how can i have more corage to talk to girls? am  facing alot of hiting on me from girls?
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it's very brave of you to admit you're nervous; i think you're braver than you think. why don't you let the girl know? "Listen, it's hard for me to talk to a woman as pretty as you." she will understand you are nervous, plus she will be so flattered.
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It's better to approach the girl rather than try to get her to approach you.  \n\nBut if you really must have it that way.... get famous, or get a wingman to talk the girl and bring her to you.
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try another girl :)  oh yes of course and BE YOURSELF!
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You don't have to call yourself pathetic. It's ok to be nervous when talking to the opposite sex. I used to get nervous talking to guys when I was younger, but somehow I learned to manage and now I have a boyfriend. I'm still a shy person and I guess that's part of my personality. I guess you have to give it some time. Think before you talk. What is it that makes you stammer? Think of interesting topics to talk about with girls. If it helps,write some of the stuff down that you think you'd discuss with a girl. Then rehearse it so it'll prepare you for next time. I know it may sound stupid but you can give it a try and no one has to know. The key is making yourself comfortable when talking to girls and talk to them like you casually talk to your friends. Once you get the hang of it, I'm sure you won't feel nervous anymore. It's just a phase and it'll go away with time. Don't worry, just relax. Good luck!
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we sure could use more of u around here.\na lot of girls go for the 'bad' guys, but as they \nget ready to settle down, the girls will find you.\nbut meanwhile, try to enjoy being single.\nmy motto for now- be smart stay single. best of luck!
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Open your mouth and let the words flow.\nTry this, pretend you are on a planet that does not differentiate between beautiful and not beautiful. Start talking.\nNever assume that because a girl is pretty she won't talk.\nIf you act like a leach, then you'll have no luck with any girl, no matter what she looks like.Be a gentleman.
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Here's how. Meet a girl somewhere and start talking, any girl, about anything. it's better if it's a girl you see everyday like at college. keep up the talkin, make her laugh, be a friend, but FEIGN A BIT OF DISINTREST, and sooner or later she'll open up those pants and let you touch really nice things. also, you could get a job where a lot of girls work.
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You're a dork.  Nothing you do can make a girl want you more.  Just be yourself is all you can do.  If that doesn't work then it wasn't meant to be.
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well i was always she when talking to girls. i chated with a good friend alot on IM and got to know her and others. if you are really shy like i was. start off talking to someone you already know or chat with someone on the computer it is a lot easyer then in person.
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talkin to girls is easy. you dont really talk just listen to what she will say. most girls now days are all about themselves anyway so they dotn care what you have to say
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Don't we all?  I suggest you practice talking with every girl you know.  Eventually one of them should like you enough to go out with you.
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Just be yourself. don't pretend to be anything you're not. Be kind and polite. Don't use corny or cheesy pick up lines. and just have fun and enjoy yourself. Don't think badly of yourself. i mean just go up to her nice and casual and start a friendly conversation with her. I mean the worst that could happen is that she turns you down. Or you freeze up and she starts laughing in your face.  But i mean at least you know that you tried. Don't go hide under a rock each time a girl turns you down. there will be alot of that in your life. Just learn from your mistakes.  There are plenty of girls out there that will accept you for who you are. You just got to look. Good luck with your problem though. I wish you the best, and know that you will find luck eventually. Just don't stop believing.
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Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
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Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
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FIRST OF ALL, DRESS NICE WITH CLEAN CLOTHS. KEEP HAIR CLEAN AND TEETH BRUSHED. LAST AND MOST IMPORTANT. ATTITUDE. IF YOUR OUT GOING CONFIDENT AND NICE YOU WILL CATCH THEY EYE OF THE OPPISITE SEX.  I USE TO BE REALLY SHY AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO GIRLS AND HAD FEW GIRLFRIENDS. THEN ONE DAY I GOT FED UP AND DISNT CARE IF I LOOKED LIKE A JERK ANYMORE AND I STARTED TREATING GIRLS JUST LIKE I WOULD TREAT MY NORMAL GUY FRIENDS AND BAMM. NEXT THING I KNEW I NEVER HAD GIRL PROBLEMS AGAIN. SO CONFIDENCE HAS TO BE THE MAIN THING. DONT BE AFRAID TO WALK BY A GIRL YOU LIKE AND SAY "HEY I LIKE THAT SHIRT IT LOOKS COOL" THEN WALK AWAY IT JUST MIGHT SPARK UP A CONVERSATION BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU
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practice, lol, it seems difficult, but the more you try, the better you will get, the more comfortable you become, the happier you become. Girls look for confidence in a guy, one who can express them self. You may be able to take little steps in your efforts to talk eloquently to her, dont worry though, shyness wears off, Good luck
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you're not ready to have a gf now. of course it's normal but try to communicate with girls and u'll talk to the girl u like..be sure that she will be ur gf if u communicate with girls well.