Why does my friend get mad when I look at other girls even though she just wanted to be friends.  Help ladies!
478413
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
1087916
Okay I'm going to guess that your still young because when we're younger we then to pick on the ones we like as our way of "flirting". Although it's not on purpose it still happens. I think you need to stop and think about what makes her mad and NOT do it when she's around you. Show her that you can be very nice, humble and sincere. I guarantee that she'll melt when you show her these qualitys.
8087
Don't worry too much about hurting her, she should get over it if you advise her that her bragging is making her look like a snob.  Friends shouldn't let other friends be snobs.
645892
dont you hate that\n\nDitch her, girls wont date guys with female friends, they just get jealous, your a guy, get some action
443293
I'd be nice but firm.  Tell her you enjoy her friendship and would like to continue it, but that the relationship is over and that you would like to meet other girls.  Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing this.  If she still has feelings for you, it's gonna hurt no matter how you say it, but eventually, if she's mature enough, she'll get over it and you can restart the friendship.  Good luck!
211524
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
900313
Be happy for your friend. Let her have her own time to shine....like you had your time. I can totally see why you'd be upset, though. It'd make me the same way. The only thing I can tell you to do is to deal with it. You may cause a fight if you show your jealousy. Let her have her time in the spotlight, and soon, her time will fade as well. Good luck!
1179775
If she's not acting exactly warm and fuzzy towards you when she's with her friends, then that almost definitely means she feels pressure from them. Maybe they don't like -your- friends/reputation, myabe they feel you aren't good enough for her or maybe they're just plain jealous.\n\nThe fact that she's touchy-feely when alone with you means she probly does dig you... but the fact that she doesn't 'own' you in front of her friends is troubling.\n\nYou need to ask her point-blank how she feels about you, if she's serious. If she says she is, but then goes on with this mixed-messages crap, I say lose her and lose her quick.\n\nHowever... there is a difference between a couple of close girl friends venting to eachother in a serious round of private girl talk, and the queen witch grilling you in front of a live audience. It sounds like it's safe to say she's crossed that line, though.
234671
Put yourself in this situation. Would you get jealous? Yeah, and besides getting jealous you would probably be ticked off that since they got a girlfriend I'm nothing now not even a friend. If she meant the world to her then why could you drop her so easily??? Maybe you should care more about other peoples feeling instead of just your own. Good Luck:) Sorry, if this offends anybody.
344432
Well I am kinda jealous of my friend becuz she's prettier and the guys like her more. i'm different and ppl don't really like that and it hurts my feelings cuz she can get guys' phone numbers and i can't because i'm afriad that i'll get rejected.
502105
Is it possible she likes your friend and isn't looking at you? If not, maybe she didn't really want to break up. Some girls will shout that in a fight just because they like being chased and maybe you didn't try hard enough to resolve things with her before splitting?
957673
She is jealous of you, you are probably prettier than her.  Here at my University as I was getting lunch a girl i had never seen before in my life looked at me and rolled her eyes.  But she was less than pretty and I am black with natural gray eyes so anyone that doesn't like you for no apparent reason is jealous.
191780
This is when you separate the "women from the girls"...Be Strong!  Believe me when I say, you are not alone in this.  It's happened to most of us and it's not a good feeling, but you do get over it....it just doesn't feel like it right now.  When people feel intimidated by you, they feel the need to boost their own shaky self esteem by putting someone else down and because your best friend probably knows everything about you, you are an easy target for her.  For whatever reason (she's jealous, you are prettier, you are smarter, whatever) she's decided to ambush your friendship.  The best thing you can do is to take the high road and don't sweat it.  The more people see that this bothers you the more they are going to tear you apart over it.  Blow it off and move on to new friends.  BUT..play your cards close to the vest for a while until you are sure you can trust them.  And you never know...maybe she's a friend who can redeem herself and who just made a mistake...only you can be the judge of that.  But if you do become friends again...go slow.  Are you sure you can ever really trust her again?  Good Luck.
836611
Why do you want to stay friends with someone that tries to confuse you and it sound like she doesn't respect your feelings. If your not lesbian let her be... Its actually very bad for her to do it over and over again, not very nice person. Just let her know that if she doesn't stop your going to go you own way, she her reaction i she stops you'll know she is a true friend,
697760
She might be jealous of you, and that is why she doesn't like you! Just ignore her! If you don't give her the reaction she is looking for, she eventually stop being rude, and move onto the next person!
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
642760
Maybe she was having a bad day.... Is she like this often. \nMaybe you should have asked her what was wrong? \n\nAlot of girls whether they realize it or not start ditching their friends for boys and maybe your friend feels threatened.\n\nMaybe shes on the monthly and had a headache....  \n\nBE A GOOD FRIEND AND            ASK HER\n\nIf shes still being rude without an explanation then she may be sending you a signal that your not as graet of friends as you thought.... \n\nJust try to bear with it, if shes your best friend...... but dont let yourself get hurt by this...