Why do men lie to the women they love? And why are they always trying to hurt the ones that love them?
602510
Bcuz they are afraid that if woman know the truth and its not what they want to hear, then the girl will leave them and thats not what they want so its easier to tell her what she wants to hear then what hes really thinking bcuz he doesn't want to offend.
126444
I think not all men lie. The ones who lie should not even be givin the time of day. If you are accused of cheating or lying, and you are not, then they are most likely cheating or doing something wrong to you. Dont waste your time.
1085217
it depends on how long and what they have been through; some men find that when a woman sticks around through thick and thin they have someone they can really lean on (a down a** chick), and then there are those men who abuse the love and strength of a woman. But to truly know when yo man says your the only one he loves look into his heart, his eyes and they way he say it, if he can use the bathroom while your in the tube (love), if he can get teary eyed in front of you (love), if he can cuddle with you without pushing you away after ten minutes then damn it that;s (LOVE).
1087308
I'm a Christian, and it is our belief that people lie because it is within our sin nature.  To lie is to break one of God's commandments, which He gave us to protect us from harm, not to suck the fun out of life.  He knows it hurts both the liar and the one to whom the lie was told - which you have obviously learned by experience - that's why He said not to.  There is always a reason for people's lies, whether to elevate themselves above others, manipulate others, protect themselves, get what they want, or many other reasons.  Even when you think you do something just because you wanted to, ask yourself why you wanted to do it?  What were you out to prove?  That you were smarter, that you could get away with it, that the other person was powerless to stop you or unable to ferret out the truth?  I remember finding great fun as a kid with siblings in lying to our mother, and since there were several of us, she never knew who really stole the candy from under her bed.  It gave us a sense of power, I guess.  \nLying hurts relationships, that's for sure.  I am sorry you had to learn that the hard way, but rejoice in the fact that you now see how you were wrong to do the things you did.  That's a sign of maturity, especially if you can ask for forgiveness from the people you hurt with your behavior.  I wish you well.
685659
Why start you relationship off lying...
319520
Be honest. You shouldn't pretend to feel something that you don't. Even though you know that it will hurt him, it is better that he knows how things really stand. Maybe you will never love him, then he will feel hurt AND betrayed that you lied to him too. Do you really want to hurt him that way? Plus if you lie to him, how can you be true to yourself. It is so unsatisfying to live a lie. Good luck
1124117
That's way too honest.  People can't deal with the truth.  They're too afraid of their natures.\n\nI say "I want you" or things to that effect a lot more than the others you've mentioned.  I've gotten over being afraid to tell a woman that I want to use her for my pleasure regardless of emotional connection.\n\nThey're human too... they're looking for the same thing we are.
123863
Because some guys are complete assholes. And they think they are  better. So if they cheat just hit them hard or were it will really hurt, if you catch my meaning. \n\nThinks for answering my questions sarah
487127
I too hate lies and believe people deserve more respect than to be lied too. Cause if the shoe was on the other foot they wouldn't appreciate it. Try not to over react though it could scare him away. Men lie cause they are too afraid of telling the truth cause they will look bad. It is good that you let him know that it affects you though. Cause in a relationship honesty is the best policy
633692
Some men and women have been hurt by someone else so they figure they will do into you before you do them . As adults games or and should be left behind. They will never change.......
714259
I know.....I hate any lie......even if its about fast food...that really isn't the point.....its still a lie...one lie leads to another...I always thought if they could lie about one thing they can lie about anything.....\nSo you have every reason to be mad at you husband....I think some husbands really don't understand how much it means to their wife's to be honest about everything!!!.....they just don't get it...\n\nI feel for your pain......
661917
Beacause lying is convenient for them. Guys are comfortable at lying because they are afraid of what the truth really is, and how someone else will interpret it.
829652
Guys aren't always liars, it's just that finding ones that aren't is the trick...guys don't want commitment, just sex, and they'll do anything to get it (that's how the trojan war started), whether its lie, cheat, steal (and usually, it's all of the above). I know some great guys, who don't lie, but they've fallen victims to lying, cheating girls, and they've vowed never to date again, bcuz every woman knows that there needs to b at least one decent, loving, caring and hot guy in the dating world...
226413
Lying is not just not a guy problem as I know many women that lie as well. I personally do not get why anyone has to lie, I am one of those people that will tell you the truth even if it gets me in trouble. I hate liars, I would rather live with a thief than a liar. The relationship that I am in now, lying is a big problem and I am ready to throw it all away because it is hard to regain the trust back that was lost because of lying.
895123
If a guy is trying to brake up with his girlfriend because he is seeing another woman.He is trying to turn the whole thing around so he isn't the bad one here.Another reason could be he thinks he is better then you and deserve better.
85859
i m not agree that man lie and cheat always their are many men who r vey honest and true in their realtionship some exception is always there bt u can not say that all men are same, its is possible with women too, i think when some one cheating or concealing something may be there is some reason behind it so if u believe ur beloved then ask him directly dont hesitate. or wait for some time may be he himself tell u everything at right time.so never distrust everyman there is lot of good people in this world
1017976
because its a mans first insticnt to do whatever it takes to get out of trouble. Most guys lie about it because they don't like getting in fights with their girlfriends and they don't like to see them cry. Also a lot of men are shallow, and if for some reason you "aren't giving him what he 'needs' then they feel bad about window shopping for another girlfriend. I know, its happened to me a few times. Men are stupid sometimes.