If you find your boyfriend not chatting to you on net when you see him on-line for long, what does it mean?
491399
You have to realize that everything is not about you... might sound very harsh, but I had to realize that too. He is most prop just busy or might be chatting to other people... It is sometimes hard for us not to be the center of attention, but unfortunately his got work, friends and other things to take care of as well. \nWhy don't you ask him and then you two can talk about how often he should make contact and all that...\nDont just decide that he does not care or love you... Talk bout it!
656555
It basically stops communication between you and the person.  You also can't see them if you're online, and they can't see you either.
407544
OK YOU NEED A REALITY CHECK.. YOU LOVE A PERSON WHOM YOU MET ON THE NET AND YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE.. WELL GIRL THAT SHOULD BE THE LEAST OF YOUR WORRIES. DID ANYONE EVER TELL YOU HOW DANGEROUS IT IS TO MEET PEOPLE OFF THE INTERNET.. HE COULD TELL YOU ANYTHING AND HOW WOULD YOU KNOW..STAY OFF YAHOO CHAT ROOMS AND GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE FACE TO FACE IN YOUR AREA..THIS GUY COULD BE A CRAZY PSYCHO..HE MIGHT BE TELLING YOU ANYTHING YOU WANT TO HEAR.. MANY BAD STORIES OF NET MEETINGS.. GROW UP AND ACT RIGHT
787905
He talks to other girls because you let him. You get upset, but you keep seeing him. He has online friends and you still love him. He has learned that he can do whatever he wants because you "love" him and put up with his crap. He doesn't like you talking to guys because he knows the kinds of things guys like him say to girls online.
659334
Well clearly he likes chatting with you because he is already doing that. So really it's a very small step to take to make that a chat in the real rather than virtual world. Whether he has stronger feelings is really not relevant at this stage. Just suggest it would be good to meet up when you get back and have a chat over a cup of coffee, I would be stunned if he say's no. Then take it from there, maybe you will just have a friend maybe it will be more but you will never know unless you take that small step of asking.
34306
Part of the problem with chatrooms is that many women won't even talk to other women.  I would assume the same is true of guys.  Maybe when he approaches a guy to chat the guy won't respond.  If he is not having cyber intercourse, and not meeting them, then it might be ok.  If he chats for hours and hours every day, especially if you are both home and he ignores you in order to chat, then it's probably reasonable for you to feel betrayed.
345002
I would think that he misses you and was thinking of you. I wouldn't get my hopes up. It could be that he just found a new toy on his phone and you were the first one he thought of. (or the 25th for all I know) Send him back a smiley face then forget about it. If he really wanted to tell you something, he should have spelled it out. Not started out with games.
77168
means u don't have internet connection connected at that time. connect to the internet first.
286957
It may be a 'false indication' if they're hiding from you.\nSometimes it even looks like someone is online when they've signed out hours before. They drop off when you try to write them.\n\nTheoretically, if they're offline, you can't see them... That is, unless they are standing in your line of sight.
261587
have you try to connect with him? sms & emails? if so maybe he's busy or maybe he thinking that your relationship have end...anyway you must have a conversation with him to know how he thinking
495656
i think maybe hes changed his mind ,if he comes back on and your online let him make the 1st move ,then you will know but if he dosnt contact you again ,dont worry about it ,people have all sorts of issues of their own to deal with ,sometimes you make great friends via the internet other times its a case of fly by night and you never hear from them again ,but which ever please dont end up harrassing him
422421
If it was my man then I would flip out...first of all it started off as work ?  blah...sit down have a talk with him tell him that you are on to his online cheating because it is cheating and that if he is not willing to quit being online then you will have to move on and move on...if he is looking for love online he  obviously does not love you.
1015135
if he doesnt message / call u as often as b4\nif he doesnt want 2 spend tym w/u anymore\nif he never runs out of alibi so as not 2 c u\nif he feels restless when ur 2gether\n\nmost impt - if wat he does now is exactly d opposite of wat he used 2b
396176
I actually told someone once and it didn't go well at all,because he didn't believe anyone could have feelings for someone online lol\nBut something tells me he is now regretting it:)\nNeedless to say I put him on ignore that same day so I have not recieved any messages from him :)
400331
It means it's time go get busy!\n\nHe is just a bit too shy to tell you how he feels. Perhaps you are too.
884568
he can be loyal for the first 3 days..but how long can he be loyal with you.you never seen him.guys on net will say anything to get your attention.it can be just for fun.don't take it seriously.don't dig your own grave.have a balance in this relationship. i'm not being asking you to be negative,just be practical..its your life. don't let some guy on the net to play with it..
608658
5 years, on the net???? why havent u closed the gap? i met my BF online over a year ago, but we are getting engaged and i will be moving to the states at the end of the year to be with him. what i mean is, y are u so surprised and upset that it's over? LD relationships dont work longterm if there is no end to the distance in sight.