Help I messed up with my bf  and I really don't know what to do.?
477696
Don't listen to Kimber! Never Say Never! \n\nPick up the phone & call him if you like him! Just remember, the worst he can say is no! Then you know how he feels and move on! \n\nThere's a lot of nice guys out there!
313842
So basically he ditches you?  That's pretty ridiculous, why do you put up with it?  You're just wasting your time.  He obviously doesn't like you if he isn't even willing to spend time with you.  Dump him, seriously.  Stop wasting your time on someone like him.\n-L
355672
well, i would say talk 2 him, find out what went wrong in the relationship then get 2 kno him better again
985012
there is something wrong with you if you already don't know what to do. you need to ask yourself it you trust your bf or not and find out how happy he is with you and the relationship. if there are somethings that need to be worked on then do it. the two of you should confront her together and tell her to kick rocks.
760147
well dont be an idiot about it. you obviously know what he's trying to do...so dont let him..tell him what the deal is, and that hes not going to use you to compete with your bf
645675
You just got played! No one made him do anything he didn't want to do. He cheated on you. Period. Can you live with that? Your answer to that question should tell you what to do.
1048513
Would you want to be with someone who did not love you back? If he used the excuse that he thought you were playing him to back of on the relationship then he is  a loser anyway! Move on with your life. You are better off!
305600
talk to him. explain to him what went wrong. if he truly loves you, he will understand you!
485763
that's kind of hard, he might still b upset with u 4 leaving him, my advice spend some time with him and c how he acts, if the vibe is good then try flirting with him a lil, but i think the best thing 2 do is let him know how u feel, tell him your sorry 4 what happened and that u were going through a ruff period.
805129
give him the silent treatment, what he did was wrong, and you deserve to be treated better than that.  Maby change your phone number, and ignore him completely.  Then work on finding a guy who will treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. Or if he straightens up, then try it again, I recommend, finding a better guy, though.  Good luck!\n\nSavage
514133
I'm sorry your heart is broken.  Break up with him, and thank goodness that you found out now instead of later.  Your heart will heal with time.  Take that time to heal and move on.  You'll find somebody new.
932361
I answered a similar question two days ago. Remember I told you that it was a mistake to stop talking to him because of your bf, but I thought u said u could never date him? U were not truly honest were u? Just beg and implore him to forgive you, if he likes u he might. Good luck, I mean that.
860262
Wow, I'm sorry but...what? I don't understand hardly a thing that you wrote. Please fix your writing next time. Anyhow, from what I can tell? Dump him. There is to much drama in this relationship for what's it worth. You deserve a guy who respects you and you deserve the best. We all do. Good luck and God bless.
638347
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you've realized you are not ready to jump into a relationship. We all miss-judge and make mistakes, he should understand that you were confused. I think he would appreciate your sincerity.
775962
break up with him, date someone else, when he asks why, tell him, because he doesnt treat you right. if he wants you back, he will shape up, if not, then you were not happy with him to begin with, so move on.
664321
uh oh i have been in this exact situation before and it didnt turn out to good because i didnt take action. i just let it go, and he eneded up dumping me. you have to ask him whats going on between us or something will happen, because my last bf only wanted me, and not me(like my personality) he just wanted to make out and it was badddddd ACT FAST. NO JOKE!!!!1\nor mabey you should listen to everyone else, i mean, if he barley talks to you, does that mean he bareley says i love you or he wont TALK to you? mabey he doesnt want to say i love u around his friends or something. mabey he's past the stage of the everyday i love you, youre beautiful thing.
1084085
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.