i cant see my husband talking to other woman,i cant see him looking at other woman,it hurts me?
595060
Then stay in your room, little girl.
605886
That is pure selfish. He wants other women and you too. Been there before....Not something to try and build another relationship on , a threesome. If he truly loves you, he'll put her to the curb and come back to you, no matter what. If he's asking you this, and is separated from you now, then his intentions aren't to fix things, its to have his cake and eat it too. Its not fair to you, move on, find someone who won't use you to get his kicks like your current hubby....GL;)
1174039
you should have a serious talk with your husband and I may be worng but it sounds like ur a tad bit uncomfortable with your weight also ..try working out...eating healthier..dressing sexier for him...when you get confidence it will show and affect the way others look @ you..especially ur hubby...get 'em gurl!
896734
You are legally married to him.He can not legally be in another relationship with any other woman until the divorce is final.He can spend time in jail for that.
921431
I would be more concerned about why your Husband told you in the first place, could it not be that your Husband is lying, I am not saying he is, but you have to look at it from both sides, and try to rationalize everything, Men do sometimes lie about this type of thing, to make their partners jealous
472281
Listen this is coming from a girl just like you. It's not jealousy or insecurity. It's the fact that he's your man. You feel as though you can give him everything another woman can. It's perfectly natural. Don't beat yourself up about it! Girl, if he See's you looking at another man he'll feel the same way. Trust and believe. Just remember that you got him and it doesn't matter if he talks or look at other women he's still yours!
380619
Your problems go deeper than just him wanting to look at other women.  This is not usually a serious problem as most men appreciate looking at women, even if they have no intention of doing anything with them.\n\nYour basic problem is your own insecurity.  If you had spent more time communication with you boyfriend instead of nagging at him, things might have taken a different path.  Communication is the key to a good relationship.\n\nIf you are ever going to be in a relationship, then you need to get help.  You obviously cannot deal with this problem on your own.  It will just keep getting worse until he gets fed up and then starts doing more than looking.\n\nYou say that you love him, but love is based upon trust.  You seem to be unbalanced by his "looking" because you do not trust him.  By nagging at him you are forcing him away.\n\nGet professional counseling.  Work on your self esteem.  When you know that you can form a long term relationship and trust the other partner then you will stop this destructive behavior.
87815
I believe you should try to talk to your husband upfront and explain your worries. Men think differently than women in most things and he might just not notice that he's actually hurting you with they way he's been acting.\nIf he really loves you he'll rectify the situation, or at least try to make compromises if the problem is that some situation has changed for him. He might even open up and explain what has been going on with him and why he's acting that way. Everything is possible!\nThe thing is... communication is the key. What's behind the door is a whole different topic.
189177
Do you talk to other guys? Just because he talks to another woman doesn't mean he's cheating on you. Just ask him who she was if your that worried.
502952
LOOK sweetie...married couples are gonna talk...period..you cant get mad at them for that...ask yourself would you get upset if your husband was talk ing to another women all the time??  friend or not i garauntee if its more than a simple hello then you wouldnt like it...as far as your friendship with the girl let her know that no harm was intended and you can still be friends I think...unless just sayinghi dont email him and mess...you might have been talking to him more than his wife was and that can make people uneasy...i would just be careful cuz truthfully he is not your friend he is your friends husband...i hope you can feel me...
447946
I just answered your other question and I felt the need to answer this one too! Girl you are in a very emotional state right now, you need to cut all ties to this other man, this is why you are being so hard on yourself! You need to FOCUS! Stick to the topic at hand and that is that of your marriage! You need to start talking more to your husband and let him know you feel no emotional support from him and let him know how you are feeling (if you haven't already)!\n\nThere are alot of people that both of you have involved involuntarily, they did not ask to be in the situation, you need to be the adult here and finish what you started right? Do what YOU KNOW is right not what every one tells you too! I hope you do get some answers here that will help in your decision making, but ultimately the decision is yours to make. Good Luck to you!
580057
To be honest, every guy looks at other girls. I just married and that hasn’t stopped my guy from looking at other girls. It starts a lot of arguments when I say anything. You should never let a guy make you feel ugly or unattractive in anyway. My advice would be to move on. Not everyone is a super model but there is someone out there who will find you beautiful in every way, and never want to hurt you by looking at other girls. It sounds like your situation has lead to low self esteem, and it is really hard to do things for yourself when this happens. But believe it or not you could be happier.
586108
You answered your own question. You're married. That's it. What do you care if this person's attraction to you is physical or something else. It doesn't matter. You. Are. Married. if you're having problems with your husband, talk to him or see a counselor together. Bringing in a third person is a big mistake and will only make things work. Besides, you've only known this other person for five months. how long have you known your husband?
157654
I went through a similar situation....what I discoved was that it wasn't anything I had done, but the people he was housed with were either jealous we had a strong relationship and they didn't or just "got off" on seeing other people "hard time". They have a lot of time to think in there, and their own insecurities get the best of them sometimes. Hang in there! My husband has been out for 1 1/2 years, and everything has worked out. I wish the same for you.
1172600
LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY!  It looks like he made his choice already.  A man will never leave his wife to be with the other woman.  If you guys were talking before he got married and he still married the other woman...I'm sorry to say, but he is not thinking about leaving his wife for you.  He has his cake and eating it too..so to say.  You are only hurting yourself if you continue to pursue this relationship.  Save yourself from anymore heartache and just end it.
862727
Weeell, i've been there before. it upset me a lot because he didn't just "look", he gave "several glances" to "several girls" "several times" whenever we were out.no matter what anyone says, its awful.its also absolutely rude to you.i'll guess, not only were you jealous, you felt insulted.the thing i worried most about was, if the girl and other people noticed what he was doing,they'd ask themselves why and check me out, too.maybe even feel sorry for me.i didn't like that thought one bit.i'll tell you what, there are men who are real gentlemen who wouldn't do that.if you're he's girl, he should give you undivided attention, have eyes only for you when you're together.that's what he'd also want from you.no, its absolutely normal that you're upset.i think its just really rude what he's doing.you wouldn't want to be rude enought to check other guys out infront of him, would you?although he does deserve an equal dose of his own medicine.honey, if you're beginning to feel insecure all the time, its not always because there's something wrong with you, although you can help yourself and do something about it.but most likely there is something he's doing to cause it
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There's no way for this to not be a two-part answer. Firstly, he's right in that it is human nature for males to notice other females *and* for females to notice other males - it's just an animalistic, survival thing.\n\nHOWEVER, it is *exceptionally* disrespectful toward you for him to admit being aroused by looking at other women, or to blatantly look at other women (especially when in your presence.) It is not at all unrealistic of you to be upset by his behavior and ask him to tone it down. He should care enough about your feelings that he won't want to intentionally hurt you by keeping it up.\n\nIf you explain that it hurts your feelings (and probably your self-esteem) when he behaves this way, ask him to be more discreet, and he *still* doesn't bother, it may be time to look into counseling. This is obviously his hang-up, and he may need help to see the effect that his behavior is having on your relationship. Good luck.