why do girls making love turn this heterosexual on?  does this mean I am subconsciously gay or bisexual?
608562
thats normal, i get turned on by women making out....but i dont wanna go out and make love to a woman.....no youre not gay or  subconsciensly bisexual or anything.....youre normal, having normal feelings
514389
You would be a lesbian or a bisexual person if you have feelings for the same sex. Two women can still have sex with each other and still not be lesbians, I guess they would call it "experimenting". But if you have strong desires towards your own sex, then you are gay or a lesbian. But if you have feelings for both sexes, then you are bisexual. Your sexuality isn't based on who you have sex with, it is mostly about what your preference is.
928142
No, you are not gay....you just want to experience it......In my opinion a truly gay person.....not just wants sex with a person of the same sex, but they also want to be involved with the person romantically.
1086438
I think to some degree, weather huge or not, everyone is bi...we all "check out" the same sex...for comparison reasons and it's natural...\nAs for means of turning on...i know dozens of straight women whom don't purposely check out other women as an added boost for arousal...\nBut I do stand by my previous statement...Hun, we are all Bi to a certain degree...Though personally, I don't like men physically at all...
1085154
If you are only sexually aroused by thinking about or looking at women, you are straight\n\nIf you are only sexually aroused by thinking about or looking at men, you are gay\n\nIf you are aroused by both you are bi.\n\nIn any case, you are you -- be happy with that and believe in yourself -- always.\n\nDwell in love.\n\nRegards,\n\nReynolds Jones\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org
551628
im bi but ill answer... girls know wat girls want, like touchn n stuff.... it makes it easier... touch how u would want to be touched
969943
Just because you find another person of the same sex cute, doesn't mean you're gay. You're only gay if you know for a fact that you would never want to have sex with a girl, but instead with a guy. Don't ask us, ask yourself.
552037
You should consider yourself a lucky man. I think your girlfriend is bi sexual and she wanted to fulfill her fantasy as well as your's I'm sure. Have fun and don't think too much about it. Make sure you don't flirt or do anything with her friend when she's not there. She trusts you this is why she did this. I know from experience. Live a little.
122457
Well whether you're a girl or a boy it does not matter. You are 15, for a girl to get turned on by a guy at age 15 is totally normal. Do not act on impulses though, it's just that your sex drive is increasing and well, it IS a part of growing up.\n\nIf you're a guy, I think it is normal too. I think ALL guys, at one time or another,  go through a period of asking themselves, "am I gay?" That does not mean that you are, you could be... but it's not for sure until you feel it is (for sure).
849932
... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.
719038
Your still gay. You are just expermenting some bi feelings and there is nothing wrong with that. I think it happends to a lot of gay people. They just don't like to admit this kind of thing. I know I have been there. It seems like other gays don't want to hear it and the same with the opposit sex. Im jost letting you know it normal to have feeling like that. Your still gay and thats ok..
1113437
All it means is that you have a rich fantasy life.  Could there be a chance that you're bisexual and didn't know it?  I suppose, but it's unlikely -- I don't speak from experience, but I would be willing to bet that true lesbians and bisexuals would have experienced some level of attraction to the same sex at some point before they got married.  That you're only experiencing it now is just natural curiosity.  I seriously doubt your husband would hate you for having this fantasy, though he may not understand it completely.  It really depends on him; guys are funny that way.  Even guys who are the most vocal in their disgust over gay men will usually allow lesbians in their world, if only in the vain hope that they might join in at some point.  I'd mention to him casually that you had a funny dream where you were making out with a woman, and see how he reacts; I'm willing to bet good money he'll raise an eyebrow and say, "Reeealllly???  Um... what happened next?"
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how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
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I hope I am not as sarcastic as some others on here and I hope to give you a little insite.  People often find themselves attracted to people of the opposite sex.  It doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. Regretfully it doesnt mean that you aren't either. It is common (especially with teenagers) to have some doubt about your sexual identity.  I think it best to be who are and not let other people label you.  The real you will shine out in the end.
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It's cool that you're open minded, but you really have to find what you're compfortable with and not just do things for the hell of it. Being Bi or gay is not just something you just choose to do. It is a part of who you are. As far as what girls like, that is really something that varies from person to person. You would need to find out from your partner.
431004
Golly...you boys certainly do have wild imaginations!  For the record, if all of us women were as homosexual as you think we are/want us to be, we would never have sex with guys, so you should probably get over it.
276423
You say that you thought you were straight before this incident, means enjoyed sex with women. Now if you have started fantasizing about guys, you are not a gay but a bisexual. \nI have heard of a couple of cases where this is just a passing phase. \n\nIn any case, why do you need a psychologist? I think bi- or homosexuality is normal.