what kind of lie you should lie?
478526
the lieiest lie of all liedom!
130945
The first step to not lying is to quit doing those things that you feel you need to lie about. For instance, if you secretly smoke cigarettes and hide the fact from your mother/father/wife/husband, then it would be easier to just quit smoking. That way you would have no REASON to lie.\n\nThe second step is to become aware of your own lies. Often we lie, as you said, as if it was a small thing. Many people lie so much about 'small things' that at times they don't realize they are lying. You need to listen to everything you tell someone and then consider if it is a lie or not. You might be surprised at how much you actually lie.\n\nKeep in mind that often we begin lying before we realize it. For instance, if your friend asks you how big the fish was that you caught, most people will instinctively give a size estimate that they KNOW is bigger than the actual fish. However, in mid-sentence they may become consciously aware of their lie. If so, stop the sentence and say something like, "...wait a minute. Now that I think about it, it was only THIS big." There is nothing wrong with changing your answer to correct a lie. As far as the other person is concerned, you are just trying to remember the actual size.\n\nLastly, wake up every morning and commit yourself to telling the truth about EVERYTHING. Keep it in your mind throughout the day. Put something like 'TRUTH' as your screensaver or write 'FACTS' on a piece of paper near your desk to remind you. The more aware you are of lies, the less you will tell.\n\nI hope this helps. \n\nCafeZ
1134705
Well you shouldn't be lying in the first place. It has been my experience that the truth alway's comes out. It is the nature of truth to come out and if you have to lie, be prepared when you least expect it, for the truth to come out.
224027
Whatever you do don't "beat around the bush" to say cause it can hurt to not know the truth. Just asked anyone who has ever been lied to.
1088913
this was told to me several thousands of times.  if you lie about the small stuff, you'll lie about the big stuff.\n\nWhen you break that trust with people, and you go to tell the truth, who would believe you. prime example, wtach the movie Cry wolf. infact the stroy cry wolf is a good reason not to cry wolf.\n\nBasically , when you start lying to family, you'll lie to friends, you'll even start to lie to your self. more then alot of people lie. Criminals and some religious people are your biggest liars, and lawyers as will XD.\n\nbut ask yourself this, how do you feel when you are lied to, I know it wants to make me rip somebody's head off. \n\njust remember, you reap what you sow. What comes around goes around.\n\nthe best and humble thing to do is take responsibilty for your actions. I respect people more who goes, "yeah, I messed, up" then  "Um, he did it."\n\nthe truth will set you free, my friend.
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In the end lying will come back to haunt you. Even though you didn't hurt anyone ELSE with lying, you're still hurting *yourself*. If you lie a lot and get your way, and no one get's hurt, you will begin to believe that you CAN'T hurt someone else, and everyone knows that even the smallest white lie can snowball into something huge.
912763
women lie, it's a fact of life\nmen lie too btw
1088446
It is never ok. A white lie may be small at first but it becomes bigger in time. I'd rather tell the truth even though it may be hard for  someone to handle than  lie and decieve them. Do the right thing hun.
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my granny used to say, "Some people will PAY to lie when they could tell the TRUTH for free"\n\nPeople will lie about anything, and especially they will lie if it will cause them not to have to explain anything or if what they are lying about will possibly make someone mad or hurt.\n\nThey will justify their behavior by saying "I had to lie because I care about their feelings and didn't want to hurt them"
550570
yes we should try to be honest and truthful always keeping in mind that one lie paves the path for another lie.
247254
White lie is avoiding saying something that would hurt someone else.\nSerious lie is any other lie.
919199
Think before asking a question like this. Think. Why do you think they'd lie?
467007
No - tell the truth about yourself. There is no shame in your situation. Everyone has their own story and if they are happy with who they are, or are striving to better themselves for whatever reason, then that is their truth. Lying will only make you feel worse about who you are, not better.
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We often lie to protect other people's feelings, or the shelter them.\n\nImagine if you always told the truth, no matter what.\nWife: Do these pants make me look fat?\nYou: ---------\n\nYour 6yr old kid: Dad, Where do babies come from?\nYou: ---------\n\nYour boss: How's that report (the one you forgot about and haven't even started) coming along?\nYou: ---------\n\nThe IRS, or just anyone on the street: how much did you make last year?\nYou: ---------
544450
Just tell your parenst the truth, they might be angry with you but its alot better than telling a lie.
71880
You should ask him directly something you know he will lie about and you have proofs about the lie. I dont think you necessarily should do it in front someone else, but tell the liar next time you catch him lying there you will tell relatives and friends about his behavour and spread all around that he is not reliable.
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It is always better to be honest than to lie or to go along with something you do not want to do.  There are many ways of being dishonest such as cheating, lying, commiting fraud, conning people, going along with something even though you think its wrong, etc.  No matter what kind of dishonesty you commit, in most cases it catches up to you and you must tell more lies to cover it up or confess your dishonesty.