how do gals get intimate with guys?
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1. don't frighten him by being too forward\n2. build his confidence in you by being non-threatening in actions or words\n3. develop privacy in a cozy place with nice music and good ambience\n4. tell him that you like his hair, his lips, his strong arms, etc\n5. after that, he will do what you want but guide him the way you want.
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Guys are attracted to girls because of the "hint" or the "allure ' or "possibility " of sex.  Guys would go out with guys if all they wanted was good conversation, fun and shared experiences.  \n\nThey already have friends ; they want sex.  This does sound so harsh but sex can also mean hugging,snuggling,holding and nonverbal communication as well as intercourse.\n\n\nBut if all you want is fun and getting to know there are plenty of girls to talk to ...who won;t expect sex  in the end
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There really isn't a "best way"  in my opinion.  I'm a lady and it just all depends on the conversation I have with a man.  You have to give eye contact when talking to a woman.  Be courteous and honest.  Besides the obvious, just make sure she's interested in you.  Let her know that if possible you would like to get to know her better.  Heck most guys that ask me out always want to take me somewhere fancy, so I always agree.
551628
im bi but ill answer... girls know wat girls want, like touchn n stuff.... it makes it easier... touch how u would want to be touched
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Make friends ,be intresting or take an interest in what males do.We aren't all that bad and all u gotta remember is that we all feel the same things from time to time .\nbe confident get out there us boys love confidence in a gal and overall have fun and be true to yourself.
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Hmm, no, that's a smidgen awkward. Make eye contact. Smile. Relax, it's no big thing. Be confident--no one can resist a little sexy confidence. Sit up straight. Stand with your arms to your side and your toes pointed inward just slightly. Make good conversation, keep it flowing. Giggle, but not too much. Compliment him genuinely once or twice. Softly touch his arm, hand, or knee. Best of luck!
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Yeah, the best thing, and the least performed action, is just talking to the dude.  How do you know him, however you do, just spark a conversation.  Dredge up some of that fake-ass confidence that every girl has, and use it!  Guys to like conversing and they LOVE IT when girls approach them at all.  By the way, every relationship starts off in a kind of friendship level, so be friendly and flirty
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Guys are easy to tease.  Just smile a lot, touch his arm and giggle.\n\nIf that doesn't work, grab him by the ears and kiss him.  That always gets my attention.
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Depends upon the guy, the gal and their relationship.\n\nSome guys like to feel in control.  They always want to make each move to a new level.  They are usually the ones who have problems making a commitment.  They seldom learn how to express themselves as far as emotions go.\n\nSome guys do not mind if the gal is "aggressive" or "forward."  They would just as soon not have the worry about what is to happen next, but do like to get things started occasionally.  This guys tend to be balanced and "tit for tat" kinds of people.  They can and do learn to express their emotions.\n\nSome guys seem to want "another mother."  They want the woman in total control.  They do not wish to ever have to decide anything.  These are usually very happy when the gals seldom asks their opinion.  There are not too many of these out there.  These also tend to be emotional wrecks.\n\nSome guys are mixtures, so you might have to pay attention to the guy to see how they fit.
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Men talk and they keep track of women who allow themselves to be used for sex. Stop hanging out in the places you are known to be seen in(such as bars/clubs). Find out where good men go in your area ---- my best dates have been with men I have met at the grocery store and the bookstore/library.\n  Don't have affairs -  and present yourself as a lady. Ask close family/friends  to help you find someone who's nice to date...or even try a dating service (one that is well established and has a good reputation).
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I have the same problem with guys, maybe we should hook-up ;D
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Yes, there are many tricks that a girl can do to turn a guy on. Because you are discovering your own sexuality at the same time that your desires are fueled by temptations, I recommend a slower approach. As you get older, there will be many times that you will look back at your first experiences with a guy. It is important that you have no regrets because you will carry that particular sexual encounter with you forever. Please think about what I am saying, I speak from the heart.\nAs far as something that you can do to turn on your boyfriend, I have a few ideas that are sure to get your man excited. First, when the two of you are together and with friends, "feed his ego", point out something great about him and then finish off with "That's Hot" and then make sure your looking at him when you say it. Another idea is to make him feel more comfortable being alone with. For example, "get caught checking him out" say things like,"you are so sexy" or "you have a nice azz" stay away from words that involve love, relationship, or commitment, that really freaks a guy out when he has sxx on the brain. After you have had your fill of him, then you can use that type of dialog so that you can keep him. Put yourself in the situation that you picture in your head. Do not settle for less because if you do this the right way, you will have the best time ever. Make sure you think about the time you have together and do not get "into it" when you have to leave each other right after. In other words, have a plan, stick to it, and make sure that you have some great bonding time after. That's part of the good time as well and can also be just as hot! Remember when you are with your boyfriend, smile, be happy, be excited, get a little crazy and most important, be safe and don't open any doors that you can't close yourself! Good Luck!
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Set your goals in a more appropriate order.  Guys are fun.  Focus on having guy friends first and try hard to not put any expectations beyond that.  You'll find that guys love to have girls to pal around with.  As this works for you, you'll learn to lighten up and not put so much emphasis (and your self esteem) on having a guy like you.  You'll have guys like you - certainly as a friend at first.
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well, you found one!! lol, newayz, ya girls dont really make the first move, but i found that guys find it very sexy when a girl does. im a chick who seriously has like a male mind ive got sex on my brain all damn day long and i can hardly wait until my bf comes over lol. i think its just easier for guys to come onto a girl i guess, plus sometimes if a girl comes on too strong a guy might think shes a slut.
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Seduce her mind first. You must get in her head and have her thinking about you. You must make her feel comfortable with you. \nListen and talk to her. Women love to talk! They feel closer to you if you listen and remember what you talked about. In a way, words are a form of intercourse for a woman because it's the only thing they have with which to establish trust with you. A woman will tell you exactly how and when she wants to be seduced if you just shut up and listen to her. \nTake things slowly. Show her that you're patient; your ability to resist her will make her wonder if you're really interested, and will motivate her to show you that she's worth being interested in. \nKiss with your eyes first. Women need to feel a connection with you. You begin this connection through your words and then your eyes. If you can keep her eyes on yours, and hypnotize her with your words, you are halfway there. \nIncrease the physical intimacy. You have to be careful with this one. Don't be eager or aggressive. Begin touching a woman with simple hugs, pats on the back, etc. Then gradually increase it by bringing her in closer...kiss with your eyes! Then move on to simple kisses (pecks). Again, take it slow. \nTalk about sex or sexy things. At some point, begin to talk about sex...not between the two of you, but general experiences you've had. Once you inject the topic of sex, it will be on their mind when they think about you. With women, it's all about familiarity and safety. Talking about the act makes them more comfortable with the act. \nTell a woman you want her. Pick the right time, but be clear that you want her (not in a cheesy way ['I want you baby'] but in a tender way). She needs to know you want a time and place for the act. Gauge her reaction. If she is ready, then plan on setting up the situation for it to happen. \nWhen it's the right time, always ask for permission ('Is this okay?') and be ready to back off at any time if she is not ready. \nRespect a woman at all times. She is not a piece of meat but a human being with feelings. If you are out to 'get some,' then you are not seducing a woman. You are merely an animal in heat. \nFind a good form of interaction, one that works best for you. If you need time to think about what you're going to say, maybe email or IM will work best for you, at least to start. \n\n\n\nTips \nAlways listen. \nTalk to her frequently. The best approach is email. It gives you direct access to her head because you can be as intimate as you want and she can mull your words while you are not around. \nKiss with your eyes -- establish that eye to eye contact and you will begin the intimacy process. \nThis method works with men too except they don't like to talk as much. \nDon't be creepy -- staring at the wrong times, seeming overly eager, or airing out your relationship past on the first date are all examples of the wrong way to seduce a woman. Relax, take it slow and be yourself (unless, of course, you are creepy). \nBuild a "buzz" around yourself -- Women put a lot of stock in what their friends think of prospective suitors. If you want to date a particular girl, demonstrate your good qualities (e.g., sense of humor, good taste, charitable nature) around her friends. \nThink before you speak. \nWarnings \nAlways use protection. \nNever, ever have sex if a woman does not want to. Don't pressure her to do anything she doesn't want to do. Never hit a woman. \n\n--------------------------
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Most women are too busy playing "hard-to-get", it's human nature.\n\nHere's three ideas to think about:\n\n1)  How about you get his attention by smiling when you catch him looking.\n\n2)  The best way to show confidence is to approach him.  (I think all ladies should use this advice).  The probably wouldn't be much use for dating sites if women approached men.\n\n3)  Or if your passive aggressive use your network of friends or co-workers and start a rumor that you like a particular guy.  Trust me he'll find out and seek your attention if he is attracted to you.
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The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.