What can I do to make myself more desirible to women??
478488
Simply put - self confidence.  And don't be afraid to talk to women.  I don't know how many times I will see a guy look at me (By that, I mean LOOK), but won't say anything.  A lot of women are shy, or were taught that they should not approach a guy - to let him approach you.  (My mother taught that a girl should never call a guy first, or approach him.)  I wish that when guys noticed a girl, they would just come up to us and say something (aside from a lame pickup line).  \n\nOh yeah - and you should talk to whoever you feel a connection with.  If you catch someone looking at you, and they kind of grin and look away, go talk to her!
46339
FIRST OF ALL, DRESS NICE WITH CLEAN CLOTHS. KEEP HAIR CLEAN AND TEETH BRUSHED. LAST AND MOST IMPORTANT. ATTITUDE. IF YOUR OUT GOING CONFIDENT AND NICE YOU WILL CATCH THEY EYE OF THE OPPISITE SEX.  I USE TO BE REALLY SHY AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO GIRLS AND HAD FEW GIRLFRIENDS. THEN ONE DAY I GOT FED UP AND DISNT CARE IF I LOOKED LIKE A JERK ANYMORE AND I STARTED TREATING GIRLS JUST LIKE I WOULD TREAT MY NORMAL GUY FRIENDS AND BAMM. NEXT THING I KNEW I NEVER HAD GIRL PROBLEMS AGAIN. SO CONFIDENCE HAS TO BE THE MAIN THING. DONT BE AFRAID TO WALK BY A GIRL YOU LIKE AND SAY "HEY I LIKE THAT SHIRT IT LOOKS COOL" THEN WALK AWAY IT JUST MIGHT SPARK UP A CONVERSATION BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU
504104
You need more confidence; just remember that while looks get the first glance, for selecting a partner most women are much less visually oriented than most men are. Stereotype, but I think true. So, think about that to boost your confidence.\n\nThen, just start getting yourself in situations where you will interact with women.  Book clubs, Toastmasters (that will also help your shyness bigtime) Church groups if you are religious, parties, etc.  In this day and age, just approaching random people you meet in public has a low probabilty of success since people tend to be more guarded (but it can work, and might be good practice; ain't like you will ever see them again!)\n\nSkinny?  I was very skinny for a long time. Always teased in HS. during college I lifted weights.  After college I took up martial arts.  Stayed thin, but I was ripped. . . now, at my HS reunions, I am reasonably well filled out now but still thin. (I will never be a muscle monster; just don't have the genetics) and most of my HS compatriots are FAT!  HAHAHAHA! \n\nAnyway, it is more attitude than anything.  By the end of high school I didn't care I was skinny anymore.  That made a big difference.\n\nAs for you being attracted to almost every girl you see, I am guessing you are in late JHS, HS or college.  That is normal. Don't worry.  By the time you are about 25, you will be able to interact with women without **constantly** thinking of them sexually, and by 35 you can do it half the time you are talking to them. Sometimes being a man sucks.
837134
So what have you got to offer a lady? Are you smart? If ot, try reading (and don't move your lips while you do it). Are you good looking? If not, see about getting a make-over and remember to make the most of what you have. Are you fun? \n\nWork on making yourself the kind of guy women crave and you'll have to beat them off with a stick.
592706
You need to gain confidence in yourself, for one. Learn to be alone, and not lonely. If you can appreciate yourself as company, others will as well. Go places where you will meet people with similar interests, and you'll meet women who will be interested in you.
151975
you do not need to stand out with this. The right person will come along. Go out and fun with freinds, enteract with the crowd. Keep your head up and show some confindence in yourself. The only way people or women are going to know that you might be a nice guy is to speak to them, just be nice. Do not be a push over, you will get walked on. Enjoy your life!!!!!!!!!!!! If a women find you interesting she will approach you.
402909
It's all about self-confidence, not what others tell you.  Don't think your hot because other people tell you, think it because you know it. (but not too much so, vanity is only good in small doses.)  work your way back into hitting on girls, go to a new bar and find girls that your not "really" interested in, and just try different approaches (don't go in looking for sex, but looking to find out how to be confident in your mannerisms), get comfortable talking to new girls, and then try on someone you actually like, and maybe good things will happen.  Eyes are the key, a woman's eyes will tell you everything.
97283
The way to start dating is getting your self in the right frame of mind and haveing a desire to go out and have fun. Where is totally up to you, I personally do not go to bars or parties. I usually meet women in some the strangest places when I am not looking. Just be yourself and get out there (women don't like fakes). Try stores, museums, anyplace a women would go by herself or with girlfriends. Above all do not become deperate or obnoxious. Women deserve to be treated well.
24314
demonstrate that many other women want you, be a leader, show that you get all the sex you already want, demonstrate higher value\n\nansw3r3r
24662
1st if you don't like that woman why you made Relation with her ! \nanyhow If you are handsome Realy girls will come to you by them selfs , you have to be Nice charactor fistly and doing well with girls then girls will come to you , and you have to choose , \ngood luck ;)
110453
Please do me the favor, look in the mirror and remember that you are a man. You see women like MEN, cool confident and in charge (of themselves and there enviroment). If you think you are going to get rejected then guess what buddy. Look I am not telling you to imagine your self a pimp but trust me self cofidence goes long way. Don't get too cocky, or corny. Invite her for a cup of coffee make her laugh but dont make a fool of your self. O Yeah when at the coffee shop ask her for her email, WHEN she is writing it tell her put her cell phone there to.
1049422
Dress to kill, not slutty, but sexy and stunning.  Then, smile a lot and make sure your eyes flash.  Also, if you can get other guys to pay attention to you, even if all they do is look, that doesn't hurt either.  Plus, don't play dumb.  Be intelligent, most men that are worth anything like real women.
530718
Perhaps your personality is not all that outgoing and you lack the social skills to get or maintain conversation.  Join something that you have to interact with other people and do other things to ease into the swing of things.  \nYour looks are the book cover, you want women to stop and read the rest of your book.
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Mr. Nobody.....\n\nFirst of all, your name suggest a feeling of facelessness....so what I think you need is some confidence.  Believe me dude, you are not faceless.  In fact, hold your face up and look forward.  There is definitely a chick for you out there, as long as you find your groove and ride it out to some lovin'.\n\nSo confidence is number one, tied with having a quality attitude.  Now, people tell you that...but they don't tell you the flip side, which is being turned down.  It will happen, so learn to suck it up, TAKE MENTAL NOTES (very crucial) on what worked and didn't work, and keep truckin'.  Love, like anything else good, never comes easy.\n\nTwo, is finding girls with similar interests as you.  Having things in common is the number one way to maintain a long lasting relationship.  \n\nLet's say you like.....collecting exotic candy from Guam.  You know you have a convention coming up, or weekly get-togethers at TGI Fridays.  Take advantage.  Check out those chicks, because some of them might be hotter than Jennifer Lopez eating homegrown habeneros in the Sahara.  Or at least pretty.  In any case, use your hobby or your job as tools in your search.  Join a club, or actually go out somewhere these things you like are applicable.  You like to paint or history, go to a museum or take an art class.  You like comics, go to a convention.  You like cars....hit up the car show chicks.  Etc, etc, etc.\n\nOne note - do not go to the club or bar on Saturady night and think you will come away with the woman of your dreams.  \n\nThere are more things I could tell you, be this should get you jump started.  Make sure you're clean, breathe is fresh, hair looks decent.......check your clothes and make sure they are at least clean and they reflect how cool you are, or can be.  Don't be a poseur.  \n\nOh...when you are actually talking to someone who might be interested.....speak up and look into her eyes.  Have your spit together.\n\nGood Luck, buddy.
811916
You need a self confidence make over, my friend.  Unfortunately the less confidence you have with women the more they will reject you. They are like rabid dogs. They smell fear a mile away and will track you down in packs - swarm in for the kill.  I think step one for you is getting over past rejection. It is in the past - it's done.  Throw it in the garbage and don't think of it again. Don't use it as mental fodder to beat yourself up.  If you don't like you - chances are others won't like you much either.  Have you examined looking for women in different places?  I don't know where you have contact with them but if you are trying to pick up stuck up chicks in bars you are going to get a lot of rejection.  Keep in mind that hot women are overrated.  They are people too - but you have put them on this huge pedestal.  Once you get a girl you'll go "All that for this?"  The fact that you have women on the brain 24/7 is part of the problem.  The moment you stop caring about what they think of you is when some bubblicious honey will strut right into your life. Good luck.  Keep your chin up with the babes.
964871
Well if you are at a club or bar or place like that with a social atmosphere, approach her and say "Hi, I kept noticing how beautiful you are and I finally got the guts to come over here and introduce myself" A guy said that to me and it totally worked..good luck!
333137
tough one. try not to look desperate. if there are a group of women together try talking to all the women friendly and not just the one you want to meet. crack some jokes, relax and most of all don't give up.\n\nRejection is normal, do not take it personal.