there is a really hot guy at my skool & i want 2 ask him out but im 2 shy & im scared that he will say no help
607943
well if ur just gonna sit around and not ask him anything to begin with then dont do it...ull just admire him from afar...if u sit around and wait u wont get anywhere...if u ask him and he says no...its not like u can look back and say man i wish that i wouldve done something...make ur move...decide wuts right in ur heart...AND MOVE ON!!!!! more fish in the sea  to see...and who noes one of them may be ur one and only.
3756
Just do it... more then likely hes just as afraid as you are... he may look intimidating.. but hes not.. hes just a regular guy.. ya never know he may surprise ya.. just start talking to him then mention a movie or dinner or something.
768283
Ooh... hopefully he won't... But everyone is afraid, the best thing you can do is talk to him, develop a friendship, and eventually ask if he has a girlfriend. The more you deal with rejection, the less shy you'll be about it. Just think up interesting conversation fodder and small talk, chat it up a bit, make yourself look your best and so on.
909125
Go talk to him. I'm shy too,so I know how that feels, but nothing's gonna happen if you don't talk to him. Maybe try to eat lunch with him or something, and build it from there. If he likes you it's not like he'll be mean or anything.
789786
You just ask him. Most guys would DIE to have a girl ask him out... seriously, if you could look inside the guy's head, he's probably thinking things like, "I like that girl, I don't know how to ask her out" and then when you do he's thinking, "Thank God! That took so much pressure off of me, wow I am so lucky". \n\nAnyway, even if you are nervous and you have doubts, just put on a face of confidence and just ask him like it matters little to you, because in the grand scheme of things, it should matter little. So what if he says no. You'll be fine and you'll go on. The real tragedy would be if you just didn't ask because you were embarrassed and then missed out on the great date or relationship you could have had only if you had the courage.
1073296
Look first of all relax. Plus don't ask a guy out just because your friends want you to, it only matters what you want. Second are you sure you are ready to have a boyfriend, and not be taken advantage of? before asking the "boy" in your class start off by talking to him, like you would talk to your friends so that your "stumic" can get used to the idea of talking to the boys, then when you are confortable ask him out.
284568
He's hoping you either say noone or..him. He's afraid to be rejected. Shock him. Tell him you've been waiting for him to ask. And tell him it's him you like. You'll be back in a few minutes to ask us what to do now that he asked you out, so I'll just wait a few. Enjoy.
284393
Ask someone out, remember most boys are shy. (;
213500
A) Maybe You are intimidating. Make the first move on the guy you like. Young or shy guys have a big fear of rejection.\n\nB) Be more friendly. Hint on the guys you like. Flirt a little.
1007538
He's probably too scared that you'll reject him. Let him know how you feel and see what happens!
613710
well first keep talking to him then when u get to know him better u will get the courage to ask him out. even if he says yes or maybe even no still keep in touch with him.
298456
Do not be afraid to talk to him even if you are shy.\nHe will like you regardless of your shyness if you just talk to him.
465315
The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
230453
If you are to shy to ask him out, try asking a group including him to go out. Invite he and his friends to go out with you and your friends someplace.
70952
just tell yourself that any guy would be lucky to have you. if you have confidence, it will be much easier. pump yourself up before you know you will see him. try not to look nervous...just go up to him like he's your best friend and be like.."hey, what's up" be casual and let things happen naturally, don't rush it.
931089
I know just what you mean.  I really don't know how to explain any of this because when I was in school there was this girl that really did like me but she would never asked me how to say anything to me.  She was really shy but very pretty after several years I found out that she really did like me a lot.  I wish I would have knew this or she would have told me because I wouldn't love to go out with her.  Maybe the best thing that you can do is try to find out whether or not this guy is at all interested in her.  If he is maybe you should drop the few hints around and maybe he will get the idea that it is okay for him to ask her out.  Some guys are really intimidated when girls come on to them.  Try to find how he feels and try to get him to make the first move.  Good luck
31330
Quit beating yourself up and GO ASK HIM OUT!!!  He will either be flattered and accept or will say no ... either way ... you have saved yourself a lot of time and wondering