Anyone ever been mean to the person they liked?
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Sweetheart did you know the closes thing to love is hate . There almost the same .Now answer UR self this Question ? Do U love each other till DEATH Do US part .That's pretty  heavy is that what U really want ?
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Oh my goodness....I have one.\n\nIt was right after I got out of a very long, very terrible relationship, yet it was before I met my husband.  I was sitting at my house with my roommate and one of those commercials came on TV for the telephone dating service.  TeleMates or something like that.  Well, I had been drinking just a bit so I decided to call it for fun.\n\nWell, I instantly was on the line with this guy who was a little older than me, who sounded really nice.  He described himself as being extremely nice looking with gorgeous blue eyes, etc. etc.  I was like "YES!!! Let's meet up for a date."\n\nSo a couple of days later, this guy was coming to pick me up.  I got ready for HOURS! (I hadn't been single in years, so I was so nervous about this "blind date")  My roommate was there, and a few of our friends were there to meet this guy.\n\nWell, we hear a car pulling into the driveway and my roommate runs to the window and is peeking out.  She turns around and starts laughing and she's like "He totally lied to you.  You are not going to like this."  I kept smiling, thinking that she was joking.  No, as it turns out, she was just being nice.\n\nThis guy looked NOTHING like he had described.  He had on huge thick glasses, he was like 4 inches shorter than me and about 30 pounds more than what he described.  He also had told me he was a great dresser, and lets just say this was a lie too!  The only thing he had in common with what he told me was that he had blue eyes!  That was it!\nSo this guy comes in and he's holding a rose, and I instantly feel like a b!tch for being so judgemental.  I thought, maybe he is a really nice guy, so I decided not to fake sickness as I had originally planned and take a chance on him. If anything, he could just be a friend that I hung out with.\nSo we go on our date.  He asks me where I want to go eat.  I tell him I'm not picky, I'm content with McDonalds double cheeseburgers.  So he decides to take me to a nice Mexican restaurant downtown.  We go in, and we're sitting there talking and sure enough, he is a nice guy.  So then he offers to buy me a drink.  I tell him I like margaritas.  He orders me the biggest margarita they have, one that costs over 10 bucks and comes in a cup that looks like a bowl!  So I drink the margarita.  He buys another one.  I drink it.  We finish eating and then we leave. \nSo he stops at a store, asks me do I smoke, I say yes.  He goes in, buys me several packs of cigarettes and a lighter.  And a case of beer.  I'm like WTF, but okay.....\nSo he gets a call on his cell phone and asks would I like to stop by his house, that his brother is having a "party" there.  I say sure, and figure if this is a trick, I have my pepper spray in my purse!\nSo we go to his house and it is only his brother there!  There is no party.  Apparently, I am the party.  So we sit around and drink some beers, have some conversation.  Then my cell phone rings and it is my former best friend (who is a guy) I talk only for a minute before telling him maybe we can hang out later, then hang up.  The guy I'm on a date with gives me this weird look and he's like "Was that a guy?" As I explain to him that it was my best friend, who I dated when I was 15, but since then, he's engaged and has two kids, he just looks pissed.  He grabs my purse up from bside me, shoves it into my hands and tells me he's taking me home.\nAs we're driving down the road, I start to tell him I had a fun time with him, and this dude just starts freaking out on me.  I remember he told me "You're nothing but a player.  You're one of those girls, you just play good guys like me.  Do you get off on playing people and doing them wrong?"  Of course, I'm like What the hell are you talking about?  So this guy proceeds to just b!tch me out:  I take you out and treat you right and you just screw me over.  That'
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Yes, it made me feel so bad.  But I ended up talking to him about our situation, I didn't want him to think I was a bad person.  He was mad at first then he cooled down, and he was fine with it.
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This happened to me one time.  A co worker seemed really interested in me and he started asking me personal questions.  I got the hint and told him I was already involved, then he said "Hold on baby girl, you got me all wrong...."  I felt like a fool to have thought he was making advances toward me, but I still believe that was his true intention no matter what his explanation was.  I think he was trying to save himself the embarrassment so he tried to make ME look like the fool (in which he did).  I just shrugged off the whole situation.  We still talked a little, but not much.  And eventually communication just completely taperred off.  I still don't appreciate how he tried to make me look stupid, but I knew what he was doing.
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I have one for you.  I used to live in Columbus, Ohio, and I'd put an ad in a Single's Magazine.  There was one lady that replied that seemed relatively nice, so we agreed to meet at a restaurant one day.  When we met she was so nervous you could cut the tension with a knife.  I don't remember what we talked about or for how long we talked but after the date was over we never saw or heard from each other again.  She was relatively nice looking and had a pleasant personality, but no matter how hard I tried I could not get her to relax.  I  could honestly feel the tension so bad that I felt I was being pushed against a wall.  Definitely a very strange experience because I don't think I'd ever scared someone so bad in life as much as I think I scared this poor woman.  Oh well, I chaulked it up as one for experience.
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I dated this guy Mike for not too long but I know toward the end of our "relationship" I started to hate the way he kissed it grossed me out I would talk talk talk forever just to avoid kissing him it probably wasn't the way he kissed just that I didn't like him anymore.  Oh well no matter we're better off now!
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i totally had that problem because i had low self esteem. it was like "how could someone that great love me? im crappy" but then i started trying to see myself through his eyes. like, i am pretty sweet and i treat him great cos i love him so much. so then i accepted it...it just took time to see what he meant. plus he stuck with me through a lot of crappy times and a lot of shit that i did.
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Oh I could be very cruel..I once told my shy friends son if he would ask the waitress out I would give him $50..He didn't do it..I then told him I'd give him $20 just to tell her she was looking good today..He didn't do it..I'm sure he regretted not making a quick $75..\nI would go around daring people to do all kinds of things.
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That's exactly what happens to me with a close friend of mine.. \nso i've been thinking about it hard lately .. esp after i tried every way with her.. i talked to her about it many times .. i got mad at her.. i forgave her a thousand times.. so the last thing i decided was to tell her for the last time the way i hate it when she does things that hurt my feelings and told her that now she knows what bothers me and that im not gona talk to her or call her until she thinks deeply about it and realizes that i really get hurt and make sure she wont do it again and is ready to change the way she treats me in order for the past not to repeat itself
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I wouldn't be mean to some of the people I was mean to when I was in school. Makes me feel bad now that I was such a stuck up bitch\n☺
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No, because it is like you are taking advantage of that person who kind of likes you. Good Luck.
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It depends on where you are and what point you are in the relationship - i have just upset my loved one tonight. I told her that i was sorry (didnt work) but then i just said that whatever happened, i would always love her, i simply had no choice, even if i tried, i could never stop wanting her, i just simply had no choice, i was just driven by her warmth and beauty - it worked :-)
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I deliberately picked fights with my guy, to see how serious he was about the relationship. See, it's like this- he doesn't get mad- ever. And I had to know- if it came to a fight, would he get mean? Would he shout and scream and go psycho, or storm out? Would he hit me, or what? So, I was pretty mean to him, just to see what he'd do. I feel guilty about it, and haven't done it since.
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Yes...  It's called compassion.  And it's a good thing, in moderation, of course.  A lot of people have a "who cares?" attitude and end up hurting people in their lives, whether important people or the random fellow shopper at the grocery store.\n\nThere's a thin line in the relationship of being brutal, mean, honest, compassionate, truthful, white-liar, etc..  The trick is to no when you're being TOO nice or when you're being TOO mean.\n\nPerhaps you can still be honest and sincere but not hurtful... like maybe respond with something like... "Yeah, I was thinking maybe next time, if we decide to go out again, we can do something like ----- fill in blank with ideas -----... what do you think?"  ... if he/she says a flat out "no"... hey... why bother making a 2nd date..  ya know?  And if he/she says it'd be fine with him/her... then you've got potential!
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I always dislike people when I first meet them too. I usually grow to like them. i think it's a defense thing. I'm usually meaner to the nicer people they seem so weak it's easy to walk all over them. I feel bad too. But I just can't help myself
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No...but my so called "Best Friend" hated one of my other "Best Friends". We're not friends anymore though...and it's a rather long, rather racist story so I won't go into details...
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Look this same exact thing happened to me and i swear i was about to go physco on this guys a**, but he wasn't sincere at all in his apoligy, so if you said you were sorry in a certain tone of voice she might have taken it in a way like you didn't really mean it, and maybe the 2nd time you said it nicer and she knew you were sincere, so it could just be the way you said it.