What is up with all these high schoolers wanting to get married right after graduation?
482739
Marriage is definately hard, especially when you think you have found yourself then discover a few years down the road you really don't know who you are or what you like.  Do not give in to the pressure, if I knew then what I know now, I would not have started a family until my thirties.  Your preferences change so much between the time that you graduate from high school, then college, then being responsible enough to purchase your first home.  You and your friends need to know that while the feeling of love is great, it does not pay the bills and marriage does not automatically make you or your spouse responsible.
504336
there is a man for every women and a women fro every man!\nthe lucky one for you will be coming soon i am sure...you shouldn't be in such a rush....you are still in high school right? you have you whole life a head of you! think about it!
243620
I think it's too young.  People in middle school haven't learned enough about themselves yet to be ready for relationships.... Dating so early leads to too much confusion and hurt.  When people are more mature and know themselves better, they're able to deal with the complexities of relationships much better.  It's too bad there's so much peer pressure nowadays to start dating early.
940488
It varies among people.  Some folks are ready to roll right out of high school; others have had enough of the academic life and want to see something of how the real world works before diving back into academia.  One is likely to find that the real world is rather cruel to people without college degrees, and that may help motivate one to head back to school.
580354
What!?!? Don't you KNOW?? I thought you said that you are going to marry!! Normally people wait until AFTER they've found a suitable mate before making that decision...!
973946
im in skoo n im engaged, everyone is telling me to wait til i finish college, but i think is really up to u. \n\ni am gettin married while still in skoo.  i work and pay bills plus manage to do hwork so i dont think marriage will b something really new to me since i already have household responsibilities.
53727
Because people are lonelier nowadays, and once they find the probable "perfect one", they don´t want to let the other away. So they marry in a hurry, to find out later on that the "perfect one" is not that perfect, and in fact has dozens of imperfections. So they start early and finish early also.
577836
People can be so uncouth. Who ASKS for an invitation to a wedding? Especially these days when we all know how much it costs to add an extra two people to the list? I had this happen to me too, sadly you just have to suck it up. Some people just like to go to social events, some people might actually care about who is getting married, and some people just have no clue about etiquette.
706352
I think that's a comon feeling.  You're in a rush to "start" your life and that usually includes a husband and kids. Try not to rush it because after you get married to the wrong person you'll realize how silly it was to think that way. 50% of us marry the "wrong" person. We have to be happy as ourselves before being happy w/ others. Suppose it never happens? You need to fulfill your dreams.
948396
BCZ the money. they want to marrie their sons and daughters with a person that have more money, to give social status. i'm not in favor of that, i think that a person should get married for love, not for their parenst frustrated dreams. An you are right, a person that get married without love will hate the other. Find your "blue prince"
570555
Maybe this person wants to be married before someone dies? Or maybe they have a certain date they want to get married...and can't afford to do it the way they really want to? who knows, don't be mean to this person (...)because they want to have a quick, cheap wedding! not everyone can afford the wedding of their dreams. yes, 2 months is enough time...hope it all works out for you!
783586
Isn't it obvious?\n\nThey are the FIRST people IN THE WORLD to EVER fall in love and get married.  No one else has ever done that before.  They are the first, the precedent, the trendsetters for everyone else.\n\nI thought that was common knowledge. *smirk*\n\n= D
75614
They have to set a date somewhere. How much does that sort of thing affect you now? Seriously, so they're with a different group, and a year later. Big deal. It really means that they will be one of the more mature kids, that could be a great advantage, certainly better than being one of the least mature when you hit puberty!
418796
It seems that the world is probably against you this day in age with quicky weddings and quicky divorces. Alot of the young couples I know get married really quick without thinking everything through. Call it the "want to be a bride" syndrome. Once you live together and share your lives together...things change. But if you really love each other,have talked everything through, and understand what hard work marriagetakes...you may be happy together forever. Good luck!
724644
Absolutely!! What girl doesn't dream of getting married and starting a family!! I think for the most part, most girls want that at one point or another! Sometimes, it happens early for some than it does earlier!! And going to a wedding and seeing the new couple together can make anyone excited for that type of committment! But it sounds like you have your head on your shoulders and know you don't want it yet, but yes, you are normal!! We all want the fairytale!! :-)
984804
because those guys pretend to be sensitive, have you seen the movie wedding crashers...thats a good way of putting it... they just wanna get laies and they will do about anything to get ther. but at weddings people get emotionly upset, cuz 1 of their friends is happy  and getting what they want..so they will look for someone to be happy with just for the night....ya c.\nsorry if that dnt help...haha
135852
because they are more attached to their family.. non like europ they dont leave home when they become 16 or 18 they stay with their families until they get married