i love her but she wants to be friends?
492781
I'm sorry to say that means she's not really "into" you anymore.  It will hurt for awhile, but try to move on and date new girls.  Go ahead and be friendly, and for heavens sake don't burn any bridges.  Just be cool, give her space and do a little fishin for that one and a million fish in the sea!  Good Luck
648910
Don't lead her on.  Don't have sex with her or flirt with her or act as if you want anything more than a friendship.  Be open and honest with her and don't send mixed messages.  Tell her you only want friendship and if she wants more and can't handle being friends, then you have to end the communication between you because it will only result in someone getting hurt.
874000
just tell her that you would like to be more than friends and see witch way it goes
16454
find out the things she likes, spend time w/ her. Be interested in the things she likes to do,(or at least pretend) Ask her if she would like to be more than friends, if she says yes, then go for it. If she says no, at least you still have your friendship.
1051907
well maybe she doesnt want to ruin your friendship because when you to break up everything will be changed between you 2 and it makes being or trying to be friends really complicated.
842034
Still treat her like you always do but just give her gift couple time you met her, and she will start to get the feeling that you don't want to just be friend. U will see she will start looking at you striange then you can pop the question.\nHope this will help you.
669061
you can not force some one to like you in that way. What kind of relationship would it be if you had to force her to like you? Be her friend. I know that you want more, but if she just wants to be friends, then i guess that is a start. Maybe in time she will see that you are a good guy, nice, & funny, & want more. Hang in there.
32100
You should take her out to some quiet place, where you can talk. Tell her how you feel and that you wish to be more than just friends and give her some time to answer. Good luck
471431
hi!\nwell calm down! its ok. we all pass by these, its life!! from wat i understand is that she doesnt want any relationship with u rite? so atleast try to catch up ur friendship with her agian. this will take time. talk to her and tell her "i had those feelings for u and i truely repect u for whom u r. i will be very happy if we can still be friends." i dnt think she is going to say no. it will take some time until things goes normal again. at least u will be friends. hope u get ur perfect gurl sooon! gOOOoOoOd luck!
494084
Its not a bad thing to just be friends with your lover, if you are not comfortable with being just friends; then I guess you should leave her alone. If she only wants to be friends, then that is a sign she doesnt love you like you had thought she did.\n\nThere was a guy I dated in high school, unfortunately he broke it off. But I think that we were better off as friends than a couple. I used to get so depressed whenever I seen him with another girl though. Took me sometime to cope. But then time went by n i didnt care anymore. Poor guy still loves me..
821542
If she flirts with everyone, she is not ready to settle down into any serious relationship, not one that will last anyway.  Why don't you just be there for her as a friend, and what ever happens will happen.  Don't push any issues, otherwise you are the one that will be hurt.  Take your time she might turn to you after all, but it has to be of her own free will.  You want a relationship where you both feel love for each other, not just you, that's not fair to you.  Good luck.
856018
From what you have wrote I think that she what to be more than friends.  If she didn't want to be more than friends, she wouldn't be telling other people that you are her boyfriend.  If you only want to be friend with her than you need to talk to her and let her know that here actions are making you uncomfortable and that she needs to stop telling people that you are her boyfriend.
1102019
Say that you've been friends for a long time and I wonderd if you would like to be more then friends. Tell her that you like her very much and go on from there
826205
I think she doesn't know what she wants. I think she's playing mind games with you. I would try being her friend and take it from there.
741239
It's always hard when you start having feelings for a friend, you don't want to loose the friendship, but at the same time you want to have more.  Take it day by day.  Invite her to do things on a casual level, dinner, movies, shopping for Christmas gifts.  In time, if she does have more feelings for you, you will know it and it can go from there.  Be careful, if the only thing she wants is friendship, take it because if she is as special as you say, you don't want to loose her.
698317
Tell her you want to remain single.  You are not the type who can settle with a marriage.  Tell her you may not be faithful to her so it is better to be friends.
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends