Do you still find your wife very horny after years of marriage ?
489086
Marriage is a platform where two different people meet and tries to understand each other. once that understanding is developed they come up with a bond thats keep one's wife horny for years and one's husband the best for life.\nThis understanding developes with commitment, if u r commited then u will be able to understand.
837005
Women's wants and needs change over time. Life gets busy and sometimes we don't get a chance to tell each other how much we love our spouses, maybe she looks to this kinds of sex as a way for her to feel loved.It would be good for ya'll to spend the day together expressing your love. maybe then she will come around and realize that just because she has had kids and gained a little weight you still desire her and need her.
247443
well since Im married, I can attest that I never had this problem when we were younger, but as we get older she has gotten to where she dosent want it every other night as before, and now it has began, so for you single men not getting it every other day, (mispelled to get to show) mansturbate every other day, if done daily sex or mansturbation can desensitise to the point that the man can't finish, but the women usually love this when younger, but again as they age they become less into sex for 6 to 10 hours and are more into sleep, but there are the men like me who will never mansturbate, so in that case, if she wants me to last anytime since she's got us on a weekly cycle, is a little ORAL ACTIVITY in the morning so I can last in the evening, works great, and I get double the satisfaction, but she dose too, remember guy's if she gose down you had better get there also, and do it right, ask her if she likes things, and do her favorite's
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women' s peak starts at their forties,their libidos pop up.regarding "some"married women,could be the stress of daily life,taking care of husband,children,job,relatives,friends..a lot of things.being with the same man who doesnt offer much of an excitement either,well,what do you think?\nactually,women in their forties are pre-menopausal,their hormones start to get mixed up,this is the time that their sex drive ,and urge is more,cos of more experience,she is more relaxed now,kids are grown up,career is at a secure level,she is financially secure etc.she knows what she wants in life and men,she craves fun ,adventure and satisfaction in and out of bed.so don't  get worried my dear,if i were you,wait til you hit your forties,and u will surely know.i know,i am  now at that phase in my life....
897415
Sex=Make love @ 25 after I was married.
90436
Women in their 40's often to experience a drop off in their sexual drives. They are often concerned about getting pregnant at a time when they are moving on past the childbearing years and concerned that if they get pregnant there will be a high risk of genetic defects. They are also experiencing a decline in physical energy compared to their younger years. Considering these factors, the lack of interest is probably not related to the relationship so much as her own body's aging. However, intimacy is much more than what happens in the marriage bed. It is what happens through the day. Improve that, and you will inevitably improve both emotional and physical closeness.\n\nYou need to consider your wife's personality. If you are not sure, research love languages. There is a book by that title if you cannot find any onformation on the net. Basically, some people feel best loved when given things. Others feel loved best through words spoken. The third type feel most loved by spending time with them. The last type feels loved through gifts of service.\n\nFor my type of personality and age (I am 42), a racy sex toy would not be a turn on. I would feel like the gift was a shout saying let's skip real intimacy and get to the sex part. Intimacy to me is based on an emotional relationship as first place. My love language is time. One on one time doing activities that are out of the ordinary to everyday life would draw me closer. A hand in hand walk through the neighborhood, a surprise candle-lit dinner, being beside me in the work of the day around the house, etc.\n\nIf you speak the language your wife needs, I am sure intimacy will increase. As conversation allows a natural discussion of it, communicate what language you like best. It will make her feel good to be filling your emotional love needs too.
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I wouldn't like it to be honest. I'm not against porn, but I would be very upset if my husband was turned on by other chicks, especially if he went to a strip joint. I only agree to porn and stuff if they just look, but don't get turned on by that person. I am happy to look at porn together. Your wife needs to show you some respect! I would never do that to my husband. I wouldn't even get the urge to do something like that. Not if I'm in love.
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What turns ME on is just seeing my hubby's back.. he has a nice broad back with fantabulous shoulders, and I love his thick arms (not muscley shiny nasty arms). What also turns me on is seeing him get out of the shower... not seeing him him.. my eyes always wander down *wink wink*. Doesn't take much to turn me on really, I have a fantabulous sex drive. There's this ONE face he makes when he says "sucka", he knows that once he says that, I'll be all over him :oD
1063515
Do you ever look back whenyou first met your wife? do you remember having sex???? best for both of you???
540095
30th b-day was hard for me!  didn't really matter what i got, just that my wife still loved me at that age was the best!  Do or give something to let him know he still turns you on!
1117418
Have you seen the man in my picture? He's mine and have been for the last 13 years. Everyone tells me my husband is hot. And he's a good provider and family man to boot. How lucky am I, he's what have been turning me on for the last decade plus. My hubby is a tiger in bed, a cheetah on the track and a gentleman at all times.
1170815
Marry her, then she'll lose her sex drive. ( Ask any man that has been married for over three years ).
504752
me and my husband have been together for 15 years married for 14 and we have sex at least 2-3 times a week and it is still hot if not hotter now then it was when we first got married
243038
Not all women have low sex drives. The mood swings and being tired sounds like she is going through menopause. Women start menopause early even though they don't know it. It starts in the mid 30s on some women. Just be there for her and maybe suggest marriage counseling or try to get her to suggest it herself.
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Well Mr. "I can't get it up, and its all my wife's fault",  just imagine how disappointed she is in you!!! \n\nSeems to me, you have real sexual and marrital problems. \n\nI've heard of cases like yours in which the man has extreme difficulty performing with a real woman because he has spent so much time being aroused and ejeculating to pornography.  \n\nIn his mind now, women, who are nothing more than sex objects, have to have perfect bodies, like in the pictures to be sexually arousing.   \n\nPlus because he's had so much fake easy pornography sex, he's DISCONNECTED from bonding emotionally with a real woman-- sexually or otherwise.  \n\nThis creates all sorts of sexual problems in his relationships, that manifest themselves in different ways, like blaming lack of erection on the physical appearance of his wife's boobs.  \n\nWith the ease of access and increased use of pornography many psychiatrists, pastors/rabbis, and marriage counselors are reporting a huge spite in patients with your very problem. (check it out)\n\nYou have a couple of choices now.  \n\n1) You could go ahead and change your wife.  Have her get her boobs fixed so that it is pleasing to you, Have her wear sexy lingerie, and promise not to walk around naked in front of you.  \n\nBut what happens if her body changes again?  When she gets pregnant? older? gains weight? loses weight?  \n\nDo you just plan to stop loving her again?  \n\nSex in marriage is most fulfilling because it is an expression of love, dependence, and trust, as well as getting your physical needs met.  Qualities that are not based on physical appearance.  \n\nI'm not minimizing the importance of looking and smelling good for your mate, On the contrary, I believe it is important, I just think in your case its more serious than that.  \n\nSo since I doubt this is the heart of your real problem, getting your wife "fixed" is not going to keep it "up" for you.  \n\nEven with her body perfect, eventually you'll have another erection problem, begin fantasizing about other people and then justify having affairs.  \n\n2) Your second option and the recommended one, is that you  seek counseling to determine the real root of this problem and to resolve it within yourself.  \n\nThis will help save your marriage, and check to see if you are healthy enough to be fulfilling and fulfilled in an intimate relationship.  \n\nRight now you are feeling like you made a mistake getting married or got deceived somehow.  Not only is this most likely faulty thinking, these feelings you have will be detrimental to your marriage.\n\nGo talk to a specialist and get it checked out before you invest a few grand on a boob job.\n\nAlso, make sure you talk to your wife about this.  But a word of caution.  Be very careful about how you approach her with this. \n\nSticks and stones can break your bones, but your words can destroy.
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Yes ! do very much so. I am a married man and my wife is not a lovemaking person not at all. She claims that it's me but in all truth and fact it is her. I love her and may even be in love with her But she has so many ways that turn me off as a man who once enjoyed sex to the fullest
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No!\nMy wife and I have been together for 8 years and I think we can safely say that we are more in love than ever. Most people find, however, that over a period of roughly 4 to 7 years of marriage, the intensity or sense of romantic passion fades and is replaced by a sense of comfortable security that can sometimes seem somewhat uninspiring. Security in love can make people “lazy” in certain way. Relationship therapists can suggest various ways to liven things up and put the “spark” back into married life, but I’m not sure how successful these strategies are in the long run. A related issue is that a lot of people find that marriage ruins their sex life. Personally, I think this is pretty much natural for long-term monogamous relationships. I suppose you can always come up with some examples of a couple who has been married for 40 years and still have a hot monogamous sex life, but at the risk of sounding pessimistic, I think this is incredibly rare, and I think that a lot of people unnecessarily beat themselves up over their inability to stay sexually interested in their spouse. I think the high rates of cheating and divorce provide good statistical support for everything I’ve said so far.\n\nMy wife and I have a lifestyle that works well for us (tho I don’t claim it will work for everyone!) We have an open marriage. This has several amazing effects. For one thing, I think it keeps us both “younger” in some sense. We can openly explore erotic and/or loving relationships, and this means that life can be periodically charged with what is sometimes call “new relationship energy” (NRE). This is that energetic feeling of “walking on air” and everything seems bright and beautiful in the world. Most married people are afraid of this sort of thing, and of course for some people it can lead to jealousy, but in our case it is good for BOTH of us. I find that my freedom to love others increases my love, appreciation, and erotic attraction for my wife.\n\nOf course a lot of people put us down and claim that their love is better than ours because we are missing something or whatever, but they don’t know us, nor do they have any deeper clues than we do about the true nature of love, meaning of life, etc., so I don’t let this bother me – although I do sometimes (like now) get on a soapbox because I think more people need to realize that healthy, happy people can explore alternatives to the standard monogamous marriage script.\n\nIn any case, I don’t see marriage ever killing our love-life.