what to do when a women says she doesnt lie to you, but really does, only small lies?????
477874
Please now this..... One lie leads to others and small lies lead to big ones. If she is lying about small stuff who know is she is lying about other things. I mean look at the situation a liar is a liar. And lying in a relationship breaks the trust. U will stop trusting her and things will fall apart so its best that u set it straight and let her know either she stop lying or its over........
213840
Just because that's on there doesn't mean it's the truth. I have seen people put lots of thing that they aren't.  Talk to her and get to know her.  That's the only way you will know for sure.
567626
Confront her about it and say goodbye. If she is lying and cheating, she really doesn't care about you and never will. I have learned this the hard way. Move on. She will only destroy you. Take it from a man who's heart was nearly destroyed by selfish b*t*h that only cared about what she wanted and needed. Mostly hot sex with gorgeous guys. Not having money will drive away more than 90% of women, so get some money before you find another, or learn to play guitar...
1069196
Dont keep telling her, show her, actions speak louder than words
899956
I know what you mean.   Some of these bit--'s need a good slap, but un-fortunately we can't lay one hand on them.     Instead use  your inner wisdom to verbally let her know she is not telling you the truth , as you can see this person from where your at.   her/him.   Bring her nose down, by words.
520162
not every girl...but someones lie
592607
You can not help her. She has got to help herself. I have been down that road before. Believe me it is difficult. Sometimes we want to save someone it makes us feel good. But trust me the lies are just starting. Get out before you get hurt to bad.
987489
trusting people takes time. especially when you once had it and then lost it. i think that you should be VERY patient with her. don't turn her insecurities into an argument. try to understand where she is coming from. i think that if you don't lie continuously, she'll eventually trust you. believe me...
33536
Look for tell tale signs. White lies can lead to the truth. Does she get secretive on the phone? Don't ask her friends, that's not very nice (what if she's not cheating on you?). Ask her. You'll know if she's a liar. Good luck.
282944
Most people lie because they don't think people will like them for who they are, so I would simply say "I'm sorry but I don't believe a word you say and until you stop lying to me and yourself I think it would be better if we put our relatioship on hold" If that's too bold try calling her on it everytime you know she's lying. But I think the 1st option is the better only because u tried confronting her and that didn't work. Propose therapy; that's why I love my horses--they don't lie and complain! It's sad to say but we can't change others the only thing we have control over is ourselves and our behavior other than that it's all in God's hands, baby! Good Luck...
770703
She deserves to know the truth. Keeping it from her will only hurt YOU in the long run. Think about that.
188843
You are so right if he cannot tell her he is with you than something is very wrong here. A man should be proud of the woman he is with you and him sure have a problem but look this does not mean leave him just get him to be honest with her if he is not honest with her what lies has he said to you sorry i did not mean nothing bad from that its just nobody deseves this i wish you both the best this can be simple just sit and talk and than call her and put this issue aside and you two be happy. Good Luck.
911114
She'll get over it.  Its better to be up front and honest like you wanted.  Tell her next time this comes up she needs to say something instead of lieing.  Remember not everyone is going to be as honest as you.  But she will get over it.
456226
NEVER GIVE HER A REASON TO LIE TO YOU!\nUsually, you're wanting to know something that isn't your business, so she will just WITHOLD THE INFORMATION, not lie.
107017
Talk to her. Discuss what it is that makes you think she's fooling around. \n\nTry to be non-confrontational. Try to avoid "You always..." or "You never..." Say instead, "When you do (or don't do) this.... I feel this...." Or "When I see you do such-and-such, I wonder what it means."\n\nAsk her what it means. LISTEN to what she says. Repeat it back to her: "I think you're telling me....."\n\nIf you do not feel much better after this discussion, sorry, sweetie, time for a new girlfriend.\n\nI hope you're wrong, and I hope this helps.
71915
no matter how small a lie is, yes you're right, its still lie! if he's doing that not only once/twice, there's something wrong with him, and dont just believe that he doesnt wanna hurt your feelings... both of you have to talk about it.
888693
Tell her the truth, otherwise you are going to get hurt like there is no tomorrow. A woman hates liars, especially ones who make a habit of it. So for your own safety, tell her the truth.