i am 28 and my husband is 20?  In your eyes is that ok?
479082
Sure, if you care about him...who cares what others think! you aint breakin no laws! Plus he is happy because you can buy him beer!!!!!!!!! good luck
152892
well im 34 and my hubby is 40 been with him since i was 18 going on 19 and he was 25 going on 26.i dunno how long ya waited to get married but for me we lived together for years building our trust and relationship before we married . actually i was 26 when we married and he was then 32 . the point is some say age doesnt matter  well in some cases it does. men that are with us younger girls seem to like to keep small tabs on us where we been and with who and how long ya been there all because the age difference makes them feel insecure . perhaps hes noticed  men ur age  looking at you or saying helo or just a friendly smile. thats enough to make any guy jealous.. heres what i did.. id assure him hes the best thing evr happend to me and he should feel proud that other men look , smile, say helo to me when im with him because  that should tell him he has something special right by his side and  that something special is you and he has  you to love, to hold, and to cherish the rest of his life because you married him not for the piece of paper but for the man you met  and fell in love with and their could only be one man like that for you and hes the one. now i dont mean  ya have to be exact in that way but i would just reassure him the luv between yas is still there no matter how much probes. and if all fails  just ask him right out what changed in 2 years time? doesn't hurt to ask sometimes that all  it takes..
213819
Well, that depends on your age. I'm dating a guy that is 21, but i am also 21.\n\nI think it is fine as long as you are at least 16.
798504
I am 20 and my fiancee is 27....I don't see anything wrong with age...go for it! If it was like a 16 year old with a 30 year old thats kinda gross. Have fun!! :)
378783
No this isn't a big difference I'am 17 now and my b/f is 21 now, it really isn't that big deal , it's not all about age, if u guys love eachother u shouldn't care about ur ages just follow ur heart.
815761
I don't think we should allow society to dictate age restrictions in relationships. There is a 21 year age gap between my boyfriend and I (I'm 27). I have never been happier in my life. Just like with any relationship, it needs to have the essentials like trust, understanding, communication, interests, goals, etc. If those elements are in place, then nothing else matters. Love is the greatest feeling in the world, and age shouldn't stop anyone from experiencing it.
174782
Of course it is okay.  I have dated someone nine years younger than me, and now I am married to someone nine years older than me.  Nothing strange about either one.
105705
im 22 & my hubby is 32...i was 19 when we met & he was definitely insecure about his age but we just joke about it now. be proud of your age & experience & let her know you're willing to play "teacher" to her "school girl"!! hahaha!! & if she's got an age issue you dont want some immature little snot like that anyway, she'd just hold you back from a more fulfilling relationship elsewhere...  good luck to you!
439264
My hubby was 24 when we got married, I was 22...I think its a good age if you have a job that will take care of both you and your wife. If you have security, then go for it!! 26 is an awesome age, in my opinion....
150227
Absolutly not age is just a number.. I am 18 and my husband is 28... age ABSOULTLY DOESNT MATTER especially if you are in love!!!!!!
714086
I date and live with a man that is 10 yrs. younger than I am, and we have the most wonderful love and relationship you could imagine. I personally do not think age should matter at all as long as the two of you are happy.
565521
I am 27 and my boyfriend is 42.  LOTS of people do not support our relationship.  But, guess what, we are happy.  And in the end, all of our loved ones want us to be happy, right?  If is FEELS right...it is right.  You go girl.
189094
I am not single.  June 25 will be our 29th wedding anniversary!  I was 16 and my husband was 17 when we first met.  We started dating about 6 months after that.  We were married when I was 18 and he was 19.  I am very happy.  It is hard work to keep a relationship functioning at a level where both people retain their individuality yet find fulfillment in their couple-ness.  The benefits of that hard work are amazing.  We have had plenty of difficult times and trials in all these years.  But, we sought help when it was needed and committed to learn from our mistakes and move on.  The love we have for each other and our 4 children along with our shared faith in God is a strong bond for us.
673353
Nothing is wrong with it as long as it is consentual and a relationship based on respect and affection.  When I was 18 I dated a 44 year old guy, we stayed together for 3 years and we're still great friends.  \n\nHowever I've also known older men that prey on younger women and men because they are less experianced, and use them for sex, like that they can easily control them, or fetishize them to a startling extreme.  That is not cool to me because it lacks the fundamental respect for their partner.\n\nIt doesn't matter if your bf is 18 or 85, you should both be treating each other as equals with respect and no exploitation.  That advice goes to couples who are the same age too.
317222
that is fine. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 36. This August will be our 2 year aniversary. YAY. We love each other very much. He is a wonderful man. So if u think it will work and u both like each go for it. Age is nuthin but a number.
1142726
These girls dont know what there talking about. Ive been exactly where you are. I was 18 and I fell inlove with some 42. It sounds so bad. I know its not "normal" but its not wrong either. I dont feel like you should cheat on your husband even if you've asked for a divorce. I feel that you should wait until its completely over. If the older man trully has feelings for you then he will wait. I wish you the very best!
1186641
Love my hubby.  He;'s 62.