What if a few of your good friends want to kill themselves over guys?
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be there for them and tell them its not worth it, i went through this with some friends too, but all they needed were reasons to survive, and i gave them some, jusst talk to them and be there 4 them, and let them know guys are jerk's, and no man is worth your tears, and the one who is wont make you cry!!!!!!!! hope everything works out!
254166
Some guys will,but others are too "shy" to do so. They are afraid of rejection or seeming weak because they admitted their feelings. It makes them vulnerable and they don't like it.
287142
suicidal friend:its a phase, talk to her, show her youre there and maybe she'll realize taht shes important enough to live. are her parents causing trouble in her life? thats probably it believe it or not.\n\nANd about the talking behind the back thing, its so immature, are you in middle school because come on seriously, dont even care what the hell other people think\njust ignore them\ntheyre stupid\nthey will be losers when they grow up\nyou will be a better person because you never cared
516979
They kill themselves because nobody will accept them, if this "free" nation of ours would just accept people for who they are, then so many lesbians wouldn't be commiting suicide.
339280
You need to take action right now. Either tell his parents or call 911 and shown them the text messages. He may get mad at you but if you really care for him you have to take the risk. He will eventually be very thankful that you were there for him when he needed you. He is crying out for help, all treats of suicide are crys for help. He has reached a point where what ever emotional pain he feels is too strong for him to deal with on his own. He needs and wants help or else he would have said nothing and acted on commiting suicide. But if you do nothing he may think you don't take him seriously and feel traped to attempt suicide sine he made the threat. Help you friend the only way you can by getting him help from his parents of the emergency system. You may be the only one that can. How will you feel if you don't and you find out he is dead tomorrow?\n\nLet me know how this works out. Good luck.\n\nSincerely,\nTerry
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Just be there for them, hon, just be there for them. That is all you can do as a friend. Listen to them, if that is all you do, if that is all they need than do it.
244563
you tell them that they are nothin' more than a nerd in a customer, then they'll feel bad and kill themselves.\n\nSucide is the only way for them.
967689
I don't understand if you're worried about the girl you like or your friend turning into one of the guys you don't get along with. in any case, they should be smart enough to decide for themselves if these guys are worth it or not... but if they're such bad influence you could warn them about it and just hope for the best!
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If you try to stop them, you may get hurt. They will take your friend no matter what you do.\n\nTry to cooperate with them, then maybe they will give you something instead of your friend, or maybe they will help you so that you won't NEED your friend anymore.\n\nIt must be very hard to be in your position. I know it is tough. However, the only way to feel good and alive again is to cooperate with them. They are trying to help you. Trust them.
288953
You can  tell them that it is not good to do. and its bad for them to to it. Also you can still be there friend if u want too or not. Its up you.
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Take them very seriously..... Do not think for a moment that they are not serious... Be the best friend you can be and be an excellent listener.....\n\nA person who wants to commit suicide is, in there mind, ready and prepared to commit that act.... Contrary to popular beliefe they are not cowards they just feel that they have no other way out..... Sometimes the pain they feel is so intence that the only way out is death....\n\nThey are not wanting attention, but rather help for their situation. They need to know that there is a way out and that they do have support. Most people who commit suicide do so in private because they are very private people nor do they want to be a burden.....\n\nRemember to take them very seriously if not you may loose that person for ever.... Do not treat them like a child and respect them..... Listen to what they say and never offer your opinion or call them names..... Never under any circumstances laugh at them..... They are talking to you about suicide because they are at the end of their rope (no pun intended)....\n\nGood luck to you
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In todays world, it is tough to find friends that will actually do anything for you. I mean, yeah, they'll say they will, but they dont always mean it. Most of the time it works like this:\n\n            Would you take a bullet for your friend?\n        If yes, then they would take a bullet for you.\n\n             If no, then they probably wouldnt.\n\n      If you're not sure, then they probably wouldnt.\n\n\nI hope that helps.
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That's a very broad question. I think that you need a better take on men. They will (GENERALLY) allow you to knock yourself out if YOU WANT TO. Most guys negotiate all their lives; for status, information, and their "place" in the pecking order. You want your guy to do more, you gotta TELL him. If he won't do more, get another guy. There's lots more.
510894
I agree.  I think people that say it with out doing it are only saying it for attention.  Sorry but life is too short if your going to waste peoples time by saying things like "Oh im going to kill my self"  Then go do it i say.  People like that shit me.  You only get one chance at life, Y stuff it up over silly crap.  Nothing in this world can be so bad you want to die.  You can always seek help.  Thats how i feel bout the situation
606557
Well, if the person is my friend, I will talk to him. People in our life who loves us the most, also expects a lot from us. If their expection is not fulfilled, they are hurted and to combat it, they retariate that hurt back to us.This type of people will straighly deny about expectations, in general. After hurting you, they are also upset.\n\nThen if the person is just a acquaintance, and he enjoy himself after hurting you, you must get rid of them.
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I am trying to understand your question.First thing, people who call their friends and hint that they want to end their lives do not want to die. your friend is hoping that you will stop her.(got the feeling it's not done yet,I hope,seeing she has done this before) \nShe is calling out to you for HELP.\nHere is something from Module 6-Counseling 11, from when I used to do Crisis Hot-line .\nThe decision to commit suicide is usually the result of a long-term,gradual erosion of the person's ability to cope with negative emotions.She may feel overwhelmed and hopeless;suicide may seem to be the only option.\nStudies have shown that majority ofsuicidal people do not want to die. A number of warning signs can indicate the possibilityof suicide,including:\nsuicide threats, depression, apathy,or withdrawal, giving away prized possessions,making a will ,abrupt changes in behavior, the recent death of a loved one,family history of suicide,family disruptions such as divorce or the break-up of a relationship, and a clear reduction in the fear of death.Many people report that before a loved one committed suicide, he or she seemed "better". In fact , a sudden lifting of sadness, depression, or withdrawal may indicate that the decision to commit suicide has been made. Person may seem calm and at "peace" At this point,the suicide risk is often very high.\n\nHigh risk\nSuicidal feelings seem to be growing stronger, and  a plan has been thought out,but the details have not been worked through.Previous suicide attempts, af any, may be more recent, with higher lethality.\nyour friend seem to fall in high risk category. She has attempted this before. \nShe is looking for a way to end the pain and stress she feels. \nKeep her on the phone if you can , you might have to intervene for your friend, by calling the cops, telling them where she lives, her telephone number, if necessary. \nRemember whatever, happens you have done the best you can, and you might have to seek support for yourself.\nI do not know where you are but here is a 800 info -line \n(800) 203-1234  this is a state wide suicide hot-line that can be called 24 hours a day. There may be options in your area, or her area. Let your Mom know what is happening.\nHope I was able to help.
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You don't help them at all. You support them and be there when they need a friend but if you try to do more than that it could be counter productive to their recovery process. It's not suppose to be easy.