y do guy friends get grounded so much?
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Melanie, six months - WOW!\n\nDancebaby, your mom loves you. I am sure grounding you means grounding herself as well.  I have read a few of your posts. It seems Dancebaby that you are having trouble behaving yourself. At 11, if you start behaving, the spankings and groundings will cease. Think about it hon.
458476
Been there with my best friend. She did that to me a few times, but I finally had enough and told her if she didn't find her own men, I was not going to be around her anymore. Its a trust thing: You trusted her with the knowledge that you liked this guy, and she went ahead and screwed around with him....Not Cool!!\n\nHowever, if the guy didn't know you like him, then its not his fault. If he did, he holds half the blame.\n\nI'd do the same thing again with my best friend, I'd let her have it! My best friend decided that she'd rather be my friend than have anyone I liked!!...GL;)
512659
dumb guys who are afraid 2 kick someone out thats the reason
397359
Because they're afraid to be judged infront of their "guy friends." \n\nGood luck!\n\nMichelle
279316
It doesn't matter what sex your friends are.  You shouldn't worry about getting guy friends!
928074
Well each guy is different. THere could be a vareity of reasons. BUt if they act like that all the timne it is probably best to stear clear of them.
1169383
The ones who dont say shit to you dont even worry. You have to keep your friends circle tight. You shouldnt trust a person as far as you can throw em. Just ask yourself are these the friends whos going to be there when shit hits the fan? Ive lost alot of friends but at the same time you also make new ones. Ive lost friends too. But its something not to stress over. Dont forget about having friends because your always going to need that person your going to need to talk to. I can count my best friends on my hand. The rest are just people i say hi too. But dont beat your self up over it.
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Guy are so shy because they are afraid. As a guy i know that when i was with my girl friend, i was scared to pull moves. It's the worry of making her feel uncomfortable, and if u go to far what will she do. Like touching a delicate glass peice, you worry it will break.
773228
Don't risk your friendship over a stupid guy. Guys will come and go out of your life but true friends will last.
917072
I have a guy friend that takes me to movies and comes with me to church. We do a lot of things together but that doesn't mean he likes me. Many friends do things together but it doesn't necessarily mean they like you more than friends. Then again, me and my guy friend ended up going out so who knows, wait it out.
564995
They can if the have no other feelings besides being friends. I have guy friends and we know each others limits you just have to be sure you want nothing other then to be friends
631587
Dont you just hate that!! It happens-your definately not alone. Guess its just the way they show how they feel so they dont risk rejection! Play along a little and at some point ask him-when you hang out with your friends if he wants to be treated like one of the girls?
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because sometimes a guy will be having so much fun he doesn't want it to stop. You know how life is, with work or school and responsibilities and everyones expectations. well, sometimes when you get together with your friends everything clicks and you are having a great time. And you don't want it to stop.\n\nwhen he gets older he will know this is irresponsible and will think to call (because you told him to do so enough times).
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He's jealous and probably retaliating and pulling away from you b/c of your "guy friends". No man buys the "we're just friends" bit  b/c they always try to read too much into it. Now, if your guy friends are gay they'll tell you to your face what I'm saying now: dump the dude and go for grade 6 tall, dark,handsome & bashful.
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It is because they do not want to sound like a romantic in front of there big tough buddies. It all boils down to peer pressure.  Just think about it.  Someone does something embarrasing and you feel sorry for them but everybody else is laughing, you know you gonna laugh too...to be in the crowd.  That is the way guys are.  They got to be tough.  They cannot let that guard down.
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definitely not normal... it depends on the nature of your problem... try to rectify it... no point in losing a friend over a tiny RANDOM squabble...
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well 1st of all, not all guyz suck. maybe most, but not all.\nSome guyz (hopefully i'm one of them) are caring and considerate. This guy just sounds like a b****** for leaving u high and dry. Try asking him and if says he will, but he doesn't show up and he says it's cuz he's having a hard time, just say, "Bull! Everybody in the world is having a hard time. It's better to hang out with friends and have fun then just sit around going oh poor me. i could be with this really cool girl but no! i'm having a hard time so i cant do anything." Just say that to him. I know it seems mean, but it works. at least it did when my best friend was doing that to his girl friend. so it should work. Good luck! \n\n    P.S. If u need any more help just e-mail me at argetlam_130@yahoo.com   I'll try to help as best i can!