What can I do about this guy?  I'm very confused...?
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He feels stuck perhaps. Wanting something that you know won't work out doesnt make it easier to let it go. Its something he wants somewhere inside of him. So he either gets to A- Work it out and be with you OR B- Move on. This theory that you guys are too different to work out is all in his head. If two people are committed to making things work, It can work. The basic question to solve these things is to ask yourself What is the more loving thing to do for me? Which result causes more pain? It may take a little bit of time to sort it out. Good luck Sweetie. Hope everything goes well for you.
313381
He does not like you and plus he is afraid of giving you a direct answer.\nFind someone else, because hanging after a guy will make you seem worthless. Show him what you are worth by sending him only one message like "Tell me why you are not talking to me or i will never  want to have to talk with you again. I am more worth than how you  treat me!!!".\nShould he not answer. Do not think about it twice, dump him and go on with your life!!! YOU ARE MORE WORTH than depending on what others might choose for you. \nWho is he that he should determine whether you are good enough to talk to or not. Such people are disgusting!
144416
Honesty is best.  Tell him that you are confused.  Ask what his intentions are for his keeping in touch.  Does he still have feelings for you?  Does he want to date you again?  Or is he keeping you close because he wants to be your friend?  Ask him straight up.  Then take it from there.
473567
Tell him you're confused and ask him what he wants. I'm actually in a similar situation right now.
793132
He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
1112084
It is a good thing you found this out now, There is no way you want any part of this person at all...\n\nYou move forward, and do not look back, he is NOT worth it!!!
434730
You are too available for him. Back off and see if he comes back around. If not, move on!
534636
i bet you he has another interest in a different person. my advice is to be distant with him, dont call him, let him wanna talk to you. he'll come to you.he probabvly fells sufficated.
766396
the real question is... what are you doing with a guy like that? find a guy that would respect you. I'm sure there's alot out there.
313337
Cut your losses and walk away.  This person is obviously in a committed relationship already.  Walk away and don't look back, move on and find someone single.  Try your best not to think or talk about this person.  Only time will get him out of your head, but DO NOT PERSUE HIM!  HE's TAKEN.
518864
Just step back and see this picture as it is. He is not the one for you. Move on. If you want to remain friends and have your feelings all mixed up for his benifit go ahead, because he is more important than you right? I did not think so, so just put this dude in your history book and be thankful he was honest enough to let you know who he really is before you fell more into him.
872416
Do not pursue him. Leave him alone and go on with your life.
749068
your confused b/c he's making you confused, i don't believe he's confused one bit he's just stringing you along, and you are right he is too scared, too scared to completely let go of you all he's doing is talking nonsence to you....what i think is happening here is he wants to keep you waiting for him while he 's out exploring his options, he's afraid you might find you someone else...and he won't have anybody, he doesnt want to get back with you or else he would have, i mean whats stopping him?? all he's saying is i'll just keep playing mind games with her until i find me somebody i really like....don't fall victim, i would surprise him and would tell him to just go on with his life....that you are not meant for each other...get rid of the stress and you will feel so much better.
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
1144187
this guy sounds hopeless... you should go out with someone who has more on their mind
1021813
It sounds to me like he's confused.  Worst case, he's lying to you or at least not giving you the whole truth.  Speak candidly with him, find out the entire story and make a connection with him!  How does he really feel about you?  When he answers, do you believe him?  Listen to your instincts!
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im confused about my guy as well...i guess no way out.. unless u wanna ask which i dont think is the best idea... do wht im doing - waiting, if he loves u, he iwll tell u someday...just b patient