If love a women and she loves you, but  i need space how to tell her witout the thought of another women?
485150
Tell her how you feel...if she loves you she will understand and give you your space. If she freaks out about it maybe she doesn't trust you...but make sure you have rules when this "space" happens so that no one gets hurt...
1074744
tell her how you feel. maybe the two of you can work it out.
445175
Just speak from your heart. Tell her everything that she does that you love. Tell her what you love about her character. Tell her of things that remind you of her. Be real. She will love it.
843555
well if u love her enough to accep her with another guys baby then that should give her a hint.. sometimes u do not have to say the L word what u can do is u can tell her nice things like complements and make her fell good and special that should be a hint of the L word so sometimes is just not i love u but it also can be making feel that person special and making her feel comfortable with u..
40710
Maybe you should just tell her that although you like to spend time with her, you need your space as well. That way you're not completly cutting her off.
423711
Personally, I believe that I would try the honest approach. It is my personal experience that women respond to a man who is open, honest and DIRECT. Don't beat around the bush about it, because your time with her is apparently limited. If that is the case, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.\n\nWho knows, maybe she feels the same way about you but is having problems telling you as well. Look her DIRECTLY in the eye and tell her that your time together has been wonderful and you have connected with her in a way you never thought imaginable with another woman. Tell her that your friendship together means the world to you and it has grown into a deep respect and you hope she feels the same towards you.\n\nI understand what you are going through. I have been there and bought that tee shirt. Good Luck and I hope it works out.
180688
first of all, picture yourself in her place, predict her next step, and know what to do..\nthen, get to know some of her closest friends, and tell them that you love that girl and be honest,, i'm telling ya if u are not honest, you'll fail.., then, tell those friends, the first time you saw that girl (the one u love)\nand how u felt about her, and how u still feeling and that her love is growing each second in u...\n\nwhen u be with the girl u love,, 1) be cute , (2) be funny (but dont make fun of her at first,, this comes later when she loves u), (3) be generous, (4) be clean, and neat\n5) she have to love your personality (be a man), (6) dont let her make the decisions for you always ( for example dont always say: as u wish, or as u like, ( make your own decisions)..\nat the end, keep connecting with her friends and tell them love stories about you and your girl...\n\nand i hope she will eventually fall in love with you..
783395
Here's what I'd do:\n\nSit down with her and take her hand in yours.  Make and keep eye contact, even if you have to announce it like, "I have something to say."  Remind her that you really care about her, more and more every day.\n\nTouch her cheek, or tuck her hair behind her ear: the more physical, non-threatening contact you can establish the better.  She'll become more comfortable with you in a physical way, and that will help her comfort level with the emotional aspect of your relationship.\n\nTell her that you don't want to do or say anything to make her feel uncomfortable but you really feel that she deserves to know that she's important to you, you care about her, and that you love her.  Let her know that you don't expect anything in return, you just want her to know how you feel.\n\nShe probably freaks out/hyperventilates because she feels that either she doesn't deserve love or that saying "I love you" comes with expectations.  Tell her that you are just letting her know, and you don't need anything back: you love her for who she is, right now, just the way she is.\n\nThen what you need to do is let her know you'll be there when she's ready to talk about this or anything else, and just walk away.  She'll need time alone to process what you've said.
552812
appoligize!  ihad that happen!  give her her space for a while, then appoligize.  it worked for me!
20887
Ask her if she would feel more comfortable having a 3rd GUY there, instead of your fantasy of having another woman.  She just might say yes!
373889
Share your feelings with her. Then listen to what she has to say. If she says she loves you and wants to be serious, then it is time to evaluate her actions. If she does what it takes to make you feel loved, and she accepts your love in return, there may be a future for you and her.
532209
With love,being honest that you need your private time and space to grow,and let her know that she deserves her space also.
462005
U NEED 2 TALK.FOLLOW DA CLOSURE THEORY.TELL HER HOW MUCHU LOVE HER.MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL.TELL HER U LOVE HER NOT BCOZ OF WAHAT SHE IS BUT WHO SHE IS.TRUST ME DUDE .ITS GONNA WORK.ALL DA BEST!
961521
I Think she is thinking as more than a friend. And she thinks that you are only one who can understand her feelings and can give some kind of support to her. Plz let it continue the same.\nAnd i think you have to wait for the right moment to express your love.\n\nALL THE BEST!!!!!!
583552
well if u really think that u love her u can\nand go speak with ur best friend and tell her that u love eachother and try to make him understand it \nGood luck
1063804
withdraw yourself for some time. don't make it worse than it already is! she is 10 years older than you. even if she loves you, she might also be totally confused now.\n\ntime will solve it.\nin any case, you did enough because you told her about your feelings. don't go crazy if she is quiet. get yourself busy with your own things for a while. maybe you can make peace some time later.\n\nlook. I also did like this with my closest male friend two weeks ago! (what a coincidence). but here the reason was different: I fell in love with HIM. and we also had a fight before that.\nof course we had, cause everybody was expecting something else from the whole relationship than he/she got!\nso it is the same: we don't talk and also don't write now.\nI told him not to!\ncause I can't take it any more, cause it hurts, cause... blahblahblah!\n\nbut the truth is that now after two weeks I calmed down and I would really want to make peace - if I only knew how!!!\n\nI think it is best you give her and yourself TIME.\n"and time can do so much...\noh myyyy love.. my darling, I hunger for\nyour touch\nalone"\n:-)\n\ncomm'on, put some good music and cheer up.\nyou are not the only one on this planet who messes up friendship for love!\nhere is another one, hellooo there!\nbut this one, over here.. ye she is female.\n \n((maybe you want a younger woman than 31? can we exchange ur ex-friends? instead of writing them poems? well, I haven't started writing poems yet, but I must tell, I am not far from it!!!\nI already sent him songs! hm.\nit is only the world cup keeping me mentally busy now, otherwise I would be writing poems and crying all day!\n\nI am OLNY 25, by the way! don't despair, the sea if full of good fresh fish!!!))
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends