Why is it wrong to like slim and slender woman?
487057
Because you are a scary guy dude... take a look at your photo and ask yourself why. Do you see a Tom Cruise or a Brad Pitt look a like? No!!! What I see is Chris Benoit from World Wrestling Federation! The Rabid Wolverine!!! Give 'em your killer move dude!!!\n\nWhy did you delete your first question: "Where are all the slim and slender women hiding"? Now the cops are looking for you for sure... I heard on the police radio band that they are on the look out for a stalker-pervert named steelers_quest
389280
No, it is not just you. You are right! Almost every supposedly "gorgeous" woman on tv is terribly thin. Some of them look just plain skeletal! Even the older "beauties", I mean "bitties" are sickingly thin to try look young. Look at old ass Farrah Fawcett! She's too old to be that skinny and she's always sitting Indian style like a young teen girl, giggling and tossing her hair. As we get older, we gain weight. Its for health reasons. Our bodies become more fragile as we get older and our organs need the extra cusion.
500273
Of  course there r, some thick girls are very attractive, others would be horrible even with a perfect body, but i guess this difference is pretty personal
605307
I find chunky women very attractive.  I like a little meat on my bones.  Don't care for the skinny, anerexia type.  A little chunky is sexy to a lot of men.  Don't think that they are just hitting on you.  If you are pretty outside and in, that's the secret to being attractive no matter what your weight.
933753
skinny women are supposedly ideal ... which is why those who do not reach that "ideal state" talk badly abt them ... skinny men on the other hand, are not particularly "ideal", and as such, no one really cares if a guy is skinny or not ... :)
971772
Because thats what ppl do. I dnt understand the obbsession with celebs. i dnt like lots of celebs myself, the few that i do like, i dnt obbsess ova em. i dnt like celebs who deliberatly try to look skinny. it looks awful. i aint sure abt the olsen twins but i do think they prob have a fast metabolism or are naturally born like that.
57056
As with anything in life, everyone has their preferences. Initially most people will be attracted to someone else by looks but if they have any substance to themselves they will usually like people for their personality and interests. "Skinny" is not always an automatic guarantee that guys will like you. My husband prefers girls who have more on them than just their clothes. Most of the guys I've ever known prefer girls with some meat on them.
705057
sounds anorexic...... try looking at her insides...... they can all get fat or ugly.....otherwise no its fine, you prefer the the skinny reeds, others prefer blondes, i like to be spanked. its all a matter of preference......dont miss that special one though because shes 5'5 and 115....youll be sorry
177743
I asked my hubby and son about this and here is what they said.  My son prefers girls with curves!  He doesn't like real skinny boney women.  My hubby says he likes tiny petite women.  SOOOOO I would have to say it depends on the man!  Just be yourself and someone will love u for who u r.  Remember- u r beautiful on the inside and out!  Did u know Cleopatra was only 4 ft 5 and weighed 180 lbs????  And she was considered the most beautiful woman in the world!
1173044
I know women believe men prefer skinny but they're simply wrong.
652654
i prefer a girl with a little meat on her. not fat but i'd rather have a fat girl than a really skinny one. paris hilton is a good example of way too skinny to be atractive. you know, no one in hollywood is someone i'd consider my ideal beauty. i like girls with something to them, somwhere between 100-200 lbs. the most important factor is how you carry yourself. i met ugly fat girls with more confidence than skinny pretty girls and i would rather have the ugly girl who was confident about her looks.
310157
I understand what you are saying too.  I mean who is it who decides that "skinny" is beautiful.  Some of those stars look absolutely pathetic.  I mean, don't they ever see what they look like, with their stick arms and legs?  It is a very sad reflection on our society when we place that much value on how people look and not on how people treat one another instead.\n\nBelow is a site with info on a country where girls are actually force-fed to get fat so they will be seen as more desirable.  Not that I agree with that, but it just shows that not all the world agrees with "skinny".
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Why do some men prefer blondes?  Or skinny women?  Or fat women?  Or black women?  Or short women?  Or smart women?  \n\nLook, we have a lot more in common than not.  We want to be healthy.  We want loving families.  We want to feel safe and wanted.  Is it going to take aliens landing on Earth and trying to eat all of our asses for dinner before we realize that?
940845
wow, first of all...I have seen a ton of women with a bangin body and ugly ass face....but I have yet to see a woman who's body is so out of proportion, with cellulite, no butt, no breaasts, and fat (as you described) have a nice face...chances are, if their body is that wack, so is their face lol!! so I would choose neither.
1187468
Actually,, sorry to sound vague, but it all depends. "Hot" women come in all shapes and all forms. Skinny? Nicole Richie is not attractive to me. Give me Kirstie Alley (sorry the only one who comes to mind) anytime.  Larger (probably not the proper term) like Rosie O'Donnell, who obviuously loves food, is not attractive at all to me. Much depends on how the woman carries herself. I've dated skinny women who ate alot, medium sized women who didn't eat anything, and larger women who ate the same portions that I did. Obviously I don't know them, but I'd love to date someone like Cameron Diaz or Jennifer Aniston simply because they have a classy side as well as a side that looks like that they just want to have fun and get dirty. BTW, I'm 34.
863466
Can't stand a woman with a defined six-pack.  Love a woman with a low fat almost flat abdomen.  A woman should look more like a woman than like a man.  And that means some curves; not u turns and hills, just some curves.
353758
Uh, there's nothing wrong with obese, I could definitely see my-self falling in love with an obese woman. (f.v.i., I'm not obese, I'm almost underweight, and I'm a vegetarian, that info might help in trying to find an answer, most overweight people wouldn't mind having an overweight spouse, so I guess that info is needed?).  Hope this helps!