Do you believe in getting married Before you have sex with that guy?
493849
I just believe that people will do what feels best for them.  All I know is that I wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first...why would I want to marry someone who I might be totally incompatibale with sexually?
1096530
maybe you should get married first then maybe god would help you...but no you are going against god and having sex before you are married.
504131
Just for one night stand?. Please... Have sexwhen you get married.
270487
no! you must learn to live with someone before you marry them. This way you will know EXACTLY what your getting yourself into yes?
220928
Sex in marriage is a must, before that, NO!\n\nOut of marriage, sex is just an instinct full get together used to fulfill your passions or desires. You just do the body thing, get filled up, and that's all. Sex should not take place before marriage.\n\nIn marriege, sex complements the relation, helps the couple to get deeper feelings, respect, and all those kind of stuff.
638092
If you don't trust your wife/husband to be, really sure you want to get married?
667336
Well I am virgin. I do not know if I will wait until I get married but in most of muslam countries almost all girls wait until they get married. But I haven't heard a guy doing this. I would not like to marry a virgin guy but maybe some girls will find this cute.
364610
ya, it's true love!!!!!!  being married to someone doesn't mean that you have to have sex..
473452
If you've waited until your 30's to have sex, then yes, I'd say to wait until marriage.\n\nI didn't lose my virginity until 31, and I have a few regrets.  I waited until I found a woman I loved and had the intention of marrying.  She had a few partners before she met me, and got scared at the level of commitment I was asking for.  That meant I lost my virginity to a woman who left me -- and then started sleeping with someone else not even a week later.\n\nEven though I've only been with one woman now, I want to wait until I get married.  I realize I can always have sex with anyone, but I want to wait until I can make love to someone.  I find I can't be incredibly passionate unless I know the person I'm with can truly appreciate the intensity of those emotions.
525305
Sex before marriage is NOT allowed before marriage if you are a Christian.(which I am) and people that are not following Gods no sex before marriage rule are not real Christians. God does NOT force us not to have sex before marriage. You CAN do what ever you want. But if you are a real Christian you will follow Gods rules. But God IS NOT forcing you to do it. but if you do you are not a real Christian. just because someone or everyone does something bad does not mean you should. hope this helps and I hope you make the right decision and follow Jesus.
476222
You mean like meeting a guy, dating, getting engaged, and then marriage?  Or the actual ceremony itself?
163624
I have actually seen documentaries of people aged 14-20 where they ask the guys questions like: Do you want your future wife to be a virgin when you marry?, Or are you comfortable marrying a girl who has slept around?, etc. and the answer over and over again has been that they would like to marry a virgin.\n\nIt seems a lot of guys want to play around sexually before marriage, but will go looking for a "clean" girl when they are serious about settling down. \n\nA lot of very sexually active girls are in for a huge shocker when they want to marry.
415726
not at all.but thats what you belive in, some people belive in no sex til marriage, others dont.\n I would have died, or killed my toy if I had to wait til I got married to my hubby now...almost 2 yrs later? whoa! lol
372610
are you asking if someone has had sex before getting married in general?  or are you asking if someone has had sex before marriage with the person s/he are married to?  or are you asking if someone has lost their virginity to the one person they are married to?  those are all very different questions and have very different answers with different meanings.\n\ni can say- yes, yes and no.  i am very happy i did not marry the guy i lost my virginity to.  i was too young and dumb.  i am glad that i have had some experience before i met my current husband.  do i wish i had waited until marriage to my husband to have sex, not necessarily.  but i do wish i had waited a lot longer.  \n\ni am happy that my husband and i lived together and loved together BEFORE marriage.  we were married a little over a year after we met.  we've been together several years now.  the marriage is AWESOME, our sex life is great (7+ times a week- no lie).  but we were not virgins when we met, but we did have sex out of wedlock and became married.  it all depends on your heart's intent, level of religiousness (interpretation) and commitment level.  it CAN and DOES work (against my strict protestant upbringing)!
237705
NO! The bible says that is fornication-! Plus you could get pregnant! Get a disease! I wish I had waited untill I got married! You can never get the first time back ! You know it is really not worth all the other problems it brings! I can tell yo it is much better to be married! God created sex- it is a wonderful thing! You cant believe how great it can be when you are married ! I am the mother of four now- I have sex before marriage -trust me wait!!!! When the right man came i had already given all that up!!!was so sad about it and then we had to talk about all the other ones we had been with-had we had tests!! ETC> not fun when you are for real in LOVE!!! thank God He forgave me!!Good luck!
124644
Yes, Yes, Yes!\n\nI waited until 20 years, 11 months.\nI know my husband wouldve never married me if he had gotten sex before the ceremony. Men are just like that.\n\nhopefully a husband will be gentle, considerate and loving during that onetime event. Mine lasted all night and finally at 8AM i was deflowered gently, lovingly \n\nA lover will be thinking of himself, take 5 minutes and leave you unsatisfied, wondering how to get it without being married and how fast he can dump you, so that he can go on to another.
639324
I believe I do... but i think i blew my chances. We dated for a year in high school, and things were perfect. I totally loved him and vice versa... but we were not intimate, and he was a virgin... he wanted to do it, and i was scared. I wanted his first time to be special and not in the back seat of his car. \nWe ran into each other 7 years later, and i have 2 kids by this time....my ex was locked up so i was a free woman. He came to my house and told me one night that he couldn't believe my kids were not his. and i knew he still loved me.\n\nWe keep in touch. he is married now and I am engaged, but i know he was my soul mate. and I still love him so much. I wish him the best with his marriage, and cant wait to talk to him again.\n\ncongrats Heather for marrying yours. That is special.. \n\nI can see myself on one of those reuniting shows way down the line, asking to get back with mine.... but as time goes we are leading seperate lives.