I fell in love with a guy  from another coutry and I only talk to him on messenger or on the phone?
486617
find another guy here, there are plenty of nice guys in this country, unless you are a big drama queen that likes the feeling of suffering long distance/impossible love. move on you are missing out on a real boyfriend.
227347
Why don't you consider how deep feelings you have for him?  If you feel very strongly about him that you are even willing to wait for him for some time till you can be with him, then I suggest being patient.  After all, you can talk to him on the phone, chat with him in email and instant messenger.  Though, long-distance relationships are known for their hardship, the end result is very rewarding for both of you.\n\nHowever if you don't seem to feel deeply, and/or you're not willing to wait for him, then I suggest talking to him about break up or something so that it's clear to him about where you two stand in the relationship so that you don't feel like you're cheating on him when you try to date other guys.\n\nHope this helped. ^_^
620141
Well you want be losing them per say.  You can still stay in touch by phone and visit them.  It all depends on how well you know the person you are moving to be with.  If it someone that you have known a long time and feel confident that you will be happy there.  Its a big step so think things thoroughly through.  There is an old saying no risk no reward but if you know this person really well and you are sure that once you get there things between you will be good then I say go for it.  I wouldn't advise moving to be with someone you have spent little time with in person. If it is an Internet romance or even a long distance relationship schedule some vacation time in which you can go spend a relatively long time in their presence.  People have an odd way of looking perfect from a distance.  Take you time, think things through, and good luck!!
907996
maybe you should take intiative..but dont come on to strong...dont show him that you like him so much just make it seem like a chat buddy.....i was actually talking to my now current bf for like 2 months b4 i actually met him....and one day he surprised me with a call....so ya. just go for it...if this guy doesnt respond to your call then well dont waste your time on him.\n\n\nhope i helped :]
271091
Start some activity that you can both share together. then talk to him like a good friend. start sharing things with him & he will eventually fall in love with you. if he doesnt contact me. Im 'tarangoyal' on yahoo messenger.
537919
You need to realize that what you loved, and what he really was, were two different things -- you are in love with a non-existant image.  That said, however, doesn't make that love any less real.  You appear to be what is called "a romantic" -- a person who wants it all to be right, and will do just about anything to be sure  everything is all right.  He, on the otherhand, is probably dealing with his macho image, and to be tender and loving to you is/was probably not part of his personality or upbringing -- in other words, he just wasn't a very warm guy.  It  IS over,--he could never be what you had hoped, or wished, since you two were never in "the same book, on the same page", so to speak.  Best thing?  Find another guy.  How? Go shopping, of course.   If you are older (not a teenager, or early 20's) check out the internet --Match.com, Yahoo personals, etc -- the singles group in your church, single men at your place of employment, and some of your friends.  You can't bring back a dead relationship, that is for sure.  You will always love him for what you thought he was.  Now find that guy who really IS that image. And he does exist, that is for sure.....And you are wrong -- another relationship with an appropriate match will indeed straighten our your head.  You will indeed wise up to the fact that what was there, and what you thought was there were two different things...\n\nGood luck
1043976
the best way to use messenger and add his Id as ur friend list. , If he signed his mobiles device(on his mobile no.) Even if he tunoff  his net he can be shown online on SMS for all the time Use Yahoo mesenger.!!
261587
have you try to connect with him? sms & emails? if so maybe he's busy or maybe he thinking that your relationship have end...anyway you must have a conversation with him to know how he thinking
347520
Dont be fool by givin him a chance like that..First find out his details and be sure of his privacy..May be he is a play boy..^ may be he gots lot of guls like u on messenger...Nowadays its very hard 2 believe someone like that..One of my friend also had a bad time with an online love..Beware of them p/z ..best of luck
130020
Have you ever met this man? \nYou may be in love with the 'idea' of him, but I don't believe it's possible to be in love with someone you have not met.\nThere could be a number of reasons why he is no longer writing to you, maybe he hurt himself and is in the hospital, maybe he is dealing with a family issue that he is not ready to talk about, maybe he found someone else to chat with, maybe he is not in love with you the way you think he is. This list could go on and on.\nWhen is the last time you two chatted? In hindsight do you recall any differences in his responses to you?\nYour best bet is to ask him why he has stopped writing and then you will have your answer as to what to do. \nIf you have his phone number, give him a call.\nGood luck, I hope everything works out for you.
998204
Meet the online guy first before deciding. I don't really believe in online relationships. People decieve. You really have to meet this guy and let him take you out before deciding. \n\nAlso note that long distance relationships are difficult. You have problems with time zones and communication. You will never really be with him much. No one will be there to hug you and kiss you. It's really tough. \n\nPersonally, I would go for the one in real life. He has nothing to hide. Unless that online guy is planning to move to your area (or vice versa) a guy you meet online just won't suffice your desires.
112729
I can understand where ur comin from... 2 yrs i found the perfect guy for me an i let him slip away an i regret it to this day even tho i have a boyfrien that i love very much... ive tried many ways to find him an havent had any luck... If u kno how to reach him let him kno how u feel... Tell him u wanna be wit him an ask him how he feels about u... If the feelins r mutual then gone head an do yo thang!!! :-D
116436
Honesty lies in the heart/soul of whoever you are talking with, I personally dont date online, I believe there is ALWAYS a little something that's not being told by one or the other...see, lonely women, they fall so easily, so when a guy gets online and is like "oh I love you, I want you to move to me, we can have a family and ohh baby this, oohh baby that" and it most always ends up in ...well....it ends up badly. lol...If you're looking for someone online, talk for awhile on the computer, after you "BOTH" are comftorable, talk on the phone, send cute little gifts through the mail....and when you both feel like you can't live your life without the other one, make arrangments to meet in person (public place of course)...if that goes well, do it a few more times, vacation with eachother for a week at a time...after that, if things are still going well..and BOTH people are inlove then it may be safe to say..."IT'S LOVE" :o)
844560
you can have a chat with hm and ask him .. what does your heart tells you ?\n \n==========================================================\nIf you are single and have the time, please visit my site:\nhttp://www.dating4fun.net/go3.php
407544
OK YOU NEED A REALITY CHECK.. YOU LOVE A PERSON WHOM YOU MET ON THE NET AND YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE.. WELL GIRL THAT SHOULD BE THE LEAST OF YOUR WORRIES. DID ANYONE EVER TELL YOU HOW DANGEROUS IT IS TO MEET PEOPLE OFF THE INTERNET.. HE COULD TELL YOU ANYTHING AND HOW WOULD YOU KNOW..STAY OFF YAHOO CHAT ROOMS AND GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE FACE TO FACE IN YOUR AREA..THIS GUY COULD BE A CRAZY PSYCHO..HE MIGHT BE TELLING YOU ANYTHING YOU WANT TO HEAR.. MANY BAD STORIES OF NET MEETINGS.. GROW UP AND ACT RIGHT
526463
You try to get to know him.  I am willing to bet that once you have had a few conversations with him you will realize that hes not all that you expected.  You are infatuated with him right now, and he doesn't get it?  chances are he never will sweetie.
322901
You can continue to be friends but don't saddle yourself down to him as he is long distance. If you still feel the same about him when you are older then save some cash to meet him. But take someone with you as you don't know who you are really chatting with he could be an old perv!