if a boy is chasing u frm 3 years n u too love him bt unable to tell him bcoz of family members wat willl u do
603916
go out with him and let yr family deal with their hangups
188824
oh, my god are you in love if not you are totally lve sick if you can't talk to them why don't call ,write a letter or email him. why don't you talk to your mom and tell she that you have boy problems it the best thing to do just don't let boys use you. make the boy talk to your mom before going out with him.
1184116
The best way to handle young boys is to tell them up front. You may embarrass him, by telling him whats what, but he'll eventually get over it. Unfortunately the parents have rasied the child, you have to confront your child and inlaw and tell them what you think.
1105505
dont tell your parents, keep it secret. my step-sis kept a bf secret for 3 months one time, i'm sure u can do it for that long or longer.
175807
Oh, I really feel for you. It's very hard to face this sort of situation.  If you know where he lives, send him a letter telling him exactly what you have told us; that you love him and miss him dreadfully, that you miss his friendship and him being in your life.  You don't say how old you both are, but if he was quite young when this happened it may be that he is regretting his hot-headedness (you might find that out when you establish contact with him, but not initially), and he may later welcome the chance to get back in touch with the family through you.\n\nBut if you want to contact him, you need to make it plain that if he doesn't want contact with his parents, that's regrettable but perhaps understandable, but it isn't his relationship - or lack of it - with them that bothers you, it's the relationship between the pair of you that you want to heal.  However, you will also need to be very careful about your own relationship with your parents.  It could hurt them dreadfully if they find out that you have been in contact with your brother, and hurt people tend to lash out.  It may be that your brother felt very hurt if you seemed to take their 'side' rather than his in whatever happened when all you were trying to do was mediate, or just got caught in the crossfire, and he lashed out at you.\n\nJust spend some time putting your thoughts down on paper, don't condemn him in any way at all, and tell him you will always love and miss him.  I hope it all works out well for you.
1070224
what he/she should do is to start to let others know about his feelings for them... coz it might be too late for him/her. He/she might lose someone who could love him eternally
579900
Write for him a poem and give it to him, when nobody will notice this.\n\ngood luck\n\nshowing love is not a crime
658478
love does'nt c any age...try to tell ur cousin first if she is close to u
474940
Choose your moment then sit them down and tell them what happened. don't give them intimate details but let them know how unwelcome this mans advances were. They will probably be shocked and upset and you need to have someone outside of the family to give you support after the event. Don't suffer in silence, it won't get any easier or go away. Wishing you the best of luck
1165278
leave him alone\nhe don't want no pesky sister trying to follow him.
448244
Oh man! That is probably the toughest things to face. You need to just sit them down and explain everything you feel. You need to tell them your fear of them not being able to love you. If they truely understood they would love you for who you are. I'm sorry but that is about all you can do... explain your feelings and why you waited to tell them. It will do you better then just ignoring it. Good Luck! Know that we are here for you!
1153185
Honey, as much as you want to protect him, you need to TELL HIS MOTHER. Of course he doesn't want anyone worried about him, but they should be. They love him. If he won't take his medicine then something's wrong. If things are getting worse, his family should know in time. Bless you both.
481850
Nobody wants to hear this but...talk to your parents...they should be able to put a stop to this before it turns dangerous and life threatening.  NO Joke!  This boy has a stalking problem and if it is not nipped in the bud you could get hurt. Talk to an adult if you can't your parents...but ask someone you know to help...a restraining order may be the right answer.....
579250
Now, that you have established he is shady and going to embarrass you by tell all confessions to his relatives why do you want to have anything to do with him. Are you in line to become a hot lunch? Find somebody who is mature and won't break your heart and ruin your reputation.
967251
Ignore them...see what happens. Be too busy with your life to call them all the time. If they really love you, they will chase you. Put yourself in places they will have to see you...by accident of course ;-)  And act like you didn't know they were there. If you catch them staring...look at them, smile and wink, and walk on. I actually pinched a guy on the butt and kept walking once. (yeah, he called) lol But back to your original question, Everyone is different. Some people show love, some people don't know how. People won't always believe what you say, but they will always believe what you do. What do they do? They can tell you all day long they love you, but do they show it? Do they give you the last cookie? It's little things. I didn't know a guy loved me like he did, until it was too late.  He didn't show it, I assumed he didn't. Hopefully we learn from our mistakes. Life goes on. I am happier, He is happier. That's life.
49623
Telling may not get you the reaction you want, but trust me, if you don't say how you feel, you will regret it years later.  The older you get, you will realize that you should have let the people in your life know how you feel about them.\n\nThis person may not love you back, but he/she will think about what you have told them.  They will reflect on it for years to come.
204337
NO BECAUSE LOVING SOMEONE WHO DONT LOVE YOU BACK IS AN AWFUL FEELING TO GO THROUGH SO YOU SHOULD TELL HIM AND LET HIM FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE AND APPRECIATE HIM...... tHERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE.