Why would a guy friend of yours will steal your jewlery and keep it in his bedroom and when you see it in his?
612247
He's probably sick. Talk to him about it. Don't let this ruin your friendship. Try to confront him maybe he has a thing for stealing and can't help but do the dirty deed.
1168870
Honestly, there's not going to be a good answer on here.  We don't know your boyfriend.  We don't know what he's inclined to do.  Anyone who answers straight-up, "He's cheating on you," or "It's nothing," is being dishonest, because that person is projecting his/her fears onto your situation.\n\nKeep an eye out for warning signs.  Maybe they are just roommates with no romantic involvement.  But maybe their relationship will evolve past the friendship level.  \n\nIn any case, communication is the key.  Let him know if this bothers you.  He should understand your concerns.  If he blows them off, then it may be for the best, as you'll know what kind of man he is.  After all, if he doesn't respect your feelings about this, then it'll just get worse when a bigger problem comes along.  \n\nDon't nag him, though.  Give him a chance to think things over.  If you come across as the overbearing jealous type, then he'll wonder why the relationship is worth it.  If it is innocuous, then he'll be really insulted.  \n\nIn short, none of us can tell you what it means.  We don't know your boyfriend.  Keep alert and maintain communication.  Let him know that if anything happens with his roommate, you want to know, even if it hurts.  It's better than having a dishonest relationship.
1000419
Id really wanna know what his intentions are...  Its definitely not done out of love, so, Id watch out if I were her!  I wouldnt keep the ring either!
77494
There's a lot of reasons why they might have stolen from you.  If you really believe this is a good person at heart, the reason may be that s/he has low self-esteem or other issues that might cause her/him to be jealous of you.  If you think the person was simply motivated by greed, then s/he certainly isn't a "friend".  \n\nIf you really are concerned, the best way is probably to adderess it directly, based on FACTS about what was taken.  And be careful to express it as genuine concern for whether that person is having other problems that may have led to the theft, not as an accusation, because once the other person's defenses go up, it will be difficult to get through.  Good luck!
783465
Your friend has a dim bulb for a brain.  He likes her, no man gives diamonds to "friends" unless they are GIRLFRIENDS!
204326
If your living with the guy then it is a little bit tasteless on his part to bring home these things.\nI dont think your being jealous, I think your being a normal woman that feels that way when their man is checking that crap out.
894470
A friend cannot be 'stolen' because one person cannot own another. There was nothing wrong with your longtime companion going over to another friend's house.  The question is: Why would she feel it necessary to do it on the sly?  \n\nIs it possible that you were being too possessive and excluding other people from what could become a circle of close friends? \n\nTry widening your horizons.  Different people can bring different perspectives and talents to a friendship.  \n\nAlso remember that true friendship leaves room for tactful and gentle honesty.  Leave an opening for friends to let you know if something's bothering them, and small problems can be worked out before they become big ones and cause the end of relationships.
1182514
i dont really understand what ur saying girl, but why was she stealing in the first place, ask her that before u decide to stay friends with her! or else shell just get u into trouble!
828230
If you think it is her boyfriend, then why not just ask him.  What if it is your Mom or one of her other friends taking her things. You won't know really. And if it is that expensive of items then she should have them locked up in a safe or her door locked.
611605
It is not right of your friend to put you into this position. If you know about it, and don't 'snitch', then you are committing a crime too! This guy has no business involving you in his law breaking.\n\nTell him you don't want to know about this sort of thing and the next time he tells you, you are going to pass the information on to the authorities.
292756
i had a friend like that. its a form of jealousy. they want what they can't have so they try to take what you have. or maybe she had a self-esteem issue.
871739
Sounds like he's playing with both of you. let your friend have this guy and you find someone else. She'll get kicked to the kerb sooner or later...might be what she deserves!
179235
he's making u think ur his g-friend but in reality he's just using u for what ur giving him or for what ur going to give him. and he is prolly doing this because he figures u are young, nieve, vulnerable, and gullable. he's thrown u hints already - by him not labeling u as his g-friend and by avoiding a commitment with u. so u cant be completely mad at him since he's being slightly honest.
695119
Sounds like he may be very unconfident in himself, making sure your not sneaking around behind his back, some men are just naturally like that, may not be obbsession could just be jealousy, and hes worried about losing you.
221390
well i think if a married man cheat on his wife  he will cheat in his business he will steal, be bribed  and do them all. why? because if he cheated for sex (his pleasure)  he will cheat for money (pleasure too)do u like to have relation with a thief,,or criminal?\ni had a business partner once and i knew that he is cheating on his wife,,i broke the partnership as i could not trust him , if he does this to his family  why not to me and i am a stranger for him...\nBesides a woman who has relation withsomeone who is not hers, like a woman who grab a dress from a shopand does not pay for it  (because she does not afford it  or too lazy to work to afford it  , r u that kind  sorry)
869412
he could be hiding you a lot of things!!! thats what i see in your problem, talk to him about it and ask him questions about how long or why didnt he tell u before and tell him that if hes hiding something from u, that u prefer him to tell u in that moment otherwise u will have to break up with him for not been honest, if retationships are about honesty, loyalty and love he shouldnt care of what u will think of it because u guys are in love, right?
507885
Return it back to him. No stranger is foolish, and if u cant reason out why he is doing it, then he may be dangerous....Stay away from things u cant understand...