I'm a snoop, but she lied!  Help???
597766
tha past is tha past jus talk to her about tha book
456226
NEVER GIVE HER A REASON TO LIE TO YOU!\nUsually, you're wanting to know something that isn't your business, so she will just WITHOLD THE INFORMATION, not lie.
686232
Unfortunately, she knows you cheated before. Now, you are climbing a mountain to get back up to a level playing field.\n\nThe ONLY way to get her to believe you is to go out of your way to make her feel secure. She doubts you, so you will have to work overtime to keep her from running away.
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I'm sorry this is happening to you, but as you said you have not been a good girl. Lying is never a good thing, but if you can live with it more power to you. Now first you have to challenge you man's manhood. You have to seem upset that he will believe made up B.S. tips from a chick he doesn't even know. Then, show how much it hurts that rumors make him question you loyalty to him. Don't over do it. Be suddle, but convincing. Also, consider the fact that he may know who this person is and they may have formed an alliance against you. YES, some females are dirty like that, anything to get your man. If this is true, there is a chance the battle is already lost. Also, you can use that you your advantage. Try to make him understand or believe that the chick will do or say anything to take him away. If is someone you told this information to, use that to your advantage by saying, "She heard all the wonderful things I said about you. Now, she wants you for herself." This boost his ego, and lets him know how happy he makes you and how much you appreciates him.\n\nI hope all goes well. Also...\n\nMoral of the story:\nDon't tell sluts all your personal business.
213840
Just because that's on there doesn't mean it's the truth. I have seen people put lots of thing that they aren't.  Talk to her and get to know her.  That's the only way you will know for sure.
253353
Did you do it? If you didn't I wouldn't worry too much about it. I also take it she is saying that she saw you do it. This being the case since you didn't do it, she is lying. So tell the teachers or whoever is involved that this girl is LYING.And since she is saying she saw you then she must be able to give a time frame. See if you can come up with an alibi of where you were and who you were with.
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It sounds like you want to test her.  Try this:\n\nuse a freinds car and park across the street from her work.  Call a flower shop, and have them send her a dozen roses, with a card that sais " from you know who ", or something just as obtuse.  when the flower guy delivers the flowers to her job, call her before she has a chance to use her phone\n   If she brings up the flowers, then you can admit they are from you, and you know she is not cheating on you, and you look like a prince for being so romantic.\n   If she didnt mention the flowers, You know she didnt have time to call her boyfriend, and ask if HE sent them. Then you know she is cheating on you, and you never had to ask, she never had to lie, and it only cost you about fourty bucks instead of a soap opera of deception.\n\nGood luck.
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If you take an internet game that seriously, you may want to consider edging yourself off the game.\n\nIf she broke your trust, its more of ethics thing.
319785
if you have any questions then ask her and tell her you only want the truth!! And if you still think she is cheating on you then you need to move on because you will worry your self to death!!
560209
Before you do anything,find out the truth.Either of them could have been lying.If it turns out your friend lied ,apologize to your now ex and dump the friend.
466374
Confront her. If she really is cheating, dump her. I'm sure you deserve someone much better than her. She's not worth your time. You deserve someone who will support you when you're away and not be talking to other guys. \n\nP.S. Thank You for serving our country. :)
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just ignore it, cuz im sure she lied about other stuff too, once a liar always a liar, deal with it
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Talk to her directly. Tell her that you are not exactly pleased about her lying to you for you feel that she didn't need to lie to you because you would've let her visit Sam if she had asked. There isn't a reason for her to "fear your wrath" but she does need to know that you are somewhat disappointed with her.
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Hey, I'm actually at the opposite end of your situation and just found out that I had been lied to about her past for a good 18 months. It's really hard and I don't know what to do. I was absolutely head over heals for this girl, and now mentally it is starting to crumble because I don't know they truth. She also won't talk about it because it bothers her too much, which in turn makes me feel extremely guilty when I need questions answered Unfortunately, her unwillingness to be open about it is driving my stress levels ridiculously high. \nI guess, from my perspective, what I wanted her to do most was to ask for forgiveness, which she never did. It's been nearly 4 months since the incident and she still hasn't asked. I wanted - needed - that.\nI also just wanted her to be honest. Completely honest. People are so bad about telling white lies or playing down the truth and that's what makes the imagination run wild.\nI think the best thing you could do is to comfort her. Ask her to forgive you for what you did (if you're sorry). And be willing to answer any questions she may have - letting her know she may get answers she doesn't want to hear.\nI think, after that, if she can't get over it, she'll never get over it. I'm debating that option now.\nIf she's not going to get over it, you will have to make the realization that there are more girls out there (billions) and you'll find one that will be more accepting and just as great as this one.\n\nI wish the best to you and I hope my experience has helped your insight. Good luck!
69359
If you can prove that she is telling lies on you then you could sue her for slander. If she is watching you and digging through your garbage you could try to get a restraining order against her so she will not be able to come around you or your house.
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I don't see why asking her what she's doing over the phone should make her think you don't trust her unless she is hiding something. I think nothing of being asked that q. It's just normal conversation. Maybe it's your approach?? Or maybe it's not you at all!! Good luck, sweetie!
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I get the feeling you're calling all women dishonest because you've had one bad experience.  Don't let her do this to you.  You've got to trust.  Go out and meet someone new.  Spend time with her.  Tell her the truth about yourself.  She'll pay you the compliment of being honest with you, too.