how do i make him realize how i feel?
492012
You can not force anyone to do any tthing but in your effort to get him to realisewhat he is doing makes you feal this is honesty. If you arehonest about it and tell him to be honest with you, then you have done your best. He may not be honest back and you may not like that his actions especialy if they continue are the truth. Pray for a more obective view so you both see what is true.
370161
be honest with him and tell him how you feel
355934
just show him that you care... just remember to be yourself .See if there is a reaction from him, if he loves you back, little by litle he would stop playing. Without saying any words you should make him feel the way you feel!
967305
Show him that you care for him and that you are there for him to help whenever he has a prob. Then you would see how he reacts differently. He will probably even get in touch with you more frequently because he will understand that you care for him. When you will get the feeling that he knows that you care for him, then try to start a conversation with him and try to give him some hints that you like him and want him to be your bf. Hopefully he will respond positively to your needs. Good luck and hope that this helps you.
34459
Make sure to tell him some of your feelings too, so he knows u trust him with yours, if that doesn't work, then try getting it from him by not asking him directly, make sure he knows that u trust him enough and that ur worth knowing
232860
Actions speak louder than words.  Being there for him is a big thing, and accept him for who he is.  Make him feel important.  Tell him often that you love him, especially when you are looking into his eyes.
69659
You need to talk about it.  Ask him to try things with you that make you feel good.  Tell him it's important to you.
977833
Go and talk to him...tell him how you feel
592396
I think that he should communicate his feelings towards you, verbally and with actions.  You should sit down with him and ask him how he truly feels about you.  Look at the way he treats you, does he build you up or tear you down?  Does he do things that make you feel special or treat you indifferently.  Good luck.
461428
Kill two birds with one stone - send him a birthday card and enclose a letter explaining how you feel. Don't go over the top when you pour out your feelings though - keep it to the point and simple. Then just leave the ball in his court - he'll come to you.
536893
start focusing on the good things he does - let him know what would make you feel appreciated - you telling him you are going to leave him is now an empty threat - try to talk to him to let him know how what he is doing makes you feel (or how what he is not doing makes you feel)
411167
Take the high way out.  Look him in the eye and tell him exactly how you feel.  Because, if he really knows you then he knows you are playing games or acting out in anger.  My ex told me to my face and it bothered me.  Years later, it made me a better man.
838610
tell her how you feel, and maybe she'll understand
287168
First of all, try to indentify your problem. Why can you not tell him your feeling? What can you or he do to change it? Is it because you are so shy or he has something that makes you afraid to express yourself?\nThen you have to fix it.\nA guy can feel special in many ways. Sports, clothes, movies... find out what he likes and talk about it. Maybe you and him can go out and do stuff that he likes (of course you enjoy it, too).\nIt is very much up to you to make your boyfriend feel special. If you call him "boyfriend", then you should know him well enough, shouldn't you?
721271
well just let him know how you feel  and if he really loves you thn he will understand
548263
tell him how you feel, it's better hes knows
555840
If he knows that you want to work it out and you haven't heard from him, then just let him be and if he wants to reconcile, then it's in his court. You can't force him to feel a certain way. Meanwhile, focus on building other relationships in your life.