i need help with what to do in this situation!?
612364
never loose your class. always smile, be polite and do your job. we all love complements,so a smile and a thank you should be enough. but as all us girls know men can be to assertive. unless hes  drop dead gorgous, you just tell them you have so much going on in your life that your just not interested. if they still persisted, then you call security. have fun your only young once!!!!
303430
I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
1041845
Breathe dude. Don't let her have that kind of power over you. You can't control others, and sometimes people just ain't right, don't let her harm you more by making you so angry. Just let it go, and keep your peace. You'll get paid, or you won't. Not in your control, just don't help her, or count it as a gift and move on!
718627
Some friends and I have a hobby of teaching guys like him a lesson-Tell her to get out! go to a battered womans shelter a couple of counties away-and file charges-or contact me and if we are close or if I have any associates close, the situation may well take care of itself.
976519
just let them two solve their problem than getting between the two of them. you'll be experiencing a lot of trouble if you would do that. maybe you could approach them if you were asked to do so.
718990
All you can do is stand by and watch for now.  If she still wants to get back with you then she will need to make the first move.  That way it will save you many problems with the other guy.
1174510
her relationship just ended, so she is probably a little off right now.  give her a minute...and only a minute.  set up a group of 4 of you to go out for coffee, or even dinner, make it a fun night just to get out, that way he can make a move and she wont freak out with all of you there, and maybe it will help her come around.
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
43577
Well, you'll be better off bringing it up sooner than later. Waiting til the last minute will just result in a big explosive fight that won't help you with your decision at all. Bring it up gently, don't just start in on why you shouldn't have to move closer to him. If a man's ego is threatened by a woman trying to take charge they get all deffensive and closed up. Just mention it really casually at first, so that he's thinking about it, then gently hint around how much more hard it would be for you to leave while still letting him think he's the one who's doing most of the thinking. The main thing is not to make him feel like you're trying to boss him around. I know they're no more superior than us, but just play along and let 'em feel like they are. In the long run it'll help you get your way. :)
529647
My best advice is just slowly talk to her before it's to late...you don't want to be thinking later on"What would have happened if I did this or if I did that..." You know what I mean? Good Luck!
328485
Well you are in a pickle, aren't you?  Hope they are in different towns.  Try to keep them apart as much as possible.  Other than that I would say you are in deep poo poo if they find out.
1084853
Tell him straight up, just do what you gotta do.  You have the option!
106398
Sit him down, don't dramatize the situation and just explain to him in a mature and resolute way that you no longer wish to share the living arrangement you currently share. The best way to deal with any problem is just being honest about it with the people involved because nothing sucks worse than being the last know especially when it's a life altering decision that affects you.
541094
Heck no!!! take full advantage of you situation. ha ha just kidding. Its really up to you.
1138873
Comfort her. Enforce the fact that the other guy is scum and that you're there to listen to all her problems. Then try your best to make her laugh and to forget the guy. Then she'll realize that you're the better man!
731231
If you're not torn up about it, let it go. If you tell them "this person said you said this..." the situation may resolve itself.\n\n.
967133
Tell her to contact Social Services. You should not have to take care of her. Give her a deadline for making other living arrangements. Break it to her as diplomatically as you can but have a heart-to-heart talk and let her know that you were willing to assist her in an emergency but now both she and you need to move on.