How do people as nasty as Simon Cowell get away with their anti-social behaviour?  Imagine working with him?
600088
He says the truth.. has hurtful as it may be... a friend of mine is like that... even if it hurts, they learn from him...\n\nI'd work with Simon... it would help me improve myself even if It would be emotiannaly challenging
816437
Yeah.  Fortunately for me, I never lose sleep over folks like that...they usually tell on themselves over a bit of time.  People discover how mean they are and then drop them like a bad habit.  It's their problem, not yours, so don't worry about it.  Time has a way of righting all the wrongs.
823508
It's none of your business you nosey cow. Sounds like your a bit jealous. I run a company and would sack you on the spot for challenging someone over their private life.
638444
When you find that person, please spread the word, because I can't quit the darn things either, and I hate it.  I'd like to give the person a good slapping as well.  Ha ha.
626458
Yes, but just try to avoid them until they calm down. If they have any decency at all they'll apologise to you later. On a more serious note, if they are like that then they shouldn't be in the job role they're in. This is unprofessional and certainly doesn't make you feel that they are approachable. I hope I am not like that to my lot.
211530
never--he is antisocial. And he works...
1089003
You have to hang round famous people and they are pretty scummy and you won't get paid while you schmooz.Otherwise you could set up an agency and apply to them as clients.But why? They are nasty,selfish,self-centred and mean to their assistants and you don't get to join in any of the good stuff
590310
Living well is the best revenge. If this person is really trying to ruin your reputation, you can go to court and file a harassment charge. Other than that, you can simply do business in an ethical way, be active in your business community, be good to your employees and customers, etc. In other words, you build a reputation that flies in the face of what she says. She will eventually dig her own grave. Trust me.\n\nThis happened with a former boyfriend who broke up with me. He tried to justify it by telling his friends and his new girlfriend all kinds of things about me. I got even by being totally sweet to all of them. It was the best way to prove that his lies were not true and that I was better than he was, anyway,.
42551
Get coaching from Simon Cowell. :-D
35523
I think you should be very careful.  You never know what people will do these days.  Talking with people is a good way to bring about change sometimes.  Depending on what they are doing, calling the police or other authorities might be advisable also.  Here is something I did once, that I think is pretty funny, and it also proved to be effective.  My next door neighbor's carport was right by my bedroom window.  I worked nights, and slept late some days.  He liked to work on cars and always played rap music very loudly while doing so.  One day I decided I'd had enough, so on my side of the privacy fence I set up a very powerful mobile dj system with the huge speakers on stands at ear level and aimed right at the fence where he would be working on the other side.  As soon as he started to play the rap music and work on his car, I started playing a CD of Dean Martin at full power.  It drowned out his music.  I let it play for about a half hour then I shut it off.  By then he had given up and went inside.  He never played his music loud again.  I guess he wasn't a big fan of Deano!
711539
through lucidity---if he is as you describe, he has hang ups...and in that case, all you have to do is expose your casual and regular personality...so that when he tries to put you down, say...you take it as if of no importance (effectively ignoring it and not caring)...this, as you will learn, pisses THEM off...because you expose their hang ups of trying to put others down...and their NEED and importance to do so...because inside they are insecure...\n\nif you just don't  care about it, and just do your job, as long as he does not disrespect you or make you do something that could be concidered disrespectful (in which case you should beat the shit out of him and quit your job)...you should just do your job to the best of you ability, and not give a shit or care about what he does...\n\nyou just go home and have fun with friends or co-workers--no biggy. \n\nIf he is "uncivilized" --I don't know what you would mean by that--I guess, in my case, I wouldn't  care---he's uncivilized, its apparent, its his problem--and most people will look down upon him for it, and laugh maybe if its really bad (say he farts a lot in public)-- there is nothing I can do--except educate him if he is willing so people don't laugh at him--otherwise, just don't care--\n\nsay, if he starts picking his nose or farts a lot, you don't have to 'tolerate' it...you just don't look or be near by him--end of story. \n\nif he is rude---just make it apparent that he is being rude and just do your job...\n\nwhat you have to realize, is not to let it get to you, imagine him as made of cardboard and electronics...he's a peice of crap--if he "subtly insults you" or pushes your buttons--you don't give a fuck--unless he goes to far, and then you make a point of demanding respect, in extreme cases ,this requires you to quit your job..\n\nOtherwise, don't be so 'finiky' I guess is the only advice I could give you.
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i know these two and paris hilton, haven't they realised yet that NO-ONE GIVES A LIVING PIECE OF DONKEY C**K ABOUT THEIR LIVES.  if they realised that the majority of the sane world thought they were just a buch of idiots with some cash they would probably realised we wish them all to jump off of a cliff together.  i hate them all, every time i hear a piece of information about them and see someone trying to BE them i just want to rip out my hair and run in circles screaming.  GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
295218
Bear with it ... he will soon stop being a wanker. Don't give him anything to work with  don't play his game.
515420
This is perfectly normal,almost every-one come across such persons.The art of it is to avoid confrontation with them and just keep cool.Main thing is, are you ready to stoop that low, perhaps not, there is no grace in it.One must not loose self esteem  and decorum for such persons,if you do it will be the same thing [rude and obnoxious].Iam with you on this.\nI too, came across a certain person in my locality, who opposed the idea of serving the community,free of charge.I went in for having an association and for its registration with the government authorities and succeeded in getting the registration no.But the gentleman in question went hammers and tongs for my skin, and declared he will devise a way for getting me arrested in a fake case.I stood by my conviction and avoided him. Now after a period of almost a year he has cool-down.
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We are doing about that in sociology at the moment! \n\nWe are doing about how youth in increasingly subject to preventative targeting and restriction from public space, and we have already tried the classical music treatment in England and it has worked really well!!  Im not sure when exactly but it was about 2 yrs ago that I heard about it being played in train stations at night.\n\nI think it pretty much does work....who wants to listen to Stravinsky at their favourite hang out place? Who would want to listen to Public Enemy over a romantic meal? I think the reasons it works are obvious.\n\nI think its a great Idea and although most of the people on my course say it was an outrage and the result of unfair stereotyping..........they seem to forget that young ppl can feel intimidated by other young ppl and are the  main victms of youth crime. So the interests its protecting arent some great opressive "force" hovering above about the descend at any minute to encapture us all, as some ppl seem to annoyingly and stupidly believe. I think I am the only one being honest in  our seminars sometimes, the rest just follow whatever view is fashionable and non offensive to hold. It does my head in as you are probably seeing right now!!\n\nWhen has it been the right to intimidate people and cause trouble? Its addressing a real and exisiting problem and it frustrates me that no one wants to say it.
783154
Sounds to me like this guy has very low self-esteem and has to make himself feel important by belittling others.  Find another job or ask for a transfer.  Life is too short to put up with such bullshit!
621589
anti social behaviour order