why do guys find me to be a  sex buddy I hate it what should i do?
480958
We have all been there to some degree or another.  The most important thing to do is to set boundries.  If you give too much, too quickly, often men will expect only that and see you for only that and not want to commit based on physical relationship only.  Try to build solid friendships and relationships first - dont go down that path any longer.  You are worth it, he will wait.
1182687
Guys like mystery and hate drama.\nIf you have been having sex, then you are probably not compatible and I would just move on and not let him back into your life.\n\nHope this helps!!!\nWhatever you do, don't take it personally. This stuff happens till you find the right one.
1082176
You're obviously one of those chicks that think all dudes just like sex and nothing else. Have you tried talking to him about this, or did you immediately label him gay and come to Yahoo? The problem might be as simple as he's expecting more than to get laid.
376145
You can meet decent guys online, and remember you can always chat before you even meet them, or just chat and never meet. If he starts discussing sex or anything else that makes you uncomfy either tell him or change the subject or ignore him till he goes away. Be open and honest, I'm not here just to talk about sex, if you're really interested in ME, then ask me abt me, not what I'm wearing, the ones who are interested will stay and the others will go. Don't give out your home address or numbers, always tell a friend if you've been chatting a while, always tell a friend when you start dating, make sure you have his real name (both), numbers and home address to give to friend, just in case!! I've done quite a bit, mostly for fun, but was always careful. Good luck!
194846
From what I can see he wants you for sex only. and seeing as you don't like sex why would your consider having sex with a guy like this? This is a guy wants sex not a relationship. Stay clear and forget this guy. I hope you can find a guy that does like sex either. Good luck
422100
Well, if your looking for a guy for more than sex than don't give him any until you get to know him.  You'll see his intentions if you hold out for a while. Then when you think this man is true to you, then you may want to proceed to another level.  \n\nAs women, we usually have good insticts about these things so if it feels like a guy just wants to use you for sex...DON"T DO IT!!!  YOU HAVE A SAY IN IT TOO!!!  \n\nDon't use sex as a tool to keep a man....if he want's to be w/ you he will stick around.
1125911
Be his friend....I mean whats so bad about that..if he tries to have sex with you then he wants more..but friends are ok...as long as it stays friends...if u want space then maybe thats for the best but let him know.
663608
You are a tart leave the men alone...do you have a sex problem?.....nympho!!!!!
575094
Yes, I've been there. It sucks! But you have to be true to yourself. I let the guy know that I wasn't all about being his P.O.A. I wanted a relationship. I am not the type of girl that you can call whenever you want a booty-call. I told him that. I gave him a few chances to change how he was towards me, and he didn't. I told him I was tired of how he treated me, and I left. You have to be true to you, and don't give in to be with someone. Don't give him the chance to use you for sex. Make him want you before he wants sex. You are young. You will find someone who wants to be with you for you and not for sex. Make the person wait. If he's into you, he'll wanna be with you for you before you sleep with him. As far as the following, and calling thing. Tell him he needs to get over it, and stop his crap. If he doesn't, and it gets to where you are scared (past the point of just plain tired of it) I would look into a restraining order, or talk with a police officer or counselor at school as far as what you should do, but be careful. Dont let something like that go, either. That could get ugly, and scary.
243282
Why would you even want to have sex with someone you don't like? It doesn't make sense.
219642
I agree that its a maturity issue.\n\nMany young men are insecure, and don't want to stick around because they believe you will get too attahed to them.\n\nBUT...  you never know, some young guy, if they really like you, may stick around anyway.\n\nReally, the best thing to do is to be very comfortable with the person you sleep with, and hopefully they would be caring enough to stay afterwards.\n\nGood luck, use protection, and have fun.
98544
Well hes a dork if hes waiting for you to say hi to him.  If he has any balls he will come say hi to you.\n\nIf you think he only wants sex than you are probably right.  \nJust hang out with him but dont give "IT" up.\nIf he sticks around even after you deny him sex than hes probably not that bad.\n\nIf you just want sex yurself and could care less.  Than damn, go say hi to the lucky guy.
117072
Boys are wrestling with identity.  Sex is a way of establishing their "coolness" with peers so it becomes very important.  They don't mean to hurt you.  Some are just like drowning victims.  They are crazy to stay afloat and clutch and claw at anyone or thing that might save them.  But they're just kids and don't realize how much harm they do.  They still want to play games and be kids but the pressure to grow up is unrelenting.  Stick with group dates and make sure you establish what you will and won't do from the start.  Don't hedge.  If you say no then change your mind later it will be held against you and you won't have much by way of self defence.  Or you might want to wait until your old enough to go out with men who have better control.  PS you do not want to date a grown man when you are under 17.  There are worse things in the world than horny immature boys.
46202
If you're friends are calling you a prude, then they aren't your friends.  A friend respects your morals and choices, even if they don't share the same ones.  Don't have sex to please your friends, you'll regret it later.  Stick to what you believe.
318555
I hate the friends with benefits shit!!
578842
Your in lust for him, it sounds like you need sexed. Relax, you will find someone
296583
This idea sounds good, but never actually works out. Unless it's a one night stand with someone you know you're never going to see again. Other than that, there is always going to be some emotion involved. Even if the other person agrees to just being sex buddies, they're probably just doing it to keep you aroung because they'd rather have you that way then no way at all.