What can I do or say to my boyfriend who may suffer from E.D. (Erectyle Disfunction)??
479599
He needs to see his doctor.  This is treatable and it has nothing to do with you so don't get a guilt complex over it.  There are several possible physiological problems that an examination will reveal the true cause.  He might have a thyroid problem which is the cause and be easily treated.  Seeing his doctor is the best answer for the problem.
443455
Would depend on how paralyzed they are.  If the damage is above the waste (they need a wheelchair to compensate for lack of sensation below the belt) then no, males probably wont be able to become erect.  There are other ways to have sex though, so if your in a loving relationship it should all work out.
208785
You can try Tantra or you can go to a sex shop and purchase a penile ring. It really helped my man. Another way I helped my man is when he felt he was going to ejaculate, pull out and I would hold the head firmly until the feeling would subside and resume intercourse. I kept doing this and now he is a monster!
251145
Is there a way to do that?\nSome type of stimulant cream.\nFor your boyfriend--meaning you are not satisfied??????
1058900
Sounds like he's trying to let you know what's going on...you're not listening.  If he's in good health overall (not overweight, smoker, etc) then it could be due to him holding out for you, preoccupied, stress, etc.  There are a lot of reasons why men lose an erection.  A lot of the time my b/f holds out for me and then when I'm good..he's good with that.  He's held out so long, it goes away.  He's usually ready to go again in 10 mins, though.  The fact that you cheated on him really doesn't help.  He may be picturing you doing some of the things you do with him, with someone else.  He's going to be questioning every new thing you do in bed.  "New tricks?  New man?"  It's all about communication.  Let him know you're concerned and really LISTEN to his responses.  You two will work it out if it's meant to be.  He needs to truly forgive you for your mistake and move on if he wants to make it work...you'll need to bring his trust level back up.  Hope I helped...
511860
Talk to his doctor , his diabetic meds can be changed if you tall him the problem you have been having . As for as his erection do you help him ? You can give him oral or hand to get his penis hard enough to penetrate you . A man doesn't have to have a full erection to ejaculate . Can your husband get an erection through masturbation ? My advice is to please work with him , you sound like you care very much , talk to his doctor first . Good luck there is help , Patrick
432726
Change posistions. Try you on top so you can control how deep he goes in. If he is thrusting to hard you need to talk to him. Men would rather you tell them if you need something different then for you to avoid sex becuase they are hurting you.
21802
I believe that Mild ED is caused due to "sexual rush". As I man I can tell you that the best way is for your partner (a woman in my case) to take it easy and do not rush me into having an erection as soon as she gets undressed. Conversation should be kept a a minimal, unless is related to the beauty of your partner's body and sexyness. A woman should help the man by being as sensual as posible and softly caressing him (the man should do the same to her!)... You'll see!!!... patience has its rewards and then .... a long lasting erection...!!!!!!!!
520748
Loss of sex drive due to low testosterone levels, High Blood pressure and diabetes (potentially caused ED and embarrassment), there are so many things that effect sex drive...self image (has he put on a lot of weight? He may feel ugly and have low self esteeem). There is no one thing that will stand out, but a serious heart to heart with total honesty is the only way out of this. I am assuming he is not off somewhere getting it on the side. good luck
930470
First off how good of shape is your boy friend? Because I can tell you from experience that I recently gained and lost 20 lbs. I was just on a fast food things and drinking lots of beer, and I started to notice that my penis was not performing well anymore. It would get hard and then it would just go limp with out me being able to control it. Well fast forward a month and a half later I have lost the 20 pounds my abs are looking great and now that more blood gets pushed down there via my stomach muscles, I stay hard all the way through. \n\nTell him to start working out his stomach\nkegal exercises are must.\nThis will help his problem.
326723
I think what he means by ED is erectile dysfunction. You ask your doctor about Viagra or Cialis.
819750
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86610
- Erectile dysfunction (ED) is the inability of a man to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for his sexual needs or the needs of his partner. Most men experience this at some point in their lives, usually by age 40, and are not psychologically affected by it. \n\n- Some men, however, experience chronic, complete erectile dysfunction (impotence), and others, partial or brief erections. Frequent erectile dysfunction can cause emotional and relationship problems, and often leads to diminished self-esteem. Erectile dysfunction has many causes, most of which are treatable, and is not an inevitable consequence of aging. \n\nIncidence and Prevalence :\n- The term "erectile dysfunction" can mean the inability to achieve erection, an inconsistent ability to do so, or the ability to achieve only brief erections. These various definitions make estimating the incidence of erectile dysfunction difficult. According to the National Institutes of Health in 2002, an estimated 15 million to 30 million men in the United States experience chronic erectile dysfunction. \n\nAccording to the National Ambulatory Medical Care Survey (NAMCS), approximately 22 out of every 1000 men in the United States sought medical attention for ED in 1999. \n\nIncidence of the disorder increases with age. Chronic ED affects about 5% of men in their 40s and 1525% of men by the age of 65. Transient ED and inadequate erection affect as many as 50% of men between the ages of 40 and 70. \n\nDiseases (e.g., diabetes, kidney disease, alcoholism, atherosclerosis) account for as many as 70% of chronic ED cases and psychological factors (e.g., stress, anxiety, depression) may account for 1020% of cases. Between 35 and 50% of men with diabetes experience ED. \n\nAnatomy of the Penis :\n- The internal structure of the penis consists of two cylinder-shaped vascular tissue bodies (corpora cavernosa) that run throughout the penis; the urethra (tube for expelling urine and ejaculate); erectile tissue surrounding the urethra; two main arteries; and several veins and nerves. The longest part of the penis is the shaft, at the end of which is the head, or glans penis. The opening at the tip of the glans, which allows for urination and ejaculation, is the meatus. \n\n- Physiology of Erection :\nThe physiological process of erection begins in the brain and involves the nervous and vascular systems. Neurotransmitters in the brain (e.g., epinephrine, acetylcholine, nitric oxide) are some of the chemicals that initiate it. Physical or psychological stimulation (arousal) causes nerves to send messages to the vascular system, which results in significant blood flow to the penis. Two arteries in the penis supply blood to erectile tissue and the corpora cavernosa, which become engorged and expand as a result of increased blood flow and pressure. \n\nBecause blood must stay in the penis to maintain rigidity, erectile tissue is enclosed by fibrous elastic sheathes (tunicae) that cinch to prevent blood from leaving the penis during erection. When stimulation ends, or following ejaculation, pressure in the penis decreases, blood is released, and the penis resumes its normal shape. \n- Hope being given first answer i have secured 10 points. am i?......lol.........\n------------------------
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What kind of stress is happening in his life? A 19 year old is at his prime and if he can 't get off masturbating something isn't right. I would find out what stress is going on. If there is not anything important enough to to suffer through ED (erectile dysfunction), there might be a prostate problem or something to do with the urinary tract.\n\nAlso, one thing can lead to another. If there is emotional problems it could affect his sexual performance. If it is medical, and can't or won't talk to about it, it might cause a psychological problem. One problem might beget another.\n\nI wish you guys the best of luck! This should be one of the happiest time of your life!
777434
Why not? Physical or emotional handicap? If it's medical see a doctor, if it's emotional/mental you may need to see a therapist, if it's your relationship then you need to work on renewing that. It's as simple as do you both still enjoy each other's company?
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It could be diabetes.  Check out http://www.diabetes.org/diabetes-symptoms.jsp\n\nDepression: http://www.nimh.nih.gov/healthinformation/depressionmenu.cfm\n\nHigh Blood Pressure:  http://www.americanheart.org/presenter.jhtml?identifier=2114\n\nand any of those things can lead to erectile dysfunction:  http://kidney.niddk.nih.gov/kudiseases/pubs/impotence/\n\nIt may be an affair, or that he's not as invested as he should be, but it could be a signal that something medical is amiss and needs to be checked out.  Of course, you must be sensitive in how you approach the subject.  He could very well be avoiding you because he's embarrassed about it.\n\nUnresolved anger or repressed anger may be an issue.  How well do you communicate with each other?  Would he be open to counseling?\n\nI hope you find the cause and have a resolution soon.  For the sake of his health, try to find a discreet way of getting him to the doctor, just in case.  It could be a sign of a serious health concern.
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You should seek more help than might be found here.  If things don't change it may become a serious issue between you and your boyfriend, and you're obviously concerned about it.\n\nSee a doctor, perhaps, or a therapist?