how come I have no one to confide in?
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Why don't you find a local Christian church and show up when they have their services. Usually they want to welcome a first time visitor and you could make some good friends there. Not to mention, you can have a friend to talk to 24/7 by having a relationship with God through Jesus. God doesn't misunderstand anyone. He loves you and wants you to be with Him.\n\nProverbs 18:24  A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. - and that's Jesus!
422773
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you,cannot explain but your not alone,,hang in there ,someone will come along, probably when your not even expecting it,,love is awfully complicated,,good luck.....
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its a secret.. I can't share
114362
we need to share our problems with others because we need to "let it all out". they dont necessarily have to be your friends to share your problems with, anyone who is willing to talk to you and give you some advice will help you ease up on your problems. sharing your problems with others will help you feel better because if you keep everything inside, it won't go away and most likely get worse.
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Maybe you have not lived on your own enough to know yourself. One must learn to know & love themselves before they can love others. \nI do not like being alone all the time, but I like my own company enough to know that I would rather be alone than with someone that is not right for me or that is going to treat me badly.
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I don't know what to say....
968383
There's not much you can do at this point.  If you told someone something and they end up telling someone else, and you didn't want them to, then you have learned an important lesson in life which is not to trust anyone.  Sometimes it's best just to keep things to yourself if it would be hurtful to you for them to get out.  Hopefeully the person doesn't tell - then you will have found a trustworthy person, but they are rare.  I hope you will learn from this and be more careful who you tell things to.  Good luck.
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I guess it is you the one that can help you out. \nI have the same "problem" but I don't see it as a problem. Better off alone than in bad company.\nDon't you know girls at job? at the bar? where you go? Try to start a nice chat.\nI am a loner so for me is difficult to start a conversation with someone I don't know, but if I wouldn't like the way my life was going I would try to do those things, and try to be more social. I guess.
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i just don't know what to say.
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I talk to myself too sometimes. Nah, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I think it's a good thing because then when you have problems, you can just talk and talk without anyone knowing how you feel.\n\nI have a really REALLY hard time telling people I know how I feel, so I just talk to myself to get it all out.
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Hey, people are not destined to be alone. There is someone out there in this world who is destined for you. Sometimes, they are just right infront of you but you didn't see them! \n\nWe have to meet the wrong persons before meeting the right one. Apperance doesn't count. Its better to read a book than to judge it.\n\nI feel empty, too, at times, but come to think of it again, I have my family and friends who loves me as much. A few of them are also people I could confide it.\n\nSo feel blessed, and don't feel empty.
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Sometimes we just need time alone  to find out what it is that we are missing. Sure family is great and a good distraction from everyday things but when you want to find out things like this is better to be alone go to the beach take a walk this will help.Also it helps to talk to an outsider they might hava a different opinion than those who know both of you. I offer myself if you want to talk I am a really good listener and maybe I can give you some advise. Make sure you let me know how everything went. My email is Junior_03yes@yahoo.com
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I dont know how old you are but i went through a phase of not having a lot to say i was happy to just listen.\n\nMy parents interpreted this as me being rude or a sulky teen. But i felt that where i didnt have anything particularily constructive to say or add to a discussion, there was no point.\n\nJust be yourself when you are comfortable enough and confident then talk if not, just enjoy life as you please.\n\nAt the end of the day it its your life. You are NOT boring you are a thoughtful individual with your own ideas.
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Yes, you have to let it out. Don't keep it in.\n\nWrite about it, and don't hold back. Go see a counsellor too, they are a big help.\n\nSounds like you are uncomfortable being yourself and you have trouble allowing yourself to feel the way you do. Let yourself be free and understand that you have the right to your feelings.\n\nBut don't keep it in, open up and let it pour. Tears will come with it, I'm not saying it's easy... but it's essential.
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You sound lonely.  You also sound afraid. You don't want to let down your family. What else???  \n\nI think it would help to talk to some of your peers that are in the same situation and also maybe to an Asian counselor.  Perhaps you  solvable problems that do not take drastic measures.  Maybe you are sick, maybe you are suffering from depression.  So many things, another head could help.
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Dear, I think at your age you can know with whom you can confide. A real friend will be someone (girl or boy) that you can confide in and trust to keep it to themselves. IF you don't feel right about trusting someone, do not tell them anything that you would not want spread all over school or town.
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i use to have the same problem. just a few months ago i had to change my way of thinking about myself. i started inviting people over to play cards or have a cookout. i went out and would just say anthing that was on my mind. i listened to people so much, that is all they do, they just say whatever is on their mind. i also would tell them stuff that happeded to me, either funny or embarr. and one more thing, sometimes you have to be a friend first. if you are a girl, when you go to another girls house, do her dishes, or fix her something she has never tired before.if you are a guy, then go hunting or fishing together, wash cars together, or see who can pick up a chick first. hope this helps.