Is it a sin or  wrong for an old man to pleasure himself if he can't get satisfaction with his wife ?
475903
It's yours, you can play with it as much as you want.  I think it's kind of sexy.
1087185
No its not wrong... unless you have a wife who's telling ya its wrong.... lol
222512
1 Corinthians 7:3-5 (NIV)\n"The husband should fulfil his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self control."\n\nIn other words, the wife should satisfy the husband and the husband should satisfy the wife.
180019
NOt if you don't mind.\nIt would be wrong if he is married though.
446702
I really don't think it's an issue of what's wrong or right or if you "sin" that's a bad thing.  The point of all the preaching is about what is best for you spiritually.  The people that do the preaching have turned it into what's bad and good and make it a morality issue.  \n\nReally, what you need to think about is what does sex do to you.  Promiscuous sex solely for seeking pleasure can run the risk of addiction, disease, etc., and isn't good for the soul or heart.  In a karmic sense, sex in marriage as an expression of love is less of an attachment - meaning one is less likely to get caught up in it and with love and responsibility of the marriage it kind of nullifies the lust from sex.\n\nSo the question is what is your spiritual quest or goal?  Nothing?  Just getting to heaven?  Or do you want to become a saint?  If you just want to get to heaven then I don't think sex in marriage or with commitment and love will keep you from that.  If you're looking to be a saint then letting go of desires and being celibate is probably necessary.
731596
i was under the impression that masturbation is a sin no matter what you use because it means you're lusting after something. but i say if it makes you happy, do it. don't deny yourself just because someone else doesn't like it.
61250
orgasm..thats the key..evidently you have the wrong mate ..if your not getting anything out of it,then dont do it...if your a woman leave them little boys alone and if your a man get an older woman thats efficeint...lol
1033051
If you have to ask,then the answer is "no". If giving your loved one oral sex pleasures you--then do it, but if you feel like you're getting the short end of the stick--then stop. You don't have to do it and if he/she can't appreciate your act of kindness--then forget them.
94793
No, having sex as a form of entertainment is purely a human behavior. The man might feel unsatisfied but ultimatly, its all in your head.
1004423
He can expect to loose upto 30% of his nerve endings, so sex will be less pleasurable.\n\nPlus without the protection his glands will become less sensitive as he get older.
14790
YES!! did you just find out you want to do such thing? after 65 years? or did it bother you your whole life that you were a male? well either way I think it is much too risky at you ar age, enjoy what you have left of yor life taking care of your self and making the most of it by being healthy and try making peace with your self and God. Good Luck 2 YOU.
517796
I will be 51 this year,theres nothing wrong with sex in your fiftys,sixtys or seventys if your with the right man and you still enjoy it.go for it your never to old to try anything
528709
That's a sin some where. And any way would you like you wife to cheat on you? "Do into others as you have them do into you" Get it think about that  for awhile!
554886
I would consider doing it in her presence! It portrays an image of not being satisfied by her! Think about it and imagine you being the one next to your wife masturbating while you arent that asleep!
1054543
Yes, It is a Sin.  It is a sin even if you convince your self that it isn't.  Because you can't lie to yourself or to God.  If you continue to masturbate you will develop a habit and then it will be more difficult to stop.  Do you want to be a slave to sin?  If you are Catholic Go To Confession and keep going until you are free of this.  \nIf you are not Catholic, Still find someone to talk to who will support your efforts to be Chaste.  You can still talk to a priest about it.\n\nWhen the urge hits, Get outside and go for a run.  Burn of stress in a constructive way.  Take up a new hobby or sport.\nEveryone says that everyone is doing it, but you're not everybody.  This is the only life you have and you are being lied to by the media and people who want to defend their own way of life. You don't want to be in the same boat with them because their boat is sinking.   You Know masturbation effects your self esteem in a bad way.  \nYou can refuse to be mastered by sin.  \n\nYou will make better decisions regarding girls and have a better relationship with them.  Then wait until after you are married to have sex.  In this day and age of STD why risk your future happiness with your wife to cheat on her before getting married to her.  Yes it is possible to cheat on someone you haven't even met yet.  \nYou have a sensivity to The Spirit and you know internally when something is off with God's ways even when it may feel good.  It feels bad to go against God And Natural Law.  \nIf you deserve someone so special that she is worth waiting for.  Wait for her.\nThis Link will explain it to you better than I can.\nhttp://www.christusrex.org/www1/CDHN/sixth.html#CHASTITY\n\nIt's not easy to live a life of purity but you can do it and you are worth it.  Now Don't keep beeling bad.  God Loves You and wants  what's best for you.\n\nGod Bless You and Guide you in the way that will bring you true happiness.  ;-)
650927
The fact that you are asking this question should tell you something is not right in your relationship. Ive never done either with my wife.
529266
well, for a little while and then let him get involved.  Not just sit there and watch you go to town and make yourself orgasm.  When I'm going down on my wife, she will sometimes push my head away and do it herself for a while.  It"s hot, but then I want to finish what I started.