I love this guy but he dosen't even know i exsite now, but we used to be friends now I don't know what to do
483152
I would suspect that if he doesn't know that you exist, then what you have is not love but affection, or perhaps infatuation.  that is okay, there is nothing wrong, but it is important to recognize the difference.  Regardless, there is but one thing you can do.  talk to him.  You must put the question in the light and let the dialogue lead you.  If you cannot do this, then you must recognize the crush for what it is, and regrettably move on.  Likely, there will be many more to consider and further oppurtunities to embrace.
978488
First off it sounds like HE hasn't done anything, it's seems like you're the one that needs to do something. It's hard to tell someone how you feel if you don't say anything at all. If the guy and your friend express interest in each other maybe it's just time to move on, no point in hurting a existing friendship over a possible "hookup". Plus if your friend and the guy go out and break up, you'll be right there on the rebound.
1045133
dont forget about him.. you can still be friends with him.. and hwo knows maybe one day down the road thigns wil pick up for you 2 again
1107005
I know that feeling (the terribal feeling not very well)\nTry to be nice, if you are not feeling what he is... Just be honest, your friendship will change of course but he knows it will, he took the risk by saying he loves you...\nDo not be rude he is just been honest, but you do not share the feeling so be clear state it correctly... \nRelation will change so be prepare you will never look at him as it was before, but you can be mature enough to go over this bad feeling you have and time will put you back together again and you will someday laugh about, if you both are real friends OK... sooner or latter you will accept him as he is.
139879
I wouldn't recommend telling him you love him if you've never spoken to him before- maybe it's just me, but that might freak someone out a little bit!  You should start by saying hello, make some small talk, then leave.  Next time you can make more small talk and gradually increase getting to know him over a few days/weeks/etc.- and letting him get to know you!  Let your friendship progress and maybe something more will come out of it.\n\ngood luck!
521247
Sounds like you need to talk to him and tell him how u feel and your sorry for not telling him!!
931864
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876588
i know how that is.. i actually was friends with this boy for 13 years and we were so close and we always had feelings for eachother but never said anything. well i now live 15 hours away from him and we lost everything! it hurts so much to think about him but now he has a girlfriend so its way to late ... it kills me everyday to think what could have been!so my advice call him and let him know NOW!
777318
i had the same  story sweety but if loves you hes waiting for what?if he didnt dont lose him as a friend cuz you had happy memories together.!good luck
242265
Its time to leave him alone when you realize that you are wasting your time on someone who doesn't have a regard for you and your feelings. being a man, I can tell, he's just playing on you and your emotions.\n\nHe is now your EX - means that he is part of your past. Better move on and I am sure you will find someone who will give you decency and respect. if you'd like to be friends with him, not at this time. Once both of you are "settled", may be that's the time for you to consider being his friend (that is if you will still have time and energy to think even about it).
1085512
Aw. Well, just sit him down and explain to him your feelings. Tell him you just want to go back to being friends. There really is no easy or "nice" way to do it because he probably will get hurt. But whatever you do, let him know you still think he's a great guy and that you value your friendship.. =). Hope that helped a little, haha. And thanks for answering mine.. our ages are 16.
663949
About time, you asked what he thinks of you. It seems that you have slipped into that friendship realm, not the boyfriend one.\nUnless some change is made, that's all it will ever be.\nSpeak up, and ask him outright.
340158
Just tell him that seeing him there was a little awckward for you and you're not really sure why.  Or tell him you were having a bad day and didn't really feel much like associating with other people.  Or, you can just tell him, "we broke up a year ago and never really talk anymore.  I wasn't ignoring you and i don't think you're weird. I just didn't have any reason to talk to you is all"
322539
Why did he disappear? he disappeared when you got into trouble? meaning he doesn't accept his responsibility with you...yes you may love him..but he doesn't even know how to be there for you...in my opinion, go out and have fun, there are other guys more willing to accept their responsibility whn they are with a person. Let go, he's totally not worth it...
677067
U should not care about him anymore.Go ahead and forget him and try to make new friends.U have done your bit of clearing any kind of misunderstanding.\nDon't worry about it
129144
I'm in the same situation\nBut all u have to do is walk up to him and just tell him how u feel. But let him know that if he doesn't love u back that u guys could still be friends.\nBut I also know this is easier said than done. Trust me
532258
He may still like you deep inside, so he's afraid that he may fall for you again? Why broke up with who, and what was the reason for it? Were you friends before you started dating? It's always a good thing to make a promise with your significant other that when/if you two brake up, that you will be friends like you were beforehand. Talk to him and ask him; see what he says. I know, its EXTREMELY hard to get guys to open up, that being part of the reason. But it never hurts to try.