why do some  women not have orgasms?
607976
It's totally psychological in most cases.... many women have a difficult time allowing themselves to feel pleasure and they unkowingly prevent themselves form reaching orgasm. You must first learn to love yourself and be comfortable with yourself as well as with your partner in order to truly enjoy sex to the point of orgasm. \n\nThere are a few women who have hormonal or even physical problems that prevent sex from being pleasurable, but they are far less common than the emotional or psychological issues that interfere with good sex.
500415
It might just be the intimacy that satisfies you. You can have great sex without an orgasm. Who ever tells you different obviously doesn't know the meaning of intimate feelings. Of course its always great to orgasm, once in a while great sex without one is OK.
562559
I'm assuming you are continuing to have sex and still not orgasming. First of all for women it can be more difficult. You may need to experiement to find out what puts you over the edge. Often our internal dialogue really interferes with our pleasure if it is telling us sex is bad. If that is the case you may need counseling.\n\nIf not, then you need practice and a patient and loving partner to help you find your triggers. Have fun!
1117736
Every woman I've met wanted "oral".  Most women are clean and fresh, especially when asked. There really is very little taste, and with lots of saliva the pleasure comes quickly, and is a wonderfull stimulant to complete lovemaking, usually leading to wonderful arousal.  Most women can be brought to orgasm 2 or 3 times and usually experience a superlative deep vaginal orgasm during penetration. Brining a woman to sexual satisfaction is best by beginning with cunnilingus.
39693
In order for a woman to have multiple orgasms she needs to continue to breath slowly through the first one. (instead of holding or grasping for breath) If she can do this then it will lead to a 2nd 3rd and maybe even a 4th.
1024076
Yes, it's common. Hey, sometimes we are just not into it ... and it takes us longer ... and we just do it for our man. It's not that we don't enjoy it, we do. We women are more into what is leading up to it. The orgasm is just the topping on the cake. I take charge of that part of it on my own, and most men are not offended by it. You cannot fool an experienced lover, however. The truth is that we tighten- up when we have an orgasm, and a woman can scream and huff and puff all she wants, the experienced lover knows better ... that's all. And if a woman says that she's never faked it, she's not telling the truth.
943663
There are some women that cannot have .O. easily. How about a vibrator.. let her experiment with it then show you how to use it.
595800
Some women just don't get aroused by certain things, ask her what she wants and what she likes. She might not like men at all (I'm speaking in general here.)
142866
I aswered this one already, but we do have orgasms just not like men. When you have one you will know it.
207350
A few reasons:  to boost a man's ego, because they want to be done with sex, or because they can't and feel that they are expected to.  \n\nOnly about 10% of women can have orgasm from penetration "only", and as many as 10% have profound difficulties achieving orgasm.
405532
Well, there are many ways to make a woman have an orgasm easily...first of which is attentiveness...be attentive to her and build a rapport....then play. Play with her clit, her vagina, and for God's sake man, make sure you pay attention to her if she indicates she like something take note of it, and be gentle ....unless she likes it rough but she will tell you all of that through her body language.  But most important....ENJOY her and you will enjoy yourself when she has that mind blowing orgasm you want her to have.
682559
i would say most women do, most men dont understand or care that it takes more to please a woman than it does them,as far as me i have never faked an orgasm, its a shame a woman has to.
1153122
Most women who have trouble with orgasming have problems with the strength of the muscles of the vaginal wall.  Even when they do orgasm, it isn't very intense and it's hard to tell.\n\nA healthy woman though will have strong muscles.  When she orgasms, these muscles squeeze down on you hard.\n\nIf your woman doesn't do this, get her one of these and have her strengthen her muscles.  You'll be very glad you did:\n\nhttp://www.kegelmaster2000.com/
407034
9 out of 10 women will never experience an Orgasm..those are the Facts...and if you are a Guy...you're up Sheets Creek without a Paddle
596020
Yes, women are no different then men in this.  They do have orgasms and will be fully satisfied at some time.:)
376694
Some women have a hard time reaching climax. Once you figure out the most effective way to bring her to climax she'll want it all the time. She might not know what she's missing. Some women go their whole lives without having an orgasm. Try watching lesbian porn to see how they give each other oral sex, then try it on your girl friend.
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Well, males are more likely than women to get at least one orgasm, especially if the male controls proceedings.  Many women do not get to orgasm via penis in vagina sex.  Those women are thus (obviously??) likely to desire sex less than those men.\n\nIf women explore their sexuality, they can become multi - orgasmic, and can achieve massive prolonged orgasms, that might well exceed what men experience.  They might desire sex even more than the men involved.  I suspect that only a minority of women do this, however.