Would you be offended if the man you love brought up past realtionships?
486405
he is just puffing his chest. he thinks that by telling you this you will think that he is a sexy stud and is very experienced.
798237
Why are you embarrassed about it?  Is there something to be ashamed about?  So what if you had sexual relations...it's when he starts lying about the details of that sexual relationship then you have a problem.  But women can be pretty good at nipping men in the butt if they chose to reveal details.  Let him know that if he wants to remain civil friends that he should grow up, or else you might just have to let all of your female friends within the common circle of friends know just how pathetic a lover he really is.  He knows that you are bothered by your past sexual relationship and is trying to tease you.  He wants a reaction from you.  Just don't give him one.
153334
The real answer comes as a question. If your boyfriend is secure in your relationship with him, he probably won't mind. On the other hand, if it really bothers him, then he is responding to an offhand remark as if it is a threat to your relationship. In this case, it may still be alright to others, but if you're smart, you won't continue to do it if you know it upsets him. Here's the real big question you  need to answer, and only you can. If your boyfriend is getting really bent out of shape over an innocent remark because he's that insecure, do you really want to invest more of your time on him in the first place? \n\nNot to tell you what to do, but my experience has taught me that jealousy and insecurity are symptoms of greater emotional problems. The person with the problems needs to first acknowledge them, before he can ever get the help he needs to overcome them. As long as he thinks you'll put up with it, he never will admit he has a problem. Don't deceive yourself, as many young women have done, into thinking that you can change him. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY. Better for you to just move on. This may sound cold, but it's probably the best for him and certainly would be for you.\n  Hope this helps you.
849754
I personally wouldn't  do it.  He's past history, and he hurt you badly to boot.
191589
well..personally, i would have been a little offended if you had called me up and told me you couldnt go all the sudden...mainly because it seems like the way you told him wasnt exactly sorry, or anything...i think you should have been sweet and called him up and just explained what happend and ask if you could go on the date maybe later, or another day, and be really sweet about it...on the other hand, i think he overreacted and he should have at least called you and told you it was over...i think its okay for you to call him..you both should talk through this and either make up and get back together, or make up and go your sepreate ways...and for in the future, always talk about whats going on, and be sweet about it..guys have a tendency to be stupid and think that if you cant do something you dont want to be with them..i kind of went through this with my gf a bit, and now we talk through everything and even though we disagree on stuff and sometimes get upset with each other, we can always work through it and make each other happy :) good luck!
253202
no. do you really think he is going to tell you the truth about how many women he's slept with? as long as two people are committed , the past should'nt matter . as far as honesty goes you should be honest in your relationship with each other. but the relationships before you two got together has nothing to do with now.and if you tell him the truth , he may think that's too many and it may make him think twice about you.
835866
It would depend on the kind of relationship you have with him.  Evidently it is not that strong if you are feeling so insecure.  If he has not given you any reason to suspect otherwise, I would let it go.  But if it is still bothering you, I wouldn't marry him until we settled the issue once and for all.
180019
NOt if you don't mind.\nIt would be wrong if he is married though.
996428
yes, I may, that depends of the situation. If He ask me, i want let him down even if If i don't have that kind of feeling for him. Sure I wouldn't keep him thinking. I will make sure I tell him my feelings about  the whole thing.
402221
yes i personally did !! if you are in a relationship but yet you can't tell your mate everything then their is something wrong going on .. you both have to be able to talk about everything ..thing's happened in the past ..thing's happening right now ..silly things that you do .. stupid dreams..embarrassing stuff ..just everything .. and he gata support you in every possible way not just make a funny of you or get mad all the time !!
164725
I'm not married, but I totally understand where you are coming from. In my past relationships, the guy will have done me wrong and I agree to stay in the relationship. The problem is, you can't stop thinking about the things that went wrong and a new question or concern always pops up. I realized that if you are going to stay with the guy, then there is no point in continually bringing up the past. Eventually, he is going to realize that you are not going to stop worrying about it and either walk away from the relationship or he is going to deem your concerns unimportant.\nThe guys I dated knew that I would get upset and argue, but that I wasn't going anywhere. What you should do is take a good look at yourself and figure out if his wrongs are something you truly can forgive. You don't have to forget, but if you seriously make the decision to forgive, then you can't continue to bring it up. \nIf you realize that you can't let it go, then you have to move on...for yourself. Obviously, you really care about this man, but if you can't let it go, then neither one of you are ever truly going to be happy. It's not easy, but it's also not impossible.
415306
Yes i would. He obviously wants to tell u sometrhing very important to tell the gurl. And she needs to give him a chance and let him get off his chest what he needs
213875
It happens.  Don't worry it will come back.\n\nOr....\n\nSomething is wrong in the relationship.  How do you feel about him?  Has something changed in him to  make you question what you are doing with him?
872078
I'm  sorry he said that. if you haven't had any "romantic" dealings with this man, then he has no right to call you that. tell him that you were rather offended by him saying that, even if it was a joke. jokes are meant to be funny, and obviously, he was the only one who thought it was funny. if he does it again, then tell his wife.
1169080
No, not really. I could understand jealous feelings towards anyone your lover had dated, or especially married in the past. However, if you're planning on getting a divorce, he shouldnt care.
1055647
I guess that really all depends. What value is there in your partner knowing how many previous partners you've had - as long as you and he are both clean? Traumatic events, in my own opinion, if you think that your past traumatic events could create some problems in your relationship, then it might be best to consider whether or not you and he are meant to be BEFORE indulging him in your entire past. The only reason I say this is because you'll need to trust him completely, and he shouldn't be frightened away by what you've been keeping. Though I'm sure sharing the information would give you some sens of relief, he might become more afraid to engage in certain activities with you knowing your emotional past. Not only that, but what if he leaves you not long after, and were to share this information with others? Childish - yes, but you need to watch out for number 1 first - That number 1 is YOU! Good luck! I hope it all goes well!
99992
Yes, I am going to say she would be offended, there are many different ways to approach that. Why would you even have to say it to her in the first place?