why is my very best friends name always saying shes online but she never talks to me?
605792
i amm your best friend i would never ever ignore you, as u mean to much to me... we.ve been along ways jennifer together, i would never ignore you, you mean more to me then any thing else here and you know that... and for goodness sake , quit thinking the worst of me.... and for the person who put we r gay, get bent
649302
have you been replying back to your friend? sometimes a lack of communication can lead to this.  send an email to your friend to see what's up.\n\n(btw, i believe there is an other topic for friend issues. just for future reference)
1175001
Report to her parents.\n\nHow can you don't know your friend's address?  What kind of a friend are you anyways?  If only an online friends...so what there are others you will meet.
642194
well maybe that is why she didn't tell you. She knows you enough to know that you wouldn't approve. But if she was truly your bestfriend it seems like she would tell you everything. Maybe your husband is her bestfriend.
214109
Sounds like this is a one-sided friendship. Is your friend jealous of your other friends? Maybe he/she is insecure or envious of you because you have other friends. There must be something you like about this person since you have remained friends for over 10 years. Has he/she always been this way? Or is it something that is recent?  If it is more recent your friend may have a valid point. We all go through changes and unfortunately we cannot always go in the same direction as our friends. We can only hope that our friends can take a back seat while we are growing. And if the friendship is meant to be it will be there when we return to earth. If your friend has always been like this, I would say it is time to reevaluate your friendship with her. Sounds like she is not the kind of friend you want to keep.\n\nI have 3 friends that I have known for over 35 years and there were times that we didn't speak or see each other, but we are still the best of friends today.
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If she has been your best friend for a long time, I would encourage you to not make a hasty decision. You can find friends (and even boyfriends) anywhere, but best friends take years to grow. You should do your best to save this friendship before calling it quits.\n\nMy advice is talk to her before you take the final step of "de-friending" her. Explain to her that you've valued her friendship, but that her current behavior isn't excusable. Confront her about her rudeness, and don't be afraid to name specific times and places where she acted like a bee-yotch. She apparently USED to act nice, because otherwise you never would have been friends with her. Remind her of those days. Finally, tell her (in very clear terms) that if she doesn't start acting right, you want nothing to do with her.\n\nThis puts all of the pressure on her, see? If she changes her evil ways, then you've kept your best friend and are better off than before. If she doesn't, at least it isn't your fault that the friendship ended. Anyway, I wish you the best of luck. Hopefully your friend will see the light, but if not... at least the blame will be on her head, not yours.
211524
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
140466
i would talk to her about the situation and see why she has changed.  you can't ignore it, especially if you guys were the bestest of friends.  i mean i would want to know if my friend didn't want to hang out with me anymore, i think i would deserve some sort of explanation.
850481
it looks as if she is very insecure, jealous of you, your clothes, etc. or just plain mean.  figures you will put up with her behavior, attitude, comments.  You don't need a friend like that.  If you have already tried talking to her, she doesn't listen, you've done your part.  Good luck.
340901
I would consider her no longer your friend.  Especially if she is running away from you.  I think she may be jealous of you and your boyfriend. If she can't talk to you and tell you what is going on than I think you need to leave her be and find a new friend.
510543
I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
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My best friend name is LYDWINE. I call her DOULY though. We've been friends since I was three, I'm 24 now. Our relationship is very strong because we have not seen each other for almost seven years because I moved up here but we kept in touch and we're still best friends and we love and appreciate each other
200243
look it is not you . so you need to get  your  friend  to talk to you and ask her why is she doing this OK but just be there 4 her or your friend that is what she need and want OK just be there she need you and try no to be mad ta her or she will not talk to you (i know one of my Friend did the same.) hey if you want some more 411 Emil me at (preppygurl0687@yahoo.com) OK go luck i know what is going on i was there to OK
1111183
hey i have tha same problem... i bugs me really bad.. just talk to that persona and say hey.. i dont wanna be anything more than friends..  *GL
1093866
Your friend may not be around when you are - you friend may have forgotten to change her status to away.  As far as the web cam and mike is concerned, your friend has to give you permission to see her
753352
try emailing... (nah... u never know when she'd check it...)\n\nor try calling other friends to see if they have her #.\n\ngood luck. hope for the best and prepare for the worst. (irony: i dont like that phrase)
1143630
I think you should continue to talk to her, but know your limits when speaking to her. If you keep on talking to her, she will soon realize you are a true friend, and not a ***** like her. Show her that you aren't like her. I also think that if she is talking about you or your bestfriend, she is jealous of you two. Be ahead of the game, don't let her keep you stressing. Don't trip off her she's just another obstacle in life trying to bring others down.