should i give up my casual relationship if ive fallen for him and he doesnt seem to feel the same?
492792
Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same, then tell him you need to walk away from the situation because you're too emotionally invested for it to continue the way it currently is.
761709
It sounds like you need to clarify the relationship. If you are happy with the way things are then go with it. If you want change then do it. Who knows how he feels about you, he may be interested in a relationship but hasn't brought it up or thinks you are happy with the way things are. If you don't at least try you may never find out what could be. Good luck
323923
it depends on you and what you want. not what he wants. if you feel like your slipping in the relationship, try to keep it going because if it`s not meant to be then things would have been over with done, sealed, and packaged. your relationship was supposed to happen because it makes you who you are but if it`s meant to be and continue, well that is what destiny is for. just go with your heart, not your head.\n\nhope that helps =]
534939
I think you're best letting this one go. He obviously isn't in for the "long haul" and if he gets bored with you that easy, then he's just not the one for you.  Yes, the "love rush" wears off in ANY relationship, but if there isn't a friendship and caring left that makes him want to stay, then let him go. I'm sorry this happened to you, but you are better off honey. Find someone who will always love you.
1161814
Since you have so many doubts, you also know in your heart that its not time to get serious. Since he is so sweet, he will not try to rush you into something you aren't ready for either. I suggest you just keep the relationship on a slow pace and really get to know each other before worrying about a real commitment from either of you.
654123
I think he's changed his mind and gotten cold feet. Ask him about it and if he's still not civing you a clear answer, then maybe you should re-examine at your feelings for him. Good luck.
574704
What you are feeling is natural, because you love him.  But think about it, he is putting the drug as his lover instead of you.  This is a big issue, and I'm sorry that you have to go through it because you guys have been dating for five years.  Should you be put second "NO", and do not put yourself in the situation.  I know that it's easier said then done. Think about what you want!  Good Luck!
101103
Dear Penny,\nBefore asking any questions, or even analysing the myriad of eye movements, hand gestures and pupil dilating which probably indicate commitment, think what YOU want from this relationship. \n\nThe previous respondent talked about friends with benefits, but in this instance I have the feeling it applies to you also. \n\nSo: how do you feel about him? Honestly? Do YOU want to commit? If the answer is yes, be brave, be honest, and let him know you're ready to take this relationship to the next level.\n\nGood luck!
283602
tell him how you feel and then take it from there sometimes thats what a person has to do and does he feel the same for you?just see what happens
445269
IF he feels the same way, he will wait if that's what you want to do.  You have to follow your heart.  Take time and think it through with your brains not your hormones.  Good luck, I know it can be confusing.
698264
That is a tough situation and no matter how you do it, its rough.  It depends on how you two are getting along and trust your feelings.   He may be feeling the same way and having a hard time trying to think of a way as well.  To make it the best, be honest with him and explain why you feel that way.  It will show him as well that it may be better to just be friends.  Good Luck and take a deep breathe.
607518
nothing you can do... Feelings can't be controlled.  You need to back away and let things unfold.  It will be painfull at first, but you never know what may happen.  That relationship may not last, and then he may see you in a different light.  Or you may find someone who sweeps you off your feet.
824637
just be honest with him and see where it goes from there.. maybe he feels the same about you..
938888
It sounds like you have a really great guy there but the relationship is too intense. Tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable because you aren't ready for such a serious relationship. He needs to back down a bit. Good luck. I hope you can make it work.
144821
no it's just that your having mix feelins about him and dont know if you really want to be with him just give it time and explore yourself to see what you really want in life
393363
Hon, u will NEVER know if u sit back & wait 4 him.When ur in his arms next time tell him how u feel about him and ur relationship.(if hes been around for 2 yrs he probably feels the same.)
621439
No, just because there are feelings between you doesn't mean that you are even still compatible. Those feelings are there b/c this person represents the first time you had strong passionate feelings in your life. Just discuss what you have been doing since the "old days" and move on.