if a girl turns you down when you ask her out, how can you get her to rethink her answere?
492202
You have to prove to her that her decision was wrong in all aspects.  If she thinks you're immature, step up to the plate and take on responsibility, etc.
565695
Just be honest and ask if she would like a cup of coffee or if she would have lunch with you. Don't use a pic up line, that is the fastest way to turn us down. Just be yourself and don't stress about it, it will come naturally.
244584
Depends..maybe she really isn't interested.  Ask her out, if she says no then ask why. If you get rebuffed then leave her alone. No, means no.
1094084
Well I think that if and when you ask her out you will know when the righting to do so and I think from what I have read that she is flurting with you. I would make the move and ask her. If she says no don't let it get you down to not talking to her again. She might think that you just want to get into her pants. So just go with the flow and keep talking with her either way. Communication is what keeps a relationship going either it be a friend relationship or a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. \n\nGood Luck
402178
you are just scared that she will say no still.  My friend tony once told me that for every 10 people you ask out 9 will say no, but the 1 that says yes makes the other 9 rejections worth it....  so just do it!!!
993472
You could beat yourself up for days trying to decipher the complicated code of women.  The best thing you could do is just ask her flat out.  Ask her if she is having doubts, ask her if she would want to try to work it out again.  If the answer is no, then it may hurt, but at least you'll know once and for all.
502369
When you go out on dates, she insists on paying for stuff on an equal basis. ( ie : you pay this time, she pays next time). However if she pays for her own stuff every time, that means she probably isn't interested in you sexually, doesn't want to lead you on, and doesn't want to feel indebted to you in any way.\n\nShe shows a strong interest in your life, asking a lot of questions about your hobbies, family, job, etc.\n\nShe changes something about her appearance just because she knows it will make you happy ( for instance, she gets a new haircut, starts wearing shorter skirts).\n\nShe offers you a sip of her drink, or takes a sip out of yours (Essentially she's telling you she's willing to swap saliva with you !).\n                           and if u wanna ask her\nThere are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection (such as making a bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire your confidence.\n\nOptimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone.\n\nAvoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc.). Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN!" they also leave behind a paper trail that may or may not come back to haunt you.\n\nOne way to avoid looking like an idiot is to have something in mind to say for these three possible reactions to your question so you won't be caught off guard :\n\nIf she says "yes"\n\nHave a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.\n\nIf she says "no"\n\nDon't act shocked or offended. Just be like, "Alright." Then carry on the conversation as if you never asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a "no" personally and get ticked off. Girls don't admire or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may actually raise her interest.\n\nIf she says "some other time"\n\nHave a plan B in case she is busy. If she still acts like she has too much to do it's probably because she's not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Accept it as a rejection and move on.\n\nOf course, you go into it expecting her to say "yes" but it's, as with most things in life, it's important to be prepared for the worst. \n\nTips on how to ask a girl out\nThe real key to getting women to say "yes" when you ask for the date IS TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU.\n\nIf a woman is attracted to you then why wouldn't she want to go out on a date with you ? It makes sense but most guys don't think of it that way... they miss the point and focus on "how to ask" rather than focusing on raising her attraction.
878897
just ask her out!! the worst thing she can say is no. and if she says no then just ask someone else out. oh and if she already knows you like her.... ask her out. before she moves on!! =]
786327
bite the bullet --- go and ask her out\n\nshe can only say no
14868
"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
215718
Women like men who are up front and confident.  Just go up to her and ask her if you could talk privately with her. She'll most likely say Ok. Then just tell her you find her attractive or just say you like her and would she be interested in going out on a date.  She'll either say no thanks, sure I would love to, or I'll think about it. If she says no, then forget it. If she says yes, then you got it made. If she says I'll think about it, it usually means she's interested in you and will go out with you. But don't be timid, be up-front. It won't kill you if she says no. Just count it as practice, and ask another girl out.
459961
*smacks you up side the head* You don't "convince" her. You ask her. If she agrees, then there ya go, If she says no, be a man and accept it.
540221
Ask her on a date. There is hardly a girl any where that will turn down a real date, like goping out to dinner, because most girls have never been on a real date, once you got her there ask her how she feels about you. It's not very nice for her to be messing with your emotions. But it sounds like she likes you and is too afraid to just flat out say it.
74521
I think that good approach is the best solution.you should think of some unique approach.you know,say something that will make her smile (but not too much),something that will make her be interested with you,and stuff like that.\nBut don't be too agresive.If she says no just chill out like you don't care.
850497
If you don't ask her anytime soon, someone else is going to and she'll say yes. What's worse than being rejected? She waiting for you to ask her but thought you wouldn't and ended up with another date. Go up to her and ask her if anyone has asked her to the prom then ask her if she'll go with you. Worry too much about being rejected and you won't get the girl.
70509
she might really like you this time.the first time you asked her out she proably just got dumped or she had a rough time with family or something she doesnt want to talk about.you gave her time,and is now proably very interested in you.
165138
Just ask her out.\n\nThe worst thing she can do is say no - and even if that does happen, you'll be no worse off than you are now.