Are there benifits to being a nice guy?
488413
Don't change a thing sweetheart.., your doing just fine. The way you treat a lady will draw that someone special to you.., I just don't think you have met her yet. Most guy's put on a nice face then turn into werewolves at midnight !! I appreciate that it's not a front with you.., stay who you are.., don't be changing for no one !!!! You will find her.
667002
If you are just looking for a guy that likes you for your physical benefits than he will probably slap your but or try to be really nice to you but if you are looking for a guy that likes you for more than what you have to offer on the outside he would respect you, be nice to you, try to be around you all the time(if he is really bold), and talk about you nonstop. (and you probably aren't fat at all)
920233
If you want a nice young guy then try religious functions/church. It increases your chances but probably not by much.
613814
Actually there are NOT a lot of nice guys out there.\nIt doesn't take BEING NICE to fulfill ALL the needs required!\n\nWomen aren't getting what they want, besides the obvious!\n\nI feel it is mainly the sensitivity woman have and want!\nAlso the appreciation we require!\nWomen are sensitive to all aspect to many things at one time. \nMen seem to be able to focus on only one thing at a time!
474854
Your personality and character. Be nice to guys, and have a lot of friends. Most of all, be yourself!
214111
Be respectful. Be charming. Be polite.\n\nAs long as you are good, you will eventually attract good women. (You will find some not-so-good ones, too, but the good ones will stick with you.)\n\nNot all women think guys are dogs. Women who have been burned by men, will think that. Remember, respect, charm, and polite.\n\nThose are very essential elements, and don't forget honest. \n\nIf people are rude, shrug it off. Someone who's ticked today, could be pleasant tomorrow. \n\nGood luck.
438923
It may seem like it, but eventually life experience will teach you that nice guys don't finish last, most young girls just have to through the illusion of the not so nice guys to realize how they really want to be treated. If you are truly a nice guy, don't let the disappointments of other peoples actions make you change...they'll need you before you need them and they'll be the losers when you are the successful one... by then, they won't matter to you. Check out the "gorgeous" girls 10 years from now!
1064653
It depends how you define win and what it is you are winning. \n\nBeing nice makes us feel like a loser because we're taken advantage of.  Maybe you're missing the point, we may have lost, but we won in some other way. \n\nI don't think the good girls out there would go for bad guys. I don't think cheating gets you anywhere in the end. \n\nGood guys win the real battles. Good nice guys win the girl. Nice guys win in life.\n\nUnless you're nice guy, you're winning the wrong battle. In short, only nice guys win the right battle.
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It is okay to have some time between relationships with guyes.  Hang out with your girl friends, be nice to yourself and  treat your self.  Work on your shyness by voluteering for things that gets you out of your shell,  talk to people.  \nThe best place to meet nice guyes is in church.  God loves you and if you go to church, God will bring nice guyes into your life.  You are probably a nice girl, dont settle for a scum-bum over the internet.
460599
i would say nice guys don't have to be found they just come... you will find a nice guy just don't focus so much on looking for it.
183579
Socialize, flirt, and act like a gentleman.
980374
Go for the nice guys.  I know sound nuts, and it just might work.()
106497
no...in the end the nice guys will find the best girls because the best girls know who the nice guys are and they realize that looks dont last but being nice and respectful will last forever!
641850
Most guys will be nice to a babe because in the back of their mind they will think they have a chance to get into her Victoria's. Their niceness comes from the desire to have sex with her. The ore the desire, the nicer they are. Because they figure down the line she may like them, then go from like to almost love(at least great enough for a booty call.
701544
Act pretty. It will attract the right kind of guys.
778712
Can a guy be too nice?\n\nThe answer is yes. How is this possible? The general rule is that by being too nice, the relationship becomes too platonic. What this means is that the emotional state is more like that of being 'friends'. The level of attraction then naturally goes down, because you will be seen as 'just a friend'.\n\nDoes that mean you have to be a bad guy?\nGetting the balance right is the most difficult thing. Some guys are naturally selfish in a relationship and need to work on being less self-centered (I guess being nicer).\n\nOther guys, especially when you are crazy about a girl or a guy, can be too nice. Thinking this is quite natural. That a girl or a guy is the center of your world and that they alone can make you happy. Depending on the realtionship, especially if both partners do not feel like this, it can sometimes come across as overpowering, or as dependence or neediness. Which will not work either. \n\nDoing things you like, creating a good feeling in your own life and being confident with who you are, seem to be some the best qualities. Being happy in your own world.\n\nFriends make good lovers\nHowever sometimes, you can connect with someone so strongly that your friendship becomes stronger and stronger and stronger. Until it naturally develops into a relationship. Though, I think for this to happen there has to be an amazingly strong deep bond and perhaps a degree of unwriten mutual physical attraction.\n\nI hope this has helped. I was sorry to hear about this, especially if it happened unexpectly. It may not be that you are 'too nice'. But you just didn't meet the right girl. Seems like ya got a lot to offer, this aint the only gal in the world, get out there.
230379
try being nice to me funny guy....