help!  soo me and my gf have been goin out for 2 months .?
482012
yes.. man you need to lay off of the material things. You can show her that you love her by simply telling her you love her and by amybe buying her a flower every now and then, becuase if she really does love you then she's going to be happy even if you buy her nothing at all.
1054250
whoa...how old are you? there is so much wasted energy here. can't you talk to your girlfriend? why don't you take control and ask her how she feels, what is going on, and why you can't get a single date with her without her cousin tailing you guys.  if you want to be an honourable man, choose between your gf and her cousin and don't mess around...
458107
Two months is definitely a little quick, but I believe that it is possible for you to know that this may be the right guy.  Give it a few more months and then talk about becoming engaged and maybe living together.
717858
Dear, i think it will be good for you to stay apart for a while. Until you are ready to see him as a real friend. Because, if he was telling the others that he is not going out with you, even before telling you, i think that is very rude, and it shows that he is not interested in going out with you as a gf. Buttt the good news is that there are more fish in the sea, move on, i guarantee that u will forget him after a few months. Why would you like to stay with a person who doesnt love u anymore? Is it worth? Is that what you deserve? NO.\nGod bless u dear!
153317
Listen this girl is clearly trying to break it off with you.  If she keeps saying it won't work why would you want to be with her?  She seems very negitive and dull.  Break up with her and go out and have a good time.  You will meet someone who wants to make it work no matter what.
695311
If I say No you will not listen. And you know why... First off, 2 months, too fast. how well do you know her. How well does she know you. 4 times a week to visit or for sex... I recommend thinking this one through.  Are you willing to spend the rest of your life for this person. I don't think so. How much do you trust her. Relationships are built on trust. Shacking up saves gas... Great. Now what. You say that you are more mature than your past relationship. Read your question. you sound like a infatuated 19 year old. Trust me man... Think it through.
837898
WELL IF SHE SAID SHE NEEDSTIME AND SPACE GIVE IT TO HER IF U REALISESHE IS TAKING TO LONG LIKE THREE OR FOUR MONTHS THEN SHE IS HOPING U WILL FORGET OR SHE IS TRYING TO TELL U WITHOUT TELLING U SHE IS NOT INTERESTED ANYMORE.IF U CANT WAIT THEN MAYBE U DONT REALY WANT HER U JUS THINK U DO,MAYBE U R LOOKING FOR A WAY OUT BY WAITING COULD IT BE U DONT REALLY WANT HERE TO COME BACK
390830
you should do it soon.  B/c we get bored of just nothing. Call her and talk to her and just be like do you want to do something saturday. And if she is already your g/f you already pasted the hard part. If she is busy saturday then say well then when can we i really want to spend time with you. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
991436
Depending on how long two have been together as a couple, basically if you have been together for over 6 months or more, then she might be bored. From what you are saying it seems she is seeing someone else and doesn't know how to break it to you. Best way to find out is ask her whats up and if she honestly still wants to make the relationship work, then how can you make it work...what do the both of you have to do in order to make it work? \nReal love is complex, it's understanding you significant other, being able to read that  person, compromising, understanding each others differences, respecting each other, loving each other whole heartedly, and vice-versa.
80490
This is a hard question to answer see that i dont know you or ur gurl.BUT that aside id say talk to her!are there signs like shes hang out with new guys or gifts she cant explain! Also think about this has she EVER given you a reson NOT totrust her!!! Before you acuse her of cheating Make sure you are sure she is because that would just be plain  hurtful if your wrong. The best thing i can say is trust her until she gives you a reson not 2.
1033069
If you've been dating for 2 years, it's easy to get into a routine. It's time to stop and really think about your relationship and whether it is holding you back or acting as a positive in your life. \n\nIt sounds like you guys have been through some rough spots, but before you break up with her, I think you need to ask yourself whether you think the good outweighs the bad. \n\nAsk yourself...\n1. What are the good and bad things about your relationship? Make a list.\n2. For each of the bad things, what are you currently doing to resolve the issue? Is there something you could try? Do you think that she would work together with you to resolve it? If you do not think there is a solution for the issue, are you ok with that being a permanent part of your life?\n3. Are both of you guys heading in the same life direction? Do you have the same goals? Is she "The One" ?\n\nI think once you think through these things, you will be in a better place to decide what the next step is. Relationships take up a lot of energy and time that you could be devoting to other, more positive things - friends, family, etc. etc. Make sure that this girl is a positive in your life. \n\nIf you think that it's just not possible to fix the rough spots, you should tell her that you guys have grown apart and that you need to go your own way. It's going to be tough, but you will be a happier, stronger person in the end. You should be with someone who respects you and loves you. Don't settle for less.
713302
I dont understand what u are up to or thinking, I mean the girl is in a relationship already, what do u expect her to say? Are u gonna suggest to her that she should dump her bf 4 u? Why don't u go hunt else where? U say, u ve known her for 2 years! Why didn't u talk to her about it within that period. U should realize it that - when u like some thing, it doesn't automatically become yours, atleast that is how the world works. If I were u at that age, I would concentrate on school rather than chasing people's gfs.
691736
What do you want to do?  If you care about her and want to be with her, give her some time - it sounds like she'll come around, since she obviously still wants you to be a part of her life.  If you want to move on, that's a whole different story, but you need to decide whether what you want is in sync with what she wants, or whether it's time for you to find someone else.  Personally, I don't think a month is a long time - if you wait it out until she's more comfortable with herself, in the long run you two will have a stronger relationship.
474918
go ..have your relationship like she wants...just dont tell her you did all those girls you "dated"
567150
Don't break you heart over this girl you are trying to find out if you have face to face chemistry with, you are TOTALLY within reason. If she dosen't want to meet you in a public place that is safe to her, then there is a good possibility she is hidng something bigtime! She may be married, have a boyfriend or committment with someone. She may be a player who is having fun online that never has ANY intensions on meeting with you ever. If it is your goal to meet someone, tell this gal to take a hike, you sound like you are alot nicer then her, and she will be alot of "excuses" for you. There are alot of great girls out there. Good luck! Two months is a long time, I agree!
710594
ask her out. if she says yes then it's all good. if she says no then you at least know and can move on to someone who is looking. and remember if she says no, it prolly isnt about you that she just isn't in a "place" to date you. as for your previous break-up----- get out and have fun! doing things will make the time go by faster and keep your mind busy!
507420
she misses you....i dont think she really wanted to break up with you...its that or she still cares for you..not exactly loves you but she still hopes the best for u...maybe you should talk to her sometime and just see how shes doing..maybe start going out again ..