how do i lower my sex drive because my head can't think straight?
487771
don't mess with mother nature! it's perfectly natural to have a sex drive and it is BY NO MEANS natural to impede this drive because of some silly social construct. \nyour problem is exactly the same as all those Victorian women had, only that they had it worse since they were being told that they weren't supposed to have a sex drive at all. until Freud came along, that is. and he wouldn't have had a clientele if it hadn't been for women with problems like yours. \nso, let's face it: either give in to your drive or go mad within this next year. \nif you already know your husband-to-be - why not have a word with him about your problem? \nif you've made this promise to someone who is not yourself - rethink the promise. the only person you are responsible to about your sexuality is YOU! \nThis is the 21st century, for f***'s sake!
579138
23 years here, I understand the issues.  (c:  Familiarity does LOWER the labido!  These young chicks do not know that yet <c;  They also do NOT know the rewards of LOOOOONG time relationships.   \nSKIP THE TOYS.  Unless your husband asks about them.  \nTo help with sex drive I  let my mind wander through out the day and remember the THRILL of "great" sex...  As in plenty of ummmm ,  lets say Fireworks *wink* for me.  I make a great dinner , give him a bit of a back rub or foot massage.  These things make me feel like a "good woman"  .  If your married 30 years then you already know that catering to your man has benefits (c:
342709
stop thinking about sex. find something or do something that can make you busy.
867299
if you find that your sex drive is putting your life in a state of chaos or danger, then you may suffer from bi-polar disorder.   the fact that you mentioned prostitutes is a clue to that behavior being out of control.  have you seen a psychiatrist?  bipolar disorder is very treatabel with medication and you can have a normal sex drive that wont consume you.  (or land you in jail.)
1091853
go to the doctor or buy a good sex book, there are a lot of tips on how to prevent that.
915191
Try Keigal exercises.  Resources which might be helpful can also be found when researching impotence and stamina with regard to sex.
779386
You cannot cure a mind from thinking.  You can help yourself by looking at the choices you make and what impact they could have upon your life.\nIf the fantasies involve pain or violence upon other individuals or animals, then you should seek professional guidance as soon as possible.\nIf the fantasies are sexual in nature, then you may or may not need guidance as much as you will have to deal with the fact that you will either have to live out the fantasy or stuff the fantasy and the feelings it creates.  Sexual fantasy is not normally sick, unless it involves non-humans, underage individuals, or practices that harm others with intent.\nGood luck on your journey.
153916
B"H\nIf you really want to know, stop having sex.  \n\nStop having any physicall contact.  \n\nSee if you are still crazy about each other when all you have to go on is your intellect and actions in life.  Have conversations about your future goals, what you think about GD, and how (or if) you want to raise children.
505026
Seriously, take a break from sex, for now. Get a book on massage, or something, and work on being intimate without the sex. But don't back him into a corner because he's trying to be honest with you, without hurting your feelings. (Like all men, he's obviously very bad at it.) Don't take it personally, either. I used to take it very personally because my ex didn't want sex, but when I look back, I realize we had a great sex life, and he probably was just tired!
59510
Try exercise and a healthy diet.  Just being in shape can do wonders for one's stamina and often provide the little boost in sexual urge that you need.
555567
if possible: have sex often.\nby the time you will lose your fantasies. \n\nif not possible or not working: contact an adviser.\n\nthere´s always a reason for unexpected or unwanted fantasies (or repeating dreams about that).
98057
There's no cure.  Oh, and if it hasn't happened yet, you'll lose your sex drive, too.  I tried every kind of hormone birth control...no matter how low the dose, it eventually made me snap at people all the time.  Even while I was blowing up on somebody I would think "this isn't something that would make me mad!  what am I DOING???"  Unfortunately, the only solution is to get off the hormones.  Try condoms or spermicide...I'm personally playing roulette here.  lol
572192
Mind control.  Try hypnosis, old nasty guys have been using it forever.
556261
try eating fruits for a few days and see what happens. Eating canaloupe is good for the sex drive. SO find out what fruit she likes the best and have fun. Oh avacado has something to do with sex drive too. Good luck
164988
you need to relieve yourself by thinking of her or even better ask her to help you. You can do it without having sex. Ask her to watch you. It's fun!!!Or just ask God to help you until you are ready for marriage.
788032
why do you want to stop are you crazy.if you really want to stop attach some electrodes to your testicles and shock them every time you think about sex every eight seconds then after a while you will stop thinking about sex and your brain subconsciously will be in fear of the pain thinking of sex will cause.good luck and take the vow of celibacy and become a monk
112581
Strange you are thinking about this fact now only, it’s to say when you’re old and married!\nAnyway, there are some methods to fight such mental condition, but it’s not possible to describe them inside this space. If any doctor is a problem for you, there are many good specific books around, and you could try at least.