How should I forget about him or let go of the feelings towards him ?
482953
Your missionary friend may indeed be gay, was interested in you and sent you provocative signals. He also knows your church's position on same sex relationships. Perhaps he is having feelings of guilt and is running away. On the other hand he may well want you to make the next move, considering that he says he wants you remain his friend. \n\nI would suggest you cool the relationship. No phone calls. Remain civil and polite but distant. If he is really interested in you he should make his feelings known.  If he has no feelings for you he will keep his distance and you will know where you stand. \n\nIf he is no longer interested in you, don't be upset over his rejection. Move on, get over it, there are lots of good fish in the sea.
451159
if you still like him, give it another try. If not, then don';t do or say anything to incourage his feelings. Eventually they and he will go away. Good luck.
683480
Just keep busy with something else but him. I've been in your shoe before and when everything turned bad I felt very sorry. I ruined our friendship. Thinking of someone is exhausting especially if he never think of you the same way you do
391990
Find something else to do with your time so you arent thinking about him all the time. Hopefully when you are engaged in other activities you will also meet someone who does like you
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
223538
you're lingering over old feelings and sometimes that's natural, especially if you felt really strongly for this person.  your best bet though is to move on and try to find some interests that will help you take your mind off of him.  wish you luck.
237771
Its difficult and knowing that the feelings are not there for you by him is the first step to forgetting him. Move on and gradually your feeling will fade. Try not to let it control your life. Best of luck and remember you will find someone else.
565262
Don't. There's a reason you broke up. It's hard letting go, but give it time, keep yourself busy, and eventually, you will move on and forget.
1030149
Do not tolerate it.  Break it off before he hurts you.  If you make your move now, he will feel sranded.  If you wait, you will just give him the time he needs to get to know her better.  If you leave him now, you will make him feel like he screwed up and he will realize what a mistake hes made.
577947
if u don't start to do other thing to get your mind off of him. then u will drive yourself crazy with it. not health. try to get him space. u will fell better.
1053380
thats what happened to me  and i am learning to keep my self busy and not thinking about him and i think its working cuz now i don't think about him as much as i used to so my advise to you is to try to forget about him unless you know he will be back cus if he doesnt go back whats the point of liking someone who you know he won't be with you...so please dont waist your time and try to forget about him look for someone who will be there with you.good luck
162353
If you can't get over it then don't. It's just the same as if you are physically attracted to him but have problems with his personality, it won't last and soon you will loose more and more interest in him.
719810
Do not listen to his voice. Do not call him. Do not answer or return his calls.  Throw away cards, letters and all things that remind you of him.  Make yourself busy and take meticulous care of yourself.  Give your time to your other friends and family members whom you may have been distant with.  Catch up on some hobbies and volunteer work.  Make appointments for yourself to do the things you enjoy every day in the week. Every night, have someone to talk to who understands what you may be going through. Whenever your thoughts stray toward him, think only about the way he disappointed you and hurt you and remind yourself that you deserve the best. The longer you were with him, the longer it may take for you to get over him.  Nevertheless, you WILL get over him.
37250
just b urself if he doesn't want u then forget about him.  he is probably a player and not worth ur time anyway.
308974
Drop him like a bad habit (which he is). Move on.  Move on.  Move on!
819600
you cant really "make" someone forget their feelings for someone else, only time can do that.  The best thing you can do is be there for him and care about him.  In time you'll have your own space in his heart.
435479
sadly, there isn't one. rejection hurts. rejection from someone you think your in love with crushes. the best thing you can do is "break it to him gentally" if you let him down easy it might still hurt a lot, but not as much as if you just all out dump him without explanation. in the long run, if you break it to him easy, it will be easier for him to let you go