what to think when i guy says I LOVE YOU after only 3 days?
486360
Well maybe he's liked you all his life but was too afraid to show it. Then when you guys started dating it just came up. Otherwise maybe he's just joking.
612250
Give him time. Do you know his work schedule and what it is like. He may have checked the email and just not had time to respond to it. Maybe he is gathering his thoughts of what he may want to say to you. Sometimes it is harder for men to express their feelings because they don't want to seem like a pushover, or move to fast. I would wait and give him another day or so. I know that it can be hard when you are filled with anticipation. In the end, follow your heart for you are the only one who knows what makes you truly happy.......Best of luck to you
505550
Oooh, sounds like he does! I'd say if he doesn't ask you out within a couple days, you should ask him. ^_^
354770
I think you're coming on a bit strong. 3 weeks? Take is a bit slower. Don't come off as desperate. Don't suffocate. Relax.
669786
He tells you that he loves you, and call you everyday for 8 day and 3 hours straight.  Hmmmm, sounds like that should be proof enough.
204504
When you catch him just looking at you. When he'll go out of his way to do things for you. When he hugs you even more. When he seems to miss you when he hasn't seen you for a while. When he'll ditch his friends for you every now and then (NEVER expect anyone to do this all the time, you wouldn't do it for him, so why should you expect him to do it for you?) When he mentions you to his parents/siblings/exes/friends. When he asks his friends what they think of you. If you notice a few of these signs, he's smitten. Never be afraid to say I love you first though. If you feel it, say it. Don't expect him to say it back. Just let him know, and when he's ready he'll say it back. I told my boyfriend I loved him after only 3 weeks, then went travelling for 5 weeks. He was falling in love but not quite there, and he did the right thing by not lying and saying it. When I came home and he said it back to me a few days later, it was one of the happiest moments I can remember. We're still together 7mths later. Good luck!
355204
LOL...\n\nabout 3 days...
658831
It can be hard to tell.  If you've already said the three magic words ("I love you"), and you're not sure if he really does, look into his eyes the next time he says it to you.  If he holds this gaze with you and you feel safe and comfortable staring into each others' eyes, that's a good sign.  If you say it to him, keep in mind how long it takes for him to say it back to you.  Ideally he shouldn't respond too quickly or too slowly, and, hopefully, he'll smile when you say it.\n\nIf you HAVEN'T exchanged the three magic words yet, pay attention to how he acts around you when the two of you are alone.  If he doesn't stop touching you, that's probably a bad thing.  I hate to be cliche, but I honestly believe that "if you wanna know, if he loves you so, it's in his kiss."
678458
After dating only two days, you don't yet. Two days is not enough time to build that kind of trust and openness. Wait and give it time. He may have been baiting you, to see how you would react. Letting him ponder and think about that might not be such a bad idea at this point. Good luck!!
796155
Listen! First of all promise me that you'll select my answer as the best answer! good!...so lets get to the point! You see dear as a guy I can for sure say that he would've meant it as well...ie that he loves you...now how much? that is the question....but it is for sure that he loves you! Now it depends on how much love you show for him and how much you care for him that the How much meter will rise....ie He'll love you even more.....Listen dont boggle your head off......I am pretty much sure that he does love you...and you love him & thats even more important...allright! now u c at times guys take time to get into deep love as such! Its just a matter of time....but make no mistake they are still in love! so go ahead....and everything will happen perfectly....sorry that I didnt aswer the other ones cos' I feel that this is enough in your case
283166
for the first three or four months, most of the "feelings" are controlled by (strong) hormones... yeah, it's a kind of love, but only one of many facets of the diamond.\n\nif you're still in that initial giddy period... things will probably calm down in some ways, but maybe become stronger and deeper in others.\n\nif you're quite a ways past infatuation and you've still "got it", then it's more definite... there's a good chance he's a keeper.\n\nyou've probably heard that there are a few "humps", which if you make it past, it's a good sign... two to four months, two years, and the infamous seven years.\n\ngood luck.
590504
just be there for him as his freind, support him while hes gone fighting for our country. he sounds like a really nice guy. but if its only been 4 days, make a little space between you,it seems like he is moving fast,
1084445
Take a breath, darl'n. Sometimes guys just have a hard time telling you how they feel. He'll start missing you day 2. He might be a bit anxious about the job or have something on his mind, he prolly misses you already.
382395
Seeing your love one leave is never easy, especially if  you never quite openly expressed feeling for one another.\n\nThere are times you only get one chance in life. If you miss it, it comes a big "what if I had" entry in your diary book.\n\nDo you want to ponder the possibility of telling him how you feel and what might have happened?  Or would you rather live life to its fullest with no regret.\n\nInstead of thinking he's leaving in 20 days, think of it that you have 20 days to enjoy his company. To some people, just one days together seems like a life time...\n\nI think you should tell him how you feel about him, and enjoy your time with him before he leave.  This way both of you would have closure of this beautiful although short-lived relationship.\n\nHave the courage to live fully, to experience and to love.  I hope you guys have a good time.\n\nBest Wishes~
104757
Hi!\nIts better to ask him directly if he has any such feelings 4 u. Coz remember, it is easier for a boy to overcome such situations,but when it comes to emotional situations,girls are not that strong as to forget all this in a few days and carry on with a normal routine. U r close enough 2 him 2 put such a question directly to him. M saying this coz if he is interected then its ofcourse good 4 u,but if its otherwise then it would be too late 4 u to make it easier 4 urself 2 overcome what is yet 2 b. You seem to be interested in him,but just think,if without knowing the latter's feelings u continue liking him in that manner and then soon come to know that nothing of this kind had been going on in his mind, then what will be your reaction? Comeon,its your life,and you are its master,so I would suggest that u ask him directly rather than continuing this onesided liking.\ntake care!
1035652
i think u might be over reacting just a little. if he's still telling u that he loves u then no worries. through the  days, months, years ppl change and that's wut he's doing . but the one thing that izn't changing is the love he haz for u.
59438
Take a deep breath and give it some space. 2 days is not long, although it has been agony for you. Focus on yourself and do special things you enjoy and see what happens. Give him some space, too. If you really love him, you can prove it by giving him some time and space. It sounds like you may have been holding on a bit too tightly.