When I think about my boyfriend and how I feel for him its great but on the phone... its not good.?
606254
The key to any relationship is communication.  If you can't talk about how you feel then things are not going to get any better.  Be strong, find a moment during your conversation to just say I love you and I am tired of fighting lets figure out a way to get back on track.  Or something like that, you need to talk about it or it will just get worse.
892147
Yes I believe it to be true, much like when you think of someone and the phone rings and it is them.  Or you feel compelled to ring someone only to find out that they were just thinking of you too.\n\nIt is to do with our connection we have with each other.  We are all connected on some level and in some way.\n\nBlessings be,\nHarriett Potty
372216
you gota ask yourself what kinda friend tells your boyfriend she loves him,and what kinda guy is he to take her calls,relationships shud be fun,if this keeps up then walk away girl,you dont deserve to feel bad all the time.
747884
Am sorry to say so,but it seems he's not very much in love with you (even if he says that he is) if he loves you,he would create time for you ...no words such as "busy"when it comes to a loved one...consider breaking up with him,and see how does he react...if he freaked and changed his way with you,give him another chance ,if not...then you find yourself someone as sweet as you are...you deserve much more than phone chatting.BTW if caring didn't come from deep inside of him,you wouldn't be able to MAKE him care.
442015
my boyfriend\nthe question is why do you not call regularly\nbecause his not calling hurts me\nwhy? because he is my boyfriend and is suppose to call
1087093
If you guys talk on the phone than you should deffinantly call him and tell him how you feel. If this is to much fot you then just E-mail him, what are his friends going to do?
340486
If the phone things bothers you, you need to ask him.  Don't make it a suspicious question.  Just tell him that your worried about him and you miss him.  Ask him to try and stay in touch better.  Don't take anything too seriously about him going out with friends unless you start to see obvious signs that something else is wrong.
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well 2 my guess he much have feeling 4 u if hes trying 2 call u and stuff...if ur really missing him like the way u say u r then u might be in "love" with him....2 tell u the truth guys aint very good and telling/showing there TRUE feels and if u really want them 2 tell u just ask and tell them what u feel...and if hes braking plans with u..u need 2 talk about it...or start braking plans with him and let him c how u feel when he does it 2 u!!
772823
i don't understand how is it tat u can act like u have an attitude on the phone when u claimed u DON'T have an attitude.... it's a bit confusing for me.....  but u should learn to tone down on Ur aggression... everytime u feel like u r going overboard wit it, ask him to excuse you a while.. go to the windows and breath in the fresh air n calm down... i don't know wat is the conversation between the both if u tat u haf to be aggressive abt, but sometimes try putting urself in his position, u might be able to see the point from a different view... u know u r lucky tat ur bf still wanna talk to u on the phone despite u being like tat towards him, so treasure him while it lasts ok gal?
119423
It's not wrong. It's all about how you feel for your relationship. If you feel it's not going for you then it aint mistakening you for wanting a better relationship. If you feel something for your relationship but you chat to someone else online, then you're in denyal. Besides, look on the bright side. You know there's a good side. Always remember that each situation has two sides so follow the bright one than the negetive. Look for what makes you happy. G'luck
283164
Tell her the truth and get it over with already. Tell her that you understand that she doesn't feel the same way about you as you feel about her and that continual phone calls from her confuse your unresolved feelings- and that you'd really like to take some time off from speaking to her as often as she calls. \nGood luck and hang in there, buddy- someone will come along that will see the greatness in you- and see you for who and what you really are!
508014
I think about my boyfriend several times with in a day. It is perfectly normal to want to spend time with someone you care about. \n\nWhat is not normal is the need to want to be with him 24/7 and the fact that all you want to do is sit at home and wait until he calls. First off that is not love that is obsession. Also you are going to turn him off with your neediness. A person should not consume your whole life he should be an addition. Are you blowing off time with your friends to wait for his calls? Are you blowing off activities you love? If so not good. You as a person shouldn't be consumed by a guy. He'll be more turned on by you and probably want to spend more time with you if you have your own friends and activities. A girl who lives, breaths, and dies a guy will lose him due to neediness. A person can't be someone's everything. If you expect that you should take a good look at your life to see what you are missing if you need him that bad.
779458
yes me and my boyfriend started our relationship long distance. we faught all the time, if i was ever home and doing nothing i'd be so mad that he wasnt calling not even thinking that he might be busy. we would spend hours on the phione and always fight. i dotn even know why. then when he moved back everyhting was just so beautiful. i think long distance is really hard and the fact that you cant see the perosn makes you mad and you take it out on them . i also think that phone conversations are hard. me and my boyfriend only fight on the phone now, cos when i see him in person he can hug me and i'll feel better on the phone its so less personal.\nso you guys have to realize what the problem is and then talk about it and try to make it work. try to see each other as much as possible\ngood luck
776146
Oh i know exactly how you feel. I even had the same problem...gathering the courage to call him. You get soooo worked up about what to say and nervous if there is an awkward scilence...but the fact is, you got to do it some time! If it helps...think of a list of things to talk about before you call...like if he plays sports, ask him how it's going...or tell him what's up with you! If you start to feel uncomfortable, just tell him you got to go...it's always a good idea to keep him wanting more!! As time goes on, it will be easier to call eachother and you will act as if it's nothing! So go for it! You got it gurl...
1179415
You should come to the realization that there is nothing boring about a great relationship.  If you continue always looking around for something better, you will regret it later after much heartbreak.  I suggest that you stay with your BF and tell your ex to stop calling.  Sadly, based on what you have written here I do not have a good feeling about your future unless you find a way to change your goals and philosophy.
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i don't think he is serious about the relationship and like you said, you may just be there for convenience. if you have been together for 2 months and he is making you feel insecure and physically sick, then i can't think for the life of me why you would stay?\n\nmaking plans and doing things together are the normal thing couples do. you making plans to spend time and him not acknowledging or remembering is a sure indication that he isn't too keen on you. I'm sorry if that sounds cruel or hurtful, but it is an honest opinion from a guy.\n\nhim going off on the weekends and being you put off the phone is a sure indication that it's time to call it quits.  leave before your pain becomes unbearable. have faith in yourself and find someone who deserves your love!!\n\nany guy can talk sweet but if he doesn't follow words with action, then i thinking he is whispering sweet nothings into your ear. stop listening to him and move on, girl! life is too short to waste love on a person that doesn't give back.
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when u miss someone...expressing your love to someone on the phone or online is romantic..makes u feel better