I miss my ex so much what should I do?
476635
You must accept that it's over before you can begin to heal.  Forget about them and move on - you are in control of your thoughts.  Challenge your thoughts... which will change your mood, feelings, and behaviour.  But, you'll have to do it over and over again until it sticks.
1132391
Well, you divorced her, so you ARE no longer with her.  You will miss her for a while.  \n\nTry working on yourself for a while.  Persue some hobbies, relax, do whatever you feel.  Soon enough you will feel refreshed and will no longer miss her.
489018
You broke up with this guy for a reason. Ask yourself if you really like your ex. Who do you want to be with? maybe you should just be single for a while and just date around. Maybe try to be friends with your ex and see how that works out for you, see if your feelings resurface, but also tell him to date as well. It'll all work out if you think things over.
566981
You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!
72802
Most definitely bring him.  It will help your ex get over you.
349701
it takes a long while to get over someone especially if that was your first.  take your time.  cry all you want.  let it all out.  some people might tell you to try and surround yourself with friends and family.  it might cheer you up, but i think it's okay to feel down for a while.  because no matter what you'd do, you might think about your ex like what did you do, what could you have done, or why your ex left you.   i really do not think it's better to suppress or cover up your feelings by having your mind occupied with something else.  but it's better if you get rid of anything that would remind you of your ex, and if you cut off all the communication means to your ex such as phone number, e-mail, and IM.  delete them all, so you wouldn't be able to talk to him at all.  also, i don't think that finding someone new too soon is such a good idea.  rebound is only rebound.  just think that it's not the end of the world although it feels like it right now.  just take your time and rest up.
725860
Either call him directly or snailmail him a letter of detail expressing your concern for the direction your relationship seemed to be taking.\n\nHe may have had other issues to deal with and could not open up about them at that time - therefore presenting distance that you may have misinterpeted towards you.....\ndo not push, if he can share his feelings he will.\n\nExpress to him how much you have missed him and that you are sorry for hurting him also.\n\nIf he does not wish to continue dating at least try and establish some form of friendship - mutually.\n\nBest wishes!
1083158
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
1100166
get yourself busy and try not to think about him that much...... in time you will learn to accept things as they are and you will not be feeling hurt as much as you are feeling now.  definitely he is not for you.  and since you were the one to leave him, it is easier to learn how to forget him.... life goes on.  do something worthy, go out with your friends, meet new people, and start living life again.
1038905
It takes time to get over someone that you have loved and trusted so deeply. I know that's probably not what you want to hear but it is true. The last thing that you need to do right now is to jump into another relationship. Take your time and let love happen to you again in its own time. In the mean time try to occupy your time with other things and don't dwell on missing him so much. I know its easier said than done but trust me in time it will get better.
803331
Yes--it's perfectly normal to still miss the person who dumped you and/or the relationship.  Just b/c you miss him doesn't mean that you can't control your behavior or that you have to act on your feelings.  In time, you'll meet other guys, have new experiences, and will enjoy yourself again.  It's impt. to be kind to yourself during this period and take whatever steps are necessary to heal.  I realize it must be tough dealing with the feelings you have, but you will be okay.  It's a real test of your strength and I think you'll be proud of how you dealt with your feelings.  Good Luck
284876
stay busy. pick up a hobby or renew an old one. go to the gym. spend time with family and friends. watch movies. read books. but do not keep thinking about him. the only true way to forget is to let time pass by. you can only let time pass by if you spend time doing something else. \n\nand last but not least, learn to accept your loss. talk with a good friend about it. dont be afraid to reach out to a friend to talk. and if you dont have one to go to, find a therapist to help you. you cannot forget an ex all on your own.\n\nafter a while you will slowly forget him. but it takes time. good luck.
32950
The most important - DON'T PUSH HIM. If you are still in touch, recall from time to time some nice or funny moments you had together, do the things he used to like. Be aware of the reasons why did you break up and try to overcome it. Let him feel that you both can handle it, but be honest and really do that. Good luck!
823387
Well then just be honest with the guy.  Inform him that you really enjoyed your time with him and that he is very much a gentleman etc, but that you have to find out for yourself if there is anything left between you and your ex.
944662
You deserve someone better,of course you miss him,that's normal.Humans have feelings,you will get over it soon.Keep yourself busy so wont think of it,whenever you are free do something like spend more time with your children.Almost forget ask him for maintenance fee.
1171190
You can still care for him, but think about the reason why he is your ex.  And the fact that you haven't talked to each other since the breakup shows that there was obviously something wrong with the relationship.\n\nDon't waste your time dwelling on the past and wondering "what if..."\n\nLook to the future and think about your own needs.
1024873
try to talk to her/him as much as possible keep in touch with her/him\nlet them know you miss 'em