the girl I'm in love with is in love with a 20 yr old guy, where both 16 and i know he don't love her like me.
601028
the quickest way:  anonymously call her dad and tell her you saw her making out with the 20yr old and it was gettin pretty sexual.  things'll stop VERY quickly.  then she's yours.\n\n----\nit seems like when you're not around others, she likes you, but for some reason, at school SHES AFRAID that you arent cool enough for her friends, and so she acts like that so it will seem like she isnt friends with you (she does that so that the other kids will think she's cool).  Bottom line:  wait until the other guy is out of the pic (like i said anonymously call her dad and say what i said above), and then hangout with her outside of school, then one day ask her what's up.  OR, EVEN, BETTER, SINCE SUMMER IS ALMOST HERE, INSTEAD OF ASKING HER, JUST HANGOUT WITH HER ALL SUMMER!!!!  (either way, get rid of the other guy - he's bad news, and he'll try to kick your ass)\n-------\nbe her best best best friend.  and kiss her!!!!  = )
1116601
Are you sure you are in love? It sounds like infatuation. You are to young to be so desperately in love with some who disses you. I am sure there are other guys out there. Don't waste your time on a loser. You will regret it later in life. Trust me. I had to find out the hard way. But you live and you learn.
764544
well dear , i think you are still too young , he is already 13 years older than you even though the age doesn't matter SOMETIMES, but you both can not be like each other much , because he is nearly grown man and your so young . And its very soon for you to start relationship with a man , am sure when you get older ; your ideals will be changed , and may be you will regret for choosing him and may be not as well. As you know relationship in young ppl would be ended very soon, because its not strong love , and no enough reason , most of them are sensitive decisions. And  i think its better you fall in love slowly but sensibly \n, if you do that your Love will grow by age and your relationship would not be finished so quickly and nothing can disturb this.\n\nGood Luck darling
507037
Really?? Cause in another question of yours you say you are 27 and in love with a 15 year old!  Look, get your story straight and leave the little 15 year old girl alone!
958941
Your feelings are normal- he is not your biological son, and I assume you do not have any children to compare your feelings to.  Not everyone is capable of loving unconditionally- which is what you would have to be capable of doing for her boy- just like if you adopted a 7 year old boy.  This is not to say that you will not "grow" to love him- and you already do, but in a different way then you would a child of your own, which is okay.  Enjoy your relationship with her and him, and dont sweat your feelings for him- he's probably just happy to have a "step dad" in his life that he can relate to.  Good luck, and dont worry.............
523702
its real clear..this guy isnt interested in you for love,he's jus a good friend.besides your jus 16!your a precocious kid and too young to be courting ideas of love and passion.this guy realizes that the distance may be a factor in your "love".its obvious he jus wants to be friends and nothing else.keep his friendship,dump the love bull#@!$ for now,concentrate on your studies,all luck kid!
1097805
u are 28 and mature enough to take decisions of ur life.first b sure that u love her or its just that u want to have sex with her as u are attracted to her.if u really love her and so does she then just go ahead but u should also take care of -ve aspects of ur age difference.
892787
well 1st, i am in the same situation now.\ni am 16 but he just turned 19.\nhe tried to propose to me also....at 16 yrs old, yea we do love you. but as women we cant be sure if we will still love you forever and ever, we haven't had time to find ourselves yet. or even really experience life. so when she says no its not a blow on you. we do it to protect you frm gettin hurt in the long run.
636606
No its not love. He is not mature enough to be in love with anyone but his-self. But you wont be able to convince her of it. It sounds like she has a very low self esteem and is willing to be treated this way for love. Nothing you can say is going to change her mind just be a good friend and be their for her if she finally wises up and realizes he's using her and he ain't worth the price she pays for his toys.
596772
I think that you can be in love at 16. I think it's just a feeling inside and you just know that your in love and a lot of times there is nothing that you can do about it.
465619
make a research! ask his friend about that mystery girl, but of course not in an obvious way...on the other hand, falling inlove younger than us girls is not really an issue, at my own experience, im very much happy & contented with my x-bf even if im 4 years older than him...we'll right now, both are singles & misses each other very much...sometime soon,\ni will accept his reconciliation & start all over again...\nof course, you should be more patient & understanding because girls are the ones who matures earlier than guys... \n\n\nfirst of all dint listen to rocy driver \nso abet y,r matter i thing that may be he like u but fell nervous abet to tell u may be he fell that if he tell u abet his felling that will lose u so be on hope and this world is going on the hope and its will be batter if u tell him that u love him.. may be he fell some courage
1007939
Well you are young and naive and I can tell you before you waste anymore time on this guy, just cut your losses. If he were truely in love with you he would not be interested in another girl. That's life.
325031
Love doesn't have an age limit, but don't be confused with liking someone a lot with loving them. There is a big difference.
1099058
First of all, 20 is not the correct age to fall in love. Okay man, you feel it is love. But think from your parents side, what they think? They might be of the feeling that your's is not love but just attraction/infatuation/sexual attraction, likewise. My advice is that you try your best to avoid that girl for a week, and then you decide whether it is love or lust ! About your parents problem, you can have a cool talk with them without any strings. But I personally suggest you try the one week avoiding option and then decide and talk with your parents. Good Luck.
156100
Lol this is difucult situation.Maybe that girl is not grown up enough to be with you or with someone normal who is not tolerating that "b i t c h" kinda behaviour.\nU should try someone else or if u inlove with her very much try to make thingz like she does.Go and hang with other girls and maybe she will think twice for the thingz she does!\nIf u cannot do that then try to talk with her and force her to explain to you what is happening between both of you!Tell her to be honest and not to lie
756364
homey iam 16 as well and i have to say find someone around ur age because most of the tyme those older guyz just want one thing or they just gonna take advantage of you!!! I'm not here to say that you don't know what love is though because i am inlove myself and it's just aggravating to hear that we r to young to know what love is!!! You know what your feelingz are and if you feel you love him then that's fine. BUT i still recommend you to find someone younger because i see it all the time that my friends go out with guys in their twenty's and honestly Mentally, you guys would want different things out of a relationship because you guys are at dufferent stages in your life Most likely he will excpect more from you then you are willing to give into the ralationship!!! Just try to move on to someone ur age!!!
352635
Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.