Thinking of dumping my husband he won't stop fating in bed do allmales do this?
609051
At least he doesn't hold your head under the blanket after he does it. Consider yourself lucky
777192
i think you 're the one who needs to decide if it stays or goes.if you're happy with it then dont worry.if you think it's a turn off then do something about it.  Personally my hubby gained a little around his belly and it just gave me more to hang onto to....his personality didn't change....and hes not sloppy fat so we're good...
1146344
Sounds like he needs a reality check. If you let him treat you bad it is your fault. There may be problems with work but if that is not the reason then he is trying another saddle.  Most of the time guys let the stress of the job mess up their home life but the wives should find out what the problem is. If mine did that I'd tack his ass to the wall and find out whats up.
836676
Are you serious? That kind of mentality has NEVER worked out. Be yourself. I know it's a cliche but it's so true. If you wanna lose weight, do it because of you, not trying to please a man. What happens if you can't? Will he accept you then? Will you accept yourself? Will you do something drastic to lose the weight? I hope not.
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My husband and I tried this but it didn't work...maybe it will for you guys. \nWhen we decided to have the "competition" we wrote down a list of things we would like the other to do...(IE It can be sexual or maybe some home improvements you have wanted and he hasn't done...dates whatever you want) Put each item into a box or hat of your own. \nNow...each week keep track of your weight and at the end whoever lost the most got to reach in and pick something from their hat/box of which then the "loser" had to do what the "winner" wanted. \n\nOurs didn't work because all hubby wanted was sexual things while I chose to go the house hold chore route(Wanting him to do dishes...laundry and such) He didn't like that and got upset since he only won once for the month that we did it and refused to do my things..\n\nGood luck...hope it works better for you guys than it did us!
555009
I understand. My husband was like that with me , but he soon saw that i just don't eat as much as he does. Tell him that you love him but you don't need to eat all the time. You have no problem with how much he eats so he should not have a problem with how little you eat. Stay strong and stand your ground.
1075075
You think you have problems....My husband won't leave me!! LOL
705679
No, you're not shallow, just human. We all want to be proud of our guys even if we're not so great ourselves! You sound very level-headed to me. So, don't feel guilty. My husband is bold and I hate it though I love him very much! We all have something in our spouses that we don't like, that even disgusts us. It's how you deal with it that matters. \n\nLuckily for you, your boyfriend's obesity can be changed. If you don't have the courage to talk to him upfront about this because you don't want to hurt him, get some brochures on how to lose weight and put it where he can see it. If he says something, tell him you think it's a good idea to lose some wieight for you are worried about him health. You can also persuade him to go walking with you. Whatever you do, don't dump a nice guy like this just because his overweight. Many of the so called Adonises are so full of themselves that they haven't place for somone else!  And if your guy loses weight, make a big fuss about it. It wil inspire him to pull through. Good luck!
925508
You sound like high maintenance. Do him a huge favor and leave him so he doesnt have to deal with your constant insecurities.
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Are you looking in on me??? Boy do i know what you are talking about. my husband loves me to death and he slips too,we crack up laughing, legs over the shoulders, doggie style etc.... Our best is oral sex. When she is in the mid of orgasm you "will" have an erection, put her legs on your shoulders...guarantee she will have at least 3 orgasm's. she will yearn for more...get energy....foreplay will be greater and this will transform to her self-esteem. maybe the sexy clothes will come later. turn on the lights when making love.\nAnd Buddy while in the midst of a passionate kiss my husband will slide his hand down my body feeling me so lightly then feels me where im "wet" ready for him and aims perfectly. Jamming your penis on the side of the leg and other near by areas is not acceptable.You are saying you are too fat.AND NOT TRUE. One leg over opposite shoulder is very good too. MY husband has a beautiful body, weighs 160-180. im a size 22. But everyone laughs at me cause in my inside i feel size 5-10, no bigger and have the ATTITUDE. Have your wife email me. And kiss/peck her more (but not to smother)pat her on the butt at the grocery store. My husband says when he is on top of me it feels like a mountain...so when he is really ready for orgasms i'll sing to him "Climb Every Mountain". NOw you know what that does!! We crack up laughing. And then does he come after me. FIND yall's sense of humor.
764875
You sound like high maintenance. He won't last if youre that demanding. A guy needs some space once in a while.
659329
SOME men don't like to show weakness. For me, if it hurts, I'll find a solution to my problem. If your husband wants to be in pain, then let him suffer for being an idiot.
338362
hey sweetie sex won't work believe it or not it's just the opposite however if he gets frustrated and bugs out because of the lack of nookie he was not the guy any way. cudo's to you for standing on your moral principles. my best to you and your relationship
779479
Love is about a two way lane, u get respect u give respect. In order, for you to respect other people , in this instance your husband you need to first respect urself. Man in their own ways, tend to subject women to sccumb to such ways, as they know the weaker sex usually gives in. But be firm, tell him gently you are uncomfortable. He has to love you and your self dignity beyond just your body alone...he has got to realise that his actions will get him nowhere but trouble. I guess, maybe you need to help him out, as it looks like he may have an addiction, so maybe proper counselling may help him get thru this. If you outright reject him, he may in worse situations seek attention elsewhere which may further strain your relationship. You need to handle this with care. Just try to indulge in doing other things together sometimes, and when he brings up x-rated stuff, tease him instead, yet maintain your stand. A healthy relationship, includes good sex relationship, but it should be the be all and end all of it.
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This is so funny! So refreshing to hear of another hubby with a sense of humor. Did it work? \n\nThank your lucky stars you don't have me! I was upset at my hubby years ago when he wanted me to rub his back with Icy Hot. I lovingly did that for him even though I was mad at him at the time right before bedtime. We went to bed and I spooned behind him gently and lovingly cupping his "jewels" in my hand as I always had. The only difference was that I hadn't washed my hands. I know I'll probably get raked over the coals from you guys out there but it WAS funny. He was "dancing in the sheets". Get it? He forgave me though as I did him for what he'd done.
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Wow that is extreme. My husband was kind of like that too, but closer to the 3-4 week postpartum mark. For the longest time I felt sad and used and hurt, and let him get his way , but in the long run I found that only makes things worse and he does'nt even realize what he is doing is wrong. You need to stand up for yourself and say no and mean it. Alot of the time these guys are so focused on their penises and egos that they forget that we are people too, and letting him get away with it is only reinforcing the bad behavior. My husband actually thinks I am just playing hard to get when I say no and give reasons why. \nhave you ever noticed that the bitchiest chicks have the sweetest most passive caring guys ? I have ! It works to be a bitch sometimes, and tell him off, because you need to demand his respect not ask for it. So what if he gets mad or pissy, just ignore him until he wisens up. If he wants some action he will come around eventually and treat you the right way to get it !
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stop the sex and see if he stays around