Best methods to deal with premature ejaculation?
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Premature ejaculation, also known as rapid ejaculation, or by the Latin term ejaculatio praecox, is the most common sexual problem in men, characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation. Masters and Johnson stated that a man suffers from premature ejaculation if he ejaculates before his partner achieves orgasm in more than fifty percent of his sexual encounters. Other sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculated within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters. Today, most sex therapists understand premature ejaculation as occurring when a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with sexual or emotional well-being in one or both partners. An estimated thirty percent of men suffer from premature ejaculation on a consistent basis.\n\nMost men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Often adolescents and young men experience premature ejaculation during their first sexual encounters, but eventually learn ejaculatory control. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes men to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, researchers have begun to form a quantitative definition of premature ejaculation. Current evidence supports an average intravaginal ejaculation latency time (IELT) of five to seven minutes. If the disorder is defined as an IELT percentile below 2.5, then premature ejaculation could be suggested by an IELT of less than about one and a half minutes.\n\nScientists have long suspected a genetic link to premature ejaculation. In one study, ninety-one percent of men who suffered from lifelong premature ejaculation also had a first-relative with lifelong premature ejaculation. Other researchers have noted that men who suffer from premature ejaculation have a faster neurological response in the pelvic muscles. Simple exercises commonly suggested by sex therapists can significantly improve ejaculatory control for men with premature ejaculation caused by neurological factors. Often, these men may benefit from anti-anxiety medication or selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, such as sertraline or paroxetine. Some men prefer using anaesthetic creams; however, these creams may also deaden sensations in the man's partner, and are not generally recommended by sex therapists.\n\nPsychological factors also commonly contribute to premature ejaculation. While men sometimes underestimate the relationship between sexual performance and emotional well-being, premature ejaculation can be caused by temporary depression, stress over financial matters, unrealistic expectations about performance, a history of sexual repression, or an overall lack of confidence. Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by a lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy. Neurological premature ejaculation can also lead to other forms of sexual dysfunction, or intensify the existing problem, by creating performance anxiety. In a less pathological context, premature ejaculation could also be simply caused by extreme arousal.\n\nSome physical illnesses, such as a prostate infection, are also known to induce premature ejaculation. In other instances, premature ejaculation is caused by a physical injury that affects the nervous system. Certain medications, such as cold medications containing pseudoephedrine, also cause premature ejaculation. Sexual dysfunction is a common symptom of psychiatric afflictions ranging from bipolar disorder to post-traumatic stress disorder. In these cases, it is best to discuss the issues openly with a physician.\n\nDepending on severity, chronic premature ejaculation can be significantly reduced, or completely cure
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There are creams that slightly numb and prolong ejaculation. You can also try a couple of condoms instead of one to desensitize.
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use the squeeze technique, when you feel that you are near your point of ejaculation gently squeeze the base of the head, it will surely delay ur ejaculation, in time it will prolong your ejaculation.
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apparently there are rings you can wear on your penis that slow tihings down\nalso i've heard if you masterbate earlier that day, it slows the ejaculation process\nand... it's not shameful to get professional help, there are doctors who specialize in this kind of thing...\ngood luck
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Pre ejaculation is the little stuff that cums out before you ejaculate.  you are talking about premature ejaculation and i suggest a lot of masturbation, like 5 times every day.
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stop-n-start\nJust before you'e about to ejaculate, stop yourself & relax for a few seconds before starting again.\nIf you're having sex, keep changing positions! Makes it exciting & you'll last longer as well!
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Premature ejaculation. That is, if I'm answering your poorly typed question correctly.
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This is called premature ejaculation, and is a very common problem for guys under 40. If you can last at least five minutes, then some of the techniques and advise in the first two articles linked should be able to help you. \n\nHere are links to articles about this topic. The last article, from emedicine, is rather technical.
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Best thing to do is Cardio of some sort for half an hour 1 to 2 hours before  s..x.\n\nTry taking the latest herb out, which works for men,  horny goat weed.  It is probably sold all over.
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Eat more protein. Do not ejaculate for a longer period of time so as to stock more sperm.
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Hi,\nPremature ejaculation is can be cured,The treatment for premature ejeaculation is as under.\n\nThe following techniques will be  beneficial in delaying ejaculation:\nThe "stop and start" method – in this method, the man learns to recognise the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating, he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes. This method called the 'Masters and Johnson method', is most effective when the help of the partner is sought during actual intercourse.\n\nThe squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby "cancelling" the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.\n\nDesensitising creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and, in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer.\n\nThe couple can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation.\n\nFeel free to contact\n\nEnjoy Life.\n\nDr.Mojo
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Flex the mucsle that you use to stop urinating in midstream...  Practice this often... When you feel yourself about to ejaculate, flex the muscle... It will prolong your ejaculation, and result in an intesified orgasm...
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If there is a medicine available for premature ejaculation I have never heard of it.  Viagra is all I can think of.
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Try to convince your husband to slow his pace and/or stop before ejaculation and wait a few minutes then resume. With practice he could last a very long time and experience a much stronger and enjoyable orgasm.\n\nIf that does not work, I would suggest he see a doctor for this problem. Sometimes Paxil is prescribed for this problem. It has the ability to extend or prolong the time to ejaculation. There may be other remedies as well.\n\nHope I have been of help. Best of luck and have some fun experimenting. Wish you both a joyful sexual experience.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
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Try a cock ring or masturbate about eight hours before sex.\n Failing that, go for it, ejaculate give it a couple of hours and go again you'll last way longer second time round. Make a virtue out of your problem.
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Actually, the most effective treatments recommended do not include any sort of medications.  Techniques to learn when you are about to ejaculate are a way to start.  Upon knowing when that point is going to occur, one can stop the activity, just long enough to avoid an orgasm - then resume and repeat as needed.  It takes time, but most cases can be remedied in this manner.
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premature ejaculation is uncontrolled ejaculation either before or shortly after sexual penetration with minimal sexual stimulation and before the person wishes. It may result in an unsatisfactory sexual experience for both partners. This can increase the anxiety that may contribute to the problem. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common forms of male sexual dysfunction and has probably affected every man at some point in his life