What is "Gord" lifestyle? (must be connected to BDSM, but...?)?
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You are on the right track.  Years ago, in the 70s I think?, there was a series of books.  It's called Gor, no final "d". And yes, some of it borders on or is BDSM.  \n\nHere's what a reviewer on amazon.com had to say; it's a pretty thorough, thoughtful review.  \n\n"Tarnsman" Controversial? Politically Incorrect? Offensive?, April 2, 2006\nReviewer: ceido (Pennsylvania, United States) - See all my reviews\n"Only for those afraid of viewing the male/female relationship with honest, open eyes. "Tarnsman of Gor", the first of John Norman's 'Gor' novels, is resplendent in its critique and appraisal of the traditional roles of and interactions between men and women; the hierarchy of the wealthy/powerful pitted against the poor/weak; and the subtle effects wrought by inaccurate education and misguided governmental powers. An engaging fantasy read peppered with as many science-fiction elements as the average pulp fiction novel, Gor--with many tips of the hat to Edgar Rice Burroughs' "Barsoom" series ("John Carter of Mars")--is a world filled with bipedal lizards and giant birds known as tarns, whose human population is spliced mercilessly into various caste classes, a world where men live by the edge of the sword and women are often traded between them like so much property. It is a civilization whose conception could have easily been inspired by any one of the cultures that thrived before the so-called enlightenment of our modern era: in other words, it is a world where men dominate and women submit without question.\n\nThe people who might find this novel offensive could be the same people who call a man a boor for presuming to open a door for a woman--and yet complain that he has no breeding or etiquette if he fails to do so. "Tarnsman of Gor" is written with the same subdued pen that Burroughs reserved for his "Mars" and "Tarzan" novels; the action is generally inexplicit, and any nudity is nondescript and respectful. The women, treated generally as slaves but not necessarily second-class citizens, are often depicted as being chained and hooded. It is not so much sex in this novel as shadows of day-to-day activity that modern people might refer to as sado-masochistic--and antiquated cultures would merely see as the interactions of a master and a slave. In the context of this book, such activity is neither gratuitous nor lewd. It is merely the functioning of a society that is not too dissimilar from feudal Japan, Hellenistic Greece, or Rome of the first century A.D.\n\nThe main character, the narrator of this tale, is Tarl Cabot, a man transplanted from Earth and reuinted with his father on the planet Gor. He is a man of emotion who is not afraid to admit them. He cries openly. "Gor" is just as much a commentary on the traditional 'masculine' stereotype as it is a reflection upon the thought that women might actually appreciate being guided and directed by men. In no way did I receive the impression that Mr. Norman was trying to say that women enjoy being dominated--in the sense that domination is a harsh and loveless expression, selfish and violating. Tarl Cabot' hesitant love is Talena, a fiery princess who makes it very clear that she will never become his slave; nor does he want her to be. The romance between them is very honest with itself, very realistic, considering what most "romances" between men and women have been like over the centuries, the world over. There is an element of physical attraction, repulsion at programmed stereotypes being challenged, fear of the unknown, and the give-and-take that both parties must certainly give. Talena's one honest confession to Cabot--"I am your slave...You own me...Use me"--is beautiful in its security, in her faith in him and in their relationship: it is a naked contrast to the normal reflections of women toward men on her w
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Spanking to me is very sexy and some people think that if women like that during foreplay its a sign of being submissive and like letting people control you but thats not how it is at all.I am a very dominant person and I have never let someone control me.All because I enjoy getting bent over my man's knee and like having him spank my naked asss doesn't mean I am some wussy that lets a man control me.I liked getting spanked before, during, and after sex, sometimes I just like a spanking period with or without sex( I prefer sex with it of coarse), there has been lots of times where my man and I will be in public and he would snatch me in the bathroom and give me a quick spanking especially when I am being bitchy and give me a "preview" of my later "punishment" and we role play along with the spanking thats so hot. It turns me on so much, it a pleasurable pain that drives me wild and gets me so wet.The harder my man spanks the more I get turned on!!!!I can't explain it buts its a must on my foreplay list! I love for my spankings to be nice and hard!!! And yes is it necessary espeacially if I have been a very naughty girl :)
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Kink (sexual)\nFrom Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia\nJump to: navigation, search\nThis article is about non-normative sexual practices; for other uses, see kink.\nKink is a term used to refer to unconventional sexual practices such as bondage, domination and submission, and sadomasochism (known collectively as BDSM), and sexual fetishism.\n\nIt is important to note that the definition of what is, and is not kinky can be quite subjective. People who are sexually conservative may consider anything other than monogamous sex within a private bedroom to be kinky. The opposite is also true, someone who enjoys BDSM related activies may feel that kink is antonymous with BDSM.\n\nSomeone who is "into kink" is also referred to as being kinky. A kinkster is a friendly term used in the BDSM community to refer to someone else who also participates in BDSM activities. The Internet has had a big impact on bringing together kink-friendly communities and allowing contact between them, and as this has happened the term kink is gradually changing through usage to mean those of an unconventional lifestyle who are accepting of others of unconventional lifestyles including BDSM, gay and lesbian.\n\n"Vanilla sex" is a term that refers to standard or normal sex. Different cultures, subcultures, and individuals have different ideas about what constitutes normal sex.
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I think you mean callipygophile.  I can't find the word but it is probably related to callipygian, which means having shapely buttocks.  I would guess it is means a person who is attracted to the backsides of people of the opposite sex.
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Reyanna sounds like a distinct possible.  But if not, maybe you've been looking at the wrong websites.  Not all of them are 'over the edge' - try SIN (Spanking Internet), Our Castle, Spanking Classics or ABCD Webmasters, for a start.  Plenty of friendly people, mostly 'normal' (insofar as any of us is) but with that one delicious kink that you're looking for.\n\nGood luck in your search!
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Ken and Barbie style - Neither partner is allowed to bend at the elbows or knees. \nDoggie style - The man attempts to do the impossible. \nFroggie style - Male and female partners in large spa. Male attempts to fertilise female using only the water as a transmission medium. For couples who don’t like each other much any more. \nFish style - same as Froggie style, but neither partner may use their arms or legs. \nMummy and Daddy Love Each Other Very Much, And Hug Each Other in A Special Way style - The only position in this list you won’t be embarrassed to tell the kids about when they're five. \nStyle style - Sex with a Vogue Living editor. \nCrouch position - Each partner crouches down on the ground, then simultaneously leaps up, and attempts to couple whilst in mid-air. \nCouch position - Same as the crouch position, but starting at opposite ends of the living room couch. \nOuch position - Usual outcome of the crouch position. \nLazy Susan style - Susan goes to sleep. \nRussian style - Partners queue for hours for enough vodka to make each other look attractive. \nNostrodamus sex - Any encounter that comes as a complete surprise. \nOsama Bin Laden’s position - If you know this position, please contact the FBI for your $25 million reward. \nBank style - Screw the customers. \nMissionary position - Each partner kneels and prays.
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You might try Literotica.com It's free, and they have a room for every kink...even if what you're into is moonlight and roses and a chaste kiss on the hand. ;)
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Sounds Kinky, where can I get me some of that action?
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I'm assuming that you're NOT going to have an experienced person with you to show you the ropes (no pun intended!), so here's some very basic rules:\n\n1.  READ AND FOLLOW POSTED RULES at the club.  If they say "no cellphones" (a common example), or "no penetration permitted",  they _do_ mean it, bigtime.  \n\n2.  Don't touch anyone without their permission, or touch their play items ("toys").\n  \n3.  Be polite---to everyone.  You may see scenes involving ALL SORTS of diversities---straights, skinny people, gays, redheads, transgender folk, folk with eyeglasses, people wearing all kinds of unusual clothing.  If you don't like what you're seeing, turn your head.  Comments of "eeEEWWWW!" may get you thrown out.\n  \n4.  Don't interrupt a "scene" (which is What It Is That People Are Doing) with questions, or by getting too close.  (It's distracting, and can actually be dangerous.)  Ask your questions, or to see that neat "toy", later.  Most kinkyfolk are delighted to talk with newbies.\n\n5.  You don't have to "play" with anyone, and no one has to play with you.  Thou Shalt Not Hassle or Harass Others, especially if they've said "no" already.\n\n6.  If you see something that flat-plain-out unnerves/SCARES you, _don't_ interrupt the scene.  Look for a dungeon monitor (they may be wearing pretty obvious traffic control vests) or ask a staffer at the bar if things are OK.  \n     (Kinkyfolk often do things that look very, very scary---it's called a mindf*** ----- but are actually set up to be as safe as we can make them.  Actually harming someone is Not Good.)  \n\n\nBasic black or dark colors are great to wear.  Wear comfortable shoes or boots; 5 inch heels are hot, but they're misery.\n\nDon't go in drunk or stoned; don't get drunk or stoned when you're there.  In my experience, BDSM folk will very rarely use intoxicants before or while playing, because you do _not_ want to have anything interfering with your control.  The club, if it's strictly BDSM, may not even HAVE a liquor license.  (Swingers are a little more willing to have the social drink or three.)\n\nYou're probably going to be astonished at how "normal" (that is, "vanilla"---everyday) kinkyfolk look and act, when you get up close.....eavesdrop on a few conversations among regulars, and you'll hear chats about remodelling the kitchen, the computer acting up, and how great it is to have the kids off to college.\n\n\nIf more time was available to you, would suggest getting Wiseman's SM101 (which is a great intro book on BDSM); he's got a whole chapter on SM organizations (including party/club behavior), plus a lot more good stuff.  \n\nHave a great night!
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bondage. role playing. food. public. be creative.. it's really not that hard. and if you aren't creative, you're fully deserving of a lame sex life.
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Your question is very complex. I'll try to make the answer simple.\nFirst, I'm rather a BD (bondage/domination) than a SM (Sado-Masochism). The first problem is that BDSM mixes too many fetishes. Type BDSM in Yahoo!, and you'll get answers that go from classy esthetical and sophisticated bondage and fetish games to highly degrading and pervert stuff. Rather confusing.\nIf you stick to BDSM as an intelligent and creative sex game, in which playing dominant or sub brings a lot of intellectual pleasure, then I'm definately a big fan (and lucky enough to play such games in real life). When bondage and domination are seen as an art, it's really something interesting.\nOf course, the stereotypical images that you mention are pretty funny. Like the guys calling them "Master" or "Lord", who should know better that the sub is in fact giving the tone of any good "session".\nI don't know what you mean with the "functions in modern society". It seems in fact that our society is getting more and more fetish oriented (see Jennifer Garner in Alias, or movies such as Underworld...). So I guess fetish oriented people play a role in society, as they always did.\nThe only thing I hope is that all the people who are interested in such games, you maybe, will find the right partner. And that rather than trying to respect so-called BDSM rules, they live BDSM as something that makes their life better. As long as there is respect and love, it's all fine.\nHope this helps! (English is not my mother langage, so I hope I was clear!)\nLove and Kisses from France
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Dunno. Sounds pretty kinky though.
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In psychological terms, this is termed as, 'an addictive personality'. \nCannot do anything in moderation.\nThat said, pierce where ever you fancy it. Just remember things like, lace bras...ouch!
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i'm too dominant to play one all the time, but i love being a slave for the night.  last time my husband tried to find my limits (he didn't believe me that i don't have any!)  he did tell me that i was a good little girl after we were all done!  so mostly i was tied and had to use my mouth... a lot.  i was blind folded for a little while.  we were outside in the front yard the whole time (we live in the country) so that made it even more exciting.  i brought my bag-o-fun so we had plenty of toys involved as well.\n\non the flip side, i don't get to be master like i want to be.  that would consist of sex at least, and i do mean at least, twice a day.  i have an extremely high libido that kids did not even damper.  so if it was my way, it would be all day!
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Primal sex is quite often a fantasy of most guys, if I were you I'd have a chat with your hubbie, theres a good chance he will be happy to help you, as long as your not asking him to hit you or anything like that, just tell him that you want him to come home from work and with out saying anything to you, throw you up against the wall, hike up your skirt and rip your panties off and have at it right there on the kitchen table...I serious doubt he will have any problems with that. Talk to him thats the best advise I can give you...Hope this helps, IM me n let me know
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Kinky?...YES...Gay?...NO!
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What are you talking about?  I've seen some really hardcore stories and pics on yahoo 360.  A bit of erotica should slip by