girls-my gal keeps another guy & still say dat she want 2 marry me bt i've given her enough time 2 quit d guy
597996
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
1135145
Forget her. She's just playing you, and if she does it now with you, she will do it with another when she'll be your girlfriend.\n\nMove on, and find someone you will always be able to count on.
1003714
Yeah bro you're sprung\n\nI am sure you're a nice and u deserve better than that\n\nIf she don't want u move on I am sure there's a girl that feels the same about you.\n Forget her man life is too valuable.
160556
a few possibilities might be happening:\n1. She's want u 2 be the she marries, she's taking things slow. Most Relationships started from friends\n2. U'r not right for her... u might wanna improve urself.. physically fit, more intelligent or having better personality. she'll change her mind (dats how i got my gf) =P\n3. U'r not in her priority list... maybe she wanna hava stable career or solve other problems 1st b4 having a relationship.\n4. She might be friendly to everyone. but if u want he badly, better do something about it, but dun Rush.\n5. Other factors dat she might not wanna disclose~ if so, dun find out directly from her.\n\nMy best advice: Learn more bout woman, improve urself in every aspect & have a good heart. =)
592056
Find yourself another girl for that month and your current girlfriend she just wants some time to have sex with this guy that's if she haven't already.  Don't let her play with your emotions if she needs time let her go for good.  If she really loved you she wouldn't be asking for time because another guy.  Come on shes obviously a whore.  Don't buy her any gifts and for that whole month don't call her shes gonna realize she lost a great guy that B.I.C.T.H!!!!!!!!!!
693518
Just forget her. Why did she leave you for another man? Is it your fault or her fault? Find another girl. If she leaved you for another man, it means she's not your soulmates. She's not meant to be for you
898935
Sounds like you are being used.  Love can be blinding.  You need to let her go, she is not the only woman in the world.  But if you keep treating her as "Ms. Universe" she will keep treating you the same way.  You said she is obsessed with another guy.  Let her go because you are obsessed with her.  Maybe if the other guy hurts her, then she will rebound to you, but any man with pride would leave hear alone under any circumstances.  But if you love her and you can't live without her, tell her and if she decides she wants the other guy, let her go!!!
143798
Thats not a good situation,shes putting you in limbo with the other guy,thats not true love,she is comparing the both of you,she loves only one of you but cannot make up her mind which one.Be very careful with your heart,if she cant let go of that other guy,you could end up getting very hurt.Have a serious discussion with her,and tell her your not going to be held in limbo,if she truly loves you,she will forget the other guy,if not you just might have to move on.
570560
One word brother, RUN.  This girl is afraid of commitment.  If you are looking to marry her, I would advise against it.  If she is not future minded, were dose that leave the two of you.  Just something to think about.
871441
First of all, confront her about it.  If it still doesn't work out, then she's not worth it.  It's not every day that you find a guy that's willing to work through the hard times.  I know I haven't found one yet.  You deserve so much better if she's willing to give up on a seven month relationship just because of her friends.  I wish you luck.
585960
You don't need a girl like this,move on find someone that is willing to return the love that you are giving.Don't spend time with someone who is putting you second.
394494
stay her friend and if she wants to come back to you then say ok as long as you dont go back to the other guy. if she still goes back to the other guy dont get back with her because she's using you to make the other guy jealous.
516293
It's not fair to your girlfriend if you don't think it's going to work out. You THINK you love her? You do or you don't. You need to figure out what is going on w/your girlfriend before you start planning for this other girl. Not wanting to hurt someone is not a good enough reason to stay w/them-that sounds harsh, but you'll just end up resenting her.
411892
Tell her, and find out where you stand.  It looks as though she may be ready to move on, sadly for you, as she may not see the outcome of your 'ups and downs' in your relationship in quite the same way as you do.  It might be time just to move on yourself or carry the relationship through into marriage - 6 years is a long enough time to do something about it. The fact she feels comfortable enough to make these arrangements in front of you means that she's about given up hope of going further with you because you've delayed for so long.  I think it's reasonable after so many years to decide whether you want to commit to this girl and ask her to marry you or live with you, or go your separate ways.
974053
I'd say "No" to something and stick to it.  That should trow her for a loop!  Be careful that you're not just going along with everything to keep her.  That will not keep her.  Girls want guys with balls, who will stick up for what they want and what they believe in...
749248
thats awsome!  ofcourse its important, but if she really loves ya, she will stay with you.  explain to her that your not like the other guys who can't control themselves, and you have a brain that controls your body, not the other way around.  I have respect for you.
529440
if she loved you she wouldnt be leaving you so often for someone else. i think she probably is after your money if she keeps coming back. i dont feel she will commit to you the way you would like her too and i dont think she is in love with you as well. i know you have invested a lot of time and your heart into this relationship but i would move on. tell her its over and see what her reaction is.