why are boys so mean to girls when the girls are nice to the boys.?
605383
That's bullshit. Girls are scorpion queens to guys who just want a friendship and a bit of loving. We don't want to be attached to a girl like velcro. Girls seem so have this ALL or NOTHING policy that just does not compute with boys.\n\nI reaffirm the scorpion queen reference, because girls will try to sting boys with their poison and get them to be completely devoted to them in spite of what the boy wants.
602477
Boys are so stupid at that age!  I remember, I was stupid then, too.\n\nIt is possible that some of the boys are teasing about it simply because they want to talk to you and have no idea what to say.  Think up some good comebacks (that don't insult them; just 'cause they don't realize how much they hurt you doesn't mean that they wouldn't feel hurt.)  Who knows, you may find yourself in a fun exchange of banter with one of them; and once you start the conversation, you could nicely ask that some subjects be off-limits.  At that point, the ones with any manhood developing in them will respect that.\n\nGood luck!
84069
Attractive girls tend to cause boys to do silly things. They're trying to show off and get your attention. That's just nature in action :)
635559
most girls like other girls because they've been miss treated by guys.
476248
boys mature slower than girls.. sometimes it takes their whole lifetime =D
69846
The fact that boys are at a lower psychological level than girls. Guess I'll have to wait until they mature...
38882
Isn't it some kind of prejudice? \nI mean, you cannot say that every girl is mean to every loser that hit on them. In fact, how could the girl know that he is a looser? \nMaybe a girl who is mean to a boy - because of any cause - then she is the looser cause she didnt give it the chance to know who is really this guy.\nAnd that boy should know that everyone could have been in that position but it doesn't make HIM a looser, he would become a looser if he allows that to make him feel bad.\nYou know, is like when you look for a job, maybe that is not the rigth job for you, or maybe it is their loss!!!!!
1174429
Maybe it's because girls like that find really caring guys and take advantage of them, or treat them like they're not worth anything, so then those guys clam up and are afraid to trust anyone anymore, then the rest of us really caring girls, if we want any companionship at all, are forced to associate ourselves with those "jerks."\nIt's a vicious cycle.
834549
Theres really no way to tell with girls, you know how complex we are.  Now if the shoe was on the other foot and it was a boy on your sisters nerves, id say yea because boys are pretty 1 dimenisional, not to say thats a bad thing but thats true.  Boys do little stupid things like that, but i dont recall messing with a boy i liked, i just kinda let him in on the fact i wanted him to be my boyfriend.  Boys don't they get on our nerves.
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Only young boys or men who have yet learn to grow up, do this little game that is why you learn not to get too serious until they grow out of it. \n\nIt is a fact that males and females behave differently pending on who is around. when a female is around the guy she likes and other guys are around a greater chance the guy will act like a jerk and when a guy is around a female and other females are around she will act like she is snotty. when males and females mature they improve and many act the same with or without their friends and some don't. \n\nThere is only one way that I know of that you can see how a young person truly is and that is how they behave around their mother.
192761
to make you feel less about yourself. its like a power thing. They feel like they have control by making fun of you or picking on you. but....the more you stand up to them the less they'll do it. Act like you don't care....thats what these girls want. To make you feel bad all the time and have low self esteem. Girls are just like that. don't let that kind of stuff get to you...it'll just give them power.
610360
girls, but boys are great too. thats why we love them :)
723009
I think by using the words "boys" with the punctuation, you are meaning men here who act like boys.  If so, I agree.  Men who are insecure build themselves up by put downs against others, sometimes women.  Perhaps they had fathers that modeled the behavior for them.  Or perhaps they hate women b/c they were mistreated and/or abused by their mothers.  Who knows?  I know one thing...many of them go home to their wives/girlfriends after a day of acting "macho" and cry like helpless little babies they are...believe me its true.
445720
Most people would go easy so they are not thought of as mean. Normally popular girls would be harsh, so over 50% for the nice way!!!\nI think...
1134245
Remember, there a girls who can be very mean also. It's not a gender thing. It's an individual thing. Keep in mind too that it can be very confusing for men. Women like men to be strong, confident, funny, vulnerable, emotionally available, sensitive, "bad boy", "good guy", etc.. etc.. etc..  Many men just don't know what to be anymore, or how to act.
597036
because they will have more power in the relationship. Also girls think that nice guy are weak and can't stand up for themselves and there girls.
397351
There are multiple sides to this question... the first most people would come out and say is that boys are mean.  But it's not always a matter of them being mean or not... a lot of times these boys do not know how to express the feelings they have for a girl, and human nature leads them to acting "mean."\nAnother side would be that the girls are just too sensitive & cry easily.\nIn both instances, you have to hear both sides of the story & get full details to fully understand why the boy made the girl cry.  In all fairness... maybe she started to cry because she did something wrong & unforgivable, that could also lead a girl to tears.\nThis question has many possible answers depending on the case.