I really wanna call this guy that i like alot but i don't know whether to 3 way him or call him alone!?
478530
....Just call him one on one.  Don't call him three way.  That will just annoy him.
799023
Please don't do the typical guy thing and feed your ego with the other 3.  If you like the one you are with tell them you are unavailable and want to see we things go with the current person you are seeing.\n\nYou seem like a good guy for being concerned and asking.  Don't hurt her or you may lose a good thing.\n\nGood Luck
549399
wow this is tough. is he single? if he is than you should tell him how you feel. but b4 just try to talk to him on the phone and hang out whenever you can. Jus dont drop the bomb on him like that. Jus say exactly how you feel because if don't tell him soon than somebody else will have him. And jus be brave and have confidence. and for the long distance part it can work out if both people put in the effort to make it work.
176965
he seems like a nice guy.. talk to him about how you feel!!
77174
There is no possible way you could be in love w/ this guy.  You hardly know him at all especially if youve only seen him for 4 days.  You may like him a lot but its not love.  Talk to that friend and have him give Travis your phone number.  If Travis is interested, he will call you.  If not, then he wont.  Dont say you love someone until you have dated them AT LEAST 3 months solid.  You are only asking for a world of hurt then if you say it earlier.
651602
Really guys like to be called by girls.  In fact all girls should start calling guys first.  It would make things easier for us guys.  But if your worried try this.  Write down 3 or 4 things you could talk about.  Like his old job with you, something he mentioned when you talked to him 2 weeks ago, something that's going on in your life, etc.  Then just have this paper when you call and if it goes into awkward silence.... you've got something to say!  It's like an outline sort of.  And don't forget to ask if he wants to hang out!
842439
your best bet would be to stroke his ego a little,thatll give him some confidence and hell open up to you more.YOU call HIM and tell him you were thinking of him and wanted to say hi.do it like on a tuesday,by friday hell be calling you to "see what you had planned for the weekend"
1069291
well it sounds like u guys keep finding each other. if u are sure he's comfortable with bein with a guy but i guess if u guys hooked up then he is :) i say go for it just tell him cuz he may be thinking the same thing as you but scared liek you..it cud be the best thing u ever did and its obvious that he means alot to you..i think your story is very sweet..good luck!
829869
If you have feelings for him then don't be a **** buddy.\n\nIf he is not contacting you then let it go.\n\nIf you want something more, let him know what you want and see if he will step up.  Of course if he is not calling you, he is giving you a pretty clear message that he is just not that into you.
164142
question is...  what do u want from him now?  if u want to possibly start a romantic relationship w/ him then call him back.  but if u just want to be friends...  if he's not over u, then it would hurt him more for u to be makin ur way back into his life.
296873
Don't call him.  You may think that it would be good to get together with him but in the end it will not result well.  A friend of mine went through this with a guy she dated for 2 years.  since you were together for so long there may be a part of you that will always have some feelings for him and the same could go to him having some feelings for you.  I think he is not used to this new relationship and thinks about what he is missing when he is not with you.  It will be for the best if you don't go back to him.  I wouldn't call him or hang around him very much because it will only make those feelings stronger.  Find a good group of friends that aren't exactly mutual friends that you two made when you were in the relationship, and hang out with them.
1187931
You have only talked to this guy once. More importantly, he has only talked to you once. There is no way you have feelings for this guy. There is also no way he has any for you. It sounds like an act of desparation to me. If you must continue to talk to this guy, take it VERRRRRRRRRY Slowly, and for god's sake, be careful!!
1182886
yes definetly call him but end it with one of the guys girl\ntwo timing isnt cool
534636
i bet you he has another interest in a different person. my advice is to be distant with him, dont call him, let him wanna talk to you. he'll come to you.he probabvly fells sufficated.
497611
Well just keep talking to him and when he brings up the topic of relationships ask him if he is in one.  That way you don't have to bring it up out of the blue.  Sounds like you are a little on the shy side so that is what I would do anyways.
606014
WELLL U SHOULD JUST TALK TO HIM AND BE OPEN AND HONEST IF HES TRUE LUV HELL LISTN AND WONT GET MAD AND YOU SHOULD CALL HIM HE SHOULDNT ALWAYS HAVE TO CALL YOU
971962
First of all you should actually talk to him. That was not a very productive conversation. So you should give him a call when you are by yourself, in your room, and see what he has to say. Always rely on yourself though, not what other people say. If Zack said "Kinda" then you probably have a good chance. So like I said, call him when you are both alone, with no one else around or nearby and talk about whatever it is that you want to talk about. Remember it's always good not to talk about yourself all the time. Ask him questions, figure him out. Ask him have he likes to do on his spare time, what he likes/dislikes etc. (e.g. ask him about his day and what he plans to do the next day). It might be a good idea to invite him out for a movie or something if you really like this guy. Personally, If a girl that I like askes me to hang out or whatever I'd really like that, because guys have all the pressure to take the initiative and ask the girl out etc.; that really sucks; is not cool cause some guys are really shy. Very important: Be urself, dont try to be someone that ur not. However, it's ok to lie here and there but keep it minimal. Good luck girl!!!!