Is this emotional blackmail?
483603
Actually, it's bribery.  But regardless of whether it's blackmail or bribery, it's wrong.  Tell you grandmother that forgiveness is for the repentant.  If your mother doesn't repent, what is the point of forgiveness?  You'll only wind up repeating the cycle.
279126
Well if you feel you must.A proper response would be \nnothing more hurtful than whatyourself received, as\nwe dont need to escalate it to anything physical.\nRestraint is a more powerful response.
900791
I would suggest an open ended question... something that wouldn't appear too invasive.  "Is it something I can help with?" Of course, you have to be wary that this person might be waiting for an invite that way he can pour out all of his emo junk on you and that might not be where you want your limited relationship to go.  Otherwise, I think what you did was okay.  I figure if he wanted help with it, he probably would've gone further with his answer.
239186
there is nothing wrong with having this kind of relationship.Just be sure that your pal gets to understand the confidentiality of this relationship.I wish you all the best.
993396
Yes, trust me it's not funny it's very serious if you have i suggest you report it to the police or seek help. if you don't it might affect you in future relationships.
531708
He sounds like a spoiled brat with reality issues. She needs to drop him ... NOW! \n\nAnd yes, it's possible to affect someone's mental health by that sort of behavior, especially if they have rather delicate mental stability.
109748
No.  When you are angy at someone and tattle, it is more revenge than caring for the person you tattle to.  No one will appreciate you if you do this....and no one will trust you.  It is now none of your business, he is out of your life.  Your ex fella will doom himself in time and this will mean more than anything you could do or say.
270518
Is your daughter aware that you are doing this/\nIt seems to me that you are trying to cause trouble for the por guy and that you should mind your own f______ business.
1034678
Did it ever occur to you to call the police?  Blackmail is illegal so is harrassment.  Call the police now and talk to them.
45245
Blackmail is where you offer NOT to reveal some embarassing or damaging piece of information for money or some act:\n\nobtaining or procuring something by illegal means, such as by force or coercion.\n\nHere there is neither force or coercion.\n\nI don't think this is blackmail exactly, because there is no force or coercion. However, one might argue that by offering the information for money, it could be.\n\nI would call the police and see what they say. Since the girl didn't do anything illegal (I assume?), it's not something the police would care about, but the threat is real.
954801
It sounds to me that you really hurt this persons feelings even if you meant to or not!  Don't let your pride ruin your friendship!  Physically violence is not the answer if you dont want to see this person face to face you can just mail a letter of apology.
452594
Don't do it!  It is a trap!  The next thing you know, she will have you working as her personal exec.  Then you will be doing her "little favors" on her whim.  Then when she has pictures of you doing such acts she will black mail you and your life will come crashing down around you.  First it will be $10,000.00 then $100,000.00 and then you will be cashing in your savings and getting shot at and running from the cops.  So mouth hugger beware.  Glad I was here in time to stop this.  Consider this my good deed for the day.  :)
941371
It's too late to second guess, you already mailed the letter. I wouldn't have done that, personally. I really think that if he wanted it to go past friendship, he would've let you know before; I'm sorry sweetie, but I'm afraid you're gonna end up feeling hurt and embarrassed that you did this. I would forget about having a relationship with this guy.....
478406
Add in the paper, guilt trippin' the person, blackmails allways a gooden too! Nah just jokin'! Give some more info and I'll be able to help you properly!
662528
It might be in his will.  You should check on that.  If she thinks she is getting all of it, it might be in his will.
221096
Boy this is a hard one.  Don't you think she might aready suspect it anyway?  I don't know.  Just sit her down and tell her how you feel.  After the shock she will be spuportive, I am sure.  Are you sure you want to tell her?
754633
No. I respest promises and secrets. I would feel really bad if I don't keep a promise or a secret.