What would u have done in this situation n y am i to blame?
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the fact that he was disrespecting you that much at the party.  whether you are together or not is irrelevant.  he obviously knows that you would not be happy about it and yet chose to do it.  that makes him deeply uncompassionate.  of course you are gonna check his phone, i would have done.  if he wasn't cheating then he would have no reason to be defensive.  of course he will get mad.  its the only way he can get away with not accepting responsibility for his actions.  he is not the kind of guy you really wanna be hanging round with anymore. the important thing is that you know what he was like.  telling him you know will serve as a good way to watch him squirm but will not make a bad situation good. it all depends how badly you wanna tell him that you know :)\nthe best advice is leave it alone and forget about him but that is probably not what you are going to do, and to be honest its not what i would do either.  i would wanna lead him down a path, get him on the subject and get him to dig a big hole then spring it on him.  then when he starts to get mad just sit calmly and quietly and just listen with a smile on your face waiting for him to shut up.  thats what i would do :)
1035286
You absolutely did the right thing by calling the police....imagine if that was your child, or you out there...people really need to get more involved in these situations, maybe our world wouldn't be so screwed up!!!!!
220818
I would have done the same.  Ya never know what someone will assume you did, especially the police.  Its not your fault the door was unlocked and you should not have been put in that situation anyway.  You shouldnt feel bad at all.
403632
don't blame it on urself cuz u didn't no about it, blame it on da girl who did no about it but asked him out 4 u n e way
358218
Nope, you should have been treated that way.\n\nWill you do it again?
529361
Tell the truth, look him/her in the eye, take responsibility for your part of the situation and tell them that you are truly sorry.
600791
You should of picked me for your friend.\n\nI would of given you the correct answer before walking away.  hee hee\n\n\nstef
752974
He want's you to be what you were before you argued, but he's not sure how to do that. I don't know who was wrong becasue you didn't write anything here, but I suspect he may think that you owe him a sincere apology.\n\nJust a theory. If you were wrong somehow, it's a bigger person to be able to say you are sorry.
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Yes I would definately apologize, and I would do so by saying I'm very sorry, excuse me..let me help you gather your things back up.  And if any bags broke I'd go get new ones for her.  It would be a high concern if he didn't apologize..or if it was on purpose.  But if it were a true accident, or if he was truly sorry AND helped then it would be a low offense.  I'm just a nice person! :)
308648
I think that you could probably find a way to blame it on him and sue him. You are pretty creative! \n\nHey Imahlah....I am the only taker he needs!!! hahahaha
967937
you're right! i'm sorry if i caused you any hurt.\n\n\npeace.
1016239
I believe you did the right thing as far as leaving him. Now for sleeping with his friend there is no excuse, unless it was to save one of your life. But he was wrong to push and slap you for it he could have simply left you.
214296
What would you be responsible for?
304360
hey !!!!! now wat did i do?
728431
Ha ha payback is a b**ch! His little feelings got hurt! You didn't do anything wrong tho. Good job!
186346
Err...you're welcome...I think? What exactly did I do though?
812861
calling the police would have been better\nyou're advocating anarchy\n(personally, I dont blame you)\n\npeace