How can you learn to take rejectin lightly?
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Study comedy and then stand up and try to make people laugh.  It's very hard and people won't hesitate to sigh with boredom or boo out loud.\n\nWhen you can handle that, you've mastered the skill of takiung rejection lightly.
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Honey, honest to God, try having some dignity.  That's hardly something to which you should aspire!
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Rejection is a part of life and Ive been rejected alot. Step out of your comfort zone and approach people who u want to talk to. It might be scary at first but in the end you'll be glad that u've tried
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Don't let yourself be pressured.  It is perfectly ok to say no.
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afraid of rejection? maybe
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Practice saying no.\nYou can't please everyone.
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Just explain that sometimes you would like to do it a bit gentler. Do it her way sometimes and your way other times.
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be a good listener first.\nthink positively and act accordingly.
681914
Learn to have no fear of rejection... I know, easier said than done. If you can't get over your fear of rejection you will suffer for the rest of your life... Just try imagining that she is definitely going to reject you...what would you say to her if she flat turned you down? Prepare for the eventuality and it makes it less scary... and think about who else you might want to ask out when/if she rejects you...if one girl doesn't want you another one will....you just have to be willing to ask them!
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you can't. suck it up, use all of your confidence, and yes, be yourself. relax to seem easy going. most of the time the first word is the hardest. you'll be fine.
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Take baby steps, if your shy, then decide what would really bother you and try a small dose of it. we all have our little things about us, that we have a problem with. I used to have a problem going to a cafe by my self, so i decided one day to just go in and stay a few minutes, i stayed 5 minutes and left, next time alittle longer, until it doesn't bother me at all now. Another thing you got to understand, is life begins, when you learn to make fun of yourself, if you make a mistake, don't worry about it, real people won't make fun of you, the only one's that will make fun of you, are the very one's you don't need in your life anyway.
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You have to think of it as a business transaction and keep your feelings out of it as much as possible.  The reasons for rejection are varied and very rarely is it because they do not think you are a good person.
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The pain of rejection is and can be devastating.  especially when LOVE is concerned.  It hurts like hell and there is a healing process one must go through.  So if acting differently around the person that rejected you, it is because it is hard to heal with the constatnt reminder of your rejector being in your presence, so you must put up a wall, to protect yourself.
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I think it is best for you to find inner strength and show some dignity and respectfully dismiss someone in person. You both have better closure that way.........But I gotta ask, wow is there really such a thing as a rejection hotline or online? Curiously humorous.
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You just have to learn to say no. You can be nice about it\nbut just tell them you can't do it, you don't need to explain why. Being that nice will only get you taken advantage of.
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I have the same problem but my friend is quite forward and she is rubbing off on me. If you know the person may be interested in you then make the move. No one likes rejection but you just have to be confident in YOURSELF, thats the first thing to work on.
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Learn to love yourself even when you say no.  You don't have to please them; you don't need to have these leeches like you.  You're a nice person who hates to disappoint people, and they're taking advantage of that.  You really don't need to spend time with creeps like that.