will the ssi change with her bein here instad of with her mom???
606366
If you contact them and let them know she is staying with you, they would probably send it to you for the months that she is staying with you. The SSI is for the care of the child, not her mother. The phone number (toll free) is 1-800-772-1213. I know this because I am a disabled individual who receives SSI and have a friend whose son receives SSI also. You will need her social security number when you call, but also if you are her step mom, they may not talk to you about her benefits due to it being the policy for the privacy act, but they would talk to your husband, who I am assuming to be her dad. But I know if she is going to be there all summer, you & he are entitled to her benefits to help buy what she needs for the duration she is there.
819613
If she was requesting child support, or , and I am sorry for your loss, death benefits from Social Security then yes you could make her prove through DNA that he is the father. Otherwise I don't think so, But I could be wrong. Is she someone that you can have an adult conversation with? I mean maybe you or mother in law could talk with her and ask her to stop saying her son and your son are brothers unless she can back it up with DNA test, because she is confusing your son, and probably her son too. Good luck!!
1151371
call the social security board and tell them, and she should not have any rights, but ask a lawyer in ur state
599908
Skip town..change your name and social security number...\nthat way she doesn' take any more of your stuf and get all that child support dough.
352323
SHE HAS TO REPORT HIM LIVING THERE.  BUT DHS AND CHILD SUPPORT WORK TOGETHER NOW.  IF SHE DOES NOT TURN IN THE FATHER TO CHILD SUPPORT SO DHS CAN COLLECT THIER MONEY FROM HIM SHE WILL LOSE HER MONIES.  ALSO IF HE IS REPORTED SHE AND HE WILL HAVE TO PAY BACK THE STATES MONEY.  AND THERE ARE ALSO SOME DHS SYSTEMS THAT MAKE THE MOTHER WORK FOR HER SMALL CHECK.
529411
If you are both disabled, then yes -- it will not effect the other's status or pay.  I'm on SSDI and my wife makes substantially more than I do with no effect on my benefits.
148182
Visit the Social Security office in your area. They will require proper identification, and will have her address on file if she is receiving benefits.  Don't go on the internet and pay for a search.  I found their data is very vague and outdated. If she is not receiving benefits, hire a private dective.  It will cost about $100 and just take a few minutes.
350301
I am assuming that you had legal custody and he had visitation rights?  \nTo my knowledge that should not effect her ability to get services from the state.  As long as she is a resident of IL she should continue getting benefits.  The only people that would care who has legal custody is you, her, and her dad.\nKeep in mind - if she lives with him - you could be liable for child-support payments to her dad.
852250
eventually she will have to end it, beter now than later when she is older and when it will be harder to move back to the states. \n\nyou will just have to tell her and help her thru it, no beating around the Bush (no offense mr FBI man watchin what i type)
718955
It depends on whether she is covered by the family and medical leave act.\n\nhttp://www.dol.gov/compliance/laws/comp-fmla.htm
317512
I personally would contact Social Security and tell them my suspicions. They may help you set her up! Ask if you can switch your payee to someone else. If she is mishandling your account, and you turn her in, then keep really good records on any conversations, e-mails etc.  Document document document.  Times, dates.  Should there be retribution, then you can turn her in again. And that would be proof too!  Good luck!
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I don't know if the state of Alabama will. I live in Florida and I could not even get the 200.00 that Social Security offers for my mother to have a funeral.She passed away this past may 18th. I had to have her cremated. The cost was minimal. I am a single mom with a mortgage and no family left. It is hard but you have to do what you have to do. I feel for your friend.You can only call the social security dept. and your local city offices and find out what kind of programs are in your area to help. Good Luck and I will keep your friend in my prayers
654689
In todays day and age, you most likely can. If she has a decent job I'm sure you can find a lawyer that can give you the best info answer.
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Social Security is not means dependent & doesn't "take" anything.\n\nIf she signed an agreement to pay the nursing home, she is responsible or they'll kick him out.  \n\nIf she is NOT liable she or they will have to find him a facility that will take medicaid.  Medicaid WILL impose a lien on his house if it is in his name. \n\n"He gave her the house. . . " is too vague.  If he deeded it to her that long ago it is probably safe from a Medicaid lien.  If he did not give it to her by deed, then it will either preclude his medicaid eligibility or be subject to the Medicaid lien.   If they try to deed it now, it is too late; he'll lose his Medicaid eligibility.\n\nThis is a case where she must talk to a lawyer who deals with wills & estate or an specialiizes in "eldercare" before she does anything.
805251
YES they will. Their reasoning is that the money is there for her use if she wants. It doesn't matter where it came from. (at least that's how they think). Her best bet is to call them and make a payment arrangement. It will cost her $50.00 to get started but then they will accept small payments. (for the rest of time)
159379
Your state should have some programs. If shes not making over the allowed limit...BC/BS has plans if they dont consider this to be pre-existing?? Good-Luck
812348
If your father is her power of attorney, as well as a signatory on her account, both of these need to be revoked if at all possible. If he is her Social security payee, then Social security needs to be notified and his payee status investigated for fraud and possibly revoked. Document EVERYTHING with dates and times. Get withdrawl statements from her bank if possible. She should be able to find a nursing home that will cover her with medicaid, however, if she has any tanglible assets, she will be required to liquidate them. If you know someone who is really trustworthy, she can sell them to that person, I think. Not sure if this is fraud or not. She needs a lawyer. And yes, call the police.