GUYS: if you really love a girl WOULD YOU wait until marriage to Sleep with her?
482202
Yes, abstinence is a protection that many people fail to utilize. Living in such a sex crazed environment showing her that you are willing to wait not only is agood way to tell her that you really do love her, but it creates a bond that wil endure long after the wedding day. It's hard being a guy in today's society, especially a straight one, but if you met the challenge the rewards are priceless.
647911
Yes, of course. I am willing to wait until I get married. A lot of my friends have lost their virginity two years ago or when we were 14/15/16 and they definitely regretted it. I told them not to but they didn't listen. But I guess it's just that most teenagers just do it to express themselves or release anger/frustration/sadness/whatever and they don't care what they are doing anymore.
997791
Waiting until Marriage is the best choice because then your saving yourself for that one person that sees you as that special someone as well. Just be careful of the guys that just marry for the sex.
691109
first, are you married to this girl? I suppose NOT.\nhave sex with your wife? experiment and love with your wife. you sound young, so I am gonna say that you are too busy thinking about sex. buddy, there are other alternatives to have fun with this girl u like. but sex, NO. give this specialness to the woman who you will ask to marry you and once married to you. and give this girl the chance to share this specialness with the man of her life. answer one thing? wouldnt you want your wife to be a virgin to you? wouldnt you want to think that she has never been with anyone and that you have no chance of her comparing you? give each other respect. in your future, you will appreciate it better. be a man, that every woman desires; a man that has control of himself.
131419
you should wait until you're married to have sex.  you were meant to have an intimate, emotioanl, and spiritual realtionship with people of the opposite sex.\n\nsex outside of marriage, is not only dangerous, by regretful.\n\nfor example:\nyou could wind up as a one night stand\nyou can get numerous STD's\nyou can become pregnant \nor contractind AID's \n\nplease consider waiting until marriage to have sex. \n\nthink about:\n\nif you marry as a virgin to a person who is also a virgin....having sex would be a blissful act. anything you would do to eachother would feel wonderful!\n\nplus, anytime you have sex with someone, you connect with them. even if it's just subconsciously. \n\nwhy do you think that sex complicates things o much?!\n\nrespect yourself, and your future...please wait until marriage to have sex!!
484481
I hope to say it better than the other dudes..... if she wants to "make love" with you before the wedding than go for it but don't push it on her if she don't want to. to some women it is very sacred and a very emotional experience. talk to her, see how she feels.
609107
If your a real man you won't want to take back a woman that was once your wife and now has been married/sleeping with another guy for a year and wants to come back. You should marry the girl your engaged to asap. God knows best.
1128607
DONT DO IT! IF THATS ALL SHE WANTS! IF SHE LOVES YOU SHE CAN WAIT AND UNDERSTAND!! WAT A SLU+ ( NO OFFENCE) AND YOU CANT HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IT IS A MORTAL SIN AND YOU CANNOT ENTER HEAVEN WITHOUT HAVING A TRUE CONFESSION! TRUST ME AND LISTEN TO ME NOT THOSE OTHER IDIOTS OUT THERE!! SPEAK TO HER AND SET A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR OTHER PEOPLE!! PLZ DONT DO IT! NOO SEX!!\n\nGOD BLESS YOU AND GOOD LUCK!
1175444
no. sometimes its better to take things slowly, and get to know each other really well. then when you know you trust them, you can go ahead and do the things that you wanna do. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we havent had sex yet. he knows i want to wait, and he respects that. but if your man does'nt want to wait, then he is'nt worth your time. no guy should have to be that way.
236941
Definitely. Any real man would. If you're man enough to decide to lay with a woman you should be man enough to accept the responsibility that may come as a result of your actions. I wouldn't want to know, I would NEED to know.
364610
ya, it's true love!!!!!!  being married to someone doesn't mean that you have to have sex..
1127099
depending on your beliefs. if you are very religious then waiting until after marriage would follow the belief system and keep you from being a sinner.  If that isnt a big deal if your life than it is whatever you and your partner decide.  be mature and responsible about it and have fun.
935397
I'm not going to tell you to wait until marriage like most answers you're going to receive..\nYou still have 4 years of high school.. so your odds are pretty good that you can lose that virginity if you want to.\nDon't worry about it...I'm sure you'll meet a girl.
1055513
You waited this far, then she should honor your requests, did she know this before you both started to date? Don't give in, i myself am waiting for marriage and am in a relationship and he respects my wishes and doesn't force me to do anything until then....so should she if she really cares and love you.
1174688
why in god's green earth do you wish to marry a muslim girl? just have some sex then dump the dopey girl, that's it why be married?
885841
The idea, in hindsight, appears logical and the answer seems clear.  Anyone would likely say "Just wait" if they could be assured that her love would be waiting for him after that time.  But the real issue here is this:  Would you have still felt the same?  What if you'd waited for her and, in so doing, denied yourself the chance to find love with someone who was ready?  We cannot know the future.  All we can do is live each day the best way we can and enjoy every bit of happiness that we are lucky enough to find.
558673
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.