I m really crazy after one guy and he also respects my feelings bt doesnt react. wat shld i do?
609581
Well dear first clearly tell him your feelings. Then show him some part of your boobs in a sexy manner when you two are alone. Let him feel that you wanna ride his cock.
293580
Don't say you're an idiot...I don't know you but I'm sure you are a nice girl...no one really is an expert or born knowing how to deal with relationship matters...for what is worth it sounds like you wish to have a REAL relationship...you mentioned that you guys had agreed on not having a relationship but see now you have feelings for him...and the longer you wait the more damaging you are doing to yourself(if he's not interested). Tell him how you feel about the situation.if he runs away then YOU'LL KNOW that he is not the right one..BUT DONT FOOL YOURSELF and hide your feelings...BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.
801644
YAWN.... he likes you. Persue him. PERIOD. Hell give in and you two will get together. You say he doesnt believe that you got over your ex but i can see how you have if your ex wasnt good to you. Its easy to get over a jerk. So go for this new guy. Persue. I know guys are supposed to persue, but i think it will be to your advantage to persue this fellow. Good luck!
213171
Hi, this is Cat...After 1 1/2 years did you not know how he felt about you? If he's clammed up, obviously he wasn't ready to hear how you felt about him. Usually a guy will be responsive how he feels way before a year has passed, he might not say so, however his actions will speak louder than words. I suggest you give him space real fast, leave him alone for a couple of weeks to a month to think and to chill out. He's probably afraid of commitment or he does not feel the same about you. Do not approach him again regarding this issue, he may bolt like a wild horse and never come back. Instead just be a friend to him for now, if it's not too late. Lesson well learnt, you know what to do next time.
546792
Forget about it.  It is clear to me that you have already made up your mind.  You are just looking for someone else to give you the stamp of approval.   Remember, it is not about HIM liking YOU.
951422
i am sorry you are going through this   he sounds conflicted and i would like to see you with a guy that after knowing you so well would find it easy to love you be with you and have the courage the vision and the energy to offer you proper attention touch affection and be emotionally available for you  please look else where and make your self available after knowing him well the man of your reality not this lost soul if he comes around later and gives you a proper romantic relationship then fine please don't be blind to the ones probably screaming for your attention
1094390
Don't waste anyone's time here. Be upfront out of respect for himself and for you. Just let him know that the feelings just aren't there and it isn't him it's just the way you feel. This way you both stand a chance of meeting the right person.
110096
Your question leave's me to believe your on a rocky road, very unstable. You have all the fact's, your the only one who can make the move's, stay or go, that is the question. From the way you phrased it, I would only think, maybe, you should move on. But, you only know how much love for this guy is in your heart. I truly wish you the best in your decission... Dr Checko... Nickname)
1007538
He's probably too scared that you'll reject him. Let him know how you feel and see what happens!
268988
okay, the deal is BOTH people need to "feel" it to go to the next step, whatever that is in your situation.\n\nyou don't feel it.  don't feel bad, that's just the way it is.  you have the right to make your own selection, and this guy is not "the one" you want to be with right now.  in other words, your situation, and your feelings are totally normal for a girl.\n\nokay, for the guy.  the good news (AND the bad news) is that this guy's situation and feelings are pretty normal for a "nice" guy, also.  he likes you, so he devotes all his attention to you, thinking this will make you "notice" him or like him.  but what he doesn't understand is that being all clingy and needy gives girls the impression that a guy has no life.  it's not very "manly", and girls like manly guys more than a guy who acts like a lost puppy looking for his mother.\n\ni would say the best thing for HIS long term mental health would be to tell him as much of the truth as you can.  tell him you think he's a nice guy, but you don't see it being more than friends, and this needy clingy thing is not really attractive, and never will be.  tell him "you've pretty much already blown your chances with me, but some other girl is going to find you very sexy once you learn how to not smother her with yourself.\n\nit might seem harsh, but if you mean well and wish him happiness, it's really the kindest thing.
660109
wow...I'm in the EXACT same position. I could've asked this question because I'm going through the same thing. I've been absolutely infatuated with this guy and don't know what I will do once he leaves. It's so difficult but the best way to get through it is to find another guy. It sounds much easier than it really is because no one compares to "him."
108037
what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
736674
You need to stop fixating on this guy. I like someone, and i can't be with me, especially seeing as i rarely see em, and it means i just think about them, then like them more, and its a really bad cycle\nSTOP\nthe more you think baout him, the more you'll like him. If he thinks your a stalker, then hes not gonna go out with you! You need to take a chill pill, stop obsessing. It will scare him off. Be cool, act uninterested and as if it was jus rumours that escalated. He's more likely to like you that way. \nHe sounds like he is a concieted jerk, but i no how easy it is to fall for em. And if he IS a jerk, the fact he knows you arent running after him MITE annoy him, guys love it when they have admirers, so wen u disappear he could veyr well want you back\nYour not a looser, your gorgeous, if he doesnt reckognise that then f*** him, its his loss. Don't let your self confidense take a dive like mine did when my guy didnt like me back. Be strong, life is full of hurdles the more you overcome the mroe grgs u are ;)
282389
I GUESS YOU HAVE TO STEP BACK AND TAKE A LOOK AT THE SITUATION... IF THINGS DON'T LOOK LIKE HE IS, THEN LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND LEAVE IT OPEN FOR HIM TO RESPOND THEN AND THERE OR LATER. HE MIGHT NEED TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT. DON'T RUSH HIM TO RESPOND. JUST LET IT BE KNOWN. YOU'LL FIGURE IT OUT. \n\nGOOD LUCK
199876
just ask him and if he dose not have the same feeling for u don't worry cause I'm sure u can find greater guys then him
614690
I understand your situation. I dated someone for awhile then I broke up with him for a really dumb reason. Went through a few transition guys and then realized I still loved him, even more than I did when we were together. I wrote him letters, but he just was not that into me. I cried, and was depressed and felt like everything was wrong in the world. What made it even worse was that we hung out together every single day.  It all changed when I stopped throwing myself at him and other guys that hung out with us were interested in me. I would flirt a little with these guys and it really go to my ex. Then one day soon after he got into me again, and I started crying tears of joy instead of tears of sadness. So just don't be desperate, make him sweat over you a little. It works, I am living proof of it :)\n\nP.S. This may work for you, but it may not. If it doesn't, please do not pine over this guy's affection for too long. Move on, live life. There will be plenty of other guys even though right now it may not seem that way now. Do not waste your life trying to get one guy, because you may be so focused on him that many oppertunities, friends, and even relationships may pass you bye.
562619
I totally understand you,I also felt like that too.But,someone has to break the silence and stand up too their feelings.Life is too short to wait,I say go up to this guy and ask if he would like to go for a walk with you sometime.Good luck.