I am in love with a girl who only sees me as a friend?
485885
How about for now just let her have her space,you cannot force a girl to love you,but you could be kind to her,be there for her when she needs you and then she will slowly start to relize how she feels,also,don't just stick with her,there may be someone else for you,you never know,for now just keep in touch with her and tell her she will be in your mind while you are in London,hopefully she will feel the same way for you in the future,good luck.^^
523810
in that case, i would think that u should move on since u had known her 4 to 6 years yet she only treats u as a friend.. i have a friend who has a crush on a girl for 8 years.. but in the end the girl didn't accept him and instead flew to russia to do medicine.. it is a bit hurt but u have to move on.. there is no point hurting yourself in the end..
885801
Sorry, but you cannot make anyone love you.  If she wants your friend, you are not going to be able to convince her that she wants you instead.  Besides, if you introduced the two of them, presumably you wanted them to like each other.  It would be really sh-tty of you now to try to undo that.\n\nAll you can do at this point is to stand by and let things run their course.  People tend to forget that all relationships end at some point.  (Well, if you are lucky, you find one that doesn't, but all the others do.)  So, stand back, be supportive of your friend and the girl, and wait to see what happens.  Almost certainly, they will fizzle out somewhere along the line.  If you stay friendly, but on the outside, she may eventually look at you again, and discover that there is a really cute, nice guy that she overlooked.\n\nGood luck!!
1183728
Youve never seen each other? Hmmm well it would seem you are long overdue to meet the girl you love. You should prolly come up with a way to meet for the weekend and go from there, u know? And of course I agree with Beauty tell her your having these feelings and its time for you guys to move to the next step OR move on with your lives. Good Luck and I hope you get all you want in life sweety either way. God Bless
1099911
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
700674
Ya, if her feelings for you are ever going to change from friendship to relationship, it's probably not gonna happen when she knows that your waiting for her. I've had friends in the past that have professed their love for me after we had been friends for awhile, pretty much, once your in the friend place it's really hard to come out of. I'm not saying it's impossible but her knowing how you feel probably isn't helping, she knows you'll be there untill she's ready. My advice...move on, still be her friend but date someone else. If there ever is a chance of her feelings toward you changing, it'll happen when she thinks she's lost you. Everyone loves a challenge ;) Good Luck!
133208
be a respectful man, and leave her alone if you will fall in love with her, if it is just friendship then take care of your and her feelings
1095466
If she only calls you every now and then, you might try to understand what a BOY TOY is. Unfortunately there are people in the world that can not be honest. If you have spent a lot of time with this person and they won't be honest about their feelings. Your waiting for a crash course in having your feelings hurt......\nShe may not feel the same way. You can only respect her for that. If she isn't WOMAN enough to communicate her feelings to you, you might want to consider reevaluating why you are spending time with this person.\nYour emotions are to valuable to have someone take advantage of them.\nDon't you want to be friends with someone you can trust to be honest with you and not waste your TIME?
1016416
if she acknowledges your friend before you, let her go. if she loved u, u would be the first thing she sees. she would make it her duty to acknowledge you from afar.
136359
Sorry to hear your feelings are being reciprocated...but unfortuantely you cant make someone like you.  just keep being her friend andmaybe you will grow on her.  Thats how my man got me!  We became best friends and now were engaged!
919327
wow that is a really tough one to answer, i think shes interested in you, but if you really want her then i personally would lay low for awhile just to make sure, now that you've made your point of hanging out with her and stuff, I really think you should back off to see her true feelings\n\nHope everything works out!!
498045
Ask her out, and if she feels the same, she'll go. If not, she should tell you so, and then accept her as a friend and move on.
749780
believe her and find someone who will appreciate you...she is playing too many games....friendship only" is the kiss of death..
593191
No you are not chasing an impossible dream. Anything is possible. Hang in there. Nobody knows the future. Just because she considers you as a friend doesn't mean anything. Remember friendship is where a relationship starts. Love takes time and it may be that it is taking her longer to except her feelings. Just because she doesn't say she doesn't love you don't mean it wont happen. Good luck to you hun. I know you will find happiness.
685284
If she only thouhgt of you as a friend then how could she break up with you??? That doesn't make any sense my friend.\n\nEither you put more into her than you should have, or she led you on. She may be confused in that you're suppose to BE best friends before you fall in love.\n\nYou need to talk to this peson and find out what's what, accept what she says as true and valid and base your very next move on her response. Either move on and forget about her period, or perhaps cultivate a relationship with her.\n\nI hope it works out for you one way or the other....that you be happy!
592083
maybe you are just confuse with your fellings.  try to talk to her and see what you girls have in common and you know try talking to her about your feeling and you know if there is trust than there is love ok if you haveany more question tht i ca help you with send me an email to azucena_vll@yahoo.com bye hope i help you
767183
Hi/There.\nWell! My Friend !\nYou are simply in Love With this Girl !\nYou should find some time , as difficult as this may Be to talk to her !\n( Where there is a will. There is a WAY !)\nIf You tell her Your Feelings ! I am sure She will be very Flattered !\nIf Not ! ( what have You lost !)\nMaybe a little self Respect ? NO BIG DEAL !\nAll ways a NEXT TIME !\nGood Luck Bro !\nRegards Nick.