I need to know ....When a guy approaches you and you're not interested what exactly do you say??
596699
Well if you are in a social scene and a guy wants your phone number, a good rule of thumb to use is to tell them to give you their number instead. Tell them that you are busy tonight, but give me your number and I'll give you a call. This way noone is left with hurt feelings, and the dude will leave you alone.\n\nAs far as the situation the other day, I hate to say it, but since the guy wasn't getting the hint, you should have freaked out on him HARD. I would suggest sarcasm or just plain cruelty: "what the f**k is the matter with you? can't you take no for an answer or are you as stupid as you look?" Be sure to speak loudly if you do try this tactic, as he will be humiliated in front of his friends and is likely to quickly leave before he looks worse in front of them.\n\nYou may also want to consider getting some mace or pepper spray to carry when you are alone. Frankly, if some dude decides he's gonna accoust you, you better have something on hand to defend yourself with!
239294
If you aren't interested, thank them and say you just aren't interested.  You don't have to bring up that they are ugly, be polite.  If they have a nice personality, give them a chance.  Too many people are stuck on superficial traits that will fade with age.  You will never know unless you give them a chance.
195461
why must he pursue you?  Most likely if he is communicating with you online, he is probably someone who is also shy or something.  I say you should show you are interested, if you try to contact him, he will probably reply. Maybe he is thinking the same thing you are.  \n\nI like to use a little rule called 2 to 1.  If you try to contact him twice, and he dont respond- dont try again, let him contact you next- if he dont, hes not interested.
376752
if you are not interested tell him asap so you dont lead him on
688005
you may need to knee him in the groin area as you're telling him you're not interested. technically, it's not assault. it would be considered harrassment if you had already told him you're not interested before, therefore you would be defending yourself :O)
199961
Start off with, "hi" and let it go from there.  You can't force chemistry, you either got it or don't got it. If you don't have it, then you have to think to yourself, "he's not good enough for me cause he can't even talk to me." If he can't talk to you and he doesn't have anything in common with you, then he must be boring.
446519
well y don't u talk to him first and see if he really lks u. or y don't u wait for him to make the first move b/c if he flirts w/u that means that he lks u, but he don't want to tell u.
287145
Kind of like Hithere mentioned, but more specific.  If you just ask to hang out with him sometime that won't do anything.  You're missing a specific date and time in there and what to do.  The guy is just going to be like "Sure, let's hang out sometime." and that's it.  So you have to have something specific in mind.  "Are you free this weekend?"  Yes or no answer.  "Would you like to go to... with me?"  Again, yes or no.  "Cool, what time can I pick you up?"
282207
I would just wait until he came to you. If he really likes you he would want to know why you are all of a sudden ignoring him,he will then come to you so for the attention he was getting when he was ignoring you.Well thats what i would do.
42547
Just be honest and tell him&#92;her that you're not interested..
923343
Well, ask the girl again. Explain to her that you need to know her answer now only because you don't want to sit around and wait if she's not interested. I mean, if she's not interested she should just tell you so that you don't waste anymore time. If after you say this, she can't give you an answer, it's best to try things with the guy and see how things go.
797565
If I were single and I received that email form a girl I was not interested in I would ignore her to avoid an uncomfortable situation. The sad truth is he is not interested. Sorry to break your heart.
469850
You know, if he shows no interest in what you're saying, then he's not ever going to.  And therefore, he's not interested in you.  Maybe in the physical aspect he is, but nothing more..
713420
I will take the first step to be social towards a man but I don't know about 'making a move'. I guess, if you call being the first to talk to him etc making a move then definately. My fella is very shy and he thinks I'm way above his league so he would never have made the first move to talk to me, thinking that I would straight out reject him. I could definately tell that he was interested so I made it easier for him. If I hadn't done that, we wouldn't be together so I'm glad I did.
237166
If he made the effort to come up to you, he maybe interested in you.  Depending on what signals he gets from you will tell him if YOU are interested in him.  Just play it cool and if  you see him...say Hi and smile.  He will respond or not....and then you will have your answer!
1051872
Quit following the "RULES" who's the expert you or some handbook of rules that everyone goes by? If you like the guy call him if not then don't call him...If I were him and I gave you my number and you called me weeks or months later I wouldn't bother to pick up because if it took you that long to call that means you were not interested...Get what I'm saying....Make your own rules!!
277599
He is not interested in you. Probably, he is just having a good time just flirting with you. He is not serious. And since he replied in negative when you asked him out, he is not keen on you. It would be wise to forget him and move on.