Is this all in my head?  What do I do?
475757
This is typical after a breakup if the two people remain friends.  The problem is that even though you aren't together, you still have feelings for each other and everyone around you will still often treat you like a couple so it is very easy to fall into old patterns.  It doesn't mean anything has changed or that you two should be together, it just means your not able to move on because you two are still so connected by life in general.
155102
Run just as fast as you can away from this man.  You have a child to think of now and is this the way you want your child raised?  If you can't think of your child, then think of yourself.  You deserve so much more out of life than this and there is so much more out there.  I know it will be hard, but there is a light at the end of this tunnel.  My thoughts are with you.
160234
Maybe it's all in your head.
676055
You need to ask her about this.  Gently, not accusingly.  <---VERY important. No one here can tell you because no one knows what's going through her head right now.  Everyone's different.
399257
Err if you wanna tie yourself down from having all the fun .. then get married... \nIt's all in your head hunie.. whatever you think is OK..
954157
Take a Deep Breath! Relax...Remember "Everything happens for a reason" Don't let your problems get the best of you...God NEVER gives you an obstacle you cant jump over...Hang on!
722323
It is very clear that you desparately need psychotherapy and possibly mediation. In my oh-so-humble, non-medical opinion it sounds like you have schizophrenia.  Please, please, please go get help.  You need medication.
1160138
Sounds like you are very confused.  You should talk to someone you trust who can help you work through things and get a clear head.  Going to counseling would be really good for you - talking to someone who can give you a clear insight will help you a lot.  Best of luck with everything.
259138
It really does not matter what we think use your brain and figure it out for yourself.Why come on here and ask us ? Do we know you or your boyfriend ? Have we seen the two of you interact? Ask your friends or family they would have a much better idea then we would.
499783
Well if it was just part one of your question and things were great now and life felt good for you then I would have said let it go...however now that you are seeing him IM somebody and asking her to go to a game,etc and you didn't even know about it nor were you asked? I feel that whatever is going on, within your marriage, isn't heading for anything good. I think there are issues either from the past or in the present that need to be talked about.If you guys can take the time, to talk about them and how it makes you feel, etc, do it NOW! If you can't, and you need an objective third party, go and get counseling and keep working at it. However, do something now before it's too late!!! I will say a prayer for you both!!! Good luck!
663338
Listen to Kimmysauce here. \n\nNo one can hear your thoughts. \n\nYou may be suffering from a type of clinical paranoia. Your best bet is to talk to your doctor and get a referral to a good psychiatrist.\n\nThere is no shame in doing this, it is for your health and is important. \n\nGood luck to you- hang in there!
747660
It is all in your mind,you have to do something about it...\nyou have to talk with someone who is an expert
140335
I'm guessing that you're young, and I can tell you that what you think and feel right now is not at all what you will be thinking and feeling 5, 10, 20 years from now. Life changes without our even realizing it. Hold on for now, and just have faith that things will change and someday you'll look back and thank God that you didn't make a rash decision based on what really is just a fleeting moment in time.And for goodness sakes, talk it out with someone! You're not alone!
690151
you wann not ignore them but not think about them either? IF that's what you're saying try writing them down. write everything that's in your head and that needs to come out, then summarize it until you have it down to a few clear points. And then walk away. Do something else, forget about it, then go back with a fresh mind and some space in your head, and try to tackle one aspect of the problem at a time. K, good luck :-)
825189
Whats done is done. You know better now.  So go and do better. Dont beat yourself up as long as you take the steps to do whats right. You know yourself and just know people make mistakes. You will be fine.
1147018
Quit being depressed. This much you can control. Never put your life on hold for a man, unless your engaged or married to him. Always make sure you have a safety net. As far as what he thinks and who he is, it is hard to know what's going thru that head of his. I don't even want to guess, because I don't think anything is going to help you until you talk to him. So lets address you. He is far away, you need to get out and have some good clean fun. Call your friends. Go to dinner or a movie, the mall, what eve it takes to get your mind off him for now. If you don't want to call him, then there is nothing to do but wait for him to call you. But don't stop your life. This will also make time go by faste. I hope you the very best from this outcome. Remember, there is only one person in this world you can "really" count on,...and that is you. So don't let yourself down, and keep your heart safe.
402676
its possible....you should use your head...\nask yourself what is your skills?\nand with this skills what can you do?\nand believe in yourself and dont waste time...no time to lose....