what's up when guys do the "push-pull", mean one minute then nice/ mean - when you ask for nothing from them
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Don't stereo-type.....just because your man is bi-polar doesn't mean that all guys do this.  Find yourself someone that is mentally healthy
109515
they are not interested and feel uncomfortable. or perhaps they want to get away from you and make it more obvious that they are not interested.\nfind someone else. the right person is out there.
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that is a tough question. i ask myself the same thing all the time. but the thing is, do guys actually wait til a certain time before they call? or do they just call whenever they want beacause they are so nonchalant?\n\ni suppose it varies from guy to guy. coz i know one guy who called me like the nite before we were supossed to go out, and then the nite of the day we went out...but then there's another guy who NEVER calls wen he says he will - EVER. i guess that just means that it varies from guy to guy.\n\nhope ur guy calls u soon - i know that waiting for 'the call' can be so nerve-wracking! haha.
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OK so this is horrable, but needs to be said, a guy might, ignore you and not want to talk to you. Or act like he likes you just to get it your pants becuse he's horny, and then drop you.
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You can't make a person do something if they don't want to do it.  Maybe he is ready for a casual relationship, and not something serious. The not calling thing is probably his way of saying, I want to take it slower.  I would just ease up on calling him, and just leave a casual message every now and then, and see what happens from there.  If he doesn't change in an appropriate amount of time, I would move on.
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I agree with landoflook........fear of rejection. They are content, intrigued, but not enough to go out on a limb and complicate things. I think I'll just wait myself........these men may really be on to something.
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the man is holding you back from beating my rating, duuude.   : P\n\nIts just the rules.. but HEY.. I don't make 'em...
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NO, but...discus it with your "now" guy first. "IF" he rather you not then don't. It's about "respect", and if you respect your guy then do what he asks of you. BUT remember he may say yes, he doesn't care, but if you know him well enough you should know that he's saying " please don't".
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This is a common 'pickup' line some men use to start a conversation with an attractive woman.  Not very original. I recommend you listen to your intuition (gut) and reply accordingly ;D
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A lot of guys wont make the first move. So this may be something you'll be waiting for for quite a while. Usually a guy joking around is a good way to tell, joking around as in picking on ya, etc.
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Honey that's great! In the world of tease with no please it's great for a guys self esteme to have a cutie ask him out and if he accepts then Oh so cool, but if he rejects then let it go and don't worry, this ol' hippie thinks that is sexy. So go get em'
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It's not easy, usually us guys tend to think were bothering you, we usually won't call unless we have a reason for it. Just give him a reason to call, borrow something, need help, etc.
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just start asking guys, what's the worst they can do....say no??
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If you have to push somebody to make more of an effort, just to feel like you are wanted, then i would be questioning quite a few things. I don't want to sound mean, but to be honest, it sounds like his attention is already elsewhere. If you feel like you are second place to everything, that's not good at all. \n\nInstead of breaking up, sit him down, talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he reacts. If he is honest with you, he will tell you what he wants and feels too.
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Guys (People) tend to tell you things they think you want to hear.. I believe usually in cases like you described he was only after one thing.. and when he didn't get it he lost interest or didn't think it was worth the effort.. in any case he's not worth the effort, be happy you don't hear from him anymore.
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Well, you didn't mention how you reacted to his offer of buying you a drink.  He may feel you over reacted...it is not for me to say whether you did or not.  But being a guy myself, I am more inclined to believe that he really did want to buy you a drink and that you did not misunderstand him.  Perhaps he was embarrassed when you turned him down and now wants to make it look like it was your fault.  Now he sees he has no chance with you, he has turned into a jerk to make you go away.  Sounds like a loser anyways....good thing you found out before you invested much time and emotion into him.  I apologize on behalf of my gender...we are not all jerks, but many are.
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he's a jerk.  he's holding out for a guy. lol I hope that made you feel better.