why did chris larson say no when i asked him out?
613627
he's a jerk.  he's holding out for a guy. lol I hope that made you feel better.
564969
Are you an idiot. He asked you on a date. If you aren't sure ASK HIM ITS NOT HARD
829546
cause it was his birthday. or maybe he regretted saying no to you, and hes trying to get u back. dont give it too much thought. just see what his next actions will be nd judge from there
923497
No you were not rude, you didn't KNOW him and it would be scary if you did agree to go with him- the world is not a safe place anymore.  Don't feel bad, you did the right thing, you basically let him know that you weren't really interested.  Good job.  Rude would have been if you stopped him as soon as he started talking to you, gave him a dirty look, and told him off- that would've been rude.
486964
Normally it would be in a guy's better interest to do the asking, but that's changed alot over the years. My suggestion is try to hang out and let your feelings out in a private moment then see what happens from there. the worst that could happen is that your crush says no, but then you'll still feel alot better for trying anyways.
696491
Just ask because when you blew him off, he probably thought you weren't interested.  Thus, he wouldn't ask again because he doesn't want to come on a creepy guy.
1148146
You've asked him out a gilllion times this year?  I'm not sure how many a gilllion is, but it sounds like a lot.  And he hasn't gone out with you?  You don't know if he likes you back?  Hmmm, how many times being turned down does it take before you get the idea that he doesn't like you that way?  Face it, he just isn't into you.\n\nWhat you should do is stop asking boys out.  Find things to do that are useful and interesting and make yourself a more interesting and useful person.  The right boy will then ask you out.
425960
he is probably trying to play it cool. like, "oh hi, i didn't see you there," when he totally did. i know that i do that to guys i like sometimes! try to say hey to him next time he doesn't look at you. maybe that will change things.
524109
It really does depend on what the question is. If you're being asked out and you don't like the person, you can refuse gently... "No, I'm sorry, I can't go out with you." If then you are pressed for why, then be gently honest. If you're being asked about dessert...ooo yummy...and you're feeling guilty about passing up that lovely chocolate mousse, simply say, "No thank you, I'm full" or "I couldn't eat another bite, thanks!" Just be polite about refusing; but it does depend on what you are saying no to.
283212
He asked you out last year and you havent talked in 4 years?\nI didnt understand that.\nMaybe you meant 4 months so Im going to go with that, and say just call him and tell him that you were shocked he asked you out and you should of said yes. Us girls always change our minds, its ok. :)
277599
He is not interested in you. Probably, he is just having a good time just flirting with you. He is not serious. And since he replied in negative when you asked him out, he is not keen on you. It would be wise to forget him and move on.
407007
Why don't you ask him out? Go ahead see what happens.
240583
'Cause it sounds like you're trying to protect yourself from him turning you down, or making fun of you. Us gals sometimes have to test the fella, to see if he's sincere. It's unfortunate that some gals have to do that, but if they've been hurt before, they learn to protect their heart from jerky guys. <*)))><
916867
either A. he found out something about you he didnt like, like past grades or what not... or B. his wife said hell no you arnt letting a blonde girl intern with you. or C. he just wanted to do you and then decided maybe he better not put himself in that situation. ♥  its ok, ive discovered everything happens for a reason. maybe now you will get a much better offer somewhere.
431219
As a guy I would say "Leave it alone and don't ask." If you go up to him and ask him why he turned you down he is going to feel pressured and on the defensive. It is not going to change the fact that he said "No", so what good will it do besides to satisfy your curiosity? If you put him in that position I can guarantee that he will recent you and you won't have a chance with him. He will see you as being pushy, aggressive, stalker like and annoying and will stay away from you. If I were you, I would be friendly, smile, say "hi", and let him know that his saying "No" didn't affect you in any way. Guys can't stand indifference, so if he does like you, it may make him decide to ask you out on his own. Some guys just don't like for the girl to be the chaser. I'm not saying that is right, but it's the way some guys think. I don't have a problem with it myself. I like when a girl knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after the guy.\nk.m.
915157
well you weren't supposed to date the guys friend.  that's a no no.  now if he asks you out it'll be a miracle.
297339
He's a really sweet guy. He figured out that you didn't like him and he made up a fake gf so that you wouldn't feel bad for rejecting him.\n\nDon't judge.