i want to have a lover but i don't know any thing before. So what can i do? I cann't continue that way.
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well u are probably @ d age n need someone so go n find or seek a lover she is waitin 4 u
705143
i was in the SAME situation recently! SERIOUSLY just have some fun together! A relationship doesn't have to be based on Sex! Are you two passionate with each other or get butterflys around each other? then you are more than friends....if not they you are JUST friends!
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ANYONE CAN LOVE YOU BUT YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST...SOMEONE YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW MIGHT LOVE YOU BUT MOST LIKELY LOVE IS NOT GOING TO FALL IN YOUR LAP...GO OUT, MEET NEW PEOPLE, START A FRIENDSHIP WITH SOMEONE NEW AND MAYBE YOUR LIFE WILL TAKE AN EXCITING TURN...
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first of all there is nothing wrong with you. you just arent ready to do what you want to yet. give yourself time. dont let peer pressure or even self pressure push you into something you dont really want. when the time is right and the partner is right then it will happen the way it is meant to.
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Y u put this staff under pressure. Remember that you are treasured and loved. \n\nDon go down with those pervert.\n\nIf u did already lose it, who care!? Live for your real happiness, not for your virgin. When someone love u, they hardly ask about your virginity.\n\nLady is the most treasure in this world. Retain your value and quality of life. Good luck!
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Do not lose your virginity with a stranger--you can only lose it once--make sure it is someone whom you love and can reciprocate that love back to you when the time is right.\n\nWhy not wait until marriage?
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Go on with your life as if nothing were the matter.\n\nThis is really hard -- be courteous and pleasant and non-judgmental with your former lover.\n\nAs soon as you can, open your eyes to new opportunities and find a new love.
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it seems you also like him and want to have sex with him. otherwise this question could not have arrieved.\n\nforget everything and enjoy it. proceed further
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A good lover requires someone whom you actually LOVE. The rest is simple and easy because, if you really care and love someone than you are almost certain to enjoy their very presence, touch, smell, kiss, voice, and affection. So, do you wanna be good in bed or a good lover??? \n\nIf you really mean a good lover, then you would be speaking of a person who enjoys every moment with their mate. Someone who goes out of the way to please and care for their lover. Being a good lover is really an open-ended question with NO easy answer(s) but, mainly you should be true to that person and actually do all the little extra things to make your romantic life fun and adventurous. Have an open-mind and embrace new and exciting sexual experiences. Remember, explore with your lover, if you don't the love-life can get dull and routine.\n\nHope this helps and good luck!!! Aaron Khan
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You are still young and virginity is nothing to be ashamed of.  I suggest you look for love....and be open to the gender, then see what happens.  True love knows no gender.  Look for someone who treats you nice and can be a companion for a lifetime.  Hopefully love will find you, it may take time,  but you are young and have time.  Every new relationship will have you questioning your orientation,  relax and let  FATE  guide you.
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It sounds like you are really running from yourself.  Until you come to grips with your sexuality and be comfortable with it you will continue to be confused.  If you like guys, it's Ok.  Or maybe it's just this one guy?  He's especially attractive?  \n\nFace your fears and see what happens.  Hang out with him in a group of friends and get to know him better.  If he likes you, make out.  It may be more of a fantasy than a reality for you.  You are at the age that you need to find out who you are.  When you decide what you like and who you are, be comfortable with it.\n\nIf you try to live a lie to please family, friends, society, etc... you will never please yourself.
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Of course you can live without a lover!\nYou live for yourself. Not for others. Love is only a part of our life. If you think you can live without a lover, then you can do it!
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You are most likely in for some terrible disappointment if you approach him about this. Do not do it. Erotic love is not love if it is not a mutual. Your imagination has run wild, and you have nothing more than a sweet, old-fashioned, one-sided infatuation with this person.\n\nClearly you do not know him as well as you think you do. If you did, then you would already know how to bridge the subject with him -- OR you would realize that it is not wise. The fact that you do not know how to approach him means that you do not know him well enough and that you have only been fantasizing about him. So the best thing you can do is simply settle the issue in your mind, which is what you will inevitably have to do the minute you open your mouth and realize that you have just made an irreversible mistake.
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my remarks...love, is a mystery.  you never know what's going to happen. you have to learn to live love to the fullest and learn to recover from the pain.  when in love, take a risk and  get to know the person and maybe even ask the persona out.  when not sure of what to do, make sure you know completely how you feel.  basically, you never know what to do, when you're in love...
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Sweetie, i feel you.\nBut check this out...I'm a 26 yr old who has NEVER had sex before! (now I'm getting married next year though)-my point? DONT take a boyfriend because you see yur friends doing it.\nSecondly, I see that you harbour a fear of the unknown, I'll quote one of my quotes for you..."Love is to be given only to those you trust, but how do you know who to love if first you dont trust?"\nMy point...take a chance.\nBeing more precise, make a list of things you want in a guy that are not negotiable(eg maybe, spiritual convictions etc), make another of "good to haves but not must haves" (eg maybe, color of hair etc). Then cultivate friendships without labelling every guy as a potential bf or not...just enjoy friendships and things would fall in place.\nLastly sweetie, there's no crime in being single AND learn to trust. ;) \nThis may sound corny but it sure helps-You may want to pray about the issue too.
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Love just happens, you can`t make someone love you.....People are strange and I don't understand it myself.Try to be patient..I know it sucks being single.There is someone out there for everyone.
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Ok!!!!  Trying loving yourself first.  Life is nothing if you don't love yourself....then you will have someone to love.