Im so confused about dating!?
608438
ahhh the joy of 7th grade.  my advice to you would be to, if you really like a guy, to go ahead and ask him out.  if he dumps you, its not the end of the world, you have plenty of time.  and if i rememeber correctly dating in 7th grade doesn't last long anyway....\nand if you ask him out and he says no, then play it cool and let things go on as normal dont make it a big deal or other people will too.  and if he is a jerk about it while saying no hes not worth the time anyway\n\ngood luck!
282275
It sounds like you are really running from yourself.  Until you come to grips with your sexuality and be comfortable with it you will continue to be confused.  If you like guys, it's Ok.  Or maybe it's just this one guy?  He's especially attractive?  \n\nFace your fears and see what happens.  Hang out with him in a group of friends and get to know him better.  If he likes you, make out.  It may be more of a fantasy than a reality for you.  You are at the age that you need to find out who you are.  When you decide what you like and who you are, be comfortable with it.\n\nIf you try to live a lie to please family, friends, society, etc... you will never please yourself.
1069709
I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.
25804
It's okay to see a couple people, to find out who you want to date.  Dating is more personal, so you need to be able to devote more personal one on one time.  That is how you get to know them, and decide if there is a future together.  If you are w/ many, how can you really give him all the attention he deserves, or find out if he deserves it???  1 on 1 is always the best way to REALLY figure someone out.
145619
I had the same problem when I first moved here (Texas).  I came from Upstate New York, where guys are way more foreward---  people are more reserved here in that way, it seems.  Put yourself out there---  ask someone out for coffee, ask to meet for lunch, you know, little "safe" dates.  After a few of these, you should know yourself if this is a person you really want to date.  Don't do the bar scene dating---  you meet so many crazy, wild people who don't really want a relationship.  Another idea:  ask close friends or relatives to "set you up".  Or, you may try Yahoo! personals.  It sounds risky, and may be, but I met the most awesome man online 14 months ago and we have an incredible relatioship!
1078302
Hey congradulations!!!!  Really.  Do you want to start dating right now.  If you do, go, go, and get going.  Okay.  Feel good about your decision and move along.\n\nYou are young.  If you feel sad and aren't interested in anyone right now, that's cool too.\n\nEnjoy your life,\nluv Ava
667024
LOL?! And what exactly does this have to do with Dating?
778595
she's messing with YOUR MIND. it's quite fun to do actually...\nbut i could ask you the same question...why are guys so confusing???
204691
There's likely nothing at all wrong with you. In fact, you sound very young...just the way you type. I wouldn't worry abotu finding a boyfriend. It'll happen. I haven't dated in a while and for right now that's the best thing for me. Take your time, examine your options, flirt, etc. Just have fun being young and NOT feeling the weight of a relationship. Above all, don't start going out with a guy you're not positive about just because you feel lonely or incomplete. That's not being true to yourself.
231669
Lower your superficial expectations.   Obviously, there is someone out there compatible for everyone.  It is just a game of statistics, lots of people, limited personalities/traits.\n\nAnyway, something you are holding as a prerequisite for dating is getting in the way of you finding your love.   Re-evaluate what you are looking for, and drop a few of your ideals.  I bet you will be suprised at who you find.
388105
Wouldn't you kind of have to date someone at least once not in a relationship? I mean how else would you start said relationship?\n\nBut yeah man, dating can be done just for fun with no long term goals. Live your life and don't get hung up on the small stuff.
50902
wait until you know how you feel. there is a difference between dating and having a boyfriend. it is totally okay to casually date more than one person at a time as long as they understand you're not exclusive. if you decide that you have very strong feelings for one person, stop dating the others and go exclusive with that person. don't pick one guy and stick with him unless you're sure about it, because that's not fair to him. if your emotions are going back and forth, that probably won't change even if you become his girlfriend, and you could ruin a good friendship. right now i'm rebuilding a friendship for that very reason, and it's slow and sometimes pretty awkward.
297920
What is "normal"?  There is no "dating standard".  People can date whomever they want.  If it doesn't affect you, then it's none of your business and you should stop worrying about it.
1152601
this sounds confusing???
915973
One thing I don't understand is your attachment to your previous relationships (past). You are not that desperate, are you?The relationships did not work, period. Move on. Don't date anybody just to date somebody. Find someone you really like. You will feel it when you see him. Forget about the past.
564629
Well you could loose weight but do it for you, because you want to.  If someone cant accept you how you are then its probably not even worth a date.  Maybe you are looking to hard.  Im sure it has someone who is admiring your beauty but just a bit shy or intimidated to approach you.  You never know.  Sometimes it is important to find yourself and then someone will find you.  So dont be discouraged about not finding a date.  It happens to the best of us but be a bit patient and things will work out.
797236
You maintain your self and still be a nice person. Others will see that you are mature about it. You and he may want to date in the future but in the meantime you should start looking for another fellow. ○