What's wrong with my girlfriend?
605181
ok, i'm guessing you told her what she did right?\nblackouts can happen for a million reasons but most legitimate spontaneous blackouts stem from mental defect/illness. if she's young (like in her teens) she may be coming into a state of physical chemical imbalance. please for her own safety try to talk her into seeing a psychiatrist (not a therapist. offer her all the support in the world and assure her that you love her for who she is (that is, only if you truly do)you might also have her read this question you posted as a way to clear the air and tell her you don't really know how to help her. but you think something may be wrong and you're afraid of the event but not her. separate the event from her especially since you clearly saw that she wasn't her normal self.\n\nsexual agression MAY also be a sign of early childhood molestation and if that guess is right then the resulting blackout would mean that she has forced those events from her memory as a means of self defense
479780
Do you love her? If yes, go talk to her at least, maybe she was in a bad space. If no, dump her a**.
519251
Look-\n\nThere have already been suggestiond about her infidelity and lack of a healthy relationship and that you should dump her. No. If you love this girl, you cannot do that yet. On reading the detail of this question, I got the impression that there is something to hide, but its something personal and its affecting her self-confidence in being able to get intimate with you. saying "F*ck it" was probably not advisable if you are to gain her confidence on you; that is what you need to do. Yes, perhaps you do nto have a healthy relationship, simply because there is a lack of communication towards each other. I mean her asking you whether she stunk should be clear enough. She's neverous about sex because she's worried about something to do with maybe her hygiene, health problems or just general confidence. Women go through much of the latter. Be supportive, and let her know that you're there for her, and slowly, with help through communication, get to the root of all of this. \n\nI really doubt she's cheating. And don't give up on her. \n\nGood luck.
156100
Lol this is difucult situation.Maybe that girl is not grown up enough to be with you or with someone normal who is not tolerating that "b i t c h" kinda behaviour.\nU should try someone else or if u inlove with her very much try to make thingz like she does.Go and hang with other girls and maybe she will think twice for the thingz she does!\nIf u cannot do that then try to talk with her and force her to explain to you what is happening between both of you!Tell her to be honest and not to lie
1124263
i don't get it.  what do you mean she cheated online?  are you her online boyfriend or did she cheat with someone else online?  well, in any case, online or not, if you guys are in a relationship you should definitely talk to her about the cutting and drugs.  let her know that is something that hurts you.. when you see her do those things.  if she cheats there really isn't alot you can do unless you have proof.  if you have proof of it, i think you should dump her.  you deserve to be treated better.
582857
This is coming from someone who has been around the block a time or two. Do not tell you girlfriend. She will find out on her own. Mind your own business and let her work it out for herself. Be there to comfort her and listen to her when and if she chooses to let you know what is going on, but by no means should you advise her what to do, or let her know it is happening. Women have a "gut" feeling about those things, and if it is something she can not work out with her boyfriend, then she is put into an embarrassing position of knowing that you know about it. Keep it to yourself. Keep her confidence and do not discuss it. It is by far the kindest thing you could do for her.  I lost my best girlfriend that way, and I thought I was being loving and kind toward her.
1105748
Then there is something wrong with her...\n\nShe is socially immature and cant be mature enough to establish a relationship with one person only.  Or, she is into substance abuse and goes with anyone who can give her a fix...\n\nSome thing is seriously wrong with a person like that...\n\nI wish you well..\n\nJesse
956797
You want us to help you defrock your virgin girlfriend?\n\nSheesh have a heart. Don't be a selfish jerk. If that is how you rate your relationship I pity your girlfriend.  I hope when you do ask her, she runs away and never speaks to you again.\n\nPERVERT,  SELFISH IMMORAL JERK..........
439268
If you love her like you seem to, why don't you seek professional help? Please, don't put her health in the hands of an amateur forum. Respect her mind and body. She must consult her doctor. (I am a physician myself and this is the best advice I can possibly give you.)
966868
Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she's trying to tell you something in a different way. Honesty is the best answer  so sit down with her tell you how you feel about what she's doing and ask her why she's doing it. Maybe she does want a break up or maybe she just wants your attention and some special time together. You won't know till you try but I'd see whats up before permanent damage is done to your relationship.
929816
You need to sit her down and discuss it with her. If she's worth every ounce of energy you have left, that's something SHE should know..tell her. Ask her why she gets in those ...is moods a good word?.......You have to communicate how you feel and what your thinking to her,....then she will let out what she's keeping in, then you guys can get back down to business. But you HAVE to talk to her about it. Women will not tell you what's wrong, you have to wheedle it out of them....it's not that they are being mean, that's just their nature. Trust me talk with her about it, be patient and LISTEN, and she will tell you everything.
697885
I hate to say it but I have been where she is. I know what she is doing. She is escaping. Video games are the only things she can control right now. She is just as frustrated as you are.Perhaps she didn't sign up to be your house lady or your laundry mat. Maybe she had hopes of being someone or something other than that and unfortunately your complaints are only making things worse. You need to help her recognize her situation and discover what it is she really needs and wants. Part of that may mean she needs some time away from her current situation, time away from the games. You can't impose this time away you can only suggest it. This type of behaviour is definately a sign of unhappiness and a sign she needs to do some changing but I fear, like me, she will have to fall hard to know this. It took some serious life changes to teach me and I hope for her it won't be this way. The best you can do is be as loving and supportive and non-judgemental as possible.
102932
us woman get upset over the littlest things...you gotta try to talk to her..just say hey i need to know why your upset..if she won't talk to you try writing her a note..put it in her locker or hand it to her..you've got a right for a explanation....could be blowing you off cause she wants to break up whatever the reason she owes you a answer..try talking or the note thing..hope it works out
827607
It sounds like she may have some issues with food. Does she ever complain that she feels fat or overweight, does she seem obsessesive about her body? \n\nShe is underweight at 101lb and if it continues, it could get out of hand. It might be difficult to encourage her to see a doctor, but she really needs to get checked out.\n\nIf it continues and she won't see a doctor, you may need to tell her parents. This may seem like the ultimate betrayal, but there really is no other option or she could become quite ill.\n\nGood luck and you really sound like a wonderfully caring and supportive boyfriend. Take care : )
1122872
I would let her know where you are coming from. It also depends on what level you are with this person. Are you married? Girlfriend? Dating? In any case, you should let her know where you are coming from and that you want to come to some kind of understanding on how you are going to resolve the issue. \n\nP.S.\n\n2 wrongs do not make a right. Communication is key here. Talk it out.\n\nAdditional Details\n\n1 second ago\nOur relationship is very good because we communicate and everything its just sometimes she says the wrong things and I let her know . . . . eventually\n\n\nMy response: It appears as though she is not to sure how to communicate her feelings and in turn says things that hurt you. She also could be saying these things because she is unsure of how you feel so she is trying to get a REACTION out of you. SHE NEEDS REASSURANCE. Communication is still key.
345422
She's got issues dude.\nDrop her before it gets any worse.\nIt will man....believe me, it will.
309352
i don't know what's wrong with her, but if i were you i would get out now. how many more years of this crap are you going to take? if you have given her no reason to treat you the way she does and she still does it, she has some issues and you deserve better. in relationships where you have been together for a while and it seems like nothing will change, something drastic has to happen before anything will. take some time apart and reevaluated your feelings and the situation.