what do you think about still having sex with your ex ?
612085
Sex with an ex  is a no-no if you  are the one who broke up with him it's giving him false hope that you maybe on the road to reconciliation and it's not right to lead someone on just so you can still get laid!
508675
If you're "officially" separated from someone, then there is no accountability to each other any longer.  Your former partner wasn't being unfaithful because you weren't together and there was no obligation.  Besides, phone sex is only masturbation.  Big deal!
291952
Personally I wouldn't. I mean a relationship needs intimacy, and sex is the pinnacle.\n\nI know if my girlfriend didn't have sex with me... well she would be an ex girlfriend pretty quickly.
655954
When they have made it clear that they have moved on. If they have new activities and new friends and are happy.\n\nYou are best off doing the same. Ironically if you are independent and happy and out doing interesting things our ex may find you more attractive, but you should do these things for yourself.
452711
Look, just because you and him didn't work out as a couple, doesn't mean that you can't just be friends. Me and my ex of 13 years just went out to the movies together today to see "Silent Hill", I paid, he drove. We hadn't hung out for 3 years! I gotta tell you though, we had a blast just hanging out and being friends. I bought lunch after at "Jack-n-the-Box", and he came over to my house to eat it. It was the first time he had ever come to see where I lived since we separated. We have a daughter together, and for her sake, we discussed it, and came to the conclusion that, even though we parted on bad terms, we could set that aside and be friends. She was very happy to know we were being nice to each other. I would never have an intimate relationship with him again, but as a friend, he is a very good guy and a wonderful daddy. Do what your heart tells you. You know in your gut whether or not it would be a good idea to hang out with him again. Just remember that ex'es are ex'es for a reason...it didn't work out. Friendships are always nice to have though if at all possible. Good luck sweetie.
938608
yea u are going back as a rebound for each other.. im doing it myself.. I miss mine like crazy, but we arent together for several reasons, but when we see each other we have sex and its always better everytime!!! Wish i could give u better advise,but i guess u can say i need the advice myself.. good luck to u
238802
It's up to you if you want to wait a year or not. If you and the friend have sparks, go for it! What difference is it going to make with your ex anyway? You didn't cheat, right? You need to do what makes you happy, and if your ex has a problem with it, too bad! Ex's are ex's for a reason!
763436
i think you shouldn't have sex with a guy unless you've been with him for like over 6 years or your married (even though some ppl think thats too long) but if you really want to be with him again why don't you ask him out again. and if he's with someone try being friends with  him and if/when he breaks up with the girl he's with now you could be there with him and then you guys could/might get back together.! hope it works out and hope you pick my advice! ^_^
421388
I would go out. I had a serious boyfriend for 3 years from ages 16-19. I was really happy but I felt the same way. I took the leap to go out and I'm glad I did. Now, my ex and I are best friends. Even though we didn't get back together, dating other guys let me realize how much happier I am that my ex and I are just friends now. I didn't realize how much happier I could be until I had some more experience. Plus, I have overcome the fear of wondering how it is to date others. And you never know, you might date around and realize what a great guy you had. He seems like he would be willing to get back together after some time. This would let you know just how happy you are with him, and you will never wonder again.
526328
doesnt coutn as cheating..but you obviously still have feelings for your ex though..so you have to decide which one?
714893
umm sex isn't everything you guys can work on that there is plenty of things that can change that.. but if your thinking about other guys during sex you don't need to be with him ...and if your thinking about your ex with your current bf you dont need him either! take a break and figure things out on your own
1157635
Tell him how you feel about the pressure.Then, you both need to make an argreement that that's NOT the reason you are having sex.You are having sex to feel closer to each other, to show your love, and enjoy each other.Don't concentrate on the orgasm.If it happens, it happens, if it dosent it dosent.Take your time.Maybe have one nite of just cuddling.One night just oral.ETC,ETC.Enjoy each other, not what you get out of it, then it will come.Also, you need to let the past stay in the past.If you dont, your ex is getting even more satisfication that it is messing up your new relationship.Most people do NOt have orgasms through sex.That's a proven fact.But the fact you had it many times before during sex, is a problem now.Let yourself relax and get rid of the past!!
707672
I haven't got an 'other half' at the moment, so I probably shouldn't answer, strictly speaking, but I know for certain that if it was my ex, I'd know. No possibility of doubt.\n\n<sigh> I would LOVE to be blindfolded and kissed, right now.\nGreat question.
575098
If you have an ex that is similiar to the guy your bedding in any way, dont scream names. Other than that just scream whatever you want, or moan. Whatever feels good at the time. \nSex tip #1: Have fun!\nSex Tip #2: Dont think when having sex, just go with the flow.\nSex Tip #3: If the other person says stop, put on those brakes.\nSex Tip #4: Try different positions, or else how are you gonna know what works best?
647432
It is understandable that you are still in love with your ex. What I DON'T understand is why are you broke up and still having sex with him EVERYDAY?!?!? That's not broke up... that's an out for him to do you and any other girl he wants anytime because you are "broke-up". You're not his girlfriend any more so you have NO SAY in who else he screws and sice you are "broke-up" he can do it guilt-free as well on a "broke-up" technicality.
413830
How far of an ex is this?  Were you guys serious or just fooling around?  Either way, I'd say not.  There are so many men out here you haven't been with, what was the point with that one?  Will she even wait until he's an "ex" the next time?  Will she be the reason he is one?
294859
if the sex is good you should go back out with him. why not?