how do i approach my bf to kiss him?we both want to but just never get around to it when we're alone,plz help!
604384
My dear, you just go for it!!!\n\nGive him some clues...lick your lips, look at his lips, twirl your hair.  When all else fails, you have to take matters in your own hands and just smack one right on his lips.  Do it softly - lick his lips; tease him, bite him GENTLY.  Kissing is FUN....Do your thing.  Enjoy.
1168433
I know just how you feel.  Before my first kiss, I was completely freaked out because I didn't have a clue what to do.  And all the "how to kiss" articles in the teen magazines never gave any specific examples of what to actually do.  I would say just be sure and wait till are you are totally comfortable and ready (but remember that the butterflies won't completely go away) and just make sure your boyfriend knows that you want to, but you're nervous, and ask him to go slow.\n\nThat being said, I'll try my hand at a couple tips.  Like someone else said, it's basically like exploring the other person's mouth.  Start with normal kisses, gradually open your mouth as you go (not like you're yelling or anything, but just like you're breathing with your mouth open), and just put your tongue in his mouth (do it relatively gently tho) and just kinda run your tongue in circles around his tongue.  Once you do it a few times, you'll just kinda pick it up.\n\nAnd also, if you're serious about not having sex before marriage (which I think is great) be sure and set well-defined rules and boundaries because once you start making out, it's incredibly easy to want to go father and you probably won't think of anything but that.  Don't trust that you'll know what's too far when you get to it, because it definitely doesn't work that way.  Some rules you might wanna try are limiting where hands and kisses are allowed, not being alone for prolonged periods of time, always keeping the door open, etc.\n\nBelieve me, I know it's scary as crap, but it really is not that big of a deal, I promise.
62705
maybe he is a little scared to do the first move, why don't you try to kiss him and see what happens.  if he doesn't respond or backs off, then there maybe some serious problems.  and you could talk about it.  but don't let another month, week, day go by without trying to kiss him.  it is best to get it out in the open.  just think of the possibilies once you start kissing and he is into it, then you won't be able to get him to stop :P
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You don't seem comfortable with your bf. If you are still shy with him, ask yourself why? Why can't you open up with him? Better know yourself before you proceed. \nCommunication will be a good way to let him know how you feel, if this is just your nature even with intimate partner. If he can understand your apprehension, he make try to change his conversation with you.\nBest for you two will be to be comfortable with each other, where there is no barrier too what you both can do. Remove any possible misunderstanding in your relation and talk.
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you should drop little hints, like you and him should watch a romance movie or something then start up a conversation, saying I would do something like that.  If you really want something you should just go for it, just kiss him or tease him until he wants to kiss you, make him want you.
765732
Talk to him about it. I know that sounds lame, but just ask him why, or surprise him and make the first move. Maybe he feels a little uncomfortable, just make it seem natural, hold his hand and don't say anything. Just grab it and act like nothing happened, maybe then he'll feel better about it, and before you know it, you're going to be the cutest couple!\nHope I Helped!  Å
406071
Theres not really a right way to kiss someone.No matter how small or wide you open your mouth theres always some sort of saliva exchange.Uck!lolz...So just kiss the way you feel most comfortable with.Jus make sure you dont open your mouth too wide.LOLZ
1129569
That's actually a tough situation because there's no guaruntee he'll ever been 100% ok with affection. This isn't going to help much, but start out small by trying to be affectionate at home and work your way up. Small things, like hugs, hold hands while watching a movie *at home*, and the occassional kissing that doesn't lead to sex.... IF that ever becomes comfortable then you move up to small social settings with friends. You don't want to jump right into situations where there are a lot of random people around. If you can't get up to or past the stage where you can be affectionate in front of friends it would probably be best to let it go. You don't want to push to hard, and in the end it's not always possible to change a person. I hope this helps.
465401
Some guys like to be the first to make the move. But some guys like to have you kiss them. Either way you shouldn't ask. It makes it seem to planned. Just be spontaneous and kiss him. I don't know how your guy is but most guys are turned on by girls who make the first move because chances are they want to kiss you but don't want you to freak out.\n\n<3\nPhoenix
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HE IS SCARED! Trust me, he did not kiss you just for the fun of a kiss and then change his mind. Don't be pushy just be available. Try to be a safe place for him to go when he is feeling strong enough. If you become clingy, needy, or overly dramatic you will scare him off and lose you best friend and your love. Friendship is the root of great relationships. This has real potential, that is scary. Just back off and give him some time. I would keep up with the occasional text message, short and sweet, but avoid any type of demand. He will come around.
582951
I would just do kiss him when the time seems right...It just doesnt seem right to ask...But a question like "would you feel comfortable kissing me" might be a good question or instead of saying me you could say "a girl you just met" or something like that...
1087811
Well it depends on the situation and circumstance. If you want to just kiss leisurely in public, then it is recommended that you kiss him with a closed mouth. If you are at home then you can start off by gently kissing him and then get a little deeper. You may then begin to open your mouth and gently massage him with your tongue. Chances are, he will begin to do the same. Really, the only way you can learn is by practicing it. So pucker up! (if you found this helpful then make this your best answer, thanks)
741735
Making a makeout session amazing is different for everyone, talk to your boyfriend and ask what he likes and if you don't like what hes doing tell him and suggest something else or just experiment one day do different movements, speeds, angles, and even environments
695448
hey, don't worry about it so much. it is totally natural. has he ever kissed anyone? even if he has, no first kiss is perfect. do you want to kiss him???? if you do, then go for it. if he already told you that he wants to, then there is no embaressment of him not wanting to kiss you back. i'm sure you'll like it and want to do it a lot more, but till you have the first one, you'll be missing out the longer you wait. Good Luck!\n\n-TJ
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I would not kiss him. My brother and an old friend dated behind my back, and it hurt. \nI don't advise it\n\nBecause if you date him & problems arise, who are you gonna turn to? Your BFs sister?\nThat is putting her in the middle of something she probably wants no part in.
1025672
Well how long have you guys been dating?  He may want to kiss you too, but is too shy to ask.  I'm shy, and it took 3 months after he asked me out to actually kiss him.  I was too scared.  He had to make all the moves. Just ask him. You won't sound funny.
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Look don't come onto him. If he's a good guy he won't want you to kiss him or have sex. All you need to do is sometimes hold his hand when you sit together and give him a quick hug every one in a while. Trust me. I'm a guy and that is great.