if my boyfriend is very large in certain areas...should i be hesitant to f**k?
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I assume you mean penis.\nGo ahead, say it...it is a proper, legal term for the male anatomy.\nRegarding size and as it relates to a woman's vagina, well, you can thank God for designing these things.\nThe vagina will expand and can accommodate various sizes.\nOf course, there are limits.\nAnd there are your feelings to consider...it may or may not hurt.\nBoyfriend better be VERY sensitive to your demands if you say "stop".\nGood luck and hope you guys use protection!
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Honey, just because you are in love doesnt mean you should try anything he wants to try.  He needs to understand that its your body, not his.  If you are uneasy about it, then dont do it, cuz that type of sex needs complete relaxation, trust, and lubrication.  He needs to be gentle, and quite frankly, if you cannot relax, then I would suggest against it. Either way, it's your choice and if you say no, then tell  him to stop bothering you about it.
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Ask. Usually the bigger the guy the bigger it is.
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Well....... all I can say, is make sure you don't wear it in your pants! That would also not be a very complimentary place for people to assume you make your decisions in relationships!\nlol
836807
I'm going to tell you what. If you are really proud to be a big girl you shouldn't be worried about taking off all your clothes. If the guy you are having sex with really likes you for you he'll want all your clothes off too. Think about that.
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yes, too small is no good.... too big is uncomfortable. But if he doesn't know how to move it, size is not an issue.
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Well first of all, this case adds proof to the fact that bigger is not better! Yes, if his penis size is "endowed" it definitely does some damage to the vagina internally especially if he's been tapping it for years. No wonder you have pain; a large penis is not meant for your vagina. Stop having sex with him and allow time to heal!! OR\nIt'll definitely widen and stretch your vagina eventually forming a nice gap for you, not to mention a number of other problems.
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Well I think ti all depends on the curcumstances, were both of you making out, if thats the case he may want to grope you and thats it and maybe later on go a little further.  But remeber a man only goes as far as a women lets him.  Now if your driving about and he lays his hand on your leg he may just giving you a kind gesture of affection.  As a "she's my girl" kind of thing!!!  It's not bad and its nothing to be alarmed about.
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Your boyfriend is so under the thumb, it's a wonder you don't suffocate him.  Just lighten up, if he is Mr Right then you won't have a need to be so paranoid.
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No, I don't think so. I'm a girl, and honestly feel 2 things, 1) if it's "small" and he knows how to make it enjoyable for both, then it definately doesn't matter the size, and 2), to big can hurt, but the right kind of big is great, and there's nothing wrong with liking it, or prefering it, even if you would except the same person with a smaller one. Be glad she likes you the way you are though! Just make sure you don't go TO deep!
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It would depend on what your view of it is. If you are OK with it, it is just a way of fulfilling his fantasy, and could spice up the sex life between you and your b/f. But if you are not OK, then don't do it and let him know you are not comfortable with it. If he continues to push the subject, then maybe he just is not the right person for you.
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hahahaha!! okay ppl the gurlz serious maybe he is tryna say his ummmm is big,u know?What he doesn't know is that that will male you more curious  like hmmmmmmmmm!That is also good becauz atlease he has respect for you,to wait ,and not just smash(have sex,in n.o that's what we say when it's just u know non caring/loving sex) you.So,that's  good that he cares enuf to wait.
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Get a boyfriend with a longer thing. Try it Doggie* style.
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Better see a doctor about this. That is NOT normal, unless your man has a really huge one.
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If you actually love the person and are in a committed relationship, then he will care enough about you to go as slow as you need to, and to stop if you want to.  if this is so, then it won't hurt too badly.  it feels a little tight the first time, but not unbearable.
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Whether you are skinny or fat no one should make fun of your size. By your measurements, you are not fat. Don't worry about your size, as long as you're confident with yourself you shouldn't worry about what others say. If you have a problem with what you're boyfriend is saying, talk to him. If he has an issue with your weight then he doesn't deserve a great girl like you!
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You might find the underlying problem may not be his weight but perhaps why he is alittle heavy...I am heavier than I ever thought I would become, but that doesn't prevent me from letting my gf touch every inch of my body...so I believe its more than a weight issue, something abusive connected to such a lack of physical contact, talk to him, suggest counseling, help him through this.