Almost everyone says or wants to say "I LOVE YOU" at least once in a life but no one knows it well!!! why?????
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We see happiness as love and we all want to be happy.  We see love as acceptance and we all want to be accepted by someone.  You don't need to know a lot about something that looks good to know you want the goodness, too.\n\nme
938451
People say things because they honestly believe that they would or could do it all and expect the other to do the same, forever.   These people are selfish and self-centered and rarely think beyond their needs.\n What they don't realize is how much time and work it is to look after such a needy person and still carry on with their lives.   It's  an emotional rollercoaster and the person you are caring for now, is not the same person he was before and will never be again. \nIf only people would think it through and put themselves in the situation, only then will they truly understand and stop judging.\n To put their loved ones in home is not abadoning them or being selfish, it's love and true concern for his remaining life.  A home can provide the necessary care that he deserves and the love for the person he once was will never fade no matter where he is at.
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Because LOVE is a strong powerful 4 letter word that is commonly misused and abused by too many people.\nUnfortunately, not too many people know what true love really is.\nTherefore without knowing what love is, it's impossible to give love & recieve love.
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It sounds more special when you say, "I love you from the bottom of my heart.."  Because heart signifies life and it is just like saying, "You're my life.."  I don't know but that's what I think. :)
96092
Ofcourse its overated,  If you love someone there shouldn't be just one day that you have to tell him or her that you love them.   Its just an way to spend money on products and the American way!!
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because that's what is in THEIR head, people tend to think about others what they really mean about themselvs. when they say that , they are saying : do I really love him/her. it's their question and their thought about what they feel. byron katie has done some interesting work on this subject, I think her site is www.thework.com    take a peek there it is really enlightening.
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For some one to say 'I LOVE YOU" they just need to love u. And for marrying u need to think of many things.\nSo the person who says this may actually wanted u to marry but may not be because of circumstances.\nSo there is nothing wrong in expressing the fellings.\nIt may take to marriage or not.\nLove never ends or starts with marriage. But it would be great to marry a girl/boy who loves u and viceversa.
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I asked a similar question on here about 4 months ago.  People were all like "go ahead and tell her."  She freaked out when I did and it pushed her away.  It's hard to know when that magic time is, but I would make sure that you've waited a decent amount of time.  ALSO... ask yourself why you love someone.  Is it just because he rocked your world?  Or is it because he exhibits the characteristics of someone you truly care for.  What is the harm in waiting?  Is he going to leave because you didn't tell him that?  Saying those 3 little words takes some of the interest out of the relationship for some.  They feel like its too comfortable and lose interest.  I am in favor of telling people you care or love them because life is short, but I would really think about why, and then not pay attention to all the idiots on yahoo and make your own choice.  Listening to them will not get you anywhere. (aka Nate Diggety the f%&king idiot)
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perhaps you can say it without a single word. you can give him attention more than usually, take good care, always be there when he needs you, or some sort like that. love does not always came through words.
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Sometimes in life actions speak louder than words. I want you to ask yourself why is it you need to hear him say I love you, why do you want or need him to say that. surely you are aware of his feelings. Some guys cannot say that but they do feel it . It's not about him being the emotinal type or not. It's about your need to hear those words. We cannot make others do or say what we want them to.  love is not about  expecting things from our loved ones it's all about acceptance being aware of each others needs and healthy communication based on honesty etc. so maybe you two need to have a really open honest talk about what each others needs are and what you both can do for one another so that each of you feel loved and appreciated without feeling like you are being to pushy demading or emotional.\n\nBe honest with yourself about your feelings and when you both chat togehter do so without judging one another. enjoy the time you have together making the most of your time and energy and never for one minute take each other for granted. Good luck with everything in life.  Sometimes in life we need to allow ourselves to think differently to improve ourselves and our life in general.
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Hey Jack, expressing love infront of somebody whom you love very much is not at all hard....just go....take long breath...and tell her that, " I LOVE YOU". that's it.....best luck!!!
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that gotta come from ur heart no one can answer this ''?'' fo u but ur self.when u love someone evreything comes straight from the heart and u dont gotta be thinking bout how or wat to say to them at all.
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actually, its not hard to say i love you...\nwhat is hard is to find to right time...\neverything happens on its right time is excellent...\n\nwait for that time.
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I have gone through the same problem as you, my boyfriend sometimes sweet talks to me and other times he doesn't, but i'm the same to him. In this way i feel that when we do tell each other that we love each other it is always special. I don't know but it makes the relationship more exciting. I just love my boyfriend and he loves me, sometimes we don't need to say "I love you"  to now that we love each other, just by the looking into our eyes, or the things that we do for each other, we know that we do. You should talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you feel.  Good luck!
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l love you can be said without saying.it can be expressed and shown in the eyes. some words are less valueble when they are said repeatedly.
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Maybe,or they are not ready to say I love you back.If they have said it before maybe it just depends on if they are at work or around friends. All you can do is ask why they prefer to say "me too".
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Always. But say it when you REALLY mean it. Like if your doing something together... like watching a movie and cuddling. Its good to say it then. You don't say 'I Love you' just when your having sex or making out. Say it when your doing something sweet together :)