How do I deal with this guy? Will someone please help me?
478334
TELL HIM IF HE WONT STOP CALLING AND HARRASSING YOU HE WILL  LOSE HISFRIENDSHIP WITH YOU. AND IN THE EVENT YOU LIKE HIM SOMEDAY HE'LL LOSE THAT CHANCE. OR BEAT HIM SENSELESS LIKE THE LITTLE PIECE F CRAP DESERVES
968985
I think he's trying to mess with your head. So just ignore it.♥
628783
not much you can do, except tell him how you feel. you can't control what other people do, i would suggest you move on though.
1154396
Teach this person how to treat you. If this person has had influence like this all his life, he tends to do it because he can.\n\nYOU must teach others how to treat you. You are teaching him you are so desperate for love that you want to be smothered in it and you are too scared to want to be treated better. \n\nThere are ways to get out...have you seen the movie "ENOUGH"?  You can get out of it. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. YOU MUST KNOW that you ARE valuable and deserve to be treated as such.\nSomewhere he is missing that trust or something...but I learned the hard way...you cannot be responsible for his past, present or future. GOD gives you wisdom, 5 senses and a beautiful spirit that is telling you "GIRL GET OUT!!"   So listen and don't lower your self esteem with this man\nwho will control you as long as you ALLOW him to.\n\nI hope this helps and I will say a prayer for you.
427535
I am so sorry.  This man has made his choice and you cannot do anything about it, unfortunately.\nBe with friends, keep yourself busy, and do not feed into his ego by contacting him.\nIt will only hurt you more.\nAvoid him at all costs...because to contact him will cost you your sanity!!\nGood luck and better wishes for a great future relationship.
501775
leave him fast. he is a stalker and obsessive...believe him when he makes the threats... god bless and good luck. REALLY
12244
To stop him? Nothing, stopping him wouldn't be a good idea and probably couldn't be done by being nice about it.  After all, hes not a nice person.  The best thing you can do is ignore him, if he knows he can't get to you, he'll get bored of bothering you.
866684
Honey, you should stay away from this person.  He has already been in and out of jail.  He is a repeat offender and that should mean something to you.  You have your own problems, getting with him will only give you MORE problems.  There are plenty of guys out there who do not have troubled pasts or futures for that matter, get one of those.  The fact that "he always ends up saying my life is too messed up to be with anyone right now", is a brush off and you know it.  He's not interested.  Stop chasing him only because you can't have him and stay away from the bad boys.  I know they seem dangerous and exciting and they are but; BAD BOYS = BAD RELATIONSHIP = BAD LIFE.  Set the bar higher and have some respect for yourself.
351538
try to ignore him but not too much. dont show him that you badly need him coz this makes guys take u for granted.
638309
its not you its him.. he has major issues.. he doesnt think to much of himself so he has to feel like better by belittling you..I think you are much better than having to deal with this jerk.. get rid of him before he totally destroys mentally and physically all your self esteem.. this guy needs some major growing up and a good kick s###t kicking.. he is nothing but a worthless bully.. send him to the curb find someone healthy
203172
i know the type and they are very difficult but it is up to you and your heart. if you can't see him in your future then ditch him but if you see him then give him another chance. ask his friends if they know anything but don't get hurt by their answers .
777808
Confirm your sexuality w/ him. People understand when preferences don't coincide.\nThen, I would steer clear of this person. Use an answering machine and/or caller ID to avoid communicating. Get a security eye or camera for your front door to insure you know who's  there before you respond. Eventually this person should move on.
553016
Ignore him and move on.  Next time be more guarded with the "L" word.
130831
Why waste your time?\n\nWhats he got thats so special you think you NEED him??\n\nGet some self esteem, move on to someone else who appreciates you and is worthy of your time & effort.\n\nThat guy sounds like a game playing idiot.
509213
Beat him up!!  No, just tell him that you don't like him like that.  If he keeps bothering you, just ignore him.  He'll move on eventually.
759498
Some people just latch on to someone they think they stand a chance with and won't let go. It isn't anything you are doing. You are being honest with him and he won't take the hint. If it is online then report him to whatever chat site you are using. If it is in person call your local magistrate and see what can be done to keep this guy away from you.
247318
Ignore him. He's feeding off your frustration. Just look the other way and pretend he's invisible. Good luck.