What would you do if you worked for your ex boyfriend that you dated for 3 years...?
595628
I totally relate to what you are going through. I did this too. I worked with and lived with my ex-fiancee. Leaving was one of the hardest things to do, but it really was the best thing and my life is so much better now. When you are done with that relationship the only way to leave is to leave it all. You should start looking for a new job now. If you feel like that company depends on you, then hire and train someone to replace you. Unfortunatly (for your feelings) you are replaceable and the business will go on without you. You aren't screwing them by moving on. You deserve more than what you are getting. Start looking for a new job, give your ex-boyfriend/boss 2 weeks notice and start focusing on yourself. \nYou are allowed to have feelings for him, he was in your life for a significant amount of time, your feelings are valid. But right now, you need to put yourself first. Have faith in yourself, trust yourself. You have to let go of what you have to get something better.\nI would love to talk to you, listen to you and offer you support.\nGood luck
614689
if he's changed from what he used to be like before.. then yes... unless you were the one who dumped him and now you want him back.. again that would be a yes..\nbut if he broke up with you and the two of haven't changed.. then no because that would just be a repeat of the relationship you had before.
941972
Let it go, mate. It's just a fantasy that has been cooking away in your mind for years. Aside from the fact that you both broke up for a reason, 30 years on you are both different people.\n\nYou'd be much better off channelling your energy into finding someone who wants you for who you are now. Stop looking into the past for something that never was - look into the future!
33518
Go for it. Your ex should not have any say over who you date. That's why it's called "ex."
610698
I would change so much! Id go back to the time i was 15 years old and would do so many things differently. Like getting involved with the wrong man and bein with him for nearly 7 yrs. I would have had the guts to end it with him at the 3 month stage but i was foolish. The biggest regret tho is fancying someone, not doin anythin about it and always wondering. And bungee jumping. I regret not doin that too!
275449
punctuate! if you've moved on and have another boyfriend, what's the problem? they are ex's for a reason!
3408
The easiest process that I would suggest is to convert one of your exes that you can stomach. Use that as a starting point to get into the swing of it until you are more comfortable with the concept. Just make sure they aren't confusing the situation with the possibility of getting back together. that can be messy.
66956
I don't think it's a good idea, but I've done it (and married the guy). The problem is that some places have a strict policy against it. So trying to keep your hands (and lips) off of each other is a true lesson in discipline! If things go sour between the two of you, the awkwardness is heavy. And no matter how angry you are at him, you've still got to be professional and do your job. Can you imagine teaming for a project at work with your EX?! ::shudder::
386616
1) Stop seeing him.  Do it NOW.\n2)  Start dating someone else.  Or at least look for your rebound guy.\n3)  Did I mention stop seeing your ex?
355883
he is a ex for a reason. keep him an ex and move on
267419
Why is he your old boyfriend? There had to have been reasons for breaking up and if I were you, I would take that into account. Also, would you be moving in together or just near him? Is it economical for you to move, will you be able to work, find housing? I don't know, it just doesn't sound like something that you should do...find a new boyfriend, one that lives closer to you or one that would move to be near YOU!
103519
You have to rediscover yourself. After three years, you have become so entwined in each others lives, it's like losing part of yourself.  Spend time with YOU before moving on.
691651
wow.. im not the emotional sort, but i heard you crying while you wrote this! i feel for you, we all been there, you gotta CHANGE your out look and overview! it's over, he's cheated it wont get better, it cant, it will be tough, but you will get by it, find out your old girlfriends get back in touch with them, and start again.  company will help you through, and help you meet other people, dont give up look forward to the change ok?....ok?
526826
OMG , I think I dated your exboyfriend then, cuz he was still living there
202915
Not recommended.  What if you two break up?  Harassment in the work space.  If you or he were willing to transfer to another department or company, I'd say go for it.
537486
Move on. if your ex has already moved on then you should too!
280691
Like they say...don't know what ya got till it's gone..guess he's now realizing how great of a person  you are..this is a decision you have to make..you've been with your current boyfriend 2 1/2 years..do you really want to give all that up for something that may not work out..look in your heart and decide what you want and how you feel...if things are going good with your current man I'd just tell the ex sorry I've moved on and have someone...if your not happy then maybe you should give it a try but this is something  you should think long and hard about even pray about because it will be a life changing decision..the best of luck to you