i saw my crush with another girl,what should i do?
487802
First of all ... Calm down... I know it is easier said then done but if you don't then you might just end up looking like a idiot.  Second.. Does he know you are crushing on him?  If not then I suggest you just start talking to him.  \n\nGood Luck!
428623
I believe she did see you. I guess she may have feelings for more than just friends feelings. She probably felt that you should spend time with because if you start hanging out with other girls than she will probably feel left out and alone. I am just telling you how she maybe feels it is a possible. Girls gets jealous of other girls all the time. Especially when they feel intimidated. So just talk to her about it and you never know what could happen. Basically she don't want to lose since ya'll are best friends. Good luck and just talk to her about the situation.
32694
well the big questions is.. do you like the other girl? and you guys should get things straight, you, that guy, the girl, and the other girl, all come out clean to each other and things might change.
863068
Don't move on since you are great friends.  You had a chance one time, but he had a crush on another girl.  They will break up one day.  Be there to console him.  Since you've been best friends since you were 4, YOU should be his soul-mate, don't you think?  Who is this new girl?  They all disappear.  All but one.  Be the one.
366396
Talk to your friend and tell him that you really like this girl for other than friendship but you don't want to hurt your friendship with him.  And if he says ok, I would talk to the girl and let her know that you are interesting into getting to know her on a different level other than friendship. Being open and honest, is the only way to be in this situation.  Good luck
517051
leave her and see another girl
396009
Just wait it out and do what feels right. Wait for a little bit until you know them both better, and take it from there. Don't think that you need to make a decision right this very second. Give it a bit of time.
967103
If he shows off, than be very careful. He may start to make fun of your feelings when/if he realises them. How much does he like this other girl? Does she like him back? If you two are friends, then you have it very easy to tell him you like him more than a friend. Tell him that ou do not know what it is happening. You are feeling for him something more. Tell him you realised you liked him when he told you about the other girl. If you are not so close friends, than tell him the same thing as above. Tell him what you felt when he talked to you about the other girl.
318201
Drop them both and find yourself a new girlfriend. \n\nONLY ONE GIRL though
927478
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
249083
Go party it up!! Live a little .. Go out and do what single guys do!! You will be fine, it was just a crush we all have them now it's over, find a new one!!
121172
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
782678
Wow. A question that actuially fits my situation. Ok, im going to tell you what happened then im going to tell you what you should do. I really liked this girl. I've known her for four years and liked her for two of them. She liked me, then she didn't, she liked me then  she didn't, etc. She basicially led me on some times. I tried to ask her out and she said somthing like "I like you too, just not like you like me, bla bla bla no". It sucked. I was crushed. I tried to forget about her twice and it just ended up me looking like an ass and getting farther away from my goal. I would do anything for this girl, if she was sad id do whatever i could to cheer her up. if she was mad id listen and talk to her about it. if she was feeling down i told her exactly how i felt about her. Then she went out with this guy. Of course I was pissed off. I got in so many verbal fights with him because, by that time, the whole school knew I liked her by the way word gets around. I really don't know why nothing happened, everything was there, she thought I was hot I thought she was beautiful, We got along really well, liked the same music, everything fit. I'd give anything for a second chance at that first time I asked her out. Nothing will happen. I now know that. as much as i dont want to accept that, its true. and i need to.\n\nBut anyways, my story doesn't help you, but it gives you a realization of what can happen.\n\nYou have two options.\n1. Tell him you don't like him like that and expect him to be sad.\n2. If theres any attraction on your part, you can go out with him, if it works out great if it doesn't, oh well. because i bet hed do anything for that one chance.\n\nthe choice is up to you though. of course im going to lean towards the second option but the right choice is probably the first one. good luck.
732073
You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
580309
You really need to think this over yourself and decide which one you like better. Then approach that girl and ask her out.  If you cant decide, then maybe you need to drop it for now, and see if one of them makes a move on you.\nGood luck!
745200
if she likes someone else, you need to find someone intrested in yourself...otherwise you are wasting time..
679796
stay right away from that girl you made out with,and focus all your attention everyday on your girl friend and make sure you go out of your way everyday to let her know that you only love her and only want to be with her,if you do the slightest thing at even looking at another girl it will rock the boat with you and your girl friend,but if you do truley love your girl friend you wont have any hasdsles in showing her shes tyhe only one for you,