I'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend, but he still wants to make it work, what should I do?
482925
If you want it to work out you should say what you mean that is nice and ask him to call you sometime and tell him to not avoid you and tell his  friends the real stuff you didn't say that was nice and also ask your boyfriend to go to the movies with you."
815669
Try to see if he will commuicate with you.  If he isn't will to at least listen  to you or  try to work it out then he isn't woth having.  One of the key things in a realationship is communication as well as compromise.  If he can't give you that then you need to let go.  I know it will be hard.  Breakups always are.  But just remember there are other fish in the sea.  You need someone who will respect you as well as be able to compromise and communicate.
1070630
Get some guts! Act like you don't give a crap and start spending some time with your girl and guy friends, if he doesn't snap out of it, dump him. The pain of breaking up is only temporary, the joy of getting even is lifelong.
956009
What I think you need is to relax. You can't over push a relationship. If it is destined to fail it will no matter what you do. Stop trying to make everything so perfect and realize that it already is! Just remember this one thing. If you two stay together forever.... thats along time to try and stress over making things perfect! imagine how stressed you'd be then! Just hang loose and let him see the real you the relaxed you! He'll love it even more and then you can enjoy your time together instead of worrying all the time.
274940
Well, I think you should ask for his opinion. Just carry on for a lil while, and if you both find that you cannot bear the circumstance any longer then maybe breaking up is good for both of you. At least you don't have to worry too much about meeting each other and the distance either.\nBut if you two (esp. him) feel that you can still carry on, and that the love is true and strong enough to help you overcome this obstacle, then just stand beside him and fight for it. Happiness just worths its name if it is gained from challenges and hardship. Nothing valuable is easy to get my dear : )\n\nStand firm, and if you two have the same idea, then just go with it, whatever it might be...
254078
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
401323
if your boyfriend dosn't make you feel loved and happy.. WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM!?!?!?\n\nyou are better than that. you don't deserve to be treated that way. Get rid of him and find someone worthy of you.
43089
Why would you break up with him if you didn't think it was true then? If you can trust him, then just ask him. Listen to your gut! *It knows!* You don't need anyone to make your decisions for you - listen to your gut. Good luck!!
778078
Yeah, but then again, I do everything on the basis of reason. Tell him your breaking up with him unless he stops. See what happens. Only if you want to.
458021
i had that problem before i accually am going through the sane thing right now but have found  as long as theres is mutual love and trust in the relationship it will work for a long time i have had a relationship where i only saw my girlfirend onnce every six months as well and we stayed toghether for three yrs and then she moved and we lost touch but if you really love him and trust him stay with it. otherwise talk to him and ask him what he thinks would be best for the two of u. wheather that would mean breaking up or staying together. just follow ur heart and u will find out what to do! :) good luck
237848
I think your right.  I think you need to make a stand and force him to decide if he really wants a relationship with you or not.  You need to find out so you can move forward with your life and find happiness either with him or with out him.
227768
How you break up with your boyfriend is entirely upto you.  You must realize that it has to be done.  Now, when you do should be done ASAP.  The longer you stay with him, the more it will hurt.
890557
Well sounds like you two need to sit down together and have a long conversation about your relationship, and why you are fighting over things.  And decide if maybe your lives are going in different directions and its time to end it. Or fight through it. All relationships have tought times. Its up to those involved to decide if they want to work through the problems or not. \n\nIf he is unwilling or uncooperative to sit and discuss this. I would say its time to move on as difficult as that may be.
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
738044
I am actually having this same problem myself. I love him and I want to be with him, but at the same time I wonder sometimes if he really feels the same way. We basically have 1 of 2 choices..... we can stay and try and talk to them and see if it can work out . or we can just let it go and find someone else. \n\nI choose to stay for a little while longer and try to work on the relationship as long as he is willing to work WITH me to make this work.\nI'm sure you will figure out what is right for you. I wish you luck.
841688
You don't have a rel'ship with this guy, no matter what he may think.  Tell him so.  If you try "breaking up" with him, you are saying you DO have one.
930477
Tell him that a break up is not what you wanted and you realise how much you really love him and it has taken this break up for you to really see how much you want the relationship to work ...... Good luck