would it be messed up to ask this girl to be mine but just 4 a month cause i leave in 1 month into the service
480539
Just for a month?\n\nWhat kind of guy jerks a girl's feelings around like that? How would you feel if you were the one being asked to be the girl's and a month later she left?
592056
Find yourself another girl for that month and your current girlfriend she just wants some time to have sex with this guy that's if she haven't already.  Don't let her play with your emotions if she needs time let her go for good.  If she really loved you she wouldn't be asking for time because another guy.  Come on shes obviously a whore.  Don't buy her any gifts and for that whole month don't call her shes gonna realize she lost a great guy that B.I.C.T.H!!!!!!!!!!
326626
Mmmmm...depends how long you've been together...if you've been together for a long time go with her (if it's ok w/her...)and show soliderity as a couple...if it's only been a little while, no, give it  some time...let them get to know you in small doses...
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
170920
You tell him the truth about how you feel and should respect your choice.  If your under 18 though I encourage you to wait and not just jump into this.
975916
Seems like you two really hit it off quickly, so why not. \nIf your comfortable asking and she accepts, there shouldn't be a problem. Of course run it by your family first to see what they think.
558176
If you do all those things with an open heart, then yes. Be open to whatever comes to you and go to the fullest you can! It is only a month.\n\nWhat the experience will be is either a loud call or a quiet whisper, but in all, it will be a certainty.
1146561
Wow after a year you probably made a really high name for yourself...........................................Wait,........ a month??!!! Damn your nose is so wide open!!  Pay her bills for the whole month that should do the trick!!! LMAO She should be ready to pop the question by now
823018
Go for it mate ! Ask her out . When you see her walking out or in the gym, take a deep breath and just ask her . If you dont you will always wonder what if . You will regret it if you dont . Trust me i know !!!!!!!!!! If you dont ask her some other geezer might get in there before you. Just say " Do you fancy coming out for a drink?"  How easy is it to say that. DO IT !!!!!!!!!!! Good luck young jedi ! If it turns out that you land up getting married can i get an invite to the head table. If you pick this as best answer let me know how you got on when you leave feedback.
449675
Its probably a temporary move foe modelling, right?  I would take it.  You will always wonder what if, if you don't.  Also it will be a true test of your relationship if you can survive being apart.
714635
Females are a different kind of creature all on their own. It's like if we say no, it means yes! Females believe in "romance". I think your friend is wanting more personal attention from you, without having to really ask for it. She wants it to be your own idea. So maybe she thought if she told you she needed "time", you might get scared you may be losing her, and make a quick step forward! I know it sounds silly, but like I said, we sometimes are strange! But in a good way!!! So, I think if you truly do love this lady, go out on the edge, and really show her-she's needing it!!!
1035795
Nope, not without a ring on your finger. Get some sort of commitment first so that you aren't making a huge mistake. Boys can come and go but you don't want to jeopardize your job for someone who hasn't committed to you first. :)
245653
Don't stress out about it. Phones are few and far between, and the military schedules don't often coincide with the soldier's personal desires. I'd give it a few days, if not a few weeks before I'd get worried.
165195
Becarful with that, its a tricky situation.  You dont want to mess up a good thing, but you dont want to miss out on something that could be better.  Try and find out if what she feels toward you.
79829
why going to her if u are taken anyways...could just cause problems for u...if the situation gets out of hand ..if she comes to u...i would talk to her maybe flirt a lil but tell her u are already taken...
645156
You've got time.  You asked her, she said yes, and she's married so I'm sure she knows of the time commitment that goes into a wedding.  Plus you've got fourteen months to wait.  Dropping her would basically ruin your friendship.  If it gets to be closer in and she's not helping out as a maid of honor "should," then you might have to talk to her about it, but right now ... you've got more than a year, relax a bit.
140648
If you have not even attempted to try and contact this person in a month why is it so important now?  I believe,if you haven't needed her in your life for the past month you don't need her at all. I would just leave it alone. It not nice to use people, if this person was really someone that you cared about you would never have asked ur question!