if girls that like your b/f say bad things about him b/c they like him to you, who should you believe?
482905
Don't listen to gossip -- especially from people who have ulterior motives (such as splitting you up with your boyfriend).  These girls are behaving very immaturely, so they're not worth listening to.
463943
I'm sorry this is happening to you, but as you said you have not been a good girl. Lying is never a good thing, but if you can live with it more power to you. Now first you have to challenge you man's manhood. You have to seem upset that he will believe made up B.S. tips from a chick he doesn't even know. Then, show how much it hurts that rumors make him question you loyalty to him. Don't over do it. Be suddle, but convincing. Also, consider the fact that he may know who this person is and they may have formed an alliance against you. YES, some females are dirty like that, anything to get your man. If this is true, there is a chance the battle is already lost. Also, you can use that you your advantage. Try to make him understand or believe that the chick will do or say anything to take him away. If is someone you told this information to, use that to your advantage by saying, "She heard all the wonderful things I said about you. Now, she wants you for herself." This boost his ego, and lets him know how happy he makes you and how much you appreciates him.\n\nI hope all goes well. Also...\n\nMoral of the story:\nDon't tell sluts all your personal business.
1134215
I have really great advice for you: don't believe her. Maybe she's just jealousy? Is this guy pretty? If the answer is: yes. she evident envy you. Go out with this boy and have great time.\nP.S. Think: Would he still going out with you, if he won't like you?\nP.S.2. Mybe he don't like you, maybe he loves you :)
509344
you know I'm not good looking but almost of my bf is bad and not good looking ones, because i felt in love with that man. based on my experience and from my friends usually bad boys are rely lovable or "chick boy", many girls love them because they are bad... :-)
849160
Either one is a possibility, but if he's willing to go around behind his present girlfriend's back, then it's 99% certain that he will do the same to you.  Stay Away from this guy.  He's trouble.
281755
They think that they are going to win you fast. Don't do it girl......... it might be one if his trick to get you to like him or they might do it for money or a bet. For the one that you are with know and you really love him  don't dump him keep on the relationship and for as far as you know you might end up together forever.
786966
Why would you think he would hurt her? You must have some evidence based on the relationship the 2 of you had. But keep in mind that, unless he was awful, their relationship could have a completely dynamic than yours did. Tell her your concerns and then let her make up her own mind.
651164
Now does he say "Wow she's pretty!" or does he say "DAMN!!! lokk at that girls butt" If he says the former, well than maybe you should lighten up a lil' bit.  He compliments you too, and obviously thinks your something special.  If he didn't he wouldn't want to be exclusive with YOU.  If he's fun to be with and he's nice to you than your insecurity is not justified.  Take the time to enjoy yourself and focus on the good things, instead of the tiny bad stuff.  If you find it still bothers you open the lines of communication and let him know
333422
I would tell him that its either you or her.  He is playing games with your head.  Then I would kick her ass for messing with another girls man.
999253
Tell her that she's better than that.  She might not listen, but at least she knows how you feel.  Don't pretend that you like him for her sake, be honest.  Oh and when it all finally blows up, resist the urge to say I told you so.
1178492
I would think he likes his cousin and thinks you are being disrespectful (which you are) to be making fun of his girlfriend.  Grow up and stop acting like your 10.
73080
Ok, so I had this problem too. My friend told me that I should tell them that they aren't my type. That way, you aren't exactly telling them what you specifically don't like about them. Or you could make him break up with you by making yourself unattractive or doing things that he doesn't like.
739531
You're not cheering for the underdog, you're being contrary with your boyfriend.\n\nYou should always stick by your partner, but that doesn't mean that you agree with them when they are wrong.  You stick by them by comforting them when they are wrong or wronged.\n\nThere is nothing wrong with showing your bf that he is wrong, but harping on it right when it happens (and especially if he ISN'T wrong!) is destructive.\n\nTalk to him about it later, constructively.
233780
WOW thats a big one. You say you have evidence right? well use what you got. But not in a way were you will put yourself in a bad spot but us them in question. Things you talk about. Ask if he knows a girl by the name so and so. If you really love this guy. Just keep rememinding him you love him. and that your so happy you guys are together and  that he has never cheated on you. In that point . . He will be nervice looking at the floor and looking for a answer out.
970148
tell your b/f what you did....than you will find out what is going to happen.
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
351849
Honestly? nothing, there is no reason why your boyfriend can't think your friend is cute.  This is not a statement about you or your relationship.  I personally am in love with the most amazing woman on earth, and I think that Elizabeth Hurley is cute, this doesn't make me a bad person or mean that  I love my girl any less.  Now if he is giving you reason to doubt if he is being faithful, then talk about your concerns but it is  VITAL that you don't start accusing him or her of anything without a reason.  Try and be more secure in yourself, after all your guy is with you isn't he?