a poor cute guy or an ugly one with money?
479700
i'v been with both...and it all depends on the person inside...in my case even a person who may be considered ugly on the outside can become attractive if they are good on the inside and vise versa...
1122593
Poor - rich, ugly - beautiful, are concepts based on one's personal opinion. To some,$1000 would be considered rich, to others it might be pocket change. Some think Brad Pitt is attractive, I think he's ugly. I have been poor, rich, ugly, beautiful, stupid, intelligent, selfish, generous, kind, mean, dishonest, or a person of integrity,values, and principles etc., based on someone else's opinion of me. Whatever another thinks of me, it is what I think of myself that matters. As we all do, I have just as much right to enjoy my life as much as possible without harming others. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So there is probably someone for everyone, even you.
129294
the guy! honey, if the guy can't pay and have manners then he is not worth your time!
769254
I think that is shallow...picking between the two based on looks.... but who are you more attracted to. This is a personal preference decision. Who treats you the way you want to be treated...in ALL ways!
1151886
Why not looks with money or money with looks....\nOK.\nIf I have to choose, I will choose the one I love, \nbut if he is with money or not, if he is a good looking people or not, this doesn't matter at all.\nThere's nothing more important than love.\nBut imagine your self in bed with a ugly man, uuuuh this is terrible despite his money
853488
I'm into this guy I thought wasn't very attractive at first but let me tell you sweetie, it's what's INSIDE that counts. You don't need to worry about other people. Just realize you have a winner! If you think he's cute then he's cute. for the record, I think this guy i'm into is GORGEOUS! different than what I'm used to? definitly! but also cute! and you have to take that into consideration. one more thing.: women will talk themselves into thinking a guy is cute BECAUSE he treats them well. I've never seen them do it because he's rich, though. it's always been about him being a  good person. so maybe in time you will really fall for him.
490670
If at the beginning of the relationship the guy starts asking for money.  I can barely support myself, I don't need someone else asking for money!!
1145581
Well I would love to say that looks aren't an issue. In this day and age it is! There is too much importance put on looking like the perfect model or the perfect man. The money issue of it may not be as important. You can be happy with a poor man as long as you love one another whether he was extremely handsome or just so so. This is a kind of catch 22 question. \n\nMy personal feeling is if I met a poor man and we were attracted to one another I would definitely go for it, with him being handsome as a "plus". If I met a man who made a good living and he was a bit conceited or his personality just wasn't what it should be I would definitely not pursue that one, no matter how "cute" he was or kinda cute he was. As they say, money does not always bring you happiness!
287456
Wealth... who cares what I look like.. looks mean squat.. I rather have money than looks.
541591
first you have to ask yourself which of those two you enjoy spending time with...and with which do you get along with better. Also notice if you have any things in common, since that can help you make your decision.\n\nBut I could also say that depending which is cuter, but that's too shallow.
320637
if he's rich he has a girlfriend
280412
Check out the cool guy for a bit, if you still don't like him dump him. If you don't really like the ugly guy, just end it. Sweetness is no reason to hold on. If the hot guy doesn't like you, just move on. It sounds like your a stud and can get as dates. Keep look for the total package.
307970
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and no not every girl is preoccupied with money or beauty. Sometimes a person's personal traits will outweigh what they might lack in the looks department but I also feel that there has to be some degree of physical attraction between two people for it to go beyond just a platonic relationship. Perhaps one's  mind will appeal enough to overide that but that really depends on the situation and the individual. What is ugly to one might be beautiful to another. But may I ask what is the preoccupation with finding someone who won't base you on your looks when it is apparent that that is what your standards are based on?
952515
Kindness. Looks are only superficial. I don't think having a handsome yet abusive or stingy guy is a good thing.
290559
NEITHER! They both have more $$ than me!
1139071
Interesting question. I would pick...the boyfriend because he'd always be there for me no matter what, and it's really hard to find your dream boyfriend. Money wouldn't matter as long as he makes me happy.
369755
Hmm. Should I go with the "he's rich" side of my superficial personality, or be repulsed by the "he's fat" side of my superficiality?\n\nYou are very shallow and you will get everything you deserve.