what the man should do in the first night of his marriage ?
606357
make love to his wifey...
773141
First learn; how  will be question ask ? and give the descripyion about ur marriage
799566
when he gets in greet him at the door in sussies! and go on the pretence that your hubby is due home and you really shouldn't, try and do it in every room in the house, when you get to the kitchen get the cream and choc sauce out-maybe strawberries whatever take your/his fancy.\ni have been married 13 years and we play the just met game and it really turns us on keeps our sex life going anyway-doesn't hurt anyone else all good fun\nhave fun ><
571589
if it's the very 1st time, then Man should take the 1st step. But if the couple are married for long now, the Woman can initiate too (it's her right to be sexually satisfied).
644431
First of all, it's not true that "you can't sleep the whole night" if you are sexually active.  ROFLMAO.  Somebody is playing with your head.\n\nSecondly, you should never feel OBLIGATED to do anything you don't want to do.  How do you know how you will feel on your wedding night?  You might be so excited and happy that it doesn't matter how tired you are.  But if you find that you ARE too tired, well then of all the people in the world, your husband should understand that, and it should be able to wait until the next day.\n\nHoney, honestly, you sound like you are a virginal bundle of nerves.  Relax.  Don't stress about it.  Let your body talk to you, and do it when you're ready, but if you are scared to be intimate with this man, then perhaps he is not the right one for you.
571637
no more then 3 mins. first 30 sec should be an introduction of who you are, then tell a memory or funny story about the best man, last 30 sec should be for wishing the bride and groom well
757144
Give him a day to remember, instead of the usual night thing make it a treat all day, make him look forward to coming home and make sure you are both alone all night, loadsa different positions and loadsa nice food, use the food in different positions!!!  No lingerie..............go naked nothing better!!!!  xx
685230
he might be afraid that he might hurt the baby hun try and tell him that he wont hurt the baby make things romantic for the night and have some fuin try new things instead of going straight into sex try a lot of fore play first
1138
Here's a hint:  Men like women to show initiative with romance and eroticsm--too often in relationships it's considered the "man's job" to get things moving! This will sound corny, but give it a shot:  First, if you've got kids, send them to the grandparents for the night in advance without him knowing (say on a Friday).  Next, turn off all the lights in the house and place scented candles in the bedroom and run a hot bubble bath just before he normally arives home.  Have some wine and two wine glasses at the ready on the coffee table, and rose petals on the floor leading a trail to the bedroom--or whereever you're most memorable encounter that you can remember occurred.  Personally, I like David Sanborn or some other smooth jazz playing in the background. Music is important to setting the mood, and if you've got cable or a dish, you can tune it to the music of your choice. Just before he gets home, slip into a nice satin & lace nightie and cover it with a heavy robe.  When he gets to the door, be there waiting to flash him and let him know what you've got in store for the evening.  Not in a crude way, mind you.  Most importantly, take your time...don't rush.  The anticipation of that which is to come will be as intense as the act itself.  Hope that helps!\nPeace,\nJayZ
420492
Do something unexpected, I've been married for 20 years with three daughters, one day I came home to find the kids gone with their grandmother, the lights low, dinner on the table and my wife in a very sexy dress - she arranged for us to have a private date night - the first ever like this. But you figure out what you'd like to do just make sure it breaks the normal routine and gives him a moment to pause.
38355
a quick infusion of alcohol should work for the night then tommorow go start you a new family,\nand things should turn out better, glad i could help.
53697
You can start talking, yes. The first night might be problematic since you are both tired and it's hard to keep the performance. For that reason it might be better to do it the second night, when the pressure is less. But, that is just a general guideline. If you are both feeling it, go ahead. You will probably know what to do, to go ahead or to postpone. Just trust your instincts, and the most important thing, as strange as it may sound, simply try to relax. In a relaxed state you are more likely to reach a good decision, whichever it may be.\nHope that helps
955314
Meet him at his ship wearing a long coat with nothing underneath.  Inform him of this when you are giving him his welcome home kiss.  I imagine that his mind will be fantasing and wondering all over the place until you get home.  Have fun and I hope your husband is home to stay for a while for you and your baby if possible.
751497
instead of taking him out i would treat him to a romantic dinner at home.  Prepare his favorite appetizer, main course and you could be his dessert.\n\nduring dinner have romantic music playing in the background.   You should have one on one time  before he moves, rather be out in public.
65042
being married, i believe that he should realize that when he married you, he GAINED a new best friend.  HOWEVER, there are things that i do with my buddy john that i don't do with my wife...football games, baseball games and my wife hangs out with her "homies" doing what women do.  But, everyday is ridiculous.  Bored you ask, yes...bored it is.  Plan a "date night" for the two of you.  Like every saturday or friday, whatever is convienent.  go to dinner, to a movie, go dancing at the club, have drinks at a bar, go to a comedy club, go see a concert...WHATEVER, the point is return to your roots of spending time together.  he is content to believe that you will always be home waiting for him, when he returns from where ever he goes. This is not petty, it is unfair.
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Considering the man: to relax, get rid of his excess power\n\nConsidering the wife or girl friend: she would not have sex anyway shortly after a fight, not feeling comfortable in such a situation\n\nSo what else should the man do?\n\nIt would be much easier, if the wife would be able to put the fight out of her mind - and to have sex as a kind of new start.\n\nI'm celeb, so I don't have the problem - and I have never paid for sex.
374309
Try compromising. One night you do what you want, the next you do what he wants.