I really love him, but there's someone else. Help?
478078
even if you want to tell him how you feel, i dont think its really gonna help. cause you said he already misses his ex and everything. so he must still have feelings for her.
606261
leave him alone is what you should do. if he becomes available then go for it but for now go find yourself another boyfriend.
136408
defiantly tell him!!! he has a right to know and if he's not willing to do anything about it then find someone who's better and who is actually worth your time, who will love you all the same
579976
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
236118
Give up??\nhun..u cant just give up on the man that you love..firstly its great that you both are still on good terms, and hes coming to you for advice,thats absolutely brilliant..\nhun never give up on ur firneds..try try try again..explain..drill..make him realise..maybe hes not really in love wid dat other crappy lady..
577364
If you are still in love with him and there is no hope of patching things up. Give yourself time. It may take a while, but eventually things will get better. It's ok to still be in love with someone, but don't obsess about it. Live your life, and when you do find someone else, admire the different wonderful things they have to offer you and vice versa. Good luck!
478757
maybe hes the one for ya... so find another one :)
214523
I think its easy to say leave him for anybody but i am sure how difficult o it is for you may be it is just nxt to impossible for you but you should not give him another chance becuase if he ever loved you than he have not done thid but he have already done this which means there is no guarantee that in future he will only be yours. I am sure you really love him, i would not advise just find somebody else and go ahead in life becuase than what happens you will be with one physically however your mind, feelings, heart and soul wil be with that person only and than you will be cheating someone and the phase which you are going through somebody will also go theough from that becuase of you so dont put your's and somebody elses life in jeopardy. i would say simply end the relationship without any grugdes and fights or arguments as there is no point to keep on going with that relationship where trust factor does not exist and go with the flow of life and i am sure there would be someone who willlove you more than you do ryt nw. so things and ppl will come to u automatically and i am sure u will accept them as well. GO alone , be string and tomorrow if there is a nice guy in your life and you feel that he cares for u and love u accept the love. you should love whom you want to love but you should accept the love of that person who loves you and most imp take that decision which you would like to take other wise in future you will regret that becuase of somebody else you had decided to do this. So wahtever you heart says do that however pls listen to your brain and than take decision, and any point of time if you would like to speak to me you can email me on my id find_aaeena@yahoo.com. so its not a matter of your love life its a matter of your complete life and also for the life of ppl who are associated with u....i m sure u r getting what i m trying to say. Take care.
660109
wow...I'm in the EXACT same position. I could've asked this question because I'm going through the same thing. I've been absolutely infatuated with this guy and don't know what I will do once he leaves. It's so difficult but the best way to get through it is to find another guy. It sounds much easier than it really is because no one compares to "him."
1077132
This is a question that only you can answer. You have to choose, don't lead them both on. You need to choose with one you like more and stay with him. Maybe you should take some time to think about who that is, listen to your heart.
234034
It is easy for you to feel that way about him because you like her and him.  It is something you want to be part of.  You should DISTANCE YOURSELF from the situation and find someone ELSE to spend some time with.  If either one of them asks just tell them that you are glad that they have "found themselves a relationship" with each other and that that is what you are looking for when you are not with them. Tell them to not be offended that you want to find happiness like they have for yourself. What is going to be difficult is dealing with them when they break up.  Hopefully they won't play tug of war.
195158
I'm sure there is another out there that you will love..Noone needs to trust a guy like that!!! He will keep on doing this no matter what you say or do. Believe me honey he's not going to stop!!! Please do yourself a favor and get out of this relationship before you get hurt!!!!!
413058
Well ... if you are really in love with your boyfriend then you just CAN'T have a "CRUSH" on someone else! And if you are sure that the feeling you have for this other guy is in fact "CRUSH" then I'm sorry to say I don't think you TRULY LOVE your boyfriend.
711038
Tell him that he needs to go explore the feelings he has for your friend and that you don't want to be around during that process. In the meantime, do things that make you happy. He may find that the grass is not greener on the other side and by that time you may find that you're happier without him.\nIf he has feelings for your friend then his feelings for you can't be too strong at this point. Sorry... and good luck.\nP.S. making yourself available to a person who has thoughts of being with someone else is showing him that you don't respect yourself.
306358
what?? if you love his friend, than you shouldnt be wanting to be more than friends with this other guy... ur question is a little strange
1164954
girl, if this guy is the one that has your heart...then you need to honest to the one you're living with. How would you feel if he was the one that wanted to go with some other girl? It's gonna hurt...when you tell him, but you need to honest with him & yourself. There's no easy way to break it to him, without it hurting.\nWhy do live with a guy that you're not in love with? That must be difficult. Best wishes.
863416
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.