I moved with my ex boyfriend 20 days ago, i still love him but he's not interested in me anymore.?
476021
It sounds to me like you need to move on and find someone that is interested in you. Don't waste your time trying to please some guy... you will regret it in the long run. Move on and try to find out who you are.
822139
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
453403
I think it could be that you have this guy in your head now because he is ignoring you.  You know the saying, you want what you can't have?  Well, when he wanted you you weren't interested...and now you "think" you may be.  \nBut...if you're really thinking about this fling guy a lot then I doubt you're truly in love with your steady.  Deep down it's probably not meant to be.  You know, real love and all that comes with it...when you're in deep, no one else can touch that.  Anyway, do the pro's and con's thing about the guy you're with and if it's more con's than pro's give him up...and talk to this younger guy if you can, about how you feel if you really think your feelings are deeper than just wanting what you can't have.  I have to say also that he sounds a tad bit immature...ignoring you after you've had a fling.  But that's just my opinion....good luck.
279570
he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
171693
My first thought is, thank goodness he is honest about this. Secondly there have surely been signs that he has not been as serious as you have been. After 2 years it should have got past liking you into something much deeper. Sounds like he has led you on. Take off your rose colored glasses and see what is really there. Why did you stay? Did you set yourself up for a no win situation because you don't think your worthy of anything else? You are, but you need to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else. A good relationship has good communication so there would be no surprises after 2 years. Let him go, work on yourself and then and only then will you be ready for more. You will also be more picky, more accurate in your choices.
111532
Sounds like you didnt break up in the first place because you lost the feelings that you had for each other but because you didnt have the time to devote to your relationship. I would say dont worry just wait until you have a chance to talk with him.
776772
Very possible.  Or he thought you were dragging your feet.  It is understandable that as more time went by, and he began feeling more insecure, that he distanced himself from you.  It was probably a way for him to protect himself in case you backed out.  Now that he feels more assured you will proceed he feels free to express his love for you again. I hope that helps.
1096246
I would move on....he apparnetly doesnt care about you sence he left. I wouldnt waste time thinking about it. Do you think he is thinking about you?? I know its sad situation and I feel for you I really do, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to not think about him anymore. Go out and do stuff.
619225
If this time apart is unusually long, and you need to think about making the first move, then it sounds like your feelings for him aren't that strong.  You don't feel strongly for this person.  Ever wondered why?  Is he even worth spending time with if he's not on your mind most of the time?\n\nFlipping the script for a bit, he hasn't contacted you in a long time.  Is he so busy that he cannot call you out for a drink?  How strong are his feelings toward you?  Do you know?  Is he contemplating the importance of this relationship as well?\n\nThose are some questions you should think about...\n\ngood luck!
493516
Hold on you live with him still? First off I've never heard of that arangement before in my life. Also what do you mean by living with are you two still together but still sexually active? If so he's using you no wonder you feel lost. You need to get yourself outta there and if your parents won't take you in find a place foryourself. In times of need there are several places like main stay suites that offer cheep extending living. Once you've done that try and find a really decent guy i'm not talking about going bar hopping, i'm talking about a place like church (by the way if you don't have religion at this poin that's another reason you feel lost, there are many christains like myself that are here to help you if you need some with comming to Christ ;) ) I know you most likely love this guy but the sooner you come to relize its time to move on you'll feel bad at first but it will get better. Don't think its not because you won't love the ex because yes you will love doesn't go away, but you have to save whats left of your heart and mend it together for that guy who's still out there you haven't met yet.
1129422
May be he is observing u, and wants to see if u change at least now .U will have to change if u want him back, and stop playing such fools cause its not a movie its ur real life. If he truly loves u , be assured he is urs and will not go anywhere else, but u have to take the first step towards him.Because u r the reason for this mess
994755
Forget him. Move on with your life. Often times it may be that when he sees you again and sees how well your doing he'll feel like an idiot for having let you go
609962
im sorry\nthe same thing happened to me w/my x. He would move out anywhere from couple days - month. \nwell eventually i had enough we are not together. \nleaving for while wil not solve any problems at all either.\nwell good  luck to you i hope things work out for you!!!
654123
I think he's changed his mind and gotten cold feet. Ask him about it and if he's still not civing you a clear answer, then maybe you should re-examine at your feelings for him. Good luck.
330490
only you know what is like and if things are not normal then you need to sit down and talk to him. ask him does he still love you and why has he stopped saying it to you. it sounds like he may be losing interest in you but just cant say it to you. tell him you need to honestly know if the relationship is to go any further. dont let him use you.
600606
You are still with him because you dont believe in yourself. If he isnt feeling you by now, he never will, leave him and find someone that appreciates you.\nOr better yet talk to him about how you feel, if he cant open up and tell you where his head is at, let him go
888118
He may say that he doesn't love you anymore -- but it's probably because he's hurting, too. I'm sure he still cares about you -- he just doesn't want a relationship anymore. And that's hard. But.. even though it may not seem like it now.. you WILL get over him, and you WILL find someone better than you could ever imagine! It just takes time. In the meantime, do something for YOU.. go shopping or hang out with friends. It always helps.:)