help!?! i like this guy but he thinks of me as a friend only , how can i make him lyk me as more than a frend?
475637
You can't make him, and if you try to make him you will only push him away. If he said he only wants to be friends, respect that and look elsewhere for love.
981405
just be honest with him. you're close friends right, so it shouldnt be as hard you think. and if it comes that he doesnt like you, at least you'll know and not have to worry about it anymore. you'll always be friends and thats better than nothing.
287898
I'm in the same situation. I'm thinking about just letting him come and ask me out. Do you think he likes you? Send a note if you don't think that will work then get a a trusting friend to ask him if he likes you more than a friend. I don't get the blame if it turns out wrong!!!
890509
Continue doing what you are doing because apparently it's working. There is no bad blood and you two are getting along so don't change on him, because that will not guarantee that i will stay like that, and if you like him, its best to keep it as friends thats from experience unless he has expressed that he likes you. If not then you gotta suck it up because its better to have not said anything and keep him as a close friend than to say something and chance losing him as a friend.
707753
It sounds like he's confused, too.  Give yourselves some time before comitting to an exclusive relationship.  Stay friends for awhile and tell him you think you like him, too but want to keep things at a just friends level for awhile.  He'll respect your wishes and it gives your relationship time to progress as it will, naturally.
337177
tell him how you feel or maybe you could be friends then after a while tell him how you feel once you get to know him. whats the wost that could happen besides him saying no maybe yu guys could just be friends. good luck
41548
He loves you as a friend and is so scared of losing that friendship if he crosses the line and you reject him.Find a way to make the first move on him in such a way to make him think he made it.
403155
On your next note put two check boxes on it.  Have one say friends only and one say more than just friends.  Then he will have to check one and you can figure out more.  As for your friends just ignore them, it is important to like who you like and not let others control your feelings.
664656
Go to the dance...see how that goes.  He may have asked you becuase he likes you as more than a friend.  Look for signals, and if they're good, let him know how you feel.
524349
Go out on a limb and ask him how he feels about you.....Friend or more......What the heck right, you only once????Good Luck!!!!
177586
Tell him that you only want to be friends. Do it gently, but firmly. It is far kinder to tell him now than wait until he develops more serious feelings and then reject him.
188433
Since your best friend is good friends with him, maybe you could find ways to be around him more.  Be yourself, but make sure that you direct some comments his way!  If you two become closer friends, it will start to become more evident if you have things in common, and will be easier to transition into dating.  I hope it works out for the best!\nP.S.  I got tired of always waiting for guys to make the first move, so I started speaking out a little more, which was hard, because I'm a little shy.  But I had to make sure that they at least knew I was alive. In most cases, they did have an interest as well, which is good because it saved me the pain of rejection. Just don't throw yourself at him or act like someone you're not.
592321
dont pay any mind 2 him....u should NEVER wairy bout a guy if they act like that. let him take a little time...if he TRUELY like u /or your friend he'll talk 2 u sooner then u think. good luck
1088765
ok i have been through the same thing just tell your friends you like him and if they judge you they are not really your friends \njust let him know how you feel it is very hard to bring your feelings out there in the open but at least he knows that you are strong enough to actually tell him that but just  first go up to him and tell him that you would like to be his friend and ask him if that is ok and then as soon as you guys become friends you will grow into a more deeper relationship tell him what is on your mind and also let him know if he is doing something wrong but that is the only help i can give you doll face good luck
307466
What kind of a friend are you really? You say you are really good friends with him, but you want to destroy his relationship with someone he loves for your own personal gain?\n\nYou need to show some respect for yourself, and your guy friend, or he won't be liking you even as a friend.
928405
Take a breath first! You gotta be honest with him asap..the longer this goes on, the more he's going to think there is something between yall that's more than friendship.. Tell him you like hanging out with him, but you like someone else..He can take it, the sooner the better..it's cool that you care so much about hurting someone's feelings..
1038679
Give him points for stepping up and telling you how he feels.Everybody can't do that,next feel flattered that you have someone who thinks that you're special.He has to be a decent guy or else you wouldn't be friends with him right? Consider the possiblity of what it would be like...Good Luck and no matter what happens try to remain friends.