He wants to go out, but his mom asked me for him? SHOULD I GO?
490256
maybe he doesnt want it like that anymore then you do- just try it, whats the worst that could happen. You could even suprise yourself and have a really good time\n\nGO
213915
First of all, figure out whether you like him or not regardless of your parents' opinions.  If you like him enough, then continue to go out with him and when the time is right, introduce him gradually to your parents by mentioning him casually then by actually introducing them to each other. Your parents need to be given an opportunity to know the guy otherwise they will just go on stereotypes. But if you don't like him really, then what's the point? Just decline if he asks you out on a date or make it clear to him that you're just hanging out with him as a friend.
1121502
Perhaps you could ask her indirectly. Carefully crafted words are the key here to achieving your desired goal.....having a boyfriend. Okay, step 1) find a time when you and your mother are relaxing, no phones, dinner is finished, house is clean. 2) Begin the conversation like this: "You know Mom, I am now ___ years old, and I was wondering if you would allow me to go to the movies with _____________. I know you have not had an opportunity to meet ________, but I can invite him by the house on _________. He is a really nice guy. Now, if you do not have a boyfriend, and no prospects, then I would suggest that you address your mother in this manner: Mom, I have really matured over the last year and I would like to respectfully request permission from you to go on a date occassionally with a carefully selected boy that I will bring home first for you to meet.  Don't be shy about it. Be assertive, without being pushy. Tell her what your heart desires, and do it in a kind, courteous, confident and mature manner. The way you approach this request to have a boyfriend is important. You have to let your mother know that you are ready for this big step in your young teenage life. \nNow, be honest in your evaluation of yourself here okay? Think! Really think here! And answer my question truthfully! Question: Have you been on your best behavior over the last year? Have you done everything that has been asked of you by your mother? Have you gotten into any serious trouble lately? Did you make good grades and behave appropriately in school? These questions are important, because if you have been cutting up and acting like a trifling little hoochie mama, it is highly likely that your mother will say no. But if you have been a perfect angel, and behaved appropriately over the last year, then I dont see any reason that your mother will not agree to your terms. Also, let her know that any boy you meet, you will bring them home to meet her, and your curfew is 9p.m. weeknights and 10:30 on weekends. Or, if your curfew is later than this, use your current curfew. Well, I hope this helps. Best wishes to you. And have fun.
570671
try to make him see what his mother is doing,try to keep her out of the way,if you know she is coming over you two go out,dont inform her of anything you two do,and let him understand that if she is going to interfear then your relationship is not going to work and he will need to step up to her give him the ultimatum does he want mamma or boobooo
1030390
he is playing you for a fool and why does it even matter if your parents dont want you to date then it hsouldnt be a problem , right?\ngo with them, they really do know best and im sure that they have your best interests at heart\nnow if you are like 20 and still living at home or something then this choice really should be yours, and still he sounds like an immature player to me\njust keep it as friends
422153
Don't give up on him.  He's young and is taking your unconditional love for granted.  He won't forever.  One day he will appreciate you accepting him for who he is.  He loves his mother, and that is a gray area I would be careful with.  Just be happy to see him, give him a safe place to be and do your best.
910078
If you guys are going out you should try and prove to her mom that you are worthy like go to her house and talk to her mom and bring the girl and her mom flowers maybe she thinks your just another bad boy show her differently. If her mom still disapproves then i dunno that means you guys have to be sneaky about eveything. Relationships are hard but you should ask her what she wants to do about it all you shouldnt male a decision without her unless you know its for her best, Good luck!
418995
I think if you are good friends with the mom you should ask her or if you and your bf are close and you don't think he would lie to you ask him. Look forward to hearing from you.
152948
I personally don't ask guys out.  If I want to be asked out, I send off signals letting the guy know that I like him.  Body language tells it all.  As far as your dad goes, you have to live life for you (not unless you have kids).  Do what makes you happy!!! Your dad may have reservations, but thats only because they've seen, and went through things growing up, that we fortunately didn't have to.  Your dad will come around, especially if the guy you like is a good guy.  Plus your mom wouldn't mind.....you know women have a way of swaying men minds (smile)  Good Luck!
59595
just wait till your 18 its the best thing for you, and for him.  just be friends or ask you mom be open with your mom. i mean if your gonna be 18 this year? then u will be old enough to date him as far as legal thing goes. so just ask your mom if you can date him.  some parents are ok with that, so good luck
1093660
aww thats nice he wants to take you out. next time he asks you, just simply ask him if it can just be you and him this time. he should just take you and him then!\n\ngood luck :)
654774
If he wrote it was too bad you didn't go out, he so likes you.  Call him and see if he asks you out.  If you really do like him, go for it.  If he doesn't ask, see if you can get up the courage to ask him.  He'll probably say yes!!
566539
It deepens on how old he is and if he is really really too old then just be cool friends. but this ball is in your court because you have to be careful not to lead him on. and if your mom says it's cool for you to date him then do so. but just know this there is alot that goes with dating a older guy, things you may not know of because life hasn't taken you to that stage of maturity be cautious
26680
well the respectful thing to do is not override your parents rules! let ya boyfriend no what they said him being your boyfriend will understand and try and go out saturday or next week
572585
mabey you should get the opinions of your mom and friends about the guy and if you should date him or not
303150
How about going out with him alone and not putting out?\nYou DO have a choice in the matter you know.
327100
Sounds like he wants you to be his mother.  I would just go seperate ways.  Good luck.