Why do I always feel alone at times like this?
479089
Times like this, it is always good to remember that there has been time like this. You are not the first to feel alone and you won't be the last one.Loniness won't last.
990616
I'll be your friend! Anytime! Don't worry, everyone feels like a loser at some point in their life. I used to, too. Then I kinda got over it and tried to be pestimistic at all times. I still feel like garbage sometimes, but hey, lifes good. Send me a message if you wanna talk and I'll give you my IM.
64192
Oh yes. I have always felt different from everyone around me. There has never been anyone who truly "gets" me. I have friends, I have family, but still even when I am with them I feel alone.\nAnd yes left out of things. I've been in situations where it seems I was forgotten. Hearing friends talk about the great time they had doing this or that, and wondering why I wasn't invited.\nI don't know what you wish to know but remember the truly great have always stood alone from the crowd.\nDon't change to fit in, be yourself. Someone will "get" you.
951371
Don't let things get you down.  And don't beat yourself up because you are feeling badly about things.  It sometimes is easy to blame ourselves and to think we are alone.   I know it can sound easy to do, but just try changing your thinking.  Call a friend and arrange to go to a movie on the weekend, or just go for a walk.   I know it can be very hard at times and sometimes the loneliness can be rough, but just hang on and try to see beyond the rough day you've had.  Remember, today will pass.  Tomorrow can be very different.\n\nAlso, if you feel the need to speak with a doctor, go ahead and confide in one.  Perhaps the doctor can help you with some counselling.   Sometimes we don't see things as clearly as someone else -- the old saying, "can't see the forest for the trees" -- because we're not seeing things with the same perspective as somebody else.\n\nGood luck, and get a good night's rest, and a better day tomorrow.
931930
I felt the same way for a long long time, and I still feel that way sometimes. People really are there for you though, you just don't see it. If you were to need them they would be there, they just don't know that you need them now. Talk to someone about it. Anyone you trust. Just ask them if you can talk to them alone and explain that you feel like no one cares. It can be a sign of something serious like depression so be careful and know when it's gone too far. People do care, and they're all over. You just don't realize it when they're not right there beside you.
452832
I don't feel alone!!!  :D\n\nBut yes, we are always linked/connected to someone or SOMETHING, and people feel alone. There you can see that you can have everything in life, but if you don't have someone to share it with, you become miserable.
58305
Hi - I'm sorry that you feel that way. It sounds like you may need to talk with someone professional. There are so many things to be done that can help you to feel more social, or to alleviate that "empty" feeling. I hope you mention these feelings to someone near you who is kind and very caring.
1056315
Yes it is easy to get lost in feeling alone. I have several friends but they are all married and none of them understand that being single and on the dating scene is one of the most " alone " feelings in the world. I do believe that they would skip my funeral if it somehow hindered their plans to go to the lake.  \n\nThat is where my faith in GOD comes into play. I do know that God will be with me no matter what and I will not be alone. \nThat is hard to remember some days but it does help me.
393859
i completely understand. i have the same problem. i think you have to be happy. just because there are people around doesn't mean you can't be lonely. like something is missing and you're not quite sure what sometimes. doctors sometimes help but i think it's all something that can be worked on by ourselves it just may take awhile. i'm sure this isn't really an answer but at least you know you're not alone in this aspect :)
748750
it could be the base of depression...talk to someone about how your feeling before you start to feel worse, or it could just be that your exhausted from over doing things and just need a good sleep to give your body time to repair
75281
I don't really have a name for which moments I want to be alone it's just a feeling I get once in awhile.  I usually prefer to have people around me, I guess that comes from being in a big family.  There are just certain times I feel like being alone to just do whatever...space out if I want to.  lol
223193
this happens to me too. i thought i was alone. when i get like this i just want to be left alone because i don't want to pull anyone down with me. if it's nice outside i go out and MAKE MYSELF DO SOMETHING NICE FOR SOMEONE ELSE. or i'll go to the river and sit by myself in nature.\nthis usually puts me back into 'normalcy'
651035
i dont feel comfortable among strangers... i dont get anything to do that time...so i start feeling uncomfortable...
1119636
i wish i could find someone to talk to on here because sometimes i get really depressed and don't have anyone to talk to
955916
It could be a big lack of fulfillment of your needs, feeling worthless, or very disappointed, perhaps someone did something to you and you haven't been able to come to terms with it and give closure to a situation. \n\nAsk yourself what it is, who made you feel so bad? There could be depression, a lack of assurance and feeling less, you'll have to take control of this and these deadly emotions. You have certain issues that if you search deep inside you'll be able to deal with it.
174254
Loneliness is a terrible feeling. We have all experienced it. Do you have a friend you can call? How about a neighbor you can visit . Try walking around a mall or visiting another public place. Maybe you just need to get out and do something. When I feel alone, I like to do that or I do something that will keep my mind busy like read a good book or watch a funny movie. Avoid anything negative and more depressing. :)
1155589
most of my friends come to me for help, talkin things out and such, and when they leave they all so fine and happy. u see the funny thing is that I really feel the exact opposite whenever the conversation ends, sollowin it up and leave knowin that no one on this planet would ever know the way i feel, b&#92;c even if i did talk, im sure id make it sound very different frm the way i really feel. how irionic! :)