My Girlfriend/Wife is now Best Friends with my EX?
598796
Well hopefully you've been honest if your past has come up in conversation with your current girlfriend.  If not; then maybe you'd better be worried........Otherwise, it is possible for the current and ex to be o.k. with each other although; not too many of them can be true friends.  There are too many unanswered questions that will come up between them, and usually trying to make that type of relationship work usually backfires sooner or later.........
564811
Totally possible funny story I just asked a question if I should go to my exes wedding heres my story my ex fiancee is friends with my new and though his new fiancee well wife as of tommorow cannot stand me (the whole jealousy thing you know) My fiancee is secure with our relationship so his friends with my  ex but has a general rule of thumb exes are exes and should stay that way
412497
i tried staying friends with my ex. Seems whenever he was alone then I was OK but whenever he met someone then I was not. If you still love her then I would suggest not staying friends it is heartbreaking every time they find someone new. Then one day they will decide to marry and they will not want to stay friends.  Better to let go now rather than having heart broke time and time again.
177622
The game playing has to STOP!! The two of you need to sit down together and talk without yelling just talk about everything and then try and decide what is the best for the both of you! It a serious matter you have a child involved and need to figure it out but please don't get back together just because you have a daughter because if you and your ex wife aren't happy its going to cause alot of problems and its going to be a real bad environment for everyone! My closet friend is going through this right now I have so many friends that are in the same situation, You have to remember that you as a person deserves to be happy! You and your ex need to work it out so you can see your daughter more no matter what happens because she is the most important person RIGHT NOW!!! You can always try counseling maybe you and your ex could go work together not against each other! GOOD LUCK i hope that i helped
981071
I honestly believe that it is.  Even if your ex-husband says "go ahead...i'm okay with it"...trust me...he's NOT okay with it.  How would it make you feel if your ex-husband started dating YOUR best friend??  Always think about how you would feel if these things were being done to you.....  On another note, after a divorce or a break up, find yourself, and then find a FRESH relationship, one thats not going to continue to remind you of the one you just had.
678780
Honestly what do you expect?  I mean it is your BEST FRIEND'S EX.  Even if she says she's cool about, deep down inside she might not be.  Why don't you ASK her why she keeps bashing your man.  She could be jealous, or she could be telling the truth about how he really acts.  I have two friends who are MARRIED to my ex's, and I'm completely fine with it.  I never knock their hubbies or anything. Of course both of their hubbies are good guys, and I dumped them.
452711
Look, just because you and him didn't work out as a couple, doesn't mean that you can't just be friends. Me and my ex of 13 years just went out to the movies together today to see "Silent Hill", I paid, he drove. We hadn't hung out for 3 years! I gotta tell you though, we had a blast just hanging out and being friends. I bought lunch after at "Jack-n-the-Box", and he came over to my house to eat it. It was the first time he had ever come to see where I lived since we separated. We have a daughter together, and for her sake, we discussed it, and came to the conclusion that, even though we parted on bad terms, we could set that aside and be friends. She was very happy to know we were being nice to each other. I would never have an intimate relationship with him again, but as a friend, he is a very good guy and a wonderful daddy. Do what your heart tells you. You know in your gut whether or not it would be a good idea to hang out with him again. Just remember that ex'es are ex'es for a reason...it didn't work out. Friendships are always nice to have though if at all possible. Good luck sweetie.
945268
sit down with your girl friend and explain that your ex wife has realized that she still has feelings for you although you do not have feelings for her any longer... explain that you do not want to cause your exwife any more pain than she has all ready caused herself... tell her that you would respect her feelings in the same situation... ask her to be patient for a while longer\n\nyour girl friend is probably still very unsure of herself in this relationship even though you co habitate... do your best to re assure her of your affections\n\nif this problem persists you might also try sitting down with your ex wife and explaining that your girl friend is not happy with the situation and ask her if she will consent to one meeting... for a few minutes only\n\nyou are being pulled in two different directions by the women in your life... you seem to be handling the situation well...  trying to be considerate of both women's feelings... in this case one of your ladies will have to give... or you will have to take matters into your own hands and force one of them to back down... but be very careful if you choose to do that... you may cause hard feelings in someone
144545
GOOD question. It all depedns on both of your levels of maturity and self-restraint. If you had a good freindship before you might be able to keep it up after. Just be willing to distance yourself from him/her in the event you find someone to be intimate with. It never works out with your current man/woman to be spending too much time with the ex. Too much opportunity for "heart string pulling". As long as you have rules and bounderies things should work. I'm fine with my ex. She has the kids, her new girlfriend...No reason to be bitter. It's just how life panned out. Good Luck!
240696
You are a kind guy and you have a nice friendship which can be developed. However, as it is such a nice relationship, you should be careful and patient. Make sure that she is ready and is not hurt by her ex anymore, if not she will reject you though she knows you are good guy. Remember that, you can be her best friend forever but if you make a mistake you will loose everything.
825474
Tell you ex's GF to take it on a hike.  She has no business wanting to know your child.  And for that matter, neither does your ex.  Be strong, and best wishes to you.
1124948
first thing to do: CELEBRATE. Do your HAPPY DANCE and be HAPPY that your ex is finally out of your life. We don't need selfish people in our lives and she sounds like one of them.
94075
I am very good friends with 2 of my ex-boyfriends.  We have been friends for years.  They're both great people... it just turned out that we made better friends than partners.
998748
Absolutely.  I just got married and I had an "ex-girlfriend" only table at the wedding.  One of the highlights of our wedding album is a picture of my wife and I along with the 4 ex's.
367632
Okay, here it is: You and your girlfriend got to be close to each other while you were together, I'm sure you know a lot more about her now than most people and she knows much about you. You had fun with her and you enjoy her company. If so, then yes, by all means, stay friends with her. If you don't enjoy her company and actually dislike her, then no, avoid her but still be nice to her. Just figure out her as a friend, not just as an ex.
561650
Well in my mind. If this 'friend' knew you were still in love with your ex husband, she should never have even gone on a date with him. I feel you need to tell her how you feel about it, it things are not so serious between them she'll finish. If things are serious and they are in love, then I think you'd be best to cut all ties and move on.(which will be impossible if you have children with your ex) Just remember that true love means wanting the best for the one you love and wanting them to be happy. Sometimes you need to let them go. Try to get out more with other friends and get ome hobbies. This will help keep your mind off what they are getting up to, and before you know it. You'll not hurt so much. Time really does heal with this kind of thing. I'll be thinking of you!\n\nD*
18079
ask his bestfriend or his girlfriend why do you need it he is your ex