why can't i wait to see my 15year old girl-friend...?
485504
Awww that's so sweet. sounds like love to me!! good luck to you in your relationship.
426074
Well, you should ask her why she won't tell you her age...maybe she's sensitive about things like that, and looks young but is really older?  If she is coo coo, but she's harmless, then it's all right; if you thinks she's way off her rocker then I might end the friendship.  However, some people are just eccentric.
465482
you have to know her.\n\nI am older. Wish you well
138035
Perhaps because many boys of ages 11 to 15 don't know what to do with a girl if she got them.\nWhat is your rush.  Afraid that you are missing something?
832432
you contridict your self here continuously, your not jealous then you are then your not then you are? your girl is 14 you are 17,believe me most girls that age think it is great to be with an older boy and wont jepardise this so dont be jealous, if she is in a team then it is a bonding thing when they hug a bit like footballers when scoring a goal, dont be jealous just keep telling her you love her and look after her and make sure there is no hanky panky until she is ready and the correct age, you sound sensible however so i trust you will do this, most of all be happy, you are young and so is your girl, believe me you will probably feel like this about many more girls before your 30.
777567
No it's not just you this is a pretty big age difference for a guy to want to be a good friend with a girl of this age.  Hope that he isn't using her for any other reason than friendship as young girls that age are so vunerable.
337182
Your friend may be asexual.... It isnt a choice if she is. Do you totally control who you are attracted too? If so, I want you to go to school and become sexually aroused and fall into love with the most unattractive boy in school. (If you are a girl if not do the opposite) Hey its a choice, you should be able to do it. The main problem I see with this question is not your friend however your non acceptance of her. There is nothing "wrong" with her at all. Her behavior is not the norm however the norm does not necessarily mean it is the only right way. Accept your friend for who she is right now.... if you truely are her friend. Also, by the way, dont rush to judge. I know you feel grown up now, however, you are not. 16 is very young and one of these days you will look back and understand that. Your friend has plenty of time to fall in love and have crushes.... My guess is that she will go through that process but only in her time... not yours. By pressuring her, you may cause her to have trouble in finding that right person. A person has to love their self before truely loving someone else. Be a friend and accept her from where she is at. She isnt hurting anyone or breaking any laws. I'm sorry if I came across as blunt however your question, how you wrote it bothered me. I hope you question how you see her and give her a chance to find herself without judgement.\n\nBy the way, I'm a therapist and every expert in the world would laugh at you for even trying to research this about your friend at her age. She is still developing and growing. A human brain doesnt totally develop until around 25 years old. Maybe that part of her brain hasnt grown yet.\n\nBy the way, I understand you are probably doing this because you care, but seriously you are out of bounds and barking up the wrong tree... as the sayings go.\n\n\nBy the way, about your added comment... Does things that are right about your friend usually annoy you since you are back tracking and saying you dont think anything is wrong with her. Dont get me wrong, I'm not going to argue with you. My main goal is for you to look at yourself and become more aware of what you have said. I think you are doing that. No hard feelings..... Good luck with your friend and I hope you have a very long lasting relationship\n\nCounselorDan
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come to my home and you will meet her. Remember to bring sth for me if u want to see her
224761
It is 17 i know i couldnt wait. good luck
1026168
she aint even alowed 2 drive yet, go to a club, gamble, do you seriously think she has enough experience living on this planet to know that you're the one. She may feel strongly for you but on the real how long does that last when you're 14!
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i understand that ur worried.. you have to talk to her and tell her bout ur fears.. ud be surprised to find out she proably has no idea u feel that way.. i know what ur going through.. im 16 and my Bf is 20 and i often feel like the age difference is a big disadvantage..
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This is a normal part of growing up.  It happens to all of us.  I remember crying my eyes out with a friend because we hadn't spent that much time together, and now we're graduating and won't see each other in a while!  I have seen her twice since then; 14 years ago.\n\nYou'll miss your friends at first, then you move on.  If you go to college, you'll make lots of new friends, and they'll have a lot more in common with you.  If you work, you'll meet friends at jobs.\n\nKeep in mind that if you were very best friends, you will remain very best friends.  My friend since I was 10 and I talk every now and then, but we live in different cities and are in different points in our lives.  She's a single mom now going back to school, and I'm married with 3 kids and already graduated from college.  But we still talk, and I'd still consider her my friend!\n\nRelax and enjoy this moment in your life.  There are many big events to follow soon!  Your life will start changing dramatically as you grow up!  And you are ALWAYS growing up!\n\n(Your e mail address isn't confirmed so I can't write you back, so I'm editing this...)\n\nI'm sorry.  This is a normal part of growing up.  Changing friends, changing lives.  You met these friends, you will meet more!  Being sad is alright.  Let them know that you will miss them, and that you wish them luck.  Maybe in a few years after things cool down you'll see them again!  There is the internet, after all.  When I graduated, there was no internet or cell phones.  Getting in touch with people was much more difficult.  I've recently gotten in touch with some old friends; and it's nice because it's been so long we have so many stories to share!  I had lunch with a girl I haven't seen in 7 years a couple weeks ago, and I'm having dinner with a friend I haven't seen in 17 years Friday!  I'm really excited, and I'm bringing all kinds of pictures!  We met when we were 12, and now I have a daughter about that age!  Funny!\n\nLife is fun.  You'll enjoy it.  I'm glad to see that you are so aware of your feelings and not afraid to talk about them.  That's the first step in being an adult!  So many adults have trouble because they can't understand their feelings, and if they do, they won't talk about them!  You'll do well in your life!
1033237
Why in the world would you want to do this?  You should be happy for her.  I know it must be hard for you to see her with someone else, but please try to see it from her point of view.
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just do nothing la!!!! just kidding... what about make her happy... just let her go... 1 day when you are gone from her life than she will know how meaning full you are.. then try again... if it does not working, there is something wrong with you man... I'm 14 to so i know how to handles girls at my schools....
156386
...its normal to be concerned... but you should talk to her about it. don't say anything negative, but don't talk about it too much. you should plan times that you can hang out. Maybe you just need more time with her. :)
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You obviously have an awesomely amazing friendship. Girls seem to be more in tune, with one another...in comparrison to guys being in tune with girls. I can see how this attraction came to be. I'm sure its been quit awkward. If the two of you don't want to loose your friendship, you should try and discuss the issue. Perhaps you could get her a card, or something light...that lets her know, that whatever happens, you will always be there for her. You could talk about your attraction to one another...and find out if it was just curiousity or if it involves more. Regardless, let her know, that you will always be her friend. No matter what. She is probably just as shocked as you. I've always believed that women could relate to women on a more "natural" level...you've both got in you you...you both owe it to yourselves to get to the bottom of this. I wish you the best. I'm sure it will be a Halloween to remember!
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It might not be about you, it might just be that her parents don't want her dating anyone right now.  A lot of people wait until a girl is 16 before allowing her to date.\n\nTry this--write them a letter, asking formal permission to spend time with her.  Let them know you are willing to address any concerns they might have, and tell them you have the utmost respect for her and would never do anything that would compromise that.  Let them know that if they would prefer, you would be willing to spend time with her at their home when they are present if that would make them more comfortable, or take a chaperone if they went out.  Ask to come by sometime in the evening and meet them.  Let them know you will respect any decision they make, and then DO SO.  If they say no, leave her alone.\n\nThis might seem like excessive effort, but it seems like you really want to hang out with her, so it might be worth it, and it would show you to be a very mature and courageous individual.  It might win them over.  Either way, you will have done everything you could do.