how come boys dont want to go out with me?
494132
You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!
671564
The guys are stupid if they are going to judge you by your friends.  If they aren't willing to get to know you then they aren't worth talking to anyway.  \n\nAlso they are probably intimidated by you and your friends.  You and your friends probably have a lot of confidence and stand strong to guys which can scare them.  \n\nAnd if you all are always together that can be a major factor as well because you aren't as intimidating when you are alone rather than with your friends.
298396
Because boys are gonna be boys. Its hard to find descent boys these days. I'm 16 and there are boys who try to talk to me or get my number but as girls, we all know what most of them want! Their minds are still not functioned right  so give them time an you'll see an improvement!
449313
its not that girkls dont want friendship with u its becoz they want boys to be after them then they aceept someone , and else u be shy to be after them ,always , it depends on u , how u behave , but ne honest and self confident u will surely get many , but dont be eager to and i nthat way u may get some  stupid girls as friends
1007649
its because you want them to accept you, dont care if someone doesnt like you or if they leave because it happens, dont try to make them comfortable around you either because they might see that your trying to do that and then not feel comfortable, just be yourself
13340
He could be trying to say no in a nice way.  (Sorry!!!)  I had the same thing happen to me.  I asked a guy out and he said we would...sometime.  Next thing I know, he's "kinda got a girlfriend".\nGuys are jerks when they try to be nice.
632662
It's probably that the guys you hang out with consider you "one of the lads" You've been freinds with them so you're more like a sister to them than girlfriend material. \n\nYou should get to know some guys that you're not already friends with and be flirty and maybe a little bit girly too. Some guy will ask you on a date I'm sure.
694489
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
917455
As a former high school boy my answer is Yes, Yes, and Yes.  All three boys are attracted to you.  Case 1 is clearly asking you to say you want to go out with him without risking asking you out himself and having you say no.  Case 2 may want to be more than a friend, but also does not want to risk the friendship.  I remember a similar case when I was in high school.  A girl that was my friend, took me aside and tried to tell me she wanted to go out with me.  I was so dense I still didn't get it so she finally just blurted out "It's you I'm talking about.  Would you be interested in going out with me."  I thought she was beautiful and brilliant and funny and out of my league.  That last part has more to do with my self esteem at the time than it had to do with her, but anyway I was so nervous around her that going out was out of the question.  Anyway we stayed friends, but there was always a little uncomfortable quiet between us that was never there before.  You sound like a nice friendly outgoing girl that boys find it easy to be around.  Good for you.\nNow as a father of a young girl:\nBe careful of case 1.  He is bold yet cautious.  He has "dumped a girl" recently and may be more interested in conquest than in relationship.  My advice to my daughter would be to stay quiet and make him risk more by coming out with  a request for a date.  Then be cautious.  Case 2 I would tell my daughter to ask herself if she could see her friend as a boyfriend, afterall the best relationships are based on friendship.  Only you can answer for yourself if there is a chance of more.  If not, leave it alone.  If you think maybe there is a chance, this boy may prove to be a better bet.  Case 3.  (laughter)  Please do something to put the poor guy at ease around you.  Either tell him you want to be friends, or ask him out, or tell him to leave you alone.  This poor guy is obviously suffering from an intense crush on you.  Good luck.  Enjoy your high school years because they wont come back.  Try not to get roped into a too confining relationship.  Emotions run high, but youth should be a time of discovery.  I do not know of one single relationship that started when the two were in highschool that has lasted the many years since I was in high school.  For instance I dated several different girls in high school and had a wonderful time.  My wife (whom I was not in high school with) on the other hand dated only one boy throughout her high school years.  She regrets that now.  She looks back on those years as being a hostage when she should have been enjoying her youth.  Too bad.
583110
Because society says that girls who ask out boys are easy. It's hard to get past those feelings. Girls will always give clues about their intentions. Just pay attention - what catches your attention about girls is exactly what girls want you to catch.
502979
if he won't go out with you, then there is nothing that you do that can change his mind...he is not right for you then...there are better guys who will appreciate you more
1046300
I'm assuming you are talking about boys asking out girls your age. The younger you are the more timid boy seem to be.\n\nIt's lack of experience and fear of rejection. You girls can be awfully cruel and boys learn quick that it hurts to get shot down.\n\nThe good news- boys also learn that to "get" a girl they have to actually do more than wait for one to shove her tongue down their throat. They learn to overcome their shyness.\n\nIn the meantime learn the universal code: make eye contact and smile at a guy you want to know better. Compliment him, let him know you think he's attractive. Drop hints a MORON couldn't miss, " Gee I don't have ANY plans this weekend- hope I don't have to just sit around at home. What are YOU doing?"\n\nIt's just fear...hang in there, it gets better.
575055
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think 15 to 16 is the average age most people start getting asked out, so it could be right around the corner for you! Just to be sure, take a quick once over inventory of yourself. Are you clean? Do you smell good? Are your clothes clean and your hair brushed and your teeth brushed? If those answers are yes then more than likely it not you, it's the guys being too shy. You could probably help them along by talking to a lot of people. This shows you are approachable and friendly and will make it easier for a guy not to worry about rejection. Have fun...the most exciting times of your life are about to happen!
225097
Boys aren't looking to get to know you.   They want to experience the sex.  Getting to know you is just a formality.  I don't know how old you are, but if you're a teen or pre-teen I can safely tell you it's gonna be like that for a long time.  The trick is to value yourself and realize that you are a precious commoodity to them.  If you give it up too easily you're not treasuring yourself and you're allowing these boys to take advantage of you.  You'll know who the right one is if he's willing to wait and really get to know you.
778436
let them think what they want - and you should do the same - be your own person and do what ever the hell you want to do. if the guy you do end up going out with is a good-guy he should stick up for you and defend your honour (excuse the clich'es). basicly you need to not care what others think, feel, or do. you are in it for yourself so you are the only person you should be worrying about.
780219
hmm. i used to have the same problem. don't let the boys see you as a boy (nt that u are) but show them you can be more than jus a friend and if theres one you like make more of an effort to get your feelings across.\n\nxx
325568
if he said no he really doesnt like you. boys dont play mind games like that, or play hard to get.