do men like a woman who makes the first move?
611691
Sometimes, men actually want women to make the first move.  take me for example: i have never really had a whole lot of relationships, but when i got together with my fiance, i made all of the moves, except the first kiss.  I was quite often uncomfortable making the first moves because i was unsure of how she would react.  On the night of our first kiss, i really liked how sweet and sincere the kiss ended up being.  And i know that i would not have made my move that night, because i was far too nervous.  She could see this, and decided to take initiative.  I personally liked it.  It also shows me that the woman knows what she wants, versus "needs" the guy to make decisions all the time.  By the way, it sounds like if he doesn't really look at you, he might be a little nervous around you, and is unsure of how you'd react if he asked you. Go for it!!  I think that most men don't mind if a woman takes initiative, unless that man is insecure about himself and needs to feel "macho" or something by being the decision maker.
474358
Agressive women can be very erotic and exciting...but too aggressive women can be scary!  \n\nSomething as making a first move, it would be a plus for the woman.  A lot of the times, especially if the man likes you, we are always thinking of ways to break that "block of ice"...and if you do it first...Wow, you got something coming your way!
301269
If the physical attraction is there right away then she decided as soon as she spotted you.\n\nAlthough women who want a relationship to mean something may take a little longer to decide whether to open up
359035
I think a guy should make the first move. It depends on the guy. Some guys are so sweet yet so shy at the first time. So if you want him to like you, then you should make the first move. Ohterwise, let the man be in charge then after you will be incharge of him until you break up.
71505
it depends on his personality.\nif he's a sort of guy that seems like he'd wanna make the first move, you could drop little hints you like him, or if he's the kind of guy who seems kinda shy, you could aks him out and he'd probly go with it.
958508
why dont you make the first move for him
289152
Well, maybe all U got 2 do is to stay quiet 4 a while.  See, when It comes about women, men always say: "We prefer someone who gives the first step..." but when a girl gives the first step and they like that, they would like this girl to wait a little bit, they don't like the rush, when someone is so persistant they got panic.\nAlmost all men think that we're gonna manipulate the whole situation if we always take control of them.\nJust wait a little bit, no need to push him to do things.\nIf U already gave him a few signs, just wait until he gives U his.
880447
Sometimes girls need to make the first move. Not all guys have high confidence levels. Just ask him if he would like to go out for drinks or dinner. If he says no there is your answer.
169482
There's no particular period of time, but it sounds like you would do well to let her make the first move, if she's going to.  Don't underestimate the healing power of romance; of knowing you are wanted and cherished.  You're not being a cad to be available to her; a cad would storm the bastions and make a nuisance of himself.  Just be sweet and helpful, and wait and see.  If she is interested, she may be reluctant to let you know for fear of seeming fickle.  You both need time, but she needs to signal when she thinks the time of waiting has come to an end.
1183260
When I see a woman I like, I IMMEDIATELY position myself so as to approach her from the front.  What I want is for her to see me boldly approaching her from the front.  I look her directly in the eye as I slowly and purposefully move toward her, ignoring everything and everyone but her.  When, an intimate distance away, I stop and pause a few seconds.  The I say, "I like you".  After she is done being all flustered, I smile and start to talk normally to her.\n\nThis works very well on all normal women because it gives them exactly what they want.  There is no ambiguity here as to what type of man I am or what I want with you.
61878
Usually a guy would make the first move if he's initially attracted to the girl.\n\nIn other cases, a guy would feel he's out of her league, and not even bother, unless she gives him buying signals (smiles, stares, etc).\n\nAlso, a guy wouldn't mind if the girl made the first move. If you're thinking about doing it, try it. The guy would be really flattered.
295784
The question is do you like him? Most guys dont make the first move because there are 'professional flirters' who wants to get guys attention and then decline them. If you do or arent those, its a good chance that he likes you and doesnt know what to do ;p hope it helps
545024
well miss wildcherry, you should maybe take the initiative if you know he is too shy to approach you. you don't have much to lose or gamble with cause you already know how he feels. there is nothing wrong with females making the first move and you don't want to wait for him to get the confidence to ask first.\n\ngo for it. the success rate will be high.
394122
i think if he wants to kiss then he should do the first move. guys should always should do the first move...
296255
It depends, I don't mind when a woman makes the first move. I also don't mind if she let's me do the first move.  I guess its all a part of if you want something then go out and get it and not always do we get what we want.  I am for it.  It is OK if she speaks up first and if she makes the first move.  It can's hurt.
930224
This is totally situational... but...\n\nIn general, I love it when a girl makes the move. As a guy, we have an automatic disadvantage, because no matter what, we have to work for it. Now, this is a gross generalization, but most of the time it is true: women can find someone if they really want to, any time.\n\nMen on the other hand, well...\n\nSo to have a woman come up and make it known that she's interested makes things easy. Not to mention, it's not like there's anything to lose really.
609375
he probably does, that's what I do to girls I like. um, it depends. If he's shy, you might have to make the first move. Or if he's not, just give him time.\n-Best of Luck