i fell in love with a guy on internet..we hv been together fr 5 years..now he doesnt find time fr me.?
608658
5 years, on the net???? why havent u closed the gap? i met my BF online over a year ago, but we are getting engaged and i will be moving to the states at the end of the year to be with him. what i mean is, y are u so surprised and upset that it's over? LD relationships dont work longterm if there is no end to the distance in sight.
301291
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
867715
yes I have, I knew I loved this guy I met on net before I ever saw him, that was 5 years ago. and we still love each other.
1003294
i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...
603350
Not on the net because you never know what you are getting until it's too late. Just seek someone with the same interest as you, someone down to earth,. And take your time getting to know this person, build your trust with this person, and most importantly, show your love to this person.  Don't rush things and if its meant to be you will indeed have found your partner for life someone you can be with and relate to.
80186
Just let him go. You just waste you time waiting for something not available. You deserve the best. Explore your enviroment and you will find your next better perfect match. Move on !!!
1142593
6 years is pretty long and yet he does not want anything serious. Obviously you both want different things. Whats' the point then? Perhaps you grow too comfortable with him not necessary content. Time to move on and look for someone different.
631705
Be blunt just come right out and tell him you are in love with him and if that dont work they are a lot of men out there. stop wasting you time you dont live forever. maybe when you are not around he may miss you. and come looking for you. you never know.
124813
And he shouldn't give up his love of 5 years.  You just need to start dating again, find things you enjoy doing and do them.  Don't sit by dwelling on what you can't have, instead accept the things you cannot change and move foward.  If you and this person are supposed to be together, you will, in time, for now it is what it is and you just have to go about living your life and finding ways to bring joy and peace to your own life, like attract like and if you are down in the dumps that is exactly the type of person you are going to attract, shake yourself up and open your mind for the goodness that you deserve.
723536
I say keep in touch as much as you can, try both buying webcams to chat and see each other over the internet, that way you can at least see each other, and if it is meant to be, then a year should be no biggie, but definitely keep in touch with him and let him know you exist and are around to be there for him, even though miles apart!
924924
Let it go for now.\nBe his friend \nYou'll probably marry him in 5-10 years from now\n;)
1119763
hey..u seem to be  in a hurry to find luv..let me tell u 1 thin..u can't find that on net..i feel becz on net most people just pretend to luv actually they pass time..sorry if that hurt but that is true..sorry
1049020
It's easy to feel this way about someone that you are communicating to on the internet.  Probably many things in common, sense of humor, etc.  Be careful tho.  On the internet there is no commitment, no responsibility.  It's a whole new ball game when you're together.  Take things very very very slow, don't let your emotions take over, it's too dangerous.  Be cautious and if you meet do it in a public place not just once but every time for quite some time.
7485
Each situation is different, but I would recommend moving on and just keep in touch. It may not seem like it, but there is plenty of time to go on with your life and find him again, if it is meant to be. Find out more about who you are and experience life a bit before committing.
1185657
maybe..until u meet him!!  love is @ FIRST SIGHT well at least!!!!!! NOT meeting online sweetie. Best Of Luck!!!!!
1082716
possibly.  Just do this...dont message him everytime you see him online.  Let him message you first sometimes, Im sure you are a busy person too.  He could just be busy (like what he told you).
691209
What's the point in wanting him then? I wouldnt give him the time of day.\nMove on and find someone who cares.