I have been corresponding for 6 months with man who lives in Pakistan. He says he loves me and wish to move to
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I think that you are taking a HUGE risk and that you ought to look for a man who already lives in the U.S. I don't know if you're a Christian or not but if you are then you can know that if it's in God's will for this man to become your husband then He will provide for him to come to the U.S.\n\nI will say one thing for this man. At least he's bold enough to tell you that he already has 2 kids, is poor and he only want to be with you instead of telling you that he wants to marry you. But as far as offering someone you have never met in person money because they say that they need it to come and see you, that's one of the biggest scams on the Internet and you should BEWARE!
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well, i wouldn`t advise you but you must try to meet both and get to know each other well..if he really loves you he would do all his best to meet you personally..i myself hav been chattig with a guy for the past 9months but not on the net.he`d taken my num and we`ve been chatting on the phone till now!you know am in the same situation as yours but still i have a hope.i dont know him,he dont know me but he`s coming to my country with his dad to meet me.the fact is that we dont hide anything from each other.watever hapened in the past he tells me and i tell him.am from mauritius and he`s from london!!!!so wat i can tell you is:best of luck!!but still try to get everything clear from him about his past etc..if he loves you he will not keep you in the dark am sure
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you are making an excuse "can't keep...living through him."\nif you wanted to be with him you would go with him.\nif you don't want to go overseas, don't.\nit seems completely reasonable that you simply prefer to stay where you are.\nyou are ready to settle down but feel awkward about pressuring him to do so.
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Not sure I understand your question...he might be saying that you are spouse potential....or he may love you only to get to your wife, who is who he really loves...now Im more confused.
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Stay with him.  Give him  some time, if in 6 months, you still feel this way, then leave him.
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If this has been the same guy for 10 months I would say that it's time. In my opinion you have every right and he should expect you to want to clarify your relationship.\nI can understand, to use your term, "going with the flow" but you have gone with the flow and have some questions you want answered.\nDoes he just want to play around; a couple weeks here and a couple weeks there, or dies he have future plans?
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Maybe you dont love him enough to move in with him. You dont have to tell him that you dont love him as much as you want too right now. But geez youve only seen him for 7 months. Explore your options, live your life and date him. But for god sake you do not have to move in with each other. Unless of course he is your night and shining armor and you want him to be around you 24/7!
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Six months seems like a long time.  Usually after just a couple of dates you start to know if you love someone.  After six months you should pretty much know if this relationship is going to be long term and the word love should be something easily given.  Maybe I'm just quicker to love than some but six months seems like forever.\n\nIt is obvious how important those three little words are to you, and I agree.  I think you are at a place where all you can do is sit him down and talk to him.  Ending a relationship is always hard and before reaching that point I think it is important to make sure you know absolutely from the other person their feelings on the issue.  Then you can honestly make your choice without having made an assumption.
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OK, first of all obviously you're already attached to him because you said that he's the one.  Is it a guarantee that he will be going back to Mexico?  And if he is, does he want the relationship to end?  Do you really want the relationship to end? Are there any underlying issues of concern that you're not mentioning? Are you willing to move to Mexico?  You have to weigh all your options sweety, and what sacrifices you are willing to make for this guy you claim to love so much.  It seems as if it doesn't matter which way you go once he leaves you'll be broken hearted anyway.  If it is a guarantee that he will be leaving for Mexico for good and you feel you don't want to go through the heartache later on, I think you can answer the question on your own.  Just let everything flow, what's to be will be.  Follow your heart.
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love speaks no language! \nand i have been in your situation.\n\nyes, communication is one of the keys but, this relationship offers a lot more, a new language and an other way of communication. \nif there's a will there's a way, if the will is there and you did look deep inside your heart, this will work out! good luck!
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Not a very easy question.  Unfortunately, I don't know what his reasons are for now wanting to move.  Obviously having a job could be a big deal.  Moving is a huge thing and it isn't just as easy as saying that is where I want to be.  There is a lot to consider.  I think he should care enough to talk to you about it and let you know his feelings and reasons.  As for advice, well you have to decide if you want to move or if you want a divorce if he won't listen to you.
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Sounds like he's thinking of exploring the new territory. Let him be and see if he contacts you. if not then good ridence you deserve better. distance should never be a relationship destroyer..just ask all of us military wives. a few hundred miles is nothing compared to growing old with the one you love..maybe he isnt the one for you. Go find mr right he IS out there
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Move on honey. Unless he's in the military, he chose to be in another state
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it depends how much you like each other. if you think things could work out then talk to him about maybe going on hols together.am from ireland and i fell for a girl from south africa last year, everyone told me it wouldn't work but we e mail each other every day and now both of us are taking about moving to london. i don't know what your situation is like but it just proves that long distance can work
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It depends...how long have you two known each other and who will be making the sacrifice to move away? Let me guess you'll be the one. What are you leaving behind and is moving really worth it? Have you two known each other long enough?
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i really hope and wish you good luck... although rarely does it work.... it is definitely different if you met each other & then he started living abroad.. but abroad from point Zero is hard............ still good luck
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I met my fiance 3 months ago the nite before i moved out of my husbands house to another state.  I continued my moved.  He visited me the next week.  We talked on the phone.  He moved me back 1 month later.  We are so in love and are planning our wedding in Aruba.  All things are possible.