i told my husband don't get me nothing because i know it would be fake?
490548
ugh he sounds really petty. I don't know his side though. You 2 should try counseling.
301049
well, the truth of the matter is you have never done it, sometimes people want to draw attention and waste other peoples time, by the way, just be yourself and go ahead with your life, At least you have the support of your husband who believes in you and above all God, whoo sees our hearts and knows each and every bit of our walks. They will carry the shame at the end, be confident.
930164
looks like you know whats going on. the question is, what are you going to do about it? your husband is playin you, and you need to confront him, dont let him feed you those obvious lies. he should respect you and his unborn child enough to at least be honest with you. if he doesnt want to be with you, he needs to make that known.
830033
Yes, my boyfriend is the same way and he hates suprises.  So, it's boring, but I just ask him what he wants and get him exactly what he tells me.  Sometimes I get a smaller gift also that is just a little something extra that I know he might want to go along with it.  So, then there's still a little element of suprise.
456820
maybe when you told him he wasn't getting any , he stayed with you just in case you eventually let your guard down, he is an idiot to not call you after running around after you so much..leaving town is a BullSh*t excuse and now he is probably looking elsewhere....you were indeed played like a hand of poker..get over it and find someone who can treat you right
865876
Looking at your picture I can see that the devil made you do it. Explain to your husband that you want to have another exorcism and he'll probably give you second chance.
333056
my husband asked me that. i just expected him to say something snide or that I was doing something silly. and answering is like sharing a little part of yourself. i did show him my answer and now he is answering questions. he saw i wasn't being sneaky after all. In fact i was telling someone what it was like for me to fall in love with my husband. It actually made him a happy man.
147374
Your first option is to ask him.  Make sure you don't do it as an attack, or he'll probably cover it up.  Also, if you do it as an attack, and he isn't cheating, then he'll feel resentful and feel like any trust you two had, is gone.  Another option is to ask a friend {or PI} to watch your husband for a while.  Call him at work to see if he's there, find out what he's doing if he's "working extra hours"  Check emails, internet history, phone calls in and out, and so on.  Don't be afraid to pop in at lunch to surprise him with a home cooked meal.  This will give you extra time with him, make him feel special, and also thwart plans if he's trying to cheat.  Also, see if there are people that are with him often, that you feel you could get an honest answer from.  But honestly, I think asking him first, in a very soft and subtle tone, is your best bet.  But remember, never ask a question you can't handle any answer too.  I don't mean don't get angry or mad, but make sure you're at a place with yourself that you can hear what he has to say to you, no matter what his answer is.  I wish you all the best, insecurities, whether real or not, always hurt.
1124108
It is obvious you are just trying to p i s s your husband off. Have fun with that.
268132
Oh gosh, I know this may seem awful (and believe me...I was going to kill him at the time). It was 2 years ago and my boy friend and I were exchanging gifts on our 2 year anniversary. I got him a nice watch and he handed me a box and some jewelry cleaner. Of course I got all excited and giddy because I knew there was an engagement ring in the box. I opened it and guess what...a 25 cent ring from a gumball machine was in there. I was sooooooo pissed! I said that's it? And he said "YEP!" Then I said, "this is not an engagement ring?" and he said "I'm not ready to get married yet!" I was so mad I was about to cry. He let me think like this for about 2 hours and then he saw me cry. He said "I CAN'T TAKE IT NO MORE!!! KELLY OPEN UP THE JEWELRY CLEANER!!" I did and there was the real ring. He then got down on one knee and said "I was trying to be romantic but I screwed things up, I love you and I am sorry, will you marry me?" I wanted to kill him then but now I laugh at it. We are getting married in May! :)
28473
It seems as if you need to clear things up with yourself first.  The only way to get someone to believe that you are ready for something beyond your comfort zone is to believe it yourself.  It seems as if you are scared of these certain things that are holding you back, but the only way your husband will see that you are confident about yourself and that you are not scared is to fix yourself first.  He will see what you bring foward...If this is really something that you want to be comfortable with but at the same time is a hard thing for you to do, sit him down, tell him you love him and that you don't want "this" to be the reason your marriage suffers...tell him you are willing to work on yourself and if there is something he can help you with to make you more comfortable, let him join in, that way he can see the progress.  If this is your husband you shouldn't feel the need to hide behind anything, he should be the only one to know you with no hidden masks.  Please, close your eyes, take a deep breath, and jump into life for you,,,everyone else will follow your lead!
587877
well looks like you have found your husbands true colours...  you know what to do!!He's scared you will find out more i think.. he using the money thing as a blackmail to stop you from digging deeper!!
827414
Be honest witn your boyfriend. It was very sweet of him to get you a promise ring, but accidents to happen. If he loves you, then he may be a little disappointed but it will be ok.\n\nMention to him that you found one just like it online and that you would like to get it. If he offers to get it for you, then let him. You can do something special for him in return. And if he's ok with the idea but doesn't offer to buy it for you, then go ahead and get it. \n\nHopefully it will eventually turn up somewhere. But if you try to secretly replace it and it turns up after that, you would have some explaining to do. - Just tell him what's going on.\n\nDo the two of you live together and use the same car? Could it have gotten lost at his place or in his car where you wouldn't have found it?
1127693
Ok, I think I understand your question.\n\nThat is not cool for you husband to joke around like that. ~ Not during your most intimate and private moments together.  It is possible, if that is the kind of sense of humor there is in your relationship, that he was innocently joking.  But, I sense that you don't feel that way and are confused and rather offended that he makes any such comments.  The humor in a joke often stems from the truth of it...  You really need to sit down and talk with your husband and lay out some quidelines and expectations for your marriage.  What I would do, is tell your manboy husband that this kind of "joking" is hurtful or bothersome to you and you would rather he did not talk like that.  You may want to look into some counseling in order to get an outside perspective and some support.  Be sure and give your husband all of the things you would want yourself in the relationship, such as Trust, Compassion, Respect, Honesty and of Course good ol' fashioned L O V E.
752265
Turn it around and tell him he obviously doesn't trust you, which means he doesn't care (feel love) for you.\nNow have HIM prove it if he doesn't agree!  ;-)
1045882
YEA, If not you may miss out on a beautiful thing !!!\n\nI seriously doubt that your telling him that would cause any problems only good
265394
You should come correct, Kara.  If I were you I wouldn't have intentionally deceived him in the first place because now he's always going to be like, "If she lied to me about that, what ELSE is she lying to me about?"  \n\nBut, have no fear...  If he's really that great of a guy, he will understand and accept you for who you are and what you do.  You just have to do everything you can to earn back whatever trust and confidence he had in you prior to this perpetuation of misinformation.  You also have to let him know that no matter what you do, you're going to save the good stuff for him.  =)  \n\nGood luck.