why do guys find it hard to say i love you?
482130
it's just because the guy like you a lot and he's scared cause you might not answer or anything....The dude's more comfortable when you say it cause they know that nothing can go wrong because they can just say I love you too
66962
Maybe,or they are not ready to say I love you back.If they have said it before maybe it just depends on if they are at work or around friends. All you can do is ask why they prefer to say "me too".
136461
It'll be obvious its not like something that is a secret if its true love, and if he says it with ease its probably because hes used to saying it but if he says it with hesitation and you know him to be the one taht holds back in relationships its straight up how hes feeling. Best of luck
376891
some guys have a hard time expressing their feelings, its not the manly thing to do, which is a shame because its what us girls want to hear. all you can do is tell him how you feel, either by talking to him or writing to him. some men are able to write there feeling down rather then talking about them. when he feels more at ease im sure he will be able to tell you his feelings.
379450
Sorry to say, but u shouldn't try to get him to say it...he'll say it when he's ready....Don't you want him to actually mean it when he says it??? If he really feels that way, then sometimes you just know!!!! Be patient...and it might happen when you least expect it...What a nice surprise!!!!
580684
HE MAY BE TELLING YOU WITH WORDS THAT HE LOVES YOU BUT THE TRUTH BEHIND IT IS HIS ACTIONS.  WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WANT TO SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH THAT PERSON AND YOU DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THAT PERSON. LOTS OF GUYS ARE VERY FREE WITH TELLING A GIRL THAT THEY LOVE THEM AND NOT REALLY MEANING IT JUST TO TRY AND GET WHAT THEY WANT.  GOOD LUCK
53934
The words "I love you," work well. Honest as the feelings you hold. So just buck up and say it.
154527
he probably does really love u if he is really ready to wait for u to say it. it might not be a month long stand. so just wait and say it when u mean it. i bet it will mean a lot more if u wait untill u mean it.
36966
i dont know either maybe he isnt ready to really say it to you.he might also have things to worry about,but i know for sure that he doesnt want to lose you,because he is not saying it.u are proably right he does love you,might be to nervous to say it.im sorry that he is not saying it to you.maybe you should talk to him.dont rush him on talking to you,though.good luck!
941246
Guys don't usually (OK...NEVER) mess with words...If he said it you can be pretty sure he means it and feels that way.....Guys almost always tell it like it is!...They don't play the mind games women do....
742663
Well, I think a girl would probably like a guy to let her feel his love for her gradually than to just blatantly say out to her that he likes her. that'll just probably freak her (unless you're really handsome, or she likes you too). if he were to say it... he might like to say it in a jokingly way at first and maybe sometimes later...to say it in a more serious tone. for me, i'll prefer him to say it in a funny way and i can still remember a time when a guy asked me "what is aishiteru?" and i replied "i love you" and he said "ya..me too". i totatally fell in love for him cos he's just toooooo humourous and cheeky =D. well, just a simple "can i sms / email you sometime around?" will enable you to get her hp no. or email add without giving lame excuses and beating around the bush. and arh well..about the talking in private..i know how girls usually stick with their frens outside when guys who like them is around...you'd just have to find an opportunity when she's alone to talk to her..or you can just talk to her in a "i want to talk to you in private" way, by keep looking at her friends awkwardly so she'll know .
820231
Those 3 words can be important and once you get used to hearing them, you're used to hearing them. However, men can get comfortable and confident that you KNOW it, so they don't have to SAY it.\n\nThat part is true.\n\nI think he still loves you and I think you're reading too much into it with him not saying it. He may have a lot on his mind right now and not worried about it because you should know it.\n\nYou say nothing else in the relationship has changed. Those words shouldn't mean so much to you that the absence of them makes you question the man. If everything else is the same, so is his love.\n\nCut him some slack. Wait a week. If he's still not saying them, just let him know you miss the words. A simple, "Baby, I miss hearing you say, 'I love you.'" will probably do the trick. Give it some time though.
329922
Well...if you are driving down the road with him and he says it for no apparent reason (other than to let you know) he probably means it. It is hard enough for most men to say "I love you".....However...the thing that should be of most interest is if his capacity to 'love" is equal to yours
522470
If you don't talk to him, how are you going to find out? You need to communicate SOMEHOW.  But you need to try not to be too pushy so you don't scare him if you know what I mean.  People get scared if they're feeling pushed.  Maybe HE'S afraid to tell YOU how he feels. Try telling him he's really special in your life.  You don't have to come out and say "I love you" -- but everyone likes to hear they are special to others.  Wouldn't you?  I'll be if you heard that from someone (him maybe) -- you wouldn't feel quite so insecure would you?
816644
Im not quite sure what your first question is asking\nbut we all say i love you when you mean it\nin my past expieriences in relationships when the man says i love you, you feel obligated to say it back, even if you dont relly love them\nand toher times you really do love the person
753107
Honestly not really. You should be able to sense and know a persons feelings and love for you through their actions and the way they treat you. Although i get where your coming from, and im a girl myself so I know that's a word we love to hear from our guys... but i'd rather a guy to show me he loves me with his actions rather than him say it and not mean it at all.
629203
I feel like dating that long without saying I love you is trouble. Do you not want to say it? What's holding you back? You never know what kind of insecurities, fears and past experiences inhibit a person from doing what they really want, like moving in with you, having your child, or saying I love you. But if you take away fear, insecurity, and break the chains, and you still can't say it? Well....then you might need to look in your heart and ask yourself if you really love this person.