i cant live without her wat shud i do now?
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why cant u live without her what happened?
248398
Let her go.  If she comes back to you -- then give it a go.\n\nFear is a strong emotion.  You can't find it dude.
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Ask yourself, "is there anything I wouldn't do or give up for this person?"  \n\nImagine your life without him/her.  Then, imagine spending the rest of your life with him/her.  Listen to your gut!
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Don't feel guilty... she's the one leaving you remember... Just move on, if she really loves you or even likes you she will come to you. And find someone else to love or to hang out with, not someone that goes in and out of your life like nothing.
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Instead of fighting her on it go out and do something yourself, instead of worring about what she is doing. Relationships that have these problems dont last, so if you love her you need to love everything about her or move on.
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apparently she loves you!  not many people are left in this world that are willing to put aside their own emotions to spare anothers.  let her help you or just let her be there.  anymore love is hard to find, you have found someone who apparently will stick behind you through thick and thin don't let that go, you may regret it down the road.  she is on your side shes not against you, lean on her don't push her away
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know what? let her be.. look for someone who can accept your love. coz you're going to be miserable if would still be after her and you know that there id no chance for being the two of you together. Accept the fact that she does not want you. Set her free and when she comes back, she's yours! She would probably realize your worth once you're out of her life.. Try to give distance.. and if you see any changes on her, be then you would know what action to take or what move to make.
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tell her that if ahe really loves u like she says she does then she wont hurt her self cuz then u would only want to die cuz without her life isnt worth living and that where u r moving to is the closest the closest u can be to her and u will be with her every minute that u can
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Communication is essential.  If you can't have that with her, give it up
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respect her and be faithful to her, take care of her personal needs. love her.
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Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
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For a start, applogise dearly to her and tell her this time your luv comes from your heart, no string attached..Its your destiny to be wit her..and that you now realise she was also meant to be wit you..
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Just let it go.\n\nTry to be happy for her that she has found someone to share her life with and let it go.\n\nIf you don't it will just eat you up and you'll never move on.\n\nIf you don't let it go you will never be ready to discover your Miss Right.\n\nLeave her in peace and work on your own life.  Get out and discover some new hobbies and passions...hopefully while you are expanding your horizons a lovely lady will stroll over and explore with you.\n\n:)\n\nPeace
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You need to get out of that relationship before you go crazy.  As long as she's in your life....noone else will be.
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Cut your losses and move on buddy.  Anyone who truely loves you wouldn't have to look anywhere else.  If she loved you whole heartedly, she would never even consider the possibility, or allow herself to become emotionally involved with another person.  She may love you, but not enough.  You deserve more.
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Unfortunately..not until she is gone. We all make that mistake. If you really love her and she still loves you...GO GET HER. You can work it out. The main thing is YOU LOVE EACH OTHER...everything else is 'details'...and details CAN be worked out. Just be glad you realized it now and may have a chance to fix things. What's the worse thing that could happen? She could say 'no'. I think it's a chance you have to take. Be honest with her...and yourself.
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This is definitely not a healthy situation. You need to try and take a break. It is obvious that she has an amazing control over your emotions. True relationships are ones in which both parties can be strong without each other. Although your life feels incomplete without her if it were meant to be so many problems would no be going on.