now a woman is fallen in love with a guy thru the ph and that guy was divoced for 16 yrs so how do u think of?
478497
it all depends on you. how does he makes you feel whne your talking to him?
608794
Time and falling in love with someone else.
365653
This man you are "in love" with is sick.\n\nMarried or not, he should not be fooling around with a 15 year old girl - its paedophilia.  \n\nSecondly, you dont know anything about love at this age.
515392
I am a man, and fell is love for the first time when I was just 12. It hurt when she left the country and I couldn't get over it until I was 2 years older.\n\nAfter, I had what you could call a first real girlfriend only when I was only 17.\n\nWe are now totally different people, The only things that we had in common until I married, was we both liked girls. \n\nNow I like my wife more than anyone else. \n\nI've met my this childhood love abroad, and when she comes visiting her home in my country and I don't think things would have ever worked out for us at all. She's just a year older than me! And she likes well, girls now also and is turned off by men, but we are friends.
352635
Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.
794527
After 27 years your heart just doesnt close to that person, Maybe they couldnt live together, that does not mean that there is not some kinda love still. Even if its a friendship love or a respect love. Or a love because of children maybe born of the relationship There could be many factors to why there is still some "worry" attached into all that!
1155974
you can fall in love with anyone no matter what a third person sees as 'differences'. personally though,8+ years is to much.
852221
You are so lucky to have each other at this time. I believe you are a gift to each other. I had friends in a similar position as you are in now. They both decided to take everything one day at a time and enjoy every thing including their love each and every day. They went through, thick and thin together in increasing love, for 3 years longer than doctors had predicted. The surviving friend, years later, has told me several times how they would have suffered a much greater loss if they had not been dedicated to each other in love for as long as possible.
589263
I'm not sure you should do anything. He was an important part of her life for so long and with such great love that in her mind he will always be there. In her mind, he is there. That is where he lives now. Let her keep him alive along with her memories of him. You wonder if I have heard of anything so sad. That is not sad. It is a conformation of true love. I have never heard of anything so wonderful as a very strong love and commitment that transcends life and death.\n\nGod bless her, her loves and you and your family.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
311515
You just fall in love without knowing.. the person. and then once you get to know the person very well... you regret... :S
201293
FALL INTO REAL LOVE ON LINE???  Hmmmmm Im not much of a believer in that- although Im sure it has happenned.  I think you r more falling in love with IDEA of being in love!  U do not know this person REALLY, and you do not see him on a daily basis and therefor he is perfect, and it makes it so much easier to feel love towards a person who says the right things.  BUT you do not know his daily habits, his temperment, and all the little things that make up a true re;ationship.  This person also farts and scratches his butt in public!  lol  Just like allll the other men we know and love so well!  So I think Im saying- NO I think its more THEY ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF FALLING IN LOVE with their perfect man.
256008
Well that definitely is a big age difference. Are they sure they are in love? If I were that girl and was truly in love with him, then yes i would get married because age doesn't matter when it comes to true love. What does her parents think?
1075774
She is making a big mistake! Tell your friend she don't have a future with this kind of guy! She is strongly attracted to him and that is it. She doesn't know this guy to really love him, she is majorly infatuated!!!  He is the desperate one and she is falling for this guy's tricks and schemes. She should not waste her time with him. Tell her to look for someone who is REAL. This kind of relationship does not last!
641725
Sounds like a delimma...Do what is in your heart.  You can date the new guy while keeping in contact with the old guy.  Just be honest about things.  Sometimes you really like people at first but it fades.  My man I met when I was 13 it was long distance.  We finally hooked up when I was 19 and have been together 16 years.. good luck.  There is no wrong choice
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No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
700960
You probably had intense feelings for this person, I think it is common. Don't worry about it too much.
300635
He was 34 years older than she was. They were married over 20 years when he passed away. It worked out and she grieved for a long time.\n\n(My husband is 24 years older than I am. We've been happily married for almost 20 years. We are more in love than ever.)