I am in college and I am picky about meeting guys, so I look at porn to satisfy myself. Is that wrong?
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no..guys look at it all the time...\n I am picky also not wild about contracting any STDS...not that I look at porn..I just choice to think about other stuff.\n I fell for the pressure of having to be married when I was 21...and it lasted 15 years.For the last 6 I have been a single Mom & enjoying my son instead of settling for just any guy because I missed the sex.\n The right man did come along and we will be married as soon as he gets back from his extended tour in Afghanistan.\n At least you are being responsible with your health and have a healthy way of seeing relationships...
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Dont let it bother you hun. you would be amazed @ how many men watch porn. one of my girlfriends didnt like it and said that it made her feel like she wasnt good enough or pretty enough if i had to watch that. i beleive allot of females feel that way but its not like that at all. let him watch it, he is just going to get sexualy frustrated and take it out on you any ways.
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My view of it: lying is not OK. Looking at porno - it is up to a couple, whatever they agree upon - is the rule they set for themselves. Apparently, you guys agreed (or was it just you?) that he won't be looking at it. Now he is looking at it and lying about it. He apparently doesn't know how to TALK and re-negotiate the arrangement that doesn't work for him or the promise he cannot keep. \n\nI don't like when my husbant looks at porno. He knows it very well and he doesn't do it in my presence. I know that he didn't agree to stop looking at it, so I don't go after him. But I don't care about too much so I don't make a big fuss about it. I'm not saying this is the right thing to do. I'm just sharing what I do.
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It is not only okay, it is completely natural. If he isn't doing anything other than looking, it doesn't matter.  If it bothers you, you should really ask yourself why.  Don't you ever look at other guys?
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Yes, I think so to a certain degree.  Men tend to prefer hardcore pornography, so they want to see other men's penises in an erect state\n... one has to ask why?  Also, most men like looking at bigger penises in pornography and they like watching oral sex... and most mens' mouths salivate during up-close oral sex on the screen.  Again, why?  Most porn made for men show a POV as if from a woman and rarely from the man's POV.  Also, much of today's porn shows women rimming or fingering their man.  Some of the most popular genres of porn these days are with SheMales, Strap-On and Bisexual MMF Threesomes.  Who primarily buys or rents these?  Supposedly heterosexual MEN, not gay men... and many of them married.  Men are visual creatures, so I think that when we see other men's penises, it arouses us and we ask ourselves why... some moreso than others.\n\nIt is only society and the whole 'unmanly' aspect of male same-sex contact that shuns our curiosity away a lot of the time, however, if a beautiful woman asked her male partner to try being with another guy for her enjoyment (as he would another woman with her), many if not most men will act on her fantasy, because she has now ok'd or endorsed his curiosity.  Many guys say they could only be with another guy with another female present... and they would do it just to please her, but honestly they are using her to allow thoughts they might never act upon for fear of being labeled as gay and the shame that would go along with that.  Also, in a recent sex survey tv special, over 2/3 of straight men say they have seriously considered their female partner using a Strap-On on them.  Tyra Banks had an entire show devoted to an enclave of women who prefer dating or mating with gay/bi men in real-life relationships as well as viewing bi or gay porn... and contrary to what you might think, they were not all dogs, either - some were total hotties.\n\nOprah had a show about men on the "down-low" that said 40% of married men have same-sex contact to whatever degree DURING their marriage and most experts put the number higher than 60% - a mouth is mouth, I guess.  The Down-Low phenomenon has become so big that there is now a new term for men who do not necessarily identify as gay/bi/straight, but 'men who have sex with other men' or initailized as 'MSM' for short.  The more society begins to accept gays, the more bi-curiosity will emerge publicly or at least to their female partner.  Lots of women are turned on watching two men as men are with two women... it was girls I dated who got me all turned on to actively being with another guy, FYI - before that, all my experience was only receiving oral, not giving.  There are large groups of females who are into male-male erotica, "slash" as it is sometimes known and the latest teen craze is guys kissing other guys - something I have not really done.\n\nGo on CraigsList.com and look in their casual encounters personals at all the straight, bi or curious men on there... men seeking couples, strap-ons, shemales, dominance, or one-one-one encounters for giving oral or those who are 'bottom' men seeking to lose their 'virginity' with another guy.  On MySpace, there are a high percentage of male profiles that do not state their orientation as straight, so they are hiding something, otherwise any real completely straight guy would undoubtedly make sure they checked that box.  In the singles scene today, women are frustrated that so many men express their curious side to them... each year bisexuality becomes more vast.  Kinsey believed most all humans were  bisexual or had the capacity... in his 'controversial' research using the famous Kinsey Scale, very few fell in the 0 or 6 categories... most fell in the 1-5 areas.\n\nIn summary, I believe most men DO indeed have a bi-curious side to them, but are afraid to let that surface for fear of public immasculation from th
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Well the ones I've come in contact with are after sex. Some of them have other priorities but even so in my experiences it's always come down to them wanting sex. People do date in college and there are some good guys there. Just look out for the normal things. You know what you're willing to do and not do so just be yourself and don't be afraid to speak your mind and say what you want or don't want.
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no not at all. i love porn my self.. what ever makes you happy and keeps you occupied.
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Yes its a sin sweetie. It will make your future marriages/relationships a disaster. It's funny people say No Its Fine, it wont do anything, but then when they go through it, Look whos laughing?\n\nDONT LOOK AT PORN PLEASE!
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This might give you more insight in a religious sense and matter.  http://www.religioustolerance.org/masturba.htm\n\nI think what your doing is alright as long as your not lusting at another person.
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I agree with the other person, who hasn't? If you have never read a Playboy (yes, there are articles), or seen porn you're in desperate need of a culture shock. It is part of society, and you'll have to accept it sooner or later. It doesn't make you a pervert, unless that's all you do. I read the latest Playboy earlier, they're marketed to men, and you'd be surprised what they contain. You can flip past the boobs!
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Dude it's the basic Human MALE nature,\nYou can delay it, avoid it for some time but CAN NOT leave watching porn.
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I totally know that knot you are describing. I think lots of men do look at porn but I wouldn't say all. It doesn't mean you aren't good enough or anything and it should only really be a problem when he turns you down for sex and turns to porn instead. Talk to him calmly and ask him why, but try not to act like a mother scolding a wayward child. Hope that helps. Take care of you.
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I think it is very degrading to women.  I do not know why they do this and it is a question that enters my mind when I talk to a friend of mine who is into porn.  He is obsessed with this and it actually is running his entire life.  Has affairs with numerous women and has porn all over his computer.  Of course I do not respect him or the fact that he doesn't respect women, nor himself.  I feel there needs to be laws on this.  What a person does in private is his/her personal business.  But what satisfaction does a man get looking at magazines, internet, porn flicks, etc?  I honestly feel it is his real sense of inadequacy and definitely does not feel good about himself.\nWhen it comes to the sick-o man who preys on children is another sickening story which makes me ill thinking about it.  \nIf a man reads this...let us know why you need these degrading things.  You cannot be fully satisfied, otherwise you wouldn't be looking at these things.
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Well its only a problem in the sense of you not having an azz as arousing to males as you'd like it to be.  If you find the right dude who is turned on by who you are then he may not mind.
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Here is a girls honest opinion.There is nothing wrong w/ porn .However some porn has no condom or controseptive involved,my worry for a man finding out his girlfriend did porn would be this...How many people will you be sleeping with by staying with her?What diseases would you be sharing every time you show her your love?So I think you should stick to watching it not sleeping with it.
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I watch lesbian porn from time to time, and I'm straight. The female body is one of God's most beautiful creations. I don't care what sexual preference you are. You can't help but be drawn to it. ....relax, there's nothing wrong with you!
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no you are not homophobic. If you dont like gay porn,you just dont like it,I would of said "see ya" too. Different strokes for different folk.