My gal frend is very reserved kind of girl, but..... help me out?
605168
sex, for me, is a very sacred thing.it's only done when u both love each other.actually, there were many times that i & my boyfriend were together.i'm a female & as myself, when i'm with my boyfriend, i just feel like being with him.i don't care where we go or what we do.i don't even care if we don't have money to spend when we're together.what matters to me most is the time we're together, coz this soon will become memories bet.us, & it's healthy.even if he's been my boyfriend for about 3 yrs.,i don't invite him to make love.i just wait for him to say it 1st.when he does, then we do it..maybe u talk to ur gf about this issue.tell her that making love is with someone u love is normal.but make her understand that it's not always like that.it's not even the most basis of love.i mean it's a matter of showing love in other ways like showing u care for the person u love.tell her that the what makes a relationship bet.two people stronger are the memories u are together, & i don't mean having sex all the time.it's more than that.i know u know what i mean.sex is only for physical aspect, but the showing of the person that u care for him a lot is something most valuable & priceless.it's something not all can offer, especially when it's true.
74947
well at least she can talk to then; buck that shyness and just wait for the right time to tell her that you Are attrackted to her and you were curious if she felt the same; tell her no hard feelings(get it into the open)if she says no then thats on you to ask her not to come talk to u about her deals with guys
151126
just be yourself and dont be shy just tell her how you feel about her cuz i know for sure i dont like it when a guy tries to beat around the bush lol so yeah im sure your a nice guy and have alot to offer so yeah just go for it babe and see what the outcome may be.i have that problem too sometimes and if im just myself the guy falls for me right then and there lol
476510
Keep trying man, but don't push things, just try to talk to here in the more relaxed way possible, like you didn't care about her, and pay attention to what she says, then you could discover what she likes and then start talking about what she likes. This should help you, it it doesn't, move on, there are always other girls.
852640
Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
922852
You obviously have an awesomely amazing friendship. Girls seem to be more in tune, with one another...in comparrison to guys being in tune with girls. I can see how this attraction came to be. I'm sure its been quit awkward. If the two of you don't want to loose your friendship, you should try and discuss the issue. Perhaps you could get her a card, or something light...that lets her know, that whatever happens, you will always be there for her. You could talk about your attraction to one another...and find out if it was just curiousity or if it involves more. Regardless, let her know, that you will always be her friend. No matter what. She is probably just as shocked as you. I've always believed that women could relate to women on a more "natural" level...you've both got in you you...you both owe it to yourselves to get to the bottom of this. I wish you the best. I'm sure it will be a Halloween to remember!
257102
Just go up to her and ask if she's got some free time so you both can talk. If she says no, then please sweetie--let her go and move on. You will develop feelings for others later--I PROMISE!!! If she says yes, then gather your feelings and ask if she might be interested in you and if she isn't--then ask WHY and if she would consider being friends with you. Also, if you are afraid to talk with her--then write her a letter and see how she reacts. This may save you some heart-ache and stress if she doesn't have any feelings for you. Whatever happens please don't freak out, you are very young and still have LOTS of living to do. Just remember that good things WILL eventually happen to good people--I PROMISE!!!
967501
Talk to her and get to know her. Make sure you don't speak "Gibberish" in fornt of her
294835
that's mean she's not interestd with you, she keep saying 'give me time' because she don't want to hurt your feeling.but don't give up pal,keep tryin.!wish you luck
493396
Well...think wisely. Decide either she can be only ur frnd... or more than that.
824634
Perhaps by meeting her, and being able to spend time with her she'll realize you're what she wants. I'd suggest making sure ya'll have a bunch of fun, whether it's crazy silly random stuff. Or something you have talked about that would be fun. Don't let it be boring, and don't be afraid to try something new. \n\nLet her know you're there for her to talk to if she needs it, try not to let your feelings scare her away. And by this I mean, don't come on strong. Show you care, but keep your distance. So she doesn't feel like you're just another prick on the block. If you know what I mean.\n\nSee how things go tomorrow, invite her to hang out again and do something fun once more. By spending time together you're more likely to know what the other needs. More so than just talking online. Learn about her, and let her learn about you. Sometimes those little quirks are what make you fall for them the most. \n\nIf you both still feel the same after hanging out as friends for a while. Who knows maybe you two could get together, and make an adorable couple.\n\nBest of luck to you.
1084093
YOU SHOULD SEND HE OR SHE SUMTHIN TO LET THAT PERSON KNOW DAT YOU ARE FEELIN THEM. BUT DNT ACT LIKE YOUR STOCKIN THEM OR JUST GOIN TO DIE IF YOU DNT HAVE THEM JUST PLAY IT COOL AND EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE EITHER SHE WANT  YOU OR SHE DONT ITS AS SIMPLE AS DAT . AND IF SHE TURN YOU DOWN DEN DATS A LESSON LEARN DAT MAYB YOU NEED TO DO SUMTHIN BETTER. GOOD LUCK ON FINDING DAT GURL
715359
Have you guys been friends or have you guys have talked if you guys have then better.You can be there whenevr she needs a shoulder to lean on but if you never spoken to her and you've just be admiring her then i think it's best you wait for the meantime try been nice around her,with time she'll get used to d friend whom she enjoys spilling her heart to.After a while when she getting stronger tell her how you feel abt her.Gudluck.
866746
She sounds lovely! Respect her for being cautious. \nAsk her if she would like to go for a wander around a few coffee shops the weekend, to 'sample a few eateries'! Maybe even try a little duck al orange or a chicken in the basket along the way!! She may be shy, but only spending lots more time with her will allow you see the 'inner person' and her true personality may bloom! \n\nShe may well be more of an animal! Grrrrrr! than you think!\n\n........good luck
354515
if u want to know about your girl friends mentality fristof all be a good(best) friend to her.share all her feelings.There may be no secretes between both of you.
705789
just say something normal to her, talk to her about anything at first and ease into it. you don't have to have the perfect line, if she is interested in you she isn't going to hold it against you if you're not exactly a poet the first time you open your mouth.
523256
yes u do have an advantage as shes been ur friend 4 so long. as u defnitely  know her  try 2 judge the way she wants things to be\n it is true many girls don't accept it when their bstfrnds fall for them, but if u give them time they will probably realise the way they feel.give them the time to think and don't rush into it. also respect their feelings and try to look at it from their point of view. \n but do start showing her Slowly that u care 4 hr more than a friend. she might get shocked if u suddenly say that.remember 2 gv hr time.\ni hope u gt hr. May God bless you