How can I convince him that I love him for who he is and not what he pretends to be?
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to and tell him that, talk to him alone when you do it though
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you have to be yourself. if he doesn't like you for who you are its not meant to be. you will get very tired being someone you're not. you will fall deeper in love with him and when you do finally get tired of being someone else he will be upset with you for lying. if he doesn't like you for who you are it would be easier to end it now than later...trust me. \n\nand when i say be yourself i mean don't hide your real personality. if there are certain things that you do that you think might annoy him i would ease into that. too much at one time might scare him away.
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Tell him the truth, if he loves you for who you are then he'll be patient enough to wait for you until you're ready for it.
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First off, give him a breather, get off his case.  then in a couple days (and don't sulk) tell him he is the love of your life and so you have a good long term relationship there are some things you both need to discuss together, not A question and answer , a discussion, start with saying that you have some concerns, don't be acussatory. No one listens well when they are being accused of something.  Waituntil he seems comfortable to discuss the things you are worried about.  If he is the love of your life/soulmate, it is worth putting some extraordinary effort on your part, then to let your relationship unravel over fear
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Give him a big hug and tell him that you love him and nothing can ever change that.\n\nDepending on the kind of relationship you have, you could also add jokingly, "But you have to let me meet all your potential boyfriends first - so I can tell them embarrassing stories about you!"\n\nBe loving, but add some humor so it doesn't turn into one of those awkward "I love you, I love you too, what now?" moments.\n\nYou say that nothing about your relationship will change (or that you don't want it to), so why hang out or do things different from before you were assured that he was gay? Do the things you've always enjoyed doing together - that will help ensure that nothing will truly change. Make sure that he knows you're interested in new ideas, just in case there are other things he would like to do now that he knows that you know.
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Find creative ways to show him that he is worthy to have you by his side
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Just be yourself. If things are going to work out, they will. Prove to him that you are worth being loved by showing him. If he doesn't love you for who you are, then he isn't worth it and you can do better. Just take your time and try being his friend first. Once he sees he can trust you and that you are a good person, he'll come around! Good luck!
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Get to the basics. Let go the ego and the false pride. Accept mistakes and compromise.\nLive happily everafter.
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Give the best you can. give him the most precious thing.  Try not to be artificial. Be rather real. Appriciate him whatever he does. \nHold on to his hands, hug him Tight in your arm. \nDo not try to make him jelous.\nShow his importance in your life. \nKeep him above your frnds.
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Dude first of all please always use check spelling before posting a question. But it's not right to convince someone you love them and really don't. If you want to be a good person stop the habit and tell him the truth before you break his heart even more then it already has...
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Sweety- by being yourself. If that doesnt work, then he aint the one for you; he's just in the way of someone who is MEANT to be loved by you more and more each day
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be honest with him . love him with actions not with words .give him time to trust you like he never did before  and make him feel you need him even if dont
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its up to you babes, if you feel he is being true to you and you are being true to him then why not there is no reason for it not to work. everyone says he could be lying to you but that does work both ways is he hiding anything from you? or are you hiding things from him?\ngood luck honey\n\ndoesnt matter now tho does it!!!
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be yourslef and dont change for him. go with the flow. follow your heart
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Ask him to change his name to your last name.  If he doesn't like that idea, then tell him that's exactly the way you feel. \n It's hard for someone to argue with himself.  :-)
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At least give him a chance, stop being so suspicious!  His true colors will come out, be it good or bad, and the only way to find out is to get to know him.
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If you truly love him, what other people think shouldn't matter.\n\nSounds like you care more about what your 'group' thinks than you do him.\n\nThat isn't love.