why do men cheat alot on the women?
602012
i have always found the women to be the cheater.  I have never cheated if my heart was there.  Guys simply want sex more than women, or maybe the girl we are with simply doesn't satisfy us, and we don't want to tell her that.
492300
if he cheated while unhappy and attempted to cheat while happy, this guy seems like a serial cheater. some guys are like that. no matter how happy they are in their relationship, they just need attention form other women. you deserve better than this guy.
647095
It's probably true that any man would like to cheat on his woman if he gets the opportunity; it does not necessarily follow that no man can ever be trusted.
1100883
because they arent really in love.\nIf they actually loved the woman they were with and she fulfilled him he wouldnt cheat.
348219
Let me clarify . . . guys do not always cheat on their partners . . . and by asking this question . . . we know you are a sexist male basher like the heffers from the View.\n\nLook at them and look at you . . . no wonder men cheat on them and you.\n\nResearch has been done about this . . . I know I've answered similar questions . . . . \n\nLooks like everyone is going through another sexist trip . . . I've answered this question before . . . and as usual women ignore the facts . . . . so here it again.\n\nKinsey Report, published more than 50 years ago, approximately 60 per cent of men, compared to 30 per cent of women, were unfaithful to their spouses before the age of 40. \n\nAccording to Maggie Scarf, author of "Intimate Partners," first published in 1987 by Random House, "Most experts do consider the 'educated guess' that at the present time some 50 to 65 percent of husbands and 45 to 55 percent of wives become extramaritally involved by the age of 40 to be a relatively sound and reasonable one." \n\nNote that the above adultry statistics of the prevalence of affairs were made more than a decade ago; so based on changes in society during the intervening years, the current percentage of the population who have had affairs is probably somewhat HIGHER. For instance, the continuing increase of women in the workplace means that the numbers for women having affairs is probably similar to those for men—about 60%.\n\nCosmo recently conducted an online poll in 2004 of 1,000 men and 1,000 women, and 55 percent of guys and a shocking 59 percent of ladies said they have cheated on a partner. \n\nYes . . . guys cheat . . . but so do women . . . do not ignore the facts.  The question really should be . . . why do women cheat more than men . . . because the last information I've found proved . . . and it was a women's magazine poll.  You proved it yourself.
602771
I'm sure men/women have their excuses for why they cheat, some are loneliness, temptation, not getting what they want at home.  They are all just lame excuses for doing something wrong, though.  They should deal with the real problem and not cheat and hurt other people.
418522
first, it is NOT okay if a guy cheats...they are just as guilty as a girl when she cheats...\n\nsecond, there is double standards in this society....either way, the girl is always going to be stuck with the bad reputation while the guys gets to be the player or the pimp daddy...it's never fair
776226
Not all men are unfaithful, it's an equally viable point that BOTH parties of sex, male and female at some point have tendencies to CHEAT...yet are ALL people....not just men...not just women..do all PEOPLE cheat? NO.  I sure as hell don't cheat...never have and never will.  My grandparents never cheated on each other, my best friend never cheated on his woman...my mother never cheated on my father...so far i know a lot of people who haven't cheated on each other.  So NO....not all freakin PEOPLE are unfaitfhul. Unfortunately you just got caught up with one of the weak losers that just can't keep it in one spot.  You know you should thank the fact that some people even TRY to be faithful...if you lived as different animal, say monkey, mouse,  bird, you would've been cheated on  right in your face and it would've been ACCEPTED as a natural order of things.... we are all a 'species' here...apparently animal instincts aren't too far from our own.  \nBUT thankfully we don't live by such a promiscuous code...least not all of us.....so fortunately for you, there ARE people who believe in one and only one for life.  Now your problem is just getting involved with those people, but then that becomes a problem when most women are attracted to scum, cheaters, and assholes....and all the decent men are either considered gay, weak, not their type, or  a woman more sensible or more inteligent then the majority of women got him first....survival of the fittest eh?
96449
We perpetuate the myth that men cheat more than women but this is obviously untrue; who are they cheating with? If by "better" you mean more successful at getting away with it then women I suppose. I'm not sure being more readily deceitful is something to be proud of though. Lying may involve some skill but so does stealing a car.
223629
Because they aren't getting what they want from that loved one. Or maybe some men are just idiotic and selfish and think that the world revolves around them and they can do whatever they please. If you honestly feel that you man is cheating on you though, confront him and explain why you feel that he is.
286910
I'm sure that there are guys who are faithful when they are away just like there are some women who are faithful while they are alone.  But the majority of them probably cheat and think that no one will find out.
66143
From my experience with a friend, guys feel she is cheating cause he is.  The guilt and thought that she is doing the same thing grows strong and he shows those emotions.
612392
They don't like to cheat, well some don't..it's that they are immature about problem solving...they don't know how to end the relationship, or cant push past the temptation..It's all about maturity
498428
Men and women cheat for different reasons. Men cheat for sex, and women cheat for affection and attention. Yes, this is a generalization, and some women cheat because they are nympho's, but that is not the norm. I believe the old saying "a man is only as faithful to his partner as his options" meaning that a though a man may not go out of his way to try and get laid, but if it's put in front of him and offered up he is hard pressed to say no. A woman on the other hand equates sex with an act of love, unlike the man who sees it as an act of lust and gratification.
369433
most men do seem to prefer sex to love, and dont hesitate to cheat (in my experience).  there are some good guys out there, who want to love, but they are VERY hard to find.
305633
Men are weak and so are women.  Both cheat the same, actually statistics reflect that women cheat more; women are smarter at not getting caught, we've learned from men in all the prior decades.  \n\n[Married] humans can fall weak for someone else and realize at the end that we made a huge mistake because we realize that the person we are with is a "better" person.  \n\nThe grass may seem greener, but it hardly ever is.  When humankind realizes that, cheating may not be such a big problem.\n\nMen are smart about this, knowing to differentiate between "love" and "lust". That's why they run home and tell their wife they LOVE them.
4019
Why do Women cheat on Men?\n\nI do not believe that it has any thing to do with the gender of the person but the character of the individual.  If a person (male or female) is not committed to or satisfied with a relationship there is not much you can do to stop them from looking somewhere else.\n\nPeople suck and sh** on others all the time it is human nature.