why cant guys just like a girl for who she is and not just to get down her pants.?
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From a guys view..... we do like girls for who they are and their integrity... however a guy like any other person will start to take disadvantage of anyone that seems to be easy and i know we can use our mouths to get anything we want.... what your doing wrong is that your always falling for the "I LOVE YOU" crap and he is just using that as a password to access the promiss land.... if i may say that... what you need to do is to start to set standards for yourself and hey maybe he will respect you more and cut the crap... check the logics, if he loved and cared for you, yall will be together and most of all he would use u as a booty call...\n   Sorry for sounding so harsh but yall seem to always fall for the same thing.. like my sister... but your more than that and love should not be a hoke up.. there is more to love and living the joys love should be one....\n\nSort out your feelings for him and see if that what you want to do!!! or would you prefer to be with someone that loves you equally and respect you for you and not just what they can get..... \n  i would recommend that you start to avoid places where yall will become alon as that will cause you to do thing you dont want to do and secondly, just try to find someone else that can make you happy....... tell me if it works!!
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I agree great guys are hard to come by these days. But not all guys are bad either. That's an understatement. I think it's cool you like to treat a gal like a lady. and i agree completely with you on that. But i guess it's just in their nature and the way they were brought up. But there still is hope, i'm sure there are great guys like yourself out there. And if not at least we know there's one. \nCheers!!
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You dont need to change, guys will like u just the way you are. I think that girls who say that guys prefer more girly girls are stupid. Girls that are used to hanging out with guys are usually the ones that are better at flirting, communicating, and having a good time. Guys dont want a girl whos all prissy and stuckup.
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girls need to look at a guy and immediately feel safe with him. He needs to have that quality,. he should be genuine and should be a good listener.
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wow thats alot. every guy is attracted to different girls. i like petit girls, like you mentioned. but some guys gor for the chubbier girls. now with the other issue. thats pretty heavy and i dont think a guy would abandon a girl on that situation. he needs to be there for her and help her. but also it is not his responsiblity to repair the damage.
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I think personality is more important than gender. There are some guys that I get along with really well and some that I don't, same with girls. Its all a matter of how well personalities mesh when it comes to living together.
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You sound like a guy I know. He's determined to do the same thing and he's set his mind on not bothering with girls until he's 21. Don't ask why but he's one of those fellas who likes to be certain I guess. Don't worry about being amazingly good-looking underneath your clothes mate, if a girl likes you, she'll like you for who you are. You don't have to mess with the fact you could be different just for their sake. I'm sure you have your own requirements for a girl though, so you should take into consideration what you're aiming for aswell as how you're feeling. Good luck with those girls.
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Not all men have the same likes as women. I was told to just be myself and love would come. Heck, I first had to find out who I was and by the time I finally found me, I weighed so much that there was nobodyhere to look at me. Figure that.\nThinking of it, I am so happy now. I have learned how to get the most out of life by myself and not have to share my food. Hahahha. Thanks for your responses. The answers are great.
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I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
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For me there has to be a mix of chemistry and personality the two need to go hand in hand together.  I suppose what ever attracts a girl to a guy is similar to what attracts a guy to a girl.
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Everybody has certain traits that they are attracted to. A girl that will stay with you a long time is being fickle because not only do you have to find her, but you will also have to figure out how to keep here once you do. No one person is perfect, there are certain things that you will like and certain ones that you will not. You have to find a medium ground on what traits that you will allow yourself time to get used to. This is being the part where you learn how to keep a decent woman. If you do not figure this out-- somebody definitely will and it is your loss!
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Because all most guys want is in your pants, keep your head up Mr. Right will come along in due time and he will be that guy and not "that guy". What you suffer from is called poor selection process, i used to have that problem to only mine is all the girls I meet want to do is get in my pants, it sucks when you want more, just walk with patience.
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With some women, it's because they're scared. Also it could be because the girl isn't sure the guy is interested in that way. So if a guy is into a girl, let them know.
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to keep guys guessing... :o) not all girls are so complicated... but personally i think it stems from our insecurities... and maybe from our hormones too... lol
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If you are trying to say that girls/women are nice at the beginning and then not nice further into things...I would say guys can be the same way.\nIt takes time to truly get to know someone...and no one is perfect.
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everyone is different . sure opposite attract . but many of my friends lik the qualities they hav ,lik a serious guy would manage with a serious girl . if its me , then i would lik somone who thinks lik myself she shouldbe open-minded , not a miser , and not too talkative ,respects people's spaces.
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when are you guys going to realize that to be a man is not what is in your pants,it's how you carry yourself and how you treat a lady.What about compassion,honesty,integrity,kindness don't those things mean anything to you and besides if a girl really loves you for you then the size of your sex organ won't make any difference.