boyfriend asked me to stick fingers in his rear to hit prostate, is he bisexual?
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A homosexual man is a man who finds other men sexually attractive, and wants to have intimate sexual relations with them. \n\nA bisexual man is a man who finds both men and women sexually attractive and wants to have intimate sexual relations with either sex. \n\nA homosexual female (lesbian) is a lady who finds other ladies sexually attractive and wants to have intimate sexual relations with them. \n\nWhat your boyfriend asked you to do, is to put your finger in his rear, you are a girl, so there was nothing remotely homosexual about this request. \n\nThe similar assumption to make would be that when (if) you ask him to perform cunnilingus (kissing and licking your vagina)  on you, because you find this sexually stimulation and pleasant, that you are a lesbian; as this is what a lesbian would do to you during love making.   Of course you are not a lesbian because of this, because you have asked your BF to do it because you find HIM sexually attractive. \n\nHe probably does not want to talk about it because he knows that you are thinking these things.  If you love him and care about him, you will reassure him that you have no questions about his sexuality because of this, and that you are willing to do it as you care about him and his needs.  Your relationship will become much closer as you are trusting each other and communicating your needs and wants which is always a good thing.
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OK, your boyfriend wants to have anal sex. Do you? If you are really wanting to try, good for you. Don't be self concious, no need for that. You should get over these feelings before you do it. Sure there's a chance of him sticking his co.ck into your a.ss and pulling it out with sh.it on it, but usually not. Hey, he's sticking it in your butt and this kind of stuff can happen. I have had anal sex with many women and I have only pulled my co.ck out once that it had a little sh.it on it. It's like no big thing. You just wash it off.\n\nBut one thing to remember, do NOT let him stick his coc.k into your vagina after he pulls it out of your butt. There is a lot of bacteria and you can get an infection from that in a place you don't want it.\n\nWhen you let him "do it", make sure that you have plenty of lubricant to make it hurt less. The first time will probably hurt, heck he's gonna stick his di.ck in your butt hole, but do it slowly. Hopefully, it won't hurt and you'll continue to enjoy anal sex with him or who ever. I enjoy anal sex whenever a girl wants it. And don't get embarrassed if he pulls out of your butt with a little poo on his member, it ain't no big deal. I'd think it would be more embarrassing for him to ask you to screw you in the butt.
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UMMM..........I WOULD WONDER IF HE LIKES ANAL SEX I DONT KNOW ANY STRAIGHT MEN THAT WANTS SOMETHING IN THEIR A*S
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Men who like a.n.a.l sex are no different from women who like it. It doesn't mean they are GAY! Some guys won't let you try it for fear of being called gay. (This is so stupid) Actually, a.n.a.l penetration is the only way for a man's prostate to be stimulated during sex. This in turn will give him an orgasm that will blow his freakin' mind, even if he doesn't think so when you mention it to him. An open minded guy is SOOOOOO much fun in bed!! If you're going to stick a finger in, be sure to use LOTS OF LUBE, not spit cause it dries up too quickly. Don't be in a hurry, it takes a while for him to relax so that you don't hurt him and just the feel of your fingertip on his a.n.u.s will be exciting. When you get it in, just be very gentle and stroke real slow. After a while, he'll be begging for you to do it. Hahahaha.......
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You answered this question yourself lady....he really likes porn...in all hetrosexual porn the man is 'serviced' by the woman, who is the 'receptacle' for his sex. You have been servicing him, once you have done that he is done with you, in fact he makes you initiate the contact to emphasise the fact that you are servicing him. What you have is a USER, not a LOVER. \n\nSorry.....
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he sounds like he is either bi curious, or bi. i would be careful, if he is bi curious that could mean he just wants to try things out with a guy, but he still wants to stay with his girlfriend. make it clear that he has to chose u if he wants any of u, or u'll end up used and hurt, or someone who makes ur bf cheat on u
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Sweetie, do not let ANYBODY do anything to your body unless you are 100% sure that YOU want to do it too. A true friend would never push you into doing things that you don't want to do. You are the gatekeeper to your vagina. It seems that he only wants sex and doesn't care for you deeply. You may need to re-evaluate your friendship.
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What's the purpose of this question? Are you contemplation doing it the gay way? Just like everything... what might hurt you might give pleasure to someone else... So if the reason why you ask is because you plan on doing it or having it done... Suggestion: Take/insert it slow...
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well heres what i like that u can try,\n\nplay with his balls at the same time\n\nuse ur tongue and lick it a litttle bit from end to end\n\nlick and suck his head like its a lollipop\n\nlick or suck on his balls\n\nand my last one is something my girl and i are comfortable doing and you may not be interested in it and think its wierd and wrong or what have you but theres many that are into \n\nits a proven fact that if a guys prostate is massaged and hit enough or just right he will orgasm like never b4\n\nso consider putting a finger in his a$$ and playing with his prostate. he may not like it at first but if u can hit that prostate right and give him that ultimate orgasm he'll love it and u
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Sounds to me like Bruce said "Sure I love you, baby - now take off your panties", and "I want to be your boyfriend" means "I want to have sex with you again". If you are 19, you are certainly better for him than "Ms. Right" or "Ms. Left", but he is probably not taking YOUR best interests into consideration - only his own pleasure.
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I want to say this before I go any further with my comment:\n"If I offend anyone it's not done on purpose, so I apologize now"\nNow with that out of my system, I have to agree with your boyfriend in a way, not completely, What I mean is that there is no such thing as "Bi-sexual" It's either you are straight or gay, Now if you have any form of sexual contact with the same sex you are gay period...What you are doing is just having sex with everybody male & female, I personally do not approve of that type of life style but, I am not with out sin so I will not cast the first stone sort ta say, What I do think is that you need to quit leading your boyfriend on the way you are if you want to be with females do that, and if you want to be with males do that but, not both, it's like the young adults of today do not know how to restrain themselves, there is no self respect, it's free love, In the end it's free STD's Like I said I do not want to offend but, I think it's time that the young should hear the truth, and they also need to be told NO!!!! sometimes.
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Although I kind of agree with Tom up there, I have to say that the last statement was a bit harsh. Anyway, I'll say that "No!” you didn’t cheat but you’re skating mighty close. The fact that you didn't go into it with the exact intentions of doing anything wrong, you did stay into it after it became rather steamy. You should ask yourself that if your "live-in boyfriend" were to be in a similar incident what would you say and if you do something that you feel that you can't share with him ask yourself why. I'm sure you'll get the answer you’re looking for. So from now on leave the massages to little Korean women in small boutiques.
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not neccesarily "gay" but maybe a little freaky...If you let a guy do it...then your gay...I let my girl finger my ass just before I cum and I usually cum so hard I nearly pass out! And I am not gay!
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Your bf should ask then
1000969
sounds like he is in denial.  he is trying to make himself enjoy sex with a woman which incidentally doesn't reflect anything about you.  you need to quit having sex with him because you are just setting yourself up for a fall.  he is at the very least bisexual.  trust me most heterosexual men would cringe at the thought of a woman doing what he asked you to do.  tell him you love him (as a friend) will support him 100% if he wants to try to come to grips with the reality that he is at the very least bisexual.  You can't make that decision for him he has to do it on his own however you can protect your own feelings and the best way to do that is to end the sexual aspect of your relationship.
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Like me, he's a MAN.  We like to touch women, it's built in like breathing.  Tell him you like it and rub his back next time.  Sheesh!
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I think it's great that he wants you to do that and it's not "weird" at all.  To me it seems that he is still really attracted to ya!  I mean, it's not like he asked to start borrowing your underwear!!  I mean, just say what comes naturally.  Be sexy!  I am sure you know what to say deep down...practice saying it alone before you leave it on his phone.  And the one answer was cool...start with text messages :)   Good luck, and don't feel silly...he wants ya, girl!