What would u do if u disagreed with ur boyfriend and he said do it again and i'll break up with you?
480414
Firstly, in a relationship there must   be a very good understanding of communication,  a threat will not help a relationship.\nWhat is most important is to find  opportunities where  both of you can talk and   settle issues that is if both of you really want the relationship to grow.\nYou have to respect each other,  love relationship with out understanding and respect is a trash, its  pain in  the ass.\nIf you are more commit ed  in the relationship and your boyfriend is less committed   ,discuss these  amicably with him and pro fer solutions  to this, if he does not change  and still threatened you that he will quite , tell him off because  he would hold you ram son because of this  treat  and oppress you for the rest of your life
43089
Why would you break up with him if you didn't think it was true then? If you can trust him, then just ask him. Listen to your gut! *It knows!* You don't need anyone to make your decisions for you - listen to your gut. Good luck!!
980344
Do you still love him?  If you do then I would say try again.  BUT, you need to have a serious conversation with him before you put yourself out there again.  Explain to him that you never cheated and you were offended when he just blindly believed a rumor instead of even asking your side.  This is your life and your decision, do you think he is worth your time?  Is he going to just believe anything anyone says about you?  He needs to realize that the 2 of you are the only ones in your relationship...  Hope everything works out good for you.
327216
Do it the old fashion way. Tell him directly. Or just say, things aren't really working out between us. I want to break up with you.
702668
I don't really understand why you would dump someone that had done something like that to you... i don't get it...\n\nit's as if.. you expect him to forgive you... and if you were in the situation.. you would dump him.. no second chance whatsoever... that is ridiculous...\n\nmaybe your boyfriend should do what you said you would do... maybe he should dump you, no second chance whatsoever...\n\nand yes... it was a terrible thing to do.. you're sort of a representation of today's corrupt society.. ignorance.. and phoniness... this is ridiculous... it's as if, you forgot about your plans with your boyfriend that day... it's like... forgetting an anniversary.. even worse... \nbut i guess i could understand... i mean, when someone is with a friend... lol, sh*t, we can get all hyphe and crazy out here... lol.. no doubt about that...\n\nbut listen mijita.. yea, you did a bad thing.. and if your boyfriend forgives you....  then you're lucky to have a guy like him...\n\nabout the "I won't do it again...." being a guy... i really wouldn't believe that, i would just let it all behind..\nhuman nature is savage.. you can't change it, only restrain it...\n\nthat's my opinion... take care
480316
what was the reason for the break up. If he cheated, or decieved you, just forget about him. If it was just to try and get something to go YOUR way, then think about how to change that quality about yourself and try and fix things with him... Show him you're willing to change, and try your best not to force things to be done your way with threats. As you can see, that won't work with your guy... and it's really not healthy for a relationship
35734
listen sweetie...\n\ni don't want to upset you or anything, but i've had experience with this issue.  what you're talking about is not really fighting.  it's called jealous and controlling.\n\nyou and your boyfriend aren't really fighting.  he is getting very angry and accusing you of things that he has made up in his head.  you are trying to cool the situation down while trying to defend yourself, all while trying to make sure that he knows that you love him.\n\ni don't know how long you've been going out with him and i don't know how angry he gets.  but on the real, you should tell him straight out that he has to stop and you won't take it if he continues.  if he does continue, you should leave him.  i know it sounds harsh, but trust me, however bad it is now... it will get worse... and worse... and worse.
267259
Depends. How is he trying to make it up to you? Do you think he really loves you? What does he act like and what qualities does he have? Do you have problems with him? If you are really in love with him maybe just forgive him this once. But if he has done it in the past then there is a good chance he will do it again. If you find out he does it again then break up with him.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
1084631
Say bicth i don't like u i have boyfriend that will kill u.
1014158
tell your boyfriend that ultimatums don't make anyone happy, least of all the person who makes them.
277418
he prolly just dont know how to break up with u in a nice way ......he doesn't want to be with u but then he doesn't want to hurt u ... its really bothering him ......... you might just wanna save him the trouble and tell him that ur just gonna give him his own space and to let u know when and if he's ever ready to come back around then all he has to do is call u.
591822
Break up with him again permanently and find yourself someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
888966
If you feel you need to have him investigated and can't trust what he tells you......\n\nfind a new boyfriend.\n\nCut your losses and move on.
972141
you dont deserve a liar he cant be trusted and if he does it now he will always do it you need to let it go and find something better honest and trust are very important to a relationship
512991
break up with them and go out with someone else
210112
if  you find out that he did something else with another girl a second time than that's when you break up with him give him a chance if he messup again than he ain't right for you girl.