I am Bisexual and wont to tell my Parents how do i tell them ?
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Yeah I know that one. I told my mum and she totally flipped. I was trying to tell her so she wouldn't be surprised if I told her I was seeing a guy. She didn't understand, a lot of people don't understand being bi as opposed to gay or straight. They can't understand it, feel it's some sort of sexual perversion, "wanting it all". You will prob even find that being bi it will be really hard to find a relationship because there is always the fear from your partner that they can't give you something that the opposite sex to them can.\n\nAll you can do is let them know. Maybe talk about a previous relationship and tell them after that you tried... and found that it was good too and that you want to let them know so they don't have to deal with a big shock should you end up in a relationship with someone they don't expect. Either way it can sometimes be harder than being gay.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
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me bcuz i have gay parents
764373
She needs to come out to them without you there.\n\nHer sexual orientation is not about you.\n\nIf she comes out with you sitting beside her you become the "dark witchy" woman who "turned their daughter gay".\n\nI think you'll all be much better off if she tells her parents separately and once they have had a little time to digest they can start getting to getting adjusted to you in relationship to their new understanding of their daughter.
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Just sit your parents down and tell them. If they dont understand, explain it to them. If they get really mad, just say how you really feel. Tell them this is who you want to be. You want to be you. Dont hide it from your parents, it can make things much worse than they already are. Hope you can do it!!! Kaylee if you need to talk to me my email is angelfiregurl_09@yahoo.com or my messenger is angelfiregurl_09
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hey there I totally understand where you stand because I was there myself at one point and time. But first you have to evaluate everyone in your family to figure out how much they care for you as their child/sibling. your best shot would be to tell the family member(s) that you are closest to and most comfortable around in order to see how they accept it. you would be better off starting out slowly; however this approach may not exactly work for everyone. so all I can really say is start slowly, telling a few people at a time, and then find an approach that works for you. maybe have a friend (NOT a f*ck-friend) that knows (and is cool with it) present when you disclose. worst comes to worst, have someone else tell them when you are not present. I had a great deal of difficulty coming out to them myself, but all I can really suggest that you find a way that works...for you. I do not know your family, but if they really love you, they will accept you for who you really are.
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I don't think it's much of their parents business unless they choose a partner of the same sex and they don't want to hide it from their parents... If that's the case I would say just be honest about it. Parents love you for you and even if they get upset at first, they will learn to except it.
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you cant really hide much from your parents trust me.\nif you dont have anyone in mind im free
1034097
If you are not gay...politely tell them you are not interested and tha you are not gay..."WHY NOT ASK DON" (the poster above) is gay and is in hiding till someone comes along and gives him what he wants!!! The gayness will come out, HE IS JUST HIDING IN THE GAY SECTION OF YAHOO ANSWERS
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I would NOT tell your friends about this.  You are only 15 and there is nothing wrong with being bi at all.  BUT your friends may turn into morons and tell everyone on the planet including your parents and it could make things awful for you!  Keep this to yourself for awhile!
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This may be the hardest thing you have to do so far in your life and I wish you the best of luck!\n\nHopefully in 5 years you will look back and laugh at how scared you were to tell them. \n\nI don't know your family but if I were you, I would take my mother to a neutral location such as a park and go for a walk. Tell her how much you love her and that you would never do anything to hurt her. Tell her that you need to talk to her about something very important to you. Then tell her in a way that's best for the both of you. Give her a few minutes to absorb this new information. Ask her if she has any questions. Tell her that it is nothing that she did or didn't do. Tell her that she is a great mother, and that you were born this way. Tell her that you are still her daughter, still the same loving girl you always were. Hopefully she will come to accept this in time. It may take a while. (She may already know) Either way she may be able to help you tell your father and the rest of your family. In time they will learn to accept you for who you really are, and love you just the same. Best wishes!!
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Telling someone that you're gay can really help a lot, just because you don't have to carry around your secret all by yourself anymore. Probably the best person to tell that you're gay is a female friend, since they will likely have less problems with it than a male friend. If you're gay, chances are that you'll have more girl friends than guy friends. However, pick carefully! Don't tell it to someone that you've had a fight with recently or that you're not totally comfortable with them knowing. Think about whether this person could use the information to get back at you for something. It's your choice and depends on your family, but maybe you want to tell your parents. However, if you think that they'd react badly and still depend on them, give this some thought. Parents can react better or worse than you'd imagine. Another option might be a sister, if you have one. Be very careful before telling people at work or school. And before telling anyone, ask yourself: a) Is this person a religious fanatic who would be violently opposed to gays and set me on fire with kerosene? (If so, not a good choice) b) Would this person use me as their 'gay friend' to go shopping and get fashion advice? (If so, and this might be surprising, also not a good choice. You need a friend that will love you for you, not for your gayness). The people you tell should be people that will just say 'okay' and you can move on with your lives and you can feel better about it.
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Do what you feel right for you. If you're sure this guy likes you back then you can fight it together. Does his parents know he's gay? If they do it'd be even better they can talk with you parents and let them understand.\n Just remember one thing: GOD DOESN'T HATE GAYS, no matter what anybody tells you just remember that sentence and you'll be just fine.\n\n I know exactly how you feel, I'm gay too and my parents doesn't know either and I'm really scared of telling them but I know I have to someday.\n\n If you're 100% you're gay then you have to tell them, you owe it to them, they need to know and then they'll decide. If you're still living with them then don't tell them until you move out so they won't kick you out.\n\n Hope everything works out good for you.\n  Keep in touch (Click on my name and then click "Contact Michael" if you would like to send me an email)\n         Chao                                  Peace
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It's a feeling, not something you find out.  Being bi is not a bad thing.  You haven't given up on guys.  I've always had a firm belief that your sexual feelings is your business .  No one else needs to know. \nLet's just say when you know what you want, then tell them.  This could just be a phase you're going through.  You'll also know the best time to tell them.\n\nGood luck
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Dont worry about it....let the little things in your life go...because your going to have plenty.\n\nDont let them, make you who and what you are....and most of all dont let your parents choice of having sex with people of different races [which produced you] get to your head.....sure bi people do look good, but dont let your insides ruin what your ourside have going for it.....be modest and humble.
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The easiest way to tell your parents is to simply sit down and ask to have an adult conversation with them. It's best not to sugar coat anything, just keep it real. Tell them you have a boyfriend and it might be nice if you tell them that you would really like them to meet him and get to know him. That way they feel like they are involved in your life. Whatever you do don't put it off any longer because the longer you wait the worse it will be when you tell them.
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the best way to come out is directly. i know that it may be scary, but your family and friends are more likely to take it bad if they don't think you trusted them enough to be honest.\n\nget some info off of the following websites. they can give you plenty of info to share with your family. also check out the public library in your area. they may have some books that will also be good resources.\n\nstart with the person you think will take it the best, be it family or a close friend. tell them first. you will need them to be your suppport system through this time. then, just keep going until you've told them all.
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Don't be scared to tell your parents. They love you and want the best for you (I'm guessing). Otherwise, tell an adult you trust - like a teacher or a friend's parent. It is really important that you let an adult know.