my ex has called my parents home telling them she misses me & 2nd call she says her husband why is that? 1yr?
478191
GIVE HER A CHANCE SHE STILL CARES 4R U..OLD LOVE NEVER DIES
225518
Don't! I think it's just a waste. Seems she's just being polite talking to you on the phone because you were the one who called. She's also just being polite that she didn't want to tell you her true reasons on why she cancelled on you twice. Come on! If she's interested on you, don't you think she will try to give you a call besides you making the call? I know you know the answer to your question, it's just that you don't want to admit it yourself that there is nothing between the two you (or at least nothing on her part).
722838
I dont think you should be talking to your EX at all. And the fact that you are sneaking around makes me think you want something from her. There is a reason she is your EX. YOu should quit contacting her. And when your wife finds out I hope she kicks your scandalous a$$!
640072
I think she has answered your question about her coming back, sounds like she is gently trying to tell you its over.  Have you tried marriage counselling??? You also might want to ask yourself what you did to make her want to leave, did you appreciate her?  Its so hard to advise you when all the details are not known.
605776
she is a very messed up woman and we have very messed up laws that dont protect the rights of fathers - there are some organizations out there that fight for the rights of fathers, you definately should contact them  - I doubt that your ex will see reason, but she is going to have to understand that the kids do need a father figure if she wants a healthy environment for them...
554208
Absolutely it is!! He needs to cut the cord, throw away the security blanket and be married to you! What do they possibly have to talk about? Didn't they break up? Didn't he marry you? She can't be giving him marriage advice that is going to have a positive outcome for you. I dealt with the same situation and my husbands ex put him through hell but she still had this "something" over him. Well, after many heart to heart w/my H, I had to take care of it, its like they feel bad for them or something? Remember, you are the WIFE! Who the hell is she? See ya, go away, bye bye! Or my favorite, turn the tables. Find your little black book (you know you still have it, we all do) and start reconnecting with your old ex's - opps, I mean your old friends. Im sure a few would love to hear from you again. Trust me, your H will loose the number real quick. Good luck "WIFE"
123275
Only you can know that for sure. Why does he talk to his ex wife, do they have children together, then until those kids are at the least 18 and probably longer he will need to talk with her. If he is calling up as there divorce is still new, he may just be concerned that she is alright, ask him why he calls her. My ex called me for months after we broke up just to see if I was alright. You will need to get you insecurity in check for this to work out at all, because they do have a bond no matter what and you have to face that fact. Just talk to him, that is so very very important in a relationship as you can NEVER know what is going on otherwise. Best to you
683242
Yes, you had no right calling him.  Just because it was a guy that she was talking to doesn't mean she was cheating on you.  I can relate to this because I broke a 5 year relationship because of something like this.  My ex was accusing me to cheating on him with someone that was over 300 miles away because I talked to this person everyday.  I asked him to leave over 3 months ago it was hard to break it off with him but I couldn't live with him always looking through my stuff.  Now he says that he shouldn't have gotten into my stuff and acted like he did...but he did it himself over nothing. SUCKS THAT MEN ONLY THINK THEIR GIRLS CAN ONLY HAVE OTHER GIRLS TO VENT AND TALK TO!!!!
1083044
is your exwife a good woman? if she is, then try to repair the relationship for the sake of your sons stability. but your ex sounds kind of flaky. she may be the type that thinks that initial 'spark' is love and that loyalty and commitment have little to do with marriage... because if that was the type of woman she was-then of course she'd be wanting you back once you've found someone else! be careful... you and your ex need to have a talk about what love really is because you need to agree on what's going to happen and how you two will work at it if she miraculously loses her love for you again. remember to protect yourself and your son as well. i hope your ex is a good woman deep down....\n\nGod bless
862268
I think she is just taking advantage of a very good thing.  If she's only contacting you on rare occasions (when SHE needs something) that should be a clue. It sounds to me like she only keeps you around to keep herself happy and doesn't take you seriously enough to dump her other "male company" and get with you "full time" because she thinks you're just a friend (or..... something.......) I am sorry that someone would treat you this way.  Truly I think you deserve so much better - someone who can appreciate your gifts and dinners for all they're worth and return the favor.
458841
Just ignore it. She sounds like she's really not moved on. If she had she wouldn't be thinking about you and making silly calls.
601036
She's playing games. And games aren't fun when they involve someones emotions.\nPerhaps she lives with her strict parents/strange relative, maybe its a work number? But probably not. If she wasn't willing to at least sort of tell you why you shouldn't call - forget her - she's not worth it. You deserve better.\nIf she's just trying to make you chase her - she should grow up and realise this type of behaviour only makes boys run - the other way!
929831
Ouch, maybe you need to change your phone number! Definitely stop answering her calls and avoid ANY contact. Don't give her a chance to curse you out. If she does anything crazy then maybe you need to threaten to get the cops involved.
640640
some times the best thing to do is just let her talk to whoever she feels comfortable talking to.  after she talks to her stepmom do her problems seem to be taken care of, or are they made worse?  maybe that should be your focus.  if she seems calmer after talking to her ex-stepmom why is there a problem.  if she seems worse after talking to her then maybe there is a problem.  your daughter is probably reaching out for someone who she thinks understands her and her situation in life.  maybe you should look at this woman as someone who could mentor your daughter instead of seeing her only as your ex husbands ex wife!!  all in all if it is good for your daughter then let it be.
258533
Thing is talk with her . . . not to chat . . but the next time she called . . . asked her . . . \n\nYou broke up with me . . . telling me that you want to be left alone . . . and not to bug you . . . yet you call me periodically on the way home.  What the f*** is going on?  Until you are able to tell me the truth . . . don't call me again.\n\nDon't worry she will call . . . because you called her out.  But now she will have to explain herself.\n\nDo not give in to her . . . and tell her how it felt when she did all what she did to you.  Odds are she will probably respect you more . . . because you stood up for yourself . . . instead of acting like a p***y . . . you have been.\n\nIn my opinion, take control of the situation . . . and don't let her boss you around . . .
883636
If this was only the first time, I would suggest you let it go, on the babysitters part.  Do you know what made her late in the first place?  Do you have a number for the sitter?  If not, get it.  Your ex should've kept her cell on or picked up when she isn't around her children, what if there was an emergency, you should address that with her.  You were right to call the police, to cover your own azz.  If you feel the need to get a new sitter then it would be best for the both of you to pick that person.
758438
I understand you have a connection with her kids, but sorry guy your wasting your time.  She keeps coming back to you even though she walks all over you...she knows you will be there and relies on you to be there.  You need to put your foot down and tell her you are not her doormat_