I like a guy that I saw in Church, is it bad wanting to go to church just to see him? Should I feel ashamed?
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if that's your only motivation to go, idk, but seeing as you went today, it's probably not the ONLY on, just the biggest, and that's ok. Maybe God put him there just for you or something.
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trust me if he wanted you he could probely get with you sound easy. peple now aday greet that way would you date everybody if a symbol i am so glad to see you are frindly way  like if you went to church that is a brother and sister like a christin hug. maybe you are so ugly he feels sorry for you and he just hugs you to hold your head up you got a friend dont date everybody that hug you
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I know how you feel.  Since when does church=good person.  Hello?!?!?!  Just because one attends church doesn't make them a "saint".  I mean look at the high church officals who are turning out to be child molesters!  Are they still "good" people b/c they are in a church.  C'mon.  Give me a break!
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there is always a thin line and a very weak one actually that could be badly broken when we do intimate encounters with people that at first failed to be honest with us in terms of how his or her personal life is....for the start that Jesus didn't told you that he was with someone at first makes him someone "hard to trust" since hey he might do this same situation with another girl if he is with you...but, that is a point that you have to discuss with him that you might, maybe, perhaps could be with him if he can be trust worthy enough in his actions with you as "friends" FIRST....if there is people making you feel like you were the cause of the broken relationship of Jesus with his girlfriend, be sure that that is FALSE, since it was Jesus and Jesus's actions that put off tracks his relationship, so don't feel guilty and too much worried about it, of course always keep your self steem high and up front, because well people loves to talk to much.....in the case for Daniel, you might then to look ways without been to pushy into showing him that you are trust worthy and a good intentioned girl, look for small moments where you can ask him looking into his eyes "how are you doing?" and give him a warm smile so he can see that you care for his wellbeing, don't panic if he is not so sweet responding, it will take a while until he can see that you are a really good girl for him to be with, just be clear that if he is not then responding as you hope, don't feel let out, guys are quite complicated when they are studying a girl...the important thing here is that you know yourself best and your actions, be wise and loving to you first that the rest will come along... Good Luck
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Even if you dont go to church god will always love you.. he will always love you no matter wut and forgive you for anything u do..! its ok that you dont go to church on a daily basis.. but if you want to get closer with him u should try and go mor often but i u cant u shud read more of the bible and learn more about the him. Hes gret..!
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hello!!! relationships are about love - not religious prefrences.if you feel for him enough then date him.
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I feel terrible when I allow myself to have this fantasy,even if for just a moment.Myself and my family attend church regularly,us and the other church members are all very close to each other.My pastor is the most attractive man I have ever seen,and like I said we are all very close to each other.Even though I'm close to his wife,and he is a man of God,sometimes the fantasy pops into my head regardless of the guilt or not wanting to think such things in church.He tells me he needs to talk to me in private,and if I could meet him after church .I tell him yes of course,then when we meet he tells me he just cannot quit thinking about me,and I tell him I feel the same.And we have wild passionate lovemaking.we both pray nobody will ever know.But we just can't help it because we are so sexually turned on by each other.And I cant help but wonder in real life if he ever fantasizes about me,but I don't dare ever allow myself to find out.
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Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
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That is a very tough question.  I do not totaly know what you mean.  What do you not want to share?  Personal things that you only share with God are between you and Him.  But Him, He should be shared.  It's like a loving relationship.  I find myself always looking for a reson to talk about my girlfriend because she means a lot to me.  God is that way to me also.  I want to tell people how great He is.  We are also called to spread the gospel by the great commission.  We are also told that if we are ashamed of Christ, He will be ashamed of us.   I hope this helped, but I am confused by your question.
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I think you feel like you did something terrible because it says to marru only in the truth, and since you were not ba[tized yet, your conscience got to you. This happened in my congregation too. A baptized woman married an unbaptized man, although he was studying and eventually got baptized himself. I hope that you get closer to Jehovah and one day get baptized and live a happy life with your husband.\n\nGood Luck\n\nAgape
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Glad to see you're a Christian....\n\nPlease try not to feel this way.  I remember feeling like that at one time, too.  I used to wonder about what God wanted me to do in my life, then I realized He has written it right there what He wants us to do...its all in His word!!\n\nAs for the recreation, pray about it.  Ask the Lord for His will to be done.  Keep letting your light shine, hon...and heads up!!  You've already made the wisest decision you could ever make...the decision to serve the Lord!!  Trust in Him, and He will guide you.\n\nGod Bless
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Awesome! I believe you are diving in deep to the kingdom of GOD. \nWe know that Jesus was crucified so that we would have a way home to the very throne of GOD in Heaven but did you ever think that maybe in addition to that way back home, GOD wanted to be able to break through the sin and rebellion that separates us from him? You ever have a crush on a guy for no reason? You just thought he was awesome and dreamy? Well you are the bride of Christ sister!!! You are very precious to GOD and so am I. So I think he wouldn't mind if our lives were filled with him. His life is filled with us.\nMay GOD richly bless you.
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do you go to church with him? \n\njust keep dating him, you'll eventually have deeper conversations and you'll learn as to where he stands with many issues and by living his life you'll see how important his values/convictions are. you'll know, trust me. you need a man that pushes you to grow. don't worry if he's not for you.\n\nand keep asking God, if he's not for you God will pull a string and you may break up, or God might even tell you himself who you should be with.
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I feel badly for you  but rest in this:  Most of the time when you are wronged by someone else great blessing will come to you. It might not be immediately but it will come.  Do you remember that situation where the man and woman divorced and the woman was wronged and then she won the lottery?  That's just one example.  The main thing is to not try to get back at the one who wronged you. Put it in the hands of God and He will take care of it for you.   Of course if you aren't a Christian this probably won't work.  You first must believe that Jesus Christ paid the penalty for your sins and then you will have a relationship with the Creator of the universe.  He will take good care of you in every situation in  your life. Trust me this is true.
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My little sister please hear me out.\n\nMatthew 6:33 says "But seek you first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things will be added unto you."\n\nThere is nothing like just spending time with Jesus, in His word, in prayer, and in worship, all at our masters feet. Yes there is a bit of pleasure in kissing or in the other drives that God has made us with, though all in His time, it is like a beautiful flower that blooms. Love is patient and it is kind. If you and your boyfriend are meant to be together then in God's perfect time, by His perfect will, then you both will be together. If it is not God's will then know this that God has someone so much better for you then you could have ever imagined. Please don't just read God's Word, the Bible as just another book, for it is 66 love letters from God to you, and for you to grow and mature by. The love of Jesus for you can't be compared to by anything else, no human relationship or even what we have, for all will seem dim when I am with Him. Seek to really know God first, and in His proper time, You will see that the love that waits will be rewarded. \nTrust God and obey your mom and dad. \nYour in my prayers. God Bless You<>< + ><>
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No, why would you feel guilty? No one got hurt, right? You both enjoyed it?\n\nThe only thing you might want to think about is if you are really interested in having a serious relationship with this guy, you might want to slow down a bit.\n\nMost guys don't take "easy" women that seriously.\n\nBut you shouldn't feel guilty at all.
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Seek and ye shall find. If you don't find, move on. \n\nIf the different churches you visit have different doctrines AND one week you believe X and another week Y, then yes you are being spiritually promiscuous. If you're just looking for a "home," then keep on visiting.