I'm a 16 years old girl and I'm having a big problem about my parents who can help me?
477863
Hello. I am 33 and  have a 13 year old daughter and a 16 year old niece. My niece comes to me with a lot of her problems with her parents, I would be glad to help if I knew more about the problem. Feel free to email me at tereburr4@yahoo.com. You are a special person. Always remember that.
822558
Honey, I have been there.  I had a 7 pm curfew on weekends when I was 17 years old.  Tell your parents to trust you and if you do anything wrong, then they can take all rights away again.  You can't do no wrong until you try something.  Tell them that you are a levelheaded  responsible 16 year old and that you would like to win their trust, but you won't be able to if they keep you hidden and secluded.  Tell them you will grow up and move away.  Tell them that you will live a sheltered life and it is not good for your health.  Tell them your true feelings and make them listen.  I feel so bad for you because I was there.  Then I turned 17 and moved away from home, had my own apartment while I was a senior.  I had a full time job, gymnastics practice and school.  I did just fine and it taught me how to be mature.  I am not telling you to take off, but I am telling you to talk to  your parents because they may not understand your TRUE feelings and how you want to hurt yourself.  Just think, you will be 18 in a little bit and you will be able to begin your life the way you want and be your own boss.  Don't hurt yourself, because in all honest, it is not worth it.  Talk to the parent you are closer too!  I feel for you, I have been there.  Then I moved to FL.  I moved away so my family would realize what I meant to them and that they didn't have a hold on me.  It doesn't work for anyone, so don't runaway or anything.  I did this all as an adult okay? Let us know how it goes because I am genuinely worried about you!  Good luck!
1156247
have you ever tell you dad how you felt about his attitude?\nhave your mum ever spoke to you of how she felt about the situation?\nyou know,i advise that you'd better see a counselor .Pour our your feelings to the counselor.He/she will be able to help you cope with the current situation you' re facing.\nI know your family must have meant a lot to you.And I suppose you're a growing up child.I agree the current situation affects your life and you other family members but please remember one thing do not let those things to pollute your mind or affect your studies.\nMost importantly get a professional help.\ncheer up ok.I wish you all the best.
718559
i had the same problem and i couldn't speak to my parents 'cause i was afraid of them! this happened till this April, when i had a conflict with them, and my brother supported me! i stood up for myself and told them that i wanted to leave home 'cause they didn't understand me and wouldn't listen to me! Now, they recognise me (at last!) as a human being(!) and  i tell them whatever i want without fear! my brother supported me, didn't tell them my problems! i told them! so, both of you should go to your father and make known from the beginning that your brother will just say his own opinion! Good luck!!
240933
well, my problem is parents, whats yours?
459145
You can't do anything in regards to your parents. BUT I say stay in school get educated and then move out on your own. If your father is wrong then give your mom support. And right now, from what you have supplied here your dad is dead wrong.
454183
Your Mom takes care of you.  As in, she cares for you and about you and sees to your needs.  Stay with her.\n\nYour Dad probably cares about you too. So when you are 16 and want your sweet 16 you'll get it.\n\nIt's hard to have parents who aren't together.  But it can work out for you.  You have to sort of deal with them "separately but equal."  Don't get into making any more waves than you can handle.
968964
Your parents know more about life than you think they do.  They are not trying to be mean to you; they are trying to help you live a happier life in the long run.  They have the responsibility to make the rules until you are 18 and move out and support yourself.  If you can't do those things, try to learn from your parents so that someday you can.  \nI am not saying they are always right, but if you listen to them you will most likely have a lot less trouble in life than if you don't.  The boyfriend you have seems very important now, but he probably won't stay a big part of your life for very long.  How long did the last one last, anyway?  \nAlso, if you listen to them, they are more likely to listen to you.
996666
I would seek help from your administration. Perhaps a meeting with your administrator is needed. Usually, students follow their parents lead. \n\nMost importantly, don't take it personally. One bad apple shouldn't make you get down on yourself. You are so valuable to our children's future so please don't let it get you down.
821012
Stop going out with him.  Your parents love you and want to protect you from harm. It's obvious that you know what you are doing is wrong and it's tearing you up inside.  Do the right thing.  Respect your parents if you ever expect them to respect you.  If you want them to trust you in the future, then be trustworthy.
293548
That's a huge responsibillty that you should not have to take on.  You need to call his/her parents or a counselor.  Please don't try to handle that situation on your own.  You might also want to talk with your parents about it.  If you need to talk you can email me.....just hit my contact information.
252728
Tell your parents right away and take them and yourself down to the police station to report them!!\n\nDO NOT let them intimidate you ... that is unacceptable!!
442270
Tell your parents straight up that you will not accept the blame for their arguments and that you will no be the scapegoat for their problems in their life. It may be so that they argue about something related to you but their inability to resolve the issue shows their is some problems brewing between them for some time before and instead of facing them they blame you. Tell them how you feel and let them know that is sad that they are not been adults and instead of helping you grow as a person they are limiting you and making you feel bad.
1172001
honey it sound like your parents are way too protective of you and they dont want you to grow up. but remember this when you turn 18 by law you dont have to listen to them. apply for collages away from home and go somewhere away from them. dont let them hold you back from doing what you want. thay have to relize their baby girl is growing up. or do what i did join the military. your parents have no control  how faw away you are then. and you could be sent to other countries. there is military bases in korea china japan philipines england spain germany and all other kinda of places. and its a secure job especially if you make it a career. \n\nI hope things work out for you. all you have to do is show your parents your grown up, and while you may need advise they can't control what you do.
155295
well .....talk to a sibling and tell him/her to be there when u tell one of ur parents....start with the one wh &#92;o is a little less aggressive...maybe ur mom or ur dad...and just let them know u need their support and that u hope they'll treat u like an independent adult....tell them ull sort things out and wat u plan for the future.....think abt evrything u wwana say to them......just listen to them too...cuz they'll obviously be upset....just tell them they mean alot to u and no1 else can help u out like they can..i hope they'll understand..........its a huge responsibility....make sure ur ready for it.......take care and dont overstress........:)
105639
It would help to talk to your parents about this.  I'm no expert, but they are the ones closest to you, and they should be most able to help you overcome this.
1081369
go immediately to your parents and tell them, 2 years is too long and it needs to stop, if you can't go to your parents then tell a friend and hopefully your friend will tell her parents. (then they might be able to help you)\ni wish you lots of luck.