she's not really wanted. how do i do it?
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You should just pull her aside by herself and be very honest with her.  If you don't, you are going to have a lot of unnecessary drama and I'm assuming that that's probably the last thing that you need or want on your birthday.  She will probably get her feelings hurt (think about how you would feel) but she will probably appreciate it a lot more coming from you instead of someone else.  Heard of the game telephone?  By the time it gets back to her it may become a situation that is totally blown out of proportion.  If she is a close friend of yours, I do like the idea of going out with her seperately, maybe with a couple other friends without the guy that way you can have the best of both worlds.  Good luck!!!
1080456
Be honest with her and don't lead her on.  If you like her but not enough to be in a relationship tell her that.
514701
Just be natural, if she didn't like you at least a little, she would not have agreed to let you take her home.
412988
Stay patient. She will come eventually. If you look for her, a lot of times you will not find her. My two mottos: Go With The Flow and It's Not Woth Winning If You Don't Have To Fight For It. The last one doesn't really matter in this, but the first one is very important.
407524
Tell her... politely.. and tell her that he or she isn't right for them... at all cost.... you must make sure yourself that its in the best interest of her and not for you....
244584
Depends..maybe she really isn't interested.  Ask her out, if she says no then ask why. If you get rebuffed then leave her alone. No, means no.
420287
Ignore her if you don't want to tell her straight out. Works for me....
107275
Approach, from her back!! She can't get away from you that way. And like I said in the other ques. similar to this one.
42547
Just be honest and tell him&#92;her that you're not interested..
644872
I would suggest you ask straight up would you like to... go for a drink, movie, dinner, hang out and pick a time and place no room for negoaition.  if she backs out then forget
87090
Leave her alone for a while ... she'll wonder what happened and want to pursue you ... works every time.  People always seem to want what they can't have.
1096058
thats not always easy because the girl you want may not want you. but the best thing to do is be open and honest and treat her right and share your feelings with her. Many times this does not work but it is really the best we can do. best of luck
489305
tell her indirectly that you are not up for commitment right now and that if you do get commmited these are the criterias you are looking for (obviously none of the criterias will match her!) dont just come out and tell her you dont feel for her directly because that hurts a lot. keep your space from her and ignore her calls or stop meeting her if you are, she will get the message in time.
690990
"get her"?? What, is she like a mouse running around your house or something???\nYou don't "get" someone.....\n\nJust leave her alone...
642889
Have as little to do with her as  possible. Don't talk to her and physically distance yourself from her.
1084093
YOU SHOULD SEND HE OR SHE SUMTHIN TO LET THAT PERSON KNOW DAT YOU ARE FEELIN THEM. BUT DNT ACT LIKE YOUR STOCKIN THEM OR JUST GOIN TO DIE IF YOU DNT HAVE THEM JUST PLAY IT COOL AND EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE EITHER SHE WANT  YOU OR SHE DONT ITS AS SIMPLE AS DAT . AND IF SHE TURN YOU DOWN DEN DATS A LESSON LEARN DAT MAYB YOU NEED TO DO SUMTHIN BETTER. GOOD LUCK ON FINDING DAT GURL
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appoligize!  ihad that happen!  give her her space for a while, then appoligize.  it worked for me!