I was told that a person with high sex drive is usually slim. Can anybody explain to me the reason?
487868
I would beg to differ with this statement.  I have a very high sex drive.  and I am anything but thin...I tease my husband that he is the woman and I am the man in our sexual relationship...
954764
i think they actually have a higher sex drive. but they also have a lower attention span, which might make it hard to remember that they want to have sex. lol
245845
Why the mentioning of the "fat" so what if you are fat. That shouldn't be the reason why you feel he pays attention to you? I think fat is georgoeus and find yourself some1 who aint hitched already. It just goes to show that you want to boost your moral, and besides, forbidden fruit is always the best.
520748
Loss of sex drive due to low testosterone levels, High Blood pressure and diabetes (potentially caused ED and embarrassment), there are so many things that effect sex drive...self image (has he put on a lot of weight? He may feel ugly and have low self esteeem). There is no one thing that will stand out, but a serious heart to heart with total honesty is the only way out of this. I am assuming he is not off somewhere getting it on the side. good luck
844333
Not necessarily......just being friends with someone who happens to be attractive does not mean they are having an affair.  It could be that after she spends time with him she realizes how lucky she is to have you, that explains why her sex drive is up.\n\nThis question is far to vague and asks more questions before an opinion can be formed.
606939
Could age play a factor? Sure, but that's most likely not the direct problem though the problem is more than likely related to age with respect to either stress or chemical imbalance. \n\nThe most common problem for lack of sex drive is Libido which is directly associated with both Testosterone and Oestrogen (not Estrogen) levels, though Oestrogen level is a rare occurrence in men. A male can have complete ability to perform sexually without erectile dysfunction but not have the sexual drive to act on it. There are numerous medical remedies for the chemical issue but stress related problems would require different approach and treatment.\n\n\nRead 'Testosterone Levels" at this link:\n\nhttp://www.thefooddoctor.com/books/book3_men.php\n\n\nRead what other men say about loss of sexual drive:\n\nhttp://www.askmen.com/love/dzimmer_60/77_love_answers.html\n\n\nPersonal Thought: I'm almost 53 and my testosterone levels are actually marginally high (7.3g) so in my opinion its not his age so much that's a problem but more likely due to either stress or chemical problems.\n\nFootnote:\nAssuming your relationship is otherwise good then the one other possibility could be discounted and that is when a man's having an affair and getting his needs fulfilled elsewhere.
1039606
slim is like, hipbones poking out skinny.  slender looks relatively normal, but still leans toward skinny.  fit and athletic are pretty much the same, maybe the person isn't as skinny as the slender and slim crowd, but looks like more muscle than fat.  thick is someone who isn't fat, but is just naturally not skinny.  a few extra pounds is like someone who was thinner and then gained some weight in the tummy area, etc.\npersonally though, i don't think a person's appearance should matter as much as their personality.
103954
Different guys like different things. I like curves -- I'm not turned off by a little extra "filling," but if a girl just doesn't take care of herself, it is a big turn off. \n\nFor example, there are girls who go to the gym regularly but eat too much to get thin. They usually end up having an attractive shape, in my opinion, despite being "beefy." On the other hand there are girls who neither workout nor eat right, and everything is just hanging there. Really, regular exercise is important anyway, even if one isn't going for "skinny."\n\nThere is also the extreme side of skinny -- thin, boney arms with no muscle at all are just gross, in my opinion. I saw one beautiful girl work herself down to a toothpick over time by working out excessively and under-eating, and I thought it was sad to see her destroy her body that way.
163836
sweetie you are not a nympho...you are perfectly normal and so is he...a males sex drive goes downhill as they get older and a females sexdrive just keeps going and going and going...no matter what age you get hun you're gonna wanna do it all the time...thats just you...he just dont wanna admit that he cant handle your sexual appetite
1087091
Funny you should ask..lol...that's an issue I'm trying to work out with my boyfriend right now.  He says I want it too much (I want it every day!)  When he makes jokes that my sex drive is too high, it kind of makes me feel bad, like he doesn't want to have sex with me as much as I want to with him.  Some days I want it two or three times, but he says he's tired :(  We're both the same age, so I don't know what the problem is!
1142293
Yes. I've heard from personal stories. Everybody's different. He may be one with low sex drive, or yours higher. Could even be psycological issues, though I don't think that is usually the case. Happy bed time!
127920
Many things affect sex drive and it is very individual.  Some of the most common causes are:\nHealth issues\nStress\nDrugs\nAffairs(by not having sex with their mate, they are not cheating on the new partner)\nPressure to have sex\nStrained relationship\nIt doesn't matter how attractive you are, if something is broken in his life or your relationship sex drive can and usually will drop to nothing\nHope you figure out what is going on and good luck
867299
if you find that your sex drive is putting your life in a state of chaos or danger, then you may suffer from bi-polar disorder.   the fact that you mentioned prostitutes is a clue to that behavior being out of control.  have you seen a psychiatrist?  bipolar disorder is very treatabel with medication and you can have a normal sex drive that wont consume you.  (or land you in jail.)
551866
That is completely untrue. Sex is actually a really good way to burn calories. I would say I am pretty experiencced. When I had a boyfriend for a long time we had sex a lot, at least once a day, and I lost a lot of weight. What did your friend tell you?
934625
I don't think there is anything wrong with loving sex. Everyone has a different sexual appetite, yours is just strong. You are only a slut if you sleep around. Find other ways to get your fill of sex if you're not with a partner. There is no reason to be ashamed of a high sex drive. Enjoy it. I'm sure your partner will love you for it!
195143
Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
1133417
mmmmm depends on what sex drive you have some people have a high one and some dont!!! either way its good