Will you forgive your boyfriend who betrayed you a few times? Do you still love him ?
482112
I am a guy and I am telling you leave that jerk, you deserve someone who will love you and respect you!
228242
My husband cheated on me shortly after we got together...but I did say he's my husband, right?  He swears up and down to never do it again, it's hard to forget, but I have forgiven him and am still, after 2 1/2 years trying to forget.  It's not easy, but I love him too, and don't want to let go.  He respects me for forgiving him, and since I gave him a second chance, he will be faithful to me.
294993
no what you did was a mistake but by telling your boyfriend it will never be the same he will probably tell you you cant see your friend anymore or leave you trust once lost is hardly ever gained back because it will sit in the back of his head and pop up every time youre late or tell him youre going out with friends over time the guilt youre feeling will subside
38385
i would forgive the 1st time, afterall we're married, no matter how long he has been doing it...we gotta work it out for our kids, right? it would take time to 4get things, though...he does it the 2nd time & bam! he's out the door.
1116340
Being someone that has cheated in the past I can honestly tell you it could go either way. I did before, but will never do it again. On the other hand I have had a boyfriend cheat, say it wouldn't happen again & it did. So I guess it depends on the person &/or relationship.
309031
I think he's going to end up cheating on you again.  He continues to lie, and obviously still has feelings for this other woman.  Knowing that you both have been unfaithful makes me think that there are some serious problems in your relationship that you just aren't willing to address or work out.  I know that being with someone for that long can make leaving them all that much harder, but you need to step away from the relationship.  Yes you were both wrong, but that doesn't mean he can't forgive you and stop holding your actions over you head.  Have you forgiven him?  There really is no trust in your relationship anymore and I just don't see a realtionship working out in the long run if the partners can't trust each other.  Hope this helps, good luck!
188994
my bf cheated on my more then once and i stayed with him because i love him  but I'll never trust him the way i did again and if he cheats again I'll leave his a** alone
224681
Depends on what kind of relationship you had. If I were the male and I intend to marry you, I would definitely forgive you. Afterall I am aware that it took the two of us to get you into that situation.\n\nIf we're just playing around, I will run away as fast as I can and never show up..
425543
It wouldn't really be a second chance if you hooked back up because you will make him pay for his mistake until you get even.If he endures the punishment because he loves you so much you can live happily ever after.
999594
trust him, has he done you wrong before?
210112
if  you find out that he did something else with another girl a second time than that's when you break up with him give him a chance if he messup again than he ain't right for you girl.
1106269
everyone will say YES - but no one could be 100% sure until it happens to them - No one is perfect and we all make mistakes but can you live with him mistake "forgive and forget" is harder to do tham people think . I depends on how long you have been together, do u have any kids, was it just a 1 nite stand ot an affair, \nTake time out and think what is more important to you your life with or without your partner .
716055
I would forgive but i would be weary of it happening again, the trouble is that when something like this happens the trust is broken, and unfortunately trust is the hardest thing to get back once you have lost it.\nIf i was in love with this person than i would like to think that i would forgive and forget but i would only be able to do  it once, If it happened again than i would have to say no way. If i had gained the trust level back and it happened again i know i could not trust for the third time.
308882
I went through this, but the guy cheated on me. I still have anger for him, which happened a little over 3 years ago, my current boyfriend though the same way your girlfriend is think about the anger. You need to tell your girlfriend that you have anger built up towards her because what she did was wrong and you can't forgive her for that. But one thing I do suggest is that when your around your girlfriend don't mention anything about your ex cheating on you, pretend you don't even know who she is now. It is hard but trust me it pays off in the long run. I know don't even think about my ex cheating on me, because I love my boyfriend now and I'm happy with him. Just talk to your girlfriend and tell her exactly how you feel about the whole situation.
1003390
Gurl once a cheater always a cheater. He disrespected you by cheating on you on, while you saved yourself for him. It's not ok for anyone to cheat on anyone. People do what you let them do to you. If you forgive him for cheating this time it's likely he'll do it again. But since you say you love him I would suggest you both seperate for a while and see if you can't find a better man than him that will treat you like the diamond you are. Good Luck!
189954
oh no, your in for it now. I won't go back with him or else you might have lots of drama. I know I've joked around a bit in here but for all seriousness. Your boyfriend will be pissed off and you'll never hear the end of it.
217250
depends....if she cheats on him with you, can you trust her in the future?