what  can i do or say whan my boyfriend say aaoohh like he want to sleep when we r talking by phone?
485396
hey i think dat is not a big problem. u can understand that he may be tired or busy. so just give him some time and hope and have faith in ur love!\n\nhope all gets wel soon!take care and be patient and dont loose ur love! cheers and god bless!
1125268
YES!!! DEFINATELY!!! If he's not calling u then y'all 2 need 2 talk and if he don't wanna talk then do exactly as i say: (say this straight in his face and look deep down into his eyes) u need to tell him that his shit is pissing u off and that he needs 2 start calling u at LEAST 2 times a week cuz u can't take it anymore worrying if he's ok or not. My bf is exactly like yours and this got through to him. He calls me every single day and i'm lovin it!! Any how tell him EXACTLY how u feel. If he's not a jerk and if he cares about u like he says he does then he should listen and he'll start doing what u want him 2 do.
1122509
tat is wat happens to me all the time my boyfriend tells me when to call then I do but he never answers so i think u should call her make her feel better becuase i can never get ahold of my boyfriend and i makes me feel bad because he thinks i dont care but i love him so much so pick up the phone and call  and suprise her  she will be happy with that.\n\nbest of wishes:\ntina
1001064
You might be able to tell if he doesn't call you as often or if he sounds strange on the phone, especially when you ask him how his day was. Good luck and try to trust him.
361358
I'm bad on the phone too. We just leave the phone for when we make plans, and have actual conversations face to face. If you're in a long distance relationship and need to communicate this way, talk about your day and then use the events to spark up conversations on your thoughts about certain topics.
489512
ask him to whisper to your boyfriend what he said then you don't have to tell your boyfriend yourself
916114
Tell him you will text him new messages when he starts talking and listening to what you have to say and want to talk about.  I would have told him to shut up long ago.  If he is selfish enough not to even listen to you in that way I wouldn't listen to him either until he does.  He obviously doesn't have the same respect for you that you give him and if I were you I would demand it.  GL
107016
ask him about his day and see if he is reluctant to answer, if he does not answer his phone often it is a bad sign, if he cares less it's bad, and talk to his friends, not asking direct questions, check his mobile phone if you can and see if there are any sms from strangers that are suspicious...
261587
have you try to connect with him? sms & emails? if so maybe he's busy or maybe he thinking that your relationship have end...anyway you must have a conversation with him to know how he thinking
763800
I don't think you love him...not yet, especially if you and he can't have a conversation over the phone yet.  A lot of guys don't like the phone, and they aren't like girls who can just sit around talking about things.  Don't call him unless you actually have something to say to him...whether it be, "hey, come over for a while", or "what do you want to do this weekend"...don't just call and make "what did you do today" the whole conversation.  Maybe what he is doing isn't even worth mentioning...in his eyes anyway.  It seems to me that you need someone that can stimulate conversation, and in this relationship that's going to have to be you.  Ask him direct questions and you will get direct answers.
894691
If you're too scared to ask in person/on the phone, just simply text him "Yea u wanna do something 2night?"  And carry on from there, easy as that!
150756
Well it's not official over until one or the other says so. my advice would be to try to save your relationship while you can. It also seems to me that you guys are playing that "since I'm too busy to call you game. I don't have time to call you either". Don't play that game give him a call if you feel he's too busy. Try letting him know how you are feeling right now. Don't let it just pass by like that you need to let him know because he's not a mind reader and neither are you so talk to the guy and find out what's really going on.
142876
I think you're right, it's all about him and that's not fair to you.  Not sure what to think about him having an anxiety attack while on the phone with you, sounds kinda weak and shows that he's not very capable of coping.  Go get you someone with a spine.  Don't beat yourself up too much either, it sucks and it's all screwed up, but sometimes ya gotta do what ya gotta do.  So, hope for the best but prepare for the worst.  Good luck.
283536
I was in a relationship like that. HE only lived an hour away. BUt we were on the phone all the time, and every chance we had we were together.Now we are married. Sounds to me that your guy might not be ready for what you want. Tell him how you feel about him not calling or blowing plans off. Maybe he will take your feelings into consideration or he his just telling you what he thinks you want to hear.
318539
haha .. this is funny because before i got with my bf we were good friends ... we flirted back and forth all the time... and well we got talking on the phone a lot and after i had knew him for a while i had mad fehone i for him.. one night when we were on the phone i was falling half asleep.. i told him that i loved him! and then i heard myself and thought "did i just tell him what i think i did?" and i didnt want to bear the embarrasement so i just pretended to stay asleep... the next day he asked me if i rem what i said on the phone ... i was like "naw ..what'd i say?" he told me ... an i was still embarrassed so i just told him i was kidding... but a couple days later i confessed and told the truth about how i truely felt about him... now we have been together for 2 1/2 yrs and still going strong =D
210319
you really need to be careful. remember that is his friend. you don't want to break up his friendship and your relationship. i think deep down you probably feel at least SOMETHING for him, but u r in denial. he probably likes you 2. or it could be that he was bored. i call everybody and their grandma when i am bored. maybe you should ask him. also, u need to tell your boyfriend to step up his game. plus, if he didn't pick up the phone anything could have happened. i know if a guy is callin me that early....i will not wake up. also, u needs to always have a plan B.<<<<take that the way u want to interpret it.
651756
hmmm..the next time you guys are on the phone together, bring this topic up to him...just see what he thinks about it...from the sounds of it..you guys should let up on each other a lil bit..ya know give each other some air just to see what happens.....and if ya dont wanna do that...well maybe you guys arent ment tobe..it wouldnt hurt to try!!