how to gauge a womans sexual satisfaction levels?
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if all she says is "yeah, that was ok" you havent done your job.  If shes breathing hard and out of breath and saying things and squirming around and kissing and licking on your, then youve done a good job.
6457
on a womans point of you  there is no way you would know for sure if were having an orgasm, it's not about screaming or anything like that, you'll never know....unless she's 100% honest with you if thats the case i would question if she's truly a woman see the original birth certificate if you know what i mean
707052
touch her Legs and boobs. You'll know when shes Horny.
49066
Here's a simple way to "find" it:\n\nWith your lover lying down on her back, legs spread, kneel (or otherwise arrange yourself comfortably) so that you're between her legs, with your hand in front of you, so that (with proper lubrication, or sufficient arousal on her part, so that it's pleasant for her) insert one or two fingers (nails clipped, fingers clean) into her vagina, palm up.\n\nGently curl your fingers toward, you, palm still facing upward, so that the middle of the top joint of each finger (the spot where a fingerprint is taken) presses gently against the wall of her vagina, right under her pubic bone. \n\nSOMEWHERE in that area, more or less in the center (it may be up or down from where you first try pressing) is the g-spot. It often seems to, once found, be a slightly raised mount versus the area around it, but not enough to be able to easily find by touch.\n\nThe best way to be certain you've found it is to do this during sexual play, especially cunnilingus. If your lover's already quite simulated, she should feel, after gentle, repeated pressing on the right spot, an increasing sense of arousal, which can build up into a far greater orgasm than she normally has.\n\nEven women who normally only have one orgasm, and then are "too sensitive", can sometimes have multiple g-spot orgasms. One needs to pause, fingers still inserted if possible, while she catches her breath for a moment, then VERY gently begin repeatedly pressing the area. She may find, to her possible surprise, that it still feels good, not overly sensitive. One should lay "off the" clitoris until she begins to get quite aroused again, though.\n\nHere's a site with much more detail about this and other sexual techniques:
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lets see start with foreplay, add in more foreplay and then more foreplay!!  a women is not just a va*ina - spend lots of time exploring her other erogenous zones and always always fully pleasure her before you even think about yourself!  no tricks just good decent hard sweat work!!!!
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Foreplay.  Touching.  Women almost never orgasm by penetration only.  Rubing and touching is necessary, or a nice position that stimulates the clitoris.\n\nMost of the time, honesty is what works best.  If you are making love, and dont know if shes enjoying it, ask.  Or better, act.  Touch her and watch her reaction.  Gentle touches work marvellous!  \n\nI hope this helped!  And good luck!
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woman will have multi orgasms but the man should be efficient to bring her to that state . \n\nfew steps which will help to achieve this are \nfore play \nfinding her hot spots \nunderstanding woman interests about sex\nprovocative and humorous and sexual talking while sex\nencouraging her for active participation  etc..\n\nthese are few only but there are no of ways to achieve this depends on the woman with whom you are dealing with .
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in general esp women wud agree that a good sexual experience should include a long and sensual foreplay...enough to awaken all of her senses n if satisfied guaranteed u will be satisfied as well....
195901
a man should think to get her woman well satisfy\nsince man don't ned to be in love to enjoy sex\nbut women do. that means the more tender a man is to her\nwoman the more love she feel,this can give her multiple\norgasm,or a very deep and long climax\nso is not a matter of be the best but a love command
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Seriously?\n\nThere's not real methodology.  Every woman is different, and what works for one might be boring for another.  What you need to do is listen, listen, listen, and be obedient.  What makes a lover good and skillfull is the fact that they are highly observant- they note the changes in your breathing, the little gasp, that moan, the movement of your body, that say "Oh yes, there", or "Ah, harder".  Especially for women who are pretty silent and still in bed- they think people have innate sexual prowess because "My god, she read my mind and gave me everything I wanted!".  But it's just not so- listen and try to discern what she likes.\n\nIf all else fails, do for her what would feel good to you.\n\nEnjoy and have fun!
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Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to give her a lasting impression and get her to BEG you for more. Hearing that you find her hot and sexy and that she smells good and tastes good while you are petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, makes her feel incredibly vulnerable to you, and can make a huge difference to her entire dynamic with you.\n\nA smart man knows how to be sincere and to a woman, this is the difference between being fucked, and being made love to. An intimate man is much more arousing than one who doesn't know the art of being nurturing.\n\nMost women are shy and insecure about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her how soft she is, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.\n\nNow stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it?\n\nGently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.\n\nSpreading a woman's pussy apart is incredibly intimate. She knows you are seeing her most private parts and this turns her on. Being totally exposed, helps her to show you how much she trusts you.\n\nWhenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn't have any juices of its own and is extremely sensitive.Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit right away anyway. You have to work up to that.\n\nHer anticipation of you licking it can be a great way to build her up to arousal. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled. Approach her pussy slowly. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit.\n\nWhen you gently pull the hood down to expose her budding clitoris, it's like a little baby penis, red and wanton. It is very sensitive to touch, sucking, and blowing on.\n\nExperiment with what makes her moan. She will let you know when you are hurting her. She would rather you explored her sensitivities by going too far, rather than being too gentle and ineffective.
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So talk to her and ask her how she is feeling. If you're mature enough to have sex then you're mature to talk openly and honestly about sex.
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The major way to please a gilr is to be totally honest  with her.  If  you are honest then that shows your dedication to her. The second way to please her is to treat her like you would want to be treated. If want r the type that likes to be wined and dined then your ahould wine and dine her. To show her that u lovbe her, u should tell her. You dont have to always say that u love her verbally, you could show her. You could send her "just thinking about you" gifts. This lets her see that u actually take the time to think about her in your busy day. If u want to please her sexually, then u must be in tune with what she likes and what she doesnt like. This may mean that you have to ask her what she wants and make sure that you give it to her. If she is satisfied then trust me, she will make sure that you r satisfied. Relationships only work with effort, love, and sacrifice.
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Just ask her!  If you're not convinced with her answer, don't press the issue.  Ask for ways for you to improve her experience.  If she's worried about your feelings, that will give her the opportunity to 'help you along' without embarassment.  Real men appreciate any advice from their lady- so the fact that she offers it- does NOT mean you've been doing it wrong.  And remember, you're not born a great lover, you BECOME a great lover- take any advice graciously.
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When she says that she is tired then she is not actually looking forward to it. Perhaps there is no motivation or reward that she can get out of it. Maybe you get your rocks off or are too demanding for your own wants.\n\nDo not just think of your satisfaction, aim to satisfy her. Beleive me once you get her going on those lines, she will make sure that she finds a way to get laid. And your hearts desires/perversions will only get her more turned on.\n\nMy advise, start playing around with her the whole day, show your concern by helping her with her work, stay in the same room while she works and talk to her, a show of affection, steal a moment and yet do not demand anything till she comes to you for it.\n\nOnce you have gotten a woman going, it is very hard for her to turn off till she has had it.\n\nAim to please her.
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Give her 20 min. that would be 40 orgasms. Enough right? Then you can get down to your business, and she will be more than happy to do anything for you. After 40 orgasms, I would.
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Start acting like normal sex with her is unsatisfying.  For example, don't say much at all, and when you do make it seem like you are just saying it and not feeling it.  Also, dont' ejaculate until she gives you oral sex...but don't let her know what you are doing...see you're setting her up.  If she asks for sex or is in a sexy type of mood, beat around the bush (no pun intended), meaning try to get out of having sex a couple of times.  And whatever you do, don't talk or look at other women during this, cause she will just think that you are seeing another woman.  Show her a lot of love and affection, just make it seem like the sex isn't satisfying you.  Eventually she'll try anything to get you excited about sex...even oral!  Now, here is the kicker, when she does give you oral sex, OVEREXAGGERATE your pleasure.  Tell her it was the most fantastic think you ever felt!  And don't make fun of her or do anything to embarrass her while she's doing it...don't even look at her!  She might stop if she sees you looking at her and feel embarrassed and quit doing it.  After she sees how happy it makes you she'll do it again and again...and you have to keep up the act of how good it feels.\n\nIf after all this she doesn't do it, pay a hooker or get a new girlfriend.