why girls do love if they cannt go for intercast marriage against her parents?
610961
In this case girls are utter frustating lot.. if u have found any just kick them.. i hate those girls who say they love and then cannot go against their parents wish...
739080
because they want what they cant have .compotison/the ones that love them are no compation .easy so they go after what they cant get
1112610
It has a lot to do with the culture and the role of men in Indian society.  They are raised in a certain way, and expect their wives to treat them the same way their mothers treated their fathers, but they don't want the same responsibilities that their fathers had (to be faithful, be a good provider, help raise the kids, etc).\n\nAlso, they know the women can't leave them, so they can abuse them as much as they like, and her parents will always tell her to go back to him.  \n\nIt's very sad, but not all marriages end up like this.  I've seen some arranged marriages wind up with much love and happy children.  It depends on the couple and how much they are willing to accept the responsibilites of marriage.
430437
Because usually they are closer to their mother than the wife..plain and simple. They act like they can't do anything without her permission. When you marry it is good to still be close to her, but you also have to know who comes first and more important she has to know that...K
948396
BCZ the money. they want to marrie their sons and daughters with a person that have more money, to give social status. i'm not in favor of that, i think that a person should get married for love, not for their parenst frustrated dreams. An you are right, a person that get married without love will hate the other. Find your "blue prince"
662529
It is cos you know that your parents will always be with you, they won't leave you and they will never become "ex". They accept you the way you are. As for our bfs and gfs, we worry about what they would think of us, we put much effort to get them, to make them want to be only with us. Blind love is just fear of loosing them.
439689
Well after you get married what are they going ot do, refuse to like him still? Do what you wan't and marry who you love. This might be more of a case where you should look at your relationship with your folks and why would they not wan't you to marry the one you love.
796361
Got a friend in India, he says that they Dont know they will love each other, usually it is becuz of status that families marry. They dont believe in divorce whether they love the person or not.
919045
to keep someone happy just stay honest and always communicate as for her parents they will need time and show them you are one to respect an love by example but always be yourself.
1031927
Find the Matchmaker and tell them who you love,  the Parents usually respect the town matchmaker in arraigned marriages.  If not then I'd say tell your parents, If they don't like it you will have to make a clean break for it  because the Idea of Marring for love will be too radical, or they may suprize you who knows.
648630
I don't think it's much of their parents business unless they choose a partner of the same sex and they don't want to hide it from their parents... If that's the case I would say just be honest about it. Parents love you for you and even if they get upset at first, they will learn to except it.
603486
If your parents would never let you have anything to do with her, then why would you want to call her. You would only raise her hopes up, only to be let down. If you ARE going to take her back without your parents consent then yes, call her and tell her that you still love her.
749726
I was working with a girl and really liked her and she liked me but her parents wouldn't let her date someone with a different religion. She respected her parents and her religion and wouldn't go out. I had to go on with life without knowing if she was the one for me. I'm almost 60 and I still wonder today. Its sad, but showing her respect and her parents respect is the most important thing. Sorry.
4942
I'd say it has a lot to do with culture. Asian parents expect their daughters not to marry out of race, so they don't want to get even remotely involved just in case. There's probably a bit of prejudice in it too.
356349
Dont do it. You will hurt ur parents and she will hurt hers. N u will have lots of prob coping wz each others religion. \nFind som1 ur own religion n get married without breaking any1's heart
274523
love trumps the parents ! its necessary for her to love you not her parents,  sure it would be nice ... but its not always possible !,  marry her treat her well, treat the parents with respect, and they may come around one day , especially when you have children, if not ,  they  might miss out on  spending as much time with their grandchildren as they would like...you don't have to live near them, or see them very often  if they never come around...its not an ideal relationship   if they never  like you , but would you be happier with her  or without her ??? also  you could try to find out why they don't like you thru your girlfriend and try to resolve the   problem / reasons, best wishes ! PS  don't  let them ruin your  love and your life !
1081605
You are absolutely right. You have been very considerate to your parents, which shows your family culture. There is no hurry for marriage, now. Maintain good relationship with her and rightly no co-habitation till formal marriage. But tell your parents that if they want to see you married you would marry only her and none else. After all they are your parents, they will not like to stand on the way beyond a certain point. All the best.  God's delays are not God's denials. Patience is genius.