Help! How can i maintaine my girlfriends feelings for me? i want to be with her for a very looong time.?
479096
Do things together, make suggestions, not demands. Show her affection.  Don't treat her like any other girl.
681676
come on just think again..do u really love her?u cant just leave her suddenly like that then suffer the break up..the most important thing is 2 keep on thinking over and over again about the good things u have 2gether..do u wanna give this up?
1056808
Patience is a virtue, or so they say.  Anything worth having is worth waiting for.  You hang in there, your time is coming.  Is she far away physically or far away in time?  Just keep thinking about how great it's going to be when you are together and you don't have to be apart again!
1105904
stay with your girl, bcause you know she alreddy luvs you. if you break up, then go for it
60019
let her have her time and be there if she needs you..she will get out there and probably realize that you are what she wants...don't pressure her that will only drive her away
375724
Just because you think you are right for her, doesn't mean that you can make her think that.  You can't control someone's feelings you know.\n\nGive it some time, if she doesn't have feelings for you, just go on with your life and find someone else.
233156
If it was meant to be than you just need to be yourself, show respect and self-respect and treat her as you would want to be treated.  If she cares any for you than you will know and if it's suppose to happen it will.  If it doesn't than move on and don't look back, always forward.
1021941
Sweetheart, you are young and in love; I know it sounds like a hard thing to do, but just be her friend, you are both too young to have this kind of stress in your lives. Be her friend, and be a good friend, things have a really weird way of working themselves out, so don't worry, if you love her you will cherish any relationship you have with her. \n\nP.S. You sound like a guy that any girl would be lucky to have, but I have to tell you; this probably wont be the last time you feel this way. I wish you good luck and good love
733871
Theres no simple way of telling her how ur feeling its going to hurt both of yous but its best if u just tell her the truth, straight out.. If youre at the point where u wana break up with her or spend time apart i think maybe its time to move on.. If it is really meant to be with you and ur girlfriend love will find its way in the end.. Good luck n be strong!
168583
try and befriend her first...take baby steps before blurting out that u love her and then when she has won your trust and admiration tell her that you not only love her but want to spend the rest of your life together
85207
Sit quietly for a while.  Think about her.  Feel how it is to be with her.  Imagine her standing directly behind you.\nTell her what is in your heart.\nThen quickly write done what you said.  You might forget in the excitement.
752610
be as well as u love her. she will feel u
551961
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
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how close are you guys? sit her down were you two are most comfortable and just speak your mind, or if you arent one to speak your mind find a way to show her and get her to think that way for you, kinda like minipulation but for a good cause. if she feels the same way you can kinda tell alot of times, be confident and just tell her, womenX i have been feeling this way for a long time, Or my style---there was a secret i have been hiding from you for a long time, and it kinda scares me *build up the suspense*...i have never mett anyone like you, or something.....bla bla bla u get the picture, Dont be afraid of rejection, it either works out or it doesnt bro.
62918
Stay the course...If you really love her..do what you have to do and keep your dignity..keep loving her and time well might be the answer...Have faith & good luck to you !!!
1004869
You need to use this time for reflection, love does not disappear that easy! Communication is the key, maybe she is afraid, the best thing you can do is show her that you support her and care. Take it slow and both of you need to rememer the things that brought you together in the first place. If after all this she still does not want to marry, LET GO...
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Just be nice. Spoil her, giver her the time of day. If you are caring and sweet she will fall for you.