Why would any man just want to have one sexual partner at a time?
492314
That's the classic dog theory and yes, some men never grow out of that thinking.  Unfortunately, these men lose out on love and end up on their death bed with regrets.  Most women like four-legged dogs, but the two legged ones have trouble walking!!!!!!!
124516
Your dilemma is one that is all too common. You are probably right when you say that it is not ?just me.? It takes two to make a marriage or break a marriage, and it takes two to have an affair. The fact that he has always been ?a flirt? suggests that, at one time, he was that way with you. You probably responded in a way that made him feel special, wanted, and needed, and reinforced his flirting behavior. This ties in with the first and main reason why men have affairs: to feed their ego. The problem with us males is that feeling good about ourselves, or meeting our ?ego needs,? is our primary goal in life. Therefore, the first reason why men get involved in affairs is that it feeds their egos. \n\nDon't worry your not alone nor the only one. :) \n\nIts a wild world out there. Anything can happen
263182
Because it is the ultimate male fantasy:a threesome with two women...and what better chance to have that then with a bisexual/bicurious gf?I guess it's because guys a very visual,they get turned on not only by what they feel,but also by what they see...and seeing two women get it on is appaerantly a sight not to be missed...
635233
Depends on the guy.  Some want wild, passionate, frantic sex.  Others want a comfortable home life and someone to share it with.  Still, others want both and others, even still, get both with the same guy.\n\nYou're a "Nice" guy, Ashley (by your own admission) - Don't despair.
467071
I wouldn't immediately assume that.\n\nA threesome with two women is probably the single most common male fantasy.
543253
They wanted to spice up their lives. If a married woman have an affair with a single man, it complicate things. The man may do something to break the marriage- what if the woman just need a fling- married men are easier to handle, have more experience can easily understand DISCREET.
424331
Everybody will tell you that they don't think of another woman while making love to their partner but the truth is that most guys do. Some do it to make love to a woman in proxy, by pretending that the one they are making love to is the woman they desire instead of the one available. Some do it to cheat their partners, women do this also. Other do it to spice up the relationship especially where their partner is not kin on sex maybe as a result of sexual abuse earlier in life. Any man saddled with this kind of responsibility may not know how to go about helping her, but because he loves her, anytime he manages to make love to her, he may wish his partner is like somebody else.
66129
one thing!!?\n \nthey want sex AND head\nnot always in that order
680935
Is the same reason why women think that they should have more than one men. But not all men/women are like that. Most would settle with one who they think is the right person for them. The usual reason I hear about not settling with one is because they see a little something from each individual or they are treading the water coz they dont know who to choose.
59563
They feel they are too important to have to choose.We women know it is almost every guy's fantasy to have more than 1 woman AND for the women to be cool with it. It's basically an ego trip.
406995
I think about it 24 hrs of tha day, 365 days of tha year,ALL tha time!  Its important to certain woman. Some women are happy with once a week, once a month, but then you have tha other side who they want it all tha time. Right now I am seekin a man who will sex me more than just 5 times in a day! Not sayin tha sex is going to make or break my relationship, Im just sayin tha me personally wants to be in a relationship where we sex all tha time!
470195
maybe u need relationship guidance or he needs more than 1 woman 2 satisfy him coz hes greedy.
285460
personally i don't think it's either. what is promiscuous anyway? sleeping with ten people? two guys a week? whatever. religion decided what promiscuouty was (more than one lover for women). it's a survival instinct in all living creatures. only humans have an issue with counting sexual partners. Go out there and sow your wild oats, that's why you have wild oats.
578459
that just means you have the right guy. you should be ignited by the one you are with. if you arent then it would be time to go elsewhere. he should be happy that he turns you on so much. he is just joking with you about being the only thing you need him for. dont take it seriously. he probably considers himself the luckiest man on the planet, and he should. there are man all over just wishing they had a woman who wanted sex more than twice a year :)
879942
That's the only reason i go to parties is to get a train started...its the only way i can be fully satisfied ...men come to quickly so why should i settle for one hard d1ck when i can have 6 or 7 or more?
294873
That is definitey wrong.  If you want an exclusive boyfriend then you have to be mature enough to make a decision that you are ready to be with "one person".  Sounds to me like you're still unsure of yourself and maybe afraid of being alone, but if you keep playing around with 3 guys, behind their backs, it's gonna hurt a lot worse than not having a boyfriend at all.  Maybe you should reconsider whether or not you are ready to commit to one person?
1070039
Of course there's something wrong with this, but it is pretty common nonetheless.  He is basically keeping his options open. Why have one girl, if he can figure out a way to have two? \n\nGuys (and girls) do it all the time.  They shouldn't, but they'll do it as long as there are those who will fall for it.  Let someone else have this "gem" of a guy.  There are plenty of other fish in the sea.  \n\nThat's not a cliche but a commonly overlooked fact.