My first epidural did not do anything for me.  Should I try it again with this child? Is it worth it?
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Perhaps the epidural was placed incorrectly.\nTalk over your concerns with your OB GYN.\nThey generally provide considerable relief when done properly.
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My daughter just had spinal surgery for Scoliosis (March 15th) and she felt the same way.  She cried, started staying in her room, didn't want to eat.  But we kept talking her through it.  I don't know what kind you're having, but if it's the same kind, she's now happier about how she looks, as she kinda looked chubby before-- but it turned out it was her spine pushing things in directions they weren't supposed to go.  She's taller now.  She doesn't hurt as much (she had a severe curve).  She's wearing different clothes because she's proud of herself, some now.  Just remember that if it won't make you better, they wouldn't be wanting to do it.  They only do back surgery if it's warranted.  It also doesn't take as long to heal as it used to, so you will be up and around ASAP.  It's scary, but in the hands of good doctors, you'll be better than before, so look forward to it and keep your chin up.  Talk to your family and ask for a hug when you need one.  If you can't sleep, find out who you can talk to when you need some one on one in the night or maybe even ask your doctor for some meds to help, if possible.  Good luck and blessings!
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I wish I could give you a positive view on this, but i can't. some babies are born with disorders, and you probably won't know more about what is going on until the further testing is done. my nephew had siezures when he was a newborn and he is fine now, no learning disorders or anything. So its not always life threatening. but they already detected a problem in the brain, so the baby might have a learning problem. But odds are if it was life threatening, the baby wouldn't of made it to delivery. plus in time the problem could correct itsself. babies do that. I was born with a hole in my heart,and a collapsed lung and my heart healed itsself, so did my lung..point being, it could take care of itsself. where the baby is right now is the best way to know for sure. After the doctors are done, they will let you know what to expect. babies can have silent seizures too which would explain why she stopped moving. my son had one when he was 14 months old, and it took him 6 hours to twitch a finger, his also lasted 15 minutes long not the usual 30 seconds to a minute and a half. Its scary to have to go thru what you are going thru right now, try to stay strong for everyone and hope for the best. sorry I couldn't give you the magic answer. but I figured i would share my experiences with it in hopes that it would help put your mind at ease a little. try to think positive even though at times its hard to do..
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After I had kids I had no feeling in mine at all and well I got them pierced and damn now its better then before kids so it can be something you can do just for a short term (at least keep them in for a month or so cause the nerves need to grow along the healing area) or keep them your choice there but hell get one done and see if it works or not for you.
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I've only been through childbirth, which some people do without drugs. I was in labor for 8 hours before I got my epidural with my first child. But the up side of any labor pain is the reward at the end... your child. Shoulder pain just hurts like a b...h. So I'd say shoulder pain is worse. :-)
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you *can* sue anyone you want.  that said, i fail to see what outcome would have changed if it had been detected earlier....\n\n1. no harm came to your son. - no harm, no value can be assigned\n2. he would have simply needed surgery "sooner" - identical outcome\n3. it is not your *right* to have your son be an athelete. - no civil rights were violated.
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You know, it is difficult to know if this is a result of the epidural or not. What does your physician say about it?\n\nChiropractic has good success with low back pain. Be sure to see a reputable chiropractor if you decide to do so.\n\nYou could try yoga or back stretching exercises, as well. Maybe a massage therapist?
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Mentally, I say 'NO' stoutly. Physically, I'd give him/her one more chance unconsciously. Nevertheless, I know the result for sure that same story would be taken place again. Briefly, if you think you could be strong enough to bear hurt again, then just try. Otherwise, forget it.
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You need to get to pediatricians and ask them for advice...I am sorry to hear that...but as much as I know ..children are more likely to outgrow any type of seizure...I know a little boy who had a stroke at age of 3. he was left side paralyzed but completely recovered in 5 years, now he is happy healthy 8 years old....\nThe skull is not even developed yet, baby bones are very soft. I don't think that something is severely damaged. \nJust stay strong and pray until everything is clear. Even though there is something there, love that is in your family and concern that you all have will help this baby live happily and grow healthy. \n\nMedicine today is amazing, there will be good doctors who will know what to do....
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I had my son naturally. It feel like nothing else you could imagine. And yes it hurts alot. Try to go to the bathroom as much as possible before you start to push. Also the body is an amazing thing. When you start to go into labor your body will naturally try to 'clean itself out' so that there is more room for the baby to come down the birth canal. Its quite miraculous actually. Don't worry, you wont be thinking about that when the time comes! The worst part for me was getting sewn back up after my epesiotomy. That really hurt!! Take as many birthing classes as you can and get the book What to Expect When Youre Expecting. Its the best thing you can do for yourself. Also exercising throughout pregnancy will really keep you in shape for labor.
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I did for my first time and i got pregnant so it sucked. I was to young to keep my kid so that was shitty so just wait cause if u do get pregnant its hard to keep the baby and to give him up
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The epidural goes directly into your spinal cord. You can get a tattoo anywhere in your back....go for it.
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Ouch. Poor baby, that must have hurt. I would say you should try to sleep as best you can and see how you are in the morning. If it still hurts you might should go get it looked at, either by a chiropractor or an MD.
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First off, congrads on the pregnency!!!! I do think the weight from the baby is going to add a little bit off pain, but don't worry about it. I wouldn't be afraid, i'm 13 and have had 4 hip surgeries, and I have oa, so I know how you feel. If you ned help or support in any way, my messenger is hbkfreak17\n\nBest wishes and good luck,\n\nKassie
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I don't know about epidural availablity outside the US, though I suspect it is available in most westernized countries.  I don't think it is as common outside the US, so you should talk to your doctor.  An epidural is given by placing a needle into the lower back (into the space around the spinal column known as the epidural space).  An IV line in then taped to your back up to your shoulder, then it runs to the IV which has the medication in it.  Most of the time, once you have an epidural you can't move (I've heard about a walking epidural, but I don't know anything about it).  You should do some research about epidurals and their dangers, as well as alternatives before your baby is due.  Good luck!
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...best to see knowledgeable Doctor - phone around - also a very good chiropractor - research shows a benefit when your relieve interference in the nerves which run through the spine. Say a prayer you will find the right team for your child. Intention to heal your child is important and your are reaching out - good! :)
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I had a c-section about 4 months ago. The only thing i have noticed is that about 2 in below my scar is numb! Also I have a few day where my scar is sore. But not painful.\n\nI have had a vaginal birth and a c-section and I would say if it is at all possible have a vaginal birth its an experience I would never have wanted to miss out on!\n\nThe only reason I had a c-section with my second is because I was paralyzed from the waist down on my left side for about 6 months and the slowly started regaining use. Doc was afraid that since my femeral nerve was already damaged that if i was paralzed again I may have never gained reuse! However my c-section was an awesome experience too!!!