How long should you wait to verbalize love in a relationship?
605593
until you mean it...or when it's said w/o expecting anything in return
751675
nope never to soon to be in love and never to late. \n as far as your relationship goes if at this point your feeling UN easy about saying it then don't just wait but you certainly say i am really getting to like you more and more that sort of thing but love is wonder full and powerful like a great rapids don't jump in with out looking at the water and finding a good spot to start off even then watch out for rocks and under tows
763362
ok... i dont know you or your man, so i can only tell you what i do know. i have been with my man. i met him online and we became friends. after 1 month of chatting, he left to South America for a month. when he got back , we met up and started our relationship that same day. after 2 weeks, i knew that i loved him. but i held it in, and didnt say anything. 3weeks... i thought that he felt the same and we were doing as you are- telling each other how we felt about each other and all that jazz... anyway, after the fourth week had past, i was lying in his arms morning after valentines day, and i was thinking how wonderful everything was and how much i love him.. and i couldnt not tell him any more. so i told him. and he just smiled. he said thank you and that he just needed a little time to decide how he feels, but that the fact that i told him that i love him wont scare him away. anyway... 3days later, i get home and he is in my bed (he lives an hour and a half away, so that was a big deal) and he had a single red rose. he told me that he loved me and that he doesnt want to lose me. Its been 10 months now and i have no intention f leaving this man. he feels the same. We told each other a month into the relationship and everything was fine. My point, after that rather long winded saga, is that, if you are meant for each other, then telling him, should be the least of your worries and you should be secure in your relationship enough to have the confidence to tell him. dont wait for him to tell you first. chances are that he is confused and trying to sort his head out too. men arent complicated creatures. just silly ones. lol. if you love him, tell him. everything will be fine hun. trust in yourself and your relationship. \nDont wait on men. lol. You're a woman. Be a strong one.\ngoodluck to you hun\nxxx
119692
Falling in love with someone and only been in the realtionship less then a month. SLOW DOWN! One day at a time, get to know each other before the I love you's come out. I mean I believe in love at first sight, but i also believe in moving to fast. Just be careful. You'll know if hes the one after time passes
648867
When it feels right.  This is not something people online can answer for you.  You have to make sure you are sure.  That can be as soon as 6 months but as long as 3 years or more.  Good luck!
903677
with out saying a word at all you can show someone you love them. gentle touches...long gazes into thier eyes. holding them...chest to chest so you can feel each others hearts beat. beyond that just show them that they are number one in your life. put them first in what you do.
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
388191
are you planning on having a serious relationship that soon? take it slow.....be friends, the love will flow naturally, if it's meant to be...= )
1067881
A relationship goes through many stages.  It takes time to develop a sense of togetherness.  You may want to be with him all time at first and then if you do you will realize soon enough and you won't have to wonder or ask others.  It is harder to wait when you are younger, whereas older people have a little more knowledge of relationships and seem to be able to wait for that final commitment.  \nIf he feels the same way you do, you will end up talking about it, not just wondering.  Relationships seem to go in directions every three months or so.
393164
Start slow.  Take time to get to know the next person you date before throwing your emotions into another relationship.  It takes time, I know.  Give yourself time to heal then start over again.  You don't have to rush but don't hide from dating or relationships for to long because after a while you might become too comfortable avoiding situations were your trust is tested.  Then your just alone.
339236
i think the relationship defines itself, people get in to trouble with words, after all they are just words.  what the relationship is will be defined by actual events and actions, regardless of the words.  how many people do you know who hear 'i love you' and are treated like something far less than a loved one? if you feel the need to have it defined in words just say where is this going? if it freaks him out and he leaves it wasn't going anywhere but the bedroom anyway. good luck
475707
Be grateful that they care for me and they like me and feel flattered, i would just wait and let them think, give them space before they start to say they love me because it takes quite a while in a relationship to learn how to love someone.
1145450
Depends on the people.  How much do you REALLY talk and know each other.  How much of the relationship is more about the physical or superficial?  If you love each other for the hearts and souls that you're bringing into the relationship, then go for it.  If you're unsure about that at all, wait a bit and see how you feel in a few more months.  Good luck.
160317
You should wait 1/3 of the relationship.\n\nSay you went out for 3 months. So, you should wait one month before dating again.\n\nCommon trick- not too fast, not too slow.
191001
Wait until you feel it. Don't say it just to say it... say it when you know in your heart that you love that person.
646869
When you are ready.  If you two are serious about each other, then go ahead.  Find the right time when you feel ready and she feels ready too.
205036
only kiss him when you want to not because he wants it! After 5 months you should know whether you want to have a physical relationship or not! If you don't want that then don't force yourself. Chemistery is one of the most aspects of a relationship.