i realy love a guy, but after we broke up laz march 13, i feel that he rily dnt love me... wat shud i do??
484164
Go with that feeling, because he doesn't really love you. There are millions of other guys out there.
1052872
You may have these feeling, because you are jealous . You broke up with him for a reason, and now he has another man. Hold your head up , and just go out with friends, and have FUN. do things to forget him. Don't "look" for another guy, rather, let them find you. that always seems to help me when i can't get over a guy.
489018
You broke up with this guy for a reason. Ask yourself if you really like your ex. Who do you want to be with? maybe you should just be single for a while and just date around. Maybe try to be friends with your ex and see how that works out for you, see if your feelings resurface, but also tell him to date as well. It'll all work out if you think things over.
953374
im in the exact same situation but the fact is, you'll have good days with him and then other days when you realise that you 2 arent dating for a reason. he is still the same person, and he is the one who DUMPED YOU, find another guy, make him jealous and let him know that he cant have it. bc this is wat he is missing out on.\nthen if he falls in loves with you, this time he will mean it and then, only if you make him work REALLY hard to get you back and take you seriously and not like a toy, you might give him another chance.\nthen he will truely appriciate you and there is a lesser chance of you getting hurt again, but there is always a chance so becareful with your heart cuz u only get one!\nif things dnt work out, there are plenty other guys out there :)
1127003
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!
881000
Although things may be blurry right now, you made the right decison. I mean you had your reasons for breaking up with your ex, and it sounds like you made sure you were doing the right thing BEFORE breaking up. \n\nThe tricky part comes AFTER the break up. Things that were clear before breaking up, all the reasons you had, they just become blurry and you miss him so much that all you can think about is the good things you had and how maybe you really should be together. But that's just a defense mechanism, you just don't wanna go through all the pain that being apart from that person makes you feel. In that moment you should remember that you had your reasons for breaking up. You should also remember that there was no way of fixing the problem and that's why you had to end it.\n\nThis new guy may be rebound guy or not, no-one knows that. Maybe this new guy it's not right for you and that's all that there is to it. There's plenty of fish in the sea.\nIf I were you I just wouldn't try to get into anything serious until you feel free to do so. I wouldn't commit to anybody just yet. Just hang out and meet new guys and have some fun.
730712
Its better to take time. Shes right it hasnt quite hit him and it will eventually and its a harsh reality. Take this time to do what you feel you need to do to make yourself happy. Once you do that your ready for the dating scene again. Your in a much better position trust me. He will regret things eventually once he sees that the grass isnt truly greener on the other side. And you will be ok this is hard but you will move on with your life and be a better person than him.
310710
This is my advice to you. I was in the same position that you were in. I dated for a guy for 3 years and he broke up with me b/c he was afraid of commitment or whatever. But my advice to you is this 1) show him that you are the stronger one by not being needy,calling him all the time or really bring up the relationship 2) TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF by taking care of yourself it prove to him that you are okay and will help him realize what he is missing 3)surround yourself with family and friends a good support system is the key to the whole situation.
221689
Aw sweetie you sound so sad! I know it probably feels like the end of the world at the moment, but it does get easier I promise. It's never easy to get over someone that you really cared about, but you will be happy again, with someone who feels the same way. It seems that this guy cared enough about you to tell you that it wasn't working, rather than lying about his feelings. \nIt happens the other way round too, and you may find yourself going out with someone in the future who likes you more than you like them!\nIt happens because you are learning about yourself and growing as a person all the time. It takes a while to figure out who we are and what we want from a partner and from life. \nAppreciate that we learn something from each person who passes through our life, good or bad. See that he just wasn't right for you and that means you are available for someone who is!
151020
he is in a comfort zone. What about you, what do you want? Think about why you broke up..Is he worth it, or can you do better than the way he treats you. Is this what you want for your future or are you just settling in your comfort zone. If he is the man you want, than just ask him, and if it is not the answer you are looking for.....move on
129813
how long have u been broke up?  is there any chance at all that u may make up and get back together soon?  cause if there is then you shouldn't go make that mistake and injure the chances of that.  it makes things way more complicated.  But if not then u should definetly do it b/c if u r feeling down do something to make u feel special and worthwhile for a lil bit.
1183
Tell him how you feel and see if the feeling is mutual.\n\nIf he feels the same...GREAT.\n\nIf not, it is time to move on with your life.
959846
its normal to feel dat..i once like dat..bt i get over\nit..cz no use of thinking bout it..it wont change anything..4me..the moment he let me go..i decided to let him get out of my heart too..its hurt..takes years to 4get cz he's my 1st bf..dat time i was15,nw went im 19 he came back to me asking 4 patch..bt its to late..i get over him already..bt we still be gd fren till nw..  BT..if u  choose NOT to 4gt bout him its ok..cz im still in love wif my ex..he is my 2nd ex,althought its been 2yrs..i still love him n thinks bout him alot..althought we cant be 2gether our frenship is still gd...\nalthought we doesnt talk or meet often..i know deep in his heart he still love me..evn if he didnt say..n i still love him like the way U DID..\nits ok to love although he cant see..as long as it doesnt affect ur daily living..n take care of ur health
92592
Feelings are hard to understand.  My best advice is to give him time.  Give him space and do not call.  If you have changed, this is your time to prove it and lay off for a little while, if there is hope for the relationship, it will shine through.  However, be mentally and emotionally prepared for him to not come back.  In the end, this is not the last guy you will ever date, you're life might have just begun.
1012285
Give the man some time.\nhe only needs to trust you. He feels like he could go through hell again to try and feel the best thing in the world. You need to prove to him that you really care and you are not like this other girl. Do the things you want out of him and I can promise you everything will fall into place.
1132397
Hey boy wonder , You're so cute I am sure you won't be lonely too long . I wish you would think of me ! I am sorry just teasing you . I know it is hard for you right now , But you have to remember that you broke up with him for a reason . Keep your chin up and remember that you are a special and unique individual , You have much to offer and a lot to give the right guy who will appreciate and love you for all you are , and all that you have to offer . Call friends and go out to dinner , see a movie , start a project , or take up a hobby  , volunteer someplace that needs your special talents . The truth of the matter is , No matter what advice anyone has for you it will be hard and you ultimately have to work it out on your own . Just make sure you have a good friends shoulder to cry on or ear to bend when you need it . Best of luck to you .
774080
It's the holiday syndrome!  You were dumped probably over he did not want to feel obligated to buy you stuff!  There are so many awesome guys outthere for you, just throw your stuff, use your talents, and body and most your smile to get some postive attention!  You go shopping for another guy, and move on!  Get some dark choclate, exercise, and get pep for shopping for moving on to search for a new romance kind of guy!  You landed this guy, remember?  So you still got your stuff!  You go girl!  Don't worry about this exboyfriend, you gotta to move on and know he is all history in your history profile and don't open that chapter again!