I REALLY like this guy. How can I get him to like me back? (guys are preferable,but girls can answer too!!!!)?
482912
I think just keep making small talk with him.  Becoming his friend first may lead to a closer relationship with him.  It sounds like you're showing interest without being too pushy.  A lot of guys like a girl that is challenging and has her own interests.  I'm glad to hear that you don't want to change your style or compromise your moral beliefs to earn attention from a boy.  \nAnd by the way, congratulations on losing weight.  I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to do.  :O)
327714
Let him be, he might only like you as a friend and if you start pushing him or hiting on him he might just drop you as a friend.  I am a girl and usually when a guy "friend" is interested in me more than friendship,.. well our friendship doesn't last because the trust is gone.
448676
he heard you liked him.So he sent you signals to see if it was true.So your now labeled as "this chick that likes me".just act like you lost interest and when he resends the signals to see if you still like him then ask him what hes doing.Like dude whats up you sendin me signals you want to get with me or what?then if he says yes or no its not a rejection just a question about  what HES doing
565017
idk how do you get a guy to like you?
441416
Well, first you have to answer whether you like him. If yes, then do some dramatic flirting to see where it goes. If no, show him your type by pointing out guys that look VERY opppsite from him. Hopefully he will get over it.
746900
Sweety, just talk to the guy you rejected before this Jonthan geek, tell him what you told me now, and see what he says. If he still likes you you will know by his reaction.
626854
and???\ntalk to hoim n stuff\nyeh if you want to get him to like you\ndont stalk
449387
Do something special for him, I think i read that somewhere up there. Guys don't much to figure out if a girl likes him. Just be friendly, and let him ask you out. If he doesn't get it, ask him out. But trust me, most guy can figure out if a girl likes him or not. I also agree on the smile thing. Oh yeah, another thing, you have nothing to lose. So go for it, its much harder for guys, because it could crush thier self-esteem, kinda got my hurt a few months ago, so, go ahead and make his day. : ) gl... and if it goes not as planned, so what? his loss...
58682
Well... from past experiences... I wouldnt jus come out and tell him you like him.. u dont wanna seem desperate... Always remember playing hard to get always works well... A slight smile.... flip of the hair... or cute blink may help... be friendly and a lil flirtacious... but dont go overboard... I know how you feel... Good luck girl
1119744
If there is a girl that you like right now and you want her to like you back then just become god friends, flirt, and then ask her out, or at least let her know how you feel about her. Trust me, we are looking for more guys who will actually ask the girl out before we have to do it are selves. If you don't have someone in mind, just wait, i know it's not what you want to hear but it's true. she will come along sooner then you think.
689037
Just be yourself.  From what you say, he seems to like you for you already:)  So, don't worry.  Just have fun and do what you feel comfortable with:)
46439
dont try to start out with saying you like him. don't give him a hint, either. boys like to play games in order to get girls to like them. start out by introducing yourself and complimenting him on his game. just act like you want to be friends with the guy. later on, then give him the hints that you like him and hopefully, he'll do the same.
874167
Yeah, tell him girl! u have nothing to lose! I know it's going to b embarassing afterwards if he doesn't answer or he says "no", but really, that's still ok, things will b fine in a few days! u can still work to impress him or go for another guy later. But imagine if he likes u back! If you can't work up the courage to ask him face to face, write him a letter, tell him on msn, tell a friend to tell him, get to know him better... Really, there's nothing wrong with telling him u like him, but if he accepts, don't forget to ask him to a movie or something, or u guys might b just hanging there not knowing what to do after. Bottom line is, go for it, be romantic!
923535
well if you want to get him to try to like you back you could always start with casual conversation. if he talks back a lot and continues to talk at other times you can pretty much assume he is interested in some way. also when talking to him look at in straight in the eyes and respond back to him one sided conversations suck and make sure that you are interested in what he is talking about. or if you bring something up try and make it so you are both interested in what is being said. you don't really need any conversations what are like "so....whats next" where you pause and there is nothing left to talk about. you can also ask him if he wants to grab a bite to eat sometime or if you would like to join him for lunch or just something like that. something that says hey i want to meet outside of work sometime. but basically be yourself personally i can tell when a girl doesn't mean what she is saying i can also tell if a girl is even semi interested in me. so for you if a date does happen have fun be yourself, be interested in what he says and always try to have something to talk about. dates are more successful when both people are entertained.
1167665
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys \noften don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - \nsomething about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
324284
be yourself, if he doesn't like you, you will find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. just be yourself.
627956
Let him know you are interested, but don't rush to him.  Even if you like him, you need to know how he feels about you.  That's the key to long-term relationship.