What would you do if you went on a date and you didn't have much eye contact?? But had good conversation ??
600779
if you had good conversation the rest will come. If the eye contact doesn't come though and the relationship keeps progessing then when you have sex with her you should do her doggy style. That should take the pressure off.
989971
eye contact... followed by soft conversation
776968
I actaully got a date stuck in traffic.  I was in my usual traffic jam, there was a hot chick in a VW bug, we ended up being stuck next together for a while.  We made eyes, she gave me a smile, so I had a marker and a peice of paper and wrote my cell number down, and held it to the window.  She called me and we chatted throughout the traffic jam, and we ended up dating for a few months.  I definitely recommend traffic jam dating.
225822
Simple. Ask.  It's not going to hurt anything if you just causually say "are you seeing anyone?"
1167955
I love to go on the fun dates...skating, bowling, mini golfing.... this way you have to carry on a conversation with the person... this gives you a chance to see what they are really like.  Going to movies keeps you silent... TALK and learn about each other!
662711
If you haven't talked... Maybe that should be the first think you do...\n\nTry dating, instead of proposing...
1182406
I think it is not that difficult to read. Guys are generally very open when they are interested, especially if you show interest too. If this particular person is really shy you need to be a little more forward and let him know your interested. Then I think he will make his move. Encourage
891114
It sounds like he is interested...If you're interested in him or think that there might be something there, I would ask him.  If you don't like him, I would still approach him anyway because staring is just plain rude! :)
64085
He approves of your look... since he couldn't possibly know you since he hasn't spoke to you... take it as a compliment, but don't let it go to your head. He was a flight of the moment. \n\nYou are obviously a very attractive person, and you will encounter this many more times, keep your wits about you and weed out those superficial people that are just around you for the looks.
660989
ignore him sweetheart and when you make eye contact just look away immediatly, don't even glance towards him anyways, you will be okay, i have had upwards of 20 girlfriends and i have still not found mrs. right so just keep on pushin' through you will be okay, keep ya head up.
964919
ok  this is what i would do if i were a man ... i would walk up to her and ask her hwo her day has been going and if its a monday then ask how her weekend was DONT GIVE HER A CHEEZY @SS pick up line ok?? please girls hate that they really do ... just be yourself and be chill there shouldnt be anything tense about the situation just relax walk up and ask her whats up?? lol i make it sound really simple your probably thinking but really hun it is that simple i promise! <3 lyss
878576
do you talk to her a lot? because you need to make sure you are friends FIRST and foremost!! if not, that date will be awkward! and if something ends up ending a dating relationship, you truly can go back to being friends (but that wont happen..im optimistic!)
260143
Ask about common movies you may have seen... if you find there is not one you've both seen, ask if he would like to go to one you both might like. The best way to connect with someone is to share a common experience, so try something like a picnic, or go to a museum, or try the Zoo. This way you'll have something common to talk about not only during the "date" but also afterwards... and it gives you a venue to learn more about each other. This is why I think movies are fine for some dates, but you want a place to go where you can talk and get to know each other (can't during a movie), and learn each other's likes and dislikes. Good luck!
72369
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
351673
good conversation to see if there is more then a sexual vibe going on. fun, laughter a little shyness in between. it's a first date it shouldn't be too much drama going on. plus it depends on who the couple is, like if they've known each other for the longest or just met you know?
546018
he probably doesn't think you are too ugly to look at, he's either shy or just plain evasive, normally i would say it would indicate that he is not interested but he did approach you so maybe it is the shy thing..see what happens
349991
its a gift! but u can improve urs!\n\nsimple method!\n\nface the mirror and try to look at ur eyes! then try to talk as long as possible without breaking the eye contact!\n\ntis surely helped me!