me and my husband hasn't had sex in over6 months?
609406
To hear people here tout how great sex is, you'd think there was nothing that could top it. I guess they didn't factor in Twinkies and Ding Dongs.
100733
I've been married 6 years and we have sex daily.  It's different for everybody and it really depends on things like your individual sex drives, your energy level, the level of importance you put on sex, your sexual communication, etc.  If you're having an amount of sex that is satisfactory to both of you, then don't worry about what is "normal" and just go with what feels right for the two of you.  If, however, the frequency with which you have sex is not satisfactory to one or the other of you, talk about it.  Find out what the problem is.  Don't just assume that the sex goes away once you get married.  We made that mistake once and we won't make it again.  Best of luck to you and your spouse!
739628
there were obviously problems with your marriage and he left but he misses you. there is sex sex and there is making love sex, after so long he , even though he may not admit it would find it difficult not to have making love sex with you. it all could lead to nothing but it is an intimate bond between you and it may lead to a fuller relationship, if and only if the other issues that caused you to separate are solved.\nat the end of the day your not a 16 years old virgin and being on your own without sex sucks, you dont owe anyone anything about an explanation, you know this may lead to nothing, but your an adult, there is nothing of certainty in the world. it makes you feel good now, if it doesn't then stop, have more sex if you can, the world isn't a very nice place and we have to get what little enjoyment from it that we can.\n\nmost of all the one you dint get tonight is the one you never get\n\nhave fun, we all know where the journey leads so you better enjoy getting there
182465
my hubbie and i are married 9 years.  we've been there.  we both love each other deeply, we just forget how important it is to show it as well as say it.  it's easy to fall into your individual ruts, which in turn causes one big rut for the marriage.  get out of the rut!!!  your marriage needs a hero.  do not be afraid to be the one to decide that today is the day the romance comes back to your marriage.  it doesn't have to be grand....join him in the shower, make his favorite meal and serve it to him in bed, come to bed with nothing but the radio on... i am assuming, of course, that you are only missing passion and romance and that there isn't a bigger problem...if the latter is the case, and you need to save your marriage -- talk with a priest or counselor...they can help you see things the both of you may not be seeing...  good luck and have fun!!!
416959
have not had sex in  5yrs-- I forget-- what do I do?
314701
Hey, that's a good question. I'm pregnant too and I'm the same way. I don't like having sex very much anymore either, I'm never in the mood. As a matter of fact, I don't even really like cuddling! Our horomones are very messed up right now, it's not us, I've already asked about this. Don't fret, and try to explain that to him.
54511
I have to kids and one on the way. Let me let you ladies know that my husband complains about my sex drive being too high..I'm 23 and he's 26 and I always want sex. So when I get it usually its good if not I tell him that he sucked in the bed and i'm sleeping downstairs. To answer the question.. every chance I can get it, but usually every 3 days.
371186
like everyday...it's been 7 years and we still have sex 6 times a week in different places...I will elaborate more if u need me too
403035
Sex is very important in mine and my husbands relationship . I will be honest and say for two weeks we have not had sex or talked much about anything and we always had talked before . After my husband went to  work today I emailed him and asked him what was going on . He says he's been tired and under a lot of stress at work and has a lot of stress because his brother lost his kids . I have been so sad the past week just because I didn't feel loved or wanted . After he talked to me about what was going on I felt a lot better but sex helps people feel more loved and wanted . To me sex and talking is a big part of a relationship .\n\nAngel
303095
My husband has been away for 3 years.  I see him 2 weeks every other month.  You need to occupie your mind.  Find something to do on your spare time.  So your not thinking so much about them.  You all ways have good days and bad.
596758
Honey, I am 28 yrs. and have been with my fiance for a total of 10 years now. In the beginning, we did have more sex than we do now. How long have you two been together? I totally disagree that it means you are not in love with him. I have more love for my man every year that passes by, even though now we aren't intimate like before. Sure, we love to be with eachother, it's just not the most important thing on our list to do. We have grown to be totally comfortable with that and it doesn't mean there is something wrong...that's my opinion anyways. You should try new and exciting things, even if it is just a laugh with eachother.
333605
It is all related to hormones and being tired from caring for the baby.  Don't worry, the sex drive will return.  If you are real concerned about it, talk to your doctor.
140861
B"H\nHmmm... try taking two weeks off from sex every month.  Show him that during that time you are STILL head over heels in love with him.\n\nThis is actually advice many marriage councelors give out to help people who've lost the spice get it back into their marriage.  While you may not have this trouble, this definately helps develop the intellectual and emotional aspects of a relationship as well.  \n\nLoads of ancient cultures practiced this (usually abstaining from physical relations during the woman's menstruation) and it has proven itself time and again to keep marriages in a prolonged "honeymoon phase".
527025
Husbands do want sex after 10 years.  If one doesnt there might be several reasons, he could have lost interest due to falling out of love, weight gain, health problems, etc...  You first need to find out the real problem before you can start to fix this one.  The only reason he shouldnt want sex is if hes 90.
644614
If after 6 years he won't man up. He isn't going to do it. Unless you are really young (less that 25) then you may have to pray he matures without growing apart from you. I rarely see these things work out. In fact, my wife came from that situation and she is still bothered she didn't walk away sooner.
739443
wow!! your a much better man than any i know if you have been around for 7 months and no sex! i just turned 28 and i dont know how you do it!!! yep, you love this one for real!  i would sit down and have a deep conversation with her about your feelings.
1152348
was he not like this when you married him?\n\nor has he slumped down badly into this habit of not washing?!\n\ni know it sounds horrible, but you have to tell him.\n\ni really believe that when people dont wash for so long they dont realise that they smell. its like if you have perfume on for a long time other people can smel it but you cant, cos you are so used to the smell.\n\nbut he should have cottoned onto the fact that it is wrong and he should be making the effort.\n\nno matter how hard it is you have to give him an ultimatum and put it to him that either he washes more frequently or thats it.\n\nsleepin in a spare bedroom without sex and attention isnt a good relationship for anyone to be in.\n\ngood luck