Do you have helpful hints for a newly divorced person?
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Make a financial plan or get yourself made one. It should consist an overview of your present situation, plans, goals, needs and possibilities. With the outcome of your personal financial plan you can make the best decisions on what to do, may that be debt counseling, refinancing, consolidating matters or other solutions.
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I know about divorce law. What would you like to know?
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honey to let you know i am basically going threw the same thing but i am the divorced one w/a child. and there is this wonderful guy.. put just give it time. if he really likes you he will let you know or just come out and ask him where you stand in his life. or you can ask him what he really want in life.. but don't push the issue. remember he does have a child and he doesn't want some body that is going to come and go in there life.. :)
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You might want to try therapy but if its to the point where you know in your heart its over then the best thing to do is figure out a way to be friends and it will make the divorce go smoothly.
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The simple answer is trust.  You do not trust the opposite sex.  Weather the divorce was your fault or your spouses you blame them.  You could have been the lyingest, cheatingest, most absent spouse in the world, but you still look at it as there fault.  We as humans almost always want to play the victim.  Now if you were the one that was cheated on and/or abused or what have you, then you might want to look into some form of therapy.  Either way make sure that the new person you are dating is not just a rebound (yes, you can have many of them).  find someone who will make you truly happy in life, not just in bed.  Find a friend before you find a lover!  Later dater.
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Have your mind made up. This is the hardest part. Make sure this is what you want. If you think there is still something left inside of you for this person, chances are you will go back and will repeat these steps over again. \nMake a written list of all the reasons why things will be better if the relationship is over. Think of what will happen if you stay with this person, and how many years of your life you could end up spending on an unhealthy relationship. Keep this list close to you at all times. \nThink ahead. Have a day when you decide it's over and you are going to move on. Don't just jump up and leave on an impulse. If you can, talk to that person and say, "When rent is up this month, I am going to find another place" or "I'm moving in with my parents" or "You need to leave at the end of this month." This gives the person time to make arrangements. And, it's much easier to go back on an impulse then it is to go back on a calmly and clearly stated intention. \nKeep the peace. Don't allow the person to suck you into the same old arguments, guilt trips, or drama. State your intention and walk away. Case closed. There's nothing left to do but follow through. \nOnce on your own, treat yourself. If you don't, you may get bored and call this person. Make some new friends and constantly have something up your sleeve. Do things that you were not able to do because of this person. This will let you know that you have still got it and make you feel good inside. \nCut off all communication. Even if you intend to stay friends, it's a good idea to avoid contact with this person for at least a month after you break up. Otherwise, it's extremely easy for them to slip right back into their old role in your life and start the cycle all over again. \nTry not to think about or bring up old memories. If friends start talking about this person, tell them you don't want to talk about it, whether good or bad. Get rid of gifts, photographs, and any other relics of the relationship--or at least put them way out of sight. \nPrepare for the possibility that your ex may say things to your friends, family or co-workers and make you look bad. He or she may not have been ready to let go like you did. Be the mature one and laugh about it. Eventually it will stop. \nRemember that this was just not the "one." Oh well, things couldn't work out. This is life. Make sure you still have what it takes to be good to the next person you are with. Remember the traits of the person you left and compare them to the person to are interested in. This will help it from happening again.
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see some stats on breaking up.... psych on the greiving process.... what is normal and what needs to be discussed in counseling... maybe some productive ways to take your mind off what you are going through.... maybe some ways to be a better person.... regain self esteem after abuse..... how to be a single parent..... how to recover financially.....
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Go get yourself a divorce, and file for custody and child support. The courts are usually behind a woman who wants the best for her child. If he's a truck driver and on the road a lot, I have a feeling everything will go in your favor. Just remember, get yourself a decent lawyer, one who works in your county and knows the judges in the courthouse. Most importantly, do not slander your soon to be ex- husband, be calm, cool and act intelligently. Sounds like he has an anger management problem... you will not have to tell anyone but your own lawyer, chances are he will become angry in court and he'll be his own worst enemy.
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1. Be completely divorced.\n\n2. Get married.
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LET ME KNOW DIVORCE COURT IS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT HER!!!!!!
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The same day.Did you learn nothing with one divorce ?Wait awhile and know what you are doing.
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I can give you the below link, but that's really just dipping your toe into the pond of this issue. I would check out some psychology books or divorce advice books. Either of those two types should give you a much more indepth knowledge on what this issue is all about.
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She will need a new sponsor-it doesn't mean a lot.  She will need to either go to school full time or work. She may do both-but one must be full time. She must be in no trouble and remain that way.\n\nShe can get Legal Aid-her local County Government Center can tell her where to find them. If she doesn't speak the language she may have an interpreter.\n\n Yes she can be divorced--our government does know that happens\n\nShe should seek help ASAP.
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Ring the court up that you got divorced in. They will be able to help you by telling you who to phone or write to.
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If you need to ask this question then clearly there are some warning signs. How long have you known this guy? Did you date him while going through your separation and divorce or did you recently meet him?\n\nHow long were you separated? Did you have any down time for healing and self exploration? Have you resolved those issues within yourself that brought division into your marriage?\n\nYou do know that you contributed in some way to the downfall. No one is exempt.\n\nYou need to take your time. Look and listen for warning signals. Write down the pros and cons of the relationship.\n\nHow is he around others? Your family and friends, his family and friends? What about when you disagree? Is he disrespectful? Does he shut you off? Does he allow you to express yourself?\n\nThese things are important. Don't glamorize him. Take it just as it is. You also need to consider children. His and yours if there are any. How does he treat them? Yours and his. \n\nIs he selfish? Does he provide for you? Do you fear him or are you your true self? How about religious beliefs. Do you believe the same or are you unequally yoked?
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My husband & I lived apart for a while and may have to do so again soon.  \n\nWe tried the following:\nPhone calls\nEmails\nDedicating a song at a local radio station to the other\nSending "local" things to each other\nVisiting as often as possible\nSnail mail with cologne and perfume on it to remind each other\nMaking each other CD's to listen to\n\nWe always knew where the other was (but went out with friends, etc- jealousy was not an issue), and kept up on the "little details" that you miss so much of when you're away.  We even had Thanksgiving dinner (made the same homestyle box meal w/ turkey in it at the same time) over the phone. We would rent the same movies, watch them the same night, then talk about it after. \n\nGood luck, and hang in there if he's worth it.
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I'm very impressed by your input on the situation! Why? Because I'm a divorced father as well, and yes - after a divorce you are somewhat at the mercy of the ex, and at least for me - it's much better to take things slow. I'm a lot more cautious now than I ever was before when it comes to dating!\n\nI don't think he blew you off at all! And for you to suggest fishing? Where can I find someone like you? Got any sisters? (Kidding)\n\nSeriously, be patient, maybe you could even do something as simple as enjoying lunch together somewhere? Take it slow - if he's anything like me, it just takes time.\n\nTry to suggest planning far enough in advance, and see if he can get his ex to be agreeable on the date you've chosen. Sometimes a planned schedule far enough out is the best way to make certain it will work.\n\nGood luck with your situation!