what specifically does it take to make a bf happy happy?
493974
interesting question.  Everyone is different.  Sometimes its sex.  Sometimes its comfort.  Sometimes its just plain impossible.  Just treat him well and show you care for him.  Have him hold you and talk lovingly to him find out what makes him tick.  And have fun with him.  He will open up.  Look into his eyes instead of kissing all the time.  Your lips can say what your heart feels.  But the eyes can tell what your soul is longing for.  What we all are really love completion.  Complete him if you can.  BEst of luck and may the elements be with you
661646
You can start by showing appreciation from all the things he/her does for you.Give your support & unconditional love in return...and tell that person how you feel-especially during intimate moments.
1001260
A good website I found mths ago, which is good advice for women on various topics.It has the top 10 things that make men happy in a relationship. (Their info came from askmen.com)\n\nCharm\nA good body \nA beautiful face\nHonesty and trust\nRespect\nSense of humor\nIntelligence and confidence\nAmbition and drive\nHeart of gold\nLove
1136721
just make little suggestions every now and then such as\nwouldn't it be nice if.....\nor\ni would really love it if you did....\nmy partner isn't romantic and just by doing this i got him to suprise me it takes a little bit but at least once a week now i will get home and he would have a bubble bath ready with candles around for him and myself to enjoy.\nAnd i even get a romantic dinner every couple of weeks.\njust tell him that you would really love it if every now and then he would suprise you and be romantic.\n\nGoodluck and let me know how you go.
110400
- Think you are beauty.\n- Refine your thoughts.\n- Express love to him.\n- Attract him with your care and let him know how great love you have upon him.\n- Have a simple and neat look and smile often.\n- Hope you can achieve as what you think and do and have my heartiest wishes.
358143
I think you need to find out what you want first in a guy.  Money, power, good looks, or just someone that makes you comfortable and happy.\n\nIf that doesn't work, just grab the next guy that comes along your way and train him to satisfy you...
671177
Does this make you happy??  Relationships are suposed to make you happy, not all the time, there are suposed to be hard times too, but in general - does HE make you happy.  \n\nLong distance is not impossible but it is hard, kep it interesting, keep the visits up and work on a plan to eventually come together, if you cant see yourselves ever living together then really whats the point?  Are you just waiting for the fisrt person to loose their job?  Where do you see it going in your minds eye, you must have a mental picture of, say, a year or two down the line.
491523
I agree... Communication is the best.. How does it make you feel.. Do you have  the desire or passion...\n\nDo you make it interseting and fun... \n\nAsk him, it only gets better after that..
821822
Simple - you tell yourself that you deserve it!\nYouve been faced with crap circumstances in the past - and you came through it - its made you a stronger person and now you can take a deep breath and realise that life is for living and enjoying!\nYou are totally entitled to being happy - prob more than most depending on your past circumstances - you've been lucky enough to have a great kid and now an even better boyfriend - sit back - appreciate and enjoy life and make the most of it!\nWishing you all the best and a continued happiness! xx
678879
You need to do this.  Yes, it will ruin your relationship, but it will make him very very happy.  And isn't that what's most important?
463727
That would totally depend on the guy who was asking!!!!!  I would have to think about it very carefully before deciding.  Im a little shy when it comes to that kind of stuff but you never know what Id do to make my man happy!
1181660
(boyfriend)\nmuscular, but not too much\nknows how to make me feel good\nwarm
209760
it's not his responsibility to make you happy. If you aren't happy it's your fault. You need to find out why you aren't happy, what you need to be happy, and then let him know how he fits into that.
453660
Stop taking each other for granted.  Say thank you more.  Notice each other more.  Candle-lit dinner.  Weekend away.  Picnic in the park.  Flowers.  Bath together.  \n\nAll this helps things to go well, but you can't make him want you more.
255587
Definitely the best start is to see a smile first thing.  Maybe a hug, or a joke.  Some sort of contact.  Even a little note.
116412
be yourself look natural...smile all the time..look into his eyes...LET HIM come to u...let him think that u need protection and he'll want to protect u...and u'll feel good...after that it depends on both of u how u get on...
158224
Just show youre BF how much you love him, that you can't live without him and specially be honest and true to yourself