why did my granmother??
492379
I found it really cool 2be with a clown - look he must be a good person,he wanna make everyone laugh and happy (espesially kids ),whats wrong abt it... i would b more worried if he was a morder or he own a night club. So be happy that grani is happy :)
146966
There's got to be more to this story.  I don't know the circumstances but you have a right to see your grandson.\nWhy in the world won't whe let you see him?  Get yourself a good lawyer and sue her.  That'll make her love you even more.
813261
Do not feel guilty b/c you still need to grieve.  No one can you how to react to this situation, you need to do what feels right to you.  Own your grief, anger, and sadness.  You will learn to celebrate her life, but right now you are overwhelmed with her death.  Do try to celebrate her memory but also be respectful to your feelings.  Try a tradition that you and your grandmother did together.  Go visit her grave and talk with her. Pray that she will find happiness in her death and always remember she is by your side.
1025891
How sad for you. You need to ask yourself if you and your unborn children are better off without her. If she doesn't show you any love or compassion, then she certainly won't show your children any, which will only hurt you more in the long run. Have you tried calling her and asking her why she would miss the opportunity to be in her grandchildrens lives? If she still refuses to talk to you, chalk it up to God's work and move on without her. What does your Dad have to say about all this? Maybe he could be your "rock" when it comes to dealing with Mom.\nGood Luck and remember you still have your Mother in Law to lean on and show you some support......I know because your story is the same as my daughter in laws and I love her as if she was my own.
291413
Ok, couple questions here...HOW do they know how you drive?  WHY are you caring for their granddaughter?  HOW do they know what condition the apartment was in? WHOSE apartment was it?  WHY does your friend tell you what they say?  WHY do you care what these evil people think?  Sometimes where there is smoke there is fire...ARE u doing something to piss them off?  Do Not confront them.  This could lead to a physical altercation.  YOU cannot control other people.  Just get over them.  Tell your friend not to report any thing else they say to you.  Perhaps they are upset she is living with you and not them.  My ex's mom was like this.  I was never good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, good enuff mother, etc.  eventually i just figured it out.  It's her.  It's not me.  She's a hater and she was living rent free inside my head.  Every second I spent thinking about what she said or did that hurt me was a second I GAVE her that I could never get back...well, those seconds added up...it became YEARS...do not make this same mistake.  Good Luck
141035
Be very careful. I've been there, done that. It does not pay. Tell friend to go to an aunt or grandparent, you would get in so much trouble for harboring her.  Take care
762568
Your grandson has been complaining on Yahoo Answers about the abuse of his grandfather.  In one question he said uncle but meant grandfather...he doesn't like the touchy touch stuff and is growing fearful.  Please help him...talk to him and tell him how much you love him and let him know he is more important to you than anything.  Get the facts from him and then do something about your husband.
715737
Gosh ...it sounds like you suspect he is hurting her in some way?  How old is your grand daughter?  I have a 4 year grand daughter...when she was under one, she would cry every time her daddy held her, rather any one else was around or not.  I did not think he was doing anything bad to her.  I believe he was very nervous and babies do sense our feelings.  I did ask him if he was nervous and he said he had many emotions, afraid he would drop her, excitement because he has such a beautiful baby, etc.  Eventually they both relaxed and she is daddy's little girl now.  They also have a 2 year boy and he was a cry baby too, still is...he is so much more of a mamma's boy than she was.  My daughter breast fed both, does your daughter? Perhaps that makes them so attached to mommy that they aren't as comfortable w/ others?  I truly hope you are worrying for nothing...that would be a tragedy if HE is harming her in any way.  I would definitely keep an eye on him and of course do not mention to your daughter your concerns because she will defend and possibly keep you away.  Good luck and I am praying for you and your grand baby.
184373
Gotta brother who is 34, construction worker and a family dude  gr8 guy!\nthen I got another brother(call him my half sister LOL)\nHe is ummmmm 38 and last I knew he sponges off of others, lies to everyone, stabs everyone in the back and gets thrown in jail, does alot of drugs, drinks all the time and just tries to make all around him miserable.\nGot my Granpa and he is tha BOMB!!  Retired old guy catering to some *(ARHHRHHGGHGSHGHGHGHG)*  he married right after my Grandma  died.\nThat's it!!\n\nOh yea I got a dad retired from GM who basically I am just getting to know so,,, that's it\nWhat about you???
297832
Write to her and tell her how she's made you feel, and how her actions have affected you. I'm sorry you are having a hard time. Do you get the chance to talk to your dad about these things? An aunt, uncle, grandparent, Godparent, teacher, councilor? Find someone off that list that you feel at ease with, and just let it all out. They know you better than anyone else you could hear from on this thing. Those are the people you should be talking to sweetie.
978756
Awww sorry im a grandmother love my babes to bits so know where your coming from. \nhttp://www.grandparentsapart.co.uk/\nhttp://www.divorcesource.com/ubbthreads/showthreaded.php?Cat=0&Number=143746&page=0&vc=1\nhttp://www.seniorsnetwork.co.uk/grandparents/grandlinks.htm\nhttp://www.parentscentre.gov.uk/forum/messageview.cfm?catid=10&threadid=22867\n\nHope there is something here that can help.
703673
If your grandfather was remarried when he died, then his land and things belong to his new wife, that is if he didn't have a will.  She can decide what she wants to do with his stuff.  Why was it never attempted to try and discover if your mother was actually his daughter??  Sounds like they waited a little to late.
28658
HI Grannywinkie!\n\nDid your mother tell you that? I hope not. If so, it's definitely emotional and verbal child abuse. Absolutely.\n\nTake care!
235362
You will get over it but it will be along time. You need to sit her down and find out the reason. Do she dislike you for any reason or is she just being foolish. I think it's foolish. There's no way in hell she can keep you from keeping your grandchild. What do your son say about that? Is he okay with it or what. That's not right. Try to talk to the both of them and see what happen. Good luck. Let God be on your side.
737070
You mean to say you are already fighting over your grandmother's possessions before she has even passed away? Terrible! It is her property and whatever decision she makes should be final! She has her reasons for doing this and her final wishes should be honored regardless of what you or anyone else thinks...
968474
Your approach should depend on whether you want to have a relationship with this grandmother.  If you do, you might want to respond clearly and honestly when she says something mean: "It hurts my feelings when you talk to me like that."  Or, "Grandmother, are you angry with me about something?"  Sometimes people don't realize what they are doing until they are called on their inappropriate behavior.  If you are not interested in having a relationship with her, you can choose to see her as little as possible, and just be civil to her when you do.  Good luck!
1033657
You're doing the right thing by not sharing too much info. It shouldn't be with just your grandaughter's mother that you are doing this with but with anybody. You've learned something....just when you think you can trust someone you find out they're not this trustworthy person that you thought they were. NEVER tell someone something that they can use as ammo against you.