my boyfriend always gives me what i want all the time& he doesnt trust me what can i get him to trust me??
475858
Yes You can get anyone to trust you just make him trust you by being repectful, and loveing show him you would never hert him.
93750
May be try to be more open with him? Offer to share information and anticipate his questions by providing the answers outright.  If this doesn't work, then consider that fact that he may be jealous and paranoid and that whatever you do (or don't do) won't matter because it will be his version of events that he will see. Next step, I guess, would be to find out for yourself if you can have a long term relationship with your man knowing that he doesn't trust you.  \n\nGood luck!
1060604
maybe its because he doesn't trust you......... yet \nhe is keeping his x close because he thinks that there is a chance that things won't work out & can you blame him if you can't even trust him?
109650
Probably because you are pretty!  He is worried you'll find "something better." \n\nJust do your best to reassure him, but don't allow him to get all jealous and controlling on you, OK?
972141
you dont deserve a liar he cant be trusted and if he does it now he will always do it you need to let it go and find something better honest and trust are very important to a relationship
253226
you boyfriend thinks you don't trust him.why? in this situation i think there is really nothing you can do but listen to him like when he has a problem just listen to what he has to say and tell him what you think about the situation maybe sense he is talking to you about his problems and your giving him a response he will soon trust you more
888966
If you feel you need to have him investigated and can't trust what he tells you......\n\nfind a new boyfriend.\n\nCut your losses and move on.
326603
Honestly just give him time. He needs to learn that he can trust you and the only way hes going to do that is by spending time with you. Eventually he will realize you're not trying to hurt him. Do fun things together like playing sports or going camping. Talking about it will always help. LEt him know that you're there to listen and will do anything he needs. but if this presist for more than a few months then id tell him to see a doctor because he prolly has a chemical inbalance.
1116787
You're going to have to build a lot of trust between the two of you first. He needs to be able to trust you so that he can tell you exactly how he feels whenever he wants. You are going to have to trust him when he is telling you these things. Keep up the good communication and everything should work out fine. Good luck!!
519986
yes you can trust him. But do not always bother him about it. Just try be on his side for any help. He will turn. dont worry. He is normal
468238
probably he got hurt in a previouse relationship, and is caring that untrust over into your relationship. Or he is not trustworthy himself, and expects you to be the same way. To earn his trust be nice to him and don't give him any reason not to trust you. However if he is untrustworthy he will never fully trust you.
181367
I have the same problem, ive been hurt by friends and family and i STILL think up conspiracy theories. Talking with him will help some, but the change has to be WITHIN you, the only thing he can do is make his life a little more open for you. I try to be as open and honest with my GF as possible, that way she can trust me more, also i tell her where ive been and she even knows my E mail password. She knows who is on my buddy list and who ive called. I do all of this so that there WONT be trust issues in our relationship. BUT she could still be paranoid, so she has to just admit to herself, that if im cheating on her, then it DOESENT MATTER, she will just break up with me and move on, or if i truly repent then fix the problem and continue the relationship. But you HAVE to let it go, go out on a limb and put yourself out there. once you say it doesent matter, and you have "let that person go" then that takes away any walls that were in your relationship before.
139981
Trust is so important in a relationship. If you trust him, then talk about this concern with him openly. Do not look for sneaky ways or signs to sniff him out. Rather, talk to him, and you might be surprised how willingly he will open up to you if you show him you have enough trust in him. Most men do not willingly become womanizers, but most men do enjoy being popular around ladies as a sign that they are quite the manly men.
133432
This is an easy one. Tell your boyfriend, "I don't trust you and I'd like to have control over things you do. Therefore, give me your password so I can watch your every move while on line."
925508
You sound like high maintenance. Do him a huge favor and leave him so he doesnt have to deal with your constant insecurities.
243074
I had a boyfriend that went away for a job one time, I was concerned because I never completly built my trust with him. So one day I went on his laptop and found that he was chatting and meeting with other girls on his buisness trip. So I confronted him on it, he denied it, but when I brought up the fact that I had evidence he confessed to it all... I say if there is a gut feeling then you need to go with that. If you are always insecure then you just need to start over with someone else. Just confront him and ask him....
1108938
Ohhh, that's a tough one. Your relationship can not last if its built on a foundation of distrust. Especially since he has told you that he will not trust you. I went through a similar situation, and you both have to ask yourselves, "Can I drop the past of my partner and move on, on a positive note. If your can't answer "yes" than you need to take a step back and reevaluate your relationship and decide if its worth living a life of suspicion and distrust. Counseling will help. Good luck!!