My boyfriends's ex still lives at my boyfriend's brother's house ,what can I do?
612461
Stay away from his brother's house.
276610
If I were you I'd talk to your girlfriend about it see what she thinks.  She could get her brother to back off.  If not u may get the hell out of there.
81639
that's a very bad situation. only advice i can give you is based on the experience i had last year. my situation started out like yours and ended with me stayin in a crack neighbor hood and my boyfriend tryin to kill himself cause of the ex. i think it's a bad situation and you need to take whatever steps you can to get her to stop. legal or illegal. if this situation is f*ckin with your head then you NEED to get out of it. don't put up with S*it like that, you don't deserve it. there are other ppl out there
788280
A couple that I know lived like this for years and it worked out good for them and they remain friends to this day.  I doubt that I could personally live that way but if people are capable of it then more power to them.  If you can't discuss it with the ex, then try and discuss it with your boyfriend and be honest and open about how you feel.  Hopefully he will be able to ease your inferiority and make you feel like a queen in his life at present.  Good luck to you.  We all have pasts and that is why it's called that because it is all gone.
725930
She hasn't called u cuz she's avoidin u.  N thats not a bestfriend, bf don't bail out on any situation. She has no concern for u n your family now that she has a place.  n her boyfriend stayed with her, i'm sorry but sounds like they took advantage of your hospitality, giving them both a place to stay. If she's a real bf she'll find a way to get her half n help out.  You r a good friend to her, u might have to reconsider your friendship. Hope things work out for u n family.
699692
Talk to him honestly, find out if he intends to keep living with her.  If he does, then you should move on.
613713
There are legal ramifications if they get caught, because he falsified documents.  What the course of action would be, depends on your state laws I am sure and what the apt. management want to do about it.\n\nI would say at the very least the friend will get evicted, loose his security deposit and may have to pay an additional fee.  If they choose to go after your boyfriend, I am not sure what they can do legally.
891002
To be honest your best off ignoring it if both you and your girlfriend trust each other this should not be an issue anyway. The ex is more than likely only doing it to annoy you hoping it will cause problems so don't rise to it. She is with you not him :)
584847
why are you living there in the first place???\n\nsounds like you have a problem.\n\nfirst, you should be grateful to them for giving you a place to live.\n\nsecond, you should get your stuff and try to find a relative or family member you can stay with.\n\nthird, eat crow and apologize to his family and ask for their forgiveness, if you were being a brat at THEIR house.\n\ntake care
1097391
relax, next time don't go to parties anymore. but it was wrong to leave you hanging there alone. he should right next to you when he is sitting next to his ex.
303808
FIRST: KICK HIS SISTER OUT!!\nSECOND: KICK HIS STUFF OUT!!\nTHIRD: BRING HOME A HOTTIE AND GIT IT ON WITH HIM!!\n\nand why do you love a loser who cheats on you. Instead go out, party, have fun and better yet keep his stuff and sell it on ebay and make extra money so you can go buy yourself designer apparell and maybe go on a vacation and meet hot new guys!! =P
587547
I know it hurts real bad...I know this from experience. I caught my brother with my g/f after he lost his job, and place to live so I moved him in with us..BAD MISTAKE!!! I left her at that moment when I caught them without turning and looking back...I just said we are through got my stuff and left...My brother ran after me and I told him to "go F*** off you made my bed now lay in it all you want" Two weeks later I went back to my house with a Sheriff and handed them both a piece of paper saying that the court has ordered them to vacate the premises. that following weekend I had a yard sale and sold all my brothers stuff and hers and they couldn't do anything because they had no reciepts so I said everything was mine. 7 years later they are happily living in a homeless shelter with 2 kids and I haven't spoken to either of them since the day they tried to get me for selling their *oopps* MY STUFF..lol...Just don't threaten or say anything you will regret as a person...You don't have to go to their level....You will be in my prayers and turn to friends they will help out alot...
1111074
Your b/f needs to explain to his ex (if it seems appropriate) not to hit on him or to tell her to butt out.  Unfortunately, since they have a son, it makes it harder.  You need to trust him not to do anything and eventually (when she sees it is not working) she'll stop (hopefully..some women are nuts).  Talk to your b/f about your feelings (calmly) and see what he thinks as well.  You'll both work things out.
561747
well i am having a baby for my best friend brother and she just found out plus the parents did not know that we were dating. we did not know how they would react to him and i dating so i think if she has a boyfriend than your brother should stop being the fool and find him someone he can call his own.
1176033
I can relate.  First off, make your boyfriend get a lawyer to defend his rights and make sure the childs rights to him are met.  That way she can't use the child against him, for her guilt purposes or manipulation.  He doesn't want to look back and have crap over his head that he should sort out now and be done with.  I think that alone will put an end to having to deal with the ex only for about the child reasons.  Then have a talk with confidence about the ex situation.  She is trying to make him miserable and if putting trouble in your relationship is a way she will use it.  Don't sound jealous or too upset, just concerned and caring about what you two have now.  Let him understand that being with him also means you are part of this equation and your feelings matter,  Then afterwards have a great (you know what I mean girl) evening with him so he doesn't forget that working things out with you ALWAYS will pay off.  GOOD LUCK!
1058119
Go to the BBQ and let your daughter meet her uncle and half siblings. You and your daughter are the invited guests and it doesn't matter why your ex won't be there although I wouldn't be a bit surprised if your ex's brother deliberately did not invite him to keep the peace with you. Give it a chance and you and the ex's family can agree to not disgree. No matter what has happened between you and the ex, your daughter is still a part of that family's flesh and blood.
36851
get a new boyfriend. then don't look back. there's a reason why he's an ex.