how can a boy make his girlfriend happy when she is upset with her family matters?
475172
Listen and be there for her.
652914
Are they your children?  You need to sit her down and tell her what you are feeling!  If you love her and she loves you, then you can work on it. Most men just start yelling, and then we turn off to anything constructive. Tell her that you are lonely and you need more from her. Tell her what you want from her. Cheating would only cause more problems. If you are still unhappy, then make some major changes, but do it the right way. If the children are yours, you need to take that into consideration, and even if they aren't they will be greatly affected by your relationship with their mother. Children are very senitive to family problems. Talk to her about that too.  Good luck.
863106
Yikes! that sounds like a lot to deal with.. but if your gf loves you she'll help her family understand.. Just continue your relationship as you have in the past. As long as youre not abusing your gf her family will have no real reason to dislike you. If the love is there and strong enough you two will get through this.. just dont get mad at your gf for her mother.. she didnt get to choose her parents... Its too bad her mom doesnt see that you two love eachother! \n\nPS.. Kudos to you for surviving a long distance relationship. if you can survive that you can survive a mother
18931
Wow, tough problem. I think what I'd do is have a heart to heart with the girlfriend. Maybe she really does want him to be happy with you and maybe it's him that's holding out hope for a renewed relationship with her. If that's the case, she'll need to back off, but you need to find out if that's really the way it is or not first. Good luck. I feel for you.
1143302
U have to find a way to be intouch with her.If she doesnt have any personal contact no.u can email her,if that isnt possible either\nbe in touch with her via her friends or your friends. u both live in different cities,if u dont communicate the realtionship i am afraid wont last. The most important thing here is why are her parents not allowing her to be intouch with you,look into that problem first and find a solution.\nThe most important thing here is you should not be the one trying to find solutions alone.If she really loves u too as u do,she should\nalso make efforts. Both of you will have to help each other.\n\nThink and take action now,dont just think.miracles dont happen.\n\nhope this helps
192571
If she's very happy with her boyfriend, for the love of all humanity, DON"T TELL HER. You'll probrably make her confused, or you'll start to ruin their relationship, or you could make her feel bad if she doen't feel the same way about you. You have to think of her happiness as well as your own, so think before you say! But that's just my opinion.
351033
Well, you can aske her what she wants, something that will help her. Oh, and chocolate does help, unless she's allergic or something. Chocolate releases a chemical in the brain that makes you happy, that's why chocolate is really good!
201949
if she doesn't seem happy don't marry her. she should be happy without the gifts. you should be the one who makes her happy. you do many wonderful things, and it sounds like she isn't as in love as you. get out now before you really get hurt. (it will already hurt) and by the way, what is your phone number, you sound wonderful.
719512
It depends,I dont really care if they do or not, because as long as he makes you happy and your family does'nt like him then it should be up to you,its what you want,you want to be happy with him and your family should'nt get in the way of that happiness.
17164
Well, life moves on, and people handle loss and tragedy differently.  What may be too soon for you may not be for her.\n\nAs far as telling her about how people feel about her new boyfriend, just sit down and tell her straight out, honestly as you can, but gently and in a civil fashion.  You also should avoid things like "Mom thinks this, and Dad said such-and-such, and Uncle Bob thinks this...".  If you blab things others have said to or around you that they thought was in confidence, there will be lots of anger and hurt feelings to go around.
214989
have you told your boyfriend how you feel? maybe yu should and see what he says, or see if he will ask his parents and sister what they think of you. there has got to be  a reason, unles they are just really protective over their son?But i would go, dont let his family stop you from being with him.it is his family, they will always be a part of his life. good luck whatever you decide to do :)
607532
You can't control another person emotions or reaction - so don't try.  The best thing you can do is be honest and tell her as soon as possible.  It's not fair to her if you already know it's not going to work.\n\nBeside, how do you know she is going to cry?  Are you that great of a catch?  You might be surprised by her reaction, she might not even blink an eye, let alone cry - ESPECIALLY not in front of you.  Women are funny that way, they will put on a really strong front in front of you, then later that night let the emotions out, either alone or with her girlfriends.\n\nStand strong, be honest but not cruel, don't try to put blame on anything other then you do not have "Love" feelings for her.\n\nGood luck.
462755
one day when your around your family and she is leaving kiss her good bye on the mouth and go from there if she is who you want to be with dont let your familys opionion affect your decision if they love you they will support you and if they dont dont worry about it
589557
You're stuck, you have to hurt some feelings.  You have to tell the sensitive one that you are wrong for herk, do not love her and care for someone else.\n\nDo this early in the afternoon near her house so she can run inside crying.
804190
Just be supportive to her, and comfort her. Hold her, tell her how much you love her. Be nice, comforting, and supportive.
843616
Try to talk to them about it. If they can't be mature and give you a decent answer give them the flick. Why do you want to waste your time trying to make someone happy who is not making you happy?
1033975
How do you feel about it? Does it bother you that she is mean to him? If it does the best thing you can do is talk to her about it.  Tell her not to say a word to him.  There is a probability that she is jealous and mad at the fact that he chose you or the fact that you guys are together.  But one thing I can tell you is dont choose a man over family.  It is never worth it.......