how do i let a girl know i like her? (without looking like i am desperate)?
606843
the only thing i can say is give her sign letting her know you like her or tell her hey you will never know she might like you to. Just do it don't never be afaird.
405002
Find one that likes you. And don't be too concerned with looks. You'll know instinctively if she likes you, then you have to make the bold step of asking her if she would like to do something together, something both of you are interested in.
217167
First of all, in 90% of cases at least, girls/women feel it when a guy likes them, you don't really need to make them know, although it is good for their ego.\nSecondly, YOUR concern should not be to make her know that you like her but to make her like you.\nAnd last, when you think you have managed the second point, then tell her that you like her DIRECTLY.
116100
If you want her to know that you like her, the best way is face-to-face: "Hey, let's go out together to ... " Surprisingly enough the straightforward approach works best. It's just too bad that guys are too scared of the opposite sex to act in a straightforward fashion.\n\nSo, if you're a confirmed romantic, and yet still too afraid to face the girl of your dreams, here are some suggestions to get noticed, in a romantic way:\n\nIf you know she listens to the radio at a certain time, request a song for her (you can even create a radio internet broadcast with her favorite songs and include ads that have special messages for her) \n\nIf you share a bus ride, have the driver hand her a small gift from you that has a note in it with your name and a short romantic poem in it \n\nWhen she's at work, send a group of singers to her with romantic songs. You can usually find such groups in the yellow pages \n\nWrite a poem about how you think your life together would be and mail it to her, one line at a time, two days apart (email works too) \n\nSend her a rose with a special message inscribed on it \n\nSend her a message in a bottle that has a description of your first date, time and place, in it \n\nKeep in mind, you can be anonymous or have your name associated with each of these suggestions. But if you go to all of this trouble and don't reveal yourself at the same time you can be certain that someone else will take the credit .... and the girl!
575555
If you can muster up the courage to do it in person, just go up to her and tell her that you are attracted to her or you like her.  Tell her that she doesn't have to say anything but that the ball is in her court.  If you can, tell her that you were shy to say this and, if she is, she could just send you a note.  If she does, ask her.  It takes a lot to just do it.  But, you may be glad you did.  If she doesn't respond, she may still like you and be very shy or she just doesn't feel the same.  Nothing lost on your part.  But, you will be able to ask someone else.  Good luck.
706147
just act relaxed and at ease with her, she'll get the vibe and do the same. go talk to her, and keep smiling. keep eye contact, and she'll open up\n\ngood luck ;)
389734
Well, just tell her. Hey, you may never know that she likes you also. Good luck girl!
562775
tell her shes a lovely girl and you really like spending time with her. this is not to full on but if she likes you back she would probably say it back x good luck hope it works out x
907660
ask her don't be shy I totally love it when boys come up 2 me and tell me themselves.Trust me u don't want your friends to tell her friends to tell her u like her .DRAMA!!!!!!Just take a deep breath and talk to her but be yourself because we totaly can tell when ur trying to show off.Good luck.When u ask her come back and tell us how it went
68513
First of all you need confidence. If you learn anything, women appreciate confidence. Women appreciate being able to take men anywhere and having the man be able to speak to anyone and carry himself in a high manner. The best thing to do is start off slow. Ask her out to a movie or to coffee or whatever is appropriate. Instead of flat out saying "I like you" give her the opportunity to know your personality before you go blabbing all your feelings. Spend some time alone together and if you still feel the same you should let her know. Just be confident! I have faith in you.
230208
The same way you always talk to her, but with a little more charm! example: Hey you look really good today..or just be honest with her and come out and tell her how you feel! You would have to be a complete moron to not know whether or not she might be into you even the slightest bit. Just act w/ her the same way you would with a girl yuo are interested in. The least you could end up with is just her continued friendship if you've been friends with her that long.
143008
From what you're saying, it sounds like you're both interested. I say tell her how you feel. Even if she doesn't like you that way, she'll be flattered.
1093290
Hey is it very tough to find out .. . well I find it very hard .. I can understand your problem .. I have also gone through it .. find out any specific method .. let me advise you .. it is very clear that you are finding it hard to ask her directly .. do one thing ask another girl who is close to her .. or of she does not know then make one girl to ask for you ( she will just ask casually without reveling your name ) well I do thing that is a good ans .. well one question from my side .. how you come to know the a girl loves ( or at least likes you ) ? believe me girls are also humans and has feeling like us .. how to know it .. she will give you hints .. but ..how to catch it. ?
271586
dear, i am sure that you know the answer too, i feel that she likes you, but do u like her? if you like her than give her some hints too..... or why not just being apprachable for while and then ask her out, but dont just jump and say tht you like her/she likes you?/wana go out? coz she wll b surprised and while a girl is surprised or confused her answers sometimes vary....\nso be nice,be yourself and be loveable(doesnt have anything to do with bein gud looks)
147148
you have to be subtle. you can not be straght forward because it shows that you are desperate. become their friend.... then gradually ask them if they are single.... then start getting closer to them... it works every time!
941237
I would say that the easiest way to tell a girl likes you is if she constantly talks to you and likes to be around you. If she isnt afraid to joke with you and laugh around you a lot, its a plus. Girls who are just being friendly wont usually start talking with you unless you talk to them first. Girls have a good way of hiding how they really feel about the guys they like, so sometimes its not too obvious. And if you catch her looking at you a lot, thats also a good sign
309354
Just tell her right upfront.  If for some reason you're "rejected", you're not going to lose anything from it.  If you don't tell her, then there's no chance you will gain anything.\n\nDon't be over-confident though about thinking she may like you, too.  When you tell her, assume she doesn't like you back.  If you're over-confident, you may mess things up.  Good luck.