Do you put your childs needs before yours?
611940
you have got to as they cant do it for themselves , thats the price of being a good parent
712490
plan wat u wish to do first
332546
Your marital relationship should always come first.  You can't be good parents if you are good to each other.  Family is built on the foundation of marriage.
881656
If you're such a child that you can't plan ahead enough to do your business in a safe clean place, then yes - you must deal with the filth or learn to do the squat. \n\nMost of us simply plan our lives such that we're not suddenly stuck having to take a dump in an unpleasant place.\n\nYou just have to think more than 3 minutes in advance.
556100
I don't think all women are like that. I have found that since I am now divorced that even men who have children expect me to forsake my sons, or I have heard lines like you have to take care of your needs first. I have friends who put their loves in front of their children. I get very upset with them. Mother or Father your children should come first. \n\nJust that some men and women are selfish and self centered. Usually they are like that as parents as well. I take that as a sign that I shouldn't get involved.  I have an ex who is like that.  It is all about him and his needs before his children's.
91645
i'm in the same situation,  think i'll buy my own at least i'll get what i want lol.\n\nTO THOSE SAYING WE DONT NEED PRESSIES - its just nice to feel wanted and thought about enough to have something nice given to them.  It goes both ways remember so maybe you should make the effort first. (you can try and it doesnt have to be expensive)\n\nI've been with mine for 6/7 years (with one child)and i think we only really bothered the first couple of years but i cant remember what we got!!!!!
300324
Depends on many things. Where you live there, your live style etc... But be careful. You can be a good parent any where by setting a good example.
1111823
Most Definately!!!! I had baby clothes before I was even married (not a whole lot but cute things) and When my baby was born I did not have to buy ANY clothes for her. I would wait on the car seat and stroller and the food items until you know that you are pregnant just because safety rules change and you don't want food to expire. We started buying a pack of diapers each time we went to the grocery store after we found out we were expecting and didn't have to buy those for about 10 months after she was born!!! Be prepared
393643
Are you and she ready financing to handle something that life shaking? It would be terrible for the child to be brought into the world and they can't be properly taken care of. It is one of the biggest steps in your life.  It should be something that both of you think about and consider every option of before you jump into it.  Remember its someone else's life you're affecting.
572459
Congratulations!  Feels good eh?  I think the best thing to do is to be there for your kids whenever they need you.  Kids don't remember stuff they have, they remember things they did with their parents, cousins, brothers, sisters.  So be there whenever she needs you, and you won't go wrong.
533098
Yes...up until the time they are a legal adult.  Maybe parents should think about this before allowing so much permissiveness in their family. I am a strict Mother(no corporal punishment...but lots of consistency and time out and good choice/ bad choice options). I feel it is my duty, and moral responsibility to raise well mannered and caring people. I KNOW I am responsible for my children's actions.
642732
Joint physical custody is a nightmare! Don't make your kid's shuffle between houses more than they have too. Finances should always take a back seat to their welfare.
689469
she needs to sort herself out and put her kids first.
1043606
you dont you wait until you are old enough
370414
look after themselves before any other
973594
You shouldn't put your kids in this position.  I think it really confuses them about who has what role in their lives.  How old are they?  If they are old enough, tell them the truth, but if they are young, just tell them the necessary information.
46745
Every parent wishes to see his/her kid come first.  But isn't it required of you to accept the kids limitations anad guide him for "Doing his best" rather than "Coming First"\nIf you intend to see your kid perform well ensure that your kid is able to understand everything that he is being taught (you have to spend time with him for this).  If a kid understands what he is taught, there is nothing to learn.\n\nUnderstanding has nothing to do with a kids ability to reporduce content in the name of answers to questions.