how do you get a guy to open up to you?
478654
Make him feel comfortable, because if he isn't, he won't admit anything.  Tell him it's okay to share his feelings, and that you're there for him.  Be sure to tell him that you just want to help, and you're not asking to poke fun at him.
304754
walk up and say this "hello, my name is ____. What is your name. I find you interesting." \n\nThat ought to be a good start. guys are sometimes too shy to make the first move too...
467186
at this point, you have got to be strong gurl! its kinda hard getting a guy thats shy too, just like you... so, do anything that you think will get his attention... by just approaching him, you will get his attention.. tell him you want to be friends with him.. and when you guys do become friends, tell him you wanna get to know him more.. and you wanna hang out... if he does agree... go somewhere quiet... tell him that its hard for you to say this at this point, but tell him that you really like him a lot.. and then ask him what are his feelings and tell him to be honest... and if he tells you his true feelings, and tells you that he does also likes you, then you've done it gurl!! good for you! but if he doesnt like you, dont worry! you have so much more years ahead of you.. im sure you'll find a guy thats so much hotter and cuter than that guy... and he might even like you back too :)
497611
Well just keep talking to him and when he brings up the topic of relationships ask him if he is in one.  That way you don't have to bring it up out of the blue.  Sounds like you are a little on the shy side so that is what I would do anyways.
565017
idk how do you get a guy to like you?
561892
You know I see so many of these types of questions on here. Many people are saying, "Just tell him" or something to that fact. Well, I am sure you already thought about that. But nerves or other things are stopping that from happening. Let me offer another approach. I'm not saying its better or anything. Its just another way of telling someone, "Hey look at me" or as they say in Great Britain, "I fancy you."\n\nBasically, try to spend sometime with him doing anything. In fact, just spending time with him will either tell YOU its more then just a crush or he's not right for you in other ways.\n\nSo how do you go about doing this? Well, lucky for you, men like to do things. Find out what they are, tell him your interested in learning that certain activity and get him to teach you. Men love teaching women how to do stuff especially stuff we like to do. Even offer to pay him for his time. He will more then likely reject your offer for payment. First sign of a good guy. Another idea is find out his schedule and "run" into him a few times. Then one day carry a bunch of stuff and run into him again. He will ask to help you carry them and you can start from there. Again, another sign of a good guy.\n\nSeems elaborate isn't it. Well, you can always just go and tell him.\n\nBest answer, here I come!   :-)\n\nGood luck.
193474
You don't sugar. You ask him. For the same reason that truly shy people will never get up in front of a crowd and give a spontaneous speach. Some times all it takes is for you to start the ball rolling. Say maybe you go up to him and say "Hey, I thought about going to see a movie tonight, would you like to go?" anything that will get him to respond to a YES or NO question. Don't give him too many options for answers, this will only cause him more stress and he may just clam up and not be able to exspress what he truly would like to say to you. If yo don't succeed at first, try again later, it may take him a while to warm up to you and accept the fact that you find him appealing. Good luck, and keep trying.
221198
It is quite simple really. Just look into his eyes and it should give it away. It depends on how this guy masks his feelings. If hes not masking them he'll come out and tell you. If he is your going to have a problem.
858758
Talk to him, smile a lot , be friendly to him. Once he feels comfortable around you he'll open up
226417
Because he does not know how to do it...do things in common like a sport or a hobby for example, and he will always have a topic to chat with you about...or maybe he´s shy and feels inadequate to start up a conversation with you..In any case, make him feel comfortable about you being with him...that will boost his confidence.
225514
You have to be open and expressive to attract but to snare you have to wait and catch.  Patience, it is hard.  When a man puts out a little , give  a little.  Some men are shy but I am not sure shy men aren't so selfish with their energy that they will be able to satisfy you.  Puzzle for sure.  Men are visual, look attractive if you want to attract, keep in shape, eat healthy so you have nice skin your whole life, live and eat like an actress, You want a man who can initiate and take control, otherwise you will have to be the bitch and take control if you do not trust his decision making.  Find an equal.  Ask him to call you when he says call him, don't let him relinquish, unfortuntely the rules are all screwed up.  Have your own money, offer to pay, if he insists, offer to tip.  He is not buying sex, just your time to show you he cares.  Do things that don't cost money.
113905
tell him up front and honest about it
126122
It might be easier for you if you can find out a little about something he likes and start the conversation there. Or something that worked for me is ask about the you both have class. Example: What do you think of the class? or Did you understand that example, blah, blah. Good luck!!
577636
Geez...look, we like girls to be upfront.  Don't act shy...please...cuz for me, it's a turn-off...just tell him.  Hell, whats the worse that could happen?  \n\nYOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY!
322462
Always try to greet him with an open warm and smile face and even raising hand. \n   Looking straight to his eye ball each time you meet him would also do some expressions.\n   If you are in opportunity to, intrude your self in his discussions. \n   If you meet him outside the domain, try and call his attention and and greet him amicably
199961
Start off with, "hi" and let it go from there.  You can't force chemistry, you either got it or don't got it. If you don't have it, then you have to think to yourself, "he's not good enough for me cause he can't even talk to me." If he can't talk to you and he doesn't have anything in common with you, then he must be boring.
1167665
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \n\nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys \noften don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him. \n\nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \n\nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - \nsomething about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \n\nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nAsk him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out. \n\nConsider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \n\nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \n\nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious. \n\nYou can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!