how do i tell my ex-chick to stop calling me?
595859
Change your phone numbers.
258533
Thing is talk with her . . . not to chat . . but the next time she called . . . asked her . . . \n\nYou broke up with me . . . telling me that you want to be left alone . . . and not to bug you . . . yet you call me periodically on the way home.  What the f*** is going on?  Until you are able to tell me the truth . . . don't call me again.\n\nDon't worry she will call . . . because you called her out.  But now she will have to explain herself.\n\nDo not give in to her . . . and tell her how it felt when she did all what she did to you.  Odds are she will probably respect you more . . . because you stood up for yourself . . . instead of acting like a p***y . . . you have been.\n\nIn my opinion, take control of the situation . . . and don't let her boss you around . . .
745106
Chances are you are playing her to feed your own ego. What are YOU doing to encourage her behavior? Be nice. Tell her you do not feel any chemistry towards her. That's all. Then avoid seeing her and contacting her in any way. Don't take her calls, don't respond to her emails.
815933
Just passively ignore her.  Don't answer phone calls and don't make any contact with her.  After even as short as a month she will forget about you.
713166
No way man. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'll give you a link to go to and read why you shouldn't even be talking to her. If you want any chance of getting her back go no contact. Start dating other woman and let her find out. She'll come crawling back and saying everything you want to hear. Don't buy it. She just wants what she can't have and when she gets it BOOM you mean shyt to her again. There's a 1 in 100000 chance that says she wants you back for the right reasons. Move on. The damage is done. She's damaged goods and you'll never have as healthy relationship as you think. She may say she wants to see you happy in the long run and personally you'll be happier without her. She won't allow you to move on until she's stable in her own life. Don't let her mess with you. And don't even be her friend. Until you are totally over her. Nothing you say or do is going to get her back. I PROMISE. Good luck and find you a new woman. AT CHURCH
97253
Talk with her, let her know how you feel and ask her to stop doing it. Word it in a way that doesn't sound critical and she'll be more apt to listen.
734671
Three options ; \n\n1. Delete their numbers and forget them. They might come looking for you if they don't hear from you.\n\n2. Don't delete but just stop contacting them - if nobody contacts you after a month you know they don't care and you can delete them.\n\n3. Be blunt. Email or text something like "Have I upset you because I don't hear from you anymore?"\n\nIt's bad to burn your bridges but you can put a roadblock up and see how THEY react.
458327
Be assertive! You can be calm and respectful by telling  him/her that their phone calls are annoying. If this doesn't work, block the number!
178296
call her 4 x`s in a row and ask" Is FRED there?\n  Then when she`s really pissed., Call back & Say \n   (hello this is FRED ;have I had any phone calls)
844119
First  u should stop calling him and next u should just stop trying so hard. Hey i have a friend that her guy treats her like she is his everything and she is a bitch to him ( sometimes).  U need to let go.
10669
Tell her to her face, be direct, don't be evasive.  Tell her your feelings have changed and that you don't want to go out with her anymore.  Let her talk or cry or whatever else she needs to do, and let her feel like she has been heard.  Don't make any lame promises like "we can still be friends".  If there is another girl this isn't the time to tell her that, either.  Be direct, be kind, be firm.  Then change your cell phone number.  Good Luck to both of you.
722838
I dont think you should be talking to your EX at all. And the fact that you are sneaking around makes me think you want something from her. There is a reason she is your EX. YOu should quit contacting her. And when your wife finds out I hope she kicks your scandalous a$$!
894619
Ignore her for a few days and stop doing all the stuff you usually do i.e. picking her up after work or call her every 2 times a day, go to parties without her. Send the message hey if you can live without me so can I. \n\nIts harsh BUT that is one of the way to get attention.  If she enjoys all the things you do to ignore her, then my freind something is wrong with your relationship, she might be seeing someone else
500679
get rid of her!! trust me i went through the same shit with my ex and turns out he was just playing me and another girl at the same time
1049862
Call the number that the text was sent from and ask her. Thats what I would do. Then when you dont like the answer tell the girl to step off your man!
543220
grow some balls\n\nif she doesn't want you\n\ntoo bad get over it\n\nquit bitching and move on
147804
The second best thing to do would be to call her up sometime...just chat, keep things light and fun and let her know you're still open for a good time.  This opens you right up for being an exsex booty call...not a bad place to be and if you play your cards right, you could just let her talk herself into you again.\n\nThe BEST thing to do is reach your hand between your legs and find your scrotum...now give it a good hard squeeze.   Does it hurt?  If so, congratulations, you found your dignity.  Don't call begging any ex for anything no matter what.  You want her back, let her see you in shape, smiling, having a good time, with another girl on your arm.  It will work like a charm...