my bf didn't see me for five months can i damp him?
493137
what are the reasons did he leave or is he just not talking to you.  If he is still around and not talking to you and there are no feelings on your part I would dump him.
852904
Find a nice Bed and Breakfast in your area.  If he's been away all he will want is you!  So a nice romantic weekend away where you can just spend quality time together will be a very special treat!
1134767
Write him a letter to explain your actions. He'll understand when he's cooled down.
894432
tell him for whatever your reason to fall short of your love, that u need some time on your own
954206
No, if you were seeing each other for over a year, then you should be able to talk to each other about almost anything.  If he acts weird now, then yes, you may want to either step back or explain to him why you told him that.\n\nGood Luck!
284281
I can totally understand how you must be feeling. Like you, i would definetly drop a few hints here and there.. but it seems he isnt responding, so that leaves to no choice but to leave it alone. Early April, i would present it to him again,in the most straightforward of ways and we would HAVE to at the very least, talk about why he isnt talking about any of it.\nBest wishes for you.
440165
Yes, come on! It's been 7 months! You said so yourself!\nInstead of thinking about a useless crap, why not hang out with your friends or something? Go to a bar, shop, party etc!\nYou'll see, you will forget him in no time and maybe find another one.
1171107
Umm no. You can't just sit around waiting for him. You'll waste so much time, and when he comes back things won't be the same anyways. You both will have changed. Spare your heart the pain and move on.
129670
You had him for five years and now want to know if to get mad or not? Interesting. I think if it's really affecting you that the best thing to do is mention it to him and talk it out.  Getting mad wont solve the problem and staying passive when it's bugging you wont solve it either.
725720
yea u were wrong but u were provoked. i can't believe i'm sayin this but he's wrong. news flash toots, your guy is either cheatin on u or no longer interested in u and this was a convenient way for him to get rid of u. it's one of those 2 things, i guarantee it. good luck. be happy it's only 7 months invested b4 u found out what an @ss he is.
316692
it would make it easier on you now that he moved out and away to say to him you really feel you need your space. just let him know you've never experienced life by yourself. you were 19 when you got into this and now that your 21 (my 21 b-day is in 7 days i so syked!), you're old/young enough to experience everything you've wanted. if you feel you want to go out and have fun as a single more power to you to follow your heart and do what'll make you happy! GL
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go and talk to him...tell him you missed him..and ask for forgivness if it is possible.\n\nsomethimes we should try to be humble and admit our mistakes..or even if we were right, we should do it for getting back our ex...\n\nshow love and kindness..;
280476
1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
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Why would you want to keep your mind off of him?\nWhat I mean is, you are going to miss him that is normal, but if you don't want to sit around moping about him what you could do is go out and enjoy yourself, doing things you like to do.\nIt's the summer time so why not go swimming, or go for a work out at the gym, or if you like to read, go to poetry shops if there are any close to you.\nThere is one more thing you could do and if it is possible, If you can talk to your guy on a regular bases why not set-up a regular time when you are to talk to each other example:\nEvery Tuesday at 4:00 pm.\nThat way you don't think about him so much til Tuesday comes around, believe me two months is not a very long time it will breeze by so quickly, as long as you fill your days with so much that when night time comes you will fall asleep right away.\nIt will be okay. Best Wishes ( :
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I was ALMOST in that situation...\n\nFortunately I realized BEFORE things got too bad (he was just starting to become possessive) & ended it little by little.\n\nI don't know what to suggest - other than what I did - which was winding down the relationship VERY slowly - which will eventually end it & hopefully he will have adjusted to your not being around anymore.
638988
Show him how much you missed him. Don't think about it so much. Just do what comes natural. He'll love you no matter what you do.
1010407
relax and give him some space. if a man feels smothered then he will leave you!