i am 18, and i am going to do my first sexual intercourse, the gal is also virgin. were to start from?in style
475023
dont worry keep going on.
168731
anybody can have sex... it's in u. dont worry, I'm virgin too.
940156
Just be yourself, and it sounds to me like you are trying to go somewhere that you are not ready to go! Any guy that makes you worry that you will be called an inexperienced  "anything" you should just stay away from. There is something to be said about a young woman who is brave enough not to have casual sex just to be what you call "cool"  You have your whole life ahead of you I hope you think about what you "should do" rather than you "have to do"   My motto in life is if you are unsure of what to do ....dont do anything!
83777
If you are wanting her for just that what does it matter if she is a virgin or not? I think the question is how do you get her to have sex with you? Start slow by holding her hand and then go further, like a silent game of chicken. Always worked on me.
664892
Are you saying she's a virgin? If so, you have to take it slow and easy. There's no way for it not to hurt the first time.
1186458
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.
464925
still a virgin at age 27
575977
Trust & Patience, dear boy, trust & patience. She'll need to be very aroused & lubricated. No matter what, there's going to be some discomfort that first time, but as long as you're both relaxed & groovin' it all, she should be fine. You'll need time to do this right, so don't let this be a back seat sort of thing!
617243
Well if you have had sex then ,no, you're not a virgin. Is it recent that you discovered you were lesbian? 11 is far to early to have sex.
412319
have sex w/ another girl and scream out madolinatou while you orgasm. it will show her a lot of respect.
181054
Anytime she wants, if this is very young hopefully not having sex at a young age as they do not have very much life experience and knowledege of STDs and relationships etc. \nI would say ideally around 14/15 or older but only with people the same age, is if they are older they could take advantage and is very illegal. You should only start having sex when you feel that you know enough about it and that you are physically ready.
501765
Why tell him? If sex comes up then tell him. He wont think yuck no guy most of never wanted her, but think wow she did not give into some idiot from high school. NOthing is wrong with being a virgin. And you are not the only 20 something virgin out there, and they are not all gross and ugly, they choose to wait just like you have, and they are better people for it. I have never know anyone who regreted waiting but I do know some who regret not waiting.
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If this is her first time, you are not ready to worry about the position quite yet! First, you need to know what to do BEFORE you get her into position!\n An@l can be very rewarding for both parties involved, but do it wrong once and she will be turned off from it for life!!\n Ok, first, loosen her up mentally. She needs to be relaxed. If she drinks, then get her tipsy. \n Next, loosen her up physically. I recommend going down on her, and then sliding a finger in the backdoor. CLIP AND SMOOTH YOUR NAILS FIRST!! Continue to please her as you slowly work first one, then two fingers in and out to loosen her up and relax her.\n Now you are ready to move forward into the penetration part. Remember THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TO MUCH LUBE!!\n If she is on her back at this time, that is an ideal position for first time an@l. get her legs on your shoulders and kneel in front of her. Position the head of your penis at her rear entry. Tell her to exhale as you SLOWLY enter her with just the head. Now you are going to want to shove it in, but if you ever want to do this again then resist that urge! Hold your penis still, with just the head in, and manually stimulate her clit or her vagina. After a minute begin to apply GENTLE pressure, working yourself in 1/2 at a time. \n If she says it hurts, don't immediately pull out. Instead, freeze, and let her adjust. \n Good luck!!
176350
She is still a virgin.  Playing with oneself does not equate non-virginity.
1136090
If it is the first time for both of you to have sex, may I suggest taking things slow.  Especially if it is her first.  Alot of my friends didn't care much for sex at first because their first partner's were too rough and not the most considerate.   And I think any lady out there would also suggest taking things slow.  It's not a race.  Enjoy yourself and for god's sake use a condom.  Communication is good too, make sure you are both cool with whats going on.  \n\nMy first time I remember it feeling like my head was a blur and I was a bit dizzy, but It was a good feeling.
503166
shes a VIRGIN! go slow on her i know and WE know you want to get there!lololollol but have patience
653408
it all depends on who we are. A virgin man is probably going to want a virgin woman. The awkwardness of that first time is a great occasion to be remembered. Once you get used to each other sexually then things get easier.you do have to remember to talk to each other about what feels good and what doesnt. I'm 34 and not a virgin by a longshot so my personal preference is for a woman that is experienced somewhat, even if she has children