what is a good way to show respect on memorial day?
598601
Try treating every day as memorial day.. respect your country, the flag, the people that provided you this country to voice your opinion and gave you the right to travel at your own will.  Thank the people that provide you the security to live free... and take a moment each day to thank the families that gave ALL so that we could have life as we know.  The bottom line... show respect everyday.. not just one day out of the year...
524963
It is actually the custom to REMEMBER the dead on Memorial Day.  For some, the deaths may still be recent enough that they are still in mourning.  It is a more somber occasion for them.\n\nFor others, the mourning has passed, and we prefer to "celebrate" the life that has passed on.  Memorial Day  weekend has long been seen as the unofficial start of the summer, due to the fact that the pools open, kids get out of school within these two weeks for summer vacation, etc.  It is quite natural to celebrate those lives then, by having barbeque's etc.
536940
I'm going to participate in a Memorial Day remembrance at the Madison County (New York) Veterans Memorial in Wampsville at 2:00 PM today.  Then tomorrow, I'll preside over my American Legion Post's memorial service.  Tomorrow IS the real, the original date upon which Memorial Day traditionally falls.  My Post does not agree with the idea of observing that special day on any other date.  Doing so, in our view, marginalizes the immense sacrifice of the families who lost their loved ones in wartime.  We take solace in the fact that, whether it's done on the traditional day or the previous day, at least people are taking notice.
584230
Here is a really good link that gives history and background on Memorial Day :)
1066130
I don't know if there is really a way to tell them where they won't get mad at you.  But, they will learn in time to accept it, even if they don't agree with it.  You have to do what your heart is telling you to do.  They won't be so mad at you that they won't think about you every day, they'll still write, and await your arraival to come home.  And in the event that you don't come home alive you have the gratitude of a greatful nation.  Also, when in time your son grows up, he will come to realize that your sacrifice will undoubtably swell his shirt with pride that you thought enough of him, his momma, and this nation to fight and die (heaven forbid) for it.  Parting off to war is NEVER easy.  Never was, never will be.  If it ever gets easy or 'not-a-big-deal' then we are in trouble.  War is an ugly thing.  A thing where innocent people get hurt and killed.  It's one of the things that makes it be a thing to be avoided.  But I also don't advocate the 'no war at any cost' camp.  Thomas Jefferson said:"...those who will give up freedom for security, deserve neither."  So, go and serve your country, and make your boy and wife proud.  I was in the Navy for 4 years, and I honor ALL veterans from ALL wars, and peacetime.  Even though I'm a verteran, and can't go back in now due to diabetes, I can still 'root for the home team.'  Every job in wartime involves peril.  From the Commander of Coalition forces to the lowly mess cook.  To put yourself in harm's way on behalf of us here in the States, takes courage, selflessness, and pride.  Be proud of what you do, and someday, they will be prouder of you, weather you return home to a hero's welcome, or a hero's funeral. \n\nGood Luck, and God Bless you.\n\nI will pray for ALL our troops, wherever they are!
678625
Do what you think is best to reslove the situation,.... any questions, soldier?
835557
stop in briefly.\n\n a person sitting Shivah is going though a period of mourning and reflection. They want your support but not a party. \n\nwait for the person to acknowledge you. \n\nbefore you bring food know how strictly they keep kosher. \n\nand like I said before pay your respects and if they do not indicate for you to say longer, dont. It should not take more than 10-20 min\n\npratical advice
1159669
Be kind to one another. Practice patience, kindness and tolerance.
1028935
semper fi soon to be fellow devil dog. Stay strong and keep your confidence no matter what comes your way.  Cherish the relationships you make with your brothers, they'll last forever. And thanks for doing what your doing.  Not many will acknowledge it but the one's who do know how important it is.  OOrah
647037
no all veterans should be honored. those men have rised their lives for us and given us the freedoms we enjoy everyday.  that is a very unpatriotic thing to say.  should we quit celebrating your bday?
749063
the best thing is your words.. show them your appreciation in a meaningful way.. like cards or can even talk to them..
717073
As a person who was raised by a single mother I can tell you that showing respect in turn; leading by example is one of the best ways.  My mother always said thank you, please this, please that, and I picked up on it.  Then she moved to other things; how to treat a lady, open doors, carry heavy objects, walking on the outside of the sidewalk etc.  So the short answer; Love him and show him respect and he will eventually follow suit!
64404
Treat them with dignity and respect.
720158
Memorial Day is a day to remember those before us who have defended our way of life.  And it is sad to admit it but yes ALOT of people in America have forgotten what its all about.  I am in the Mitiltary, and I wish for once people would help us respect those that gave there lives for us.  I find it very desturbing that America has to be attacked before anyone notices that we (the military) are out there everyday, working hard to keep America safe and free.  We dont get days off, even if we do have a "day off" we could still be called in.  Those who are in the military have not forgotten Memorial Day.  And we respect any American that still remembers what Memorial Day is all about.  We do what we do to protect everyone in America, its nice to be noticed and honored for what we give up to Serve Our Country!
1072416
That is great to honor her that way.  If others ask, tell them that.  Show that you are happy for knowing, or remembering great times and celebrate that.
688574
http://memorialdayorigin.info/  <<that site will explain Memorial day for ya
21109
Consider this - what do you do on November 11th to honor those veterans who fought to defend this country?\n\nWhat do you do on the first Monday in September to honor those who labor in this country?\n\nWhat do you do on the last Monday in May to honor those who gave their lives fighting for this country?\n\nIf you're anything like me (or the vast majority of Americans) you don't really do anything special.\n\nWhile I'm not saying that the attacks on September 11th were not horific and terrible, odds are that in a few years September 11th would turn into another holiday that goes largely uncelebrated and Americans use as another day off.