Really tired of the dreams(nightmares)....  bad enough that I dont want to go to sleep.  My boyfriend.....?
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There could be two different problems going on here. One could be that something is bothering you here and you need some peace of mind about it before you can truly totally relax. Have you tried maybe some aromatherapy before you go to bed or near your bed? Lavendar is excellent to promote a healthy, restful sleep. Also, before you go to bed, a few hours before, quit drinking anything with caffeine and sugar in it. Before bed, drink a glass of milk ( warm if you like it that way. The triptofan-phan? in it will really help you to relax and get to sleep easier_) and maybe take a warm bath or shower. I love crawling into bed after I dry off from a hot shower... yummy!!\n\nHave you ever thought about praying before you go to bed? I know, I know.. you're thinking I"m a zealot. But seriously, if you have something bothering you , you can ask for help. Ask for guidance in decision making, thank  ( diety of choice here) for all  the blessings you have in your life, forgiveness for any indescretions you may have committed... etc... This can really clear the mind for easier sleep.\n\nOk, the OTHER option I wanted to bring up is Sleep apnea. Its a sleep disorder that can easily be diagnosed. IF you have a problem with snoring, waking up alot and never feeling rested, you might have apnea. I do, and I used to have bizzaro dreams like you spoke of.  I got tested and I sleep with a little machine at night that helps me breathe now at night and I feel sooo much better!!  Just ask your boyfriend to watch your sleeep  patterns one night and to make notes. Look up the symptoms online. You never know, your problems might just be something this simple. \n\nWhatever it is, I really do hopeyou get some good sleep soon and cut back on those dreams!! \n\nsweet dreams....
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Lots of things can cause recurring nightmares. Really hard to say. Maybe your worried about something. Maybe you need to talk to someone.
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That happens to me too. I do not know what kind of dreams is she having, but mine are not sweet dreams. I have a friend how is experiencing the same as , we have talked about it and concluded the dreams are happening because we had bad relationships, we were traumatized and need to work on that because the memory of those bad relationships and bad experiences are haunting us.
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Bigger question:  Do dreams really EVER mean anything, or are they just the brain's way of trying to make sense out of random electro-chemical reactions between synapses?\n\nBut, to answer your question:  Probably not.  There's a reason you broke up.  I'd focus on that rather than a dream.  (Aren't you glad that you are not pregnant with his child?)
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Wow, I can totally relate to your problem... I have some pretty bad dreams myself! I had one the other night.. it was so scary, and I woke up at 5:30 in the morning just to get out of the dream! \nThat is what I do most of the time, I force myself to wake up, and sometimes it's only after it's gotten worse! I wondered how I could get through the previous parts without waking up... but when I do wake up, I usually get up quickly, to try to chase the memory of the bad dream away! It works most of the time...  There was an old saying once upon a time about what to do about nightmares... "take a bale of hay to bed with you to feed them!"  ;0)  Seriously though, I have found out that the most frequent nightmares are from when I am eating close to bedtime!\nIt's mostly sweets too... so I have had to cut back on those darn things and not eat so late at night.  I have also found that when I wake up from a nightmare, I am usually on my back... and I hate that... So I try really hard to stay on my side, or my stomach! I know it's not like I can control it when I'm sleeping.. but I do try! \n The meds are supposed to help you relax and sleep, but there is a potential for addiction to some types of sleep inducing drugs!\nWork with your Dr. and see what is best and safe for you ok! I have alot of empathy for you, I have been through this for years! \nGood luck... and as one good person already said, Prayer helps!
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Nothing at all.  Haven'y you ever had naughty dreams like that?  Nothing says that he will go through with what he dreamt.  The fact that he trusted in your relationship enough to actually tell you means he trusts you with things.  I am thats pretty gutsy for him to tell he dreamt he slept with your friend.  I bet he probably dreams sex with you too.  Until he actually sleeps with someone other than you don't worry about.  Be happy that he trusts you with secrets.  Dont let this little thing destroy your relationship
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i have no idea what this means....sounds like u need to make sure youre protected at all times...then again it could mean nothing...just a bad dream
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why did you break up? do you think you will still have that problem if you got back together? Did he break up with you? Your dreams won't matter if he does not still have feelings for you. I wouldn't tell him unless he does. You would just get hurt. If he does, then go ahead, take a chance.amd amybe you can work things out.
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The dreams are related to your subconscious feelings about your situation.You should discuss them with your husband,since he is the subject of your dreams.Subconsciously there are still some hidden doubts and fears that need to be brought to the surface and examined.Talk it over with your husband and see what input you get.
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I have been having the same nightmare since I was a child and I still wake up unable to scream or catch my breath.  I've also woken up sad/angry/happy with someone because of what happened the night before in my dreams.  It's strange because when you see the person next it's hard to talk to them.  I have to explain the dream and it usually makes me feel better.
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Probably not...but that doesn't mean he won't...dreams are usually triggered by things we are feeling and hoping...so you may be hoping it will occur and dreamt about it...or he may be giving you subtle clues, that you are only subconsciously picking up on, and thus you dreamt about it.\n\nIf that is what you want...and what he wants, I wish y'all the best.
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dreams are just means to release stress or solve some internal problems or pressure .... \n\nfigure it out
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Doctor, Doctor, I keep having reccurring nightmares.  One night I think I'm a teepee, the next I think I'm a wigwam.\n\nI know the problem - you're just two tents!
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Yeah I did... Had a bad dream. I was like chased by someone I don't wanna be with and when he caught me, I started to cry and woke up crying. I continued crying for a while cause of the fear.
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I would say that you dreamt about becoming closer and leave it at that. Hopefully, this will make him feel warmer towards you.\n\nHowever, psychologists such as Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung interpret dreams as a conversation between your conscious and unconscious mind. It shows that you are thinking about taking things further with him at least subconciously. However, it seems that your conscious mind is reluctant to do so. My advice would be to make sure that you are ready to take things further before you do so. You should think about this before saying anything about it to him.
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If your boyfriend cuts himself in waking life, his dream may be trying to tell him that by cutting you (in the dream) that he is hurting himself just as badly as he would hurt you if he did those things to you.\n\nWhat I'm trying to say is that though his dream may have brought back bad memories for you, the dream is for him. It's his dream and he needs counseling for whatever it is that causes him to cut himself. He may have been hurt as you once were. I don't know.\n\nAnd, yes, you need counseling too because it's very hard to deal with what you've been through.\n\nI don't know what your family is like, mine blamed me for the abuse that I got because they didn't know how to deal with it, but these days you can reach out and you can get help. Please do. Both of you.
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Maybe your dreams but my nightmares..