Do you think it's normal for a man see porn websites and be in love with his wife?
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Does not matter how you develop your appetite as long as you appease it at home.Variety is the spice of life, so look all you want, have fun by all means.
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He is still the same man as you fell in love with. He is good to you and your kids and thats all that counts. He went and bought some porn, so what, at least he's not cheating with another girl. Porn is an addiction that all of us men have we cant help it. Maybe you can use the porn to brighten up your sex life. It sounds to me as if you have grown comfortable with him instead of wanting to bed him every time you see him. Get some spice back into your love life and spice things up he will love it (and not but porn) and you will reap the benifits too. Hope that helps you out.\n\nJay
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I don't mind. My bf goes onto porn sites, but he doesn't ALL the time and he doesn't let it rule all his time when he's off work. He doesn't get too into it. I actually watch a little my self, sometimes. It just depends on the TYPE of porn he watches, as long as it doesn't get too wild and perverted, and he doesn't watch it all the time...I'm cool with it.
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Yes this is normal, for some women if you need more information try links below.By the way it is really thoughtful that you are concerned about your wife's body and its' workings.
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cheating was wrong. and you were right to make him earn your trust back. But i would not get to bent out of shape about porn. It IS just looking with no personal contact. Besides 90% of men in America look at porn, the Internet is just a new way to get it instead of buying magazines in a store. But if you are really uncomfortable as you sound i would seek couples counseling to see what is going on. It will help more than you know.
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My husband and I both think it is.  We feel that if you are seeking ANY form of intimacy outside of the relationship, things need to be evaluated...even if it is something as impersonal as the internet.
868071
You're just not fulfilling his fantasies, he's using porn to try to get his imaginations to come to life...............be grateful he's not running off to someone else who will.  Porn is far better alternative than cheating or leaving all together.  To be honest, porn is quite healthy for a relationship.
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I watch porn all the time. I think it is great for anyones sexuality. and both with my husband and alone.
1014161
Absolutely....Watching your wife turned on is the ultimate rush....It is total sacrificial love to allow your wife the experience of incredible sex while you get to watch from another point of view
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This really isn't as uncommon as you may think. There are lots of men that are the same way. The term is called 'Cuckold'. What is your wife's opinion of this ????? Once yo have talked to her and if she's game for it, check out www.adulfriendfinder.com\n\nGood luck. Have fun !
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IT SURE IS! FIRSTLY BECAUSE IT OVERFLOWS ONES BRAIN WITH THE IMAGES THAT U SEE ...RESULTING IN A HIGHER SEX DRIVE AND FRUSTRATION LEVEL. WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY CAN LEAD TO REGULAR SEXUAL ACTIVITY OF MASTUR****** AND IN SOME CASES RESULTS IN RAPES AND ABUSES. IN CASE OF MARRIED MEN,,,IT CAN LEAD TO EXPERIMENTATION OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY AS PROJECTED THRU THE VIDEOS AND PICTURES..AND CAN LEAD MEN TOWARDS WANTING TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE SEXUAL PARTNER. FINALLY, IT CAN LEAD TO TIMEWASTE AND IS A WORTHLESS SOURCE OF DISTRACTION.
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All men are visual creatures.  Most men like to look at the female body, we find it attractive.  We do not have sex with a woman based on the way we "feel" about her, it's about the way she looks.  Just because your husband is getting the visual stimulation from watching porn, it doesn't mean that he isn't attracted to you.  He propbaly lied to you about the porn because you admitted to watching it "to make him feel okay" and he believes that you dissaprove of it and he doesn't want to offend you.  So, if you are truly okay with it, let it ride.  If not, he'll keep hiding it.  Nevertheless, boys will be boys, don't let it get to you.
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Yes, it is. \nI found porn on my hubby's laptop, and (after I deleted it all, of course), I REALLY let him know how much it bothers me. He hasn't watched porn since. \n\nYou are his wife, and he should respect you, and to not do what bothers you. Contrary to popular belief, men do NOT have to look at porn...it's not a necessity for them to continue living. \n\nMy suggestion to you is to talk to your hubby about it...seriously talk. Also, consider all the reasons why he would be looking at porn. For example, if you two are not as intimate as you once were because of busy lives (jobs, kids, ect...). If this is the case, then do whatever you can to make time for him. Men need to feel attractive, desirable and wanted just like women need to. \nI wish you best luck!\n-Pegasus
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i dont think it is the porn that you are upset about, i think that it is the fact that he kept it from you. Explain to him that he doesnt need to keep anything from you no matter what it is. You will support him and stick by him that is why you married him.
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I believe if a women truly LOVES her husband she should to it if he enjoys it because she loves him.  Seeing my husband enjoying it  or should I say hearing him enjoying makes me way horney. My husbands x says it not normal for women to do this that hardly none do it. I don't believe that BS.
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Yea, really there's no point... best case scenario (for him) his wife knows about the porn and doesn't care... so nothing accomplished...\n\nWorst case scenario... his wife is uptight and they have a big fight and she leaves him to go be another single mom raising kids... and you'd have to live with the fact that the kids had to grow up without a dad because you had to interfere with someone else's life...\n\nHe's not hurting anyone with the porn... if you really don't like the guy... find some way to embarrass him at work with it, but let him keep his home life out of it...
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Worry about what? I have no experience with this, but I would say that if you two are faithful people, then there is nothing to worry about, regardless of the past. You two might look at unusual(in the heterosexual sense) porn.