why doesn't he seem interested in sex with me??? it's driving me mental!?
601920
Kudos on ur boyfriends attitude... can't u see what he is doing?  he's got u all worked up, his building much anticipation, and that my friend leads to awesome sex encounters.  SUAE.
121860
Try to divine why he's not into you, and minimize the degree to which he's exposed to that variable.  But, uh, good luck.  : /
906491
Not enough information to really figure it out. If he's still treating you how he was when you guys were just friends and he isnt always talking about or trying to pressure you for sex, then could be that he really does like you and wants to be with you. \nIf he's acted different and seems preoccupied with having sex or messing around, could be that that's all he wants. \nBut it depends.\nRegardless... don't have sex with him if you're not ready. Don't do it just because you think he loves you. Cus once you do, you can't go back and you might end up hurt in the end.\nIt's always safer to wait. If he does love you he'll give you time and wait as long as he has to.
602456
Get rid of the CREEP!!! Sounds like he is just using you till something better comes along!! Run while you still can!!
462147
There's nothing wrong with you.He says he's attracted to you and you do have sex,just not that often.If it bothers you I'd ask him whats going on.Tell him his behavior makes no sense to you, it makes you feel insecure and you need to know why he does this.I'm sure the two of you can work it out..good luck!
449651
YES!!!!  Call him but don't seem too desperate.  I guess only you two know if you gave it up easy or not.  There could be a long term potential but it has to be built on more than sex.  I say call, but don't be a stalker.  Lay the bait out ther and see if he will respond.  If he doesn't then you may want to walk away soon.  Sex confuses things.  Try to hang out one night without having sex.  That will tell you alot, because it will force him to talk.  Trust me, I've been there.. And without sex, talking is the only alternative- unless he bails, then you may have a lot of work on your hands.
516455
Ugh, guys. My advise: forget about him. He doesn't respect you. He was interested in you until he got sex, and now that he's had that, he's not interested. Guys like a challenge, and now that he's "conquered" you, in a sense, he wants something new.\n\nGet out there and find yourself a good one! One that holds back for at least a few dates before trying anything to rushed.
951138
Maybe his sex drive isn't as active as yours is.  Instead of bugging him for sex a lot then wait until he's actually horny and have him go to you.
51066
I agree with the previous response. There should be something more to this relationship than sex. When you guys aren't sexin' what's his conversation like? Does it go beyond sex? If you're trying to be with this guy in the long-run you've got to look at when all the sex dies down & Viagra isn't working--can he entertain & please you mentally? Can he love you without the sex? \n\nOther things to look at is if he seems bored with you if you're not giving him sex? Does he take you out in public? Or is this strictly behind the scenes? Does he call you just to talk or check-up on things? Or does he only call when he wants the booty?? There's a lot of things to look for in a man to tell if he's strictly about sex, but you've just got to open your eyes & see. I waited almost 1 yr. before I gave up any sex, becaue I had to be absolutely sure my man loved me for me. Not for my puss puss.
307637
dont be naive! he wanted to tease you or play with you. a guy will show interest if he is persistent, not when he feels like it. trust me. i did couple.i just telling the guy side of story. worst case scenario, you lose him. so what! theres a lot of guys out there that are sincere. think about it.
314268
From my expericence, I have learned that trying to show a man all of my great qualitites in order to make him appreciate me and want a more serious relationship has NEVER worked.  It only made me seem desperate.  Desperation has never made any person want to be with another person.  Even though you may feel that you can't let go of the person, it would be better to do so.  He has made it beyond clear to you that he isn't interested in having anything more than a sexual relationship with you.  In other words, you're good enough to have sex with but NOT good enough to have a meaningful relationship with.  That is horrible for your self esteem and self worth.  You deserve better and more.  Just because he asks about your activities doesn't mean that he cares about you.  He tells you flat out that he doesn't.  It may be difficult but you should consider stopping the sexual relationship with him.  He doesn't love you or care about you.  If he did, he'd want to have more than sex with you.  I hope that you realize that you deserve more than a quickie when he's bored.
163070
A a guy, I can tell you all men at first think they just want to have sex with you. But if you allow enough time to pass before this occurs, you and he will know if there can be more to the relationship than that. I would give it several months at least to be more sure he enjoys seeing and knowning more about you, and not just want sex, before you allow things to get physical. In otherwords, time will tell in ways your heart at first can not.
580137
He has got the absolute hots for you! He is most likely fantasizing about you right now! He is probably thinking you are so hot that you would never date him! Guys can get like that. We see a girl who is really hot and we think there is no way we would ever have a chance of getting a date with the really hot women. Ask him out! Tell him you think he is really hot! It will turn him on! Good Luck!
447158
dear,\nmove on he is not into you! There is someone out there for you i promise. And you can do better that him anyways by what it sounds like. Good luck I f you need any more help contact me esmerelda_sanchez@yahoo.com.
869109
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
116949
Well, try to get him to notice you. Maybe you could find out what makes you his turn offs and resolve it. But don't confront him just yet. Then try to find out his turn ons. If one of his turn ons criteria matches you, thats your secret weapon. But don't get too desperate! Get things slowly done. Im a bit naughty myself :p
284348
That it's the sex.\n\nHow different is he acting?  Like he's not interested?  Then he wants only the sex.