I'm getting married any tips to ultimate happiness?
484765
kiss his A$$ constantly, thats what its all about.
1179387
Many times we take our frustration and or anger out on the person who is closest to us which is usually the one we love the most! Plan a "date night" with your husband! Tell him in advance that the two of you are going out to dinner together. Pick a restaurant that both of you enjoy. Wear something you know he finds sexy on you. Once this day comes, you are going to start off with a whole new attitude! You are going to be more positive about things. Yes there are things that will get us down but don't let it keep you down, no more S.H.I.T. !!!! From here on you are going to see the brighter side of things! That evening at dinner talk about all of the wonderful things the TWO of you have done TOGETHER! Reminisce about your wedding day, anything of the wonderful things that two of you have done! Also, tell him how after dinner you are going to take him home and the two of you are going to get absolutely wild in bed! After this, wake up each day and realize how good you have things. A wonderful, loving husband, a good family life and all of the other things you may have! Take a positve outlook on things and you will stop giving him that other thing you mentioned. By doing this you will help yourself mostly but also your marriage too!\nGood luck!
356062
Start by deciding on a budget and who you want to invite.  Also start thinking about the kind of dress you want to wear.  There are tons of websites out there that are great at helping you plan.  I'm listing a few of my favourites.\n\nMost importantly, share every moment of your planning with you fiance.  It will be worth it in the end.  COMPROMISE is most important.  Have fun and CONGRATULATIONS!\n\nI'm getting married on July 1!  It's been a long and difficult journey but I'm enjoying every minute of planning my 2 weddings (1 Hindu, 1 Catholic!)
17448
For us, it has been work.  Lots and lots and lots of hard work.\n\nWhen we got married, I had an idea of what a wife should do, be like, etc. And, I expected her to be this person and our marriage to be a certain way.  So, after working at it for a year (and fighting constantly), I slowly realized that she is who she is and my expectations were wrong.  (She had to realize the same things about me.)  This is when we learned we have to work at communicating with each other and with ourselves. (You will have to learn who you truly are as well as who your mate truly is.)\n\nWe have been together almost 12 years now; she is my soul mate and we are very happy.  But, the communication and understanding that are needed are work.\n\nEvery few months, life will throw a new set of challenges at us and we will have to work at communicating well, understanding things 100% from the other persons point of view, not having emotional reactions to things without asking "Did you mean that way I heard it?" Then, once we have communicated and are in synch with each other, we can tackle the challenges of life together.  \n\nMarriage is not 50/50.  It is 100%/100%, and often you have to give your 100% first.  But, being able to become someones soul mate and their true love is an amazing blessing.  Just keep in mind that sometimes you have to give your 100% first and that is work.\n\nBeing truly in love when you get married is a great place to start growing your life long love together.    But, you have to work to grow life long love.  \n\nPlus, please remember to "actively love".  Don't just love someone and feel that is enough.  You have to pay attention to this person you are marrying, and learn what stresses them out, makes them happy, what they are great at, how best to be supportive,  and which of the family roles that mentally and emotionally hate but that you could do (I do the dishes, because she would rather be beat with a stick than wash another person's dishes.).  In other words, you have to learn who this person really is and how you can help make their life happier.  Ask yourself, "What can I DO, to make my mates life easier, happier, better, etc."  "Active love", which is paying attention to your mate and then doing things you can to improve their life, is also part of true love.\n\nForgive the long answer.  This is just the things we have learned in our 12 years together.  Every relationship is unique.  \n\nGood luck and best wishes to you both.
869361
Open a bag of Doritoes.\nI guarentee it will spread love and joy.
531674
You should be happy you married a very good spouse...\neveryone does feel bored over things that is the same most of the time...\n-working would help if you are stay at home wife,\n-have your own business where you can put those energies,\n-join some foundations... this would not only make you happy but for a good cause.\ntell your husband how you feel... he may have some better ideas then... a second honeymoon...
125966
start each day with the thought you are alive and have a day to do whatever you want to do\n\nif your husband leaves to work before him, give him a sloppy kiss\n\ndo some quiet meditation before you sleep\n\nbe a minimalist and try not to accumulate, be more conscious about the beauty of nature\n\nread an interesting book, have a fun conversation, and meet someone you always wanted to meet, if you do this regularly you wuld have a happy life\n\noh yeah - don't read the newspapers and don't watch TV - they only have ads - of things you should have which you don't have or miserable stories around the world about bombs and killings
1116568
Congrats on yuor wedding... to be there.. \n\nYou can have fusion for the wedding. \nI am not sure what custom you are going to follow. \nIf you are going through the church type then you can do you christian style dress. \n\nDress has to be Red in colour....You can apply a bindi(red dot on yuor forehead) \n\nIn the evening for reception you can dress in the traditional way. It might be dificult for you to wear a saree if no one is ready to help. Else you can get a Chania Choli (red colour) with gold work on it. It will look nice as well. You can go for the mathcing jewellery with that  for the full set. \n\nAbout the food you can have 3-4 disshes which will be an add on for the people. I am sure the white americans will like the food too. \nSome Items like Papadums and samosas for starters\nItems like Paneer (cheese) Palak(spinach), or Navratan Korma. You can check this from the caterers or the Indian restarants as to what dish you like.. \nThis can be with the Indian breads (Rotis) \nIn sweets you can have Gulab Jamun or Kulfi (type of icecream made from boiling milk for long time)\n\nAnything more IM me.. My wedding was on their last year and I will send you the link for my wedding photos on the yahoo. \n\n\nSmile always
524654
first of all...good for you!\nSince this is something you both want, its easier than if one of you were trying to wait and the other was trying NOT to. Tell some friends that you trust what you are doing, and ask them to keep you accountable. Spend time together in public places, and see if you can manage to not have alone time where you would be tempted not to wait.\n if you can live with other people before the wedding, that will help too. If you dont have a place where nobody else is around, then you will find it easier.\nGood luck, and congrats on your upcoming wedding!
146028
Relax and enjoy it.  Remember that a marriage is a lot of hard work, and takes a lot of commitment.  The more you share with each other the greater the reward.  Don't let arguments fester, and don't dwell on all the little things that ultimately aren't that important.  And last of all realize that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and that over time the intesity of your feelings will fade some but that is normal and not a sign of anything being wrong with your relationship.
880530
You will be married this year to a nice and sobre fellow. Good luck
487391
As long as your excited about being married you have nothing to worry about. Try focusing on your wedding as a party instead of a "wedding." Think of it as a great time that you get to spend with friends and family, dancing, eating and having fun. That way, the actual "wedding" won't seem as tedious to you.
270895
Well, hopefully she will become your wife and you will live happily ever after.  Wasn't that the goal when you proposed to her?  If you are having some doubts, I'd suggest a serious conversation with your fiancee rather than asking a bunch of strangers here.  I hope that it all goes well!
445639
First of all, keep in mind that this is YOUR wedding.  But also be able to compromise too.  Another thing on your wedding day don't stress out, enjoy yourself.  Someone told me while i was planning my own wedding that i shouldn't worry about something going wrong because in the end, not one person would notice except me, cause i planned the wedding.  And you know what i took her advice and my wedding day was perfect, except for a little rain. I enjoyed every minute of that day. So my advice is sure it only happens once in your life but don't make yourself miserable just to please everyone else. IT'S YOUR WEDDING, SO ENJOY IT. CONGRATS!!!!!
1009239
That is sooooo AWESOME and selfless of him.  THE BEST thing you can give him is yourself, meaning, write him a meaningful poem describing how good he makes you feel & how much you appreciate and aknowledge what he's done for you, how happy he makes you, how you have no regrets marrying him, and how much better than you expected your marriage turned out to be.  \n\nThen, if you're artistic, re-write it on some fancy paper in caligraphy-or have it done for you, have the poem professionally framed and matted and include a photo of you & him, and don't forget to put the date of this Anniversary, so when you look back at it in 50 years, you'll always remember this Anniversary.  (THEN you can smack him upside  the head, and cuss him out asking him where the heck did the romance go, you nit-wit as you notice his dentures fell out into your cup of tea.)
647105
Live your life to the fullest!! enjoy your new discovery's, be open to explore what is exiting to you. be your own judge on what is right for you.  check your own standards and morals, if you are comfortable with your desires and actions then enjoy all that you are . do not let the opinions of others dictate your level of happiness
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If you truly Love eachother,and you are ready and willing to be strong and stand up for yourselves.Then do not let anyone stand in your way.I am assuming that you belong to India.My best advice is that you are going to have to make a choice between your happiness or making others happy.This is your life after all.You may face all kinds of issues,but if your Love is strong enough you will be together.Have faith in God and eachother.Dont get married illegally.Just go to a court and have a court marriage.Your families may not accept you.Be prepared for that.I wish there was some better advice in the universe.But always follow your heart no matter what.Because you wont be happy unless you do.Regardless of culture never allow anyone to control your life.