well my friend had sex with her boyfriend (willingly)and is accuing me of telling others that he rapped her.?
481151
DO NOT TAKE THE DEFENSIVE.  THE BEST DEFENSE IS A GOOD OFFENSE.  THAT IS TRUE IN SPORTS AND IN MOST SITUATIONS IN LIFE ALSO.  YOU ARE KNOWN BY THE FRIENDS THAT YOU KEEP.  YOUR FRIENDS ALREADY KNOW YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE.  THIS DOES NOT DEPEND ON WHAT OTHERS MAY OR MAY NOT SAY ABOUT YOU.  SO STAND TALL.  IGNORE STUPIDITY.  AND FOCUS ON STAYING NICE TO OTHERS AND STAYING HAPPY.
863551
Remind her of all the good  things u  did together,and also  tell her  that your feelings are being hurt. If shes  a true  friend she will stop doing those rotten things to you. If not sleep with her boyfriend, just kidding. Good  luck !
39903
If they know it bothers you and you claim they are doing it on purpose, just pretend it doesn't. It seems that the root of her flirting is to get at you, just smile and say to her..."isn't MY boyfriend great", to her. Pretend you think it is totally an ego booster for you to know that someone else wants  your guy. Reverse psychology, baby!
791185
Ouch-she should have never said that, but his comment was probly not ment as flirting sometimes people say that as a joke, because they know the other person would not really show them. But if you feel she would have shown him then it preobly was joking, if he also felt that she would show him.
246012
If she has seen the evidence and still refuses to believe the facts, then there is nothing else you can do. If you keep pushing the subject she could get angry with you and you could lose a friend. And keep in mind that it IS possible you and other friends have misread his actions. But if in the end, she realizes what has happened, just be sure to comfort her and avoid telling her, "I told you so."
805212
Your friend did you a favor and now you want to stab her in the back with her boyfriend?\n\nThat's dirty and low down. You need to find your own boyfriend and leave hers alone.
586159
Forget him and just move on to someone else. You shouldn't be with someone like that anyway. And your friend is also immature what doing what she did, are you sure she was telling the truth. I wouldn't trust her again.
261332
It's very hard to read your question but what I got from it was that your sister called her boyfriend who had one of her friends over there alone and so she thinks he's cheating, am I right? If so then I have a question, does she know for sure? If she doesnt then I think she needs to talk things out with her boyfriend if he is cheating and she for sure knows that then she needs to dump his a** and her friend too!!!
851332
hell yea wut the hell??? shes just trying to start drama cuz she has nothing better to do. u have backstabber untrustworth friends nd u noe wut? its better that this happened cuz atleast u noe that whoever did this to you isnt really your friend nd if i were u just dont talk to her EVER again.....nd if u didnt do anything u really dont owe anybody an explanation....just tell the friend that thinks your said soomething about her what really happened nd if shes a good friend she'll believe you
389394
I'm really sorry to hear what happened to you but....\n\nCall the cops, let them give you a rape kit, and  (especially if they are conviced you were raped) PRESS CHARGES.\n\nWho cares if this was a friend, or a friend of a friend! PEOPLE LIKE THIS ARE NOT FRIENDS AND NEED TO BE STOPPED!!!
577627
Your perception of what you heard in the one sided conversaton, clearly " sounds" like a someone admitting they are " dealing" with some female in a BAD way.  I would report it, and let the police deal with it. Better for your concience in the long run.
558494
Was it his girlfriend??\nGossip is always around. If he is a really good friend, he won't say anything about it to anyone, unless it's his girl!\nIf he isn't a good friend, I am sure he will tell others.\nPlease rate my answer, and I do wish you the best.
841150
look into it. dont get played. it might be true, or maybe not. check the source, it could be the girl is lying or jumping to conclusions\n\nyou need to decide which you value more between your friendship and your girl, because if the rumor is true you might have to choose between the two.\n\ndont give her a second chance to play you. flip it on her. double-team her with your buddy, or make out with the chick that squealed on her. when she confronts you about it, flip it on her that she cheated first. if she leaves you, no big loss, if she stays, you'll be in charge
713997
If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.
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Will she really do it when it means her bf would get in trouble too?  If this is for a drug problem she'll just keep pulling it again and again.  Might be better to just call her bluff and threaten to call the cops on her for blackmail/extortion.  Or face the music now rather than giving her thousands of dollars and ending up facing it later anyway.  I dunno, that's a toughie.
1170332
I don't know but if I were her I would forgive you but I would move on to find friends that would be loyal and come to my aid not turn people against me. You guys were wrong. Just try saying you are sorry and tell people the rumor is not true. Fix her up  with a guy or something. I don't know cause my friends have never  done that to me and if they did I would question our friendship.Would you???
397945
Honesty is the best policy however sometimes it's needed. This theory could be used in an incident that happened to my friend. Here it goes. She hooked up with a friends ex boyfriend shortly after they broke up. A year later after that guy died in a terrible accident a mutual friend told her that they hooked up. That was something that would have been better left unsaid!