Me and my friend arent talking any more we have bin friends for 10 years what do i do?
493682
Maybe it is just a misunderstanding.  You need to approach your friend and make the overtures.  Ask him/her if there is anything wrong and tell them that you have been concerned that you may have upset them and if so that you would like to make amends.  It might not even be you, or it might be something that someone has said about you.  Only by approaching your friend can you get to the bottom of it.
264923
Going through this right now with one of my best friends and the dumbest part is we are in our 30's (way too old for this crap) anyway, I have decided to let it be for now, but I assure you while I won't be a complete jerk to her I have no desire to be as close as we were, because obviously she doesn't value our friendship the way that I do or this would not have happened.
457128
Make sure you tell her you deserve an explanation for her distance. This is important. You have the right to know why she no longer wishes to be a part of your life. Just pull her to the side nicely or if you can catch her alone even better and just be like, "Hey, I've noticed you've been distant lately, is there anything wrong...did I do something to upset you?" Then if she doesn't wanna talk or explain herself, tell her "I deserve an explanation and I'll only try this once if your gonna give me the cold shoulder. I care about you enough to address the situation, but if you don't wanna be my friend anymore, at least have the decency to inform me like a woman". After this. just do what's in your heart. Go your separate ways and look into other options in friends. Someone is out there in the same boat as you and you'll find a new BFF soon. Good Luck!
180587
you could try going through friends re-united...it may be worth a try
677067
U should not care about him anymore.Go ahead and forget him and try to make new friends.U have done your bit of clearing any kind of misunderstanding.\nDon't worry about it
163197
forget aboutit... forget maria.. \n\nyou can wait . til your friend & maria ia over
425522
IM NOT FIRNEDS ANYMORE WITH MY USED TO BE BEST FRIEND\nIT BECAME TOO MUCH WE GREW APART
78218
YOu should try and get both of your friends together to try and talk about the problem they have with each other like try being a peer mediator.  And if they refuse to do so then just simply tell them i friends with both of you i refuse to take either side and say you don't want to get involved
252132
Casually call him up...say "Hey it's been forever, I miss ya, lets get together and do something" Get him out and talking and casually bring up what the other friend asked you. Get the conversation going and see how it leads. Best of luck.
157140
I should say NO, do not end it. Distance yourself though, this is the reality of life and you have learnt it without loosing your life.\n\nStop pouring yourself to them anymore. Just be friends, remember if she ever turns around for help to you -if you can offer without an effort that is, make it a point that you do this as a favor. Make him/her obligated to what you have done for her. Mind you, do not loose yourself as you make her realise what he/she has done.\n\nRemember, we pay back our debts in this world -be patient, you will get your chance to collect, with interest.
640130
you can't really do too much except respect the fact that they won't talk to you, if they are your friend then they will talk to you.  just leave them alone and carry on with  your business, they will come around soon and if they dont' then you don't need them
702118
just tell her that you feel like you both have grown apart and no longer have the same interests and that you don't want to be friends anymore or hang out. people usually will leave you alone if you say you don't want to be friends anymore. if you don't feel comfortable telling her in person, then email her or call her up on the phone. telling her is better than trying to avoid her. some people need bigger hints.
1151389
Assuming he has yours (or knows how to contact you), I'd wait until he calls you. If he doesnt, then accept that his life has moved on so far, that he's not interested in furthering the friendship anymore. \n\nIf you were close friends, one would imagine he'd have your number on his cellphone or at least knows your address or last name, to be able to write to you instead? \n\nLeave the ball in his court...its often harder on the person left behind than the one who is venturing to new fields, as they are still holding on and have no new memories yet to fill the gap. \n\nIf he misses you he'll find a way but remember that  he probably knew for quite a while that he was leaving and so prepared himself for that loss ages ago. If he's never coming back (and knows you wont be moving there)....he might not feel that there is a good reason to continue the friendship now?
1060303
I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.
257688
look u just sort it out by keeping them away frm each other and tell both of them that u cannot break the friend ship with any one and devote equal time to both of them and dont mix up or mess it up live ur life
286778
The fact that you feel bad tells me that you are a decent person,but if it's been four years and they aren't even talking,you did nothing wrong.With age comes wisdom,as a53yr old man I say let sleeping dogs lie.Now I know some people would disagree with me and I respect that,but I can't think of one good reason to tell.Go with your heart,do whats best for you and your friend,whatever you decide,good luck.
199693
I have a friend like that and we've been together for about 12 years, on and off. We have been through 4 babies hers and one of mine my marriage and divorce and we still talk to each other. WE have an understanding, we love each other enough to know when we have had enough of each others advice. Be smart and be a friend but be smarter and know when to walk away. If the friendship is true you'll be together a long time.