Do any of you ladies find yourself  going on first dates....?
476308
maby you should not ask so much about their family they may be thinking your trying to become to famillar to fast just keep on gentral topics maby you are choosing the wrong sort of guy give the type of guy that is a little nerdy a chance you might be suprised  luck flaim
818156
Have you just tried asking someone out? Not every girl is looking for a long term relationship!
975070
Not too often.\n\nBetter to just try to have a GOOD TIME and not try for "perfection"\n\nToo much prep scares people in the beginning stages of dating.
762309
You know, there IS a dating section.\n\nYup there are single, attractive women from NYC.  They're all at the dating section...catch my drift?
611691
Sometimes, men actually want women to make the first move.  take me for example: i have never really had a whole lot of relationships, but when i got together with my fiance, i made all of the moves, except the first kiss.  I was quite often uncomfortable making the first moves because i was unsure of how she would react.  On the night of our first kiss, i really liked how sweet and sincere the kiss ended up being.  And i know that i would not have made my move that night, because i was far too nervous.  She could see this, and decided to take initiative.  I personally liked it.  It also shows me that the woman knows what she wants, versus "needs" the guy to make decisions all the time.  By the way, it sounds like if he doesn't really look at you, he might be a little nervous around you, and is unsure of how you'd react if he asked you. Go for it!!  I think that most men don't mind if a woman takes initiative, unless that man is insecure about himself and needs to feel "macho" or something by being the decision maker.
790508
Funny, so that you guys can break the ice and feel more comfortable with each other...I suggest 50 First Dates...
1058335
After recently divorcing from a 16 yr marriage, I went on my first date. It was terrible. He was the worst kisser ever. Now granted, I hadn't kissed another man in over 16 years but I honestly felt like my face was being pecked to death by a chicken! LOL\nI couldn't wait for that date to be OVER!!!!
438102
Well my lady and i are into our 10 month and we met when i saw her across the mall.I have never walked up and introduced myself like that before,but i had this urge that couldn't stop.\nWe are soul mates,and are happier with every day that passes.I am glad that you have found love,and as you can tell from your own experience that it is possible.
952637
Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
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It takes a certain amount of effort to make that first move.\n\nI use to play this game where I would approach attractive women out of the blue just to master a kind of smooth way of dealing with women.  At first I was nervous and would struggle with staying relaxed, but over time I got where I could be as comfortable with an extremely attractive woman whom I had never spoken to until that moment as with some woman that I had know for years.\n\nI thought it was really funny because it was such an unusually brash self assured behavior, but it wasn't like it was helping me find Mrs. Right.\n\nEven once I got where I could stay comfortable, I still had to gather my thoughts to make sure that old insecurities, social perceptions, etc. etc. etc. didn't rise up and throw me off my game.\n\nAfter a while I realized that each woman was just another woman, and so it didn't seem worth the effort to make that big push, to make that first move.\n\nThe idea of romance was in my head, but that didn't mean that this girl or that girl being attractive would make her Mrs. Right and I would live happily ever after.\n\nWhether they have fleshed it out as much as I have in their minds, most men feel a natural reluctance to lay their ego on the line on the chance that some girls smile means something, or even that just because a girl smiles at you that she will even be worth the effort.\n\nIf you could see clearly that this was Mrs. Right and not have to put out all of that effort only to find another boring ordinary kind of relationship, then the motivation might be a little stronger to make that first move.
346047
Sucks huh...i was in a relationship for so long that I forgot how to flirt! ;) I started by organizing large group outings, and gradually built up the confidence to mingle single ;)
912621
WELL THEY MIGHT NOT BE THE RIGHT WOMEN FOR YOU TO ASK FOR A DATE. I THINK YOU'RE  A NICE GUY, PROBABLY YOU ARE TOO NICE FOR THEM...DON'T WORRY JUST BE YOURSELF AND YOU COULD GET ATTENTION FROM A SPECIAL ONE!!!
1030418
best thing to do is to start going to group things. i suggest church outings b/c the girls aren't going to be incredibly rude or judgemental. start with girls you DON'T want to date. sounds weird? maybe...but it works. if you start out with someone whom you're just wanting to know as a friend...perhaps you can learn a few things about women in general...then when you DO find someone to date it'll be a lot easier! IM or email for more info. take care and God bless!
472402
yes, unless it is specified that your just 'hanging out' but not all people take dating very seriously, so it might also be called 'hanging out- that might lead to some serious haning out' hahaha. Seriously though:)
80788
screw what men expect. i'm a guy, if you don't limit us, the possibilities are endless. i mean, at most a kiss? after all it is just a first date.
915792
Pulled a Polish girl in Colgne in Germany, great night out, went back to her flat.....her sister was in the bed next to us and watched everyhing in slilence that we did.and we did EVERYTHING. never spoke, just lay on her side and watched........Bizarre.....it was like it was all perfectly normal...and yes I would have asked her too.but it did not seem the thing to do on a first date.....Also climbed out a fair few windows and fire exits in my time as husbands came home etc ...
600935
Why is this in the singles & dating catagory? \n\nI am guessing you do not date that often.