am i a GOOD boyfriend?
608277
You sound like a really good boyfriend.  But if she left you, she's probably not coming back.  Take awhile to get over her and when you're ready find another girl to spoil.  There are probably a lot of girls out there who would appreciate a good boyfriend.
518966
awww that's sweet.  he sounds like my boyfriend.  u should go out with him.
343085
No!!! Do NOT be a boyfriend stealer!! No, no, no! Bad girl! Find your own guy. Be a true friend and just walk away from that right now!
851376
relationships like food and education, music preference, excercise and so many other things in life are all about need and satisfaction. those aren't the only things, but they're important.\n\nyou have to decide if you're getting what you would like from a relationship, what you're losing from the time spent and the emotional investment you're making. how much of it does he appreciate? how much is enough?\n\ni think that if someone loves you, then it usually comes out int heir behaviour. what is love? it must be made up of loyalty, faith, a great fondness for e/o, wanting to see the other one is happy, willing to do a lot for the other and caring. if these things don't show, there are few conclusions to reach about these... he may appreciate or need you greatly or be jealous of you but love?\none day he will treat someone in a very special way, compare that to how he's treating you. I can't say whether he does or doesn't love you, but you can.\n \nhis personal taste is reasonable even though it may not be compatible. if a girl didn't like my taste in music or share my love for food and films and books or theatre then our relationship would be different. we would be compatible in a different way but it might be more difficult to associate but if the compromise is worth it, then fine! if it's not then don't waste yours or his time ...\n\nMR PERFECT EXISTS!! I know he does! to any girl reading this, mr perfect is probably a guy who was brought up well, who loves the same things as you and has fewer bad (or less compatible) habits. I'm trying to be Mr Perfect for the right someone somewhere and I think that's the only way you're going to get somewhere. being pretty and nice and moderately reasonable is a good start!\n\nwhatever you do, I hope you have fun and you find the best things that suit you quickly and enjoy them for a looong time!
1034270
Take it one day at a time.  If he is a good man, he will show you over and over again that he truly is.  Let him in a little at a time.  You'll be just fine.
295932
Did u see the movie hitch?????  I am dating a guy right now who becomes more and more attractive to me outwardly than he would be to most.  He was a friend that was always there for me, always a great communicator and never ever once found a flaw to bring me down.  He is now my boyfriend.  I get the occasional what does she see in him, and if they only knew what a kind person he was I would be fighting them off daily.  You are probably not bad looking just lacking confidence.  Stay true to who you are inside, and you will have a woman that truely loves you.  Quit looking at outward appearance when it comes to women.
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Good relationships are built in part on a foundation of trust and respect.  It's obvious that he doesn't trust you because he suspects you of cheating when you are not.  It's also obvious that he doesn't respect you because he doesn't believe you when you tell him the truth.  Based on that, your relationship cannot go far, however much you would like it to.\n\nYou have to decide what you will do now.  No one can really tell you how to live your life.  But it were me, I would break up with this fellow.
841525
Yes, it's wrong and if you continue in this relationship, you are a homewrecker. I'm sure you're a nice person but you need to find someone who has no baggage and can commit solely to you. You won't be happy in the long run otherwise. You deserve better.
1033069
If you've been dating for 2 years, it's easy to get into a routine. It's time to stop and really think about your relationship and whether it is holding you back or acting as a positive in your life. \n\nIt sounds like you guys have been through some rough spots, but before you break up with her, I think you need to ask yourself whether you think the good outweighs the bad. \n\nAsk yourself...\n1. What are the good and bad things about your relationship? Make a list.\n2. For each of the bad things, what are you currently doing to resolve the issue? Is there something you could try? Do you think that she would work together with you to resolve it? If you do not think there is a solution for the issue, are you ok with that being a permanent part of your life?\n3. Are both of you guys heading in the same life direction? Do you have the same goals? Is she "The One" ?\n\nI think once you think through these things, you will be in a better place to decide what the next step is. Relationships take up a lot of energy and time that you could be devoting to other, more positive things - friends, family, etc. etc. Make sure that this girl is a positive in your life. \n\nIf you think that it's just not possible to fix the rough spots, you should tell her that you guys have grown apart and that you need to go your own way. It's going to be tough, but you will be a happier, stronger person in the end. You should be with someone who respects you and loves you. Don't settle for less.
275119
No one is perfect, if you see him being perfect or any closer to that then check real carefully if he is tricking you. Another observation, he will agree to do anything you'll ask him to do, no matter what you are asking he will agree that means he is cheating on you and he knows that he wouldn't have to do that for a long time, so he can just promise for a short while. Let me know what you've find out.
669678
He sounds like a good guy from what you say in your question. If he is so caring and meets you all the time, surely he hasn't got time to cheat! Saying that, you can never know what a man will be like further into the relationship.
313967
Hmm.. i'm good looking, smart and well mannered as well. Trust have always been a problem for me, since my gf broke up with me for another guy (LD) and then my next gf slept with one of my best friend. \n\ni'm now focusing on my career and promised my self not to force myself in to a relationship just for the sake of a relationship.. \n\nI sometimes feels lonely but then again, it's more sexual than emotional.. i don't think anything is missing since i try to write what is my goals and match it with my current situations. \n\nTry to identify, where are you now and where do you want to be. sometimes putting something in writting is good since it helps you see clear of things you didn' know exist. I hope this helps, but if it doesnt Dog's do help...
853359
If you feel that he is... in your gut... then he probably is. I have learned through experience to trust myself, and I constantly tell girls all the time to TRUST THEMSELVES as well. You know yourself better than anyone.... Can you be with a guy you cant trust.. If the answer is yes, Then maybe you should get some councelling of your own. You cant be a doormat, you cant have love with out trust. Good luck
1089460
He's a game player.  You do NOT want that for yourself.  If you did date him, he'd already have taken some of your self-confidence away.\n\nA good boyfriend would want to see that self-confidence propped up.  There are other men.  Really!  Move on.
1011731
He's your boyfriend - if you honestly can't answer that yourself, then maybe you're better off without each other anyway. Sorry - harsh but true.
946352
honesty \nsupport\nlove\nkindness\npassion\nloyalty\npersonality \nfriendship\n\nall those qualities are very important to me in my relationship.
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Since I don't know your boyfriend personally, it's hard to offer good advice.  I think that some of the following guidelines would show whether or not he loves you:\n\n1)  Does he respect your wishes and morals, or does he try to pressure you into activities and ideas that he knows that you are not in favor of?  A guy who loves you will respect your wishes, even if his wishes are different than yours.  He will not try to pressure you into doing something that you have already said "no" to.\n2)  Does he ever say, "If you loved me, you'd... (fill in the blank)" or something similar?  If he has, he's using you.\n3)  A guy that loves and cares for you will encourage you to be your best self, and look out for your best interests.\n\nHope that helps.