Need opinions, is it possible to love someone TOO much in a relationship?
481440
No, you cannot love someone too much.  But you can suffocate someone with love.  Part of love of recognizing when the other person needs space, when the other person needs a shoulder to cry on, when the other person is ready to talk or ready to be with you.  Sure there's all the comfort, inspiration and words of wisdom - but too much of that everyday will wear anyone out.  Love someone enough to know when enough is enough.
973049
I don't think it's possible to ever love two people the same.  With different relationships, there is a different love involved.
102707
I Have good news Yes if you don't trust the person from the start then no. I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years.  We talk a lot, and see each other at least once a week.  It is not easy but if you really love that person you will make it work.  Don't listen to people when they tell you it won't work. know it will if you want it to that is.
1119027
I know most people will tell you no, but I think it is possible to care deeply for more than one person, and isn't caring deeply about someone what love is about? However, the problem here is that if you truly love both people, you will have to come to accept the cold truth: you will have to hurt one or both. If you love them both, then this will be a difficult decision. If you don't choose, though, you will hurt both people by default. I would think that you would want to save the love of one person, instead of losing both, so you had better come to a decision before it's too late. My recommendation would be to save the 11 year relationship. At least you know that love has staying power, but what about this new one - will it only be thrilling when it's new?
38080
I don't think everyone is capable of really loving someone, totally selfless, when the other person's happiness is the most important thing, and not yours.\n\nSo, unfortunetly, i would say no...
707719
I personally believe you can love two people at the same time.  We are complex beings and it is somewhat naive to think one person can meet all of our emotional, psychological, and physical needs.  It is however, very complicated and most people will not tolerate this kind of a relationship.  This presents a dilema for the person who has two loves - do you tell them both or do you hide this from both of them and try to have a relationship with both.  And if you do, how complicated will it get before you are found out?  You risk loosing both lovers....
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
617725
Let me tell you a little bit about my own experience: \n     I tell my girlfriend all the time, very sincerely and sweetly, that i love her.  I do spontaneous things, like buying flowers or candy or some other gift, for no reason at all.  And i sometimes just hang out with her, with no obligations or intentions; just hanging out to be with her.  Yet, she sometimes gets insecure, and doubts me.  It has never been because of something that i have done, just that that is how she is.  Lately, because of this, i have been sensing those things, and i have found myself being emotionally hurt by her, and the little things that she has been doing.........  I love her more than you could imagine, but because of her doubts and insecurities, i have been getting hurt, and i now have doubts as to whether the relationship is fit to survive.  \n     In your case, if he has done nothing to bring about these feelings, then you should probably have no worries.  Innocent until proven guilty.  I know, from personal experience, that it starts to hurt when you signifigant other doubts you and your motives/intentions when you say "i love you."  It is extremely painful because you say those words to someone, expressing what you truly feel inside (not in all cases mind you), and then you are essentially "slapped" in the face when that person questions you.  If your boyfriend is seemingly sweet and sincere, then he probably really means it.  if he respects you as a person, and is supportive of you, then i would say that he probably means it.  Good luck to you, and i hope that i have helped.
487459
if you ask me again,yes this person might be vey much inlove with you but has some violent attitude in him,which is very dangerious in a love relationship,and such an attitude hadly shows from the man not untill when such a situation arises,but yes this can also be love,so many  people have their own way of reaction inlove when it comes to seperation
1070982
I suppose it is possible, however I think it it just infatuation.\n\nYou say you ADORE, it is suppose to be Love.
1165397
im going thru the same situation..its like u love the person soo much that u dont wanna leave him..and its like u cant live with or without him ...how i wish the guys understood this! mayb give him some time..try to explain....take one more chance..cuz if ur in true love,u wont b able to leave him..but rather adjust his way cuz in a relationship,one has to submit to other's wishes.
215408
yes. you can still love someone but not be IN love with them anymore.. i just broke up with my boyfriend who i was with for well over a year, i still love him and care about him but things just weren't working between us.
642206
It's possible, but you're making yourself sound like a cheater. If you love someone else while you're already in a relationship then that's bad. It's better to be in love with two people when you're not with one of them already. If you love someone else while in a relatonship then it means that you want the other person who isn't your boyfriend/girlfriend. \n\nTry asking yourself what you can get from this person 'on the side' that you're not getting from your significant other. If the reasons outweigh the reson to stay with the person you're currently with, then maybe it's time to end the relationship, hm?
35475
Unfortunately (considering the circumstances) yes.  you never love the same way twice.  So you can love one person very much, and another person just as much, but love them differently and for different reasons.
717616
I believe there are many people with whom you could make a "true love" relationship with.  The key is both partners makeing the effort toward a loveing relationship, and a commitment to the other person,
1121732
There is no limit to love someone . Its all between the single or two hearts . I feel the way how to live with her . There is no ful stop to given for love . I LOVE YOU its an word to live in this world to happy and also make the life happy .
359614
Maybe they think you are feeling something other than love.\n\nI don't think a person can actually love too much, but I do think a person can have an unhealthy obsession for another person and still think it's nothing but love.\n\nIt doesn't really sound like that's you, though.  Glad you are so happy.