i love hangin out with my brother and his friends but sometimes i feel out of place?
600033
Honey, female to female: If YOU feel uncomfortable, then YOU ought to stop hanging with them.  God forbid something happen to you while your with them, and your brother is not there.  Stop while your ahead.  If its deep enough for you to be asking on here, then you need to stop hanging with your bro.  Get some girl friends. I don't recommend hanging with only guys under any circumstances, those are the kind of girls who end up getting taken advantage of, by people they've known and trusted for years.
529043
I am also like this but its not just my friends that think I am boring, my family also has a problem with it. I have just never been the "going out" type. I much prefer to go to movies or stuff like that. Clubs and parties aren't for me, although I have fun when I go. I think that you should do what makes you happy and those people that give you a ton of mess over it aren't your real friends. You have to do what makes you happy and stay true to you.
1000361
well i'm going through the similar thing but what i've done is gone to stay with my sister for a few days but if you got any close friends or family go and stay with them for a few days and see how you are after it and if u still upset and feel the same way then ask your friends or family if you can move in with them till you get a place and try hang out with other boys or go clubbing
1011125
when the time is right not when ur pressured or feel u have to then it will feel like ur kissing ur brother!!!
786494
yes being with my friend for most of the summer and feeling loved
985002
I feel this way all the time. I do not "fit in" anywhere.
64192
Oh yes. I have always felt different from everyone around me. There has never been anyone who truly "gets" me. I have friends, I have family, but still even when I am with them I feel alone.\nAnd yes left out of things. I've been in situations where it seems I was forgotten. Hearing friends talk about the great time they had doing this or that, and wondering why I wasn't invited.\nI don't know what you wish to know but remember the truly great have always stood alone from the crowd.\nDon't change to fit in, be yourself. Someone will "get" you.
984601
hello, This is just a feeling of appreciation you are experiencing, of course it is normal. You feel good being around them because they bring out the best in you.You are seeing in them the very thing you admire in yourself and that makes you fel good. This is the type of man you want to attract into you life someday, This is not a crush, it is appreciation you are feeling for seeing the best in another.Rejoice in that your sisters have attracted into their live these men that you admire. There is no better feeling than to appreciate another. THIS IS A NORMAL FEELING, just know that this is all it is, nothing more. May you have a wonderful fulfilling life
716371
i think my old friend is experiencing that too, since i just met a new friend. i'm tring to spend equal amount of time with both of them but it just doesn't go that way. but i still like my old friend more. i think your friend feels the same way that i do
305466
I think that what ever you feel is normal for you.\n\nand all  your friends wont agree or feel the same as you do.  \nSome might want or ask you to act a way that doesnt feel normal to you.  But don't ask them to do it.\n\nJust be yourself and you will see who your true friends are later.  good luck\n\nstef
52763
Maybe you should hang out with some guys sometimes. If the girls think your brother is the hottest thing ever, the guys will probably think you're the hottest thing ever, and a little flattery is nice every once in a while.
802945
i can help your not jealous ur just conserned and that is not crime u just really care about ur brother and mabye if u tell him how u feel he will understand
100125
Definitely!  I think because we play so many different roles in life, sometimes we feel like different people.  It is important though to keep in touch with your own personal values, morals and priorities so that when you "people switch" you are still you!
463062
No it's not wrong for you to feel that way but it's wrong to put up with it. In a relationship if your needs are not being fullfilled then your relationship can't be a happy one. Some guys want to live by the way of the street and their friends and once your in a relationship you can't be that way. I'm not saying he needs to give up his friends but he does need to include you in with them. If you don't want to hang out with him and his friends, let him know how you feel. Let him know you feel neglected and if he dosen't do more to help build a healthy relationship with you then you need to move on. I'm sorry to say, some guys never grow up and some just need to know that you will leave if things don't change. If your feeling left out and lonely then your hurting inside and that isn't good on you or your relationship. Stand up to him, let him know you love him and you trust him but you need more attention and affection and he he refuses then find someone who can give you what you want out of life. What ever you do don't mess up your school or work over worring about him, it's not worth it. Good luck to you!
579879
If he is close to his family then look at it this way he will make on heck of a family man. I would feel honored if I was you. Try offering to go to family get togethers with him and get involved with his family. They could become your family one day.
414166
my g-ma does the same thing i am a twin i have a twin brother and a 12 yr old brother and my cousins are twin to one has heart problems i don't excist at all so don't feel bad your not alone
94394
Absolutely don't worry about it. If people do say that to you then just laugh it off. It's good that you have a best friend you feel close to, a lot of people won't understand/be lucky enough to have that.