My momma says i cant get a boyfriend until high school but theres 20 boys that like me what should i do?
493025
listen to mama she is right its not that serious
881525
U really should wait until you're a bit older, maybe till you're a teenager before you have a boyfriend.\n\n:-)
56843
Do not worry about trying to find a boyfriend. Just be yourself. Get involed in 4-H, school, and other local ativities. Someone is bound to respect your abilities and want to get to know you, then see what happens.
42885
Just go slow.  You have lots of time to grow up and figure things out.  Don't give into pressure to have a boyfriend.  The right time will come.  Concentrate on school work and doing the right things.
344658
Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
416867
It sounds like you need to worry more about school. Guys come and go forever but school is only once. The fact that at least one of them have blown you off says you need to crush on guys that are more your speed,  also you sound like you are way too young to even be worried about immature little boys. If they haven't already seen how great you are then they never will, I'd leave them alone before they start rumorsanyway. And yes guys do start more rumors than you think. Let a guy find you for a change. you can take this advice from somebody who's been there, of course I graduated in '00, but most things never do.\nGood luck hon! And remember guys are never worth worrying about.\n\n-Brandy
405255
Enjoy being 12.  Don't be a follower be a leader.  Not because your 12 year old friends have boyfriends means that you have to do the same.  They are a little to young to be involved with boys anyway, so don't feel bad, take your time.  Get your education, in a few years when you are a successful professional in whatever field of study you choose, they would probably have a few kids, a few baby daddies and no real job.  So don't allow yourself to be influenced and led astray, stay true to what you know is right.  Make yourself proud by doing the right thing and just have fun being a kid.
834262
Sorry your only 12, way too young to be thinking about dateing. Your mom is a smart woman, listen to her. Her reasons are the only thing that matters. Ask her again when your lets say... 15? .. plus boys are morons at that age.. dont ruin your outlook on men at such a young age.. wait
493560
Don't tell her. You're only 17 the chances of you and this guy being together beyond HS are slim to none. Why go thru an unneccessary battle with your mom now? Wait until you're own your own and have a new boyfriend.
891232
I went through this when I was 9. Me and my mom have always been tight but I said, "Mom hey you have to promise not to be mad but at least I am telling you. I got my first boyfriend and I am so happy and I would really like your support!!" My mom was happy for me and supported me in every decision and I wish you the best. Your mom should be happy for you if you are happy with yourself. Good luck I hope you get the Guy.
450855
What should you do?  Wait till you hit high school & go for a REAL boyfriend-type relationship (duh)\nSounds like you're what, about 11?
768413
I guarantee you, that if you have a decent personality and a cheery outlook on life (nice looks help too), there are guys who like you.\nYou dont need a boyfriend right now - even if your friends have them.
1038596
Rather than to put your concentration on boys make sure you're keeping up your grades and putting important things on your plate.  Boys will be around forever don't be in such a rush. Wait till you're a little older. U may find yourself in a not too good position and not ready for the situations boyfriends may put you in. And at your age you don't have to do ANYTHING to get a boyfriend.  They're on the prowl hun, just be careful!
68123
don't get a boyfriend until you are 18+\nmeet boys and talk to them as friends, ask them questions about guys so that you can have a better understanding of what u like and don't like in boys\nwhen older you'll have cool guy friends and wont be blind to guy bullcrap told 2 u only 2 get sex
803342
dont worry about the guys in your school.  Look for an older guy that will take care of you.
800904
Aww, just go out with the boy you like.  Either wait until he breaks up with blackhead girl, which he will I promise, or get together alone with him and put the moves on him.\n\nIt's not very fair of your parents to impose dating restrictions on you.  When you bring him home, just tell your parents that you are - bestest friends, forever and ever! -.  Hang out with him in groups of people who are also couples, like group dating.  Then you can split off from the group after a while and go make out or engage in some heavy petting, or whatever fun thing teenagers' libidos drive them to do.
199311
I think that, that is too young. Yes you could of had one in kindergarden, but that meant nothing. You should at least wait until your in 10th grade to start worring about a boyfriend.