how to undersatn a man?
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Men are easy. We want sex, sex and more sex. You females have to take the reins and control us. We like being fed, and pampered by our mothers, I mean girlfriends, and wives. \nWe like being told that we're big strong men, that we're superb lovers, knights in shining armor if you will. If you let us have our loud smelly friends over for beer and the football game you'll win our undieing support! If you feed and nurture us you'll win our hearts! If you love us you'll win our soul! Remember, men are just boys with size 40 clothing and beer bellies.
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Talk to him and tell him that you wish he would give you more attention. Guys are pretty naive sometimes and just don't realize things.
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Get closer to him.  Make subtle moves that u feel comfortable with.  U never know unless u try
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more details required? \n\ni think  if u cant get him then probably u should divert ur mind in something constructive, something else...persue a hobby i guess.
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You never get a second chance to make a first impression.  But you can try to woo him over by just being honest.  Tell him it was a bad day and that you'd like to wipe the slate and start over.  Bribe him with a homecooked meal-- most men jump at the chance for a chick to cook for them.  Have wine with dinner, candles, nice music, and dress nice.  At the end of the night,after you've been your usual charming self, tell him, "Aren't you glad you had the chance to meet the real me?"  I bet you he'll say yes.
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Best way to keep your man is to beyourself, do not at like a bunnny boiler, let him do his own thing and don't act jealous,clingy, and do not tell him what he can and cannot do!
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I think you need to find out what you want first in a guy.  Money, power, good looks, or just someone that makes you comfortable and happy.\n\nIf that doesn't work, just grab the next guy that comes along your way and train him to satisfy you...
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None of this let him come to you crap - unless you're very manipulative it won't work! And don't throw yourself at him either; as desperation is just as unattractive as shrewdness. \n\nInvite him over, cook a nice meal, watch a romantic or horror movie (but not too soppy a chick flick) and snuggle up to him on the sofa. If he doesn't like you he will look uncomfortable and try to move away; if he likes you he will probably put his arm round you. If nothing further develops then, when he's going home give him a cuddle and peck on the cheek.\n\nHe won't feel pressurised but will realise you must like him and think how nice you are. Once he starts thinking about you that way trust me love will soon follow.
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i think you should just take it easy. go on slow and see what happen. no point forcing him, make him close up more
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Send a text to his phone and make out it was for someone else. If he is a jelous guy then he will turn on the hot to get you back. Dont make it sound too full on though or he might get turned off. Just say something like "Thanks for the coffee and the chat yesterday. It was amazing how those 4 hours flew by. I never thought a guy had that much insight" If you leave it like that then it will show him that he is missing out on something.\n\nHope it helps.
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I'm a guy and have been on the opposite side of this situation a lot.  Here's what you want to do:\n\nBe good friends with him with no expectations.\n\nDuring this time, do everything you can to "play" like you're not attracted to him at all.  Here are some things that will make him begin to think of you as more than a friend:\n\n1) Ask for his help on things.  Men love being needed.\n\n2) Once in a blue moon, let him know a way that you admire who he is and what he does\n\n3) Keep up your appearance\n\n\nThat's it.  Let him initiate everything else.  If he does, he does.  If he doesn't, he doesn't.
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Ignore the guy make him want you. Some times we want what we can't have ;)
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Just take control. Tell him enough with the chit chat and flirting. Say something like OK, listen here, I like you, you like me now lets go out and have fun. Some guys just need a little boost in their ego to get going.
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At the beginning, try to understand what he likes and dislikes only by yourself. Then causally, start asking him about himself. Keep your wits working. You start accommodating him before he does.Have a meaningful and productive sexual relationship which pleases both of you. Learn how to pretend and exercise pretensions according to your wits. Let him know your mind only when it suits your purpose.
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Knowing the problem is 70% of the solution.  STOP BEING NEEDY!  Like yourself and depend on yourself so that you don't need to "need" a man....then you'll ENJOY a man's company.  They stick around longer if you do this!
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Well firstly you must act as soon as possible cuz his feelings will grow deeper everyday and the more he tries to smutther you the more you will resist him and believe me baby the last thing you want, is to shock this guy with a sudden timeout or slowdown call cuz then he'll begin to feel rejected and hurt he then might start to think that there is another guy as most of us men do. if he is a fairly intelligent guy then u could start to express your feelings in your behaviour patterns such as shortening phone calls and mildly shying away when he touches u and he will then ask whats wrong and tell him there and then but in a manner that he understands and also state clearly your position in this relationship try not to be too vague and at the same time show some care or emotion in your words atleast this registers some amount of selfworth in his mind that u still care but not as much as he thought. as long as that is cleared up u will find it is eaiser to make a decision whether to stay in the relationship or ends it on good terms
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act like a stuck up beatch,as if he were beneath you. guys usually don't like that