I have this friend....?
480422
Are they running to you as a friend wanting advice on how to date your friend...or are you getting what's like to be called "sloppy seconds"? Either which way, the situation your in does stink...tell your friend whats wrong - that guys that like her and coming up to you after they ask her out...she should straighten them out for you if she's a friend. IF not, a good kick in the "whahoos" will definately push all romatic ideas with you out of a guys head. Just an idea.
91751
Talk to your friend first, then if she is okay with it, then go ahead
53716
theres really no way around just go ahead and talk to him let him know you value his friendship, but  and you go from there, but try to do this as soon as possible because you dont want to keep anything from him the longer you wait the more complicated it will be.
146977
ask your friend if it would be ok.. that way it will be easier on both of you
424131
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
426461
If he was a true friend then he would answer you either way because that's what a true friend is all about :-) As far as what to do is concerned ... seek a friend who will cherish and reciprocate your sentiments. Goodluck!
930120
You could try talking to her and let her know that you are concerned about your friendship.   If she is really into this guy then it might be hard to get her to see your point of view.  But I think you should definitely talk to her.  Good Luck!!
423565
I would give him some time.  Be his friend... sounds like he's got a lot of stuff on his plate right now..
110084
I notice you don't mention how things are with your current beau. But as for your bud, maybe he should dump her; she doesn't sound like the most trusting sort. \n\nAnd if you and your friend are that close, maybe you do belong together.
992099
the first thing is, are you just friends or do you have a sexual relationship? if you haven't already got that kind of relationship then i think first you need to find out if your friend thinks of you in that way. if she doesn't you're gonna have a problem.
649412
man yo friend is selfish, i know cuz im sorta the same way but i dont mess with my friend relationship because i know that he is happy with her and thatall that matters. but im saying if the giel do him wrong then she would have to answer to me. juss tell yo friend if she that close to you to let u go, cuz she is doing the same thing. if she like that tell her you wont talk to her ne more till she understands that u not with her and that u need your freedom. there is a nice way to tell her(not in those words) but the rection is gone be the same, feel me?
635937
As him how he feels about other people that have friendships that take it to the next level.\n\nIf he is ok with others then ask him if he ever thought of it with your friendship.\n\nIf you dont take a risk then you can never live life to the fullest.\n\nYou may loose, but if you win, you win big!!!!!!!!!
1078129
I think thats something we all want to know.  I have the same problem.  I think their not worthy of being your friend though.  Just tell him/her how you feel.  Good-Luck!!
261085
Real friends arent like that so he/she isnt ur real friend. I may be wrong..but maybe even your great friends and he is just shy..talk to him Gurly Gurl! Lol, thank you.
500861
wow i don't know y u call her a friend... no offence or anything but she sounds like a jerk! i say hang out with ur other friends more, but don't TOTTALLY ditch your other friend, just kind of hang out with her less. hope it helps!
368579
nope and I'd further let him know that you value your time and are willing to include him in your plans but only if he shows up.  I'd make it clear and rock solid that if he does it again, the friendship is terminated out of a lack of respect for you on his part.  You don't have to be a doormat for this so-called friend.  The reason you may be the only friend he's got is because he chased off the other people who wanted to be his friend.  So.....you may be a friend to HIM but I don't see any parts of his being a friend to YOU.  Get ready to ditch this sadsack and meet nicer people.
738791
the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.