I am 34 years and my wife is 25 years.Is the age diff of 9 between a husband and wife too much?
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Thinking now of the age difference is futile,because u've already been married.Sometimes,yes,age does affect the relationship,the ideal difference shld be plus or minus 3-4 yrs.You both have to make it a point to be open and honest in ur communication.To minimise the numbering u cant do anything,but u need to be more tolerant and understanding and accepting with the younger partner,without 'parenting' ur role.
738082
the wife gets this but she is a lot older than you .....
887360
After 36 years of marriage i guess i am just about qualified to answer you. It is a hard road to travel.. believe me!! you have to work at staying married for this long. It is not all sweetness and light as there have been times when i have wanted to just pack up and go but i have a deep sense of responsibility to my family, even though our kids are all grownups now.My wife has no doubt felt the same at times. So the answer is..Think about what you are going to do, before you do it and consider what effect it might have on your other half. Tell her that you love her often and show it!! Flowers and little treats work wonders. Keep your lust alive as sex is important even as you get older. It is the best way of communicating your love for each other. Do not have secrets that might hurt the other one. Be truthful. Make time for each other, hold hands when you walk out together. Sneak a kiss in public. Look after each other and always back each other up. I could go on and on but i am sure that you get the idea. I am 61 and she is 56. We still sleep together  sharing a double bed. Like I say,love, lust, hard work and consideration are important as is being freinds as well.
1039019
my wife was 13 years older than me....she had a problem with it...i didn't, sadly to say we are no longer together...she mistakenly thought i would prefer someone younger.So now i have lost her because of her false way of thinking.
492782
Oh most definitely. By 35 you are so much smarter in life. But wait till you get into your 40's.
1000184
Married 21 years. I love my wife very much. the longer we are together the more I know I was ment to be with her.You have to be commmited to be a good father
768577
age aint nothing but a number, there is a 16 year difference between my husband and i.
189055
my husband is 8 yrs younger than me and we are happy...I hope we always are. Been married for 3 yrs now. He is my second husband. My first was right out of high school, had one kid and 11 yrs of marriage. If you ask me my first husband was immature, cruel and mean and he was 5 yrs older than me....I wouldnt trade my current husband for an older man or any man for that matter. Im 37 and he is 29 and i am so lucky to have that...i guess its different with everyone but just because they are younger doesnt mean they do drugs and alcohol;they can do that too if they are older...
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as long as she doesn't think you're too old, then no.  When my husband and I met, I was 18 and he was almost 27.  At the time I was impressed with how much more mature he was than the guys my own age.
1038393
married at 20-25 and first child 20-22
454764
Give yourself until 40 unless you want kids. At 40 you're more settled in your ways and it'll be a new adventure for the two of you. Would you be marrying for convenience, to have a partner to do things with? If so, I wouldn't get married. Keep your friendship. It'll probably last longer than a marriage.
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I'm married to one!  :)  \n\nHe's 10 years older than me.  Many of my friends are married to men who are 10 or 20 years older.  I'd say that between 10 to 20 year age difference isn't as much when we are more mature.  So a woman 30 years old would seriously consider a 50 year old man.  Especially if he's financially secure (not wealthy but stable) and willing to have a family---ready made (e.g., she already has children) or kids together.
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It don't think that the physical age has anything to do with how many years between a couple. It is the compatibility,common goals and interests, emotional and mental maturity as well as physical attraction that creates the love between a husband and wife.  Age is not relevant, in my opinion.
855337
you mean married a 9 years old girl!!!!\n\nwell the exact age is unknown scholars don't all agree some say 9 some say between 9 and 12 years old.
439264
My hubby was 24 when we got married, I was 22...I think its a good age if you have a job that will take care of both you and your wife. If you have security, then go for it!! 26 is an awesome age, in my opinion....
747289
You may be younger looking, but your brain is not! You will have more in common with a 5 year spread difference! 34 sounds too young frankly.There are lots of ladies near your age who would very good company!
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my husband is 5 years younger than me. and we get along just fine. if you feel you have the capacity to be with an older woman go ahead that means you may be really mature