What is love and why does it hurt so much to find out the person you love deeply doesn't love you as much?
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Love is the willingness to tolerate everything about a person so completely that you cannot live without them. It takes many, many years for relationships to evolve to this point. Various levels of infatuation precede love.
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Love is difficult for the reason is that you might not understand clearly deep inside your heart. You have to understand by searching the answer deep inside your heart where you as the only person can only understand the whole circumstances. Love isn't difficult, but some part it is like forgive your enemy or other peoples and give loves not sex with great support. Love could be meant in many way that can or can't be fully express.
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You can never quantify love.  Realistically, sometimes one person loves the other more and other less but it does not necessarily mean that the relationship is not going to work.\n\nFor example, you might love your bf more (if that's the way you feel), it doesn't mean to say that he doesn't love you.  He may love you and want to marry you...it's just that you are more affectionate/expressive. or your love for him is really really great. \n\nWhat if he doesn't love you as much as you love him? It doesn't mean to say that he doesn't love you enough to marry you. You get what I mean?\n\nLove is love. Why measure it? If you both love each other and would be willing to spend the rest of your days together, it doesn't really matter who love whom more or less.
663718
your love for your spouse and your love for your parents is a different kind of love ,or atleast should be, so you can't really say which one is deeper
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Love is when you stop thinking about yourself and only about someone else and their feelings without even realizing you are doing it.
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Love to me means a feeling that is so strong that it can make even the most stubborn people appologize.  It makes your heart skip a beat when you think about that special person.  Its the feeling of not getting enough sleep at night because you are still smiling and on a high from being with that person.  Love is also being able to talk to that person for hours and never getting bored.  Knowing how the person feels about something and working to make the other persons life better.  Its putting all of their wants and needs infront of your own.  I know its cliche but if you are in love than you know it.  Because you want to be with that person every second of everyday not because of the physical but because of how you feel when your around him/her.  Its deffinitly emotional and its not that easy to tell the two apart.
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Its hard to describe, I guess its just a part of life, we cry when we are happy and sad. Love is just complicated nobody really knows what to do. Maybe it hurts to be happy because you are with someone you love and hope nothing will tear you two apart and in your mind you are wondering if you two will stay together.
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Because it goes deep into your heart.  so when things are going well - it can feel SOOOO good - but when they fall apart for some reason - it is one of the deepest hurts a person can feel.  \n\nBeing in love is a difficult thing - because one must be willing to expose him/herself to potential pain in order to accept and revel in the wonderful pleasures of being in true love.
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Wow, this is a hard one! Love is putting that persons needs ahead of yours! Love is feeling something so deep in your heart, that you are about to burst! Love is missing a smell, a look , a touch and never being able to replace it. Love is holding your grandchild for the first time. Love is crying when your child goes to school the first day and leaves you.Love is your cat sitting on your lap and purring so contently. Love is opening your heart to all the possibilities of another human being touching your life in even the smallest way. Love is giving with no expectations. Love is painful and lonely. Love is full of laughter and joy! Love is life and without it, nothing is worth living!
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You know when you are truly in love - when it does it doesn't make sense anymore, you don't know why you feel that way about them, you just do
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if you have to ask then you don't love love is just knowing without strings trusting them with your life thinking of them night and day always in a good way thinking of spending the rest of your life with someone
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Love does hurt, but at the same time, love can feel like the most wonderful thing in the world!  Why?  No one knows.
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Chances are love will hurt.  But love is also a lot of other things.  Good Things.  Things that can't be brought into words because it wouldnt do the feeling justice.  You might hurt while in love but you will be suprised about how much you learned in the end.  It's worth it ;)
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Yes i think that that saying is true. love is the most wonderful thing that a person could experience. yes it may hurt to loose the one that you love but over time that pain subsides and you are left with wonderful memories of that one special person that you had in your life.
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It is hard to say but I think it is not love that hurts it's losing it that hurts. If you love someone and they leave you can almost feel your heart break in two.
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I've had a problem with the same question. I've come to find out that if you really love someone and you seperate or your away for a while and you can't stop thinking of them and it begins to hurt, your in love. But, if the same thing happens and the only thing you really miss is being shacked up with them then it's lust. Love is very complicated and very painful. No words can ever express real love it's something that you feel deep down. Love can be different things to different people it really depends on you. Sit down alone and think about it.
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love hurts for sure wen it's broken..but to actually feel being loved..it's the greatest feeling in the world..it means that no matter wat happens the person who u love and who loves u is always there for u