what's the best way to initiate love for the first time ?
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Since it might be the first time for the both of you you have to be very careful and take it one step at the time. Kiss and touch each other until you are ready. Being a women it should not be difficult to initiate. Take his hand, kiss him softly and slowly touch his back. That should be it for starters. Take it easy form there and it will be a memorable experience.
412846
first impression lasts..don't ever forget that..\n\nso, be nice and be light with conversations..then, add a bit of humor and smartness when you talk...be sensible...when things went well...continue to be a friend...then go for the kill by being sweet, caring, open minded, exciting and a bit mysterious...be a guy who's willing to get into a relationship without losing the thrill of making us think what's going on in your mind..\n\nway to go...good luck!
1029409
If you want that kiss to be magical and not be uncomfortable when it happens.  you should start touching him, you know accidentally. on the arm and shoulder, back, leg, whatever,  and keep doing it more and more.  your comfort level will rise. you will feel a better connection and chemistry.   and buy the time you want a kiss.  it comes more naturally,   you may need to just go for it.  \n\nnowadays kids are taught to be respect full of women.  but what that really really means is let the girl make the first move. which is not what women really want to do.  So to many times nobody makes a move.
166868
Be real and honest.  Don't play games. Touch her face from time to time.. run your fingers through her hair.  The slightest touch can mean so much. We don't want complicated any more than you do.. Keep it simple.. keep the little stuff little and pay attention to the little stuff.. it makes the big stuff easy and natural.  :)\n    I heard a saying from FranklinCovey's 7 Habits f Highly Effective People...  "Begin with then end in mind."  Have an idea or even know what you are looking for in a relationship.  Then you can begin working towards that.  Happiness is number one.  Good luck
75134
Come up with codes. That way if things start going to far you will have ways of letting eachother know. She will respect you for respecting her. Before you guys start anything you can be like "I want to make sure our first time is really special and that we are both ready for it. If things become too much for you, just pinch my arm and I'll stop." Of course if you come up with something else that would be fine too. The physical "no" is much more likely to get your attention. Some guys have the misconception that no sometimes means yes. No is no and that is the bottom line. Be sure to have a way to tell her to slow down too. You seem to be saying you are not ready either. Maybe you could clasp her hands and then back of for a minute until you are ready to continue. You are only 16, there will be plenty of time. You don't want any regrets. \n\nAlso, "take care of yourself" ahead of time. That way the urge will be less. You wont feel such a great need.\n\nJust in case have some condoms handy. You don't want to take any chances. I'm sure you are not ready to be a dad yet.
830339
Must be your first love? It's going to happen more in your life so get used to it. Everything passes in time.>
607922
the conversation starters will come up spontaniously in your own mind when you first set eyes on him and see something 'more'. at that point it is make or break.\n\nyou will find you feel a strong urge to go and say something to him.\n\nseize the moment. there's no more successful way. \ni alwasy feel so stupid and guilty when i don't seize the moment! no joke, there's some special energy in that first moment which, if you can flow with it, will sufficiently buffer you against the perils of failure (you will just feel so great and exhilerated for being so honest and brave and acting on your feeling straight away!) and create such a charge in your eye, voice and actions that you will be at your most enticing!\n\nor at least you will be very interesting and a rare encounter for them for your honesty.\n\nthis is a fun and spontaneous thing to do, it becomes drudgerous and embarressing when you don't go with the initial impulse because of fear.\n\nlet it go if that happens and wait for the next opportunity! that's what i'm doing, rest assured they just keep on coming!
616009
oooh so cute your first bf^^ you should do something natural that you usualy do with a friend... don't try to be too romentic the first time, go walk in a park and talk with him... take this first date to try to know him a litle bit more. Good luck :D
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By your very own inteligence. Ya know, friendship is the first and most important thing to happen to two people who are about to fall in love. Be patient, love is a slow process, it just sort of happens... Dr Checko... (Nickname)\n\nFrom the desk of Dr Checko's Yahoo 360 Board\nClick on =--> http://360.yahoo.com/checkocheckochecko
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kissing my first boyfriend for the first time
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The single most important thing is to not rush anything.  Take it slow and easy.  Lots of kissing.  Lots of caressing.  \n\nEspecially since this is the first time for both of you, take the time to explore every inch of each other.  Watch each other's reactions as you touch this or caress that or kiss the other thing.  \n\nYou may even wish to take a bath or a shower together beforehand as another way to relax and get to know each other's bodies better.
1110403
You know what you should do before your first time?  Fall in love.  You don't need to worry about anything else but that the person you are giving your virginity to is the right person.  Everything else will fall into place with that.
891177
Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luck
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If you want to let him know you're single, TELL HIM!  this doesn't have to be direct, but there's nothing wrong with approaching him, amd introducing yourself.  The status quo says that men are supposed to make the first move, but the status quo does not assure you that you are going to get a date.  Break tradition and YOU make the first move.  Just by introducing yourself and being cordial, most guys will pick up on the fact that you are available and ready to mingle.  Chances are, he may want to initiate a conversation or date with you, but he may fear that he will be rejected due to the fact that you could be in a relationship.  Trust me, be cordial, friendly, whatever you want to call it.  Chances are, it will pay off in your favor!!!!!!
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start off by saying "we've been friends for a long time right"\nthen explain some details bring back a couple memories if you have to. then say "i'm thinking about taking this friendship a little farther" then try and go in for a kiss.\nit may work it may not
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Yes, there is nothing with making the first move.  Do all of the above.  Make dinner with candle light and where something sexy when he comes home.  Leave messages on his pillow if you leave first.  Send him e-mails saying  something sweet or that you just Miss him.  You can even send him flowers.  I've done it.  They really like it.  Flowers aren't just for men!
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First kiss\nFirst time \nFirst love