Does having sex really works when your relationship is in trouble...!!?
480943
No dude. First try to to establish an intimate moment however you know your girl melts, then go for it.
545151
Sex is very good against stress. Truly!
91354
No. That's only considering yourself and some (probably temporary) emotions.\n\nAsk anyone who has had a successful relationship (>15 years) and they will tell you there were times when they were not satisfied with each other. When they worked through it and waited it out, they found it was just like a passing storm.\n\nIf you break or injure this relationship it will not get any easier for you. Even with the 'perfect' partner it will be almost unmanageably diffucult at times.\n\nBy bailing out each time it gets difficult you are dooming yourself to a life of constantly moving around and never being satisfied.\n\nThey will also tell you that any relationship requires both to actively work on building the relationship and that in the end it's worth it.
628890
Currently, no...\nMy hubby is deployed, so, sex has been put on the "back burner." But when he comes home...hehehe...that's going to be a whole other story.
345985
trie talking to him sometimes stress in your life can make you not really get into having sex.are if you are doing do the same things in bed it can get old to you trie something relaxing before laying down with him something new.
211319
i totally agree with you. people think that you have to have sex if you are in a relationship, but it's not true. i was with a guy for almost three years and we never had sex. im proud of myself for that because i proved to myself and other people that you can be in a relationship and stay together without having sex. Good Luck!
1148200
OH YES... releases tension, frustration..helps you to relax........ plus it makes you feel good.\nonly if you have the right partner..
579932
Considering what you went through, I think your response is probably to be expected. Most people, however, find that sex in a loving relationship is one of the most fulfilling experiences. Have you ever had counselling? Have you ever tried masturbation? If you can find some sort of pleasure in stimulation, whether doing it yourself or with your husband involved, that would be a first step to healing. My heart breaks for you, I know it is very difficult to get past what happened, but it's something you can overcome. It just takes a lot of time, moving slowly (only with whatever you are comfortable with), and always in a situation where you feel safe and in control. My prayers are with you.
951321
They can but when you put yourself in the situation IE: making out and spending time alone with one another it makes it harder than it has to be. Try not putting yourself in a situation where you are alone together, sex can destroy a relationship quick. Good luck!\n-NmD!
498320
sex.  if your sex life falls apart you have serious problems in your relationship..  your communication is not working...among various other things... think about it.
852390
Get couples counseling. Perhaps if he heard it from someone else, he'd realize that his neanderthal view of sex is outdated and unfair, and you are miserable because of it.\n\nIf he won't get counseling and you said talking to him doesn't work, then you decide to stay and keep fulfilling your "obligation" or stand up for your rights and feelings, and don't have sex if you don't want it. Maybe if he had to go without for a while, he'd change his attitude a bit...\n\n...or maybe he'd stray or become violent...\n\n...or you can decide you've had enough, that it's not worth the conflict of standing up for yourself in the bedroom, and you can move on...\n\nYou are choosing to keep yourself in an unhappy situation...do what you can to fix it or get out...if you cannot fix it, then choose to resign yourself to your fate, or get out...\n\nThis life is too short (imo) to be unhappy in our jobs or personal lives...we choose to be happy or unhappy...we make our lives what we want them to be...\n\nWhat do you want yours to be? Make it so.
659453
yes it does make sense, studies have shown that males who work really hard, will and can forget about sex. stress effect them.
1059248
I just start praying and telling myself truths like the devil is a lier and he is decieving me. Think of all the bad things that can come from it. That is how I get through it. My fiance and I are trying to stop having sex untill marriage because we just recently go back into church. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, but don't give up never give up, that is the worst thing you can do. Even if you slip up just keep going and try again.
476059
I think if you have a long relationship, most of the times it never works out. But if you both really love each other it can work out. (i hope it does in ur case). JUST HAVE TRUST IN EACH OTHER, and it will workout
259079
You both may have love for each other, but if he still has major issues,the relationship won't last.  You'll have the same problems you had last time.  If all he is telling you is that "no one freaks him better", then he doesn't want to work on the relationship, he just wants the booty. That's cool if you are interested in just casual sex,  but don't think that he wants you back.
341452
No not at all, I went through this same thing a couple of years ago a male frined and I both came outta long, serious relationships about the same time and were feeling quite down and bruised by the whole thing and ended up being together alot of the time talking about it and of course one thing led to another and we eventually slept together and it just became a habit (I know that sounds awful!!) but neither of us could face another relationship at that time and we aren't into one night stands so we'd just hook up have the best laugh and then enjoy great sex before saying goodbye in the morning with no pressure it was ideal, it went on for about two yeras until we both just met people we wanted to be with and then it fizzled out but we're still the best of friends now (purely platonic!!) so it worked out fine.  The only thing I'd watch out for is that you both understand the situation if one person has feelings that the other dosen't have then it will cause problems and you shouldn't do it but if you both know it's just sex cos you have needs then go for it.  Good Luck!!
1172302
I don't know lol. well sex can be great in a bad relationship. but bad sex in a good relationship can be better. so i guess bad sex in a good relationship.