I want to make ravishing love to a girl I feel in love with at first site without saying a word ,any chance?
492932
It would depend on lots of things as to whether 2 move in or not (who is she to you, whats the age difference if any,have you bothered to look for any true signs that she is interested in you?)even so- regardless of all that you should NOT - NO WAY just go ahead and do it anyway- if your feelings do turn out to not be reciprocated she may well give you a damn good slap!  I know i would if someone i didn't like just came along and planted one on me; respect her personal space and portray yourself as the gent you are!  Also if you will have to continue to see her it could get most awkward!  Do you even know if she has a boyfriend? Do you even know that she is straight - not from her smile thats 4 sure!  Also you just never know what issues a person has from their past - close, unexpected physical contact from some one could be quite disturbing for them.  I'm not saying any of these things are so; but how much have you REALLY truely thought it all through?  Or have you just thought you did!?(when really you were just playing your romanticised version through in your head?)  I honestly don't mean to be a wet blanket - but i would advise picking a discreet moment where you can have a quiet talk with her; explaining how you feel and finding out if she SAYS she feels the same-if she does you could always break the inevitably awkward silence with a kiss couldn't you?! but i certainly wouldn't reccommend stealing a kiss!And what's this "make ravishing love to her without saying a word" all about - don't you watch tv or keep abreast (forgive the pun!) of current affairs? ALL blokes are strongly advised to get a loud and clear, VERBAL "yes" to a straight, direct question - it's called consent!  Sex without consent/rape/illegal - there are many terms for it none of them being too good for either of you! PS Women should be able to SMILE @ random people (men or women) without running the risk of being jumped on! A smile alone means SQUAT!
793095
I think you should tell her, bring it up when you're doing the things you normally do with her to make it less awkward. Don't drop everything on her at once (meaning the L bomb,) but make your feelings known otherwise, hold her hand etc. Don't go all the way until you get a signal from her either loving what you're doing or running away.
741468
Well maybe you loved her and you didn't even noticed it before,and now you are truly feeling for it,but there is only one thing you can do,go talk to her about because we never know,what if she loved you but never said anything?Maybe she gave up on you and found somebody else...Good luck
147127
Well if you are friends or even know each other as passing acquaintances, you should just come out and tell them.\n\nDon't blurt it out. Just pull them a side, start a conversation which would eventually lead to you telling them that you love them for quite some time now. You might be suprised the feeling might be recriprecated.
260008
First of all you cant make anyone love you, it has to come natural, and if you havent even talked to her yet , i would say , you really need to make a move, show her you like her try talking to her and see where it goes from there.
575555
If you can muster up the courage to do it in person, just go up to her and tell her that you are attracted to her or you like her.  Tell her that she doesn't have to say anything but that the ball is in her court.  If you can, tell her that you were shy to say this and, if she is, she could just send you a note.  If she does, ask her.  It takes a lot to just do it.  But, you may be glad you did.  If she doesn't respond, she may still like you and be very shy or she just doesn't feel the same.  Nothing lost on your part.  But, you will be able to ask someone else.  Good luck.
529903
You are most likely in for some terrible disappointment if you approach him about this. Do not do it. Erotic love is not love if it is not a mutual. Your imagination has run wild, and you have nothing more than a sweet, old-fashioned, one-sided infatuation with this person.\n\nClearly you do not know him as well as you think you do. If you did, then you would already know how to bridge the subject with him -- OR you would realize that it is not wise. The fact that you do not know how to approach him means that you do not know him well enough and that you have only been fantasizing about him. So the best thing you can do is simply settle the issue in your mind, which is what you will inevitably have to do the minute you open your mouth and realize that you have just made an irreversible mistake.
470961
To "make" her? What - is this like some performing poodle?\n\nYou haven't said if you want more than a one-off "make love".\nIf just one-off, just go out for an evening with her and get her much more drunk than you are. With luck she might not even remember, and then you can try the same trick again later.\n\nIf you want any kind of deeper relationship, you're gonna have to seriously loosen up in your whole approach.\nEm - as a first step, try getting to know her.\n(I mean, really know her rather than just her name.)
129540
DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
480943
No dude. First try to to establish an intimate moment however you know your girl melts, then go for it.
211865
It depends on the timeframe. How long have you been with her, known her? etc...If it has been a short period of time then you may be infatuated with her and you dont know your emotions that clearly. If it has been for a while then you should pursue your dreams. Let her know how you feel. She can either take it or leave it. Dont worry about the result. If you feel that uncomfortable right now then give it some more time. Get to know her feelings. If you knew she loved you back but did not say it yet then you will know when the right time is to say "I love you" They are some very strong words. They will come out on their own when they are ready.
323525
showing a girl u care works talk to here listen to here be there for her .. u know if u love someone if u think about them alot u would do anything for them there are so many more things and if u think u are feeling that then u need to ake sure she knows that if u get my meaning lol email me or add me on im we can continue this have fun and good luck:pinkfeverpink@yahoo.co.uk
758023
HEY MOE!!!!!    always  read her reactions     what if you told her WHY...you love her...  and one can only assume you say it at a time  she is interested in hearing it...also  what about ... "  I love your (eyes) because they...." and " I love  how you smile  when   we...." that sorta thing....  elaborate .. I'd say she is a lucky lass....
352269
well before you write love letters you might want to work on your spelling... but love letters or card without an special occasion are always great. So are little presents that show you care or pay attention, for example a DVD or CD she said she was interested in, or a book with little stories or poems you can read to each other. Flowers and candy always work too. but since you hardly know this Girl why don't you start by taking her out and see if you like her once you know her. Take her out or something, i think you are far away from Love with this one here.... get to know her and take it from there.
207407
No No No this ain't gon play.\n If you really care.  I mean if you really, really care, then acquaint yourself with some of the many many books on the subject and spend some time discovering tthe complexities of making love. Don;t just tke the easy way ou by asking somebody else who has not necessarily got the word on anything but their own possibly narrow experience.\nTake your time and learn the ways of love, Just like you need to with the one you are with. While making love to her,Slow loving attention and showing your appreciation for things that you find particularly attractive and unique about her asking her to let you know what you are doing that she especially likes or would like from you.--all these thing go a long way toward memorable,  mutually satisfying sexual relations.\n  Be attentive to her talk, her clothes, hair, perfume,  her style, her preferences, her needs OUTSIDE the bedroom and all the rest of the time. That's when she learns to regard you as a truly big man. and she develops a stronger longing to be close with you. Follow my advise, make those little efforts throughout the week,  and you wont be sorry when THAT TIME comes. Because love-making begins long before you lie together and if it doesn't, you won't be lying together long if at all.  Believe me .
653647
If you are having or*l s*x with her already just tease you tongue down and see how she reacts and if see don't say anything go for the gold I bet she will like it  :)
637263
dude you've only french kissed the girl twice and you already want to move further??? ummm.... you're probably going to scare the girl off.... don't move so fast! slow down, its REALLY NOT alllll about sex. talk to the girl, get to know her interests, what she like to do. girls like guys who will get to know them first and move things slowly. good luck, but slow down!