i feel emptyness,loneliness without him & want him back in my life.I know he not loveS  me.Did he miss me too?
480354
Simply ask yourself a question. Why do you need him? What is so special about him? Do you love him or you only want him to love you? RIGHT THING to do in life is to marry and live with a person who loves you. And in this case he does not love you at all. Thus you NEED a person who will love you and your life will be full of bliss. Look for a person out of so many available in this world and simply leave the person who does not love you.
1147581
i am...and i miss my bf :'(
944662
You deserve someone better,of course you miss him,that's normal.Humans have feelings,you will get over it soon.Keep yourself busy so wont think of it,whenever you are free do something like spend more time with your children.Almost forget ask him for maintenance fee.
786713
Yeah that is hard. I'm very sorry that you haven't gotten over him yet and moved on with your life.\nAt least you realize that he doesn't want you anymore. I know it even hurts to read it and I'm sorry I'm not trying to be mean. You need to recognize how short life is and that you deserve to be happy. You deserve to be with a person that will feel the same way you feel about them. Do you know what you are worth? Well then, move on with your life you are not promised tomorrow right? the sooner you realize this you will have peace in your mind body and soul. Cause i know how it is to crave for a man that you can't have I've been there. \nGood Luck  to you Hun.
372552
go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;
1167249
He sounds immature.  Ask yourself if you  are better off with him or without him.  Sounds to me like without would be the way to go.\n\nI just ended a 7 year relationship - so don't feel alone in this.  I feel sad at times but am getting my life back together without his head games and am feeling at peace\n\nGood luck
227283
I think maybe you should take a break from this guy.  Sounds like you are the only one getting back together with him.  There is someone else out there for you.
972231
well 2 my guess he much have feeling 4 u if hes trying 2 call u and stuff...if ur really missing him like the way u say u r then u might be in "love" with him....2 tell u the truth guys aint very good and telling/showing there TRUE feels and if u really want them 2 tell u just ask and tell them what u feel...and if hes braking plans with u..u need 2 talk about it...or start braking plans with him and let him c how u feel when he does it 2 u!!
691903
I know it is very painful, but in all honesty it sounds like he is using you. It's a hard lesson to learn, but money/gifts can't buy love. Better for you to find out what he's like now rather than later. Now you can go back to your old town and get on with your life. I know if won't be easy. It's going to take some time to get over him. A broken heart takes time to heal. And, I think you are far better off without him, since he seems to be the kind of guy who takes advantage of others. You may not believe it now, but you will get over him in time. Be gentle with yourself. Get involved in other activities. Your heart will mend. God Bless!
558353
Hello nic@nite! This sometimes happens wen we are missing something in our lives that we once cherished a lot! This is a way by which our subconscious lets us know that we need to do something to fill that void. It may or may not have anything to do wth that girl, but it surely has a lot to do with how you felt wen u were with her. Pls do a bit of intropspection and find out wat aspect in ur life is 'suffering', be it emotional, n so on.. I'm sure dat u wont be hurting again if you do dat, as it is just a reminder to let you know that u need someone or maybe just urself to fill that void. Blessings!
776772
Very possible.  Or he thought you were dragging your feet.  It is understandable that as more time went by, and he began feeling more insecure, that he distanced himself from you.  It was probably a way for him to protect himself in case you backed out.  Now that he feels more assured you will proceed he feels free to express his love for you again. I hope that helps.
236791
If he truly would of cared about you, then he would of understood, that is a brave and completely honest thing to say to him and for that I applaud you. Just focus on you and learn to love yourself and then find someone who is worthy of you and your love. that person will be in your life when you are truly ready, take your time. til then explore life within yourself. good luck
1087872
Well it could be he is busy or he might be over you. ( Hate to say it.) Talk to him about it and you will feel better.\n                ~Lina~
919016
I am happy for you that you realize he didn't love you, you are on the road to recovery!  WTG!  Why do you miss him so much?  You spent 3 years with him, that is a good chunk of time wouldn't you agree?  Even though someone hurt us more than imaginable, we still suffer a loss after a break up.  The only way to heal is to forgive him for all they ways he's hurt you.  You forgive him for yourself and your mental health, it really has nothing to do with him.  Then give yourself a lot of time.  You aren't going to get over three years in a month.  When you feel you are ready to move on you will but; give yourself a little time so what he did to you doesn't effect your next relationship.  Good luck and remember:  "NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY."  I don't know who said it but; it's wonderful isn't it?
288017
You will know. There is no need to ask anyone else about your own feelings. However, if you are not in touch with your feelings, and don't really know if your in love or not, then just imagine yourself without him. If your in love, you won't be able to see yourself without him. Just ask yourself these kind of questions: How would I feel if he broke up with me? Would I try to get him back or would I just move on? Will I be sad and depressed after the breakup or just think of it as his loss?
409260
Absolutely.  He did- he moved, didn't he???\n\nBelieve me, right now you're thinking and feeling like there isn't anybody else and you were meant to be together, yadda, yadda, yadda.\n\nBut, even if he was still around and you were together, you wouldn't feel like that a year from now.\n\nThere are just toooo many great, smart, and sexy men to settle just for one.
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maybe cause your used to him being with you and you miss him