how can you tell if your lady friend is cheating on you or looking elsewhere?
487050
Trust is the foundation of a meaningful relationship. But do you ever wonder why her previous marriages ended?
1160686
fu*k both of them. if hes cheating he needs to be booted and if she is messing with your man then she was never really your friend to begin with.
80490
This is a hard question to answer see that i dont know you or ur gurl.BUT that aside id say talk to her!are there signs like shes hang out with new guys or gifts she cant explain! Also think about this has she EVER given you a reson NOT totrust her!!! Before you acuse her of cheating Make sure you are sure she is because that would just be plain  hurtful if your wrong. The best thing i can say is trust her until she gives you a reson not 2.
128669
have a long talk with her.  i was going to say spy on her, but then if she catches you that proves that you dont trust her.  you have to trust your girlfriend.  talk to her first.  if you won't talk to her, and you have a very strong feeling she really is cheating on you, then prepare yourself for the truth.
656836
Assuming you meant Cheating not cheaping :o) \n\nThe first question you need to ask, is to ask yourself who is more trustworthy in this situation your friends or your boyfriend? \n\nThey may know that he is sneaking around behind your back or your friends may just want to mess your relationship with your boyfriend on purpose. \n\nThen second ask your friends why they think he is cheating on you (Do they have proof? Seen him with others? Who?) and if they do you need to ask your boyfriend if what you have heard is true.
210718
Hmmm personal experience here... \n-if he turns his phone off because he didn't get "reception"\n-if you find pictures of he and another female 69'n\n-he hangs out with another female more than 3 nights a week AND ALONE with her\n-90% of his friends are females, and he only hangs out with them 1 on 1\n-he seems to loose interest in wanting to chill with you\n-doesn't want to talk on the phone \n\nI know the feeling... got cheated on for a loong time and he wouldn't admit to it even when I found the pictures, so sometimes you have to go on instinct, and if you suspect, question him immediately... if he doesn't admit look for further signs and changes in personality... good luck...
971363
OMG. there are millions of resons to hach. You can get stuff, see if you girlfriend is cheating on you
308440
Follow him or hire a private detective to follow him.  Check out his cell phone and wallet.  If he is cheating...dump the loser!  Women do have that intuition thing...if you think he is, he probably is!
922519
You can't.  Just be alert and watch for the signs....unexplained purchases, loss of interest in intimacy, trouble maintaining eye contact, a sudden change in mood or behavior, mysterious phone calls, a confrontational attitude, making excuses to leave, unfamiliar scents, etc.  Most importantly, do not expect honesty.  If they have something to hide, you'll be the last to know.
57206
you have to have trust or you will drive yourself crazy snooping and as i call it "playing inspector gadget"\nall you can do is be the best boyfriend you can and if she messes up you can't blame yourself.
553730
Have someone mention to him that they are wondering about his GF. Thats how you find out. If he is single let him know you are interested, if he has a girlfriend then oh well maybe hes got a cute friend.
930363
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.
923661
This is a very touchy situation and should be handled delicately. Easily, both ends of this scenario can be seen. If you tell her, you'll probably lose him as a friend and she'll either be in denial and/or be mad at you. If you don't tell her, and she finds out anyway (which she will eventually) then finds out that you knew--you'll lose her as a friend. There are endless possabilities as to how it will play out--tell or don't tell--for either. If you truly think that he'll never do anything like cheating again, and they're happy, then that's great. But if he is the type that could cheat again, maybe her knowing now would save her more heart ache and pain down the road...\n\nYou mentioned that he said it was over with the girl, right? Now, did you beleive him when he told you this? You know him, was he being honest about it? Do you see this guy 'checking out' and flirting with women often?  Do you think that he would cheat on her again, period?  Ask yourself these questions, and it should help in your decision.  But, since none of 'us online people' truly know your friends, it would be extremely hard for us to answer the question for you. You are the one who knows them both personally, and it's up to you to sit down and evaluate the situation, taking the people themselves into account. We all have our opinions, and anyone answering this will give you theirs. (that's why we're here I guess--answer truthfully to the best of our abilities and all that) \n\nBest of luck to you, and remember that whatever decision you  make will be the right one!!
635942
Rumors are extremely dubious and I would not take their word for it. It could have been someone who looked like him, a rumor by someone who has a crush on him, who is jealous,... I would just try to be aware of what your friend says about him, and if any warning signals of cheating go off, then you might want to have her talk to him about it.
189177
Do you talk to other guys? Just because he talks to another woman doesn't mean he's cheating on you. Just ask him who she was if your that worried.
138833
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
558252
well there really is no way to really tell other than a lie detector...but women's intuition is usually right...at least that has been my experience...besides if you think he is lying to you about something serious you probably shouldnt be with him