Why am I so obsessed over guys??
487174
i have the same problem\npersonally, i think it's just desire for more understanding of guys and relationships\nand i agree with the relationship with their father
356860
Because you aren't attracted to 'sensitive' guys - you look at them as 'nice guys' or 'friends' but not relationship material.\n\nYou are probably attracted to the dangerous, bad boy types who couldn't care less about women's feelings and this is why you keep getting hurt.\n\nWhat you need to find is a 'strong, sensitive' type man however I get the impression that these are hard to find. But I am one, of course.. :)
839605
lol intresting question. but i look at tha guys cause they are very attractive to me. you know in the passing cars. knowing i might never get there number i dont care. i just wanna feel hot u know.
983734
same reason boys are obsessed with girls raging hormones. My friend sister is a freshman and she likes to stalk boys by hiding in bushes (kinda scary if you ask me)
952105
I've been going through a gay phase with men since I was 12... years later I'm still going through that phase. I fall in love with guys and I can't help it.
506076
My best guess (and it is just that, a guess) is you have alot of active hormones, and you are aware of it. Your awareness makes you concerned that you may make the wrong choice of who is good to get involved with, and who is not.\nRarely do relationships begin with a first glance, but lust is extremely impulsive. How many people think some movie star is a great person, then they actually read about their personal life, sometimes years later, and think, what did I see in him? \nI personally think your dream is telling you get to know someone well, but how? Maybe you want to know where to go to find a good person to date. Then again, maybe you want to keep yourself safe. If you are afraid of meeting the wrong guy at the Bates motel, and more at your local library! There are books on self defense and the best places and situations to avoid. To me it is important to know what type of person you want to get to know. Make a list, and leave off any physical attributes. Honestly, this will help to know Mr. or Mrs. Right.I mean, who goes out to buy a pair of shoes, and just any pair will do? When you socialize, you will know if someone might fit the place beside you! Look at the list every year.Things which I felt were not important now are, and some of the things I once had on my list didn't fit anyone on Earth. \nI think with a little preparation, you will not need to feel your friends must protect you. You'll have a special someone of your own.
845666
u are looking at the wrong guys. you are attracted to the guys that have tendencies to act this way. change what you are looking for, and your results will change!
346572
hell yeah bisexual guy are soo sexy maybe u can get lucky and have a 3sum.. (lol)
339572
Ask yourself why you are attracted to them? What do they have that you admire? Maybe you just need to feel that way about something that you do very well, and have others admire you the way you do them. Find something that you love. It can be anything that's good for your heart, mind, body and spirit. As a young woman you are "raging" on the inside to get out and find something that defines yourself as being that charismatic! You have what it takes to begin to find something unique about yourself that others might look up to you for. Pride is not always a bad thing, as long as you have compassion.\n\nI  have learned that I don't obsess about my body but to look and feel great takes special care to myself. If I feel good that makes me nicer and happier about other people: they can really suck too! The more you obsess too much about others, it means YOU are the one you should be really focused upon, not anyone else. \nTake a closer look at what perfect really is, the definition is insanity. Normal, there's another word that reminds me, "Is normal such a good thing? Why not be different." I love going out to try anything new, that's the reason I don't need a PICTURE OF PERFECTION. My definition is much different than yours.\nYours truly,\nHOLLIE
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it's true that men are obsessed with looks. but it's only an obsession. a good man knows that looks aren't everything...it's just hard not to notice it! especially bodies. i'm just being honest. \n\ni can be in the best relationship, with an absolutely gorgeous woman (as i am) and i'll still catch myself checking out a good looker on the sidewalk and have to just shake my head and get on with life. \n\nlife's just not fair. and anyway, the best looking girls knows it all too well and are way too obsessed with looks themselves whether it be them or the men.
967
I guess a bunch of guy are into you! Same thing has happened to me too! And ya it's probably normal! Have fun!
629582
Chances are though that a lot of it is just in your head. I bet they're are boys out there that find you cute, if not maybe you haven't me the right people yet. sounds like maybe your suffering from depression. We all get that sometimes. \n\nIts common to sometimes feel left out of the world and alone. If you feel these feelings to often maybe you should talk to someone.
549971
I have the same problem with guys, maybe we should hook-up ;D
892909
You are probably attracted to these guys because they are safe, they don't pose a challenge to you, they don't make you want to become a better person. You deserve better, but you don't believe it. Set some goals for your life, challenge yourself to learn new things, to meet people you would not normally associate with because you "think" they are better than you. Go out and help other people, volunteer at a retirement center, work at a youth center, when you are helping others, you will feel better about yourself and also you will learn that you are capable and Worth something. Live your life like you only have one life to live.
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You may have these feeling, because you are jealous . You broke up with him for a reason, and now he has another man. Hold your head up , and just go out with friends, and have FUN. do things to forget him. Don't "look" for another guy, rather, let them find you. that always seems to help me when i can't get over a guy.
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I agree with the previous poster, I was abused in two of my relationships, and recently my boyfriend killed himself, and since then just the thought of dating any guys makes me extremely uncomfortable, I'm even uncomfortable being in the same room with a guy that would most times be near my type. And of course I've had intensive therapy for a very long time, and have yet to not freeze up around even guy friends, and it has destroyed many friendships because I am unwilling to open up and share my feelings, and am often called cold, or unfeeling. The best advice, give it some time, when the right one comes along then you'll most likely have feelings of attraction for them.
860060
Honey, you have all the time in the world.  Please do worry about it.  \n\nThe less it bothers you, the more confident and attractive you'll be to guys.