does she luv me? or luv me not? i need some good female to male advice.?
603469
Sorry dude, but she's not really into you.  I hate to say it but she used you.  There are a lot of nasty chicks that do that sort of thing.
276267
Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
695536
Well it sounds to me as if you two are already going out, and if you really love her you should let her know how you feel, it was that way with my gf and i got the same advice, so far we are going steady and i coldn't be happy, so give it a shot, ask her out, i mean come on you dont want to be sitting there looking back and wondering what could have been do you?
1047737
yes, she likes you.\nGive her some more time though.
422097
hmmm... this is tough.. when my guy told me this.. i believed him because he treats me right..\ni know you've been a good b/f to her! because only someone who is really in love would ask for other ppl's help because they want to know what's best for their girl... i think you should take her somewhere nice.. then tell her :)\nbut take it slow, so she knows that you truly care\nhope this helps
101827
Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
861410
too childish...maybe she's just confused about his feelings for you...overwhelmed that she has found something so good to be real...\n\nif you're serious with her...i say talk to her and give her some time to think it over...but please not too long, there are a lot of girls out there who will be so glad to take you in..
895865
Hi Che,  The way you ask the question with all the information, You both sounded like a happy couple. I don't think you did anything wrong,(if you didn't leave something out). She is very confused about her love for you,or she has found someone else to replace you.It's one or the other. I would find a nice girl who know's what her feeling are. That way you don't have to go through this again. Your right us girls don't all do this.I have a old man and i would never do this to him. Good Luck My Friend.\n\n  Clowmy
245674
If you love her so much you shouldn't be asking this question you should already know the answer love is abou ,LOVE, TRUST , RESPCT ADN PATIENCE. If she don't wanna give it up right now wait for her but i do also know that you are a dude and you get that eurge so if you gone do that at least tell her you need space first or brake up with her because that ain't right.
450477
OMG. do you not realise that you just answered your own question? tell her she makes you speechless. that when you're around her, you're lost for words.
987580
He needs to know one way or another. Sounds like this girl is a hoe...lotta fun. If she won't tell then you will need to. Good luck. She doesn't deserve such a good guy like him.
501249
Ask her if she is completely happy with her current b/f. If she says no, then she likes you. Because if she didn't like you she would say yes, just in case she thought you were into her.
478029
Being a female myself. Try not thinking so much. If she loves you she will appreciate whatever you do. i personally like the little things, getting flowers at work, him calling just to say I love you, He once covered one of my walls in my room with post it sticky notes (each one with something he liked about me written on it) not sure if she'd likeany of those but they might help. GOod luck. Feel free to email me anytime if you need to talk. w061204@yahoo.com
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hey, leave it out guys he wrote "in love" he's distinguishing between saying he loves her and being "in love". so u say she's great and u must be feeling the butterflies in your tummy and everything.. i know that feeling, i'm still feeling it after six months and loving every minute of it..and i'm glad i took the risk...i wanted to bail at the start because i had been burned badly in the past and was afraid of the really strong feelings i was feeling..afraid of being hurt again\nbut there's no fun without the risk...and there's never a guarantee\n\ntake the chance, enjoy your time with her, if she's as great as u say she is then she won't treat u as a doormat and take advantage of u, love is a two way street... she'll be thrilled to have found a partner who's not afraid to show his feelings!\n\nand it'll work out...\n\nand if it doesn't be glad of the time u had together, of the feelings u felt.. i never thought that i'd be able to open up and let someone in.. but i could and i did and it was the best thing i ever did..\n\ncut the girl some slack, sounds like she's worth it...enjoy the time and good luck :)
584899
she doesnt sound like a honest person, i think you better move on before you really get hurt...sometimes loving someone means letting go.....
801398
Hey, I am Jennifer. I was reading over ur qustion, It seems that she is a play by play...I dont know but if i was u i wouldent date her anymore or see her. For me to say I think u sound like  nice guy and u need better. For what i am trying to say is that she tells u to trust her, how could u ever trust anyone that spends the night with anotheir man..thats not right, if u ask me....If she really cared for u she would be with u and not anotheir man. It sounds like she is sorta a good person and all but i think u so need better then her, she is nothing. I'm sry i hope i dont upset you. But what ever happens good luck. But if u would like to talk just im me it is kikikinky321.. bye for now
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Personally, I believe that I would try the honest approach. It is my personal experience that women respond to a man who is open, honest and DIRECT. Don't beat around the bush about it, because your time with her is apparently limited. If that is the case, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.\n\nWho knows, maybe she feels the same way about you but is having problems telling you as well. Look her DIRECTLY in the eye and tell her that your time together has been wonderful and you have connected with her in a way you never thought imaginable with another woman. Tell her that your friendship together means the world to you and it has grown into a deep respect and you hope she feels the same towards you.\n\nI understand what you are going through. I have been there and bought that tee shirt. Good Luck and I hope it works out.