What do you give the love of your life as a present if you don't want anyone to know that you gave him it?
481751
If you truly love him, what other people think shouldn't matter.\n\nSounds like you care more about what your 'group' thinks than you do him.\n\nThat isn't love.
119444
You could give him a hand written card to thank him, being as specific as you can.  He might keep it and treasure it forever.
41281
People have different ways of expressing their love, just because they don't openly show doesn't mean they don't.  Think about it really hard and you will find something that is gonna show a way that person has proven their love to you. Hint:  it might be something totally insignificant but meaningful all the same.
1104055
he probably already knows that you appreciate him, or he wouldn't have gotten all that nice stuff for you, just thank him, and show off what he gave you, (my boyfriend got me this, or my boyfriend did this for me) i think that just you enjoying what he did for you is enough
269813
keep it hidden and do not use it until your birthday comes around.  then tell them that your friend got it for you for your birthday.  you can't say no to a birthday present.  if they accuse you of anything say, "mom, dad, they gave it to me for my birthday because you wouldn't let me have it earlier.  it is a genunine gift.  please let me have it now."\n\nta da.  don't sneak around with it.  they would find out.
141521
Find out what your love enjoys most in the world and do it for them, get it for them, or give it to them.  There is nothing more special then giving to one you truly love.
837332
Ok, that happened to me... and if you never tell him, you will never know. Buy a flower, put it in an envelope with a letter saying how you feel about him, give it to him... tell him it is very personal, to read it when he is alone and then walk away, don't you even dare look back... just keep walking. If you don't do that, you might lose the opportunity of your life.
536682
It isnt about gifts, it is about thoughtfulness.\n\nYou say he is very special, then tell him that, tell him what he really means to you and your life. Tell him how he completes your life and how he makes you fell and why he makes you feel that way.\n\nFor my anniversary recently, I made a presentation in powerpoint of all the special memory photos from our life together, I added a background music track of our favourite song and then I used the ext spaces to tell my wife in each picture why it was special and how she had made it special for me. I added stuff I have never told her because we assume they already know it but one thibgs she said when she watched it was that although she knew I loved her and knew she was special for me, that actually seeing it again and being told it was a wonderful thing.\n\nThe best gifts cost nothing except some time and some thought.\n\nAnd if you cant think of an idea, you can always buy something minute and sexy ;-)
701798
don't let her bother you. if you were close to him he would be proud to recieve it. She should understand it's about him only.
571393
TELL THEM!!!\nit screws up your whole relationship if you don't.
494992
We don't have cell phones, but I check his mail. It is not to be nosy, I just take care of all things financial. Now.... once there was this letter in a chick's handwriting when we were first married, no return address... Oh yeah I opened it, I was so angry. Turned out to be a thank you card from his friend's wife for being the best man in their wedding, he never got that card. I didn't want him to know that I snooped that much. That being said personal should be just that, personal and private, but sometimes you just can't resist the urge.
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Something little to let him/ her know that you love him/ her. \n\nBe creative! Valentine's day is not like Christmas where you have to give actual presents, it's about showing your love for your significant other.\n\nHere are some ideas:\n\n- Visit a local art museum alone, learn about the works with romantic themes, and bring your wife/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ husband back for a personal tour.\n\n- Go for a mystery ride to an unannounced destination. Keep your wife/ girlfriend/ boyfriend/ husband guessing until you arrive at a favorite beach, ice cream palour, restaurant, theater, sport game, coffee shop, or ice skating/ roller skating rink, etc.\n\n- Fill his/ her whole bedroom closet, garage, coat closet, car, drawer, bathroom cabinet, linen closet, etc. with balloons.\n\nDon't spend a lot of money. Hope this helps you. Have fun!
545351
tie it around your waist but hide it inside your panties....then have him hunt for his last present.
703077
you should tell him in private all you need to say is "I Love You"
376502
If it is really don't put it here.\nhowever it's meand if be true deream, you hidden some thing  for your new boyfriend, you must be clear with he.\nEnd
255778
The ring was a gift, so no need to give it back.\nJust tell him you are not going to continue to date him.\nHe will not change, abusive people's true colors eventually come out.\n\nGood thing you found out now, instead of getting married and then found out.
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It is wrong not to let him know.  It is better to break up with him and experience life than to do things without letting him know.  It doesn't mean your a bad person, only that your human and have needs.