are there any programs in schools to fight unwanted sexual advances?
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I am not a mother but i was a student before I’ve never had this happen to me in middle school but in high school it was done before with a student exposing him self to the young 9th graders. i find it disturbing. It was my senior year and what I and a few other students did to help students that are being sexually harassed or who see it being done. we set up a Confidentiality program where in every class we put a box any box like a shoe box or something with a open slit on top and we sent home letters to parents telling them to advise their children that if they are ever in that situation to write it down and put it in that box they may choose to  put their name or not and they should put the what class they are in and room number and if they can the first and last name of the student that harassed them or they seeing harassing someone. At the end of each day either you or a group of parents can go through the boxes it may be to many so if not at the end of the week may be good it gives you the weekend to look them over you can even have a group of class rooms assigned to each parent. And when you have all of these you show them to school officials and let them know what is going on at their school and they should be paying more attention to their students... Another thing where are the teachers in all this they should let students know that they can come to them for anything even if its after class.. My idea worked for us I hope it will work for you if you decide to use it.. just make sure you get permission from the school and parents the slip you send home can also have a place where the parents sign so that they are okay with what is being done to keep the school safe if you need any more deep info please contact me i think I’ve said a lot good luck! Buh Bye
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sweetheart the best way to deal with this is either move to another table or stand your ground since no teachers care you can start putting it back on the ones that do this to you, by throwing it back at them. another thing is there a guides counselor you can go and talk to about this? that may work because more or less this is bullin and most schools dont tolerate this act. i hope i helped you some hugs sweetie, best of luck sunshinelady_40940
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Keep a log and document the incidents and punishments for both boys and girls.\nFollow the chain of command. Take your log and meet with the principal to attempt to resolve the issue. If the issue is not resolved at that level, go to the Superintendent. If it is not resolved at that level, take the log and meet with your school board member. \nTake  other parents with you.\nIf you continue to  feel the differential treatment is serious and you can't resolve it within your school district, you could contact your state education department or your regional Department of Ed Office for Civil Rights and discuss the issue with them. Schools don't want to hear from OCR.\nGood luck!
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Sir, I can speak from personal experience on this subject. I am a pedophile. Pedophilia is incurable, but it can be managed. Management is entirely dependant on the pedophiles personal conviction to not offend or reoffend. In my case I abused many times before I was caught commiting an offense. I was on probation and in psychothearpy from August 1992 until August 1999. I am not proud of what I did but I am proud to say that the last time I offended was in late 1991. I continue to this day to use many of the tools I was taught in my thearpy. I avoid being left alone with children, I don't go to places where there are large numbers of unattended children (ie; arcades, movie theaters, playgrounds, etc). When I see a child that is attractive to me I leave. When I think of a child in an inappropriate way I try to distract myself by becomming active in some other thought process. These are only a very few examples of how to avoid, control and escape potentially dangerous situations. It takes a great deal of practice to make it so it is almost second nature.\n \nThe thoughts I do have of children will likely continue for the remainder of my life. That is a given, by the treatment providers. The thoughts are not the problem though, it is what you do with them that matters. Fortunatly, I have been able to keep them under control, and pray that I will continue to do so.\n\nI expect that I will recieve some negitive feedback after posting this. I hope that those that hate me for what I have done in my past will consider that I have made sincere efforts to change my life. I cannot undo the past. I can only control my actions for the future.\n\nAs far as pedophilia being a mental disease it is. Please click the link below and read all three pages on this subject. The second page deals specifically wit the fact that it is a disease.\n\n Hope this all helps
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It ranges from Flirt to sexual assault , Sexual Assualt is crime...\n\nDo moderation. Comfort should be on both sides
83808
Sexual assault and or muder on children.
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I personally think that it's in the student's best interest to taught about how to protect themselves. There should be a message in there about abstinence, though. People have to understand that no matter how much you tell students not to have sex and educate them about the risks, they're still going to do it. The best way to keep them safe is to educate them about how to be the safest they can and not have any life-ruining consequences come of it. If they aren't educated about protection and are only taught about abstinence, the students who decide to have sex regardless of being taught about abstinence will not know how to protect themselves correctly and could end up with an STD or pregnant.
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Yes.  My high school distributed copies of the ten commandments and the Catechism of the Catholic Church.  These were generally effective means of preventing unwanted pregnancies and STD's.
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It's correctly called statutory rape. And you are too young! What are you doing with a boy who knows what he is doing? He is a sexual predator! \nYou appear to be proud of what you have done, since you have shared this with kids at school. That, as well, shows how immature you are. You need to go to your parents or the school councelor to prevent this boy from doing this to other little girls!\nYou need counseling and possibly testing for any sexual disease. Intercorse is not love! If you had waited, you would have realized this. So now you have told the world you are an easy immature little girl waiting for your next sexual intercorse! That doesn't sound good does it. You have made yourself a victum. You have ruined your reputation. You have also made yourself an easy mark for any other jerk who wants a body to use. Not to mention the friends you will loose! Other parents will find out, then what will you tell your parent(s). If you can't speak to your parents about it then you shouldn't ought to be doing it. \nOnce you loose your reputation, you can never gain it back. All the good you do from here on will not matter.  You should have asked first about having sex. Every good person around you would have told you not to. But, maybe that's why you didn't ask first! Stop seeing this boy, seek counceling, join a church youth group that can tell you why abstinence is best.  Stop seeking love this way. \nOh, by the way, condoms do not always prevent pregnacy.  They also do not stop disease. If you had bothered to research before as a responcible adult does, you would have known that \nMay God bless and guide you.
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I'm pretty sure most district courts have programs for problem kids.  I'd either inquire with the court for your area, or check with your local police department.
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Check out Newsweek for stats on teen sexual activity. Almost yearly they do a cover story on it and have a great national poll about it.  Also, check out Gallup polls and see what they have.
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No there is not, tell them to stop or else, what they are doing is called harassment and they could get in some serious trouble for it, they can even get into juvy, if it doesn't stop tell a teacher
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Of course there are, just not as many. Remember Mary Kay LeTourneau?\n\nActually she is a convicted pedophile. If she were a male teacher and the student a girl, would you say he wasn't a pedophile? It doesn't matter if he acted older, she knew how old he was and that she was too old to be having sexual relations with him.
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Best to contact the local police department to see if they have any volunteer programs and such. You want to cover your butt legally because it would be a shame for YOU to be the one accidentally getting in trouble (if someone sends you child-porn and you knowingly keep it, even with the intent to report it- that could put YOU on shakey ground).\n\nI would just monitor your 9 year old's email and chat conversations... and report ANY inapproprait contact to the authorities. \n\nSome men are sick and perverse and assume that any FEMALE is out there to sexually please them (where did the days go when you could wear a short skirt simply because it feels sensual?). It is REALLY pathetic that grown men mistake preteens' natural curiousity for being anything sexual!
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http://hosted.bbbsa.org/big/index.asp\nHere's the Big Brother Website.\n\nI can't tell you what other programs are in your area, but ask your son's school counselor.
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well, really, we should. we have it at my school. however, i think it's a combination of two things. the first is schools wanting to let parents decide what sort of information to give (or not give) their children on the subject. otherwise it's just the kind of people who think that it's better to tell your kids to abstain than give them condoms because you're just "asking for it".
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OH HELL NO!!!\n\nYou better be talking to someone at school or child services... That's SEXUAL ABUSE.\n\nPlease get help ASAP!