Away from my steady boyfriend for 1.5 years now, i'm alone working in a foreign country too.?
599249
I was in a similar situation and being abroad and bored can cause you too think about things that should not be spoken. I got to know the area I was in a little better and did some traveling into other countries. I got involved in my community although I was an outsider and I read more books than anyone person should be allowed. I made friends of the opposite sex and they knew up front I was involved in a relationship. They had some negative things to say but I did not let it bother me. If you love him, hang in there but.....If there is only one fraction of a doubt in your mind, move on and don't let this hold you back from what your potential might be.
619225
If this time apart is unusually long, and you need to think about making the first move, then it sounds like your feelings for him aren't that strong.  You don't feel strongly for this person.  Ever wondered why?  Is he even worth spending time with if he's not on your mind most of the time?\n\nFlipping the script for a bit, he hasn't contacted you in a long time.  Is he so busy that he cannot call you out for a drink?  How strong are his feelings toward you?  Do you know?  Is he contemplating the importance of this relationship as well?\n\nThose are some questions you should think about...\n\ngood luck!
316692
it would make it easier on you now that he moved out and away to say to him you really feel you need your space. just let him know you've never experienced life by yourself. you were 19 when you got into this and now that your 21 (my 21 b-day is in 7 days i so syked!), you're old/young enough to experience everything you've wanted. if you feel you want to go out and have fun as a single more power to you to follow your heart and do what'll make you happy! GL
1006254
I'd really discourage you moving just to be near him. As you said, he'll likely be deployed soon and then you'd be left there by yourself. Since you aren't married you would have limited support and access to base resources. If it is meant to be, your relationship will survive this. If not...at least you will be moving forward in your career.\n\nGood luck.
433912
Well, i do not belive in long distance relationships.However, i do have these kind of relationships. My bf lives in another country. I might tell taht it depends on the person, and his feelings, and his values. But still time kills any feelings.. But u know do not be upset anywayz. And deffinetly do not feel depressed, and try not to listen to anyone, bc everyone will tell you that long distance relationships can't exist. Just  enjoy the moments you have now, do not be upset at him. and even thou if you will decide to separate, (hopefuly you will not)do not feel upset. That's just life, you got to enjoyo the moments, and i'm sure you had realy nice moments together. Do not listen to anyone. Just  stay calm, enjoy urself and ur relationships.. Ciao
275151
not single but I have been outside of the us.  I've been to england and france.  i lived in england for four years growing up...father was in the military (retired now).  Since I've been married I have been to the Carribian(sp?)
851378
you a re a very career minded person who doesnt let anything get din his way, when you want something you pull out all stops to get it. Also the job you are in isnt really for you, in about two yrs you will be working abroad and you will be in management, your finaces will be good as long as you keep some back for a rainy day, and not blowing it at every oppertunity, you will meet someone within 6 months and she is the one you are going to marry, she is at least five years younger and very pretty, good luck for the future!!
367360
Mast ur bate; explore you body and enjoy yourself.  Tell you boyfriend about it only when he comes home from the job and not over the phone.  Then you can show him just what you have learnt about your body while he has been away
1144796
all you have to do is wait coz i too have this problem we are even 5 yrs ++...we both wanted to settle down but you should also cosider some things and make sure u are ready for it. maybe ur bf has still other priorities this time and maybe he is just preparing himself for the future..
555855
Like any other relationship, as long as you're in love you'll stick together no matter the mileage separating you. My hubby was in England, I was in France, then he was in Malaysia and I was still in France - we did that for 3 years before moving in together, and after 10 years we are married. So it works!
866291
Distance can suck royally, but if you two made it work before you can make it work again... I understand that after being together you don't want to part, but if he has to move back then he has to and I don't think you should let distance get in the way of your heart. It's only another year then you're done and free to move over to Ohio with him.
269294
If you can keep your love life and your job separate then it should be fine. When you are at work don't treat him as your boyfriend...just another co-worker.
1095786
I've done the long distance thing..  You two are doing everything right in my book anyways.. lol.  My advise is to stay busy with friends.  That way the time will go by faster.
514620
you are making an excuse "can't keep...living through him."\nif you wanted to be with him you would go with him.\nif you don't want to go overseas, don't.\nit seems completely reasonable that you simply prefer to stay where you are.\nyou are ready to settle down but feel awkward about pressuring him to do so.
255927
long distance relationships are always tough, and especally tough if you don't trust the person your trying to have one with, cut your losses and get out while the getting is good, be kind about it though and just blame it on the distance, that way if he moves back over here you could pick up where you left off.
624303
It depends why you moved ? If one of you needed space , then no .As that is an waking call . If it was because of money then yes because it's hard at first to get things in order .Enjoy dating each other .Too many people jump into Relationship just to feel not alone .Being with someone once in awhile is perfect for some people .It's nice to think about someone and look forward to seeing them ,instead of everyday unless you've decided to get married .Then hopefully you'll keep the smile each day when returning home .
608658
5 years, on the net???? why havent u closed the gap? i met my BF online over a year ago, but we are getting engaged and i will be moving to the states at the end of the year to be with him. what i mean is, y are u so surprised and upset that it's over? LD relationships dont work longterm if there is no end to the distance in sight.