I have a gay friend that has anal sex quit often, if it's protected sex, are there any other risks ?
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if he is careful and ALWAYS uses a condom, then no, no risk (other than backwoods hick laws in some redneck states).
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Your friend may or may not be homosexual/bisexual, he could just be curious. To advance on you in your sleep is a bit odd, I must admit. \n\nIf you were not comfortable with the situation, tell him immediately, even going so far to say you do not want to spend the night with him again. Do not attack him for being gay or curious - he made a mistake.\n\nAnother aspect that probably will not be covered, is that this was a private moment for him and your having this against him makes him very vulnerable. Don't blow the friendship completely out of the water by telling anyone who walks by what happened. Just talk to him about it and move on.\n\n~Miss Cris\nhttp://lendinganear.wordpress.com
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If he is your friend then he wouldnt be involving you in this. You need to report him ASAP. If you begin to question your self  on the morality of turning him in think about this.....if he has sex with someone and then coincidentally you have sex with that same person now your at risk.... there are condoms in this world there is no excuse to pass on HIV to anyone. He is being selfish and is ruining many peoples lives in the process. How would you like to be one of the people he has sex with? even if you dont end up with HIV the trauma of worring that you might have it is enough to ruin anyones lives. If the friend passes it on then he is in a sence murdering that person ...its just a long needless painful death....do you really want to have friends that are so thoughtless?
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If you have *unprotected* sex with someone who has HIV/AIDS, the odds are quite good that you will get it too.\n\nAn hour or so of pleasure isn't worth dying for.
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if your play buddy was infected and there was blood contact between your willy and his butt, then it has a very high risk! even if you only have a very small bruise on your prick...
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Here are some of the risk of having an@l sex.\n\nThe vigorous thrusting that may occur during an@l intercourse can tear the mucous membrane. This can develop into an an@l abscess that can become infected .\n A “fissure” is a tear up in the rectum can develop into a crack, and become infected.\nIt can gradually extend out through the wall of the bowel and form a channel across, through and into a nearby organ. That's called a "fistula", and it would allow feces to flow from the rectum into the vagin@ and out.\nRepairing tears, fissures and fistulas is delicate surgery and recovery can be long and painful. \n\nBut if you do decide to try it, you and your partner must talk about it beforehand and agree on these points:\n\n1. Your partner must be very, very gentle, absolutely no forced penetration and no vigorous thrusting.\n2. You must use lots and lots of good lubrication, (an@l lube, not saliva).\n3. Your partner must use a condom…all the time, every time.\n4. Your partner must respect "stop". If you say ouch, or it hurts, or No or quit… they must stop immediately.\n5. It must be understood, if you do not want to have an@l sex again, there will be no pressure, no threats and no pleading. NO means NO.\n6. Use a well-lubricated condom without spermicide, either on the sex toy or his penis. Spermicide can irritate the rectum.\n7. Never shift from an@l sex back to vaginal sex without changing condoms. Feces can end up in the vagina and cause infections.\n\nThere are some who really enjoy giving and receiving an@l pleasure; some females feel that they have their best orgasms ever; some females oblige simply because their partner really enjoys an@l sex; and for other females, it is just gross, embarrassing or disgusting.
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There really isn't a single answer to that question. Ingesting either type of human waste, whether urine or feces is very dangerous. Feces with the greatest danger of hepatitis. A very bad infection which scars and hardens the liver. Earlier years it lead to death. Now, there are a series of vacinations, one can get to, possibly, get through the disease. Stimulation, anally, of both men and women increases sexual pleasure. Anal stimulation of the male at the time of orgasm can double the amount of semen, ejaculated, there by, doubling the pleasure. One of the curious things about sex is one's bounderies are generally, easied, during sex. Part of that is from one's early messages about the body, organs & waste. A rebelliousness can appear in sex as "anything goes" with some people. Sweat, body odors including feces, feeling, groping, kissing all lead to a somewhat natural "High." That's when the boundries one may think they have are "thrown to the Wind." That is when people do stupid things & forget about precautions. AIDS is perfect example of the result of dropping all precautions during that natural High. People do get bored and look for new ways of doing the "same old thing." It is OK to experiment but, precautions must always be taken. These days, swallowing a male's semen is an absolute no, no. Anal stimulation can be done with finger condoms. They can be found at your local drugstore in the First Aid Dept. Their called "Finger Protectors" w/ 30 per box. Their used for inserting suppositories, applying hemorrhoidal creams or applying medication to open wounds. \nThe renown book, Joy Of Sex gives a full summary of many sexual techniques including those above. There's another entitled, Joy of Gay Sex, also, filled with many techniques. But, urinating or defecating on another is far, from healthy. Or, as one stated, here, masterbating with pooh. Fecal bacteria are very powerful and a skin infection, very hard to get rid of, plus being painful. Ingested, possibly, fatal. Precautions are the #1 rule in today's society.
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If this is a moral question, leave it to your friend to figure out.\n\nIf it's just a concern about health then the more important issue is if your friend is using protection and not how many partners he/she has.
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Yes, there are risks involved, as with any sexual act where blood, semen, or vaginal secretions have the potential to enter your bloodstream.  Everyone has minute fisures on their gums where there can be transferrance of these fluids into your blood stream.  Oral sex is considered to have a much lower risk factor than vaginal or anal sex without protection.  If you want to lessen this risk, don't brush your teeth for at least six hours prior to doing this act.  But don't bet on getting a second date...\n\nI'm sure that many will find this hard to believe (see supporting documentation below) but your risk lessens if you swallow quickly rather than letting it remain in your mouth or spitting it out where it passes past your gums again.
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YES!!! I know a couple myself. Guys who do this are called "Down Low" guys. I would strongly urge you to warn your friends about  how rampant Aids and HiV are in this community. You guys may never know the full truth... but tell your friend to protect her heart and let him GO.
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That would be both fortunate and unfortunate. By that I mean AIDS is a terrible disease to have , and difficult to live with. So if he really does have AIDS, or is HIV positive, I am so very sorry!! But it's fortunate for you if you haven't slept with him yet.  DON'T!!!!!  And get checked yourself for the HIV virus,because you may have contracted this virus from him simply by French kissing, or if you two have engaged in oral sex. Please go to your local Health Dept, and they will test you for free. Then, give your friend all the love and support that you can, just do not engage in sexual activities with him, and that includes oral,anal,regular intercourse,deep tongue-in-mouth kissing...Good luck to you both!! You are both in my prayers.
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If your man want's to have anal sex with you..You should stop and think about it ..ask yourself is he gay ? Come on ladies in anybodies world that is sick !!! Don't let him do it...I'm a hospice pastor I had a patient once that could'nt hold her stools in..They just slid out ..no control..she was 58 and dieing of cancer.... she told me her first husband did that to her and after awahile it tears the muscle s so bad that when you grow older the muscles don't work...ask a doctor.... you are letting these guy's ruin your body....
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You of course have to take precautions sexually, however your life can be as unchanged as anyone who follows appropriate hygeine. Must be extremely careful not to intermingle blood and any other bodily secretions. There are wonderful toll free hotlines that can assist you or the person you are asking for. Check out the sources!
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No No and No.\n\nAside from slight pain the first few times it harms nothing.\nUnless the rest of you have actually had anal sex, fuck off.\n\nIt wont harm a bit.
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Well, I always assume people are gay until proved otherwise...\n\nSo, I would say, be gentle, let him set the speed, and use lots of lube...\n\nOh, and don't forget the condom.
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The following numbers are old, and they're all pretty much guesswork anyway, so take them with a grain of salt.  But I venture to say most people in the field would agree with my conclusions.\n\nAccording to a report by researchers Norman Hearst and Stephen Hulley in the Journal of the American Medical Association, the odds of a heterosexual becoming infected with AIDS after one episode of penile-vaginal intercourse with someone in a non-high-risk group without a condom are one in 5 million. With a condom it's even safer--one in 50 million. Just to put this in perspective, the chances of someone in your family getting injured next year in a bubble bath are 1 in 1.3 million (source: The Odds on Virtually Everything, Heron House, 1980). You're in much greater danger of being struck by lightning (1 in 600,000), having your house bombed (1 in 290,000), or being murdered (1 in 11,000).\n\nThe numbers get a lot worse if you engage in "high-risk behavior"--having sexual intercourse or sharing needles with a member of a high-risk group, e.g., a gay or bisexual male or IV drug user from a major metro area, or a hemophiliac. The chances of getting AIDS from one such encounter range as high as 1 in 10,000 using a condom to 1 in 1,000 unprotected. Even if your partner tests negative for human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), the chances of infection from a high-risk person are still relatively high--1 in 50,000 without a condom. That's because there's a 45 to 90 day window during which a newly infected person can infect others but test negative. (A few people go as long as 180 days.)\n\nFrom there on out, statistically speaking, things deteriorate pretty fast. If your partner is HIV-positive, your chances of getting AIDS after one night are 1 in 5,000 with a condom, 1 in 500 without. Have sex with an HIV-positive partner 500 times using condoms and your chances escalate to 1 in 11. Skip the gift wrap and they're 2 in 3.\n\nA couple points: These odds apply equally to men and women. Although there's reason to believe male-to-female AIDS transmission happens more often than female-to-male, the amount of difference is unknown. Also, I have to emphasize again, the numbers involve a lot of guesswork. The authors admit they could be off by a factor of ten in either direction. Still, one message comes through loud and clear: by far the best thing you can do to avoid AIDS is to be picky about your partners. Use of condoms reduces your risk by a factor of 10, sleeping only with people who test negative reduces it by a factor of 5 to 50, but avoiding high-risk partners reduces it by a factor of 5,000. (You'd also be well advised to avoid high-risk behavior, such as unprotected receptive anal sex.) Asking for a resume may not be romantic, but it beats Kaposi's sarcoma.
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you wouldn't "do" anything.\n\nJust don't share a needle or have unprotected sex with him/her.\n\nWhat you can do is treat the person kindly.  He/she probably needs to be supported.