If you love him you let him go, if he's for you he'll come back to you. IS THIS TRUE?
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The question you ask implies the existence of predestination. There is no proof that anyone is meant for anyone else. In reality, there are many people who can meet your needs, and the only way to find one of them is to remain open to the possibility.\n\nSo, it's really not about letting go. You want to be happy and you should want someone you feel strongly for to be happy as well. If that person isn't happy with you, then screw em' and move on with your life. Don't be looking for someone to come back. It's fine if they do and fine if they don't.\n\nMeanwhile you stay on the watch for someone else and if you find him, enjoy your life.
472496
If you love me, let me go. If I love you, I'll be back.
190343
Only if he or she loves you too...
882002
as long as he returns your love - you are in good shape - if not find precious love in another - good luck, it's a treacherous road
143858
well, he must like you or is in love with you. the pain of not going back to you hurts and of try to be with you is not so bad. He will move on...
191004
Probably not and you shouldn't want him back.  If he comes back it will only be because the other girl rejected him and he wants you take care of him and make him feel better, not because he actually loves you.
176247
Have you ever heard the saying ' If you love something let it go, If it comes back it was meant to be"? I had tears in my eyes as I read your question, I can feel your despair!! If he wants to go, let him. There really isn't anyway to stop him anyway. Sometimes is takes men longer to realize how they are feeling and if he truly does love you he WILL be back. You need to ask yourself what it is that you love so much about him, Is it the challenge that he wont give you wnat you want, or does he really make you feel like your floating on a cloud and makes you feel loved and beautiful?( which if he is saying the things you have mentioned I dont see how that is possible). I have been there, and he came back, but for me it was too late. I realized that if he didnt feel he loved me before and couldnt reciprocate my feelings knowing how desperately I felt I loved him, he was using me for sex until he could get in the other womens bed. Follow your gut not your heart in this situation. God is telling you what you need to do, just take the time to listen. Fighting for him is going to make ooh SOOOO much harder on you. The pain will be devestating at first but God is there for you to lean on, "He wouldnt bring you to it,if he couldnt lead you through it"!!! I wish you the best!
673712
Yes, if he leaves u because of that he can not truely care for you, don't let him control you!! I have been there and it is hard to get out!!
31215
Oh, baby! How sad? Please don't worry. If he is your true love, he has to come back. No one can stop him coming back to you. There is no end of love. Love does not break. It grows day by day. Separation in love allows you to let know and gauge the depth of love.\nSo, please try once in its true spirit. U are made for each other. God is there to help you.
597690
Well remember the old saying when you love someone let them go if they come back they were yours and if they dont they were never yours..I think he doesnt want to be with you....move on girl there are so many other guys out there...Get over him and go get yourself a new guy;)) believe me its more fun.
1149186
Why not .. if they love you back .. !
1172608
THEY SAY ONCE  YOU LET A BIRD GO IF IT IS YOURS HE WILL RETURN...... AND SO MY ADVICE TO YOU IS LET HIM GO..... IF IT WAS MEANT TO BE HE WILL RETURN!!!!!!!!!!.........
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It is what it is, it will be whatever will be, if your love is for real, and she love you back, Never is inoff,\nLOVE is The ID of the soul, Go for it try it , if she get back with you, learn and be happy ,but do not break her heart again PLEASE
14630
LET HIM GO... IF HE RETURNS, THEN HE'LL STAY 4 EVER. IF HE DOESN'T RETURN, THEN HE WAS NEVER YOURS.
806894
yes. he is no longer interested. if he likes you he would always find ways to be with you.
333139
Sounds like he is just coming back for some action because he hasn't got anything better going on at the time.\n\nThe thing about most men is that they will take it wherever they can get it.  And the more you forgive them and keep taking them back, the more they will think they can get away with.\n\nThe more often you let him come back, the more strongly he will believe that you will always be around whenever he feels like coming back to you.  If he really felt anything for you, he would stay.  You need to tell him no, or he will continue to use you like a yo-yo.\n\nForget about him and find someone who will be there for you all the time, not just when it is convenient for him.
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uhmm.....depends...if you still love him and REALLY wanna be with him, and if he never hurt you, and if you enjoy the things that you guys do together, then you should TOTALLY get back with him! but then again, its depends on the reason why he left...its all up to you