how do you let someone know you cant come to there party\nknow why you cant go to \nthere party?
612851
Tell them you can't go to their party because you need to stay home and learn English.
872754
Just say you can't make it on such short notice; you have other plans.  It's obvious that you weren't on the initial guest list and she's just trying to fill the empty seats of people who declined.  SO I wouldn't worry about hurting her feelings.
830526
How about something simple and to the point, like "Seating is limited- no guests please." ? \n\nGood luck with your celebration!
237824
Your party seems good to go! Have fun!!
481445
As Soon As You Can and dont tell him at his party. It might make him sad and or upset for you saying it then. Tell him when you are ready to say it. It is up to you but dont say it at the party. It could make or break you meaning he could say no to you or he could say that he likes someone else or something else like he does not like you or something. Good Luck.
820158
I say dont be shy and let her know that you thought she didn't like you and that you would be pleased to go to her party and you where just wondering what she would like. I wouldn't not be who I am today if I would have been shy. If she really wants to be your friend then she will think it was funny you thought that and will let you know what she wants. Good Luck
281037
The host should be told right away that you have to leave. If you can't speak to the host yourself ask someone reliable there to tell the host for you.
808499
If you really want to go, then go.  You could take a date or just a friend.  Whether you go alone or with someone, make it clear to your co-worker you are not interested in him that way and to stay away and let you enjoy the party.
295947
Just tell them you are going somewhere else instead of going 2 the place you wanted to go with them, so they can come later.
401575
Go to your friend's lame party.  Liven it up.
222828
maybe he just really loves his job?\nwell i would just phone him during the party and ask him if he could just come for like half an hour or something. cuz you really want him to attend your birthday party. \n\nif he really cant. i would just have the birthday party without him. but then the next day or something, i'll spend the night with him. and have a bday party for just the two of us.
748270
Are you male or female?  What is the weather like outside?  Are there any other events that your friends might have attended instead of coming to your party.  Just because someone who is your friend couldn't make your party doesn't mean they don't like you.  Just think you'll have more to eat and drink.  Did you and the friends that did come to your party have a good time?  Maybe there was somekind of mixup with the invitations and some of them didn't get invited by mistake.  Maybe some of them had to work or babysit.  I don't know you but I'm a 51 yr. old nana and you can know that I'm always here for you.  Ask me anything anytime, I stay online alot.  Haven't been a member of the Yahoo Answers long but I really like it.
139015
Firstly be very careful who you try to speak with, second try speaking with your mouth closed, it might not help your shyness but it sure as hell will be a fun turn at a party!
663814
it's easy !\n\n"I hope you can come to the party" \n\nwe say " J'espère que tu peux venir à la partie " \n\nnext time if u want to translate any word / sentence from english to french or viceversa u can visite the Google! Translator :-)
20591
Parties are the classic pick up place. Make sure you get invited or invite yourself to as many as possible - or hold them yourself. Girls take hours to get ready for parties so your appearance is particularly important. Once there keep in the center of the action - don't hide in the kitchen etc.\n\nAvoid worn-out party pick ups like 'Do you want another drink?' etc. Use people-talk openers like 'Do you know Steve?' or 'Do you know Jane? Is she coming tonight?', or 'Have you seen Jo?' .\nGirls are more interested - and feel more secure about getting into a conversation with you - if you give the impression you're a regular party-animal type
684086
Yep!  I wouldn't invite her.  Just be prepared to answer her when she asks why.  I think it is VERY INCONSIDERATE when friends cancel plans with friends for a better deal or for other non-emergency reasons.
1130127
hmmm....everyone too including me have this problem, but mine is not serious adn my mom treat me very well. ur mom want the best of u, u should not be angry to her. She just worried about u. okay, this is my opinion.\n1. if u really want to go to the party even without her permission, then i suggest that u shouldn't tell her anything about it that means dont quarrel with her. tell her u want to go to school or friend house, or etc. dont wear pretty clothes but put them in ur bag so that she wont doubt of where u r going if u wear pretty clothe in front of her.\n2. ask for daddy permission politely. if yes, ask him to advised ur mom and talk to ur mom again that dad support u but politely even if she reject it again dont be rude, just be normal. if no, let it be.\n3. get suppport from ur grandpa, grandma, aunty, uncle and etc politely. example, grandma, do u support me to go parties? polite even they dont allow. if they support u, ask them to advise ur mom too. do the same way as 2.\n4. make ur mom happy. like study in the house, cooked for her, made a card for her even mother's day is over.\n\n   that;'s all. hope that help. and hope u got the right company otherwise i m sorry to help u. in my opinion, even if u she dont allow u, u should not go unless u really want to. for me family is more imprortant than friend. friend will hurt u whereas family wont hurt u very much. if u didnt go, ur friend will thought that u have pride and wont simply go out