i told this guy that i think he gives me a harder time than anyone else and he says he treats me the same as?
483103
just because you put a question mark at the end of the sentence doesn't make it a question.
47836
if he's hurting you now... imagine how much more he's going to hurt you if you stick around. That's not what love is all about. For real, that's not what love is all about.\n\nNo one deserves to be treated like that. You wouldn't treat someone you cared about like that... why are you letting someone do that to you. \n\nMove on and don't look back. Even if he calls and you want to answer... don't, cuz he already has shown you his disrespect for you. to him, your just a filler.\n\nThere is nothing insane in being with someone who wants to be with you and enjoys and loves you.\n\nGirl, don't get sucked into his world... get out before he makes you suffer even more. \n\nOne day you will look back and realize you did the best thing cuz your gonna have someone who will really appreciate and love you.
654518
hes probably a sore loser because girls dump him so he takes it out on you. my advice is find some one who can treat you right and in the way you deserve to be treated.
476950
Tell him he has to trust you. Without trust theirs nothing. If you can trust him then he should be able to trust you. Don't let him treat you unfairly.
824567
I Think He Thinks He Got U No Matter Wat. I Think He Thinks He Can Drop U And Pick U Up Whenever He Wants So If U Want 2 Hang Out With Him Then Hang Out But Play The Same Games He Play. It Aint Nice 2 Go Around Hurting Peoples Feelings So Let Him No How It Feels Go Out Wit Other Guys N Things Like That. Dont Like Him Weight On your Mind Do U.
944450
I know what its like . Does he treat you the same way he treats any other girl? If he does things like smile at you all the time it is a big chance theres chemistry. Send your friend undercov. again to talk to him about you then ask her what he said. You can show him that you're interested by touching his arm and laughing at jokes but dont get too personal 'cause if theres a chance he doesn't feel the same way you will be totally embarrassed
755853
The person above is right, he is just using you.  Besides if he talks to you like that when he wants you back, how is he going to treat you once he has you.
510785
It sounds like he may be trying to push you away in the hopes that *you* break up with *him.*  He may be too chicken to do it himself.  The problem is, is that it's affecting your self-esteem.  You don't deserve to be treated that way- being used is no fun, so don't allow it!  Think about where you see yourself in 5 years.... still in the same place???.... .don't waste any time.  Believe me, there are guys who will treat you right.  We teach people how to treat us- don't allow it anymore!!
771758
What a drag.....Sounds like maybe you should take you resume somewhere else.  Some people have to downgrade everyone else just to make themselves feel better, superior, or whatever reason.  It's obvious he's got issues.  You're only going to be able to put up with him for so long before you'll probably snap.  Start looking for other employment because I doubt very much if he'll ever change.  Unless you feel like stepping up and being the one to change him.  Confront him with the problem.....maybe he needs to hear how he treats people....\nI sure hope whatever you do things work out of you...\nGooday! ! !
337262
from the sounds of it he's just saying things to make you feel better, but then goes back against them.  maybe it just makes him insecure to realize that you can go out and do everything, and then what do you need him for? \nbut more likely it's putting up a false front, then cutting it out from under you to make you more dependant upon him.  he likes his cozy little life of having you do everything for him.  if he has the time to pester you about things he wants done, then he has time to do them himself.\nhe might not realize what he's doing, but the first step in this is to ask him about it.  if you are scared of the outcome of having a serious discussion with him about the relationship, then there are definatly some major problems with it...
533944
don't get too excited..maybe he only thinks you are nice,that's all!maybe his strange actions means "SORRY FOR THE THINGS I'VE DONE LATELY"
676771
Yes, make this move: Find a NEW boyfriend.\n\nDo you think you would treat him the way he treats you??? He is playing you. Forget about him and do something good for you, and this time choose a MAN not a child.
212493
Who needs a relationship that's this difficult? There are better ones out there. I'm not saying he's a bad guy. You two just sound like a bad fit. Find someone who is more in tune with you.
414298
No, then he would think that there is a reason you are doing so.  Just make it seem like it doest bother you and act natural.  That way if you seem true and not up to something he will be more at ease with you, it might take some time.
662062
wow he sounds like a real ass.  please find another guy to like, who will treat you nicely and how you should be treated (instead of being USED by the guy you "love")
64736
Well, some guys do understand man. I dont treat girls like that. And i know alot of other guys that don't.\nSo, i think your predicament is kind of solitary.\nMaybe you should work that out among the guys that youre around, because people i know aren't like that.
122793
My husband says the kinkier I am the harder it gets,and I would have to agree with him