i dont go out enough and seldomly find myself at home on weekends, i believe work plays a big role what to do?
607268
Take control. Remember this...'you work to live, you dont live to work'. Organise your hours better and organise your social life...make time. Life is too short to miss out.
12115
I would try to find something that I could most likely keep up with.\n\nWhen my job fizzled out and I discovered I was expecting a baby, I found work that I could do from home, on my own time. It's not easy, but I don't have a boss... Just make sure to keep up your worker's benefits, because a job is usually more than just a salary.\n\nI think it's important to be honest with your future employer, e.g., when I was a single mom, I told my future employers that I would need to work just 3 days a week the whole summer & they hired me despite that. Afterwards, it was no problem, because it had been spelled out in advance.
270740
its that time to get away from all that work have fun relaxe go to the beach the mall other places and hang out as the saying goes during summer just go with the flow and do something exciting or i think thats how it goes \nbut really you should go to a water park,beach,travel far away, visit relatives you havent seen in years hang out with your friends just get outta the house
116984
hello what i would do is catch up on some family time like your mom dad gramma children me i love to clean my home also work at my job 8 hrs then i would tire myself out and go to sleep make time go fast i have done this alot it works for me then reuniting will be gloriouse
29758
Dont you have any friends to hang out with?  What about hobbies?  What do you do on the weekends?  When you grow up, your life will be pretty much the same as it is now but with work unless you do something yourself to change it.  And since you have very philisophical questions, I recommend talking to your minister who can better answer them for you.  Your life is not pitiful.  Its what you make of it.  If you want to be happy, do something happy.  If you want to be sad, then sit there and do nothing.  Your choice.
70689
I think you should go work for a construction or landscaping crew..  No nights and probably no weekends... plus, you usually get paid a decent wage.
615964
You have to motivate and challenge yourself.  Try doing as many tasks as possible before noon.  Then double that by the end of the week.  Challenges are what keeps us going!
964129
Do you know any other young wives and mothers in the neighborhood? If you do, why not hang out with them. If you don't, then introduce yourself.  Plan outings and fun things to do. You don't have to stay home 24/7. Do something nice for yourself. Do you have family nearby? See if you can get a family member to babysit for a few hours so that you can go out and enjoy yourself, pamper yourself!!!! I hope that things will get better for you. I know what it feels like. Sometimes we are so busy taking care of everybody else that we forget about ourselves.
808909
evaluate, prioritize, organize\n\nSit down and write down your schedule for each day. Figure out if there is anything that you can take out of your schedule, combine with something else to give you more time, etc. Also, decide if spending time with your friends or resting is more important than anything you are currently doing.\n\nCan you shift your schedule a bit? These evening commitments - can they become every-other-week commitments?\n\nLife can be overwhelming at times but if you really look at what is a priority and what isn't, maybe you can find a way to fit in some fun.
963616
often, i have more peace at work...i am not emotionally attached there...with my kids, life at home is always busy busy...running off to practices, scout meetings, games, concerts...it is chaos, but well worth it.
87512
Only on the weekends...
857201
You seem to be interested in helping others.  If you would like to find someone else with the same interest, maybe you should visit and help out at the neighbouring community facilities instead of just helping your disable neighbour over the weekend.  You'll get higher chance of meeting a nice lady who shares your interest.
350300
don't go out. \nquit drinking, smoking. \ncook @ home. \nshopping once a month just for a little gift for urself. \ncollect grocery coupons.\ndo exercise at home or jog outside instead of going to the gym.\nfind another part time/ causal job to keep yourself busy and make more money
590217
I have no weekend. I'm off when I'm off - no set schedule.\n\nI get up around 11 am to noon, and I go to bed around 4 or 5. On work days, I get up, eat, shower, check my email, get ready for work. Then, I navigate traffic amongst freakin insane drivers that seem to have a death wish on my way to work. I work until about 10 or 11, get something to eat or come home and cook. Sometimes, I'll play pool with friends or rent a movie with friends. If not, I play around on the computer, do some reading, or take a walk.\n\nOn my days off, I run my errands, clean the house, do the laundry, watch TV, play around on the computer, read, go to the beach, go to the woods, walk, swim, shop, call family and friends - whatever I need to do first and whatever I want to do after that. I'm not really into planning my free time to the last minute.
179511
Do what your heart leads you to do. If we push something and it is unnatural it is not meant to be or work out. If he feels as you weekends will work, the relationship will grow and arrangments in the future will blossom. Do not leap walk slow........this is your opportunity
195020
ask him to take a weekend and just spend it just the two of you you dont need to leave either of you houses either have him spend the night ir come over in the morning and leave late that nite and again the next day have fun things planned and he will see how much fun it is to spend time with you
809137
Thats hard......maybe you could try and do more chores around the house? Instead of watching TV or playing on the computer you could go to the park and play some sports oriented things. Maybe you can do yoga thats not sportsy, I hope this helped :)