why do girls always suspect their guys are cheating on them when they do not pick calls on first dial?
485882
Any ladies out their that suspect their guy is cheating on them is because they are feeling insecure and they dont trust their men. So for you ladies out their let me tell u trust your men and try to stop feeling so insecure. If your men leaves you for some other chick this might mean he wasnt for you. take care to all.
51511
I  sense some hostility with the answers so far so ill be very careful. if u just met than there is a cardinal rule never call in the first 4-5 days so that they dont think ur all over them or desperate. if thats not the case than he either has a good reason like in the hospital or just lied it happens not only men do this though and i hope that the other ladies who read this will acknowledge that. women are just as bad as men if not worse because their better at it.
252673
If you suspect cheating, it is probably happening. Try and contact them unexpectedly, see if they can meet at the spur of the moment. Cell phone activity can be a good clue, emails or text messages. Sooner or later they slip. If you have a friend who is supposed to be at the same place, ask for verification. Check the car, receipts in the glove box, different color hair, smell, etc. Good luck.
205919
If a girl swears it is an immediate turn-off because it smacks of trailer trash, also ANY conversation about an ex- gets an automatic ONE date notice.  Also if a girl ever was so rude to begin talking on a cell phone or text messaging a friend, I would get up, where ever I was and let them know they should find their own way home, and leave.
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
1143863
I realize you said guys only but you do realize there are females who date females too right? And the same thing of not calling when they say they are going to runs on both men and woman not just men. No I do not think it it is right but it happens all to often. But reasons this may happen is if they are not really intersested in you, could not deal with conflicting personalities, have a job they need to complete, are out with friends or family, possibly cheating or just plain forgot. If this has happened to you which I assume is the reason you are asking this give them a chance to explain before you jump to conclusions. There may be a good reason for him not calling you when said. It may just be they forgot or got busy doing something important. Good Luck with your guy.
617544
I would say it's because they\n1. Want to check if they've hung up.\n2. Made sure their phone isn't malfunctioning.\n3. They simply look at it out of habit.\nor 4. Love their cell phone.
92370
if a guy(ur bf) stays out all nite long.. hes just a dumbass, wanting to get caught... a guy whos cheating would just want a "WAM BAM THANK YOU MA'AM" not a full blown date!\n\nof course this applies IF HE "IS" CHEATING. cuz he can stay out all nite long with his friends.
1083099
I know a few times that I was going on a blind date with a guy I asked a friend to call me about an hour into the date so I had an out. So yes, it is possible that a call could be a sign that they thought the date was going badly and they wanted to get out of it. \nBut on the other hand, there have been times that I have gotten true emergency phone calls during dates, and I had to rush out. It only happened a couple of times, but it can happen. The only way you really will be able to tell is if you get a call later apologizing and asking for another date. Then you will know that there really was an emergency and it wasn't a set up.
82772
Why you suspect? Enjoy each and every moment when you are with your b/f.Thank him for turning off( it means you are the most important person )  his cell phone.If he cheats you can easily understand by his face reading and behaviour.
1032762
Does it strike you as odd that he doesn't call all day and then shortly after you call him this evening then he calls? My guess would be that he DID have his phone, could see it was you calling, is somewhere doing something he would rather be doing than talking to you and so he used someone else's phone to call you and make up a story about not having his phone with him.
1174429
Maybe it's because girls like that find really caring guys and take advantage of them, or treat them like they're not worth anything, so then those guys clam up and are afraid to trust anyone anymore, then the rest of us really caring girls, if we want any companionship at all, are forced to associate ourselves with those "jerks."\nIt's a vicious cycle.
494378
either he goin thru a tough time or he cheatin on u, if he use 2 call and come see u non stop then suddenly stop, means he cheating but that is just my opinion the best way 2 knw is 2 talk 2 him.
162497
she calls or answers the phone imediatly when it rings.or she alsways wants to be with you. it kinda depends onthe girl. although non of the guys i know understand that.
431496
if hes just lying about something like not important eye contact is major. If he looks down after hes done talking hes lying.\n\nif its about cheating. well if he calls less and picks up when you call less often. Also if its cheating he'll start to make up excuses.\n\nbut if that doesnt work do what you think is best. on the iowa state tests its proven that your first answer is 75% right most of the time.
323354
Each situation is unique.  But having been guilty of this myself, I confess to having done this.  Sometimes it is because I was never really interested in her.  It boosts my ego when I get a girl to give me her number, whether I plan on calling or not.  Sometimes we do it because we don't know how to say no thanks.  It's easier to say I'll call and not, because it postpones the inevitable "I'm not interested" rather than having to do it face to face.  We can be cowards.
213857
The best sign is that THEY cannot seem to trust YOU for no reason at all. Cheaters have a hard time believing they aren't being cheated on too, sad but true. *sigh*