Why do my orgasms seem to be more intense from rear penetration than from vaginal penetration?
476400
Ur g-spot recieves more direct pressure and stimulation from this position.  Have your lover try two fingers pressing toward your belly-button as well.
634514
First off, girls are rarely ever just relieved when a guy ejaculates.  Generally she is more relieved after an orgasim and no matter how many porn stories say that orgasms happen simultaniously, they don't usually and a lot of the time it feels better when you don't.  Speaking of my personal sex drive, I last longer when I orgasm everyday or a few times each day, but I cum quicker after a longer period of abstinence, just like guys.  I don't usually feel much sexual tension though during long absences of sexual "relief."  Email me if you have more questions.
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LOL at the fingers and tongues answer... if you can get your tongue down there you've got it made! :D\n\nSeriously, though, it's harder for a woman to orgasm just from penetration.. so a dildo or fingers or (sigh) cucumbers generally don't work as well.  \n\nClitoral stimulation is the way to go... if you don't know where that is, touch your finger to the top edge of your vaginal opening, then pull it towards your belly button... there's a small bump towards the top of your vagina that feels really really good to touch.\n\nStimulation can be done in lots of ways... repeated touching (often touching the sides feels better than just rubbing the round part), nearly anything that vibrates (back massagers, electric toothbrushes, etc) and if you have one of those cool shower heads with the adjustable spray intensity, that has a long hose, that will rock your world.\n\nSo have fun, take your time, and remember that it's a normal and healthy activity... and one that will make you a better lover!
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all your energies are focused tooo!!!!!! much on da orgasm... creating too much anxeity...and too much expectation... which creates a block... Next time you have sexs dont be in a hurry...and dont search for orgasm somewhere in your brain or any other part... just realx and have sexes as if orgasm never existed...just wait and watch...it will come as surprise guest!!! all da best...
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It's very possible.  Orgasms are due to firing of synapses in the brain and are usually caused by stimulation, but don't have to be.  It's very possible to have spontaneous orgasms, though it's rare.
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there's actually a part of the woman during orgasm that acts like a "scoop" and grabs the sem*n and brings it further into the body...to help in creating a baby.\n\nOtherwise it falls victim to gravity. So it runds down your leg..on the sheets...etc....\n\nStudies have shown that women who "get" sem*n are actually happier.  The body produces hormones.\n\nBut play safe children.....stay protected
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there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm...all orgasm is stimulated by the clitoris.....find a position that either stimulates the clitoris or do it yourself during sex...that will do it.
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I have orgasms in my sleep all of the time.  That is because for me orgasms are mental, emotional and psychological.  Penises don't get me to have an orgasm.  A tongue, fingers, but not penetration.  I think this is very very common.  Only about 32% of woman can orgasm with penetration alone.  Did you ever wonder why the clitoris is on the outside?  It is because we are designed to be sexually stimulated without the penetration.  Some women can have orgasms with penetration, but its about 3 out of 10.  \n\nYou can try a few things.  You can have penetration and have him or you stimulate your clitoris during sex.  You can try different positions where his pubis rubs against your clitoris during sex.  You can read the Kama Sutra positions and experiment.  But don't put yourself down because of your anatomy.
1124106
the same reason women have a butt or what ever fetish.  They just think they are sexy.\nAlso if you look it up there are spots on the feet that make you have more intense orgasms.
271137
You have your internal and your external orgasms.  Internal orgasms are reached through penetration while external ones are reached by playing with the clitoris.
651991
This could not be further from the truth. In fact its quite the opposite, when a girl gets comfortable enough with herself that she can masturbate to orgasm she often finds it easier to orgasm during the real thing. Also understand that there is more than one type of orgasm that women can have, a clitoral, and a g-spot. \n\nAs for your sex drive question, different people have different levels of sexual anticipation its normal and you should consider yourself lucky.
507525
Yes. And some orgasms are stronger then others.
136257
Most women cannot have vaginal orgasms and must have clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.  Make you or your partner spend considerable amount of time in oral sex before you move to penetration.
520753
Well sometimes, when you and your lover are getting really hot and nasty, it just feels like the right time to do it!! When you've got baby-oiled up or whatever!! LOL!! \n\nOf course, you have to be totally relaxed and I found that rubbing my clit or getting him to do it (whilst he's in there)makes the whole thing much more pleasurable!\n\nIt's not something I want to do all the time, but now and again, hell why not!! When it comes to what makes a women come, we are all different. And not only that, but what may make me orgasm one week, might not work for me the next!!
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the intensity of the chromosomes flow( the liquidity u feel in the vagina) the more u feel the more the women is getting satisfied and more as increase in the time and intensity(speed also varies) of sex u do for long time her presuure between the walls of the vagina increse those things u can feel \n\nthe bigger and easy thing  is she will be in a xtacy state \n\nUse Foreplay play and the veryimportant is after play
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Not desensitised as such though all strong stimuli on the clitoris are likely to cause some short term numbing/dulling of sensitivity. The problem though is really about becoming dependent on strong stimulation from shower heads, mains powered vibrators or the like. If you train your body to expect and respond to strong stimuli it is likely that more gentle ones that used to be enough to cause orgasm will now be insufficient or will have to be maintained much longer than before to work. Fortunately this is not a perminant thing and easing off the strong stimulation for a few days will sort things. One good tip for the males: We found that using an Hitachi Wand on my partner's penis twice a day not only gave him orgasms but made him much better at controlling his orgasm when we have sex (he is trained to hold off from the intense wand vibrations so sex dose not over stimulate him). He can take 30 minutes or more of vigerous activity before climax where 10 used to be his limit.
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During orgasm in both males and females, there is a throbbing action in the genitals that pulses with a period of approximately 0.8 seconds. Although this takes place internally in the female (primarily at the cervix), it is sometimes possible to observe this externally at the fourchette. \nSome women exhibit a "sex flush", or a reddening of the skin through vasocongestion, during the later stages of arousal. The absence of "sex flush" could simply mean a woman who never experiences it, or a woman who is faking arousal. However there is no evidence to suggest women who experience "sex flushes" do so with every orgasm so the absence of a "sex flush" in a woman who is known to experience them should not be taken as evidence the woman is faking an orgasm. \nOrgasm is almost invariably accompanied by darkening and erection of the nipples in both men and women. \nThe clitoris generally becomes extremely sensitive and in some cases, may become too sensitive to be touched.