i THINK MY FRIENDS BI-SEXUAL BUT WHAT SHOULD i DO SHE'S ALWAYS TOUCHING ON ME...?
608948
Just be honest, but not nasty.
652397
I. jealousy is bad, wether you are bi, gay or straight... try to ease up a little!\nII. your friend is not what she says... even if she were in love with you, she wouldn't act in any way like this. loving means caring, but she only hurts you.\nIII. you can not force smbdy to love you. if she "moved" on is because she wasn't sincere all the way from the begining;\nIV. I would suggest extreme caution with her, as she might play some nasty tricks to you if she senses that you are weak and get easyly hurt!!!\nconclusion: ignore her (even if it hurts you like hell!) and try to get the things sorted in your mind. work out, get a new sexy haircut...
990002
Sounds like its fun for you and her friend but that she is only doing it to please you.\nAsk her if that is the issue because if she is doing it to please you and it goes against her feelings towards herself you are playing a very dangerous game with her.
965562
Ah, the jealousy of protecting him for you is greater than the opportunity for her to touch you.  Definitely--you are not a lesbian.
698168
What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
132754
A true friend won't be bothered by this.  I have plenty of bi friends.  I'm not bi myself but we still have fun flirting it up for the guys just to watch em drool lol.
1128741
i was in the same situation when i was younger. im a lesbian, and right now i have a great girlfriend. but when i was in high school, my best friend was my crush. i liked her soo much, but she was straight. i finally admitted to her that i liked girls, and she did what your friend did - asked me questions about how why and when? i told her a couple weeks later that i liked her, and she kissed me. we messed around a little bit, but it didnt evolve.\n\nnot every situation would be the same. i would tell your friend, that you like her. but only if you truly trust her. if shes nice, she will be respectful and either tell you shes flattered, but not interested, or who knows? she could be a closet case.\n\nanyhow, there tons of wonderful women out there, if worst comes to worse. im sure youll find someone perfect for you -- i did, and i was in your situation too. nowadays, i couldnt be happier with the girlfriend that i have now.  :)\n\ngood luck!
78714
i think you should make a pass at her just to see her reaction. shes playing head games with you, fight back. you have every right to like whatever sex you like, thats not her choice...dont take that from her.
1172908
is this a gay thing? talk to her, i guess
268575
your probably not guy your just bisexual  mebay u are guy who ami to say since i dont know you   personaly i'd wiat to tell ur fionce she might flip out and  this couldturn out to be a stage in ur life that caused u to ruine ur relationship   look into ur sexuality still mebey u can go to a gay bar or something  just keep it on the dl for a min.\ngood luck
96791
You think you are, but you could be curious about trying things and you believe your bestfriend is the closest person and female, to try this on. Take time to think about it, tell her that your having these feelings (about being a lesbian).
449791
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
501633
It sounds like her feelings have changed towards you.  Ask yourself some questions.  Do you mind her touching you?\nTalk to her, find out how she feels.
471979
Just be honest. You have explained it to her but she still acts weird, so maybe she doesn't understand it the first time you explained it to her. \nBut when you talk to her, instead of you doing the talking, let her talk. Let her speak up and see what her concerns are. Ask her open questions like "I feel you are avoiding me, and it seems to me that it is because of what happened...what do you think?(or am I right?)" and let her voice her problems. The main point is to for her to let things off her chest, not for you to keep repeating that it was an accident, because if she thinks otherwise, there is nothing you can say that will convince her, so get her talking.\nFrom what you say, she seems quite offended: "she acts like I did it on purpose." Point that out to her!\n"You seem to me like you are quite upset, if not angry, about what happened...is that right?"\nAsking questions by pointing out how you feel (to me, you seem to be...) will be less likely to offend her than stating what you think is going on (i think you are pissed at me), because when you say "I think", it is like a judgement, and if she feels like you are judging her, it will not help the situation. Say, "I feel" "it seems to me".\n\nAfter she gets talking, let her know you understand. Maybe she is afraid that you are bi or lesbian and therefore is afraid that you are trying to approach her with that kind of relationship. Ask her "Do you think because of what happened, that I have that kind of (lesbian) tendancy?" She might look at you weird, but to get it out in the open is better, and much quicker, than beating around the bush. Be open and honest and sincere, otherwise it just won't work. If you value this friendship, be prepared to put yourself up to the line and open up.\nTell her, you value this friendship, and wish it would stay the way it has been. You don't intend it to go any deeper, but you don't want it to melt away either. \n"I feel that things have been really awkward between us and we aren't the friends we used to be. I don't want that to happen bacause I value etc etc"\n\nOpen up, be honest.\nIf she still doesn't understand, it would be time to let go because it would be her hurdle to jump once you have opened yourself up and explained it to her.
225099
well apparently you are not straight.  You might scared her if she does not have the same feelngs.  so lose a good friend or tell her how you feel and she feels the same way.  vey scary.........maybe ask her questions that might help you to decide how to make a move or not.  good luck
152522
First figure out if he's really hitting on you.  Make sure that if you were to tell her what he did that it's actually really "hitting on you" and not just being nice, friendly.  You know?  Last thing you need is her taking his side and thinking you're weird.
804369
Sounds like an episode of Will and Grace.  Maybe your friend is bi-sexual.  Regardless, you will never be sure if he closes his eyes and fantasizes about Kevin Cosner when you get together.  I would say be his friend forever but don't get your hopes up