I have a feeling 1 of my friends has a prob wit me should i confront her?
604674
Sure. Just be prepared to hear the answer
664878
Confront her on it.  Maybe something came up.  Maybe she was blowing you off.  You never know unless you ask.  Do go around wondering "What if?"
1122280
you should already be concerned bottom line the only person in life you can really trust is yourself you can only know what your soing not her so if your really having these concerns tell her and go out and have fun she is
641187
she has a bad issue and getting friends i bet? sweetie you just have to slowly slack from her, so she can get the hint, and also tell first and see how she acts by telling her how you feel about the friendship you both have. tell her that to listen to u for a moment and let her know. u seem sweet to let a friend hurt you. be sweet and don't stoop to her level.be straight foward. if he doesn't work and she bitch at you. then she is not a true friend. you can find better.
753607
tell her that her bahavior is making you uncomfortable, she doesnt sound like a good friend who should be more considerate of your feelings...
153010
There are two ways you can deal with this situation, your choice depending on your own view over your relanshionship with that person, or your personality.\n1. You can confront her in front of the other housemates (not speak bad things about her behind her back) but rather say how bad she's been treating you, in front of everyone so she'll feel ashamed and possibly not do that again. If you feel you haven't won the confrontation in the end just say (be sure your other friends are there) "You are such a b**ch, you know that!". This is only if you feel extreme pain at what she did to you, and want to get back at her. BUT, if you're willing to forgive her, and you care about her very much there is another way to handle the situation:\n2. Usually this things occur when one person feels frustrated with himself for one reason or another and then she takes it out by lashing at other, let's say more "timid" persons, in this case you. It is possible that, that person has love problems, or other problems. If you know of her having one such major problem, you should confront her in private and talk about her problem, try to listen to her and be suportive. Try to find out if she has a problem from her other friends, If no one knows about it, it doesn't mean she doesn't have one (it means only that she keeps it to herself and because of this she becomes incresingly frustrated). So, if no one knows about it you should confront her and ask: "What's wrong?". Her first answer will be "Nothing", but you have to continue "Oh come on, I know something's wrong" and give your reasons "You have been acting strange all the time(for example)".\nSo, you have two ways to deal with this. You either can be caring and gentle, or you can be agressive and stand up to yourself. From here, it's up to you, and how you feel in your heart you should act :). Good luck.
57130
You should talk with your friend about the situation...if you aren't doing anything to provoke the situation then you shouldn't worry but I would definitely encourage you to talk with your friend.
1187020
Do you think you should, she told you off in the letter and that is not what a friend should do. if she had a problem with you she should've done it in a nicer way. dont let her bring you down find a new friend. GOOD LUCK!!!
280868
You can only tell her that you think it's wrong and just stay away. The things that you say she's going to do are dangerous not just for herself but for you as well. Let her make her own mistakes and be there for her when she realizes it's a mistake. Just remember you can't change people and if she pushes you to join her in a shoplift or drug related activity you can get into just as much trouble as she could and that she's not being a true friend. You're a good person to worry about your friend the way you do unfortunatley she's going to have to figure this out for herself. You've already told her how you feel and that's all you can do.
816670
well by avoiding her you are being a jackass.... Talk to her... what is wrong with having another friend???
874963
i think that you should confront her but not be so mad about it. than you can ask the guy to a movie or something. get a little revenge back on her.
632759
well if she is your best friend she would beleive you and trust you, so in my opinion she ain't your bestfriend all she is doing is making you believe she fells the same about you, it can also be she needs to blame someone but she has no one else to be angry with.
997241
If you've been friends with her, then just talk to her, and if she's unhappy or having a problem in her couple, she'll talk it out or give you signs to it by herself. Believe only what she tells you. Just tell her you'll be here if she needs you. she might want to solve her own problems, and knowing yuo'll be right here will help her morally if she really has probs in her couple.\nAll the best!
932150
Tell her to stop then because it is hurting your feelings.  If she don't want to stop, then you should stop hanging out with her.  Friends should respect each other.  Stick to your decision, no matter what the consequence maybe.  Don't worry about her gossiping about you, the most important thing is you stick to who you are as a person.  Eventually your action will speak louder than her words, if she retaliate like that.
720132
definatly tell her, you'll regret it if you dont, trust me i know from experiance. your friends will eventualy get over it even if they do harrass you for a while.
507367
You really should tell someone. If your a true friend, you'd tell someone as soon as possible. Tell someone you can trust and they will help her.
589836
You are right to be concerned. The easiest thing you can do is to report the situation to your Guidance counselor at school and let him/her handle it without you being involved. She is lucky to have a good friend like you. Good luck.