Why do men cheat, leave u broken hearted, soooo hurt & sick, & when you get over him they want you back?
481188
this happened2 me! theres a song that has really helped me get thru bad times related to ur question by kelly clarkson...it reads! 'im gone to find sum1 2 live for in this world, theres no lite at the end of the tunnel 2nite just a brigde that i gota burn, ur wrong if u think u can just walk rite thru my door, that is just so u, coming back wen ive finally moved on, ....am already gone'
906349
Maybe he wantz to get back with you bcuz he really carez about you...
852451
He is stringing you along. He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He doesn't like it when he don't have control of you. You are his back up plan, his security that he won't be alone. You need to dump him and meet you a real man. You don't deserve that. He is tormenting you. He will never change.\nI gaurantee you when you meet somebody and he finds out he will be on his knees begging you back but please don't make the mistake in taking him back because after he breaks you up with him he will dump you again.
1003546
he know's he did the wrong thing by dumping you. he's probably trying to act like he is in control. and it's obvious he still likes you but won't admit it coz he's a guy and wants to act like a 'man' and 'tough' n all. all i know he wasn't thinking when he dumped you and did something very stupid. \non the other hand he is also jealous when you talk to other guys or other new guys take an interest in you.\n\nb happy ur free n single coz he lost you now ;)
286361
Depends of how/why he broke your heart ? And how/why he wants to love you back ?
423601
He is being nosy and wants to see if you found someone else.\n\nHe also may be doing it to torment you, some guys are sick that way.  They are hoping that you will beg him to come back.
225049
A lot of men who cheat believe you will take them back because there are a lot of women who do. They use a womans lack of self esteem against her and it doesn't take much after that.   One of the first thoughts is to think she is responsible for his cheating which only makes her try that much harder to please him...and at the same time making herself vulnerable.
523173
Soooooo depends on circumstances......\nIf you broke with him, chances are he DEFINITELY wants you back. Either he may still love or lust after you or he wants revenge in dumping you first this time around (especially if you break up a new relationship to get back with him).\nIf he broke with you, are you dating somebody? thinking about dating somebody? looking like you may be ready to date somebody (or has he split or had problems with his "new" partner?) - If so, he PROBABLY wants you back!\nIf you are both moving on (with or without new partners), it's UNLIKELY he wants you back (but he may fancy an "old times sake" bonk.\nIf he's nice to you but seems happy without you/ catching up with old mates/ about to get married/ hiding around corners as you go about your daily business of stalkimng him etc etc, then he DOESN'T want you back WHATSOEVER!\nLet's face it, you either need to ask him straight or get over it/him!
874586
He is getting back at you for what you did.  I say go and dump that sore loser because you are better than that and you deserve to be treated better you should get more than a not as much you should get a definitly and positivly.  He does not know what he's missing and when you dump him he will come crawling back to you like a sore loser.  I bet he liked you before but still not for love.
760272
because you just got out of a bad relationship he doesn't want to be the rebound he is very smart.he will wait until you are completely over it so then he stands a better chance for it to be real with you. he is truely a gentlemen.
393466
If he wants you back he will find a way.  You might have to accept that he has moved on and try to do so yourself.  The pain goes away if you let it.x
450955
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
211089
He has to want to get back with you.  His reasons for not wanting to be with you may not be in your control.  The best thing you can do is to make your life something wonderful and hope that he realizes what he has lost and wants to be a part of it.
105171
I think he was just trying to dump you easily. Though it sounds mean for him doing it, he was trying to be nice and blame hisself and not you for him wanting to break up. As for why he wanted to break up, I wouldn't worry about it because atleast you know it's over and you can find someone now that wants your love.\n   Good Luck.
271569
some people like to sabotage their relationship by saying things like that so that one day, when you are finally pushed and do cheat or leave him, he can say, "you see, i told you so!"  it's a twisted way of thinking, but it's a defense mechanism like they're preparing themselves for it to happen.  he's obviously been hurt before and he really shouldn't take his frustrations out on you.  all you can do is be open.  those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
735145
Sounds like he's playing games with you. I wouldn't be so quick to take him back and see what he does then. I think he knows that you will take him back and that is why he is doing this. Guys will do what you let them.  Put a stop to it and let him wait it out, or just let him go. You don't need your emotions messed with like that.
575933
Dear One,\nThe issue here is why do you think you deserve to be treated this way?Why is it that you continue to accept these men into your life.Just because opportunities present themselves doesn't mean we have to accept them.It's OK to want better things and treatment from your partner,actually demand it for yourself.Don't be afraid to be alone for a while and learn to love yourself before you choose again.Remember,if you wouldn't treat yourself poorly,why on earth would you allow someone else to?