What should i do about my friend?
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Dear Rebecca,\n           Take heart and know that you are not alone in your struggle with depression. I have the same problem too and understand how you feel. Please know that you are okay and sound like a very likable young girl. If your "friend" can't accept you with your problems as you are, then I'd say she isn't much of a friend and perhaps you should try for other friends who will appreciate you for all that you are. I am sorry that you have to be hurt this way and my thoughts go with you but also realize that there are people who really will like you as you, Rebecca! Take care of yourself and stay sweet!
744215
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
1130192
well there's not much now that you can do..he knows the truth and that is good. You should just apologize to all of them and praythat their friendship isnt ruined because of this.
201104
You should talk to him and ask him what the problem is. If he is truely your friend he should acknowledge you anytime any place.
745768
Your friend just creates negativity in your life, you've done your part and she will never change her mind.  You should leave her alone and make friends with more intelligent people.
650808
stick up fro urfriend and let the "hitter" loose!!!!! If u don't do anything, u might regret it someday when u never see ur friend anymore...
1163025
Whatever you do you should handle it calmly and spare his feelings. Because right now like you said he hasn't gone too far but yes if you fear it will go beyond what you want it to be then is best to resolve it quickly. handle this face to face and be strong about it. Tell him that you feel that your friendship with him seems a little too personal and it makes you feel bad and you do not want to feel bad at all. That you cherish the friendship but it will never be anything but a friendship. If he can not understand or accept it then I suggest you end it completely.
107803
no not at all. If you consider this person a true/close friend you shouldn't just end a friendship like that. Have you talked to your friend about why he didn't come? if he has done a lot, don't throw your friendship away its not worth it.
515264
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
706643
Tell her that you won't let her do that to you anymore.  If she values your friendship, then you need to let her know that you will not allow her to continued to do this.  People will always walk all over you until they know that they can't.  YOu have to stick up for yourself.  Don't talk to her for a week or so.  Then call her up and say.....next time, it will be over.  Don't treat me like that anymore.
957447
tell it to him straight like you have been - that you dont feel about him that way - expect him to be angry for a while but this is where you need to distance yourself from him for a bit....if he's a true friend he will eventually understand and then seek your friendship once again...but if he doesnt he is so not worth it...good luck
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Walk away...eventually they will be left standing in their dirt!  \n\nDont waste your valuable time on worrying about those who use you for there is nothing you can do to change them but you can change how you relate to them.  Do you always want to have a "victim" for a friend?
269278
If she is a true friend and worth the problems you might en cure while being honest, try being honest with her. First tell her you really care about her and not wanting to hurt her feelings. Be prepared, you might loose and friend for a period of time.
193763
lose him, you will be better off. a real friend will never take you for granted. good luck
150273
Treat him like a little brother.  If your friends tease you, get new friends!  If they have no compassion for a person who is slow through no fault of his own, they are pretty cruel.
330915
the honorable thing to do is to let your friend have him, the smart thing to do is let your friend have him. if he is a jerk you will know and if he treats her bad then you know to stay away from him. and at your age in a couple weeks she'll dump him anyways right? so dont worry about it! this actually works to your advantage. just be Patient.
534602
I would ask her why her friends do that and have a talk about it. i think she may be jealous of you and this is her way of dealing with it! and if she gets worse after you talk to her then she does deserve you as a friend.