what would u do if your friend waz dateing a real mean and bad person what would u do to help that person?
477856
you are too young to date\nthere is no true love in middle school
509972
Just call it a bad answer, but I'd kill him. Then again I'm in a bad mood, soooooo. I suppose she should break up with him, no girl deserves to be beaten. And you, being the guy, have to take responsibility and see her once in a while. You know, like spring breaks and stuff.
380303
Tell her to explain things with him. However, do not interfere with the girl's problems, especially since she will think you are helping to draw her away from her current boyfriend. Or, more directly, you can talk to her boyfriend about the crime he is doing and ask him why he would actually harrass her friend. He's probably not the real boyfriend your crush should have.
416631
If you are really her friend and not just someone trying to hurt her feelings , then I would tell her how people view her and that in the long run she is going to be the one hurt by this behavior. I knew someone like that once, and when she decided to change and get her life back on track ,she actually had to move out of state before she could find someone that wanted to have a relationship with her because everyone knew her reputation.
947462
He's a good friend, and she is 'just' his girlfriend.  You are fully within your rights to take him for yourself.  Just convince him on a purely logical level, and then call her up and let her know that he's not with her anymore, or something like that.
610873
talk2ur friend first he should know, then if he blows up when u say what ur gonna do, go for her he should respect you,
925515
Get rid of the one that went out with your friend, because it will only get worse.  Stay with the one you realy love, because he may give love back to you, which will make you feel good outside and in.
361974
Talk to your friend and tell her he deserves better, he deserves you. But try not to cause too big of a fight.
484951
Tell her , that you want to learn the hard way if she thinks he is so terrible! That she should leave you , and if you bump your head , you know not to do it again in another situation!
497123
Well, if your friend is like one of my best friends, then there is nothin you can do. If she hasn't learned in almost 3 years, then nothin you do or say is going to convince her that he is not the one for her. I've been going through the same thing with my friend since we were in middle school, but she is the type that you can't tell her anything about her man because she's "grown and knows what she's doing". As bad as it hurts me to see her continuously choosing to date abusive (physical and emotional) and disrespectful men, I know that she will have to learn on her own. Just pray that she'll come around -soon.
870617
If your best friend is going out with him, then she's not a very good friend is she? If she's not, she respects you a lot. Be there for her when the guy dumps her for someone else, and if that someone is you, remember what happened, and tell him to find someone else's heart to break.
628687
If I found out they were dating behind my back, I would dump BOTH of them, not 1. Just to make the process more efficient! :)\n\nCheer up, sh..t happens, you know.\n\nGet a new best friend, and a get a new boyfriend, too.\nHarsh to say, but this may be the only clean way out of this mess. \n\nDon't torture yourself... but defend yourself, as much as you can. Don't let your self-esteem go down beause of the two pigeons.
201320
Don't be a bad person. Let him go... \n\nYou had your chance, if he is happy with the other person you should not destroy his relationship.
72433
Don't do anything.  If nothing develops with your friend and the guy for a certain amount of time, let's say a month, then tell your friend you wish you could date him.  \n\nShe might be cool with it, if not, then you should really try to hook them up with each other, because it would be no fair to you, if she didn't do anything at all.
1025627
i think if she is actind different or like bad u should go up to her and ask her what's her problem and if she treats u mean or bad leave her alone and stay away. get u another bff. someone that will not change in like a bad way
525853
i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
852272
Unfortunately there is nothing that can really be done here.  Be patient with your friend and let her feelings run their course.  Eventually she will realize how she isn't meant to be with him and begin the healing process and then begin to forget him.  Either that or she will meet another man that make her forget this guy.  Maybe you could recommend that she go on a date with a guy that shows interest in her.  Remind her that maybe she should give someone else a chance.