I want to put a hold on my current relationship as i havent fared well in my exams n want to concentrate.?
484643
I am in the early stages of starting with someone in your position, she told me that she wanted to wait untill she finished her exams. Becasue I want it to work with her I accept this and am happy to wait. Talk to him, if he cant accept that your exams are important hes not worth your effort.
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You appear to have very low self esteem of yourself. Being in that negative envionment will continue dragging you down. I am sure you are a very good and loving person and deserve someone who loves and gives back as you do. Being alone and providing for yourself is better than being in a bad relationship. So, start spending time apart from this clown. Go back to school. Get yourself a carreer. Envolve yourself with only positive minded people. Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you decide to keep things as they were yesterday, then tomorrow will be the same as today. If you just have gotten fed up with your life as it now is then just change your mind. You can do it girl. Go for it.
312447
Oh honey, focus and apply yourself.  Don't give up.  Study until you are blue in the face.  It's your, go for it.  Pray first.
220737
Oh, i am very sorry. Sometimes, to maintain a realationship is very difficult especially when u are abroad. You can try to participate in your favourite hobby or concentrate on your studies. U can try to start a new relationship as u will have a partner to support you. Always look for those who love and care for you and sometimes telling to another person will help too. Or you can try to have a gathering with some good friends and dun ever think it is because of ur look that she dumped you. Built up your self-confidence and estemn. I hope you live life to your fullest.
26350
you have to sit down and question yourself very thoroughly. do you want to be with your current partner or your previous partner. only you can make that desicion, and the longer you take the more stress it will be for all.
852280
Welllllll, I beleive you should study for your exams first. Say that you can't meet right then, but send her a little gift for christmas. Once you finish taking your exam and studying a little more of her language. Then you can meet her for Valentines day and do something a little romantic, but not too romantic (you don't wnt to speed up anything too fast). Wait a minute,.... are you in college? If you are, are you a Senior? If you are, do you have everything prepared for your future, such as career, plans , etc.? If you said yes to all of them, go ahead and take my advice. If not, get those things together first.
227393
Don't break up, just say you need some breathing room and your feeling mentally claustrophobic, Agree not to see other people because that will send the wrong message, but just maybe for a week, limit calls to once a day, and spend more time doing what you want to do. I guarantee when your mini-break is over, your relationship will feel like new
410626
You could always try the age old 'It's not you it's me' line. Tell him you need to focus on your studies or your job. Your just to busy at this time in your life.
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I'm sorry about this but it's a common problem though so actually, you not alone in this situation.\n\nGetting him out of your head and getting your straight with your exams starts with yourself. You have to give your self the accurate mind-set. Whenever this thought comes to your head and wants to get your off, try and think about something else - basically something good, successful, interesting, rewarding that'll really make it go out of your head and create a better situation for you to study and assimilate.\n\nStill yet get stuffs that easily bring back his memory out of your way for now - pics, letters etc. that'll help the process.\n\nBest of all Pray to God to help you out.
201890
Try saving ur sexy thinking for later. U will have bigger problems if u dont start studying
1105653
I know what you mean, I am in the same sitution. I try to find things to do to keep him off my mind watch tv, go for a walk etc. As I see it if your unable to be together you need to stop wasting your time and find someone that you can be with and sooner or later you will feel secure to talk to that person (Thats what I am trying)
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I can't gurantee it's the best way to relieve stress, but one or two helpful suggestions would be to study early so when the day comes you aren't freaking out about studying enough. Also taking your mind off the exams some is great, whether it's through relaxing with friends, watching a movie, or whatever else you like to do, it will help get rid of built up tension that might be keeping you from studying well.
743815
It may be a good idea to remember why you got a devorce to start with.After that if you are still thinking about him just go along for the ride and see what happens.If you rush it things could go bad again.
1059814
Hate to say it, but you cant.  Always being busy is only a temp. fix.  And all the feelings will come back as soon as u relax, like when ur gonna go to sleep.  So...just try and deal with the probs, graduly.  One at a time.\n\nP.S.\n  Hope it works out for you.
1113393
Continue with this relationship and see if it gets better.\n\nI wish you love\nstw
513169
Remember, tension roots from thought. When do you have thoughts? When you don't have anything to do. So stop thinking about your exams&#92;results. What's done is done.\nYou can take a vacation if possible. Go out with friends, watch movies. A yoga class can help. May be Swimming, Music lessons, musical instruments,dance lessons, anything that keeps you occupied. \nSince you have completed plus two, you can join some course of your interest which might be useful for your future.
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Slow down a bit.  Get your mind off of that matter.  Breath some fresh air.  Get you feet back on earth.\n\nLet the relationship bloom on it own course without any help from you.  In time, you'll learn the appropriate action to make happen.