I am in love with my best friend, but she doesn't want to date me because were too good of friends.?
480494
i have been in that situation and i kno that it is a hard thing to accept but just know that you have an awesome frined and that is a good thing too
911510
Dear :\nShe is not a psyco nor is she a c***k tease!Nor is she playing you!\nFrom my point of view it seems that this girl really loves you and wants you forever in her life!Because of the fact that she never had a relationship before she is scared that if She goes to the next level with you then she might lose you and your friendship!\nIt is so hard for girls to find a best friend in the guy they love and most often when a girl spends most of her time with a boy she considers her friend she grows to love him very strongly!\nShe doesnot advice and like hearing about other girls because she loves you and she doesnot want anyone to take you away from her!\nYou will want to know then why does she not get into a relationship with you, and why she apologises and says there can be no relationship!\nThis girl loves you soo much that she is afraid that you will turn her away or just get fedup of her!Maybe she knows your history with other girls and she is afraid to end up like them!\nSit down with her and confess your love and tell her that you will always be her best friend and lover if she wishes it!\nMake it clear that if ahe does not want you then if another girl comes along you will have no choice as you cannot remain single for ever-but do this gently!\nJust make her known that your outings and fun will not stop if the two of you become lovers!\nYou see, most times when a woman enters a relationship the fun she had before with the guy is gone!Thats what she is afraid of!Just reassure her that lovers doesnot mean the elimination of fun!\nGoodluck and dodnot hurt her for it seems that you will never find a girl that loves you as mush as her!\nLove SANAM
197201
I was just going to tell you that it was not a good idea to date your friend, because you run the risk of loosing your friend.  Friends are much harder to come by.  I hope you two can bridge the gap between you so  you can salvage the friendship.  Good luck to you!
782652
The world is changing. One day the world will be fine with it, people will find something else to hate. You may want to make sure she feels the same way before you make any drastic moves. And it may not be love, like boyfriend/girlfriend/marriage love. Maybe its the love of a best friend. I love my best friend, but its not that type of love. Time can only tell.
212426
Aw you poor thing, i can see where that'd be embarassing:( if you wanna date her, go for it! (i posted a question because i have a crush on my best friend - a guy - so i know how you feel, hehe) but if you dont wanna be anything more than friends (or she doesn't) then maybe try easing off the cuddling a little bit or something...
1132896
well if she dont believe you then  give her a rose.\n but also think of it this way would if you and her took it to the next level, and it didnt work out. how would your friendship be then? would it be ruined? thats scary but i think i would rather be a best friend and love her as a best  friend then, how do you know maybe she is the  the right one and if she is then it  will happen, thats how love begins frindship first then, then it grows into more so know matter what it sounds to me like its on the right track!!!!!
957080
Well buddy, i was in a situation like that.....college was the best thing that ever happened to me on that, cause i moved away from her and never saw her again.  If she was just your friend and dated a bunch of dudes and knew you liked her...she is NO GOOD...as far as love is concerned.....so you shoul'dve booted that b*tch to the curb long time ago, or made it strickly friendly.  But stickin to the plan and hoping is bad...those are false hopes, you can't make anyone love you, and you can't be so friendly that they'll somehow say "hey, he's a sweet guy..let me give him a chance"  that's straight up B*LLSH*T my friend, they will never do that, they will always see you as a friend and nothing more.  Chase after women who will give you a genuine chance the FIRST time..not after they date someone else....because if they really liked you or wanted you..they would've given you a chance a LOOOOONG time ago.  Women a lot of times just don't know what the hell they want, and they don't find out until much later, but by then it's too late because they've either slutted the hell out of themselves, or just been through so much drama that they become high maintenance....you don't want to get involved with that....because if they can't appreciate you for you at that time what the HELL makes them think they can appreciate you now?  You ain't too good to be her friend, she wasn't a friend in the first place if she knew you wanted her and she blew it off and never confronted you about her feelings.  It's called, can't deal with lovesickness, and that's what she caused with every moment you were with her anyway....so don't feel bad, just move the hell on...find someone who will appreciate you....not someone who'll just lead you on for their own selfish support.
126931
The simple truth of the matter is this. She doesn't love you, all she wants is something she can't have and that happens to be you. Trust me the only person who will get hurt in all this is you. I have lost a good friend because of this exact same thing and let me tell you it was never worth it.
349327
You just have to really be yourself and show to her that you are the right guy for her. I would call and talk to her about it and ask her if you two could just go hang out some night and when you do eventually hang out, tell her about everything you feel! They always say that your soul mate should be your best friend so who knows. I wish you the best of luck!
867361
Wrong?  That's for you to decide, but here's some food for thought.\n\nShe needs your friendship.  If you give her friendship without going for anything more right now, it shows her respect.  Then, when she is less vulnerable, if the two of you get together she will respect you more and you will be able to trust that she's with you for the right reasons and not simply out of need.\n\nIf the two of you got involved right now, it might be for the wrong reasons at the wrong time and thus set you up for failure down the road.\n\nIf you are "right" together, then it won't hurt for you to be her best friend and hold off on the other stuff for a while out of respect for her temporary vulnerability and genuine love or care for her.\n\nJust something to consider.  Good luck!
195583
Sounds to me like a mixture of jealousy and being scared of losing her friend. The fact is that despite being your best friend, you have your own life to lead. Maybe you should sit her down and try and gently find out why she gets so bothered and reassure her that your friendship will always be there. Does she have boyfriends or has she been hurt in the past? Your success in love may be highlighting her own insecurities. Talking to her is definitely the best option. Good Luck.
828084
I know she's your best friend but this is your life were talking about not hers.Tell her you know she means well and is looking out for you, and that you take her opinions seriously but you really like this girl. And if this girl, no matter who or what she is or does, will make you happy/have fun, then as your bestfriend she should just let you be happy. Loyalty is part of friendship, so even if you ask this girl out, she'll still be your best friend. Tell her or explain  your side to her and just simply ask this girl out. If you're making a mistake, then she has to allow you to make your own mistakes, if you guys turn out happy together, then be glad you didn't let yourself get heldback.
136359
Sorry to hear your feelings are being reciprocated...but unfortuantely you cant make someone like you.  just keep being her friend andmaybe you will grow on her.  Thats how my man got me!  We became best friends and now were engaged!
76712
thats the way it ALWAYS is - its your bestfriend that always gets your significant other ... if your friend is worth it just dont do it ... maybe later ...
448866
i have been dating one of my bestfriends ex-boyfriend, and weve been together for 3 years, we also plan on getting married. You cant help the person you fall in love with, and who are you to stop something that could be one of the best things that could happen for your best freind? if she really is your best friend then treat her as such dont let something like that bring your friendship down. let them try and see if it wroks out for them, if it does just be glad she found something a lot of people dont get the chance to, and if it doesnt work dont give an i told you so, compfort her as you would if you didnt know the guy. Keep smiling and find you someone who you can have fun with a be real with.
249545
If your best friend does not want to date you, then chances are that he does think your boyfriend is not good enough for you.  Think about it.  How many time have you seen the nice girl dating the bad guy?  We've all seen it.  Some think the bad boy is fun or really a sweety underneath.  Is this you?  If it is then your best friend is a good guy.  He is trying to protect you.  The fact is that it is your decision.  You'll have to tell him you need to "agree to disagree."\n\nIf your best friend does want to date you, then that is a whole different story.  You may need to choose.\n\nGood luck!
782752
Well you're in a good position b/c most good relationships start with good friendship... but @ the same time, it might be hard for her to adjust to the fact that u really like her b/c she thinks of u more as a friend and she's probably never been in a situation like that. Just give it some time... if you two are really good friends then u dont have anything to worry about! =)