What do i do? Have fun with crush or stay with forbidden love?
475551
stay with love. a crush will always end the way it sounds CRUSHED!!!!!!! they could've called it something else but they called it crushed. love is forever and will never go away if you leave it.
544491
find another love and keep have fun.try do your favorite thing.
1077132
This is a question that only you can answer. You have to choose, don't lead them both on. You need to choose with one you like more and stay with him. Maybe you should take some time to think about who that is, listen to your heart.
685249
You need your friends right now more than ever.. The worst thing you could do is get involved with someone else right away..If this guy only wants to have a little fun, and so do you, why not? If your thinking it will turn into the next "love of your life". your making a huge mistake. Stay on your own for awhile!! Build your self-confidence! Enjoy your freedom!
367742
I would recommend that you just try and relax and slow down. Through personal experiences i have learned that 99% of the time you are worrying over nothing, and there is a good chance your crush is feeling the same way you are. I would recommend trying to break the ice by using humor or if your not good at that just talk about things that interest you. If your crush isn't interested in those things then you probably wont work out anyways because you have none of the same interests. Just remember there are plenty of fish in the sea, relax, if you don't get this one you will find another.
64854
if you really love your boyfriend that much, it shouldn't be an issue...do you want to ruin your relationship with him for this other guy who may not even want a relationship with you? He may just want something else, so you gotta really think if it's worth it. My boyfriend has been gone for 9 months and I'm still very much in love with him, and very faithful. I can't imagine losing him for some "crush"...I alwayz say if you want to cheat, you obviously don't want to be with the person you're with...cuz if you do, you wouldn't even think about cheating. Just tell that guy you have a boyfriend and you're not interested. if he keeps bothering you, don't hang around him anymore.
259054
to me a crush is something that is superficial. you may have seen or discovered something that you have admired or liked.\nlove is total acceptance. it has worked its way to the deepest part of our soul.\nis is ok to still have a crush when you are already in love? i do believe so.
651522
There's no reason why either one of you should surrender your crush, to the other. However, you should contemplate the potential consequences of being infatuated with the same person. \n\nAsk your self, "will this affect our friendship in a negative way"? If so, is it worth it? \n\nYou and your friend should have a discussion regarding your mutual crush. First, let each other know how you feel about the situation. Obviously, your friendship existed before the crush; so know where your loyalties lie.\n\nWhom ever your crush chooses, don't take it personal, if it's not you. Be supportive. You can't control the will of others. Than again, if it doesn't work between your friend and your crush, you'll be waiting with open arms. Although, you'll have to decide if you'd want to do that, given you were his (I'm assuming the crush is male) second choice.\n\nOf course, if he chooses you, don't gloat. It's not a competition. If you and your friend are truly friends, you'll want the best for each other. \n\nSo my advice is, make sure you're both "cool" with going after the same guy and not let it turn into a cut-throat competition. Because if that's what is going to happen, just forget it. This guy will pick who he thinks he likes more. So it's out of your hands, in a way. Just know, you're both equally deserving. Be sympathetic to each other and always communicate your feelings. Don't let this guy come between you. Other than that, go for it!
460015
There's no line between love and a crush. Different relationships between different people make it something that you could really decide. If you both feel like you want to go out with each other, just see how it goes. As long as you enjoy it, forget about if it's true love or a crush, because after all, what ARE they?
459148
Look, there are only 2 things you should do right now. Either stay single, or go find someone else. I myself like some time alone to retrace my steps from when I was last single, and see what I was into. But I sometimes also like to mingle, chat, and flirt with new people to get a feel for them, and see if I like what I find. But none the less, you should go with what you feel, not what me, tom, or who ever tells you. Listen to your heart girl, and don't 2nd guess it!!!!!
411667
Wait for another time.  It sould like it may end up being too stressful if you have to be misleading.  Think about how great it would be if everyone could be open.  If he doesn't know you like him then you're more likely to be disappointed that you didn't have quality time with him and it will be all your own fault.  If he's the right guy for you, you'll have a chance to be with him and enjoy the fact that not only you like him but that he likes you.  Wait for that to happen and you'll enjoy yourself more.  Even if it doesn't happen, you'll be glad you didn't push the situation.
816848
You've flirted with him, so you have already told him how you feel.\nTime to limit the amount of time you spend with him.  As you do that, you will find other things to do and people to be with and he will not be so much a part of your life.  The less you are with him, the less you will hurt because your attention will be elsewhere and the more chance you have to meet someone that does like you.\nGood luck!
228427
Sounds to me like you need to make a decision between 'fun' and 'relationship'. You probably already KNOW the answer you are looking for-- look deep within yourself, young grasshopper! (LMAO!) You really do, though. It's just a choice you don't WANT to make is all. Sometimes they can suck the most.
397094
Do you really think is necessary to verbalize your feelings?\nProbably your actions are doing the job for you already!\n\nIt's great to be in love with someone or have a big crush on, isn't it?\n\nBut if you have the feeling that somehow you will scare the guy, step back, take a deep breath and pay a little bit more attention in what his actions are telling you.\n\nYou are too involved with your own feelings right now. And it is not necessary. You know you like him, don't you?\n \nSo, try to work at your favor!\nPay attention on him, instead of trying to find a way to tell him how you feel. \n\nJust relax and enjoy the guy's company for a while, okay!?
416453
Take some time to yourself.\n\nYou need a breathe of fresh air. A popular girl like you needs to have a chance to think before she decides.\n\nGive it a couple of days alone and see where your feelings go. I would go with the person who actually respects your desicion to be alone for a while... he's the one worth keeping. But the choice is really up to you.
232710
How do you know if you'll be accepted ? Put yourself out there....find out first hand if the person is going to accept you...If you love someone you just do....you cant just make that feeling go away....you might have to let it go if truly they don't share your feelings but why live the rest of your life wondering WHAT IF? If the feeling isn't mutual you'll at least know....and then you can move on. Even if you hold on to those feelins forever. Sometimes we love what we cant have or what is bad for us...The mere fact that its bad or off limits sometimes makes us feel stronger towards the subject. So I say GO FOR IT you might be pleasantly surprised at the outcome;)
171380
admiring a teacher and being infatuated by one is two totally different things, I see that you are very young,so telling you my opinion and your heart telling you what to do is going to conflict;however here goes!\nFirst if he is married,I strongly reccommend you let this go, breaking up a marriage is not good, Secondly, I see that you are under age, this will create a serious legal problem for him that could possibly lead to some jail time and if you care for him, I don't think you want this to happen, finally, he would lose his job, so if you give in to your heart you will cost him all of this, and drive a wedge between the two of you that neither will probably never recover from. so weigh you decisions carefully, perhaps after your 18th birthday if you still feel the same, AND HE IS SINGLE, you can pursue it with a clear conscious.