How come men expect oral sex, but do not want to perform it?
605332
lol... you are hooking up with the wrong guy.. most men i know luv it!!find a guy that isn't all about himself in bed, and who wants to see you pleasured. usually the older ones are better girl. more wise and more experienced, and boy is there something to be said for experience...
172867
I never understood why all girls think that guys want this?  We, like you, are really only sensitive on the first 1/3 or 1/2, so trying to be "deep throat" must be cause of some porn flick.  Trust me on this, use your hand and save your mouth, lips and tongue on the top half.  Trying to get it all in your mouth does nothing for us.
171153
They don't ALL do that on a daily basis, lots of men do it less often then that.\n\nBut I'd imagine the ones that do do it because they want to, have time, are in the mood, and it feels good!
934357
If you guys haven't been together that long then probably. Men also tend to say things because they  sound good. There is really no telling in this situtation. And another thing, sorry to say it, he could just want sex, and feels he will get it if he says he loves you.
1001492
it's not like they fantasize about being hurt and emotionally scarred. they fantasize about submitting. so to fulfill their fantasy they don't seek rape, instead a partner that can dominate them in bed.
1060250
No , I had Not sex But i don't like oral, These organ are senstive oral sex can make more exited. But its depend on state of mind.  other say its really enjoyfull, Time  will give u better Awnser when u do it.
209570
Guys do a lot of funny things to buffer their egos.\n\nAnd there are plenty of guys who do that by telling themselves that if a woman won't sleep with him, she must be gay.\n\nIf you're confident in your decision to go sexless, who cares what anybody else things, right?  You're doing this for you, not for them.\n\nAs for drama... there is a such thing as drama-free sex.  You just need the right partner.
948079
As a woman, I cannot have casual sex.  I'm just not wired that way.  I've finally learned that men really are different than women and it's easier for them to have a sexual encounter with no strings attached.  Unfortunately, when men get the milk for free, sometimes they don't want to buy the cow.
484205
Because we hate giving BJ's..especially when the guy pushes our head down. I stop at that point....
1031762
On the flip side, if he loves you he would respect that you simply just don't want to.  he should totally respect that.  i wont do that either... i let my man go wherever but not in my mouth.  he is fine with it.  your man should grow up and accept it.
37737
SOME GUYS DO IT TO GET YOU IN BED BUT OTHERS DO IT BECAUSE THEY ARE SCARED THAT THEY WILL LOSE YOU IF THEY SAY THAT THEY DON'T AND SOME ARE SCARED OF THOSE THREE LITTLE WORDS. SOME HAVE MIXED FEELINGS AND DON'T KNOW WHEATHER OR NOT THE LOVE YOU OR NOT. IT'S NOT REALLY THAT THEY DON'T KNOW IT'S JUST THAT THEY ARE CONFUSED.
639359
My hubby will give me oral all the time and never wants it in return! Hey, it just doesn't do it for some guys.\nWhat does he like best sexually? Give him that and don't worry about what he doesn't care for. Make sure he does the same for you too!\nGood luck!
1081256
I am not trying to be a sicko or give you some stupid answer, I mean this whole heartedly.\n\nSome fellatio (a bl*w job, head).\n\nTrust me, no man will turn this down.  Do it spontaneously, catch him by surprise.
620270
it's not a question of seduction..it's more a question of understanding the definition of things: STRAIGHT guy. gay sex...not gonna happen man
164455
Let's recap: NOT ALL GUYS ARE LIKE THAT!  \n\n\nAs to why they are selfish... Why do people do what they do?  Self-serving usually has a feel good emotion associated with it... kind of like eating ice cream... the more we have that good emotion the more we want it.  \n\nI guess one could say a guy that is not willing to please may act that way for lack of self confidence.  Maybe it's not that he doesn't want to but HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO PLEASE his partner.  It's a bad excuse but it's possible!\n\nI hope I was helpful!\n\ncali_rich_and_smooth@yahoo.com
1007052
Guys know that if they just say they want to hang out and have fun, that most girls will not have sex with them. They don't want to get serious so, they pretend that they care and know they don't. Honesty is not something most guys can handle themselves.
354529
LOL im not with my man because i want him to suck me.  I chose my man because he had a great personality.  But believe me, your saying that only women want to be sucked maybe? U got it wrong their mate, i have met guys at nightclubs that drop their snake out at me.\n\nIt was the most degrading thing that happened to me.  Get over it and asl an intelligent question.