How do you stop a stalker?
602778
If her aunt and uncle are a problem, she should also get a restraining order against them.  She should log with the local police department any violation no matter how small.  Because she and her child have been beaten by the guy, she should insist that a police report be taken.  If one is not, file a report with your county DA.  The idea is to create as much documentation of the facts and evidence as posible.  Finally, she should get the restraining order expanded to include common locations they might come in contact such as the childs school, church, property she lives at and also include a restraint to accept invitations to enter restricted locations.
314411
If a man did this it would be stalking and you need to get a life. If he doesnt want you leave him alone.
1163095
cut off all connections with this person\nget rid of all that reminds you of them\ngood luck
767111
You may want to check your local and state laws to find out what actually is considered "harrassment" and "stalking".  Are there distance requirements?  Does the person have to threaten physical action or actually come in contact with his intended target?  I would recommend that you get caller id and also make sure you screen all phone calls with an answering machine so you have a record of his activity.  Make sure that the people that you are in touch with on a regular bais - child care workers employers, family - know what is going on.  keeping this type of thing secret can give the stalker an unfair advantage.\nBe safe and please, Please do not take matters into your own hands.  The law in any state does not protect vigilantes.  Only if you life is in imminent danger do you have any ground to stand on in defense.
179663
If ignoring doesn't work, or he creeps you out too much:\nTell him FIRMLY that if he continues to follow you around, that you will begin contacting authorities (police, the principal, etcetera- I don't know your situation). \n\nI once had a problem with someone like that, and he called my bluff. I actually called the nonemergency police line. To hear me talking with someone in Authority scared him and he never bothered me again.\n\nCarry your cell phone with you at all times and have alternate routes/emergency plans in your head.\n\nBe safe.
769456
well you could say hes a stalker which i think he is and put a restraining order against him also for harassment. or you could also possible get him for defamation of character if he says damaging things about you, for that check out this website\nhttp://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-defamation-of-character.htm \nbut im almost positive you can take him to court for harassment and for being a stalker
976484
OMG ME!!!! I call them stalkers. SO ANNOYING omg.....GRRRR
411968
Stalker.  Just kidding, good luck!
337286
There are remedies for this. First off, in most states there are laws against harassing phone calls. They don't have to be threatening. Second, you can get a criminal protective order. It is similar to a restraining order. Again, no threats have to be made. I see them issued all the time at work. \n\nWhat other posters are telling you is correct. This guy is potentially dangerous. The stalking law probably won't apply. That takes a credible threat that has placed you in fear for ou safety.
455353
A stalker can turn dangerous..\n\nA creep is just annoying....\n\nBe careful, some creeps BECOME stalkers....
1069899
What are you....a stalker?
719228
I am sorry, but you can not put a restraining order on someone you cannot identify. \n\nFirst step, go to the police and file a report on the harassment. Harassment is against the law, but usually you have to be able to identify the perpetrator. Your cell phone provider may be able to help you identify the caller. But if you talk to the police and explain the situation they should be able to tell you what options you have under your circumstances.
553201
Tell her directly that you want nothing to do with her.\n\nIf that fails, start documenting when she harasses you.  Note the time, date and what happened.  After 3-4 times, contact the police and request to file a complaint against her.  Also request for an order of protection against her from the court.\n\nIf she violates the court order, she will face charges.\n\nBe clear, send the right message to her.
501775
leave him fast. he is a stalker and obsessive...believe him when he makes the threats... god bless and good luck. REALLY
1004010
I am sure that there is a registered sex offender list that he has to register with. Find out if he has registered because if he hasn't, he can get busted for that alone.\n\nYou may also want to discuss it with the city attorney's office or prosecutor's office (they usually know more than cops) as to what your local stalking laws are and what kinds of recourse you may have like restraining orders, etc... (Often enough a stalking law defines stalking as to "instill fear") Unfortunately, if someone is really twisted and demented, a restraining order doesn't mean much.\n\nThe other thing I may suggest is that when you see him, call out at the top of your lungs, "Hey child molester, how are you doing today? Is this how you spend your days since getting out of jail, watching little kids in the pool?" Essentially bring to his attention that you know he is around, embarrass him so that maybe he will get away from you anyway. Another possibility is to openly picket outside his home to alert EVERYONE who is is and why you are there. Stay on public property though.\n\nGood luck there.
68996
Ask them. It makes you come off less like a stalker than any other way!
971375
File a harassment case against the violator.  It is the only way to solve the problem rather than suffering in silence.