I NEED HELP should I GO TO MY FRIENDS HOUSE OR SHOULD I GO TO A PARTY MY OTHER FRIEND IS HAVING?!!!!?
600156
Take your friend to your other friends house.
473643
Being in the medical field, my answer to you would be go if you feel you can attend. The party is given to you in your honor of being a strong person. And hopefully raise money for your expenses.  Others will understand if you are unable to go. At this point you need to take care of youself.  Appreciate the fact you have people who truely care!! The ones that just want food and a party are not worthy of even a thank you note.\n\nMy name is Kim.The best of luck to you.  Please let me know how you are really doing, I'd love to hear from you.
77669
It would be best NOT to sneak out. If you have a cell phone, tell your parents you are going to a friends house for a while. IF they need you you can answer the phone and they won't be any the wiser that you are not where you said you would be, but they will know you aren't home and IF there is an emergency, you won't get busted. If you do not have a cell phone, it would be a little harder but tell them you are going to go to a friend's for a girl's night at the movies. Leave a number with them so they can reach you and make sure you tell them the friend has a brother who may answer the phone. Works for my former sister-in-law everytime.
503506
Why not throw your own bday party you cant always rely on someone doing it for you also its not just about presents its about getting all your friends together in 1 place at 1 time friends who make negative comments like you described arent really friends and would be invited. That would teach them theyll miss out not you.
201670
this would be a friend i have a prob with:\n\ni want to hang out with my friend but he goes with the wrong crowd, that i dont want to associated with... thus i cant hang out with him at those times
367798
I would just mind your own business. Why would you want them both to get kicked out of school??? If it bothers you soooo much, talk to your friend. You're not involved so I woundn't get involved in the issue.
150214
You should make an attempt to bring an understanding between the two groups. If this does not work then spend time with them seperately.  If they are truely your friends they should be able to handle being civil to one another when you hold parties on special occasions, such as your birthday. However for the most part try to keep them apart if their distain for each other is that severe.
674717
I would start by deciding how many people you're going to invite than decide where you will have it. Wether you rent a place or just have your party at home. You need to decide what kind of food you would like, you could have a caterer or decide to make all the food yourself. For my 16th birthday I had a party at my house. I did a lua theme we had coconuts, a pinata, we made all the food ourselves. We didn't spend alot of money but the party turned out great, it was alot of fun. As long as you have your friends there you will always have a good time. Good Luck!
906559
You should do what you think is right. If you think it is going to turn out badly, don't go. But if you want to go, then i say go. Your ex (whether or not you want to still be friends with him) should have no impact on where you go and who you hang out with.
237470
You should always go to a bar with a friend or friends for several reasons.  Support, safety, and a good time.  If you really don't have any friends to go with, and you're gonna brave it, just go, observe, and hang out.  Don't be bold and go home with anyone.  Play it smart.  And good  luck!
800681
yes i do et is my friend and  he is staying at my house this weekend we are having a party
732268
It sounds like what people do in life. If their #1 friend can't go, they don't stay home doing nothing, they ask someone else. It sounds more abnormal of her to sit home because of you. You might think about making different friends who do more things you are allowed to do. You'd have more fun.
264439
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
127869
Depends upon who can afford it, I guess.  But in general, I would say whoever is planning it.  If you and your siblings wanted to do something simple, and your parents want something more elegant, I think you should contribute to the party, but I don't think it is fair for you to get stuck with the entire bill.  Unless, of course, you can do it for a fairly comparable price.  That might be possible, too, if you have the dinner at someone's home.
890753
Take your friend to dinner. Do something nice. Your friend did something nice for you, so it only makes sense. :)
653363
Invite whoever the hell you want to! Don't let one person decide who you can't hang out with because she doesn't like many people...You sound like a very nice person and I think you should party with whoever you want to....Hate to say it but the friend who doesn't like many people...really doesn't seem to be doing much but trying to bring u down with her!! Be yourself and invite everyone lol...The more the merrier..No matter where or when.
401575
Go to your friend's lame party.  Liven it up.