what if you were to fall in love with?.........?
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I am the child of an immigrant.  My Mother, who is from Asia, met my Father when she was in the US on a student visa.  They decided to get married and Mom began the process of becoming a legal resident and ultimately a citizen.\n\nIn my life, I have dated an illegal alien.  Had she been the person I wanted to marry, we would have gotten married and found a way to apply for her citizenship.  As someone who is a legal resident of the United States, I would not want to know that my wife was subject to deportation at any time.  What I would not do is carry around a sign in the street saying she has the 'right' to be illegal.\n\nImmigrants have always been a part of this country, and always will be.  But unchecked illegal immigration brings down the standard of living for people in the US.
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I'll choose the one i love. I'll make him fell in love with me. If it doesn't work, at least i've try the best and grateful i've given to love someone. Besides its just in my imagination. In my real life, i have someone to love and love me too.
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Dearest Smartie, No offense but how can u truly fall in love with someone u dont know?? In my experience, it takes a lot to fall in love, because getting to know someone takes time otherwise aren't u just in "lust" not love?\nIf I was u I would ask her a few poignant  questions, subtle ones that wont blow your cover... good luck, Smartie, I like u.....
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One would have to be mad to fall in love.
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Falling in love is when you meet someone you know you want to be with the rest of your life.\n\n\nGrowing in love is when your in a relationship that maybe you ended up in because of guilt, or a promise and you grow to love them when you never did.
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When you fall in love with someone. you fall in love with everything in his life. You cannot ask them to give up there children. \nMy last girlfriends daughter hated me. I accepted that and yet still loved her. I cared for her child even tho the child seamed like a brat at times. \nChildren deserve all the love we can give them. No matter what there problems are.
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hmm.. falling in love.. what a great feeling.  However, ALLOWING yourself to fall in love when you know your heart will break, is not love at all.  But when you CHOOSE to love someone, there are no expectations.  You just do it because it makes you happy to do so.  And when that is given in return (not expected) well then that is the most wonderful thing on earth.  We are creatures of love.  We came into this world knowing only love.  We only learned from family, friends, and the world what is expected to "be in love".  And this is a lie.  When someone punishes you for loving them, then it isn't love at all.  So pay attention to your feelings and the ACTIONS of others as well as your own actions.  There is a book I want to find and read .. it will help you understand and it explains it better than I ever will.  Enjoy!!
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no you are fine, you should fall in love when you meet the suitable girl\nas long as you didn't met her, you won't fal in love. logical huh?
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if you do love the person, why not???
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be yourself someone will fall in love with you for who you are
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Believe it! You can fall in love in love the second you see or meet them. (LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT) So in your case you proably do, and for all you know you probably knew you did when you met him. Just don't do anything stupid. Love is in the air. ITS SPRING TIME. LOL. At least almost.
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We fall in love because we want to feel special, loved and we want to feel secure.  It feels good to be inlove.
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you can't find true love, it finds you. you'll know one day . and yes you probably could fall in love with a stranger. love works in mysterious ways.
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Falling in love is not anyhow a task of life, where you are gettin some problems that can be solved out by asking somebody,"what could be the possible sollution to my problem for this ? " .\nwel its a feeling -----\n                        " direct dil se"\n\nyou wont get any clue when you get the person in front that ya this is the persom whom you have to fall in love.\nrather its very uncertain.\nwe; my dear i cant't exactely tell you how to fall in love,\nbut ya i could tell you the sign when you fall in love---\n\n- you continously keep on thinking of that person\n- if that person hurts you, you feel bad and again after tryin hard not able to forget him/her\n- you feel as if that person remain always with you i.e you like his/her company\n- you feel good when that person is happy and you feel bad when he/she sad and want to help anyhow\n\n\nwel my dear anything related to the signs if you feel ,,,\nit means you r in love, and if you want to fall in...\nthen just go ahed with these. and surely u will fall in love ..\ngood luck
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you can love someone and not be in love with them, but you can't be in love with them and not love them . You love a person for what they are , you fall in love with a person for who they are.
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Real love? Do you accept this person and their faults? Do you want to live to be their best friend? To make them happy? Will you stand by them when they fall? Will you understand that they are not perfect and never will be? Love is work. But the reward is worth it
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No one can MAKE anyone be interested in them or fall in love with them.  That's the beauty of choice.  When you do find someone perfect for you, they get to CHOOSE you and you get to CHOOSE them.  Then you get to live in this great dynamic where you know everyday that you had a choice but chose this person, the same for them.