is there someone there who just want to be symphatetic?
608341
I truly feel for you, I understand what you are going through, there, there, don't worry everything will be fine\n\nHows that??
176096
not feeling fulfilled ,,, sick and tierd of the other person and all of their bull s**t!!!!!
715855
Aboslutely NOT!!!  It's just an excuse for the people that are already unhappy and miserable in themselves to lash out against others.  Isn't it such a shame??
214444
This would be a real challenge for me since I've never met such a person. I would definitely try to communicate with him/her using body language or signing or maybe writing down what I would like to say. \nIn general dealling with such a person in my opinion shows us how "disabled" we "normal" people are in dealing with others!\n: )
300947
yes, see a psychologist
950661
Thanks for asking. It's hard to find someone who is willing to listen to other people problems, especially from a stranger.
850390
ummm...i'm sure there is somewhere in this sick sad world...haha, but you could be ur own hitch, just have the guts to be yourself, it works i promise
997589
Absolutely.  I'm right with you on that one.  Sounds just like most of my family. But hey, you gotta practice on someone.  You will feel better if some times you are the bigger person and do the right thing regardless of what those jerks say, right?  Just don't be their slave.
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I think poeple want to romanticise the world and the past..self preservation ?\nI hear lots of people talking about past relationships in the most rosy ways...but forgot that they broke up and seemed to forget the ugly parts.\nMaybe it is some kind of instinct to help ourselves not to feel too bad....? We prefer hearing good things who cheers up too .....\nMind you, some people are the total opposites : they only see negative things and traits in other people and seem to carry the world's burden upon their shoulders. They will feel bad at every sad story their hear about and dismiss the good ones out there.\nMy point of view : it is a way to keep optimistic and not feel victimised.\nShould be a matter of balance but people have brains geared up differently.
1111105
they just want other people to relate to their misery so they won't be alone. yes, it is very pathetic
907019
This is not going to make me popular but I feel that while there are people that are genuinely depressed and rightly diagnosed, a lot of people are quick to categorize themselves as depressed.  (goes hand in hand with this 'I'm a victim' mood that is prevelant in the west.) And some doctors are more than happy to go with it and prescribe medication.  Ups and down are part of life.  I think to many people here are always looking for the magic bullet - a pill that makes the problem go away rather than looking inward and dealing with it in a way that is not instant or easy.
1030965
No, I personally would only give money to someone who had obvious material needs, & not for emotional needs.  My advice to you is try to find a way to be happy that isn't based on materialism.
1126860
Just sad...it that the best you can do?\n\nWhat is your question?
633111
Not really. I just treat people the way i want to be treated.
56534
You have people who are peceful and then you have the troublemakers. I live with an unhappy troublemaker. I guess they feel so unhappy and dissatisfied that if people around them don't feel the same they cause trouble so they can fit in and feel like someone. I'd like to know the answer to this question too? Good question?
1073919
You're not alone.\nI absolutely understand what you're saying as I'm going through it myself... =( I used to be naive & gullible only to have it blow up in my face.\nI tried changing to adapt as to how people would like me to be... but it wasn't easy & a losing battle at the end.\nFor every person you try to please there's gonna be tons more that don't like you for the same reason. After a while it got tired & I stopped, stayed true to myself & adopt a like me/ hate me attitude. To me it's their loss rather than mine.
105378
Its ok, some people are just not happy unless they are causing grief on other people. Dont take it personally there are a lot of very unhappy people in this earth. Just look past it and remember that no one can change how your feel about yourself except you.