How do you make you boyfriend talk to you more?
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This approach always works for me.  Don't say anything at all, but still be nice and smiling.  For some reason, when you are quiet, it makes the other person talk.\n\nMy close lipped boyfriend blabs up a storm every time I am quiet.  When I am chatty, chatty, chatty, he just clams up.\n\nJust give it a try!
217208
Ask him to be your actual boyfriend
498374
girl I know how u feel and all i can tell u is to suck it up and call him. plan out some topics but make it a short conversation so u don't have a chance to run out of things to say.
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Tell him the truth. If your boyfriend really loves you he could understand it.
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Sounds like he would like to get to know you better to decide if you're someone he wants to spend more time with or not.  Talk is cheap and can lead to more and better stuff.
606612
if you need to ask, you need to work on that relationship.  conversation should be easy with your girlfriend.
81822
Sometimes men don't like talking alot like women do. Have you told him that you want to talk more? Are you sure he is the right one for you?
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It really depends... Just get him into a conversation then steer it into what he likes then get that.
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it is simply by the small things he does...when does he call u?? early in the morning? and how many times.. what does he say to you?? is their any compliments?? does he ask u very personal questions?? and the best way to get him is playing hard to get..be always calm and gorgues..never ask him too many questions and make him feel you are so funny..how long have you known each other..and what are your ages..??
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People sometimes don't know how to fill a vacuum in a conversation. Especially during voice chats. \n\nSilence does make people uncomfortable and guys usually feel obliged and responsible to keep filling up the empty space. \n\nMaybe it is just his way to keep the time with you all filled up! Maybe it is his way of showing that he really doesn't want you to hang up and keep on talking. \n\nLove does silly things... \n\nThe best way you can help this situation is by bringing up topics and building a healthy communication level with your on-line boyfriend. \n\nYou take the initiative.\n\nIf he still stays off track and keeps doing silly things, find another boyfriend!
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I think I get the point, try to spend more time with him, he must be just shy. He will get used to you, also give him more hints through text about how to act in get togethers.\nI also recommend some physical romantic actions(If you are above 18 ;))\nDon't hesitate to tell him what you want, if he can call you 45 times he can be a little excited or convincing when he says he loves you.
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my conversations with my bf are xxx rated,so he should pay more to listen to mine
123727
Show him how much you care about him. Whether he is your boyfriend, or just a friend, let him know that there is someone who cares about him.
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Slowly get him to trust you enought to open up to him.  Talk to him.
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(1st) pick up some adult classes so you can Communicate with him instead of sounding like an illiterate whore like you do in this question.
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There are a couple of things you might try.\n\n'Prime the pump' by letting him know in the morning that you'd like to have a serious conversation that afternoon.  I know that when my girlfriend has something to talk to me about, and she leaves a note for me to find when I come home, I can focus on nothing else but what that conversation is going to be about.\n\nMake sure your timing is good.  Guys are pretty simple.  If he's even partially involved in or has anything else on his mind, he'll have a hard time focusing on something that has to consume his whole attention.  Try asking him to pause what he's doing for the conversation if you can't find a good moment.
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First off, I think you are putting too much emphasis on time. You could be with someone for 11 months or 11 years and know them equally. The best way to get closer to someone is obviously through talking. The easiest way to approach this is by doing something you both enjoy or try something new to both of you. This way, there will be plenty to talk about. If you start talking about a topic that is more general and less personal, it is usually easier to then slide into a more serious or personal one. Also, if you love him and he loves you then he will want to hear what you have to say and learn more about you. You just need to relax and not put so much pressure on yourself. You are looking for that comfort level that all couples want...but it develops gradually. In the meantime, have fun and you'll see that it will get easier to open up.