Today is my birthday,but is a friend's wedding too.What I shall do?Go to my friend's wedding,or my birthday?
477114
Happy Birthday.  I would go to your friends wedding because this is something that hopefully only happens once in a persons life. You will be enjoying your birthday anyway there at the wedding because isn't the important thing about BD's is spending it with people you love and care about. If you didn't care for your friend you would not be even asking this question, you would say "Its my BD, I am spending it how I want". Just think about how happy your friend will be that you celebrated this special day with her. When she gets back from her Honeymoon, the two of you and some other special friends can help you celebrate your birthday. It doesn't have to be the exact day. Just the good feeling of friends and laughter.
842877
this is your day tell them both how you feel and if you want them to both be there ask them to hide their difference for just one day. dont sit them next to each other either at the ceremony or at the reception they dont have to talk to each other or dance together.but i would think they would want what makes you happy. good luck to you and congratulations
708115
Happy Birthday!\n\nJust wanted to make sure I didn't get in the doghouse too :)\n\nIf you have to ask if you should be offended about something, then (ideally) you shouldn't be.  The fact is that you're hurt, and I think most people would be in your shoes.\n\nYes, you should say something to her.  This stuff festers if it's not addressed.  Be careful how you word it, though.  Tell her how you feel (she can't argue with your feeling) about the situation:\n\n"I felt sad when you didn't want to talk on my birthday, or even SAY happy birthday."\n\nHere's the deal, though.  When the discussion is over, let it go.  We don't get points for thoughtless stuff people do.
402908
YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT THAT DAY. ITS YOUR WEDDING. I DID IT ON MINE AND NOT ONE PERSON SAID ANYTHING TO ME. IF THEY DO JUST SAY THAT YOU ARE NERVOUS AND TO MIND THIER OWN BUSINESS. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL. ME AND MY HUSBAND BOTH DID IT. MAYBE OTHER GUESTS OR MEMBERS WILL JOIN YOU
292760
Depends on your budget.  I will say this, however.  Nothing says "happy birthday" like a ticket to an all you can eat buffet.
374923
I just went to a formal and i took one of my good guy friends. I would reccommend taking one of your friends.
637680
hi wish u a very happy birthday...\nu dont really need help to celebrate ur birthday... jus do wat u wan,, chill out wit frnds/boyfrnd or spend time wit family/pets....\nif u like to b alone then y not read a romantic novel wit a bag of chips n hot coffee... u get to do wat u wan...\nif u like to b wit people then throw a party... n dont forget to invite me..............
1127528
I would avoid her and keep out of site, but still be in the wedding.  After that, dump her as a friend.  She is obviously VERY immature and if you aren't enjoying it, or her company, why keep her as a friend?
593071
May your birthday be the beginning of a new horizon for you. Make all your dreams come true, enjoy life, and have a great party.  Blessed be
44166
I would say a funeral.  Planning a wedding is usually a positive experience.  Planning a funeral has some positive elements, but the days after, you are alone and missing that person.
1101387
I've known a few people who were born on February 29th and most did things like the other people described.  But some enjoy the experience by celebrating their 5th birthday when people born the next day would be celebrating their 20th birthday.  An Aunt in her 80's jokes about being married to a 20 year old when in actuality her husband is a few month older than her but born on February 29.  Whatever you do, have fun!!!  My suggestion is to throw yourself a huge party every four years to make up for the other three years when there wasn't a February 29.
874293
i think she would like to hear from you as long as you don't say something like " hey  baby i really miss you and want us to go out sometime"  you know what i mean. just tell her that you wanted to wish a friend happy birthday and you were wondering how she is doing, be friendly not pushy. hope it all goes well!
735641
Have a party?? \nor go out for dinner then go to the movies or do something like that it would be fun!!\nhappy birthday!!
385469
Are you officially married?  Do you love the person your with? Were your guests your close friends and family?  If yes, then most likely, the guests were just happy to be there to share such a joyous event.  What the event looked like, or actually cost, or what the service was like, means nothing compared to the joy, happiness, friendship, and company that's shared on a wedding day.  If you still feel upset about the reception, invite some of your closest friends/relatives, and throw a backyard bbq or small dinner.  That way, you can share some special time with the people you care about without having to worry about everything working out perfectly.\n\nCongratulations! Best of luck with your new marriage!
860389
Happy birthday to you,\nHappy birthday to you,\nHappy birthday dear <name>\nHappy birthday to you.\n\nFrom good friends and true,\nFrom old friends and new,\nMay good luck go with you, \nAnd happiness too.
529375
You mean, your birthday and his birthday were on the same day and, coincidentally, it was the day when your friend was buried? Wow! Okay, if this is the situation, then I have a solution that might work. Convince yourself that death is just being born again (as another entity in another world or as a superior being - just energy, maybe). Then go to your friend's grave on that day and put something symbolic on the grave, something that represents a birthday gift. Wish him happy birthday wherever he might be. Then go and have fun for both of you. \n   Even if you don't do that, you HAVE to do something, otherwise you'll blame your dead friend for your feeling bad on your birthday, which will mean the end of the friendship and you don't want this to happen, do you?
426419
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