Have you ever had sex on the first date ,and was it worth it?
479853
no i have not and no it would not be worth it
1056988
You can only have ONE first date.\n\nOthers can have their first date with you,\nbut you had yours (lol)\n:-)
1136090
If it is the first time for both of you to have sex, may I suggest taking things slow.  Especially if it is her first.  Alot of my friends didn't care much for sex at first because their first partner's were too rough and not the most considerate.   And I think any lady out there would also suggest taking things slow.  It's not a race.  Enjoy yourself and for god's sake use a condom.  Communication is good too, make sure you are both cool with whats going on.  \n\nMy first time I remember it feeling like my head was a blur and I was a bit dizzy, but It was a good feeling.
911785
Yeah, I have had a couple of one night stands. But that's just the thing. That's all the end up being. Because neither of you really has that much respect for each other and you just wanna "get your rocks off" so to speak. I am done with all that, I don't regret the things that I have done, but I have decided to change for the future, and not do it any more, not to mention it can be dangerous and risky for your health. \n\nI would advise against it. It will end up being pretty crappy sex anyway.
1047561
only when ive been date-raped.\n\nAlso, please dont wait long to award best answer points to me. I don't like to wait.
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
283573
On the first date,right? YES,I have,but the man was totally one of a kind!!!!
543870
All I can do is tell you about my first time. I was totally in love, but the guy wasn't. It was nuthin' nice. In fact it was, on the whole, a totally awful experience. When I realized he didn't really care about me, I was devastated. I had thrown away the most precious gift I had to give a man on a jerk who just wanted to say he'd had a virgin. Don't be in a rush, sweetheart. I'm not saying you have to wait for marriage, just make the first time with someone really special. Make GOOD memories! I love you.
690477
well, i think that everyone has their first time, some people have it with the right one and some dont. i dont think that you have to be counting days to figure out when to have sex, just, deep in youre heart youll know, and if you have any doubts, then think it over.
464352
Well, I would have to say the best experience I ever had was when I was 21, I became friends with this older man, he and I were both musicians, and we both loved pussy, one day he told me that he was getting older and he couldnt keep up with all the pussy that he use to bang on a regular basis, and he asked me if id be willing to be on call, for when ever one of his 'girls' came over and wanted service..he'd call me to come do the deed....he had polaroids of every girl in his stable, there was one girl who i was in love with, her name was lynn...i always would ask him when can i meet her ...when can i meet her...she lived in rhode island, so he'd always say..someday, i dont know when, but someday....\n\nso fast forward 3 months...i worked nights...i came home from work around 2am, i was dead tired...i fall into bed and asleep...around 3am, my phone rings, and its him...i tell him ..."man im so fuckin tired,,,i dont care who is over there...im not getting outta bed"  his answer was " ok...even if Lynn is over here?"   we lived in different citys but the average drive time from me to him is about 10 minutes...i made the drive in under 4 minutes....\n\ni was 21, she was 34, she came into the bedroom naked...without saying a word came over to me, pulled out my cock and looked me in the eye and said "tonight im gonna show you how a woman want to be love to"  I ended up fuckin and eating her from 4am to almost noon the next day, i blew at least 12 loads in or on her, Ive never had any time as hot or as good at that night...and probably never will again....
1063515
Do you ever look back whenyou first met your wife? do you remember having sex???? best for both of you???
413153
When you first meet her or on the first date.
190935
I was a virgin until I was 25. Then that situation was happily remedied.\n\nI think that life is a lot more than just sex. Obviously, sex is something we all desire. And, we do deserve at some point to experience that joy. It can seem like it will never happen when you go so long before you finally "get some", but for some of us, things just have to fall into place first. \n\nMy suggestion isn't the same as those freaks that just say "let it happen naturally"... I had to realize that I was getting older and it wasn't happening for a reason. It wasn't them - it was me. And, the best thing is, the only thing I can change is ME.\n\nYou can change yourself. Some things you can't change, but some things you can. Make an effort to have more FRIENDS of the female gender. Be a genuine friend. Don't guilt them over not having sex with you, don't pressure them to date you. You can start out just by being nice to random ones you meet (work, college, etc). Be positive around them. Even if inside you are still bitter - only let the positive out. Eventually someone will appreciate your effort, even if she sees through it. Effort earns a lot of points. Things will fall into place.
308985
I've met a lot of people on a dating website.  Some guys are just on it to find some girl that they can have sex with.  Some guys are on there to find mr/mrs right.  I have met both types.  I met my current boyfriend off of a dating website, and I can see me being with him for the long haul.  We talked a fair amount online, then we started chatting on MSN, and then we talked ont he phone.  It sounds a little funny but our first date, wasn't that much of a normal date (movie/coffee), I needed a lift to our mall, cause my vehicle was busted and needed to get fixed and he offered me the ride.  We have almost been together ever since and talk every day.  You just have to be careful, and don't let the bad ones ruin it for you.
639324
I believe I do... but i think i blew my chances. We dated for a year in high school, and things were perfect. I totally loved him and vice versa... but we were not intimate, and he was a virgin... he wanted to do it, and i was scared. I wanted his first time to be special and not in the back seat of his car. \nWe ran into each other 7 years later, and i have 2 kids by this time....my ex was locked up so i was a free woman. He came to my house and told me one night that he couldn't believe my kids were not his. and i knew he still loved me.\n\nWe keep in touch. he is married now and I am engaged, but i know he was my soul mate. and I still love him so much. I wish him the best with his marriage, and cant wait to talk to him again.\n\ncongrats Heather for marrying yours. That is special.. \n\nI can see myself on one of those reuniting shows way down the line, asking to get back with mine.... but as time goes we are leading seperate lives.
111727
Not really. I married the guy i had sex with on the first date and we are still married.
224632
I dont know that its a lack of moral education, for moral education is dependent on what your morality is.  Bout the 20's our ideals and ideas of what is right and wrong for us.  and it has evolved into what it is today.  I personally dont see having sex on the first date a necessarily a bad thing.  (not stating its done often just stating that it depends on the person)  it also depends on where you meet the person.  Environment plays a part as to what is intended.  Bars and the like. I dont know that flirting and looking will come to saying hey i want sex, I think that will stay the same.  But dating has changed and you need to either try to avoid the first date sex or embrace it.  Its depends on what you and your partner (date) want.