this school year my boyfriend will transfer to another school..a place far from here,can we still work it out?
595247
Long distances relationships can work..but a lot of times they do fail though, sadly to say...but in your case..you have no way to communicate with him at all..so its a bad idea to stay together..if you cant even talk!
332447
There's nothing about being selfish in this situation you're being reasonable. You can let this new guy know where you stand and let him know that you need sometime to sort through things in your life before getting back into another relationship. At the end of the if he wants to start another relationship with someone else you guys can still be friends and move on from there. On the other hand, if he wants to wait for you then you know he's in deed a really good guy. With my friendship/relationship I've been with my boyfriend for a 1.5 years and we were in the same state but then I went out of state to complete a Masters' degree and to be fair I gave him the option of being with someone else if someone else came along before I came back to MI to be with him. I did that because either one of us has never had a long distance relationship, so I didn't want to make him feel that he is "tied to me" while i'm out of state at Graduate school. The "separation" didn't happen we ended up still being together and when I came back to MI to visit him the love was there as if I was always there with him. So good things happen if its suppose to happen that way. Good luck and I wish you all the best.
1051402
Honey, no man is worth moving for. If your happy with your current living situation, stay! If you wanna move to make him happy, why are you even getting back with him? You obviously broke up for a reason. Stick to your guns and dont make any decision based around him.
657975
sometimes things just feel like they are so right dont they? as he is going away and he feels the same as you, maybe he is thinking the same as you, have you thought about moving with him? i believe things happen for a reason and if your meant to be together than you will be and nothing like a trip to the U.S will get in your way.\ngood luck x\n\nps you could always ask him!!!
218002
It's hard to say.  If you aren't around him all the time, who knows what he's doing.  If you're in high school, and he's in college, anything could happen.\n\nIs his college far away from where you live?  Long distance relationships can be very hard, especially when one of the people is in college!  How long have you been seeing this person?  Do you trust him?
378537
Well, obviously you need to make a choice.\n\nHave you and your current boyfriend really grown together that much if you can have the same feelings for another person almost immediately?\n\nIf not, perhaps you should talk to him about where your relationship is going.
422917
since you have already made up your mind to study abroad, my advise is to just go ahead without worrying about your boyfriend. since you don't believe in long distance relashionships this decision basically means that you have already given up on the relashionship. It sounds to me like you need some time to find out who you are before you can commit yourself. it is only fair that you tell your boyfriend what you are planning. be honest. I wish you well.
805638
you need to get a lawyer, try legal aid they may be able to help you as long as you are in there income guidelines, he can stop you from being able to move and this will probably affect the current visitation agreement you two have. It will probably come to one having the child during the school year and one during the summer, also alternating holidays. that is if that's what he goes for, he could also go for total custody. Before you move you need to get the courts permission or else you can be charged for this. Be careful, it sounds like you may have a fight on your hands, don't let the thought of you wanting to move in with your current boyfriend, make you lose your child, do everything the legal way so you are all legal and still retain custody.
327645
Wait!!!!!!!!! You're in your last year and it'll take a year to plan the perfect wedding anyway! Girl, finish your edu-ma-cation for the love of....! Sorry if I'm being overly dramatic, but I transfered to be with my bf in my sophomore year, and though I went to a great second school, I had too many credits that didn't transfer and it set me back a year! :-( (And we never got married).
425686
Relax.  Your grades are not as important in college as you think.  Experience is going to get you where you need to go.  And as far as your girlfriend moving away, it happens.  I have personally gone though it.  But if you want it to work out, you have to work at it.  Stay in constant communication.  And if it is meant to happen, it will.  RELAX!  It wil be painful, but if it does last, and you see her again, it will mean all the more to you and her.
905225
Wait until both of you finish school. You don't want him to end up just being your baby's daddy, do you?
1043263
Hon, one thing I have learned, is no matter how hurtful it feels...sometimes you got to make choices that will benefit you and not your significant other. After all, you got to focus on what is best for you, because no one else will!! \n\nLet him go now, before it is too late. I quit school for a month and got bored because all of my friends were in school so there was nothing for me to do. So, I went back to school. I am so glad I did. STAY IN SCHOOL!! \n\nDon't make a decision you could regret. And do what is best for your FUTURE, not today.
640588
Dear you are too young to decide on these issues. But you want to move away from him you have a reason to move away. U have studies as priority and concentrate on that. If he really loves you then breaking away is always not so easy and you have to go through that ache. Make up your mind and there is lot of life ahead and tell him about your decision with the positive note.
646415
Then tell him, distance relationships can and do work, in the end, this world doesnt force you or anyone to stay were they are.\n\nTalk to him ask him how he feels, its certainly not too late at all. If he does feel the same way then arrange to go visit him, perhaps take turns in visiting each other to see what will happen in the long run.\n\nIn the long term there is always a possibility of you moving out to him or him back to you or the both of you to someplace completely different.\n\nMost importantly of all, it is not too late and dont kick yourself for missing an opportunity.\n\nBest wishes, and kind regards.
813375
I think he is possibly thinking of your future together.  You still have three years of high school left, so don't worry so much.  Time takes care of things, often.  It is wise to go on to college or business school, however.  A high school education just doesn't cut it anymore.
665661
In most cases transferring to a different school is possible...some of the coarse work may be different or may not transfer and you will have to take it again.
1082589
Yes break up with him. You may decide later not to go to college in CA or you may not get into any colleges in CA. You are only 16 so break up with him but you can stay friends and email him every now and again or chat with him occasionally on AIM etc. He will most likely see other girls after you move anyway so break up with him so you are free to date other guys and so it wont matter if he dates other girls.