why bleeding occurs after sex when one abstains for six years?
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teiamaria115 has answered the question perfectly however I would just like to add that lubricant may help. Sometimes a woman doesn't produce enough and it can become sore and feel very tight.\n\nAsk your man to be gentle with you and instead of just going at it like a pair of animals, ask him to take his time. Easing himself in and out of you a little at a time allowing your body to produce it's own moisture. Make it fun for both of you because sex should be fun and you shouldn't have to worry about it either before or after.\nSomething else to try could be a vibrator. Try practising with it yourself with and without lubricant and if you feel comfortable with it, your partner can join in too.\n\nEnjoy x
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i was 15, and it was my 3rd time having sex. he pushed it in, and pulled it out and saw blood. he told me to run to the bathroom so i did.... i sat on the toilet... i was bleeding so bad... it hurt when it popped. but not that bad. but i was bleeding so bad. there was a blood trail from his room to the bathroom and then me and him went in the shower, and blood was still dripping from inside of me..
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Not without a medical exam, I think.\n\nThey used to say that a woman bled after sex the first time, but that is not always the case and there are times for women who have had sex before to bleed after intercourse - so that method is not really concrete.
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If you stopped taking birth control, you are not experiancing break through bleeding. Break through bleeding is a term used only to describe bleeding while taking active hormones. \n\nWhat you are experiencing is a period. If you were irresponsible about going off birth control and stopped half way through your pack, then the bleeding could last much longer than your regular period and your cycle is going to take some time to go back to normal. You messed up your hormonal cycle. If you were smart about it and waited until the end of a pack to go off birth control, your bleeding should only last as long as it usually does each month when you get your period. \n\nSince you are planning on becoming pregnant, you should wait about 2 to 3 full natural cycles to attempt to get pregnant. Right now your body is getting used to being off hormones and you may not ovulate for a few months or experience irregular cycles. It may be better to wait. No worries though, if you were fertile before going on the pill, you should have no problems becoming pregnant soon. \n\nThese sorts of questions should always be directed at your prescribing doctor though, so go see your doc!
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usually sex is okay after your six  week checkup. the doctor checks if the uterus has retracted and returned to normal, and you do not have any infections.
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I don't know if it is normal, but the same thing happened to my friend.  She was on Depo, I'm not sure how long, at least 6 months.  She bled the entire time she was on it so she got off of it.  When she stopped she kept bleeding and it still didn't stop.  Her doctor eventually had to put her and some strange birth control with extra hormones in it just so the bleeding would stop, apparently it was the only way they could get it to stop.  The doctor said she would have just kept bleeding.  I have lost touch with her since so I'm not sure how it turned out.  That was 2 years ago and I'm sure she is okay now.   I am by no means a doctor, just sharing an experience. Stay away from Depo ladies it screws with your hormones big time.
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Not usually.  Most women have 5 or so years of on-and-off periods with bleeding ranging from very light to very heavy to anything in-between.
536909
It's better to wait until the bleeding has stopped.  It may interfere with Pap test results, and can make visual inspection of the cervix and vagina walls more difficult.
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yes that can happen.  \n\nalso if it has stopped, and then you exercise vigorously a day afterwards, you can have a bit of spotting. \n\nif it is constant, see your doctor, if it is occasionally, just know when to not work out so intense. \n\ngood luck.
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After having children the mucus discharge does thicken. The irregular bloody spotting with it probably means your system is a bit out of whack after having children and being off Depo. Talk to your OB/GYN and see if getting back on some kind of birth control will help regulate your periods again. If they continue to get worse though, they might consider a D&C or ablation. Stop using Depro though...it's now being related to bone disorders. Ask your dr. about the NuvaRing....it's easy to use and works very well. Regulated my periods immediately!
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that used to happen to me sometimes, the inside of our vaginas are very fragile and can easily be slightly torn... no biggie as long as you are not gushing blood!! if its mainly when you wipe and a little on him after sex i wouldnt worry to much its most likely from sex that is a little rougher than normal
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Okay first of all, there is a chance that you can have a normal period during the first stages of pregnancy.  Second of all, the reason you are spotting (in my opinion) is because you had sex the day after your period was over.  Even though you are done, there is still residue built up that needs to clean itself out, and your man just loosened it up. Another thing to consider is that when you don't have sex for a long period of time, then sometimes you tighten up.  Did you have any pain or discomfort during intercourse?  \n\nHonestly, I don't think you are pregnant.
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Sounds like spotting from her period to me. \n\nIf you were dry humping and have had no real intercourse then it's impossible that she became pregnant. The vagina is such a hostile environment that the chances of sperm making it past your underware, past hers, past the labia, and on and up is freaking impossible on levels I simply cannot verbalize. \n\nThe spot of blood *could* have been the breaking of her hymen if you guys were too rough, similar to what can occur when a virgin rides a horse. \n\nGiven no other extreme circumstances, and the assumption that you are not hiding anything (i mean why ask such a question and hide something unless you're a moron), then I am certain that she was spotting from her period. \n\nKeep in mind that spotting can occur many days before or after a period. If she has a fibroid (unlikely at her age but hey you never know) she could very well spot at any time during the month.\n\nSo yeah...not pregnant.
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You could have an infection or endometriosis.  Are you bleeding after intercourse and are you getting pain at any other time during your menstraul cycle?  Get the Doc to refer you to a gyneacologist.  It could be a number of things.  I had problems after the birth of my daughter and it turned out to be endometriosis.  It was already there before I got pregnant but I didn't have any major symptoms until after the birth.  I don't know why this happenend, but the Doctor said sometimes it can make it worse.
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madam,\n\n         it is advised not to have an intercourse, whether protected or unprotected, until 6 weeks after a normal delivery, as the female genital tract takes that much time to recover from changed during pregnancy and labor.\n\n during delivery there will be lot of blood clots inside the uterus, everything of them is difficult to remove by any doctor, and which will come down by their own.\n\nby having an intercourse, u forced them to come down..\n\nthat's it.\n\ndon't be panic, i advice not to repeat it. take rest, consult doctor if necessary.\n\nall the best
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Actually the spotting may be a result of the Pap. The doctor scrapes the cervix to get the cells and sometimes the cervix is a little irritated from the scraping. \n\nNormally, I wouldn't expect the spotting to last this long...unless you have what is called a "friable" cervix. That is a cervix that is easily irritated. Often the doctor will mention this during the Pap...but not necessarily. When indicated, a friable cervix can be "toughened" up with a simple in-office procedure.\n\nMy first recommendation would be to simply call the doctor's office and leave a message saying something like "I have been spotting since the PAP...could this be connected?" Then go from there based on the doctor's (or his nurses's) response.
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I had that problem. I went and got it checked out and found out that their was blood vessels outside of my cervix and sex would break the blood vessels easily.  I just had them dried up in surgery and it went away. Go and have a check up. :)