after me and my ex broke up i try to get back with him can you tell me what to do?
475829
Apologize, apologize, apologize.\nThen just be honest and talk to him. Will he take your calls? If so just tell him what you just told us, that he is the best thing that has happened to you, and that you made a mistake, while under the influence and that it will never happen again, that you don't want to lose him as a friend, or as the man you love. \n\nAsk him has hasn't he ever done something he truly regrets in a moment of weakness and bad judgement. We all have to grow and learn life lessons as we go
951406
You 2 broke up for a reason if u get back together do u really think it will work if so go for it if not then dont try anything on him.
1032939
there is a reason why you two broke up--it didn't work out.  don't be weak and get back with him just because you're lonely now.  it usually takes at least a few months before you get over someone...so stick it out and start casually dating (not meaning sex) in the mean time.
533221
Just tell the new guy the truth.  That your sorry, but you and your ex expectantly got back together and that you hope he understands.  If he is a really nice guy he will wish you the best and everything will be cool.  These things happen sometimes.
523173
Soooooo depends on circumstances......\nIf you broke with him, chances are he DEFINITELY wants you back. Either he may still love or lust after you or he wants revenge in dumping you first this time around (especially if you break up a new relationship to get back with him).\nIf he broke with you, are you dating somebody? thinking about dating somebody? looking like you may be ready to date somebody (or has he split or had problems with his "new" partner?) - If so, he PROBABLY wants you back!\nIf you are both moving on (with or without new partners), it's UNLIKELY he wants you back (but he may fancy an "old times sake" bonk.\nIf he's nice to you but seems happy without you/ catching up with old mates/ about to get married/ hiding around corners as you go about your daily business of stalkimng him etc etc, then he DOESN'T want you back WHATSOEVER!\nLet's face it, you either need to ask him straight or get over it/him!
286695
Move on.  There is someone out there who will return your affections.  You deserve better.
193021
Sounds like you are both in a better place to have an adult relationship now. When people ask about getting back together with an old flame I always ask them to try and think about what is going to be differant this time so you don't end up breaking things off again.\n\nYou are your ex need to have a serious discussion about what went wrong last time and how you can BOTH make sure that those types of things don't happen again.\n\nBest of luck
325859
Tell him how you feel. Ask him what you think may have gone wrong. Try and make it up to him in small steps. Make it look like you'll do absolutely ANYTHING to get him back. That way, he will know that you love him and he might just get back with ya.
168306
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)
974030
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
429838
WHat i say you should do is get himback i mean if you really like him that much i should know i had the same problem wit my boyfriend but if yall do get back together its going to take time because thats what my boyfriend told me "i just needed time wit being wit you so i can see how you are" so just give it time if yall get back together.
279570
he might simply be missing your company and want to try being friend (one of my best friends is a guy i dated for 2 years) if he broke up with you...and now wants to get back...let him explain to you why he left you, and why he wants to get back together...from his answer, you should be able to tell if he's serious or not.  and then make him work for it...but be careful...if you're unreasonable, you might lose him again.  just make him think that you might have moved on by pretending to be busy.  don't just see him at a drop of a hat...ex. tell him you're busy today but maybe you can meet up tomorrow etc.
95675
the best way to get him or her back is to tell them u still have feeling for them if they dont want u back forget about him/her and go find somebody new to show them they cant have u down show them u can get somebody else
775962
break up with him, date someone else, when he asks why, tell him, because he doesnt treat you right. if he wants you back, he will shape up, if not, then you were not happy with him to begin with, so move on.
399514
if you really want him back too, i suggest you do..but if not, tell him straight out..i also suggest you rush thinking about it because if you take too long, he might pick up and leave, something you might not want to happen..
948063
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
937936
The only way he is going to know how you feel is if you tell him directly. If you do get back together, make sure that you work on the things that made you break up in the first place. I hope he feels the same way, but if he doesn't, I would move on. I hope everything works out well!