My boyfriend er.. fiancee hung out with his ex girlfriend...?
478487
I would be P.O.ed in the worst way.  What was he thinking?  I'd give some serious consideration to what he's done.  How many other things has he concealed from you?  Doesn't he know that behavior like that shows disrepectfulness for your relationship?  Clamp down on that now!
30669
She is his EX not his WIFE . You are . Remeber that . I had a hard time to when it came to my guys exes , but then one day he asked me if I would like him carrying on about my exes . I wouldnt thats for sure . There is a reason you are his wife and shes not maybe ask him what he loves about you most . Make sure the two of you have special time together , maybe you are just feeling not so special since marriage I hear that happens a lot .
1086445
Ask yourself this baby girl, why are you even talking/messing around with  your ex?  You two obviously broke up for some reason.  Let it go.  As far as your ex, he's just trying to get some from you.  You're worth being treated better than that.  As far as your current boyfriend, i'm sure he would'nt say you were'nt cheating if he were there while you and your ex were fooling around.  And I don't think your current boyfriend has a clear definition as to what cheating is\nLeave the ex alone hun.  This situation has bad written all over it and i'd hate for anything unpleasant to go down.  Good Luck.
80804
Because he is still in love with her. I apologize, but if the man is spoiling his ex then maybe you need to just be friends for now until he learns his lesson the hard way and comes back to the one good thing that he turned away...
465419
ALRIGHT HERE WE GO.IF YOU REALLY LIK ETHIS GUY AND THIS GUY REALLY LIKES YOU AND THE TWO OF YOU ARE SURE ABOUT EACHOTHER THEN WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? GO FOR IT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIS EX. SHE IS AN EX FOR A REASON.MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE HAS TURNED INTO YOUR DIRECTION BECAUSE YOU ARE THE REASON THAT SHE COULDN'T BE.ALSO THE EX S JUST OVERLY JEALOUS BECAUSE HE MAY NOT WANT HER BACK AND HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU BUT SHE CAN'T HANDLE THE THOUGHTS OF SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER FROM TIME TO TIME.I WOULD SAY SCREW THE EX AND DO WHATEVER YOU FEEL IS RIGHT ASLONG AS YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AT THE SAME TIME.GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!!
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
550806
Sounds like a set up darlin!Even im getting paranoid thinking about it....i would say...ask him if he was going out with his ex tonight...yes/no. If answer is no..and it happens again(a similar senario,with his ex) tell him to f off.\n\nIn a nut shell....TRUST your instinct..you will know my dear.
739542
you need to bring it up, because if it hruts yo uand he doesnt knowthat it was an honest mistake it just may keep happening. i think the best thing to do it to sit him down and tell him thats your not being jealous and you understand how much they mean to you. yo ujust felt kinda bad that you had plans and they were broken, and yo uwere uncomfortable with her making it just so he goes you trust him, but you dont want to make him uncomfortable so you seem jealous. but the best relationship is based on trust and honesty and if he knows how you feel, hopefully it wont happen agian. let me knowif you need anything
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I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
268336
I'm in the same situation as you so I understand your feelings very well. \nI think if his ex knows about you, if she knows that he is in a serious relationship with you, then I think you don't have to worry so much about them keeping in touch. But if you are feeling uncomfortable with it, you should tell him that you're concerned about what's going on between him and her. You shouldn't stay quiet as if you don't mind whatever he does. He seems to be very serious about you though you never know what his true feelings are. He must be in love with you, but he still could have feelings toward his ex, and his ex still could have feelings toward him. It happens. \nSo....just open up ur mind and talk to him honestly.
1070391
u show him the pics of u and ur ex :-)\nor  to be serious why do u bother if she is his ex. Just think that he is yours now and thats all.
922706
It sounds like you need to make the decision for him and break it off.  If he is still talking with his ex, then he is not over her and will not be able to fully commit to you or anyone else until he is.  It sounds like he needs to be taking care of his issues with his ex and not getting involved with anyone else until he has that figured out.  You sound more like his safety net than anything and if she was to call him back and tell him to come back to her, you would be dumped and he would be gone.
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Because he has still continued some form of relationship (you say they are friends) for your entire relationship, plus they have 9 months of intimacy that preceded your relationship?\n\nBecause he still hangs out with her?\n\nThat's legitimate, right?  Do you maintain friendship or go to public places with your ex-boyfriend?  Even if other people were around, would your boyfriend have a problem with that?  \n\nIf it bothers you and he doesn't hear your complaint, it's still going to bother you.  Even if he doesn't think it's a big deal.  Even if he can rationalize it.\n\nI highly recommend "Getting To Yes," by Roger Fisher.  It's not a love relationship book, but great for negotiation/communication.  It sounds like you need help convincing him that it's as big a deal as it is to you.  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0140157352/qid=1144087981/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/103-4668860-3658249?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
500679
get rid of her!! trust me i went through the same shit with my ex and turns out he was just playing me and another girl at the same time
1066383
you're not expecting to much, but everyone is different..i'm friends with several of my exes to..but if a significant other really had a problem with it i'd do my best to come up with a comprimise..generally exes are exes for a reason....he should also respect your thoughts and feelings...and not just say it's being jealous...
1138670
He is not cheating on you, but it seems like you need to get your act together and understand that he's not with you just for the papers. You are very special to him, and he is just confiding on an old girlfriend with whom he is just friends with.
226591
OK, so if MY boyfriend goes up to a club with his-ex, is he still YOUR boyfriend?  I don't think the question makes sense.