how do u deal with guys that lie to you? and how do u get them to tell you all the truth ??
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if the person is already lying im sorry to tell you he will never tell the whole truth.Plus even if he does tell you the whole truth how do you know he isnt lying then.I hope you can figure a way out to find out if he is telling the truth
1099608
Has your man always been up front and honest with you?  What reason would he have for lying to you and keeping you hanging on?  How often do you talk?  My cousin is going through a similar problem (though not married) and I asked her what she would do to move on if he was lying - though with this particular guy it would be a shock.  She replied that she would go out with her friends and socializing soooooo. . . going out with friends and meeting new people is not cheating.  If you meet some other guy you like more in the process then it was meant to be.  \nIf this girl knew about you why would SHE still be with him?  Sounds like she may be trying to start problems so she can have a shot.  Then again, why is he friendly with this "crazy liar"?  You should know his nature well enough to answer these questions yourself, but I understand it never hurts to get a second opinion.  \nBest of luck with everything.
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WELL~ ppl always say DONT YOU LIE TO ME. but we are now living in a world where lie is everywhere. I think whether you are going to tell the truth or not ,is depending on who you are dealing wiht. What do you tihnk of him. YOU lie coz, you think you are protecting from the bad so he wont get hurt, coz, you think you know better than he does, and you should decide his life? what kinda desicsion he iwll make? or you lie for yourself.\nI dont think lying is a big deal, ONLY IF its good for both of you.\nSo, i said, Lie, that means, you care and love him, When you found that you dont even worry about this lie thing, he/she means nothing to you. To lie is to care :D
8091
BCBS seems to cover everything.  Lots of choices for pills and other things. Call them or go online.\n\nAs far as why men are liars, that's a tough one.
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It sounds to me like he's confused.  Worst case, he's lying to you or at least not giving you the whole truth.  Speak candidly with him, find out the entire story and make a connection with him!  How does he really feel about you?  When he answers, do you believe him?  Listen to your instincts!
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You have to show them that you trust them, and believe them when they tell you something. They in turn will believe you are honest, and trust and have faith in you. It's a delicate thing that is hard to get back once it is broken with a lie or infidelity. Good Luck
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He thinks he can avoid the fighting if he lies to you. What you need to do is let him know that it acctually makes it worse when he lies and you find out later. Tell him that if he tells the truth right off the bat, then you will try not to get so upset with him. If you give him alittle bit more patience and calm, he'll be more willing to tell the truth. He's just afraid of arguing.
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just tell them the truth
540884
if he's telling you so....\nhe will most likely not lie to you.... but does he seem like that type ???? is he the one who will never lie to you ... no matter what... or will he just tell you what you want to hear ??\nIt might just be a friend...\nIt's natural to feel that way about him... just ask him nicely, to tell her to stop "hanging" on him\nif shes a friend then she willl respect what he says\nTrust me... just talk to him.. it will all be better then
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Ya most of the time the truth does come out,the only thing you can do is day your sorry. Balls in his court then. Me personally depending on what you said. I'd probably dump ya.
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Well its really a matter of knowing someone well---when my boyfriend lies--I know he is lying by 2 things: first he kind of stutters when he talks and second he never looks at me in the eyes, always looks to the side if he is telling a lie---its hard for him to lie and me not find out because I know him so much.  But ask him something like "where were u last night"---have him tell u and then ask him again later---if he changes his story u know he is lying and then question him about it.  But dont acuse him until u have proof.
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sense his tone \nor remember a thing he told u and u think its a lie then ask him about it latter like a week or smt\nusualy ppl don't remember there lies for more than a cople of days ;)\ndo more than once and make it look like a casual Q. \ndon't make him feel ur investigating him or that u don't beleave him
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You should ask him directly something you know he will lie about and you have proofs about the lie. I dont think you necessarily should do it in front someone else, but tell the liar next time you catch him lying there you will tell relatives and friends about his behavour and spread all around that he is not reliable.
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Talk to them about how you feel.  Tell them you want to hear the truth and are tired of them lying all the time.  The only way they are going to change is if they realize they have a problem and they make an effort to start telling the truth.
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Certain things happen when folks lie. It is hard to make eye contact so you may want to try forcing that. Most people will give more details to a lie than when they are telling the truth. \nBut can you handle the truth?
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this guy may really do like you meaning that he understands you and he is interested in you but from a female to another you cant believe everything he tells u because dudes do lie now days for no reason. horrey_06@yahoo.com
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Tell him that you cannot be in a relationship with someone whose whole heart is not available and who doesn't respect you enough to be honest and straightfoward with you. \n\nHe lied to you from the start and why would you want to subject yourself to that sort of dispectful deception? That's just asking for trouble. I know it'll be difficult to call it off, but believe me... there are tons of guys out there that will respect you enough to a) not lie to you and b) BE SINGLE :)