Why does ever guy I date just want to get me in bed?
612313
I've answered questions like this before and you girls just never seem to get it.  If you keep picking a$$holes, all your going to get are a$$hole so try goin out with someone you wouldn't normally date, broaden your horizens a little especially if you've ever turned down a guy because he's too "nice", why don't you call that guy up and give him a try.
542184
it sounds like you have what I call a "non-date" on your hands. This is super awkward, and you wont know what it is until the end of the night, hopefully! Basically, if he pays, tries to kiss you, or makes any move...you're in. If not, he is either shy as hell or just wants you as a friend. good luck. you sound like my life.
910783
He doesn't want to date you, he's hoping that your horny enough just to have sex with him, he wants to be your sexually rebound guy.
462147
There's nothing wrong with you.He says he's attracted to you and you do have sex,just not that often.If it bothers you I'd ask him whats going on.Tell him his behavior makes no sense to you, it makes you feel insecure and you need to know why he does this.I'm sure the two of you can work it out..good luck!
492892
I presume you mean sex??Well I've dated guys who don't expect that so perhaps you're dating the wrong guys!If you want to see a guy again I wouldn't recommend sex on the first date but take things slower and at a pace you're comfortable with.Have fun!
47152
He, he, he.\n\nBecause guys want what they can't have. And as much as they say they want you, they also want to respect you (even if they don't think they do) which is why there is such a double-standard persisting in society, even in this supposedly advanced world we live in today. If a girl is intuitively ready to have sex on the first date, how many more mornings after actually happen? Generally, women are not permitted to enjoy sex as freely and openly as men, and so you're up against not just his desire for you on the first date, but also the whole of humanity as you ponder, tonight or the next?\n\nLet him put in an inch, and then he'll want to unleash a mile...you've got to hold out, because generally that means he'll stick around, growing more curious and enticed than ever before because there's a mystery about you, an air that you carry that he's forced to keep sniffing out until finally, you give in... Keep in mind this applies only if you're into this sort of thing. Women can be just as ruthless and incisive as men when it comes to getting laid. Which is great, since women, like men, should be taught to love (and respect!) sex too.\n\nI guess it all depends on what both your motives are. Do want to be chased? Or do you want to be chewed up? That is the question...
1156639
in this order, a guy either wants to have intercourse with you, or he really likes you and wants to have a relationship with you, he is not at all interested in either of those things, or he is too bashful to ask you out.  if a guy is interested in either of the two first possibilities he will ask you out.  if you have intercourse on the first date it does not always mean you were used, but a lot of times it does.  after intercourse if the guy continues to call you, he is interested in a relationship.  however, unfortunately there are more bashful guys that you can imagine who are interested in you, and you will never know.  if you have your eye on someone who is possibly bashful, drop hints, create situations where you can be alone with him, and flirt.  i hope this was helpful.
189000
Is this guy telling the truth about not having sex, or is he just trying to sleep with you?\n\nDo you like this guy or have "feelings" for him?  If no, then I wouldn't sleep with him.\n\nMaybe find a date for him, or an escort to boost his self-esteem.
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".
798890
He is just using you to get laid. He is telling you this. He does not want a relationship. He just wants to get his rocks off with no strings attached.>
877794
as a rule of thumb it means he wants to get in your pants and move on to the next girl that will allow it ,\n\nDont be dumb , play hard to get ;o)
713668
Id think, it just depends on who the guy is and what hes got on his mind. My experience is, being a guy, he may want you to just get to know him for real, and he do the same with you. However, sound like to me, really, he just wants to be friends and thats it. Most guys will do this when he wants to get to you, in a sexual way, then hes gone, its a conquest thing with some guys. I guess it all depends on him, and what hes really after. Id just ask him and find out what hes got on his mind. Good luck.
507149
Perhaps something is bothering him, or he doesn't feel well. Try wearing something revealing or surprise him by posing provocatively on the bed when you suspect he will be going in the bedroom. Try having "encounters" at different hours than usual, or in diff places. Avoid ruts. Talk dirty to him.\n\nHe sounds like a lucky guy.\n\ngood luck ;-)
656944
It seems like you want sex more when you can't get it.  It sounds like he is using that as an excuse.  I have never heard of a man getting bored with sex.  Talk to him and if you can live without the sex stay with him, if not kick him to the curb.
872791
Either he wants to continue having sex with you or he wants to be in a relationship but either way  his timing was a little off. See if he treats you like a girlfriend (phone calls during the day/night, coming over to see you,dinners etc) good luck
715277
Whatever is going on. Your not being fair to yourself. You deserve better than some guy who may be into you.
420956
It could be that he just doesn't want to spend every waking moment with you. You're dating, not conjoined twins.