How long should u wait  to have sex with some 1 your dating?
485286
30 minutes after you have met him/her at starbucks for good conversation and a frappachino, you should know if he/she is hot for you.
369040
it's called dating, let them know you're not certain about anything at this point, so you want to date before seeing just them.
146036
Depends on the guy and the situation.  I have some friends who think a girl that puts out on the first date is not worth going out with agian, and I have friends who have had sex on the first date that are or were involved for a long time with that one person.  There is no right answer here, like I said it depends on the guy and the situation..Hope this is of some help...
562854
Wait until you are ready.  Don't be pressured into it.  Tell him you're not ready, if he really cares about you he'll be happy to wait until you are ready. If he carries on pressuring you he doesn't really care and only wants sex, and you're worth so much more than that.
1019357
How long have you been dating first off? Is just starting 4 months? or is it more like 2 weeks because normally before I even kiss the girl I wait at least till the 3rd date, or 4th.
788978
whack off before your date.... then you'll last longer.\n\nwear a condom...
703791
At 2 years clean and sober, you most likely have the support in your life to maturely enter the harsh and horrid dating scene. I know, I too am in your predicament. I just go slowly and safely. I no longer have sex on the first date. The second date is up for grabs. Sex and love are 2 different things. Sometimes one needs some sportf**k**g.
302303
well sex shouldnt be planed,it will just happen,but u need to wait till ur ready and when its the right time.never rush into things.always get to know the person first.perferably dont have sex unless its someone ur in love with.but no one knows when their gonna lose it.(well most people)i didnt.i made sure i was in love with the person.where not together now but we were crazy about eachother at the time.just be a good guy and dont just go out and fuck everybody.i dont know about other girls but i dont like that.
395081
well then just wait, or u know find yourself another female, like u said u have had sex before.
1015316
I think kissing on the first date is fine. As long as you feel comfortable with it and it feels right there is no problem. Take things as slow as you like or as fast as you like as long as you feel good about it
154184
it depends on your beliefs, i believe that you should only have sex when u know that you really love the person, and before you have sex u should become friends first and really get to know and trust each other, its not about marriage its about maturity and commitment,
747877
Perhaps you two should wait a tad longer until you are fully educated on sexual activity.
1167112
Girl, if he is willing to wait, I'd wait. Apparently he must have some feelings for you and that counts for something. If you really want to have sex, let him do oral and get yourself a toy. No harm in that and it's safe. Let's just call it "protective fun"!
1186946
If you've been together for 5 months, it hardly qualifies as a one-night stand.  If you're ready to have a sexual relationship with him, just be sure you've thought about all the possible consequences, such as pregnancy or STDs, and make sure you're protected.  You don't mention your age... and you haven't mentioned whether this will be your first time.  If it is, you should really think about whether you're ready to take that step.  Only you can decide, and don't let him pressure you into it if you decide you're not ready.
1175444
no. sometimes its better to take things slowly, and get to know each other really well. then when you know you trust them, you can go ahead and do the things that you wanna do. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we havent had sex yet. he knows i want to wait, and he respects that. but if your man does'nt want to wait, then he is'nt worth your time. no guy should have to be that way.
1024767
respect what they wanna do if they wanna have sex they wanna have sex if they wanna wait wait
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".