should I let a werid convo with my boyfriend and his cousin worrie me ?
492633
were they drunk? or on any type of drugs? if youve ben dating this guy for a while then he is being very immature it sounds like this relatonship needs to be reevaluated and you dont need any weird drama in your life over a guy if he cant tell you straight up whats bothering him thenn cut him loose this is a sign on what to look forward to if this relationship persists.
1133363
if u know u don't why sweat it.... play it off, keep a straight face and don't fall for it.....show your cousin two can play the game......just don't pay him any mind
412155
Its very possible that your boyfriend doesn't want another child at this time and is happy with the current situation.  Truth be told, unless you want to leave your boyfriend and form a relationship with another man, I don't think pursuing a baby with him is a good idea now.  If he is avoiding the baby discussion, then I think you know how he probably feels about it.  If he WANTED another child, I think he would be initiating the dialogue with you.  I would not give any weight to the fact that your cousins have more kids than you do or that you daughter is an only child.  Having a baby to give your first child a friend is a poor reason to get pregnant.  You have to do what is right for your family unit and your situation.  So are your feelings based on envy or the biological clock?  Its very likely that they are, but this is one decision that SHOULDN'T be made on emotion.  The question you may have to ask yourself is whether ahaving nother child is worth losing your boyfriend over.
890225
Please do not start anything with him or anybody while in a relationship with another. What goes around comes around and you will be asking for the same in your relationship with that person.
61230
ARE YOU SERIOUS?! YOUR COUSIN?! that is sick,might i add- illegal in most states! have you ever seen an inbred person? now why would you try to make a relationship with a relative work out. could you cause the pain, need i mention the embarrasment, to your families... this could tear the family apart as well as tear the two of you apart. i think it is a bad ideal but of course i am not the one in love with my cousin... dude i don't know what to tell you, it seems to me you think incest is the best... so put your cousin to the test. think about the day you will meet your maker!
590928
in a relaxed setting, when there calm, etc. if you know that your bf is a good guy i wouldn't worry about your family not accepting him. if its otherwise, i'd think of some crafty way to do it.
226763
Well, there is nothing weird about the truth.  The only thing you must consider is the possibility that a family 'feud' could arise.  So if you care about both of them as people, maybe this is a situation you would want to avoid.  It could put him into deep depression, depending on his view of bi-sexuality.  So I encourage you to deeply consider what you are doing as you could turn a burst of wind into a tornado quick here.
937859
If this has been going on for 13 yrs, I would think your parents have some idea of your feelings for each other. I think you should start seeing each other to see if this is true love. You don't mention if you are dating any one and if so, how does he feel about it. Or are you not interested in dating anyone but your uncle. First cousins date and get married but I am not sure on the laws for this relationship. I say go ahead and explore this relationship, you may find that it's only a fascination of something\nthat is out of bounds.
165937
I guess this really comes down to who do you love more- family or boyfriend?\nSome family, especially Chinese families, emphasize on how the boyfriend treats the girl's family to determine if that is "good hubby material".  Because that shows how he will treat their own family, if their daughter is married to this man.\nGirlie, why don't you just tell him what you think? Ask him to be nicer to your family, because they mean a lot to you.  Don't demand, just ask nicely, ask him to TRY for you=) If he says no to your nice request, you might have a different view on him then;) GO GIRLIE!
761809
just because your cousin had affairs, and did wrong, doesn't mean u should do it too. he is married, until he is divorced leave him alone, all u will get is a broken heart. if u want them to get back together stop seeing him right away.
1178492
I would think he likes his cousin and thinks you are being disrespectful (which you are) to be making fun of his girlfriend.  Grow up and stop acting like your 10.
1111928
try to talk to them both face to face so that they can say whatever they have to say in front of each other...they should be the 1st one who talked about that...don't pressure yourself...anyways,no one can please anybody just as you can't tell the both of them to be in good terms just because of you..have an open forum and try to settle things in a mature way...
1157927
Well, first of all!! Your Step-Sister is closer to you than your cousin but then you think that your step-sister is playing your cousin!! So, if something do happen, hopefully not!! but you need to stay on your cousin's side because, as you say, he loves her very much but you think  that she is playing him!! so just stay on your cousin's side!! iight, hope I helped you!! peace!!!!
510424
because he doesn't love you or his scared that his family might not like you. why don't you have a seious conversation with your boyfriend and find out what's the real reason why he doesn't want his family to know.
1161894
You probably showed your ignorance like you are planning to do with your cousin...butt out of other peoples (especialy friends and families) business you will keep many more friends if your not such a busy body. this may sound rough but it is seriously for your own good....please consider this...and consider hwo long you would hangout with a busy body who thought she was your friend and could tell you who you should date.
799494
I wouldn't do anything. He's not sleeping with his cousin, he's fantasizing about it. Everybody has fantasies, not everyone lives out those fantasies. He'll get over it eventually. If he has a good relationship with your sister, then leave it alone. What really matters is that he's treating her right. Who knows, she may be benefiting more than you think because of his imagination. I would just tell him in the future, to not share those kinds of thoughts with you, because it puts you in a weird place that you don't want to be in.
1178076
discuss with your family members