I'm single at 29. Will I ever be attached.?
492039
you are only 29, there is plenty of time.
16344
That's really difficult.  It's not good to be alone, and there's nothing pathetic about that.  It's hard to meet quality people. Loneliness is very tough -- it's true for everyone.  Just people don't like to admit it.  And the best people can end up single for a long time.  If you are over 18, I suggest you explore online dating.  It really has lost all its stigma.  Many "non-loser" people use online dating as a way to meet matches that share their interests, faith, goals, etc.  This is better than what you'll get limiting yourself to people at work or trying to pick someone up in a bar.  Don't be scared to try online dating -- just make the first date very casual, and in a public space.  Also, have a friend call you 30 minutes into the date so that you can claim an emergency if you know right off the bat that this person is too creepy for you or just not a good fit.
189094
I am not single.  June 25 will be our 29th wedding anniversary!  I was 16 and my husband was 17 when we first met.  We started dating about 6 months after that.  We were married when I was 18 and he was 19.  I am very happy.  It is hard work to keep a relationship functioning at a level where both people retain their individuality yet find fulfillment in their couple-ness.  The benefits of that hard work are amazing.  We have had plenty of difficult times and trials in all these years.  But, we sought help when it was needed and committed to learn from our mistakes and move on.  The love we have for each other and our 4 children along with our shared faith in God is a strong bond for us.
86008
dont settle why do that u will always be looking for better he might be a nice guy try to stay friends with him just in case it does blossom but dont marry without being in love first companionship will only get u so far...and he will resent you bcuz u treat someone diff when u love them and u will not be ab le to treat him the same ways he treats u it will be a big mess sometimes it doesnt pay to just do with convience...30 it not old girl u still have plenty of time to find someone that will set your heart on fire. But how can you do that if ur already married?
902044
sounds like your in a pickle...i am 26,man that looks old, but anyways, listen.i got the same thing from my girl, about a few weeks ago. not the fact of moving cause of school or anything(we have been 2 gether for 6-7 years and have a 4yr old son). she just came to me with the fact that she thought we need time,i never saw it coming and all that, yeah..it sucks.when your in love and when they come to you with this crap, your kinda like...what?when?how?why?me? i got like you. thisterrible sinking feeling inside.thats when you really know that you care,but what hurts the most is when they are like?oh?i hurt you?\nBUDDY, i hope your young.you have no children? so go on with your life.its gonna be ahrd, i mean you put in the effort, 5 years of your life and now this. it will take some time getting over this, but hey. im sure you have a mom, or family or friends you can lean on at this time. it will just take time, besides...there are soooooo many beautiful women out there. i was at the point to where iwas like i didnt care about those other women, but get this...they do care. they are out there looking just like you will have to.some will come to you,and some you will have to suck it up and go for.everyone gets rejected here nd there*trust me it sucks) but movw to the next. if you dont want to get hurt all over again, then dont get too involved. whats the best part about this? you will meet so many intresting people and get to do new things. yeah she might be in austin having a blast with out you. you will just have to accept this, get over it and have blast yourelf. if your here and shes there, it will make it easier,but when she comes back...or is ever alone at school and the memories come back to her, she will reliaze that she had something special. not every man is gonna treat her like you did..some may be better, most will be worse(most guys in collage are NOT looking for relationships ya know?) and she will, or try to reach you again to see how you are. hopefully youve moved on, got a black book packed with girlfriends, that are friends, some even more, thats when its sweet..when she comes back trying to be a apart of your life again...you might take her back...you might reliaze, you have moved on and shes just another face in the crowd, she didnt care about your feelings then...you could blow her off, you could give it a shot all over agian. i know its not easy.in fact me and my girl are still together after i found out how she felt. we are not married..so its no promise that it will work, all i know is that i have son with this woman, and i love him-if it works with her,great if not...i ahve him, and thats all i will ever need, me,him,god-you will understand once you have a kid, it is amazing\nwell good luck pal,keep your head up..if it help..go beat the shit out of a door, or punching bag, a little stress relief, or go have a drink this weekend at aclub or bar, and enjoy the view, the eye candy..the ladies!who knows, someone might be looking for a someone like you.
79805
ive wonder the same thing myself. but you have to leave that up to God. im 29 well nearly and i havent had any one in over 3 years. im very lonely. everyone tells me go to Church maybe u will find ur soulmate there. and i beleive there is someone out there for everyone. maybe its not time for you yet. but yes u will find him one day. just pray about it
351371
I value that... and I'm single... are you?
592197
Simply put, move on. If you're under 30 (and judging from your grammar, you are.) You're too young to be serious about anyone in the first place.
901378
Listen I'm only 25 but if I was 54 and single I would never give up on the possiblilty of falling in love again.  Why would you want to put yourself through that torture?  Your life is not over, life doesn't end until you die and you are far from it.  You have 30 or 40 years left, why spend it alone.  I would kill to be 54 and to feel those buterflies again.  Get out there and get some LOVE!!!!
569731
Single dating married only results in hurting someone.  It's not right.  Please, stay away from married men even if you feel desperately lonely.  You or someone else will be hurt in the long run, and it won't be a pretty sight.\n\nYou shouldn't "scare men" by the way you look or the way you carry yourself.  Whoever told you that was wrong.  Not everyone is to marry.  Some are to stay single.  The gift of being single is a great one!  Marriage isn't for everyone.  If you are single, don't worry about trying to find a mate for any reason.  It's not a big deal.  Besides, if you are destined to be married, you won't find him by looking.
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It depends on the day of the week, the time of month or if your close to valentines or christmas etc.\nBeing single is ok, I am completely independant, am not answerable to anyone and very rarely disappointed.\nBut that doesn't stop me feeling lonely when I'm sat in on my own, sadly answering question after question on here... \nI think it would be nice to find companionship, but then I meet someone and before it develops into a relationship it gets all heavy or complicated and think I can do without the hassle.. \nI have plenty of friends and will keep it that way until someone totally special comes my way.\nNot getting into something on the premise I am lonely, if I did that, I could let any kind of scumbag into my life, and they would probably leave it just as quickly having stripped me of my confidence. I am not prepared to let that happen.
629530
Yup, single and willing to be found actually.  LOL!  :)
508709
Love will COME TO YOU...just be patient!!!  It happened to me when I stopped looking for it, I was content being single, and I was focused on myself, my career, etc.  My love showed up on my front porch trying to talk to me!!  We've been together ever since!!!
1098168
Well, I'm 32 and I don't have a steady boyfriend. I like my freedom. But I do like my guy friend to spend some time with me. But I also love my quite time alone. So yes some people are meant to be alone.
1170568
Join the club. I am also looking for that one to spend the rest of my life with too. \nI am single woman 31, 5'9, 150.
1115422
I've never been in a relation either and I'm 19. And I don't date, I'm not looking for love but rather letting love find me. As of yet no such luck, you just can't rush these things. Being patient is the key. For every man there is a woman and vice versa.
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Hey Hun....No you're not alone....I am also young but have never been interested in just getting laid...I've always been more interested in a strong long term relationship...For me...The relationships always start off like they will last forever...and then BAM! all the effort and love I put into those relationships are taken for granted....I'm dealing with this sort of thing now with my boyfriend of almost 1 yr and half...He just up and decided he needed a break...now when we talk it's awkward...and there is no love in his voice...it breaks my heart and I too feel afraid that one day I will wake up and be 40 and have no one....no kids and no life...and end up hating myself for not being able to find a real relationship where both people love equally....it's scary...but alot of people say "you're young and you will find someoen to respect who you are...and WANT to be with you as much as you WANT  to be with them" I know it's hard to believe that there is someone out there for everyone...But as hard as it is...what other idea can we really hold on to? I hope you find someone to share your life with too...GOOD LUCK hun....feel free to e-mail me...if you wanna chat more...or add me to msn....hoffababe@hotmail.com...caio