My girlfriend is Wicca, while i have no religion, what could i do to help her along her chosen path?
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Where are you from....she would really love it (funds permitting) if you took her to Wiltshire in the UK to see the Magickal villiage of Avebury and to see Stonehenge during the summer solstice. I went to Stonehenge on the last Summer Solstice and there were thousands of Wiccans there
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the fact that you want to teach her a lesson, but know you can't hurt the woman, is a tremendous thing, especially because this is where you keep waking up.\n   Your Christian background is the arena the dream plays in - a Christian burial - your roots, and you don't mention if this upsets you because it's not a Wiccan burial. However, the dream promises you an "afterlife" after the Wiccan delivers her eulogy, which represents a transition. Wicca upsets many Christians who might not know the ins and outs of it, and this is the family and friends (you never mentioned if your family is actually there) you experience at the funeral. the old woman you never met doesn't want to hear about this, as most in the Christian community wouldn't understand. I'm curious and would need to know more to give you a better answer, but right now the symbology is death, with a promise of rebirth from the goddess that doesn't happen because of the old woman - who is protesting your "new" religion. Again, i wish i knew more details, but it is either pushing you to go with conviction of the "afterlife" you seek in Wicca, and as there is no death, and just like the pheonix rising from the ashes, death is rebirth for the spirit and soul. Or, the dream is forcing you to reconsider leaving Christianity completely (you can be both), which you are having trouble doing because you can't get past the old woman and the goddess' promise of what happens after the eulogy.
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the wiccan rede cites all for all not just one god, so if you are open enough to your self you will begin the journey of yourself and your belief in ALL things bigger than self.i implore you to study your needs and follow the pathe of light because without it there can be no dark, the Lourde&Ladye will wrap you in the light of the sun and bring you full circle to a long and blessed journey. to be wiccan is to follow your heart, and to understand that the creator what ever she is, finds endearment for those that move in unison with the green world she has entrusted us to. please go to www.witchtopia.com to, and above all never be drawn in to believeing in anything less than belief
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You are worried about someone who seems to prefer to live in the real world, rather than the superstitious delusional world of religion. Stop worrying about her and concern yourself with the fact that in your tiny reality, your religion has as it's stated and ultimate goal, THE END OF THE WORLD.
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For Muslims? yes\n\nWill she convert to your religion to prove her love? \n\nDoes not look like it otherwise you would not been asking this question.\n\nSo she keeps her religion first and you secondary .\n\nWhy she does not open her mind ? and convert to your religion?\n\nAll Muslims are going to tell you that you must convert . But it goes both ways.\n\nIf she wont be Muslim anymore You will not have any problem marrying her.\n\nThough under civil law you can marry her, without either of you converting.\n\nAfter marriage a girl is supposed to join husbands family, it looks like you want to do opposite.\n\nAre you sure about conversion? \n\nIf you convert then what? \n\nWhat Islam has in spiritual section which advait Vedanta does not cover ? We do not have a one book religion not narrow definitions. There is so much to learn that whole life time is short. But the freedom Hinduism gives is unique.\n\nYou will be just getting loosing your family and if your marriage somehow did not work, you will have already lost too much. Because the moment you leave your religion for marriage , you lost an identity , you had since birth.\n\nUnder civil law you both Will be better off. Nobody will be loosing his/her personal belief yet get full benefits.\n\nOr you care more for the relationship to continue than her?\n\nGet another Girl will be my suggestion If she insists that you should really convert.\n\nOtherwise you are going to end up frustated after a few years.
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The custom you described sounds a lot like the old shamanistic Wicca ritual to protect a dwelling, often carried over to Christian culture without the participants knowledge of why they were doing what they were doing, just done because it was always done; or lost origins to time. I of course mean no disrespect to your Oma, and I personally find it charming that She loved you so. Thank you for sharing this interesting finding.
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I was a practicing Celtic wizard for 12 years, and a Christian for 10. Do not believe any of it. It's all bullshit. There is no God, Goddess, or anything. There was no messiah, and there will never be an anti-Christ. \n\nReligion is a crutch for the weak. If you really want that girl, figure out what kind of guys she like, and become that guy. Learn some game, and lay it down. \n\nThe more you pray, the more you cast spells will not effect your situation in any way.
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Here is how I feel..\n\nHelp for Non-Wiccans \nThat someone you love should decide one day to be a Witch may be the last thing you ever expected. What could be more alien, more controversial, more overwhelming? \n\nYour loved one is probably exploring Wicca, a modern Pagan (Neo-Pagan) movement. Throw out all the stereotypes and the Hollywood hype you've seen or heard about Witchcraft. Wicca (like other modern Pagan religions) is actually a gentle, life-affirming, positive path. It is a religion and a way of life that connects on a very deep level with Nature and the Earth's cycles. Wicca is very individualized. Its followers do not answer to any all-powerful leader; nor are they cut off from family or friends. Wicca is not a proselytizing religion. For some, it just happens to be the religion that makes the most sense. \n\nHow should you respond to someone interested in Wicca? Try to understand that there are many positive spiritual paths from which to choose. Mainstream religion is not for everyone; give your loved one the freedom to choose for him/herself. If your under-age child takes an interest in Wicca, you have the right to insist that he/she stay away from it. But if Wicca is forbidden territory, your child may seek the information subversively; wouldn't it be better to permit overt exploration so that your child may seek information with your guidance? \n\nOccasionally you may hear the terms "white witch", "black witch", implying that there are good or bad versions of the path. This is actually a fallacy. Wiccans follow what's known as The Wiccan Rede, which states, "If it harm none, do what you will." This means one may live life as one sees fit so long as one does no intentional harm. (This includes casting negative spells and doing magic to manipulate others.) Wiccans by definition do not practice any form of negative magic. Those who do are not deserving of the title, "Witch". \n\nNo one can speak for others who claim to be Wiccan, and it is possible that there are some alleged Wiccans who are unethical. Keep in mind that in all walks of life, from every cultural, philosophical and religious background there are those who do not live up to the high standards of their community. The best thing to do is to encourage new Wiccans to be discriminatory, to use good judgement and common sense in their spiritual pursuits. \n\nFor more basic information about this path please see the other sections of this page including, "What is Wicca?" \n\nQuestions? If you have a question about Wicca or Neo-Paganism, write to Fly-by-Night psyche@flybynightbookstore.com. Your question and our answer will be posted on our web site (with only your first name for those who wish to maintain their anonymity). We may not be able to answer all questions due to volume but will attempt to respond to as many as possible.
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This completely depends on how strongly you and your girlfriend feel about religion. You have several options:\n\n1. Marry her, but keep your current religions. If either of you come from religious families, marrying outside of your religion may cause a great deal of tension. When my Romanian Jewish father and my Filipino Catholic mother got married, they took this route. Many of my father's Jewish relatives didn't speak to them for several years. However, after I was born, his family members came around and reconciled with my parents. Sometimes, these situations take time. How would your families react, and what are you willing to deal with? How would you want your children to be raised? I celebrated both Christian and Jewish holidays my whole life, and I feel that this gave me a great respect and appreciation for religious customs. However, if raising your children as Muslims is important to you, now is the time to talk about these things.\n\n2. She converts to Islam. This could also work. My friend is half-Pakistani and half-Filipino, and her Filipino mother converted to Islam when she married her father. Her mother's side of the family was not very happy about it, but religious conversion is a very personal choice, so no one really held that against her. Talk to your wife about her feelings on this topic. Tell her that you would like to marry her, but that you are concerned about the fact that she is not the same religion as you. Ask her if she would be open to learning more about your religion and, if it feels right to her (no pressure, of course!), would she ever think about becoming a Muslim and raising a family together in Islam? \n\n3. You convert to her religion. This doesn't seem like something you are considering, but it's similar to #2 above, so I'll just cut to #4...\n\n4. None of the above. Yes, it's possible that neither of you are willing to change your religion or imagine a marriage/life with someone of a different religion. If this is the case, it's going to be a very tough decision. It sounds like you love her enough to want to marry her, but the religious difference is a stumbling block. Can you live without this woman in your life? Or, can you find an acceptable compromise that both of you will be happy with?  This situation is very common, and it can definitely work! My parents have been married now for over 30 years. :)  Good luck!
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Well, you must validate her path as a spiritual practice (not act like she is playing at religion, but honor her different beliefs) and you must accept her as she is if you want this relationship to have a chance to work.  She has no right to dictate what you should do religiously or spiritually.\n\nIf you relationship does work, down the line you will have to work out a wedding ceremony and way of life that allows you both spiritual freedom and doesn't pressure any kids involved.  If you spiritual practises are incompatible, then so are you.\n\nMy husband is catholic and I am more of a new age person, you might say.  We have been able to come to common ground in our beliefs - and work around the labels a bit to find that we do share a lot (as many different religions do, we are finding too).  It is possible to do this and to do it beautifully.  In a world where unity is becoming more and more necessary, it is great for kids to grow up with it in their own homes and families.\n\nPeace!
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If you are having a crisis of faith, try talking to a priest or someone else in the church. They may have answers to your question that you never thought of, or that make more sense. If that doesn't work, try educating yourself on other religions as well. Maybe you will find your answers in another faith or belief. I don't mean just Christian religions. Look into Buddhism, Wicca, Taoism, etc. I myself am Wiccan. The most important thing is not to lose faith in whatever you believe in, and to remember that everything that comes to you in life, good or bad, is a test and the gift of an opportunity to better yourself.
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Have you given her a reason to?  Anyway, if she is the sort of person who does "black magic" you shouldn't associate with her. She has darkness in her heart, and will only bring you down, "magic" or not.  Keep up your relationship with God, keep praying and staying faithful, and no "black magic or witchcraft" could ever harm you. Ask God to protect you from evil people and their beliefs. If you do not have a relationship with God and Jesus, please look into it and read the New Testament of the Bible. It will change your life.  Disassociate yourself with anything to do with any type of witchcraft or anyone who partakes in it. It is pure evil and is against the will of God.
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There is Wicca.  You can start there and decide which path you want to take.  For the written word I would look for Scott Cunningham and Raymond Buckland.  Both are wonderful for descriptions and simple to more involved rituals.  With Mr. Cunningham I would start with the book "Wicca for the Solitary Practitioner", as for Mr. Buckland I would suggest "The Complete Book Of Witchcraft".  Another really good author is Starhawk and the book entitled "The Spiral Dance".\n\nAnd you can go from there.  You are correct that there are MANY different religions under the umbrella of Pagan.  You will discover which is right for you, it will just seem right.   If you are looking for an on-line study course I would suggest Circle of Stars.  It is a yahoo group with a bunch of wonderful people for teachers and mentors.  I wish you luck on your path and the brightest of blessings.   :)\n\nSo I'm not the only Pagan around...glad to see you all.  :)
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Your family is truely blessed!  I am Wiccan and I believe that there is a higher power but it is within each of us.  When I call upon The God and Goddess I feel that I am calling them out of me and out of the universe.  We are all part of the universe and everything in the universe is part of the collective energy that drives everything. \n\nWhatever belief one has is valid.  It doesn't matter what it is as long as it is true to you. I do not think that there is just one true path.  All religions are valid and I think that anyone true to thier faith will reach whatever they aspire to get to.\n\nContinued Blessings!\n)O(
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check out the book world religions by huston smith.  not only is it a classic, but it's one of the best propaedeutic texts on the subject.  it's fairly short, so you can probably just read it at the library.\n\ntry to talk to you mom candidly.  make sure that you are respectful and even-tempered, but be firm in expressing your belief that your relationship with divinity is between you and god.  tell her you appreciate her input, but remind her that it is ultimately your decision.  tell her that it hurts you when she tries to control something so important to you.  remember--you are going to have to be the adult in this discussion--be calm, collected, sensitive and reasonable--but firm.\n\np.s.  you might consider holding off on the wiccanism.  modern day wiccans trace their roots to ancient pagan lineages, but whether they admit it or not, wiccans in the modern world are very much a reaction to the prevailing christian influences.  since this ideology will probably be particularly offensive to your mother, you may be served well to wait until you are no longer so dependent on your mother to explore this theme.  it will still be there in a couple of years, and displaying deference and forbearance toward a woman who cares for you deeply (and is probably very sensitive about such things) by compromising on this issue may do wonders to preserve the integrity of your relationship.  remember, she wants what is best for you and simply was raised in an environment that makes it difficult to understand new and different ideas.  summon all your love and maturity when you discuss these things with her.
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Wicca is a religion, and just as with any other religion you need to make the choice and do the studies on your own. Wicca is a peacful religion about honoring the spirits of Mother Earth, it is not Satanic because it is not based on Christianity and Satan is a Christian character. Wiccans do not believe in "Satan". And just to be sure I feel the need to say that you should not be using a transition to Wicca as a way to rebel.\nYou need to research and find out if Wicca is right for you. For Wiccans, spells and rituals are equal to Christian prayers.\nThis is something you need to do on your own, no one can teach you.\n\nhttp://www.wiccanglade.com/leabwi.html\nhttp://www.religioustolerance.org/witchcra.htm\nhttp://www.wicca.org/\n\nGood Luck.
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Choosing someone of your faith certainly makes a better match in the long run, especially in our faith (I am Wiccan myself).  It's very hard to maintain a relationship with someone who is always secretly thinking your going to hell, even if they keep it to themselves.  Plus it makes it harder to celebrate the holidays, especiallly if your coven considers their celebrations exclusively for believers.