What don't men understand about not interested?
606581
They probably search for those words. Since you have them in your profile, you come up in their search. Maybe you should say something more like, "Senders of inappropriate messages will be prosecuted for harassment, public indecency, and public use of obscenities." You probably can't actually do anything to anyone, but it might discourage some people.
460139
If you got along well, men rarely turn away from a woman he knows likes him.  Men are usually only putzes because they doubt woman like them.  Be very upfront about what you want, and I bet that you can get it.
963638
I'm not interested but good for you...I don't know how...but give me 10 points plz :(
405037
Guys just aren't as talkative as women. If you want them to tell you something you have to drag it out of them. By the way in my experience most men hate to be pushed into having a conversation they don't want to have. They simply prefer to be a little more secretive.
569916
Tell us your gay. That one is painless. \n\nAlso, most women can take the "I'm just not into you". \n\nI would rather know that a guy just isn't into me than for him to give me a whole bunch of crap like "It's not you it's me"\n\nNOW if you want to through in diamonds and things (axe the fur......fur is wrong) then go right ahead. Nothing says closure like a pricey shinny thing. :)
128988
if you guys can't hold an interesting conversation then there is no connection. he probably just wants sex.if this guy was really into you he would know just what to say and would always find a reason to talk to you about something.
224424
I hear ya. They all say they don't but they do. I was talking to a female friend because I've been having trouble in the dating department and she told me the same thing. Don't rush things but make sure you show her you're interested when I asked her how I was supposed to do that she only told me to shut up. \n\nI think if you find someone who that kind of crap doesn't matter when the both of you can just be into each other and not worry about whether you're calling to soon or if you should wait that's when you've got something. \n\nGenerally women want what they think they can't have... that's why if you act slightly disinterested they are more intrigued then if you just come out and say the stuff that's on your mind. \n\nGirls aren't the only ones who do it guys do it to. It sucks but that's just  the way it is.
696072
men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.
469850
You know, if he shows no interest in what you're saying, then he's not ever going to.  And therefore, he's not interested in you.  Maybe in the physical aspect he is, but nothing more..
448831
one of the best ways to get a man to act like you really dont care,men say they dont play games,but they are all about the game and the chase they wont admit it but they love it and they need it to feel good about there sorry selves...no offense guys,i just have ya all figured out,years ago...good luck.
587472
Most men do not.\n\nSome men are driven to it, especially if a women show no interest in them once children arrive.
696491
Just ask because when you blew him off, he probably thought you weren't interested.  Thus, he wouldn't ask again because he doesn't want to come on a creepy guy.
136217
From point blank asking the male species for years...fear of rejection. Men do not accept rejection at all.  Flirt maddly then acting as if nothing has occured to save face. Cut the BS, ask him out. Men are not as complicated as most females attempt to make them. Food, shelter, affection, sex. Not necessarily in that order. Sex can be held off for some time as well. If a guy is serious about you. He will NOT want to have sex w/you right off the bat. He won't want to screw it up.
730960
Fawning can resemble desperation, which is a major turnoff for me. I am intrigued by a man who acts like he doesn't need a woman but yet he is paying extra attention to me. This makes me think he might like me more than just any girl (crazy isn't it!). Keep me guessing, to a certain extent, and my desire level rises.
533581
Because we are confusing, needy, indecisive, rather complex creatures.  Nothing wrong with that though.  Its difficult for chicks to understand guys sometimes too.
119743
Honestly, guys don't plan this... they just have a different level of thinking about what is important.\n\nI'm not saying your concerns aren't important to your man, but his thoughts and logic are somewhere else unconnected to these issues.
1158909
Guys don't loose interest necessarily.  Sometimes it because a "I've got you... now what do I do with you?"  or maybe a "I've got you... now here is the real me instead of the one I impressed you with to get you."\n\nSome guys just loose the desire to impress the woman.  This can come about because the woman stops or never gives the kind of attention the woman wants.  We have to face the fact that it is the mans job to woo the woman and do everything possible to impress the woman while she sits and takes it all in.  The woman isn't generally seen to need or have to return the affection or interest the man is showing.\n\nI suggest finding out from him if he is unsure of what to do next or just feeling slightly neglected.  He could just be pulling away because it is time for him to take care of his needs instead of focusing all his energy into the woman he cares about.  men do come back from this stage to care again.  We men just need to do know we can take care of ourselves as well as you.