I want to break up with my girl but I'm afraid of her, is it ok to do it over the internet?
493466
write her a dear Jane letter, tell her she's a pompous a$$ and you're moving on.
305627
Yes go to    http://www.internetdatingtales.com/breakups
631011
For anyone, not having to physically face hurting someone is always easier. Even though best common courtesy would be to break up with someone in person, many people seek other methods like a letter, voicemail or email.
268261
I think you should wait until she's definitely over that jackass. If you don't, she'll probably still be 'fragile' and might not want to move into a relationship soon. I say carpe diem! Seize the day. Don't be afraid. I know it's hard not to, but if you keep on being this way, where will it ever go? \n-scissOrs
1069752
NO\nits gonna be sad for a breakup cuz she might end up loving u and its gonna be painful\ni say no
429818
Just tell your girlfriend but reassure her that you don't want to be with this girl and you're trying to handle the situation.\n\nIt's better to come clean than have your gilrfriend somehow find out and think the worst of you.
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Be funny if it was your partner!!\n\nFace it, there's a big difference between online and face-to-face so be prepared to have your illusions shattered (sorry, I don't mean to sound so negative!).\nYou say you haven't felt like this for years, so what are you doing with your girlfriend then?\nI don't know how old you are, but by the sound of it you've already made your mind up.  If you are going to leave there may be no way to do it without hurting your partner.  I guess you've got to have a talk to her and say that you don't feel the same way anymore.  I suppose you should be honest and say that you've just stuck around in the relationship even though you haven't felt anything much (why, I don't know) then when something special has happened between you and an online friend you've suddenly fallen in love.\n\nI've got to say it sounds like you just haven't been that honest with yourself or your girlfriend.
632260
YOu need to break up with your girldfriend dby explaining it to her there may be some screaming and slapping and she will be hella pissed but if she truly wants you and her to be happy then she will understand after a while
434817
dude, seriously, I had the same situation a couple years back. I'd get out of it ASAP. Sorry if you love her but if she's not willing to make a decision, that shows some serious commitment  issues that are going to stay with you too. If you can, just be her friend and move on. She's probably going to be really shocked if you do this, but STAY OUT OF dating relationships with girls like this. It only ends up biting you later!
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Trust isn't the issue.  You either trust her or you don't.  Doesn't matter if she out all night or not.  I don't think you do which means that the relationship is doomed.  \n\nBut if you do trust her then you have to ask yourself if you can live like that.  If you can then do it.  If you can't then get out. \n\nIt's all about what you can accept.
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nooooooo! dont. well go if you u want to get raped. u shouldn trust anyone u meet on the internet enough to meet them. report it to the cops. they can deal with it. i mean u might get ur internet taken away but u cant trust this person. keep in mind imagine how easy it is to lye in person. just imagine how simple it is on the net.
285378
Explain to her why you want to break up, of course she may be hurt but she will get over in time. Life is full of disappointments.
985016
The ONLY right thing for you to do is to report it to the police.  She's in a vile situation with a monster, and if she's too afraid of reporting it, then be the best boyfriend that you can be and report it for her.  You can do it anonymously if you want to.
689571
Imagine how you would feel if some guy was going after your girlfriend.  Then find someone new.\n\nOr be a weirdo and wait around until they break up.
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I hope no one hates me for completely disagreeing... Ask her first. If you really love her, you'd let her decide instead of putting her in an awkward posistion and making her regret her actions l8tr.
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if you're afraid, then what does it matter if she has a boyfriend or not.  As soon as she breaks up with the boyfriend, you'll still be afraid, and you will continue to be afraid until she gets another boyfriend.\n\nSolution:  Deal with your fear of rejection before you  go any further in life.  This is what limits boys, and later men.  It sucks.  I can tell you first hand.
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Theres no simple way of telling her how ur feeling its going to hurt both of yous but its best if u just tell her the truth, straight out.. If youre at the point where u wana break up with her or spend time apart i think maybe its time to move on.. If it is really meant to be with you and ur girlfriend love will find its way in the end.. Good luck n be strong!