My boyfriend spends too much time with his friends.?
490904
come to me... i'll be there...
116646
Not unless you did something you shouldn't have while out. Let your girlfriend know that you are just friends with them and that's as far as it goes. She shouldn't be like that over friends. Does she still have guy friends she hangs with?
32271
i think maybe you need to find a compromise between the two. You can ask him to not have his friend sleep over, but dont ask him not to visit. having close friends is really important, and if he and his bud are as close as they sound it will cause some tension between you and your soon-to-be hubby. Let him know that you feel left out when his friend is over, and that you feel like its causing you to have resentment for that friend, which is obviously something you dont want. hopefully he will take a minute to think about how things are affecting you, and alter his behavipr accordingly.
500431
enjoy your friends. do not hurry anything. you have a lot of time
80492
Maybe you both need space. For you to enjoy other peoples company like your friends and family. For him to attend important matters that most needed of his attention. If you really are for each other then destiny will make a way.
327364
if u meant too much time together then yes i think it is unhealthy every couple needs time togher and time apart it gets old quick if you are together every second of every day
151217
Well, it all comes down to if you trust him or not. If you don't trust them, then that would be a problem. Since you say you think he would let one of his female friends kiss him then it sounds like there is some trust issues there. Have you told him about this and how it makes you feel? I am sure you have, but next time be a bit more firm about it. Tell him that if he wants to be with his friends more than you, then you are going to do the same thing and that you are tired of feeling like you are being placed behind them. Then, stick to it. Find some male only friends, or if you have them, hang out with them as much as you can..but whatever you do don't cheat. Just do what he is doing. A lot of times people can see things more clearly if the shoe is on the other foot. Good Luck.\n\nNo Decibel, it has nothing to do with making him jealous or mad. It has to do with this: If she has tried everything else (specifically addressing the problem to him) and he still fails to see what he is doing, which is making his own girlfriend uncomfortable, then maybe he can put it in better perspective if he had to deal with the same thing. Do you how hyper you got just from the thought of what I just wrote? This asker already goes through that daily with her boyfriend. It's ok for him to have friends that are girls but it is messed up for her to have guy friends? Oh please. Sometimes that is the only way guys can see how completely selfish they are being.
777448
Personally, depending on how im feeling, I'd like to spend a lot of time with my boyfriend but every girl needs to be with her girls from time to time.  Being with the boyfriend too much can ruin a relationship.  When you're finally comfortable in your relationship and confident in the fact that nobody's gonna move in on your territory, then spending time with friends is better for everybody.
181488
why frat about this one bf if he's doing this its because something happened that night,don't waste yr time on him find yr self someone that's grown up and that doesn't play games and show him yr better then that.that u do have to sit at home wall he's out fucking what ever walks.
320375
At 2 months, relationships are generally at their best. You have just spent more time than usually together, and there seems to have been no problems... I think that your boyfriend is just shy: he feels comfortable around his friends, who he knows, but does not feel inclined to be loving and public in front of your friends, who he is not so familiar with. \nThink about it: if he were not proud of you and your relationship, he wouldn't have wanted to spend that much time with you, and he would not be so evident about your relationship in front of his friends. \nTalk to him: let him know you have noticed that behavior (maybe he hasn't), and ask them if there is a reason for it. It seems that the problem is not you, but his shyness. Good luck.
444846
No, your not wrong.  A guy deserves to have his friends, and your not going to like a lot of them, but he needs to also respect you and how you feel.  It seems to me that since you work on weekends there is obviously time for him and his friend to hang out, and that it shouldn't be a big deal to send the friend home once you get off work so that the two of you can spend time together.  A marriage is about compromise and committing to what is important.  In this case what is important should be you and the compromise should be a little less time spend hanging out with his friend.  Doesn't seem like a lot to ask keep the marriage going.
573639
He will never stop loving you. There isn't anything you can say that will stop that. You just have to keep letting him know that nothing can or will ever happen between the two of you. You value his friendship too much to jeopardize that. Tell him that boyfriends come and boyfriends go. You don't want that to happen to him. Friends are forever.
179319
You shouldn't let your boyfriend control you like that.  It's a sign of things to come.  Now it's a party, but in the future he'll be telling you what friends you can and cant have, what to wear, places you can and cant go, etc.
760521
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
647800
i dont really know that one but i have the same problem with my boyfriend he is always with his friends and never with me but then during like spring break and summer vacation he will always be hanging all over me so maybe you should just talk to him about it and he may start to hang out with you more. i am fine with my relationship with my boyfriend thoguh because we are always on the phone together. maybe you should talk to him on the phone more and that may help. i hope i helped!
713509
Tell him you are not comfortable with the physical contact when he dances with your friends.  I think that's fair.  See if it helps the situation at all.  Reassure him that you trust him, and you're not accusing him of "almost cheating" with your friends or anything like that... it's just this one aspect of his behavior that you would like him to change.  If he backs off a little, but the dancing still bothers you, then go from there.  Good luck!
1022284
Dump him... and date your friends...