what do you do about a relationship that has gown down hill but you still have love for that person?
476199
I think you guys should see other people first before you start to mend anything. maybe its a mutual separation, and you just dont know it yet. I really think before you do anything just see other people first. if nothing works out, try to mend things between eachother. if you arent willing to separate for a little while, try to mend things by either counseling or talking it out. i hope this helped!
54472
uh well i lost it when i got married and im still w/ him today, but that dosent mean u have to marry the person u sleep w/ so just try to wait until u r really in luv
28830
wow that has to be hard well all i can say is just pray for him and yourself and try to stay in touch with him as much as possible i know a person can't help who they fall in love with i hope it all works out. good luck.
56004
I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
335259
Be with the one you love! If you cant..try
331175
It is very possible.  Hard, very, and takes some time, but very possible.  If you truely love them, you want them to be happy, even if it's not with you.  Thats why love sucks.  = )   Good luck
635786
It sounds like you need to talk to your man. Tell him exactly how you feel and ask him where do I stand in this relationship? Then come right out and say Do you still love me?
931752
Different relationships will need different kinds of approach. Being formal and serious with the person will help. Stop talking to them or if they are young, perhaps try to explain them that you cannot love in the 'particulat' manner they are hoping for. If you add details to the question, we will be able to give more appropriate answer.
168973
thats horrible when it happens and boy do i know how it is...actually i am in love with a guy who doesnt love me back ... I am just trying to accept that and trying to move on....hence trying...sorry cant really help but wanted you to know you are not alone.
261834
find someone else to love just don't rush him give him time to think and see what he wants to do but if he doesn't want to love you then find someone to love you back
128586
well, you say you still love him, and thats really all that counts. but if you are afraid it has done something to your relationship, try talking it out first, and if that doesn't work, it could be the end.
366766
This is a very difficult situation especially if you still love the man.  The best advice I can give you is to make a psychological and personal decision as soon as possible. I don't know your exact situation, but if you still love this person and if he loves you, and you think there may be a chance to work things out, then you should try to do so by all means.  BUT, you need to think of this very seriously, because it sounds to me that your relationship with him may be something in the past. If this is the case, you MUST learn to get over him. This is very important, for your sake.  This is very difficult (I know from experience), and it can hurt to see the one you love with someone else. But if it is not going to work, you need to learn to move on and allow yourself to forget about him.  You need to realize that this isn't easy, and it will take time.  But if you keep thinking about him as a lover, you will always be tormented inside.  Go out, meet new people, get your mind off of him and with time I assure you that life will go on, and you will find happiness again. Good luck!
316734
well all u got to do is follow ur heart. if u really love him and he loves you then yeah u should. just think of who is at the end of the love chain. is it him, or someone else.
119889
It takes time to adjust.  We all go through periods of unhappiness.  In order for 2 people to come closer together there will be times when their differences are more apparent than their similarities.  If you really love each other you will work through these and make the needed compromises.
1152658
i don't know what to tell you...this is a touchy situation...i understand the situation you are in because i have experienced similiar things....it's hard when you love someone and they act like that...you know deep down in your heart that sometimes it's best to go on with your life without this person and never look back....but it's so much easier to say then do.. you have to just take one day at a time and look at things and ask yourself...Is this what I want to go through for the rest of my life?  Weigh your options...look at the advantages of your relationship with him compared to the disadvantages of it...this is something nobody can tell you what to do...you have to not only follow your heart on this one but you have to consider what your mind says too...
1069701
dont ever give up ur love one...its not giving up its just giving time to each other to know urself more.....hope it helps you....gudluck..
518350
If you love him, then support him in his journey, but keep in touch for the day when you can see each other again. Love isn't strengthened by denying people the opportunity to grow.