How can you discover other people's feelings?
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study them and how they act and one day without them even knowing you can say something about them that they will never know that you knew about them... its not stocking i know what you are thinking... it just being observant... you get away with things easier that way... good thing to learn!!
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you just kow. but the other person has to feel the same way! so ask them, or tell them how you feel
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you know what. i know it is possible. i have had that experience before. its jus something you feel and how u feel. jus the little bit u get to know bout them. u feel a good feeling.u can have feelings 4 someone u dont really know. cuz what u do know bout that person 2 give u hint of feelings would prob lead 2 more feelings and more knowing bout that person. i think ive answered ur qustion the bes i can. good question.
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I've talked with girls who say they wish us guys came with a users manual. We can be hard to read sometimes. Try this. Look into his eyes. Do they lock onto you when you walk into the room, or do they dart around? Does he treat other girls like he does you? The greatest tool in knowing how someone feels is communicating with them. Find a quiet place where you're alone. Ask him what he's feeling about you. Give him time, and he'll open up if he's in love with you.
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They easiest way for a shy person to find out is to have a friend ask a friend of his what how he feels.\n\nI know it sounds a bit corny, but friends have been asking for other friends for as long as there have been crushes.
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study people watch how they react to certian things and their posture, their tone, theis movenemts, what they are wearing.  It takes practice, and time.  Remember, a single glance can tell you a lot about someone.  Try this: sit in the park and watch people, you can even start by watching your family nad feeling what is going on.  You will fell a difference that is suttle in the "air" about the area.  After you get your family down, move on to strangers and just talk to people.  Good luck.
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Use your body language rather than words.  Listen attentively when they speak, nod your head.  Also, sometimes, ask questions that show you've been paying attention to their speech or to their interests.
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Find out from a mutual friend who you can trust to express your feelings.
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Take some time. they will talk to you, show their emotions, even the little things you do, they admire you. You just have to find time to actually listen to them. Sometimes, when you talk to them and you're comfortable, things just happens on it's own. People will reveal their true feelings to you if they really do like you. just give it time. always remember.... it's the little signs that you have to look for. Good luck! =)
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Well, I have realized that we all have opinions about how others behave.  So, if you feel that someone complains too much, you're probably right, but pointing it out can be damaging.  The best way to say something about how you are feeling towards something or someone is to simply state that it's your feelings, not necessarily the way the rest of the world views it.  \n\nSo maybe say "listen, sometimes I feel that when you say "this" ( try to give an example) and when you mention stuff about "this and that" (again, try to give an example), it feels like you complain and it feels kind of heavy.  Let's just be lighthearted cause sometimes I just can't handle heavy!!".   Try and approach it with some humor, that's always a good ice breaker.
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Telling someone isn't enough.  ^ (person above) You can tell anyone you love them and not mean it.  It's the actions that will tell you.  Try to look for the little things he does (or doesn't do) for you like compliments, noticing things, being attentive, etc.  and that will tell you.
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totally agrees with you.  The world is full of ppl we can connect with without acutally "knowing" them.  Like if they eat with thier mouth closed, do they put the toilet seat down, turn off the shower thing on the tub when they get out, etc etc etc.  I think you can develop feelings if you talk to someone for a long time, yes, but I think it is far from love.  In order to love someone you have to see all the negative and positive at least to make a judgment based on fact and not just what they might type to you.
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Will you show me how to love you and others more?
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you can only control how you feel....perhaps your question should be...how do I control this sensitivity I possess? You can't control other people........only yourself.
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Try to look for signs. The questions they ask. The way they answer your questions. Try to get into their mind.
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knowing what love feels like
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This is sad.  Typically, people don't know until the very last minute that they've been betrayed.  But to find out really whether this person had been true to you as well as to him/herself, you'll need to be observant, ask questions (but not too much), listen to what others say and make investigations (not assumptions), last, but not least, be sensitive to your inner self (we all have it_intuition).  \n\nBeing used does not mean it's very bad it depends on your perspective of the whole situation.  At least you had something that the other person needed and could not get it any place else..etc.  Can you be specific of the second question?\n\nAs for how and why people use others, that's a good question.  Some people use others for personal gain or for the gain of others through manipulation.