Need advice on a girl I'm dating, really confused?
490914
She may have just lost interest or she maybe bizzy like she said but if you care about some one you don't just stop talking to them maybe she was just playing you!
206563
Hello guy, sounds like the girl you are talking about is very much interested. I know that the little things she does is a bit confusing to you, but just look at them as they are bigger than life. she is telling you to ask her out. Ask her to a movie. I bet she will accept. Do this in private, so the situation will be easier for her. sounds like she is a little shy. It will take you to take the first step, to break the ice. That is my advice.
369250
"I'm not sure how to say this to you...but I get the feeling that you're interested in a relationship with me and I'm not ready for that right now.  I just thought I should say something before I give the wrong impression."  Or something like that.  \n\nHere's the truth:  you're already in a relationship with her.  The issue is defining it. What kind of relationship do you want:  friends? lovers?  occasional coffee / movie buddies?  nothing to do with her at all?  Figure out what you want and see if she's willing to be that with you.  If so, have fun. If not, move on.  I wish you Peace.
1048341
Give her a call. She's prbably wondering what happened to you. I can tell you from a girl's perspective that when a guy is given a girl's phone number and he doesn't call either not at all or for awhile, the girl is going to think something is wrong. So you give her a call, see if she is still interested in seeing you, if the answer is yes, then ask her out and be honest with her. If and when she asks you why it took so long for you to call her, you tell her you had some business to take care of and things are just now slowing down. That way you're neither lying nor is it giving her too much information than what you want her to know. As far as her reaction, she may be upset a little that it's been 3 weeks since you've had her number, but on the other hand she'll be glad that you finally called if she wants to pursue something with you. Hope this helps you.
408215
guessing you are chatting on-line, while you are chatting try to find out her situation is she single, does she want a fella or a friend etc, see if she would like to meet up some time, make sure you find out if its a date or two mates meeting up so you know where you stand before you go. \n\nbe yourself, honest and polite (that's the best anyone can do ) and see what happens good luck :)
410765
she is confusing the best thing i can say is she sounds like shes scared of commitment she seems like she doesnt want to get to close to u incase u hurt her mayb shes been hurt in the past. she likes u alot trust me but she doesnt want u to think she is to overkeen on u but then again she doesnt want u to leave her or to dislike her thats why she shows u a bit of affection. and thats why she has got a split personality. shes is embarrased when u tell her u love her i dont think she means to hurt u. i bet if u asked her why is she like that she would say i dont know i dont mean to. some girls are just like that mayb if u treat her the way she treats u then mayb she will change or walk away but somethings gotta b done about it cause it doesnt seem right hope i helped good look
691509
I can't tell you what SHE wants, but I can give YOU some advice:\n\nGo out.  Find other girls.  Have fun.\n\nShe may or may not have feelings for you.  But if you're hanging on her beck and call, she's more than likely to begin playing you.\n\nSo go out with friends.  Flirt.  Have fun.  If she wants any sort of relationship, it will happen of its own accord.  And if not, well, you won't mind as much.
291219
i used to ask myself the same question about some chick....but yeah as much as you would like to think you're dating you're not dating unless you call it a date....but it seems you're close enough to the girl...so start making some moves man, i'm sure she wont mind...you know little things and stuff, try to make it offical and just talk to her about...i know my other friend was worried he might ruin it friendship by asking his best friend out...but i believe you got nothing to lose and all to gain
315140
Ok, from how you explain it...it sounds like she likes you, so just talk like you always do and maybe one day when you are gone, ask her the same question when you get back...you know, maybe she wants to ease into a relationship
248765
You have already told her how you feel, if she felt the same way you two would be together by now....And it's obvious she's young, so she's still trying to find her options...She's still exploring...You should move on if she wants to be with a jerk
853866
Both of you are too young... and what might be happening is that she must has some feelings for you... and is confused... because her new boyfriend... doesn't know her like you do!
182998
Talk about the girl you're dating. You may not just ask questions directly, though. You have to turn every topic around so she becomes the topic. Girls love to talk about themselves.
955604
Sounds like she liked another guy also and her friend betrayed her.  When you are dating and just starting dating, you have to talk to each other about what you feel about dating.  \n\nIf you only want to date only one person at a time, you have to let her know that.  There are many people who are dating and just dating with nothing serious in it, especially when you are just getting to know each other.  You should let her talk.  \n\nCommunication is the number one thing in any relationship.  At least she is being honest that she likes someone else.  If you don't want to talk to her because she likes someone else, tell her that.  Don't ignore her.  Tell her how you honestly feel.  I am like you.  I don't go for someone who likes someone else, but you have to tell her.  You might be good friends even if you don't make good boyfriend - girlfriend relationship.
361510
Well, it sounds like she likes you.  Maybe she is confused.  It could be she's dating someone else right now and feels guilty about liking you.  It could be she doesn't trust guys too much right now and is afraid to start dating.  Maybe she'd be more comfortable in ag roup activity.  Like if a bunch of you from class are getting together and studying.
971318
Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
844045
You could ask her to a group activity --a movie with friends, a party, etc. instead of a one on one date, just to get a feel for what she's thinking and for her to get more comfortable. Make sure to be attentive to her and ask questions when you want to, give her a chance to open up and joke around with you. It sounds like she likes you, she might just be having a hard time finding a way to express it!
768660
Maybe she is confused and doesn't know what she wants either! Emotions are crazy.  Try to be patient and be a good guy. If she doesn't respond in a week ask her again gently at the right time!