not excited about getting married?
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As long as your excited about being married you have nothing to worry about. Try focusing on your wedding as a party instead of a "wedding." Think of it as a great time that you get to spend with friends and family, dancing, eating and having fun. That way, the actual "wedding" won't seem as tedious to you.
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I just recently got married myself, and I don't think it is anything you can plan out. Just remember to keep each other happy. There is a ggod book I just finished, its called Power of a Praying Wife, it has helped me out a lot.
154557
what do you mean by "you are not satisfied"? If you have doubts about getting married , then postpone it and talk with your girl. If you are having concerns whether your fiancee is the right woman for you i would say thats a major issue and you definitively discover which are your feelings and what makes you really happy. Good luck
929478
man say we get more demanding when they get married --- dont! its his lost!
824998
If you are concerned about the legal benefis when you marry someone then you should probably not get married. Marriage is about love, not material things you'll receive.
585052
This is about the couple that are getting married. It is their special day to plan and enjoy however they wish. It's unfortunate your partner was invited but you were not. It is not unusual for straight folks to feel uncomfortable around gay folks. Perhaps the couple getting married are uncomfortable having a gay couple at their wedding. If so, the hangup is their problem not yours. This is the type of things that gays often face. It may not be fair but it is reality. What would be a real tragedy though would be to let a decision made by a couple that you and your partner hardly know cause a rift between you two. I really hope you and your partner can talk this out and put in behind you.\nGood Luck
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You shouldn't really look at it from its advantages or disadvantages. Advantages are plenty, but so are the disadvantages. I think you should really ask yourself if you REALLY WANT TO GET MARRIED or not.
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YES, you should feel upset, and you're not overreacting. Sounds annoying and angering. I'm surprised he even asked you to marry him. Do you think he'll keep the promise to walk down the aisle? I had a man like that once. He promised to propose to me year after year after year. He promised he'd do it after he paid off his credit card. But when he did, he just bought himself a brand new car. Then he wanted a big projection television. Et cetera. It's hard to pinpoint exactly why some people do crap like that: lack of ability to commit, laziness, control, or just plain meanness. Talk to him about it...tell him that it makes you UNHAPPY, and be sure to stress that word. If you're unhappy, then it can lead you to fall out of love with him, and leave him. That should show him that he needs to be more trustworthy with you.
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i'm 23, we are still so young, and i think if you don't know for sure, then it's a definite no. i'm finally discovering things about myself and absolutely know that i can't marry right now because that scares me too. \n\nwhen you are ready, getting married and being tied down to a family shouldn't make you sick to your stomach; it should make you excited and happy. so it's not right for now. listen to your gut.\n\ngod bless
535989
you are probably just nervous. the wedding jitters?? everyone feels like that. if you really love her then go for it. youve been with this woman for 7 years already.
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i'm living with my boyfriend from 2 years ago and i don't think about getting married\ni think that getting married or not depends of you and of what you want.but i don't think that a sheat of paper will  make to love to grow or to make you happy.this only depends of you and your feelings
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I do want to get married, but I don't want to have kids because I don't want the responsibility. I don't have a lot of patience and I would not make a good parent. I want freedom and money to do the things I want to do in life. I don't want to be tied down.
200036
Don;t get married until your done with the wild streak people get these days otherwise you will be unhappy. And make sure your marrying the right one and not a jacka$$
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I totally agree. I think it's gotten worse in the last several years. The feeling seems to be "It's my day" and that the wedding is all about the bride and making sure the bride gets whatever she wants. There's no concern about what marriage really means.
76755
Why not head over to the Justice of the Peace and get married now...then plan a BBQ reception party in a couple months.\n\nYou will be less stressed, and the cost of a BBQ reception is way less than a formal wedding, and a LOT more fun!
489558
Yes...I know exactly what you are talking about. It is pretty sad, but I have dated and actually married(my ex) someone I could not stand. Even on the day of my wedding, everyone was so happy and I was miserable because I was marrying a short, ugly loser who I wanted to choke....Thank God I finally left him..whew
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Seriously I know how you are feeling, I was that way, and I waited and now we are getting married.  It isn't just the ring or the beautiful dress, Remember you will be with this person for the rest of your life and No turning back because you can't handle it. The rate for divorce is very high, So have patience, Alot of people don't know what they are going into. But TAKE IT EASY.