My anniversary 2day and flat broke.  My girl is upset at me right now?  What do I do?
479344
Yes. You need to communicate better with the son, and your girlfriend. If you tell someone you are going to be somewhere, but something comes up, call and say so. Perhaps the 2 of you weren't on the same page. You thought she'd be ok, and she thought you'd be with her. Nobody's wrong, you just didn't see the situatuion the same way. That's called life. Right now, or as soon as possible, go over to their house. Sit the mom and son down. tell them that you know they are feeling slighted, but they need to know that wasn't at all your intention. You were overwhelmed with responsibility at the time, and you should ALL do a better job expressing expectations. A SIMPLE CALL FROM EITHER ONE OF YOU TO PUT YOURSELVES "ON THE SAME PAGE". Even if you disagree, at least the other person will know where you stand and know that there was no bad intention. the son actually sounds like a pretty good communicator for his age!!! Tell them that you love them and you feel terrible that they were upset.Often, when we take the responsibility, it opens up the other person's eyes to the fact that this was not something that you should turn into a bad situation, and we are all human.\nBy theway, the $ issue. tell her exactly what you told us. tell her you'd love to lavish her like the queen she is to you, and give her lots of attention.
282802
stay humble and think back those things you've done a while ago...apologize if there was a mistake you have done or find an exact time to reconcile each other. express yourself if you'll get hurt but don't just demand. stay calm and humble. GOOD LUCK!
50417
Straight out tell her, "look, you say I hurt your feelings yet I have no recolection of this. I apologize if I, without meaning to, offended you". Something like that, let it be known that you did not do it on purpose, that way she'll know you're not apologizing for something you did, but for something she thinks or feels you did.
1184536
Talk to her, apologize.\nHope she'll have you back.  You may have to work at it.\nWomen don't trust men like you, better be prepared to prove you'll behave this time.\n& don't ever make the same silly Mistake again.
529902
OUCH! Dude! WTF?  Just say you're sorry and explain to her how she makes you feel about yourself and that you were just venting.  She does not sound very reasonable anyway so all you can do is try.
461550
You need to talk to her about the problem and leave out the whole "time off" or "break" thing.  That's how misunderstandings happen.  Your whole situation reminds me of the episode of Friends where Ross and Rachel are on a break.  I know that's a sitcom but you wouldn't want to break up without really knowing for sure what's going on. You need to talk things through with her and you need to tell her everything that is on your mind.
108586
Please don't tell us you forgot!!!  Your mate is going to be upset!!\n\nSeeing as this is your first question....we will give you a break :)
848308
You have to give her time...Back off. Tell her you love her and that you are very sorry, Tell her you'll spend the rest of your life making it up to her. I am going to assume you cheated, we are all human. Don't make that mistake again. Time will tell you all you need to know. Tell her how you feel then give her space. Even if you don't talk for a couple weeks. Send her a text message or leave a voice mail every once in awhile telling her you love her. Best of luck
60702
Be honest and kind with her. Tell her it's just not working out and that you two should take a break for a while.
303041
That's not nice and you know it. I think your double screwed now. Maybe you should just be patient and see if she contacts you back and forget about the sneaky stuff.
1152170
Try to talk to her. See why she left you. Try to negotiate with her. See if you can fix the problem. There is also relationship councilors. Visit them. I know you guys can work it out. Good Luck!
371620
I stand with Lucid one on this one... \n\nKIDNAP HER FAVOURITE THING AND HOLD IT FOR RANSOM...\n\nAnd maybe after you get your repairs paid for she might remember not to get on the wrong side of you again!!!\n\n:-D
249852
thats a hard situation, I doubt anyhting you can ever think of saying in the nicest way will ever make her not get mad. I guess you just need to understand that you tried your best trying to tell her in the nicest way possible and if she gets offended thats a shame, but you need to move out and start your life. Id prolly be like i have a surprise tonight for you, Im going to make you dinner, then after shes all fattened up tell her how much you love her and is going to miss her, good luck
309839
well, first of all, ask yourself what you want... then confront the girl if you are ready to.. then tell her what u feel, express everything and if its not enough, take some time off alone and reflect with what happened. talk to other people, share what bothers you, in that way, your anger or maybe rage might somehow released.. keep yoursel busy as well, it might help..
715686
Start by apologizing . .get her a nice card and some flowers . . .
680573
Apologize and don't do something that would require an apology again.\n\nIf she's not mad at you - Take her out on a picnic with her favorite foods and some good music.
584379
it happend, what are you gonna do about it now? sounds like she has low self esteem and prolly thinks you did something so if you were going to see your x you should have gone ahead and done something cause your gonna get screamed at for it anyways.