if i let my 1st true love go will i ever get him back?
477474
talk to him and tell him to be frank with u. why he is doing such and not keeping his promises.tell him u dont want to live like this and just give u a valid explanation..tell him not to make a promise if he cant fulfill coz u expect too much and u get too disappointed
98528
I hate to say this, but if he really loved you then he wouldn't want to be with someone else.\n\nJust let him go.  If he comes back, then you know he's yours.
84126
If he does not want you, then you will likely be disappointed if you were to get him back. \nMy love, and the mother of my children, died when they were both still in diapers. One learns to live on and love again.
47123
Boy thats a tough one! I had a similar problem with my first love. If I were you I would try and think about why he was with you in the first place... what made him need you. Possibly show him that you two were good for each other that you brought out great qualities in one another. But sometimes people just lose touch and intrest sad as it may seem. Just be careful not to put yourself out there too far, you have to respect yourself before anyone else will.\n\nIf your ruthless a good dose of jealousy might work too ; D
821762
Everyone deserves a first chance. If he hasn't given you any reason to not trust him then give him the chance to prove himself.\nNot all us fella's are jerks. There are some pretty responsible& caring men out there .So if you think you've found one, take advantage of that. The best advice is to follow your heart. Let it be your guide. Your thoughts will only confuse you. You've obviously been through a lot so why put yourself through anymore. This could be your chance for a family of your own & a lifetime full of happiness. You will only get hurt if you allow yourself to be hurt again. Romance is an adventure. You ultimately decide how the story will end. Will it be a drama full of heartache & fear or a Fairytale full of answered dreams & eternal happiness? Based on that; the answer should be simple.\n\nGo ahead my Dear give him a chance so that you have a chance.....\n\nGood Luck.........
224101
Why would you want him back?? I am sorry, but he seems to have proved that he is untrustworthy, and a creep. I know it hurts, but put him behind you and move on with life. You will meet someone one day that would never think of walking out on you...you deserve a true love, don't settle for less.
393466
If he wants you back he will find a way.  You might have to accept that he has moved on and try to do so yourself.  The pain goes away if you let it.x
1171107
Umm no. You can't just sit around waiting for him. You'll waste so much time, and when he comes back things won't be the same anyways. You both will have changed. Spare your heart the pain and move on.
196974
You can't force someone to love you.  Stop wasting all your time and energy on someone you can't have and who doesn't want you.  There are probably a ton of guys that would feel so lucky to have your love and would love you back so quit wasting your time and move on with your life.  It is his loss...
197138
of course forgive and don't forget it TRUE love cant be broken, but it can be restored. but if you feel like it will happen again lay down some ground rules and keep your eye on him.
827121
Yes it's very possible. However, it's going to take time. \nYou're obviously not over this girl. I really believe that for as long as you're holding on to this girl, you won't be ready for a new love. \nI'm assuming she's your first love? It's going to be hard because naturally we compare everything and everyone to that one person. She was perfect in every way, right? and you want your next to be just like her; totally understandable. But honestly, we can't expect to find that same person again. I think that you may need a little more time to get over her; and I'm sorry to say, but you do need to let her go. It's hard to let ourselves open up to new options and personalities when we're still so engrossed on one option. \nAnd, I'm sorry, I'm not one to tell you how to move on and let go. It took me almost 3 years before i could completely let go of my first. But it will happen, i think the best thing you can do now is find out what you can learn from that relationship and try to figure out how, because of this relationship, you've become a better person. Then use those factors to find what you really need.
3691
if you think he is genuinly sorry and you truly have feelings for him, then i believe you should take him back. everyone deserves a second chance!....but not a third!! make that clear to him!
351825
TRUE LOVE!!!!!!!! is never easily forgotten no matter what. maybe he still loves you he just won't admitted b/c it seems to me like you also hurted him and he simply does not want that anymore. And if at first you don't succed try try again he will fall again if he ever truly loved you. But please don't wait for him if he doesn't respond than he's out with strike 3. Don't you think???
474285
You should respect his wishes and get on with your life. That sounds tough, but if he does love you, he'll come back once he realises you've moved on. If he doesn't, it would never have worked anyway...
790725
Unfortunately if you are going to lose him, you will.  It's a shame because it sounds like you guys are great together but I had the same situation when I was your age.  We did finally split up because he never had a chance to sow his wild oats as they say.  Now he has, and is constantly asking me to get back together with him.  So you see, if your love is really true, what do they say, "If you love someone let them go if they come back they are yours forever and if they don't they never were.  Try not to sufficate him, maybe this too will pass.  Good Luck
537858
yes, i do think about him, but i would never leave a perfectly good relationship for one that could be. I have actually been looking for my ex but i would only want to talk to him as a friend now. I am happily married, it would just make me happy to know that my first love is also happy with his life. I would even try to pick up a friendship with him, just as long as it doesnt come in the way of my relationship with my husband
799159
I know how it feels, I am in a relationship now with the best guy i could ever be with we have been together almost 5 years, and I still find myself wondering about my first love. Me and my first love were together for only 2 and 1/2 years and he was my first everything. I know deep down i still have feelings for him and i always wonder about him. I know i shouldnt be doing that, but i cant help it, i guess he still has some place deep in my heart. As for you i think that you still have a special place in your heart for this guy. Dont let it bother you i think its all part of how special this guy was for you, just be thankful and happy that he is having a great life, and that he is married be happy for him. I am sure that he probably still thinks about you as much as you do him. Maybe you never know what holds in the future. SO dont lose hopes of this guy and dont lose hopes on finding another guy. god only knows whom your soulmate is. I wish the best for you. god bless you