I want to married my g/f !! I like her very much... (I also a girl)But she can't interesting...Then?
491212
whats should be more serious for you is to get an education, go to school and learn to spell, speak properly so you can get a decent job and earn some decent money and get a decent home then maybe your g/f will come to admire you, and then and only then you can get serious
830576
Haven't thought of marriage yet but the girl I'm with is the girl of my dreams
521668
You want to marry the FANTASY of her.  You don't know enough of the real her.  She poops, farts and wakes up with morning breath.  Marriage is hard enough when you know what you're getting into, much less when you're living in a fantasy land that probably has very little basis in reality.
185148
It sounds like it could be love to me...\nIn my experience love is always enduring.  There's been girls I've felt incredible about and had a great time with, but it wears off anywhere between 6 weeks and 6 months.  Of course everyone is different, and I don't know how long you've been dating, but if you still feel this way after 10 or 12 months I'd say it's most likely love.  You'll be able to look past all of her weird little issues and accept them and love her anyway, and you won't be able to imagine life without her.\nIf you've been dating her less than 4-5 months, then it's still possible that this feeling could wear-off.  I know I wouldn't feel right planning on marriage before having known her at least 1 year.  A lot can develop/change in the first year, for better or for worse.  Good Luck!
345021
Well it is usually the other way around but the advice is the same. You need to express the fact that although the sex is great you long for a more meaningful relationship. Try to avoid using "you" phrases, ie You never want to talk. Instead focus on what you feel "I would like to talk about (insert topic here)" If this doesn't work or she slips back into old habits of never talking you might be dealing with someone that just isn't into talking, a more physical person. If that is the case then you have to ask yourself if you are willing to put up with it or not. The other possibility and not to be mean is that she might not find you all that interesting. I doubt that is the case since you want to talk more but it could be that she just isn't into the same things you are and therefor doesn't have much to talk to you about.
608015
Hey man, relax.\nFirst thing you can do is to trust her words: She said she wants to marry you. Then accept it.\n\nDon't worry too much. There is still time to talk about her attitude (accusing, do things that make you mad). Both of you should agree to change your attitudes to a level that is acceptable and comfortable with both of you. Otherwise, your relationship will always be on the rocks.\n\nTry to meet in the middle. and try to compromise for the good of you both.\n\nTrue love understands and cares. It is gentle, not rude, it does not boast, it keeps no record of wrongs.\n\nAll the best.
903608
Seems like you really love this girl. Well a lot of people get married and talk about working and going to school at the same time, but you have to remember that if you do that, you have to have time for her too because what's the whole point of getting married with her if your not going to give her attention. If your planning in going to school first, why not go to school for 2-3 years first then get married and you could finish your carreer too. You should talk to her first about your feeling and tell her you really do love her and you want to marry her, but also tell her you want to finish your carreer to give her and you a better life. Talk with her you'd be surprised what she may tell you. Good luck. Hey if it helps. I've been married for a little over a year and my husband is so good with me that he lets me work and go to school at the same time because it makes me happy. I still have four more years to go and he helps me out a lot that make me appreciate my husband, but then I do help him a lot too in anything. So hope every thing goes great.
495222
YO, MAN THANKS FOR UR INPUT, BUT LIKE U SAID, JUST TALK  2 HER AND SEE HOW IT GOES, G2G HIT ME UP L8TR AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES.
834373
Don't care too much, leave her and do some other works/things those are more important for you. You are man, guy! World is not as little as you've known. You will find other girl as your girlfriend. Take a chance to get highest carrier that could you get. The girl will come later on.\n\nTake care.
264066
you can't go any further than that pal. She gave you her answer, and if you really love the girl then you should be thankful to have the honor of continuing to be her friend. There's always more than one right person for each of us. And also feel lucky as well that she was woman enough to be honest with you by telling you she doesn't feel anything when so many other women say the nice thing thinking "they're not hurting your feelings" by telling you something that may not be entirely true. That was very cool on her part to do that. She sounds to me like a very good friend worth keeping even if you can't have her as your bride.
116347
if you and your gf are close,,,ask her for help.ask her desires and how you should or can fulfill them.what she likes,what she doesn't like.be open to her to be open with you.have no fear.
424617
Well it all depends on what it is you want to talk to her about. Give us more details. One thing that won't fail, make sure she is happy, ex. give her a gift, then break the news. She might be mad (if you did something wrong) but she will get over it when she sees her gift. Seriously though, just tell her what you want to tell her. She is your gf for a reason. I'm sure she will understand whatever it is you have to say
253023
well your relationship sounds exactly like mine.  the thing with me is my gf trys to spice it up every way she can but i am most happy with it being simple and because we love each other. I dont know if this will help but Good lUck to you
142905
Wait until you're out of school. If it's meant to be, it will happen. Are you worried someone else will grab her up? I'm just wondering why you want to marry her now given your circumstances. If it's just so you'll know she's yours, then wait. You're not ready. Good luck.
546642
It's all in how you feel about it deep inside.  Do you have the option of meeting her before marrying her?  If so, meet with her and then see how you feel.
1018749
Ok here goes i am gonna talk here for a while so i hope i dont bore you lol. Romance her and spoil her rotten ... Treat her like a queen. Make sure you let her know and feel how special she is to you every day and how sexy and pretty she is! Love her in actions and deed and tell her how much you love and treasure her and that she means everything to you and that you are so glad to have her in your life as she makes you really happy! Hold hands and spend lots of time together with her. Buy her little gifts here and there just because and cards too! Buy her a special pretty necklace! Take her to dinner at a romantic resturant like the Olive Garden or something like that! You do this enough it will become and habit and a way of life for you! The secret is to treat her the way you want to be treated and love and cherish her for who she is! Always find ways to make her feel special and call her throughout the day too just to say hi and that you are thinking of her and that you love her! Also be a good listener and communicate with her. Always be honest and faitful and never hide things from her and be committed no matter what.... If you do this trust me it will work and she will be yours forever!
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!