How many women find porn is unacceptable when you are married?
478018
I don't really care\n\na long as he isnt looking at it 8 hours a day, spending the grocery budget on films and websites, looking at kiddy/animal porn or neglecting his real sex life or something unreasonable then theres no harm done.
377630
PORN ROCKS!!!!! as you get older it gets better . once your married you have to hide it ... but i still watch it when the wifes asleep
312527
Simple Question. Its all with Modesty.\nPeople hide it, others protray it. Its human nature to be embrassed when they know what they are doing is wrong and they are still doing it.\n\nOk,If someones come and see you naked.how do you feel? embarrassed rite? excatly!!! Men do not like woman to see them watching porn. Why? Firstly what they are watching is illegal,2ndly its protraying the opposite sex and woman and woman would see it as a outrage of modesty to themselves. Men would feel embarrassed to let a woman know that. Watching Porn is like watching someone making you horny. your wife will feel inferior to feel that you need to go to other ways to endulge in sexual pleasure. That she will realise she cannot do for you as you already misstreat her trust.\n\nMen Watch Porn is normal. But its all in by human nature.we hide our modesty for a reason.Thats why people have to hide it. Its only human instincts.
167253
Put on a porn film just while having sex with your wife!\nShe could be agree and consequentially you could lose interest in it.
1115781
my husband and i make our own porn! \nand we watch it 2gether
1000888
Yes its a sin sweetie. It will make your future marriages/relationships a disaster. It's funny people say No Its Fine, it wont do anything, but then when they go through it, Look whos laughing?\n\nDONT LOOK AT PORN PLEASE!
1107179
believe me or not, I find dirty talk quite offensive and it is quite a turn-off to me.  I would much rather my wife not to say stuff like that ever.
223829
Afraid your wife will catch you searching porn, or is it your mom you fear?
1161093
first of all if that question was in response to my previous question FUCK OFF!! you people go on here for advice, not to hear some dumbass put us down and make us feel stupid. I am not spying on my husband. porn is wrong it is the most dirtiest thing in this world and if you like watching hey thats your business but i will not allow it in my home and i wanted to know how to make it to were he can't look it up. my kids go on the computer.
993233
Porn can affect a relationship if one of the people are uncomfortable with it.  You just have to talk to your partner about it and find out where he/she stands with the porn.  If your partner thinks its bothersome then do the right thing and ditch it.
296840
Women that do like porn do not usually like the same kind of porn as men do. So most people prefer to watch porn alone. My husband likes to watch porn with me, and I don't mind (as long as it's my porn). My porn doesn't really turn him on, but he is turned on by seeing me turned on.
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Sounds like your husband has issues about his ex, not about porn.  You might want to question his wanting pictures of an ex when he's married to you.  Why doesn't he have naked pictures of you?  If you don't care that he looks at porn tell him to get rid of the pictures of his ex and take pictures of you.  No, you're not being sensitive about it.  If I had naked pictures of my ex, my wife would cut me off from sex, stop talking to me until I could explain it to her in terms that would make sense to her as to why I have them.  Oh, and he's not mad at you for not understanding he's mad at you because he got caught.
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I suggest marriage counseling. Your husband sounds like an immature 20 something that should not be married. Having a three-some is  one of the BIGGEST relationship killers and definitely does not belong in a marriage if one partner is not completely open to it. He sounds like because he is not getting his way he is punishing you the only way he knows how.\nSex is supposed to play an important role in committed relationships because of the intimacy level. Sex is supposed to be something beautiful that two people who love each other share.... not something to invite others to participate in. (I feel there is a time and place for experimentation, however a marriage USUALLY isn't one of those places).\nI think his porn addiction is also a bit of a problem and he could be using a threesome as a way to deflect your attention from his real problem...his addiction to porn.\nIn my opinion, if you think your sex life is as big of a problem as it seems to me, and you want to work on your marriage, I think seeing a sex therapist with your husband (or at the very least a marriage counselor) would be your best course.\n\nDONT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER!!!!
964247
For starters there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. I was where you were years ago. The last straw was when I actually caught him fast forwarding during our time. I never told him to stop watching them but if we were in bed & he wanted to watch one I would tell him to turn it down or go to the other room. As for the BJ part HAH If he wouldn't give me the special perks I wanted HE didn't get his. Eventually any man will get sick of his own hand. My husband has always had a huge sexual appetite though. I found out later that he didn't have a porn addiction, he's into voyeurism. He liked the sneak peaks also the thrill of being caught. Try to talk to him again with a genuine interest of finding out what exactly turns him on about the movies without getting defensive. You might find that it's really something quite simple and possibly even fun for you to do together. You may have to stray from your comfort zone a little but don't let it compromise your morals or it will just make you resent him and you. A few years ago he stopped watching them as much because it was the same thing in each one. Of course them we got internet which opened up a whole new field. Our computer stays in the living room so anything he does now has to be when nobody it home so that helps. We been together for 12 years now. It's been rough but we have made it this far. If you do all you can and he STILL won't give you the proper attention that you need then there's nothing left for you there.
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IT SURE IS! FIRSTLY BECAUSE IT OVERFLOWS ONES BRAIN WITH THE IMAGES THAT U SEE ...RESULTING IN A HIGHER SEX DRIVE AND FRUSTRATION LEVEL. WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY CAN LEAD TO REGULAR SEXUAL ACTIVITY OF MASTUR****** AND IN SOME CASES RESULTS IN RAPES AND ABUSES. IN CASE OF MARRIED MEN,,,IT CAN LEAD TO EXPERIMENTATION OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY AS PROJECTED THRU THE VIDEOS AND PICTURES..AND CAN LEAD MEN TOWARDS WANTING TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE SEXUAL PARTNER. FINALLY, IT CAN LEAD TO TIMEWASTE AND IS A WORTHLESS SOURCE OF DISTRACTION.
160452
For me I could not watch my wife with another guy, I could however watch my wife with another woman.  If you watch porn it is a common thing but in rality most people accept the monogamy that is associated with marriage.
157940
It can spice up a relationship that needs help or help you take care of your own needs once in a while, but too much of a good thing can cause problems.  Sometimes when people watch porn it gives them a false image of how things should be.  A happily married man becomes uninterested in his loving wife, because she doesn't look or act like what he's seen.  I say use with caution and sparingly.  Once in a while isn't bad, but you don't want to become an adict.