I gave him a 2nd chance-was that bad?
480794
I don't know the story. But if he really regrets whatever he did then it's okay, and he's one lucky motherf###er.
983798
I think he just wouldn't feel right and he isn't completely sure of...both of you... because obviously it didn't work out the first time.My advice is give him some more time.Make him believe,and I mean really believe,you guys can work out!I would feel bad if you guys didn't get back together because you didn't prove to him anything.
691956
then u need to give ONE another chance but not both. it is not good to two time poeple yes i know it is hard to pick one but look for the answer in your heart. best of luck and watch them boys with your heart!!! lol
510752
Off and on relationships are confusing because you want to get back together again but at the same time you're tired of the person you're with. It's been my experience that if it fails once it will fail twice, 3 times, 4 times, etc. I don't believe it's worth spending time on. One chance is all I give people now. If it doesn't work out, I move on. People like to think that they change or things will work out but it's just not that way. Move on, it will suck at first especially since you're use to having him around. In the end though you will feel better about the whole situation.
400530
If he's just looking for an excuse, why would you want to get another chance.....let him go. He's obviously not being honest about it.
3691
if you think he is genuinly sorry and you truly have feelings for him, then i believe you should take him back. everyone deserves a second chance!....but not a third!! make that clear to him!
641436
Ummm If u gave him 1 chance and 2 chance u alway give him a 3rd one Just try it.. And if it doesn't work try to find someone else better..Also that means he really loves u unless he has cheated\n\nGood Luck!
872422
Sounds like you are having second thoughts about giving him a second chance.  Not only did he break the trust in your relationship, but he did a little shattering of your confidence too.  You can't let anyone shatter your confidence, so if this is torturing you and making you think thoughts that are killing you, then it may be something you need to let go of.  When you forgive someone that means letting go of all the hurt and moving on to the next step and it seems like something that you are not able to do.  If you love him and you think that he is heartily sorry for what he did, then let it go and move on with your relationship.  If not, then you need to let him go and do whatever he has to do and you go do what you have to do.  It sounds like you still think he is misleading the both of you and you can't live like that!  It will kill you!  Make that decision on your own, don't wait for it to backfire.  Usually your first mind is your right mind. You are more important than anything.  I was in a situation like that once and it didn't work out for the good, not saying that is the case with your situation, but you should always go with your first mind. I know it will be hard, but it will work out better in the long run.
613015
Do you still have feelings for him? If you do try him out again if not tell him frankly that you would rather stay friends if he cant handle that then shame on it all.
230797
Yes for most people. Giving someone else a second chance also says a lot about yourself. Some things simply cannot be forgiven, but they tend to be things of a violent nature. Try to forgive and forget when posible.
231205
Have you told him you want him back? Also, I think it would be a good idea if you told him you can't stop thinking about him. Make sure to say your sorry and that you were confused. Tell him that you will not hurt him if he gives you a second chance.\nGood Luck Girl!
657495
give the man a chance ok?
817606
give it a change. we only live once. why pass this up? were all afarid of being hurt, thats just life. give him a chance. let your hair down have fun!
1040579
well, think about it... if it didnt work out last time, how do you know it wont end up badly as the time before? if you go for it, you could risk getting hurt AND as well as wasting your time. you already gave your Ex a chance, dont you think this new guy should deserve a chance to to prove himself to you too? your ex had his chance and screwed it up. Besides, if you give this new guy a chance and it doesnt work out, you could always go back to your ex. I mean if he really did love you or like you, he would definately take you back. If he doesnt, then he doesnt like/love you ENOUGH and is obviously not the type of person you want to marry for "future reasons." \n\nI hope that helped you and good luck! =]
197270
always give a second chance.  you might not want him doing something, but you have to remember, he is his own person with his own interests.  as long as its not cheating, give him a second chance!
685455
Girl, if you care that much, give him another chance and another, and aother and another. While you're at it, help him over come the drinking problem, some how. I think he realizes what went wrong, and want to try again. I think he cares about you, and that if he suspected you of anything, he's likely forgiven you- or ready to forgive you. I agree with you, that it would be wrong at this point, to cut the string.
663540
Oh my goodness im not sure what u should do....do what your heart says hope this was a lesson was to you and dont try it again for your own good good luck with your decision