wat if u r in love wit yo boyfriend and u are very happy wit him and yo mom say u can talk to him but u love.?
484951
Tell her , that you want to learn the hard way if she thinks he is so terrible! That she should leave you , and if you bump your head , you know not to do it again in another situation!
403215
I love my boyfriend and I feel happy to have someone to share my love and my life with.  I look forward to our life together and though I know we may have adjustments, I feel that with the kind of person that he is, I know that we will be able to work out our forthcoming marriage and it will be one journey that will enhance our lives.  To put it simply - happy!  :)
472138
tell your mom first then figure out how to tell everyone else.Your mom will still love you ,you always will be her baby.
226879
Clam down. Ur mom is forever ur mom. I bet she really loves u. but she doesnt know how to love.
618894
ARE YOU AN ADULT... JUST BE UPFRONT WITH YOUR MOTHER, TELL HER ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND THEN TELL HER THAT YOU WOULD LIKE HER TO MEET HIM THAT HE IS A GOOD GUY.  HIDE HIM AND IT'S GOING TO MAKE IT LOOK AS IF YOU ARE ASHAMED OF HIM
203666
dont listen to what your mother says i been with the same guy for 7 years. we started dating when i was 15, and we have a child together. if you bith love each other that much and want the realtionship to last then it will....
192965
Ok- from experience. . .\n\n*Is this guy really worth it?\n  - do you like him\n  - is he even cute\n  - is he respectful\n\n*If your parents find out you're dating w/o their permission, you're dead.  So my advice is\n\n*ask your mom again\n\n*if she's says NO, she's got good reason.  parents aren't blind and they no what's best for you, even if you don't think so.
1141638
talk to your mom about it and try to make her see your veiw of it a 4 yrs. difference is not that bad anyways if you are truely in love it will work itself out with you mom. Has she seen you guys together maybe that would help.
1161441
feelings for someone close to you is possible.the main thing is the other person responding the same,as for your boyfriend you don't need to tell him that might make him to be jealous
178820
I would tell my mom - in private and let her know that this situationa was hard for you to decide what to do -because you would like to give her boyfriend the benefit of the doubt ( maybe it was a girl from his job that stole his number from work - A guy who liked me had done this to me and I almost got in trouble with my boyfriend at the time-but luckily the guy apologized and said he did not know I wasn't single!!!) So anything is possible -since they have been together for 8 years that says alot -unless he has had suspicious behavior before or she has caught him cheating before. Just tell your mom you felt that she should know and that she should talk to him to get the truth out could be he's innocent (like my situation) or could be another story.\nGood luck \nhopefully for your mom's sake it was just a harmless crush from a co-worker
262626
go out with him with out your mom knowing
35566
aw thats hard but maybe give it some time and if u still dnt like him explain ur reasons to ur mom in a mature way and have proof. but whatever u do b mature and dont whine
13941
it is about interacting with the person u love
199221
i think that ur parents trust ur BF that's why... and good for both of u, 'coz it means that ur BF didn't waste the chance that was given to him by ur parents...
502498
accept his difficulty...some people just cant express their love in words..\ni myself am brought up in a loving family, but we have never said 'i love u' verbally...only written and actions that show we love\nand today i find it hard expressing myself in person unless im really really really close to the person...a chance to open up more\ndont blame him if u dont hear what u want to hear\njust accept him and allow him space to learn how to express himself froom u. thats the beaty of love...u grow to express in each other
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You can't always win. If he has a boyfriend the best you can do is support him. From experience I'm telling you DON'T tell him you think you're in love with him! That will make your relationship uneasy and he won't want to talk to you because he'll be uneasy and wonder what you're thinking. It's always best to hold onto a good thing. Wait it out and see.
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i love my boyfriend as well.good luck for the future you sound very happy