aT 23, IS IT OK TO BE A VIRGIN? im asian&catholic&just waiting for that right man love,is that ok or horrible?
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It's a good thing.  That is something special you can give your future husband.\n\nI waited way longer than you because it took me that long to find the right man to marry.  I don't regret waiting for him.\n\nDon't let anyone pressure you into going against your beliefs or try to make you feel less than you are because you're waiting.  Besides, it's no one's business but yours.
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still a virgin at age 27
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Hi there,\nI know that the pressure of being a virgin is extremely hard for one to handle, especially in the Western societies that we live in; but virginity is worth striking for.  \nI'm in my 20s and the group of friends that I have is also in their 20s and we are all virgins.  I think the most important thing that one needs to keep in mind is that virginity is for ONESELF, not for anyone else (or sometimes you might wanna save it for you future husband).  Once you are determined about it, it would be less difficult when you think of whether to have sex or not.  \nMy friends and I choose not to have sex before marriage b/c we see SEX as LOVE, and we respect our body as well as our partners'.  When you love someone unconditionally, you don't just want to own the physical body, do you??  Moreoever, when one has premarital sex, the wedding is not something that precious and special anymore, don't you think???  What is it special about the wedding night if you've already know everything about the other person???\nI also have friends who had sex in their teen years and most of them regreted later on.  Most of them lived for the moment and after that, they are the ones who "loose".  Plus, when we are in our teenage years, we don't really know what love is!!!  Believe me, when you find the one who really loves and cares for you, he wouldn't might if you want to save sex for marriage.  (My bf and I both compromise on that, and we're pretty happy).  Hope you find this a helpful!!  Good luck!
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No, I don't.\nI will wait till married.\n\nThey who think as your question, I think it's just sex for pleasure. They don't think about marry at the moment, even about love ( if they really love each other, they would thinking about marry).\n\nMy opinion, virgin will marry with virgin, and not virgin with not virgin.
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I'd rather the man for me would be a virgin, if I ever find him, but I don't expect him to be. Virginity just doesn't seem to be important to very many people anymore.
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I haven't waited, but if I met a guy, and he wanted to wait until we got married, I wouldn't have a problem with that.  Sometimes I wish I had waited, virginity can be seen as a special gift to the right guy.
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to save yourself for the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with.\nIgnore the criticism you have the right to choose what you want with your body. Being a virgin does not make you any less of a person in fact you are the opposite you are a strong person with strong morals and I do have to applaud you for that.
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True love waits, my boyfriend and I are both virgins and we intend to till we are married, so go for it girl!
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your not a loser for being a virgin.  Machoism is over rated and normally held in high regards by idiots, morons, and ignorate people who just accept machoism as the one truth in life.  At most no sex can cause sexual frustration or even over whelming curiousity about how sex feels like.  I lost my virginity to a prositute not because I wanted to be a man.  But because my curiousity was driving me nuts.  I am also bit of a odd ball so I suggest to wait for a girl you like before losiing it.  It would probly feel better then my experience.  My experience only lead to my thinking whether meaning ful sex feels better then hollow sex.  If you dont want to be a virgin forever start dating.  If your having trouble with that read books on the subject.  Hopefully you will have better luck then me.  Well good luck
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it's never wrong to be a virgin unless you are married. I was a virgin till I was 19. \nagain.. it's never wrong to be a virgin.
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That is a personal decision between only you and your loved one.  Considering that some people never do get married and remain single their entire life it would be impractical for those individuals to wait until marriage.  If they did they would remain virgins their entire life and that would be asking too much.  This is my suggestion--I believe people in their teens are not mature enough to deal with the emotional issues of having sex.  They should wait until their 20s and should also be in a very loving and trusting relationship when losing their virginity.  That’s what my husband and I did.  We have been married 19 years, are very in love, and wouldn’t change a thing.
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i am 27 and i'm getting married in 3 months, and i am a virgin and i am very proud of it and....\nu are pretty blessed to be that way... pls keep yourself, its worth it!!!! men, with all their bragging and all, love ladies who have kept themselves. they trust u more. keep it up till ur wedding night ok?\ncheers!
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It's normal and healthy to be a virgin at the age of 11. Kids on school buses always tease younger kids, and this is apparently the best they can do - obviously there's nothing else about you that they can tease you with.\n\nAnd yes it's normal to start thinking about sex at your age and to have sexual thoughts and feelings. It doesn't mean you act on those feelings. \n\nWhat if someone asks you for sex? You say NO, I am only 11! \n\nHolding hands or getting a kiss on the cheek should be a big deal at your age. There is no way that you can be ready for sex at 11.
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No there is nothing wrong to being a virgin at 18 and you shouldn't be concerned about what guys think be secure with yourself in being a virgin.Losing your virginity is not a race.I lost my virginity at seventeen and I wish I had waited because I lost it to the WRONG guy and truely regret it.But it is just my opinion that guys like virgins.You are fresh and un-touched.You have got something going on that alot of girls don't.Guys like the idea of having something that nobody else had.My guy knows I am not a virgin but just the thought of another guy that has been up in there causes him to cringe he doesn't want to think about it.Be proud you are not a hoochie that gives it up to every body that gives you a second look or shows interest and be very selective to whom you give your virginity to.
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I'm 29 and 11 months...\nand a virgin...\n\nshocking huh?\n\nWaiting for marriage haven't found the guy yet.
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It's not that hard to believe - I actually know a couple people who are in their late 20's and mid 30's who are virgins.  If you are waiting for marriage or the right person there is nothing wrong with that.
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Celibacy is an awesome thing, especially if you aren't married. It is certainly not a waste of time! If you're saving your virginity, that is one of the best things you can do. It's more than just a religious thing (there are good religious reasons, but I'm talking aside from that) I think of it this way. You will only be able to give your virginity to one person in your life. Who deserves that gift more than the person you love enough to share the rest of your life with? My husband and I waited and were both virgins when we first had sex. Many years later it is still great and it just keeps getting better. But I often think of and take alot of pleasure in the fact that I was (am) his one and only (and he was and is still mine). It's something you don't forget and in my case is an awesome thing. In fact it's a pleasure that goes beyond all of the physical things. It makes me feel special and loved, and it lasts and grows. So I would definately recommend waiting. It is more than worth it. Even if you have had sex before and then you stop and wait for that special someone, that is also valuable in the same way. So to answer your question, celibacy may not be popular, but there is certainly nothing wrong with it. On the contrary, it is something that is (though not easy to do) more than worth it and it will reap great, undescribable benefits!