Can a Woman's sexual desire just get shut down if she is always around a man she just doesnt like???
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Of course it can get "turned on" again!!! Don't give up!!! Remember this, the most important part of the body to get "turned on" is the BRAIN. When you are with the right person, he will stimulate your mind, which could lead to stimulating other things as well...
595800
Some women just don't get aroused by certain things, ask her what she wants and what she likes. She might not like men at all (I'm speaking in general here.)
405467
Sadly, currently i am the other man in that kind of triangle.(except she is not marride but living with the guy) I am in love with this woman.  But she will never leave this guy.  I was being used the whole time.  You are not in love with both of these men. You just crave attention anyway you can get it and dont wont to feel guilty.  I bet if you look hard enough one of these men really do luv you and is the best for you.  But you are not a strong enough person to do the work it takes to be in a real relationship.  No matter what these men are going to get hurt. AND YES IT IS YOUR FAULT!!  you are the bad guy in this!
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From my view sence I am a guy yes. I like a challange if I am attracted to a woman. But don't like it when they play too hard to get it turns me away. It's like the Trill of the chase. Be playfull about it because when your playfull about it it's like putting a candy bar on the table and telling them not to eat it. But you want to get them settle hints. I love it when a Woman is playfull about then finaly gives in.
108526
Well, if you like someone it doesn't give you ownership of him. If you are involved in a relationship with him however, then she should back off.
16453
It sounds like his feelings are all sexual.  You said 'but i don't want to see him', so don't worry about what to say to him.  Oprah had a guest who wrote a book, i believe, "He's just not that into you".  It would be good reading.
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I believe that must be something that hold back the lady. if she can't overcome the fear factor, I think the lady will never be committed in this relationship. Ask your friend to convince the lady that he is willing to overcome all obstacles together with the lady together. I hope this can work for your friend
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Either he doesn't mean it or he's a swinger. A woman would have to decide what she wants, but if she wants a monogomous relationship, then I'd say she should end the relationship with this man, because he isn't going to say she can sleep around and then not do it himself.
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If it turns him off, then you don't need him.  Someone who cares about you isn't going to let that get in the way of how they really feel about you.  If he came to you with the same problem, would you feel any different twords him?
476888
I guess what we really want out of a potential g/f or wife is a bit of a challenge. If you're too aggressive those signs say you're giving it away too easy to be virtuous. Light flirting with a little withdrawal let's us know you're interested but discerning. Now the easy part, not wanting what we can have is a popular misconception. Keep us wanting. Take care of yourself. Maintain some drive. Stay healthy and trim if that's the way we found you. Nothing makes us refocus our desire for you like you being desired, especially by other men. But if you let it go, we can't fool ourselves into being attracted. It just won't happen. Oh, and have self-esteem, please.
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Ya know, giving a woman "warnings" is not generally considered a good way to get her in the mood. In fact, it's a great way to send her out looking for a man with some respect and some SENSE. Try counseling, and try considering that maybe you're part of the problem.
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well, i would say that she is just not interested in you, no offense but, if she was never like this before then i would say you two need to get into counseling to help her to want you.\nWhat takes away 95% of  a women's sex drive? Wedding cake
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Imagine that you can't do anything at all with this guy that has anything to do with sexuality. You can't even kiss him. Now, if that were the case, would you still want to be around him? If you don't... then most likely it's only lust.
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Sometimes if it's that time of the month it's harder to get them, or easier, depending on how it's going that month. \n\nAlso, she may have a mental block....like maybe being afraid to "let go". A woman really has to trust you to allow herself to do this. \n\nAre you rushing her? The last thing a woman wants is a guy riding her to perform. She'll never get one that way. \n\nShe needs to relax.
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The only thing you can do is keep reassuring her that you are not interested in him.  Tell her that she shouldn't get mad at you for something you have no control over.  You can't make him not like you and like her...it's his choice.
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My dear it should not bother you on what people think you would be suprised most of your friends wants him for themselves you know how women can be if they cant have a guy they destroy him so pls ignore and be with your man if this does not work pls advice him to use clearasil it works believe me.
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yah, just like a woman can love a man but not always be in the mood for sex.