Why do women stay with men that beat them.  Dont they kinda deserve it if they stay.?
485739
Yes they do because they are stupid and undeserving of pity. If they are too stupid to leave when someone beats them they deserve it or like it. Most wiil say Im scared to leave or I have nowhere to go or but hes a good provider or he takes care of the kids etc.... Its all bs. I had 3 ex gfs slap me before and I walked out and never spoke to them again, I dont put up with abuse but some sick and twisted people like it. Feel no pity for them as they arent even human, even a dog will try to run away if it knows its going to get beat.
834746
Why do you stay with a woman that belittles you by calling you incompetent and lazy?\n\nDo you not think that you deserve better?
1058111
well...not being a woman, you really can't answer what you would do.  \n\nWomen stay for so many reasons........they can't make it on their own, they are scared, they have low self esteem, they want to be loved......and no being beaten isn't love but try telling some woman who is beaten and then he comes and tells her he is so sorry and that he loves her so much that she isn't loved.\n\nThere are just so many reasons.......what I want to know is why some men think they need to beat a woman to feel powerful?  \n\nGreat question....and I hope it isn't inspired by someone you know being beaten.....if it is.....do her a favor and call the police.  If the OJ case did one thing for us, it's that the police take domestic violence seriously now.
633692
Some men and women have been hurt by someone else so they figure they will do into you before you do them . As adults games or and should be left behind. They will never change.......
1066294
I think women lose respect for themselves because, as you said, men mistreat us. However, I know not all women have been mistreated, and not all men mistreat women. \n\nBut because so many women have been mistreated, they lose faith in men and lose faith in themselves. Women need to be treated with respect and the love they deserve. If this doesn't happen, I think there will be more problems liske divorce, abused women, and aborted children.
117319
man what is it with women ?do you girls love being crapped on cuz if a guy figures out that you will stick with him threw all the crap and cheating he does 2 U ,he will keep doing it so just a quick bit of advice i am sorry 4 the shit i put my wife threw but she should have left me B4 we got married cuz if i was her there is no way in h-ll i wood have put up with me but i also learned from her how 2 treat a women better some guys will never learn that for the most part leave him cuz if he wants you he will prove that you r the women he wants "I DID 2 MY WIFE" good luck
664101
I have never heard an abusive man described this way, to be honest. What I have heard from women in this kind of relationship is that they hate how the guy treats them, but they deserved it cos they said something or did something stupid. Soooo wrong!!\n\nThese women are wholly lacking in self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence. They've been put down for so long, they truly believe the guy is right. They are so low on confidence that they will continue to state, Ohh, but I love him. I think that is because they see no way out..they feel they can't make it on their own, especially if they have kids, and they truly are SCARED to go it alone. They want someone to take care of them...and no, they really DON'T want the abusive guy, but they won't do anything about it until they learn to build up their self -esteem and truly believe that they are worth so much and have done NOTHING to deserve this kind of treatment.
679384
A very complicated question, but I think the following generalization applies many times:  if an insecure woman (and there are many) get properly abused by a guy, they subconsciously think that he must be better than her.  Why?  Because he's confident enough to treat her badly, and she's going to love it because she's hanging with a better guy than her.  If he didn't feel superior, he wouldn't risk treating her bad for fear that she would leave.  It's human nature to want to be with people better than you.  This is an overly simplistic answer, but it's more or less the fundamentals of it.
645445
Unfortunately the beaten wife syndrome has got a hold on her.  Its very sad to see these women who do this on a regular basis.  But they are the only ones who can change this.  Sure, you could have your buddies whoop on him, but then you are lowering to his level.  Until she realizes that she needs to make a change, this will continue.  Some women never get it and end up dead.  Maybe suggest that she go and see a counselor about it.  Then once they are no longer together, Have 6 of your Buddies kick the shyt out of him.
105547
where are u getting ur facts...most women?  no dear im one of a billion that has not.... why do the ones do it cause they risk everything and then find out when it is too late they have lost everything   then move on usually to a guy who is not near as good as the husband,,,or in some cases same as before   but they move on!
377053
Some women fear the men that abuse them, and so if they leave they could be subject to alot worse.\n\nSome need the financial help.\n\nSome stay for kids.\n\nSome are dependent on their partners.\n\nSome are scared to be alone.\n\nThere are hundreds of reasons why women wont leave.
368542
THANK YOU!! women hit hard and men are beaten a lot adn the women are never punished but if a man touches someones shoulder to hard BAM! you get a restraining order and a filthy record. the answer is do the woman thing and call the police. she as a woman is hitting u and putting u in the position of the classic woman. so do what the classic abused woman shoudl do and call the police. have HER arrested...damn good of you..
566069
People, enough.  If you let him do it, then you should leave and not be around crap like that.  You women are strong, stand up for youself instead of bitchin about it.  Geeze
903385
I have no sympathy for them...I have been on so many domestic violence calls that i wonder why people stay myself...I kept hearing "but i love him, he really does care"  BS the only thing he cares about is whipping your assets...By staying and forgiving them it basically tell them its OK to beat me, I'll get over it and forgive you...Someone hit me, they better have their funeral plans in order....
1160237
He's still with his girlfriend right?  Then he probably doesn't want to get back with you, although he doesn't wish harm on you.  That's why he probabaly wanted to beat that guy up.  Many guys feel that it's their duty to protect women that have been violated like you were.  If you would have been raped (God forbid) then he and probably quite a few othr guys would have probably wanted to beat him up to, because it's not right and they would feel that it was their duty as men to beat him.
398109
Often times the kind of men that abuse women were either abused as a child, or witnessed the same kind of treatment to their mothers. It relates back to the man's childhood in most instances. Unfortunately, they rarely change. If a woman is in an abusive relationship, she must get out now and find help. And if it's possible, and the man's willing, he should get help as well.
229535
Yes, I had a crappy boyfriend in the past who beat me often. I'd try to leave, but he'd find me again. Why it happened....cuz he was a jerk and couldn't control his temper I guess.\nHe finally got his payback--my bestfriend at the time beat him down, and he packed up and moved. Never heard from him again! Yippee!!! ;0)