My Ex told his family to not speak to me?
486384
It's not your fault your ex has control over his family and tells them who they can and cannot speak to. Don't let it get to you. All that matters is that he has no control over you.
613172
First of all I cant stand my husbands ex either and 2nd of all if she talked to my kids like that i would have to whip her ass for sure! Just think of this he doesnt want her anymore you got him and she cant bear the fact he needs to say something to her and tell her to stay out of his life that he is happy now and that the only thing in thier lives is the kids! He should be the one telling her to butt out of your lives! He can talk to his lawyer and explain to him that she and her whole family are harrassing him and his new family and kids and it might help I feel for you girl cause I have been through hell with my husbands ex also! Do not let her and her family talk to your kids anyway at all DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS!!!!!!!! You could tell the cops that they are harrassing your kids and hav ethem scare them some or put a restraining order against them! They are adults and they in noway should be saying anything to your kids!!!!!! and tell your BF if he cant take care of this problem with you then you have to move on with your life! I know how hard this is and Good Luck WHIP HER ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
551568
Excuse me... did you say bf or ex-bf? Believe me, he is a fugitive and you allowing him to be with you is illegal, in any state. The best thing for you to do is sever your contact and pray that they don't charge you.
271435
get a new number and only give it to people who ABSOLUTELY need it.  or screen your calls.  also, i'd consider get a restraining order, seriously.  i had a bf once who's ex called CONSTANTLY, it was bad, we contacted a lawyer and managed to get an order stating she had to leave us alone, because she was stalking us.
460029
Well, start by not stereotyping all guys because your ex does something. He's probably still just upset about the breakup, and is taking it out by saying bad things about you.
1076896
Give him some space,  if there is some family problems going on, maybe he is just stressed out, and he lashed out at you.  Dont take it to heart, but give him the space that he needs, but dont wait for him either.  Go on with your life, and when he realizes what a jerk he was to you, he will call you.
567899
If you know you can take him...make him hit you or push you first and then kick his ass. I would! Nobody should talk about your family. I know its wrong to fight, but you have to get your respect. Good luck!
922851
Maybe his family likes you and he doesnt want them to know what he's been doing to you. thinking that if he acts the part then the negative attention from you will die down and he can get on with business as usual. What you need is to prove to yourself that he has cheated on you. then you have a choice breaking up before or after each has it's own merrits. do it before and I think it might make you look heartless unless you can show good evidence. wait and do it after to look like you are kind and caring but as long before christmas as possible so that you give yourself some time to get back on your feet so to speak before the next holiday. good luck
205823
Well, the best advice i can give you is to talk to him about it.  You need to explain to him that that's not the way to talk to your family and he needs to explain his differences with your family differently and more respectfully.  Include that you will not put up with his crap and that he needs to get his act together or you don't need to associate with him any more.
973811
You said it yourself, he is your EX.  Get over it and get on with your life.  And I'll bet he really doesn't want to hear that.
186709
WHOA! You should defintaly try to explain yourself again and make her understand. I would be furiuos if my girlfriend stayed at her Exs for a week. Thats totally uncalled for and you have every right to be pissed. I mean theyre Exs for a reason right? Yea man thats definatly not cool, and if she insists on keeping contact with the Ex then maybe theres still some latent feelings towards him. If she doesnt get it, then tell her that her still talking with him is directly effecting your relationship and could possibly be the downfall of it as well. Godd luck with that man.
995789
i would try to reconcile but under your conditions. if you dont want to go to family get togethers and such then dont. explain that too them, if they cant accept it then at least you tried.
986542
either he has no feelings for you and is going to do what he wants, when he wants, and with whom he wants or you might be jumping the gun and trying to see something that isn't there. some ex's are friends and my GF has one that she talks to once or more times a week and its just because we have kids doing the same stuff at the same times. my trust is with her, she will always have friends that aren't mine and I the same. i will never tell her not to talk to him, she isn't with him anymore. this is a trust thing and if you can't trust him the best thing to do is get out while you can still see daylight. waiting will only cloud you sight and you'll never have the power of surprise. this power will get most to change anything. try it and if it doesn't work out for you, well your already moved out and all you need to do is get on with your new life.
1145130
Wow, this sounds really convoluted.  I must leap to the conclusion that this cab driver knows you and your family, which is quite bizarre.  I think it's bizarre that he would call your family or anyone else for that matter to talk about you, his fare.\n\nHe sound like he was trying to help, but in the process, got his head snapped off both by you and your sister-in-law.\n\nI think you may have been rude to him - but so was your sister-in-law and he's stuck in the middle.  If you see him again, tell him you're sorry for snapping at him but he caught you at a bad time.  Do not explain the history of your family dispute.
974022
He probably didn't want the akwardness of the situation....plus if he is your EX why would you stop to talk to him while you have your boyfriend with you, and he has his FIANCEE with him?  Its understandable if you guys still keep in touch but there is no need to cause drama with someone he is willing to Marry and possibly start a family with.  My advice would be to forget about him and move on, Im sure thats what your boyfriend and your Ex's Fiancee would like as well!  And if you see him again just smile and keep walking!
935608
You didn't interfere, but I think that you should have waited for other relatives to make the first move, I can see why you did it because you were excited, but at the same time I don't understand why the other relatives have stopped speaking to you.  Okay they were upset but that is no reason to cut of all communication.  What you could do is try sending them another email just stating that you are sorry for emailing the guy directly, but you didn't think that it was going to cause a problem, but that you still want to remain in contact with them.\n\nIf however you don't hear from them you could try contacting the guy again to see what happens, if nothing does then cut you will just have to cut your loses. However you could send them all an email Christmas card, but if they don't want to see or contact you then don't beat yourself up about it
750401
You need to have enough self-respect that you realize that you deserve better than a man who wants to keep you hanging.  He's not being fair to you at all,and if he truly loved you he would want you to be happy.  My advice to you is to move on and ask him to stop contacting you.  He has a life with his family regardless of what he tells you.  You're wasting prescious time waiting for this man when you could be meeting new people and living a happy life.  Life is short, and everyone deserves to be happy.  I say move on.