LOVE AFFAIR: how to make him respect me better?
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Guys do things just to tense u..but never to avoid u...just note whether he behaves with some uniqueness with you..than wat he does with other girlfriends,whether he shares his personal feelings & other matters with you.Note that once you start respecting yur beloved he gives u lots of love & respect in return...
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Well since you love LOVE him very much do not worry about what other people say. Is he loving enough back to you? Does he honor you, does he respect you. Every body is imperfect and makes mistakes it is how you deal with the tough times and live the good  times so I would say just keep doing what you are doing and maybe just do little sweet things for him like make him a sandwich for lunch at work if he is into that, because you know how guys are so forgetful at times and they don't think about food well he might forget it in the fridge so just think of small little things to make his day brighter. Good Luck lots of love
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Let's back up one step.\n\nI suspect that there is a good reason you have recently begun "telling him how passionately and deeply you love him".  You feel insecure about his love, and are hoping he will affirm his devotion to you.\n\nYou should feel insecure!  After all you've given your heart and body to him for six years yet he hasn't shown you a committed kind of love - by asking you to marry him.   You just keep giving yourself and giving yourself hoping to keep him, hoping to coax him into loving you more, hoping that his devotion to you is equal to your (desperate) feelings for love-security.\n\nForget wanting his words of affirmation.  Words are cheap - used car salesmen and politicians use lots of nice words.\n\nGet a commitment or tell him to get lost.\n\nThen you will know.
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Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
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Both of you have to do it, not just you...you may have to teach him by your example?\n\nBe firm but don't lose your temper.\n\nBe kind but don't get walked over.\n\nThink hard but never worry.\n\nCreate a "positive cycle" where everything you both do makes your relationship that little bit better...even if only a tiny little bit each time.\n\nRemember that a sense of humour is infinitely attractive and gets you wnat you want in the long run.\n\nDon't be afraid to be bold.\n\nDon't be afraid to be vulnerable.\n\nRemember that you have to love and like yourself FIRST before you can be the real you in your relationship.\n\nHave fun - you only live once!\n\nBe safe - you only *get* to live once!!
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Sat him down and tell him that you need to talk to him about something.Also tell him that what you  are looking for in a relationship.If he cares for you he will respect you for it,if he is offended by it than it was never meant to be .
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Teach this person how to treat you. If this person has had influence like this all his life, he tends to do it because he can.\n\nYOU must teach others how to treat you. You are teaching him you are so desperate for love that you want to be smothered in it and you are too scared to want to be treated better. \n\nThere are ways to get out...have you seen the movie "ENOUGH"?  You can get out of it. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. YOU MUST KNOW that you ARE valuable and deserve to be treated as such.\nSomewhere he is missing that trust or something...but I learned the hard way...you cannot be responsible for his past, present or future. GOD gives you wisdom, 5 senses and a beautiful spirit that is telling you "GIRL GET OUT!!"   So listen and don't lower your self esteem with this man\nwho will control you as long as you ALLOW him to.\n\nI hope this helps and I will say a prayer for you.
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DONT DO IT, YOUR BOYFRIEND DONT REALLY LOVE YOU IS HE A PERVERT YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU FOR REAL AND RESPECT YOU; TELL YOUR BOYFREIND I SAID TO F**K HIM SELF AND TO RESPECT YOU YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN A STUPID RISE AT WORK... THAT IS WHAT I THINK
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if it aint broke, dont fix it... why play games w/ your husband? only causes probs\n\nthe way to get him to appreciate you more is not via witholding sex.  he might end up having less appreciation for you.... and even if he does have more, it's false appreciation bc you are just manipulating things.
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You really want to know?\n\nTreat him like you did when you were trying to get him to ask you to marry him.\nOnly compliment.\nOnly praise.\nOnly .... laugh at the bad jokes. When he does anything right praise him. Compliment how he looks, acts, touches, kisses. \nMake sure you do everything you did to get his attention. Did you wear things when you where with him that would draw his attention?\nDid you do stupid things to make him laugh? Did you act childish? \n\nHave you told him lately to grow up. Have you told him that he did something wrong, why did he not do something else. Oh wait those are things that he never heard from you before you were married.\n\nI have a lot of other stuff that I've seen happen after the ring went on if you need more examples.\nI also have a TON of stuff that happy couples do.
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Be gracious, and of course, it is always respectful to respond with "Yes/No Ma'am/Sir." Above all, be sure not to forget or ignore your husband in trying to tend to them, that wouldn't be very good. Be yourself, even if you are nervous, maintain eye contact when you are talking with them. Smile often, and be sure to thank them for bringing such a wonderful person into the world and rearing him as well as they did. If you think it is appropriate, you could say something like, "I have been so excited yet sort of nervous about meeting you both, even though (husband's name) told me there was no need to be nervous." I think you'll have to make that call on what the atmosphere is like. They already know at this point in life that you will be feeling somewhat nervous, at least it shows you are up-front and honest. You all already have something in common, you all love your husband...But anyway, be yourself, treat them as you would anyone else you appreciate and respect, they did raise your husband, after all:)\n\nI'm sorry--I missed the extra details that you added at the bottom. Well, the above all still applies; the fact that so much time has passed will naturally feel a little weird for everyone involved at first anyway, but "better late than never." I believe that it is a person's heart and character that matter, not race. Hold your head up high and maintain grace of character, regardless of if they have issues or whatever:)
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I am going to empower you, girl, for this Life is far too short to attempt to spend it...as you appear to be trying to. Lesson One: STOP believing that YOU can read anyone else's mind, let alone a man's! STOP injecting YOUR feelings/voice into the space where someone else's feelings/voice should resound. And for the love of God, please STOP yourself whenever you find yourself even THINKING: "Yeah...I KNOW ______ (fill in space with a name) is behaving in this fashion BUT..." The reason why is this: Unless your last name is "Christ" you are most likely under-qualified to accurately 'read' other people's (true) feelings/emotions/thoughts, etc, etc. You can GUESS, but you will NOT always be correct. OK, if someone's real-world/real-time actions DO support a particular notion of yours, you CAN make an educated guess. But, for the sake of your not spending your life spinning your wheels and waiting for guys to act the way YOU 'know' they REALLY feel...please DO consider discerning/judging people (ESPECIALLY MEN!!!) by what they actually DO and NOT by what they say. Try to respect people enough to believe that they actually KNOW what they are saying/doing, even if it is not what YOU prefer them to say/do. Anything less makes YOU the 'bad guy', as in: controlling, manipulative...Bottom Line? If your man really loves you, he will find his own way back to you. And YOU should require nothin' less, because if HE left, he should EARN   you all over again. He will not respect you, otherwise, and you may have a lifetime filled with him goingcominggoingcoming...! A good woman IS worth her weight in diamonds. Has he presented you with something, somethought, someindication, which demonstrates to you HIS understanding of YOUR (positive) worth, yet? If not, why are you even wasting time TRYING to understand HIM?!? My dear, YOU are worth more than YOU (appear to) know. So...here's MY parting 'gift': If he IS an immature jerk, let 'im go. Alternately, (I promise) the minute you STOP! worrying about him and move on with your own life- and No, this doesn't necessarily mean YOU should go out and make an ass of yourself with other guys/men/boys, either- he WILL take notice (meaning: miss the dedicated attention his fabulosity assured him of receiving from you) and come running with his 'feelings' in full display for you to (mis)interpret...again. Oh! And if you are an attractive/sexy/cute/desirable/viable female...the latter will happen sooner than you can blink. Have faith. In you.
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You can start by showing appreciation from all the things he/her does for you.Give your support & unconditional love in return...and tell that person how you feel-especially during intimate moments.
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First of all you have to love each other...Honesty should be there..  VEry important is open communication, . Trust and respect one another.Accept him as what he is and vice versa, yet if there is something to be changed for the good of relationship is very willing to do it. Put God between you or making the Creator the center of relationship. There are lot os important things to do but so far thats the most.
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Some people like having ultimate control over another and you can change everything about that by simply not being vulnerable to it. Tell him you are human and you don't want a romance between you two to become a burden. Let him know you will have your friends and if he dislikes one or all of them, he doesn't have to deal with them...but that you are to also be trusted. \n\nSounds like a lot of tension on his part too, sometimes being the best thing that ever happened to someone is scary.. but you have to learn to stand up and fight back against things that bother you. If he truly loves you, you can never really mess it up unless you're being unfaithful or cruel to him in some way. If you are innocent, I say you do what you want and help him get over it as well.
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The key is to keep him panting. Hold off on everything, especially sex. He will respect you more
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be sweet, romantic, but not too mushy, be nice and caring and LISTEN dont be all "lets make out" or "lets have sex"\n\nthan, she will give you respect as well