if your friend ignores you, is he mad at you or just doesn't want to talk to you?
481235
It doesn't necessarily mean, he's mad at you. When did he start ignoring you? If it's just been a day or two, try to understand him, he might have a problem that he couldn't sort out himself yet and doesn't know how to talk about it. So please be patient until he opens up to you.\n But if it's been weeks since he didn't talk to you, you're perception that he's mad at you might be true especially when you tried to reach out many times. \n But for me, it's better to be alone and true to myself than to please anybody (in a sense that I would do illegal drugs, smoking, gambling etc.) just for them to accept me a "friend". Just be yourself all the time and true friends would come along as long as you open your heart and reach out too.\n Best of luck...
718278
Your friend was jelous that you had a boyfriend and she probably didn't have one at the same time you did. She was jelous that you'd hang out with your boyfriend more than her so she's hurt that you'd choose your boyfriend over her. You should tell her that you still want to be friends with her. If she does ignore you, you tried.
92224
respect the fact that he doesnt want to talk to you but try to find out WHY he doesnt want to talk to you and fix the problem
413142
I'd call him and ask him to start telling you the way he really feels and if it doesn't feel right to him to go with all your friends then just tell u. He probably didn't want to hurt your feelings and didn't want to say anything. U have to make it OK to open up to you and let him know that he can tell how he feels when he doesn't want or like something u suggest. He might of felt you were going to ignore him when u are with your friends.
659922
No. If you like him and you know he likes you, then why would you ignore him?? That would give him the impression that you DON'T like him. And guys don't like to play games.
548730
WHEN HE AVOIDS YOU AND SAYS WE'LL TALK TOMORROW TODAY I AM BUSY ....(OR ANY OTHER EXCUSE). TALKS VERY RUBBISH. DOESN'T WANTS TO MEET YOU. TRIES TO HURT YOU. WHEN YOU ARE THERE WITH HIM  ,HE LOOKS AT OTHER GIRLS MORE THAN AT YOU.
855692
I'm not sure if I understand the question. \nAre you saying that you send instant messages to this guy and he doesn't respond and so you want advice on when should you stop messaging him? \nI'd say that if he's ignored more than five messages either he doesn't want to know you or likes keeping you on a string. Either way your friendship is going nowhere. Give up on him and try to meet some new people.\nGood Luck
1042809
If you're trying to make frenz why would u ignore the person???  U should get to know them and find out if u really want to know them better.  People like it when others are interested in them.  If u ignore them they assume your not interested don't u?
632157
I shall ignore him also. I am sorry for you , I hope that you meet real friend soon , good luck .
399285
dont listen to the person above me maybe he really neede a friend at that monment and you cut him off or maybe he really wanted to tell you something i think you just hurt his feelings just apologize and ask him whats up with the way hes treating you
8496
HE IS PROBABLY HIDING SOMETHING FROM YOU AND THINKS YOU FOUND OUT AND THATS WHY HE IS AVOIDING YOUR TALK WITH HIM.
1020888
Honestly he might not be interested or do not know how to react. Give him a little time and if he start avoiding you or acting differently toward you in a negative way, you might want to confront him and tell him it is cool that he don't have feelings for you but you don't want to lose your friendship.
790322
Why cant he talk to you?
130835
If it's really a friend, then over look it.  You have to be a friend to have a friend.  When my friends forget to call me, I call them.  When they are mad at me, we talk.  Real friends talk about what upsets them and they work out problems.  They DON'T walk out or get mad at the first little problem.
1088201
Well duh...It's obvious that the person is ignoring you. The question is...why? Maybe you should talk to the friend that the person is still in contact with and see if you can find out something through them...Maybe their feelings towards you just changed overnight...
1110169
If it's just for a short time, then maybe you did something to make him mad.  Ask him, so you can clear it up.\nAnother possibility is he is worried about something (job, school, health) and it isn't because of you at all.  Again, you need to ask him so you can help or share his problem.\nA third possibility is he's wanting to break up, but just hasn't told you yet.  Might as well get it out in the open, so ask him.\nIf he won't answer, check with a friend of his.  Maybe he's told his friend what is bothering him.
649302
have you been replying back to your friend? sometimes a lack of communication can lead to this.  send an email to your friend to see what's up.\n\n(btw, i believe there is an other topic for friend issues. just for future reference)