How do you unlove someone?
492097
If we could "unlove" someone it would be so much easier to move on after broken or bad relationships. It would also make it easier to make better choices to begin with if we could choose who to love. But unfortunately it does not work that way. "The heart wants what it wants."\n\nEven if we cannot unlove someone, it does not mean that we cannot move on. It may hurt at first, but as cliche as it sounds time does heal all wounds. Circumstances change, or we do, new people come into ours lives & make us forget others that may have treated us less kindly.
724989
Just forget. Shut your mind off to them and get on with life.
1174679
Admit you made a mistake - because anyone who does that never loved you anyway. correct your life - by taking out the trash (your mate). brush yourself off and get your head on straight and tell yourself he is not worth your tears. Learn from your mistakes and get on with your life. \n\nbest of luck.
181429
Ignore is the only way. Any response from you even the worst imaginable insult would only result in her harrasing you more.\n\nOne sided lovers, in this case a stalker, often have 'ways to think' in which they will take every action from you in a positive manner - they will interpret whatever you do as 'your love for them'.\n\nIgnore is therefore the only way that you can use.
104040
respect the person you love. listen to them and respect their view on issues you discuss,even if you don't agree. Don't talk mean to them or treat them bad. do special things for them that you know they like. ask them how their day went. Make them a special dinner or dessert. Help them work to make your home a place that you both are proud of. respect their family even if you don't like them. one of the worst things to do is talk bad about your mates family, it will eventually come back to haunt you. show them love and compassion. a hug,loving touch or kiss. take the time every day to show them in any way that you care through bad and good times. these are the things i do because i know that i have a wonderful man and thank god everyday for him.
229829
Well if you love him so much whay do you want to get rid of him?
22304
This is always tough and really, it depends on your situation.  The best thing you can do is be honest; tell them you no longer love them (and maybe this means you never really did) and explain why (this is the important part because it sucks to never know why someone fell out of love).  If you want to take the cowards way, just start cheating on them until they get the hint or the next time they say "i love you" say something like "yeah...about that love thing..." but you really do just have to say it.  They'll understand eventually even if it hurts them a lot now.  And be gentle, because they obviously care about you and you cared about them at some point
1176902
Put his head in a vice may do the trick...\n\nSadly, sometimes there is no way.  I am certain that even in your own dealings there may have been a time where you may have said something and thought that it was nothing at all but it may have hurt some one.\n\nEven in the matter of love there are times where you may be hurt and the guy just really wants to be away from you and doesn't care about your feelings...
1074292
by him telling you those things he doesn't love you.. the best for you to do is forget this guy and find someone to appreciate and love you for the person u r.
281113
There is no easy way and it will be hard.  Tears may be shed by both people.  \n\nI would recommend a neutral setting, like a park, and definitely do it in person.  Just explain your true feelings to this person.  You don't have to give so many details that it will hurt the person even more, but do give enough details that this person will understand that you don't think this current relationship is as strong as it should be & that you have a desire to date other people.  \n\nI would do it as soon as possible too.  It is not good to string someone along.
30793
well the answer is: DON'T.\n\nIt's hard, but If you truly cannot be with someone you feel this way about, then loving them will only bring pain.  Moving on is the only way.  Spend time with friends.  Go on a trip.  Spend time on a hobby you enjoy.  These won't make you feel better right away.  But it's all you can do to occupy your mind with something other than the person you cannot be with.  Someday, someone else will love you and it will be someone who you CAN be with.
562661
Tell him you don't love like the way you used to.  It's easier to be honest with someone rather to string them along.  It's going to be ugly, but it has to be done if you want to be happy.
1025831
Why cant you take not being with him????? You havn't seen many ppl i suppose or may have had narrow vision. If you talk about Love, then, you cant forcibly take it.... and some1 not loving you doesn't prohibit you from loving him. !! (well, am talking abt true love). I feel its better to let ppl go, and not be possessive. If he's yours, he'll come back to you or else, he never was yours. Would anyone like to keep some1 with her/him, who stabs on back????\nSo, nevermind, be cool, and happily let him go. You'll find a better one for you.\n(Well, hope he's not a billionaire and thats wat bothering you to let him go!! ;)    jus kidding.... )\nGood luck
1053244
you aren't in love - you are infatuated. \nshe doesn't want you - give up, heal & move on... you can't find happiness with someone that you have to convince to like you.
613252
I know how it feels and its really hard, but you got to be straight up with the person. Tell him how you feel ( as nice as possible) that way you don't bruise his feelings. Try to be as calm as you can and tell him why you can't be with him, or why you need your space... or whatever the problem is... remember to be yourself and as open and REAL as possible, thats ALWAYS the best way.
1150051
Be as nasty as possible if that dont work talk to the police. Show no care or feelings for the person just hate and be very nasty that s the only way to get through to them may sound harsh but thats how its done. oh or intreduce her to you best friend lol
656594
If you are not liking the person there is not point in continuing your relation with him/her