I hate my life and my friends are worried. what should i do?
485233
get a new best friend,see what you can do to earn your parents trust again,lose the fake boyfriend,find the real you
774747
You could consider counseling. It sounds like you ARE suffering from Depression, and it is effecting your life drastically. please find a therapist to discuss things with, and they can help you start putting the pieces back together. \n\nNo one else has the answers for you, but people can help guide you. In the end, you have to make your own decisions for your life - but not until you have the coping skills to handle stress and depression.
1071859
Only if you make it a bigger problem than it really is.\nJust sit back and chill a little bit.\nYou will be just fine, and the world will not end tomarrow because of it. Life is only as difficult as you want to make it.\nDo what works for you, and enjoy!!!\n\n; )
596711
Believe in yourself dear...I know how you feel coz I went thru that...you have said so that they are not your friends and I know that letting go is tough...just try to engage in activities that allows u to know more ppl and gradually, u will be able to let go...dun let this ruin ur life! Friends come and go, dun hang on to those who are not worth hanging on...the vast world has friends for you...
887124
Leaving school is not the answer.  If you did that, what would you do next? Feel too depressed to get a job, or get a minimum wage job that you hate and gee...the people there treat you badly too.  Imagine that.  \n\nYOU are the problem, kiddo.  You need therapy.  You are just full of self-pity.  "Oh, I don't want to hurt people...but I'll let them ALL use me like a doormat.  That's ok."
570046
What looks like a mountain of trouble and heartache today, may be just a little bump in the road tomorrow. You must see a Doctor. Do what the doctor tells you. Depression is real, it is dangerous...it is treatable. Believe me, I suffer from it myself. You have to want to survive, believe in the goodness of yourself. Your family loves you. They may not understand you...but then, no one is ever completely understood by their loved ones! Do you understand them?  We are all unique in our own special ways!\nSee, you have come to this site for help...that is a wonderful thing,,,you are reaching out for help...I am so proud of you! Now, go a step further, go to someone else, get a doctor. Tell someone who can get you to real help. You are in a survival mode...be your own best friend! Suicide is not the answer...get help right now...
1160983
You should get this situation off your chest.. But if you want to get help for your situation, you should tell your family and friends. Do not be scared of their reaction. It doesn't matter how anyone reacts and that's who you are.
546744
You must feel pretty much at rock bottom - and I am sorry to hear that.  But, from rock bottom, there is only one way to go - UP.  Every day you cope with this will be one day nearer to getting over this, one more step in an upwards direction.  I try to learn something from every bad experience I have, because experience is what you get in life when you don't get what you want from life.  In the future whatever happens, you will know you can cope, because you will have coped with this.  Talk to your parents, they will be concerned for you and want to help.  Even though they have split up, they still both want the best for you, and hopefully can put aside their differences and be able to work together with you so that you all come through this.   Time heals - I bet you find it hard to remember what worried you 6 months ago, 1 year ago, 2 years ago, so although this is a major crisis in your life, you will come through it I am sure. I hope this helps.
1137450
Talk to someone close a friend, a neighbor, a counselor. There is help out there! You didn"t tell us why your life is caving in. Could probably help better if I knew!!
253940
Get busy girlfriend!!!  I am talking get involved in anything. Turn your negative energy to positive.  Suicide is not the answer.  You were put here for a reason.  Without you, your task cannot be completed and that could involve affecting a lot of people you have not even met yet.  Counseling should be an option if you are really serious about wanting help.  I have lost family to suicide and its so painful for the ones you leave behind.  I can't help my brother who left this world in 2001, but if I had a second chance this is what I would tell him.  "I know it seems you were dealt a bad hand in life.  But "we" can get threw this, together.  Let me help you, you are not alone.  I know you think leaving this world is the answer and the people around you would be better off.  That is so far from how it is.  You have a very important role here and you can't leave yet.  We love you and care about you more than we tell you and for that we are wrong.  Leaving is only permitting the ones you love to cop out when things get bad with them.  Please don't leave that message for your family or friends.  Lean on me and never, ever give up."
1082159
God Bless You! You need some help. You need to get out and enjoy life. You also need to understand they are suffering and you are too. Try talking to them telling them that you understand their frustration but taking it out on you is not going to change anything for them.\n\nGood luck!\nG.G.
456732
Perhaps I can help you out a little.  I have been dealing with a bout of depression for about a year now.  So I understand your situation.\n\nIf your friends seem to be distancing themselves from you, perhaps you should voice your concerns to them.  Ask them if you have done something to offend them, because you feel that they are shutting you out of their lives.  If they do not offer any answers, perhaps it is time to find some new friends.  \nPeople change over time, so do their opinions of others.  \n\nYou really should not allow it to hurt you physically.  True loosing a friendship is a traumatic event, but you have to be able to move on.  If you begin to dwell on why somebody dislikes you, you may miss out on forming another friendship with somebody else.\n\nI'm sorry you are feeling "down" from all of this.  All I can say is keep your head up, and live your life to suit YOU, and not those around you.\n\nI wish you all the best of luck in working through this situation.  If you ever need to just talk to somebody with a sympathetic ear, you can feel free to e-mail me anytime.  jam961@yahoo.com\n\nTake care, and God Bless You!
739741
Forget what other people are doing with there lives, someday it will hit them and they will have things not going for them also.\nYou have to think positive and praying helps also. Talk to a professional counselor at school, maybe you are going in the wrong career direction. Or perhaps you need to get away for the day, by yourself to just think on what you want to do with your life.
1145218
Those aren't real friends. Real friends are there for you through thick and thin, and they would never dare make fun of such serious things as you have described. Don't listen to their laughs and teasing. They are either really big jerks or they are just to juvenile to understand the severity of your problems. Meanwhile, I hope you've gotten help for your problems, and if not, I urge you to because you don't have to suffer with depression...it can be treated. Not sure about the other 2 you listed, but I know there are professionals out there who can help you. It's time you made new friends. Real friends who aren't going to ditch you when the going gets tough. Hang in there!
1025580
Stay away from them.  Make other friends.  Live your life with virtue.  If they are joking about you - no one would believe them if you are living a good life.
143177
Oh, hon... I'm so sorry.  What should you do?  Well, obviously, its important to confront them (SO MUCH easier said than done, i know).  I think that maybe you need to spend some time with yourself.  Get to know yourself, love yourself again.  Its so easy to feel bad about yourself in these types of situations, but you shouldn't.  THEY are the ones who should feel bad about themselves.  Join a group, make some new friends.  Most of all, know that you will be, someday, treated the way that you deserve.
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i understand where you are coming from i have experienced this and it got to the point of becoming suicidal i reached out for help whether i felt i needed it or not and now looking back on things i regretted doing it because it tears a relationships apart and you are scared for life. if anything seek help and help yourself through counseling and partial hospitalization because you are not alone and there are people to help professionally and if you feel uncomfortable with help seek a minister in a church they can also help but counseling is the best way because the are more open to receive your thoughts emotions and can help you with medications and can do tests to help. they also understand your hurt frustrations anger and no one has to know it is kept between you and them and in the long run reaching out in this manner you may find a friend and a support to help you through and gain back your respect and love that you may feel that is gone