i hate my job it is making me feel like a crap mum and ill all the time but we need the money what can ido ?
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some of these answers didnt sound too helpful so i thought i would share something with you. My mother worked 12 hours a day 6 days a week while I was young and later she ended up sincerely hating me because she would comehome tired and have to deal with me as soon as she got off work...she had a mental problem (depression) also so I am NOT saying you will hate your kids but I am saying that it can affect your kids lives and your relationships...my mother and I havent spoken in over 4 years and she doesnt know my husband or my daughter...she wrote me a letter (thru a relative) last month that said, "If I could go back I would change things. I would have found a different job, anything even if the bills wouldnt get paid on time...I wish like hell I would have put you kids first in my life and now its too late...my bills still arent paid and I have no children and your dad is long gone..."\n\nYou job can really affect ow you feel on the inside and how you treat other people...If you really do hate it, you should try anything to look for something new...your health and your families emotional health should be the most important things to you --the bills will wait, work whil you job search but search every day you can...check papers, internet, local businesses,, etc Best of luck to you!
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get a job- yard work, babysitting, \nchores for $ from mummy & daddy
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Get a job at McDonalds.  Just because I go out and make money for my family, what right do you have to CHOOSE to not work and take MY money?\n\nYeah, you're a bum...with an internet connection.  Get a job.
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I work for £5.35 (minimum wage) doing heavy manual work, I get no overtime (despite regular 12 hour + shifts), no sick pay and no holiday pay.\nYou are getting a bad deal (not as bad as I am getting) and should look for a better job.  Do a course and improve your career - £200 a week will hardly pay anything these days and you need to start saving money and getting a decent pension.
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Just  go,  you  don't  want  to  get  in  any  more  trouble.  Just  say  your'e  nursing  a  sick  relative  or  something.  Get  a  walking  stick,  they'll  have  sympathy  for  you.  It's  like  screwing  up  early  in  your  life,  like  doing  a  crime.  With  a  black  mark  against  you  it'll  be  hard  to  get  a  job  later  on  in  life.  We  all  got  stress,  just  look  at  the  mess  the  world  is  in.  Just  hang  in  there,  i  can't  promise  you  things will  get  better  i  can  only  wish  you  luck.  Take  care.
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Just take the day off and stay at home, no point in going to work if you are not feeling well becuase you will never get an proper work done!
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From my own experience, it may be worth going back to work for a little bit of time if you can handle it.  When my little one was 6 months no way did I want to go back.  I was crying, really upset and devastated at the thought.  Once I went back, I hated it.  I was desperately looking for a way out, as we could not have afforded for me not to work.  However, after about 2-3 months, it started to settle down.  I have been back now since Feb and it's okay.  I still would prefer to be at home, but to be honest, it is quite nice having some time for me to be me - if you see what I mean.\n\nHowever, to answer your question, in my quest for looking for something else I could do from home, I joined Avon.  I don't make a lot of money out of it, so couldn't afford it full time - but perhaps if I dedicated myself to it, I could?  I really enjoy working with Avon and they have some really nice stuff.\n\nOther things I considered were: arts and crafts (cards, jewellery) to sell on Ebay and Usbourne children's books.
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Get that job, take it seriously, do a GREAT job and you will make a lot more pretty quickly.\n\nSpend all your time whining about how little you make and you will get nowhere.
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Because you desperately need to share...I'll volunteer to take some of your sadness away...\n\nI think most of us are trying to tell you that we wish we did have your problems. If all your money is making you so unhappy try unloading some of it on places like Louisiana or Mississippi or anyplace that has hungry people...How about taking care of the Malaria situation in any of these third world countries..no body can give you an instant answer for happiness..you have to do something about it yourself.
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Be honest with your boss.  Tell her that you want more out of life than than the job you have now.  She will understand, and if she doesn't then you really don't need her, do you?  Good luck finding something that makes you feel better about yourself and works to your advantage in the long run.
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First get your act together. Talk to the people you owe oney to and ask for some grace. Is unemployment an option till you can get a job. Do you have freinds and family that can watch your kids till you get on your feet. \n\nIs there someone you can stay eith till your able to move out on your own?\nYou can do it!
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no i hate my job it sucks
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Ive been in the same situation myself recently, \n\nIm out of debt now, but its about hoarding as much cash as possible to get yourself a start. \n\nTry part time jobs, Car boot sales, overtime... anything you can... Eat cheaply, Go out less, try catalogue sales work in the evenings.\n\nYou will get there in the end!!
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Agreed! I am sick of working now! Is there any way out????
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No job is worth you feeling like crap and rattled every minute of the day.  Believe me, I worked in a group home for a year and a half and finally quit whe I was starting to get anxiety attacks from it!  Some jobs are just not for everyone.  See about a transfer to a different branch maybe?  Even a small paycut is worth being able to go to work without dread everyday.
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I know it sucks, but try to make youself stay until you find something else. It is easier to find a job when you already have one. Employers see that you have a job so they know you are responsible and just wanting to improve yourself by learning a new job and moving up.I hate my job too. If I let it, it really makes me miserable. While you are still at the bad job focus on doing things outside of work that make you happy.\n Good Luck.
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Firstly, you should see your doctor and ask to be referred to a counsellor, you have been through a traumatic experience and it is obviously having a bad effect on you if you are afraid to go back to your flat.  I'm sure your doctor will be sympathetic.\n\nSecondly, your employers should pay you a sick pay, full rate for a certain period then a lower rate for the rest of your absence.  If your employers do dismiss you, you may have a case for suing for unfair dismissal.  You should ask for a meeting with your boss first or write to him/her explaining your situation, and ask to be allowed to have the time you need to get over this.  If they are unhelpful or threaten you with dismissal you should really seek legal advice.  A solicitor will be able to advise you better than anyone here.  Don't worry about christmas, its never nice having no money, but if you have the support of your family and friends then I am sure they will understand that you can't afford to splash out this year.  I hope everything works out for you, best wishes.