i betrayed my boy freind a few times. He then put some restrictions on me.wht do i do now?
605784
This is an unhealthy relationship.  You both have got some issues.  He can't trust you and is controlling.  You strayed.  Split up and move on.  Neither of you will be happy if you stay together.  There are millions of people in the world.  Get out there and focus on what makes you happy and you'll find someone who shares that with you.
1120867
Well if he really hurt you, then you should leave him alone. Find someone who is more considerate to you, and your well being.
1125264
my ex did that, i took him back several times. \n\nmy advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
839248
The biggest punishment you can give him is to forget about him completely and let Karma do the rest - it will come and bite him on the butt without you having to waste any of your precious time even thinking about him.\n\nIf he's sleeping around like you say, then sooner or later that is going to catch up with him. It sounds like you had a lucky escape - count your blessings and move on!\n\nHe's obviously not worth a moment of your time or a shred of your brain space. You're worth more than that and to try and exact revenge would diminish you as the better person in all of this.\n\nWhat goes around comes around - you won't have to do a thing!\n\nEnjoy your new found freedom!
383881
You can't.  Period.  Sorry, but if you went into the relationship thinking you could, don't ever do that again.  Let him know that you won't tolerate being controlled, and if he can't live with that, than walk away as soon as you can.  He could turn violent.
805129
give him the silent treatment, what he did was wrong, and you deserve to be treated better than that.  Maby change your phone number, and ignore him completely.  Then work on finding a guy who will treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. Or if he straightens up, then try it again, I recommend, finding a better guy, though.  Good luck!\n\nSavage
896376
You answered your own question, as humans we are programmed to want what we cant have. But remember this, you had him once, and your heart told you that you made better friends. Remain friends, and be the best at it
486918
just tell him that all you want to be is his friend and that you're sorry if you hurt his feelings. whatever you do, dont lie and say you have a b/f or something like that
428126
First thing you need to find out is why he tricked you. Sounds like somewhere in the relationship there was a violation of trust. Discuss with him the reasons he did it not the action itself.  \n\nScrew Doctor Phil.... I need my own show =)\n\nSeriously find out the cause not the action\nWAIT HE WAS YOUR EX? O srew that. Move on then
954139
wow hard one to answer and only you knows the answer to that,i guess it depends in what ways your fellow has let you down.\nYou cant keep forgiving him and will he allways be that way as it wont just be you he lets down but your child together to.\nYou need to take each day as it comes and lay down a few hard rules and see what happens,trouble is will you follow your head or your heart\ngood luck
399285
dont listen to the person above me maybe he really neede a friend at that monment and you cut him off or maybe he really wanted to tell you something i think you just hurt his feelings just apologize and ask him whats up with the way hes treating you
134613
Tell him you are sorry and that you will never do that kind of a thing again. Never involve yourself with married people. Think about it this way. What if someone else interfered in you blissful marriage and spoilt it. Ask for her forgiveness and stay clear from such entanglements.
185605
Its against your beliefs and traditions. But it wasnt you who violated it. Its your friend's prob. In this case, you have limited rights to do anything to your best friend. something like, getting mad? I mean why should you?
703441
well when you get home call him right alway and tell him what happend and make sure that next time you two are going to meet up be prepare for everithing and your friend that didnt want you to have the # he probably realy cares for you so talk to him and tell him y is the reason he didnt give it to you
357212
Why cheapen yourself by doing what he did to him.  He doesn't care what you do.  If he did, he wouldn't have cheated on you with one of your "friends."  Do yourself a favor and invest your time in getting a better boyfriend and a friend that would not sleep with him.
331484
Tell him that you were deeply hurt by what he did and that it will take a very long time for him to earn your trust back. Tell him that you love him very deeply and you only want to love him more. Stop making cracks about it. It's pretty messed up. He probably feels horrible about lying (hopefully) and that will only make him hate himself more. BTW about it being a learning tool, don't believe that crock of bull. A previous *friend* that was a girl told me that she would teach me how to treat a girl right and all we did was make out, but I don't count that as a teaching tool, we straight up made out. I don't try to tell my fiancee' any story about it being a teaching lesson, I straight up told her: Before I was with you, I made out with another girl. I wasn't in love with her. I was infatuated with her. It was a crush and would have never become anything more. But that's about all you can do. Tell him to stop making excuses for his actions and that it will be harder for you to trust him in the future. He may never earn your trust back, but in the end, it's all up to you.\n\nHad something similair happen with my fiancee'. She lied about being raped. It really hurt me, probably more than your hurting right now. She earned my trust back, but i'm still very cautious!
645675
You just got played! No one made him do anything he didn't want to do. He cheated on you. Period. Can you live with that? Your answer to that question should tell you what to do.