Why do guys use pick up lines if they know we don't fall for them?
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Because God/dess has a sense of humor: men were given a brain & an organ, but only enough blood to use one at a time.\nSorry to say, but it doesn't get better w/ age; only constant rejection causes men to improve that type of thing.  Sometimes.\nI am also reminded of the bartender's book in which he stated that the only pick-up line he'd ever overheard that ever really worked was "Hi."
559199
I don't believe in that anymore, I find with guys who do that usually it's just an act or some sleazy way of getting girls to like them without actually working for it. Just when you think someone's sweet and loves you, they suddenly dump you without telling you why but spread stuff behind your back!!!!!!
109515
they are not interested and feel uncomfortable. or perhaps they want to get away from you and make it more obvious that they are not interested.\nfind someone else. the right person is out there.
865390
We guys are complete idiots sometimes. Unfortunately that also means that we tend to be more interested in women that aren't particularly interested in us. The challenge is part of it.
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theyre idiots!! they dont know the meaning of no! he probably thinks youre playing hard to get. what a loser!
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
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Because they don't really know what they want. They know guys will check them out, and then they act stuck up or uninterested so they don't seem like whores. They really just want their ego stroked. It's that simple.
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Some guys like the "Art of Flirtation".  They literally practice on you just to get it right.  And they LOVE that you respond to it.  \n\nOther guys are just too shy to go up and say they are interested in you, yet forward enough to actually flirt. If this is the case, you might have to ask him out.
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it makes us look to vulnerable, if we did ask a guy out; he can either take advantage of you; because he already knows you like him, or we have to face humiliation/rejection...i have gone up to a guy once, and made a fool out of myself, but hey, i have guts, and its no big deal...but i will give all guys props going up to girls! how can you take the pressure!!!
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I agree with the cute ghosty. Guys need you to be obvious. They don't do subtle. Sometimes you have to be obvious many times before they get it.
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i think its because we are all afraid of rejection or being used.as a woman i feel like it would be desperate of me to chase a guy , and my guy friends make jokes about girls who moon over them , even if she is just extra nice when they are around.
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It's a way that people flirt. Take it as a compliment. They're saying that you are so great and goodlooking that they can't possibly believe yoiu are single. If you like the girls that are saying it then that's your in to start to flirt back.
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Some men are insecure about being approached by ANY women. Also, many men are afraid to approach WOMEN.  The prettier the more difficult to approach a girl -- because they're afraid of being turned down.  \n\nI'd continue to do what you're doing--work the odds.  Just because you get turned down sometimes, doesn't mean you will always get turned down.  Just make it clear you're interested -- stay approachable.  Guys are so weak about being turned down.  And they play the double standard by acting like women are too agressive if they do the approaching.  Not all though.  So you've got to play the odds.  Trust me, it will all work out.  Just hang in there.
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I don't think 'pick-up' is the term I'd use, but if you are interested in someone be yourself and just start a conversation with them.
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Not all women think it is a pick up line.  And actually if someone other then my hubby were to give me a compliment as you have done, I would say thank you with a smile!\n\nPick up lines are a dime a dozen.  And I believe that a mature woman would realize that it is nothing more then a comment and should make them feel really great about how they look and that someone with an eye such as yours is exactly what they need to boost their egos!
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To see if you really want them.  Guys like if you chase them.  But if you dont' they will come after you.
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Men usually like to fake it and pretend they don't like you. They want to feel like they don't NEED you but they do ( who else is gonna take care of them helloooooooo) Just flirt back and show signs to him that you like him. And if he gave you a first kiss then why worry about asking him out just do it .