Is it possible to change one's homosexual tendencies?  If so, how???
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Why are we always trying to label ourselves as one thing or another. Other than for marketing purposes, there is no reason to believe that the word homosexual means anything other than an action. It should not be a description of a person. We are far too complex to fall in these types of categories. People have tendencies for many things. Accept who you are and fill your life with satisfaction. Society has created categories for people. My opinion is that there is no one category for me.....gay, religion, or anything like that. \n\nJust a thought, \nI'm Joe
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Yes I know someone who know longer chooses the homosexual lifestyle and they follow Christ.  Two actually.  A woman and a man.  The fell in love, got married, and have 2 kids.  They did not turn heterosexual, though.  Think of homosexuality like alcoholism.  That might make some mad, but that is the best analogy I can give.  If you are a follower of the Bible, certain things are wrong.  Just because you have a desire doesn't mean you should act upon it.  Homosexuals are just hurting people, many have poor if any relationship with their fathers and some were sexually abused as children.
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Jr, the answer is in JESUS CHRIST.  You voice your desire to change, this is your own choice by your admission correct?  That is the first step, wanting to change yourself.  If others are pushing you into changing, then stop and examine yourself and be sure that YOU want to change as well.  Often times people are pushed into things and as an end result, get frustrated and go back to the life style they are trying to leave.  I see this a lot in wicca.  \n\nNow if it is you who is sincerely wanting to change, I would suggest first off two things:  find a new set of friends to hang out with.  Find yourself strong morally upstanding friends that are legitimate friends, people you can talk to and trust when you face temptation.  Because temptation will not leave you Jr.  That is the very nature of the enemy to tempt us with things that have been enticing to us from before.  Plus, if you associate with people who are homosexual, they will most probably try to sway you back into the lifestlye.\n\nMost importantly and first thing first, if you are sincerely wanting to leave homosexuality behind and want to make JESUS CHRIST complete LORD of your life, pour your heart out to HIM.  Take it all to the foot of the cross and leave it there.  When I say pour your heart out to HIM, I mean be expecting to get up with tears rolling down your face and probably some other stuff dripping too...I have done this many times when there has been something in my life that is a HUGE battle.  It takes letting it all come forth, being honest about what you are feeling, and giving it to JESUS CHRIST to take care of it.  DON'T pick any of it back up after you have laid it at the foot of the cross, what ever you do!!  We have to take our hands completely off in order for GOD to be able to work...We have to sincerely give it over to HIM.  As long as we have our hands in it, we are telling GOD that we dont' think HE can take care of the problem.  Leave it there and trust HIM!\n\nlast, I suggest you really read and study your BIBLE, and that you pray at every chance you get.  These three things will help you maintain determination.  GOD promised us that HE would make a way for us to flee temptation!\n\nIf you need someone to talk to, just look on my profile page and email me.  I will do what I can to encourage you.\n\nGOD BLESS YOU!
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Why does it matter to you?  Does being homosexual change a person's acting ability?
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Whoops, I meant:\n\nhttp://www.cathedralofhope.com/homosexuality/index.php\n\nEDIT: Interesting, Servant of God... you first put "God" instead of "Gay" as being a lust...\n\nFreudian Slip, perhaps?
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You can't turn gay or straight. You are who you are. No "group" is going to change who you are attracted to. What is normal? Everyone has different opinions on what "normal" is. A believer in "god" may tell you it is wrong to be homosexual, while a non-believer or maybe even an open-minded believer will tell you it isn't wrong.\n\nYou need to decide for yourself how you really feel. It is possible to fall in love with a person regardless of their gender. It is possible to not have a sexual orientation. I don't feel that I do. I believe I fall in love with whom I fall in love.\n\nIf your country is willing to punish you for who you are, there is always a possibility of leaving.
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U can't change. Why would u want to change any way??
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ACT HUMAN---\n\nQiut KISSING THE GAY COMMUNITY'S A$$ES!
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It is a good question but I don't think there are any hard and proved answers.  There is a grid called the "Klein Sexual Orientation Grid"  Alfred Kinsey along with a few others don't think that sexual orientations are eternally fixed.\n\nI am in somewhat a similar situation.  I was mad about girls just girl crazy as a teen etc.  I have also been interested in certain aspects of males too.  My interest is more than it was before in males.  Thinking more about males has not been my choice it just happens. I don't think that sexual orientation is in anyway a choice.  I think it has something to do with perhaps chemical changes in the brain.\n\nGo with the flow and accept yourself for who you are now.  Can you regain your attraction to women if you nurture it? I really really doubt it (it is not a choice). I wonder the same thing for myself too. \n\nIt may have something to do with androgen's or the Hypothalamus in the brain.\n\nI have included a helpful Wikpedia link about Biology and sexual orientation.  Have a look under Studies of brain structure.
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try being bi a while. maybe meeting that special someone will change something. i don't know. if it's a matter of obsession with the same sex, there should be counseling for that. or addiction to sex. \ndon't go out with women already thinking about bedding them. try to build something first. friendship, casual dating, give it time to change into something more. maybe someone will give them that spark of interest. don't rush it. don't try cold turkey.
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yah, you cant change a person.  Just find a nice polite way to tell her what she is doing and see if she realizes it or not.  She wont change if she doesnt think it is a bad thing. But.. if she sees the issue as a problem she will be willing to work on it. Good luck
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It is totally possible to hold Christian beliefs and be gay. It's just not possible to believe that God accept's your lifestyle. The Bible makes it clear that same sexes coming together is an abomination. either give up the penis or Prepare to swim in the lake of fire dude.
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Yes change is possible. Change is also a possiblity when we decide to change for ourselves first, not when somebody else insists that we do it for their sake.
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change your genetics....ie, you can't. Its like asking how to fight shortness. \nBut, you CAN replace hair...doing the plug thing. But otherwise...diet, exercise, etc...nope.
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No, because if you come on to him , and you are aware that he is not gay , the only thing you will achive is that he ends up accepting even less gay people , in fact you can make him become a homofobic,\nbest thing you can do is let go of the crush , before you become a real friend to him , this my friend will make him accept more gay people , and by doing this you are helping to create a better image of gay people , last thing we need is another straigt guy jusyfying his hate towards gay people , because some one told him he liked him once\nIF he rathers keeps his distance and you cant let go of the crush dont push the issue any further , is easiest for young gay guys to have straight friends that they are not atracted to
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Sexuality is so interchangable now that it begs the question does bisexuality even exist any more? I think it's more a case of he's a guy very comfortable in himself and will try anything sexual he fancies :)
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Haha, no, but there is a Kinsey scale of sexuality that each person can be placed on to show his or her apparent attraction to the opposite or same sex.