Are guys intimidated by what can be a perfect relationship?
611016
I don't think so I thing men know what they want. Sometimes better than women do. I think when  a man loves he loves with all of himself.  It is just finding that man who is willing to be in the perfect relationship.  Plus is there such thing as a perfect relationship?
250638
guys tend to be drawn toward something they can't have.  also they like to be territorial, or they could have always liked you but were too scared to say sumthin until you started liking some other guy.  it's a competition thing.
43863
Yeah He is aveilable , But He may not be interested In a girl who demands so many qualifications before starting a relationship.\n\nSo They prefer to be single, or They are already taken.\n\nIf you find one , GOod Luck, But then he isnt smart enough to stay away form you.
956760
ABSOULTELY! Sometimes a guy will be more impressed with you if you make the first move. In 2007 the chicks should be able to do what the guys do.
518681
All men are not the same..\n\nA good relationship is two people giving 100% of each other to there soul-mate.
577229
It is true that some guys are intimidated by women that are more successful, or more intelligent than they are, because they are into the whole "macho" thing, and think the man is supposed to be the "breadwinner", and smarter, more successful, and all that. I find intelligent, successful women very attractive myself, but I don't have a problem with my masculinity either. I am a man, in deed, and action, and don't try to prove it to anyone. If I had that kind of woman in my life, I would encourage her to be the best, most successful woman ever. Together , we would make a great team!
259624
Perfect is a relative term. Your perfect man may be 6'2" and  weigh 180 lbs. Someone else may be a muscle bound midget. Don't assume he is too perfect and hunt for imperfections. Just enjoy the time you have with this "perfect" man. Don't ruin/sabbotage the relationship because you think he is too perfect. I have seen this happen on multiple occassions. Just enjoy life. I'm sure you will find something to change how perfect you think he is but if you are in love it will probably be easily overlooked.
188971
not all guys are like that. i know i'm not. i can think of only one thing in life that comes before a serious relationship, and that's my daughter. i know plenty of guys that would love to get into a serious relationship, but they need to find the right person first. it takes time, but you'll find him sooner or later as long as you don't give up on love
165707
Nothing may be wrong.  Guys can be insecure and this can be manifested in withdrawal (sadly, I've done it).
218068
Many things could, depends on the guy.  A tall woman could be too intimidating for a short guy.  Apparent success can make a lot of men too intimidated.  \n\nNot so sure about the answers saying good looks though, it's usually more than her just looking good that makes her intimidating, because what if she smiled at you... you'd be all over her.
254166
Some guys will,but others are too "shy" to do so. They are afraid of rejection or seeming weak because they admitted their feelings. It makes them vulnerable and they don't like it.
993021
of course a relationships arent perfect. you got to see what to see what he thinks. talk to him, then see what is  the best thing to do.
661677
It may not be a problem with you, but more of a problem with the guys that you are dating. They probably aren't satisfying your needs for reassurance on these type of issues. In the future, look for guys that will provide these things and see if there is a difference.
159536
That is exactly how I feel. I love men with little confidence, believe it or not. I actually get turned off right from the start when the guys are too confident. I actually had to go up to my fiance and make the first move! Now, I know we are ment for each other, and yes he is the most sensitive, romantic sweetheart in the world!!
600248
Unfortunately, we cannot make someone feel the same way about us or want a long-term relationship.\nSounds like the men you have been involved with just are not ready for that kind of commitment. I would strongly take a look at the kind of men you are attracting and perhaps go out of your way ,and give a chance to, someone who isn't necessarily your type. Even if it means going slightly out fo your comfort zone i.e. perhaps the nice guy at the bookstore or checkout counter that you might have let slip by at first glance. By doing this you'll have opened up more doors to find someone who is on the same wavelength as you, and who shares the same relationship values.
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Hello, Im not a freak...yet I find it hard to find decent women. I dont look at appearances but the heart and soul...You can change that by being yourself ...sean. Ps. and when a quite guy like myself is afraid to approach you,maybe because im shy, maybe because im normal...go and talk to him....he may be the love of your life although he may not drink or dance like the other guys...
1163775
Often when a man meets someone new , He will feel a bit nervous. Maybe  like, 'will I meet her expectations?' etc.. and sometimes this will cause a sort of ED.\nI guess it's the romance jitters.