I feel lost and confused please help?
600651
Hello there!!=) \n\nWell, i think that you just might have come on too strong and she is shocked from what had happened..So i think that you should give her some time to think about how she feels about you. And she'll come around and let you know how she feels. Just give her few days and for now be cool dont push it...hope this is helpful! gud luck n take cares! =) oh and if she dont give you an answer after a few days then just go up to her and ask her watsup? but try to be cool kay! laterz
1159895
Yes - sorry you are feeling bad.  I've been feeling like a mess and horrible for about 2 weeks myself and nothing seems to be getting better yet.  I hope it does.  I'll cross my fingers for you if you cross yours for me, okay?
1009754
It's easy to feel lost at the thought of moving on.  And leaving middle school for high school is a big deal.  It's normal for you to be feeling all of the things you are...sad about leaving behind that part of your life and a little fear/worry about the future.  Please know it's completely normal.  Look at the books, see if they are interesting to you...if they are, read them over the summer. It will give you something to do to take your mind off of things.  Life is all about change and moving and growing.  Take time to relax and think not only about the good days you had in middle school but think about all the great things that are going to happen in high school and college.  Good luck.
473567
Tell him you're confused and ask him what he wants. I'm actually in a similar situation right now.
1063648
Find a friend, if that doesn't work there is always BEN&JERRYS Chunky Monkey, it always makes everything better.\n\nBut honestly, I have felt all of those things, and that is not a good place to be.  I hope that you can realize that you are special and of infinate worth.  It breaks my heart that you feel that way. Feel free to email and we can talk, you don't have to feel so alone and that can be a start.
811064
I am so confused right now...what?!
5412
wow, sorry to hear about your girl, thats sad. I dont know why you cannot tell the difference but maybe its because you are in a lot of pain right now and you feel like you are hurting all over.  Again I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope things start looking up for you soon! :)
176075
It is probably a good idea to seek out some therapy. There may be some underlying issues as to why you feel so depressed and there are a lot of options available to aid with this situation. If you would like further assistance with help, please email me.
1152601
this sounds confusing???
728839
I believe you should go see ur doc. To understand whats going on and why you feel the way you do.
914645
In your last post you said you felt like you were losing it!...\nAnd talked about lots of things that were happening in your life.\n\nThe last post sounded very "hyper" to be nice.. you seem to be getting very wound up over all this stuff that's happening.\n\nEven with B/P you know not to let people get you all upset like that......\n\nYou need to calm down..take some deep breaths and try to let this stuff go out of your mind..\n\nI have a boyfriend who is B/P and he gets all wound up too and can't settle down..Do you have anyone to talk to by phone??\n\nIf you have "Crisis Centres" were you are ...call one and talk to them.\n\nIf not, don't sit and dwell on all of this stuff, get busy doing something that takes your mind off it for a while.\n\nCall your Dr as soon as you can get a hold of him/her.\n\nplease take care..  and post another message if you have to.\ntake care
1148494
Oh goodness, I did that.  My advice, KEEP BUSY and ACTIVE.  Get involved by volunteering, school, playgroups, book clubs, something!  Try to stay in some kind of social group or you will feel lost.  Follow some of your same routines.  Still get up, shower, get dressed, makeup if you do...  \n\nGood luck!
451121
I agree your situation is totally common, I am a freshman in a community college and it is common to feel like you are alone. Professional help is not a bad choice, I think. But I also think that you need to adjust your focus. School is very important and girls can always wait. I went through this recently, I was totally focused on the guys, I thought that I needed a guy to feel good about myself, but it isn't true. You can't expect anyone to accept who you are until you do!! You are a great person and you have many great qualities, but you can't show anyone that until you believe it yourself:) Think positive the sun will show again tomorrow and you get another chance at your life:)
331501
I think you feel strange because you're not feeling well.  You might want to see a doctor.
999294
You should stay the way you are. It isn't good for you to hold in what you are feeling. You are just fine.
923067
If you are feeling that overwhelmed, right now, I suggest taking some OVER THE COUNTER sleep medicine; then, first thing in the morning, you need to try to make an appointment to talk to a professional!  Don't Wait!  If it was a major body part not working, you wouldn't wait, so don't wait for your mental health either.  Peace.  Good Luck!
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Dont feel lost broken or confused.  These things have a way of working themselves out.  If he sees you for who you are and her as the cheater, then hopefully he will make the right choice.  You can always remind him of your loyalty.