I have two beautiful women in my life both perform the same functions and now they want me to chose. Should I?
597716
No...you can't live the single bachelor life forever...I can't believe these women have allowed you to do it this long. you have to chose.\nSeeings as how this seems to be such a chore and hard decision for you...if I was one of them I would make the choice very easy on you and not keep myself as an option for you.
722624
I'd be upfront and ask her abou this other person. It also depends I guess on what your intentions are towards this woman.
256401
Decide which one you like more and see which one likes you more.
626590
maybe you should tell them that you refuse to choose as they are both your friends and you value both of them and both friendships. If they are truly your friends they will see the position they have put you in and understand your decision. There is nothing worse is there than being stuck in the middle of a silly situation between people you care about. Friendships, good and lasting ones, are something to cherish, built on mutual love respect and trust for each other. If you can get them to see that I'm sure you will be able to work things out.Good luck sweetie
1104971
If you've talked and both feel it's right, make the move. Sounds like you could be starting a beautiful family together.
949029
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
423143
Time to be a little bit selfish! When you are with someone, especially long-term its all about you both as a couple. Now you have the chance to do something for yourself. Change your look perhaps get a new hair-cut or go on a holiday to somewhere that YOU have always wanted to go. When you are out there and doing stuff that makes you feel happy and fulfilled that comes across in your personality and people (including women, when youre ready of course) will want to be around you
605779
Dignity is a very hard quality to judge. I dont think that I could choose between those two women. Both of them are very classy.
354421
buddy the last thing you want is for your woman to want you only for your money. look if she goes with the other chap well consider yourself saved. its hard but welcome to the real world. life goes on! cheers. there will be other women believe me.
807010
I've known one of each and both were female.
875822
Out of those options, I would probably choose the nerdy girl that's very nice and kind of pretty. Next choice would be the super smart and nice girl that's a little plain. Those 2 actually seem pretty similar to me.
779624
Don't screw them both. Take a time and think all over. There are going to be consequences whatever you do. How you can handle is you.
70457
Are any of those 8 worth losing the one that you have in your life. you have to be honest with yourself. everything looks good from the outside looking in. if she believes in you and willing to stick with you, my man, it's a no brainer! put that attention you're putting into thinking about the 8 into your woman and you'll find out this is not even an issue
519314
there is possible way to choose between either one of them if you like them both equally if you dont like them both the same then just limit the time you spend with 1 of them if you really cant choose between either one then everytime you see misty play with her when you see becky then play with her and if either one talks about the other 1 meanly then just change the subject good luck cuz i am in the same situation (really i am) and i am doin the same thing i told you and so far its workin i guess
496072
yeah. they're two of the most important people in your life, they should know who each other is.
483643
in this case ur mind and heart wud chose two diff options.. follow da choice of ur heart... it wil never let u down
383533
neither. clearly you don't have Strong enough feelings for either girl, so move on to another girl who has everything you want, don't settle for mediocrity, even at you age. if you develop good habits like this now you will save yourself a world of trouble when you get older when it really counts.