How do you get someone that is busy all the time to stop for a while and spend time with you.?
485341
Let them know that you feel like they aren't spending enough time with you and they'll either explain why they can't or haven't been, and if they care about you, they'll try to make time to spend with you whenever they can.
428086
explain to him that you need space and time to think about things going on in your life. if he really cares he will back off and if that don't work end it.
1152232
Give her a week if you still can't get in touch with her best hang that one up and start over...If you call her or send her too many messages that's a turn off for her...She will think you a little too controlling give her some time and space..
739783
I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
175115
Tell him he needs to spend more time with you. That hanging out with friends is cool but you are his girlfriend and he needs to spend quality time with you too. If he won't agree to do this then you need to just get rid of him and find someone that will. If he does decide to do it then you guys can come up with days for quality time, days for friends, and days for yourself. Then if something else is happening you guys need to give each other advance notice of it. I hipe this helps you. Good luck.
308054
Talk to him first. If it still appears that he is too busy for you, you've gotten your answer.\n\nIf he can talk to you, express what you are feeling and take it from there.
327808
try to talk to him and tell him it bothers you that he is spending too much time on the computer and that you miss him and it is cutting into your quality time together..if he cared for you as much as he says he might get the hint...if this doesn't do the trick..unplug the computer and tell him no more chat until he learns to appriciate you and your time together again
441870
Leave them alone, as in, because the person is busy with something else? Or because you are mad at them? I didn't understand. \n\nIf it's the first case, then basically, u just have to get busy yourself with ur own things. I know it's tough, but u just have to do it, and have patience, that they will return to you. \n\nIf it's the 2nd case, i.e. u both have had a disagreement and u have to leave them alone, then since some space is good...as it gives time to cool off and think better, so doing that is the right thing to do! So think what the right thing is, and do it. \n\nHope that helped.
52375
When he doesn't have the time for you and he spends time with her.
92886
Stop being used by this person.  Make yourself unavailable and move on.
819829
Try explaining to him that you are busy sometimes, that doesn't mean that you aren't into him it just means that you don't have the time to give him the attention that you think he deserves.  He might be happy with that and it will keep your relationship honest.
349519
It sounds like your relationship is really not much of a relationship since you get to spend very little time together.  Unfortunately he is working towards a profession where this schedule problem will probably be an issue for a long time to come.  If you can't deal with it then it is time to get out and move on.
60019
let her have her time and be there if she needs you..she will get out there and probably realize that you are what she wants...don't pressure her that will only drive her away
764999
If it doesn't concern you then mind your own business. Sounds like your a busy body. Just let it be he will get his in end.
843616
Try to talk to them about it. If they can't be mature and give you a decent answer give them the flick. Why do you want to waste your time trying to make someone happy who is not making you happy?
1023057
The more time you spend away from each other, the more time spent together is meaningful. Give him space so that no one gets attached. Sometimes the healthiest part of relationships is the quality of the individuals' personal life.
603095
pull him aside and ask him if he'd like to get together sometime and have dinner or see a movie, or go to some social function...whatever, just all im saying is if you cant catch him alone... pull him aside..