Is it okay to worry about die'n?
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Well, I think that in some ways you are trying to be responsible, but if you dwell on it to the point that you miss out on the life you do have left, then you need to rethink things. See the point is this, I lost my daughter when she was 13 1/2. It was very unexpected. I know someone who went into the hospital for a minor surgery and died, I also had my brother in law die from cancer. You never really know when it's your time, you have a terminal illness that yes you will someday die from yet you could be killed in a car accident tomorrow. Everyone is dying, from the moment you are born your body starts the process. It is a part of life. There is no one alive who won't face it one day. I got a fortune cookie after the death of my daughter and I have it taped to my wall, it was rather weird to get it when I did, but I understood all to well what it meant.... Counting your time is not so important as making your time count.....Death is not something to be feared but rather just another step in your progression. I hope you enjoy life to it's fullest and go listen to Tim Mcgraws song called Live like you were Dying I think that's the name. It's a great song. I wish you the best and hope that you enjoy the simple pleasures and the friends and loved ones that you share this journey with. And remember\nCounting your time is not so important as making your time count.....Tomorrow is not  guarunteed for anyone.\n\nA great book to read actually a couple of them are\nGrieving the Pain and the Promise by Deanna Edwards. It talks about all sorts of grief and about dying\nhttp://www.deannaedwards.com/\n\nThe Message by Lance Richardson it is an incrediable story!\nhttp://www.americanfamilypublications.com/
181757
No, it is not something to be worried about. When the time is right with the right person you will be able to express your true feelings.
189670
Although, dying is a natural part of life and we all think about it occasionally, if you're obsessively thinking about it, you may need to see a professional. Seeing someone doesn't make you unstable, it can only help you remain stable.  My concern is that your thoughts are persistent but also are intense and graphic at times, and you may need a medication to help with your thinking. If you've had a past history of depression, than this type of thinking is not uncommon. It wouldn't hurt to see a psychiatrist before your thoughts get out of control.    -a psych nurse
44427
No. So when you die, ensure you do it in a manner which is most likely to amuse onlookers. Otherwise your death will have been in vain.
884204
not at all, if you feel bad, do something.\n\n:> peace\n.
1085156
Cool it Chap. Tell ur (a) about it. Its gonna be fine.\nDon't worry.
399626
yes...worrying too much is where you actually lose sleep or cannot concentrate on other things due to worrying about whatever....it can be a serious illness that leads to treatment! A little worrying is normal though...especially if you are under deep stress...I worry more when I am stressing.
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Yes, you will get sick before dying, if you even die at all. You will vomit. Yes, you will become very ill. Yes, you will have a chance of dying - but also a chance that you won't die, but will be extremely miserable in the recovery to get better. Don't be so selfish worrying about your own problems. Think about how your family / friends (and don't say you don't have any or you're all fighting, that's a crap reason) will feel when they get the news. It could scar their lives forever. Life's all about obstacles.. If it was easy, then it would be boring. Need to talk about it, feel free to email me.
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i would not condemn myself to a lifelong morbidity to escape from something which is just a probability. \nfeeling the danger is something that gives happiness to my life. if I accept the guarantee i will loose 2 important things: my limb, and my happiness from my health, and acheive 1 bad thing: probability of unknown illness will always threat me ! \nso my answer is; No!\n(on the other hand, nobody guarantees that if i say no, i will definitly suffer from any disease!)
859184
Wanting to die at that age would be unhealthy. \n\nBut simply being at peace with what can and will eventually happen  is perfectly healthy.
320745
yes,,, but why you worried about only that,, u can also worried about:\ntuberculosis,, malta fever,, cancer,,AIDS,, and alot  alot
583497
You shouldn't worry about it.  The thing you have to mainly worry about in that game is getting out.  Not getting hit.  It only stings for about 5 seconds.  It's better to not worry about it and play then just to not play.
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I am not afraid to die as much as "how" I will die. \n\nI don't want it to be horrible like an accident, or long, like an illness.\n\nideally, in my sleep, would be the best.
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prior to meeting my girlfriend, i didnt give a shit about anything... i didnt care if i died... but i wasnt going to commit suicide either.\ni dunno... my life's alright if u try to ignore all the family pressure put on you... the pressure of trying to be what everyone wants you to be and see you as... if you dun care that your always the listener, but you never found someone who would be there to listen to you... so yeah...\nRight now... im livin for everyone who cares for me... and if i die... i would feel bad for making them upset (assuming that i would feel anything at all)...\n\nyeah yeah yeah... i heard it before... i know im weird
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Right or wrong isn't really an issue with suicide.  The consequences are.  If you die, you have no consequences -- that's the intrigue, isn't it?  No consequences, no more feelings, no more life.  But think about the people you leave behind -- and there are ALWAYS people you will leave behind, no matter what you think.  Your death would affect people you thought you didn't even know, not to mention your family and friends.  I know what it's like to be left behind by a suicide victim, and it isn't fun.  It's been years and I am just starting to 'get over it'.\n\nAs for the cutting, it's really great that you're helping your friend.  That is the right thing to do.  Let her know you're there for you and let her know that you care.  Does she know you haven't stopped -- does she even know you do it too?  If not, you might consider talking about it with her -- what it feels like, why you feel like you have to do it, why it's so hard to stop.  It might help her out to hear from someone who is going through the same thing.\n\nYou do need to make an effort to stop, though -- SI is a serious problem.  If you're not comfortable talking to your parents (I understand if you're not), go to your school counselor or talk to a trusted ADULT friend.  Encourage your friend to do the same -- talking to a peer is not quite the same as talking to an understanding authority.\n\nI wish you all the best.  You can do it! :)
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Perhaps, then I could stop worrying about it and live my life until that time.\n\nI guess for someone who doesn't think about or worry about dying...they would have no need to know. I think about it, and I think knowing (especially knowing it was going to happen in umm...70 years or so) would ease a lot of worry.
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Nah.\nYour fine.\nDon't worry about it.