what can i do about the stress that my boyfrined puts me in?
486660
I think it is important to relieve yourself of all your stress when it gets bad.  In this case he isn't much of a boyfriend if he is really stressing you out instead of being there for you and reducing your stress.  Get rid of the boyfriend and the stress will be gone.
862349
I think that he is probably under a lot of stress and pressure right now and that you should back off....give him the space he needs and if it is meant to be, he will be contacting you when things settle down.....good luck
53004
Dump him and find someone that doesn't stress you out.
467217
You have every right ot be upset with him.  You are under a lot of stress right now, with your Mom being ill and having to travel back and forth, that is a pretty good strain on anyone.  Then to have to deal with this on top of that.  He has betrayed your trust and if you can't see it in you to let it go, then I would suggest ending the relationship.  I don't think I personally could let it go.  If he can't keep it in his pants for the short time you are gone then he's the one with the problem.  He would have a bigger problem if he were mine.
331877
Honey, DUMP that loser.  \n\nYou don't deserve that crap.  He thinks you'll just take it, but that's abuse.  If you're that bad, what is he doing with you?  \n\nHe just feels so insecure that he is putting you down.  This is NOT your problem.  Get rid of that dork!
401309
Let him go.  YOu don't need someone like that in your life.  You need a man who will help you out and cheer you up not bring you down.  You can do better for yourself and your child.
830419
It's hard to fight stress while you are in the stressful situation. At home I read, clean and do artwork. Try hiding in teh Br for a few minutes or just plain tuning out.
428012
You sound stressed - you need a break and you should take one. Some therapy may help - having someone to talk to is always nice- does your church provide any type of support in times like these?\nGet yourself a place and renew your relationship with the Lord - tell Him all that is troubling you and allow Him to guide you through these hard times - just rest in His comfort and rely on God to renew your mind and body. Pray for your spouse thats really all you can do at this point - he has to be willing to get help. Take care of your children and provide them with  loving support and stableness that young ones need. Don't seek divorce just yet - see what the Lord directs you to do...
619202
If you don't have any problem, let him hug you. Else analyse your problem yourself and keep a distance. I don't know which country you are from. That will be helpful giving you the solution.
356182
god bless you. my hubby is also in iraq. i would suggest reading, spending alot of time with your friends over there, and exercising in the gyms there. try also to talk to your chaplian when you are stressed out. good luck to you.
293561
well, I think that you think too much on something or you got stress......I suggest you to rest your mind for a couple of days and released your pressure by doing some activities or see someone that were really good handling this case and ask for some proffesional advice,ok!
1044617
Boyfriend, don't do it! \n\nBe blessed and don't jump into that forced mess.
957838
Honey.....blood is thicker than water.  Grow UP.  He is a waste of space for doing this but I'm afraid you are even worse.  The longer you play this game the worse you are going to feel when it all comes crashing down and it will, there is absolutely no way around that.  Get control over yourself and just stop it!
978969
What causes stress?\n\n1.  Illness of aging parents and in-laws\n2.  Rearing a pre-teen\n3.  Keeping up with housekeeping while working full-time\n\nWhat can I do?\n\n1.  Encourage them to get regular check-ups and get treatment for on-going medical problems\n2.  I'm open for suggestions on this one - all I can do is love and encourage him thru the lows and celebrate with him during the highs!\n3.  Realize that in all actuality, my house is probably cleaner than most stay-at-home Mom's, and as long as the kitchen and bathrooms are relatively germ-free - we're okay!\n\nCoping?\nPlain and simple - I pray!  I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that since God created me, He knows what's going on in my life and exactly how I'm feeling.  He even promised in His word that He wouldn't put more on us that we can bear!  He is my source of Joy and Peace and I couldn't make it through a day without Him - God bless!!!
1071040
It sounds like you are in a Co-Dependant relationship.\n\nThere is nothing you can do for him, only he can fix himself. \n\nWhat you can do is change how you react to his problems.\n\nI suggest you get counceling to find out why you have set yourself up to live with this misery. Get help finding YOUR coping mechanisims. Learn what his triggers are and figure out if YOU can live with them. This situation isn't about him. It is about you and what it does to you. \n\nAlways remember this, if you are not healthy, happy and wise, then what can you have to offer to those you love? Always take care of your mind, body and soul first and what follows is a healthier interaction with those you love.
327631
tell him that you are not into having it cuz you are experiencing some emotional problems you need to deal with by yourself first...
34418
I am currently going through the same type of situation. Basically you have to ask is the stress worth it. If it is meant to be then it will happen. Don't force it. If not, there are more fish in the sea.