WHAT TO DO you do if YOUR FRIEND IS TRYING TO BE BULMIC AND WANTS YOU TOO BE IT TOO??
487389
tell her mum, or a teacher... im serious.... throwing up rots your teeth, damges the lining of your stomach, causes heart weakness, you may loose a little bit of weight, but is it worth dying for... ? my best friend died aged 19 as a direct result of an eating disorder, IT IS NOT A JOKE.
1102608
i think your friend is being really immature. if she don't want to listen to what the new friend has to say then forget her and ask her if the shoe was on the other foot how would she expected to be treated.
244618
Just be silent and find out what they are all about.  Just listen.  If you truly want to be their friend, you will not impose your ideas upon them if they don't want to accept them.  You will just have to leave it at that, let go and let God.
1127723
you seam a Little dispirit for her attention but if she isn't respecting you or is only friendly some of the time you should just get over her make some new Friends you know???? even if you are only trying to help her she doesn't seem to want to hear it so interfere less way less OK?!
259183
I would say that was no friend to start out with. This person wants to be popular and will do whatever it takes. I would confront her and tell her your true feelings then go from there.
362781
This isn't going to be easy but maybe slow things down enough until you feel it is a good time to let them know that things aren't working out. Usually when you start doing this they come to realize that there is something going on and maybe take it upon themself to walk away. Sometimes friends need to just be friends at a distance. It does sound like you don't want any part of them, so it's better to be nice about it so you won't be feeling guilty.
1161957
This really hits me close to home because I have gotten on peoples nerves by pretending to be something I am not to be well liked well received as well as to get attention.\n\nI have "put up a front" because I have been hurt or I wanted to impress someone or be accepted and popular.\n\nTake your friend aside speaking the truth in love and ask him/her why they are acting differently? Encourage them to be themselves, there is nothing more refreshing or more genuine than a person who chooses to be themselves and be comfortable with who they are as a person.\n\nPeople have taken the time to speak with me privately and because of that I am learning just to be the person God made me any more or less would be a step out of His plan.\n\nI don't know who old you and your friend are but as a teenager young people want to be secure and feel special and accepted by their peers and sometimes people will try to the ends of the earth to impress people, but the bottom line and I am learning this in my mid 30s id not everyone in life is going to like you and you are not going to be well received by God.\n\nEncourage your friends to work with what they have and use the resources that God gives them. There is an old saying bloom where you are planted. Be encouraged
200243
look it is not you . so you need to get  your  friend  to talk to you and ask her why is she doing this OK but just be there 4 her or your friend that is what she need and want OK just be there she need you and try no to be mad ta her or she will not talk to you (i know one of my Friend did the same.) hey if you want some more 411 Emil me at (preppygurl0687@yahoo.com) OK go luck i know what is going on i was there to OK
462203
Forget your friends. If their really your friends, they woll except you chocies and be behind you all the way. Talk to them about and do what you want.
104398
You are who you are. Accept it. All you can do is ask your friend to do the same. You do NOT change urself for others unless you FEEL that something is wrong with you. As long as you are happy being who you are, it is good enough. So your friend teases you, tell her to accept you as you are. If she STILL teases you, make light of it and join the fun. Its not bad if you laugh at yourself. But make sure your friends know the limits, that is all. And I think you can trust this, because this comes from a guy who gets teased EVERYDAY for one thing or the other and NEVER have I tried to change myself unless I felt some part of me was bad.
1009059
Consider this,  this person is either a very lonely soul who is desperatly trying to seek attention or approval.   If so,  try to tone them down by just being a friend.    Or,  if this person is just trying to make you look stupid in front of other people, stay cool and keep your distance and your ears open,  when the opportunity strikes, debunk one of their knowlege attacks.
713124
Remember, you teach people how to treat you. Respect yourself and they will learn to do the same. Make your position clear as to what you want and expect from a friend and what they can expect from you as a friend. Peer pressure can be very powerful if you allow it to be, so don't. It's your choice. The only person guaranteed to be with you for the rest of your life is the one you see in the mirror each day. Don't allow their immaturity or less than sincere intentions to change who and what you are. Shallow friends are not friends at all. Be you and be happy.
459458
don't put him in that position . . . be his friend even if he is friends with your enemy
818296
get them fucking out ! if you didnt do it and they dont trust you they are not your friends and if they are not your friedns why would you share with them ?! find better friends oviaslu these are biches !
504892
Hi\n\n   If he is your friend like you stated please do not ignore him because that is not what suppose it friends do. I would simply say just talk to him have a serious one on one chat and let him know you do not view him in a way which can lead to anything but pure friendship. Hopeful he will be mature enough to understand that friendship is all you desire out of this relationship. \n  \nNow on the other hand if he ends up being a DICK about it you can just simply cut him off and then ignore him. I hope I helped
104049
You can not control the actions of others.  Your friend will continue to wear two faces as longs as it is beneficial.
206208
avoid them and hang around with better people (thoses who are you friends no questions asked). also stop letting them use you can also be attempted so that they will get the hint and get lost.