Is it wrong to be a single guy and want the girl to make the first move?
483688
I don't think theres anything wrong with wanting a girl to make the first move. As a matter of fact I prefer it that way myself! It makes me feel as if the girl really wants me. But you gotta realize that the girls are just as nervous about it as you are. You'll find that as you get older and the more girls you go out with it gets easier and easier to ask them out. And take my advice bud, now is as good a time as any to start asking them. It is true that you may get rejected a few times, but you gotta learn to pick yourself up and move on. Even rejection gets easier over time! Its all a part of our crazy,wonderful life. Now if you find yourself liking a girl, and you think she likes you just jump right in and ask her out. You may be pleasantly surprised when she says yes-and thats a great ego booster! But even if she says no, its not a biggie-theres lots and lots of girls out there.So get to it buddy!!!
76950
Sometimes it's good for the girl to make the first move.  My boyfriend charmed me into making the first move, and I'm not sorry.  (Actually I'm really really happy!)  And I'm an old-fashioned kind of a girl, too!
109947
Sounds like you're gonna have to.  I know if girls waited for me to make the first move they'd still be waiting.  I've always been way to shy in person and in a way it's worked out for the better.  If you want this guy, you'll probably have to do all the first moves.  Don't worry though, once he's confident he's not going to be rejected he'll break out of it.
1042075
NO!!! There is nothing wrong with you. Everyone experiences things at different times so don't rush the process. You never know when you get your first boyfriend he may turn out to be the right one. Just be patience and enjoy being you and being single.
1129617
sorry but the most logical thing to do is to be more outgoing and get over the shy thing!\n\nIf i see something i like i go for it, but unfortunately some other girls hate making the first move and totally depend on the guy. Don't feel insecure and if she says no! so what! your 18, plenty more! Be casual about it and go in with an open mind. Dont think the first one you ask will say yes. And try to remember that you may be hot but personailty counts just as much as looks, even more.
880447
Sometimes girls need to make the first move. Not all guys have high confidence levels. Just ask him if he would like to go out for drinks or dinner. If he says no there is your answer.
639704
I'm soo old fashion when it comes to relationships. I def. think the guy should make the first move....I dont' feel as though I should be making most of the phone calls or asking him out! If a man is interested in me he would show it. \n(And yall MEN know this:)
661790
Sorry honey, guys must do the first move, and if he did not do it it means he wants you only as a friend.\nNowdays women are becoming too open and agressive, and guys miss the magic of hunting and courting!!! we are cutting off their attributes.\nSo, sorry, but step back, keep him as friend and put your interest somewere else, in the meantime be sweet and nice to him, be always very well put together when you meet, so in this way, did not work with him sentimentally, you always will have a great supporter on him. Please, remember, be a real femminine woman "NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE"
704825
guys are not likley to make the first move they have this big fear f rejection, so if you want somehting to happen then you need to make it happen
487469
I'm old fashioned, I think the guy should ask the girl out. However, the girl can and should hint at a date or show interest in the hopes that the guy will ask her out.
666938
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
581349
No theres nothing wrong with it.  I think that would be cool, you are showing a girl that you care about yourself enough by going to the gym and working out and that you are just looking for the same.
541077
I dont think its wierd at all...Im actually in that position in my life right now.....Ive been through some of the worst relationships ever and at this point in my life i am very happy bieng single, but still want the physical active part from a guy....that may be why most of my friends are guys....I still like the cuddling and the hugging and the other stuff, but dont want anything serious......I dont think its wrong at all....you do whats best for you and if you feel you dont want to be in a committed relationship, no one should make you feel bad for that.
930224
This is totally situational... but...\n\nIn general, I love it when a girl makes the move. As a guy, we have an automatic disadvantage, because no matter what, we have to work for it. Now, this is a gross generalization, but most of the time it is true: women can find someone if they really want to, any time.\n\nMen on the other hand, well...\n\nSo to have a woman come up and make it known that she's interested makes things easy. Not to mention, it's not like there's anything to lose really.
448277
no it might not be the smart move because you don't know the guy and he might just want to be laid you should wait and learn more about the guy before moving that fast... plus it can be really dangerous..  Unless your into that and you can take care of yourself then go ahead try it....... becareful tho :)
376490
I am so in your situation. For a while I thought it was because I was scared of rejection or that I felt all traditional, but I really have a lot at stake. I have a son. I like a guy and haven't really decided what is best. I usually get a vote of 50/50 on this topic. I think for me, it might be best to wait. I want to see if the guy is interested, comfortable and confident enough to have the balls to make the first move. Remember, woman sacrifice more in the long run, and should never settle for second best!
817250
either would be ok, as long as we had things in common like goals, stuff we like to do, etc\n\nNot every guy is comfortable around a confident girl, but the bottom line is... be yourself and you will attract guys who like you for who you are, not for some act you put on to please them ... so many people try too hard to be what someone else wants them to be... that is building a relationship on a lie ... i cant say it enough... JUST BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!