me and my ex-bf now friends..just friends ..but i still on love with him ,,?
484771
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up
675332
well i kinda had the same problem... i always say keep ur friends close but keep ur ex's even closer... he shld know ur x is ur friend and that he shldnt control who u hang with or who u talk to.. tell him that ..
19155
This is tough because of what you said...you're still in love with him (how long were you guys dating?).  You need to find ways to distance yourself from him, and to do other activities which will take your mind off him.  Hang out with other friends, go take a class on something, do something fun and exciting.  If he calls you as much as you may want to talk to him you need to not answer the phone...in time you'll feel comfortable being separate and may have a chance at being friends then, but if he's playing games with you you need to avoid the situation as much as possible.
651448
I think not for reasons of the heart,cause deep down inside you still have those memories of the good times you had together.Which then could lend to things happening between you two.If you are in a new relationship,the person you are with could get hurt or may not like the idea you are friends with your exs.So leave exs alone and move on.
764821
your situation seems like a very complicated one.. maybe the next time he says that he loves you, you should ask him why u arent together then. i dont think its a good idea to continue to do gf bf stuf with him unless you start dating again. he might be just using u and u really dont want to get deeper than u already are if he is. maybe theres a different reason he broke up with u.. fam? but i dont noe. if i loved someone else i dont think i would be able to date another person at the same time.
1154646
first he is an ex. second he's got a gf...you must be pretty desperate to even think about getting back  with him.....the world is overly populated...move on and find someone better!!
1084339
Do it! maybe he still has feelings for you too! Perhaps you can work it out....or at least find out if the sparks are still there. right!?
959846
its normal to feel dat..i once like dat..bt i get over\nit..cz no use of thinking bout it..it wont change anything..4me..the moment he let me go..i decided to let him get out of my heart too..its hurt..takes years to 4get cz he's my 1st bf..dat time i was15,nw went im 19 he came back to me asking 4 patch..bt its to late..i get over him already..bt we still be gd fren till nw..  BT..if u  choose NOT to 4gt bout him its ok..cz im still in love wif my ex..he is my 2nd ex,althought its been 2yrs..i still love him n thinks bout him alot..althought we cant be 2gether our frenship is still gd...\nalthought we doesnt talk or meet often..i know deep in his heart he still love me..evn if he didnt say..n i still love him like the way U DID..\nits ok to love although he cant see..as long as it doesnt affect ur daily living..n take care of ur health
377484
My friendship with my ex never created a problem with my current b/f. My b/f understands that my ex and I were friends first and that's how we'll always be despite what happened in our relationship. There are certain boundaries that you should not cross though. There is always suspicion when it comes to dealing with your current's ex, and that's normal. It's a human thing. Just try not to take it too personal unless you're sure there's a reason to.
633676
I know that I won't get 10 points for this answer but it's the one you need to read: \n\nYou need to stop seeing your Ex... The communication that you have with him keeps the spark alive and it's not really fair to your current BF. Frankly, on a level, you're cheating on him and the test of this is: If he knew you were still "friends" and talking, would he be cool with it? \n\nIf you still have a thing for your Ex, you should break up with your BF and go out with your Ex. Here's the thing though: If you have been off and on for so long, how do you think it will be if you marry him? On for how long then off when? Will you have kids when you decide to go off again? What impact will it have on them? This pattern will not end when you marry, trust me. \n\nMy final advice: Quit communicating with the EX and focus on your relationship with the BF. Probably not the answer you were looking for but the right one. \n\nGood luck.
487168
yes i hav being. because i cant stop thinking about him in whatever i am doing. it lasted for 7 yrs then we broke up and i am still in love with him and dont know if i will love anyone the way that i love him
131308
Went through the same thing with my ex bf turned friend. One minute he hates me then he loves me. We get along better when we don't talk much.
1131255
Wow, I am in a situation similar to yours as well.  My next-door neighbor and I grew up together, and I found out that he had a crush on me since we first met each other, which was about 7 years ago.  I was in a long-term relationship with my ex, but me and the neighbor remained friends throughout the whole time.  We didn't start getting closer until the summer of last year, when we started hanging out more and more, and I finally saw a different side to him, a kind, considerate, more gentler side.  We became fast friends and I started developing feelings for him.  We eventually talked about it and we aren't together now (mainly because he's in the military and is about to go to Iraq---he didn't want a relationship while he was over there), we have been talking and thinking about the future, because the feelings are definitely mutual there.  To make this long story short, you should tell your neighbor how you feel about him.  Who knows, he could have the same exact feelings.  Take things slow and gradual, and something could eventually escalate from that.  I'm very happy right now, even just as best friends, and even though it's hard for us to really hide our feelings for each other, I definitely know those feelings are still there.  Wish you nothing but the best!!!
951979
so technically you're just friends with benefits until he figures out what he wants to officially do with you. he's definitely into you, and you're definitely into him, but the relationship ain't happenin (been there)!!! it's excellent that you have separate lives...so maybe eventually you two will make it official someday. i wouldn't rush him, he definitely has a crush on you. go with the flow since you both just came out of bad break-ups. maybe you both feel the comfort of having each other during this healing process and a new serious relationship is the last thing on his mind, you know how guys are...
570574
Well, depending on whether you're still friends with your ex-bf. If he's someone you wouldn't like to hurt, I wouldn't touch his friend quite yet ^_-
737036
Give sometime...to this relation..it can be love..a real love..but chances are less...the same happen between me & my ex...n i have lots of friends with same situation....so give time..till then enjoy this wonderful feeling.........
593760
you should stay with him ok. im dating my bff's ex boyfriend. i like him and he likes me just because he's your bff's ex dont mean you cant like him