I can only cum when I do oral stimulation. Why?
492701
Many women will caress the breasts or stimulate a nipple with the free hand. Anal stimulation is also enjoyed by some because of the thousands of sensitive nerve endings located there. Another way to stimulate yourself is to rub your clitoris as he is penetrating you.
287832
when you are having sex ,just imagine your past foreplay.if it doesn't work then, meet sex therapist b/cos you may have organismic dysfunction.
520753
Well sometimes, when you and your lover are getting really hot and nasty, it just feels like the right time to do it!! When you've got baby-oiled up or whatever!! LOL!! \n\nOf course, you have to be totally relaxed and I found that rubbing my clit or getting him to do it (whilst he's in there)makes the whole thing much more pleasurable!\n\nIt's not something I want to do all the time, but now and again, hell why not!! When it comes to what makes a women come, we are all different. And not only that, but what may make me orgasm one week, might not work for me the next!!
102934
try changing position or rhythm or try to stop and do something to your partner.  i tried it several times and the next problem was my partner came first so try to come at the same time.
962393
probably because of the sudden rush of blood flow due to orgasm in your body\n\nBut may also be due to improper methods of cleansing..
1083932
I guess just try to not concentrate so much on how good it feels, and concentrate on making your female friend cum as many times as possible before you do.\n\nI can usually cum when I want or hold off as long as I want, but I guess not everyone can do that.
1012525
It is a common problem. Some women just need additional lube. Don't feel bad about it. Maybe try to lick her to orgasm before intercourse.
73828
well to be honest it could be one of two things, i am not to judge and dont know u 1: ur not well endowed,sorry  but thats my problem and i have had this happend to me b 4 ur not the only one and 2: not enogh foreplay or to much, just got to take ur time talk to them and tell them how good they are, and remember oral does a great job for orgasms for women, also toys which i have never used might help some,
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Almost always.\n\nHowever, if you do not, I would point out that there is an evolutionary reason for this.\n\nWhen a man ejaculates, his ejaculate forms a pool at the base of the vagina, a woman's orgasm forces the mouth of her cervix into that pool to improve chances of impregnation.\n\nTherefore nature designed it so that men orgasm first.\n\nIf you want to achieve a simultaneous orgasm with your mate, you can do so by practicing, pay close attention to the signs that orgasm is approaching for both of you, and practice making small changes until you are able to achieve it.\n\nIf your wife requires extra stimulation, you may want to introduce the use of a toy into your lovemaking so that she can receive extra clitoral stimulation during the act.
122234
Depends on the guy.  I love it, but I like to see her enjoy the experience FIRST.  I can feel that I have done my job well, if she has been pleasured first.  Oral stimulation is a great way to bring a womant to orgasm (but it takes training on both parties part to understand what she needs).  Guys usually are either selfish or scared.  I have done well because most guys don't do well!
625512
Giving pleasure would please me much more! Licking is a kind of F...ing anyway! You enjoy it as a man or woman, because you are making someone screaming!! (By the way, you would feel the power of ruling the pleasure world!! Being master of pleasure is a good sense! ;))
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sometimes for a woman - the sexual enjoyment starts more with a mental stimulation then moves to the physical side. You need to learn to clear your mind, relax and turn your mind to sexual pleasure. I don't mean think about what to do to your man to please him - I mean think about what pleases you - what are your fantasies - what little thing that you or your lover does that just sends you over the top. Work this little thing into your mental fantasy - hopefully this will put your mind in the right mood - believe me if your mind is into it - your body will do just fine. Good luck and happy "O"'s to you!
1001312
your lover should engage in lots of foreplay so that your vagina is fully aroused and wet.  If it takes you a long time to orgasm, ask your lover to go slowly.  If he does something that feels good, tell him.  \nUsing your own fingers can help too
562559
I'm assuming you are continuing to have sex and still not orgasming. First of all for women it can be more difficult. You may need to experiement to find out what puts you over the edge. Often our internal dialogue really interferes with our pleasure if it is telling us sex is bad. If that is the case you may need counseling.\n\nIf not, then you need practice and a patient and loving partner to help you find your triggers. Have fun!
1017911
I have orgasms in my sleep all of the time.  That is because for me orgasms are mental, emotional and psychological.  Penises don't get me to have an orgasm.  A tongue, fingers, but not penetration.  I think this is very very common.  Only about 32% of woman can orgasm with penetration alone.  Did you ever wonder why the clitoris is on the outside?  It is because we are designed to be sexually stimulated without the penetration.  Some women can have orgasms with penetration, but its about 3 out of 10.  \n\nYou can try a few things.  You can have penetration and have him or you stimulate your clitoris during sex.  You can try different positions where his pubis rubs against your clitoris during sex.  You can read the Kama Sutra positions and experiment.  But don't put yourself down because of your anatomy.
215945
The quickest way would be to try all types of positions. I think everyone has a certain position that brings them an orgasm.
1120812
actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!