Do looks really matter to women?
610211
good question.look DO NOT matter in the sense that if you fall in love with someone you're only going to have eyes for them anyway.looks DO matter in the sense that when you fall in love and you only have eyes for them that you realize they're total eye candy! :p  you have to realize, you might be a perfectionist..there is someone out there for everyone as everyone in the world has different tastes..someone might have a thing for tattoos, or scars, another for smooth perfect skin..someone else might go for short guys, another for super-tall.  you're unique-and that's why someone will fall for you. all YOU have to do is enjoy it.\n\nhowever, the key point here that i'm sensing is that you're not loving yourself-if you think you're slightly overweight-and this is one of the things you mention bout your whole self in two lines, then i'm guessing that youre probably weighing yourself down with guilt and negativitiy as well.  could that be stopping you from going out and living a better life?  if so, just see if you can lose that bit of weight you think makes you look bad..you will feel so much better-emotionally, and physically.\n\ngood luck.
1173478
Attractive people have always, and will always have an easier time of things; from being served first in a crowded bar to being selected for a promotion at work. But as far as the things that REALLY count are concerned (i.e. family, friends, happiness), appearance has little bearing. At the end of the day beauty fades, but a good heart, intelligent mind, and caring disposition stay with you for a lifetime.
63652
I am a female, and no i don't think that, I find that with my past relationships my looks were just a bonus, if the girl has a great personality, then there really isnt a need for great looks or nice rack or a firm rear. so if you find that you like this girl with an amaxing personailty and colorful aura, then no it isnt based on looks, im pretty average and none of my relationships are based on looks and ive dated some of the best looking guys around.
541884
Yes, in fact i think you will find that most men who after seeing an average looking womens personallity shine they begin to really see her as more physically attractive. I know i do.\n\nSo yes, i hope so that is becuase i am average looking at best so i hope this standard works both ways.
437671
Yes, but not everything is about looks.  They just help.
1084203
looks matter 2 some xtent. bt  i personally feel the outer look is not at all important. bcoz outerlook doesnt exist 4 life long. wht it matters is ones personality which ll help u 2 identify tht person. so 4 me i would prefer beautiful personality n average looks.
807373
Honestly?  I don't think it matters.  The guy I was in love with for YEARS before I met my husband isn't overly good-looking, but he's very intelligent, kind, interesting, talented (he writes poetry, sings, and plays the guitar), a good father, loyal, sensitive...basically, he's the perfect man.\nWe weren't meant for each other though.  Still really good friends.\nMy point is, looks don't really matter so much, as long as you take good care of yourself, and you pay more attention to your personality.\nAs a sidenote, if your avatar really is how you look, you're not bad-looking at all.  You kind of remind me of Peter Steele (lead singer of Type O Negative).
519127
No. Looks aren't everything, but they ARE something.
1103895
I would. A persons condition or looks should not matter. Pesonallity, trust, honesty and love is all that counts!
136129
Yes, but you have a lot of work to overcome our initial superficial thoughts when we first meet you.  If you're an awesome guy, be confident, be outgoing and show the ladies that looks (or height) aren't the most important thing.
321825
Well looks are only part of it.  I know that one thing I find sexy about models is their confidence level.  I've met some women that wouldn't be considered very attractive physically by society standards that really shine because of confidence.  Of course there are guys that are so superficial that all they care about are looks but those guys are typically losers.
28354
As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
697958
yes, sadly.  looks are so important in our world that people only see the outer layer of our beings.  why should it matter if you are a little overweight? a little older? not too pretty?  these are the hidden prejudices.  and don't let anyone tell you they aren't there. \nolder employees are a valuable resource:\nolder women re-entering the work force aren't looking for husbands and trying to start families, so they would be more liable to stay in your employ longer.  \nolder employees aren't apt to be phoning in 'sick' [read hung-over /stoned from too much partying].\nmany men, and women, miss out on wonderful relationships because they are looking for that 'perfect' person.  and employers are the same. sad but true .\nif i were in h.r. i would be different from the norm and hire that gal that is a little frumpy or that fella with the 'not so perfect'  teeth as long as they fulfilled other qualifications.  i would suspect they would be far more loyal employees than the 'pretty ones' if only because i gave them a chance.  pretty people don't have to try as hard as they quite often can get by on their looks.\nhaving said all that there are exceptions to every rule!  my theory may not always prove to be right, but i'm thinking it is most of the time!
580019
Looks are very important in a relationship.  You have heard of “love at first sight”.  That doesn’t mean that the guy has to be great looking or the woman has to be sexy.  It just means that at the time those two people saw each other they were drawn together because of the way they looked and they connected with each other.
1022506
Looks are important no matter what anyone says but you have to know how to talk to a woman also.Relax and talk as if you were talking to anyone. Not as if you are trying to get laid if you are going around trying to get laid all the time you never will.Women see right through that s--t and it don't turn them on I will guarantee you.My best tip -Try to just make women friends and not make women.
660565
Not all chicks are that superficial so in my point of view its not really that important.At the end of the day it's whats inside that counts.I can and have looked past that.
672736
no .... it all depends how a gurl looks like the hight dont matter