Why, if there's so much protection out there, do girls/women still have unprotected sex?
594170
Its called responsibility and no one teaches that any more. Why bother with birth control when there is an abortion clinic on every corner and no parent's signature is required. But need an emergency appendectomy and they'll let you die on the table if a parent can't sign for it. It sickens me to see 12 year old girls on here wondering if they are pregnant. Who's at home with these kids? Don't parents teach morals and responsibility anymore? Sorry, but a major pet peeve of mine. Particularly now that I am raising a daughter. Frankly, I am terrified of what is in her future.
487923
I personally think that it's in the student's best interest to taught about how to protect themselves. There should be a message in there about abstinence, though. People have to understand that no matter how much you tell students not to have sex and educate them about the risks, they're still going to do it. The best way to keep them safe is to educate them about how to be the safest they can and not have any life-ruining consequences come of it. If they aren't educated about protection and are only taught about abstinence, the students who decide to have sex regardless of being taught about abstinence will not know how to protect themselves correctly and could end up with an STD or pregnant.
393133
Nope, why? It's too dangerous.  It doesn't mean anything. Plus, single parents are not always adequate and that's what sex is for. Babies.
117483
They're too busy fugging the country to risk unprotected sex.
221559
It really doesn't matter whether you live in the same house or not. What matter is the protection of the girl. If you people are married and want to have a babyor the girl is willing to take contraceptives then its ok not to use condom , otherwise, they are a must
357408
Definitely. If people don't know what's out there, they don't know how to protect themselves and with STDs, that could lead to an disastrous epidemic amongst the sexually active.
448945
If you are having unprotected sex with a sex partner you should be tested regularly.  sadly we don't know the history of the other, and they may not know if or what they may have if they have been having sex with someone else.\n\nAnd many don't have any signs to let you know.\n\nOf course always having protected sex would take away most of the worry.
276688
lol your a goody girl arent you? but a condom is what guys use for safe sex, they put it on there penis so sperm wont go into the girls vagina and make her pregnant
425648
As someone stated, any sexual activity is risky. Even with the use of condoms, AIDS is still a possibility. Read this quote "They argue that condoms should not be promoted as a way to fight AIDS because the virus that causes AIDS is small enough to pass through latex condoms..."
774268
The only thing I can think of off the top of my head is HPV (the Human Papilloma Virus) it is spread from skin-to-skin contact during sex. Condoms cannot even fully protect a person because they do not cover enough area. In order to fully protect yourself from this virus you would have to practice abstinence or wear a rubber suit!
281225
Many women suffer from not having enought fluids in this area!  If you are talking about sex, a condom alone may not provide enough ludication.\n\nKy has other uses apart from the above to help women that may be dry and hence quickly become sore in such areas!
1102052
It's honestly all in your head. Once you get the situation out of your mind you'll do a lot better and maybe not even need those kind of condoms anymore. For instance, think of something totally unrelated, like the steps you take to change your oil in your car or something like that. At least do it so she can orgasm, cause of course once she goes, it's no sweat for us to follow right behind....see what happens..
49587
By having unprotected sex
470191
dont worry about it.... unless youve had unprotected sex (which you shouldnt since your ONLY 13)
387743
Okay... this is the millennium... Kids are having sex.  I think that condoms should defiantly be avail.  For all the obvious reasons of course.  If you really think having condoms available is encouraging promiscuity then think again.  It's all over TV, then there's peer pressure and raging hormones.  NO I'm not giving kids an excuse to have sex, but face it there are too many kids having kids.
687312
i think we all( guys and girls) would rather have unprotected sex but i think only the smart ones have protected. i don't care if he/ she doesn't have any STD's, i still wouldn't unless i were married. even then, your spouse can still cheat on you.
1021534
Condoms are a good protection from pregnancy if they are used correctly. Condoms are not a 100% protection though, they can break, and get a girl pregnat if you don't use them correctly. To be double safe, make sure the girls is on birth control as well as you a using a condom. If she isn't tell her to start taking birth control if the two of you don't want to end up with a kid. Say to her I am using protection cause I don't want a kid, so you should use protection as well.