I don't think it is right for my GF to have access to my emails, and personal stuff on my PC. Is this OK?
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well dang , boy , if you dont got anything to hide, why should it matter. wat she gonna do. she just needs reasurince and if you want to do sumthin bout it, do the same thing to her. what is she hiding????
170032
Maybe he gave them to you so you COULD snoop to know he's not messing around. \n\nMaybe he did it to throw you off and he has a whole other screen name he uses for the things he doesn't want you to find. \n\nMaybe he did it in hopes you would give him your passwords. \n\nEither way, you trust him or you don't. If you deep down honestly truely did, you wouldn't snoop. You'd forget every password you have of his and go on about your own business. If you have even a little doubt in your head, maybe you should rethink the relationship. He obviously trusts you enough to give you that kind of personal info probably hoping you'd never have to stoop so low you'd spy on him.
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I'm guessing you're looking for a way to encrypt your email?  Check out something like PGP (Pretty Good Privacy).  However, he might still be able to read your chats, see your web history, etc.  Also, if he's installed a keystroke logger, he can see everything you typed.\n\nIt all depends on how concerned you are about his monitoring of your online activities.
1070157
If she can't keep her emails straight...I would believe she is pulling one over on you.  And no matter what the relationship, not sure I would advertise I slept with every guy I've dated.  Good luck!!
130597
did she also make a user account on your computer? if so delete it and change your password to your account so she cannot use your computer at all.\nif you need any help on windows xp accounts write to me.
792130
its ok as long as she don't talk to weirdos i'm 13 with an email address my dad keeps a check on it regularly.  maybe you should do that buti think you should narrow it down to 1 email address hope i could help.\n\npinky
776282
Yes, he could but not nearly as easily as the office email since it isn't stored on any of the corporate email servers.  If you save that email on your work computer then it will have the same rights as any other data on that computer, that is they have rights to look at it.\n\nFor your final question it depends on what you really mean, they question is really to vague to give a good answer to when you look at the rest of your post.
1150545
What's up? Don't you trust your kids? If that's the case, you should have a parental control on their PC. The information will be somewhere on the hard drive, you will have to get an expert to have a look for you but if they have done something illegal you can expect trouble with the law.
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Well you admit you have a problem..that is the first step.  First thing i would do is unplug the computer and put it in the closet.  Use a local library or internet cafe to check you email...you'll be less likely to go looking at inappropriate sites.\nThere are also many groups now that help with this kind of stuff.   \n\nhttp://www.netaddiction.com/articles/newdisorder.htm\n\nVisit that website for more information.\n\nGood luck and get better.
319131
Hacking would involve breaking in without permission.  Since you had permission to use the PC then you can't be hacking it.
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Did the spyware and anti-virus programs find anything?  If they did you should remove anything they did find.  Here is what I suggest, if you can't find the keylogger (though, she would have to have physically been there to install it), it is unlikely that she did it remotely, it's possible but unlikely.  Back up your data, word documents, music, email and the like.  Reformat your drive and reinstall Windows, that way you can be sure there is no keylogger on your system.
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im assuming u keep system history and archives so u can go back and see whats what with her on the pc. also, a pointer might be, dont allow usage of the pc unless urstiiting right there. many a pedophile knows just what 2 say 2 a child 2 lure them in. kind of scares u? what business does a grown man have with a 12 yr old child? contact the police department with copies of the conversations as well, im sure they can help u with some monitoring type things u can do 2 make sure. dont worry about her being pissed about privacy, if something happened 2 ur child via some perv online, u will wish u would have acted sooner.! good luck!
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There are several ways to do this depending on the program. If you want him not to be able to access your email, change your password and dont give it to him.  Whatever forwarding service he is using will have to have a log in.
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Your work account may not be set up to be accessible from home. Check with your company's technical support people (helpdesk is a good place to start).  If they allow you to check email from home, they will either give you a web address to go to and read it over the web, or instructions for connecting to it at home. The software you use to read email is not as important as the way the server that holds the email is set up--- I'm an email engineer and I have many users who use Outlook/pc at home and Mac/Entourage at the office (or the reverse) and they can see everything from everywhere.
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you're ignorance about all things networked speaks volumes so i'm not even slightly surprised your parents are concerned.\n\nsimply by using a computer connected to the internet you're giving off all kinds of personal information you're not even aware of.\n\njust by emailing someone you are sending your computer's ip address to the sender, this is your unique identifier on the internet. if you have an standard installation of windows xp without a decent firewall and all the latest security updates then it is a REALLY trivial matter for someone to get into your pc.\n\ndo you not have *any* personal information on your pc? if you do then it's all there for the taking by whomever is determined enough to want to pursue you - they're called predators for a reason, they go after the person they want and will do anything they can to make their fantasies a reality - it's what they specialise at.\n\nsorry, but your parents are right and you're wrong - the risks are real.
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I would have to say that you were snooping so if you bring it up, she will know that.  You should really wait to get hard cold proof if you are going to accuse her.  Good Luck!
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Obviously you both seem to have not a great relationship. I am first making an assumption that she is not writing to you anything personal in the email addressed to your personal email address, but plainly office stuff. \n\nTo answer your question, I do not believe she has a right to email you on your personal email account, particularly after you told her not to. Do it in writing now. Send her an email from your office email account citing what she has been doing, mentioning your prior request not do so. Request her once again. Tell her to use the office email address for any communication so that you can keep things on track. Tell her you that you are particular about keeping office communications on the office channels. Tell her you hope that she understands that and respects that. If she was smart, she will stop. She may not change her other behavior that drives you nuts but she will stop emailing to your personal email address. If she does not, you can think hard at that time and perhaps take it to Human Resources department at that time.