How do you let someone know your interested in them without seeming desperate?
484791
start small.  say hi.\n\nthat might be all you need to do.
819453
Just try to get a conversation with them.  Just seem concerned or something.  Dont try to flirt though because that will make him think that you like him.
641897
Get to know each other.  Spend time at lunch, breaks, etc. Talk and listen to each other.  That's the best way to tell if someone is interested.
243501
really a tough question for we the shy people. try to catch her attention, but don't over do it. keep in touch, get to know her little by little and it might work. there are no instant remedies of magical formulas, but it kinda work. the most important: keep your eyes open and your mouth shut if you ain't sure of what to do.
497065
Speaking personally, I like a girl who isn't afraid to tell me she's interested. We guys can be really dumb sometimes so you need to tell us! If a girl's playing hard to get, then a lot of times the guy will just assume she's not interested. If you aren't comfortable using the direct approach, drop some subtle (or not so subtle) hints...tell him he looks good,etc. He should pick up on it. Hope this info helps.
1084093
YOU SHOULD SEND HE OR SHE SUMTHIN TO LET THAT PERSON KNOW DAT YOU ARE FEELIN THEM. BUT DNT ACT LIKE YOUR STOCKIN THEM OR JUST GOIN TO DIE IF YOU DNT HAVE THEM JUST PLAY IT COOL AND EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE EITHER SHE WANT  YOU OR SHE DONT ITS AS SIMPLE AS DAT . AND IF SHE TURN YOU DOWN DEN DATS A LESSON LEARN DAT MAYB YOU NEED TO DO SUMTHIN BETTER. GOOD LUCK ON FINDING DAT GURL
196061
that's simple. your a girl so u shouldn't worry about getting him interested at you. girls have the charms! just go up to him, say hi and carry the conversation to going out some time.
953488
Find out what she is interested in and learn about it. You could easily make something like that come up in casual conversation. Another idea would be to ask her an open-ended question about herself. Most people like to talk about themselves and maybe if you ask her about her family or her work/school she will feel flattered and interesting (which all girls like to feel!) Also sneak some small compliments in there...you don't want to make it too obvious and desperate.
1128426
Try this:  "Hi, My name is XXXXXX, would you be interested in having dinner with me this weekend?"\n\nAfter so many years of dating, I don't play around with the games or trying to give (or look for) signals that someone is interest.  Just go out on a date and see what happens.  Sometimes there is a connection, sometimes it's a flop.  There is no secret code or password or magic phrase - just be blunt and honest and have fun.
316000
Just let things develop on their on. drop subtle hints but don't push it too fast.
109197
Well, it may sound cliche, but mannerisms are a hint.  I say hint because of all the "halfway" metros (no offence).  No, honestly, the best way is to actually talk to this person.  Be polite and professional, and after a while, you should know.  Best advice if you are interested.\nHowever, if you are not interested and just want to know if this person may have a thing for you, you really need to understand that it's all around, everywhere you turn.  Unattractive girls, homosexual men, if they end up having a thing for you, take it as a compliment, let them know your position, and that's that.  They should respect your decisions and lifestyle, and if not, the issue is not with you so you're in the clear.\nHope this helps.
15273
You should never be shy to let someone know that you are interested in them or getting to know them better through spending time with them.  You have nothing to lose and if you find out now that he has plans already, you can still have time to plan what you want to do.\n\nHope that helps.\n\nMark
58367
First you smile, then go up to her and just try: "Hi" or "Hi" and a compliment... tell her why you wanted to speak to her. And if she doesn't act interested be friendly, wish her a nice day and leave, be cool... because you really weren't that interested...\nBut when you say a compliment, don't say anything cheesy like: You have a great smile, or anything too machoman. \nTry something like: "I really tried hard to think of something I could say to you to make you notice me (or whatever) but I couldn't come up with anything that didn't sound weird... so I'll just make it easy; Hi, I'm ..."\n\nI don't know...\nBut I think it's cool that you want to do that! You've got courage.\nGood luck!
555810
if a person shows a keen, sincere interest in you-- on your thoughts, opinions-- without being constricting, i think, i'd feel really flattered and would want to hang around with that person..\n\nmake her feel special without giving the impression that she's pressured into reciprocating the  gesture..\n\nit'll take time to know where you'd stand finally, but it's worth a try..\n\ngood luck!
114323
Be bold and strike a conversation. When some familiarity is in place you may then let her know your interest and feelings towards her. It all depends if she will give you audience and not play hard to get
657555
Tell the person that you're starting to have feelings for them, but be casual about it.  Don't be all dramatic and over the top just bring it up in a casual situation like having him over for a drink or something and just start talking about it.  Usually if you approach it casually you won't get a huge reaction as a result of it.  Keep a little distance and if they're not interested then just let it go.  But you'll never know if it could happen unless you ask.
1026740
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.\n1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?\n2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.\n3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.\n4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?\nJust remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!