Do you still want to get married / stay married? Why or Why not?
485359
No, I wouldn't want to stay married because I feel trapped in marriage. I felt like I just, "settled" with my husband out of fear of being alone. I think he did the same, but is too proud to admit it. We aren't each others soul mate because we have NOTHING in common and do not have the same expectations in life. We simply got comfortable with each other and left it that way.
54115
The only real reason to get married is if you love someone unconditionally, and are willing to support and care for that person the rest of your life.\n\nOf course, if you just don't have self control enough to wait for the right one to come along, then by all means get married to the one you lust for, but remember, it's for life!
354995
I would definitely consider it.I have no interest in having what is not mine,nor do I have an interest in losing all I have acquired should a marriage fail.\n\nThe only thing I would insist on is that it be spelled out what if any changes will be made should children become part of the picture,as I believe that changes things and it should be made clear in an agreement as well.\n\nWe all want marriages to last or at least that is what we all SHOULD want,but reality is that lots of marriages don't last and it should not result in losing everything you worked your whole life for on top of the heartbreak.
525251
I think marriage is a wise decision only if you love the other person. You should care more about the other than yourself. Your life should be truly devoted to providing happiness and well being for the other. You should be able to communicate. It sounds like alot to ask for, but if you are truly in love, you will do all these things willingly, without thinking about it. \n\nI have been married nearly two years. My husband and I made it through the hardest part because of how strong and reliable our love is. Life without a partner to share it with isn't worth living.
530991
Yes... I am one of them.  I want to get married to a loving husband and have a wonderful marriage someday.  I just haven't found that man yet.
552831
do what makes you happy and fulfilled, you don't have to please anyone else or society anymore.  I am 39, never married & no kids and I prefer that over ever being divorced and putting kids through hell because of my own not so good choices.  I desire to be married someday, just not to the wrong one.  It's cool to be unique and different anyway.  Follow the road less traveled!!  & your heart!!
411246
NO.GO FOR IT! GET MARRIED! HAVE CHILDERN!BE HAPPY!
565859
It depends on who the person is and if they are ready to settle down, I am 35 and I am ready to settle when I was younger no way not ready, but now I feel I am ready for that long term commitment. my reason for waiting so long i didnt want to marry and than 1yr end up in divorce, when i marry I want it to last.like the vows dill death do us part...
551453
Yes I am presently engaged to my guy. We have been doing this for about a year. We put God first and then used our faith to keep us going. In two weeks I will be his wife, if I had to do it all over again I would not change a thing. We have our challenges but with computers, webcams, telephones the distance seem very short.
232364
you dont get married just to have kids. you get married because you found someone you want to share your life with and making a committment to do so forever.
1159061
Yes, I was married to a man who was wonderful, but there is a downside to it. In order to stay in love the intimacy needs to be there. We later divorced and remained good friends, which was what we were in the first place. I have since remarried and I am glad because I missed being intimate with someone. Good luck.
942522
Well, im divorced. While I loved my husband we had too many issues, particularly his looney family. So unless they were gone, no, i would not marry him again. But, I also would not give up the years we had together, or the beautiful son we have together, for anything.
11901
A marriage can be very important if you want to be with them for life. Studies show that live-in relationships on average don't last as long as marriages do. However, do not jump into marraige just because you want to live with someone. Learn as much about the person before you make a serious commitment of marriage or moving in.
392931
do you think marriage is a good thing? Is this what you want..? Ask yourself what you wants? Dont settle for what everyone else wants. Do what your heart tells you to do.
201142
Is it marriage or the wedding you are on about? If its marriage then you will know when you are ready. I was. Didn't have any doubts. I did live with my now husband before I got married. This made us realise what we were like all the time and we knew we could be together 24/7
509056
I think because marriage is the ultimate committment (or its supposed to be!). You're pledging to love and stand by your significant other for the rest of your life...its a big deal and it is something women have been trained to want and dream about!\nPersonally, I have no idea when I'm going to head down the aisle, as I'm currently single. I'm in no rush though, there are so many things that will be harder to do while in a committed relationship!
814871
Why marry at all? Enjoy life before you get tied down.