Am I obsessing over a guy?
596057
Hi,\n\nI too faced the same problem when i was of your age. But one thing is for sure,.. if you really like him first try to know him by going forward and having a small conversation. I did it and it worked. \n\nIntroduce yourself to him or if you have a friend who knows him ask her or him to introduce you. This will help both of you to know each other, likes and dislikes. Begin your relationship as Normal friends and then later if you still feel the same make it known to him. To become a Guys Girlfriend you must first be his Best Friend
624180
Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
493235
First of all what i suggest is be clear, is he is one you are looking for?. Be clear what is that you are looking for in a guy. And hey don`t me a serious thinker. Go ahead with some boundries of you own and do not be very open very soon first try and understand what he is and what he is looking for in you. Chill.
451968
Of course.  But you must know that he may drive you insane because he'll think you like other guys even if you just glance at them.  But if you love him, then love him and don't let him go.  You might even be able to help him become less over protective.
1030758
Sadly, stopping to think about him is one of the hardest things to do. There´s no way to just stop. And you´re doing it cause he´s obviously a really important person in your life and you really care about him.\nSuggestions:\n1- Go for it! ask him out.. get a friend to set you guys up... or at least hang out with him more so he can see the great person you are\n2- Find someone else that wants to be with you... unless you´re in Love with this guy you´ll forget about him\n3- Wait... a long time... i don´t suggest this that much because you´ll go pretty insane. Either you´ll end up liking him less or just getting use to the pain and the obsession. But i really suggest either trying to be with him or going for someone else
534330
So he thinks you're weird. That's one guy out of how many? Don't be bummed out about it. And don't go chaning yourself over some guy that you used to like! Someday someone will love you for who you are. Don't get upset over what some crush from the past has to say! They're in the past. Leave them there and move on! : )
38325
girl, you are so right. if you like him and he is good to you and good for you, go for it. chance are, your "friends" are just jealous 'cause this guy is crazy over you. you true friends will want to see you happy. the rest will just fuss cause he doesn't fit in to their click. you are being more mature than your friends and it's nice to see everybody doesn't base everything on looks alone! good for you! good luck!
548048
I say take a chance and look him up. There's no point in always wondering what if. If you find him and he's not interested then you can move on because at least you'll know one way or the other. Of course if he wants to be involved then maybe you'll get a happily ever after! Good Luck!
944318
it's better to ask him if he might be able to ever think of you as more than a friend than to emotionaly torture yourself and may never know. Guys are shy too, sometimes you gotta take the wheel and get things rolling.... most guys thinks that it's hot too!
780000
Yes, and he's totally interested in meeting total strangers on the Internet. What's your pt.? You think you have a shot? Come on! How is this relevant to you liking the guy or not--either he's good or cute or both. It's not like his relationship will change your opinion unless you truly do feel you have a shot.
967
I guess a bunch of guy are into you! Same thing has happened to me too! And ya it's probably normal! Have fun!
881224
Try to find something else to do when you get the urge to look at him.     He will get the idea that you like him.
85215
No he isn't holier.  But I know what you mean.  I think that you need to see how close you are to him.  Is he your friend? Does he even talk to you?  With these type of men they seek realy spiritual women that will be a help in their ministry. Try to talk to him. Start trying to be friends first.  Then see how it turns out.  I agree with the person that wrote that you might just be infatuated with the role and not the person.  It is realy easy to get that way.  Just start by being friends that way you can see if it's the man or the role that your in love with.
415073
So just concentrate on one man at a time. Less confusing that way, plus you'll find out whether you really like him or not.
186437
I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
504428
maybe you have a crush on him or hes probably thinking about you to.
998424
i suggest,go out and enjoy your life,dont agonize over a guy,the minute you stop worrying and focus on something else more produtive,BAM,you"ll notice that guys will be checking you out,most guys i know,really like a confident woman....so go,go have fun,enjoy your life!