having love problems. can anyone out there help me.?
607811
act on with your heart. Being around her makes you happy. Than be around her.\nTrust me, i am in your case before, but this happen when i was 23. I am scary to death but as time pass. I know I lost her forever. But the funny thing is her entire family knows that I love her and want me to be with her.\nSo pal, maybe you think that she doesn't know, but maybe in fact she does. Hiding your feelings doesn't help. I know you are shy, but there are things you don't want to regret on. Trust me, go for her on her birthday or something. Because when summer comes. She will be gone.
53612
Slow down a bit.  Get your mind off of that matter.  Breath some fresh air.  Get you feet back on earth.\n\nLet the relationship bloom on it own course without any help from you.  In time, you'll learn the appropriate action to make happen.
397465
I tried to help you the best I could. Do not ever give up! This will take you time to think over.  Time will tell. Good luck my friend.
1069701
dont ever give up ur love one...its not giving up its just giving time to each other to know urself more.....hope it helps you....gudluck..
422773
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you,cannot explain but your not alone,,hang in there ,someone will come along, probably when your not even expecting it,,love is awfully complicated,,good luck.....
81750
You're not in love.  You're obssessed - with wanting something (in this case, someone) you cannot have.  Don't worry is a common human trait ... u just got to wean yourself off this man.  He spells trouble and you already know that.  Just got to let your head rule over your heart for your own good.
325505
Sounds like the issues are with intimacy and spontaneity, not anything physical, look into yourselves and ask whether or not there is any real attraction anymore and move on from there.
376625
You might try dating someone else.  Just remember that it takes a long time to find someone that you both acctually love eachother and have the desire to stay together.  People are in and out of relationships all the time.  There is no reason to sit there and cry over one person.  Life was ment to be lived so get out there and live it and stop being depressed over one little tiny bump in the road.
815168
sometimes when your in love with someone it is hard to move on, but things get better within time. try doing things that you like to do to keep your mine off of the guy stay away from things that  reminds you of him one other thing  to do pray and ask God to give you strength to get over him and it will come when you least supect it to good luck
652699
Why aren't you over this lover? I wouldn't waste my time thinking of anyone that left me high and dry for another person. You need to work on your self esteem because you are missing a person who obviously didn't care and respect your feelings. Move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea who will stay with you and not abandon you. Pray for someone to love you as much as you love them,  go out with your friends more, talk to someone you trust about your feelings, date people(you don't have to sleep with them) and go out and socialize
211513
You should just give it some time. If you stay true to yourself love will find you eventually. It might not be right when you want it to happen, but it will come. Don't go out there and start looking for somebody to call your own out of desperation because that could mean disaster. Just take care of you and be patient.
345371
May god help you in getting your love. How come there is no way ?? there has to be someway out. please find a way out to meet her or atleast talk to her. if possible make her frnds. but anyways.. if  there is no way u can see today .. i m sure if ur love is true u will find a way soon to your problem. Its only you who can help yourself. and if god wants you both to meet.. he will show u the way. \n\nAll the best\nMy prayers and wishes always with you.
338400
If you have to ask, then maybe.... Slow down a little. You're just dating, right? If your feelings start to become more serious, look closely. It's a lot to take on. Figure out if you really want that. It's a big decision. Don't take it lightly, but don't run away either. It doesn't have to be something you can't handle. YOU get to decide.
799779
giving up is not the solution.. what happened to you should serve as a lesson and a challenge as well, but not as a reason for giving up.. d problem with u is that you're committing the same mistake coz it seems like you're not learning from it.. if u're starting to like a person, just tell them right away.. don't hesitate.. just do it, okay?
607110
To answer your question, YES a PSYCHOLOGIST can help you with all of the above. They are trained in relationships, marriage, and individual counseling. I think it would be good for you to talk with someone about this situation. You will feel better for doing so! \nMy guess is, you will begin to realize why you are waiting on someone who isn't emotionally nor physically available right now!!!\nGood Luck to you I wish you the very best!!
330128
First off, ask yourself this:  Why do you want to be with someone that does not want to be with you?  You two were obviously not meant to be.  That is harsh and I know it hurts but when we are broken hearted, we tend to glorify the "good" things in the relationship and forget the bad.  Try and write what you liked and disliked about the relationship.  Talk to someone who you can trust and who will listen to you.  We have all been there and it is a very hard thing that you are going through.  Please try and remember that this pain is temporary...God bless and Good luck...xoxoturtlegirl
183187
Your soul mate will come to you unexpectedly.  Just relax.  Your time will come for love, dont push it.