For  "men" only! How to get to know a guy to like me who I am? Looks and personility?
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dont be shy be outgoing the next time you go to the bar wear very formal clothes and sit next to a hot guy that you like then start nto make moves as in drop ur pen or sum shit like dat good luck
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So much depends on the age and maturity level of the guy.  But a better question might be:  What kind of a guy do I want to spend MY time with?  You want to be very careful not to lose yourself in some fantasy that any particular guy thinks you are.  Molding yourself to somebody else's idea of who you should be may chip away at who you really are, or want to be.  So go out, have a good time, and instead of worrying whether you'll have the "right stuff", be yourself and be on the lookout for someone you truly like and admire.  It's OK if he's cute, too.  You'll do just fine.
474854
Your personality and character. Be nice to guys, and have a lot of friends. Most of all, be yourself!
314988
If you want a woman to like you, you have to like yourself first.  Look in the mirror, and decide what good qualities you have.  Those are the qualities that women will pick up on.\n\nWhat qualities about yourself don't you like?  Can you change them?  Do something to feel more positive about yourself in those areas.\n\nIf you're a nice, kind-hearted, caring guy (which I think most women appreciate in a man), that will come across in your personality.  Let a woman get to know the real you.  Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place.\n\nAnd remember, chances are that the woman you're talking to is probably as nervous as you are.  To be confident, you need to love yourself.  Because if you don't love yourself, how can you expect another woman to?\n\nConfidence comes with experience.  Just get out there and start talking to them.  Be yourself, smile, look them in the eye when you talk to them.  Give them compliments, and they'll be all over you.  And then comes the hard part... is this woman worth your time, or you do wanna go on to the next one?
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This is hard...how far are you willing to go.  I only ask, because there are numerous things that you can do. This depends on him and what kind of image he may have of you.  You always want to be yourself...don't try to be something you are not.  Disappointments are not good.  Try to have short conversations with him.  Statements that leave him hanging and wondering...What did she mean by that???  He's gonna come back to find out...if he is intersted.  I once left a post it note on a man's door with my #.  He called 20 mins later.  Subtle things work the best.....Okay, well it helps if you enjoy some of the same things.  Interraction is your best bet.  Some girls don't need to flirt...and honestly you prob don't need to.  If he is a fresh too, he might not get it.  But if he is a playboy...is that what you want?
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Just be yourself! dont try to over-do somethings. guys like an honest girl. personality is a key thing! If ya have any questions, AIM me...LHUCowboy82985\n\nKenny
98786
First off, congrats on realizing beauty. Most ppl overlook it. Second, you don't really want a guy who only likes you because of how you look. But I'm sure you knew that. To answer your question, it differs from person to person. In my experience, if I have one particular guy I want to notice me, I smile at him, and try to be friendly, and make lots of eye contact. This shows that you're into him, without being creepy. Guys don't generally like girls who hang all over them. If he shows similar signs, then I know he's interested. If you are just trying to find somebody, and don't know how to start, then my advice to you is, STOP! If you just go, and have fun, and make sure that you look great, no matter what, guys will come to you. But if you seem like you're trying too hard, it's not a good vibe. Desperation will call unlikely characters, and those aren't the ones you want hanging around. I hope this helps you're question, and don't give up hope. Mr. Right could be right around the corner! Good Luck!
273154
Just be yourself!!! Dont change for nobody!!! Personally I find  the clean cut gentleman more attractive, but I like a bad boy attitude.
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just be cool and casual, liking someone shouldn't have to be embarrassing, it's not a crime. use your woman power, make him want you! plus, guys like a good mystery, don't be totally obvious. but if you like him, go for the gold baby! (i used to be shy too, then i met one of my best friends who taught me that you just can't hold back in life, there's nothing to be afraid of because who gives a crap what other people think, all that matters is YOU like the way you are!) GOOD LUCK!
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Well i like men who arent shy enough to approach me so dont look nervous and just be yourself. the only person who can answer that question is u.
871177
You sound beautiful and confident.  The combination of those two elements can make a woman irresistable to any guy.  Go out there, have a great time, and meet as many guys while you still have the chance.  Good luck!
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best way to get my attention to be yourself...no stupid pickup lines, and no games...be honest\n\nI value intelligence and a good sense of humour.  If you can carry a decent conversation and make me laugh...it's all good.\n\nnot date worthy...any guy who is overly cocky, and bad teeth is a total turnoff
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U cn make a guy notice you by ur personality.\nFirst of all. make sure u always have a good appearance(dressing mode) when around him.\nTry to grt him to be friends with u ..by asking a question or something.\nHave a good sense of humor  and listen attentively wheen he talks.\nThose should be easy 4 anyone to do..
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Sweetheart, you want to be confident, but vulnerable.  compliment him and laugh at his jokes.  make eye contact for 3 consecutive seconds.  most importantly be yourself!!!
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I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
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If you think a girl has to ask a guy, "do you like me?" to any guy --- You are living in the stone age! If you are good looking, with muscle or no muscle the most important part of who you are is your personality. Personality usually reflects  an  individuals self confidence, sense of humor, intelligence & kindness to name a few traits. At 16 perhaps the girls are interested perhaps not. The best thing for you do do is to approach them in a freindly manner, ask to include yourself to join them for lunch and then just be yourself. It's best to introduce yourself and show genuine interest in getting to know them. Most of them probably have brothers so they won't treat you like you have kooties! Regardless of age, or how may muscles a person has it's best not to try to interpret other peoples reactions or lack thereof to you. Most people are inside their own heads working through their own stuff. If you want someone to  "like" you--- give them a few reasons to like you! Start by being friendly and complimentary. Always be real.
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Do you mean : How can a guy fall for you?\nIf that's the question, then my answer is Be yourself. Don't pretend to be something that you're not so that the guy will like/love you for who you are (no doubts).