Why is it that some women can orgasm with out sex and some do with sex?
479960
why do some people like ice cream and some people like cake? And some hate both. And some like both. Why do some people have brown eyes? Its just cause everyone is different...thats all.
328962
It's a different sensation, While it doesn't feel as good as vaginal sex. I think it's like a taboo thing. Like ooh I'm doing something naughty. And guys love it because well it's all extra tight. So I think women get more pleasure out of satisfying the desires of thier partner's than the actual act itself.
47858
Not all women are the same, the best thing to do is explore, touch, kiss, caress, talk.  Take things slow and have fun.  And above all else don't get frustrated because she doesn't orgasm, it's not always about the orgasm.
265473
use sparingly...some women get used to them and cant climax any other way
313580
I guess to keep her interested in sex!\n\nDuring a woman's orgasm the orgasmic muscle contractions in the genital area make the mouth of the cervix dip downwards inside the woman. This is advantageous because if the man she's having sex with has ejaculated, the cervix will dip into the deposited semen, thus increasing the oppurtunity for sperm to get through the cervix and onwards to the fallopian tubes to fertilise an egg, to produce a baby and propogate the human race etc etc etc.
507525
Yes. And some orgasms are stronger then others.
206613
Cause you dont know where the clit is, so we touch ourselves so we can orgasm aswell. The Hard Facts. Heidi
387056
Women have many kinds of orgasms. Sometimes they are small and sometimes the earth really feels like it moved. As long as she is enjoying what you are doing I wouldn't worry about it. If SHE is worried about it, masterbating is the best way for her to get to know her body and what makes her cum hard. Then she can show you what to do to get the same reaction.
651991
This could not be further from the truth. In fact its quite the opposite, when a girl gets comfortable enough with herself that she can masturbate to orgasm she often finds it easier to orgasm during the real thing. Also understand that there is more than one type of orgasm that women can have, a clitoral, and a g-spot. \n\nAs for your sex drive question, different people have different levels of sexual anticipation its normal and you should consider yourself lucky.
604512
I hope women don't have organisms when having sex with there partners. Orgasms on the other hand are nice to have but am not sure of an honest answer as it really depends on the woman and her partner. Some women may have multiple orgasms during sex and some may not, but I don't beleive that having orgasms are that important as just being with that person and enjoying the moment. Life is prescious and short so enjoy yourself and be carefull, if you are looking to have an orgasm I'm sure that you will eventually but don't think that there is anything wrong with you or your relationship if you don't. Good luck, have a good and safe time.
1108578
It's very simple as just cupping yourself and rotating your hand in a circular motion. You don't necessarily have to insert an finger or etc. women are natural turned on just by the idea of sex you can just squeeze your legs together.
461798
Women CAN enjoy sexual activity more than men, for the reasons mentioned by the others, but many women do not enjoy sex.  Reasons include:\n\nFear about pregnancy, or disease, or violence / oppression by the partner\n\nThey didn't orgasm last time, nor the ten times before... they "faked it".  They think it's likely they will not orgasm this time, either.  So, they "fake it" again, and the pattern goes on.  The partner doesn't learn how to help her get there, and she doesn't learn to orgasm readily.\n\nSome women's genitals are damaged, by previous childbirth or genital surgery; abdominal operations, or "female circumcision": cutting away the clitoris + / or the labia.  It is a variable procedure in technique and effect; some women cannot even urinate normally, after it!  Anyhow, some women find it hard to orgasm, after clitoridectomy or other nerve damage.  (So do men after some surgery, eg prostate removal, or severe circumcisions.)\n\nA good way for women to learn their sexual potential is to stimulate their own bodies; the genitals and other areas.  Learn what feels good.
590430
It's different, it feels good, and when done properly, gives a woman an intense orgasm (my wife loves it).\n\nIf it's between two men, it's a natural way for them to engage sexually with each other.
227110
many women can infact have female orgasms, it is not a rare thing but alot of women find it embarrassing, or think that theyre peeing , it is not urine.
686001
Sometimes a woman has to please herself. A lot of men do not know how to please a woman or bring her to point of the screaming orgasm but I found out it's better to know what gets you off so you can teach them.
494752
Those are two different things that have nothing to do with each other. Your body will naturally menstruate(period) when it's ready. Orgasms happen during sex, but they're not definitely going to happen for a woman. You have to learn about your body and your partner needs to know about your body as well.
560159
(sigh)....70% of women do not achieve orgasm with penetration alone.  Our sex organ is our clitoris, which requires stimulation....if I had a dollar for every time I've typed this....(sigh)....I put my hand down there and do it myself during sex....One-it assures me that I get off...Two-Guys think it's hot anyway.