How can i stop being a sterotypical racist bi*ch?
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Just think how YOU would feel if it was being done to you.  Hate begets hate.  Hate is easy, love takes courage.
1146303
I hate it and I am bi.
1121944
I'm bisexual and it took me years to finally admit that to other people.  Try finding a local support group in your city or go to a Yahoo Chat room that has other women in the same situation, or with similar experience.\n\nOne thing to remember is to always be PROUD of who you are and to never let anyone, ANYONE, make you feel ashamed.  \n\nGood luck!
701231
Stop trying.  It sounds like you are trying really hard to be someone you are not.  If you stop trying to please others and just be yourself, then you will find out who you really are.  You shouldn't try to be like others because you are not them.  They can be role models for you but you need to find your own way.  If you just take a break from impressing others and acting like others you will find the true you.  You have nobody to impress but yourself.  And I know that you will find that you are a pretty OK guy in your own right.  Sit back, relax, be yourself, enjoy life.
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Get away from those who are hypercritical of you.   I know it is easier said than done, because most of the time, it involves the family you were born into, a significant other, or a job where there are hypercritical bosses or coworkers that you're totally dependent on for your livelihood.  But ultimately it is the only way you can get a half-way decent sense of self in the end.\n\nNo person or job is worth your self-worth.  Unfortunately, few people learn that when they should learn it, and consequently, are emotionally damaged for life.\n\nThe minute you surround yourself with people who are tolerant and accepting, you'll become more tolerant and accepting yourself.
672440
Maybe in a perfect world.How do we rid the world of racism & ignorance?
47151
This question has been asked a lot.  In general the answer is "we can't", there will always be people who look down on other people for not being the same.\n\nThe best thing you can do is not be rascist yourself, raise your kids to see everyone as equal, and don't promote rascism in any way.  The end result can only be that you've made it at least that much better.
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you cant, if they choose not to accept you the way you are then you have to accept that they are not really your friends. dont waste the time and energy on people who cant accept you for who you are. be true to yourself there are amny people out there who are open minded. you will make plenty of true friends.
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It's takes years of conditioning to learn to be a racist.  As the song from the musical South Pacific says, "You've got to be carefully taught."\n\nSo the way to unlearn racism is to learn new things.  How to do that:\n\n1) Relationship and immersion: Become acquainted with people of other races: your classmates, your co-workers, the clerks in your local store, and so forth.  Visit a church or other house of worship with those not of your race.  Don't expect instant friendship or instant trust; you're just getting to know them, and vice-versa.\n\n2) History: read books, magazines, etc., written by or geared toward people of other races.  Visit their museums.  View their websites, both professional and personal websites.  Here are two of mine:\n\nhttp://members.tripod.com/mnl_1221\nhttp://360.yahoo.com/mnl_1221\n\n3) Arts and letters: view movies, go to the theater, read novels and poetry, listen to the music, which features those of another race--especially things WRITTEN BY people of those races!  \n\nThese things will help you know what life is like for people of other races, and will help you have understanding of and compassion for them.\n\nAlso, pray to God to help you gain wisdom and revamp your attitude.\n\nThanks for caring!  I mean it.  It takes courage and wisdom to want to change.\n\nAddendum: if you are rude to people--any people--then most of them will be rude back at ya!  It's called reaping what you sow.  So suggestion 5: try acting nicer and more polite to all kinds of people.  Again, thanks for caring!\n\nAlso, think if there are specific individuals you need to apologize to.
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Take the high road.\nDon't bother being petty and drawing negative attention to yourself.\nProve that you are the better person by NOT reacting to what they say and/or do.
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Drop the ghetto slang, speak with confidence and clarity, Ask your questions and ignore the people who want to insult you.\n(report abuse really works) and people will respect you.\n{Here and in the real world}
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u insensitive, prejudiced, homophobic person!!!  u suk!!!
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Not tolerating racist behaviors.  Being hyper-aware of any prejudices you have.  Listening with a truly open mind, without thinking that you know better.
959203
what is the matter with you anyway? I bet you are one of those blacks who went to an all-white school and was teased about your African features...get over it! Look in the mirror every morning and learn to love what God gave you. Convince yourself that you are somebody special and you are beautiful because God loves variety and concentrating more on being educated and bettering yourself as a person instead of your looks.
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im not so sure cause i think i have the same problem with myself. i still in the mist  of trying to convince myself that i am beutiful. i think that our, or your fist step would be to think of something that you dont like about yourself and say you do, maybe you can convince yourself!!!!!!! i hope i help and thx for the 2:)
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You should never *have* to separate yourself, whether you look similar to others or different. People just need to learn to get past their prejudices, but it'll be easier if differences aren't forced on them. Just go on with your daily routine as if nothing about your life is different, and deal with what comes. Be honest with yourself.
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I've dealt with this on a limited basis.  What I've found are three rules to keep in mind:\n\n1) Don't make the difference the issue.  Your working relationship ought to be developed on a value-added basis primarily, not on the cultural, ethnic, religious, or other differences you may be able to talk about.\n2) Be sensitive to where they may be coming from.  There are issues that will come up that they're going to feel differently about.  Be aware when they're going to feel like the outsider or awkward.\n3) Keep it authentic.  When bloopers happen, deal with it directly and face to face.  People sense when you're coming from an honest desire to get things done, and when you're just trying to be politically correct.