do u think its better if the guy asks the girl out or the other way around?
487469
I'm old fashioned, I think the guy should ask the girl out. However, the girl can and should hint at a date or show interest in the hopes that the guy will ask her out.
389884
Honey that's great! In the world of tease with no please it's great for a guys self esteme to have a cutie ask him out and if he accepts then Oh so cool, but if he rejects then let it go and don't worry, this ol' hippie thinks that is sexy. So go get em'
245517
yes! totally!  i mean, what do you have to lose? you both like each other, and by asking him out, you'll show him that you're confident, and who doesnt love a confident girl? good luck!
695656
sure, call her, what have you got to lose, she can only say yes or no, right, but a little bit of advise, that you didn't ask for, lol, i don't recommend that you wear your heart on your sleeve as you are doing, you may get hurt, an you sound like a nice fellow, sometimes girls will take advantage of a nice guy.anyway, good luck an have fun if you two do go out!!
213631
well i am a girl so just the way the girl acts with the other guy or just have the balls and ask her
490240
Be yourself and go for it! She might be nervous just like you are! I like it when a guy is himself and asks me out. I get nervous as well and I did say yes!
217336
Id go for it. The guy dosent always have to ask the girl out. Ask him, and if he says no, then at least you tried.
895546
ASK! (that is how I got my man) We flirted everyday and then I just asked if he wanted to go have a drink some time and he took me to lunch the next day.  We laugh about it now (3yrs later) about how I was more of a man than him by asking him out. Go for it girl, worse come to worse he will say no.  You can not live your life hiding go for it. A man likes a women who is not afraid to take risks.
1015534
When I like a girl, I get all goofy around her. Not weird, but more silly. I guess its just my way of getting a little closer to her to gage her potential response if I were to ask her out. I may joke, too, but never in a mean way. I want her to say yes, after all.
585861
absolutely not!!! You ask a boy out for what is inside not what is on the outside. I mean come on if you go out with someone for looks you really don't like them. hope i helped!!
941651
are you describing yourself and trying to throw us off at the end by saying should you ask "her" out.
766862
love.... would u rather...\n\nknow someone likes u but have them not ask u out..... or have someone pick u as they're first choice if they had 2 pick and ask u out?
994542
will what i would do is go out with the girl or in your case the guy you have more feelings for b/c but i would go out with iono thats a good question but i would talk to both and then figure out which one i would go and then maybe theyll make me happy and if they dont then thats a mistake i made and thats what i call chances just rember which one you know better the closest frined will long more then a boi you just meet follow your heart not your head iight anymore questions holla at me at babyboychris32@yahoo.com iight duces my frds call me babyboy so yuh holla
809160
When I was dating, the guys usually asked at the end of the first date.  If he didn't, I would ask.  I would say something like, "I had a nice time and I was wondering if we could get together again".  I always got a good response of yes, but there were a few no's.\nThese days a guy doesn't mind if a girl asks him out.\n\nHere's a tip:\nIf the guy says he'll call you and acts fidgety, take it with a grain of salt because he won't.\nTry to ask him first as I said above to ease your mind.
1064645
if you feel like you need to talk to him go for it. If hes seeing a girl she might not like it though.
1053017
privatly more romantic. i prefer to be asked out privatly even in a public place. if that makes sense. hope this helps have a good week.
545076
it's up to u girl,if u think that guy is really sincere asking u out so give a chance to the guy but then when u r together u can see how good he is taking care of u ....then u will know girl...