Can anyone help me be strong n not hateful?
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You already helped yourself! If your asking for help then you must not be that hateful! A truly hateful person would never think about getting advice. Your already strong and I don't think you hate.When you hurt really bad you build up a lot of anger, that is normal. I think you are mixing up and confusing your emotions. You are probably very hurt and angry it's normal to feel hateful sometimes.
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Having Good intentions and not containing hatred for any one in my heart
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Umm details please? You can help by being supportive and kind to him. Don't treat him like a retard.
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Hi there.\nHate is a very strong word and i know what hate is; i have maybe the same years old than you when i learn it.\nI realize thats not the answer to anything cause hate only harms you nothing else. \nIs normal to teens feel like this or thing u hate when the real thing is inside you with changes in you body and feelings trying to fit and at the same time looking for to be individual. \nWe are intelligent beings. Try to understand you make councios the problem (like teach in school to solve a math problem first you need to have all the "data" then u find ways to solve it): \n1)if is for abuse (verbal is abuse too) then the police, your school or child services can help.\n2)if rules or feel that u can breath cause they are all over u Try talking and set rules for them too Negotiate is very difficul i know (more when have 14 years but less than be independent) be patient try it \n3)if is for being a teen. Look for some help for the transition.\n4)if u relly want to live in other place. Then do it but do it right not leave to the adventure cause is dengerous to u Think about options money, home, i recomend dont leave the school by any reason, etc.
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Always work hard, do your research properly.!!!\nNever give up, remember we cannot be good in everything we do so always spend extra time on your weak points.!!!\nGood Luck.!!!
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take stock in the situation. \nI personally feel what does not kill me only makes me stronger. I also try reading books, and learning different things
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have u got any sisters or if u a guy any brothers that can take u out?\nfamily are always the best people to cheer u up.\nif i knew where u were from maybe i could suggest some places but sorry.\nget ur self a pet......
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Get the "I don't give a fuck attitude", and just know that you're better than everyone else... and believe in yourself. I hated speeches, but this has helped me... haha... It's ok if it's a bit conceited.
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Learn about yourself. We all have special gifts and talents that we can share with others. Celebrate yours. If you have flaws that you think you can change, take steps to change them. Choose to be ok with what you cannot change. \n\nEvery day, take little steps to appreciate being alive. Yesterday, I saw a pretty painted piece of wood, I had a lovely conversation with my neighbor and I had a tasty piece of bbq chicken. Look for your little joys.  Smile and say hello to everyone you see. Make it a point to go out and find people to be near. \n\nLove and be kind to yourself.
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Tiffany I know it is difficult having to put up with that treatment every day.  Work on cultivating who you are inside and ignore them. It will not be easy but in the long run you will be better off for it. Believe in yourself and know that within yourself you are so much better than whatever "they" say.
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You need to get some self confidence and I don't mean that in an ugly way.  That is all that you need in order to hold your ground.  You need to know that you can keep it together when someone is putting you down and realize that it is just words and like the saying goes, sticks and stones break my bones but words will NEVER hurt me!  Listen to what they have to say and if its something that you did, apologize, then just stand there and take what they have to say with a stone face.  Show no emotion!  Some people will keep doing hurtful things to people because the other person will take it and get upset and hurt.  The person that keeps doing it is usually a sad person themselves and needs someone that is "smaller and weaker" than their own selves to make them fell better.  Remember that the next time it happens and maybe they will stop.  If they don't stop doing it to you, then at least you will have walked away with the self respect and self confidence that is needed to conquer whatever the rest of the world is going to dish out.
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I would be happy to pray for you consistenly!!!  I can tell you this there is nothing that the Lord will give you that you can not handle..sometimes He gives us things so that we can grow, and learn more about Him!  The Bible says...cast your burdens on to me... He will carry you when you are weak if you lay your problems at His feet and seek His Face.  The Word also says that the Lord is your strength and your refuge!!!  Seek Him with all your heart and He will embrace you and help you through this tough time you are going thru.  I pray Gods blessings upon your life and that He would surround you in His Amazing Love and carry you through this time that you are weak.  I pray that He would touch you from the top of your head to the bottoms of your feet and that He would send a legion of Angels to surround you in a hedge of protection.  Remember that what the Enemy meant for Bad the Lord will turn it to Good for His Kingdom!!!
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no1 but u yourselfcan help u ./ first of all .. say that u dunt need help.. coz if u feel helplesss then only u will b down .. believe in ur self ur abilities and mark ur goals .. achieve thme and work hard .. God bless u amen ... \nbe motivated internally .. or else it will b hard in life for u
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Confidence is the best weapon to so called "haters". If you know yourself deep inside and know that words are meant to be sometimes powerful and mean, then adapt that layer between the person and your head. That layer should adapt to never let anything negative put your confidence down. The best advice a great man once told me was: "Always look at everyone in the eye and know if they are lying about you then know that your confidence is your pride and joy". Be proud with what yo' momma gave you dude and dont let words be harmful.
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its great that you are strong, but even the strongest can break down if they dont take care of themselves. dont stop taking care of yourself, your health is very important and at least will keep u from getting sick at a time like this. \n\nfirst off, take it easy. dont stress about things that you have no control over and cannot be changed. your parents divorce although sad, and hard, will happen whether you stress about it or not. let things take their course, and deal with your feelings, and help those who are weaker deal with theirs. \n\nkeep yourself busy, at school or work, whichever applies. go out with friends, to movies, or the mall, and have some fresh air... take walks with your sister. \n\ntake long hot baths at night... just lay there. \n\nthere must be at least one person out there in the world that you can talk to or trust enough to tell them how you feel.  and just  remember to relax. dont worry about what cant be changed, cause when you wake up tomorrow and the next day, you still wont be able to change them.  \n\ntake care of yourself. its the stress that makes you bruise easily. and your chest will stop hurting as well. find an email buddy... its easier to talk to people who dont know you or are far away... at least for me. =)  i have a few good friends around the world.
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focus on the good things in your life and think how you can make the negitive things better. Good luck!
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Just keep going. Have you ever heard "This to shall pass".  You have to pray and ask God for strength to with stand lifes challenges.  We are here until God take us home and we are here for a reason. God just wants you to stick it out.  It will be okay. You can't do anything about the past and unless you intentionally did something wrong (meaning planned it out), than thats just life. We were not promise that life would be peachy. Challenges, heart aches and pain are apart of life. Take care and GOD BLESS