My best friend is falling for me but i do not love him.....what shall i do?
477360
Make him understand that you do not love him. Try to avoid him all the time. He will not be around you to be insulted. You have to break up your relationship with your best friend if you are not ready to take him as your life partner. Because things will never be the same again. But I would like to suggest you to take him as he wants. he will be able to make you happy as he is your best friend.
811337
babe, you just answered your own question.\nyou obviously dont want to waste your time on someone who isnt really interested in you , he's more interested on your friend.\nwhy would you let yourself have feelings for him when you know that he dont like you like that. and you know that you're gonna get hurt. dont do it to yourself. just be honest with him and be like you want to be with someone who likes you back and not your friend.\ntell him that you could find someone else that likes you coz of you not coz of your friend. \nbut, why did you ask him out in the first place if you knew that he liked someone else??\nplease dont be blind and leave the guy and go for the other one who really likes you the most. trust me, you'll be a lot happier with the other one.
798349
Tell him the absolute truth about how you feel...either he'll fall for you or he won't...you can't force him...
924519
Okay i was just in this situation. I love my friend and we have been friends for a while. I mean we have fooled around and stuff and I fell for him I mean really fell. However he didnt feel the same for me he just kind wanted to do stuff. It made me mad about the whole situation I mean if you do try and go for stuff like this make sure your friend is feeling the same way torwards you. Dont pressure anything make sure it is the right thing to do for the both of you analyze the situation and if you decide you should just be friends that is great.
161525
Yes, you need to talk to him about how you feel.  Admit that you've tried to be ok with his friendship with this person but as much as you try you really aren't ok with it.  Your suposed to be his best friend now, not her and if your uncomfortable with the relationship he has with her he should be willing and want to end it in order not to ruin what you two have.
957897
Leave it alone. NO guy is worth losing a best friend. None. It will probably all blow over eventually and you will later be glad that you didn't do anything.
437147
Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
1181262
yes, I have and honestly unless if he shows some interest of being more than just your friends. If he dont leave it alone, you always fall in love more then once and men come a dime a dozen,,you will get over it.. I am sure that if he does not feel the same and he tells you , you are going to get hurt and ur friendship will never be the same and if you and him do something that may lead you to think that he loves and really he dont then you may mess up ur friendship, and im sure that you rather have him as a friend then not have him at all..just move on and find someone else. Trust me it really isnt that hard, though i am sure that you think it is. but i have been there b4 and i thought that i would never love again,,and boy was i oh so wrong.
69872
I've had this situation 4 months ago. We've just talked about it.. I frankly said, that i don't love him. He offered me to be friends. So we are very good friends right now. But I feel that i'm more than just a freind for him...Sometimes i think that it would be nice if we were together but can't do it right now, 'cause i broke up with my ex-bf yesterday. And i don't want to lose my friend.. It's up to a person :)
402876
put it this way, you amy be in love with him alas he not with you..\nThe fact that you do not bat for the same team should help your decision!\nHe is your best mate...\nIs it really worth it to have a go and ruin the friendship forever???\nI suggest you go and have alot of random sex and get him off your mind..\nfriendship are forever
367520
I feel u, im in the same position but its only 3 yrs not 5 ;p well i told him abt 4 months ago that i have feelings (he's my best friend btw) and that i need 2 take a distance to get over him and we stayed like that 4 a month and it didnt work...try 2 get urself involved with other ppl, convince urself that u like some1 else...(i have no idea why am I giving advice) just try 2 get urself 2 think of some1 else
562790
chill out- wait for them to come to you.. jumping into relationships is a bad idea.. they will never turn out the way you want them to.. find the guy that makes you feel right, the one your comfortable around and the one u can talk to about anything.. and if thats your best friend.. talk to him and let him know what ur feeling.. and maybe see if he wants to give it a shot to.. if its not ur best friend then wait.. it will come eventually!
780244
you have to confront him and tell him how you feel. than you ask him how he feels about you.\n\nif he says he doesn't like you than u'll have to get over that so you wont loose ur friendship
206552
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
764890
If ur sure that u're over that person and u dont have any feelings for them anymore..then why not..but if you feel that this will effect ur relationship wth ur best friend, u should let him/her know
42709
ask him how he really feels about you, but be careful, because one way or another, after you cross that line, your friendship will feel different. in other words, you have to make the choice between a good friend that you already have and a potential partener. this is a gamble you have to be willing to make and possibly lose, but the payoff is worth it because the best loves are your best friends, ask anyone who is really in love