best friend problems?
606297
If she's really your best friends, you won't care about wasting minutes. Doesn't she have a home phone?\nBut the whole starting-high-school-without-your-best-friend thing.... That's tough. I would say just fall back on your other friends. Start branching out. Everyone's scared when they start high school, so you're in good company. Just be friendly to everyone, and don't dwell on how sad you are about your best friend. That would only do harm.
1154444
talk to both of them, not at the same time.  first try to work things out with the friend thats like a brother.  fix things there before its too late.  then go bacl to your so- called Best friend and talk to her. ask her why she betrayed you. try to work on it. you can still be friends. i just wouldnt trust her as much as you used to
1131925
No...but my so called "Best Friend" hated one of my other "Best Friends". We're not friends anymore though...and it's a rather long, rather racist story so I won't go into details...
590298
You should ask her whats bothering her and talk to her about it. Maybe shes depressed and she just needs someone to ask her "Whats wrong?". Listen to her and maybe there is something else going on there.\n\nIf I ever had a best friend who was acting differently than normal. I would worry and try to find out whats going on.
743927
Well you could tell your best friend that it was not nice of her or him to say that to you. cuz you are not stupid. and onone is stupid. And just say to yourself that   you know that you are not stupid. So sorry that your best friend said that.
81195
Your best friend must be jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend.  Tell how much she means to you and that no one could ever take her place in your heart.  Help her get a boyfriend and things may get a little better between ya'll.
108747
Is your best friend male or female.\n\nIf it's a male and not gay, your boyfriend does not understand your realtionship with your male friend, you need to break it down for him. Make him feel less ensure about you relationship with him.\n\nIf your best friend is a female, he may sincerely not like her attitude of ways. Try to convince him that she does not mean to offend him. That is the way she is with every one unless she is seeing something that you don't. \nPlease tell him not to make you chose between a friend you have known for years and him who you like a lot.\n\nTell him you are only trying to make the two people that you really care about to be able to tolerate each other. \n\nDon't make it a habit of inviting your friend with you all the time. You will give your boyfriend the wrong impression.
1158743
Just tell her you can't be friends with someone like that, but you would be happy to help her turn her life around. If she is truly your best friend, she will change
476084
Not to make light of the situation, but tell them to grow up because you are too mature for all this drama.  Ask them why you can't have two best friends?
529659
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.
205917
Girl u need to check your best friend. It may not be anything going on but just sit her down and ask her. My best friend is a boy and every girlfriend he get has a problem with our relationship. We hold hands and hug each other, we take each other out to eat all the time, i even spend a night or two at his house. But i don't mess around with him. So just ask your best friend  whats the deal. And if you trust your boyfriend and claims nothing is there then drop it.
322031
Everyone has their flaws.. I have two friends like yours too, and they're my best buddies... Sometimes, both of them are there for me, sometimes it's just one of them, and sometimes neither.\n\nWhen neither are they for me, it's time i question their loyalty. But then i realised that maybe they just aren't comfortable dealing with the problem i have.. because they are clueless of what to say. sometimes they have other bigger priorities, like family... I dun think we can expect our friends to be there for us the 24/7\n\nMaybe you should spread out and find other friends.. to help you deal with different situations. we can't hold on just to several people.
812314
Explain to her what happened & why you didn't say anything. If you guys are really best friends, you'll get over it. Best wishes!
494733
THAT IS NOT A FRIEND!!!AND CERTAINLY NOT WORTHY OF BEING BEST ANYTHING.I WOULD CALL THAT A S**T STARTER.GET RID OF HER BEFORE SHE REALLY HURTS YOUR FEELINGS.IF AN APOLOGY WASN"T GOOD ENOUGH,THEN THAT IS HER PROBLEM.WITH FRIENDS LIKE THAT,YOU DON'T NEED ENEMIES.
457383
well every best friend have a unique quality to them. i have a best friend shes always enjoying her self and don't always take thing seriously, me on the other hand i always take things serious ly yes I'm the boring one but i got her to make every thing exciting and me to calm things down at a certain time. best friend are not suppose to be the same.\n\n\nyou can tell her just make sure if you really enjoy your friendship with her it wont mess things up.
622691
first of all, make up your mind as to whether or not this so called best friend is being mean to you or not.  are they or are they not being mean to you?  and decide if this best friend is singular or plural.  who are "they"?  you aren't schizo are you?\n\nsecond of all stop calling them your best friend.  best friends aren't mean to each other.\n\nthird of all, get some new friends.
1181920
YOU ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BEST FRIEND HURT IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT? PLEASE HAVE HER BOYFRIEND BREAK UP WITH HER THEN GET TOGETHER WITH YOU..BUT YOU ARE BREAKING THE FRIENDSHIP CODE...