I just had a moment.....Do you think that our first loves will ever be forgotten, if they are killed?
488320
yes ... but it hurts you very much in the beginning if you really have been serious in the relationship. Eventually, it fades off and you forget it completely after you found your new love
304842
Oh yes I definatly agree. There is no way you can forget a loved one. But you also cannot remember someone you never met.
767770
Because we are always afraid we might not see that person again. Plus we're softies! I have a very hard time saying bye to anyone too. From now on just say, "So long for now" and maybe it might not seem to final. See ya! (for now)
145882
Always people we need & love, we dont want to lose them. I always put in my mind that good people died before bad people coz it's part from the end of the universe. Only the worse people will live untill that moment. At the end it's the fate.
1073477
I think they are great quotes.  If we could all live by them what a great place the world would be.  Like the last quote...I think that is what we are all looking for.  The first quote is so true....if you feel something for someone let them know it.  It might not turn out like you hoped, but then again it might.  Love is worth the risk.  Thanks for reminding me that there are still some romantic guys left.  LOL......
543119
No, I don't long for her, but I sometimes think it was just a shame that it had to end. Now, I have someone I love who loves me back and I wish my ex happiness. I think it's good to move on and not dwell in the past and long for what is gone. So, I really didn't suffer a "lost opportunity at love" - I HAVE it now!
812900
wow... sorry but your 1st will always be your 1st and you'll never forget her... and slowly you'll forgive her for what shes done... but were only human and things happened for a reason maybe not good ones but it still happened...
322147
I know very well what you mean ! i think that the worst is to know that you found your second half , your soulmate but because of the circumstances you have to separate . it happened to me 6 years ago , and even thou its not that painfull as it was at the start i still spend a lot of thoughts on him and on the time we shared . will i get ever over it ? i dont know , i just know that yes , time heals a lot of pain , i dont feel pain anymore but i still think !!!! you will learn not to compare with time and besides its a bad thing to do . of course i know that its not easy at all not to but even this time will teach . ok , in the bottom of ur heart ................but i am sure that you will manage . think that there are a lot of people on this universe which felt the same!!! i wish u luck and all the best !!!!
1135083
of course it is!\n\nmy first love was my first BF and i was 16 too. still never forgot him 10 yrs later! he was the only boy who made me cry and broke my heart into a million pieces!!
860455
If you died- you would never know..But you can be sure that the people you left behind wouldn't be happy. It leaves a big hole in the hearts of those left behind.  If you think it is an answer to anything- please don't! There are people that love you-even when you don't think so.
80435
hey, lemmie break it to you gently....people rarely or never get over their first loves....it always has a nice feeling to remember that time and why should you forget it, we should treasure good old memories....as long as those memories dont get in the way of your marriage dear keep them....... i still remember my first love like it was yesterday, its unfortunate though that many people dont get to marry their first loves probably due to age, finances or other reasons but i woudnt want to forget that coz my past made what i am.....
437940
I believe you can find happiness twice in a life time.  You will never ever forget your first love.  You will always have him in your heart.  and you may not find THAT special kind of love again, but you can love again.  Like if your spouse dies after 20 years of marriage, I do believe later on in life you can find a new love and happiness with a new person.  I dont feel it will be the SAME degree and closeness as your first love but I fully believe you can love and find happiness once again.
326587
Its not about time period...its about whether or not you really feel the connection to them. With my first wife (only married once...she passed away) I fell in love with her on the day I met her. I literally stayed at her office (she worked at the bank) until closing...which was 930 and took her out to dinner. I wouldnt take no as an answer LOL...one month later...I asked her to marry me. And we got married...we were perfect...people didn't believe that we had only dated for one month before deciding to get married! She died a year and a half later...but I fell in love in 1 month...28 dates.
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I just lost my father 6 months ago.  It was very unexpected.. We had our ups and downs through the yrs, but reconciled abouth 5 months before he passed. i NEver got the chance to say good-bye.  But I know he watches over me, and my son.  And ppl probably think I'm crazy for saying this: but i talk to him every night before I go to sleep. Can't say that I know for sure he hears me, but I think he does. I'm not real religious, but I believe i'll see him again someday. He's only gone from this earth, not my heart. So I try to remember the good times we had (though few), funny things he'd say or do. Or the quality time he spent with me when he could. And even though I miss him, my memories always have him near to me.
468364
i think it's true..you could get it out of your mind for sometime but the memories and everything about your first love will always be with you..
570333
not trying to be offensive but if they were to be injured in a devistated accident would u stay with them. would u be faithful to them if they could not do the deed? would u stand by them if they had some devestating illness? does the thought of loosing them put u over the edge and the fear of loosing them just kills you inside? if yes then i would say that is love. if no i would say obviously it is not love. but it doesn't mean that it can not grow into a love. love can take time for some where others it omes love at first sight. well good luck
243386
Well, you can never ever ever forget your first love...unless you get konked on the head and get amnesia or some such like that. Heh. ^^; Anyway, it's normal to hold your first love higher than the next. You want the next to be just as perfect and wonderful. It is possible that he isn't the right one either, but you shouldn't ruin the relationship you have with him just because the love you feel is different. Best of luck hun! ^^