how to be a perfect wife?
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First off there is no such thing as a perfect person. And having a perfect wife would be boring. I've been married for nine years and if my wife and I never argued or fought or disagreed on anything for nine years I don't think I'd like our relationship as much. Don't try to be perfect. Be open minded and try to grow with your partner and he/she should do the same.
92940
show her that you love her. adore her. always put her interests ahead of yours. never hurt her. always respect her. always treat her like the goddess that she is. obey her every whim. cherish every moment with her. listen with interest to everything she says. never forget anything that is important to her (birthdays, anniversaries, valentine's day, etc.). never miss the opportunity to buy her gifts.
1002998
Things men need to know about marriage... Happy wife , Happy life..  make ur wife happy and she'll be puddy in your hands.. and the key is saying "yes dear" as much as possible..lol.. and dont stop remembering why u fell in love with her and all u did to get her , men tend to forget that women are emotional creatures and need to have their emotions fed on a regular baisis.. Think about it, Most girls that have good fathers, are daddy's little angels, they've had their dads attention all their lives, made to feel they are special, and nothing in this world could ever compare to them.. then they marry a man that farts in bed, cant remember to put the toilet seat down, and scratches his crotch on a regular bases and says "babe can u hand me a beer" .. wow how lucky are we.. lol..  U want a happy marriage, u better start realizing how good u have it to have her, appreciate her even on her bad days cause god knows we put up with alot of mens BS lol.. Love her, cherish her, and realize ya'll arent a walk in the park either .. lol
1048928
We have a pretty steady marriage but no marriage is perfect at all times because no two people are perfect that are in it. Marriage takes work devotion and care. And you must work at it to make it successful and last. Marriage can be heaven on earth if you treasure it and make it top priority in your life. I have seen Jimmy and Karen Evans series the Rock Solid marriage and i love it. It has taught me alot and my wife loved it too. In the beginning i got weak and did things on the internet i am not proud of but my wife was a very forgiving person and a praying wife and we worked through it together and now are stronger then ever. I love my wife more and more every day. Marriage is what you make of it. The more work and time and dedication you put into your marriage the better it will be but if you dont put the time and dedication into your marriage it will fall apart and it will be sad and not happy.
375749
a mixed of a bit of this and that to make a perfect woman!\nand also grace, wise, patience and elegance
932583
Get yourself into a good Christian church, get saved, start reading the Bible, and ask for guidance from its elders.  The best thing you can do for your husband is pray for him.\nThe book "The Power of the Praying Wife" would help you a great deal.
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how to please her,love her,
560984
Never forget that no relationship is perfect. If there's a perfect relationship, then something is seriously wrong. You have to take the ups with the downs. Don't always expect it to be happy times. Marriage is totally about compromise, so don't ever expect to always get your way or you're doomed to fail. Never go to bed mad...stay up and fight till it's resolved or you'll carry the bitterness with you into the following days and unresolved issues will come up to bite you in the *ss later on. Don't ever bring up past fights or your partner's wrong-doings to throw in their face, that's just mean and spiteful. Learn to walk away. If your partner says something that p*sses you off don't let it get to you, simply walk away with your head held high learn to say "yes hunny" when your partner says something, even if you don't agree...saves from getting into an argument. These are just a few things I've learned :D.
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just be creatively sexy, lingerie & camisoles with matching panties and try to match them with some high heeled shoes these are jut some ideas to think of. Mind you, you want to look your sexiest! How to move...just thrust your hips and pelvis turning around from front to back and make sure you get all in his face but don't let him touch you at all! and you can choose any good music that has a great beat, if you know how to dance then you could pretty much move seductivly to any type...Good Luck, this will bring extra spice to your marriage. This lets your husband know that you still are in love with him and will do what ever you think it takes to please him and to go the extra mile for him....
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u should be a man possessed.  become enraged and powerful.  u should almost be a character...there is no husband and wife at that point, there is u and ur prey.  u are a predator and she is ur victim.  THROW her HARD  against a wall and give it to her with reckless abandon.  Pull her hair HARD until she lets u know how hard it is with her noises.  Tie her up.  Pretend u are raping her.  Grab her and bend her over ur lap and spank her until her as* turns red.  Then, after u do that, touch her pu**y and when its wet from ur anger and power, call her out on it and f*ck her with her as* in the air and c*m all over her face.  Bite her.  Those are just a few options...
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Relax and enjoy it.  Remember that a marriage is a lot of hard work, and takes a lot of commitment.  The more you share with each other the greater the reward.  Don't let arguments fester, and don't dwell on all the little things that ultimately aren't that important.  And last of all realize that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and that over time the intesity of your feelings will fade some but that is normal and not a sign of anything being wrong with your relationship.
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Well the perfect wife for me is someone that I consider my best friends. One that can take a joke without taking it seriously. One that I can vent with in bad times and one that will be the number one person I will call when I have excited about something. One that shares great communication good/bad with me. One that loved to be passionate and affectionate with me. This one sounds lame, but I love it... One that ask's me to go to another room while she gets dressed to go out with me (asthough I am picking her up, but I am just in the next room) because her being all the above things just makes her beautiful to me enough but seeing her open like the bedroom door knowing she got all ready for me is the ultimate. She has to get along and be well loved by everyone including my friends and not bad mouth beautiful women. Men hate that!
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Get in touch with what you REALLY want in a relationship.\nWrite on a piece of paper what you desire in a relationship.\nBe reasonalbe, don't look for absolute perfection in another.\n\nKnow yourself, your needs and desires.\nUse the Visioning Process to envision what you want most out of your life.\n\nBe very honest and truthful in your relationships, communicate on a high level and really LISTEN to your partner and what their hopes and needs are. \n\nWork on knowing yourself so that you become as completely self aware as possible.\n\nWhen you discover who you are and what you really want, you will find who and what you really really want.\n\nWhen you find it, you will commit out of joy.\n\nGood Luck.
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I understand. I don’t know what I’d do if I wasn’t married, but let me share some of the things I have learned in almost 20 years:\n\n1) Courtship is important. And long courtships are best. In our fast-paced world, especially as young adults, we are always rushing around. The best way to divorce-proof a marriage begins before you ever meet your mate-to-be, during the dating process. Serial dating, especially when it involves premarital sex, is a course in how to get divorced. We end up hooking up and then when things go sour we run away. Don’t get involved with someone who isn’t a friend. And date at least 2 – 3 years before getting married. That way you can get over the initial 18 month crush where everything about the other person is fascinating and the whole infatuated view of “The way you eat is so cute – it sounds like bells ringing,” to “If you clang your fork off of your teeth again I’m gojng to shove it through the back of your throat.” Not kidding – real conversation between my wife & I in the first year. I’m glad to say she never jammed the fork through my throat and I learned to use my lips as a cushion between my fork & teeth. \n\n2) Keep Christ at the center of your marriage. It seems obvious, but it is essential. Every time you notice that ring on your finger, pray for your spouse. It doesn't have to be long or even audible. Just a quick mental thanks to God for your mate, or a quick thought of, "God be with her/him." \n\n3) Love is NOT give and take. There is no take in love. Read 1 Cor. 13 (the love chapter). Love is giving. I give to my wife. She gives to me. If both are giving no one needs to take. Develop this mindset and remember that this is what marriage is meant for. Eph 5 takes a lot of heat for telling wives to submit to their husbands. But it also tells husbands to submit to their wives. Give + give = love. Give + take = selfishness = unhappy = divorce.\n\n4) Never use derogatory names for each other, even in fun. Husbands, if you call your wife "old lady" that is what you will see in her over time. I call my wife "my bride", especially when I am upset with her. That way I remember that wedding day, all those dreams, etc.\n\n5) When kids are involved it is easy to place them in front of your spouse. While time with kids is important & shouldn't be neglected, those kids will grow up & move out one day. Your mate will still be there and you'll need something else to talk about besides the kids. Make a habit of dating. Guys, even ask your wife out on a date. Arrange the babysitter. Often couples in church can provide a wonderful service for each other by trading Fridays (or whatever day is appropriate).\n\n6) Get to know and socialize with an older Christian couple or two who have a happy long-term marriage. Learn from how to treat each other from them. Remember that we all face similar adaptation issues when we are first married & they have worked those issues out. Talk with them about what they had to work out in either early married years and how they resolved things. This can be one of the biggest benefits you ever have, especially if you come from a divorced family or a family with strained relations.\n\n7) It may seem obvious but pray together. Have individual quite times, but have a shared quite time as well, at least once a week. And no matter how much you think it will hurt or bother your mate, talk. Holding it in doesn't make it go away - it only makes it fester until you explode all over each other. Talk and if agreement needs intervention, see your pastor or a Christian counselor.\n\nMarriage is very frightening - especially for those of us who came out of dysfunctional families. But the single biggest cause of dysfunction in my experience (and in my family) was selfishness. Give to each other & to the Lord, and you too can have a happy marriage. God bless you & best wishes!
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every day just remember how much you love your husband and his child. that helps alot
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Commitment\nCommunication\nselflessness and giving\nforgiving\nloving selflessly\ntreating them the way you want to be treated\nHonesty and not hiding things\nFaithfulness\nrespect and trust\nnot trying to change the other person instead work on yourself to be the best spouse you can be for that person.\nHaving God the center of your marriage. Working through things together when things get rough or tough.\nhttp://www.marriagetoday.org
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Make a list of 10 qualities you want in a wife.  If she has 7 you are lucky.  However, your asking this question causes me to question your suitability.