How do I ask a guy out when he's constantly in a huge crowd?
603095
pull him aside and ask him if he'd like to get together sometime and have dinner or see a movie, or go to some social function...whatever, just all im saying is if you cant catch him alone... pull him aside..
259606
1. Let it be discrimanetly known to the guys that you are waiting to be asked.\n\n2. Ask a guy.\n\n3. Going as a part of a small group can be fun.\n\n4. If all else fails, got any fun cousins?
684428
when he comes in do your little chat then trow in a "so are you heading out tonight"do it in a casual tone of voice, he will tell you where hes going and will 99% sure ask you "what about yourself" you let him know what night club your going to but play it all innocently as if your just being civil then when your out that night i bet you he will be there then... then ye both will have a few beers on ye your inhibitions will be gone and you can begin to flirt oh and generally us lads visit a shop a lot if we fancy the person working there but he is prob afraid of rejection so he is draging it out SO BITE THE BULLET WHEN YE MEET. BEST OF LUCK!!!!!
1174529
Hi,\nWell this guy you have mentioned is so totally into you he is just to shy to make a move on you so slowly try to interact with him and ask his friends  what his likes and dislikes are and if he is in any clubs or groups just don't act so desperate when you ask  his friends and him, he will warm up to you pretty soon.\n\n                                                         Hope he loves you to death, \n                                                                  ken
905869
Guys are funny. \n\nPerhaps you're right and you need to take the initiative... but perhaps he's not prepared to have a significant other in his life due to a variety of reasons- Immaturity, past relationships gone bad- whatever the reason.\n\nI think that asking to hang out is a reasonable request- but if he's as painfully shy as you say- he might say no. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you- he's just too shy.\n\nAlso something to think about- If you're outgoing (I don't know if you are or not...)- then is a shy guy really the best match for you?\n\nAt anyrate- getting to know the guy better is good no matter what- you might find that he's just not the type for you- or it could lead to him feeling comfortable enough around you to finally ask you out.\n\nBest of Luck!
983189
ask him out, it'll get his attention for sure
486079
You are setting your own limitations.  Ask him out.  No one is out of your league, you are setting your value too low if you think that.  Life is priceless for everyone.  If he rejects you, he wasn't worth your time and I would reflect on his hollowness to uplift me. \n\nWhat you do is you purchase tickets to a baseball game, concert and invite him as though you have no one else to go with or tell him you thought about asking him before inviting any of your friends.  When I was single that's how I went out with many hot guys; to my surprise, they'd be interested in me at the end but I would always end up disappointed in them because of a personality flaw.
103686
OF COURSE you should ask him out! This is 2006. Don't let someone else's chauvinistic idea keep you from doing what you want. If you like someone, let him know. He'll be flattered - whether he likes you or not. And you'll be taking responsibility for your own life, instead of waiting for a man to take control of it for you.
584488
just chat casually with him, and once you get to know him ask him out. make up an excuse to talk to him. for instance is he plays a sport, say "i saw your game the other day you did really well' or something like that
1093766
Be yourself, don't follow the crowd. Most guys hate it. Trust me from expirence relationships work sooooo much better if both parties would go in as themselves and not as who they pretend to be. There prolly is a bunch of guys with their eye on you. Try sitting with some other friends for a few days and see how that changes. Also try walking with very few friends to and from class b/c the guys hate approaching a girl when they are in a huge group it really makes them nervous.
887439
Guys are flattered when a woman makes the first move, just be direct and walk up introduce yourself and start talking to him. Then if you like ask him out. The worst he can do is turn you down, the best you have a wonderful time. It will be worth it.
966675
lol learn how to type but if your question is how to ask a guy out its simple\n\n1. start a simple conversation and gradually work your way into it\n2. you can write him a note if shes shy then give it to a freind to give to him\n3. Who cares if a buddy asks for you some people are just shy im not in that category but still alot of people are and he needs to get over himself!
1103321
STEP 1\nThe first step is target the guy you want to like you.  There aren't any steps to just attract all guys to you so you have to target a specific group but more specifically a certain person.  \n\nSTEP 2\nAfter you have targeted the guy you like get to know him and make sure he knows you exist.  While you're getting to know him find out what he likes see if you have anything in common.\n\nSTEP 3\nIf you find out that the guy you were aiming for has nothing in common that is okay.  Like the old saying goes opposites attract.  If you do have stuff in common try to do those things together but don't show up everywhere he is because that will repel him.  And for having nothing in common try to do some of the things he likes anyway especially if you don't know whether you like it or not because you might end up with a new hobby.\n\nSTEP 4\nIf would be easy if he liked you back but if he doesn't or you don't know you have to look for the signs.  One sign is he will talk to you and by talk I mean he will actually be conversing.  One way to quickly end a conversation is to answer questions and not ask any or to give one word responses to everything.  If the guy is doing that it could mean that he is shy or that he is trying to not talk to you.  If he shy you'll be able to tell because he'll be kind of quiet and nervous.  Another sign that he likes you is he will try to contact you.  For example if you happen to see him somewhere he might come up to you and start talking instead of you starting the conversation or he might call you instead of vice versa.\n\nSTEP 5\nIf he does like and you like him and it obvious then ask him out.  Its been shown that most guys would like you to make the first move.  Don't be to forward or aggressive when you ask or you may intimidate him and scare him away.\n\nSTEP 6\nGo with the flow and let him like you.\n\nA general way to get most guys though is to be pretty but in a tasteful way.
166829
just start asking guys out, one will accept
777724
Just ask the dude out!
675833
he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.
343760
Just talk to him - Ask him out!