Ladies, If a guy makes you mad and you get in a big argument how long does it take for you to cool down?
489421
Depending on the argument, usually though it takes me an entire day and night to calm down from an argument. The next morning I'm pretty cool down than the boyfriend can talk to me.
585143
A week?? It depends on what you did, but that's kinda long... Just act disinterested for a while and then do something really nice that is totally unrelated to what she's mad about... If you kiss butt, that'll just add fuel to her fire and she'll continue being mad... So act like you gave up on being forgiven, then do something totally out of the blue that will make her say "hmmmm, it was nice being on good terms with him".
615949
I think that you better leave him alone and give him the space that he needs right now or you may drive him even further away. If he cares for you at all he will come around in time. you need to try making other friends to get your mind off of him for a while. A lot of guys don't like it if a woman gets too agressive, it will scare him away.
1071827
some guys take it as an insult to them and get defensive (acting mad) instead of seeing the problem and remedying it (making suggestions).  i would just try to talk to him and tell him you want to talk about it to help your relationship not hurt it.  At least you're honest and towards the first step of making it better for the both of you.
321175
You try not to fuel the argument. Even if he's yelling at you, keep quiet. In due time maybe he will realise what mistakes he's making, if he doesn't I guess he is not worth it.
1168288
It depends on your relationship, and how long you've been together. If you tell him that you want to wait a little longer and he gets really mad, then you should just forget about him. But if he respects your answer then it seems like the right time because he respects your choice. Which means he respects you.
427342
ask him why he is mad at you
569156
Average is about 25 min. But several times. It depends on how tired or stressed or relaxed my couple and I are.
526089
Avoid and Ignore - he will get the message pretty quickly. This way, his ego will be hurt prompting him to get angry rather than sad, and that will also shorten the painful period. Another benefit of this is that you will be able to avoid stressful confrontations and going through all painful "why, how, when" questions so it's a win win for both of you. \n\nThe trick here is to be consistent so do not feel tempted to stray. It is just plain and simple, disappear off of his radar and he will follow your lead shortly.
189800
A guy who is getting mad at you easily isn't worthy of you.  Find yourself a new guy who loves and respects you.
426447
I wouldn't sit around and wait on the call. If someone has to provoke me, that's not a boyfriend. Is he trying to start a fight over guilty feelings about something???? The only way to get past this is to have an honest talk. Why does he provoke you....why is everything "in his hands"....why the hurtful talk....???? Both sides need to be honest with each other and act more maturely and respectfully towards each other.
991611
I don't know why some of us are like that, I know sometimes I get mad, but we all do. I don't believe that women are not supposed to deal with guys getting mad, they should be able to voice their opinion, but truthfully, sometimes that doesn't solve anything, it makes it worse, and really it depends on the situation. Men are supposed to be the head of the family, the bible says that, but it also says that the husband is suppose to love his wife like he loves himself, and not to be harsh with them. So, sometimes when we lose our cool, we are just blowing off steam, and that is a time where we want to be left alone, but not all men are like that. I know it helps me when a woman tries to help and be encouraging, but we all are different.
621397
If your trully friends the answer is simple YES! In time after you both calm down and have a chance to talk over what ever caused the fight in the first place but No! If you weren't really even friends in the first place.Just remember in any relationship you have to have a strong communication and a heart that can listen along with your ears.
1051938
when i get mad, i usually just vent out and that's it... there's no need to get even. i just talk to the person concerned (of course after i have already calmed down) so we can have this straightened out. you don't have to get even, it will make matters worse.
512698
BUT NOTHING! There's no sense and no reason to go through life arguing and unhappy! Gurl, life is too short! You need to figure out WHY you two argue so much! Figure that out then find out how to eliminate it. Second, no one ever accomplished anything arguing. As women we know men know how to push buttons (and visa verse), but we make a mistake, by giving them what they want a retaliation against them, they win! Next, time you two get into it, if it person walk off on the phone say you know what I'm going to talk to you later and hang up. If you still continue to argue after taking this advice. I don't know what to say except maybe it's best to split. Some ppl just can't be together. Communication is essential and discovering out the root cause of the problem and eliminating it is key. Good Luck to you both!
75549
"Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech you'll ever regret." So... nothing. Of course, I would be furious, for a day or two, but these sort of things blow over pretty quickly.
1004232
she aint ever going to understand... my man and i are the same and he gets grumpy over the silliest things (including geting grumy at me for being upset with him about something he did), but i know he loves me because we never ever ever go to bed on a fight... he always calms down a bit (and so do i) then we talk it out... till we understand why the other person got upset in the first place... even if it is until 5 in the morning when i have to be up a 6 for work (aka last night)... \n\nif your getting upset about something dont get mad at her... tell her that blah blah is upsetting you and you want to talk to her about it before you end up in a fight... thats what were working on being able to do..\n\nand goodluck