I'm still in love with my xgirlfriend what should i do?
479575
The best cure for that is time. If you want to speed things up try talking with her as little as possible. Also hang out with old friends that you have not seen for a while, friends you do not have in common with your ex and who are fun. They will make you remember how life used to be when she did not exist. It helps to start imagining day to day life without her.
600914
Well, for starters, I wouldn't recommend you put down the relationship she's in with this guy she met online.  It is entirely possible that she really does love him - the fact that they haven't met face-to-face yet doesn't mean they aren't a 'real' couple.  You can learn alot about someone when your only method of spending time together is communicating! (and not getting caught up in lusty feelings because you're next to an attractive person - this is far more dangerous, especially if you're basing a relationship on that feeling..) \nIt sounds to me like you're being a friend to her, so that's how she perceives you - as a friend, and only that.  You sound angry, and annoyed that she would be interested in anyone but you.  Remember free will - just because she knows YOU want more doesn't mean she's obliged to give it to you, or fall in love with you, or however you want to look at it.  She's going to have her own wants and needs.  There is obviously something this guy is giving her that she hasn't gotten from you - which is why she's with him.  \nSo stop expecting things from her - go date other people, go live your life.  Maybe she will miss having you there for her all the time, and realize how important you are to her. And, maybe she won't - maybe you'll find someone you like better anyway.  Alternately, you could try talking to her about it - and ask her outright if she might want to date you - not just be friends.  Sitting around brooding about how she's dumb for not wanting to be with you isn't the way to get things accomplished.. it's just wasting energy and time that could be spent doing much better things...
816916
Enjoy it! It's so sweet. It seems you have fallen in love. I don't know if I would help you if I could. I guess try really hard to focus on what you're doing. breath.. focus.. and get addicted to the work/thing you need to do. You can keep thinking about her after you're done.
369621
It's obvious you've missed out cos you never said anything to this girl when you had the chance.Painful as it is, you will have to let go cos this girl is seeing your mate.Love does take time to heal but if you give yourself chance, you will be able to love again...just don't let your love for this girl blind you so much that when someone else comes along you fail to see them...keep an open mind
34191
OK, let me get this straight...he went was your boyfriend and then went out with your friend too? Oh! Honey, you need to let go- he is just playing you. i mean- you just don't go out with your x's friends, that's dirty. Besides, you need to be thinking if she is even truly your friend. After all, she did go out with your x and you still love him. Just move on- you can do so much better!!!
114645
Hey look up! ask yourself, do you know anyone who really loves you? how do you know this? \n\nif she's your 'girlfriend', half your problem is solved. it shouldn't b hard to find out whether or not she loves you. look at her behavior. how does she treat you? \n\nif you are close and feel confident enough to ask her go ahead. \n\nyou will feel better once you clear d air.
887696
If you're serious, dont, no matter how much you loved this girl, she is definatly not worth your life,  There are plenty more girls out there, girls that you deserve and that deserve you.  Seriously, you'l find someone else, i thought i wouldnt but i did....\n\n\n\n\nIf your not serious, and this is a joke, well then you are just plain sick....
275382
Dont rush, give her time to think. If you keep houndin her then she'll feel trapped and may break it off. I love you are powerful words. And no, its not wrong at all.
243372
You're feeling lust.  But, it hasn't been that long ago since the two of you made love.  Give her some time to come around.  Don't call her until she calls you.  You have left enough messages so.  If she hasn't called in five days, move on.
36836
Well you obviously love her, if not as a lover then surely as a friend.  The relief from not having to perform the act is quite common. \n\nActually, now that the pressure is off is the best time to determine exactly how you feel for each other. When she said its not working out means exactly that. The relationship as lovers/BFs is not what it should be or wants it to be. Let time pass on this. So you're not interested in other girls. So what? You don't have to be right now. Give it some time, a few months. See if your first GF still captures your thoughts as intensely then as they do now. Seeing other girls now would only confuse you more.
485885
How about for now just let her have her space,you cannot force a girl to love you,but you could be kind to her,be there for her when she needs you and then she will slowly start to relize how she feels,also,don't just stick with her,there may be someone else for you,you never know,for now just keep in touch with her and tell her she will be in your mind while you are in London,hopefully she will feel the same way for you in the future,good luck.^^
785728
If you really love your girlfriend you would have never cheated on her in the first place. So ask yourself this... do you REALLY love her? You already broke her heart when she found out about you and your friend. You seem to be confused, what you need to do is hurry up and make up your mind. If your gonna leave her then hurry up and do it so you don't keep on continuing to hurt her(since you say you dont want to hurt her) Losing someone in a relationship hurts so she needs to do it only once, not over and over again. Let her start her healing process. And if you do want to stay with her, then are you ever going to cheat on her again? You need to ask yourself this. Yes she may have messed around before but you still chose to stay with her.....and two wrongs don't make a right. Have you really forgiven her for cheating on you? Ask yourself that as well. You start with yourself, be alone for awhile somewhere away from both women to think about you and what you want. If you second guessing a relationship your in then it's obvious that your not truely happy.  Good luck!
944919
Hey Thor, I've been there. So, i can feel what you are going thru. Let me tell you this..Leave the past alone. Dont think of it. I didnt see you writting that you love her. True that u have feelings for her & she is ur 1st. But still, she broke up with you.i.e dont want to be with you. Move on...leave ny thing that remind you with her. Look to the future. It will take time to move on i know...but time is all what you have
620260
If you both see each other as "the one", why are you guys not together? You obviously still have feelings for her, so tell her. Talk to her about this. Does she feel the same way?\n\nIf you really think of her as the one you should give it another shot. If that doesn't work, then maybe you should rethink if shes "the one".
1021941
Sweetheart, you are young and in love; I know it sounds like a hard thing to do, but just be her friend, you are both too young to have this kind of stress in your lives. Be her friend, and be a good friend, things have a really weird way of working themselves out, so don't worry, if you love her you will cherish any relationship you have with her. \n\nP.S. You sound like a guy that any girl would be lucky to have, but I have to tell you; this probably wont be the last time you feel this way. I wish you good luck and good love
160366
When you figure it out let me know.I am kinda' in the same situation.I am in love with a girl who is in love with me,yet she is with someone.
434817
dude, seriously, I had the same situation a couple years back. I'd get out of it ASAP. Sorry if you love her but if she's not willing to make a decision, that shows some serious commitment  issues that are going to stay with you too. If you can, just be her friend and move on. She's probably going to be really shocked if you do this, but STAY OUT OF dating relationships with girls like this. It only ends up biting you later!