should i go out with my bff ex?
602047
Ask her if its ok to go out with him. After all, its her ex and its wise to ask as certain people find it unsettling to see their ex's going out with another person already even if its with their best friend. It also depends upon how long they have been seperated. If it was quite long ago, ask her else look out for someone else.
138666
It sounds like everything has already worked itself out. Your ex is dating your best friend, and you are dating one of her best friends. \n\nIs there someone out of the 4 of you that isn't happy with the arrangement?
1099879
Depends on if you want your friend to really be your friend. You could ask your friend, but they would still get mad about it even if they said no. If you like the ex more than the friend then go for it. Good luck.
1116801
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
348008
It is up to you. If you want to go out with him then go for it but if you dont want to date him then just be his friend. The choice is yours and yours alone. Good Luck.
802742
Don't do it!\n\nFriends are really important. Dating their exes is not a good idea because it can make things really strange between you. (been there...it's really not nice) and it can be really awkward if you bring him along to something where your friend is too.
34191
OK, let me get this straight...he went was your boyfriend and then went out with your friend too? Oh! Honey, you need to let go- he is just playing you. i mean- you just don't go out with your x's friends, that's dirty. Besides, you need to be thinking if she is even truly your friend. After all, she did go out with your x and you still love him. Just move on- you can do so much better!!!
238260
Don't go there, honey. She may THINK she feels that you two should be together, but I guarantee you, it's not going to end up that way. Stay friends, and leave it at that, at least if you value your friendship. Now, if they were only together briefly and she had no real feelings for him, maybe you should go there. Otherwise, steer clear. Trust your gut on this one.
802492
Your best friend has NO BUSINESS going out with your ex-boyfriend in the first place! If she really was your best friend, then she should step out of the picture, so that you would have a chance to maybe work things out with him. Once she goes out with him, it will never be the same.
1006611
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.
219497
I totally understand what you have been through.  I think she could still be your friend but the question is NOT NOW. You have to move on no matter how hard it is.  You have to re-establish yourself with someone else, and be a whole again...before you can be friend with your ex.  It is very selfish of her to keep 2 men around.  Be strong and let her know that it is for the best. If she still cares about you, this is the least she can do for you.
651448
I think not for reasons of the heart,cause deep down inside you still have those memories of the good times you had together.Which then could lend to things happening between you two.If you are in a new relationship,the person you are with could get hurt or may not like the idea you are friends with your exs.So leave exs alone and move on.
55966
don't even think about it! if you think about him in a cushhy way,don't! wait,and if they break up you should ask her if it's alright to go out w/ him.\nBut otherwise if you make a move on him or flirt and you bff sees than your in trouble,and then iono she might do something like say i hate you! or i can't believe you did that!something like that but try not to do anything bad.
421685
It's up to the best friend to be honest.  But if you go for it, be prepared for some serious backlash from your ex.
528983
I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
287087
yall should go out. But not if you're not suppose to have a boyfriend or you already have a boyfriend or he already has a girlfriend. Just make sure both of yall are available to do what ever without any problems!
906559
You should do what you think is right. If you think it is going to turn out badly, don't go. But if you want to go, then i say go. Your ex (whether or not you want to still be friends with him) should have no impact on where you go and who you hang out with.