What is better the wife or the work?
492564
oh find the right woman and  it will all fall into place
71725
With sounds like the better choice.  I'll ask my sister-in-law, the editor.
186552
BOTH!  Id like to say women but men r equal when it comes to this.  Men r just as hurt when they find out their spouse is cheating soooo its equal!
415713
What are ypu looking for? A sex slave/cleaner?\nThe best wife is a woman you meet & grow to love more than life itself. You can't buy that. I don't care how much money you have.
126737
Been there twice and the best thing is to be the BETTER WOMAN, if it gets to you just go with the flow,when i did this with my husband's ex it got to her and she made a fool of her self and the best thing for me since I am the BETTER WOMAN both my husband and my mother in law were very proud of me.. And she did this twice once on the street and then at my husband's funeral. Talk about no class... Show her your the BEST.....
30932
Well, when it comes to my choice of gender for a wife and sex partner, I'd say women are definitely better than men!
1132517
How many men present this morning have a neighbour or a friend with a wife who is more intelligent than your wife? She's a woman who has common interests with you, interests that your wife finds boring. She's talented, a classy dresser who cares for her body and carries herself in a noble fashion. You ask yourself, "Why doesn't my wife sparkle like that chick?"\n\nFriends, comparison is a deadly game. Don't do it! It leads to coveting, adultery and divorce. Coveting blinds you to your spouses positive character qualities. Coveting makes you despise your wife's humility, meekness and virtue. Coveting robs your spouse from the position of Top Dog in your life. She is no longer your most cherished possession, she is "The Wife." Coveting tears-up families like useless scrap paper. Don't do it!
906318
If working on your marriage is out of the question then set her free.  She made her choice.  I know u don't want her to get hurt by the other guy but it looks like she will just have to find out the hard way.  What more can u do?  Like I said, she made her choice.
687658
Happy wife=happy life.\nKeep her happy and you'll do just fine.
250205
Rework your resume.  Be honest about the time you cared for your wife.  You can alsways get a friend to give you a glowing work reference.
189138
my wife  in my opinion
851473
If you love your mother more than your wife, then you're not a very good husband.   End of discussion.
28986
If you enjoy the work, it is worth it!\n\nWhen you enjoy what you do, it is no longer work.
1004900
of course is better to stay at home, i ve worked all my life and was so tough, thanks God i married a good man and i dont have to work anymore, i stay in the peace of my home with my son and my husband that is a real blessing.
174740
I don't think that one is clearly better than the other. Women are seen as being more nuturing, but that's not always the case. My son is a stay at home dad. He home schools his two older girls, and he and his wife also have a little girl that will be 2 in about a week. My son also runs a business from home. His wife is a librarian. She is very career oriented and does not have any desire to stay at home with her kids. They are both very proactive in the growth and development of their daughters, both are loving parents, both feel that home schooling is more beneficial than public schools for the girls. \n\nOne of my daughter's has a little girl. She's engaged to a guy who is very involved with her child. He wants them to go to family counseling before they get married so that he can learn how to be a good father.\n\nMy other daughter's ex husband, on the other hand, breezes in once or twice a week and spends about 45 minutes with his son. He spends his time there complaining about his live in girlfriend, napping on my daughter's couch and watching her TV, only playing with his son a little. When he says he wants to take Isaiah for a few hours, he always brings him back after about an hour and a half. He has two little girls who are older, and when he was married to my daughter they would come over, but my daughter was the one that had to take care of them while he sat around watching football with his buddies.\n\nSo, I have to say, it depends on the man or woman. They will get out of parenting what they put into it.
1067784
There is  a difference between being paid well/benefitting from and job and being happy and fulfilled.  The question isn't what would I do, the question is whether or not you are willing to possibly sacrifice the good parts of the job you have for something that gives you the chance to do something you feel is more worthwhile.
590041
i think they both have worth to society. i have done both, and i will say from personal experience i felt more "accepted" from society when i was working. i liked being at home better though because i could spend all that time with my child. i think a lot of people think being a stay at home mom is like lounging on the couch all day...well those people obviously don't have kids!!! when you're at a job working you get to go home at the end of the day, and when you're at home you "work" literally 24/7 and don't even get paid(except in smiles and kisses:) \n\ni think people need to realize that being a mother is work. so why should it matter if you leave the house to do it!!! work is work!