why is it when you and ur man break up and then makeup it always require having sex?
479056
You are kidding right.\nThat is a very natural way of non verbal reconnection. It is both partners opening to each other. You talked, made up, and are now going to another level.\nYou really do not understand he is trying to make up and reconnect with you. He feels that with intimate physical contact you both will grow closer.\nI think you are with the wrong person. You do not find the act of intamite physical contact a non verbal way of reconnecting to your partner. He does and is trying to get closer to you. \nIf you do not want physical contact with your partner after a fight and make up, you better tell them when you first start dating.
312938
Guys are really hard to understand.  Maybe he just want some one on one time with you or maybe he just want sex.  My parents were really strict and when I was in college I had my first boyfriend.  His name was Kenneth.  He was my age but he was a senior in high school and I was a college freshman.  We both lived with our  parents.  Throughout our entire year of dating, we never were alone.  I swear to God, we were never alone anywhere together.  There was always my parents, my cousins, my sister, his family, or his friends.  We lived within walking distance of each other.  Niether one of us had a car or could drive.  It was frustating to him because he wanted to have sex but I didn't care because we were both virgins and I wasn't going there.  After a year of dating he ended up breaking up with me for that very frustrating reason.  We are still friends 12 years later.  When I ask him why we broke up then, he always tells me he was a horny little teenager and I wasn't trying to hear it.  So I'm sure that might have something to do with it.  If so, leave him alone.  You're probably about 16 anyways and don't need to be around a guy alone.  I appreciate my parents strict rules.  Remember, your parents always want the best for you.
701969
the fact that he said that when you guys start dating, he wants a sexual relationship shows you that he wants just sex.  Obviously, when he got on the internet, he was looking for someone to have sex with.  If you two guys do have a relationship, just have sex and nothing else and then when you leave in the morning after that night of sex, see if he says...why are you leaving?  If he says that, he may want more, but if not, he just wants sex.\n\nIf he puts up a fight for you to stay at his house, then he does want a real relationship and a lot of sex.  If he doesnt, then he just wants sex...eventually when something happens,you will know what he is thinking really.
550177
Guys aren't the only ones who do this.  I think the reasoning is that they want to feel wanted.  This way they kind of broke up but can still claim a relationship while they seek or commit more time to another relationship.\n\nI had an ex girlfriend tell me whs wanted to "take a break".  I gave her a break, I dumped her.  There are no "breaks" in relationships.  You are either in or out.  But that's me personally.  If you want your space, I'll give it to you, and I'll find someone that wants me in their space.  Not anymore though, I'm married.\n\nHope that helps.
418991
Everybody should have requirements in all relationships.  But, rather you should break up with him is your own decision.  Go with your heart.
341836
Yes you are still broken up, but she also wants to get some on the regular.  This can happen when things are physical.  I would let her go, and not sleep with her again.  If you do have sex with her again it's going to get harder and harder to admit it's finished.
395111
He just wants to make sure he has sex all the time. He is a bad dude..dump him fast.
933154
You are being used. This guy obviously only wants sex. \n\nIf you can see that for yourself, why are you still with him? You've got to have incredibly low self-esteem if you don't realize that you can do a lot better than how this creep is treating you.....\n\n<edit>\n\nIf there's a baby involved, you really need to get this guy out of your bed. For one thing, what if he fathers another one on you? For another, your son will grow up thinking it's perfectly normal to use women for sex. For a third thing, don't you want the baby to have a dad that's there for him? Right now, your ex only plays with him because he happens to be there where your ex goes to get laid....
409031
I agree with that (with you that is).  Sex is the deepest kind of love that a man and a woman can experience together, and if you do it before marriage with one guy and you break up, who's to say you wont do it again with another guy.  That would take the love that sex with your life long partner is supposed to hold and ruin it.
631725
i wouldnt break up with him over that. relationships are more than just sex. if i loved him and cared about him it would just be a little obstacle that i would overcome. love, as they say, conquers all!!
431955
because everyone likes to feel desire the one there with. so if they start feeling that the person they are with doesn't desire them no more they will go out and find someone that will desire them they way they like. which breaks up couples
847025
why would he be faking it?\nif he didnt love you he would break up with you\nnow if yall are having sex than that is a different story.\ntell you will no longer give me sex for awhile and if he sticks aroudn than is probably really doe slove you.
616650
He is using you. If he left you while you were pregnant then he is a looser. Then he just wants to have sex. He is just using you until he finds someone else don't put your self in that mess with him. You feel guilty because you have his child. Don't be that girl.
574323
There's a lot more issues than whether you're "ready" and how long you can wait.  Contrary to stereotype, not every male is instantly ready for sex at every opportunity.  If you can't grasp this then you're not emotionally ready for sex, or even a serious relationship.  If you as a couple can't discuss this issue openly then the two of you aren't ready for sex.
685290
hell no you can have to much sex. but i am a veru sexual person and whenever i see my bf we have sex cause we only see each other on the weekend
1093099
Dont have sex if ur not ready, why does he keep pressuring u?doesnt he love u? Its obvious that his "manhood" stands priority over ur feelings, because if he love u like he's probably telling u then he wouldnt pressure u, someone who loves u would take the time to talk it out with you and see where the two of u stand on the situation it seems like he's just trying to score.
353648
You need to trust him, it's one of the most important aspects of a relationship. Alot of guys can go without sex if they are with someone who they really care about.