what do i do i have strong feelings for 3 guys and cant choose because i want them all?
490474
Hey its not nice to be gready :)\n\nOn the serious note...I guess you 4 have been very close. And have the uniqueness that wows you. I think the thing you need to do is admit your feelings to them. Love isnt just 2 people...But a commitment is 2 people. The right man for you is not shy to tell you.
506709
you should go with the guy you have feelings for.. you cant help how you feel and even if it dont work out in the end, its better than always wondering what might have happened :)
46532
u dont have to make a choice right now. just continue as it is. u will know which gal to choose when the time is right.
771567
If both of them like you and you like both of them the choice is yours. You have to thinkabout who you are more comfortable with, can see dating and can see a future (like.. who would you be dating longer). \n\nI basically did that. I like these two guys. One is fun and the other one is smart. Both are cute but I had to choose and I chose the smart one 'cos I can actually REALLY be just myself around him and he's smart (like me, lol) so we can actually talk about stuff. Plus, he always amazes me. The other one is fun and all but we don't have that much in common other than liking each other. So try to assess who you would be better off with.
953722
be honest, tell him the truth. Take some time off from the guys and think about what you really want. good luck
415073
So just concentrate on one man at a time. Less confusing that way, plus you'll find out whether you really like him or not.
562113
JUST FOLLOW UR HEART...AND TRY TO SENSE WHO WOULD KEEP U MUCH HAPPIER IN UR LIFE...WITHWHOM U VL FEEL MOST COMFORTABLE AND SECURE...WHO WILL NEVER CHEAT ON UR TRUST,,WHO CAN KEEP U AS PRINCEES OF HIS HEART FOPR REST OF THE LIFE,WHO MATCHES NEAR TO UR DREAM GUY....AND BEWARE...THINK THOUSAND TIMES BEFORE TAKIN UR DECISION..
586452
just find another guy.. a lot to choose
721557
i can't choose one i love them all.
313046
Try to use your brain to make a logical decision.  Are you really, for instance just lusting over this someone else?  Do you have a long-term committed relationship that you'll ruin by following your heart?  Or are these both people you've had some kind of relationship with and you simply can't decide.\n\nIf it's the latter, who will be better over the long term.  Sometimes we make choices based on short-term goals (like having a great sexual relationship) rather than long-term goals (like finding a kind person who will be committed to you).\n\nThink before you leap!
731807
I definitely think it's possible to have strong feelings for more than one person.  We're only human.  But I think when that happens we have to make a concious decision about who we want to be with, and then move on.  Like, weigh their good and bad qualities, and see how you really feel about them deep down inside.  When you've made your decision, after considering every single aspect of it, then move on.  Don't what if, don't wonder how it would have been.  You CAN develop feelings for more than one person, but I don't think it's fair to keep dwelling on that if you're with someone.  Attraction happens, lust happens, feelings happen, but that doesn't mean we have to act on it if we're in a solid relationship.  Good luck! :o)
727120
you need to take a deep breath and think about the reasons you care about these two people, then figure out what qualities you are looking for in someone you want to date...sort out your priorities and choose who you care about more..in the end you will make the right decision for yourself good luck =]
836039
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
294873
That is definitey wrong.  If you want an exclusive boyfriend then you have to be mature enough to make a decision that you are ready to be with "one person".  Sounds to me like you're still unsure of yourself and maybe afraid of being alone, but if you keep playing around with 3 guys, behind their backs, it's gonna hurt a lot worse than not having a boyfriend at all.  Maybe you should reconsider whether or not you are ready to commit to one person?
407066
Look to your three children and take care of them first.  Second finish your degree and follow your career.\n\nSounds to me like you need to prioritize things here and a man in your life is not exactly what you need right now.\n\nYou've met three Mr. Wrongs time to stop and think about what the next Mr. will bring, another child?\n\nThird well where ever you've met the past three STOP going their!
841439
To be honest with you.  It is not about the choice of the two ladies.  It is you.  What you see in both these women is your ideal partner.  You may not be able to make a choice because whichever one you choose will disappoint you a bit. But having a crush on someone for 6yrs is something to cherish.  Do you feel guilty liking the new lady because you are so familiar with your 6yr crush? To make a choice I would be thankful to know what I want in a partner through meeting these 2 ladies and move on and find her.  If I was to be with one of them I will have feelings for the other as you said, they are pretty close friends.  So they both would always be in my life.  And the same 'what if' would be running in my head.\nLove is something you can't explain in words.  It is a overwhelming feeling that will never die.  It is knowing that you would do anything for that person and that you can picture yourself with them till death.  Love is like sharing with someone happiness, pain, experiences.  Love has no judgment.  You can love many people at the same time but you only fall in love one at a time.
302144
Why would a man want a women that was in love with 2 men? It seems you have a need that is not met yet... Faithfullness and honesty.