My gf totally doesn't keep in touch. She seems to like me andwhen we talk she seems happy. Is it time to quit?
611211
Some people are just not into the email or snail mail kind of stuff. I don't think that she even realizes what's going on. Like you say, she's kinda nutty. Tell her again. Don't just try. If it's meant to be, it will be. Good Luck.
359629
It doesn't sound like she respects you or the relationship. I'd move on.
651752
You don't sound needy; you sound like a very nice boyfriend. I have no reason to believe that she is getting bored.
1137840
It sounds like she is wanting to connect with someone, which leads me to believe that she doesn't feel that way with you. You should try to talk to her and let her know that if your communication isn't as it should be that you are more than willing to work to get it to what it needs to be. Most people who chat alot are people who feel isolated from other people. Make her feel loved and wanted by you and try to take her out and get her motivated.
770000
its very normal ,she thinks you prefer to be with her more.I think you need to show her that she is your first priority after all.You should not expect your gf to get along with your other female friends.
372931
She may just be really busy, honey.  Try to find a time when she's not doing something else.  Ask her if it's a good time to talk and remember to ask what she thinks and talk about what she's interested in, too.
532318
Talk to her and let her know how you feel.  It sounds like she's starting to weigh you down.  It's obvious you care about her but, this might not be the right person for you.  You have to ask yourself if you are getting anything positive out of this relationship and if they are the things you want in life.  If you're not, then it's time to move on.
1046068
maybe you two just spend to much time together. yes it's normal to feel this way but if you two don't give each other just a little space it won't work.if she still get on your nerve after a couple days apart then i would split. it has to be more than two days though. spen like three days out of the week together and the rest with friends
565318
no.but if u dont keep in touch regularly things may go awry.so travel and keep the love going GREAT.
1174922
HI Your not a loser your very  sweet. you know she needs time because of all she as been through. but think of it this way. if she didn't want to get close to you in time. she would have just told you so. hang in there. if anyone can win her over i think it will be you.if not its her loss.best wishes sammylee,
871441
First of all, confront her about it.  If it still doesn't work out, then she's not worth it.  It's not every day that you find a guy that's willing to work through the hard times.  I know I haven't found one yet.  You deserve so much better if she's willing to give up on a seven month relationship just because of her friends.  I wish you luck.
756001
I think you really need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your "significant other" on this issue. This may be the time to sort things out before it is too late. She is used to visiting any time she likes and as you know, old habits die hard. You have to be patient and accommodating.
1107888
I think you need to ask her the question. Let her know you love her, but you don't like feeling like your not good enough. Ask her if she thinks you should stay together or break up, and let her know the terms of what you need for the relationship to work.
971318
Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
695536
Well it sounds to me as if you two are already going out, and if you really love her you should let her know how you feel, it was that way with my gf and i got the same advice, so far we are going steady and i coldn't be happy, so give it a shot, ask her out, i mean come on you dont want to be sitting there looking back and wondering what could have been do you?
461291
Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met.  We had the most unbelieveable weekend together!!  We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time.  Hopefully I can help with that I know.  \n\nThe void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking.  You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to.  Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.\n\nAlthough she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months?  Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about?  My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that.  We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night.  We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.  \n\nWe do have seperate lives too.  When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew.  Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out.  He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys.  My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing.  You need to live too.  Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies.  Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.  \n\nIf it's meant to be, it will happen.  Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her.  If you don't, you will lose her for sure.
799380
Nope, don't give up. Maybe, she is just "scare" about being with you.\nTry harder.