Is chatting with other girls while married considered cheating?
489158
Yes. You are not doing your marriage any good by chatting with other women. How would you feel if your wife did that to you.\n\nInvest your time in your wife and family and stop looking over the fence. The grass is not greener and you will be sorry if you lost a good woman.
594024
Don't you think he's behaving rather unfaithful to you by associating with other girls? How long have you been married and did this happen recently? You might have to confront him about why he wants to give out his work phone number to girls.
591584
I doubt that , I think that it allows someone to step into the sacred ring of marriage. It is cheating, despite the fact that the partners are both compliant to having this other person in their bedrooms. There are too many risks, if your tired of the same situation in the bedroom, do something about it. Spice it up. When you invite someone else in your bedroom, your one step away from the Jerry Springer show. I would think about it. You are also inviting possible disease and the chance of losing your spouse. Good Luck.
557666
No. What she has done is very inappropriate and in my mind, VERY selfish. I imagine she wouldn't like to be on the receiving end of such a thing should you have done that; am I right? Bottom line is this - it is not right for her to spend an evening like that with a man who is not her husband. Period! The mere fact that she kept this from you is an indication that what she did wasn't right. Deep down, she knew this would upset you and rightfully so. But if it were so harmless, she wouldn't have kept it from you in the first place. I think to help resolve this situation you should ask her what makes it "okay" for a married woman to do such a thing? I'd also ask her what makes her think that you should be "okay" with it as well?!
973252
Wow that's different.....I've heard of people doing dirty chatting while they are having sex but not having conversations about other people..  Usually the talk is, if there is any at all , is about how good it is making us feel..................
365009
They say the pen is mightier than the sword, and words have caused everything from religion to wars. YOU know the emotions tied to the words you type, and the words others type to you. If all that is going on is innocent chatting, then no. If you are feeling emotional attachments behind the communications, then there may well be reasons for concern, because you are going outside of your relationship for some kind of fulfillment. If the intentions of the communication are sexual, then I personally think it is not good.
1010502
I have done this and it's a great thing for a relationship in terms of opening up new communication.   \n\nYou are not cheating if your partner knows about it and is there. If you're going behind your partners back then THAT is cheating.\nThat is a BIG difference.\n\nMake up the rules that you and your partner will live by when going to these parties.  and stick to those rules, don't change them in the heat of the moment. and don't force your partner to live by rules that they really don't want.  that will make for resentment.  So you see: you have to be very honest in your communications about this.\n\nnow relax and enjoy!!\n\ntom
121537
Not a good idea.  It is possible to cheat on someone without physical activity between you.  How would you feel if your husband/wife was chatting away on the phone with someone and getting all excited about it?  Put a stop to it right away.
194465
Depends why she's chatting, to whom and about what. She's not cheating on you, is she? If not, tell her how you feel, and spend more time with her. Do something fun together, go somewhere, the important thing is spend time with her and she may not need to chat with others.
500959
I agree with Gill Billy. I've been married for the best part of 14 yrs and looking is a part of life. There is NO way I would ever cheat on my wife however we can walk down the street and have a bit of fun looking. I have had, in the past, invitations to play around and have always enjoyed flirting but never gone any further than that. I love my wife. Would never do anything to jeapordise what we have. I believe its great fun and so does she. Its just something thats a natural part of life to look around...but its personal choice to do or not do anything about it. Maybe I'm just lucky......I dont know. Good luck mate
219002
I'm a teacher and while I don't condone cheating, I don't recommend kids telling on each other.  It's not a good way to make friends.  You know the right thing to do (not cheat) and that's what's important.  The girl in your class may get caught.  If not, she's just cheating herself out of a good education.
502952
LOOK sweetie...married couples are gonna talk...period..you cant get mad at them for that...ask yourself would you get upset if your husband was talk ing to another women all the time??  friend or not i garauntee if its more than a simple hello then you wouldnt like it...as far as your friendship with the girl let her know that no harm was intended and you can still be friends I think...unless just sayinghi dont email him and mess...you might have been talking to him more than his wife was and that can make people uneasy...i would just be careful cuz truthfully he is not your friend he is your friends husband...i hope you can feel me...
522118
You are asking for trouble. You will betray your wife, and even if she doesn't find out (which she probably will) your relationship will never be the same. A lot of girls flirt with married men (sometimes because it is easy because they are unavailable), so if she is just flirting you may also lose a nice friendship with your neighbor. Either way, she doesn't have anything to lose, and you have everything to lose. You could end up having both women throwing you out on your ear - and you would deserve it. You would be a lot better off not flirting back and not spending time alone with her.
986649
Isn't this called cheating?
1136649
As long as both people know that this is just an exchange of e-mail greetings and no one is trying to approach the other person in a way that would compromise thier marriage, it's perfectly ok.\nI have talked with several ladies on here and I am happily married.\nThey know that and respect it. \nGood question
773000
Hai,\nY do u want to keep a relationship secret in the first place? Well if both of them are married to different people ofcourse thats a sin. At times its normal to feel attracted to others ( whn u are married ) but dont let that attraction take u to different directions.I believe its sin cheating ur wife or husband. Its being totally an untrustworthy person !!!! Thats like being a CHEAPO !!!! U would not like if ur wife does that to u right !\nIf u both are not married, then its ur choice to keep it a secret or not and if u both are gonna get married then thats perfectly fine.
203401
If you are in a relationship, you have pretty much said to the other person you belong to them sexually. So if you are sharing anything intimate or sexual with another person, you are cheating. If not physically, emotionally. Is it ok for your partner to have these conversations with other people? Hmmmmmmmm didn't think so.