My girlfriends ex  is insisting on inviting my gal...and she seems excited about it...what does that mean?
481019
Maybe she still wants to be with him but maybe she just really enjoyed his company when they were together. People like to feel wanted perhaps she doesn't want to do anything with him she just wants to remember what their time was like and feel good. \nBut if it's making you feel unwanted you have to tell her it's not fair if it's making you feel bad. She has you does she really want to jeopardize that?
544734
my guess would be that she needs the ego boost. She wants to see if she could have youif she wanted, not that she really does.
821720
Girl, that's a rough situation. Its all good to help for a little while, but her ex seems to getting a little bit to dependent on your girlfriend. The bottom line is that her ex needs to grow up and be a women, it doesn't take that long to get get your stuff together. Tell your girlfriend to give her a couple of pointers and move on. Keep your head up!
738314
She might just want to settle her demons with her ex stand by and see. Or maybe she wants to have a 3 way orgy just kidding. Ride out the storm see what happens. Feelings don't lie.
96482
If she is your EX, then she isn't cheating on you.  And if she is an EX, why would you care what she thinks?  Obviously, you are better off with this woman being your EX, leave it alone and move on, you are better off without all this mess!
550806
Sounds like a set up darlin!Even im getting paranoid thinking about it....i would say...ask him if he was going out with his ex tonight...yes/no. If answer is no..and it happens again(a similar senario,with his ex) tell him to f off.\n\nIn a nut shell....TRUST your instinct..you will know my dear.
171468
I agree with skull22, why are you giving her anything if she is your ex, please add some more information please.
1163914
It's possible that she may sincerely like you.  It's possible that she may be hesitant or unsure.  And it's also possible that she may only be flirting and not looking for a committed relationship, which sounds the most likely from your description.  Her saying no to your invitation to go out but her actions and announcing she will be spending time with you this week-end can be confusing, I imagine.  Take your time to discover whether this is attention without intention, just a game to her, or more.  \nBut in the end, the real question is, do you like her?  And what do you want?  If your hope is a relationship and that isn't what she wants, it will not work.  If you both want the same thing and make that clear to each other, then it can.  Speak to her to learn more.\nBut just a little side note: It may be in good fun, but otherwise, her calling you her property doesn't seem very respectful.
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I know that in past experience, its really tempting and persuading, if an ex calls you and asks you for a night of passion! ;) but... your relationship has ended, and it seems to me like she is trying to manipulate you in the process?\n\nShe is already with her partner, and so is not only abusing his trust and loosing respect for herself-but if you are the third spoke in her relationship (even if this is just "sex") then, surely this will make you no better than her?\n\nI split up with my ex over 9 months ago, and i have since been in a long term relationship with my current partner for the past 8 months. I was with my ex for 3 and half years, and all he did was cheat on me with various other women! We too had a great sex life-but, id much rather a realtionship that is based on trust and respect anyday (plus great sex is a bonus ;) ) My ex contacted me near enough every day for 6 months asking me for sex, but not once did i say yes, cos i love my partner and respect him. She doesnt have respect fro anyone??\n\nPerhaps, as your ex knows that you are single, that she is taking you for advantage! Its possible that she doesnt want you to be with anyone else-as she knows that you probabley wont be, if you are seeing her? She also  thinks that she can get away with two timing both of you (even with your consent!) what kind of person does this?\n\nI know its tempting but you have to ask her to stop calling you and asking for sex. Its low! And someone with such low morals, is obviousley someone to be wary off.... STI's spring to mind? You also have to ask yourself-are you the only one shes trying to cheat with?\n\nIn the end, what goes around comes around-my ex cheated on me with 5 other women, and ended up catching STI's!! So it serves him damn right lol!\n\nAnd why did your relationship end? Obviousley for a good reason! \n\nGood luck!! \n\nx
1070157
If she can't keep her emails straight...I would believe she is pulling one over on you.  And no matter what the relationship, not sure I would advertise I slept with every guy I've dated.  Good luck!!
1038164
doesnt sound good, unless her and her ex have been good friends before and are just trying to be friends again. (actually thats not too right either) and they shouldnt be talking about sex. thats wrong. and her ex had clearly shown intention to get back together... the right thing for her to do is back off. then again, she's a gal. gals love to be loved. (by lots of other men - it just makes them feel special, wanted, hot, etc) BUT ANYWAY... if they're making it a habit, u need to tell her you're uncomfortable. otherwise, end it. cuz if she doesnt care about your feelings, she's probably not THAT into u anyway.
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believe it or not, right now i am in your ex's situation and when i told my ex that i want it over means, i want it over. fullstop. i'm not seeing anyone else but i just feel like being single again and spend more time with my pals. i realized that having a gf too early was a big mistake. she didn't do anything wrong in particualr, and she's a very nice girl. i just need some time alone. hope that "answers" your question. good luck though :)
558406
Have u asked her about it?  U guys are basically doing wut a couple would be doing. You are just missing the actual label of boyfriend girlfriend and maybe some intimacy.
891002
To be honest your best off ignoring it if both you and your girlfriend trust each other this should not be an issue anyway. The ex is more than likely only doing it to annoy you hoping it will cause problems so don't rise to it. She is with you not him :)
952907
she is using you as someone to get her mind off of her break up with her boyfriend. I wouldnt get my hopes up just yeah. whoa....back boy!
1186307
I would tell her the truth,. that there really isnt anything going on with you two and her friendship means to much for you two to let a guy inbetween you. Shes feeling insecure because she can see how easy it is for that guy to get another girlfriend in short time. Can you imaigine if he did secretly want to go out with you? Then what.\nI'd give your ex and her some space and not even get close to that situation untill he finally breaks it off with her...Believe me he will real soon.\nRemember shes only the rebound girl...aint that sad.shhhh dont remind her of that point tho....heheh
825018
have you done something that could annoy her? or probably she's having second thoughts on breaking up with his ex. maybe you should give her some time alone. but keep the communication line open. text her from time to time (but not too much), ask her how she is. but do not annoy her by texting too much. if this scenario continues for days, try giving her a letter and express how you really feel. tell her you really like her but having second thoughts on pursuing cause she might think you're taking things too fast. just be honest.