you :)
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You can't control another person emotions or reaction - so don't try.  The best thing you can do is be honest and tell her as soon as possible.  It's not fair to her if you already know it's not going to work.\n\nBeside, how do you know she is going to cry?  Are you that great of a catch?  You might be surprised by her reaction, she might not even blink an eye, let alone cry - ESPECIALLY not in front of you.  Women are funny that way, they will put on a really strong front in front of you, then later that night let the emotions out, either alone or with her girlfriends.\n\nStand strong, be honest but not cruel, don't try to put blame on anything other then you do not have "Love" feelings for her.\n\nGood luck.
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Start talking...no, really, for starters go to any window of your house,open it and yell like a warrior getting ready for battle! You will feel better after you do! You may even laugh. learn to laugh at yourself and be yourself. Have fun with life. You'll enjoy it more!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Be like TARZAN (or Jane)
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Women have great intuition, but they must be careful with it.  If there is something going on, there is nothing I believe you can do to prevent it.  I do not believe you can control other peoples' behavior, only your own.  You can control how you react to a situation.\n\nIf you were my family member, I would tell you what my mother told me.  Keep your mouth shut and your eyes open.  If he's playing tomcat with her, you will know soon enough.  Your not stupid in any way.
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There are several ways to control it. And if you don't control / stop it now you will loss your vigour, and you will loss your memory power, your nerve system will become weak, Finlay you will not be able to satisfy your wife. \nfirst the general ways. stop sleeping alone, stop seeing prone sights, pictures, if you are an alcoholism and masturbating it is still worst. \nthe things you see, and imagine are also main cause. i am sure you look at girls with lusty eyes. avoid. \nthen learn little mind control methods. contact me if you are near Chennai.\nThe only best way is to surrender to JESUS, ask HIM help you,\nwash your mind, soul, have a inner healing by the Precious Blood of JESUS.\nJESUS LOVES YOU.
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If you feel guilty, then you should seek ancient Hindu devotion methods.\n\nI will give you an ancient Hindu hymn, which will guard and protect you from evil forces. It has got no harmful effects, nor you have to follow any specific Hindu or any religious rituals.The site contains an image of Lord Agni or Fire God, the first basic element of universe. The hymn is in english, and any person from any religion can recite it.\n\n Just read once the hymn whenever you have got free time.\nTrust me, after reciting the hymn, you will feel much better and free from worries. I myself experienced it.\nShare your experiences too when you feel a difference. Visit a site \nhttp://harshad.wordpress.com\nThis site is free from ads and spyware, and is very safe.
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Hmmmm... I think that you might want to seek professional help with this problem.  See the thing is confidence isn't something that you can teach.  A professional might be able to help you unwrap why you are not confident to begin with, but I am not sure anybody is going to have a magic pill for you.  Well here goes something.  Dude, the key to sexual prosperity, is rejection.  I know that sounds dumb but listen, every time your faced with an attractive woman, you get tense and lock up why? because you're afraid of being rejected and feeling like a loser right?  Well just decide not to feel that way (easier said than done but it doesn't have to be hard).  Try this exercise, go to a bar, and identify 5 women that you are attracted to, and go and introduce yourself, i promise at least 1 will want to at least TALK to you, and then when you feel a bit more confident with talking you can start romancing.  See love, and dating and courtship is a numbers game, and every time you hear a no that is one less you have to hear till you INEVITABLY get a yes.  There are like a billion people in India right? 500,000,000 women, trust me at least 100,000 will want to talk to you or go out on a date with you.  So never take anything a woman says personally, and welcome rejection, as one less hurdle to your inevitable GUARANTEED success, and you may find that you can talk to women after-all.  Good luck bro, and I hope this helps.  I know it sounds crazy but trust me it works.
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Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
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OH! COME ON,DON'T BE SILLY DON'T YOU KNOW THAT LADIES CAN FEEL THE PLUSE BEAT OF EVERY MATURED MALE, AND BELIEVE ME HOOKS THEM LIKE A FISH AND EAT THEM THROUGHOUT THEIR LIFE VERY SLOWLY. AND IF IT SMELLS OR GETS ROTTEN KICKS THEM OUT OF THE HOUSE WITHOUT ANY MERCY. NOW TELL ME, HAVE YOU FOUND ANY NEED FOR THEM TO TALK MARRIEGE. SO WAIT AND BECOME MATURED. FROM NOW PRACTICE HOW TO SAVE YOURSELF WHEN ONE FINE MORNING YOU BE SURELY KICKED OUT OF YOUR OWN HOUSE OK. NO, OK WAIT AND SEE.
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No, there's nothing wrong with you crying. It's ok to show your emotions and many guys don't like to express their emotions openly. You're only expressing how you feel so what is wrong with that? And yes, I'm Indian.
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hi shruti..how u doing..this rahul khann ..male 22 delhi..\n life:-life is bitch ,and we all marry ones...\n life:-life is bitch,so be a dog to get it on..\n life is beautyful live it...\nlife is like a dream..try to make it possible,the way u want to live it..\nlife is full of pain...with joy,laugh,happyness,dreams,,\nlife have different phase or u can say..different steps..worries is the..when u remembering worries one..so how can u forget the other one..joy ,,happness..laugh..love..dreams..and a lot..keep going..can be frnd..
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GIRL THEY KNOW THAT YOU ARE A PUSH OVER. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH LIKING SOME ONE, BUT IT SEEMS LIKE YOU PUT YOUR GUARDS DOWN AS SOON AS YOU FEEL SOMETHING FOR THEM.  I DONT THINK YOUR WASTING YOUR TIME AT ALL, BUT I DO THINK YOU NEED TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR SITUATION. HOP IN THE DRIVER SEAT AND STOP BEING A PASSENGER.  KNOW THAT THERE IS SOME ONE OUT THERE FOR YOU. CAUSE IF I WAS A MAN, AND I KNEW I CAN GET WHAT EVER FROM A WOMAN, I WOULD DO IT, AND HAVE NO SHAME IN MY GAME. HELL I'M A FEMALE,  AND MEN ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO TALK TO ME BECAUSE HOW THE OUTSIDE LOOK, SO I TEACH THEY ASS A LESSON. I WILL TAKE THEY ASS ON A GOOSE CHASE. JUST LOVE YOURSELF,  AND THEN TRY LOVING SOME ONE ELSE! TAKE CARE, AND GOOD LUCK SWEETY.
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You would have to leave India I believe for this to happen, but just stay there and see what happens first. You said have fun with friends and make big money. You are forgetting the part about all the beautiful big breasted women that will do ANYTHING to get back stage and party with you ... guys. lol
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It shouldn't take us to answer that question. I think you already know. It's called intuition. Intuition is knowing what you know, without knowing how you know it. Make sense. If you don't fell bidirectional rapport with that person and the feeling you want doesn't feel right, then you know what, you're probably right. I tell you what, if you think that's all he wants, don't do anything the next time you and this man meet, tell him you want to be held and see how he complies. Then on the next meeting, do the same thing. But if you lust the same way he does and think you're going to loose him, then check your self-esteem. It could be low and you may be a beautiful woman. Let me know how it goes.\nThe Graphologist
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i undesrastand what you are feeling... i have the same problem... i won't say that you can get rid of it that easily, but it would help it if you talk about it with your husband.. i have my GF living abroad and can't see her or talk to her much, and i can't tell you feelings i had... but just once i decided to tell her and just that helped me feel good and safe... \ni know you care so much about your husband and that's great... so try to talk with him... he'll help you out deal with that. and just the fact of telling him will help you.
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Dear Madam,seems that you are a bengali lady. Do not worry about ragging. Have confidence in yourself. Do not try to be oversmart.Try to be friends with your seniors and always have a smile on your face.All the best ....