I just need your opinions please give me some answers?
478817
Young lady, marriage is a VERY serious step to take.  If this man 'ripped your heart out' in the past, what makes you think he won't do it again after marriage?\n\nI'd BREAK THE ENGAGEMENT off!!...Then go out and parteeeeee to forget all about him!!
860762
Maybe you just need to back off for a while.  Sometimes things change - sometimes for the good, sometimes for the bad.  But I think you need to take a step back and figure this out.
127982
it is not up to anyone here to make that descision for you, however you need to ask yourself "Is this person going to get me where I want to be in life? or are they going to hinder me?" "Is this person going to be there for me when I need them? or are they going to leave me in the lurch?" "can I spend the rest of my life with this person?"\n\nif you can answer these all with yes then go for it but I think you already know the choice you need to make. and I think it is the right one.
1158149
Well Bush, your beliefs are up to you. What exactly do you want to know? It seems like your question is "What should I believe in?", and no one can decide that for you.
22612
don't be put down. Stand up for what you beleive and don't do what you think is wrong. I didn't quite understand your question but I hope this might have helped at least a little.
343271
Don't wait around.  Take charge yourself. He may not be thinking along the same wavelengths as you.  I respect someone who can be direct.
338884
I think it all depends on if it takes over your life. If that is all you can think about then I wouldn't. The best thing you can do is PRAY about it. If you know what I mean.
882276
Honey!  The ONLY question you need answered is "are you happy?"!!!   You don't sound like it to me.  For your own sake, stop worrying about what he thinks so much and make up your own mind.  He is lucky to have you and you need to show him that!!!!  But most importantly you need to know that in your own heart!!!  Give him a little insite into what he would be missing if you weren't around!!!!  Don't be sooooo available!
17219
its just something that was on my mind and decided i wanted a few opinions on it
527003
I am a doctor and while having wild trouble with my wife, I decided to never be with here again.  I have 2 kids. A few months later, 4 to be exact, I started living with one of my patients, who is 40, and had a wild drive for me since 2 years ago. While being my patient nothing happened, but we started talking after I left my wife, never to return I thought. I lived with this woman for over a year, and that was the happiest time of my life. Nevertheless, my kids were having very serious trouble, and even though I did not wish to see my wife again, I decided to return to my kids and get them out of trouble. I will never stop loving my patient, she was the sweetest girl I've never known, but I cannot live happily with her while my kids are going down hill. I may be damned, but I need my kids to be OK for me to be happy, and they demand my presence. I could never feel happy while being with the woman I love while my kids are going through trouble. You being a virgin is not an issue to me, it should not be an issue to you, it should not be an issue for anybody loving you. What worries me is to find you left aside because this guy is married. I am not saying it is right or wrong, I am saying I doubt he will feel absolutely and sincerely happy with you while thinking about his kids. Been there, done that, don't go there, yo don't want to go there. You'll be happy for a while, and then you will know hell. Excuse my honesty, but I do not wish any human being to go through my experience. Hence I have the need to speak about it. And only anonimously. Take my word: you don't want this.\nPD: I am aged 46.
588579
I might have an opinion, if I had any idea what you're asking.\n\nAny chance of you re-wording your question?
601087
The fact that you feel the need to ask makes me believe that you have your doubts as to whether you are doing the right thing. Go with your gut.
479212
Tony, just live your life, chill and let God take care of the rest. In time, you'll find ALL the answers to this single question you asked. Promise, dude.
914493
I would just let him know how you feel.  Go after what you want dont wait for him.  If you want it go get it.
233825
I don't know what this is all about, but believe what you want. It's your right! As long as you don't push your beliefs on someone else then by all means think as you wish. It's really not anyone else's business!
1003169
what on earth are you talking about. read the question yourself and see if you can answer it
299222
Well you will find different problems facing you in different area you may live in with this question.\nOnly thing I can tell you is this Just do the best job you can do with what you have available and keep on keeping on. \nTo answer you question lol I would say no.