My boyfriend always wants to have sex when we are together is he just using me for sex?
494406
Well young lady first of all if you are really concerned about him using you...just say no and see where the relationship goes from there. If he is just using you for sex...then you are enabling him by allowing him to do so.  I mean is the experience pleasurable to you, or do you feel like after the deed is done he's less attentive and affectionate. In your heart I think you already know the answer to this question you presented.  Cut the sex out of the relationship and then you'll see his true colors.
1061125
If you feel you are able to handle all the possibilities and consequences that go along with it.  Hey, you could just end up with a good boyfriend.  On the other hand, he could be using you.  Oh yeah, he acts all "I really like you", or whatever, but if things go further and you "do the deed" (if ya know what I mean!), then things might change, then you will just feel used.  Remember, if all goes the way it's going, be safe have him wear protection!!!  I believe you are young, and even though babies are cute and lovable, believe me, whats in their diaper every 20 minutes isn't.  And believe me, we ALL know that STDs are a far cry from cute and lovable.  So do the SAFE thing and insist on a condom, no matter what he says about it.  No sex is better than unprotected sex.\nForeplay is the stuff you do to get eachother turned on.  The touching and rubbing, all that, is a type of foreplay.  All the stuff you do to get eachother all ready to go for sex is foreplay, pretty much.\nDo what you want, sis, but keep in mind what I have said.  People usually don't know what other peoples intentions are until its too late, so play it safe.
395111
He just wants to make sure he has sex all the time. He is a bad dude..dump him fast.
656944
It seems like you want sex more when you can't get it.  It sounds like he is using that as an excuse.  I have never heard of a man getting bored with sex.  Talk to him and if you can live without the sex stay with him, if not kick him to the curb.
755853
The person above is right, he is just using you.  Besides if he talks to you like that when he wants you back, how is he going to treat you once he has you.
616650
He is using you. If he left you while you were pregnant then he is a looser. Then he just wants to have sex. He is just using you until he finds someone else don't put your self in that mess with him. You feel guilty because you have his child. Don't be that girl.
939778
First I can guarantee you that he will use you\n\nSecond - just let him do it because you are insecure and want to be accepted by him.
1093099
Dont have sex if ur not ready, why does he keep pressuring u?doesnt he love u? Its obvious that his "manhood" stands priority over ur feelings, because if he love u like he's probably telling u then he wouldnt pressure u, someone who loves u would take the time to talk it out with you and see where the two of u stand on the situation it seems like he's just trying to score.
601240
Either he's falling in love with you, or he wants to bang you.  \n\nAnswering this question becomes a lot easier if you've already having sex...
936191
Your last few words sum it up well,...when you say, "he never calls me."\n\nSounds like he is using you sweetie. I am sure you have a lot to offer someone. Move on to someone who appreciates you and wants to spend time with you, doing more than having sex.
1178806
That makes sense to me. Spend some time with him. See what it is or isn't turning into. If he really really likes you, it wouldn't be JUST for sex. Make sure thats the case. Its natural for BOTH man and women to want sex. Also, I think why lose respect for people for wanting good healthy sex. Either way. Your caution makes a lot of sense to me considering that it sounds like maybe you dated some jerks. Maybe too many.
552745
sounds to me that he's the classic 'L' word for sex type.. some guys will say they love you to get some.. please dont let yourself fall into that trap.. talk to him about the way he treats you.. if he loves ya he will stop.. but girl.. Id get away while you still can.. you dont want to find yourself in situations later that suck..
1119691
its the only way we know to share intimance. besides if he seems to be only after sex, then two things 1. either you are boring or he is boring and there is nothing else he can think to do with you other than sex. 2. or he is a wolf on the prowel and unless you are looking for the same you should probably let him be.\n\none more thing, when two girls date eachother isn't one always driving the sexuall bus. i mean i know some gay chicks and they can shame any man with their sexual exploits. so maybe its not jus the sex of the person (male or female) but the role in the relationship both parties choose for one another. if you were more sexually driven than your partner would they start acting like what it seems your acting now?? just a thought.
701969
the fact that he said that when you guys start dating, he wants a sexual relationship shows you that he wants just sex.  Obviously, when he got on the internet, he was looking for someone to have sex with.  If you two guys do have a relationship, just have sex and nothing else and then when you leave in the morning after that night of sex, see if he says...why are you leaving?  If he says that, he may want more, but if not, he just wants sex.\n\nIf he puts up a fight for you to stay at his house, then he does want a real relationship and a lot of sex.  If he doesnt, then he just wants sex...eventually when something happens,you will know what he is thinking really.
401906
I was in teh same boat kinda of I started dating a girl who was almost 10 yrs younger. There were times that I just wanted to stay home and be by myself. It had nothing to do with her. She and I lived in different states and saw each other about every month. I moved down here for her things went awry we broke up. I distanced myself from everything and did not want to be bothered I waited a year before I ever dated again. regardless of skin color it should not matter if he loves you truly. I doubt he is using you just for sex. Talk to him or his friends was he hurt in a past rleationship? I hope this can help you out
320205
if he is only interested in sex with u,then it is understandable that he loves only your physical body. it indicates he does not want long lasting relationship with you.\n   dont worry,god will definitely help you.
271796
He might be testing you to see what are your reaction when he calls u fr sex. Just refuse once and see his reaction. May be he is just using u.Generally when men call the ladies fr sex 10 out of 9 agree thats why many females fall into the trap. Do u get what you want from him when u oblige to his sex needs. If s then geat waht u want.Its for u to decide. If u still love ur husband then why did you divorce him in the first place.Defenitely you both did not know the others needs and after the divorce if he still calls u fr sex only then he is making use of u. So you have to be full in yourself only then you can handle a situation like this.You are not full because every time he calls u for sex you oblige this you are not fuul in yourself. So first understand youreslf ans ask what you want.then u wiil acheive ur goal.