my boyfriend just dumped me,what next?
491148
First off, you need some time alone just to reflect on it. I don't mean let it consume you, but if it ended for a good reason then you need to be alone just to regroup and get yourself together. After that go out and have a drink with some friends. Get back into the social scene, but steer clear of the relationship deal for a minute
387200
Truth is give it some time...i know how that feels you may feel like "this is it" "my relationship is over" but he'll come around....give him some time to vent....and when he's cooled down you'll know and then you two should sit down and have a civil conversation and explain to him what you meant and what upset him and talk about it...look at it as a learning experience.....how else would you know what your boyfriend likes and dislikes if arguments don't happen...good luck
728052
Grow up,\nAccept the fact that he doesn't want to be with you,\nGive up,\nMove on,\nFind a new boyfriend,\nGet dumped,\nRepeat.
163002
You broke it off 6 months ago.  You did the right thing.  Here's the deal - it's one thing if it were the other way around.  You should be asking why if he dumped you.  Since you dumped him, it's the other way around.  You left him on your terms, he still has things unresolved.  Don't waste your time trying, you might hurt yourself.
150209
Forget about it. You were probably going to break up soon if he did like you anyway. That is how love goes.
1088052
I realize that it may be really hard right now but I hope you realize how valuable you are yourself and that you will take care of you during this time. You may or may not\nget the full answer as to why he broke up with you.  I had\na boyfriend in high school that everyone swore or thought\nwe would surely get married and we ended breaking up and we had been dating over a two year period.  Give him his space and see what happens.  Be good to yourself in the meantime.  If you were good to him and know that in your heart  of hearts you gave your best thats all that anyone can ask.  He may have some things he needs to work out.
419228
Forget him. He obviously forgot what it's like being your boyfriend. Do something your good at. Focus on things that you want to do.
340173
Why don't you have your friends come over to explain what happened?  If he means anything to you and you want to stay, you will try anything to keep him.  Good luck!
1132397
Hey boy wonder , You're so cute I am sure you won't be lonely too long . I wish you would think of me ! I am sorry just teasing you . I know it is hard for you right now , But you have to remember that you broke up with him for a reason . Keep your chin up and remember that you are a special and unique individual , You have much to offer and a lot to give the right guy who will appreciate and love you for all you are , and all that you have to offer . Call friends and go out to dinner , see a movie , start a project , or take up a hobby  , volunteer someplace that needs your special talents . The truth of the matter is , No matter what advice anyone has for you it will be hard and you ultimately have to work it out on your own . Just make sure you have a good friends shoulder to cry on or ear to bend when you need it . Best of luck to you .
89198
Depends on how you broke up...\nif he ditched you then theres nothing you can do\n\nand if you ditched him you should be "nice" and let him be happy with someone else.
687856
Well first I'm curious why u broke up with him. If it was because he was cheating then he really isn't worth it.\n\nIf its something else, try approaching him as a friend and get an idea of how he feels about you. Work from there.
423180
Oh It's really hard to get dumped.. especially if you still love the guy...\nbut you know what?\nhe left you! meaning he doesnt recognize your true worth and I bet there are plenty other guys who would love to get a chanse with you.\n\ndont call him - he doesnt own you!
908769
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
617423
Dump him and get on with your life, he is a total looser to cheat on you
151020
he is in a comfort zone. What about you, what do you want? Think about why you broke up..Is he worth it, or can you do better than the way he treats you. Is this what you want for your future or are you just settling in your comfort zone. If he is the man you want, than just ask him, and if it is not the answer you are looking for.....move on
39062
WOW. I am sorry. It sounds like he had a hell of a time over seas and isn't quite home mentally yet. It really sucks that he broke up with you, but you don't live in a house with a swinging door. Tell him that you'd like to work on your relationship with him, but don't attack him. I'm sure he's had enough attacks on him over the last 6-18 months. BUT... also let him know that you can't just be around for sex. He needs time to heal his mind. The best thing you can do right now is to give him all the time he needs. Just don't get played. Don't have sex with him anymore whether he gets mad or not.
777436
He told you how he felt. You cant change or control him and thats what your trying to do. He was honest with you cuz you asked him to be. Theres nothing more to it, you are now broken up and have been so theres no more relationship. He doesnt have to answer to you for anything. He has every right to have a date if he wants just as you do. You are trying to control something beyond the break up and all that will do is prolong any hurt for YOU, not him. Move on and forget the friends thing for now. Maybe down the road but now you need to let go of it all.