HELP! I am in love with a guy and he's leaving my life. How should I carry on?
485760
Use this hard time to take care of yourself.  Take time to do things that you enjoy that perk your spirits(bubble baths, yoga, workout, massage, etc.) and keep your heart healing.\n\nYou have a pretty good perspective on what you want to do and how you want this breakup to work.  No matter what you tell yourself in your head, though, your heart will still hurt for a time.  Good luck.
419321
l don't think you need this kind of man in your life .if he can do this when  both of you are even expecting to get married soon,  so what will it be after???ls he trying to break your heart now??? l think you deserve a better person.\nthis is supposed to be the most happiest time for you and him together.sweet heart does he even love you anymore?? talk to him seriously and ask him what is going on, b'se you need to know.you might be wasting your time with him, go some where far from him for sometime without telling him.or ignore him  for a week or more without calling him and at the same time avoid receiving his calls. test him and see if he  even care about you,if he realy loves you he will come back to you and he  will show it to you if he doesn't make things right you, then you will only neet some time to go thru a heart healing process but soon will be far better, soon after he is gone..be smart girl and know that he is not the only man you can love the way you did...good luck!
183703
Whoa!  This guy seems to be in too deep way too fast.  If you want to stay with this guy, you need to have a conversation with him and tell him to slow down or you'll have to stop dating.  Explain that you aren't looking for a commitment so fast.\n\nIf this keeps up, let him down easy, and then don't accept any phone calls, visits, emails, etc. from this guy.  Eventually, he'll get the hint and go away.\n\nIf he doesn't go away, try to get a stalking protective order against him.
587272
Sounds like he just wanted an excuse to leave. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but its the vibe I get from your description. Try to move on and find someone who will love you and be honest with you. Best of Luck.
708318
Call him and Congratulate him.\nThere's not much you can do, but if he is still in love with you he will end it and come back to you.\nDon't forget everything happens for a reason, you may not know the reason now but you will someday and look back at it.\n\nGOOD LUCK
1017312
You know what they say about Opportunity not knocking twice, well now it did. You should first ask yourself, “Am I still in love with this guy?” and “Given the current situation of my life and his life, are we still compatible?” If you can answer these clearly, that you’ve forgiven him and that you understand why he dumped you in the first place, then by all means, go for it. If not, if things are still unclear, it still wouldn’t hurt to get in touch with him again. After all, you were best friends.\n\nGod would not give you situations you cannot handle, and if in this new process you get hurt again, or if things go wrong, then at least you can say to yourself that you’ve loved and lost, and join the millions of people out there who are so sick of love songs. But that is being pessimistic.\n\nIf we all become wise guys and say you can’t do this and you shouldn’t do that, then you would just become paranoid because there would be a gazillion rules on love and not getting hurt. If there was a specific rule to follow so that you won’t get hurt again, then why are there countless heartbroken people, and countless heartbreaking songs?\n\nThe bottom line is, even though you are one who would like things to become safe, perfect and happy, you should not hold yourself from things that you know would affect your life in a profound, meaningful way. You should ask yourself every now and then… “Why not?”\n\nIf things go wrong, this time, you can say your goodbyes, learn from it, and move on.\n\nIf things go right, then you just did what God wanted you to do. After all, when you feel that you are happy with what you did, it was meant to be.
631705
Be blunt just come right out and tell him you are in love with him and if that dont work they are a lot of men out there. stop wasting you time you dont live forever. maybe when you are not around he may miss you. and come looking for you. you never know.
400505
he wanted u for a period of time.. I think now its over.. so he's going away from you..\nNow what u can do is.. just forget such unworthy person and start living your life..
517491
I think you need a replacement or substitute for him...Be with your friends always and stay busy so that you won't think of him over and over again...Date someone in your office, neighborhood or church...Stay happy in the company of your relatives, family members, etc...maybe you still need to pray to God for on-going discernment on what is His will for you...I believe in destiny, that of billions and billions of people around the world, only one is menat for you...Just enjoy life, be productive, enjoy work and do community activities/services in your respective community...\n\nGod will give you something that you really deserve...Only God knows whats in your heart, mind and your soulmate..
330356
I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
1001174
Carry on the way you are for now and don't be tempted to chase him.  Still go out as friends and have fun, you never know what the future may hold.  They may not stay together forever so hang in there for a while and see what happens. (Not advising you to steal him though!).   If they decide to get serious then you'll have to accept it. Unfortunately we all go through heartbreak at some time in our lives but love will come your way sooner or later.  Be patient and good luck!
640588
Dear you are too young to decide on these issues. But you want to move away from him you have a reason to move away. U have studies as priority and concentrate on that. If he really loves you then breaking away is always not so easy and you have to go through that ache. Make up your mind and there is lot of life ahead and tell him about your decision with the positive note.
1096958
Sounds to me like you're both ready to move on. It happens sometimes. I assume you are young because you mentioned your 'class'. Now is the perfect time to move on as you are leaving for a period of time anyhow. If you aren't showing him affection (for any reason) anymore, then you don't love him anymore either. You may still care for him a great deal and you may miss what you once had, but you don't 'love' him anyone. Yes....it's time to break-up and move on. Good luck on your travels!
1165397
im going thru the same situation..its like u love the person soo much that u dont wanna leave him..and its like u cant live with or without him ...how i wish the guys understood this! mayb give him some time..try to explain....take one more chance..cuz if ur in true love,u wont b able to leave him..but rather adjust his way cuz in a relationship,one has to submit to other's wishes.
744929
if he doesnt love you honey you need to move on and find some one who does and fall in love with them.  you can love more than one person in your life trust me i'v been there.  if he isnt still in love with you and with you then you need to find some one else and i'm sure there is osme one else out there that is more perfect than this guy.  if he's moved on hes moved on and probalby does not love you anymore...if he loved you he'd tell you guys are straight up like that most hte time.
671436
Well at times life puts you through a test and you need to make do with what you have and decide likewise.\n\nIf possible, you should decide on moving away from him.\n\nIf you are dependent on that person and / or tied with him for some reason which would not allow you to move away, then try to stress less on the darker side of your life. If it's just something that you can't really do anything about then at-least deviate your mind and attention away from that person as much as possible. Try occupying yourself with something that takes your mind away from him so you don't keep pondering on the fact and getting yourself more depressed.\n\nLast but not the least, I don't really know your relationship with this person or your history with him, though would still suggest to analyze your situation once again to see where the wrong lies. There may just be ways that you can salvage your relationship with this person. Depending on your situation, it may just be worth the try.\n\nHope you find a way out of your problem soon.\n\nAll the best.