Question regaurding an "incident" with my sister?
609475
if all of this can be proved  by the police he may be charged with attempted murder  \njust keep her safe and as far away from that phys co as possible
740100
well i think your sis should go to her friend and tell her she has something to tell her... and that she knows how awkward it is but she just wants to help before it gets any worse then should give the girl the video and leave her to watch alone to spare the girl more embaressment, then she should go back to her friend a few minutes later and try to figure out together how to stop it... starting by the sourse the jerk she was with in the video.
1094479
talk to your sister and come to an agreement about it.
1117753
Yes, you need to apologize.  To start with, you had absolutely no right to strike another human being!  That is abuse.   Violence is never an answer to anger.  You showed a lot of emotional immaturity when you struck your brother.  Apologize but accept the fact that it might take him a while to forgive you.  He was hurt by your actions and he probably doesn't trust you right now.
814746
There aren't specific rules perse. I would imagine your cousin was roughed up because SHE was acting inappropriately in the first place. If you want to question it, just ask the department for their guidelines (they are different in EACH police dept.). Also, I can almost guarantee that her arrest is on video, so if you really want to push the issue, get a copy and watch it. I'd bet SHE was the problem.
1037728
EVERYBODY in this situation was WRONG (except perhaps the husband).  You resorted to violence.  Your sister threatened him with SERIOUS charges that WOULD NEVER EVER go away!!!!  Then, his sister made death threats against you--sounds like both your sister & his sister should be reported to the police, to be safe.  Do not presume to take a moral high ground in this situation.
370579
don't tell her until you both decide to. blood is thicker than water (sisters can mess you up)!
263501
Regardless of who does more, be mature about this and don't tell everyone or tease her about it.  I'm sure she is already humiliated and you don't need to permanently damage your relationship with your sister over it.
932181
You need to tell your dad all of what you've written here and then your mom and her gf need to be investigated by child welfare.  You're a child and shouldn't have to take the responsibility of protecting your sisters -- that's your dad's job but he can't do what is right if he doesn't know what is going on.\n\nADDITIONAL THOUGHTS:\n\nWhy have criminal charges not been brought against those who perpetrated abuse against you?\n\nIf you have already reported this to the police and child welfare and your sister's deny that anything is happening, then there is very little you can do.  At some point your sisters may get fed up with the abuse and report it themselves.   All you can do is let them know that should they need you and Dad in the future, that you'll be there for them.  But no, I don't think you should stay home from college to protect them especially if they don't want your protection.
608543
Bloody hell!!!!!!!!!!!!\n\nNOT WITH YOUR SISTER!!\nYou will regreted for the rest of your life, i can't believe she asked you something like that.\n\nStay at your Friends.  She's your sister thats wrong.
40740
Honey your mom is going through a lot of stress right now and so are you. I can assure that she loves you and while she might be angry ( hell even PISSED) at you for sneaking out she will respect you being grown up enough to tell her what you did and why. Tell her how you are feeling and what you did. It is a fact of life that you have to accept the punshiment that goes with the "crime" so step up and maybe this conversation will help the two of you understand each other a little better in the long run.
591850
I'm sorry to hear about your sister's accident, but am glad she's doing better!\n\nThere are two sides to this- One, I feel terrible that because of your sister's dreadful accident, you did not get to have the wedding you had planned. It seems like you should definitely be able to have a "do-over", and hold a full-fledged wedding if that's what you want to do!\n\nHowever, here's the etiquette for this situation: You could have postponed, but you chose to get married in a simple ceremony at the chapel. So, you've already had your wedding. Staging a fake one is not really appropriate. It would, however, be fine to hold a reception celebrating the marriage:\n\nMr. Brian Smith and Mrs. Mary Jones were married\nFriday, March 17th 2006\nSt. Joseph's Hospital Chapel\nNew York, NY \n\nPlease join us in celebrating\nat a reception in their honor\nSaturday, June 18th 2006\n3 o'clock in the afternoon\nNew York Radisson Ballroom\nNew York, NY\n\nMr. and Mrs. Bridesparents\n\nIf you wish to go ahead and stage a redo, I would definitely recommend having the renewal of vows:\n\nMr. and Mrs. James Smith\nrequest the honor of your presence\nas they renew their wedding vows\nSaturday, May 23rd 2006\n3 o'clock in the afternoon\nSt. Patrick's Cathedral\nNew York, NY\n\nReception following ceremony\n\nGood luck whichever you choose!
228992
Honey, it's none of her business, really. If it was as violent as you say, and only close friends/family know what happened...I say you might want to keep it that way. This is a personal and tender issue that she needs to not be a part of. My best friend was murdered when I was a teen. Only her family and a few of us who hung out w/ her at school, knew the real details. We had to keep it quiet due to a gag order so we didn't compromise the case. You know, you could use this excuse as well. That way, you won't feel obligated to tell anyone anything because legally you can't. If after that she still won't respect your boundaries, talk to your supervisor about what you expect in the work place to feel safe and comfortable. You have the right to not be harassed in any way.
584924
You can try a small get-together or a family reunion or a family Picnic. When you meet your daughter, tell her about your revelations and dont say anything that might seem as though you may be pointing something in her. dont compare her with the other daughter with who you get along well (as that may unknowning to you be considered a threat to the her.) \nI advise this to my mom whenever I get a chance to talk to her. We are 3 sisters and she cant get through to the middle one but with me she is fine, and many times she unintentionally compares her to me. presently She has stopped doing that and her relation with my sis has improved. \nBest of luck though, be friends! they are pretty grown up with their own family and somewhere in their heatrs they look for a friend in  parents
588851
try to convince ur sister
1167571
just tell her your sorry. its not worth the loss of a sister over some clothes.
1040641
This sounds horrible, I would be livid.  Say something, let your sister know that if she is going to come by she needs to clean up.  Have you discussed this issue w/ your parents b/c all of you may need to confront her about this.  There is nothing worse than a trifling visitor.  But do not keep your feelings about the situation bottled up.  Or beat her at own game, go to her house and mooch off of her.