Do woman have a different mindset than men do? Why do they get crazy mood swings?
491885
one of my favorite guy friends is way more moody them me. it bothers the hell out of me. i hope people don't think all women are mooody. alot of us arn't? im pretty sure moodiness is non gender specific but if all else fails ill blame it on pms. haha
393497
I know it didn't occur to any of the men that replied....but why is it that when 'men ask' why do women get angry - we are irrational and you all could not POSSIBLY Have done anything wrong to have 'caused an irritation'?  Oh no...... it's PMS.. yeah that's it.\n\nOk when you want a real answer, ask a guy, because as I can see already - these are just stellar answers.\n\nIT TAKES 2 to have problems, and that's true even with PMS!!!  So get it straight gentlemen...... you have responsibility in this - EVERY SINGLE FIGHT!  \n\nWhen you wake up to that fact, perhaps you'll have better relationships.....until then..... keep on thinkin crap like PMS and we are irrational....it will solve everything - NOT!    GOOD LUCK MAN!
1031675
Yes, sexual hormones could be clashing with contraceptive hormones and maybe pre-mentrual hormones - that  can make a woman very emotional.  The MOST Important thing for you to know is not to belittle her feelings.  It is very reasonable for her to feel emotional - and if she is on new birth control pills or something, that is more what you are hearing talking.\n\nYou say "Honey, everything is gonna be ok.  This doesn't sound like you - this must be the birth control talking or something else is going on - how can I help you?" and then rub her back while she talks.  Don't take what she says personally or get upset.  Just listen.  Be kind to her.  Help her to feel safe and secure and all will be well.  \n\nAnd when she is on a more even keel you can then discuss changing birth control or whatever.  Peace.
108706
Because women truly don't know what they want, except to drive men crazy, and then ask their friends "why"?\nWhat did I do?
806399
well men just don't quite function like women.  It's hard for them to understand our emotional needs.  They're like little kids.  Full of energy, jumping from exciting activity to another sometimes they just forget that we exist.  Emotional stuff is just not really in their train of thought unless we sit them down and tell them exactly how we feel and tell them what we want and need.  After he knows exactly what we want then he has no excuse for ignoring our needs.  We fullfill their physical needs they should do so for our emotional ones.
411058
Believe me, its not great for us girls either. The worst thing about PMS is that you just can't explain it. You just have no idea why you're so angry and upset which makes us even more angry and upset because we can't work it out! Your girlfriend doesn't mean to hurt your feelings, she really can't help it and I appreciate that that's hard for guys to understand. Basically, every little thing you do during that time is probably going to annoy her in some way.The reason guys get it so badly is because we feel closet to our boyfriends and for some reason that makes them the major target for the mood swing!
303768
1) Men are NOT mind readers.  Don't give us clues or hints, we just don't get it.\n\n2) Men have a different set of priorities than women.  We believe that it is important to check the oil in a car.\n\n3) Men have three emotions.  We are either hungry, horny, or sleepy.  If he's awake and Not grabbing your butt, then fix your man a sandwich.  :-D
48297
Well, I think there is some truth to the stereotype that guys have issues with their feelings.   Many of us certainly don't have the emotional vocabulary to describe our feelings like the ladies do.\n\nAnother reason is sometimes it's not "safe" to express how we feel.\n\nFor example, if we feel rejected because we are not getting enough sex from our wives, we are called sex crazed by those same wives.  Why would anyone continue to share their feelings if those feelings are invalidated.\n\nMen don't have the corner on this market, women invalidate their man's feelings with similar frequency.\n\nI agree, there are ladies who refuse to share their feelings.  They may sulk, pout, or put the walls up, but when you ask them what is wrong, what is the first word past the lips, "Nothing."
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PMS is caused by changes in the endocrine system.  The endocrine system is what produces hormones that control the menstrual cycle.  \n\nObviously due to the fact that PMS is linked to mentrual cycle, it's a girls thing.  \n\nHowever, that doesn't mean that men don't go through their own kind of "pms" too.  Normally, I like to refer to it as PSB for men, (potent sperm buildup), and the symptoms of overall crankiness, to depression, and severe emotional episodes may follow.  PSB of course is not a medically accepted condition of course, but just ask any woman out there!  Just because they won't label it or admit to it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist!!!
1006906
I dont believe all women are illogical. I think that women do act on emotion more then men and much more then they should. But lets be honest thats what we love about them and it definately seperates us from them. A possessive woman pumps up her mans ego. If we had women that said "no honey I dont mind if you look at her" we wouldnt feel as needed or wanted.
1171893
Because Men have their very own wonderful version of PMS, even a cute booty is powerless to it's devices. Did he have a bad day at work? Get into it with a friend or family member? Money Problems? Lack of Sex? All of these can trigger Male PMS it's not like female PMS (being that ours is understandable and predictable) Men's can come at anytime during the month or even last the whole month long. Basically guys can be grouches for no apparent reason.
214794
It might start off that way, but feelings change and eventually one person will want more out of the relationship than the other.  From my experience, it's usually the women who think "maybe it'll be different with me".  Women tend to be more emotional and invest a lot more in these types of relationships than men do.  Men are much more able to stay "disconnected" until they're ready for a relationship.
1039008
Yeah a lot of women are...maybe that's what women are about. i dunno. \n\nWell if you are religious you could try church...I dunno\nwww.match.com?\n\nI have found that women can be completely sane until they get into a relationship...somehow relationships make women crazy. There's no way to be sure the one you like is not crazy. You just have to risk it. \n\nGood Luck!
1120390
Actually women are more complex because they are more empathic.  They instinctively care about others and also care about how others think about them.  This kind of thinking allows the female to bond better with peers.  Men can simply block out this kind of thinking and turn it on and off at will.   I am not sure this is a positive traite or a negative one but its how we are.
443642
some of them do think like that...i guess married men got more experience on how to handle women emotion.they are more caring too...
877438
its hard because women get upset when a man says I am tired then she gets even more upset and starts thinking there is something wrong with her also if your man is suffering from a lot of stress he may not be able to get into the mood as well there are a lot of reasons why men cant express them selves either could be there upbringing maybe dad didn't show mom a lot of affection and it just rubbed of on him
480021
My my.. and I'd think that men are sayin the exact same thing..\nWhy in the world are women so complicated.\n\nWell, we seem complicated to each other because we have different ways of thinking, hence its complicated to them because they do not understand how we think, and they are complicated to us because we do not understand how THEY think.