how do i trust her again i want to but she keeps lyin to me?
478666
She shouldn't lie to a friend at all especially if ya'll are both best friends. About her boyfriend, I know it's hard but look he has prabably has moved on by now and she needs to too. He was just her boyfriend, that didn't mean he was going to be with her 4 the rest of her life. She wouldn't like it if u lied to her so tell her how u feel and that she needs to stop!
319907
If it got to the point they had to call hte cops I would say you blew it.  If you aren't really willing to accept that answer and you are willing to do ANYTHING to be friends with her again then patience is the key.  You have to prove to her that you are sorry and will never act that way again.  Let me tell you earning back someones trust is never an easy thing.  Be patient...wait for her... do what you can to show her you are sorry subtly and if a fight starts refuse to engage in it...
515572
keep up the good work....trust is EARNED\nshe must have been hurt REAL BAD b4...\ndon't EVER give her a reason to not trust you\nif she EVER catches you flirting with another gal...it'll take EVEN longer for her to trust you again...
1050440
You have to gain her trust. You have to show her you changed, not tell her. You have to consider her feelings. If she tells you top leave her alone, do it. Give her some time, and then get back to her.\n\nGoosd luck.
745158
Ask her why she doesn't trust u. This is definitelly a trust problem
390745
Let it go and be a friend.  Afterall, that sounds like what she needs anyway.  Later on down the road when she sees you have changed she may be willing to let you back in.
859834
No don;'t take her back she is keeping you at arms length and then when something better comes along you will be gone again. Why put yourself thru the hurt!!!! She is now worrying that she will be alone so you get to play 2nd fiddle tell her to go away!!
1005109
Ask yourself if you can trust her. If you can't, regardless of if she is truly being honest or not, then how can you have a healthy relationship? It sounds like there have been issues with trust with her in the past, and games to make each other jealous. Is that the kind of relationship you want to have?
303041
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
100997
It is quite possible that she really does regret her actions and will never do it again, especially since she told you.  But, having been in your situation before, I've found it extremely hard to "forgive and forget."  Both of you have to be really committed to make the relationship work after a major setback like that, but if she is truly sorry and you think you can trust her again, it should all work out.
301738
You want her back bro. This is man to man sh*t here. Blow her off. Seriously, just trust my advice and blow her off. Pretend you are on and better off and she will see that and realize you are intriguing to her again and she will start talking to you again. But play semi hard to get with her. Take it like you don't give a damn about nothing and if you 2 ever get together again it doesn't make a differance to you. But try to be exciting around her. Do something you normally wouldn't do. Take a chance and make sure she sees it or knows about it. You can handle it. Woman are complex creatures but once you know how to get through to them, you are golden for life. Well until they catch on to your knowledge of their ways.
273269
Unfortunately, some peoples trust can never be regained. Don't lie, always tell the truth, you will get in less trouble if you tell the truth instead of a lie. Talk to the new girl that your with, say your sorry, and explain. tell her you realize that she might not trust you now but i am willing to work on it. You mean so much to me and i would hate to lose you over my stupid(yeah,say stupid)mistakes. Good Luck:) I hope this helps. If not Sorry.
488526
Love and trust cannot be forced. I appears to me that she has trust issues in the first place if she can't let go of something that she knows to be false. Of course, there is also the chance that something else is affecting her decision. Ask her to tell you why she won't return your calls, if she says she doesn't want to talk to you, you best let go. You could also try dropping communication to zero for a couple of weeks. You might make her curious and she might even come to ask YOU what's going on. Then you two can talk it out and figure out what is best for each of you. Hope these ideas can help you. Good luck. \n\nTo everyone else, It isn't fair to automatically consider someone to be a "moron" or "stalker" without knowing all the details. I think this person deserves the benefit of the doubt. We have all seen much worse than this. Thanks.
130455
Trust is something that is earned and can be destroyed so easily.  She has to understand that you have done nothing to make here distrust you and  even though she is hurting, you are there to listen. Sometimes just being a listner will truly show your intentions more than trying to convince otherwise. Actions speak louder than words and she will know this once the heart heals. Right now she is hurting and that will cloud her thoughts, just give it time as time heals most.  Be there when she needs you but dont crowd her.  \nIt is a shame that people today forget what trust is and what commitment is about. So often men and woment run to the next thing that may look better than the person we are with, but you have to stop and ask-- is this worth losing what I got now for something I know nothing about...
521777
Listen, the only thing that you can do is sit there and listen and prove yourself worthy in one situation if she needs you she will come to you if she is aware that you are willing to be there and listen. There is no use trying to push her into trusting you when that is probably what she is really afraid of.
220110
Trust has to be earned back.  Believe me, it's not easy when someone you love loses trust in you.  She was hurt that you kept a secret, and I'm sure it hurt you to hurt her.  Just be careful in all you do, be good to her.  If it's the real deal, she'll learn to forgive and all will be well again.
1122280
you should already be concerned bottom line the only person in life you can really trust is yourself you can only know what your soing not her so if your really having these concerns tell her and go out and have fun she is