Can women love be sincere, without cheating and lies?
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Yes, a woman can love sincerely without cheating and lies.  The key to this is having a man whom she can trust and who trust her.  Many (not all) women cheat because they are not get the emotional attention they need in their current relationships.  While many (not all) men have more physical motives to their actions. (that's straight from a therapists mouth)\n\nI have been on both sides.  I have been in relationships where I was faithful and he was not, and I have been in relationships where I was unfaithful.  Every time I ever cheated on a man, it was because something wasn't right at home.  I was once faithful to a man I hadn't seen in three months even though everyone in his family was telling me he was cheating, until we reached the point where he stopped telling me he loved me, then I couldn't hold on any longer.  Another time, the man never came home, and when he did, it was only to get something then go to sleep.\n\nWomen need to know you matter to them and unfortunately there are those who are simply never satisfied and will chronically cheat.  Don't give up on women though, not everyone cheats.  The same applies to men.\n\nOne final note to both men and women: If you treat your partner poorly by your actions or lack of action, you can bet your parter will either leave you or cheat on you.  It's a coin toss to which it will be.
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As you said, you felt in love with this woman, and love is not just feeling is a consequence of major elements such as respect, faith, honesty , satisfaction .... etc. and when you have these components you are in love ... so, if there is a confidence and honesty between you both .. you have to believe her and trust her ... any way, you are the only one who can judge on your relation and how things are going on.. wish you good luck with her
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No, and it shouldn't. Honesty and communication are the only way a marriage will last. And those two lead into trust as well. Little white lies, that are non-damaging to the marriage, are natural. But to lie to someone to save feelings or yourself, they can lead to bigger problems and build up, until it explodes and makes the situation worse. Whether you have good intentions or not. Honesty is the best policy. So, I think you answered your own question. :)
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Real women respect honesty. I would just say it. The worse that could happen is that you stay friends. Be brave. Some of us ladies still appreciate a man who goes after what they want.
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depends on what kind of honesty we are talking about. if you tell a woman that you have fantacy's she will trust you and your being honest; however, if you tell a woman you have fantacy's that you would like to pursue. then you have just been too honest.  women don't like to feel threatened. so it might just be, that you say way to much, and have her thinking there might be a close threat.  Example, I always go play cards with my buddies on thurs., accepted... I go play cards with my buddies on thurs and you can't come., not accepted.  you just posted a threat that your friends are more important. and then we wonder what you might be hiding if we aren't allowed to be around. you must be hiding something... guys don't think into things like women do, but you could come home with ice cream on your shirt, and you might have just stopped off for a cone.  a woman can go from he had ice cream, to,, where was mine, to,, who else had ice cream, to,, that jacka-- is cheating on me how dare him.  and then you're screwed. it's that idea of he didn't think of me. why not, whats he hiding. when in reality your just being you, and have nothing to hide.  always be considerate of her feelings and never say too much it will save you a lot of clean up time.
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love, trust, ability to commit, respect
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Since there r 3 types of love,I'd say yes.The 3 types r as follows; a.philial (friendly/brotherly love) ,b.eros  (sexual,romantic love shared btween a man & his wife) c.agapie (not applicable here) God's love 4 mankind.There4 a man can love more than 1 woman but it's almost impossible 2 love 2 women the same way.He will love 1 sincerely while lusting/desiring another. This kind of affection has been discribed as "animal lust" since animals were created with the capacity 2 mate with more than 1 partners @ a time eg: dogs tho. not all animals do this.The love a man feels 4 his mother is another version of the first & is the first love all persons will feel.
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i am sorry i do not know the answer to this question i can only speak for my self i would tell a woman that i loved her unless i truly did these are not just word of course i would tell her if i did because i would want her to know it but more then anything i would want to show it and if you truly love someone you WILL NOT CHEAT on them you couldn't even think about being with someone else or should i say i couldn't but maybe he wants you to i can only speak for my self in a matter like this i have always heard once a cheater always a cheat i wish you the best in life and a life full of Happiness.
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Ability to love and express love unconditionally
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Nothing in life is a guarantee. However their are certain qualities that true wives have in general. Honesty, patience, love, understanding and the knowledge to know when shes being used. That last may take time to learn . Also she must be abele to recognize a good man.  A good msan is not insecure but satisfied with himself and thus will accept and respect and love a wife. By the way. dont leave,out respect. Good luck
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There is no criteria. You are either loved or not. Love doesn't hurt, and it shouldn't be planned out. Let love live, and work itself out naturally. That is the only way to know if its sincere.
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no\ntrue love preserves one's self worth
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You're right. Women are stronger and they can keep secrets better. A woman's heart is an ocean of secrets.  I know this from personal experience.
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just be yourself! a girl sees a guy who is fake from a mile away! a woman will love you for you and all your good and bad qualities and everything that you come with! if you have to make a woman love you then it is not worth it because you cannot make someone love you not even with money!love is gained through hard work and trust and not a one nigt stand! and why do you want to seduce a woman? why dont you just be you and do something special like my bf took me to the Ren Festival and a haunted house and another time he did all these surprises! plus you do not have to spend a lot of money on a girl yet dont be cheap either!
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that sounded so nice.. if Im your woman I will feel honoured. The thing is, have you promised her before that you will change? have you shown your intentions? you may not be saying it but once you do your act, then that will tell her that you have changed. do the things she wants you to do even if it sounded new to you. It is when you're doing things out of the way to prove your sincerity that a woman will try to re-consider closing her doors on you. Write her a letter perhaps. write down the lines you remembered her saying to you. write down all your good memories. and thank her for being there and love her ... \nJUST LOVE HER.. and read the bible- for love is patient and Love is kind... again, JUST continue loving her
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We can ALL answer that question FOR ourselves, and ABOUT ourselves.  We're all guilty of 'the little white lie' once in a while.  However, being BRUTALLY honest isn't always a good thing.  \n\nIf someone is TELLING you they love you, but ACTING in a way that says they do not love you...it's the ACTION that is the TRUTH and the REALITY of their feelings towards you.   Trust is an EARNED privilege - be honest yourself and demand it from others as well.
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Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.