What do you do when the person you want to be with doesnt want to be with you?
488569
i would say 'see ya later' and go on with my life. i know it must be hard since you have liked him since the 5th grade but if he doesn't want a girlfriend at this moment, don't wait for something that may never come.\n\njust go on with your life and don't be afraid to meet other guys. you never know, you might meet someone who wants to be with you?
630353
If you want to be with him and he wants to be with you.....what are you waiting for?? Hello!!! \nJust try again. It will happen one of two things,1- he stills the same and you get convinced to broke forever, 2- you will get alone and be very happy.
193358
It is going to be the hardest thing you do right now. At least it is for me. im going through the exact same thing right now.You should let that person go,because you dont even want to try to be with someone who does not want you.
597125
Damn, I wish I had his problems, I am a man and I am going through the exact same thing. It's hard when you want to be with a person and you feel they do not want you. I have tried going on trips just the two of you. If nothing else works ask flat out what is up? This was a good month for me, I got it more than once a week, I still had to beg a few times but at least I got it. I know for a fact it is going to be different this month, I will be begging more but I love her.
597690
Well remember the old saying when you love someone let them go if they come back they were yours and if they dont they were never yours..I think he doesnt want to be with you....move on girl there are so many other guys out there...Get over him and go get yourself a new guy;)) believe me its more fun.
25910
Be very straight forward with them from the beginning.  Tell them that you want a relationship with no strings attatched.  Maybe someday you will want a relationship but not right now.
869542
find a way to let go of her\n\nif shes doing that, you wouldnt really want to be with her anyway\n\nmove on and replace her with somebody who really loves you for you and wont cheat on you like that...and then lie to you about it\n\ngood luck with whatever you decide to do
909510
he doesnt want you to go with him...he wants to have fun without you...
479701
There is a round about method to get out of this.  Treat him like a friend and confide to him that you like someone else.  He will realize your interested in someone and not him and yet you won't have brought his feelings for you into the open and will have given him a way out.
651953
Nothing you can do but get a grip and move on.  Your wasting time on being all emotional over someone  who has zero interest in you.  Find the strength you need in KNOWING she is not interested; which is her prerogitive, and possibly HER lost.  Move on sweety.
1048513
Would you want to be with someone who did not love you back? If he used the excuse that he thought you were playing him to back of on the relationship then he is  a loser anyway! Move on with your life. You are better off!
969544
"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere. \nIt sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
1136261
Be honest!  Straight forward and tell the truth.  Just tell him that you don`t want to see anyone right now that you don`t think your ready to commit to any one person.  Be as honest as possible without hurting his feelings.  This way you can walk away and face him again knowing you were honest!!
167484
I guess just think about how you would want someone break it to you. Just don't lead him on because that hurts more in the end. In the end if you're having trouble doing it realize that you have to think about your own feelings and not just his.
188625
If he doesn't want you then you should start dating other people.  Your goal shouldn't be to make him like you, make your goal to be more attractive to guys in general if this is what you want.
40252
You have to follow your heart.  if you don't have feeling for the person you're with, it's time to move on.  It's near impossible to not hurt who your with now, but in the long run you're going to feel better for it.  Plus, it'll spare the person your with of even more grief in the future.
1053244
you aren't in love - you are infatuated. \nshe doesn't want you - give up, heal & move on... you can't find happiness with someone that you have to convince to like you.