why does he keep calling???
488443
run.  you don't need that kind of drama...\n\nWhy would you even entertain the idea of getting together with someone that is playing both of you?\n\nLeave him alone so he can decide what he wants.  IF he decides it is you, you can, at that point, decide if you want to be with someone that would play both ends of the field to see who is better.  \n\nI wouldn't want anything to do with someone that did that, personally.
280404
Well, something people gets the callling and texting all messed up. He may call you and whatever but that doesn't means that he haves feelings for you. Maybe he's trying to...get in your pants or something. You should really talk to him and ask him if he wants something serious with you, or just hook up with you and nothing more. So, I really think you should get things straight with him and make him tell you what he feels or what he wants.
357843
hmmm. Call him. Maybe he is busy.
421637
Guys always try to play it cool and wait a little while before they call you.  Maybe he doesn't want to seem pressed or he doesn't want to make it look like he's sweating you. Believe it or not, guys get nervous about the call as we do, so just give it a little while.  He'll call you.
726322
a man will only do what you allow him to do. he is responding because you dont tell him no to. you keep answering his calls and things like that. i bet if you leave him alone completly, he will go away. plus you are giving him more reason to use you and disrespect you. when my guy and i were on the outs, i would call and text, he would call back but the convo wasnt the same. i thought the same as you, if he didnt want me, he wouldnt talk to me right? well i was the one initiating the conversations, he gave me the feeling that he didnt want to be bothered by me and i knew he didnt but i wanted him so bad. does he make the effort to call you w/o you calling him?
727759
There are a couple of reasons for this A. He is shy or timid with girls or B. He has someone else and is using you for the back up babe....So stop calling him for a while and if he REALLY is into you then you should be hearing your phone ring, if not well....HIS LOSS AND SOMEONE ELSE'S GAIN!!!!
241632
If u are just talking on the phone then how can he be useing you? if his friends are telling you he is useing you then he needs new friends.if you are haveing intiment relations with him then stop,if he loves you he will stick around,if not then he will run.
252749
maybe ur reading to much into it maybe he just hasn't had a chance to call or maybe he is playing u if u see him confront him and find out.
1032762
Does it strike you as odd that he doesn't call all day and then shortly after you call him this evening then he calls? My guess would be that he DID have his phone, could see it was you calling, is somewhere doing something he would rather be doing than talking to you and so he used someone else's phone to call you and make up a story about not having his phone with him.
321445
He may be using a calling card for this purpose, i suppose.\n\nI had a similar problem, and then found out a similar reason
402572
There are two big issues here that make his story suspicious.  I can believe that someone would txt message the wrong number once.  But why didn't he block that number and why is he giving his wife the silent treatment.  There is never an excuse for giving someone the silent treatment unless you feel guilty yourself.  And blocking a number is pretty easy to do.  I would be very suspicious.
646462
Believe me he's just doing this just to see how far you'll let it go. But if you are uncomfortable with this then tell him to stop. If he does not stop then you need to stop talking to him on the phone until he can talk to you like he got some sense.
902403
have nothing more to do with him .. when he calls just dont  talk to him .. the more you communcate with him the more he will see it as you may want to get back together
628787
i ll tell you why... he is jus having his options open.. if he finds someone better, he will stop stayin in touch with you.. if nothing works out.. you are always there.. thats what he thinks.. trust me, I ve known guys who do this.. so, jus make him clear that its on or off... thats it.. don let him fool around you...
453442
The next time he calls you, tell him you don't want anything to do with him and that he should stop calling you and stop following you.  Tell him calmly that if he does not back off you will call the cops.  He might not realize he's being really creepy, so that might make him back off.  If he gets really angry or if he keeps calling, call the cops.
1141892
Try calling him.\nIf he doesnt respond then move on, because he has.
416084
Sounds like the type of guy who is never happy with just one woman. I would confront him and ask him what was going on with all the calls..K Hard to trust a liar..K