what's the best way to tell a guy that u wanna break up with him without hurting him too much?
476873
well you know hes going to be hurt. honesty is the best policy. maybe bring up the fact that things are not working out, make him understand what the problem is and why is accuring. someones going to be hurt. its somthing that needs to be accepted.
4813
I just brok up with my bf... and I just told him straight up. Just say something like " I have a few things on my mind that I need to tell you with out interuptions..." And tell her what your are unhappy with and then when you are done say something like " Our relationship is not tight like it used to be and I think we should break up. Iff we are meant to be together we will be. If you are supposed to be with me you will come back to me but if not you were never really mine."
388353
i know it's tempting to hurt him like that, but you will regret it in the future. just tell him you're leaving him and don't go into details.
962858
You should just tell him.  I know it sounds simple, but it's the easiest and the best way.
456826
Stop freaking. Wait at least 24 hours. Then call him with some drama. Then break up with him.
694614
Dump him first and keep your self respect. You cant force him not to break up with you and if you are wrong then he will tell you.
657785
Sit down and talk to him, ask him if he's happy.  Ask him if he still loves you, or if he thinks you guys should maybe break up for a while.  It may be hard to do, but it will get alot out in the air if you guys just have a good talk.  Either way, good luck and everything will work out for the best.
714614
Take it from guy. He will end up hurting you probably. If guy says something like that need to just let it go.
294084
There are no best ways to break up with a partner, specially when he's gonna suffer more than us, it will definetely hurt!\nBut I guess a good way to break up would be to be really honest, to say the truth in a polite way, not to try to make him think things that aren't really true, I mean, not telling him that U don't have someone else if U know that U have him, or not telling him that U still love him but want to be alone for a little while, if U know U don't love him anymore.\nSo... as hard as it is... THE TRUTH is just the best way to make it a little easier for both of U.
103024
If being honest means you guys have to break up.. then so be it. The best relationship is one based on trust. You have to be truthful all the time, even if it means getting hurt or hurting the other person. I am BLUNT with my guy, and he likes that, because I never hide anything from him, and he does the same. People should try it out, that way there aren't many breakups, or little cat fights.
280823
Breaking up isn't always easy! My advise is, what ever you do make sure your breaking up for all the right reasons. Be honest with your self and be honest with him as to why your feeling this way. \nIf your for certain this is what you want, then you should let him know as soon as possible. Keeping this from him every day will only make him feel foolish of his self. I know it's hard to have to break up and sometimes we get to the point where we get so up tight and nervous about doing this that we push it off. But the old saying is breaking up is the hardest thing to do. \nI would tell him that you need to speak with him over dinner or what ever you guys do that wouldn't start a big question game, like what is this all about before you actually get a chance to sit down and talk with him. When telling him this try not to say "the time we spent together has been great etc. etc. but, let him know that lately you have been going over things and you need to etc. etc. Especially, if this is coming from out of nowhere. Let him be able to absorb little by little. This way there won't be anger flaring up. Try to then speak to him as if your talking with a good friend.\nI wish you all the best to you and him both.
397035
just simply tell him that u dont think it is right anymore and u just wanna be friends and still talk? but tell him the reason is b/c u dont wanna hurt ur best friend?
538690
I don't think you can break it off without hurting with them.  But you do owe it to them and yourself to be honest with them.  Good luck.
58880
Communicate with him but don't nag.  Tell him simply in a nice quiet way and then let it go.  If he doesn't get it and it's important to you, your relationship may not be what you really want.
91623
Tell him the truth.  Just say "hey, I think you're a great guy, but I really don't think you're the right person for me.  I want you to be happy, and I want to be happy. I don't think I'm happy right now; but that is not your fault.  Like I said, you're a great person, but just not the great person I want to be with."
18229
Chances are you are going to hurt them, so just accept that.  Best approach is quick, swift, straightforward, and make a clean break.  Tell them it's time for you to move on, and that you will always wish them the very best. Don't answer all their questions, just tell them it's not a love match for you, and leave it at that.  Do not try and stay friends, you will only hurt them more.  Just move on and cut off intimate contact.
61492
Just tell him the truth.  I think the best way to do this is start off with a talk.  You tell him how you fell and he will tell you how he fells.  Please don't jump the gun.