Should I be blamed, am I in the wrong?  All I wrote was how is the pregnancy going?  How are you 2 doing?
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I'm sorry that people can be such jerks when all you were doing is checking up on an ex friend through her boyfriend. Next time, just leave it alone.....
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because it is 6 in the morning and im 41 weeks pregnant. \nnot much else i can do.
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Grannywinkie, Did you see the question I asked just for you earlier today? I haven't heard from you in a bit and am glad to know you're okay. How are you feeling? Do you have something to eat? \n\nLibby
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this is a personal thing for me to discuss, but hey, you asked the question.\n\na few years ago, i gave birth to a baby girl that i knew i couldnt afford to take care of. my ex b/f wouldnt get a job, wouldnt help me at all through my whole pregnancy. when i was about 6 months pregnant, i found a wonderful family to adopt her. the mother had always wanted to have a little girl they have 3 boys (GREAT kids) and after thath she was unable to conceive. so i began talking to her on a daily basis, they flew me to the state they lived in to give birth to their daughter. the whole time i was in the hospital, the mother (name withheld) spend most of my stay in the hospital with me. \nto this day, i wonder what my little girl is doing, and things like that..i havent talked to the family since i got home from basic training and ait,but i know, that my little girl is receiving all of the attention, and love that she deserves..both of which are things i could have (and still in my heart) gave her, however there is no way i could have afforded to give her the awesome life she deserves.
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I was in a restaurant having dinner with my family, when a Lady that I know came to great me, I looked at her and said in a very loud voice “congratulations, you are pregnant” and touched her tummy (as we usually do with pregnant ladies). To what she answer (after looking around realizing everybody has heard what I said), after a minute or two (trying to recovered from the shock and the shame), “THANK you, but I’m not pregnant, I just added some extra kilos”.\nMy God, I will never forget that day, everybody was looking at me and her. \nFrom that day till today I never congratulate any pregnant woman unless she is telling me first that she is.
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hahaha.......I so knew I was going about writing the wrong way!!! Thanks for the idea......\n\nOk people.....after sending her money.....uhm, if you have any 'cents' left.....don't forget about me!!! :)
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I think it is good so far. You are telling him how you feel. Explaining in detail where you are finding issues in your relationship that has gone wrong. Also I think writing sometimes is the best way to explain things. Every thing is right there to read and the person reading can't change it around. It's right there in black and white. Good luck to you. I hope that you are able to smile again.
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Yes - sorry you are feeling bad.  I've been feeling like a mess and horrible for about 2 weeks myself and nothing seems to be getting better yet.  I hope it does.  I'll cross my fingers for you if you cross yours for me, okay?
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dear sunshine,\nI am a 31 year old married man with two boys, i left my wife almost two years ago, cuz of cheating, i was about to forgive her and take her back, but i found out she is pregnant.\n\ni still have not decided if i even want to take her back and adopt out her baby, she wants me back, i dont know.\n\nbut one thing i will tell you sunshine,\ni know i loved her, truely\nfor she had the capacity to make me the happiest man in the world,\nand yet at the same time;\nshe could hurt me more than i ever knew i could be hurt.\ni believe that this is what true love is, and that it is unconditional- no conditions, such as; i will love you if you do this, or not if you don't.\n\ni will always love my wife, and have already forgiven her.\nbut that does not mean i want to be with her....\n\nyou should ask yourself this,\nif your man got pregnant from someone else, (God forbid, :) ) - would you take him back??\n\nn e way,\ngood luck.
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Wow that's an incredible question...I'll do my best to give an incredible answer.\n\nFirst..YOU DON'T SUCK! And only your thought of you do, you need to give yourself room to be human.. we all make mistakes, sometimes more than once or twice or even a dozen times before we start beating ourselves up enough to say.. "Well this isn't working, time to change tactics"\n\nDoing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is the definition of insanity!! \n\nComplaining however is whole different thing in itself..Is it really that you're complaining about it... or needing feedback from an outsider's view to see if your decisions are with sound reason..and as long as you're looking for more info on what went wrong..and learning from them.. \n\nGiving up that right to complain happens when you aren't at all conscience that you have any responsibility in what has happened .... blaming circumstances, blaming others, blaming anything else but what you've personally contributed that made this outcome a reality is what voids the complaint department to me.  And it's okay to complain about yourself, as long as you're learning what you did doesn't work, and try a new path next time, and if the same result happen again.. and you complain.. to me that means you're looking for someone else's view to help see what you might have missed in the situation.\n\nGood Example?..Well I am a work-a-holic, and help-a-holic, When I have time I give it.. and where I see troubles I try to help with it. My hubby's granny had many troubles with credit cards, bills, health and a live in son that most of the time wasn't employed..So I took every path imaginable to bring back value and calmness to her life, but you can't help those who won't help themselves.. so as much as I tried to help in different venues, it was fruitless...you can't invite a person to live with you to help them, for them to want to bring the problem with them to you. And I don't hear them complain anymore since my hubby and I have made several offers to help, and they don't accept those terms, it's the only terms we are able to give. So you make peace with that, wish them well, and pray for them. Then you move forward.
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I wonder if you are pregnant or afraid to get pregnant because you feel very insecure about protecting a Child at this time. Or did one of your friend tell you that she is having a baby. Why did I ask you the above questions. It is because you have a high level of being able to spotting danger and seeing danger before it happen. And since this danger is not direct towards you and you failed to mention who was the first person you saw when you entered your place of security the answer to your question is still up for grabs.............
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you say;\n\n"momma, sit down honey, cuz  i got sumpin' ta say....\nI made a bad choice, and I left my good judgement at home, so now I have a baby on the way and  I need your help to deal with this' she may get mad, but let her. Just let her cool off and she will be your first line of defence.
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So who's expectation's are you seeking to fill ? Who's agenda has you trapped and stuck ? Who are you trying to be ........REALLY ????\nSeek yourself !!!!!!! And let go of all this crap others have placed upon you  ...the load is too heavy and its NOT YOUR'S  to carry ....let go of it !!!!!!!! \nAnd you were NOT a bad kid !!!! \nYou are believing others lies !!!! \nmore could be said and asked but you get the idea !!!
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Shae, I am really sorry for your situation. I also read your profile and there is no reason that I can see for your sisters  attitude, and yes we do try to treat others how we would want to be treated. However we are not perfect, we make mistakes like everybody else.  I really feel that you need to let your sister know how you feel and how this is effecting you, and that you would like to have her in your life.  Sometimes writing a letter  is beneficial because it enables you to really reflect on your feelings  and express yourself more thoroughly.  Perhaps once everything is out on the table, then any differences can be resolved.
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Today I found out that I'm pregnant (after 5 years of trying)\nTonight I will be telling my husband !!!\n\n& I know that at that point of time I will make him the happiest man on earth even though its just for a short while!!\n\nSweets just take a seat back & think to yourself that the day will never ever repeat itself.\n\nWish me luck with my baby\n\nCheerio\nMercaydees
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I wanted to appologize for taking an unexpected leave yesterday.  I had a personal emergancy to attend to and also wanted to let you know that it will not happen again.  Again, I am sorry for my unexpected absense.\n\nThank You,\nJohn D.\n(and if he asks what it was, you can only say its personal - and he has to respect that)
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Dear Erin,\n\nI know exactly what you are going through and exactly how you feel.  Lots of people are telling you to let it go, they are not wrong, but for me the piece that was missing was the HOW. \n\nI sat down with a pen and a notebook and I wrote my mother a letter.  The first one I wrote was scathing, mean, confrontational and a lot of finger pointing examples.  After I wrote that letter, I felt a little bit better inside.  I re-read that letter two weeks later and decided to write a new letter instead.  The second letter still held a lot of anger and frustration but was not near as nasty and spiteful.  I felt better after that one also.  Again two weeks later re-read and wrote a third letter.  \n\nBy writing the letters I was getting the anger, hatred and resentments out of my head and was able to not think about them as much.  Every time I wrote one of these letters it took more of the anger and hatred out.  I did confront my parents about the things that were really bad and wrong but was able to do so in a non-confrontational way because I had already done the confrontational part in my letters.  I never showed or sent the letters to anyone, and when I was ready to let go of the crap I put them in the fireplace and burned them.\n\nGood Luck and feel free to email me @ janesalladay@yahoo.com