i just moved my ex told me to call him every week should i?
478448
Does "ex" not break it down enough? why waste your precious time calling him if hes no going to call you?
1175948
sounds like he wants you on standby.cheaters rarely change, thank your lucky stars you didn't marry him. if he calls again tell him to please stop calling you and move on with your life.
1172070
yeh it depends on location and his commitment.  if he says ur calling too much, then ur calling too much. otherwise, dont listen to the pessimists
118878
You should reevalute where life has taken you and consider\n\nwhether or not you're making the right choices. Good luck.\n\nIf you're asking if you should stick by him, only you know that.
33518
Go for it. Your ex should not have any say over who you date. That's why it's called "ex."
819036
Ask him to stop calling you. You guys need to move on and memories of each other are bringing both of you down. Just say, _______ please don't call me anymore, I'm ready to move on. IT sounds like your the girl when there's no one lese and you never want to be that. Don't sit in an unhealthy long distance relationship when you know things aren't goin to work out. Be the bigger person and stop the calls. If they don't stop, change your number because you need to move on and so does he.
708121
NO!  I beg of you, use your head not your heart.  Wouldn't he have called you or a friend or a locksmith for that matter, if he were locked out of his place?  The fact that you knew where the girlfriend lives and works makes it seems as if this is not the first time and you and the ex has a (fighting) history.  Find someone more loyal, more discreet or maybe a little smarter... How on earth did he let her get the phone?!\nGood Luck!
72802
Most definitely bring him.  It will help your ex get over you.
530117
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
206759
He may be trying to do either.  Just remind him that you are now ex-partners, and he needs to keep his social life to himself.  Refuse to get involved in this sort of discussion.  Sounds like it was a good idea to break it off.  He doesn't have clear boundaries.
642016
Well if he's your EX then I'd guess to say that he's grasping at straws to get you to meat him somewhere so he can act pathetic and con you to go back with him. and if he wont say it over the phone well then it's not important at all.there must be a reason that he's your EX.if you wish not to be with him I'd stay away from him.
994668
He hasn't called you in a week? Dump his a**.\n\nI have no patience for that crap. He's playing games with you or he changed his mind and decided he didn't really love you. But either way, you should have NO patience for that.
320161
PUT DOWN THE PHONE AND STEP AWAY.  Do not call your ex.  You'll end up looking like a desperate fool who wants to get back together with him and he will feel like he has 'won'.  Yes, it's that childish.  Don't call him and don't expect him to call you.  That's what a break-up does; it stops contact between the two of you.  There may be a time and place that you can be friends, but it is NOT now.  Now so soon after your split.  I know it seems like it should be different given your time togehter, but it's not.  I was in a 3 year relationship with a guy I wanted to marry and it ended badly.  I didn't talk to the guy again until 3 years later and even then it was akward and came across as desperate and stupid.  You have to accept this relationship as being over.  The first few months will be a test of your strength, but you can get through it.  You will never forget this guy.  It's been 10 years now for me and I still think of him and hope he is well.  But that doesn't mean you can expect a good relationship from here on out.  It's over.  Let it be over and move on.  Don't call him, you'll end up regretting it big time.
883960
Well, you should not call and see him gradually. Do it little by little and finally do not contact him anymore.
1129279
Go sleep on his doorstep!...haha just kidding (sorry) I'd say keep yourself busy. Especially if he's not trying to contact you. Hang out with your friends, rent movies (not romantic ones), pick up a hobby you used to have, etc. Or do like I do, go dye your hair and get it cut in a new style. It always makes me feel like a million bucks and it's my ritual after a break up. It literally turns you into "a new person" and you feel prepared to face the world.
181358
call miss cleo if you want a reading. i doubt it if he's your ex by the time the future comes around you may have found someone better and it'll be his loss...... think about now don't worry about the future til it's here....
969930
i broke up with my bf in october, and it is still so hard for me not to pick up that phone and tell him to come home... he moved everything out and i havent felt like i am at home in my apartment since... its hard for everybody... you just have to let it go for awhile, why don't you call up some friends and go out... you will see, he will be back before you know it.