My girlfriend is Wicca and i want to surprise her.?
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Try gifting her with jewelry – I don’t know a Wiccan alive that would turn well-intentioned and well-associated jewelry down. Always consider the magickal properties of the jewelry you give her, though. I thought the following gemstones would probably make the best of impressions on your Wiccan lover:\n\nAquamarines are “helpful in fostering happiness in relationships and is excellent for workings regarding love.”\n\n“Emeralds have been associated with love for thousands of years. They are the stones of Venus, the Roman goddess of love, and are said to promote domestic bliss, faithfulness, and devotion.”\n\nGarnets are “highly associated with strength, protection, energy, passion, and sex.”\n\nKunzite “is used in magickal workings to promote peace, relaxation, calmness, and love.”\n\nMalachite “attracts love and fidelity.”\n\n“Opals specifically facilitate psychism, beauty, luck, money, and love. The old superstition that opals are the bringers of misfortune is simply not founded.”\n\n“Rose quartz is primarily a stone of love and peace.”\n\nRhodocrosite is “a stone of love and peace, but it is also known as an energizer and promotes a productive energy flow. Rhodocrosite brings compassion, tolerance, and acceptance of change.” <--(That's a little something that could be usefull to anyone!)\n\nRhodonite “promotes love, peace, and tranquility.”\n\nSunstone “is reported to promote sexuality and desire.”\n\nTopaz “promotes, wealth, love, and healing.”\n\nTourmaline (the pink variety) “promotes love, comfort, and positive heartfelt emotions.”\n\nTurquoise is “a stone of love, serenity, peace, friendship, and marriage, as turquoise connects the three upper and the three lower chakras, bringing harmony and balance.”\n\nDon’t forget about the precious metal it’s set in (if any). Gold and silver have their own properties as well:\n\n“Gold is a well-known metal with ancient associations with Sun gods and divinity in general. It is a metal of nobility, and palaces and places of worship have been decorated with gold for centuries. Gold promotes power, wealth, and luck, and wearing gold is said to ensure a long, successful life. A strong and malleable metal, it is said to augment these qualities in its wearer. It is also protective and stimulates positive energy. Wiccan high priests often wear gold to symbolize the God.”\n\n“Silver is an ancient, pure, and powerful metal that has been used for thousands of years in association with the Moon and the Goddess. Silver brings calmness, peace, and sensitivity to its wearer. It augments spirituality, magickal ability, psychic visions, dreams, and meditation. It fosters mothering and nurturing qualities, and is protective of women, nature, and travelers. As much of the world's coins are made of silver, it is also a potent amulet for attracting money. Many Wiccans and worshippers of the Goddess wear silver jewelry, particularly crescents, in honor of her. Silver bells and altar pieces are often used to invoke the goddess as well. Silver also promotes love, kindness, and gentleness.”\n\nBest of luck, and blessed be!
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Becoming Wiccan is a life-long process requiring study, devotion and practice. The first step would be to read the Wiccan Rede (http://www.religioustolerance.org/wicrede.htm) and see if it fits in with your beliefs.\n\nThis site will help you get started.\nhttp://uk.geocities.com/angel_fire6585/become.html
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a nice Massage!!! if she is a working woman she will appreciate the royal treatment!!! send her roses to work, makes us feel special. COOK her dinner, nothing says "you are my special love" then a dinner made with blood sweat and tears. and then that night, massage her into a deep sleep. dont press sex either. ask her if she wants to. if she does, make love!!! no f*cking tonite. if she doesnt say something to the effect of "its perfectly fine. let me rub your feet, it will be better than sex" makes me dreamy just thinking about it, ps. im married too
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Start with a card, and write the first of 21 surprises I have for you today.  Then plan the others, a rose in her car.  A chocolate in her desk drawer, a dedicated song on the radio, a little stuffed animal in her closet, a small bottle of her favorite perfume in her lingerie drawer. A "chick flick" movie that you promise to watch with her.  (The Lake House is excellent) I'll let you figure out the rest.  If you can't afford 21 surprises, then buy 21 flowers.  And make sure the next to the last gift is something nice, the last gift is your kiss. Which should lead to something YOU'd really like.  \n\nHope this isn't too sappy for you.  \n\nPeace.
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Make her dinner... if you can't cook get take-out from her fave place and set out some candles.. (don't light the place on fire) play her rave song.. rent her fave movie.. and papmer her with a nice massage.. sounds good to me!
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I'm guessing that this isn't the first time that your girlfriend has had something paranormal happen to her. It could be that there's something in the house, and it's able to manifest itself because your girlfriend is already sensitive to such things. Given the way it is manifesting itself, I have to wonder if your girlfriend has low self esteem. Sensitive people with low self esteem sometimes get spiritually kicked around. That is not an acceptable way for ghosts to communicate and she needs to let them know that.\n\nIt's not enough to just move out of the house. Your girlfriend needs to learn some psychic self defense. The most standard form is the psychic bubble. Is that the most stupid sounding name in the world or what. I mean really. But it's the standard defense that most magickal practitioners know.\n\nYou start by imagining a spot in your body at the level of your solar plexus. Breath in and see it glow. Breathe out and see it glow brighter. Breath in and feel the light grow in strength, breath out and push the light out as a balloon inflating until it's a bubble bigger than your body. Breath in and sense the bubble around you. Breathe out and sense it grow stronger.\n\nNow that you've got your bubble, you've got your basic defenses. You can use the bubble to push psychic advances back, and not always nicely. This is our realm. We are the ones with the power here. If ghosts try anything, we have the ability to defend ourselves. A self confident psychic can take on most anything paranormal.
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The custom you described sounds a lot like the old shamanistic Wicca ritual to protect a dwelling, often carried over to Christian culture without the participants knowledge of why they were doing what they were doing, just done because it was always done; or lost origins to time. I of course mean no disrespect to your Oma, and I personally find it charming that She loved you so. Thank you for sharing this interesting finding.
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If you ask her,you'll be sure to get it right.We girls don't care if the gift is a surprise,just getting a gift from a lover is good enough.If she like clothes,take her shopping,just ask her what she wants.It's also a good way of seeing if you can afford her wishes or not.
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They make this little Vibrator called a "Lifesaver" really cool and she will get a laugh, then maybe some Perfume! ;-)\nIF, this a girlfriend, take her some place special. NOT expensive, but, fun.
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the fact that you want to teach her a lesson, but know you can't hurt the woman, is a tremendous thing, especially because this is where you keep waking up.\n   Your Christian background is the arena the dream plays in - a Christian burial - your roots, and you don't mention if this upsets you because it's not a Wiccan burial. However, the dream promises you an "afterlife" after the Wiccan delivers her eulogy, which represents a transition. Wicca upsets many Christians who might not know the ins and outs of it, and this is the family and friends (you never mentioned if your family is actually there) you experience at the funeral. the old woman you never met doesn't want to hear about this, as most in the Christian community wouldn't understand. I'm curious and would need to know more to give you a better answer, but right now the symbology is death, with a promise of rebirth from the goddess that doesn't happen because of the old woman - who is protesting your "new" religion. Again, i wish i knew more details, but it is either pushing you to go with conviction of the "afterlife" you seek in Wicca, and as there is no death, and just like the pheonix rising from the ashes, death is rebirth for the spirit and soul. Or, the dream is forcing you to reconsider leaving Christianity completely (you can be both), which you are having trouble doing because you can't get past the old woman and the goddess' promise of what happens after the eulogy.
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Where are you from....she would really love it (funds permitting) if you took her to Wiltshire in the UK to see the Magickal villiage of Avebury and to see Stonehenge during the summer solstice. I went to Stonehenge on the last Summer Solstice and there were thousands of Wiccans there
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my husband is over there right now. you could send videos of all your buddies saying hey your man loves you! send her pics of you and the guys. where my husband is now, he has some access to more cultural type stuff. you could pick out some stuff as souvenirs to send to her. i really like mt. dew, so my husband sent me one of theirs as a souvenir. you could make a cd of songs that make you think of her, that say what you want to say. and when you write to her, tell her how you are feeling, tell her about your plans for the future. girls like that stuff.\nand thanks for your service and sacrifice!\noh, and the best gift of all in my opinion, put together a charm bracelet for her. include charms that symbolize times you spent together. such as a horse for the time you guys went horse back riding together, just as an example. i would love it if my man would think of something like that!
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I pray and mediatate with ONe White Candle and a NIce Decent sized Wine Glass of Water! Meditate and ask your guides for help. They help you tih your psychic abilities. This is how I do it! Email me if you have any other questions or things I ca help you with.
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When my gf of just one year had her birthday, I went to ebay and bought a jewel from cambodia.   I got a blue zircon, (she likes blue zircon, and trust me, if you pay attention, the gf will drop the hints.....)\n\nShe took that blue Z and bought a ring and setting for it, (cause she knows gemology), and I have to say,  she did a really good job of making a ring out of it.\n\nSo, look for something unusual, something she likes, and something she can add her own style to.\n\nAND GOOD LUCK WITH THAT!!  (cause,dude???  that's not an easy thing to do!!!)\n\nsincerely:\ntom
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I think that you should get her a massage gift certificate.  Or plan a day to go with her and you both get one.  Or, you could just make her a nice candlelight dinner, and then give her the massage yourself (after you set the mood just right).
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Not a wiccan but my prayers for your sister. May she deliver a healthy baby and enjoy motherhood. Allah with you\n\nPeace
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I'd start out with researching some books.  Not all will be truth.  Wicca isn't all about spells, it's not a quick-fix religion.  So if you're serious about pursuing that path, avoid the spell books for now.  Also look around to see if there are any groups in your area that you could talk to.  The thing about this path, there are so many peole (like in other religions) that will tell you that their way is the RIGHT way.  That's just not the case.  But only you can determine what's right for you.