Im desperate! I so need sex, but im with somone that cant keep it up, wat do i do?
476983
tell him to go and see a doctor
373957
Her confidence is probably already destroyed. This is the reason a lot of women sleep around. They need love and affection, as everyone does, but they've never gotten it and are still not getting it. They believe this is the only way they will get it. She may seem happy and proud of her sex life but that is not always the case. The only thing you can do for her is let her know that you care and you are worried. Tell her why you care about her and why you're worried about her. Then, continue to be her friend. If she can not or does not want to change, she is still the same person you've been friends with. Good luck. :^)
1034134
All you REALLY need is two willing, passionate people to have great sex! Two people hungry for each other, and hungry for satisfaction! Then do what is necessary to fill that hunger, and satisfy that longing! You are NOT wrong, you're absolutely right!
1104019
It's time for some counseling!  If he won't go, you go!  You need someone to bounce things off and to get good solid objective input from.  \n\nHe may be in a personal slump himself.  If he has very little sex drive and is tired a lot, he might have low testosterone, it is not an uncommon condition.  Suggest he have a complete physical, just to make sure everything is okay, tell him you are concerned about him and want to make sure everything is all right physically.\n\nIt may be he is worried about a lot of things, and doesn't know how to communicate, or doesn't feel he should.  Guys often think they should be strong and keep things to themselves.\n\nWhat I am saying is, it might not be about you at all, though it is definitely affecting you.  And it could be that he doesn't like you bringing up the subject, so he pulls more into himself, and goes to the TV and computer to avoid interaction.\n\nI feel for you, I know this is a very difficult situation.  Don't just let it go on!  Get some outside help, at least to vent, and possibly to help the two of you communicate better.\n\nBest of luck to you!!
94650
It sounds like you really want some sex.  Just ask him if something is wrong.
449651
YES!!!!  Call him but don't seem too desperate.  I guess only you two know if you gave it up easy or not.  There could be a long term potential but it has to be built on more than sex.  I say call, but don't be a stalker.  Lay the bait out ther and see if he will respond.  If he doesn't then you may want to walk away soon.  Sex confuses things.  Try to hang out one night without having sex.  That will tell you alot, because it will force him to talk.  Trust me, I've been there.. And without sex, talking is the only alternative- unless he bails, then you may have a lot of work on your hands.
564519
get a boyfriend or ask one of ur guy friends to have sex with you??? but i highly suggest u finding a boyfriend.. if ur too desperate then just think of other things. instead of worrying so much about it.
452188
There are alot of people that have it and sex is not all that.  just make sure if you do find someone that you like alot that your them that you have HIV . so they now what they are getting into. and if she loves you she will understand and if she don't then it not worth it.
524627
SEX DOES NOT EQUAL SELF WORTH. IF YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS STOPPED SLEEPING WITH YOU, THEN MAYBE HE HAS SOMEONE ELSE. IT ALSO SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE DEPRESSED, SEEK SOME COUNSELING. YOUR RELATIONSHIP MY BE AT AN END, BUT YOU CAN STILL GO ON AND ACHEIVE GEAT THINGS IN LIFE WITH OUT HAVING SEX. WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED.
467481
What I think you should do is the same thing to her. Make sure that you get off first and then roll over and be done. I have to say that depending on how strong your relationship is will have to be the deciding factor as to if you really want to do this, I am a firm believer that if you don't have good sex a relationship probably won't work.
427733
Sit down and talk with her and tell her how you fell about her and sex. If that does not work than maybe you and her should think about getting some help. Marriage conslour!! I wish you the best of Luck!!
395443
well one of 3 things could be the source of the problem 1. he doesnt actually care about sex all that much and is just happy being with you 2. feels insecure in bed 3. just might not beable to keep up with or sex drive. just let it lay things will change plus only 4 months in a relationship dont let sex rule the relationship cuz then it will fall apart
157048
Well, first off, you can't *make* someone like you.  \n\nSecond, tell him EXACTLY how you feel.  If he doesn't feel the same, and all he wants is a piece from you while you want more, kick him aside and find someone else who respects you for YOU and not your genitals.\n\nIn other words... communicate.  If you can't communicate now, you'll never be able to in a relationship, and before you know it?  You're on an episode of COPS, getting beaten up by your meth-addicted boyfriend who only wants you for sex.
600404
The relationship you have is like an addiction. The longer you wait, the more it is going to hurt coming off of it. Bite you lip and end it. Sex can not be the primary focus. Find a way to focus your energies and time toward something a little more beneficial and find a man that wants more from you then just hitting the bed. Don’t you deserve better?
1100595
go slower and more foreplay and just enjoy yourself and be glad you have someone to have intercourse with...i could of course but i want to love and care about someone before i go there...
404596
Be more.  Don't be a "playbunny"--hold out.  Here is a brand new concept, wait, wait to have sex, wait to get too physical.  BE a girl worth getting to know, show him you have a mind, that you are interesting.  I don't care how old fashioned it sounds, men simply don't respect women who go to bed with them right away.  Don't be "easy".
891871
Leave him, Its just sex. Its not that easy but you deserve better then that, find someone who will fulfill you needs. Move on