why dont i have the same sex crave as before?
476067
Age, medications, stress, illness, recently given birth, married to/dating an idiot... lots of reasons.
826090
Probably because you've already filled one need, hunger, and you're feeling rather satisfied.  Also, it takes energy to digest.  When you're having sex and are hungry...you're ready for that matter at hand and you're putting all your energy into it.  At least that's my hypothesis.
91834
With a question like that, I think at this time in your life, your starting to question whether you really want to be gay or not.  Maybe your finding out that your missing out in life something you want, and about having an affair to find out if you want to change, or not.  If your not happy, then, I guess, it might be something like changing job's. If your not happy as far as where your at in life, then your the only one that WILL make that decission...   Dr Checko...   (Nickname)
583494
Actually that has changed and if it has not changed for you then that is because you are being manipulated by a double standard invented by men who were ignorant,and women who were frigid and unwilling to enjoy s*x.\n\nLeave the outdated double standards where they belong...in the past.\n\nUs women can do what we wish s*xually just as the guys can. :)
1089866
Because you are more muture than them. you may have been in and out of relationships and now relise you are ready to settle down with one person. Another could be that your mates have been hurt by females and just want to have some fun with them, this way they can assure they wont get hurt.
1075393
sounds like menopause, that happened to my mum. but either way its what your body is needing - we often crave what we lack!
65600
Sounds like a repeated experience for you.\nLook at how you started each relationship and see if theres something you are doing that needs to be changed.\nSee if something is there to make you a creep magnet when youre not.\nIf you want something you never had before, you will have to do something you have never done before.
8422
I too had those feelings/questions years ago and I now have close relationships with both a guy and a girl...I love them both and each relationship provides me with different needs.  Just be yourself and when you are with a person you love and are physically attracted to, the rest will come naturally.
772958
It's usually caused by a lack of affirmation in early childhood. It's ironic because the thing gay men seem to crave the most is masculinity.\n\nSame thing for butch women. Lack of affirmation as females in early childhood.
113990
how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
542754
Put such questions into other categories. I don't know who are you (m or f) and who is your boss (m or f), but if you are cross-sexed then it may be due to the power of lust your boss (or you) have. You'd better to change your air: your make-up (if you are lady), your dressing, or even your perfume.\nIf this is not the case, try to explain it fully, but not in the scientific category!!
99295
Well imagine your life with a person of the same sex,or try dating a person of the same sex that you are attracted in a certain way,and see what you feel.Experiencing will make you know.I'm bisexual,and if you ask me if i could have a wife(sounds so weird)I would say yes,cuz first of all a women knows better how to handle money,how to take care of a child(that can be adopted)and stuff like that.Though i still like boys,it's like the sex doesn't matter,they are all potential partners...:)
355742
Sounds like you want a transexual or a crossdresser!  You are attracted to men's penises but like the women's appeal of lingerie and undergarments.  I think that is what you desire.  Understand this though, being gay, bi, or straight is not what u do, but what u desire when u wanna do it.  When u r horny and in th ebed, ask yourself, if you can hav ethe ultimate fantasy right now and no one would ever know what would it be?  When u answer that, that is what u r .  No one ever really falls into th ecategory of completely straight or completely gay or completely bi, u just have phases in life sometimes.  A gay man can have sex with a million woemn and fantasize about men whil ebeing with those women.  Actions don't matter it's about what you desire when you want sex.  can you have a healthy sex life feeling thsi way?  yes but be real with yourself and what you want and it could be a lot healthier.  I'm straight, but understand I'm not judging you, but i study sexual psychology.  u might just lik etransexuals and crossdressers, try them and find out whta you think!
1186323
just because your enjoying another erogenous zone does not a gay make.  we as humans have such an amazing desire for feel good endorphine rushes.  what ever that may be does not always dictate straight or gay.  enjoy your body and your lover's.  and as the old school song says, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with.  we have different degrees for murder but not for love.  well except luv or heart loves.  by the way i met a straight guy when i was 18 who was a construction manly man and he was curious what a woman feels when he busts guts so he put a broom stick not the whole thing mind you up his "l'onion".  explore kids but don;t damage or abuse.
291769
Maybe because it's genetic and not a choice.\n\nYou should worry more about saving your own imperfect a s s rather than casting judgment on the gay community.
1071052
Some people just have lower libidos than others, I guess there could be something wrong with you medically speaking but you seem normal enough to me!  Has it always been unenjoyable or is this something that's more of a recent problem?  \n\np.s.   TAKE CARE OF YOUR WILD-THING, and don't let those ugly old men sneak up and slip you the tongue.
854037
Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude