Can my marraged be saved?
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Eight years is a long time to let go of. maybe she just needs some space. Try separating for a while. It seems that you both still have feelings for one another. Seems like she feels lost. I know, I'm going thru the same thing with my husband. I feel like I've lost myself. I'm not the same person I was when we first met. Give her some time. I'm sure she'll re-evaluate your relationship.
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If you want to save your marriage, you both need to ask God\nfor help. He will be the only one who can fix it.
253901
you made the vows to god, so you should do what you can to keep them. its like making vows to a spouse. how can you make it ok to break them? you cant.
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Just steal one from a hotel or a church or something! Jesus will forgive you. isn_'t that what being saved is for. and you'll be saving money!
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is he save.\nGod can and will forgive you for a divorce, just like He forgive sin.\nman has a hard time to forgive.\nMatthew;19-5\n1 Timothy 3:1-7\n1 Corinthians 7\nwe must try to save the marriage first.\npeople read part of the Bible.\nAnd forget the rest. must take the whole Bible, not part here and there.\nGod does not want us to get a divorce,\nbut did God put u 2 together, or did u do it?\nGod not in all marriage, when 2 sinner marry, where God in their live, they not following God\nwhy believe God put them together\nread the places i toll u about
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NO you are not saved.  The Bible says, and I quote \n"That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in rhine heart that God hath raised hi from the dead, thou shalt be saved". Romans 10 verse 9\n\nNow, just because I gave you a easy answer, does not mean its that easy to live saved.  there are the ten commandment that in the Bible and also the two Greatest Commandments.  you see.  God honours when you admit when you are wrong and ask for forgivenss.  When you ask, you can't make that same mistake again.  So try hard not to.\n\n\nI hope I answered you question.  If you would like to keep in touch, You could email me at \nemanishera00@yahoo.com \n\nI love you with the love of Jesus
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its a question-maybe-I let my x back -but the marriage was never the same-but the most important thing is to pray and let Jesus into your heart to forgive even one lie in our life and help us do better-amen  Revelation 3:19&20 -he healed my heart and I am ready to trust again-only in a new marriage Lord willin---WILL BE PRAYIN FOR YOU TOO
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I had a heart throb when I was young but married another.  God knew best now I can hardly remember her.  Once a bond is made it is for life.  You may get another chance if she dies but until that happens you need to hunt another. Life goes on  God will fill your void.  There is another, look for him.
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GOD will forgive anyone who makes a mistake even if you kill someone. So you made a mistake by ending up with someone like that so what GOD will forgive you. I have been married 2 times myself. And only the LORD knows what kinda relationship that I was in the first time. If you wait to long and live like this you will become a cold harted person. My husband now gets upset because when we get into arguments I don't cry and they can be pretty rough sometimes. The reason why is because of my first marriage I just got to the point to where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to get out but I was getting physical abuse. It's not worth messing up your life because of a jerk. The right person will pass you by if you don't make the right move. I am so happy in this marriage and we get along so well most of the time. It has to be really bad for us to get into it. But everyone fusses and argues. Do whatever makes you happy and pray about it and GOD will lead you in the right direction. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please take this as useful information. I have been there I know. And GOD understands what you are going through as well. Good luck.
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your marriage should not be valid. check with loal courthouse in NY.Worse case scenario, you would have to file an annulment due to the first marriage. it should'nt be too hard to escape!
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no. even if you think that the person with you now is the one you really love, you need to save some for yourself :)
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Yes, it can survive.If you went into a marriage just thinking  about sex, you have a problem. You can't have sex 24/7.  They are other things to life and if you and your spouse can't share other common interests, you are bound to failure in everything includind your sex life.
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You can ABSOLUTELY serve the Lord and never be married. It is not for all persons to be married. Paul actually said it was better for man not to be married (so I'll just assume woman too). I think God can really do "more" in some ways with the unmarried folk...just think about it. You aren't responsible for anyone else's life. If God decides to send you cross country, you don't have to figure out how it will disrupt the rest of your family (hubby and children). You should read Marriable (can't remember the authors). It talks all about how God can really use the single and how it is important to fully serve God before you get married. Several of the "relationship" and marriage books in the Christian section actually touch on this subject.\n\nMy only precaution is try not to be bitter. You say you've been hurt, and you don't want to be hurt again. If God ever puts it on your heart that you should get married, you need to listen. We cannot let our fears dictate our futures.
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I hope you do the right thing and save your marriage. If it can be saved .
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If you really want to save your marriage go to counseling. Personally, I could never trust him again, so I would have to make tracks!
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I am a christian and it is not a sin to remarry because give someone he knows will love you for who you are. Although It did not work the first time. God is there to help you and bless you with someone who can love you as much as he do. but make sure the next is your last. make sure in your heart, mind and soul that you both are in love with each other and God himself.
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The sad and simple truth is that you can't. It takes two people to make marriage work, and one person working overtime to salvage something that may or may not be there is very heart wrenching and quite simply not fair to the person making all the sacrifices to make things work. Eventually feelings of resentment kick in and you end up fighting more than you did to start off with, because you're trying harder than the other person.\n\nThe best thing to do would be to accept failure (both your spouse's and yours,) and try to move on with your life from that point. Trying to hold on to the past when you're the only one working toward a brighter future only brings about more pain when the "end" eventually comes (i.e. divorce). Start preparing yourself for the worst, but know that you have done everything in YOUR power to save your marriage.\n\nLife will eventually work itself out, and you will be a happier person in the long run. Finding love again with another person can happen when you least expect it!! Good luck..