Was I wrong to break up with this girl?
486142
Wow.  Now that is a good story.  Not only did you do the right thing, you should run for freakin President.  \n\nFor your reward, you get... the rest of your life off from worrying about being taken to the cleaners by some greedy c*nt!\n\nAnd - a word to "IllusiveMe": girls do not put up with JACK SQUAT.  The SECOND a girl isn't getting her way, she demonizes the man, treats him like utter crap, abandons him, and never even bothers to justify her actions.  You think women put up with crap?  Women can't even take their OWN crap without wrapping it up in some kind of perfumed lie.
718321
It doesn't sound like she is your girlfriend anymore. I would have said that she needs to make her choice, but it sounds like she did. What should you do? Bow out gracefully and make yourself scarce. Find a new girlfriend.
153317
Listen this girl is clearly trying to break it off with you.  If she keeps saying it won't work why would you want to be with her?  She seems very negitive and dull.  Break up with her and go out and have a good time.  You will meet someone who wants to make it work no matter what.
751707
This is a very personal question and since you have not give full details of how the girl is like or how your relationship has been before this question, I believe the ball is in your court.Just be decisive and follow your heart. Only you would be happy with your decision. And remember, you are not too young to be thinking of a relationship or engage in a relationship. What is wrong is if you are in the relationship for the wrong reason or motive.
1110909
hmmmm, i thought that your gf did suicide when you left her, or am i wrong??
673501
I feel sorry for you.My advice is, identify the reason why she did it,also ask your self I am faithful and am I the person who she feels comfortable and secure?After you answer these questions, you can decide.If there is any weakness on your side,(I am not talking about the sexual thing) you better forgive her from the bottom of your heart and leave peacefully.
500474
It doesn't matter what she did with how many people, what matters is how you feel about it.\n\nYou aren't a virgin anymore. If you break up with her what is going to happen when the next girl you date finds out you did whatever you did with your current girlfriend and decides to break up with you over it.\n\nAre you any less of a boyfriend/partner/husband because you have now had sex with a girl?\n\nShe is who she is no matter what she has done in the past.  This is not her problem it is yours, so you need to find a way to get past it or you need to tell her that it is a problem and move on. But at the end of the day you are responsible.
867328
if she's local enough that you can see her on a weekly basis or more than yes both of you two need to break up with who you are with as best as you can and be together. if you can hardly see this girl I would continue talking to her but still both of you should break up with whomever you're with 4 the mere fact that you're not in love with them.
176533
Wow. You sound really angry. I guess that if you are serious about ending this relationship, breaking up with a friend is a lot like breaking up with somone you are having a romantic relationship with.\n\nYou could tell her that you are done with feeling humiliated and done with her mean comments. That you consider a friend to, at least, be someone who respects you. And that you consider your friendship to be over.\n\nYou may want to do this in person so it is formal and final and done in an adult way.\n\nIf you feel it's appropriate, you could tell her that when she is ready to treat you with respect that she could contact you, but otherwise, it's over.\n\nGood luck. You DO deserve to be treated with respect and not humiliated. I support you in standing up for yourself.
1032209
I think its wrong. but if your bestfriend know about the issue and if she's fine with it, then go for it. but if she doesn't know please don't keep it a secret from her. It'll hurt like H3ll when she fines outs
299252
Why would you do that?  That's a pretty cruel thing to do to the girl you've been dating.  I know I'd be hurt.  I'd feel like you didn't want to be seen with me.  Either cancel with your formal date, or expect your dating relationship to end pretty abruptly.
422806
no no no dont break up with the one you love.....\nunless its at the end of the road...and you cant sort out the problem.\n\nbut if your reason to break up is about the new girl....thats just WRONG!
120749
Wow if I was your girlfreind I would be upset. I might even dump you for that. Technically it IS cheating. All I can say is, big mistake. Don't do it again.\n\nIf you love her, take responsibility. You were wrong. Don't try to defend yourself or justify it. You cheated. Admit you made a mistake, ask for forgiveness, and don't ever do it again. Learn from your mistake and change. That's right, change. Become the type of person who is faithful and who would never hurt someone they love. Doesn't your girlfriend deserve that? Yes you can do it. Also understand from a girl's perspective, it hurts. If she doesn't dump you, count yourself extremely lucky and be thankful for what you have.
348569
The question is...will there ever be a GOOD time to leave her or will she always have some "problem" making you stay? You are feeling guilty and trying to make excuses so as not to have to break up with her. Natural. Break up with her, offer to help her out with whatever you can as a friend but do not sleep with her while you are doing this!!! Break away firmly but kindly. She will find some other shmuck to glom on to in no time(not that I am saying you are a shmuck)!! Good luck!
996010
The reason I broke up with you is because I DON'T like what you do.  The other girls and I have been talking in the bathroom on first break and we've decided that you absolutely suck in the sack.  We all faked it to get you to go on and finish.  \n\nRent some instructional videos... that is all I can tell ya, buddy.
1021323
"It didn't go over well", huh ?  You mean that SHE broke up with you and you dabbled around with someone else, then you two got back together and she is ticked off ?  if that's what you are saying, then she is merely not in control of the Green-Eyed Monster.  You see, what she meant by breaking up with you was "See ?  See how much you will miss me ?  See how empty your life is without me ?" ....she didn't mean that you two were really "broken up" - it was just a test for you to see how important SHE was to you and when you went on to someone else,  - WELL - that wasn't exactly in her plans.  And she is hurt and she is angry.\n\nWell, you are not responsible for either emotion that she is feeling, although it would not hurt if you understood them.  She did this to herself.  You can empathize that she feels bad that you were able to so quickly "replace" her (because that is what she feels....and, to tell the truth....that is what happend.)  We human beings don't like to think that we are easily replaceable.  But, indeed, we are.  (Ah yes, for all our talk about "soulmates" the truth of the matter is that many people can be our "soulmate" and that means it is not quite so much destiny as timing.)  She may well have expected you to pine away after her and when you did not, she is angry.\n\nLife is all about growing up - all the way until we die.  You both have gone through an episode that should have taught you both some lessons - different lessons than the other could have learned.  Now you are back together and going forward, hopefully not backward.  (She is looking backward, by the way.)\n\nAnd, as a side note, this idea of full disclosure - telling new girlfriends or boyfriends about your past - not a good idea.  Not particularly respectful of the people in the relationships in your past.  The same holds true for interim relationships - you weren't "with" your current girlfriend during the time you were broken up, you should not share details about whatever you did in your interim relationship.  It is not her business and it is disrespectful to the other girl.  (None of this "oh, if you loved me you would share with me" - see what it got you ?  She's pissed.)\n\nAnd no, it wasn't cheating.
630732
think about this first..... you go out with this girl, you break up....... you risk losing 2 friends......\nnow do you want 2 go out with her?