Ex girlfriend is very evasive, what's going on?
600324
She probably is not ready to let you go and knows that after you see her for the last time you will be gone and she does not want that. My suggestion is to just move on because she does not know what she wants right now and until she figures it out then she needs to be by herself but you can wait for her forever. If you guys are met to be together you will.
1165491
Jealousy is a character flaw, I personally think that you are a mature person , whom has moved past  the initial bad feelings, this is a good thing. Your new girlfriend needs an attitude adjustment and a reality check, she is your current love interest. The only reason she told you to break off your relationships with your Exes, was to try to control you.
1065194
Be classy about it.  Do you trust your partner?  If yes, then you have nothing to worry about.  The ex can kick and scream and b**ch all she wants - but all it will succeed in doing is making her stand out as the immature fool that she is.\n\nDon't necessarily take crap - if she blatantly disrespects you a witty quip should quiet her, if not, give your partner a big 'ol kiss on the mouth, whilst hands are wandering over delectable buttocks.\n\nThe other part of my answer is less relevant to the question and more to do with your sanity.  If the ex is to remain a "friend" with your partner, and if your partner truly respects and cares about you, wouldn't you and your partner be well served if your partner firmly outlined boundaries with the ex?  I.e: not drunk dials, no sob stories, no jealousy b.s, etc.  This ex sounds obsessed and I don't know how you can be friends with someone who is still mad for you...and maintain your sanity.  It might be time for the rope to be cut and for you and your partner to move on and leave this head case in the dust.
177914
Probably she got really hurt when you dumped her (girls are quite sensitive).  She's still asking about you because she still can't forget you and perhaps the feeling is still there though she realized now that her ex-bf is much better than you.
299537
Don't mean to be cruel to your ex but the boat has sailed, you've obviously moved on so don't give her an excuse to hold you back. Whether she's playing games to save face, because you were the first to move on, or whether she realises what she's missed I'd do the same for both: Tell her kind but firm that you've moved on and she should too. If you let her outburst achieve anything she could use it more often or feel she has a hold on you, so make sure she knows it isn't going to work. There'll be tears but you're letting her get over you
173315
It might be that she really cares about you,\nbut chances are that she is on the rebound...\nand since you have been "caring" for her for a long time she might use that to have 'someone' in her life until she and x gets back or until something new comes along...\n\nI had a boyfriend for two years, we broke up and in a matter of days i started dateing on of my best guy friends... it didnt last very long coz i realized i was just using him to get over my x
1109569
I would personally address this ex friend of yours and let her know that you are fine with the situation, and her cowering in the other room could make others uncomfortable, not to mention...it does make her look a little childish.  Hopefully that should resolve that particular problem, and if this is the way she acts, then I can see why she is your ex friend.
353095
It might mean that in a previous relationship she had to reach out all the time and it makes her uncomfortable. Also it could  mean that she was raised to believe that a guy is doing all the chasing. A third option could be that she is extremely busy. If her replies are very short and spaced out that might be it.
356911
I think u should expect for her to feel a little jealousy about it.  Just make sure u talk to her and let her know you absolutely have no feelings for your ex whatsoever!  Relationships are about trust, so let her know she can trust you!
80691
The first part I can't help you with.  Perhaps things weren't moving in the direction she wanted them to.  You'd have to ask her.  The second part is that she didn't want reminders.  This tells me that there's something deeply troubling her about your relationship.
713166
No way man. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'll give you a link to go to and read why you shouldn't even be talking to her. If you want any chance of getting her back go no contact. Start dating other woman and let her find out. She'll come crawling back and saying everything you want to hear. Don't buy it. She just wants what she can't have and when she gets it BOOM you mean shyt to her again. There's a 1 in 100000 chance that says she wants you back for the right reasons. Move on. The damage is done. She's damaged goods and you'll never have as healthy relationship as you think. She may say she wants to see you happy in the long run and personally you'll be happier without her. She won't allow you to move on until she's stable in her own life. Don't let her mess with you. And don't even be her friend. Until you are totally over her. Nothing you say or do is going to get her back. I PROMISE. Good luck and find you a new woman. AT CHURCH
1082287
You should have a discussion first with your friend.If she's doing this to you then she's not your friend but your enemy!\nAnd talk to your ex too.Tell him what you feel for him.Maybe he feels the same way.Talking to him is the only way to clear things out...
376422
the fact you are trying to hide it is what shows so obviously...no one can hide true feelings... get a rebound, thats the only way to get over someone. your ex sounds like a jerk!
757051
Just stay out of it...she needs to get a grip. She is intimidated by you ....she knows the truth but just fails to live it. Move on you can do better. What goes around comes around. Don't waste too much time being mad at this.
738314
She might just want to settle her demons with her ex stand by and see. Or maybe she wants to have a 3 way orgy just kidding. Ride out the storm see what happens. Feelings don't lie.
598580
step back. tell her that you don't want to play games, because that's what she's doing.\n\nif you are ex's, then the feelings you are having now may be just because you feel like you are getting a second chance at something that didn't work before. think about why it didn't work out before. maybe you don't want to be with her afterall.\n\nthink about what she's doing now. it sounds like she's trying to play you and her "ex/current/who knows" boyfriend. sounds like she wants it all. or the opposite, she doesn't know what she wants, and that's why you are getting mixed messages.\n\nbreak up with her for now, until she figures out what she wants and she can stick to it. if she wants to be with you, then she ought to cut ties completely with her "ex/current/who knows" boyfriend. don't let yourself be in this relationship as it is now, because it's not good for you.
232681
there's two possibilities... one is you really changed through out these years... maybe you aren;t caring for her enough or you dont talk like you used to... girls can get very sensitive at somethings she thinks its important... try to put it up with her..... try to think what are you missing... the second possibility is that she's cheating on you but she's trying to build up an excuse for a break up sooner...