how do i know if my man is cheating?
494616
If he's asked you to marry him - I doubt he's cheating.  When guys (and girls) cheat - they are thinking that it would be better to be single, not thinking of marriage.  To marry him - you have to be able to trust him!  You can usually tell if you know your man well by differences in his behavior - like he starts picking fights for the supidest reasons, etc.  Good luck!
494046
Confront him with your insecurities. But don't go about it in an accusing manner. Rather, ask if everything is right between you two. Trust is everything in a relationship. If there are more signs that come up, then I would definitely look into it. But insecurities from your part needs to come to a resolution of if you do trust him or if you don't.  If there is real proof he is cheating on you then confront the issue. If not, let it be. Showing your lack of trust in him can be hurtful especially if he's been loyal to you all along.
1122105
I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
1117972
PRAY AND ASK GOD TO REVEALED IT TO U IF HE IS CHEATING . BUT MAKE SURE THAT U R READY FOR THE ANSWER CAUSE U WILL GET IT.IM WHEN U GET YOUR ANSWER.
467598
a woman always knows. usually when shes EVEN thinking hes cheating, he is. signs include: buying new underwear/clothes for no reason, taking better care of himself all the sudden, working late, wearing a new cologne, changing passwords, running out for errands more often, not wanting to have sex as much, and taking up new interests. or the more obvious as in my case... i found lipstick/makeup on the shirts, love letters, condoms and late night phone calls. yea, i fired him lol
158958
You will know if he's been cheating on you or if he is using you by the way he acts. If he  rushes out the door when your in the middle of a date then tail him. You will know soon enough if he is or not. If you are close to someone who is in a way of great significance, someone who might be on the verge of changing life as we know it in a good way, and then all of a sudden the man who is now your boyfriend shows up and likes you all of a sudden, he is most likely using you.
945260
i think you need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart talk. ASk him if he is happy with you or tired of you. don't want to scare you but from experience, sounds like he is cheating on you.   Good luck and God bless
222775
If you think that he is cheating, then he probably is.  Ask him.  Don't "spy" on him like people are telling you to.  If you have to spy, there is already a trust issue and that is hard to build up a relationship when there is no trust.  Plus, running around and checking up on him is just a waste of your time, and he aint worth it girl!  Take your extra time and find a decent guy that will spend his weekends with YOU!  Good Luck!!!
1146778
if they start dressing different, listening to different music, going on "drives", things like that. then if you call him on it and ask if he is cheating on you. . .and he gets all defenssive and starts freaking out. most likely. . .hes cheating on you
275119
No one is perfect, if you see him being perfect or any closer to that then check real carefully if he is tricking you. Another observation, he will agree to do anything you'll ask him to do, no matter what you are asking he will agree that means he is cheating on you and he knows that he wouldn't have to do that for a long time, so he can just promise for a short while. Let me know what you've find out.
524436
Listen to your heart and start looking for signs of cheating. I started to have the exact feeling about my ex from 9 years ago. The feeling was very strong and pretty positive. I confronted him, but he just laughed about it. Later he sort of let the cat out of the bag by telling me he was going to hang out with other women and that I should hang out with other men. \nHe wouldn't let me answer the phone, he would get mail from people in the area and hide it, I would come home and find jackets at the house that were not mine, if we went anywhere he would have me drive by the neighborhood floozy's house to see if she was home and things like that. Another thing is, he would sneak out in the middle of the night and think that I didn't know anything about it and one night I was home and this strange car pulled up, I opened the house door and they left in a hurry. \n\nIf he stays out late at night, if is on the internet a lot, if he doesn't let you answer the phone, if he prefers to go out by himself on a frequent basis. Those are some of the red flags. Listen to your heart and be on a look out!
930363
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.
169159
That's a ridiculous question. How should anyone on the internet know whether your boyfriend is being faithful or not?
991498
Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
1051485
If he is repeatedly is cheating on you then wake up he does not really love you as he should! I really do not know all the sighns but you may want to hire a private invetigator to see if he is or not as well. Does he treat you with less respect and love then he did before. Is he showing less interested in sex with you? These are some of the signs. Also talk to his friends and where here works and see if they have ever seen him with another woman. Follow him one day without him knowing it and watch him. Check his pockets when he gets home and also check his wallet and his vehicle too. What makes you think he is cheating? Has he ever been unfaithful to you before?
146161
Not sure about cheating, but if he is keeping secrets from you that sure isn't a good sign.\n\nK
2468
there are to options one or he's too busy doing important things or he is too busy cheating on you, sorry!!!!!!!!!!...\nyou might probably want to ask his friends what is he up to, and well if they can't tell you anything and tell it straight into your eyes then there is something wrong going on