are all men jerks or do I pick the wrong ones?
479770
im not a jerk. pick me
208582
I think its a sign of how they are brought up. Jerks seem to have no problem saying whatever comes naturally. The difference is that a jerk says offensive things. I believe deep down this is a true sign of insecurity and should be viewed as such.
853014
Victoria  You are describing almost all guys that want you to put out for them, sweet as can be and prepared to wait  until they realize that you are serious and that you are waiting for a band on your finger a license in your album and a husband in your bed before you cross that threshold  of adult sexual relations .\nQuite frankly I say cut him loose and see  what comes , If he loves you as he says then he will wait and respect your decision . but to me it sounds like he wants your body and that is that . jerk yes  but only a human jerk .
234125
picky guys don't always get what they want remember that
402486
Not all women love jerks...not even the majority. Perhaps what you refer to is an attraction thing- some may be physically attracted to bad boys, but they don't want an involved relationship with one.
196699
Sadly, there are a lot of jerks out there.  Guy's play at love to get sex.  Girls play at sex to get love.  That's the way of the world I'm afraid.
918058
I'm going to answer your question a little differently that you are expecting.\n1) We are not all the same.. I totally agree with most of the other answers..\n2) A person that is a "jerk" (can be either sex), is simply one that does not put much effort into the relationship once the courtship is over, or one that just will not commit.. this could be a player, a trophy chaser, etc.. If you are having this experience often then I would suggest you are making an emotional commitment way too early in your relationships. For example in the "courtship" phase rather that the settle in, "get real" phase.\n3) It take a long time to know you can trust someone with your emotions and you should take that very seriously. Untrustworthy people show their true colors pretty quickly if you are paying attention.. \n- Don't get hung up on what you want it to be.. You must observe what it is.. and decide if it works for you or not.\n4) If you are not emotionally committed, moving on is much easier to do.\n"A man either knows how to treat a lady or he doesn't".. Don't settle for anything less than what you want, period.
435385
Don't worry about this guy you like.  If you think he is a jerk enough to reject you for what you look like, then he isn't worth your time.  You don't need to hear that "let's just be friends" line.  You're better than that.  You are who you are, and when the time is right, you'll know where you belong.  Keep your head up, and you'll be fine.  You don't need a man to complete you, anyway.
1122698
Well he could be psychotic, or he could not like you very much and is playing a game or he could be a skitzo or he could've gone through some major trauma and have head problems either physically or now he just has skitzo tendancies or he could be this- DID YOU KNOW THAT MEN HAVE HORMONE CHANGES EVERY HOUR? THAT MUCH LIKE OUR MENTRAL CYCLE THAT HAPPENS ONCE A MONTH WHERE OUR CHEMICAL BALANCES CHANGE THEIRS CHANGES 24 TIMES IN A DAY-it still doesn't give a guy a reason to be a jerk!
1029868
guys are jerks because they want us to do every thing 4 them and they are guyz cum on guys=jerks no offense to those guys
788266
He is a jerk... and he was trying to play you. I suggest you move on and find another cutie that doesn't lie and treats you right :)
904482
Try a more mature group of men to select from. Maybe you'll find them more appealing.\n\nGood Luck
1072896
Are you annoying? Are you controlling? Etc., etc., there could be thousands of reasons, some not even having to do with you and having to do with the guys around you, they may just be stuck up jerks.
622565
Don't put all men in the same class.  Not ALL of them are scum-sucking maggots.  Above all DON'T PLAY THEM!  Let you be you, the real you, and you'll and might just get lucky and catch that one-in-a-million guy.  Don't try to be dominant.  But then again, it is wise to guard up.
845666
u are looking at the wrong guys. you are attracted to the guys that have tendencies to act this way. change what you are looking for, and your results will change!
13839
I think a clue could be with your username. It kind of indicates that you like the "bad boy" type. The majority of those are not going to treat you well. Guys like myself are good guys who the bad boys don't have the guts to mess with. You need to find one of those...We always treat our women extremely well and you have all the fun with none of the drama...Lol.  ;)
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Women don't like jerks, they're just kind of biologically drawn to them...\n\nWomen love confidence.  Even when they're not confident, jerks are typically a bit cocky (which ironically, is a sign that one lacks confidence).  Cocky resembles confidence just enough to get the girl.  Being a domineering control freak is also an attribute that women commonly mistake for confidence, and as a result, such men often get the girl while the nice guy loses out.  Meek & indecisive are the two most effective female repellants out there!   \n\nWomen also love mystery.  Jerks are not open with their feelings, which makes them a bit mysterious.  Nice guys are frequently open with their feelings which kills the mystery.  While women CLAIM they want a man who's open with his feelings, deep down they much prefer a man who keeps some mystery about him.  \n\nIgnore what women SAY they want in a man; instead, pay attention to what they RESPOND to.  Generally, the key with women is to be "the man with a plan" (e.g. don't ask her where she wants to go on a date, just take her there) who's fun to be around (most important: make her laugh) but doesn't talk too much (don't tell her your life story right away, make her work for it), all without being a domineering a-hole.