how those a guy break-up with a girl without making her cry?
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You can't control another person emotions or reaction - so don't try.  The best thing you can do is be honest and tell her as soon as possible.  It's not fair to her if you already know it's not going to work.\n\nBeside, how do you know she is going to cry?  Are you that great of a catch?  You might be surprised by her reaction, she might not even blink an eye, let alone cry - ESPECIALLY not in front of you.  Women are funny that way, they will put on a really strong front in front of you, then later that night let the emotions out, either alone or with her girlfriends.\n\nStand strong, be honest but not cruel, don't try to put blame on anything other then you do not have "Love" feelings for her.\n\nGood luck.
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Is there such a thing as breaking up with a friend? \nYes! Sometimes it's best to cut a friend loose if his antics are stressing you out more than cheering you up. \n\nEveryone goes through life experiencing relationships. But it is very rare that one of these relationships span an entire lifetime. People have fun together but also, people often break-up for many reasons. These reasons can range from simply growing apart to finding your partner cheating or simply being too different to be together. Break-ups and reasons for them are not meant to scare someone away from relationships. The simple fact is, one should enjoy relationships, but at the same time, identify warning signs so one can see when a break-up is necessary and when things go sour with your guy, you know a breakup is imminent. \n\nIt's hard to do. That's the biggest understatement of all time! Ending a relationship is among the most stressful things a person can undergo and is never easy. It sucks and even less fun than getting rejected is actually having to do the rejecting. Okay, maybe doing the rejecting is a little better. Anyway, if you're thinking about blowing a guy off, here are some ideas on how to give him the brush off that won't break his heart too badly -- or destroy his ego.\n\nYou're not interested. He calls and leaves a message. What should you do? \nDo not return that call. \n\nAnd what if you picked up the phone? What then? \nThen, "lie". Please lie. Tell him that you just got back together with your friends. This is our very first choice for rejection. Second best is you realized that you are going through a period where you do not want to date at all and just want to focus on yourself. Sure, these excuses might be transparent -- but men feel better to live a lie than face the truth of rejection.\n\nAnother possibility, though not quite as good due to possible ambiguity,  is the good old "distancing technique". You tell him you are really busy for the next couple of weeks and will call him when things get less crazy -- a bit confusing for most men, but definitely effective and not too painful.\n\nYou really gave it a chance, but it's not happening. What should you do? \nAgain, lie. Your friends are still your best bet. Do not tell him you met someone else recently. That smarts. Choosing someone you just met tells him he lost a contest. No one likes to lose. \n\nAnother option - "Honesty" within reason. If it's simply a matter of chemistry -- or lack thereof - tell him. Most guys can survive that after just a few dates. As much as it's going to hurt, tell him the truth. At this point, honest communication is the right thing to do.  Be gentle, but do not be too vague. Just give it to him straight and say that you're really sorry. \n\n1. Don't be too specific if it's for  reasons no human should ever hear: You smell, you are not good-looking enough, you are boring, you're an idiot -- please refrain from using these (unless you're breaking up with him because he sucked in bed, in which case you better lie.) \n\n2.  Don't try to be "friends" once it's over. That just drags out the inevitable; it gives him hope that you might change your mind. \n\n3. Don't have sex with him the night you break up with him or later when he crawls back begging for you to take him back. \n\n4. Insist on NO contact. Breaking off for good is always better for both and less stressful.\n\nObviously, this all can vary depending on your circumstances and your relationships. \n\nJust remember: Be Gentle, Lying can be good for the male ego and less hurting and Specificity, well, it can sometimes be too specific its better to be Ambiguous. \nGood Luck>r
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its called a break-up, leave the sorry a** bastard
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just tell her how you really feel and much you miss her, and that you didn't mean what you said, when you broke up with her.
113063
Umm, how did he become your "boyfriend" without even kissing him first?
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he's trying to keep her from breaking up with him by showing her how he feels but some women are just cold hearted and go ahead and break up with the guy anyway
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no break up with him first
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Break up with her, now.\n\n\nYou can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves.
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As the saying goes " There's no easy way to break somebody's heart" There will always be heartaches and disagreements especially if one doesn't want to let go. What worked for me is remaining good friends with my EX. :-)
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Because they don't want to be the 'bad guy' and do the breaking up. They are cowards who would rather the girl did the dirty work for them. \n\nActually plenty of women do this too.\n\nWould people please just be honest with one another about your feelings!
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i Think it all depends on how much you love the girl. I know if the girl i'm dating broke up with me i know i'd cry and i probably wouldn't get over it for months, maybe years.
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It all depends on your relationship situation, the reason(s) for your separation, and your girlfriend's friends. Ask yourself if they understand the reasons as to why you are ending the relationship and it also depends if they are shallow enough to just hate you just because you are separating. If you did anything to cause the breakup like cheating on her or anything negative at all then you should'nt be surprised on their reactions towards you.
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well.....in the video theres this girl that is throwing herself at a guy, but all he does is ignore her, and she turns a bit psycho, so i think that he's saying that even though he was ignoring her, it hurts him to see her cry because he still loves her
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Tell the guy you want to break up with, why you are doing it. But you have to be honest and not hurt his feelings. If you lie, then it will just become a big mess and you guys won't even be friends anymore. I think this is the best way to break up with a guy. Hope this helps!
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The reason I broke up with you is because I DON'T like what you do.  The other girls and I have been talking in the bathroom on first break and we've decided that you absolutely suck in the sack.  We all faked it to get you to go on and finish.  \n\nRent some instructional videos... that is all I can tell ya, buddy.
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just say u still have feelings for her even if u try to hide them by being cool or showing off. and say that you cant believe you everlet a girl like her break up with you (or that you cant beliieve you broke up with a girl like her!) good luck man! im proud of u for trying to get back with her! y cant all men be like u?!!
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what kind of crying do you want her to cry? like a happy cry or the one we know the most the cry me a river? you're not a good friend if you want to see her cry out of horror. you're the one who's suppose to make her stop cryin not the one to make her cry and to tell her to forget those tears those tears aren't meant for somethin stupid i.e. a bad breakup.