I would like to know the men's thought on this one, plz?
489389
You have every right in the world to want to be with someone else.  There is absolutely no reason at all why you shouldn't be.  If he has a problem with you having a boyfriend then that is his problem and needs to get used to the idea of there being a step daddy eventually.  You need to get the hell out from there honestly and move on with your life.  Move somewhere that you can be safe away from them.  I know that he is the father and that she is the grandmother but, YOU are the MOTHER.  That is #1 in all scenarios.  Your safety and the babies safety comes first in all this. Take YOUR child and get the hell outta dodge.
879951
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84977
a guy with who i'm studying/working.. but i'm not sure if he would like the same thing.. can you maybe give me an advice :)
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
1179650
If you are comfortable with it,then I say go for it. He will respond by giving you some of the best lovin you could hope for!! This kind of talk turns him on and in turn he will want to do more for you.....If he doesn't,then all he is wanting is his own satisfaction. If this turns out to be the case,I would think seriously about how this relationship is going. On a personal note. I love for my woman to talk to me while we are making love. Not that it has to be dirty in nature,but letting me know how much she is enjoying the moment. That in turn makes me want to please her even more. Hope I have been of help....Keith...
509108
I think being able to set up boundries is important but most guys love any attention from women but if you look more insecure the more then likely he will be with her.  Men love a confident women.  Until he says enough she will still come around but maybe he is just playing the field and keeping his options open and if it does bother that much then you walk away but try to be friends and keep it simple and take out the drama.
962442
I can't speak for all women, but me personally, It was more of a turn on... something about the shy smile, and being worried enough to care about the impression you're making, intrigued me, made me want to know more. I am speaking from personal experience, my hubby of 20 yrs. now. But I was always very "turned off" by brash over-confident males.
1140222
Normal.  He'd probably appreciate it if you guys explored the possiblities.  But very very normal. It's an opportunity to strenghten your relationship, and it doesn't have to be a bum bum fest.  But if you judge him and think it's sadistic, you are a very very bad woman.
51649
Your man's only problem seems to be he loves the skin you are in.  Take comfort and joy in knowing that he feels lucky to have you.  His eyes are on you and your booty, instead of every other one in front of you.  And Im sure he didnt propose to your booty, right?  Obviously, there are other things about him or you would not have said yes to his proposal.
980816
Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
492096
ahm...nothing really...but there was this situation about a man who loves his wife that he did everything to keep his wife fit....but to no avail...she was as sloppy as ever..\n\nhe asked for an advice...i think it's really cool for a guy to be concern about his mate, that he'll take an extra step to help her or improve their relationship..
773499
Men aren't the best communicator but they do think alot, and it is very possible that in his mind he is thinking long term, and by saying what he did he wanted you to know how great he thinks you are by letting you know you have the whole package.  You go girl!!
761855
i truthfully know men and i mean really know men. I would suggest shrugging him off a bit! He may think that you are too available to him, he is a man but hes not dumb! If all these girls are paying him so much attention, he i sucking it up! Maybe if he sees that you arnt that interested, which we no is not true, he might see you in a different light. Men love a tease! make it a challenge for him!
624180
Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
837535
Times-a-changing!\n\nMy dear......Jim sounds like a real nice guy........n he is very considerate & caring for others' feelings!\n\nI believe jim is subtlely giving u a message.......that he has found someone whom he enjoys being with........n he did mention that this is one of his colleagues ........ which means he gets to see her almost daily.\n\nJim is considerate enough not to tell u bluntly........he just mentioned his recent date to u.......n changed the subject when u persue it.\n\nRemember......u r both college grads......educated.... learned & intelligent.......so there is no need for him to give u details.........n it shows his quality in NOT going into details.........he would expect u to understand!\n\nwhat's going on with Jim?.........he is moving on.....getting his career in shape.........n establishing his niche in this working world.........n developing feelings for someone who is close......near to......& constantly in his sphere of breathing & living!\n \nMy dear.....dont feel hurt......do your own thing.....n please give Jim his due respect........he IS a nice & very considerate person..........otherwise u wouldnt drive out just to be with him each weekend.\n\nNow that Jim wants to build his own world & nest....... please let him...........n I am sure he will always be your good friend that u could count on any rainy day!\n\nHumans have sensitive feelings.........unfortunately...... they do get very hurt at times..........Take care!
531057
Depends if this guy is living with his "baby's mama". If he is then I hate to say it but your the woman on the side. If he is not with this woman then ask him what your relationship is and if there is any future.  You said you "had" a man so I take it your single now. If it goes nowhere with him then move on and find someone with less drama in there life.
654460
HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont