What does being a homosexual mean to you?
476795
Someone who like the same sex that they are. That's it. Television (like Will & Grace, which I hate) make it the end all, be all of what makes a person. It's not.  You happen to like your own sex.  Big deal. That shouldn't define your whole existance, like I know people that it does.
237168
I don't believe ANYONE would actually CHOOSE to be- I mean, it's kind of like choosing between driving a car uphill and walking on your hands, in the snow, with no gloves on,  backwards, while making a homemade apple pie. Not much of a choice here, is there? \nI apologize if that was a little over the top, but I get really frustrated by lack of understanding when it comes to matters of sexual orientation. A lot of answers you'll get will be "choice", but I assure you that NONE of THOSE answers will EVER come from someone WHO IS REALLY GAY. Why the heck would we, as heterosexuals, know better than someone who IS ACTUALLY HOMOSEXUAL??\n(again, I'm sorry if I sound nasty- as the saying goes, "One of my best friends is gay."- and he is.)
31842
I hope I am not as sarcastic as some others on here and I hope to give you a little insite.  People often find themselves attracted to people of the opposite sex.  It doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. Regretfully it doesnt mean that you aren't either. It is common (especially with teenagers) to have some doubt about your sexual identity.  I think it best to be who are and not let other people label you.  The real you will shine out in the end.
575122
I'm gay and I'm not offended by the word itself. When it is used as a descriptive term for my sexual predisposition I am not bothered by it. When it is used as a derogatory insult then I am bothered, but I also consider that the person using it that way is an uninformed individual who probably has some serious insecurities concerning his/her own sexuality. I feel sorry those people and their sexual partners. \n\nSincerely,\nTerry
451865
Love is blind... a transsexual man or woman is still a person with the same needs as everyone.  I personally think you're not gay for falling in love with someone that many Closed-Minded people would think is gay.\n\nKeep in mind, the definition of gay is someone who is a man that is attracted to other men. A transsexual who is biologically born male and clearly is now a female is a woman, not a man.
1031985
It really depends on how you define being gay.\n\nFor some, being gay is simply something that happens once an act is fulfilled.  Personality, gender identification and intent are irrelevant.  So long as you had a homosexual experience, you are gay. End of story.\n\nFor others, the act is less important than the intent.  A guy, for example, might find himself having homosexual sex due to being in prison with other guys for so long.  But this does not necessarily make him gay.  Another guy, on the other hand, may find himself attracted to and willing to spend his life with another man in a sexual and passionate relationship.  He identifies himself as gay.\n\nFor others even, its more inherent in one's actions and personality than intent.  Being wishy-washy, talking with a particular accent to it, wearing certain clothes, all these are marks of being gay for some people.\n\nSo, I say decide first on what "Being Gay" means for you, then see if you apply to that definition.  That is, of course, assuming you prefer sticking yourself into a label.\n\nAfter all, why can't we all just be called sexual human beings?
755068
Being a caring person doesn't mean you are gay. You are gay if you want to have sex with other guys. If you want to have sex with other guys but also want to have sex with girls you are bi.
1183689
Homophobia is a fear/belief really, much easier changed than sexuality.  I've known people in my life that were very homophobic but changed their views after getting to know a few gay people.   I guess that's the secret, the closest there is to a cure, letting people with those attitudes get to know as people instead of remaining a faceless avatar to them.   As a gay male as much as I would love for everyone to universally accept us, we don't have the right to tell someone what they can or can't believe.  When dealing with a people like this it's ok to be assertive, but I refuse to gve them even an iota of power over me by letting their words hurt me.
468226
It means you're attracted to people of both genders, physically and emotionally. You may prefer one gender, or be completely balanced. Some people who think of themselves as bisexual will not act on their feelings, due to relationship commitments, or religious/moral/cultural beliefs, but will acknowledge them.\n\nSome people think most humans are actually bisexual to some degree, and certainly many people who identify as straight or gay have had at least *some* experience with both genders. Being bi does *not* mean you're undecided, although it's often something you hear or read. Sadly, being bi often means that you feel both the straight and gay communities object to you.\n\nYou can be bisexual and in a relationship, monogamous or open. I think one of the most important things is to be open with a partner about your feelings, but it can be hard.\n\nGood luck!
399851
You can love God and be gay. You can be gay and be loved by God. Homosexuality is no more sinful than any other sin. Everyone has sinned. The only difference would be that a true Christian will repent for the sins they know they have committed. Practicing homosexuals generally don't do that.
23063
No one becomes homosexual, so to speak.  It's a more a realization, as with any sexual fetish/preference.  You can't wake up one day to find yourself as a homosexual, you just 'are' or 'aren't'.  It is possible that someone straight could desire to turn homosexual, and actively embrace that lifestyle, but for most persons, it's not a choice, so much as a realization.
965823
Why do you have to do anything?  What does sexual orientation have to do with friendship.  If you care for this person as a friend, I don't see the problem.  I have gay friends, and it has never come between the friendship we share.  If it's something troublesome to you, talk it over with them, I'm sure they would appreciate your honesty.
454256
I don't know why I'm gay. I don't remember being given a choice. Perhaps you could tell me when you chose to be straight?
994515
So what if he is homosexual! It's just a sexual orientation. Big deal.
1155499
its because sometimes being gay means you will be prepared to live a single life and grow old  alone unless you found somebody that will sweep you off your feet, thats a different story. difficult? no. life is just a matter of adjustment.
1019982
I don't believe that it makes you gay. But, it also depends on what your definition of Gay is.  I do believe that you have homosexual tendencies.  That means that you may not be actually having sex with or being sexually intimate with men right now.  But, if the right situation presents itself, you may become involved with a man sexually.  Now, whether you will just like guys then or not, I don't know.  However, anything is possible with anything.  Just take you time and find out what makes you feel good as a person and what makes you feel good intimately and that will be your answer.  Don't worry about the label too much.
233605
Gay refers to men that love and are attracted to other men, while lesbian refers to women and love and are attracted to other women. Contrary to popular belief, most gays and lesbians do not wish they were the opposite sex or go out of their way to act like the opposite sex, but are quite happy as they are.