Should l be angry if my parents stop me from doing things in my daughters life (they have her)?
606267
wow, you have really nice grammer for someone with a mental problem...but no, its not right.  they shouldnt be keeping your baby completely away from you.  you should talk to them or talk to an aunt or grandmother or someone else in your family that will listen, im sure they'll be more than happy to help.
503252
Where are your parents? They need to know what a royal pain in the butt she's being. She has no right to treat you like that...unless you did something to tick her off first. If you did, own up to it. If not, then again--tell your parents.
1107817
WRONG no, but let it go.  It's hard to adjust sometimes with different types of families.  It's not right to make differences, but being mad about it only creates more tension in a relationship you are trying to rebuild.  Think of like this, the next time he has a boys day out at his Mom's, have a girls day out.  Use the time as a way to bond with your daughters and them to bond as sisters.  In the long run, it'll be helpful to them and you.  Your daughters will appreciate as well.  You were angry, you can't change what happened and in the grand scheme of things does it really matter now.  Is it really that important to still be mad?  You ladies go and do something that they can't do or won't want to do and it'll be fine.
1175408
A child will only do as much or as little as their parents allow them to do. Your children act the way they do because you allow them to.\n\nShow them you are their parent they are not in charge. \nYou know all the things you told yourself your parents did and you would never do them well it is time to become your parents.\n\nI know you love your kids but unless you get them in line you will be hurting them not loving them
1130127
hmmm....everyone too including me have this problem, but mine is not serious adn my mom treat me very well. ur mom want the best of u, u should not be angry to her. She just worried about u. okay, this is my opinion.\n1. if u really want to go to the party even without her permission, then i suggest that u shouldn't tell her anything about it that means dont quarrel with her. tell her u want to go to school or friend house, or etc. dont wear pretty clothes but put them in ur bag so that she wont doubt of where u r going if u wear pretty clothe in front of her.\n2. ask for daddy permission politely. if yes, ask him to advised ur mom and talk to ur mom again that dad support u but politely even if she reject it again dont be rude, just be normal. if no, let it be.\n3. get suppport from ur grandpa, grandma, aunty, uncle and etc politely. example, grandma, do u support me to go parties? polite even they dont allow. if they support u, ask them to advise ur mom too. do the same way as 2.\n4. make ur mom happy. like study in the house, cooked for her, made a card for her even mother's day is over.\n\n   that;'s all. hope that help. and hope u got the right company otherwise i m sorry to help u. in my opinion, even if u she dont allow u, u should not go unless u really want to. for me family is more imprortant than friend. friend will hurt u whereas family wont hurt u very much. if u didnt go, ur friend will thought that u have pride and wont simply go out
472128
I lived this situation for 10 long years!  Sometimes, parents have a valid reason for disliking their daughter's man.  How does he treat you?  Does he take care of his child?  Does he hold a job?  If it's just about social status I would tell your parents that it's your life and your decision and stick to it!  If there are valid reasons for their opinion perhaps you should re-examine your choice.
227198
If your daughter is 18 or older, then you should not make the decision together. She is an adult, maybe you should CUT THE CORD, and let her start to live her life! I say forgive him, he really did nothing wrong, other then fall in love love with a girl who had a controlling mother! BUTT out of there lives, as mothers, all we can do is raise them the best we can, and be there to pick up the pieces, if they need us to, but there comes a point when they have to live there own lives.
894253
Sure, she can say she doesn't want to go and she doesn't have to.  She can also say she doesn't want to eat her vegetables or do her homework.  Unless someone makes her do these things she won't.  Visiting her Dad is a good thing, whether she likes it or not, and we often have to force our kids to do "what's good for them."
137032
Maybe because your parents really love you so they become possessive, try to talk it over when things calm down. Don't talk about it when they are mad and high-tempered...
972750
Her parents are racist dear. You can't change that.\n\nIf you were older, I would say ignore it, they will get over it. Sadly, you are too young to drive and you don't have your own life set up away from everything as to give them an example of how you aren't all these stereotypes and these horrible racist things they keep talking about.\n\nOh, cussing out the daddy wasn't the best of moves by the by.\n\nI would release myself from the relationship. Tell her you think her parents are racist and mean and you don't want to deal with that. Tell her that if she talks to them and she thinks she can change their minds about their behavior, you will resume the relationship...otherwise move on. \n\nHer parents are horrible. I am sorry for that, but they are big in her life right now and no matter how great she is...she cant escape them. Maybe later on in life you two can get together, if you still feel that way later on.
58299
If I were you, I'll talk to her mom/dad, even if she gets mad at you and stop talking to you.  She'll thank you later!  You can't handle that by yourself, you need an advice from an adult.  One day she'll understand that you did it because you loved her and cared for her
30818
I feel so bad for you....the answere to that, though, is you wait till they turn 18...or older. Well, that's only partly true. The fact is, if you're a good parent and loving, just let her know you're there for her whenever she needs you with open arms, and eventually she'll turn around. Girls are real good for this kind of behavior towards their mothers and probably she is just angry that you remarried someone other then her father. As she grows older she'll realize the situation, whatever it may be, that caused your seperation from her father.As for feeling lost...just let her know you love her every day and then get on with your life, doing what you normaly do or pick up some new hobbies to take the place of the time you usually spent with her.\nAs for her coming to visit you this summer, that's for you to decide based on what sort of child your daughter is. I have two daughters and one of them I would tell " ok, if you don't want to come, I understand, I'll let you decide." the other daughter I would tell.." your ass is coming here weather you like it or not...and you WILL like it."\nGood luck
932072
I would say this girl has no respect for parental boundaries.  I would speak to my son and let him know this type of behavior is unacceptable in your house and that if this young lady, and I put that loosely, is going to be over again she better mind her tongue. I would want other parents to tell me if my child was disrespectful in their home. Even at 17.  She isn't going to make it very far in life with this personality.  If it happened again I would directly show my disapproval to the girl, and ask her to leave.
70746
I'm in 11th grade and I would say that is normal. I never really went through the stage of being annoyed by my parents and getting mad at them easily or wanting nothing to do with them, but I've also seen many many people who have. It may take a few years, but she will most likely be back to herself eventually.
960131
Sorry, honey, they are your parents. Obey them. It sucks, lots of things in life do, but there will always be rules set by those above you, and, sadly, you must follow them.\nNo one ever said life is fair.
60695
I'm sorry all these things are happening. But, the answer to your question is: No, it's not good to hate your parents. It's also not good to treat a daughter as they have been treating her. \n\nWhat would be good in this case is for you and your parents to go to a family counseling service and get these issues out in the open. I hope they find out how you are feeling before too much more time passes. And, good luck to you.
1140746
From my experience, coming home late or breaking curfew was a major way of testing my parents trust. Considering your ages, I am surpised that your parents are so restrictive. Ask yourself, what is this 'bad' that they think you're doing? Did your parents come from deeply religious families? Were your parents also restricted by their parents? What about her parents? It may not be fair, or make a whole lot of sense these days, but that could explain some of their methods. Do you or your girlfriend have troubled pasts, maybe trouble with the law? Did you ever have a truancy problem with school? Don't think that I am blaming their behavior on you, I just want you to think of all  possibile reasons. It almost sounds like you two live a bit far away from eachother, and that might explain why you're only allowed to see eachother twice a week, and talk on the phone for only half an hour a day. Have I nailed it yet? No? Okay, parents may not seem to make any sense some of the time, but they are your parents. Like it or not they have say into your relationships. The more you show respect for them and their wishes, usually the more trust they'll have for you. So if you're considering sneaking around after dark or anything like that, don't try it. Chances are you'll get caught, and just imagine how often you'd get to see her then? Probably not at all. I know this is a hard time for you both, you're almost legal adults, but until you turn the magic age of 18, you just have to bite down and endure this. You will get through this, just be patient with her and your parents. I am going to assume that talking with your parents wont make much of a difference, but there is nothing wrong with trying. Ask them what it is that they fear so much, and do your best to put that fear to rest. Assure them that you intend to follow their wishes, and do so when you're out with her. If they see that you're true to your word, the less likely they are to shorten the leash. I get the feeling that their fear is your sexual activity. It is my personal opinion that you two are at the ages when your sexuality is your business, however a parent will feel like your business is always their business. You can be 50 years old, and they'll still consider you their baby. Being that your sexuality is your business, I hope you wont mind if I give you a piece of advice: protect you and your girlfriend and use a condom every time. Anyway, you will get through this, I promise. Good luck.