Is it ok to take a girl to Dairy Queen for a Blizzard on the 1st date?  After a nice dinner.?
594959
i think it's cute...just don't press the issue like your blizzard fanatic...but yes, that would be a perfect way to end a date...icecream=sexy....ifyou handle that spoon the right way, you'll definately get a nice kiss at the end, but DO NOT talk with icecream in ya mouth cuz it makes ya tonge looked diseased
343889
nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
645278
Of course you are! So was I when I went on my first date with a girl (and then all over again with a boy).\n\nRelax, treat it like any other date.  If you're so wound up you'll be too preoccupied to enjoy the person you're with (for worrying about everyone else looking and talking about you OHMAGAWD!).  \n\nIf it helps, start out by thinking of her as an old schoolfriend, let her know you're a little anxious and ease yourself into flirt mode.\n\nHave a great night!
912298
sometimes and sometimes not. some look down on it, but if you both get that feeling and you both see it as okay, why not? as long as you both want to sure. but don't over do it. i wouldn't making out, all over each other w/ groping. that's just a little too much for a first date. a simple little goodnight kiss can be a perfect ending.
892225
I think if you truly respect her and like her then you should probably keep the touching to a minimum or she will think you have other intentions.  If you have known her for a while or were maybe friends first, then the flirty touching should be fine, and at the end of the night you could kiss..but I think that'd only be appropriate if you were good friends first.  I suggest getting to know each other first and then a hug at the end of the night.  If things go well hopefully you will get a yes to a second date!  However, do what you feel best, just let all of your physical touching be mutual and recieved well by her and make sure that nobody's comfort zone is crossed! Have fun and good luck! :)
953249
Surely you can afford to take a young lady for dinner, shame on you if you are that cheap and don't want to.  It shows alot when you want to spoil someone a little, and selfishness surely says alot about someone. But later on a nice picnic a girl makes won't cost you anything, nor a walk so yes at first it doesn't hurt to spoil someone if you really like them and they are worth it. Then you can take turns.  I once went out on a first date with someone I really liked, I discovered they were overly stingey, while I am not, there was no second date.
532762
No, not at all, if that type of behavior turns your float, floats your shipyard, dismantles your  lock, stock and barrel, then ask him out. And if anyone has a great idea for a first date send them in. Let's help this woman out.\n\n\nGreat question by the way and I'll do the cooking.
136972
don't forget she is on a first date too. plane three diff thing for the date. and you can change to plane a b c as the mood changes thur the day.
1156226
Go for it.  What do you have to loose?  Get it while it's hot man, if you let her cool off, you'll be getting the cold shoulder.  good luck
1039289
Go on a picnic at sunset at the end.... kiss her (on the check)  \nP.S. I know, I'm a girl!!!!
618499
The first time I asked a guy out we went rollerblading in the park and then went out for a casual dinner. Keep it light and don't try to be all  romantic. Just see how you feel being alone with him the first time. If you keep your date filled with activities you will never run out of stuff to talk about and you won't have those awkward moments people get on first dates when they are all dressed up at some snooty restaurant. Have fun!
722657
Dinner cruise sounds great and romantic. Or gather up some of her friends and make a beer run (or what ever her favorite drink is) and go out to a lake and party! Or just gather at the house and drink, play games and have a great safe night. Just becarefull and safe no matter what ya do. I'm sure as long as she is with you she will love what ever you plan. If she loves the outdoors then a lake scene and a fire would be great!!
643907
Privacy is the key word... dont embarass urself or her.. use a laid back aproach... such has asking her to go for an old fashioned date, such as a movie or a pizza or both... keep it simple and private in case it doesnt work out for one of you...aproach her with the simple guestion of *Hey, would you like to go to ______________, (fill in the blank) with me friday/saturday nite ? if she says no dont take it personally or make a big deal of it.. most times it is what happens after the guestion that makes the impact of rather you will look like an idiot or not...... good luck.........
954105
ok, i have a sollution, bring in a vegitarian meal for her, and she if she eats it, if she doesnt be like i dont want you to get hurt, u should really eat something\nhope that helps =)
1120326
A good second date can be a little more personal. How about inviting her over for dinner? You could impress her with your cooking skills and then maybe watch a video.\n\nOr, it's summer. How about some outdoor concerts? Bring a blanket, some food and chill out?\n\nAre you near a beach or somewhere you could hike? Take her outdoors, do something fun like that.
684722
True Date Story:\n\nMy friend and I planned to take our dates to this make out place on a mountain top, but my friend's date got sick, which meant that it was my friend, my date, and me (my friend and I had met our dates the night before). Part of our mountain top journey was that we had to drive on a mountain fire road, and snow had fallen the night before. \n\nOf course all the party animals and 4X4-ers were out that same afternoon enjoying the snow and drinking beer; somehow, though, as we drove along the mountain road, some ace managed to throw a ice-ball through my open window, and the ice-ball hit my cheek and mouth.\n\nThe ice-ball gave me a fat, bloody lip, and a swollen cheek, which meant no making out; my date decided to go at it with my friend (that was 30 years ago, and for the record I am still close with my friend). Fortunately, I was able to make use of the abundant snow and make a compression pack to at least minimize my cheek swelling.\n\nOTBPOC
1173603
There is no right or wrong answer to that question...it's up to you, her, and the moment in time.  Personally, I don't see anything wrong with sleeping with someone on a first date.  Then again, I'm really horny.