Am paralyzed from the waist down. How can I tell if I am going to have kids. Please take this question serious
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It is possible. Ask your doctor.
302392
Your age plays a big factor.  Could be stress, diet, over exercising, weight, or even a medical condition such as fibroid tumors (which is what I had). Don't worry too much about it unless you skip two months...... \nBy the way...how you do definitely know that you are not pregnant?
294270
I'm sorry for your pain. Maybe if you quit trying so hard you will become pregnant. You haven't wasted your life. You have been a good wife to your husband. K
609058
Hey girl, I have had the same problem for the past eight years. My doctors tell me tha I have an hormone imbalance and this inhibits ovulation some months and ultimately affects my menstrual cycle.\n\nI was unable to get pregnant for some time until recently (my son is nine months).\n\nYou need to do tests to confirm whether or not this is so or if there are other problems. All the best!
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OUCH! Im sorry that happened. I dont think it will prevent you from having kids. That can hurt like hell even with a cup. Just try and imagine it without a cup! OUCH! just try and stay out of the way of those slappers! I know what it feels like and I pitty you. Get well soon!
77844
The fact that you're really not sure about whether or not you should, means DON'T. Wait until you KNOW that it's right. And just think about what if the condom breaks? Are you SERIOUSLY ready to be a mom?
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Stop worrying about coming and just think about how good it feels.  I am a woman, but I think it is probably about the same.  I have to think about how good it feels even when I don't feel very sensitive.  Think whatever it is you think right before you come and I think it will help.  However, I don't know if you have tried other postions or what, but my hubby loves me to be on my stomach with my legs together and his stradled over mine.  Whenever he's getting too tired to shoot he just flips me on my belly and puts it in and then puts his legs outside mine and is usually off in a minute or two.  I think it works cause I squeeze my muscles together around him, which is only easy to do in this postition.  Best wishes
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I LOVE your questions!! Now that that's out of the way: YES!!! I want to do SO MUCH and i'm already 36. I feel like time is running out, and I've got 2 kids, who need me, and when and how am I going to fit in all these things??
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Never feel guilty......  Does not help you or them!  Now you could test for any congenital defects if they are very severe like Down's syndrome or such.  As for more simple things... which are still complicated, like bipolar, schizophrenia and sorts, yes, that can be passed on.  But this information is available to us now, not back then.  Would I still have children, probably depending on how severe it is in the family.  However, my family have severe dyslexia.  Would I not want one of my children because of that, of course not.  I would become as knowledgeable as I could to make sure they have the best opportunities.  As for guilt mom, don't carry any, you can only live for tomorrow and can't change the past.  Don't let your children make you feel this way, they will not benefit from your weakness.  Good luck and remember, they are teens, they will become human beings once again once this age is passed.  Good luck!
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My husband and I married never expecting to have kids because of various problems I had in my early 20's.Yes, I prayed for my first baby...mostly for her and that she would be healthy. My doctor had told me that because of my weight (obese pregnancy) that I would be facing severe complications and possible loss of pregnancy but I didn't. Except for the usual stuff and even more wieght gain, I was healthy and so was she. Now my son on the other..he was a complete blissful and wonderful surprise. So with God all things are indeed quite possible. God bless you and your husband...with as many as you want. Love in Christ, ~J~ <><
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You may be having a kind of hormonal disbalance...Have a checkup done by a gyn or an endocrinologist.\n\nOnce the problem is detected and solved, I don't think you will have troubles to have children
359002
I have the same problem.  I'm 31 with 2 kids, and my periods have never been right since.  The cycle is shorter and the periods last longer.  Bummer.
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If you've been having this for a couple of months, it's definitely time to see a doctor.  You could have an infection of some kind that could damage your ability to have children.  You could be very ill.  Whether you can afford it or not, this is your health.
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This is something you are going to need to talk to your OB/GYN about.  Your health and your babies health are too important to take advice from people that are really not qualified to make this decision.  I hope all goes well with you and the baby!  Good luck!
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see the doc. i have a family member that could'nt have kids until she was in her 30's or 40, somethiong like that, but anyway something about her overys, but she finnally had kids after being treat from a doc.
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This is totally and completely a question you need to ask your doctor. However, I did know of a good friend who was in a similar situation, and after going to her doctor, discovered that she had some strange sensitivity to higher glycemic foods - once she controlled her intake of them, it was easier for her to get pregnant. Her doctor did say that many women suffer from a similar condition, and when I tried it myself, even I felt better (cyclical-wise, I mean, as I'm not trying to get pregnant yet) but again, the best bet is to talk to your doctor about all of this - maybe doing a little research on your own wouldn't hurt, either, so that you'll be that much more able to discuss a plan of action with him or her). Best of luck to you and you husband!
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I am so proud of you gal!! And even more glad that you decided to post your experience here for other woman to see that its doable..  a lot of woman just think its impossible, its hard but not impossible!! I am happy for you and your kids, you do not need a man like that in your life! I bet you will find better just give it some time as for him thinking that you will not make it on your own prove him wrong!!\nWish you and your kids all the best!