A distant relation in which girl wants to conceal her identity will work?n if it does then for how long?
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Yes, you can't love someone without knowing who they really are.  Relationships like this can work if you work at it, but after 2 months you should be comfortable enough to tell who you are.  What are you afraid of?  Arent you pretty sure she's not a serial rapist by now?
898369
I would get some pictures and tell her. Pictures are proof, she might be too blinded by love to take your word and you said you two weren't friends anyway. Or you could just drop off the pics anonymously at her house or work.
627679
Someone in your family will know....your mums mum, or mums sister or cousin...there is probably a female family member that she confided in at the time....or maybe even your "dad" would know...
177002
YES YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you know and she finds out and then finds out that you knew and didn't tell her you will be in alot more trouble than if you tell her and she thinks your a liar and that it couldn't be true then find out at least your conchianse thing will be clean!!
1129185
how long have you known this person?  i'm assuming you're not in any sort of relationship with her.  i would wait until the both of you have established some sort of relationship.  but i think it's really very sweet if you told her that after some time, just not immediately or she may think you're being very desperate or stalkerish.  most all girls want to hear that sort of commitment though!
1059405
why you keep it secret?\nlove to look to age or face or person \nlove is love
522592
There are alot!\nOne, if she is doing somethings in 'secret', like making phone calls and receiving calls from people that she wont tell you who they are.\nAlso, her sex drive, with you, is diminished.\nLook for marks on her.\nBrowse the trash can or her car for receipts from restraunts, bars, etc.\nIf she starts to dress differently from what she is used to wearing.....
1105505
dont tell your parents, keep it secret. my step-sis kept a bf secret for 3 months one time, i'm sure u can do it for that long or longer.
346153
You'd have to...It will eventually come out if you plan to stay with this person. It is always best to be honest. If he/she leaves you because of the STD, then so be it, but at least you were honest so that he/she doesn't go out infecting others because of your silence.
478820
Yes, that would be a way to test the waters. And as for making a weird face...that might tell her that u dont like her or either that or ur confused.
116472
Get your girls together and follow him. Remain discreet when following him or you can hire a private investigator for a week.
1153024
By being honest and stubborn and even if that hasn't worked yet, it will. I'm sure she knows you care for her and wants to be with you, but there are probably tons of reasons why she just can't let herself trust you. Oh and don't ever threaten to leave her unless you really plan on going through with it completely and NOTHING she can say will change that. Especially if that is something that she fears.
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Not as long as you are not hurting anyone.  Never give anyone your real name or address because there are a lot of sick people in chat rooms who try to entice young girls so be careful.  You said your friend makes you do it if you don't feel comfortable doing it then stop.  Don't let peer pressure make you do anything you don't want to do.  Have fun but stay safe.
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Talk to their friends and ask pointed questions. Observe changes in eating, sleeping, personality, sociability. If you suspect without any proof, go on a vacation w/o any contact with him. When you return, watch for reversing. She might even tell you without asking. Just don't paint her into a corner with questions. Use silent inquisition.
764420
Tell her just like you told us.....  I like to leave the light on because.....  We do have some expectations of privacy....  It's always best to be honest and straightforward.  Do not tap dance around the issues.  Just be pleasant and respectful and hopefully she will understand.
301269
If the physical attraction is there right away then she decided as soon as she spotted you.\n\nAlthough women who want a relationship to mean something may take a little longer to decide whether to open up
943286
It is always good to be honest. You can tell her all of this, but be prepared if she doesnt believe you. Most girls wont believe you because they will be thinking that you are just trying to sleep with them.