A girl WAS my best friend now everytime we play P.E. She trys to pound me w/ the ball & always misses! why?
482575
Try asking her and see what she says. If she wants to try to talk. But otherwise just don't do or say anything and give her time to cool off. Also try to avoid the balls as best you can.\nLuck
177914
Probably she got really hurt when you dumped her (girls are quite sensitive).  She's still asking about you because she still can't forget you and perhaps the feeling is still there though she realized now that her ex-bf is much better than you.
951853
first off all you have to control the speed of the game and dont let her get a chance like stall or keep swing it when shes in i did that one game the score was 14 to 8 and it was all lay ups. when you have a good chance dont take it. Only take it if You know you can make it.
191780
This is when you separate the "women from the girls"...Be Strong!  Believe me when I say, you are not alone in this.  It's happened to most of us and it's not a good feeling, but you do get over it....it just doesn't feel like it right now.  When people feel intimidated by you, they feel the need to boost their own shaky self esteem by putting someone else down and because your best friend probably knows everything about you, you are an easy target for her.  For whatever reason (she's jealous, you are prettier, you are smarter, whatever) she's decided to ambush your friendship.  The best thing you can do is to take the high road and don't sweat it.  The more people see that this bothers you the more they are going to tear you apart over it.  Blow it off and move on to new friends.  BUT..play your cards close to the vest for a while until you are sure you can trust them.  And you never know...maybe she's a friend who can redeem herself and who just made a mistake...only you can be the judge of that.  But if you do become friends again...go slow.  Are you sure you can ever really trust her again?  Good Luck.
852479
I think it may be that she is (or was) lonely and her actions were due to that fact. She may have realised she needed attention, moreso than wanting you and was afraid or embarassed to admit that to you and so simply rebuffed your "moves" later. I think she cares about your feelings & enjoys your company but did not want to hurt you because she realises she doesnt beleive a relationship cld work between the 2 of you.\n\nI doubt she likes to make you suffer, though it may seem that way, shes just trying to spare your feelings and does not, most likely realise that she is hurting you in another way all the same.
864303
perhaps she does like you, but its really just a big game, you should just tell her friend to stop emailing you and not play their twisted game!
358005
From personal experiences growing up, I know how much that can hurt; I'm very sorry you're going through this. \n\nMy best advice for you would be to ignore the cruel things she says and does to you. I know that it's very hard to turn a blind eye, but sometimes that's all you can do.\n\nI would also suggest that you not try and be friends with her. You should be courteous to her, but you do not need to be her best bud. If she is such a mean girl, do you really want to become her friend? Girls like that are very charming and manipulative. They can get you to do things you would never dream of doing. I once became good friends with the "mean girl" of my school (just so she wouldn't be mean to me), and she pulled me into the peer abuse with her. Before I knew it, she was having me say and do horribly mean things to the girl that had been my best friend since I was 4. I did horrible things to her, and I live with that guilt every single day of my life, even though now we're both grown women and she has told me that I am forgiven. It's a horrible feeling, let me tell you.\n\nSo, to sum up this short novel I've written: Don't pay attention when she does crap to you. When you try and fight back, you're just feeding the beast. Kill her with kindness, but do not try and become her pal. It will only hurt you in the long run.\n\nI truly hope your situation gets better real soon!
1175232
ur friend is a player !! She doesn't deserve him!! But still wait 'til they break up. tHEN ASK HER IF IT'S OK.
1066658
Ummm if she's still continually dissin you even after you tell her it bugs you then i'd say she's probably jealous of you as a person. You may not have a boyfriend but maybe your  much better at getting guys than her and shes worried that you may even steal her current bf. Or because hses so competitive she has to measure herself against you and your relationship didn't work out and hers did may be a sign of victory on her eyes that maybe it is possible to beat you. Maybe you should just hang out with other people in the group more than you hang out with her and the next time she disses you just out right give it to her sumthing like " Why you always gotta b  a B*tch? I dated the guy it didn't work out and everybody here knows you so you don't have to keep bringing it up unless you get some sick pleasure from it grow up.." \nwhatever you do though don't make a move on her bf or get involved with his situation with his friends its amazing how quickly peoples perceptions of you can change\ngoodluck
596176
some people are just insecure. maybe she just thinks ur very pretty and feels a need to compete. i've had that happen to me once, not to sound coneited or anything. years ago, when i was in high school and i was being introduced to this guy, all of a sudden his girlfriend pops out of nowhere and wrapps her arm around his, real tight. the thing is i wasn't even feeling him like that.don't sweat it tho.
927150
If you really fell for someone, you wouldn't want to play games. If she didn't used to be that way, but is now, then she probably put a wall between you guys. I would be woried about that. When she plays game, she's disconnecting her feelings from you. Now, why did she start this? Did you do something to her? Good luck.
560212
This ex girl of yours needs to get a life and take responsability for her actions. SHe's just trying to make you feel guilty.  Stay away from her, avoid her... otherwise she's just going to take you down w/ her. You don't need that. You are who you are.
435777
Hit her where it hurts... Tell her the truth!!!\nDo you know why she picks on you... she knows there is a chance that the boys like you more than her... probably because you are more nice or shy and friendly than her.  she sees you as a threat.  What I would do... tell her to stop making fun of you because your not trying to take all the guys in the school... just a few.
640449
your a dick. You are probually such a dick to her...thats why she eats. SHe is hoping she will crush you to death
494709
It's clear that your ex is very jealous or wants to revenge or something like that and wants to brake your relation with your actual girlfriend. The best weapon u have is YOUR GIRLFRIEND. If you really love each other speak all things you re feeling now about the situation and give her an example with the same situation but with the players inverted. If she really loves you she will understand and will stop your ex.
811453
move on... there are plenty of girls out there that wont play head games like this on you... you are her doormat... i know thats not what you want to here but hey if you get married or pack up and move then she kicks you to the curb then what????
384959
if she doesn't wanna hurt you then she is your best friend but ask her to be more honest with you next time ask her to give you her real opinion next time .you she she didn't say because she didn't wanna hurt you because she wants what is best for you .cause if she did tell you might get upset with her