What if you dont have the guts to ask the guy out or if hes way out of your league?
486079
You are setting your own limitations.  Ask him out.  No one is out of your league, you are setting your value too low if you think that.  Life is priceless for everyone.  If he rejects you, he wasn't worth your time and I would reflect on his hollowness to uplift me. \n\nWhat you do is you purchase tickets to a baseball game, concert and invite him as though you have no one else to go with or tell him you thought about asking him before inviting any of your friends.  When I was single that's how I went out with many hot guys; to my surprise, they'd be interested in me at the end but I would always end up disappointed in them because of a personality flaw.
683036
ask the guy out. you might regret later if you don't
966418
I would definatly talk to him about it. Or be the sly, sexy, one and write him a cute little note asking him out. I was in this situation, but he ended up asking me...but if he won't make the move, make it. Or suggest that someone else is going to ask you out, making him want to ask you first. If he still doesn't budge, he's bein a stupid guy.
443038
1) You can't be in love if you haven't went out with him yet. You're infactuated.\n2) Just get up the courage to ask him out.\n3) Only he will know if he will say yes. Nothing guarantees a yes.
1095535
I would say to ask him out. Don't wait for the opportunity to slip away.
1837
It's a matter of having confidence in yourself.\n     Let me help you out. Your scecial,a really good person, who wouldn't be interested in you?\n     Just do it, and if by some crazy chance they aren't as interested as you would have hoped, well that's just their LOSS, RIGHT?\n\n                 NOW GO AHEAD,AND GOOD LUCK!
643391
If the guy likes you he will ask you out. if he likes you and still doesnt ask you out then he is a wuss and you deserve better. remember there are 2 BILLION men on earth. if this guy doesnt have the strength to go after you then it wont take you long to find one that will.
30645
I just tell him how I feel and then ask him if maybe he'd like to go out and do something sometime.  Lifes to short to be beating around the bush..take a chance, whats the worst that could happen? He may say no, or laugh, and then you can just move on and never wonder "what if I just asked him out", he may say sure sounds great, you could have a wonderful romance or make a new best friend... You cant lose, just be yourself.
1003587
Sorry but this somehow sounds a little odd to me.\nHe seems to know that you're interested in him but still doesn't make a move?\nIs there something wrong with him? Saying that if she asks me out I would accept but then not doing the step to ask you out?\nI'm not into the notes thing but if your friends know and told him already, what's he waiting for??\nIf he's soooooooooo shy, do you think he's the right guy for you?\nWell, depending on your preferences about a man, of course...
502979
if he won't go out with you, then there is nothing that you do that can change his mind...he is not right for you then...there are better guys who will appreciate you more
391870
Go ahead and ask him out... What doesn't kill you can only make you stronger!
80510
You should get to know dis guy first then get him intrested maybe he will relize you aren't so bad then maybe he will ask u out.
977290
Maybe he thinks you're not approachable. Be nice, be non-threatening, and show him that he might have a chance. Or you could talk to him yourself, tell him you like him and ask him out. Sometimes, you just need to take the initiative. Good luck!
1143506
you shouldnt ask people out all of the sudden. you might freak him out. first get to know him and become friends. then if he seems to like you and you still like him, go ahead and ask him out.
289421
I know I'm being a little traditional here, but no, I don't think you should ask him out. That's his job and all you have to do is give him some hints and maybe talk to his friends so he can get the courage to ask you out. Nobody likes rejection, but in life everyone has to learn to overcome it.
613710
well first keep talking to him then when u get to know him better u will get the courage to ask him out. even if he says yes or maybe even no still keep in touch with him.
992706
some guys that are shy are the best guys to date. personally i would love it for a shy guy to ask me out