Does a women weight really make a difference to her sex appeal?
491089
We are all individuals and do not think alike.  To some people, weight makes a huge difference in a person's sex appeal.  To others, it does not.  Unfortunately, it's difficult to generalize.  And since we do not know your boyfriend, we can't speak for him.
181626
Depends on the woman's proportion's that's wearing it .
371035
Personally a real woman is what i like. curves are fine but i do like a woman who takes pride in her appearance =)
542539
I think it has to do with positive self image.  I've seen the results of studies of overweight women of both races and Black women have a more positive body image than White women.  I think that comes through in the way they carry themselves.  Regardless of your body size, the way you feel inside will manifest itself on the outside.
585088
That depends entirely on the particular gal. Most gals would prefer a slender, guy and not obese. You are seen in public with her.. and with her friends. If you are much overweight, it tends to work adversely on the friends of the girl.
1033346
It works both ways. When I was young & thin I had plenty of big women accusing me of being a slut & everything else bad when I did not even date! At one time I was dating someone & they quit seeing me to go out with some big girl just because she would sleep around & I wouldn't!   \nAnd what size you are has nothing to do with how loving you are toward your partner. Jerks come in all sizes, big & small.  And face it: Some peopel are not going to like you no matter how you look.\n\nThe majority of people that have weight problems do not have have them BECAUSE of medical problems---they have medical problems because of weight problems. I am not near as thin as I would like to be & I never will be but this does not mean that I sit on my butt all day making the problem worse. At least I try!   \n\nIt seems like you need to try to work on that & your self-esteem!
540226
How much a woman eats doesn't determine how sexy she is.  Not all skinny girls are sexy. Not all big girls are unattractive. \n\nTo me, it has to do with how a woman carries herself.  Wether or not she has respect for herself and can be comfortable with who she is.
323649
You know what?  The answers aren't a simple as looks, or sounds...for example...I love a woman's body, the female form..but it doesn't automatically make me want to have sex with her.  That person might even be totally into themselves and stuck up...which is a no go for me.\n\nWhen I'm actually having sex, I'm looking for softness.  I'm looking for that woman to allow me into her mind.....that sounds corny as hell though...but it's true.  It's a turn on, that she is allowing you to please her and vice versa.  \n\nThen as a guy, you pay attention to the sounds....not just the regular moans....but the real, deep, almost primal moans to let you know you are really working her over the way she wants.  I personally like to see involuntary movement of the limbs.  If she is making faces she wouldn't want to know she made, curling up her toes, or moving in ways or positions she has no idea she is even in, or even why she is in them.....then I know I doing what I'm supposed to.\n\nPlus a good attitude is necessary.  A woman who actually speaks and lets you know what she wants, what works...either vocally or with her eyes, or moans, whatever....will be better during sex.  It takes out the guy's guesswork at everything.  It shows she is conscious that you are actually trying to do a good job......and you want to make it happen together.  Communication, as with everything else in life, is the most crucial part of sex.\n\nSoooo....I guess it's the combination.  It's looks, although looks can and have fooled me.  I actually had the best sex I've ever had with someone that wasn't the supermodel type.  She definitely wasn't ugly.  She was real thick and she had the features I liked.  I guess it depends on the guy.  \n\nYou could say it's the sounds....but I've had girls who made yeti sounds....or they sounded like I was hitting them in the stomach with a lead pipe (no pun intended)....or they were screaming in my ear, like it was sexy.\n\nIf guys have that nice combo of looks, the right sounds, and a good attitude to match.....and the right amount of freakiness....goes a long way.\n\nOh.....and the difference between a one nighter and a committed relationship comes down to those two people.  The one nighter is exhilerating, exciting......might even hit the spot for a while.  Relationship sex depends on how you feel that night....or how your day went.....just more factors involved.\n\nWhat do I know?  I'm just a guy @ work with too much time on my hands.
292233
Good call, but they might start taking it seroius and you'd get either fat heffers in there or chicks that look more man than girl. Maybe best to keep it for viewing pleasure
37770
Certainly!  If they're physically fit and well-toned, that is a huge turn-on.  However, I do not appreciate those with "man-muscles" attributed to steriods or other means that make them look like male bodybuilders.  It's disgusting to see these women try to emulate that.  However, a female form with a hint of 6pack abs is a total turn-on>
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I know this is not going to be popular with most, but I don't care if a woman is skinny or a bit chunky, as long as she is okay with herself.  If she has a good body image she will be better in the relationship, and more confident which is more attractive than body shape
1146503
ITS NOT THE DRESS SIZE THAT MAKES A LADY SEXY, ITS THE PERSON INSIDE THAT COUNTS.
160095
i will admit that a physical attraction often leads to a relationship but,i have dated men of all sizes.If a mans personality turns me on i do not see him as too thick or too thin.The trick is to get someone to notice the you inside.People who cant do that tend to be shallow and are not worth your time.You will find her.Hang in there.
672736
no .... it all depends how a gurl looks like the hight dont matter
541691
not necessarilly.. women have a tendency to be attracted to beautiful looking people even if they are teh same sex (well let's face it, girls are just prettier.)  I think my friend is the hottest thing i have ever seen.. i am very attracted to her.. i want to squeese something!! everytime i see her... lol...
938238
Funny, I'm not a lesbian or anything but I think a woman's body is much sexier than mens' bodies. They look a lot softer and have lovely curves.
402123
I know women who are around that height/weight, distributed in the right places, who are beautiful.  But if you aren't satisfied with your body, go to the gym a couple times a week and be more active, or take up a sport.  Exercising is healthy, and it boosts self-confidence and even libido -- so it's worthwhile even if you don't lose a pound!