how do people come out to their parents?
483964
Then talk about it with your parents and friends and feel them out first see what thier impressions are and the negitive reactions you get. Your parents are one thing and should love you unconditionally. Your friends? Well, they could look at you like you have two heads from here on out.\n\nTough choices for tough love.
33525
Tell them.  Sooner or later they're going to find out.  When that happens they may assume you were up to no good. Why?  Because you didn't tell them.  If you want any chance at seeing and talking to him then tell them first.  Besides, don't you want your parents to trust you? You trust your parents?  It's a two way street!!
127533
ask them.  be respectful.  have trust with your parents. and most importantly dont ask to go to something you know for a fact they wont let you.
6653
hey there I totally understand where you stand because I was there myself at one point and time. But first you have to evaluate everyone in your family to figure out how much they care for you as their child/sibling. your best shot would be to tell the family member(s) that you are closest to and most comfortable around in order to see how they accept it. you would be better off starting out slowly; however this approach may not exactly work for everyone. so all I can really say is start slowly, telling a few people at a time, and then find an approach that works for you. maybe have a friend (NOT a f*ck-friend) that knows (and is cool with it) present when you disclose. worst comes to worst, have someone else tell them when you are not present. I had a great deal of difficulty coming out to them myself, but all I can really suggest that you find a way that works...for you. I do not know your family, but if they really love you, they will accept you for who you really are.
764373
She needs to come out to them without you there.\n\nHer sexual orientation is not about you.\n\nIf she comes out with you sitting beside her you become the "dark witchy" woman who "turned their daughter gay".\n\nI think you'll all be much better off if she tells her parents separately and once they have had a little time to digest they can start getting to getting adjusted to you in relationship to their new understanding of their daughter.
24639
CALMLY talk to your parents. LISTEN to what their concerns are. I am a son, parent, and soon to be grand parent ... Although I rarely took my parents' advice and changed my life because of it, when I did LISTEN, it made my life easier. My parents realize (and I realize as a parent) that kids will NOT do what they want them to do, but if the parents are HEARD, it makes life easier for you, your parents, and the "mate" you are talking about. Think about what they are saying to you, DON'T ARGUE or MAKE THEM THINK like you think - that ain't happening - You allready know your opinion, now PLEASE take 10 minutes and hear the opinion of your parents.
186340
There isn't a easy way.  When you do tell them, make sure they are sitting down.  It's actually up to you how you want to tell.  You can talk to one person or you can have everyone in for a family meeting.  I think that face to face is better.  Good luck
582670
Wait until the time FEELs right. I think you are still exploring. Nothing wrong with finding out who you are before announcing it to the world. or your parents. you will feel more natural in it as you delve into it and your emotions. maybe try living on your own first and making your own life, then telling her will seem more safe?
506041
If you were straight would you tell your parents? I do not think that you would. So why do you "HAVE" to tell them your not straight?
293362
Well my dad is a pastor and my mom is a preacher but i had to tell them...now i dont live in the same city as my father so he found out through my sister...but my mom found out from me....\n\nYou have to be first true to yourself...you cant be afraid to be who you are...I tried to be something that I knew I didnt want to be...but i had 2 make myself happy...i let nature have her free will and in time it all came out...\n\nJust dont stress over it too much..take it easy and let things happen..
450866
I've been in your same situation when i was younger. with my parents i told them some of the nice things that this guy did, that let them know that he was nice. Ask this guy to meet them. Not really at the house at first, but maybe at a park or a school activity. Then he won't be so nervous. Tell your mom first. Mom's are always easier. Dads will understand eventually. Don't say date or anything yet, say hanging out or something like that, then after a while say casually in a conversation with your parents how your friends think that you and _your guys name__ are such a cute couple. or something like that. that will be easier. if they are really strict just say that this guy is your special guy. hope i helped!!!
1109350
Its up to the individual. Coming out of the closet doesn't mean you have to come out to everyone, or wear a T-Shirt which reads "I'm gay/bi and proud of it". Some people are selective in coming out i.e. they come out to friends/family but not work colleagues.\n\nThe process of coming out to other people is considered by some to be a final resolution of coming to terms with sexuality. One no longer has to put up with parents/friends constantly saying "when are you going to get married/have children?" nor do they have to worry about being spotted by a member of family should they go into a gay establishment.\n\nYou don't have to come out if you don't want to, or are not ready. Another thing about coming out to someone is that it becomes easier each time you do this, and gain supporters.\n\nIf you don't want to come out to friends/family, then at the very least come out to yourself and the LGBT community (so you can make friends in that area) - but only when you're ready and comfortable.
229541
I am a parent, if my daughter were to tell me, I'd be shocked. But then I'd rather know. There is no best way. you will have sit them down and tell them as nicely as you can. If you have a sibling, then take their help, that is if they are older than you. If not you could say that i have something very important to tell you.... most of the time they would want to see you happy! \n\nGood luck!
472138
tell your mom first then figure out how to tell everyone else.Your mom will still love you ,you always will be her baby.
872005
I think the best way to ask them is to just come out and ask them. The person that you are asking should be some one that you are comfortable taking to any way and they shouldn't have a problem writing one as long as you ask nicely.
594692
If you're a teenager, tell them and let them deal with it. It's not like they have that much control over your anymore (or, if they do, it's not healthy). If you're preteen, you probably shouldn't be going on a date, but just tell your parents your going out with a friend, and make sure they thing you're just their innocent child.\n\nJust as parents like to "put their children in place", parents also occasionally need to be reminded of what their proper place is. If you can't honestly tell your parents that you are dating, you will have a really poor relationship with your parents. And just immagine telling them you're getting married or are having a kid.\n\nBe honest and if they have a problem with it, that is their problem. But don't make it a bombshell like, (as said from a 14 year old boy) "Dad, you remember my best friend Mike? He's not really my best friend. We've been meeting up for gay orgies for the past 4 years. Oh, and I used your icepick to give myself a Prince Albert."
208064
Try a dating site. Yahoo has one. Just bring mace or a pepper spray.(there's some sick people out there). oh i read about your love situation. I had the same problem. she was older than me and wanted me to come out to my parents, but i wasn't ready for that step. Don't stress about it, these things take time.