My dd recently earning MORE income; how can I convince him to to a will, without sounding greedy??
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You can purchase will documents, I imagine it would have to be notarized at least once written, I don't know the legalitites here. \nIf they feel so strongly the brother doesn't have anything ..ask them to please state this as to not cause ill feelings between you and your brother after they have passed, if they are not in fact already this way. However there would be enough for his "other grandchild" to have something left as well. You stated before this is big money so thier is plenty. Just make sure you open an savings acct for the other child and have co-ownership to the acct. (If you open It I would think you could do this.)The same thing goes for your mom, I'd ask that she have written to whom goes what after her passing so you don't have to worry about it after her passing and while she is in good and sound mind. Anyone of us could get in an auto accident and pass tomorrow.  Its a good thing for everyone to have and update when need be.
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Yep, the key is to keep woking until she dies of old age. That way she won't get a dime. By the way, you are entitled to half of hers too.
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WHAT IN THE NAME OF ALL THAT IS HOLY DID DIANAPEBBLE JUST SAY TO YOU?????????  REALLY...SHE SHOULD NOT BE ANSWERING QUESTIONS LIKE THESE.  SHE HAS NOT A CLUE.\n\nFirst of all, if the bank will not allow you on the mortgage, then you need to either deal with it and have just your dad purchase the property, or go to another company.  If you would like, you could contact me at timothy.kazee@americanhm .com and we can talk about that.\n\nIf your dad is the only one that is going on the mortgage though, you can still be on title.  Just tell the closing agent that you would like your name on title as well.  Also, your dad could put you into a land contract.  This is a great options because after living in the property for 12 months (sometimes 6 months) you will be able to refinance it, rather than doing an actual purchase on the home.  Refi's are a bit easier to do for those with bad credit.\n\nThese are just a couple ideas.  If you would like more, feel free to contact me.  Thanks!
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I almost can't believe what I'm reading, but ok.  I'm not sure what a qick claim deed is, but I would talk to my lawyer, because just because his name isn't on the loan doesn't mean that he will not maybe have to help you pay for the house first off, secondly, what banker in his right mind would let your husband off the hook once he's got him?  maybe email me or post what a qick claim is plz, and I can be (maybe) more helpful
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I hate to say this, but you are probably up "sheep's creek without a paddle"!\nI am presently going through the same ordeal. My mom passed away and left a will, so we thought! Sometime in her last days my brother managed to coerce her into doing a new will that left him as power of attorney, executor of the will, and recipient of all her bank accounts! I knew for a fact that my mother was not capable "mentally" of doing this due to her condition! I protested to no avail and the court refused to budge unless I hired an attorney. The attorney wanted a $25,000 retainer fee that would "begin" the objection and more than likely result in a law suit against my brother that would have cost far more! It just wasn't worth the effort. However, with all said, the man above sees all and punishes those who go against his word! So in my heart I know his day is coming and we can all celebrate when the moment arises!!!!
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get an attorney quick before he moves funds out and make sure you get the alimony and child support you need
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I think that you should contact a law office that specializes in Wills, Trusts, and Estates Law and seek a free consultation to see if they may be able to make a case for you or make a referral to what should be the next move. Good Luck...and keep the fire to inquire!
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It sounds like you've already done your research since you stated that you'll get half of the assets.  You might also be entitled to alimony.
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I see some interesting responses on here.  I disagree with the reverse mortgage suggestion.  Up front it sounds great to take out a mortgage and never have to worry about paying it.  Needless to say interest continues to accrue and as this person suggested it will be paid from the estate.  Many times however it requires the estate to sell the home to do so.  I would only suggest a reverse mortgage as a last resort.  \n\nThis situation is a sensitive one as many factors come into play.  Such as what is the value of his 401K, what other sources of income does he have and what other savings vehicles are available to him.  Since he is in his 60's he can withdraw from his 401K without a penalty although he is still subject to taxation on the lump sum distribution.  This is why it is important to know what other sources of income he does have and are those other sources taxable. \n\nIf he his paying a high mortgage rate there is some benefit to paying off his mortgage, but not if this severely depletes his liquid assets.  It is a complicated question and needs a full financial analysis to see if it is beneficial.  \n\nI would however avoid that reverse mortgage option in this situation.
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Yikes!  Ask some local attorneys what options you have.  Some may take payments in increments.  It could be that if you take him to court he'll have to suck up most of the cost anyway, even back child support since you have been separated.  Never hurts to make some phone calls!  Much luck to you.  I think you'll find this is easier than you think, it's just annoying as hell.
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Depends on how willing to cooperate each party is. Sometimes the dad will say "Oh you keep the house b/c you have the kids more often"  she also gets the mortgage payment then too. If a mutual aggreement can not be made or a 50/50 split is not agreed upon then a mediator can be called in to decide for the couple who is better off with what and why. Then anything that can not be divided is sold and the profits spit 50/50.
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first you need to consolidate his debt.  it is true life is not fair but be happy you have your health and a family try to get a loan to start a business in steel but make sure you do ur homework as you have more on te line than your average entrepreneur.  you must take a huge risk to reap huge rewards.  if you choose to be cautious consult a financial planner and or creditors for advice.  good luck sir and may all your problems end like bad day when the sun sets.
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Sorry to hear about your loss.  You will probably need a probate attorney or talk with your stepmother on getting the items.  Problem:  He married her and she become the first beneficiary without a will.  Technically, everything will go to her.  If there were no spouse, it would be the kids and so on.  But since there is a spouse, work it out with her or hire an attorney and send everything to probate.  You might still not win unless you have witnesses to back up your side of the story.  Legally, she gets everything.
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Find a lawyer who knows the estate rules in your state and who will not be too expensive. If you call an office in a fancy high-rise office building that takes up 3 floors, you're not going to find one. Look for a lawyer who doesn't spend a lot of money on his office or on big ads in the Yellow Pages. Look for more than one. Or call the local lawyer referral service (in the Yellow Pages) and ask them for an inexpensive lawyer who does wills. They can usually refer you to 2 or 3 and you can decide which one you want to use.\n\nIf you have no children from a previous marriage or relationship, no real estate, and no specific items you want to go to certain persons, or to be put in trust for underage children, you can try one of the will form kits available online or at places like Staples or Borders. I don't recommend them because they don't know your particular situation or the law in your state. You want to wear "one size fits all," go ahead. If it doesn't look good, well, you can always buy another one!
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While you are quarreling, the house and shop value is deteriorating.  Ever see old houses falling down because heirs couldn't decide what to do with them!  How's that for preserving a parent's memory.  Have the property appraised and have those who want it give the rest their monetary share.  If some want just land, have the property subdivided.  Then there's the family where some kids are always given more than others.  Those are the ones who want the others to "give" them something instead of sharing the burden.
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your right, it is too much.\n\nand i wouldnt want to give it to my kids as then they would have nothing to work towards, so perhpas buy them a flat. you know they are secure and they can sell it to use as a huge deposit on their own house when they are ready to move on and up.\n\ncharity has got to figure pretty high, my youngest has a rare bone marrow disorder so they would get a lot - in fact if you win can you let me know so i can tap you up for a few bob for research.\n\ni think i would get them to invest it for me while i took a long cruise and considered my options.  ok you are gonna want to blow some straight away, but you would need to consider what you will do with it from a calm perspective.
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if house in both your names you can't do it.  sell the house pay of bills and move 0n with your life.  The father does not want us to be miserable.  have you sought his guidance?  anoint yourself with oil and go on a fast.  He will and does answer prayers.   GOB BLESS YOU