why is it that every girl i fall in love with doesn't accept my love?
598504
the same reason made you put this question on engineering section
115382
Perhaps you are afraid to commit to someone. And you possibly keep passing these girls by cause you know deep down they arent right for you. When you find the right one, it'll all fall into place.
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If a guy doesn't like/love you for who you are then he isn't worth it! Why would you think about changing yourself, likes or dislikes to have someone fall in love with you? For example...Let's say you pretend to be someone your are not.  You dress, act and look a certain way to attract a guy. Wouldn't he be falling for the girl you created? Therefore, he wouldn't be falling in love with you! Be true to yourself and try to be patient. I'm sure there is someone waiting around the corner!
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You can't fall in love because you have not found the one to fall in love with. I know it seems like it will never come but I rpomise just stick around and the "one" will come around. Sometimes it may seem hopeless but don't give up. When you find the right one falling in love with come naturally and you'll know it. Good luck! Remeber, don't settle for less then your expectations and hang in there. Love will come!
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because lovers get rejected
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for one thing, you don't "get a girl." you earn her trust and love her. maybe that's why you can't "get" one.
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I would be willing to do nothing....Either they accept for who I am or they are not my dream girl. She should love me for who I am and not only what she wants me to be...By me changing something will only give a false sense of love from her...
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When you figure it out let me know.I am kinda' in the same situation.I am in love with a girl who is in love with me,yet she is with someone.
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Girls...guys always take forever to fall in love...
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I guess it's something that ppl hav 2 deal wif..u might probably feel alone,confused..And all you think about is to try to move on but the real thing is, you can't..I went through the same problem too.Fact, I'm actually still stuck!It's hurtful and so confusing realli.It suxs to rejected...Most ppl would say move on...she's not worth it..and realli, she's not. U can't wait for her to accept u..the longer u wait, the deeper u'll go. I mean, she might not feel the same way about u like the way u feel about her. And that's not love. U didn't do anything wrong, it's realli something u hav to accept in life so, at least, try to keep ur mind of her and u may actually realise that there's someone out there which is so much better and will love u like the way u love her...i realli hope this helps..
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Just be yourself. There's no way to make some one fall in love with you. You need to be nice to her. And be willing to be "just friends" because if she doesn't feel the same and you really love her then you will still want to be around her at least as a friend.\n   You may want to wait a while until you express your true feelings for her as well. Make sure that you two know each other pretty well so she won't think you're some sort of stalker weirdo!
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There would be many ladies who may not wish to become serious with you---reason being \nthat they have plenty other men to choose from or \nthey have not reached the maturity level\n\nHonestly, Love is a matter of the Heart and nothing to do with the body---simply nothing could stop you from finding your right partner---I have known such odd couples who seem to be so very compatible\n\nYou Have to overcome your shyness coz only YOU are responsible for not having found your mate---you seem to be a very sensitive human being---what is there to feel disappointed about if some lady rejects your friendship?---why should you hope to succeed in the very first attempt---but you HAVE to try again and again---for if you don't then you will remain alone forever---perhaps you have made yourself unapproachable---you must be so scared of rejection that you give out the signal that you are not interested in women---just loosen up a bit---start with paying compliments---giving out small cards or maybe flowers---take the help of some well meaning friend to convey your interest in a lady\n\nCome on Friend---you HAVE to have a better perspective and a positive attitude---we can all live without many other things, but no one can live without LOVE\n\nBEST OF LUCK !
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Basically, we're screwed up! WE're clingy, dependent and want the fairytale. We always think we can "help" someone and that they will change or what ever. By science, since we as women want to spend so much time with the guy we like, it is normal to eventually come to love that person.Just the act of being around someone, can cause you to fall in love. They actually did a study.
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??? I guess it's something about your personality.  Damn, if I could meet another person that would make me fall in love... xoxo\nHmmm... we're on the same boat but on opposite ends.  I'm a guy that has problems falling in love or even talking to the person everyday.  Why?!?  I like my space, right?  I like my own time.  Maybe I'm not ready because I haven't found anyone worthy of my absolute (EVERYDAY) once a day phone call thing that everyone does.  Therefore, for that reason it is difficult for anyone to see anything going serious with me.  It doesn't bother me.\n\nI'm just saying we're oddly on the same boat but at two different ends.
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learn how to accept things!you cannot after all love every one.People are the way they are you have to accept it .
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I have been asking this question for years and no one has given me a good answer yet. To me it seems that if you fall in love with someone you do accept them for everything that they are weather it be good or bad but the minuet you try to change them your saying you no longer love them for who they are. Too many do manage to change them only to discover that they don't like what they changed to and then wonder where the person was you met and fell in love with. People just don't know when they have a good thing. I'd dying to read other peoples views on this. GREAT QUESTION
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Love and pain come hand in hand. You can't avoid it. Allow yourself to fall, it's the whole point of "falling" in love. They will catch you if they love you in return. It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. It's the only way to live. Push your fear aside and give it your all.