what would u do if u lost a friend and u want 2 talk but he doesnt want 2 talk 2 u???
603923
then forget him. look, who needs friend with sh*tty attitude.
234000
If someone just stops talking to you for no reason then that person was never really a friend in the first place. then to often times we think we haven't offended a person when in fact we have. so to be in the clear ask your friend if he or she has been offended by you or something. that's a start. if that person still ignore you let it go there are more true friends in this world
751015
Howdid you make friends with him in the first place? Ther must have been communication of some kind. Carry on with the same
683824
You mourn.  You remember and cherish the good times you had with him.  You might even do something to honor his memory.  And you wait for time to heal that wound his death made in your heart.  Trust me, the healing will come.
266219
Tell him exactly what you are feeling.\nTell him you would like to still be friends but have concerns.\nTell him why you are concerned & explain quite simply that this can not continue to happen.\nTell him how it makes you feel and how you would NEVER do that to him...\nAfter saying this, listen to his reaction & proceed however you think is best.\nMy guess is things will change for the better, but this is up to you to decide. (If he really was a good friend, give him a chance to redeem himself and make things good again.)
355672
well, i would say talk 2 him, find out what went wrong in the relationship then get 2 kno him better again
1136336
Oh my goodness that is horrible tell him how important he is to you as a friend and doing that will not only upset you but crush you completely . Hang out with him and get to know why would he feel he needs to take those actions . Be his support line or seek higher support this is serious.
1141843
thats kinda sad for u and him. if hes supposed to be ur friend he probably cares about ur feelings
673654
Don't rush things.  He's probably scared of losing a friend.  Give him time to sort his feelings out and then let things take their course naturally.  If it's meant to be it will happen.
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I hope you know your friend well.  Some of us appreciate a friend who is there without being asked.  Some of us prefer to be left alone.\n\nDon't give me that pap about his being in a better place or that he is an angel now.  That doesn't help.  (Been there...)\n\nIt would be nice if three months down the road someone called just to talk.  Don't ask how am I doing...just talk.  Ask if I want to go out for a bite to eat.  Don't bring up the loss unless I start talking about it.  Don't tell me, "You'll feel better if you talk about it."  You don't have a clue.\n\nNo one can know how a mother feels when she loses a child, so don't act like a TV educated psychologist.  Just be there.
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okay...first of all let her be...its hard at first but you will get through it...if you ignore her maybe she will realize what she lost...and if she doesn't then that's her lost ..it hurts but dont bring yourself down ...if you tried to mend things and she didn't then you know she was really not a good Friend....;)
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"I heard of your loss, and I just wanted to offer you and your family my sincerest condolences in your time of grief." \n\nThen just drop it. He may respond, he may not. But your kindness will be noted.\n\nGood luck.
558939
maybe hes giving u hints 2 change sumthin have 1 of ur friends talk 2 him or u can talk 2 him
1035938
You need to talk to your friend ASAP. I think that maybe you feel stupid because you know that by not talking it is only going to end up hurting your relationship with him. If this is a friend that you truly want to keep then call him go out corner him in the hall and make him talk. Do whatever you can to fix this. Tell him how you feel and that no matter what he says he cannot tell you how to feel but you do not want to lose him and that you want to put it behind you. Ask yourself is this arguement going to effect the rest of my life? Will it decide on the type of person that I am to become? Is this a person that I want in my life? If you answer no to the first two and yes to the third then you know what you need to do. Dont lose a potentially great friend and confidant over a misunderstanding. Please go talk to him. You are entitled to your feelings just dont let feelings cloud your judgement.
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option 3. he wasn't much of a friend before, and now that you have relationship baggage and nothing strong platonically to bind you from before, there is no friendship to revive here. too much complication and effort on your part. let him go and make different friends, see different guys, be free!!
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Live a life that is worthy of him being your friend!\n\nNo easy way to get over a loss, but I am sure he would be glad to know he is missed!\n\nHE would not want you to be crippled by this though, so by living a life of honor, people will reflect that to the friends he had. People associate you to the people you are friends with so be a great person and honor his memory!
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he doesnt want to talk to you