How do i find submissive females?
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try collarme.com or alt.com
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May I suggest stop searching, then THAT's when you might find her!\n\nJust meet people as friends, and see what develops.  I hope you have a mic, as voice is MUCH friendlier and quicker than typing.\n\nRather than "dating" or "matchmaking" sites, try that talkcity, or http://www.paltalk.com - places intended mainluy just to meet and make FRIENDS.  :-)
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Go to your search and type in  just what you asked it should bring it up or go to one of the dating things on here and put in your area (sign UP) what your looking for, that would be your best bet. there are all kinds of people looking for people on those things. like friendfinder.com or american singles.com , www.adult-seeker.com, there are lots out there.
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I can tell you where you won't find one.  Here.  \n\nGet out and be in an environment where you are comfortable and enjoy yourself.  It helps you with the opposite sex, unless, of course, you are confortable in places where women don't hang out.\n\nHowever, I do know you won't get a girlfriend here.
194611
Try to look up adult films agencies, u can also look up on craigslist.org and search in women for men section or adult section . u have to be really persistent in this
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having a submissive woman at my beck and call!
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go to craigslist.com. it has a women looking for women section. however, I'm straight.
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Female-Domination.com is a web-list of other sites, you'll have to pick and choose through the good sites and the better sites to find what you're looking for, but some good resources are there.  Or run a websearch looking for Female Domination, Femme Dom, Domination & Submission, BDSM, and any other similar terms you can find.\n\nIt's been my experience in exploring this with my wife that you have to be open-minded and willing to accept that there's a lot out there that might not be exactly to your tastes and desires, but that perhaps you can incorporate bits and pieces of into your own play time.  Drop a line if you have any other questions, I'd be happy to help.
446196
rock on, rock on. uhm, try online. look for local clubs and on internet for personals and ask them
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greetings krys....\n\nA few more comments since you have a second copy of this question. These comments are based on your addendums.\n\nYour first type is the mundane sort of man who is so socialized away from being a Master that he will probably never be one and will fight against what you want to do. The best thing you can do with them is to move on as soon as you can.\n\nThe second type are the ones who are doing it either to please you, not because they have the real ability to master you or because they are used to dealing with subs and not slaves and don't know how to command and control a slave versus the ones they have to cajole into doing what they want outside of a scene. Some of these men can learn the difference. First they have to learn to be men. \n\nThe third group is often similar to the first group except that they overcompensate to the opposite extreme or they are BDSM sadists who find would be kajira easy prey and then unleash their real desires after they think they have someone who will do anything for them. You usually will not spot these until they relax their guard or think they have you where you can not get away. Or...they just get impatient or angry. \n\nAs for your last point, a girl is submissive until she is actually enslaved and that enslavement is mental and emotional more than physical. A Gorean Master will usually not intentionally mistreat or abuse his slave. He may be hard or soft with her as he chooses or may punish her if he feels a need to do so but they are not into inflicting pain on others. No...your actions and desires are not appropriate to mainstream society and we both know that. They are appropriate for what you wish to be. \n\nHow can you get a Dom to appreciate you? Be the sub or slave he wishes you to be. However, Doms are not Gorean. They are BDSMers who are usually more into it for the sexual gratification and often infliction of pain on others. I have summed it up this way. A bottom is interested in what the top can do to her. A sub is interested in what the Dom can do with her. The Gorean slave is interested in what she can do for her Master. \n\nI would not try to force someone into something they do not wish to be or can not be. You will only be disappointed. If you find someone close to what you are looking for, you might be able to give them a push in the direction you wish but there is no way to be certain if they will go there or not.\n\nbe well....\n\nMalkinius
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Look online for bdsm clubs &/or informational meetings in your area.  Many clubs meet just to talk and teach "safe play", it's not as intimidating as you might think.\nRead books, I would suggest "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns" for a beginner.\nLook online, there are tons of websites:\nwww.collarme.com\nwww.bdsmlibrary.com\nwww.castlerealm.com\nwww.bondage.com\nHave fun discovering the kink!
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The following three sites specialize in BDSM related personals:\n\n http://www.bondage.com \n http://www.collarme.com \n http://www.alt.com
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i guess it depends on what you mean by a great girl and how old you are (and the age of the girl you are looking for...)\ncheck out these sites, they might help...
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http://www.gaydar.co.uk  for usa uk and australia mostly\n\nhttp://www.recon.com  kink mostly and some vanilla, worldwide\n\nhttp://www.craigslist.org  hook up nows mostly usa\n\nall are free to some extent.  The first two limit the number of free responses
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Try coffee shops, book stores, festivals. Sport your colors and be flirty with the chicks- but not too flirty. That way if they arent gay or bi, they don't take offense. All in all, be yourself....... or give me a call. ;-)
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there are many women out there ;)\ngo to some http://adultfriendfinder.com kinda site.
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just go to irc chat or mirc32 and find alot of girl are u wanted