Is it possible to love 2 people at one time?
613599
If Gods love is in your heart, then you love everybody.  That kind of love isn't about lust though, so your results may vary....
1181543
I don't think that a person can be in love with two people at the same time.  Being in love and just loving someone are two completely different things.  I think that we talk ourselves into believing that we are in love with both people because we find qualities in both people that makes us want to be with them.  That is just love.  When you are in love with someone, there is no other person for you-no matter what qualities that other person has.
1119027
I know most people will tell you no, but I think it is possible to care deeply for more than one person, and isn't caring deeply about someone what love is about? However, the problem here is that if you truly love both people, you will have to come to accept the cold truth: you will have to hurt one or both. If you love them both, then this will be a difficult decision. If you don't choose, though, you will hurt both people by default. I would think that you would want to save the love of one person, instead of losing both, so you had better come to a decision before it's too late. My recommendation would be to save the 11 year relationship. At least you know that love has staying power, but what about this new one - will it only be thrilling when it's new?
257636
First of all, you should ask yourself these questions:\n\n-Can you love someone you don't know or have never met?\n-Can you love 2 guys at once?\n-Can those guys be real?\n-Is it love or illusion?\n\nMy advice? If you can't find a way to find out the truth about those guys, find real ones.
818297
You can't be with one. If you try that, you'll still have feelings for the other one, right? That wouldn't be good.
543470
Sure.  You can be in love with 5, 10 or even 20 people, they are called Family.\n\nIf you are asking if you can love with one or more men at the same time then the answer is yes to that also.  It is easy to love different qualities in different people.  You may love the style of one and the brains of another.\n\nTo be IN love, is different.  It is all consuming and there is only room for one there.
1164449
Everyone remembers the One. You got married to someone eals so im sure that you love him too. the heart is a crule thing it has no limmit on the amount of love it has. the heart always makes more. So yes it is verry easy to love two people. You have to decide if your marrige is worth keeping. If it is then dont worry about the strong feeling for the other man. It will be hard but it will get better.
943431
YES, it is possible! I have been married for three years now and I am totally in love and, at the same time, completely infatuated.
607709
yes you can love someone but not be in love with them like i am in love with my girlfriend right now but i also love my best frend that i have known since kindegarden
49461
Attraction is not exclusive. You can be in love with more than one person at a time, however it isn't fair to cheat on either. Your feelings are your own, your actions will affect the people you love and may hurt them.\n\nUnless you live in very unconventional circumstances, one of your loves had better remain unfulfilled. That's a fairly common state of being, really - how many people still pine after their first great love even though cosily arranged?
21406
Love is not some kind pie that if you give a slice to one person, there is less available for another... Parents love their kids whether they have one child or eight. And everyone has different needs and interests...maybe one person has a place in your heart because they always know just how to make you laugh or makes you think about things differently or maybe it's simply that you feel funnier, smarter, sexier, safer, braver when they are around...that's quite human, it's very difficult for any one person to be all thing for any one other person... What IS a zero sum equation is time...if you spend time on one person or activity, you do have less for pther people and things...That is where the trouble lies in having more than one love, you CAN truly love two people but cannot give your time and energy to more than one without also taking some away from each.
653812
I don't think so. \n\nI think I could love many different people, but timing and situations are important. You meet someone, and you fall for them.. if it ends you meet someone else and you can love them just as much, or more
409182
Yes i think its possible....Its your own love, people cant decide your feelings for you.\n\ngood luck
331175
It is very possible.  Hard, very, and takes some time, but very possible.  If you truely love them, you want them to be happy, even if it's not with you.  Thats why love sucks.  = )   Good luck
475205
im not so sure its possible. i mean you could love certain qualities about that person but you dont really know them as a person. you havent ever spent time with them you havent had time to build a relationship. you might like to look at them and drool over them but i really dont think your in love with them.
973049
I don't think it's possible to ever love two people the same.  With different relationships, there is a different love involved.
384144
I guess you can - but deep down - you would know that they are different types of love.\n\nOne may be more convenient for you - or easier - gets along with your peers better etc.\n\nYou at some point will have to choose - so go with you heart.