how to understand whether the lady isreally  loving the guy or playing a game with him?
600616
If she's there even when the guy is on his low point of his life, the she really means it. Don't show the girl all the good side, show her also the bad side.
584788
find a deeper meaning to them other than sex tell the truth dont b a cheater make time 4 her treat her like a queen (throw in a diamond 2) NAW jus playing let her and u have a good time and b ur self thats all there is 2 it
175871
Depends on her mood, depends on the guy, depends on if she thinks he can give her what she's looking for (i.e. is she just aroused or is she feeling lonely).
739466
its a mens game.\nthey dont have a better work to do.\nits a easy game to understand,not complicated as understanding a women.
265984
I agree with vilandboy. \nFind out first. Ask her if the both of you are an item. \n\nIf she avoid the question or brush it off, then she's using you, sorry.\n\nIf she smile and hugs you in a frienship way, then she likes your company and considers the relationship as a good thing, friends only maybe something else...\n\nIf she blushes, smiles, clear her throat, or answer your question with a question (why for example) maybe she's thinking about hooking up with you and was afraid to ask you. She may want YOU to make the first move.
732847
Some people enjoy playing games, others are just confused and don't know what they really want.  Stop wasting your time chasing her, and spend this energy on finding someone who knows what they want, and don't want to play the mind games.  \n\n\nGood Luck...stop wasting your energy on her, there are tons of wonderful women out there, and some of them are looking for someone just like you.
931412
Assume she is being a typical woman by saying the opposite of what she is thinking. Take her out, be a gentleman and then play it by ear. Chances are she will cave in if she really is interested.\n\nShe is after all, only wishing not to appear to be "easy".
748450
I THINK THIS YOUNG LADY IS PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU\nI UNDERSTAND THAT BOTH 0F YOU HAVE THINGS GOING\nON IN YOUR LIFE.BUT TI SOUND LIKE SHE NOT REALLY\nTHE ONE FOR YOU. ALSO THE FACT THAT SHE 24 ,MAY\nHAVE SOMETHIING TO DO  WITH WHAT GOING ON WITH\nHER. ALSO SHE MAY HAVE SOMEONE ELSE IN THE PICTURE\nAS WELL.
842283
Is he touching her? Is it physical? \nDid you flirt in frount of him previously with another guy? \nIs he just joking around and having fun do you think or is he serious with these women?
1149704
That sounds like a pretty good answer to me. My suggestion to you is not to let him think that you don't know what head games he is playing with you, that will just make his head even bigger than what it already is. You are smart and let it be known!!
851166
She knows you like her and she is playing with you.\nShe is playing difficult with you.\nNow, you must play difficult with her.\nWhen she ask you to call her on Sunday just tell her that you are busy as you are going out with friends and that next time.\n\nYou have to cosider the following:\nDo you think you are the only one that she is doing this thing to?\nDo you think that she really visited a friend or was she with another man in her list?\n\nIf she likes you really she will not want to lose you.\nShe will let you go if she has got other men to play with.
876270
Flirting is a fun game. The highest form I know is hinting at the indescribable pleasures to be had in a relationship with you, and not letting on like your object is even in the running. They'll come to you as curious as a kitten to a paper bag. Don't act desperate, that's a turn-off. Act like you have All The Time In THe World and are in no hurry. They won't be able to stand not having this fun you're hinting at. Good luck.
881052
listen to your gut.  if it's telling you that things are "shady"-- then it probably is.  a guy, should always make you feel special and that you matter.  if you feel as though this guy is playing games, then he is.  i'm sure he's a nice guy, and i'm sure you really like him, but at the end of the day, it's your heart that counts.  \n\nhowever, if you want to keep him, then you need to replay the playa.  basically, you need to come off like you're not interested...that's the only way to keep him on lock down.  you have to regain the power in the relationship, that means, not texting him, not calling him, not doing anything.  once, he realizes that you're not trying, he'll try.  that's the true test.
1173663
It sounds like a fetish. Maaybe she would like to play a game where she dresses as a guy and go at it with her Boy friend. It could be fun.Talk to her and see if you can work something out. Role playing can be fun.
324792
You both need to stop playing the games. Either break up and move on or trust her. It really is that simple.\n\nWhy would you have a problem with her helping out a friend? If your relationship is solid you should trust her and she you. \nIt would be different if instead of coming straight home she stopped and a drink with the guy. Or if it normally takes 20 min extra to take him home and she was three hours late.\n\nIf it is her nature to be friendly and giving and someone asks for a ride, 9 out of 10 times she will do it. If I had to guess that is probably one of the things you were attracted to in the first place. \nFrom first hand experience - take my word. Do not try and change the qualities of a woman especially the ones that attracted you to her in the first place.\n\nGive her a chance you might be surprised and find out she really is faithful and in love with you. \nIf not your not out anything and you move on.\nBut playing games is not the answer.
433972
The answer lies in your question. When the guy is giving enough hints to suggest that he likes the gal but is too shy to make the first move at the same time avoiding her to show he really doesn't care can be a very indulging game. But there are some things which the guy should take care of. He should be a real guy, I mean he should be good at something on which he can be kind of proud of. When you are playing a game you have to assess what your strengths and weakness are and so for the other person. In this case his strength lies in giving the gal enough hints to make her feel he is in love with her and weakness lies in not able to go upto her and tell her. But he has a very cautious tread to follow. Because if his hints are not good enough and if the women does not make any move as well than he risks the relationship to a more dynamic person (a person who is willing to take that extra step!). Also, if the guy is good at something and can be really proud of it, he can sure attract a gal with the avoid technique (but that too not for long). Once the gal has made the move he has to let go of the ignore techniques or he risks the relationship as well.
536661
That's a good question, have not come across that before, if I were to hazard a guess I would think you would like to be involved in a Kidnap scene/play leading to a APE/TPE relationship. But your best bet is to ask her for clarification.