what is the 1st step of having sex with your gf?
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First toss the book you have and get one with bigger pictures. Remember safe sex is in the palm of your hand! Keep it in your pants!  Ride on...
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a nice Massage!!! if she is a working woman she will appreciate the royal treatment!!! send her roses to work, makes us feel special. COOK her dinner, nothing says "you are my special love" then a dinner made with blood sweat and tears. and then that night, massage her into a deep sleep. dont press sex either. ask her if she wants to. if she does, make love!!! no f*cking tonite. if she doesnt say something to the effect of "its perfectly fine. let me rub your feet, it will be better than sex" makes me dreamy just thinking about it, ps. im married too
570404
make her think you love her and romance her and make her love you, then marry her and bang! one sexual relationship
335317
FIRST. BE SURE SHES NOT A VIRGIN\nSECOND. be sure shes not a GOOD GIRL\nTHIRD. ask her what she thinks about first date sex, if she seems to like the idea then ask her if you can fuck her
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I have just copied and pasted this from my friends website, thought it would help-\n\n1 . Tell her she is beautiful (not hot, fine, or sexy)\n*2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n*3 . Kiss her on the forehead.\n*4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n*5 . Always tell her you like her every second of the day.\n*6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.\n*7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n*8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.\n*9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.\n*10 . Write her notes. (she loves them)\n*11 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n*12 . Play with her hair.\n*13 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.\n*14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.\n*15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.\n*16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night . . . just because you missed her.\n*17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n*18. Carve your names into a tree.\n*19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n*20 . Give her piggyback rides.\n*21 . Bring her flowers just because.\n*22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.\n*23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.\n*24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.\n*25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.\n*26 . Kiss her in the rain.\n*27 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.
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6. Talk dirty to each other... Oral... 3-4 positions... Starting in the living room up to the bedroom... Don't forget to include the stair case as a location...\n\n:-)
1051950
be confident about the size of your penis; do a lot of foreplay with your girlfriend; oral sex before intercourse; vary your hip movements during sex, e.g. in/out, up/down, left/right, clockwise/counterclockwise, half in/fully in, diagonal penetration, etc.; try different sexual positions; think of non-sexual matters while having sex; stop when you are about to shoot your c-u-m to prolong sex; and focus not on your own satisfaction but on the pleasure of your partner. i hope these tips help you to be a stud in bed. cheers!
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u have to do foreplay it's must. and u must know her sensitive points of her body. u have to touch it really gently. when u put ur penic in.....do it really slowly and it must last long. and after sex u must talk with her on any light matter. it will effect on ur next sex session. it's tried and worked.
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OK, you happy fella........\nI think YOU want to know how to do it right, huh?\nWell, first, the number one rule is GO SlOW.\nMake sure your face is smooth and get into a comfortable position. Lick and kiss all the way up--over her cl*t then back down all the way to her sensitive anus, then back again, doing this for awhile. When you're ready to concentrate on her cl*t, make sure you apply pressure on it, and lick up--not down--it feels better. Rule 2 is--if it tickles too much, it ain't right.\nFeel free to use your fingers, one at a time, to trace all over, and don't forget the labia majora and minora. It's quite wonderful to a woman to feel like she's being explored by her man rather than making her feel like he's only doing it because she wants it. Put it in your mind that YOU want it too!!\nA woman's orgasm starts in her mind, so don't dare distract her with B.S. She may stop you cold if you do.
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1 condom, and go get yourself laid
999324
its simple. if you're willing...Oral sex. doggy style or invite another partner
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depends what stage of the relationship you are in with her.  if you've already had sex together, and just want to know how to get her in the mood to do it again, foreplay works great.  if she's totally not in the mood, stimulating her genitals directly is not a good idea.  you need to stimulate her mind first.  try watching a movie with a romantic love scene.  also telling her what you like about her works wonders.  not like, "remember that bra you were wearing last time we got it on?  that thing was HOT!" but something like, "you are so cute when you sleep" or "i love that you are so passionate about your job."  it will get her feeling positively towards you, and then you can move in for some kissing or something.  lots of kissing will work wonders, and pretty much everyone loves a massage so you two can take turns on each other.  but you shouldn't make the next move.  get her to the point where she is just dying to jump you, then let her.  :)\n\na side note on this.... it may turn out that she is in the mood for kissing but not sex because of *ahem* her hormonal cycle.  some girls have a really low sex drive while they are on their period, for example, and also might be uncomfortable with the idea of sex during that time.  don't stick your hand in her pants all of a sudden because you and she might be unpleasantly surprised.\n\nif you two haven't been sexually intimate, it's harder to jump right in.  young or inexperienced women may not realize that what they are doing has such a strong effect with regards to turning you on.  for this reason, it doesn't hurt to talk about it, tell her where you'd like to see the relationship go and how soon.  explain to her that her style of dress or method of kissing makes it much harder for you to resist her.  say that you'd love to make love to her but if she isn't ready she might want to tone it down a bit so that she isn't sending signals she doesn't mean to send.  always be polite/gentlemanlike and don't pressure her.  she will feel more comfortable with you as a result.  some women, if they are comfortable... they'll want to have sex with their man all the time.  if yours is still reluctant, apply the techniques listed above.\n\nin any stage of the relationship, women value courtship (the whole door-opening thing, helping her into her coat, all that).  be polite and respectful.  also keep the lines of communication open.  tell her what you like and encourage her to tell you what she likes (then do it!).
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the best way......grab some girl and go back to bed ;)
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hold her face with both hands while you're making out, then slowly move them down, first to her neck and then (if she allows you to) to her breasts. or try placing your hands around her waist, and as your making out move them to her thighs and caress them. Is it getting hot in here or is it just me?
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take care of yourself, if you know what i mean, before having sex with your gf. youll last longer that way, and might even get a better org.
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maybe nerves.\nTry something.\nNext time you're with a girl, do not focus on sex. Focus on intimacy instead. Start by giving her a backrub. Make sure you've got some massage lotion. Then move on to her arms, her hands, her butt, her legs & feet. Make it slow & sensual. Don't forget her neck & face! Even get a few scented candles & put some instrumental music on in the background. \nAs you do this, you'll be focusing on intimacy. Your ability to relax with increase as you're talking...touching...getting to know each other. Both of you be nude. But keep it focused on her being pleased & you being relaxed. Maybe go down on her, but you refrain from getting off until you feel comfortable.
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Get the candles out and get ready for some romance!! Maybe start out with a long while of foreplay on HER!!! Get her real tired-know what I mean? So, she's not wanting it right away. Sex doesn't have to be boom-boom-boom. Every-time you have the urge, change, and try something else sexual. Females love cuddling, so in between time, cuddle and massage!!