My best freind asked me out last night, should i say yes?
490068
My husband and I were best friends for several years before we hooked up.  We would date off and on, but nothing serious until we finally hooked up for good.  The best thing about dating your friend is that you don't have to pretend and your friend is not able to pretend either, since you know them so well.  The open communication lines are already there.  If you guys have a strong friendship, it should be able to weather just about anything, including dating.  Me and the hubby have an extremely strong marriage.  We have been married for 10 years now.  We never fight.  If one has an issue with the other, we just talk it out.  If you have feelings for your friend, go for it.  It probably took a lot out of your friend to ask you out.  If anything, not accepting the invitation could affect your friendship because they will feel rejected by you.  Talk to your friend, tell them your fears and you two can mutually agree upon the next step.  But, you will not get anywhere unless you discuss your fears with your friend!!!
1166648
That's a hard situation cuz if you ask him out and he says no it'll be different. Have a friend ask him what it would be like if you guys were going out. He probably has already heard something like that just cuz. If he says it'll be great or something like that, go ahead and ask him. If he says "It wouldn't" like a man-biatch don't so you can keep ur friendship.  Good luck. :)
274609
That great my friend you have just started a wonderful relationship. What next:\nGo out with him
486949
aww thats so romantic :( :) i think u should go for it or ask her best friend if she likes u aww thats so sweet i wish there were more guys like u!!! if i were her i would most definetly go out with u ur so sweet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
91448
Look at it this way: if he wanted to "go out with you" he would have said yes when you asked him.  Try to ignore him from now on and see what his reaction is.\ngood luck sugar
1116711
Boy thats hard...Especially because its your best friend It all depends on if you are willing to risk yourfriendship. I always have started out by saying ya know I had the craziest dream about us... just to feel the situation out and see what response I get then go from there. Good luck...
501872
you should tell him i 'm in (love) with my best friend to you can't stop thinking about him you feel safe around him and your always smiling when he is to. you were probably scared thats why you said no and if it s the end of the year tell him the last day giv him ur # and then you won't have to deal with g/f the hole summer
347178
leave it alone, good friends are hard to come by. ignore your temptations and move on.if she happens to make a move politely tell her that you that you would not destroy your friendship for a night of passion
600681
If you guys still have a friendship then go for it. Just hang out with him and see what happens, that is what I plan on doing with mine too.
31449
Its matter if it was a close friend if it is he is off limits but not go for it, but either way talk to your friend and see how they feel first.
255700
You didn't word the question in correct English, but I think I got the idea. Yes, you should date your best friend! That is the most ideal mate any girl could ever ask for.
1145239
That's a hard one - You don't want to put yourself in an awkward position by telling her you like her, or put her in one by asking her if she likes you - she might say "no" in a moment of embarrassment just out of reflex...\n\nNow what does she say when she asks you to spend the night at her place?  Does she say it casually, like a "you can stay here tonight if you feel like it", or is it in a more suggestive "We really need to spend the night together" kind of way?\n\nIf you confront her about this in any way, it will likely kill your friendship.  For the better or for worse, things will likely never go back to the way things are now.\n\nAre you okay with that?  If you want to preserve your current friendship, you can always pull out the heart-wrenching-but-sweet "I'm so glad to have you as my friend" line.\n\nShe might just think of you as "one of the girls" (no offense) and that's why she's wanting to get a massage with you, spend time with you as a regular friend, and not care about you sleeping over.\n\nIt's your call.  Weigh the evidence, try to look at it objectively, and make the decision you feel strongly about and think is appropriate.\n\nGood luck!
512679
If this guy is your freind and u think that you know him well, then you should know what his reaction is going to be so you should do what you think is best. Follow ur heart. I know that sounds cheeesy but it's good advice.
1048554
I always recommend that you simply ask the person out, before it's to late or drives you crazy. It at least shows that you are serious. If they say no, then it is their loss. And if they say yes, then, well it can be the start of something beautiful. Asking them out via their friends is simply a cowardly way to do it. So go on, bite the bullet and ask her out!
182742
If you've liked him forever than I definitely think you should ask him out. I know that it's cliche, but what's the worst thing that can happen, right? I know that "no" isn't the best thing to hear but at least then you can move on and have no doubts. And if he says yes then you might just have something and love is always an amazing thing to share with someone.
1017988
Well ask yourself what do you want? Ask him what he wants. If you feel you like him then i think you should tell him. But everyones a different person when their drunk. If you do feel awkward together then maybe things shouldn't go further because you've got to be comfortable with someone. I can understand why it would be awkward though, the day after is always awkward. Only you'll know what the next step is. Were you attracted to him before last night happened?\n\nI'm only 18 but already have regrets, from not going for things when i should of, do what you feel is right.\n\nGoodLuck ;-)
862970
you need to ask him out tonight.  do not wait, waiting may only lead to him liking someone else.  if he says he kinda likes you, you need to give him the push to where he will really like you.  dont wait ask him out...hope that helps good luck