how do i know when i am in true love? i thought i was in it once before but it turned out not 2 be true...?
479381
True love is something that you don't have to question. You don't have to think about it.
371127
there is really no right answer to your question, the only thing i can say is that when you are truly in love you will feel it in your heart. love isnt anything to take lightly, but when you are in love you will feel it everytime you see him/her, or hear their voice.
1126569
Short answer:  If you're asking that question, you're not in love.\n\nLonger answer:  True love is a choice you must make every day (perhaps many times a day.)  If you were just following your desires from the start, you probably never really loved them in the first place.  BUT, that doesn't mean you can't!  You have the power to love or not to love, but it's like a freight train:  It starts slowly, but once in motion, can NOT be just stopped.\n\nSo, you have a couple questions to ask of yourself:  1.  Are you going to actively love, or allow yourself to be dragged to and fro by your desires?  and  2.  It this person the one you are going to love?
338664
I have had "true love" and never realized it until recently...After 12 Years! You won't understand until its time to understand, for now live for the moment, do what feels right, and .... just have fun! Really the words to live by, JUST BE HAPPY! at he end of the day, only TIME can tell, the old saying, if you love him let him go, if he comes back it was meant to be! Its soooo true!
570430
When you have an infatuation , you think you're in love . \nWhen you're in love , you don't know that you are , till it's too late .
113760
Truly loves you?  I wonder if that really exists with out you truly loving the other first.  If you wait for someone to truly love you it may never happen.  All you can do and all you can control is you.  You and your own feelings.  I would think that if you are asking about this then you are probably in love with someone and unsure of the others feelings.  Well of course you could ask...but really try this...open your heart and show it.  If the other person loves you then this will only create a space that will allow the other person to respond with love.  For you there also needs to be thought of what you need in life.  Things like helping you with issues you need handled or doing something for someone you love...but all of that is the easy stuff. I was involved with someone for three years and he did everthing for me...but he neer loved me nor I him.  Now I am ivolved with a man that I do not lean on for anything but his heart is mine.  Only after I opened mine and took a chance.
50077
Well for me, it was just something i knew in my heart. Everytime i saw this person my heart would skip a beat and for some reason, i always had to smile when i saw him. There really isnt a how-to to true love. If you feel it with all your heart and soul that you really and truely love this person, then that is your true feelings.
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True Love is exactly that... TRUE Love.  True Love doesn't happen every day though... (So I use all Caps cuz it's SPECIAL)  Just think about it... True Love... but don't worry about it.  You're really young.  Love at your age is a roller coaster ride.  \nAbout True Love:  You know you have found True Love when you're NEVER AFRAID.  That's all I'm sayin.  So don't forget that when you're 18, 23, 32 or however old you are if/when you find it.  And remember there's so much more to live than relationships with other people... so the end of a relationship is NOT the end of the world.  Like I said... you know you've got the real thing when you're OLD, SMART, HAPPY & NEVER AFRAID.  Until then, enjoy the roller coaster ride.
118945
Time will tell. Infatuation does not last. Lust mellows. If you are friends as well as lovers, and can deal with those little quirks we all have, you may have found your true love.
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
29277
All love is true.  All love changes over time.  The more mature you are, the more likely that love will stay love.
813256
you can't tell that you are in love or not but time will tell you. give some time to yourself and everything will be clear itself. so dont worry and let you feelings come out and express .\ngood luck
44979
well, you shouldn't be looking, or it won't be true it will be sought after and kind of planned in a way. true love should just happen, maybe if you stop looking it will be there in front of you. focus on other things in your life that make you happy.
296617
Real true love is very strong. It's not something you have to ask yourself about. You will just know. When you are with that person then everything around you stops. Nothing else matters and time does not exist. You dont think about anything else other than that person. But you have to be careful because infatuation is quite similiar. Ever see William Shakespear's Romeo and Juliet? If not then watch the new version with Leonardo DiCaprio. They died for eachother, thats love.
162858
true love is that thing when you dont know how to express your feelings for them.  you will know inside that it is true love. if you feel that your heart beats faster and slower at the same time then it's true love. if you feel you are always happy, it's true love.
374607
Maybe you fall in love with the idea of love.  You're probably an optimist (like me) and can recognize something lovable in a person in a short period of time. However, what time and experience will give you is the discernment to determine what kind of love it is or to what degree you love the person... whether it's an infatuation, a crush, a sexual attraction, a deep commitment.  My advise is to find out what you want out of a romantic love relationship first. Be clear on this and when the right person/right kind of love stares you in the face, you will recognize it.
175510
u used the word "infatuated" and it may just be it. however, others experienced falling in love with a person even before meeting the person and it could be u this time. u will know because he/she will not get out of your system- be sleeping or be awake. good luck.