how can i get a girlfriend?
489311
I guess it would help if you asked someone.
56843
Do not worry about trying to find a boyfriend. Just be yourself. Get involed in 4-H, school, and other local ativities. Someone is bound to respect your abilities and want to get to know you, then see what happens.
692221
You can't get a girl to like you. Be yourself, if that doesn't work move on.  You can get a girl to not like you very easily.
982589
First off nobody needs a girlfriend. Being shy is a hardship for dating I know.I can tell you though just be yourself and someone special will find you. Try being friends with some girls first have some of your guy friends and some girl friends hang out somewhere. Having a friend that is a girl is a way to get to know what other girls like too. Good Luck and remember you do not need a girlfriend to be happy and go out and have fun.
431595
Get a GF that likes you as you are....
112394
first of all, if you're worried about looks, start with your own. If you want a girlfriend who will treat you well, look for personality.\n\nAnd hang in there, girls become much more approachable when you leave high school and all the drama is gone (or at least changed). Start excercising in the meantime, some girls like a little extra lovin around the middle, but not too much, as I'm sure you know since you want a girl that looks good.....
732907
First of all, why do you DESPERATELY need a girlfriend?!  Work on your social skills.  You do not have to be loud and obnoxious to get attention.  Not all girls like those kinds of guys.  Get involved in something that interests you that also interests girls, so you can meet some that are more like yourself.
1014956
Get her?  Well, she's not something to be "got."  But rather, someone to care for, share life with, and love.  Assuming you are NOT referring to sex, I will answer:\n\nIf you are wanting to catch a girl's heart, make her laugh.  Don't fill her head with empty promises or boring compliments. Just allow her to be herself around you, and make her laugh.  \n\nAnd remember that girls like to talk...so listen, and pay attention!
289949
Well just try your best to go out more...hang out with your guy friends...Don't worry about finding a g-f so bad if you try too hard to look for a girlfriend you might rush into things...they will turn out all bad and then you will be back at square one...When its your time the right girl will come to you...If you got somewhere and then mentioned your ex...maybe you still have feelings for her...do you? How long has it been...do you NEED a girlfriend right now? I think you should focus on yourself and have fun. Are you still young? Do you like to party?  Go out and have fun,..\n--I'd like to hear from you.
691683
Money and looks will only get you so far... Be flirtatious, partake in interesting hobbies, and show your self confidence without being cocky. You need to take the initiative as well... don't be afraid to ask that girl out on a date!  Have no fear of rejection. Everyone gets rejected and it's part of life. Also, don't be CREEPY... hard to define... but enjoy your life... talk to people, smile, look girls in the eye, don't be shy... that's all I can think of right now! Good luck!
878770
Get a hobby, or a girlfriend.
144260
Dont be in such a hurry to get a girl.\nLook around.
248905
So what if you have no girlfriend? That should not be your biggest concern in life. If you're happy and social, you'll attract women. But if you look desperate or depressed, nobody will be attracted to you.
426118
You get a girl through personality. Really if a girl just liked you for looks, she wouldnt be worth anything anyways. Just be yourself and you'll get a girl. Just be patient. I did...and I got the best guy in the world.
360998
Hii!! No one can help!! You want a girlfriend, listen when a girl talked to you, dont try to control what they think, do or wear , respect them like they are men- equals.....
213418
Start talking to girls. And talk. And talk some more.\n\nAnd when you've finished doing that, go ahead and talk some more.\n\nSeriously, the best way to get girls is to talk to them. Get to know them. Their favorite foods, their hobbies, etc. Nothing pleases a girl more than a guy who is geniuinely interested in hearing what she has to say.
1075353
TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.