If I said I was a gay guy from Romania with a wife who does not know, would you think I'm bad?
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Did you ever talk to her about being gay? (in general) Maybe she could accept you as you are?! I'd say you're rather bi than gay, but that's a different problem.\nI was in the same situation. Now I left my wife and live with another woman, at least she knows about my sexual prefferences and has accepted me as I am.\nAre you bad? no, just sad...\n\nSucces si curaj! Dragos, Buc.
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H-I-B Brilliant man! These simple questions for simpletons, may be too much for them to absorb all at once. It's real hard to decide if it was once, or maybe twice. That is what BI-LESBIANS say about not being a Lesbian. I was BI curious, or maybe SEMI-BI-LESBIAN. So how many HOMOSEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS concluded that you are a HOMOSEXUAL? My example of NEO_CONSERVATIVE dialog, HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!! The crying "RIGHT" can't stand up for themselves, and now have to "CRY" to the left for support. BOOO-FUUUUKIN_HOO. My man here is completely right about the semis-ism, so stand up and take your knocks, it's your turn in the barrel. Vote out the TYRANTS in NOVEMBER, free America!
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Well Zain boy, it seems you have married to hide your sexual reality. You probably done that to go with the flow of your society. \n\nIn my opinion, you have chosen to conceal your needs not to be outed. Therefore you should honor your commitment. \n\nThink about your wife and kids. What fault is it of theirs that you should cheat on them simply to satisfy your desire? How would you feel if your wife cheated on you?\n\nBe a man and honor your marriage and family.
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Interesting question, not sure why you would want to.\nMaybe you could do what my former brother in law did, he needed to be married to hide the fact he was gay, he found a lesbian woman who also needed to hide she was gay.\nThough they are still together, they do their own thing and it seems to be working out great.\nHope this helps.
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I'm going to ask you one more time...how's your husband going to know if the people that you talk to online are gay or not  ???
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if you 'finnish' the act by 'russian' your fingers and 'roman' your hands a 'brazilian' times, you could be a quadrilingual... wouldn't THAT be impressive?!  czech, please!
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sorry, i don't know romanian..
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I'd have to know you better to tell you what could be wrong. But may be you don't know about guys that much, you can try knowing them better.
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Dude, really try and get some help.  You clearly have issues that need attending to.  If you're gay or not, this silliness isnt healthy for you.  Not passing judgment, but clearly this is a cry for help.
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I'm misunderstood by my wife all the time. I misunderstand people, or misinterpret...I usually go to great lengths to accurately describe what I'd said to my wife so the misunderstanding could be cleared up...\n\nCommmunication can be tough...thats why I try to articulate myself as best as possible.\n\nIf its someone I don't really know...they can think whatever they want.
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There isn't really a clear cut way to know for sure. There have been women married for years only to devorce  him later because he was gay. And the wives never suspected it. He wasn't flamboyant, didn't talk funny, didn't do any obvious signs of being gay. So there really isn't any clear cut way of knowing.
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HA! You word your question as if being queer were a bad thing.\n\nI think the worst is to be a closed-minded straight person.
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Then you already know the answer!!!\n\nYou sound like a romantic sort...so don't get hurt!!  Look up the stats on that q.  It shouldn't be surprising.
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I just guessing here, but I'm betting he/she don't have a clue of what you are saying. I'd go get a counselor to help out.
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I haven't fallen in love with a Romanian guy (or girl, for that matter), so I'm not sure how much this will help, but I do have a Romanian friend.  Again, that's a sample size of 1 so it might not be generalizable, but maybe I can tell you a little about some of the stuff she's experienced in the US.  If you're curious about Romanians in the US, this might be more helpful.  If not, then, well, it will probably be less helpful.\n\nFirst, you can expect a lot of Americans to not know much about Romania.  My Romanian friend and I were in a bar and this guy started talking to her and said, "Oh, you're from Romania?  My mother's family is Ukrainian!  That's pretty much the same, right?"  I don't know how you would react to that, but my friend wasn't crazy about it...  Also, we're grad students, and we mostly hang out with educated people who at least have college degrees, and yet we still make a lot of vampire jokes.  Adriana (my Romanian friend, same name) luckily has a sense of humor, so she makes the jokes right back.  For some reason, it's just funny to us any time she says something like, "When I was going to college in Transylvania..."  She doesn't quite get that one, but I think that we think it's funny because the cartoons we saw here when we were growing up always used Transylvania as a scary location with creepy castles and vampires and the like.  \n\nSo, my point is that at least for Americans, you being Romanian is not likely to be a source of discrimination more so than it would be if you were any other nationality.  And this is largely a function of the fact that not a lot of Americans know a lot about Romania.  So as long as you find someone who is open-minded, you'll be fine.  But you probably wouldn't be attracted to someone who was closed-minded anyway, would you?  A lot of American guys love foreign-sounding accents, also, so you might have that going for you.\n\nOh, and also, the pronunciation of the names is sometimes an issue for my friend.  Nobody really has a problem with "Adriana" because it's relatively common in many countries (though in the US, you might get a lot of "Ay-driana"), but the last names can be tougher.
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i copied & pasted my response to another question that went: 'what do u think of gay people'.\n\n"Can't believe you asked online. No comment. Thks for the points"
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I would think so. Why your asking is beyond me is you married someone there.