i need some help. i am confused about this guy.?
601329
It sounds like he llikes you. He may be scare he will get hurt again. If you and he become an item then that may spoil the great friendship you have and then he'd he hurt if he loses that too\n\nSo just bare with him he's trying to deal with this and the last thing he needs is to lose another.\n\nThe feelings u feel is just him having fun with his friend and may be u just in hopes that theres something there
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
792485
If guy #1 likes you, go for him! but you sound kind of shaky on that because he moves away from you when you talk right? Maybe he's just immature. or maybe he's lost interest. if he shows other signs of lost intrest (like not looking at you, feet pointed away from you, short, abrupt answers) then i suggest you go for guy #2. \n\nI hope this works out perfectO! :P
282389
I GUESS YOU HAVE TO STEP BACK AND TAKE A LOOK AT THE SITUATION... IF THINGS DON'T LOOK LIKE HE IS, THEN LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND LEAVE IT OPEN FOR HIM TO RESPOND THEN AND THERE OR LATER. HE MIGHT NEED TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT. DON'T RUSH HIM TO RESPOND. JUST LET IT BE KNOWN. YOU'LL FIGURE IT OUT. \n\nGOOD LUCK
506883
Hey you missed a chance. I will suggest not to run behind him. Life is too big. If he is not interested, forget it. And allow him to concentrate on somebody. ;)
343271
Don't wait around.  Take charge yourself. He may not be thinking along the same wavelengths as you.  I respect someone who can be direct.
360218
try to examine yourself.If you are really falling for this guy and yet you know that already he has a 6 years steady girlfriend, well, wake up to the real world girl!He can't be yours for he has another. Talk to him about your present situation and tell him that your confuse about your situation. Ask him what he really feels for you because you might be confused on love and friendship he is offering to you. Pray to God for guidance and understanding.There is still so many guys outthere, single and much appropriate for your love and sincerity. A guy you can call your OWN.
849922
Obviously, he is interested in you. But wait it out for a few weeks or months more. Your interest to each other should go beyond chatting. Telephone calls or voice calls should be next, but not too soon. In the meantime, just enjoy getting to know him further. =)
715277
Whatever is going on. Your not being fair to yourself. You deserve better than some guy who may be into you.
321098
yes!!! if he likes u, he would've called by now. hes probably playing mind games with u. he's stringing u along.  move on!! lots of guys out there who would actually call.
579134
Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.
409608
you said he is a guy friend...so he is your friend.  \n\nit's like you are putting him in a situation which he does not want to be in.  it seems that you asked him that question because you want something more to come between you two.  do u? \n\ndon't embarass yourself to ask the same question over and over again.  once is enough....read between the lines.
84977
a guy with who i'm studying/working.. but i'm not sure if he would like the same thing.. can you maybe give me an advice :)
963722
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
707753
It sounds like he's confused, too.  Give yourselves some time before comitting to an exclusive relationship.  Stay friends for awhile and tell him you think you like him, too but want to keep things at a just friends level for awhile.  He'll respect your wishes and it gives your relationship time to progress as it will, naturally.
115789
hey, I just got that book out of the library! I'll be reading it soon and I really hope that it gives some answers about those strange beings... men.\n\nWhat should you do? Don't appear to be needy. Tell him about all the fun you've been having since you last saw him. You don't want to be seen moping around the house pining for this guy.\n\nDoes he like you? Maybe. Don't get to worked up over this guy.
843314
i would  suggest getting toget to know him better. This sounds like just a crush to me you are kind of young .