I've been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs and I will always love him but am i still in love?
594771
I would sit down and take an objective analysis.  If he doesn't move you the way he once did, I wouldn't head down to the jewelers to try on that engagement ring immediately.  I am a complete romantic, and I believe that someone should move your heart completely, and the one that is for you, will.  Try and be fair though, while you're thinking of all the little things he did for you once and doesn't do much anymore, do you do the little things to please him still?  If you want to be with him as a wife, you should talk to him, very honestly and openly, about all the possibilities, including ya'll not getting married.  He should know what's going on instead of being put on trial without a defense.  I hope that everything works out for you both.
1175880
Do you really love HIM, or do you love the fantasy of what he is supposed to be, or what he physically represents as an ideal partner?\nNow the next question is, do you really love & respect yourself?  If he truly understands that he is in an exclusive relationship with you, & he is cheating, then it's time for the both of you to move on, but right now neither of you are ready to be honest with yourselves, & admit it.  No matter how old you are, it's never too late to begin a new & loving relationship, & the 1st  place to look for that relationship is in you.\nAll the best.
596758
Honey, I am 28 yrs. and have been with my fiance for a total of 10 years now. In the beginning, we did have more sex than we do now. How long have you two been together? I totally disagree that it means you are not in love with him. I have more love for my man every year that passes by, even though now we aren't intimate like before. Sure, we love to be with eachother, it's just not the most important thing on our list to do. We have grown to be totally comfortable with that and it doesn't mean there is something wrong...that's my opinion anyways. You should try new and exciting things, even if it is just a laugh with eachother.
951431
If you both really love each other, then I think you should move. Being in love is the best thing that can happen to someone. It just makes every day a little before. So my answer is yes.  :-) and good luck.
274796
You were married, there for it isn't odd that you would still have some fond feelings and good memories.  However I don't think you are in love with him.  I think you are probably just going through some bad stuff in your life and your latching on to some good memories and making more of them that what you should.  Remember, this same guy cheated and lied to you and nothing has changed.  You still deserve better in your life.
336038
I've been asking myself the same question for years, I thought I was in love but wasn't 100% sure.  People would say its the one you would do anything for or always want to be around them.  Well I did all those things and I loved the shawty but I wasn't in love with them.  When I actually fell in love with the right one I knew right away that I was in love and I didn't really need to confirm my feelings with anyone.  So if you are not sure than you are not in love with them, but just love them.  You heart will tell you if you are in love not your mind.\n\nGood luck luv
201050
Love happens regardless of age, ethnic background, religion, status.........It just happens and that's the way it is.\nIf he loves you even after knowing this then no need to wait just get married to him. Also do consider the consequences and if you are ready to go through all the lifes trials together with him then say yes to him. A word of caution though....if you are insecured about his loosing interest in you as you age then there are some issues that you need to resolve beforehand.
538680
whaz ur final destination? \ndo u expect tht this love will turn out to be a marriage?\nthere are many points which u need to consider..like...ur economy status, society, family conditions and last but not the least how is the guy like?\nin times, we think wht we are thinking and analysing is right and everyone seems to be ununderstandable for u and u think tht they are wrong. but the fact is u know everything but u didnt accpet the reality.. reanalyse urself.\n\nin times , we want to stick to the fantasy world just for our pleasure. perhaps the pleasure satisyf's us mentally, physically and emotionally. \n\nif u are enough matured to understand a relation , then u would have never asked this question. so do analyse the terms of the relation and the ppl around u and ur boyfriend and ofcoursed urself.
343198
i don't think you relationship is that intense if he hasn't, but i'm guessing "blindly", more of a "black and white", low passion standard thing. and if he doesn't feel it that's strange, i think. i mean, i think you "should" be in love with someone you've been seeing that long. but, you are in collage and this may just be an extended fling so keep that in mind. but i am strange so i don't know
25145
It might not necessarily be love, but he may have just carved a special place in your heart. I'm married, yet I'll still think about old boyfriends from 10 years old. Not because I don't love my husband, but because - at the time - they were special to me and left an imprint in my life.
90984
Romantic feelings of being "in love" often fade after time. That can be normal. What you need to be asking yourself is --\nDo I love him?\nCan I imagine having this bond with anyone else?\nHow big a part of my life would be gone if he wasn't in it anymore?\nCan I see this man being my husband? Father of my children?\nHow would I feel if he broke up with me? Left me?\nHow would I feel if he cheated on me?\nCan I see myself being with him forever?\nHow does he treat me?\n\nThese kind of questions may help you do some soul searching. Otherwise it just sound slike the "seven year itch".
560747
yes baby this is true love the love which can last for life time  .......i think u must express him ur love gooo on my dear dnt miss this ur ture love is near u knw express it before he goes far away
466302
yes i'm only 16 years old and have been with my man for about 2 years and i'm in love with him i love him more than anything in these world..
424891
If you still love him,tell him the true. Do not make the same mistake I made. I'm been married for seven years, but I still feeling something for my ex-boyfriend. I know isn't love,but maybe butterflies in my stomach. That is strange or not?
119708
Do you still love him?
425360
Go with your heart. I am in a very similiar situation but we are madly in love with one another. If you are questioning whether you should move, you are not yet ready to do so.\n\nYou will know when the time is right.
345574
I have been successful, but I've waited until I felt really right.  There is a differnce between LOVE and INFATUATION.  You might have said "I love you" to a guy, when really you were just still in the infatuation stage.  If you have been with your current boyfriend for almost 2 years, I think it is time for you to say it.  He might just be waiting for you to say it first.  Maybe he feels the same way as you do about saying I love you.  Either say it, or actually TALK to him about it.  Be like "I really feel like I love you, but I don't want to say it and make you uncomfortable.  How do you feel about it?"  Hope this works!