OK i am a girl and well lets say how do tell if you and your guy friend are more than Friends?
600556
Your to young to have boyfriends.  Go out with your girlfriends and make fun memories don't stress over boys and the drama that comes with them.
767037
Sweetie, there are a lot of reasons guys hang out, but only a few why they hang out with the opposite sex- and it aint just freindship-  ask him straight up...if he is down with you he will tell you.
568888
well friendships between a guy n a girl mostly end up in a relationship. one way or the other. you wanna know if he likes you then ask him. n if you want to ask him out then do it. it wouldn't affect your friendship.
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
1111056
Forget what your friend says, You are the one who is going to be dating the guy, not her. It doesn't matter who came first. but more who fits the position better...like a job position hehehe....who are you more compatible with and who can you get along better...who are you more interested in....whatever makes you happy is really what you should focus on instead of which guy's feelings youll end up hurting
125403
I suggest you see which one cares and love you more. Who do you spend time with more? How do they treat you? Is he your kind of people like are you comfortable with him more then the other? Who is nicer to you? Answers these questions to yourself and see how you feel about the two guys you love.
583577
The girl could have just been a friend.. Im a girl and have more guy friends then girl friends.  But who knows.   Have you talked to him since then?  Has he mentioned anything? Or have you brought it up?  Try atleast talking to him to find out what's going on.  After you find out wat's up, then decide!  o and if he keeps bringing her up in convos id be well aware... that's not realyl a good sign.
715965
ask him if he likes you more than a friend and if he blushes ask him to go out with u
969562
This is a very tough situation, so please handle it with care.  First thing is, does he have a girlfriend, or something that he is currently seeing?  If he does, please do not make a move because it could jeopardize your friendship completely.  Second, you say you haven't spent a lot of time together until a few months ago, why is that, if you have known him for years?  I think if you are seeing more of him recently, you should just try subtle hints and see how he reacts... ie touching his arms more, flirting a little.  If the subtle hints do not work, you can just try being honest with him.  If he is your best guy friend, he will appreciate your honesty, and will respect you for it.
446455
If a guy hangs out around you, he probably likes you.  In almost every case, a guy wants to be more than friends... hes probably just to scared to say it to you because he thinks if he tells you how he feels that he will lose you as a friend too if you say no.  Did you ever just try asking him if he likes you?
608943
there are many different ways.  But I think that you shold ask one of ur frinds if he/she thinks that she likes you after they see how they act around you.  most of the time you can't tell yourself because ur in the picture.  Ask someone who sees how the both of you enteract with one another they will see it better than u can.
689026
Well first off, if she is just a friend, more or likely you would already know something about her. He would have mentioned her or you would have met her or something of that sort. You could ask him about her, but then he would know you've been checking his messages. If you don't care about him possibly getting upset, then ask. If you do care, then I would continue to check them every know and agian and just see what she says. You know how you talk to your guy friends, and you know how you talk to your boyfriend. Does she sound like just a friend or something more? You might be able to tell just by the messages she leaves.
1112301
Follow your heart....who do you really want to ask? Does your guy friend like you back? Who do you think you would have a better time with? In my experience, sometimes becoming more than friends can be a mistake, but other times it can be the best thing ever....my boyfriend is my best friend...we have the best relationship, and we started out as friends.
76489
try to be friends first, and the better you get to know him as a friend, the more likely you can figure out if he likes guys, too. and then if he does, your relationship will be all the more stable because you are already friends.
719486
Do this based on your chemistry together. From what i've experienced and heard from others:\n\n"If a girl sees a guy as just just a friend from the start, it will stay that way, but if the girl has a thing for the guy from the start it will always be there."\n\nThis could work for you in reverse gender. If thre was something there at the start, and you both felt it, then you should tell him and get things startedd ;)\n\nGood luck to you and your friend
368759
OMG THAT'S WHAT PPL TELL ME BUT YOU WONT KNOW TILL YOU ASK HIM OR THREE WAY HIM WITH YOUR FRIEND!!!(I DO THAT)\n              GOOD LUCK!!!!!
164303
i did and i still do. i have never told him.it's so hard to tell whether you like your friend as just a friend or as something more because the line between friendship and lovers is very thin. i always liked him as more than a friend but i settled for friendship rather than nothing. when i am with him, it feels like its just the two of us and the way he looks at me.