I went out witha black guy and im white evryone seemed to think it was wierd why?
484728
Allot of people still think it is odd to date another race.\nHow ever who cares what they think as long as your happy.
979690
That's half of the men i've been with and I was just very up front that I was going to love all people and they could be how they wanted to be but it wasn't gonna change the way I am.. He obviously can't be that racist if he's dating you and I wouldn't worry about that. People who are racist are scared of the unknown and brain washed... go for it and maybe you'll rub off on him alittle bit that the color of a persons skin doesn't mean that the person is any less of a person and that were all human beings that deserve to be loved..
187130
I am in a similar place as you, except I'm a white female attracted to black males (also white males).  In most cases, when I come across a black male ( far and few between, here in Aledo, TX) they're usually wearing a wedding ring.  There are a number of interracial couples out there, so we know there's hope!  Whoever our mate turns out to be, regardless of race, finding "that one" with a same like mind as yours WILL BE yours one day.  Try to be patient.  Take care.
767069
interesting how many of the answerers in here assume they know what race you are.\n\nIf what he says bothers you its going to grate on you more and more. Best to get it out in the open now and talk to him about it. It's way past time.
943407
this is like my 5th time answering this question on here lol but my opinion is that its ok and the fact that someone would go out with someone of a different race, when it isnt so common, says something about their personality....that theyre open minded and can look beyond ''barriers'' to see love for what it really is. Same goes for, people dating outside their religions, and gay people...etc the list goes on :)\n\np.s. Thats why people with a whole lot of races mixed in them are so beautiful lol ... People are rewarded when they can look beyond physical things :)
91271
As a black woman myself, I have to ask why in the world are you dating a man who only works part time???  It will be hard enough with society with him being white...but a broke one at that???  Sheesh!  Now, to answer your question...possibly.  I have learned from experience to trust your instincts.  If you feel he is or might be cheating then you are probably right.  If you are really concerned, just ask him.
940799
Though I have to admit Blacks look better in clothes usually than Whites do, I really don't hate being White. And I think we've all gotten to the stage where it doesn't matter to Blacks what Whites think of them - only a small percentage of Blacks measure themselves against whites. What's the point? There are too many differences. I'm of English background, so my skin doesn't tan much. That's restricting, because too much sun these days can lead to skin cancer, so I avoid the sun. Black skin has more oil so Blacks age better. Lucky you guys! Then again, I'm not too concerned about aging. I have never been particularly attracted to Black men - I go for personality more than looks. I've dated guys of many different races. People are people. Anyway, don't evaluate yourself in relation to Whites - it doesn't make sense.
683756
Ive had sex with a person of a different race, a couple of times. I went with a black girl in college for a bit, had a thing with a Brazilian girl for a while.  Both were alot of fun, after gettin to know one another(in bed) things start to get better and better. I had a lot of fun. To me, being a white male, i dont care if your blue, brown, black, yellow, white, or pink, color doesnt bother me. If you have a great smile, im all yours!!!
490130
The probability is low...I know from experience because i'm a black woman that likes white men but it's so uncommon...Just gotta ask and find out.
441654
When you discover the answer to this question, let me know..lol I don't know what the attraction is, but you're right, you do see more black and __________ (fill in the blank with any nationality) than you ever have. Maybe because racial boundaries are becoming a little less stringent and people are acutally becoming more socially tolerant to mixed relationships. I personally have never dated outside of my own race, but feel that if you want that option you should not be judged for it. I mean. you can't really help WHO you fall in love with. Peace.
923489
My parents were the same way when I dated outside my race and I didn't understand it, I was happy and they were ruining everything.  I think if you are happy with him then be with him regardless of what your parents say (I did).  They will try everything to prevent you from seeing him but in this situation they are kinda being selfish and racist at the same time.  There's nothing wrong with interracial dating (now-a-days).  Good luck with your parents accepting your happiness.
872380
I don't think it's necessarily "white" guys ,but the Type's of guys that you date. Your pickin em! lol. good luck.
468033
beauty is in the eye of the beholder!\n\nThere are lots of reasons why we get attracted to other people, and intercultural attraction has special considerations...\nmaybe he thinks his parents are racist, and doing it to piss them off\nmaybe he feels shame for being racist and thinking dating a hot chick will get him off the hook for saying/ thinking dumb racist crap!\nMaybe he thinks that different is sexy, and black women in his area are as different as he can find\nmaybe he just likes all women, and has met black women recenty that satisfy his needs \n\nBUT... I doubt there is any guy that likes JUST black chicks or ALL black chicks (no matter his own background)
764997
YEAH WHY NOT? ITS REALLY NOT A DIFFERENCE. THE ONLY DIFFERENCE TO ME WHEN I DATED A WHITE GUY WAS THE UP BRINGING. BUT EVERYTHING ELSE WAS GREAT. ESPECIALLY..... WELL YOU KNOW WHAT:)
1109141
That is a real good point and makes alot of sence..since dating in your race is inter-racial lol
854952
i think it really depends. I was the first white girl my ex ever dated, but his whole family knew about me. He had alot of issues with it at first, but he got over it after a few months cause i do not play, and get annoyed with stupid crap like that real fast. He is also from new york and thats where most of his family is but as soon as he got comfortable with me, they all knew. It may just take time for him to really be comfortable with it, i think its different when introducing you to his mother as opposed to his father. Mother's are way more judgemental when it comes to their sons. Ask him about why it hasn't happened yet, and see what he says\ngood luck
441817
I am white, why??  Why would you put this?\nI tend to agree with the other question in your profile.  Yes you seem mentally challenged.