How can one impress one's in-laws?
475908
Treat your spouse with respect and kindness. Be there when needed. Allow your spouse to be who she/he is without trying to change him/her. Your in-laws will think you are the best when you treat their child right.
94173
block their #s from your phone. write to your in laws (return reciept) and tell them point blank: this is MY husband NOT your little boy. you've done all the raising of MY HUSBAND that you will ever do. mother in law, if you have a husband then HE needs to provide for you. MY HUSBAND does not need to provide anything for you. that's YOUR husband's job. and to sis: do you have husband? no. then you are your PARENTS responibility. go get a life i got mine. and tell your husband to get a SPINE and use it. he chose you not his sister.
761878
Go to your husband's parents!\n\nFailing that, go to your own, so they will not be by themselves.
602405
I can't stand my inlaws!! They are so fake! They act like they like me but, behide my back they talk about me. I have acually heard her talk about me! I can't believe they can be that way! I had tried so hard in the begining to get along with them but I stopped that a long time ago! I guess first impressions mean alot because that was when she brushed me off when I said hello. If my husban is not home and she calls I don't pick up the phone and she knows I'm home. I know that get's her upset. But I love it!! So my suggestion is focus on your fam and avoid her! But ofcoures say hello once in a blue moon. I know you not getting along with her came create unwanted problems in your relationship! Best of luck:)
9486
You need to stand up to your husband here, and tell him that his *inlaws* need to get the hell *out*!
994856
brother in law  all the others are blood relatives  check ya later ♥
670948
tell mom-in-law- to phuck off
272112
Awww, that's so sweet. I definitely agree with the person who suggested doing something unexpected - and it really doesn't have to be big. I love it when my hubby brings me flowers - even if I know they cost him under $5. Sometimes he even picks them himself from a field or roadside, and that is even more special than buying them. \n\nHelping with the cleaning is always nice - if you have kids, taking them out so your wife can have some alone time can really be a special treat. \n\nIntimate things like rubbing her feet, brushing her hair, putting lotion on her back, etc. are always nice. \n\nAnd you know...since you're such a nice guy and obviously want to make her happy - you could always ask her what she would like. Especially when it comes to the more intimate stuff in the bedroom - you want to woo her, not offend her.
290976
Put together a video of their lives. My mother did that for my grandparents using scanned photos from their entire lives and made a really touching slideshow video. If you don't have the time for that try to get him something that applies to a hobby of his.
343651
I would start learning your husband's native language seriously. Show some respect by at least trying to learn his culture (by learning the language first). He will be so impressed by your willingness. Let alone your in-laws! And also, it is OKAY to remind (or tell) them occasionally to please translate the jokes in English. Or tell your husband that you like to get involved in the discussions and have him translate it for you once in awhile. \n\nAnd some insider, it is not that easy to have somebody speak in English (or whatever language you both share) every single time when English is not even their native language (this goes to the man. So appreciate him even more).
417800
Introduce the bride & groom as they enter the reception, "ladies & gentleman...may I introduce Mr & Mrs  John Smith"...applause applause...you would also do the a toast...tell some funny story about them as children or some anetdote (sp?) that their parents might share...and wish them much happiness yadda yadda...also introduce the band, thank everybody for coming...make various announcements as needed...that sort of thing...oh..& dress real nice too!
1128273
simply surprise her on several occasions.you know your wife better and know what can do the trick.
382230
The best way to impress someone is to quote whatever comes out of your own heart. If your heart has love in it, it will surely produce something melodious and  heart touching. :) You have enough time. All the best
958352
Doing good lady, keep it up.  Soon you'll be meeting the folks, and before you know it arguing about in laws.
915924
You can ask your fiance what she might like, or find a unique gift from your country that you would like to share with her. A nicely framed photo of yourself and her son, or a nicely framed photo of the three of you together, could be an excellent gift. Or if she's coming to see you, get a spa day out or something similar, that way the two of you will have a chance to go and do womanly things together and get to know each other better. Best of luck! It's very considerate to be thinking of things to do to make this a nice relationship, because so many people have problems getting along with their in-laws.
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Ask your wife what she thinks when your In-laws "let down" on you.  This should open a conversation that will allow you to tell her how you feel as well.  She should understands why you are not at the same financial level as her older siblings.  Work together making your financial goals.  Check the progress often together.  She can set her parents straight if that's needed.  No one likes to be put down and should they keep up this behavior, I would make the contacts with them as minimal as possible.  (The natural consequences for people who are jerks...no one wants to be around them.)   Hope this helps!
106090
I would suggest working on the key theme and placing some of your own thoughts on the papers.  If you are using 20 keys, make a list of 20 things that has helped your marriage be a success.  An example:\n\nKey #1 to our success:  An open line of communication\nKey #2 to our marriage success:  A mutual respect for eachother\nKey #3 to our happiness:  Our ability to share the remote control!\n\nThis will allow your guests to have some insight to your lives and will provide reflection for the reason of the gathering.  They will also be curious to know what is on each of the tables so it could encourage your guests to mingle as well.