do you have any words of wisdom for a broken heart?
481120
My heart really goes out to you, I can't imagine what you are going through with your daughter. It sounds like you have made a great start with the day to day stuff and i think this is the best thing to do -concentrate on each day and don't look too far ahead. Rely on your family and friends and don't stop talking about it, play with your baby and wait. The waiting is the hardest part, but if you take it slowly and don't set a time limit - don't say for example that by next week you will have stopped crying, or that by next month you will be over him and don't judge your own 'get over him' time by someone elses, everybody does things in their own way. But i promise you that if you keep doing what you're doing it will go away, it really will, you just have to wait. Wishing you all future happiness xxxx
193640
If you really mean it.. let your emotion go in a personal one on one conversation and cry. \n\nAllow your heart to let your eyes weep and feel the remorse in your soul so you will never make that mistake again by remembering the pain it brought you and the person you are sorry to.
242969
1.Get yourself involved in some other activities to help get your mind off the person.  \n2. There are other fish in the ocean, and maybe by getting involved in something, you can meet someone special that will heal that broken heart.\n\nThe main thing is you got to move on or nothing will happen.
561931
Your heart and soul feels bad because you are missing the most important lover of all time. The lord Jesus can heal ur broken heart and pain and weakness of the spirit. Learn his ways, speak and pray to him, and he will guide ur path.
809492
That's too bad :(  Life stinks that way.  There is a song out there.  I think its a Country western song called unanswered prayers.. It really speaks to broken hearts like yours.   \n\nI want you to move forward, not to dwell or look back with hurt.  Don't call him.  I say this because my mother dwelt on her first love...she is now 75 and never moved on.  I am adopted because she had not children she had no life,. She dwelt.  \n\nLook at the experience of love with him as a growing one.  Think about how to move on.  You might miss the right person right under your nose, if you keep looking back.\n\nblessings
658466
I'm sorry for your lost i hope something will help you to move on and your heart will heal soon. When i lost may love ones i went to my friends and hung out. Played bingo now that did take my mine off thing trying to keep up.\nAnyways best of luck.
744227
i recently went through something similar to this myself. i know you probally feel horribly depressed right now, and thats because you're heartbroken. i can tell you that eventually the pain does go away...take some time to grieve and then try to forget about him. someone once gave me a piece of advise that really helped me:\n\nbeing heart broken is like being in the dark.... and everytime you think your getting close to the light switch you just stub your toes. and you have to start all over again. but there is a light switch there. it might take a little bit to find it. but one day you will get there......... it might take awhile to get over this guy... but always remember... through all those stubed toes there is a lightswitch
669574
It takes a long time to heal a broken heart. Take it 1 day at a time. Allow yourself a certain time every day to think about him, cry laugh whatever.  Think positive happy thoughts about the 2 of you. Lean on your friends for support. Remember him with love.  Try to get on with your life the rest of the time, keep busy so you,re not always sitting around feeling sad. It will take time , but you'll get there.
1124675
How sad .......you lost the very first love you ever had because of someone you trusted ......... someone you had been kind and loyal to. You not only lost your first love, you lost a friend : two deaths.\nI think that it will be hard to resolve your feelings because there is no way to resolve the issue. You can't change the past.. Your relationship was interrupted. In order to heal from this tragic wound, you need to approach it the same way you would a death. You need to go through the stages of grief. There are some good methods outlines at : http://www.elderhope.com/e_class/new_grief/grief_2_2.html\nI am so sorry for your losses. \nI carried the unresolved loss for over thirty years, and then I called my childhood boyfriend (I found his phone number on the internet). I told him what had happened and we talked about it. We talked about our lives and families and things in general. About two weeks after our conversation, I woke up one morning and realized I was no longer thinking about him. I realized how happy I was that we never married. I was thankful my life had taken a different direction.\nI still feel pain about my friend who betrayed me. Her actions caused me to distrust people throughout my life. I wish I had had someone to help me go through the grieving process when I was young. Good luck. There is a different, better ending to your story. One day you will be happy about it because, if your boyfriend had been a purer person, he would not have abandoned you because of gossip.
601717
well, first you have to forget about the idea of your 'one true love'. whether or not such a thing exists, she was obviously not it. for the other part - I'm sorry but I don;t know any shortcuts through a broken heart. give it time, try to get out and be around people who can distract you, try to find a job, hobby, or person to be excited about. One day you'll wake up and she wont be the first thing on your mind...I promise.
86475
This has got to be a horrible time for you, not to be able to go and be with the ones you love in this horrible time of need.  I have no words of wisdom to give you that will ease your pain, nor help you either.  Use the phone regularly to call home, use the computer t seek counsel, and pray that this to shall pass.  Pretty lame, huh?
1024437
A broken heart is one of the worst pains to endure.\n\nI wish you well, and can tell you from experience, it gets much, much better. Be specific about what you want in a relationship, and I promise, you will find what you are looking for......or that person will find you. I'm not kidding. Happened to me, after the harshest broken heart that I thought I could ever undure.\n\nKeep on rollin'!
95805
U know,,i have beenthr this before,,and i can tell how hard it is,,but u know what,,i have learned many things,,if he was so weak,,or so whatecer,,the reason is,,to leave me alone,,with pain in my heart,,HE WAS NOT THE ONE FOR ME,,,if he was the one I trylu deserve,,he wouldnt have left me crying,,he would have rather die than see me weeping,,\nBe stong,,,have faith,,the better is yet to come,,try doing new things,,sports,,,reading,,going out,,try not to focus on him,,,\nI wish u all the best,,and i am sure u will find someone much better soon
763607
There really is no cure.\nSorry to say. \nI felt the depression thing many times when i came out of a few serious relationships and thought that this whole love thing was a pile of 'poop'. I though that I would never find love and i hated the depressed feeling that i  experienced everytime i thought i had found love. So i gave up. literally\nOne night  i cursed love and said, "Dam you love , obviously i am just not meant to be with anyone, so i give up!" [i really did say this out loud by the way!]\nThat night i went out to the local pub with a few of my friends to live my life as a now free, loveless, uncursed woman.\nAs i walked into the pub it was like in the movies. [ and trust me i'm a sceptic of this whole movie, slow motion, angels singing, light shining from above rubbish] I saw the most beautiful man i have ever seen. He looked at me , i looked at him. We gazed, we stared. I am now married to that man.\nYes true story.\nI know ,I never would have believed it myself.\nSo my advice is give up. Love is like a rainbow. The more you try to catch it the farther away it tends to get. So just walk away and it will come to you.\nIts hard I know. Hang in there.
800532
loved this one>> Needing someone is like needing a parachute, If he isn't there the first time, chances are u won't be needing him again!\n\nhere r some of mine\n\n"They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel."\n"Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts.  ~Author Unknown"\n"Can you imagine a world without men?  No crime and lots of happy fat women.  ~Attributed to both Marion Smith and Nicole Hollander" ...lol\n\nThanx
668018
good day to you,\n\n I understand what you are facing now. but you have to start first by asking forgiveness to the Lord our God and let him rule your life rather than you rule your own life. everybody had a mistake. but it's up to you to fix it. Try to reach God and feel His love deep into your heart. Talk to Him and it's more easier to overcome your problem by crying out all your pains while praying. His always there beside you and and never leave you all alone. He loved you very much simply because He still let see the brighter color of your life, grab this chance that He gave you. Then one day a big surprise will happen. God already touched your heart so don't let him go again. Pray everyday and let Him lead your life. And if you  do all this things, God will do the rest by healing your family's broken hearted.
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It's amazing how someone can break your heart, but you still love them with all the little pieces.\n\nBe Careful