Questions about cunnilingus (oral sex on women)?
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I believe you can easily find them. Its a nice thought to jus lay back and let the guy lick u to ur heart's content without havin to do anythin for him. If I were you, I would ask some sex-friendly female friend. Try picking someone you would be comfortable with.\nOr just start dating some girls, and please them all. Practise makes perfect. I wish my cute friend would ask me for dis kind of favour!
1012955
The key to performing good oral sex on a female is to talk to your partner, check it out with her, what feels good, what she likes and does not enjoy, listen to her breathing patterns and body responses.\n\nBe aware that many females really believe that their genitals are ugly, that they are dirty and that they don't smell very good. They may need reassurance that their genitals are beautiful, unique and a real turn on for you. Sex will be more pleasurable if she is relaxed.\n\nContrary to popular opinion, the vagina is not where the action is. Anatomically, the clitoris is analogous to a penis, but the clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as a penis.\n\nStart slowly, "sensate focus" - hugging, kissing, stroking, petting, fondling, fingering, all great for sexual arousal. Very gently, spread the labia, touch the clitoris very gently. You can feel it become erect and lubrication will be noticeable. You can also stroke around the vaginal opening and very gently penetrate the vagina with your fingers, making sure that this is pleasurable for her.\n\nFor oral contact, licking, sucking, kissing and gently blowing on the clitoris is pleasurable. Just remember, be very gentle. Do not blow into the vagina.\n\nAt the same time you may wish to stroke around the vaginal opening, mimicking thrusting of the penis. You may wish to use a vibrator or dildo around the vagina or anal area. Talk to your partner. \n\nMany females will reach orgasm with oral genital sexual contact. To be most effective, check with her so you know what really is pleasurable and satisfying. \n\n\nVENUS BUTTERFLY is a move which I first heard of in an old 1970's soap opera. It is oral sex on her clitoris, manual stimulation inside her vagina and, with the remaining hand, stimulation around her rectum, even penetrating the rectum if that is pleasurable for her. Make sure you use lubrication. This puts a whole new meaning to "getting your act together."
670917
don't put on a sexy voice , use your voice , that's why she likes you, tell her what you are gonna lick, how long you are gonna take and how loud she is gonna scream. most women are into dirty talking so you won't offend her. women are into oral sex so don't talk about how hard or deep you are gonna go, that doesn't do it for her, also tell her how tight you are gonna hold her. it pays to have lots of experience with women, you know what does it for them a little better. you can drive them absolutely crazy if you do it right.
1180994
just be very careful and take it very slow, and be sure you use lubrication, yes it is possible for a woman to enjoy it that much, the first few times are rough, but it isn't bad after that.
1015458
If you have fingers and (especially!) a tongue and know how to use them, absolutely YES! She will quite probably get much more enjoyment in fact. Lots of women do not have orgasms from intercourse alone (although almost all women do enjoy it!) Sex is certainly not limited to intercourse and her fingers and (especially) her mouth can give you great enjoyment too, as you probably already know! Experiment and enjoy!!!
101837
Oral sex is just part of a wonderful sexual experience for two consenting adults. \n\nHowever, based on some of your previous questions I believe that you are a very young girl who has a lot of questions about sex.  \n\nOral sex is still sex, and carries some of the same risks of getting STD's.
1092610
I like nothing better than feasting on a beautifully maintained woman. Personally it rocks my boat, if we swith into the magic number thats also fine but I do lose concentration, so i prefer her either kneeling above me, or spread out before me.\n\nAlso Waxed/shaved, washed and powdered is essential, and I may use various flavour (like kiwi or berries in a tube) I have for added fun. \n\nFinally the use og finders and toys to further highten the experience is also great, never be afraid of toys men..they are our friend.
199444
One of my female friends happens to enjoy this sort of thing (a lot!) and of course I (being the gallant sort of fellow that I am) have assisted her on several occasions. Typically this is something that women do for each other because in many cases a man’s hands are too big. It takes a LOT of lubricant, and the woman really needs to completely relax (which, according to my friend, is the toughest part cuz the tendency in this situation is to tighten up). I can’t say much more from the woman’s perspective, but as the one who “lends the hand” I can say that I personally find the sensation to be extremely interesting and enjoyable – though not really all that erotic, except for the basically erotic nature of being so intimate with a woman, etc. Er…ah…what I mean is that the act, per se, doesn’t really add much extra erotic element for me, but I still have a good time. One word of caution: My woman friend says that once your whole hand gets inside, DO NOT withdraw your hand too quickly, since the suction created by a quick withdrawal can cause pain and I suppose even damage. I’ve always been careful to follow her instructions. I insert as much as she says, when she says, and never make any sudden movements. I’ve only done it “at the Y” and have no interest in ever trying the “back door” version (too much “yuk” factor for me), although I guess it can be done.\n\nNow if, after all of this, you still don’t know exactly what fist[ing] is, then you are probably too young, so I will explain very carefully. First you find a warm, fuzzy mitten. You dump some vegetable oil on your hand and stick it in the mitten. It feels gooey and gross and that’s what’s cool about it. And that’s all there is to it.
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• Why even question something dat's goin' so great?\n\n...then again, I can understand da fact dat u're tryin to b considerate of ur man as well. Givin oral can b (believe it or not) pleasurable for da person givin it. I sometimes get a bigger turn-on by seein how my girl enjoys it while I'm pleasurin her. \n\nIf u'd like to know how he really feels, but u don't wanna just come out n ask him, try askin general questions or have an open n friendly chat instead. Havin both of u talk about intimate things will not only help him open up n tell u how he really feels about oral(without u being direct about it), but it'll also help him understand what u also like n dislike as well. Its a win win dontcha think?\n\nI once found out about a real cool (n kinky) fantasy my ex had just by talkin about da things we love to do in bed, favorite positions, fantasies etc. So I surprised her one day n made two or her fantasies a reality. How cool is dat huh?\n\n...good luck to ya!
683963
Good question!  I can't even imagine making love without first going down on her.  I have only had one or two blow jobs in my life, and I yearn for a blow job.  But I have never used this as an excuse...I will always go down on a woman, as often and as much as she wants.  And i love the odors and lubrification!!  I'd eat you!
719026
Really good kissing gets me in the mood.  There is nothing more sexy than a man who knows how to perform oral sex with finese and enjoys it.  A man who takes his time with a woman and learns what she likes is the best thing ever. (Of course, I think the woman should be willing to do the same for him too!)
322610
Your girlfriend doesn't have to use her mouth. Use olive oil for lube and just use the hands.  It works great!...)(
677943
I've offered this suggestion many times, and it has a great success rate...OR it shows you exactly what you have in store...Set up a nice, romantic setting - THIS IS NOT FOR SEX..DON'T LET IT GO THERE THIS TIME...Tell her that ahead of time when she sees the atmosphere.  Tell her you want to learn more about her needs and wants.  Have a list of questions in mind or on paper...show her you've really thought this out...example of questions you should ask...\n\nWhat turns you on?  Does the idea of candlelight and roses OR handcuffs and rope get you more aroused.  Do women, multiple people, couples, or just one man excite you.  Is there anything you've wanted to experiment with that you may have felt embarassed about?  Does playing with food, role playing, dressing up, anything possibly out of the ordinary.\n\nFind out what turns her on NOW...it may be very different from what you once knew...people change...and women change fast!!!\n\nMany times women have cravings that they are afraid or embarassed to admit...and nothing else fulfills them so they just put off sex because it's not worth it to them.\n\nOTHERWISE....\n\nShe's just done ...and you should move on...the way she reponds to your questions should give you some great indicators.\n\nGood Luck
449337
OK here's what dramatically improved my technique.  Get this book called Guide to Getting it On (Amazon has) and do what it says.  But basically you want to realize that your tongue is capable of all kinds of subtle moves and strokes, and you want put a lot of teasing into it and suspense, not just zero in on the clit and go like a jackhammer.  Be unpredictable. Lick along the lenght of her lips, inner, outer the groove between, and only play a little at the clit and then go away again to something else...and then come back... keep her guessing.  Try different things with a pointy tongue, the broad flat of your tongue, short strokes, long strokes, slow strokes, fast strokes, curvy strokes, whatever.  And make sure you lick her thighs, right where they meet the crotch.  And after a while you can spend more time on her clit and the skin surrounding it, and you can actually suck her clit into your mouth, between your lips, and play with it with your tongue while it's in your mouth.\n\nYou don't need to go fast, that'l just tire you out. Go slow, and last for a long time, that's what she'll appreciate.
322935
I use to be like that (french kissing) until my girlfriend (now my wife) told me to stop it. you can kiss with slobbering all over the place. It is kind of hard to explain. Hmm take just your bottom lip and put it between her lips and just kiss. It feels better than having your tougue down a woman's throat. just watch soap opera's how they kiss that is how im trying to explain it.
1019528
You have to realize that some women like nasty talk. B/c it turns them on..it make them want more and more!!!! It is not to embarassed you or anything but it just make the mood so much better. I wouldn't like to carry on a conversation b/c that is awkward for me. Why in the h*** would you want to talk about in that position? Unless it is "that feels good" or "yes,yes, yes". That is all I can think of. Never say what you can't do b/c I'm sure once you set your mind to it, you could:) Honey, if that is what your woman wants...do it!!!! That means more satisfaction for you!!!! Good Luck!!! Try it and see where it gets ya.
355255
I think you shouldn't cum in her mouth once she has asked you not to. What has worked for me is to pull it out of her mouth and start jerking off on her. If she's the type that likes it, she will quickly put it in her mouth. This has worked for me a few times.