Why did I have to be so good looking?  It's such a hassle to have to beat the women off me.?
477136
Yeah I have the same problem. I finally just gave in. Figured I was doing a public service....:D
707254
Maybe because youre simply irresistible. Get used to it...\nAnyway,I dont think theyre that decent after all. True decency cant be compromised that easily in such a short time ;)
416890
I blame testosterone, personally.\n\nMight have something to do with mate selection and competing to look better in front of others, too.
24662
1st if you don't like that woman why you made Relation with her ! \nanyhow If you are handsome Realy girls will come to you by them selfs , you have to be Nice charactor fistly and doing well with girls then girls will come to you , and you have to choose , \ngood luck ;)
398094
HAHAHAHAHAH....that was funny,,,its because ur getting older and u know sooner or later these chiks will be out of ur legue.u always get attractive towards what u cant have that easily.its human nature.
473036
Your right in a way...lol  But, just like women have certain ingrained traits, you just learn to compensate for these "flaws" and get on with your life. Peace.
511240
Confidence in yourself and how you look is sexy, but arrogance is a turn off\n\nIf you think you are too pretty its a turn off - if you think you are pretty you are hot!
228136
Nope, just desparate.\n\nYou sound like my evil twin dude. Exact same situation except you seem to be stepping up your effort while I really couldn't give a lesser f***. Maybe I'm the evil side.\n\nTo me, the whole thing with women is they expect us to go to all this effort, driven on by our hormones, and all they do is stare at us and make eyes like we're supposed to use that as an excuse to approach them.\n\nRecently, I said *#&$ it. If all women can muster is to stare at me and flip their hair then they can all go to he**. I'll leave it up to circumstance whether I find a wife or not, otherwise I've got better things to do and I don't need to waste time satisfying hormones.\n\nYou don't gotta feel bad about doin' s#*% like this because that's what it comes down to if you want to get anywhere with females. You gotta put it all on the line while they sit there and decide if your doing enough for them, and if you're not; they throw you out like last year's shoes.\n\nI'm certain there's better things to life than females at this age like playing sports, developing skills, getting a solid education and finding a worthwhile career that can be totally satisfying. All I ever hear women talking about is their boyfriends and relationship crap like that. I have no interest in anyone that dependent or shallow. If I happen to come across an independent, self-motivated and self-confident female who has definite goals other than making suckers out of guys like me, then maybe I'll consider changing my tone.\n\nI wish you the best of luck dude.
270885
same reason most of the woman want a handsom man. but for example, if a handsom man beats me up and treats me like dirt, but the average looking guy treats me like a princess then im going to be with the average guy - because looks arent everything. i just think looks are what come first. then personality. and we all want someone who's good looks match a good personality.
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Its easy to feel that way ..when in fact, sometimes people are staring at you because they think you are attractive, or even look like someone they know..and they start staring at you and don't even realize they're doing it...If you were sure they were singling you out..if it is at all possible, without prejudging them...you could ask them point blank, if there is something you can do for them..now if they are just some stooge looking for a fight..then just walk the other way and dont oblidge them..unless you have good reason to think that someone is out to get you...you should try not to let your imagination run away with you...Maybe you are very nice looking and just dont know it
308932
Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
726376
A long time ago, when dinosaurs ruled the earth, I was a beautiful young woman.  I NEVER dressed to be sexy; I wore simple, ordinary clothing, high-necked tops and non-sexy shoes.  I never even wore make up.  \n\nBut, I was shaped very well, and often drew rude catcalls and unwelcome stares.  It drove me absolutely batshit with rage.\n\nBecause I never invited such obnoxious attention, I was furious at it.  If I had dressed to encourage it, I would have expected to be the object of interest...but, I didn't.\n\nThis kind of ugly attention has not happened to me for many years (proof that I am old and unattractive), but I'm glad to, at last, be left alone while I go about my routine.
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Mmmm.... I guess you bruised his ego just a little bit.\n\nMaybe he wanted to show off and, as a male, show you his abilities to win the female over, and you beat him just like that.\nHe might be kinda frustrated, don't you think?\n\nBesides, some guys can be really competitive and can't stand losing.
525886
Have faith in yourself - it all starts with your self esteem.  You either have it or you dont, & it sounds like you dont.  You have to work on you self image. Once you've done that & have a good view of yourself, your attractiveness will show through.  You have to care about yourself first, eat right, get enough sleep, exercise.  Put taking care of yourself a top priority.  Keep up with your personal hygiene, wear clean clothes.  Be considerate, kind, compassionate to others. Be honest - this is VERY important because no matter what you do to make yourself look good on the outside, if you are mean, dishonest, & cruel on the inside then you will be unattractive on the outside as well.  \n\nGood Luck!\n\n~from a lady
501138
I think you live in a society that gives too much on the appearance. In fact, I believe the attraction only comes the fist few seconds you notice a person, then once you are getting engage into a conversation, the looks don't really appear to be matter any longer. I've had many beautiful girlfriends before, and once you are getting into a fight with them, the looks don't count anymore. In fact, once you got to know a person or live with them, the looks hardly matter as you will not notice it as much as before you got to really know that person and talk to them.
520616
Arrogance knows no geographic boundaries, nor generational limits.\n\nYou just may have hit a patch of morally self-centered ladies.
950572
I totally agree with you babe. it took me forever to find a great man, and yes.. I generalized him at first and then I realize I was wrong. There aren't really any GOOD men  out here...Where the hell are they, thats my question gurl!!!! My gosh they expect us to be queens to them and then we get treated like crap, all I ever wanted was a mant hat can stand out from these sterotypical men, and it just seems as though you have to go to another world to get what you want. But yes i agree. hopefully society will help us change these men out here, because that is how they got the way they are...society.