i just met a girl the other night and i really like her.is it ok kiss her on the first date or wait for her?
491470
You will have to see how the date goes. If she shows interest, then maybe. Date 3 is the earliest for me. It might tick her off if she gets the impression that you are waiting for her to make the first move. Just keep that in mind.
249851
If you want a long-term relationship, I strongly recommend not going to bed on the first date. This sends a big message to guys that you do this with all guys you date, and many guys don't want to get serious with a girl who has been around the block with everyone. If the date goes well, give him a long kiss goodnight. He'll get the message and come back for more. Then take it from there.
542562
Hi, here to help. First of all, I believe you are encouraging the behaviour a little. You are not completely to blame, but you are encouraging it. This is gonna sound old school, but really you should think about the old saying telling people that they should not kiss on the first date. And this is true.\n  When you kiss on the first date, or even have sex, etc. it makes you appear a little bit easy. Although guys will definitely not argue with the kiss or the sex, they still like to see a girl give them a little bit of a challenge. When you do these things on a first date, you are leaving little to the imagination. Waiting makes the heart grow fonder or something like that, is a very true statement. It is the excitement of the anticipation of waiting.\n  Personally, the first date is very awkward. It is meant for getting to know the person, and seeing if you would like to date this person for a second time. When you kiss, it leads to other things...You sound young, and if I am right, the guys that you are dating are young as well. Believe me, all guys of any age will try things when they kiss you. However, you are in control. You do not have to let the guy feel you up. You can gently place their hands back down on their sides. And if they ask why, you have the right to say you are not ready for that....And you can say this at any age too! I have done that.\n But really, I think you should not be kissing on the first date. Just try and wait, and when you have that first kiss with that special someone it will be more than worth the wait. I am sure a lot of people will not agree with me on kissing on the first date. But it does make you appear more of a lady to the man. I have gotten much more respect when I did not kiss someone on the first date. Usually after the kissing comes other things so in my mind you might as well just wait and enjoy the part of getting to know one another.\n  Love comes with getting to know someone. Unfortunately guys are not like women and are not overly emotional right away. It takes time for a guy to love. They do like the physical aspect first. Take your time girl because you have plenty of it.\n  I have kissed on the first date, and honestly, those are the guys that have not worked out...I don't know and I can't speak for everyone. But I also know that I have enjoyed the anticipation of waiting for the first kiss...\n Good luck!
277073
No, not unless you have a really good reason too I think that you should kiss him. I mean, you like him and all right? if you haven't gone on a dite yet though that might be a good start
565539
ask her to go do something with some friends at first, to break the ice. or if you wanna be bold, just straight up ask her, i would suggest if you just want to ask her 1 on 1, to just start a conversation and ask her if she want to (do whatever you had planned) on what ever night you want, and then add to it before the date, make it special
912298
sometimes and sometimes not. some look down on it, but if you both get that feeling and you both see it as okay, why not? as long as you both want to sure. but don't over do it. i wouldn't making out, all over each other w/ groping. that's just a little too much for a first date. a simple little goodnight kiss can be a perfect ending.
677091
I kiss on the first date.\nBut I don't go farther than that.\nUnless I just want a hook-up.
343889
nooooo.... dinner then maybe a walk but u can't seem to sappy on the first date.... believe me... if the guy is tooo romntic then that means that he's not being himself... find out from her or her friends what she likes.... indirectly...
44016
You shouldn't have any FIRST dates.\n\nYou should have one special girl that you can devote the better part of the day too.\n\nHave roses delivered in the morning, meet her for lunch and bring her some chocolates, then take her to dinner and spend some time with HER.\n\nI don't see where you would have time for more than one.
850715
I BELIEVE THAT YOU DID RIGHT BY NOT KISSING HER ON FIRST DATE.THIS MAY OR MAY NOT LET HER KNOW THAT YOU'RE MORE INTERESTED IN HER,THAN WHAT YOU CAN GET OUT OF HER. GIVE HER A CALL THE NEXT DAY OR TWO,JUST SEE HOW THINGS ARE,IF SHE HASN'T CONTACTED YOU ALREADY. BY YOU RECIEVING RATHER GIVING THE HUG SHOWS THAT YOU,RE PATIENT AND A GENTLEMAN. TRY NOT TO BE TO PUSHY IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP,SOMETIMES IT THROWS UP RED FLAG TO THE OTHER. HANG OUT,GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER,AND JUST GO WITH FEELS RIGHT.  I HOPE THE BEST FOR YOU !
74412
I say any time after the first day I met you. Even the day after would be okay. As you can see from the array of responses you've received, every girl is different. Go with what you think is best but I would say give it, at most, two days. Anything after that, she's forgotten all about you. I hope this helps! :)
918408
its to early if a guy kissed me too early i would think he was being forward and dump him spend more time with her get to know her let her know how much youu like her and the kiss will just come naturally when the time is right and you both are really ready the longer the better \nbut not too too long or she will think you dont like her but it is way to eraly\nhope this helps\n\ngo for a kiss on the cheak first then a couple days later go for a kiss on the cheak and ask her first a girl loves it when the guy askes\nanswer my question\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av.hlafIBW4IZCzvnh6JRovsy6IX?qid=20061128204233AAiV3jC
232050
i think you need to ask or have her make the first move. it totally pisses me off and makes me not like a guy when he just assumes that it is ok. dont do that unless you want to come off like a jerk, and then you wont get any. its not cool to be making out with a guy and to constantly have to pull his hand off your zipper cause its only the first date or whatever.
637263
dude you've only french kissed the girl twice and you already want to move further??? ummm.... you're probably going to scare the girl off.... don't move so fast! slow down, its REALLY NOT alllll about sex. talk to the girl, get to know her interests, what she like to do. girls like guys who will get to know them first and move things slowly. good luck, but slow down!
712783
A kiss on the check is a good idea if the date went well. If not you don't sense both of you had fun, better skip the kiss all together.
333252
Take her somewhere fun.  Minature golfing, a zoo, an amusement park...some thing you can both enjoy and be yourselves at.  On the first date you want to get to know the person, not sleep with them right off the bat.  Well, okay, maybe you want to sleep with them right off the bat...but getting to know the person in a relaxing atmosphere is sometimes easier than some stuffy restaurant.
1074427
Lip nibbling is a sure pleassure and show some tounge love if you have kissed before but if you havent maybe wait till' next time unless she does then dont back away cause she might take it as a sign of rejection! run your hands throught her hair and get lower and lower :) with 1 hand (2 might give you to much power) press her face closer to yours