why do life seem so fair to some people ,and difficult to some?
476852
I know what you mean, but what can we do about it?  You just have to go on and deal with the circumstances of your own life.  Also, consider that, as long as anyone is alive, their fortunes can be reversed at any time.  History will teach you that lesson if you will start reading it.
940069
How I see the world, I think everyone should be equal. But I know that truthfully we are not. But since you can't really dwell on things you can't change or even fix, just live you life to the fullest and whenever you get married, feel equal and sure witih that person, even teach your children to treat everyone the same. It may not a be big change or anything really extraordinary but it does help them to be less jaded about the world and unrealistic.
196951
Life is supposed to have problems. The whole world is imperfect, and noone is the exception. You can have good times and bad times, and you will always encounter things that you find dislikeable in your life. Your job is just to learn to deal with what you are faced with and that's not always easy for most people. Once people realize that, then their whole perception will change, and will become better adjusted and happier as a result.
319591
Life is a evolutionary process. Hard times are to teach us to be better people. If you dont learn the lessons life offers, you end up thinking life sucks.
347769
Because this world is not a happy one. Because life is not easy. because everyone fight with each other. because there is alot of tension at work, and how you get money to pay your rent, and how to maintain your relationships.\nBut I have hope that Heaven will be the substitute for this cruel world.\nsorry if i sounded pessimistic.
1177473
Just like everyone else in this World including Yourself Life has its ups & downs!!!! For every darkness, theres a streak of light waiting to dissolve it & the cycle continues!!! Experience Lifes challenge Bravely & Calmly & I am sure u will enjoy life!! NO PERSON IN THIS WORLD HAS IT EASY!!! It is upon u to make it easy!!!
453070
Generally people can’t get satisfied with what they got...\nSo they feel what has gone was better than the present
916471
I wish I knew. I think the people who triumph just never stop believing that it will all work out in the end in a good way. How a person can get this, I don't know. It is something that is in some people and it grows stronger as they age. I have always been an optimist. Maybe it is a certain personality, a strong one.
281292
I am not sure but in my own belief, it is not life that is not fair, it is the circumstances that surround our lives that is not fair. Two people could have the same thing happen to them and it turn out different according to circumstances surrounding our own lives. Therefore we have to make the best of what we can when we can. We can not allow circumstances to overpower our own will. If that makes any sense? And as for some people being bad, I believe that all people are good to some extent but sometimes things that happen to us make it appear that we are bad. And that this bad is what helps some people to get through things that have hurt them in some way. So they take it out on others to protect themselves. But I believe that even the good can sometimes be bad but it doesn't mean that we are all bad. No one is all good nor all bad. If we were we would not need the cycle of life and death?
253000
Life isn't fair, that is the only explination I can give you.  It does seem though that it is the really good people that go early for whatever reason.
308507
The human nature tends to do bad things, you just accept people as they are and you give advice whenever possible, but don't try to change the world because it is not possible, take it easy and you will relax, enjoy your life
1101849
Altho it sounds amazing and yes, too good to be true, I think theres obviously some flaws. Maybe you like your marriage or retirement. And even if u luv all these conditions, people need mistakes and problems to progress and become better people. A perfect life might drive a person insane
1007674
Maybe people like us get more problems because we are stronger, able to deal with it better, I dunno, I get my fair share from time to time. I hear God don't give you what you can't handle, well,..there's times I wished I wasn't tested so much.
988028
welcome to life.  Not all people are equal and life isn't fair.
595902
Nothing in life is fair .Everything you do will be disliked by someone and you can't help that  no matter how much you try to do something that is fair to everyone you just cant do it .So I say do it if it  feels right to you and MOST others but other than that  You just cant do it !
106289
doesn't sound too good... Life is not always fair. Get done with it get a good job make a lot of money and be happy. that is what you should really be worried about.
692560
For one thing, the reason bad things sometimes happen to good people is because of free will. We can't control the actions of other people, and they may do us harm- or, they may do something kind towards us. It's a matter of selection. \n\nBut I respect and honor your question. It's hard to deal with life sometimes. It's like, "Where is justice"?\n\nIn the Bible, it does say that sometimes, the good people reap the bad things deserved by the wicked- and sometimes, evil men live long and happy lives. It's sad, but it's also true. I don't know why this happens- it's not fair. Life is not fair. However, I do believe that God is not cruel.\n\nSometimes, accidents happen, too. That is one way that innocent people can be hurt.\n\nYour question is very legitimate. I will be thinking about this for the rest of the day. Good job, mate!