Why do women prefer drama and struggle, instead of a healthy, stable, fun relationship?
482220
You found the wrong woman.  Mine likes a healthy, stable relationship.\n\nNot all women are like that.  It sound's sexist.
324871
drama makes life interesting........fat and ugly housemom'swant the stable kinda thing........why do men have mistresses?....same thing!
586507
1) Some woman like their man to look good, they want a handsome guy - that is the superficial type.\n\n2) Some women are more sexual than others, it is most important for them the guy to be strong and potent in a sexual way - this is another superficial but playful type.\n\n3) Some women want a provider, a husband, a father for their unborn children, I don't think they are as concerned about the first two points. These are the women who innately feel obligated to continue the human race, and that is good.\n\n4) Some women can't handle if the man is not smart, they don’t care about looks or material fortune, they need someone to understand them - idealistic, intellectual type.\n\n5) Some women think someone else's money could bring them happiness and a better life, they need a man with money, or someone they think would be able to make money - this is the unhappy type, I don't know if they really exist, haven't met a woman like that. \n\nAnd so on
452273
It's simple. Some women just don't know what they want. They always want the fantasy, the romance, the trumpets. I'm a woman and I think it's a lot of bull. I'm with a guy who is nice and fun, sexy and confident. He may be just an ordinary guy at times (sit in front of the TV, feast on pizza) but when he wants to impress me or be romantic he surprises me!
41098
if men could handle stress more than women, they would be the ones giving birth. just think about it, what is more stressful than weight gain, mood swings, aching feet and backs, etc.? nothing. men get off easy and try to say women can't handle stress because we are emotional. btw that is our way of handling stres.
541770
because people are different and have different ways of dealing with things and living together makes all of that come out more, on a daily basis. some people have less issues to deal with than others tho, i have noticed. some dont have to work 'so hard', but also some relationships arent meant to be and then there is a lot of work to do if you want to try to keep it going.
216096
men dont like the whole relationship thing simply because they get a tied down feeling....i think its alot like getting old,.... we dont want to do it mainly because we know there are things we have to give up.   maybe because we are not able to do them....
45555
Jealously, dishonesty, resentment, and lack of communication makes marriage unstable. Trust and honesty makes life stable.
175416
Women want emotional and men prefer the visual.
221815
Not all women are like that.  I think it is a poor stereotype.  Yes, women have gotten men into all kinds of trouble, but it has worked both ways too.  Men often let themselves be drawn into trouble due to immaturity, ego or infatuation.  The responsibility is shared...maybe more on the man's side since he is ultimately responsible for his own life and decisions.
360028
While I find your rag comment to be highly offensive, I must admit that even as a woman, I'd have to say I've been wondering what's up myself. Seems a lot of women these days are so huffy, including me. PMS left me a week ago and I'm still a raging lunatic for no reason. It's probably due to some stress at work. Perhaps men need to earn more so we can chill at home, but that sounds anti-women's movement. Oh well, I'd rather be a Relaxed Housewife than a Raging Lunatic workaholic.
1129949
Women have this thing of wanting to believe the man will change and they can work things out because they want it to work so badly whereas men have the right thing in mind...They know that they would never be able to trust the woman and that it would bother them forever and it's an ego thing for men so they are able to walk away.\nWomen won't let things be over until they say it's over.
1120390
Actually women are more complex because they are more empathic.  They instinctively care about others and also care about how others think about them.  This kind of thinking allows the female to bond better with peers.  Men can simply block out this kind of thinking and turn it on and off at will.   I am not sure this is a positive traite or a negative one but its how we are.
617
Alot of females lack an amount of respect for themselves. So they deem the amount of sex or the intensity of the act as a means of actually being with someone. Rather than establishing the relationship first and allowing the loving to be the icing on the cake. It's kind of like when we were kids and played make believe. However,the difference would be that we adventually snapped back to reality. As mentioned previously, woman are emotional creatures and once a guy hitz it the right way or tells us something we like to hear. Woman pretty much lose their minds...so sorry fellas but that's just the way it is...
46163
I KNow Really... I can't stand it when girls start drama (thats why i hang w/ guys, they don't do silly stuff like that) But I think they start drama because they don't think their own life is exciting enough, so they have got to start something... : ( it is kind of Sad.
1026707
I would like a stable life but I have a family that's way too dysfunctional for that. My life is rather exciting, full of huge ups and downs. Its not ideal but its what I have so I've learned to deal with it. Drama stalks me. I think its because I attract crazy people, haha.
653000
Women like a challenge. They are unable to accept men as they are. They always want to make us over & later ask whatever happened to that person they first fell in love with?\nBe yourself & don't give the matter another thought. Some women can not believe they are not irrestible. It shatters them & so the anger