I need help with this one! How do you compromise ....?
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This can be a very big issue. A lot of marriages end over money issues. You two have GOT to sit down, put aside all specific issues at first, and concentrate on coming to an agreement on how you both are going to handle financial situations, especially large purchases. You have to come to an agreement on how the one will ask the other and define each of your boundaries. Then agree on how you will compromise. Above all, agree that you will first respect one another. Lay down the selfishness. THINGS are never as important as PEOPLE, especially the person you married. This said, it stands to reason that things should never come before each other. After you agree on how to communicate and compromise, then introduce specific issues.
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To have a good relationship I believe you should be honest, be truthful, and respectful toward the person you are referring to. These are very important qualities in a relationship. If you are referring to a male/female relationship oh boy you really have to work at it. It is also necessary to compromise in a relationship. It takes a whole lot of that. In other words, every thing is not one persons way all the time. Compromise, remember that ok? \nas u have asked we can't get good relation it is we have to create good relation with others if u be good with others they we be good to u but there are some options cases also so we also think with whom we have to create good relation ok bye \nThe 'how' is a big one. I have been married 2 x and on my 3rd one and I have really learned a lot from this new mate.\n\nWe never put one another down, and if we are upset we let one another know without yelling, or putting the person down. I found this makes a huge, huge difference. The trust has grown. \n\nEach day we both quietly look for something positive to comment on ..... today for instance my partner commented on how thoughtful I was with one of our children. Just a simple comment and it really made me feel good inside. \n\nI have found from experience that just because we are with someone for awhile we don't take advantage of this. It is special to be in a good relationship and well, be thoughtful. Thankful
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Be faithful to her!\nBe patient!\n\nYou both will be all right!!\nGood Luck!!!
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Tell her.\n\nBeing honest and direct is better.\n\nNot addressing issues is submissive - maybe this has something to do with her dominance?
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This might be what God intended.  When someone needs to be tough, it'll be him.  When there comes a time in a relationship when someone needs to be soft, it'll be you.\nThe question here really is- Are you able to agree how to handle different circumstances?  Can you compromise?
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Turn the other  cheek. Two wrongs dont make a right. \n\nA quote from President lincoln says "The best way to defeat an enemy is to make him your friend"\n\nif yr religious - Revenge is mine thus saith the Lord. or\nA soft answer turns away wrath\n\nhope it helps
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be nice and be yourself. If those two things conflict you have problems.
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A number of inputs are available to choose from, in fact much has been said so far.\n\nI would like to add that encounters like this entail a very high emotional baggage and usually get twisted in attachments that none of the parties foresee. The point here is whether you or the incumbant will be able to live with the additional baggage or you foresee a possibility of a problem developing. In either cases it will leave an indelible impact on the lives of all involved.\n\nOther than that, what the hell go for it, at least if you do not end up liking the arrangement you could move on and there will be no holds barred for you to commit later.
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try to talk to them both face to face so that they can say whatever they have to say in front of each other...they should be the 1st one who talked about that...don't pressure yourself...anyways,no one can please anybody just as you can't tell the both of them to be in good terms just because of you..have an open forum and try to settle things in a mature way...
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Just  be honest with them and speak your mind.  Telling them why you disagree with what they are saying.  \n\nBut whatever you do, don't let either one of them influence your decision. Make sure what you are deciding is your choice and what you believe, not theirs.
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talk it over with her and find out why she wont. Have her comfortable with the idea and dont press the issue or else it could make he like it even less.
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Tell them you don't want to be pulled in two directions because you love them all.  That might get you out of it and maybe that will guilt them into settling their disagreement.  If they don't listen to you, stay away from all three of them if you can.  You can't win in this kind of fight.
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Noooo! Move right along.!Don't plead ...Just say 'okay- this doesn't look like it's working out'
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Stay polite, but don't hang around them if you don't want to.  You have the right to say no.  If they say they want to do something, say you have a previous commitment.  (Even if it's to yourself!)
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don't butt in. if she's willing to mess up their friendship (b/c shes gonna) let her\n\nand if it leads to that, dont take sides, stay nuetral.\n\nmaybe you should just try to prove to him that she is just "using" him in some sort of way.
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Tell them whatever they are doing is hurting you emotionally. Be honest and don't overgeneralize. If you say "You always do this" then you will get nowhere. Also be specific, if you say they are a mean person then that will get you nowhere. Don't bring up past arguments, it will only make things worse. Stick to a specific problem you have and seek a compromise. Either you both are winners, or noone win's at all.
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Be open, responsive, and willing to compromise. It isn't always easy, but if u can do this, your relationship will stay strong