my 17 year old daughter met this scumbag guy, who has a baby with?
489755
no girl at 17 needs to be with a guy like that, i would sit your daughter down and have an adult conversation about if this is the type of life she wants, a guy who can't afford anything, shrinks responsibilities and screws around? come on tell her to have enough self respect to know that he is gutter trash and not worth her time!
232101
She's quite obviously not the one for you hun. She's not treating you right at all. Its not good to argue and say those things to you, you don't deserve it. Leave her be. If she'd rather have a criminal as her baby's daddy then let her. find someone who will treat you nice. Dont waste your time with this girl anymore.
303528
The first thing is settle for friendship when he does get here. People can be pretty decieving when you meet them in real life. Secondly, you heard he had a gf but it may not be true. Just casually try to find out if he does or not. Having a new father figure in a kid's life can be hard, but he's still at a young age. Just make him get to know the person first, it's always easier that way. Like if you guys go to the park or out for a dinner together. Plus, it's also a nice way to find out how he treats your kid. just take it a day at a time. good luck:)
816951
Yeah leave messages on her email and IM account. If you dont hear from her in 24 hours call the cops. Do you have any idea who this guy is she was supposed to meet?  After all online dating can be risky. I understand you being concerned.
941300
That is a bad, bad deal.  Get him out while you can.  I have a friend who was 22 and slept with a 16 year old (stupid, stupid, I know) and now he has to walk up to everyone in his neighborhood and tell them he is a sex offender, by law.  He is wearing the Scarlett Letter because he was "in love" and all that other bs he told us at the time.  Now he is effed for life.  Tell him to get out of it, whatever you do.  He is an actual child predator.
638163
There is nothing right about this picture. She is starring in some sick porno flick. She is delusional if she thinks this love child is going to be her ticket to a loving father for her unfortunate child. I feel so sorry for the baby.
788853
Nope sorry, I'll be 17 in 2.5 months...But he is HOT...even if he's old enough to be my Dad!
365392
yes!dear because no one wants to be made a fool of! and thats selfish of them both. i mean sometimes people are not ment to be but lets be adults about it. and he is bogus treating you while you are pregnant! my dude did that and it hurts like hell.my daughter is 7 and it still hurts.but just remember that everything in the dark shall come to light but its up to you to crack the blind.
962508
Well first I will comend you for taking care  of your grandchildren. It's not your place but you are good for doing it. Not to be harsh but it really sounds like your daughter is craving the wrong kind of attention from men. She needs a hard dose of reality that men like that are no good and often are the ones who are crazy. As for you and the children in your care i would seriously consider moving. However you can pretty much find anyone on the internet. It's a terrible situation you daughter has put you in. I dont believe the police will do anything unless he makes threats or actually harms you. The thing that sucks is the same basic rights protecting you are the same rights he has even though he is an abuser. IN ANY CASE if are afraid for your life or your loved ones I would still call the police and see what they can do. Because state laws vary i may not be accuate on what the police can or can not do. I'll say a prayer for you and I hope everything works out ok for yoy.
414872
You should be ashamed of yourself.  At least he has the good sense to realize the embarrassment of your indiscretion and make an attempt to move on from it.  Do you know, or even care, that pursuing a relationship with this man would destroy your daughters trust in you forever?  Grow up and be an adult, not a promiscuous son-in-law stealing tramp.
1066220
well yo dont have to think twice - tell her to go away from that muthafucker - today its cybersex tommorow hes gonna rape their daughter
1082092
josh...why are you asking?what if you didnt find out? you would still be stupid and ignorant to the fact shes  ahoe. have chldren...? give it a month or 2 and i bet she gets fat anyway. someone got her pregant left her on her ass and now she wnats you to act as daddy. fuck that. you must be a nice guy but dont let her take advantage!\nnext time you see that guy say thanks if it wasnt for catching them you could of married and had kids with a hore just to find out 20 years later when she then takes your house and car and wont let you see your kids.
707021
i think that you should invite him for dinner or something.... make you mom chat with him..... if he is a good guy then she might really like him... if she doesn't... and if he appears to be a loser or a jerk that will just end up hurting her little daughter than she wont....usually moms are right.... they have more expericne... they are not trying to screw your life and they are not trying to prevent you from being happy... they are protecting you.... you should sppretiate it..............\n\nThis is coming from a 17year old....
363757
get a lawyer. i think you could win with his past history and her being a baby girl.
329967
Out of respect for his baby and his wife... leave him alone. You will always be number 3. He is using you and betraying you. How could you allow someone to treat you like that?
181060
First of all, if he's cheating on his baby's mama to be with her, then it's only a matter of time before he's cheating on *her* and the kid she has with him. \n\nI know she doesn't have a kid with him yet, but what do you think is going to happen?  He already has one kid when he's 23, that's not very good life planning skills on his part, is it?  And now he's hanging with girls who are 17 because the girls his own age can see him for what he is, but the 17 year old girls can't.\n\nIf she really wants to have sex when she's 17 that's her business and no one's going to stop her.  But she better use birth control and condoms, both (condoms to block STDs) because she's choosing to have sex with someone who isn't very careful about the choices he makes in life.  You don't want that kind of man as a father for your child, he needs to do some growing up before he qualifies for that.  \n\nAnd she better really learn sex ed thoroughly, like which kinds of birth control fail how often in real life.  Books like Our Bodies Ourselves explain this really thoroughly. Some hospitals and OBGYNs can hook you up with resources for this...you can ask a woman OBGYN, even if she's not your doctor.\n\nAll men do too much thinking with the small head when they are 23.  He's mostly thinking about what kind of lies he has to tell her to get into her pants.  This is exactly what he did with his baby's mama, and look how well that turned out.  That baby's mama really liked him way back when, just like your friend does now.  If your friend wants to be with him, that's her choice, but she needs to protect herself, with birth control and condoms and advice from older wiser people she trusts, protect herself in all the ways that his baby's mama didn't.
480434
Call the police.  If he put his filthy hands on you, that is assualt.  He might be on probation, so I would look into that.  He couldn't so drunk one of these days and no telling what he might do.  And your daughter is witnessing this behavior?  She might think it's okay for a strange, drunk man to be treating you this way.  Do something immediately.  I worked in  a prison for 8 years, I know how those offenders act and I would not want any of them living next door to me.  I'm not saying all of them are the same but he haven't seemed to change.