Are you loyal with your spouse?
607835
23/female, no, i have cheated once.
32781
Yes and No, it depends on the length of the time apart and how much you two trust each other. My husband and i were apart for about a year before getting married, it worked out cause we were in touch almost every day which helps a lot by building trust and maintaining it.
210304
Geez........That depends.  My standard of success is that I am still faithful to my husband and he is to me.  With marriages heading for divorce every day, its a great accomplishment on our part.  Then there's where we came from.  e.g. Coming to a country and starting over from scratch.  I guess I could say that's success in it's self for me.
117916
Yes I have. I believe imagination is what helps keep a marriage a float, and hepls me stay faithful. My marriage is still struggling for other issues, so my imagination helps getting through the act sometimes. Good luck with your relationship!
138670
I have mine. I am married to the greatest man in the world. We have 3 wonderful kids together. He is kind, generous, has a sense of humor, would do anything thing for anyone. He is awesome!
296459
Sometimes, I have to tell my husband about the things I am doing for him (or not doing to him).  Sometimes he has to do the same for me.  \n\nI know, in an ideal world that if you do the right thing, everything else will just fall into place, but that has not been my experience.  We are human, and as such, we are sometimes completely self-absorbed. When we are in such a state, we will never see the kind actions of our spouse, no matter how wonderful they are.\n\nGently point out to your husband the things that you do out of love.  My husband and I reached a turning point in our marriage when I finally stood up and said "I AM a good wife, and here is why..."  It made him look at me in a completely different way.  He began to see things he had overlooked before, and consequently, began to appreciate me more.
447429
Yes.I was married 5 years had a child with him.Left him for my lover.Been married to him now for 12 years.Still going strong.With 2 children of our own.We(all 5 of us)Are very happy.
890647
THAT DEPENDS ON IF THE BOTH OF U WANT TO MAKE IT WORK IT CAN'T JUST BE ONE PERSON. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND FOR 4 YEARS AND I'M STILL ATTRACTED TO HIM AND HIM TO ME. YES WE DO HAVE HARD TIMES BUT WE ALWAYS KEEP THE LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN TALK TO HER
997339
I know several cases were people were married for 60/70 years and their spouse passed on and they never cheated.  If you love your spouse and respect the sanctity of marriage then it's very possible.  My husband was in Iraq and I had MANY chances to cheat.  (the female to male ratio in this town is about 250:1 so even if you're 200lbs overweight, if you have boobs, you can get some).  Anyway, I love my husband and I refuse to risk what we share for a night or two with some jerk who doesn't care about anything.  I love my husband and I stayed faithful.  I'll continue doing so now that he's home and for the rest of our lives.  I have no doubt in my mind he will do the same.
475176
Of course you are within the confines of your marriage.
66743
I married a bisexual girl. I knew this going into the marriage, so we altered the vows just a wee bit, but not so much to really raise suspicion. Instead of "... keep yourself only for her ..." we put in " ... remain loyal to her ..." We thought that this better reflected our relationship. While involved with our girlfriend, we obviously do not keep ourselves just for each other, we do still remain loyal to each other.\n\nWhat is important is the emotions involved. You should not be into the promiscuous lifestyle. That is just plain dangerous. My wife and I love our girlfriend. If we could marry her legally, we probably would. I believe she feels the same way about us. \n\nThe emotions involved with a marriage should not be casual, and introducing a casual element could damage the relationship.\n\nThink about what you do before you do it. The concept is not wrong in our opinion, but there are wrong ways of going about it.
516860
no, never... lying to your spouse will only lead to more lies and more mistrust between you and your spouse !! it about like oil and water, they don't mix......if you have to lie then something is wrong with you and your not in a trusting and happy marriage !!
555855
Like any other relationship, as long as you're in love you'll stick together no matter the mileage separating you. My hubby was in England, I was in France, then he was in Malaysia and I was still in France - we did that for 3 years before moving in together, and after 10 years we are married. So it works!
193371
If you have married the man or woman that is right for you and who truly is in love with you, then you will not have to worry about them being faithful. Someone who is in love with you is not going to be unfaithful because nobody else will compare to you in their eyes. The problem is that so many people are in such a hurry to get married, that they settle for someone and try to make it be true love. That is why we have so many failed marriages today. =-)
260166
when you are married.
413222
If you love and respect your man yes.
1037625
a true relationship is the one i have with my wife.\n\n\n\n\noh sorry.