Do i cheat on my gal friend who lives far away from me?
603651
you need to follow through with your commitment to your lady and stay faithful. if you cant do this then you are not ready for a comitment and should just break it off now before it is too late.\n\ncheck your heart now- and follow what it tells you. don't be a mindless man who follows the wrong head like so many men do.\n\nwe are counting on you to make the right decision.\nsusan
110084
I notice you don't mention how things are with your current beau. But as for your bud, maybe he should dump her; she doesn't sound like the most trusting sort. \n\nAnd if you and your friend are that close, maybe you do belong together.
945707
If you really loved her it shouldn't have been important if she didn't want to go any further, but it also depends how long you two were going out. Offcourse at this age love is not that important yet, and it's more about the fact you've got a gf. If she forgives you for flirting with her friend, there should be no worry of going out together because, noone would be happy if you were straight away hooking up with someone, even worse if it was your friend. Just slowly get into doing things. And never push them into doing things they don't want!
923661
This is a very touchy situation and should be handled delicately. Easily, both ends of this scenario can be seen. If you tell her, you'll probably lose him as a friend and she'll either be in denial and/or be mad at you. If you don't tell her, and she finds out anyway (which she will eventually) then finds out that you knew--you'll lose her as a friend. There are endless possabilities as to how it will play out--tell or don't tell--for either. If you truly think that he'll never do anything like cheating again, and they're happy, then that's great. But if he is the type that could cheat again, maybe her knowing now would save her more heart ache and pain down the road...\n\nYou mentioned that he said it was over with the girl, right? Now, did you beleive him when he told you this? You know him, was he being honest about it? Do you see this guy 'checking out' and flirting with women often?  Do you think that he would cheat on her again, period?  Ask yourself these questions, and it should help in your decision.  But, since none of 'us online people' truly know your friends, it would be extremely hard for us to answer the question for you. You are the one who knows them both personally, and it's up to you to sit down and evaluate the situation, taking the people themselves into account. We all have our opinions, and anyone answering this will give you theirs. (that's why we're here I guess--answer truthfully to the best of our abilities and all that) \n\nBest of luck to you, and remember that whatever decision you  make will be the right one!!
99767
you should if she is really your friend , but take in consideration would she have your back if that hapened to you , if she is a good freind i would tell her who snitched cause  no real friends likes people hiding things from them.
160625
Who's fool are you?  Yes it is possible that they can just be friends but seems to me the seed of doubt is already there. Where there is no trust there is no relationship, and it sounds like you don't trust her. Get out while you can and don't be the fool.
462910
of course.. find a gal overseas.. ;) hehe
859934
if she's flirting to the point of making you uncomfortable then you have to say something.  if she's really your friend she'll respect that and keep it friendly.  another issue is do you trust your man?  if so then don't even trip because you know exactly who he's going home with at the end of the night.  it's all about trust but you shouldn't tolerate disrespect especially from your friends.
39344
You got to choices, and it's all up to you.\n\n1. Dont listen anything she says cause living 1 hour away from each other is not DISTANCE, believe you have no idea what a distance-relationship is. If you care for her as you say, FIGHT FOR HER, dont' let her go, if she really loves you, she'll stay with you.\n\n2. Move on... there's a milion other girls. Yeah, i know it's really hard and at this moment you probably believe that you can't live without her, than you will never be able to love anyone again and stuff like that... but believe me, in 6 months, you won't even remember her last name.
220888
Look people have been married for years and somewhere down the line have felt the urge to cheat but some didn't and some did. Decide on which statistic you want to become part of and join it. For one don't put yourself or let yourself be put in any situation that will jeopardize your relationship. Second put yourself in her shoes and imagine how you would feel if she cheated on you in the same situation or any other situation. the amount of time you are away doesn't matter, no matter where you are if you really are interested in this relationship and you have an understanding closed relationship do what you know is right for your future with her if you want to remain with her.
800543
Trust your GF man, she wont go anywhere. And if she decides to cheat ,she will find the way. You can not stop her, can you? Moreover it was last summer.....past
128515
Let's see. If he lives long distant--no you can't. If he \n still has his profile on the dating site---no. If he's not returning your calls and not spending time with you--no.\nIf he keeps looking and flirting with other women---no. If\nhe acts wild and keeps lying to you---no. If he's on drugs\nor drunk too much--no. A woman has an intuition when some-\nthing is not right. So follow your instinct.
841150
look into it. dont get played. it might be true, or maybe not. check the source, it could be the girl is lying or jumping to conclusions\n\nyou need to decide which you value more between your friendship and your girl, because if the rumor is true you might have to choose between the two.\n\ndont give her a second chance to play you. flip it on her. double-team her with your buddy, or make out with the chick that squealed on her. when she confronts you about it, flip it on her that she cheated first. if she leaves you, no big loss, if she stays, you'll be in charge
156313
Yes. Spend a loooooooooot of time.\nI m not talking abt the time 'with her'. But while you are away too. And that will make you really really close to her, and by this you will even know almost her reaction to situations. They love that feeling,that you 'understand her' more than anything else. And remember....that is a loooooot of quality time! You have it with u? Then ur girl will really love you.
174613
I live in Orange County, California, and my girlfriend lives in Sydney, Australia. Thats almost about as long distance as you can get. But even if your mate lived in the next county or city let alone another state or country, if the feelings are real, it is 110% worth it. I found the woman I am going to marry, and if I have to wait most of my life to get that, it is better than wasting one hour on someone I am not meant to be with.
1095786
I've done the long distance thing..  You two are doing everything right in my book anyways.. lol.  My advise is to stay busy with friends.  That way the time will go by faster.
627065
Absolutely but make sure your information is correct and also be prepared for them to be in denial.  A lot of people don't believe that THEIR partner could possibly cheat but you wouldn't be a true friend if you didn't try.  When it comes to things like this always put yourself in their shoes.  Wouldn't you expect them to tell you if the situation were reversed?  It would worse if they found out later from someone else and found out that you knew and didn't tell them.