Question for ladies of couples:?
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Can you get new glasses? The ones in the picture make you look like what you really are.
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HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont
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has he tried any foreplay? i have learned that foreplay is important for my wife to have a pleasurable experience. \n\nalso, distractions could definately be an issue because i am in a similar situation as you are. my wife has mentioned that she was uncomfortable with the living situation so its hard for her to "be herself" at times...i have learned that the atmosphere has to be just right  for a woman.
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you are so adorable ! practice safe sex !          now talk too her  ,tell her every move you make ,ask her if shes ok or need to stop ,.go slow. if you love her you will take your time .lubricate lubricate lubricate . keep talking to her look in her in the eyes ,hold her hands .marry her
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tell her you love her so much, you're going to wait until you're married before getting intimate..  that'll prove you love her..
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My favorite is Doggy style. I like having my man in control :-O
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I disagree with enterity.  I am waiting for marriage to have sex with my fiancee.  Although we have had sex before(with other ppl)we want 2 wait to make things right!  It has only brought us closer!  Yes, it is hard at times!  We feel its strengthen our relationship not only within us, but with God as well!
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Interesting to hear the female side of this one...I was 25 and she was my good friend at the time.  She was experienced and we were both well liquored.  Afterwards I wished I had started a bit earlier since sex is very nice.  I had one additional partner before getting married and still feel lacking technique-wise.  Looking back it did impact our relationship but after some time passed we got back to almost normal.  But the one night was not a topic of discussion (yes only one night..I don't know what I was thinking when I said we should chalk it up to experience and stop there).
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delicately, very delicately.\n\nif you love eachother than you should be open and honest if there's a problem\n\ngood luck
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I love when my husband says things to me that are out of the ordinary. The hottest thing would either be him talking dirty, or when he tells me I'm beautiful or amazing. Either way, it kills me when I hear his voice while we're making love.
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My husband and I talk a lot during. Sometimes it's just a matter of telling the other what we want at the moment and other times it can get a bit dirty...LOL...It just has to do with the moment and what we are feeling.
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Sweetie, without knowing what you two have tried in the past, it is difficult for anyone to know what to suggest. Since I, myself am a bi-woman who has been in a relationship with the same woman for about 6 months now, let me suggest what we do. Sometimes we will go to a sexy underwear store and check each other out with different new things on until we are so hot for each other that we have to leave. Maybe go to an adult store and get some kinky ideas there. Into s&m? Spanking? Bondage? Maybe get a new toy or two. Definately get some fantasy magazines. Sometimes we "park" in a secluded place and make-out like teenagers. Have you ever gone skinny-dipping together? How about camping? It is so refreshing to "get back to nature". Find some sleepingbags that zip together. Be creative, hon. Even on a tight budget you could go to the grocery and pick up a few cans of whipped cream, chocolate syrup, and some cherries, Then make a girl sundae out of each other before eating each other up. YUMMY. Have fun and enjoy.
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You need to let them know it's ok to talk while making love. And it's ok to ask them what they'd like. Just yesterday I asked my girlfriend what I could do better. She replied; I'd like to do something but wasn't sure if it would bother me or not. I told her go ahead...didn't bother me at all and she got off on it.
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Oh, my goodness, had this discussion with my hubby the other day.\n\nYes, they think in terms of sex.  Even when we massage them...they think sex.  They also think a massage is foreplay and if they rub our backs then we should naturally be hot and bothered and ready to jump in the sack with them!  \n\ncrazy men! :)
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I would imagine (because that's all a guy can do) that we feel the same way about satisfying our partner as a woman does; self-satisfaction that we could make her feel VERY good.  \n\nAs to being told what to do, that really depends on the mood of the moment.  Am I in a kinda selfish mood where I want the satisfaction? Or is it her turn?  In the case of the former, mo directions needed!  In the latter, guidance--explicit guidance would be quite helpful (for both of us) and a refreshing change.  Being able to 'read' your partner is one thing, but actually being able to know what exactly they want?  Come on, nobody's a mindreader!
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I would pick QUALITY over QUANTITY anyday!!! But since you asked about quantity, it varies from week to week depending on what life decides to throw at us. WE have been married for 5 years and have 7 kids. We average 3-4 times a week...some weeks its everyday..and some weeks its once.
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Hiya! You should set up a little love trail for her in her room with little notes saying eg. look under pillow and leave her something special and romantic at end of love trail! Don't make it too long that she gets fed up searching tho. Light a few scented candles just before she gets back to have a romantic fragrance blossom the room! I would love it if my fiancee did that. Good luck!