Ladies, what do you prefer- a guy with abs or a guy with a "little flab"?
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I don't care...I don't really want a guy that's just skin and bones.
461891
I have always liked a smooth chest, that is until I met my boyfriend and he has a hairy chest.  I think it really depends on the guy.
301627
Butt.  I know, it sounds so sexist.  But until you get to know a girl all that attracts you is the physical.  And to me if a girls bottom is nice then that's a heck of a start.  Once I get to know a girl then the eyes and hair are important...unless we're rolling under the covers, then I go back to the trusty butt.\n\nBoobs?  Hah!  They're for babies!  If your man noticed you for your eyes or smile he's either lying or borderline gay.  If he said, "Baby it was your awesome a*s!" then he's truthful and a real man.
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I'd rather have the in shape guy. I'm not emphasizing good looking, that would be great but isn't mandatory. HOWEVER, if I'm investing enough of myself and time into someone that I have sex with them? I want them to stick around for awhile. Penis size seems irrelevant if you have to be air lifted from your bed for emergency surgery after that heart attack. Someone that fat literally lives on their deathbed, usually with clogged arteries, gout, or diabetes.No thanks.
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has to be the arms and hands of a guy. i like a strong guy with slight muscle tone just that little curve in the arm and you can tell alot about a person by there hands.
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Both.I just like guys in general.
605307
I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
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I love when guys have good looking butts, so the more  see of it the better. BUT please know that they don't look right on everyone.
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Who cares?  You got nice abs!
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Really? It's nice to see a man who doesn't dig the anorexic look. \nI'd say decent sized breasts, a little soft tummy with soft curves, rounded hips. Chocolate brown hair, long, light brown-green or hazel eyes. Tanned to brown skin.
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Muscular, because I want a guy with some meat on his bones. I just feel that a skinny guy couldn't do anything for me (i.e. protect me).
410883
curves is good!!! I want a woman not a stick by my side :)
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i like your question!\nit seems that it depends on the guy to which body part he's attracted to (it differs, i guess). i have dated both types, though i didnt notice anything particularly different! but i'll think about this the next time i date a guy...!\ncheers
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I would rather have both.\n\nNo, just kidding. Obviously physical attraction is what initially attracts you to someone. But if a guy has an amazing personality, then he immediately becomes more attractive to me. If I am compatible with someone in other areas, I couldn't care less about the superficial qualities.
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Speaking from experience, a lot!  However, if you have a 6 pack and not much else to speak of, it's far less impressive.  One thing that guys just DON'T get, is that we like to see a guy with some tight thigh muscles.  Every girl I've ever said that to agreed with me. Squats give great thighs!  Oh, and don't think sit-ups will do the ab deal. They mostly overwork the hip flexor muscles and don't hit the abs very well at all.  Doing traditional ab work on a blow-up ball works them much harder.
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i go for personality, becuase all good looking guys are shallow jerks who are cocky as hell. i used to go for looks too, but as i grew older and more mature, i changed. as long as hes funny, modest and cool, im okay.
386912
tall is sexy while short is cute. whichever a guy likes best.