because i cant get a woman is it right of me to feel jealous when i see couples walking hand in hand.?
483985
It is called coveting... and it is a normal emotion. Why do you feel you can't get a woman? There are millions of women out there just waiting to be noticed. You will never find a mate if don't get out from in front of the computer and mix with the opposite sex... All of us have fears of rejection, but you just have to take the leap and put yourself out there, the risk is worth it. Peace.
315500
Charlie heres the deal.....dont be jealous it is one of the deadly sins..thats a start.  2nd..there is no one in the world worth being jealous of...jealousy just means you want what that person has and if you want it that bad..then go for it, and ask...dont pussyfoot around, beat around the bush whatever ya'll say..JUST DO IT!!!!!
708724
Trying to make u feel jealous!Go get her!
906568
in my case, it's always the friend,never the girlfriend.. i don't know why, but i guess i always give off the feeling that i'm not ready for a more intimate relationship. it has to be the reason.i know why i do this. it's because i'm always afraid to to look like i'm too eager.. i like to play it cool but i always end up being the loser!!
301100
Jealousy is about YOU, not your partner, unless they have done something to give you a concrete reason to mistrust them. YOU have to gain enough confidence in yourself to imagine you've got it goin' on, and there is no way they are going to cheat on you, or dump you, for someone else.
553160
Yeah, just don't worry about it. Let people live and live yourself. You can burn up a lot of energy in this silly competition over a woman's affection. It isn't a contest. There are lots of women who will think you are the man. Let your buddy go through this experience and be confident in the man that you are.
393011
I feel that it is all a matter of contentment.  If you are content with the relationship then you will not care about what else is out there... on the other hand, if you feel that you may be missing out on something then you probably are.
667653
Well it sounds to me that u need to just stop and re-examine ur feelings for awhile. Look inside ur self and see what u really feel for each woman. I would normally say "follow ur heart" but uhh it sounds to me lyk u need to know what's in ur heart b4 u do that. Don't forget u can't love more than one woman at the same time. One of them's gta be based on personality or looks alone. U'll have to figure that out, ask urself out of the two who will make you the happiest? Out of the two who will really BE there for me? when u figure that out, go for it! whoever that may be. and Remember Love is a choice we make from moment to moment! Good Luck!
234671
Put yourself in this situation. Would you get jealous? Yeah, and besides getting jealous you would probably be ticked off that since they got a girlfriend I'm nothing now not even a friend. If she meant the world to her then why could you drop her so easily??? Maybe you should care more about other peoples feeling instead of just your own. Good Luck:) Sorry, if this offends anybody.
894781
I think its because they think they already have you. They dont feel that they have to work to get you excited.  But if it bothers you that much i think you should talk to your man and let him know that you dont just wanna jump in to F**k-ing.  Let him know you exactly what you would like him to do.
1057522
YOUR RIGHT men are dogs and it's not always the girls fault  for what they do (i admit sometimes it is) but I do think that your friends are using the fact that you are angry with men in general against you.  They need to ask themselves if they would feel the same way you do if they were put in those types of positions.  Don't stay mad thought cause one day you will meet a really nice guy that deserves you and you don't want your bitterness to ruin that.  And NO it isn't you I'm married to a  faithful man and I feel the same way you do.
497662
It's natural to feel jealous in a case like you described.....\n\nThink about the reason(s) you refused him in the first place. In time you'll get over it.\n\nBut it sounds like the guy is just looking to have himself a quick meal.....if U know what I mean.
729651
Any man that will make it BLATANTLY OBVIOUS that he is visually interested in other women and then blame it on your jealousy are either 1) ignorant or 2) oblivious to your feelings. Both of which are NOT desirable traits in a partner...When you're with someone, you're with them because something about them made THEM in particular special. Not because they were like every other "mary, jane and suzy" in every corner bar. If his eyes are roving, his hands may find their way there too...If you feel like you cant trust him, the seed of distrust has already been planted. And no relationship can survive, much less flourish and grow, if there is no trust. Although men use the excuse that they're visual creatures and they're only "window shopping" and as long as "they dont touch, its ok" that is a load of sh*t to justify their shortcomings...You obviously know you're attractive. Use that to your advantage, stop wasting time with someone who has eyes for more than just you and find you a mind that will see you for who you really are and not be constantly looking over YOUR shoulder for his next piece....GOOD LUCK, they ARE out there!!!!
641391
Haha this isn't a question.  But it sounds like you're crushing majorly. haha. that's cute. good luck with the ladies!
111456
I don't think you should take that personally.\nFirst of all, it doesn't matter about what they think.\nSecond of all, maybe they are just saying that becasue they are jealous of you for being able to go out with all those guys.
1177691
wrong!...no im kidding..usually u feel that the feeling is mutual..u dont wanna b alone, thats fa sho!!!!!!!!!
821267
I fit your description.  However, I now have a serious problem and am in therapy.  I have never cheated on my wife nor do I want to, but the urge to go do someone else is so intense it is disrupting my life.  \nI had a fairly attractive woman very openly hit on me at a restaurant today (a rare occurence) and holy smokes it took all my strength to not play along.\nIf you are feeling this same way you are not alone.  Therapy will likely help you.  If you don't address it, it will eat you up inside.