i just broke up with a guy and i like this other guy. my friend wants to ask him out for me. should i let her?
606275
I know it's not easy, but YOU should ask him out!!!
1099879
Depends on if you want your friend to really be your friend. You could ask your friend, but they would still get mad about it even if they said no. If you like the ex more than the friend then go for it. Good luck.
394494
stay her friend and if she wants to come back to you then say ok as long as you dont go back to the other guy. if she still goes back to the other guy dont get back with her because she's using you to make the other guy jealous.
671947
I would say neither of you should go out with him. Because even though right now you both maybe saying its ok if the other one asks him out deep down do ya really wanna see him (the guy you like) kissing your best friend? I think it would cause hard feelings. I always lived by this saying when this happend to me in highschool\nBoyfriends come and go but a true friend is forever.
1074813
If you all like the same guy - there are going to be 2 people getting hurt.  Talk with your friends and try to come to a conclusion where either 2 of you back off and let one girl have a chance or you all decide to leave him alone and just stay friends.  This situation does have potential to cause problems between you and your friends, so be aware of what the consequences might be and if going out with a guy is worth it.
1116801
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
630732
think about this first..... you go out with this girl, you break up....... you risk losing 2 friends......\nnow do you want 2 go out with her?
838570
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
966276
I think that you think you like him, or both of them, but really you are just in the rebound stage, Any man would look good to date because you want to be held. Thats all natural after a break up/ Just give yourself sometime. And I would go with the one who said that he would wait untill you are ready.\nWOW what a man.\nNnot many of those around anymore.\nGood luck
367443
hey girl if your friend went out with this guy you shouldn't try to get with this guy but if you really like him you should talk to your friend about this little crush but before you do that you have to know how he feels about you and you also have to think about what you want her frinship or this guy cuz you probably can't have both!
535405
I say don't date the one in your grade, simply because if you breakup, then you are forced to see each other all the time, and that will disrupt your life.  But, if you are just asking about being friends then, why can't you be friends with both.  What's the problem, they don't like each other?  If that's so, then don't invite one guy to hang out while you are hanging out with the other guy.
56228
Tell your friend out of respect.  They deserve to know that their boyfriend likes someone else.  Unfortunately for you, unless your friend doesn't like her boyfriend you probably won't be friends very long if you date her ex.  Decide whether the boy or friend is more important to you because this will be a situation where you only get to keep one.
204962
I've been in this situation before and i know how u feel. YOu want to go out w/ the guy but u want to stay loyal to your friend. I think you should confront your friend and tell her how you feel about him.. ask her if she would mind if you asked him out or something...if she gets mad..is that really a good friend? i mean of course your a "bit" jelous of her and she is most likely a "bit" jelous of you...well she certainly will be after you tell her your feelings..but thats ok..like i said, is she really a friend if she gets mad that you like him, and want to go out with him? we all get feelings about people and we cant control them..thats part of growing up..part of life..everyone goes thru it..just try to get past...live your life at your most!! hope i helped!! best of luck to you! =D! <3
838525
what is the question here? you liked him, you had your friend ask him out, he said no. Seems pretty open and shut. Move on
488114
It depends on the situation. If you were still dating him when they got together, that's messed up and that's not a friend. But if it was an ex boyfriend, I think that's okay. As long as she comes and talks to you first about it. Not asking for permission, just letting you know what her feelings are. That's a true friend. I don't see anything wrong with friends dating other friends exs but they have to remember that friends come first
492638
From what you wrote, DON'T go out with him or even tell him you like him or anything unless you want to say goodbye to your friendship with his girlfriend forever. Find another guy. They're easy to come by.\n\n(Just follow the golden rule: would you like it if your friends hormones stole YOUR boyfriend? You would think she was seeing him even before you decided to break up. Put yourself in her position.)
792071
If she likes the other guy, then yes give it a try. If she is only considering him because the other one is going away, then maybe not