My friend told his girlfriend that I cheated on my girlfriend. He knows they are BFF. What do I do now?
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Are you sure that your girlfriend knows about it? and is she "the one"? I am pretty sure she isn't otherwise you would've thought twice before you cheated on her. So if she's not the one, then I guess you could just let it go, I am not saying it's easy. And don't beat yourself, you made a mistake and you should recognize it in front of her, and you can also talk to her. But don't say to her that she cheated on you first; because that's not how you solve a problem, you would just put salt in the wound. Instead, just talk about it to her and tell her how you feel, if you want to be with her forever, than you should definitely clear this up now, if you're just having a fling that's another story. But whatever you do be honest, because once some one loses trust in you, it is extermely hard to come back and trust you. \nAs far as your friend...Well, if he REALLY was your true friend than he should've never been so cheap and told on you, a friend like this is worthless. If i were you, I would dump the friend before dumping my girlfriend, he obviously doesn't care about your feelings and is selfish.\nGood luck, and whatever it is, know that sooner or later this will fix itself and it'll be a lough years down the road, you sound pretty young and believe me even if you thought that your current gf is the "perfect" woman, God has ways to amazed you later in life. But one last thing, cheating is never good. And i am sure that you don't feel so good about it youself, so try not to do it again; you'll regret.
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Babe, \n\ni must say as a woman myself i am surprised you took her back. If i ever cheated on my boyfriend i would expect him 2 finish with me. \n\nIf she cheated on you once there is a reason for it and alcohol's  not an excuse. And do you honestly think her mates would not lie for her?? come on you have pals you know how it works. They always say when someone cheats once they will most definitely do it again.\n\nMake a break, stop driving yourself mad the trust is obviously gone.
525853
i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
399057
First ask yourself these question? Did you know her before you knew your girlfriend? Is her friendship worth your relationship with your girlfriend? If you say yeas to both of these question then you should still be friends with her. If that friends doesn't do for you or you can't trust them and call them a real good friend then let them go.
655129
Maybe you did them a favor...  I don't know what the "information" was, but say you knew he cheated on her, or lied to her.  You telling her may have been the best thing!  Don't be so hard on yourself.
420606
I know everyone has told you dump him but your best thing to do is find out why he did it so it wont happened again with an other guy.\nTake a guys point of view we cheat only cause there is something missing ,could be attention or too much of it could be he wants to know if you are the one unless you're like 15 you both have probably had other partners so take it like yeah he cheated but what was the reason and learn from it you may find that you agree with his reason .Then maybe he is just an ass and don't deserve you as for your ex friend she has to be knocked in the head and told the #1 rule in friendship never with your friends boyfriend or girlfriend and never with your friends sister.LOL i know that one from experience.OK take it light and I hope it works out for you .
586159
Forget him and just move on to someone else. You shouldn't be with someone like that anyway. And your friend is also immature what doing what she did, are you sure she was telling the truth. I wouldn't trust her again.
560209
Before you do anything,find out the truth.Either of them could have been lying.If it turns out your friend lied ,apologize to your now ex and dump the friend.
358341
he is only talking bad about you because he is fighting for time with his girlfriend, and you are always around.  Maybe you should give them some space.  Tell you girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable around him because he's hateful and put the ball in her court.  If she's a true friend, then she will explain to him that his behavior is unacceptable.  If she chooses her boyfriend over you, and can't seem to find a compromises between you two, then you should find someone else to hang around with.
807244
If you think that he is cheating on you and he says that he wants to sleep with your friend, he probably is. From what you described, his behavior seems pretty shady. I would move on from the both of them. If he can't commit himself completely to you, the relationship is doomed. You should never have to doubt your significant other in a healthy relationship. Also, if your friend is sleeping with him or anything else, then she is not your friend. Find people that respect you and your relationship.
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I went through this, but the guy cheated on me. I still have anger for him, which happened a little over 3 years ago, my current boyfriend though the same way your girlfriend is think about the anger. You need to tell your girlfriend that you have anger built up towards her because what she did was wrong and you can't forgive her for that. But one thing I do suggest is that when your around your girlfriend don't mention anything about your ex cheating on you, pretend you don't even know who she is now. It is hard but trust me it pays off in the long run. I know don't even think about my ex cheating on me, because I love my boyfriend now and I'm happy with him. Just talk to your girlfriend and tell her exactly how you feel about the whole situation.
972790
Butt out....If you have told your friend, then you've done your part. You need to get you own business and leave their relationship alone. Don't get in the middle...Roses doesn't mean a person is cheating.
622900
Please continue to be his friend.  Relationships that start out as friends always last.  Since your friend now has a girlfriend, you should "take the high road" and quietly stand on the sidelines where their relationship is concerned.  If you "butt in", you will only cause confusion and discord, and may ultimately end up losing him as a friend.  Should their relationship break-up in the future, you will still have him as a friend and perhaps then your relationship with him will turn into something more.  Have a lovely rest of the day.
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I agree with loving_father.\nPut yourself in your friends shoes. How would you feel?\nI was in this situation once. My friends knew my GF was seeing someone else and didn't say anything. Needless to say, they are no longer my friends. Do the right thing.
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
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stop all communication because its not fair to you or to his GF. he should have told you in the beginning so that you could have decided if you wanted to be involved with him considering his circumstances. but he was a liar for getting your feelings involved then telling you about his GF.
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I do feel that was right because you would want your friend to do the same thing if the roles were reversed. He obviously would of done something behind his girlfriend's back if you had given him the green light.\n\nShe is better off. Don't feel bad they broke up or guilty that you told her. You did good. Don't let nobody tell you different.