i need to know how to keep a convo goin with my gf on the phone? its sounds kinda lame but i have aprb?
598552
When she is talking to you, listen to every word she says and look for things you can ask her next  question on. Example: if you asked "how was your day?" and she says, "spent time with family, went out to eat, watched some tv, read a book" you can pickup on so many hints on here and ask questions like, do you like spending time with your family? are you close to em? where did you go eat? did you like it? you go there often? what type of food you like? what tv programs you watch? which one si your fav? what book did you read? what is it about?.. so on and so forth..you get the idea..  if you ask about something she is really interested in she will give you more details, but on other qs she will give a short answer, this gives you idea on if you want to ask a follow up question or not. Keep looking for topics she loves to talk coz what matters is whether she is having fun talking to you and only way she would is if you 2 talking about things SHE likes.. sad but true.. but it works for guys. Good luck!
1077617
Talk to her about her.  Chicks love to talk about themselves.  Say things that make it clear that you have invested time in her.  I don't mean saying things like "Baby I love you"  Tell her you love _______ about her.  Ask her about what is going on with her.  Don't talk about yourself or football or any guy thing.  Let her talk about herself.  It doesn't matter if you are listening or not, the fact that you ask about her feelings, thoughts, etc, will matter.  \n\nBe real, be honest, and be a listener.  You'll keep her.\n\nGood luck with your girl! :)
94630
Um, phone sex? That's what I do with my current interest when we get bored on the phone. And usually, it's pretty hot!\n\nIf you want to keep things clean, maybe you could read up on current events and use an interesting one as a springboard for a philosophical conversation/debate.
1049222
no, its not ok!! you make it known you have a problem and ask him how he wud feel if u stayed up talking to guys on the phone!
238729
First of all,Comunication is the KEY to anything.Always keep talking to her, and LISTENING to her.You have to be willing to sacrifice for each other.Ohh,and keep GOD in your relationship so it will never end!Good luck to you,and may God bless you both.
902559
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
147474
Why dont you just try calling her and talking. Text messaging is too impersonal.
641569
talk with him and hang out with him. I mean if you have his phone number trying calling at 8pm and talk for an hour. if he is busy, you can hear what kind of reason he is giving. Mainily "oh i got another phone call, can i call you back or talk later" just do this for a few nights. If he keep stoping the talk at 9pm every night, then he has a girl that he is calling or the girl is calling him.
359587
You will have to be humorous, confident, and open to chatting. Say Hi and try to start a conversation everytime she logs on and chat about interesting topics that will make her laugh. Do not start chatting about naughty things jokingly until you understand about her sense of humor. And eventually, if she has any conflicts in life she will talk about them with you.\nIf she types fast and has no problem with fast conversations, she's had experience on IMing, so it's up to you to reach her probably high standards. The #1 thing, you must be online often. It's true. What annoys me is if some dude trying to be friends with me, but doesn't even go online often.(I mean like, once every week for only like 15 minutes.) Which gives us this thought, "He probably has a busy life. It's one or another. And he's definitely not a decent online friend."
743707
Instead of wondering what is wrong or what you might have been done to offend or upset her, just gently ask her today when you are talking on the phone. My motto is....Go straight to the source. \n\nGood luck and I hope you enjoy your party!~
1135512
Talk on the cell phone
1122509
tat is wat happens to me all the time my boyfriend tells me when to call then I do but he never answers so i think u should call her make her feel better becuase i can never get ahold of my boyfriend and i makes me feel bad because he thinks i dont care but i love him so much so pick up the phone and call  and suprise her  she will be happy with that.\n\nbest of wishes:\ntina
761918
I would advise you to remain calm and try to call. If you can't get through i.e. you get the "The subscriber you are calling is not available..." message, it might just mean that her phone ran out of power or she might be sleeping and she switched it off.\n\nIf it rings but no one answers, she might be working, not hear it ring or it was set on silent and she forgot.\n\nIn any case, try reaching her at her home, workplace or any other alternate number you might have. Do not behave in a paranoid manner when talking to her family/friends as a) you do not want to alarm them and b) you do not want to come across as paranoid or insecure.\n\nWhen you eventually reach her (and you will), let her know in a non-confrontational manner that you were worried. Getting worked up when talking to her is not constructive and will just make her defensive.
412081
communication is one of the most important things in any relationship.  You just have to be upfront and let her know what you would like.  Complementing her while doing so wouldn't hurt any.
783443
Tell her that you're concerned because you can't make any calls. See what she says.\n\nThen, take $100 and go get a prepaid cell phone, one that works in that area. Talk to your fiance and see what he thinks about the situation. He needs to stand by you. If he can't, then take a stand and do something about it. Don't let this lady start running your life!!!!
776789
Hey! i think that if your worried and your sure that you love the girl that you should just ask her FACE TO FACE because over a phone isnt better and that way you can tell if she lies to you but if she loves you back or likes you for that matter she should tell you the right and serious answer to your question Believe me if that doesnt work i would assume and if it continues i would just have to say that you would have to end the relationship unless your ready to deal with something that could lead to serious problems!!\nGood Luck!
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you could pick a topic that would interest both of you.I had a hard time talking on the phone when i first met my fiance.I just brought up subjects that I thought would interest him or I would ask what he wanted to do over the weekend.