Why do people not recognise the inner beauty?
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OH LOOK AT YOU , YOU ARE SO AWESOME!! I am glad to see people like you. \n\nI am a lady, I like to look my best, but I don't put on 10 pounds of makeup and so on, I put on enough to bring out my finest features. People like me for who I am . there were a few times where I came to work sicker than a dog. No makeup, my hair was pulled back and people still loved me. :D One time someone saw me freshening up at work and they said, you don't need make up, you are pretty enough. \n\nANyway, enough said. I think women feel the pressure of their surroundings. they see these magazines and tv shows and they just have to look beautiful like these people on television because they feel that is what is going to attract people to them. You can look as gorgeous as you want and look like a doll, but if you don't have the personality to match that beautiful face, forget it! They are history. There are guys out there that really do want that beautiful perfect woman and I think that a lot of women are under the dilusion that it's what ALL MEN want. \n\nI know that is not true at all. I have learned that from personal experiences. \n\nMy fiancee does not like when I wear a lot of makeup, he says that he adores a natural face. :) He was attracted to the woman that I am . He was attracted to my kindness and my sense of humor. His family thought that I was a very pretty woman and they loved me. When I was visiting with their family in Peru, I didn't wear makeup because the humidity just wrecked it anyway. Anywhere I went people liked me. They liked me for my personality, they did not care that I had a plain face, they did not care that the curl had fallen out of my hair. \n\nSometimes it takes people like you to help us ladies wake up and make us wipe the paint off our faces. :)\n\nGood thought and I am so happy to see someone like yourself hanging around here. You have good character!
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Just what is says. Some people have to have things be pleasant and pretty to the eyes for something or someone to be beautiful. This means you're seeing something in a much deeper sense to see not only the outer beauty, but the inner beauty as well.
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Maybe no one thinks you're ugly. Don't kill yourself trying to look beautiful, because real beauty is on the inside.
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may be may not be...it depens on the upbringing of the person...but in actualty..beauty cant be measure on physical aspect..it is actually measured on the nature of the person...as beauty of a person is like an ice cream....it melts...but its d nature of the person that can help u to make ur life happier
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. That speaks volumes for what beauty is and who should appreciate it. Most of us are our own worst critic and, by that very fact, see ourselves as a creation that could use more 'sculpturing' (if you catch my drift).\nI wouldn't care too much about the way you look at yourself(if i were you) , but to be happy that one that looks at you enjoys looking at you and gets excited at the sight of your nakedness; and, trust me, he'll like what he sees.
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No matter how beautiful you are on the outside if you don't have some beauty on the inside (or can at least fake it) then people aren't going to want to hang around you very much. I see it over and over again... some pretty girl with a "better then you" attitude who has a few people who dote on her, but they aren't real friends.\n\nThus it's far better to be plain on theoutside... because the outside is just a wrapper for what really matters. Besides, I haven't seen one plain jane who couldn't be made to look absolutly beautiful with just  a little effort.
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You know little of one's personality just from looks, so lets scratch that one.  Beautiful though, is anyone that makes you look twice, no matter what it is.  Beautiful is when you see someone that makes your heart pound, and you remember them the next day.
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You know, I believe it's men. Privately we are pretty emotional. We dont like showing it in public. But if you think of all the great composers and artists they were all men. To create beauty requires emotion of the highest sort.\nEmotions are both happy and sad dont forget(and all the bits in between).Please take a look at http://thebaldchemist.blogspot.com for afun look at life and it's emotions.Enjoy it.\n\nTake care
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physical things get noticed more because it is visible. to know your heart and soul takes effort, which is too much work for some people.\n\nremember, your heart and soul are more important. physical beauty fades.
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IF YOU REALLY CARE FOR SOMEONE,IT IS THE WHOLE PERSON YOU CARE ABOUT, NOT JUST WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE.\nI KNOW THIS IS REALLY HARD TO UNDERSTAND IF YOU ARE YOUNG, EVEN SOME ADULTS HAVE TROUBLE UNDERSTANDING THIS.IT'S WHAT IS IN THE INSIDE OF A PERSON THAT REALLY COUNTS, NOT WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE ON THE OUTSIDE. AN APPLE CAN LOOK GOOD ON THE OUTSIDE, BUT CAN BE COMPLETELY ROTTEN ON THE INSIDE.
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Most males that I have known refuse to admit that they even notice if another guy is good looking. I used to think it was ridiculous, but I have to wonder. Many men do not notice beautiful flowers, decorations etc., so I think it is possible that they just don't notice other men. The only ones they seem to notice are the ones that could be a physical threat, and that is just self preservation I think. Women generally notice beauty all around them. We notice beautiful flowers, the clothes other people wear, decorations wherever we go, beautiful women and good looking men etc. Men notice beautiful women because they are of use (relationship wise) to them. I think that if something isn't a threat or is of no real use to men, then they tend to not notice and just look past them. \n\nA.H.
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Beauty is the eye of the beholder.\nThere is no chemistry reason why things are beautiful or not, it is all a matter of opinion.
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Physical looks aren't always necessary in order to form an attraction.  Most people, however, do seem to prefer others that are kempt in appearance and have some modicum of personal hygeine.\n\nThat being said, people tend to like to be around others that make them feel good.  It could be someone that shows appreciation for them, makes them laugh or even helps them feel better about themselves in general.
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It is how one perceives you. You may be good for someone and ugly for another one. I guess what is more important is to be beautiful mentally :-)
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Based on various psychology experiments, people seem tend to assign more positive qualities to those they deem are attractive.  One experiment even suggested that babies spend more time looking at the faces of attractive strangers than those of unattractive ones more.\n  As unfair as it is, relative attractiveness has a huge impact on the first impressions of others, not to mention self-perception... This effect is relevant in many situations (i.e. hiring, friendships, relationships).  Hate to say it but, physical looks count for a helluva lot in today's society =T
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Ugly is a strong word. Guys seen the outside as being beautiful. A gentleman sees inner beauty and more importantly Ugly is something that is only seen by igorance and stupidity. No matter how people see themselves is how they feel and thats makes them beautiful and not ugly
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The truth is nowadays society demands perfection on every single aspect of someones life but regardless of what other people think or want me to think. Of course, NOT!! I'm more into the inner beauty of someone because their personality remains the same and beauty can just fool you.