I want to treat my friend to a day of rest,she has had a bad week. How much should I spend?
477632
As much as you want. She is your friend? Dont think friendship should have a price.
685260
well theres nothing better than to be there for her..\nif u feel like doing something maybe u should go on a trip together to take her mind off everything 4 a few hours or a few days...
203755
If she is feeling that sick hun, she'll have to go no matter what.  I would check the internet real fast and see if there are 'low income' places she could go that wouldn't charge her too much.  If all else fails, and she's really sick, take her to the Emergency Room and they HAVE to treat her until she's stable, and that's a law, so - they'll just have to bill her for it.  It will cost over 400 bucks just to walk in the door and ask for treatment.  :(  I hope it gets better for you and I am praying for your Mom hun.
713799
Pick out a nice card that you feel suits hers and your personality.  Sign it simply, that's best.  \n\nLike,\n\n"You mean a lot to me, and my prayers and thoughts are with you."\n\nor\n\n"Please know I am here for you in this difficult time."\n\nDon't fo with the "so sorry" thing...it's overdone and we all know how little the usual response like that affects us.  Let your friend know you care.  That is what it is all about.
542661
depends on who you are to her...\n\na friend...take her out for the day to a spa\na girlfriend...jewlery or nice clothes\na relative...gift certificate for a spa\n\npretty much anything that she would love to buy for herself that she can't afford.
56006
Not to diss the previous answer but a day at the spa for a sick (layed in bed) pregnant women is not going to be good and/or comfortable. I'm pregnant now and about to have my baby, but I do remember those first few months where I was sick (although not layed in bed sick) and I felt yucky.\n\nBring her some flowers (make sure they don't smell too much, it might make her even more sick), get her a Valentine's day balloon and a get well soon balloon and a baby balloon.  And get her something she's craving. Bring her those things and then ask her what she wants to eat, when she tells you, go get it and set it up nicely in the bedroom with candles (unscented) and you can have a cute romantic dinner with something she likes and without her having to get out of bed.
341815
do something for her. like cook her favorite meal; try get her fav book/music for her. make something sweet with your hands...remember, it doesnt have to be expensive at all!
832335
Well you could make her a fun surprise, first get a really useless or hilarious cheap gift and stay serious about it, let's say a used toothbrush. Then for the real gift i can't really help you because i don't know your friend, you are the ones friends with her so you know her better then any strangers here. I'd say a cd, or a necklace. Even if the real gift isn't great, she will just be happy she got something else then a used toothbrush.
711164
Hmm. It depends what your price range is. I don't know if there are certain gifts that are approprite in this situation, but if it were me I would arrange a weekend getaway. I'm sure he can use a nice relaxing break!
748999
comfort him ask him what u can do to help... maybe take him out on a relaxin nite on like a friday after all his bills are done
661291
She sounds very tired, scared and very frustrated. Right now what she probably needs is a FRIEND, someone to lean on. So I would advise for you to go and accidently bump into her. Show to her that you still care and want to help her, but don't look like you pity her or she will become worse. Try and get her to relax, unwind because all.\nI think it would help if you did research on depression.
748141
I am sorry your weekend was bad, but if you are not better by monday then you better take a day off and rest...all day!\nSounds like you need it anyway!
337673
Oh hunny.  Kick his @$$ to the curb!  The dirtbag wants to have his cake and eat it too.  You deserve SO much better than some wishy washy loser!\n\nDo this:\n\nTake a shower.\n\nGet dressed.  \n\nGo to the hair dresser and get a new hair style.  \n\nGo over to the Estee Lauder counter for a makeover.  Budget $60.00 and buy one of the great Estee Lauder moisturizers for your face, you deserve it.\n\nGet a manicure and a pedicure (no polish though).\n\nCall 5-10 of your best friends and have a potluck sleep over and do each other's nails.\n\nGrab 4 Chick Flick comedies and make TONS of popcorn.\n\nNo booze though, it just makes things worse.\n\nHug each other often and laugh until your sides hurt.\n\nKeep this in mind, your girlfriends are your support team.  When you all get together like that you all remember why you are friends and that no matter how bad things get, you always have each other!\n\nBlessed Be "Little Sister",\n\nSunshine\n\n=====================\n\nP.S.  To the insensitive jerks regarding "speak english and use spell check"... Bite off!  She is hurting deeply and she did the best she could to communicate how she is feeling.  I am and English Major and I took the time to read what she had to say patiently.  If you can't be bothered to do that then maybe you should not have answered her question!
903418
Time is a great gift! You could take her out to a classy restaurant or to the theater for a play or a ballet or something. You could get her a day at a spa for a massage and facial. Pamper her a little. If you have children, you could give her a day away to have some time to herself or with her girlfriends.
744085
Unfortunately, you're not going to be able to "do" anything but support her when she's trying to recover.  There is more to anorexia and eating disorders than just eating.  It's a control thing and she really needs to be in counseling with a professional and groups...all of those things she's getting.  You can encourage her to go.  Maybe getting her to volunteer with sick kids (those with cancer) might help her realize that her life is precious.  In other words, get outside of "herself" and give to others is very healing.  God love you for being a good friend.
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She should contact the hospital directly and explain the situation.  Somestimes (but depending on the hospital), they will be willing to forgive a portion of the bill, and work on a payment plan for the rest.\n\nIf not, is your friend part of any community that would be willing to put on a fundraiser for her?  Is she part of a church?  Is there a community of Colombian-Americans?  Perhaps a block party?\n\nGood luck!
1046968
Yeah you should defintaly send her some flowers and a card that says I"m really sorry.  You know make her feel like shes the only person in the world that matters to you!