Why do some people think that sex is the most important thing in a relationship?
491471
Because that might be the only thing that they have in common.
890519
Yes, i think that it is important. When your attracted to someone and want to be with them, you not only want to express it with them emotionally, but physically also. We all have our needs, and if were not getting those needs satisfied in the relationship, then it could lead to them being satisfied elsewhere.. possibly with another man/woman. I believe that sex builds a bond between 2 people.. it makes the relationship stronger.
267360
first of all you may be good to some people and not to others. everyone likes different things so dont let that be a huge factor. i would hope that you wouldnt base your relationship with someone on just sex. a relationship is about connecting with someone physically, but more importantly mentally and emotionally. you are still single because you have found someone you can connect with outside of the bedroom.
64839
TRUST HAS MY VOTE.  SEX IS SO MUCH MORE PERSONAL, AND SENSUAL WHEN YOU'RE W/ SOMEONE YOU TRUST AND HAVE A CONNECTION W/.
16474
Sex in marriage is sweet but it isn't truly the point! It matters little how frequent or little. What matters is the heart and soul of the relationship and what it is founded upon. I agree sex is a need in marriage, but other issues and aspects are far more important and over the years sex becomes less and less important next to the other far more important areas involved in a marriage. yes sex is important and desperatly needed but at times. Only you can answer this between yourself and your spouce.
1004194
A relationship without sex is nothing. If is really important for me, l don't know what would l do, but really, a relationship without sex doesn't work
706648
Very much so. In fact, if you believe that you can't, you aren't in love. Sex has nothing to do with a relationship except pleasure and saying " I love you soooo much, I'm ready for a child. " Sex without love is possible, but it isn't a good thing. And actually, sex can ruin relationships. What kind of question is this?
767561
I think that people should be in love before they have sex. It is a way to express how you feel about the other person.  Sex without love is just empty. I was in a loveless marriage for years, even though the physical aspect was good, it was not fulfilling emotionally.
211319
i totally agree with you. people think that you have to have sex if you are in a relationship, but it's not true. i was with a guy for almost three years and we never had sex. im proud of myself for that because i proved to myself and other people that you can be in a relationship and stay together without having sex. Good Luck!
120052
Sex is a subject like all other subject...People have tendencies to hide it and/or to shy to talk about it.\nIt is like relegion and politics...people hardly talk about these things....Talking about sex is natural and there is nothing wrong with it.
1067080
The sex is important yes, but I love being with my man. The way he holds me, a random touch of the cheek, a kiss out of the blue. Being held at night without going in for sex. The feeling of being loved is more important than sex.
496682
I think its based on libido and lifestyle...   It can be very important to some and not to others.
183508
When you know a person without sex first, and you really want to be with each other all the time, the sex will come naturally and be mindblowing.  Courting use to be the way it was done years ago.  I believe that's why older couples have remained married for so long, because they got to know each other first and decided to committ the rest of their lives to each other before they had sex.
22820
Sex is an important part of a relationship, but not of EVERY relationship. I have a loving relationship with my Grandma, but sex somehow hasn't entered into it.
541089
Because sex is a part of life. It is very pleasurable, exciting, and fun. People want to talk about it and ask questions to make their sex lives even better.
823949
Safe sex is just so important, Why people cant see that i dont Know, good to see some decent ppl on here that think before that jump into bed with a stranger who may be on a 1 person mission to inflict the same suffering as they are going through.\n\nI will get down of my soapbox no promise
1171160
Sex is a beautiful, and creative thing and is only considered dirty or sinful by those who 1. wish to control others 2. those who have guilt, fear or psycological difficulties. Sex is part of life and as long as it is between concenting adults...is no sin!