Do I need to quit looking for a the right guy or what? I need your advice.?
485979
You know as they say when your looking it will never happen. But just relax when its time you will know. Im the type to always fantasize about the perfect husband, and after four years of friendship i think he was the one all along.
48011
Perhaps, it is not what you are ready for right now. If you have been with someone for a while and things are heating up, maybe this person is not the right one for you. If it is just that you are single and you're not finding anyone, just give it time. I broke up with a guy a few years ago and months went by with out me meeting any quality people. One day I said to myself that I wasn't going to look anymore and focus all of that attention somewhere else. two days later, I met my fiance.
110950
Typical guy!!! Seriously though maybe you just havent found the right girl yet. You need to find someone who can hold and keep your interest.
418246
I would move on to the next lucky guy. Life is too short to worry about why one person fell out of love with a delightful person like you. He just didn't have good taste in women. There is no shortage of guys that would love you!
818981
You'll never find love if you keep looking for it.\n\nStop trying so hard.\nKnow that God has a plan for you and He will bring you the one in His own time.\nJust have faith in Him.
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First get to know yourself and realize that you are a great catch for any man. The reason you do this first is, if you don't you will only find Mr. Wrong.\n\nAfter this step is completed it is time for the hunt. This might sound crazy, but it's the best way to find a good man. When you go hunting do not hunt for a boyfriend, but instead hunt for friends. Again same motto anybody would be lucky to be my friend. After you have some really good friends the rest will just happen. Whether it be with one of your new friends or one of thier friends.\n\nThere is actually other ways I can tell you, but my time is running short, so you can find other of my answers by looking at my answers to previous questions exactly like this one.
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I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too.  I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right.  I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date.  But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me... \n\nI have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way... \n\nI know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true.  not sure.. \n\nI would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you.... \n\nWhereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...
345788
It sounds like your on the rebound, so maybe it's best to stay single for awhile! Figure out what you want and hopefully this will help you attract a good man!
697824
Honey you should just get real and understand that there is no man waiting on you you 2 have changed believe me and you need to b up and close and personal before you know whether or not he is the right guy for you. Take your time before you loose your mind
296088
Don't loose your hope. Second, stop looking for him. Try to meet men without hoping them to be available or Mr, Right. \n\nIf you expect to find Mr, Right you never will. None of us are perfect.\n\nSecond, don't worry if they're taken. Relationships aren't forever, people break up, get divorced and die, so there are good people becoming single all the time.\n\nRelax and it will get to you once you've stopped looking.
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"when i do find that guy that has all those qualities it either scares me or i dont believe the guy"\n\nYou HAVE to go for it when you meet someone like you just described!  He may be the wrong one.....  BUT!  He might be the right guy!  You HAVE to give him a try or you'll never find the perfect guy. \n\n...and don't be scared.  Just be yourself.  Then you'll know if he IS the guy, and he will know if you're the right girl.
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First of all what i suggest is be clear, is he is one you are looking for?. Be clear what is that you are looking for in a guy. And hey don`t me a serious thinker. Go ahead with some boundries of you own and do not be very open very soon first try and understand what he is and what he is looking for in you. Chill.
1006396
Then you will probably need to change your outlook altogether. To start with, stop looking for the one. Men sense this and out of who-knows-what, try to resist. Even if you were the perfect girl/woman, they would still hold back knowing you are looking for the perfect one. But don't overdo it, or you may end up finding no one. Good luck!
586452
just find another guy.. a lot to choose
468591
Depends on yuor feelings in the relationship. If your looking for someone to be something serious then you should move on and keep looking. If your only looking for something fun and flirty just stick with him.
475863
It's a hard thing to do, I'm 25 years old and still trying to find out myself. Seems like guys nowadays just want one thing and that's it. I've not once found one that is out for who you are or what's on the inside. I suppose it takes time and such. When meeting a guy just be straight up with them and tell them that your not into guys who are out for one thing. If they seem caring and loving, don't be a fool and give in either, let them stay on the hook for some time before doing anything. If they wait and are understanding then do something.
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Actually there are many guys who are looking for commitment.\n\nIf you keep on having this issue it is because you keep on going after the guys who aren't looking for anything more than a good time.\n\nWant commitment?  You'll find it.  first I think you need to change the types of guys you think you're attracted to as they aren't the ones it seems that are looking for committing.\n\nSee we "nice guys", the boring ones are looking but you women seem to keep on going for the ones that are exciting.  There are "Dads" and "Cads".  The "Dads" are the guys who'll be there.  We aren't flashy and we don't always know what to say.  In fact we most often have no clue.\n\nThe "Cads" are the fun guys.  The guys who can sweep you off your feet in a bar, use you and then you pine away waiting for them to call back.\n\nYour choice on what you're really looking for in a guy.