a homie of mine has a gay brother so i was wondering r u born gay or is it in ur blood????
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it partially has to do with hormones, but experiences really play into it too.
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Both my brothers where Army. My two sisters where Airfarse; but I on the otherhand was Deep Blue "NAVY". What ever branch you join, you have the respect of the rest of us. HOOYAA!!
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You're gay. Being Gay, I know a thing or two about gay... and you are definately gay.
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I would say it's a combination of genetic disposition (being born that way) and the environment one grows up in.  But as it is now, there has been minimal research done to prove whether one is born gay or not.  Of all the homosexuals I know personally, none have told me that they "chose" to be gay.
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My brother and I both grew up knowing from the start that we were adopted.  Yes we are biological brother and sister.  I don't feel that it affected me at all rather than the void of not knowing where I came from.  I think that I keep people at more of a distance now that I have been reunited with my birthfamily (due to alot of deceit and unanswered questions).
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Gay.  It's not masturbation because he's a clone of you, but he's not actually you.
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lol john!!!! ur so gay lol jkjk whats up???
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I think everyone is a little bit gay... and everyone's curious, even if they don't admit it.  I say do what you want to do.  No regrets.  As long as you don't hurt anyone else in the process, go get yours.
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OK, all these people who say you are going through a phase, that's just them trying to "save" you. Every gay person I've ever talked to believes that people are born gay, which means you could probably tell at your age. Also, I've heard of people knowing that they were attracted to people of the same sex when they were even younger then you. People are coming out younger and younger now, this is due to growing acceptance, if you come from a place that does not accept gays, then i am guessing you are pretty sure. I probably don't need to tell you all this. Back to you question, do you know any other gay people? They can give you advice and understanding, also don't underestimate your close friends, and i hate to say it but you might find girls are more accepting then guys.
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Your brother is going to find out anyway, its inevitable. If he's really your bro's best friends, you're brother WILL find out. You'll just have to figure that out on your own.
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No crap, how gay are you?
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When my cousin finally came out, our family actually told him we knew all along. Well some of us did. His dad, who always said he hated gays, accepted him before he passed away of cancer. He said he was afraid of telling us, but we still love him. I know some people feel it is wrong in our family, but we love the person and it is not going to make us stop just because he is gay.
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why not?? you're a human being and human beings have friends... not only gay or lesbian friends cause you're gay, but all kinds of friends :)
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I was born gay, my mom said she knew when I was 8. I came out when I was 14. So the desire has always been there.
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No. He's your brother you can say or feel all you want. Just don't get in it to serious like a sexual relationship with him.
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You were born to be what you are some straight some not so you shouldnt be ashame b/c they are many ppl like you. So keep doing what you do. ITS OK!
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bcoz ur gay and most others are not....