Women, it is said, prefer older men. What do you all think?
481824
I always loved older men. Men get better as they age. Like a fine wine.  A little grey in there hair and some wrinkles around the eyes. Beautiful.  When men hit fourty look out there hitting there peak! I have always been told that girls mature faster than boys so i think that is why older men are attractive because by the time they reach fourty they have finally become mature and refined. Not all, some.
911702
that social stigma is so outdated!  Who cares if the woman is older than the guy - VERY unimportant.  \n\nNo one seems to care if a man is older than the woman - why is that???  It all has to do with our ideas about sex and gender roles.
347552
I'm in my 50's and I love older women my age. Younger ones are all about how they look and what they wear. Older women usually know what they want and how to get it without all of this bull>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
507114
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS I can help.  Where do you live? and do you like older men??????
844553
I'm "only" 45... not that that is young to today's 20 and 30 somethings... but I've loved and been in love with older women ( 10 - 20+ years older) since I was 17...at least. To answer your question... this is not a fad, it's just that its "out" in the sense that younger men ( and older women) have no qualms about it anymore . Additionally, and more importantly, older women have a certain experience that younger ones don't... both intellectually and sexually. There is also no time for pretense... just learning and teaching and fun... The health question comes later, but if one really loves, one can handle that... such may be the price, but the joy before is well worth it.
919661
I think most older women just like to sleep with u younger guys b/c it makes them feel younger too and i guess it's more exciting!!!! Every older women who does this, has there own reasons. If u like older women that's cool, whatever makes u happy!!!!!!
1154130
I dont think its only the age that matter for this question.\nMen are attracted to older women Who have maintained themselves well. Its this admiration that makes people feel that Men are generally attracted to 'older' women. \nI wonder if there is any man who is attracted to 'not good looking - not well maintatined - older women' ?\nSo the thought which goes out in the mind of the man is - "Wow, at this age if she's this good, how good she would have been when she was young !!"
149991
Love your spelling. When you say older, what do you mean? If a younger woman approached me, I would be skeptical of her motives. She would have to be an intellectual equal for me to consider her more than a booty call. What kind of dates would you both feel comfortable on? If he is seen out with you, what are others going to say? Is he married? Will people tell? There's some pressure here.
454528
because men mature slower then woman and woman just tend to figure it out.  Sex isn't everything, they want to settle down.  Men have to sow their wild oats before it dawns on them.  Why do you think woman usually go for older men?  Old men usually have been around the block but finally figure it out.  (of course even some older men haven't figure it out) You can usally tell by how they treat a woman. They are patient and not pushy.
105571
I do. Guys my age (19) and younger are usually idiots when it comes to relationships. Am I going to go for a guy over 35? Unless you're talking Liam Neeson or Sean Connery, not too likely. But I'm more likely to go for them than your standard 18-year-old college freshman who thinks it's hillarious to talk about getting so drunk he puked on his new shoes at last night's frat party.
657165
well to be honest, im a sucker for older guys.. 1st, because they know how to handle relationships well, 2nd because they look so hot and not that boyish boy-next-door who ould cry with just a dog bite. and 3rd, theres something with older men whom i love, well maybe because they can really protect me and give me anything that could make me happy like hotsex.. they are more open and experienced on where to hit the right spot which i love. and its a turn-on for me if a guy is older than me. anyway im 19 and i once have a relationship with a 33 year old guy. lol.. its really good. \n\ndid i answer your question well? good.. \n\nmwaaaahhh!!!\n\n\nrock my worl baby..
1010832
I can't believe all the bullkaka I am reading here.\n\nSo a man can be 20 yrs older but not a woman?  Get serious people and start realizing that life is not always about your young tight a$$.  There is much more out there than most of you will ever experience, especially with an attitude like I see from some of you.  LOL
682021
I'd rather date someone older. I'd prefer someone more mature and stable(financially and emotionally). I would hope an older man would be less likely to play games and would definitely have more experience as a lover and be better in bed. I'd want someone to take care of me, not a younger boy to babysit.
1152057
she likes older men, they're more mature.
244915
Good luck, old man. Hate to say it, but "old man" usually makes women 20-30yrs old think "creepy old man".
190038
I dont know about older women having problems with younger men.  Im 34 and my BF is 24 and I have to say so far (we have been together for a little over a year) it has been the best relationship i have ever been in
409503
Not that I am a psychiatrist, but I'm sure there is some logical explanation having to do with your history and past why you seek the comfort of older men unconciously and so consciously you are attracted to them? Who knows? I find the same, as far as being attracted to older men goes. However, I'm not married, I'm engaged, far from divorce. I think its normal to be attracted to older men. Women traditionally want to be taken care of by a strong, wise man, which we somehow invision as an older man, and that's why I am attracted them. They offer stability and knowledge, or so my subconcious thinks so. lol...\nAnyway, I wouldn't worry too much about the being attracted to older men part.\nIf I were you I'd be more focused on my marriage, and what an affair could do to it and my kids...