Fiance is Army officer, got ed. delay for grad. school.  Is he considered "in the the Army" while on delay?
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I think it would depend on what he would like to see on the invites. I do think he is officially attached to the military and the title would be okay, but he doesn't have to use it either.
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ask your husbands senior officer or someone at the base you fall under alot of differant categories not scolarships but grants.you don't want bad advice to make you miss free $$$.it's complicated\nwhen i did my son's research we almost got lost in the papers and we're civilians so work with a base counselor good luck, be encouraged, and GOD bless
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I'm an Army woman (10 years) and I married an Army man.  He was a tank commander in the Gulf War.  His father was in WWII.  My brother is also in the Army.  \n\nThe trick to loving an Army man is to understand where he's coming from.  You can't totally understand unless you've been in uniform yourself but you can certainly have an open mind about things that are important to him.\n\nIf he's hard-core, adapt.\n\nIf he's hard-headed, talk with him.\n\nIf he's hard-hearted, give him space and pray for him and you.\n\nIf he's focused only on the mission or the job, then you need to understand that.  \n\nMy man takes a firm stand on things that are important and over the years, we've been able to meet in the middle about a lot of things.  My personal stance is honesty - truth with yourself (no excuses!) and others.  His is dedication - dedication to the task at hand and dedication to the important things of life - like family and himself and home.\n\nDon't mention Jane Fonda to a military man.  \n\nLove him or leave him.  He has a job to do and is looking for a PARTNER - not someone who will hold him back or not encourage him.  And you'll find that if you do this, he'll do the same for you.
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I am in the army and i will contact him thro AKO (army only email) if u email me.  I will tell him to contact you when u leave your email me.  Thank and have a good day.
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being a military wife is not the easiet thing in the world. I definitely give you props! But its alot like any other job hes going to have to be the one to step up and take a stand for himself. there really is nothing that you can do at this point in time. Sit down and have a talk with him and express your feelings to him. Its his job to take care of this himself theres nothing you can do. If hes not willing to do something about it then thats his problem. Dont let his job affect you marriage
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you can't.  besides, that status changes daily, and just because you get sent to a base that isn't due up doesn't mean he won;t get sent IA.\n\nand do NOT go to Ft Drum.  Just as cold as Alaska.  and less pretty in the summer.  \n\nIf you are on EFMP<keep inmind that it only limits places YOU can go, if the need arises, they can and will give your spouse Unacompanied orders.    your condition also will NOT get him out fo a deployment.  trust me.  Mine has deployed several times, and I also have a chronic condition that prevents me from driving.
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While in basic training, there are only three general types of discharges he can even be considered for: Punitive (misbehavior), medical, and what are known as Chapter 11 or Entry Level Performance and Conduct (called chapter 11 because it is the guiding regulation AR 635-200, Chapter 11). A punitive discharge he DOES NOT WANT. They usually come officially characterized as Other Than Honorable or Bad Conduct discharges (these are very bad) and those will haunt him on every job application or back ground check he has to process. Medical is possible and are normally officially declared as General or Honorable (these are very good). The drawback there is first he would have to get hurt real bad (don't want that), and 2nd it seems to take forever to actually get a soldier through this process - he won't be home for a long long time while he waits and the medical community evaluates and tests him. The Chapter 11 can only be applied for under 4 specific grounds: inability, lack of reasonable effort, failure to adapt to the military environment, and minor disciplinary infractions. A Chapter 11 is almost always characterized as a General discharge (not good, but not bad either), so it has no severe long term damage. The biggest blow will be a nearly complete loss of all veterans benefits. HOWEVER, it is critical to know that whichever discharge he applies for, the situation involving him is BONA FIDE (real and not made-up). The Army will investigate and his chain of command will be required to write formal memorandums attesting to the facts. Your husband will more than likely also be required to complete a formal Sworn Statement attesting to whatever issue is prohibiting him from service. If he has no ACTUAL issues, and it is proven, he can be prosecuted. On the other hand, if he truly is unable to adapt or incapable of performing the tasks directed, then a discharge based on AR 635-200, Chapter 11 (I copied a link to this regulation below) is what he needs to file. I am going to be brutally honest here, based on the information you provided, were I his Commanding Officer, I do not believe that he has a legitimate discharge application. So for your sake, I am hoping there is information you have not spoken about that does apply to the regulation. I wish you and yours the best - take this decision VERY seriously - its implication has more than just legal issues: how will your friends react? Your Family? The community? Your Church? Think all that through before acting - just a suggestion.
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Talk to anyone with an Army Knowledge Online (AKO) account to look him up by name. This gives you his official email address and Unit. \n\nIf you don't already know someone in the Army, call a Recruiter and explain your situation..................
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good question and the answer is yes\n\nthis from a former army recruiter / active army
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plain and simple no...you'll have to talk to the courts and if you are on delayed entry they might end your conditional discharge. {they did for me} but like i said i was on delayed entry so i already had the paper work proving that i was enlisted and not saying it to be released before my time. they best place to find out would be a recruiter though ..
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No, it certainly isn't enough to keep a relationship going. You have to have lots of patience and be able to communicate. Communicating certainly is tough right now and that's where the patience comes in. (Patience is also absolutely necessary when it comes to stubborn people as well!) Plus everything going on around us is bringing a lot of confusing feelings into play right now. That's not helping the situation and deployment just complicates matters. You guys are the only ones who will know if you can get through these tough times, but he mostly needs your support right now. He's physically in a world far far away from the life he's used to... and mentally, who knows where?
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I'd really discourage you moving just to be near him. As you said, he'll likely be deployed soon and then you'd be left there by yourself. Since you aren't married you would have limited support and access to base resources. If it is meant to be, your relationship will survive this. If not...at least you will be moving forward in your career.\n\nGood luck.
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What an honor to be married to a man who wants to continue to serve and protect his Country.  Being able to obtain higher eduction during or after his term of enlistment is one of the least benefits we can offer the protectors of our freedom and Country.\n\nYou say you are newlyweds; and, by your own admission, he didn't re-up in the Army because *you* didn't like it.  So, it leads me to believe that you "knew what the job was when you took it."  Perhaps you need to understand that maybe he feels called to do it; that being a protector of his Country is something he sees as his duty.\n\nYou cannot marry a man and hope to change him.  No one should marry with the hopes of changing the other.  If you fell in love with him while he was military, then a huge part of the person you fell in love with was how he believed in himself as a military man.\n\nSounds to me like he tried ~ for your sake.  And now it's time for you to stop acting like a spoiled, entitled princess who makes all the decisions in the family.  Your husband is an adult and can make his decisions independently of you.  At least he consulted with you and tried his best to put all your fears to rest.\n\nShould you threaten to leave him if he does this, it's quite likely he'd be better off with out you.  You come across as a very stifling person; a dream killer, so to speak.  There are a LOT of women out there who would likely burst with pride to have a husband like that.\n\nStand proudly by his side with your head held high and give him all the support you would expect him to give you in any important decision you were making.  If you can't do that, then give the man a break.  You've probably about worn him out by now with shrewish behaviors.\n\nVery, very sad.
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It isn't easy. You really got to love them to wait around but hey what else is there to do right? I mean you get to talk a couple of times a week and swap email. I take it he is deployed or you would be with him if he was just stationed at a base over seas somewhere. Take it from an ex Army man, it isn't easy for either of you and it can get boring and tempting to stray. Try and stay busy if your on post some place there has got to be a lot of other gals just like you waiting so hook up with some of them for someone to talk to they are in the same boat.\nGood Luck!!
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That depends on the Egyptian army rules. Your wedding might have to wait until his term of service is done.
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every soldier is required to have an account on AKO but not before or during basic.  If he is your husband, call the recruiters office he would have gone to, if it is close by, go there and see if you see his picture on the wall, they put new recruits there and put how much money they got for enlisting and school.  it's advertisement i guess oh, and 9 weeks sounds too little for the Army, basic is 11 weeks, and then off to AIT.  he probably didn't do it
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I do not think so, unless they  had left the base to meet with your wife instead of performing their duties.\nOnce they are off duty they can somewhat do what they want.\nIf they want to date someone they can, or sadly in your case be with a married woman. \nYou could report this to his CO, not sure if it will do any good, maybe his CO will have him ordered to stay on the military base