if your freind gets heart problem and she will die in 1year the we should make an operation of50000what u do?
594916
If the operation will give her longivity in her life expectantcy...then money should not be an obstical.  Public aid, charity assistance does exit if the client has no health insurance.
759583
Cry as much as you need too. Reach out to others. Believe you aren't going to die from a broken heart and when you are ready keep your heart open to receiving lots of love and good wishes from others.
1127250
See a heart specialist ....I am serious !
266158
Sounds like you have answered your own question.  If she's not healthy it will take a lot longer to heal.
721465
Flip the script on her...tell her you are going to kill yourself. Or like everyone else is saying she needs to go to the hospital. On a personal note...I tried to kill myself almost a year a ago. If I was not drunk I probably wouldn't have hurt myself so deeply but I cut my wrist and cut nerves, arteries, etc. I had to have surgery. The medical bills alone is enough to realize ok that was dumb. I almost lost my hand and I only have partial use of my pinky because I cut the Ulnar nerve. What I realized through all of this is I didn't want to die, I just wanted things to get better and they do I promise! I seeked help, got on medication (which I was initially against) but it helped. People love you and you will only leave them in complete and utter pain if you took your own life. (This is to relay to your friend) You only have one life that you know about...so just make the best of it because your time will come. We don't come with a re-do button but we have a chance to make our lives better. Just think if you hit rock bottom the only way to go is up. I wish you all the luck, and love! Take Care.
549031
Of course. Just look after yourself. I'm a mere 30 and have just had heart surgery on my own. My ex girl friend Left for another man at the time too. It was not great knowing no one close was there for you. Am no longer scared of death now though, A side effect of being alone, no one there what's the point. The choice is yours. I'd marry if i were you. A bit more of a fight if you don't want to leave your lover behind. Good luck
685321
Don't worry then.  You'll keel over of a heart attack soon from overwork and stress.
342485
If I understand you correctly, you're saying that your 17 year old friend has left ventricular hypertrophy and was advised to undergo surgery to correct this condition. The assumption, therefore, is that your friend has HOCM (hypertrophic obstructive cardiomyopathy). HOCM surgery probably involves open heart surgery, so it is relatively major surgery, unless your friend is able to undergo the non-surgical option where a small amount of alcohol is injected through a tube passed from the groin to reduce the bulk of the muscle that is blocking the flow of blood in the heart. Good luck.
1169627
i think you should wait for 1 year........who knows sum thing myt happen soon
1018931
The only thing that you can do for your friend right now is to pray.  She needs all the prayers that she can get no matter what type of cancer she has.  By going "crazy", you would not be helping her nor would you be a very good friend to her.  Most cancer patients don't like to be treated differently so treat her the same way you always have.  No, she may not be able to do the things she once could so you change the way some things are done.  People survive cancer all the time; the doctors telling her she has cancer is not an automatic death certificate.  PRAY FOR HER TO BE HEALED, PRAY THAT GOD WILL HELP YOU TO BE A BETTER FRIEND AND GUIDE TO HER DURING THIS TIME, PRAY THAT THE TWO OF YOU WILL OVERCOME THIS TOGETHER!!!  Gather several friends to pray with you because God really answers prayer when more than one gather in his name.
783639
GET HER TO THE EMERGANCY ROOM NOW!!!!  Even if she doesn't want to go, pick her up and drag her there if you have to.  The Stent could have moved, slipped or any number of other problems.  SOB is nothing to fool around with.
238240
you have a fatal disease. you will die sometime in the far future.
18709
The best thing you can do is stay with her through out her life as long as she lives.. She needs to be comforted.. Spend as much time with her as you can in a way that she can forget that she is ill and is going to die
801783
As someone who, like your friend, developed heart failure in middle age (I was 49 at the time), I can tell you that his life expectancy is directly related to how well he takes care of himself.  And that, of course, is bad news for your friend.\n\nAs you realize, he is doing everything wrong.  The shortness of breath would be relieved if he lost weight, gave up the cigarettes and dropped the sodium.  I don't know what medications he was prescribed, but probably at least one of them would help him shed the fluid that may be getting into his lungs and making it harder for him to breathe.  \n\nIt's no wonder he is always fatigued.  How would anyone feel if they have reduced heart function and reduced lung capacity?\n\nAs to his other meds, there are wonderful drugs now that can lighten the load on his heart and make it easier for the heart--the part that's still funtioning--to do its job.  If he doesn't take them, he is overstressing the working portion of his heart as it tries to do the job of the entire organ.  It can't, at least not without help.\n\nThe nausea is a very worrisome symptom.  That one suggests angina, which sometimes comes out that way.  His poor heart, overworked as it is, may be sending out distress signals which are perceived as nausea.  \n\nDepending on how much alcohol his is consuming, daily drinking may or may not be a problem.  One or two drinks a day (NO MORE, and NO doubles) actually seems to benefit the heart.  But some people think that if one is okay, four must be great.  It's not.  The beneficial aspects of alcohol completely reverse if you have more than about 2 drinks (just one for a woman).\n\nOverall, this man needs to go back to his doctor and lay all his cards on the table.  Could he be depressed and "giving up"?  That is very common with heart patients.  He needs to tell his doctor *everything* he is doing and not doing, and why.\n\nI believe that patients have rights, and so does your friend.  But he also has children, which means he has a responsibility to be around for them until they are well established on their own.  If he lets himself die while they are still young, they will never fully forgive him.  What's worse, he will have missed out on seeing them grow up, which one of the best parts of life.\n\nGood luck!!
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If the condition has no name, than all I can tell you are the effects of what she's going through and what she can expect in the future.  \n\nImagine alveoli as tiny inflatable balloons in your lungs.  When you breathe in, they stretch, filling with air.  The concentration within the alveoli is very great, and causes a transfer of the oxygen from the alveoli to surrounding blood cells.  This is how the rest of the cells get its energy from blood.\n\nUnfortunately, your friend's alveoli are punctured and cannot inflate as well as they should.  As she breathes, the holes may get larger and become absolutely useless (this is why she is no longer allowed to exersize - to prevent heavy breathing).  \n\nAlveoli are very difficult to treat.  They do not heal like other tissue such as the skin does.  What happens to the alveoli is basically permanent.  If all of the alveoli are useless, than the entire lung is useless.  Also, she is not getting as much oxygen in her blood as she should be, so she might be unusually tired all the time.  \n\nWhile it is a serious case, I do believe that your friend will be alright.  If she requires a transplant for replacement alveoli, she can get some from a donor.  If that is not successful, a lung transplant may be in order.  If all goes wrong, she can still be given an automatic respirator.  \n\nI hope I have cleared up any questions you might have about your friend's condition.  I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.
1019411
See a doctor and have them check it out.  It's better to be safe than to have your heart just stop one day and collapse while you're "feeling just fine".
1079366
I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Any time one has a major surgery there is a chance of not making it through the surgery My mom,in 2003 went to her doctor(regular visit) and he sent her to the hospital they ran the usual tests and told her they would not release her,that she had no choice but to have a quadruple by-pass.So she did,she came through the surgery fine. It took a few months for her to regain her strength,she never seemed to recover from a deep depression.18 months later she died peacefully in her sleep.What concerns me,the quadruple was a fairly new venture in heart surgery at the time.Within 6 months of her surgery,her boyfriend was told he needed the same surgery.and one month later mom's younger brother was told he needed a quadruple by pass.at the same time  a friend of mine had the surgery then the doctor tells his wife she needed the same surgery a month or so later another friend of mine had to have the same surgery!These people live in different states But...they were all on social security and medicaid or medicare.There may not be any connection or anything.But it just strikes me as odd that all these people I know had to have the same surgery.I have even wondered"were these doctors using these people as guinea pigs for practice? My Mom was 70 when she died.There's no doubt that many people need this type surgery.Maybe I am just being paranoid!I guess I am still very upset at the fact the doctor said the surgery would add 10 to 15 years to her life.Her death was totally unexpected.She was not complaining of pain or feeling sick or anything. I pray your Grandpa will have a good out come on his surgery!