when someone says Asian American Men, what thought pops into your head....?
607256
no, it's asian WOMEN that are protrayed as the worst drivers..not men. Karaoke bars come to mind, and sushi!
1036143
Well, we asian men are maybe shorter in heigth compared to white men, but were not scared to white men.. pinoy specially are romantic type.. and we don't usually approved divorced, we want married to last..
358522
The 'being Asian' thing is not an issue --- just make sure you look after yourself, keep fit, stuff like that...\n\n...the 'cool' part, well: it depends on what you think is cool; also what suits you within what you call 'cool'. Clothes n stuff like that, I mean.\n\nI think it's cool when people are confident and happy in themselves - that is really the biggest part of it: get your image sorted so you can be sure you look good - then go ahead, be yourself and have fun ;-)
1138675
Well it certainly isn't the size of the penis.  If that were the case they would prefer Black men.  Asian women put the "A" in assimilate...and what better way than to marry a white man and have children who look more "American" than Asian.  I'd say self-hatred.
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I am Asian, and I find it simply offensive to people to judge we Asians as a whole to being sneaky just because they met some Asians who were sneaky. Haven't you heard of the saying, "Don't judge the book by it's cover"? Just because you met/dated/know/ whatever some/a few Asian women who were sneaky/shy/whatever, doesn't mean the others are too. Who knows may be you just don't know how to pick the right ones?\n\nIt is basically human nature in total. Asians can be sneaky, Asians can be honest, Asians can be shy, Asians can be sweet and nice and friendly, Asians can be cruel, Asians can be evil.\nIf you are going to say it this way, I can say too that Americans are sneaky. Americans are cruel. Americans are evil, etc. right?!\nI don't think being Asian have anything to do with sneaky/shy/sweet/nice/evil/mean etc. \n\nIt's just the character itself. If you really want to know if she's shy or friendly or whatsoever, simply get to know her.
764804
If you don't want people to generalize, don't do any generalizing.  Don't say "Asians are stereotyped!" while at the same time saying "the stereotypical white chick assumes that Asians have small penises".
956888
Hi I am an asian female and I am sorry that you are being judged for your looks. As an asian female I get the worst brunt of society's hate and judgement as well. \n\nYou seem like a nice , well mannered intelligent person. What I would do, is stop going to those sleezy bars where men blow you off. Those men are not worth your time since they are just probably looking for sex and are superficial. Have you tried to use a personal website where you can specifically ask and look for someone else your age who wants to be in a long term relationship? \n\nThere is nothing wrong with being a gay asian man. All those people that act like that towards you want to have a sense of control and therefore feel like it's okay to be rude and snub you. It is an issue with them and not you.\n\nAs far as those asian men who don't want to date asian men, I think they have self racism and project their feelings of insecurity and sense of insignificance on you. That is why you get blown off by your own race. Don't worry, asian people blow me off too in general for the exact same reason.\n\nYou will find someone with persistance but remember to change your venue. Don't go to bars.. they basically suck and they are a meat market. Look on yahoo personals or post one yourself, you may be pleasantly surprised at a response. If that doesn't work, start looking for asian male gay organizations. I hope this helps, don't let those idiots get you down, you are too good and mature for them!
1029972
Asians are hardly more worthy than any woman, beautiful or otherwise. While many Asian women are exceedingly beautiful, I'm not sure that's the only attraction they have for military men, or even businessmen. What they are is exotic, culturally and physically exotic, from women in our own culture. This sometimes causes an extreme attraction even for Asian women who are not beautiful. They are still brought up to give deference to men, cater to them, even, much as their mothers and grandmothers had been raised. This is like an aphrodisiac to American men who are used to women brought up on Women's LIb.\n\nThis is not to say that you can't compete with these women. You and all your sisters, black and white, who are attractive females don't have to take a back seat to Asian women if you but look for men that are not so enamored of them. There must be some of them, too. So set your cap for one of them, instead of the gaggle that forms in line for Asian girls. I take it that you are in the service in Japan, or have recently been. Good luck in snatching a good man away from these would-be geishas.
356952
Heck, yeah.  Asian men are usually very attractive and very smart.
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hmm, thats interesting. when i tihnk of americans i begin to think of a few types of people:\n\n- firstly i tihnk of an American business women going around New York.\n- Also of a large person eating an equally big hot dog in a food court.\n- I think of an exercise addict and a clean-freak who has to have everything perfect in their house.\n- Then of a kind of 30-yr-old guy who makes videos and stuff and it generally really nice.\n- Then I think of George Bush and hope that no one else in America is that annoying.\n\nI know my answer sounds really wierd but those are a few "typical" Americans that i picture in my head.\nHope this helps and what do you think a "typical" British person is like?
334233
asian. Normal way, sweet talk and lots of body language. Just say it straight out, you better be lucky though.
290250
It can be as important as you want it to be :-)  Did you know that Koreans make up the largest group of Asians in the United States ;-)
546582
you should mind your business haha jk but if you dont want to hear their buisness (what they think) then you should quit listening!! FUCK THOSE GUYS\neven though i hate asians with a passion
1129936
people of other ethnicities aren't really attracted to asian men hence they stay true to who likes them.. other asian people... i mean i guess...
167030
"chinese,japanese,dirty knees..look at these!" (haha im soo jokin) but yeah u know guys..all they want is sex..being asian is just a BIG bonus!
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Couldn't agree more with sdmagic. \n\nBut then, when you think about, why just asians? There's a tendency for people (of any origin) who are smarter-than-your-average-joe- but-not-quite-PhD-material to brag... simply because it helps them to feel better about themselves.
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Well to be fair, I'm Asian and I tried fitting in the predominately "white" community of my hometown....but I just wasn't taken seriously as a friend. It's hard to fit in w/ people outside your race b/c there are all these barriers and such.  I mean it's easy for you to say we seclude ourselves, but we don't have a role amongst a group of "whites" except as a token, a mascot if you will. But I think after a few more generations, Asians will be considered Americans instead foreigners.