Okay, what am I doing wrong, every time I touch my gf down below, the is usually pain...any suggestions for me
494645
She should probably see a doctor to check that nothing is wrong down there, that would seem sensible.\n\nS\nx
767414
It sounds like friction rub.  You are not lubricated sufficiently and it is irritating those tender tissues in your genital area.  Look in Walmart for a vaginal lubricant.  See if that helps.  Make sure his hands are clean before he touches you there too.  You can get some nasty infections if they are not clean.
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Honestly it's going to be painful no matter how much you play.  You should definatly be relaxed if that's possible, and tell your lover to be slow and gentle and caring of your needs.  Hopefully he will be and you'll be fine.  Good luck!
968445
OK - 1st of all please tell me you are going to use protection!!!  Second of all it is different for everyone - guys dont have any pain, women would be the ones who have more pain... it all depends on how relaxed you are while having sex, but also it is a totally different feeling so it might be somewhat painful, for example, for me it was not very painful, just different, but I have friends who saw a lot of blood after or who have had more pain than I did... just go slow, and if it hurts stop and try in a little while...
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Treat ladies very softly and be always patient with them. Don't try to satisfy yourself only, and dedicate that precious time during sex to give pleasure to woman. I dont think there is a girl in this world that likes to get hurt like that..believe me , that hurts very deep! and when a girl feels pain during sex, she wont get concentrated again in what you were doing, and consequently she wont have a good orgasm, so try to be nice to them, they'll appreciate more if you are soft to them rather than rough Mr Cangri!.\n\ngood luck.
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Pain is the body's response to a physical condition, and your body is telling you that you need to slow down on it.  Tell you bf that your feeling pain, and, if he really loves you, he will understand, and be willing to do it with more moderation.  \n\nI would also recommend you see a gynecologist, to make sure there has not been any severe damage to your vaginal area.
937259
Find a woman that will make you happy sexually too...Sorry there is nothing you can do if the guy is hitting it better then you, just find another..
777554
It shouldn't be a problem unless the pain is \n\n1) Severe or \n2)Long-lasting\n\nA lot of women feel mild pain if the penis is pressing up near the cervix (girl-on-top is a big culprit here).  Serious pain, in sex as in life, is always a sign to slow up and take it easy.  Since you seem to be pretty content with things I'd say you are fine.  If the pain is bothering you, try some different angles and positions... there's bound to be some that allow for mindblowing sex without any pain.
1012525
It is a common problem. Some women just need additional lube. Don't feel bad about it. Maybe try to lick her to orgasm before intercourse.
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I have the same issue sometimes and the more you do it the more frustrated you get and so you keep trying...its a never ending cycle. It could be that you are putting too much pressure on yourself, it could be that he is too fast, slow, small, etc. Positions seem to be something that you can vary to see what works best. The first thing you have to do is stop thinking so much about it, relax. If its not a normal issue for you then there isn't anything wrong with you physically. Try some different things and don't be too hard on yourself. http://www.allsexguide.com
448757
try it on yourself with a cucumber , then you will know how it feels....ask her again later ;-)
691634
Some find it easier than others, but beats me why..... some cases it could be the partner isn't stimulating the right bit... other cases it could be the woman is too tensed up wanting it to c*m, in which case try relax.... forget about trying to c*m, enjoy & lose yourself in the sensations of being stimulated, and just let it c*m when it's ready (though trying to hold it back longer just as it feels like it's gonna blow can be a pretty good trick to make it feel bigger when it does).\nOther cases it could just be weak muscles down there, in which case give this a whirl: http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/Spa/4502/vagex.html 0:-)
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do more foreplay to her and try not to touch your penis to anything.  you could use your tongue to make her so arouse and if she is almost there, then put it in so the two of you could come together.  nothing is better that coming together/shouting together.\n\nif you come earlier than her, then continue with tongue playing till she comes.  good luck!
693936
happens to me too.. it might be to rough.. if so tell him to take it slow... it could cause irritation. uhhh... you dont have to say hes good in bed... he might not be.. being to rough is not always good sex if it hurts its not right. there most likely isent anything wrong with you... im with the same guy it feels great its not rough and i love every second of it... i love the feeling if it gets rough but i know when it gets too rough and it needs to slow down.. make sure communication is very clear between the two of you.... most girls bleed... and the first time you have sex you dont always pop your cherry. you finally poped your cherry and if you dont have sex for long periods of time your vagina goes back to place making you tight all over again.
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Try locking up other position when having sex with your wife. Lock up your organs positioning yourself on her side and slith your fingers to her clit with your one hand and the other hand on her breast. Do not move your body, just slith up and down your fingers on her clitoris slowly....
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IT'S THE WORST PAIN I'VE EVER HAD...I PUT HEAT ON IT WITH A HEATING PAD...THAT RELAXED IT SOME...I ALSO TRIED BENGAY...BUT BE CAREFUL DON'T GET TO CLOSE THE SENSITIVE PARTS...I ALSO WOULD STRETCH IT, BUT THAT DIDN'T HELP...I THINK IT'S LIKE BEING DRUNK...THE ONLY CURE IS TIME...GOOD LUCK
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Talk to her about it.  Let her know you just want to try it.  Tell her you'll go slow, use lots of lubricant, and if she says stop - promise you'll stop.  Also, if pain is an issue - try using anal beads.  They slowly get larger to get her opening used to something larger going into it.  Maybe if you try anal beads she'll see that it can feel good and she'll want to try..