a guy met only once confesses he loves you do you jump in or ignore him?
494332
If you've only met once then I would be very nervous. to say you're in love with someone that soon is too stalker like for my taste.
760808
so why were you only planning on going out with him one time? you are not even giving this guy a chance, im kind of wondering why? but if you really have your mind set on only going out with him once then i don't think you should call him back. what really gets me though is you feel bad for not calling him back, but not for only giving him half the chance he may deserve. sorry to say but you might be missing out on a good thing.
983618
Take it one day at a time. You are not going to get over this overnight. If you worry all the time about being able to trust this guy that you just met for the first time, you might just miss out on the best thing that ever happened to you. You shouldn`t go through life afraid of what "might" happen.
1136261
Be honest!  Straight forward and tell the truth.  Just tell him that you don`t want to see anyone right now that you don`t think your ready to commit to any one person.  Be as honest as possible without hurting his feelings.  This way you can walk away and face him again knowing you were honest!!
7962
No!  Pass on the sloppy seconds.\n\nHe cheated on you once, he will do it again.\n\nFind someone that is worthy of your attention!
283882
IF U ONLY SAW HIM 3 TIMES THEN NO CUZ HOW CAN U LOVE SOMEONE THAT QUICK U MIGHT REALLY LIKE THIS PERSON BUT I DON'T THINK U LOVE THEM YET.
798957
I guess I would sit him down and tell him to either confess that he still has feelings or to knock it off. If this continues, you are just going to be thinking about what's going on with him and will never know until you ask him. If there really isn't any more feelings there, then he's just being a jerk by leading you on since he knows you still have feelings for him.
401066
if he seems not to want to take it further, why would you want to get to know him? Find someone else worth getting to know :)
315584
seems to me he's playing you!  Forget about him and move on to a person that deserves your love and attention.  \n\nThis idiot is just keeping you from meeting the right guy!
158603
His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
510541
Ignore him.\nSome men loves the "chase"
622571
Give up on that person. Who cares. They don't like you for some reason but they don't know you or appear to know you or see you and know that you are there. It has happened to me before, I gave up cuz to him i appeared to be invisable. So yea he doesn't know what he is missin out on.
459613
He will come around, keep trying to reach him though in the meantime. When he does tell him that you want to explain and then tell him and be honest. If he accepts this then good for you, but if he doesn't then that is something that he will have to deal with, I would not bow down to him and all that bull, trust me he is a guy and his day will come and the shoes will be on his feet. I know the lose of him may seem great now but if he chooses not to forgive you or believe you then you must deal with this, if this is not dealt with then it will come back to haunt you and him. Of course tell him you love him and get all mushy but don't act like you have to endure any b u l l s h i t from him. This will be tough if you love him as much as you say you do. I would be upset if my lady was doing that, but if she told me that she was sorry for it and she loved only me then I wouldn't put her through the ringer about it. Good luck, I hope I helped.
490155
if he can't stop watching u, then he's definitely into u. if u want to b sure about it, go up and talk to him. if ur 2 shy to do it, do something like walk into him, drop ur book so he thinks he caused them 2 fall, and then when he says sorry, start a conversation. if a guy is into u and u r into him, don't make it look obvious. it's better when u play hard to get. it makes them go crazzzzzzy over u.
659922
No. If you like him and you know he likes you, then why would you ignore him?? That would give him the impression that you DON'T like him. And guys don't like to play games.
190929
if he really likes you he would definitely jump to that invitation...\nbut i guess he was just polite and nice and made you feel great when you guys went out...\ni doubt if he really is intersted in you...plus HONEY!!!!! you guys just went out once...so y are you dwelling in this piece of fake emotion that u feel for him???\n\ntrust me you would be feeling the same exact thing to the next guy u meet on line.. i just hope the next one has more free time and would like u 2x as much as u like him.
100246
Love involves respect.  If he has no respect for you, and is ashamed to be seen in public with you, he does not love you.  Or is the problem not that he is ashamed, but that it is not practical for him:  is he an actor or otherwise in the public eye, and he is considering his reputation and income?  That's not love, either.  Worse yet, is he married or engaged, and has not told you?  I think you would be well rid of this guy.