Do you spy on your spouse or significant other?
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Who says spying has anything to do with trust or mistrust? And relationship? Please! That is the dreaded R word! Mean have trouble enough with the C word -- Cccc...oh, heck! commitment. Talk about relationship and you can get the biggest guy in the room to run away.\n\nOK, spying. Trust but verify is a good rule. I think that an occasional checking up is a healthy thing. You cannot ask someone to trust you. You do that and people start checking their wallets. Don't believe me? Try it! Go up to someone and say "Trust me!" Right!\n\nOK, so what can you ask for (especially if there is a lack of trust issue?) Accountability. It does not have to be really secret, nor does it have to be very open either. But it does help trust if you occasionally check to see that the person is telling you the truth.\n\nYou may say I am cold-hearted in this, but I have been left by a woman who swore in front of God in a Catholic church (and her Austrian Catholic mother) never to break the marriage vow. She took off with another guy. \n\nSo, yes, trust but check, too.
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You might want to reconsider rewording your question, it is hard to understand what you are asking here. However, laws that govern these situations vary by state. Therefore, it depends on the state and it depends on the nature of your relationship.\nAs for your last question: Yes. If someone really wants to track whether you have been communicating with someone who you are not supposed to be communicating with, they can.
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Have a conversation with him instead. It's important he knows that you respect his privacy. If he found out you were "spying" on him, than all trust would be broken and he will work that much harder to keep things from you.\n\nTalk with him about these kinds of things. Make sure he understands how you feel and WHY you feel that way. Your hope for him is to have the same morals as you and your job for a parent is to guide him that way. In the end, the choice is his.
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There are ways to do it. \nI can check everything my husband does online, even if he cleans the cache and deletes cookies. \nThere are also programs out there to monitor everything a person does on the computer, even if it's not online. \nParents are starting to use those programs to monitor their kids.
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I think they all do it.  If you don't approve of it, tell him.  He might stop.  \nI told my husband that if he has to get his "jollies" by looking at another woman, it was the same as cheating.  \nAs far as I know he doesn't do it anymore.
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Your spouse isn't paying you enough attention!
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why do u wanna spy on other people
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No it is not cheating only !  cheating can also be of the heart an mind  as well as the body !  It can even be as lil' as a sneaky phone call !  Any thing at all ..you  have to do ...behind your spouse's back is cheating !   nationality?  really has nothing to do with it , cheating is cheating...but for the record i am all white American  , mixed indiana hoosier an hillbilly !
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Yes.  And I suppose you are a Yahoo! Answers spy?
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no. i like to do that with my husband. it's us against the rest of the world....you're not doing anything wrong. you're wife needs to boost her own self esteem so she won't be so paranoid.
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No, but they can watch you through your tv sets and computer screens.... lol.
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Confront them about it or spy on them and catch them in the act.
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No, Never did I cheat or even think about it. It is wrong to think that way with your spouse. If your going to do that than leave...K
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I think you are paranoid.  Until you have some kind of solid evidence you are just looking to far into it.  Besides what if you set him up and find out that he isn't cheating.  He's gonna be pissed when he finds out.  Do you really want to risk it for a hunch.  You need to talk to him about it.  Just come out and talk about it.
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Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
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Well, if I had a husband and I suspected him cheating I would first come out and ask him! Heck with pretending to be someone else. It's pretty much how well you know him also, a woman will always have to trust her instincts if you suspect him being a cheat then look for clues, if he keeps cheating it won't be long before he gets caught, no matter what a cheating spouse sooner or later WILL get caught. That's why I'm divorced now, but I was the one that cheated and yep! I got caught.
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It's hard to know for sure unless you are determined to become the spy queen, secretly follow him around, dig through his stuff and hack into his email accounts.\n\nFor me, the warning bells in my head are enough.  It took me a long time to realize that.  I don't need to know whether he's definately doing a particular thing or not.  Knowing I'm not comfortable with the relationship will either cause me to have a heart to heart with him or to back out and move on.\n\nGood luck.