what does it mean when a boy want to go out with you but instead of telling you he tells your freinds?
481078
I was in the same situation believe it or not.  He is just a little shy around you because he likes you. it looks like you kinda have to be the leader in this relationship because it sure doesn't look like he is. that's what i think.\nBest of luck
937071
just tell that if they promise not to tell u will tell them who u like...and if they do tell them...i think u need better friends
259813
friend are better than boys(or girls) but go out with the person u like i got the same problem
721115
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
302552
Yes, go ahead and tell him now. Don't make him do the scariest thing in guy world - asking a girl out - only to be turned down. You can say "I am really glad that I have you as a friend, but I kinda get the feeling that you might want more. I love you and I don't want to hurt you, but I just don't feel anything but friendship for you."
631587
Dont you just hate that!! It happens-your definately not alone. Guess its just the way they show how they feel so they dont risk rejection! Play along a little and at some point ask him-when you hang out with your friends if he wants to be treated like one of the girls?
920176
If he knows you like him, and he asks other girls out other than you, then that means that he doesn't like you back as more than a friend.  \nIt's not comfortable to tell people who like you that the feeling isn't mutual, so he hasn't said anything.  He's hoping you'll "get the hint" and stop coming on to him.
917455
As a former high school boy my answer is Yes, Yes, and Yes.  All three boys are attracted to you.  Case 1 is clearly asking you to say you want to go out with him without risking asking you out himself and having you say no.  Case 2 may want to be more than a friend, but also does not want to risk the friendship.  I remember a similar case when I was in high school.  A girl that was my friend, took me aside and tried to tell me she wanted to go out with me.  I was so dense I still didn't get it so she finally just blurted out "It's you I'm talking about.  Would you be interested in going out with me."  I thought she was beautiful and brilliant and funny and out of my league.  That last part has more to do with my self esteem at the time than it had to do with her, but anyway I was so nervous around her that going out was out of the question.  Anyway we stayed friends, but there was always a little uncomfortable quiet between us that was never there before.  You sound like a nice friendly outgoing girl that boys find it easy to be around.  Good for you.\nNow as a father of a young girl:\nBe careful of case 1.  He is bold yet cautious.  He has "dumped a girl" recently and may be more interested in conquest than in relationship.  My advice to my daughter would be to stay quiet and make him risk more by coming out with  a request for a date.  Then be cautious.  Case 2 I would tell my daughter to ask herself if she could see her friend as a boyfriend, afterall the best relationships are based on friendship.  Only you can answer for yourself if there is a chance of more.  If not, leave it alone.  If you think maybe there is a chance, this boy may prove to be a better bet.  Case 3.  (laughter)  Please do something to put the poor guy at ease around you.  Either tell him you want to be friends, or ask him out, or tell him to leave you alone.  This poor guy is obviously suffering from an intense crush on you.  Good luck.  Enjoy your high school years because they wont come back.  Try not to get roped into a too confining relationship.  Emotions run high, but youth should be a time of discovery.  I do not know of one single relationship that started when the two were in highschool that has lasted the many years since I was in high school.  For instance I dated several different girls in high school and had a wonderful time.  My wife (whom I was not in high school with) on the other hand dated only one boy throughout her high school years.  She regrets that now.  She looks back on those years as being a hostage when she should have been enjoying her youth.  Too bad.
94106
Yeah, if he told your friend no, then he's going to say it again. But be persistent. Be nice to him and at least be friends. That way later, he can trust you and maybe go out with you. (Lol, I wish a girl would do that with me). So yeah, just hoping that helped.
176046
it means she is telling you two things .your close friends and she dont want a relationship  now ask her what she means. talk to her.
67697
you got to be careful. He might just be shy and don't want to tell everybody that he likes you yet. Or he is playing with your heart. Or he might like your friend and want to ask her out also.
687509
ok. ummm... maybe he just wants to be friends with you cuz hes not ready for a relationship or it could be that he thinks you guys would be better of as friends.
176701
Some guy feel the need to act like that in front of other people. Ask him if he could try to include you more next time your around other people. If there's another date request a private one, were he won't have anyone else to act up for.
1074341
that means yes we should hang out again and the "...." means that your friend has a little more to say on the hanging out subject, or is leaving it an open choice for you\n\n\nexample: yes we should hang out....it would be fun
953380
his friends were probably just messing around.  i know my friends sometimes call my house and say weird stuff but if you are unsure its best to just go and ask him instead of letting it getr in the way of a relationship.
300463
Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
776595
Girl, men are like buses, one comes by every ten minutes, but a good friends are very hard to find. When he comes to ask you out, cut him off and tell him that your bff likes him.