What should i do.  My boyfriend said that he loved someone else in his sleep.?
611836
well it was probably just a dream & didnt mean anything.but i would be worried too if i was in ur situation. if he actually said "i love u ____" then maybe u should talk to him about it.
191817
Really at that time you where not officialy committed at 2 week's so let the guilt go. Some thing's are better left alone and if you care for him this is one. Old saying let dead dog's lay dont dig them up. You have now falling in love but at that time you where not and now you start your life happy together the pass can haunt you for many year's if you say something are even lose him. Keep your beautiful relationship in place you will never sleep with another man but him. Ya'll have a great life together ok.
587114
i would do nothing because if you were his girlfriend and you found out not only did your boyfriend like someone else but the girl knew about you and she decided to pursue it.  tell him when he finds out what he wants to let you know, but i wouldn't hold my breath waiting.  did you ever hear that saying that, (the way you got him that's the way you lose him).  think about that and be careful.
992176
You definitely need to define your relationship with him.  I think you should make it clear you are a couple and that this relationship is exclusive now and if he can't handle that he needs to leave.  This is worth fighting about because if he only sees you as dating then he believes he has the right to be sleeping with other women still and I don't think you want him sharing your bed every night if that is the case.
1062210
sleep with someone else.
488758
I say listen to your heart. Be true to yourself. If that other guy really loves u then i wouldn't take my chances messing that up for this one that just wanna come around all the sudden.
995797
I think you need to let sleeping dogs lie cause he sounds confusing and confusing leads stress, stress leads to pain and pain leads to heartache so move on and find someone else cause he's playing you.
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
147927
stay with the one you love because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. Maybe he is saying that he loves you to win you over, but who knows. It is up to you. What feels right? Who treats you better? Who do you LOVE?
306204
Sorry but you don't cheap on anyone that you supposedly love.  Spare him the heartache again if he knows that you cheated.  Put yourself in his shoes, cuz I know you wouldn't like it if he cheated on you.  Move on.....
1016936
wake up sweetie.he's not worth it.........\nhe's just passing his time with you......
280348
I don't think you have true love there or his love. If he loved you then he would speak up or for you. Time to move on and find some one else that will.
463790
Find someone else who will deserve my love and affection. I won't accept any other relationship that he has whether it is a fling or a serious thing or a one-night thing!\n\nHow will I deal with it? Ditch him and find another.
1062773
i can understand what you mean as there was something similar that happened between me & my boyfriend but cuz of different reasons...but it was my boyfriend who was in your position & i was on the receiving end...its very tough when someone you love says that they can no longer be with you for whatever reasons...just because we love each other so much, we try to understand & do what the other wants even when thats not something we really want...our mind accepts the situations & tries to adjust but our heart just doesnt wants to let go...you imagine all the things that can go wrong & also how tough your life would be without that person...this feeling of insecurity & depression is terrible...you also began to question that whether that person really loves you, cuz if yes than how can that person take such a harsh & insensitive decision...all this is just a matter of your emotions & you imagine everything thats positive or negatve...when this happens you try to take yourself away from that person & try to act tough cuz you dont want that other person to know that after saying that you understand, you have so many questions going on in your mind...this happened with me & though i really love my boyfriend i was still hurt tremendously by his decision to break up even when i agreed & understood his reasons...i think your boyfriend also is really hurt by whatever happened...its good that you plan to go back to him...i would suggest that you talk to him & try to get out all the pain he is carrying in his heart cuz of what happened...you'll have to shower unconditional love to make him feel secure with you again...treat him nicely, spend time with him & appreciate his presence in your life...just let him know that you belong only to him & there's no one who can love & understand you the way he does...i am sure you'll be able to do that cuz you truely love him...Goodluck!!
26395
Have you slept with him yet?  You are sure that you love him?  Im sure he loves his girlfriend right now, but is it really anything serious?  If you could be with him right now, would you?  If you can, tell him and see what he says.  You wouldnt be messing up his relationship if he loves you, well you would be, but if you think you are a better replacement, go for it.
108510
Accept the fact that it takes two people who both love eather other to have a relationship and as much as you wish that was with this person it isn't.  You deserve to let yourself move on and find someone who will want your love and give you their love back in return.
940171
explain your feelings to him, i would not want to be with someone who did not love me. tell him the truth so you both can move on. love is so hard to deal with, but you have to be honest so one day you and he can both be happy.