My friend and I want to Interchange our Wives, How's is the Ideal?
487134
Doing this act can lead to serious problems later on...you all may enjoy it while its happening.  But questions will invade you all afterward...like..did he do this to you?? yada yada yada...\n\nMy suggestion is if all parties (the four of you) are willing to do this, do it at the same time, in the same house and in the same room.  That way if anyone is uncomfortable it can be stopped immediately.  Not only that but there will be no questions later on, you where right there and could see what was going on.\n\nRemember to think of long term.\n\nGood luck and if it works out have a blast!
375261
Yes why not. I'm happily married but have female friends who I call.
416243
you already answered your question when you said you love her, i mean you love another girl and engaged to another woman ,may be thats not fair to her or you ,you should think about that ,even if she is from another religion but it doesnt mean she is from another planet.
60106
it is not possible to love them the same way. You will love them equally, but in different ways and there is NOTHING wrong with you and your hubby getting involved with the same woman. As long as she is ok with the fact that he married you why would it be wrong?
445399
I choose an answer, but I also understand where you are coming from.  What I hope will give you comfort is the knowledge they side with their spouse in order not to be divided.  (a united front and all)
137561
One that is your friend, in a comfortable, non-pressured way, first.  A wife must also be a best friend and companion:  there is so much besides sex in a marriage.  Also, you want one you can respect and trust, one whose judgment is sound, intelligence is good, and heart is generous.  Don't discount practical competence in the routine matters of life, either:  cooking, balancing a check book, doing the laundry, having good taste in clothes and furnishings, etc.  You want one with a healthy body and a healthy emotional life, and you want one that loves you very deeply.  Don't hurry it!
474455
your wife would be a good choice
1136649
As long as both people know that this is just an exchange of e-mail greetings and no one is trying to approach the other person in a way that would compromise thier marriage, it's perfectly ok.\nI have talked with several ladies on here and I am happily married.\nThey know that and respect it. \nGood question
377614
Another wife/girlfriend.
344397
Ok, in my opinion the answers that you have gotten thus far are really cliché! This is coming from someone who has been there, done that, and my fiancé and I are still happily engaged.\n First, let me say that threesomes ARE risky. NEVER try to use a threesome to fix anything wrong in a relationship. If there you are already having issue, it will just amplify it!\n However, it does not sound like that is the case in your relationship. It sounds, from what little you wrote, that you have a healthy relationship and this other woman is putting these thoughts into your head. \n Here is what I would advise. First, find out if your wife is interested. Bring it up when you have not seen your friend in a day or two, and do NOT mention the friend. The reason is that if you do mention the other woman, and your wife does not want to do it, she will never trust you or her friend again, regardless of your intentions. \n Now, if she is interested, the next thing that you need to say to her is that it is an interesting idea, kind of a turn on, but you don't think you could actually go through with it. This may not be 100% the truth, but the fact is if you seem eager then she is going to react very negatively. Let her lead the way. If she is interested, once you have broached the subject, it will come up again. Try to avoid suggesting the friend, let your wife do so. Basically, you want this to all be her idea. The reason is that when it is done she is more likely then you to have issues with it, and if she feels that it was her idea then she probably won't. If she feels that you in any way pushed her into it, however, and there are any regrets, they will lead to resentment, gutanteed!\n Next, if you do decide to do this, set boundaries. Talk about what you are both comfortable with. If you cannot talk about this in detail without arguing, then don't do the deed!!\n In the heat of the moment, make sure you stick to the boundaries. You can always discuss them afterwards, and relax them in any future encounters.\n Finally, try to make the experience as enjoyable as possible for your wife. If you and the other woman both concentrate primarily on your wife's pleasure, she is much more likely to enjoy the experience, and you are much more likely to have a repeat.\n Good luck!!
891426
I think it would be more difficult than anyone would imagine. What if all the wives are in a bad mood? Pissed off at you? Pregnant? Fighting with eachother? Sounds pretty horrible for the guy if you ask me.
390625
I looked it up and I dont see anything wrong with it. Most guys are willing to let the wife lead in all roles. Well, maybe mine is. lol.\nIf your wife doesnt mind and is willing to be the leader, tehn why not?
784160
go with the hot friend.  no risk of creating a clinger and no risk of alienating the wife to be.  a blast all around.
263492
As a person married to a spouse of a very different religion, I can say that anyone who offers an "easy answer" has probably not been in that position.  Make no mistake, it can be difficult.  That said, this is decision time for your daughter and prospective son-in-law.  \n\nIf they are ready to be with each other, they are going to have to get used to navigating religious and cultural differences.  And this is an opportunity to decide whether they wish to cleave to each other or to their respective families of origin, to the extent there is some conflict between those two loyalties.  If they cannot prioritize being together over parental approval, the marriage is better off not starting, for its future is not good.  On the other hand, if they establish that their love for each other is something they wish to put at the center of their lives, learning that now can create a valuable opportunity to build a foundation for a future marriage.\n\nI would encourage them to:\n(1)  Engage his family's rabbi (or another rabbi, if his family's rabbi refuses to participate) in the dialogue;\n(2)  Talk about mixed-religion marriages with others in similar marriages, particularly Christian-Jewish pairings;\n(3)  Pray to their shared God/G-d in their two very different ways for guidance and help for their relationship.\n\nBtw, even in Orthodox Judaism conversion for purposes of marriage, and marriage to converts, is acceptable.  Try the Book of Ruth.  Possibly this is actually about cultural, rather than religious differences.\n\nImho, despite the challenges of interfaith marriages, they may play a very important role in moving our world from the present mutual hostility of all the world's faiths towards greater mutual understanding and peace.  And that is certainly a noble pursuit.\n\nMy blessings and my wishes for good luck to them and to both your families, which may yet become one family.
466546
it sounds like they want to sleep together, so if you aren't comfortable with that, you should communicate it clearly with your wife and friend.\n\nsome cultures are more flexible and wouldn't have a problem with those 2 getting it on.
1015079
I would prefer a one woman and one man world with just me and my sweet wife. Because she means a world to me
457289
obviously the first wife wasn't suitable. because if she was y'all wouldn't had got a divorce... so the first wife is right.. but the second wife could be jealous or envious of the history you have with the first wife... that happens...just tell them to cut it out.. and act like adults... and go on with your life with your present wife... okay.