Can someone pleease give me ideas for something to do for my Fiancee's 21st birthday that isn't to expensive
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yeah, surprise him with dinner at a nice restaurant\n\na restaurant with plates \n\na restaurant where nothing on the menu can be 'supersized'\n\nthen, after a nice dinner, give him a nice backrub---guys are suckers for backrubs!  he'll be putty in your hands!
318440
A great and inexpensive thing to do would be to show up at the shower with your camera. Take photos of the shower and then after the shower, scrapbook them or put them in a small album and give it to them.\n\nPlus you dont have to spend $50 per person, spend 25.00 and get thems something small from their registry - then you'll be getting them what they want so they'll be happy..\n\nTry a bottle of wine for the couple with 2 pretty glasses in a basket - looks like more but is very nice. Or a bag of yankee candle votive candles in a basket that you decorate with a big bow. She'll love it.\n\ndo you have a cool photo of her and the fiance>? frame it - turn it into black and white or sepia and frame it -\n\nand besides - your friends dont want you to go broke they want you to share their happiness. I'm sure they'll understand - just go to the shower and enjoy.
925787
Ok, then let's change it a little bit. Do something entirely different with her. Do something that is not your normal mode. Treat her with a nice romantic dinner somewhere, it dosen't have to be expensive or elaborate, just a nice different place with good food maybe a nice glass of wine and a single rose would be nice too. Find a place that you could dance with her a couple of slow, romantic songs sure could not hurt a thing.  There is so very much that you can do and to go without spending a vast amount, parks, attractions, museums, gallaries, etc. I would be bored too if all we did was make supper, watch tv and sometimes go shopping, none of that is spontaneous nor romantic.
750089
Take her and whoever she's seeing right now out to a fancy restaurant, and maybe even out dancing. Your friend and her BF, you and yours.  If you can afford it, a limo would be a nice touch.\n\n^Lots of money.\n   \nDeck out the garage (or basement, whatever) like a formal.\nGet a disco ball and some tunes. Some of her favorite drinks.\nInvite friends to a formal. All the friends don't need to know what's going on, but your friend will, and i'll bet she appreciates it.\nSend a friend around in Dad's caddillac for her 'limo ride' to and from the party. Don't let it turn into a giant beer blast, keep it fairly small, 6 or 8 couples, and have a nice time. If you want more ideas on how to do something like this cheap, email me at yahoo.com.
594719
Fill her house/apartment with helium or just normal red balloons. Leave her alot of flowers on her bed. Cook for her! Clean her house/apartment. Organize a candle lit dinner for u guys. I think she will appreciate all those sweet romantic things.
127634
DEPENDING ON THE CITY .....SURPRISE HER WITH A NICE PIC-NIC IN THE PARK I MEAN FLOWERS(6)(ROSES) ONE FOR EACH MONTH AND TELL HER THIS IN YOUR CONVERSATION(1 ROSE FOR EVERY MONTH WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER)ADD TO IT A NICE SIMPLE MEAL (NO NOT SANDWICHES) MAYBE SOME STRAWBERRIES WITH WHIP CREAM OR CHOCOLATE...SOME NICELY CHILLED CHAMPAGNE (2) WINE GLASSES...AND SOME BALLOONS...WOMEN LIKE BALLOONS AND STUFFED ANIMALS!!!!!ANY WAY GOOD LUCK I HOPE SOME OF THIS COULD HAVE BEEN SOME HELP TO YOU
989410
Try to find out what her favorite things to do are and then surprise her and plan a day or night filled with those things. I.e. hiking, ice skating, going to a museum, watching her favorite movie, cooking, ordering in, or taking out for her favorite meal...or make a little memory scrap book with pictures of the two of you and ticket stubs etc. from places you went together. Send her a letter or card as a surprise in the mail (snail mail). For my bf's b-day I made a treasure hunt....I wrote his first clue out & put it on his car window before he saw me. Then the next clue was to go to the local library and look in a particular section & open a particular book for the next clue/direction (pick a book that most people wouldn't be interested in to make sure it won't be checked out by the time she gets there). I taped another clue in a store window etc. I had like 8 clues in different public areas and then the last clue should lead her to her present. Or go out on a hike and take pictures together outdoors, make her something oringinal i.e. a cd, a meal, something artistic etc. Make her a care package with some of her favorite things in it. Pick up on little details, things that are important to her and do them.  Some of these things take planning but it's worth it to see the smile on her face....good luck.
561540
Happy birthday!!!! Maybe you could go to dinner with your family. that's what my husband and our 2 kids do on our b-days. then we give eachother cash to go get something nice for ourselves.
510823
as the concierge of the hotel they should be able to tell you some events going on in the area, just remember its his birthday so dont drag him to the opera or a play unless it is something he is really into, a nice dinner is always good but dont be surprised if he wants to drag you to some sports bar to watch the game (GO RED SOX!!!!) but im sure he will love the time you two share in the room much much better anyway \n\nhappy birthday to your man (my mans birthday is 05/15/06) im in same boat what to do hmmmmmmmmmm
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Do something fun and a little less ordinary together. One year my husband suprised me by whisking me off to the beach. he had gotton takeout food from this really great itallian place and we had a little moonlit picnic. Next year we are playing with the idea of getting tatoos. You could go rock clibling or take a hike up to a beautiful spot and take in the veiw. A hot air balloon ride or, if more adventurous maybe sky diving lessons.  Whatever you do, try to establish your own little traditions. Like every year no matter what our plans we always have a glass of champagne from our wedding flutes together. One year we had just moved, and were completly broke and had our champagne in the middle of an empty apartment with nothing but lawn chairs for furniture and that was one of the most memorable. Maybe because it was such a clear message that it doesnt really matter what you do as much as who you are with. Happy Aniversery, and Good Luck.
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Here are some ideas:\n\n*Wrap a puppy (or other animal he wants & likes) in a bow.\n*Buy or make a sweet card.\n*Make a scrapbook with pics, jokes, poems & quotes of the 2 of you.\n*Silky boxers & cologne.\n*Box of rich chocolates.\n*Buy or make a very pretty photo frame, put one of your best photo's in it & write something memoriable on it.\n*Have a picnic in the park, cuddling under the stars.\n*Give him a relaxing body massage.\n*Candle light dinner with slow soft music & champaigne.\n*Take a warm bubble bath together with rose pedals, candles & champaigne or wine.\n\nYou can mix 'n' match these ideas! Hope they helped, good luck! :)
929632
How about a night out just the 2 of you or even a night away.   Thats the kind of gift I would enjoy. Get me out of the house and away from the everyday get go!
562242
How about a nice romantic candlelit dinner, followed up with some relaxing music. Than maybe go for an evening stroll outside when all the stars are shining bright n' the moon is out. Than propose.\nThat's just an idea.\n\nGirls love that stuff though. IF you don't wanna go to the extreme, like annoucing will you marry me up in da sky or at a baseball game. Than the first thing I mention would be a special moment between the two of you.\nDon't forget some flowers! We love that too...
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I'm the type of person that doesn't like to just give someone a simple old gift, I like to make it a little more exciting than that. Here is one idea. Hopefully you have some time before her birthday. This is what I would do if you have about a month or a little less time before her birthday. Each day, for 21 days, give her a small gift. This could be some makeup, a new purse, some cash, starbucks g/c, a day at the spa, cds, etc. Give her something for each day up until her birthday and then on her actual birthday give her something big, that she has wanted for a while, or something that she would like really like. You could give her a trip to Vegas or Atlantic City, or take her on a cruise, etc. This is where you would decide what to give her, what you think she would like the most.\n\nI think it would be especially neat if the little gifts added up to her final gift. You don't want it to be real obvious what it is going to be, but once she has everything you want her to be able to see the connection. Let's say you are going to give her a cruise. Okay, so you could give her some small (not travel size or it may be too obvious) lotions, shampoos, etc. you could buy her an MP3 player to listen to on the plane, some books, etc. Add things in that would be of interest to her, but also useful for her trip. You could even take her to the mall one day for a shopping trip and get her some pictures in one of those machines, then she could use the picture for her passport. Then on the day of her birthday you could take and wrap the cruise documents in a large box, like a sweeper box or something, then she will open it and it will just be the little envelope with the documents in it. You could also wrap her up a box and inside of it have a clue. You could create a map or use a real map that she has to use to find the next clue, give her hints where the clue is and then she has to hunt for it, it sounds  a little childish but because she will be going on a cruise I think it would still work. Plus, it will be a lot of fun for you and her.\n\nHope this helps!
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Have a pizza party at a nearby hotel with a pool.. no clean up for your parents... and all night goofing off and having fun...\n\nHappy Birthday To You.. Happy Birthday To You!!... Happy Birthday Dear MEEEEERRRRREEEEEE... Happy Birthday To You!!!\n\nHope you have a wonderful one wherever you go or whatever you do.
992898
You just screwed yourself right in the ... with last year's birthday.  Man, young guys just dont know how to pace themselves these days!  Not really.\n\nActually, as you get older you realize that this year doesnt have to top last year in expense, adventure, or extravagance, it just has to top it in thoughtfulness.  3 years is quite a bit of time.  Take her somewhere sentimental, maybe your first date, some place she wishes she could always go, something she has always wanted to do.\n\nIf you cant get something for her, try something just outright romantic or adventurous.  Obviously dont take your quite, romantic girlfriend on a Egyptian adventure, or your adventurous girlfriend somewhere quite and romantic.  Skydiving, scuba diving, muff diving, just to name a few adventurous birthdays.  \n\nSeriously, stay away from the jewlery.  What are you gonna get her on your 5th anniversary, a plane?\n\nGood luck!
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I totally feel ya with only $50!!! What I did for my husband last year was really inexpensive. Make his favorite foods in a late night picnic. Then if you have a airport nearby, park at one end of the runway and watch the planes take off while he endulges in his favorite foods! Worked for my man!