my boyfriend is 7 years older then my and i like him but he is tierd of waighting for if i will have sex watdo
599505
Clearly, you're too immature to have sex. You and this guy are at different places in your life right now. Dump him and get some education and maturity before you go for another hookup. The guy you are with right now doesn't have any interest in you except for sex - and you're better than that.\n\nGet rid of him.
500905
If he respects you then there is no problem, if he wants to leave you because you wont have sex with him, he is probably not good enough for you
516429
stay well away sweet i had the same when i was your age hes only trying to get into your pants. when men say they really like you but dont want a relasionship that means they want no string attached sex! what you want is a nice 16 yr old or 15 who will respect u and not even try it on cause then you will no that he likes you for you and not trying to get in your pants i hope this helps and be wise
1029543
age is nothing but a number am 19 and my bf is 28 and that's as old as i would go
1042501
Sounds like he could be the one for you! He doesn't want to mess up high school with a sexual relationship, why do you? It's showing that he does Really care for you, if he wants both himself and you to be more mature BEFORE you enter into a mature relationship! Get your mind out of the gutter, and be glad that he feels that way about you.  If you are upset and want sex, no excuses, then perhaps he is the more mature one in this relationship.
646034
DONT HAVE SEX!! Otherwise, have fun and don't fret. Boyfriends that young should be only small kisses and holding hands.
1093099
Dont have sex if ur not ready, why does he keep pressuring u?doesnt he love u? Its obvious that his "manhood" stands priority over ur feelings, because if he love u like he's probably telling u then he wouldnt pressure u, someone who loves u would take the time to talk it out with you and see where the two of u stand on the situation it seems like he's just trying to score.
642476
no dont think differently ask ur bf that u want sex at least once a day
403450
Only you know if you are really ready, and the fact that you are asking this question leads me to believe that you aren't. Sex can be wondeful, but if you have to guess if he is going to stick around, makes me think that perhaps you are not ready for the emotional consequences that could result in this encounter. If he really wants to be with you he will wait. If he doesn't then you know your answer.
597518
If he really loves you then he will understand your fears and be willing to wait until you are ready.  If he is not willing to wait until you are comfortable with this then you might want to question spending the rest of your life with him.
182926
I think he's old enough to do so but if you still find it wierd or unfaithful, ask him about it. If he denies make sure you have proof for back up. NOTE: Don't try to make him look like a bad person, talk as nice as possible
866926
Age is a important factor in your question. If you are very young maybe he signed one of the abstinence pledges, to not have sex until marriage. If you are older, you may want to talk to him and find out if he is serious about your relationship and if he thinks about marriage at all, find out where he is at, or you are wasting valuable time, where you could find someone who is serious about your relationship, don't be a filler for when he has nothing better to do.\nTake care of yourself. You deserve to be happy. Good Luck.
112938
If you're happy now, then be contented with what you have. You chose to marry him despite his age and you've lasted that long together.\n\nIt is dangerous to entertain such a question...
1061416
follow your heart and remember to stand firm on your beliefs. What a precious gift to give someone you truely love. I would definately talk with him again. Sometimes young men that age think if you don't go farther in a relationship that you don't really love them or you have doubts. That simply isn't true...wouldn't he rather you wait until you can fully give yourself to the person you are gonna spend the rest of your life with. You are a very smart young lady to realize that you are to young to proceed further. You only get one chance to be young and innocent. Don't let him pressure you into doing ANYTHING you are not fully ready for mentally or physically. It's a gift you can truely only give once. Be safe sweetie.
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once you're legal, seven years doesn't make a difference.  i know EXACTLY how you feel, but i had to think about my situation too... what you have to think about is this: he was already married (that's HUGE!)... this means that he loved a woman... he slept next to her for "X" years, he knows what love is.  He has SO MUCH MORE experience in EVERYTHING than you do.  That's the only turn-off.\n\nThink about it.
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Just be completely honest with him.  Don't worry about embarassing yourself.  If he's the kind of guy you want to be with, he won't care about your lack of experience.  He will respect you and slow down.  I am a virgin, and I told my bf straight up that I wasn't going to have sex in our relationship.  He hasn't pressured me or tried to change my mind in any way.  Be honest.  It will save problems down the line:)
57590
Um.... yes, i think thats why ur name is crazy chic. That is insane. You may feel like you love him but you dont. trust me. He's 30 so he knows all the best things to say to you that you might think are sweet and thoughtful...well, hes had 30 years of experience. you may think he loves you and all but a 30 year old man wants nothing from a 17 year old girl except sex...even if you havent had sex yet, you will because he'll pressure you to. He's 30 for god's sake. he's old enough to be your father!!! trust me please, i have been in a situation like this before, i am also 17 and was dating a 27 year old guy. Dont let this man hurt you like i let mine.