how dose it feel when your best friend  cheat on u?
477681
you mean make other friends behind your back? I hope you mean boyfriend cause otherwise you need to seek help
892029
If she betrayed you, then she's not worth a second thought. I know that's easier said than done, but it is possible to get through. Think of it this way, does it hurt more that you're not with her anymore, or does it bother you more that she made you feel like you weren't enough or good enough by going to someone else? I know that sounds mean, but I don't mean for it to. Just stop and think if maybe your ego is hurting more than your heart. Don't let her actions turn you against other girls, because there are PLENTY of them out there who would love to have a boyfriend and who would treat you like gold ! No matter how hard it is to think of that right now, you WILL find someone else, if you give it time. Just don't go back to the same girl who cheated on you! If you take her back, she will think she can do it again, and you'll take her back again- once a cheater always a cheater! Don't waste any of your time on her- take care of yourself, work out a little( anything to boost your self-esteem), and you'll be surprised at how easy it is to get over her and find someone new! Especially if you are feeling good about yourself!
424596
maybe your best friend put alot of emotion into your situation if you had a bad breakup with your ex and really cares about your happines and dont think your happy with your ex......or maybe your best friend is in love with you
425964
Exs and crushes are off limits for best friends. She is not your best friend if she did that to you. \nI suspect your ex doesn't feel the same way if he's dating your best friend. I'm sorry, but it seems like you need to find a new partner and a new best friend.
1171172
Well, I've been away from my 5 best friends for about 2 (almost 3) years &, so far, it's one of the hardest things I've ever had to do...\n\nI left my home country (Cape Verde) to come live in the US...& the day I left was the saddest day of my life...It felt (& still does) like I lost a huge chunk of my own self...\n\nMy best friends & I have known each other since we were about 3 years old (which means that we've known each other for about 14 years now) & always lived in the same street...we used to do EVERYTHING together...wherever you saw one of us you'd be sure to see the other 5...we had the most beautiful relationship (we went on field trips almost every weekend; we used to throw lots of parties; we used to go to each other's family's beach houses regularly, etc.) , but since I moved, things have changed a lot!!!!\n\nAlthough we keep in touch with each other, it's just not the same...I feel sad all the time because now I have no friends (nearby) and spend my days either @ work, @ school and/or @ home (which is totally not me)\n\nI used to be really active, but now I really don't do much (just so you have an idea, I've never been to the movies nor to the beach here in the US, & things that I once enjoyed are just not as fun as they used to be)...but whenever I feel sad I think of the good times my friends and I had together...& although sometimes it makes me feel even sadder that I'm not with them, most of the time it works...\n\nI'm planning on going on vacation next year, but we'll see...\n\nBut you know, my being away from my friends & living in a totally different place has helped me realize how good of a life I used to have as well as it has helped me appreciate all the ppl in my life...
861002
you two have been developed a mutual understanding which more likely you both feels the feeling of a couple or bf&gf. becuase you've been start as a very good friend and probably a best friend but you didn't realise that you have developed a relationship already through mutual understanding. but you both will feel awkward of your real feelings as you still thought that you are just friend and nothing else but behind there's already a special feeling that been developed. There's a possibility as well that one of you scared to feel this special feeling otherwise your relation as a friend will be broken, but i'm pretty sure there's a LOVE hanging in the air already between the 2 of you. sometimes denying of the real feeling make things confused and weird..wish you luck!
612889
A few years ago I had suspicions that my b/f and best friend were seeing each other and I came home early one night and there they were,together just as I thought,needless to say there was a big blow out and now I hate them both. But he got paid back because she done the same thing to him. If you suspect, investigate and if it's true tell them both to go to hell!
978670
When I was in High School my best friend was so pretty.  She had beautiful long hair and a cute figure.  Every guy looked at her butt because it was a perfect shape.  Not too big or little.  I think I was actually jealous of her butt. LOL!!!!!  I am so embarrassed I just said that.  :)   Anyway,  I just was kinda happy go lucky and didn't worry about it.\nYears later when we would go out dancing or clubbing guys paid more attention to me.  I was in College and she would call me  and beg me too come home for the weekend so we could go out.  When I got in town I would always have to call her and then she would say that her and her frind Mary were going out, but i could come too.  After this happening about 3 times (I lived 5 hours away from school so coming home was a major ordeal) I was confused and mad.   She would talk to her other girlfriend and ignore me.   While we were in the ladies room I told her that she was acting wierd and was ignoring me .  I asked her " are you jealous of me"?   She was like "why would I be jealouse of Kimberly *****?  (*=my last name)  I said I don't know why, but you are.  She denied it.  I left and went home.  We didn't speak again until a few years later I ran into her at  a club.  She was drunk and came up to me and asked if I could come into the bathroom with her.  I agreed.   While there she started to cry and said "remember that night when you asked if  I was Jealous of you?"   She said " Well I was and I lied and I am so sorry".\n\nMy point is this.  When I was jealous of her I didn't worry about it because  I was proud of who I was and loved her as my best friend.  Then when my body matured and I turned into a young woman I still thought she looked great, but I was no longer jealous.   But she couldn't handle me getting all the attention because she was insecure during that time.\nGod tells us to not be jelous or envious.  If you work on loving yourself for who you are and forget about who is giving whom the attention things will come and go your way because confidence is beautiful.\nMy best friend and I lost 2 years together that we can never get back.\nAnd just because no one says to you that your pretty does not mean that they are not saying it to others.  They are telling you that she is so pretty, but they are not saying it to her.
946428
If your best friend is really your best friend, she wouldn't take him away. I had a friend like that once and it killed me to be around her with guys because I would say I liked someone and then she would instantly like them too. And she would win because I would just give in. There is no point in fighting her on it, especially if she already knows how you feel about him. If she doesn't know, you need to tell her right away. You friend has betrayed you in the most hurtful way if she knows how you feel. You need to sit her down and explain that you like this guy more than she'll ever know and that you have known and liked him longer than she ever will. If she is truly your friend, she will cease to try to steal him away. If she won't stop, you need to find a new friend, a person who won't betray you. And you need to tell the guy. He deserves to make the choice with his true feelings. Tell him that you don't want things to change between you too, so if he doesn't feel the same way, to just forget that you said it, but in time you fell in love with your best  friend and you wonder if he feels the same way about you. Then, you are letting him know how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way.
903644
I know exactly how you feel, my so called "best friend" is treating my like crap, and my other "best friend" keeps feeding her lies about me hating her, and now their both......I'm sorry, your the one posting the question, sorry. You know what, forget those dumb asses bitches. They don't know what the hell their losing, their losing a good friend, a loyal friend, a great sister, and a best friend. This world sucks, and if they think you suck, then are they really even your freaking friends!?!??!?!?!?!?!
313801
I agree with the others.  If she was your best friend she wouldn't have started dating him knowing how you felt.  That's always been the rule with all my friends.  Never go after someone they like.  I'm sorry she did that to you.
292593
its actually betrayal to ur best friend, talk to the guy and then come to a decision and then tell your best friend and.... nooo she'll be mad..tell her that someone else did it with their friend and check her reaction then tell her what happened like after a week if she reacts alright.!!!!!! best of luck
1058337
Yes, I have been cheated on.  But if you ever met my man you would have never guessed that he would ever have done that.  We are still together, he realized what he did was wrong and promised that he would never do that again or I was gone with no second thought. It really hurt me that he would do somthing like that to me, I didn't even find out until a year after it happened. There were some signs though, he became very jealous when I was with any guy or had them in my cell phone and he didn't know them.  There also pictures of the two of them together, he said at first she was just a friend.  Even when I talked to his friends they were shocked.  There is no way to prevent cheating if a guy is going to do it he will.  He told me the reason why he cheated on me was because he said that he wanted to be with me so bad and thought it was me, he was gone for a week. Right before he left I spent a week with him at his lake house and he was telling me that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.  Well it has been 3 years now since he cheated on me and I love him with all my heart, and he feels the same way. He knows now that even if I hear a rumour that he was with another girl it's over and he is scared of loosing me.  That was why I stayed with him when I told him that it was over and I never wanted to see him again, it took him 10 minutes for him to leave and he left with tears. then 3 hours later his roomate called me nervous becasue he hadn't seen him and it was 2 am in the middle of the week. I ended up calling him and had been sitting out my window crying  thinking what is he going to do because he really felt that his life was over becasue of a dumb mistake, thats when I knew that he  would be faithful.  I knew that he really loved me.  I hope this helped!
640347
is it fair or does it make you feel better?\n yes its fair because it makes her feel better about his infidelity. well if you didn't want a kick in the balls, you shouldn't have cheated. haha
1027154
You will find out at some point in your life, that it's not the quanity...but the quality of a "best friend". I have 1 best friend. You will learn the meaning of this, when you are going thru the most horrible times of your life.... and no matter what that person is standing beside you thru it to the end.
1154733
its normal as long as u 2 make-up. sometimes when me and my best friend fight she goes to her other friends and hang out with them just to make me feel  bad. During that time try to find new friends not to be your rebound but just someone to hang out with. Hope you 2 make up\ngod bless
66143
From my experience with a friend, guys feel she is cheating cause he is.  The guilt and thought that she is doing the same thing grows strong and he shows those emotions.