Should being called a MILF be an insault or compliment?
488414
A total compliment.  BTW ... you are a MILF.  wooohooo
945180
I've used that expression with friends before as a joke. It's a silly over-doing-it way of saying that you're great.\n\nA friend of mine who's female brought me a soda one day without me asking (long story but it was super hot that day and we were working outdoors) and I said, "Oh my god, marry me!" We had a good chuckle about it but that's all. Likewise another time I got a backrub from a female friend and I was enjoying it so much I said, "Will you have my children?" \n\nIf he said it was a joke, it probably was. He just thinks you're really cool. he may even think you're hot, but he's still probably joking.
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Always isn't the right word here.....but think about it...the first initial years that you spent around women were those spent with your mother...(or a motherly figure)...it's not too far out of left field to say that some men look for a partner that gives them the same level of "comfort" as their mother.
774990
Quit being a homophobe. There is nothing wrong with a harmless compliment. Alot of the times it might even make that persons day a little better.
869294
Take it as a compliment... Shows that not only men fancy you... HAHAAHA!!!
1004694
the word is "androngynous"\nit means you have both masc. and fem. qualities
897008
Tricky Q!  One that I would ignore if I did not have a great deal of respect for the Asker.\n\nAs for personal insults and compliments--well, that's too personal.  Even given the anonymity of Y!A.  Especially given the brazen anonymity of Y!A.  To share them with you publicly would be an insult to your sensitivity; to share them with you privately would be a compliment to your sensitivity.  As priests, psychiatrists, and parents know, confidentiality is a compliment and public disclosure is an insult.  \n\nSo to generalize--and generalize only--my worst personal insults were experienced as a child or adolescent, and I am still too bitter about them and their effect upon me to expose you to my hostility, probably even unforgivable hatred.  Did I retaliate in kind?  Oh, most certainly I would have if I could have.  But years and so many sensitive others later I hope one can become an adult who attempts to protect other children and adolescents from similar suffering.\n\nMy best compliment by far was when the woman I love loved me in return and agreed to become my wife.  For love is the greatest compliment, and mutual submission the highest praise.  Beyond that, compliments are merely words and to repeat them would be to expose hearers to a false sense of pride and egotism that I could not muster.  In other words, I can't remember any such compliments that didn't seem to me to be exaggerations.\n\nNow, let's proceed to a much more important dimension of your question: public insults to a people and public compliments to our humanity.\n\nThe greatest insult I can think of is when political leaders (or would-be leaders) lie and lie and lie and spin and spin and spin and expect us (like the masses who responded to Hitler and his minions) to accept what they say because they repeat it over and over again, regardless of its truth--even when it is obviously and unashamedly untrue and irrational.  You are all fools, they seem to say, and we can treat you like fools and still manipulate you to follow us docilely.  Public media--reporters, commentators, editors, reviewers--who simply pass along the lies and the spins not only insult their readers; they accept the grossest insult of all to their own intelligence, honesty, and sense of responsibility.  It would not be difficult to name any number of contemporary politicians guilty of such insults.  It would not be easy to name very many among the media who have refused to accept such insults but have even emphasized them.\n\nTruth tellers, especially those who trust us to hear and understand unpleasant truths, compliment us mightily.  Like, yes, Edward R. Murrow and Bill Moyers and Keith Olbermann and, oh yes, even Molly Ivins.  \n\nBut the greatest compliment of all is that of artists who trust someone out there somewhere to receive and respond genuinely to the work they have thrown themselves into: poets and composers, musicians and actors, choreographers and dancers, painters and sculptors, orators and essayists, storytellers and singers.  \n\nWhen Gustav Mahler gave strangers his Resurrection Symphony, when Sylvia Plath wrote "Black Rook in Rainy Weather," when Leontyne Price sang night after night and Mikhail Baryshnikov leapt time after time, when Martin Luther King spoke and Dame Judith Anderson read her lines, they complimented those whom they did not know--strangers in the night--but whom they trusted with their efforts.  Bravo!  \n\nOur applause cannot compliment their artistry as sincerely and as vigorously as their work compliments our humanity.
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Hey , as far as I can make out, those are good compliments! To be called a golden girl plus to be told that you rock. 99% of the teens would envy you and want to be in your shoes. \n\nSo where's the problem? When you see people moving away or not incluing you in things, thats when you should start worrying. For now, enjoy the limelight !
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The women who are hot & say they are not, are fishing for compliments. The one's who are not so hot and think there are, they know they are not, they just have a hard shell of self confidence, which is good, they want compliments to. I think im hot, not the hottest but who is? We are all hot in our own way, inside or out.
887268
Old lady once said I was "bright as a circus chimp"\n\nI didn't dwell on whether she meant as compliment or not, just made me smile.
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I agree that it's not very nice when people answer friendly questions rudely. But come on, you're setting yourself up for attacks if you come across as needy, slutty, or ignorant, no matter how harmless or cute you try to act. \n\nLet's face it, if you're trying to gain respect, you're going about it the wrong way. You're not doing yourself any favors by having an avatar name that features the word "kinky" in it. People read that and they already think you have low self-esteem and that you try to seek reassurance by acting like a s*l*u*t. On top of that, if you're so needy that you have to shore up your self-confidence by asking people if they're attracted to you AVATAR, then people may feel that someone who exibits that sort of behavior is just begging for an insult.\n\nIt's as if we were holding philosophy class and all of a sudden some bimbo cheerleader comes up and says, "Hi, I'm Bambi! Do you guys like my outfit?" and then sticks her butt in your face. The fact that she acts all innocent and young and naive doesn't excuse her obnoxious, superficial, egotistical behavior.\n\nIf you don't want people to be mean to you, change your name to something more respectable, and don't ask ignorant or needy questions.\n\nBy the way, you are to be complimented on your spelling and punctuation. Perhaps you're smarter than you let on. I imagine that if you put that intelligence to good use and try to use your good spelling and grammar to impress people rather than relying on a sleazy name and a sexy avatar, and people will start treating you with a little more respect.
151586
I think they are asking you if you prefer to be referred to as Ms, Miss, Mrs, or Mr
1096181
It can swing either way.  If you're tackling a tough situtation, for instance you are trying to mediate a problem between two people and it's like brokering a peace treaty for World War 2, then it's a compliment.  However, if you're picking a fight just to pick a fight, it's an insult.  For example, suppose you are training someone on the job that you don't like, and maybe your coworkers don't like them either.  Suppose that the person doesn't get what you're trying to teach them, and you subsequently call them an idiot.  That's masochism, because it's inviting another person to throw a few punches at you (mental or physical).\n\nIn short, masochism is inviting mental or physical pain onto yourself.  Depending on the context of which you are making the invitation, it can be either a compliment or an insult.
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Many words inspire me to love or smile.  But my husband calls me baby and for the first time, he called me "my lover".  Very sexy and touching.  I could get used to it after almost 8 yrs of marriage.  Whoopee.
801691
I would give her one. She was my fave Spice Girl back in the day, and now she is a proper milf.
311300
here's a little secret. if you have a pet name that your wife thinks is special to her, than it makes it very unspecial when you call other people it. sounds silly but women feel insecure very easily. reinforce that you say it to women you respect and feel are equals to you intellectually and as good people, than let her know you didn't realize how it hurt her to feel like her pet name wasn't special only for her. than say your sorry and you love her and respect her feelings and wish her to feel secure with you, so you'll try your best to not do it again. than give her a big hug and kiss and listen to her talk for a while with any concerns and basically repeat what you just said with a few changes so you don't sound like a recording. don't make her feel that her feelings are invalid or stupid or silly, they're her feelings and that's all that matters. respect her for having trust in you to share them with you.
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its nice when my wife makes comments about my physique or the clothes i wear or my cologne.\nbut the one that really gets me is quiet simple, it's when she tells me how much she loves me. i live for her as she deos for me, and as sappy as it may seem, thats all that really matters. her love. what better way to let the one you love know how appreciated they are. \nthe words 'i love you'. is there really a better compliment?