if a woman marries a gay man is she a lesbian or bi?
595942
no, but she dosn't know he's gay....well mabey
93687
Not if she was bi- prior to you getting married. . . . odds are . . . you never knew . . . . \n\nIf you decide to do it . . . it may ruin your relationship . . . if it is not already ruin . . . because odds are she knows the perfect girl because she is already doing her . . . (Does she have a girl in mind?)\n\nAs for having kids with the other girl . . . that is when they both leave you . . . she collects alimony and child support from you (if you have kids with your wife) and her girlfriend will also collect child support from you.\n\nAnd there is no way out for you . . . because she will not remarry . . . because gay civil unions are illegal.
1092180
both, and there is nothing wrong with being bisexual. we are not confused.. sigh!
64548
You should marry a Filipina instead, they are very family-oriented and don't believe in lesbianism.
429646
i am straight with some lesbian tendencies... i strictly date men, but i do find some women attractive. but i would never have sex with a woman,
1069596
I know you asked for lesbians .. I'm not quite a lesbian but I do enjoy being with a women sexually ( I guess most would say BI .. but whatever you want to call it is fine with me )\nI would be very cautious with this woman .. she seems like she really digs you .. but she's also going through a major change in her life .. most people can only handle one at a time .. divorced & experimenting with her feelings at the same time - that sounds scary to me !\n\nMaybe become friends .. go out a few times .. see what her expectations of the relationship will be ..  get closer and really get to know her.  You might find out she truly is falling in love with a woman and not just using you .. there's only one way to find out !
99263
gay/lesbian marriages are the same as regular marriages, yet gay/lesbian divorce rate will increase with time, when more state will allow them to get married. I personally think that I doesn't matter. gay or straight
941145
Lmao, this is great, Nikki, but i would have to choooose.........A, but do i have to be compleatly gay, or can i be Bi? Because if I can be Bi, then I would pick C
351999
I dont think there will be any difference bi or straight,if he is attracted to her then it all works
320187
Bi women are great. Definitely go for three-some. No such thing as a bi-man. Andrew Dice Clay said it best "Either you suck d--- or you do not suck d---"!
325316
Not at all! All these people who don't believe in same sex marriages are looking at the wrong things. If they're happy, than let them be together to be happy. We wouldn't want someone getting in the middle of our marriages if we really loved someone! I would never marry someone of my gender, just based on the fact that I'm not lesbian. But some people are, and this is a country where we can all be free to marry whoever we want, as long as they aren't our immediate family. Let them be, because once you stop being judgemental and look at who they really are, you'll see that they have feelings too and they just want to be able to express love the way straight people do
615944
I'm not bi but you are attracted to woman but you don't want to be you a relationship with woman. Woman can't give that security that you need. And I'm sorry but woman can't do what a man can do. I think that that you're bi cause it's in right now to be bi, and the guys love woman that's bi.
27022
I doubt it...I always thought she was a lesbian ?!?!
1106833
yes! me!(i'm a girl & gay means when people liking guys right?well,if i wasn't gay,then i'd be a lesbian!!!!!!!!lolz)ok.ok.just kidding,so are you a gay or a lesbian?(just kidding again hun!)cheers!
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bi\n\n\n\ni have found a girl attractive & visualized myself having sex with her but it seems like u have REAL feelings for her especially since ur thinking about her day & night.\n\n\nand if u stop having feelings for men, then ur gay.
43599
Fantasizing about the same-sex for women is quite common, and a "true lesbian" would be the easiest to experiment with.  I still love my ex-husband very much, but I am supposed to be with a woman.
887038
Interesting question, not sure why you would want to.\nMaybe you could do what my former brother in law did, he needed to be married to hide the fact he was gay, he found a lesbian woman who also needed to hide she was gay.\nThough they are still together, they do their own thing and it seems to be working out great.\nHope this helps.