There are alot of nice guys like me out there, why are so many  girls turning lesbian ?
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Actually there are NOT a lot of nice guys out there.\nIt doesn't take BEING NICE to fulfill ALL the needs required!\n\nWomen aren't getting what they want, besides the obvious!\n\nI feel it is mainly the sensitivity woman have and want!\nAlso the appreciation we require!\nWomen are sensitive to all aspect to many things at one time. \nMen seem to be able to focus on only one thing at a time!
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I have seen obvious butch lesbians in gentlemen's clubs. I've seen many more average to very good looking young women, usually in small groups of two to five, in the clubs. I've even seen small groups of young women enough times to recognize them as apparent regulars. (I would tend to assume they are bi-sexual, but who am I to say?) I have seen a good number of couples. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman admiring other women and wanting to watch them strip. I feel safe in assuming that there has been more than one case of a female customer going home and trying out what she has seen on her husband or boyfriend, or both. I see young women buying lap dances nearly every weekend.\n\nIf you go to a club for whatever reason, just remember, the dancers are women not all that different from yourself. Ask questions, learn the rules, and above all else, treat the dancers with respect. They are not prostitutes. Well, maybe a few out of thousands are, but even they are human beings with feelings.\n\nDo not be like the young woman I observed a couple of weeks ago, who sat at the tip rail and didn't want to tip. When Calli spoke to her about it after her performance had ended, the woman gave Calli a bunch of lip about how she didn't know tipping at the rail was mandatory, even though the D.J. had been continually reminding the customers the whole time the woman was in the club, then threw a dollar bill at Calli's feet. Calli picked up the dollar, dropped it into the women's lap, and told her she didn't need her one dollar. What really amazed me was that several young men began to applaude Calli, as did I. (I was amazed because of the fact that so many immature, thoughtless young men think, "Oh, she's a stripper, so she has to be just a slutty whore! Therefore, we can treat her any crappy way we choose.) I spoke with Calli about the incident a bit later, and she told me that she had told the woman, "I don't need your money. I've already made plenty of money tonight. However, I should think that as a woman, you would have more respect for me. I'm working hard to entertain you as well as everybody else in the club."\n\nDuring one of Nicki Hunter's feature performances, this same thoughtless young woman leaned over the stage, picked up the two DVDs Nicki had laying there, kept one and gave one to her girlfriend. A minute later, Nicki turned around and asked, "Where are the movies?" Without any hesitation, I pointed at the woman and said, "Right there Nicki." Nicki retreived her DVDs and told the woman, "If you want one of my movies, come see me after the show, and I'll sell you one." Trust me, when Nicki tossed the DVDs to a couple of lucky customers, said customers were not either of those two women!\n\nDo not for one minute think that stripping is an easy job. If you do, try it sometime. For one thing, you will use muscles you didn't even know you had! For another thing, it is a tough job being nice to people who are looking down their noses at you, especially the ones who don't even have enough class to take a shower and change clothes before going to the club and expecting the ladies to sell them lap dances! Yes, it happens. I myself have had to change seats or walk away for some cretin who reeked of every sort of bad body odor known to mankind. I've even known of guys passing gas in the clubs without so much as an excuse me!
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Because most women secretly want to be conquered, dominated. They feel as if they are betraying the "sisterhood" to admit it openly. But they want a man who is a man. Not some effeminate man. That is why sensitive effeminate men are home watching Queer Eye for the Straight Guy on cable. \n\nThat is why women say with their lips they want a nice doctor or architect, the 2.5 kids, the pet, the SUV, and the home in the 'burbs, but go out and get these train wreck womanizers or bad boy rough necks. It is the choice they make that gets them thought of as they are. And when so many are so quick to hop in the sack, how can they be thought of as the "nice girl" who has some scruples?\n\nIf you fall for every get-rich-scheme no matter how hair brain, do you think anyone would trust you with money? If you are a girl waiting in line to be with Mr "bed 'm and boot 'em" McDreamy, when you know he has never, EVER, been loyal or faithful to any g/f. You figure she is just in it for the d*** or highly stupid so you have a hard time taking her seriously. \n\nI don't even think of Asian girls in such ways because they have more morals. If you get it from them, you worked 500 times as hard, or you put a ring on their finger.
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BECAUSE,if your like me,you,re too nice for half the girls around you.Cool girls always pick the bad guys and then later cry and complain about what jerks they are!!if you,re like me,just act like you,re happy being single and alone and they,ll begin to notice you.the secret is.... its ok for women to complain about being single,but its unattractive when us men do it,I know from experience
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I resent your implication that lesbians are not "normal" girls. \n\nHowever, to answer your question, a certain level of attraction or appreciation for other women is entirely commonplace in heterosexual women.
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First off, good for you. Don't let other people pressure you into finding a boyfriend, that will only trap you in a pointless relationship. They pressure you because they feel like they're helping, it's hard to tell them all their interference makes the situation worse. Tell them, 'I will have a boyfriend when I find one I like.' If that doesn't stop them, tell them you're thinking about becoming a lesbian.
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that sux, maybe its cause guys are itimidated by ur beauty and they think they could handle a woman like u
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because girls think that they can change a bad boy into a good boy. Bullshit. It never works. GO FOR THE NICE GUYS!!!
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Nice guys will get laid when the females realizes how much the other guys are bad people. They will then want to hang out with the Nice Guy. It is only a matter of time till they get laid.\n\nComplex formulas could probably predict it, but I'm not in possession of such formulas, or else I'd be selling it.
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You are not lesbian at all. You just get attracted towards girls for their looks for the time being but not forever....
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There are no nice guys and bad girls. They are all people like you and me. Forget about labels and stereotypes your friends want you to believe. The only important thing is what's in your heart. How do you feel? My advice is to stay healthy and attractive to the opposite sex. That means caring for and loving people that care for and love you.
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it's about maturity.  when you are young sometimes you only see what is physically beautiful and don't take the time to get to know anything beyond that. girls who do this tend to make huge mistakes in picking a partner that is truly compatible for them. i'm 31 years old and i can tell you those girls would dying to meet a nice sincere guy after they've been played with and heartbroken by the more physically disireable guy.  most times it's the guy no one gives a chance who is the most respectful, honest and sincere who in turns becomes the more attractive person because of this-young girls don't get it until they've been burned.
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If you've not really been out on the scene then you are probably unaware that there are many feminine gay and bi-sexual women around (I am one of them). It's perfectly normal to only find fems attractive and so I wouldn't worry about this at all it's just personal preference. Don't listen to those having a go on here, it doesn't sound to me like you are preying on these girls but merely that you find them more attractive than what you see as obviously gay girls...and that's fine. Try to get out to gay pubs and clubs more and you will see that gay women come in all descriptions and not just your stereotypical "butch". Straight girls are often experimental with one another and from my own experience this is not a route that a gay or bi girl should follow. They may flirt with you or even snog you but they will never want a relationship with you and so if that's what you want I suggest you go and find it (with a feminine gay girl). Good luck.
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Being attractive does not depend on being lesbian or straight. I know pretty straight girls and pretty lesbians. The reason why you think there are more pretty straight girls is ecaue since, numerically, there are more straight girls, statistically, there are more pretty straight girls BUT there are more ugly straight girls than lesbians too. There are less ugly lesbians than ugly straights and less pretty lesbians than pretty straights just because there are less lesbians in the first place.\nDon't worry you'll find the pretty lesbians too...\nGod luck!;)
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Most do because they tend to feel that they're sexually inadequate. That's how my girl's ex-bf felt when my girl realized that she wasn't really in love with him, and that she was in love with me. He's still bitter about the fact that he lost his girl to a lesbian, but that's life. People switch teams all the time, especially when they're not happy with the their members.
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all the nice, honest, and good looking gals have boyfriends
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There are a lot of "good guys" around. It's just that half the time women aren't looking for a "good guy" and we're forced to turn into something we really don't want to be in order to have a girl around, or we're married and, being the nice guys we are, we're not about to cheat on or leave the women we made a vow to on that wedding day for any reason. I'm lucky. I haven't had to change, despite the fact that it is extremely hard for me to get a girlfriend when I am single. My advice to you: don't go looking for a good guy, you won't find him; let him find you. And don't rush into a relationship head-first (though you know that one I'm sure, I just want to state it anyways). Get to know them really well before you decide to take a chance and get into a relationship with them. As you know pretty well by now, not all of us guys are exactly what we show ourselves to be. Hope that helps you out some.