Anyone know if there is anything that I can do to win back the heart of my Ex?
613078
Reality hurts don't it. I think the main reason women cheat is because of insecurity.   You should ask yourself what lead to me to cheat?  and would I do it again.  That poor man is hurt and probably doesn't want to go through that again. I know i wouldn't. From a mans standpoint especially if he loved you...he probably still pictures u banging the guy in his mind. There is a big wound in the relationship..and like any physical cut it takes time to heal. But you really cant do anything because the ball is in his court.  He will comeback if he completely forgives you.
476642
Hmmm...the best way to get over your ex???? Get a group of friends together and go out and have a good time! Go dancing, go to a movie, even invite them over to hang out. Do anything you can to keep your mind off the ex. Then, throw out anything the ex ever gave you. Get rid of it all, burn it if you want. Have a "cleansing". Take a nice long shower, indulge in some bubble bath even, do something nice for yourself. Go spend some money if you've got it, and then, when you are ready, go shopping for another person to be with!:) GOOD LUCK!
746883
You can't. If you get back with him it will not be hte same as before. He will not trust you for whatever reason you broke up int he first place. Find someone new & start fresh.
938797
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
850873
Give her a little time...try to win her back with little things that you know she likes....and hopefully you learned dont get stupid drunk around her_
123910
There is always a chance, at the moment give that person some space, and you need space to to think about what went wrong and see how you can get past this hurdle, then try to win the person back, cont push it though because thne you will be rejected. but you will know if there is a chance..... and if there isnt.... try and move on dont just by stuck on that person\nHope everything works out for the best\n\nXoXo\nme
973332
you should talk to him\ntell him that you are sorry, and tell him that you still have feelings for him and that you want him back\nits better if you do this in person, trust me i have experience\nEVERYTHING goes alot better (even the relationship) when you do things in person
133365
There is not much you can do.  From experience it is best to keep your distance. It will make it easier for your ex in the long run trust me.  Cut your losses and move on before you worry about something that just takes time to heal the wounds. If you keep hanging around and continue to permit yourself to be subjected to him you could possible make it harder on yourself and get hurt in the long run.
542783
2 years?  Whoa.  Well, first make sure that you've done everything you can to get him back, otherwise you'll always wonder if there was something you could have done.  If he means that much to you, then nothing will stop you from getting him back.  But if it doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be, and you can honestly say you tried your best.   But you HAVE to move on!  There are so many other people out there, and you have to believe that there will be someone else as good as or even better than this guy.
1098347
Nope. Once someone states that the love is gone..Well that's just it.\nMove on, and get someone who deserves you :)\n\nBest of luck
485760
Use this hard time to take care of yourself.  Take time to do things that you enjoy that perk your spirits(bubble baths, yoga, workout, massage, etc.) and keep your heart healing.\n\nYou have a pretty good perspective on what you want to do and how you want this breakup to work.  No matter what you tell yourself in your head, though, your heart will still hurt for a time.  Good luck.
945450
It depends on what caused the break up... But flowers and candy can patch just about anthing up. If it doesn't do it for you, just remember their are plenty of fish in the sea.
689185
show them you care. that you want them back. if they really did like you in the past it's hard to totally get over that so there's probably some feeling still there. \n\nGood Luck!
1116175
hotti, i was in the same situation.  I loved him and he cheated so i broke up w/ him.  It was hard to get over and i thought that i would never get over him, but i did.  \n\nFirst, get rid of anythign and everythign that reminds you of him.  EX:  Pics, notes, letters...ect\n\nNext, now that you have your mind off of him, keep ot off and try new things.  Make sure to be having fun.  Go to a club and hang out with friends.  Party.  Then do more fun stuff like somethign you never did b4.  If you have nvr been surfing, try that.  Or try any of these:\n~skydiving\n~bunjee jumping\n~eat a lot of ice cream\n~introduce urself to a new type of music\n~go to a concert and 'Rock out!!'\n~get a journal and in a red pen write "I hate _________"  (fill his name in)  and fill the whole jorrnal.  If that dont work, use a more appropriate word, like a*s*s* , jerk, loser, or anythign else.  Be creative.\n~hang out with a million other people you dont know\n~have a night on the town with your mom or best friend.\n\nHere are some really fun things that you could do to get him mad:\n~order magazines in his name and send them to his house.  Make sure thay are girly or childish magazines\n~sneak into his house and draw all over his face with red marker\n~hang all of his underwear outside with a sign that says "A*S*S* crack undies.  Free.  Never been used.  lol (do you get it)\n~Just have fun.\n\nI hope i helped.  Dont cry over a jerk.  You will definately find a better guy who loves every part of you no matter what.
72802
Most definitely bring him.  It will help your ex get over you.
1068811
Contact a local law firm and ask them to write a letter on your behalf to your former partner. I have found that the implied threat of legal action is generally low cost and sufficient to get action.\n\nBest of success.
733745
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety