How to propose a girl if i am not attractive an slightly fat?
489462
If your already that serious about her she shouldnt care what you look like. She will love what ever you do.
1088618
Did they ask for your opinion? If so, then be honest but tactful. The most important thing about paying a compliment is sincerity. \nBeing beautiful isn't just about the size of one's body. It's about how a person carries themself, the person as a whole, their aura, their personality. A confident and beautiful fat person, is far more attractive than a shallow, insecure, pin up girl.
658575
i dont want to be rude, but the only thing that helps is maturity, if your weight is the only thing u think about, then u have a maturity problem....you are beautiful just the way u r, and u need to realize that.....every girl goes through this, so ur not alone....but u have accept yourself, good luck
1098683
im 14. im from orange county. u sound cool. id date u if i knew you. there are never any good, true girls out there. and chances are, ur not chubby. everybody thinks they're fat. its hardly ever true. anyways, u sound great. im not into the whole internet dating thing though. ill email you if ud like. its up to you. im in all honors classes and am a very good guy. im kind of shy too and am good at basketball. i play guitar but am terrible at it. (not afraid to admit it) anyways, u sould like a great girl. u shouldn't have any problems getting a bf. u sould nice, sincere(how do u spell that). there are hardly any girls left like that. what ever you do, dont stop being the great person you sould like.
67425
your girl is not attractive enough
17639
If you're underweight, and your bones stick out, try gaining some weight. Lots of women love to have a guy with a little meat on his bones. Don't dress like a nerd either. Don't get overweight, just average.
496190
Girls like a guy to be himself and honest. Someone who is sensitive, funny, and always be truthful no matter what. Unless of course if she asks if she looks fat, then it is okay to be dishonest...but only then!!! \nHonestly there are no working tips....you just connect or you don't. But if you do connect, don't be rude in public when you are with her, like say the alphabet while belching and such... Good luck!!
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1. attractive personality attract girl friends\n2. attractive personality attract your girl friends\n3. if possible talk about that with your girl friend\n4. just keep it up with your attractive personality\n5. if she's not comfortable with that & you dont want to loose her then you need to sacrifice in any way.\n6. best of luck
1085119
I think that you should tell her not to worry about her appearance.People will fall in love with her because of her personality.Besides men like their women in different shapes and sizes.Men that are drop dead gorgeous go out with big girls.Everybody has their own taste.Just try to talk to her and convince her that there is someone out there fir her and it doesn't matter how she looks..There is a man out there that will like all her thickness.
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You must be silly. Of course not. They are zillions of other things that count. Let me just give you some ideas:\nyour interest for the girl\nyour ability to demonstrate it\nthe way you maybe don't jump on sex, but take your time (that can go real fast too)\nthe way you sexually get her ready\netc\nHonestly, don't worry about size. It's what you do with it and with the rest of your body (/mind) that counts. (I am not a doctor but would expect one to say that anyway, women's body adjust. But it's just an idea).\nGood luck, there is more to you then the size of that one (besides, what is small cute).
909461
Outter appearence does matter.......its not the only thing, its only one small part of having a good relationship, but it does matter.  You arent shallow.  If you arent attracted to her sexually from her being heavy, then thats how you are.  If she is a friend, then keep her as a friend.  Nothing says you have to be attracted to everyone no matter what they look like which is why we all have different tastes.  Theyre probably 1000s of guys who wouldnt have a problem with her wieght because they like women who are like that...its all about your tastes.
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Hey, don't try so hard to find a guy.  And no matter what weight you are, you are beautiful.  Believe that, no matter what!  You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful.  I mean, I think Queen Latifah is gorgeous and Nicole Richie is...well, never mind.  Just be your fun, sparkling self.  Hang out with friends and family.  People who make you feel good.  Eventually, a man will see that you don't need a man to make you feel good about yourself and will love both your outer and inner package.  And those are the ones worth having.  But those guys take time to find.  And all girls have a hard time finding that.  Even the skinny ones.
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I'd have to go with NO SEX, NO RELATIONSHIP. And I say this only because I am a loner more than anything. I do look at beauty as being skin deep, so it isn't so much the other person being really really fat.
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dont be impatient, as it could cause disaster. First step i'd suggest u is to talk to her, like hi! my name is( ur name here), if she responds to it and introduces herself then my dear friend ur ready to go to the second step. compliment her on whatever u see in her, as in  her eyes, her smile etc. try 2 find out if she has any bf or is she going around wid some1. if everything is just fine then look for a special day, like her b'day or the day u see  her mood is quite pleasant. just propose her, and tell her what exactly u feel for her. and im sure it'll work.\n\nAs u said u never talked 2 her so i'd be quite risky to propose her on ur first meeting. 'coz she doesn't know u . Make ur first impression quite impressive one. \n\nHope it works, but touch wood if it doesn't then mail me 2 vineet2seide@yahoo.co.in\n\ni'll be there 4 u.
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Tell her she's not fat, make sure she knows that you think she looks good, healthy, pretty, that you don't like it when girls are too skinnny and unhealthy looking.  If you suspect a serious problem, anorexia or bulemia, please seek professional help with her.  Good luck!
76269
Grow some nuts and ask her yourself.  There is ZERO chance of her pleading for you to marry her.  Actually, you sound kind of wimpy if you are waiting for a girl to ask you to marry her.  Take some initiative and ask her yourself.
894414
Yayeh! go for it. Body doesn't matter. It's nice to look your best-(it makes people feel good. And, it's easier to be kind to someone)- eventhough it's not SUPER important. Go out again, and see if you like her personality, the rest will fall into place. Best of Luck!!! :)