How do I find out If my boyfriend is cheating on me?
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well what i did i came and tested him by telling a girl that comes here to my school and she called him and said that he had gave her the number in a kick back but you should say that one of his homegurls said that he might need some one so now shes calling him if he fails you could either brake up after that conversation with your friend or keep the relationship knowing he is a complete cheater but if he passes give yourself a patt in the back cause im congradulating you cause you have a wonderful man ( mY man failed me :( but so what im over with him )
573164
if you have sex and then he leaves, if you call him and he never answers, if your always the one buying shit, if he never takes you out. If he's only around when he wants to be there. Girl if you feel like he's using you, your probably right. On the madea movie that woman said how do you know if your man is cheating? Do you think he's cheating YES then he's cheating
712001
I would believe her but like if he ever called you. dont bring it up at first let him know you still love him then when the conversation is cool like yall talkin alot stuff. then just ask him question about cheating not towards him but just to see how he reacts. now if he still dont answer your call then he is embrassed to talk to you and know that you know he cheated on you.
309347
Honestly, if he was cheating you can tell by the smell. He may smell too clean or like he put on an extra dab of cologne. There would always be the last dead give away, his sudden need for "privacy" about his work, or outings at night or afternoons. I think that the best way to know is to flat out ask him. I have never once had a guy try to lie to me about it. Mostly because I give him "the look" if you know what I mean. As for a female cheating, there is always the same common need for sudden privacy in their situations like that. They wil avoid looking directly in the eye and come up with excuses for going places, secret conversations with other men or women, whichever is their preference, and at top most, wearing more make up and dressing up for work more ...provocativly than usual.
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You don't correct a wrong with a wrong!\n\nYou are saying that you 'think' that your  boyfriend is cheating! So you have no hard evidence that he is. Supposing that he isn't and you go out there and take vengeance, what would that make you? You will be the one who is cheating on him.\n\nTalk to him and tell him your fears. If you both want this relationship to move on you will work it out.\n\nIf you have solid proof that he is, be dignified and confront him. Be rational and not a drama queen! \n\nTalk it over. If you can not continue with him after that, break it up with a Coupe de Grace! \n\nIf you are willing to forgive him and give him another chance, be it but make sure he knows that you are really hurt and that because you love him you are willing to give him another chance providing that it is a final chance.\n\nGood Luck!
1115110
Say "are you cheating"?
197843
If you think it, usually your right.  You could try to prove it but you might be wasting your precious time.  Just back off and leave him alone and go your own way......one day he will wake up and say,  what happened to that great thing I had?  Where did she go?  And he will miss you and come looking for you.  But you have to act like you don't care.  If he's cheating on you, he's not treating you nice.
474685
Nah.. your boyfriend is cheating on you.\n\nOr you girlfriend.
308440
Follow him or hire a private detective to follow him.  Check out his cell phone and wallet.  If he is cheating...dump the loser!  Women do have that intuition thing...if you think he is, he probably is!
923075
Ask him upfront and openly. If he gets mad and leaves you for asking that question, he was cheating, so you saved yourself.
779088
yes, let it go. if you really are sure he is, then ask him.  He may deny it, or he may not.  Hacking into his account would show you don't trust him!  And if he finds out he is going to be REALLY mad that you don't!
647357
he is either cheating on you or he thinks you are... you can stick it out or you can not... its really up to you.
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Rather than looking for an Internet site, try this: call the number from a phone that your boyfriend can't link to you. For example, a payphone. \n\nAnd really, if you can't trust enough to let him have some privacy in his social life, you shouldn't be with him. All it's going to do is create havoc on your relationship. Watch the movie "Little Black Book." I speak from personal experience, jealousy can destroy a relationship.\n\n--\n\nAddition: I spent three years with someone who cheated on me in the first year. I could never fully trust him again, whether or not my fears were correct (and they never were after the first time - he never cheated on me again). I finally had to end it after freaking out when he left his phone at my house and I discovered several videos of another girl. After the break-up he broke the news that he wanted to marry me... but I knew I couldn't go through with such a big step in our relationship when every month or so I suspected him of cheating on me again.\n\nMy biggest suggestion to you is to think about what the impact of your suspiscions and fears will have on your relationship, and if you think it is strong enough to withstand it.
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Honestly, there's not going to be a good answer on here.  We don't know your boyfriend.  We don't know what he's inclined to do.  Anyone who answers straight-up, "He's cheating on you," or "It's nothing," is being dishonest, because that person is projecting his/her fears onto your situation.\n\nKeep an eye out for warning signs.  Maybe they are just roommates with no romantic involvement.  But maybe their relationship will evolve past the friendship level.  \n\nIn any case, communication is the key.  Let him know if this bothers you.  He should understand your concerns.  If he blows them off, then it may be for the best, as you'll know what kind of man he is.  After all, if he doesn't respect your feelings about this, then it'll just get worse when a bigger problem comes along.  \n\nDon't nag him, though.  Give him a chance to think things over.  If you come across as the overbearing jealous type, then he'll wonder why the relationship is worth it.  If it is innocuous, then he'll be really insulted.  \n\nIn short, none of us can tell you what it means.  We don't know your boyfriend.  Keep alert and maintain communication.  Let him know that if anything happens with his roommate, you want to know, even if it hurts.  It's better than having a dishonest relationship.
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Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend \nSome men who suspect their girlfriends are cheating may be in denial and refuse to believe it. Well, for all those other men who are willing to seek the truth, check out these signs of a cheating girlfriend: \n\nAfter dating for several years she tells you that she's overweight and has hired a personal trainer \nYou find a charge slip in the waste basket from a nearby motel by mistake. \nYou find a present she says was from her mother. You open the box and find a pair of sexy panties. \nYou come home one day and find a cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes. \nShe's uncharacteristically spending money on new clothes. \nThe phone rings several times within a week and when you pick it up they hang up. \nShe starts acting like a teenager who has a crush on the quarterback. \nYour girlfriend tells you that she's visiting a friend who is sick. This one is a classic, and it works all the time. \nShe says that she loves you, but doesn't act like it. Remember, a person is judged on what they do, not what they say. If your girlfriend exhibits any of these signs it may mean she is cheating on you.\n\nGl\nI hope she isn't it is the worst way for a relationship to die.
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Stop stressing yourself if you don't have proof. If you haven't seen him do it don't worry. Keep your head up cause what happens in the dark ALWAYS come to the light. Believe that, just don't think about it all the time cause then you will start to trip on things that he does and he might not even be cheating. So get the proof first please. Don't give yourself gray hair over a guy that you don't even know if its forever.
558252
well there really is no way to really tell other than a lie detector...but women's intuition is usually right...at least that has been my experience...besides if you think he is lying to you about something serious you probably shouldnt be with him