How do i know if hes lying to me?
476211
He sounds nuts to me, you know nothing about him except what he tells you, you're only 17 which is too young to settle down let alone with some Whack Job!!!
126444
I think not all men lie. The ones who lie should not even be givin the time of day. If you are accused of cheating or lying, and you are not, then they are most likely cheating or doing something wrong to you. Dont waste your time.
412961
You don't. Everyone lies. Some peolpe lie to protect the ones they love others lie to protect hemselves. And then there are the ones who lie for no reason at all. These are the worst type of liars. Unneccesary lyin gis uncalled for and you should talk to him about this. Honestly though I don't think it is something that will change so you should look fo ra more honest relationship.
875127
First of all, there are reallly no fool-proof way to tell, but if they are lying men:\n          1.Can't look you straight in the face\n          2. They fidget\n          3. They try really hard to convince you of their lies\n          4. They "swear it on everything they love" \n          5.  If you ask them the same question 2 days later, they    \n               they pause and have to think of what they told you \n               previously.
721185
you won't know.. men are bunch of liars. they can pretend to be trustworthy until you find out that they are not. just be careful. i mean, trust your man but use your common sense.
222611
If it seems like he's making it up to you, then he probably is.  Here's a few questions to ask him if you're IM'ing him.  If he answers wrong or takes way to long, then he's full of it.\n\n-Ask what his MOS number is (four digits, first two are the field, last two are the specialty)\n-Ask where he went to MOS school (you can verify this info later)\n-Ask what he got on his last PFT (Physical fitness test), and when he took it.  If he says he took it recently while he was deployed, then he's probably bs'ing you.  Deployed Marines hardly ever take PFT's.\n-Ask what unit he's in, then find out later if they're really stationed there.\n\nOr you can find out his name and rank, tell me, and I'll tell you if he really is a Marine and where he is stationed if he is.\n\nAlso, just make sure that you ask these questions in  a "roundabout" way.  Don't sound like you're interrogating him!
324931
Watch the tape with him, and point out why it cannot be you.\nIf he doesn't have a tape he is a psycho. Or he's just bluffing to try to get you to "tell the truth". And that's just sick.\nIf he doesn't trust you over something someone else said, he is not worth your time, and will never trust you, because there is nothing you can say or do to prove your innocence. My ex boyfriend played little mind games with me all the time, and didn't trust me. People with trust issues like that have one of two things wrong with them 1. he was cheated on before and can't trust anyone anymore 2. He himself is not trustworthy. Take your pick. He's probably got more issues than a news stand. I'd dump him. I know it sounds tough, because you have some history, and you probably love him if you're going through the trouble of trying to make things right, but seriously, if he doesn't believe anything you say, do you think you can be happy with him?
71880
You should ask him directly something you know he will lie about and you have proofs about the lie. I dont think you necessarily should do it in front someone else, but tell the liar next time you catch him lying there you will tell relatives and friends about his behavour and spread all around that he is not reliable.
150695
There are often cues and signs that someone may be lying. There may also be understandable reasons for the lie.\n \n1.  Look for body language that might indicate someone is lying, such as not looking you in the eye when speaking to you, being fidgety, or acting nervous or uncomfortable.\n \n2.  Listen for inconsistencies in what the person tells you, such as different stories on different days, different time frames, mistakes in remembering details or mixing up details.\n \n3.  Notice if the person steadfastly resists answering any questions. Extreme defensiveness could mean that he or she is trying to hide something.\n \n4.  Notice if the person accuses you of lying or being deceitful when you really haven't been. This could reflect the other person's own underlying behavior, which he or she is projecting onto you rather than owning up to it.\n \n5.  Listen to your gut and intuition. You may just know someone is lying. If you are not sure, don't jump to conclusions. Try to get some evidence to back up your hunch.\n \n6.  Consider asking directly if the person has lied to you. Many people feel bad getting caught up in lies, and find it a relief to finally be honest.\n \n7.  Try to be understanding and listen to the person's reasons for lying. Was he trying not to hurt you? Was she afraid you would be angry, upset or disappointed?\n \n8.  Look at your possible role in having someone lie to you. Are you someone who gets so upset hearing the truth that others feel they can't be honest with you?
482007
when the lie he told you doesnt add up
1113804
I HAVENT RUN A BACKGROUND TEST BELIEVE IF HE IS LYING ONE DAY HE IS GOING TO SPILL THE BEANS OUT\n\nALSO THAT DAY YOU WILL KNOW HOW MANY LIES HE HAS TOLD YOU
302255
possibility that he is. do you have more than just his lies to back up your question? Did he say anything, not say anything, or lie about something big? Ask him what is going on. he might just b honest with you. good luck!
1125963
well give him time and tell him how the friend told you alot of lies. Just let it be and if its meant to happen then it will.  When he sees how cool you are about the whole situation he will come for you
115212
hey you could get a friend of yours that he doesn't know is your friend to "stalk him sotaspeak" and find out if he is lying or not. . .
1035829
you can ask, but you either trust someone or you don't.  if you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him.  and if you do trust him, you have to know in your heart he wouldn't do that even if there are signs that might point that way.
607015
Dont check anything.  The answer is yes.  Trust me on this one- would I lie to you?
533918
ask him it is your best bet to the truth let it all out and tell him how you feel and if he is just using you move on...