I’m number three, should I try harder?
595880
no......at #3 you can sit back and relax until one and two duke it out. Then rise up the ladder naturally once one has killed off the other. Then you have to get to work. But until then....sit back, kick your feet up and enjoy!
1085593
If u could just work a little harder.........\n\nDont try to succeed, just work hard !
620325
Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?
903393
yeah go for it...keep on fighting until the fight is over or something like that
81136
yes on both counts\nso if it's the second of the 2, then your better best self examine yourself to see why you do "suck" and make improvements so that you do not "suck"
852899
I would go and repeat what you have stated here and present your case anyways . By now you know how painfully slow the act on anything . It's worth a try in spite of your situation , I would go.
786727
When it's 10 against 3.... Eh. Even if you're a good fighter, you won't stand much of a chance against 10 people. \n\nMaybe you should report this, but like you said, this could cause backlash from the kid who wants to get back at you.\nAll the advice I can offer is: stay away from this kid as much as you can, at least until it blows over, and if you can, travel with friends. That way, you're less likely to find yourself into situations like that.\nBut if it comes down to fighting, just give it your all and hurt him as bad as you can. In addition, if you're a big guy and are capable of bench-pressing 210 lbs. I'd think you would have a fair chance against this punk. Alone, of course. If he's with friends, like he was at Walgreen's, I say run. \n\nGood luck.
468637
Go for it and keep playing and make a fool of yourself!  Eventually, you should get the message because everyone will be laughing at you . . . or you'll just figure it out because you aren't winning any games or even coming close.
1169278
I would do all three!  Tell her and be honest now.  Bring it on slowly or fast which ever works better for you and her and then run fast!
671708
If you didn't try the last two times, then you are stuck. Only if she is willing, can you get a chance and you have to do all the work.  Lifestyle changes, behaviour shifts anything she states and you will have to mean it.
361575
asking is a little awkward. i would say just go for it.
1107383
sounds like you want it more then your kid,which is not a good sign because it adds to the pressure to succeed.\n\nYOU ARE DESPRATE SO GIVE UP
772660
Just do it....it will get easier with experience. The first couple of times, it will be hard, but you'll feel really good about yourself when you finally do it.
654758
Yes, life can be tough.For every negative you identify,try to find three positives.
337175
go for it.  unless youve got something else going on or you have something against this person, i say you should go
72349
i think that u sould do it on the third  cuz if u go on the third with a girl that means the she is intreste in u .
186025
You've done it for three years, you've only got one more year to go.  Suck it up and worry about something else.  If you like their company and everything else is great, then you are doing well.  Don't sweat a few phone calls.