i am 30yrs old and a 24yrs old guy in love with me what should i do. should i go for it? pls help?
613819
Hey,he's over 21,and if he makes you happy.I say..Heck Yeah! Go for it!
345557
Hey age doesn't matter! If the both of you are compatible with each other then go for it! That is what matters the most.
550124
So you are 7 years younger than your man--big deal!  As long as you are both over the legal age to marry--go for it!\nMake sure this is what you both want before taking that next step though--from experience it's a doozy!  If either of you feels like you must get married just because you have children together--DON'T GET MARRIED!!!  That will just make your relationship end badly for you, him and the children!  My parents are 9 years apart in age--married for 33 years now; my grandparents were 15 years apart and married for 17 years (my grandfather died & my grandmother never remarried).  I married a man who was only 1 year older than me--ended badly (we married because we had a child) and I remarried because I was in love with a man who is 5 years older--been together now for 13 years!
129640
If you aren't sure, wait.  If he really loves you, he'll be willing to wait a couple more years.  Your parents are right, the statistics on marriages before 22 are much less promising than if you wait.  The reason for this is not to say that you aren't in love now, but so many people do a lot of growing between 18 and 22.  People can completely change peronalities, life styles, morals, values, and everything in those four short years.  Being married while going to school and going through this transitional time in your life, could put quite a strain on your marriage.  Talk to him, and see if he will wait.  Never go into marriage if you don't know with all your heart that he is the one, and the only one, the one you love with all your heart, who you can imagine spending the rest of your life with, and with no one else.  Good Luck! :)
876899
If you're 30 and she is 10, stay away from her.  However, if you are 70 and she is 50 - go for it, if the feeling is mutual.\n\nIt IS wrong if she is a minor or of immature character.  It is NOT wrong if you are both legal, competent adults in love.   If this is the case, and you love her - I hope she loves you too.\n\nLoves involves a shared life, shared values, mutual respect, and regular communication.
1166685
If you do he is a lucky man.  Age isn't a huge factor in every relationship.  The question is really is this the right guy and the right relationship for you?  A age difference like this will always present some problems but nothing that you can't deal with or predict if your honest with yourselves.  Think it through and don't worry about what others think, do what is right for you.
201978
age gap is not a problem really, but what is your actual age? are you in a stage to understand the difference between love and attraction? affection and passion? if not, Take the advise of the elders.
723131
i dont' think age matters and i think you know deep down if you love someone....it's hard for people to say what you feel but i think you just know....follow your heart and remember you can fall in love more than once in your life so this person can be your first love but maybe not your true love....
270037
Go for it it is love and you need to go for it. This person may be the one, it is worth the chances and fears.
199437
24 is still really young.  He might feel he has a lot more living to do before he settles down.  Are you willing to wait?  That's the true question.  Answer it...
141527
Marriage isn't going to be a magic carpet ride. Wait on the vows. You are both too young. Maintain the relationship, pursue your goals, education whatnot,maybe even live together in a couple of years unless that goes against your beliefs. There is no rush. Besides somewhere between your middle twenties and early thirties your both going to change how you view things, trust me on this. It is better to wait and see if you are still compatible in several years rather than go through the heartbreak of a divorce and possibly have young children that would be dissappointed. It may in the end work out. I know of a couple that has been together since their preteens, now in thier fifties, and still happy. Believe it, it's true! But they only got married after they attended college and secured their positions in the work force.
352635
Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.
282083
Age differences like this can work out, but there will be MANY difficulties and you both will have to be willing to face them together, if you two are both truly in it together, then you can conquer anything.\n\n(P.s. he's single now right? as long he's not married then go for it, you only have one life to lead. Don't do/not do anything that you will regret)\nGood Luck and Take Care
183475
depends on how older he is than u???? Me personnaly i ahve well sorta "loved" guys 8 yrs older than me... so yeh... anyway.. age does not matter when u r in love...\n\nlol... hope dis helped huni...
931349
If you are truly in love, age doesn't matter. Love is too precious to be limited by rules of behaviour. Enjoy yourself.
382974
Age is just a number, and this decision should be yours and yours to make.  Try discussing how you feel with your partner and hear what his response is, if the both of you are happy, then I say enjoy it.  Life is way to short and there are many people in this world who aren't happy with there spouses and significant partners, so I say go for it.  I was with someone who was 18 years my senior and didn't care, we were both very happy but religious differences got in the way and we decided to part ways, so if you are in love and being loved, I say work it out.  Your friends either accept it or you can find other friends who are more tolerant and less judgmental.  Good luck.
533077
This is a situation that takes lots of time and consideration. I know what you mean I'm in the same boat. I'm 23 with 2 kids and I love my husband dearly, but there is one old boyfriend who makes my heart skip a beat but I know that we weren't meant for each other or things would have happened differently. You love your husband, if you didn't you would've left him by now. The only thing that's different now is the new guy. My advice to you is not to tear up a family of 3 years just because the grass looks greener on the other side, because it never is! Women are hopeless romantics and we would do almost anything to be swept off our feet and ride off into the sunset with prince charming on his white horse. But if you were to leave this man of 3 years what would be different with the new one? Three years from now will be the same story. You have to learn how to make things in your current relationship stay fresh and vibrant. You have to keep the flame burning. When a fire starts to die you just add more wood. Not wait till it burns out and then start a new one. Trust me, if both of you work at it and you keep open and honest communication between you and your spouse you will have a relationship that is almost unheard of now a days!