Have u ever had a crush on someone that u kept as a secret ?
485933
Funny you should ask. When I met my husband, he and I were both married. We both had crushes on one another but was devoted to our spouses at the time. Strange thing is, our marriages fell apart at the same time, and we were able to let our feelings show. Now we are married, with a baby on the way!
1052898
Actually no.I never really had any feelings (in fact I never even considered them as anything but acquaintances) for the guys that said that they liked me.Someday maybe I will meet a guy who I will regret for not returning his love but not now.
945319
Yes, because if you have a crush on this person, saying it as a "friend" is not being truthful to yourself, or them.
534982
find another crush..!
430847
It's just a crush and you will get over it. When I was in the 7th and 8th grades I had a huge crush on my science teacher and I made it soo obvious!! When I look back on it it is so embarrassing. I know that you like him but I truly hope that if he ever responds to your attentions that you will let someone know. Even though you like him it is against the law.
513012
no , but i felt in love once whit a girl which was still a cherry . does that count?.\n:p
617006
Yes, I have.  This is another secret look into the life and times of airplanegirl,\n\nI was at this party, before my marriage.  At this party there was this guy wearing tan dress slacks and a nice knit sweater.  He had dark wavy hair, was about 6'2" tall and the most dreamy eyes I have ever seen.  Well, we got to talking and somehow ended up outside in the garden.  It was a cool February evening and I was chilly.  He gave me his leather jacket to drape over my shoulders.  As we were talking I was rubbing my neck - I carry a lot of stress in my shoulders, don't know why, just always have - and he noticed and gentle without a word, turned me around and slipped his big warm hands under his jacket - that was draped over my shoulders.  He gently massaged my shoulders.  His hands were like fire against my bare skin - I was wearing a shoulderless silk blouse.  It was so dreamy.  I swear I melted right then and their.  He was just chatting away, no banter, no innuendo's, it all was so "normal" like we had been together for years.  Then as he was talking, I turned around and gave him a kiss.  It was so forward of me.  I didn't even know this guy, but it felt so right.  We clung for awhile, kissing, looking into each others eyes as our foreheads touched.  The rest of the evening we danced, talked, drank had fun.  When the night was over, he went his way - he was only visiting from out of town and was leaving the next morning - and I went mine.  I have never talked nor seen him since, however, he lives in my heart to this day.  Nearly 20 years later.  :)
1165070
Well, I have a confession.  When I was 15 my cousin had a boyfriend.  Me and her used to compete about everything.  Her b/f liked me.  One day we went to the pool and me and him decided to go to the parking lot and smoke a cig.  She stayed in the pool.  Me and him went and made out is what we did.  I still feel bad about it, but I have never told her.
70822
I use to until a great guy came along but i dont think i fantasized about he because i wanted him but just because i wanted some one there to hold me like he did her.
229293
i have been in pretty much this situation... very attracted to girl who i had become friends with... and possessing a strong desire to do something about it.  i didn't get the sense that she was interested in me in the same way though, so i kept it cool.  found out later that she is actually crazy for me!!!!
213658
I know what your going through because i still am im in love with my best friend and before you decide to tell him or not to just relize it sticks with you dont tell him  that your in love with him if its just a crush because it could ruin your friendship maybe not ruin but change it thats how mine is with my friend now  i told them how i felt and was told me they didnt like me as more than a friend,im not discourageing it i think that if you really like him and its not just a crush that  it will have  ruined the friendship even more because when your in love you never just want to be friends cuz it hurts so remember either way you choose if you dont tell him you know youll regret it if he felt the same way about you.Good Luck
1027235
Yes, i have.  I began dating a guy that I met through work.  He was a client.  He began calling me on my business cell and we really clicked.  I really began to care about him, but there was something I couldn't quit put my finger on.  So, I knew a PI and I began asking him questions... and then it was on.  I found out this guy was married with four children.  He was also a police officer and had been fired from jobs in the past for sexual harrassment.  Needless to say, I am VERY glad I found all of this out otherwise, who knows the mess I could have been tangled up in.
163290
They may be shy or perhaps they don't want their secret crush to find out. Once one person knows - soon everybody does.
1020598
not necessarily, but I would not tell any of my secrets to anyone who I do not know really well. You need to trust him first, know him and feel comfortable to talk about it....
566996
My crush. He's sweet, nice, kind, funny, smart...anything I could ask for! Unfortunately...he really doesn't exactly know that I exist...Anyway, nice question!
1180162
I have a huge crush on this guy and I have had it for a very long time, but there is no way that I could ever tell him. We are really good friends and I don't want to mess anything up.
395496
In my opinion a crush is when you are extremely attracted to someone and can think of nothing but them.