I still like this guy but his school work family and sports get in the way; but I still like him. What do I do
476653
I'm not sure if you should be getting involved with him. If I'm understanding you clearly, you're saying that you are more important than his school work and that can never be. And it is quite possible that his sports are very important to him, especially if he's not financially in the position to go to any school he wants. Then he may need a sports scholarship.  And his family will always be more important than you. I would never want to be involved with someone who thinks I spend too much time on my studies, sports or family. Geeeeze, if anything, you should be more attracted to him as a result of these attributes.
370042
tell him how you feel and tell him there is nothing that he can't tell you. . . you're both playing for the same team. . . so trust you enough to open up.
661455
you sound like a sweet person, and i have been where you are, i just told him i needed some space, that i had alot on my mind, nothing personal, but there are some things you need to work through. that seemed to work! oh yes tell him you really like him , but things are just going to fast. GOD BLESS and good luck:)
621409
REMEMBER HE IS WITH YOU.IF HE WAS NOT COOL WHY WOULD YOU WANT HIM?DO NOT BE JEALOUS.YOU TWO ARE MADE FOR EACH OTHER .GOOD LUCK.
92701
erm. firstly.. did he care for his family and yours? if he did i believe that in the future he will do the same for you and your family. Is he loyal? and he rather spend time with you then his friends. Cares for your feeling.. willing listen to your point. not argue with you but listen to you. And the most important is your heart is only for him and he too. hope u can find your answer soon.
611805
talk to him first.. it will be fine if u all really like eachother u will stay with eachother
372982
Ask him to be a man. Look beyond the family. I am telling you this because I myself had a crush on my cousin for a very long time. I eventually shrugged it off and moved on.
862668
High school love sigh the old days, lol. hun high school love changes with the day of the week. If hes that mean to you why bother?? find someone whos not so mean to you.
675622
talk to him or tell him you like him... if he likes you back then thats good cause you might have the summer or be going to the same college but if not then you'll never have to see him again so its not that big of a loss
179511
Do what your heart leads you to do. If we push something and it is unnatural it is not meant to be or work out. If he feels as you weekends will work, the relationship will grow and arrangments in the future will blossom. Do not leap walk slow........this is your opportunity
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Just continue being yourself sweetie!  Obviously he likes you.  Do not tell him how you feel about him.  He will ask you out in time.  \nAlso I want to bring up the fact that since he is popular does not mean a darn thing!!  Believe me when I say this. Me being out of high school for a long while has seen popular people are usually the ones that are not as successful as the ones who aren't.  It's funny, isn't it?  It may be important to you now, but in the real world, it doesn't matter, unless you are running for President.  \nYou may have just met a very special friend right now.  Do not do anything that may jeopardize your friendship.  And if he is shallow to leave you while there are other people around...you move on!  Don't worry about it.  And who cares what everyone else thinks.  They do not run your life.  They have their own lives to worry about.\nYou will do just fine.\nGood Luck!
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You don't.  This is one of those things that you have to decide.  If you like this guy, go out with him.  It won't be easy, especialy if you want to remain an active member of your Church Family.  Life ahead of you will be filled with choices that your parents don't want you to have to make.
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hi,\n\nyou mentioned family&personal problems. from what you have stated it is more of your own college problem nothing more. if this is your problem, if he is not close to you how do you say he is your friend and it also looks he may not be interested. and are you by anyway infatuated with this guy. this will not help. talk to him, if you want. but this is a phase. you feel the sunrises and sets in this guy. just come out of it, you have to concentrate on you education,future. without proper education even if the guy is interested it is not goign to help. First list out your priorities. If you have any other problem, try to think over, talk it over and write it and tear it. really writing/venting it on paper really helps you clear out.\n\nWell all the best, we can only give suggestions.
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Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.
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Go ahead and cry, but don't allow yourself to be consumed with those thoughts and tears.  There's a time for your grief and a time to study.  Your relationship is over so don't allow that to take over your schooling.  Stay focused on your work when you're doing it.  Try not to get side tracked with thoughts of him.  It's the only way, but make a decision to not think about him when you're working and stick to it.
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Think of reasons to like him. . .I don't know how to solve ur other problem. . .Maybe a relationship would help.
1110163
Of course he likes you, which is why he is going to such extremes to get the other guy out of the picture. IF you still like him, ask him out, and see for yourself. Good luck!! I miss high school issues sometimes. lol