I'm 22 and dating a 47 year old...he's a genuine nice guy?
605046
Its a choice you've made, and if he means that much to you, then all the people who are looking down on your relationship should not matter to you.  We don't pick who we love.  Life sucks sometimes
777105
Kinda have to laugh at that one. I don't even think of late 20's as a age difference. I'm 36, recently dated a 28 yr old. We would occasionally laugh and he'd call me a cradle robber, and i'd call him a silly boy, but it's all in play. As long as you are emotionally responsible, then the conversation should flow naturally. (I'm into 80's music and star wars~~ yes geeky, I know, but typical of the ladies my age....).... Try starting with stuff like that.
793745
god forgive me for stereotyping but I only have limited info for going on! from what you say, there is only one adult in the relationship and it's not him!!!\nok, he sounds like a typical man, wanting to have his cake and eat it too - basically he feels it's a bit wrong to be with you, but he wants you to make it ok.\nso he's being cautious and flaky so that most of the hard work comes from you and you end up saying all the stuff people usually don't want to be the first to say (ie tell me how you feel/why are you sending out mixed signals - making you look needy)- don't fall into that trap. as much as you want some clarity, pull back and let him do the hard work. it is obvious he likes you despite the age diff (dirty old man - just kidding) so he will try to engineer the opportunity to kiss you again- at which point, i think you should play a bit hard to get so he has to SAY those things he is obviously avoiding saying  in case it all goes tits up, i presume. \nanyway, only my opinion, so let me know if i was totally wrong - and good luck!!!
163078
Not really, but understand that this will not be a permanent relationship.  An older guy should introduce you better things than a guy your age.  Nice restaurants, plays, concerts.  In exhange you are keeping him young.
838671
Sounds to me like you're getting a bit sketchy and he doesn't like what he See's. Step back and take a good hard look at yourself and him. You need to ask yourself some serious questions. When you're talking (settling down) there's a lot involved there. Like dealing with each others ups and downs day in and day out. Your careers. Buying a house. Starting a family. Can you see growing old with this person? What are your goals in life? Do you have the same goals in mind? And a whole bunch more than that. If you're already having problems at 22 and 24 you better get ready for the real world. Good luck
11157
I think you are just doing great. Keep this relationship.\nIt's better to relate to someone through culture and language than through age.\n\nBTW, I'm 24, and I've dated girls 6 years old younger than me and girls 5 years old older than me. Perfectly OK.
714086
I date and live with a man that is 10 yrs. younger than I am, and we have the most wonderful love and relationship you could imagine. I personally do not think age should matter at all as long as the two of you are happy.
816675
how old is way too old? go out with the guy you have known for 4 years. It sounds like you may be able to trust him more
346126
im 22 would consider it if he had lots of money and is very atractive and have a nice bike!!
451810
Age isn't a barrier to love.  I would guess that a lot of the 'eeew' comments are  made by those who are in your age group.  I'm older than your boyfriend, and I can tell you that however old he is physically, he probably doesn't feel that old mentally.  I still feel about 34 but I'm in my fifties! (And I don't look that old, either!)\n\nHowever, you must be practical.  When you are 42 he will be 63.  When you are 63 he will be 84, and he may well be very elderly at that stage while you still have the energy to go dancing.  If the thought of caring for him at that stage doesn't put you off, then keep going, and disregard the funny looks and comments!
494750
As long as two adults find a common ground, relationships work. My BF is 20 years older (I'm 27) and I can't imagine my life without him.  We are on the same level in so many ways - maturity, goals, opinion, etc. Like any relationship, it comes down to a balance of give & take, acceptance, and respecting each other. I love him for so many reasons - he is genuine; he's not out to find the next party or club, stay out all night with friends or worry about how fast he can get his car to go. I believe people come into our lives for a reason, and we learn and grow from them. Being in love is the greatest feeling in the world and age shouldn't stop anyone from experienceing it.
1087742
Here is what I've learned. I'm 26 and I've dated guys all the way up to the age of 38 and I've learned that ALL men play games young and old...Most of the older guys I've dated are just better at the games because they have been doing it longer which is why you are so taken with this guy.\nThen there are the older guys whose games are so obvious that it makes you wonder why they aren't better at the games.\nAnyways, it's not about the age, but about the man himself. So maybe you found you a good one, or maybe he is just better at the game than the guys our age. Either way, only time will tell.\n\nGood luck to you.
643534
Considering your typing style and use of slang, I'm going to guess you arn't actually a 64 year old (wow, that was hard).\n\nHowever, if a 64 year old man was interested in an 18 year old girl, I would tell him this:  Dream on, she isn't going to be attracted to you, unless your wallet is very very fat!
995549
Well...I suppose it's relative to how mature he is.  \n\nWomen mature faster than men so I'm not sure it's wise to date a younger man. \n\nIf you were 40's I would say there's not a huge gap, but early 20's people are still figuring out life and who they are. \n\nI don't think there's anything 'wrong' with it as long as he's legal. I just don't think it's wise...(I make these remarks based on the facts as I'm given them).\n\nIf you must, date him years and years before you ever marry.
866543
You must listen to your heart.  Are you really in love with this man or just adoring his mature ways?  Good Luck.
797236
You maintain your self and still be a nice person. Others will see that you are mature about it. You and he may want to date in the future but in the meantime you should start looking for another fellow. ○
212520
It's wise as long as he's a filthy rich man. Girls are likely to be attracted to rich old men. Don't feel guilty. However, make sure he is not married.