I have been friends with a  person for over 10 yrs. Now all the sudden that person won't talk to me what doido
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Ask  her  what  happened,try to  talk  to  her  and  explain  how  do  you  feel  about  not  talking  to  you!
224238
She is changing, it has nothing to do with you. I know it hurts for her to just move on without giving you any reason for leaving... now is the time to concentrate on your needs and finding things to enjoy on your own! You'll meet new people and make lots of friends!\nLet her make her back to you, if she contacts you, be polite but not TOO friendly! If she thinks she doesn't have to put any effort into the friendship- she won't. She needs to work for your time as much as you have worked for hers. Right now she's putting that energy into other people, and they probably are enjoying her efforts. \nLet this time be of good use to you, it may be lonely at times, but you have us here at Answers, and there's a big world out there to explore.\nBe brave dear, and let her go for the moment.\n\nBest wishes! - J
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IM NOT FIRNEDS ANYMORE WITH MY USED TO BE BEST FRIEND\nIT BECAME TOO MUCH WE GREW APART
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i'm so sorry to hear tht buddy, but i think you know u'r answer..its better to move on...if he was really intrested to maintain the friendship..he would have answerd to you or call u back how much busy he was at tht time....so its pretty clear tht he has changed...as they say..money changes pple...maybe one day he may realise tht he lost a good friend...so buddy...keep moving on.
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Sweetie, I'd delete them right back.  You were friends for seven years and they zapped you just  like that?  Your friend didn't consider you a friend.  You have to face it and find a better friend.  Your friend left you for a reason and because they were really cold, you should just  let them go.  They are saying they don't want you around.  Nothing you can do about that.  Can't force a friendship on someone who doesn't want  it.   I can be your yahoo friend if you want.
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If you truly value your friendship with her let her go. She is changing and she needs to grow. Unfortunately it may not be in the same direction you are going right now. This happens to a lot of friendships as we get older and mature. She needs to do this for herself right now. Eventually she may come back to being her old self and realize what a wonderful friend she has in you. I went through this myself and for about 5 years was out of touch with 2 of my best friends from school. We are now better friends than we were back in school. Don't take any of this personally, it isn't about you, it is about your friend needing to go in a different direction right now. This is also your time to find other friends too. Don't do or say anything that could jeopardize the friendship you had with her. You both need some space and hopefully in time you will be able to get back what you had before, and it will be even better.
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I am so very sorry for your lose. But as the saying goes, Time heals all wounds. And No, I am not trying to be funny. It will take time and as that time passes, keep in mind that your bestfirend is in a far better place and holding a seat for you when your time comes. When you can sit down and have a conversation with your friend. You'd be amazed at how well this works at times. I truly believe that your conversation will be heard. It will also help if you sit down with another friend who also knew this bestfriend. Maybe not as well or as close as you were, but someone who knew your bestfriend. It does help to bring closer.
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maybe you just need some time out from your friend, if they have been a good friend you should try and maintain that friendship... be careful about your decision in whether you no longer want the friendship, you could regret it later... like I said time out, you need a break, see how you feel then
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well, try talking to her.  if she won't let you, then dont worry about her. if she's a true friend, she'll want to hear your side of the story. if she's true, she'll come back to you. if she doesnt, oh well. get a new friend.
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It is hard as you and them do not see each other..you lost contact and they make new friends in time.\nyou have to learn to let go of them and start afresh and try to make friends with new people..You have to try to move on with life and make it fullest of it.\n\nThey were there for you before ,not now. You have to learn to let go and move on.\n\nTry it alright.\n\nTake care.
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Unless your friend is going through a really bad time at the moment it sounds like she is not a very good friend.\n\nThe crux of the matter is \na) do you treat anyone you consider a friend like this?  If you don't why tolorate it from someone else.\n\nb)  IF you stopped calling you wouldn't have a friendship.\n\nSpend the time you spend on her making some proper friends who will make an effort, call you back and show that they value you in their lives.
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Yes, a woman with whom I was a really good friend (I will call her Jane) just turned on me and almost refuses to talk to me now. We don't live near each other anymore, so it's not as big a deal now as it once was. But I have no idea what I did or said to turn her against me. I am one who has really good relationships with people and long-term friendships. So this really took me by surprise.\n\nJane and I used to spend hours together every week and a lot of time on the phone. We were both members of the same professional association. I saw her there and she was really rude to me like I had offended her in a big way. \n\nI am still mystified by this situation and it took place nearly eight years ago. I was told, by a mutual friend who asked me about the break up that Jane had done this in other relationships. That made me feel a little less confused, but I am still saddened by the loss of what I considered a great friendship.
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Then he's wasn't ever your friend. Get more friends and ignore him.
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Sometimes, as you grow up and mature, you find that your interests have changed, and that the connection that you had is no longer there.  The same thing happened to me when I went from grade school to high school.  The friend I had shared so much with was suddenly hanging out with other people, and we slowly just stopped talking.  Unfortunately - I never asked her what happened!  You may want to start by just talking to your friend.  I never even tried that. Now - years later the same kind of thing happened to me with a new best friend.  She and I met freshman year of high school and became best friends.  We hung out for many years after high school and then stopped talking (I got married, moved away, etc.).  When I came back to California - we struck up our friendship as if we had talked the previous day!  She is still my best friend, and has been for 30 years!  Good luck.
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Well if he hasnt really said anything to you, I would just continue to be a good friend. Dont ignore him or anything like that. If he brings it up, just let him know that you would like to continue to be friends and at this moment nothing more. He should understand and continue to be cool with you..
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It's time to recognize when a friendship has ended...\n\nIf she has some problem with you, but refuses to discuss it, or to even talk to you, you need to forget about her... \n\nAnd don't worry about it too much.. friends growing apart like that is part of life... it's always a bit puzzling when it happens for the first time, but trust me, it won't be the last either...\n\nChances are, a couple of years from now, you'll look back and wonder what made you friends in the first place...and by that time, you'll have plenty of other friends..\n\nLife is too short to go through it worrying about why one particular person doesn't want to be friends with you (anymore).
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Hm...where'd you mess up with her? I'm not sure I understand what exactly happened. Maybe you came on too strong and she's not ready to have a relationship with anyone just yet. How old are you 2? It's something to consider. It sounded like she wanted to be your friend but you pushed it and pushed it and now she wants to stay away from you. Dunno. That's my guess, though.