my gf said we would only have to wait like 4 months to have sex.....?
612834
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????!!!!!!!!!!!\n\nHey, what do you mean by withdrawing her offer.\n\nSex from a girl is not a sale item - on offer, etc.\n\nYou dude and young punk should respect her wish.  In fact it is shameless of you to even expect it from her!\n\nYour little dicky is not a dip stick for every dip that you see!  Say, if you get her pregnant, are you ready to take the offer of a baby?\n\nYou probably still need to be supported both financially and emotionally by adults/parents, so you can't be ready to take up offer of sex.  Yes, you can take up offer of work, that will keep your brain occupied and your little brother too tired of needing comfort!  Got it!\n\nGetting a job and an education is also within reach!  Keep your little dipstick in your trousers and under those zippers.  They don't need to reach everything that moves!\n\nYour little brother or dip stick are there for a responsible role - to one day bring forth offsprings you can be responsible for and to continue the human race.\n\nNot strictly for pleasure, and definitely not for irresponsible pleasure.  Go get a job, and a life!
1057810
If he is truly respecting you then God bless him !\nIf he is not ready to tell you if something is wrong then he is afraid of losing you .or not sure that he just loves you and not someone else also .\nOr maybe he feels 3 months is not long enough to know some one be for having sex , again God bless him . Just because you have had sex be for doesn't  mean you have sex with the next one sooner .or at all, till marriage .\nHope this helps you , be patient ,it will all be clear in time .\nLove not Lust
347388
hahahaha!! okay ppl the gurlz serious maybe he is tryna say his ummmm is big,u know?What he doesn't know is that that will male you more curious  like hmmmmmmmmm!That is also good becauz atlease he has respect for you,to wait ,and not just smash(have sex,in n.o that's what we say when it's just u know non caring/loving sex) you.So,that's  good that he cares enuf to wait.
319076
why did you get married to her if you are getting a divorce four months later? that is just silly! i don't understand what the problem is or was. can you explain more? you should love your wife no matter what. and at least you have had sex more than i have and i have been married six months.we are still very happy and plan to keep it that way. you don't have to have sex to be happy. that is not all marriage is about.
1135054
Take your time. Your first meeting is NOT an advicable time to want to have sex. Show her how much you respect her and her body by abstaining. You are young and have plenty of time to get to the point of "sex" with her.  Besides, why risk pregnancy, STD's, or hurt feelings after. Respect yourself enough also to say NO. No contraception is full proof!!!!
1161780
to wait until she's ready, b/c if you pressure her into she's not  going to like it or like you, and 2ndly you should wait until your older and more mature to have sex
747877
Perhaps you two should wait a tad longer until you are fully educated on sexual activity.
1007188
If she said that she don't want to get involved with anyone for a while, then that's somewhat a good thing. She NEVER told you YES (NOR) did she tell you (NO)! That mean's there's still hope in the future. Maybe she is trying to she if your a patient guy, one who would be true to her, and willing to wait and prove it! Go out together (as friends) and get her to like and admire you more. Good Luck.
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Listen to her mother.  Obviously, the mother has a good reason..?  I'm judging from your spelling in your post that you're both minors...Seriously, unless you're prepared for a child and the responsibilities that come with, I would wait until you're in a relationship later down the road, to have sex.
462777
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.
717914
I would continue to be friends. Intercourse can wait, besides you both are too young and inexperienced. There is so much more to intercourse besides the physical act. In order to preserve her flower I advise you to wait and allow things to happen naturally. Please do not force the issue!
1023035
It's ok for you to date, but it may be unethical for you two to have sex as she is younger and she may not understand fully the consequences of sex also it is illegal in many countries. Best to wait til she's at least 16, but in the end it is her decision and yours.
384910
you got me confused,but I think I know what you mean. U wanna do it, but you have regrets (conscience). I personally think your too young, so wait on it. U mentioned you both respect each other and that makes the relationship reasonable. Why don't you both wait. Sex will always be there and in high school you can't turn the clock backwards to make things right.
353552
Having sex just to have sex is not a good idea.  With that said, if you two truly love each other and want to spend the rest of your lives together, than you need to have a discussion about sex with each other.  Talk about what you would do if she were to get pregnant, any expectations either of you have, and why you're both ready to lose your virginity.  After this talk if you both are on the same page with your feelings (like whether or not to keep a baby, have an abortion, or give it up for adoption; how it will change your relationship- because it will- and so on) than you need to go to Planned Parenthood and get information on birth control and how to properly use a condom.  Make sure that if she decides to take the pill or use another form of birth control that you use a condom for at least a couple of months.  Don't expect the first time to be mind blowing.  Most guys won't admit this, but they don't last very long the first few times they have sex because the sensations are so new.  I think our first time lasted about a minute.  Sex can sometimes be painful for a girl the first time, especially if her hyman hasn't broken yet.  She will probably feel uncomfertable and may even bleed.  It can help things if you use a lube like KY Jelly.  If she asks you to stop, than STOP!  There are better things in life than having sex.  Remember that this is something you can never give to another person, no matter how much you may want to.  Just make sure that you are really willing to give ALL of yourself to the other person before you decide to have sex.
152788
WELL, IN MY OPINION YOU SHOULD GET HER TO KNOW YOU BETTER AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOUR INTENTIONS ARE NOT ONLY TO HAVE SEX WITH HER BUT TO HAVE A NICE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. BE NICE AND DON'T BE SO DESPERATE ON GETTING HER TO SLEEP WITH  YOU THE FIRST DAY/MONTH, 2MONTHS, ETC. SHE'LL BE WITH YOU WHEN SHE TRUST YOU.
656146
when you are ready... I look at it like this...\nIf you are mature enough (not embarrassed) to protect yourself.  If you can buy whatever you need to keep yourself from getting pregnant or contacting an STD, and not feel like you are doing something wrong or forbidden then add another year... then you are ready.  There is nothing wrong with waiting.
620665
What you're doing is correct...  Marriage before sex.  It has been 4 years with this man...  If you are ready for marriage, I would sit down with him and ask him what and where this relationship is going..  \n\nIf both of you love each other, I don't see what you are waiting for....\n\nGod Bless!