What would you do ! Please serious answer only! give me peace of mind!?
609630
You need to contact the school principal and have a sit down meeting with the girl's mom, yourself and the principal. No one should feel threatened at school. If after the meeting things don't improve than it is the school's responsibility to take action and possibly suspend the child. After that the mother has no excuses but to start taking some responsibity for her child's behavior.
156895
You can pray, "empty your thoughts," make sure you have everything sorted out for the next day....\n\nAnd learn to include the word "get" in your question.  :D
572150
Send a buddy you have in you're town to have a little "chat" with him and have him tell him when you come back, you'll be "visiting" him too. Maybe your wife can file a complaint somewhere, so they get rid of him, or she can go somewhere else then. that stuff pisses me off! I don't even know you, but Id go there for you at a drop of a hat! Take care over there, watch each others back and come home safe.
151466
WOW! What a situation...The advise given above is very good...You sound like a Christian, ( you chose my answer about "if today was your last day. etc". So, first of all, as you already know, prayers are a neccessary part of the answer. Pray very hard to keep your distance from the wife. That would really complicate matters, and you have a chance here, to show strength, in spite of "obstacles". As some of the others have said, move ASAP! When the arguing starts, either pray, read the Bible, try to talk to them and tell them how they are affecting everyone else, especially their kids. Remove yourself from the situation, call some other friends and go out, etc. or even take their kids somewhere fun. \nThis couple needs some real help, (Why does she stay wtih him, if he's messing around? ) Suggest that they get help, or temporarily split up, as the kids must be seeing some horrible behavior. Why do they fault you for their problems? If you feel like a time bomb, ready to go off, you gotta get outta there!!!\nGod must have allowed you to be in this situation, so you could do some good here....think of it as a "test or trial"... but do the right thing, stay out of their problems, and find somewhere else to live, as soon as you can.  Best of Luck, and God bless you...
647573
I would say get out of there as fast as you can! Leave and go find a different place to stay! My prayers are with you, Please be safe! Cuidado!
360100
confront them!\nthey invaded your privacy, and abused your trust.\nif it is possible, i would suggest moving, because you dont know what else they get into when your not around, or how often they do it.
538150
what not serious....\n\n\nHeres a >hug<for you.\n\nPleaseeeeeeeeee dont replace your brain cuz then it wudnt be you anymore.\n\nNOT DOOOOOO ITTTTTTTT
1073510
Tell him no. That you don't feel comfortable. Who cares if you did it before? I've done a lot of things before that I won't do again. You live & learn. Besides, you never really know who is on the other end.
654588
If someone really has no concern for their life they should go out and do everything they ever wanted to do. Who cares what happens whether it be physically, mentally, emotionally, or financially. Run away and live a while. See what life could be.
644676
He's scared!!! marrage S a scary thing 4 guys, Nclud'n me! I wouldn't want 2 walk down an isel know'n that something might happen, something bad, something good something of something, lot's of things pop up 2 guy's heads, calm him down, tell him it'll B alright, tell him that U want 2 let the world know U care 4 him. show some calmness N2 his scared heart
282037
i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new
334736
Girl let me tell you...you do what you want to do. I mean yeah people are going to say what if you were married and all that other crap but the truth is you ain't married you are single, but make sure you don't come second. You don't need to go out of your way to hide or nothing shit...if he gets caught that's his problem, but word of advice make sure the girl ain't crazy because if I were her I would bust out your tires, cut your face, and shoot off your knee caps, but this is a risk you have to take. Seriously are you just going to be easy string free pussy? Or are they going to break up? It has to be one or the other! SO I guess I said do it and don't huh?
1044087
Don't ever let anyone control your mind like this. He might just be busy. Let him chase you. Don't call or text him until he calls or texts you. Date other people. If he wants you he knows where to find you and how to make it known. Let him work for you! You're a queen aren't you?
241512
Aww. I went thru this over the summer break last year. And I'm telling you, fr. female to female, the best thing I did was leave him, and in this case that's what I think you should do. Im not even going to lie, it took alot out of me to leave him! Just like your dude he made me feel bad and yet still I gave him chance after chance cause I thought that he would change and that it was just a phase... Unfortunately, it was'nt a phase, this was the real him. A rough, heartless, mean person that put others down to make him feel better. That's not even the worst of it! I thought he was the one for me SOOO much that I went against my family, ALL FOR HIM! My family turned against me cause they wanted me to not be with him so bad! Back then I didnt understand why they kept on acting like that but now I see. They were just looking out for me. And even though I dont know you, I, looking out for you too because I know how it feels to be where your at right now. It feels as if the whole world has turned against you. And that he's the only one who loves you. (Or at least thats how it felt to me!) Thats not true, after you leave him your eyes will be open again and you'll be able to see who really loves you and those are the people that tried to warn you about him. The best thing you can do is leave him. When I left my boy, at the time I felt like I had made a HUGE mistake, but after I start realizing all the other people in life that is there for me and that have my back thru thick & thin, there was really no point for him being in my life. Boys can only give you so much joy for so little time, but what will you do when that joy turns into pain? Or when he leaves you? Your back to the depressed you again? That's not how it's suppose to be. NEVER let a dude determine how your day is going to be or how you look at the world! You should never even look for happiness in boys, this is kinda old school but, the true happiness lies within yourself. If you feel good about yourself, you wont care what NO ONE thinks about you. See how much you can gain if you leave him? Dont worry ok? The right one for you will come along ok? Dont ever let a dude make you question how much your worth! Im sure your a very sweet person that's just feel into one of the traps that most fall into. It's not your fault. But listen, the best part of breaking up with him is the fact that he WILL want you back! That's what happened to me and he STILL is asking for another chance and what do you think I said? NO! Once he breaks your heart he'll always find another way to do so, so why go thru it? Yeah it makes you stronger but other than that its just causing you great pain. I hope a lesson from my experiences help you! Just remember to stay strong!
775261
id say just act normal. like what he did didnt hurt or make things complicated. just act like nothing happened. :)
1046439
I would change my worrying to wise action. I want to stop worrying about what ifs and trying too hard to manipulate people and circumstances to suit me. And just relax and love and laugh and be a blessing to all who know me. More wisdom would be great.
209888
Call 911..and now!!!What is wrong with you!!Why are you on the computer...Call 911!!!Protect your babies!!!They don't have a choice in the matter they depend on you for life!!!\ncall 911 and do it now!!!God help you!!and your little ones!!