i love my bf so much but i need your advice....?
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If he is wanting a certainty that you will be together forever, there isn't any and there never is certaintly, especially in relationships, sometimes things work out great and sometimes they don't, its just how it works. \n\nSo, if he doesn't take the chance then he will never know.  He can't go through life fearing what might or might not happen...that isn't living. If he is unwilling to make the commitment or to take the chance, there may be other things going on that you aren't aware of. Communicate with him, try and find out what other feelings or fears he has around marriage.\n\nHope this helps
868796
My dear, i am in the same situation as you. my BF is 600km away. we are still studying and only meet once every 4 to 5 months. we keep our relationship more like a best friend relationship rather then a love relationship. The most importand of all is the word TRUST. with it you will be sucessful. We have been in a long distance relationship for more then 3 years now and we will be getting married end of next year. \n\nMy dear, I really want you to suceed. many people around you will discourage you saying that because he is not by your side,you will break up soon. dont believe it.  if i can make it. you can too. just trust him. do more emails to him. sms him more. call him more. send you pictuers to him via MMS or email. let him know how much you love him.\n\nI wish you all the best.
760147
well dont be an idiot about it. you obviously know what he's trying to do...so dont let him..tell him what the deal is, and that hes not going to use you to compete with your bf
402170
Be honest with him. Let him know that you appreciate and are flattered by him wanting to be your bf however, I like you only as a friend and nothing more.  We could be friends if you would like??  This way the damage is minimal and you let him know that you appreciate his offer.
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Hello, girl. \nYou must be such a sweet cute girl.\n\nFirst of all, please be natural.\n\nYou don't have to think that you are going to steal him from his friend. If you really want to be with him again, talk to him honestly and tell him your true feeling that you have right now. \n\nIf he doesn't seem to hear you at this moment,  please leave him for a while, and you can open the window in your room now to feel warm sunshine outside to get relaxed.  \nIf you really think of him as your best bf, he will come back to you.\n\nLife is just once and I hope you will enjoy your life with your good friends around you.\n\nGood luck!
478378
best way is to have a new bf and let him tackle this situation. guys are bulls, they fight and they decide once for all. i m ready to pretend to be ur bf, just let me know......i will kick his....
866543
You must listen to your heart.  Are you really in love with this man or just adoring his mature ways?  Good Luck.
1079788
do something special to you...think of something that you two have a connection by and go from there...most of the time, the smaller things are more important than the big things...do something from your heart that lets him know you think about him all the time and he is the one for you right now
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love him more ,do what he likes as long as it doesnt bother you ,let him think that you cant do any thing without him ,(but of cource you can ) these tiny things moves there head dear \ndo it and see
907070
Actions speak louder than words.  Even he says he loves you, if he does not show it, it means nothing.  He might not realize this either.  But when you love someone, you would want to spend as much time with them as possible (though work may be hard), and do nothing to hurt your partner's feeling (including reciprocating another girl's interest in you).  Why don't you take a break from each other and see how much you mean to each other?  You may find that there are other men out there who would appreciate you more than your current bf does.
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I knew I loved my bf the first time I laid eyes on him.  But I didn't tell him exactly how I was feeling til around Christmas time which was 3 months into the relationship.  But I agree with my bf ... saying I love you to your bf / gf puts a different spin on the relationship.  Makes things more serious.  So I would advise that before you say those 3 words to him that you make sure that it is exactly how you are feeling.
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I wouldn't do anything right now.  You've told him how you feel.  You have to give him some time.  I'm sure he still loves you too.  You both need to be sure that you are in love not that you just love each other and are used to being together.  I wish you the best!
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dear! guys do the same as the girls do it past when they have the power to realize! He loves you too and pretending that "now he dont care" but being an honest friend, i would suggest you u dont wait for him...to ask you the same again! just go and play...tell him u like him a lot...and wanna go out now with him....just tell him a awesome poem...a love poem..being romantic is the ultimate solution! the more romantic you're to your bf..he'll attract the more to you...now dont wait and simply tell him that you love him! he'll definately be happy frm inside and will giv you the rest of his life!
727158
I love him...but? I don't think you do love him in a way that will sustain your relationship. I think you know that too. It's time to move on.
362001
If you love him that much, then wait.  Gain his trust slowly and you will more than likely end up with a wonderful relationship.  Good luck!!
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Do the same! or find something better so that your bf come from frist place to second place!\n(just for a limit time)
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ask ur bf to undrestand that ur xams r approaching\nif he understands then he is a true lover if dont then u urself understand that wat does he want