What are some things you should do while Married to prepare for in case of a nasty divorce?
479206
seperate banking accounts... if it's your name she can't take it from you or withdraw money.  No need to be secret about it.  Marriage should be based on trust.
281092
Oh Sweetpea, You should find some help near you, some social help and start the divorcing process, till it's not too late. Your husband thinks that you do not understand much, do not see anything, can't do anything...I think you see and understand everything, you just need help and support from someone who has power to do so. Do not worry about justice in heaven, worry about the present time and your children. God will help you if you want to be helped.
1011939
Your story brings tear to my eyes. Maybe all you can do is emotionally fall apart. You need to grieve, and better now than having collapses when your baby is a toddler and getting on your nerves. It is going to be a whole new life for you, and you have to be prepared for some real suprises from him.  Get you court case ready - be prepared for even worse things - you don't know who your husband really is until you divorce him. Many men fight for custody when it comes time to think about child support - so be "prepared."  HE ALREADY HAS A NICE LITTLE STEP MOTHER THERE AND READY - SO STAY AHEAD OF HIM. Yes life is very cruel that when you are at your most traumatised you have to think about such horrid and practical things - but that is the way of divorce. It is the worst hell you will ever experience. I feel so sick that this is happening to you while you are pregnant and so terribly in need of protection and love. You have to starting thinking about the man you love as an 'opponent' now. It is easy to say but I know that it is a very difficult thing to do. Feelings are what thay are. What you need is to find people out there who will listen to you and let you cry on their shoulder. People are VERY IMPATIENT and they will expect you to get over things very quickly, so have more than one friend to lean on. You have a precious baby on the way and taking care of that baby (alone) will be fill up many spaces because of the overwhelming responsibily. You really have to find compassionate non-condemning, humble friends who can be there for you. You will be poorer - for sure so find some single mothers with babies - because they will be your greatest support system. Your social status has just changed dramatically - and that is one of the most difficult parts of single parentig.  So be "ready." I am sorry that I have very little that is positive to say. Just know that my heart breaks for you.
466124
You begin to learn each others quirks and idiosyncrasies.  You will struggle and have bad times and good times. You will laugh, cry, worry, and enjoy.  Marriage is only what two people make of it.  It is work, but just like a garden, it is well worth the weeding and pruning one has to do.  Don't give up when things get tough.  Communicate!!!!  I know you've heard it before, but take heed, communication is the key to an awesome marriage. A marriage needs 100 percent from both partners.  Live and learn from one another, touch and kiss often, and never say a word that you may later wish to take back, words are like feathers released into the wind, once released they are hard to take back.
690830
Have you been to counseling? Maybe you should consider that before filing for divorce. If you think the marriage is beyond repair, I suggest finding the best divorce attorney you can.
466507
Alot of things,but each person's case is not the same. Go out to a club and ask people who've done it!!! Some people who are divorcing are okay with it,while some are not!
536780
DO relax and enjoy yourself; unwind from all the excitement and stress of the wedding.\nDON'T put high expectations on yourself & your partner to have wild, passionate sex all the time.  You will have plenty of time for that.
26278
1. Tell your wife you love other people.\n2. Get a divorce.\n3. Move to Vegas and patrol the many viable whorehouses instead of potentially ruining your own family life and another family's as well.\nHow can you live with yourself in the knowledge you violated your vows to your wife?
633752
the best answer in the world His and Her needs my wife and it practically is all fun and games(uh that is a book)Oh you will change alot cause if you don't you'll be divorced in a year make sure you read that book with your soon to be in front of someone who could intervene and help and do it before you get married cause if can't get through the book you won't get through marriage it's all about compromise. His and Her Needs. Trust me.
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greet your husband at the door after his long day of work.\nslowing undressing the both fo you and kissing your partner while leading your partner to the bathroom\nIn the bathroom you will have lit candles relaxing music warm tub ready for your partner, wash and lightly rub their back.\nwhen your partner is done relaxing in the tub\nlead your partner to the bedroom where you had some lotion or oil warming up\nhave your partner lie on the bed and give your partner a rub down or massage\nmake love\ncuddle \ntalk or not either way will be comforting\ngo to sleep.
504155
umm, you should first learn how to spell "married," "should," and "divorce"
689014
Listen, don't be too stuck on frivolous things like that. It smacks of superstition, which is what your marriage does NOT need. What you SHOULD be asking is if you are both resilient, have a good sense of self, if you're better as a couple than as single people, if you've discussed finances (money is the number one issue on divorces) and if you're both morally on par. Get back to me when you're ready to answer those <wink>.
69003
Ask a local church for counseling and to be saved, that way, if he kills you, at least you'll have saved and can reload from the last checkpoint.\n\n\nSearch answers.google.com for the keyword "divorce". THis place is full of f*cking kids.
496803
Don't let a single day pass without letting him know in word and deed how much you love, honor and cherish him. Make sure that you never stop talking and sharing the things that happen in your lives. Make sure that you create time for just the 2 of you, especially after you have children. A strong and healthy marriage is the foundation of a happy family.
1094047
have the baby. you should have waited till marraige.  shame on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1160257
i would be plotting revenge....just remember, in a marriage.......WHAT'S HIS IS YOURS, AND WHAT'S YOURS IS YOURS. \ngood luck.
585587
My husband and I have only been married for a year and a half, but we have been together for about 5. For us, it's all about rules and communication. Here are our rules : \n1. If you are going to fight, do it naked. Everything looks different when you are both naked. It is, however, hard to get that way, because it makes you feel vulnerable.\n2. No lies. Period. Even little white lies. \n3. Never leave the house for anything in the middle of an argument, unless its together. Always solve the problem before you go to bed.\n4. Ask yourself, is the issue at hand so important to me that it is worth upsetting my spouse? Most of the time it's not. \n5. If you are a wife, remember that men show their feelings differently. \n6. If you are a husband, learn to talk about your feelings a little more. \n7. Always have a date night. In the middle of death, children, childbirth, work, losing everything, it doesn't matter. ALWAYS have a night for just you two. \nAnd lastly, but most important, treat your spouse the way you want to be treated. He or she should be your best friend. Treat them like it. Hope this helps.