i think that my friend shakira is stalking me am i bein paranoid?
489924
If she is a friend, ask her!\n.\nOK.   This is strange.  <quietly backs away>
837738
Sounds like a stalker setting you up.  I would keep watching out the window.\n\nCoach
1071015
wow. i think she's beyond jealous. first question, i understood it. second question...i wondered...this, being the third question...i'm starting to worry about you.
675765
They may be just people he met befor you on the service and he just wants to keep in touch. Its the hardest thing in the world to imagine and to confront when your not sure, you dont want to make yourself look insecure, but obviously your feeling that somthings up and once you feel that you always be judging your own intuition.Id create a fake person on the site and try to see if he falls for the bait> if he mentions you everythings probably fine if not you better run
223415
she sounds like she is hoping to catch someone doing something wrong.\nShe sounds creepy.\nJust ignore it and mention it to her supervisor if you can do it casually. Just laugh and say it's funny that Ms. so and so is always watching you whatever you do, like you are just mentionign it, not really accusing her of anything.\nbut otherwise just try to ignore it.
981398
yes but i'm not gonna tell you how because you're snooping..\n\n\njust kidding- reality, most likely no. unless you have a keylogger installed on your computer before she did it, which most likely you didn't. keyloggers are pretty hard to come accross now too since anti-virus programs are getting so advanced, and you probably have one running.
386978
No, that's not paranoid at all.  Sounds like an awkward and complicated relationship.  However, because you said that she wants to hang out with you, and says it outright means that she probably likes you, even though she has a boyfriend.  She knows you, trusts you, and those feelings she once had for you have probably not gone away.  I'd hang out with her because she says she wants to, and keep your feelings to yourself until she realizes her true feelings.  When she does, she will most likely break up with him.  Or, I could be full of B.S. Who knows which one is true?  Only time will tell! :)
844031
I think she has an integrity issue and I think you should leave her alone.  It also occurs to me that if anything came of you and her, wouldn't everyone know?  I think she's toying with you and seeking a little more gossip to spread.\n\nSorry sweetie.  There are really good girls out there and you deserve so much better than this.
476159
She's a little intrigued now that you're not chasing her anymore... keep it up buddy, make her throw herself at you from now on - she will luv you for keeping it that way !
323113
Maybe she's waiting for you to say something first..Go for it and tell her.  If she's been hanging around with you for 2 years, she's not going to freak out and run...unless she's crazy.
571563
first do you really have any true evidence that she is... if not she will not appreciate an accusation... maybe she is going through something else?? maybe you should try just approaching her in a very caring manner and ask her if something is bothering her and being there for her.... sounds like something is up but you don't know what and don't create scenarios in your mind..... because you don't know
537500
i think you answered your own question, anyone your friend has, you want! i think you are jealous of your friend and a little insecure with yourself and think that sexual attention is a way of validating yourself?  its your'friend' i feel sorry for not only does she have a boyfriend that she cant trust she also has you, someone who cant wait to betray her, grow up and go live somewhere that you cant mess with other peoples lives..
856615
I would confront your EX and tell him that if he keeps stalking you then you will report him to the police.  It's just that simple.  What he's doing is creepy..not romantic.  Good luck to you.
345242
if you cant trust her you gotta bounce dude. seriously, if you stay with her your paranoia will eat at you until you drive each other apart, even if she isnt doing anything. chill out about it and trust her, or walk away.
1117281
It seems as if people are taking ur kindness for a weakness. She is probably using u too. so stop calling her and ignore her and she will get the picture trust its easy to make friends just dont let them use u
1165506
kinda stalkerish huh? jk...i dont know...
162489
this may seem little to you but in reality it is a big issue. if i were you i would make a police report about it, this is an invasion of your privacy and if they are watching your every move then, they are crazy and you need to tell the police and relocate. Clearly his motives are not of good nature.