why i feel sad when he ask to sleep at offce ?
489299
You're feeling sad because he is neglecting you and not meeting your needs for love. If he wants to be in a relationship with you then he needs to make a commitment. He can't sleep in the office because he needs to balance his work and family life. You need to talk to him and tell him that you are not happy about it. If he doesn't care, then do the "tough love" thing. A relationship goes both ways. He looks out for your needs, you look out for his needs.
995797
I think you need to let sleeping dogs lie cause he sounds confusing and confusing leads stress, stress leads to pain and pain leads to heartache so move on and find someone else cause he's playing you.
629105
You shouldn't feel that bad, it's not like you killed him. Everyone is going to make someone they care about cry at one point, it probably happens in our lives more than we notice. You could just treat him. I'm not sure how old you are but some ideas are you could take him out and buy him something really special or you could do something like buy him a card that says I care about you (or something like that) and buy him his favorite candy... Like I said it happens all the time it's a natural part of life, and he probably realizes that. That's why he is telling you to let it go. Good luck.
467173
Why are you so sad? If this is from a relationship then you have to realize that all of them will work the way we would like, if due to something else and the sadness doesn't go away then you need to seek help//////////////
1097243
no, i'm very sad for you.  why do you feel this way? \n      \nyou should know that.....\n\n\nGod loves you very , very , much.
323711
Even though you know it is the only way for happiness, you feel guilty due to regret.  You regret that things had to end, that there was no happily ever after, that things didn't work out and for love lost.  This is all normal so please don't beat yourself up over it.\n\nThe guilt will pass in time.  I wish you my best and hope you find the happiness you want and deserve!
690074
You might want to really think about this when the situation isn't right in front of you, kind of like you're doing now.\n\nThere is a lot of room for variation in "I don't feel like having sex".  Are you feeling like you don't really feel like it much, or are you feeling like you REALLY don't want to have sex, that it would be a miserable experience for you?  \n\nIf it's a matter of not being in full mood, maybe he could be the more active partner and you can be more passive.  I don't think that anyone should have sex against their will, but sometimes I used to say no and it wouldn't have really been a big deal to say "yes" either.  Guys don't always need to have extended sexual contact and this kind of time would be a chance for him to sort of have an express lane sort of experience and then go to sleep.\nIt's possible you could become more interested in more extended lovemaking, or maybe you won't.  Who knows?\n\nIf you REALLY don't want to have sex, perhaps you could make a date with him to have sex the next day or in the morning or later that night or...\nwell, you get the idea.\n\nYou could even tell him why you don't feel like having sex--too tired, too worried, whatever.  My experience is that my guy doesn't really want to hear about it and he backs off.\n\nIt's too bad people's moods don't line up better sometimes!
628179
Because that is a part of life. Don't worry it will get better but after a break unless you aren't a feeling person at all you are going to feel bad!! I remember how it was it sucks! But there will be more guys and hopefully better guys that will treat you better!!  Sorry girl if you need to talk email me at jreneeh251981@yahoo.com
562867
I THINK THAT HE MAY BE FEELING THE SAME WAY AND BECUZ HES NOT SURE HOW U FEEL  HE DOESNT WANT TO FEEL STUPID BECUZ ITS BEEN SO LONG I WULD SUGGEST THAT U ASK FOR HIS # NEXT TIME AND GIVE HIM A CALL MEN ARE STUPID AND THEY THINK LIKE THAT SO DONT FRET HE FEELS THE SAME THATS WHY HES TRYIN TO AVOID LOKIN AT U
324387
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
1010924
So it is ok when you are tired and not interested, but not ok when he is tired and not interested?\n\nMaybe there is something going on here that isn't about you and your needs...
852844
You need to talk to him. It could be that he's just nervous about the future and doesn't realize that you're feeling this way. The only way to find out is by asking him.
379384
yes, because you will start to want to feel that way and he isn't doing it for you. you wont be happy and you will either leave ir cheat or be miserable. not fair to either of you.
562619
I totally understand you,I also felt like that too.But,someone has to break the silence and stand up too their feelings.Life is too short to wait,I say go up to this guy and ask if he would like to go for a walk with you sometime.Good luck.
1130964
Dont feel bad especially when he says not to worry about it. I have the exact same problem, but see my BF dont care. It's not like i can help it, and he acknowledges that fact. Were human its a natural bodily function. I have however  found myself to drool more when im extremely tired. Mabey all's you need is a nice long nap.
1081815
Okay, not so sure what you're asking.  But feeling "sad" is a lot different from "depressed." You're definitely depressed, because you feel sad ALL THE TIME.  Sleeping a lot is another definite sign of clinical depression.  You need to get some help, it is not your fault, you aren't being selfish, it's just a chemical imbalance or something in your brain that meds can fix.
1069495
Because when a man's senses are dulled by sleep then his inhibitions drop considerably and he's more likely to let that deep seeded inner self be expressed. It's a complete opposite of the typical male role to be the strong one and not show emotions so easily. Take advantage of it ... lol.