i need some serious advice?
478084
if it is your baby be a man help your ex out and if you think that your old friend is the one for you then tell her and see if she is ok with it.\n\nI grew up with out a father and it was a very hard life fore me please dont just leave her.\n\nand my honest oppion is forget the old friend and be with your babys mother. my sister and her husband dislike each other with a pasion. they have been maried 5 years. e-mail me and we will talk more
519894
you seriously need professional help
983596
Dude, do whatever you want.  Listen to any of the crazy ideas mentioned here.  In the end, you will reap the consequences.  What ever you do, do it so you won't regret.
855097
You can't be serious.  Ask some adults that you know.  These ppl won't be any help.  Their going to make jokes.
853407
say it an inderct way, don't make it sound too much serious although it is. best of luck.
616102
Honestly, just ignore them. Tell yourself.. "Who cares", smile, and walk away. If you get upset by what they say, its their gain cos thats what they want. The key is not to take what they say seriously, even tho' it may be a major OUCH phrase they use. Just think of it as (the lamest and unfunniest) joke ever, and move on. :)
1090301
find a new man. If he was serious he would go to any lengths to keep u.
369325
Don't take it seriously unless you're willing to ask her and pursue a relationship.  You're just going to get hurt if you take it seriously and she isn't.  It may be that she's just gotten comfortable around you.  But if you think that its legit, then ask her out.  Then you know just how serious to take it.  Start off slow, and then as you spend time together, you will start to understand the seriousness of the situation.
443213
You need to be real with him. Tell him you may be his only real friend. If he can't tell you why he's screwing up his life and let you help him then no one will. You need to tell him that you know something's wrong. But you have to know also that this is a big responsibility. If he decides to depend on you you're going to have to really be there for him everytime he needs you. You should also try to convince him after you have his trust to let some professionals get involved like the school counselor. I really hope things work out for you and your friend hun. Take care and good luck. :^)
539960
He might be going through something he doesn't want you to know about. Just support him and be cool. Nothing's serious enough to throw two years away over.
170862
yes! i am in desperate need of help...
251439
damn this sucks pretty bad . well as you said you never made her any  promises so yes you should move along .since this is going to be painful for her regardless just be really honest with her and tell her why your leaving ...exactly why ...women have a tendency to try and pick things apart too much ...if shes in some sort of denial shes gonna have a hard time understanding why your leaving her  , as long as your really clear she wont have to judge herself too  hard and wonder what she did wrong . and by all means dont let hurting her stand in the way of you being happy ...but no i dont think you necessarily think you shouldve left earlier sometimes we like to hang on too long thinking that magically things are going to falll in place but it rarely happens that way damn im blabbing hahah sorry
1162124
Wow, this is so sweet. I think that you should tell her exactly that. Look her directly in the eyes and let her know how you really feel. Tell her that there is no use for her to push you away. Tell her that there is nothing for her to be afraid of, and that you accept her and embrace her for exactly what and who she is. Tell her she is the only one for you. If this doesn't work move on. You are too sweet not to be appreciated. Maybe if you give her some space she will realize what she gave up and come around.
1147018
Quit being depressed. This much you can control. Never put your life on hold for a man, unless your engaged or married to him. Always make sure you have a safety net. As far as what he thinks and who he is, it is hard to know what's going thru that head of his. I don't even want to guess, because I don't think anything is going to help you until you talk to him. So lets address you. He is far away, you need to get out and have some good clean fun. Call your friends. Go to dinner or a movie, the mall, what eve it takes to get your mind off him for now. If you don't want to call him, then there is nothing to do but wait for him to call you. But don't stop your life. This will also make time go by faste. I hope you the very best from this outcome. Remember, there is only one person in this world you can "really" count on,...and that is you. So don't let yourself down, and keep your heart safe.
147456
If you're having trouble with that, you should get a new boy friend.\n\nHerrre Boy, Cummm here, boy!
346688
Save yourself\n\n\nFollow your conscience
80184
If you had to ask the question. Then I think you already see or feel there is no solution to your problem. Go ahead do it--- go talk with someone. Can't hurt, everyone needs someone to listen sometime. Good luck and GOD BLESS.