Am I too Jealous of my girlfriend or is she overreacting?
494577
if he was sleeping on the floor of her dorm i don't think it's a big deal, especially if you two are only dating right now. i think at the point of marriage though, that would be plain disrespectful. \nyou should let her talk to her guyfriends still, some of them are probably like brothers, and i personally would Never let my boyfriend decide whether or not i can continue talking to some really good friends of mine. never.\n\nso i guess the question is: is she really that disrespectful of a person?
1135539
Yes, she's blowing you off.  Try to make her jealous by making a new friend, and maybe she will want to spend more time with you. She doesn't sound like a very good friend.
204326
If your living with the guy then it is a little bit tasteless on his part to bring home these things.\nI dont think your being jealous, I think your being a normal woman that feels that way when their man is checking that crap out.
301100
Jealousy is about YOU, not your partner, unless they have done something to give you a concrete reason to mistrust them. YOU have to gain enough confidence in yourself to imagine you've got it goin' on, and there is no way they are going to cheat on you, or dump you, for someone else.
344085
In a way it can be kind of assuring to have a jealous b/f. when I have a jealous g/f at least I know she is really into me. You didn't say why he was jealous. Maybe he feels you dress too sexy, specially when he is not around. Maybe you had many, many exes before him. Maybe you work around men mostly. the thing to do it to find out the root to what makes him jealous. Only then can you address it. If it was dressing too sexy, maybe you can bland it up a bit when not with him, or maybe calling him to give him a short "I miss you baby". Maye tuck little love note in his pocket for him to find. Let him know you think of him during the day the way I believe he thinks of you. Basically identify the problem. Isolate it. And develop a plan of attack. Then if he still cannot ease his concern, either get use to it. Or get over it, and get on with it someplace else.
707306
She defiantly has relationship issues. She gets jealous when you spend time with other people, this is an insecurity issue.  She needs to learn to make other friends, too, and let you have a life without her.  I'm not sure how close of friends that you are, but I would think that this would drive you crazy, and drive your relationship apart.  I would either have a talk with her, or find some distance.  This reminds me of the movie "Single White Female II" that I watched a few nights ago.  Scary!  Good luck
786575
okay there are two ways to handle it. 1st, you can just not totally care, be WHO YOU ARE i mean she's not really being true to herself right? it's her loss. Let her do whatever she wants with her life, from what you said she doesn't really seem like a independent person seem like you are. I don't think its jealously I honestly think she really wants to be like you. 2ND, you can talk it out with her but i really don't think its going to go anywhere i mean yeah she will lay off but you never know so if i were you i would stick to the first plan!\n\nHope it works you with you.
213291
Should be no reason for her to have guys over if you two are involved in a true loving relationship, this is not a trust issue, it is an issue of hurting a person you supposedly are in a relationship with.  If she doesn't want to help you in this regard, get a new girlfriend.  You should not have to suffer constant anxiety because someone is not respecting your feelings.  Women want that from men all the time, but if they don't reciprocate, it's time to find one that does.
832432
you contridict your self here continuously, your not jealous then you are then your not then you are? your girl is 14 you are 17,believe me most girls that age think it is great to be with an older boy and wont jepardise this so dont be jealous, if she is in a team then it is a bonding thing when they hug a bit like footballers when scoring a goal, dont be jealous just keep telling her you love her and look after her and make sure there is no hanky panky until she is ready and the correct age, you sound sensible however so i trust you will do this, most of all be happy, you are young and so is your girl, believe me you will probably feel like this about many more girls before your 30.
284186
Your girlfriend is scared that you will leave her. Have you been unfaithful in the past? This is feeding her fear. You should not change your feelings about honesty and openness, this is a good thing in a healthy relationship. If you told her the information in an arrogant way, then you may be creating this situation yourself. But, if you were diplomatic and caring when you told her, then the problem is hers, not yours. If her lack of trust is annoying you or getting you down, then think about ending the relationship as arguments will only feed her insecurities and make the situation worse. If you love her enough to keep reassuring her and you can do this without changing yourself, then stay with her until the jealousy subsides. But be aware that it will always be around.
1088730
Maybe it was a stressful day and she is over reacting because she doesn't know how or where to take her frustration out.  It would be easier to think all her problems would be solved by a simple I'm sorry (even if you dont mean it) than for her to go on thinking she's alone in a very very stressful world.  Try that tactic.  Choose your battles.  Some are just not worth the fight or the outcome.\n\nI do think she is over reacting.  I don't think you should be angry that she doesn't know where to take her frustration out.  Just say I'm sorry and enjoy having her as your love for yet another day.
708724
Trying to make u feel jealous!Go get her!
522098
Hey man, I think you should sit back and really think about your relationship, the first thing you should consider is her consideration of your feelings and perception of the situation  in general. If trust is there AND... a MUTUAL level of respect for each others feelings is there, somehow things will work, I feel once those things aren't in place your outta gas.
206264
How about better communication?  You are with her Dad, she's probably a bit jealous.
661618
Probably not.  Maybe they see the way you and your girlfriend get along (fighting all the time, verbal abuse, or maybe you have a one sided relationship).  Maybe they see how your girlfriend treats you, like you do everything for her and she has you wrapped around your finger, so they feel like she's using you.  If they were jealous then I would think that you spend a lot more time with your girlfriend and not with your friends and your relationship with your girlfriend is something they want because they see perfection.  Is this relationship something where the two of you feel inseparable and love spending time with one another?  Then maybe they could be just a little jealous, but for some reason, I feel that this may not be the case if you are asking.  They probably know more of what you don't see or notice. Others usually can observe and pick up on the wrong things when you yourself, cannot.  Usually that is the way it goes.  It's called being "Naive" to the relationship.
440236
Maybe it's NOT her. Maybe it is you. Your girlfriend sounds like a sweet young lady. And your probably talking about yourself in this question switching all around on her. What you need to do is pay your girlfriend a visit and let her know how much you LOVE her. But, if you ARE talking about your girlfriend(which I doubt :-)), the reason she is probably being a little controlling cause she misses you and wants you to pay her more attention. She probably feel like she is losing you and just a little afraid that she probably is. Who knows. But take my advice and pay her a little visit.
18931
Wow, tough problem. I think what I'd do is have a heart to heart with the girlfriend. Maybe she really does want him to be happy with you and maybe it's him that's holding out hope for a renewed relationship with her. If that's the case, she'll need to back off, but you need to find out if that's really the way it is or not first. Good luck. I feel for you.