What is the best way to attract men at a party?
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get a prop of some sort - ribbons in your hair, colorful hat or clothing. Maybe just walking around with a big smile to show that your a happy and approachable person - work the room by greeting everyone with your name and a please to meet you line - then as you mingle, remember the guy you fancy and always acknowledge him by name during the evening.
422780
Making eye contact is a must if you want to be subtle. No intense psycho staring. Size matters to a certain extent, it will depend on the woman. Humor is good, but the type of humor, again depends on the woman. There are no perfect set rules for attracting a woman. Pick someone you admire and try and come close to what he does when hes around women.
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first week, throw a party. best way to make your mark. if you not party type, join all organizations you have time for. anything that sparks your interest. if your friends from old school are dear to you, you should put forth effort for the next couple years to kit. k?
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Participate in activities and organizations of interest to you.  The guys you'll meet there will have similar interests, they will be outgoing, and you both won't feel like you're in a situation like the bar scene and other miserable ways of meeting singles.\n\nFor instance... like skiing? join a ski club. Like to bike, skate, walk, read books, study tarot card reading, whatever?  Seek out groups based on the same interests.  No group?  Start one.  You'll be busy (no waiting by the phone or staring at the TV) and you'll be meeting a higher quality group of singles!\n\nGo get'em!
211461
Yo, it's easy fo sheeze!  Just go get yo suit from pimphats.com and then go out get some hoes.  After you have dem hoes just walk into some clubs and I'm sure you'll find takers.
937263
nope, not too much to ask. im a decent guy trying to meet people online too.  so dont worry, we're out there. \nas far as attracting a guy, make sure you are as attractive as possible, and i dont mean that to sound as shallow as it does. you have few enough opportunities, and you dont want one to pass you by because you didnt make a good first impression.  guys are physical, sad but true. after that though, make sure that you are interesting. i hate girls that are ignorant of the whole world. they are boring.  so read, keep up to date, know whats going on. have well thought out opinions.  \nwhen you feel jaded try to remember that people are often hard wired to act the way they do. its not an excuse for bad behavior.  but often people are just going through their lives sort of oblivious to the actions they are taking. there is romance out there.  there are men who have honor and kindness and decency.  its just that girls tend to go for bad boys, so we have to act like jackasses to attract any.  find the guys who have accomplished difficult tasks, who are working hard to improve themselves.  who think before they speak, and can backup what they say with intelligent reason.  were out there. good luck!
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making friends with guys can be simple..\n\njust be urself..hang out wit some guy friends u can go along with..speak up more, especially when ur wit ur guy friends..have genuine interest in what they talk about..listen to them talk, even if u dun understand a s**t..\n\ntalk about what they like - soccer, football, cars, bikes..u dun need to understand what thing they are saying, but just have genuine interest in what u ask or listen..\n\nask them questions about themselves - guys like talking about themselves..ask them questions about what they are talking about - it shows u got interest in wad they are saying.. u can always say u dun understand even after they explain and they'll just understand that..but if u do understand, that mIgHt impress them and they wun mind u hanging out wit them..\n\ndo whatever is being urself, even if ur cracking lame (not too lame!) jokes but not infront of guys u barely know..
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organise a good bachelor party with dancers, drinks etc. and make sure the groom will have a good time and write a speech that comes from your friendship with him including a good joke as an ice breaker. good luck
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I'm a guy on the other end of that type of question & I run in to this same problem from the other side. This is what would attract me.\n\nDress nice or classy, BUT NOT SLUTTY OR TRAMPY! \n\nREAD IT AGAIN! \n\nHonestly, avoid tattoos! Really. If you have some already, don't get anymore. It's a big turnoff. It's like grafitti on the Venus de Milo! Girls are pretty already. Anything else just detracts from them.\n\nAlso, you'll have to be responsive. \n\nIf you get it that a guy is giving a "vibe", he probably IS. The thing is, most good guys AREN'T PLAYERS - so they haven't practiced SCHMOOZING girls and throwing them into bed! \n\nThink about it. The good guys aren't necessarily too experienced at getting all the girls - you might have to look this over more closely.\n\nSo, the good guys TRY to interest girls, but sometimes get it WAY WRONG. \n\nSo, you've gotta pay attention and give him a little break - please. If it seems that he's interested & might want to say something, GIVE HIM A LOT OF TIME TO SPIT IT OUT. Try saying stuff like, "Yea....? And....? Go on...." to get him to keep talking.\n\nMake it seem like you're not in a hurry and are interested. Give him time to fumble and get the courage to ask you questions or figure out hou to ask you out.\n\nREMEMBER, MOST GOOD GUYS WON'T BE PLAYERS! You're not looking for a player anyhow, right?
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reserve a party room at a pizza place. just treat it like a girls night out type of party!\nhave people bring gifts like lingerie. even a conservative girl needs something! :)\nother gift ideas are incense, candles....romantic stuff.
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of men and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, I gotta have them?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym to make you muscles firm, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time de-impressing any man.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports and hang around there (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved woman sometimes attract men (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n6. If you are good to one man, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more men...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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1.when walking into the room make direct eye contact hold it for a LITTLE longer than u do normaly\n\n2. when u talk to them and they make jokes push them in the arm\n\n3. get to kno his friends how he acts with his friends find out wut kind of a person he is\n\n4. see how deep he is such as "song writer, poems, sings, thinks alot, gets 'hurt' when not being able to help" typs of thigs that would show a guy has deeper feelings, he could have them for you\n\n5. laugh when ur with him guys dont like party pooper girls\n\n6. see how his friends talk to him, imitate them, he may think its funny\n\n7. find out where he hangs out, this may take a lil bit of gossip or following to find out but its worth it cuz guys like girls who share interests\n\n8. induldge in the kinds of things he likes\n\n9. dress nice, wear nice perfume, dont make urself OPEN as in dont dress sexy if u dont want a guy to think about sex and only that when hes with you\n\n10. be hard to get, try to be better than the girls he shows interest in, be yourself its the best in the long run just clean yourself up, laugh, smile, do things to catch his attention\n\ndont worry\n\nsomeone will come along when u LEAST expect it
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be excellent to each other...and PARTY ON DUDES!!!
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The best way is to be yourself and not try too hard. \n\nIf it's a specific person who's attention you are trying to get, let him know. But don't make it all about you and how you feel. What is it you like about him? What are his good qualities? Tell him what they are and what you like about him. That will definately get his attention. Then go on to tell him what his good qualities do for you, or how he makes you feel. Boost his ego and make him feel like the man and he'll be yours ;)
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you do not need to stand out with this. The right person will come along. Go out and fun with freinds, enteract with the crowd. Keep your head up and show some confindence in yourself. The only way people or women are going to know that you might be a nice guy is to speak to them, just be nice. Do not be a push over, you will get walked on. Enjoy your life!!!!!!!!!!!! If a women find you interesting she will approach you.
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pretend they are guys with manners.  joke around with them, tease them, have fun with them.  They are people too that watch the same television shows and get a kick out of some of the same things guys do.  As for treating them like women...  flirt with them, challenge them, make sure they are always left wanting more and they will keep coming back.  Most of all...  Make them laugh.  Make them laugh WITH you, not AT you.  Good luck.
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sponsored head shave for the guys, and kiss a quid for the girls.\n\nsilly but they work.\n\nhope this helps