who else here is in a relationship with a phony person my"bf"is nice and outgoing but mean to us me/kids
491769
me i do i have learned to live with it oh god its so hard isnt it i think i saty because even though hes so fake he takes care of us and he buys us everything we  want that sounds selfish but its true i wish you luck i hope i can get the courage you have and try to get out i want to be happy again too
651182
he sounds More of a annyoing little brother then a real boyfriend!! break it up!! tell him you can't stand it anymore!! IF HE CAN'T BE MATURE THEN FIND SOMEONE WHO CAN BE!!! Good Luck!!
486505
afraid of wht? is ur bf a monster ? lol
89352
yes, I guess I like the thugish type of guys. I was going out with a real gentleman when I seen this sexy thug type of guy in the mall...Sadly I cheated on my boyfriend with this guy for a week(no sex)...broke up with my original boyfriend...went out with this guy...dated him for a year...found out he cheated on me and had a baby with another girl...completly wrong place...the sad thing is, is that I still have feelings for him and I'm finding it hard  saying "no" to him about getting back togather...man!!!!
460589
Do you really need anyone to answer this question? He's a douche bag and doesn't deserve either of you. Why would you want to be with someone who lies to you and is seeing someone else? I know it can be hard because at least your feelings are pure and honest but it will never work when this jerk only thinks of himself. He might be 26 and you might be considerably younger, but let's face it I have seen 10 year old boys act more mature then this moron. Your young and you have many years to find someone else, so don't waste your time on him because that great guy who will treat great and be the love of your life might pass you by. Think about your child too, would you want him to be a role model for them or to learn about relationships by seeing the abuse that he is putting you through? This man clearly does not know your worth and hopefully you do and will be smart enough to pursue a life without him. It might be hard to be on your own but its probably alot lonlier being with a scumbag like him. Take care and I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision that you make.
145428
my ex-boyfriend, he is not just a jerk he is a complete a$$hole p*ssy a$$ b*tch and i hate him with all my heart, he made my life a living hell
754448
well i definatley dont have that kind of boyfriend my boyfriend is the ghetto type he treats me like shit but he loves me is seems like all the gurls love the bad boys
651225
Luk , gurl.... every relationship isn't purrfect!!!!!\nI would call myself mentally retarded if I had left him!!!!
493413
I sort of not like having a bf. People are so complicated and dishonest these days that it is hard to know who to trust. Right now I only have one person to trust and that is God. I just trust one day that He will send me the right bf!...lol...God Bless You!
569038
i know how you feel b/c i can never stay with the same person for a long time. the guys talk about what ever and dont care about me or what i think. if your were a nice guy who did care, i probably could get attached
206775
funny story...i once did this to my ex. we talked for ever online and he didn't kow it was me. he suspected it but never knew for sure. i causght him in some pretty big lies. he lead "me" to believe he was single and mentioned nothin of our son. (he had 3 children and only said he had 2) he also mentioned meeting up and things like that. that told me all i needed to know as far as what i was thinkin he was up to online all night. so in my opinion no you didn't take it too far
1159993
maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.
955774
Don't bother. It's not your problem. You need to get rid of your boyfriend. If he is going to take a crack heads side over yours it's not worth it. Get them out of your life and let them deal. Cut your losses and move on. If you're bipolar you have your own issues to worry about rather than crackheads and crappy boyfriends. Call CPS, they will investigate and take her kids away (hopefully). Then tell them to f*** off and move the f*** on.
1080907
there is not an exact time it changes by the type of your relationship but if you totally believe him you should met your kids with him, at the first your kids may not like him but believe me kids can sometimes adopt easilier than the adults. good luck :)
815897
Maybe you have deeper problems in your relationship that you don't want admit. Are you sure is everything ok with your bf? Sometimes we use to substitute a relationship with another 'cause we know there's something wrong, so, in your case, I think you need to think about the whole situation and be honest to yourself. Maybe it would help if you look for some professional advice. Good luck, God bless!
498439
You need to convince the other person that your relationship is the best thing for your girlfriend or boyfriend. making them believe both of you would never be happy with anyone Else. try to discredit the other person indirectly so someone else points out to your significant other how deceiving they are. Careful thought and being graceful, without showing any jealousy,is very important in your endeavor.\nIf you have any of the characteristics of the people in the list below, these issues need to be resolved first.\n    *   The person who says one thing but means the opposite.\n    * The man who acts passive but aggressively gets his own way by not doing what is wanted.\n    * The boss who squelches his anger then strikes out indirectly. (Perhaps by withdrawing.)\n    * The woman who says yes when she means no; then gets cold feet and refuses to follow through.\n    * The teenager who agrees up front then doesn't do what he agreed to.\n    * The client who schedules an appointment but does not show up.\n    * The person who fears self assertion and confrontation, but says no by sidestepping responsibility.\n    * Anyone in the family who creatively gets out of doing his or her part of the chores.\n    * The Mr. Nice Guy who puts on the sweet face to agree, then does what he darn well pleases.\n    * The student who procrastinates with studying and does poorly in school.\n    * The parent who refuses to discipline the children and insists on the spouse being the ‘heavy.'\n    * The bored housewife who refuses to clean the house or cook for her family.\n    * The person who refuses to hear criticism, discuss his problems or read books about the issue.\n    * The dad who pushes one child hard but allows the other child to get out of responsibility.\n    * The not ready to be committed man wanting someone there for him but feels entitled to his freedom.\n    * Any individual who spends his effort into under achieving in school, in relationships and in life! \n\nRelationships require good maintenance. Just Do your best, if thats not good enough, maybe it's time to move on.\n\nGood luck
246552
I feel for you, thats a tough spot to be in. However any man who doesn't want to get close to your kids isn't worth your time no matter how great he treats you. It might be a sign that he doesn't want to commit as much as you want.... any man who truely loves you would want to be part of your life in everyway, and your kids are a big part.