Can a guy hold back his feeling, even he's fallen for a girl?
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Because he wants to be with his girlfriend more. Move on because you deserve all the love someone can give you.
397094
Do you really think is necessary to verbalize your feelings?\nProbably your actions are doing the job for you already!\n\nIt's great to be in love with someone or have a big crush on, isn't it?\n\nBut if you have the feeling that somehow you will scare the guy, step back, take a deep breath and pay a little bit more attention in what his actions are telling you.\n\nYou are too involved with your own feelings right now. And it is not necessary. You know you like him, don't you?\n \nSo, try to work at your favor!\nPay attention on him, instead of trying to find a way to tell him how you feel. \n\nJust relax and enjoy the guy's company for a while, okay!?
537997
If he keeps getting these so called " fling-rings" or txts, then just forget about him. You might love him, but if he can't control himself around girls, then that's going to be a problem. He will be around girls everyday in his life, and then one day you gonna get hurt b/c he couldn't control himself. But, if he can stop, and you see him change completely then, stay with him and see what happens, test him, not to often to see if he just trying to trick you or if he really done changed.
989973
Awwww If he has a girl who is a sweet as you sound he already is my hero....hey just keep being yourself hes gotta feel special.
534328
YOUR ACTIONS WILL REVEAL THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT A PERSON. BECASUE IT IS HARD TO HIDE IT IF YOU HAVE A FEELINGS FOR THE OTHER PERSON AND IF YOU DO WHY DON'T YOU LET HIM KNOW SO THINGS WILL BE IN PROPER PERSPECTIVE AND EACH OF YOU WOULD KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT RATHER THAN JUST KEEPING IT YOUR SELF...APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE AND LET HIM KNOW IT.. IT IS JUST FAIR THAT YOU LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND IF YOU ARE STARTING TO FEEL THAT YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH HIM , LET YOURSELF FALL IN LOVE IF YOU FEEL IT. BE OPEN WITH YOUR COMMUNICATIONS WITH HIM FROM THE BEGINING IT WILL BRING YOU A LONG LONG WAY..
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Yes, defiantly talk to him about how you feel.  BUT DO NOT DO IT ON-LINE.  Please go see him somewhere and sit down an find out the scoop.  If he likes you and you like him then its settled.  But, if he cant let go of you but is seeing others while so called protecting you, etc., then its time for you to let him go.  Put him on the spot and ask him directly about what he wants and let him know what you want.  PLAIN AND SIMPLE.
684319
Some feelings never go away..\n\nBut if she loves him i could not this you can tell by the way she acts.
47800
Yes you can.... and no, it is not something that happens to everyone because not everyone has been in your shoes.\n\nThis is probably happening to you because you ARE in love with him. Does he know how you feel about him? Do you feel like he needs to know? How does he feel about you?\n\nCould you be feeling this way because you were/are hoping for more? And maybe you feel like more could have been said or done while he was there? \n\nCommunication is the key Hon.\n\nJust a few things to think about
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U cant control ur feelings but u can control ur actions.Preserve ur dignity,move on and hope 4 the best.
659994
You can not be responsible for that which you can not control, which proceeds all others.  Do not try to feel bad for feeling a certain way.  Your feelings are only honest, and honesty can never be looked down at.  Looking down on honesty is being dishonest.  To be ashamed of a true feeling is what would be 'wrong'.  Also, this friend of yours does not own this person or you.  If you wish to clear your conscience, talk to your friend and tell her the truth.  Tell her that you appreciate all of the same things about this guy.  \n\nNow I said having a crush is nothing to be ashamed of, but acting on that is a different matter.  You should do what you feel is right.  Your true feelings are always correct.  Now honesty should always be expressed, but caution should also be used.  Lack of caution is not true honesty.  It is just plain inconsiderate.  Take a time-out and try to gain some perspective.  Take a long walk, read a book, or do anything you can to get your mind off the subject.  Only when you clear your mind can you think clearly.  No one can tell you what the correct thing to do is but yourself.  You should think about what every decision would mean, and what different things you can do to make your decision best for all parties.  If you believe your friend will do something seriously bad if you talk to this guy, keep that in mind.  Make your decision according to anything.  I will say this.  Do not concede to fear and allow someone to intimidate you into doing their will.  If you like this guy, and he likes you, it is only right that you two should explore what you have together, but do not leave your friend in the loop.  Definitely do not let her intimidate you either.  \n\nSummed up, you should do some soul searching and the answer will be clear to you yourself.  I, nor any of us on yahoo, can tell you what is right for you.  Only can do that.  All I can do is give you suggestions on how to come to the decision yourself.  Like I said, take some time off of both people, at least two days.  Read a book.  Put it out of your mind, and I will give you a good method on when you know when you're ready to make your decision.  It seems that this weighs heavy on your mind.  Keep yourself busy with books, or household projects, or art, or anything you wish, and the second you realize that you are so wrapped up in what you are doing that you've COMPLETELY forgotten your ordeal, if only for an hour or two, then you are clear.  This is what clear is.  Be clear, and make clear decisions.  Good luck sweetheart.
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I'm in that same situation myself.  I have yet to find a way to let the other guy down easily.  I just keep putting it off in hopes that he will get the idea.  I care about both of them, but one  of them has my heart.  If you get a good answer to this question please let me know.  I need the advice myself.
627652
The best thing you can do, is to let it happend, just go and tell him what you are feeling for him ;)
789418
first thing i will say is "different strokes for different folks". sometimes 2 people can feel the same way about each other, but no one will say anything about it. for numerous reason. one being fear of putting the heart out there and it being stepped on. you never know, he may have been waiting forever to hear you say it. i speak from past situations where i've dragged my feet on letting a girl know that i was interested in her, and when i told her it was too late, and all she could do is feel bad and repeat "omg why have you never said anything". if he reacts in a negative way, dont take it as a loss. atleast you know where his head is. if you're willing, then try to work on it if you see that its something that he may potentially agree with. i cant speak for every guy. i dont like to think like or of myself as other guys. the best advice i can say would be to talk about it. if you dont want to say it, then just have a conversation about it. he may get the clue. whether you do it directly or indirectly. get to know his thoughts and feelings. shoot, you may even want to flip it. instead of telling him, ask him if he wants to or thought about spending the rest of his life with you
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I too had those feelings/questions years ago and I now have close relationships with both a guy and a girl...I love them both and each relationship provides me with different needs.  Just be yourself and when you are with a person you love and are physically attracted to, the rest will come naturally.
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i learned never to put yourself down because of an event that happen with a guy...you are who you are and he may or may not feel the same...he may be shy...or think your friends are lieing...it really depends on the situation...just go with the flow..dont act different around him,maybe talk to him some more, you make the move...
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Its a relative answer. It depends on the nature of "liking" I have for that girl and the girl for me.\n\nIts stupidity to just let go without knowing what the girl might have hand in her mind... \n\n.:Fishie:.
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stay with your guy\nLike you said don't ruin your current relationship for a little crush\nThe feelings will pass