i feel tired and lonely . i like have a nice friend who speak to me and help me .....im m/37 ....thanks .?
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Waht seems to be the problem today.  We all have problems, but you can contact me through this web site.
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Oh wow - that is so sad.  I am really sorry that you have gone through SOOOO much in this recent past.  I am sure it must feel like your world has just about crushed in around you.  :(  \n\nI can really see now why you wish you could just have it all be over with.  What you are feeling is completely normal.  I wish there was a quick fix for the way you were - but there really isn't.  :(   \n\nOne thing that you may or may not be into doing is this -  exercise... I know that you may not want to at this time - but it really is good for you - it elevates the endorphins which in turn helps to elevate your mood.  So while it won't make everything better - it can help you to cope with it a bit better than you might be right now.  \n\nI will keep you in my prayers tonight and pray for that "hole" in your heart to be healed and filled with the Love of God.  I had that "hole" at one point in my life... It is lonely and sad - it makes you feel like you just have no reason to exist... "what is the point of it all" I would ask my self all the time.  But I have survived that time.  Life has improved and I have seen the blessings of the Lord in my life. If I had died or never existed I would have never known what I know now -  I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason - both good and bad things.  We Learn from the bad in order to be able to help others to the other side... to be a shoulder to cry on - or to gain wisdom through it.  \n\nKeep truckin' along - you will get to a better place - it may take a long time - but you will get there.  Keep your eyes on the blue sky and try to look at positive things in life.  I know they may seem like few and far between, but they are there... take the moment to look at the beautiful pink or yellow blossom as it blooms into the new spring of this year.  Take the time to look at the white fluff clouds as they float around the blue sky and a lady bug lands on the leaf - or a butterfly flutters by.  Take joy in these small things... small improvements will help you.  \n\nWhen you have negative feelings try your hardest to push them out and possibly pray at that time if you have a relationship with God.  Ask for help and peace in this difficult time.  \n\nyou will be happy one day Hiedi23\n♥
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u r just feeling a bit lonely now ..just get urself engaged in some kind of work and pls mention how old r u\n the true person will come looking for you so don't worry\nits happenes sometimes that ur frnds get very busy with their life i'm sure ur frnds will come and meet u one day and u can cherish the moments u had in ur life together
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Hun, we all feel like that sometimes, but its up to ourselves to get ourselves out of it. I was in a good job, i was seeing someone, i had lots of people who loved me, but it wasnt enough for me. i needed to love myself andapprecuiate myself the way they did.\n\nwhat do you enjoy doing>? how often do you do it? try donig it more of find different ways of doing it\n\ni went back to college, just a 10 week course, and it opened up a whoel new field of interest in being a cousnellor, i made a really good friend in that time who im still real clsoe to, we started gonig to salsa lessons together and wven though im too busy to keep it up its another intterest to pursue if i ever get fed up, and ive also had lots of fun nights out with her and also friends ive met throguh her. now im donig another cousnellnig course and ive amde even more friends,we go out together and do things i never do with my other friends.\n\nyou open one door and its not just a corridor you fidn yourself in a big a big great wooping hotel\n\n13.11.06 so i was copying up some notes on gestalt therapy and it got me thinknig about you. our primary and instinctual needs are food, water, vitamins etc. and when we lack it we have a hunger or craving. then safety - the need for a roof over our heads, a stable gov etc. then its love and belonging - family and friends etc. all these needs it sounds like you have met. then its esteem-  higher and lower so lower is other people's opinions of us and higher is our own. i wonder if this is what makes you feel unfulfilled? what is your honest image and idea of yourself? sdo you respect yourself? are you happy with who you are? if your bored and fed up, id guess not. why not try to identify what it is about yourself you want to improve and take it from there\n\nbest wishes
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Yep!  It sounds like depression if it goes on and on and it brings alot of good caring people down this world is a sad place right now.  Things do get better and if you still feel out of it after a long while I would talk with your doctor.Hope you feel better real soon!!
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I can totally relate to what you are feeling.  The one thing that helped me was finding another Christian friend in my church that I could talk to.  She has helped me and prays with me.  \n\nI also went to the dr.  He said my IRON was so low.  And that your iron being low can cause you to feel tired, stressed and dazed all the time.  So, we changed my diet and added more high iron foods.  \n\nGood luck,
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I feel for you,  you sound like you are going through a terrible deppresion.   Im glad you are seeing a counsellor.  hope you continue too.   I think you need a prescription from your doctor though to help you through this.  It is so sad all the trama you have been through in such a short time.   I am not preaching but I will definetly say a prayer for you I think you might need help from every angle.   Do you have a spouse or family to talk to?\nCrying is normal but not continuous and sleeping that much is not good for you either.  You are going to have to try very hard to face this and hold yourself up and believe you can do it!\nI have had times like this and you need to get interested in something even if it is on the computer you might be able to reach out to someone else.   Please try to discourage the suicide thoughts I know it is hard but there are people who need you somewhere and that is very final.  I want nothing but the best for you so please keep in touch and let me know how you are making it through your days.       \nLife is Beautiful hon.   keep your head up and spirits higher.
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Yes sweetheart, I'm alone today.  I chose to stay home, I could have gone up to LA to visit my sister, but didn't.  I am leaving for vacation next week so I had alot to do.  Are you lonely?  If you are please consider this a hug from a friend.  May God fill your heart with peace today, may He show you all the things that He has given you because He loves you, even if you are alone today.\n\nSo you see you're not really alone, I'm over here smiling and waving to you, telling you that I see you and I hear you!
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I'm sure more people than you realize go through the situation you described. I know I have! And I also understand what you mean when you say that you don't want to go through it all again to form another friendship. Relationships take a lot of work to initiate and to maintain!\n\nI know you said that you can't afford a counselor, but I would really look into it some more. Do you have health insurance? They usually help you cover some of the cost; I know mine does. And if you find a therapist you like (that's really important--don't just go to anyone), tell him/her about your financial situation (be really honest about it, he/she will usually understand). If you're in school or employed, the school or job will usually have a mental health benefit so you can see a counselor or a therapist for free for a certain number of sessions. This can really be helpful--it may give you some insight into other things that may be going on for you, as well as help you figure out what the best solution(s) are in your situation. They'll also do a broader assessment and refer you to someone if they feel as though you may need additional support.\n\nHow long has this loneliness been going on? You write "lately" but does that mean a week, a month, a year? And are the "friends" that you're with right now the same ones that betrayed your trust before? How do you know them?\n\nI also completely understand when you write that you don't want to be someone's burden. I think many of us feel that way! When we have a problem or an issue that seems to consume a lot of our time and energy, that's all we want to talk about, and it may FEEL like the person we're talking to doesn't want to listen anymore or is only doing it to be nice. Believe me when I say (and I have been in both positions) that it is absolutely NOT TRUE. People DO want to listen to you! After all, relationships are two-way streets--when you share, the other person will feel more open and comfortable to share with you too.\n\nI like the suggestion of a few other people who have also answered this question: get involved with a group. Join some sort of activity (e.g., book reading club, running club, knitting club, group through a religious/spiritual organization, human rights advocacy group, etc.) in which you will automatically have something in common with the other people there. After all, you're all there for a reason, right? Conversations will be a lot easier to start that way, and it may be easier to find someone that you naturally "click" with.\n\nTake care.
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Oh huny, I hope that you are not feeling lonely.. Please dont feel lonely.. Theres always a girl out there in the world who needs you in her life. You just have to find one.. No more tears, no more sad faces... Just smile, and more gilrs will notice you more... Keep your head up... As I like to say... "Sometimes in order to go forward, you must go backwards."
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I am sorry you hear that you are lonely.  There are churches that help out lonely people. Find a good church and make friends. Or better yet, go to the home for the aged or old age community.  There are many old people who go there to find company. Good Luck my man!
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Well it could be he is busy or he might be over you. ( Hate to say it.) Talk to him about it and you will feel better.\n                ~Lina~
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I think there are a lot of people out there who have experienced what you're going through right now. You're not alone in feeling friendless! People tend to gather in cliques for no apparent reason and it can be difficult to break in. I applaud your efforts for trying! It may be helpful to join a club or an organization that congregates for a certain reason: e.g., volunteer organization, running club, sports groups, etc. This may help because then you will have a conversation starter about the common interest you have.\n\nIt also sounds like this has affected your self-esteem (and understandably so). As difficult as it may be, remember that you are a beloved child of God! He has created you in his image and you are the apple of his eye. He loves hanging out with you and listening to all you have to say. Living in this truth will allow you to be more confident in yourself.\n\nTake care.
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I'm not a woman, but I am a man who has been happily married to a wonderful, supportive wife for 11 years now.  In spite of this, I do have feelings of lonliness.  Part of this, I feel, is due to the fact that I have always had a male best friend but am lacking one now.  Also, I have recently had some friends stop calling me, and that leads to insecurities and lonliness. \n\nThe best way for me to deal with those feelings is to do volunteer work.  I also look to see if I can help out older friends and family who might need help around the house or yard.  Diverting my energy toward helping others rather than self-pity is the best cure for the blues for me.  It might work for you too.
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I'm thinking that I'm sad and I don't know why. . . Maybe I'm just tired- maybe I'm about to start-  I feel the lump in my throat like I'm about to cry.  I think I'm just a little lonely b/c my man and children are sleeping and I'm still awake at 2:09 AM- I'm thinking that there are so many closed-minded people in the R & S section.  \n\nThanks for asking
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Hi - I'm sorry that you feel that way. It sounds like you may need to talk with someone professional. There are so many things to be done that can help you to feel more social, or to alleviate that "empty" feeling. I hope you mention these feelings to someone near you who is kind and very caring.
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thats depression im afraid.. go see your doc or get some friends round and do something you enjoy... got xbox live.. i will play you on there if you want. drop an email and well have a laugh,... dont worry its not the menopause.. just hitting a bridge in life.. i had mine a few months back but now im great.. hope you feel better matey.. tc.