Why are so many men just into oh i just wanna have fun crap . Why dont they wanna settle down any more?
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All men do not fill or act this way..
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for some men its a fantasy to be fullfilled, in other yes its a matter of maturity.. women now a day as men tend to loose the morals and maturity instilled in older generations. then again it could just plane fact that some ppl enjoy being with other ppl... as long as there is love why shoudl it matter.
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when the things you used to enjoy (clubbing, partying, staying up till 4 in the morning, dating several guys) arent fun anymore. when you'd rather curl up with a good book and a glass of wine and have a quiet evening. when the guy you're with makes you feel like there are no other men on this planet.\n\nthat when its the right time to settle down in life
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Do you really want an answer . . . this is not a competition where you notch your bedpost for each person . . . \n\nI had enough . . . and you should go out and have fun . . . don't count . . . because who really cares.\n\nAfter you have had your fun . . . go to college and get a great career then . . . you may look to find someone serious.  But I still wouldn't recommend marriage . . . because what is in it for a guy that he doesn't get without being married.  Absolutely nothing . . . because you can have the same exact thing . . . being single as well as being married . . . unless you want to give her half of everything you own . . . after you get divorced (That is what is in it for the women - - they get your stuff and you money and you can't sleep with them anymore.)\n\nAs for how many . . . who care . . . just have fun and play it smart.
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Oh my God this drives me NUTS!  I do not know -I think they are desperate for attention and they want the married person to crave the single life again.  You know, it's the whole, "I'm single and hot and you're married - your life must be dull so let me show you a good time."  Women do this even more then men and it's disgusting.  All they want is a piece and once they get it, they're long gone.  It's just sad.  Good question!
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the con census among the ladies here seems to be one of division. some want the guys to act like cave men (so they can secretly complain about it right?) and the other half want us to show our emotions (so they can secretly complain about it right?)\nmaybe all of us fellas should take you gals on the same emotional rollercoaster you take us on and, give you equal doses of both....randomly, so as to upset and confuse you so you'd know what it's like to live with you. HAH!!!
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simple guys are horny and r in such a rush to do it they don't even care if it's with the wrong person.fortunally there are good guys out there who are willing to wait for the right time. stick to those boys
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i think because women have made it to easy for them (easy sex, on demand when they want us, etc,) we demand nothing and settle for anything\nwe allow this kind of behavior YES I have allowed this kind of stupid behavior and found myself hanging with a guy and his stupid friends we have to demand more, expect more, and not settle for stupidness
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Be happy or want to die one or the other.\nFor some sex just complicates things.Which stops them from doing it aside from every so often. In other words for these pople sex is just over rated either that or they just CANT GET IT UP.For these poeple they will just keep living life like they were before........sex free\n\nFor other couples sex is life.Without it they are nothing and life means nothing heck for some poeple sex is theonly thing they are good at so for those poeple they would probably rather just die.....because there is no more sex\n\nNo offense but honestly if this was to be fulfilled it seems to me like men would be having more of a problem.Woman can withhold from having sex for a long time but men on the other hand well most of the ones i know will seriously freaking bug out.Plus men are the ones who are normally the poeple craving sex woman on the other hand would just much rather talk or cuddle we dont own up to it but thats the truth.For most people and or most couples
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It's the thrill of the Hunt that drives most men.\n\nIt's like that feeling you get at the beginning of a relationship where everything is new and undiscovered. There's no bigger rush.\n\nIt's a shame men feel they have to lie though. A lot of lasses I know would happily go along with a fun night out and a bit of 'pash' at the end of it. Perhaps it's their fragile egos.
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men dont like the whole relationship thing simply because they get a tied down feeling....i think its alot like getting old,.... we dont want to do it mainly because we know there are things we have to give up.   maybe because we are not able to do them....
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men mature slower than women.  they want a good time when the women are looking for husbands.  so unfortunately it's up to us to wait for them to want it.  There are a few out there who are great guys... but unfortunately they get snatched up by a few great girls.  sigh. \n\never feel like "everybody's buddy, nobody's hunny?"  lol- that's me.
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You're third word in your question is the answer...because they are MEN!\n\nI know exactly what you're asking, and why you're so confused...they play because they can, but I also think its because they're less comfortable with commitment than we are.\n\nNot much to do about that except accept them as they truly are, and hope all goes well!
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Women always want men that they cannot have. It's a challenge to them, especially if they think they might have a good chance at fooling around with them. Some women thinks this is a good way to get a man without all the commitment and attatchment. They simply think it's exciting to be with a man that's totally off limits. A lot of women do it to prove a point about men, period.
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If guys got pregnant, there'd be A LOT LESS SEX going on!!!\nAnd we don't get pregnant by ourselves, do we?\nAnd while you're trying to start crap, let's explore the reason why men leave their pregnant girlfriends.\nAre they immature? Yes. Are they willing to 'play' but not 'pay'? Yes. Are they God fearing? No.
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Nope...there are Lot's of people who want no strings sex...some folks are very judge mental of it others are down w/it...gotta find the right people...a good spot I found was adultfriendfinder.com for no strings sex in my area.
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life is not all about sex. we think about how fun they may be or  how they could make us laugh. it kinda sucks that you guys only want sex. what has happened to ppl to day?