What does it mean when a girl says she doesnt want to be with you but she never wants to lose you?
594565
Get used to it...all women are somewhat crazed, especially when it comes to men. I wish I could tell you that it will get better when you get older but it wont, it's just one of those things you have to learn to deal with.
10246
when was the last time that you did something sweet to your gurl?  perhaps what she means by time is a little romance in the relationship.  usually when guys are courting the gurls and during the first few months of the relationship, guys are sweet and would always go an extra mile for the gurl. yet over time, some guys wud tend to lax and we gurls having used to the attention wud think that probably you've lost interest.  so, if this person is really important to you, then give her the time.  be CONSISTENT of your actions.\n\nhope everything goes well for you.
685441
she told u that coz its another way of saying she don't want to date u again.....\n\nits an excuse not to further hurt ur feelings...
345845
Tough to say but I think she really is afraid of comminting this time. It's a very weak analogy but its just like going for skydiving classes. She knows everything about skydiving and loves the idea of it but when it's time to jump she has reservations. I don't think it's her way of saying she's not interested. Why else woul she spend time with you? It probably has more to do with her. I'm guessing it has hurt her self-confidence especially with regards to "keeping a man" than it is about you. \nGive her time and space. If you really feel something for her a little bit of waiting shouldn't hurt. As well, don't tell her that she will never be hurt if she commits to a relationship with because personally i won't buy it (and she's probably heard that before). Instead assure her that you're not perfect yourself but you love her (or like her) enough that your willing to try. \n\nHope that helps and i hope it works out for you.
880460
It means she doesn't have any or she's not interested in you.
410765
she is confusing the best thing i can say is she sounds like shes scared of commitment she seems like she doesnt want to get to close to u incase u hurt her mayb shes been hurt in the past. she likes u alot trust me but she doesnt want u to think she is to overkeen on u but then again she doesnt want u to leave her or to dislike her thats why she shows u a bit of affection. and thats why she has got a split personality. shes is embarrased when u tell her u love her i dont think she means to hurt u. i bet if u asked her why is she like that she would say i dont know i dont mean to. some girls are just like that mayb if u treat her the way she treats u then mayb she will change or walk away but somethings gotta b done about it cause it doesnt seem right hope i helped good look
793013
It is simple.  She was telling you she will always be with you and not to forget that.
1042470
im sorry to tell you honey\nbut she means she wants to stay friends with you\nshes not into you...
744249
well you first look at her behavior and if she is nervious talking to you it means she dont want to be with you and so afried to tell you.
498587
It means you are not the only iron in the fire, and she is most likely stringing you along so she won't be caught without a date sometime.\n\nDo not call a third time.  If she had really meant what she said, she would not have waited to return your call.
1017776
No for the following reasons :-\n1) she's totally undecided about you & some about herself\n2) she wouldn't know what love really is at her age from what she said. If she does love you, she wouldn't be 'making out' with another guy. \n3) like you said, she's acting like she doesn't want to go out now.\n4) her age\n5) she said she's afraid to be attached. This will haunt her until she resolves her real issues and demons in her. She'll walk again cos of her phobia (yup). And she doesn't sound like she's anywhere near resolving it.\n\nShe sounds pretty screwed up. Think about what you really want - a chance with someone who's flitting from person to person (you're definitely going to get hurt). She's not showing any signs that she wants to go out with you or take a chance with you or is ready for anything long term (remember her phobia). Leave it as it is and move on.
925298
I think that it means that she doesn't think that you are the type of person that she is looking for, or else that she doesn't think that you seem like the type of person who can stay in a serious relationship.\nHope this helps and good luck!
783486
Depends. What is clear is that I don't love you means I don't love you. If ya'll have been together for a good while ( about 2 years at min i'd say is a good while, but I was in for the long haul for 5 when it happened to me> I'd say move on as best you can. If she's under considerable stress, it may not mean anything and may be the stress talking. If you haven't been dating her long, she may not feel that way yet and in time she will. But just because she doesn't love you doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy being your friend and that she isn't willing to see if she will love you in time(yeah, that last bit stings but i've seen it be true).
735195
It means she isn't interested, maybe not now, maybe not ever.  Keep on going until you ask out a girl that is excited and don't accept crumbs by going into her restaurant like you can't find a girl that is available and excited to be with you.  The best revenge is living well!
294835
that's mean she's not interestd with you, she keep saying 'give me time' because she don't want to hurt your feeling.but don't give up pal,keep tryin.!wish you luck
1102664
She is a smart girl, comfortable with herself, and not wiling to lie to make you feel better.  You should respect and appreciate that.  Now you know that when she does say "I love you" she means it.  You should feel lucky to have one of the rare girls that are not obsessive and drunk with the need for love.
607122
lol - its true, you could be getting on her nerves :)\nit could mean a few things, eg.\nit means that she needs time by herself to work out how she thinks/feels about things in her life including you. It also means that she doesnt feel like she can say something to you that you wont like and she is building up the courage and finding her way to say it best. It also means that you and her are becoming too big in her life and that she cant balance her relationship with you with everything else she has to do in her life and that may be her fault or yours.\ncould be a whole load of reasons.\n\nall you really need to know is it is time to show some respect and independance and give her her space, if you care and love her then back off and find something to keep you occupied while she is finding her space.\nIf she is messing you around then maybe move on, I have asked for a bit of space before - it didnt mean i was breaking up with my gf or messing her around, I really needed it and she respected that and not having her calling me every five minutes concerned about if i love her and such was very cool of her, give her her space :)