I want my crush to be my boyfriend but i don't know how to ask him or be great friends with him?
487559
well i have the same thing happenin to me just start with lil conversation like hi and how are you and stuff that is how i got my crush to talk to my now we are friends
1130210
Wait are you a guy? Not that it matters but you said "he" and your avatar is a "he" so...nvm.  Tell him you like him! You never know maybe he likes you too and then everything would work out. On the other hand if he doesn't...it would make him feel awkward around you so...cut that plan. Talk to him. Ask him if he'd like to mabe go out sometime and hang out, or drop hints. Always works for me! If this person will disrespect you from this, orcheat or be rude about your feelings you need to forget them. Tey obviously aren't worth the drama!
912863
you can't FORCE him to like you.  If you keep at him about going past your friendship relationship you're going to end up losing that as well.\n\nIf you only want a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend...look elsewhere.  He's said no twice...that should be a pretty obvious answer as to how he feels about dating you!
513317
you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
236013
Been there.  Uhh, well the girl i like eventually just found out, she didn't act that weird though.  You could try asking him to something simple, like the movies.  Think about how important your friendship is and how important it is that you want to be with him.  Try asking some of your girl friends.  I don't want to say anything to "out there" because i don't want my advice to hurt anybody.  If you really want a longer answer, just email me. thump713
228394
Well any person (girl or a boy) will curl back into their "shell" (unless they are an extrovert) if you walk up to him and say "Be my Boyfriend?"\n\nWhat you can do is make sure you are with him all the time and hang out with him. Find out where he goes for weekends and "be in the neighbourhood" (But dont make it obvious). Then you can increase the intimacy and take it to the next level and before you know you will be his GF. \n\n.:Fishie:.\n\nP.S: First confirm if he already has one. You dont want to find yourself in a Cat fight, do you?
370463
Be friends with him but tell him you have a boyfriend.  If he's as sweet as you say then he'll back off. Stay w/ the person that's treating you right. If you dump your boyfriend for your crush then you wouldn't be right. What if your boyfriend was in your situation...what would u want him to do? Whatever you do, don't think of only yourself.
1090591
wat up i went throught the same thing but now he's my boyfriend but n/e who go up to him dont be all shaky though well first you gotta find out if he likes you if he does thats your cue and just ask him be like will you go wit me that should help if it doesn't email me at mzjiceybooty@yahoo.com my name is Andria by the way
1055090
He sounds like a great boyfriend.  Make sure he wants be more than friends. The only guys that I know are that nice to girls are gay.
447047
tell him that you have a boyfriend and that you would love to be friends with him. but dont do it in a mean though
1044097
i no how you feel im going through this to.you should stand up to and tell him how you feel.shoot with my crush im man shy.But if you really love or like him you'll stand up to him and tell him how you feel.Im your friend so i give you the\nbest wishes.
31379
What is your goal for this guy?\n\n1.  Do you want him to be a boyfriend (possibly now or later???)\nOr,\n2.  Are you just happy to have him as a friend (with no possibility of ever dating this dude???)\n\nAnswer \n#1:  Research him, find a common interest, and get something affordable, but meaningful.  For example, if you both Rollar Blade, get him grease for his wheels.\n\n#2:  Keep the gift super affordable, and generic. Even a simple card would be fine since you've just meet. You don't want to lead this poor soul on.
402170
Be honest with him. Let him know that you appreciate and are flattered by him wanting to be your bf however, I like you only as a friend and nothing more.  We could be friends if you would like??  This way the damage is minimal and you let him know that you appreciate his offer.
752906
Personally, I don't think it's right for your friend to be looking for ways to get closer to that guy when she already has a boyfriend. \n\nI think perhaps you could wait for sometime to observe if your crush likes you? You can tell him your feelings and see if he feels the same way. But I don't think it is entirely right to keep ur friend in the dark too. You should tell her how you feel about him soon. Yeap. If she is really your friend she will understand that you have a right to crush him too :)\n\ngood luck!
422899
Pay attention to wat he does! if he asks u how your doing or wats Up. if he tells  you about the new things in his life pay attention it might be his way of including you! tell your best guy friend you like him and tell him to pay close attention to wat your crush says in the locker room or guy things. dont flat out sk him or tell him you like him b/c it could scare him off! spend more time with him or ask if he wants to "hang out" sometime as just the two of you. you'll knoiw if you should tell him or not!\n\nP.S. If that doesn't work walk up to him and kiss him. Then say "i just wanted to know wat it would be like" and live like there is no tomorrow!
63642
Tell him that you like him, and want to go out. I always used to tell my crushes that I had crushes on them. I'm shy, just try it. It'll be better than not saying anything at all. Trust me, you don't want to miss the opprotunity. This might be the one for you!
831229
hi,\n\n    in the whole world,whole human being do this.u r not aolne.if ur clear in u r mind,and wanna him as ur friend.be open and tell him.or just mess ur frndhip also.\n\n    see,what u want as a girl thats important.if u r rejecting him,its not an offence.if u like him than ask him for sometime to think,think harder.and do wat ur mind says.not u r HEART.\n\n    u r spening u r time on this issue and making him also confuse.go ahead do domething.maybe someone is waiting for u both ahead.\n\nbest of luck.