how do you tell a guy you have been friends with all your life you are falling in love with him?
607866
Be straight up. just be prepared. Just because you do, it doesn't mean that he will reciprocate, especially if its a complete surprize to him. Also, I've seen this happen where its a friends-only relationship because they "aren't each others types", and don't play in the same crowds. She could be a wallflower, and he could be Mr. Popular...then she only gets hurt, because even thought they are friends, they will never be lovers due to those differences.
380462
it depends on your friendship with him. if he's koo just tell him. if he just sees you as a friend it's all good ... there's plenty good guys out there it just takes a little fine tooth comb to find him *smiles*n ahhh... i love men lol
534328
YOUR ACTIONS WILL REVEAL THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT A PERSON. BECASUE IT IS HARD TO HIDE IT IF YOU HAVE A FEELINGS FOR THE OTHER PERSON AND IF YOU DO WHY DON'T YOU LET HIM KNOW SO THINGS WILL BE IN PROPER PERSPECTIVE AND EACH OF YOU WOULD KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT RATHER THAN JUST KEEPING IT YOUR SELF...APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE AND LET HIM KNOW IT.. IT IS JUST FAIR THAT YOU LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND IF YOU ARE STARTING TO FEEL THAT YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH HIM , LET YOURSELF FALL IN LOVE IF YOU FEEL IT. BE OPEN WITH YOUR COMMUNICATIONS WITH HIM FROM THE BEGINING IT WILL BRING YOU A LONG LONG WAY..
1157610
It must suck to be in this position.  If I were in this sticky situation, I would be too scared to tell my best friend that I'm in love with him/her.  But hey, it's not like your best friend in with anyone right now.  Technically, he/she is single.  You can try to make yourself more noticeable and drop a few hints how you feel.\n\nIf you're confident enough, it would be great to confess.  Don't worry, if you guys are best friends, it totally wouldn't ruin the friendship.  I've had two best friends who confessed that they liked me, but we were such good friends that we didn't let that affect our friendship.
454460
I did it...8 years ago.  We've been married for the last 7!!!  So, it's ok.  BUT know that once you cross that line, there will be no going back to "the way things were" as friends.  So decide if you like him enough to risk a good friendship before you make your move.  Maybe think about it for awhile before you decide...even if you think you're really, really sure.
182099
well....if you don't love him than tell it to him so later he won't feel as bad as he would now.....or else you could just say that you just want to be friends now
81903
I know that this is not the answer that u would like but it is the truth. In order to fully answer this question you should provied more info. Examples: are you dating, if so how long, does she love you? The simplest answer is to tell her and take a chance. However if you are not dating then you have no basis to love her unless you have been friends for a long time. If you have been friends for a long time tell her. It won't necessarily ruin your friendship if you tell her how you feel but on the same note it could. If you are dating and it has not been long, then it would depend on how close you are and her personality. If you have been dating a long time then let her know. Even if she does not love you then you will know and be able to move on. Bottom line is that this is to complicated of a topic and more details should be included in the question.
641494
tell him your feelings
105786
do you feel the same way? if not tell him you were happy just being friends.
145611
Same way you tell any man you love him. Just do it... Like the Nike commercials.. *giggle* Don't be shy.. just go for it.
427793
If he is your best friend then you should be open to telling him anything. Let him know how you feel about him and he should be okay with that. Maybe throw some hints out there that you have slight feelings like that for him and ask him about when he tells you he loves you.. does he mean he "really" loves you or "just as friends" loves you!? You have to find out what his feelings are to be able to decide really what you should do!\n\nThey do say that the one you are supposed to be with is going to be your best friend. \n\nGood luck and I hope this turns out being the way you want it to be!
445907
Make 100% sure that you want to tell him, and know that there is a possibility that those feelings won't be returned.  Maybe he will feel the same way, but if he doesn't--try to stay friends.
1112769
tell him, its always good to tell someone when you like them
702132
Well I can tell you really like him by just listening to you babble on about how your suppost to tell him... lol. If I was you I would find an easy way of just letting him know your interested in him. you don't want to come out and say I have had feelings for you for years. That makes him believe you want a relationship and since thats not what your after now. Just try maybe bring up a past relationship of his or yours and when your discussing it and what went wrong in it. (works really good if its his old relationship your talking about) Just kind of casually drop in there "If I was her I wouldn't have done you that way" or something like " I know how great of a guy you are and I would have felt blessed to have you" things like that let him know that you see him for something more than a friend. if our talking about your old relationships then something like "I wish he would have been more like you" or something. you get the idea. little hints to let him know you could like him as more. and if the conversation doesn't get to ackward then try saying I wish we could get to know each other better we might find we could be more than what we are. and then go on about your visit and let in sink in his brain. Sometimes with guys just a suttle hint is like a bomb. just be cool relax and enjoy your time with him. and by the way I like the idea of a walk when your talking about it, gives your privacy and relaxes you both. Good Luck
1165132
Well if you really like him then you just tell him.  Just say that I would like to take this friendship to the next level like a date and see where it goes.  Don't have sex right away just take it slow and let it blossom.  I have been married to my friend for 9 years and tat is how we started..
78896
tell him you want to spend the rest of your life with him
194714
tell him how you feel.  don't ask for any answers, and don't expect any, but do let him know, and that way the invitation for him to address his feelings for you will be open to him.  i have to question if you are sure you are in love with him?  being in love is like nothing else in the world.  it isn't just the feeling of euphoria at being in a new relationship, it's the understanding that you would literally lay your life on the line for that person, that they are your best friend, lover, confidant, and partner in life.  it's the only feeling that will ever grow no matter how long you are together.  be sure of this before you say anything to "K".  I wish you luck and happiness.