why do guys always think that they can dis-respect girls?
486836
Cause u tolerate it.  Stop laying down in front of the door and he'll stop wiping his feet on your back!
538501
Sometimes guys don't like to show girls how they feel about them.
222061
I think they must know they lack, so in the beginning they are extra special to the girl.  They treat her like a queen and make her feel worshipped.  Then, after they have the girl hooked is when the bad comes out.  I smart girl that has enough self-esteem to know better would get out fast at this point.  A lot of times, the guy makes the girl believe she is nothing without him and he demolishes her self-esteem so that she doesn't have the strength to leave him.
183501
because guys think more of themselves then of others
921197
I am a girl but I still wonder that often. I am guessing it is because they live in the fantacy that they can change the man for the better...just a thought though.
1089614
A girl or woman for that matter wants respect first and foremost from a man. A girl wants to be told and made to feel that she is valuable, beautiful and that the man is going to do his utmost to keep her safe, secure and happy.  In short, a girl wants to be treated right.
421133
You got some pretty good answers, but the best one is definitely f*** off!! Some guys have no respect!!! so you shouldn't treat them with any respect either!
982302
Because they like to think they can get whatever they want .. like everything comes to them either easy or eventually ...\nAnd they like to be treated like dirt ... love to be teased ... i think they really hate believeing that they are not worth having a specific gurl or that a gurl can be special ...\ntwisted creatures >>> Tell me about it!! ;)
724701
I think this works both ways.\n\nSome guys will always think a girl being nice to them is flirting with them.  They will try to pursue it and only get shot down.\n\nSome other guys (like me) always think girls are just being nice to them even when they are flirting or hitting on them.  We never try to pursue it and have to wait on the girl to come after us.\n\nI know guys that fall into the middle of course but most guys I know are one type or the other.  We really can not tell what you girls are doing most of the time, so we go to one extreme.
397359
Because they're afraid to be judged infront of their "guy friends." \n\nGood luck!\n\nMichelle
93611
Could be a lot of reasons, but most likely jealously and insecurity.  Men do this exact thing too.  Some of it has to do with possessiveness, but my feelings are just worries that the new girl would hear all the wrong things about me, or not treat the guy as good as I did, or stole him (that hussy)
181569
Men love respect. Maybe not all women can do that, but men love it, and whaooooo, a romantic woman will do.
604440
alot of men are intimidated by good-looking women. they feel that they don't have a chance. they end up losing in the end to a total jack-ass. jack-asses will do anything to get a woman so they can fuck-them-and-dump-them. they, in turn, ruin it for the guys that would probably be the best thing that ever happened to that woman. it does happen the opposite way sometimes as well. if a guy looks clean-cut and is very polite, give him a chance. remember, arrogance is generally a bad thing. confidence is another...
64736
Well, some guys do understand man. I dont treat girls like that. And i know alot of other guys that don't.\nSo, i think your predicament is kind of solitary.\nMaybe you should work that out among the guys that youre around, because people i know aren't like that.
41358
thats b/c a lot of guys dont know how to respect women and maybe have the lack of a father figure to teach them otherwise
173980
Because they feel sorry for themselves and get pessimistic and then they start feeling bitter toward women and women HATE that. I think Nice guys look at and compare themselves to other guys and imagine and assume that other guys get more girls and have more luck then they do, and they figure "it must be because I'm a nice guy". It probably just means that the other guy is braver, more aggressive, or that the girls you are attracted to are insecure and immature and only think that a guy who makes them anxious and even more insecure is worth it. Trust me though, most women that I know who are HAPPY in their relationships have all married nice guys who help with the housework, talk to them, go shopping with them (they don't all enjoy it though) and buy them flowers from time to time.
883656
Because these guys don't start out disrespecting them.  They usually treat them like princesses in the beginning... and these guys add an excitement to the relationship that you don't get with the nice guys.\n\nBy the time they start treating the girl like crap so she's so far in she doesn't really realize it.  This is also how girls wind up in abusive relationships.  Even the strongest of women can fall into this pit of despair.\n\nI've had happen to me.  Bu I ditched that jerk after a year and am now engaged to a sweet, loving man.  \n\nWomen just have to figure it out for themselves.. Unfortunately.