are GUYS AFRAID TO committ?
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sometimes if you atre not who they really want but just a fill in untill they find someone else
789366
I live with my bf now, I'm 39 and he is the first serious relationship I've had in 15 years. In those 15 years, I've RAN from 3 marriage proposals. Not really sure why, not so much the commitment, it was that I knew I didn't want to be married to those men. At this point I don't really care if I get married or not. This bf is the best and I'm happy. \nListen to your gut. It may not be commitment that scares you.
963862
You are just nervous. It is natural to feel some doubt after all what if you get rejected. What you need to remember is that men find assertive, positive, and direct women to be irresistable. Long story short just Say It already.
614432
There are many reasons that people have a fear of intimacy.  First, fear of rejection.  Second, a bad past relationship. Third, fear of vulnerability.  And fourth, they may not be ready to make a commitment yet and are just enjoying being with many women at the same time.  There are many other answers, but in my experience these are the top ones.  All you can do is be patient and wait, the right guy will come along and sweep you right off your feet, in good time.  Good luck and don't ever give up.
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I am assuming that you have male friends...and curious if they detect a bit of an uncomfortable vibe from you when you are around...maybe you being uneasy puts off some sort of signal that causes everyone else to be uneasy also...just don't try to hard maybe that's the problem...sometimes over doing the masculine thing causes doubt in everyone...just be yourself...true friends care about you for you...
135133
shy guys are sexy...sometimes well if u had a gf it would be hard for u too talk to eachother or even go out so do not be shy
496625
Absolutely.  If a guys isn't as comfortable as he thought he was, what's the point in going through with something that's probably going to screw up anything relationship-wise that could be possible?  It's not fair if girls are the only ones abiding by "no means no"...although, he might consider not going through all the motions (just as women should) if he's not going to play the whole game.
976395
im shy to around guys but maybe u should give it a try dressng diffrent an jus taking a chance just go 4 it and talk to some or 1 you have your eye on its not to bad once you try then you wont be scared afterwards
397359
Because they're afraid to be judged infront of their "guy friends." \n\nGood luck!\n\nMichelle
601662
I don't think it's fear of commitment. I think it's fear of falling out of love. What happens when you're in a relationship and you just don't love the other person anymore? Divorce, cheating, etc. People are uncertain about their feelings, men and women.
978048
most guys are afraid of commitment like myself..if you initiate contact i guarentee he will talk to you..just go over to him and sit beside him ask him something as simple as "what are we doing this weekend?" you got to let the comfort roll in you can't force it.just show him you like him and if he doesn't have the confidence to speak to you as a bf i'm sorry but maybe you were better off friends.
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Yup, I am, and I think there are many, many people in this world who are like you. Don't forget the person you could be asking could also be in the same position...they would love to go out with you, but are too scared to ask themselves, for what the answer might be. Don't forget the worst thing that can happen is they say "no." Don't let your fear blow up out of proportion.
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just dont be afraid to talk to them . most guys are not monsters .. just be intrested in what they got going on .
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Really depends on the guy though doesnt it? I mean women freak out as well.\nIt also has to do about the way it is brought up.\nAnd well, women do seem to have, at the back of their mind, this reminder that if they want to settle down and have kids they need to do so by age of (am a guy forget what age that was again) while us men half the time think that we got all the time in the world. So it might not even be not wanting to commit to you, just really feeling rushed.
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Don't be afraid to make the first move.  Some guys are more nervous than you are.  Great if he says yes, and if he says no, who cares he's not good enough for you if he can't realize a good thing when it's staring him smack in the face asking him out.  I did, and now I'm married to a great guy. Good luck.
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I think shyness is the same for both genders.  It's just that when initiating contact with the opposite sex, it's still kind of expected for guys to make the first move.
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That's not true of all guys.  My last two boyfriends have been very open with their feelings, you just have to find the right ones. I think most men are just naturally closed off like that.