Is it really possible your husband really loves you eventhough he's cheated on you?
612873
To some, Love means many different things. He might LOVE having sex with you but is not IN LOVE with you. This is a big issue. \n\nBeing in love with you and loving sex with you is what you should have.\n\nWhen your in love and it is true love, you both have a connection that is like a "meeting of minds"... \n\nCheaters will be in LOVE with many different women because they like sex.
609851
It's very hard to fully trust a person after they cheat. Even if you forgive them, it's always in the back of your mind that they did it. However, some people have moved beyond a cheating history and married and lived happily for many years...if you truly believe that he won't cheat again and that you have it in you to marry this man, then you should.
826992
if i wanted a chance if i were the cheater, i would acknowledge i had done a wrong, i would agree to go to counciling, i would show remorse, and allow them to communicate their hurt, no matter how many times they wanted to talk about it. and i would never say i loved the person i cheated with, even if i had. the only love i would express was to my husband. i would never give them any reason to think i was cheating, meaning i would be where i said i was, i would never leave the house without saying where i was going, and i would make him the most important one in my life, and there would be alot of communication telling him my love for him.
322805
If you don't trust him, you need to ask yourself if you should be in this relationship.  My husband has lazy moments too but it would never cross my mind for a second that he'd cheat on me.
733118
Well probably not unless he really really loves you.
335773
I'm afraid it seems he is. I know from experience because my wife of 16 years cheated on me recently. When she tried to break it off, the "other guy" decided he would stop her at any cost. He killed her and then himself. Each situation is different and my circumstances may have been more extreme than yours, but I know my wife loved me and I loved her. The depth of my sorrow seems to be a bottomess pit at times. I have two children, 15 & 9, left without a mother. Please share this with your husband and maybe he will see that honesty is always best. God forgives, and so should we, but there are consequences for our wayward behavior. I'm sorry if this scares you, but its always best to learn from other's mistakes. Pick up a copy of the bestseller "Divorce Busting" by Michele Weiner-Davis, its a great book and addresses what you are going through, even if he is not cheating. And if he is, remember that he (in his perception) may find fault with you. There may be some truth to that, and although it does not justify his (presumed) action, it is something that the two of you should discuss with a good Christian counselor. WORK IT OUT FOR THE KIDS- and for each other, its worth it. Sex is easy to find in our hedenistic culture, but good love and commitment is a rare quality. It takes effort.\nI hope the best for you, I really do. May God bless your family and protect you from any further damage. (Mark 10: 7-9)
932039
he is cheating on you.... he say he loves you because, he feels guilty.
31066
Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
1071168
why do you think you are being cheated
791990
If he hasn't given you any indication that he's cheating on you then I would worried that he was sick is hurt. Don't let your pride or stubbornness stop you from doing what is right.
677388
I don't think I could ever cheat on my husband, I love him too much. I also have been the victim of a cheater in my own past, and had my heart torn to bits by a ruthless cheating bastard (my 1st husband). If you love someone and you simply cannot conntrol yourself enough to be faithful to them in every way, then perhaps you do not really know what love is?  Or you want to have your cake and eat it too.\n\nPeople who cheat, usually do not want to admit it or they try to lie, deny or cover it up, then it only hurts twice as much when the truth does come out. A cheater would probably try to lie, and that's just like stabbing someone you are supposed to love in the heart everytime you lie.\n\nA marriage often cannot survive cheating and lying, so if you love your spouse, you will not cheat in the first place!
602655
Most likely not.  Men who cheat tend to keep on cheating.  The real question is did he confess it or did you find out?  If he confessed he's at least show he regrets it, and is trying to be more honest.  If you found out he'll just be more careful in the future.
306544
Yes, more than once. But everthing happens for a reason. If I would have married either of those jerks, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now. I have the most loving, caring husband and there's no doubt in my mind that he will never cheat on me. I feel very secure with him.
313329
Yes, because my husband has shown me true love. He has been there through good and bad and always protects me and our children.  I've ran from his protection at times because I have felt sophicated, that's until I realized how blessed I am to have someone who cares about me so much.  He has every reason to be the way he is because our world isn't safe at all.
1105218
Very possible...when I was married I loved my husband dearly however I could not stand that asshole..soooo I divorced him and I'm happy again...:)
774577
Yes my Hubby cheated 3 years ago,We did seperate for about 3 months, anyhow we ended up working it out..We got way to comfy in the marriage and things started to go downhill,And then the unthinkable happened..My first thought was divorce when i found out..as i said i moved out..But until your put in this position you just never know ..I felt if i could LEARN to trust him again and of course forgive him for what he did knowing it would take ALOT of time and patience on his part for the damage he caused to me, Then i would be willing to try it again..Today we are very very happy, The best our marriage have ever been.. And its taken awhile but i believe it was worth it. We have been together 17 years now..But if it ever happens again, I will be divorced..And no LOOKING BACK!
849848
No you should have proof of him cheating cuz if you dont you might make a mistake and lose someone that really did love you.*