Girls- as long as the guy treats you right NOTHING is wrong with him. UNDERSTAND?
608756
This is the best statement I have read on yahoo answers thus far. Thank you.
500905
If he respects you then there is no problem, if he wants to leave you because you wont have sex with him, he is probably not good enough for you
906725
no, you have it wrong.  you need to have confidence in yourself and that will show.  It's not that girls want it, it is that it makes you a more appealing person.  no one wants to be with "kick me" dude, you know?
274458
Remain as friends with the sweet guy... You never know his flaws unless you get to understand him better. He might be just sweet to all girls around him. Afterall, you have a boyfriend. Stay faithful and you shall be rewarded.
862410
he's a professional who trained at making ladies feel comfortable. Sounds like a bit of an unhealthy infatuation. Maybe your next boyfriend should be made aware of your needs, to be treated with dignity and respect.
265065
Dump him and move on to someone who'll respect you and treat you right.
606041
I cant answer this question because Im trying to understand that also.To many times women will stay with the guy that doesnt treat them right or make them feel cared for etc. and they dont want to find that guy that is waiting to be given a chance to treat someone with everything thier heart can put out.They would rather sit at home and complain than do anything about it,just so you know,that wonderful charming guy is trying to find you but cant because you are still in a relationship..... best wishes
421133
You got some pretty good answers, but the best one is definitely f*** off!! Some guys have no respect!!! so you shouldn't treat them with any respect either!
900557
girls need to look at a guy and immediately feel safe with him. He needs to have that quality,. he should be genuine and should be a good listener.
363370
most girls more or less need men who make girls FEEL GOOD about themselves and protected. They need a man who cares and makes her feel like she is the most special person in the world. If you are hot, and are only out for one night stands, and treat girls like pieces of meat, they'll treat you back the same way. simple.
496625
Absolutely.  If a guys isn't as comfortable as he thought he was, what's the point in going through with something that's probably going to screw up anything relationship-wise that could be possible?  It's not fair if girls are the only ones abiding by "no means no"...although, he might consider not going through all the motions (just as women should) if he's not going to play the whole game.
419094
Well, as a guy, it's nice to know that I can do something for her w/o it being something specific (Like I'm in the computer Field so she asks me when she has a problem w/ her's). It's nice when it's "there's a HUGE BUG, KILL IT!" or "my table keep falling apart" and I can fix it for her.\nWhile some guys might like that, I'm not one of them. I want to the typical "guy" things for her, otherwise I would just feel like I'm taking up space.\nI know that you should only be looking @ this person for romantic purposes but that's very idealic, and not a reality for most men.
454215
Yeah, it's normal especially if he thinks that your appearance is not good enough. If that is the case he is a jerk and guess what? If he is looking for MIZZZZZZZZZ PERFECT SHE...DOES NOT EXIST AND HE IS GOING TO BE LOOKING FOR A VERY LONG TIME. Maybe he will find some girl that treats him like crap because she is MIZZ perfect and she knows it and she knows she can have any guy she wants, if that is the case, he deserves it. What goes around comes around. \n\nNow as for you my sweet friend, Don't go losing weight and getting yourself in shape for the guys, do it for you. Don't do it just for looks, do it for your health and well being and you know what, maybe you look just fine, but you are letting what happened to you get the best of you, which is normal too. \nHang tight. The guy is a jerk, he is not worth your energy. \n\nI bet there is a great guy waiting out there for you. \n\nYOU GO GET HIM TIGER!!!!!!!!! ;D
948710
I dont think there s anything wrong with that. you maybe feel from now and then that u need someone with u but what ur doin is good in a way for you so that u dont get hurt again.. Just wait for that perfect guy, dunno maybe the guy ull settle down with. Just think in a way that u wont get hurt. dont care abt wut ppl say, the important thing is that u know that u dont mean anythin bad by doin this to guys. Just take it easy.
127125
Every guy has different preferences, so there is no right answer for this. Guys like girls who are confident in themselves, who know what they want and who have an opinion, but not too outspoken. Guys want a girl who will make them feel good about themselves and who cares about him. But don't be all over the guy--keep him interested by having your own thing going on. The important thing is that you have to be yourself and should never act differently because you think that is what the guy wants.
231449
Women get used to being treated like dirt. It's sad, but it's true. When I met my "great guy" it took everything in me not to toss him away because I didn't know how to react to a guy listening to me, giving me good advice, opening doors for me and offering to pick up the bill instead of "borrowing" money. I think women often get the idea that they don't deserve to be treated well. I definitely think one should be careful with the use of those three naughty words (I l#v! y@u.)  I've had to tell friends to calm down and enjoy the ride when they've freaked out because they're being treated well---I think it's the acceleration a relationship can have when things go well that can often lead to catastrophy. Most of all, if she can't take your good treatment, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. That's the downfall of good guys. The gentlemen just need to stay gentlemen and know that they are worth something. We don't need our good men going to trashy b*tc%es anyway.
190228
guys have this thing as to where whatever they do is right and whatever we do is wrong. forget that look as much as you want