i havent talk to him in like two days or more. i love him to death. should i just give up or what-suggestions.
608582
Two days. Big deal. Maybe he's busy. Maybe he's had a couple of rough days and was extremely tired. Maybe he thinks talking to you every day is too often, and not for lack of loving you either. Just because he hasn't talked to you doesn't nessisarily mean he doesn't want to.\n\nWhatever the reason, be thankful you talk to him as much as you do. Some couples have terrible communication, and never talk. Some couples have long distance relationships. You don't need to talk to him every day, and if you feel you do, then it is for a co-dependent emotional need on your part, not for the good of the relationship. Don't smother him, or you may drive him away. \n\nIf after just two days of not talking to him you are thinking of giving up, then it sounds like you are insecure in your relationship, and need to talk to him to reaffirm that relationship and quench your insecurity. The problem is, insecurity cannot be quenched by outside things, it is something you have to deal with from within. It's a you problem, not a him problem.\n\nAlso, you don't always have to wait for him to call you. Try calling him first, he may feel like he is putting all the effort in. If you call him first, it might seem like a breath of fresh air to him, and he will likely feel encouraged to call you more.\n\nHowever, if you just had a fight or something, and you know this is the reason you two haven't talked, then you probably DO need to talk to him first. Don't even nessisarily call him, go see him. Tell him how you feel, and listen to how he feels patiently, and work things out. Be honest, and be a good listener. Don't jump on him for a dissagreement, and don't be demanding of him, or whiney, or accusing. Work it out, then let it go, for the sake of your relationship.\n\nDon't give up so easily! : )
560331
Give it a few days, he might just be following some silly rule about not getting back to you right away.\n\nOr he just changed his mind :(
983272
if you love him and you can't find the appropriate words then show him that you care for him. Show him that you love him by your actions towards him. And you have to act fast cause as you said there is only 5 days left. Good luck and i hope that this has helped and I hope that he will understand that you love him.
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Sometimes the idea of loving a person is better than the reality of them.  I am not saying that this is anything against you, but perhaps he was more in love with the idea of you.  If he no longer has these feeings for you, and refuses to talk, then I'd say it's time to move on.  I hope he isn't a creep determined to pass STDs along to every girl he can.  If it's been four days, and he hasn't talked to you, then he lacks the respect to end things the right way.  It's being a coward.  As for why you are doing this to yourself?  Can't sleep?  Well, you were duped.  No shame in that, it's not your fault.  It can take a long time to get over a love.  Hang in there. Try your best to get some sleep.  When you are sleep deprived, you can not think correctly.
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you messed up. you should prove to him that he's all you really care about. i dont know how. thats something noone else can tell you how to do. you have to think about what matters to him. we dont know him on a personal level like you do. be creative.
737556
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
482563
If he doesn't talk to you, may be you will write him an e-mail. Write him everything what you feel. If he loves you, he will understand or at least he will know your feelings
939950
Maybe he is really busy with something...wait a bit more...it has only been 6 days since you last talked...and you don't talk everyday...so maybe he is just a little busy....
284281
I can totally understand how you must be feeling. Like you, i would definetly drop a few hints here and there.. but it seems he isnt responding, so that leaves to no choice but to leave it alone. Early April, i would present it to him again,in the most straightforward of ways and we would HAVE to at the very least, talk about why he isnt talking about any of it.\nBest wishes for you.
202755
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
313842
So basically he ditches you?  That's pretty ridiculous, why do you put up with it?  You're just wasting your time.  He obviously doesn't like you if he isn't even willing to spend time with you.  Dump him, seriously.  Stop wasting your time on someone like him.\n-L
499719
tell him how you feel and if he is just playing games then give up. good luck
787416
If you know he loves you and you trust him, give him time. He might not be ready to talk to you today because he had a bad day at work? Or maybe he's surprising you with something? Keep your hopes up, i bet everything will be fine!\nGood luck!
734475
Grab your new freedom with both hands. Wrap your arms around your happiness. Do not look back at yesterdays bad news. Consider yourself free of the promise as he broke it first by not moving to call or make any contact with you. As for his not working you just lost 200 lbs. of dead weight. What a great diet plan. Explore your own personality find out who you are and what is important to you. Maybe you were just in luv with the idea of him, not the real him.
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I feel absolutely nothing, none of any of what he's doing affects me at all. Who cares? Do you care? I got better things to worry about. Everything is temporary, when you're dead and gone, will any of that really matter? Think about it, then let it go.
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i am in this situation. i have not seen this guy in 3 years. we talk online and message on the phone but i saw him two weeks ago and i had no idea what to say.  what i did was ask how hid day went and get talking on stupid things and the ice is broken. Just relax and it will come to you especially if you really like this person. Life is about screw ups. If all comes to fail say something really stupid and the both of you willl laugh about it later.
635202
Alright.  At this point, I would say let him make the move.  You don't want to seem too desperate because then he'll realize how much you want him and will do anything to have him and he'll begin to think he can get away with anything, which is not good.  He's ignoring you because he too cannot swallow his pride.  And, if he only comes home on the weekends and this huge fight was over something so minor, you may need to ask yourself how healthy the relationship is and if it's really worth it...no matter how much you may feel for him.  Trust me on this one...