Is it okay for your girlfriend to pull a gun on you when she is drunk?
485318
Ahem... No.\n\nIt is called assult with a deadly weapon - and drunk or not, it is illegal and not OK.
557467
Dump her, how would she feel if you went and drank with your ex? Yeah she wouldn't stand for it, would she! She probably slept with him anyway. Sirens used to lure there victims in with beautiful music and then slaughter them. Would you fall for their music? I guess what I'm saying is don't let ANYONE play games with your head, if it gets to the point where your having mind games played with your head, GET OUT!
195924
No. But if it really isn't helping, then maybe you should leave her one that says "I care and I'm here for you." \n\nShe might feel like you're nagging. If she has a drinking problem it won't get better until she recognizes the problem for herself, and then seeks treatment on her own initiative.
950340
well if you can love a woman who killed a friend while drunk driving then not have to answer for it. then go ahead and love her all you want
618482
neither one of you should be drinking.Being drunk is just an excuse for acting stupid.You need to work out your feelings about what happened or you may explode one of these days.
586206
That would depend, If it's your long term girlfriend, wife, sister, best friend or mom, go right ahead! Exclaim loudly  "Damn woman, what the hell did you eat for dinner"?!\nHowever if it's your grandmother, new girlfriend, a stranger, your boss, or a woman you know could actually kick your butt. Just don't - EVER! ( especially to your grandmother)
839291
In my experience alcohol can definitely assist people in doing things they wouldn't normally do without alcohol in their system.  I don't think you would do anything stupid because of the fact that you are aware of this fear you have of acting innapropriate.  It's the chance we all take when hanging out with friends who are drinking, that they may do something they wouldn't normally do.  If she is a true friend she will laught with you and tell you to stop your just being drunk.  If your obnoxious when you get drunk however she may not want to hang out with you anymore.  Maybe you should just be honest with her and get it out in the open so that you both may enjoy the evening and you already know how she would react.  She may surprise you and tell you that she would be delighted to make out with you.  '-)
607883
If you won't be drinking or anything then nothings wrong. you were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. just go home. but don't let someone who HAS been drinking drive you home. even if it was one beer.
603984
YES! You should. See, he had the guts to come and tell you, if he had done it on purpose, he would have tried to hide it from you. This girl took advantage of him and while it may have been his fault, the beer didn't help. Make it clear you aren't happy and you are going to forgive him this once. Perhaps give him suggestions to make it up to you, like taking you out to dinner or something extra special. Make him work a little bit to say sorry, but make sure you make it clear you forgive otherwise you may lose him. Everyone makes mistakes. To Err is human, to forgive is divine.\n\nPerhaps talk with this girl and make it clear that this was not okay. Tell her to back off and perhaps get your anger out on her, not your boyfriend, cause it sounds like she was just waiting for him to get drunk. Being drunk, you can't remember anything and everything becomes a bluf, so an offer of sex would be pleasing because you didn't know any better.\n\nFYI, don't become overly suspcious and break up with im if he looks at another girl (and I mean just looks). Men are attracted to all kinds of women and him looking at another girl and staying with you is a compliment of how he loves you more than physical attraction could bring.
876677
if hey will take everyone keys so they dont get to drive themselves wile drunk, if the house is big enough and the parents dont keep a gun somewhere in the house, if it going to be a night of fun and the parents are taking responsibility of the night; the i'll say its okay to let your daughter attend. it sounds like its going to be fun and the truth is wether you let her go now or not, there will be a day she'll be open to a more dangerous but exciting party and you might not be aware.... so, let her have fun.\n\nsee it this way, if anything goes wrong, you have someone to arrest! \n\nGood luck.
770228
Absolutely not.  If your girlfriend isn't going to the dance then as her if it's alright first and mentioned that it was HER friend that asked you.
950727
a sloppy drunk girl....real impressive. nothing better than a girl falling all over the place ...yeah id say that will make for a nice girlfriend...but dont be offended if she passes out while your trying to talk to her.......just pick up where you left off when she wakes up....sounds like love to me....ya think?
465677
It depends on a couple things, your state of mind, did you happened to roll up on the scene. My situation, I just returned from Iraq, wanted to surprise her. The kid in the basement. Walked in on her & homeboy, I didnt have no beef with homeboy, didnt know him, he just being a playa. My ole lady on the other hand, I wasnt thinking straight, I grabbed the first thing that I could put my hand on, happened to be a hammer, straight up broke in both of her knee's. Didnt do any jail time; definitely got rid of her . I look back, I get a good laugh. I should have just took my stuff & left.
739262
Rifle in the air is simply disturbing the peace.  You didn't point it at anyone.  Hopefully witnesses will attest to this if and when the police inquire.\n\nSpraying someone with a hose, on the other hand, could actually be considered assault.  Unless somehow you could claim self-defense against the eggs being thrown at you.  However, it sounds like the eggs were only thrown at your HOUSE rather than YOU, so a claim of "self-defense" wouldn't work in that case.\n\nNext time, you'll want to exercise more impulse control than you did with the gun thingy AND the hose thing.  HOney, when you see trouble, CALL 911 and let the cops handle it!  You can't vigilante (not that you were trying to, cuz I understand that you were trying to stop the fist fight).  Still, you have to learn to immediately call 911 and stay out of it.  It's not your call to break things up.  The cops may very well arrest you, unfortunately.  Get witnesses to corroborate your story about shooting "in the air" and spraying the hose.
505171
You can advise her but you can't make her take action.\n\nIt hurts to see friends involved in self-destructive, negative behavior but we cannot make anyone else do anything. Let her know what you think. Encourage her to aim higher. Don't enable her but don't dump her. Continue to be a friend. She will eventually need you if she stays with this loser.\n\nAnd to one of the previous answers, it is still cheating if you are drunk. Intoxication excuses you from nothing. If you kill someone while drunk driving it is still murder or manslaughter. If you cheat while you are drunk you are still a cheater. Don't make excuses for your crappy behavior.
477906
Okay, forget what you should do this weekend. Wondering whether or not you should hang out with your girls isn't what you should be worried about. If your boyfriend is violent then you need to get out of that relationship. There is no excuse for a man to lay a hand on you. Tell someone you trust what's happening. Break up with this guy. Keep someone around you at all times in case he tries something. If there's physical evidence then go to the police. Just get out before it's too late and you end up in a hospital or ditch somewhere.
521054
Anything you "do" is going to force her to defend him.  I know how frightening the situation is.  It could build in to full blown abuse. If this is what he does when drunk it will only get worse.  Sounds like you have already been through plenty with this relationship. It is so hard to stand by while our kids make big mistakes.  Been there done that! Just be there for emotional support, she will need you.