how do i get a boyfriend help me boys?
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ive got a feeling many ppl on here are too old for you darlin!! have a look around school
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well u are wrong,all boys are not the same,if u have a trustworthy boyfriend trust him else contact me at ravi181227@yahoo.com
68123
don't get a boyfriend until you are 18+\nmeet boys and talk to them as friends, ask them questions about guys so that you can have a better understanding of what u like and don't like in boys\nwhen older you'll have cool guy friends and wont be blind to guy bullcrap told 2 u only 2 get sex
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Well as long as you have some expectaions like my personal ones:\nSome expectations of a good boyfriend\n12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible. \n11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear. \n10) Kisses you every chance he gets. \n9) Holds you close when your cold. \n8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you. \n7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.) \n6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly. \n5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you. \n4) When people diss you he stands up for you. \n3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable. \n2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice. \n1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!) \nand you find yourself doing some of the following: How you get a guy to like you!\n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones 2. Smile a LOT 3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him 4. Be REALLY nice 5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") 6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) 7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) 8. Be yourself! 9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) 10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) 12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? 13. Say hi to him in the hallways 14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! 14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! 15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) 16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) 17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* 18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa 19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \nThen mabye you should give it a try.  I don't think it's in your head, it's in your heart.  LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND IT WON'T FAIL YOU. Good luck to you!~Alison~
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I can help you,I am candy to boyz.You can tell by noticing the way he talks to you,the way he looks at you,and the way he acts around you.Trust me I have had a lot of boyz ask me out.Contact me at www.honeygirlchild@yahoo.com if you need more advice.
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grow up first\n\nif you like some one else go out with that person and tell your boy friend\nstop playing games and hurting your boyfriend
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I agree with the first post. Your only 13 yrs old. You have plenty of time to get boyfriends. Trust me you will be glad you waited.
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You get a boyfriend by:\n1) bonding with a boy you know\n2) getting to know each other's interests\n3) becoming great friends\n4) liking each other for who you are\n\nYou just pretty much have to find a guy who is interested in what you're interested in. But don't do searches online, make your searches personal and in person. And remember to like a guy for who he is.
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I think just keep making small talk with him.  Becoming his friend first may lead to a closer relationship with him.  It sounds like you're showing interest without being too pushy.  A lot of guys like a girl that is challenging and has her own interests.  I'm glad to hear that you don't want to change your style or compromise your moral beliefs to earn attention from a boy.  \nAnd by the way, congratulations on losing weight.  I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to do.  :O)
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Look first of all relax. Plus don't ask a guy out just because your friends want you to, it only matters what you want. Second are you sure you are ready to have a boyfriend, and not be taken advantage of? before asking the "boy" in your class start off by talking to him, like you would talk to your friends so that your "stumic" can get used to the idea of talking to the boys, then when you are confortable ask him out.
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go out more! go to parties, hang out with friends- they can hook you up with some guy who could be a potential boyfriend.
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u kno even though im writing u this i dont really kno the boy usually come to me but here r the steps\n.first u find a guy \n.then u find out if he is ur type \n.then talk to him if u kno he doesnt hav a gf \nand if ur shy r really shy \nthen let a friend talk 2 him
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Wanting a boyfriend and NEEDING one are two different things. You should never NEED a boyfriend. You need to be secure in yourself enough to know that you can live your life for you. No other.\n\nWanting a boyfriend is fine. How to get one? Well, just start talking to guys you like. It will work itself out eventually. If you talk to enough guys you like, chances are, one of them will ask you out. From there, don't be needy. If it works out into a committed relationship, great. If not, move on.
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theres someone out there for everybody just be patient. dont go w/ the first guy that has interest in u either. u want a boy who makes u feel good when ur around him...the perfect guy. theres someone out there for u!
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trust me when i tell you, you really don't need a guy!\ndon't feel pressured cause all the people around you have boyfriends, what good will you get if you have a boyfriend that is mean to you and treating you in a terrible way or one that knows that you want a boyfriend just to have one and gets advantage of you, trust you want none of that so wait take your time till you find someone that really cares about you and you care about him, then and only then its worth to have a boyfriend and not cause everyone else have one !!
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HI May be you are trying to hard.and being funny all the time they may think you are just one of the boys. and if you are a dare devil. it may put them off. try being more like a girl than a tomboy.and don't be in to much of a rush to get a bf. i bet if you just in-joy yourself with your girlfriends that special  boy will come along.best wishes sammylee,
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Here are some options:\n\n1.  Just tell him how you feel.\n2.  Casually tell him you have a boyfriend\n3.  When you are in a group setting where he can overhear, tell someone else casually that you have a boyfriend, and hopefully he will overhear\n4.  If all else fails just toally ignore him.  Don't smile, talk to him, pretend if possible that you didnt hear him try to talk to you, or if he does try to talk to you just give him a curt answer and find some way to escape the conversation.  Men are dumb, but even the dumbest will get the point eventually.