Ever found you're therapist atractive?
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Hi,\nI am a female social worker (therapist) and I have worked with male and female clients of all ages.  \n\nFirst of all, it is normal and common for people to be attracted to their therapist.  After all, this is a person who is listening to your problems, who is understanding and helpful.  This doesn't have to be a bad thing, the trust and connection that you feel to her may be helpful to the therapeutic process.  \n\nI just want to make it clear before I say the rest, that it is NEVER okay under any circumstances for a therapist to flirt with, date or meet a client outside of the office.  If your therapist happens to see you at the mall or something outside of therapy, technically, she shouldn't even say, "Hi," unless you do first.  Therapy is that serious and that confidential. \n\nIf you think your therapist is good at helping you and you want to keep seeing her as a therapist, then you need to tell her about your attraction to her.  If you are too nervous to say it, you can write it down or tell her you had a dream that you were attracted to her.  If she is a true professional, she will know exactly what to say, and she has probably dealt with this before.  Then, you guys can have a talk about it and move on to getting the help you need.  You'll probably find that your feelings go away after you talk with her and start working on your issues.   \n\nIf you think that you would never be able to get over the attraction that you feel to her or that it could be a barrier to your therapy (like you wouldn't want to talk about certain things because you would be afraid she might judge you, etc.), you either need to keep the dialogue going with her on these issues or get a different therapist.  I'm sure she would be happy to give you the name of a colleage.  Like I said, don't worry, it happens all the time.  \n\nThe good part about this is, if you have any fears of talking to women about difficult subjects, this will help you conquer that - and in a very safe environment.  That's what therapy is all about: dealing with difficult issues in a safe environment.\n\nGood for you for getting therapy and for not being afraid to ask your question.  For your own sake, so you get the most out of your therapy, I really do think you should talk to her though.  It will be fine :)
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There are plenty of good looking people in the world who have good personalities as well...these are the people I seek....
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It depends on what type of therapy you are looking for?
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you are pretty or you are attractive.
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Hmmmm, I think I'd find someone with aspergers interesting :) sure
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I have not done that but I did have a full body massage one time and was left to relax afterwards with eye mask and headphones on and swathed in several towels. It felt totally weird for a while but just as I was getting used to it the therapist came back and released me.
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i was afraid that i wasn't interesting enough for a girl to consider attractive. I felt intimidated and knew that i was never able to have a relationship with a beautiful lady. I saw myself as being a low level guy compared to these built, strong, male models. I compared myself alot and so knowing what women wanted i decided to not approach the ladies whom i thought were attractive, and fantasized instead. Now, i figure that communication can expand and reconstruct the way i look and knowing tht a risk is worth everything in life. Finally, teasing and flirting with an attractive lady isn't difficult at all anymore, because i understand what a women wants from a guy like me. A very good eye connection with proper communication skills.
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This worked for me. I was so stressed out, because I couldn't find a guy. So I stopped looking for him, and eventually I found this really great guy! Just a suggestion.
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I am convinced that I have. I was wondering too. It seemed that every girl I talked to was narcisstic. But suddenly someone appeared and surprisingly it was someone who was there the whole time. Now I have begun to think about a bright future and a love to go on with. Just have patience and look in all the places. I found her through singles group at church. Not everyone sees what they are looking for when it is in front of them either!!\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
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Have you tried therapy? Sometimes that can help; I know how you feel.
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I visit Yahoo! Health all of the time. I am a therapist and I can get loads of information about the different disorders my clients have.
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Yes, I have had the unfortunate experience of meeting extremly good looking people who are just ugly and ill tempered and mean, because they are so self centered and evil spirited that they think they are "it"...\n\nAnd I have met some people whos appearance are unfortunate to have, but they have such a kind heart, and warm personality that you WANT to be with them because they have this "something" that is such a wonder and loving person, that you cant get enough of them...\n\nBeauty is only skin deep, but, ugly is to the bone!\n\nIf your personallity is plain ugly, then your impossible to be around, but, if your are not so good looking and such a wonderful person that you "shine", then everyone will treasure your friendship...\n\nI wish you well...\n\nJesse
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Yes I have.I was to several of them actually.And also to psychotherapists.I act all the time as if it's only me feeling the room no matter if I am speaking to my parents,friends whatever.I somehow seem unable to make people,events,thoghts,experiences change me.I am a narcissic.I undergo therapy:psychanalyse backed up by meds.I had 4 different med periods over the last four years.I cannot have excahnges with the outside world. Now I have abandoned any activity and stay at home .I see no hope for a better mind for me
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Yes they exist.\n\nI have no idea where you'd meet one, I doubt they advertise themselves in the yellow pages.\n\nI'd bet there are support groups for them someplace, but they're probably private/confidential and you probably would need to be referred by a professional to know where they were.
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Wait till I found someone I did have an attraction to.
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Just once, would i like to find someone who loves me, is there for me, is willing to make some sacrifices for me, will actually call me, will remember anniversarys, birthdays, and special days, who will comfort me when i'm down instead of having no idea what to do, to find unconditional love, to really be able to lose some serious weight, stick to diets, and there is so much more but i don't want to spam up your page.\n\nthat was a good release for me. i thank you for asking the question.
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actually yes i went to apply as a waitress at a nightclub for extra money and the owner told me that i needed to be TABC licensed.  So i went and got my license and took it to him.  He told me that i wasnt the body type he was looking for. (I'm a little thick no barbie, think Brittney Murphy before she was anorexic).  I told everyone I knew and it finally got back to him about 2 weeks after i applied he called me and offered the me a job but i was already hurt so i declined his job offer.