should i go out with my best guy friend?
487707
it depends if you like him or not, if you do, then yes, but dont bang him, sex ruins relationships
678395
You should be there for him! He has been honest to you and you need to support his decision! Thats what friends are for.  Thats so cool actually because id like a guy friend that was gay.  They are so sweet and caring and make the best friend out of everyone.  Accept his decision and carry on with your friendship as normal.
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
307561
No, my best male friend is going out with a much older women... They love each other and they might actually get married... As long as your happy, thats all that counts. Heidi
31678
don't "do" anything until you've found out if your friend is cool with it.  just be open and honest with him and if he's your best friend he'll understand whether or not he feels the same way.\n\nif you both DO feel the same way then just go with it and see what happens.  it sounds like you're probably young so just do whatever feels right.  just remember to respect each other and don't hurt one another (physically or emotionally!)
768962
I say go for it. As ur long as ur not fooling urself that it's more then it is, I understand how it can be comforting to have someone to hang out with in a more than friendly way. as long as the guy is sensitive to ur situation and cares about u as a friend as well as a 'sensual' buddy, u can make the most of the situation!
654529
My opinion is that ur best bet is to stay friends with him i was once in love with my best friend and we started to date and i lost him forever! trust me you don't want that and if you really love him you will save the hurt from both of you! you know what i am saying i know it will be hard for you to not go out with him but think about it when yall start dating you will find things out about him that you never knew and on top of all that alot of problems will arise! So trust me on this girl stay friends its for the best of both of you! Save the hearbreak!
441940
i think you should take the risk...i started going out with one of my good friends, and we ended up falling in love.  since you guys started out as good friends, i think no matter what happens you'll always be close.  who knows, maybe he'll be your true love
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
776887
You should definitely go with the guy that you'd have the most fun with. Going with the guy you like may not be the best idea unless you're sure he's into you too, otherwise the whole night you'll catch yourself stuck impressing him and feeling hurt when he doesn't goggle over you. Dances should be fun so take advantage of that and go with a guy that you are great friends with and comfortable being with! Good luck with your decision!
257150
sure but make sure your friend never finds out because who would you rather have a boyfriend or your bestfriend you choose.\n\ngood luck!
284657
I think that you should go out with the boy that you think is the BEST for you, and who is the sweetest to you ect. I really like this one boy and I think im in love too! If I were you I would go out with the boy who was the sweetest to you and who really showed that they care about you, thats what really matters!
269330
Best friends, hmm, I am 34 yrs old and still have the same best friend since I was 12. We shared everything except the guys we dated or liked, til this day. No matter how handsome he was, or how much we were over them, etc. We just weren't into sharing 'sloppy seconds'. We just felt the same way about  dating or liking a guy the other use to date or like, we chose to not go there. At 12 yrs old we thought it was gross to like each others has beens, something we agreed we'd never do that to each other. We seen how that destroyed friendships, it almost always does. \n\nAnd even if your best friend encourages you and gives you the okay, until she sees you two together, things will more than likely be different. Remember what and who is important before you choose to like your best friends has been. \n\nThere is no guy worth jeopardizing my relationship with my best friend. Guys will come and go, you can only have 1 best friend. I am glad we chose hold our friendship above that issue.
511127
it depends how much u like him if you love him sometimes you have to do what is right for you but if you dont love him you probably should think about the saying friends before boy friends (or in this case your almost boy friend) but believe me if he starts going out with your friend it is ok i know how it feels the guy i liked all year asked my best friend out but what hurts even worse is that she knew i liked him but still said yes. anyways this is about u well good luck remember do the right thing.
345852
First of all a guy is not worth a friendship!!!\n\nYou should not be in their relationship either that is just going to cause problems, especially since you are friends with both of them.\n\nAlso if you date him she will be mad at you and then if you and him break up he will be mad at you to and then you will not have a best friend. And I honestly dont think you want to risk both of their friend ships just because of the crush you have on him!
573818
You need to have a talk with your best friend about how you two are always going to be best friend through thick and thin always and forever.Guys come and go but friends stay forever.