why my gf had pain while intercoursing with her?
598286
If it's not the first time,than there are a number of reasons: you're too big (there is such a thing), she's small, she wasn't wet enough, she had gas, her uterus is tipped, the sex was to rough for her... Maybe she should have a physical.
865947
Ok you kinda screwed up but you have to let this go. She obviously cares for you and trusts you she is back with you. Don't take this wrong but maybe you should just talk to a professional about this. You need to let it go because it will eat at you and eventually becaome an obsatcle to you being together. Find someone you can trut to talk this out, forgive yourself and enjoy your time with your special lady! life is too short my friend to do anything else!
1018554
No. Because she's using you so that she can ride up on another boy! It happened to me. I taught this girl how to ride a bike and then the next day she's riding by my house(as I'm running outside to meet up with her)she's with another boy! She also has the audacity to say, "Oh! Hi Alex! I didn't see you standing there. This is my boyfriend- blah! Blah! blah!" My little heart just burst. Women are cruel sometimes. Just be careful. -peace.
1165552
maybe ur being too rough, ive been hur sometimes, u just have to find a way, and when she enjoys it, youl enjoy it better
852479
I think it may be that she is (or was) lonely and her actions were due to that fact. She may have realised she needed attention, moreso than wanting you and was afraid or embarassed to admit that to you and so simply rebuffed your "moves" later. I think she cares about your feelings & enjoys your company but did not want to hurt you because she realises she doesnt beleive a relationship cld work between the 2 of you.\n\nI doubt she likes to make you suffer, though it may seem that way, shes just trying to spare your feelings and does not, most likely realise that she is hurting you in another way all the same.
561366
you have two gfs sounds like you are a non-commiting person, just decide, you are about to hurt one or both, you should have not gotten youself in this predicament.
262702
sometimes it takes time to open open when women get hurt alot it is hard to open up. she need to feel comfortable around you and needs to know that you don't plan on going anywhere just don't push her to hard or to fast.
558353
Hello nic@nite! This sometimes happens wen we are missing something in our lives that we once cherished a lot! This is a way by which our subconscious lets us know that we need to do something to fill that void. It may or may not have anything to do wth that girl, but it surely has a lot to do with how you felt wen u were with her. Pls do a bit of intropspection and find out wat aspect in ur life is 'suffering', be it emotional, n so on.. I'm sure dat u wont be hurting again if you do dat, as it is just a reminder to let you know that u need someone or maybe just urself to fill that void. Blessings!
1017897
The desire to make your girlfriend hurt because her friend bragged about it is kinda lame.  It's possible they had rough sex.  It's possible she's sore from having had her hymen torn while losing her virginity that night.\n\nIt's possible you don't need to copy anyone and what you two do in the privacy of your relationship could be more powerful and intimate than anything you'd need to brag about...\n\nJust a thought...\n:)
638985
Yes usually it hurts the woman. Be careful and gentle and take your time. If it hurts to much take a break and maybe talk about trying another time. I hope you will use protection and be responsible.
132635
You probably care for your girlfriend very much and it hurts you when you argue with her. You should really try and prevent this aruging so your realtionship doesn't shatter and either one of you get hurt.
540729
hey man it's very important that u b gentle. it takes some time to break it so be smooth, gentl, and patient and remember she'll be in a lot of pain if u thrust hard. I personally spread the enjoyment on 3 days!
979089
enjoy the time you have with her-but brace yourself that it may end.you dont want to regret the last few days you have with her because you were too busy protecting your heart.It will bounce back-I promise
113983
All kinds of things are going through your mind subconsciously.  Maybe you really were not into her.  Maybe you didn't want to stick it into her butt.  Or there could be a medical problem.  Not to scare you but get yourself tested for STD's.  This is the highest cause of infertility and Erectile Dysfunction.  Better to be safe than to be sorry.
7865
First......I think you just did say you were sorry to her for being a boneheaded idiot. The first step is finally realizing what she was trying ot say to you. I have a feeling you realized this......just a tad late. The key is now letting your wife know that you understand. I have a feeling that she felt you spent more time on your bike than with her. Perhaps you were truly caring for this bike......pampering it.......polishing it........tinkering with it..........all while she had to look on. Now that you realize that the bike was dispensable.....make sure you show her that she is not. Care for her.....pamper her......tinker with her.......polish up the marriage. Flowers do nothing.....trust me. Actions......mean everything. Spend time being "present." Stalk her in the most fun loving ways you can imagine. Let her see that you can't stop thinking of her........that you need her........and nothing else will ever come between you two again. (she so needs to know this!)\n\nI so hope you are ok after the accident. I have a feeling that was another issue. She loves you so much and couldn't stand to stand back and wait for you to get hurt. Assure her you won't put yourself in any danger at the risk of losing her. (ok was that too mushy? That might have been too mushy.....aahhh but try it anyway.....what'll it hurt. *wink*) \n\nGood luck......I'll be rooting for ya!!
390800
Your well being is more important than anything! Don't let anyone make you feel this way, specially for a girl she isn't worth it. Life goes on and you deserve much more.\nPS:I've read your past questions and you should stop being with her, this is the reason of your swollen neck problem also it seems that is been piling up so now it got to a point to your physical being. Take good care of yourself ONLY from now on.
354824
It could be a migraine. She really should she a doctor if it happens again because it can be crippling.