i am stuck in the middle with two guys what do i do?
608088
baby keep them both..y decide when u can have it all!
748462
have you talked to this guy about taking it to the next step? Maybe it's time for you to both sit down and discuss where you both want to see where this relationship will lead you to. If what he's offering at the end of the line is not want you want, then its time for you to re-consider the relationship.
399222
Let your two friends deal with it themselves. When a friend gets in the middle of two other friends, bad things usually happen, the least of which that one or more of the friends are friends no longer.\n\nJust stay out of it.
499454
Well, fess up first of all. Admit that you were talking to his friend.  But let him know if it was strictly just talking out of friendship or whatever it is. Be honest, if you were talking to his friend and you think that you're attracted to the friend, then try to date the friend if he's available. Don't keep leading the other guy on and letting him think that you're into him when really you're into the friend because you want them both or something like that. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm just saying you need to explain yourself. If he doesn't respond then let it go, as much as it will irritate you to leave something at that, you'll have the peace of mind to know that you did what you had to do and that you've apologized and offered some sort of explanation. It is his fault for burning any bridges. And remember to look at signs, this may be a sign that you're not compatible with him, if you can honestly see yourself saying that you wouldnt do this if the situation was reversed, then you know you're on different levels. Good luck with this situation.
243787
Woo, how on earth did you ever think that getting in a situation with two girls was a good idea? (unless they both gave you permission before ;-) then you're a lucky man!)\n\nYou know deep down you can't keep seeing both. That's just not fair to them, and it compromises you, and adds pressure and stress to your life, as you are effectively living a life of deception! So make a decision, make it fast, and finish with the other girl as kindly as possible. Make sure the ditched girl never finds out, as you are a dead man. \n\nThat really is the only thing you can do!
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
268409
Don't commit to either of them.  Get to know them.  Then make your choice.
502440
If you have to ask you need to find another guy.  The good ones know what will make you feel good and they will want to do it.
535477
You have some tough decisions to make...you have to decide which of these 3 issues is most important because you cant have them both...If you are having these feelings, you should step back and tell your boyfriend you need some space for awhile...dont use that to go after the other guy though. Use it to figure out your next move. Is this new guy worth leaving your boyfriend for? Also remember if you are in highschool, you will meet many more boys and more than likely you will not end up marrying either of these two, sorry this is so long but I had alot to say...good luck
1054965
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
628027
Let the idiots fight it out. No place for a girl to get in the middle.  As nice as it may seem. Leave, fighting doesn't prove anything. Now if one of them stops to come after you because he notices that you left. Then he is obviously the winner.
503132
have them both come over to your place and drop there pants. measure there dicks. whoever has the longest one that is your guy. if it is to close to call have them sword fight. whoever wins is your guy
1173559
Tell both groups that you don't want to get caught in the middle, and that you don't want to hear it from either side.  You would like to stay friends with both groups, but do not want to take sides.\n If they persist on talking behind their backs to you, then you will break the friendship, even tho you like both groups.
518408
Respect their relationship. Don't interfere in between them whilst their relationship is still ongoing. After all, he is your Friend and you should enforce that point. You just can't go on getting in the middle of their relationship by being the third party. You know that if you do that you will hurt someone's feelings or worse, both of their feelings including yours. So, I suggest that you back off first for the time being. Try looking for someone else. And if things don't work out between the two of them, that;s when you can make a move. But, try not to be to aggressive. Just remember to back away from now. You will need to. I wish you the best.
87339
Talk about it with your friend. When you do, don't start a fight because that will make the problem worse. Think about this. What's more important, the guy or your friend?
1052484
the best way to choose between them is to sit them both down at the same time and explain ur feelings. next, ask them if they would b OK with u going out on a few dates with each one b4 u make ur final decision.  most guys are cool about it and if one of them isnt cool with it, go out with the other one. another way that might help u is if u make a list of all the things u have interests in and then separate lists for each of the guys. seeing how many interests they have in common with u will help u decide which one u might have more fun with
298960
Wow. Looks like you have your hands full. You should let someone go before someone gets hurt if none of these guys know about each other.