I love two guys!!!!!!!! Help me!?
479888
If you can't decide . . . do not get into a relationship with either of them.\n\nDate them both . . . find out who you are more compatible with.  Which one brings out the best in you and you bring out the best in them.\n\nWhen you figure it out . . . then you will know.
273944
You need to get to know the both of them and see what they offer, and are they good for you, dont go out with them just cause there hot, thats taking advantage of them,but try and get to know them. You might just like the other better than one!
727120
you need to take a deep breath and think about the reasons you care about these two people, then figure out what qualities you are looking for in someone you want to date...sort out your priorities and choose who you care about more..in the end you will make the right decision for yourself good luck =]
851575
It sounds like you answered your own question with the "I love my boyfriend very much and don't want me mess things up with him."  Think about whether you really like this other guy or are only lusting after him.  Also if it is just for convenience will it last?  Think about what you would be giving up with your current boyfriend and if you will gain anything other than less distance with the other guy.  Do what your heart tells you is best.  Hope you make the right choice.
242804
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
708857
Well, you should be able to tell whether you have feelings for ted just by being his friend.. if you really like Justin that's a way to do it without hurting either one of them. BUT, life is too short to be with someone while wanting to be with someone else.. and no offense, but you sound young and if that's the case, you shouldn't be serious about just one guy.. play the field...most importantly.. find out who you are and what you want before you make any major decisions...do you even know if ted likes you? just have fun, enjoy life while you can, and don't hurt anyone unless its unavoidable- hope this helped
409394
First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
506709
you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)
1067797
get him out of your head.then just wait for the real love which is a shared feeling of love not by one partner of the two.you might meet a better person who cares 4 you. Also, you CAN'T force this guy to love you even if you tell him about your feelings.cause your feelings are your responsibility& he's not accountable 4 them.Telling him would just make the things worse.so don't tell him.Just wait my baby I'm sure you will meet so many better guys & then you'll ask yourself "what was the thing that attracted me to him".there's so much good is waiting 4 u.
257636
First of all, you should ask yourself these questions:\n\n-Can you love someone you don't know or have never met?\n-Can you love 2 guys at once?\n-Can those guys be real?\n-Is it love or illusion?\n\nMy advice? If you can't find a way to find out the truth about those guys, find real ones.
365381
wow, well who do u really like?? who do u want to be with?? talk to them both cuz talking to just one could cause a small problem
651916
Let me be honest with you... Are you absolutely sure that you're in love with two girls? Or do you like them out of friendship? Have you ever thought of that? Maybe you just adore one of them because she helped you with something and the other girl is someone you have liked longer than the other girl. \nIt is possible to be in love with two girls. But remember these girls are not objects. They are not to be used, understand? But they should be nice to you as well. you should know who you are most happy with. \nSo this is my answer to your question or more likely an advice...he...he... Bye!!!
165086
if you and this 3rd guy love each other (mutual feelings), then you should go for it! concerning these other people, no guy in his right mind would be happy with someone who wasn't into the relationship - and i doubt you would either! trust your feelings and go with the guy you truly love.\n;)
380326
I think you can really really like 2 people at the same time, but you cannot love them both at the same time. You either like one of them very much and love the other, or just like then both very much. Sometimes it could be confusing but I think if you ask yourself, and be honest with yourself which one you'd choose if you could be with only one of them, then you'll know who you love. Take into account which one of them makes you feel more comfortable being yourself, and he'll be the right to pick, even if you think you like the other best. Don't confused an explosive physical attraction with love. Good Luck !!!
1058857
stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more
1169964
get over the other guy and go out with the next and the next.....have fun......the other guy missed out or maybe you did not put out....or maybe you did to quick......either way forget him....talk to the other guy to see what he is about....you might just like it
468485
That's kind of a question you need to answer yourself. But I can give you some advice. What you need to do is sit down and think. Get three separate pieces of paper and write down all of the good things/moments about each guy and see which one has the most. Don't end it at that though. Think it through and see which guy you would be better off with. Who cares what your friends think? The decision is up to you. Whichever guy you pick, tell the other guys you're sorry and you think __________ is the best for you. They will eventually move on and get a separate life. I hope my advice works out for you and good luck. -Cody