what should i do if my boyfriend dosent call me?
481414
It sounds like your bf is somekinda trouble at home. Try to dig deeper. It does seem suspicious but you don't know all the details yet. Ask yourself if he really is worth the trouble. And if one day you do bump into him, he better have a good explanation for not trying to contact you.
803297
I can understand both your sides. If you can't trust him, you need to figure out why - is it him, or is it you? To me, it sounds like it's you. STOP trying to make him justify himself to you. He is not your son - he is your boyfriend. If it's him, and you know FOR A FACT you can't trust him, then leave him!!!! Either way, stop making him account for his time - he is his own person. \nCould he have called you and told you he was going to be late? He probably should have apologized, and perhaps didn't if you jumped his sh** right then and there. \nRemember, men and women react differently - likely, he is not trying to hide something, he just doesnt appreciate being treated like a child and is trying to reclaim some autonomy.
665635
done call him wait for him to call you and then sort out your differences
742362
maybe he had a change of heart? or he is seriously wondering if your the right one for him. don't contact him. he has your number if he never calls again then your better off. do you want someone to be with you if they don't want to? if, he calls then continue your relationship. in the meantime don't sit around waiting on this man. get out and mingle with friends who knows maybe he is not the one. sorry but i don't want to lie and make you think he will call.
1125268
YES!!! DEFINATELY!!! If he's not calling u then y'all 2 need 2 talk and if he don't wanna talk then do exactly as i say: (say this straight in his face and look deep down into his eyes) u need to tell him that his shit is pissing u off and that he needs 2 start calling u at LEAST 2 times a week cuz u can't take it anymore worrying if he's ok or not. My bf is exactly like yours and this got through to him. He calls me every single day and i'm lovin it!! Any how tell him EXACTLY how u feel. If he's not a jerk and if he cares about u like he says he does then he should listen and he'll start doing what u want him 2 do.
1169547
Maybe you should call him and talk it out.  I doubt he wants to break up with you. Why would he do an idiotic thing like that??
1001064
You might be able to tell if he doesn't call you as often or if he sounds strange on the phone, especially when you ask him how his day was. Good luck and try to trust him.
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
308082
Try calling him and asking him what's up with the two of you. If he continues to ignore you, just break up with him and move on. He can't be so busy that he can't even talk to you for a month.\n\nIf he really loved you, he'd make some time for you.
11120
get a better boyfriend. or call him.
1104709
Call him!  Who knows, maybe he is wondering the same thing about you?  Communication goes two ways in any relationship.  \n\nIf you don't feel comfortable calling him, at least talk to him about it, ask him to call you!
98102
Relax and quit jumping to assumptions that have no real basis.  IF he goes a couple of weeks and doesn't contact you then you would be right in what your thinking but we are only talking a weekend, and you never know what happened during that time.  For now just relax and enjoy your life and don't worry about it, he will either call or not call.  Either way, life goes on.
737896
he would know you called him so if he doesn't call you back move on.\n\nsometimes people love each other but not enough.\n\nhowever he may need some space and not want to call until his head is straight (its a man thing)  \n\ni hope it works out for you
544632
Call and talk to him about it first off.  \n\nThen you need to find someone close to you because long distance relationships never work because there is always that thought that they maybe with someone else in your mind.  Relationships aren't worth the headache in that aspect at least now when you can find a comforting one close by.
1047063
yea... call him... if he is your b/f then he wont get mad
558637
I would ignore him, and the best start to that is by not answering your phone. He doesn't want to be with you, and doesn't want anyone else with you. He is a control freak, and doesn't want to see that anyone else could make you happier than when you were together. Move on with your life, and don't let your life become his.
389817
If you are good terms, definately call. Something as small as a phone call can remind someone of how much you trully care. Then again if you aren't on good terms, why rock the boat? Give a week or so, and give him a ring. Don't blow his phone up like a lunatic! lol