Why does my husband look at other girls?
493450
Because it is human nature. Do you close your eyes when other men are around? When he does it, ask him if he likes what he sees, then you find a guy you find attractive and point out what you like. He'll get the picture and maybe won't be so blunt in his wandering eye. But just remember where he goes home to everyday.
690376
That doesn't mean he is cheating. He can loOK just not touch. Men DO like to look at females. It's their nature. It's how they are wired. it's OK as long as he's with you and wants only you. Don't you find other men attractive? I'm sure you do. It's ok too. The men you look at is of no threat to your man, right? So don't be so insecure. make a joke out of it. Let it go. Be a strong woman. Men don't want to constantly reassure their women they love and care for them.
803808
You have got to get past this issue.  It is NOT healthy.  He can not change his past, it isn't going to magically go away.  But I would place fair bets he barely ever gives those other women a moments thought.  He chose you, he is with no one else but you now, and he LOVES you and you alone.  If you do not somehow move past this you could start acting out in anger towards him and in the process push you husband away.  You don't want that, I don't want that for you.\n\nIf you can't come to terms with it by yourself, then you need to seek therapy.  For yourself and for the overall health of your marriage.\n\nedit - Your anger stems from jealousy which in turn stems from fear.  You are afraid (most likely) that you are not good enough or not as good as them.  Truly, seek professional help.
620078
I don't think its all wrong for you to give your all when your in love, but that has to be both of you doing that.  I wonder why you are having these feelings of him looking at other girls, and stuff because if you were truly happy there wouldn't be thought like this!  I will tell you that its normal for a guy to look at other girls.  Its in a guys nature to do that, but cheating isn't.  Looking is one thing cheating is another.  I would just watch how much of yourself your putting forth and how much of himself he is putting forth.  I would hate to see you get hurt because you put to much of yourself into him!
90641
don't worry about it! i'm a guy and just got married with gf i've been dating for 3 years. i look at girls alot, even with her... its not a serious issue. i love my wife, and likewise, but this issue is not gonna change the bond we have. we sometimes discuss how the girl dress and stuff... its kinda fun talking about it... trying to find who's the hottest girl in the mall... maybe u should open up more and he might feel alot more comfortable going out with u.
1049512
Its because your insecure.  Maybe you feel like if he talks to other girls he might like them more than you.  Remember something, confidence is attractive and men respond to it.  He's with you, dont worry about it.  And if he does one day prefer another girl over you then you weren't supposed to be together anyway.
1042288
i don't know, but you're not wrong to be jealous, just don't go psycho on him! guys will always look at what catches their attention, just like women. i know i check guys out all the time but that doesn't mean i don't find my man attractive! it's natural to look, just don't stare. don't make it obvious that you're looking. same with him, if he's staring and drooling all over the place call him on it, if not let him look.
444110
Let it go, he left the store with you...not her! Guys will be guys and they will ALWAYS check out other girls no matter how commited they are to you! You could dump him for it, however, your next man will just do the same thing. It is just programmed into their brains! Not much you can do about it. I am sure it was harmless!
1079933
because eyes were meant for looking...by looking he's not touching.\n\nwould you prefer if he was touching instead of looking?\n\nfor the same reason wives...look at other men.  i bet you be looking at men too.
937417
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
217348
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and half years, and I have never once caught him looking at another female. Girls come onto him all the time. He used to work at a restaurant and all the waitresses would hit on him and ask him out and he would tell them about me and how much he loves me. All his friends ever say to me is how he is so committed to me and is so in love with me. If you catch your boyfriend looking at women, talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel and tell him that it hurts you when you see him looking at other girls.
1056430
Don't take it personally.  It is NOT against you or have anything to to with YOU.  It is just a natural reaction.\n\n Don't you look at other women too?  I mean, aren't you interested in what they are wearing, how their hair style is, etc.?\n\nIt is natural to look at beauty and (like it or not) women are beautiful.  So don't be so hard on him, if he is a open type of guy ask him what he finds attractive about the person.  Maybe you'll learn more about him.  I am sure he loves you and is thinking he is happy to be with you.
1038190
Love isn't blind.  Of course he is going to think there are other girls that are "hot" (a rather derogatory term, but whatever.)  Just like you look around and think the same of other guys.  It is what you DO (or, more importantly DON'T do) with those thoughts.
222941
No matter what you think or do it is a natural instinct for men to look.  Engage it and explore his innermost thoughts.  Don't get jealous because he does love you.  Looking is not cheating.  Explore it together.
189177
Do you talk to other guys? Just because he talks to another woman doesn't mean he's cheating on you. Just ask him who she was if your that worried.
605886
That is pure selfish. He wants other women and you too. Been there before....Not something to try and build another relationship on , a threesome. If he truly loves you, he'll put her to the curb and come back to you, no matter what. If he's asking you this, and is separated from you now, then his intentions aren't to fix things, its to have his cake and eat it too. Its not fair to you, move on, find someone who won't use you to get his kicks like your current hubby....GL;)
197010
Hopefully your guy is showing you the attention, love and respect you deserve, that should give you a lot of needed confidence. I was really insecure when I met my husband because he is hot and even now, many girls will still come up and tell him he's hot right in front of me but all he does is say thank you and moves on or sometimes if the girl is being a complete a s s and is flirting with him in front me, he'll say "I'd like you to meet my wife..." I always smile and feel good when he does that.