how can i help my bf not loose his erection wen we go to do stuff?
600139
What are you going to do?  \n\nIf your going bowling or to a movie it might be best if he looses it.  It can be odd in public sporting a raging boner.
217193
Problem is your making it a problem. Let it go try not to stress about it. Everybody get's tired sometimes, tell your significant other to step it up and take the lead for a while. Try not to worry about it. Forget the male stereotype that men "have" to dominate. Sit back, relax, concentrate on letting him/her get it up for you!
1180084
Try cuddling up to him after sex and telling him how good it was for you. Maybe he is going quiet because he has lost his confidence, it happens to all blokes sometimes. Just give his confidence a boost and see if that helps.
1104019
It's time for some counseling!  If he won't go, you go!  You need someone to bounce things off and to get good solid objective input from.  \n\nHe may be in a personal slump himself.  If he has very little sex drive and is tired a lot, he might have low testosterone, it is not an uncommon condition.  Suggest he have a complete physical, just to make sure everything is okay, tell him you are concerned about him and want to make sure everything is all right physically.\n\nIt may be he is worried about a lot of things, and doesn't know how to communicate, or doesn't feel he should.  Guys often think they should be strong and keep things to themselves.\n\nWhat I am saying is, it might not be about you at all, though it is definitely affecting you.  And it could be that he doesn't like you bringing up the subject, so he pulls more into himself, and goes to the TV and computer to avoid interaction.\n\nI feel for you, I know this is a very difficult situation.  Don't just let it go on!  Get some outside help, at least to vent, and possibly to help the two of you communicate better.\n\nBest of luck to you!!
207837
what about a c*ck ring with a condom...it will help maintain erection but not rock hard.
285081
Just try to do more things together that dont envolve sex, maybe something will spark and ingnite his passion again. It's not an uncommon thing for guys to not want sex that often. Check out www.psychologytoday.com they have a lot of articles about this topic there. good luck to you!
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KEEPING YOUR BLOOD GLUCOSE UNDER CONTROL... IN MY RELATIONSHIP NATURAL APHRODISIAC ARE EFFECTIVE..  IT PERMITS AN NATURAL AROUSAL AND NOT GET DEPENDENT ON MEDICATIONS...  GOOD LUCK
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That's impossible. The best you can hope for is you do not find out about his picking up some action.  Don't forget men like their play time and if his juices get to flowing to some female he'll be going.  Realize that it is natural but if you really have a strong tie to each other He will keep the encounters limited to getting relief.  You may also get horny while he is away and even if you satisfy yourself that can be considered cheating so do not ask more than you can tolerate.  Grow up and hopefully the two of you will stay together even with a little side action while apart.  Safe sex does not cause problems it is the committed stuff that messes things up.
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Don't get him SO excited...!!!!!! Have him "play"\nwith you longer with his hand,tongue...etc....After\nyou come 2-3 times, have him pentrate you and finish.\nThis way, BOTH will be satisfied...!!!!!!! and maybe,\nhave him wear a condom. It will feel the same for you\nBUT he will feel less sensation and last longer.\nALSO, there is a "DE-sensitizing" cream available at\nthe pharmacy...!!!!!!!! This works WONDERS in that\nhe applies it to his penis(while erect) and he looses\na little sensation..THUS..lasting longer..!!!!!!\nI have tried all 3 suggestions and they work for me...!!!!!
402247
Best way to keep your man is to beyourself, do not at like a bunnny boiler, let him do his own thing and don't act jealous,clingy, and do not tell him what he can and cannot do!
1010407
relax and give him some space. if a man feels smothered then he will leave you!
1048304
try a supplement called horny goat weed,you can get it in health shops,its  herbal tablets and can be taken by guys or girls,you can take them everyday about an hour before sexual activity.\nget your partner(if you have one) to dress up and look sexy.\nhave you ever tryed kamagra?(generic viagra),you can get it of the internet, it works wonders and keeps you up for hours,but you have to be sexuly excited.some guys say they dont need it,but ask yourself this can you have sucessfull sex for aleast 3 hours+\nwithout losing your erection?? if u havent already tryed these get of your computer and get out there and stock up
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TALK TO HIM!!!!\n\nthe only person who can help you with that is your husband.  COMMUNICATION is the key to a relationship.\n\nDo not cheat on him, it's not worth it.\n\nIf all else fails, put on some lingerie...and do a little strip tease for him, he'll come around.
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Sounds like he's trying to let you know what's going on...you're not listening.  If he's in good health overall (not overweight, smoker, etc) then it could be due to him holding out for you, preoccupied, stress, etc.  There are a lot of reasons why men lose an erection.  A lot of the time my b/f holds out for me and then when I'm good..he's good with that.  He's held out so long, it goes away.  He's usually ready to go again in 10 mins, though.  The fact that you cheated on him really doesn't help.  He may be picturing you doing some of the things you do with him, with someone else.  He's going to be questioning every new thing you do in bed.  "New tricks?  New man?"  It's all about communication.  Let him know you're concerned and really LISTEN to his responses.  You two will work it out if it's meant to be.  He needs to truly forgive you for your mistake and move on if he wants to make it work...you'll need to bring his trust level back up.  Hope I helped...
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Hello..You need to relax and don't think about your erection..Have your partner rub your back,neck and shoulders.Have her rub slow and light and try to block every thing out of you head.Thing about how nice looking your partner is and how gentle she is.The key words is relax and block everything out and just enjoy your,your time with your partner.Remember to be gentle and not in a hurry,start out slow.If you do this,you should have no more problems...\n Clowmy
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take charge.  try taking a shower together, if u have kids get a babysitter and then plan a sex night with u doing all the work.  use oral to get him going and then have him lay on his back and u mount him.  to often we men get tired of doing all the sex work and just want our women to let us lay back and enjoy, unfortunately most women are to lazy to do this.  if u want him to go down on u have him lay back and u sit on his face.  GET THE PICTURE.  for once let him enjoy sex instead of working his butt off for it
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You could try, "fighting fire, with fire", by doing the same things to him in a very annoying way to let him see what it's like. What you're doing is NOT working, so give it a try. What do you have to lose? Every time he comes around, grab at his crotch...not in a sexy way, but in an aggressive way. He'll get the message!