If you caught your lovers cheat on you once. Will You give Him/Her second chance ?
491496
Mentally, I say 'NO' stoutly. Physically, I'd give him/her one more chance unconsciously. Nevertheless, I know the result for sure that same story would be taken place again. Briefly, if you think you could be strong enough to bear hurt again, then just try. Otherwise, forget it.
119912
If you doubt he loves you now than it is probably true. Also I would not want to be with someone who cheated on me. He will do it again if given the chance
141482
the first time a person cheats on u its their fault. the second time a person cheats on you then its ur own fault. and if u lay down with a dog then ur gonna get fleas - or in this case an STD. give her a second chance at ur own risk. but u can get past her. all u need is time. and some self esteem. u need 2 b with someone who appreciates u and who wont take u for granted. u need to be with someone who will love u back. because u dont show someone u love them by cheating on them.
1116340
Being someone that has cheated in the past I can honestly tell you it could go either way. I did before, but will never do it again. On the other hand I have had a boyfriend cheat, say it wouldn't happen again & it did. So I guess it depends on the person &/or relationship.
112931
I could forgive but I wouldn't stay with someone who had cheated on me. A good relationship has to be based on trust and love. Without the strong foundation of trust, the relationship will crumble. After someone has cheated you would always have to wonder and worry. Each time they were late, or didn't call, or acted differently you would wonder if they were cheating again. You can't have a good, loving, trusting relationship under those circumstances. I would also strongly doubt their love for me if they cheated. If someone truly loves you, then they wouldn't want to cheat on you. In their mind there would be noone better than you and they wouldn't risk the relationship with you for something as superficial as sex with someone they aren't in love with.
1041573
once a cheater ...always a cheater...in rare cases ...after the cheater has lost it all..they try to change...and want you back...and all is good for a while...and just when you think how great things are and you let your guard down...they do it again.
653925
If you strongly believe he won't cheat on you again, then take him back. But, I hate it when girls cheat on me, and both of the girls who have cheated are no longer with me. I broke up with them as soon as I found out. If there is no trust in a relationship, then it won't work out.
153438
when my son's wife cheated.First time she cheated,after she did alot of pleading for forgiveness and swore she would never do it again. He forgave her. After all he did love her. Two years later when she did it again he said thats it she got it in her blood. When you love someone "YOU DON'T CHEAT!" He said he deserves better. He divorced her.
245212
you can trust them again but you will never have the same trust for them again you'll always wonder if there out there cheating on you again
885170
Well if the person who cheated was very very sorry and the person who was cheated was very hurt but still decided to give one last chance then it could be true love. But if the person who cheated just said 'sorry' and the person who was cheated said 'no problem' then they don't care about you!
495411
Depending on how it ended... If badly I proably would not go back to him. What went wrong would always be in the way, and if we argued, then it would be the first thing that was brought up. ... \n\nIf it ended on a good note (which is very rare, but does happen!!) I might give him another chance. Unless I was with someone else, and in love with someone else.. In which case, I again would let it go.... I might regret it later.. But sometimes the past hurts too much to bring it into your future.
123947
Um... this works the same way as the heterosexual relationships I guess: you confront him, you ask him why he did that, you slap him and leave him. Nobody deserves a second chance when they cheat on you, regardless of what their sexual orientation is. You deserve better. Leave him.
426736
Fisrt its better if u answer to this Q:why u cheated her ,even not once,but twice???????????
412387
Once someone cheats on you there is no going back.  I tried the whole forgiveness thing with my fist wife and ultimately it is something you just can't get out of your mind and since he already cheated on you before it is much easier to do it again.  I think he blew his chance with you and you will be better off with someone else.
150364
my personally opioinon is yes. i would give him what he deserves and then after he sees ive been cheating ill leave him. a cheater will always be a cheater. if he cheats on you once he will cheat on you again, even if he tells you he will stop if you stay.but truth is he wont.so if you choose to cheat on him back, that would hurt him and then to see you leave will make him know he ;ost something great.if i were you thats what i would do.
609851
It's very hard to fully trust a person after they cheat. Even if you forgive them, it's always in the back of your mind that they did it. However, some people have moved beyond a cheating history and married and lived happily for many years...if you truly believe that he won't cheat again and that you have it in you to marry this man, then you should.
293649
Sorry Girl YES He WILL Cheat AGAIN!