how do i know that he really loves me?he always says that he's my friend but  his mannerisms makes me feel
487013
Hi. \nHe'll be more intersted on you & will be asking more questions & answer about love. You'll be knowing it later .
225437
silver fox is right tou can't find that sort of information anywhere.It depends on the age we're talking about and how well you know him.A gut feeling,listening to your gut about a situation like that is usually the way to go.If he really loves you it won't be in the things he says it will be in the things he does.Are you the number one priority?Does he listen to your feelings?Do you feel like he is your best friend?This is what real love is,knowing your best friend is there for yoiu no matter what.
129399
You don't, not really.  You have to go on feeling.  How does he act?  Do you ever wonder if he's telling you the truth?  Does he show signs of keeping things from you?  Do you always feel frustrated with him?  These are all signs of disloyalty.\n\nBut does he hold your hand for no reason?  Does he have a sweet smile on his face when you catch him looking at you?  Does he do cute little things for you just because?  These are signs of romance.  It's your call.  If you are having some problems but it still feels right then you might have the real thing.\n\nGood luck!!!
38732
just be yourself and let him know by action that you love him because he would feel it if you are sincere with your feelings for him.
1145647
If you ask me what you just wrote here works..Just write what you feel .Hope he knows what a good friend he has in you too..If you can count all your "true,good" friends on one hand, you are very lucky. Everyone can have friends, but a true, good friend is a hard thing to find!!!
873824
Well just talk to him and ask him y? Then just tell him that I love u and i wanted to let u know because it has been on my mine don't take it the wrong way or anything. I want to know why do't u love me as well. Then get ur anser then work off of that. Then if u can't bare to be his friend then tell him that u can't be his friend u wanna be with him and then he will give u an answer and if he say no then he can't be ur friend! Then just be like okay then! but if he says oksy then be happy!
80073
Hmmmm.  I don't think how YOU feel is any indication of whether or not your man really loves you.  I think it's best to put your feelinging aside for a bit and take a look at how he treats you.\n\nDoes he respect your ideas, opinions, attitudes, feelings, and behaviors?  Does he support your values -- allowing you to follow your own system of beliefs?  Does he allow you to express yourself, and is he willing to work with you to reach compromises when the two of you disagree?\n\nDoes he know your weaknesses, good and bad, and allow you to be "less than perfect"?  Does he protect your weaknesses rather than criticise you or open you up to ridicule?\n\nDoes he treat you with gentleness and kindness and yet know when you are ready to break loose in a chicken fight or giggle fest?  \n\nDoes he share some of your most personal interests?  Does he share your goals?\n\nDoes he know you well enough to love you for you -- whoever you are and whatever you are living through right now, at this moment?\n\nDoes he say he loves you?\n\nIt's easy to mix up our feelings with someone and assume the other person feels the same as we do.  If there is any question, let some time pass.  It takes time to know someone well enough to know if there is love between you and not just chemistry.
835918
You can't tell if he loves you by the things he did and it's too early to know about things like that. But by what you are saying, that guy really does like you a lot. It must be so exciting!
925120
stop asking him if he is happy every day. I'm not too sure how you find out if someone truly loves you but if he tells you he does and you have a great relationship then maybe he does.
260773
It's a feeling. but there are signs, and they're hard to recognize as such. How enthusiastic is he when he says hi?\nListen to everything he says, about you. Does he tell you his dreams? The things he wants to do? Does he tell you how \nyou could be involved in doing them? Maybe you know the answer,  but you don't realize it. Give in to your feelings. If you feel like doing something when with him, that you don't normally do, do it. Does he spend most of his time thinking about you? Does he treat you like a kid sister? It's possible he wants to be more than friends. He likely knows that freindship comes first and wants to accept the einevitable progress. Resistence is futile.
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Usually it's just something you know in your heart. As for outward stuff, usually he will seem completely and totally committed to you. He loves spending time with you, and seems like he can barely stand being apart from you. When you look into his eyes in a quiet moment between you two, often you can find the answer right there as well. Just watch him closely. When there is love between two people, usually it is only one of the two that can decide whether the other is in love with them or not. This is your bond. Do you think he is in love with you? Ask yourself that now and then when you are with him. You may just find that he is showing more of the signs than you originally realized.
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I am going through the same problem , he likes talk to me , many times i turn accidently to find ou that he was looking at me , when i good by him and turn my back and look back again i find that he's still looking at me , he gives me sweets and gums whenever he pass with my office ( we are work mates ) , his eyes say alot but , then we reach our problem , how can i be sure that he really loves me or not ? i'm not wrighting to you to offer a solution for your problem because if i had one i would have dealt with mine but i felt that you may feel a little better when you know that there is another girl who shares you your confusion and wishes you good luck with your silent guy , please wish me luck also with mine .
613686
tell him the truth and how you feel and just be his friend yust friend nothing more than that.Then find a other guy who really loves you.You will find it.Good Luck!
419035
there's a proper place and time when to act like that. \nif you've already told him what you feel about his actions don't expect him to put that away in one snap... help him to adjust, and support him... if you can't really get over it try something... like whenever he talks to you, act like him, then he will feel what other people thinks about him whenever he does it... if you really love him, you will not lave him because of that attitude. you loved him because of who he is and not just because he's cute or something. you loved him because of his nice and not so nice character...\nhope it help yah!
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If he always treats you with respect, kindness, understanding, trust, honesty, and is willing to compromise and to communicate his thoughts and feelings openly with you, I think that he loves you. If he is all of these things, all of the time, I do think it is love! If he never tries to hurt you, and he continually puts into the relationship as much as you, I think that's love!
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
601653
He will have to prove it day by day. His actions will tell. If he loves you you may feel loved.