How do you know if you are "with" a guy if he doesn't ask you out directly?how will i know?
486900
be patient and see if he makes a move or say anything, 2 weeks he might be shy and just wants to get to know you more first
407007
Why don't you ask him out? Go ahead see what happens.
1003587
Sorry but this somehow sounds a little odd to me.\nHe seems to know that you're interested in him but still doesn't make a move?\nIs there something wrong with him? Saying that if she asks me out I would accept but then not doing the step to ask you out?\nI'm not into the notes thing but if your friends know and told him already, what's he waiting for??\nIf he's soooooooooo shy, do you think he's the right guy for you?\nWell, depending on your preferences about a man, of course...
14776
You have to ask yourself if you think he may be worth the effort of finding out just what his deal is. It might be like some of the others said and he may just be shy or nervous.  If you really like him step up and take charge, ask him out. If isnt worth a little effort then dont put in the effort. It's totally up to you.  Then again you could just tell him that if he wants a chance with you at all he is just gonna have to prove to you that he wants one.
510440
I'm assuming your real question is "how do I ask him out such that he says yes?"\n\nHere's the trick:\nCall him up some evening (not a weekend) and mention that you're going out somewhere to dinner and were wondering if he'd like to join you for food and hanging out.\n\nThis will make it casual and not a "date," but if he says yes, it'll still give you a chance to get together and flirt with him.  You can do this as many times as you need to in order to feel comfortable enough to directly ask him out.
43227
If the guy asks you out on a date, as in, not "friends" but a real live date, he is making the invitation to take you out and treat you. That is the understanding. If you ask him out, then it should be you who pays, since you would be the one planning the date. If the outing is more casual, like just coffee, and he doesn't offer to pay when he asks you to hang out, order your biscotti to go: because he just wants to be friends, or is totally clueless and not boyfriend material.
1035829
you can ask, but you either trust someone or you don't.  if you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him.  and if you do trust him, you have to know in your heart he wouldn't do that even if there are signs that might point that way.
11408
If all else fails, ask. \n\nIn which case you might say yes or no. If he says yes, you know. If he says no, he might be lying or he might have never thought about it. In which case, give it time...and you'll find out.
77625
Oh, it can be hard to tell sometimes. Some guys are very shy and afraid of rejection. They can be so afraid to let their feelings show. \n\nIf they get kinda tongue-tied and quiet around you, that might be a sign. If they keep calling and asking you to do things with them, that's a pretty big sign.  If they give you gifts and remember your birthday, valentine's day, etc.... well, he's yours! Even married guys forget that stuff.\n\nSeriously, if you think he likes you, and you like him back, TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM! If he isn't into you, he'll let you know. But don't wait for him to ask you... some guys are so shy it may never happen!
533070
well u shuld ask u'r friendz if they kno and if they don't then ask him u'r self. if he says yes, just say "oh i didn't kno" or somethin' lyk that. if he says no then ask him out u'r self or get a friend to do it for you. it's not that hard, expecially if u kno he lyks u bak.
300597
If he wants to talk to you he will call. If he wants to see you again he will ask you out.\n\nDon't call him. Would you like to hear this line from him when you give him a ring? : "Oh hello there, sorry I haven't called, I've been busy" Pathetic.\n\nMy present boyfriend called me everyday and it was nice to finally find a guy who didn't play these "mind/dating" games.
1130145
are you stupid or something go out with him again, and if he doesn't ask him out by tomorrow, you ask him out, and if he has a girlfriend just tell him how you feel, and maybe he'll think about it.
792879
Uh well the real ? is does he notice you? Have y'all sat down and talked to each other? Or does he like you a little more than a friend? I normally believe you should wait for a guy to ask the girl but if you want to take a risk and lose him or feel uncomfortably around him then go ahead because if he says no you might just not feel very comfortable around him.
364963
He has already told you he wasn't asking you out for his personal reasons.The reason will probably still be there .He may be going to see someone he is long distance relationship with .Let it go because he may be just seeing if you'll be waiting for him to ask . Even if he does ask , he didn't for a REASON at first and sounds like head games.
283325
If you're friends, he's already noticed you.  If he hasn't asked you out, he's just not that into you.  Let it go.
84109
You can tell by asking him if he likes you.  Guys are not complex.  For instance, if you ask a guy if a dress looks good on you, he is not thinking about how the color accentuates your eyes, he is looking to see if it fits.  If it fits, then it looks good on you.  You can't lose anything by going up to him and asking him if he likes you.  If you waste your time wondering, somebody else will walk up to him and ask if he likes her.  Maybe he never thought of it before, but now that you mention it, yes, he does like you.  Don't make this too difficult.
601027
I think he's interested in asking you out, it just hasn't worked out with his schedule yet to be able to do it. Don't give up hope yet. I think he will ask you just as soon as his schedule permits!