Would you move out of state to be with your LDR?
476512
Too many times if of the one party's move to be with other it seems to fail. If not from the area this one of the stresses not being with your family. Trying to fit in the new area finding that job,  find friends, and other social actives it is hard all causing great problems in a relationship.
1130281
It does not work unless there is an end in sight.  If you don't have plans of when you can actually be *together*... it will not work.  It will become tiresome.  It's not the nicest thing to say, but it's the truth.  Also, if you're *starting out* long distance... that's even harder.  Trust me.
468191
If you truly love him, you wouldn't mind the distance. The catch is, does he truly love you back? If you think he does, then it is well worth it.
595247
Long distances relationships can work..but a lot of times they do fail though, sadly to say...but in your case..you have no way to communicate with him at all..so its a bad idea to stay together..if you cant even talk!
951431
If you both really love each other, then I think you should move. Being in love is the best thing that can happen to someone. It just makes every day a little before. So my answer is yes.  :-) and good luck.
1127473
Do you enjoy your relationship with this guy? Stay with him, whats the point of breaking up now if you want to get back together when he returns.  You love him stay with him.  Being away from each other in terms of distance may teach you and him some life lessons, that may be crucial to the future.
514620
you are making an excuse "can't keep...living through him."\nif you wanted to be with him you would go with him.\nif you don't want to go overseas, don't.\nit seems completely reasonable that you simply prefer to stay where you are.\nyou are ready to settle down but feel awkward about pressuring him to do so.
203004
well i moved in with my boyfriend after knowing him for 2 weeks. But the bad thing is that i moved 100 miles away from my family. But we are still together and been dating for 2 years!  So you are the only one that can make that decision. It could work, but then again living together so soon could cause problems. I say take a chance and go for it. Oh yea and I was 17 when i moved out!
950951
I went out with someone who lived in Spain when I was living in Ireland, I am now married to him and we are about to celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary, so yes, long distance relationships can definitly work, you just have to be prepared to work at them!!
124334
i would be willing to move to a distant country for someone that i was IN LOVE WITH; not just someone i loved. also, i have been to asia and europe and realize that the world isn't as big as i thought it was. i don't think that moving to a foreign country would necessarily mean that you wouldn't be able to see your friends and family again. you just may not be able to see them as frequently.
1029821
the real question is are you prepared to move 400 miles away? if you really like him,  one of you is going to have to move eventually or you'll just end up with a broken heart
274734
Wow, that is a big decision.  Colorado for the most part is a wonderful place but I think it is important to do what is best for you regardless of the location.  My biggest concern about this boy is that here he is asking you to come and be with him but he isn't even willing to go back to your state to see you.  To me that is selfish and shows that he really isn't in love with you.  My biggest fear is that you would get out to Colorado and then he would dump you and you would be stuck out there away from family and friends on your own.  Even if things worked out between the two of you, wouldn't you want to go home sometimes and visit family and friends?  Would he be willing to go with you like a real boyfriend or would you be stuck doing that on your own with him complaining about your going?  It just doesn't seem like a very good choice.  If you decide to move to Colorado, do it for you and not for him.
267419
Why is he your old boyfriend? There had to have been reasons for breaking up and if I were you, I would take that into account. Also, would you be moving in together or just near him? Is it economical for you to move, will you be able to work, find housing? I don't know, it just doesn't sound like something that you should do...find a new boyfriend, one that lives closer to you or one that would move to be near YOU!
130241
It depends. If your work wants you to move there, then no. If you have to leave, go to a place you always wanted to live. I wish I moved to St. Thomas, Virgin Islands. Don't let anyone dictate to you where you should live. Live life on your terms!
50671
Depends on how much you feel you love him. If you think you can do a long distance thing and visit each other once and a while, you can always try, but you have to really trust him, either that or you two could have an open relationship while apart. Or you could just totally break it off. \n\nI don't suggest moving to be with him. Once you do that you can never take it back, and if something happens, you're stuck in New York with nothing. Plus it causes a lot of undue stress in the relationship, if you move, you unwittingly have something to hold over his head, and he will always feel as if you can use it against him as in "I moved up here for THIS?!" Even if you don't use it against it, it will still act as underlying tension between the two of you.
178326
Yes but it depends on how the relationship is long distance. If it's temporary( like away at college) then yeah if both are willing to make it work then it will work. If it's some type of 'i met him on the internet but he lives in another state...' then i don't think so.
412635
Write a list of all the pro's and the Con's,and decide if you can do this long distance thing! It's not for everyone!!! It can be hard when you feel lonely,ect..... If it hurts you more being in the relationship than not,then get out of it.