what to do if a good friend started jealous of me.?
487340
make her jealous more ha ha she has the problem not you
804643
if she's a friend that cares about you as much as you do about her, then she would be willing to help you get your marks up as hers. you dont have to be jealous, even though it sucks that she's now doing better than you\n\nas a friend, you should be happy for her, not jealous. and for her she should be willing to help you get just as high marks as her. if either of you are not willing to change your attititudes, then its questionable how much of a friendship that really is...
225198
This is a normal response, especially in the adolescent female. Part of growing up is recognizing bad traits like this and dealing with them. From your question it looks like that you are trying to be mature. You should be proud of yourself.\n\nThis jealously is rooted in the conscious or unconscious fear that your friend will like that person better than you and that she might then not be your friend anymore. That would hurt alot so that fear presents to us as jealously.\n\nJealously isn't all bad. It pays a positive role in all of our psychosocial relationships. It helps to modify our behavior.\n\nThe trick is to realize and control this feeling which is exactly what you are asking!!!\n\nI suppose that you could try to also make friends with this other girl, then you could all be friends. Also; you could understand that friends come in and out of our lives all the time. Somebody might be you best friend for a long time, but peole and circumstances arise that end up making someone ELSE our best friend. Years later that former friend might become our best friend again.\n\nThe thing is just to try and be nice an helpful even if you don't feel like it, even despite your jealously.
470987
Start an I hate you guys club.  Don't worry too much about people like that, they are probably just jealous of you about something. Screw 'em.
652568
hey u guyz r in a relstionship nd u have gotts face dis evryone does...i did too...dey may b pure jealous...or d mayb ur really good frend who wanna warn u ...so if it like ur best frend or somethin...just tok to him/her abt it nd ask dem why dey r actin dat way...butif not...man just be happy in ur relationship nd dont bodr abt oder plp...dey kome abt later so dont worrrry be happy....
376684
The best way is to look at the situation, look at what's logical and what's illogical.  Flip the script: put yourself in the other person's shoes.  Ask yourself if you have any real grounds for jealousy.  Is it necessary?  Is this a way of protecting yourself or are you just insecure?  If you can help it, please don't be jealous of whoever you're talking about.  That's the worst feeling in the world.
876473
Sounds like you have a good heart and an open mind. My advice is to just let it go. A person like you will have no trouble making more friends, and maybe these two will grow up a little and it'll work out. Don't worry about it in the meantime. Just look on the bright side, you know you're a good friend no matter what.
651282
Well, remind your friend all that you've shared. The past will always outweigh the present. The green eyed monster only emerges when one is worried or a little insecure. Be flattered that they care enough to worry, but flatter them back with reassurances that you are going no where other than to a place where you can grow closer to them. \n\nWe tend to think of jealousy as a bad thing. It is more of an indicator. Stop and step back and see what it is telling you. Give her what you she needs........and ask her to give you what you need. Awareness. That's what it's all about. :)
206249
She's probably jealous of you, if I were you I would confront her. If she's a backstabber you have no friendship to lose. She's already ruined it.
1143630
I think you should continue to talk to her, but know your limits when speaking to her. If you keep on talking to her, she will soon realize you are a true friend, and not a ***** like her. Show her that you aren't like her. I also think that if she is talking about you or your bestfriend, she is jealous of you two. Be ahead of the game, don't let her keep you stressing. Don't trip off her she's just another obstacle in life trying to bring others down.
1048166
ur friend might be absolutely right.they all might be really jealous of u.so don't worry abt people esp those who don't even know u.\ninfact don't worry abt anyone.as long as u r right and as long as u know that u've done nothing wrong don't worry at all.just be urself and talk to those who talk to u properly.be nice to everyone and never put ur head down.if the peoblem persists then just go to ur bf and ask him on his face the reason why he's doing all this.and if he doesn't give any reason then just tell him what u think of him for doing such things and tell him that he's been doing cheap things and all these things don't bother u at all.\n\nmake him feel like a fool.tell him that by doing this he is ruining his own dignity and not urs and tell this to everyone.\nso when u say something like this they'll definitely know that u r quite strong and they'll stop doing such things slowly.\n\nand if u don't want to do all this stuff,then just keep saying this word to urself when anyone says anything to u or whenever u remember anything they say"AKUNAMATATA"=no worries.\nmake it a habit.\n\nTRUST ME IT WORKS.\n\nhope i was of some help to u .all the best.i'm there for u always.\ngood luck.\ncontact me if u have further trouble.
145400
tell her of course i would like to help u but 1st tell her how do u feel about her maybe she feel the same to you maybe she say that to make you feel jealous to see u how to react about that .if she dosn`t like you or she won`t to go out with you tell her that our friendship is the most important thing to you and i am glad to help you with that.write to me soon to find out what have u done my e-mail is nana_nona_nana2000@yahoo.com
253373
you need to consider, how good of a friend she really is first of all. if shes a GOOD friend you tell her you dont like her bragging all the time and its getting hard for you to be around her, doing it all the time. she,ll understand. if shes just someone you hang out with and shes doing it to rub it in ,or make you feel bad, then shes NOT a friend and you dont need to be around her anyway!!!!
900313
Be happy for your friend. Let her have her own time to shine....like you had your time. I can totally see why you'd be upset, though. It'd make me the same way. The only thing I can tell you to do is to deal with it. You may cause a fight if you show your jealousy. Let her have her time in the spotlight, and soon, her time will fade as well. Good luck!
632734
Show her thru your actions and words what a valuable friend she is to you. Find other people who recognise these qualities in her and both of you hang out with them. Affirm her kind actions and words and in time she'll come to believe that what you say is true. I know... i've been in her place and a very special friend turned my lofe around  by doing this for me. Be patient...it may take a while for negative stuff to be replaced by good but if you gently keep at it, it will happen.
171169
FRIENDS WHO ENVY YOU AND ARE JEALOUS OF U SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED FRIENDS IN THE FIRST PLACE. GO ON IN YOUR HORSE AND CARRIAGE WITH YOUR PRINCE. BRING THOSE ALONG WHO WILL CELEBRATE YOU, AND WAVE THE HATERS GOODBYE! IF NOT YOU WILL MISS YOUR OPPURTUNITY AND REGRET IT!
920337
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!