What does it mean when a man says he wants space? does it mean he will get back to you later or it is quits??
483400
it could go one way or the other, that's why he needs the space for... to figure stuff out without u.
423601
He is being nosy and wants to see if you found someone else.\n\nHe also may be doing it to torment you, some guys are sick that way.  They are hoping that you will beg him to come back.
925612
It's obvious that he flaked in this case.\n\nBut, don't be overly critical or judgemental of this action of his --- he probably needs time to resolve his internal issues.\nTry not to bite off his head too much, but do let him know (subtly, if possible) that such kind of conduct is not appreciated.\n\nAnd bear in mind, this DOESN'T mean that he has ditched you. So, keep at it!
1058388
Why should you wait?  He is not waiting, I am sure.  Give him all the space he needs and move on.  You don't need this kind of turmoil.
737896
he would know you called him so if he doesn't call you back move on.\n\nsometimes people love each other but not enough.\n\nhowever he may need some space and not want to call until his head is straight (its a man thing)  \n\ni hope it works out for you
895119
well do you really want to know. it means he hates you! lol what do you think it means? he obviously likes you and wants you all to himself, how come you arent together yet
622922
It means that your relationship is over.  Run hard and fast from this jackass!  He isn't worth your time.  If he says that, he has someone in mind that he wants to sleep with, or has already done so.  I know it is tough, but forget him and move on with your life.  He is obviously a selfish and immature boy who has no idea what love or commitment are.  I know your feelings are involved, but you will have them hurt more if you hang around him.  Good luck!
582915
maybe he just needs some space to sort through his life and when he is okay with everything he will contact you all again. Let him know that you are there for him but don't push ...
887768
Never mind men needing space, women do too.  I just plain like to be alone sometimes.  I can't speak for him but I know that when he gets home from a day of skiing with friends he's relaxed and in a good mood.  I know I am when I spend a day with friends.  Gives us something to talk about later.
129666
That is tough.  At least he called.  If you don't sweat him and give him the space he needs, he will find his way back to you.
612250
Give him time. Do you know his work schedule and what it is like. He may have checked the email and just not had time to respond to it. Maybe he is gathering his thoughts of what he may want to say to you. Sometimes it is harder for men to express their feelings because they don't want to seem like a pushover, or move to fast. I would wait and give him another day or so. I know that it can be hard when you are filled with anticipation. In the end, follow your heart for you are the only one who knows what makes you truly happy.......Best of luck to you
372825
Uh, if he needed space, why was he in a position to be dumped by someone else. Sounds to me like he just wanted to be with someone else, since he can't be with her, you're better than being along. Don't waste your time with him.
204826
A guys usually says what he means. There is no hidden meaning whatsoever. If he says that he doesn't love you no more, he means it. Don't let him play you.
446433
Give space and let him come to you! He is with you so he must not hate you too bad. Give it time and if you really want him to talk just say that you feel like you guys are going in different paths and if he doesn't tell you what he wants then your gone. If that happens you will be happy eventually. Just give yourself a new look at life and find friends. If he talks to you and opens up trust what he says and don't question it. Your wanting to know and if he feels pestered by you he won't open up again.
709099
OK, perhaps he sees it this way: He likes you still and on some level feels guilty about dumping you. Even if he believes that breaking up was the right thing to do. But he still would like to see you and perhaps hang out with you, but he doesn't want to how do I put this, insist upon seeing you since that could lead to an awkward moment with you telling him no or not saying no but implying it. So he left it up to you to decide if you want to hang out with him or not. This allows you to politely say no without the awkwardness of saying no. You just don't give him a shout out. You're "too busy" or it slipped your mind or something like that.\n\nOf course, he could also be doing it as a means to get back together, but he could also just miss hanging out with you. \n\nAnd yes, I have hung out with exes before. See how they were doing and all that. Sometimes you miss a part of your life, even if you have moved on.
265857
Yes he did need space. If he didn't want to get serious and you feel like you were, he feels that way too. he probably wants to reevaluate his relationship with you. just let him have some space and after a week or so ask him how he feels. don't make it sound too serious. just casually ask him how he feels and see what he says.\nThings will work out, don't stress over it.
657537
People sometimes don't know how to fill a vacuum in a conversation. Especially during voice chats. \n\nSilence does make people uncomfortable and guys usually feel obliged and responsible to keep filling up the empty space. \n\nMaybe it is just his way to keep the time with you all filled up! Maybe it is his way of showing that he really doesn't want you to hang up and keep on talking. \n\nLove does silly things... \n\nThe best way you can help this situation is by bringing up topics and building a healthy communication level with your on-line boyfriend. \n\nYou take the initiative.\n\nIf he still stays off track and keeps doing silly things, find another boyfriend!