If i want to forget anyone how i have to forget pls help me?
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Create new brighter memories with someone else or you alone.\nDo something that is the real "end", final step, the last door or makes you feel that way - send back their stuff or a present they gave you, say the last goodbye, bon voyage.\nStart smth new (a new sport, travel,attend a painting class)\nTalk about it.\n...and as the people before me answered, give it some time. \nI think it was Oscar Wild who said that when you love yourself, you are happily in love for your whole life...
318753
In past experience, I've learned that the best way to get over someone is to give yourself an allotted grieving time...I say a week or less, and then start doing something to take your mind off of the situation, or at least alleviate the thought of that person. I have found one of the best things is exercise...or try something you've never done before...a new hobby or sport. It's a great way to distract you, plus you might meet some new interesting people as well.
713109
You might never forget, i still think about someone from 15 years ago. Unless they were total a__holes why forget? Keep the good parts and look for someone that has those parts in them as you move forward. Relationships and friendships come and go, but you need to be able to talk it out with someone to at least start the healing. The mind and heart suck sometimes!
458653
The only thing i have to say is don't forget,move on, you can do hobbies and stuff. That could help you!
661468
You can't just forget your feelings you need to talk about them and get them out.  Talk to a freind and tell them how you feel aboout that person if you keep talking about it you will start to feel better.  If you try to forget them you will feel worse.
687321
well see the doctor but let me tell you the best thing you can do before hand and keep your memory in good shape buy a small notebook and keep an organizer in your purse and every time you have something in mind write it down, that way you wont forget and you keep your brain focused at all time, I already know that if you go to the doc they are going to give you pills and junk to make you think its going to work think about it, your 21 and your to young to have a problem I think you are not focusing on things, the notebook will refresh your brain and memory and after some time you will train your self to remember just give it time and don't forget to write your what to do list everyday, and little things like what people have said to you for your personal reference........ belive me Ive tried it and it works ............Dont stress out to much .........
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Proper diet and vitamins can help. There are 'natural herbs' also that help. Go to your health food store and ask. (Guta Kola is one, that helps.) \n Find something to do in your spare time to help you relax (meditate, or lay out under the stars (with someone helps me relax), swim, jog, etc.) if you're forgetful due to stress.   Remember that you must take time for you to relax and have fun because if you don't not only will you be forgetful but also you will become depressed.\n  As for smartness, I'm sure you are already but the forgetfulness is making you doubt yourself. But reading and requoting what you've read will help you strenghten your memory. Remember, our memory is the first to go under stress.Good Luck.
630544
Learn how to love, how to live, how to forgive, how to forget(what annoying u)...\nThe best way is the hard way I guess.
4615
You don’t have to forget something or someone to move on.  The past is what makes us who we are.  Even the bad things in the past help us develop into the people we are.\n\nThe past can be painful.  The best thing to do is talk with someone you trust.  Discuss what it is that is bothering you, and then decide on what you are going to do to fix it.  By taking an active roll in your healing process you can “move on” sooner and feel better about it.
608157
Take up fishing.  Its relaxing and you can forget about everything.
954925
oh, that is a very hard question , but i am going to say forgive myself. i tend to have a shorter memory when it comes to others, i have to live with myself. i never can seem to escape my mistakes and they can play repetitively in my head, making forgetting impossible sometimes.
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This person will always be a part of you. \nThe Best ways to forget is meet other men.\ntalk and have a friendly relationship \nit may grow into a serious one . if so . you may be ready or you may not be. but try to do different things . \nWhen you start to think about him. stop . think about things you need to get done . call a friend . go out ..dis tract your thoughts from him..
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listen to some music, jump around the room like a chipmunk on speed. take it easy, let urself be in a grump if it needs to be. DONT hurt urself, among others it will make this time harder to forget when its over. take care x x
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It is very easy to say that leave n forget your past & Move on with life but actually it is not easy.\nDo whatever your heart tells you to do .You need to give yourself sometime Cry if you want to cry , call that person who hurts you or is the reason for your tears .Do it till the time you can & one day you will feel that its enough & Now You want to move on with your life.Cos that person is not giving you importance at all .See all his things which makes you cry & make lots of friends.\n\nThen you will decide that I will let it go I want to move on in my life.
746727
Find someone else to think about.\n\nSeriously it's the only way.
467754
Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over someone else, I've slept with another woman to forget someone that I had broken up with before and I can tell you, it doesn't work. You feel like dirt the next day and you'll find yourself eventually wanting to get rid of the new person your with because (s)he's is the one you hooked up with to forget the prior person you were with. Also, heavy drinking doesn't help either. Trust me.\n\nGive yourself a few weeks or months to figure out what you saw in him that attracted you to him and then figure out whether they were valid reasons to become romantically involved. Did he have a cute bod and a crappy personality? Always remember, looks fade but stupid is forever. Or as recall, John Lennon once said: there's no way you can hide when your cripple inside.
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the only way to forget about someone is to find another person.