Ladies i need this anwser. why do looks matter to yall   why can't yall just go on the heart and not looks
613746
I married for looks once.  I was miserable.  Women chased him all the time and he went with all of them.  My 12 year old daughter asked me "Who are you going to talk to?" Even she knew he couldn't carry on a conversation.  \n\nIt's called Lust.  It's not really love...)(
1022506
Looks are important no matter what anyone says but you have to know how to talk to a woman also.Relax and talk as if you were talking to anyone. Not as if you are trying to get laid if you are going around trying to get laid all the time you never will.Women see right through that s--t and it don't turn them on I will guarantee you.My best tip -Try to just make women friends and not make women.
592149
Because until men get over the fact that they can think without using their eyes, it becomes pointless to pick out a girl based on what she looks like.  Number 1 reason why I have a major distrust of any online dating site.  I'm a guy, but it takes a real guy to say it like it is.  If you got no heart, then you don't (in my opinion) know how to view girls.  And it goes the other way as well.  If girls think that the best way to attract a guy by getting naked and then sharing their naked pictures online, then you are appealing to the eyes, but not the heart.  Unless of course the eyes have had free reign for so long that the heart is screwed every where he looks.
50904
This is a tough one to answer. In my case yes looks do matter to an extent. There needs to be some physical attraction in the beginning not that its the most important just a percentage. Body type really depends on the guy. I have dated several women with all different kinds of body types. A good personality is a must, its a real downer when your partner is always in the dumps or is angry all the time. I myself enjoy a good conversation so intelligence is a must (not a rocket scientist just bright). Tallents are always a plus, its nice to have a tallented girlfriend but not a necessity. All in all what I'm looking for in a woman is one that loves me as much as I love her. Someone that will be there when I need someone to talk to or be comforted. Basicly a best friend, I think that if your partner is your best friend your practically invincible.
270885
same reason most of the woman want a handsom man. but for example, if a handsom man beats me up and treats me like dirt, but the average looking guy treats me like a princess then im going to be with the average guy - because looks arent everything. i just think looks are what come first. then personality. and we all want someone who's good looks match a good personality.
678739
i dont quite go on looks. Looks dsnt matter.. but the personality does. if a guy has a good personality and he'z sweet and easy to talk to and friendly .. datz enough. the guy i would be attracted to wont be BORing... i would go for a decent guy.. not a guy who just wntz 2 hook up with you.
544955
I think its normal for a female to enjoy doing things like that. And as far as not caring about looks it just means she is looking deeper then that. As for what should be done about it nothing really I wish more was like that, she should not have to change for anyone  if it comes from the heart thats all should matter
11762
Is looks the only important thing?  I know a lot of people who are not the prettiest / most handsome, but are great people.  Think about what is important to you, then make your decision. If you dump him, be honest why.
1145581
Well I would love to say that looks aren't an issue. In this day and age it is! There is too much importance put on looking like the perfect model or the perfect man. The money issue of it may not be as important. You can be happy with a poor man as long as you love one another whether he was extremely handsome or just so so. This is a kind of catch 22 question. \n\nMy personal feeling is if I met a poor man and we were attracted to one another I would definitely go for it, with him being handsome as a "plus". If I met a man who made a good living and he was a bit conceited or his personality just wasn't what it should be I would definitely not pursue that one, no matter how "cute" he was or kinda cute he was. As they say, money does not always bring you happiness!
94944
First of all im going to start off by saying that I am not an ugly girl at all. I have dated club owners of well known downtown clubs in Houston, and many other successfull business men. I am curently dating a pro baseball player.I was the type of girl that went for the looks right off the bat, only because i had to be physically attracted to a guy if I was going to date him. But since then I learned a very good lesson while dating all of those men. Looks are not everything. At least there not to me anymore. I now look at the guy in the inside. If you have a good sense of humor and your just a really positive person YOU WILL ATTRACT THE RIGHT TYPE OF GIRLS. That a good guy like you should want. A good honest decent girl who  wants a man that has a heart and  a good head on his shoulders. you need to stop looking at what you dont have and focus on what you do have, all of your good qualities. I love a guy that is confident and knows that what he has to offer a lady is more then just looks. Appearence is not everything. Good luck in finding that girl and keep me posted. Sorry if that wasnt the advice that you were looking for.
55569
First of all, although looks can be important, every woman has their own idea of good looks. I'm sure you wondered at many odd looking couples and wonder how he got her. In my experience, it sounds like the issue is lack of confidence. Many times women do not want to be the agressor, and they get sick of waiting around for the guy to make a move on them. So, do all the things they like, as you say you do, but don't expect them to suddenly say. "Hey, you're awesome, let's be together!" Just lean over and kiss that girl! Be sweet, but be confident in yourself. You may get rejected sometimes, but everyone does, until finally you will find the right one. \n\n:)
167418
Guys who only love women for their looks are downright shallow. Not all guys are like that. There are guys out there who actually are attracted to a great personality. They are rare gems indeed. Look out for these rare ones. The rest are just shallow.
63652
I am a female, and no i don't think that, I find that with my past relationships my looks were just a bonus, if the girl has a great personality, then there really isnt a need for great looks or nice rack or a firm rear. so if you find that you like this girl with an amaxing personailty and colorful aura, then no it isnt based on looks, im pretty average and none of my relationships are based on looks and ive dated some of the best looking guys around.
498941
I would say we always look for a girl that looks good in our eyes and is approved by our influencing friends and family..........also she has to be cool, in her own world....like, have people that look up to her, dress nice, and then ....most importantly ( a girl that the guy can trust in, a girl that he can say to himself....she wont mess around on me...)  Also very important is good for the girl to like the guy alot and show it, but dont go' crazy over us........unless U feel safe that we feel the same way.....
440029
Maybe because you're beauty, more guys are getting attracted to you. This will definately attact the Jack---es, where as before you had men interested in true love. No, I'm not telling you to get ugly, just that the guy will be harder to find, and will have to love you for you, and you'll have to love him for him. Maybe you're biting on looks too when you look for a guy, then find out his personality is not so good. Can't tell with the amount of info, but keep trying!!!
1123703
Yes I would.If u want a serious relationship or something thats going to last it doesn't really matter to me what someone looks like as long as their a good person and their good to me thats all that matters.If I can look into someone's eyes and see he cares thats the best feeling u can get...Way more better than being with someone w/ a great body.Personaility comes first to me and if they got both even better!But if not 1 out of 2 is fine w/ me as long as the 1 is personality.Cuz whats the point of being w/ a good looking guy whose a jerk u know?
1101155
honestly i feel that looks doesn't matter as long as one has a nice personality..looks give the 1st impression but ultimately it will be the inner beauty that really counts..a lot of girls are infatuated with hot-looking footballers and diss at the uglier ones..but do they really know the private side of the footballers that they are infatuated with? many good-looking footballers do not turn out to be as great as how they look..while many others who are average shine because of their nice personality..as long as people feel nice and comfortable around them..nothing about their looks will matter at all...