what would you say to a counselor that want's to help you about killing yourself?
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tell them everything and every detail. you are very lucky to have someone to talk with you befor any thing bad happened. i was not that lucky and had no one to talk with until i did something that i will regret for the rest of my life.
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Why? Are you trying to kill yourself?
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I want you to remember something okay?  suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.  no matter what the situation, it is not worth ending your life over.  and alcohol is only going to make things worse because it's a depressant.  so it's going to make you more depressed.  please leave it alone.  and please don't cut.  I know you feel like it helps, but in the long run it only hurts you.  you are worth so much more than you think you are.  and you matter.  sweetheart, God loves you, and He will give you the strength you need to get through whatever problems that you may face in your life.  and He will get you through this difficult time in your life now.  you say that you have no where to turn, and you can't get your medication.  the thing that you need to do right now is to go to the emergency room at the nearest hospital and tell someone that you need help and why you need it.  you won't be turned away in your condition.  they will get you the help that you need getting your medications and everything.  they will also appoint you a social worker who will help you and give you support.  your social worker can also help you by checking into places for you to live, getting your medications for you, and getting you into support groups where you can discuss your issues with others who are going through what you are going through.\nplease go to the hospital now, and ask for help.  just don't worry about anything, it will all be taken care of.  you just concentrate on getting better.\nand remember what I said, God loves you, and He has a purpose for your life even though you may not be able to see it right now.  you are loved.  and I will keep you in my prayers.
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Rivern, you need to find someone to talk to. I have looked at your other questions and answered your one on suicide. Now I am getting seriously disturbed by you.  Let me tell you something:\n\nOn this site, it is hard or really impossible to know when someone is on the level or is playing us on here for fools and then laughing as we earnestly try to help.  Myself, I have been burnt several times by kids doing this, from crying "rape" to threatening suicide as you have done.  It is tempting to lump you into that category b/c your questions seem so improbable. You appear to be handicapped, motherless, with a distant, unloving father who gives you shots that hurt you and doesn't seem to care. Also you have given the impression that your mother died giving birth to you and that is why your father hates you.  You also say that you love to read.  Frankly, this all "reads" like fiction.\n\nBut on the off chance that even if the details are made up or embellished by you, that you are quite lonely and wonder what you are here on earth for, I want to tell you this one thing:  God has a purpose for you and that is why you are here. That is why you are the YOU you are. No one else is like you. No one else has your experiences, your unique outlook on life, and no one else is going to do in this life what you are going to do. We all have a necessary part to play while we are here, and you will play your part, too.\n\nSo, get ready for life. Learn all you can. Be a friend to whomever you can befriend. Be a good child to your parent(s), and a good neighbor, and a good student.  Look for opportunities to help those who are less fortunate than you, and you will see, they ARE out there. You are not the worst off person in the world.\n\nTry hard to stop feeling sorry for yourself and to rejoice in the day that the Lord has made. Every day has some moment that is beautiful. You just have to look for it. Stop looking for what is bad, and look for what is good. Be the sunshine in the lives of people around you, not the raincloud. Don't remind them of their failings, help them to see their successes.\n\nKeep reading. Read the classics, like Captains Courageous by Rudyard Kipling--that is a great adventure story and a wonderful coming of age story of a spoiled young boy.\n\nBe happy, child. You are loved. Look--you have a computer, don't you? Someone cared enough about you to let you have access to this wonderful machine, to get you the ability to read and write! Make lemonade today out of life's lemons. C'mon, you can do it.\nLove,\nDHW
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see your guidince counselor they can help
535851
No, Don't commit suicide. there is some who's :-W for you. Please if you feel like you need some one that you talk with contact me.
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I am a therapist and my first recommendation is that you call a suicide hotline for a referral to your local mental health center.  The national number is 800-784-2433.  If you are feeling like you want to hurt yourself and that life is unliveable, please go to the nearest hospital emergency room and tell them what is going on.  I know that right at this moment your world looks dark and hopeless, but please have faith that it won't be like that forever.  You took the first step in asking for help here, please take the next step in getting more personal help for you locally.
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Call 911 to get in contact with a suicide hotline. Then follow up with the appointment they make for you at your local mental health clinic. There is no shame in doing so, and is doesn't mean you are "crazy"...just a little confused. Do it now if you are thinking about hurting yourself. I mean RIGHT THIS MINUTE! AS SOON AS YOU FINISH READING THIS.
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I'm a male registered nurse. I wish I could help. \n\nContinue to talk with her... In this way, you are already helping the person because she gets to express her feelings which is therapeutic so that she will not consider any plan to kill herself. Let her cry...that's good.\n\nDetermine her plan of suicide. If she mentions about suicide, ask her directly if she has a plan or what is her plan.By knowing her suicide plan...you can prevent it from happening.\n\nRemove any sharp materials or ropes, belts, knife, pins, or just about anything that could harm her. I had experience with a patient who is commiting suicide using his own underwear. He wrapped it around his neck. But it was prevented.\n\nJust keep nearby so that she can call you when suicide thoughts are going back. Seek the help of the family members to watch her.\n\nGo to a psychiatrist and he can recommend for a court order for hospitalization if he thinks it's necessary. If you think that you friend has not been eating, bathing, or doing normal activities of the day...the more you should call.\n\nThe pills she is taking usually do not work until after 2--3 weeks of continuous taking. I'm assuming she is taking antidepressants such as Prozac, Tofranil, Imipramine, zoloft...\n\nfor more details....\nIM me now thru yahoo messenger: fire_syringe@yahoo.com
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you were very rude to her... you better call and say you are sorry for what you told her\neven if she is not going to kill herself.. \nnever say bad words to others ... it will hurt so badly and sometimes never get better.
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Depends on how serious I think that person is. If she/he sounds pretty serious to me, if I think it is a cry for help else than being a joke then I would get her/him to a professional. But if it is just depression talking I would try to cheer that person up and make him/her see how beautiful life is and death is not.
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Tell an adult, counselor, teacher, parent.  Break the trust, its time.  Suicide is no joke.
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not enough.\n\nhere is a link-http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2003/dec/01/campus_counselors_seeing/\n\nWhen I was at IU living in a dorm..my neighbor became depressed over dosed attempting suicide...no one knew for several days...then she told a friend who reported her to the RA ...she locked herself in her room...then she was instructed, mind you this was now a week after the attempted suicide, to go get checked at the uni hosp. or she would not be allowed to graduate.\n\nWell she went to the hospital and they simply signed her chart that she was OK...no psych. consult nothing.\n\nI have a prediction that something is now inherently wrong with the way we live now and mental illness with cause our demise.  I don't mean to be sounding so dreary here...but I meet only people each day at my office who are mentally ill....I know like 2 people who have healthy minds free of psychosis or neurosis or depression or paranoia....good luck
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I know every singly one of these answers is going to tell you to get help, and I know that is the one thing you don't want to hear, but it's what you need to do. If you feel like you can take it straight to your parents then do, but if not take it to a school counselor. Trust me, they've heard this before and it won't be anything new to them; they will know what to do to help you get through this. They want to help you get through this, ok? But you know what the good news is, it just sounds like a case of bad depression! Nothing more! And depression is treatable. I understand that you may feel like you have to cut, and while I don't like it I agree that it is a better option than suicide SO make sure you use clean blades, etc. and keep the cut clean until it heals. No one is going to be able to help you tell anyone else about this so you are going to have to do it on your own. It doesn't even have to be a parent or counselor. It could be anyone you trust. Prefereably an adult, but you could tell a kid and ask them to take it to an adult if that was easier. Any way you do this you are going to be ending up dealing with adults. There is no way around that, but if you tell them yourself at least you get to pick an adult you trust and that you feel comfortable around. Things can get better if you'll let them, but it's probably going to take some work. I wish you sooooo much luck and send tons of love. Know that you're not alone, there are other people with the same problems who have gotten through this.
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get professional help. counselling.
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She thinks you are bluffing it.\nIf you feel like killing yourself call a suicide prevention line
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That depends. Is this a relative, a friend, someone your dating, a child, teen. adult...? Not to be nosy but it really does effect how to do this. If it's a child or teen, tell one of there parents (assuming the parents aren't the reason this kid is cutting themselves) If its someone you go to school with then talk to a counselor. \nI am assuming that this person told you what they are doing and your not just guessing that this is going on. Have you tried talking to this person about seeking professional help. You would be shocked to know how many people hurt themselves and to what extent the damage they cause can go so it is important that in the end they see someone about this. If you are close to this person offer to go to therapy with them if that makes them more comfortable. Do some outside research on the reasons why people do this and ask your friend why they do. A little more info would be handy if you want more precise answers.