Calling My Boyfriend!!?
483659
It seems that after 6 months you should be comfortable enough with him to not be playing these games.\n\nInstead of wondering how many times you should call him, I would reevaluate the relationship. What are you concerned about? Do you still want to keep him guessing? Are you overly obsessed about him and feel that he is distant? Do you truly think you are on the same page as him, as far as your feelings for one another are concerned?
920571
Helllll no, let him call YOU!  You are much too good for him anyway.  There is a line of guys waiting just around the corner.   Remember that men are like buses;  if you miss one, another will be along in about 10 minutes.
1104709
Call him!  Who knows, maybe he is wondering the same thing about you?  Communication goes two ways in any relationship.  \n\nIf you don't feel comfortable calling him, at least talk to him about it, ask him to call you!
438176
if you really love him, just say it, it might be hard to start but when you say the first word, you won`t be able to stop, besides it feels good, and he will feel good as well. good luck!! make sure you say it not over the phone;)
334129
As long as you don't phone up your boyfriend during sex with someone else - that would p#ss him off a bit!\n\nOther than that scream the house down!\n\nF76
313048
i think you are playing games with your own mind. honestly, not to sound sarcastic. but in my eyes you are really overanalyzing the whole situation. just breathe, stretch, shake and let it go. relax. if he calls, he calls, if not then oh well. act on your feelings. do what feels right to you-----not what you think he'll most likely respond to.
423402
Call him, instead of waiting for him to call you.\n\nYou women.
394568
extremely interesting!! \nwhy don't u just call her, or iz ur cell phone alwayz buzy!? Lover Boi!!\nP.S: hope u don't have a gf on the side bas.. cz that would be SOO LOW. \naliya-CYA
1086837
No you should not call, but you will do what ever you feel anyway. It sounds to me like everything is on his time, trust me I have been through this before and the truth is if he honestly loved you like "he says he do" there is no way in hell ANYTHING would have prevented him from calling you on your birthday. Girl let me tell you a trick or two to have his little behind wondering just like you, pull the same moves he pulls, every once in a while don't call him back when you say you will, rush him off the phone after you guys say see how each other day is going, and every once blue moon because this is very hard to do,  act like you already have other plans. Then see how he change and if he does not then what does that tell you.
766647
just relax. dont call him tonitte. make him think you are busy yourself..even if u arent.
1122509
tat is wat happens to me all the time my boyfriend tells me when to call then I do but he never answers so i think u should call her make her feel better becuase i can never get ahold of my boyfriend and i makes me feel bad because he thinks i dont care but i love him so much so pick up the phone and call  and suprise her  she will be happy with that.\n\nbest of wishes:\ntina
544122
Do not just pop over with him and get their raw reaction. That might not go so well. I would break them in slow over a few weeks - start with telling them you have a boyfriend, explain how much you care about him...no details at first. Then pepper in a few hints about him that would give hints about him, then maybe put a picture up or have pictures of you and him together. Give them time to take it all in. Then bring him over so they can find out how good a guy he is.
426624
be front about it, and get the ball rolling. if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet. of course, in your situation, mold it so that the envelopes follow her daily schedule. she CANT say no to that...
873852
trust me, it sounds like a bad idea to even talk to him because you will get even more confused, if he actually tried ruining your life then i dont think he deserves shit from you except maybe a black eye. hun, dont let yourself get hurt, and dont hurt your new boyfriend, just dont answer the phone and hope he gets the hint, if he doesnt... then answer and tell him straight up.
887555
Have your boyfriend forward that forwarded message back to the girl friend. A few people may grow up a bit.
827144
Quit calling him... him going out of town will maybe give him a chance to clear his head and realize that you are what he wants. If not, then you don't want someone who doesn't want you. He obviously cares or he wouldn't have introduced you as his girlfriend! exspecially to his friends. I would say back off and he will come around. Hope things work out the way you want!
497268
be front about it, and get the ball rolling. if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet. of course, in your situation, mold it so that the envelopes follow his daily schedule.