If you love someone should you want to spend a lot of time on your own every day after you come home from work
483788
Well you need some time on your own sometimes,but not at the expense of you love.
441309
no. even if you think that the person with you now is the one you really love, you need to save some for yourself :)
973335
as long as it is with the person you love... it is good and healthy, if it is all you think about, and you can't function without it all the time, that is a bit much...
624152
Yes, I think you should.  \n\nYou can all have fun until they have to go home.  Sometimes people have appointments and games early in the morning or their parents don't like them to sleep over somewhere.\n\nThe more the merrier, you know!
507924
u do one thing go out for holidays and enjoy there just go out of ur city or do one thing find out some partner than life will be amazing
635876
That's a real tough one. And millions of others have been through the same thing. I am not going to lie to you and say it'll be easy, especially since you work with him. It's a process that you have to go through taking one day at a time. I think it's a pretty sure bet that if you got back together that the same thing would happen again.You may love him but he has to find his way back to you if and when he realizes that it's you he really wants to be with. So as hard as it is, let him work things out for himself. If you have close friends or relatives spend some time with them and if you have interests then try to keep yourself busy without over doing it. It's hard, but I think a person has to learn to try to relax as much as possible in a situation and not allow depression to creep in and get a grip. Don't let obsessive thinking get the better of you. In a sense it is an opportunity for you to learn to enjoy just being alive and being your own person. Some men and women keep making the same mistake bcause they either let someone back when it's not wise because they love them and are lonely, or they get involved with someone new, too soon, and the cycle repeats itself. Like I said, don't fixate on it, but try to enjoy each day as much as you can. You will have down times, but over time you can and will recover and you may discover a brand new life for yourself. So allow yourself to grieve a little but let yourself have hope for your future too.
991210
IT's difficult.  Being in a relationship with a workaholic has it's highs & lows.  It really depends on the type of person you are.  Do you like/enjoy alot of alone time?  If not, this type of mate probably isn't ideal for you.  I love my alone time...and I date someone who works alot, it's a sacrifice.  I guess if the person is worth it, you make it.  If not, you decide it's not exactly what you're looking for & move on in life.  Sometimes time away is exciting when you finally catch up...and sometimes it's just too few & far between to deal with.\n\nGood luck, T  :)
228122
stay at work but when you get home relax and get better
215151
Sometimes its not a good idea to get into a work relationship because if it ends in a bad break up then you still have to face each other every day.  But if you two are both mature then I think it would be okay.
258262
Tell him you need alone time with your wife  since you don't get to see her much with working all day long.
112563
When its time, God will call them home.  When our job is done here on this earth, then we must go.  Only God knows.  The more time you spend wondering, is time not being spent with your loved ones.  Cherish what you have, NOW.  Live and love everyday like it was your last.  Who knows, maybe my last job here on earth, was to answer this question.  Tomorrow on my drive to work, it could be time for me to go.  So now, I must call my mother and father, and tell them good night, and I love them.  Cherish your yesterdays, dream of your tomorrows, but live today for those dreams of tomorrow.
1104303
Wow your question is deep. I agree that you must daily make the choice to stay and make things work with your loved one, but also if you really love them, the "loving" part shouldn't be that much work. Unfortunately, many people give up on their relationships these days because "the grass is always greener" and you never know until afterwards if you made the right choice.
455877
you are happy with those around u but not with yourself. Spend some time alone getting to know the real U.
687733
Yes it is.  Some people enjoy their own company and thats fine.  Dont force yourself to be in a relationship because it seems it is the 'done thing.'
88295
You can love someone, but being dependent on them for everything, like money, making a living, paying the bills. This isn't good because you never know when you will have to do these things on your own.
930832
Yes, sometimes one just needs to be alone. It is great to have a partner to share moments with, but sometimes, it is very satisfying to be by yourself, make your own decisions and just please yourself!
162058
I have been in a relationship for almost six years and there is to much pressure on Valentines Day I feel people should treat each other that way everyday not just one day a year.