why do some women prefer married men?
492105
For the same reason married men like married women -- safer, no commitment, and it's forbidden.
36980
DEFINTELY, women will always seek a man with money, power of fame, than a man who is good looking, they prefer it all, but may not get it all, after all they want a certain level of lifestyle. The hotter the women, the more she KNOWS she can get in terms of financial security, that is her cash trade value, if she is less attractive, she must either get a degree and earn more money, or marry whomever she can be with. Men marry what they can afford, if you are plumber, you are not going to be getting the Pam Anderson's of the world, but if you are rich or famous ( or both ) then any hot women will be wanting for you.\n\nWomen who say money does not matter are more than likely not a 9 ro 10, but a 4 to 5, they know their place on the ladder rung of life.
1166772
Honestly (and I say this as a woman who has been married for 24 years) I think men are turned on by just about anything a woman does. Except if you ask them to do chores or change a diaper.
584679
They do not sound choosey. It sounds they just wanna a monetarily successfull husband.
64468
Well not going into details.  Women want their partener to think that they are the one, i.e. they are faithful to them and no one else.  \n\nAnd women like to jump to conclusions.  More women start thinking about marriage than men do in the beginning of a relationship.
1087836
i've never dated married men... they would be a complete waste of time.\n\nmen and women have been generalizing and disrespecting each other for the longest. not all men are assholes, and not all women are whores. women who date married men, knowing they are married, are disgusting and ARE whores. you need to find your own man... there are hundreds of other men out there. women who dont know the men they are dating are married... thats another story. you need to be smarter, because as far as i've heard there are always signs... right in front of your face.\n\nmen who do this to their wives are evil and disgusting... you're pretty much saying that the woman you chose for the rest of your life is not woman enough to satisfy you and keep you by her side. \n\nif there is one thing i demand from a man, its honesty. tell me you dont want to be with me, and be on your way. dont lie and cheat. nobody is forcing you to be with me. and that goes for everyone else in the world. grow some balls and tell people when its over. be honest. \n\nwhat goes around comes around.
1187846
It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have.  Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it?  It's like that.  I'm not saying it's a good thing.  On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her.  I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
138121
It sounds like maybe you're not being completely up front with them from the beginning about the 'being married' part. Maybe they're getting some kind of vibe from you that you're looking for someone to have an affair with. Are you going out of your way to get men friends? If so, why when you're married?
557832
don't drool over married men :)
76740
They say that blonds have more fun but most married women in the united states are brunets so it's a toss up I think most guys want what they can't have.
516123
Welcome to the party! I personally believe that men think just because your married your "SUPPOSED" to have sex with them on a regular bases but just as they may want that need replenished we need things as well. Like you said it takes trust and it takes some help on his part when it comes to helping around the house. Some men think that those small things do not matter but those are very big things to a lot of women.
861338
No! All woman ,even though some won't admit it, want their husbands to be better than they are.  They will always see some elses man as being better than theirs. Men are the exact same way! This Does not mean you love him less or he loves you less. Everyone wants more! Every one wants better than what they have. Even a million will see something out there that he wants but can not have. It is life. It is being human!
853501
Being married to some one a few months older is not wrong.\nOr years older it is who you love that matters ..\nPeople are narrow minded about women and younger men.\nguys like older women because they are more mature and know what they want out of life and know what they want in a relationship..\nThe only thing I am against is marrying a much younger woman , almost to being a pervert..and same for women..
490564
Why do some men prefer blondes?  Or skinny women?  Or fat women?  Or black women?  Or short women?  Or smart women?  \n\nLook, we have a lot more in common than not.  We want to be healthy.  We want loving families.  We want to feel safe and wanted.  Is it going to take aliens landing on Earth and trying to eat all of our asses for dinner before we realize that?
1178691
As a man, there are different times that I am looking for different things from a wife.  Women often complain that they have to wear so many hats (Lover, Friend, Mother, Housekeeper, etc.), and some ladies are better at one of those then the others...I think a man would be looking to marry one woman who enjoys caring for kids, another who is a "career driven" type, one who he can enjoy quiet walks and "grow old" with, etc.  And when one isn't "in the mood" he can usually find someone who is\n\nBTW - Most polygamist wives prefer NOT to sleep with their husbands, and I know two polygamist familes (well..officially married to one woman, but has several "live in" ladies) and the wives draw straws - the loser with the short straw *has to* sleep with him if he's in the mood.\n\nPersonally, I don't feel "called to that lifestyle" but I can't deny that I am interested in other women.  It human nature - otherwise Affairs would be pretty rare
278640
The same reason why a married woman would cheat.
277944
Its because women dont see a married man as off limits, they see him as a challenge.  A women would so call "take" a off limits man in a heart beat for the satisfaction that they won.  Women are down right disrespectful to eachother.  Its sick.