i was raped by my bf best friend but im scrd to tell my bf cuz he might do somin crazy?
489240
the best thing to do is talk to someone you love and trust. Maybe your parents/gaurdian. Youve been through something terrible and you need some support around you and go tell someone immediately. Go to the police and have him charged. Its the best thing to do because you can prevent him from hurting someone else. Its scary but its the right thing to do
812314
Explain to her what happened & why you didn't say anything. If you guys are really best friends, you'll get over it. Best wishes!
608936
call the police.\ncome on are you telling us that you still love that ***.\nIf he knows that you still love him then it's blackmail,\nIf he feels that you hate hime then it's rape.\nIf none of the two then he's a psycho.\nbe rational and don't let emotions prevail your brain.\nIt seems that you're a very kind woman, and you deserve better than this freak guy.
9992
Thats not Cool. It would be legaly considered rape.Just because he's your boyfriend dosent give him the right to take advantage of you. You could explain to him that he got the wrong signal from you.Maybe you should have explained your stance on sex before you slept with him in the same bed...but dont think that its your fault.He shouldnt have done that with out your permission.
640008
You just have to find the right moment to tell him, if you feel that you are now at a stage where you can trust him and you are 100% yourself then go ahead and tell and if he is a decent guy then he will be there for you all the way. can i ask is the reason you want to tell him because you want to start having sex with him? or you already at that stage with him and you just feel like you need to tell him? I can't help thinking that there is a bigger reason behind you wanting to tell him...but hey i may be completley of the mark!\n\noh and just for the record there is not something wrong with you because you call your self sexy woman and you have been raped, i think its great that you can see yourself as a sexy woman again, i have a friend who was raped years ago and she still has no self esteem or anything what so ever...so i say good on ya that your picking yourself up again after going through onr of the most traumatic things life can throw at you!\n\nerm i just have to bring this up coz i just noticed all the other questions you previously asked and one was that your boyfirend treats you like his whore?! have you had counselling for this rape? hun it sounds to me as if you have actually gone for a guy who treats you the way you actually feel inside....you also asked how do you know if your boyfirend is cheating on you?! this does not sound like the kind of bloke you wann be with....please be careful about anything you do now and GET HELP!!! It will do you so much good in the long run!
1008566
sweetie I wouldn't do some thing like that. you have to be carefully because It will cause a lot of trouble between him and the so call best friend and u would be in the middle of the whole thing and you don't want that
1173833
Hello, girl. \nYou must be such a sweet cute girl.\n\nFirst of all, please be natural.\n\nYou don't have to think that you are going to steal him from his friend. If you really want to be with him again, talk to him honestly and tell him your true feeling that you have right now. \n\nIf he doesn't seem to hear you at this moment,  please leave him for a while, and you can open the window in your room now to feel warm sunshine outside to get relaxed.  \nIf you really think of him as your best bf, he will come back to you.\n\nLife is just once and I hope you will enjoy your life with your good friends around you.\n\nGood luck!
1053846
Ok, I think there are two possible answers to your question. He might be worried that a relationship with you, his best friend, may not work out and would destroy your friendship. Especially if he doesn't have any other friends. He probably loves you more than you could imagine.\nThe other option is that he's gay. I know, just hear me out. He may not have come to terms with it and has no idea how to tell you. Think about it. You guys are best friends, you're attracted to him and asked him to be your bf. He obviously llikes you a lot and is attracted to you but not sexually attracted to you. \nEither way, I think you should tell him that you really like him as a friend and wish there could be something more between the two of you. Remind him that there is nothing that could ever change the fact that the two of you are the best of friends.
236311
talk to your bf, see his side of the story.....
1064582
First I want everyone to know that this was a long time ago and I changed myself drastically because of this screw up. I slept with my best friends crush the night of their first date. I regretted it instantly but decided to keep it to myself and no harm would have came from it, but someone found out and my best friend and I, well.....lets just say were not friends anymore.
659502
Your probably looking for someone to tell you its ok. Well I'm not going to lie to you.  Guys have this rule bros before hoes.  Its totally wrong for you to go out with his best friend.  Even worse if you sleep with his best friend he will eventually tell your ex everything you guys do.
782438
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
1116146
Well if your bf's cheating with your bestfriend, whats the difference if you do it????? hehe
1116711
Boy thats hard...Especially because its your best friend It all depends on if you are willing to risk yourfriendship. I always have started out by saying ya know I had the craziest dream about us... just to feel the situation out and see what response I get then go from there. Good luck...
920171
Sounds as if you may have cracked a rib.  Yes it would probably be good to see a doctor.  Also consider the cops and a restraining order.  If a fight with your b/f means getting physically beaten, I'd say find a new b/f and tell this one to get lost.
41101
What do you do? Absolutely nothing. Not a good idea to do anything about it. You could get your a$$ kicked or worse than that, lose your best friend. Will it be worth it? Find a boyfriend of your own.
475970
there are many people out there wholl do just the thing done to your boyfriend.no reasons,just for fun.explain to your boyfriend.then let him decide if he loves u trusts u he will believe if not he didnt love you.i believe anyone can brianwash anyone but if they know me well,trust me,know what type of person i am they wouldnt believe it so i also know when this happens if the other person was really a true friend or not.so this is the time youll find out if your bf loves you or not.i know it frustrates when something like this happens but we can do nothing just wait and ull know if he loves u or not