my bf went behind my back with my bsm8 and now im pregnant what can i do plz help me?
486917
well the first thing you do is tell your bf.\nyou both need to talk about how you feel about the baby.\n\nYou are going to be facing alot of choices and decisions.  Take time to sort through them all. This is a huge step in life no matter how you handle it.\n\nat this point your best mate has nothing to do with the decisions you have to make. Deal with that issue later.\n\nBest of luck!!!
114463
I would say your man doesnt respect your feelings for him or respect you. If he did he wont be behaving the way he is right now. I suggest you dump him. That should be your goal. Get selfish. And being selfish is not getting back at him or getting even, its just you are trying to protect yours and ur baby's future. Find a job, start working, be a woman, be empowered, live life and find peace.
405288
i dont know but im trying to get preg right now and my bf does it..and it hasnt happened yet :(
608860
Go to your doctor NOW and tell him about the bleeding and miscarriage. NOW!!!
184135
It is very hard to sad to deal with. Do you have family near by? That helped me. Do you work? Praying really helped alot! Do you have IM? does he have it too? I know on the AKO you get install the IM and that saves some heatache. \nI remeber when my hubby was there. I was 4 months preggers when he left. That was very diffcult. But you have got to keep your self busy.  I know it sounds mean but you really have to. Hang in there and I will keep you in my prayers as I do for every miltary spouse and their spouses!
863778
bring your own food  or you can cook your own meal and explain that you are on a strict diet.  they should understand, if not dump your bf.
1063005
First of all, if you are feeling ashamed because your bf wants you to be skinny, then you need a new botfriend.Seriously.No man should make you feel that way and he should love you for you, not just your body.IF you think you may be pregnant, take a test.then you will know.IF you are, then you NEED to be eating and you HAVE to gain some weight to carry the child safely and for it to be healthy.Then he will just have to deal with it and if he dosent....kick him to the curb.
426931
no!!! he made his choice to give you up. no offense. but he went off and got another girl pregent. if you take him back you are creating difficulties for yourself, him, the mom, and the baby and both families. he made his choice. he is missing out on life while you are enjoying it. plus being single ROXS!!!!
310372
Tell him that your pregnant and see what his reaction is.
505191
I have been in almost the same situation. my bf got his ex gf pregnant while we were on a short break. I went back to him and now the child is almost 3. The ex is CRAZY, wont leave us alone. We have to pay 127 a WEEK in child support, which we cant afford and havent been able to pay the whole 127 a week so my now husband will be going to jail fairly soon. To make matters worse the ex had another son 6 months ago, 10 days before my daughter was born. and is now claiming it is my husbands. SO all I can say IS LEAVE HIM. It will never end. You will be alot more happier without him. ' YOU DONT WANT DRAMA WITH HIS BABIES MAMA'.
298416
Wow! Sounds like you have a psycho boyfriend. Ignore him, don't answer any phone call, if he goes to your house hide, and a drastic one you can tell him that you are a lesbian, or that you are pregnant of somebody else.
405780
first of all..you must think what would happen next after you got pregnant..think about your baby if how will he/she will live?and if ur boyfriend will still be your boyfriend after the pleasure besides he can broke up with u because ur not married right? and make sure you're ready to face challenges..because having a family is not a joke...its really hard..think about it..ok? yes i know you love him also but never get to the point that you'lll give all of yourself to him..remember you must not give yourself to a person without leaving something for yourself because someday somehow, you'll realized that you gave everything for the wrong person without leaving something for the right one...if u need advices.... email or im me OK?\n\nmy yahoo id: bugs_41099@yahoo.com\n\nhave a nice day!
174995
Do you really want a man that will turn his back on his unborn child, let alone a man that supposedly is in a relationship with you that goes out getting his so called close friends pregnant. Wake up Sister...dump the creep. You deserve better.
104693
First of all, the guy didn't do it TO you.  You both got pregnant.  Basically, you have 3 options.  You can live up to your responsibilities by finding a way to properly raise and support this baby, you can put this baby up for adoption by the many many couples who are unable to have a baby on their own, or you can terminate the pregnancy.\n\nI was in this situation and couldn't bear to terminate the potential life of my new baby, didn't want to give the baby up for adoption because I knew I would always wonder how the baby was and where he/she was.  So I kept the baby and to this day (14 years later), she is the love of my life and we are happy and healthy.  It can be done, you just need to find a way.  If you cannot find a way, there are SO many people out there who would love to raise your baby as their own.
1048205
Call your nearest Planned Parenthood office and tell them what you told us. And insist that your BF get a check up too. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/......
1149284
have your boyfriend get treated.  \n\n(make sure he's not dipping his wic somewhere else and bringing it back to you)
524818
tell to back the f u c k off cause that is ur man n  ur having his baby