Should I go out with someone both my best-friend and I like?
481992
Talk to your friend first before doing anything. It would be terrible to ruin a good relationship over a guy.
284657
I think that you should go out with the boy that you think is the BEST for you, and who is the sweetest to you ect. I really like this one boy and I think im in love too! If I were you I would go out with the boy who was the sweetest to you and who really showed that they care about you, thats what really matters!
867361
Wrong?  That's for you to decide, but here's some food for thought.\n\nShe needs your friendship.  If you give her friendship without going for anything more right now, it shows her respect.  Then, when she is less vulnerable, if the two of you get together she will respect you more and you will be able to trust that she's with you for the right reasons and not simply out of need.\n\nIf the two of you got involved right now, it might be for the wrong reasons at the wrong time and thus set you up for failure down the road.\n\nIf you are "right" together, then it won't hurt for you to be her best friend and hold off on the other stuff for a while out of respect for her temporary vulnerability and genuine love or care for her.\n\nJust something to consider.  Good luck!
600681
If you guys still have a friendship then go for it. Just hang out with him and see what happens, that is what I plan on doing with mine too.
771567
If both of them like you and you like both of them the choice is yours. You have to thinkabout who you are more comfortable with, can see dating and can see a future (like.. who would you be dating longer). \n\nI basically did that. I like these two guys. One is fun and the other one is smart. Both are cute but I had to choose and I chose the smart one 'cos I can actually REALLY be just myself around him and he's smart (like me, lol) so we can actually talk about stuff. Plus, he always amazes me. The other one is fun and all but we don't have that much in common other than liking each other. So try to assess who you would be better off with.
651179
If your best friend is really a true friend, she'll be happy for you. There shouldn't be any problem between the two of you. She's probably happy that at least one of you two got him. If you like the guy, then maybe you should accept.
838275
I wouldn't make a move on my best friend without being 100% sure he feels the same thing. You might be risking a lot if u tell him and he doesnt feel the same. \n\nSo i'd say if u like other guy start from there... maybe it works with that guy and u forget about ur best friend... if it doesnt work then just wait u have something more concrete before telling anything to yur best friend.
538036
well, i think you should chose the one that would be best for you. if you like one guy, but your friends dont like him or he gets you in trouble, then you definatly shouldnt go with him unless you like that type. well, i would write more but i dont want to run out of room. i hope it works out with you and whoever you chose
430017
Go with the flow.  If you still like him, get back together.  If you don't, make sure he knows and move on.  But tell your best friend to be careful.  He might get upset and go out with her just to try to make you jealous.
506709
you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)
114374
i dated one of my really good friends and it only lasted for a couple months and we realized we were much better friends than a couple. we then just became just friends again and we got the questions about dating out of the way. if you are good enough friends its worth a try because something great could come out of it. if it doesnt work out, you need to try and stay friends afterwards which isnt too hard if you are really bestfriends. just respect each others opinios during and possibly after the relationship.
53252
Why not? hes your best friend. My best friend and me are closer than her boyfriend.  Its best if i know other issues involved but for the question alone, i dont sense any reason why not go out.
288675
well do u like him? after u and him go out your relationship with your friend will never be da same that is if you don't lose her after going out with the guy
292226
i don't think it will work out in the end because bestfriends don't really make a good girlfriend/or boyfriend\ncause when your seperate it's hard to look at that person without all those feelings you share for a person getting in the way.\nso no it doesn't work out to date your best friend
332495
Well, it all depends if he finds you attractive and if his best friend is also.  There would be a great chance for the both of you two to work.
31678
don't "do" anything until you've found out if your friend is cool with it.  just be open and honest with him and if he's your best friend he'll understand whether or not he feels the same way.\n\nif you both DO feel the same way then just go with it and see what happens.  it sounds like you're probably young so just do whatever feels right.  just remember to respect each other and don't hurt one another (physically or emotionally!)
374361
There's nothing wrong with going out on a date with both of them to find out which one would be the best match for you to invest time into.  And it may take more than one date to figure that out.  It isn't like you are in a committed relationship so there's nothing wrong with dating both of them.  As long as you are honest about it and don't play games, you should be okay.  Have fun!