how I treat a guy who are in love without fell him bad?
488918
First ... um go back to school. Guys don't really like dumb girl, except for one thing. It's painfully obvious that you can't express yourself well.\n\nThird ... use spell checker next time!\n\nGood luck!\n\nSecond... I only understand the first part of your question.\nIf you're in love with him and there's a chance that he is interested, flirt with him, let him see that you like him, if he reciprocates, step it up a bit.
1094390
Don't waste anyone's time here. Be upfront out of respect for himself and for you. Just let him know that the feelings just aren't there and it isn't him it's just the way you feel. This way you both stand a chance of meeting the right person.
498831
Think seriously, note whether he care for you or not, there are some guys who are like this, they will slide where ever there is down slope!They flirt with addiction.\nBut that does not mean they are bad.\nIt's up to you, if you can adjust fine...because your strong actions will only suppress his habit, it will not be removed from his system...Patience is the key here!\nTry slowly and see whether he likes to spend time with you or not...it's very important!
415915
First off, BE NICE. Second BE HONEST!, If your not into this guy like that tell him. Don't beat around the bush, because then hes just going to get hurt. And when guys are hurt, the get "sweet revenge". And I am sure you dont want that. GOOD LUCK
159538
Sweety- by being yourself. If that doesnt work, then he aint the one for you; he's just in the way of someone who is MEANT to be loved by you more and more each day
441786
You can't "hook" anyone unless they want to be "hooked"...for sure don't through yourself at him...just be yourself, if he falls for you "GREAT", if he doesn't "It wasn't meant to be".  Good Luck.
8830
People have different ways of expressing and receiving love.  Find a way that's meaningful for him and express your feelings that way.
317008
you can't chose the people to love you...try to treat him as friend, and not as close friend
627278
Sistah, you just gotta be honest and tactful in this situation as someones heart is involved. Treat him in a way that you would appreciate if the situation were reversed.  Good luck to you!!!
881767
He does not love you,nothing indeed.Find a a man, who will love you indeed.
1074292
by him telling you those things he doesn't love you.. the best for you to do is forget this guy and find someone to appreciate and love you for the person u r.
1132778
sometimes, verbal revelations could lose the strength of reality.\ndon't expect anymore of any direct love from him.. just go on with your life.... still be nice to him... let him do his style.. dont expect much, otherwise, youll just be hurt... pretend as if you dont mind him... meantime, focus your attention elsewhere...a hobby, a new interesting guy, or your work or studies perhaps..
299468
If I was in your position I wouldn't let things get to me.  You need to realize that if someone truly loves you and cares about you they will not treat you like that.  There are plenty of guys out there that would treat you much much better than that.  If you love him and want to be with him just give him his space and maybe eventually he will pull his head out of his a$$.  Don't feel bad and don't cry because I'm sure he doesn't care that you are crying and feel horrible.  Take it easy...the right guy is out there somewhere.
952418
Its not you its just the type of guys that you are attracted to.  Sometimes love is so blind that you will put up with a lot of bull because at one point in time in the realtionship you was happy.  If a guy treats you bad leave him alone cause NO woman deserves that.
408952
don't kid your self love\nand forget he as he dose not like you if he's going to hurt you.\npick your self up and dust your self off and keep looking for an other bloke who likes you for who you are and not for who you try and be\nstay true to your self and\ngood luck
553250
Take a good hard look at that person  -- understand that if they have no other fault, they are not right for YOU if they don't feel the same way you do.  It's terribly difficult, but you deserve to be loved in return.\n\nRemember: you can't change how anyone else acts or feels, you can only change how you react to them.  Good luck!
384367
Just treat him like any other guy.  If you want to go out with a guy how do you normally do it?  This guy is special to you but ultimately he is still like all the rest.