How do i get a boyfriend?
475126
Wanting a boyfriend and NEEDING one are two different things. You should never NEED a boyfriend. You need to be secure in yourself enough to know that you can live your life for you. No other.\n\nWanting a boyfriend is fine. How to get one? Well, just start talking to guys you like. It will work itself out eventually. If you talk to enough guys you like, chances are, one of them will ask you out. From there, don't be needy. If it works out into a committed relationship, great. If not, move on.
334123
Be yourself. Go places you enjoy. Chances are you'll meet someone you like. Don't be shy (at least too shy).\n\nI know one place you may not find your b/f...in chat rooms.\n\nGet out and be active.\n\n= )
949840
first you are not alone in this. i know plenty of people whos never had a date in high school, it doesnt matter really because everyone's situation is different.\n\nlook, would you date someone because there is a mutual connection between you two or would you rather date 'just because' you've never had a boyfriend? do you want a relationship because you are in love or because you are desperate to PROVE you can get a boyfriend? \n\nANYONE CAN GET A DATE IF THEY WANTED TO!!! im sure you are really sweet and nice, and you want to see how it feels to be in a relationship. but dont just surrender to peer pressure, its not worth it. wait until LOVE finds you, you are still young, have your first date SPECIAL and REAL then you can go show off and make everyone else jealoused! \n\nnow calm down, theres no need to go 'omg' its perfectly natural. if you really want a boyfriend despite what ive said so far, then be more sociable and join some clubs and activities outside of school. that way you'll meet new people and increase your likelihood of getting a date :)\n\ngood luck and listen to your heart!
1022538
First of all. You're only 11. you are too young to have a boyfriend especially if he's 13 or older. You should still be doing what little girls do. Have fun. You are only going to be a child for a couple of years and then you get to be an adult for the REST of your life. Trust me there will be enough time for boyfriends.
42885
Just go slow.  You have lots of time to grow up and figure things out.  Don't give into pressure to have a boyfriend.  The right time will come.  Concentrate on school work and doing the right things.
560905
Take your time getting a boyfriend. Your young and don't settle for one and get messed around by someone who will not treat you good.............
70530
first off  be happy at your age not having a boyfriend . having boyfriend isnt the greatest thing in the world . Just enjoying the single life and when you are 16 you be ready for the guys and stuff. IF your friends are saying you should have  bf and stuff. They are not friends.. You have to belive in your self. For example   some of my classmates were all friends and they got all pregant sad to say your friends will make your life good or it can make  worse.Talk to god if you are lonely.you arent alone not having a boyfriend at 13 i can assure you. Im 23 and i didnt have boyfriend at age 13. just take your time.
894366
you dont say how old you are, but i guess you're young so i would say just be yourself and dont feel pressured to have a boyfriend. when its right you will know and things will just flow with the right person without you having to try hard. So just see how it goes and then you can decide if he is the right guy for you or if you are ready for a relationship. good luck
565017
idk how do you get a guy to like you?
344658
Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
641308
Well,\n\nI didnt have a bf for a long time and now I met a great person, even though we have our ups and downs.\n\nBest thing I can tell you is: Stay real and true to yourself until the right person crosses your path. Do things that interest you. More than likely, the right person will meet you among those interests. So take care of yourself first and dont worry too much about getting a man right away. Set a list of goals and follow your dreams, you will meet him in due time.\n\nD
272446
Just totally be yourself and let them come to you ;)\n\nDon't be someone else just to get the guy... And don't do anything stupid either... you WILL regret it\n\nJust remember... you want a healthy relationship
768413
I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
874845
Well first of all do you like  him?\nIf so try these things to get him:\nHow you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nand make sure you have expectations like these(my personal ones)\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nGood luck to you!~Alison~
289457
The key to attracting a guy is simple.  First you have to be confident and like who you are.  Second, you have to take a chance and let a guy know your interested.  Third, don't play his games, be in a relationship that you want that you deserve.
245702
Woah, girl. You dont have to do anything to have a boyfriend. dont change yourself...you are most likely perfect the way you are.  Besides, men will ALWAYS believe you are sexy, as long as you do!!!:)
672274
you just have to wait for the right guy there is someone out there for you you just have to wait and be pationt and when you meet him then just ask him out and he will be happy to go out with you.