How do I handle myself????
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If it's best to avoid any more emotional entanglement, you are gonna have to play it cool.  Be polite, very polite.  Most people recognize that means there are barriers.\n\nBest solution:  find yourself another guy.  Learn to appreciate that he your baby's daddy... and that is all.
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You are what you are. Why can't you accept yourself for who you are? Work on self acceptance. Sounds like you need to see a professional. Love yourself. \n\n"The best you can do is be the very best at being you" Unknown.
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Pray to God for help and guidance. In this situation, because there is obviously nothing you can really do, put it in God's hands. I'll be praying for you!! I hope this helps. :)
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LIVE ONE DAY AT A TIME.\nenjoy the 24 hours of each day\nbe patient with yourself\nyou cannot solve your WHOLE LIFE issues today....you do it  ONE DAY AT A TIME.\ngood luck
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Remove myself from the situation, take a walk, take a drive, if you can't go anywhere else, just go to the bathroom, shut the door, wave your arms and scream silently.  Take deep breaths.  Listen to your very favorite music.  Everyone has to find their own combination for what works.
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love yourself as you are. cherish your uniqueness. no one will pay any attention to you if you dont see your true nature. dont be obssessed with people, just relax and respect yourself.
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Stand up to them. Do this in a professional and respectful manner. Do not lower your standard to their level.Smile while you are doing this and last of all ask them if they need your help. Be sincere. Make sure you have had enough sleep the night before and if you take medicine to help you control your emotions, take it about 30 minutes before you have your day. Let us know how it turns out. You may want to practice in the mirror at home for a few times before you BLAST OFF. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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take care of yourself!\nDont advertise yourself in this way.
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OK, I am going to speak plain with you. You have come here for some emotional support, perhaps some consolation and for others to jump on the bandwagon of your selfpity and pity and feel sorry for you. I am not going to insult you or be mean to you, however, I am not going to lie to you either or encourage you to feel powerless by acting the victem. \n\nListen, if you want to grow self esteem, self respect, the first thing you need to do is take your personal power back by stopping this victem stuff, stopping this feeling sorry for yourself. You are as deserving as the next person of happiness and good treatment. I don't care what your race is, what language you speak natively, or what type or how bad your accent is, what your weight is, how tall you are, the shape of your eyes, or nose, or butt either. You are a hunam with rights the same as anyone else. \n\nWith that said, I want you to listen very carefully here. WE TEACH OTHERS HOW TO TREAT US!!! If you allow yourself to feel like a victem, then you will be a victem. Do victems have personal power? Do victems have self esteem? Do victems have self respect? No to all of the above. However, nobody can make you a victem except YOU. You are choosing to view these events as a victem, rather than stand up for yourself and demand proper treatment. \n\nWhy did you not go to the principles office and report these incidents? Why are you allowing these people to treat you poorly? There are things you can do to stop this sort of treatment and you are the only one who can do it. Nobody is going to do anything to gain you proper treatment, nobody is going to step in and say, "hey, you need to treat this young girl right!". As sad as I am to say that, it is the truth. The reason nobody will do this is because you have isolated yourself, have not made friends, have not nurtured your life here in this country. You have allowed yourself to be trampled on and become downtrodden and that is not attractive to others. Nobody wants to be friends with victems, or with those who allow themselves to be treated poorly. That is a sad fact of life. People want to be friends with the popular kids, with those with self esteem and self respect. People always love the winners, not the losers. It is a sad fact of life, especially for the younger crowd. \n\nListen, kids are the cruelest animals on the face of the earth. They know when another kid is weak and vulnerable and they, like wolves, go for the soft underbelly of those who are weaker and rip and tear them apart. As you have not stood up for yourself, have not placed bounderies around yourself which tell others what you will tolerate and what you will not tolerate, they see a person easy to taunt and take things out on. Kids are under a great deal of pressure and they will find those weaker than themselves to degrade and beat up on in order to release the presure they are feeling. Sad fact of life for a kid. Even adults will act like this sometimes. \n\nYou need to start gaining self esteem by setting bounderies on how you will tolerate treatment. You need to take back your power by going to the proper authorities and reporting those who abuse you. You need to report anyone who lays a hand on you, who so much as touches a single hair on your head. \n\nStart holding your head up when you walk around. Stop looking at the ground, and allow yourself to look others straight in the eyes. This is America and in America we look others in the eyes, not keep our eyes on the ground. You need to learn how to fake it tell you make it. In other words, if you pretend you are happy, if you pretend you are not miserable, find stuff to do, and look happy and look content with life, soon you will discover you actually are. \n\nI use to hate having to push a shopping cart home from the store. I felt embarressed due to it seeming to signel to others my poor status. I was ashamed and always looked at the ground so not to see the contempt I imagined in the ey
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Whats done is done. You know better now.  So go and do better. Dont beat yourself up as long as you take the steps to do whats right. You know yourself and just know people make mistakes. You will be fine.
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Overwhelm yourself with friends. \nI get over things like that when I hang out with one person or a group of people that NEVER make me feel bad. \nAlso pick one person to cry on. Don't conseal it completely or you'll explode!
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YOURSELF!!!  The only self help programs that are best for you is YOU!  Look inside yourself and decide what it is you really want and don't listen to anyone else!!! Follow your heart and your mind!!! Good Luck
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How did you manage that!!
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You have been dominated and controlled and you need to take control for, and also of, yourself.  You are not mental, or a failure!\nGet some self assertion classes and think about what you want from life.  Then make some decisions and carry them through.  i promise you, you will feel much better when you are doing what you want to be doing...good luck...;
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Pray to God for strength, courage and wisdom to move on and guide you in His direction. He loves you very much and will see that you will carried through this troubled time in your life.\nGod bless you and give you peace.
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Accept that no one's opinion or feelings truly matter but your own. It is your life, no one else's. You must accept your feelings, it is who you truly are inside. If you fight your feelings, you fight your soul. Accept yourself and love everything you find about yourself. No one is bad, only misunderstood.
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It's going to take some time. But, meanwhile spend lots of time with friends and family. Constantly remind yourself of how wonderful you are and spend time doing things for yourself. You know, pamper and spoil yourself. Keep your head up and be encouraged. Sometimes bad things happen to good people for no reason at all, but it's during those times that we've got to use those situations to make us stronger not weaker. Good Luck!