how do i get his fevor to break?
611408
wash cloth over his head, not too much tylenol, rest and blankets
230465
Get rid of him! Simple.  You can't force love.  Ask him why and if he doesn't have a good reason, which he won't, move on.  There are plenty of fish in the sea.
304865
Try every disgusting thing in the book in front of him, try any type of turn off.  Soon or later he will just get sick of it.  Otherwise try a restraining order, that usually works JK.  Other tactics try to find him a girl that is very much like him, and try to set him up.  That sometimes works.
300683
Back him off, keep him at arm's length and force the interaction back to just professional. Otherwise, someone is going to get a broken heart, and it isn't going to be you.
1130373
tell him if he don't stop your leaving him and that will work.
607879
first off if you send him a letter make sure you spell check first.  then dont worry about it.  he will come around.  or her wont either way you cant force it
448629
tell him to get off and push his head way !!!
455571
There's not much you can do to pull it out of him. Just give him time and make it easy for him to express himself to you. Men are difficult about this sort of thing, and all you can really do is give him time. I know, it sucks.
19814
You say you have no choice but to put up with him, so I say:Find out every flaw he has. Correct him at every turn,show him up, make him feel persecuted, rub his nose in it like a puppy.He'll either get the message and move on to another unsuspecting soul, or kill you.
641213
make pet names ..call them constantly... intrude on the guy time... change his ways... complain alot... lie about something... cheat on him... hmmm there could likely be a lot of ways
236389
Confronting him is the best way.  Doing it without involving too many emotions and making clear where he is wrong in that behavior makes it inargueable for him.  Tell him you won't put up with that kind of behavior again.  It really works.
374763
Tell the truth.\nIf all else fails, just refuse to go out with him or write a letter.
958812
The clingers are the hardest. You don't have to break it to him gently. Just to be safe, have a good friend with you in sort of a public place and just tell him that you want to break the relationship with him. Let him know that he a great person but he is just not your type. Say you are sorry if he is hurt. Then get up with your friend and politely say good bye and leave. If you have any more problems with him get a restraining order on him and make sure you are always with a trusted friend for a while. Be safe ,think safe, you just never know. Someone who  desperately clings like that -well you just never know what might happen. Next time feel a guy out a little more before a relationship goes too far and you won't get into this situation again. o.k.
1166919
Try not using "no" so much, find other ways to tell him he shouldn't be doing something.  It's hard, but you get used to it.  Also, instead of constantly being after him when he's getting into trouble, try distracting him with something else, or getting him to help you with something.  It's really hard, because your first instinct is to get him to stop doing what he's doing, but the more you tell him not to the more he will do it, as I'm sure you already know.  Getting him involved in something else, and being more involved with him, should help.
335603
I had the same problem with my present boyfriend.  Instead of trying to constantly get through to him (which can annoy the person after a while), just let him know that you are there for him and that he has no reason to keep his guard up.  This should only be told to him once, and whatever happens after that is up to him.  Though it may take a while for him to accept it and open up, it may work.
321519
First of all to give him a chance, discuss this matter with him directly. Tell him that you won't be the way he wants you to be, but you love him a lot and wanna be with him. If he agrees and changes his attitude to you then it might become alright for a while, but if not then just dump him and tell him that you can easily live without him. I can assure you that when you'll dump him he will come after you, cause probably as you've said he can do it so well, he wouldn't expect this from you. And when he comes after you then you make him to do things you want, but don't push it as he has been pushing.
1058897
How about "I'm breaking up with you because _______. Bye.". Then click the ignore button to prevent any further annoyances. You don't want him trying to convince you he's what's best for you, do you?