how do you treat fear of eye contact?
484085
Smile when you make eye contact with someone! :)
315026
Eye contact is very important when you are listening to someone else talk especially if you are shy.  Nod your head and try to smile if the person says something funny.\nDon't forget to add in small little bits of conversation even if it is just one or two words.  You get better at adding in little bits as you go along.  Ask more questions as long as it totally fits the convo.  Sometimes small talk is better than nothing.\n\nGood luck\n:-)
981379
You need to go to an eye doctor.  Sleeping in your contact promotes infection.  Conjunctivitis or pink eye will cause photophobia.  You will need antibiotics.  Also sleeping in your contacts will promote calcium and other mineral build up.  This can also contribute to your photophobia.  I used to wear contacts.. I get conjunctivits several times and I get sick of it.  I went and had lasik laser surgery done and it was the best thing I have ever done.  It is somewhat pricey but, not as pricey as it used to be.  Plus, it pays for itself by me not having to buy contacts and cleaning supplies for the contacts and make appointments to see the eye doctor once or twice a year.  I definitely recommend doing it.  I hope this helps.  Good luck.
610780
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719597
How about just keeping it simple?  When she looks at you, give her a big smile and an obvious wink.  Then she can either smile back or avoid you without your getting your feelings hurt by being rejected.\n\nP.S.\nWe all get rejected many times throughout a lifetime so don't take it so personally that you're afraid to do anything.  You just have to keep going and keep trying if you want a life worth having.
1016222
Your smile - a lot of times when you first make eye contact she will scope out your face & if you've got a really great smile that will go a long way towards hooking your interest. Get your teeth whitened & keep them that way. Use chapstick so your lips will appear smooth & soft. Practice smiling in a mirror so you get it exactly right - you want it to go all the way to your eyes. Smile at her as if she's the only woman on the face of the planet . . . \nGood luck!
635005
1. applying warm, wet compresses\n\n2. not to squeeze or rub the stye\n\n3. wash hands frequently\n\n4.wash face daily, including the eye\n\n5.refraining from wearing make-up until the infection heals
946808
Yes. Eye contact can be very intense and speak for itself.
192064
Silence the language of eyes
533091
I know it might sound a little extreme, but talking to a therapist might help you to understand what causes phobias and why you feel this way, which would make it a lot easier to confront. Hypnotherapy is supposed to be very good, and a therapist would probably be able to refer you to a reputable one.\n\nThe important thing to remember not to feel stupid about your phobia, everyone feels differently about things for a reason, the best thing you can do would be to work out what that reason is, and to try and confront it.\n\nHowever, you will need to take this slowly, don't just jump in a pond full of fish as some people have suggested because this will probably just make your fear worse.Maybe start by watching some fish in a friends tank? then perhaps progress to visiting an aquariam? you wouldn't have to spend all day in there, half an hour would be enough to prove that you can face your fears. \nYou could also try looking at the fish counter at your local supermarket or grocery store, and eventually progress to buying some fish.You wouldn't have to eat the first time, just having the courage to buy the fish and take it home would be a good step.Have you considered trying to eat fish in an unrecognizable form? fishfingers neither look nor taste like fish.Tuna steaks are delicious grilled, and taste meaty, not like fish at all.I hope some of these suggestions help.\n\nSorry, have just read your update and i can see that you do like tuna.This is really good, it shows that you are already one step closer to overcoming your phobia.Just remember to believe in yourself!
325684
look up as you pull them to the bottom of your eye... pull your bottom eyelid down with one hand and the with the finger tips of the other hand pull the bottom of the contact to the bottom eyelid and then pinch them and theyll come right out\n\nand to put them in look up and pull your eyelid (the top eyelid) up and then put the ontact on your fingertop and just pop it in ... dont be scared\n\nyoull get used to it\n\n\nwhen i first got contacts it took me 20 minutes\n\nand id be like YES i did it in 20 minutes im awesome\n\nnow i can do it in like 5 seconds\n\nit just takes time and practice\n\nyoull get used to it dont worry
70764
Eye contact is important, Just ask! If they say no don't feel bad about it ask someone else.
215150
Face your fear. Ask someone to put some bugs in a plastic container where you can see them moving around. \n\nIt be hard, but just face them and see why you dislike them so much. \n\nThe only way to overcome fears is face them. I hated spiders, but my friend did the container thing. I don't know what happened but I didn't find them that scary anymore. My mind was just saying these are harmless creatures, obviously it took alot of time.
805644
There is no 100% effective method. Gaydar may or may not be accurate. Eye contact is important, but it may just be that they are interested in our fashion sense, or lack thereof.\n\nI've found that if I look at them in the eye, and drop my gaze to other body areas, then glance back after we pass, if they glance back, BINGO. I then stop, turn around and see if they do. :)\n\nThe best of luck to you!
113472
What I do, is just focus on someone I know, and talk directly to them.  dont read off a paper or anything and remember to shift your eyes around the room while still focusing on that person when u feel nervous.
423294
This works\nAsk them to name 5 things they can see, then hear, then feel.\nThen ask them to name 4 of each, then three etc.\nIf distracts you and also makes you aware of what is actually going on around you, not just what you are afraid of.\nGood luck.
660989
ignore him sweetheart and when you make eye contact just look away immediatly, don't even glance towards him anyways, you will be okay, i have had upwards of 20 girlfriends and i have still not found mrs. right so just keep on pushin' through you will be okay, keep ya head up.