I Love a girl she is ready to leave everything for me. But i am not able to leave my parents and go with her.?
494157
u jerk not worth of love ..... dont have gutts but want to fall in love
387217
due im a girl and she totally loves you, ask her out before she gets away.call her or email hher right now!!!
765080
It might not be about you, it might just be that her parents don't want her dating anyone right now.  A lot of people wait until a girl is 16 before allowing her to date.\n\nTry this--write them a letter, asking formal permission to spend time with her.  Let them know you are willing to address any concerns they might have, and tell them you have the utmost respect for her and would never do anything that would compromise that.  Let them know that if they would prefer, you would be willing to spend time with her at their home when they are present if that would make them more comfortable, or take a chaperone if they went out.  Ask to come by sometime in the evening and meet them.  Let them know you will respect any decision they make, and then DO SO.  If they say no, leave her alone.\n\nThis might seem like excessive effort, but it seems like you really want to hang out with her, so it might be worth it, and it would show you to be a very mature and courageous individual.  It might win them over.  Either way, you will have done everything you could do.
570216
She can't be asking you to choose for no reason at all. Either she fears for your safety with this guy or there's something wrong with her mentally. Not trying to be funny, but parents just don't refuse their children be happy unless they have mental issues. You should sit down and talk to her to find out why and make your decision from there.
592512
Do you love her? Do you want to stay married? Can you move farther away from her parents so they'll interfere less? I guess everything depends on how much you love her and want to fight to keep her. And how tired of her parents you are. \nMy husband's mother always interfered in my marriage. He chose me over her, so now we don't speak to his parents at all. But our marriage is better now than it ever was. I guess it all depends on the two of you. Can you stand up to her parents and tell them to stop bothering you two? Can she tell her parents NO? If not, maybe those papers are a good idea.
961080
yeah if he loved you he should go and let your parents knoe.....
573268
Option nr 1 is dump, love doesnt pay the bills, but u already thought about it\nOption nr 2 is the stupidist thing I ever heard, U r not Romeo and Juliet although it might feel like it.\nOption nr 3 Dump also, dont settle to their expectations\n\nIf your girl is ready for anything, then......go out there and work your little fingers to the bone to scrape enough money together to get your own place. U can alway hire some tiny apartment at first or a room in someones house. \nDont do anything stupid. I dont mean that just one of u work, both of u, get 2 or three jobs if u have to at the end it will b worth it. It is not something for them to accept anyway, the rest of your life is your dicision.\nIts what u make of it. \nIt will b hard, but do this for yourselves and to show your parents how much u 2 care about eachother. \nDont exclude them from your lives, always make them feel welcome. They will feel so bad after a while, be the better person.\nIf u 2 really love eachother, make it happen. Your dreams r possible, its just gona take a lot of hard work. \nU obviously dont care whether your parents approve or not, so do what u can to get out of there.\nThen it is not leaving your parents bcoz it is called growing up, and bonus is it is not losing the girl.\nU have to fight for everything u want in life, otherwise u wont get anywhere.\nThe thing is...dont mean to b a damper...if you and the girl dont work out, you'll have a lot of money saved up to start a great life for yourself...thats just hypathetically.
1160000
Sounds like she is shy and maybe alittle afraid of telling her parents that she has met a nice boy and would like to start dating him...I think you should wait for her...Respect the way she feels right now and give her time...I'm sure things will work out for both of you...\n Clowmy
492812
Firstly, have you thought about how your girlfriend thinks about all of this? It is her house and her daughter after all. You have been invited to stay with them, and you accepted. Accepting her daughter is part of that agreement.\n\nSo if you really love your girlfriend, are you going to let her daughter walk all over you like that? I'm not telling you to lay down and take it from her, but is there no way you can compromise? You have come into her space after all, and she is obviously threatened by it. You aren't her father so you can't tell her what to do, and at the same time you have no say as to whether her mother chooses to make her pay rent or not - you get your say if you're asked. Sure you can suggest things, but be prepared to back them up with logical and reasonable arguments, and try to be fair at all times. No one ever said this was going to be easy. \n\nIf you really want to be with your girlfriend, you have to be prepared to accept her daughter. Maybe speak to your girlfriend when her daughter isn't around and explain how you feel? She might be able to say something to her daughter. If not, you just have to grin and bare it because these things take time.
290595
your dad might drive you crazy but if you say you cant move out theres obviously a reason why...like giving my mom as an example shes living with my grandmother right now because she needs someone there to take care of her or she will be put in a home so my mom took it apon herself to care for her...and my mom is going bonkers let me tell you lmao but she knows that my grandmother wont be here for to much longer so shes doing what she has to do...you only have 1 set of real parents so try to stick with it...talk to your dad,tell him whats bothering you...good luck
958767
Dude you shouldn't even be having that type of conversation with her.  Much less guilt tripping her into going to the UK to be with you.  Don't you realize that if her family knew she was talking to you .. her dad would personally come find you?  She is just a friend and you shouldn't entertain thoughts of her being any more than that.  And she definitely shouldn't go see you ..
1131067
hi, it's pretty much nthing you can do all she saying is she need her own space she's just trying to find herself. give her time and space and if you love her you would let and go and if she omes back you'll even love her more because now she is ready to give you all her love and time but right she can't give it to you if she can't give her love to herself.
756142
If you really care for her stick by her. May be she is having a hard time dealing with her sexuality. It sounds like she is into you. She told her parents.Just give her time.
675154
look she broke up with you, obviously she's going to try to get you to see what you're missing. i think she didn't appreciate you much, you're a sweet person and i think any parent would be happy to have a boyfriend like yourself in their daughter's life, i don't her parents disapproved maybe she wanted someone else, you deserve someone you will shower with love and in turn receive the same or even more and trust me she's out there, so you could try and find that girl who will care for you, or go on mourning your ex-girl's loss
59820
you should probaly pick her up. that way her way her parents gets to see how you look first. then her parents can not convince her that you are wrong for her when they are dropping her off. that way you can convince them you are the guy for their little girl.
220313
to begin with honey, he doesn't love you. if you're not allowed to have a boyfriend yet, i'm sure your parents have a good reason. they are just trying to protect you from having to make decisions you're not quite ready to make. if you've seen me on here you know i'm gonna tell you to take this time to learn and to grow without complicating things. learn about yourself. learn about others. and as you're ready, learn about life. you've got a lifetime ahead of you. don't rush into things. :)
929982
Well you need to really decide if you want to be with her-possibly forever. I didn't sound like you wanted to move where she is, Why can't she come to you? If either one of you REALLY love one another,one of you would be willing to make the small sacrifice of moving. Now she is wanting some time away from the relationship,she got tired of waiting. If you now are realizing that you were taking her for granted-then show her. Actions speak louder than words. I hope this all works out for you and if not,then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.=}