Why is it that I can never meet a decent woman.?
478915
WELL..................DEVILS IN HELL CAN NEVER SEE ANGELS IN THE PARADISE..THIS IS FOR SURE.
207480
You are not hopeless, but if you believe you are, no woman will be interested. Meet a wide variety of women, and when you find one you fall for, then you've won 50% of the battle. Next is to make her feel the same. That part is up to you!
201826
I'm sure there are a lot of women who'd like to know a nice guy. Why not try a chat room or a personals site, because women can't chat with you here -- it would be a violation of the guidelines.
1142405
Everybody has certain traits that they are attracted to. A girl that will stay with you a long time is being fickle because not only do you have to find her, but you will also have to figure out how to keep here once you do. No one person is perfect, there are certain things that you will like and certain ones that you will not. You have to find a medium ground on what traits that you will allow yourself time to get used to. This is being the part where you learn how to keep a decent woman. If you do not figure this out-- somebody definitely will and it is your loss!
345076
Be yoself and turn on the charm! You don't make a girlfriend, u get 1! Don't be too smooth coz women won't trust you and don't look at every woman u see on the street as a potential candidate! Look for someone u can reaaly click with and interact with, the physical aspect alone does not help. I know what i am talking about, i am a woman!
147920
I can tell you from experience that you can find great women via Craigslist.\n\nI have met more attractive women via my ads there.\n\nI can't speak on Match.com\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
56921
There are alot of good women left out there, you just have to take the time to find her she may be right under your noise but most men would pass her by good luck with your search
806529
Not trusting women too much a? If you would let yourself to get to know one of them, maybe you would even like her....and try something more longer with her.\nHad some traumas maybe? Something made you like that for sure.
508013
Sweety i hate to say it but in these areas you may be dealing with someone who is not who they say they are. Trust me on this one. I know from experience that people are mean and its best to meet from within. Try finding a nice church to attend with singles groups to meet more girls. Nice girls!
539730
Before I found my wife, I was looking for a decent girl, not decent as in average, but decent as in proper.  When I came to an age when I wanted to be serious in relationships, this was the single most important factor in the woman that I wanted.  Of course all of the other common traits had to be met, ie. great personality, common interests, great smile, spiritual, intelligent, wise, resourseful, and whatever else may come to mind.\n\nWhen you find a proper woman, someone who knows etiquite in different situations, all of the other things seem to come together very nicely.  Also, women generally dont learn to act properly if they were not raised as such.  I guess I'm trying to say that very few women can fake it.  This type of woman is more genuine in all other aspects, and if you can connect to someone like this, you have found someone very special.  Besides, these days, this is such an outdated trait that when you find it, you know you've found a gem.
832167
you are coming from a bad place right now....I suggest you sit back, get rid of the negative energy you have filled your life with and .... clean up your head. You are blaming all women for one woman's actions...not very fair. You are bitter towards all women because of some past experiences with a few women...perhaps it is what you are doing that gets you what you get. My advice to you would be to STOP making bad choices in women and use some sense, start picking women that are compatable with your life and your head. Stop picking women based solely on what they look like, and start picking women who are kind, nice, ...and yes, these qualities do come in the same package as looks. I cannot imagine your finding any kind of happiness acting as "trade" to gay men.....it may get you off, but where does that lead to anything that is lasting as far as happiness goes? Trust me, all those women you are trying to punish will not give a rat's butt about what you are doing...you hurt no one but yourself when you seal yourself off as you are suggesting. AND, you will not be doing any gay guy a favor either. Your life is your own, your mistakes are your own...stop blaming all women for your mistakes and that is the first road back to sanity. Good luck
1168420
Everyone has their preferences, your not alone. But at some point we've all turned away from them, I'm sure you will as well. I would suggest trying on-line services, andI hope you meet a fine woman.
333964
Hello, Im not a freak...yet I find it hard to find decent women. I dont look at appearances but the heart and soul...You can change that by being yourself ...sean. Ps. and when a quite guy like myself is afraid to approach you,maybe because im shy, maybe because im normal...go and talk to him....he may be the love of your life although he may not drink or dance like the other guys...
1004304
Yea there are some..but very hard to find one.If your a good person you will find a good person.Just remember you always get what you really deserve in life.
359463
I understand your question. There are plenty of women out there who will love and understand you.  Don't waste your time on those who use you.  You're setting yourself up.
1139762
Yep, you sound like you'd be a really nice guy to get to know. I'm probably too old for you, or live too far away, & I think I've given up on relationships anyhow. But you sound as if you have an awful lot to offer the right woman. I hope you find her & I wish you every happiness & every success!!!
1046989
I'd get some help. You might need some confidence to actually go out with more attainable women.