I am 47 and have been married 6 months-is it normal to only have sex once a week?
485917
It depends on the man and woman involved.  I have been married three years and it is not that often.  There are medical reason and I will always support my hubby
607541
I'm assuming you mean that sex isn't as much a part of your relationship as it used to be? That's the way it goes with relationships, at first you can't keep your hands off each other, but after a few months that calms down. The only way to keep that "new love" frequency it to get a new love every 4-6 months. Your alternative is to stick with the love you have now, and be happy that your relationship is morphing into something more substantial than mere physical desire.
1065216
You are a lucky man. If you were married to me,  we would only be having sex 4 times a month. LOL
915072
Maybe he is having problems preforming and he is insecure about it. I am 20 and my husband is 34 and we have been together for 2 years. Sometimes you still love each other and you still find one another attractive, but you just need a break from the sexual part of the relationship. Are you feeling pressure from the idea of marriage? Are you both stressed out in any way more than usual, maybe from planning a wedding? It all factors in, as long as you still love each other, it's OK. Sex isn't everything.
489372
Gosh, I don't know if it ever gets boring or not.  I'll have to wait to find out.  I've only been married for 33 years, and each time it is different, with the same woman no less.  Sure, we don't do it twice nightly anymore, but I still am in the tries nightly stage.  Marriage is not something that you back out of if things get difficult.  You have to work on it all of the time.  I find that going out on dates and seducing my partner the same way I did before we got married, is a hell of a lot of fun.
1081431
At least once a week. It depends on my cycle. Some weeks I don't feel sexual at all and others, I can't get enough of it.
989767
Just because you don't have sex everyday doesn't mean that theres something wrong with your marriage. If you want the physical enjoyment to last longer, why not start with some forplay. And if he's too tired to do the work then ask him if you could ride him. Also there are books out there that you could look at. And theres plenty of toys and creams out there too. I even seen a swing built just for sex.
1051292
I used to have sex ... then I got married
122310
Having sex any number of times is not a problem. Untill u feel tired and think that u cannot do it again u can do it\nIts actually a healthy excersise to have sex.\n\nSEX A DAY KEEPS DOCTOR AWAY
1169953
Hello Bella, the first year of our marriage we made love about 6 days out of each week. Once our Daughter was born it dropped off quite a bit. Now after 11 years of marriage we still make love 2-3 times per week on average. Sometimes more, sometimes less. It doesn't matter how many times you do it. As long as you BOTH are happy, in love and please each other, everything will be wonderful!\nGood luck
323647
well when i was younger i really wasnt into it then after my first time i did it alot with the same guy atleast 3 times a day then i got with my soon to be hubby and we did it all the time when we first got together then after i got pregnant it died down to 0 times in 7 months then just today he got it couple of times and plan to do it many more
916100
Actually, that first answer is wrong.  When I was trying to get pregnant, my DOCTORS told me that if I REALLY wanted to get pregnant I would only have sex 1 to two times a day, if even that much.  They recomended 1-2 times a WEEK.  They said more sex screws up somethin... lol i dont know WHAT, but thats what they said.\n\nhttp://www.babycenter.com/search/?BodyQuery=Signs+of+Fertility&x=0&y=0\nhttp://www.babyhopes.com/articles/naturalfertilitysigns.html
24155
usually a week..hubby had 1   and let me say if your going for this... it inproved our sex life 100%  staying power stamina... wow out of this world.. A week is woth was is to come....
1138896
I would pick QUALITY over QUANTITY anyday!!! But since you asked about quantity, it varies from week to week depending on what life decides to throw at us. WE have been married for 5 years and have 7 kids. We average 3-4 times a week...some weeks its everyday..and some weeks its once.
102602
well,when first married it seems like two,three times a day. but,after a year the male feels more comfortable and feels no threats.Then it usually is three to four times a week. Then after children ,which scares the hell out of the male maybe twice a week. It could be more if he knows you have a good contraceptive. After 20 years once or twice a week. After the children are out of the house the male rejuvenates and you may have sex three to four times a week again. After all that i want to say really , it all depends on the couple.But, remember do'nt roll to your side and get upset when he does't try to have sex. Be the better lover and initiate it yourself. Trust me,it will be better because it was different and strange for you to do this and that makes a man ''WILD'' good luck.
582628
It's common, but it doesn't have to be.  I've been with my husband for over 2 years and we aren't bored with sex, but we do sometimes just have "routine" sex, lol.  If you've been dating for over 2 years, you should know each other well enough to be able to try things you know you'd both like.  Maybe some new positions would help, or some role-playing.  Sometimes even just having sex somewhere besides your bedroom can shake things up a bit.
1050615
Me nor my husband never go more than 3days w/out having sex. So on a weekly average let's say 2 or 3, But on a good week honey we can go evey night and maybe twice a night on some night's. We have a good sex life and that's great, exp. when ur married