Should I stay with my husband if he is cheating on me with a woman he works with and won't stop talking to?
480818
You know the the differences when a man is cheating; when they feel they have to hide what they are doing when something is wrong.  At the same time what are you going to do. Guys always do what they want; they have control cause we let them. If you love him to the best of your ability; then you should have no regrets if you want to leave. It about control, build your support group around you. It all stops with you. Its going to be a time when you feel like you have nothing to lose - if he's already gone. IT don't have to be that way, life is what you make it. Besides its the begining of spring time; the parties are jumping
622384
NO dont tell your husband!!! It will only create an argument and make him even more irate and jealous!!! If you want to keep your marriage then i would recommend putting a halt to the steamy make out sessions with this co-worker. But if you are legally seperated and headed for divorce then what you do in your own time is your business.
621563
If I were that wife I would have a heart2heart talk with this husband.  Find out what's going on.  Is it spending time because of work or business, or after hours?  How much time is spent on this woman?  Then suggest to him that perhaps it's not a good idea to spend that much time with her considering he's a married man.  I won't accuse him of straying, otherwise he'll get defensive, get the facts straight first, then if he doesn't change his ways with this woman, when he tells me he loves me then I'll question that....and he better have a good answer!!!
507084
The choice is all yours. If you feel you can trust your wife than go for it if not than tell her she done screwed up. She's returning for a reason maybe she knows your involved with another woman and that made her jealous or maybe her parter that she left you for left her and she feels alone. Let her know you will remain her friend but thats about it. Either way just remember she cheated once she may do it again. Good Luck.
693365
Before you accuse or jump to any conclusions you need to talk to your fiance.It could be nothing but it won't hurt to find out.You should also tell him that he shouldn't give his cell number to any females that you don't know.No other woman should be calling his ass anyway.You are his woman and you should be his only female friend,no man in a committed relationship should have female friends, You may or may not trust your man,but I wouldn't trust any of his female friends.If she's calling about work she should call him at home and I would be right there listening.It sounds fishy to me.I would be concerned and get to the bottom of it.I hope it's nothing-but if something is going on you have to decide whether he's worth staying with.You won't be happy being with someone you don't trust.I wish you the best of luck and I hope he doesn't throw it all away for a fling -it's just not worth it.
322075
Ehh, I am going to go out on a limb here, and say that you shouldn't AUTOMATICALLY leave him, unless he is still activly particpating in his marriage, in which case you should.  I have to say that I was married, but not (we were separated), and I started a relationship with an amazing woman, but I was up front about my status.  Give him a chance to explain himself, if you don't like what he has to say then you can slap him and leave.  Don't act to hasty, get the lay of the land before you make a decision.  Good luck my dear, I hope it turns out ok.
751551
I agree with RaRa. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Who needs to worry everytime you are not with him that he may be up to no good? Be with someone you can trust!
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
205640
You'll either have an affair or you won't.  If you do have the affair, I can promise you that no good will come of it but this may be a lesson that you need to learn on your own.  Your private life will be based on lies that you'll be required to tell and keep up with in order to maintain the affair.  And if he's cheating on his wife with you, you're probably not the first and probably not even the only mistress.  This man is not monogamous.
123262
My wife has a family member who cheated on his wife. They since then have had a decent marriage, and he hasn't cheated since. They've raised two kids in the time.\n\nFor some it will work out, but YOU have to be willing to look past it. Granted you will never forget what happened, but you can't let it drag down your marriage. \n\nI think with most men, if they are not surrounded by the wrong situations, they won't cheat, but regular visits to the bar, strip joints, long hours at work with the opposite sex can often time creat situations that could lead to cheating for some men who don't have will power. \n\nHe needs to have his own friends, and his own life while married, but he also needs to understand that he has a wife at home. He should't put himself in circumstances that could create problems. \n\nHe needs to regain his trust with you, and that will take a LONG time. That is something HE needs to understand, and he should work to regain your trust. If he blows it off as no big deal, then obviously you aren't that important to him.\n\nIts a long hard road, but if the two of you work together, you can get past it.
587620
Leave him.  He is not going to stop cheating.
1004403
Rubbish, all these people forcing thier morals on you.  If you feel a need to sleep with him, and you want too, do it.  Yes, he may be married, but, he is not going to stop looking just because you turn him down.  If you seduced him, then you are at fault, if harmless flirtation turned into something else, that is nature.  You know that this is just a physical thing and nothing will come out of it, but a little fun, if your ok with that,and can deal with it at work, then have fun.  Guess what people, the wife knows, she just prefers not to admit it, get real.  This woman is not a home wrecker of any kind, and you should not be bashing her.
282037
i would dump the person\nits alot of stress to go and cheat and it is obvious you dont care about the person nemore if you would even think about cheating on them\nlike i said you should just dump the person and find someone new
951612
i would not ask him... i would wait till they broke up just cuz i wouldnt want to be the other woman and if he cheated on her what makes you think he wont get bored with you and do the same he cant even be a real man about his relationship with her
598638
Leave her alone. If she is engaged already back off! First reason is called respect...don't try to steal a woman that is in a committed relationship. 2nd reason is that she loves this person she is going to marry and if you try to break that up you may make her upset or mad. This is not good if she is a coworker. You may cause relations between you to at work to be unpleasant and she may report you to hunman resources at the office. I am sure your employer would not like to hear that you are harrassing her (she could say) and trying to break up her potential marriage/engagement. 3rd reason is that you do not know what her fiance is really like. Her fiance may kick your A** if he finds out that you are trying to steal her away.
670042
i would ask my man nicely to ask this female friend not to contact him. this is not normal. by staying silent u re provoking him cheating. this woman definitely wants a piece of your man
397434
Really, cut your ties with this man, he's not a future for you. You continue to see this man and you will continue to get lied to and cheated on too. He doesn't know how to be honest or faithful. To love someone like that isn't really love. Your feelings for this man hon, isn't what you really think it is. I don't know you, but I see that your taking who ever says nice things to you. Shoot, I could feed you with all kinds of nice words, but doesn't mean I really mean it. I wouldn't even give a another second to this man. Let him and her work through their own problems. Take your loss now and bail out sweetie. It's not worth it. Staying on with this guy or telling his wife, what will you gain from it. The satisfaction of telling her. No, wrong! Maybe for a while but later down the road. hhhmmmm Trust in your self and move on. Good luck to you.