Is tere drugs for healing gay feelings? I have them but I want  to be normal.?
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Sorry dear. there are no drugs to stop the feelings.
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The word is spelled mast U rbate, not mast E rbate.  \n\nAnd yes, it can be normal, but don't let it control your life. That's called "addiction".
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Medications only do so much.  You need to get counseling/therapy, too.  No one can help you become enthused about anything if you don't want to.
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You can repress your natural urges, but this could cause problems psychologically.\n\nPeople are born gay or straight.  You just have to accept the way you were born.
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You are wise to try and regain your brain power. All drugs should be weaned slowly even cigarettes. If you feel good go faster. Recovery from mental illness is not heard of very much because of the stigma.
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It's always normal to feel things about the same sex... but if the feelings continue you should explore them some more... and maybe talk to someone about it. \n\nI guess I need more information.. but i hope this helps.
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Your avatars lookin a little Brokeback Mountain-ish lol your Q caught my eye cause I go to the gay club (with gay guy friends) fun isnt it? im not gay but I have a ball I love the guys there anyway yeah try some beers...cheer up...take someone with you maybe...
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Emphatically No.   \n\nFirst off, do you really believe being gay is a "disease", afterall, that's what cures or for aren't they. If so you best dispose of yourself now because it's a "disease" that isn't going away any time soon, Christian bigotry notwithstanding.  \n\nSecondly, to even be asked this question by a "friend" implies a not to subtle discomfort.  Now some might say it's a harmless question, but would your friend like to be "cured" of his/her heterosexuality.  I suspect you would find the answer rather surprising.\n\nThe truth is that being gay is no more a disease than being straight.  When will young gays learn this.  When you ask such questions or worse, use the word "cure", you not only demean yourself but you also show great disrespect for those who came before you.  The ones who were tortured, murdered, beaten and ridiculed over the years.  The ones who fought with blood just so you could be free.  \n\nPlease, please, please cease this constant...."Oh I wish I were straight", it's frankly shameful and buys into the hate that has always tried to destroy the gay peoples of the world.  We are who we are, Generals (Alexander, Ceasar), Playrights (George Bernard Shaw, Oscar Wilde), Actors (sir Ian McKellan, Anthony Perkins, Troy Donahue, Tab Hunter, Rock Hudson, Marlene Detreich), I could go on but you get the point I hope.\n\nAs Jews have said throughout the last century and as gays we should also: "Never Again"
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Do you have any good drugs or ways to restructure my brain for maximum happiness/pleasure?
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You sound like you have good morals already by not wanting to get involved with someone who does drugs.  Very smart.  I know while growing up, most kids want to experience and experiment with a lot of things that can be very harmful to them.  I am no exception to this.  I got myself into a lot of trouble as a youth by following the wrong crowd and allowing my friends to pressure me into things I knew were just not right.  Don't allow yourself to feel pressured into doing anything that you know in your heart that just don't feel right.  If you don't want to date anyone or even hang with anyone that does drugs...then DON'T.  Only you are in control of your life and the decisions you make will effect it one way or another.  Sometimes the decisions you make will effect others so always take time to think things out and be honest with yourself and your friends on how you feel.  Don't change for anyone.\nYou may find yourself liking this boy a little now but keep in mind, he obviously has an issue with drugs, especially if he's lieing to you about doing them.  If he's going to lie to you about that, who knows what else he will lie to you about.  As you get older and more experienced in dating, you will understand that honesty and trust are two main keys to making a relationship work.  It's not how cute or how popular a person is that makes them special....it's what's inside that truly counts.  I know that sounds cliche' but believe me sweetpea, it is the truth 100%.\nIf you want to keep him as a friend, tell him he has to be honest with you, because even a simple friendship deserves honesty.  Would you bare your soul to a friend who lies to you and who is nondependable???  If he cannot be honest with you as a friend, he will surely not be honest with you as a boyfriend and you need to move on to better people to hang around then.  It's always better to have just a couple true blue friends than it is to have and basket full of fake ones.\nStick to your morals.  Stay true to yourself.  Beleive me, there are many guys in this world that you will be able to pick and choose from as time goes by.  Pick one that makes you feel good about yourself and who you can make feel good about himself.  Pick one that can be honest with you and who you can be honest with in return.  Pick one that likes you for WHO you are and who you like just as he is.  If you have to change yourself for someone else, he's not worth it and the same goes for the guy...if you think he has to change, then he's not the right person for you either.\nI can share many stories with you about this topic (I've had my share of heartbreaks and bad choices) but I'll leave it at this for now.\nGood luck sweetpea and take your time in choosing the right guy for you :0)\nmarjenl72
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Dude, really try and get some help.  You clearly have issues that need attending to.  If you're gay or not, this silliness isnt healthy for you.  Not passing judgment, but clearly this is a cry for help.
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going to a gay support group might help.
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Stop thinking of it in terms of gay and strait. As a matter of fact forget the two terms exist at all. Then just pay attention to your emotions toward everyone around you and the answer will just kind of come to you. Thats how it was for me.
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Me and my fiance have the same problem. It's not you honey. Medication does that to a lot of men especially pain medication. Maybe you could try sitting down with him and explain to him how you feel. I know it's weird to talk about, but it's a part of being in an open and honest relationship.
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I think you are a bit paranoid. Once again, what is marban gay? I agree with the above answers. Please restart your medication.
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Well first of all Mike, how sure are you that you are bisexual? And although I used to feel the same as you in that belief being gay is wrong, and not the way to lead life. Although I personally would not want to choose to be this way I don't have a problem being friends with a bi person. You sometimes can't help the urges in you..as to the question why you might feel this way..it can never be answered, and if it can you must look deep inside of you.. Being gay or bi sexual does not make you any less of a person and if you are you cannot change that. Instead of repressing your feelings try opening up with close people around you, start off slow with that process. If you really want to be str8 try counseling or therapy it may help.
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Your question is worded ambigiously, so I'm gonna try to frame this the most simple way I know how.\n\nDo you want to f*ck your friend?  I mean it.  Do you?  Do you want to kiss him or touch him naked?  Do you want to feel his skin on yours?  Do you want feel his hands on your body?\n\nIf so, then you're at least bi.  If you don't want any of those things, then you're probably straight.  But if you're gay you're going to have to face it at some point.   You can deny it until the cows come home, you can pretend to be straight, you can pray until your knees lock up, but it wont make the feeling go away.  \n\nYou need to examine why you don't want to be gay.  Is it because of your religion?  Are you afraid of being physically harmed?  Are you afraid to be seen as different?  Are you worried about what your friends and family will think?  Do you think that gay people are all diseased or can't have normal lives?  \n\nSome of those fears are normal, some are fuled by a homophobic society that usually doesn't know what the hell it is talking about when it comes to gay folk.  You need to learn, think, and take some time to decide for yourself.\n\nI would highly reccomend renting or buying the TV show Queer As Folk... its five great seasons about gay life, both the normal and gay-specific parts (plus lots of sex :-) or the book "Am I Blue: Coming out from Silence".  \n\nhttp://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0064405877/sr=8-1/qid=1146355924/ref=pd_bbs_1/002-2832502-7269667?%5Fencoding=UTF8