if one is over-weight can still one be beautiful?
492189
every one IS beautiful..u need no special quality for it
605489
Remember Ursula Andress, the beautiful Swedish actress who was a Bond girl?  Look at her today.  Look at any beautiful woman from 10,20,30,40 years ago, they were all stunning, but we all age, we all lose that youthful beauty eventually.  Have you ever met someone who was very attractive then got to know them and found that their character was so unpleasant it made their physical appearance ugly?  Not only is physical beauty something that is transient, it really is in the eye of the beholder.  Real and lasting beauty lies in who you are, the way you express your self.  Think about the people you just like to be around; not because they 'look' good, but because they are fun, calming, sympathetic, vibrant, wise, amusing... qualities which can't be bought.  Many people believe that those who have beauty, good health or wealth must be the happiest.  It's not true is it?  Look at Micheal Jackson, Kate Moss.  The issue here is low self-esteem.  If you're self-esteem is based on your appearance it's no surprise you feel insecure, that is not a firm foundation for self-worth.  It is really sad that you would feel threatened by sharing the attention and affection of your own child with your husband.  Think about it.  I would recommend that you seek the help of a good therapist to help you get to the bottom of why you have this fragile self-esteem.  You need to build yourself up...from the inside.  I wish you all the best.
1139502
yap. happiness is not in size 2 or 4. as long as a person is healthy and is not too much over weight,  s/he should be fine with the weight.
1095977
Yes definitely. A woman who is comfortable with her size and her body is very attractive.
313453
There is a mental state that anorexics work themselves into.  So before you "weigh 80 pounds soaking wet"  there is an issue there that you are recognizing and wanting to address- and that's great!  If your mindset is, "I'm such a piece of **** that I don't deserve to eat," or "No one will love me unless I'm perfect," or "I need to control something in my life because everything else is so out of control," then these are attitudes that need to be fixed- pronto! You are fearfully and wonderfully made, you are loved by God, you have not been forgotten and the Word says that "You are the apple of His eye" (psalm 17:8) and Psalm 45:11 says the king is ENTHRALLED by your beauty..."  I got through my problems through God's grace, and you can too.  Email me or IM me if you need to talk more.
1178163
I'm only a average size girl but i do have some quite large friends, i think it depends on how they carry themselves, so large girls can be quite beautiful, and i do know a lot of men who like big girls, so its up to the individual i suppose
736734
Sweetie, you are 11.  Your weight should be the LAST thing on your mind!  I'm sure you are beautiful and perfect just the way you are!  =)
740482
NO - honey, you are beautiful. A general rule of thumb for weight is 100lbs for 5' and 5 lbs for each inch over 5' - so 120 for 5' 4". That means you're perfect - probably stunning with all of that muscle!
860912
Because we live in a society that that demands perfection. People want to feel beautiful and an example of beauty. Like models. Skinnier people are more confident with their body and how  they expose themselves. Some overweight people get depressed and offended easier. They also might feel like they don't belong.
442191
Because you have to be healthy to be beautiful!!!!
619206
Your as pretty as you feel sweetheart... and in some says your more beuatiful than anyone else.. always remember that
1007748
Okay.....I'm not a guy but I was tempted to answer this question. Just wanted to tell ya you're beautiful in your own way. Just because you suffer from a medical condition doesn't make you any less beautiful than you are. You're fine and you shouldn't worry about it. Let a man appreciate you for YOU and not your body. Oh and to answer your question, I've asked this question to my guy friends many times, not that I'm overweight or anything but just out of curiosity. And they said, they would rather prefer meat over bones. I hope I've answered your question.
208617
I think that they are.  Guys who are fat is the norm for us (USA).  I mean I work with several HUGE men.  But I also work with a few HUGE women.  Who gets the most sh*t about being overweight?  The woman.  Most people think that a pretty girl is a skinny girl.  I'm overweight but not grossly so.  I hate feeling the ugly one when I happen to be standing next to a skinny girl and a guy checks her out and ignores me.  But hey I don't really hvae to worry about it.  I have a loving guy in my life who loves me for ME.
890331
You are attractive and will always be. That's not the real problem.\n\nYou're not horribly overweight yet, but at this rate, you will be soon. \nAddicted to food that makes you gain that much weight is something you need to talk to your doctor about. If it's not emotional, it could be medical.
167581
Only if it is affecting your health. If you are so large you have back troubles, yes, it may be the way to go, but if you are trying to improve your self image chances are you will only start to find other things you dislike about yourself. It's better to love yourself the way you are than to try to adjust yourself to what the world thinks you should be.
653565
I don't judge people by the way they look. A person being overweight would not make me not be attracted to him. If he is still able to get around and is active than it wouldn't be a problem for me. He would need to have a good personality, be kind, funny and nice. He would also have to have self respect and be respectful to others. Those are the things that are the most important.\n\n@--->---
1029884
NO. If you think about you weight alot and about how you look it just means youre a WOMAN!!! Plenty of women think about thier weight alot, theres plenty of pictuers of thin beautiful women in the media, its completely natural to think about your weight...and really it revolves around poor self image thats all.