I ran into an ex I still love, does it make me a bastard to break up her current to make her mine again?
602338
YES, if it is ment to b, she will come to u before that is necessary. Or contact her but be patient
1114393
no, if you just broke up she should maybe give you some time. If she talks to you everday, it will seem like before. So at first it's probably not a good idea. But if its been a while then its fine if it doesn't bother you.
866558
It sounds like you are separated and she is an ex, so that part is good .. .\n\nNow you have your anger to deal with . . .\n\nTry seeing a counselor for a few sessions . . .it might help you clear out some of those emotions, and you will be ready for a new relationship sooner . . .
713166
No way man. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'll give you a link to go to and read why you shouldn't even be talking to her. If you want any chance of getting her back go no contact. Start dating other woman and let her find out. She'll come crawling back and saying everything you want to hear. Don't buy it. She just wants what she can't have and when she gets it BOOM you mean shyt to her again. There's a 1 in 100000 chance that says she wants you back for the right reasons. Move on. The damage is done. She's damaged goods and you'll never have as healthy relationship as you think. She may say she wants to see you happy in the long run and personally you'll be happier without her. She won't allow you to move on until she's stable in her own life. Don't let her mess with you. And don't even be her friend. Until you are totally over her. Nothing you say or do is going to get her back. I PROMISE. Good luck and find you a new woman. AT CHURCH
395071
do it! youll loose her if you dont.although if shes taken, sorry.
851194
find another one. One better than your ex.
219497
I totally understand what you have been through.  I think she could still be your friend but the question is NOT NOW. You have to move on no matter how hard it is.  You have to re-establish yourself with someone else, and be a whole again...before you can be friend with your ex.  It is very selfish of her to keep 2 men around.  Be strong and let her know that it is for the best. If she still cares about you, this is the least she can do for you.
132566
i think its okay if you're okay with it. do you want to go back to your ex?  if so, talk to him about it first. commmunication is key.
1138465
no... you dont have to do a physical browl for her like old historical days....\nthis is simply wrong.... if you are not alone in her mind, then it is high time you should talk to her about it....\nalso it depends on whether you came first in her life or the other guy...... \nif you came first.... then you can't do anything except talking out things with her... ask her as to what is the issue.??? finally ask her to decide between the two... \nlisten buddy, whatever is the case.... you cant force love on anyone... and i mean ANYONE..... \nAccept it buddy... she thinking about another guy , only shows that you are insufficient to satisfy her need for love.... \nnow, if you came second in her life, that means she is not able to forget her ex.... you have to love her so much and help her to forget that guy..... there is nothing much you can do, than just loving her....
816796
It is easier for thought to hold onto the past, rather than to venture out on new waters, even if it is hurtful.  Actions speak much louder than words, and it would appear that the ex is not a man of substance, but just wind blowing about.  You know what to do now, so do it.  You will feel free and so much better about yourself, you'll see.
634031
you have to let her have space...she's involved with someone else. If/when they break up, you are free to go after her!
757632
YES  YOU ARE WRONG. LET THIS GIRL STAY IN THE PAST\nWHERE SHE BELONG. YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER THEN\nHER. AND YOU SHOULD LET IT GO. AND MOVE ON. OTHER\n'WISE SHE WILL HURT YOU AGAIN.
341349
Dont go backwards. History has a way of repeating itself-move forward is it really worthwile putting yourself through emotional turmoil again? She wants you and someone else???? You are worth more.
746496
take note:she was ur ex girlfriend..so it doesn't really matter if she dates another guy.. if u decide to take her back remember that u don't trust her.. so why invest or taking her back? u will go on the same cycle when u were with her....probably ur just bothered coz she moved on already while u r not.. \nit's normal.. try to get urself busy.. go out with friends and please try to forget her.. it won't do good for you.. i know u can do it.. so good luck
33518
Go for it. Your ex should not have any say over who you date. That's why it's called "ex."
323943
It really depends on how much you like the girl. If you hate her and you've already dumped your girl then you'll want to go back to your girl but she won't be there anymore for you. So get to know her and then find out if you like her more than you like your current girlfriend.
1047945
The relationship ended for a reason.  Has that reason changed?  In my opinion you want her back because you don't think she is obtainable.  If you got her back you would dump her shortly after you got her.  So why don't you do yourself and her a favor and leave her alone.  You will fall in love again and you will forget about your ex g/f I can guarantee it.