how do you know if yout loved one is cheating behind your back and then lying about it?
482007
when the lie he told you doesnt add up
514078
I feel for you on this one.......what I've noticed with the one girl that cheated on me is that you stop talking about your feeling for one another and try to hide what he did that night.  The shorter the conversations the more likely it is that the other person is cheating on you........
623226
Either someone (a friend of his) is just being messy because they knew that it was you on the phone, or he is lying. It's time to do a little investigating. Don't mention it to him or talk too much about it. Find out on your own in what ever way you can. The truth will come out. If you talk to him too much about it he will go to more lengths to hide things from you. Let him think that everything is OK and he will be careless and make a mistake that will expose his self. IF he is cheating.
31066
Take away the first 5 words in your question and you have your answer.....If you feel he is cheating on you, you can be almost positive he is.
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
194326
The usual signs: avoiding you, acting suspicious, being secretive, lieing.  Ask your mte about it.  He will probably want to come claen with you.  My husband always does.  He is relieved after i find out.
106570
This is coming from girl who previously did cheat on her boyfriend.\n1)  She doesn't spend as much time with you as she used to.\n2)  She always seems to have something to do or somewhere to go that you can't join her.\n3)  When you ask questions, she gives you short and to the point answers and then changes the subject.\n4)  If you have asked her about being with someone else, she will probably switch the question around on you and ask you if you've been with anyone else.\n5)  You catch her in little lies.  Little lies cover up big ones.\n---All in all just remember to pay attention to the little things.  She may just need space or she may be involved with someone else.  Don't jump to conclusions.  Never accuse someone of something unless you have evidence to back it up.  Ask people close to her to let you know what's up with her.
129458
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns. If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
1167271
i say go with your heart dont accuse right from the start ask questions over and over and wait for him to slip if hes cheating hell slip sooner or later what ever you do dont come out and say i think your cheatin ask more direct questions like why did it take so many phone calls before you returned one or where were you on tuesday at 7 etc
927961
Well get a device and put it on the car or have a friend you trust follow her and record her or call cheaters or be forth right open and honest and tell her to her face; I believe you are cheating on me, if you deny and I find out its over, if your honest maybe we can work this out. Why hide? If you want the evidence up front hire a detective.
1146778
if they start dressing different, listening to different music, going on "drives", things like that. then if you call him on it and ask if he is cheating on you. . .and he gets all defenssive and starts freaking out. most likely. . .hes cheating on you
169866
hey man, are you dating my girlfriend?  I cant believe there is anyone I can relate so well with - \n\nI guess all I can say is to just trust her until something really messed up is proven to you- give her the benefit of the doubt man!  Does she tell you she loves you? I know they can lie about that too, but at least they are saying it.  If she turns out to be a liar, dont do what I did once in my past- dont even attempt to make her feel guilty, because chances are she wont anyways.
204709
The first sign is doubt. If you question whether or not he's cheating most likely he is in fact unfaithful. Love is far more complicated to judge, if he does love you he will not cheat on you, because he would not want to hurt you. Here a few helpful hints 1. Spy on him. 2. Check his phone 4 new numbers. 3. Set him up, meaning send a sexy chica his way and see what he does when she tries to offer him a date.  Needless to say I'm no expert but I wouldn't give advice I haven't tried before, and trust me it works.    Good Luck
458633
Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
945260
i think you need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart talk. ASk him if he is happy with you or tired of you. don't want to scare you but from experience, sounds like he is cheating on you.   Good luck and God bless
524436
Listen to your heart and start looking for signs of cheating. I started to have the exact feeling about my ex from 9 years ago. The feeling was very strong and pretty positive. I confronted him, but he just laughed about it. Later he sort of let the cat out of the bag by telling me he was going to hang out with other women and that I should hang out with other men. \nHe wouldn't let me answer the phone, he would get mail from people in the area and hide it, I would come home and find jackets at the house that were not mine, if we went anywhere he would have me drive by the neighborhood floozy's house to see if she was home and things like that. Another thing is, he would sneak out in the middle of the night and think that I didn't know anything about it and one night I was home and this strange car pulled up, I opened the house door and they left in a hurry. \n\nIf he stays out late at night, if is on the internet a lot, if he doesn't let you answer the phone, if he prefers to go out by himself on a frequent basis. Those are some of the red flags. Listen to your heart and be on a look out!
5449
First you have to think this simple question, has he ever lied in the past?  Someone who has never lied to you before you should be able to trust more quite obviously.  Does this person have a reason to lie to you?  Remember that more than half of our communication is based upon body language.  Learn to read more than just his words.  Although there is no exact way to tell if someone is lying you can always do your best to learn how the person acts when they are telling the truth and when they are lying.  Without knowing what you think the person is lying about I can't really go into any more detail.  Just remember that in a relation trust is a key factor.  If you can't trust someone you really can't be that close to them.  Be as straight forward as possible.  Hope this helps, best of luck.