should your relationship end when your spouse goes to jail and why?
479372
if it was a one off i would say stick it out if u really love each other but it seems to b a on going thing him going to jail u need to get on with ur life in a steady relationship with someone thats always going to b around for u not in and out of jail
424426
Your fiance was in prison and he still hasn't learned not to try to circumvent the law? sounds to me like he is lucky to be out in the first place.
50698
If he was in jail. it would appear that he is not making very good choices in his life.  Therefore, I would not want him contributing to choices in my life.\n\nPeople are subject to change though.  If it were me, I would not get back with him right away. I would wait and see if he learned anything from the experience.\n\nIf it is "true love", AND he has made the appropriate changes, love will find a way.
653384
To tell you the truth you may want to wait till he is in prison.That way you can hold hands hug kiss and have a Little more family and friends there.You will have to wait till he gets out of coratien but i think you both would be happier.Good luck.
386356
Conjugal visits. and it depends on where the spouse is incarcerated.
501400
you go to jail....lol
982092
I am a strong supporter of making a marriage work, but it does not sound like this man is taking your relationship seriously. As a husband and father he needs to be responsible for the well being of his family. As his wife you have a right to know where the money is going and where he is spending his time, as it involves the health and well being of the family.\n\nYou need to take him aside and be brutally honest with him. Explain that you cannot and will not live this way. If you think it's worth it, offer him another chance to redeem himself, but do not let this man put you and your child at risk. If he is doing drugs, that is exactly what he is doing. He could get arrested, and then you will be left without an income as well as legal bills.\n\nIt sounds like you are doing all of the work, and that is not the way to have a happy marriage. I hate to say it, but it sounds like you may need to move on. If you think he's capable of change, I would give him another chance.
993981
Honestly?  dump them both and move on.  The one in jail is looking for an anchor...someone on the outside that he can sue to maintain his connection to the outside world.  And the one you're dating now seems childish and you dont want to date him anyways.\n\nDo as you wish, but you probably deserve someone who can hold and love you, that's going to take you somewhere besides the sign in line at the jail.
369118
Hello, my name is Veronica and I wanted you to know that my spouse is incarcerated. He has been incarcarated for 6 months and has 6 more months. We have 2 children and are Methodists. I feel as though only God can judge. I will never judge him and I will never leave him. Especially when he needs me the most. I love him and always will, no matter what. If you would like to visit my 360 page, I type all the letters that he sends me.  I hope I helped a little. God Bless. Veronica
48730
First of all, I wanted to say that I'm sorry about your situation. Sounds like ur in a hard place because you love your husband and even though he did wrong, your family should let you be happy and if being with him makes you happy, they should accept it. I think, however, you may never get them to fully understand or accept the situation until he is out of jail. It probably won't matter to them how sweet or lovable he is behind bars. They will have to see for themselves if he continues to be the great guy you say he is once he is released.  If they don't accept him after that, I don't know what else you can do about it but pray they will and continue to have a healthy and blessed marriage. Best of Luck!
571779
Crazy, Stupid, Idiotic, Nuts. And NO it won't last. You don't know this guy. He is in prison / jail for a reason. You met him WHILE he was incarcerated? How pray tell did you meet him? What at a local dance club. LOL. Be real, he is in jail so someone must have introduced you two. So I say good luck, BUT be careful, Be very careful.
439542
why is he going to jail?? is it some kind of drug thing or violence.. It all depends on you and do you want to wait for him. how long is he going way for? \nmy friend waited 17 months had a jail house wedding and they werent even together a year when he got out and now they are divorced \njust ask you self if its worth you time
169236
Just stop seeing him! If he keeps going to jail, that isn't good! But, if you are ABSOLUTELY sure he is the one, then consider talking to him about taking responsibility for his actions. But still, I would most likely dump him!! Just like someone said, if you have kids with him, then they would see their dad in jail and that would not set a good example.
492811
You have to do something, you can press charges by aking help from organizations that deals with this. They will give you free lawyer, counselling, etc. After he's in jail, forget about him and the hurting experiences, move on girl, you deserve more than him and you should be happy.You are still lucky because he showed his true colors and you're not married yet and without kids. Trust me, it's like hell!\nBe happy girl, you'll find someone who will respect and love you all the way! Best regards!
1059661
Is he in love with you? Is your husband in jail? Ummm. I say you have a serious problem. How old are your children? Follow your heart - it is the only way to be happy. Even if other people will get hurt.
890233
yea.....but u get automatically taken to jail....so its better to take it
921178
Depends on what he is in prison for and how much you love each other.If you love him and he is truely wanting to change his ways and loves you then stick with it.Love is worth waiting for but also worth changing for