Do women punish handsme guys for trying to be all-around nice guys?
475578
many women are simply not used to being around guys that are nice and, therefore, aren't sure how to act. It does not mean that they don't find this a turn on, you simply might have made them feel flustered, which is usually a very good thing. Take a risk and ask a girl out that has caught your eye. You may be pleasantly surprised at the answer you receive. Good Luck.
737585
Definietly NOT!\nThey have always had to grab ahold of my Jaw Slap me and say I am a good and decent person you MORON!\n\nThen I really like them...\n\nSeriously we are very dense and chase short skirts.\nBut like/love real women.
28784
Everyone can say just about anything, but showing it in actions is a whole new truth. Does he treat you as if he does? That is your own answer but mind you a mans way of showing things can be drastically different from a womans.How he treats others and how he respects and treats you
308932
Here here! Mike, you have a very good point sir. I've noticed women start out young picking the abusive, hurtful, untrustworthy bad boys while blowing off the "good guys". Years later after being used and abused they're ready to settle down with a nice guy and expect us to be like we were. Sorry ladies. While you were off being stupid, we were busy being rejected, damaged, and "just friends" in the interim. You want the best of both. You want to have your fun and then settle down when you're ready. Then you complain that there are no good men left. Now you know why. \nWe had patience waiting for you to smarten up. Now you have to have patience while we're learning to trust you again.
1097896
If I had a woman that did things like that, I know that it would take a great amount of pressure off from me in getting ready.  Now a man should be capable of getting his things together for trips, but if he has a woman that just automatically does this for him, I think she would need to be appreciated deeply by her man.  I think that a lot of men would not know how to react to a woman that shows that kind of attentiveness.  that is why they maybe tend toward a woman that acts bitchy?  That is what some men have seen and are most familiar with.
908523
Thats what turns some guys into bad boys..\nThe nice guys get tired of the women taking their baggage out on them and become assholes.
691879
My man that is a question has old has time itself. Every respectable man has thought about going to the "Dark Side" and becoming a jackass...hold tight it just takes women a little while to realize their being used for...well...you know. Nothing against the ladies but you get sucked in faster than the fellas do and the dirtbags use that card against you, thats all. So buddy hang tight it'll turn around.... patience is key!!\n\n  The Doctor is IN
231449
Women get used to being treated like dirt. It's sad, but it's true. When I met my "great guy" it took everything in me not to toss him away because I didn't know how to react to a guy listening to me, giving me good advice, opening doors for me and offering to pick up the bill instead of "borrowing" money. I think women often get the idea that they don't deserve to be treated well. I definitely think one should be careful with the use of those three naughty words (I l#v! y@u.)  I've had to tell friends to calm down and enjoy the ride when they've freaked out because they're being treated well---I think it's the acceleration a relationship can have when things go well that can often lead to catastrophy. Most of all, if she can't take your good treatment, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. That's the downfall of good guys. The gentlemen just need to stay gentlemen and know that they are worth something. We don't need our good men going to trashy b*tc%es anyway.
656226
In competition, women generally let men win, so as to spare the man's ego.
5486
Not all women are like that, just the ones who are stupid teases and get pleasure out of manipulating and toying with people. Personally, I would never have anything to do with someone like that.
289024
You have to be nice but don't let yourself be the doormat.\nShe wants you to be strong and true to yourself,\nso when you seem weak she punishes you (even though she may not realize this is what she thinks or what she does.).\n\nYour job is to be true to your strong male self,\nand you can be nice while doing that, it's just a bit of a balance...
978676
I should hope not .. People say Im pretty and I have hot guys always pestering me .. but they arent nice guys .. they only care about a girls appearence. I like nice guys!
22478
Guys, and also girls, can be mean sometimes. However, You are responsible of the way those guys are treating you. If you project a personality of zero tolerance for disrespect of your person, your time, or your property, those guys are going to react and start treating you well.
99228
dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
670820
yes is an easy answer. \nthe bad bit... men are or can be total brats. like women, petty, posessive and unthinking, so we hit out, wrong or right, we can hurt so we do. (not just men).or we pick up the phone expecting to hear you saying to another boyfriend Hi Mick - or we have at least another girl we hope we can connect with.[not my style]\n \nthe good bit, we are also a bit stupid (not much) so some times we need to try to fix things. But we are stupid, so we don't phone and say- "hey I'm studid can we fix things?"  We don't think- we do silly things. we miss your voice, we wish things worked out better, we wish you would smile, and when you pick up the phone you would say- take me to the pub.\nman or woman, we are complicated, complex and you must have a better insight to his style than anyone here.\nIs this guy a total nut or is there hope? \nyour call.
764576
most guys likes to pick and joke around with you but not in a mean way but there are some that acts in a mean way, but most of the time that their picking is harmless.  I have see that kind of stuff going around for sometime now.
401350
hey guys don't really slap me on the butt anymore cos they don't like the slap around the face that they get back! It's not a compliment doing that to a female, for a starter it hurts and secondly you're making out like you can just do anything to her and get away with it, disrespectful!