What should I do? I love a guy that has a girlfriend!?
475399
Cannot help loving someone . I f he has a girlfriend, maybe he loves her. If so better to find someone else. Unless he is interested in you.
327257
if you guys feel the same way then he should break up with her but if he doesn't you should move on cuz he is just an asshole!! you need to talk to him about how you feel and don't be the other gurl! and you also shouldn't wait cuz if he loves you he won't leave you waiting when he is with someone else that just isn't love.
322705
He's already taken! Yes, it may seem that you guys are meant for each other but you may not know him well enough, he may love his girlfriend in a way you may not understand and what you can do is to invite him and his girl and your friend to something and you can analze how strong his relationship is with his girl. Even if it is weak, if you guys are meant for each other, he'll come to you.
1010346
leave him alone and get your own man. he has a girlfriend. dont break them up. u wouldnt want anybody to do that to u.
755156
i think you just came out of an abusive relationship and you need some affection which this guy might be giving..lets not forget that this guy is perfect yes but he has a gf ...whether you think you want to pursue this relationship or not its best to let it go...he seems like he likes you but then he has a gf...honey he is confused as you are...just figure stuff out and be his friend for now and you need time after a breakup to regain your independence...now if he breaks up with her and you found yourself feeling great and you feel good then you might want to see if you want to pursue this but for now just chill take a load find yourself and regain your composure ...take it one day at a time no need to rush into something that might be complicated for you at this point in your life....
240639
i completely understand what ur going through, i was in the same boat a you. my advice is, if he really is happy with his girlfriend right now, i wouldn't say anything. because right now you're his friend, and you should be happy for him, unless she really isn't good for him (meaning she doesn't treat him right). but, if and when you do tell him, make sure you do it in person. just tell him that he is a great friend, and that u love being friends with him b/c he is such a great guy. then tell him that somewhere in the friendship your feelings changed, and now you like him. that's all i can really tell you. i hope i was some help.
672936
talk to him. you love him whatever the decision is. i think it is important you two make up your minds first. does he want to stay with his girlfriend and why is it that the two of you always end up together. easy answer i guess. but does it make sense to give in every time you meet? do you want to progress - or do you love him and want to know better..? last but not least.. just enjoy that there's someone special like this boy in your life. guess he will be there always whatever your decision. good luck.
81365
talk to your girlfriend about this new girl and ask her what you should do. I know that this sounds crazy, but it pays off. then really question your self. Y do you like these people? is the reason you like this other girl better than your gf that you never see her or is it because you don't have chemistry? Don't just blindly make a decision. That doesn't help.
440421
If he does dump his girlfriend for you, than you deserve each other! Just remember he could dump you for someone else just as easily! You would deserve it! You don't go after someone who is already in a relationship! You might want to get counseling to find out why you would want to go after someone who isn't really available and why your morals are so low. \n\nA.H.
689571
Imagine how you would feel if some guy was going after your girlfriend.  Then find someone new.\n\nOr be a weirdo and wait around until they break up.
227440
If I were you, I'd be wondering why he doesn't date her if she's that important? I'd try talking with him to be sure I understood the situation clearly. But, the more I think about it, maybe I'd just break up with him for a week or two just to see what happens. If you are important enough to him, he'll do anything he can to get you "back". If you're not, then you'll have your answer. \n\nI don't think a guy should treat a girlfriend that way, though. Period. She should be his top priority - no matter how close other friends may be.
559486
You have to wait - the hardest thing to do - for him to find out if he`s interested in you as a girlfriend. Don`t try to come between him and his current girlfriend, he`s chosen to be with her, and until they split up - if they do - you have to play the waiting game and let him come to you.
699860
You shouldn't do anything but be a friend to him. You should ask him though if he's really interested in continuting a relationship with her. You never know he may end up with you in the end... but don't get your hopes up or your feelings too involved, it could get ugly. If his girlfriend still feels for him she could get upset if she thinks your stealing him away... be aware.
416353
Dont go out on a limb.  He is her boyfriend.  U have to accept that.  There really isnt a whole lot u can do to her and him- try to find someone who suits u too.  (MAybe a gallon of icecream)lol
929276
I have the same problem! I dont know what to do! He has a girlfriend too! They have went out before and then broke up and started talking to me a lot and we started to hang out! then him and the same girl started dating again and have been for almost a yr! I try to get over the way I feel about him but when I am around him I cant forget about they way I feel!\nI dont want to ruin my friendship though!
795878
WOW... you are a PIG!!!!!!!  I think that when you started thinking of doing something with this other girl you should have broken it off with you girlfriend..\n\nSome advice from you..  I was in a relaitonship for 6 years.. we were highschool sweethearts... he cheated on me and then told me that he jsut wasn't sure what he  wanted.. he hadn't experienced anything other than me so that is why it happened.. he said he loved me but didn't know if he was in love with me so he wanted some time apart to think... well that time apart turned into a few months and then you know what happened.. the jerk realized what he had and came back but it was too late.  \n\nso sometimes when you are in a relationship for so long you tend to overlook a lot things, you tend to take things for granted.. you tend to think do I really want this what if there is something else out there.. and then you follow your doubts and find out everything you wanted you had but its too late... don't let it be too late for you.. figure out what you want.. and you need to talk to your girl you can't hide that! Also I hope you used protection if not you also need to tell your girl and you both should get checked there are a lot of diseases out there!\n\nHope this helped.. \nanything else just email me!
1038264
wait til he gets rid of his girlfriend first, cause if you get to involved now your relationship won't flow right, get to know him more he may seem like mr. right but obviously he might not be so cool, since he's having those kind of conversations with you and he has a girlfriend, but if he is the one you won't have to worry about knowing what to do, it'll come to you natuarally, but just be patient, don't get too excited yet ya feel me.