crush has a crush on my friend and not me what should i do?
607518
nothing you can do... Feelings can't be controlled.  You need to back away and let things unfold.  It will be painfull at first, but you never know what may happen.  That relationship may not last, and then he may see you in a different light.  Or you may find someone who sweeps you off your feet.
132737
Tell your friend that you like him and hopefully she will be nice and not push you out of the conversation. Does he know that you like him? If not, you won't know if he likes you if you don't tell him. If he only likes you for a friend it just means that someone better will come along later. Good luck :o)
637409
well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
699096
O god you poor thing this happened to me and the only thing i could do was try and get over him. If your friend likes him and he likes her chances are they goin to get together so you have to decide if you can support them and be happy for them and if not you should tell your best friend how you feel and see what she says.if she nos that if they got together it would hurt you she probably stay away from him. there are loads of lads out there who will love you back so try not to beat yourself up bout it
367410
Well if he likes someone else, then forget him. He's busy. Go find someone who is crazy about you.
392279
tell your friend that you are interested too.  then let him make the moves.  if he likes you then he will make it happen.  just give your friend a heads up first!
297705
stay quiet. or take the chance of losing a friend over a guy. it is your choice!
772328
EVEN I HAD FACED THIS PROB EARLEIR AND I GOT THE CURE FOR THIS FROM YAHOO ANSWERS ONLY !\n\nI'LL TELL U.... GET YOUR EAR CLOSER.....\n\nSTEP1:FIRST I BECAME A GUD FREND(girls love boys with virtues thats for u fool... i am a girl)\n\nSTEP2:BECOME HER BEST FREND\n\nSTEP3:HELP HER WITH HER CRUSH OR BF\n               (dont worry she'll be yours only)\nSTEP4:START IGNORING HER A BIT \n           (this way she will realize your value)\n\nSTEP5: THEN START POURIN OUT ALL YOUR CONCERN FOR HER AND GIVE HER A FEW HINTS REGARDING YOUR CRUSH ON HER\n\nSTEP6: LAST WHEN SHE FALLS IN FOR THIS U MAY PROPOSE HER IN A ROMANTIC WAY!\n\nAFTER ALL THIS I BET SHE'LL BE YOURS\n\nPS-U MAY TRY THIS I AM SURE IT WILL WORK COZ THIS WORKED FOR ME AND NOW MY CRUSH WHO ONCE CALLED ME UNATTRACTIVE IS A LOYAL BF OF MINE SINCE 3 MONTHS!!!
1117881
you're doing the right thing. ask her if she wants people to know who the crush is, else you can keep saying you dont know. i'd count in a friend like you!
534982
find another crush..!
13074
WEll Im a girl so maybe i know your answer. Whenever I like a guy i just act natural and smile whenever he looks at me so he won't notice. So i think she has a crush on you. here is the plan. I think the best way is to make your trusted friend look at her when you are not looking at her. Make him a spy and maybe he'll catch your crush looking at you and maybe blushing or smiling.That's your cue to make your move
928405
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..
95996
well you might want to start talking to them if you arnt there friend but dont jump in to flirting cauz it will make it obviouis. then once u no them enough juss b like who u crushing on or interested in? then if he says noone y say o i no someone who might b interested.. then kidof hint but not so much he noes. have a friend tell him the next day. if you guys are friends write him a note you think of him more than a friend.
749824
You're both adults, so act accordingly! and if you do not intend to act on your "crush", then keep it to yourself!!!
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
398090
well, but it bluntly. if she treasures her CRUSH before her friend, then she is no friend that i would want to have. you either have to give it to her blunt, or give it to her REAL subtle. personally, i would do it blunt. don't let her get to you. \n\nGOOD LUCK!! :)
642007
she may not like ur friend. Dont blame the girls.She may love that guy.