My boyfriend gives more attention to his sister than me... What should I do?
482322
Noa? What are you doing here? And why do you ask that kind of question? I love you no matter what... please don't be jealous to Phacia. Doesn't she love you also and consider you as her sister which she never has? I love you both, you are the most important person in my life... No doubt about that. I am, and will remain, most affectionally yours.
829478
Don't feel bad okay, he is a jerk that why your sister brake up with him, if he is your sister boyfriend he should treat you like his own family, maybe your sister and him doesn't have any feeling or relationship again so don't worry a thing.
827423
Ummm I don't know how old u r, but really that doesn't matter... stay away from the sister's bf....STAY AWAY FROM THE SISTER'S BF!!  All that will happen is drama drama drama.  Stick with your b/f or go find a better one...but you need to distance yourself from your sister's relationship now before it goes any further!!!
96534
I need to know more to be able to answer this question like how much do you like the guy and what does he feel towards you and your sister? I have a younger sister and most of the time i have to make sacrifices just to make things easier for everybody. It's better to step back than fight with her over something that's simply not worth fighting for.
904460
is your sister younger? and if by how much? Sometimes parents are nice to younger children to make them feel appreciated. \n\nIs he your stepfather? Is your sister a half-sister and he being the father? If so that pretty much explains it, parents like their children more. Or he really loves you and thats his way of showing his love. Maybe you did something really bad to piss him off...
473539
I went through a similar situation and I made my BF talk to her about her pushiness. She no long calls at 6 am so thats good! You should not complain to much about his family though as they are and will always be in his life. You should be calm and explain to him your feelings! Good luck.
386878
i am all for the "find a better guy and make him jealous" thing, but it puts you in a pickle with him being your brothers friend, and if you do anything to upset this guy your brother might get ticked off at you.(because that is how men are) i suggest talking to your brother and finding out what the deal is whether or not this dude is in to you or if he is slow-playin. then i would tell him (brother) that this dude really upset you because of the way he treated you. and if your lucky your brother just might have one of those "rules for dating my sister" talks with the dude.
96011
You have a great opportunity on your hands.  Ask your sisters bf to be an usher.  Explain that the mothers need escorts down the aisle.  He would still be a part of the wedding in an important position and you get to have your friends that you know in the bridal party.  If you do it politely and excitedly they will be more than happy to serve in that way.  And your sister needs to understand that being as you dont completely know her bf that he is still there and welcome and helping but after long talks, you would feel more comfortable w/ the other person in line instead.  Remember, tact and kindness goes a long long way.  Good luck and congratulations on your wedding.
1110288
Be yourself, be honest.  Tell him how u really feel cuz if u dont u may regret it.  dont let this be one of those times where u ask urself what if..... if its the family- be an adult, be the bigger person and talk about the situation. if u luv him that much and hes worth it, suck up ur pride and apologise to his sis.  could be a reason why theres tension stewing
700302
I know loads of guys with younger sisters that are really overprotective so maybe its best if u talk bout it with ur brother first.. If ur brother doesnt want you dating him maybe u could tell him that u really like this guy and just to be happy for you.. Good luck
496288
I know how you feel. My boyfriends parents don't hate me, but they tend to always bring up the worst about me. Is he very attached to his brother? My experience has told me that when people are attached theyll do anything to keep them around, even say bad things about the ones they love. With me, any arguments, anything wrong ive said gets brought up over and over again by his mother, and him sometimes and everyonce in awhile they convince him of what theyre saying, usually when hes mad or tired. Anyway, you should care what his family thinks, and the best thing to do is try and get to know them all better and talk to your boyfriend about the situation. I;ve found that getting closer with my BF's family has helped and his sister even defends me now. They're just afraid of losing him, ecspecially since youve been together a long time ( for me its been a year and three months)\n\nI wish you the best of luck.
474479
Sharing is caring... just kidding.\n\nWell, if you are really in love with him, as in you both been dating him I guess its up to the man to decide.  But if you both are just attracted and really like him let him decide but explain you both can't see him, or be the good sister and back off.  Tell your sister if she loses interest or something like that it is fair game.
128092
it would have been easier if she was a friend or something you could have ignored her completely\nbut as your own lil' sister has a crush on your boyfriend it can get a lil' complicated\nfirst ask her(nicely) if she likes your guy\nit could be she jus likes him as a guy whom you going around with not the kind who she wants to go around with (you getting it)\nif she like likes him then sit and explain it to her (again nicely) that he is your guy and you like him a lot and you like her too and over a guy you don wanna loose a sister \nhave a talk explain it to her that he is your territory and she should find some one else for herself
955778
Like you said babe, you're more than worthy. Its HIS family and thats it. Not everyone is going to get on, but like you said, you and your boyfriend are strong. Ignore it, Ignore how they make you feel babe. Its probably jealousy on their part. I wouldn't let them see they upset you, you're better than that. After the reception, just keep your distance. Your friends will be there for you, so just make sure you have a good time. Don't let people like that grind you down babe. Good Luck x x x
1147488
In your heart of hearts, you know whether or not he is trouble.  If he is trouble, then try to be strong and walk away.  But if sis is being a jealous rival and you know for a fact he is a good guy, go for it!
1021103
You can do the right thing and that would be to keep it to yourself.  HE IS YOUR SISTERS BF FOR GOD SAKE.
728323
At the top of this all, you are being a responsible big sister who wants to protect her little sister from guys who just want to prey on her because she is pretty. In the middle of this all, you get annoyed at the fact that most of the guys that befriend you are just actually wanting to get to your sister. It's natural for you to react that way. It's natural for you to want to be appreciated not because of your sister, but because of who you are. It's natural for you to want your own share of attention, and finally, it's natural for you to feel disrespected, and used, because guys are 'using' you to get to your beautiful sister. At the bottom of this all, you do have insecurities, of course, because you feel that your sister is prettier than you, and that she is getting all the attention, and people don't even stop to think about how you feel.\n\nI don't think you must be very ugly. If you have a very pretty sister, then it means you can't look that bad, right? You do share the same blood! Maybe she's pretty and charming at the same time?\n\nI have a cousin who has always, always been jealous of me. Whenever she had boyfriends, they'd fall for me after meeting me. In fact, she would reach a point where she told me "Ok, if he falls for you after seeing you, it's not going to bother me." And I was still so young at that time, I didn't even understand why she was acting like that. But now I understand that she was just jealous of me. As a result of her jealousy, she became very mean and resentful towards me, and ruined not only our relationship as cousins, but my mother's relationship with her dad, and my relationship with her siblings.\n\nPlease, don't allow your jealousy to eat away at your relationship with your sister. Accept what you have. Accept what she has. Be happy for her, if you really love her. There are guys that will suit you. Look for guys that are in your league, and let the guys in your sister's league, get together with her. Don't covet what's not meant to be for you. But be happy with what you have.