I think I am a pervert, I can't not stop thinking about sex, please help?
594619
if u r less than 30 its normal....
431004
Golly...you boys certainly do have wild imaginations!  For the record, if all of us women were as homosexual as you think we are/want us to be, we would never have sex with guys, so you should probably get over it.
183181
You have sexual anxiety that stems from this abuse earlier in life.  You  need to not be afraid to seek professional help in this matter.  Seeing a psychiatric professional does not make you crazy, or weird... and it shows that you are ready to get past the situation.  Until you can bring the topic to the surface and accept it then you will have intimacy issues for the rest of your life.  Please do not be afraid to seek help for yourself, because every minute that you avoid it is a minute of your life that you are allowing the sick and twisted individual that abused you to continue to control your life!  The longer this goes on, the more you are relinquishing your life to this horrible situation... swallow your pride and act on this before you waste anymore of your life living in fear
501995
Yes I have too. There is nothing wrong with it. It's just a fantasy and there is nothing wrong with thinking about it while with your partner. As long as its just thinking about it. Some ppl may not like it - if you ACT on them thoughts. But just as long as you keep it to yourself, then enjoy it. Just be careful.....don't go screaming the other person's name. That may not go over very well.  So just relax and have fun :D
43331
First, without knowing what "wild sex" is in your mind, this is an incomplete answer.\n\nSecond, hang out with people who share your definition of wild sex.  Maybe its online sites or fetish clubs or just liberal bars or groups for likeminded persons in politics, society, or religon.  Find sex partners the same way you would friends, start with similar interests and jump from there.
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
287010
YOU CAN'T YA IDIOT AND STOP BEING A PERVERT!!!!! YOU ARE CREEPY AND YOU SHOULD NOT WANT TO LOOK AT PORNO!!!!!NASTY PERVERT!!!!!!!111111
672852
my advice to you would be to stop and examine both relationships. if you and this friend are really getting that close and you really want to have sex and/or take this relationship to the next level then go for it but let the boyfriend go first. if its not that kind of relationship then stop thinking about sex. maybe you should also think about what kind of problems you may be having with your boyfriend that would cause you to start having these thoughts about another man. and also maybe you should ask yourself why your boyfriend would say its ok to go ahead and do this, maybe he already has.
1032160
You need to spice things up, and be creative to bring back the old flame into your sex life. Sex is the frosting on the cake, but without it it could not be a cake right? So you need to take charge and buy new lingerie, toys, lotions, something to spice it up. You are fantasizing because you need excitement, you need something new... go away on a cruise or trip, and rekindle your love life! Fast!
482738
Talk to somebody you know and can confide in about this.  This is not something a young girl like you should be asking on the net.  Not only is it very improper, but you are also leaving yourself open to sexual predators.  DON'T RESPOND TO ANY GUYS WHO MAY WANT TO CORRESPOND WITH YOU ON THIS MATTER!!!
1064467
I know its embarrassing but you may need to go talk to your doctor. This is not normal. I'm sure you are going to get a lot of responses, like hey baby call me  lol.   Maybe its a chemical imbalance or something. So don't go out and have sex with the next random guy, because that probably won't solve the problem. There is such a thing as sex addicts, so I don't think that you are the only one suffering from this.
232694
You are a stalker and have deviant behavior.  If you truly don't want to rape someone, and I think it will happen if you get frustrated for too long, go to a psychiatrist..NOW!!!  Spare some women the pain that you will cause them.  You are a very dangerous person right now.
25514
Bah.  You don't have to control sexually impulsive thoughts.  Well, unless they are manifesting in such a way as to cause you embarassment!  \n\nWhat is MOST important is that you control what you DO when you have these thoughts.  Just because you have a thought doesn't mean you have to act on it, or that it's even a good idea.  When you have thoughts, consider how you would feel if someone thought that about you and acted on it.  This is the best guide you can get for ethical behavior.\n\nAnd please, don't feel guilty for thoughts you have.  God made us this way, and no fair god would punish us for being the way he made us.  He will look unkindly upon acting on those impulses when they violate his basic rules of taking responsibility for your actions and treating others the the way you want to be treated.
1072631
Y u put this staff under pressure. Remember that you are treasured and loved. \n\nDon go down with those pervert.\n\nIf u did already lose it, who care!? Live for your real happiness, not for your virgin. When someone love u, they hardly ask about your virginity.\n\nLady is the most treasure in this world. Retain your value and quality of life. Good luck!
230806
Slow the process down.  I dunno, but it sounds to me like you're trying to rush the process.  Add talking to sex.  Have him describe in the dirtiest of details what he's doing to you as he has sex with you.  It's a known fact that guys have a dirty mind.  Use it.
996827
I feel exactly the same, I have thought about it but have never said it outloud. I don't know if I met someone if I would actually do something of if it is just a fantasy. Email me if you want to chat :)
726682
Easy! Everytime you think of him or see him just teach your mind to remember one thing. He's got STD's! Stay away from him! Run, Run Forest Run!! And you should be ok.