how do u tell a freind that u love them too much to be just freinds?
494009
U just tell him I can not quit thinking of u when U lesve me & my heart jumps when I C ya again
288953
You can  tell them that it is not good to do. and its bad for them to to it. Also you can still be there friend if u want too or not. Its up you.
57139
Just tell him that you value his friendship and appreciate him being there for you, but at this time, you are not into being in a serious relationship.  Tell him that you need time and space to get your own thoughts together before you can start to share your life with someone else in that way.
193490
just tell, your r not his property so tell him and thats it if he gets jelaous then he is inlove with you or has no life at all, dont hurt his feelings just tellhim and your reasons and also tell him that you could still be close friends
29224
Just tell him that you like him too much to be his girlfriend and that friends are better...
692030
ok, there is no way to say it w/o hurting him too much. but if you want you can try this..a key point to remember is not to sound too angry. try to keep your calm and hope that it all turns out well...\n\n" i think that you are changing and i don't know who you are anymore. i don't think that we are in the same page anymore  and i think is best for me and for you to stop being friends. it was nice while it lasted but like i said we are in two different pages. i hope that you can understand. i wish you the best."\n\ni hope that this helps out. i wish you the best of luck.
290790
STILL BE FRIENDS WITH THEM BUT WATCH WHAT YOU SAY TO THEM AND AROUND THEM. AS FOR SECRETS THEY ARE BEST KEPT TO YOURSELF. OR BETTER YET TELL THEM TO GOD HE WILL NEVER TELL.
809793
YOu need to find a way to show your friend that you are there for them and that you actually care. First of all, you could tell them that but that doesn't mean they will believe you, so you have to look for any oppurtunity to show them that you are a "true friend" that can be trusted.
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All you can do is keep it real. Let her know that you love her to death, which is pretty obvious b/c you been sticking around anyway. Just let her know that true friends dont just sit around and argue and fight over everything and that you are getting sick and tired of it. Let her know that you want to be her friend but if yall are gonna keep fighting for no reason then there's no point of you two holding on to something that is no longer there! Everyone enjoys a good friend not someone that is going to bicker with them every chance they get. Good Luck!! I hope that you guys can work this out. Frienship should be priceless!!!
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Be there for them...and let them know how important they are to you and that you enjoy hanging out with them and that you value their opinion...and every now and then do something unexpected to let them know how much they mean to you....just remind them how much you appreciate the friendship.
976002
tell them they r great friends and u need to find ur true love
873824
Well just talk to him and ask him y? Then just tell him that I love u and i wanted to let u know because it has been on my mine don't take it the wrong way or anything. I want to know why do't u love me as well. Then get ur anser then work off of that. Then if u can't bare to be his friend then tell him that u can't be his friend u wanna be with him and then he will give u an answer and if he say no then he can't be ur friend! Then just be like okay then! but if he says oksy then be happy!
853516
god! she  is where i was a yr ago. My best fren told me that he loves me, i said 'no lets be only frens'. but u know what a month later i realized that i love him. she would realize it too. the way he made me confess was- he stopped saying directly, but kept dropping hints that he loves me... like how lucky the guy who marries me will be... and how cute i am. \nn then he stopped talking to me for a while, then i mailed him that i really love him. try it. good luck.
874000
just tell her that you would like to be more than friends and see witch way it goes
362781
This isn't going to be easy but maybe slow things down enough until you feel it is a good time to let them know that things aren't working out. Usually when you start doing this they come to realize that there is something going on and maybe take it upon themself to walk away. Sometimes friends need to just be friends at a distance. It does sound like you don't want any part of them, so it's better to be nice about it so you won't be feeling guilty.
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Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues. \nLove! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!\nNow, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right? \nIn the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!\nALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!\nNow, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?\nIt all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...\nI might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
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happen to me but i tell her that i love her as a friend only. \nmabye u love her companiionship dats why u have some kind of special feelings back for her too..