if i love this immigrant girl that i love since i was 12 and know im 18 should i ask her to marry me?
481437
Sure.  I thik you may be a bit young to get married, but if that is what you want, go for it.
925141
Under the right circumstance, the age part would be okay.  But since you are asking, it sounds like you are not sure, and that is definitely not a time to get married!  At 18 and 20, probably neither of you are able to support a household.  If a baby came along, how would you manage?  \n\nIf you love each other, respect each other enough to do this right.  Both of you should get an education first, or at least be well on your way in a career that has a future.  You will know in your heart when the time is right.
770501
There is no good reason not to. If you really love her it doesn't matter, it's only a year. Some obnoxious guys only want to date/marry younger women so they have more power and I guess bragging rights. I don't know how to explain it.  But there is absolutely nothing worong with marrying a girl only a year older than you, don't worry.\n\nGo for it and congratulations if you may be getting married! good luck!
168245
talk to her. It's only a year what's the big deal. If your old enough to date though and it isn't illegal or anything bad like that than go for it.
262146
Hey, me n my wife r 8 years apart. It is no biggie. If you are younger than 18 , then yes its a problem. If you are, then i suggest you wait. If not, then go with your heart and enjoy someone who loves you.
1089625
Yes! it sounds to me like you two are definatly in love. and if she didn't give you a good enough reason, like "i met someone else or i want to explore my options" then i think she still loves you, it is just too painful for her to be apart for so long. so i think you need to talk to her. dont just go over there and pop the question right away. but talk to her, make her fall in love with you again and then tell her you need her and that you two need to spend the rest of you lives together...then... "will you marry me?"
646966
Yes Sure you will marry a person whom you love.I can grasp this knowledge from your question that u are in an urge to fall in love and get married soon.
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
112938
If you're happy now, then be contented with what you have. You chose to marry him despite his age and you've lasted that long together.\n\nIt is dangerous to entertain such a question...
430097
I wouldn't do it! You are still so young. Read some of the past posts on here about girls who got married too young, and are miserable because they didn't get a chance to live their lives more. You need to go out, date, break a few hearts, and have yours broken (it happens) so you can learn from it and find the perfect man for you. Don't tie yourself down so young that in a year, when all your unmarried friends are out partying and having a good time at 18, you're at home with hubby, miserable...Or ever better yet, home alone because hubby is out with friends.....Live some more before you make that decision to marry, otherwise you won't be happy at all...If he loves you, he will wait!! GL;)
153828
Yes, you can. When the difference is only one or two years, it's basically the same age bracket. I am married to a woman who is two years older and we feel like we are the same age.\nThe only problem you might expect is when you are, say 11, and the girl is 12. Then it is obvious that the love is more likely to be infatuation rather than love, and the age difference might mean the two people go in completely opposite directions.\nOther than that, you are probably fine.You are of the same generation, with the same cultural values, so it can be definitely alright between you.\nGood Luck.
822404
You would have to meet her first, then fall in love, then perhaps get married.  Your best chance is to move to the US to meet her.  Just remember there are cultural differences.
1140762
Love has no bounds... age is not a concern if the girl will also love you... now the question is how to know that the girl loves you... simple... go and ask her..  the more you will delay, the more hard it will be for saying... it may also be too late... cos she is 24 i guess and many of the guys might already be approaching her.... \ndon't delay buddy... if she is the girl you always wanted in your life.... tell her... thats the only way out...no other go...... \nwhether it is love or not.... well.... you already explained that it is love and not infactuation..... you did so much of her background study... welll.. it has to be love only dude.....
1141933
age is no bar in case of love. but do consider the fact that there is a gap in maturity level. tomorrow the girl gets matured enough and consider everything a mistake you will regret too. take a decision keeping both of yours future
201050
Love happens regardless of age, ethnic background, religion, status.........It just happens and that's the way it is.\nIf he loves you even after knowing this then no need to wait just get married to him. Also do consider the consequences and if you are ready to go through all the lifes trials together with him then say yes to him. A word of caution though....if you are insecured about his loosing interest in you as you age then there are some issues that you need to resolve beforehand.
570052
of course. as long as you was born here. she would have to geta  spouse visa and they WILL ask alot of personal problems but contact their website and ask them your self. i doubt they wont let her
306612
if you love her trust her and are committed to her and she feels the exact same way...then i don't think you need to worry!\ni have never even met my girlfriend - we're online yet! and yea we love each other to death and we trust each other totally, and with all our hearts!! and yea we'll be getting married too...and thats not gonna happen for another 4 years, at least, but yea i'm not worried about anything because we have TRUST in each other and thats all it takes for a LD to work out! TRUST & LOVE!\nso i don't think you need to worry pal...chill out! and all the best for your future!!