why i can't live with who i choose to be my partner in my life if this true?
481262
im trying to understand wht you are saying but i will answer this the best way i can i dont know why you cant live with the partner you choose to be with and i most certainly dont know if it is true or not so you probalbly need to ask this question again so we can better understand what you are asking or whatever
138436
You can't, unfortunatly, pick and choose who you fall in love with. If you really can't be with him, get out and date others. If he's out of sight, he's out of mind. Only time will get you through this.
599702
There is someone out there for every man and woman alive! Its possible there are multiple "good choices" but I believe there is only one "best choice". Make the best choices that life offers you! Good Luck!
361550
No, as this is not fair on the other one and you wouldn,t want them to do this to you.Get over the so called one that you love and find someone who is better,because if they are not with you then there is someone better then them.
468975
If you're married, no. You knew what you were getting into. If you're not married ... ask yourself why you got into this relationship in the first place. Are you that fickle that you'll change partners on a whim. I'd say your partner would probably be better off without you.
112173
Every relationship is different and it should be between the two people involved to decide who provides what to the relationship.  I personally who not be able to live with myself if I wasn't able to provide a loving, safe, and confortable life for my family.
684527
i think it means that your partner wanted you to change to something else and that since you can't change to that something (probably your attitude, your looks, the way you dress or anything...) that your partner wants, you are still you and will remain so. which is what you should be, yourself. you are in this world to be you, not to be what other people want you to be. and if by chance you meet that someone who really wants you because of what you are, then that's beautiful.
1109151
Do what's best for yourself.  People will come and go all your life, but you'll always have you.  If you think the relationship is stronger with the one who is leaving, that's who you should stay with.
642206
It's possible, but you're making yourself sound like a cheater. If you love someone else while you're already in a relationship then that's bad. It's better to be in love with two people when you're not with one of them already. If you love someone else while in a relatonship then it means that you want the other person who isn't your boyfriend/girlfriend. \n\nTry asking yourself what you can get from this person 'on the side' that you're not getting from your significant other. If the reasons outweigh the reson to stay with the person you're currently with, then maybe it's time to end the relationship, hm?
741432
I dont know why peolpe want to change others to fit their definition of how they should be. I agree that when you decide to be in a relationship with an individual that you decided to be with them and all of them. Their bad habits good, habits language, extra issues before you came alone, and any other thing that they have going on in their lives. The more you try to chance a man or anyone the more they will be pushed away from you. You have to except people for who they are and not for what you expect for them to be.
1094869
i think the anwser to this question totally lies wit u... its ur ambitions and ur dreams..u can't let someone else let  shape ur dreams...
151130
this is tough. Your only get one soulmate in a lifetime. Both of you though have families. You said you live with your childrens father you didnt say husband or boyfriend so is it that you live together but you are not together? this is really something you and your soulmate need to dicuss if this is how both of you feel. It's a tough thing. You having to choose with taking care of responsibility to your children and he to his wife or do you stay true to your heart and be together  and get through everything together. It is really something both of you have to discuss. Sometimes a person makes a mistake and marries someone they may care for but who isnt their soulmate. So both of you do need to talk and decide what you will choose to do. It is a tough choice but that is also how you know if its meant to be because if this is something you can get through than you know you made it. I wish you the best and may you recieve your hearts desire.
59782
When you notice that you are changing yourself to accomodate that other person, then it's gone too far.  I was once in an abusive relationship that I changed myself for, stopped talking to my friends and family and was completely miserable.  Someone who loves you will not try to change who you are.
1150786
It sounds like right now you shouldn't choose either.  You need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you really want. Otherwise you're going to end up getting hurt or hurting them in the process.
190794
Ask yourself if you can live with all the in differences sounds like it might be difficult to always have him being the one who is right and in control you have to do what makes you happy any relationship is a 50/50 deal :)
562480
Who is it that you really want to be with!?  I was in the same situation, but i stayed with the guy that i was longer with because i knew how he was and i didn't really know the new guy and how his personality really was since i wasn't with him for long
214768
You will have to just tell them this is what I want and you are alienating the person I want to be with and the person I love. Say to them you don't have to agree with this but show me some respect and be civil to my soon to be partner. If you stand firm and maybe come a little clean about your part in the problem, this should help, but some people just are stubborn and you'll have to deal with that.