how can i start a new relationship with girls?
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my experience..... i have a girl that i love.... first i just shame like you... im just tried to call her 3 times a week... every week.. then about 1 mounth that i just call her... one day im just said to her.. that i want to see her.. then she said ok... wow.... i feel lucky... then next week.. i saw.. and take her out date.. it happend last saturday.. i fell good and confident.. we going out for 12 ours...!!!! can u belive it.???? belive it.. its true, its true
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Be honest with yourself.  \n\nDoes the girl have feelings for you?  Have you discussed them?  You need to be honest with her and yourself.  Should you decide to persue a relationship with her, you must tell your friends.\n\nIn short, your feelings aren't wrong.  But there is a right and wrong way to deal with your feelings.
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Just become really good friends before you start a relationship! Trust me, I've gone into a relationship based on physical things (without a strong friendship) and things didn't work out! I think it's great that you are willing to wait until she seems ready to "make a move"! I wish more guys were like that. Find out what type of things she likes to do. Maybe you could invite her to go bowling you and a couple of friends, or go to coffee(i suggest Starbucks), or out to eat,  or somewhere else that you guys could just talk.  I know the movies are fun but you should do something where the two of you can talk. You can't really get to know someone that well by going to the movies. To keep her interested in you maybe you could just flirt with her a little, every girl likes to be flirted with every once and a while. Good luck! If you want any more advice on it you could always contact me.
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best thing to do is to start going to group things. i suggest church outings b/c the girls aren't going to be incredibly rude or judgemental. start with girls you DON'T want to date. sounds weird? maybe...but it works. if you start out with someone whom you're just wanting to know as a friend...perhaps you can learn a few things about women in general...then when you DO find someone to date it'll be a lot easier! IM or email for more info. take care and God bless!
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Its hard to get confidence enough to girls.  Take it in small steps. \nFirst find something about yourself that you like and are proud of.  You don't need anyone to know about your achievements and they probably don't care, but they aren't good at what you are good at and that makes you unique different in your own right.  Knowing that in the back of your head can give you the pride and confidence you seek in yourself.  When you can see that in yourself others will and those others will be girls.  \nWhy would someone want something when it’s thrown at them. Value comes when there ain't enough to go around. So let them take interest in you for you, instead of you trying to convince them that your worth it let them see it before you give them the chance. That’s a rookie mistake.\nNext up, start with a "Hi". Say "Hi" when appropriate to one girl you know each day. Start with ones you know then get used to making eye contact with and saying "Hi" to girls your don't talk to. Don’t go stalker there. Just a normal “Hi”\nThis will help you get used to talking with women.  The next up is talking to women.  The best is to talk to women your not into, just as people.  Then work your way up to women who are decent and finally to women who seem out of your league for now.  A good starter is “Hey do you know what the time is?” (Don’t be wearing a watch or have a phone on you.\nOnce your talking with women they will see you as a decent guy and not a serial killer.  By the way have guy friends. Other wise you might end up a yip dog boy. The guy friend to all the girls that doesn’t get laid and isn’t gay.\nThe next step is showing interest and asking them out for coffee. Start slow and keep moving. Soon you will be gaining the confidence that will enable you to have the "Game" you desire.\nOnce date around have some experience under your belt, you will be strait pimping.  Then it’s to the next level of women.  The right girls for now girls.  Then to the last level the right girl.\n\nIt all starts and ends with you.  Remember it’s all about you, until you meet a cool chick that you dig a lot and then guess what. It's all about you.  When she starts being not worth the time and doing you wrong.  You are back on the scene.  Master the game my friend, it will pay off.
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find yourself a new girlfriend.
471044
Cute girls and the same as plain girls. You need to start small. Tell yourself that you are worth listening too. This will boost your confidence. Try to stick to topics that you know. Think about what you want to say before you say it. Look the person in the eye and smile. You can do it. Tell your self that and eventually you will begin to believe it.
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Grow up.  You'll never know this-- because you'll never be with a girl.\n\nGet a life, loser!
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The best thing for you to do is to concentrate on going places where you would hang out because it's what you like to do.. there you will find girls you have something in common with.\n\n--- Examples:\n\nSports: If you like sports get yourself to a game and chat with someone in the bleachers.\n\nMovies: If you see a girl sitting alone at a movie, find a way to chat with her.\n\nIf you like to drink coffee.. hit up a Starbucks and chat with a girl in line.\n\nEvery day there is an opportunity. Do not, and I repeat, Do not go to a club or bar to meet a girl if you do not like to go clubbing or barhopping. You need to meet a girl in an environment you like to be in or it ads to the awkwardness.\n\nA HUGE part of meeting women is having confidance. \n\nIf you feel comfortable talking to a co-worker or student, and that is what your psyche needs to be in- pretend the person you are talking to is a co worker or student. There is no need to psych yourself out and focus on the fact that the person you're talking to is a stranger that you don't know. That's half the fun of meeting people.. getting to know them!\n\nRemember this: The number one common factor in all successful relationships is that someone had the courage and confidance to say hi and start up a conversation.\n\nDo not be afraid of rejection. If a girl says no, forget about it and go find another one. Life is too short for you to worry about being shy. You need to go out there to places you like to hang out and have a good time. Chances are you'll meet someone in your everyday life... Maybe while you're at the laundromat, or the supermarket.\n\nLive your life to the fullest, be confidant always and have a good time. You only get to have each day once. In life there are no do-overs. So go out there with a big smile on your face and a huge amount of confidance, because you are a wonderful, unique individual and there is someone out there right now who is thinking about meeting you just like you are thinking about meeting her.\n\n\nGood luck finding Ms. Right! Look out for you--
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Okay well you must know some girls right? Ask them if they'd like to go shopping with you on a certain day or start by just having a chat with them and see what they are like and after a while you'll notice that you have become friends with them. Now you don't have to get in with a whole group of girls maybe even just one. \nSee if you can find some common ground with them what they like and stuff you might find you like them as much as your guy friends. \n\nGood Luck ; )
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Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!) \n\nSteps \nBE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl. \n\nHAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE. No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so be yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys. \n\nSHOW RESPECT. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi. \n\nHAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say. \n\nAll of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze. \n\nWhen around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours. \n\nBE FRIENDS WITH HER PARENTS. Be kind to everyone, especially them. \n\nLearn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those. \n\n\n\nTips \nA REALLY JUICY TIP IS TO SHOW SYMPATHY. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better. \n\nWarnings \nIf you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
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ask your gf and you  could have fun with her or you could ask a friend that you are in to that might boost your persnality... and she might like you... ( and dude spend more time with girls..)
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First of all, you shouldn't just go after any girl just because youre single or eyeryone else has a girlfriend except you. Wait till you actually find someone you're interested it.\n\nAnd when you actually find you're girl, just be yourself. Most girls usually hate boys who act like huge show off's in front of them. \n\nFlirting is not really hard. Imagine a scene where youre talking to the girl you like. Just keep eye contact while you're talking to her, but dont stare into her eyes [it makes girls feel uncomfortable]. Then while youre talking to her, just touch her somewhere, like hold her hand [but not for too long]..and or rest your hand on her shoulder. But remove it if she starts looking at your hand [which is on her] uncomfortably.\n\nYou could also try to throw in a few compliments here and there. Girls like beng told that they looks nice or they have pretty eyes or they have a wonderful smile.\nAnd if you want to ask her out on a first date, just ask her out for a movie or dinner. And if you are rejected, don't worry. There is probably some girl out there who has fallen for you're smile. You just have to find her.\n\nWish you luck,\nkiller_queen
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I assume that you are at a university or college, are there no girls at the school?  You can join some clubs for social activities that could lead you to meeting someone of interest.
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If you're looking for one special girl, consider following these tips to get a girlfriend. \n \n   \n \n  \n  Steps:  \n1.   Know what type of girl you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.  \n  \n2.   Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.  \n  \n3.   Attract the type of girl you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.  \n  \n4.   Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.  \n  \n5.   Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?  \n  \n6.   Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.  \n  \n7.   If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.  \n  \n8.   If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.  \n  \n  \n  Tips:  \n Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right girl for you.  \n  \n  \n  Warnings:  \n Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a girlfriend. Be selective to find the right girl for you.
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If you are old enough go to a club with you and your friends and maybe you'll find the right girl there.Oh and if you are available I'll be your girlfriend.
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When together, try to flirt with other girls or make admirative comments about other girls. Watch her immediate reaction. Listen to her replies!