What do you do when you hear your best friend talking behind your back, Saying she hates you?
479709
well first make sure its true and if it is say i not gonna change for u u suppose to be there for me but u ain't so let bf go on with life cause it fair for u to be con- stately worry for the well being of your bf if they are not doing the same
628313
Well what I would do is first of all, tell my friend the truth.  Tell her that I only said it because I was jealous of the time she was spending with the other person.  If you don't really dislike the other person, go to them personally and apologize and try to make amends.  Let them know you were jealous of the attention they were getting and maybe you guys can work it out.
931390
If she is making you mad try to gradually stop being friends...talk less and less 2 her....find new friends. If you stop being her friend all of a sudden she will talk about you.
1186673
you need to tell your friend how she is making you feel. besides being on the computer, how is it that she makes you feel like you are being treated poorly. what she is doing may not be on purpose. sometimes people do or say things unthinkingly or because it is what they are used to having done to them and it becomes 2nd nature . \n\nafter speaking with her- if she does the ugliness again- at that moment say- when this happens, it makes me feel like such and such. after pointing out a good example of the behavior you do not like and she continues to do it- terminate the friendship. say. ya know i really like you alot as a friend but i cannot tolerate you treating me this way. good luck, best wishes and no hard feelings but cya later
862625
I think there is a chance that she hates you for leaving the country. I think she enjoyed the fact that you were around her, lending a hand when she needed it and when you left, she missed that helping hand and your company. That could be her reason for saying that she hates you.\n\nYou should call her to see how she is doing and talk about stuff. Dont talk to her about what you heard from your friends...dont even bring it up. If she doesnt want to talk to you, then what I said in my previous paragraph is wrong and what the others said in their answers is correct. (the "she is just an inconsiderate B*tch stuff)
310810
well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
1183657
go ahead and tell the worst that could happen is ur friend will hate u the rest of ur life, but u can find another friend.
955185
Try to talk to her. My best friend is having a problem like this right now, and the best thing to do is try and talk it out. If she won't talk to you, get a new friend.
394216
I wouldn't take her back as a friend. Excuses or no excuse, if she was a real friend she wouldn't have ditched you last minute and would have suggested an alternative. If she had a problem with the dress why didn't she pull you aside and say, "Hey, think we can shop around more or have it made?" And even if you did offer her those suggestions, she could have said something. Friends should be able to communicate without holding back. It's not your fault she was insecure. About spreading those lies...Girl, Im sure your other friends knew she was lying. Back to her though...she has no right talking about you and saying such things. \n\nThere would be no other option in my opinion. I would clearly never talk to her again. Deep down she knows it was shitty(excuse my language) to do that to her "Best friend" and even then, you have to think maybe you werent her best friend at all. Like I said, friends dont do that to other friends especially best friends.
127955
A real friend doesn't stab someone in the back. Maybe your friend is confused since you were the only one told but friendship is also based (should be) on trust also. If you confront your friend and have a good honest talk with him and if he still refuses to listen, then forget about him and ignore him. You'll find some other friend who deserves your respect. It's difficult to find a good friend but there's always someone out there for another. Good luck :)
632759
well if she is your best friend she would beleive you and trust you, so in my opinion she ain't your bestfriend all she is doing is making you believe she fells the same about you, it can also be she needs to blame someone but she has no one else to be angry with.
851332
hell yea wut the hell??? shes just trying to start drama cuz she has nothing better to do. u have backstabber untrustworth friends nd u noe wut? its better that this happened cuz atleast u noe that whoever did this to you isnt really your friend nd if i were u just dont talk to her EVER again.....nd if u didnt do anything u really dont owe anybody an explanation....just tell the friend that thinks your said soomething about her what really happened nd if shes a good friend she'll believe you
845024
don't beg her.  if she's your best friend she should believe you and not this other girl.  all you can do is tell her that you didn't say the things about her mom that you're being accused of.  and don't apologize for something you didn't do.  stand your ground on this one and do not give in to her.  it sounds like she enjoys having the upper hand, but you don't give it to her this time, especially since you didn't do what you're accused of.  it kind of sounds like you are her best friend, but she is not your best friend.\nI Wish You the Best
418722
its not that she hates you. from my point of view, i dunno if you two were friends, but she does not like you back. that's it simple as that. or something is holding her back from liking you. probably bad timing. i know how it feels when you dont get that back in return. but guaranteed, there are too many ppl out there for any of us. go swimming and find them. or u could wait around for her, but that's only hurting urself.
267683
she is your friend but aparently she cares tooo much about herself..so much that any little thing u say she takes it as an insult ffrom you to her...when she says somethin like that u shoud quickly tell her, " i wasnt talking bout you, your make up looks cool and ur my best friends if u looked bad i would tell you" and tell her u were just giving an opinion ...but dont let her bit*h at you...because if thats what she does you may consider getting a New BEst frieNd
614475
The only thing I can say is she wasnt a friend to start with. And that dont worry about others  they have to answer for the things they do not you. Just move on and dont show any emotion about it. There is a saying what comes around goes around and sooner or later she will have someone do to her what she did to you.
1036694
don't worry about what she said. you know whatever it is isnt true and if the people she told are your friends, then they also know the truth. she's obviously very insecure and jealous and starving for attention. people might take her side for a little while but dont get too upset because they'll learn what a little liar she is and you will have all ur friends back. just keep on being nice to her and it will make her look stupid.