How to learn a man that he must also do somethig to keep a woman, not just get her!?
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you might be able to teach him that but it would mean more coming from another man. Preferably someone older that he respects the opinion of.
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As a guy, I know that I want to be the one to give my wife what she wants. I don't want to be nagged, or reminded of how I messed up and didn't give her what she needed. (not to say you are doing this, but some women do) I think you need to back off. Let him miss you a little. Start doing things you enjoy with friends, or by yourself. Let him want to join your club. Or do something hot and freaky, and keep him coming back for more. Either way this should open things up.
149023
Love him unconditionally and give him respect. For women, it's very difficult for them to remember that men are wired for respect. That's just the way it is. If you show him that you respect and love him... he'll be yours forever.
538110
My Dear Friend,\n\nThe best places are Schools, workplaces and Churches. If there is a handsome guy, concentrated as hell on his job or completely absorved in what he is doing, that means he is responsible.\n\nWatch him how he treats girls or how he treats his mother or sisters. If he treats them well, then he is not a male chauvinist and will treat you well.\n\nAfter that, go invent a circumstance, a reason for a chat and be charming. Watch his reactions. If you like them, go ahead, if you don't, anyway it was a casual chat.\n\nTry to be interested in what he is doing, the more difficult he is doing, the more enthusiastical he will be in explaining. If it is something that REALLY interests you, then it will be much better.\n\nThere, you have your door.\n\nThen, try to be conspicuous in some sort of way (common! you women know to do that perfectly!), see if he responds the friendship.\n\nThen, let the circumstances take charge, time will tell.\n\nIf not, there is always another chance...
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Guys are just as hard as women to understand, First of all his maturity(not age) is a big determination, then talk to him and you should find out whata your lookin for. Just don't play him unless he plays you because both sexes do that.
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First of all, you need to realize that each woman wants or needs something a little different in her man...we don't all want or need the same things. You must also know that the qualities we are looking for in a man must be genuine, and not there just to impress us...which means that you can't read an answer on this list, and conform yourself to that answer in order to impress a woman..but you can look for suggestions, and work on certian aspects of your personality in order to improve yourself as a human being.\nMy perfect man would be dependable...and truely interested in me.  He would be the type who actually takes the tree down from the attic when he said he would...a man who does what he says he will do.  My man would call me often to tell me that he can't wait until we are together again.  My man would be touchy feely...not afraid to hold hands, hug, or kiss in public.  He would look up from across the room and give me that smile meant for only me.  He would walk in at the end of the day and say...this was the worst day at work ever...and I've never been so tierd...but it's worth it now because I'm here with you.  He would have a sense of humor as well as a positive attitude.  He'd be willing to learn new things with me, and he's also going to want to be with his own friends from time to time.  He will know that he can trust me with his life, and I will know that I can trust him with mine.  Of course there are a few other things here and there, but when all of this comes together, then the romance is there....and obviously the personality is there and the looks just won't mean as much as some people think they do.
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Just show more emotions and love and caress and be truthful at all times.  Continue to do the things that had you guys to fall in love.  Reach out to her even when she is in her lowest state and be humble, that is a good quality of being a true man.  Be patient and keep no record of the bad things and do not get easily provoked.
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Bind him emotionally to you. Learn how his mind works and functions and use it. While it may be wrong to control and manipulate people, we all do it, every day. I think that there is a greater amount of complaints about guys being dumped then about women being dumped. The key is as always communication, the number one complaint by men is that women don't say what they want. If you want something, are bothered by something, or want him to understand something...just come out and tell him. Men tend to be simple creatures, they cannot perceive hints as you do because truly men and women live in different worlds. Men are straightforward most of the time "Hey Paul...That shirt makes you look like an Idiot". If you get mad at him later for not understanding your hints and messages its likely to just make him give up on trying to appease you.
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you gotta make him understand that women rule or else finish your relationship
14067
a man being cocky doesnt suit him any \nthats a definete \nand he has to know how to take care of himself and be clean. meaning their place has to be clean and so should they \nif u like a one let her know one or the other im not saying just go straight up to her at first\nthere are many more ways to seduce a woman but its too many
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duh! she wants your man and thinks she can get him. dont let her think that. act like you dont give a sh$#. if she compliments his shirt tell her you got it. start asking if she like your shirt. if she gets him a drink say oh you almost forgot my drink i would like a coke too. make her work......tell her you want butter and new knife, some jam, if she wants to be at your table so much then let her, but she has to work for it. remind her of her place a barmaide.lol dont let her get to you. have a conversation when she is coming and keep the conversation going until she leaves. that will get to her.
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By being sure of himself, knowing what he wants from life and working toward that. Maturity, women in this age group do not want men who do not know how to treat a woman. Sincerity is extremely important and having a sense of humor. Make her laugh, sense of humor and not "bathroom humor" will make her eyes shine. We older women have lots to teach younger men though I am myself no longer available, I have my younger man.
771422
Learn to get yourself off\n\nExplain your issues to your man\n\nGet him to learn to give you good oral sex
35640
Depends on the guy. If he is used to women going after him, act laid back. If women don't go after him, be flirty - but if women don't go after him, I doubt you would either.
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as a woman, i think you need to respect her needs and/or ask her what she wants
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first of all you never should have asked her for him!! if he is man enough he wouldve! dont think it will last he is trying new things, keep on his side and get closer to him he will see where you stand!
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Best Answer!\n\nI detect that recently you have come to a conclusion that men are demanding or suggestive towards what a woman should be. So much so they make you feel inadequate or less of person because they seek something from you that you cannot achieve in a short period of time.  \n\nBottom-line - It takes balance - mentally and physically to maintain a healthy relationship. \n\nA good man in time will develop confidence in his ability and will express a sense of being proud for his accomplishments as a good provider / home maker / etc. What most men have to learn is the type of woman he has on his team. Many of women will respect a man for his ability to be a good man, but do not want a man constantly reminding them he is the KING of the castle type of stuff.  Typically cats that get into that type of assertion need a pat on the back or someone to stroke their ego to make him feel like a man. That's not balanced. \n\nWomen on the other hand can enhance that assertion by not vocally/mentally showing up when its needed. She may play into the role of being needy and horribly insecure. She may always allow him to make decisions and suggestions - not learning to speak up and share her opinion concerning issues. So he figures he has to  take lead all the time. This too is not balanced. \n\nInstead of figuring this or that about what a man or women should its best to learn to communicate effectively ( not argue) in all areas of the relationship - from the bed to a night on the town learn to speak what's really good for both of you verses having this underline expectation of what a person should do. It will not take away from things naturally happening, but instead amplify things because you remove the doubts and negative uncertainty. This will clearly lower negative comments about a person not doing "their part" or feelings of someone is putting you down.