I am very torn, at a fork in the road in my life.. ?
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i like the first guy's answer.  if you choose to move to LA, have fun, do it, you're young, most likely not married at that age, so go have fun.  if it doesn't work out, go back to school and get your degree.  it's harder when you get married and have a family.  good luck.
162573
Maybe you need to evaluate where you are in your life.  Its easy to know what you don't like about life.  Its a challenge to make a plan to change what you don't like and stick with it.  Do you like your job?  If no, why? If there was one job you could do and be satisfied in it, what would it be?  Are you in a relationship? If yes, where are you at in it?  Do you want out, are you happy, or are you just stagnant in the relationship?  If no, why?  Do you have any interests?  How is your health?  Are you overweight?  Do you exercise?  If no, why?  Answer these questions and you might see you have limiting beliefs.  Stuff we all tell ourselves like I don't exercise because its to hard.  If you tell yourself this daily(advertise to yourself), that is what you will believe.  If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
524972
It's perfectly OK that you are still unsure about the path you want your life to take. Many people are still unsure when they are ready to graduate from high school or college. Don't worry about what your friends think. Each of us makes these choices when the time is right for us. You will, too. Take your time and don't let anyone push you into making a choice before you are ready. God Bless!
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No one can tell you if you should do it, Mike.  You have to make your own decision and then whatever comes from that decision learn from it.  I'd be inclined to recommend you go for it as it is probably an opportunity and experience you shouldn't let pass you by.  However, if you have a family you're supporting, stick with the two jobs.  If it's just you, go for it.  Live life to its fullest.  Make mistakes and become a success!
890688
You state "any help would be appreciated". How did you get stuck with having to make the choice? That's a he ll of a responsibility. Good Luck.
615857
Life is too short while there are so many choices and things to do.\nI wouldn't worry about it one bit. If you are not happy where you are now, move on!
411858
You are controlling your life.  Deciding to go with the flow is your own decision. Even doing nothing about a situation is making a decision (to do nothing).  Don't be so hard with yourself.  I was well over 30 before I decided what I wanted to do.  Stick it out if you can.  At least with that subject you will learn alot about yourself (and therefore others).  If you can't stick it out then leave, and when you do learn what it is that makes your heart sing - go for it, get the qualification then - like I did.\nGood luck
663853
I think you need to listen to your heart and make a decision. Don't stay married if you aren't TRUELY happy, it isn't worth it. Take some time to just think without any outside distractions. :)
155102
Run just as fast as you can away from this man.  You have a child to think of now and is this the way you want your child raised?  If you can't think of your child, then think of yourself.  You deserve so much more out of life than this and there is so much more out there.  I know it will be hard, but there is a light at the end of this tunnel.  My thoughts are with you.
112516
Im very sorry but I only have 2 advice for you...\n\n1.) LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE...\n2.) DECIDE WITH BOTH HEART AND MIND IN EVERYTHING YOU DO...
966010
Listen to your heart man ....life is all about taking a decision , its only time that tells later if your decision was correct one or not ..... \n\nListen to your heart ..ask yourself .... and do it if you feel its right. Also there is never a right time to get married and have kids.
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Live with your choice.  That is what life is all about.  If you feel like you need additional time to kick yourself in the butt, do so.  Learn to express your regret, write it if you cannot speak to anyone about it.\nYou do not have to go through this alone.  Pay attention to those around you and you can find help.\nTime will pass.  This is not the end of the world, it just may seem that way now.
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if iu was you i would, but that is totaly up to you. you are your own person and part of love is making the right choices. if your ready for that then go for it...if not then dont im sure he'll understand
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Being in this situation is not fair to either of you.  You need to search your heart and figure out what you want.  Then find an appropriate time to sit down with him and honestly share your feelings and concerns.\nI was in a similar situation and getting out of it was the best for both of us.\nIf you need to talk I am nephthys_tombguardian on YIM or email me @ SusanASarandon@hotmail.com\n\nPridefully Loving Women,\nAmanda
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I hope you are truly comfortable with this decision. Sometimes traveling on the road of life you come across a fork in the path, step over it. \nAs far as my opinion goes, which is not far, it rarely strays from home. I do not think you require my validation about the decision you have made. So by that measure I think what you are doing is just fine.
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in this case ur mind and heart wud chose two diff options.. follow da choice of ur heart... it wil never let u down
84320
It is a question you should ask yourself where you feel at ease and in best of your composure and feelings I think we by saying this is good and that is bad may confuse you more. The choice is yours and only yours to make. But we could pray that you lead a good and happy life and may you be blessed with the guidance that is best for you.