why would an old, good,mature friend with a steady girlfriend make a physical pass at you?
480884
Given the circumstances, I'd say he was just wanted a quick peice.  If you've been friends that long then I'm sure hes pretty comfortable and confident around you so he saw you as a perfect candidate. He must've been a bit drunk or thought for some reason you would be cool with it(did you invite him to stay the night?) Guys can have a hard time reading signals unfortunatly. But chances are hes pretty embarassed about it now and regrets what hes done. I've seen the most honest guys cheat, just some guys cant control themselves in certain situations. I know I've felt the pressure before, sex is a big deal to alot of guys.
204126
Maybe they have as hard a time approaching the person as you do. Why not cut out the middle man and do it yourself.
1043481
well..one thing is the way they talk to you and also the way their attitude change towards you....then the next thing is that they will avoid you then don't even bother to talk you again...and never regret you as one of hos/her friend.
560888
How rude. She is probably psychic and here your are doubting her? She was just trying to save you from old limp dick.
34094
Because one or both of you are immature.  \nYou need to work on your communication with each other.
1089866
Because you are more muture than them. you may have been in and out of relationships and now relise you are ready to settle down with one person. Another could be that your mates have been hurt by females and just want to have some fun with them, this way they can assure they wont get hurt.
1047403
i was asked to go to a concert once by a beautiful older girl. I thought how lucky. well, she comes and picks me up and she is with another guy who she claims to be a childhood friend. we go to the concert and I separate from them to go to the bathroom. when I come back they are holding hands and whispering to one another. I then, said there is obviously something more going on and he smiles and leans and kisses her. luckily, I had some friends who I knew were at the show so I  called them on their cell and sat with them. I had left my jacket in her car and asked her to wait after the show so I could get it and of course she was long gone when I got to where her car once was. hell, he is prob wearing my jacket right now. ironically i heard she killed herself like a month after that supposed date. needless to say, i got a lot more picky of who i went out with after that.
292180
maybe you are just best friends. when you see each other more and get older you just-- know-- you just know. cant explain it. its amazing though......
600869
Because a guy didn't amke a move for intimacy, she thinks you're either not interested or are too chicken to take that step\n\nThat boat has sailed my friend.
1019996
Because they've been there and done it - good or bad your elders deserve respect.  You may not like the person, personally but he/she deserves your respect if there's a big age difference.  While what Gus brought up may be digusting and distasteful to you - edging a bit on sexual harrassment (if there are any ladies around) - he's an old guy reliving his glory days.  Sorry to burst your bubble but belive me you'll be there a whole lot sooner than you'll ever expect.  Give the old guy a break. When you grow up you'll understand.
6991
They usually act nice towards you because they don't want you to kow that they are cheating.  They also ask you if you've been cheating because subconciously, they are preoccupied with the thought of cheating.<---Just my personal opinion.
38311
Because to them, you are like one of the guys or maybe like one of their sisters.  They might not see you as relationship material. \n\nOr they are just rude.\n\nTake your pick.
788827
ive dealt with this problem many times...if you like the friend dont say anything to add to the problem if you dont like the friend then bang his old lady
1175034
from a 25 year olds opinion,yes. its because there was an intimacy. like a lost best friend. its normal. i often wonder how she is and if life is good for her even though i havent seen her in 8 years.
791791
Trust me it happens with older women as well, and not surprisingly there are some men who experience settling for second best instead of being patient. The root of the problem is while we want to have a successful career, money in the bank, a big fine house, and the 2.0 children, we don't want to wait until the right person comes along who feels the same way about certain things in life as we do. Therefore, we settle for someone far less mature and serious about life than what we had intended because we don't want to be alone. We hate being alone, we hate spending time with ourselves, we can't stand the quiet. For some reason we believe that it is easier to be with anybody than with nobody.
387485
Sometimes when you are always the person that has to give an give and give and never gets anything back directly, it's almost just a needy way of being with someone and was almost a waste of time. If you helped someone out and even if it didn't work and you two still are friends, well I'd say congratulations. One of the few that had to give everything and still felt like they won in the end. That's pretty mature really.
398094
HAHAHAHAHAH....that was funny,,,its because ur getting older and u know sooner or later these chiks will be out of ur legue.u always get attractive towards what u cant have that easily.its human nature.