my best friend is hot and I like her but she doesn't want a b/f and yet we kissed twice what should I do?
488585
So how do you like junior high so far?
269254
You're best friend couldn't truly be a friend if she wants your man.  Does he show interest in her? If not, let her go or lay off the friendship for a while to see if she is truly your friend.  If he has interest in her, let him go also he was to be a friend before lover anyway. A friend is forever and would never hurt you or put you in compromising position.
1044340
Tell her how you feel and what you want. If she feels the same, great. If she doesn't, though it may hurt, move on. It is not worth it to hold on for weeks, months, years for something that isn't going to happen. You may end up missing out on the real good stuff by standing in as your best friend's back up boy.\n\nYou said it yourself, she is your best friend. That may be all she will ever be.
430017
Go with the flow.  If you still like him, get back together.  If you don't, make sure he knows and move on.  But tell your best friend to be careful.  He might get upset and go out with her just to try to make you jealous.
1040810
Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
597526
I'm in an identical situation only i am a guy. And the guys in your story are girls in mine. I'm not gay. Just wait it out and eventually they will break up. However you need to know what your best friend would do if you were to go out with her ex. If she was really your best friend, she would understand and she would let you go out with him-but come on thats never gonna happen. You need to find out who you like more, this guy, or your friend. It sound to me that he sorta like you, and if your friend knows he flirts with you, and shes not jealous shes\n- in it because the guy is popular\n- is a whore that just wants to sleep with her boyfriend until she is bored\n- is trying to tell herself shes being uptight\nYou need to know if he likes you before you do anything about your friend. Ask one of his friends or a brother or sister of his. It will be hard, but if you loose a friend, how good of a friend is she?\nP.S. Do not go out with this guy directly when he breaks up with your friend. She wont like that, and he wont think your much of a friend. Wait at least two weeks, by then your friend should be interested in some other guy.
982364
Well, this seems to be a tricky situation. I have been in a similar, yet not so intimate situation, with another friend. Now let me tell you what I did to solve the situation. This answer may give you an idea as to what your next step should be. \nI didn't feel the same way because I thought it was forced. I love my friend in lots of ways but when it feels forced then it is hard to get past the idea that we are not friends. At that time I felt uncomfortable. He likes me still. But I told him that we could just be friends. Now we are still friends and we're glad for it. Sometimes the timing may not be right or she feels it is forced. At this moment cherish the fact that you guys are friends. When the time feels right she will automatically open up to you. At that time, it will not feel forced and you will not have lost a good friend. Remember people feel uncomfortable and forced in many different ways.\nSee, differences between individuals are evident in any relationship, but it is how one handles those differences within the relationship that matters. Are you willing to lose a good friend over your desire for it to be more than that? Decision is up to you.
812314
Explain to her what happened & why you didn't say anything. If you guys are really best friends, you'll get over it. Best wishes!
346597
She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!
1053846
Ok, I think there are two possible answers to your question. He might be worried that a relationship with you, his best friend, may not work out and would destroy your friendship. Especially if he doesn't have any other friends. He probably loves you more than you could imagine.\nThe other option is that he's gay. I know, just hear me out. He may not have come to terms with it and has no idea how to tell you. Think about it. You guys are best friends, you're attracted to him and asked him to be your bf. He obviously llikes you a lot and is attracted to you but not sexually attracted to you. \nEither way, I think you should tell him that you really like him as a friend and wish there could be something more between the two of you. Remind him that there is nothing that could ever change the fact that the two of you are the best of friends.
652397
I. jealousy is bad, wether you are bi, gay or straight... try to ease up a little!\nII. your friend is not what she says... even if she were in love with you, she wouldn't act in any way like this. loving means caring, but she only hurts you.\nIII. you can not force smbdy to love you. if she "moved" on is because she wasn't sincere all the way from the begining;\nIV. I would suggest extreme caution with her, as she might play some nasty tricks to you if she senses that you are weak and get easyly hurt!!!\nconclusion: ignore her (even if it hurts you like hell!) and try to get the things sorted in your mind. work out, get a new sexy haircut...
863050
Talk to her about it one on one. She probably does not realize that you're feeling this way. My friend did the same thing when she fell in love in high school. Now we're both in different colleges but we still hang out, but her bf has now become one of my friends as well. But yeah the relationship between my friend and I was never the same.
474499
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
969079
well, if you both are each others best friends, than it shouldn't be all that hard to talk to each other about it. If it is...too bad,you guys have to sit down and talk about your feelings for each other, see what she says, heck you might even get to hear some new things come out of your mouth, stuff you didn't know you thought.\nAfter a good conversation you can both decide, do we both want to date each other? Are there any reasons why not?\nafter you've decided just how possible a relationship is, why don't you both go on a date together\nI'm sure you both know what you like doing together already, so try something new, something you would normally "do with a boy".\nAt the end of your date, after looking at each other with a different set of eyes, you'll have abetter understanding of "is she right for me"\ntry to end the day off with a goodnight kiss\nthe next day.....or after two days if you want a day to think to yourselves, try talking to each other again\nafter all of this has gone on, you'll both be at least sure of whether or not you want to give a relationship a try......who knows, maybe you'll both be satified by fooling around on the side....a very natural thing for some very close freinds\n\nwhatever you do, do not let this simply pass by unnoticed, you both owe it to each other to give this a chance....even if you just end up talking about it once.\n\n\n\nor you could do what most girls do; go out, get drunk and lez out with each other.
856153
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
193925
Tell her to kiss you patuty and find someone new.  Why put yourself through that again?  If she was running hot and cold before what makes you think she is any different now?
800954
Forget about it and move on.  Not everything that comes out of someones mouth is meant to come out.  You know, sometimes your mouth moves faster than your brain can censor.  He made a verbal slip-up.  If anyone brings it up again, say:  "OH, I'd forgotten all about that!  I'm sure he meant nothing by it." Then change the subject.\n\nYou don't want to be with him.\nHe doesn't really want to be with you. \nAnd your best friend wants to be with him.\n\nForgive, forget, and move on.  :-)