what do guys look for in women?
481429
nice, funny, attractive, clean
62019
Well when I look for a man, I look for someone I can be "me" around. Someone who is attractive in his only way. Someone nice, a little cocky. Nice truck or car is a bonus, but he has to be able to make me laugh.
461729
Here's my honest list:\nGodly, Geeky, Brilliant, quirky sense of humor, impulsive, compassionate, politically aware (preferably liberal), honest, sensitive, not afraid of debate, and likes board games.\nAs far as looks, I'm not too obesessed, preferences: soulful eyes, blonde (though I am often physically attracted to African American men as well, so blonde is only a caucasian thing), Clean shaven, tall, skinny, maybe hair a little below the ears-- but that's not important- it's really the personality thing above that does it for me
113555
don't know about the others as i usually don't have many female friends but i know for me someone who shows interest in some of the things i do, someone that i can hold a conversation with, someone that will hold the door for me. he's got to be caring, non judgemental, open minded, open to trying new things (doesn't mean in the bedroom), fun loving, lives life to the fullest, willing to take care of me as i would take care of him. looks aren't all that important but to have a good relationship there is definately a need for a physical attraction but over all it's how he carries himself. if he's sure of himself then i know i can be sure of him.
445545
1) Good looks and a great body\n2) Honesty, respect, potential, focus in life, humor, intelligence, total fidelity, sincerity and affection.
13444
you will never get an answer that completely solves that question.  All women look for something different. some prefer the bad boy, while others look for a guy who is gonna lavish them will gifts.  The best thing to do is be yourself and know that somewhere (a) girl(s) are looking for the qualities you have.  Baseline though women want a man with a sense of humor, someone they can share interests with, someone who listens to them and generally cares about them.
380586
What I look for in a man is for him to be honest, ready to have a serious relationship, a great personality, ability to communicate, basically all the necessary stuff. As far as looks or how he is at sex, I would have to say looks. There has to be some sort of physical attraction for sex to even happen. I am lucky enough to have a man that has it all. Great personality, easy to be with, extremely good looking, and incredible at sex. Usually, if the relationship is good, then the sex sucks...or, if the sex is great, the relationship sucks, but lucky for be both the sex and relationship are great!
777308
It depends on what you are looking for and what your definition of the right guy is.  My first advice is to be less vague.
829897
honesty is probably the best and hardest thing to find, humor is a big one, girls love to laugh. intelligence, caring. etc
380046
Well first off, I'm checking out your pic, just to let ya know.  Same way guys check women but not so obviously, we look, do a double take and smile if you look our way.  Or if we are outgoing, we might approach you and talk.  Watch our eyes, we like same stuff men do, nice bodies.  I love nice big arms and hard firm pecs.
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A good looking smile will always get my attention.\nI like women who are understanding and compassionate.\nI like women who are confident yet not forceful.\nI like women who can stop and appreciate small things like a wild flower in a meadow, a beautiful bird at the feeder, or a spectacular sunset.\nI like women who enjoy the laughter of children.\nI like a woman who is happy with herself because she knows she is who i love.\nI like a woman who isn't a material girl but has substance in her soul.
1032483
It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!
1011134
honesty, sweetness, romance, surprise, trustworthiness, a genuine caring attitude, sense of humor, strong sense of family, a good work ethic (not too lazy), fun\n\ni also think it's great when a guy really likes music, won't be afraid to dance with you, not ashamed to hold you in public, not afraid to meet your friends or introduce you to his, takes care of himself, smart, likes to read, likes to cook (or try to cook for you anyway). \n\ni probably missed more qualities... but that's what i want in a man anyway =)
312651
to me a perfect guy will be:\n1-intelligent\n2-humourous\n3-assertive\n4-kind/sensitive\n5-romantic\n\ni could go on but i think they cover the generic wishes of women.  As for looks every woman has her idealistic look but usually ends up  with something completely different.  Personality will always win over looks but women do appreciate a man who grooms, makes an effort and has good personal hygiene.  If in doubt be urseld cos we love confidence, never be fake. and u know what if she doesnt appreciate what uv got or tries to change u - go find someone who'll love u for what u are. good luck in love.
404708
women have different preferences, the next best thing is to eye for someone you like and get to know her if you're interested..as for the general traits...well, i find the personality very appealing if he's able to handle a sincere conversation, with a good sense of humor, confident, firm in his ideals, never pressure you into anything and respects me as a woman, in terms of my opinion and what i like...sexiness, when he's able to flirt with you in a subtle but meaningful manner...
786538
woman want a man who understands and notices things. the little things like how your hair swirls when your runnig or the exact color of your eyes. they want also not a goopy guy they want some buffness and toughness and a guy who wont treat her differently aroubnd his friends.
1028836
Looks are good, but not actually important. I want a guy that´s really nice, selfless, fun to be around and most importantly will always respect me