my freind bobby is gay should I still hang out with him. His name is Bobby Hardin?
477244
Gay? He still a human and he need friend ( s ) to support him and maybe u can be his miracle and make he change his sexuality ( gay to str8 )... hehehe... just a friend!
82250
If you would even consider this then you are not a friend. Someones sexual proclivities shouldn't matter to you, especially in a friendship. Would your friend leave you because you are not gay?
398802
baby, you're now just a friend to him. kool to hang with but nothing else. give him up.
1134106
Calling your male friend boyfriend is gay if you are a male, so is friend unless you are defending them. Homey is more appropriate, so is Potna.
563851
Let me understand this...he is your "friend" and you don't know his last name? Huh? I know all of my friends last names! I think you should forget this so-called friend.
146173
rather than get all tongue-tied asking him on a date,why not work on a friendship first? tell him you're bored and ask him if he'd like to go somewhere with you just for something to do.let him know that if he follows you to another part of the state it'd be great going knowing you're not completely friendless to start a new chapter in your lives.it'll be alot less scarry for you both.start there and keep working on staying friends and being casual until you get over the shyness or he does.somewhere along the line somethings gonna happen to show you whether you're wasting your time or not.if it turns out he's gay at least you'll have a friend to lean on in a strange place.
82691
Yeah, he's worth being friends with. Put yourself in his shoes - who would you pay more attention to, her or him? I'm assuming you're a guy here.
932113
Well, first you need to make sure you're not advancing on someone who is against gays.  If you get the vibe that he'll crack you in the head for standing too close ... I would move along.\n\nBut, if you've known this person for a while and feel that you both have a connection, then I would ask him to hang-out sometime.  Maybe grab some pizza or hang out at the mall.   Go back to your place and "study" or whatever.  Find out who he is and if he is interested in you as a friend or something more.
677277
Things are cut and dry.  You are gay, and he is straight.  He probably is just comfortable around you and enjoys your company.  That doesn't mean that he wants to be anything other than friends with you.  If he asks why yer still single, he just probably thinks yer a good guy and deserves to be with another good guy, but no necessarily him.  Keep being his friend, but dont think or hope for more.  If he really is gay, and decides to come out, Im sure you'll be the first to know, but until then... Just realize that he is STRAIGHT.
51615
PLEASE! For the sake of embarrassment, DON'T ASK HIM!! If he's still in the closet, he'll only get angry, and you'll lose any chance of ever finding out. Instead of asking him, just put yourself out there if you are comfortable with your bisexuality. Do you have any close friends at work who may be friends with him also? They may be able to find out in some mysterious way. My best friend is a gay male, and he just recently came out over the summer of 2005. He's going through the same thing right now. It's tough, but hang in there. You just need to build your confidence, and the rest will come! Best of luck!
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I have told friends personal info over the years.  Nothing like "I was rapped as a small boy" type things.  More along the lines of "wow your mom is banging dude!"  They took it pretty well, and after a few days the swelling on my face went down, so everyone was happy :)  Hope that helped you.  But if you are looking into something like "I'm gay" just go ahead and tell them.  What's the worst that can happen?  He won't like you anymore?  Well, if he is a homophobic and you are gay, well them he wasn't a good friend anyway and you are better off without him.  Have I helped yet?  I hope so.
982033
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
121226
He may be gay. Have you given that any thought?\nOr his life goals could be taking another direction and he may be truly not ready for a relationship,Respect that and dont force the issue.It takes a lot of self control to sacrifice basic drives and instincts for a high&#92;er purpose.If you force the issue and he gives in he may end up resenting that down the line.Stay close tell him you support and respect his determination and see if he will be willing to be your friend at this point and let fate lead .
135265
Just tell him if you like me can we go out. Then say if you say no then I wont be mad. Can we still be friends.
802096
If maces is really your friend and you want to continue being friends with him although he is gay then you should let him know that whatever he does with his personal life is not your business and that you will continue to be his friend.\nIf you don't want him to 'hit on' you in that way, let him know as well.\nIf however, you feel that you cannot under any circumstances continue being friends with Maces then you should part with him amicably and move on!
399879
you're not talking about gaysh*t, aren't you? cuz with that (boy) word right there? you could've used buddy or something..\n\nbut if not, yeah sure why not.. it depends.. if you just wanna flirt, then go ahead, but that still depends too if your buddy knows about it.. and if everybody's fine with it including the girl.. go!!
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Yes, I have several gay friends, a few lesbian friends, and a couple of bisexual friends. Even though I'm straight, I get along great with them! \n\nSo, why do you ask?\nOhhh thanks for answering. I was thinking we were all going to get bashed for having gay friends. ;0)