How do I go up and talk to a girl and not look like a fool?
478377
Here's your BEST ANSWER:\n\nMy husband was shy (wait this may not work for you because I liked him back) But look I never really knew he was there until he spoke up. It was hot because I did know one thing about him, he didn't speak to just anyone, that made me feel good.\n\nIf she likes you, she WILL notice you! And the fact that you are not like the other boys that are loud and careless, might just play in your favor. Just let her know she was worth talking to. Simple as that!\n\nFor example, try to find some thing she likes and go from there. Watch the movie HITCH. that can help you get into the mood. But please be yourself, DO NOT CHANGE for her, atleast not til she's your wife or something, but that's another story.
617832
We're not hard at all. It's just because boys get all nervous and act stupid in front of us. First impressions are very important to girls. So basically when you talk to a girl, just be natural. Not like natural as in a cool dudish way (that's just way too fake), but just be yourself. And if you get nervous, don't try to hide it. Cause the more you hide it, the more stupid things you say, and the girl will end up getting pissed. So yeah, don't hide it, and the girl will think it's really cute that you're nervous and will feel moved by your attempt to talk to her.
203796
For God's sake! Talk to her! Simple thing- sometimes hard to do, but most girls don't have a clue if you suffer in silence. Find out what her interests are so you have a safe topic to discuss and then have a conversation. Don't be a show-off or try to impress her with what you've got or who you know. Make it all about her and you're sure to get her interested. Good luck!
777178
Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
420425
I would suggest approaching them within the first three seconds of noticing them. Don't think about anything. Just go up to her and speak. Make sure to maintain eye contact. Make sure you smile.\nJust speak honestly, tell them your mostly shy, but you want to get to know them.\n\nIf you fail then don't worry about it. Don't kick yourself in the arse - its not the end of the world. Every time you do it, you'll get better at knowing what to say... just make sure your attention is on the person your talking to (not on your own behavior or attitude). Women like confidence. Even if you can fake it.
113277
talkin to girls is easy. you dont really talk just listen to what she will say. most girls now days are all about themselves anyway so they dotn care what you have to say
461181
just start off with something to make her laugh or compliment her. i know thats what makes me want to talk to a guy...it even leaves me wantin 2 talk 2 him more sumtimes. Hope this helped
150623
First of all, it's important that you be yourself.  Don't make yourself into what you think she may want, it'll end in failure.  Girls like to be approached by nice guys who are real.  Be inviting and fun.  Make her laugh and show that you have a genuine interest in being more than friends.  Don't rush anything, or be too bold, but do be honest.  Good luck!
213418
Start talking to girls. And talk. And talk some more.\n\nAnd when you've finished doing that, go ahead and talk some more.\n\nSeriously, the best way to get girls is to talk to them. Get to know them. Their favorite foods, their hobbies, etc. Nothing pleases a girl more than a guy who is geniuinely interested in hearing what she has to say.
849232
go up to her and talk to her. don't be shy, tell her a joke. ask her whats up. just go up to her and say hey.
1056602
My best advice for you is to Practice, Practice and Practice.  Walk up to girls and ask them a question. ask them their opinion of something. (learn Palm reading) then ask them if they want their palm read.  it does not matter if you or she be lives in it its a fun thing to do and its an ex use and naturally way to start a conversation.
967501
Talk to her and get to know her. Make sure you don't speak "Gibberish" in fornt of her
67867
but when she approaches like that most of the us guys will be too stupid/shocked/confused to give the proper answer.\nso i suggest you start a conversation and see how it goes.don't forget about the body language \nhehehhee
704959
I'm a girl, and if a guy randomly started talking to me I would think something was up. Most girls would probably assume that the guy is attracted to her or something. So, I say try to be next to her or close to her. Try to sit by her and join the same clubs as her. Establish some more similarities and then it will make more sense if you approach her...
522799
Open your mouth and let the words flow.\nTry this, pretend you are on a planet that does not differentiate between beautiful and not beautiful. Start talking.\nNever assume that because a girl is pretty she won't talk.\nIf you act like a leach, then you'll have no luck with any girl, no matter what she looks like.Be a gentleman.
581842
It's not that big of a deal and you don't need to resort to 'tricks' to pull it off. Most girls probably get sick of all the smart-a** lines and crazy 'methods' anyway.\n\nJust talk to her, get to know her a little, ask her questions. You'll soon know if it's working out and then you can proceed to part 2: ask her out, get her phone number, whatever, just don't let her get away if you can help it. And by that I don't mean follow her, hassle her, or anything not cool.\n\nWhen you talk to her be interested in her and what she's all about. If she asks you a question don't use it as an excuse to switch the topic to you, unless she keeps pushing for more info. That way, you'll make her feel special and she may even come away from the experience thinking, "Wow! This guy's different!"\n\nGood luck!
350414
I used to have your same problem.  First get in shape so that you are confident about your appearance.  Then go out to bars and clubs and talk to as many girls as you can.  At first you might have to pump yourself full of drinks to get the courage to approach the ladies.  But believe me, like anything else, the more you practice the better you will get.  Once you start taling to a lot of girls, by trial and error you'll know what and what not to say, and how to act.  Eventually it will become second nature to you and you will have the courage to just ask girls out.