A guy and I are dating but he follows me EVERY WHERE I go (no joke) what do I do?
478441
TELL HIM TO CHILL OUT. IF YOU WANTED A BODYGAURD IT WOULDN'T BE YOUR BOYFRIEND.
525300
NO ARE YOU KIDDING, HE OBVIOUSLY KNOWS HE HAS A HOLD OVER YOU. AND APPARENTLY GIVES YOU NO RESPECT, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU NEED TO BE TREATED.
92096
Yea!!I am glad to see your moving on a little bit.  For the record I am not frustrated with you, nor the all knowing one...I think you are cute! I can tell by your questions you are overly causious.  I just feel pulled to encorage you to move it up with this gentleman.  Time goes by too fast and I hope you give him that look or tell him that it is time to take you out...I would take you out sight unseen and I have no Idea who you are.  So just do it girl!
888966
If you feel you need to have him investigated and can't trust what he tells you......\n\nfind a new boyfriend.\n\nCut your losses and move on.
608723
look...dating sometimes is not the answer...\ni don't know if you should date him or not....but first you have to be sure that he wants to date you....if he doesn't want to date you then don't....coz like this you will make your self a whore running after him....\nand don't feel that you are a whore if you don't date him...\njust forget it....and live life the way it was
866981
Ok so he flirts with you but he is dating someone else. I'm sorry but this guy may be sweet and all that but he sounds like a player. A guy who is with someone else shouldn't be flirting with someone else. That's just not approiacate. next time he flirts with you, you just need to tell him he needs to stop because he is dating your friend and it's not right.
252160
Listen to your gut instincts and explain in short to him that you have no interest in him as anything other then maybe a friend if he won't except that then you may need to get some help from your friends and family if you feel like he is stalking you Good Luck and Be Careful
146173
rather than get all tongue-tied asking him on a date,why not work on a friendship first? tell him you're bored and ask him if he'd like to go somewhere with you just for something to do.let him know that if he follows you to another part of the state it'd be great going knowing you're not completely friendless to start a new chapter in your lives.it'll be alot less scarry for you both.start there and keep working on staying friends and being casual until you get over the shyness or he does.somewhere along the line somethings gonna happen to show you whether you're wasting your time or not.if it turns out he's gay at least you'll have a friend to lean on in a strange place.
582963
yes...how can you claim to be going out if you don't go out? unless it is a long distance relationship, there's something really wrong. Maybe you should try to ask him out on a date or ask him if he sees it going anywhere...literally.
969544
"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere. \nIt sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
440438
Oh whatever he is just playing you, if you wait then he will never come just leave him alone and find someone that wants to be with you that doesnt have a girlfriend
669888
If he's stalking you he must really love you.  Just tell him to bring a pizza next time.  Kill 2 burds.
934429
Don't ask him b/c then he's going to take it as if you have been waiting around for him to come back to you.  Talk to him, try to act as non chalant as possible, and see what kind of vibe you get from the context of the conversation.  You dated him so you know what he's about and will be able to decipher better than anybody what's he's getting at.
1061624
He cheated once and you forgave him, you were an ANGEL.  And he goes and cheats on you again?  No, sweetie, he's just trying to get in your pants.  Kick him to the curb and find someone who deserves to date an angel.\n\nGood luck!
631933
Bull crap he is leading you on. He wants to keep you hanging just in case he can't find someone else, don't be his doormat..............
1175710
A thing like that happened to me once. you need to move on from this relationship. you and him can still be friends but just that. find someone who will treat you right and not lead you on. you seem like a nice girl so find someone who will appreciate you.
2720
stop the car,  get out of the car, and run from him,.  He is no good because if he flirts with you while he had a girlfriend.  He will do the same to you if u lived 3 blocks away.