my love life sucks....?
483151
At one point or another, now matter what relationship you are in...it will suck, every now and again!! Good Luck-this to shall pass!! :)
492527
Go on with your life as if nothing were the matter.\n\nThis is really hard -- be courteous and pleasant and non-judgmental with your former lover.\n\nAs soon as you can, open your eyes to new opportunities and find a new love.
665370
Wait for the right girl.  Not worth it if you don't love the person.  You're normal.  Nothing wrong with desire.  How you act upon that desire will show your true character.  If you'd like to live in a world that's more free, move to a new country.  But I'd suggest, fall in love.  Being with the person you love will give you the right experience and the best memories to cherish.  At least, that's what most of my friends tell me.  Goodluck! =)
334570
the best thing to do is go separate ways , find a hobby , read, go shopping. i don't think someone else is good right  now. u ha vet gotten over this .give yourself time to your self . plenty of fish out here in this big sea of love. what u do is find a younger gal reminding u of her.
206871
You appear to have very low self esteem of yourself. Being in that negative envionment will continue dragging you down. I am sure you are a very good and loving person and deserve someone who loves and gives back as you do. Being alone and providing for yourself is better than being in a bad relationship. So, start spending time apart from this clown. Go back to school. Get yourself a carreer. Envolve yourself with only positive minded people. Remember, today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you decide to keep things as they were yesterday, then tomorrow will be the same as today. If you just have gotten fed up with your life as it now is then just change your mind. You can do it girl. Go for it.
1098229
have a break girl.. think of other stuff, you love life while sort itself out.......cupid will turn up when you least expect it .... your soul mate is out there be patient.... hope you find some one really nice soon
1081299
Thank goodness you only wasted 5 months with this loser. you've found out that you don't want this one so get ready for your destiny. Get fit and healthy, go the gym, get your hair done, spend time with the girls and have a laugh. you are now free to find someone really great and only your ego got a bit bashed. it's ok you'll get over it. he obviously has so why let him have anymore of your headspace? He was seeing others when he was with you most likely. don't go to bed with someone until after 6 months and it won't happen like this again. if they won't wait you don't date!
133947
spend time on your self it sounds like you lost your self in this relationship. spend time with your friends and family fall in love with your self then you will heal
389668
Been there, This girl after 4 years i almost call her by name to the other girl oh i going to hate that day. But until i guess she love me. Look getting over a loved one we don't we just learn to live with it. Try to pacth things up maybe you can save what ya'll had or still do.
388415
Get another girlfriend. Something to distract you can help for a little while...a casual dating relationship, maybe. In the long run, though it is simply a matter of letting go. Easy to say, really hard to do. Good luck to you!
902044
sounds like your in a pickle...i am 26,man that looks old, but anyways, listen.i got the same thing from my girl, about a few weeks ago. not the fact of moving cause of school or anything(we have been 2 gether for 6-7 years and have a 4yr old son). she just came to me with the fact that she thought we need time,i never saw it coming and all that, yeah..it sucks.when your in love and when they come to you with this crap, your kinda like...what?when?how?why?me? i got like you. thisterrible sinking feeling inside.thats when you really know that you care,but what hurts the most is when they are like?oh?i hurt you?\nBUDDY, i hope your young.you have no children? so go on with your life.its gonna be ahrd, i mean you put in the effort, 5 years of your life and now this. it will take some time getting over this, but hey. im sure you have a mom, or family or friends you can lean on at this time. it will just take time, besides...there are soooooo many beautiful women out there. i was at the point to where iwas like i didnt care about those other women, but get this...they do care. they are out there looking just like you will have to.some will come to you,and some you will have to suck it up and go for.everyone gets rejected here nd there*trust me it sucks) but movw to the next. if you dont want to get hurt all over again, then dont get too involved. whats the best part about this? you will meet so many intresting people and get to do new things. yeah she might be in austin having a blast with out you. you will just have to accept this, get over it and have blast yourelf. if your here and shes there, it will make it easier,but when she comes back...or is ever alone at school and the memories come back to her, she will reliaze that she had something special. not every man is gonna treat her like you did..some may be better, most will be worse(most guys in collage are NOT looking for relationships ya know?) and she will, or try to reach you again to see how you are. hopefully youve moved on, got a black book packed with girlfriends, that are friends, some even more, thats when its sweet..when she comes back trying to be a apart of your life again...you might take her back...you might reliaze, you have moved on and shes just another face in the crowd, she didnt care about your feelings then...you could blow her off, you could give it a shot all over agian. i know its not easy.in fact me and my girl are still together after i found out how she felt. we are not married..so its no promise that it will work, all i know is that i have son with this woman, and i love him-if it works with her,great if not...i ahve him, and thats all i will ever need, me,him,god-you will understand once you have a kid, it is amazing\nwell good luck pal,keep your head up..if it help..go beat the shit out of a door, or punching bag, a little stress relief, or go have a drink this weekend at aclub or bar, and enjoy the view, the eye candy..the ladies!who knows, someone might be looking for a someone like you.
736374
I had this same exact problem for so long and I am just now coming out of it. It is going to be very wonderful when you come out of this experience knowing so much and able to help other people with the same exact problem. First of all, I want you to think about all the time you've wasted just sitting and daydreaming about him. That's time you could have used to make your life better by doing things you enjoy and you could have made other peoples' lives better. Next I want you to ask yourself, "What has he ever done for you?" It's really hurtful to realize that you've wasted your time wanting somebody that you just can't have but trust me, you will have so much free time once you just stop thinking about him. You have to be willing to stop talking about him w/ anyone, pretty much pretending he doesn't exist anymore. Avoid listening to songs that remind you of him. With the guy that I liked, he was actually undesirable and it took me so long to realize that he just wasn't a good match for me at all. So hang in there and remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with being singe cuz you're waiting for the right guy! You deserve a guy that's young enough and that you can actually go out w/! good luck! e-mail me if ya need to!
614690
I understand your situation. I dated someone for awhile then I broke up with him for a really dumb reason. Went through a few transition guys and then realized I still loved him, even more than I did when we were together. I wrote him letters, but he just was not that into me. I cried, and was depressed and felt like everything was wrong in the world. What made it even worse was that we hung out together every single day.  It all changed when I stopped throwing myself at him and other guys that hung out with us were interested in me. I would flirt a little with these guys and it really go to my ex. Then one day soon after he got into me again, and I started crying tears of joy instead of tears of sadness. So just don't be desperate, make him sweat over you a little. It works, I am living proof of it :)\n\nP.S. This may work for you, but it may not. If it doesn't, please do not pine over this guy's affection for too long. Move on, live life. There will be plenty of other guys even though right now it may not seem that way now. Do not waste your life trying to get one guy, because you may be so focused on him that many oppertunities, friends, and even relationships may pass you bye.
1104486
Take some time to know yourself...and let time to it's thing. Go out with friends and just enjoy being single. Sometimes we need time for ourselves to start another relationship. It is tough but all you can do is learn from it and move on.
255128
It's just not worth it to live in your own pain or wait for a miracle to happen. Try to do other things to keep your mind off that person but don't start dating until you're actually ready to move on.
96290
ignore the jerks...don't stay w/ him if thats not gonna make u happy...it'll just make u miserable and if u don't want this relationship, end it...trust me, i just got outta one that i had felt this way in...just tell him how u feel and why he doesn't make u happy, but if u love him and there's something that u both could do to work it out, try patching things up and get on w/ it. GOOD LUCK!!!
1163219
Sure, Email me at MyOddThoughtss@yahoo.com\n\nOh, and.. take it slow. Love will come and don't be at the ready with the "I love you" from the start. Take your time.