my boyfriend went out of town last night and we got into it yesterday should i kickit it wont hurt him?
477906
Okay, forget what you should do this weekend. Wondering whether or not you should hang out with your girls isn't what you should be worried about. If your boyfriend is violent then you need to get out of that relationship. There is no excuse for a man to lay a hand on you. Tell someone you trust what's happening. Break up with this guy. Keep someone around you at all times in case he tries something. If there's physical evidence then go to the police. Just get out before it's too late and you end up in a hospital or ditch somewhere.
688857
Being honest about your feelings you should keep it straight forward and to the point knowing that you have done this will make you feel alot less guilty about hurting his feelings
724592
No you shouldn't be concerned.  In a relationship both people are going to need their space once in a while.  It is wise not to rush into things you might regret later.  It will blow over.  Good luck, God Bless.
316692
it would make it easier on you now that he moved out and away to say to him you really feel you need your space. just let him know you've never experienced life by yourself. you were 19 when you got into this and now that your 21 (my 21 b-day is in 7 days i so syked!), you're old/young enough to experience everything you've wanted. if you feel you want to go out and have fun as a single more power to you to follow your heart and do what'll make you happy! GL
559276
If you actually love the person and are in a committed relationship, then he will care enough about you to go as slow as you need to, and to stop if you want to.  if this is so, then it won't hurt too badly.  it feels a little tight the first time, but not unbearable.
1056849
Going out with boyfriend....
564651
I remember how I felt when I left my sweetheart.  I was only able to see her once a weekend.  She lived like 20 miles from where I lived and I had to take the bus every Saturday to see her.  Man, what great times.  But at day's end, my heart hurt something fierce.  Don't feel embarrassed.  You may be afraid to lose this great feeling you have.  You don't ever want it to go away.  This is your insecurities talking.  You need to know that you are everything he wants.  Gain confidence in you and your relationship.  You possess the power.
238186
Well yeah! If you dont want to go, you dont want to go, dont you think he would like to know this now then before he makes all the plans and your 2 hours from taking off... lol seriously keeping what you want to do from him for the sake of his feelings can end up hurting his feelings even more in the long run :) Trust me on this one babes :)
763505
I went on dates feeling like you do and to my surprise wound up falling hard?????????????????  What is the problem here?  You are getting out of the house!  Make the most of it.  If you go tomorrow thinking you won't have a good time, for sure you won't.  Why not go into this looking at it as having a night out and making the best of it.  How do YOU know you won't have a good time? You might just be surprised.  Also consider this.......when you are out there, you might just run into your real soulmate.  They can turn up in any place at any time, and when you least expect it.
24436
Yeah, have some fun and new experiences. And if u get scared u'll get some comfort 4rm him. hehe
1028972
TIME TIME TIME\nYou 've only gone out with him for a month, that is not a lot of time. \n\nIf he has the "Peter Pan syndrome" you are doomed to never been able to counsel him no matter what.\n\nItss natural though, to be closed, when someone has hurt you so much! That is absolutely normal, and I dont think you should be only worrying about sexual relations at this point, and you should consider why you have to rush in to a sexual relation for it to be valid?\n\nThe guy needs his space, give it to him, or you will push him out for good.\n\nBe nice to him and no pressure if you want a more responsive action on his part, but dont make him feel bad or you will also hurt him and maybe he will dump the entire idea of you.
52826
There is no way you can get around not hurting him.  It is going to happen.  Sorry!  Just be honest and talk with eachother.  I'm sure you are grown and can handle the situation.  Best of Luck to you!
1044617
Boyfriend, don't do it! \n\nBe blessed and don't jump into that forced mess.
153203
Think about how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot!!  Definately DO NOT repeat what was told to you in confidence UNLESS it means danger to someone.  Be a good friend...Go with your gut!!
654585
Thats not good you lied to your boyfriend, and went to your EXBOYRFRIENDs house! How can you do that to him? Why did you go anyway? How would you feel like it if he lied to you and told you he was going home, but went to his ex's house? Im sure you wouldnt be dandy! You can lose someones trust in a nana second! And it is s h i t y hard to get that trust back. And if the relationship doesnt have trust and honesty...than that relatiosnhip is   b u l l   s h i t!\n\n\nAnd for your other question, that your boyfriend found you in your boyfriends car, and he accuses you of cheating. Yes. He has a right to. If you wanted to go pick up your stuff, than you shouldve gone with your man!! your killing your relationship sweety, and thats not fair for him! \n\nSo make up your mind and stop hurting your bf and lying to him.
766147
you made a mistake and went anyway thats why he's pissed... i would be too... if i told my bf not to go out... and i knew he was in a jacuzzi with two other girls... thats crossing the line.. i think he has every right to be mad... if he wasn't mad then that means he didn't care about you... but he is... he will probably be pissed for a few days but he'll get over it... if you love him you should do some serious making up with him... good luck
1143902
If you haven't been seeing each other long then just ride it out. What could it hurt.