when my relationship ended my GF ended it because of a certain reason that...?
610323
If it was that easy for her to leave you without even caring to know the truth behind her reason then more than likely her reason was just an easy way out if i were you i would just leave it alone you've been o.k. for a month eventually u won't even think about her but it will take time!
33798
No, it just means your ex-friend is being nosy.  If your ex wants to know why you broke up, tell him to ask you.
414216
if it's been a on/off relationship then you should just end it, obviously you two keep breaking up for a reason and probably only getting back together due to loneliness. It will probably happen again.  Get out and move on
390040
maybe she just fell out of love with you.it is still pretty terriable that she did that to you i don't understand how people can do that to each other its so sad and painfull for the person your breaking it off with why do people have to be so crule?!
1132948
Well if you're concerned that you might be heartless, that automatically shows that you're not! \n\nSo either like everyone here is saying, you weren't really emotionally vested anyway, and you can shrug it off as an unfortunate experience...OR....you didn't allow yourself to deal with feeling whatever you were feeling at the time she broke it off (this wasn't a mutual decision? Then you might have some resentment or anger buried there) I'm only saying this because obviously SOMETHING about the breakup is bothering you...so just figure out what it is, deal with it and move on.
376915
find out why you two broke up and then go out and fix that problem. chances are that'll fix it and you'll have a better chance.
902964
She's trying to be nice and stay friends, although it is the wrong thing to do.  It's obvious that she broke up with you because she already had someone she was interested in, and wanted to go for it.  It's possible she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.  I would personally tell her it's over, and to leave it at that.  OVER.  No more calls.  Just tell her to leave you alone.  She is being selfish and not thinking of you.
150168
being female, i can tell you she either doesn't want to be with you anymore but doesn't want to hurt you, she's having bad pms, or she's seeing someone else that she likes better than you.  this is all if she just started being distant.  if she's been like that the whole time you've been together, then she needs help cracking her emotional shell
772707
Your chances are low right now, I'm sorry.  You didn't give the circumstances surrounding the break up; but the fact is that when you feel lonely, even the people you trust most aren't going to be attracted to you.  That's human nature --- to shun the needy.  She isn't likely to view the potential of your relationship in the long run; more likely, she'll see you as a desperate man with no self respect.   \nYou use the word "ever", so if you get over her, find someone else (someone you are truly happier with), you probably will make her jealous.  Do NOT believe it if she says she would be happy if you found someone else!  That's, in fact, a bluff whether she knows it or not.
133388
Yes yes, this just recently happened to me. I stopped talking to the girl because she dumped me for some dude. then as soon as she breaks up with him it's "I'm sorry I never meant to hurt you it's was all me. I didn't want to bring you down with me." So I am like cool I haven’t talked to you in a couple of months. She is all like I would like to be friends then I like cool let go do something give me a call. I haven’t talk to her since.\n\nIt's because she wants to let there be a possibility of a future when and if she wants it. Also she doesn't want me blaming myself for her dropping me like dog poo.\n\nYeah this situation totally sucks if you cared for the girl. But the best thing that I have found to do. Is forget her and find the next one.
682511
If she took it that seriously you can really tell that it hurt her most because she was already feeling like a nobody.The truth is what hurts people the most. The best perspective here is to think that she's not talking to you because she needs you to suffer a little so you can see that you made a big mistake; if this is the case then it's temporary and she will get back with you. I don't think you should face this,for now, as the end of the relationship,if she loves you,she will forgive you. I think you have done all the right things,as you said, asking for forgiveness and owning up to the mistake.
845912
Breaking up with a GF. That pained me greatly.
594664
believe it or not, right now i am in your ex's situation and when i told my ex that i want it over means, i want it over. fullstop. i'm not seeing anyone else but i just feel like being single again and spend more time with my pals. i realized that having a gf too early was a big mistake. she didn't do anything wrong in particualr, and she's a very nice girl. i just need some time alone. hope that "answers" your question. good luck though :)
569048
well, i think the most obvious reason is that your not being satisfied like you should be. But sometimes ppl just want something different that one time.\n i just broke up with my guy cuz he lived so far away and i wasnt gettin none. i fixxed that problem right up ;D so sometimes distance can be the problem, too.
531476
Well I went one stage further... \n\nI was messaging a girl i'd never seen before... It got to be like an addiction, and my gf would see the messages and get upset... I never met the girl, so nothing physical happened, but it was still a form of cheating... \n\nI ended up splitting up with her as I couldn't take hurting her any longer.. It was killing me inside, but couldn't stop it... We'd been together 2 years... \n\nNow 2 years has past... She's had another relationship in between, but now we are getting closer again... \n\nI have changed, as have looked long and hard at my life since my problem.... We are now very happy again... \n\nGive it time... Time heals... If you want it that badly, you'll wait... But depends how long you were together, and how deeply you feel...\n\nHope this helps.
469237
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
206232
Ending a relationship hurts.  Just take time for yourself.  Do the things you didn't get to do as often when you were with her.  Try something new.  But definitly don't rush into a new relationship.  It's only been a day, like you said.  It will get better, I promise!