I need some advice????
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His parents sound pretty immature and pointlessly mean, if they weren't kidding around. It also sounds like he's picking up on their behavior and imitating it. But his parents' behavior is not as important as his, since he is the one who is your friend. You can confront him about it, if you choose, or you can decide whether his friendship is still valuable to you. Everyone has little things that will annoy us, whether it's friends or family, and you just have to decide whether hanging out with them is worth putting up with them. If his only bad trait is that he occasionally teases your brothers, you might just simply want to ask him to stop.
888555
Yes! I agree totally! Thank you for asking this. The best thing to do would be to do other things. Keep yourself busy!
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Tell your new girlfriend that you are having a problem.  Explain how you are attracted to her, what you love/like about her, but that for some reason you keep thinking of your old girlfriend.  Explain that you don't really know why.  Then let her know that you need some time to work this out, and that the more time goes on, the more you realize that you're not ready to be in a new relationship after all right now, WITH ANYBODY.  And truthfully take that to heart.  I'd ease off of this new relationship for a few weeks or a month or so, just to sort out your own feelings.  You need to either A) get in touch with some real feelings of grief about losing your old girlfriend and work through them (maybe with a counselor?) and / or B) re-visit the old relationship to see if you should continue.  Either way, it's important to recognize and attend to what's real, your truest and deepest feelings inside.
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good advice, my friend. i hope others read this and take heed.\nthanks.   BM
7565
dont nescisaraly think "oh, i need a boyfriend, im a loser w/o one." just have fun being yourself and i guarantee you that someone will end up likeing you for who you are. Also make sure that you dont let a guy walk all over you just because you are so thankfull for even a crappy guy (by crappy i mean bad/no personality, not nice/evil) that you would let him. one more hint. dont pine over the abercrombie asses and preppy-pin heads. look for someone like you, and always keep an open mind! <3-Olean
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your girlfriends supposed to be gay and she cheated on you with a guy?? she's probably cheated on you more than this guy that you know of. to me you just seem as back burner and i don't mean it in a harsh way, but you seem to only be with her if it suits her, when no other man is interested. Cut your losses and leave her. I know it is going to suck for a while but then someone great will come around, someone who actually respects you enough to not cheat. You are always going to care about her in some way or another, but only time will stop you from loving her that and space. you're definitely going to need to get away from her for awhile. hope i helped
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thank u for your advice
618457
Just talk to him.  Make it happen.  That's the only way to be in control!
105389
Be yourself! {Please dont lie} Good grief! Think of someting funny to talk about! I dont know _Maybe you need new friends dude! Relax , be that person down deep just wanting to get out ! You have your entire life ahead of you ! Slow Down! BE real! RELAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111
506120
dont forgive her talk to her. tell her whats bothering you and ask her to stop. if she doesnt stop then tell her you guys are through. i had the same prob many many times, lost a few friends but not many. and i dont regret anything so hey take my advice, or leave it, its up to you, all your decions are up to you, none else. good luck.
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I don't have any great advice unfortunately but please keep pursuing it. If I were you I would definetly report it to his medical association. \n\nI'm really sorry you are going through this. Hope someone comes along with a good answer for you.
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Well... it sounds like there isn't anything you can do!!! If she wants to "dumb" for him, it's all up to her to relize it's time to get smart!!! She really isn't asking for your help in this because if she really wanted help, she would take your advise. Just be that ear for her. And if you feel like you don't want to be friends anymore, still be there, but keep her at a distance.
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Take help and Contact where you are.\nNot at this place like Yahoo answers,\n\nYOu may not get much support.\n\nGood bless you.
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Just tell them the truth. That's all you need to do. Have a great day :)
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just tell him.and hope it works out.good luck
44894
Diet and exercise.  Don't try to do it all at once.  Make minor changes to your lifestyle, and stick with them.
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Ignore them...see what happens. Be too busy with your life to call them all the time. If they really love you, they will chase you. Put yourself in places they will have to see you...by accident of course ;-)  And act like you didn't know they were there. If you catch them staring...look at them, smile and wink, and walk on. I actually pinched a guy on the butt and kept walking once. (yeah, he called) lol But back to your original question, Everyone is different. Some people show love, some people don't know how. People won't always believe what you say, but they will always believe what you do. What do they do? They can tell you all day long they love you, but do they show it? Do they give you the last cookie? It's little things. I didn't know a guy loved me like he did, until it was too late.  He didn't show it, I assumed he didn't. Hopefully we learn from our mistakes. Life goes on. I am happier, He is happier. That's life.