how do i know if he is serious or just bein nice?!?
478430
There is only one real way out of it and one okay way out of it.\n\nREAL WAY= Go up to him and talk with him. Was he joking or does he really want to go with you? It might be hard at first, but it's the true way to get his answer. \n\nOKAY WAY= Ask his friends. They know everything about him, and they'll know. Just know that if his friends are kinda dorky, you might not want to trust them with all of your heart.\n\nHope your dance is GREAT! :)
471460
You cannot...trust me.\nHowever,you can tell when he has put some or alot of dedication aside for you-if he chats/emails alot...if he responds on time/most of the time...and if he always checks to see if there are messages from you in his box.Those are some signs that means he cares for you somewhat-if he cares you will notice by the kind words in his message concerning you...words like-I love you,I miss you,I want to be with you so much,I want to make love to you,I think of you all day,I can't stop thinking of you...and the list goes on.True love comes with real experiences & time...you're in a virtual relationship(are you not?)...this does not count as true love...but may be the start of a beautiful relationship...which can lead to love.
242713
There is no machine by which u can check. Just try to listen and understand him carefully. If he share his things with you, he may be sincere. but there is no hard and fast rules for this.
307939
If you really like him then yes, you should go out with him and see if he is as nice as he seems. Looks fade but personality lasts the rest of your life.
337013
You can't trully know about any serious intentions until you get to know him. I mean really get to know him. If he's popping serious questions now, he's kind of shallow,or he is totally going at it on a feeling.Feelings tend to change,or be heavily conditional. Which means those feeling are only there when the conditions are right. Proceed with caution.
879951
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969460
He sounds very immature and many things could be going on within that framework.  You are lucky he is moving on before he really brings more immature and insensative actions into your life.  Be patient and hold out for a quality guy who cares about you and treats you with respect.  Have a blast while you're patiently waiting.  That will make the time go faster and attract more quality guys to you.  Good luck.
855667
He will try to get to know you inside and out and make sure he keeps you happy. His effort would be clearly visible. Ask yourself honestly does this really know me? does he even listens to what you have to say? does he know the small things about you, what you like or dislike? or does he not care or is it usually just about him? is he loving, open, honest, and calm with you? I think these are some of the important things to notice because if they don't exist now then they will probably not exist in future also.
806046
If he cares about you then nothing will seem that strong.  Usually though if guys want to make a commitment, they will be the one to tell you.  Your happiness is on the line.  If he is ready to commit, then he will. If he isn't ready then he won't and then you can make your decision as what to do, whether to move on or stick it out.
1001908
YOU REALLY CAN TELL BY HIS ACTIONS. HOW HE TREAT\nYOU. AND HOW HE IS AROUND YOU. LOT TIME YOU CAN TELL BY HIS CONVERSATION. BUT MOST OF ALL YOU NEED\nTO GET TO KNOW HIM TO SEE WHERE HIS HEAD IS.
153238
It all depends on the guy. Does he seem like he is open to discussing things like that? If you aren't sure, maybe ask him a question that's similar but not as serious and see how he responds. It is definately your right to ask about commitment, but he may not be exactly happy about talking. It depends on what kind of relationship you two currently have and what kind of person he is...
745602
Just wait and see .........don't read too much into it tho......he maybe is just the sort of charmer who does that to all.  Time will tell.
862262
Just look sweet and sexy and let nature take it's couse. Oh walk slowly by him, if he says nothing look back to see if he's looking. Walk back by him and ask him Whats a nice guy like you doing in a place like this!!!!!
358580
Time will tell if he is the right guy see that's one thing us males do is learn the other person looking for or soul-mates.\nThe special things he says and does he will let you now in these ways your special.
751826
Sounds like he's interested.  Why don't you let him know you think he's nice and would like to hang out sometime.  This would be the quickest and nicest way to find out.... I bet he says sure!!!
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
181872
Time will tell.. if he respects you and seems to have a decent history with relationships then hopefully he's sincere.