best friends lovers?!?!?!?
611276
You are not her friend if you are trying to steal her man! There is no way that you can still be friends with her and take her man.  And you call yourself her best friend......that's wrong on so many levels.  I hope she whoop yo a*s*s
115058
Well..if it was me i wouldn't go out with my best friends bf, cause it just wrong. No matter how hot the guy is. And plus (this is an old saying but who cares? xD) Theres pletty fish in the sea..meh..i guess you could not ingore him though just if things starts getting back to flirting and more than flirting, then i subject to stop with the flirting if it gets to far (hopefully that might answer your question.. >.>'')
426449
By what your saying, it's obvious that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. If he is your boyfriend then why is he kissing your best friend and even better why is your so called best friend kissing him. I think you need to drop both of them.
473310
I think that deep down that you truly love each other and want to be with each other.. just give it a shot.. your best friends already.. so go for it!
1054521
Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to change the way his best friend feels - and the worst thing you could do is try to come between them.  \n\nI'm sure that she does have strong feelings for him because that's what happens when you are best friends with someone and you really care about him.  This doesn't mean that she's in love with him though.  Love requires giving and receiving and, if he is in a relationship with you, it's clear that he is not returning her feelings for him.  This has probably only magnified her "feelings" for him because we always want what we can't have.\n\nI would suggest continuing your relationship with him as normal.  It is probably quite painful for her to see the two of you together and she is probably scared that you will take his friendship away from her.  If you make her feel included and let them continue their friendship as they always have, she will realise you are not a threat and will respect your time with him in the same way.  \n\nJust keep in mind that he sees her as a friend and he always has.  Being in a relationship with you will not suddenly make him believe that he loves her.  If you trust him, don't get jealous and don't try to compete with her, he will appreciate you all the more and realise he would be silly to lose you.
717229
There is nothing wrong with loving your best friend and he being another guy. Or are you saying you want to be in a relationship with him? If that is the case then...Is you guy friend gay? You need to decide if your friendship is strong enough to handle that kind of question. If you two are best friends you should know what his sexual orientation is. If you are "best friends" you should be able to tell him anything right...
19082
no, but first you should talk to your best friend about this.tell him/her that you really like his/her brother and if ever it didn't work out, tell your best friend that it should not affect your friendship.goodluck.:)
522944
Its ok to fall in love with your best friend. I think it can possibly make the relationship stronger because it already has a foundation. I married my best friend....
790912
Hi there,\nIt sounds like your best friend is important to you...you know...there are alot of hot brunette's out there...if she was not a nice girl to your best friend then she will not be a nice girl to you...you like your best friend most likely because you share the same interests and points of view in life or at least like to debate them...you can use your best friend...even though that doesn't sound nice...as a stepping stone for you...if he doesn't like her then probably you wouldn't either...anyway...this advice is my best shot at your problem...hope it helps..good luck.
393815
I have been in this situation, and it is very hard to deal with, esp if you were into the guy before he got together with your friend!\n\nAll I can say is keep your feelings buried for now - it wouldnt be any good to let either of them in on houw you feel, because that would just ruin your friendships. Who knows, given time you may move on, meet the guy of your dreams and suddenly all feelings for your friend's guy will be out the window (it happened for me!). Otherwise, it may not work out between the two of them, in which case ONCE THE DUST HAS SETTLED (its important to wait until it is well and truly over for both of them, or someone will end up hurt) you will be free to see how he feels about you. \n\nIf you do end up dating him though, make sure your friend is okay with the idea, as I have also been in the position where my ex ended up dating two of my friends - weirdly enough, I was fine about it when he dated my best friend soon after we broke up, in fact I set them up, but by the time he dated the other friend a good while later, it drove me mad seeing them together, and it made me realise I wasn't over him at all (but thats a whole other story!).\n\nThe last thing I will say though - while I repeat it woud be a bad idea to tell either of them about your feelings right now, one thing that really helped me through everything (both being the one with feelings for my friend's guy and seeing my ex date my friends) was having another friend whom I trusted completely and who knew everyone concerned but wasn't part of the group so much. I was able to tell him everything that was going on in my head and getting my feelings out really helped me to get over them - keeping your feelings to yourself with no outlet will not help you move on, it will only intensify them. So tell someone whom you trust not to blab, even if its only your diary!!!\n\nGood luck, and if you need a chat, get in touch any time!\n\nJoji x
295672
Yes you can lose your heart on your best friend. But sometimes it works out and other times it doesen't. To me I wouldn't do it cause it will be hard to get that friendship back the way it was before. Example is Dawson and Joey. Remember she didn't choose her best friend in the end.
1129641
If he's your best guy friend ... you already know you like each other.  It's workin' out just great the way they are.  Don't rush it.  Things will take care of themselves.
599036
Your best friend is'nt dating your boyfriend so why does it matter.  You would have a problem if your best friend fancied your boyfriend.
925853
Wow, ok first thing is the boyfriend probably has a right to be jealous...if you and your best friend are as close as it sounds, I'd be jealous too. You need to step back a little bit, they are in a relationship and you should keep the friendship boundaries in tack. Dont over step them. Also, if you feel your best friend looks at you a little differently then he should...talk to him about it, honestly, if he is your best friend you should be able to talk to him about anything. Keep in mind, he is taken and you have to watch it when your hanging around him....best friends last forever, but when someone else is involved things get messy and the best thing for you to do is stay his best friend....emphasize on Friend. If he wants to pursue more with you then he will do the right thing, if not...then let him and his boyfriend be in a relationship. Good Luck, I hope this helped a little
427793
If he is your best friend then you should be open to telling him anything. Let him know how you feel about him and he should be okay with that. Maybe throw some hints out there that you have slight feelings like that for him and ask him about when he tells you he loves you.. does he mean he "really" loves you or "just as friends" loves you!? You have to find out what his feelings are to be able to decide really what you should do!\n\nThey do say that the one you are supposed to be with is going to be your best friend. \n\nGood luck and I hope this turns out being the way you want it to be!
365734
Well, is this guy worth loosing your best friend...never date someone that your friend has!
213658
I know what your going through because i still am im in love with my best friend and before you decide to tell him or not to just relize it sticks with you dont tell him  that your in love with him if its just a crush because it could ruin your friendship maybe not ruin but change it thats how mine is with my friend now  i told them how i felt and was told me they didnt like me as more than a friend,im not discourageing it i think that if you really like him and its not just a crush that  it will have  ruined the friendship even more because when your in love you never just want to be friends cuz it hurts so remember either way you choose if you dont tell him you know youll regret it if he felt the same way about you.Good Luck