what would u do if a bestfriend of urs got with ur boyfriend.?
488114
It depends on the situation. If you were still dating him when they got together, that's messed up and that's not a friend. But if it was an ex boyfriend, I think that's okay. As long as she comes and talks to you first about it. Not asking for permission, just letting you know what her feelings are. That's a true friend. I don't see anything wrong with friends dating other friends exs but they have to remember that friends come first
577114
How old are you? I get the feelin that you're not that mature. Your BEST FRIEND broke up with her boyfriend and youre already  in the line to get him? C'mon, you're kidding. Of course she's mad at you! Don't go out with him if you wanna keep this girl as your friend. Haven't you heard; guys come and go, friends are forever.
1035880
You don't mess with your bestfriends boyfriend unless you are sure it is going to lead to something longterm and you want something short term with your friend.
1066733
you shouldnt tell your friend about anything you and boyfriend do.\nthat way you can keep your boyfriend and your best friend.
802492
Your best friend has NO BUSINESS going out with your ex-boyfriend in the first place! If she really was your best friend, then she should step out of the picture, so that you would have a chance to maybe work things out with him. Once she goes out with him, it will never be the same.
430017
Go with the flow.  If you still like him, get back together.  If you don't, make sure he knows and move on.  But tell your best friend to be careful.  He might get upset and go out with her just to try to make you jealous.
829734
Oh, kind of an embarrasing situation. I would first talk to my best friend about it. Have her pave the way and tell u if he fancies u or not. If u get a positive feedback, start by taking him out to a movie or something along with your friend, once things are cool, u guys can start the real dating
206089
first be sure. if it's true find a new best friend and a girl friend. if she's cheated on you she'll cheat on him and he'll know how you felt. but don't give either one another chance.
219083
Well..We don't want your boyfriend to get jealous...Who ever you have feelings for the most, go for...But know that you will probably damage their friendship...And ask yourself is it worth it...
426449
By what your saying, it's obvious that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. If he is your boyfriend then why is he kissing your best friend and even better why is your so called best friend kissing him. I think you need to drop both of them.
782438
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
638632
try being friends with him/her for a while and if you guys still fight just break if off and dont start off trying to bestfriends right away
188738
I WOULD PICK MY BEST FRIEND. WHY WOULD SHE LIE TO YOU?, AND OF COURSE HE IS GOING TO "SWEAR" THAT HE DIDN'T BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT YOU FIND OUT. YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BEST FRIEND BY STAYING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND WHO SHE SAYS IS A "CHEATER", AND YOU MAY LOOSE YOUR BOYFRIEND BY CHOOSING YOUR BESTFRIEND WHO HE SAYS IS A "LIAR". DON'T BE BLINDED BY LOVE, AND REMEMBER TO LOOK AT THE FACTS, BECAUSE EVERYTHING WILL COME OUT EVENTUALLY. YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE ULTIMATE DECISION.GOOD LUCK!!
65049
i agree with mortgage. its hard if you continue the relationship with that guy. if you really care for your bestfriend, just set him free. but if you care more for the guy, then "YOU GO GIRL"...lol...just kidding...seriously, go find another man.
1116801
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
748171
move on...dont get mad at your best friend...but still be nice to the guy!
529659
you really have to ask her what's the deal with what happened.but since i assume that she's your bestfriend,then i say that don't let a guy come between friendship.no matter how much you love him.and IF she wants him for herself and she lets this guy come between the two of you, then later down the road you won't be the one feeling guilty about a guy possibly ruining a beautiful friendship.