what do you do if your boyfriend wants head and u dont do that?
598687
just tell him to go u know what
214550
I don't think a boyfriend is going to care.\n\nBut if you don't want to do that stuff, then keep it quiet, or he might expect you to do it.
284009
I wouldn't be so quick to say move on.  Especially if you love him.  Their are lots of ways to add to your sex life.  First he should use his toungue.  I want a guy to use his tongue even if he does have a nice package.  Also, introduce the idea of toys.  Most guys find that erotic anyway and believe me you wont complain! ;)  You can teach him to bring you to the point of orgasm and then let him get his reward for doing so.
681826
i dont... yo boyfriend need so play fast... he using hsi hands to much(dont let him rub his hands on yo face) :)
937045
Talk it over with your boyfriend, openly and honestly. Discuss what worked then and what isn't working now. Discuss what each of you want out of the relationship and from sex. Ask questions about how you can please him, give information about how he can please you. Listen with your heart to what he is saying. Talk to his heart about your wants and needs. Then, after discussing, practice what you talked about. You might consider taking a night, a weekend, or a vacation away to get away from the usual distractions and focus on pleasing each other and putting your talk into action.
647115
Ask him to shave it for you.  Maybe try to get him to think of it in a sexual matter.  Tell him that you will not go down on him until the hair gets shaved.  That might work.
652505
Make it easy for him. Let him know that you don't expect anything from him whatsoever. Guys feel a lot of pressure to perform and to give you pleasure. I would practically die if I could have a relationship like that.
968985
I think he's trying to mess with your head. So just ignore it.♥
771422
Learn to get yourself off\n\nExplain your issues to your man\n\nGet him to learn to give you good oral sex
225547
girl say no. wat he's really sayin is "i dont want you as a girlfriend anymore but i want you as a sex buddy so when i get bored you will b there to cheer me up". he's jus usin ya. dont pay him NO attention
151416
Not really knowing your boyfriend, the best general answer I can give is sexual favours. There is not a man on earth who wouldn't like for his SO to put out.
92013
In a guys point of view. Just relax, tell him No. I guy wouldn't force you to do it if you tell him NO. Don't be sad, guys are just like that, its a biological thing. Even guys in a seminary are having a hard time controlling themselves. Honestly speaking I went thru the same problem, I had a girlfriend who did not want to have sex. And that's fine with me. She said no and I respected her. But I still tried. Boys will always try, and you should only say No. If he doesn't agree then dump him, he doesn't love you or care for you if he forces you to do it with him.
31366
Don't worry. Just be comfortable while doing it. Just be careful not to scratch "it" with your teeth. Keep teeth away as far as you can. You can lick, suck, and bite lightly. Licking the shaft under the glans feels really good. A word of advice: don't let him hold your head when he is about to come or he might ram your face to his prick and choke you. It's also okay to swallow if you like!
1114122
if u don't feel comfortable for what ever reason doing it on him, thats fine, but find another way to make ur man happy and enjoy ur experience... ;)
937532
take charge.  try taking a shower together, if u have kids get a babysitter and then plan a sex night with u doing all the work.  use oral to get him going and then have him lay on his back and u mount him.  to often we men get tired of doing all the sex work and just want our women to let us lay back and enjoy, unfortunately most women are to lazy to do this.  if u want him to go down on u have him lay back and u sit on his face.  GET THE PICTURE.  for once let him enjoy sex instead of working his butt off for it
1134621
dont give him oral if he inst  giving you any.. tell him to please u and you will do the same
1145464
Take a shower together so you know he is clean and then try.  You can also let him know that you don't like the sticky and to let you know before that happens.  There are many other ways you can help him get off with out having your face in it.