GUYS:: do you think a girl who masturbates is a turn-off!?
483758
i think it's a complete turn-off among conservative men...  girls who masturbate are perverts.
702832
I do not need to find someone attractive to consider them saucy.. \n\n\nDr BAd\n(thats all youre getting from me ... Just be thankful)
363534
Nope.  Completely normal for men and women to pleasure themselves.  Most young men (and women) masturbate on a frequent basis.  Women just won't talk about it!
560046
Only when you let it become a controlling factor in your life or makes you see women in a negative way. If you see it occasionally it shouldn't be any big deal. It's safe, entertaining, and educational. I use it to get myself horny.
1037306
The problem is definitely not with you. This is my personal opinion, but i think i have talked with guys in this situation before. For one, it could be an habit problem. For some guys masturbation has become an addiction. Its no more about just pleasuring themselves, they find pleasuring themselves more pleasurable than being with a girl. \n\nIt could also be that he feels he is not fulfilling his responsibility to you as a man and that holds him back from asking to do it with you which will inevitably make him think of pleasuring himself. It could also be that he is shy and does not know how to ask you.\n\nYou can know if it is one of this by letting him know you are ready if he wants spend some time with you. If he still objects, then something might be wrong, or he is no longer interested in the relationship.
611453
no i find that "unmanly"\nor in other words a turn off\nhope i helped\n: )
1117282
I wouldn't say it would be a turn on...just an added bonus! I actually believe that men are better cooks then women. So when you find someone who is nice, considerate, loving, cooking good puts the icing on the cake, so to speak!
735806
No not at all, i would kind of find it flattering if i was dating a male virgin and he wanted to do the deed with me.  Even if he didnt want a sexual relationship and wanted to stay celebate i would still respect it.  Any person male or female who has respect for themselves in that way should be commended.
907376
No i would not be offended if he masturbates in fact i would love it if he makes me watch lol.Nothing is really wrong just like how we might have a  ravenous appetite they also have 1 if he was masturbating wen he gets a thought about me then i wudnt have any problem at all in fact i wud encourage him
241887
Girls are made fun of about it throughout their life, and that is something they have always been pressured to do also. Not only is it really gross to think of the action but it is humiliating to some. It really makes them vulnerable feeling and if a woman is not comfortable she is less likely to do something. Giving her oral really well several times to orgasm, then mentioning your don't want to give without receiving might entice her and visual sources might get her more familiar with the idea of how it is done. Good luck, it took me several years to get mine to try it and another couple to get her good at it.
954236
I do it, and I think it's perfectly healthy and natural for both men and women to masturbate. \n\nI prefer the contact of another person to doing the deed myself, it's more fun. Masturbation is about the destination, Sex is about the journey. \n\nMutual masturbation can be fun too.\n\nI hate how women are taught that it's dirty and weird to play with themselves. Most of us do it, but only a minority will admit it.
722810
no that turns girls off
136115
Maybe she really doesn't masturbate.  You probably should stop asking her that question.
174621
Probably not as bad as the girl. Women have more of a concience when it comes to that sort of thing...MOST of the time. 'Course it doesn't override the heat of the moment (or the alcohol that brought it on!)!
1049420
no it doesn't mean that the girl is bad at sex it means that he probably has his eyes on another lady and that's why the girl can't fulfill him sexually. It's the sick truth....
349540
No...she is what we would make you an "enabler."  You would wind up helping her out and hiding the problem for her...never a good idea...You should try to find a girl that doesn't require such high maintenance.
1096635
I dont think so. I agree it depends on the age. I dont think guys look down on a virgin either. I think its all a matter of preferences and your beliefs. I respect a girl who can stand up to her beliefs and not fail herself like that. I think that is important when a girl is true to herself. I look down on a girl that doesnt do that.