I was preganat during my divorce. I said I wasn't. I got caught. Is the divorce still legal?
607457
I would say yes but you could be penalized for lying if it went back to court\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
1092554
I think your ego has been severely injured. It just isn't morally right for a man to kick out his wife and baby. But it did happen so you must heal yourself first. Cry long and hard and get it all out of your system. Come to terms with what he did and then move on. He has to deal with that wrong-doing,  NOT YOU!\n\nAfter you have done that, stay busy, busy, busy.... map out a plan to get your life back together again. This plan should not include him (or any person that doesn't respect you / baby). \n\nFrom now on, everything you do is for the betterment of you and that baby. Raise that baby with much love and devotion and if you should happen to find the right man on the way, then he could pitch in and help you.  But until then your baby has only YOU to depend on. \n\n~good luck.
579100
yes i managed ot have my ex wife's parental rights revoked.  she didn't do anything wrong but i have more money so my lawyers were able to do it somehow.  they were really expensive lawyers.
576688
Divorce is a very personal thing, especially where you have three children.  If you're thinking that a public display with shame him... he left you pregnant on Mother's Day; he has no shame.  Chances are, you'll get more than you bargained for and a lot less satisfaction than you think.  Remember also that you'll be dragging your children's lives into the public eye.  Is that something they signed on for?  I wouldn't do it.
670117
I understand that you say you don't want to get divorced right now but this situation is not only bad for you but also for your kids. You need to get away from that. Yes, you should definitely document what's going on. Go get a lawyer and find a counselor or a shelter. Don't let him control you like this. Do you have familty you could go to or at least talk to? How about someone in your synagogue (sorry if I spelled that wrong)?
743478
If you are in a contested divorce with complicated custody and property issues, it may be legal, but unwise.  Anything you do may be used in court to show your character.
941979
You could never loose what you never owned. People will be people no matter what and can always be counted upon to make unpredictable moves in life. \n\nGetting a divorce is not the end of the world but the beginning of a new life for yourself. You will struggle and have some heartache at the beginning, but, not to worry, it's normal.\n\nNever allow anyone to put you on hold or take away the precious minutes we spend being alive. Begin anew and the best of luck.
1011939
Your story brings tear to my eyes. Maybe all you can do is emotionally fall apart. You need to grieve, and better now than having collapses when your baby is a toddler and getting on your nerves. It is going to be a whole new life for you, and you have to be prepared for some real suprises from him.  Get you court case ready - be prepared for even worse things - you don't know who your husband really is until you divorce him. Many men fight for custody when it comes time to think about child support - so be "prepared."  HE ALREADY HAS A NICE LITTLE STEP MOTHER THERE AND READY - SO STAY AHEAD OF HIM. Yes life is very cruel that when you are at your most traumatised you have to think about such horrid and practical things - but that is the way of divorce. It is the worst hell you will ever experience. I feel so sick that this is happening to you while you are pregnant and so terribly in need of protection and love. You have to starting thinking about the man you love as an 'opponent' now. It is easy to say but I know that it is a very difficult thing to do. Feelings are what thay are. What you need is to find people out there who will listen to you and let you cry on their shoulder. People are VERY IMPATIENT and they will expect you to get over things very quickly, so have more than one friend to lean on. You have a precious baby on the way and taking care of that baby (alone) will be fill up many spaces because of the overwhelming responsibily. You really have to find compassionate non-condemning, humble friends who can be there for you. You will be poorer - for sure so find some single mothers with babies - because they will be your greatest support system. Your social status has just changed dramatically - and that is one of the most difficult parts of single parentig.  So be "ready." I am sorry that I have very little that is positive to say. Just know that my heart breaks for you.
509599
He can accuse you of it, but it is a no-fault divorce state.  It may have some impact in arbitration for child custody, but even there it wouldn't mean much.  Custody and visitation is now allotted by percentage and unless you are a physical, psychological, safety threat to your children you will still have visitation, even if it is supervised.
871087
getting a divorce doesn't mean that you are no longer married. you are still legally married. Cheating is only if the wife doesn't know and you both are together as a couple. Of course if you are getting a divorce, chances are you are not living in the same house. In that instance it would not be cheating since you and her have separated and parted your own ways until the divorce is final. The proper thing to do is wait until its final. Makes it better for everyone and then you wont have to ask this question.
160885
It depends on what state you are living in now (presumably the same state that granted the divorce), and their laws governing such things.  Depending on the state, yes, he certainly can prevent you from doing so.
580189
Sure--afterall, divorce documents are legal records.  I would give a call to the local Family Court and ask the clerk for the name & number of the person to contact.  Good luck to you!
401029
Yes.  Speak to a family law attorney.
19164
Yes, it is called filing "In Pro Per", and is the cleanest, least troublesome way to do an uncontested divorce. Just go to your County Clerk's Office and ask for the forms for Dissolution and Uniform Custody Order....if issues DO arise about which you and you ex-to-be do not agree, many jurisdictions offer mediation services free or at very little cost.\nGood luck.\n\nPS, there is absolutely NOTHING illegal about not hiring a lawyer, the person below is mistaken in that statement.
570286
Were you married? File a paternity suit if you were not, and let the law find him. That's just wrong on his part, in all of these years not to have wanted to see his daughter. I couldn't live with myself knowing I had a child and wasn't a part of their life.
871889
yup..\nmy ex and I had shared custody. two weeks with each parent. we lived in the same city. no child support.
21679
According to the local Children's Bureau here where I live, the moment my ex wife left me.\nThroughout reconciliation attempts I still paid.\nFor the record I became the custodial parent after a fairly amicable divorce and never shirked the support obligation.