What do you do if a guy has just told you he loved you but you're not sure of your feelings toward him?
478858
If you're really not sure of what you feel for him, then just try to entertain him about his feelings for you... Never tell a person you love him/her if you're not sure because it really hurts in their part when you don't show it to them... Try to think first before making any moves and be sure of everything if you're talking about true commitment... You can also try telling him about your feelings that at this moment, you're still not sure what you feel, if he's matured enough, he will understand you, and if he really loves you, he will wait for your decision without lessening his feelings for you... Also use the situation right now to test if what he feels for you is true...
1139484
You can approach him and tell him, but be prepared for pain and heart break if he never felt the same about you and did move on.  Or...maybe he did feel the same way and it would work out.  Won't find out unless you take the risk and talk to him and tell him the truth, honestly.
1095328
if you tell him what you told me then that is a good way to express your feelings. If he doesn't like you then, he is not the right guy for you. I bet your a great girl and he missed out on someone terrific!☺\n                                   ☺♥♫ Your friend,\n                                                            Chuchi
1091889
it basically means not to hold out for him, but to just let it sit. give him time. let him breathe. let him figure himself out and when he does...you'll know. but keep yourself open. if you feel this guy "Might be the one but i'm not sure and i dont' want to wait"...then you don't really love him. let him go. but if you feel he's worth waiting on to figure out what he feels...tell him to let you know when he knows. and then wait. :)
631268
if u love him then tell him so\nand he still loves u \nthen he'll come back\nbut if he has stopped loving you\nbecause you rejected him \nthen its just fate\n\nbut try telling him first\nas there's always still a chance that\nthere's a lingering feeling of love for u
798957
I guess I would sit him down and tell him to either confess that he still has feelings or to knock it off. If this continues, you are just going to be thinking about what's going on with him and will never know until you ask him. If there really isn't any more feelings there, then he's just being a jerk by leading you on since he knows you still have feelings for him.
457372
you were right. you shouldnt lead him on if you dont feel the same way. the same thing happened to me with my boyfriend and he respected that those feelings hadnt developed for me. eventually i knew for sure that i love him, so when i told him he knew it was real and not a cop out. honesty and trust are the most important things in a realtionship, so never lie.
452726
Tell him that you're not ready to say it and put that sort of label on your feelings. But that you feel for him. That you care about him. When my man first told me, I din't say it back. I told him That I feel for him. It made me really nervous. I told him never to say it unless he means it, because I would never say anything empty.
1076010
If you don't think they love you back then maybe you should talk about your feelings to this person and listen to their response.  Hopefully, you'll get the answer you are looking for, but you will never know if you don't ask..
377517
you shouldn't have told him that you love him if you aren't. You know what kind of damage you could do to a persons emaotion playing him like that. You have to sit him down and let him know that you care deeply but you don't know if it's love yet. He should understand if you say he love's you. Never tell some one that you love them and you don't that's just mean.
571115
I BELIEVE IT MEANS HE HAS FEELINGS FOR THIS PERSON BUT, JUST ISN'T QUIET SURE IF IT IS LOVE OR NOT.  NEEDING MORE TIME TO SEE AND MAKE SURE OF  HOW HE IS FEELING ...
644372
Lexie( cute name)\n\nLexie u said that u  really LOVE him, but he LIKES u\n\nand that u he's an amazing, trustworthy all around  great guy( I can understand why u love if he's all that) but since u and he have been friends forever then u can say it in a friendly way 1st to see how he reacts. If he says it back in return, then theres ur opening.\n\nAsk him how he really feels about u after all these yrs ask him if he loves u in a friendly friendship way or in a girlfriend way? \n\nAnd base it on that.
591539
I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
232155
How do you feel.  Do you want to be with him if so tell him.  Obviously he could be in love with you again, if not and you are not in love with him, tell him that you don't want him to tell you that he loves you because that [art of your lives are over.  Just because things were comfortable then dose not mean they should be comfortable now in this new found relationship.
1019332
go to him and tell him your feelings \nand ask if he feels the same way
1155504
If you "just" met him, are you really sure that you love him?\n\nAlso, if he has a girlfriend and isn't ready to break it off with her and be with you, then forget about him. If you tell him you love him, you will scare him off. Wait and see what happens. If he really likes you, he'll come to you.
1163902
Why not sit down and talk with them.....express your feelings honestly, and ask how they feel about you.  But don't be in a hurry to end a relationship just because your love doesn't or is unable to say they love you back right at that moment.  Sometimes love buds and develops in time.  That is always a possibility.  Expressing your feeling honestly frequently sets the ball in motion also. What you actually feel and how you come across can be mis-interpeted.  You expression and conversation may be the 1st time your love realized that you "actually" love him/her.  Best of luck to you.   "Love is a many splendid thing"