I think i am breaking up with my boyfriend in an e-mail conversation right now. it hurts. what do i do ?
491170
Honey don't be sad plz this is not series breaking up by mail its should be face to face so he will needs to meet you I'm sure then you can let him back to you and this is just fight and might be big fight,he will gets back to you and this is happen to all people just be patient.
721223
Just let him go and dont think about him. Let it happen and make sure that he tells you a great reason why he is breaking up with you and see if you two can be friends and talk to you.
427535
I am so sorry.  This man has made his choice and you cannot do anything about it, unfortunately.\nBe with friends, keep yourself busy, and do not feed into his ego by contacting him.\nIt will only hurt you more.\nAvoid him at all costs...because to contact him will cost you your sanity!!\nGood luck and better wishes for a great future relationship.
148042
There is no good way to break up with a person. No matter what,  if the person still cares for you, they will be hurt. My advice would be to either call him, write to him or go and see him and be as honest with him as possible. Give him the reason why you wish to break up, tell him you are sorry and then end either the call, letter or visit. If you can remain friends that is always the best.
1092659
Are you trying to talk and he is not interested?  Is it a comfortable silence where you are just content to be together and possibly know each others thoughts?  Do you want to break up, but are waiting for him to make the move or do you want to stay together and are worried he already left so you are afraid to put yourself out on a limb and reach out to him - maybe this is what he is waiting for?  Is there other demands on his or your time that limit the time to talk?\nIt may be a sign of breaking up, a sign that more effort is required, or that you are comfortable enough not to have to talk all the time.  I am sure these are the things you are already thinking, but only you and he can decide if it is over or if you want it to be over as we don't know the personality quirks of either of you.  If the communication is so bad that you cannot ask him then I guess it is over or never was.
335968
aww your sweet. and i just broke up with my boy friend. you wanted me to email you but idk ur email
725860
Either call him directly or snailmail him a letter of detail expressing your concern for the direction your relationship seemed to be taking.\n\nHe may have had other issues to deal with and could not open up about them at that time - therefore presenting distance that you may have misinterpeted towards you.....\ndo not push, if he can share his feelings he will.\n\nExpress to him how much you have missed him and that you are sorry for hurting him also.\n\nIf he does not wish to continue dating at least try and establish some form of friendship - mutually.\n\nBest wishes!
902809
The relationship just aint working sounds like. Give him an ultimatum either you make some moves on me and call me and take some initiative or it's over and I'm moving on. Yes you'll get the hurt of a breakup but you'll some day find a better guy who will actually "communicate" with you. Good luck with all that.
616620
Just write him and explain that while you think he is a very nice person and that you've enjoyed your interactions; you've realized that a relationship isn't going to work out because of the distance factor (which is totally valid by the way) and that you've decided you need to end the communication.  His reaction is NOT your issue to deal with.  If you are polite and honest you've behaved honorably.
941371
It's too late to second guess, you already mailed the letter. I wouldn't have done that, personally. I really think that if he wanted it to go past friendship, he would've let you know before; I'm sorry sweetie, but I'm afraid you're gonna end up feeling hurt and embarrassed that you did this. I would forget about having a relationship with this guy.....
903443
I think it is too soon for you both to be in contact with eachother as you say it's too painful right now.  The best thing to do for the moment, until you get your own head sorted is cut all ties.  I know it might be hard but you need to straighten your own head and heart out first and be strong enough before you can be friends with him.  You are not in the right frame of mind now, it is too soon since you broke up, and staying in contact might only cause more pain.  I broke up with my ex in June and we haven't been in touch since.  I know at the start it was very hard as I went from hearing from him everyday to nothing but, now I'm a lot stronger.  I'm happier now that it's over as we weren't right for eachother but if I stayed in contact with him I know I'd probably be still hurting and in the same situation right now.  Time is a great healer and WILL make you stronger.  Just give yourself some "you" time.  Hope it works out for you!
1112968
Awe, thats so sad. U love your friends and I know how it is to have to stop talking to someone u love but ur going to have to do it for yourself. U dont want to hurt anymore and if he doesnt want to straighten up then what can u do?
697694
Tell him that you need some time apart.  Tell him the reasons exactly like you did here.  You can tell him in person, but it might be better over the phone or email.  Dumping someone via email in general is NOT cool, but a) it's only been 5 weeks and b) you're concerned enough about his temper to be worried.\n\nBe kind but firm.  Start out the converstation by telling him you've been thinking about things and that the two of you need to talk.  Tell him you feel uncomfortable with the some ways things have been going.  Tell him you don't appreciate his dictating your time and criticising your apparence.  Inform him you know he's been rude to friends you've had for years, and that that's intolerable.  Finally, just tell him you don't really think the two of you are compatible and that it's probably best to tone it down for a while (that's break-up speak for have a nice life).  If you want, tell him that you're very busy with plans that were made several weeks ago, and that your time is limited.\n\nI know all about this because I've heard the talk - several times.  I've even given it a few.  It is hard, no way around it, especially if you've slept together.  Such is life.  Hopefully he'll learn from the experience, like I did; and eventually find someone fantastic who can teach him and grow with him - like I did.
819047
I am going through exactly what you are going through as well. My girlfriend just left me because she was not sure she loved me either. All I can tell you is that it is going to hurt really bad. There will be some days you cannot breathe because of the pain it causes. The only thing I can tell you is that you need to find two very important things: First, you have to find something creative to take out your frustrations upon. While focusing on your studies can help, it really does nothing. Write, draw, sing, dance, do something to get it out of you. Second, this is going to sound very out there, but you need to find a place where you are happy. For me, it is in the rain. I love being in the rain. There I have no problems and I just smile. It can be physical or in your mind, but you have to find that place. Go there every so often and just enjoy yourself. It will make you feel better. Meditation can help too.\n\nAs for your boyfriend: I think that if he is going to get pissed about something as dumb as myspace, you may need to really take a look at him and ask "What the fuck?"\nAlso, if he loves you, which I think he does or he would not bring this drama into it, he might comeback. I am not going to tell you to move on. It is not that easy. What I am going to tell you is to stay strong, and have faith that you are not only a good person, but good things will come to you in this life. You just gotta have faith.
761299
if you have already talked to him about the problems you are having (you should have already if you havent) then tell him that, the reason you are breaking up with him is because of those problems, and nothing has changes. be honest with him dont be too hard but dont be too easy. if your with someone you dont want to be with then end it the longer your together the harder it will hurt.
1088514
If thats your boyfriend, then you should be discussing problems with him, not telling your friend to send messages to him. If you arent comfortable enough to communicate with him then why are you together?? It sounds like you need to take a step back and get to know each other first or this relationship will be a waste of time.
932667
i think you seriously need to tell your boyfriend how unhappy this is making you, and if he cares about you, he will listen and tell her to f**k right off