I am chunky..... and BeautifullllllllllllllLLLLLLLLL!! why do bit chez always hate??
613854
I think she means "bitches"..Bit chez....get it! dah!\nAnd maybe she means other "bitches" are mean to her cause she's chunky......Am I close? \n\nTo answer your question, chunky women are better in bed and the other women are just jealous.
54561
dear lalalolipop\na guy who cant see past your looking is a guy aint worthy of you\nyou are having a hard time finding someone who isnt a creep coz guys are mostly creeps..\nthere's nothing wrong with you or anyone else.. people are ment to be diffirent tall & short fat & slim white & black it what makes life more colorful\nif you want to loose weight do it for your health\nGod bless all
818224
For one thing, stop comparing yourself to everyone else and second, you sound pretty darn perfect to me. I am 40 years old and 5"4ft and weight 113 pounds, I have weighed this much since I graduated from high school. Some people just grow faster than others and then a lot of catching up will happen. Just think how much healthier you are than they are. All that junk food will eventually catch up with them and they will be the ones saying they wish they looked like you!! Just be happy with yourself now because I bet you are way prettier than they are.
655447
Quite the opposite, I love them, hate large, so give yourself a break, get off your back, and quit worring about it.  You are just as sexy as you feel you are, meaning how you feel about yourself, shows.  If you mean boys now, it's because they watch too much tv, and don't have a clue what's sexy or important.
719574
I'm going on 38 next month but beleive me, i know how you feel, i have been heavy my whole life, i never felt liked, endured cruel jokes and felt i would never have a boyfriend. Girls and women are expected to look like everyone else on TV, its always the thin models that get the main roles in movies and chubby women are shoved to the backburner. We need to realize and believe that looks dont mean ANYTHING AT ALL, if guys are only going to like you because you have a nice body then that tells me what kind of person they really are, a JERK. You have so much to offer in this world, dont let anyone tell you otherwise! You are a special and unique person. Please just be yourself and stop comparing yourself to others, it takes all shapes and sizes in our world. Please enjoy yourself while you can and put a smile on your face, thats what will trully draw the right ones to you. For me i choose swimming to keep myself as healthy as possible, its easier on your body and burns more calories than any exercise you do out of water ( i was told this by a swim instructer ) and best of all its FUN. I know its hard, i dont mean to go on and on but i just want you to know your not alone. God Bless you.
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i'm thin, and my bf tells me and other people that i'm the best he's ever had.  I'll do just about anything, i dont see why being skinny or thick has to d with sexual preference, but. . whatever . . . maybe it was just the personality of the girls you were with, lots of crazy sexual skinny chicks, trust me
760250
Be thankful for small mercies.  Seriously, are you on the pill?  Maybe you just think you have enough body fat?  Consult a Dr. if it persists.
300625
dont take this the wrong way, but u r beyond retarded 4 thinking that!!!  lol.  u r like 1 of the skinniest ppl i know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\n<3 ur totally awesome nerdy friend ;-P
238891
Hell**********no!!! Ur r probably one of the skinniest ppl i kno! And having 14% body fat is nothing!!!\nLuv,\nkelsi
25850
Being a BBW I never realized how much I actually do that. I think part of it comes from being overweight and being made fun of by thinner women. I also think it comes from fear and jealousy. I don’t want my man going to someone else, especially a thin person. It’s a feeling of not being good enough. It’s a fear of loosing to someone who doesn’t make you feel good. And yes in my case there is jealousy that you can be thin and I can’t. Well not as easily as it seems for you. I for one apologize on behalf of BBW's that have made remarks or made you feel bad for who you are. I agree that it's not acceptable.
261349
I'm skinny and I love'em plump. I seldom look on the outside unless they are pigs. (IE poor hygene)..true beauty comes from with in.
697870
I think sometimes it can be difficult for people who carry some more weight than you to understand why you are thinner. There seems to be a lot of tasty food around now so mabye some just don't understand this. I suppose it comes down to a kind of jealousy thing.
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THEY HATE US BCUZ THEY WANNA B OUR SIZE AND THEY 2 DAMN FAT T00 LOZE THA WEIGHT SO THEY JUZT HATE UZ INSTEAD!~ :}\nAM I RIGHT 0R AM I RIGHT
977345
People hate what they can't or don't understand. I'm certain you're a very loving person with a great personality. Try and not let the haters get you down!!!!
597480
I'm a BIG GUY!\n\nAnd I Bullsh*t you not, but I've never had a compliant from any woman I have gave the business tooo....\n\nAlso, I am upset that ppl think Fat guys go small d*cks!\n\n(My is thick and long)
981375
OMG- You're ME! I am the same way. I good with people, but I'm not good WITH people, if that makes sense. I know I'm sweet, nice, generous and lots of other positive things. I tend to put myself down before others get a chance to, but my self esteem is improving. I have a BF who adores me and I'm making a serious effort keep our flame going. I'd say you should go into a clothibg store and just try on several different outfits just to see how cute you can be in differnt clothes. Do your hair a different way and try to be social with people. I know it's easier said than done because I'm like a brick wall around people I dont know. It take a LOT for me to get comfy with new people, and my "open" is still not considered open to others. My BF said I need to let loose and communicate more and just be relaxed. Maybe you overthink things, like me- always wondering what everyone else thinks... just let go and stop worrying. A BF will come sooner o later, dont settle for just anyone, make sure he's worthy of you. Good luck! By the way, I am a 21 y.o. plus sized girl & I think I look great. Just dress to flatter your body type and have confidence.
297977
Hate is such a strong word to use.. Hmm do I dis like fat girls umm no.