Is it a bad thing to cry in front of bullies and your friends?
611571
Well you saw something bad happen and you cried. There isn't anything wrong with that. If someone is picking on you about it don't worry. They are just dumb!
607801
Move around in groups.  Stick with close friends.  I was teased and picked on alot in junior high school.  One day I just decided to ignore them.  And, you know what?  From that point on, I didn't notice whether they made fun of me or not.  I just went about my business, and chilled with my friends.\nPhysical bullying is a another story.  You will need the intervention of an adult, if that is the case.
260713
Yes it is bad what u should do is sit that friend down and ket them know that you cqan befriend them and other people at the same time. You should never make a friend feel left out. Take all of them out oneday and see if they are a ggod pair then u all can hang out together. Just remember you cant please everybody just be yourself and Im sure you will find a true friend.
549836
i cut myself sometimes.. bcoz heaps of bad things happen in my life.. nd lots of ppl hate me.. nd im not emo and if i really like a guy nd i go out with them nd i really really love them but they dont feel the same way nd they break up wit u\nnd u feel like u r heaps hated..\n\nits to let all ur anger out
247089
do you whine and cry or bust in to tears about a low grade ? seems like more to it then what your saying or trying to hide. why not ask him/her to tell you why they think that way
1172198
It sounds like you are choosing the mask of agression to keep from allowing yourself to be sad?  You miss your ex-boyfriend---but can't open up enough to tell him that, instead you use agression to make a contact with him.  When talking with friends rather than tell them you were hurting, you lashed out..it's our animal instinct to lash out when we're wounded.  (Ever try to take care of a family pet when it was injured?  ...sometimes you wind up being bitten when all you wanted was to clean the wound, or offer food and water...)\n\nFind a friend, parent or sibling---with whom you are comfortable, someone you trust---and open up...cry, talk about your feelings.  Maybe then you can quell the anger???\n\nTake care
43590
Something sad happened in your past. And i am sure you got all  the pity you could take from close and not so close people. But life goes on. You have new sorrows and new happy moments. So there is really nothing weird in telling people about it. I am sure you appear fine to them, so they have no reason to feel sorry for you.
595305
No ... you will demonstrate that you have a heart :) it's oki if you cry !
327810
Those kind of 'friends' you don't need.  Drop the loser!  Some use a so called friendship to get close enough to hurt you and make themselves look better.  Those people have low self esteem and bolster it by hurting others and making them look bad.  It is the same as bullies.  They cover up their insecurities in different but similarly hurtful ways.  Eventually, people will get to know these losers for what they are.  Try not to let it get to you, it just feeds the fire for them.  Tell people who listen to these persons to consider the source, to consider what kind of person he/she is and what they like to do to people.  Tell them that if they want the truth, to ask you...otherwise, they are just as bad as the rumor mongers.  Sorry for your mess, I hope this helps a bit.
499534
Well I'm no expert but I think you may have a problem, and I don't mean to sound cruel but I mean a mental one. There are people who just feel it gives them some kind of relief from stress or anxiety or anger when they do harm to themselves. I hope you don't actually hurt yourself though. Next time you feel that way my suggestion is call your closest female friend and just spill it all out, and yes that means cry too if necessary. You will feel a lot better I promise!!! Good luck and Take care
521342
yes, i think that it's a good thing, i know this because i had my highschool prom on wednesday night and two of my best frends who were dating spit up the night before, and she ended up getting drunk and asked one of his best frend out and when he found out, he cryed, he got drunk and he got pissed off about it, it's always good to cry, whatever the circumstance, me and my own girlfrend now have to help them sort things out and get things as close as back to normal, althouh it never will be
2417
me as a people person i would go up to the friends thats being bad and talk to them if you listen and try to hammer in that you are listining people will talk they may have some bad pent up feelings that just came out that way. so talk is all i can say.
762273
well i was bullid once im in 8th grade and what i did was when the girl made fun of me i ended up hitting her in the face i broke her nose and really messed her up. But i will proudly admit i whent about it all the wrong way. What you should do is just forget about what the person is saying. if she/he is making fun of you there scared of you or see you as some sorce of power so they will do what ever they can to keep you down and make you think your not a strong person. its all part of there plan and when they see your not botherd with it and you just forget about them they loose the power they have over you. dont let the person get the best of you and do what i did. your much stronger that they think you are you just need to show that to them. i hope everything goes good for you.   :) good luck.
728973
It's ok to cry.  Our culture tells every man to not show his feelings, but that's not a very healthy way to live.  Showing your feelings, not being afraid to cry, makes you a stronger person than someone who can't show his feelings.  You are stronger because you can deal with what is inside you.  They can't.\n\nPS:  When a girl sees a man cry, she wants to comfort him, shower him with love and affection.  If you want to get your girlfriend into a session of intense love-making (not just sex), do something emotional, like watch a movie, that will get those eye juices flowing.  She won't be able to resist.
689518
stick to your morals eventually they will give up either there your friends and respect you or if they continue to pressurise you then they really are not true friends ,and maybe you should consider distancing yourself from this bullying crowd
216744
It's a horrible feeling to think nobody cares but I garuntee you there is lots of people who do care and you don't realise it.  As for school, don't worry about them it might seem like a long way away now but believe me before you know it you will be out of school in the real world with real people who have more important things to do than bully somebody, and you will meet people who accept and like you for who you are.  Chin up!!!!
371086
I don't like bullys. And it has been my experience that people usually attack others personally because they are unhappy about things in their own life. Picking on someone else distracts them from their own faults. Its not fair and sad but it is what we have to deal with. As for class clowns, the ones I went to school with were cool and usually made jokes at themselves.