Ladies: Has a professor ever hit on you? Can you tell me your story?
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A professor has never out and out hit on me, but I'm almost certain that two or three have had crushes on me ... just the way they were behaving, fidgeting and nervous. I did go to their office hours a lot, but that's only because I really wanted to discuss my work and my progress, and to get their professional opinions as to how I could improve. I never hit on them either, though, at times, I may have flirted mildly ... it was all very harmless ... some enjoyed it while others seemed uncomfortable. Every grade I ever got, I earned ... both the good and the bad ones. \n\nI find professors fascinating ... I mostly admire their thirsts for knowledge. It takes years of study and dedication to acquire all that knowledge. And the ones that are especially good ... I mean the ones that actually give a damn about their students, are awesome. \n\nAnd, seriously ... why the infatuation with professors, Paul?
913223
Met the love of my life on the first day of college registration- he wasn't looking where he was going, bumped into me, and spilled coffee all over the back of my new winter coat.  He was so apologetic it was comical, and it turned out he was in several of the same classes that semester......and the rest is history.  That was in January of 1980.
178310
Depends........what are your ages?.....Are you prepared to deal w/ the consequences w/ your teacher if you were to hurt him? or vice versa how you would feel toward your teacher if he hurt you?........That would be a question to really think about and ponder on........
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Why yes, yes I have.  A few times. \n\nYa' know those little garden gnomes people like to put on their front lawn?  Well... they turned blue!  And I was having conversations with them.  The one was really perverted, and kept hitting on me.  He made me very uncomfortable.  :[  The smaller one was cool, though. He sounded like a big black man, and we talked about DDR and why the Earth isn't pink, I think... or some other odd color.  Yeah... I'm done. Sorry.
701708
hey...this is almost similar to my situation! only i see him evry day at school (university) we're good friends and email...contact him thru phonebook or something...track him down!
464352
Well, I would have to say the best experience I ever had was when I was 21, I became friends with this older man, he and I were both musicians, and we both loved pussy, one day he told me that he was getting older and he couldnt keep up with all the pussy that he use to bang on a regular basis, and he asked me if id be willing to be on call, for when ever one of his 'girls' came over and wanted service..he'd call me to come do the deed....he had polaroids of every girl in his stable, there was one girl who i was in love with, her name was lynn...i always would ask him when can i meet her ...when can i meet her...she lived in rhode island, so he'd always say..someday, i dont know when, but someday....\n\nso fast forward 3 months...i worked nights...i came home from work around 2am, i was dead tired...i fall into bed and asleep...around 3am, my phone rings, and its him...i tell him ..."man im so fuckin tired,,,i dont care who is over there...im not getting outta bed"  his answer was " ok...even if Lynn is over here?"   we lived in different citys but the average drive time from me to him is about 10 minutes...i made the drive in under 4 minutes....\n\ni was 21, she was 34, she came into the bedroom naked...without saying a word came over to me, pulled out my cock and looked me in the eye and said "tonight im gonna show you how a woman want to be love to"  I ended up fuckin and eating her from 4am to almost noon the next day, i blew at least 12 loads in or on her, Ive never had any time as hot or as good at that night...and probably never will again....
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Start looking for widowed or divorced college professors?
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hmm, I just met someone at my practicum a few weeks ago and the same thing happened. we were polite, but maybe a little over the top and i think there was something extra going on. we shook hands, looked eachother directly in the eyes and chatted for a few minutes and when i had to go back to a different building, we were like "it was nice to meet you, (then he said my name)" and he wished me luck in my practicum blah blah blah. who knows though. if i'm not some kind of psycho i think we were pretty attracted to eachother\n\nso if you feel that way, i think you probably are right. so see how things go.. i'd chat her up a bit and eventually ask her out for tea or something.
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Okay, honey let's talk about a doctor.  A man that has gone to school for many years to get where he is, worked long hours, now he has moved into private practice is in paying off student loans.  Do you think that he would be interested in you?  What is your educational level?  Will you be able to carry on a decent conversation with him, an intelligent conversation?  Maybe you should set your sites a little lower or take up grammar lessons.
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lol im a highschool senior how perfect\n\nwell typically if your decent looking with a an ok social status and fun to talk be around one of the above can make up for the rest and make yourself avaliable to some guy.. you bagged him. mmm if you float the idea that there could be a relationship like discretely and jokingly in the conversation.. he'll think about it and say "wow this could work".\n\nas for signs i tease them alot lol and i usually talk really loud to my friends around her so its like giving my crush a preview of what im like or something\n\nyeah im sidetracking now! its pretty obvious from guys you feel lit you know it since supposedly girls are 10x better at being psychics than guys
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I met a lady on line and finally met her. She was about 10 years older than me and we both knew we didn't want to get serious, just have fun. We had a great secret and private relationship for about 4 years before she started to have physical problems.\n\nThose are 4 years, though that I will never forget. Unlike women my age, this lady really appreciated me and made me feel good. I went out of my way to appreciate her too. Sometimes I wish I could find somebody to take her place, but at least I can dream about her.\n\nTX Guy
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Oh? I have been in your sitution  before but, I got over it The incident happened to me 30 years ago and I never forget my experience.You only see him far away but you never have a long conversation with him.You just could not date another person.What can you do and you wish to hook up with him?Do you think that he has a wife already or he is a gay man.Do the school or college allow students dates  their teacher?.I do not think so and you might get him fired.Well I have been there and done that.As I recalled,I was 24 years old and I did not approach him and I was afraid that would cause his job so I moved on.It was very painful and I kept thinking about him.( he was single professor and very handsome)Finally,I graduated from my college and found a nice guy to marry.By the way, you should try to say hello and talk to him without reveal your feeling and see how he is.  You never know that you may change your mind about him and life goes on instead of being struck like me and I did not find out about him.
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Oh my goodness....I have one.\n\nIt was right after I got out of a very long, very terrible relationship, yet it was before I met my husband.  I was sitting at my house with my roommate and one of those commercials came on TV for the telephone dating service.  TeleMates or something like that.  Well, I had been drinking just a bit so I decided to call it for fun.\n\nWell, I instantly was on the line with this guy who was a little older than me, who sounded really nice.  He described himself as being extremely nice looking with gorgeous blue eyes, etc. etc.  I was like "YES!!! Let's meet up for a date."\n\nSo a couple of days later, this guy was coming to pick me up.  I got ready for HOURS! (I hadn't been single in years, so I was so nervous about this "blind date")  My roommate was there, and a few of our friends were there to meet this guy.\n\nWell, we hear a car pulling into the driveway and my roommate runs to the window and is peeking out.  She turns around and starts laughing and she's like "He totally lied to you.  You are not going to like this."  I kept smiling, thinking that she was joking.  No, as it turns out, she was just being nice.\n\nThis guy looked NOTHING like he had described.  He had on huge thick glasses, he was like 4 inches shorter than me and about 30 pounds more than what he described.  He also had told me he was a great dresser, and lets just say this was a lie too!  The only thing he had in common with what he told me was that he had blue eyes!  That was it!\nSo this guy comes in and he's holding a rose, and I instantly feel like a b!tch for being so judgemental.  I thought, maybe he is a really nice guy, so I decided not to fake sickness as I had originally planned and take a chance on him. If anything, he could just be a friend that I hung out with.\nSo we go on our date.  He asks me where I want to go eat.  I tell him I'm not picky, I'm content with McDonalds double cheeseburgers.  So he decides to take me to a nice Mexican restaurant downtown.  We go in, and we're sitting there talking and sure enough, he is a nice guy.  So then he offers to buy me a drink.  I tell him I like margaritas.  He orders me the biggest margarita they have, one that costs over 10 bucks and comes in a cup that looks like a bowl!  So I drink the margarita.  He buys another one.  I drink it.  We finish eating and then we leave. \nSo he stops at a store, asks me do I smoke, I say yes.  He goes in, buys me several packs of cigarettes and a lighter.  And a case of beer.  I'm like WTF, but okay.....\nSo he gets a call on his cell phone and asks would I like to stop by his house, that his brother is having a "party" there.  I say sure, and figure if this is a trick, I have my pepper spray in my purse!\nSo we go to his house and it is only his brother there!  There is no party.  Apparently, I am the party.  So we sit around and drink some beers, have some conversation.  Then my cell phone rings and it is my former best friend (who is a guy) I talk only for a minute before telling him maybe we can hang out later, then hang up.  The guy I'm on a date with gives me this weird look and he's like "Was that a guy?" As I explain to him that it was my best friend, who I dated when I was 15, but since then, he's engaged and has two kids, he just looks pissed.  He grabs my purse up from bside me, shoves it into my hands and tells me he's taking me home.\nAs we're driving down the road, I start to tell him I had a fun time with him, and this dude just starts freaking out on me.  I remember he told me "You're nothing but a player.  You're one of those girls, you just play good guys like me.  Do you get off on playing people and doing them wrong?"  Of course, I'm like What the hell are you talking about?  So this guy proceeds to just b!tch me out:  I take you out and treat you right and you just screw me over.  That'
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Me and one of my childhood friends did it once and no nothing happened. \n\nP.S. You seem interesting fuzzy. Tell me about yourself (not hitting on you).
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I didn't go to college until my mid 30's.  Haven't finished yet, as I was going very part-time for several semesters.  It is "weird" some days, being old enough to be their mom; but it's also fun!  Profs seem to appreciate the maturity and experiences we bring to the class.
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From all the answers you have so far I can't tell why so many people think you should not say anything to this person. I would be Glad to hear someone Tell me they had a thing for me. But hey don't let this guy just kick you around. When I was in school I never was picking on girls that way. but we did play pranks like temporarily hide a work paper. Some of the questions in the romance department nowadays seem very different then when I was kid. But I sure think Anyone would like to know how you like them.
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Sit next to him during one of your classes. When you get 5 minutes, crack a joke about the teacher or something. Get him laughing. Bat your eyes and make sure you look pretty (not too much makeup though)!! Each time you see him, always have a joke to tell but do it with a smile. Basically, in getting to know you as a person he may just take the bait and ask YOU out... if he doesn't it wasn't meant to be. But in the meantime, at least make friends with him - do it with jokes and a smile!