Why get married if you're not sure...?
481475
I was married to my first husband for 10 years and I knew from the beginning that he was not right for me but because of loniness and my situation at home, I got married anyway.  Sometimes you think that you can make that person be the right one for you and on down the line when they dont become the person you thought, you realize that you have made a huge mistake.  I hope this helps you understand a little bit.  Just be there for your friend and dont judge her for her feelings that she has and ask her why did she get married in the first place and i bet she was sort of like me.  Good Luck
638092
If you don't trust your wife/husband to be, really sure you want to get married?
600335
Its about commitment. If you really love someone - are you willing to be commited to them (get married). if you are not willing to get married, its just that you are afraid of commitment. Kapish?
663853
I think you need to listen to your heart and make a decision. Don't stay married if you aren't TRUELY happy, it isn't worth it. Take some time to just think without any outside distractions. :)
580804
You need to consider your engagement. Maybe you are not quite ready to settle down with your fiance'. If you are questioning what you should do, my suggestion is that you should not get married just yet. You are obviously not ready to tie the knot. A lot easier to deal with before you get married than after. You need to do a lot of soul searching. Don't make a mistake that you will regret.
315435
If you're resorting to asking strangers it doesn't look good. If you're both happy then who cares, but if you want to get married and he doesn't then the best thing to do is end it.
660569
Well, we got engaged, then married, and then bought a house.  \n\nYou need to discuss this with him.  He might be of the opinion that he's getting all the "benefits" of marriage without the committment, so why get married?  Ask him what's stopping him from marriage.  You have a right to know these things.
156585
If you need to ask this question, you are not ready to get married yet.  Slow down-you have the rest of your lives.
768182
Theres only one way 2 find out... dont make any major commitements  (kids/marriage) for the moment.. if its meant 2 b its meant 2 b u may get hurt in the end but you'll be stronger & wiser & u wont spend the rest of ur life wondering wat if
733296
if your asking that ? maybe u shouldnt get married
833932
Only if you decide to marry!
1175285
There are many reasons to want to get married... some good, some bad.\nA friend of mine had this theory that people were getting married because they were getting bored in their relationship, so they'd decide to get married so that they had something to talk about. And when the excitement of marriage had worn off, they'd move on to make children...\nIt's obviously a dark way of seeing things but I fear it's often close to the truth. \nI want to get married because I consider it a gift to my man, the promise to spend (or at least try!) my whole life with him... the ultimate commitment you can make!
8427
Why in the world would you agree to this?  If he is worth marrying he will wait and you should wait.\n\nResponding to youknowit below:  All the more reason to wait and have a nice wedding.
565596
The only reason I can think of is that they love the person so much that they cant imagine living without them. Marriage isn't for the faint hearted it requires open communication, commitment and flexibility. To share your life with someone, accepting their faults as well as their good traits, to be committed to making their life as full of love and happiness as you can so that in return they will do the same for you isn't always easy but the reward of being with that someone special is awesome....
447098
What does MARRIED mean to you?? Figure that out and you'll have your answer.
885751
If you're not sure now then it won't help if you get married.  Call it off now before you make a huge mistake.  You probably don't want to live the rest of your life like that.  I don't know many people who would want to.
164504
look the life is urs,donot play with ur life.u love someone but now u r going to marry a unknown person donot do this to ur self,think deeply,the life is completely urs u v the rite to take decision.keep smiling