My boyfriend decided to turn straight, is he trying to get rid of me or can this really be his way of coping?
489204
It sounds like he is really confused right now. He may need space to think things out. Alot homosexual people struggle with their feelings. It is natural for him to feel torn between his feeling and longing for a sense of normality in his life. Alot of gay males try the straght thing thinking that they can have a natural family and be accepted by society but then realise later that they are trying to change themselves. He may be going through one of those times right now. If you have seen him on the gay dating sites that is a bit different. Are you sure that those profiles are not old? some people continue to check old dating accounts just to see who responded. Ask him about them. If he gets defensive, then you may have a clue. Just give him some time to sort things out and if what you guys have is worth saving he will realize it. for now be his friend and help him find hisself. And dont listent to any negativity on here...we dont choose who we love
817974
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
918081
Sounds to me like hes had enough of your fussing.  How often do you do this.  Maybe he sees you as a nag, and hes just had enough. I think the taking the key of the key ring is a sure indicator that hes not happy and asking you to pick up your stuff is another sure indicator that he has had enough.  Sure, he may need his space, but it sounds to me like its more than that.  The fussing bit makes me a bit suspicious and I reckon hes just had enough of the fussing.  Maybe he still loves you, I dont know,  maybe hes just sick of the "fussing".  Maybe the simplest thing would be to talk to him....ask him what the reasons are he want you to pick up your stuff.  If its because you nag at him all the time and you want to keep him, then youve got to find a way to stop nagging and assure him you will stop doing it.  It may not be that reason at all...but he is the only one who knows the reason, so it is him you need to be asking.\n\nGood luck
1159686
first of all he needs to "GET IT" he needs to get how he is hurting you and changing you, and you and only you can do that! so you need to sit down and and tells him everything dont even leave a fly out just get it all off and if he dont care then hes not worth it any more. you sound perfeclly normal and im sure you are very beautiful  , you should never give up on your self no matter what because there are people that loves you to death and its like giving up on them...you cant controll the way people treat you but you can controll how you react. dont trap your self with the thought that if this relationship is over then your life is over...i think if this over then its time for a make over and a fresh new start...wont that be super my beautiful?!
414298
No, then he would think that there is a reason you are doing so.  Just make it seem like it doest bother you and act natural.  That way if you seem true and not up to something he will be more at ease with you, it might take some time.
271569
some people like to sabotage their relationship by saying things like that so that one day, when you are finally pushed and do cheat or leave him, he can say, "you see, i told you so!"  it's a twisted way of thinking, but it's a defense mechanism like they're preparing themselves for it to happen.  he's obviously been hurt before and he really shouldn't take his frustrations out on you.  all you can do is be open.  those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.
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He's being a jerk.....because he made plans with you. That is extremely rude.\n\nHow long have you been dating. Maybe, he feels that you are guys are in that 'comfort zone' where he can do stuff like that.  You need to tell him why you're mad though.
904566
this is something you have to get use to. guys like to go through problems usually on their own and sort them out. once they do they usually then act normal and happy again. dont nag him about what is wrong all the time or he will back away more. just be patient. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
308832
oh my god yes, and unfortanatly it didnt work out for myself. i wish i had a better answer for you, instead i have advice. dont let him take away what makes you, YOU.
1129422
May be he is observing u, and wants to see if u change at least now .U will have to change if u want him back, and stop playing such fools cause its not a movie its ur real life. If he truly loves u , be assured he is urs and will not go anywhere else, but u have to take the first step towards him.Because u r the reason for this mess
574521
if he initially lied to you there's a problem. put yourself in his shoes, would you have just told the truth or tried to lie? it sounds like there are some underlying issues anyway because even if he didn't have anything to hide he should've felt comfortable enough to come clean. for this reason, ditch him girlie! the only 2 reasons he can have is that either something was going on and he lied, or he wanted to not upset you in which case he should've felt comfortable enough about your relationship to tell you the truth - either way he's gotta go! good luck hun, you'll find someone better :o)
258932
People who are born round do not die square.  You can't change him.  You can only change yourself.  Care about yourself enough to realize this relationship isn't working out.  Break up with your boyfriend and find someone you're more compatible with.
676771
Yes, make this move: Find a NEW boyfriend.\n\nDo you think you would treat him the way he treats you??? He is playing you. Forget about him and do something good for you, and this time choose a MAN not a child.
853685
you need to change your number straight away yes this guy is mentally ill and a lazy good for nothing bum you sound way to good for him dont let him put you down all this crap in 8 weeks i dont know how you put up with him stay clear of him sounds like jealousy is a big factor here......
947971
Let him know how you feel if things remain this way get out while you can. If he loves you he will change his ways. Things will only get worse if you done deal with them now.
366738
He might be pulling the whole "distant and mean" routine in order to get you to initiate the break-up.  If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, I would bet that this is the case.\n\nThat being said, there is a good likelihood that he is simply at a junction in his life where he is having to divert some of his attention from you and put it on other things.  This happens from time to time and it is something you will have to come to deal with if you ever hope to forge a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with someone.
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It could be possible that he just got out of a bad relationship or was very hurt and needs sometime to recover from it.  He could just be saying that to not hurt your feelings.  He's the only one who knows for sure.