lately I have found a guy who realy understands me & I don't know how to tell my boyfriend without hurting him
490379
You boyfriend should love you for who you are and should not be trying to change you in any way, they are supposed to encourage you to be yourself. You can't not hurt your boyfriend because the truth hurts. I suggest that you just tell him and try to end things as peacefully as possible. Good luck.
265417
be patient and dont attack him when telling him\nlet him ease into the relationship at his own speed\nyou would want the same
1132778
sometimes, verbal revelations could lose the strength of reality.\ndon't expect anymore of any direct love from him.. just go on with your life.... still be nice to him... let him do his style.. dont expect much, otherwise, youll just be hurt... pretend as if you dont mind him... meantime, focus your attention elsewhere...a hobby, a new interesting guy, or your work or studies perhaps..
995967
I think that maybe you scared to say it. You don't want to let your guard down and get hurt. Whatever the case may be if you do love him you should tell him no matter how hard it is for you. Love is not something you want to let slip through your fingers because you couldn't tell him how you really feel. How badly would you be hurt if he left you? Not showing him the proper love he deserves may push him away or make him want more out of the relationship that you aren't will to give to him. I f you love him don't let him go, it will be way harder to let him go that to tell him how you really feel.
721271
well just let him know how you feel  and if he really loves you thn he will understand
489512
ask him to whisper to your boyfriend what he said then you don't have to tell your boyfriend yourself
32215
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
1144328
Just be honest and up front with him and tell him you want to slow it down and take time... If he does not understand this then he may not be the one for you. Be gentle and calm when telling him though and dont be loud or say it out of frustration and in the heat of the moment. i wish you the best with this and hope and trust that all goes well!
1046037
I find a new boyfriend
259732
You should just move on, while you are with him you might be missing out on the right man for you. It sounds like you and your boyfriend aren't really in the relationship anymore anyway, you're settling, you're just in it because it is comfortable.
461574
do not say your sorry - you must first show it - get your stuff together - for give ness must be shown - not just talked aboutif you are serious and he is a good person , you may start talking - he is listening even if he's mad, and then you show every day you DO care and love him - he will mellow in time - how much time is unimportant- just keep doing the show thing - even stupid men can be retrained to see their partner cares from the heart
330998
tell him how you feel he will probably understand
638347
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you've realized you are not ready to jump into a relationship. We all miss-judge and make mistakes, he should understand that you were confused. I think he would appreciate your sincerity.
1051826
There are a lot of ways - you can tell him, sometimes it can be seen in the way you look at him. It is shown in how you listen when he talks to you, how you treat him when you are together...it can be seen in just about anything that you do.
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It's great that he's so open to telling you.  Definitly tell him.  As wonderful as it is to hear those words, they lose their meaning if it's a constant thing.  We only need to hear it a couple of times.  The rest of the day, show us.  Leave a note on the bathroom mirror, hide a note or card in their jacket pocket for them to find later.  Words are not the only way.  \nFirst you should tell him that you know he loves you and enjoy hearing it, but don't need to hear it all the time.
629730
You're thinking a bit too far ahead. Just have faith and let things run its course. If you keep on worrying about this, then it might subconsciously affect your actions and behaviour or the actual relationship.\n\nTo answer your question though, just tell him honestly and in person. Don't make any empty promises like "We'll still be friends" or, "I will always care for you", because most of the time it doesn't work out that way. Plus, it hurts the dumpee a LOT more when you promise those things and later abandon the promises.
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some things are better left unsaid so just break it off with you'll live in boyfriend and tell him that it's not working out anymore and tell the next guy you made a big mistake but now you know that you only want to be with him and him only