My brother might be gay. How could I tell if he is?
609099
ask him but make sure your ready for the answer.  Let him know that if he is, you are still his brother.  Just be there for him if he is.  good luck
651880
well dont tell your bro. Have the person come in ur room alone for a min. Tell him you need help or sumthin. then tell him. ask him if he feels the same. Finaly make  him promise not to tell ur bro and dont be public.
996947
i have straight friends that do that. if he just acts gay around your friends, its most likely to make them laugh. you said he doesn't act like that all the time, so he is most likely not gay. but whatever he is, as long as he is a great person then he should be worthy of friendship.
109926
Well, it's a very difficult situation I guess, but, see... my brother was gay and all of us in the family ignored that situation until one day he came to us and take courage to tell the truth, now that we know that we love him the way he is, things haven't changed at all, we show him his not alone and he feels much better now.\nMaybe your family will not understand the problem in the beginning but they love U, so, they will take it as good as my family did.\nAbout your friends... if they're really good friends they will accept U as you are, friendship doesn't have to change at all, they will support U if U feel bad or suffer some kind of discrimination.\nTelling the truth is always your best choice... Go ahead!
785169
Hmmmm....well I suppose he could be gay. But trust me if you keep staring at him and stalking him, whether he's gay or not, he's gonna be creeped out by you.\n\nRelax and slow down. What's your hurry? He knows you're there...and if you quit bothering him (pretend like he's not there) that'll probably peek his interest and bring him to you.\n\nTake it nice & slow.
199871
may be as brother who knows
902770
There are actually a lot of guys out there that are your brother's age who have never had a girlfriend either.\nDoesn't by any means signify that they're gay.\nIt just means he hasn't found the right girl yet.\nThe fact that he's really shy could be the factor as to why these other girls didn't return his calls.  Maybe he's still a little too hard to talk to?  Maybe he's just getting used to the idea of communicating with the females and just hasn't found his "niche" yet.\nThe fact that your mother babies him doesn't mean anything, either.  It just means that he's most likely to want to settle down with a girl who will treat him the same way, is all.\nThere really is no "recipe" for homosexuality.\nI wouldn't think too much about this.
1070865
Get better friends, I don't mean that in a harsh way but if this friend  knows your brother is straight but keeps acting this way towards him it just seems to me that He is Not being a very good Friend at all Gay or Straight
256862
why would you ask if he is gay? he obviously is.
1117632
How long has he been your friend? I'm sure that if he hasn't tried anything with you yet, he won't. And since he's your friend, he probably knows that you are straight and won't try to put moves on you. It's not like he JUST turned gay, he's still your friend (I hope), accept him for who he is.
211768
How do you know if you're straight?
1110723
I seriously doubt that he's gay but I don't know if he's married or not. Maybe you could ask him yourself somehow.
855255
between Backrub Boys or InSink, i cant tell a differnce in gayness
575185
Guy code. Chances are he is interested in you but respects his friendship with your brother. I'd talk to him and see how he feels, then have him and you ask your brother for his ok. I dated two of my brother's friends before, but only after my brother gave his ok...and gave his "if you hurt her I'll kill you" speech. Chances are he's just trying to respect your brother, but if given the ok by your brother he may move forward.
1038066
Don't quite agree to the answer above. What's more important is how you feel. You don't need to worry about what you brother MAY think. After all, it's your life..\nAlthough, I admit that depending on the age you're in, it could be a little touchy. As you didn't mention how old any of you is, I tend to say, give it a try to find out what he feels.\nIf you're e.g. 13 and he's 18, well, then enjoy having the crush and dreaming of what could be. But don't pursue... Some dreams better remain what they are: dreams..
316661
Test 1\n\nGive a guy a long look - if he starts back "What U lookin' at?" - he's straight.\n\nTest 2\n\nlook him up and down (making sure he sees you do it) and smile - if he smiles back at ya - he may be gay.
227441
how many people would know that he is your bro? i'd find another guy to go with not a gir.