How do you get over this?
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You should tell her that you forgive her for what she has done that you know it was an accident that it just really hurt you and that you shouldnt have let that come between your friendship and that you really miss her and that you just want to try and fix things so they can be back to the way they were and that your sorry you took so long to tell her this but if she could find it in her heart to forgive your reaction to her ruining your important thing and become your friend again.I also dont think you can move on from it because that is a long time to have a friend and if yall were really good friends like you say you will never forget her and you will wonder all the time what if i had told her i missed her and we could have been good friends again so i think you should try and fix the friendship instead of just trying to forget and if she says she doesnt want to will then atleast you can move on knowing that you tried thats all you can do good luck i hope i helped
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The good news is that time is on your side. So you'll surely get over it.\nOne way to speed things up a little, could be if you focus your memory on all the things that you didn't like and that made you upset.\nAnother good way of making it easier, is to go out and see all the others who are looking for a relationship themselves.
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I know I'm going to sound like a parent, but you need to just move on.. make new memories.... do things for you... it will get better with time even though right now it doesn't feel that way... I've been there.. and it sucks.. but you will get through it.. and you will be stronger because of it.\n\ndont dwell on what was.. focus on what can be.
1132749
Get over it....  Not worth getting irate!
330733
You let it go.  As fast as you can you forget about it and move on. Spare the negative feelings, they are a waste of emotion that can be positive.  Cry if you need to and get it all out and then move on.
171354
To get over your fears you need to face your fears.\ngo to a high place( a safe place where your not going to fall) and look down untill you feel comfertable
236094
Hang in there. The best way for us to heal from our problems is to help other people heal from theirs. Do some volunteer work at a hospital.  I just went through this myself, I know how you are feeling. Geting your mind off yourself and focused on the needs of others not only speeds up the healing process, but helps us learn from the pain.
112442
Apologize.  Acknowledge that you are human and have done wrong.  Ultimately you will have to forgive yourself and move on.  (Easier said than done, I know)
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Nothing you can do really.\n\nIt sucks, but it will get easier to deal with in time.
1079094
What my grandmother said was the best way to get over someone is to get under someone.\n\nI though that was a funny joke, but it turns out it is scientifically accurate. Getting intimate with someone releases hormones that get you "over" the other person.
1025516
eat some good food - drink some liquid besides beer ect --you will get over it--you may be alergic
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Well, i have no idea how you could possibly gegt over it  i meen he was your son and i dont think you'll ever get over it but i do have some ideas for you to get your mind off of it when you start thinking about it dont cry think of somthing cool  somthing that interest you..or go do somthing..take risk!...you know do something fun, sky diving! like stuff you would never do...get your mind off of it  or do somthing simple go skating...go on a shopping spree!  i hope these things help..im truely sorry and i dont know what to say..i hope these things work..im sorry to say it but..you loved your son and i dont think you'll ever get over it...\nHope i Helped!
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Best way to get over it...stay away!\nIt sounds like she is dangerous for you.\nNothing you do is going to fix this relationship\nYou need to stay away and you know that.\nGo out and find someone else to get that sick feeling out of your stomach.
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you accept the reality and move on.Also, Believe that it is entirely their loss and not yours. cheers!!!
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You don't. You grow up and get over it.
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I think the people who say get over it are after their 2 points and don't really care about how people are feeling. It shows their immaturity.\n\nYou're right. You can't just get over it. You can't just move on. You have to deal with the pain that the person you loved and trusted violated that trust in the worst possible way, by being with someone else. It is heartbreaking to see that you are in such pain. There is no easy way to get through it. It's going to take a lot of time and maybe some counseling.  \n\nYou also might consider praying for healing. Beliefnet.com has some prayers that, over time, may help you to heal. Here is one:\n\nPrayer for Healing   \n\nLord Jesus Christ, by your patience in suffering you hallowed earthly pain and gave us the example of obedience to your Father's will: Be near me in my time of weakness and pain; sustain me by your grace, that my strength and courage may not fail; heal me according to your will; and help me always to believe that what happens to me here is of little account if you hold me in eternal life, my Lord and my God. Amen. ~~ Source: Book of Common Prayer 1979\n\nI pray that eventually you will be able to put the pain of lost love and betrayal behind you. God Bless!
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In past experience, I've learned that the best way to get over someone is to give yourself an allotted grieving time...I say a week or less, and then start doing something to take your mind off of the situation, or at least alleviate the thought of that person. I have found one of the best things is exercise...or try something you've never done before...a new hobby or sport. It's a great way to distract you, plus you might meet some new interesting people as well.