do men really want what they can't have?
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I guess what we really want out of a potential g/f or wife is a bit of a challenge. If you're too aggressive those signs say you're giving it away too easy to be virtuous. Light flirting with a little withdrawal let's us know you're interested but discerning. Now the easy part, not wanting what we can have is a popular misconception. Keep us wanting. Take care of yourself. Maintain some drive. Stay healthy and trim if that's the way we found you. Nothing makes us refocus our desire for you like you being desired, especially by other men. But if you let it go, we can't fool ourselves into being attracted. It just won't happen. Oh, and have self-esteem, please.
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For the most part, women who are not looking to marry are the ones who have been there and done that. If you're willing to carry the extra baggage that goes with that...more power to ya!
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It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have.  Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it?  It's like that.  I'm not saying it's a good thing.  On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her.  I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
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He wants to have you, but not let you have him.
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Hmmm... for a start there's a wide difference between women's and men's expectations, simply because we are different in nature, though we belong to the same species and for this, there will always be certain expectations that both will have in common.  \n\nMEN: (I'm not)  I think they want you to tell them what you want and how you feel instead of giving for granted that they already know it.  They also want:  Space!!!!!!!!!  Freedom!!!!!!  Fresh air!!!!!!  They don't like you to be over them all the time.  The women themselves... ha,ha... that's their nature and because of this first they expect us to be understanding towards this.  They expect you to know about cars and sports, if not, to show a little bit of sincere interest or at least not to make a blackmail because they're interested in them.  They want us to understand that they're not 'money-machines', sometimes all financial pressure relays on them... cuz must women want the money they earn for their own... (not all).       \n\nWOMEN: They want men to know what they want without even having to say it... they want them to catch the hints they drop at first but this does not happen.  They want their space too, not as much as men -I think- but they need certain time for themselves.  Women want men to understand they need to be recognized for the work they do(housework/job out there)... they want love and care though differently... sometimes words and hugs are better than what for them comes to the fore... \n\nTHOSE SHARED BY BOTH: Control!  So in a good relationship it should be shared but that's utopian... and easy to prove just ask a couple who has the control... the one who answers, is the one who has it and he/she will arguee they share it!  Just be aware of when you shold hand over.  Both need time on their own and for their own...  Both want trust and love from the other... loyalty, faithfulness... \n\nAnd there are many many others but this arthritis is killing my fingers... hmmm
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Guys want what they think they can't have, so give up on him and maybe he will start chasing you
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Love might be blind.But men aren't.
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some guys just dont want to get married... if things are good, why not just keep them the way that they are.
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thts a misconception not all they love men
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DUH,  he wants what all guys want, he tryin to get that @@@@@$$$, gurl.\nHe might not necessarily want sex, but stuff does not mean playing a game of tiddlywinks and drinking tea, I'll tell you THAT!\n\nslyguy_hzleyes@yahoo.com
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Some people will do whatever they can to get what they want, but other people might try to do the right thing.  Stick to the type of people that you yourself are.  Not all men are lying cheaters.
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No it's a mamas' boy instinct .. real men who have any kind of intelect  don't live by instinct they live by desire \n... from the 2 pg. book pub. by S.L.Marquez a man of the 60's
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What do you mean for what they got? You probably have something they don't and want it or tease because they REALLY want it.
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Guys like things they cannot get or do not have.
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well men just don't quite function like women.  It's hard for them to understand our emotional needs.  They're like little kids.  Full of energy, jumping from exciting activity to another sometimes they just forget that we exist.  Emotional stuff is just not really in their train of thought unless we sit them down and tell them exactly how we feel and tell them what we want and need.  After he knows exactly what we want then he has no excuse for ignoring our needs.  We fullfill their physical needs they should do so for our emotional ones.
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Sometimes it is better that way.  Sometimes you only want them because it seems that you can't have them.  It is part of our nature to always want something that is just out of reach.  Know that if you lived close to each other and were both single you probably wouldn't want each other for very long.
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they are going to want the one thing they can't have