if a women is cheating on her husband is their a easy way to know without actually seeing it?
476771
Sorry Girls;\n\nhttp://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten_60/65_dating_list.html
1113576
no easy way, she will find out eventually so just be honest. Good luck.
575340
For your information, when two ppl are married, nothing should be hidden from the other mate. It is supposed to be an open book relationship. So if the wife finds something the husband has done, she has every right to look, snoop, or whatever, he can on her too. You must have never married or you would know that. The two shall become one.....so each mate has every right to see, know what the other one has done or is doing, that doesn't make one a snooping b_____. so get a life and grow up. You're still in your baby stage of life. Haven't you got anything better to do that bash women and call names....? take a long look at your life and where it's headed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
617986
vadnj0\n\nThe guy asked a legitmate question regardless of his motives.\n\nNow, military wives have cheated every since there as been a military not just during wars but when soldiers are out on military training exercises as well. You may ask how do I know. I was in the AF and I was stationed near an Army base. We could always tell when the Army was out on a training excercise because the NCO Club would be jammed packed with their wives Thursday and Friday nights.
856827
Despite the emotional burden, I think almost all women would want to know if they are being cheated on.  Cheating rarely has anything to do with the quality of the marriage but the cheater's inability to commit to a strong vow such as marriage and to control their actions.  If the marraige is that bad, there shouldn't be cheating and decietfulness, there should be divorce. The reasons cheaters tend to stay cheaters is because they don't want to change.  I think it can be changed, but the cheater has to learn a little bit about making decisions according to priority and responsibility, not impulse.  The cheater must also learn where their weaknesses are happening and how to deal with them in a proper manner.  They must learn to avoid cheating of the mind first, then they can free themselves of onsetting thier own urges.  They must change the way they think about cheating (it's not a positive, rewarding thing).   After that, it's all a matter of decision making and devotion.
67927
Yes, you need to think, if your husband was cheating on you, how would you feel if your sister knew and didn't tell you.  You need to have enough evidence to prove that you are right about the accusations so that you aren't saying something that is not true.  Then you sit them down and explain what you know.  They won't take it well, who would, but at least you kept them from being dragged down even more.
313807
If she knows that he is married, the hell yeah!!! But if she doesn't know and he is lying to her as well, then no.
315357
Ask him. Point blank, out of the blue, look him straight in the eye and say: "Are you cheating on me?" His reaction will tell you exactly what is going on.
129458
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns. If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
673935
why doesn't the husband know. I don't think it's cheating, but I'd wonder why her husband is in the dark.
467598
a woman always knows. usually when shes EVEN thinking hes cheating, he is. signs include: buying new underwear/clothes for no reason, taking better care of himself all the sudden, working late, wearing a new cologne, changing passwords, running out for errands more often, not wanting to have sex as much, and taking up new interests. or the more obvious as in my case... i found lipstick/makeup on the shirts, love letters, condoms and late night phone calls. yea, i fired him lol
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If all parties know about it and they're fine with it, I don't see a problem with it...\nBut I can't imagine the wife being okay with the fact that you were the woman her husband had an affair with... so I'm assuming she doesn't know...\nIn that case, if you two can play it off like there was nothing between you two, I guess you'll be okay....\nBut WATCH OUT, because people talk.... and sooner or later they ALL find out...
571805
I saw a private investigator on Oprah one day and he said that most men are caught cheating by the wife when she hits redial on the phone. Also check credit card receipts for florists, jewelers, etc...check the mileage on the car, unexplained longer distance? Does he shower immediately upon returning home from somewhere he shouldn't have gotten dirty? SMELL HIM-perfume, cigarette smoke and he doesn't smoke? Be aware of everything.
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no I wouldn't confront her. I would talk to my husband instead. I don't have a relationship with the girl. But I'll make sure that she knows the guy she is having sex with, is married. \n\nHave you heard about the saying that goes "the sweetest revenge to a cheating husband is to give  him to his mistress?"
493983
#!----VERY IMPORTANT.  I know from experience.  If you suspect your guy is cheating, don't...I repeat, don't let him know you are suspcicious.  If you confront him, he will take his measures to hide the cheating to a higher level, and it will be more difficult for you to find the truth.  Cheaters get lazy after a while.  Solid clues will come to the top and you will be able to find out the longer you let him think all is well.  Take advantage of his laziness and carelessness.  It will happen.  Then, when you have solid evidence, throw it in his face and give him all the HE!! he deserves.  Don't commmit a crime though.
558252
well there really is no way to really tell other than a lie detector...but women's intuition is usually right...at least that has been my experience...besides if you think he is lying to you about something serious you probably shouldnt be with him
458633
Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.