I have a good personality, I'm a little chubby Would a guy still go out with me?
486195
Yes a guy will still go out with you. A lot of guys don't like a girl who's real skinny. I personally like a girl who's got a little meat on the bones. You just keep being who you are and someday you will find the one for you, and when you do find him, he will be the luckiest guy in the world to have you
1123703
Yes I would.If u want a serious relationship or something thats going to last it doesn't really matter to me what someone looks like as long as their a good person and their good to me thats all that matters.If I can look into someone's eyes and see he cares thats the best feeling u can get...Way more better than being with someone w/ a great body.Personaility comes first to me and if they got both even better!But if not 1 out of 2 is fine w/ me as long as the 1 is personality.Cuz whats the point of being w/ a good looking guy whose a jerk u know?
897146
Sometimes being "fine, slim and tall" is not enough.  You have to have a nice personality, and a good sense of humor.  Or at the very least find someone that likes your personality, sense of humor, etc.  It's that whole "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" thing.\n\nSomething else to consider is, maybe you are not the problem, chances are there's nothing wrong with you... maybe the guys in your town just don't have good taste when it comes to women. \n\nBe patient and open-minded... finding someone special is always worth the wait.\n\nGood luck!
657478
Looks pry shouldnt be all that important. If you were a good guy, with strong morals, and a good sence of humore then i might to out with you after i got to know you better.
588602
As long as the guy you compare him to is at least good looking I'm alright
1184735
be patient! keep waiting and the right one will come! giving your figures wont let others determine if you are a beautiful person. as long as you think you are, thats all that matters and that should give you the right amount of confidence to get the guy you want! just don't settle. be the best you can! good luck and keep staying fit (that is a +)!!!
580141
I am not a guy. But, I don't think there's anything wrong with being chubby.Do you believe that you are hot? It's hard for people to argue with you if you posse the confidence to be hot (not snotty). But, if you confidence yourself that your hot. I'm sure mean will believe it, and I'm sure you are. Hold your cubby head up high and don't look down while walking, make eye contact, and think positive. \n\nIt'll be just a matter of time before they're pounding down your door!
340415
Looks matter to a certain extent. I'll be honest and say I wouldn't date someone incredibly homely and 600 lbs, and most of you would agree. Personality is immensely important to me. He must be a good listener, and can't be arrogant.
572891
It all depends on his personality. If he was a nice guy, I'd go out with him. If he was a putz, then no, I'd kick him to the curb. But I do know that I would feel safe if I did go out with him.
280412
Check out the cool guy for a bit, if you still don't like him dump him. If you don't really like the ugly guy, just end it. Sweetness is no reason to hold on. If the hot guy doesn't like you, just move on. It sounds like your a stud and can get as dates. Keep look for the total package.
1043840
I don't think it should matter because how you act is more important than your height and your appearence.  I mean my ex was like 6 inches shorter than me and he wasn't very cute and we were together for like 3 years.  So don't worry about it and just be yourself. \n\ngood luck
1045598
i completely agree.  i am also short but i think if you like him you should still go out with him.  i go around places with my friend (not b/f) and i am only up to his shoulder.  generally i think to  others it might look akward but if you like his personality i think you should ignore the fact that he is so much taller than you.  \n\nOne thing to remember:  dont go out with a guy about your hight and weight just because everyone else is taller than you.
21380
Im a bbw myself, and it can be hard sometimes finding the right guy. Eventually though, you'll find your match. just be confident and proud of who you are and that will reflect to others.
309040
The reason you're single is you choose to be. Physique and looks are great for anybody to have (whether you're male or female) but confidence in what you have to work with is what ultimately tends to be the greatest turn on. Ask yourself this... would I want to date someone like me?
994047
Oh good grieF!\n\nIf he's single and you are even half decent looking you got yourself a date.\n\nWhy do girls think that guys are girls.  The one advantage you have is that nature made guys VERY OPEN to any decent girl.
448578
Well I thank that it depends on the guy because some like skinny girls and some like big girls so they can have something to hold on to, then some guys like us medium sized girls, but all the guy friends that I have like skinny girls, but like I said it depends on the guy, and if you get a guy that don't care about your looks that just cares about your personality and your insides like sweetness, kindness and other things like that it shouldn't matter.
433133
no, because he's cute when he's a little chubby.  I love that guy no matter how he looks.