What should I do if my wife cries?
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I'll tell you what NOT to do:  Do NOT roll your eyes, sigh, and say in annoyed voice, "Oh, NOW what?"\n\nAsk her if she wants to talk about it.  Know that it may take her awhile, and even a few more askings, before she's ready to open up.  Sometimes at the beginning, we just want to cry.  We can talk and analyze and sort things out later.
632180
Be open an honest with serious communication. Reassure her of your love and always say things that uplift her and try to always see the positive side of any and all situations no matter how bad they maybe.
405024
Mmmmm Everyone has a right to be happy, if your not happy fix it.   Either Love her and leave her.  Or Get counseling if you feel its worth saving.   I guess it depends on how much you love her and how much you would do, to get things back the way they were.
489722
get a new wife.  One that appreciates you for who you are.
585154
you know how you made your avatar in there is a post card send her one to her mail box. i did that when me and my husband was at war and it worked just tell how you feel and that your sorry.  make dinner and clean the house before she comes home from work run her a steaming hot bath because by the time she gets there it will be just right put some candles all over the bathroom and then while she is in the bathroom give her a massage
1029954
First off, don't go seeking comfort from anyone else.  Nothing can ruin a marriage quicker than you deciding your lonely and doing something you regret.  Instead focus on doing things around the house that you normally don't get around to so that you can surprise her when she gets home.
506167
No 'nice' ways anymore.  Brutal (but sensitive) honesty time.\n1.  Admit your fault in the situation.  You shouldn't have started things up if you knew you were going to get back together with your wife.\n2.  Tell her your side.  Marriage is a commitment and you aren't the kind of person who wants to get divorced and trivialize that commitment so you're doing everything you can... etc, etc.\n3.  Compliment her by reminding her she can find someone much better.\n4.  Let her say how she feels and respond without getting defensive.\n5.  Under no circumstances are you to use her as a 'in case it doesn't work out' friend.  That isn't fair and it's not right.\nGood luck.
1073232
All of mine did that put a few little toys in his bed and let him entertain himself. If he cries let him. it will break your heart but he will be fine. just get up the first time check his bum and his belly if both are fine kiss him and lay him back down. it usually takes a week or two but they realize you aren't going to entertain them and give up. hearing them cry is the worst part but be strong.
406648
I don't know if this is supposed to be a guy's problem...but my mother and I share the same problem. My mother is a little more severe in that aspect, though.\n\nI've never, ever seen her cry in my entire life. I can swear by that. Not even her eyes watering. She's an extremely tough, strong woman who'd never let the 'weakness' (she thinks its a weakness) of crying show in front of her children.\nI have no doubt she cries to herself at nights. But I've never seen her crying, and no matter how hurtful or great the situation is, she never breaks down. SHe's always tight-lipped and tension lines streak across her tired face, but there's never a tear.\nMy dad once commented to her, "I feel like I've married a man."\nI take that as a sort of compliment, that my mom, after having gone through several life crisises that wouldn't probably sent a whole family off a building or through the noose, she plough through it all, all without shedding a tear.\nAs for me, you can expect that because of her perception that crying is a weakness, I became somewhat eager to live up to her expectations (while my sister and brothers are whiny sobs...ok, well, they just cry a whole lot more, my sister being the worse.) and I became somewhat 'conditioned' not to cry.\nThough since I've had a fiance, he's been trying to encourage me not to be so 'angry', 'uptight' and close up all my feelings, I find it's helped a little, but I find it so hard to just 'let it go'.\nFor example, I was very close to my grandma. When she passed away because of breast cancer (she also had several stomach ulcers because she kept skipping meals to save money even though we were really well-off. SHe did it without our knowledge, because she came from extreme poverty with 8 kids single-handedly raised, and saving money no matter how was crucial to survival.), I was distraught, but I didn't cry.\nIt was an open coffin funeral. I remember seeing her lying in there dressed in new clothes, her eyes closed, like she was asleep. But she looked a little worried, I thought.\nI never shed a tear, I tried, I even closed my eyes and tried to run all the fond memories through my head of my beloved gran but not a tear could be shed.\nI was so...crushed. I felt like a robot. I still do. I find my emotions just swelling up inside.\n\nThe only 3 people who'd ever made me actually cry was my mother (she can be so hurtful at times, she was the first one who hurt my feelings during my childhood so much I curled up in the closet and cried.), my best friend (though we broke up long ago, she really was selfish and self-absorbed.) and my fiance (we've had a few big fights. He cried when he saw me cry. :|).\n\nI can understand it must be really frustrating, but for me, I realised we don't cry because a certain button in us has to be pushed.\nYou would know...have you ever thought or talked about a certain topic which you felt overwhelming emotion about? That's the button. One day, I suggest you sit down in a quiet spot where you can contemplate, and search that button and push it.\nYou might find that the tears that come out, might feel rather liberating.\n\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)
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Sit down, fix her a cup of tea, and ask her why she wants you to leave. DON'T Say a word, Let her talk. Tell her you care about her feelings. Don't GIVE her Suggestions. If she complains to about you. KEEP CALM. Just KNOD your head and listen. You see if you Just LISTEN she will open up. If you Tear, she knows you care. If you smile while tearing, she will know that you love her and will do anything to have her feel better. Then, you will work on yourself, while she will know what to do. The next day, call during the day and tell her that you will fix her dinner. Take care of her, protect her. Lastly COMPLIMENT HER!\n\nSay sorry that you have neglected her and COMPLIMENT HER for staying strong and for Marrying a undeserved man. If she leave you, she will be letting an undeserved man to a pit of nothing. That she is the best thing that ever happened to your life. Then break up the routine of what your both will do. DATE her. DATING IS really for MARRIED COUPLES. Because you don't have to be guilty of being alone.
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I feel sorry for you. I think that she still loves and cares for you, but she has been emotionally drained from the marriage.\n\nWhen a woman is fed up she is fed up. Especially when she in truly in love and her partner is not returning the emotions. She can only keep trying for so long before she has to stop and think about if it is really worth it.\n\nI don't want to say but here it is" You should have treated her like a queen when you had her". It may be to little to late, but try and remain on good terms with her. She may just give you another chance. Just remember, if she does come back, don't fall into the routine of neglecting her feelings. If she leaves again, she may never come back.\n\nGood Luck!
184179
ask if she's ready, then do IT. if she starts to cry, then just cuddle for a few minutes then ask "are u alright?"
628274
Now is the time to pray. Really pray. As you see counseling isn't helping. The only one who is able to heal her is God. \nI was depressed most of my life. When I started going to church and praying, God took away the depression and gave me\npeace. A peace of mind. I know what depression does. It will\ndrive you crazy and it takes a toll on the family. Take your wife to a church and let them pray for her. God is going to bless you for being a good and faithful husband. I\napplaud you for your work and devotion. There are not many men who would do that for their wife. If God delivered me from it then He can do the same for her. I'm a living witness. I'm a survivor.
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I would say come to terms with your wife, does she know that you feel this way? If so she probably isn't happy either.\nThe baby at this point is the most important thing. I am glad that you care enough to not just up and leave them. It will all work out better if you and your wife are happy, because then the child wont be raised in an unhappy home. Bottom line... Be happy :)
654735
Break back up. You'll be much happier. Its not like you are married to her. Who wants to be stuck with  a bitter, whining person? Move on, you'll be glad you did.
311300
here's a little secret. if you have a pet name that your wife thinks is special to her, than it makes it very unspecial when you call other people it. sounds silly but women feel insecure very easily. reinforce that you say it to women you respect and feel are equals to you intellectually and as good people, than let her know you didn't realize how it hurt her to feel like her pet name wasn't special only for her. than say your sorry and you love her and respect her feelings and wish her to feel secure with you, so you'll try your best to not do it again. than give her a big hug and kiss and listen to her talk for a while with any concerns and basically repeat what you just said with a few changes so you don't sound like a recording. don't make her feel that her feelings are invalid or stupid or silly, they're her feelings and that's all that matters. respect her for having trust in you to share them with you.
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i would just cry. go out somewhere though. have fun and you will soon forget about it.