How to live life happily without anything like no family/friends/loved ones/money/education/respect ?
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Take up fishing.  Its relaxing and you can forget about everything.
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You can be alone without being lonely. Learn to be happy with yourself.\nI know from experience.
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Get out of the house and make real friends by doing what you like to do.  People have few needs.  There are physical needs (food, water, shelter), secutiry need, social need, esteem need, and feeling of self worth.  \n\nWhat do you like to do?  Better yet, what would you do if you were to die in three months?  After you answer that, get out and do it. \n\nBest wishes
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Do you mean the perfect life that society wants you to live?\nThat's easy:..get married, have kids, don't drink, don't smoke, becomes a good christian/or whatever religion./never divorce/have a seemingly happily ever after life until you die\n\nOr your very own perfect life?\nLearn to accept the bad along with the good. We always want more than what we have. We always only see what we want to see. You yourself determine your destiny. No one else. If you think that you have a perfect life, you will. If you think you are a screwup, then you are one. There is no one right answer to this question.
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Find your own success, and don't rely on thier success to carry you for anything, the best thing you can do for yourself is be independant.  Never rely on someone else to give you your happiness in whatever form that might be, and don't ever allow someone elses presense in your life be so controlling that you depend on them for your well being, not even your rich parents.
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Live life to the fullest and do wahtever you want to do in moderation and without hurting anyone. Live in the present and forget the past and the future
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1) retire and live off pension or social security;\n2) live in a barter-based community;\n3) be a non-working spouse or child;\n4) collect disability or unemployment insurance;\n5) win the lotto;\n6) join a nunery or monastery;\n7) become a public charge\n\nThis isn't my area of expertise, but I'm sure there are plenty more ways in which people survive without jobs. Is that what you want to do?\n\n_______________________
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to live life itself...
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when you realistically look at it\nlife really isnt that great..... but i am not going to theorise OK??\n what makes life decent proper and good hmmm \nok well you have your family, and you care for them well put yourself in their shoes. imagine if one of your family members died. you would be crushed right. well if you was gone they would be crushed also... so that makes life worth living    you want to see your family happy?\n\ndont you want to see the accomplishments of your family memebers ( i dont know what your family is like) but like for me i want to see my little sister graduate from high school, and colledge, and get married and succeed. for me there are so many things i still want to accomplish. \n\nyou should find a hobby or something\n\nheres an idea make a huge list.... everything that you want to do or possible could want to do, talk with your family about it.... a life goal!!! something that you can try to accomplish yourself. it could anything really   visit each state, go bumgy jumping, get into the guiness book of world record.
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Do some introspective thinking and find out what *you* want. Let loose and party for hours without caring about a thing. Learn to accept people for who they are and find people who accept you for who you are, not what they expect you to be. Surround yourself with things/people/surroundings that make you feel at peace. Never forget that you only live once, and anything you've been dying to do, or think of spur of the moment, don't let fear stop you, go do it. All in all - live lively.
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What's missing is a life that nourishes the individual you were when you were single and childless. When you cannot live your interests, you become trapped in a life you don't want because of the demands and obligations required of you - i.e., EVERYONE expects and wants YOU to SERVE THEIR INTERESTS.\n\nYou have to create your own world, private time, and special place that you can thrive in, that allows you to live your interests without neglecting your responsibilities.\n\nTo do this, get some 3x5 cards; on each card create a 10 minute chunk of time (6 cards equals 1 hour; 24 sets of 6 cards equals 144 cards for 24 hours).\n\nRecord on each card how you use your time. Determine how you use your time each hour for a full day. Repeat for seven days.\n\n(My time is up but I will return later to finish this).\n\nI'm back.\n\nCorrection: Repeat for 21 days (it takes 21 days to form a new habit, you will see a pattern in your routine when you reread your 21-day journal.\n\nYou can use a notebook pad as an alternative to 3x5 cards. And/or use a digital audio recorder to speak what you would write. The objective here is for you to become conscious of how you spend your time.\n\nStress equals conflict. Eliminate the conflict to eliminate the stress. If the conflict comes from being a mother of two (you can't eliminate the children), then the conflict most likely comes from the possibility that "their existence" has short-circuited your individual development (i.e., you can't do the things you wanted to do before motherhood, and now you feel trapped in a life you didn't plan for and/or no longer want - you feel that by the time the children are all grown up, your productive years will have passed you by).\n\nIf my assessment is correct, if you could do it all over again, knowing what you know now, you would have finished school, traveled, and would have done some other things while you were single and had the time, AND THEN you would have had children.\n\nRemember this principle (say it to yourself):\n\nEvery PRESENT action IS the FUTURE I create.\n\nWhat you do or don't do today shapes your tommorrow. What you don't realize is that you have always created your tommorrows unconsciously; AND that you can CONSCIOUSLY CREATE your tommorrow today.\n\nYou are the sum of your experience. Every past action shaped todays reality. If you were conscious of this principle in the past, you would have consciously chose what your life would look like today (who knows, your children may have not been in the picture, BUT if they would have been in the picture, it would have been by "conscious" choice).\n\nNow looking back over your past, consciously see what actions shaped todays reality. The 3x5 card concept is to mentally see and slow down time, and become aware of the present moment - because it is only in the present moment that you have the power to consciously create your desired future reality.\n\nOnce you record 21 days worth of time, review it, and look for patterns of behavior that shaped your environment. What you want to realize is HOW the environment is created, and WHAT causes the stress. Once you understand the source of the stress, you can consciously eliminate the source of the stress to eliminate the stress.\n\nFor example, if you cannot find time to do things for yourself because of a lack of a Time and Activity Management System, then you will know that you need to create such a system that structures and harmonizes all activities to the flow of your avaialable time (which you prioritize and create appointments for - i.e., make appointments for everything (especially the things you love), because appointed tasks always get done, unappointed tasks NEVER get done).\n\nBecause you can consciously create the future, define and create your ideal future environment, and determine what steps it will take to literally realize it, and then act on it.
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Newly single -- OK -divorced. \n\n1. No one to yell at you when you get home late. \n2  Don't have to pick up someone else's laundry. \n3. Don't have to ask what they want for dinner. \n4. Don't have to share the remote. \n5. Don't have to buy them their favorites.\n6. Don't have to explain yourself to anyone.\n7. Don't have to fight for the blanket. \n8. Won't run out of hot water. \n9. Don't have to put up with a drunk obnoxious asshole. \nand last, but not least...........\n\n10.  Freedom to do what you want (like chat on the 'puter all night)  when you want, and how you want. Without getting accused of anything, by anyone.
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Appreciate all the things you have acquired in life- material things, friends & family, your intelligence, this new computer Q&A forum, etc.\n\nMassage classes- nothing like a good rub down\n\nDaydream- maybe about a favorite time or a favorite place or an imaginary place\n\nGo to the spa- PAMPER Yourself.  take time for you in this busy world.\n\nmake your favorite meal- nothing like a little comfort food\n\nget outside & breathe the fresh air- this will revive you\n\nexcercise- this will get your blood flowing & give you an extra "kick"\n\nCooking classes- learn how the foods effect all your senses.  Enjoy the smell, colors, hear the fresh crisp slices & crunches, feel the way the fruits & vegetables are different, taste the exotic new dishes, etc.\n\nDance classes- something you never tried before like salsa, latino dance, ballroom dancing, irish dancing.  you'll be laughing in no time\n\nEat a bowl of ice cream- sundae would be fun, splurge on the calories here & there\n\nCall your friend- chat on the phone for hours \n\nMake sure there is plenty of light in your house- too dark is depressing\n\nPlan a date with somebody- go out to lunch with an old friend.  Talk about lots of things to get your mind off of whatever is bothering you. \n\nGo shopping- spending on yourself always helps a little\n\nCry it out- get rid of whats making you feel this way\n\nLook at old photo albums- smile at the memories\n\nClean your house so it smells & looks great- get rid of the clutter.  it makes you feel organized and much better!\n\nWalk on the beach- right where the waves crash & listen to all the sounds.  So peaceful.\n\nRent a convertible- let your hair down and drive a little faster than normal (don't be crazy) to a beautiful destination in your favorite weather\n\nPlan a vacation- somewhere you always wanted to go or just somewhere different\n\nRent your favorite comedy movies- laugh\n\nTake acting classes- this will keep your mind busy\n\nBabysit your nieces/ nephews, etc.- children show you how simple life can be\n\nHope this helps!
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First of all, take responsibility for your own life. Figure out what you believe, what you want in life, and how you think you should treat yourself and others. Life without religion need not be self-destructive. But, you have to realize that you are simply hurting yourself with the alcohol and drugs if you do them in excess. The same can be said for boys. Instead of trying to numb yourself or hide from your problems, think about what is right and work for it. Learn about the world around you. Learn to love, not just to need. Experience the beauty around you. You need not be muslim or christian or even religious to have a happy and fullfilling life. But you have to decide to do it.
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take it easy, live your life positively.\n\nok
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Get a book. Or try to start to talk to other people. Or you could start to hang out with your friends friends. Then you'll be one big happy family!
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do what you love to do like painting. playing guitar or piano... walk under the moonlight if that what's gonna make you smile, feel the breeze of the wind from the ocean or climb a mountain, enjoy the view and feel the fresh air flying across your hair... write poems, listen to music... be happy... life is too short.... no space to be lonely