I am a girl  of 19 I had addicted to sex films it affects my studies how to get rid of this,Need your help?
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Seek professional help...good luck!
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you'd better see a doctor \n\ndon't start using things like viagra on your own\nif you like to enjoy it for some time
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For starters there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. I was where you were years ago. The last straw was when I actually caught him fast forwarding during our time. I never told him to stop watching them but if we were in bed & he wanted to watch one I would tell him to turn it down or go to the other room. As for the BJ part HAH If he wouldn't give me the special perks I wanted HE didn't get his. Eventually any man will get sick of his own hand. My husband has always had a huge sexual appetite though. I found out later that he didn't have a porn addiction, he's into voyeurism. He liked the sneak peaks also the thrill of being caught. Try to talk to him again with a genuine interest of finding out what exactly turns him on about the movies without getting defensive. You might find that it's really something quite simple and possibly even fun for you to do together. You may have to stray from your comfort zone a little but don't let it compromise your morals or it will just make you resent him and you. A few years ago he stopped watching them as much because it was the same thing in each one. Of course them we got internet which opened up a whole new field. Our computer stays in the living room so anything he does now has to be when nobody it home so that helps. We been together for 12 years now. It's been rough but we have made it this far. If you do all you can and he STILL won't give you the proper attention that you need then there's nothing left for you there.
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you should have a deep desire to study.u should develop interest in studies.keep ur study table neat and tidy.don't keep any rubish things on ur table.choose a place away from these medias.ask ur mother to ask u to stop watching television.if she is strict u can get rid of this problem.study early morning\ngood luck.\nsachu
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Um, well, first off, if this is a problem that you are experiencing, please allow me to congratulate you on what can only be seen as amazing stamina.\n\nIf you can keep this up when you get into a relationship, you are going to make some woman or man very happy.\n\nSecondly, you should get in touch with someone and perhaps have them assist you in your research.  It helps to have someone as a research partner in these questions, ahem, if you know what I mean.\n\nSexual innuendo aside...\n\nIt's not too much unless it's becoming an obsession.  If it is in some way interfering in your normal course of a day, then yes, it's too much.\n\nThis can be said of anything in life, whether it's masturbating, overeating, drinking, drugs, etc.\n\nIf you can do this, maintain a normal life (normal in the eyes of those around you and in your own eyes), and you aren't so freaking drained at the end of the day, then yes, keep it up.\n\nHope that this helps.\n\nLove as always,\n\nSebastian
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you need will power and a full time friend try find a hobby that takes your mind off your problem and remember guys like women with curves good luck and best wishes
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Figure out why you're addicted.\nThe taste, \nno time to prepare something healthy, \nboredom, \nloneliness, \ndepression, \nallergies.\nLack of: \nsleep,\nexercise,\nvitamins,\nbalanced diet. \n\nOnce you know the cause, it's much easier to find a cure.\nGood luck!
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I would highly suggest the book "Without A Hint" by Joshua Harris.  It talks about lust especially, but any kind of addiction/obsession in our lives.  The book has been renamed to "Sex Is Not The Problem (Lust Is)"  Below is a sight that will tell you some on it.  My friends and I read it, its a great book.
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Hi, Firstly sex is not a bad habit, It may help you with your nervous problems, I think you have an excitable/stressed nature,that would account for your height/weight ratio, That appears a bit too small, I think you may have high blood pressure, this would acount for dialiation of your veins, You did not indicate if you are Male or Female, but whatever the case (TOO Thin) Eat more, you should be at least another 12/15 Kgs.  See your Doctor.But don't worry. Are you taking exams?
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I know its embarrassing but you may need to go talk to your doctor. This is not normal. I'm sure you are going to get a lot of responses, like hey baby call me  lol.   Maybe its a chemical imbalance or something. So don't go out and have sex with the next random guy, because that probably won't solve the problem. There is such a thing as sex addicts, so I don't think that you are the only one suffering from this.
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Some good ansers in here- some not so good. Here's my advice- (I had an addiction so bad that I would spend 5-6 hours a day downloading porn and acting out). \n\nBTW- Anyone who thinks they can answer this question in one message has never overcome a porn addiction. \n\nI want to introduce you to the idea of 1st order changes and 2nd order changes (yes psycobabble, but it's good).\n\n1st order canges are like bailing water out of the leaking boat, 2nd order changes are like plugging the hole. \n\nWith porn addiction some examples of 1st order changes are: Adding a porn filter or getting rid of the internet, not visiting adult bookstores, etc. \n\n2nd order changes involve getting real about why you are attracted to porn, addressing the issues in your life that make you vulnerable to the addiction, building relationships with people, learning how to view women (or men) as people and not sex objects, etc. \n\nIf you try to control a porn addiction by only addressing the 1st order changes- you will spend the rest of your life bailing water out of the boat and sometimes you will get tired and slip and then you will beat yourself up for not reaching your goal- then you will try to block out the guilty feelings and guess what- porn works great as a sedataive for your feelings (makes you numb). \n\nHowever, you cannot really get to the leak at the bottom of the boat until you start bailing out water. You have to start working hard on the first order changes- and then you can start to change the problems at the core. (You can't really learn to appreciate women in a new way if you are still feeding your brain lies about sex and women.) \n\nMy experience suggests that most people take a stab at some 1st order changes- get a few days or weeks of abstenance, and then go about business as usual and soon find themselves back in the trap.  \n\nMy advice is that there is no quick fix to this problem, you can't buy a software program and make your trouble go away. You need to get ready for a long term battle, a battle that will take you into new territory- but a battle that will help you become someone so much more than you can currently imagine. \n\nGet help from some people with experience- There are some great groups out there dedicated to this. There is power in getting help from people who have been there before. I was afraid of group therapy but I finally decided that going it alone wasn't working. I learned so much from people who had overcome it. Also- I suggest you find a thearpyst (someone who has lots of experience with porn addiction- not some generalist who doesn't understand it).\n\nGood luck- you can overcome- it takes hard work. God Bless!
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if you have auto complete you can delete each item individually by putting your cursor over it and pressing delete, or you could go to Tools>Internet Options>Clear History. and stop looking at porn
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you could try not looking at porn while you are in school... might even help your knee, and your eye sight... X
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If you have an addiction to porn, it's more of a mental thing than a sexual problem.  I don't know any websites for you, but all  you really need is someone to talk to about it.  One thing that really helps people is doing something for others, that's always the first line of defense for taking your mind off of your own problems--because no matter how bad off you are in life, there is always someone worse.  \n\nFind a mentor, friend (or even your mom/dad) and get it all in the open.  Getting yourself off of an addiction is never fun, but you'll be glad you did.
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hi mahe \nmy dear young boy, u r very intellegent, brilliant science bio. student having more than 80 percentage marks in XIIth standard, what u have asked earlier, i have seen all and what u have replied, i also seen all those. u should not worry about your anxieties regarding sex and sexual activities, it is very commen at your 20th age. masturbation is also not bad, but if u can control it, then it is better, even if u can't control it, don't worry, it is alright. i will also suggest to do masturbation to get rid of tension, whenever u feel. so don't worry all about this.\nfurther, i will advice u to prepare yourself for your cpmt, aiims etc. exams, so u can reach your goal to becoming a doctor, when u will be a doctor, u will answer to others about these things.\nwith best of luck for your enterence exams towards MBBS
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u may have something so much interesting in it and may be something which have been a fancy for you in ur childhood..if u really want to quit from that strong addiction,try to remember some incidents which have strongly affected pple dur to this addiction or something which u feel is so bad that your mind can't accept it.To say as an example,i remember one of my friends who had such a fancy for mobiles that she couldnt live without..she spend about rs.10000 pm for the maintenence of her 3 mobiles and the bills she had to pay for the maintenance,accessories and the calls she made.One day,after paying these bills,she was coming out of the shop.....A girl of 15 or 16 came to her weeping that her mother was in bed and she had not had food for 5 days.My frind felt so embarraced that she had spent about 9000 rs at the shop for her silly fancy and there are pple beside her without even the money for daily basic needs.She helped the girl..yet...she couldnt further spend so much money  for those fancies..Whenever she had that interest,the face of that girl came to her mind.Similarly,i hope u can try some of these or if u have not had any such experiences,look around..u can see many...u will not have that fancy again.....sure!+BEST WISHES!
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I'm pretty sure that your conviction is 'spent' in that it was more than 2 years ago but I would double check this and also it's not related to anything regarding paedophilia which would totally bar you. Try talking to a tutor on your course, they will guide you. Good luck!