i have a close friend and i really like him.but im afraid i may be in love with him.pls help me!!!?
486489
Love is two-way traffic, anything else is not love.\n\nInfatuation, lust, temptation, a crush - maybe these but not love (yet).
178852
dear just tell him that u have strong feelings for him i m sure he is also in love with u he just afraid to tell this.. plz encourage him all the best dear ur nearest to get ur love take care
16529
well search your heart and find out if you love him or you want to get down with him.  its very goood to clear things out of you or you will hate your self if you don't express your self or you will blow up. but if you love him then this is a way to tell him:\n"i really like you and you have been such an inspiration to me.i don't know if you feel the same way and i hope what i am about to say dosen't ruin our friendship because i like being your friend. i don't know how to put this i find you very attractive and i think i begining to fall in love with you." what about that. sorry i could not help much
258308
Ok, my b/f/f is a boy. About 3 years ago, I had the same feeling. I thought of him as more than my friend. I thought that is I told him, that it would ruin our chance as b/f g/f and friends so I decided not to do anything about it. About a month or so afterwards, my other friend came up to me and said that he liked me too. So, I decided to talk to him bout us and we came to find out that we both liked each other as more then friends. So, there could be something there for you. Don't be afraid like I was to make the first move. He could be ur soulmate. So, go 4 it! Good luck! :)
135120
We have to go for love.  That's the way humans are made.  If this man doesn't love you now, it doesn't mean that he never will.  Obviously he feels something for you since he spends time being with you.....give it some time and you'll know.  \n\nThe friend that cares about you but you only like as a friend - why not just keep him as a friend until such time as you are committed to someone else, at least.
794142
I would ask her if she is seriuos about him but let her know that she can not keep playing with your heart. Let her know that is exactly what she is doing and that you can make her happy and just to give you a chance. she already admitted that she has feelings for you so i just think that she is getting nervous about being with you and possibly ruining your excellent friendship. I would talk to her and let her know what it is doing to you. good luck!
129756
Well, do you have any special feelings for him? If so, then why not give it a shot. But think about the consequences if the relationship doesnt work out. You would be risking a very important friendship. So think about it and talk to him about it, its best that he knows how you feel about dating him. So, good luck.
801003
There's a very fine line between love and friendship.  If you're going to tell him, you have to be sure that's what you want.  You've got to decide what you value more, your friendship or your feelings for him.  \nIf you really do like him, then I say go for it. Its better to try and fail than to never try and regret it.  Even if he doesn't feel the same about you, what do you have to lose?    Hope that helps and good luck.
476200
i understand where you're coming from because i am sort of going through the same thing. he gives signs that he may feel the same way i do but i want to know for sure. i'm afraid to ask him because if he does'nt feel the same way things may get ackward between us and i dont want that. i think that you should give little signs that you like him so that way if he likes you and realizes you feel the same way you can take things to the next level.
120595
You dont think you like him? Sounds like you might like him. But if you are sure you dont, just tell him you would feel more comfortable if you two just remanined friends.
848896
Go back and tell him the truth. If he's a true friend he'll listen. Let him know you were afraid at first because if he doesn't feel the same you still want to try to have a friendly relationship.
549871
Try to see how he feels about you and make sure you really like him enough to risk the friendship to try to be with him. Do what you feel you have to do. Which is more important to you: the friendship or the love that could come?
225377
well, i think that you should become friends and get closer to him. Then maybe he will have to same feeling for you
273455
I would think very much because you never know what might happen. It might go all wrong and you might not be friends again or it could go very well. Take your time to think. Just tell him that you just don't want to go out with him and that you don't love him but you like him as a great friend.
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I've had this situation 4 months ago. We've just talked about it.. I frankly said, that i don't love him. He offered me to be friends. So we are very good friends right now. But I feel that i'm more than just a freind for him...Sometimes i think that it would be nice if we were together but can't do it right now, 'cause i broke up with my ex-bf yesterday. And i don't want to lose my friend.. It's up to a person :)
56839
From my point of view, first ask yourself why you are in love of this guy, and then take a second look to your strategy to approach him. Not all that is shinny is gold. Maybe he is not the right one for you, so you must continue your life and be more careful to the person you will give your attention, love, and care.
616689
You want to know so you can what?  If you dont have love feelings for him like "that" why bother trying to find out?  Surely you wouldn't want to try to get involved in a relationship just because he may be in love with you.  If you dont feel the same, don't TRY to feel the same.  Keep it real.