Do guys try to hurt a girl's feelings on purpose...cause i've felt this way towards guys a lot?
608998
well, as you get older, you'll find more guys that are mature. Unlike this jerk. You'll find someone better. Guys just love to flirt. same with girls. just try not to get emotionally attached everytime you spend a lot of time with guys.
321474
Well, if I understand what you're trying to ask...I let this guy, who I could care less about, fall for me, then I let him down...harshly.  I didn't regret it until someone did the same to me.  I'll never play with anyone's emotions like that again. It's not cool.
450772
Haha, I too myself have had similiar relationships. First of all, you guys enjoy making each other mad because both of you have a lot of feelings for each other. It's not that you guys mean to harm one another, it's just another method of "flirting". The both of you can try talking things out and see if you two can get serious. If you really want to get into a relationship & he cares how you feel, then you guys may "soften up". If he doesn't want to, then just continue the way you both are, as long as it does not bring harm.
1143065
Yes.  We do get heart-broken.  It happened to me 28 years ago.  I never dreamed it would still bother me after all this time, but, it does.  Guys sometimes act like nothing bothers us but it does.  We feel.  We love.  We hurt.
1044893
you identify first on what is really your feeling towards him.. if you like him then go on..regarding his actuations some guys  would make fool on you if they like you or do things that would make you feel jealous..in that way also they will discover they're feelings for you.
570470
Did you know all this before getting involved with that person? If so I can image he does feel that way. If not than maybe the love wasn't as strong as you thought. You can only do what you feel you can................
601329
It sounds like he llikes you. He may be scare he will get hurt again. If you and he become an item then that may spoil the great friendship you have and then he'd he hurt if he loses that too\n\nSo just bare with him he's trying to deal with this and the last thing he needs is to lose another.\n\nThe feelings u feel is just him having fun with his friend and may be u just in hopes that theres something there
631587
Dont you just hate that!! It happens-your definately not alone. Guess its just the way they show how they feel so they dont risk rejection! Play along a little and at some point ask him-when you hang out with your friends if he wants to be treated like one of the girls?
874913
Yes, if the guy is attractive and sexy enough. I probably see a guy about once a month or so that makes me feel this way (don't know how often guys feel this way about women - is it like every day or something???)
7282
hi\n i'm a guy...n u r a gal havin' crush on a guy...he nevr feels bad if u express out ur crush on him...because u r expressing out ur feelings towards someone...you should never hide the feeling you have towars someone.well if it was a guy expressin' out his crush it would have been different...but almost same....because guys usually express out their crush...and if even gals start doin' that it will be gratest thing.Because there will be better understanding betweem guys and gals..
185923
Yes, because guys do not know if you like them or not.  I can never read girls right; when I think that they like me, how wrong am I!  I wish girls would be more open about their feelings, instead of playing hard to get.
409726
Just like women we dont want 2 be hurt either. I just think that men are not programmed to be that way, its sad but true. We also dont want to feel like a wimp so we hide those feelings and never really show the real us, until sadly its to late.  Words of advice ask once, then try other ways of finding out what u want to know.
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Well, I think there is some truth to the stereotype that guys have issues with their feelings.   Many of us certainly don't have the emotional vocabulary to describe our feelings like the ladies do.\n\nAnother reason is sometimes it's not "safe" to express how we feel.\n\nFor example, if we feel rejected because we are not getting enough sex from our wives, we are called sex crazed by those same wives.  Why would anyone continue to share their feelings if those feelings are invalidated.\n\nMen don't have the corner on this market, women invalidate their man's feelings with similar frequency.\n\nI agree, there are ladies who refuse to share their feelings.  They may sulk, pout, or put the walls up, but when you ask them what is wrong, what is the first word past the lips, "Nothing."
143643
Doesn't mean anything. He may not like you, and not want to hurt your feelings. He may be crazy about you, and not want to be hurt. The male ego is pretty fragile, sometimes we figure it's better to not act, than risk being rejected.
1093891
WHAT? you know how girls feel when a guy cheats on them and they don't go back! and guys feel the same way why don't you just tell him what you did! your such a loser!
951194
well i think u r mad at him and u try to make him feel his fault toward u may be \njust try to make him more jelouse and talk to many guys
862727
Weeell, i've been there before. it upset me a lot because he didn't just "look", he gave "several glances" to "several girls" "several times" whenever we were out.no matter what anyone says, its awful.its also absolutely rude to you.i'll guess, not only were you jealous, you felt insulted.the thing i worried most about was, if the girl and other people noticed what he was doing,they'd ask themselves why and check me out, too.maybe even feel sorry for me.i didn't like that thought one bit.i'll tell you what, there are men who are real gentlemen who wouldn't do that.if you're he's girl, he should give you undivided attention, have eyes only for you when you're together.that's what he'd also want from you.no, its absolutely normal that you're upset.i think its just really rude what he's doing.you wouldn't want to be rude enought to check other guys out infront of him, would you?although he does deserve an equal dose of his own medicine.honey, if you're beginning to feel insecure all the time, its not always because there's something wrong with you, although you can help yourself and do something about it.but most likely there is something he's doing to cause it