if sex with your girlfriend does not sexually satisfy you , is that reason enough to dump her?
476763
Sex is reproduction, honestly males wont get as much pleasure from sex as females. There are three possible reasons that you  arent satisfied in the act of sex.\n\n1: You are bored with your mate.\n\n2: You were never into her in the first place.\n\n3: You are gay.\n\nThen again, if you are that picky in the first place. Honestly you already know this. You're a primal beast what needs pleasure sexually and loves trying out new things. You want to experience every form of sexual pleasure possible. If you dont get it, you become bored. Honestly, caring for someone and using someone is two different things because if you cared for her sex wouldnt matter. Affection is an useless emotion, humans fool themselves into thinking we are capable of feeling it.\n\nThe answer is yours to decide, because no matter what you hear you'll answer the question on your own.. when you are ready to accept the truth.
533646
don't worry. if you feel sorry for your girl, i can satisfy her.
230408
Not to digress, but her intermittent rigor during sex was pretty poor incentive for me to curtail my cheating and made her not indispensable as a girlfriend.
634840
easy, SEX, she needs sex and likes you, when he comes back, she wont need you for sex.\n\nI could be wrong, want to chance it?
178074
Well what age are we talking here? \nIf you two are too young then I totally agree with her - but if not then perhaps you must decide what is most important to you. Do you love her enough to stay by her side despite the absences of sex, or do you weigh heavily on sex in a relationship. Now, I am assuming this is what you are talking about, (the sex I mean) because if she does not let you touch her at all - then you definitely need to talk/help her or probably best to leave. She must have some serious personal issues.
501759
I think your man has issues...most of all, it sounds as if he is very insecure about his sexual performance.\n\nOften, when there are problems with sex, there are corresponding problems elsewhere in the relationship. \n\nI would want to ask you, are you happy with your relationship in other ways? If sex if the only area of your relationship that you are not satisfied with, then yes, it is worth giving him another chance. When you talk to him, it will help if you are very reassuring to him. Tell him the two of you are in this together and you would like to help him to work it out.\n\nIf there are other areas in the relationship that aren't working, I would say that you seriously need to consider leaving. Sex is not the most important part of a loving relationship. But if you feel that something is missing, you will be unhappy unless you resolve it one way or another. And that won't help you or your man.\n\nHope this helps and wishing you good luck.
1107888
I think you need to ask her the question. Let her know you love her, but you don't like feeling like your not good enough. Ask her if she thinks you should stay together or break up, and let her know the terms of what you need for the relationship to work.
1020917
At this point ...no.  If there is someone better out there for me...why should I be with someone who does not totally satisfy me?  Especially in some cases of women I know who settle for anything...its so sad that they have that low self esteem to take whatever comes there way.  I think I deserve better than that. I definitely would not want to be someone's good enough. I want to be the one, the best they've had.
271235
First of all if you love her then why does sex dominate your relationships. Show some discipline. If sex is the most important asspect then leave her otherwise if you LOVE her make it work. A GOOD MAN WOULD FOLLOW HIS HEART AND MIND. NOT THE PENIS!!!!!
873467
How about less pressure from you? Many times women lose appreciation for sex when the "spark" has faded and their partner just becomes a horny jerk who sees her as a recepticle for his own self-gratification. If you really care about her, you'll stop trying to get her into the sack and take her to a nice restaurant, enjoy a romantic getaway, be attentive and a good listener. Be the man she fell in love with in the first place.
276267
Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
574424
Assuming that you are not having sex because she wants to wait until marriage(but maybe I am wrong in this assumption): I think even for someone who is planning on abstaining before marriage sexual desire is there.  Abstinence is not an easy thing because the person still has the desire.  If she does not have the desire maybe she is repressing herself or just isn't attracted to you.\n\nI'm sorry.  :(
82325
sex does not equate love.\n\nIf you truly love her you will wait for her to open up to you.
1151336
Maybe it's not so much that she's horny, as that she is worried that if you don't get enough you'll cheat on her.  Show her in nonsexual ways that you are committed to her.
167359
Why the heck would you want to?  Seems to me, unless you're a danger to someone, you should let your partner enjoy that.  Unless he/she is complaining. In my opinion, if you're ina  good relationship then a healthy sex drive is very important.
369496
oh I'm so sorry.\nAsk your girlfriend why and expect her to be honest with you. If it's a valid reason - don't take it personally - work on the problem. Maybe you are just not 'his type' but please don't fret - you WILL find someone - this one just wasn't meant to be. :)
554681
No way!... if you don't like sex with her why don't you teach her how you like it?  You made a commitment to your marriage, you can make it what every you want it to be. What you are saying is just an excuse.  I am sure there was a time that you found her a turn on. Well find it again, and if there is things you like then introduce her to it. Talk to her, be open with her. Seek counseling, it really helps!   There is no better turn-on than the ability to do what ever with the person you really love...