what you will do if you want to marry your bf n want to tell your father?
606476
? is how old are you if he is in his teens or early 20's he is too young to take on responsibility.\n\nThe proper way for you to do this is to have your boyfriend go to your father and ask your hand in marriage.  This way this shows that he is a man and is asking not just doing which will only piss your father off for you are his little girl.\n\nThink very clearly the consequences of marriage it all looks fun but if you and your boyfriend fight now and no communication then you are just in for disaster.  Also get your careers going first.  If I could do it all again I would have finished college, traveled with my husband and then decide to have kids when that right time came.
262915
how about any more details???... but like they say anything's possible... good luck with your bf... :)
204616
Forget about her father. Save up money and if you are in love, get married. Treat her well, and maybe in time, her father will accept you.
926529
it's not what YOU should do... it's what your DAD should do.. if he really loved u he will accept that ur bi. so its best to put up a brave front and not be scared
883215
I think you are gonna have to talk to your family first...if you really wanna move in with him, you want to make sure that you are able to settle into a new town, but most importantly, you want to make sure that your family will be there for you, even if you live miles away....no matter where you live, your family will always be there for you when you get married and have children, and if they know ur bf well, then there really shouldn't be any problems.
759533
What does your mom say? If shes on your side, then maybe the two of you can both talk to him.\n\nDoes your bf still live at home? Even if doesn't his parents could still talk to your dad.\n\nI don't think you should disobey him, even though you are old enough to be on your own, you are still living is his house.
33525
Tell them.  Sooner or later they're going to find out.  When that happens they may assume you were up to no good. Why?  Because you didn't tell them.  If you want any chance at seeing and talking to him then tell them first.  Besides, don't you want your parents to trust you? You trust your parents?  It's a two way street!!
1182558
You should tell your parents first----just say it like it happened, no guilt or sadness, but with an attitude, "we are here, how do we move forward in the best manner possible? ". You are going to need their support as much as your BF's, and not knowing your financial situation, definitely you may need that as well.\n\nTell your BF later--if things don't go as you hoped, you will need a fall-back, and that is your parents, even though you are an adult.\n\nAs to baby's name: Michell\n\nGood luck.
973504
My prediction is,  She will marry who ever her parents tell her too.  And live a very happy life with her new husband,  You should find somebody else that is not already sold .
65906
Honor your parents wishes. If you are strong in your faith, it would probably be a mistake to marry someone who would not share the same faith with you. The one you want to marry should study what you believe and know well about your culture and what is important in your family.\n\nGet your parents opinion about how they would feel if you married someone who would convert to your faith, maybe as a hypothetical question.\n\nA woman should not want to marry a man who disrespects his parents wishes. If a man dishonors his mother or father, it is also likely he will dishonor others, (like maybe his wife and children).
58806
DO'nt marry.\n\nYou'll repent that. It looks quite romantic first. But\nits your end surely!!!!\ngood luck!
746540
Don't get married, not yet.  I married the first time at 25, and regretted it.  I was too young, and married for the wrong reasons.  \n\nWhy doesn't you dad want you to talk to guys?  At 20, that seems a little unreasonable.  Sit down and ask your dad what his concerns are, and show him how responsible, smart, and independent you can be.  If you prove to him that you are an adult, he will accept a man in your life better.  \n\nMy dad told me once that he would love me more than anyone else in the world ever would, no matter what I did right or wrong.  \n\nHope that helps.
137021
yes tell him ..he has the right to know..besides he has to help u be by ur side girl..u need him..it is important..thats my advice 4 u hun..\nGood luck and i hope things turn out alright..
492017
Ultimately the decision is yours (as long as you are old enough).  Instead of trying to convince your dad, ask him what his concerns are.  Maybe his is worried about your choice of a husband, maybe he will just miss you and is having a hard time telling you.  If you can have a calm conversation with him, it will go a long way in clearing things up.  Once your dad tells you what he thinks, thank him for talking to you.  Take some time to really think about what he has said.  He loves you and wants the best for you.  Once you have done that, make your decision and live your life!
482558
Better tell  your dad now, he's going to find out and then he will be angry.  If you're going to stay with this guy better get it out in the open now.  After all, it's only skin deep.
680502
Here's a thought. Maybe you and your boyfriend should each put into words in your own hand writing all the things you just said that you and he each have agreed to in this promise to one another. \n\nTell your dad that you would like for just you and him to go for dinner somewhere because you have some important things you want to talk to him about regarding your future but you don't need to be specific. At dinner, after you've ordered and gotten your cold drinks or coffee then hand him a copy of each of your letter's to one another in an envelope with the promise ring inside. When you're dad is finished reading your letters to one another then you can tell him that yes, you're boyfriend and you did already go and buy the promise rings but you won't put it on yet until you have your fathers blessing.
1085862
If you are over 18 you can do as you please. However, your parents will be very upset and may disown you. Let them meet him and his family. Maybe they will arrange a marriage with him for you.