Would you rather have a mental problem or a weight problem?
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I have both. Which is worse I'll never know.\n\nHe shouldn't be answering this question. He's not rright in the head.\n\nShut up toothpick. Have another slice of cheese and some water.\n\nAARRGGHHH.....Damn meds.
602242
I would go for toned rather than skinny. You can only get so far down before it conflicts with your appearance. Some folks are just meant to be a bit bigger than others.
1145242
Both have their merits...have you tried walking at a good pace and increasing your pace with time? \nI lost a lot of weight just walking an hour a day and watching what I eat !
519580
They are both good for losing weight. Maybe try walking one day and the next day riding,then walking then riding. It also helps if you have someone to do this with. HEY I'm willing to walk and ride with you but depending were you live we might have a long walk or ride, I'm in Illinois. I really need to lose weight to.
892140
Fickle minded person, is the right word to refer to you, based on the mental condition, that you are referring to.
369805
symptoms are showing that you are a problem
758922
Are you perhaps at your optimal weight now?
422818
Do you mean physically or mentally?
726477
neither.\nI'd talk it out with my friends.\n it's their problem, not mine.\nmy friends don't dictate my relationships any more than I dictate theirs.
865163
Neither.  Size is a function of genetics, not of how much food a man consumes.
257955
I'm male and 46,  My weight is within healthly limits so my weight isn't the problem.  It's that I'm not in shape.  There is a huge problem with body image in the US.  If one is healthy and in shape.  Weight shouldn't matter.  It's come to the point where eating disorders are hitting younger and younger girls and just recently it's been reported that boys are now having the same body image problems.  Good topic!
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arg!  what a pickle...well, i'm almost 16 and i would say option #2, because you would be having fun and then wham! you'd die. But option #1 would mean suffering (or at least not an enjoyable life) and then death.
748435
Make a joke of feeling nervous then and you can solve both problems
116880
No.  I would prioritize your depression as the first problem to work on.  If you get depressed for more than a few weeks at time, and it's been happening for more than a year, you should think about seeing a psychiatrist.  Many people have had their lives dramatically improved by getting treatment.  Good luck.
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I guess you really have to weigh the odds here. It is a major surgery and with that come risks. You have to ask yourself are the risks greater to me if I don't have it or if I have it.  But it's only a short term cure. As with all things, diet and exercise are the keys to losing weight.
159887
be more specific? give the problem maybe?
622325
Gain weight or get pregnant...