what would u do if a best friend told u dat your boyfriend was cheating on u & when you ask him he deny it?
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Who do you trust more? And who is more likely to tell the truth?\nAsk your best friend to tell you the whole story and repeat the whole story to your boyfriend. If he really is cheating, chances are he'll get flustered and deny it like crazy.\nIf your friend has a history of making stuff up, you should probably trust your boyfriend.\nReally, you know who is more reliable of the two. You have to decide who's telling the truth.
1094956
Do you really need to ask this? If you respect yourself, you will realize that your boyfriend is not worthy of being in a relationship with you, and your best friend is not a real friend. Surround yourself with people that are worthy of your friendship and love.
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
867882
this is called learning.\n\nyou waited three months to talk about it.  even if you had told them right away, you still broke the trust of three people.  yes, three people.\n\nyou lied to your friend by sleeping with her man and hiding it.\nyou lied to your man by sleeping with his friend and hiding it\nyou lied to your secret lover by saying you wouldn't talk, but you did.\n\nthere was no good way out of it to begin with, but now you should have learned a valuble lesson.  some things might hurt a little to keep inside, buy they hurt a lot more when let out.\n\nsomething about best friends though - a best friend will forgive you almost anything - she forgave the boyfriend, didnt' she?  let her do it on her own though.  maybe ring her up in a week or two, to go out and get pizza or something - but don't talk about it then either!  it's over, don't bring up a past that can't be cured.
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you have to be upfront and honest with him and the sooner the better.  if he is a true "good friend" he will not get upset with you telling him the truth and asking him to tell everyone he lied about you being the girlfriend.  maybe you are leading him on and dont even know it.  ask him what would give him the impression that you wanted to be more than friends and apolgize for that. make sure he understands that you don't want to ruin the friendship but you dont want him spreading rumors either....
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If you feel you need to have him investigated and can't trust what he tells you......\n\nfind a new boyfriend.\n\nCut your losses and move on.
570781
believe your best friend!! unless you know that she's the jealous type or prone to lying, believe her! think about it, why would she LIE to you?
174335
This will probably be the hardest thing that your friend has to do, but she has little choice in having to face her boyfriend and tell him what has happened. Either way he is more than likely going to find out, and it would be easier if she told him right away instead of waiting, letting the tension and suspicion build, and then slamming him hard with it in the end. If he leaves her...well, I am sorry, but she was the one that decided to cheat on him in the first place. If she had been faithful to him, this would be another matter. She cannot blame him for being angry or hurt, or maybe deciding that he wants another girlfriend - one who will be loyal to him. \n\nAgain, I send my sympathies, but there is really little you can do about the situation. Just remember, the sooner she tells him, the better. Don't make this any harder than it has to be...and, I won't lie, this will probably be very hard.
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first be sure. if it's true find a new best friend and a girl friend. if she's cheated on you she'll cheat on him and he'll know how you felt. but don't give either one another chance.
635942
Rumors are extremely dubious and I would not take their word for it. It could have been someone who looked like him, a rumor by someone who has a crush on him, who is jealous,... I would just try to be aware of what your friend says about him, and if any warning signals of cheating go off, then you might want to have her talk to him about it.
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Girl...If you and your best friend are like "paper and glue" close, I think you should think it over. Think "Would she/he do that to me?" Make sure you know whats good for you. A Girlfriend/Boyfriend come and go, best friends are for LIFE! (If you have the right one)
1116146
Well if your bf's cheating with your bestfriend, whats the difference if you do it????? hehe
610339
Ask him and study his reactions. I'm sure you'll be able to tell if he's lying. It's best to be upfront with your suspicions. Tell him why you think he's cheating. If you keep it to yourself, your suspicions will ruin your relationship.
560209
Before you do anything,find out the truth.Either of them could have been lying.If it turns out your friend lied ,apologize to your now ex and dump the friend.
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For starters, why were you laying on the couch with your boyfriend's best friend??\n\nDon't hurt your boyfriend. You own this situation, not him. I would ask his friend WHY he tried to kiss you? Were you sending him mixed signals by laying on the couch? You should have confronted him with it when it happened. \n\nDon't put yourself in that position again. Sorry, I can't get over the fact you were laying on the couch with him?!
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If he's really your best friend.. level with him, tell him what you heard and saw, and tell him out of respect for him you thought that he should have the information to draw from.. \n\nThen let him take that info and do whatever he wants with it.. don't try to convince him... let him convince himself. \n\nThe thing is, he will either find the truth or decide to convince himself that the information was wrong...either way support his thinking.. and be relieved when he finds out that it isn't true...even if you KNOW better, he will eventually see the truth and know that you gave him a heads up long before he was able to believe it for himself.
930363
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.