you got a lot of nerves to call yourself  "my friend"?
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People suck sometimes\nget someone to pull that knife out of your back\nand go spend a whole day just for you.
1074223
I had 2 black friends and their color rubbed off on me. Now I'm a white guy that's trapped in a black body and I'm afraid of myself to boot!!
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yes. i have a lot of just friends. because it SUCKS when friendships get ruined. \ndid you get this question from when harry met sally? lol
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I do it because I always like to make a good first impression, but the other times its just really nerve wracking... I mean youre thinkin does she like me, is my hair okay, if i tell her how i really feel will she think im gay, and stuff like that. it always me so nervous i can barely stand.. that is unless their like my best friend or something like that.
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This really hits me close to home because I have gotten on peoples nerves by pretending to be something I am not to be well liked well received as well as to get attention.\n\nI have "put up a front" because I have been hurt or I wanted to impress someone or be accepted and popular.\n\nTake your friend aside speaking the truth in love and ask him/her why they are acting differently? Encourage them to be themselves, there is nothing more refreshing or more genuine than a person who chooses to be themselves and be comfortable with who they are as a person.\n\nPeople have taken the time to speak with me privately and because of that I am learning just to be the person God made me any more or less would be a step out of His plan.\n\nI don't know who old you and your friend are but as a teenager young people want to be secure and feel special and accepted by their peers and sometimes people will try to the ends of the earth to impress people, but the bottom line and I am learning this in my mid 30s id not everyone in life is going to like you and you are not going to be well received by God.\n\nEncourage your friends to work with what they have and use the resources that God gives them. There is an old saying bloom where you are planted. Be encouraged
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Not much of a friend to you, huh?
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Yes, I do.\nI used to have a friend who was very dear to me. She was my first friend, and was my best friend.\nWe shared everything in common - our mindsets, our thoughts, our interests, our future - we even planned to live together as 'bachelorettes', independant and free from the trappings of society, and just live our lives happily as best friends.\nTogether, we thought we could 'take over the world'. Her dad hated me. Most adults did when I was younger. They thought I was a rebellious punk - we studied at an elite school and there it just wasn't accepted if you didn't exactly conform - the worse thing was, I wasn't even that different, I dressed like any other student, geeky with specs - I just thought differently.\nAnd that difference costed me my best friend. Her father wanted her to be a doctor, lawyer - whatever that earn her lots of money.\nWe wanted to help design video games - it was something we used to create a fantasy world from our dreary lives and sort of like a 'beacon of light' for us. :)\nWell...we were really close the first two years we met because we were in the same class. \n\nOne day, we were having remedial class, and instead of studying what we already knew the teacher was going to teach, I suggested we go to our sister school (A prestigous High School most from the school we were at aimed to score into) to study because of the good atmosphere.\nAbout an hour later, some of our friends came walking past us, and one of them spotted us sitting by the pavilion poring through our books.\nThey were like, "Oh, We just saw your Dad at the school!" \nMy best friend was really scared. She's terribly afraid of her dad. He can get pretty violent and abusive with her. But frankly speaking, she never actually told me he hit her - mostly verbal abuse. It's not exactly considered "child abuse" there, most officials would just close an eye because her dad was a rich, influential man.\nWe went over and he assumed I was the one who "led" his daughter "astray" despite the fact that we told him and even showed him the half-completed notes we were going through.\nHe yelled at me and forbade me to see his daughter again.\n\nShe later went on to a different secondary school, we keep in contact through letters, 'secret' meetings (because her dad forbade her to meet me.) to play video games and view each other's drawings (we both love art!).\nLater, as our ideals started to differ, she started to fall under her father's pressure and started to think that it was okay to just give up her dreams to live her father's dreams.\nI tried to talk sense into her, but she had become so scared of her father, nothing would work.\n\nWe argued. I was going through heavy family problems and not to mention the final semester exams of my high school was coming up at the time, and over the phone one day I cried to her. That was the first time she had ever heard me, the strong one, cry. I was always her emotional support.\nThat time, she fell silent.\nI received an email a week later, she wrote some really hurting, harsh words to me, scorning me. I cried again, reading it, she really hurt my feelings.\nIt seemed like under her father's mental abuse, she broke, she changed, and when the time came for her to lend her strength to me and a shoulder to lean on, she had given up and even scorned me verbally.\nI was hurt beyond repease.\n\nI have always missed her because we shared our dreams and our cloistered lives together living in each her own family with somewhat similar, but such different problems.\nAnd further more, she was the one I confided in so much. We could almost "read" each other's thoughts half the time.\nIt never became the same after that fateful day. We did come back several times, but we were both so changed, so distant, so cautious of one another - she had given up completely and transformed into a bitter, sad
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U r nervous and that is in fact good because that indicates your eagerness to have him as a Friend, you are conscious and you are being sensitive. Don't get too anxious and try and be around him whenever  you get a chance. Get used to his presence and i a sure after a while you will overcome your nervousness
107155
I think I'm a good friend, but I have become quite a buzzkill, so I'm not sure!
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Someone who had been my friend for 20 years said "You're a basically unlikeable person."  That was crrrrrruel, and it took me about a year to realize that 1) no-one in the world is unlikeable, why would I be so special 2) my other friends like me and 3) he's kinda an a-hole and just said it to be mean.
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I had a friend like that! First she was very jealous of me and then when i told her to go to hell (because she was criticising me always) she tried to do bad things against me but i didnt care  because she was not my friend anymore.
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naty, you don't have to worry, noone can impersonate you as you are one of a kind. I knew which touzours you were yesterday, c'mon LOL
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Dragon,  You are my friend aren't you? Then  I will Defend your honor! Yes, I worry about an online friend like any other friend, I try to let them know that I value and treasure  them, that I really care, that I am here for them ANYTIME they need me! But alas, like real friends, I don't often have the timeto convey that as well as I would like. Friends understand that tho, That's part of being friends! Dragon, you are a valued friend.
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Yeah... I'm really anxious to meet my other self, considering that I've met people on the streets who actually mistake me for their friends - so I'm really just as curious to wondering what this guy actually is like...
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i am your friend, will you be mine?
788405
bcause u feel it will harm ur friendship
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Yeah, You got a problem all right....You're not "more than friends"...You are not EVEN friends....Stop being so desperate.