I would like a guy's perspective...?
609500
Well... both of you are still pretty young.  You obviously have a pretty good idea of what you want in life.  Although, your boyfriend sounds like he's not quite ready to settle down.  From a guy's perspective, I'd have to tell you that this is a common thing at that age.  Believe it or not there's a period in our lives that we don't quite have a clear idea of what we want in life.  The part time handling of responsibility during school is something that is pretty easy to deal with currently versus the full time responsibility of being out in the real world fending out for yourself.  My advice to both of you is enjoy college life while you can and at the same time take care of business as in your education.  That's going to factor in quite a bit when you start looking for jobs.  If your boyfriend truly loves you, when you both get done with school, his focus might narrow a little bit more on what he wants out of life.  At that point it's probably a good time for both of you to evaluate the relationship.  Don't beat yourself up over-thinking this situation.  To answer your final question, I don't think you're wasting your time.  Someday you might reminisce of how great of a time you both had during college when you're both old and gray.
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
850203
Go for it. Sounds like he might be interested. Good luck.....SAM
463727
That would totally depend on the guy who was asking!!!!!  I would have to think about it very carefully before deciding.  Im a little shy when it comes to that kind of stuff but you never know what Id do to make my man happy!
120767
That sounds pretty on the money to me. A sincere guy is easy to read. What they say and do reflects how they feel (again if the guy is sincere). Girls, however, are more complex - filled with doubt, questions, and uncertainty you know that they are thinking, and not always about what they are showing.
817168
When I was single, yes, I would stare, but try not to get caught.  However, I would welcome any chance to talk to or be around the guy.  If she is hot and cold, perhaps that is just how she is. Regarding your haircut, I would take the looking old comment as a compliment, but that could be a totally platonic thing to say.  Any other details you can add?
78259
lol well.. Im obviously a guy. And in the last week two girls have told me that and both of them both said to me...please dont freak out. Now, I'm never one to freak out about how one feels, but, however, most guys are. If you think he is comfortable about hearing how you feel about him, then I say go for it. You tell him according to his personality. If he is a humor type of person, then say it while you two are having a really good time. And if he is more of a cut and dry person, then just say it straight up at the proper moment. Timing is everything.
82691
Yeah, he's worth being friends with. Put yourself in his shoes - who would you pay more attention to, her or him? I'm assuming you're a guy here.
624180
Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
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I read what you wrote twice.\nI still don't know what you are asking.\n\nAdditional:\nRemember that many men are not very good at talking about emotional things.\nIf you are committed to each other then you must discuss how you feel - you must try to see each other's point of view. It sounds to me that you have different priorities at the moment.\nWhat is it that you want? Can he provide this at the moment?
267893
thats not fair to your current dude, u should tell him how u feel. maybe he'll step his game up to keep your mind on him.     i would
1185465
dude, look at me, what do YOU think?!?!
91623
Tell him the truth.  Just say "hey, I think you're a great guy, but I really don't think you're the right person for me.  I want you to be happy, and I want to be happy. I don't think I'm happy right now; but that is not your fault.  Like I said, you're a great person, but just not the great person I want to be with."
550751
i would say.. both guys and girls are the same. that's just part of your perspective.. the world is big.. you can't just jump into conclusions..
609894
oh boy what would i give for a guy like that!!!...shame from my experience they seem to be myths..~sighs~
482685
I would say you are a sweet and thoughtful guy!  Thanks!
945072
Honesty is tops.  Then of course he would have to be easy on my eyes. ( we all have different opinions on looks), he has to have a steady job, not alot of money, but he has to work for what he has.   What they own is not an issue with me anyways.\n\nIF we both work, we can save and buy things together.