is it posible to fall in luv with another guy after seeing d current 1 for 6 yrs? I'm still in luv wid d 1st 1
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stick with the 1st one, love is not disposable . if you go for the second then you hurt the first which it sounds like you dont want. are you too young to make the move to marriage because of age if so just wait until after your old enough. you'd be marrying him not the mother and after words tell her to mind her own business. later you may find the second one is not the one he seems to be.
641725
Sounds like a delimma...Do what is in your heart.  You can date the new guy while keeping in contact with the old guy.  Just be honest about things.  Sometimes you really like people at first but it fades.  My man I met when I was 13 it was long distance.  We finally hooked up when I was 19 and have been together 16 years.. good luck.  There is no wrong choice
562739
Heck Yeah...have you ever heard of "Love at First Site"!  It sounds like you took time to know this person and that is a good thing.  Congrats if you are really in love and double Cudos' if the love is reciprocated...
191077
Which one of them do you have more FUN with? That's how I'd choose! It really depends on what sort of outcome you're looking for, though. \nIf you are looking to be mutually exclusive, you might want to think about it a little more discriminantly- get to know this new guy and his history more thoroughly- then make your decision.\nI obviously don't know you, but sometimes you can tell a lot about someone's feelings about others, simply by looking at the word choice in their question-- yours indicates that, although the 6 years guy is "great", he might be safe & boring, to you. The way you've presented it, it sounds like you are looking to experience something new...
587911
You need to be honest to the guy you are with and let him go don't lie to him, if you say you love the other guy then go with him, it is obvious you know what you want, don't waste you time and his time by staying with him knowing you do not love him, I hope you make a decision soon. Good Luck
704500
If you value and want to continue your relationship with your girlfriend, you better shift your focus on another guy.  I hope that you can grasp that the notion of "falling in love" comes from the things we say to ourselves about another person and what we perceive about someone else (either imagined or real).  You are really in control of it.  If you have focused on this guy and you have, at present, no other in your life, it is easy to understand how it can happen, especially if you are a person who begins an intimate relationship from a friendship (It is the best situation.).  Trust in the fact that for every person there is more than one individual who is potentially suited for you.\n\nYour feelings of guilt is an internal sign to you that you should not pursue taking this relationship to a different level.  Each of us lives within our own skin; I would advise you to take a path of behavior that you will feel comfortable with yourself.  \n\nUltimately, the bottom line is that if the relationship develops and becomes so powerful between the two of you, no one or nothing will be able to stop the two of you getting together.  If not now, then later down the road.
349704
I've been in that position...many times.You can't dwell on your situation too long because when a guy comes a long who really likes you ,you may miss him.You don't want to miss him do you??????Even if nobody likes you for a while its just a phase.please believe me.I have a wonderful bf who when I met him I was liking another guy.
454460
I did it...8 years ago.  We've been married for the last 7!!!  So, it's ok.  BUT know that once you cross that line, there will be no going back to "the way things were" as friends.  So decide if you like him enough to risk a good friendship before you make your move.  Maybe think about it for awhile before you decide...even if you think you're really, really sure.
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my bf i met on answers. it's going great. other guys i've met online....and we went out for a while. so i'm not opposed to meeting someone online as long as you know in time you'll meet each other. it IS possible to fall in love this way. :)
306358
what?? if you love his friend, than you shouldnt be wanting to be more than friends with this other guy... ur question is a little strange
374567
First off, did you all of a sudden realize the current relationship was unhappy only when your new savior arrived? Or was it already crumbling? If the former is the case, then the fact is you're looking for something new and need a copout. But if the relationship you had was already on its way out, then let that fall completely out and see how the new thing goes. I warn that this may just become a quick fling. Infatuation in rebound over a long-term relationship occurs extremely frequently. But if that's what must be, then let it be. Just understand that you're probably not on the way to a new romance with the sitter's brother, but rather a stepping stone on the way to recovery with the soon-to-be-ex. I hope that if you take this course of action, you do not end up regretting it and realizing you had it so good with the ex and now it's too late because an impulse got you to think you found something that just wasn't there with an old flame.
619640
Thankfully the answer is "NO".  You will find that feeling of "true love" again.  I was raised to believe that there was only one person in the whole world that was right for you.  Every time a relationship broke up I worried, what if he was that one?  I can tell you from experience that you will fall in love again.
76891
This is a hard one. If you love both the same, you cant really tell who is your true love. So what I would do in this situation is stay with the one you are with now. If the first one left you before.. he can definatly leave you again.. making the pain that much worse. Besides you are already with one you love. You wont be leaving anyone but continueing with what fate has brought you.
841439
To be honest with you.  It is not about the choice of the two ladies.  It is you.  What you see in both these women is your ideal partner.  You may not be able to make a choice because whichever one you choose will disappoint you a bit. But having a crush on someone for 6yrs is something to cherish.  Do you feel guilty liking the new lady because you are so familiar with your 6yr crush? To make a choice I would be thankful to know what I want in a partner through meeting these 2 ladies and move on and find her.  If I was to be with one of them I will have feelings for the other as you said, they are pretty close friends.  So they both would always be in my life.  And the same 'what if' would be running in my head.\nLove is something you can't explain in words.  It is a overwhelming feeling that will never die.  It is knowing that you would do anything for that person and that you can picture yourself with them till death.  Love is like sharing with someone happiness, pain, experiences.  Love has no judgment.  You can love many people at the same time but you only fall in love one at a time.
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let's c...sweety it happens in 90% girls who meet guys.u can include me in that.:)\nu feel u'r heart pounding & dreaming about him..ha\nUmmm.U'r right there is a thing like luv at 1st first sight.but..wht i think is "luv" is different from luv at 1st sight cause u don't exactly know that person when u meet him 4 1st time.'Whether he is perfect 4 u or not?'\nget it?\nIf u r in luv that's totally different.If u wanna know about it dear u really gotta fall in real luv.Don't worry u will definitely figure how real luv's gonna b just wait 4 u'r true luv..
796985
follow you heart . it is impossible to love 2 peoples at the same level. so listen to your heart
799159
I know how it feels, I am in a relationship now with the best guy i could ever be with we have been together almost 5 years, and I still find myself wondering about my first love. Me and my first love were together for only 2 and 1/2 years and he was my first everything. I know deep down i still have feelings for him and i always wonder about him. I know i shouldnt be doing that, but i cant help it, i guess he still has some place deep in my heart. As for you i think that you still have a special place in your heart for this guy. Dont let it bother you i think its all part of how special this guy was for you, just be thankful and happy that he is having a great life, and that he is married be happy for him. I am sure that he probably still thinks about you as much as you do him. Maybe you never know what holds in the future. SO dont lose hopes of this guy and dont lose hopes on finding another guy. god only knows whom your soulmate is. I wish the best for you. god bless you