iam a male..30yrs old..i find zat iam attracted sexually to men rather zan females..why iam different ?
612742
bcoz ur gay and most others are not....
219820
Well, you're right- you shouldn't be worrying about it. You like who you like, you're attracted to whomever you are attracted to. It's confusing to be a teenager- hormones are a crazy thing. \nI think if you are a lesbian, you probably already know the answer to your own question, honey. On the other hand, if you've always found yourself attracted to boys and you've suddenly been exposed to something NEW (porn, I would assume), that doesn't necessarily mean you are a lesbian and I would caution you NOT to drive yourself insane trying to figure it out. You would certainly NOT be the 1st straight female to be "excited" by those types of images- as there are PLENTY of women who do, who also consider themselves straight.\nIf you have ALWAYS been attracted to other females, perhaps you do have some not-so-straight tendancies. But I wouldn't worry about that TOO much- it's not the end of the world, but it will take some time to get used to it and whether or not you are comfortable enough with it to talk about it to others. \nThe bottom line is to not make too big a deal of it. If you are anxious or nervous about how you feel, my advice would be to stay away from it until you know yourself a little better. Don't add more confusion where it just isn't necessary. Just relax and enjoy being YOURSELF- and finding out who you really are. Your sexual orientation is what it is and you WILL figure it out, probably sooner than you think.  \nIf you think there's anything else I can help you out with, feel free to contact me by clicking on my profile- there's a link you can use to contact any one of us here. Some "answerers" don't have themselves signed up to receive email from others, but mine is set up that way. Best of luck to you!
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Absolutely EVERYONE (straight, gay or bi) is attracted to certain physical and personality characteristics about someone else (male, female or both).  For example, some people like long legs, blond hair, sense of humor, sense of style, etc.\n\nLesbians are no exception - each one is different and only each one can tell you what attracts her to another woman.  I'm sure there are certain things in another person that attracts you, but that doesn't mean the next person would be attracted by the same.\n\nI hope this answers your question.
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I consider myself a normal straight guy, and yes i am attracted to she-males. I`m not attracted to men in any way. I know she-males have penis`s, but I really think I could deal with that, if I ever found myself having sex with one. So I think it is normal for a guy to be attracted to a person who is sexy, attractive and obviously feminine
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I started out the same way. I was attracted to guys. Had boyfriends all thru jr high & highschl. But i always found myself looking at girls, admiring nice a.s.ses and what not. It took a few yrs & for me to snap out of denial and now im a lesbian! Havent been with a man in yrs. & i dont really want 2. Sooo...maybe u just need to wait. You are young.
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I'm sort of gay ..i like gay men but I'm a girl
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bi\n\n\n\ni have found a girl attractive & visualized myself having sex with her but it seems like u have REAL feelings for her especially since ur thinking about her day & night.\n\n\nand if u stop having feelings for men, then ur gay.
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dude your a human being, and your biologically wired to be aroused when you see a member of the opposite sex. So why wouldn't you be aroused when you see them actually performing sex? your human nature is in conflict with your morality. we all go through that. Its a good thing really, otherwise we'd just fuck and eat everything with out thought of the consequences.
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Well if youre really young then maybe you just havent experienced anything with the opposite sex. And so give it time, experience different things... Its kind of hard to say whether you are gay or not if you havent had a taste of life. Once you've had fun with the opposite sex then maybe you'll see that as more pleasurable. Then after that if you still find the same sex attractive.. your bi. I dont know, Im not gay but I really do think you need to try things out before you totally say you are one or the other.
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If you don't like men you are not gay.  Most men, (probably all men if they would just admit it) find pleasure by anal stimulation.  Its perfectly normal for you and a willing partner to explore in the bedroom. Enjoy it!
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I'm not bi but you are attracted to woman but you don't want to be you a relationship with woman. Woman can't give that security that you need. And I'm sorry but woman can't do what a man can do. I think that that you're bi cause it's in right now to be bi, and the guys love woman that's bi.
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well i know im bi-curious not sure if its the same, but i know cuz i want to be with a guy, but i get very attracted to women sometimes, i think its more of a casual thing, but i know its normal for a women to be attracted to the same sex or at least curious, women know what women like! and women are usually better looking they were built to be admired and looked at. when a beautiful woman walks by, everyone looks not just men, even straight women! for your friend, me and my best friend were both curious and got together a few times and it was great felt as if it made our bond closer, but if its only one sided you can tell and should drop it and maybe look else where for your feelings, you dont want to scare her especially when shes a close friend. im sure if you are close enough she might be able to sit and listen to your concerns and maybe even help!
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Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude
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I completely understand where you are coming from and yes it is totally normal.  I had only ever dated guys before and had also never been with a woman...and then one day everything changed.  I met the person I knew I was going to be with for the rest of my life and she happened to be a woman.  I have never been so attracted to anyone in my whole life, both physically and emotionally.  To some people gender may be a factor but for others it is not.  And it also may not necessarily mean that you are bi either...it may just mean that you find certain woman attractive.  For example, there are probably tons of people who find Angelina Jolie absolutely gorgeous, men and women alike, but that does not mean that all of the women who find her attractive are lesbians or even bi.  I would just recommend that you explore the feelings a little bit more to decide if you are attracted to women in general, or if it is strictly appearance based (like with celebrities, etc.)  Hope this helped!
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No, I think it's normal - human beings are programmed to be attracted to one another. Have fun! Lucky you to have two hot guys to choose from. Only problem will be if this continues...and you still can't choose way down the line. In which case, it might be that neither of them is right for you.
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Men get aroused by women of all ages, all shapes and sizes, all colors.  Men get aroused by whatever they believe is attractive.  We often feel guilty about it, especially if the age difference is great, but arousal is the animal in us wanting to spread our genes, and almost completely beyond our ability to control.  We can only control whether we act on those feelings or not.
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no. u should find out if u r still interested in guys first. if u rnt and u r really drawn sexually towards women thats yr biz but look around...there could b yr night in shining armor right round the corner...