how can i  have absolute control  over my mind?
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Seriously it is meditation, and only meditation. \nMake a black circular spot on a big white sheet of paper and paste it on wall. In any relaxed position, just concentrate on the black spot. You find that you will see nothing else than black. Practise it, you will be successful to control your mind.
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First shut down your brain, then you can accept anything!
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Yes, Buddha says the mind is all and controls all.\n\nIf we control mind ... we control all.
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Sit in a comfortable quiet place.\nClose your eyes.\nClear your mind of all thoughts.\nThoughts will keep coming back into your mind.  When they do, simply stop thinking them and clear your mind again.\nKeep repeating the last step.
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The best program to use for this purpose is your own mind!\n\nAll it takes is a little discipline and commitment!\n\nHave fun but be safe!
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When I'm focused I'm in control of the controllable things because you really can't be fully in control of everything.
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Control comes from between our ears! Use your mind properly and soooo many phobias/addictions will go away. YOU are responsible for your own thoughts. Take control of them and direct them in a positive way.
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1. meditate\n2. go gym\n3. stop drugs n drink\n4. refuse evil thoughts\n\nbetter life guaranteed, !
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yeah controlling your breathing helps a  lot and mind power is the key. you CAN control when you go with your mind. weird i know but thats what my boyfriend does. hope this helps! :D
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Yogas and Zen Buddhists do it all the time...It's called mind over matter (in this case matter is the body).  It's the ability to control involuntary bodily functions (shivering, peristalsis, etc.) by concentration.  How? Many years of training and complete concentration.
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Just shake your head and walk away ...self control...i have to do it an a daily basis
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Sometimes we are our own worst enemies, we beat ourselves up about the smallest things. Make your mind work for you not against you. Its all in the mind, be positive about things and good things we follow. If you always look at things in a bad light your bound to be depressed. Pick yourself up and start to see the good things in life, even if it is small. If you want things in life you can have them, it just takes determination and will power, because nothing is impossible if you really want it. Believe in yourself and always listen to your truest thoughts. \nThe human mind is the most powerful tool on the planet, control it, don't let it control you.
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Mind control.  Try hypnosis, old nasty guys have been using it forever.
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Focus on your breathing.  Slow it down and take deep, rhythmic breaths in and out.  Just focus all your thoughts on the breathing and try to put all your other worries and thoughts out of your mind.\n\nYou can also try to mentally imagine each part of your body relaxing.  Relax your toes, then your calves, then your thighs, then your stomach...all the way up to your eyelids, ears, and forehead.  Just imagine each of those body parts relaxing, as you let go and let yourself get comfortable.\n\nAlso, I've found that if I am physically active and get exercise during the day, then I can sleep better at night.  You may also want to try drinking some herbal tea (Chamomile and Sleepytime work best at nighttime)
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There are several ways to control it. And if you don't control / stop it now you will loss your vigour, and you will loss your memory power, your nerve system will become weak, Finlay you will not be able to satisfy your wife. \nfirst the general ways. stop sleeping alone, stop seeing prone sights, pictures, if you are an alcoholism and masturbating it is still worst. \nthe things you see, and imagine are also main cause. i am sure you look at girls with lusty eyes. avoid. \nthen learn little mind control methods. contact me if you are near Chennai.\nThe only best way is to surrender to JESUS, ask HIM help you,\nwash your mind, soul, have a inner healing by the Precious Blood of JESUS.\nJESUS LOVES YOU.
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I am tempted to answer with "42" :) Your consciousness control the life (although not so obvious). That is why the self-control techninques like meditaion work so well.
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By realizing that you have complete control over it in both positive or negative ways.  You should read or listen to books by Anthony Robbins.