Can u be married and love someone else at the same time?
488675
yes..  Love is a funny thing.. it's not always something we can control..  and also.. love has many different forms..
354406
I don't believe you can control true love so it's possible.  I'd hope that I'd be in love with the person I married so it wouldn't matter.
771118
Nope..\nYou can only marry one of them.
401392
no...a marriage with a relationship is loving not just living together..
260166
when you are married.
296734
You can love two people at the same time loving each for different reasons but you can not be inlove with two people.
646966
Yes Sure you will marry a person whom you love.I can grasp this knowledge from your question that u are in an urge to fall in love and get married soon.
133853
Of course you can, but why don't you focus on establishing\na friendship or even a relationship first instead of thinking about marriage again already.
485933
Funny you should ask. When I met my husband, he and I were both married. We both had crushes on one another but was devoted to our spouses at the time. Strange thing is, our marriages fell apart at the same time, and we were able to let our feelings show. Now we are married, with a baby on the way!
377275
Yes, unless you have an open non-monogamous relationship in which you can both have sex with other people.
55831
yes unless you are married
500138
of course its possible! as long as both parties agreed to keep the friendship. Though it's a bitter situation, but I think keeping the friendship is most important coz at least you didn't lose that person at all. Loving someone doesn't always necessary mean that you have to be married to the person, you can love a person in so many ways without actually getting married.
1159202
oh hell no.... thats why you get married to be with and make love to one person
1126564
I think a person can be in love with two people at the same time. However, I think it's wrong for them to carry on two relationships simultaneously. They should choose one person, and let the other go.
329819
No. It's not fair to the person you are married to. Why not be with who you want to be with and let your wife find someone who truly loves her. She'll be upset at first, but you will all be happier in the long run.
271598
Hard call. The human mind and heart are so complex and not completely understood that anything is possible at this point. Do you have different levels and intensities of love? Yes. Is it possible that while loving one person you discover someone else who has different attributes and things about them that attract you? Yes. Does it mean you love your other love any less? No. So anything possible. What he needs to do is choose. It's human to have feelings all over for different people. (we have that capacity, intelligence and coimplexity of emotions) But our society dictates that you must be faithful to one and only one. So....he has to pick.
733014
Ignore the bashers of love in here, most of them wouldn't know love even if it slapped them in the face. My wife and I are the same as you two are, we think the same, act the same, like most of the same things, had very similar dramatic life experiences thats shaped who we are, and we married each other because we saw the bond we clearly had. More importantly, we both knew who we were as individuals, and knew what we wanted. You can't know if your meant to be with someone unless you know yourself well enough to know what feels right for you and know what you want.