How would you handle a bully at school?
598652
Tell your parents.  Something more serious then detention needs to happen with this kid.  Obviously, all the parents are going to have to demand it.  Maybe they need to go to the school board.\n\nIf you are attacked, defend yourself.  You do not have a choice.
476910
You are being bullied.\nDo not put up with it.\nBy-pass your teacher and go to a senior teacher or the Principal.\nIf it is not easy to get to see either of these people to arrange a meeting, then make a request by letter - you could hand it to the secretary to pass on.\nMake sure you use the word 'bullied' in your request.\nYour parents could help you to sort this out with the school, though you sound strong enough to do it for yourself.\nI hope you solve the problem soon.\n\n**ADDITIONAL**\nIf the school will not help, you could appeal to the Superintendant of Schools for your area. There will probably be a website something like 'www.weymouth.ma.gov/schools'. Do not give in; make a fuss. You might also consider threatening litigation against the school for not protecting you.
145582
Talk to your parents and principals Try to tranfer out if you can .I would go to the principal and tell him your being verbally abused and what's happening in the class He has to investage .When this happened to my son I went to the princapal and then to the school board The teacher was sent to anger mangement.
230439
Honestly, there's not much you can do. You can try to talk to a guidance counselor or teacher, and that might help. The only thing that worked for me when I was in school was ignoring the crap that was said. There was this one girl who bullied me for years and we would consequently bad-mouth each other. Finally, I just quit saying anything about her and let her talk all the trash she wanted to. Our mutual friends realized after a while that she was the one causing all the drama and so even though she was still talking trash about me, our friends just tuned her out when she would do that. And it made me look like the better person. (which, of course, I am... ;) )
1009888
Oh no, its not even close to what you're saying. Here's a few things you should know:\n\n1. There is no such thing as a bully. No one will beat you for your lunch money or anything like that. You might, however have enemies. But that's okay. If you hear someone takl bad about you, just brush it off. If you don't give them attention then they will just stop. I did this with a girl I didn't even know who hated me, and she eventually shut up since I wasn't reacting. he best thign to do is not to care, because if you do then it will cause drama.\n\n2. Friends are extremely important in middle school. Keep the ones you already have but make news ones as well. Make sure to treat everyone with respect. And also watch out for leeches, people who just like you because they mooch off you for money and homework. Help people out if they need a lend, but make sure they pay you back. If they don't stop lending. And let people see your homework, but make sure that if they take they give a little too and help you in a tight spot.\n\n3. Homework may be a little heavier than before, but don't sweat it. Usually it helps to pay attention in class, that way you don't have to study so hard or cram for tests. And make sure to know your classes well and make yuor schedule fit the classes that need the most work and the classes that are easy. Remember: NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES think you can do all your homework before nine when you start at eight. Unless your homework is nothing, then it will take you longer. Also, if you have a light workload and have a project due in awhile make time for that so you won't do an entire project in one night. Those tend to be really bad.\n\nJust be smart and keep your friends. If you're having a tough week make some time for a nap or relaxing. It will help out a lot. The best thing to do is have one long bubble bath every week along with the usual showers. \n\nIt may seem complicated now, but don't sweat the small stuff. It comes naturally after a month or two.
286297
if this really bothers u, transfer her to the other school.  u cant really blame the principal for bullies but if she didnt do anything about it then u can report her to the department fo education.  but u can always try to talking to her again.
509838
Yes, it's seen as the same as crying to mommy. Too bad the school administrators don't do anything to help the situation.\n\nIf the bullies are on the school's sports teams, forget it. Nothing will happen to them. This is the case even in middle school.\n\nA good old-fashioned fight after school is the way to go in this case.
761509
Stand up to them and show them that you will not back down and let them bully you. When they call you names, call them names too. When they throw things at you, throw things right back at them. Whatever their doing to you, you make their life a living hell also. If they see fear in you then they will continue to bully you this way. It doesn't matter that it's more of them and just you. You make them see that yow will not let them ruin you. Stand up for yourself and these girls will know not to mess with you anymore.
791828
Stand up for yourself. No one deserves to be picked on. Let her no that you don't like it. If that doesn't work talk to someone you can trust and ask what for their advice. Like a parent, good friend, or counselor. Good luck and remember people who are bullies are just jealous people.
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I myself had these situation before.Here what I did \n1.I ask my child who is the Bully?ASK Your kid every detail\nand write it down.\n2. Contact the teacher and Principal and communicate with both at the same time.\n3.Talk to other parents and see how many time this boy or girl attack other children.\n4.I went to the Principal and file a paper with her or him.\n5.Give the Principal a chance to act.Then if not go to the school District and tell the superintendent and see if he or she wants to stop.If not Call the attorney and One PAPER FROM THE LAWYER WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE.\nMAKE SURE YOU TEACH YOU CHILD ABOUT BULLY.\n6.ADVOCATE EVERYONE IN YOUR CHILD CLASSROOM ABOUT BULLY KID.MAKE SURE YOU CAN VISIT YOUR CHILD OFTEN ESPECILLY BREAK TIME AND LUNCH HOUR.
705447
Tell him that you would appreciate it if he didn't publicly humiliate you and that you are simply doing your work to the best of your ability. I'm assuming you are in high school, and high school teaches sometimes will try to intimidate students if confronted. Don't let him push you around, stand your ground and speak to school administrators if he continues to give you trouble. Any further actions that he takes in an effort to embarass you would constitute harassment and school officials need to step in. This is actually a serious matter and should be handled as such.\n\nGood luck handling this. Just be confident in yourself and don't let him talk down to you.
515754
Tell someone important in your school -- head teacher or something--\n\nIf this fails just report the bloke and your details to the police - they will definitly chase it up as this is happening within a school.\n\nmaybe if possible find an adult that will giv the bloke a slap And death threat if he continues messing with children.\n\nMost adults with any 'guts' will confront this person.\n\nI would surely be on his case.\n\nkind regards -- good luck
174576
Tell your parents.  No one deserves to be hurt like that.  Your parents will most likely talk to his parents.  And if his parents are little stupid babies about it, then they are probably the cause of their son's behavior.  Now, see, if this was a girl bothering you, it would probably be because she would like you.  But in this case, the bully is a rich snob that don't now squat that's a boy.  Ask him why the heck he does this to you, and I just bet he'll say " Cuz it's fun."  If he says that, tell him it's not for you and that you're seriously bothered.  He most likely won't listen, so tell people that will listen.  Weather it's the school counselor, or your parents, just anyone who will take charge of the situation.  The best of luck to ya!
1107302
Keep him guessing...  =)\n\nJust kidding.  If evil ones who hurt others are treated with generosity, some may react well, but others who are bullies will take that as a license to abuse.  So, use wisdom.  My personal rule is give someone three chances.  AFTER THAT go after them, so they remember never ever to repeat.
605279
Unfortunately, having to interact with persons that you do not like is good training for the "real world".  We all have to work, at some time, with someone that we do not want to work with.  The best way to deal with such a person is to treat them with kindness.  If he's looking at you in a threatening way, then smile, and say "How's it going, Man!" and then go on about your business.  If he insults you, then say something like "Hmmm.  I see where you're coming from!" then go on about your business.  In other words, don't feed the fire, and by being "cooperative" you will confuse him when he does not get the reaction that he expected.  On the other hand, if he is threatening you with physical harm, then do not walk away but look him dead in the eye and tell him to "lay off".  Hold your ground, and your eye contact.  Most bullies will run when confronted with determined opposition.  And do alert your teacher or principal if you feel that you are in real danger.
783876
At all times keep a third person involved and informed. Keep a running record, like a diary, of time, place, what happened and show Principal each day if you must. Stay safe. Never speak to the creepy guy directly or alone. Do not make eye contact. If Principal does not keep you safe or listen to you, tell your parents or a school counselor or a favorite teacher. They should tell him privately that looks, words, contact is, starting now, illegal and a rule breaker where he is concerned. Do not be bullied and do not, under any circumstances talk to or look at this person. Do not send double messages  like "stay away" but then smiling at him because you feel sorry for him or because you have felt safe for a minute. Send only one message to him via your actions and that is, stay away, you do not exist, I will tell on you everytime, if you can't take "no" for an answer it is because you are not thinking about me but only thinking about yourself and you are glaring at me because I said "no" to you and you think everyone should say yes to you. Normal people can take no for an answer and normal people report abuse every time. Normal people say "no"..."no, leave me alone" etc. Keep being real, keep telling, keep listening to yourself. Tell everyone. They will observe too that he has creepy behavior. Again, never speak to this person. It would be a double message, a mixed message of leave me alone and yet I still talk to you. No. Do not speak to him ever. He will take that little courtesy and think that you like him or that he can control you. Keep being yourself. You know what to do. Tell and stay away from him. Do not be polite. he will use your politeness against you. Do not be flattered by his attention. Something is wrong with him. Stay away.
467656
girl i have 2 boyz 11&3 and let me tell u i talk to my big son on a regular bout self-love and self-awareness, we talk all the time bout the kids at school, i even left work earlier so i can meet the kids he hang out wit at lunch (thou my boss wasn;'t happy but u no wat my children come first) if he was being bullied i would b up at that school so fast i would want to meet wit the teacher the princapal the parents and let them no i don't take this lightly, but i think the best thing is to try and aviod it from happening, get involed wit school activise from the start let the children in the school no who u r and the chances of ur child gettin bullied is next to none, don't b a chicken bout it thou do wat ever u have to do to mek sure ur child is safe even if that mean calling the police, DON'T TEK IT LIGHTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it will in the long run mess up how ur child feels bout him/herself and that alone will lead them to stray!!!!!!!!!!!!