My son been disturbed when my ex called for ''help?
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This is written by a guy.  I think he is saying he hit his ex wife with a belt and his son was upset when he she called out for help.\n\nI really don't know what to answer, except, maybe to say he needs anger management classes.  \n\nDo they have anger management classes in Freekland?
801287
kid needs help, send him to counseling......
637908
this needs professional understanding - i beleive your boyfreinds freind has a mental illness - if you are at all concerned with him maybe thinking of suicide - - please contact your local crisis care as soon as possible - if there is no local crisis care maybe suicide hotline - they will give you the information you need to deal with such a heavy situation - if you fear for yourself at all try talking to your boyfreind about him possibly visiting you instead - or talk to a trusted adult
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When I left my first husband, he chose to punish me by refusing to visit our son. Our son is 22 and his dad hasn't seen him since he was 18 months old. You can't force the dad to suddenly becaome a good person when he isn't, but you can affect your son psychologically by how you deal with it.  I guarantee your son doesn't care about the paperwork. If there is a man who is treating him like a son, that's good enough for a healthy self-image. Even if there isn't, you can keep him healthy if you keep a healthy attitude yourself. Be very careful that signing over parental rights isn't about YOU punishing your ex.
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Yes, most judges will heavily weigh what the guardian ad litem suggests; and your ex and his attorney know it.\n\nYou should stand your ground.  If you think this man is a bad influence for your child, then he probably is.  I am tired of people who blame you for your past mistakes.  As Oprah Winfrey always says, "when you know better, you do better."  I think these are great words to live by.  Clearly, the GAL agrees with you.  Anyone who stalks the mother of thier child is not a healthy human being and you should not have to put up with that behavior.\n\nIt is especialy important if your child is male.  If he sees his dad treat you in a demeaning or improper way, he will learn to model that behavior and perpetuate it in his future relationships.  Time to nip it in the bud!\n\nGood Luck!
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Explain nothing to your son until you have sought advice from your attorney.\nHe is too little to understand what's going on and doesn't need to be but in the middle\nKids usually cope better in these situation then the adults do\nYour ex has never paid child support and would have to prove he his able to care for a child he doesn't even know let him spend the money with a lawyer to find out. Maybe when he knows he is responsible for all the back payments he might decide not to see the child
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I agree with you.  When a parent doesn't use their right to visitation, then suddenly wants it all, that has got to do damage to a child.  The system is so overloaded that they can't do a case by case review and then limit visitation for an elusive parent.\n\nIf you can, try to talk to your ex and explain what your child's fears are.  See if before he takes him for 6 weeks, he will visit him as much as possible.
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The man is MENTALLY ILL and could seriously hurt you and your children! Stay away from him, get a restraining order, tell the police about your problem and let them handle it. I don't know if they'll be able to force him to get help unless he commits a crime, but you can at least make sure that you and your children are not his first victims!
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Hi Caspersweetpea! Sean here (the guy you sent an MSN Messenger Live Beta invitation to but at the wrong address :). This situation invites a lot of problems. If that was my kid, I would tell her employer this is not good for my son since he is only 15. The kid your son is babysitting needs special care that only an adult can give specially with his anger problem. If something bad happens to the kid he is babysitting, your son will carry a lot of psychological burden for the rest of his life. If something bad happens to your kid, are you willing to take that risk?
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get a new number and only give it to people who ABSOLUTELY need it.  or screen your calls.  also, i'd consider get a restraining order, seriously.  i had a bf once who's ex called CONSTANTLY, it was bad, we contacted a lawyer and managed to get an order stating she had to leave us alone, because she was stalking us.
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Often times children mimic what they know. You've established he was abused... so unless someone helped him as a child (counseling) this person now probably has a distorted view of sex, boundaries, etc. This child may one day pay by doing something to someone who not only will speak up, but PRESS CHARGES!
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My Ex Boy Freind ,,, and my mother
847331
Your son is screaming silently for help.  Hopefully the hospital admits him into a treatment program.  However, your son needs to help himself.  This will only happen when he is ready to accept help.  I am going through something similar to this with my own daughter. \n      Good luck to you and your son.
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Might try a restraining order.  Little drastic but would work.  Refuse to take calls from him and his friend.  If it is really bad parental intervention is always good.
795540
Your husband needs help.  He is a child predator, and his behavior will pass on to your son.  It is your duty as a parent to protect your child...at any sane cost.
875658
THE SAME EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME!!\n\nBACK OFF---HE'S NOT WHAT YOU NEED
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i am thinking that mum didnt know until you called ?\nin that case there is no real denying what happened is there .. \nher spirit appeared\nshe may have looked angry .. but i have heard this before and it is my understanding that they can appear confused a little at first