this guy and I are really good friends..I have a crush on him, dont want to rewin the relatinship..what to do?
479146
jus..b d same as u r right now....but try...2 hav much closer relationship..wid him... make urself nd dat guy very much comfortable..wen u hav each others company...enjoy... his company... nd plz... dont go 2 deep into dis...u neve knw...he may dump u any time..but let ur friendship go on...
485239
what is his personality like? is he a player? your friends seem to think so. there's the possibility he will do that, even though you've been friends for five years. \n\nbut, he can only take advantage of you if you allow him to! just refuse to go that far with him. you have the power to control that. find the strength and be strong. get to know each other all over again intellectually from a "relationship" point of view.\n\ni have found that friends' opinions are usually right. they have a more objective view about the situation than the two people involved. plus, your friends are only trying to look out for you because they love you, and don't want to see you get hurt. however, in the end it is your decision.
891533
Well if you like him as a friend then just tell him that you feel more comfortable being friends and that if he accepts that tell him that you'll ALWAYS like him like that again maybe but you just wanna be friends for now..\n\n\ngood luck
263239
I know it hurts but there isn't anything you can do.  That is his choice and if you really care about him the best thing you can do is respect that choice and just be his friend.  I'm sure there is some wonderful guy out there that would feel more than lucky to me more than just your friend.
513917
Chances are he's felt the same way at one time or another.\nYour timing's off.  You can still be friends, but you need to try to keep your feelings in check, because you could lose him as a friend.  If its meant to be it will happen \nyou cant rush it, and you may change your mind. Just support him like a friend should it will all turn out the way it should.
528634
hm well u are currently commited to someone that u apparent;y care about so dont just drop him because something doesnt feel right. but as for your friend, if he really likes u that much he should be respectful of the fact that ur in a relationship and if he wants something more he should wait untill u are available.
206552
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
1006695
considering you two are so close, you may just belong together. if he feels the same way, then go for it. \nbut i'll advise you this: are you sure you can risk losing your friendship with him? i mean, what if you break up and then are you sure things will be the same as before?\nthink about it...\ngood luck
273455
I would think very much because you never know what might happen. It might go all wrong and you might not be friends again or it could go very well. Take your time to think. Just tell him that you just don't want to go out with him and that you don't love him but you like him as a great friend.
407817
It really depends on you and him... If you guys are really good friends and you guys understand eachother then, why not just tell him how you feel about him?? You know him better than anyone else and if you feel that he's going to act differently towards you b/c you told him how you felt then I would suggest that you keep at a friendship level... You never know though he could poossibly be feeling the same way.. To be honest if he was really a good friend reguardless of whether he feels the same or not he will be able to continue being your friend afterwards.. I would take that chance, you'll never really know unless you try. But in the end that's just my opinion, the decision is really yours to make in the end.... Good Luck!!!!!
1051561
my friend is in this situation... the best thing to do is tell him, it may be hard but otherwise everything you do... will lead him on.  until you tell him bluntly you dont want to be more than friends he will always be hopeful and then hurt every time you like flirt with another guy etc.  really regardless of how hard it is, you need to tell him so that his healing can begin and you can go on the road to becoming the great friends you were before the whole thing started.  if you did decide to try things with him just remember that it could destroy your friendship and it sounds like you dont want that.
121525
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
556089
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
71800
Tell him that you like him but you're getting mixed signals and you need for him to tell you how he feels.  I know it's scary, but even if he says he just wants to be friends he'll stick with you if he really IS your friend!  Either way, it's best to get things out in the open.  You'll be glad that you know and don't have to just wonder all of the time.
757546
first of all figure out if he is even worth your time and energy,, make sure you really like him... also you haven't even started off right... you lost a friend for this guy and you don't even know if he likes you... what would be the right thing to do is apologize with your friend and try to get back together and even if your friend says anything about yeah u better cause its all your fault or he's mine deal.. shruggle it off because its not worth another fight... also if your friend stopped being your friend because you guys like the same guy then maybe you should think about if your friend was really ever your friend... but if you really like this guy then i say go for it... but dont do anything you will regret
681693
well first of all u need to be honest with him. tell him that ur friendship means a lot and u do not wish to ruin it or put him in a compromiseing situation but u have to let him know how u feel and ask how he feels, assure him that u'll respect his decission and if things work out in ur favour work to make it last and if it don't move on be happy for him and try to find ur own happiness.\nhope u get what ur heart desires
768454
Did you talk to him and find out what his motives are and where does he see this relationship/situation going in the future?  If he is think you guys are friends and its just that, then I think you should move on. Its not fair to you if you want a relationship.  So talk to him and see whats on his mind.  Then you will have a definite answer and know what the next step is.