does my mother send my fathers veterans disibility check if he died on the last day of the month.?
609715
No! that should be hers to keep, for your fathers living exspenses for the previous month , My mom thought she had to send it in as well , but she found out she could keep it . my father died on the second of the month .
536940
I'm going to participate in a Memorial Day remembrance at the Madison County (New York) Veterans Memorial in Wampsville at 2:00 PM today.  Then tomorrow, I'll preside over my American Legion Post's memorial service.  Tomorrow IS the real, the original date upon which Memorial Day traditionally falls.  My Post does not agree with the idea of observing that special day on any other date.  Doing so, in our view, marginalizes the immense sacrifice of the families who lost their loved ones in wartime.  We take solace in the fact that, whether it's done on the traditional day or the previous day, at least people are taking notice.
579785
Go see a lawyer IN THE SAME STATE AS YOUR FATHER and explain this situation.  Then hang around your father like a tick on a cold day until he signs a will.\n\nThis is the only good way to protect your mother from poverty or delayed property transfers while she is grieving.  All this should be settled now, in advance, based on the blessing of your father knowing he's going to die as well as about WHEN that's going to happen.\n\nYour mother's grief will be ENORMOUSLY AGGRAVATED if her husband dies without a will ("intestate" is the word for that).
959707
My dad was deployed on a lot of holidays when I was growing up.  My mom invited soldiers over whose family was in the States or somewhere else.  Thanksgiving isn't just about family its about being with friends too, so she just made sure that if anyone didn't have a place to go they were at our house!
194475
Contact a local Veteran's Service Officer.\nIf your deceased husband was a member of a vetera's organization, they usually have someone there that can help you.\nAlso, you can search the Veteran Affairs website, their link is: http://www.va.gov\nThey have a link for survivor benefits.\nGood Luck
960803
Absolutely not.  It is selfish of her to even ask.  Especially with your mother recently widowed.  Making sure you mother is OK through the holidays should be priority; and she should understand that.  I know that the holidays can be the most trying for someone right after they have lost a loved one.  Hold your ground.  Stay where you belong.  I am sure she will get over it.  Good luck and happy holidays!!
1044297
Well Well. \nLooks like your in for a hefty pay cut for your Anti-US Military Propaganda Machine.\nI am surprised that you have not asked everyone to say a little prayer for your departed friend.\nNo the war unfortunately will not be over in a few Months. But with his kind out of the headlines.\nHopefully it should make things a little easier.\nThe US Military got one, I hope they get the rest of them soon.\nI am just worried about how you are dealing with the loss. \nHave a Nice day.
268946
While he is still alive, can't without his permission.  Any information involving insurance between the insurance company and your Dad is confidential.  If you are trying to make plans for when he passes away I would either speak to him about it or talk to whoever is going to be the executor of his estate.
807302
Your mother may have a claim against your father, but you do not. It is a sad thing that your father did not support you, but you have no right to collect from him now that you are an adult!!
371853
email, or ask his mom or wife or family. one of them has to have it, or know who they can ask for it. When my ex was deployed, I got his address as well as a contact person in case anything happened.
749979
I don't think your crazy.........Since he died at a time and place of his own choosing he may have set some of these things up prior to his death......I have known people to do that before they die.......Mom's dying of cancer will buy birthday gifts for their children to be given out at the right time? Just a thought.......The other things you"feel" can be any number of things but I believe he is with you when you need him.....I am sure he was in a lot of pain at he time of his death but I am also sure he loved you. Enjoy your quiet times.............You will heal soon.
834118
If you know he is still in the service, write to the Secretary of the Branch of service and ask.  If there is a family emergency, like the death of a relative, you can work through the Red Cross.  They will probably notify him that you want to contact him, but I don't think he has to.  The letter, or your request, will be forwarded to the senior officer over him and at best, he might get a firm talking to by his commanding officer.  I have seen sailors reamed out for not staying in contact with his mother or father.
1072730
I am so sorry about your grandfather. It is impossible for anyone to give you an exact amount of time he has left. However, if he is being cared for by a hospice agency, then his doctor has determined that he has less than 6 months (give or take - you just never know)\nSome signs of impending death are:\nDecreased eating/drinking\nA decrease in urine output\nExtremities become cool and dark\nirregular breathing pattern\na collection of secretions in the mouth/throat - so that it "rattles"when they breath\nI am sorry I can't give you more specific information - no one can.\nI wish you the best.
410709
The check that was due in the month of the persons death is the only check that can be kept.  Any other checks that have been deposited should be returned.
884485
which civil services member was the deceased person member of ? \nwas it in the army ? postal ? social security ?\nwherever he was getting his retirement check from .that is the company that you need to get in touch with ........look in his papers ,in order to get in touch with them ...\nhave his death certificate .\nyou can look on the internet for the company that was sending his check , there is a place where you can get in touch with them to report a death .\nif you need more help ? come back with more informations and i will try to help you ........
1051639
I am blessed to still have my father but I can empathize with your situation, and I have an idea that could bless you and some other needy folks. There are many dads in hospitals and nursing homes that have lost their daughters, and would welcome contact from anyone on that day. There's probably nothing nicer you could do with your energy and time than arrange to show up at a nursing home with a generic card and some time on your hands, and offer to chat with someone who'd like to be wished a happy Father's Day. They would love to share about their children, and to listen about your day. It could be a celebration of those who've touched your lives and moved on.\n\nBlessings for a *Happy Father's Day,"\n~Tia~\nLive from the big, purple brain\nhttp://advision.webevents.yahoo.com/asktheplanet/brain.html
348460
my mom just died recently and you think weird stuff about like this might be one of them for you. It unfourtanelty is just a coincidence i feel awful for you... having a birthday on the same day your mom passes away. I hope things work out for you