how can i get the real men in us?
481416
I think some of us are already here, but, you look in the wrong places. If there is someone you know there probably ways. One may be to marry the person. IF, he can get a job, that may help with obtaining a VISA or Green-card, which is a good first step toward Citizenship. You can sponsor him also, that helps a lot. Just so the Government knows he have a place to stay and friends. Good Luck.
935228
Ok sounds silly but match.com.  i met my man and guess what he lived in my state, but in a different city but worked in the city where I live. Only 10 minutes away from me.  Really weird how things work. I have been in this area for 10 years and it took match.com for me to actually meet him and find out what a wonderful guy I have been missing. \nFind profiles that talk about a man's personality not about his physical appearance or sex preferences. \nOn the internet there are never enough ways to be careful. Always correspond first through the site, then if you are feeling comfortable either talk on the phone or meet in person but always in a public place.
1089680
Have confidence dear -- if you are ready than do not rush it. Just be yourself and the guys will appreciate that versus a shallow phony-- they are everywhere! First- a little hint-- find a couple of guys that you find that are attractive-- then start conversations with all of them--asking them things about them-- what they think and feel about different things. The shallow guys will be annoyed and blow you off-- the decent guys will find that your interest in them as a compliment.  Try it and see how that works. Also ask around about them too. Do not make any commitments to go out with any of them until you narrowed the choices down to one or two. By that time I feel you will kn ow who those guys that are worth your time will be and who is not.
843463
Like a previous post stated, your place of religious affiliation is a good start.  You can also try volunteering for a cause you believe in - you automatically hook up with like minded individuals, and you already weed out mercenary gold-diggers.
29738
That's the problem - boys... Not that when they become men it gets much better. But some mature. Get a good Christian man and your chances go up =)
1076963
sorry the best men I know are in dallas tx, and orlando fla. Those are the only ones that I can vouch for. \n\nBest of luck
49703
I dont think u can find the answer here.\nhow about u ask people in ur area? u can ask your neigbours or the big men in ur family.\nPeace on u\nhuS
782775
The only prerequisite that you have to meet is to be a born or naturalized citizen. Other than that, there are MANY ways to be a "true American".
1019506
just be yourself and be a gentlemen
234882
hi. I tried and I found 5 guys by that name. They are all over the U.S so its up to you.
1114765
TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of men and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, I gotta have them?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym to make you muscles firm, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time de-impressing any man.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports and hang around there (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved woman sometimes attract men (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n6. If you are good to one man, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more men...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
695603
try to find a man thats not taken...
550521
To bad you live so far away cause I would LOVE to find a guy like you. Tired of the bad guys....Good luck
980374
Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
622565
Don't put all men in the same class.  Not ALL of them are scum-sucking maggots.  Above all DON'T PLAY THEM!  Let you be you, the real you, and you'll and might just get lucky and catch that one-in-a-million guy.  Don't try to be dominant.  But then again, it is wise to guard up.
326388
You better believe it.  All men should know how to do that -well. \n\nI don't know if it would help you GET ladies, but I'm sure it would help you KEEP them. I mean - you can't just walk up to them and say "Hi my name is Bob and I like eating p$#&y."  But once they figured it out, they'd probably stick around for a while.
595541
Cause we're the real men! Not those racist whiteys.