.How should I make us stop destroying our lives?
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Honestly? Yes! All things change. People change. Relationships change. Change is constant in all our lives. The real questions are who’s actively doing the changing? \nTo whom and what? And why? And in which direction? And what do you want to change?\n\nA relationship is between people. To change a relationship you have to change the people. The best place to start is with your-self.\n\nYou cannot simply expect the other to change - and they are going to resist your pressure to force them to anyway. But if YOU change, your partner and your relationship automatically have to follow.\n\nYou were once a baby. You changed. You became a young child. You changed again to a teenager. And again, you changed into a grown-up. \n\nDidn't you? Every time you changed, everyone around you did too and so did your relationships with them. People have a head start on life - changes. They are largely built- in until about twenty years old. \n\nThings happen fairly automatically and are largely to do with our bodies and minds simply growing and developing. And after twenty? Well\n\nWhen we are adults people change when they are thoroughly fed up with banging their head against the same old wall. They change when they cannot stand the boredom of continuing the way they are. They change when they find out, again, what they once and always knew - that they have Choice. that they Can!\n\nChange happens for all three reasons every day but some changes are good, some are bad, and a few are well - just neutral. \nWe need to learn how to be consciously aware of our own change process instead of remaining unaware and letting them just "happen to us", for good, bad or worse.
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stop the wars. help those less fortunate then us to live a better life. give help to society where you can. be tolerant of people.
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Day by day.\nHour by hour.\nMinute by minute.\nChill, and stop worrying about what other people think.  Just live your life the way that you want, and that makes you happy.
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Think positive, have faith, move on.\n\nRemember that living is NOT an option, but it is a blessing. \n\n\n"For us to have complete satisfaction and contentment in life is not counting what we have, but knowing what we can lose if we let go..."
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build an electromagnetic pulse generator - that will destroy all of the electronics that they own. that would quiet things down.
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THANK YOU THE KEY WORD IS GUIDE, PEOPLE NEED TO MAKE UP THEIR OWN MIND, AND THEIR OWN CHOICES.  WE WILL KILL OURSELVES AND THIS PLANET WITH OUT PERSONAL CHOICE.
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Get off their lazy asses and actually go somewhere and do something - forget it.  \n\nNow if we dropped off video games so they could stay high AND continue their education in cop killing, ho beatin, f*ck the man, video games, that's a winner in their minds.\n\nPlus the streets would be a hell of a lot safer.
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How do you suggest we cut if off you?
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Prevention is the only way that I see as a real solution. \nIt starts with raising your children to respect others and treat everyone as equal. Equally deserving what life has to offer.\n\nIt has to start with the parents. I am sure there are other ideas but all those are remedial.
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You sound alot like my friend before she joined the PeaceCorps. She was tired of the world around her and the way people were-greedy, selfish, and obsessed with money and everything that comes with it. You should research PeaceCorps. You can really make a difference in the lives of others and get away from the things you hate so much:\nhttp://www.peacecorps.gov/\nPlease, do not end your life when you can make a difference for yourself and others. Ending your life is not the answer, especially when you have so much to give.
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We need to except that they have their own way of life and get out of their way.  They don't come here trying to change us so we shouldn't do that to them.  If they want it changed bad enough, then let THEM do it!
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Just do your bit to help. There are plenty of things that you can do! Help the environment. Dont just not litter and think that you just helped. Go volunteer, go overseas and be an aid worker, council people who have to put up with violence, use whatever power u do have to tell people about world problems even if it is just family or friends, they have knowledge as well and im sure they will share it with you.\n\nDO NOT be scared of terrosts. All they do is blow up cars, not buildings. George bush blows up buildings and makes himself and his buddies 500 hundred times more profit!\n\nDont listen to everything you hear, experience as much as you can and make up your own set of beliefs. \n\nStay away from processed foods, they are POISION. They make you sick in the head and in the body. Stay out of cities, yes u can make a lot of money there but the air is dirty and so are the zombies that all work there too.\n\nWhen you are old and laying on your death bed, what are u going to think? What did you do in your lifetime that you can really say u are proud of? Did you help out that poor little orphan muslim girl, whos parents were murdered or did you buy a house and have a family, than divorce become lonely and go through countless partness trying to find purity again?\n\nBecome as self sufficant as you can be? can you live of your vegie patch? How about your fruit trees? have you planted enough trees toi counteract the car u drive, the air u breath ect or do u think someone else might do it for you?\n\nMake your life an adventure! Dont do what is normal, do what u can and want to.  Do it today. Meet people who u wouldnt usually! Make your life yours!\n\n Violence is the worst form of communication, so dont use it! I hope I could help..... Goodluck finding your answers and remeber that peace MUST start from the inside.
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Be the bigger person and stop the silly war. Learn to "agree to disagree". Grow up
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u know when u ask this question, means ur seriously lost. \n\nTry doing the following:\n\n1. write a diary.. mention ur frustrations, ur hates or peeves or the people who have hurt u. these would tell u things that u dont like. \n\n2. mention ur dreams.. make cut outs from magazines of the perfect things u want in life.. this would tell u your aspirations. \n\n3. catch up on your hobby or join a meditation class, this will teach u relax. \n\n4 lastly, train your self to care less about what others say.. it will teach u independence of thought, word and deed and also make u care more about ur own needs. \n\n5. try talking to your self. it helps me maybe it might help u. \n\nto find your self u need to do soul searching, there is no perfect formula or a place to do it.. just some conscious effort. all the best
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listen home wrecker!\nStay away from married women.
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You can't just stop, but you can let go.  Unfortunately it doesn't matter who you are and how good or bad your relationship was, when it comes to change it is scary.  You have to figure out how you are going to survive on your own and while you have a responsibility to yourself to be happy and end this relationship, you still have a responsibility to your kids to make sure they are taken care of physically and emotionally.  Take your time and come up with a plan that you can live with.  Talk to a lawyer and make sure that plan is in the best interests of you and your kids.  Then execute the plan so that some day down the road you can find true happiness.
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First things first, you need to take responsibility for yourself.  Stop saying things like "I can't stop cutting..".  You can stop, plenty of people stop all the time.  It's hard, but its not going to be the end of the world.  \n\nNow, you need to remove ALL sharp materials from your house.  That means every single razor, razor blade, exacto knife, kitchen knife, sharp bit of metal, staple remover (I had a fried try to cut himself with this, VERY VERY bad idea), hunting knife, pen knife, pocket knife, paint scraper, broken glass, and anything else you can think of.  \n\nIf they don't have practical or sentimental value, you need to take all this stuff, put it in a bag, and take it out of your house to the nearest dumpster.  DO NOT throw it away in your house garbage or outside trash can or even at school, that will just make it tempting to fish out.  They need to be disposed of in a way that will make it impossible for you to get them back.  Preferably somewhere gross (we had my friend bring his stuff to the food dumpster behind our campus dining hall.... very gross).  You have to do this yourself.  People can help you gather up your stuff, but you need to throw it away.  \n\nAnything sharp that you need (your family members will need things like steak knives) or that you are attatched to (your great grandpas pen knife) needs to go into a locked box or safe.  You can NOT know the combination to this safe or be given a key.  Keys should be given to your parents, with instructions to hide them.  And hide them well.  \n\nHopefully all this will make it really really difficult for you to cut.  Once it becomes this difficult, it will take real time, money, and effort to find sharp things, and that will give you the space to really decide if you want to keep cutting.  When you have to spend two hours tearing a room apart looking for a key to a lockbox, it becomes easier to see that you don't really want to be doing this.\n\nThis is what we did with a friend of mine, and with time, therapy, drugs, and commitment, he stopped cutting.  That was about three years ago and he is remarkably happy and well adjusted now.