fine i'm coming out, i might be in love with her but shes being mean what do i do???
612700
You cannot force your sexuality onto someone else...they will resent it even though under other circumstances they might be amenable.  You have to discuss it with her, apologize for what you did, and, if she forgives you, than ask if she might be interested.
373889
Share your feelings with her. Then listen to what she has to say. If she says she loves you and wants to be serious, then it is time to evaluate her actions. If she does what it takes to make you feel loved, and she accepts your love in return, there may be a future for you and her.
473853
Well how long have u been going out with her? She may really like you and have a huge crush on you but it would be a bit strange if she loved you. Maybe she just sez that not like 2 be mean but like "love you bye!" you should talk to her about it. I'm 15 and im not in love (although Colin Farrell is something else!) But she may be, it depends if you can trust her or not.\nThe real question is, do you feel the same way?
851208
Tell her you don't mind being friends with her, but you have absolutely no intentions of being involved sexually with the opposite sex.  Let her know you don't swing that way and her actions are starting to make you feel uncomfortable.  I also like what you said about she's trying to turn you into something your not.  Say that to her too!  Good luck.
752354
Based on what you wrote, it seems like you don't want to miss out on her. So take a risk..tell her how you feel. If she is as beautiful inside as she is on the outside, she will not be mean to you. Just ask her if things are getting serious with her current boyfriend and take it from there. Get her talking about it and that will clue you in to what you should say next.
802108
Well, you need to ask yourself how you got into your current situation in the first place....  Did you "find out" you were gay AFTER getting engaged?  Did you have a gay affair and determined that was what you really wanted?  Once you answer this, then you go to step two.  You HAVE to tell her.  Unless of course, you want to spend the rest of your life living a lie, and not being able to be true to yourself [and her].  You will regret getting married and not being able to have your male companionship if you go forward.  Be strong and sincere.  Talk to her like a close friend and, yes, it may turn out bad, but in the long run it could be worse.
530183
just relax or ask her why is she acting like that.(have a nice attitude.)
768632
ok, this is tricky! It sounds like either she's bi, doesn't understand what healthy friendships entail, or she's just a fantastic friend who had her heart broken. \n   Try flipping the switch on her. For example, next time you're out and a pretty girl walks by, say something about the pretty girl like 'wow, that girl has a fantastic figure.' see how she reacts. don't say anything about a man when saying good things about women.\n\nKeep us posted, and good luck!
884692
If you don't know what her reaction is going to be, or even if she homophopic or not, you'll have to come up with something so you can start a discussion with her to see where she stands as far as gay people go, i suggest this so you'll know what she thinks before you say something to her about being attracted to her.
445075
She sounds as if she doesn't treat you the way that you would like to be treated. I wouldn't like it, but I am not you.\n\nYou sound like you need someone to hash all of this over with to make sure you know what you are thinking. On observation, you have not been close acting for a while. If you can't tell her, write it a couple of times to get confidence. Then drink a beer or a coffee one day and tell it to her straight. \n\nThen do what you have to do to be happy. No use wasting the rest of your life pretending. Time to be free to be true to yourself.
276323
If she came out of the closet to you, it means she probably has been harboring it inside for a long time. That is probably a very difficult emotion to deal with, Not to mention the fact that she is attracted to you. She is obviously confiding with you on two accounts. Which means she trusts you and feels comfortable with you to offer up this information\n\nThis is a delicate subject. If you're attracted to her as well, you may want to explore the deeper friendship/love/whatever. If you're not and want to just remain friends, I would be supportive of her but just explain that you're not attracted to her like that but that you value her in every other way.\n\nHope it works out. Best of luck.
579498
tell her that u r GAY!!......\njoking\n\nok so tell her clearly u like someone else but u care for her lot so dont want her to be hurt\n\nand tell her that u ll be a gr8 and loyal fren always to help her............dude girls want someone that cares for them......so she ll be fine i guess!!
225099
well apparently you are not straight.  You might scared her if she does not have the same feelngs.  so lose a good friend or tell her how you feel and she feels the same way.  vey scary.........maybe ask her questions that might help you to decide how to make a move or not.  good luck
1087408
try to talk to her about this, if she doesnt understand what you mean or not willing to try to change this, then just move on and find someone more compatible with you.
717523
i'm not trying to be mean or anything but if u rly love her and care about her, don't rush her into things. Maybe she is not ready for something like that. Give her some space. She most likely loves u for who u are. I am not saying that u think anything opposite of that. I am not trying to be mean or anything. u don't have to take this advice or anything if u don't want too.
814459
it may not be what you think it is. give it a little time and if you are 100% sure that you like her then go for it but be warned that there are heaps of ppl out there who dont support gays and lesbians
315984
Okay I am a bisexual male so it may be a little different for me but here is my advice anyways. (Also I have been in a similiar situation and I have a little insight.)\nThe FIRST thing you need to do is decide how important this girl is to you and are you willing to tolerate her going back and forth on you. IF YOU ARE NOT--then take my advice and break all ties with her. It may hurt at first but if you keep dealing with her you are just reopening a wound over and over and it will never heal. Trust me in this...been there and I wish someone would have told me that. Could have saved myself a whole lot of pain and a broken heart if they would have.