what to do if a guy doesnt do much things to make u feel ur special??
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I would  have to ask the question are you speaking of material or physical??  As there is a big difference and a person could read into you ?  differently.\nPhysical is just a lack of communication \nMaterial is not what a relationship should be based on.
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Well, can only answer for myself, But I would enjoy something or even just a thoughtful gesture from your heart over something thats store baught anyday.  Use your imagination.  Special dinner of his favorite food that YOU have prepared for him, a special evening to just yourselves, make it romantic, make him feel that he is the one and only man that has ever existed in your life.  Remember it is all about him that day.  Start from the time you wake up in the morning till the time you two finally fall asleep that night.  And I'm sure he will be doing something special for you, so be patient and work together so that both of you feel that the plans you have put together have went smoothly and fully.  Good luck and congratulations.
1100927
Do what makes you feel good or find someone that can give you that same feeling
318567
the best way to surprise a guy is to do things which is unexpected for him. do things which yoou haven't done for him eversince. give him the unexpected love that you never given him.... : )
787814
well, i am a girl but what impresses me is when a man is just himself and doesn't try to act like everyone else....he treats me with respect.....opens doors for me.....brings me little "thinking of you" gifts or phone calls......the little things matter more than the big ones!!!!!
1152001
You deserve more. Find someone that makes you feel happy, not confused and sad. Is this only a one -time thing.....?
597242
be crazy once in a while, spontaneous. do something when he least expects it
55539
So, politety tell him that you appreciate his care for you but, you're not interested. Makes him feel your respect, but talk to him with your heart ...That never fail, but you need to talk to him and see his eyes...\n\n;)
352557
do little meaningful things for him..such as leave him little notes in his pockets before he goes sumwhere..telling him ur thinking about him and u love him..tell him every chance u get that u love him!...hold him (yes guys secretly like to be held too)..smile at him and give him those eyes..put ur head on his shoulder..do things that he likes to do WITH him..tell him u missed him and was thinkin about him when he comes back from somewhere!!!
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I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
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Show him how much you missed him. Don't think about it so much. Just do what comes natural. He'll love you no matter what you do.
536893
start focusing on the good things he does - let him know what would make you feel appreciated - you telling him you are going to leave him is now an empty threat - try to talk to him to let him know how what he is doing makes you feel (or how what he is not doing makes you feel)
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Treat him with tons of respect, and let it be clear to him that you care about him, with gestures and the things you say. Just be you, and make him want you at someitmes, because if he puts in the effort to do it then he must care also.
448876
I feel bad for you. Get some self esteem and find a guy that really respects you. This guy's using you.
77803
I would talk to him and tell how you feel. If he cares about you as much as you care about him he should take into consideration your feeling
501324
hunni all of these answers are right but one main thing is support love and commitment u need to show that u have all of these for him becoz he needs to feel loved hunni ur doin the greatest thing by trying to look after him but another  way of helping him is making sure u look after ur self.... i hoped that helped try not to worry to much -- anytime u need to tlk or need help IM me or email me -- on --- pinkfeverpink@yahoo.co.uk
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let him know that you are there. talk to him and make him feel special. become friends and ask him out. trust me it works.