Should I break up wit my gf and go wit my friend?
481770
First of all, your gf has to realize you can't make someone stay in a relationship the other person doesn't want to be in or love you if they don't. And if your feelings aren't there for her, there aren't there.  If you would like to save your relationship with your gf, then you probably need to cut all ties with your friend because your relationship with your friend will only get more serious.  I hope this helps!  Best regards.
272207
Don't give it another minute!!! You don't have to be in a serious relationship from day one. Just let her know you'd be interested in taking her out. If the ex is a friend of yours all bets are off, you have to wait until she breaks up with the next guy.
738192
b4 asking her out, talk to you're friend.  if he's ok with you dating her, then go for it. but if not then you should just stay as friends, you wouldn't want to loose a friend over a girl.  a girl you probably wont stay with forever.  will it be worth loosing a friendship?  it's obvious she likes you but she's probably still has feeling for the other guy so it's not a good time to move in anyway
512991
break up with them and go out with someone else
616527
The LAST thing you want to do is tell EITHER of them. You state you dont WANT to love her. Then stop it, she is with your FREIND. Show some character and dont interfere with THEIR relationship to satisfy something that you state yourself that you dont really want to begin with. Women DO come and go...but FREINDS can be forever if you treat them right.
876829
I would jsut talk to the girl and tell her what i think is going on between them and let her decide if she wants to break up with him or not because if you cause a break up and your freind finds out she might be angry with you!
309256
Absorve some more and if it is fure sure brake it up!!!and if later she hooks up wiht your friend dump your freind!!
1020083
Dont ever loose someone for someone else.  If both parties are that close to you - you can come to some agreement between them.  See your friend  - then see your girl.  Let them both know how you feel.  Whichever one is willing to work out the situation is really there for you.  Hopefully they will both understand - you dont all have to hang out together at the same time.  True friends are hard to come by.  They are there for you to the end...But when a relationship goes bad - who do you turn to?  If it is her asking you to give up your friend....tell her no way.  If it is him asking you to give her up - find out why
185831
Try playing in Candlyland.  The answer is obvious: If you love the girl you get along with, then thats that.  If you want an affair at the cost of ryuining what you have with your girl, then get with her friend.  But trust me when I say if they are best friends they will know about you hooking up with both of them.  Problems can only arise when 2 women get involved.\n\nFollow your heart and ignore the friend.
1149028
Treat your boyfriend as you would want yourself treated.\n\nThat is, if your boyfriend were in the predicament you were, what would you want your boyfriend to decide?  Would you like him to do what you are thinking about doing?\n\nMy guess is that he would not want you to do what you're thinking about doing.\n\nNow, if you break up with your boyfriend, that is another story as you will no longer be in a romantic relationship and do not need to consider his feelings when you are making romantic choices.\n\nOn the surface, having sex with your friend to me sounds like a very bad idea at this point in time.  If you break up with your boyfriend, I might have a different opinion.\n\nOverall, respect your boyfriend's feelings while you are in a relationship with him.
559004
Sounds like you need to break up with your girlfriend first before you do anything else. If you didn't break up with her, it wouldn't be fair to your current girlfriend, the girl you love, and yourself. Once you do that, you can explain to the girlfriend that you like her and want to be with her. Good luck!
679462
if u have explained 2 her that this is the only reason maybe u should check up on that going out w/ 'friends' thing...shouldnt do any harm now...also explain that u still love her and if she loves u back she will at least listen 2 what u have got 2 say...or otherwise its over...i hope 4 the best
206979
you have tons of time, just stay friend with her and make a move when they break up!
945707
If you really loved her it shouldn't have been important if she didn't want to go any further, but it also depends how long you two were going out. Offcourse at this age love is not that important yet, and it's more about the fact you've got a gf. If she forgives you for flirting with her friend, there should be no worry of going out together because, noone would be happy if you were straight away hooking up with someone, even worse if it was your friend. Just slowly get into doing things. And never push them into doing things they don't want!
1142165
No, never break up with someone because you think they are too good for you, if that were the case theyd telly ou, thats unfair to them. And it isnt fair to her for you to let her friends push you away, just tell her how her friends are making you feel.
422806
no no no dont break up with the one you love.....\nunless its at the end of the road...and you cant sort out the problem.\n\nbut if your reason to break up is about the new girl....thats just WRONG!
1038395
Accept it, and if you mean your bf or gf, I'd recommend breaking up because there are trust issues.