my friend whose married got clyamedia does that mean her partner cheated?
491180
she could have had it for a while and been asymptomatic, but it would certainly make me wonder if i were her
263500
You could have tried, but he may not have believed you.  Infidelity by a loved one usually is something that many people need to see for their own eyes to believe.  Especially, if the marriage seems fine to them on the outside.
80617
No. That's dangerous and 90% of the time nothing is done and you're reputation is mud. That's because since your friend didn't actually see it, he/she will always have a doubt about if it was actually cheating or not.\nAnd the bed always wins when there's a doubt...
194189
I would be very suspicious.I would try end the relationship.I have a friend who is married and her husband is always dating other ladies etc.\nThe Just a friend thing really means Iam sleeping with the other person.I had been telling my friend for long time and when she saw pictures of her husband on a date with another lady she was very mad and upset and is filing a divorce over it.\nSo i would end the relationship. and find a genuine person to date.lot less dram and stress
76962
Probably, unless you have cause for divorce, which would range from fraud (she said she would have children before marriage, but since has said she doesn't want to) to infidelity. I would speak to a lawyer about it.
1136997
I think there are certain types of people, she just happens to be a cheating type and you got caught in the middle.  Yes, she will do it again.
553176
None of your business. However, it's not a bad idea to have a chat with the cheater, and just reminder her that marriage is sacred and you're so glad she's decided to commit to being eternally faithful to him.
677963
sweet, do you have children? if so, that was maybe the smartest thing u ever did. just because your friend took a swan dive into "left field" doesn't mean that you should follow. I think that if you are a molester,you are a danger to all. what a person will do once, they will doagain and again. I can't say if leaving her husband 4 him was smart- I don't know what her husband is/was. but it sounds as though she needs intensive teratment by a psychiatrist
992914
either she's cheating or someone he was with before her had it and never told him. or he's cheating.
956767
yes its quite true i think. everyone that i have talked to or have actually know to have been cheated on the same person has done it again after all the promises. they probably do love you but they cant help but try to see if they can still get the charm going to get someone else to. its hard to find someone that will be up front honest trusting and will never cheat. read tips on love and relationships to help you better on this site
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she can... i've been in an opposite situation... :( i've cheated my girl and she forgave me... \nbut then she did cheat, and i got angry enough to leave her...
591262
I dont think so - but honestly, if you think your mate is cheating he/she probably is...
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I told you she would find out about us sooner or later!  I am crushed, I told myself I would never do such a thing with a married man.  Then look at what I have gone and done??????  Oh my.  \n\nSeriously now,\nI say run with it, just don't over use it if you know what I mean.  Just watch out for WHEN you find her doing the same.  <wink>  :)
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Not if they agreed to break up. Cheating implies a degree of dishonesty, of secrecy, or underhandedness. If those things are not present, you don't need to worry. \n\nLook at it from this point of view. people use the word cheating as in cheating ON somebody. But it is more correct to say they are cheating somebody OUT OF something that belongs to them.\n\nIf a couple is married-- which means that they have made promises to one another to be exclusively each others' and nobody else's-- then to give the intimate benefits to a third party cheats the partner out of what is theirs by right of the agreement. If that is not what was intended, I suppose one could call it by a different word, but that is what marriage means, or the word loses its meaning and we have a difficult time talking about it.\n\nThe same holds true in less formal relationships. When two people get engaged, and feel that they have found in each other their "one and only", to give anybody else equal time is to take away from what the partner should have.\n\nIn the case of your sister, I am happy for her that she and her young man got back together. But since they were broken up (apart) for those two months during which she went with someone else, it was not cheating on her part. If they separated with the intention of not having a relationship any more, or if they agreed to just 'be friends', it was not cheating.\n\nIf they just drifted apart, it is possible that the matter was not discussed adequately, and that may be why hurt feeling remain. It is not possible for us to read each others' minds, and by far the best course to take in such a case is forgiveness. This can heal their present and future relationship. \n\nAlso, now that they know they can misunderstand each other in this way, a committment to discussing things beforehand will help to prevent similar problems in the future.\n\nThey must remember that every choice is a choice not only for one option but against all the others. Marriage is serious and should not be indulged in by those who wish to 'try' it or are not ready for the challenge of their lives. The rewards are on the same level of the challenge to which the members of the marriage rise.\n\nI am speaking of the danger of 'emotional cheating'. (I am not saying this has or will happened, but I am throwing this additional bit in, free of charge. You would be surprised at how many people have this problem later.)\n\nBy clearly defining the marriage committment, by discussing things beforehand, AND-- by taking all steps to avoid temptation later-- a couple can find strength and comfort in one another. Many people do not do this becasue it sounds so 'unromantic'.\n\nBetter 'unromantic', than 'unrealistic' and failure in the marriage.\n\nI wish your sister and her intended husband all the best in the world. I only wish that more couples who break up would get back together as they have. I think that they will look back on this in the years to come and it will only draw them closer and closer.
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Not neccesarily. How long has he known her? Do you know their exsisting relationship? If he just met her, or has only known her for a year or so - chances are, he is cheating. Or testing you. Either way, keep your eyes open.
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Well most of the time they say once a cheat always a cheat but in some cases its not like that. My cousin cheated and she has been with her new husband and they are doing better than her and her first husband some times you just need to see if there is better out there then what you already have.
338957
hey, the same thing kinda happened to me! except, he never wanted her sexually...but i was friends with her (probably during a time when she dated him), way before i ever met him...we lived in different countries, so i think she may have dated him after i met her...anyway, she used to come over and hang out all the time after he and i got married...they're just old buddies and well, what they used to have is now long gone...\nso, if you feel that you can trust BOTH of them, why not?