For some women, does it take a lot of energy to have an orgasm?
477631
Yes, it is possible. Just as for men, female orgasms can be very different and their intensity can vary a lot too. Some can be really draining. Then again, it can be a nice excuse to avoid sex... I think that by observing her reactions you can estimate if her orgasms are really so intense and draining.
220329
Absolutely!!! Most women get a better orgasm from themselves than from a 'foreign touch.' You know best what feels good! The average amount of female masturbation is 2-5 times a week, so you're NORMAL! When you'd rather masturbate than have sex, then you have a problem--but you can always do it during sex too!
202153
Many women haven't reach orgasm for a long period\n of time and they moan to convince their body that they  are enjoying the act even if they are not, in-order to reach orgasm.
330835
i am assuming you mean faking an orgasm. yes i have a few times. but for all the guys that read this let me tell you that you CAN know when a woman is faking. when a woman really has an orgasm her muscles contract very very rapidly. this is a very hard action to fake at aproximatly a contraction every .08 seconds. so guys if you tune in to what's happening then she won't be able to fake it anymore.
211559
part of the reason for a woman to have an orgasm has to do with her own ability to turn herself on...in addition when the woman is being touched by the guy and she feels how much this guy desires her...that also makes her feel very femenine thus contributing to her potential to have multiple orgasms (5 to 8) in a lapse 1 hour.I mean there are many things in play here. to desire and to be desired, to love and to feel loved,romance(not for everyone),foreplay, fellatio,cunnilingus, touching, teasing each other...etc,etc.(if a woman is not in touch with her femenine animalistic drives that makes it a bit difficult for her) but there are also guys who really dont know how to please women so you get what we have here with you. Reciprocal attraction, sexual communication are very important to a healthy sexual and orgasmic relationship. then there is also that idea that to some women matters. meaning that some women girls...you know what I'm talking about (Size)...so I don't know how the shoe fits on you...good lick...i mean luck...I hope that you areable to get many orgasms.practice with yourself.
1117736
Every woman I've met wanted "oral".  Most women are clean and fresh, especially when asked. There really is very little taste, and with lots of saliva the pleasure comes quickly, and is a wonderfull stimulant to complete lovemaking, usually leading to wonderful arousal.  Most women can be brought to orgasm 2 or 3 times and usually experience a superlative deep vaginal orgasm during penetration. Brining a woman to sexual satisfaction is best by beginning with cunnilingus.
554343
Women and men? I can see how it might help some women I've known achieve orgasm more easily. One in particular had a hard time getting there because she couldn't relax enough; she couldn't breathe (Either that or I wasn't up to par...) We tried breathing exercises, which didn't really work. I wonder if staring at something, particularily something smooth and soothingly blue, might serve as a sort of meditative object, a way to focus attention and thus relax. To turn off the mind, so to speak. The mind can get in the way when you're trying to let yourself go orgasmically.\n\nAs for men, I don't know. Can men experience different levels of intensity in orgasm? I think I'll ask this question....
604512
I hope women don't have organisms when having sex with there partners. Orgasms on the other hand are nice to have but am not sure of an honest answer as it really depends on the woman and her partner. Some women may have multiple orgasms during sex and some may not, but I don't beleive that having orgasms are that important as just being with that person and enjoying the moment. Life is prescious and short so enjoy yourself and be carefull, if you are looking to have an orgasm I'm sure that you will eventually but don't think that there is anything wrong with you or your relationship if you don't. Good luck, have a good and safe time.
1131353
I would be inclined to say that with the right external factors, a female could orgasm continuously, or repeatedly at very short (30 second) intervals for the entire 24-hour period.  The length of time it takes for a male to be able to become erect and ejaculate is highly dependent on his age.
407551
Trick question! The answer is not a women per say, but whoever is the better master at such a task along with whoever really would be the emotional and phycholigical catalyst for pleasure for the woman(most orgasm are mental not phsical).
596020
Yes, women are no different then men in this.  They do have orgasms and will be fully satisfied at some time.:)
169542
Sometimes a woman cries from the sheer enjoyment of an orgasm.  If it has been a trying day or week, the release of an orgasm can open the floodgates of emotion that may have been held back previously.  It is rarely because of the act itself but because it is a time when your mind and body are relaxed and so you no longer have control over your emotions for a short period of time.  It is nothing to worry about. Just be happy that the orgasms are that satisfying!
1158760
I'm going to answer this hoping you're old enough to read it. \n\nAs far as I can tell, orgasm and climax are the same thing.  A woman experiences intense pleasure and her vaginal walls contract spasmatically.  Woman can indeed have multiple orgasms, depending on the type of stimulation and whether or not there's enough lubrication. Women don't have a period of retraction (which is what I think you meant, as opposed to refraction), as men do. However, to keep stimulating without a brief respite can be painful.  The clitoris does become very sensitive. But slow it down and give it a few minutes and most women (okay...I'm speaking for me here since I don't know about other women) are good to go again.  The most I've ever been able to do is 8 times, and then it seems that it's harder to contract after that. \n\nAs for female ejaculation, I can't answer that. I've never experienced it.
1036994
For most women, acheiving orgasm through masterbation takes maybe a couple minutes because they know what gets them there quickly. With a partner, it can take 15-20 minutes. There is no exact time. It depends on the woman and her (and her partner's) level of knowledge of her body and what she likes. Communication is the key.
110968
im a male and mine only last around 10 seconds, but women can experience multiple orgasms within minutes. if you know the location of the g-spot, and the proper way to massage it, the results can be monsoon like, and if you have seen it or performed it on a woman, you know what im talking about.
502033
Well, males are more likely than women to get at least one orgasm, especially if the male controls proceedings.  Many women do not get to orgasm via penis in vagina sex.  Those women are thus (obviously??) likely to desire sex less than those men.\n\nIf women explore their sexuality, they can become multi - orgasmic, and can achieve massive prolonged orgasms, that might well exceed what men experience.  They might desire sex even more than the men involved.  I suspect that only a minority of women do this, however.
1037254
No. They most likely don't know what an orgasm is. I did not know what an orgasm was until 10 years of having sex. But i did do a lot of screaming and carrying on.