How do you get a man to due his fair share of the house work?
477886
Don't pick up after him.  I understand the house will look messy for a while but maybe he'll catch on.  Make it clear your are not his maid servant.
177584
Try telling him that if he wants to earn enough money to live in a nice house with her, and buy her lots of nice things, then he will need to study so he can get a job and provide her with everything she needs.
121923
If he's going to allow you to move into a dirty house, he's probably a slum landlord and is very cheap.  I doubt if you'll get any money out of him and he may not keep up on the repairs....
672479
Tell him to not let the door hit his ass as he walks out the door.\nI spent four years as a boiler mechanic working with 250 men in the navy.  A women in a mans field has to be better in all regards just to be consider equal.  by the end of that four years i had 250 big brothers who loved and respected me for my work and what i brought to there team. \ndump this loser he just want to knock you up and keep you bare foot in the kitcen. \nthere are no male female jobs EXCEPT having a baby.
447475
just make him do more chores
850020
Make him pay...and are you leaving out any other information that may be helpful for us to help you.
88386
Give him same percentage as you pay your \nbusiness promoters.\nSince its your biggest project you can even \nthink about paying him a higher percentage\nthan usual. Or else it could set a bad mindset\namong employees.
283583
Bring to them a schedule of chores you will do to earn the money.  They will be impressed by your sense of responsibility and entrepreneurial spirit.
555080
Have him come pick up the check.  Hand him the W-9 at that time.  When he gives it back he gets paid.
495558
looks like you ol' man became comfy with the situation.\nask yourself or ask him, What is his business plan and is it on track of the projections that were made. A fair way of doing it is split the bills in half, you have your money to do what you want, and he has his half of the responsibility and will need to step it up in his business venture.\nstarting a new business takes time, but there needs to be a line drawn as to what money is whose, if he gives you the are the bills paid crap next time you want to go out, tell him "yes my half are paid, you still need to pay your half"
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Are you kidding me? You have a dude who is working his butt off to save for a house, and a RING, i'm sure, and your future, and your complaining he is working to much? Do you have any idea how much a decent house costs, and down payments, and the list is endless about how expensive it is to start a new life? Right now is the time to work your butt off while you are still young and able to do so! There are so many girls in your position that would love a guy to be doing all that for her. You are lucky and need to stop complaining. I bet when he puts a fat rock on your hand you won't be complaining then. Then  you will move on to how much you can spend on your wedding and you will be wondering where the money is going to come from. If you keep nagging him, I can gaurantee he will drop you and find someone who WILL support him in his work. \nIt's not a test, he is who he is. If you can't take it, then break it off and let him be with someone who will support him and be happy with him, and secure. \nSounds like you need a man that works 8-5 Monday thru friday and lives to wait for you!
1139113
Find another guy who isnt lazy, rude and works for his money to make things easier for you.
301137
I think it is more about putting equal investment into the relationship and the household. There is no such thing as a clean division of labor for this. The fact is that is takes a lot of work on the part of everyone to maintain a household, let alone one with so many children. \n\nFirst and foremost, you should both be very aware of how eachother are feeling when it comes to being overwhelmed. Obviously having another child is something the two of you agreed to pursue, so you are both obligated to put in the work to make it a success. What you probably need more than housework is emotional support. \n\nI suggest making a major effort in opening up the communication lines with your husband. You will need to rely on each other to maintain sanity, so make that your goal as opposed to getting him to agree to some amount of housework. You could also frame it in terms of demonstrating for your children how everyone contributes to making the house work.\n\nBest of luck!
300364
Just say, "I make enough to be comfortable".  \n\nMy grandfather taught me it was rude to inquire about financial status, unless of course you were courting the man, then ask away.
310521
By all means show him how it should be done.I'm a guy, and I'm always open to ways to improve in everything.
714245
is the house paid for in full? is it in your name? If it is in your name and you can not keep up the payments do you really want it? If it is in his name go while the getting is good you don't need a man like that.  If it is in your name tell him he can buy you out!
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the best way to get him to work is to talk about things that are a little beyond his and your reach like stereo's mp3 player basicly he will want to get a job to be able to get that item then you can tell him about bills once he has the job but do it slow and steady and let him have his toy once and while so he can feel like he is acomplishing somthing and over time you can move into couches and among other things just make sure to throw some kisses his way so you can get what you would like also