help. i need advice really bad. please. all i need is one word. no long explanation. but help me please?
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It's not one word but I hope it can really help. I know the pain of a broken heart.\n\nI vote you take some time off from men. Sometimes no man is better than settling for one you aren't sure you want to be with. At least try letting yourself recover from Brendan before you date Nate because it isn't fair to Nate if you still have feelings for Brendan. I definitely wouldn't go back out with Brendan. I know you love him, you always will because he is your first love. He not only cheated on you but he lied to you. That is really hard to recover from. It is good to be upset now, breaking up hurts. If you go back with him now he will never understand that cheating is not OK and he will continue to hurt girls. For the sake of women in general stand your ground. You will feel better about your decision in the long run. Don't feel sorry for him, he created this pain in both of you when he lied!\n\nBased on your last addition I can tell you already know what you want to do. You just want someone to tell you it is ok. It is Ok to forgive, just don't forget. Watch for any dishonesty and protect yourself. If he hurts you again then you will at least know for sure that he doesn't deserve your trust.
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Is it really that bad?  If so then get out!  If not then just put up with it.  It's tough as hell out here.  Think long and hard before you jet.
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I'm not really sure anymore.\nToday was 'one of those days'.\nI hate my teaching assistant for political science. I asked him if he could read over my rough draft since he WAS volunteering. So he told me to come by his office on Monday. And then i asked when and then he said after class and that i should 'get in line'. UGHHHHHHHHH! HE'S A TEACHING ASSISTANT, NOT A PRODIGY.\n\nGod, that pissed me off.\n\nAnd today i decided to stop swearing forever.\n\nAnd it just seems like the past couple of weeks have been so demanding.\nAnd now that it's come to a close.\nI don't know what i see.\n\nDaddy-O... I'm lost.\n\nI really am.\n\n*cries*\n\nI'm lonely and annoyed and frustrated and so insanely mad at myself. I want to do something great, at least write ONE great paper this semester and it just seems like i'm condemned to the 'loser' pile.\n\nAnd my best friend and i aren't on speaking terms.\nI haven't spoken to my husband in two weeks (he's in Egypt)\nI'm having all these insane desires (For instance, i want to pierce my lip and get a tattoo on my wrist)\nI've spent a whole crapload of money in the past couple of weeks.\n\n\nI AM SERIOUSLY GOING NUTS.\n\nI feel like a failure so right now at the present time, i see the end.
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Damn..........\nthat's a thought one. I really feel for you, but I cannot help you this time.
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Time heals all, eventually.  \nFrom this there is still a lesson to learn.  Remember since actions speak loader than words, only your actions can repair the damage that was done by your accidental words.  Eventually you must face the reality of what was spoken.  Yes, more than likely it will bite your backside.  How you chose to respond now will mold you for the future.  Next time when you talk about someone else, remember to treat them the same way you would like to be treated in the same circumstance.  More than likely you will spend some time repairing this indiscretion, so pay your dues and recall the "golden rule."  Treat others the way you would like to be treated.  Maybe you can escape some of the trouble of this action, but it will come back to haunt you sooner or later.  Actions speak volumes loader than words.  My advice would be to stay calm, confront the problem head on, Apologize/explain yourself,  and then stay to myself quietly, hope for the best.  Good luck!
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To offer some background, I really suck at talking. I can not formulate the correct words in my head before I say them. That means that I can't always say what I mean, and mean what I say. Bad combo. I'd like to think that I'm good at writing though. I collected a lot of what I know from reading difficult to understand books like Hamlet or other Victorian age books. Learning different lingos will boost the vocabulary and aid in the ability to select better speech or words. Hope I've not talked your ear off about something that didn't help!
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Sunshine... first of all I hope everything is OK with you.  (See how easy that was and I don't even know you)\n\nFor a 'so-called' friend not to write or call or anything, well that is just-so-wrong.   \n\nHow hard is it to type a short text message like... thinking of you hope everything is OK. :)\n\nWOW!  What did that just take 5.8 seconds.\n\nThey are not a friend.\n\nForgive and forget.  Don't go out of your way for this person and don't invest any more of your time with this person.\n\nI feel sorry for them... I foresee a long lonely life for this so-called-friend.\n\nOtro vez.... and I hope everything works out for you and O!\n\nStay healthy
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Betrayal is one of the most tragic things that can happen to a person.  Betrayal from a friend is the worst kind.  I hosnestly don't know what I would do.  I would be heartbroken for sure.  would it make you feel better to just go kick his a**? Really, I am stumped on this one.  I can imagine the pain of betrayal, and would be at a loss as what to do.  So, I guess I'd just go to the person and tell them how much he has hurt me and tell them that I'd never get over it, how much I had trusted him, and then try to get on with my life.
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Don't run away that will make things worse.  To be honest it wont matter what anyone says to you because your going to hear what you want and go from there.  I realize things may be difficult and it sounds like you just need someone positive to talk to and someone who will just listen.
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Babe, I would have loved to help u out and believe me I almost did. But then It struck me that if u get used to others helping u out, u will become a big ZERO in your life.\nMy sincere advice - try and make up some sentences. U might make a few mistakes  but then that's how u learn.  \n\nAll The best!!!
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You will not find an easy answer here. I can't even begin to understand all the hurt you must feel, but you can make it through this. You need close friends to lean on and a lot of time to heal. You need to be able to express whatever you feel openly -- maybe even go see a counseler. It sounds like you've been through a lot and my heart goes out to you. Be strong, but don't bottle up your feelings. You will be okay.
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Sorry, this was too painful to read all the way without punctuation, capitalization or sentence breaks.\n\nIf you want to know how someone feels, ask them.  Tell them how their actions make you feel.
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Good Grief!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Write complete sentences.  Cannot understand your ?
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No, never dear! Find a trusted adult or your parents to talk to. Do not think that professional counseling is embarrassing, it can save your life.
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Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
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Say Anything is awesome!\n\nGive Sugarcult a try
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whoa NELLY! You need some help dude. Seriously! CALL AND GET HELP NOW. Im worried about you! SUICIDE IS NEVER THE ANSWER! PLEASE DONT DO THAT!