What advice would you give to someone as they are being arrested?  Suggestions on what to do or not do.?
609600
As a police officer, the best advise for anybody being arrested, pulled over for speeding, stpped walking down the street, however you come into contact with law enforcement- Shut your mouth! Do not volunteer ANY info besides name date of birth etc, when an officer says "Do you know how fast you were going?" NEVER say "yeah I was going a little fast wasn't I?", say "No officer, was I speeding?" the way you answer a question can prove willfull violation of the law be it on a speeding ticket or a murder charge. You have a right to remain silent for a reason.
153313
If a person has given advanced directions not to resusitate, then out of respect for this person & this person's directives, the answer is do not resusitate.  This is easy to say, but I can appreciate the feelings of the person or persons who witness a person they love going into arrest.  You want to do something.  You feel you need to do something.  Thing is, allowing someone to leave this earth according to their wishes is sometimes, most times, a gift of love and respect.  Going against the wishes of a loved one, trying to keep them near, is most always a selfish need to hang on.  \n\nThink about your need to have a say in your life and your celestial passing.  Give the same respect to your loved ones as you would want them to give to you, regardless of what you would decide for yourself.
550732
he's in jail now what can he do for you while he's in there. you need to think whats best for you & ecspecially this child. i know a couple guys that did the same thing to their girl so they had support while they were in jail than once they were out it was like screw you. You deserve better good luck!!
537654
The best solution is for you to find a safe place to go and get there!  He needs counseling and a little jail time.
306801
take it to the police \nhonesty is better than living with guilt
716974
Apparently this person has not learned the value of making a responsible decision.  \n\nHe's not going to heed advice because he's still too immature to hear what you are saying.\n\nHe's spoiled rotten and above having to follow the rules of society.  \n\nWhen he lands up in jail leave him there.  Tell him this.  Then try not to spend a lot of time with this person. \n\nWhen you do have conversation and he tells you about his inappropriate behaviors try not to react.  Respond as is appropriate, "Well, my friend, that sounds totally inappropriate."  Say it calmly and respectfully.  Don't react, respond.  And then end the conversation regarding his poor decision making and it's consequences.  He's a drama queen.  Don't feed into it.\n\nYou can't make decisions for him.  His behaviors are irresponsible.  Tell him that and then walk away.
327105
I agree with all the people who say call the police.  The truth is, though the threat may not actually be carried out., you need to treat it as a very serious threat to her life and safety.  The most important thing you can do is GET HER TO A SAFEHOUSE OR SOMEPLACE SECURE.  If she needs protection from this guy, start off by getting her out of this situation.   Also, be her friend and help her feel safe and confident.  If the guy asks you where she is or anything, tell him NOTHING and WALK AWAY.  If he tries to hurt you or violate you, run and bring attention to yourself and get to a public place right away.  If this happens at your house, call the police right away and report him as a trespasser.
513164
If its someone you love and care about confront them and take action. Don't let someone on drugs ruin their lives. The worst thing you can do in this sort of situation is let it happen!!
67387
Just call the police a couple times.  That'll do it!  The judge will give them the option of help or jail.
792129
Quickly write down a description of the people .. yell out to call attention to the situation .. and call the cops.. you never know they might catch tme later , and the slimess chance they might get it back.. other than that they may catch them so someone else doesnt get something stolen.
1018214
What she should do is turn herself in. You watch her kids if she has any. It doesn't go over well in court when you know there is a warrant out for your arrest, and you do nothing about it.
52062
Call up the police, on a pay phone. If you go to the cop shop have bail money.
865416
i am  very  sorry  to  hera   this      i know   how  sad  jail  is      i ve  seen  quite  a bit   of  heart breaking   story   / however  ther  is  hope    you  need  to   contact  the  judge    state  attoreny and  a lawyer    i   dont  know his   offence    . however   ther  iss  a  chance that  he  can  be   on  house   arrrest    , if this  happen   its  is  SO VERY IMPORANT  THAT  HE  COMPLISE  100 PERCENT  I   DO   KNOW THAT IF YOU ARE ON  HOUSE ARREST   ITS IS TAKEN VERY SERIOUSLY  IF YOU GET THIS   DONT  LET  HIM  MESS UP  BECAUSE THINGS COULD GET WORSE
309538
WEll if someone is being attacked, I would wait till they stopped being attacked before coming to help - well that is if I know I will not be of much help ( I mean like someone is being shot and stuff) - but alot of it all depends upon the circumstances - I would probably call the police and stay nearby to relate what I saw when the police come..
896645
Many rapists (and worse) start out that way, you need to be pro-active in getting this guy caught.  I like the above suggestion of surveillance camera.  Anything to trap him, get him identified and behind bars will help society at large.  Do your duty.
950101
A bench warrant they won't come banging down  your door for her, but if she gets stopped by a cop for any reason and he/she runs her, they will find it and haul her off to jail... which may actually be the best thing for her, if she is out of control... it's sad to say.. but you may consider calling it in yourself and telling them where they can find her... she has to learn now.. otherwise when she is older she'll be worse
525028
Dear Friend,\n\nIf that's all there is to the story, there is a 0% chance you're going to jail.\n\nYour Friend,\nFrancesois