How Can i pleasure my new boyfriend without having sex?
609742
kiss his neck, there is a certain spot on everybody necks that makes them weak at the knees find that spot and you will definitley pleasure him. It feels like a miny orgasim. A take your breathe away spot. Find that spot girl!
837636
make it to a next step.. be friends with benifits... If he is busy.. then he will appreciate the sexual gifts from you.. sex releases stress.. and might bring you 2 closer...
361816
Until you both feel it's the right thing to do. Get to feel comfortable with each other. Kiss, pet and hug for some time before going right to bed: this will allow you to get to know each other, and what each of you likes before intercourse; and it will also make you value it a bit more when the times comes around. Don't rush things, and don't be impatient: enjoy the different stages of your relationship, and the different things they come with. When you both feel ready, it will also feel right. Good luck and congratulations on your new boyfriend.
1179251
sex should bring mutual pleasure to both individuals.  My last boyfriend wouldn't climax until he had made sure I had come first.\n\nso my advice on how to present this to him:\n\ntell him you want to try new things to increase pleasure for the both of you.\nyou can try this game where for one week, you guys can do everything EXCEPT have sex. \n\nso, either he tries to make an effort w/ foreplay, special condoms for the extra sensitive guy, etc etc...\n\nor dump him.  there are better guys out there.
261458
1)Both of u take a break and go for a holiday somewhere exotic...the change in scene might do good.\n2)bring in an element of mystery in your sex-life...play sex games.\n3)get sexy lingery and initiate sex.
1624
have sex! it releases stress and exhuastion and is a great way to have fun
39093
Do a dance.Bend over in front of them. Wear tight clothes.Do not sleep with them right away, let them hunger for it. Feel the outside of his pants, no more, teasing. Breath heavy in his ear, than go down his neck, and around his chest. Sit on him and rub around. Wear just his t-shirt. Leave him a sexy message on his machine.
200804
be gentle, use alot of tongue, and try different moves, ask him what feels good, while your doing it.
353777
give him new ways of making love
128204
You could try to satisfie her oraly...ore use your fingers.Ore a little bit of both....just use your fantasy..there are loads of ways to play without actually having intercourse.Have fun!
1060186
I'll be serious unlike the first two jamokes...wake him up with your tongue on his penis.  This is awesome!!\n\nAlso...when he leaves the bedroom or you are in there and know he is going to shortly enter the room...surprise him by lying there naked in bed.\n\nOne other thing I love...you've left the room to get ready for bed...come back totally naked and take it from there.\n\nAll three of these drive me wild!!  Try them!!  Spice it up!!
121648
try something new. be open to more stuff. maybe a little oral... a little anal... a little s&m... a little roleplay... a few 3-ways... and trust me, he'll be happy, dont be afraid to be a freak.
13145
take it slow\ncommunicate about what feels good and what doesn't\nuse condoms
920510
I assume that the first time that you had sex with your boyfriend was the first time that you had had sex ever - so if this was the case and you was losing your virginity to him then it is normal to feel some discomfort at that point. \n\nNext time should be better, as your hymen is now broken and the discomfort (and in some ladies out-write pain) should be gone. \n\nMake sure that you are turned on and 'wet' before he tries to enter you as this will make the experience more enjoyable for you both.  This will mean a lot of foreplay and ask him to perform oral sex on you as this should get you really moist down there and may even lead to a pre sex orgasm. \n\nFailing that go to a chemist and buy some lubricant to use, apply a small amount of this prior to entry and you shoudl feel that everything slips in fine and makes the whole experaince more enjoyable. \n\nI would suggest always using a condom as a way to prevent pregnancy and STD's and it should not feel a great deal different to you than sex without a condom. \n\nAs to how a  man feels with/without a condom.  Without a condom increase the pleasure, however although this feels better in the begining it can also lead to a shorter period until he climaxes, which shortens the period of sex.  So although you can say initially that it is better as it is normally a shorter performance then this has to be taken into the equiation too.  \n\nI find that as i use a condom i last longer, which is great for both me and the lady, also i am not worried about her getting pregnant, which is great for my security as i know that i will not have to support a familly and that i wont be catching any nasty diseases - so with or without for me?  With everytime! \n\n\nGood luck and enjoy
757144
Give him a day to remember, instead of the usual night thing make it a treat all day, make him look forward to coming home and make sure you are both alone all night, loadsa different positions and loadsa nice food, use the food in different positions!!!  No lingerie..............go naked nothing better!!!!  xx
1006769
I think you should go out and buy a sexy nighty and jump in front of the television so he won't want to watch it so much...That's just one thing, for starters. You need to be spontaneous and go out and do things. Find a hobby to do you both enjoy! Go out with other couples! As far as sex goes, do things with him you don't normally do, you know? But things you feel comfortable doing. Communication is the big thing. Find out from him what he wants, too. Good luck and have some fun!
292482
Do you mean sexually? well sometimes your inexperience is a turn on. Ask him what he likes,a sks him to show you. He will love opening this new world for you