well i have not kissed a guy..im afraid to i dont want to mess up?
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Well, I got kissed when I was three. Then the next time I saw him he spit on me, so I'm probably not the best one to get advice from. Google "kissing how to" or "kissing advice" or something. I've personally never tried this site, so I don't know how good it is, but   http://www.kissing.com/
136993
i know exactly where you are coming from.  remember, us guys like girlfriends.  for the longest time i was in the same situation as you (up until a few months ago).  i never did get the courage - she told my friend who told me.  if you really think you cant ask him with the fear of rejection you could ask a friend of him and you to ask him casualy if he would go out with you.  hope i helped - goodluck
856752
well if you guys talked before i wouldnt be so afraid to come out and take the first step, try texting him and see what hes doing over the weekend you dont have to come out and "ask him out" just see what hes doing get him talking to you again and see what happends thats  my advice
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when i had my first 'real' kiss i was told that i was a good kisser. you will never know until you just go for it. If u are so afraid then i suggest you take it slow, start with a friendly kiss. just a tip...don't think so much about whether it'll be a bad kiss or a good one just go slowly til you're comfortable, don't think about it too much. If he is a decent guy he'll take it slowly with you or even lead by example. hope that helps :-)
1032800
I would not rush into anything that you are not comfortable with. If it doesn't feel right don't do it. Later you might change you mind. I wish you the best. Slow it down and think about it.
939199
I am 18. I am a male. I have never had a girlfriend. And I have never been kissed. There is nothing wrong. There have been plenty of times when I could have kissed someone, but chose not to. To me, I feel that I should wait for the right moment, the right person, as you always remember your first time, such as the first time you rode a bike, first time you tied your shoe laces, first day at school. It is something special, something that should mean something. \nBut that is my opinion.\n:)\nEmail me.
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You say that as though you are ancient! I would not worry about not having a boyfriend at the moment. You are still young, after all. Even shy girls find a guy in the end so don't worry about being left on the shelf - your time will come!\n\nTo prepare yourself for a future of dating, get to know yourself. Know your likes and dislikes. Think about how you feel about things. It will sound strange but if you give everyday situations some thought and know how you feel about things, that is a great way to maintain a conversation - with a boy or a girl. Practice your conversational skills. Think about the facade you present to others. Maybe boys don't hit on you because you are so pretty. So maybe you should think about how you make yourself more approachable.\n\nAn engaging personality is worth more than looks. If you can work on your self confidence as well as your conversational skills, you are more likely to hook a boy's attention - and maintain it.\n\nGood luck!
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I would just do kiss him when the time seems right...It just doesnt seem right to ask...But a question like "would you feel comfortable kissing me" might be a good question or instead of saying me you could say "a girl you just met" or something like that...
309154
try arranging to 'run into him" kinda. find out someplace you know he might be and try to show up at the same time. " oh, hey. what are you up to, i know it's been a minute since i said what's up, but, um, what's up ?" just try to be confident, don't be too nervous or you'l fer sure slip on the dufus rag. good luck, man-and remeber this-no one is out of anyone's league. I don't know what you look like, and it doesn't even matter. if YOU believe in you, most everyone else will, too. If YOU do evrything you can to FEEL attractive, most people will think that you are, too.i hope you rope yer cowboy, hun. good luck.
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umm....well....i dont really know. havent been kissed.
785105
Hey stop being silly.So what if you havent kissed a guy yet?? Big Deal ! I think you just being paranoid.There are so many beautiful things to do.Just dont look at all the guys in that way.Wait for your love to arrive.Trust me... first kiss with your love is SO MUCH MORE SPECIAL than with anybody else.And as far as the kiss is concerned if the guy really loves you then he wont care how you kiss...its the amount of heart and love you put in it tht makes it special.\n\nAnd btw, all guys wanna kiss girls !!Guys are alwyas ready to kiss!\n\nchill yaar im 19 and still havent kissed and guess wat?? i dont care.. i dont mind waiting for tht perfect little thing to arrive.Cuz i know for sure it will be special.a first kiss is wat most people cherish forever so its better if its with sum1 yu love right?? you mite think tht im soundin a bit like grown up people but i have realised that its true.and if you fall in love with sum1 REALLY at this age then maybe its hormones so wait.when you are 17 and still love him and picture yourself with him in good and bad times..................HE IS THE ONE!!! GO KISS HIM AND YOU WILL DEFINITELY CHERISH THAT KISS FOREVER.\n\nBest of luck Tamika!!
690907
youre going to make it, dont stress out over the little things, youre the one thats going to end up on top so just enjoy life.\n\noh, and go ahead and dont do your hair that way and DONT date that one guy...
86855
Yes, do it. Get it over with. The longer you wait, the more nervous you will get, and the more of a chance they'll get snatched by someone else. Besides, what's the worst that could happen, you'll be rejected? Any end is better than an unresolved feeling.
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I agree with everyone else, trust your feelings.  There is nothing wrong with feeling afraid to kiss someone. Perhaps you really do like the guy, but deep down inside, you just aren't ready for that special kiss and it could just be nerves from really liking the guy. Maybe you feel nervous about whether or not you will be a good kisser.  \nIf you really like someone, you want to make a good impression. \n\nIt will come to you if it is met to be. ;) Don't worry about the romantic stuff yet, have fun, get to know each other. \nRemember it is good to not get emotionally attatched right away because if it doesn't work out, it will not be as painful to let go ;)
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why are you such worried about that .. give yourself the full chance to try and fail .. that;s the real experience .. and that 's how you will reach the right soulmate .. but never waste your time waitng for the perfect .. keep trying keep enjoying what you have. and be yourself .. avoid the mistust or the cautious pratice in love.. it immediately kills the pleaure and lead to unhappy love.. \nthat's the trap many women fall in when they start to follow their mistrusting feelings about their lovers and themselves .. \nYou have a precious heart so never surrender that being afraid of romance or the fear to be easy to guys .. \n\nthis will never mean to abuse yourself or to let others maipulate you .. iam just trying to let your real experience grow in a natural way..
290777
Well im in the same situation well sort of anyway except im a guy and 21 . Basicly im not gay and would like a chick but at the same time not botherd and dont really have any interest at all .... wierd i know thats what everybody says .Im thinking maybee you have some issues that you need to sort out before you worry about other people . Maybee you have heard too much negative stuff about guys and have being put off or maybee not and you are just not ready yet . I would say to sit down with a piece of paper and write down reasons for having a geeza and reasons why not and then way it up and decide wheather you think its worthit or maybee not . I wish ya luck and try to let things flow .
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I am I never had sex I never even kissed a guy I run scraed at the mearest hint of intamacy an therfore have reached 35 an am alone an a virgin so just relax when time is right an guy is right dont let anything stop u