How would I know if my husband is cheating on me or not?
596466
Nothing. He's having a mid-life crisis and he feels like crap. He doesn't take care of his appearance any longer because he feels that his sex life is over. He's lost interest in sex. Staring at girls in the street is just some vestige of a time when he was a 'hot stud' and he probably does this to make himself feel worse, which simply justifies his current state of mind. Et voila! One vicious, vicious circle.\n\nYou should bolster his ego by complimenting him whenever you can (while you still can). Try and help him get through this difficult time. It should end eventually (right after he brings the Corvette home).
1033896
You should just casually confront him about the situation and show him the evidence that you have to be suspecting that you believe he is cheating.  While you are confronting and he begins to get really upset for no reason that usually means he is lying.  Ask him to gently tell you the truth and that is all you want to hear.
838076
That he is cheating does not mean that he does not love or find you attractive. It does not mean he wants to end the marriage either. It is just a male thing. The more the merrier. He is just seeking fun adventure and something different.\nHave someone talk with him. Someone he respects and will listen to. It might help. Keep your head and remain cool even as he seems to have lost his.
399848
I think he is cheating. Those are sighns
572890
Not necessarily. Though does show that he is thinking of her some level. doesn't mean it is in a good way though. Confront him and watch his reaction. you always know deep down when your man is cheating.
754082
if he is acting suspicious or getting his sex some place else then he is probably cheating on you
129458
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns. If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
556381
the honest truth is that he could be cheating on you...there is always that possibility. that's why i say that. and of course he says he wants you to have his kids. what do you expect him to say if he is cheating? "hey honey, I'm out here sleeping with random chicks and i don't care what happens with us" that's not gonna happen. if he does happen to be cheating, then he is gonna say whatever it takes to make you think he still cares if he doesn't want you to go anywhere, but at the same time, there is a chance that he isn't cheating to. so at this time, just keep your eyes open, do some research and if he is cheating, leave him alone.
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
536722
I have to agree, you will not find out he is cheating unless you catch him. Do you think that maybe that this group of people that are telling you things possibly don't like you? Maybe they are jealous of you and your man and don't want to see you guys together. Question yourself girl. I believe all people, whether or not they say they do not know their significant other is cheating, deep down they have suspicions, that maybe something is not right.  Did you ever suspect him of cheating before people have told you this? How was your relationship before all of this happened? I think you need to evaluate the way your relationship is going. Good luck.
1146778
if they start dressing different, listening to different music, going on "drives", things like that. then if you call him on it and ask if he is cheating on you. . .and he gets all defenssive and starts freaking out. most likely. . .hes cheating on you
253379
There has to be more to this story. Why do you think he is cheating?  You should have gave some reasons.  But there has to be something he's doing wrong because there is something to be said about a women's intuition.
347173
sounds like hes cheating on you
340127
Two ways - covert and overt\nCovert you dont let him know you suspect anything.  In your relationship, make him feel the best and most loved of any man in the world.  This will likely make him show some emotional signs.  Meanwhile, snoop like a PI.  Check phone conversations, you can request a list of the numbers called from your phone company.  Check the bank statements, they will tell you where all the money was spent if by credit or debit.  Keep tabs on the times he leaves and comes home.  Check with work if he says he worked late, or with his friends if he said he is out with them.\n\nOvert - in addition to doing everything in the covert status (except treating him like a king) straight out ask him, get his email password, dont let him talk on the phone without you being there - just make it so hard on him that he breaks or it takes such a toll on his other relationship, he shows some emotional signs.  \n\nSigns he is cheating - a change in sexual appetite, he has some new things that you didnt get for him, money missing from the bank account without knowing where it went, a change in eating habits - if he has already eaten with her, he wont eat at home.\n\nI wish you luck!
446063
Why bother, if you can not trust him then he is either not worth the effort or you have serious trust issues. Either way finding out if he is cheating on you seems to be a waste of time and energy.
536548
Sounds like he is going through chages and it is possible he is cheating on you! How long have you been married? Because some guys are one way and then after they get married they show their true colors! (And yes women are the same way!) I have more or less went through the same ting resently!