i need sex tips guys.........help!?
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Do what feels good.  Do what your partner responds to favourbaly and dont do what they respond to badly.
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Nobody's expecting you to be perfect! Sex is just another exercise between two human beings that show our respect for another. Her thinking you suck at sex is better than not having it at all! How are you supposed to become good at it if you never have it? I would say you should stop masturbating so you can have a build up of sexual energy. Also look into tantric sex (as this helps with keeping it up and having sex for longer periods of time). I'm sure that your gf is no pro at sex, so work on improving together. Buy a book on kama sutra (indian sex positions) and practice it page for page. It's better to get through this together, instead of you building it up in your head. Also, you can progress to sex. Build up your confidence by giving her oral and fingering or using a vibratoor on her. This will help you progress and release your anxiety. Also try her performing fellatio on you. An exercise to stop impotency is The Deer exercise for men (google it). Also tense the anall muscle continuously as though you are drawing water up it. The more you practice the longer you will be able to hold it. This helps strengthen erections and stops impotency. Hope my advice helps :)
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yeah, i dont think those tips work at all. i cant wake him up with a bj because he would get so upset! like I would if he tried to have sex with me at 6am. sleeping time is so precious!\nsurprising my man in the shower? dont even try because i know he would be embarrased since he think he is gaining weight.\nwear almost nothing around the house to turn him on? tried that one this morning when he was eating his breakfast... when my bf is tired it doesnt matter how sexy i look or what i do to make him hard. if he is tired he wont move a finger!
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tell him what your wearing (undergraments work the best lol).....tell him what you want to do to him when he comes home.....be sexy....tell him how much he turns you on.....tell him what turns you on the most about him.....hope that helps......
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Well the best to fuck your man's brain out is to just ride em like a bull, move those hips !  also a good blowjob that will take his eyes to the back of his head.  You are just good in bed or you are not.  Asking this is not a good sign...unless you are a teen and well thats that.
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ok so if you have nothing but your fingers and nothing to get you there-- This is what i would do--\nThink about that hot looking mail man or ups man or some hot guy you know--concintrate on that while gently touch your oun clit--rub nice and slow and then add a little more motion--if it helps play soft music and pretent hes there with you doing the work.Continue this till you... you know.. How long it takes to cum varies from person to person..
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Start with good foreplay to ensure he is hard and wanting it bad.  Grab his manhood, as you would a bottle of drink, not too hard and begin to move up and down, slowly to begin with and then faster as he gets more aroused.  Practice makes perfect.  With regards to blow jobs, hold it in the same way and put your mouth over the top.  Move up and down with you mouth and hand, circle your toungue around the top of his manhood and slowly start sucking like you were sucking a sweet.  It works a treat.
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well, that all depends... but here are a few that work well for me.\n\ngirl on top, lean up a little so your clit rubs against his skin and grind into him (just like manual stimulation!)\n\ndoggie style and have him rub your clit, or you rub it, or use a vibrator.\n\ngirl on top.. face his feet and squat. lean forward enough that your clit rubs against his balls.\n\nlay down on your stomach. have him come in from behind like doggie style, but laying on top of you. this way, you can grind your clit into the bed/pillow/a vibrator\n\ndon't be afraid to experiment with positions or ask him to rub your clit.. better yet.. just put his hand there.. don't be afraid to touch yourself.. and don't be afraid to use toys.  when you find things/positions that help you get off... make sure you let your man know!
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Coming from a guy's point of view.Well the best ways w/ out hurting his feelings. Altho you haven't stated his age or yours. Is thhere a big age differance ?\n\n1. Hey honey lets try oral and tell him HOW GOOD IT FEELS. Soon as he see's the reaction from it. He should take the hint.\n\n2. Try getting book's or dvd's on the subject. Most book stores carry book's on this subject.\n\n3. Hell just get a hotel room and break out or rent some adult movies and say " hun let's act like kids and have some fun."\n\n4. Try just sitting down and let him know how you feel. But don't approch it in a hostile tone or action's. All that will do is cause him to bottle up.\n\n5. Take charge.  You be the boss. Tell him what you want and want right now. BE VERY AGGRIVES and tell him he's a bad boy and his punsihment is this or that.\n\n6. If the problem is " he's getting done 1st ". Try longer foreplay. Tell him to use his hands more. Touch, kiss,etc.. Make him switch from inter to oral, back to inter back to oral.\n\n7. Try new things. \n\n8. Make him wear a vibe condom ring. you can find them at any condom store, wal-mart or online at www.gotvibe.com\n\nGood luck.Hope this helps out
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Go to library and get the book "Sex For Dummies".  Watch porn will help you with different positions.  Go to the adult store and buy some sex toys.
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you could try learning English... then having sex with him!!! :D
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watch the teeth.  Get as much of him in as you can.  Use your whole tongue, using just the tip can tickle and he wants to be pleasured, not tickled.  Get good suction cuz if u just let him have sex with your lips it's kinda boring.  Dont pull it out of your mouth and ask if he's almost there, just keep going till he finishes.  If ur good it wont be long anywayz
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play longer with him before making love and encourage him to stop taking too much of sugar as i learnt that it weakens erection and also, encourage him to take some herbs and learn his G.spot it might help.
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Sit back on your heels and rock back and forth.  YOu can get deeper that way.  Also small circles feels nice too.\nTry a bunch of different positions to see what you like best.  Your man won't mind all the extra attention and fooling that he gets
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First of all you dont always need to ask the Ladies a sex question. Ok here I go.... my wife and I have been together since 1997 So I know what you meen about old hat lol. \n\nWhen my wife and I were dating I ready and looked up so much crap online and in books on how to find all the right spots. She never complained one bit....\n\nSomething new.... have her learn Kegel exercises. Doing this will give her the abilaty to squeeze in whenever she wants to giveing more pleasure to the both of you.\nHave her do it everyday it will be good trust me. \nFind her g-spot curve your middle finger uppward about 2 or so inches inside and press firmly making circular motion with your finger. She will let you know when you found it. While you are doing this now that she has been doing kegel exercises have her squeeze in on you as your fingering her spot. After a short bit she will get so tight that you can barely move your finger... pull your finger out 9 times out of 10 she will have a female ejaculation "she will squirt or gush" Totally differant from her normal orgasims. If you havnt already get into sex toys. \n\nNow she might say no you are all I need yadda yadda. Do it anyways In no time you both will be having fun. Check out Xandria.com or Hustler store online. you both can shop together just doing this will excite you both just thinking about what you will be doing. \n\nTry public sex.... Go to the park walk the trails take a backpack with a blanket and towels and find you a nice spot. Go camping just getting out of the norm will help out alot. Hope my rambling helps\n\nAny other questions just ask.
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When next you have sex get ur mind off the sexual action and may be think about something else or something outside the sex. You will stay longer. and also don't rush anything take it slow and steady. Don't let her rush you either.
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Use some kind of lube - whatever you have to hand\n\nMoisturiser will do, oilier the better\n\nDon't expect to be good at this right away, your arm may not have the stamina!\n\nMost importantly, if you feel you're getting nowhere, ask him if he wants it to be gripped harder, pulled faster, etc\n\nMy gf is excellent at this now, but it took a few years