i'm a gal of 18. can i think of men & sex? help me...?
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Of course......I think u r a bit late though...\njust joking.....\n\nYou have already gone through Puberty(I guess)....I think its pretty normal
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Your thoughts and feelings are natural for a young man...don't sell yourself short though...wait until you are ready for a relationship and don't settle for second best...you sound a nice person...just enjoy your life and feel confident about yourself...dreaming is nice!!
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Have you ever though you should slow down and get to know some of these men. Dont confuse sex for love. Please dont let no man miss use yor body. You need to learn to love your self.
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... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.
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basically your just human, i cant say your just a guy because im a girl and my main goal when i spend time with my love is to get laid, okay not always but most the time. and i mean at least your mind set on pleasing her. thats how he is, i tell him hes the reason im so selfish. so as long as your doing good work, keep at it.\n\ni told my friend i needed to go to group therapy for my obsession with sex, maybe you can join me ;) haha.
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ok when you are 13-21 youremotional about relations, you want to exp. love and I know that youve been thru or seen boys act like jerks, b/c love hurts and this is when all they care about is their tool when the girls want a lovin b/f. then they start to loose there sex drive late20's early 30's about the time  you girls like sex or love a lot more at the oppisite time (who says god dosent have sense of humor).well so we NEED emotionallly While you need to get your groove on. But guy's will never admit this(I'm a guy) Ha.ha. but really around the time your desire goes up around35-40 all we want is a wife and kids or nokids but to be loved. men are great at looking like teflon b/c we are young and virile then when we start to see grey, baldness and the worst erectile dys. we get MIDLIFE CRISIS and buy what kids would buy to make us younger (thats shallow) If your woman loves you she loves YOU! aBMW never fixes things ,but we feel it does. Hair can be died pills can make their tool work so your right they look virile and new but believe me many men over 50 cannot get it up and you gals from35-50 are sexcrazed. Your right \nthat men can have children for life. and yes I think many religions accomadate this behavior. but believe you me. most men Its hard to see our soft little underbellies. and we get hair transplant we do what ever work out to keep this picture in our head of us in the mirror @16-21 the good years. It helps now that men dont work in the sun anymore well as much. Im not lady but dont shun my answer Im the rare one that'll tell you about us.you have a still virile man or you exp. show you men are virile ya my grandpa was a sneek. some never die sexually even at 70 but menopause if medicated thereafter you can still enjoy sex when I say meds I mean to keep up estrogen intake as well as a little test. But by the way have you been watching big love. J/k
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Get command of the English language and then write back so that we  understand you. As to male/male sex...have fun. Be safe, enjoy...if you are gay...live your life. Be the person that you would be proud to be. Stop listening to everyone else. Listen to your heart.
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To really give you good advice it would be nice to know your age.  It sounds like you are very young.  To want sex from your best friend all the time sounds disturbed at best.  Why do you want it?  Are you using protection?  How old is he?  Many young women have sex to fullfil a loss or absent father.  There is really too much info missing to help you.\n\nGeorgi....
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If you mean under eighteen, you're going to have trouble with the law, although age-of-consent varies by state in the US. Know your local statutes! If you mean college-age chicks or older, then you're cool.\n\nAs a woman who prefers older men, I can vouche for the existence of women who like a nice age difference and are very much turned on by men with some experience.\n\nHowever, if you're looking for an attractive, which is what some men really mean when they say younger, woman to use just for sex, I would suggest that you find a prostitute. Supposedly, there's somewhere out in Nevada where it's still legal.\n\nBe safe!
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Do Sex  eh .. Ok i will go for it, hhhmmmm , Well if you have to ask , then you never was with a real man!, and by reading this question and the way its typed,,,,i would say.... YOU ARE TO YOUNG FOR   DO SEX!
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You're most likely just nervous.  A good way to "check yourself" in terms of sexuality is to track the very last thing you think about when you.... er... take matters into your own hands, and are alone.  Not 30 seconds before, not what kind of dirty little magazine is helping you along, not what movie is playing for encouragement, but that VERY last thing you think about.  Is it a man or a woman?  If it's a man, then you just need to deal with the fact that you might be gay and learn to accept that and realize it doesn't mean anything other than that fact.\n\nAnd it's OK to be nervous.  If this has been an ongoing issue, think about talking to someone about it.  Start with your doctor, and perhaps think of seeing a therapist.  You'll sort it all out.  It's happens to many men a lot.  Just not with me.\n\nIf it's a woman you think of in that last second of glory, then get in touch.  I'm sure I can help you out with that last minute "hurdle".  No man has left my bed without leaving a little something behind for Mama....
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first-i am a brunette-that means black hair in this case-second-you so need a life, but i bet your 17-so figures.\nand if not-the horny part-ha-gets WORSE-trust me
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I'm thinkin you are fairly young--perhaps a Jr.high or high schooler..the thing is girls are not difficult they are just as complex as you are-- just that because you both think differently shouldn't make it a problem as you mature you will see that in a different light.. its hard tryin to figure out the opposite sex not just for you but for all ages..it makes life better not all thinking the same..you need to just relax a bit and not get flustered..The book Men are from Mars Women are from Venus is a good read depending on your age---it does shed some light on how the other thinks...
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Sweetie, i feel you.\nBut check this out...I'm a 26 yr old who has NEVER had sex before! (now I'm getting married next year though)-my point? DONT take a boyfriend because you see yur friends doing it.\nSecondly, I see that you harbour a fear of the unknown, I'll quote one of my quotes for you..."Love is to be given only to those you trust, but how do you know who to love if first you dont trust?"\nMy point...take a chance.\nBeing more precise, make a list of things you want in a guy that are not negotiable(eg maybe, spiritual convictions etc), make another of "good to haves but not must haves" (eg maybe, color of hair etc). Then cultivate friendships without labelling every guy as a potential bf or not...just enjoy friendships and things would fall in place.\nLastly sweetie, there's no crime in being single AND learn to trust. ;) \nThis may sound corny but it sure helps-You may want to pray about the issue too.
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men think the same as anyone else. only a very small handful of them are rapists and such. you might be a lesbian.
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With time sex kind of dwindles from ohhhhhhhhhhhh my gosh to just that norm sex, try greeting him in your birthday suit when he comes over an see his reaction. As I've always believe, have faith in that man, communicate what you want with your sexual innuendos but never be naive to what is going on in your situation.  before accusing find out discreetly,
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Start wearing sexy clothes....\nKeep in mind that Men are pigs !!\nFor more suggestions, stay in touch at \nmanish_p_66@yahoo.com