How do I make up with a girl who had a crush on me but I shoed no interest?
479199
Did you change your mind? Or did your 'other, better' option become disinterested in you? If it's the 1st case, you could simply talk to her and nicely explain that the timing wasn't right, but you've since realized that you didn't respond to her nicely and you'd like to make it up to her by taking her out to dinner. However, if it's the 2nd statement that's ringing true, you made your bed and you should lay in it-- it's not fair to her that you chose the wrong one and you'd be giving her the impression, intended or not, that she's '2nd best' or a 'consolation prize'- let her be.
718047
You don't! But, if she totally ignores you and doesn't even look at you even though you tried several times to bump into her in the hallway and loan her your pen, it could be possible that she is not interested. Other times, she could be so obsessed with you, too, that she can't think of a single decent thing to say when she's around you. Basically, she becomes tongue tied. So, if some girl doesn't do anything but stare at you (I don't mean the dirty look kind.) but she's caught talking someone else's head off, possibly she's really outgoing around everyone but you. Which, could also mean she likes you. Which, is very confusing. But, hey, girls are way mysterious. Right? Who's arguing...lol
725213
She now realizes you like her and she is not interested.  Instead of saying no or go away, she's just ignoring you to give you a hint; which your not getting. \n\nAgain, just be yourself and move on; maybe in the future she will come around but for now she's not interested in you.
455519
Well go meet up...dont blurt out your feelings...let the girl come to you. :) If she doesnt then your in control. Hang out with her like a friend...if she tells you she likes you and wants to be with you...then say what you feel i guess....but keep cool...if a girl told you she need space...then shes the type thats comeing back to you cuz maybe she was talking to someone else and now needs someone to talk to. If you want her back...let her show interest and act liek your busy and maybe you got time for her. Tahst the only way to treat a girl theses days :) hahaha i swear thats the kinda guys they want.
1120450
You can't get anyone to like you if they don't want to, try being charming and take an interest in her.  If this doesn't work then give up and move on.
677639
I agree with her friends. If u act as if your not into her anymore she may start to like you because now u don't show any interest. Act as if you have another girl you like and whenever your around her, just say " oh hi, how ya doing"  if u have a cell phone act like your calling another girl or when she around act like you have somewhere to go like to meet someone. Then she'll see that you may have someone esle and that would make her want you more.\n\nIf you kmow someone who would act like she's your lady friend she may really start to get jealous
868081
ehh, i had the some problem. just dont think what u r doing and ask the girl u like her. after that, apologize to her and say ur sorry u nvr noticed her until now
690098
Move on. There are lots of girls out there and at least you figured out that she didn't like you before majorly embarrassing yourself, so look at the bright side.
593724
always act like you like her until she likes you then ignore them and then talk to them
275280
I don't know if this will help but it's what I do before when I like someone but I don't want him to notice.  First, know his interest and then if you can strike up a conversation be genuinely interested then  if he appear to  be interested in you too, try to appear busy and not so interested anymore.  Be a little distant then let him do the move.  Some guys like mystery in a girl and they want to  be challenged.  Actually, I noticed that they get bored easily in girls who try hard to be noticed.
167298
Just be yourself, cos in the end, thats what she's gonna see anyway. Talk about her most of the time, find one little thing she says and run with it.She needs to be interesting or your wasting your time
417579
For starters, find something in common, ANYTHING, and then strike up a conversation about it.  SMILE CONSTANTLY and be funny and laugh and she'll dig your personality and continue to talk to you ... the longer you talk, the more likely you will have success.  After you've been talking for a while (if you see her regularly, then you might want to talk to her a few different times before suggesting more), then say "hey, we seem to get along really well and enjoy talking with each other.  We should exchange numbers and hangout sometime unless you think you're too busy."  If she AGREES, then she'll be cool with it; if she just simply says that she's too busy, then it most likely means 'no.'  Either way, when you suggest hanging out, give her an alternative like "..., unless you're too busy."  This way, it's not like flat rejection, and YOU will be able to keep your confidence for other/future girls.
122519
dont be too forward with girls. unfortuantely love with girls is a game. when they  receive too much attention they take the person for granted. my advice is get to know her and imply that you like her. get to know her but dont call too often or show too much attention becasue she will just take you for granted especially if shes as popular as you say she is. pretty much... make it clear that u might be interested but dont show too much attention. GOOD LUCK!
1118211
Probably cuz you ignored her.  I always say sometimes it is best to "back off" which is what you did and it worked out for you.  Try not to be TOO interested too fast though as that probably scared her a little.  You did right.
712803
i would try and give her hints but try and keep it real too. and if it comes down to it act like your not really into her anymore (but you really are) and she'll come crawling to you!
78138
Focus on yourself, not her.\n\nGet to be good at the things you do, and learn more about the things you are interested in. If she is anywhere near you, she will notice that you are an interesting person who is interested in interesting things. I guarantee she will become interested in you.\n\nFor example, say you are interested in Architecture. So you start reading about construction techniques and advances in material science technology, and casually perouse Architectual Digest on the side. You make sketches of concepts you have for building interiors and ask questions of someone who's parents recently remodeled their home. \n\nSuch a person would be fascinating to any girl your age. She would absolutely want to be around a person who is actually thinking outside of the dumb bubbly gossip of the day. You don't even have to advertise that you are doing all this stuff, it will be very obvious.\n\nTrust me, girls dig interesting people.
66700
Don't use a pick-up line - she'll see right through you, and determine you too nerdy to continue talking with.\n\nJust be cool. Ask her a question that gets her talking about herself and, even if you have to fake it, act interested. Girls love that!