im in love with my closest friend and I told her that i thought i love her and she just hung up???
599727
If you're also female, then this may have come as a complete shock and she was gobsmacked and hung up to think about what she heard. If you're male, then she could have been very surprised and had a similar reaction as above. Give her some time and see if she comes around and talks to you. If you're really close friends then she may not want to give up this relationship over such a surprising statement that she may never have thought possible. If she doesn't speak to you again, then you'll know she was only a shallow fair-weather friend.
450477
OMG. do you not realise that you just answered your own question? tell her she makes you speechless. that when you're around her, you're lost for words.
1109376
Do you have any form of communication?  Can you give her a call and tell her how you feel?\n\nJust tell her she may be happy about it
1099071
You should talk to her, write her a note, send her a message on her answering machine, anything! From her view point that looks BAD! tell her everything that happened, and maybe if that doesn't work a buddy that she knows you were with can help you out and he could tell her what happened if she doesn't believe you. I'm sure if she really loves you she is just hurt and confused about the situation and will realize that you were telling the truth. Just try and explain no matter what, its pretty much up to her weather to believe you or not. Thats all I can say about that. I hope she believes you.
377632
oh my gosh, this just happened to one of my really good guy friends! tell her how you feel about her, if she doesn't want to be with you then she doesn't deserve you
584899
she doesnt sound like a honest person, i think you better move on before you really get hurt...sometimes loving someone means letting go.....
863050
Talk to her about it one on one. She probably does not realize that you're feeling this way. My friend did the same thing when she fell in love in high school. Now we're both in different colleges but we still hang out, but her bf has now become one of my friends as well. But yeah the relationship between my friend and I was never the same.
510543
I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
991046
NO IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!! I'm not an expert, but as someone who has been close to the edge...it's a personal thing. She is responsible for herself and her actions. YOU can be her friend, encourage her to get the help she needs, and be a shoulder to cry on. Last but not least, you can't make a heart love someone, if she can not get beyond her romantic feelings for you, ask her what SHE WANTS...you out of her life or you as a friend (once she's in a relatively "normal" place). GOOD LUCK,  MY BEST WISHES ARE WITH YOU.
551961
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
1092962
If I read that correctly, it sounds like you said "I love you" to her and she did not immediately reply. You called her on it and she said that she says it all the time but did not say it just then. Is that correct? If so, then your apology should probably be that you were forcing a conversation when she already expressed that she was very tired and you are aware that she loves you too.
213000
regret is worser than regection. trust me i know from experience. there was a guy i fell in love with but i had the hesitation that you have. it was actually around your age too. anyway i hesitated and he found someone else he fell in love with. i regret it till this day. i would have prefered to take the chance with our friendship to know than stay wondering what if i did this or that differently. you need to talk to her. let her know how you feel but at the same that if she doesn't feel the same way then you would loved to still stay friends because friendship is better than nothing at all.
1040810
Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
941500
YES!!!\nI don't want to be the barer of bad news but you probably don't really love her. Real love takes time to develop. That being said two days is way too fast to tell someone you love them. You probably scared her away. Next time wait till she tells you that then at least you are only reaffirming her feelings.\nThe best thing to do to try to work things out again is to tell her that you said that because you thought that she wanted to hear it. Or you were mistaken about your feelings because of the history between you two overwhelmed you at first. Then invite her out for drinks or something AS FRIENDS ONLY. Work on your friendship and maybe it will have another chance to blossom. But even if it doesn't you can never have enough good friends.
883034
TALK TO HER, TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BE HONEST WITH HER, SHE PROBABLY FEELS THE SAME WAY IF SHE IS CALLING YOU.
4939
You said you two were best friends. So you don't become best friends unless you have things in common. I say tell her how you feel and ask her. She might be wanting the same thing but waiting for you.
1097145
Have you called her to let her know how much you love and miss her, and how your day's have been going? Remember a relationship takes two! If you haven't called her,she might be feeling the exact same way that you are feeling. But if you have been calling her and she acts like she is to busy or is in a rush to talk with you. The next time when the two of you talk again you should bring this subject up to her, and if she is still to busy to have a down-to-earth conversation with you, then you should just stop calling her all together. And let her see how she likes getting a taste of her own medicine!\nGood Luck!!!