I jsut discovered my boyfriend is in love with my sister? What to do?
480526
hey i am the a s s here. I am trying my best to deal with it. I thought it would go away but it has not. I have noone to help me with this and I am at a loss. maybe the best idea is just death. I cannot live like this anymore. i cannot beleive I am this man. I realize this woman is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I appreciate her so much. I was just looking for some ideas on how to make it stop.
150324
Tell him to leave you alone because your sister means way more to you than he ever could.  Then decide if you need to tell your sister.  I vote yes, but it is tricky because she may be hurt and blame you or not believe you.  Regardless family first...
1076094
Right now, just don't take sides. Trust your boyfriend and try to keep your cousin out of your relationship. It doesn't matter who did or didn't. If you can keep them apart then do so. Tell your boyfriend that with the current situation, you don't feel comfortable with them being together. Make sure to tell him that you trust him. Don't make him feel like it's his fault or you may lose him.\n\n~Pancake
636635
The one where a man fell in love with his sister.
911626
Yeah they are right..... You should really talk to your parents first or if you feel uncomfortable talk to your siblings and friends at least you would be considering their feelings....... But do you really love your boyfriend that much? Are you really sure that you two are going to live happily ever after like in the fairy tales? DO NOT ruin your life... Guys come and go but families are forever.
1085001
she is his sister. and you need to realize that. i have a brother who is not even a year older than me. and we are best friends. he dated one of our friends and it drove her crazy when we would hang out. chances are your boyfriend isn't going to sleep with his sister, leave you for his sister, run away with his sister. because she is . . . his sister. you never know she probably feels threatened by you for taking away her older brother. . . and only blood relative. you need to try and not be selfish, and just realize that it is pretty unfair to expect someone to put all of their love into one person. maybe let him know you are feeling a bit neglected. but don't make him give up his relationship with his only sister.
807636
If the guy was REALLY interested in your sister and ending his marriage, he would have done so already. \n\nMy advice to your sister is to find a SINGLE guy out there and forget about the married guy.  It will only make her happier in the end and she won't be sitting around waiting for something that won't ever come to fruition.\n\nBesides that, he cheated on his wife with her.  What is to say that he won't tire of your sister and cheat on her after they are married?  He is a loser and needs to be kicked to the curb.
367621
Honey...sorry to say this but this wonderfull boyfriend of yours does not respect u or the realationship that he has with u..just by reading what u wrote i can tell that this kind of behavior from him breaks your heart...u shouldn't put up with this at all...if he is staring at her in front of u..god only knows what he does behind your back..it doesn't matter what any of us post here to say to u...But if i was u i would move on...get your things when he is not around and get out of this relationship...think about it this way...if i was your sister and i told u what u are telling us...what would u say?...see what i mean?...there are some wonderful guys out there that u havn't even met yet that are dying to meet u
1120364
I'm in a similar relationship with my sister.\nThe only thing you can do is love her from a distance.\nCall her with little things like, "You were on my mind" and ask her how she's doing.  AVOID anything that might start conflict.\n\nKeep the lines of communication open, but keep your business to yourself.  Helps me.\n\n=^)
611733
Ask your friend if he's OK with you dating his sister, then ask her out (if he is OK with it - otherwise I don't know).
312727
Well how good of a friend is he?  If you don't want to mess up with your friendship with him, be a man and let him know that you like his sister and if it is alright with him if you started seeing her.  Tell him to think about it and let you know what he thinks about it.  Sometimes they will say that it is alright and other times they will say no, but you won't know unless you ask him.
1040210
Your sister needs a shrink...\n\nShe may be your sister but she acts like your girlfriend
773537
OK here is a love triangle for you this is great. My brother dated his girl for about two years, while i had my own boyfriend. we dated for about a year and a half. So after double dating and treating my brothers girlfriend like a sister she dumps my brother. Not too long after that my boyfriend broke up with me. About a week later i saw my brothers ex and my ex holding hands at school. Now my ex wants me back lol I'm getting back with him. I know it sounds nasty and he broke my heart, but you gotta listen to your heart do what your heart and soul tell you to do. you know you got it girl...
1085887
Ok, if i had a sister and my bf kissed her and asked her if they want to futher their feeling, and he came back to me and said that he doesnt want to leave mo, i would tell him that he should have never kissed my sister if he dont want me to leave. If she did it once, she will do it again.
669227
There a guy just like that in my life, I used to confine in him cause he was a good riend and he told me once that he like me and I should be with him even if it was a secret relationship, I told him I can't do that cause no matter how my bf hurt me I still love him and I am not going to leave him. I made my decision based on the vibes I was getting from the other guy. You need to ask your boyfriend's brother about his whereabouts on particular days. Use you woman's intuition, most of the time it is right and on clue. You need answers and you need them answered. But tell that guy exactly what is on your mind. Don't completely trust him. Take everything at face value and question other things completely.
622080
Well, it is unlikely that his own sister would lie about something like that.  Confront him and find out the truth, then if it is true, leave!  You deserve better than that.
829478
Don't feel bad okay, he is a jerk that why your sister brake up with him, if he is your sister boyfriend he should treat you like his own family, maybe your sister and him doesn't have any feeling or relationship again so don't worry a thing.