When I was pregnant my daughters father went to prison......?
597858
assuming he had a trial- it is public record. you can ask the courthouse for a copy of the trial. there will probably be a fee involved.
738817
i dont think that there would be any way in the world that a judge would even let this man in the same room alone with your daughter. good luck.
18159
There is a wonderful support and information group at http://prisontalk.com\nSomeone there can probably help.\nI've got a "someone special" locked up, too, and this group has helped me a great deal.
619920
http://prisontalk.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?s=&daysprune=&f=372\n\nThere's a wonderful resource for exactly that circumstance.\nGood luck....and welcome home.
26231
There is a wonderful group at http://prisontalk.com\nYou'll find a great deal of information and support, including special poems and writings from mothers to their children...there's even a forum dedicated to the parents of inmates\nI've got a "someone special" locked up, too, and this group has helped me a great deal.\nGood luck.
658581
i dont think its your problem man. i know he's your kid and you're concerned for him, but if he's 30 and cant get his crap straight, i dont know what you can really do for him. he's going to need to be willing to start at the bottom. like, rock bottom, working at wendy's or something. but, thats better than going back to jail.
1124821
I really don't think so. That will never get your relationship back. Your hurting and I bet he really is hurting. Unless he did something to you or your mother that caused him to go to jail. Than that is another story, that I really do not know about. But to hold a grudge on your dad is rough on him. He is all ready in jail, lost his wife... should he loose his daughter? I am sure he truly loves you, as you do him. Give him another chance.
492811
You have to do something, you can press charges by aking help from organizations that deals with this. They will give you free lawyer, counselling, etc. After he's in jail, forget about him and the hurting experiences, move on girl, you deserve more than him and you should be happy.You are still lucky because he showed his true colors and you're not married yet and without kids. Trust me, it's like hell!\nBe happy girl, you'll find someone who will respect and love you all the way! Best regards!
171520
Love, infatuation, lust...I have no way of telling... and there has to be more to the story than that there is a pregnant girl claiming he's the daddy because THAT alone rarely lands a fella behind bars...but there's a chance he'll be there a while?...Babydoll, I don't know your jailbird, so I can't make any comment about the strength of your feeling for each other or whether or not he'd be worth waiting for, but I can tell you this, with absolute certainty: Loving an inmate is a VERY HARD ROAD....it's about slogging through endless paperwork, it's trying to keep up with rules that seem to change every week, it's waiting for incredibly expensive collect phone calls that might or might not come and when he doesn't call, praying with all your heart that the phones in the day room are just either too busy or broken and that he's not hurt or on lockdown, it's becoming obsessive about checking your mail and the heartsick feeling that comes over you when the letter you want so badly isn't there,it's about getting writers cramp and spending $20 a week on stamps and stationary, it's about dealing with either keeping it secret or dealing with disapproval of the relationship everywhere you turn and mostly it means living in a future you can't be sure of and that really does take a toll.\nIf I had a choice, I wouldn't do it, but I've loved the guy for over 20 years and I can't quit now...and I'm almost 40, so it's not as if I'm spending my youth dealing with the Dept.of Corrections...think carefully, Sweetie, it is a hard, hard thing to do and no guarantees.
838197
Oh man.  A bummer of a situation. First, does your Dad have the money to get it out of impoundment? Just because he's imprisoned doesn't make he has no cash.\n\nThat's a rough one man. I came close to that when I loaned my car to a new roommate years back. I didn't know that he was a sloppy drunk and nearly totaled my car. Good luck to you.
748070
Your father is a convicted prisoner, appeal or not appeal, and that is how he will be treated.  \n\nI've found a link which spells it all out in very simple terms.  http://www.adviceguide.org.uk/nm/p_prisoners_-_visits.pdf\n\nAll the best to you and your family.
740330
even if you were charged and convicted of the alledged offence above this was before you were granted parole. you can only be sent back to prison if you break the conditions of your parole part of which you agreed to make no FURTHER infringements of  the law-this is to say they cannot drag up anything that happened before you were granted parole. also as it was ligitated in the civil courts which you won-she should have filed the complaint then-not now. it will seem like sour grapes to any judge (if she can find one that will preside over her complaint-unlikely). i beleive everyone should be given a clean break and i wish you and your family all the luck in the world-and don't be naughty again please.
103772
If you ask me, it's a big leap from "disrespectful" to jail.  Given the lack of thought that went into your question, I'm not surprised your kid is disturbed.  Don't send your own kid to jail.  If you have really exhausted all other option (which I doubt you have) you could consider in-patient treatment, but kids who go into juvie usually come out wose than they started.
904163
Wow, sounds like you're going through a really tough time.  I think the judge would order that your boyfriend and the baby be seperated until such a time as your boyfriend learns to leave you alone.  Wait until the child is much older and understand a lot more, like around 8 or 9.  Then tell your child (be honest) about what has gone on between you and his father.  If the child says that she/he would like to know his or her father it's only right that you give them a chance to meet no matter how much stress it puts on you.  I firmly believe that everyone has a right to know their father (or mother).
613271
It seems the issue is how much your often violent ex-husband should have access to your daughter.  Generally speaking, he or she must be really bad to has his parental right to have access to his/her child being denied. (although your ex could have lost his right due to his criminal conducts ... but the bar is really set high to lose this parental right) \n\nTypically, many divorced parents go thorough the visitation-custody arrangements (or more correctly put battles!) until the child fully emancipates !0!  I venture to guess here that your ex wants to see your daughter and want it as much as he possible can.  If so, his option would not be a mediation hearing but get the definitive direction from the judge.
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My daughter was murdered in February.\n\nThe killer is in jail and there is still no date set for trial. I can't imagine that he will be found "not guilty" so haven't concerned myself much with that.\n\nI would imagine that prison is probably the safest place for him. Murdering a high school student doesn't make you a very popular person.\n\nHave you spoken with the Prosecutor about your concerns? Do you have Victim's Assistance available to you for free counseling?\n\nYou will probably find it helpful to do both of the above. They've helped me. The Prosecutor has been able to educate me about the process sufficiently so that I have a high degree of confidence that he will be found guilty and likely be sentenced to life in prison\n\nTherapy has been helpful to deal with not only the profound grief but also the incredible amount of anger.\n\nI sincerely hope that everything works out for you. Feel free to contact me if you'd like more info or just have somebody to listen.\n\nDrew Crecente, Director\nJennifer Ann's Group\nhttp://www.JenniferAnn.org
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Come to http://www.prisontalk.com and check out all the different forums and chat with others who are going through the same thing...good luck!