Should i brake up with my boyfriend in jail?
603995
Find out when he is getting out.  He should have a court date set to be sentenced or they could give him a bail amount.  It could take up to a week to find this out.  Alot of guys in jail have girlfriends but most of them arent even worth it.  If you love him you can go and visit.  Just contact the jail.
1118224
Yes you should. I take it you have never been to jail before. Its not a pleasant place. There are other ways to teach someone a lesson. That 's just cruel. Sorry.
860404
Absolutely! Get a lawyer, and take him back to court. He has not got a leg to stand on. If he disobeys a court order, he will go to jail. Good Luck!
696780
Get a life!!  Stop letting your feelings run your life.  \n\nIf he has been in prison, you couldn't possibly have a relationship.  What you have is a big crush on a guy that right now couldn't possibly be the man of your dreams.\n\nThink about it. Why do you have a bf?  Presumably to find that special person you will spend the rest of your life with.  \n\nWell honey, he ain't it.  He is telling you so!! Not verbally, but with his actions.  \n\nWhat characteristics do you want in the man you are going to spend the rest of your life with?  Now match them to the guy who just got out of prison............\n\nYou are obviously not ready do date yet. listen to the advice of your friends and those who you respect before you make an even bigger mistake.
40367
I think you need to leave your boyfriend, get an education, and make something out of yourself.\nWhy are you dating a criminal?  Don't you have any more respect for yourself than that?
621053
Just wait a while.  Is there any harm being friends for now.  If you do something now you will only cause a rift between you and your father.  Fathers you only get one of and are very important to you.  Boyfriends, well they come and go.  You may not think that your father knows best but he does.  I remember when a guy liked me at school and he came to see me at home.  My father met him with a shot gun at the door.  That was years ago and no harm was done.  The thing is, if I'd started dating that boy I would of got into so much trouble as he is currently in jail for serious assalt on his girlfriend.
108699
Sweetheart, I've been in the same boat except I was like 13 and he was 18. You're so very young, and i know you love him and he probably loves you too. But if they catch you even kissing him, he could be put away. Do you know what they do to guys like that in prison? Hopefully you don't. Listen honey, I know you want to be with him forever but trust me in that you're going to get older, your tastes are going to change, you have your whole life ahead of you, and it's not fair to him to make him wait. I had the same situation, and here I am, 7 years later, getting married to the most perfect guy in the world. It took me so long to realize what I wanted in a life partner, but I found it. And the guy I was in love with got married and had a beautiful family. So it all worked out and it can for you too. I'm sure he'll understand.\nBest of luck to you hon.
898241
If this was not his first offense, I would assume he has a probation/parole officer.  If so, have him contact his PO and turn himself in.  If it was a first time offense, call the DA and have him 'turn himself in'--he will probably be arrested on the warrant, but could be out on bail in a few hours.  Taking the first step by voluntarily surrendering will be much better for him in the eyes of a judge than being stopped for a minor traffic violation and arrested on the warrant because he got 'caught'.  Added plus is that if he is guilty--turning himself in may influence the judge's decision at sentencing.
1035470
Well, I went back & read your other questions. You got a lot of answers telling you to just move on. This is just my opinion but YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART.\n\nI don't think that you need to find someone else right now, that would just be a rebound relationship. I imagine your ex-bf is in jail in Toledo. I think you need to sit back & wait, if you stay in contact with him & then after court he is going to look to you to help pay his fine. Did he mention why he was arrested?? Because if he is still in jail how did he text you? He may be telling you everything that he knows you want to hear but on the other hand he might have had a rude awakening when he got arrested and realized what he has lost and now he wants you back. Just please don't go out & do the revenge thing & have a one night stand with someone>>& you don't have to have s3x for it to be a one night stand<<. You need to give yourself time, but if he asks you for money then he is trying to play you for a fool. Go to the library & check newspapers for the past few weeks to see who has been arrested. You may find out that your boyfriend is still close by, that could be a reason why he deleted his families numbers because he knew you would call & they would tell you that they haven't heard from him. Men can be very tricky when it comes to getting what they want. Take heed & you will be the one planting the seed.
277728
I HOPE U TOLD BF#2 ABOUT  BF ON LOCKDOWN. IF HE IS A BIG BOY HE'LL UNDERSTAND THAT IT WAS JUST ONE OF THEM THANGS.AND I HOPE YOU DON'T THINK FOR ONE MINUTE THAT THE BOYFRIEND IN JAIL BELIEVES YOU WERE FAITHFUL WHILE HE WAS AWAY.
647088
How long will he be there? Also ask yourself if your willing to wait a number of years for someone who has broke the law to get where he is now. Not to say you don't love him but he should have gave all these things some thought before getting himself into jail..K
800861
grow up, learn to speak correctly and you'll attract real men that don't spend time in jail. seek stability, not fun. fun fades i promise you. a man can't promise you a stable life if he's in jail.
231755
I think you are the one who is not in love with your boyfriend.  You should leave him.  And no man has any right to beat anyone, but you make it worst staying with him after he has beaten you
904790
Where was the restraining issued from? Does he want to drop whatever charges on you? You both will go to jail if either one of you do not show up! Take it from someone who knows. Both of you need to speak to an attorney and tell him/her what the situation is now, and see if they can go to court with you!
1051147
of course. are you the same person you were at 17? \n\nif he's spent a lot of time in jail, however, i'd realize that mental health issues resulting from that kind of thing can cause all kinds of repercussions.
430329
Sadly the answer is YES! If you have done all that you can with in your power to try and reconcile, but she does not want to, then the best thing you can do for yourself, is leave her alone. No woman (or man for that matter) is worth going to jail for.
537654
The best solution is for you to find a safe place to go and get there!  He needs counseling and a little jail time.