I'm thinking about losing my virginity to a friend any suggestions?
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Oh for crying out loud. What, is it too heavy to carry round or something? If you're going to do it, do it with somebody you're crazy for, not with "a friend".
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Hey man\nwhat you did...I think it was great...I hope she doesn't...if some how(by odd chance you find out she didn't) please let me know...lucky1_29_91@yahoo.com...it will be a real blessing to know one less girl will still be a virgin
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It's you and that's a good thing. Your virginity is sacred and you don't want to give that to just anyone. Keep it for as long as YOU want to. Don't feel pressure to lose it and give it up because you think that's what everyone else is doing. Believe it or not, they aren't. Don't worry about still being a virgin. Just live your life and enjoy being a kid/teenager/adult (since I don't know your age). I hope this helps! :)
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I AM A VIRGIN FOR 16 YEARS
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Being your first is a great priviledge for a man, so just make sure that he deserves it. And you have to be old enough to understand all the possible consequences of a sexual relationship: children, deseases and all that fun stuff. Just don't think that your virginity is something you have to get rid of until a sertain age or else...
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I was really lucky. The first time I had sex it was with my best friend. We where both virgins and it was really bad for both of it. But it was fun to explore each other because we both knew each other really well and we are still really close friends today and can talk about anything. Many people don't have that in their life and so I can understand why you are asking this question. You will know, when you know. It can happen at anytime. You can plan a certain night for it to happen or it might just come as a surprise. You might want to wait a little longer. And after its all done. Even if it was planned you still might have regrets. But don't worry. Its a common thing among many teens and young adults. Don't be afraid to talk about with people.\n\nThis is a website full of first time sex stories:
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Measure what you can win with what you can lose !\n \n\n (1) You could win 5-15 Min's of pleasure \n\n(2) You could lose your virginity too a man ,who you don't know really loves you. you could lose your innocence too some one you don't really know. you could lose your self confidence after he might dump you , after he's gotten what he wants,you could become bitter towards men in general if he turns out to be a jerk, I'm not a woman so i don't know anymore but I'm sure you get the point an I'm sure other women can enlighten you in this subject more than me.\n\n\nPS the "test" i use too see if someone really cares about me , is too see if they but There self's second to me like ;\n\nEXAMPLE say he hates to go shopping but you like too an you like someone to go with you so him knowing that go's with you shopping anyway. or anything you like an he doesnt.\n\ndo  the "test" and different one's not just the shopping one, lots of times to see that he ain't really acting like he cares.
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Expect it to be a disappointment. Male or female virgins are not going to have some epiphany when they lose it. Our society puts so much emphasis on sex that the first sexual encounter has taken on almost a religious status. The physical reality is not so romantic or dramatic.\n\nFor the woman, it will be from mildly uncomfortable to painful the first time. She may or may not bleed, but unless there is something wrong, there won't be much blood and the pain is a memory after few few tries.\n\nFor the man, it is a good idea to learn a few things about your body, too. It will not hurt but you need to be responsible just like your partner and you need to make sure you're extreme sensitive and gentle if your partner is a virgin, too.\n\nNo one is going to look stupid unless one of the people involved is an insensitive lout. Don't pretend not to be a virgin if you are, then you're asking for trouble. This is a time for communication and openness. BE CAREFUL!
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think about it\nif you have a fantastic think , you will deliver it fastly or you keep it with you the most time you can?\nthe virginity is the fantstic lovely think, keep it in order to enjoy with it teh most you can
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i rather die a virgin then give it up just to be giving it up.. i was 27 when i got married and and lost my virginity.. and i dont regret one bit of it.. and dont worry you will be the right person and you will have your chance to loose it on your wedding night..
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well if the girl isn't virgin well that is kind of bad that means she couldn't wait any longer so there you are 19 yrs. virgin with her. so if i was you i would lie to her but believe me once she looks at it she will know you are virgin so i think you deserve someone better someone that is virgin. by the way if i had a boyfriend that is 19 and is still virgin wow i'll get  all excited i am virgin and i would have sex with you so both would be virgin so if you wanna talk to me as a friend and tell me your real problem i would gladly do so www.billypapi@yahoo or call me 9565726222 and my name is marisol yes this is my real number people!!!!!!!
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i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
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Not forcing you into anything, he must be a very nice guy. If you've had sex before and you feel the desire then go for it. But if you are a virgin you should think really well about it. In my opinion virginity is something sacred which you should lose it when you truly have no doubt that the reason your losing it is a sacred one.\n\nSex is the most wonderful thing when it is done while you're in love, otherwise is nothing but an instict which all the animals have.
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umm,Yeah u should do it!  lol\nthat's secretly every- ok well maybe not every, but a Lot of girls' fantasies.  \n but umm, make sure u establish boundaries and guidelines first. ask her wat she doesnt want u to do.   maybe she doesnt want u to actually have sex with her, just some other things.  she may not want u to kiss her friend- some ppl feel that's too intimate.   ask her in private, then make sur to discuss it btw the 3 of u together.\n have fun!!\nlet us know how it went
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My virgintiy was important to me.  Me and my fiance gave our virginity to each other and we considered it to be the most precious and beautiful thing that we could give each other.  It is very special to us that we lost our virginity to each other.  I hav found myself and (i know some of my friends feel the same), that when you lose your virginity to someone, it is as if a bond almost a blood bond has been formed between you both.  and no matter what else you do, it will always be with you.\n\nVirginity should be equally important to men, i believe it is to many men but they are loathed to admit it because of the way they have been socialised.\n\nIf I loved someone and they were not a virgin i would marry them if they loved me but I would much prefer the situation I currently have.  I am lucky to be marrying the man who i lost my virginity to and who lost his virginity to me.
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You know what you should do before your first time?  Fall in love.  You don't need to worry about anything else but that the person you are giving your virginity to is the right person.  Everything else will fall into place with that.
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The only one that can answer this is you. You have to understand that things will probably change between you if/when you have sex. Your relationship will never be the same. I would love to be the one to tell you to go ahead because you both feel comfortable with eachother and know that nothing you do will make you feel awkward but great friends are hard to find. He will find someone to lose his virginity to. You have to decide if you're ok with your relationship changing.