What can i do about my fear of telling a guy i like that i like him so much with out bad?
596190
With any LUCK, he'll love you for it.\n\nBest of LUCK!!!
123805
there is no easy way to tell him and no way to guarantee that he won't freak out tell him is the only thing you can do, if he freaks out he'll get over it and if he doesn't freak out good for you, good luck and i hope he likes you back
465315
The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
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I believe telling him you like him is a risk worth taking, because it would be a sincere confession. Pretending that your feelings are plainly platonic would just make you suffer more and you will not be honest towards him. \n\nFishing on him liking you would not matter much because it is so obvious you DO like him, or else you will not ask us. Knowing if he likes you or not could also be done, as long as you are willing again to take the risk because it could either be a positive or a negative response.\n\nIf a guy truly likes you, he should be man enough to tell you he does. Psyching it out might lead to unexpected circumstances. It's best to let him know where you stand. You, at least, are true to your feelings. He'd be a fool to let it go.\n\nGoodluck!
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Here's the easy part:  Tell him how you feel.\n\nHere's the hard part:  You HAVE to accept his answer.  \n\nIf you have fear of rejection, it's only part of the process of relationships (and yes, that means a personal relationship with yourself).\n\nTell him direct.  Guys like that.\n\nGood luck.
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I had the same problem a few years ago. I would try to drop subtle hints, like touching his shoulder when you talk to him. Don't be overly flirty cause he may shut you down and you might feel silly, but see if he responds to the subtle hints and if so then take it to the next level. I would recommend not ruining the friendship if you truly cherish it. But you don't want to regret never telling him how you feel, so feel him out. Drop hints, compliment him a lot, tell him he looks really hot today in a particular outfit. Whatever you would say to a guy who you liked that wasn't necessarily your friend. Good Luck!
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If you really like the guy then go for it.You should never be afraid to let someone you like know how you really feel.Even if your scared of his reaction,you should just do what your heart tells you to do and don't have any regrets,because whatever decision you take,it's sure to be the right one.\n                         Eric
259858
Just say it out straight to him! you have nothing to lose and its nice to hear that from someone!dont worry if he likes you 2 he will say it back!!!
31787
Are u sure u don't like him??? W.E if u don't you'll have to tell something like you're one of the best persons i have met in my whole life but we're not meant to be together. However if that person really likes u theres no way he won'feel bad, so be honest but sensitive and w.e ever u do don't say lets just be friend, let him take that decision i mean u can say if u want...
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If you like him then just tell him and he will be flattered even if he doesn't like you back.  Who doesn't like flattery?\nIf you aren't the brave type then ask general questions like, "So what kind of things do you like in a girl?" Hopefully he'll start listing traits you have and that will give you a clue.
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ummmmm... be nice but firm. lay the hammer down\n if u don't like him say no.\n if u like him say yes. the worst thing u can do is tell him u like him when u don't. ok
45653
Well if the guy even likes you just a little then you should be proud cuz then that leaves you with some room to maybe get him to like you even more. as far as ur friends go well i dont kno wat to tell you ive been in the same situation before and decided not to trust anyone but to find out myself. good luck
294731
by telling you like him so much or becuse you are so nervos. please don't fell like you are scare or they are going to tell sh** about you?
515465
if you dont tell him it will bug you intill you move on..witch wont be soon if ya REALY reallY like him. tell him how you feel on a note or sumthing if you are shy. Or go up to him and say" I REALLY LIKE YOU AND HOPE YOU DONT GET FREEKED OUT.I KONW YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND BUT I THOUGHT YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT I LIKE YOU CAUSE I wOULD WANT TO KNOW IF SOMEONE LIKES ME" wouldnt you want to know?
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I have the same problem. There is this guy a like and I think he likes me. We always act so nerwous around each other whenever we talk or look at one another. Do you have this problem too? Anyway, back to you! I guess if you can get over the nervousness part, try to get to know this person a bit more. Find out what their interests are, and what they like to do for fun. Once you have found out that, then say something like, "Hey I've got this extra ticket to (name the place) how would you like to go? I hope that I have helped!
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Tell him you like him
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i honestly do not think that you can. just cause you are so nerves around him. you make sure that each and everything that you do when he is near is done correctly. my ? is dose he know that you like him? if not that's a reason way you get that way you do. what i suggest you to do is when you are w/ him act like you are not into him. it might help a lil w/ the shyness. act like you have known him for sometime. get close but let him show you something befor you open up.