Do you think if I don't have a bf when I am 13 am weird?
602530
Id say youd be weird if you were worrying about havin a boyfriend instead of thinking about finishing school. Youll have plenty of time to worry about boys
443296
give yourself some time. most of the guys i knew didn't have a bf until they were 20. yes its lonely, but enjoy being single, enjoy what time you have left with no worries about relationships and bills and all the bs you're about to encounter with college and adult life. you'll be fine.\n\nPS: it is normal to be gay. it is not normal to be a hater and call yourself a christian. (that's for the guy who posted above)
366088
No, you don't need a boyfriend at your age.
1154658
Of course it is only natural that you would want a boyfriend.\nYour not the only one that has said that they do not want to get\nmarried. There are guys out there that does not want to get married either.\nAs for children there are no rules that you have to have children. Life for you looks like you have it planed out. It may take awhile for you to get the career that you want and marriage and children is not for you.\nThis does not mean that you should not have a boyfriend. Companion ship is part of life and a guy friend is ok to have.\nRight now it would not be serious anyway you are 13 and you still have a long way to go. Just think about your career and leave the rest for as it comes when it come. O.K.
768197
THANK YOU for asking this question.  i will soon be 15 and am in the EXACT same situation...ive been asked out before but the guys always seem annoying and i want a bf.  no, you're not weird, atleast i hope, b/c this culture is just getting annoying.  not everyone needs a relationship so early, and though i really wish i had my first kiss and am kind of depressed about it, i kind of think of it this way(though i wish i'd ACTUALLY believe it myself): by the time i get my first kiss the guy im with will be mature and it will probably be a magical night...i just wish i wouldn't have to WAIT so long! well good luck and come talk to me if you find a way to overcome this problem(just answer one of my questions)\n\n<3\n\np.s. i just editied this...and actually some of the ppl who said u were strange i went and commented on, b/c i think it is RIDICULOUS to have had your first kiss at 5, doesn't that sound a bit stupid?  you'll find a nice guy who would rather be with a nice girl than a girl who thinks its more important to have been a baby prostetute than a lady...especially a smart lady....just go to school and be the best you can be...then, in 10 years, when you are making lots of $ and you're friend is a hooker, your husband and you can talk about how strange SHE is.  hehe good luck!<3
106780
friends and boyfriends arent alike.... just feel lucky that you have lots of friends though u aint have a boyfriend... maybe its not the ryt time for you....
1030115
I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 16 (yeah I know it's pretty pathetic).
1098168
Well, I'm 32 and I don't have a steady boyfriend. I like my freedom. But I do like my guy friend to spend some time with me. But I also love my quite time alone. So yes some people are meant to be alone.
70530
first off  be happy at your age not having a boyfriend . having boyfriend isnt the greatest thing in the world . Just enjoying the single life and when you are 16 you be ready for the guys and stuff. IF your friends are saying you should have  bf and stuff. They are not friends.. You have to belive in your self. For example   some of my classmates were all friends and they got all pregant sad to say your friends will make your life good or it can make  worse.Talk to god if you are lonely.you arent alone not having a boyfriend at 13 i can assure you. Im 23 and i didnt have boyfriend at age 13. just take your time.
277308
Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
623868
girl dont worry about that you will have a bf soon or that look i am 13 and almost say that i loved my bf and then today broke up with me and they just dont know what to do cause that dont know what to do unless he is really true and dont feel fat and dont try suicide and again casue you know where you will be going and you dont want to go there i use to be depressed myself and i didnt know what to do and i cryed ever day but come on baby girl dont feel that way and try your best to stop worrying about boys and i have a freind that has not had a bf and she is 13 and she is not worrying about it so you dont cause it is better things in world then boys jsut keep it toghter and girl eat come on you have to eat i love to eat and i dont like when i hear that people dont eat if you have any questions or what to talk just email me at can_yew_hear_me_now@yahoo.com and my name is teleeca well got to go good luck
1173592
well, i'm only 13 yrs. old, and i'm kinda not married, but i don't see anything wrong with that either. unless you had kids with your ex, you should be fine.
85103
Oh good greif  hes out there youll find him it might not be today or next week or even this year but at 13 you shouldnt worry about guys yet . you will find him hes looking for a girl just like you as well. its kizmit , fate.
135091
i do not think you should because it is possible that when you DO except them,those boys may think you are boyfriendless. thats just my thoughts though.
311686
Mad props to you!!!!  You're more mature than most girls your age.  Teenage girls are notoriously insecure and petty, so many of them feel they need a boyfriend.  Pathetic, really.  You can have fun (sometimes more fun) without a boyfriend!  So they way you feel isn't a big deal.  And I've met a lot of girls who didn't really date until they were in their 20's.  A lot of them wanted to focus on their school work and their friendships in high school.  So hey, if you're happy without a boyfriend, you're better off than most girls your age.  You're happy with yourself.  Celebrate it and be proud of it.  And some day, a guy will love you for that.
348262
Ummmmm.......If I am 18 and don't have a girlfriend, do I worry? No. You are still young and I think there is a lot of singles out there waiting to be your boyfriend.
514465
im 16 and there is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend now...you should wait to go out with a guy that you really like and not just some loser who doesn't care about you!!!