i just got  out of a relationship and feeling deeply sad where would be the best place to meet someone better?
596797
I like to meet people that are busy....you know, working somewhere. For instance, the grocery store, post office, gas station, etc. The obvious places also are clubs, bars, etc. the important thing after breaking up is to get out! Don't sit home, alone, and crying! Good Luck!!
682749
The best thing you can do is go out and be around the general public. I know far too many woman who just stay at home all day and cry over why they don't have boyfriends. I keep telling them to go out to the mall, or a bar, or a club, or something, but they never do and the only people they can blame are themselves. So, basically, get out and go to fun places. You can meet a good significant other anywhere.
602550
get out and do things with friends/family. \n\ngo to different places than you used to go with your ex.\n\ngood luck. \n\ntime heals.
659529
Just spend some time by yourself. Take youself out on a date. Basically go somewhere where it just you or where u can think and relax and collect your thoughts. Maybe start a journal that way u can look back and reflect.
341582
As time goes on you will heal, don't let the thought of a man bring you down, remember this to shall pass. You had a decision to make and you made it, good for you, you left before it got any worse. Give yourself enough time to realize what you really want out of life, when the time comes and the right person comes along you will just know that you did the right thing. Right now your just looking for a rebound b/c your not used to being alone anymore, try it you just might find out that you like it that way.Good Luck.
1152279
go do the things you used to do to  have fun before you met them... reunite with old friends, go back to your old stomping grounds.  go to people & places that you were happy before you met them & you will find your old self ready to help you through.
989249
Get a hobbie. Make new friends. Do what you did before you met him. Don't waste so much time on him. By all means, move on. Who's to say that you might not meet someone better tomorrow?
970987
get over him by making your self feel better. by this i mean go out and buy all new clothes, get a sexy hair cut and make him look at you. some call this retail theropy! the best answer i can give you is try and be round people as much as possible. i just broke up with my boyfriend and now i live by myself and its very deppresing. and always remember never leave the one you love for the one you like coz the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
329436
Face it and get on with your life. Have some dates even if they are not the perfect ones. You need to put this way in the past.\n\nAt the same time, be happy with yourself. Your new relationships will want an upbeat person and will have little room for the other person that was in your life.\n\nHave fun and remember the bad times you had with her. This is no time for sentimentality. She dumped you hard and on purpose. Good luck to you, my friend.
183222
time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
491148
First off, you need some time alone just to reflect on it. I don't mean let it consume you, but if it ended for a good reason then you need to be alone just to regroup and get yourself together. After that go out and have a drink with some friends. Get back into the social scene, but steer clear of the relationship deal for a minute
877499
Yes It was incredibly hard. If you know that it is bad deep down, you'll never be happy.It takes time but when you meet the person you were meant to be with it will all be worthwhile. Break it off, find yourself and embrace your future
1094857
It's natural to feel lonely after getting out of a long term relationship.  Use your family and friends as a support system - make sure you tell them how you're feeling.  Keep yourself busy, go out with friends, get involved with new hobbies.  It's just important you aren't sitting at home sulking and being lonely - get out and do things.
259930
I would second the motion that Mike made. I would also recommend finding new activities and make new friends. That way you can let people know you are available. And you can keep yourself occupied. And keep your spirits up too. Use this broken relationship as a learning experience. Good Luck. LJK
349701
it takes a long while to get over someone especially if that was your first.  take your time.  cry all you want.  let it all out.  some people might tell you to try and surround yourself with friends and family.  it might cheer you up, but i think it's okay to feel down for a while.  because no matter what you'd do, you might think about your ex like what did you do, what could you have done, or why your ex left you.   i really do not think it's better to suppress or cover up your feelings by having your mind occupied with something else.  but it's better if you get rid of anything that would remind you of your ex, and if you cut off all the communication means to your ex such as phone number, e-mail, and IM.  delete them all, so you wouldn't be able to talk to him at all.  also, i don't think that finding someone new too soon is such a good idea.  rebound is only rebound.  just think that it's not the end of the world although it feels like it right now.  just take your time and rest up.
658466
I'm sorry for your lost i hope something will help you to move on and your heart will heal soon. When i lost may love ones i went to my friends and hung out. Played bingo now that did take my mine off thing trying to keep up.\nAnyways best of luck.
116543
I felt the same after I left a relationship that wasn't making me happy.  Sometimes you miss being single if you're with someone who isn't right for you.  Glad to hear you didn't stay in the relationship just to be with somebody.  Too many people would rather be unfulfilled in a relationship rather than be happy being single.  And when you're happy being single, you'll attract other happy people.  Then who knows what could happen?  Good going.  You'll do well in life, my friend.