why cant women and mean just be friends without there being sex involved?
610507
They can. I have a guy and girl b/f's. The guy and I have been friend for almost 8 years. He's my friend. And that's all he is. I love him, but not like that.
586170
no.  sex will eventually come into the friendship
975979
To put it plainly guy's don't want Girls as friends they want girlfriends, he wouldn't bother with you if he didn't feel someit. So chance it definitely darlin', its better to have tried and failed than to never have tried.
243073
Friends can be Friends without being lovers But Lovers can't be Lovers without being friends
699193
Be prepared for the possible outcomes of this relationship.  Women often say that intimacy/sex with a friend can be a good thing, that they can handle it.  Most often, and I mean a LARGE number of these women will develop romantic feelings for their friend (women intrepret intimacy with sensuality to love), which leads to jealousy of friend's girlfriends.  This usually leads to the end of the friendship.  Think about this before getting sensual with him.  When he learns that you want something else (other than no-strings-attached sex), he will probably get nervous, after all this wasn't part of the plan.  When men tell you they want you for sex, and not a relationship - they mean it!  He will get uncomfortable with this relationship.  I don't think this is something you should consider doing, and I wonder - why don't you find a boyfriend to share intimacy/sensuality with?  That would be much healthier..
523737
no. there is no friendship without love be it the same sex. in the case of the opposite sexes somewhere and someplace there will be fatal attraction!
63769
I'm a guy and I don't stay "friends" with my exes.  As Sam Kinnison put it "Oh, friends, like some kind of emotional tampon, only without the sex".\nNot trying to be crude, ladies.  I'll be pleasant if I see them on the street, but I won't ask them for coffee so we can "catch up" on each other's lives.
575857
It means: "Don't get too serious!" "We are only friends, and I am not going to allow it to go any further than that." Doesn't mean we can't have sex, just means we will never be MORE than friends! Hope this helps...from a guy's point of view!
368369
You can have a friendship between a male and a female without it turning romantic.\nI have a lot more male friends than female ones. It just turned out that way because I grew up with 5 brothers and their friends. I feel more comfortable around guys than girls because there were no snide or catty remarks.
499540
A woman's not going to have sex with you to be friendly. If she accepts dates you want to take her on, answers your calls/calls you back, kisses you when you kiss her, LETS you kiss her.. I'd say you're on the right track.
874424
She could be...or it could just be a friendly way of showing support.\nMen and women can be touchy-feely without having sex.
269467
Some of us can. I have a girlfriend I am completely happy with. The ONLY interest I have in any other women is as a friend. As for those who can't, they're probably wondering why you can't just accept that they don't want to just be friends. If you just want to be friends, and a guy wants to be more than friends, don't bother with him. You have different ideas about where your relationship should be headed. Or if you do choose to spend time with a guy like that, make it very clear that you're only interested in being friends, that you're not comfortable with him trying to be anything more, and if he makes any advances on you, don't tolerate it.\n\nAdded:\nIf you don't hear from them after you've made it clear that you only want to be friends, the only interest they had in you was as more than a friend. They weren't willing to settle for less, and they have as much right to make that decision as you do to decide that you just want to be friends. Simple as that. What you wanted wasn't enough for them, what they wanted was too much for you. Best to go your separate ways.
903032
you cannot place your  sex life above your friendship. because your friendship is far valuable than sex will ever be./ in other words you can live without sex but you cannot live without friendship!!\n     imagine being a loner with no friends!! can you do that easy?\ni doubt that!!\n  think about it!!!!!!
38735
It is possible, but not very...  Most men and women that become friends usually end up sleeping together or developing feelings for one another in the long run.  I would recommend against it...
617
Alot of females lack an amount of respect for themselves. So they deem the amount of sex or the intensity of the act as a means of actually being with someone. Rather than establishing the relationship first and allowing the loving to be the icing on the cake. It's kind of like when we were kids and played make believe. However,the difference would be that we adventually snapped back to reality. As mentioned previously, woman are emotional creatures and once a guy hitz it the right way or tells us something we like to hear. Woman pretty much lose their minds...so sorry fellas but that's just the way it is...
4825
its not that its impossible but in some cases the male friend may have been somebody that u have already dated or had sex with and if you meet a new a guy natuarally he would feel uncomfortable for negative about him being around u, because just females they dont like other females and as far as guys they dont like other guys especially if its a relationship involved
444856
Some people are not satisfied with casual sexual encounters and relationships.\n\nI'm a single parent with three kids, and want and need emotional support and intellectual stimulation from a mature adult female, not what I can get from my mates over a pint at the local.\n\nDifferent strokes for different folks.