i am in love and it is painful?
600536
you need to get married\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
927829
happens all the time in long term relationships.....some times your in love..... other times you know you love them, although they're being a pain in the ass,,,...if when you wake up in the morning and the first thing you want to do is roll over and hug them then your in love......
1057777
It's so hard I know..I have been in love w/someone for about 4 years..my best friend...want her so bad...but it's not happening...so you choose your pain..be friends and love from afar...or just get away from the whole situation & move in different circles.
51902
love is very great feeling.it makes you fly.it takes you on a pink cloud.but if from a mistake you fall on earth you'll get a really really bad wound that will last forever so take care when falling in love
532917
well, you answered your own question. keep on loving him. love conquers pain and hurt anyday.
6604
Unfortunately love can be painful as well as joyous.  Remember that just because we care or love someone else does not necessarily mean that person feels the same way toward us.  Its a tough situation when you love someone who cannot return the feelings.  But, its better to find that out now rather then later.  Best of luck to you.
444797
It depends on many things; how much you loved them, how long you were with them, how much they hurt you, who or what else you have in your life and how often you see them. No-one knows how long it will take, and it does hurt, but know that you will get over it. It's not gonna always feel like this. I'm sorry you are hurting just take everyday as it comes and you will find love again. Take Care   ;-)
1040179
What hurts you most? he's not in love with you anymore or he's love, or he's hunting for someone else? whats the matter?\nIf it hurts that he's not with love with you! carry on and accept it. Life becomes better when you accept things even if they hurt, they are the whole truth. \nIf it toubles you that he is in love with someone, you should dump him, frankly even being a boy i tell you this. He is not worth your pain and tears. \nTry making friends on the net, dont disclose your identity but talk out things with someone who really is understanding and can talk about it to you. Different people's opinoin don't help to lead a life but they surely can give good ideas, accept them and make the best of it to forget your past.\nRemember, only one thing, this was a lesson life thought you and the things you lost was the price for the same\nThere is no gain without pain. So just chill and hang on you will come along be with positive attitude people.
775666
The hurt will be there for a long time, but not forever. Like anything, this just takes time. There are things that you can do which will make this process longer, things like staying indoors day after day with the curtains drawn and your duvet wrapped around you listening to coldplay. By all means let yourself feel pain, don't bottle it up, but don't wallow. If you feel you need to cry then cry, but you have to give yourself some happiness too.\n\nMake plans for every day, hang with friends or set yourself projects to work for. Keep yourself occupied and let yourself have a good time. Of course you'll still be thinking of him, but he won't be all you think about and gradually that pain in the pit of your stomach will get smaller and smaller until one day you wake up not hurting at all.\n\nWe've all been there, unfortunately it's all too often the down side of experiencing real love. Don't ever think you're alone in feeling like this, and although you might be frustrated and think that the feeling will never go away, it will.\n\nGood luck Xx
813256
you can't tell that you are in love or not but time will tell you. give some time to yourself and everything will be clear itself. so dont worry and let you feelings come out and express .\ngood luck
353376
Love hurts...but it does get better. And yes, one day you will find your Romeo and forget all about him. Good luck to you.
657749
I can understand the pain. I think that you should go out and find something to that you like to do. Like taking a bubble bath, long walk, listen to music cook a new dish. \n    When he calls tell him you are busy and try to keep your mind off him. Find a new love of your life, someone that will give you what you give him.
741839
Because when you are in love,and excited to be with your love your heart races, and when you get hurt, your heart feels it.
820396
yes. if you do NOT love to keep pain OUT, then you also cannot let LOVE IN!! it's a risk but one worth taking!! just use your HEAD and not always your heart for guidance!!
700399
No one ever said love was easy....... Sorry for your pain ....but in time ....it will heal
197821
Its true..Love is painful...But it is the most powerful emotion God has given to mankind and with every gr8 thing comes a drawback too.. just like with a rose comes the painful spikes. Same way with Love comes the pain..u have gotto accept the both sides baby..U cant opt for just one coz with the heads also comes the tail(in a coin)..;)
113176
Yes, love does hurt..once its gone...Have you ever broken up with someone? ...