I have been involved with a man for about a year,when we first meet I was single and not looking well we?
494526
If you really like this guy (maybe even love him), then give it a bit more time. You can't really force anyone to commit. However, you should try to find out why he won't commit to you. Maybe that incident before wherein you found someone else while you were "somewhat together" is hindering him from committing to you because you just might leave him for someone else.
528980
At your age it will be over a year before you know for sure. Too many changes going on. Not that it can't happen, but if you are still together when you are 18, then he is probably the one.  \n\nBut some have dated until college, and then found out there was more and better.\n\nUnless you date other people, how will you really know for sure? It is the comparison to others sometimes that makes it easier to realize what you are missing/not missing.
739748
you need to find someone new. this guy doesn't sound like he cares about you at all.
89294
You just really cannot pen all men into one little box.  They vary greatly!  Unfortunately, it sounds like you have had some bad experiences, and I'm truly sorry.  One thing you might do is look in hindsight as to what attracted you to that person in the first place.  Did all of these guys exhibit specific traits that might have led them later on to expect that you would become their servant?  As hard as it sounds, really try to learn from your past experiences.  Also look at your own behavior.  Did you innocently suggest, at the beginning of the relationship, that you'd wash clothes or do anything else like that?
256475
Sounds like you waited too long already.  If he isn't married or involved with someone he is still someone with little time to give you--or he would be with you now.  He doesn't sound worth another second to me.
1138160
I dont understand if he didnt really want to be with you why would he have stayed with you for a year after you cheated. Just jot down on some paper everything you want to say to him, anything that you might forget. Some times a break up is temporary but sometimes they just tell you that to let you down easy. Thats what my ex did to me (neither of us cheated he just said we should have some time apart and we havent gotten back together yet and that was a year ago)You need to figure out why you cheated on him, it was obviously for some reason. Good Luck
432853
how long have you been dating? over a year, probably.
1081299
Thank goodness you only wasted 5 months with this loser. you've found out that you don't want this one so get ready for your destiny. Get fit and healthy, go the gym, get your hair done, spend time with the girls and have a laugh. you are now free to find someone really great and only your ego got a bit bashed. it's ok you'll get over it. he obviously has so why let him have anymore of your headspace? He was seeing others when he was with you most likely. don't go to bed with someone until after 6 months and it won't happen like this again. if they won't wait you don't date!
98987
Hmmmmmmm, In your story it did sound as if he was still intrested. well being that you haven't heard from him he is either not intrested or something has happened to him.\nI really wish guys could be honest it would make life much easier, but if it'll make you feel better just keep in mind what goes around comes around.
195343
A man who offers himself to someone when already involved is offering you a shallow relationship..the only women who accept them type of offers either only want shallow relationships or can only deal with shallow relationships..Is that what your looking for?? If your interested genuinely and you do value yourself...tell him to come see you when he is single..Also karma whether you believe in it or not, is real..you do things like this to another woman knowingly..your setting yourself up to have the same done to you.. I wish you strength in your decision :)
1017012
I would not trust this guy. Even if he never physically cheated on you with this other female while you were going out, he obviously had feelings for her. He would not have been with her two days later if he had not been harboring feelings for her for a while. You may hope that he will eventually grow up, but how patient and how many break-ups and reconciliations are you willing to put up with. I feel you will be better off keeping on a friendship level for a year. Date other people and have him date other people. You may just find your ideal mate instead of wasting your time. Or in a years time, maybe he will have his priorities focused on you.
807121
At a bar. We would go to the same club regularly and he was friends with a friend of a friend. We would hang out the bar almsot every weekend for about 6 months. It wasn't planned though. We just liked the same scene. He was dating other girls at the time, but had his eye on me and I was interested in something strictly casual, but never tried with him because he was cool and I thought we'd be 'just friends'. \n\nWell, one night he called me because he broke up with his girlfriend and wanted to come over and eat mushrooms. I had nothing else to do and thought he was cool, so I let him come over and we had a good time. Nothing happened that night, but about a week later I got extrodinarly wasted and we hooked up. It started out as a casual thing scratch that as a very casual thing and I had little intentions of it being serious, but we ended up falling in love and I settled down a little bit. \n\nThis was after he moved in because his 'rents kicked him out of their place and he was staying in his car. We were already sleeping together, so I said he could stay at my place for a few days and that few days turned to months and that casual time with a guy who was actually worthy of my friendship unlike my other casual boys turned into a serious relationship. We've been together for almost two years and plan on getting married in 2008. \n\nWhat makes us stay together? Well, our geniune love for eachother and partially our own narcissisms. We love ourselves and I'm his female counterpart and he's the male version of myself. Our similar interests and goals and problem solving techniques help as well as compatible senses of humour.\n\nThe story I tell my parents and family? We met through friends of friends at church.
914814
Then he wasn't really your boyfriend otherwise he would have stayed with you.\nFind someone worthy of your time and attention.\nTry...www.plentyoffish.com for help.
654654
This sort of guy usually persists until you put out but don't do that. He also seldom takes no for an answer. I had the same problem in 2001-2002. I just began sharing details about dates I went on with other guys untill he faded into the background. I am happily married to someone else now so don't believe that hype about him being meant for you.
567633
He's probably looking at you and thinking bad thoughts about you.  Calling you names in his head.  If you two haven't talked in a year, there must be a reason.
1058800
Well if this man in already in a relationship. and he has choosen his current love over you. i think that you can not win something back if you never had it in the first place. He was using you and not that it suits him he has left you. for get about him. which is probably easier said than done. but time heals all wounds and i'm sure you will find someone in the future that will treat you correctly.
399411
It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.