why are we stupid when it comes to love?
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because of the rush in our emotions-state of arousal and also the rush in our hormones.
903657
It's not dumb to want to be close to the person you love. If you can't be there in person, at least you can hear his voice. Do what your heart tells you and don't listen to your critics. They don't know the first thing about love.
4104
Its because we're dumb, and we're dumb because we don't understand crazy people. ^.^  Mostly, its better to not try and understand them.  Like why they say no when they really mean yes, or why they ask stupid questions that they don't want answered in the first place.  Just go with the flow!
1043745
dumb people look for just love. or just money. smart people wait and find someone who has both.\nand i'd say smart girls would like the first guy, not the meathead.
10767
Basically, we're screwed up! WE're clingy, dependent and want the fairytale. We always think we can "help" someone and that they will change or what ever. By science, since we as women want to spend so much time with the guy we like, it is normal to eventually come to love that person.Just the act of being around someone, can cause you to fall in love. They actually did a study.
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it seems at this day and age kids throw that word around very loosely and they don't even know what love is. most confuse lust with love.... but they really have no clue.\n\nin their defense it took me a while to experience and learn what love is... im 31 now and still have alot to learn. it's a natural learning process..... i wish we could have known what older folks knew back when we were really young... :P
380814
Love is different to everyone. It exists in many forms. The truth is you have to define it for yourself.
385617
Because we are stupid.
1186623
it is jsut how it goes you can love the person one minute then that person does something really stupid and you ask why your with them but then it just goes back to love again, thats how some people thing of me just the personality
274826
Because love is blind!!!
249201
Relationships.  Asking stupid questions.
865390
We guys are complete idiots sometimes. Unfortunately that also means that we tend to be more interested in women that aren't particularly interested in us. The challenge is part of it.
742164
relationships, and love for that matter, are not supposed to be judged/prejudged based on one event.  love is a decision to commit, not blind faith based on perceived symbolisms.  God has a reason for everything, every time.  It's not just the "ME" and the "NOW."
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Thinking has nothing to do with Love.  Thinking is what prevents Love.  Thinking is how humans end up with emotions like jealousy, envy, sadness,  grief or depression.  No one thinks themselves into Love.\nDo I feel one can really love?  Yep, been there, done that, got the T-shirt and wore it out (the T-shirt, not the love).\nTo what extent can it go?  There are no limits.  Love expands to fill as much as one allows.  Love inspires poems, stories, movies, relationships, the very fabric of society.  Love brings out the best, improves the worst and promotes tolerance and understanding.  Not just between two people, but humanity as a whole.  Lovers usually don’t have road rage, forget their biases and ignore the need for food, rest and often even sleep.\nAnd the strangest thing about love, is just when most give up and start to believe that Love will never touch them,  BLAM, that is when Love usually finds them.\nLove is the greatest mystery in a Universe of Unknowns and Unknowables.
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love is an emotion that afects your way of thinking. it causes you to see thing from a whole new perespective and react to situations differently. you can really explain what love is or know what it is unless you experience it for yourself. when you're in love, you are willing to sacrifice anything for that person's happiness even if it means you can be with them.
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simple answer from me:\nconcentrating on the love itself diverts your attention from all of the other things, that's why =)
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because that is the way God made us............ love is awesome\nand God wants us to love Him first..........