Insecurities, run  through my head............?
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Nice poem!!!! can I quote?
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The only thing I might be able to suggest is to become confident with yourself. How is your own self esteem? Are you able to gain a greater amount of confidence in yourself? Would you date yourself? If not, why not? Work on those things that you think you could change. If you can gain confidence in yourself, your insecurities might diminish, since you can see that you are worth dating. Not to mention, you might become less "needy", and also more trusting! (warning!!! Do NOT become OVER confident in yourself) Good luck!
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everybody has their own insecurities and doubt that they deserve anything good that happens to them. somethings are too good to be true, but if you can touch it and it makes you feel good about yourself, then go with the flow! if you start questioning it or doubting it, it will fall apart because you will let your insecurities take over.\n\nif this guy loves you as much as you love him, then he will already be aware of these insecurities of yours and help you overcome them. give it a chance and make yourself believe that you deserve this.
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Lack of confidence.  And obsessions over "perfectness".  Being too self-absorbed and insecure.\n\nGood question.
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It could be about them, not you. Instead of worrying what you doing wrong (if anything at all), be a friend and ask what is wrong. Chances are, they feel insecure or something is troubling them. Godd luck!
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You can't live your life trying to please others and worrying what they think about you. Just be who you are, you sound pretty confident and self assured. You go girl!
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Poor thing. Have you been burned recently? I feel your pain. Ok. Mind games. Men have egos, huge egos. When a woman he thinks is his (and 'only' his) is seen with another man, even a friend or anything similar, ego says "Hey, if other egos sees my lady with someone else, I am less of a man. This is unallowable. I should make her jealous to make her focus on me." \nThis is a broad generalization of course, but it seems that this is the case a lot of the times, and guys hate to admit that they are not in control of the situation. Everyone judges us by the kind of mate we can find. If you have a chunky girlfriend, you are a chubby chaser and cant hack a fine chick. If you have a fine chick, guys envy you but also try to ruin what you got. Its a bit of a juggling act, and mind games are just one way to juggle so many balls in the air at once. On behalf of the thinking man, sorry for the mind games, its a defense mechanism.
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Looking at this and all the other questions you have about your boyfriend leads me to believe that he is not the one with the problem.\n\nYou say you are living with your boyfriend, which leads me to believe that you are at least eighteen years old, but your lack of self-esteem and your dependence makes you seem quite a bit younger than that.\n\nYou may be pushing him away with your insecurities.  Men like independent, self-assured women who are confident in their own looks and personality.  Women who constantly compare themselves to other girls around them, who worry about their boyfriends' every glance at someone else - these women make men want to run and hide.\n\nYou can't change the past.  Worrying about it and snooping around won't come to anything good.  Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about *your* problem (insecurity) and tell him that you want to fix it but that you will need his help, patience and understanding.  Then do some sincere work on just letting go of the past, and building up some confidence in yourself.\n\nIt's not easy but you'll be way better off in the long run.
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Insecurity is a good guess. Many of those that try to make themselves seem better than others have real issues with themselves. They can not ever believe someone can do something better than them, make more money, etc. What they do is right and what everyone else does is wrong. Unfortunately I  know many many people like that. I have learned to tune them out of my life as much as possible and when I can't I do my best to keep my mouth shut. It really is a shame because I know some that are worse than those they are knocking and it makes me so ill at heart to see a loved one get hurt that way
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Sounds like you have 2 BEST FREINDS who have issues with self esteem & you aren't the one to fix their problems... you should deal with your own... you said it oursel they are adult ladies (ladies is a word I wouldn't use for them) who should know better
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I just answered your question about how to prove to your gf that you love her.  Sounds like you might be the one that could be insecure?  Don't worry man.. just chill.  Girls are more attracted to confidence than anything else including looks, smarts, ...
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I don't think so, not if you have to ask. Sounds like you're not confident at all. Get it together little woman, where's your self-confidence?
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Don't let him feel too tied to you or he might want to break free. Give him some space especially if it is for his own good. Try to overcome your insecurities by giving more trust and patience. Keep yourself busy.
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You've gotta psyche yourself out...don't give a damn about what anyone else around you is thinking.Learn how to accept rejection...invite it if you have to.Sometimes it pays to be an arrogant,conceited prick(only once in a great while to boost up your ego).No fear man!
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I went through a similar situation....what I discoved was that it wasn't anything I had done, but the people he was housed with were either jealous we had a strong relationship and they didn't or just "got off" on seeing other people "hard time". They have a lot of time to think in there, and their own insecurities get the best of them sometimes. Hang in there! My husband has been out for 1 1/2 years, and everything has worked out. I wish the same for you.
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Jealousy is the root to all eveil, if you are secure with yourself no woman or man on this earth could make you think other wise, 1st love yourself because noonelse can, men do nto like an insecure woman, or a needy one, read the attach article, go for a jog, meditate, go get a mani and pedi read the book he's just not that into you, and last havea cup of coffee:)
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You have very low self esteem. If your boyfriend doesn't give you any means to react this way then YES it's all in your head. You have probably been hurt,lied,cheated or deceived in the past. Well that's the past. You have to look ahead to the present/futur now. Just because others have deceived you doesn't mean that your present boyfriend will. You have to take a chance in life and open your heart. It's better to have Loved and Lost to have never had Loved at all. Have a little faith and trust in him. But if he does deceive you then hunt him down and shoot him. hahaha !