ok her it is: i'm a single mom of two beautiful kids and find it very hard to meet someone,any ideas for me?
600840
Have a custom t-shirt made with your phone number huge on top of your chest.  this always works at the clubs.  (if they are shy, they can still get your number and call you - have two phones; one just for the shirt)\n\ngood luck.  btw, only wear the shirt when you are in a social scene; do not wear it when you're on the street around weirdos.\n\n==================================\n\nmore serious answer:  you need to flirt more!!!! when you're at the gas station, grocery store, etc, let guys catch you looking at them and SMILE!!!!
173373
I am also single and don't like it.  What type of help do you want?  Some advice?  Socialize, meet new people at school, in town, etc.  Build a social network, including clubs or hobbies you have, with people your own age, and the exposure will help you meet lots of new people.  Be open and relaxed (not desperate or needy) as you introduce yourself and take things slowly.  If you are in college that is a great place to start meeting people like yourself.\nBest of luck in love to you!
624067
Its not that we think they are easy, its just like any other girl. I know I'm a little hesitant to date single moms because i dont know if they want to date me or find a daddy for their kid. Some guys might think single moms are easy, but most just want to date different types of people. Like women, men like variety.
242983
27 is not old !!! my wife found me at 28 and she has a son. he was 5 then, just turned 8 last week. we are married now with one on the way - any day now - due date next week. i thort as you do " where is she? where can i look? "  I'll be honest with you, i never believed the old saying " stop looking and they'll find you "   but thats exactly what happened. honest. the only real advice i can give would be, dont try too hard, be yourself at all times, dont wait too long before you tell him you have a child, go out when you can with friends, explore all avenues (i mean blind dates and set ups as long as evaluating all pickup lines).  goodluck and i hope that the right guy is just aroun the corner for you.
567410
I AGREE WITH YOU IAM 25 AND A SINGLE MOTHER AND LOOKING FOR A MAN TO BE WITH ME THE REST OF MY LIFE BUT I TOO SEEM TO HAVE THAT PROBLEM I BELIEVE THE BEST THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.  YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
1161497
There is not a certain place to meet new people now that you are single. You have to go outside of you comfort level. Just try going to places that you normally wouldn't go..for example museums, festivals, health clubs, networking things like that....
72696
Yes I sure would. I would be willing to date a single mom because if I like the girl then I would accept her and her kids because they are apart of the package. My mom is also a single mom and has started dating and she is twice your age. If she can do it, so can you. Keep your head up and don't worry, there is someone out there for everyone.
829649
I'm pregant and a mom of one with a hubby in the Navy, by the way I'm only 23 yrs old. Someone needs to cheer me up. \n\nThink about it this way your life could always be alot worse than it already is. And just because you have no one to go out with doesn't mean you can't go out and have fun meeting new people.
219865
When it is meant to happen it will. I never thought I would find anyone. When I stopped looking and decided that I didn't need a man to be happy. That is when I met him. I was a single mom of 3 in my late 20's when it happened. GOOD LUCK!!
659863
good for you for getting out of something like that. I'm a single mother though, and the father in my case walked out on us. i have no intentions of tricking anyone into raising my kid. if i meet someone, i tell them immediately that i have child and if they don't like it hey too bad.
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1) Online Dating.\n\n2) Do Volunteer Work.\n\n3) If religous, try church.\n\n4) Local singles events (check your local paper and online).\n\n5) Try Speed Dating.\n\nThese are just a few. The simple fact is that single women are everywhere. You just need to show confidence in communicating with them no matter what the medium. Right now, the #1 way that singles meet is through online dating.
168796
I used to have this problem. I dated many different men and they all seemed to have at least two children. So, I made a new rule. If the words "MY KIDS" came out of their mouth I would immediately have somewhere else I needed to be. Even if I was just going to go home and be alone. I finally did meet someone without children (it took a while) and we are now married and have a wonderful life together. Just hang in there and dont give up there ARE men out there with no children it is just so hard to find them because people seem to be so irresponsible these days just popping out kids right and left. Also try to remember that if your break up with a guy who has kids you are also breaking up with the kids. GOOD LUCK and happy hunting.
43397
hey, i went online, maybe you can too.  I've gotten lots of attention but haven't found anyone yet that I'm interested in dating full time.  It takes time but if you meet this person online, you could get to know her a little better and then maybe after a few emails, a few message sessions, and a few phone calls you might actually work up your courage to go on a date.  It might work!
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You're just going to have to wait for them to come to you.  Most people cannot find them if they look, and when they just sit back and wait, they will come to them.  I fyou really want to meet them that bad, why don't you try a phone dating service, or an online match-up service, uch as match.com.  Glad to help...
830439
Looking for more relationships is not what you need at this point in your life. The last two failed relationships are a testament to that.\n\nYou have two children who should be the focal point of your life. If love happens to come your way, so be it...\n\nBut you are a father now. The two children you helped create should be the only thing on your mind, not your love life.\nThink of them, and once you have established yourself in both their lives, and are a more stable person, perhaps then you can search for love again.\n\nI had a father who was in and out of my life when I was young, because he has three different 'babys mommas'. \n\nI'm fine, because my mother was a stable person, and she married my step father, who ended up becoming my real father.\n\nDo you want your children to be the second most important thing in your life? Or do you want them to grow up knowing you did everything in the world for them?\n\nThink about your kids, first. Please.
1150657
That's funny, there are so many nice, friendly well balance women out there without children  wondering the same thing about a males.  The problem is, where do you find eachother....at the nice, friendly, well balanced singles without children club? That's cute. Good luck hun.
333209
I'm trying to figure that out myself...I've tried doing the online thing..but that hasn't worked out to well. Mostly I found just meeting people through friends has worked the best. Going to party with friends and in groups I find a little easier to deal with than one on one, more people to bounce off conversation with.\n\nVolunteer work is a good place to and if you're religious Church.