How can I get rid of these "pre-college" jitters?!?
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There's really nothing to be worried about, friend. It's more a learning experience outside of the classroom than inside. As long as you're not afraid of learning you have nothing to fear from college. Just keep an open (but discerning) head on your shoulders and you'll do great. I should know, I've been in 'college' for almost ten years now.
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College is awesome. Don't get scared. It's nothing like High School. There is more freedom to do things(depending on school selection). I'm sure you'll find people who like the same things you do. I hardly ever see anyone who I went to High School with, but it's in college where you will find colleges and friends for life. You are around people who are over the age of 18 (not like high school, where majority of them are under 18 and immature.) You'll do fine. However, there are some people who get homesick if they are away from their hometown. But I wouldn't know that feeling, b/c I was out of my parents house the weekend I turned 18. I started college at the age of 22, and was out on my own anyway. Keep focused on your school, college rocks and there is usually parties all the time. Be paticular about who you choose as your peers. Be strong, if you can't make it through the life of college...you won't ever make a good paycheck....just kidding, but seriously...life will be harder if you can't even survive college. You will go through a lot and exerience a lot, and depending on how much you have already been exposed too....you will see and meet new and interesting people and maybe even a soul mate. Good Luck!
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Parsi, you obviously never grew up.  What kind of talk is this?\n\nJade, honey, you have every right to be nervous.  I was in your situation, oh about 24 years ago (I'm 40 and doing fine!).\n\nYou're nervous because you take responsibility for your actions.  And I hate to tell you that this is just a part of growing up, you'll always have thoughts about the future.  I still do.  Because you are nervous you are showing me that you are maturing and becoming more of an adult.\n\nMake the best preparations (plan it out) and carry out your plans.  See if you can meet with a journalist and find out what kind of preparations you can make in high school?\n\nJust remember to be sure you've given it your best effort.  That's what helps me sleep at night.  I tried my best, I know I did, I didn't give up.  I'll do something else.  I will be OK.
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#10... Dress up, you will feel more confident\n#9.... Eat a good breakfast that morning\n#8.... Get up earlier than usual\n#7.... Watch the sunrise that morning or remember a sunrise if it is raining\n#6.... Make sure you have studied to know your material COLD!\n#5.... Look in the mirror and say "You will ace this DUDE!"\n#4.... Close your eyes and visualize answering questions confidently with the correct answers... imprint the feeling over and over.\n#3.... Take two pillows ... one in each hand... press them to your head tightly... SCREAM EXPLATIVES FOR ten minutes. Then go to the rest room and empty your bladder and anything else you need to deposit.\n#2.... Smile confidently as you walk into the room and say audibly... "I'm ready"\n#1.... Take the test knowing ... you are the best student you can be at that moment.\n\nBTW... I am a college professor
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i have the same problem in college. Just tell yourself that if you get the work done now you'll have more free time for doing what you love. Keep the work done ahead of you.
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You'll be fine.  It's normal to freak out about something you've never done before.  They wouldn't have chosen you if they didn't think you could do it.  You'll love it, you'll be great at it, and you'll make a lot of money when you graduate.  You'll be fine.  Just get you and your children into a routine now so that it's easier when school starts.  The school should have a Student Services Representative/counselor/tutor who can help you if you do encounter any problems.  Don't forget to communicate with your professors, get your assignments done way early so you don't fall behind, and have fun!
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hey relax..\nexams r over and if u have fared them well....then obviously u r bound to get good marks...u look like a good student....worrying is natural....dont let it get to u.....\nrelax...take a long deep breath...and think positive.....u will score well....and tell me about ur marks when it comes.....\nhope u get good marks
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i have a few things that I do....(1) as soon as you get your test picture yourself somewhere else ( i promise it works...major test anxiety here) (2) DON'T CHANGE YOUR ANSWERS!  Never second guess yourself unless you are 110% positive you were wrong your first instict is usaully correct.  I have kicked myself a few times for doing it. (3) make sure you study.  you may feel overwhelmed before the test but as soon as you see it you will feel a whole lot better.  And when your hands start to shake close your eyes, take a deep breath and believe you can do it.  It sounds silly but it really does help.
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It's easy to feel lost at the thought of moving on.  And leaving middle school for high school is a big deal.  It's normal for you to be feeling all of the things you are...sad about leaving behind that part of your life and a little fear/worry about the future.  Please know it's completely normal.  Look at the books, see if they are interesting to you...if they are, read them over the summer. It will give you something to do to take your mind off of things.  Life is all about change and moving and growing.  Take time to relax and think not only about the good days you had in middle school but think about all the great things that are going to happen in high school and college.  Good luck.
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Just keep doing what your coach says you are doing right, until you are comfortable with it. Repitition is the key..just keep doing it until yuo have done it so much, that its as easy as breathing. Thats the only way to get rid of your fears!
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First list out the things that are distracting you or blocking your growth. Secondly work out a plan how you can get rid of them. Third take a short break and go for a short trip or outing. After you come back start fresh. I am sure you will find some difference and you should be able to do well.\n\nI was very good student and scoring high marks during my school days. But during my college, I wasn't performing as expected. One day I started listing out things I thought was distracting me and eating my time. And they were:\n\nSmoking, Hanging out for a long time, etc..... Slowly I got rid of them and was able to get back my balanced life. And automatically I started focusing more on studies and performed well. Since I realized this very late (during my 3rd year) I was only able to correct myself just before my exams. But still I scored 80%.\n\nI wish all the best to you. Take care
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Just relax! Breathe!  If your scores are low, and they probably will not be because your sooooo worried about them, then what you can do is enroll in a community college, saving your parents quite a lot of bling, (trust me I'm in college) and it will get you ready for that big day when you are off to an ivy league college.  So just relax, eat a good breakfast when the BIG day rolls around, get plenty of rest the nite b4, and you will do fine.  Oh, one more thing, don't 4get to study!  :-)
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Don’t rush it.  Take your time.  Sounds like you would be better off just talking to different guys until you get over your shyness.  You do not NEED to be dating anyone steadily.  Things will change drastically in college.  If you are more comfortable in talking with guys this will really help you.
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Try some yoga or just breathe. Take it slow and start a study regime. Do things at a specific time and don't go off it. Feel confident that you know the info. . Whenever you don't know an answer go with your gut feeling. Take deep breathes whenever you feel like you're going to fail.\nGood luck and just breathe.
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unfortunately there is no quick fix here. Get a tutor (most schools will assign you one) and go to your teachers for extra help. Nobody LIKES studying, but if you want a future its necessary. Life is full of things that arent fun that need to be done, so get used to it now!
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congrats on graduating!\n\ncollege is a big transition, especially if your school is far from home.  new place, new home, roommates, etc.  It's natural to be apprehensive, but don't let it inhibit you....I think you may later rejoice in college life and wonder how on earth you could have questioned it (this happens to me with big decisions/transitions).\n\nEnjoy college and life. Learn, explore, and grow!\n\nGood luck! I will be praying for you. :)
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Put aside a certain amount of time each night to work on your classes. Try to become organized. Make a folder on your computer labeled School and keep all of your work in that one folder. \n\nDon't let yourself fall behind...it's horrible trying to catch up. Don't wait until the very last minute to do anything or you will get stressed out. That's probably the most important thing.  \n\nTry to keep it spread out so you only have to do a little at a time...it won't seem so daunting that way!