Do you abuse? Especially girls?
480484
Very rarely.....just when somebody really pisses me off.
247703
yes, some people do. I've seen it in public. I've heard children talk about it. Sometimes it's a small smack on the butt - something more embarrassing than physically painful - other times it is clearly child abuse.
719013
Yes I have been sexually abused as well as robbed of my virginity when I was at the ages of 8-14. I was scared and confused as to why it was happening to me. There were times I thought I liked it, but I really didn't. Of all people to do this to me was a very dear and close friend of my family and a father figure in a way. I feel as though you are a victim and are still in the abusive situation because you like it and it feels good to you, if so I urge you to get out and report him. Men will take advantage of a little girl whenever and wherever they can, that's Men! I found your question to be inappropriate as well as a cry for help.
99228
dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
197232
I don't know...report abuse.
632936
get out of the situation if you can. get your self away from the person who is abusing you! the reason why i put it that way is if you think or feel that you are not being treated rignt, chances are You are correct.\n you do not need bruises to be abused. even men are, but rarely feel free to say so because of how macho our society is.\n  here are a few questions to ask yourself.\ndo yu feel put down. are your friends asking you why you put up that all the time. \n   do you have to appologize for being you? critizied, corrected, or being told what ever you do wassn't not good enough.\n    do you feel like you are under a controll freak? what i mean is, all your time accounted for, are you told what to do all the time? if you work, is the time you leave and return so tight you get yelled at if there is heavy traffic?\n    if you have some sort of income, is every penny accounted for, with none left over for yourself. if you have something you need or want and there is money, do you have to ask, even if you ask are you denied it?\n     yelling, bulling, pushing, are clear signs of abuse. bruises, broken bones, rapes,and actual homicde are the end.\n abuse humiliates a person. it robs them of their identy. it can cause them to feel powerless to leave the person doing the abuse. in children in can cause confusion and rage so intense, that these emotions are almost impossible to controll growinging up if not given help.\n  with adults, the results still need counciling to recover from.\n the best way to honestly know if the situation your in is abusive, is to sit down with some kind of councilor, rabbi, priest,  or cleric. explain your situation, i'm sure, you will get far better advice that i can give you here.\n\n   good luck    looking
459151
i play with a guys head to find out what makes them tick. to see how far i can push them. but give up after awhile. i wold never do anything that would damage the person or property just little mind games. i like playing hard to get cause ive been used and abused to many times
439055
well, i think it depends. if they are really getting hurt, there's something wrong with you & you need to find out what it is about women that's making you really enjoy seeing them in major pain. but, if they are role playing, then that's just being kinky! roll with it, as long as it doesn't get out of hand!\noh yeah, and if you mean by girls, like YOUNG girls, then yeah, i would say you have a problem. but if you meant, girls, in the context of females, than my answer above applies.
600128
well done, it needed to be said.  but look you said it yourself too 'i was in an abusive situation once...it took me some time (as i was younger and less experienced)'  \n\ndo you realize that a LOT of people on here are teenagers who are at that 'younger and less [life] experienced' phase that you were at?\n\nit's good that you are here to shout sense into people..sorry to hear of your abusive encounter before. hope as many people as possible read your post here today and get some thinkin going on!
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ARE YOU INSANE GIRL ????
141903
Yup, I carry around a can of mace and a billy club just in case a female tries to rape me.. lol....\n\nAll joking aside, I think girls are just worse at controlling aggression than males are. In the past females never had to deal with the stresses that the male population had to. \n\nNow·a·days, with so many females balancing the full work week, family life, financial responsibilities, hectic drivers, and all the stresses that the male part of society dealt with for generations, they just don't know how to cope.\n\nThe number of females in the us with drinking problems is growing exponentially. They need some way to cope, and alcohol and violence are the easiest options.\n\nI would say 70 percent of the time the female will hit the male first when they are having a bad fight. Girls hit males all the time. They slap, they kick, its just males don't bruise as easily. The axiom that girls "bruise and break", and males "rip and tear" seems true. Girls bruise and break bones easier. Males will rip and tear skin and muscles.\n\nMost males would never report female to male abuse. The reason it seems like males are always the abuser is because males are so much stronger and weigh so much more that if a male was to hit her back he would do that much more damage. \n\nlogically, males should be far more aggressive, we have about 20 times more testosterone flowing in our bodies.\n\nThis is just a matter of opinion, and I have no statistics to back it up, but I also think girls are more aggressive drivers.  On the road, inside a bulk of steel and combustion.... Girls have just as much power as any male, and I think some girls inadvertently make that point.
510714
Not at all.  Well, not unless you do something wrong & she slaps you for it.  Otherwise, it feels great.  This is probably why we're usually more obsessed with sex.
229295
I didn't realize then, but I was abused sexually by my ex. I thought there was something wrong with ME.\n\nHe was always groping me whether I wanted to or not, even in front of our children. \n\nOf course there was more things, but whether being abused sexually or physically, I'm glad I'm out of his clutch.
614774
your a bad girl huh ?
188999
No, that is way to much brain damage for me.  I tend to leave the masochism to the females, they are much better at than me.\n\nJohn B.
269327
Women do. Immature girls with a penchant for suffering or with hopes of "changing" a bad boy don't. And the sad part, I know immature girls that are in their thyrties and even their forties. \nAnd yes, being a wussy is not being a nice guy. Be nice but don't take sh*t from anybody.
131710
I have only been in two physical fights and both were in grade school. This girl followed me home and hit me in the head with her bookbag. Not much of a fight I suppose. The second was with a girl who constantly followed me around telling me my ass was grass (very inmature) Finaly one day I turned around and said. "What the hell is your problem!" "You don't even know me but, if you want to hit me so bad than go for it." I stepped towards her and when she swung I grabed her arm and pulled her into the side of the building. She popped her nose into the brick and fell down bleeding. She started crying and asked me to help her. "I told her I was sorry but that she had asked for it and she could just help herself. I didn't have any problems from her again.