How to spice up my relationship without losing respect for myself?
479953
You can find interesting things both of you can engage in.you shouldn't loose your self respect,no one is worth it.If you think he's still bored with u,then ask him what the problem is.there might be something he's not telling u.
802744
Sometimes we get so caught up in our daily routine we forget how we got there in the first place.  There are ways to rekindle the passion: go out on a date (just the two of you) once in a while, make a "just us" evening once a week like sitting and listening to music together.\nMy partner and I usually designate Friday evenings for "us" time, we sit and watch a movie together (no matter how silly the movie is).
1175702
Do activites that you enjoyed before being in a relationship with him.  Do things you like.  Then, add in another boyfriend after you have had some time to yourself.  Hope this helps.
907932
You could go hiking together, take up a new sport together (one that you're more-or-less on equal footing with), or just take walks.  Whatever you do, do not let her think for one minute that you don't accept her as she is or that you're trying to change her.  That will be the kiss of death to your relationship.  Believe me, she knows she has gained weight.  Don't do something "subtle" like buying her a bicycle or giving her a gym membership.  That is NOT the way to motivate someone.
1032876
Well, there are all of the cliche things that you can do, like a romantic dinner, or a walk along the park, however I would suggest a different path. Think of something you might have done as a child, and do it with him. Think of something completely stupid to do, or even a little childish maybe. I know my gf and I do a lot of things like that, and that is when we really bond. For example, catching fireflies on a summer night, or baking cookies together. Just think of everyday things, and do them together.
1011827
impress her with your charm, but don't over do it or show off.  Be kind and show her who you really are and then maybe she'll see a more deeper, serious side to you and go out with you
215596
Honestly, I recommend you go to bed with him quickly.  This will at least give him a sexual desire and then while you are lovers you can convince him what a great woman you are.  \n\nSome people say guys will lose respect.  I think that is nonsense.  I have had very long term girlfriends whom I probably wouldn't have noticed if they hadn't gotten my attention.  After that I grew to like her.  \n\nI don't expect a lot of fanatical prudes will agree but this has been my personal experience.  Life is short.
425777
Time with him will help.  Take baby steps.  Try something new that wouldn't embarass you totally.  That may help you realize that you can be yourself and he doesn't mind a bit.
1067442
first of all.. its okay to be jelous..\n\n\n--  let your man know that your okay with it ONLY if you really are.\n\n- if NOT : talk to him .. let him know that you dont like what he is doing... there are always sarcafices in a relationship to be made.and tell him to put himself in your shoes...
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watch other people be funny and tell take notes (mental notes) and loosen up don't worry about what other people say about you cause we're all gonna die some day and be judged by the some god so don't worry.\nbuy her flowers and candy. \ntalk to her and let her know you want a relationship with her and hope for the best
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i know its hard to b accused as not being trustworthy...but dont give up...u need to do something that proves that ur not cheating or wanting to be w/ ne one else...do this when he isnt home so u can plan ahead of time...\n\nmaybe a romantic setting in a house w/ rosepetals everywhere...strawberries on the kitchen table w/ whipped cream in a bowl...a jazzy song playin in the background (or somethin romantic)...maybe candles lit up in a dark room or a fire lit in the fireplace...in the bedroom u can have some candles lit in there 2 w/ petals all over the bed and the scent of vanilla in the air....i think u can take it from here...good luck!!!
667939
Don't struggle too much in taking the sex life to a higher level. Act naturally and you and your guy will grow together, experimenting and learning and understanding each other. There are no laid down shortcuts to "put you over the edge".
57057
Damn baby, I wanna date you...LOL. If you like getting walked on, then keep taking him back. If you want to respect yourself, kick him to the curb and keep moving forward with someone that will treat you better. Don't put up with crap. People will only do to you what you let them do.
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I always try to look good for my hubby.  Even from the get go.  I always acted like myself.  When we were a little deeper into the relationship I did romantic dinners and rose petals down the hall and to the bed with candles lit everywhere.  I always try to impress him by trying new things and getting focused on what he's talking about, whether it be work or cars or whatever, even if I could care less.  If you truely love someone you will know how to impress them.  If it is a new relationship or one you're trying to start, just look your best, be confident and be yourself.  You want them to love you for who you really are and not who you are trying to pretend to be.
808633
be sweet, romantic, but not too mushy, be nice and caring and LISTEN dont be all "lets make out" or "lets have sex"\n\nthan, she will give you respect as well
940346
continue being in the relationship I am in now
423312
we want to to treat us right not like crap!(sry personal prob) if u want to impress her do something u've never done before. take her to a new place, kiss/hold her in a different way. stuff like that might do the trick