only for the ladies....if the sex was bad would you tell that man?
594507
First time you get a pass, second time you better bring it or no more chances, no explanations, you just get my answering machine, bye bye.
137948
NO!!!!  I'd tell him you want to see how things go for awhile before you go on vacation with him.  Not having sex is going to be hard enough on both of you going on vacation just the 2 of you is way to tempting.
1071418
It may be because he is embarrsed and remember hes a man and telling them how to have sex is an ego thing.  He may not have had much experiance either.  Dont tell him just do the things you like to him for a while and see if he starts to come around.
415306
Yes i would. He obviously wants to tell u sometrhing very important to tell the gurl. And she needs to give him a chance and let him get off his chest what he needs
571749
Yes, I would. Its how the man treats and respects a woman. Not about his perfect or imperfect appearance. There isn't a single person on this planet that's perfect.\n\nMy suggestion is to get to know the woman, and then after a while tell her. Or, just don't make a big deal about it and she won't either. Let her find out on her own, in due time.
65678
I would strap her to the washing machine. Real men deserve real women and no real woman would ask her man do something that is so self-absorbed. Sex is about sharing a good time, not a challenge to make the man stress out that he is not satisfying his woman\n\n\nok, ya got me. I agree with what your saying. If your in the sack with your love and you are looking for some pizzaz. Then explain that to him. I imagine that he would like a wild time too but might consider it rude or that you would take great offense and call him a pervert or something. In general men tend to think that having sex is a great gift and they don't want to do anything that might jeopardize it. As for some ideas I might suggest sex in less that private places, role playing, toys, on furniture. One of my favorites would have to be trying to recreate something I saw in a movie. Don't forget the jelly:)
438191
Think about this wiseguy, will you understand if your girlfriend says she loves sex with older guys?\n\nif you do send her my way
612288
I'm into brutal truth BUT some people can't handle that kind of truth. it would depend on the man. Can he handle it? If something can come back and bite you in the butt later, it's best to just get it out and deal with it. I'm sure your partner would rather hear it from you then someone else.
649379
No.\n\n Not normal.\n\n       like much better than normal.\n\n              Ladies give that man a hand.
195579
Than honey you have a messed up man who just uses women for money. I would take more pride and leave his sorry butt..Nicky
597348
Maybe you should explain your reason for saying it to him! He probably did freak a bit, you know how men get when the l word is mentioned. Speak to him and if he doesn't understand drop him he's an idiot and not worth your time! He should feel helluva complimented as you were in such throes of passion and orgasmic bliss that you blurted out the unthinkable!
214779
No,not as long as he come home and we have sex,I would know that he's not out cheating.It may make the sex better.
205516
When I'm having sex, my mind becomes a lot less verbal because I'm so into it. I feel like I become more animal. So I wouldn't worry about him not being into it, he's probably really into it. But if you like dirty talk, you should tell him. I don't think that would scare him, it would probably turn him on and he would try it.
632699
Personally, I wouldn't. I would just be appropriately friendly to him, and let things develop gradually. In the long run, it works out better to let the guy develop feelings at his own pace, if he's going to. If it doesn't happen, it wasn't meant to be. I have seen it happen that the female tells the male she likes him, then he responds that he likes her too, uses her for sex, and dumps her. I know that's not nice, and I know not all men would do that, but plenty would, if they thought they would "get some".
722337
I would tell my boyfriend cuz the guilt would bother me a lot.It was not a good idea to end up in the same bed at all.
1049420
no it doesn't mean that the girl is bad at sex it means that he probably has his eyes on another lady and that's why the girl can't fulfill him sexually. It's the sick truth....
832019
NO! That's really bad..I'd do my nut if that happened to me!