I was wondering why I cant cum when someone is giving me head or im having sex, im only 21?  Thanks?
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Can u *** when u masturbade? Cuz if u can it just sounds like u are either nervous or the girl wasn't doin it for u. You gotta think about what happened when u were 18 that started this.
61436
If you did it in a new position and you went deeper than usual then yes, that is a very good possibility.  Is it near time for your period? You don't seem very experienced in sex.  How old are you?   WHY, OH WHY are you having unprotected sex?  Are you married?  You are just being plain stupid if you are not.\nI'm not being mean but I am trying to make a point to you.\nIf you are worried about anything at all please go to a doctor and get his opinion and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.\nThank goodness I have been married for many years and don't have to worry about all this.\nGood luck!  I hope everything is ok.
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Lack of control--it is not a common condition esp younger men and should be looked into by a family doctor. Could also be that the man is only concerned with himself( not true premature ejaculation) and not bothering to wait if woman or partner being satisfied.  Although some men may balk at seeing a doctor concerning this for feel embarrassed to admit this problem necessary to rule out it being related to a physical ailment that can easily be remedied but if my man had this problem my understanding would be limited and I'd insist he seek help for there is definite real help for this condition for not a permanent condition or else... .
532510
it is just like a males, when we reach climax we cum. it just doesn't usually shoot out.
723725
i see what yu mean. but..... i  don't know if you had the same volves. as me , but mine said in  sickness and in health.. just as it says  in  sickness and in    health...  honey, i know it's hard, but   we have to  endure. my husband  has not given me sex   for 20 years because  of a medical  problem. some times i question   that medical  problem but  i   have to live with it. i masterbate to  fulfill. you may have to  too.  it get old. you can only imagine so much.  i  wish  somehow we could met and satisfy each   other. good luck  humming.....you   want   to get in  touch  with me, my email :tootalljones@yahoo.com we can have im sex want to. im is the   same .yahoo IM down load it.
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Your jiz doesn't shoot across the room because there's no pressure behind it.  Try waiting a week before you jerk it.  If nothing changes, try spitting on your index finger on your other hand and pushing it up your bunghole while jerking, and put pressure on the inside wall behind your penis.  This should quadruple the intensity, and you will come like a wildcat!  Enjoy your body!
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Yes, I have had this happen, usually after a long period between ejaculations.  Especially if you are younger.  I think this way:  Semen has to come out one way or the other - so in times of abstinence it can happen.  Don't worry about it.  It's not serious.  This is usually when for whatever reasons, it's been a while since you had an ejaculation.
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Who are you occasionally having sex with?  It is a regular partner/Significant Other or just random?  If you're not with someone who you trust it can lead to you not feeling as free or relaxed and therefore not enjoying.  Also a regular partner starts to know your body and then can usually please you better.\n\nHow intouch with yourself and your sexuality are you?  How will another person or a person in sex know how to please you if you do not know how to please yourself.  A significant part to enjoying sex is being comfortable with your body.  Do you like what you see in the mirror, do you accept it?  Do you how you like to be touched?  Being okay with yourself and understanding your body can limit your pleasure when having sex.\n\nLastly why are you having sex if you are not truely enjoying it?  Do what you find pleasure in, even if that is not total intercourse.  If you feel like you should be having sex or enjoying yourself more that can decrease your pleasure.  \n\nNothing is really wrong with you.  You just need sometime to figure out what you enjoy, and make you feel things totally.
272201
You are a bit too young to get multiple orgasm and it is not that common either... you have to rest a few minutes... and I must agree with some other people... ky jelly will help a bit...
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I heard that 35 is around the age of women's sexual peak, and they are more likely to be able to orgasm through regular intercourse, unlike girls younger than them. So I think you've got it right on the money! Enjoy!
231946
how old are you? If you are below 18 then sex is illegal and dangerous. If you are asking this question then you perhaps are. \n\nUnderstand however fantastic sex may seem to you, you could get \na. Pregnant\nb. Catch diseases like STDs or HIV/AIDs\n\nGet yourself a good book, not a porn mag and get more information. Talk to someone you trust. Never ever ask such questions on the net.
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From what I have read from your previous questions, you are 13? If so I do not think someone of your age should be on here asking these kind of questions. And if you are of a decent age, the fun part of sex is finding out with your partner new sexual positions, by experimenting. I think by asking to describe sexual positions you are inviting explicit answers for another reason other than sex tonight w/ your partner.
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It's because your blood pressure increases when you have an orgasm, so if you orgasm more than once this could be a cause. I'd go to your doctor and ask for a blood pressure check (you don't have to tell him why if you're embarrassed, just tell him you've been getting headaches.) Hope this helps!
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Try to think about something other than what you are doing at the time...also if you feel it coming on...SLOW DOWN!! just bgecause feels good doesn't mean you have to keep going fast...slow down the longer you make it last the stronger the orgasm.
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AS you get older, your ability to ejaculate frequently diminishes.  Men reach their sexual peak around the age of 17, so depending on how old you are now, you're sexual prowessis declining.  Women, on the other hand, reach their sexual peaks at around age 35.  Unfair, isn't it.  But anyway, if you guys are having sex at least once a day, count yourselves lucky.  Most married couples don't have sex more than once a month, and if they have kids...forget it.
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are you actually ejaculating from orgasm? or are you sexually stimulated and just have "pre-cum" coming out?\n\nPre-cum is pretty common and some guys have more than others. If I am thinking about sex or stimulated and erect, i often have a lot of precum.\n\ndont worry.
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I think a lot of it would have to do with the total situation of your life as it is now.  First of all, are you male or female?  If your male, your sex drive could have simply decreased.  Also, in the case of both genders, in your thirties you aren't nearly as carefree as you are in your teens, & you are under a lot of stress.  Such stress may hamper your enjoyment of sex, if you're allowing it to preoccupy your mind as you're going through the motions.  Are you married?  Do you have kids?  If so, life has probably become routine, whereas there's nothing routine about getting laid when you're a teenager.  Even if you aren't married, life in general can throw a lot of stress at you in your thirties, with house payments, car payments, piles of bills, situations at work, & more.  More than likely, if you have a steady girlfriend or a wife, you two need to get together & plan a weekend for just you, where you won't be bothered, & you can enjoy one another without worrying about life in general.  Go somewhere where only select people, like your parents, will be able to reach you in an emergency.  Take a break, get rid of some stress, & have sex simply for the joy of pleasing each other again.  Hope that helps.  You might try the link below for more ideas.