Ladies, I need advice.?
610497
Well if she used sex to "get you"....then it must have been pretty good, right?  Just try to re-kindle that.  You know it's in there somewhere, don't let her stop just because you're together now, you still have to make eachother happy and satisfied.  Don't cheat just yet.  Tell her you want her, and you miss the sex...compliment her and build her up a little..she'll be turned on before you know it.
142755
Give her space.\n\nGood luck.
575975
I think that is the perfect idea, just dont stalk her. Treat her like lady not a and toy. Take her out, get to know her, talk it might work out just know everything u can about her but dont try to hard and become upsessed.
531964
If this is a female... honey ... guys and directions are two things that are impossible to go together in the same sentence/question... practice on another female, trust me a woman knows what a woman wants!
630674
I dun wish to be in your position...but if I were you, I would speak to the first abt my feelings and tell her that while I really appreciate all she has done for me, it would be great if she can be a little tactful...tell her she hurts your feelings sometimes, and remember to tell her how much her advices and thinking have help you a lot! \n\nAs for the second...seek her advice when you think you need it. She might be waitin for you to ask...but too shy to tell you her opinion without you asking...=)
664068
Be yourself and relax.Good manners are a plus\nwith most women,as is a sense of humor.
407129
From what you have said it seems to be great just take what she is saying as a precaution for you . It will happen soon enough just give it time and she will open up to you even more. You have gain her trust so everything is basically like clock work she is going to be yours now the thing is when it does happen how far are you going to go. Miss might  just  want a one night stand she might want something more serious so when it all happen you better be what you pro tray to be a nice guy  or it will just be another GOOD THING GONE BAD SO BECAREFUL HOPE I HAVE HELP GOOD LUCK
1186636
The best way to do this is to be upfront and straight forward. That's all I can say. Good luck, sweetie.
166982
follow her signals. some like it rough, some like it gentle. some like it fast, some like it slow etc. go with what ever your getting the most reaction to. Just remember its not all about you.
449955
If she is asking you for advice, tell her to kick him to the curb and find someone that will appreciate her and show her he loves her. Why waste time and energy on him.  She probably will not listen to you.  Women like to wear blinders and ignore the advice of friends about the men in their lives.  If she is not soliciting for your advice---stay out of it.
352542
This is going to solve ALL your problems! To put it straight forward, stop being a wuss and start livin life man! women tend to lean more to a dude who is a bad boy then some shy pushover. Its time to stop being unconfident and start being a trouble maker! it worked wonders for me!!
313953
Well my first advise is to quit playing games. No girl wants a guy that wont be honest from the beginning. Now you have to work to earn her trust back. When maybe in the first place maybe she would have said yes if you werent playing these dumb games with her
738925
i'm 23 and can tell you honesty is always best. i like flirting but if i know a guy is interested i make it pretty obvious i am too but most women are not like that so you will just have to walk up to her start making small talk and try and read her body language to see if she's interested in you. then just ask her, if she says no she's in a relationship believe her, its nothing against you. if she says yes then you're in!  i really think all the game playing/flirting without making it clear that you're interested in someone is a waste of time and you miss so many great opportunities. as far as your past and the overweight issue, i understand i have a sister who has struggled for yrs. with this and she went through a divorce several yrs ago and that really damaged her ego further. she felt like no one would ever want her but the thing is there are many men who prefer larger women. i tend to be on the thinner side not skinny but more slender and have been out at clubs with my sis and there are just as many men who hit on her as they do me. the difference i think is confidence plain and simple, she went through alot got some counseling and came to grips with who she really is and accepted it in doing that she overcame it and many men find that more attractive that she's confident and sure of herself and really comfortable with herself.  you need to understand that no matter what weight you are you are still attractive and that you're a good person, witty and intelligent and have a lot to offer.  even beautiful ppl get rejected (just look at all the stars lately getting divorced) so its nothing personal and being rejected is not necessarily bad it may well save you from a really bad relationship. bottom line you will never know if this woman is the one unless you talk to her and pursue it, if she isn't interested then you know she's not for you. try not to let the past control your future (the overweight teenager thing) recognize that this is an issue with you that you let it control your actions probably in all aspects of your life but especially dating. once you recognize the problem its easier to deal with, now its time to put it all behind you, what you are in the past is not as important as what you are today and understand that all the bad stuff in your past has made you the person you are today, be thankful for the good and the bad. you sound like a really nice guy and i can tell you although women fall for a bad guy at least one time in their lives they are searching for someone just like you. i really hope you act on this, you just never know who is waiting and wanting to meet you and if you don't do something about it then you are guaranteed to never know if she's the one for you. go for it...because the worst thing that could happen is she's already taken then you will know for sure and can move on. good luck, hang in there and don't live in the past , learn from it otherwise you are doomed to repeat it.
541056
Listen more speak a bit establish idea first, then flirt if feel be serious
255265
Just tell her straight out that you want to be closer to her, and that you want your relationship to evolve into something deeper. Women appreciate honesty in a man...at least I know I do! Don't make her guess over your feelings. Who knows, she might want to be closer to you, but is scared to make the first move. Best of luck to you!
489671
Honestly I am a female and i will give u advice. The thing tthat u should do is relax, take a deep breath and think over.Just by looking her u feel good but also u have words that wont come out the right way. when u see her face again u should stop her and get to know her first. find out what she likes to do and you'll find your way in, meaning your time will come so u can express your feeling or any special thing u feek for her. just give it a try but one thing never rush a female.take nice and slow and easy. if u need advice talk to me i will help u cuz i am a girl that been through experience like that and i didnt know what to do until i found my way. try!!
250218
If you really care for your girl tell her.  But be gentle about it because you know how woman tend to think other wise when it comes to certain thinks.  I know cause I'm guilty of it too.  Let her know you care about her and you are not saying this to hurt her, you just fell that she should know so maybe she can talk to her roommate.