dont you wish your male companion wish you have Grrrrrreat Sex with?
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Best Answer!\n\nI detect that recently you have come to a conclusion that men are demanding or suggestive towards what a woman should be. So much so they make you feel inadequate or less of person because they seek something from you that you cannot achieve in a short period of time.  \n\nBottom-line - It takes balance - mentally and physically to maintain a healthy relationship. \n\nA good man in time will develop confidence in his ability and will express a sense of being proud for his accomplishments as a good provider / home maker / etc. What most men have to learn is the type of woman he has on his team. Many of women will respect a man for his ability to be a good man, but do not want a man constantly reminding them he is the KING of the castle type of stuff.  Typically cats that get into that type of assertion need a pat on the back or someone to stroke their ego to make him feel like a man. That's not balanced. \n\nWomen on the other hand can enhance that assertion by not vocally/mentally showing up when its needed. She may play into the role of being needy and horribly insecure. She may always allow him to make decisions and suggestions - not learning to speak up and share her opinion concerning issues. So he figures he has to  take lead all the time. This too is not balanced. \n\nInstead of figuring this or that about what a man or women should its best to learn to communicate effectively ( not argue) in all areas of the relationship - from the bed to a night on the town learn to speak what's really good for both of you verses having this underline expectation of what a person should do. It will not take away from things naturally happening, but instead amplify things because you remove the doubts and negative uncertainty. This will clearly lower negative comments about a person not doing "their part" or feelings of someone is putting you down.
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Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
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I would prefer a mental connection when comes to sex,but guys are different.
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Of course they do!  They like compliments that make them feel appreciated, loved, valued and sexy.  They just want to feel like "men" and be appreciated by the woman their with.  Do that, and i guarantee he will make sure you feel like a woman.
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my husband does.  Unfortunately some men like it too much...and it makes things cum to fast.
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he wants to add you to his sexual managerie.. kick him in the _____.
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why it gotta be guys who had sex w/ animals??? huh, why not girls???
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Guys thrive on feelin like they are sexually attractive to thier mate.Let him know u cant get enough of him! Gush over how hot he looks and how sexy he is and act on it.
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no, u would feel uncomfortable and how bout ur man how nasty would that be!
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mine cuddles with me and only when he too is tired. he is horny 99% of the time but kinda knows when i want it and not. i would wonder what was up if he stopped doing it one day. i tell him when im not in the mood and he respects that..  :)
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Love to have sex.  Silly question.....if your having sex, ideally you are giving and receiving......
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He doesn't have a problem with it..Were you wanting him to get all jealous?? Sounds to me like you've got yourself a mature male...rather rare these days!
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what!!\n...and give him the pleasure of having my foot in his nuts? no way!\nI'd much prefer to squeeze his balls.\nnow thats brutal!
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Are you kidding me?\nThat would be great, I mean it! I would love to have a boyfriend who is so much at ease with his own sexuality!\nI would bang him till he sees stars, and then, as an encore, I would do it again!
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I have the same problem with guys, maybe we should hook-up ;D
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no but i guess that turns you on and if you was really doing it then thats what you would want your mate to do
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I wish my hubby had a higher libido...after having five kids and being married for several years our love life has gotten boring and his sex drive has gone down. We are always paying attention to the kids and dealing with other things to even begin thinking about intimacy. \n\nI would love it if I actually had to worry about tuning myself up to meet his needs! It would make me feel more desirable...