Im short & petite but my boyfriend is tall and wide(fat). Will people laugh...I love him but idk what to do.?
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I agree with tempted and I would add that you should concentrate more on how you feel than how others might upon seeing you.\n\nRemember that true love is blind, which really just means that it is unconditional. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder and the only eye that counts is the one in YOUR head.\n\nAny onlookers don't know the real him or the real you and if they judge you on appearances negatively then they are shallow people not worth worrying about. Most people are gonna look at you, see your love and affection for one another and be either charmed by it or jealous that they don't have it themselves.\n\nCongratulations on finding the right man!
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my boyfriend is only 1/2 an inch taller than me. when we were first dating he said how much he loved that we were the same size, (his old girlfriend was like half his size.) but i don't like to wear heals around him too much because i'll be taller, (and all my friends are really short too!!) but my boyfriend says that he finds it a total turn on when i wear heals and am taller than him!!!\n\ni think it depends on the guy, but i think most guys don't care. and if they are crazy about the girl than the size doesn't matter at all!!
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show him that he is unique in his own way and have him tell you what he would feel like if you had been the one worrying about your apearance in weight. go for it girl!
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Definately tell him and get some closer for you.  I doubt weight had anything to do with, you sound like you are pretty skinny.  So don't go trying to get into the double digits, just stay as you are.  Sometimes some friends should stay as friends, if anymore, could make one feel weird.  Just talk to him, let what you need said, be said.  Stay friends and walk away smiling.  Know this, you are young and have your whole life ahead of you, the right man will come along.  Don't feel insignificant, because he chose someone else.  It just wasn't meant to be.
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We are all individuals and do not think alike.  To some people, weight makes a huge difference in a person's sex appeal.  To others, it does not.  Unfortunately, it's difficult to generalize.  And since we do not know your boyfriend, we can't speak for him.
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Love is love, height stays on the court!  It's just another thing that makes the both of you being together special!
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I reallydont think that is it. if that is the reason he is really shallow. do you want to be wih someone like that? i think you should talk to him anyways. find out. just start a general conversation with him. if he seems not interested, take a deep and accept that. there are a lot of guys that like shorter girls. height usually isnt a issue anyway. \n\ngood luck sweetie! i hope everything works out for you and your crush.\n(i'm only 5'3 my hubby is 6'3)
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If he is perfect there shouldn't be an issue over his height.  It isn't a fault afterall, it isn't that he is shorter than you...you are taller than him.  What if you were perfect to him except your height was an issue?  Don't let the inches stand in your way dear.  If he is perfect, then he is perfect and enjoy the wonderful person you have in your life now.
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You say you "miss the bliss".... Have you experienced the "bliss" before?  Are you comparing your boyfriend to another/past boyfriend? If you are then perhaps you need to rethink your relationship with this boyfriend and take time to really see him for who he is and take a look at yourself and what you want out of life.  \n Laughter in a "forever" relationship is important, in my opinion, especially if laughter is important to one or both parties.  \nJust a little piece of advice for what it is worth, no one can control how we feel about ourselves unless we give them that power.  Bring up your own self-esteem and then perhaps you will find someone who full-fills your needs as well as you full-filling theirs.
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Yes, my fiance is 6'3" and weighs around 150 lbs. He's diabetic, and when he's upset he doesn't eat a lot. Not eating isn't good for his health 'cause of the diabetes, so I'm hoping that he'll really enjoy my cooking after we're married. I'm very pudgy, very very full hourglass figure, I look like the Pillsbury Dough GIrl. I hope some of it rubs off on him!
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NO, my boyfriend is only 5.6. It doesn't matter how tall you are unless your a miget.
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You sound perfectly normal and average size for your height.  Stop stressing about it!  As long as you are healthy, eat a fairly balanced diet and keep yourself moving then you'll be fine.  If people call you fat they are putting you down and not helping you out by saying this so ignore them and instead concentrate on what you think and how you feel.  You're an intelligent person, you know what's good for you and what's not so just remember that!
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Short men can come with the same arguement, and why are you down on short men liking you? Your question, in itself, shows that you go by height yourself. Otherwise, you would be saying "I love my short man". If you were to look objectively, your own actions answer your question.
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Hey there,\n\nAll heights are acceptable, no matter what. I felt exactly the same way as you when I was younger. I am 19 and i'm 4'9 and my feet are really small and my figure frame is tiny as well. You should be happy with your body, its really fun to be short and a lot of advantages do come with it. And as for guys and dating, you will find a guy who will love you for who you are and he will love your height as well. Well when people are different, I guess a lot of people will be self conscious or stare when they are around different persons. It seems to happen all over the world. I guess its human nature for us to be self conscious about someone different around us until we get to know them.
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Go for it and ignore your friends who seem to be a lil shallow. This man is more capable of loving you more than any man can ever love you in more ways than one. For instance, he has to literally explore your body as he make love to you and it becomes like second nature to him he knows your body even better than you. He can sense your mood and he will love you always for who you are and not what you look like ,act like etc. Most important he will never judge you because his love is true
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Hang around really short people?  Don't worry about it. It's something you can't change so accept it. Besides, if you are tall, everybody asks to to "reach that for me please".
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Make daily exercise an activity you do with your boyfriend.  Go on a long, brisk walk, or even a jog.  Maybe head to your local gym and have a joint work-out session.\n\nAsk him to help remind you not to eat quite so much (if you really are eating more than you need to be).  I'm sure he'd be willing to help out.\n\nAbout being afraid that he'll leave you... you shouldn't even worry about it!  If he's a decent guy and really likes you, he won't care what you look like and he CERTAINLY won't be embarrassed to be with you in public.  If he leaves you, he wasn't worth having.  I know this sounds cliche, but it's cliche because it's so true.\n\nDon't get all gung-ho about this losing weight thing before checking out what your ideal healthy weight for your height is.  Once you find out, set that as a limit and DON'T go under that weight.  You don't want to start a neverending chain... sadly that happens to way too many people.\n\nGood luck!