which is better take her home to meet mom or show her where i hang out?
479706
Take her home to meet your mom.
108042
I would take the train if you can. It could be cheaper and faster (overall), and then you'll arrrive in the city and won't have to worry about getting to Baltimore from the airport. Easier to sneak up on her that way! Trains also run almost every hour into the night so getting back home will be easy too.
69166
Alright, I believe that's 2 questions. Pretty smart way to conserve on points. Well as for the 1st, I'd say that's it's probably time to find a new boyfriend. As for the other, Maybe mom would be happier if she did'nt see you waiting around the house for a week wondering what up with the boyfriend.
558943
i guess u shld to speak to ur mom abt y u want to move n assure her dat u will b finen wont break her trust... u hav become quite responsible to take care of urself......\nalso tell her dat u will come to meet her regularly itz not  dat u r going somewhere forever.....\ni guess u shld sit down wid ur mom n speak n expalin her in ur best ways u can......\nAnd also asks her whts the reason she forbidding u from moving out.....then u can explain her on da basis of wht she is worried abt....
791833
Why don't you take her out to eat, then while your eating, ask her where she'd like to go. Making her own desision will brighten her perfect day. She'll love it!!!
545993
If I were you, I would comply and ask.  Just go over there and visit to start with.  Surely her parents aren't that strict that she can't have "friends" over.  The more they see of you I'm sure the more comfortable they will be.  Also from what you described, she appears to be the oldest.  Most parents are protective of their first born.  They will eventually have to cut the apron strings.  Be brave, if you don't step up and do this, someone else will.
1072116
Girl let it go, that is your decision and your house with your boyfriend. If you did not want to see extra company you have every right to express it and make her pick the children back up. \n\nMy suggestion: Make it a house rule that if the children want spend the night guest over on the weekend they can spend that weekend with there mother. Why because your request is not outrageous, this will keep sh*t down in the future. You may have to revise stuff and add more rules but hey that is your dwelling.
988236
i think she may like you, but is possibly a little confused on how to proceed since you two have been friends for a long time. If you like her, i think you should start dropping hints back to her, but start it out slow. ask her for her cell number. when you wrote that she might have wanted you to call her, and then said her mom wouldnt like you calling the house, that might have also meant she wanted you to call her on her cell. i hope this helps a little.
637250
While I'm not sure why you are living with your ex still (there probably is a good reason), having him bring over a "date" is the epitomy of low. At the same time, you being there while she is there is an accident waiting to happen. I know you may not like the idea of leaving your own home, but it might be the safest thing to do. Afterwards, have a conversation with him about how you aren't comfortable with him bringing over a "date" until the two of you move out.
872003
I think you should go with #1..he wants you to meet his family! Awesome...and it sounds as though you are going as a date. with #2 it sounds like friends hanging out with friends.
840541
Well you are on the right track you just need to think of it a little more. Dinner yes seems like a date, but how about lunch, lunch is a nice casual thing that friends do, and if you pick the right place it will just seem like you are just hanging out, dont go to a fancy place but dont go to a fast food place. ASnd it all depends on if you are driving, Dont pick her up, cause that is kinda datish, and if you dont drive find a place you might be able to walk to etc. And movies are the same thing go in the day time not in the night time, and it would look as much like a date
33256
How about asking her if you can accompany her? When its getting late, suggest you both go home and spend some time together. Perhaps she'll see that spending time with you is loads more fun than partying with just her friends and seeing you afterwards. If this is a part of her life, become a part of it. Yet, influence it with suggestions for time and consideration. As it works, perhaps going to bars will take a backseat to activities YOU enjoy doing, or just staying home and cuddling on the sofa watching a movie. Take part......and see if this is somethning that could work for you both.
207339
make shore you have a friend with you and let them go first\nor just stay at home
1079055
my mom doesnt allow me to meet up with girls !! \nseriously \nstill havent met !!
158779
It all depends on weather your going to be uncomfortable or peer pressured when your there. And if ypur mom is very strict. So think about the situation and if you know it's not a good thing. Let your mom know, that's if your close to her. If not just have fun with it but don't let your guard down.
668007
Since this is a good friend, she should already know your mom, I wouldn't see any harm in it. Just tell her later that your husband got called out of town so you invited your mom. No big deal. I wouldn't worry about it.
457966
If you really need to be together get the hotel room. But, I think it would be a GREAT gesture on your part to stay with your future mom in-law and abide by her rules. It would show her that you respect her and her rules. Plus it would only be for a few days. You can do it =)