What should I do about my boyfriends cousins?
486589
tell ur bf and tell his cousins to back off
1060410
That's a real tough situation to be in. You can't please everybody, no matter how hard you try. If you blow off your cousin you make bad blood in the family. If you bring her along, she may ruin a good thing you got going with your friend. Just try to get your cousin some other friends she can hang out with, to get her off your back. Alternatively, do something that will turn her off. Like, start dressing goth and chewing tobacco. Whatever you can come up with that will turn her off without outright rejection from you. Good luck!
862572
The fact that your children's cousins are in his care most of the time is reason enough to have a healthy relationship with him. since the divorce was amicable then there shouldn't be a problem.
401583
If that is the case, there is absolutely nothing you can do.  It would really be up to your boyfriend to speak up and mention to his family that he is in love with you.  If he is not saying anything to his family about you, you might as well kiss your boyfriend good bye.
473539
I went through a similar situation and I made my BF talk to her about her pushiness. She no long calls at 6 am so thats good! You should not complain to much about his family though as they are and will always be in his life. You should be calm and explain to him your feelings! Good luck.
104040
respect the person you love. listen to them and respect their view on issues you discuss,even if you don't agree. Don't talk mean to them or treat them bad. do special things for them that you know they like. ask them how their day went. Make them a special dinner or dessert. Help them work to make your home a place that you both are proud of. respect their family even if you don't like them. one of the worst things to do is talk bad about your mates family, it will eventually come back to haunt you. show them love and compassion. a hug,loving touch or kiss. take the time every day to show them in any way that you care through bad and good times. these are the things i do because i know that i have a wonderful man and thank god everyday for him.
292878
Depends why you think this is neccessary.  Does your family not like your guy?  Or does your guy not like your family?  You should consider why your family/your guy is asking to give up the other.  If they loved you they should be willing to except your love or your family.
381271
dont stress over him there are better men out there, i mean how much of a dream can he be if he is with your cousin after you two were together?
1161363
I think you should run as fast as you can from this guy. He is your cousin's boyfriend and hes using you for sex  if he loved you he would break off with your cousin and not keep you on the side. You will cause a lot of family problems if you stay with him first your cousin will hate, you then both your parents with get involved. Find a nice guy who is only interested in you and you totally. You wont have to sneak around behind every ones back and you will feel a lot happier. Bump the jerk and so should your cousin........
461936
i feel your pain. i'm crazy about a blood cousin aswell. Dont feel bad. you cant help who you fall in love with. Tell her so that she can know what you're feeling and so that she can undersand why you do certain things a certain way when she's around. Tell her you love her, but dont react to what the love is telling you to do. make her understand that you cant help yourself and make sure that you keep your distance because after all, cousins make dozens.\nsave your family the shame... i did, and we're happy.
921745
Your sis and his aunt have beef on each other.  That's their problem, not yours nor your bf.  \n\nIt's unfair for them to put you and your bf in a difficult situation when you both didn't do anything wrong but love each other.\n\nI say continue on dating and be happy with your boy.  Soon enough your sis and his aunt will cool off.\n\nIt's your life.  Live your life how you want it.  Don't let others make you live your life how they want it to.
519096
If you want to mess around with her and hurt your cousin, then go do it. But you 2 broke up for a reason (hence, she is your EX) so tell her that she's not yours anymore, and she needs to get it from her new B/F.\n\nIf your cousin lies to you everyday, you can go messing with the ex for a one night stand then walk away... that way you get revenge on both.
628107
You could try writing them a letter if they wont see you. In the long run though, it comes down to this... You're marrying HIM not his parents. If they want him in their lives they'll come around. He needs to make it clear that he loves you and wants to be with you, even if it means not seeing his family. My guess is they will come around after a few weeks. Hope this helps.
484646
Drop him like a lost cause.\n\nPeople make mistakes and are forgiven.  You made a mistake and apologized.  He forgave you and that should have been the end of it.\n\nI bet that he just used what you did with his cousin as an excuse for his behavior.  It likely was not planned out but he needed to blame it on you and could not accept responsibility for his own actions.\n\nDo away with him.
911626
Yeah they are right..... You should really talk to your parents first or if you feel uncomfortable talk to your siblings and friends at least you would be considering their feelings....... But do you really love your boyfriend that much? Are you really sure that you two are going to live happily ever after like in the fairy tales? DO NOT ruin your life... Guys come and go but families are forever.
61230
ARE YOU SERIOUS?! YOUR COUSIN?! that is sick,might i add- illegal in most states! have you ever seen an inbred person? now why would you try to make a relationship with a relative work out. could you cause the pain, need i mention the embarrasment, to your families... this could tear the family apart as well as tear the two of you apart. i think it is a bad ideal but of course i am not the one in love with my cousin... dude i don't know what to tell you, it seems to me you think incest is the best... so put your cousin to the test. think about the day you will meet your maker!
335359
Great to love. And even greater that he is cute and fine and all yours....... Be care full of your cousin. Maybe she is not telling the truth and said that to spread doubt in your mind..... which was successful. If you don't trust him, get the truth. If he is a cheater.... send him to hell. If he isn't, you better get your mind straight and tell your cousin to jump in the lake.