Do yall thinks it's alright to call your boyfriend back when he is mad and he tell you don't call until 2 days
606552
Show up at his house in a trench coat and high heals and nothing under, when you go inside give him a GOOD time, make him regret or forget why he was mad with you.
448868
I personally think that he is a J-E-R-K! I totally agree with you and I think that you should talk to him about it and ask him why is he not calling, emailing (etc) you at all. I'm not saying straight-up break up with him but he needs to show that he actually loves you. If I saw him, I would tell him to be your boyfriend and not to just think he can coast along enjoying the benefits and not doing the love. I hope you find someone who will treat you like a queen and not a servant. -Cody
238186
Well yeah! If you dont want to go, you dont want to go, dont you think he would like to know this now then before he makes all the plans and your 2 hours from taking off... lol seriously keeping what you want to do from him for the sake of his feelings can end up hurting his feelings even more in the long run :) Trust me on this one babes :)
195316
No I totally care about alot of ppl (especially my fiance) and I show it in different ways,  but sometimes I am horrible w/ b-days and he knows I care even if I forget to tell him and I always make up for it.  Just take into account any of the other ways he shows you he cares.  If there aren't any then its time to consider leaving him.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
51511
I  sense some hostility with the answers so far so ill be very careful. if u just met than there is a cardinal rule never call in the first 4-5 days so that they dont think ur all over them or desperate. if thats not the case than he either has a good reason like in the hospital or just lied it happens not only men do this though and i hope that the other ladies who read this will acknowledge that. women are just as bad as men if not worse because their better at it.
248185
4 phone conversations isn't enough??? If you want him to call you, try NOT calling him for a while (I'm talking 5-6-7 days here, not 2). Guys generally don't have the same urge to talk as often as you do. He may be perfectly willing to call you, it's just you're not giving him an opportunity to miss talking to you.
875848
It depends....does he finally call and not mention it...or does he tell you why he hasn't called. I suppose some guys think this is fine and it is...if that's the way it has always been..but if this is something new I would worry..sounds like he's losing interest to me. If you don't say anything about it the days between calls will become more and the times he does it more often. If I were you I would find something else to do..turn the tables on him and let him wonder where you are. It will stop you from worrying about him , you could have some fun,. and maybe meet someone that will appreciate you...this guy sounds like he's trying to control the relationship and seeing just how far he can go........OH and also...guys do NOT always let you know when they want to break up with you...they try to piss you off til you break up with them ..they don't have the cahones...I have this on very good authority...a MAN...lol
1162492
if you did something to make him realy angry then maybe he cannot help it but to shout at you. but on the other hand if you were upset by something out of your hands and just needed a cry and he shouts at you,,then no its not ok. because he is suppose to confort you and heal your tears. at least to make things easier. try making him cry and shout in his face then see how he likes this treatment.
677141
You have a right to be pissed.  Make it clear if he is planning on talking to this girl again he better tell you first and it better be for a good reason.  Unfortunately I know how close a group of old friends can be and if he isn't lying then what he did isn't that bad except he should have told you first.  Beyond that your only other option is leaving him but if everything else is good in your relationship that seems like a pretty silly step.
254600
he should be still mad at u after 7 months. i mean 'get over it aready!' it should be safe to call him without him hangin the phone up on u but jus to b on the safe side u should ask ur friend to call him first. same thing happened 2 me (only i dumped my ex 4 his best friend) and my ex and i r still talkin up to dis day
1054758
Well, the bottom line is that he isn't concerned about your feelings.  \n\nEven if he were surprising you, it's mean spirited to make you think he can't call.  That's controlling.  \n\nSo I would strongly suggest being sad for the rest of the day but then tell yourself that you deserve much better than that.\n\nRemember, you decide how people are going to treat you.  YOU DECIDE THAT.  How do you decide?  By either allowing it or not allowing it.  So don't allow people to treat you with no regard towards your feelings.  We all deserve more than that and if we demanded it, it would be a better world.  So let it start with you.  Lead yourself girl.  Be strong and demand more.
789379
ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
1047063
yea... call him... if he is your b/f then he wont get mad
1171252
The truth will set you free. when you finally get in contact with him you make sure you tell him everything, Like how you didnt appreciate when he wasnt callin you and checking on you or nothing. Its alright to hear his side of the story but you give him a piece of your mind, and make him feel shity. you spending your time waiting on him to call, and he out doing other stuff. let'em know girl
348624
Have a girls night and make him worry about you, if he just gets pissed, tell him you would have called and told him about it but his phone was off :)
423715
It can be.  True communication can be hard for any person.  We're not taught how to communicate in a really good way.  But it's certainly more difficult for guys because they are suppoused to be "less emotional"  by society's standards.  You have to be willing to be emotional in order to have good communication.  And by being "emotional", I mean not ranting and raving, but willing to admit that you feel hurt or angry.  \n\nIn order to communicate, you have to be vunerable.  That can be much tougher for guys to do.\n\nThree weeks is not a long time.  And I actually think it's never to late to call someone and tell them that you need to talk.  Just try to keep calm and don't blame him.  Tell him that you understand and respect his decision to break up, but you need to know for yourself what got him upset.  Let him know that you want to use the knowledge to make yourself a better person, and that if there is something that did hurt him, you'd like to know so you can apologize.  I'd phrase it it this way, because it might help to make him less defensive.  If he's completely unwilling to talk, say that you understand that he doesn't want to talk about it now, but you'd be open to hearing from him the future if he does want to disuss it.  If he does start talking about it, hear him out and try to reflect back his feelings to him.  Don't be defensive.  Remember, you did want to hear how he was feeling!  Then tell him your side in an honest and open way.  \n\nGood luck!