I find that gay sex is off-putting because of the dirtiness involved. How can we both stay "clean"?
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That is one of the reasons you wear condoms and use dental dams. That way you can rim your partner till the cows come home without fear of anything untoward passing your dainty lips, and you can plough away all night without missing a beat and not worry about the mud.\n\nJust use water based lube not oil based lube plus you also have the added benfit of being protected from all those nasty STI's (Sexually Transmitted Infections) and any other nasties carried by the faeces. Remember Safe Sex is good sex!\n\nDouching too much is actually bad for the bowel as it destroys the good bacteria needed in the bowel. Hope that helps you out. :D\n\nThe other alternative is to just leave anal sex out of your repertoire and just stick to oral, handjobs, frottage, etc. There are so many ways to please each other without going the back passage route (so to speak) lol.
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Slow the process down.  I dunno, but it sounds to me like you're trying to rush the process.  Add talking to sex.  Have him describe in the dirtiest of details what he's doing to you as he has sex with you.  It's a known fact that guys have a dirty mind.  Use it.
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Dude, really try and get some help.  You clearly have issues that need attending to.  If you're gay or not, this silliness isnt healthy for you.  Not passing judgment, but clearly this is a cry for help.
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T0 BE CLEAN, AND D0NT STiNK
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Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
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i wouldn't worry about it. guys can be very dirty- and so can girls for that matter. - -maybe get him to be a bad boy with you??????could  be fun
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5 guys in one night!!  Aren't u concerned with diseases?  Or getting pregnant?  I'm sorry to tell you, but yeah in my opinion it makes you dirty.  In fact if you were a friend of mine I would have a few other choice words to say to you.  Wrap it up girl, you're gonna end up with some horrible STD if you continue.
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The very first thing, and the very biggest thing, is to be into it.  Enjoy what you are doing, and be excited about it.  Everyone wants to think that the things that turn them on turn other people on too.  If you give the guy the idea that you don’t like to do it, then he feels like it is bad, or dirty, and no one likes that kind of judgment.\n\nAs for specific tips... every guy is different, but there are some things almost all guys like. \n\nForget everything you have read in Cosmo about how going down is somehow empowering, or that you are in control of his pleasure – that is just feminist political garbage, and it is SO not about that – going down on a guy is about giving pleasure, not taking control.\n\nJust before you start, put on a fresh coat of lipstick, let your guy watch you do this.\n\nGet down on your knees in front of him, whether he is standing or sitting – unless you are in a car or something that would prevent that.  Guys LOVE seeing their girl on her knees for them.  \n\nGet him warmed up by rubbing him over and between your boobs, while you tell him how excited you are to be doing what you are doing and how much you are looking forward to what is coming next.  You can also use your hair brushed lightly over him.\n\nPay some attention to his balls.  Softly run your nails over them.  Lick them, and suck one and then the other into your mouth and flick your tongue over it... once when you are getting started, and then later when you need to take a bit of a break from the “main event;” be gentle...  Keep them cupped in your hand after you have moved on to other things, and softly kneed them, be gentle, and don’t tug.  \n\n\nIt should go without saying that you should do everything you can to keep your teeth out of the equation.  I doubt much else could be as unpleasant as teeth on a genital.  It should also go without saying that you want to use your tongue – a lot.  I am sure that a soft tongue feels wonderful on a genital.  Lick up and down, particularly the underside, and top of the tip... get everything nice and wet before it even goes inside your mouth.\n\nWhen you are ready to take it inside the first time, close your lips softly, and push them against him so that he pushes your lips open around him as he slides inside.\n\nAs you get started on the main event, ask him to hold your hair out of your face.  This serves two purposes – first it keeps your hair out of your face, and mouth (always a good thing) and it gives him permission to put his hands on your head and provide you with some guidance (which most guys are unfortunately too timid to provide without permission).  Be prepared that he will start to guide your head with his hands – and that is a good thing, he knows what he likes best – and that as he becomes more and more excited, he will provide more and more guidance... follow his lead unless it gets painful for you.  TRUST me – guys – all guys, even the ones who don’t want to, LOVE that.\n\nIf you can take him deep, do it, guys LOVE it.  It is actually quite easy once you learn how to do it, but it does take a bit of practice.  The trick is to open your throat, and relax all of the muscles at the same time.  But you HAVE to be careful about your gag reflex – you don’t want to puke.  I recommend practicing on a toy until you have it down.  \n\nTry to keep eye contact with your guy.  It won’t be possible all of the time, but look up at him as much as is convenient for you.\n\nAnd of course swallow... It is in your mouth already, it might as well slip down your throat.  Personally that is my favorite part, it feels so sexy, warm, and so yummy – and guys LOVE it.  Of course – they sometimes like to go other places as well – so be prepared for that, on your face, or boobs – but wherever it ends up smile, giggle and enjoy it.  Remember to at least act like it is as exciting to you as it is for him.  Nothing will ruin a good buzz like judgment, so don’t ruin i
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I know your problem all too well.  I have the same condition and my wife gets irritated with me.\n\nAs a solution I have some adult diapers that I wear to bed at night.  This keeps the mess from happening and also works out nicely for the times we want to get a little frisky...
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Well, I always assume people are gay until proved otherwise...\n\nSo, I would say, be gentle, let him set the speed, and use lots of lube...\n\nOh, and don't forget the condom.
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Dude you've got it made. I just hope if you guys do go seroius, that you don't run out of sick and twisted things to do to eachother later on in life. You have got to keep that sense of sexual excitement or else, you know, the magic is gone. Go on now, get naked and get nasty. I think it's friggin awesome.
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firstly im sorry to hear that\nsecondly, it might sound a bit disgusting but tell him to masterbate or something, to sleep with a whore is just wrong and dirty but to blame ones actions on someone else to me is an even bigger wrong doing as well as being filthy!\nhe needs to sort his life out, and to do it now and get his head in order.\n\ngood luck, my love\nlots of love,hugs and kissess\namanda\nx x x x x x
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Stop behaving like a f.a.g.!\n\nDont act on your gay impulses. Im violent, but I dont act it out cause I dont want to suffer the conciquences of such actions. Sure easier said then done, but you apprently have a rocky path to travel, life is seldom fair so make the best of what you got or go through life unhappy!
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Ok, this is the deal.  If you are going to have great sex, it can't always be planned.  Spontanious sex is sometimes the best, and because it's as the urge strikes, you can't always predict when you may receive some or@l.  The main precautionary issue is just to be clean.  \n\nShaved or not is no issue, I like it both ways, but change is good, so alternate hair styles to keep it unpredictable.  \n\nThe worst thing is any thing foriegn.  I won't touch "fromunda cheese".  It just has to be clean and fresh. \n\nThis just means shower and normal wash with a non-irritating soap and water.  You want to leave it natural though.  Don't scrub or douche to the point where all you natural wettness and flavor is gone.  The smell and taste of natural snatch is a huge turn on.  A pristine sented beaver is over done and looses some of it raw appeal, while an old can of stale tuna is just nasty.  \n\nSo, It's like going in to a restaurant...I'll order mine just plain please, but I insist on a clean plate.  Enjoy!
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well first u need to be sure ur actually clean dude?\nthen make sure u didnt suck so badly that they are now repulsed by you?\n\nif these two are both good then mayb its just the fact that they're spent and dont have the energy or drive to go down on you in return... i prolly wouldnt either. haha =P
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I want to say this before I go any further with my comment:\n"If I offend anyone it's not done on purpose, so I apologize now"\nNow with that out of my system, I have to agree with your boyfriend in a way, not completely, What I mean is that there is no such thing as "Bi-sexual" It's either you are straight or gay, Now if you have any form of sexual contact with the same sex you are gay period...What you are doing is just having sex with everybody male & female, I personally do not approve of that type of life style but, I am not with out sin so I will not cast the first stone sort ta say, What I do think is that you need to quit leading your boyfriend on the way you are if you want to be with females do that, and if you want to be with males do that but, not both, it's like the young adults of today do not know how to restrain themselves, there is no self respect, it's free love, In the end it's free STD's Like I said I do not want to offend but, I think it's time that the young should hear the truth, and they also need to be told NO!!!! sometimes.
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Well, the sex disgusts you and you don't feel an emotional connection. Relax, you're straight; lots of people experiment.