guys only please.........read below?
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I think the guy should be honored and pleaseed that you have decided that you want to take your relationship to the next level, which is the level that is the most exciting yet dangerous (for it can swing either way and make or break the relationship). This is especially because you were in such a long-term relationship before and for most females, it's not easy to move on. So the fact that you have should tell him that you want something with him, and the last thing I'd expect is him to be patronizing and picky.\n\nI say JUST BE YOURSELF and go with your heart, mind and the flow of it all. Don't cater yourself to him or feel like you have to pander your 'stuff' to his liking. If he is in love with you as you are with him, everything you do TO and WITH each other is all good, girl.
400967
Take it slow- see how he acts with you around his friends, your friends. If you want to try for a long term thing, you should not base it on sex. Just watch yourself and don't get taken advantage of. Be safe and God Bless.
1148197
get a new man!!!!!!!!!!!!
219943
Be direct!!!  Believe me guys would love more women to simply ask them out for a change.  Call him up, say you met where ever and you want to know if he's involved. If he isn't ask him out. Easy isn't it?
624180
Please, if you can see him this very moment, go and tell him all your mind. I mean tell him the way you feel for him. Many gurls have missed their right guys by simply obeying this "un-written" rule that a guy should make the Ist move. I'm not, and will never be, part of that conservative idea. Do you know, if that guy is being restrained by his background? That is, culture and religion, which in most cases are responsible for many guy's timidity. I was once a victim but a nice, loving, caring, and fearless gurl bailed me out. I'll never forget her in my life, NEVER. Please, I beg you, help this guy out, I assure you that he will never forget you. Cheers!
1104155
Sorry to hear that you wound up hooking up with a real creep,not all guys are like that . Myself I like to shower the special lady in my life with attention , affection and praise. I  don't believe that any woman deserves to be treated badly by a man. Take your time and really get to know the next guy who sparks your interest you never know he could be the one and if he is he'll know that you're worth waiting for.
559502
Guys like anyone they think likes them, and fits their image... Guys don' t like clingy/ needy stuff, in general.... my suggestion... forget about it until he makes a serious move.  Smile be yourself, laugh but overdoing it will wreck any level of relationship you want to attain.
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Make it easy for him. Let him know that you don't expect anything from him whatsoever. Guys feel a lot of pressure to perform and to give you pleasure. I would practically die if I could have a relationship like that.
115302
Talk to him.  He doesn't know you exist because you haven't made it clear.  Guys are very bad at subtle signals, and generally speaking, we're "easy".  Having a girl try to pick up a guy is a heck of an ego boost for us males.
554803
Get Intelligent! Apart from the usual sex appeal guys are big on "girl intelligence"...Know why? Its getting rare !
21011
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
447525
Ok it is really hard, you have to get someone you dont hang out w/ much to ask him so he wont suspect a thing!! A guy is better than a gurl!!!
891871
Leave him, Its just sex. Its not that easy but you deserve better then that, find someone who will fulfill you needs. Move on
326692
Let me give you a guys perspective, if you give us what we want, we will always take advantage of you. After that starts, you will always end up with guys that only want sex, and it will be that much ahrder to find a guy who loves you for you. Thats what you want eventually isnt it? On a different note, its about the stupidest thing you could ever do.
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Dump him, he is a jerk that is only stringing you on.  If he were in to you you would know it.  Guys aren't that difficult to figure out.  What you see is what you get;  if you don't like what you're getting change the scenery.
159221
Run away, and run fast.  He is not worth the space in your head.  There are plenty of guys out there who will be proud of the woman they are with, and will not hesitate to let everyone they know that there is someone special that they are spending their time with.  Trust me.
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I'm in the process of finding the same thing with my guy. I honestly dont know but I'll be looking out for answers. Plus to those who always reply with 'ask her/him' thats not always as simple as it sounds.