in love with s'one who is twice my age and has a kid...is it right?
476292
As long as you are really in love. I don't think love really knows age. Do you love the kid too? You gotta understand that there is a lot of baggage when it comes to a relationship like that and you have to be ready to deal with it (kid, ex, history, stuff like that). Have you always like older guys. You might be lookin for a father figure or someone to take care of ya. Sorry, it didn't say if it was a man or woman-you might also be lookin for a mother figure too. :) Good luck!
443517
There's nothing wrong with having a crush on someone who's younger than you. Something's wrong if you'll insist on your feelings when you know that she is committed to someone. \n\nI suggest you forget about your feelings for her and look for someone who is unattached and also willing to love you.
328370
Yes it is ok! As long as your in love! You can love him and he can love you! Age does not notice age, it does not hate, it is not jealous! Love is pure love! Love is all that matters!
79974
I feel like a pro on this type of situation. I'ts been a while for me. My daughter is 16 and I've been with my husband since she was 2yrs old. Keep your x in his place and your current in the right place. As long as you know who your with and who is the most important one to your future toether as a family. You will make the right choice. Uless your not sure who is in the right place in your life. Don't rush in to fast think, hearts are involved.
1035845
I don't think there's anything *bad* about loving anyone, but there are lots and lots of reasons not to get involved with someone that much older than you. In theory it shouldn't make any difference if you love someone, but it really does. The worst thing I think is that the *best* thing that can happen is that you (and your kids, if you adopt) will watch him get old and die. If you adopted today, he will be 80 when you are 50 and your kid is 30. I say stick with the guys your own age, and let him be a friend of the family, an honorary uncle perhaps. You can still feel love for him without being his partner.
352635
Well, I'm 26 and I have a crush on my professor 60! If it's bad for your, then it must be too bad for me, isn't it? :) Sometimes we can not explain why we are attracted by someone. Sometimes I thought that I'm crazy to fall in love with such an old man who worths to be my grandpa! But, i don't know. I can not stop. I do not know it's the right love or not but cannt keep my eyes off him. What I am trying to do now is to be close with him and find out whether we have something in common or not. Is there really a happy "future"? It may be just a first impression! There must be a lot of difference existing that require us to stand back and think! Calm down and take your time. I'm falling in love but still keep myself concious enough to identify the standard moral.\nAnyway, your case can be acceptable. The age gap is not that big.
1061886
so u are 48 and he is 36? yeah sure as long as you guys are in love \n\nnow if it would've been 16 and 28 that would be a different story
723131
i dont' think age matters and i think you know deep down if you love someone....it's hard for people to say what you feel but i think you just know....follow your heart and remember you can fall in love more than once in your life so this person can be your first love but maybe not your true love....
460481
Why not! But at the end of the day its all about how you feel about a women with 2 kids! if its not what you want, dont go there....but if you think that you can take the challenge, go for it and enjoy the love and affection that she has to offer.
479982
If they are truly in love then age shouldnt matter .After all , he is just a guy and she is just a girl ,and they are both just looking for that special someone . Just make sure the girl knows to take it slow and theyll be fine.
894745
IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT WRONG!!! 1 year is NOTHING. It is much more about how you 2 connect with eachother than how close you are in years.  I once had a thing with a guy 2.5 yrs younger than me, and we are still great friends, cuz he was an absolutely AMAZING person, and was super cute, and quite frankly was more mature than most guys my age. Guys the same age as me were always pressuring me to do things I didn't want to, but since I was older than him, this boy was SO respectful of me and my decisions and feelings. And what a sweetheart... as you can see, I could talk for hours.  Obviously dating a guy like 5 years younger than you is kinda weird, but just a few years is NO reason to hide feelings for a guy. If he treats you well, who cares how old he is? And if you're worried about being made fun of, then DON'T! YOU like him, and it's YOUR business. End of story. Best of luck with him! <3
491395
If you just met him tonight, then I doubt that you love him.  What is the age difference and how old are you?  If you are under 25, then I do think age is important because we are not fully adults until about age 25, not 18 like most people think.  And if many of your friends are saying this guy is bad news, than I would take that into consideration and take things VERY slowly.
382974
Age is just a number, and this decision should be yours and yours to make.  Try discussing how you feel with your partner and hear what his response is, if the both of you are happy, then I say enjoy it.  Life is way to short and there are many people in this world who aren't happy with there spouses and significant partners, so I say go for it.  I was with someone who was 18 years my senior and didn't care, we were both very happy but religious differences got in the way and we decided to part ways, so if you are in love and being loved, I say work it out.  Your friends either accept it or you can find other friends who are more tolerant and less judgmental.  Good luck.
960824
age is nothing but a number and your family should love you know matter what. If that's the man that you love then go for it. explain how you really fell about him and if all else fells just go for it you always have to follow your heart
1156093
it honestly sounds as if he wants you and his kids to get to know each other and maybe even bond which would mean he wants to move to the next level with you but as a parent he needs to make sure his kids are ok with you  if you really like this guy and want to be serious with him this is a really good thing  \nhowever it almost sounds as if the kids are his "baggage" in your eyes   you need to decide if you want to be a part of a ready made family  and if not maybe you should move on   because to a real parent the kids will always be first priority   can you handle that?
1166685
If you do he is a lucky man.  Age isn't a huge factor in every relationship.  The question is really is this the right guy and the right relationship for you?  A age difference like this will always present some problems but nothing that you can't deal with or predict if your honest with yourselves.  Think it through and don't worry about what others think, do what is right for you.
866543
You must listen to your heart.  Are you really in love with this man or just adoring his mature ways?  Good Luck.