why wont my parents let me go on endrence?
480228
They probably have very good reasons. You should sit down with your parents and have a calm rational conversation about it. Maybe try and see things from their point of view. This is a definate question for your parents, because Yahoo Answers doesn't know your parents motives. So you should go ask them and try to see things their way, unless they are way wrong. You should have some good strong points to bring up with evidence backing it. Don't just scream and be hateful because that will get you no where. Listen to their views and opinions and then express your own. And make sure they understand where you are coming from. Also make sure that you see where they are coming from. Good luck and I hope this helps.
220313
to begin with honey, he doesn't love you. if you're not allowed to have a boyfriend yet, i'm sure your parents have a good reason. they are just trying to protect you from having to make decisions you're not quite ready to make. if you've seen me on here you know i'm gonna tell you to take this time to learn and to grow without complicating things. learn about yourself. learn about others. and as you're ready, learn about life. you've got a lifetime ahead of you. don't rush into things. :)
136237
If you can get the scholarships and money to do it, and you are of legal adult age, your parents have no recourse.  If you go against their will without changing their minds, though, don't be surprised if they are unwilling to help if things go wrong (though I would never be that way with my kids, some parents are).
285006
You both need to sit down and talk with them. Let them know what your boundaries for this are. They have to let you go at some point. And if you don't talk to them it'll make it harder. Tell them to look at it from your point of view. It's not like you'll never see them again right? You will still be close enough to visit and see still. If they can't accept that then they are not being fair to you. You will adjust to your surroundings if you truly want to be there. It's all a part of growing up. Moving on and getting used to new things.
822558
Honey, I have been there.  I had a 7 pm curfew on weekends when I was 17 years old.  Tell your parents to trust you and if you do anything wrong, then they can take all rights away again.  You can't do no wrong until you try something.  Tell them that you are a levelheaded  responsible 16 year old and that you would like to win their trust, but you won't be able to if they keep you hidden and secluded.  Tell them you will grow up and move away.  Tell them that you will live a sheltered life and it is not good for your health.  Tell them your true feelings and make them listen.  I feel so bad for you because I was there.  Then I turned 17 and moved away from home, had my own apartment while I was a senior.  I had a full time job, gymnastics practice and school.  I did just fine and it taught me how to be mature.  I am not telling you to take off, but I am telling you to talk to  your parents because they may not understand your TRUE feelings and how you want to hurt yourself.  Just think, you will be 18 in a little bit and you will be able to begin your life the way you want and be your own boss.  Don't hurt yourself, because in all honest, it is not worth it.  Talk to the parent you are closer too!  I feel for you, I have been there.  Then I moved to FL.  I moved away so my family would realize what I meant to them and that they didn't have a hold on me.  It doesn't work for anyone, so don't runaway or anything.  I did this all as an adult okay? Let us know how it goes because I am genuinely worried about you!  Good luck!
1170731
Well, it would help to know your age (to see if it is an ongoing longterm problem or new behavior on their parts), and whether your goals are realistic, which I can't know without knowing you.  However, a general answer to your question is:  first of all, you shouldn't have to GET your parents to care...they should ALREADY care.  The problem is...maybe they do, and it's just in a form that you don't like.  You can do two things to improve this situation.  First, work like crazy to prepare for the future.  That means doing as well as you possibly can in school, and showing your maturity by living up to whatever responsibilities you have at home and/or work.  Second, speak calmly and candidly with your parents and tell them exactly what you've told me.  It sounds like you have a real passion for these areas, and that can be a wonderful gift.  Remind them that the great person you are came from them, and that you need their help and support to become the adult you were meant to be.  Don't be nervous, remember to breathe and hold your head up.  You have potential, and it's your job to sell that idea to your parents.    One more thing...they may be afraid of the time you might step out on your own.  That's natural, but it is their job as parents to prepare you to leave the nest, it's not their job to guilt you into staying close for their comfort if that is not the right thing for you.  Reassure them, and trust that with your conduct you can convince them when you are ready to fly.  Give it your best...and you will do fine.  All good wishes to you.
737266
The day you turn 18, you can move out. Before that age, you would be considered a runaway. After that age, you are an adult and can make decisions for your own life. Your parents can no longer tell you what to do, but they also don't have to help you out with anything.\n\nWhen you hit 18, your parents responsibility for you ends. You can pack your bags and hit the road, never looking back, if that's what you want. On the reverse side, when you turn 18, your parents can pack your bags, put you out the door, change the locks, and never look back.\n\nWhat I would suggest is trying to talk to your parents and explain the need to establish yourself as an independent person. Be reasonable, be calm, and be respectful. In the end, it is your decision, but you don't want to do irreparable damage to your relationship with your parents.
926901
You are old enough to make the decision on where you want to live and whom you want a every other weekend visit.  talk to your parents and explain to them that this is too much for you.  You have enough pressure just surviving your teenage years.  Good luck
996346
Going by what you said about not being old enough, I'm guessing your parents may have put restrictions on your internet so you cannot access certain sites, If not, you may have a virus on your computer that is preventing you from seeing those sites.
894402
If you really want to go, and you're going for the right reasons (the top education, not to get away from parents), then make plans to fund your education on your own.  Find out about loans, grants and scholarships.  If you don't get help from your parents, you may have a good chance at grants and scholarships.  \n\nThis is about you becoming a full person.  Pursuing life, independently and for good reasons, is a good way to grow as a person. It's also a good reason in itself to try.
513322
well how old are u, if your over sixteen i would try to talk with your parents about letting you date.  i just want to say there really isnt a rush it will all be there when your out on your own.  enjoy being young honey because before to long you will now that the real world can be a rough place.
211033
Tried, but they would not take me
498766
well you need to understand your parents first.they are scared of you getting hurt outside of your parents sight.make them know and think you are an adult.come home early from parties.make your outings short from friends.work hard at school if your schooling.plus get a job while you in college.save money to get a car for your self.and stick with your parents for another 5years by keep on saving money so that way you can buy a nice small house of your own..that way your parents wont worry about you so much.cuz they seen how you respect your self and securing your self on money wise...transportation and fianancial needs is the key to survive..so no matter how far are you from your parents..they know that you can manage your survival needs...show them that your a mature woman not a teenager girlie girl anymore...good luck independent beauty queen
904676
I think that you should respect your parents call on this one hun...sorry.  You are only 13, and your parents love you and are protecting you from experiances that you are not yet ready to handle.
417090
They need help, you're probably not the one who can give it to them. Is there a councilling service in their area? Do your parents know? Tell your parents if you can. I don't know how old you are.
417865
well hon you are 24 it is time you make your own decisions. you have to start somewhere or your parents will never give you up.if you are sure this is what you want to do then stay where you are at. they will still love you just as much. good luck and GOD BLESS YOU.
302233
Why don't you try and communicate with your mom, tell her why you don't want to go, and let her tell you why she chose dancung for you.\nIf you a good reason for not going I am sure she will understand, if not then you have no choice other than going.