i have a boyfriend but i still love my ex but he says he still loves me but he wont talk to me?
481492
I was in the same situation once. My ex told me he still loved me and told me this and that. And yeah maybe he did. But guys just do that to have you in the palm of there hand. Cuz they know that youll be there for them. If he wont talk to you is because hes making it easier for him to let you go. So my advice do the same, dont talk to him. Itll be easier for you as well. Yeah its tough because alot of thing are unsaid or undone but that something you have to deal with.
125003
why would he not talk to you? he is not worth it.girlfriend find someone else.
1113389
please take some time and wait... for sure he will talk to you again and patched up things... sometimes love needs some arguments to spice up the relationships
956722
dont play with your current boyfriend... and yes you are toying with him, break it off with him until you have either fallen out of love with your Ex or you are ready to move on from your Ex.... It sounds Harsh but trust me you'll thank me in the end :)\n\nboy that's mature Wolfchat
560607
I think both of you need a serious talk. If he says his feelings decreased but he says he made a huge mistake you need to ask how he feels now. Cause if he doesn't want to be with you in that way, you're only torturing yourself by hanging out with him and talking to him on the phone. If he feels that he wants to get back together then he should tell you when both of you have your serious talk. If he says he needs to think about it and you want to wait then don't pressure him. Show interest but not insecurity. I know it would be hard to stop talking to someone that you love if it wont work out. But sometimes you need your heart to hurt a little bit so it would heal. Just keep yourself busy. If it's meant to be then it will happen. There's plenty other relationship experience's that you will go through and not all of them will work even though your certain they're the one. And yes, I'm telling you this from personal experience. Good luck...
52963
Why is he an ex?  If it's a good reason, try to get over those residual feelings...know it's for the best that you aren't together.  I say, if you still have feelings, swallow your pride and let him know but also be prepared, just in case he says he doesn't feel the same.
664321
uh oh i have been in this exact situation before and it didnt turn out to good because i didnt take action. i just let it go, and he eneded up dumping me. you have to ask him whats going on between us or something will happen, because my last bf only wanted me, and not me(like my personality) he just wanted to make out and it was badddddd ACT FAST. NO JOKE!!!!1\nor mabey you should listen to everyone else, i mean, if he barley talks to you, does that mean he bareley says i love you or he wont TALK to you? mabey he doesnt want to say i love u around his friends or something. mabey he's past the stage of the everyday i love you, youre beautiful thing.
409062
Why are you messaging your ex boyfriend? I think you are creating drama for yourself. So wallow in it, you deserve it.
641252
Open Communication here is key. You have to be able to talk to your ex and feel comfortable about talking about everything or anything that is on your mind. \n\nIf your ex holds back in any way shape or form in conversation, then he has other intentions and is probably just using you for sex.
949702
there could be a lot of ways to show your ex that you want him back & that you still care about him..however, things happen for a reason & there should be a reason why he became your ex..sad to say, if things are not really meant to be, no matter what you do, no matter how you try, you can never win him back..so it would be better to just show you still care but if he doesn't care about you anymore, just move on & find someone who's more worth the efforts..Ü
923217
u need to be strong, and never go back to this guy, u are still in love with the ex, and it is hard when he calls. sometimes we can still love someone but they aren't good for us, sometimes it is hard to move on, but we got to, for our own well being, when we truly know that person will hurt us. just be strong, when he calls again, hang up, don't let him suck u in again into his world.
280348
I don't think you have true love there or his love. If he loved you then he would speak up or for you. Time to move on and find some one else that will.
1175349
OK I  just went through a situation where my boyfriend left me because his ex ccame back into his life..I feel so miserable without him and i feel sick to my stomach...You need to be careful about what youdo..It could really hurt your boyfriends feelings..There must of been a reason why you broke up with your ex..so why are you wanting to go back out with him? AND if your not sure you dont love your boyfriend then dont lead him on..you just reallly need to think
728741
you no what mate, it happened to me to, but if you both still care for each other and h does like you say he does, then he would talk to you about this, or maybe he just wants to have the both of you, sometimes man cant really say what they wish to say as it's hard for them, but if he wont leave her, then maybe he dont love you the way he did when you were both together, i no it's hard but you will find another man, when you decide its time to move on, take care good luck mate
123729
maybe he does still love u he just doesn't show it completly ... if he didn't love u anymore ... would he still b w/ u?\nor maybe he's just bad at showing it ..
522860
Maybe he's losing intrest in u or trying to give u a hint? that he wants to see other people. That's what my ex did, when she said i deserve some one better. Maybe he's trying to get more attention, who knows? tell him stop playing games and come out forward & say what's on his idiotic mind. Us guys can't express our feelings well, unlike u ladies.
479643
If you love the other guy, stay with him! An ex should always be forgotten. But I don't blame you for feeling a little cheated on. You'll get over it if you love the boyfriend you're with at the moment.