Im in love with a dude thats treats me with 100%respect and also my ex from 5 yrs, trying to end ?
480850
keep the 100% respect guy he sounds like a keeper. :) dont go with the ex - it never works out and u will only regret it if u do .\n\ngood luck
869248
The question is, where does your heart lie. with your ex or with a new guy. you should follow the path which you trust more, who respects you more, and knows who can treat you best.
361550
No, as this is not fair on the other one and you wouldn,t want them to do this to you.Get over the so called one that you love and find someone who is better,because if they are not with you then there is someone better then them.
158261
You should not be with someone who would treat you in this manner.Tell him it is over and stick to your guns on this for a while.See if he changes in time but chances are he will not change.If not move on to someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated.
320746
It sounds like you really already know in your heart what you want and what you need to do.So,do it.Life is to short to be unhappy.You truly are in love with your ex,so that is where you need to be.I know it would be hard to tell the other person in your life,but it needs to be done,and it can be done in a nice manner.Like you just are not ready for a relationship with him,and you would not be fibbing,because you are not ready when you have such strong feelings for your ex.Also,this isn't fair for them nor for you all,and in the long run,it would be much harder to end as the more time that goes by.I say go and follow your heart.Good Luck to you!
574704
What you are feeling is natural, because you love him.  But think about it, he is putting the drug as his lover instead of you.  This is a big issue, and I'm sorry that you have to go through it because you guys have been dating for five years.  Should you be put second "NO", and do not put yourself in the situation.  I know that it's easier said then done. Think about what you want!  Good Luck!
581945
No honey, you should move on.  Trust me, life is too short to devote your time to a man/boy that is going to let you down like this.
337009
i have been down the same road on both ends of the relationship. what you both must realize is that a strong relationship is built with time. the more time you two give it the more you will build the trust, and respect for each other. it is really great that you understanding that his life has hit a rough spot in life and are willing to be that understanding and help him through it if he needs your help. i would give it a second chance because without second chances who knows what you could be missing out on he could be the right guy for you and you could never find out until it's to late
866444
Get off HIS a#s-cool-biach...im falling in love with him....get your own nut..
510785
It sounds like he may be trying to push you away in the hopes that *you* break up with *him.*  He may be too chicken to do it himself.  The problem is, is that it's affecting your self-esteem.  You don't deserve to be treated that way- being used is no fun, so don't allow it!  Think about where you see yourself in 5 years.... still in the same place???.... .don't waste any time.  Believe me, there are guys who will treat you right.  We teach people how to treat us- don't allow it anymore!!
817989
well...ur situation is just like mine now..lol\njust think carefully....do u still wnat this relationship to continue?
1182103
That is all up to u hun. When u feel the love in u then u know when u r in love. If he is still with you after 5 yrs i think it is love.
397524
Ah...this is an age-old question. Not an easy answer on this either. Does he feel the same way about you? Would you be willing to give up all that you have to be with him, knowing you can't go back if things fall apart? I know I'm not answering your question but giving you more questions. This is something you have to follow in your heart.
1083911
no go with your heart .keep seeing this guy if you feel that way about each other i think your a very real person.
850255
give your ex of 10 years a chance.....you know he loves you...and adores you!!! whats better than that?
1083648
FORGET him. He's just using you, love. Trust me, you need to cut him out of your life. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you MUCH better.
733745
Move on...find someone who truely appreciates you like you deserve to be.You should not try to get him back because obviously he has not been able to see the great, lovable , caring girl inside...so let him go and find someone who can find her and take care of her.There is nothing greater in life than being truly appreciated.you deserve better.I am sure there is someone just round the corner or right under your nose that you did not notice when you are so hung up on the ex.Let go and let the real thing find you.Bless you,sweety