What do women really want in a man ?
485623
honesty and sincerity. looks are not the most important thing in any relationship
44497
Every individual wants different things.  I'm in that age range so I can say that each of my friends and I all talk about different things we like in a man, so you can't bunch all women up into one group.  You have to take the time to get to know the woman you are interested in and learn about her desires, goals and interests, its the only real way to find out:  learn from the woman herself.
452273
It's simple. Some women just don't know what they want. They always want the fantasy, the romance, the trumpets. I'm a woman and I think it's a lot of bull. I'm with a guy who is nice and fun, sexy and confident. He may be just an ordinary guy at times (sit in front of the TV, feast on pizza) but when he wants to impress me or be romantic he surprises me!
113555
don't know about the others as i usually don't have many female friends but i know for me someone who shows interest in some of the things i do, someone that i can hold a conversation with, someone that will hold the door for me. he's got to be caring, non judgemental, open minded, open to trying new things (doesn't mean in the bedroom), fun loving, lives life to the fullest, willing to take care of me as i would take care of him. looks aren't all that important but to have a good relationship there is definately a need for a physical attraction but over all it's how he carries himself. if he's sure of himself then i know i can be sure of him.
88972
That's a tricky question, cuz not all men are the same.Like me, I look for nice personality, honesty,and someone to love me for me, not for what I have.Most importantly, she has to have high self esteem.All the physical things come in a little later.
358143
I think you need to find out what you want first in a guy.  Money, power, good looks, or just someone that makes you comfortable and happy.\n\nIf that doesn't work, just grab the next guy that comes along your way and train him to satisfy you...
534414
if you were really looking for a woman, she'd come to you and you'd know it. There's no way in the world any one man can be everything a woman wants because not all women are the same...It's what your woman wants, not what other women want. If you have a girl, concentrate on her. Get to know her needs.
423780
I dont.. I look for a woman with intellect and some sort of success in life and a good head on thier shoulders.... Not a sex object!!! Sorry but not all guys are like that...\n\nA lot of men a shallow thats why I guess.
77664
Awoman that can stand by my side and by herslf if needed. A woman that does not back down and is not a pushover .... someone that is most of all honest and trust worthy..... a woman that has goals that she knows she will reach ... a woman that appreciates me for me and not my possesions ... a lady that know how to use her body and please mine ... and if she doesn't is willing to be taught.... and above all a lady that does not compare me to any other man on this planet.... because I am me and no one else ..... i desire to be differnt than other men therefore I will never be like another man .... we may have things in common but I will never be your dad or uncle or grandfather or ex boyfriend .. and possibly not the man of your dreams ... but just good ol me ..... And if a woman can harness those qualities she's alright with me ..... plus a good cook can't hurt ... They say the way to a mans heart is thru his belly !!!! lol
798427
Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
1108178
umm yes yes yes, women want a guy that works hard and if you look great with out making and effort id personally think wow what would he look like if he made a big effort it shows u are not scared of showing the real you and that your not hiding behind anything
778252
simple things.\n\nlooks\nhonesty\nfaithfulness\nsmart\ntime to spend\ngoals\nhe has to know how to treat a woman\nrespectful\n\nthats the basics....... is that too much to ask for? lol
349026
Men like a girl to be themselves. No lies, no drama, no bullshit.  They like a woman that can stand up for themselves, and also compramise.  They like someone whoe's nice and sweet, and also with a little attitude.  Someone who gives without asking anything in return.  They just like someone they can have fun with, and also be seriouse with.
388892
The two are not mutually exclusive.  There are other attributes in women men appreciate such as kindness, intelect, talent, humor, poise, the list continues....
80970
i think that questios depends on what kind of men they is. If those who wants to have a family its 90~100% they want a women who is honest and loving over beauty. But if those who are just wan for fun... is to be 0~10% that they wan those kinds...cause they prefer look and beauty... :P
312380
Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
376353
Lol, yeah anyways...\n\nPretty much the same thing chicks want in a guy.\n\nA fun and funny chick who knows how to be sexy and turn a guy on.  A girl who isn't needy or emotional, who has confidence and thinks highly of herself.  Who isn't clingy and gives you your space.  A girl who he can feel comfortable being himself around.  A girl who has a life, and has her shit together, and who doesn't take things so seriously that you can't live it up with each other one adventure after another...\n\nThe real trick is finding a guy who has HIS shit together.\n\n...Oh and, stop looking at me like that.  I'm taken.. ;)