HELP! I am a helplessly romantic person and I have no-one to use up my romace ideas!?
595864
true colors? what other way to show your true colors than to be yourself.. right. it would'nt be called "true colors" if we were to tell you what to do... besides. be totally sincere.. then she'll be all over you.. hehe ^_^
136315
I've come to realize that this is the biggest, most unrecognized quandary in dating that I know of:\n\n*** Almost everyone universally agrees that people should be friends before being romantic.\n\n*** And almost everyone universally agrees that love can hapen when you least expect it.\n\nYet....everyone has that deer-in-the-headlights- look when someone, who is a friend, falls in love with them!\n\nlol\n\nIs like the most natural thing that can happen!.....yet no one seems to realize this.\n\n\nDear one...you are probably a very likable, easy-going, appealing to the eye, and of such good hearted type person that the guys can't help but adore you for your qualities. \n\nIt's a natural thing to have happen!\n\nYou're just being yourself...which is the advice I give on here over and over and over and over again.....cuz it's true!  ....lol. Being yourself, being relaxed, being happy, fun, funny, intelligent, caring, and on and on is a sugary spice that cannot help but attract.\n\nYou just unwittingly have done this, and it has done what it DOES.....it worked!\n\nNow, along with this you have to *continue* being a friend to your *friends* and tel them how *you* feel. You can't love everyone....lol. So, you can choose whom you'd like to hang with and try and caringly explain to the others that you love them as a friend....but no more.\n\nThey may be hurt, or disappointed, but that's OK! It happens, and if you do it as a friend, with concern for *them* and their feelings, you will indeed minimize their hurt, and later when they get past it all, they will love you more for having ben such a good person and sweet friend.\n\nA friend we should all be so lucky to have in this world.\n\nYou are rich.....and this is exactly what people mean whe they say....you are rich when you are a good person to them.\n\nNow....go do what you need to do, and I hope all goes well for you.\n\n:)
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sorry, but im exactly like that.\ni guess you could sit down and talk to him, and then tell him how you feel. or you could watch a romantic movie with him, and in the middle of a love scene you could kiss him and tell him you love him. hell respond appropriately\n\nGood luck
44707
Yep, send yourself a valentine. Since you know it can feel bad not getting one, try sending them to some other people also who you think deserve one though you know they might not get any.
636538
Dear Virgo, Your libido is about to melt your side of the equator....you are dreaming of roses and feel colour in everything, as your senses are heightened. Your laughter right now is saving that one thing that you will NOT reveal. no , you have nothing to lose....you can be a real prig, prissy and hypercritical...so what? Get drunk and tell people to get the **** away from you, go to a club, climb up on the stage and sing...yeah what i said..just grab the mike and DO IT!!! sing "twist and shout"..no one can wreck that one....dance on tables....tell people what you REALLY think of them and ask them why you haven't gotten better presents in the past from them. Call the manufacturers on the back of everything in your cupboard and explain that you like or dont like thier product and get FREE coupons.I am a Virgo and guess what? I am kicking up MY heels and doing just this. Let the damn phone ring....it probably isnt for he real you anyway..YOU are coming into your own right now. Join a fan club...or not. forget housework..right now wherever anything ends up is where it belongs. Gardens are or gardeners right? So what if you don't want to do the dishes...get paper plates....eat and veg out. have a slumber party.HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!As far as work goes, cant you just call in well? OK......you want another job..you have JUST finished your first saturn return..and your entire life is different..if you havent moved yet, you will. The job will be up to you and may be one of the best you can have...go for something in radio...and WRITE ffs...ok? Hope this helps!!!!!!
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i know its hard to b accused as not being trustworthy...but dont give up...u need to do something that proves that ur not cheating or wanting to be w/ ne one else...do this when he isnt home so u can plan ahead of time...\n\nmaybe a romantic setting in a house w/ rosepetals everywhere...strawberries on the kitchen table w/ whipped cream in a bowl...a jazzy song playin in the background (or somethin romantic)...maybe candles lit up in a dark room or a fire lit in the fireplace...in the bedroom u can have some candles lit in there 2 w/ petals all over the bed and the scent of vanilla in the air....i think u can take it from here...good luck!!!
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And you are also the one !!!!\n   So pls go ahead ponder over it and then write down the whole 200 words on a piece of paper or write down the points only and practice the explaination...\n Keep Working & Keep smiling..
689320
Maybe you should take your mind off boys and relationships for the moment.\n\nHave you given thoughts to your own career? Set your own priorities right.\n\nLet me share what someone told me when I parted with my first love (so many years ago)\n\n"If you love something, let it go.\nIf it comes back, then it is yours to keep.\nIf it did not come back, it was never yours in the first place"\n\nThink about it. Good luck. :)
52649
Puh-lease...I've never dated, never kissed anyone, none of that and I'm in college.  Don't worry about the boyfriend stuff.  At some point, God'll bring someone to you who really appreciates you for who you are.  Right now, focus on friendships with guys and girls.  The best husbands are best friends, anyway.  :)
422773
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you,cannot explain but your not alone,,hang in there ,someone will come along, probably when your not even expecting it,,love is awfully complicated,,good luck.....
817522
Oh boy, you've got a handfull, don't you?\n\nHere's an idea.  Be a good example.  Show him a romantic gesture.  Make it a good one.  Wait several days.  Don't ask his right away; cause it will come off to planned.  Then challenge him to best what you did for him.  Bet you didn't think of that, now did you?\n\nOh whatever you do must be good too.  Go buy some flower pedals, not Rose pedals (Because you'll take away an easy realization for him to discover.), and create a trail fro the living room to your bedroom.  Walk him down the trail.........\n\nYou can fill in the rest of that scene.\n\nRemember the Golden Rule.  He'll catch on.\n\nAlso go to some romantic movies or watch some videos with him.  Then in a womanly way, drop some hints about what you like in the movie.\n\nThere now, all better!  Go get 'em!\n\nOne more thing, if you aren't getting something that you really want from him then perhaps you need to rethink you're actual involvement.  If you suggest that you both take a break for a while and you date some others then one of two things may occur:  1) You'll cause this guy to rethink what he may lose in you.  2) You may find somebody better.\n\nI'm outta here, babe.
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I think you have wonderful charisma, why would you want to change that? It would be like jumping off a rocket-ship. You will care for your someone special, you will see. Romance is not a thing of the past, yes it still exists and it because of people like you that it does, you believe it to be true and so it is..There is nothing wrong with you.
710071
I found this awesome website with tond of ideas for gifts and romantic ideas and dates and all kinds of things...You should definately check it out!
122991
I have got no valentine.\n\nSo, as ususal, I would just sigh looking at those couples having a wonderful time, and I would again ask God - "Why me is alone?"\n\nOn getting no answer as alwaya, just come back from there, try to concentrate on studies, and get unhappy...telling myself - "Tommorrow is going to be great.."\n\nSo, its better to look at those people having good time, and hope that someday even I will be happy..but dosent make much of difference.
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Sure, Email me at MyOddThoughtss@yahoo.com\n\nOh, and.. take it slow. Love will come and don't be at the ready with the "I love you" from the start. Take your time.
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Wow, that's a complicated problem.  It's going to be hard to try to answer this because I can't see the details when I'm typing.  \n\nYou say that you've been alone for about a month, which is long for you, but that you feel good about it.  Considering that you've been in a lot of unhappy relationships, that's probably understandable.  You sound like you're putting an awful lot of pressure on yourself to find "the one" before it's too late.  Then you take out this pressure, in turn, on your boyfriends.  I think in your concern to hurry up and find someone permanent, you're pushing yourself way too fast into relationships, and trying to stake a claim before you really know that you love them (otherwise, you wouldn't get over them in a couple of weeks...)\n\nHowever, knowing this about yourself isn't necesssarily going to help you change.  You could seek counselling, but that's expensive.  Here's what I would do, when I feel like I'm acting in ways that aren't in my best interest (and believe me, that's pretty often): \n\nFirst, take some more time off from relationships to get your head together.  You sound kind of panicky right now, which is not a good state to be in when you're starting to date somebody.  Try to balance yourself a little.\n\nWhen you are in a relationship next, and you want it to work out, you have to think *all* the time about the consequences of all your actions.  Being a good partner is work.  You can't just trust that you're going to act in a way that is good for you and the other person, you have to think about it.  Every morning, think to yourself, "How would I like this day to go?  Do I want to accomplish anything specific in my relationship?"  If you feel like talking about your partner about long term plans, etc., *stop* first and think:  "How is he going to react to this?  We've been dating for X number of weeks.  Is this an appropriate time to ask this question of him?"  \n\nAt the end of the day, think over what you and your partner have done that day, what conversations you have had.  Did anything upset either of you?  Can you do anything constructive to make it better?  Do you see yourself falling into your old patterns?\n\nI guess what I'm saying is, you can't always trust your instincts to work in your own best interests.  You have to put some control back into your mind.  This may not sound very fun, but it's often what relationships need most.\n\nTake your next relationship slowly.  *Think* about the moves you make before you make them.  Give yourself time to fall in love, without worrying for the moment about the future.  If you try too hard to grab it, it'll slip out of your hands.\n\nI don't know if any of this helps you, it's the advice I would (and have, at times) given myself, and it seems to help.  \n\nGood Luck
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yo!r u a f/m? jus curious. cool. now, i guess u r ready for a girlfriend. n' i think that maibe u should jus go w/ the flow. maibe volunteer. i've heard that u can meet ppl of ur interests wen u volunteer. but remember- if u do- i hope u volunteer for the right reasons. if there's anything else, email me. but otherwise, good luck, n' i'm sure that ur soulmate is out there (if u believe).cool. ciao!