why people abuse others while they are saying or doing nothing to them?
595602
They have very wrong habbit of doing so.
397907
I think you pretty much answered your own question: Because they are psychopaths. Like the other post said though, what comes around always goes around. People that commit harm against others no matter how large or small, will eventually be made to confront and deal with what they did. It may not even be in this lifetime, but karma has a way of coming back on everyone. NOONE is exempt from it if they know what they are doing is wrong.
153737
You can not control how others will react or feel by what you say. If someone is crossing your boundry line,it is up to you to say so, they can't read your mind. Choose your words carefully, say it kindly and all is done. If someone thinks that you are rude and you have been as kind as possible then that is their problem not yours.\n I need to do this quite often. So many people are touchers to even complete strangers and I suffer from chronic pain where sometimes even the lightest breeze can cause pain I would wish on no one. I just have to tell people straight out, or my husband does, to be gentle with me. I won't break, but I will suffer pain. And you know what there are people who are then offended and think I am rude for not wanting to be punched on arm or bear hugged, some people just have no thought for anyone but themselves
1168228
its not just the mentally ill. people do that to everyone. my son had a heart defect, people tried to blame us. when kids are bad the parents get the blame. when kids are fat parents get the blame. when a kid steals a car someone is going to blame the parents. \n  people have the need to do that to take the focus off themselves. anything that makes them feel like their life really isnt so pathetic is an excuse to do something even if making the comment is wrong. no one should judge, its not our job. just smile and remember... those who do things like that have to answer to a higher authority eventually.
137165
People allow themselves to become offended or have feelings hurt. If we had to worry about offending someone all the time we would just have to be silent. As a small child I learned the saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." People should realize that this is true and move on.
628987
mostly because they can stay anonymous. it is easy to be hurtful when there are no repercussions. their jerk side takes over and they show their ass.
561377
Yes it seems they have a victim's mentality and are needy and the people that abuse others seem to sense this in others.  You have to look at how you act strong or weak. Go to a counselor and work on the trauma. Don't think it will go away because it doesn't
508349
People tend to be nice to each other, nothing wrong with that, plus if you have nothing nice to say its better to say nothing at all
687230
unfortunately some people (usually children, sometimes adults in arrested development) just get a charge out of upsetting people. It makes them feel significant or important that they can shock someone. You shouldn't be so porous to such experiences. That's not a criticism of you, it's just general advice. I'd probably feel the same way. But I'd realize what it was, report it as abuse, delete it, and then I'd refuse to give the street urchin any more real estate in my mind's memory.\n\nCheers, mate.
733801
I think this is because some people are just EXTREMLY ARROGANT , IGNORANT,STUBBORN, AND NARROWMINDED.\nI had a simmilar experience, I just ignored them, becuase their words mean nothing to me. DONT LET THOSE STUPID KIDS TRY TO KEEP YOU DOWN, THEY JUST WANT TO SINK YOU GARBAGE DOWN.
1109106
Name calling debases people and shows others that you are stooping to thier level.\n\nIt shows that you lack intellegence to come up with different alternatives, instead of lowering yourself to some ones level, to bring you down.\n\nAbusive langauages hurt, and people take offense, thus it calls for retaliation when some one offends a person, that person feels they are slighted and it starts the "one upmanship" routine.\n\nIts juvenile to call people names and asnnine to debase some one no matter what they have done to you.  Uplift some one, if you REALLY want to show your intelligence, instead of destroying some ones integrity...\n\nI wish you well..\n\nJesse
198083
It may not be the nicest thing for a person to do, however if you hadn't done whatever it is that you did they wouldn't have it to use against you. You can't stop a person from doing what they are determined to do unless you talk to them and they are willing to cease what they are doing. You can either ignore them and what they are doing or move on and own up to it. Your past is who helped make you who you are today and if your a better person now then at least you've learned from it. There is something called karma and wheather it be good or bad, eventually they will get what they deserve.
974859
I think its funny how annoyed people will get at this question - its obvious you're just being inflammatory, but people are so damn serious, they can't see they're being manipulated. \n\nThat's why the vast majority of people are absolute imbeciles and are readily manipulable by society and mass media. It just goes to show how precious people are over their worthless, insignificant and pathetic egos.
731831
men who beat both physically and emotionally need to be in control at all times, when someone questions them, or fails to perform as they want, they feel as if they are loosing control, and beat those who disagree or challange them. they are ususally men who have no self worth, or power. they pick on weaker people, but if the weak person challanges them or their authority in any way that's when the abuse starts. they want a person to be perfect in every way, their concept of perfect, if they are let down they seem to react with abuse.
430789
I agree. Some people are mean because they have low self esteem and they are trying to make themselves feel better by putting someone else down. I agree with you, it's not nice, but we can just be nice to them and they will have nothing to be mean to you about!
200580
If they are doing that it is very cruel and immature. It doesn't say much for their character or the character of the people that they are involved with. It is sad. \n\nThe best thing you can do is ignore it, as hard as its, you just have to let it go. If you ignore it and walk away, they will stop.
717145
The person calling the names wants people to come down to their level.\nThey don't realize their words hurt.