!hELp! a guy asked me to be his gf but i dont kno wat to say!!!?
494843
discuss the matter with him, if u do trust me then dnt wait and tell him yes, so u need to think if trust him or not
1052820
Like Nike says,  just do it.   There is no easy way to "let him down".   If you are really being truthful  (and I doubt that you are) about not wanting a bf right now,  just tell him that.  Give him the old line about "just being friends",  the kiss of death.  He may surprise you by saying something like he doesnt want a gf right now either.   Just because he's shy doesn't mean he's made of glass.  He is probably a lot tougher than you think.
1059598
One way of doing it without being direct is to start talking about someone you like. Let it be known that you are interested in someone else. If his your true friend his going to continue been your friend. If he just wants you as a gf then he will end up backing away. I have the same realantionship with one of my friend. He is in love with me and i was honest and told him it could never be between us and that i'm in love with someone else. Till this day we continue to be close friends and he has accepted the fact that there isn't a chance between us.\n\nBest of luck.
402170
Be honest with him. Let him know that you appreciate and are flattered by him wanting to be your bf however, I like you only as a friend and nothing more.  We could be friends if you would like??  This way the damage is minimal and you let him know that you appreciate his offer.
657847
I KNOW he likes you, and he KNOWS he likes you....He's just too embarressed to say it, like you.  Just wait 'till next Friday, He'll most likely ask you to be his gf...I just know it!
627883
Well if the guy is your friend (real friend) ...either if he loves you that way or not ( bf/gf) ....he will still respect you and talk to you ... he might ned time or feel unconftable for the frist 2 weeks but he will get over it if hes not interested...\n\nThe best thing tell him alone ...so no one else can laugh or say stupid stuff ( your friends can be your friends but sometimes they lack brain cells in situations likes theses)\nTell the guy you like him and if he doesnt feel the same way as you its fine, that you dont want the fact that your feelings might hurt the friendship you all have ...that you will survive if hes not interested...that you will not try to make him unconftable...or stalk him ...but if the feeling and similar...it would make you happy...
796310
OK, here it is..the guy is into you. Really he is. He has taken the time to listen to what you have to say even about your family and remembered that. So, if you really like him, what do you have to lose by telling him? Seriously, you only live once and you might as well take this one life that you have and live it to the fullest! I would almost bet money that this guy would be relieved that you made the first move b/c it sounds like he's too shy to do it.  He's probably thinking the same thing you are..wondering if you like him...no matter what you do, have fun doing it! And, it's a good  thing that you go for personality over looks..looks fade, what's inside stays!
328474
explain to him that you feel you are ready to try taking your relationship to the next level to see if your really ready. thats what I like to hear though, that a girl will set a boundry thats cool.
40418
Just be his friend.  If things don't work out with his current gf, then be his shoulder.  You might be next...
284568
He's hoping you either say noone or..him. He's afraid to be rejected. Shock him. Tell him you've been waiting for him to ask. And tell him it's him you like. You'll be back in a few minutes to ask us what to do now that he asked you out, so I'll just wait a few. Enjoy.
375543
Your fear is understandable, Pup. But he might say, yes. Ask him what his gf requirements are, thena sk what he thinks of you. Then ask him out. If he says no, although I don't think he will, don't let it discrouage u from asking other guys.
453703
Well he is taken already so yeah you can't go up to him and ask him how he feels for you. But still talk to him and keep an eye on him. Who knows him might break up with his gf to be with you if he really likes you.
652258
Hi, here is my answer fo you :\n1st i would like to tell you that you should not ask these kind of question but from a girl to a guy like you just be yourself :) ok bye take care
130831
Why waste your time?\n\nWhats he got thats so special you think you NEED him??\n\nGet some self esteem, move on to someone else who appreciates you and is worthy of your time & effort.\n\nThat guy sounds like a game playing idiot.
277849
Slip..., I sure love your avatar!! lol...\n\n Just tell him, you want him too! But you want to take it kind of slow this time. So things don't end up like before!\n\nPlus, it'll serve him right for dumping you the first time!\n\nGood Luck and Best Wishes, Girl.
281616
I think you already answered your own question or why would you even ask it. Isn't just being with him enough why does the GF title have to be there? Chill out and relax, your in for a long ride sweetheart.
874167
Yeah, tell him girl! u have nothing to lose! I know it's going to b embarassing afterwards if he doesn't answer or he says "no", but really, that's still ok, things will b fine in a few days! u can still work to impress him or go for another guy later. But imagine if he likes u back! If you can't work up the courage to ask him face to face, write him a letter, tell him on msn, tell a friend to tell him, get to know him better... Really, there's nothing wrong with telling him u like him, but if he accepts, don't forget to ask him to a movie or something, or u guys might b just hanging there not knowing what to do after. Bottom line is, go for it, be romantic!