how do you get your man to want you?
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I drop a couple of non-verbal hints and compliment him on a few things to make him feel like a hero and then I let him have his space until he comes looking for me.  Works like butter everytime.  I think it gives him the chance to chase me and takes care of some primal urge he has. Yar!
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you can't force anyone to love you, you have to let that happen. You do have to go through life being yourself, and just allow the "head over heels" to happen. now what would help is actually speaking tto a guy to let him know you're interested. other than that let the rest happen.
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A guy, they like the challenge and the chase. Have some dignity.  Make him so hot for you that he can't stand it anymore, and wants you. Then, still don't. Let him wait, and wait. You have to show men that you are a respectable women and have pride in yourself.  Trust me he will make it a memorable event for both you and he. Timing is the key.\nIf you really want a lasting relationship with this guy, take things slow.  Good luck!
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The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
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try gettin your man to lift you up so that you are sittin on him with your legs around his waist and him inside you then he can press you up against a wall to help him support you...works for me anyway
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Well, be on top of your game all the time when you are around him or see him... when you are with your friends, look like you are having a blast!  Guys love a girl that knows how to have fun!  Smile!!!!  A man is attracted to a great smile!  Men are visual creatures and need to be stimulated that way!  Wear nice clothes, I am not talking about trashy or skanky, and you dont even have to show a lot of skin, just look like you took some time to get yourself together!  Don't act needy....men hate the clingy needy girls....If he likes you back, he will get the clue.....\nMake yourself available, but not too available....if he asks you out, dont say yes right away, MAKE HIM WANT YOU!!!!!!!
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I'm with you on this one - my husband is the same way. I had to take five years of CONSTANTly telling him how hot he is - make sure he KNOWS how attracted to him you are...jump him...frequently..let him know you only have eyes for him. I mean sadly repetitiveness is the key...it's just like, he can hear it 10000 times, but until HE believe it, it's not going to work.
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Keep reassuring him, smack him on the ass every now and then, tell him how great he looks in that shirt-load him up with kisses......men are such babies at times, how ever it is not out of the ordinary for men to want the affection, like us women do!!  Think about it, how great do you feel when your man comes home from work and says 'hey baby you look great today'...well it is the same for them, just make sure it isn't in front of his friends, then it might not be so much fun for him!!! Good Luck!! :)
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when a woman can give him his own space without acting uninterested.youve gotta trust until given a proven reason not to.men are easy to please as long as you understand the one your dealing with.dont try to change him into who YOU want.let him be himself as long as he can do the same for you.
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Historically, we guys have been made fun of, because sometimes all it takes is a shift in the breeze to get our motors going. And yes, by and large, we're more visual when it comes to getting turned on. But you've stumbled upon something that many women don't know. We like to be complimented, chased after, and once in a while, even leered at. What's in a guy's head? To quote Cheap Trick: "I want YOU to want ME!" \nSo, here are 10 sure-fire ways to love and lust after your fella. \n\n\nBe specific. Don't go for the blanket statement "you're sexy." It's too easy. Think about how you'd feel if that was the best he could come up with when you're standing there nekkid. So, pick something out -- "your arms are so strong. I love to watch the muscles move when you take your shirt off." Or..."You have an incredible (butt/chest/etc.). I just wanna grab you!" See what I mean? \n\nStare. You know how to do it. The same way those construction workers watch you walk by. The same way that guy at work looks at you when you're wearing a plunging neckline. Look him up and down. Undress him with your eyes. And let him know you're doing it, like when he's walking in front of you, climbing up a ladder, or just stepping out of the shower. Heck, even lick your lips and wolf-whistle if you feel like it. \n\nTouch. We men don't have the market cornered on groping. You see something you want, you grab it. There's not a much better compliment than: "Sorry, I just couldn't keep my hands to myself!" Run your hand up his thigh. Down the back of his neck. You know how to do it. \n\nSurprise him. Call in the middle of the day, and tell him you're already thinking about tonight. Or, that you're still in a daze from last night. Catch him at the right time and he won't be able to think of anything but you for the rest of the day. And night. \n\nCompare. Even when you're watching TV or reading magazines, point out to him all the guys he's better looking/smarter/taller than (in your opinion, of course). What guy doesn't want to hear: "I don't see what the big deal is with Brad Pitt. You're way hotter than he is. WAY hotter." \n\nLingerie. No, not for you. Get him a pair of silk boxers (or boxer-briefs, if he prefers), and ask him to model them for you. Then, go back to #1 and get very specific about what you find so sexy about him in his undies. Don't laugh. It works on you women every time. \n\nExclusivity. Nobody can touch your body the way he does. NObody else could ever make you feel that good. Nobody has ever turned you on as much as him. Get the idea? He knows he's the only man in your world. Now let him know why. \n\nJump him. Plain and simple. This accomplishes everything you're asking for, no words necessary. Drag him into the bedroom (or the kitchen table, on the floor, or over to the couch). Throw him down. And have at him as if he were your last meal. You're just so turned on by him that you can't even control yourself. Sounds like a compliment to me! \n\nWrite to him. An e-mail. A letter. A poem. Pour your feelings out on paper and give them to him. Love letters have worked on women for hundreds of years. Maybe it's time the tables were turned. \n\nRepeat as necessary. Find what works for you and him. Go with it. Or, mix it up a little. Keep him on his toes. He'll never know where the next compliment is coming from. Basically, all you need to do is try new ways to stroke him (and his ego), and you're good to go. \n\n\nHide the Honey\n\nThis game requires a blindfold and a small amount of honey, chocolate syrup, nutella or caramel...and no clothes. Blindfold your partner, then hide a drop of honey somewhere on your body. Without using his or her hands, and without the aid of sight, your partner has to find that drop of honey...with their mouth. :) \n\nWhat's Your
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Girl get your sexy on and don't take it off.\nNothing but sexy under ware. Keep yourself hot looking for your man. As hot as you can or as cute as you can. Don't let yourself go cause he asked you to marry him.\n\nKeep it hot! Pretend that he's not your fiance and he's still a man that you are still tying to get with.\nWhat ever your game is to attract  a man is the same game you use to keep him.\nIf the boobs are nice make him want to peek at them.\nIf the butt is nice bend over and pick stuff up in front of him with you hot pants/under ware what ever on.\nWhen your picking out your clothes to wear stand in front of the closet door nude with nothing but the closet light on.\nNothing like doing it in the closet.
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Stop looking. The man you want will show interest in you first.
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Make him feel like a king.  Have his favorite dinner (cook or dine out)  have his favorite drink available.  Ask him questions about what he wants.  Be sexually attentive to him.  He'll have the best trip seeing you and want to come back for more.  Most imporantly, no drama!  He'll go running for the hills.  Don't be too serious unless he wants to.  Guys aren't as into recieving romance the same way women are.  Just be there for him.
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If he doesn't want you then you should start dating other people.  Your goal shouldn't be to make him like you, make your goal to be more attractive to guys in general if this is what you want.
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Nothing. If you have to get him to show affection then leave him.  Stop making any moves. \nIf he wants you he will come for you. If he is too lazy you don't want him.\nDon't waste your time trying to win him. (he is not a prize!) Relationships tend to work when both people are trying and trying extra will not make up for his lack of effort.
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OMG why don't you watch some TV. and if you have to GET him to do these things whats his problem. Maybe he is just not into you. you cant force some one to love you. i wouldn't want a guy i had to force or a one sided relationship.
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Most women are too busy playing "hard-to-get", it's human nature.\n\nHere's three ideas to think about:\n\n1)  How about you get his attention by smiling when you catch him looking.\n\n2)  The best way to show confidence is to approach him.  (I think all ladies should use this advice).  The probably wouldn't be much use for dating sites if women approached men.\n\n3)  Or if your passive aggressive use your network of friends or co-workers and start a rumor that you like a particular guy.  Trust me he'll find out and seek your attention if he is attracted to you.