is sex valid before marriage with ur love?
494653
think of marriage as the point where yu know he loves you without a shawdow of a doubt then you can have sex because he won't only value you for sex and if he doesn't like sex w you or your sex changes because of childbirth whatever he will stay because he likes you for you first avoid the heartache by gettinhg him to like you first and pretend marriage is in the heart if he loves you  genuinely than he will treat u as though you are married anyway the only difference will be going to get the paper theres plenty of people with the paper and no marriage in the heart amd are being run around on and everything els.
165036
No. I don't see a problem with this type of exploration before marriage. As long as both persons involved are comfortable with it, it shouldn't have a negative impact on a happy marriage.\n\nHave fun, enjoy eachother's company.
438207
the act of sex itself isnt smart or stupid, its how you handle it. i dont think that being young and promiscuous is a good idea, but sex before marriage isnt necessarily bad if you are safe and use protection, and are mentally and emotionally ready to be involved.
941723
FIRST PRE-MARITAL SEX IS IMMORAL !!!\n\nGET MARRIED FIRST !!!\n\nTHEN BE GENTLE WITH HER !!!
650785
It's not that we are against pre-marital sex, it's that we don't want OUR kids doing it before they are emotionally and physically capable of dealing with all the repercusions, such as unwanted pregnancy, STDs etc.  Most Americans do have sex prior to marriage, and have been since the sexual revolution in the '60s.  However, the Bible teaches that sex outside of marriage is a sin.  Sounds to me that your "religious people" are picking and choosing which part of the Bible to follow and which part to ignore.
892315
Sex before marriage is a total no-no for me. Virginity is the most prized possesion for a women and the most deserving man can get the most prized possesion.
117461
I dont think it has anything to do with maturity but i think that sex before marriage is good. If your mate cant please you in the bed it may cause problems in the marriage.so you should find out before
829657
Well I don't think what u're doing is a mistake. I myself am a virgin and I also intend to keep it that way until I am married. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody's views about that are different though cuz some people don't believe in the "sex before marriage" thing. Some say sex is simply sex. Well for me,when that time comes,I want it to be special and I want it to be with that person I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with,my husband to be. Hence the reason I'm waiting until I get married.. Anyway,it's your choice and if u choose to remain one, that's great so don't worry about it. I'm sure when u get married, u'll be glad that u did! Take care..
1092473
Never. Unless they are married. God gave us sex as an intimate expression of love between husband and wife and for procreation. Sex solidifies the bond between husband and wife. It's not supposed to be a casual thing between unmarried people.
364610
ya, it's true love!!!!!!  being married to someone doesn't mean that you have to have sex..
334541
I disagree with enterity.  I am waiting for marriage to have sex with my fiancee.  Although we have had sex before(with other ppl)we want 2 wait to make things right!  It has only brought us closer!  Yes, it is hard at times!  We feel its strengthen our relationship not only within us, but with God as well!
1128783
It's not a question of health, as much it is as...religion. If you believe in no pre-marital sex, don't do it. I personally think, that if YOU are waiting for the right man... after marriage would be best. And again, it's how you and your family members feel about this as well.
697089
In the bible it says that sex before marriage is wrong if there is no commitment between two people. "Marriage" as referred to in the bible is symbolic for a relationship/connection/love/commitment.\n\nThus you don't need to be married (literally) to have sex but you need to be committed.\n\nI feel that it is all about morals and there is no right or wrong. it's your own decision. Personally I believe that sex before commitment/love is wrong
1127697
no it is not right to lose your virginity before marriage because the bible tells you so.  another reason  is nowadays young people want to experience to much to fast and they end up with diseases and other things you can't cure.  like i tell my daughter its not what all your friends tell you is about its about making love you should never want to have sex just to be having sex.
411910
No!  Love is so much more than sex.  It's emotional, spiritually.  It's unconditional.  Just spending time cuddling, walking in the park etc.  can be sufficient when you are truly in love.  Of course sex is part of a relationship, but not needed. (right away) Taking the time to know one another first is important.  And if you want to wait before you get married.  Even better.  If the person really loves you, they will feel the same way, understand and wait.....
415726
not at all.but thats what you belive in, some people belive in no sex til marriage, others dont.\n I would have died, or killed my toy if I had to wait til I got married to my hubby now...almost 2 yrs later? whoa! lol
1187553
you shouldnt have to have sex to be in love with someone.... it should be the other way around if your in love THEN have sex when your ready