my mom,grandam,and ant want to host my pool party!!!!!!!!!!!?
484251
You can prolly get away with more if grandma does it. Moms are to noticable. Do you have cool gmas?
121450
Throw a massive weekend party for ALL my friends and neighbors!!
104838
I would first try to remember some of the stuff that they had their old home and ask guests to buy those things. If it is not a surprise new home shower, get your parents input on what they would want for thier new home. Sometimes when tragic things like this happens, it can be a great financial setback and monetary gifts would be an understandable and wise choice. May God bless you all and I wish the best for you and your family.
141487
I'd say that you'll have to be strong on this one with your grandmother. If it's too hard to say that you only want to invite certain people and not all the extended family, see if you can pin it on the place where you're at (room to small, already committed to the head-count). There used to be a time when you could invite some people and not others and no one took offense to it. But nowadays in this "please me" society we are ever more careful not to offend. If questioned by relatives as to why they weren't invited to the party you can respond "I regret that we weren't able to invite every person we thought of!" and leave it at that. You owe no explanation beyond that. Hope that helps - have a great party!
543341
That's not fair! Are you sure you're telling your side of the story honestly? Tell her that it was her choice to bring you into this world and so it is her responsibility to take care of you, and that she can't hold it against you that you are not old enough to have a job (I'm assuming you are not). Tell her that there is no harm in going to the party, even for just an hour. Tell her it is very important to you and all you want to do is have fun, not do drugs and start fires, sheesh. Tell her if she wants you to continue being a good kid she has to reward you sometimes with positive reinforcement. Sorry hon, sometimes adults are unfair too. Just know there will be other parties and eventually you will be old enough to make your own decisions. Hope one of my ideas helps you.
883487
Get sam or the carrot to do it for you. maybe your crazy mother will help.
733939
Go to your nearest Party City right away and buy the "Casino Party" package.  It contains all the info you need.  I hope they have fun.\n\nGambling can be a game if it is handled correctly.  Do not be intimidated by people who do not understand "game" dymanics.
848841
Girls LOVE planning parties.....happy 13th!  Get a piece of paper, write in the time from now until then, and fill in what you want to do during these times, and what it takes to do them...it's a snap!   Caterers?  Won't you have parental help?  This post makes me think of my daughter
555571
A beach party is a fine idea.\nAre you getting your license?  Maybe you can get your parents to let you have a car scavenger hunt and you can have a car-themed party.  Guests can break into teams and search for items on a scavenger hunt list.  Give each hunt party a polaroid camera to catch their items on film.  You can also have a treasure hunt where you hide something (or bury it, if at the beach) and the team that finds it gets to keep the prize.  If your parents are giving you a car, suggest your friends bring you car items for presents:  a gas card, organizers for the backs of your seats, special floor mats, something to hang from your rearview mirror, seat covers, keychains, and a CD organizer.  Hit a relative up for a cellphone (like a Tracfone) and minutes, if you don't happen to have one.  Have a great birthday!
917242
I have a pool available.
976338
its very reasonable ,maybe you can offer to get her some cooking classes as a way to have some her time with out the kids then she will cook for you to try them out everybody wins.
261733
i usually tell them there's a "responsible" adult there and give them their phone number. bring some of my friends home to get to know my mom. just don't do anything that would get you in major trouble...trust me!
121517
Yes! Your parent must not like your wife and they thought that if they invite you they would have to invite her. It seems that you love your wife and her kids even though they are not your own. For your family to take it out on you shows that they are not good parents. Also your sister who has her own business should no how to help you out with the trouble you are having. My mother has wealthy sister that are willing to help her out because they care about her and my grandparents do the same too. I know you would help your family out if you could and for them to be shelfish and mad because you married this women that they need help as well. I think you should go on the internet and find help for yourself and don't worry about your family unless it is very serious meaning someone is very sick or had died. This is about you and wife and kids now. So do this for them.
486287
Let your parents know how important this banquet is to you and stress the fact that it is only for one day and you can spend the rest of the time with your aunt and uncle.  It might help if you can come up with something fun you can do with your aunt and uncle while they are here.  Show your parents that you really do care about your aunt/uncle and spending time with them, but you would also like to do something fun with your friends too.  I see no reason why you can't do both and hopefully your parents will see that too.
690017
Go ahead and call the authorities. The aliens will probably just think you are having a party in their honor and invite you to go to an out of this word party with them.  Have fun, wish I could be there.
389978
My parents are helping us out a great deal for our wedding.  My mom has helped me with the planning, the finances, the stress, etc etc.  We are getting my father a nice bottle of wine and a gift certificate for a manicure and pedicure for my mom.  When I go into the salon to have mine done the day before, I am just going to surprise her and take her with me.  We are also planning on a nice toast specifically for them and we're also thinking of having a song dedicated to them (to dance to) following the toast. I'm not sure if it's necessarily "customary," but I think it should be if they really help out.  If you can't afford much, just put some thought into it and do something creative.  Make a cd for each of them with songs that remind them of you (or the two of you together).  Definitely do something for them...it's kind of their big day too.
270385
I threw a surprise party for my mom's 50th.  I went to the History channel's website and got info on things that happened in her birth year, as well as people who shared her same birthday and put them in the invitations I sent out.  It looked awesome and everyone commented on what  a good idea that was!