What is the best way to have an orgasm??? I need help my BF cant get me off!?
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If he cant get you off.., mastrubate urself.., or make you do so to you with his fingers...\n1. play with ur clits.., rub, n rub\n2. make him lick..n lick n lick..ur clits \n3. rub ur "G-spot", or make him rub you..n this can get you real mind blowing orgasum.\n Where is the g-spot and what is it, exactly?\n\nWhat has been popularly called the g-spot is the location within the upper wall of the vagina through which the urethral glands (female prostate) can be felt.\n\nThe search for a "spot" on the upper wall of the vagina, as opposed to searching for the female prostate or urethral glands through the upper wall may be contributing to the difficulty of finding the g-spot.\n \n  \nWomen whose g-spots are highly sensitised can experience multiple-orgasms and they can also ejaculate. Many women describe their vaginal orgasms as deeper and more satisfying and emotional than clitoral orgasms.\n\nThe g-spot is sensitive to firm pressure and can be developed by regular stimulation. If a woman wants to quickly develop an awareness of her g-spot, she can (with practice and patience) stimulate herself with a vibrat0r or her fingers.
454129
use baby oil, it gives the wildest sensation, try cyber sex, it helps when someone is doing it with u
292524
I would visit the local adult toy store and pick up a good toy that makes vibrating movements/ vibrator.  Has honestly saved my life a time or two!\nGood Luck!
102934
try changing position or rhythm or try to stop and do something to your partner.  i tried it several times and the next problem was my partner came first so try to come at the same time.
296471
Well, let me tell U that I was in your shoes for many time, I had sex and it always felt good, I had orgasms but not during sex, I was so desperate, and frustrated, but one time I had sex with my bf and nothing happened that time, still he didn't give up, and continue doing things to make me get the orgasm.  After three months of having sex with him, and we had tryed almost everything, he told me that I needed to focus on the point, I mean, when I was doing it, I always was thinking in something else, and that didn't make me feel good.\nI found that the way to get the orgasm was being on top, so I did it, in the beginning it was really difficult, but at the end it happened.\nSo, my advice is: focus on the point that U're gonna get it, think that U can get it, no matter your past experiences, if U trust on yourself U'll be able to experience it.\nI'm telling U this, because now I can enjoy it, I have an orgasm during sex and in other situations, like o.r.a.l. sex, been m*stur*b*ated by my bf or myself. and it feels really great.
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Rubbing is wonderful but let me tell you how to move it along give him a back rub then have him flip on to his back and rub his pecks and lightly kiss his neck while you are doing that lie on top of him and gently rub your genitals against his until you both orgasm. This is one of the hottest experiences and it is extremely intimate. I am sure that once he experiences this with you he will want to do more.
694870
JUST KEEP PLAYING AROUND. HE SHOULD BE THERE FOR YOU IN ABOUT 20 MIN. FOR ANOTHER RUN AT IT. HE CAN ALWAYS DO OTHER THINGS TO MAKE YOU CUM.
439508
welcome to the world of womanhood, darlin'...you are SO not alone...unless and until you teach him all your own little tricks and then some...and he's good and willing...it'll stay that way.  just be glad you are in tune with yourself enough to experience orgasm easily by any means...some women don't have it that good.  now just teach him to be as good at pleasuring you as you are!
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First of all before you try anything you have to be really turned on (So my girlfriends have told me) But start off sticking something small up there for starters. Maybe have your boyfriend put his finger up there as he's going down on you. Use a oil based lubricant, it's more messy but works best. Try putting a b*tt plug up there before hand, that way you'd be in control and it will loosen you up a bit and make it less painful. Also I've heard that poppers relax the ar se muscles but you'll have to check that out for yourself. Lastly tell the horny little bugger to go slow and be gentle. oh, I've notice that some women feel a bit dirty after this and need plenty of cuddles and lovey dovey treatment afterwards. So give him your orders before hand.
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So no problem; next time you two go for it , get him off ahead of time. Give him a few minutes to get it back up then ride him until he cums.  That way he can get off twice, and so can you, maybe!
1108364
It's the sex.\nIf you aren't having orgasms, the sex can be better.\n\nYou aren't doing anything wrong though. Most women don't have orgasms just through plain sex. \nTry getting your partner to stimulate your clitoris as well - you could try investing in a vibrator and trying a few different positions.
214345
there are alot of ways for a female to explore ehrself. most like to use fingers, some use dildos, but then you got those who go out and use extra simulant toys that can and will get you a high intense orgasm and maybe the famous squirting action a girl does when she hits a hard core orgasm. try new things, you can use a vibrator, or go wierd and use a banana or coke bottle. explore yourself and do what feels right.
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Get experimental and try new things.  Rent a few tapes and see what they do and see if you want to try it.\nHave the guy or girl go down on you and concentrate on your clit.  pull the skin back and start by rubbing it slow and then tell him how and where it feels good.  Remember, if you are trying for the orgasm or the cool climax, there are no boundaries or limits.  Try sex sometimes with no holes or holds barred.  Be open and exploratory.  Can't do it when  you are dead so might as well try it when you are living.
253365
Can you make yourself orgasm??\nIf yes teach him, if no go to:\nwww.the-clitoris.com\ngood luck!
439371
I have to disagree with some of the others. Every different way I've had orgasms rate differently for me. The shower head is a good one, but none have been so intense as the ones delivered by my boyfriend's tongue. He is the first to ever succeed this way and succeed he does...every time.
809843
Start with fourplay and oral is a must since that is what gets you going.  Always let him try various positions at the time and go back down and lick your clit.  It is a process and try drinking some wine,  watch some porn or something that can stimulate the moment.  Doggy style is usually the best for you to have an orgasm, the motion is making his balls slap your clit while his moving.  \n\nGood luck!
413737
Every way you can make your partner orgasm is good...the more ways the better!!!