what do you think is the most easy topic to begin with it talking to a girl in a night club ?
478440
no pick up lines...you'll just get shut down.  say something sincere and flattering
138965
I think that the best way to approach a woman is to do something nice by her a drink be confident about it though whatever sounds good to you but don't be too cocky about it. Some girls hate that. If that doesn't work I don't know what else to say.
810560
Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
565539
ask her to go do something with some friends at first, to break the ice. or if you wanna be bold, just straight up ask her, i would suggest if you just want to ask her 1 on 1, to just start a conversation and ask her if she want to (do whatever you had planned) on what ever night you want, and then add to it before the date, make it special
30256
introduce yourself to her. make conversation.
690103
Start off as friends, introduce yourself and work your way up going slowly. Do not try to be really quick or else she might get freaked out. After getting to know each other start calling each toher and chat.
800664
i just act casually, eventhough inside i am already giggling to death LOL...\n\ni usually keep the conversation short and simple...if you're both working, then how's work, the weather is good blah blah...if still studying, talk about something in your school, sportsfests, school activities blah blah...\n\nso many things to talk about which doesn't involve personal feelings and will not show that you're really that interested...LOL\n\ngood luck!
203796
For God's sake! Talk to her! Simple thing- sometimes hard to do, but most girls don't have a clue if you suffer in silence. Find out what her interests are so you have a safe topic to discuss and then have a conversation. Don't be a show-off or try to impress her with what you've got or who you know. Make it all about her and you're sure to get her interested. Good luck!
165738
talk about each other. ask her questions about herself. get to know each other (but dont confess your whole life story to her). ask her about what she likes. eventually you'll get to a topic you all can have a conversation about.
572141
Dont just go up to her and the first thing you say is "wanna go out?", its too random. Start a conversation and then start working up to it from there.
1100921
chat about what your into ask what shes into i.e. thai boxing or something like that or music - it will go from there if you get on!!
781576
Tell her she looks stunning that day................ compliment her on something obscure that nobody would notice... like jewlery if she's wearing jewlery compliment her... open the door for her...... stuff like that.. Talk to her.. Ask her how her day is.... blah blah how are her sports etc.. but here is the important key.. ACT INTERESTED if she says volleyball sucked because bleh bleh bleh bleh be like wow! and THINK OF A QUESTION TO ASK .... keep the conversation going... PEople LOVE talking about themselves.. This is a good tactic to impress anyone... Goodluck
530204
Go up to her and introduce yourself and then break the ice by complimenting her on something then take it from there.  Try to find something to talk about from what she's wearing or what she's holding, like if she's wearing a baseball hat, talk about baseball.  Don't be intimidated and just go with the flow.
298048
Be a friend, act as if nothing happened at the dance and be yourself! Ask her about sports, plays, music, current events. And if you want to be spontaneous talk about the weather. That should make her laugh:)
684968
Tell her you like her shoes or her earrings, something small that is not near her chest or butt so she doesn't think you're thinking of her just sexually. It sounds lame but women like people to notice the small things they do to look nice. Tell her she looked interesting and you just wanted to see if you could chat with her. I think often the best conversation starters are movies, books, and music. They are pretty universal and most people have an opinion about what they like and don't like. It's also a good way to get a feel for whether or not you are compatible. If she seems excited about a subject or her eyes light up when you are telling her something go with it and try to explore it further.
282793
Ask her how her day went...ask her what she feels about this and that....Tell her the coolest thing that youdid today....talk about anything...
19280
Pickup lines are lame. What you have to do is have an excuse to make someone talk to you.\n\nHere's what you have to do:  Walk into the room with your hands full of 4 drinks (they have to be closed bottles of beer or malt beverages so that you don't look like some creepy guy trying to give some shady drink).  With your hands full, announce to the room:  "Who needs a drink?"\n\nPass out one or two of the drinks to guys nearby to the girl that you want to pick up.  Then, hand the girl a drink, even if she already has one in her hand, say "here, have another."  If she's at all interested, she'll keep the drink, saying thanks or explaining why she likes another brand of beer better, etc. and you can start a conversation.  Open your drink and start chatting.  If she's not interested at all, pass out the last drink that you have in your hand to another person in the room, then "realize" that you have to go get yourself a drink.  It's a great exit strategy if you've made an ass of yourself, non-threatening to the girl, and instead of a cheesy pickup line you have an excuse to start talking to her.