I'm a guy whose got a problem with dating... PLEASE HELP!!!?
475504
Well if she already knows just go up to her, in a real confident way and say hey how are you ?  just start a conversation about something iteresting and just say after a while lets go out, lets go see a movie or something yeah ??  She will say yes hopefully, if she doesnt then sorry shes not into you.  So either she does or she doesn't.  And that is not attractive either, not having good self esteem, why would you even say that you dont think you are good enough for her ??  Be confident, not self loathing but confident that is very attractive in a man.  So dont even think that you are not good enough for someone.\nGood Luck =)
52649
Puh-lease...I've never dated, never kissed anyone, none of that and I'm in college.  Don't worry about the boyfriend stuff.  At some point, God'll bring someone to you who really appreciates you for who you are.  Right now, focus on friendships with guys and girls.  The best husbands are best friends, anyway.  :)
317930
Be yourself, don't worry about other women. Believe me you want the right guy not just any guy that will date you,be content with who you are.
26423
Hi,\nI'm also tremendously bad at approaching girls.  Something that works for me is finding a girl that you like, smiles at you and lets you catch her eyes.  Ask her to go for a coffee or something.  That way the pressure is less than being on a date. After you do it a few times it gets easier. Best, JSP
351730
That's been an ongoing problem that I've struggled with, but in the last month, I've realized that I like guys that are already in relationships because I subconsciously know that I'm not ready for a serious relationship. I know that's not always the case, but you might want to think about that :)
636888
From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
853600
I do not think this will be to much of a problem it appears you are shy and may have a fear of rejection until you overcome those fears it may be you asking this question ten years from now.  Start talking you are the only one that can help yourself get out of this situation.  Heres a good tip go out with some guy friends \nif you see a girl you would like to meet and are scared see if one of your friends would break the ice for you like saying hi my friend would like to meet you it could be that easy.
1078793
It sounds like you've really thought this all out, and you have made a good plan. It takes courage to step out there and take a chance on a relationship. Just being yourself and being honest is seriously the way to go. \n\nBest wishes!\n~Tia~\nYahoo Brainiac\nhttp://advision.webevents.yahoo.com/asktheplanet/brain.html
776477
Dont rush in the world of dating and relationships.\n\nDont let yourself feel lonely, enjoy life. Being single has its benefits, etc.\n\nI myself is currently single and I dont let issues get to me like many single people. Enjoy it and wait for opportunities to come... and then you will meet Mr Right.   One day, Ms Right will cross my path.\n\nKeep your chin up and take care!!
811916
You need a self confidence make over, my friend.  Unfortunately the less confidence you have with women the more they will reject you. They are like rabid dogs. They smell fear a mile away and will track you down in packs - swarm in for the kill.  I think step one for you is getting over past rejection. It is in the past - it's done.  Throw it in the garbage and don't think of it again. Don't use it as mental fodder to beat yourself up.  If you don't like you - chances are others won't like you much either.  Have you examined looking for women in different places?  I don't know where you have contact with them but if you are trying to pick up stuck up chicks in bars you are going to get a lot of rejection.  Keep in mind that hot women are overrated.  They are people too - but you have put them on this huge pedestal.  Once you get a girl you'll go "All that for this?"  The fact that you have women on the brain 24/7 is part of the problem.  The moment you stop caring about what they think of you is when some bubblicious honey will strut right into your life. Good luck.  Keep your chin up with the babes.
845745
First off, learn to spell, that might attract some girls. :) I won't date a guy who cannot spell, it's annoying.
293381
what do you not do? are you shy? do you get nervous around girls? are you looking in the right place?\n\nit can be so many things. first off, just chill. not every person is looking for a significant other. think about that too. you could be asking a person who had a bad experience with an ex, they are too busy to be dating other people, or something else.\n\nyou can't always find them and we all go through a sort of slump. try doing this. use your looks to your advantage. be cocky in a funny way.\nex:\nthem- wow! you are ruggedly handsome!\nu- nice try. too many people have tried to use that line on me and it doesn't work.\n\nto hit my main point, learn how to project your self-confidence to other people. that will help you on your quest to get dates. personality counts more than looks. you have looks to reinforce an attractive personality. good luck with finding a date.
72369
Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
492883
excuse you? I do not think so.  that is definatly a girl trait.  I've only ever met one guy like that in my whole life and he's wonderful.  guys like that are the keepers trust me.  hang in there.  it took us a while to find eachother.  you'll find the right person soon enough.  you just have to be very patient.
26582
Dont' worry girlfriend!I was in the same boat as you before.I did the bar scene, all my friends were in relationships, and that's what i wanted desperately.So, i would settle, and i got losers.Alot of guys would hit on me, but i just wanted to date, than i would call them back after, and they had a girl.Too late.So, in that time, I just felt out who i was, what i wanted, and focased on my career. That's when i thought, hay, i can just weed out these guys who just wanted a good time.Well, it worked.I wasn't looking for a guy.My true love had found me.When you are least expecting it, it will hit you in the ass.What i am saying is, relax, and it will come.Do not be desperate, and settle. He will find you! Get out there and do stuff that you like, and he will be there waiting for you.Good luck!
289949
Well just try your best to go out more...hang out with your guy friends...Don't worry about finding a g-f so bad if you try too hard to look for a girlfriend you might rush into things...they will turn out all bad and then you will be back at square one...When its your time the right girl will come to you...If you got somewhere and then mentioned your ex...maybe you still have feelings for her...do you? How long has it been...do you NEED a girlfriend right now? I think you should focus on yourself and have fun. Are you still young? Do you like to party?  Go out and have fun,..\n--I'd like to hear from you.
790117
Stop being foolish (no offense).  You will never have anyone if you keep acting stupidly!   You will just end up settleing!  Don't be that stupid chick that falls for guys that ignore her and play games.  If you've got something right in front of you go for it...  If it doesn't work out then push him away!