I have a problem with some of my friends, and i want to apologize but dont know how...?
600419
It's not just about apologizing, because it sounds like the problem is ongoing.  The apologizing part is the easy part, just suck it up, and say you're sorry.\n\nProblem is, from the way you describe it, you'll be doing the same thing in a week.  You have to figure out a way to be more responsible.  If you say you're going to be somewhere, be there.  If you're not sure if you can show, don't promise you will.  The biggest thing is to talk to your girlfriend.  Whether it's her fault or not, she is the reason you're disappointing people.  Mention, before you start hanging out, that you said you'd be at Bob's party, and invite her along.\n\nYou've got to find some way to stop disappointing your friends, otherwise you'll be apologizing every week, and soon they won't invite you any more.
1127211
You can't do much if they won't forgive you and let it go.  You can apologize to them from the bottom of your heart and tell them how sorry you are - thats your part to do.  Their part is to forgive you and really mean it and move on.
1085975
I don't think they are really your 'friends'. I mean, you've known them for a long time, but a real friend would never ignore you or treat you like that. They would tell you what you did or said that they didn't like and wait for you to apologize or explain.\n\nGo right up to them and ask what's wrong.
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
547131
Apologize.Treat that friend for a nice meal.Apologize again.
743157
it sound like your friends are jerks. just try talking to new people. the best way to get over your old friends is to get new ones.
196525
just tell them straight up that youre not interested. just say "sorry but i dont like you in that way, just as a friend" or something. thatz what i told the ones i turned down. and were still pretty good friends. i mean some  we just   grew apart  but nothin to do with me turning them down.
364085
find some new friends that you get along very well.if you have older friend ( not old but people that you know for longer time) keep hanging out with them.it happened to me too and I found better friends and one day the other girls called and said they were sorry and they said that they envied me for having better and more friends,and they said they missed me.i stick with the better girls of course:)
1072458
i have almost exactly the same problem. what i'm trying to do is to be more talkative and loud around my friends so that i get comfortable with it, then i hope i'll be more talkative in general, even with people who arent my really good friends.
8399
If your so called friends are treating you so poorly then I don't think they are really your friends to begin with.  Find new people to hang out with that really care about you for who you are and won't judge or make fun of you.
266682
if you have known these people fora long time and this just started happening and you dont just wat to stop being friends, you definately need to bring what they are doing to there attention. let them know how you feel, but be calm about it. dont yell at them or be overly dramatic or just act angry and stuck-up because they might not even realize that they were doing it. i have been in the same situation, and i did talk to my friend about it and she said she was sorry and didnt even realize it and then everything was cool between us. \nalso, try to include YOURSELF in the conversation. if you "but-in" to the conversation, you are showing that you want to be part of there conversation and that you are there and you have something to contribute. if you just dont talk at all, it might be your own fault that they are ingoring you.\ni hope all this helps!
1154541
That is a really tough one... hm... I have a friend like that too, and I kinda just let it go. Maybe next time they bring something up like that, you can change the subject. Like if they say something like "I am so cool!!!!!" you can say "Speaking of cool... wasn't it cold last night?"... you know, really silly things, like take something from their sentence and say something that has to do with it. \nHowever, if they get mad just tell them the truth. Be like "I'm sorry, but you just made me feel like I was lower than you. You know? Like you are better than me." Just be honest (but throwing in a little guilt trick won't hurt) They might get mad, but eventually someone is going to tell them, and they aren't going to be nice about it. So take the chance that you have now, and just be honest with your friend. I have a pretty good feeling it will work out. Good luck! :)
27670
they arent your friends if they dont care about you enough to not make you feel bad. Dont stoop to their level and do it back, instead immediatly stop talking to them and keep your head high, once they see it doesnt bother you they will stop doing it. Who needs enemies with friends like that. Get some new friends that arent little brats.
859407
well apparently you just need to find people who have the same interests (and standards) that you do...if someone screws you over then thats not your fault and they should realise that 'whatever they did to you' is messed up and apologize or risk losing a friend....and for the future, friends come and go so dont take it so personally
4905
I'd say talk to your friend at a time when your emotions aren't stirred up, and let her know that some of her behavior is bothering you.  She might not realize that you are so upset about it.
206208
avoid them and hang around with better people (thoses who are you friends no questions asked). also stop letting them use you can also be attempted so that they will get the hint and get lost.
504443
Just tell 'em staight forward that you dont like being called that, and if they cant accept that, then maybe these friends arent the best ones for you