I was asked to go out w/some friends...should I go?
485475
You should just go, she is not being fair. Go and have a good time, and when you get home tell her you don't want to listen to any complaining, or you might have to go out more often.
330563
You: Hey, are you going to the dance? Him: Yes. You: Oh, are you going by yourself? If it's yes, ask if he'd like to go with you, if it's no, ask if he's going with friends or does he have a date. If he has a date, you can just casually say, "Oh,she's nice. Hope to see you both there!" If it's just with friends, you can still ask if he wants to go with you. If he says he's not going at all, ask if he'd like to go with you.\n Keep it casual, light and friendly. If he turns you down completely, there's no reason to be embarrassed. You were just making conversation. Good luck!
406482
well,, friendship is a friendship, keep it that way\n\nI feel that you do not want your friendship to change, so going out with him "may" change this.  Could you say, we can go out, but as FRIENDS, I do not want anything more/less.  I'd hate to not have you as my friend anymore...
808499
If you really want to go, then go.  You could take a date or just a friend.  Whether you go alone or with someone, make it clear to your co-worker you are not interested in him that way and to stay away and let you enjoy the party.
777952
if ur friend hasnt met him yet and started going out with him then u should take a chance at it
858998
okay well since your shy have a friend (while you guys are messing around or something) ask are you guys going out? or do you guys like each other or just single him out and have them ask gee it seems like you like her...do you? and even if he says no see what he does like with his face and stuff.......
620325
Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?
223946
if you like him...go out with him... if you are comfotable being with him then go out with him... but if you are not comfotable don't go..you will not have fun if you go out with him against your will... but if you can be proud being with him...so go out with him if not tell him politely that you can't go with him... just tell him honestly and politely so that you won't spoil your friendship.
788828
I'd ask a cool co-worker if they want to go out (as friends) and tell them why. They'll understand. Get involvexc in community stuff, too. But small talk is not the #1 answer.
341869
Umm, this is a no brainer! You are a free bird either way dear! You need to call a few people and go out. Until you make a solid commitment to go steady, or call each other b/f and g/f you can date date date!!
768962
I say go for it. As ur long as ur not fooling urself that it's more then it is, I understand how it can be comforting to have someone to hang out with in a more than friendly way. as long as the guy is sensitive to ur situation and cares about u as a friend as well as a 'sensual' buddy, u can make the most of the situation!
618143
yea, just make up an occation for you 2 guys going out with other friends, then have them take for you as many pitures as you want. That's so simple.
741859
For the moment forget about your own friend.  You said you " only think of the guy as a friend and but he's okay "...based on that alone why would you choose to go out on a date with him.  You don't have an interest in any potential relationship developing with him so based on that alone...don't accept his invitation for a date.  Now, in addition to that, your friend really likes him, so to add that factor in...certainly don't accept the date.
1055185
I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!
36238
Not really.  Be careful.  If you feel you MUST go meet someone, never meet them by yourself.  Take a friend with you.  Someplace public.
705738
You know, as a straight male, it would be easy to say I don't have any idea what you're talking about, but the fact is that I have friends that like to go to C/W bars, and I don't care much for those myself, so when that's the plan, I pass. \n\nSo don't go. Go out with them when the destination is interesting to you.  No problem.
1109973
just say wanna have lunch/dinner!! dnt go to your house first time do, always meet ppl in busy places!! have fun & enjoy!!