Is size important for gay men??
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If a gay guy is just wanting sex, he may find that size is of importance. \n\nBut if he is in love with another guy, then he will be less fussy about size ... \n\nBut, of course, whether you are male or female, a tiny p**s could be a problem anyway (e.g. 4" or smaller?).
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To me , size does not matter.. actually it does.. huge ones scare me and I wouldnt do it with someone who has a huge one - both thickness and length. Even if I'm not in the mood, a guy who knows how to do just the right things - meaning foreplay - can get me SO aroused!! and in the mood! So long as he does the foreplay and everything else right, size absolutely doesnt matter...  by the time he is done with that hot foreplay, I would be wanting him like crazy! and would enjoy him as he is. I kinnda feel that the intensity with which women enjoy the last stage in sex, is connected with how well the guy does the foreplay.
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If looks are important to you in a sexually intimate relationship, then they will be important to you if you plan to spend a lot of time in the marriage bed.  I have learned that people who say "I don't care what you look like" and have sex with you usually have very poor self images, and have had to deny a certain physical part of the relationship because of it.  I can feel the flack I am going to get by saying it, but it's what I truly think.  \n\nBUT there ARE people who genuinely don't give a crap about what a sexual partner looks like.  If you are one of those people, then of course it will not matter.  Problems can also arise if one of the spouse's appearances goes to pot, either after babies, or after too many beers.  This can kill the romance and the sexual part of the relationship, and that can be the undoing of a marriage.\n\nI know in my own sexuality, looks are important, and I am not afraid to admit it.  I don't need a model, but there are some things I need in a sexual relationship.  The pleasure I get from seeing someone naked is a big part of the pleasure I get through intimacy.  \n\nJust know yourself.  You can prioritize looks according to your own tastes.  People get into trouble when lying to themselves, and try to "pretend" or whatever.  Just be honest.  Some gay guys I know have to have a boyfriend with a six pack.  Some straight guys I know have to have a chick with D or bigger breasts.  People have preferences. D or bigger breasts turn me off, and a six pack looks good on paper, but there is a certain pleasure derived from utilizing your man stomach as a pillow. :)  You can't do that with 6 pack abs.\n\nFor regular friendships, I think looks have a low priority.  It is strange though how i notice groups of people, say 3 or 4 friends out at dinner, or lunch, and they all sort of look the same.  I'm not sure why this is.  If they are rather large, they hang with other large people.  If one has a leather jacket, 2 or 3 of the rest of them will too.  Hmmmmm....\n\nI can say one of the worst things is to get naked with someone, and then react negatively to what you see.  A lot of pain has been caused by this type of situation, so it is one I avoid like the plague.  ;) After all, we don't have "virtual sex" yet--we have sex with our bodies, and the form, fit, and function of the body will influence the sexually intimate experience.
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Compared to what? Non muscley gays? Gay people are okay but seeings how I'm straight it doesn't really matter to me wether they have a six pack or not...\n\nThanks for asking...
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size isnt the issue....its what you do with it that counts........i have known people to be totally dissatisfied with 8inches and totally happy with 5inches......just remember that there is a lot more to sex than just penetration.....
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Size matters some, but it's way overrated. Love is more important.
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YOUR MAN SHOULD ASK YOU...BECAUSE YOU ARE THE ONE WHO HE WILL BE USEING  HIS DI*K ON...SO HE SHOULD CARE IF IT'S THE RIGHT SIZE FOR YOU...SO YOU HOLD THE ANSWER.
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sorry i am a man, but:  a few studies and quasi-studies (and by viewing 'porn') would tell you all that 'race' is not a big factor, although the largest sizes in the extreme are probably Black men or those with mixed Blood; it is reported that some Oriental men have the smaller ones statistically, but I have seen Thai men with very large ones, especially compared to their body size. The smallest penis are so small as to not be just larger than a very large clitoris, which can resemble a tiny penis in a few women.\nBy in large you would never be able to judge a man's size down there by his race, size of body, or hand or feet size. That is a fact.  So maybe you had better be sure what you are getting before you get too serious, if size is important. But, bear in mind vaginas come in a spectrum of sizes too, so men have the same 'problem'. However, if you really love the person, you will find ways to satisfy each other under most circumstances.
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The truth (once and for all): it does not matter! Oh, at the extremes maybe - less than 2" or really huge. But anything remotely normal is fine with us. We may pretend to admire your large equipment because we know how pathetically important it is to your fragile male ego, but for ourselves, nope, not at all. As a matter of fact we get extremely bored hearing about it. We're more interested in the quality of what's between your ears than in the size of what's between your legs. Really! \n\nPlease find some other interest in life - big penises are not an interesting topic of conversation to those of us who don't have them. This question gets asked a lot, and the males always butt in and say, oh, yeah, it's totally important. Well, wake up guys - just because it's important to you does not make it important to us! If it's 3.8" or 8.3" - who cares? Not the women.
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I think you shouldn't measure the worth of a man by the length of his penis. Having a larger penis does not make you a better man, and it is something determined by genetics, like being tall or short, or having blonde or brown hair. It's not a big deal. Be happy with what you have and find something more productive to worry about.
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In all honesty some of my best lovers were small , and some were average and some were huge . It is all in how the man uses what he has . For me the size of my lover has never really mattered , I will tell you this though if its too big I dont really enjoy it . As to where if its small it cant hurt you . Either way no matter what your size there are sooooo many ways to please a women and as long as you do the size of your package will be the last thing on her mind .
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Yes, men most certainly do.  And I don't just mean about weight and muscle.  Have you noticed how many guys ask questions about penis size?  Men fill gyms and are constantly pressured to look better, especially if they are single.
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the size does not really matters.if it looks good with your body, it's good o'ready.\nOf course too small is a no no..
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For the most part no, but there are those extreme cases where it is just too small or too big even.  Most men seem so worried about this, I don't get it. \n\nWider definately. But then I am a short girl so length can become an issue.
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A guy should be "square" in my opinion. Waist & length proportionate. My guy is 34x34 and perfect. 32x32 is fine also.\n\nBut 32x30 or 34x32 would suggest it's diet & exercise time :-)
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you're not short,just smaller than some other guys. Don't worry. i can't help on the other parts,sorry.  But keep in mind the saying,the best things come in small packages : )
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Yes it's normal that you would not be able to handle a penis that size. No, it's not normal to have a penis that size.\n\nSex with a potentially large penis can be potentially dangerous for hetero- and homosexual couples because SERIOUS tearing and bleeding may occur, not to mention the bruising or damaging of internal organs. \n\nIf you and your partner insist on having sex, be sure to use LOTS of lubricant, take your time: relax, ease into it, and if it continues to hurt or you feel sharp pains or notice bleeding, stop immediately. When you are properly treated and healed you may be ready to try another time. Also consider practicing with a series of different sized "toys".\n\nBest of luck & have fun!