is there anything special i could do to make my sex life with my girlfriend more exciting?
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be creative.brave.use your imagination.
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hell ya! especially if ur talking about sex, get all dirty with her. like call her ur sexy bich, or say, your azz feels awesome. but the all timer is like, i love ur titz! then as soon as u say that, give her boobs a BIIIIIIIIIG squeeze!
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You need to think about your partner, not just yourself. Part of making love is getting excited know that she is excited too.\nWhy would you be pist, because you HAD to satisfy her? You need to grow up or go gay!
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When she starts talking sex, slip into the conversation that if you did (this or that)you would want it to be with someone just like her. Then ask her if you could clone her so you could with a big wink and a devilish smile. I think she will get your drift.  Or tell her if it were not for the b/f you'd be compelled to try to do that to her. That way you can say you are interested without asking
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Take a bubble bath together, then take turns reading a book aloud to each other. It is fun, and since there is no pressure, the spontaneous sex can be fantastic! (If it happens) Oh, a good bottle of wine never hurts, either!
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i think that maybe you should start off slowly, do things that arouse you mate, kiss and touch and explore make her feel good and i promise that it will come naturally, PLAN B\nwatch a good porn.
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Wow... so many people answering "just don't make it feel as good".\n\nWhat's the point of having sex last longer if it's BORING?\n\nOkay, in order to make it last longer and still feel just as good, without having to resort to doing things like use a topical anaesthetic on your penis, do this:\n\nFirst, when you're having intercourse, pay attention to the muscles you're using to thrust with.  Chances are they're the muscles in your butt and in your thighs.  Believe it or not, that makes you have an orgasm quicker.\n\nInstead, let those muscles relax and switch to thrusting with your lower back.  It will keep intercourse feeling just about as good as always, you don't have to lose any of the sensation, and it will last longer.\n\nSecond, if you prefer an approach where the female gets to be on top, lay down and instead of keeping your legs flat on the floor (or mattress, or whatever), pull them up so your thighs are at a forty-five degree angle away from you.  Then while she's on top, let her lean back against your legs.  This not only gives her a bit of support to relax on, but it points your penis down and away from your head, which again prolongs the period before you ejaculate without having to sacrifice the sensitivity.  \n\nThis also works if she likes to face away from you.  All she need do at that point is lean forward and brace herself on your knees with the palms of her hand.  It puts your penis at the same angle and provides the same effect.\n\nNo fancy toys, no de-sensitizing lubes needed.\n\nAlso, as always, I recommend learning to become multi-orgasmic (yep, it's possible for men, too).  Check out the books "Any Man Can" and "The Multi-Orgasmic Male".  Both are excellent instruction manuals to keying you into getting to not only last longer, but have a whole lot more fun than you thought possible while doing it.\n\nAny more questions, just let me know.  =)
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Give her loads of compliments and take it slowly. Take your time over foreplay and give her lots of attention. Talk about things you enjoy and get her to show you how she pleasures herself. She is the best person to tell you what she enjoys so make talking about it fun and lighthearted and be open minded to her answers.
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Pay attention to the "spots" on her body.  It's very psychological as well as physical.  clitoral stimulation while performing is a real good trick.  If that doesn't work then simply ask her.  If you are open enough to have sex then you should be open enough to talk about what the needs and likes and wants are.
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Something has got to give or it will be your relationship.  Surprise her on her day off and take the kids to the parents house.  Communication and a good heart to heart is in order and the double surprise is that it creates intimacy.  And women need that for great sex. \n\nGood luck. (oh, and see what you can do to negotiate some of these issues before they strain you both too far)
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do maximum fore-play with her.. and dont rush for intercourse.. defjietely she will like tahtt also shortly. encourage her for chatss and c couple of porn movies withh her \nbe patient
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Honestly, we would have to know what you are doing NOW in order to tell you what would make it BETTER...you know?  Good advice is always ask, ask, ask!  If she knows what she wants then you don't need to ask strangers.  If she doesn't know what she wants or is embarrassed to talk about it, here are some things to remember:  stimulate the clit, be gentle, be generous, use your hands on other parts of her body, make her feel sexy.  Talk to her about what she likes and pay attention to how she responds when you do something.
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just experiment, im sure you'll get to pick up what she likes and doesnt like, ive been with my bf for 5 weeks and ive already explored him and know what his ultimate turn on is, bedroom experience is better when you show ur partner that you are taking an interest in what they like and exploring them
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Sorry but you cant increase her sex drive.   What you can do is, encourage her to want you more often.   Heres a few suggestions.\n1) Set the mood.  Maybe cook her a meal, light some candles etc\n2) Give her a sensual massage (massage everything)\n3) Let her know how beautiful you think she is.\n4) Be sensitive to her needs, as well as your own. \n5) Surprize her.   May a picnic, a movie,etc.   Just something you know she will love, and you wouldnt normally do.\n\nI hope these help.   Good luck
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be patient...do a lot of foreplay..use some lube and wear a condom...she's 18 so some drinks are not out of the question...start kissing, caressing and pleasuring her and she'll let you know when she's juicy and ready for entry...and consider yourself flattered that she asked you to be her partner for this special moment.
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Dude.. \nFirstly build a confidence. Don't be nervous before act and don't prejudice that u will end up early..\nSecondly, work it out..yeh..she told it right.. Masturbation is grt exercise for that.. but u need to do it with an intention to stand long.. Just thrust 5 times and stop (count 1 to 5).. then repeat.. this will give u more fun and increase your stamina also..\n3rd.. do a good foreplay to satisfy ur partner but enter your instrument only once she reaches peak
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Talk about sex in your email and what you want to do to one another . Just be true to her and don't let your hormones ruin your relationship .\n\nAngel