why would a guy friend start talking about how good in bed he is?
483984
you know why, he wants to play with butterfly, and thats his way of an approach.
973782
Sounds stupid, like what a guy would say to get someone into bed. I would laugh out loud if someone said that to me. Plus, it just doesn't make sense.
244651
That's stereotyping- everyone is different in bed.  All men have the power to become great lovers!!
44559
They simply say this statement because they want to keep you holding on to their balls but really they are afraid of commitment and don't want to let you know because they know they will lose you. I think if they flirt and talk to other women though, you should not distrust them. I think flirting is nature and I don't care what anyone says, everyone does it from time to time. So go out there and do it in front of him and see what he has to say about it.
395902
most definitely the latter. When someone is good in bed, I think they start looking more attractive to you (and vice versa). Because what is attractive (for me at least) is not a static image, it's the way someone moves, how they express themselves in words and gestures... and sex is a big part of that self-expression
774619
He trusts you and he is confident in himself, for a start. He must not feel in any way threatened, which shows the strength of your relationship.\n\nBut still, most guys woul dbe a little jealous, so maybe it turns him on to know how desired you are- maybe he really likes that, and it outweighs the jealousy.
605156
he just wants you in bed and/or to give you a sense of how big he is
597348
Maybe you should explain your reason for saying it to him! He probably did freak a bit, you know how men get when the l word is mentioned. Speak to him and if he doesn't understand drop him he's an idiot and not worth your time! He should feel helluva complimented as you were in such throes of passion and orgasmic bliss that you blurted out the unthinkable!
319446
cause their stupid, according to what my guy friend would say.:O) and he even admits guys are stupid coming from a guy.:O)
525658
maybe...\n\nmaybe these "incredible" guys are just ordinary average guys... (i know, we can seem incredible, and actually ARE in our own ways)\n\nmaybe... you make it too easy for a guy to say everything you want to hear... because he knows you like it... and you're taking it as a sign he's really into you... but when the infatuation wears off a little...\n\ni'm guessing (how do i come up with this stuff?) that you try hard to make a guy feel special... consistently... AAAAAGHHHHHH!  consistency and predictability is boring!  boring is bad!\n\nokay, so here's a few off the wall suggestions...\n\n- if you're going to make a guy feel special, don't be predictable about it (same goes for guys > girls).\n\n- if your boyfriend sleeps with some other girl... kick him to the curb and say it was nice knowin' ya.\n\n- if you figure out that people consistently tell you what you want to hear... then it's probably a "no-brainer" that you're "setting it up" somehow... just put yourself in the shoes of the other person and you can figure out how, and make adjustments so it doesn't happen any more.  : )
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could be, there is the fact that you are a tangible "what if?" that is constantly in front of him. there is also the fact that as a guy, we think about sex pretty often and when we are with a girl we have been with and are no longer available to, it sometimes comes strongly to mind. \n\nit could also be that his gf is not happy with him talkign to you.
1183234
NO!!! ...But -how rude if that was said to you,noone should be making someone feeling they are not good enough in anything ,specially that envolves emotions,sex is not a sport-and if someone thinks they (are such an expert?!)and thay should say something to their partner about it-shouldnt be so direct,but may be make suggestions or give ideas,or ..anything else,but say -you are bad in bed!Thats all wrong and surely wouldnt make you feel better,but quite the opposite-and i'm guessing every time you are having sex you are very aware that youre being judged-like is some sort of competition..If you are in LOVE there is no right or wrong way,you just have to communicate more and understand what works for each other best =)\n...Am i wrong?!
370160
thats a good thing, being tight usually gives the guy more pleasure.  Id go about with my head held high safe in the knowledge that ur friends partner is evidently so inexperiences that he has to cover it up with silly comments
332548
I think your friend should ask him while they are lying in bed next to each other if he would mind having sex like they used to.  She should tell him she really misses it and ask him if there is something he needs to tell her about anything new going on in his life that she may want/need to know about. The response will tell if there is something different going on.  SOmetimes though, I think that men jsut like trying new things and they enjoy it this way for a while then move on to that way.  But usually a gut feeling is something to be looked into.
83506
body language.\nWhy do you want this man who doesn't seem to notice you?\nWHY?\nOh, wait, you said "my man" and notice me 'more'.  Hmm... \nSo you have a man and want more sex than he is currently providing?  \n\nOr maybe it's not sex at all, for you said "want me more", which is womanspeak for _________.  Maybe a greater degree of commitment?  Maybe you intent to land this fish but he's not taking the bait?  \n\nPlease be more clear as to exactly what is the problem or question.  Us guys can't deal with the vagueness of your question. Thanks\n\nAnd what's wrong with saying something???  You are playing games and not taking responsibility as an adult should for your decisions and wants.\n\nSpeak the truth.  You are not a child anymore, adults vote.  Grow up and lay it all out plainly.
222109
haha...it's cuz men are cocky sons of bitches that just brag for fun! it's all in thier head, they can think it's as big as they want but that doesnt' make it grow lol\nwell my advice would be NEVER BELIEVE HIM!! lol
1096157
Maybe he's trying to be sexy .. haha .. some guys take it way too far and end up slobbering all over your ear ... !