how do i tell my friend that she stinks without huting her feelings??
610358
friends are able to talk to each other-tell her gently (but don't be rude or crude about it)\nshe'll thank you that you did
918724
talk to her about it and tell her how you feel if she is a real friend she will understand
288727
No problem,she just needs deodorant,try secret or teen spirit.My 13 year old had that problem,I remember thinking "She's not supposed to be stinky at 7."But yes, deodorant is the solution.
585516
Seek professional help. First you need to tell her that she is pretty rude for thinking that you won't tell anyone that she is hurting her bestfriend, (herself). And if your friend is really you. Tell an adult at school or your parents, or a doctor. either way, this is not healthy behaviour and it is disgusting.
917630
just say ..oi!! fatty!!...put some deodorant on u stinky mutt
678751
Tell her the truth. Let her know that the other individual is your friend and that you don't want to talk negatively about anyone. If she can't respect that, she doesn't respect your friendship.
209748
just tell her that she talks way 2 much if she is getting on u nerves
1055442
Ummm...I had to tell my friend that he has really bad B.O.\n\nWell I didn't really tell him. I just bought him a gift set with deodorant an cologne in it for Christmas! He liked it! He didn't stink anymore for a while. It's coming back now though. Oh well, Christmas is just around the corner!
276002
Be the friend that you are and tell her. Just remind her that you care about her and her feelings and would never to anything to break her trust or see her unhappy, you just care for her. It would work for me.
753607
tell her that her bahavior is making you uncomfortable, she doesnt sound like a good friend who should be more considerate of your feelings...
688235
just sort of tell her in an indirect way like if you happen to see someone with low cut pants say "things like these make my skin crawl..."then continue with the conversation telling her how you feel about pubic hair  and too much skin that way you will let her know without hurting her feelings. girls do like straight honest guys but putting a sock in it might just scare her away and since you like her i don't think that would be a very good idea.
647877
Give him a stink yourself and if he comments just bring it up
696162
be straight forward, honest, and tell her straight away, yet round about as well\n\nlook, i think your nice and have a nice (insert vocabulary, or sense of humor, or something of the like) but (insert annoying part) is annoying as hell, and i would appreciate it if you would cut it out/stop it
1096831
Wow!  If you talk like this about a friend, I 'd hate to see how you diss your enemies!  Friends are supposed to be supportive, non-judmental and not broadcast the other friend's weaknesses.  The answer is to just speak privately to her.\n\nBe tactful and tell your friend that you are worried about her and why.  Please do not call her a "whore" or not "good looking enough" as you will hurt her feelings and close her mind to anything constructive you might have to say.  Not to mention that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and your opinion may not be the same as someone else.  You might want to tactfully suggest that she seek counseling to find out why she is on a self-destruct course.  There may be some driving force or emotional issue in her past that you know nothing about.\n\nHowever, she is an adult at 19 and is entitled to make her own choices and mistakes in her life so if she rejects what you say, you have to accept it.
1169924
Just tell her what you think and that you don't like what she's doing.  Tell her that you like her as a friend but thats it and you would appreciate it if she would keep her butt and other body parts out of you/your friend's faces.
235424
tell her it is personal and its for no one to read. just say please do not read my diary I'm not comfortable with anyone reading it. if she is your best friend she will understand
715340
I highly suggest you and her other friend try VERY HARD to work it out so that there isnt any animosity. Good luck