im movin to cali in a week nd my new b/f said hes only going ouit with me cuz he knows that ill be gone in a?
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Girl, you snagged a rotten fish.  It was dead when you caught it.  He needs to get a life.  If he was that rude to say that to you you should break up with him.  He was totally wrong to say that to your best friend too.  He probably likes you, or he wouldn't go out with you.  You don't just go out with someone because they're moving.  But you need to break up with him.  I know it's hard.  BELIEVE me...I know it's hard.  But you have to.  You'll probably meet someone a lot sweeter in California anyway.  That's all I can say.  I hope it works out.
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Ok, first of all, your bf/gf isn't your husband or wife, so he or she has no obligation to tell you something like that unless you guys live together. IF you a courtesy note would have being nice on his/her part to let you know where he when so you wouldn't be worried. \n\nAnd if he or she didn't tell you, well. Get over it, he/she has a life, and independent life. You are just part of that life. \n\nNow, the question is are you mad because he didn't tell you? or were you pisst because you didn't go? what ever your reason is. Get over it, something like that would be a good enough cause for a break up. \n\nThats just me, i like to be independent and have my space and time respected by anybody. You should respect his time alone or with his friends
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Hi Sally Mae! Sorry that you're getting somewhat, mixed signals from your boyfriend. I don't think it's too soon to talk to him openly about this. To me, it doesn't sound like he is about to break up with you. You two have been together for a month now so you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about this. I really hope things work out because I can tell you really like him. You'll never really know how he feels until you talk to him. You have been in the relationship long enough to deserve to know clearly and exactly what's going on! Good luck to you and I pray everything works out!
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he might only want some ass but is tryin not to go there with u b/c he dont want to mess things up
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Just let him know about how u feel about him moving away...if he decides to stay, great; but if not, don't "force" him to stay 'cause you might come off as being selfish\n\nGood Luck :)
260996
just keep it going..i'm away from my bf too and not likely to meet soon..don't lose touch to keep it fresh...
507303
If he says you're moving too fast it means he hasn't fallen for you in the way you've fallen for him.  Slow things down, to protect your relationship and yourself.  Not only do you risk scaring him away by moving to fast but you also risk hurting yourself by getting in to deep before he leaves.  Just enjoy the present and don't worry about it being "meant to be."
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Well if your question is any indication of your true style of communication, no wonder he wants to be done with you.  He's just keeping you around until he finds someone better.  Dump him because he's going get rid of you soon.
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It means he is just using you. that crap he told you is just an excuse. You watch, if his new relationship doesn't work out and he is alone again, he will all the sudden want to be with you. Its call buying insurance (or you giving him time off so he can buff other chicks)!! Either way, you will be there to cater his needs.\n\nYou might think I'm a a55hole for saying this, give it time and find out for yourself!!
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yes...how can you claim to be going out if you don't go out? unless it is a long distance relationship, there's something really wrong. Maybe you should try to ask him out on a date or ask him if he sees it going anywhere...literally.
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If he says he doesn't want to break up with you. Then he doesn't. It's summer. He has a right to also rest and go on vacation withhis family or whatever. He still wants you. Don't break up such a beautiful thing for that. He didn't cheat on you or degrade you, he just is going on vacation. That doesn't deserve a break up. Be individual and do your own thing to. Good luck ;) and I hope you stay with him ;)!
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Hi, first of all, making out w/a guy doesn't marry you to him, and talking to another is just the same. PLease be careful not to allow guys to put a "claim" on you like (luggage at the airport) lol.. just because you made out. They probably did it anyway a week before you with someone else. You are your own person, try to stay that way, you will be much happpier.
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Sounds like he's thinking of exploring the new territory. Let him be and see if he contacts you. if not then good ridence you deserve better. distance should never be a relationship destroyer..just ask all of us military wives. a few hundred miles is nothing compared to growing old with the one you love..maybe he isnt the one for you. Go find mr right he IS out there
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I'm not like miss conservative, but I don't see the harm in waiting a little bit longer to see where you two are in another month.. but it really is a personal decision.. and since you are asking here, I am guessing yuo aren't ready and he is?  Be careful, only do what YOU are willing to do without pressure from anyone.  That's very important for your self-respect.  ok?  Best of luck to you!
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well u can tell him to meet somewhere, without c ing u, check on him & decide leave or stay. and go with someone else!its safer & u ll have more fun. just keep in mind that the world is full of psychos.
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Dont go.It makes it worse. If you dont want to be with him end it.If you go on holiday and you end up falling out its much worse as your alone in a foreign country
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If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!