What's the best way to reject someone's offer to go out?
605370
Wow...you must popular.  No matter what you say, it's going to hurt.  Just be nice and say "you are cool and all, but let's be friends!".  Then never call them.
377704
Don't ask for a "date".  Say you want to get together and hang out.
839954
ask a friend  to drop you off..
643907
Privacy is the key word... dont embarass urself or her.. use a laid back aproach... such has asking her to go for an old fashioned date, such as a movie or a pizza or both... keep it simple and private in case it doesnt work out for one of you...aproach her with the simple guestion of *Hey, would you like to go to ______________, (fill in the blank) with me friday/saturday nite ? if she says no dont take it personally or make a big deal of it.. most times it is what happens after the guestion that makes the impact of rather you will look like an idiot or not...... good luck.........
86946
It's best not to reject anyone at all. Simply be honest with them. Let them know you are genuinely not interested in an intimate relationship with them, and that you respect them to much to play those types of games.  Any intelligent person can respond to this, without getting overly emotional.  If they do, better now than six months later when the feelings have become much more involved.
705000
Take yourself out of the middle of this equation. Casually tell her that you didn't get around to asking them if they wanted to hang out and suggest that she call them and ask them herself. Let them have to explain themselves.
820502
Good Call But You May Want To Phrase It Different.\nLike Say " I Just Wanted To Let You Know That I Like You And I Was Wondering If You Wanted To Go Out" You know or something like that because u say im just putting it out there then she might just say ok and walk away and things will never be the same with u two.\nBUT GOOD LUCK\n<3 Lauren
197574
I'm not sure what your are asking. There is the option where you can opt out of receiving unsolicited offers. The link is below.
116358
Refuse to partake in whatever it was they didn't include you in the decision of. No matter what it is, just say,\n"No, Honey, you decided that. I have other plans. Next time I hope you respect me enough to ask my opinion."\n  It might take a few times but they'll catch on, 'include you in the decision or go or do it alone.'\n    It's what I did, and it worked. Good Luck.
424991
just ask . how about saying" lets go to a movie/park/ restorant?". just do not assume anything. see how the things turn out.
302679
i'm sorry to hear usually women don't take rejections well at all.  you should reschedule when you had to cancel tell her hey can't today due to "insert important reason" but lets go out tomorrow or _______.  Don't just leave it at i'll call you.
451066
Just have the confidence in yourself and go out there and do it! The most she can do is say No! Trust me, it won't be the end of the world... It's a part of every young man's every day life. You should learn to accept rejection with a smile! The best of men have to deal with it... \nIt's like the lottery, you can't win if you don't play... \nGood luck!
623365
The best way would be to not put yourself in a position where it would be hard for you to say no.  Go to public places, have other people around you - that way you are not tempted to do anything.  Keep yourself busy by doing other things that interest you.
709294
We all know that breaking it off with someone is never easy. It sucks, to be more precise, and even less fun than getting rejected is actually having to do the rejecting. Okay, maybe doing the rejecting is a little better. Anyway, if you're thinking about blowing a guy off, here are some ideas on how to give him the brush off that won't break his heart too badly -- or destroy his ego.\n\nYou're not interested. He calls and leaves a message. What should you do? Do not return that call. \n\nAnd what if you picked up the phone? What then?  Then, lie. Please lie. Tell him that you just got back together with your friends. This is our very first choice for rejection. Second best is you realized that you are going through a period where you do not want to date at all and just want to focus on yourself. Sure, these excuses might be transparent -- but men feel better to live a lie than face the truth of rejection.\n\nAnother possibility, though not quite as good due to possible ambiguity is the good ol' distancing technique. You tell him you are really busy for the next couple of weeks and will call him when things get less crazy -- a bit confusing for most men, but definitely effective and not too painful.\n\nYou really gave it a chance, but it's not happening. What should you do?   Again, lie. Your friends are still your best bet. Do not tell him you met someone else recently. That smarts. Choosing someone you just met tells him he lost a contest. No one likes to lose. \n\nAnother option: Honesty, within reason. If it's simply a matter of chemistry - or lack thereof - tell him. Most guys can survive that after just a few dates.\n\nAs much as it's going to hurt, tell him the truth. At this point, honest communication is the right thing to do. Don't be too specific if it's for reasons no human should ever hear: you smell, you are not good-looking enough, you are boring, you're an idiot -- please refrain from using these. Be gentle, but do not be too vague. Just give it to him straight and say that you're really sorry. And do not try to be friends right away. \n\nIt is really tough to swallow "can we just be friends?" If you two are suitable as friends then let that relationship take it's proper course, and do not initiate it while you're dumping him as a boyfriend.\n\nObviously, this all can vary depending on your circumstances. \n\nJust remember: Be gentle, lying can be good, and specificity, well, it can sometimes be too specific. And did I mention lying? \nGood Luck>r
36414
tell the person you want some one on time without your friend. ask that person out for a dinner, or movie without your friend coming along
327138
let him know .he might be cool with it. honesty is the best policy. but if he says no. then sneek.
176661
give him the rejection hotline number....\n\nhttp://www.rejectionhotline.com/numbers_and_cities.php\n\ngo to the website above to get the number for your area! its hilarious