i am agay & i don't love that as i want to be normal person as any one what i should do to be normal person
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Okay, so tell me;  exactly what IS the definition of a "NORMAL" PERSON?  Who sas that because you are gay, you are not normal.  I do not like pizza, does that mean I am not normal?  When I have intimacy I like candles and soft music going all night, does that mean I am not normal?  I mean, what do normal people eat and like???  \nCome on, think about this.  Don't let anyone tell you that what your preference is -is not normal.  Normal for who?  For them?  Do they have a right to try to control your life by dictating what type of desires you should have?\nListen, if you are not attracted to the opposite sex, then don't try to fake it, just because someone sas you are not "normal".  Please don't try to be one of the crowd by doing it their way and making yourself and your mate unhappy in the meantime.  There is nothing worse than a phony.  \nIf you're saying you are not happy with the same sex, then fine.  Do the other sex, but do it because this is your nature, your need and your desire, not that of an society driven antagonistic snob.\n\nGet my drift?  Be yourself and be happy being who you are and change only if this is really your preference, not that of "getting others to appove."  Just be yourself and hold your head up high, either way.  Know who you are and what you want. Period the end...............
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caring and loving but can turn a little nasty if I'm pushed to far. I really don't like either and always feel guilty after wards because I'm so loving and caring. I guess I'm only human too.
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How can you normalize something that is normal.  Just because someone is different than you, does not make them abnormal.
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I would like to be my total opposite to see what it would be like. Maybe I could learn something I should try to change about myself. Just like most of the others, it would be a wealthy person considering I am not. But, anyway, that would be fun to see the world from someone else's eyes. Then I could also see how I come off to others. Good idea!
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Both you and them are saying the same thing. If you will eventualy succed at having a "normal life" and I am sure you will one day realize that elements of normalcy have great value, you will need to embrase the notion behind the word and be yourself while loving God and others. If you are gonna complain at least use the right lingo... We the real creazy about life adventurous people march to the beat of our own drumms.
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I think that what ever you feel is normal for you.\n\nand all  your friends wont agree or feel the same as you do.  \nSome might want or ask you to act a way that doesnt feel normal to you.  But don't ask them to do it.\n\nJust be yourself and you will see who your true friends are later.  good luck\n\nstef
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you are who you are..and you can't be everyone else..accept yourself for who you are..and remember that you're not the only one that feels shy when they walk down the street..etc...and just love yourself..so that others can love you too..and believe in yourself..and say to yourself..if i dont love my self..noone will love me...and if they don't love me..who cares...i love myself.
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Learn about yourself. We all have special gifts and talents that we can share with others. Celebrate yours. If you have flaws that you think you can change, take steps to change them. Choose to be ok with what you cannot change. \n\nEvery day, take little steps to appreciate being alive. Yesterday, I saw a pretty painted piece of wood, I had a lovely conversation with my neighbor and I had a tasty piece of bbq chicken. Look for your little joys.  Smile and say hello to everyone you see. Make it a point to go out and find people to be near. \n\nLove and be kind to yourself.
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I am happy with the person I am, I'm just not happy with where my life is at this point in time. It will be better once I get my feet back under me and can stand on my own again. I have never pretended to be something I'm not. If they don't like me for who and what I am they can move on. I have no room for people like that in my life.
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There is no such thing as 'normal'. You are just more sensitive and it is your personal way of living. When it comes to affection, you will probably have a much more intense enjoyment WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO DO SO. Don't let others rule how you 'should' feel about hugs and things. You feel the way you feel. You should just acknowledge it to yourself and try to work it into your life however you can. Don't worry about being 'different'. People who are different are the ones that make life interesting. If everyone was 'normal', there would be no need for so many of them.
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Why not, if you've tried everything else. Have you tried being yourself? You should feel no need to change if you are happy within yourself and people are not pressuring you to change
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I defiantly don't think being normal is important and what is normal anyway?Being one of many that's the same..i prefer to be an individual, i prefer to think on my own an to make my own decisions. I have always tried to not give in to peer pressure and i think i did a pretty good job i was never a follower i tried to be a leader in my life and think i succeeded OK. Now as a mother i can look my children in the eye and say..its ok to say no i did and it never really hurt me in a social way.and to a teen or child that's important.Being accepted is on of the things as humans we long for.
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Someone who respects me for who I am...not who he WANTS me to be.
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love yourself as you are. cherish your uniqueness. no one will pay any attention to you if you dont see your true nature. dont be obssessed with people, just relax and respect yourself.
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I hate to say it, but i think you might want to find some better friends.  People who like you for who you are.  In the end, you will be much happier and be having much more fun. =)
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Be happy with who you are.\n\nCoach
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Having Good intentions and not containing hatred for any one in my heart