How do u ask a girl if shes on the pill or other forms of it without scaring her away or making it feel wierd?
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If I were you, I will just ask her! And don't be scared about her response, she should be happy that there is one who cares about future and is responsible! \nI know it is hard to talk about such things, but believe me, you both feel better after that!\nBe careful, it is better to use a condom instead of being a future father! Abortion is not a simple thing for a girl.
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First off all, grow up and learn that spelling things improperly dosn't make you cool. Second, if you don't trust her well enough to take her word for it, then you are not yet close enough to have sex responsibly. If you can't ask, then you aren't mature enough.\n\nIf you really are worried about it, ask her to get tested, you should get tested as well to reassure her. \n\nEither way, condoms, if properly used, are something like 99.9% effective at preventing the spread of STI's.
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Tell her directly that you are afraid the pills will cause her real harm if she keeps taking them. Tell her you think it's idiotic to sacrifice health for other people.\n\nDo you think she's got a problem? Tell her. Then let her know that you do love her enough to get help from outside sources.\n\nMaybe there is an independent counselor or teen support service. Look into it.\n\nAnd then, if you pray, pray for her.
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use a condom so that she doesn't see that you didn't come, and simulate you are spasming throsting your pelvis ina quick uncontrolled fashion...
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Check this website and put in the info on the pill:\nhttp://www.drugs.com/
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I have had sex while on the pill and not gotten pregnant, so odds as slim that you will. However it is possible. So if you are concerned you can get tested at your local clinic.
74520
u could start off by askin the gurl how do she feel about u dont be scared the worst she can say is no
125047
Don't rely on pills, they're dangerous and could make you look sickly and horrible in the long run.\n\nTry eating healthily and exercising and I guarantee you'll look sexier than any pill will ever make you look.
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If she's on birth control pills she can skip the last week of non-hormone pills and start a new pack. This should keep her period from coming. Have a good trip!
540221
Ask her on a date. There is hardly a girl any where that will turn down a real date, like goping out to dinner, because most girls have never been on a real date, once you got her there ask her how she feels about you. It's not very nice for her to be messing with your emotions. But it sounds like she likes you and is too afraid to just flat out say it.
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Honestly, it depends on the women..It's funny you asked this question My friend and I talked about this today :) But anyways.... that is something that you need to communicate with her. You can either talk about it on the phone and see how she feels about or while in the act ask her if it's okay if you "release" and if she says yes, then fire away....If not, then let loose in the condom and charge it to the game...until she is ready ;)
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If you don't want to wear a condom, only have sex in a long term committed relationship in which both of you have been tested and you are 100% positive that she isn't cheating and that she is also on the pill.\n\nOtherwise, abstinence is always 100% fool-proof.\n\nIf you don't like either of these options, there are extra sensitive condoms out there.  They are thin to give you that added feeling but protect too.  Check out the web or go browsing the aisles (an adult shop has a lot of varieties) for different options.
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Ask questions about her. When you do that it shows that you are interested about her and you just dont want to get down her pants. Also, try to find out what you have in common. And if she is cool, talk about sex and what you both like and dislike.
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Ask her can you have a quick word alone. Tell her that you are a bit nervous but if you dont tell her whats on your mind, you may regret it forever. (she will apriciate you for having the bottle to do and say this).  Tell her that you realy like her and it would be great if she will go out with you OR if she will be your girl (but dont go over the top). It would be nice to get a positve response, but be prepared for a negative one. DO NOT worry about a negative response as this may stop you taking action. And besides you will get over it in a few hours. Make a decision, do it, or dont do it. ASAP.
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tell them about safe sex
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ask her what kinds of things shes into
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Make her comfortable and let her know that she can be herself, that she doesn't have to change to be someone she is not, for you.  Turn conversations in her direction and ask her basic questions that she won't feel weird about answering.  Most likely she will ask you the same question and then you will have the opprotunity to show her who you are too. Good Luck!