my boyfriend of 3 months is trying?
609202
As a mom of a six year old, I can understand your concern. BUT she's five!  A little to young to bear resentment issues. Unless otherwise introduced by other parties.  AND three months IS long in the whirlwind of the honeymoon stage, BUT it's only three months!  Slow down girl for you and your daughters sake.  Maybe she is being distant because of other men that have left too soon...?
694188
That means stop pushing! He wants to take things slow and he believes you're rushing into things. Relax and don't force him to do anything. Let him make his decisions about you himself.
305027
Well just tell him, explain it the way you did here. Since you two are already intimate, no guarantee that he will wait around the three months. In the future wait longer before you become intimate with someone, instead of changing your mind after wards, and cutting them off. That is going to send some pretty mixed signals. Hope it works out for you, if he does stick around he's a keeper ;)
402403
Stop being so needy and let him do the chasing - right now you are a sure thing...ignor him for a while or be just too busy for him
1044617
Boyfriend, don't do it! \n\nBe blessed and don't jump into that forced mess.
1090700
Hi Sally Mae! Sorry that you're getting somewhat, mixed signals from your boyfriend. I don't think it's too soon to talk to him openly about this. To me, it doesn't sound like he is about to break up with you. You two have been together for a month now so you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about this. I really hope things work out because I can tell you really like him. You'll never really know how he feels until you talk to him. You have been in the relationship long enough to deserve to know clearly and exactly what's going on! Good luck to you and I pray everything works out!
1070552
i say he loves and respects you and is trying to learn from his mistakes - before he leaped too quickly and it ended badly. I usually tell guys to wait until she is ready but I have to switch this time and say hey wait until he is ready. relationships are hard enough all by themselves without added pressure. sounds like a keeper to me. Be happy
1185865
Hey Riya, you are just 17 and beautiful life is waiting ahead for you....this is time to concentrate on studies and your carrier.. i would advice if that guy is ignoring him, just leave him and concentrate on studies and make carrier...when you grow as a confident, qualified and beautiful girl, all guys will start following you and that would be your time to ignore them and get the best...so just forget this guy...this is not love...its crush or infatuation...3 months is a pretty short time to fall in love...here people know each other for years together and still take time to decide whether they are in love...so just chill and concentrate on your studies....hope this helps!!!
826906
it is kind of a man thing but i would wait for him to ask you again and if it dies down than you need to ask him wat was up. but wait like 2-3 month
1167007
I would have broken up with him by now. If he can't be bothered making an effort to be with you, he's just using you. Why should you be the only one willing to work on this relationship. It takes two. Get rid of him and wait for someone who will treat you right.
483828
if he is willing to do it FOR you he is willing to do it TO you. \nchances are he will do this if he is your boyfriend (or worse) i would ditch all feelings for him and find another love intrest.\nor, you could talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels about you and go from there. just remember the very top of my post.
618014
Tell him to let you know where he's coming from if he wants to continue on in a relationship or give up.  And be firm about it.  Stop playing games.
198528
Ask him, point plank, what his intentions are. Perhaps it's time to find out what kind of future your relationship has. Be very clear about what you want and expect from him.
408821
You have to be patient. He probably just has cold feet, 18 is YOUNG. If you keep pushing you well chase him away for good. You want him to be sure don't you? Or do want to push him and then after a couple of kids you break up. BE PATIENT  BE PATIENT  BE PATIENT!!!!   Being with someone til death do you part is scarey and he just wants to be sure, he well be back.
883969
Sounds like you're on the right track but the only thing you can do is to keep it up. Just keep being wonderful and eventually he will have to see that you are different than the rest. I am in a similar position, though I've only been with mine a matter of months and he is still not willing to let down his guard as much as I'd hope. But I know that it will take time and patience for me and it will for you too. Most importantly, don't betray him in any way. Just show him you are infinitely consistent, honest, and trustworthy.
825197
i think he is playing around, he doesnt want a relationship with u...hes just making a fool out of u. hes taking u for granted...he can see u, chat with u , flirt around,,,wat more a guy wants. i think u should be strong n confident in taking the decision. tell him straight away that u need space and its over!!!!!! :)\ngood luck
196440
If you are not in a relationship, then the line has already been drawn.  He's overstepping his boundaries, and needs to be put in his place.  If he's possessive and you're not in a relationship already, please don't get into a relationship with him.