i'm a lesbian. is there any way i can make my wife my legal next of kin? i live in alabama?
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I'm pretty sure you can put anything you want in you will. Put in your will that you want your friend to be responsible for funeral arrangements and have a lawyer to varify it.\n\nI live in alabama also... I think this is true... but check on it with a lawyer.\n\nDaniel
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Some churches welcome openly gay people and couples[yes even in Atlanta] that might be a place to look for someone who wants a LTR. Try the Lutherans I think they welcome every one here in Fla. Remember God made all of us and God doesn't make mistakes!
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You are in trouble man. All divorse laws in India are biased towards females. So you may land up paying heavy money to your current wife. Even though your wife is not demanding now, her relatives may tell her to do that. That is to take the benefit of laws. Your lawyer may also tell you to do that. There is no altarnative.
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I am a lesbian. where the hell are you meeting the gay people you know  Help us out  lol...bye
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get a new wife.  One that appreciates you for who you are.
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I found my wife in a chatroom at gay.com but I certainly do not recommend that method for everybody.  \n\nI recommend going places you like to go and doing things you like to do, just as I would for anybody lesbian or not.  These places are where you'll meet people who have things in common with you, which is what anybody is looking for.  Making lots of friends, being socially active and making yourself available all help.  Be honest, be real, but most of all have fun and enjoy yourself.  \n\nFR
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Dear Jeff D,\nI think you haven't gotten any answers as of yet because maybe sending a nice email to Yahoo would lead you to the answer to this question.  Your question is really not for us to answer.  But if you don't have a way to see the weather where your wife is located just pray for an alternative means of feeling closer to your wife.
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Show her around... introduce her to some people... take her mind off of the ex.... what you see in movies. When you move to a new place, you want her to feel like she would if she was in Florida. I know if I moved in with my cousins also in Michigan... I wouldnt want to feel like an alien. I would want to know that I have friends.
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First Congratulations\n\nFind out everywhere it is legal\nAsk your friends who have got married where they were married\nIf you have no married friends then try your local gay association, they are bound to have a list of places where it is nice and where you will be treated nicely
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I think legal marriage is just a peice of paper. Being married is really in your heart.  whats stopping you from throwing a big party, exchanging vows and rings accompanied by your family and close friends? i believe there are churches geared toward the gay and lesbian community that can give you guidance. Either way. congratulations on finding that special someone in your life.
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same sex relationships are not legal in most places in the usa, and the federal government is considering to make it illegal on a national level; perhaps you can try another method, such as he finding employment for you there so that you can obtain a permanent visa. this may take some time, and there could be a great deal of disappointment along the way, even if you are granted entrance to the country.
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i don't know any lesbian friends who would be willing to spend the night with you but my cousin stars in a lot of gay porn movies. he is quite the "man". he said he would like to spend one night with you and then you could give your opinion the next day of what you thought about your new adventure.
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Before i start, i wish people would realise this site is WORLDWIDE, and thus in some countries is IS perfectly legal for lesbians to marry, and in others, have legal partnership ceremonise, so please stop saying 'they can't'.\n\nI've heard all of these words used:\n\nwife\npartner\nspouse\nother half\nbetter half
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As long as she has no genetic connection to you .\nIt is perfectly legal and natural.\nShe is just another woman that just so happens to be your Father`s new wife`s child.\nThat is what I call keeping it in the family.\nGOOD LUCK.
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I'm assuming that you mean you're married to a lady. You can't be both gay and heterosexually married at the same time. You're going to hurt not only yourself but your wife and children in the process. You could be Bi, but I would advise coming out and telling your wife. Lying to her and yourseflf is no way to keep a relationship. It'll all out itself eventually and I would advise doing it before she finds out from someone else. I've been married for 26 years to a wonderful lady and have found out through my own detrement that lying in a serious relationship does nothing but harm to both partys. I never cheated but I played hell with the finances...sigh.....Good luck.
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You should take help of relatives & common friends. You can als take help from women organisations (NGOS) who can bring about reconcilation between you 2.
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I think I would perhaps check with your local online sites or perhaps one of the national dating sites.  \nIt must be really difficult knowing that the woman you love is incapacitated and can never come back to you, but I certainly understand the need to find companionship and love in spite of loving your wife.  \nI hope that her suffering and yours aren't too long lived and that you can find a measure of happiness.  And you really shouldn't pay attention to ignorant young people who criticize you without taking a moment to try to understand the position you're in.  \nGood luck and my prayers are with you.