my husband flirts and always find reasons to work with women. Its always business. How do I use "karma"?
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the beauty of karma is that it works all by itself. you can just sit back and watch. he will get his karma.
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Hey Tox, well when you see this guy again when you're out (I'm sure you will because he's got a new job in a bar plus the town we live in is pretty small) just chat away to him and be abit flirty with him and I know you can get very flirty when you've had a few! Hehe! You can chat to him about the main thing you have in common with him right now- work place! \n\nI know you're not a nasty girl who goes around messing with guys feelings, in fact you're completely the opposite! I don't blame you for running a mile when his exgirlfriend came on the scene (I would've done the same thing) cos she was a bit psycho! So now she's gone and you two are already chatting to each other as mates, when you're at work, which will just make it easier for you to approach him when you see him out. \n\nDon't get all worked up thinking:\n"Oh my God does he like me or am I going to be making a fool out of myself" \nbecause you are very attractive and I'm sure he can see that because frankly if he can't then he needs his eyes testing! Go for it mate! However don't ditch me when you've got a new boyfriend! Hehe!
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I'm  sorry he said that. if you haven't had any "romantic" dealings with this man, then he has no right to call you that. tell him that you were rather offended by him saying that, even if it was a joke. jokes are meant to be funny, and obviously, he was the only one who thought it was funny. if he does it again, then tell his wife.
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The idea of Karma is linked to the idea of "good guys finish last".  Frankly, I wish good guys would finish FIRST, just so everyone could see that being good really IS the way to go, so the world would be made a good and happy place instead of having to cheat your way through life if you want to be successful from Square One. :S
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Start sleeping with married women, their husbands will naturally start to call you with work.  The more you bang the richer you get, the richer you get the more you bang.  (sounds like a winning business plan to me!!!)
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whatever you do, make it honest.  The illegal or amoral things we do kind of come back to bite us in the butt-- must be a karma thing.\n\nhow about garage sale?  sell some of your CDs or movies at a used media store?  Walk dogs?  sell plasma, like someone else said?
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I am going to empower you, girl, for this Life is far too short to attempt to spend it...as you appear to be trying to. Lesson One: STOP believing that YOU can read anyone else's mind, let alone a man's! STOP injecting YOUR feelings/voice into the space where someone else's feelings/voice should resound. And for the love of God, please STOP yourself whenever you find yourself even THINKING: "Yeah...I KNOW ______ (fill in space with a name) is behaving in this fashion BUT..." The reason why is this: Unless your last name is "Christ" you are most likely under-qualified to accurately 'read' other people's (true) feelings/emotions/thoughts, etc, etc. You can GUESS, but you will NOT always be correct. OK, if someone's real-world/real-time actions DO support a particular notion of yours, you CAN make an educated guess. But, for the sake of your not spending your life spinning your wheels and waiting for guys to act the way YOU 'know' they REALLY feel...please DO consider discerning/judging people (ESPECIALLY MEN!!!) by what they actually DO and NOT by what they say. Try to respect people enough to believe that they actually KNOW what they are saying/doing, even if it is not what YOU prefer them to say/do. Anything less makes YOU the 'bad guy', as in: controlling, manipulative...Bottom Line? If your man really loves you, he will find his own way back to you. And YOU should require nothin' less, because if HE left, he should EARN   you all over again. He will not respect you, otherwise, and you may have a lifetime filled with him goingcominggoingcoming...! A good woman IS worth her weight in diamonds. Has he presented you with something, somethought, someindication, which demonstrates to you HIS understanding of YOUR (positive) worth, yet? If not, why are you even wasting time TRYING to understand HIM?!? My dear, YOU are worth more than YOU (appear to) know. So...here's MY parting 'gift': If he IS an immature jerk, let 'im go. Alternately, (I promise) the minute you STOP! worrying about him and move on with your own life- and No, this doesn't necessarily mean YOU should go out and make an ass of yourself with other guys/men/boys, either- he WILL take notice (meaning: miss the dedicated attention his fabulosity assured him of receiving from you) and come running with his 'feelings' in full display for you to (mis)interpret...again. Oh! And if you are an attractive/sexy/cute/desirable/viable female...the latter will happen sooner than you can blink. Have faith. In you.
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Your nick [susheeladixit04] uses a feminine Indian name. But all your previous/later questions indicate you are male, and a GIGOLO at that. I quote :\n5. How can a male prostitute attract good looking women?\nAsked by susheeladixit04 - 0 answers - Other - Love & Romance - 4 minutes ago \n4. A girl working in my husband’s office is after him.?\nAsked by susheeladixit04 - 3 answers - Other - Love & Romance - 10 minutes ago \n3. I am a good looking man.? Asked by susheeladixit04 - \n1 answer - Other - Love & Romance - 6 days ago \n2. I am a good looking man. I want to be a masseur for ladies. Will i get lovely lady clients? only girls reply.?\nAsked by susheeladixit04 - 1 answer - Other - Love & Romance - 1 week ago \n1. I want to be a male prostitute. Will I get attractive and lovely women clients? Only girls plz answer no boys.\nAsked by susheeladixit04 - 6 answers - Other - Love & Romance - 1 week ago - In Voting \nDo you think all of us out here are stupid fools, just hoping to be defrauded by GIGOLOs like you ?\n...First of all, make up your mind - whether you are a male, female, or transvestite - before you post any such fake sob-story queries, and waste our precious time !\nOtherwise, I'll have to report you for criminal MISUSE and ABUSE of Yahoo Answers Beta :\nGet the message buddy ?
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Bind him emotionally to you. Learn how his mind works and functions and use it. While it may be wrong to control and manipulate people, we all do it, every day. I think that there is a greater amount of complaints about guys being dumped then about women being dumped. The key is as always communication, the number one complaint by men is that women don't say what they want. If you want something, are bothered by something, or want him to understand something...just come out and tell him. Men tend to be simple creatures, they cannot perceive hints as you do because truly men and women live in different worlds. Men are straightforward most of the time "Hey Paul...That shirt makes you look like an Idiot". If you get mad at him later for not understanding your hints and messages its likely to just make him give up on trying to appease you.
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1.  If you trust him.  If he trusts you.\n\n2.  If he has made his goals and intentions known.  If you made yours known and they're in sync.\n\n3.  If you keep people out of your affairs.\n\n4.  If thier is passion and lots of sex.\n\n5.  If he keeps his word.  If you keep your word.\n\n6.  If the both of you can kiss and make up quickly, without bitterness afterwards.\n\n7.  If you don't keep slutty or very sexy women around you while you are with your partner.\n\nThe only way to truly know is if you see him cheat or he tells you he cheated.  \n\nIf you are doubting your relationship, you need question yourself as to why you are having these feelings.  Are you questioning due to your own insecurities as a woman?  Or, is thier tangible evidence to support your feelings?\n\nAnalyze the situation objectively, before reaching a conclusion.  You could simply tell him, "Honey, I've been  feeling a little insecure about our relationship...".   \n\nMake valid non-accusatory points with him as to your feelings.  See how he responds.  If he takes your feelings into consideration, without making you feel like a victim, then he respects and cares for you.  \n\nAs far as cheating goes, evidence first, accusations later.
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Rubbish, all these people forcing thier morals on you.  If you feel a need to sleep with him, and you want too, do it.  Yes, he may be married, but, he is not going to stop looking just because you turn him down.  If you seduced him, then you are at fault, if harmless flirtation turned into something else, that is nature.  You know that this is just a physical thing and nothing will come out of it, but a little fun, if your ok with that,and can deal with it at work, then have fun.  Guess what people, the wife knows, she just prefers not to admit it, get real.  This woman is not a home wrecker of any kind, and you should not be bashing her.
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Guys, this is not the way to go about it.  You may as well put out a sign saying, "I am asking for trouble, and deserve to get it."  These sorts of questions are exactly that.\n\nThink; you are going international with telling the world of your needs.  Can you really think that is smart?  Tell the world what handle they can use to own you?  To buy your soul?  Just dangle a little softly scented and pleasant to the touch flesh in front of you, and  you can be had?  Is that REALLY what you want to project to the vultures out there in the whole wide nasty world?\n\nReal bad idea, bro!  Try again.  Try:  "I sincerely want to understand the magic that is female.  Where can I find those who can and will teach me?"  Put that one out there with your "handle" on it, if you dare!!!  Put it in religion and spirituality category, IF YOU DARE.\n\nAnd old friend used to say, "Blessed is he who knows his place, for he shall be there often."  Think.  Think.  Think.
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In todays world you don't have to do anything because some men are so into their self that they think any woman would drop anything to do what they want.  You don't need to change anything about yourself, your stricken with that spiteful disease of being in shape and taking care of yourself and probably very attractive.  And sad to say your stuck with some cromagnums around you that put you in a very weird situation.  Even though he is your boss I would still keep your pride and let him know that somethings he does are uncomfortable to you not just because your married but in general.  If he is a real man he will accept that and move on.  Maybe you should have your husband stop in occasionally to pick you up for lunch or something to reiterate to this pin head that your happily married and he doesn't stand a chance lol
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I agree with incan princess ...\n\nThe problem is really YOU !!\n\nFirstly ..you go snopping around his things . you have no respect for other peoples privacy... dont you have a job or something to do instead??\n\nWere you thinking that you where helping a realtionship by doing so ??\n\nNext ,you put out this question up on Yahoo answers and lable it for ladies only.\n\nI am married too .. do you know that i too know many things. My wife is beside me write now ..\n\nwe both agree that you need to change your attitude towards things and your relationship. Show some respect towards your husband. Its probably your behavior that lead him to do what he is doing ... in the first place !!\n\nAnd yes .. for gods sakes .. dont bring a baby into this world  - then go for a divorce. Poor child ...\n\nDisappointed with you !
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Just keep it a fantasy and don't act on it.  If anything, use that energy as a motivating factor to accomplish something at work.  Just remember that he's happily married and u are married as well.
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Be kind to him (you don't want his bad Karma) you don't know what is going on in his life maybe he needs a kind word.. You may be surprised.
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Since he is married, I think you better off stay away from the situation. It isn't do any good for you and him and his family neither. Believe, you don't want to get involve as a mistress. For him, may be that's not the first time since his wife is so controlling and he wants something special or new, for you, may be straightly a winner kind of feel since you win someones husband. But That will be a nightmare. And since his wife is so controlling, you will never know what she will be doing to you and him. Hope your story will not be another CNN top story. Take care! Think before you act. If you can, find another job! If not, get a boyfriend or pretend you are taken. You don't need to tell him anything, so it won't hurt your subordinative relationship with him.