Should I forgive my exboyfriend for cheating on me?
603984
YES! You should. See, he had the guts to come and tell you, if he had done it on purpose, he would have tried to hide it from you. This girl took advantage of him and while it may have been his fault, the beer didn't help. Make it clear you aren't happy and you are going to forgive him this once. Perhaps give him suggestions to make it up to you, like taking you out to dinner or something extra special. Make him work a little bit to say sorry, but make sure you make it clear you forgive otherwise you may lose him. Everyone makes mistakes. To Err is human, to forgive is divine.\n\nPerhaps talk with this girl and make it clear that this was not okay. Tell her to back off and perhaps get your anger out on her, not your boyfriend, cause it sounds like she was just waiting for him to get drunk. Being drunk, you can't remember anything and everything becomes a bluf, so an offer of sex would be pleasing because you didn't know any better.\n\nFYI, don't become overly suspcious and break up with im if he looks at another girl (and I mean just looks). Men are attracted to all kinds of women and him looking at another girl and staying with you is a compliment of how he loves you more than physical attraction could bring.
564280
Well the word should be forgive as one never forgets...  If you truly love him and want to be with him, you will and can find it in your heart to forgive him...  But remember the possibility is always going to be there he will do it again.  Not always once a cheater awlays a cheater.  You will hear that.  That is not a fair statement. \nBest wishes to you.
1066365
Everyone deserves a second chance but if it was something you can not get over don't bother taking him/her back. It will cause problems. Leave the past in the past. Start over new.
141608
If you really love him and you are sure in your heart he won't cheat again there is no reason not to give him another chance.  We are all human and make mistakes.  The key though is has he really changed, and can you truely forgive him.  If either of these isn't possible then move on.  If they are, then give it a try and be careful with your heart.
207337
I was dating my ex for a year and a half, i found out he cheated on me in begining...we were engaged when he told me. After that i found out he had cheated on me a couple more times and i called of the wedding.I didn't like the fact that i forgave him the first time and he still did it again. I think you should breakup with him and someone who loves you and won't cheat on you. If they cheat once they will do it again
835429
Ask yourself if you can live with that person, can you ever trust them again? Can you forgive them? Otherwise you will live a life of always wondering, and checking in on that person. Make sure you are not just avoiding the obvious- to dodge the pain now. It may hurt to let go now, but later you will be grateful, when you meet the right person who wouldn't cheat on you.
151550
I am sorry to say this as the simple fact that you are asking  means you want to forgive your spouse. In my personal past experience as well as the experiences of my friends (both male and female) evrytime a cheater was taken back, they did it again. Some immediately, some years later, one with the same person (which hurts like you have no idea) and only ONE that has seemingly never done it again, BUT the trust has never been the same so the relationship has never gotten back to what it once was. Good Luck with your decision.
479643
If you love the other guy, stay with him! An ex should always be forgotten. But I don't blame you for feeling a little cheated on. You'll get over it if you love the boyfriend you're with at the moment.
938797
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
399703
yes i think it's time to forgive him....put the past behind you he may be a diferent person....give him a chance.
435783
He made his decision long time ago. He cheated on you, let him prove that he wants to be wtih you. But what you should be asking yourself is can you get past his cheating and never bring it up can you forgive him and will you get past this and be in a healthy meaningful relationship. You owe it to yourself and to him.
116127
well if you are going to take him back then you have to get over it. otherwise let him go. i cheated with a guy and we got back toghether and he treated me bad because of it instead of like loveing me and us chillin because i was faithful to him for a while and well guess what i did it again and we are now broke up. but you are not wronge to give him another chance. people do change and though it is not an excuse yall were both going through some pretty bad stuff so i mean he could really be sorry. but if he does it again which he may not then leave him unless you want to give him another chance (there is no such thing as to many chances but when you get tired of soemthing you area tired of it) so i hope if he does keep cheating you will leave cause youdeserve better but its really up to you but this could work out for yall and i hope it does. good luck and God bless.
429758
Your ex is an ex for a reason...& I'm sure you remember those reasons, don't you?..So why would you look back!!...Give you new friend a chance at least, if not, move on...There's always bigger & better fish out in the sea..
377668
The question isn't whether or not it was cheating what you should ask yourself is what's the possibility that someone else might tell him what happen.  If you tell him he might forgive you but I doubt it but if he hear it from someone else you can forget it.  You can tell him I said if he is a good man meaning secure and confident he should believe you and let it go.
850785
You could start by reading the million other posts and responses on how to get over someone.  Most of them will tell you the same thing, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is time.  Forgiving is easy, just do it, forgetting however, is a different story.  You will never forget him or the good and bad times you shared, it's impossible without the assistance of a labotamy (sp*).  So forgive, take all the time necessary and do your best to keep your self respect and move on.
222946
ask yourself if you'll ever forgive him cause if you cant you wont be able to forget, trust has to be earned, can he earn yours back.
1099161
Forgiving my ex girlfriend for cheating. She then thought well, if he forgave me for that time he will forgive all the times to come. I will never forgive a cheater again!!!!