For the ladies. What was the nicest way you were asked out on a date?
485677
say some lovely words and bring some flowers....
404572
I once had a guy in my college calculus class hit on me by complimenting on my pen.  He seriously leaned over and said, "Nice pen you got there."\n\nAs far as the smoothest, I don't know.  I like it when guys just come up and start talking.  This is not rocket science.  Girls don't need a pick up line.
487007
On a first date?\n\nSimple ---> take a nice warm shower..put on your comfortable clothes...dont be late...wear a genuine smile...be a gentleman....listen when she talks...have fun and laugh with her...take her home...give her a sweet little kiss...and say goodnight.
110354
i had the sweetest day of my life...\n\nmy boyf and i didnt plan anything for V-day because we both had work and we had conflicting schedules...(i go home 6am he goes to work 7am, i leave for work 8pm he arrives from work 6pm) so I wasn't really expecting anything...\n\nBut when it's time for me to go home from work (6am feb.14), some of my officemates were already teasing that a guy is waiting for someone outside and i said "no he's not my boyf" because I wasn't really expecting him but when I went outside there he was waiting for me with a big smile and as I was walking towards him...guess what?!! I didn't see this one coming...he handed me a bouquet of pink roses (a really nice one) and my officemates were like, "oh my gawd! he's so sweet"...\n\nI was very surprised and very touched. I felt very special that moment. Then we just had breakfast at his house then off we went to our different destinations...\n\nI love my man!! :)
135484
How would like to be treated just think of what you wuold want I don't think you can go wrong. Make sure on your first date get to know her likes and dislikes.  Most important HAVE FUN
17681
She: "Hi honey, how was your day?"\nYou: "Go to the strip club, you say? Why, that's a great idea. I will reserve a table right now."\nShe: "Wha?! No, I didn..."\nYou: "You're so considerate, I love you."\nShe: "?..."
672315
The best was on our first date in a restaurant. We finished a bottle of wine and he raised his hand to call the Waiter for another. I said something like 'Oh no! no more!' to which he replied 'please let me, even if we don't drink it, it buys me more time at this table with you'. Even now, years later, he will still say things like that.\n\nThe worst ever chat up line I heard was as a Teenager, a Chap said to me at a dance ' Get your coat, you've pulled!' poor boy got an extremely curt reply!
650586
Either ones fine.  Heres a few lines from Friends\n\nRachel: Well do guys like it when a girl ask them out?\n\nJoey: Oh yeah, its such a turn on.\n\nRachel:  But doesn't it seem desperate?\n\nJoey: Thats the turn on.  \n\nDon't worry about it though.  Either or is fine.
629405
Hmm.. which one to choose...\n\nAbout 2 months ago I agreed to meet a guy that I had met off of a certain dating site. Lets see.. he said his body type was average ( for a hippo maybe ) and that he was 5'6". Now I am 5'3" and I was eye to eye with this guy.. maybe his gut had pulled him down 3 inches I am not sure lol. \n\nAnyway the comedy of errors started with dinner. It was a cute little Italian place. The portions were huge and my date proceeded to eat his entire plate (which took like an hour because he eats so slow) and in the process managed to drop alot of it on his shirt. YUCK!! Then came the bill.. he kept scrounging around for his wallet.. didnt produce it and then went to the bathroom forever... I felt sorry for the server and paid the bill myself, hoping he would at least leave the tip. When he finally came out and saw the bill was gone, he asked if I was ready to leave. I mentioned that she might need a tip and he flipped 2 bucks out of the wallet that had been missing in action 20 minutes ago and put it on the table. No thank you for paying or anything. As we were walking out to our cars, he asked what else I would like to do. Um.. go home was all I could come up with lol. He leaned in for the kiss goodnight and got the famous one handed pat on the back.. the kiss of death on dates!!
302320
I will tell you what has worked for me personally...this may sound old fashioned, but I find that for me it is the best strategy....I have never asked a man out on a date.  Guys like to be the hunters and the chasers and when they do things they like to think it was their idea.  I mean, definitely flirt with him, be friendly, smile a lot--plant the idea in his head and I'm sure in time he will ask you out.  good luck :)
187756
1) Appraoch with a smile\n2) start a conversation with a compliment\n3) Be upfront but ask if this is a good time ("I really would like to get to know more about you if you have the time/interest/wouldn't mind/not busy/etc")  Small ammounts of humility and self deprication are charming, desperation is not.\n4) Ask her about herself\n5) Keep smiling\n6) Be yourself\n7) Ask her to dance/buy her a drink/something where you are\n8) Do that for a while\n9) ask for her number, make a tenative plan ("I would love to take you out for dinner/go to the zoo/call you on Friday"
641357
:) I'm not sure I'm like most women, but personally I do love when a guy asks me out... as long as it's in a nice way. If you don't know her, a look at her eyes and a smile when she notices should make her smile back. If she does, then you can come closer and introduce yourself, then start chatting a bit and ask her to have a coffee (if she can't but is interested she will probably offer to exchange numbers). About numbers, here are my "rules": if I'm really interested I will take his number and give him mine -no risk to miss an opportunity-, if I'm not too interested I will just take his -I decide-, if I want to see if he really is interested (and if I am) I will give him mine -let's see if he wil call-.\nNow if you know her already (classmate, for example) you can try to chat with her from time to time and see if you have something in common that could be used: like if you talk about cinema, maybe she will mention a movie she wanted to see. If you want to be direct with a girl I would go for the "I was wondering if you would have time to have a coffee with me one day?". It's still casual, she can decline easily (important!), and again if she really can't but is interested she will offer another solution. Don't do too much, she has to feel she can refuse.\nOn a more general basis, if I see a guy I like I will do the smile-and-bat-my-eyes trick, this is usually enough to encourage the guy to move ahead. If he smiles backs and seems interested but won't move, I will probably offer a coffee myself if there is a possibility  won't see him again (subaway etc.) :)\nAnd about the bf... you're not supposed to know! If she say she has one, just don't say you're not jealous... please! ;) And don't worry, if you act nicely I don't think a girl will reject you roughly. She will probably be flattered: what girls have everyday it's guys making kiss sounds or saying comments about their body, not an actual sentence. That's not that common... ;)
1177008
1. Legs, arms, etc. don't shave...for guys its meant to be there\n2. If you mean with the ladies...I'd say that he treats her with complete respect, and is able to express how he truly feels\n3. Depending on the age, i guess, but i would say dinner (so there's time to talk) and then a movie back at her house (so she feels comfortable and knows you're not trying to make a move but also there is a chance to cuddle and feel close)\n4. Sense of Humor, all the way, I love a guy that can make me laugh.
885327
hands with flowers and ask me.. but I am seeing someone already and the besy way he asked me out, was when he had those post note and jot down"will u go out with me sometime"
38176
okay well where did you have you first date. if that doesnt fit you can alwayd try the candles and roses thing. if you go a little before valentines and ask for the throw outs of roses so that you can take the petals it shouldnt be to pricey. also a favorite light meal and a chocolaty dessert like a crockpot mud cake. there is also sitting on the porch with a blanket and a pot of warm spiced wine just sitting and watching the stars.
105932
you would say: "Like, wanna go out?"\n\nHopefully she says "totally!"\n\nseriously, you'd want to be nice to her and then ask her out...
63700
Many years ago, I dated this one girl.  On the first date, she backed away from my advances. She said she wanted it to be special.\n\nI said OK - that's cool.\n\nI took her out on a second date, and I brought her flowers.  I took her out to a fancy restaurant, then we went out dancing.\n\nOnce again, she pushed me away.  This time, she got a little angry with me.  She said "When I want to have sex, I'll let you know."\n\nI said OK.\n\nThe next four months, we went out a lot.  I bought her jewelry, and I took her to shows.  I treated her  like she was a princess.\n\nShe started asking a lot of questions one night.  Honestly, I felt like I was being interrogated, but I must have answered all the questions correctly, because she said "Make love to me."\n\nAnd so I did.\n\nThen I dumped her @ss.