Is it ok to get stiff while slow dancing with  someone other than wife I mean like other wives?
487716
So WHAT exactly got stiff?  Did your BACK get stiff?  Did your KNEE get stiff.  Dontcha just hate it when that happens!  You are a moron... moron's don't deserve REAL answers.
15529
No, but if you are the only one not dancing, your colleagues may think you are not a fun person.  Just don't get drunk and dance.
952210
That's a good question cuz I do that move a lot when i'm dancin..do you fellas like that?
375966
no running tones your entire body and a nice body is key for dancers... it will increase strength and endurance
172276
I guess you can't dance salsa really great if you don't have some feelings to your partner. It's very passionate, especially casino style... Salsa romantica looks better for the spectators, but it's not so hot:) So it's up to you to choose:) And I prefer bachata -- I think one of the sexiest dances in the world
391934
I also think it's disrepectful.  There are some things you don't share with your spouse. I don't think it has anything to do with being uncomfortable or comfortable around your spouse.
13489
not a problem. married a woman that is 7 years older than me. and have a couple buddies that married older woman
1027236
i like to dance whether anyone see's me or not but i do dance a weird way when nobody is with me oh well its because i have to waste my energy somehow dats all lol cant excpect to be that normal lol
330000
With compassion, this is your chance to be their hero...step up to the plate and supprise everyone with the extra effort, all are noticing about how your handling this circumstance...if for no other reason, because its your duty as their spouse...you need to get what ever it is out of your mind that would allow you to lose your cool, because its preventing you from doing whats right.  If you can't do it yourself then hire someone to do it for you...but make sure their taken care of...one day the shoe will be on the other foot...and what goes around will come around.
388259
WHY DON'T YOU BOTH EXERCISE TOGETHER, LIKE WALKING, YOGA, PILATES, ETC.?  DON'T NAG BUT SUGGEST.
570821
let her ride on you. that would be making you feel tighter
464303
Not if you are confident in your relationship with her.  Are you assured that she loves you, that you know she goes home with you at night?\n\nIf it bothers you let her know, not in some argumentative way, but just express to her how it makes you feel when she dances with other guys.
64427
No one can MAKE you feel anything (except physical pain of course). If you're a professional dancer and some accountant who knows nothing about dance tells you you're terrible, you'll dismiss it because you don't value his opinion. But if an accomplished dancer who you respect says the same thing it might make you actually question your talents, and feel inferior. In this case you would have given the dancer, but not the accountant, permission to make to make you feel inferior.\n\nBut of course it might turn out that the dancer is old and bitter and wants to squash your potential by attacking your confidence. \n\nThe key is to develop a solid sense of who you are - both your strengths and weaknesses. If someone attacks something you know is a strength, it shouldn't bother you. And if they attack something you know is a weakness - that really shouldn't bother you either because you've accepted that this particular aspect is not your strongest.
1004344
I dance if there's someone I want to dance with (which is my husband) and I dance drunken, sober, tipsy, all of the above but happy - euphorically. And then we sit for the rest of the night and make fun of the drunk people and the hoochy mamas!
1148117
Do something active like playing a sport you both like or doing something you haven't done before. Just because a friend is married doesn't mean you can't go out to a club for drinks and good music.
48763
dance till u cant dance no more they'll join u sooner or later
1077813
for me dancing is like a medium of expressing my mood and i not a person who would openly show my mood.. I normally dance in my room when no ones watching... and if i ever ever happen to dance in a party then i care a dam for the crowd and dancing steps.. its just swinging in my own mood for me.