I Like This Girl but shes always busy wit work and school is she blowing me off or do i have a chance?
480694
well, try to chill with her a couple more times and tell her you have something really special planned (do something nice for her) and try to make it at a time when she doesn't have to work, maybe in the morning or something. then you can see if she'll still blow you off. let her know that you feel like that and see what she says. good luck with this.
244584
Depends..maybe she really isn't interested.  Ask her out, if she says no then ask why. If you get rebuffed then leave her alone. No, means no.
441080
Dude, if she is such a great girl then this is really quite easy.  You sure as heck don't walk away.  School is going to take up a lot of your time and it is taking up a lot of her time also.  So in reality you two aren't really missing out on a lot of time together.  The key is to plan the times you can be together and make the most of them.  If you can see each other 4 times a year for 2 or more weeks each time then that is over two full months together a year dedicated to spending time together.  A lot of couples who live together barely spend that much time together.  Hold on to what you got and hopefully by the time you each graduate she will be ready for marriage and you two can then be together.
950857
She doesnt want to be on bad terms with you but also considers you to be the back up friend. It sucks. If you really wanted to stir the pot a bit you could make friends with her friend. Ha ha. Yes thats very 'high school' of me, but tempting isnt it?
428916
u can never know for sure unless you ask her- but mostly if shes spends time with you, talks to you a lot, confides in you, phones u up for everything she needs, then i guess ur chances are pretty high
949029
I have been in this situation once before let me tell you it will blow up in your face.  Take the one that you work with and Go with her she sounds like she has more to offer. the other girl you just mentioned she was a little less reserved meaning you just like the sex i am guessing. you have way more invested in the one at work because of your work contact.  I hope the best for you .    by the way the two girls i was with found out and set me up  big time act now while you still have the upper hand.
236467
Ask her. She knows. \n\nShe may be hesitant to break the norm. She may have other friends. She may have a tight work schedule.\n\nIf you don't get a clear, coherent answer, find someone else.
1135539
Yes, she's blowing you off.  Try to make her jealous by making a new friend, and maybe she will want to spend more time with you. She doesn't sound like a very good friend.
1134298
girl u are lucky to have some one like him probably he is busy cause of his work i will say just trust him and see how things go
466984
Sounds like she is interested in you but wanted to see how much your future plans mesh with hers.  Why don't you just ask her out, if you are interested.  Sounds like that is what she is hoping for.
533019
Maybe she really is interested. Hang in there and see where it goes. You might be surprised. Have a little faith in yourself.
394199
She might be, but you never no. If you really like her then take a chance. If it doesn't work then oh well just keep moving on...
928170
Ask her if she would like to do something outside of the workplace with you.  You're obviously very impressed by her and if you told her (generally) what you said here, I'm sure she would be very flattered.  It sounds like she likes you, too, but that the work environment is not the time or place to find out.  If you both work at the same time, ask her if you could take her to get something to eat after work (or whatever), tell her how much you admire her work, her excellent grades and how friendly she is.  That opens the door for you both to get closer and to see if there's a relationship beyond work - I'm betting there is! :)
817413
Don't make it complicated and obsess about it. She hasn't mentioned the boyfriend (if he still exists) because she's interested in you. Ask her if she's available. Her yes or no ought to answer the question. If she says she's "sort of" seeing someone, you can figure out if you want to "sort of" see her along with another guy or not.  Have fun, take a chance. Life's too short.
842019
dude i would hold off a little longer. there is some truth to what she is saying. the festive season can be pretty full on. with family stuff and buying presents. if you come on to striong and like you said pester her, she will not go out with you. she is definitely keen to go out with you though, otherwise she woulnt have given you her number. keep talking to her at work, say hello etc. but wait a little longer before you ask her out.
329041
yeah! she does wanna go out w/ u.take this opportunity to get to know her better and her to know u more...she just said that she wants to hang out w/ u and didnt use the term date coz maybe she's just shy to tell you...go! make her fall for u! goodluck!
1066298
Yo man don't get so worked up. if she says shes busy she is. if you really feel un sure just talk to her or maybe call her. Do not make such a big deal. She is als probaley just nervous.. stay  calm and just relax love is a game but don't go bein a player when she could still dig you.