In hispanic, i've never had a black chick, do i need to act black to get a black young lady?
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NOOO!! be your self because that's not really who you are and she'll appreciate it more. I'm a black girl too so i know.
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Funny question, even better than the "ghetto latinas" question, I'm a hispanic male born and raised in Cholo Territory, No I wasn't a cholo and yes it looks ridiculous, Even scarier than that though...Picture socks knee high on a 40yr old cholo with painted on eyebrows, lol.
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Why not a black woman?
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nope not important...in fact, if she were i might get suspicios...kidding. I mean the same standard does not seem to apply to males so I dont see why it should apply to females.
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Dude you don't have to be a pimp, gangster, or player....just be someone your not....No honestly don't be so shy... you kinda have to throw yourself out there and open up to them. But don't give them that i love you stuff because thats a turn off from the start....Be confident! and believe in yourself and the right women will come along...PS try to look for a best friend or someone you can hangout and be yourself around. \nlater player
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I don't really know, but I have a few theories regarding that question that I have not quite worked out yet.\n\nThis is in no way a slam on all Black Woman in the United States or the rest of the world because I have not met them all, but I as a Black man in my whole life starting from my own mother have never met a nice, or pleasent, or kind Black woman....not ever.  Like I said I don't mean this as a slam, I'm sure there are Black women out there who ARE nice and pleasent, I just never have crossed paths with them and it's a shame.\n\nIt's a shame that I am 44 years old and never had the opportunity to have sex with the women of my own race.   Perhaps it's the region where I live that seems to have a large population of Black women who have a problem with Black men, or the Black men in the area I live are so terrible to their woman that about time she wises up and dumps him, I happen along and she's mean to me because of what he did.  This could be a possibility.\n\nI just hope that before I die I get the opportunity to be close to a woman of my own race.  I doubt I will get this chance but a man's got to have something to shoot for.\n\nActually this question really makes me sad.
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i'm sorry but not all latinos eat tacos, talk really loud,have a big butt, control their women or allow themselves to be controlled by their man if they are a woman. stereotypes is what keeps us so ignorant. People being of the same race/religion/location have problems adapting to each other so adding a latino/latina into your relationship wouldn't be all too different from being with anyone else it just makes things a little spicier. my suggestion is that you try to befriend someone for who they are not where they are from.
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In my opinion there is no such thing as acting black or acting white, etc. Black is a race not a behavior you can not act such things.\nThere is a stereotype that certain races should act a certain way well to hell with that, just be yourself and you will be so much happier in life.
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some women like that. some don't. some MEN act that way some don't. It works with some women and it fails with some women. seriously doubt it's a BLACK MAN thing.
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I think there are real black girls in videos, they're just not in front.  Girls with mixed ethnic heritages are just more exotic looking, which is probably a big selling point.  You can't really argue that, as far as I'm concerned.  \n\nLook at people like Alicia Keyes, Vanessa Williams, Mya, Sade, et. al., they're all multi-racial, and exotic looking in their own ways.  They are some of the most beautiful black women I've ever seen.  Not to say that there aren't pretty "regular" black girls too, I only hang out with "dimes," so I know they exist.  I just think they've got different ideas about how they wanna make their place in the world.
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why would black girls want to be white... when white girls don't even want to be white..\n\nshit, most white girls will tan untill they appear latin, just so there not called whitey...
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DUDE! this is like the 1 millionth time u posted up this question!!! i already answered one of em! i told u (& so did a lot of other ppl) that its not ur frickin race!!! maybe shes just NOT INTO YOU!!!! get it through ur head! ur taking up space in the questions area....are u like in denial or something??? just accept it!
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Not all Black women are loud and date gangsters. I've been around white women, Asian women, and Latinas who are loud. You sound very self hating remember you came from a beautiful Black woman.
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BEING A BLACK FEMALE IS DEFINITELY BETTER BECAUSE I AM ONE. BUT ON THE SERIOUS NOTE...EVERYONE LOVES A SEXY BLACK FEMALE.
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I'm sorry that you've experienced this rejection.  I don't know if there is any specific reason as to why this has happened to you.  It could just be bad luck.  It could also be a self fulfilling prophesy that you've created.  You may come off as a bit intimidating and turning off certain women may have absolutely nothing to do with being black or purple or whatever.  I mean its also possible that Lesbians are just like other people too and some unfortunately have their own prejudices.  What it comes down to is that most of the time you can't change someones perceptions no matter how hard you want to.  But my advice for you is to try to focus less on race and more on individual women you encounter.  You are bound to find someone who will appreciate you.
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Well I can not speak for everyone. But I myself find some black women very attractive. I would like to date one some time . I guess I always wonder what my friends and family would think as well as what her friends and family would think but the bottom line is how we both feel towards each other.
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Actually, a large percentage of Latinas are mixed with Black.  Hello?  Either way, we all have "Flava" and curves!  LOL!\n\nHawkthree, the skin lightening is to lighten blemishes.  Black women come in so many different colors that many have no reason to lighten the skin.  Wherever we are, we can find man who prefers whatever kind of chocolate his heart desires (and yes, we come in white chocolate too, lol!)