How much time and space can one give to a person who has wronged you terribly ?
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No Time, No Space, just let it be known to one and all what has been done and that its wrong, and that the quantum, time and place of punishment is to be decided by you and you alone. It may be in a minute, hour, day, week, month or years, let it be known that though shall not take it and shall give back with interest. That way the other shall be on his/her toes till you are thru.
52997
My father was killed 3 months ago and I didn't get the chance to tell him anything.  You are lucky that you have the chance to make amends.  Please don't under estimate the power of heartfelt words.  Sometimes you need to swallow your pride and be the first to initiate an apology or a conversation.  I regret everyday of my life that I was not there when my dad died.  I torture myself with the what ifs... and if onlys.  I wish I was lucky enough to have one more moment to tell him how much I love him and what a great man he was.  I don't have that chance, but you do.  Please don't waste it.
1126628
nope.If someone hurt you that deeply,stay away from them.I'm sure you can think of someone to call.Or go for a walk or go visit old ppl in the nursing home.Theres plenty to do.
376457
divert your attention to someone else who can fill the space that belonged to the person you want to get rid of. Let go of all grudges, pain and don't you ever think about getting a revenge because this will make you more attach to him/her.\n\nForgive and forget. If you can't forget, don't make every memory of him a big deal.
445843
Once u have a close friend, care about u,, tell him that u did something bad,, and wait to see his answer,, if he is interested,, he will tell u that u must be punished,, and u can move from here
524223
Well it kind of depends on how badly the other person took the 'misconception', they might never forgive you, or they might not ever be as close a friend since they felt you betrayed their friendship.So actually there are more than one chance that you cannot revive the friendship. \n\nBut, if you are determined to try you ask the person to meet you in a neutral place, or go to their home after calling and letting them know you are coming, and then you tell the whole story and apologize profusely and explain it is all your fault and ask for forgiveness, if they accept then tell them that you miss their friendship terribly, and would like to renew it if it is all possible, and then you cross your fingers, because they are either going to say OK they missed you too,  or they are going to say you destroyed the friendship and they cannot trust you again. \n\nEither way, you will have your answer and you can go on with your life knowing that you tried.\nGood Luck
634945
That is awful, there is no room for that. You are precious in God's eyes, and love is what God offers to you. I would go up to the person that has hurt you, and tell her that you forgive her for all the mean things she has done to you. A gentle answer turns away wrath, so forgive her, and I would talk to the counselor as well. You should not be treating like that, but do tell her that you forgive her, I bet it will be something if you tell her that.
319267
Depends that - on what u feel sorry, if a major mistake it is advisable to appologize & plea for forgivenes, if it is some minor stuff then leave it u felt sorry that itself is enough
36540
Yes I would definately apologize, and I would do so by saying I'm very sorry, excuse me..let me help you gather your things back up.  And if any bags broke I'd go get new ones for her.  It would be a high concern if he didn't apologize..or if it was on purpose.  But if it were a true accident, or if he was truly sorry AND helped then it would be a low offense.  I'm just a nice person! :)
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u messed up!anyway u have to agree that u were on the wrong.and tell him how u feel,(truly feel) the truth matters now.and if u dont say what u feel u will regreat.so in other words just say the truth,what comes out from ur heart then let him take it the way he wants to take it.but u messed up and do u think if u were done for  the some thing u would want that person back to ur life.i dont think so coz the person will repect the same thing or in a different way.dont have ur hopes up.pray and let it be.
466723
One can forgive, but they cannot always forget. It seems like it may is time to move on if you have attempted to address the issue to no avail. \nThere is someone better out there that will treat you as you deserve to be treated.
758296
A person in that situation would be devastated, of course, and it is a matter of betrayal that would be so emotionally traumatic that I'm not sure most people have enough generosity of spirit to forgive that so easily.  Unfortunately, we live in a society that often forces men and women to adopt roles they don't want to in order to earn the approval of society.  I feel only sympathy for all the people involved in such a situation.....
305711
It depends on where you live, i think. Where I live there is no limit on time. You can report someone, even decades later.
50742
U may forgive the one by thinking that whatever happens....happens for good. \nAny way i liked this question as u have asked "How to forgive?" instead of "What punishment should be given to the person who takes ur money?" The person who forgives is always greater than than the person who takes revenge or gives punishment.
1152467
swallow your pride and admit you were wrong and leave it at that give them time to think how much guts it took for you to do that and if the friendship was worth anything to them they'll be in touch thats all you can do ..
182609
So much depends on what you really want.  You might ask why. But that accomplishes what?    Too much depends on the specific circumstance of what created the hurt.  Besides, life is a lesson to be learned and remembered...so it can never happen again.  Perhaps the only question I would ask is; What did you gain from my pain?
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You just have to accept what happened and forgive him in your head. You'll probably never be able to forgive him in person though.