What can I talk about to my crush? I get choked up, and can't think of anything to say.?
492986
I think the best way to deal with it is to convince yourself that you dont like her. The more you think of her as just a friend, the eisier it is to talk normally. Everyone gets ally shy around crushes. Its just normal i guess.
282793
Ask her how her day went...ask her what she feels about this and that....Tell her the coolest thing that youdid today....talk about anything...
633058
i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!
483152
I would suspect that if he doesn't know that you exist, then what you have is not love but affection, or perhaps infatuation.  that is okay, there is nothing wrong, but it is important to recognize the difference.  Regardless, there is but one thing you can do.  talk to him.  You must put the question in the light and let the dialogue lead you.  If you cannot do this, then you must recognize the crush for what it is, and regrettably move on.  Likely, there will be many more to consider and further oppurtunities to embrace.
367742
I would recommend that you just try and relax and slow down. Through personal experiences i have learned that 99% of the time you are worrying over nothing, and there is a good chance your crush is feeling the same way you are. I would recommend trying to break the ice by using humor or if your not good at that just talk about things that interest you. If your crush isn't interested in those things then you probably wont work out anyways because you have none of the same interests. Just remember there are plenty of fish in the sea, relax, if you don't get this one you will find another.
81854
just ask if you can sit down and talk...start a funny conversation then just say " I need to tell you something serious, I love you!"
413961
She digs you for more than just friends. I did this same thing only 4 months ago. She has a "crush" on you, otherwise she wouldn't waste her time. See, pouring out even the simplest thing like telling you she has a crush makes her vulnerable. You will have to spill the beans on how you feel first and bring it out in her to feel comfortable being a bit more candid.
404231
Just be yourself man! That's all you can do. If she doesn't accept you for you, it's her loss. Try by just... talking about something you think might be corny... it's a good start =D
812314
Explain to her what happened & why you didn't say anything. If you guys are really best friends, you'll get over it. Best wishes!
1090344
When you have nothing to say.... just get her talking about herself....  You won't have to say anything after that.  Or you may just be suprised to find out that you both have some things in common and actually will have something to talk about.
723420
Your nervous, He's nervous.  Go up to him sometime and just chat.  Nothing to it but to do it!
738599
Hey hun... well - I know just where you're coming from on this one as my best friend (guy) has just had this problem as he told his friend how he felt about her.\nFirstly, don't feel guilty about saying anything - it will have actually made things less awkward between the two of you. If you're close friends (as you say you are) then she shouls respect you for saying something to her face. Far too many guys don't say anything and the girl doesn't know where she stands at all.\nI don't think you "need" to rectify what you said - it's said now and that's final - you can't sincerely say anything that will take it back - and it will never be forgotten.\nYou say she feels something for you too, but still said you should stay friends - it sounds to me like she's scared of losing the friendship you have, which if it's as special and close as you say would be a shame. I don't understand though, why she said that she liked you and still turned you down - I mean, if she truly respected your feelings - would she have kept quiet and not kept you going through this torture, with the hope that something could still happen. I know that, obviously, you think the world of her - but are you sure she's worh it and she's not just playing with your affections and your emotions.\nI think you did right keeping quiet for a few days, you didn't say anything in the heat of the moment, and have let everything settle. If her reply to you didn't say anything about what you said, this could mean she'd rather move on - stay friends and not spoil your friendship in anyway. However, it could also be that she doesn't want to be the one to raise the topic, maybe she's embarrassed or maybe she thinks you're embarrassed and don't want her to raise the subject. It's up to you on that one - if you want to talk about it then bring it up in a quiet moment in private. However - if you do want to talk about it, make sure you don't sound like you're renewing your feelings to her, or are pleaing with her to take your relationship to a new level - as this is likely to spoil any chances of remaining friends.\nIf you are as close as you say, I don't think she will behave differently. But, even if she does, you MUST NOT behave differently around her - keep being as close as you ever were - this should put her at her ease a little more.\nI know it's difficult, as I said my friend's in the same sit, but you have to try and stop seeing "signs" that she likes you. Just try and see these that you and her are close friends and nothing more. Slowly try and get yourself to see someone else in this way - althought it's likely you will always like this friend as more than that.\nI hope this helps you, good look mate - I have a feeling you might need it with this one.
448765
It sucks having your friend change before your very eyes (when its not for the better).  If you want to voice your feelings about your crush or your feelings toward his new lifestyle, write him a letter.  You won't forget him because you have many memories.  Just live your life and if he doesn't respond to you.... Well, his loss.  Just remember that you had many other good memories and remember him that way not as a jerk....
606254
The key to any relationship is communication.  If you can't talk about how you feel then things are not going to get any better.  Be strong, find a moment during your conversation to just say I love you and I am tired of fighting lets figure out a way to get back on track.  Or something like that, you need to talk about it or it will just get worse.
484640
Ask  her  what  happened,try to  talk  to  her  and  explain  how  do  you  feel  about  not  talking  to  you!
997741
Let me tell you from someone who suffers from shyness.  It gets you nothing face up to it and just tell him next time you are alone with him and he will tell you his feelings. (I know it's easy to say, but all you have to do is get it started and the rest is easy)  Tell him you have something to say and just say it let him know your nervous and he will understand if he's a decent person.
744423
Nobody is unsnarable!Try striking up a conversation and then crack some jokes and small talk.See how he reacts.If it seems positive keep it up.You don't need to do anything drastic since you are only in 6th grade.Aren't you?