this is a question for my friend...not me...ok, so when i  get ready to ask out a girl i can't do it...?
486831
Tell him he has to put his fear into the pit of his stomach and not act nervous no matter what!  Girls can smell fear and it scares them!  But a few minutes after talking to her he should be OK!  GOOD LUCK!
61933
say these words to your self\n\nI can talk to a girl\nwhat do I have to loose??\nwhat's the difference between me and "a name of the flirtiest guy you ever know!!!"??\n\nso you think that when you talk to a girl you will get shy and screw everything up?? in fact some girls really like it when a guy get shy while he is speaking to them.
895415
I have the same problem but I would go up to that person and ask them out. I mean I get nervous when I do that. So be confident and go ask him out. Be yourself
179990
Dude all I have to say is be patient. You just haven't find the right girl yet. When find her it'll be special. If you like a girl right now then ask her out I bet she really likes you.
425749
Do you pay?  I'm not saying she a golddigger but she ain't messin wit no broke nigger!  LMAO\n\nSerious though... maybe she needs some more time... if she a shy girl she might want to take things really slow...\n\nAlternatively maybe she thinks you are 'friends' and doesn't know that they are 'dates'...\n\nOr she just might think that you are who she should go out with so she's trying but she is just not into you physically...\n\nMore information of the girl herself necessary to answer this babe...
430298
Yeah..I would ask her out too.  What do you have to loose?  Besides, if you don't ask her, someone else will and then you may never have that chance to ask her again and you'll regret it.. Ask her out, Man!!  \n\nGood Luck.
480422
Are they running to you as a friend wanting advice on how to date your friend...or are you getting what's like to be called "sloppy seconds"? Either which way, the situation your in does stink...tell your friend whats wrong - that guys that like her and coming up to you after they ask her out...she should straighten them out for you if she's a friend. IF not, a good kick in the "whahoos" will definately push all romatic ideas with you out of a guys head. Just an idea.
518227
So just ask out the girls you think are interesting. The worst thing that can happen is they can say no. Eventually though, someone will say yes. Then take it slow and really get to know them. If you rush things you will freak them out and scare them away. Stay cool and you will have a gf in no time.
366635
no it don't mean that. the gurl dosen't come out in say i think you are attractive to me. you have to ask some questions in then ask her out or something.
207375
No offence.. but maybe it's cuz of your English?\nMaybe there is something bout the way u approach the girl that scares them off.\nDon't jus go up n say, hi i wanna be your bf. \nMake frens for awhile n make sure she has a bf or not first then only make your move. Dont jump the wagon, man
584244
I think she is testing you to see what you will do. Sometimes girls play hard to get and thats sometimes their way of doing it. Ask her again. Tell her you can't stop thinking about her and that you really like her and you would like to your friendship to a new level like dating.
65512
Wow. This one's hard to give a specific answer to. There is very little info on this, so I'll give a general answer to it.\n\nFirst off, you have to have 100% confidence in yourself because it will affect you as far as how you ask. Another thing is that you have to be indifferent to the outcome of the situation because this too will affect how you ask a girl out.\n\nNow the how to. When you ask a girl out, don't make it sound like you are asking her out. Make it sound more like you are going somewhere and ask her if she would like to join you.\n\nexample :\n"Hi, ________. Listen, I'm going to go ________. You can join me if you like."\n(first blank is the name)\n(second blank is the place you want to go)-starbucks is good.\n\nIf you do that, the girl will feel comfortable because you are not pressuring her to go with you. Instead, you are giving her the option to tag along with you.
656299
I think if you want to ask her out, you should first become more confident in your self. Girls can sense insecurity, and it's a total turn off. Then you need to just ask, like "I was going to go to go see... on friday, wanna come?"\nthen at least you can play it off like you just wanted to chill, but if it works in your favor GREAT!!!!
188873
Sorry but im taken..ha ha j/k.You have to find her...the girl thats right for you. you cant let someone pick her out for you.
338376
This worked for me a few years ago... My ( now x girlfriend ) played hard to get... I ended up asking her out at one point... Anyways, play hard to get, and when the time is right ( if God allows it ), the guy will ask you out... TRUST ME... IT WORKS...
291219
i used to ask myself the same question about some chick....but yeah as much as you would like to think you're dating you're not dating unless you call it a date....but it seems you're close enough to the girl...so start making some moves man, i'm sure she wont mind...you know little things and stuff, try to make it offical and just talk to her about...i know my other friend was worried he might ruin it friendship by asking his best friend out...but i believe you got nothing to lose and all to gain
1081572
well you decide what you want to do. yur friends shouldnt pressure you into something you dont feel like yur ready. my suggestion is that you tell her that you like her because it's alwayz better to tell someone you like rather than hiding it inside, but on the other hand you can do that if you want to. dont regret it.