Sometimes I get upset at my girlfriend because she hardly agrees with me on serious issues. Why?
485561
You can't make someone agree with you--maybe you two don't have anything in common.  Do you give her cause to think you're cheating?  If not, better to find someone else who doesn't have trust issues.
446326
It takes time ,but if u agree that u r wrong for the time being,it will make her think for a while.It gives two opportunities\n 1.Fight over\n 2.You can talk about it freely
1013
Something seems to be missing in your story--or your girlfriend is schizoid.  But seriously, it isn't really normal to fight every week, so possibly she is still angry about whatever it is you guys have been fighting about.  I would think about the tone you may have had when you asked her to clean, I imagine you were upset because she wasn't helping, and that may have set her off.  If you want to save your relationship talk to her like an adult to an adult and try to figure out how to resolve your problems in a positive way.  Try to avoid accusatory and patronizing statements.  You two are probably just having trouble adjusting to living together.  Good Luck
439358
Honey, relationships are all about dealing with each other's problems and yeah...getting into fights.  I have dated my current boyfriend for 14 months, and we are just now starting to talk through our problems without getting all upset at each other.  If you really love her, you need to just work through stuff because it will all work out if it is really meant to be.
309219
it's because girlfriends don't worry about you as much.. they aren't necessarily going to be with you for the rest of your life.. what you do has not much affect to them.. and so it does not matter as much what they think. At that time.. it's what you think that matters most. Once you marry.. the wife plays a very important part in your life.. every decision will affect her.. she worries about you and about the family.. she's trying to seek the best in everything.. trying to make things right.. trying to see what the best choices are for you, her and the family.. She's not neccessarily critiscing.. you have to look at it from her point of view as well as your own.. vice versa.
867490
TOUGH LOVE.  make realize that she does have a problem, that needs to be handled.  If she really does care about your opinions she will listen to you. If she doesn't she'll tell you to butt out of her business.\n\nIf she does not want to change SHE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU.\n\ni wish the best, and hope everything works out for both of you.
382697
She is dumping her issues on you because you love her, which means you are probably a good listening ear for her. \nI am that way too, I am very sympathetic, but I learned that I need to be somewhat of a hard nose sometimes or at least pretend to be. \n\nI worked with a guy that always complained and was never happy. I was very nice to him and I offered solutions and this and that and none of it worked. Finally I had to say"Look, everytime I talk to you, I have a solution or suggestion for you,but you never think it's a good idea," and I basically asked that if he doesn't want my advice to stop complaining to me, it worked, but he started complaining to other people about what I said to him. LOL!!!!\n\nI know what you mean. The guy I worked with was the exact same way. It also sounds like maybe she should get some counseling, I am serious about that.
500267
Look her in the eye, be interested in HER and her answers, respect that there are things you may not agree on. That is okay....differences are good and keep it friendly. Don't raise your voice unless it is in excitement. If you think you will yell, say you need to leave the room for a moment to gain control and come back when you are able to talk w/o anger...she will think you are the greatest boyfriend she ever had!
329864
HAHAHAHA Thats mine too. I mean dam. Sometimes I see she wants to ask but I aint asking whats wrong man. And then there is the point where she is complaining that I am beating it up and that she is tender and that she wont be able to do it until the end of the week. Its messed up for me man.
615065
If you have to ask someone about this topics, I think chances are that the individual does not care about you enough.  You seem to be insecure about this which may indicate that you have self-esteem issues also.\n\nIf you feel that you are being treated poorly, you need to let your partner know how you expect to be treated.
105980
well I have good news and bad news. If she is angry chances are she still loves you. YOu dont really get upset with people you have no feelings for. The bad news is that nothing can make the pain go away, and if you really love her you always will. But as time passes so will the pain. The two of you can never have a healthy relationship because you have too much history now. So chalk this as a learning experience because maybe thats what it was meant to be.
409450
Yes, you are.  You can be hurt and upset but you have no right to be mad.  She was honest with you and didn't cheat on you.  That is just life and you can't be mad at someone just because you don't like how things turned out.
83203
Chances are, She has self esteem issues. She is jealous of you. She is not happy in her own life. Don't let it bother you. Stay true to yourself, you can't fix her probs.
295777
I would think that it is mostly a self-confidence issue. It is really hard on a person to feel that they must convince their lover that they are happy with them. This can be very detrimental to a relationship. If you doubt your lady's love for you, that hurts her...imagine a negative self image in the converse. If it's an issue to you, you'll probably make it an issue for them. Basically, have faith in yourself and faith in the lady. If they don't respect you, they weren't worth your time anyway.
162116
girls are very proctective of their feelings because they are unsure on how you would respond.but all girls are not like that. most girls will tell you stright foward how they feel, but in your situation your girlfriend is probably afraid that if she tells you the truth that it could hurt your relationship. im sure if you give her time and make her feel comfortable about the situation she will come around and eventually tell you whatever it is.
102932
us woman get upset over the littlest things...you gotta try to talk to her..just say hey i need to know why your upset..if she won't talk to you try writing her a note..put it in her locker or hand it to her..you've got a right for a explanation....could be blowing you off cause she wants to break up whatever the reason she owes you a answer..try talking or the note thing..hope it works out
940287
well, maybe you should talk to her and see what she is mad about.. and see what she dont like about you.. no one can be perfect.... but maybe if you guys can communicate on the phone or in person it would be better