Is it alright to fall in love with you bestfriend?
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646511
I have a similar problem the only difference is I think of my best friend as a brother and he told me he was in love with me. You need to sit down and make some rules first to be in love with your best friend could be the best thing that ever happened to you. I understand you being scared that if your relationship moves forward and it doesn't work out you may lose your best friend, but make a pact that no matter what happens you will always be friends and talk things out before you do anything, always be there for each other and you may have found the love of your life.
247442
Of course not! Why should it be wrong to fall in love with your someone? She might be your close cousin, she might be your distant cousin but the most important thing is that you are in love with her. \n\nAs far as I know and believe, love comes naturaly. You do not need to create love for somebody and obviously nobody does that. Love will automatically be created in you, will be felt by you for someone but you never know who will be your she before love comes to you!\n\nSo, as you can see, it is not at all wrong to fall in love with your distant cousin. By the way, are you in love with her? If you are sure that you are, do not hesitate to make her know about it. She might be feeling in the same way too! Who knows!\n\nBest of luck and thanks for such a wonderful question.
268397
Usually when you get together with your best friend, things seem pretty great. However, on most TV shows, it ends up screwing up in the end and you end up losing an awesome friend. It really depends on how you want the relationship to work- if you want it to be extremely intimate, you'll need to take things slow, but if you want it to be casual, go for it. Just be careful. Don't take things too fast, and just bring it up in normal conversation. Don't be too forward. That'll scare him away. :)
310232
No it is not wrong to feel that way.  Sometimes it is better to do the whole friends with benefits type of thing.  One of my ex's and I did the friends with benefits bit and when we moved on to other relationships we were able to keep the friendship.  It is nice having a guy to talk to about anything, that you know will understand b/c he is your best friend.  I think it is more important to have a best friend than a boyfriend.  It sounds like this guy is your best friend and sometimes when you move from friends to lovers you lose the friend.  So doing the friend thing would be safer but if your feelings are really strong then go for it and if it does not work out hopefully you can still be friends.
1036169
Well dear, the English language, although among the richest, is still poor to express certain issues. \nLove! Is Love a feeling or a property of a person? I think the second! Thus, if you are a person who love, then you love and you love everyone and everything! That is great! Congratulations!\nNow, since you love, you love your friends, also, regardless of their customs, attractions, wills, etc. What you are asking in if you should do what you do not like, am I right? \nIn the case you do not like something, you do not do this, because your closest and best friend is yourself! Yourself will never turn you down, or at least more than you will do to her!\nALso, we have many friends who either drink a lot, or smoke or take drags, ..., we get with them and try to influence them to soemthing we consider better! Others are doing thing we consider them fine, although those activities are not our style! Etc. We get together with them. We enjoy what we can communicate each other! Same way with your friend! You remain friends, but you should do what you really want! If you cchange, your friends will not like you any more, you will be done aanother person! If they like the new you and the new you is less good that the previous, run away, those might not be good friends, might not even be any kind of friends!\nNow, if she would bring another boyfriend, what would you think? How would you react?\nIt all depends on how you feel, what kind of girlfriend she is, what you want out of this relation, ...\nI might enjoy both of them and look around for another relation!!!!
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I don't wanna be too judgemental, but I'd never do something like that. However, it all depends on you and on the person you wanna date. And, of course, it also depends on your friends feelings, but, in any case it can be extremely difficult for all people involved. So, in my opinion, it is much easier to stay away from ur bestfriend's ex and not complicate ur life.
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Yes*\nAnd he turned out to be the love of my life. AND I later found out that 'the friend' was not really a friend at all.  \nHowever, the rule of thumb is, if your best friend likes them, 'their off limits' until either they break up or she moves on. And even then, your supposed to ask your friend if its ok to make a play for that special hottie
76712
thats the way it ALWAYS is - its your bestfriend that always gets your significant other ... if your friend is worth it just dont do it ... maybe later ...
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No it's noy wrong and don't let  any one tell you that it is because you have the right to your own way of life and how you decide to live it and also who you date and when you date them and how old they are when you fall in love with them trust me on this one I know for a fact because I am also in love with a younger person who happens to know it but doesn't know that I know that he loves me back. \n\n            p.s.\n\n           Take this info to head and share it with some one else that you know with the same problem as you and me(to me it's not really a probllem so you shouldn't say that it is).
225355
Are you Gay and in love with your best friend? If not, what's "brokeback" about it? Being that this is your bestfriend you are speaking of, ask if they are gay.  Then ask yourself if it would matter.
553707
Girl...If you and your best friend are like "paper and glue" close, I think you should think it over. Think "Would she/he do that to me?" Make sure you know whats good for you. A Girlfriend/Boyfriend come and go, best friends are for LIFE! (If you have the right one)
377703
Yeah, I totally have a crush on my bestfriend's boyfriend, he's so hott!  U handle the situation by being a good friend don't do anything, not like i would ever get the chance, but friends first.
726762
well, if you are falling for him and he still has the feelings for you then go ahead. The nice thing about your relationship with him is that you two know each other very well due to the friendship you two have shared.
1054303
falling in love with my best friend, and knowing that he loves me back
999752
It is always okay to be firends with the one that u love, because eventually she will come back around and see that she does care for you.  U will be more than friends eventually u just have to give her time to find herself.\n\n\nGOD bless you.
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If he's your best guy friend ... you already know you like each other.  It's workin' out just great the way they are.  Don't rush it.  Things will take care of themselves.