I need some really good ideas for what to do on my wife and my first aniversary. Can you help?
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take her out not just to a restaurant. hows about a candelight dinner for two under the stars, im sure you're wife would like that. coz most women would go for something romantic.
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I know i'm not married, nor a man. but we girls can still help u out tho :p. u don't need to spend much money to do something romantic and special for ur wife, u guys can go on to the roof at night cuddle together looking at the moon and stars and give her a beautiful rose. It'd melt any lady's heart, or just make a special dinner for her. Walk along the beach watching the sun rise would be good enough. There's many ideas u can think of :)\nGood luck, and have fun!
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You should really try an iMemoryBook. It would be a 'book' all about her and her man. \n\nYou could take a notepad and pass it around get everyone to write their favorite memory about the bride and then print them into a book. I did one of these iMemoryBooks last year for my roommate.\n\nI was trying to decide what to give my roommate for his wedding present. After seeing iMemoryBook I came up with a great idea. I convinced Derek and Wendy to write "He said...She said" stories about the way they met and the way they got engaged. Then using iMemoryBook's invitation system I sent invitations to all of his family and friends, in Utah, and all of her family and friends, in California. Then I watched the book grow online. I was amazed at how smoothly this book grew with the iMemoryBook system. Over 70 people got online, viewed and contributed to the book. The final book had over 200 photos, 75 entries(memories), and 100+ pages, iMemoryBook has helped me create something I wouldn't have even imagined possible.
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this is an outstanding idea.  Especilly the part about an escort (or other professional).  Your lady would really love this, it is something all women secretly yearn to do.  Since this is such an incredible dream come true for you lady, why not do it on her birthday, or an anneversary, you will get extra points for being romantic.  \n\nHere is what I suggest.  Get three gallons of some good cooking oil and some big plastic drop clothes.  Hire an escort to wrestle her for the evening.  Tell your lady you re planning a suprise for her birthday (or whatever).  Rent a motel room.  Go there set up the sheets, warm up the oil, and put lots of flowers and candles in there.  Have the escort waiting in some tight sexy clothes, candles lit, music playing.  \n\nTake your lady to the motel, cover her eyes, and take her in the room.  Suprise baby, happy b-day I love you.  She will be incredibly happy, have wrestling with the hooker, and love on you all night in thanks for what you have given her.
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Take lots of pictures, you'll really treasure these later, Take video, too. It's really fun looking back at these...We still do!\nMake it fun! Laugh and talk and enjoy your time together\nLook up restaurants on the computer, that you'd like to try.\nLook up the interesting points to visit in the area, and see them and take video\nHave champagne and bubble baths together ( no photos!) \nDo leisurely things, watch a little tv, go have a cappucino together,  see a play if any in the area, have cocktails, go dancing!\n\n (I'm making myself wish I could run out and get married, just so I could have another honeymoon!;~)\nHave  a  wonderful  and  romantic  Honeymoon!
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something romantic...and memorable... go somewhere nice ... have a nice dinner... i heard of pputting the ring in the wine glass or something but make sure she wouldnt swallow it lol...
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Have you tried a sensual massage? \n\nPlan a romantic night dinner, candles Oh and slip her a note 1 week in advance to have her book the apppointment. \nDont tell her any thing just make sure she will be there. \n\nKeep slipping hints all week long. leave a rose on her desk at work and don't let her see you do it. \nSend her an Email greeting card with naughty idea's \nsend her a blindfold the day before dinner. \n\nthat day leave some oil in her purse with a note. \n"DON"T LOOSE ME YOUR GOING TO NEED THIS" \nThe little hints all week long should have her wet in anticapation. \n\nThat night greet her at the door with a glass of wine. dress up really nice. wear a apron for visual effect " AND TO HIDE YOUR HARDON" have her come into the house and relax. ask her how her day was. maybe have her sit down and while your talking gently rub her feet. \nafter about 15 to 20 min. excuse your self and serve dinner. make it romantic. \nAfter dinner have her go sit down and you go clean up the mess in the kitchen. then go prepare the bedroom. I suggest puting padding on the floor and ALOT of candles around the room but it's up to you. \nNEXT fill the tub with a nice warm bubble bath. try using her fav if possible, if not visit the store and ask a female clerk. just about any thing would work. \nonce the bath is set. go back into the Living room and collect your wife.\n(( first blindfold her)) Then slowly start removing her clothes. DON"t let her help you. take your time and caress her skin, as you remove an item of clothing explore the area with your hands, lips or even use the hair on your head. place gentle kisses on it. After about 30 Min of caressing her lead her into the bathroom. and help her enter the tub. Try to leave the blindfold on if possible. \nNext use a laufa sponge and gently clense her body. make sure you rub it every where. Work on the legs and feet especially. And on her back, but and scalp. Hopefully the water will stay warm for about 30 min. Spend 15 min. washing her down. then let her relax for the next 15 min. in the mean time warm up the OIL. and prepare the room for the massage. make sure the tempature is above 80 degree's for her comfort. OH and have wash clothe handy siting in cool water.  \nnow go back to the bathroom and collect your wife. dry her off and leave the blindfold in place. or replace it with a dry one. =) Gide her into the room, and have her lay face down. warm your hands up and place them on her back for a moment and just pause. count to 50 slowly and just focus on the though of relaxation. \n\nNOW place some warm oil in your hands gently spread the oil to cover her back. work slowly and gentle into the muscles. Do not put any pressure on her spine this only hurts instead work the muscles next to the spine. and along the shoulder blades. The move to the feet and work up the legs. \nas you reach the hips. gentle caress her eroginious zones, then move back down and slide up slowly again. once you have worked the leg work on the Butt area of that leg. \nbe careful with the oil. around her vagin* but feel free to touch her around the *nus. GENTLY at this point "LISTEN" to seee if she is comfortable or does not like this. DO NOT insert your finger into the *nus just rub around it. Now move back to the other leg and repeat the same sequence. \n\nonce finished have her roll over.\nRemove the blindfold and place the cool clothe on her eyes\nnow work from the legs up. once you reach the "Y" stop and work the other leg. then move to arms into the breast. and finish with the stomach. and vagin* \nAllow her an orgams now and once she is finished move to her head and give a scalp massage. this will allow her to calm down. \n\nAfter this see what happens. \n\nGL mate\nGod Bless
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Try to find out what her favorite things to do are and then surprise her and plan a day or night filled with those things. I.e. hiking, ice skating, going to a museum, watching her favorite movie, cooking, ordering in, or taking out for her favorite meal...or make a little memory scrap book with pictures of the two of you and ticket stubs etc. from places you went together. Send her a letter or card as a surprise in the mail (snail mail). For my bf's b-day I made a treasure hunt....I wrote his first clue out & put it on his car window before he saw me. Then the next clue was to go to the local library and look in a particular section & open a particular book for the next clue/direction (pick a book that most people wouldn't be interested in to make sure it won't be checked out by the time she gets there). I taped another clue in a store window etc. I had like 8 clues in different public areas and then the last clue should lead her to her present. Or go out on a hike and take pictures together outdoors, make her something oringinal i.e. a cd, a meal, something artistic etc. Make her a care package with some of her favorite things in it. Pick up on little details, things that are important to her and do them.  Some of these things take planning but it's worth it to see the smile on her face....good luck.
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Think about what she would like not what you would like to show her. I would guess she would want to get dressed up on her birthday so take her out to dinner have flowers at your table at dinner waiting for her with a card that says something heart felt. Then take her back to your place  have a small cake and champagne  on the table when you walk in. Get some rose petals  spread them from the living room to the bed room were you can have your cello set up and put her bracelet wrapped in a small box on the bed. First pour her some champagne and have her make a wish and blow out her candles on her cake. Then cut her a small piece of cake and tell her to follow the rose petals in 5 min. Mean while you go to the room light some candles get dressed in a bow tie and some boxers and wait for her. when she comes in hand her the box and while she opens it start playing your cello. I think she will be pretty impressed
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How cool that a GUY is asking a question like this.  Hats off to you, bro.  You sound like a real romantic.  This being the case, why not break the mold?  Don't just go to WalMart, and pick something up for her - CREATE an afternoon for her!  I did this for my wife on our first anniversary.\nCreate a custom day-spa for her, made up of all kinds of things that she likes to do, print it up, and give it to her.  An example would be:\n\n9:00am - Tennis at the courts where we met\n10:00am - Go for a walk & talk about our dreams\n11:00am - Spend some time playing with her little sister\n12:00pm - Customize picnic in the park, featuring her favorite sandwich\n1:00pm - Non-sexual backrub on the beach (women really dig "non-sexual" affection - it makes them feel loved and comfortable, as opposed to a tool that you are using to meet a need)\n\nYou get the idea.  Finish it all off by cooking her a special dinner.  Even if it doesn't taste that great, she'll love the fact that you thought enough of her to get a cookbook from the library, and arrange a candlelight dinner!  The key to the whole day is to focus your concerns on her needs.  Stay away from expecting anything in return from her.  Make this day about making her feel like a princess.\n\n*Also, as a side note, something that I did with my wife because I could tell early on that she was the one...secretly start a journal.  Write down loving thoughts that you have about her (and DATE every entry).  Write down notes about things that you do together & dates that you have.  Continuously write down why you love her, and why you are so excited to be with her.\nThen, on your wedding night, GIVE IT TO HER AS YOUR WEDDING GIFT!  I was SO glad that I had done it.  My journal was packed with stuff that I had long forgotten about, and she absolutely melted!
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Start light :)\n\nSmile at her. Tell her you are going for a nice evening walk and ask her if she wants to come with you. In that order. Repeat often~  \n\nAlso, if you have a small yard or a park nearby Bocci Ball is a fun way to get yourselves standing, bending and walking back and forth in the open air. It's a good low impact activity (like a quiet sexy elegant italian version of bowling) that could inspire more physical fun in your day to day life. If you have kids they can join in. It's so fun. If she won't play sober add a glass of wine to the invite. She'll like that. And one glass of wine a day has health benefits. And can spark romance. Ohh La La. ;) Go for it!\n\nIf you have a yard plant a vegetable garden with her. It's nice light physical work and spiritually healing. You'll be eating more veggies which means more energy, less sleeping.\n\nWalk to restaurants instead of ordering in. If you live in too rural an area to do that, drive to the restaurant but park a few blocks away and walk over.\n\nPose these things as small little daily romantic adventures that you have planned for you and her. These are things you are doing for her, and you as a couple so you can both continue to find joy in being alive and well together for a long time.\n\nMore motivation techniques:\nHold hands, kiss her in the kitchen, hug her in the den. Just small acts of physical affection will make you both feel more energized. Plus the chance that her husband may sweetly flirt with her will make a woman want to do more things to make herself more attractive.
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go back if you guys remember and have what you had on your first date.. like my husband and i go back to Chili's and order a chocolate milshake and southwest egg rolls for lunch then we go out later that night and celebrate with a lil bit bigger dinner. :D  we always have fun doing that.  we usually after dinner go for a walk around a park and sit on the benches and just sit there and hold each other for alil bit.. :D  do whatever you want..  do a picnic at a park, go to an amusement park for the day, baseball game... the list could go on.. it is whatever you are both interested in and kinda make a theme and use it for the whole day.. or even a scavanger hunt adn then surprise him with a nice dinner in the end. :D
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I saw some of your answers and none of them seem to read the part about the party you are both going to. \n\n\n\nWell, how about you write her a poem or love note. you can even put together a cd of songs she likes or that remind her of you. \n\n\nAnother idea is wait until after the party and take her to the place where you met and read her the poem or just hang out with some wine.\n\n\nYou could also plan a picnic for her on another day (with lots of blankets) that will really surprise her.
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Ah...your first wedding anniversary...  did you save the top layer of your wedding cake in the freezer?  Don't forget to eat it!  :)\n\nThe first year of marriage is often considered the year of adjustment. As you celebrate this special 1st wedding anniversary, reflect on the both the delicate and hardy aspects of your marriage and of your love for one another.\nHere are some first wedding anniversary ideas and symbols to help you choose paper or clock gifts associated with your 1st marriage anniversary.\n\n\n1st Anniversary Traditional Gift: Paper. It symbolizes the strength in paper that comes from the interlaced connection of the paper's individual threads.\n\n1st Anniversary Contemporary/Modern Gift: Clocks. Henry Van Dyke wrote, "For those who love, time is eternity."\n\n\n1st Anniversary Gemstone: Gold Jewelry, Pearl, or Peridot\n\n1st Anniversary Color: Gold or Yellow\n\n1st Anniversary Flower: Orange Blossom or Pansy. \n\nThe meaning of a pansy is that the receipient is being thought about. The pansy's name comes from the French word pensée which means thought or remembrance. \nThe meaning of an orange blossom is purity, innocence, eternal love, marriage and fruitfulness, and fertility.\n\n\nWays to Celebrate Your 1st Anniversary: \nEat the top layer of your wedding cake.\n\nPurchase tickets for a movie, sports event, concert, theatre, etc. to attend together. \n\nPlan a picnic with paper plates and cups. If you saved any of these items from you wedding reception, use them!\n\nHave a paper treasure hunt for your spouse. Leave clues throughout the house that eventually lead to a romantic location.\n\nUse paper flowers for a centerpiece for your anniversary dinner. Or use the dried bouquet from your wedding.\n\nGift Suggestions to Purchase for Your 1st Anniversary: \nAn anniversary journal to record your memories of your anniversaries throughout your marriage. You may think that you will never forget how you celebrated your anniversaries, but the chances are you will! Write down how you spent your anniversary together, and what gifts you gave to one another.\n\nPurchase a framed share of stock in a major company that has meaning to the both of you. \n\n\nStationery.\n\nPostcards.\n\nCalendar.\n\nMagazine subscription.\n\nJigsaw puzzle.\n\nPaper weight.\n\nBook.\n\nArt print.\n\nSheet music.\n\nRoad map describing a trip to take together.\n\nEgg timer.\n\nKitchen timer.\n\nWrist watch.\n\nOutdoor sundial.\n\nGift Suggestions to Make for Your 1st Anniversary: \nStuff a pinata or pretty box with new paper money, confetti, love note, book on romance, magazine, love coupons, paper flower, picture of the two of you, etc.\n\nLove note.\n\nLove coupons.\n\nPrint tickets for a movie night and watch your wedding video.\n\nTime Capsule Ideas for Your 1st Anniversary:\nFact Monster\nNew York Times\nInfo Please\nHistory channel\nOn This Day\nMovies by Years
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That is really sweet of you.  He is very lucky to have a great girl like you to take care of him on his b-day!  Sounds like you have done good with the dinner and webcam so far.  What else can you do for him?  Well, I believe the obvious would of course be providing him with some one-on-one personal entertainment later in the evening, perhaps with some new fun toys, outfits, or something.  But besides that, you could buy him something cool for his car (if he is into that kind of thing), or maybe some jewelry (if he wears a chain or earrings).  Cigars and alcohol are always good, since those last a long time, allows him to relax, and he will be thinking of you when he enjoys them.  THose are just my thoughts.  Good luck, and have a great time celebrating with him!
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Something little to let her know that you love her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your wife/ girlfriend back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your wife/ girlfriend/ husband guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill his/ her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money. Hope this helps you. Have fun!
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You should make her like a memory book. Buy a photo album and paste pictures of you and her in it. add fun designs, and colors, and lettering. It's a gift from the heart so she's sure to love it. You can tape old concert tickets, or movie stub tickets in it. or just memories of fun times you've shared together. or you could write her a poem, that's always nice. Either way it means more when it comes from the heart. Good luck to ya.