how to get a shy girl that i always catch looking at me to start talking more?
494397
First you gotta make her feel comfortable with you she needs to know she can be her self with you, you know make her feel like you are on her level cause most of the time when we are shy its cause we don’t feel like we are gone fit in or capable of approaching people.
141806
Even if you cant get the nerves to talk to her at first...when ever she passes by give a nice smile that will show that you are into her...(this is called your body language) and say hi as often as possible. To start off a conversation, simply talk about school, then get into other topics as in what activies you both enjoy...if you have something in common, ask her if she would want to go out for some pizza and (the activity) !! Good luck
336549
Those three little words are the hardest things to say so you have a good reason to be shy. Here's a suggestion, write a journal about how you feel about her. You would have the sense that she would never find out so you would feel more comfortable about it. Then let her read it...from the clues she would know your talking about her and she would know exactly how you feel without having to make you feel uncomfortable.
121790
Just go up and ask her or  she  stares at u or she is always around
1105980
Always have something to say when you are around them. It doesnt have to be the most refined statements that you have to make, but anything simple will start a conversation. If not sure, ask every day questions and you will get an answer. That may lead you to asking another question and you get another answer. Probably then you too will be asked and you answer back. By and by, you will realise that you are warm with this person or persons and the shyness will become history.   :-)
676484
As they say practice makes perfect. Just try casually talking to different girls and see what happens. You could also try joining a club or something that alot of girls are in so you can be more socialized and to face you fear of shyness.
578960
Get to know her first and start off conversation something simple and interested in her or you. Just be yourself and relax she might like you who are.
447564
Start by simply saying hi to her every time you see her.  After awhile if you are near her when you see her bump up against her slightly when you say hi and smile.  Eventually she is going to get the hint that you are interested and then things will start to happen.
552058
You're not a shy guy, but you're not outgoing, either. Okay. I see where you are coming from. You're a "stuck in the middle" kind of guy. Normally, you are probably not nervous, and when a gal starts talking to you, you do not always get sweaty and start ststststuttering. But, you lack the confidence and machismo to just go right up to her and say, "Wow, you're the only good-looking girl that I have seen all day. I'm So-and-So. Mind if I get your number?" and hand over a pen and paper.\n\nYou DO have the right idea, though. It is a clever strategy and worthwhile goal to try to get the women to come up to you, rather than vice versa. But...unless they are practically drooling over you for some reason, like your disarmingly good looks and manly charm, that is not realistically going to happen - am I right?\n\nDepending on the location and situation, there are many different ways to start up the Attraction Game. Building attraction is definitely the most important part of getting anywhere with any woman. You cannot just stroll up to them and say, "Hey, you are like, so totally hot, and I like, like you, you know?" Unless, of course, you can pull it off in a particularly humourous way and get her laughing.\n\nThat's what you need to aim for. Laughter. Do not come across as being outright goofy - just playful. Even the more serious-minded women out there will appreciate a fine sense of humour.\n\nNext time that you see a lovely girl standing around, and you want to talk to her...look at her for a while. People, as you have probably noticed, tend to have a "sixth sense" that just lets them know when they're being watched. She'll probably at least glance over at you. Don't drop your gaze in a panic, though. Instead, smile cheerfully, and - slowly - move your gaze away from her. Don't stop smiling, either. Then glance back at her quickly, and look away again.\n\nWhat's the point of that little exercise? It builds attraction. A lot of our communication as humans is completely nonverbal - it's body language. By looking at her but not freaking out when she looks back, but rather slowly looking away, you're effectively saying: "I'm not a creep, because I am not staring at you. But I AM admiring you."\n\nShe'll probably smile back, or at least her eyes will shine with some degree of recognition. There's your chance. Look at her again - about the same way, just focus on her eyes (always, always, always look into a woman's eyes when greeting or talking with her!) - and stroll right on up to her. Sure - this takes courage. And sure, you are probably worried about being rejected. But don't be. Repeat this mantra through your head: There's no reward without risk.\n\nYou might even become so smooth at this whole thing that she ends up coming over to YOU, wanting to know what is going on. I love it when this happens; it shows me that the lady has some confidence and fire in herself. :)\n\nOnce you get there, say something spontaneous. This could be amusing and playfully-arrogant, like what I mentioned in the beginning of this post. Or, it could be simple and direct: "Hi there. My name is So-and-So. You are?" It sounds crazy, but this is honestly all you have to do. It's that easy. What you have to watch out for here is turning into a wimp - blurting out words randomly without thought, or thinking TOO hard about what to say and therefore saying nothing at all - but remember. You are already there. You've already initiated the conversation, simple as that might have been. Now all that you need to do is keep it up!\n\nAnd just go on from there. Keep a few things in mind if you ask for her number and go on a date:\n\n1. BE CHARMING, but do not become a "girlie-man." *laughs* I mean, don't let her walk all over you or get you sweating and stuttering. Be confident.\n\n2. BE FUNNY, but be mature, t
114323
Be bold and strike a conversation. When some familiarity is in place you may then let her know your interest and feelings towards her. It all depends if she will give you audience and not play hard to get
819523
first off... get some confidence.  walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.\n\nor.... \n\nyou can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
284883
don't ask, do. some girls love those stuff but are to shy 2 say anything, eventually shell get uset to it if you keep it up and will wanna open up to u, just remember it takes time.
505828
1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.
461166
why?....if your a true man then confront that shyness in you.girls are nice to hang with,you have that self-confidence naturally..what you have to do is try to make some girl friend,just friends..talk with them..and here's how to get a girl's attention...offer some help,maybe a friendly favor that most girls ask from boys...be a gentleman and you must have yourself a sense of humor...ok?
93095
tell her you think she's cool or something and that you'd like the chance to get to know her better
982354
just start talking and then you will become more relaxed.  i am shy too and once you start talking it will come to you and you will be fine.  it does not matter what you say to start it just start talking.
417579
For starters, find something in common, ANYTHING, and then strike up a conversation about it.  SMILE CONSTANTLY and be funny and laugh and she'll dig your personality and continue to talk to you ... the longer you talk, the more likely you will have success.  After you've been talking for a while (if you see her regularly, then you might want to talk to her a few different times before suggesting more), then say "hey, we seem to get along really well and enjoy talking with each other.  We should exchange numbers and hangout sometime unless you think you're too busy."  If she AGREES, then she'll be cool with it; if she just simply says that she's too busy, then it most likely means 'no.'  Either way, when you suggest hanging out, give her an alternative like "..., unless you're too busy."  This way, it's not like flat rejection, and YOU will be able to keep your confidence for other/future girls.