how much does a guy's virginity matter's to the  ladies out there...??
597264
Not a lot of girls deserves a virgin man, and many wouldn't want one these days. but if there were more men like you, we would be in a better shape these days. and girls/guys relations would be much healthier. with no illusions about bad guys or cheating girls matters. but unfortunately its not whats going on. and the dating game will continue to rule our relationships.
293629
Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
334045
i think you're still a turn on. i think more women nowadays should stay virgins until marriage. i've kissed guys of course, just on the lips or cheek though, but ive never dated or made out with a guy or girl. and im planning on keeping my virginity until im married or have met the one i know im going to marry. go virgins! :P
461175
Just off the top of my head:\n * To be "special" to the lady in question - offering virginity is a precious gift\n * To show that they were safe from STDs\n * To show that they have strong will, and that you are the one to break it down.\n * Wants her to take the lead - it is FUN to be seduced.
636288
No, it wouldn't bother if she wasn't. A woman that is a virgin would probably piss me off due to her "inexperience"\nI would rather be with a woman that knows what she wants out of a man in the bedroom, not a "little girl" who doesn't know how to be sensual or demanding. When it's time to "do da nasty" I want to be pleased in every, not play "teacher"
442830
Why would a woman answer for a man?  Some men like virgins because men feel powerful over the fact they have not had sex.  The man can be the "teacher" and show how much he knows.  I personally don't care for virgins.  I would prefer to be with a woman who knows what she is doing and what she wants.  It make the sexual experience more enjoyable...for both.
69567
if you have never seen a penis and he knows this and is still wanting to have sex with you then his care or you is not very deep. He may care for you kinda. But not the way he should to have the right to take your virginity. This is a fact. YOU WILL NEVER FORGET THE PERSON WHO TOOK YOUR VIRGINITY! Is this the guy you really want to remember when you are 40 and married and have kids running around the house? When you and your college girlfreinds talk about your frst time, is your story going to be one of compassion and care, or one of you not knowing anything and being at his mercy to hope he doesn't hurt you, because YES it will hurt the first time. What is your value? How much are you worth? Are you a good person who is nice and tries to do her best? Then you are very valuable and your virginity can only be given away once. Is this guy so great to you that you want him to have something that you can only give to one person in all your life? When you are young it is very very very hard to tell a guy no. Guys have a way of saying things that make our insides melt. and some will pressure us and accuse of us not caring about them if we don't have sex with them. But if they think we don't care about them, then why are they trying to have sex with us??? hmmmmmm   some will even threaten to spread rumors about us if we don't have sex with them. and i'll tell you how to handle those guys....you tell them if they say anything bad about you that you will tell everybody you DID sleep with them and they had a tiny penis. That will shut them up! As for seeing a penis before you have sex, go to the library and look under books on human sexuality. You can find proper pictures of both a mans body and yours'. This is a decision that will be your first step into making big decisions that affect your life for the rest of your life. If you think you want to wait a week or two and go see some books at the library first to know more before you have sex, then tell him you have decided to wait for a few days. If he says that it is not fair or wants to now why, tell him it is your decision not his or anybody elses and you will let him know when you are sure you are ready.
236553
As a woman, I really do not think that a guy should mind!  Did anyone ask if you boyfriend is not a virgin, do you mind?
214121
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I kept it because I thought it was what God would want me to do. Once I lost it, I almost became a nympho. I felt I had to make up for lost time. All of my friends were out getting laid and partying and now they still think of me as the nerd. You might as well know that one day, sex is going to be a huge part of your life...for the rest of your life so when you feel the time is right, I say go for it. Don't be a slut, but for that person you have feelings for, go for it.
926916
I lost my virginity at age 15? As you can tell, it didn't mean much to me. I wanted the guy to love me, so I did it. No, I definitely did not have an orgrasm during sex the first time. Almost all women don't their first time, and I know alot of girls who have never had one during penetration. They might've faked it .....  I definitely regret it. I wasn't with the right guy, and I knew it. I would consider waiting, I know I wish I did.  By the time my true love came around (he was a virgin), I had already had sex with someone else. =(  It's not that it's bad to have sex. You just want to make sure that it's the right person, and that you wont regret it later on. I know I was so eager to lose my virginity, and I was like oh, I wont regret it, and yet I do. If you decide to, make sure he's gentle and cares about you enough to stop if you ask him to. I have a friend who told me that the guy she did it with, just went at it, without caring that it hurt her "like hell." Best of luck, sweetie.
105127
Hey man\nwhat you did...I think it was great...I hope she doesn't...if some how(by odd chance you find out she didn't) please let me know...lucky1_29_91@yahoo.com...it will be a real blessing to know one less girl will still be a virgin
83777
If you are wanting her for just that what does it matter if she is a virgin or not? I think the question is how do you get her to have sex with you? Start slow by holding her hand and then go further, like a silent game of chicken. Always worked on me.
355806
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
921605
Look....you have to decide, were you with her because you thought she was a virgin?  I am pretty positive that there was much more to her than that.  So, her not being a virgin should not make a difference.  Women are funny when it comes to relationships....they almost sort of WIPE THE SLATE CLEAN after each relationship.  Not just with the words they say, but they actually do it mentally.  Men like the notches on their belts to show off and brag about, but women literally like to FORGET it ever happened, especially if it was not a good relationship.  So, maybe in her mind she had a bad experience, and did not want it to count.  That does not make her a bad person, because if you look at it, that could be a plus for you.  At least you know it is her past, it is over, and she does not even want to think of it.  Maybe if after you were together longer, she would have come out and told you, you never gave her that chance, you went snooping in places you should not have been.  Maybe it was just internet talk also, you do not know that she did not say all of that online, and then chicken out when it came down to it.  Talk to her.  You want honesty and trust, then trust her an talk to her, and own up to the fact that you snooped through her private stuff.  You BOTH need to be honest to each other.
514971
No.  I would see her in a good light.  It says something respectable about her character that she is a virgin.  I would wait.
1020360
I'd rather the man for me would be a virgin, if I ever find him, but I don't expect him to be. Virginity just doesn't seem to be important to very many people anymore.
415863
Dont listen to people who say virgins dont excised. I am one so yes they still exist. I am one by choice. I dont want to be labeled as a whore. Look for the ones that carry themselves different form other girls. Some may come off more reserved and shy or some are more coverd up. In other words have class.