how du  get a gay guy to face the facts?
611706
you tell that hes not intrested in girls\nand that he should nnt hang around with you mabey even throw a rock atthe back of his head
280463
Make sure you don't allow them to know much about you until your sure they are telling the truth...Good Luck..K
406135
just tell him the truth... if you liked a guy and he didnt like you wouldnt you want him to tell you straight up... and not beat around the bush and leaving the other person wondering?
1034097
If you are not gay...politely tell them you are not interested and tha you are not gay..."WHY NOT ASK DON" (the poster above) is gay and is in hiding till someone comes along and gives him what he wants!!! The gayness will come out, HE IS JUST HIDING IN THE GAY SECTION OF YAHOO ANSWERS
465131
You may not be gay, but your actions have now opened a can of worms.  If your friend is a true friend, she wouldn't be spreading rumors.  The best thing you can do is to talk to her and try to straighten it out.  If that doesn't work and the rumors persist, there isn't much you can do except to ignore them.  Ever hear the phrase "The lady doth protest to much"?  The more you try to deny something, the more people will believe it's the truth.\n\nGood luck.
98185
If you have some way of "proving" his deceit, engage him in conversation and see how deep he'll dig his hole before you confront him.  This is best done in a group, or at least with someone else around.  Sometimes you can teach someone like that a lesson, or at least let his peers know of his true colors.
196582
Take the high road each and every time.  If you succumb to these rumors, you will have lost already.  If you come across someone who's acting weird or evasive probably because of these rumors, ask them straight out and persuade them to talk about it ("perhaps you've heard something about me?...) in a non-confrontational manner.  Tell them that you would be more than happy to clear it up and would entertain their queries which you would appreciate because it's something that you could respond to having been said to your face. If you know who started the rumors, you can do this same tactic also.  This usually makes them apologetic because they can't take full frontal frankness.
61492
Just tell him the truth.  I think the best way to do this is start off with a talk.  You tell him how you fell and he will tell you how he fells.  Please don't jump the gun.
16045
it takes a gay to know gay
1027778
If he is gay, the only way to stop him from being gay is to Kill him.  That is the only way.  You might be able to terrorize him into pretending to be straight, but he'll still be gay.\n\nTake this advice or not, but your best option is to simply support him and let him be himself.
110031
It is my thinking that if you have factual data, and have sources to back up your side. Honesty and no embellishment of the issue. Be open listen and respond to the question or questions and be ready to answer the concerns.
848371
Tell him to suck someone's dick and get banged up the jacksy. If he likes it, he's gay.
316661
Test 1\n\nGive a guy a long look - if he starts back "What U lookin' at?" - he's straight.\n\nTest 2\n\nlook him up and down (making sure he sees you do it) and smile - if he smiles back at ya - he may be gay.
690483
tell them you're gay.
13790
I agree that asking would not work.  If you try asking here are some clues that he may be lying.  He says "What" when you ask him.  He asks for more details (what do you know) like "When" or "With who", he takes a longer time to respond (he's thinking of a lie), also it has been my experience that people are actually more calm when they lie, think about it if someone asks you if you did something wrong that you didn't do you'd be like "No Way!" and you'd get more agitated if they persisted.  But if you did do this bad thing you'd be kinda calm/monotone/Homer Simpson-like "No, I didn't do that" and you'd get more nervous if they persisted.  I would try spying on him first and see what you can dig up before you go asking questions that make you look distrustful.
640813
Pick a gay guy then you know he doesn't want to date you. Or someone who has specifically said that they don't find you attractive, though they could be lying.
290394
speak honestly.\n\nExplain the whole truth and how you feel about the issue.\n\nHonesty equals sincerity. There's no other way to look at it.