This guy talks alot about our future together, but we are not together now, what does this mean?
475571
He's "sowing his oats" until he feels ready to settle and is trying to keep you aware that he may plan to "settle" with you.\n\nGood luck!!
301168
he is with someone and he doesn't want that other person to hear him talking to you ,,which means that this person is more important to him than you are. l think you need let him out of your life before its too late and  go on.good luck
191083
it sounds like he just wants to be best friends for now.......;)...hang out some more and maybe your luck will change....
1057029
Given that you live so far away from each other, I would have to say that he found someone else, and is trying to see what happens with that person. I would get out of that situation!!! Do you really want to be a backup plan? Find someone who is willing to be there and not play games with you.
477103
sounds like this guy's bad news from what you've said sounds like your doing the right thing, I'd say he's jealous, he's probably thinking if he cant have you no body else can. good luck & keep up the good work as i wouldnt have any thing to do with this guy eather
671831
realize that because you are not longer together, his opinions and perspectives no longer have any real effect on you.  Be confident and happy with yourself and who you are.  Don't worry about what he thinks.
827774
Sounds like you need to have a talk with him.
170890
he kind of told you you'd be together? Baby no it  isn't worth it to hold on to a kind of promise. Live your life the way you want to like if he wasn't in it chances are he won't be in it much longer if he can only make kind of promises.
662337
One can't read the mind of other. But he definately likes u & that is the reason he is in touch with u. U never know what future is going to bring for u. Be strong enough to accept whatever life offers u. Today is the time u guys can move into the relation & there is definately a possibility that he also loves u & wants the same. So do what ur heart says & make ur mind acceptable to all the outcome
320797
he's taking the time to message you..maybe he's just busy this week. don't worry about it unless it becomes a way of life. but in the meantime find ways to be busy yourself, it sounds like you have made this guy your whole life and that is never good, you can't be part of a couple without also being yourself.
152086
Sounds like he would like to get to know you better to decide if you're someone he wants to spend more time with or not.  Talk is cheap and can lead to more and better stuff.
1068919
It`s a con.He`s having problems with his current relationship or in between women and is trying to fill the gap. Do what you must but be wary,out of the blue,huh? Hope the best for you. There are some decent men out there and I would bet you are a nice person so don`t settle for a drifter.(user)
974410
Maybe he is hurting and still loves you and does not know how to let go.  You sure that he does not want to keep talking with you.  Did you ask.  I know you said that you said you both see other people but your not married and your maybe able to reignite and old flame.  :)
993374
He sounds confused, maybe he doesn't know what he wants..He would love you in the future? Does he have a specific date on his calendar or what? Maybe he likes someone else and just wants to keep you on the back burner..Sounds strange anyways
698169
he's acting like that because you are going to be divorced soon and I bet he is married.... just from the way he is reacting, so move on dear - and give yourself time to heal completely before trying to get into another relationship. (you have to resolve all the issues that lead to your failed marriage - if you don't you'll drag that old baggage into another relationship.) If there was anything there you two would of met in person.... you talked for a long time without meeting and that should of told you something about him. (I've only met one man online who wasn't married and he was honest with me about his personal life and that's the man I'm married to! We talked for about 2 months and then we met in person - he helped me with coming to Canada to meet him.... and we "clicked" - and got married 3 months later! We have been married for 4 yrs. as of Sept.28th).... While I was single and chatting with men online for years --- they all turned out to be married or living with someone(with whom they had kids with).
608838
Start making plans for your life - and give him the option of being part of your future.  If he's still not catching on speak it out clearly to him, let him know you need to know what his plans are or else move on.
665694
Wow!  I'd sit him down and really talk things out with him.  Discuss the possibility of a romantic relationship and a friendship.  But really, build it all back up and do it without other friends interferring.  Just talk it out.  He's probably confused too.  Good luck and I hope everything works out well.