What do I do when my ex bestie asks if we could get back 2gether when she left me to join another group!?
476084
Not to make light of the situation, but tell them to grow up because you are too mature for all this drama.  Ask them why you can't have two best friends?
873327
Oh goodness, well the first thing I have to say about the situation is that she definitely has someone else...women don't leave unless they have something else to go to!  And as long as she has someone else, someone who in her mind is "treating" her better, there is nothing you can do to get her back.  And if she asked you not to call, then that is a decision you have to respect.  Your calling her is not going to help and it will just push her away farther.   Sorry to say, but this is a situation that only she can (in time) decide that she wants to be back with you.  Give it some time (and give her some space) eventually this other guy will screw up and she will contemplate coming back to you.  If she doesn't come back, then it is for the best.  You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much!
752516
Apologize again- letting her know you are not trying to get back together, that you just feel sincerely sorry for what you said and that it was uncalled for etc. She may be worried that she'll have to do the rejecting bit again, and no one likes that!
421806
Tell her to go hang out with her friends! Tell her to go out and do stuff so that she has a lot to talk about when you get back!
776709
dont jump the gun...  she obviously wants you back.. so play hard to get.. thats what SHE wants...   if she wanted to JUMP in to it then she wouldda said  oh baby i miss you you were the best..\n  as it stands,, it sounds like she does miss you and refrets whatever may have happened.. so be with her...  you need to make sure that whatever happened last time wont happen again...\n    it may just be a game... she knows that you love her and likes the attention...  so she will want  while its easy and convienient and as soon as ANYBODY comes along she will drop you.. \n   not saying that thats the case... but i am repeatedly going through that stupid shit with my ex wife... and because i love her and im stupid i keep letting her back in...  yup... dont be stupid like me man....  if  you think shes sincere then do it...    if you have the slightest hint shes playin ya... kick her ass to the curb before she hurts you again
87517
u should let her kno tht u would like to see other people before you jump back into that relationship again, there's probably a reason tht u broke up in the first place!don't disrespect her...treat her as though nothing happened between the two of you.\nhope i could help!! good luck!!
411998
That's really "iffy." You have no clue what's going on in their life right now and the reason could be anything! So try to be the best friend you can back. But don't be a door mat. This has to be balanced. If it's the worse possible case scenario and they were BSing the entire time and they really weren't your friend, then don't hng out with them anymore and look for other better people to be friends with. There are more fish in the sea than just this one person. What really matters in the end is how you handle things if you did stuff right. That makes you a much stronger person than said "friend."
219579
TELL HER STRAIGHT OUT.  SHE HAD U AND YOUR OTHER FRIENDS FIRST SO SHE SHOULD RESPECT YOUR COURAGE TO TELL HER THAT EVEN WITH HER NEW BOYFRIEND. SOMETIMES FRIENDS ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN BOYFRIENDS AND IF SHE DOESNT UNDERSTAND THAT SHE ISNT THE KIND OF FRIEND U SHOULD WANT IF SHE KEEPS DITCHING U.
499946
WELL THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS LOOK OVER THE OTHER GURL AND STILL TALK TO YOUR BEST FRIEND NEVER MESS UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP BECAUSE SHE IS TALKIN TO ANOTHER GURL MORE THAN YOU GIVE HER SOME SPACE AND YOU TALK TO SOME ONE ELSE THINGS MIGHT WORK OUT BETTER THAT WAY CUZ YOU TWO WILL START TO MISS EACH OTHER AND YOU TWO WILL BECOME BEST FRIENDS AGAIN.
1040737
girl, if she thinks u ditch her, then spend some more time with each other. Also, she has gotten so protective over this friendship! That means she loves you as a best friend! But if it is really bothering you, then sit and talk to her about it. If she doesn't listen or care, then she is not a good friend.
859834
No don;'t take her back she is keeping you at arms length and then when something better comes along you will be gone again. Why put yourself thru the hurt!!!! She is now worrying that she will be alone so you get to play 2nd fiddle tell her to go away!!
788247
she wants you back cuz ;the other guy is not meeting her needs!!!  she is lonely thats why she is with him, she is hoping you will call so the two of you will reconcile.
546927
I have an ex like you and three years later he still has not given up.\nGive her space or you will ruin the friendship and there will never be more more. If she does not want you back at the moment  do not make yourself annoying.\n\nTRUST ME the best thing you can do is prove you respect what she wants. Good luck I hope things work out between you but don't push it too much, what happens happens and although you think you could never ever love anyone else, with time you might just find out that you can.
1084921
All you can do is leave her a message, telling her you care. If she doesn't get back to you, there is really nothing you can do. Don't be a stalker. Besides, if she doesn't get back to you, she is rude and you should find someone else to hang out with.
919020
what your friend did to you was horrible. I think it's really up to you what you want to do from here- do you want to confront them and have it all out, or would you rather just get away from the situation before it consumes you? Either way, your friend doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore so i would forget about her and move on, clearly she's a pretty low person for wanting your ex.
954859
you should go back out with her because she miss you from what you saythe reson i know this is because me and my b?f have been going out for about 1 1/2 we have broke up once because of a miss under standing something that happened and i know how you feel because i felt the same why my grades droped and i droped out of all the sprots that i was in like cheerleading, horse back riding, soft ball, volley ball  so yes you should go back out with her and you should email me at sweeetsugarplum_2011@yahoo.com
401094
Make her learn her lesson, friends are for life and they wouldn't lie to you so she should've listened to you. If you go back she is going to run to you everytime something goes wrong and when a new guy comes into the scene bye,bye to you. You are just setting yourself up to get hurt and seriously used.