Is is possible to maintian a passionate sex life after marriage?
489372
Gosh, I don't know if it ever gets boring or not.  I'll have to wait to find out.  I've only been married for 33 years, and each time it is different, with the same woman no less.  Sure, we don't do it twice nightly anymore, but I still am in the tries nightly stage.  Marriage is not something that you back out of if things get difficult.  You have to work on it all of the time.  I find that going out on dates and seducing my partner the same way I did before we got married, is a hell of a lot of fun.
582628
It's common, but it doesn't have to be.  I've been with my husband for over 2 years and we aren't bored with sex, but we do sometimes just have "routine" sex, lol.  If you've been dating for over 2 years, you should know each other well enough to be able to try things you know you'd both like.  Maybe some new positions would help, or some role-playing.  Sometimes even just having sex somewhere besides your bedroom can shake things up a bit.
235003
after marriage, whatever age
165163
Yes, it can survive.If you went into a marriage just thinking  about sex, you have a problem. You can't have sex 24/7.  They are other things to life and if you and your spouse can't share other common interests, you are bound to failure in everything includind your sex life.
1047296
have sex after the honeymoon youll have alife time to have sex
446670
Sex is a wonderful, and integral part of a marriage. If one party is no longer interested, there IS a reason. Seek counseling and get to the bottom of it!! My (now ex) wife would not, and we had sex 4 times the last 6 months we where together.. Or I should I had sex 4 times, she had it a lot more, so I found out later.. Like I said, something is wrong.. .Depression, cheating, resentments, physical illness, something!
1173248
Sex is a big part of marriage.  But a successful marriage is a lot more than sex AND love.  Think of it as a business contract.  Or hiring a team member.  Look at the person's qualities.  Honesty, loyalty, compassion.  He she a person of character?  Gives to charity?  Passionate about life?  Educated, if not at least wants to be?  Can you imagine this person the parent of your children?  Will you be proud of this person at thanksgiving dinners?  \n\nLooks go a way too, not just the sexiness, but the ability to dress properly at different gatherings.  To talk and walk properly when needed.  You dont want a ghetto girl hoochie mama who cant put two words of English together, or sits or walks like she is a teenager.  Or a guy who is born with a stick up his butt, overly judgemental, not compassionate, narrowminded.\n\nOf course you cant even picture the one you love in these words right now.  But step back from the infatuation and look carefully at this person.  There are soooo many factors that play in a good marriage.  How does this person deal with a crisis?  With your parents?  \n\n\nNow onto sex.  It IS important. If you are not having good sex, then you will want to have it, and if you dont know how to please yourself at least, you will begin to want it from others.  And if others hit on you sometimes, you may make the biggest mistake of your life.\n\nYour partner may not be very experienced, but may be willing and eager to learn and with a few months practice, you guys may be having a great time.  So dont shut the door if sex isnt great.  It could be that he she is young and innocent.  Believe me, having someone inexperienced but willing who turns out to be great is wonderful.  Its develops a loving romantic sensual relationship and you have all these memories of your silly mistakes, ideas etc.  Its great fun journeying toward great sex together.\n\n\nON the other hand, you could have a man who doesnt want to touch you down there, or a woman who doesnt like positions you really like.  And your partner could be very closed to that.  Or maybe the frequency is not as much as you like.\n\nIn this case you have to see if you can change yourself.  Do you really want to lose a really really good person, because of one factor?  It doesnt seem right.  Sometimes you may have to adjust yourself for the marriage.  (this happens in non sex related things all the time).  If you can please yourself that may help.  Or YOU may be the one who needs to experiment to find what works for BOTH of you.\n\nSo.. sex is a big deal.  But marriage is much more than sex.
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Do not do it, better after marriage. . .Genuine love is only in heart and could combat lust. . .\n\nRemember that lust is very quick and it reaches always an end, while love is eternal and limitless. . .
21056
Actually - there are many ways to have a great sex life. Spice things up. Never get in a routine. If you do the same things time after time - it becomes dull. Try new places - new postions - go out and buy gels;creams;masks;whips; just things in general that you think would turn your partner on. if you have any further questions pretaning to this - please let me know. I have been with my boyfriend (fiance) for 8 years now - we have a wonderful sex life!
573244
It is a choice to change.  People can change but they have to really want to.  I think anyone can be passionate for anyone, if they love them.  It has nothing to do with sex, it is in the mind.  If you love someone you do it with complete openness and devotion.  Trust was broken and hard to fix, specially if he is not trying and going to counseling with you.  I think there is something else there besides him not feeling passion.
56618
Yes you can but you may want to delve a bit deeper into why there is no interest. There is no such thing as unhealthy love in my opinion, as for a loving friendship I would hope that is why you married your wife in the first place and not for sex
723764
Yes it can...talk to some happily married couples that have been married for 40 or so years -- they will tell you...but like anything the love has to be allowed to grow and maintained...\nPart of it is the release of the bodies chemicals==
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Well when it comes to love sex is shouldn't be an issue.  It's the emotional and personal affects then the love making will come next.  But if you love someone then the sex will eventually be great regardless.  So I would say yes to your question.  Only because I would know that sex wasn't the reason I married someone it was because of all the other areas that she would make me happy in.
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5years after marriage after having nice fun
615428
yes their is no wrong with it but sex after marriage will let u enjoy more
1157502
Sex was "more and better" after marriage. But then, there came the kids. We obviously couldn't have sex as often when the kids were young. They required too much attention and at all hours of the night. Now, the children are older, and we have a little more time to ourselves. Both of us work, but we often actually schedule time for our lovemaking because we enjoy it so much. After all these years of marriage, we are still finding new ways to please each other, and different methods of enhancing the acts that we already enjoy. The sex is definitely better. Not as frequent, but better. I'd love to have sex with her everyday like before we were married or before we had kids. However, the anticipation adds to the excitement.
648549
That is very strange...my husband and I are going through the same thing right now.  We've been married for 11 years  It has been frustrating.  Lack of passion has been the worst I think.  We are however determined to get through this funk.  He is reading a book called "For Men Only" and I am reading the companion book called "For Women Only" it's by the authour Feldman, Shaunti. Another good one is "His Needs, Her Needs" I can't think of the author off the top of my head but it's a good read too.  I hope that helps and I hope that you two will become more passionate and in love because of it.  Best wishes...   :)