first time masturbator?
483051
As a discovery repport said...if you don't use it, you lose it.....and it's a prooven fact that 98% of the male population under 20 masturbates and 80% of the female population under 20.....it's perfectly normal.....then comes the religious point of view that shows masturbation as a bad thing.....it deppends on what you decide...my advice: if you keep thining of it but don't do it it's the same thing as doing it...so pull it out of your mind and wait until you get married or just make it your main action....
1074574
A good place to masturbate is in a comfortable chair or bed.  There is no special place to go, as long as it is in private.  You don't have to be nude at all to masturbate.  All you have to do is stimulate yourself in a sexual way.  You could be naked, or just rub it through your pants.
1046491
Masterbate before you have sex.
95322
Not my 1st time. I didn't feel a thing. hehe
855498
None .... new to this.
695024
First times are only as awkward as you make them. RELAX...communicate, ask and offer. \n\nIf having a couple of drinks helps, so be it. \n\nIt's only awkward until you get into it. Seriously. Once you're both naked, most of the awkwardness leaves.
1036597
no age limit on masturbation. this is a perfectly normal thing for men and women to do all through out life. No age that says you should stop masturbating. I am 20, and currently masturbate. I am single a virgin. Masturbation is a good stress reliever and a good way to keep your reproductive system clean down there. This also has proven to be helpful in preventing prostate cancer. Masturbate all you want to man.
1128836
I have heard the "sit on your hand until it's numb & masturbate with it" too.  Supposedly feels like someone else giving you a hand job, I'm a girl so wouldn't know.  You'd have to be pretty bored!
835284
My best advice would be that you should try having an orgasm on your own first. When you are with a man, you might become so concerned about the orgasm-matter, that you will not be able to relax and give in to the pleasurable feelings.\nIn order to enjoy masturbating, and getting an orgasm, it is first and foremost important that you think it is OK to masturbate! There is noting wrong or sinful about getting to know one's body - and thereby becoming a better sex-partner.\nMake sure, you have all the time, you'll need without disturbances. Pay attention to the setting; perhaps you'll enjoy a long bath first, put on your favourite lotion, your favourite underwear or maybe light a few candles.\nSpend some time finding a good place to be at - the bed would be an obvious choice. Try touching yourself in different ways, what feels good, what doesn't? Take it slow and enjoy your time with yourself, getting to know yourself. Perhaps you won't achieve an orgasm the first time, you try; but you'll definitely learn something about how you like to be touched.\nRemember, the main goal is to become comfortable with your own body and your own sexuality, this will heighten your chances of achieving an orgasm. On the same note, I'd hold back on porn, dildos etc. until you are certain what you like, until then they might only serve as distracters.\nBest of luck!
495890
LOL, are you that young?\n\nTo be honest, I have been with women, who if given the choice, be with them again or masturbate, I would masturbate. Sooo... sometimes it is better... maybe...lol
155036
There isn't one ideal age. It varies depending on the person, but anything under 16 is too young. You will always remember your first time. Be careful to have no regrets.
1090098
Masturbation involves touching, stroking, yanking, or fondling the genitals to achieve satisfaction, generally in the form of orgasm. You can do all kinds of things, and stroking one way does not feel the same as stroking another way. \n\nTry it if you want. Just make sure you are alone as parents probably would not find it pleasing to see their child do such things. For a first time, just find a place where you're alone and comfortable, drop your pants and gently stroke your penis or vulva (don't know which you are, hon). As you get a little more exited move a little faster. If you are in possession of a cunny you can find something to toy with, for a first time find something small like the backwards end of a pen (don't use the writing side, it's sharp and you'll get ink up there). You can also just use a finger. If you have a willy, then do NOT insert anything, stick more to stroking and yanking. Try different methods as you go on. Do NOT cut yourself or anything, no scissors or anything, please.\n\nI'm guessing you are very young. If you haven't hit puberty yet, don't worry about it, you probably won't be able to have an orgasm anyway. If you have, then play on.
579199
Masturbate, of course.\nIt's the natural and logical thing to do.\nIf you're asking this question, it means you're probably fairly young so I certainly don't recommend going out and messing around with guys. \n\nTry theclitoris.com for information on masturbation.
685212
Yes I've had sex and it's great once you loose your fear of it.  If u masturbate, then think of sex being 10 times more satisfying even if u don't orhgasm...Nothing better than to have a guy in you...How old are u?  U might want to wait till u r older though...I started at 13 and maybe that was to young but I was always to curious for my own good...
756012
Not really,  first time is almost always awkward, and just spitting for lubrication would make a first time a bit "rough" for a newbie.  Beyond that, it was realistic enough for Hollywood, and considering Ang Lee and stars were all straight, was competent interpretation.  Remember, its just the movies, and straight love scenes are prettied up too!
158286
you should be more specific about what you want to know.\nsex is fun, and good excercise, and an all around good thing! the first time can hurt, usually does, it can also be scarry! its something new for you to experience. just relax and let whatever happens happen. its a natural thing, and is not something to be ashamed of.\nyou might try looking it up in the dictionary or googling it!as to get more information.\ncongrats on your marriage!
1098447
I really do wish people would give me a clue to age.  If you are younger than 13 you may not be producing semen yet so when you masturbate you get all the good feelings but no semen(cum) shoots out yet.  If you are over 13 you are just days, weeks, or a month from producing semen and it will happen during one of your masturbation sessions.  If you are not masturbating yet.  Then that is what you need to be doing.  If you are 18 or older and masturbate often and your semen just oozes out then you need to lay off for a week and then masturbate.  Your body will build up a supply of semen large enough to shoot out.  If you are over 40 tough luck it will just ooze out.