is it weird to non-stop think about a guy? i mean i never felt like this before?
595803
Sounds like a real love "crush" and the only way to know if its the real thing is to get to know the guy.  You know more about his details then all of us do, so start using what you know to be around him and then strike up a polite conversation.  Smile, dress nicely, you know--flirt a little.  See how he reacts.  Sometimes these things need time and effort, so don't be hasty.  My husband took a whole year before telling me how much he liked me and now we've been happily married for 16 years.  Good luck and remember to take long, slow deep breaths whenever you feel like you're gonna pass out, OK?  :)
590276
i think u should hold ur feelings back cuz its not normal at all..\nthink more about men.. take me as an example ;)
981717
Hey have u ever heard the term opposites attract.... sounds vague isnt it because u enjoy with the like minded guy more... but someday it will get boring sharing similar  thoughts all the time because sometimes u just feel like getting out of your world into a new world. In your case i would suggest as a friend to play a waiting game for some more days. Your heart will surely give you an answer and it would not take more than a week. All the best.
1030002
it might not be him at all but rather the idea of him that is making your mind return to him.  You said you really liked the guy.  Well it could just be your brain returning to thought of settling down or whatever that meant in your mind....i.e. safe place, love, purpose.......But then again I am no dream expert.
944318
it's better to ask him if he might be able to ever think of you as more than a friend than to emotionaly torture yourself and may never know. Guys are shy too, sometimes you gotta take the wheel and get things rolling.... most guys thinks that it's hot too!
498895
This must be a new new new new love... with some added crush involved... wait till you get your heart broken.. It is the exact same feeling... ouch
421386
In my case,it just happens,but it's very rare!!!! There is this one man I know that I didn't know before,but when I first met him,something inside of me just knew I was insanely attracted to him. I use the word "insanely" because there was no real explanation for it,except how I felt. He's cute and he has a good body,but nothing I haven't been around before,only he had something that you couldn't see with your eyes that attracted me so deeply!!!! I think it's called "chemistry" and he's very manly to me.
176965
he seems like a nice guy.. talk to him about how you feel!!
614612
That's not weird at all if you stop to think about it. Most of us have all experienced strong feelings for those that are in some way related to friends of our's. We can only hope that our friends sponsor our actions, and understand that love doesn't revolve around avoiding relatives of friends. So, like the cousin and let it be known that normal is related. lol  Good luck!!
495249
Its one of the great mysteries of life - sometimes, we just arent attracted to ppl I think! I know exactly what you mean - a little while ago this guy liked me, and was awesome, really smart, really cute, really funny and a very good friend. I loved him so much, but I just didnt want to be with him romantically. I got really angry at myself at first, because I felt as though I SHOULD love him, but I just didnt. Dont know why. BUt I DO know that you cant force yourself to feel for someone - no matter who great they are. You need to let it be natural, and one day I bet someone you least expect will be the person you feel for most!
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All you need to do is just do things girly. Shopping, get your nails, done, etc. You shouldn't think about him then. Or just do things to distract you from him. My friend who's a girl had this same problem, and I told her this same stuff, and so she didn't think about the guy she liked.
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It may be a good idea to remember why you got a devorce to start with.After that if you are still thinking about him just go along for the ride and see what happens.If you rush it things could go bad again.
125853
Blessings.\n\nMay I answer your question with a questions of my own? First, are you sure that these feelings you have for this new guy (let's name him "Ted" for the sake of easier understanding) are legit (real)? If not, that is part of what I think you should question yourself... along with asking "Ted" if his feelings for you are legit.\n\nSecond, if you are "committed" to someone else (let's name him "Al" for the sake of easier understanding) but these feelings that you have for "Ted" are so overwhelming, why are you in this relationship with "Al"? And if these feelings that "Ted" has for you are so overwhelming, why is he in another supposedly-committed relationship with "Sue"? It would seem, in my opinion, that you would tell "Al" (and "Ted" would tell "Sue") how you truly felt instead of leading him on to believe that this love that you two (you and "Al" -- "Ted" and "Sue") share is being reciprocated when, in fact, it is not.\n\nIt would be wise, I would imagine, to put this situation into perspective. Consider what it is (and who it is) that you truly wish to be with. Think carefully and tread softly for the waters (and feelings) you tread upon can be disturbed. You don't want a typhoon to come ripping apart your life. Trust me, I've been there! God bless!\n\nHope that helped!
316745
I know how you feel, it would make me feel scared and uncomfortable too. I think men take a different approach to things, we are more sensitive and think about things before we say them. You must also think that maybe he was just saying that she was hott, maybe he just thinks that she is attractive. I know that doesnt make you feel much better but try not to assume if you really like him approach him and talk to him about it. Just say that i heard you thought so and so was cute? As long as you approach him in a non accusing way i think that he should understand. If you can't face him then just find someone new :)
539764
you'll just know! haha..its kinda weird but trust me--you'll know. like everytime u see that special someone, ur heart skips another beat, your legs feel weak when they smile at you, its crazy...
1184904
i feel no emotion when i gert REALLY nervous. my friend just asked the guy that i have liked since january out for me! i dont know the answer yet. i am so shaken with fear and everything else possible taht i dont even know what i am REALLY feeling! it is kindof scary when u think about it! i am still shaky right now. but i guess i will find out in the morning. good luck\n\nP.S it is TOTALLY normal! dont worry!
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It's weird because I don't think about it until after I have done it.  I'll look and then I'll think to myself, "I just looked straight at his package.  God, I hope he didn't notice."   It's strange because I don't usually even have any thought about the guy.