wat do u think if your parents tell u that the guy u like is not the right 1 for u??
612600
from my experiences they were right. but you got to figure it out for yourself
499470
how old is he?..if he's not old enough perhaps should delay the dating...if he is old enough still require parents approval of his choice of girl drop him!!
298723
well just let your parents know about him and let them see that you are a responsible adult by letting them know. you shouldn't hold it in and then they find out on their own and then it will all go down hill from there. that's my advice.
69469
Best thing is to only tell people you trust, like a close friend preferrably a girl, they seem to be more understanding than a typical guy friend. I wouldnt tell your parents just yet I would hold off until it feels right, it seems to me your learning about yourself right now and you found something that interests you, and it may be something that passes and it may not so I wouldnt alarm anyone just yet. Take a deep breath and think about what it is your looking for and go for it. When the newness wears off and your sure you will always be this way, then tell your family because then you will be more confident that this is how you are and they have to accept you. I have seen alot of parents go to the extreme when finding out their child is not as perfect as they hoped, or they have different looks on thier life than their parents expected, just something to think about. Lots of luck bud...
3725
Well that depends on what your parents think about you dating. If they donn't care then tell them. If the do care then you shouldn't be dating ANYBODY!
644539
if he is not leaving for college what's the problem. you will have plenty of time for your parents to change there mind. if they like him ask him over for dinner with everyone. if that doesn't work out do not worry time is on your side. life will bring you many things to come. enjoy today if he likes you he will be there tomorrow. if not it maybe was never meant to be. what you want today is not always what you want tomorrow. there are plenty of fish in the sea.
220313
to begin with honey, he doesn't love you. if you're not allowed to have a boyfriend yet, i'm sure your parents have a good reason. they are just trying to protect you from having to make decisions you're not quite ready to make. if you've seen me on here you know i'm gonna tell you to take this time to learn and to grow without complicating things. learn about yourself. learn about others. and as you're ready, learn about life. you've got a lifetime ahead of you. don't rush into things. :)
1148957
It is possible that your parents are judging him before they have a chance to get to know him better but there is also a huge chance that they are correct about him too. The word white trash is a terrible word to use no matter what it is they see in him when explaining to you why they don't care for him. It would have been better for you if they explained exactly why they don't like him. Remember, they are your parents and parents want the best for their children.  At your age and I remember it well, i felt my feelings for my boyfriend, at the time, were so strong that nothing would change it, not my mom or anyone else but my feelings did change and the advice my mother gave me was pretty accurate even though i didn't want to believe it. I continued to date his guy for six years, from fifteen to nineteen. We broke up my first year in college. I changed but for the better. One thing i learned was you can't change any one.  When i started dating again I met men who were closest to the things i like or admired. For all you know the mistake you think you made could be the best thing you have ever done even though it doesn't feel that way right now.  You have many years to find the right guy or one you don't have to change. Your parents might say things to you that will encourage you to do the complete opposite of what they want but parents do have an advantage over their children, experience.
842398
He is much to young for you, physically but mostly emotionally.  There is a vast difference of experiences and it is very unlikely that this relationship would work own.  Don't hurt yourself and your parents by making the wrong choice, as much as your heart is leading you astray right now. Good luck.
975716
I think you should do it. If you trust him and really like him why not. There are a lot of things we can get scared of doing but when we do it, we never regret doing it. Try it for a while and see what happens. Your parents should support you.
648630
I don't think it's much of their parents business unless they choose a partner of the same sex and they don't want to hide it from their parents... If that's the case I would say just be honest about it. Parents love you for you and even if they get upset at first, they will learn to except it.
1096424
it shouldn't matter.\nbut you should talk to your parents first.\nyou may be forced to ignore his mother.\nit might be. but if you really like him, and he you, it shouldn't matter.\nthat's called love.\n\ng'day
439689
Well after you get married what are they going ot do, refuse to like him still? Do what you wan't and marry who you love. This might be more of a case where you should look at your relationship with your folks and why would they not wan't you to marry the one you love.
99405
Sure,go out with him. You have to like him first. If your parents don't like him,you can't bring him home. It all depends on you. If you respect your parents (and you should) find out why they don't like him. Then work on correcting that feeling. You will do this if the guy means enough to you. If he doesn,t,then move on. Good Luck!
943948
how do u know he loves u ,guys say a lot of things and dont mean it i think u should listen to your parents ,sometimes they see what we cant and u are young  wait on time dont rush into anything or let anyone brain wash u telling u what they will and wont do.
1021943
hi..dts gud havin a boy friend..i do have one..c,just handle the situation carefully...tell your parents first,and make them understand the depth in love u have for ur guy..it always takes some time for ur parents to agree...bt,still u wait and wait...jus dont run away with him...bcoz that most of the couples do these days whn their parents are not allowin...tell dm that you really cant live with out him....and the main part is,you must have satisfied all your parents expectations..........let them know love these days is not a big thing to worry about...it vil take time,wait to hold the hands of ur guy forever,gud luck..........
697711
First determine if he is the kind of dude your mother would approve of. ( what do you think her impression of him would be).  If she'll like him, introduce him.  If she wouldn't like him for what ever reason.  Dont date him anymore.  She has experience and knows and understands things you dont.  The best advice you can ever get is from your parents, not your friends.  Find someone you know she will like and approve of.  Since you only been together a month, you should wait longer to introduce her anyway.  The relationship may not even work out, so you may introducing him for nothing.  Wait to see if it is going to be a long term relationship.  That usually takes many months to determine.  He'll be great the first few months then things may slowly change.