If u r a man and depressed do you want sex?
597279
Clinical depression nearly always results in a diminished sex drive, plus apathy and a general slowing down of everything.  I know it must be hugely frustrating having your sex drives at opposite ends of the spectrum at the moment. But I truly think it would be wise to let the sex take a back seat until he's on his feet again. That way he'll be free of any feelings of pressure or of sexual failings in his part.  His muted sex drive is not because he no longer finds you attractive, but is a result of chemical changes in the brain caused by his depression.  By giving him all your love, support and patience, his depression will eventually lift and his sex drive will be restored.  Good luck and best wishes.
521833
Zoloft is well known for making people lose their sex drive, tell your doctor and ask to change to another one, the last thing you need on top of depression is misery over your lack of interest in sex.\nThere are many different types of anti depressant, you don't have to stick with this one
1044888
maybe ya need to find a man
736359
wow you sound a little down I hope things get better for you and not all guys feel like that some feel like there not a girl they can't get
207944
Take it slow.  You've just been through a very traumatic event, and is it any wonder that you have no sex drive?  You are probably feeling hurt and abandoned, and maybe just a little down on yourself.  Start dating, don't rush into anything, and something good will come along.\n\nBest wishes to you.
131372
We are human, so we feel, its only natural. If someone doesnt have a partner to have sex with, what are they going to vent out their frustrations with???? Masturation.
300493
If you have a history of depression, you may want to consult your doctor, but if you're just having a down day, get in your comfiest pj's, grab a nice blankey and a box of kleenex, and cry it out honey!\nFeel better! =D
458789
I think you could benefit from some psychological counseling. It sounds like you're depressed.
645659
i could see how you can think it would and it might, its easy  to please yourself but at the same time it makes you sad if you have to do it too long because your wanting that intimate sexual relationship with someone so ya i can see how it would make you depressed, just hang in there and dont stop looking for that right person but dont go out and be premiscious either to many deseases out there! hang in there youll find someone!
440311
I think you want to get laid!
376812
Want to go out for pizza and then come back to my place and have sex...............\n\nWhat you dont like pizza
210401
Absolutely.  Sex is as much an emotional experience as it is a physical one.  If a man is under a lot of stress sex is not going to be the main thing on his mind.  You may have to spend a little time getting him worked up and making him think more about sex than his problems.
949205
Sex is part of developing relationships, not the reward.  Maybe you need help on choosing or meeting the right type of men.
132770
not really unless  it s menapause...mood swings
288387
Get out and make friend. Maybe you are depressed and need to see a doctor. What has changed in your life to make you feel this way?
140575
Depression could make you this way......what would you be depressed about?\n\nMaybe you are not clinically depressed, maybe you are apathetic?\n\nDo you need to do some soul-searching perhaps? Is there anything bothering you that you are holding back?\n\nIs this your normal mode of behavior? If not, do you recall your nromal moce of behavior?\n\nDo you mas_turb_ate? If so, do you think about your fiance`? (sorry....not trying to be crude with you. I pretty much tell it like it is, but it was an honest and sincere question). That if that's normal but your sex life is not, then that's a red flag. Understand? :)\n\nI guess I'm just asking you some questions that may help spark you into thinking about something that you may not have realized was bothering you.\n\nHow about past relationships. Any problems with sex like it is now?\n\nHow long has this been going on?\n\nI think if you can manage to pinpoint when this started you may be on the right track to what's bothering you.\n\nAre you being honest with yourself about marrying your fiance`? Do you think it's possible that you don't love him the way you think you probably should, but feel sort of helpless now that you are engaged? That perhaps instead of saying something to him, and to everyone else that you're making a mistake, but you feel he'd be crushed and your family wold go ballistic......so instead of dealing with all that stuff, your feelings sort of found their own outlet....their own release, and that is to let go of everything? There's no fear, no anxiety, no worry, but there's also no joy no excitement and of course....no sexual desires.\n\nI'm just speculating.....trying to be a sound-board for you. Maybe ask questions you haven't been able to ask yourself maybe.\n\nAlso.....let me point out to you dear one......normal is not what everyone else is or does or thinks. It's what's right for you. You are obviously going thru a growing persion with yourself. You're behaving in a foreign way, you recognize it but don't have any answers. Someone who knows themselves well, usually knows why they feel what they feel, and how they would react to certain situations.\n\nMaybe you've started obsessing about this. Maybe it really wasn't a problem to begin with, but if you are obsessing about it you have turned it into a problem.\n\nI'm assuming from your question that you actually did have a sex drive at one time. Did something happen between then and now?\n\nWhat about medications for whatever? Anything?\n\nJust throwing ideas to you. I don't have any difinitive answers for you. I hope you figure out what's going on tho.\n\nBest wishes to you, and I hope you have a happy life filled with love for always.
847902
I think you badly need to see a doctor and get some treatment for depression....;