Is it wrong to love someone elses boyfriend when it was thier fault for letting them go in the first place?
487816
There is no excuse it's just not right!
201320
Don't be a bad person. Let him go... \n\nYou had your chance, if he is happy with the other person you should not destroy his relationship.
95659
I think dating someone new is ok as long as you realize that you are still getting over the other person. It is important to not use the person to help your hurt feelings go away. Let the other person know you are fresh out of a relationship and not ready to take it farther,
107553
Yep..But that kind of LOVE is very heart breaking. I'd stay away from him because if he's not happy, he won't be with her long and then you could let him know how you feel. But if he leaves her for you, all of you will suffer from it. Let him have happiness if you love him,.... even if it's with someone else.   Good Luck*
857891
He was right for breaking up with you because he wasn't IN love with you.  You can definitely love someone and have fallen out of love with them.  This has happened to me, so I know.  The love can be gained back, but it has to be by their choice.  They have to want it to work.  I fell back in love, but I really wanted it to work.  Hope this helps.  Don't push them, just let them be.  You know the saying, if you love someone, set them free....if they come back to you, it's meant to be....if not, they were never yours in the first place.  Good luck!!
215408
yes. you can still love someone but not be IN love with them anymore.. i just broke up with my boyfriend who i was with for well over a year, i still love him and care about him but things just weren't working between us.
311804
Please what were you doing with him in the first place if you love someone else. that doesn't seem very mature or fair to the other guy. stop playing games with peoples hearts and grow up.stress??? caused by guilt or maybe wanting something that belongs to another!
670954
Because your boyfriend spent the day with another girl is not grounds for breaking up. Dont jump to conclusions before you have had an opportunity to talk to your boyfriend.  Communication is the key.  It may turn out that this girl is a friend and there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having friends who are girls, by the same token there is nothing wrong with you having friends that are boys.
1015581
Nothing is wrong with falling in love with anyone..........it is only wrong if you disrupt lives and hurt people.
521976
No, it isn't wrong, but spending a lot of time with an ex makes life more complicated than it has to be.
310232
No it is not wrong to feel that way.  Sometimes it is better to do the whole friends with benefits type of thing.  One of my ex's and I did the friends with benefits bit and when we moved on to other relationships we were able to keep the friendship.  It is nice having a guy to talk to about anything, that you know will understand b/c he is your best friend.  I think it is more important to have a best friend than a boyfriend.  It sounds like this guy is your best friend and sometimes when you move from friends to lovers you lose the friend.  So doing the friend thing would be safer but if your feelings are really strong then go for it and if it does not work out hopefully you can still be friends.
30802
It's not proper to be in such situation and its not easy for her too, she was in love at first then you came, you got closer and now you are both in love but at the same time she is with her boyfriend, may she likes something in you and another in her boyfriend, but soon one of you will win, so to be honest with yourself and to avoid doubting that she might do it with another person if she left her boyfreind for you, give her enough time to decide but you have to be away from her she must choose only one person in order not to be hurt or to hurt her boyfriend if he discovered that she is cheating on him
153982
Yeah society says it's wrong to love two people romantically @ the same time, but it is possible. HOWEVER, there is no possible way to be IN LOVE with both people @ the same time- you would have to love both or be in love with one and have love with the other............
362564
Well I hate to say it but if he truly loved you he would have crossed all barriers to make it work . You would be setting yourself up for all kinds of hurt if you let him sweettalk you into something you know in  your heart is wrong . Why do that to yourself and prolong the agony ? You have already made your feelings known now the ball is in his court ! How does the old saying go "If you love something set it free and if it comes back to you its yours and if it dont it never was" Just DO IT ! It could save you alot of heartache on down the road .
917078
it is very dishonest, it isnt fair to the one your with to be with somebody when they're not da one u really love. they deserve a chance to be wit someone who is emotionally available to them, to have someone who can really love them for them. so no it's not fair...
1070700
you already know the answer to this question.  you left your boyfriend because you didn't or don't love him and you think you love this guy.  well, we always seem to want what we can't have.  you should have broken up with your boyfriend because it's not fair to him for you to be with him and have feelings for someone else.  you can't have something with someone who has a girlfriend, unless you plan on trying to break them up.  i think you should take this break from your boyfriend as time to reflect on what it is you actually want.  do you want him back or someone else?  decide what you want before you do something you might regret later.
40252
You have to follow your heart.  if you don't have feeling for the person you're with, it's time to move on.  It's near impossible to not hurt who your with now, but in the long run you're going to feel better for it.  Plus, it'll spare the person your with of even more grief in the future.