How can we know ouselves better? Like our inner qualities our stamina etc.?
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Take a personal inventory. Write out everything, your life's story, the good and the bad, things you did/said/felt/etc. List who you dislike and why. Why do you resent them? Its usually a reflection of something in yourself that you don't like. Be as honest as you can. Leave out nothing. Then, set it aside for a week or two. Then read it. You'll remember stuff that you didn't think of. Add that. Let it set for another week or two. Find someone you trust, someone with insight, that won't talk about this with others. Read them your story. Get their input, their thoughts. You'll learn a lot about yourself and what you need to work on, plus of course your strong points. I've done this numerous times. It always helps, always works. ;-)
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Start giving yourself Brownie points for every good choice you make. Confidence and self-esteem are earned, nobody is born just possessing them. Every time you make someone smile, remind yourself that you have that ability. Do your work honestly and well. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Give others sincere compliments and don't always expect others to set your standards of decency or to make you happy. Remember, you're not transparent. People can't tell how you're feeling. Eventually, feeling confident will become second nature. But above all, be kind to yourself and others. And just have fun!
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The more you experience life, the more you'll learn about yourself. Its slow and subtle but definite. Always trust your gut reaction...it wont steer you wrong and you'll learn alot about yourself. Also don't be scared to try new things.
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By being interested in bettering yourself, you've taken the first step. Good for you - you should feel good about yourself.\n\nBeing better takes many small incrimental steps. As long as you continue to work a little harder than the rest you'll be way ahead of them in the long run.\n\nAs you go through school, always be yourself. Don't get caught up in doing what your peers tell you to do. Many of them will want you to do the things they want to do in order to feel better about themselves. Remember that your future is your responsibility and your highest priority. What you do today could have a huge effect on your future, so you want to choose wisely.\n\nOne specific resourse I recommend is a book, "7 habits of highly effective people".
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i believe the best way to get better at something is to try.if you enjoy what your learning it makes it a lot easier to get as goood as you can.but the key is to believe in yourself and what your doing.
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You need to work on the inner you!!! You need to work on self confidence, self esteem. Once you feel you are the best person you can be on the inside it will seep to the outside and everyone will take notice!!!  Don't ever try to better yourself for others do it all for you! And you are right to be picky...your Mr Right will come and it will take time...
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We can only try - but to understand ourselves, we need to be absolutely honest with ourselves.\nOnce we truly understand ourselves, then perhaps we can know what we want from ourselves and others.\nBeing honest with others would help in this process, methinks....
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Eat healthy, live healthy (exersise).  You can also pray about a better health (or stronger amune system) and keeping good heath habits.
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believe in yourself, believe that u can do wat is given to u and do it well... trust yourself
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Explore the person they are, how they relate to people. Do they judge them, do they forgive them.\nSetting principles and sticking to them.\nHelping when needed, not asking why sometimes, and questioning yourself on a regular basis and learning from it.\nWe can all help people, but we cant if we dont help ourselves.
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each have their own strengths and weaknesses. why does one have to be "better?"
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Anytime you concentrate on one area of your life, another suffers, so perfection is an impossibility.  You can still strive for it, but you have to accept that the best you can do is all you can do, and that it is probably enough to make you great.\n\nYou need to decide what qualities are important to you (and what you can neglect) and pursue bettering yourself those areas.  Even in those areas though, realize that that they are only part of being a whole person, and that the more time you spend perfecting one area of your life, the less perfect other things will become.\n\nDecide what you want and how much you want--set reasonable goals and work to get them.
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Work it out. Two adult human minds can workout everything if they take it up in the right earnest and in the right way. Its just a matter of shedding a few habits and a few egos. Remember the life flies away quickly and takes with it the beautiful moments which never came just because we are too busy with the mundane. Every moment in life is just the same, we make it good or bad  only in our minds
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Be consistent.\nWe all are unique with very unique qualities.\nDiscovering these qualities & living in & with them (in the positive way) would in the long run impress others.\nAll the best.
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Have a better opinion of urself and accept as u are, God made every one perfect, its only when we compare with others we feel deficient and feel worthless about ourselves. Better is a relative word and a person whom you feel is better than you may be much worse to you in many aspects. You are a precious gift of life and its better to be oneself than to seek being 'better'and lose out on your 'best'
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Well, if you want a scientific way to know your character, take a personality test.\nGive yourself some confidence. ;)
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belief in yourself\nthick skin\nyour ability to adapt