is it okay to become a gf of  your close friends bf?
494336
it is not...\nit is actually called betrayal...\ndo you think a relationship deserves more than a friendship?\ndefinitely not...\ntrust me...
854996
Alot depends on their ages in my opinion. But I recommend that you let your friend follow her heart. This is not the easiest thing to do but if you interfere; it could cost you your friendship. I know this from personal experience.  If the guy you think is "the one" then it will happen in God's Time.
136881
You shouldn`t do that to the boyfriend because most likely he`ll be all hurt and that will be bad blood between the friends.\n\nBut that`s only if you don`t truly love his bestfriend.  If you do, then maybe you should go for who you love, given that you know for a fact that he loves you too.
966849
First off there is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone of the opposite sex. \nIt doesn't really matter what other people think..there will always be that one person who tries to hurt others relationships. As long as you and your friend are comfortable with your realtionship thats all that should matter. \nAs for others who feel its wrong.... they are not good friends if they were they would know there is nothing wrong with your relationship. If its her Boyfriend then he is very insecure with himself and his realtionship with his girlfriend. Unless she is the one leading him to think that your relationship with her maybe be more to make him jealous. \nThere are some who just can't accept other relationships liek yours its sad but true. \nI personally have had similar problems in the past. But if you and her are truely close and best friends everything will work out. If not then the friendship is not worth your time. \nHope this helps.
893347
That really depends how close you want to be with her . \nIf you just wish to stay friends then give her a root!! Just kidding. \n\nGet her stuff that shows friendship and humor.  \n\nIf you want her to be your gf, then you better be careful how you go about it. Ask yourself, where you're at with her, how she thinks about you...etc \n\nDude, most of the time you only get one shot at it. You have to decide whether is friendship you want with her or "Pill-pill" is what your after!!
317271
bf = best friend\n\nb/f = boyfriend
800883
I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!
159551
Friends and close friends are two different things. Ther's nothing wrong with beings friends with your girlfriends goyfriend, but you two have no reason for being really close. Men are not close friends with Women for no reason. We have ulterior motives for that. You'll find yourself on Jerry Springer on the "I Slept With My Girlfriends Man" episode. Be his friend, but keep it casual. Really close friends is asking for trouble....
513317
you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
370492
guys can be friends with women. But just what kind of attention is he paying you? If he is overly affectionate that could be trouble. You don't want a man who would cheat on his gf, he would just cheat on you later.
390890
I don't think I could do it.  I'm not exactly the jealous type, but girls and guys who are best friends always tend to like hug or she'll but her arm around him and stuff like that.  I'd feel as if I was always competing with her.  And then you know girls.  If she likes him too then she'll become a major pain in the relationship whether he likes her or not.  I dunno...seems too much of a problem for me.
204292
Everyone in our life has some kind of special feelings in our heart and a diff. place for everyone, so ur friends should understand ur concern to spend quality as well as quantity time with your gf but at the same time they are your friends and even they need some of your time and attention so my simple and sweet advice for you will be Spend quality(not quantity) of time with your friends and gf. Just coz you have a gf today doesnt mean that you forget ur friends and same goes visa versa so just remeber to be in touch with everyone at all times it can be just a cute hi
256777
If you like him and he likes you then its ok to get to know each other and be boyfriend/girlfriend!  But remember to take things very very slowly and never let a boy pressure you into doing anything u r not ready for!!!  As long as he doesnt care that his friend use to be your boyfriend and u dont care then it should be just fine!!!  TAKE THINGS SLOW!!!
468598
Oh shyt.. well.. Where I agree with the above people, I personally think that if you do that, then you might get more than yoru bargaining for. You tell your man, he might think that you are initiating it.. or he might not. If you tell him and he looses his best friend and you dont work out, he might blame you. You cant think of RIGHT NOW, you have to think of the long run.. i would persoanlly text him back and tell him "look i dont find it funny nor attractive that you are hitting on your best friends girlfriend. I am with *bf's name* back off ." now if he doesnt then free for all, tell your man ... but at least you tried to get him to back off first.
928913
Unfortunately, yeah. You are the homewrecker.\n\nPut yourself in her shoes, would you want your BF doing it with someone else?\n\nIf you say yes, by all means continue, but I think most of us wouldn't want to be hurt like that.\n\nHave a little respect for her and for yourself. Go for a guy without a GF. Heck go for a guy who respects women a little better than to cheat.
1079042
be up front with the situation to your friend and the guy so there will not be any expectations that you dont feel comfortable with. there is no reason for pressure. if you dont want a bf then dont have one now.
85538
I think it's fine. Sure, there are risks, but it is possible. One of my friends fell in love w/ a guy she never met but fell in love with him anyways. Then, of course, they actually met and have plans to move in with each other very soon. It just depends