Do most women know what men want when it comes down to 1st impression?
608134
OOOhhh, yeah.  From "hello".  And it's usually the way they LOOK at us, rather than what they say.
601065
Girls who want you for you money don't want you....they want your money!! Its an attractive feature but its just one thing.  Women essentially want someone who will love them, make them feel special, listen to them and be there for them. They want someone who they can talk to and who stimulates them (intellectually and physically!)and someone who makes em laugh! Things I like, funny, easygoing, intelligent, understanding and....integrity, are there any men left with integrity????!!!!
1035574
if they are straight up thats what they want from you they will tell you,if its anything else they wount.woman tend to do this if they really want sex..
25392
First of all, you need to realize that each woman wants or needs something a little different in her man...we don't all want or need the same things. You must also know that the qualities we are looking for in a man must be genuine, and not there just to impress us...which means that you can't read an answer on this list, and conform yourself to that answer in order to impress a woman..but you can look for suggestions, and work on certian aspects of your personality in order to improve yourself as a human being.\nMy perfect man would be dependable...and truely interested in me.  He would be the type who actually takes the tree down from the attic when he said he would...a man who does what he says he will do.  My man would call me often to tell me that he can't wait until we are together again.  My man would be touchy feely...not afraid to hold hands, hug, or kiss in public.  He would look up from across the room and give me that smile meant for only me.  He would walk in at the end of the day and say...this was the worst day at work ever...and I've never been so tierd...but it's worth it now because I'm here with you.  He would have a sense of humor as well as a positive attitude.  He'd be willing to learn new things with me, and he's also going to want to be with his own friends from time to time.  He will know that he can trust me with his life, and I will know that I can trust him with mine.  Of course there are a few other things here and there, but when all of this comes together, then the romance is there....and obviously the personality is there and the looks just won't mean as much as some people think they do.
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let me tell you the first thing about women... never take advice from women about women. Let me prove that one to you. I once asked my sister two questions. The first question was "what do you look for in a guy?" I got the typical "i want a guy that treats me good, does sweet things for me, and blah blah blah". then i asked her to describe the guys that she has had the longest relationships with. well I'll be damned if those two answers weren't the farthest away from each other as they could be. Now some girls you ask may get a good piece of advice in there once and awhile, but let me tell you the three "C's" of what a women looks for in a man. Confidence is probably number one. Not to be confused with arrogance, confidence is not having a self esteem problem. Know in your head that you are good enough for a women, but don't think that you are better than her. The second: Control. Control is about being your own person and in control of your own life. Being a decision maker and being confident in the decision. Taking charge of a date for example. None of this crap about i don't know, what do you want to do. This is where many many men falter. Control in this manner is not about controlling what a woman does. it's about being a take charge guy. One word of caution about this is that there may be feminist or two out there that don't like this kind of crap. Those women need to be kicked to the curb. The third is a challenge. Never let a woman think that you are a loser. Women want what other women want. Let her think other women want you. never wait around for a women and beg her like a puppy dog. you have your own life, live it. and if you don't, pretend. go out with your friends, go on dates with other women. And if and when you start dating a women, remember that you still have friends. never let a women tell you "let me think about it". that's just postponement for her to tell you no with hopes that you will forget about it. I'm not in any way telling you to treat a women like crap. a lot of people assume that from me when i tell them this stuff. you need to treat your woman good, but do not be her little bi***. Bottom line, women want a man to be a man. The big protector. Be a gentleman. Open doors, and treat her like a lady, but be a man about it, not a p**** whooped fool.  You sound like you're ready to hand over your testicles.  you will "worship the ground they walk on"... if it doesn't work try something else.  accept that you need to change
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It's not hard, but it seems to me from my experiences that women say they want one thing then actually go after another....\nI'm yet to meet a woman who would go for a genuine nice guy over an asshole who treats them like crap, maybe they just need something to complain about to the nice guys they just want to be "friends" with...
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In my experience, women look for 1 of 4 things, in no particular order:\n\n1. Charm/Humour\n2. Money\n3. Meanness\n4. Looks\n\nJust because you're not mean and don't want to be mean to a woman, doesn't mean you can't bring one of the other 3 "talents" to the table.
679196
Absolutely!  I think women are more honest about what they want and don't feel the need to make empty promises about "looking for someone to settle down with" like men do.
404708
women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
612341
Not all men are clueless. Some get it and know how to treat a woman with respect.
101820
Hell no...guys are stupid, they won't know what you want unless you tell them or show them...besides, nowadays it's totally commonplace for girls to make the first move!!
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No, as a matter of fact I like it when a woman makes the first move. Making the first move shows that she knows what she wants and she isn't afraid to go after it. It also shows that she is very comfortable around a guy and that she is very comfortable in her own skin and honest with herself pertaining to her own feelings.\n\nAlso, for me in-particular it's a major turn-on to know that a woman wants me bad enough to boldly make the first move.
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It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
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I'll be honest.  For a first date, looks are very important.  I mean, the first thing you know about a person is whether or not they are physically appealing.  Whether the guy has a good personalilty determines if he gets a second date.
379003
what men want is a woman who is open minded.  Don't get me wrong, looks are what will attract us at first, but its the same for you at first too, isn't it?
487811
Don't haggle with it dear...we want what women want-sometimes not in the same order...that is all.The majority of us do/will settle down when the timing seems fit.For the meantime we cannot deny what nature has designed us to do...we must indulge in it or be at constant war with our inner being.If women could just understand that and feel what we feel for just one day...the majority of them would not post all the "Why are all men/Why do all men" questions anymore!We know that we can't live without women...but when will you women admit that?\nNothing personal miss..just food for thought,thank you & have a goodnight.
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well the reason we know usually is because we also are waiting for the invite! not all women dont get me wrong but alot of us lol and we can pick up on the vibe and the look when a man wants to sleep with us women you men have a "certain look" about you i would say good luck to you but it seems as if you have it all under control! lol but always be safe and respectful of us women