what do u do when u find out that someone u loved dearing,have cheated u.by having a son out side.?
492631
First of all, I am sorry to hear what has happen to ur family. First of all, i know its very very hard to accept this. To love and be cheated of that love. Love as it is defined in the Holy Bible is basically self sacrifice. To learn to forgive urself first that the cheating took place. Find in ur heart to seek God's help. God's mercy. Allow urself to pour out all ur hurt to Him. God loves u as to all of us. We can only love and be hurt because we are human. But God loves us and takes the hurt away.\nCheating comes in many forms.... but the son u mentioned, he is innocent. Do not anger him. Forgive the son. Love him as ur own if u must. Because he is also from ur husband. Seek God's wisdom and forgive ur man. \nTime will heal the hurt. I hope u will find much needed peace and comfort from ur family and friends around u.
86275
ouch. sorry but it sound slike you have been lied to and played. that boy is having his cake and eating it too. he is screwing both of you over and probably making up different stories to tell both of you. you should find a way to call her and ask her. but i would definitely confront him, but he will probably tell you more lies. it sure sounds like he is with both of you, why else would he have made something up to tell her instead of just telling her it was over? and why does he spend time with her and go places with her and call her??? that is just crap!
590569
Mandy,\n If you have reason to believe that he even thought about cheating on you, then hit the road. Leave this idiot in the dirt, and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.\nGood Luck.
836790
you don't sound mean but you should really condense your question. and if it was me i would take my son and go back were you came from. then file for divorce if you don't take your son she will just use your him for a paycheck.and if you saved those emails were she said he was a burden and the others were she cheated on you it will go a long way in court then she will get nothing god luck.
427579
I'd hire a hit man!!!! No really I would pursue ever legal avenue I had and make his life a living hell. Nothing worse than a woman scorned. If I didn't have money I'd go to legal aide or petition the courts. You have a right to child support and he should provide it. Then again if you're making it and don't need him get on with it. It all depends on how much you want him in your life. But boy is he's tangled up with another woman, there would be heck to pay at the very least. I am so sorry that the father of your son is a dog and that your son does not have a good roll model. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. There are great men out there, although I'm sure you'll have to learn to trust them again. Hang in There.
697982
Tell her what you just told us.\nThat she ignored your feelings and betrayed your trust.\nTell her that you're very hurt by what she did and that she needs to respect your feelings, regardless of your age or the fact that you're "just her daughter".  You're still a human being like the rest of us.\nTell her that if she continues to betray your trust, you may end up not telling her anything at all.  No mother wants to be left out of their child's life, right?  Tell her that you want to be able to share ANYthing with her, but you feel that you can't now because of what she did.\nThis will probably make for a loooooong discussion, so make sure you're sitting down. ;)
277215
I would dump his sorry a$$. Once you know he is married, you are willingly contributing to his wifes heartache when she finds out (and trust me, she will find out).\nHow would you feel if you were married and your husband cheated with someone who knew he was married?\nLet's pretend he is going to leave his wife for you (which he will not), you will become the person he cheats on.
586059
Trust me on this one, you would be much better off divorced, you dont wanna stay with a cheater and you dont wanna be with a guy you say is a player.  Take some time off from men and have some U time.  Get you life back on track and then start looking for something serious.  As for you son, you just need to sit him down and explain to him that none of this is his fault and he will still have a relationshiop with the both of you guys.  Best of luck to you
374584
You need to back off and give your partner some space. He/she may decide that it is definitely over but it is their choice not yours you had the affair. You can't rebuild trust by playing games or taking quizzes on the internet. Try to be the best parent you can to your kids.
427474
Take him to family court. Make sure he pays child support. He has a legal obligation now...if he tries to skirt it...throw his a$$ in jail.\n\nAs for his moral obligation, if he can't see that he a child there to love. Then it's truly his loss. \n\nAs for you, I know it has to hurt like heck right now. But you have to focus 100% of yourself towards you and your beautiful baby. Good luck and god bless!!!
934167
I know you don't want to hurt him, and he would probably never want to know that his mother is cheating on him, but it would probably be the worst if he finds out that you knew and never told him.  Especially since the friend told you everything, and is aware that you know of the affair.
320841
go to that boy n ask him that whatever that person has told u is true if then tell ur feelings too.
345516
you need to leave him love. sorry but i was in the same position as you, but i was the ex. he went away and i knew what he was doin cause he admitted to me he had a baby with someone else, and i had dumped him. however, he kept coming round me BEGGING me to return to him. so you need to be careful bout what he is telling you and what he is telling her. you are worth more than that. dont put up with the insecurities you have over him. he will only make them worse. an in my opinion the last time my mum was wrong about something, was wen i hadnt told her the whold truth. your mum obviously dont like him, and she wants the best for you, even if it dont seem like it sometimes she does. trust. go and bond withyour baby. have a nice summer with no man pisin you off. okay. gudluck.
202572
Please Show her Love be there for her but tell her that you want tolerate this behavior in you and your sons life again atleast give her a chance to correct her mistake.you may still be mad at her but be there for her let her know that you still love her and that you want your family back dont desert her.thats what the devil want put God in your life more than ever know he can help your family with God all things are possible if you have faith.Know is the time that you remember your Marriage Vows.SICKNESS AND HEALTH THROUGH GOOD N BAD.GOOD LUCK
306204
Sorry but you don't cheap on anyone that you supposedly love.  Spare him the heartache again if he knows that you cheated.  Put yourself in his shoes, cuz I know you wouldn't like it if he cheated on you.  Move on.....
1132287
My Ex Boy Freind ,,, and my mother
72958
u have to respect the mother but you have to let her know how  you feel about her boy and don't lie moms know but remember you are with the son not the mother and you don't have to go around her