Why is my ex so mean to me?
594897
As I've learned on a question of my own, you cannot expect a real answer 'cause we don't know how you guys even broke up. We don't know who dumped who and how are things between you two now.\n\nThe truth is probably this, assuming that I have a real insight of the situation from your question: You are still a princess to him and he still finds you beautiful. But you are not HIS princess anymore. He surely does care.\n\nThe fact remains - he is trying to destroy your self confidence so you don't find somebody else. It is a cruel tactic, but the man still cares and he's out of ideas. Talk with him.
219036
You suffer from hate-a-rude-a-guy-a-phobia. It's somewhat common among females that have just broke up with a guy.
1171867
Honestly, sounds like new guy was getting really attached to you. And by going back to your ex, even if it was a verbal agreement that didn't last tlong.. you scared new guy off.\n\nHe is probably going to need some time to get over that. If you really want to be with him, put some time in and show him that it was a stupid mistake and won't happen again.\n\nAlso, on another note, why give someone who has hit you a second chance? Please think about that. Abuse is a pattern that will not stop without serious counseling, if that. I would steer clear of the ex if I was you.
806054
He might think you are a sure thing.  Not trying to be mean!  \nYou are familar ground for him - easier than meeting someone new. \nBe very careful of going back to an ex.  \nYou broke up for a reason!  Think about those reasons.
1133751
He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
525609
The answer to this question depends on the reason for the break-up. Your break-up sounds like it was nasty.
474755
You should be thankful that you are no longer with this jerk and find someone that is better suited for you.  Your ex sounds like a mindless idiot to me.  I mean, sure I listen to my friends input on a person I am dating to some extent, but in the end I would never break up with someone because my friend said to do it.  You need someone that can stand up and say "This is my girl!" with pride and respect for you!  Don't settle!  We all deserve better than that.
164813
Ignore the phone call, unless it continues.\n\nResist the urge to respond to the immature behavior.\n\nI think it is good you are out of the relationship now and you should keep it that way. He was abusive and I am sure your self esteem went down the gutter.\n\nTreat yourself. Do something you always wanted to do but couldn't till now. Try seeing people and going places that have no relation to your ex.\n\nIt wouldn't be a bad idea to see a therapist and/or find a support group to deal with the abuse issues you went through.
953128
He's mean to me when I dont.
852245
She can be bitter and hurt. You said that you went out with her right? well maybe she had true feelings for you and you broke her heart in a very harsh way. So, for her not to be the fool for everyone else she became this nasty Bi@tch. She is like that around you, because that is her cry for her and attention from you. I think that she wants you back.
242265
Its time to leave him alone when you realize that you are wasting your time on someone who doesn't have a regard for you and your feelings. being a man, I can tell, he's just playing on you and your emotions.\n\nHe is now your EX - means that he is part of your past. Better move on and I am sure you will find someone who will give you decency and respect. if you'd like to be friends with him, not at this time. Once both of you are "settled", may be that's the time for you to consider being his friend (that is if you will still have time and energy to think even about it).
108292
alot of people are like your ex. \n\nDon't hate him, he is just narrow minded, just a poor soul ...
1164684
Guess she thought you were way too good for her or maybe she was cheating on you and you didn't know about it or she went back to her ex. Could be any of these... if you really want to know your answer than get a hold of her and ask her why did she treat you like this... u certainly did not deserve this! and now you do deserve to know the answer... ask her rather than assuming stuff!
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
984606
Chick why would you want him back.  A guy like that doesn't deserve you.  He told you he doesn't like you as much as he did before and that he's being mean to you.  Let him go and find someone that will like you especially after a year and will not be mean to you.  You will be much happier if you do.
119999
I cannot stress to you enough...GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP!!  I also, am a single mother of 2 beautiful girls.  I dated a guy for three years, on and off.  He was great with the girls, but very controlling with me.  At first it was little things, saying hurtful remarks, then it escalated and got worse and worse.  Finally, it developed to physical abuse along with the emotional and verbal.  Please get out of this relationship.  It may seem impossible right now, but trust me, you can do it.  He knows you are intimidated by him, this is what drives him to control.
260408
yes its possible, (even if he's a big jerk!) but sometimes you've already hurt yourself once you know what the pain is and you don't want to go through it again that you would rather keep it to yourself, not for his sake but for yours. and you might not tell him verbally, but he is your ex so he knows you well enough to know how you feel for him...