Why do some men want someone like "La Virgen de Guadalupe "for a wife, and then turn around and cheat on her
600561
Men are biggest idiots. You give them what they ask for and the first opportunity they get they cheat on you. They like change and they like the attention. Sometimes they want to look cool in front of their friends and say stuff like, oh yeah I nailed her. They think they are funny, but they don't know how stupid that is. \nGuys like nasty girls. They use them for pleasure. They marry good girls b/c they can stay home and take care of the kids while they screw around. \nWhen guys are in a relationship or a marriage for a while, their wive don't pay attention to them like they use to at the beginning of their relationship. I think it is women fault that their men cheat on them. If they would pay attention just a little to their men everything would be different. \nThere are many different reasons why men cheat on women. We don't understand them and they don't understand us but we can't live without each other. :)
418736
When you don't know what you want, you want variety. \n\nBut when you really know what you want in a woman or life partner, then the REAL game begins. The big game, I mean.\n\nA player who just womanizes might be playing little games, and just using old seduction tricks that you can easily find in the book Art of Seduction.\n\nBut eventually, even though he might win at those little games, one day he wakes up and finds that he completely lost the Big Game.\n\nAn inevitable consequence of fooling around is also that his male friends don't respect him. Being faithful to your heart is perhaps the greatest quality of manhood.\n\nIn the end, a real player plays the big game, not the little games. :-)
944254
Honey, it's a man's world whether we want to admit it or not.  Men want women who will give it up until they are ready to get married, then they want the Virgin Mary.  Go figure.
796162
Isn't a Married Man with a mistress... kinda Polygamy?\n\nIt's very prevelent in this culture.
742884
Uh...sweetie, they want to do you.  In the Chicano culture your body is a prize that will give the one who seduces you "machismo," or male prestige, among his peers.  After that, you may be surprised to see how fast your value fades in their eyes.
817335
Sometimes guys like a girl who is taken. If they can get her to cheat, they get the goodies without haveing to buy her anything, take her anywhere or go to her family events.
1100883
because they arent really in love.\nIf they actually loved the woman they were with and she fulfilled him he wouldnt cheat.
1187846
It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have.  Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it?  It's like that.  I'm not saying it's a good thing.  On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her.  I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
160000
i agree- once a cheater....  if he cheated on his wife and is willing to leave her, is this really the type of person you want to be with!?!?!  seems like a set up for heartbreak!
523109
because they want the guy to like them
236539
Mexican men want the Fat White woman that White men don't want.
1155235
They lust after a bad boy until they become a woman. Then they look for a good man. Hold on kid your bad girl is out there for you.
710343
I don't know were you got your information from but its total tosh, if you can't turn your attraction off to other people then you have no right getting married in the first place, its nature for a man to spread his seeds even when he has a ring on his finger, as for a man telling you he loves you after he orgasms, sorry but how ridiculous, I have been married 22 years this coming Friday, I am not attracted to anyone else and neither is my husband, we only have eyes for each other, I can tell you 100% truthfully that my husband has not spread his seeds in any other women since the day we met and I know he never will, he tells me at least 50 times a day how very much he loves me and doesn't wait until he has an orgasm to tell me that, we don't need to have sex to keep the bond we have between each other, we truly love and adore each other and wouldn't contemplate cheating on each other let alone our marriage, when you say your vows your supposed to abide by them and not make some story up to so you can get away with cheating, whoever told you your story is an idiot and has no respect for marriage and is making a mockery of it.
424722
only if they don't want commitment - because they know that the guys go back to their wives
201534
People have sex out of wedlock and cheat on their spouse when they have no morals.
54219
Some people do that because they may be afraid of committment. Others because they have a trust problem. They had bad relationships in the past. So they have a hard time trust their spouse. Or because they are stupid.
404349
It is very untrue. As in most religions, they are not supposed to have premarital sex, but they certainly aren't all over there packing fudge, either. Would you screw a man just cause you couldn't get some p***y?