How do you know when it is time to give up your virginity?
487629
Do yu want to remember this particular guy all your life?  Because you will remember the guy you f^ck for the first time all your life.  When u find a guy you want to remember...then go for it..
473452
If you've waited until your 30's to have sex, then yes, I'd say to wait until marriage.\n\nI didn't lose my virginity until 31, and I have a few regrets.  I waited until I found a woman I loved and had the intention of marrying.  She had a few partners before she met me, and got scared at the level of commitment I was asking for.  That meant I lost my virginity to a woman who left me -- and then started sleeping with someone else not even a week later.\n\nEven though I've only been with one woman now, I want to wait until I get married.  I realize I can always have sex with anyone, but I want to wait until I can make love to someone.  I find I can't be incredibly passionate unless I know the person I'm with can truly appreciate the intensity of those emotions.
292212
It may hurt a little at first but dont let fear stand between you and the person you love. Once your virginity is gone though its gone forever so chose wisely. The emotional pain of a poor choice with last far longer than the pain of your first time.
8885
Being your first is a great priviledge for a man, so just make sure that he deserves it. And you have to be old enough to understand all the possible consequences of a sexual relationship: children, deseases and all that fun stuff. Just don't think that your virginity is something you have to get rid of until a sertain age or else...
467643
It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at 20.....my advise??? Wait till you've found the right person for you.Somewhere out there is someone for you...find this person first, it is worth the wait, believe me.
190935
I was a virgin until I was 25. Then that situation was happily remedied.\n\nI think that life is a lot more than just sex. Obviously, sex is something we all desire. And, we do deserve at some point to experience that joy. It can seem like it will never happen when you go so long before you finally "get some", but for some of us, things just have to fall into place first. \n\nMy suggestion isn't the same as those freaks that just say "let it happen naturally"... I had to realize that I was getting older and it wasn't happening for a reason. It wasn't them - it was me. And, the best thing is, the only thing I can change is ME.\n\nYou can change yourself. Some things you can't change, but some things you can. Make an effort to have more FRIENDS of the female gender. Be a genuine friend. Don't guilt them over not having sex with you, don't pressure them to date you. You can start out just by being nice to random ones you meet (work, college, etc). Be positive around them. Even if inside you are still bitter - only let the positive out. Eventually someone will appreciate your effort, even if she sees through it. Effort earns a lot of points. Things will fall into place.
1022683
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
430470
Why are you in a hurry to have sex? You have something that you can only give away once, so why not save it for someone who has also thought enough of themselves to save their first time for you? There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin...ever! Waiting for that special someone it the ultimate sacrifice. Think of how great a wedding present you could both give each other. One that could never be bought with any amount of money. You would also not have to wonder how many partners you are now sharing with the one you love. I'm sure you'll get many suggestions about appropriate ages. But you are putting your future into the hands of strangers, many of whom don't have your best interests at heart. Many will tell you to follow your heart & do whatever feels right. But feelings come and go. What you have can only be given once, then it's gone. Once you give it away, something seems to happen, deep inside your soul. It doesn't seem as important any more. You end up giving it up to your feelings, using it to get what you want. That's not what you were made for. Yes, I know I sound old fashioned. But, I was once where you are, even though I'm a gal. I wish that I had never made that first decision to give away what was supposed to be saved for the one I would eventually give my heart to. Please consider what you're doing before committing yourself to giving this special gift away. Be careful with your heart. <*)))><
265553
Hey I'm a virgin too and had to go through the same thing as you. Just be open with him, tell him you're not ready. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do. Although in todays society people act like their virginity is nothing special, it really is. If you wait until you're married or truly in love sex will be a whole lot more meanigful. If he still pressures you to have sex, stop dating him. He isn't worth losing your virginity over.
251402
I was 14, on the floor of my ex's mother's travel agency. I dont regret it for a minute. I had fun. It was fun. But you should do it when it feels right to you. Dont listen to us, what we did might or might not be right for you. YOu will know when you want to loose your virginity. And remember its not the age, its not the time its when it feels right to you. Whatever you do, be safe, and be cautious, and make sure that you NEVER EVER regret anything that you do. Otherwise, remember it won't be fun the first time; and it might even hurt! So, be careful. And just enjoy the moment!
463072
If you give away something special then your virginity is lost. Virginity is more than penetration.
277483
no no no. you SHOULD be a virgin at the age of 17. i'm 16 and i'm still a virgin, planning on saving myself for until after i get married. sex is a symbol of love between a husband and a wife. it's not something you give to just anyone. be proud of such a thing and try to keep it until AFTER you're married. i think that when you do finally get with that right person, it'll make it much more of a special moment than if you do it before.
508460
it depends on what your reason for being a virgin is.  if you are saving it for the ONE then keep him at arms length until you think he is the ONE.  if virginity doesnt matter to you then I'd evaluate if he's really the kind of guy youd want to lost it to, keep in mind its an emotional experience and lots of guys can be dicks.  i personally waited for my husband and its the best decision i ever made. and dont forget to make him wear a condom, you dont want to get cooties your first time!
647911
Yes, of course. I am willing to wait until I get married. A lot of my friends have lost their virginity two years ago or when we were 14/15/16 and they definitely regretted it. I told them not to but they didn't listen. But I guess it's just that most teenagers just do it to express themselves or release anger/frustration/sadness/whatever and they don't care what they are doing anymore.
872575
i am an 18 yr. old female who is still a virgin as well, and i totally charash it. it is the most preshes thing to me. being a  virgin(keeping your verginity tell your married) is very rare now days. and trust me i have had many chances to brake it several times, but i just cant do that because i would be just like all the other people. i might even end up with an unwanted pregancy, std's, aids, the shame of loosing your verginity to someone who you really dont love and care to spend time with every day of your life, for the rest of your life, ect..... i could go on all night and day listing things but i wont.\nI also agree with you. i would charish it tell your married and have that be your first time. hopefually that will be her first time too. and that way you both will have something special to look forward to, and you wont really have a clue if your bad or good the first time. stay strong and keep your virginity. i know that it's hard but its possible. dont let people bolly you into it. I personally would prefure someone who is still a virgin when i marry him. best of luck. remember if you have sex just one time their is no being a vergin again.
214121
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I kept it because I thought it was what God would want me to do. Once I lost it, I almost became a nympho. I felt I had to make up for lost time. All of my friends were out getting laid and partying and now they still think of me as the nerd. You might as well know that one day, sex is going to be a huge part of your life...for the rest of your life so when you feel the time is right, I say go for it. Don't be a slut, but for that person you have feelings for, go for it.
193262
There's no "right" age to lose our virginity, just the right moment to lose it, and that's when you're prepared in all senses.