Im a tomboy... does that make me a butch?
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HECK NO!!!!!!!!\nIm a tomboy too. I dress like a guy, I even have my hair as short as a guys. Nothings wrong with that. Your you and thats what matters.
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i am a flirty type...hey beautiful
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i am a TGirl....and i have many friends who are TG's/TS. if that is what you mean....i am not sure.
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You're a Tomboy, big deal.
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No -- I am not lesbian but I think that if I were lesbian I would regard transsexuals as a sort of man. There are a lot of men who go for transsexuals and some hetero women do, too.
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There is no such thing as going gay, either you are gay or you are not.  If you love dressing in women's clothing, you aren't gay.  You are living your life and you only get one shot, there are no retakes, so live your best life and enoy as much of it as you can.  The views and opinions of perfect strangers should not dictate the way you view yourself.
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how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
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Honey you just be what makes you comfortable. Just keep up your grades in school. Religion is also very important, but that has nothing to do with who you are. Stay out of trouble and enjoy being who you are. God Bless you. Hope you will have the happy life that it sounds like you are seeking. I love little tomboys myself. They are not snooty or finding fault with others. Good luck my dear and have fun.
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I'M A LESBIAN....GO US......
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You have gender dysphoria. You need to be what you feel you are.
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If you have been discribed as "willowy" by others, it sounds like you have a very different self-image than what others see.  "Willowy" usually means exactly what it implies, tall, slender, long limbs.  I'm not sure how old you are but if you are in your early teens, chances are you haven't gotten used to your newly developed body.  I remember how painful it was for me, especially graduating from a training bra to a real one.  I was so self conscious of how I "stuck out" where I used to be flat.  Don't let yourself be led astray by diet and exercise plans that promise to change the way you look drastically.  If you are self conscious of your bust, there are minimizing bras that support without pushing everything up and out.  If you are like me, I can't find clothes long enough in the sleeves or pant lengths.  Todays styles are body clinging, form fitting, which, if you are self conscious, will make you feel worse.  Find a friend, or someone you trust completely, and go on a clothes trying on spree.  Find a style that you like and suits you.  Go into stores that are  normally not your style, or price range and HAVE FUN WITH IT.  It costs nothing to shop and try on clothes, the decision to buy is up to you.  This will give you a chance to check out new styles you may not have conisdered, and give you ideas for dfferent styles.  Tall Girl (here in Canada) is great for taller women, better proportioned all over.  Who knows, maybe you'll discover a love for sewing and make your own clothes.  I'm not suggesting you don't exercise, exercise is an important part of daily life.  Do it.  But please be gentle on yourself, we are always our own worst critics.  God made you beautiful just the way you are.  Look in the mirror every day and find one thing to complement yourself on.  Record those observations every day, and when you feel especially down, go back and read all those wonderful things about yourself.  You are more wonderful than you may know.  Believe that, OK?!
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There is hope out there.  I think I am sexy, guys tell me all the time. BUt I am not stuck on myself.  I am not high class.  But i do like to look good.  I might go every once in awhile to go and get my nails done. or go get me an outfit but its not an everyday thing.
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I believe the level of difficulty isn't directly to related to whether you are a lesbian or a gay male but rather the extent to which your personality goes against society's idea of "normal" -- a very feminine gay man is going to have more difficulty "fitting in" to a society where men are expected to be "manly". A butch lesbian who doesn't meet the "feminine" requirements of society will also have a harder time, but at least she can kick their butts if they mess with her. :)
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In past years, there was more expectation that lesbians would be in butch/femme roles. Now, that expectation is lessened, and women go more towards where they feel comfortable rather than conforming.\n\nFor some women, that means butch is correct for them. For others, it's not. Plus, society at large has a more difficult time with butch women (cf., the answers received thus far for conformation of this), so that might make some who don't feel comfortable presenting themselves as butch less likely to do so. \n\nBe who you are. If, for you, that's butch. Go for it! I'm sure you'll find the woman who appreciates both the fact that you're butch, and the fact that you are a woman.
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I feel great! Perhaps ur not feeling the same way being a girl are you??
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Yes!!!  When the Bible talks about women not wearing men's clothing, the original text is actually refering to men's under garments.  \n\nIf in doubt, look in the mirror.  Do you look feminine and pretty?  Do you look like a "lady"?  God wants us to have freedom, but I don't think a Christian woman should look "butch".  This is my personal opinion though.
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oh man yeah i would be a lesbian 4 u lol