what do christian boys look for when they are attracted to girls?
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For me, the number one thing that a girl must have is a relationship with Jesus Christ. After that, I don't have a set standard.
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Here are a few ideas to ponder:\n\n1. God gave you sexual desires to help in your future marriage and ultimately to glorify Him. The desires aren't bad, but pointed in the wrong direction, as thoughts often are, they become sinful.\n\n2. Treat these desires like the habit of over-eating. The right kind of food is good in moderation, but when you binge or constantly crave food, it becomes your drug or even your god respectively.\n\n3. Think of the particular females who are currently the object of your lust as people who need your unselfish, godly love. Ask yourself what their greatest needs are, and minister to them. I wish I had done the same when I was in your stage in life (not long ago).\n\n4. Since the problem is bigger than you are, don't keep it a total secret. Confide in God and in a friend or two you can trust, who will hold you accountable.\n\n5. Don't just stop thinking about girls and sexual stuff. Replace these thoughts with godly thoughts. Carry around a stack of memory verses, for example.\n\n6. You're already so far ahead of most Christian men your age because even to strangers in this forum, you can express the problem honestly. Way to go, brother!
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A lot of things.  Most likely, your real question is, what does a GOOD teen guy look for in a girl.\n\nA respectful teen guy will look for a girl he can talk to.\nA girl that he thinks about all the time.\nA girl that laughs at his jokes even if they are stupid.\nA girl who is honest.\nA girl who does not try to control his life, but will confront him carefully if she thinks he is doing something wrong.\nA girl who will be a friend when he needs a friend, and will always listen to him if he needs someone.\nAnd above all, a teen guy will look for a girl whose smile lights up his day no matter how badly it is going.
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unlike guys girls like a men who is taken because they think it is good. (remember girls arnt so good at logic :) ).\n\nA girl will generally tend to fall in love, want, desire and try to snatch a guy from her friend / sister.\n\nA guy on the other hand will try to find somebody like their friends/brother gf/wife rather directly desire the person in question.\n\n\n*Chris Rock has put this in a very great joke in one of his shows ...
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Girls go for the boys/ guys with the looks, or the ones who are popular or whatever.  Start looking deeper.  usually the best one to get involved with are the quiet/ shy ones that most of the girls ignore.  Just a suggestion..  Looks diminish with time.  The heart stays true.
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God Bless you for wanting to do the right thing.\n\nGod made men to think exactly the way they do.  it's not wrong for you to be attracted to attractive woman/girls. what is wrong is going further with those thought; until they become sinful.\n\ntry this:\nyou see a beautiful girl.  think to yourself;\n" Thank the Lord for putting beautiful people on this earth.  Thank the Lord that i have one for my wife!"\nif those thoughts continue, just try to think about something else.  sounds lame, though, right?.  hey, give it a try!
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A paradox. They want a girl who is a clean, virgin like, a good girl who is NOT easy. But they want a girl who is sexy, sexually aggressive, who would be great in the sack. A girl who will dress sexy, flirt, kiss and touch them but never let them screw her. A challenge. A girl who is interested in them without a doubt but is hard to possess. A girl who will not have sex with other guys but she will have sex with you, awesome sex, after you've earned it. Feed a guys ego. Manipulate his animal desires, make him pursue you. Make yourself appear valuable by how much it cost to get you. Yeah, that's something that guys want. Stupid guys. \n\nKeep in mind though that every guy is different. For example, a girl playing hard to get is a HUGE turnoff for me. It makes me feel like she isn't really interested and is the type who would dump me when somone better comes along. What i like is a girl who is madly, and i mean MADLY attracted to me and shows it. If she's at all good looking and not slutty then a girl who throws herself at me is the best. I find girls who are like obsessively in love with me and get jealous of me to be extremely attractive. I just like feeling that i am something special to her and that i can't be replaced. It's an ego boost and also you just know that wow, this girl really cares about me. But again, that's just me, a freak of nature. Most guys enjoy persuing women.\n\nBe a sexy virgin and almost all guys will desire you. But love, that's something else. A happy sustainable relationship cannot be based solely on desire. Lust is important there's no doubt about it but it's only a part of the equation. If you want a lasting relationship then you need to find a guy who you get along with like your best friend. Your personalities just have to click, and they call that love. Lust+bestfriend=true lasting love and marriage.
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Check out http://www.seekgod.org/teen/ and see if there's any on there you like.
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turn ons:\n-tall boys.\n-preppy guys.\n-bright blue eyes :)\n-athletic.\n-guys that smile alot.\n-when people call just to say hi.\n-compliments.\n-guys that can make me laugh at any given moment.\n-loyalness.\n-guys that are laid back.\n-guys who are into music.\n-buff guys.\n-artists.\n\nturn offs:\n-guys that dress 'ghetto'.\n-smokes/does drugs.\n-guys that wear makeup.\n-guys with piercings.
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i'm a Christian teen too. maybe i can be your partner or go visit\nhttp://www.christianteenforums.com/index.php\nhttp://www.christianchatforum.com/
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In reference to what Jewel said: Actually it DOES have something to do with the Religion. If you're not a religious person then there is no point in you trying to figure it out. So don't speak on something when you have NO IDEA what you're talking about.  Guys try to hit on females who they know are Christians that are saving theirself until marriage. That's the way it's always been for more than one reason...one because it comes to them as a challenge because they know that is a very hard bond to break and for two because they know Christian girls are good girls and they want to try in succeed at 'making them bad'. I think three is because they know it will be safe to sleep with them because they know they haven't ever slept with anyone else and they could possibly do it unprotected without catching anything. And four, they know that the p*ssy will be tight. Excuse my language. But whatever you do, DON'T GIVE IN! It's worth the wait!!!
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girl, or what ever you are. Tell them you have to get to know me, and maybe you got to go to the last resort, the church.  If you believe in God, then you should go. There's always somebody you can at least try in church.  Plus they won't try to get into ur panies as quick as some men.  But I promise you whoever you end up with that's the "one" and trust me you'll know who the one is-remember I promised you- you'll be content with them. It's something about love and fate that just trips me out how they truly interact with each other,comebine perfectly and leave you with an epiphany that yo feel as if it were right in your face.
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Well I am a 22 christian woman so I would like to find someone with the same religious understanding as I do. I want some one who can make me laugh. Who will love me not only for the good things about me but some one can love me for my flaws as well. I would love to find someone who can encourage me and someone who can look at me when I'm tired and my face is a mess and I haven't brushed my hair and say you are so beautiful. Sometimes I think there is no one out there like that, no one for me but as a christian  I know and trust that god has created someone for us all and we just have to be patient and wait for the right time. I hoped I helped and yes I know I get a little carried away with the sappy stuff. God Bless
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Well, I don't understand how a man could be attracted to another man, since I am a heterosexual male (you probably already figured that one out).  But, realizing that the Bible says it is an abomination for a man to lay with another man, and at the same time all sins are equal (a murder = a lie = homosexuality...sins are equal), I tend to have a different view than your average evangelical.  We are all sinners.  We're born into sin, thanks to Grandpa Adam and Granny Eve. So, basically, I say let 'em be.  \n\nCheck out the link I provided.  It may disprove the belief that homosexuality is a choice.  Now, for some people, it is (the "curious" college student willing to try anything because they are drunk), but for others, they are born this way.  Think about the little boy on "Who's The Boss".  He was like 10 years old when the show first came on, and was the most effeminate boy I had ever seen.  You can't "choose" to be  homosexual when you don't even understand what sex is.  He's grown now, and out of the closet.
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+    :)\nA Christian in Rebellion!\n\nChristians are forgiven sinners.\nNo better and sometimes worse than others..\nI am or have been attracted to other sins just as strongly as you are now attracted to the man you say you love.\nLove (AGAPE) by the way is not sexual, lust (EROS) is.\nIf your love for this man does not lead you into fornication (in thought or deed) then It's not sin.\nIf you mean you feel lust for this person you should resist it.\nBeing a Christian means Making Jesus the Christ, the Lord of your life. \nJesus loves you and all homosexuals as much as he loves anyone else.  He died for all of us.\nIf you love him you will keep his commandments.\n\nNo amount of approval from others on this site can change what you must do to please him.
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Urrr...I'm not in eighth grade anymore, but guys in my school usually looked for a girl who'd make out with them. Those were the bad guys. The good guys generally just looked for a nice, (usually funny) girl who they could talk to. (Appearances usually helped, too, but that's not all that matters.)
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Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.