How do I get my boyfriend to pay attention to me he is a video gamer?
597721
hahahaaaa!  from the perspective of the video gaming boyfriend, rip ur clothes off and jump between him and the screen. or, have him choose betwixt the gaming and you, or go out places once in a while where their aint games, or, buy some games that BOTH of you can play and annoy him by being on his computer all the time so he wants to game less wen ur around : P
808307
What is his favorite brand of cars? Is he into Dodges? If so get him t-shirts, hats, etc. of his favorite car brand.\n\nWhat are his other interests besides cars, tools, and video games? Does he like computer games? What kind of music.\n\nWhat my boyfriend and I do is give each other a wish list via email for each other. My boyfriend is into cars and tools but he has so many tools that I don't know what to get him so he sent me a wish list and I picked out some things for him and he loved it. \n\nI feel it is best to ask what they want and have them be happy than to choose something for them to be a surprise and have them hate it. \n\nAlso pay close attention to him when watching tv or hanging out. He'll most likely say things in passing he wants this or wants that.
30016
Give your boyfriend an Xbox360. That's a way to a guys heart.
361092
U should git him a new video game dat has somethin 2 do wit sports. Like a football game or somethin.
344438
Thats Kool Every Guy Is Like This...She Should Be Able To Understand That Its Not All About Her...Nd Its Your Turm To Do Sumthin U Wanna Do..When She Goes Shopping With U Does She Not Pay More Attention To The Clothes Than U???..Exactly!\nBesides I Like Video Games Too Maybe U Should Find A Multi Player Game That The Both Of U Will Enjoy...Nd Its Okay Sometimes U Really Do Need To Concentrate On The Game A Lil More
1032318
most guys are, unfortunately.\nAsk him for some more time together and see what he says. Either that, or when he breaks out his video games, start reading that book you are working on or painting or whatever it is YOU like to do.
905829
Talk to him and tell him that you wish he would give you more attention. Guys are pretty naive sometimes and just don't realize things.
141518
A Video Game- if he's into that sort of stuff.
998733
well first of all put on sum sexy lingerie,dim the lights, maybe cook up sumthin nice for him and just try and make everythin romanitc and when he comes in u can pounceon him and start givn him **** or just take it kinda slow at first but b sexay and kinda tease him.u can evn take the lead..my man luvs when i do that lol..then maybe try sumthin new,not just the same thing everytime it will get old!!! well i hope i helped u!! good luck sweetie
907559
try to get involved maybe when he is not home practice playing those video games and when he comes home play with him if you beat him he will think that the game was weak so he will stop playing just so that you wont play. or you can like it and challenge eachother with new games.maybe some Sex games would be good. and if he goes out with his friends go along
1062693
my dear you must let him know you exist first. be sure that he knows that. then show your interest in him just a little flirt not something flashy. laugh at his jokes, show interest in the things you are sure he likes, talk to him and listen everybody likes people that listen. dress sexy but make sure you don't look slutty. sorry for that but guys like girls that are sexy by nature, not fake.
268393
just play along with his little bi(t)chmade games...you're probably cute to him when you get jealous...that must get his rocks off.If he's not cheating then so what...take the other peeps advice,see what happens.Play a game similar to his,see how he likes it.Or pretend that you don't care,he'll probably try something else to annoy you...if that's the case then confront him and/or find a real "G" who doesn't play games....................
207950
The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
162198
Dont get him a videogame!!\n\nGet him a T-shirt of his fav team!!
761209
As a long time gamer, there's a line that, when crossed, tells you and the world that he's not just a power-gamer but an addict. to me, that line is when being online is more important than your relationship.\n\nI've always put my relationships and obligations above gaming - which is why I'm still married after 16 years with a wife who is NOT nearly as much of a gamer as I am.\n\nTell your man to either get offline ONCE IN A WHILE or risk losing you - if the "risk losing you" part doesn't get his attention, start looking to upgrade ;-)
1038719
Leave a little card in his coat pocket or brief case.  Somewhere so when he is at work, he will find it.  Offer to help him clean his house or do yard work.  Offer to join him when he goes to do whatever it is he does as a hobby.  Try to make an effort for your lives to collide more often.  The way I show my boyfriend is by being there for him emotionally when he needs it.  I don't live with him either, but I love to sneak cards in his lunch before he heads off to work.  That way he knows I am thinking about him even when I'm not near him.  I really think if you just find little things to do, he will notice them.
49576
Let him play the video games, it stimulates the mind. Just make sure he does his chores and homework and let him do what he enjoys. Not everyone will enjoy sports. Also, maybe find out what kind of games he plays and play with him. Educate yourself, learn about games. Be a good father.