What do you do if you think your just being used? Even if the guy is supporting you financially?
489125
Ask some friends if they will ask him if he is using you then if he says yes dump him.
36536
Depends on if you trust him or not. If he's trustworthy then you should believe him...if you have that gut feeling that he just isn't telling you how he seriously feels..then you should try to find someone who WOULD give anything for you. Good Luck!
1115798
No your not doing the right thing. Think about this, it's like he's paying for your services. HHHHMMM
621806
It sounds to me that he is just using you for your money, i dont know his past but you should ask him why he nevers sees you at night. If the answer does not seem genuine or if he takes ages to respond, he is using you and you should get rid of him.
1025360
well i could say that he is using you or i could say he is not.. but when it comes down to it you know him best i'm not sure how long you've been with him but you need to write down the pro's or cons of your relationship.. is he worth you getting hurt... i mean one way or another your gonna feel pain whether your with him or your not the question is do you like yourself better with or without him?
717290
He's done using you. Find someone else, he probably is.
186883
Id call him out, sounds like that guys a dick.  Hes blatently ditching you for a problem girl, but guys are guys about chicks. He'll come around when she screws him over again, till then cant tell you what to do other than wait and see. But if he ends up booting you get at least some of that money back.
525841
Well, you can always ask him if you are doing a bit too much for him, or if he's annoyed by you. \n\nif your feeling this way about helping him out, maybe he is feeling that your doing a bit too much, then do give him his space. but inform him, that you will check up on him, or if he needs you to call you. i mean if he did just get out of a relationship, you should allow him to recover and then him make a move to ask you out on a date. just be a friend to him right now. \n\nhe will see this as a very sweet, and caring way and respectful to his feelings and that you don't push him to do go forward so fast with you. \n\nyou guys are still young and have plenty of time to start a relationship, so just be patient with him. like i said if you feel like he might be annoyed with you, then don't see him for a couple of days. \n\njust relax and be your sweet self and hopefully it will pay off.
736407
Why do you think he's using you?  You didn't give any information that would help.
215680
Yeah, I think he get to be up to something which is not good. Try to make it sure, I think he is just using you.
879093
It means he is just using you. that crap he told you is just an excuse. You watch, if his new relationship doesn't work out and he is alone again, he will all the sudden want to be with you. Its call buying insurance (or you giving him time off so he can buff other chicks)!! Either way, you will be there to cater his needs.\n\nYou might think I'm a a55hole for saying this, give it time and find out for yourself!!
960406
He used you. Dump him!
726825
Some guys will use you just because they can (you're allowing it).  It's up to you to put a stop to it.  Cut him off completely, and stay away from him because he isn't showing you any respect.
301586
Dont judge that person for having financial problems. Unless we were born rich, we all find ourselves in economical need at some point in our lives.\n\nIve seen cases where a guy finds a girl who really cares about him and makes him happy but some relative starts putting doubts on his head by telling him the girl is only interested in money and vice versa.\nOf course, you should always be careful. When you just met Someone its not a good idea to make them think they could benefit economically from you.\n\nIf you find your special someone who is in financial need,  give them your support. Don't make their lives harder than what it already is. they already have enough problems to think about.
207857
I've heard that guys will do whatever women let them get away with.  This guy wants to use and abuse you and you're letting him, and even paying him!  The answer is NO, he doesn't care about you.  It seems like you don't even care about you.\n \nSorry if this sounded cruel. Deep down you know you should kick his loser ass to the curb.  You've just gotta find the\ncourage to do it.  Think of how much money you'll save once he's gone.  \n\nBe good to yourself and good luck.
1045954
Wow, that is not alright. If a guy wants to take you on a date he should finance the whole date. I am not saying that you should not continue to date him, but you may want to be wary of him. If he is this thrifty so early in the relationship, just imagine how he'd be down the road. Personally, I probably would not continue to see him romantically. Mr.Cheapy McCheapskate can just be your friend if he wants to do things that way.
988839
Talk to him Nothing ventured noting gained. Are you afraid he might take advantage of you?