I am in love with two people - my enemy & my best friend - what should I do?
484440
well if ur in love with 2 people then lemme tell u something honey, ur not in love. your looking for an outlet to get revenge on ur boyfriend who is treating u badly.
361790
Don't date either of them if you want to remain friends with them.  If you don't care, pick one and STICK WITH IT.  Don't play them against each other.  It's not a good idea!
587911
You need to be honest to the guy you are with and let him go don't lie to him, if you say you love the other guy then go with him, it is obvious you know what you want, don't waste you time and his time by staying with him knowing you do not love him, I hope you make a decision soon. Good Luck
659612
Its good to be in love with the best friend because they can understand our feelings emotions and thoughts.If I was experiencing the same,as he is my best friend and understands me very well I will dare to talk to him about this.If he is not interested also we will continue to be best friends forever.I would like to advise you to do the same.BEST OF LUCK!
306358
what?? if you love his friend, than you shouldnt be wanting to be more than friends with this other guy... ur question is a little strange
779624
Don't screw them both. Take a time and think all over. There are going to be consequences whatever you do. How you can handle is you.
651522
There's no reason why either one of you should surrender your crush, to the other. However, you should contemplate the potential consequences of being infatuated with the same person. \n\nAsk your self, "will this affect our friendship in a negative way"? If so, is it worth it? \n\nYou and your friend should have a discussion regarding your mutual crush. First, let each other know how you feel about the situation. Obviously, your friendship existed before the crush; so know where your loyalties lie.\n\nWhom ever your crush chooses, don't take it personal, if it's not you. Be supportive. You can't control the will of others. Than again, if it doesn't work between your friend and your crush, you'll be waiting with open arms. Although, you'll have to decide if you'd want to do that, given you were his (I'm assuming the crush is male) second choice.\n\nOf course, if he chooses you, don't gloat. It's not a competition. If you and your friend are truly friends, you'll want the best for each other. \n\nSo my advice is, make sure you're both "cool" with going after the same guy and not let it turn into a cut-throat competition. Because if that's what is going to happen, just forget it. This guy will pick who he thinks he likes more. So it's out of your hands, in a way. Just know, you're both equally deserving. Be sympathetic to each other and always communicate your feelings. Don't let this guy come between you. Other than that, go for it!
310491
you know the answer, turn them both down. one doesnt love you, you don't love the other, find someone who loves you and that you love
231028
Well you are already in love with this person are you not? if not then be friends , but beware, this person was deceitful to you , unless they were trying to live honestly a life of their opposite sex. But when your in love , some things can be overlooked.
904195
hi..! well, i understand what do you feel right now.. i know it's hard to let go someone that you like, even though you cannot like them.. i think maybe you should try to 4get your bf's best friend.. i know that would be very hard.. i can understands you.. but that's all you need.. bcuz love need 'sacrifice', it means that you should let go that boy (your bf's best friend),, bcuz that is the beautiful of love.. you should enjoy it, even though it hurts you.. ok sista..
437147
Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
518408
Respect their relationship. Don't interfere in between them whilst their relationship is still ongoing. After all, he is your Friend and you should enforce that point. You just can't go on getting in the middle of their relationship by being the third party. You know that if you do that you will hurt someone's feelings or worse, both of their feelings including yours. So, I suggest that you back off first for the time being. Try looking for someone else. And if things don't work out between the two of them, that;s when you can make a move. But, try not to be to aggressive. Just remember to back away from now. You will need to. I wish you the best.
363158
alright hun obviously there is something going on within your present relationship that has you wanting this other man. But even if there is a man's best friend is a subject YOU BETTER BE PREPARED TO TACKLE IF YOU PERSUE. Because like the saying goes, girlfriends and boyfriends come and go, but a best friend last forever. They've known each other longer than you and trust me from experience they will turn on you. I lost a good man at that time because i persued his best friend. Hun, unless you can deal with the consequences, back off and let him come to you if he feels the same way. If he doesn't then you have your answer and accept it. But if u feel u need to know go for it, but be prepared for what comes down the road
35032
Love your enemy with all your heart. Love thy nieghbor as you would yourself.  \nLook, you dont have to be his best friend ar even engage in conversation with him, but you need to pray for him harder than some others, he is Gods child too, and God loves him just as much as he loves you.  in the natural world this might seem hard and not have a big payoff, but when it boils down to it the way you react to people is about you, not them, and ultimatley about your walk with the Lord, not his.
813821
I really feel for you, thats a tough situation.\nAre you sure that you are really in love with him, as you only said that you believe you are in love with him. Be careful not to confuse other feelings for love.\nDid you know he was your uncle before you got involved?\nI know you fall in love with who you fall in love with but there is a brief window in which you can apply the breaks.\nWhat about the other woman he is with? Has he spoken to her yet?\nIf I were you, I would try to steer clear and if he manages to end the relationship with the other lady and keep his relationship with the kids maybe you could think about him again.\n\nI don't know about the law and deformities. I would say no to both questions, but just think of the people involved in this tangled web and how your decisions will effect them\n\nIts tough I know.\n\nGood luck.
257987
I guess this depends on the kind of feelings that you are having with these 2 diffrent people..... you need to take a step back and look to see which one of these people will be with you years from now and which one you can see yourself growing old and having something with.... but you cant continue playing these games because you will lose it all if you continue games. Is it worth it?!?! You need to make a decision my friend...
679461
that is a very difficult question i think you need to do what is right and stop before u hurt someone including yourself. just either choose one or let both go it will be the best in the long run