Love doesn't exist..?
484370
Sure love exists, just sometimes not both ways. You must admit office romances are pretty shaky to begin with. Also I think if you reread your query, you must admit, you sound a bit obsessed. You proposed before knowing about her family? This can be scary to a woman. Probably even more uncomfortable since she works with you. In the same light recognize your own goals and how they differ from hers. Do you really think it would work? Don't give up your dreams of film making, etc. Get on with your life. She is 22 and life still isn't all that serious sometimes. She still has alot going on and may not be ready.
434722
impossible, sex doesn't exist....
528948
I'm confused - how can you adore something that doesn't exist?  People have a right to adore or not adore something that may or may not exist, as long as they don't force their beliefs on anyone else.  So be happy in your non-belief, but don't try make anyone else believe the way you do!
19053
i think the arguing is a clue that there is a lack of love somewhere. remember actions speak louder than words. only you will know if he truly loves you or not
77732
no, it is not possible. it is not "love" you feel, it is only your ambition about possessing him or her. i recommend you to read "die Kunst des Liebens" by erich fromm then you'll see what love is.
674669
Love cannot be defined. It is like catching the wind.. try as you might, it doesn't happen. You can say a million words describing it, but if you can describe it, then can it really be love? Thats just my side...
956452
There is real love. I have been attached to or dependent on  people that I didn't necessarily love. I have called these experiences love out of desperation, but I have also felt true love for others. I just haven't often had it returned. I've had people swear that they did love me, but it was more need than anything--you can tell who does and does not love you by refusing to be a door mat. The ones who remain love you.
81425
you cant make someone love you, but you can show them what they are missing. sometimes love is right under our nose and we never thought to look there...go figure.
498360
Um...okay I wrote something on your first question before in a fanfiction. Don't mind the weird name:\n\nYukito sat there thoughtfully and said, “I honestly, don’t know. I’ve never experienced love. I’ll try my best. But... I imagine love as something that takes is own course and is one of the things that fate cannot control. It’s a feeling of  hurt, and joy. Words cannot describe it. It’s like a sacrifice, yet a joy, a curse, yet a gift. We have the gift to love, but love is a strong feeling that can control other senses. Just by hearing someone you love say “I hate you.” could make you do anything.”\n“It’ll make you be angry or sad or make you feel like a total idiot. It is deceiving and sneaky. When you think you love someone, one day you may just think “I don’t like them.”. It leaves you even more alone in the end than when you didn’t love them. But as you go on you gain an understanding of what love is, and maybe be able to find it. No one forces us to love, it just happens. And we ourselves in the end are responsible."\n\nOkay, I'm a pessimist that doesn't reslly beleive in love (it's nice to imagine though) so if you don't agree, don't fret. The world is a big place, you're probably not alone. You sound young (not that I'm not either) so you'll bounce back. I've got a lot more crap on stuff like this so if you want to read, I suggest clicking the link on my profile. Don't worry, love will find you. I hope I did SOMETHING to help.
266749
NO!NO!NO! A THOUSAND TIMES NO! THOUGHT FOR A FEW YEARS IT WAS BUT ITS NOT. ONCE YOU DECIDE THAT THE PAST IS THE PAST, WITHOUT LOVE, LIFE SEEMS EMPTY, AND ACTUALLY ALOT MORE FUN WITH LOVE IN IT. I LIKES BEING IN LOVE.
1053244
you aren't in love - you are infatuated. \nshe doesn't want you - give up, heal & move on... you can't find happiness with someone that you have to convince to like you.
1048114
Well, love isn't just some invisible thing that's roaming around earth. One thing you have to realize is that you're relying way too much on your eyes. Love isn't just something you have to see with your own eyes. It starts with you. If you want to see love happen in your life, give some. And "no" I'm not talking about sex or any kind of sexual encounters. Those are two separate subjects. Most people rely on their partners to give them true love or what they assume true love is anyways. Chances are that you'll kid yourself with that stragedy. If you ask a series of people, "What is love?", in most cases, they'll start the answer with, "I 'think', it's..." You can't rely on those opinionated answers. True love does exist it's just that some people don't know what it consist of. Many people have this "selfish" theory that love is suppose to be about certain people and what they want. Often people think that true love only exist if their partner is good in bed, or if they look sexy enough, or to sum it up people think that true love can only exist from that "perfect" person that they'll never find. True love can't exist when one doesn't know what it is or how to express it. To exercise true love the main things that you'll need to show is patience, loyality, and compassion. If you use these 3 components and some other good ones to expose true love, you'll be an awesome person to love. So in order to find true love you have to learn to recognize it. Don't worry too much because true love is a lot closer than you think. You just haven't recognized it yet.
97350
Honestly, its all up to you and there isn't really any answers that can help you better coz lets face it, you know your problem better than anyone else. If there is any solution, it has to be from you yourself.\n\ngood luck\n\nLove is omnipresence, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
1063531
Love happens, you can't make it
529076
It is absolutely impossible to be in love with someone you have never met.  It's called 'infatuation'. \n\nIt's like thinking you're in love with an actor or someone on television.  You don't know them and you will never meet them, but you 'feel' you are in love with their character.
1138764
No.  Love is serious.  People throw it around like a baseball.  Real love takes time.  :)
1119712
love and heartache????