what should i get someone as a present if i want to ask her out for the first time?
475676
RESPECT!!! I couldn't think of anything better to ask for.
561656
bring her some flowers and ask her out
100509
Well if she knows you like her and she likes you there are many things...candy, flowers, a book, treat her to lunch. If she does not know then maybe a Valentine's Day card asking her to be your Valentine. Good luck :)
161843
I wouldn't try to impress her.  I would be very polite, bring something for the event -- dinner, bring a dish -- movies, bring candy and lifesavers to share -- birthday party, bring a gift -- that sort of thing.  \n\nDon't arrive empty handed.  You heard that she loves to knit?  Bring her a book about making her own knitting patterns that you just happened to see at the mall.  She likes "Life is Good"?  Bring her a Jake mug.  A live plant, in season, small, and flowering, is very nice.\n\nSpend some time talking with her at the first meeting.  Ask her about herself, and tell her a little (!) bit about yourself.  Tell her about your hobbies and about a project that you are currently working on.  Listen if she shares her opinion.  \n\nTry not to "hang" on your bf.  It makes mothers nervous.  If you are still quite young, it is likely that she is looking at you to see if you will be a good influence on him.  \n\nAgain, be polite.  You aren't there to steal her son away.  You are his "friend" and want her to consider you the good guy.  Be yourself.  Relax.
308430
just YOURSELF will be the biggest, most bestest and the most precious prezzy she would ever want to see and have babe.....i will say that......\nbut if you really want to give her a gift, i reacon this works all the time....make her something, dont go buy it....could be just a card, at least it came from your heart and your own hands, and its a one-off(original)...you know...have a good trip when you go see g/f....
703451
Buy something of reasonable value for your budget, don't make it too lovey dovey, or too practical, a nice, necklace or pair of earrings, a gift certificate to her favorite store or for a manicure/pedicure or massage, maybe a nice dinner somewhere, mostly it is the fact that she will know you have thought about her enough to put forth the effort.
693907
You could include a sports water bottle, a gift card to her favourite store, tickets to a movie, a new CD, some beauty products, or perhaps some sports apparel. Best of luck!
401555
be ur self\nif she really likes u for u thats the way to go\n\nand dont try and feel her up on the first date lol
922870
Something thoughtful. If she likes art, try something from the met. if she's really into shopping, try a bag. There's so much in NYC, it shouldn't be too difficult. The fact is that you're showing you were thinking about her while you weren't with her. That counts.
698868
A pretty necklace or something like a gift certificate....Or you could take her friends out to the mall to shop and eat...Make sure her friends bring money for themselves..to make it cheap lol
908336
I think a letter expressing your feeling or treasured moments with her, or is your any kinf of pot, a poem could work as well\n\nGo to the dollar store, buy a nice picture frame and display the letter...add one single rose to that. (if you could afford it),,,,\n\nThat would be the best and most personal gift any woman can receive....something from the heart, and not store bought.
1063340
You should get to know her first, even if it is just a quick chat, make sure you talk about her ask her what she likes etc..  Then you will find that when you ask her out she is more likely to say yes.
129157
Agreed. Keep it simple since you just started dating. I'd suggest dinner, or a romantic picnic (depending on the climate). You could also buy her a cute little stuffed animal or something simple to remember. Oh, if you haven't kissed her yet, save it until after dinner on Valentine's Day. She'll definitely remember that.
226570
take her out on a romantic date maybe to the place of your first date, out to dinner and a movie, but her something sweet (not necessairily expensive) such as chocolate a teddy bear or flowers, cuddle at home watching a movie and kissing
499901
if she gives you a present, then send her one too. but if she doesnt, a birthday card will do
137946
anything but though IM!!!\n\n\nsomething cute? note, card, in person?\n\n\nwhatever you think she`ll like.\n\n\n=]
1121527
You should get him something that reminds your both about how you met, or something/someplace that is special to you. You know, something like that.