if i have friend and that friend is mean to me i need to be her friend yes or no?
482629
NO, NO, and NO! Friends treat each other with respect, honesty, and trust. If she is disrespecting you, you don't need to be in that relationship. you deserve better!\n\nstop being friends with them and find yourself some new ones that will treat you right.
518170
First rule of thumb. Don't let people walk all over you or make you 2nd guess yourself. If you know that you did nothing wrong than I wouldnt let it bother you and maybe start looking for a new friend because it doesnt sound like she is much of a friend. If my real friends had a problem with me they would tell me what was going on and how they felt. And you have every reason to treat her as she treats you.
655474
tell her that u dont like her but u would like to be her friend dont be a f***en a$$
181252
First i think it was sweet of you to ask her to a sleep over and second I think it was very rude of her if she sked someone else without inviting you also. Maybe you should consult her on her actions. and tell her that your feeling were hurt and see what she says to you . Then you can find out if you think you want her for a true friend. Honey there are alot of other friends out there have your own sleep over with out her and see how she would react to that. .God Bless you.
655386
no she just wants to be ur friend...i guess.....
1032885
NO if they are doing that and she is trying to get ur rep messed up then why be with someone like that ....i can see that ur a loveing and careing person because u keep trying to forget about her bad side and look at the good ......but u need 2 think about if u did become friends again what would it be like and what would happen if u got in a big fight just like last time so think befor u do ! \nall luck 2 u \nxoxoxox
272791
Don't be mean.\nI think, treat her with respect whether you like her or not. If you don't like her, tell her you only want to be friends. If you do, then wat r u waiting for.
741643
INSTEAD OF TELLING HER TO LEAVE YOU ALNE, WHY DONT YOU TRY TO BECOME HER FRIEND? SHE MIGHT NEED ONE. JUST LIKE YOU NEEED SOME ONE TO GIVE YOU THIS ADVICE.
18085
Do not stoop to her level. It is sad that she betrayed you, but do you still call her a friend? Does she know how much she hurt you? Just remember you will have been the better person, Karma can be a drag sometimes so just know hers will be catching up with her at some point.
616925
Just tell her its a toxic friendship and you are tired of the way she treats you and that you don't think that your friendship is making you into the type of person you'd want to be. Be honest and either it will stop or you weren't meant to be freinds.
672009
It depends do you want her as a friend. If you do, you might just want to let sleeping dogs lie until she realises how wrong she was. No point in winning an argument and losing a friend.
890274
Yeah take her with - you loose out on nothing. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. If you really dont want to take her thiknk of a good excuse = otherwise you'll just be creating an enemy.
754047
Unless your friend is going through a really bad time at the moment it sounds like she is not a very good friend.\n\nThe crux of the matter is \na) do you treat anyone you consider a friend like this?  If you don't why tolorate it from someone else.\n\nb)  IF you stopped calling you wouldn't have a friendship.\n\nSpend the time you spend on her making some proper friends who will make an effort, call you back and show that they value you in their lives.
950857
She doesnt want to be on bad terms with you but also considers you to be the back up friend. It sucks. If you really wanted to stir the pot a bit you could make friends with her friend. Ha ha. Yes thats very 'high school' of me, but tempting isnt it?
850481
it looks as if she is very insecure, jealous of you, your clothes, etc. or just plain mean.  figures you will put up with her behavior, attitude, comments.  You don't need a friend like that.  If you have already tried talking to her, she doesn't listen, you've done your part.  Good luck.
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
280936
if u dont want a friend anymore thn plz tell her directly..... dont hurt her from ur any sort of rude behavior..... remember its always good whn any relationship ends peacefully....... u took her as ur frd once so just be direct n tell her wht u feel...