Should I tell her what's bothering me?
476114
wait until she complains again then say something.
518170
First rule of thumb. Don't let people walk all over you or make you 2nd guess yourself. If you know that you did nothing wrong than I wouldnt let it bother you and maybe start looking for a new friend because it doesnt sound like she is much of a friend. If my real friends had a problem with me they would tell me what was going on and how they felt. And you have every reason to treat her as she treats you.
1057116
tell this girl i think shes got some problems
24437
Perhaps your intuition is trying to clue you in on something. It would be a good idea to sit down and talk with her about it in a non-judgmental, non-threatening way. Just let her know how you're feeling and see how she responds. Even if you're being paranoid at least you will have gotten it out in the open. It's also possible it's something relatively insignificant and she may feel it's not important enough to "bother" you with. Give her plenty of opportunity to share her feelings with you about your relationship, where it's headed and any needs she might need met.
742883
I will tell you what i usually do,may be it will help. Get time and meet her,find something to talk about,but dont tell her thet you are into her. spend some time chatting and trust me,if you are critical and observant,im sure u will find something about her that u dont like or irritates you,by the time you are through with that,your obssession will reduce slowly by slowly. That works for me,why not you! otherwise,goodluck.
259491
You shouldn't worry a lot. Everything will be fine. Just give her some time. if she really is a good friend, then she will tell you what has been going on, and why she has been reacting that way.
58189
You listen to her problems day in and day out? Are you unique in this aspect, or is she just a chronic complainer? If you are the only person (or, at least, the only guy) she brings her troubles to, I'd say she already has a thing for you, although she may not be concious of it yet. And if that's the case, it's probably up to you to make the first move. If you really can't bear to bring the subject up in person, try a note or an email. You'll probably be able to express what you want to say much more eloquently and clearly in that format, and I guarantee that she'll respect you for having the guts to say what you really think.
380897
I think you shouldn't lower yourself far enough to worry about what someone who is so obviously ignorant thinks.  Does it really matter to you what she thinks of you?  Does it change who you really are?  I would try to see that the things she says come from her own issues and that they have nothing to do with who i am.  Think about it...if she does this and you have no reaction to it how much fun will it be for her to continue doing it? If her goal is to hurt or bother you and you respond to that you are simply feeding hre monsters and giving her what she wants, also you could be proving that what she says about you is true by allowing her to provoke negative behavior from you.  She is disturbed, stay away from her, but don't waste your energy on her or let her rob you of peace of mind she isn't worth it.
230326
It could mean that something is bothering her. Ask her what is wrong and see if you two can work it out. Hang in there ok.
655344
You are not going to get her to stop unless you embaress her. Or you need to talk to her about what she is doing and how it makes your feel. Telling her to shut up is not the way to go.\n\nAlso you need to ask yourself why do you want her to stop. Are you jealous of the attention? If it is not hurting you why should you be worried. People that lie like that will get theirs in the end. She'll bury herself in her own hole without any help from you.
328496
if you didnt do anything you dont need to do anything to not make her be mad at you she has some issues she needs to handle if she is mad at you for no reason... ask her what you did then go from there
593324
you should tell her but not be mean about it..its better than her lookin like a fool.
962444
you need to tell someone...have you tried talking to her?? i would try talking to her and tell her what your concerned about...and tell her that you're going to have to tell an adult if she keeps it up...if and when you do tell she will be mad, but if she is your true friend she'll stay mad for a little bit and then realize that you only did it because you cared and you can go on being frineds...if not then she just stays mad....but either way...you were doing the right thing...it's better to tell and possibly save her life and not be friends than to keep your mouth shut and regret not telling someone when something irreversible happens...
287685
you need to tell her right now. you need to get proper medical attention.
95299
She is not being as open as you think. You should see if she tries to contact you before you contact her. If she calls explain your concern with a mild manner. Give her time to tell you what she wants to tell you and decide on whether this is a good cause to be concerned or upset.
775530
its more that i dont know how to say what is bothering me.
381906
i cut myself like a month ago becuz i was having emotional problems so if she is just doing it for fun then tell someone if it excedes tell someone but if she is feeling emotionaly hurt talk to her and then if she keeps doing it tell someone so pretty much TELL SOMEONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!