i think im depressed because my girlfriend moved out. wat do i do? i cant cope on my own?
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Maybe you guys need space. I went through the same problem. Me and boyfriend lived apart for about 4 months to get space. And now we lived back together. Your not really depressed just unsure. Take this time to see why this happen. And how could you make a change.
77616
Break this separation!\nHave a brave, and ask some nice girls.\nBecause its separation, girls are also feel alone as you feel.
807966
Sounds like he's pretty much over you.  I'd move out and move on with my life.  Sorry.
502974
Maybe you should seek the advice of a medical professional to help you deal with your depression. They can help control you depression so that you may not be so hard on yourself. You are 21 and your life is just beginning. Have faith in yourself and believe that you can truly be happy. As far as the relationship, well, you will have to decide if what she did was so terrible that you just can't forgive her or trust her anymore. There can be no relationship without trust. It is okay to remember the good times that you had with an ex. It makes you remember what it was that made you want to be with them to start with. Do not let it dominate your thoughts. Get out, meet new people, hang out with friends. All of these will help you to start moving on with your life and faster than you think, it will not be so painful anymore. Good luck to you and I wish you much success in your efforts to move on!
1013122
hello\nim really sorry for break up\ni dont think you can dump her anymore but you can move on and find some else who cares about you.remember when one door closes another opens!!!\ngood luck
303485
You are a very strong and kind person and I wish you all the best of luck with your gf.\nMy friend is a manic depressive and her partner has been with her for 5 years now. He loves her to bits but at times has felt like he was making himself ill aswell. He learned that he had to put his own wellbeing first sometimes, so that he was able to give her the best he could. At one stage though, he did try to reason with her, by telling her that he had 'stood by her all this time' and she still wasn't getting any better. At this point, she ended it, blaming him for the way she was (she had been depressed from a young age) and evidently got worse. When speaking to her, she felt that he was only with her in the hope that she would get better. This was an awful pressure on her because she knew (as well as he did) that there was every chance that things could get worse and she may never improve.\nSo, I simply give you this advise, take care of yourself and satisfy your needs and ambitions. If she pushes you away, don't retaliate with any blame or make her feel that she owes you something for your time spent with her. Simply allow this to be the oppurtunity where you get some time for yourself. Meet with friends, take up a hobby, whatever. Most importantly, don't make her feel that you are leaving her, always be contactable and tell her where your going and when you will be back. Simpy let her accept and know that you are always there for her but also for yourself.\nPlease also understand that she may or may not improve. If you can't see a future with her if things don't improve, then maybe you should rethink your situation. \nMy friend is improving (and happily living with her partner) and is now working. She is a lovely person and I admire her strentgh. \n\nI wish you all the best of luck,\n\nHappy Birthday for Monday!!\nxx
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Girl I am so sorry and I completly understand what you are going through. I recently broke up with my FIANCE and it has been so hard not see or talking to him.  I am trying to focus more on improving myself like going to the gym and I am going to get some certifications in my job.  Basically I am tring to improve myself FOR MYSELF.  I suggest you do the same maybe join some clubs in your area to meet new people.  anyway, email me if you need someone to talk to.
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i think Ur facing some kind of depression (not major one).\nu need someone who understand Ur feeling well, mature enough to deal with.\nur wants r normal, but u can't go for it, cauz u develop some complex in urself.\ncome from it, u r young, no one can please everybody, so don't care much for those who don't care for u.\n\nlife is short, live its every second\nGOD bless u
69696
well I would move out cause It'll get worse, before it get better,if he thinks you stole his money,then he does'nt think much of you. sorry that your going through that, I hope it gets better for you, stay strong.
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You can do better, u don't need her. I think she just doesn't want to be with u anymore, if she did then she'd have spoken to u about it and then u could have worked through it together.
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luckily it sounds like you have a situational depression which is better than the full blown mental illness. \n\nit sucks anyway to be depressed and homesick, but you should be getting yourself involved in as many activities and groups as you can stand. this will help alleviate some of your loneliness and maybe ease your depression problem.\n\nkeep communication open with home as much as you can afford it~i know it can be expensive, but try and make new friends here to pass the time~then when you go home, you might get a little bit depressed because you miss here.\n\nat least you aren't stuck with the lifelong condition that some people have to take medication for and fight with~ even though i know right now it probably doesn't seem like there is any difference right now.\n\nchin up, be proud that you are doing something with your life that will pay off in the future. give yourself a pat on the back and know that this is only a temporary situation.
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even if you can you better think long and hard about that! i moved out when i was very young and by doing that you make decisions that you may regret later. my advice is stay where u r and go to school unless you r being abused if so seek help
668537
go to the doctor and get treated for depression.\nit sounds like that is more of the problem than your ex.
208183
Let yourself grieve first, when your alone.  Then surround yourself with good friends and go out.  Try not to have a rebound chick cause it could make you miss her more.  Just go do things for yourself and allow yourself to grieve. LOL!  : )
488010
It's good that you seem like a good man if you are showing all the signs that you love and care for her. However, your girl seems to have had enough of you for whatever reason. I think she may feel overwhelmed by the living arrangement you guys have chosen and she finally figured out that she needs her space. Maybe living together put a strain on the relationship and she feels smothered. You can't make her stay if she so desperately wants to go.
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well i'm going through the similar thing but what i've done is gone to stay with my sister for a few days but if you got any close friends or family go and stay with them for a few days and see how you are after it and if u still upset and feel the same way then ask your friends or family if you can move in with them till you get a place and try hang out with other boys or go clubbing
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It doesn't sound like he was your everything if you were depressed even when you were around him. The best way to get over a guy is to let him go. Have one day where you cry and are depressed and eat cookie dough and let yoursself feel all the pain. He must not be your soul mate if he's treating you badly because your soul mate should never treat you badly. If you were constanly fighting, you weren't happy, and realtionships should make you happy. If sounds like you were simply codependant on this guy and you don't know what you're going to without him. It sounds like you need him and you need to realize that you don't. Hang out with your girl friends, reconnect with your family. Move on and stop sitting in your pity just because it's comfortable, you deserve to treat yourself better, and to find a person that will truly care for you.