why does my fiance say this for???
479910
I think your fiance has a lot of issues that you guys need to work out before you get married. But hold out on him and he will initiate sex soon enough, trust me, you can hold out longer than him.
272037
Sounds like you should just break up with him then.  He is intentionally hurting your feelings by saying that to you..., or maybe he is trying to get some sort or reaction when he says it.  So, next time he says it.., say, I feel the same way.., just to see what he does.  Keep in mind..,there are many fish in the sea.., so you can throw this one back!!!
962251
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
297122
Have you asked your fiance'?  I would chose a song that the words mean something to both of you.  As this is a special day for both of you. One you both will always remember. \nEx. I used Truly madly deeply as I am from the ocean and my husband lives in a mountain area.  Therefore the words in the song meant a lot to both of us.\nI wish you all the best and happiness in your lives together.
128337
Maybe he ...\n\n.. doesn't want to hear all sort of opinions about it from your close friends / family\n\n.. is afraid they will not accept you and he wants to let them know after you get married and there's nothing to do about it anymore\n\n.. he doesn't actualy love you and he doesn't want to tell them couse he's unsure of your relationship and still lookin'..\n\n.. he thinks you are bad for his image/reputation but he loves you so he just keeps you as a secret\n\n... or another 10 million reasons.. :P
253767
If your fiance loves you, then he will understand. You lost the man that you vowed to love forever, this just proves it.\nIt shows that you're comfortable with your fiance, as you call him by the name of your true love.\nI'm a man & would not be offended by it. Relax.
1128917
I understand what you are saying to an extent. I like to say, "I love you," but I don't want it to be an automatic response, either. I don't want to say I love you, just because he said it. When I say it, I want to say it because I mean it and it doesn't have to be prompted!\n\nI don't know if that's your case or not.\n\nIf it is, just find ways of saying I love you first that are comfortable for you, such as writing notes, saying it when you wake up in the morning, or just before going to bed at night... Plan how you are going to say it, if that makes you comfortable (like the reasons you would give, if you want to say more than just I love you) or just make it spontaneous - say it before you lose the nerve!\n\nIf responding with "I love you, too," doesn't suit you - then what you need to do is find some way of saying "I love you" that makes you comfortable.\n\nBut, YES, it is important to say it, because it makes the other person feel good. If you really love him, isn't this important to you? Sure, I know what you're thinking: they should know it already, right?  Consider this: if your boyfriend thought you were beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, whatever nice thing you can think of - wouldn't it feel better to hear it than to just assume he thinks that because you are dating?\n\nLook, it's the *easiest* way in the world to make your partner happy, because it just requires you to say three little words... Think about making the effort for it.... It's not just important to him, but I think it's important to find a way of expressing your feelings, too. Maybe you could try keeping a private diary for a little while, so that you can get used to the idea of expressing your feelings? If you're just expressing it to a diary, then you can say whatever you wish - no judgments - and it's preparation for opening yourself up emotionally to a real person.\n\nI hope you find something that works for you!
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
130844
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
1054186
Who knows?  Maybe you guys really aren't ready to get engaged.  There's alot of pressure on couples when they get engaged.  People EXPECT that you're getting married pretty soon and they want to know a date and they want to know what you're planning for the wedding.  It sounds like your man shouldn't have promised something that he wasn't sure about.  It's unfair to say that "by this date we will get engaged" because things happen.  It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't want to get engaged, it just means what he said, you guys aren't ready.  Maybe there's financial reasons behind that.  But a really good solution to this problem (because I know you are disappointed) is if your boyfriend still wants to get engaged and married in the future....he should buy you a promise ring.  My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and we're not ready to get engaged or married yet either.  But a promise ring lets you and your friends and family know that you guys are planning to get married one day, just not right now.  I wear my promise ring on my left ring finger like an engagement ring and I'm very happy with it.  I think you would be too.  Sit tight dear, you'll get married one day.
103299
hmmmm...what is this guy trying to say??? i hope not what i have understood.
302592
That he's a very sad man who has to keep a record of his conquests! If they are recent, chuck him. If they are from before you were married, talk to him about it and let him know that you are uncomfortable with him keeping this list.
1153241
In my opinion, this sounds strange to me. Maybe her boyfriend said something to her about you after you and your fiancee' left that night. Since you just met this couple awhile back, he may be using you as an excuse to break up with her. Or he may have found you very attractive and keeps telling her that. That would make any woman upset. Whatever the case, she is mad for something her boyfriend said, not what you had said. For the dirty looks, and she tells you to go find a hobby. The man had something to do with this. If it happened to me, I would go on with my life. I don't need friends like that to ruin things for me.
894974
lmao funny you asked that..\nmy fiance said because it makes him feel like THE MAN when i call him that.
947825
God, you must be really annoying in real life.  Men aren't complicated, don't go look for hidden meanings in everything.  I think he has said what he has said and it means what he said.  Duh!
711665
he's uncomfortable why the hell u said that anyway? i d be stumped too. ooh but then an ex used to say that A LOT and i got so embarrased so i said 'no thats ok' too so that might be it too i dont know.
740575
He is maybe jealous and really wants to know if he has a chance. It is a personal question. NOT a casual one. Its none of his business! You did the right thing by telling him that was personal. He shouldnt have pressed the issue.