A boy says he loves me so much that he cant live without me.But I'm not sure if he just wants to fool me ?
483082
i think you know the answer to this, he will say what he thinks you want to hear. no way can he really fall inlove with you in such a short time. he may have fallen for you looks or personality but that isnt enough to get more intimate so quickly. if he really cares about you then he will wait until your ready and not rush into anything so personal. go out with each other and get to know each other better first.
103679
I think the first thing is to tell him. Boys or men, we can really be funny and unexplainable. Sometimes we, as men need to know from you how you want to be loved. Is it holding hands while walking, is it flowers weekly, tell you how beautiful you are. \nFor some of us, we really do love you, we just don't know what loving you is to you.
3734
Girl,\nI am in a similar situation. You have to decide if he is "using" you as a safety net of sorts or just settling until something better comes along. Also, because I do not know the entire situation, you have to ask your self if he could also be using you for monetary gains, etc.  No matter the situation, if you are not 100% happy, you should walk. You are more important and your happiness is too.
349874
he might love u... or he might just have a problem with showinggg love..or he doesnt know how.. ask him about it.. be like.. im just curius.. u clm u love me, but u dont show it to me.. see what he says.. then u can catch him that way if hes lieing or not as well..
142550
If he hasn't told you I love you by now I would be wondering if this relationship is really boyfreind and girlfriend. He may not be looking for love right now. Since this has become an issue for you I would say this is going to be a dealbreaker. He will surprise you I am sure with his answer.
1165397
im going thru the same situation..its like u love the person soo much that u dont wanna leave him..and its like u cant live with or without him ...how i wish the guys understood this! mayb give him some time..try to explain....take one more chance..cuz if ur in true love,u wont b able to leave him..but rather adjust his way cuz in a relationship,one has to submit to other's wishes.
963014
Have you stopped to think that maybe he is unsure how you feel about him?\n\nHe may be hesitant to say he loves you because he fears that you may reject him, he would rather remain your closest friend than risk losing you by doing something he fears.\n\nId suggest you sound him out, drop some hints like letting him know that he is like a dad to the children, and that with him around you feel like a complete family?\n\nIf he seems OK with that then maybe you need to broach the subject of love?\nBeing a man myself I can assure you that if we are onto a good thing then we are always paranoid we will stuff it up!\n\nSounds like you may be on to a good thing yourself, good luck!
822139
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
759125
If this guy truely loves you I do not why he should lie to You. I f you are sure about his love for you then no problem. But if not, Be careful.
236759
is it really love?  thats the first thing you have to ask yourself  and the next thing is if he really wants to be with you it will happening dont make a fuss over him . he will play you. if he dont respond then youre most likely better off without him. after all you have your whole life ahead of you. there will be plenty of guys
580816
Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
588833
HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!!!!!!   and there is nothing wrong with you!!!!  I'm sorry if this will hit you hard, but from what you are saying something is definetly wrong with this guy, and he is just using you!!   If he is telling you to get away, then you may need to make some Big changes with yourself and your baby
77597
To me if he keeps playing with you he dosen't take you seriously. Or maybe he's just afraid to tell you what he is really feeling. You should have a talk with him and just lay everything on the tableto see what's really going on.
601653
He will have to prove it day by day. His actions will tell. If he loves you you may feel loved.
186210
He probably really does love you as a friend.  THAT is possible u know and he's the affectionate kind of guy who wanted you to know that u r loved and cared about and he wanted u to know!  Friends like that r hard to find so he was not trying to hurt you he was trying to just love you girl!!!!
254671
No, a guy like that isn't in love with you, he thinks of you instead as his possession.  If someone loves you then they trust you.  Tell him to go find a new possession and find yourself a man who will love you and trust you.
337251
Well, let me tell U all U need to do: U need to accept he's not taking U for serious, I guess he only wants U to make a few moves and that's it.\nThe guy who really takes care about U and really appreciates U is gonna call always, and it's gonna be available for U and he'll try to make U happy and to know that U're more than an object and U deserve the best things.\nSee, I don't want to judge U, but have U thought that maybe U have done some things to make him think he can play with U??