If the guy don't know how to make up his mind... about your relationship... will you leave him?
608781
By not making up his mind, he has already made up his mind.....he''s not interested in a relationship with you. When people are interested, it's NO problem to make up their mind, and you WILL know it. Move on! Find another man that CAN make up his mind! Good Luck!!
1122379
I probably would not continue the relationship. I can't stand men who are dumb, of course, most of them are...lol. But, if it causes you to not be able to carry on a conversation at some level, you will never be satisfied with this "special" person.
691098
My advice is you tell your guy that. If he seems  distant then he's not the guy who deserves your attencion. If he says he had no idea. Then say "fine, I have a way for you to make it up to me..." and invite him somewhere. If he says no. Then if he can't make time in his "big" schedule  for you then whats the point in knowing him anyway?
750985
If he is that easily swayed one way or the other, then he's a flake to begin with...now or later, he'd a bailed on you-obviously he's too lazy to make up his own mind or look into what's true or not. Wouldn't you rather wait for a REAL man?
789379
ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
892303
That you are not ready. If he can not accept that then you need to move on.
832573
That easy...TELL HIM you'd like to wait awhile.  If he's the right guy, he will be kool about it.  If he's a jerk about it then he just made things VERY easy, LEAVE HIM!\n\nGood luck, there's still a few "good guys" left out there.\n\n:)
296376
I'm a guy, but I think that if someone does not want to make a commitment to you, it may be time to move on.  I would ask why he feels that way...is it indecision, fear, immaturity, wanting to play the field or does he not love you enough?
1135936
NO, but...discus it with your "now" guy first. "IF" he rather you not then don't. It's about "respect", and if you respect your guy then do what he asks of you. BUT remember he may say yes, he doesn't care, but if you know him well enough you should know that he's saying " please don't".
1186786
Now why would you want to go and end a good relationship just because he did something you don't like. Even if he didn't stop in the middle of it you would be making a huge mistake to leave him. How is the relationship other wise? Do you really want to take the chance of getting into a worse one?   Think. Think. Think.
1050585
I have been in your situation before. To keep things settle and not push him away, it will be best to leave things as they are and let time change his mind. Let each day go by and then he can realize the true you, well i am not saying that you are not being true, but he will realize that you are not out to harm him in anyways and the same for you from him. I know it will be hard not to mention it at times, but a man doesn't want to feel rushed into things like "commitment". Some are just terrified of it. Continue to have an open communication level with him so he knows that he can trust you. Good luck...and hang in there.
287984
Tough one....have you tried to talk to him about it and see what he thinks?
571292
Only you can answer that question.  Seems to me, if you have to ask, you need to make that decision to break up with him.
985905
dont give him the satisfaction in telling him you're going to leave him. some men get off from knowing that you'll stay no matter what. he sounds selfish and the only way of knowing is leaving and see what he does. if he comes back, he loves you. if not then you know why...
1096082
you already know the answer. you will leave him or start cheating yourself to get even. your decision is to leave with your dignity or not.
502757
Maybe not necessarily break up, but definitely confront his butt and find out what is up. If he stutters and lies, then kick him to the curb.
1119306
Sometimes you gotta go with your heart... he may be getting cold feet (at the mention of marriage) especially if he was a quote/unquote  "player" before devoting himself to a relationship with you... sometimes the hardest thing is to think "is this the one?" The risk is in the leap of faith you take, by making the vows and all... will you really love him for the rest of your life?, visa versa on his part... sometimes open lines of communication is key... keep your head up girl! maybe he just needs some time to think about his place in this... talk about things then let it go... dwelling on it will only make things become ackwardly annoying to each of you.,..say whats on your mind let him say his piece, then go on to daily routine...