Every time I go over to my boyfriend's house, my brother acts like he doesn't want me there.?
486636
i dont see why you even care!! i mean you should just go over to see your boy which is your concern and ignore that dumb a$$!!
911150
The more you show him that this word upsets you, the more he'll say it. He knows it pushes your buttons. Hey, he's a little brother. That's the way they are. It's their job to snitch on you, copy everything you say & do, and find words that annoy you. Unfortunately, if he's not listening to your good counsel about keeping his yap shut, someone will do it for him, relieving you of all responsibility. So, if you've told him, and you've told your parents, your job's done. Let the chips fall where they will. And don't allow him to see that it bothers you. This works well on all the other stuff that he's been annoying you with too. How do I know this? I'm a little sister, though grown up now. <*)))><
1141244
Tell him to get off his butt and support his family! If he is lazy, threaten to kick him out of the house. He's the man of the house, and he needs to pull his own weight more than anyone else.
677651
Your have legitimate fears, and there is no reason you should have to live in fear, or be responsible for three drunks.  First, you must eliminate them one by one....Don't invite your boyfriend over as often. He should have more respect for you and your feelings.  Then,  have your mom tell your older cousin to stay at his house more often.  Then maybe your older brother won't have the desire to drink alone and climb poles!   You and your little sister have the right to feel safe in your own home!\nGood luck to ya!
1032789
She's his girlfriend not yours. I'd say talk to your brother and if that doesnt work just back off.
1033971
No, he is not insane, just immature.  If your Mom thinks he is making mature decisions, then she is the insane one.\n\nMy best to you.  I think your brother is going to need family support for a long, long time. He is lucky to have a sister who cares about him.
190725
technically speaking, she is a "guest", but now perhaps an Unwelcome guest?\nThe girl simply has no home training.  Even if you are just going to someone's house for dinner, you should offer to help with the dishes or SOMETHING.\nSad to say that she would be so inconsiderate and surprisingly doesn't even seem to care about impressing her boyfriends mother as most respectable girls do.\n\nSounds like someone your brother should show her to the door of the house and his life!\nI'm ashamed for her!
101004
If its annoying your brother, he needs to tell it right away to his friend. You can't be a friend with someone who does not offer you that comfort level. "Let her know exactly what ya feel and he will not do it again".\n\nTrust me, there are bigger problems in a relationship!
651182
he sounds More of a annyoing little brother then a real boyfriend!! break it up!! tell him you can't stand it anymore!! IF HE CAN'T BE MATURE THEN FIND SOMEONE WHO CAN BE!!! Good Luck!!
971323
I wouldn't allow him to stay in your home. Tell him you would love to have him over  for dinner but that you're not going to be opening your home to any houseguests. Be the bigger person - don't do the finger pointing thing. You know you're right, he knows you're right. Move on from this point. If he is civil during dinner then next time he comes into town invite him to stay in your home.
677896
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
1093678
Man, I know what you mean. Sometimes family can be so annoying cauz you didn't pick them :(\nI think you should try to move out as soon as possible if you're unhappy. And I don't believe it's fair for her to not allow your friend to come over. I mean yeah, it's her house, but she could be much nicer about it. Just because it's her house I don't think that gives her the right to control who your friends are.
1016565
Sounds like he's trying to push you away. Maybe he's trying to manipulate you in to kicking him out. Since he can't bring himself to do it on his own. Sorry ,but I can't see ANY reason to stay in a unsatisfying(emotional and physical) relationship.Then again maybe he has a a physical problem but the locked up laptop kinda blows that one away. Try consuling, if he's just interested in messing with your head drop him. It's not worth being unhappy year after year...
620294
It sounds as if she's jealous, are she and her brother pretty close? She may be feeling like your stealing him away from her. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about that, but take a deep breath, don't feel guilty about being relieved that she's not coming to your shower {you'll have much more fun without her their snarling her nose at everything.} And just enjoy your day.
945735
Maybe she doesn't like your brother or maybe you ignore her when he's with you guys?  Look at the reasons she might be saying no.  Have your brother bring along a date or friend so she doesn't feel left out.
780033
Being that I have a sister that does the EXACT same thing I can honestly answer "yes" you/me have been used.  All the things you've explained are very familiar sounding.  The problem lies in them being spoiled rotten and getting everything given and done for them.  Do what I did and put your foot down, enough is enough eventually he'll realize what is going on and the shoe will be on the other foot.  It got to the point where my sister was monopolizing all of my time and resources that my own family was going without, and that wasn't happening anymore.  It's called tough love and unfortunately it has to be done.  Good luck and I'll be thinking of you because I know how painful it's going to be.  But to answer your question...yes of course your brother loves you.
688877
Sounds like your boyfriend is using YOU as his excuse for anything and everything!!\n\nMy opinion and advice?  Get rid of the boyfriend, find someone else who will value you more, and treat you like you're a human being, and not someone to use and abuse as an excuse because they're no good!