My sweetheart is very sick and I would like to know what to dofor her?
596806
Sounds like she should get checked by a doctor first.\n\nSteam is good for a cough and helps to get phlem up of the chest. If you have a vapouriser put it in the room. If not, a bowl of hot water; get her to sit with her face over the bowl so that she can breath in the steam for a few minutes with a towel over her head. BE VERY CAREFUL SHE DOES NOT TIP THE WATER OVER.
290281
I would give her all the attention  she needs to see  she gets back to her healthier self. Love is not running away from trouble but to help when somebody dear to you needs it.
641363
I think if she is married you need to leave her alone and let her deal with her realationship first if she can think about cheating on her hubby with you then she'll do it to you too hun. If your sick you dont need the drama and heartache anyways. good luck to you and leave her be till she decides to make a choice not play with your head.
163181
Make her dinner... if you can't cook get take-out from her fave place and set out some candles.. (don't light the place on fire) play her rave song.. rent her fave movie.. and papmer her with a nice massage.. sounds good to me!
492965
Oh No :( ..\nI would definetly call at least her doctor, and see what  he suggests. If he knows her wishes are to die at home,and not in a Hospital, at least he may be able to give you some suggestions. That is just terrible, and I am very sorry for you and your family. She must be a very special woman to have lived so long! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
203755
If she is feeling that sick hun, she'll have to go no matter what.  I would check the internet real fast and see if there are 'low income' places she could go that wouldn't charge her too much.  If all else fails, and she's really sick, take her to the Emergency Room and they HAVE to treat her until she's stable, and that's a law, so - they'll just have to bill her for it.  It will cost over 400 bucks just to walk in the door and ask for treatment.  :(  I hope it gets better for you and I am praying for your Mom hun.
795966
hello my dear friend!\n\nwell i am able to read your feelings well... because i went through the same situation too! 6months back i was diagnosed with germ cell tumour and i had to undergo chemotherapy and had a hard time... my husband loves me a lot and the essence of our marriage was an intimate relationship which meant even having good sex! during the six months period he saw me undergoing the treatment and when i was back home afetr the treatment ..\ni understood how much he missed me ...i got him cuddled next to me and could feel his warm presence...\ni know you love your wife deeply and wouldnt want to hurt her.. but when you kiss her or cuddle her romancingly and perhaps you could have a little action in your life.. you will not hurt her and she too will love you fro expressing your affection...to be very frank sex is an important positive aid in helping a sick  person recover soon... it will enhace the mind and body and put both of you'll in a happy spirit...\n\nso listen to me and express your love...hug her ,kiss her and make her feel warm and romantic..you can do it my friend... you mean a lot to her in her life as she mean to you..try casual romance and see how happy you will feel!i will pray fro you and your wife..! \n\ngoodluck!
46636
her Dr.'s prescription is the best bet. you can try putting a humidifier in her room to help her breathe better when she's sleeping. and feed her chicken soup or hot liquids if she can't hold food down. she still needs her energy. hope she gets better really soon.
844000
well you could start off with making her a nice dinner ( even if it is simple) with candles.  Then you could make a scavenger hunt around the house with different things leading her into the bathroom for a relaxing bubble bath where you rub her feet or different sore place in her body with some massaging oils.
601367
Take a shower with her and clean it with soap and water. Just make sure you rinse it good before munching.
584038
Is she sick? Does she have an eating disorder? If she is just ill, try giving her gingerale or some anti-nausea medication like Coca Cola syrup over crushed ice (you can get it at a pharmacy) or PeptoBismol. Keep her hydrated with water or PediaLyte.\n\nIf it's an eating disoder, she needs to go see a doctor and a therapist for help to get through this. Eating disorders are very hard and take time to "cure". You need to be there for her and reassure her you are mad at her disease and not her, and that you are getting her help for her own good. She may hate you for a while but at least she won't be killing herself with food or lack of it.
1156172
Take her to the doctor/emergency room because it could be a different kind of infection and if she is experiencing new symptoms you need to take her right away so they can help.
235694
treat he or she with patient.......a lots of patient..good luck!
549735
Please take her to the doctor.  she needs medical care.  good luck.
632180
Be open an honest with serious communication. Reassure her of your love and always say things that uplift her and try to always see the positive side of any and all situations no matter how bad they maybe.
495162
serious talk, that is! i know it's hard but sometimes we have to take matters as they should...you have tried so many things to help her and i think it's about time to be honest & straightforward..\n\ntell her that you love her and you are concerned about her health...putting on so much weight can be tough on health...tell her that you want to stay with her for as long as you can, but how will it happen if she'll get sick by being overweight...big doesn't mean healthy and she knows that..ask her why is she behaving like this, there must be something bothering her...if none, be firm but reasonable..\n\ntell her that you want her old self back and you love her taking care of herself too...challenge her, tell her it would be nice if she'll look like your girlfriend and not a mother and sloppy...just be thoughtful when you suggest...\n\nyou can do it..
237738
There's nothing anyone can say right now that can make you feel better.  Know that's she's no longer in pain, and that she'd want you to carry on.  My deepest empathy to you, take care of yourself.