this is for the ladies what is up with you guys likeing the bad boy type guy what is wrong with a nice guy?
482579
I know this was for the Ladies but I just want to say right on man. I swear its the truth. If you don't beat or degrade a woman somehow then they don't like you. Some of us who was raised to treat women with respect just get screwed.
248247
There are no nice guys and bad girls. They are all people like you and me. Forget about labels and stereotypes your friends want you to believe. The only important thing is what's in your heart. How do you feel? My advice is to stay healthy and attractive to the opposite sex. That means caring for and loving people that care for and love you.
14744
I like sensitive guys. Atheletic guys are too rough. Good thing: They listen to what you say. Bad thing: They are too quiet or shy, so they might not make the first move because you are too quiet and shy aswell. Plus, they may not contribute to your conversation, because they're afraid of saying the wrong thing and losing the girl. This is just my opinion.
880492
it means they dont like guys who arent real. Who arent ina relationship for the heck of it. We just want a guy who isnt fake and isnt a liar.
1150662
cause we like a guy who looks great n has a great personality\nwhats wrong with that?
1179502
I like the thrill of goin' out with a 'bad guys'. i don't know it's sort of hard to explain. but thing is it depends, on what kind of girl you're talking about. Me for example, like both. i think that 'good guy are very sweet,cute,kind, and caring. And i think 'bad guys' are rebelious, funny, risk-takers, and i'm-bad-and-you-love-it-sexy. But you've got to admit, all guys aren't exactly perfect angels, everyone's got a little naughty streak in them.
509344
you know I'm not good looking but almost of my bf is bad and not good looking ones, because i felt in love with that man. based on my experience and from my friends usually bad boys are rely lovable or "chick boy", many girls love them because they are bad... :-)
576475
why do women always think the guy is angling after something.i will do anything for anyone.no matter how old,or young,or ugly,or beautiful they are.maybe he is just a nice guy.it sounds to me as if you have had trouble with men in the past and are taring them all with the same brush.
452273
It's simple. Some women just don't know what they want. They always want the fantasy, the romance, the trumpets. I'm a woman and I think it's a lot of bull. I'm with a guy who is nice and fun, sexy and confident. He may be just an ordinary guy at times (sit in front of the TV, feast on pizza) but when he wants to impress me or be romantic he surprises me!
387030
Nice guy's only seem to finish last, when all is said and done, nice guy's finish first with the best women. It's a sorting out process, you don't want the women who like bad guy's anyway.
921715
After dating several bad boys I realized I was tired and wanted to date a nice guy.  So I tried to find my very best guy friend that was so much fun yet very very nice and when I found him he is now married.  Lesson learned.  I think all women should think twice before pushing the nice guy away for the cool guy.
13839
I think a clue could be with your username. It kind of indicates that you like the "bad boy" type. The majority of those are not going to treat you well. Guys like myself are good guys who the bad boys don't have the guts to mess with. You need to find one of those...We always treat our women extremely well and you have all the fun with none of the drama...Lol.  ;)
972384
Girls never are attacted to good guys.  They like the bad boys and then try and make them into good guys that they end up not wanting.   How about you save yourself a little grief and just tell him to let the bad boy come out in the bedroom a little.  That way you can have the best of both worlds.
905847
First of all it's not in the human nature to see the good in people. Secondly, u cant blame anyone man or woman for questioning gestures especially when it comes to a man woman relationship (especially if ur dealing with attractive members of the opposite sex). Like if a guy approaches an attractive lady  and if the guy is attractive himself (or vice versa) the first thing on ur mind is usually not 'oh he's such a nice guy' it's usually where's the attached string or what does he/she want. Some people try to deny this NATURAL reaction and be like oh I didn't think anything of it. Granted, sometimes there aren't any hidden agenda's but unfortunately an evolution has occurred in the boy girl relationship world (partly thanks to the media) so u just gotta go through the whole process. Prove to whoever it is ur interested in that ur sincere and see if it works out.
352355
Apparently you must be a nice guy. What's so bad about a woman thinking you like them any way? Sounds more like a compliment on your part.
319161
As a girl myself, the best answer I can come up with is a feeling of excitement (and attention. Guys whistling, staring, etc..) Something about "bad boys" attracts some women. Just the feeling of going crazy, living life on the wild side turns them on. It's stupid and they're blind if guys treat them like dirt, but the thrill keeps them clinging on.
896924
bad boys are exhilarating!!!    i like to be kept on my toes!!;-)\n\nreally though i like to find guys who are caring, etc. after you get to know them.  but in the beginning i'm into the a**holes.  its a rush to be overpowered and out of control once in a while!!\n\n;-)