Is it unusual for an older man like me to begin to realize his femine qualities?
606620
no men with femine qualities make the best partners as they are sincere and loving and very understanding of a womans needs .
238702
Oh, God, yes, I am 41 and totally gone over a 53 year old.  His experience is what I need most.  After the immature last one the older man is so hot!
844553
I'm "only" 45... not that that is young to today's 20 and 30 somethings... but I've loved and been in love with older women ( 10 - 20+ years older) since I was 17...at least. To answer your question... this is not a fad, it's just that its "out" in the sense that younger men ( and older women) have no qualms about it anymore . Additionally, and more importantly, older women have a certain experience that younger ones don't... both intellectually and sexually. There is also no time for pretense... just learning and teaching and fun... The health question comes later, but if one really loves, one can handle that... such may be the price, but the joy before is well worth it.
519573
I'd like to think that there are men out there who think she's more hot than ever, if just to convince myself that a few men exist who appreciate the nuances age and maturity can add to a woman's allure. For the most part, men seem too shallow and immature to even notice it. They seem oblivious to how much sexier a woman can be as she matures, they just see that she "looks old". It's their loss though, but it isn't going to affect me, since I'm married to a man who finds me more attractive than he did when we first met, I just think it's a little sad.
632291
In my experience, the older I have become, the stronger my libido has become. A woman's sexual desire usually peaks in her thirties.
772642
ooh this is a good one! i think men are less as they have a constant need to be reassured of their pulling power no matter what age they are, women are more comfortable in themselves
1011248
I've "dated" a few younger guys, mostly for the sex.  So there are other MILFs out there I'm sure.   Your approach may be off and normally these things just sort of "happen" you don't go looking for it.  Or you don't wake up and say "I'm 35, I think I'll find me a nice young 20 year old to *uck".
612341
Not all men are clueless. Some get it and know how to treat a woman with respect.
1090810
I always had my heart set on meeting Mr. Right and being married by age 25, that didn't happen.  I am now 28 and I am desperately hoping to find someone and be married by age 30.  I think that this is a common way of thinking because no woman wants to be an old maid.  I also think that women tend to be more obsessed with the thought of growing old and becoming less attractive.
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I don't think that all men are in that category. Only you can change that behavior, if that is truely how you see women. Good luck! (My man is very gentle and giving!) They always say the "3rd time's a charm!"
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You want my honest opinion regarding this . . . generally . . . weak men . . . yes they are intimidated by you . . . but I am not.  So I will tell you the truth . . . and sometimes it hurts.\n\nDo you want to know why?  Partially it is ego (his) and your attitude.\n\nReason one . . . his ego.  Men have a preconscieved idea . . . that the man should be the primary wage earner.  Some feel less than a man when his woman makes more money than he does.  Psychology Today did an analysis about 18 months ago . . . regarding this . . . (I could be wrong on the time frame).\n\nReason two . . . your attitude . . . you say you are not picky . . . don't lie . . . you are.  If you weren't . . . you wouldn't care if he was single or divorce or widowed . . . and with your request . . . must have a job.\n\nPlus, you have to brag about your intellect.  Masters degree . . . I may not have a masters . . . but I am degreed.  You travel the world . . . most men . . . barely travel . . . unless it is for work . . . like me.  Also you claim to be beautiful . . . believe me . . . I don't believe you.  People I have met that claimed to be beautiful are not . . . me I never claim to be something I am not.  You are intimidating men . . . with your attitude and actions and these men think that you are beyond their league or they may think that you are just a b****.\n\nYou want to know how to get men to ask you out . . . stop bragging about yourself . . . and be your f***ing self.  Go out and have a good time . . . do not look for a relationship.  If you are attractive . . . men will come to you . . . or you may need to go to them.  Buy them a drink for a change . . . be a human and not a Master Degree princess who travels the world.  Plus how old are you . . . I have no idea . . . but it sound like you are looking for a boy toy anyways.
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Sometimes it's true that women's maturity level progresses faster than younger men's. In your case you might be feeling a bit uncertain because that statement does not apply to you. \nRemember: Age is only a number. So is salary.\n\nIf you can love him no matter what and want to work things out with him, no matter what, then he is the one for you.\n\nEveryone has differences in taste, his is 80's music and an early bed time.. so what? At least he isn't a drug addict and abuser. Take it for what it's worth... if he treats you well, is financially stable and willing to work on your relationship, you've got a winner!\n\nGood luck, and look out for yourself--
154332
I am 22 and honestly I love older men, in my opinion they are like fine wine, getting better with age. And yes I do know how to please my man
234167
older men like younger women bacause it makes them feel younger
417478
Hey you like what you like..its what makes you different...sounds like you belong in the 80's you know, where men had longer hair and were prettier than the women? good times.
125885
He act like a woman... I think...
653985
Yes, I do! And I'm lucky enough to have a man like that! It's the younger women out there that put up with ' Mr. Wrong'. Most women over the age of 30 are tired of dealing with immature, ill-mannered men. They'll hold out for a decent man. Remember the saying..." young & stupid....."