Should I put my pride aside AGAIN?
610911
This is relative with EQ. I thnk you should try to talk to her to find out what's the problem is and won't do the same thing again in the next time. It will build up your EQ and knowledge of social relationship. Sometimes we did things and we actually didn't notice.\n\nGood luck\n\nJoyce
687698
write down the good and bad things about the decision, sleep on it, talk to someone you trust, talk to someone who has been in the same situation.  Never do anything that you can't point to and say "I did that" with pride. If your not proud of what you did, it's not worth doing.
107421
in my opinion no. you confess your sins to God and accept him into your heart and you are forgiven. the sins hang over your head kind of as a reminder to not do them again and that they are wrong
907550
congratulations, your a strong character. i think you would be mad to go back to the way you was after all the hard work you have done. just keep taking one day at a time you can do it.
378676
i think u should stop caring about what others think... if u 2 are fine with it,then its good enough~
185398
then you're in good shape...it's not bad to argue...what's important is that you sit down and talk out what's been bothering you and resolve the issue...don't hold grudges, don't keep it in...talk it out everytime after you've had time to cool down and you'll see that maybe it wasn't as bad as you thought it was...
379929
You know, I'm myself have done this a time or two now that you've made me think about it.  Its wrong and I should stop doing it. I just get so frusterated as people ignorance sometimes that it leaks out.  I'll try to be more aware of it.  Thank you for your question, its made me think about myself and how I can be a better person.  \n\n*hugs*
655152
do it once, its your fault. do it twice, shame on you?
484445
yes you should, YOU broke your vows, YOU threw your marriage away like it was so much trash for a cheap piece of tail so why should you reap the rewards of something you obviously cared so little about? i mean the marriage didn't mean anything to you so why should the things associated mean anything to you. i'd say you made your bed(s) so lie in it!
1003705
Choosing to use signs to get someone you love back is less potent because is is deniable and nobody enjoys being beaten twice. If you want someone back in your life tell her expressly that you want her back There is nothing to lose. Pride is likely to make you deprive yourself of what is good. It has happened to me before, even when I had the chance to get what was lost back on a platter of gold, pride still deprived worked against me. However, If you insist on signs try showing true love and genuine concern.
1163175
ok you're obviously feeling crappy about something you've done. whatever it was, if you really want to change, make a sacrifice that will make things better for someone that you've hurt. Also, feeling crap isn't enough. You have to make yourself a promise that you will actually change.. but most importantly, you need to actually stop being a bad person, and excercise some will power when the moment of temptation actually comes. that's what it all come down to- the moments of truth.
825493
Move on.  Life is too short to waste your time & your heart on someone who does not value you enough to be honorable & to be truthful.  You should value yourself enough not to waste your time on someone who is out shopping around for something better than you.  You cannot get upset if you choose to play stupid because you will be "settling" & this is what you can expect for the future.  Cut your losses while you are ahead.  Move on.
200914
I gave one guy a second chance and he did it again.  Proceed with caution.  If you're faithful you absolutely have the right to expect the same from return. He's accusing you because he'll feel better if you both did it.
805828
i'm basically an honest person myself, but get over it. if you don't like cheating, avoid it.  but some things are just not worth worrying about and feeling guilty about for too long. just reading your letter tells me that you must be a very honest person. and also very young and too idealistic. a mistake like that shouldn't make you hate yourself as much as you do. it also doesn't undo all the good things you've been and done in the past.  as long as you strive to be a better person, you should be okay. but you should also enjoy yourself more and loosen up.
187587
Commit hari-kari to spare my family the shame of my ignoble defeat.\n\nOh, no, wait; I'd accept that in life, someone's always going to be better at something than me, and just remember that doing the best I could is what mattered, regardless of outcome.
358610
You have no pride problem.  Absolutely not!  You have a very good ego and sense of self esteem, as it should be.  I am glad you love your mirror as much as I love  mine.
370169
Yes.  It is best to admit to it or you will regret it even more later, especially if someone gets hurt and finds out it was you.  Be honest