Un-Comfortable cause im so happy!?
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i have problems dealing with the same thing. it's like you are just waiting for the other shoe to drop or the bomb to go off.  i have had a lot of problems dealing with stuff in my past and still feel unworthy of love and good things sometimes. just know that you are a good person and worthy of every minute of happiness. keep telling yourself that and eventually you'll start believing it too. ;) eventually bad things will happen, just deal with them and get back to the happy times as quickly as possible. \n\nbtw for some of y'all up there, it's not always cause we are looking to dump someone. sometimes we just have our own issues to work through that have nothing to do with the other person. give her a break and if you can't give good advice don't give any. lol cause non-constructive criticism borders on abuse.
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Thanx, I wont laugh anymore,Happy now!
881742
Glad u decided to follow my advice, i'm feeling all warm and fuzzy inside....have fun....!!\n\nas for the downside....when u signed that contract, i hope u didn't forget to read the fine print????????
615352
Virtually everything makes me happy, but then I've discovered how to be happy pretty much regardless of circumstances. You should try it sometime. I think you'd like it. :))
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kisshot85, its your name and yet you fell miserable even having that name,\nstart feeling sexy, what i could get from your question is that you stress alot and its something that happens all the time, right?\nit won't do  you good stressing out,the only remedy that i can help you is that you stop stressing over things that are of no importance.\n\nyou are still young, think of your 40's and your beautiful hands that are been destroyed, if you can do me a favor, stay away from people who are often being a buredn insteadt of joy.\n\nkisses and get well soon
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Don't be freaky happy just be excited and just use your imagination when your out there!! just stay calm and relax and have fun with it!! . . . hope this helps!!
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Whatever I feel like, GOSH!!!
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TO BE HAPPY....VERY, VERY HAPPY!!
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I don't know what causes it, but you're not alone if it helps you at all. Sometimes it's all too much and I just want to sit in the corner and stare at my feet. There's no particualr reason, sometimes there's a good reason for feeling happy and I just can't do it. I think we all have dark days/ weeks/ months, and sometimes it takes for someone to reach out and say everything will be ok. \nSO this is me, a complete stranger, saying chin up, everything will be ok. And don't listen to people when they say think positive, it just makes it worse. \n\nSmile, it makes people wonder what you're up to \n:P
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Its obvious you arent THAT happy in your relationship, since you are even considering this... SO- LEAVE!\nHave fun!
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Simple - you tell yourself that you deserve it!\nYouve been faced with crap circumstances in the past - and you came through it - its made you a stronger person and now you can take a deep breath and realise that life is for living and enjoying!\nYou are totally entitled to being happy - prob more than most depending on your past circumstances - you've been lucky enough to have a great kid and now an even better boyfriend - sit back - appreciate and enjoy life and make the most of it!\nWishing you all the best and a continued happiness! xx
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I am happy with the person I am, I'm just not happy with where my life is at this point in time. It will be better once I get my feet back under me and can stand on my own again. I have never pretended to be something I'm not. If they don't like me for who and what I am they can move on. I have no room for people like that in my life.
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I felt the same after I left a relationship that wasn't making me happy.  Sometimes you miss being single if you're with someone who isn't right for you.  Glad to hear you didn't stay in the relationship just to be with somebody.  Too many people would rather be unfulfilled in a relationship rather than be happy being single.  And when you're happy being single, you'll attract other happy people.  Then who knows what could happen?  Good going.  You'll do well in life, my friend.
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man i undestand totally where you are coming from...like you do your best to please them and its just not good enough. well i say if the best you ddi was good enough for you then you should be happy, b/c trying to please people that aren't going to be happy for you either way...is just a lost cause. it will cause more stress for you in the long run. All i can say is keep you head high, its hard, but be strong, you'll be a better person in the long run. and feel free to email me or yahoo messenger
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The only person that can help you out of this situation is you. You have a mind set that everyone is leaving you behind and is going on with there own lives getting married gettin wraped up in there jobs. You should find what makes you happy and try not concentrating on what the people around you are doing. Be your own person.. and try to find the little things that make you happy. It also sounds like you might be a litte depressed... talk to some one if you can to help you release what your feeling inside.
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You are FINE! You really need to stop worrying about that type of thing, and get out and have fun!
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Life is what YOU make it. Yes of course maybe you don't have the best life or all of the money you want. But you have to get some humor and JOY! Where is your joy?? Haven't you ever laughed so hard for no reason at all?? I do that all of the time, and I feel like a complete idiot, but it feels so good to giggle and laugh. \nLighten up, life is hard enough!