Why dont I have a sex drive?
596758
Honey, I am 28 yrs. and have been with my fiance for a total of 10 years now. In the beginning, we did have more sex than we do now. How long have you two been together? I totally disagree that it means you are not in love with him. I have more love for my man every year that passes by, even though now we aren't intimate like before. Sure, we love to be with eachother, it's just not the most important thing on our list to do. We have grown to be totally comfortable with that and it doesn't mean there is something wrong...that's my opinion anyways. You should try new and exciting things, even if it is just a laugh with eachother.
659405
Erectile dysfunction is a fairly common disorder but one which should be addressed seriously.  You should see your doctore about it, especially as it can indicate there is something else wrong.\n\nI think you are getting far too worried to be considering being Asexual because you can't get an erection.  Providing there is a physical cause it can be easily treated.\n\nIf it is because you are too anxious or nervous about sexual activity (a common cause of erectile dysfunction) then you should see a psychologist so your fears/worries/anxieties or whatever are dealt with.\n\nDon't give up!!
1171191
See a doctor.\n\nYou may have a hormonal problem or there may be psychological issues in your relationship.  Did he or you lose a job?  Is money tight? Did he or you gain weight?\n\nIf you do not want to see a doctor, take 4 gms of arginine 2X a day, on an empty stomach (before bed and in the morning - dont eat for at least 45 minutes) and take DHEA.  This will increase your testosterone levels which may increase your sex drive.
354703
Your hormones are raging. Think about it this way. When your older and no longer care about sex that much anymore, are you going to be with someone who loves you and that you love. You want someone who will be your friend when that time comes. For love, you have to make sacrifices. You can't have everything or you might end up with nothing.
1133623
That happens because you are thinking about getting laid.  Even if your brain is not thinking about sex, your body is.  Your body wants it.  But enjoy it man.  I wish I still had wet dreams (assuming you get them at that age).
50552
Hormones? I wish I had your problem though. I have no drive at all! >.<
243128
wow sex didn't work?  it might be just psychological, you know you don't have to work tommorow so the importance of sleep is not very high on your mind right then.  try the usual glass of warm milk or include a rigorous exercise routine after you get off work.
235998
obviously you might have an issue with your self esteem or depression, bad experiences as a child, and its causing you to play it out by having so many different sexual partners.  think to yourself are you just trying to feel more love, attractive, or, it could be that you are hooked on finding the right partner and cant live without sex.  it could be a lot of things.  get some help.
1099406
Sheesh!\nYou need to abstain from sex if it is draining the life force out of you.\nYou've got to stop enjoying yourself so much and start navigating this hell we call our lives. \nSmarten up and get happy, damnit!
1037148
It sounds like your man has low testosterone. This is very common for a guy his age. He can get a blood test by his doctor to see if he suffers from low test. This can be caused by lack of exercise, bad diet, overweight, lazy, and just age. He could try over the counter natural formulas to get him back in the saddle again like enzyte. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. Many young people in their upper 20s are going through the same thing now days. I would get him started with finding out what is causing the lack of wanting sex before trying to get new positions established.
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Many things affect sex drive and it is very individual.  Some of the most common causes are:\nHealth issues\nStress\nDrugs\nAffairs(by not having sex with their mate, they are not cheating on the new partner)\nPressure to have sex\nStrained relationship\nIt doesn't matter how attractive you are, if something is broken in his life or your relationship sex drive can and usually will drop to nothing\nHope you figure out what is going on and good luck
552338
Make the producer a lot of money..this is the old, "latest and greatest secret from Count Dracula...never disclosed until this time." deal. What are they enhancing today? Size...yeah, right! Sex Drive? oh, yes...I believe that one, don't you? \nThere are NO quick fixes to whatever you want. IF you have low sex drive, then go to the gym, get a good self image and that will do the trick. Check with you doc...is your testosterone level low...take a shot. Get real and get active...that is the best enhancement I can offer (actually, only you can offer it. ) Good Luck
487868
I would beg to differ with this statement.  I have a very high sex drive.  and I am anything but thin...I tease my husband that he is the woman and I am the man in our sexual relationship...
1163167
can be stress.\ncan be you need variety.\ncan be your diet.\ncan be you need more foreplay.
514194
People might just have different sex drives.\n\nI have two questions for you.\n1. Do you love him?\n2. How important is sex to you?\n\nAnswer these two questions and you might be able to figure out what you need to do.
969274
why would you be afraid of a good sex drive. what you need to do is find a woman who shares your passion, and no matter what hey may claim, there are ALOT of healthy young women out there that have a very srong sex drive and feel the same way that you do
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LOL umm are you getting more exercise and eating better? have you seen more hot girls on tv or out? exercise increases testosterone..and libido. have you stopped or slowed down the amount of sex you've been having? Images and health are the only things I could think of.