Should you trust a friend that backstabbed you if you have known them all your life and if they said sorry?
478147
people say stupid things at times. you should give her another chance.
371745
Well it's not realy that hard. I also got a lil problrm that i am in with my friens but I will tell u what i think. If they are realy true friends they will forgive u no matter how big ur lil problems are. I know it is sometimes hard to admit that u might be wrong or that u were or are wrong but soetimes it is the best thing to do. But yea anyways alway forgive but u don't have to forget.
749755
You should be grateful he's nice enough to apologize, and you should be glad that he's still willing to be friends with you. Concentrate on the good things in life.
445576
I think when the trust is broken,\nyou'd really need to give it time.\n\nYou cannot expect it to be alright after doing something as an apology, meaning, it might really be difficult to wipe away the hurt caused.\n\nIf it's something you did that hurt him/her,\nmaybe you have to use your actions to show him/her that that was just a mistake and it would never happen again.\n\nIt's going to take time,\nI don't think it'll be an immediate effect.\n\nSo if he/she's really so important to you,\nand you didn't mean to hurt her.\nYou have to be patient.\n\nBecuase it's not so easy.\nAll the best.
180678
Betrayal is one of the most tragic things that can happen to a person.  Betrayal from a friend is the worst kind.  I hosnestly don't know what I would do.  I would be heartbroken for sure.  would it make you feel better to just go kick his a**? Really, I am stumped on this one.  I can imagine the pain of betrayal, and would be at a loss as what to do.  So, I guess I'd just go to the person and tell them how much he has hurt me and tell them that I'd never get over it, how much I had trusted him, and then try to get on with my life.
762110
I would end the relationship, and always wonder what other things I did not know about this person. People who do these heinous things can never really be "friends" with anybody, lest their secrets somehow be discovered. I'm sorry for you if you were duped. It is a real betrayal. Don't blame yourself in any way for not knowing. These people are experts at deception and duplicity. Good riddance is about all you can say.
1156560
im having problems like that except vise-versa (srry can't spell 2day). take it from me, its not all that ez, it mite take them a wile 2 forgive u, but if they're true friends, they will come to their senses and realize that you appreciate both of them the same (unless you don't, and if you don't i can't help you there).
1101058
Your friend has hurt you, back stabbed you.\n\nAnd you are hurt and angry, after all she did the wrong thing.\n\nI am sure all the negative feelings are making you unhappy?  How long do you want to feel unhappy?\n\nYou don't need to accept your friend back but you do need to forgive  her, even if you never speak with her again.\n\nIts good for your mind and feelings.\n\nIf you have not done so already reads the Lords prayer from the Bible.  Among other things is says "forgive us our sins as we forgive others".  None of us are perfect and all of us need some forgiveness.\n\nregards\n\nPeter
206249
She's probably jealous of you, if I were you I would confront her. If she's a backstabber you have no friendship to lose. She's already ruined it.
232437
look....if danny is ur true friend then he should understand that wot happened was a mistake and the fact that u let him beat u up was all u could do to say u were sorry.but u can go to lisa and ask her try explaining danny the whole thing..that it was a mistake,and wud never happen again..but lemme tell u 1 important stuff,dude..once u lose some1's trust,its not hard..but its impossible to get it back!!even if things cool down between both of u,hez not gonna trust u anymore,dude.im sorry to say this,but its a fact.happened even with me.hence it wud be better to slowly cast away from danny(as well as lisa).if thats not possible(e.g. if both of u r in a grp)..then try maintaining a VERY formal relation with the 2 of them.in course of time,he might realise your true worth.but therez nothing else to do than wait and watch.hope it works out for u,dude..coz i have been in similar situations and i know how awful it feels.best of luck!!
892414
Apologies never make one look stupid. Being repentant for an infraction of friendship should not be a deal breaker. Asking for forgiveness should begin the process of reconciliation. If this person is not open to apology or reconciliation you should move on to a more appropriate friendship. To have friends you must be a friend. Sometimes friendship is letting go.
42471
The damage is done - you've already ****** him, so now you need to have some respect for your friend and tell her the truth. You're too worried about what she'll say to YOU, and how YOU'll feel. . . when what you should really be concerned about is how she's going to take the fact that you've been lying behind her back for the past while. Just fess up already - you'll BOTH feel a lot better in the end about it.
1152467
swallow your pride and admit you were wrong and leave it at that give them time to think how much guts it took for you to do that and if the friendship was worth anything to them they'll be in touch thats all you can do ..
376842
It takes time to heal all wounds.\nAccept the fact that you hurt your friend, you did the right thing by trying to talk to your friend, You have appologized, now wait.
58125
If they are a true friend then never. True friends will always be friends even if you do something stupid. Sure, they might be mad at you for a while but eventually they will get over it.
656154
Has this person ever hurt you before? Lied to you? Gone after something that was yours? Taken something that was not theirs to take? Cheated and you knew about it? Shared a secret you told them? Gone behind your back and told something about you?  If the answer to all these questions are no, then you can pretty much bank on the fact that you have someone you can trust. If the answer to any or most are yes, look very carefully before you leap!!
895014
Obviously you know they weren't really "friends" right?  Friends wouldn't do that to each other.  I've been there and I know how much it hurts.\n\nA friend would support your decisions (even if they didn't agree with them) and they would "be there for you" when you needed them.  Don't sweat these so-called "friends" they aren't worth your time.\n\nYou may never "forget" what they did but that doesn't mean you can't "get over" it.  Yes, it just takes time.  Of course you're hurt, you trusted them and thought they were "friends".\n\nYou should try to "forgive" them, (even if you are unable to at the moment), because keeping all that bad energy inside will only hurt you.  \n\nYou sound like a nice person and anyone would be happy to have a "friend" like you.  Just chalk it up to "experience" and forget about them.  They don't deserve you as a friend, and they aren't worth your time.\n\nBest of luck to you.