Will taking steps make your relationship better or will letting whatever happens work better?
487279
Anything you do for the positive can nly make your relationship stronger and better. Relationships take work and each person has to be willing to make it work.
829296
Absofrigginlutly!  It is SO MUCH better, and yes that sometimes gets into the head and makes things happen faster then you want to, but to put is simple if the heart and mind agree it is ALWAYS better!
559276
If you actually love the person and are in a committed relationship, then he will care enough about you to go as slow as you need to, and to stop if you want to.  if this is so, then it won't hurt too badly.  it feels a little tight the first time, but not unbearable.
168749
No. Sometimes people change and circumstances require divorce that is best for one, hopefully, both parties.  It just makes you wiser and experienced.  Good luck & never give-up!
953988
Ask for goodness sakes!  How are you going to be able to find out if things are going to get better if you don't take the next step.  Are you going to wait and depend on him?  He is probably totally oblivious.  You might have a long wait.  SOMEBODY needs to make a decision.  Good luck!
239332
It will work as long as you trust each other and you are committed.  I am in the same situation.
696942
of course to both but this type of relationship is a positive for helping him to develop in life with out we would all be afraid of  change. If the relationship turns out good or bad either way it goes he will become a stronger person who will adapt to having better and more mature relationships with all types of people and I say this as in being able to work with others to make friends it is a part of growing live and learn...Learn from our mistakes so we don't make them again we wont have our parents with us forever so let life happen and see how he grows
243302
Your right but there are some exceptions.  There are things often that you know you can't work through or differences that exist that aren't even things that involve working through.  You can try everything possible to make a relationship work but at some point no matter how much you love someone you have to be honest about if it is really a relationship that can work.
968046
if you are both adult about it you could have a great time without wrecking your relationship.\ngo for it.
932003
Stay and sort it out.  There is no such thing as a meaningful relationship that has not seen it's fair share of healthy conflict --WITH resolution.  It's build strength to a relationship.  It lets you know boundaries and it lets them know you care.
1007276
make suggestion explore new ideas your part of the relationship if things are not good then make them better.
1031173
I think its better to be in a relationship
584507
not unless you are prepared to change. seems like that pink slip changes people ever so slightly, just enough may be to annoy, so why spoil a good thing, better enjoy life as it is, love rules in mind not on paper!
261370
They absolutely do get better.  The hard part is believing you will feel better and not knowing exactly how long it will take.  It can be easier to move on, for some people, if they break all contact. Believe that better days are on the way for you.
1185269
After you have gotten to know eachother better and have moved in and seen how they really are.And if u know it's really going to work.
580827
Married or not, yes, you should set up dates on occasion.\nEvery week? No.  When it works out? Yes.\nIt is important Not to let your relationship go stale.  Dates, or impromptu meetings for lunch are nice too.\nFor instance, call your mate and work out a quick meeting for lunch, or Even before work, Go to breakfast.  Keep things going and keep thing fresh, and you will have a good chance of keeping your relationship healthy.
656301
yes it can, but you both have to be honest and trust each other. good communication is also another key factor in making this kind of relationship work.