how do i date my boss's daughter?
486265
NO!NO! LOL... that is trouble
1008439
A brick through her parents bedroom window with the message  "I wanna marry your daughter! From, the guy across the street" ought to do the trick. Good luck man, let us know how it goes.
842764
OK you need to do what you feel is right. I think that you need to tell your current g/f a/s/a/p you don't want her finding out later from someone else. It is so nice to see you wanting to help out this woman and her child. But I do think it would be wise for you to get a paternity test done. She is the one that offered you one. I really don't know what else to tell you, except you sound like a really great guy and her and her daughter would be very lucky to have you in their lives.
532539
This may sound childish but you’ll never know unless you try. (ROLE PLAY) walk right up to her and introduce yourself, ask what her name is and if she’ll mind if you call her some time. Then do call and (TALK) & (LOSTEN) and ask if she’d like to go out some time this week you know a great place *Note: if you have kids make arrangements so that she can’t say NO and if she can’t go ask her out again (do the thing you as her husband knows she likes, it’s like dating allover again, but this time you have the cliff notes)   get creative, get romantic, don’t let your second chance blow by.
815317
You have three choices, and only you can judge the feasibility of each of them, because only you know the people involved and their personalities.\n\n1) You can try to bring the topic up with your boss, very carefully and diplomatically.  Bosses are all different, and you'll have to judge her personality as to whether or not she's accepting of constructive criticism, especially of such a personal nature.  Of course, if the personality is not a good one then you of course risk a backlash that could hamper you at work by poisoning the relation.\n\n2) If you are acquainted with the higher-ups, you could approach one of them - again diplomatically - and try to put in a bit of "secret" reporting for which - if they are prudent and respectable - they should appreciate.  Once again, you risk a backlash against you (only you know the people and can judge the circumstances) either for breaking the "chain of command" or when your boss figures out (or is told) of your reporting.  On the other hand, a reasonable higher-up should appreciate your concern for the organization - you be the judge.\n\n3) You could just let the hammer fall on your organization by stopping your additional duties of performing your boss' job.  This may actually be the least realistic of the choices, because it may be hard for you to do this without looking negligent yourself.\n\nAt any rate, you should take careful note (keep a secret notepad) of **ALL** of the instances that this has happened, and what corrective action you have taken.  You should actually start this immediately, and just see how the situtation plays out for a while before doing anything.  But continue your records, because if you have to do **any** of the suggestions above, it will wholeheartedly bolster your case if you have documentation of the problem.  Of course, your boss won't be interested in this information (makes her look bad) but if you have to go higher in the organization, this will be imperitive.\n\nGood luck!  This is not an easy or comfortable situation!!!
305594
say "lo siento" and then report her to INS regardless of whether she's illegal... that way she'll be busy dealing with them and you can do your thing with her daughter.
727844
Very tough situation, I have a few question before I can answer clearly your question. Has the company that you two are involved in currently in operation and generating revenue? Have you completely explain your feelings for her?  Most men do not speak clearly to women when explaining things like this? Ages of you and her? Education of both? I know this sounds very trivial, but this information will help give you good advise to move forward.\nFYI- Been there, done that.
1116080
Start out by asking her out for coffee, or lunch one day while at work. If she accepts, then go do that. While you're out, ask her for dinner or a movie for later on that weekend. Then, if she accepts, you're on your way to having a relationship with her. Good Luck!!
979041
The first responder suggested you look up Dr. Laura. Well, don't bother, I can tell you what she would say. She would tell you to stop dating and concentrate on raising your son. Why would she say that? Well she might point out that if you start dating some guy, his daughter is likely to complain that she feels out of the loop. Seriously, how is she supposed to feel? You and your son are moving in on her dad. Staking your claim. Meanwhile she is only around half the time. If you told me that she felt that she was in the loop, I would tell you that she was delusional.\n\nIs this your problem? Of course not. Why should you care what some snot nosed little girl wants? She's trying to get between you and her daddy. I say screw her. Some people might say that you should wait 5 years until she and your son are 18 so that she has a chance to grow up before you move in on her daddy. What the hell is up with that? You are supposed to sacrifice what you want for the next five years just so that some little girl can have a semi normal relationship with her father?
303799
i think it is going to be really hard for you but you should just try to sit your daughter down explain to her the things of life what you are&#92;were going through.tell her its not the person but the heart.tell her ,her father was not a bad person but the things that were suppose to be between you and him were just not happening and you have now found it in this person. tell her to try to see your lady as a person you love and that loves you and not a female.
112392
Well lesson learned..Ask if you can have there bosses phone number,make sure to always get a home number, and if those numbers are not avaliable to you walk away, no run....Any one on line can tell you what you want to hear..But what you have to be carefull about is how much you give away of yourself until you meet that person and know them inperson...Lesson learned..
755159
Tell her sensitively and tell her what she deserves to know. Tell her that the relationship with her father did not work out, and that he was a naughty man. Tell her you love her, and you are lad you are here and that she is beautiful just the way she is, and that God wanted her to come into your life so much. Tell her she has a wonderful family, and that it may be better to not know her other half of her family, as you know nothing about them.
951213
<>YOu will need to sit down and establish the type of relationaship you want to have with her early on...first thing, in fact.  You need to explain to her what you require of her, and how you will be rating her performance.  If you want it to be strictly professional, you will have to state that.  You are a manager now....exert your authority.  But remember, managers are made or broken by their subordinates.
1073139
This is a tough one, but not unusual. Many girls your daughter's age are attracted to the "bad" boy. She probably has no interest in a decent guy right now. One thing you need to be careful of is not to be so adamant in your distrust/dislike for this young man that it drives your daughter closer to him. You can't get her to stop liking him. In fact, girls your daughter's age often desire to find someone who "needs" them.... and if she senses that her bad boy needs someone to rally to his defense, she'll do it. I would calmly and clearly explain your concerns to your daughter. She's old enough where she has to make her own decisions, and her own mistakes. You just need to be there in case she makes a bad move with this guy. Good luck.
1021729
m_k4376 says...dont mess with the boss's man...unless  you are not worried about losing the job. First question to ask yourself is what is your relationship with your boss..if your boss is a friend, then be a friend and stay away. If not, and you dont care about the job then see where it goes. the boss may be using him to get to you for a little action, if your into that kind of thing. if your not into that kind of thing then wait till they break up then pursue him. but then, if you dont care about the job or your boss, go for it and the next time he hits on you... reach back and grab his package.  let me know how it works out...@ yahoo
1159396
You know it would be nice if we weren't adult and we could go around beating the crap out of people's faces..... This would be a perfect time to beat the crap out of someone....lol\n\nWhat I would do is call her. Tell her it's none of her business who you do or don't marry and you could careless if she thought your new hubby was a hunk or not. Tell her to keep her mouth shut around your daughter. That is very RUDE that she said that too your child no matter her age. I would tell her that. You might need to have a talk with your EX's and find out what the deal is. No step mother or girlfriend has the right to say anything about you. If that don't work beat her tail!\nI done got mad and can't type now.\nGood Luck!
69593
He is her father and hopefully she can just tell him. Have her set up a "date" with him and let him know that she has something important to tell him at the end of the date.  He may be upset or confused at first but love will overcome everything else and he will accept her.