how do i get my girlfriend to go into bed with me?
493816
Get your head out of your pants, stop acting like an animal, and focus on what makes HER happy instead of what YOU want.
504471
Add alittle spice in your life by taking showers together...that is always nice...you start by giving her a wipe down with the soapy sponge and add alittle four play..then hand the sponge to her and hope she returns the favor..If she reciprocates you should pick her up against the wall and proceed to make love there, after that pull her out the shower, and put her up on the sink and do it again..explore each others fetishes and wildest desires...Explore each others body til there is no part left literally unturned..just have fun...
1092439
depends what stage of the relationship you are in with her.  if you've already had sex together, and just want to know how to get her in the mood to do it again, foreplay works great.  if she's totally not in the mood, stimulating her genitals directly is not a good idea.  you need to stimulate her mind first.  try watching a movie with a romantic love scene.  also telling her what you like about her works wonders.  not like, "remember that bra you were wearing last time we got it on?  that thing was HOT!" but something like, "you are so cute when you sleep" or "i love that you are so passionate about your job."  it will get her feeling positively towards you, and then you can move in for some kissing or something.  lots of kissing will work wonders, and pretty much everyone loves a massage so you two can take turns on each other.  but you shouldn't make the next move.  get her to the point where she is just dying to jump you, then let her.  :)\n\na side note on this.... it may turn out that she is in the mood for kissing but not sex because of *ahem* her hormonal cycle.  some girls have a really low sex drive while they are on their period, for example, and also might be uncomfortable with the idea of sex during that time.  don't stick your hand in her pants all of a sudden because you and she might be unpleasantly surprised.\n\nif you two haven't been sexually intimate, it's harder to jump right in.  young or inexperienced women may not realize that what they are doing has such a strong effect with regards to turning you on.  for this reason, it doesn't hurt to talk about it, tell her where you'd like to see the relationship go and how soon.  explain to her that her style of dress or method of kissing makes it much harder for you to resist her.  say that you'd love to make love to her but if she isn't ready she might want to tone it down a bit so that she isn't sending signals she doesn't mean to send.  always be polite/gentlemanlike and don't pressure her.  she will feel more comfortable with you as a result.  some women, if they are comfortable... they'll want to have sex with their man all the time.  if yours is still reluctant, apply the techniques listed above.\n\nin any stage of the relationship, women value courtship (the whole door-opening thing, helping her into her coat, all that).  be polite and respectful.  also keep the lines of communication open.  tell her what you like and encourage her to tell you what she likes (then do it!).
55973
a nice Massage!!! if she is a working woman she will appreciate the royal treatment!!! send her roses to work, makes us feel special. COOK her dinner, nothing says "you are my special love" then a dinner made with blood sweat and tears. and then that night, massage her into a deep sleep. dont press sex either. ask her if she wants to. if she does, make love!!! no f*cking tonite. if she doesnt say something to the effect of "its perfectly fine. let me rub your feet, it will be better than sex" makes me dreamy just thinking about it, ps. im married too
854060
Always always always be honest, don't try to change who she is or what she is, how she dresses. Tell her that she is beautiful and treat her like u have never treated anyone like she's just something u have to have every day. Make her feel safe and secure when she is with u. And when she doesn't feel like having sex don't get mad at her cause sometimes a woman just likes to be held and caressed. It's not always about sex. But when it is please her. Make her feel like she's the only woman on the face of the earth. We like this kind of stuff. Hope this helped.
395632
How bout trying candle light?  She will think you are being romantic and you will get some reprieve.  And how about offering to work out w/ her?  Take some long walks or join the gym, maybe it will strengthen your relationship in more ways than you know!  You'll get a shapely wife, and maybe your relationship will get stronger for the time to spent together!
397680
tye my man to the bed
242780
Let me tell you something about girls.  They like to have you hold their hands, look at them when they talk, be interested, look in their eyes, be a gentle man, be kind, be polite, touch their hair, their face, their shoulders. Kiss them nicely.  Don't look at other girls, take them nice places, compliment their clothes, DO NOT grope for their PARTS!  We hate this.  If we like you we will let you know when we are ready. And if you have done all this for real, not just an act to get her in your bed, she will be hot already for you.  Good luck
874680
get her in a room alone with you and take off her clothes and fore her to do you.\n\n\nNO.\nI'm kidding!\nShes probably doing this because of religous reasons\nOr maybe its a little to fast for her.\neither way its really had to convince people like that\n\nThe last thing you should do is constantly bring up the\nfact that she hasn't kissed you.\n\njust let time do its magic.
674270
If you don't have a bedtime routine you need to start one. Help her to wind down a bit before bedtime with a bath, a cuddle and a story. When she gets up in the night change her diaper and put her back to bed. Soothe her. Tell her you love her, but it's time for her to be sleeping. You have to be consistent. Don't let the middle of the night become play time. It may take 2-4 weeks of this before she gets the message and stays put for the entire night. If you give in, even once, you'll have to begin the whole process from scratch. I've seen it work. God bless!
226576
Let her make all the moves, or ask her if she would like a back rub and just give her that.  And see if she does anything after you stop.  Talk to her.  Tell her no pressure you can wait.  Show her your a man and not a boy also reassure her that there is more than just sex that makes a relationship.
1042993
work your way up to it. See how far she is willing to go without having sex. Or you can use the super dooper easy method and just ask!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
207407
No No No this ain't gon play.\n If you really care.  I mean if you really, really care, then acquaint yourself with some of the many many books on the subject and spend some time discovering tthe complexities of making love. Don;t just tke the easy way ou by asking somebody else who has not necessarily got the word on anything but their own possibly narrow experience.\nTake your time and learn the ways of love, Just like you need to with the one you are with. While making love to her,Slow loving attention and showing your appreciation for things that you find particularly attractive and unique about her asking her to let you know what you are doing that she especially likes or would like from you.--all these thing go a long way toward memorable,  mutually satisfying sexual relations.\n  Be attentive to her talk, her clothes, hair, perfume,  her style, her preferences, her needs OUTSIDE the bedroom and all the rest of the time. That's when she learns to regard you as a truly big man. and she develops a stronger longing to be close with you. Follow my advise, make those little efforts throughout the week,  and you wont be sorry when THAT TIME comes. Because love-making begins long before you lie together and if it doesn't, you won't be lying together long if at all.  Believe me .
553955
There is ALWAYS time for things that are important enough. I suggest you do something to spice things up. Try something romantic...like secret admirer notes left for her....or try something different. Perhaps she has asked you to do something that you have said "no" to. Well....do it. Surprise her! That's what she's asking of you. \n\nMake dinner or have lunch/dinner/breakfast sent to her job/dorm room/home. Make a webcam video of you dancing aound seductively..it will either turn her on or make her laugh. Either way it's good. \n\nJust be consistent and maybe encourage her to help spice things up too. I mean....sheesh..ur probably a lil bored at this point too.
515834
just start it a kiss. maybe get close enough where you can bump into her and rub your hand lightly over her breast to get her horny and wet too. if its going happen then it will
1176735
You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
1007464
do maximum fore-play with her.. and dont rush for intercourse.. defjietely she will like tahtt also shortly. encourage her for chatss and c couple of porn movies withh her \nbe patient