Why most guys don't want to be responsible if his galfrend is pregnant?
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sardar ji ... tussi apni gal te nahin kar raye ???\n\nte naale munde da hee dosh nahin honda saara .... kuri nu vee te pucho ki o ki kar rahi see ode bistar che .... \n\nmunde ne to kuri nu iss karke chad dita kyonki onu fuddi chaidi see ...te agge 9 mahene tikar o milni nayi ...... iss karke taata bye bye karr gaya kuri nu ......
753063
It is about time.  For so long, women have had to bear all the responsibility about being protected against the possibility of getting pregnant whether it be having the condom, or some other form of birth control.  Now, men can be bothered with the every day task of remembering to take "the pill".  Too bad they don't have a menstrual cycle.
1068763
This should be the woman's choice. She has to carry the baby, then ultimately has to raise it. Not telling her guy might save her from being bullied into something she doesn't want. Maybe she felt that if she told you, you would try to change her mind and she really didn't want you to. If you want a relationship with her , respect her decision and get over it. The time for a baby was not right for her.
354585
He is probably uncomfortable with u being 9 months pregnant.  Things will change.  Some men fear that they might hurt the baby.  Some men just feel that it is wrong to have sex with u when u are pregnant.  Just talk to him and ask him what the problem is.  Communication is the key without it u won't last.  So don't go assuming to many things and upset yourself for nothing just ask him o.k.
1043045
how come a man can be in a relationship wth you and get other woman pregnant? let the man go i dont care how great he is! let the baby have his father..
708393
he made her pregnant so it's his right to know  and take responsibility. she has to open up and tell him there is no other way out.and if she hides it sooner or later it will show.
1174133
This is actually an excellent question. But take a look at some of these links below. You start talking about Men's Rights and you are labeled as a man who wants to have sex without responsibility. There is a growing movement for more talk about this. \n\nhttp://www.lifenews.com/nat2137.html\n\nhttp://www.motherjones.com/mojoblog/archives/2006/03/mens_rights_gro_1.html\n\nhttp://www.lifenews.com/nat2136.html\n\nhttp://www.prochoiceforum.org.uk/comm68.asp\n\nhttp://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2006-03-08-fatherhood-suit_x.htm\n\n\nMaybe one day, equal rights will be just that. Unfortunatly, there are dead beat parents and anytime a man brings up the issue of not wanting a child he's called a pig or worse. You seldom hear anything positive in the media about guys like me who had to go through hell because I didn't want the woman to go through the abortion.\n\nIn case you are wondering, I ended up talking her into marrying me and having my daughter. The marriage didn't work, but I can't imagine life without having my daughter around. It is a joy being a single dad.
572204
Do you mean like in MR MOM? Well, we guys have different ideas about taking care of the house, but responsibilities are what they are. The bottom line is in how responsible your guy is (or you are?). Otherwise there isn't much of a difference and this is happening more and more across the country due to injuries of husbands or better jobs for the wife or whatever. Well, hope I helped a little.
80994
Yes, get a lawyer and sue for child support.  Just because you opted not to have an abortion doesn't mean that he isn't responsible for this baby.  Get a lawyer and do what is right for this babies future.
75059
Most people find sexual activity during pregnancy quite pleasurable...no fear of getting 'knocked up,' nor is there pressure to 'get pregnant' if the couple has been trying for a while.\n\nIt's sex for the sake of pure pleasure...one of God's gift to mankind.
114463
I would say your man doesnt respect your feelings for him or respect you. If he did he wont be behaving the way he is right now. I suggest you dump him. That should be your goal. Get selfish. And being selfish is not getting back at him or getting even, its just you are trying to protect yours and ur baby's future. Find a job, start working, be a woman, be empowered, live life and find peace.
66750
No it's not the female fault but we have to be accountable for our actions. If he does not wear a condom then you should take it upon yourself to have protection if you don't want to get pregnant. When no one is taking the responsibility to prevent pregnancy, you are gambling with the possibility of getting pregnant. Yes people always say it's our fault because we have to carry the baby and they figure if you really don't want to get pregnant then you'll protect yourself. My advice to you is to protect yourself so that you don't have an unwanted baby.
589990
He is more likely to be ready than you are. He doesn't know where you are and thats why he hasn't initiated anything. If you initiate it I he is certain to accept. You are the one who had the baby he is just waiting for you.
594170
Its called responsibility and no one teaches that any more. Why bother with birth control when there is an abortion clinic on every corner and no parent's signature is required. But need an emergency appendectomy and they'll let you die on the table if a parent can't sign for it. It sickens me to see 12 year old girls on here wondering if they are pregnant. Who's at home with these kids? Don't parents teach morals and responsibility anymore? Sorry, but a major pet peeve of mine. Particularly now that I am raising a daughter. Frankly, I am terrified of what is in her future.
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Definatly we can be trusted to take it, why? because well... if a guy is even considering taking those pills he obviously does not want a child. And therefore could be trusted to take the pills (now there are two types of trust i suppose, the first is that I think it is safe to assume a guy won't INTENTIONALLY not take the pills in order to get a lady pregnant).  Now can he be trusted to remember to take the pill? well i would say probably, it depends on the guy, I know that if I was not ready to have a child and was having unprotected sex i would remember to take the damn pill.  However that could just be me.
152246
Because it is easier for them to leave. I think if men were able to get pregnant, it would be the other way around. Maybe 90% of deadbeat parents would be mothers who left. It's just easier for men to avoid the responsibility because they don't carry the child while the mother is stuck carrying it, and then giving birth to it, etc.
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I have found in life that women are not tooooo  fond of men during pregnancy.  It could be for lots of reason.  They love to be around and talk to only other women.  Us guys normally watch alot of sports or play golf.