I have never had an orgasm solely through intercourse, any advice? I am female?
485723
You could try several things. You could try starting out with some oral sex like your partner giving you oral getting you very aroused but not getting off then lead on to intercourse that may help you climax during intercourse. try forplay getting realy worked up so climax will come quicker. Let your partner know what really turns you on and what works for you comunication helps and can double as foreplay. Good luck
282245
Well, how old are you? If you've never had sex and you're still young, it's probably just your period starting up slowly.\n\nIf you're an adult and are sexually active, that's just gross.
811010
I'm definitely not an expert on the subject, but from the sounds of things, you may have experienced female ejaculation. It's totally normal and something that some women even strive for. :)
507177
know yourself!  explore your own body, one of the biggest problems is that many people don't know what they like and then read stuff and tell their partner to do whatever it is they've read when it may not apply to them.  every person is different, the best thing you can read everything you can and then experiment to determine what works for you.  if you can bring yourself to orgasm by yourself, don't expect to be able to tell your partner how to do it.  and if you can't give any good feedback to your partner about what works best or how to be better then you won't have more orgasms regardless of how much you have sex.
1040941
First of all, don't try. If you expect yourself to orgasm it will be harder to do. Just lay back and do what feels good, and eventually you'll learn how to get yourself off.
28290
According to Kinsey, only 15-25% of women can reach orgasm through penetration alone, so, she's not too weird...\nTry a simultaneous G-spot/or@l, see if that works...
241023
Dude - just relax when having sex, and don't get caught up in how good your c.o.c.k. feels during it.  Concentrate on pleasing your partner!  Try spankin it until just before you c.u.m. and then stop -- don't allow yourself to shoot. It may be difficult at first, but with practice you will learn to control you orgasm. Happy f...ing!
1122272
No, you're not alone -- although I was over 30 years old before I even had one with a partner.  I average about 10 orgasms for every one my partner has -- and I'm only counting the really good ones -- not just the little ripples.  Count your blessings, it took me a long time to find a man who could get me there each and every time.  ENJOY IT.  For me, it took a great deal of love, affection, trust and communication but it's the best sex I've ever had.
399740
Probably because you're not really ready for internal stimulation. Personally, I much prefer external mastur-bation anyway, try sticking to that for a while, focus on the clitoris. When you're going onto fingering, make sure you're well lubricated and relaxed, and try just inserting one finger - if that's ok, try two. Just take things slowly and gently.
1118458
I've done a bit of reading on this subject because I was with a girl who had the exact opposite problem.  The thing is this:  normally, it's the other way around.  Most women have difficulty having orgasms through intercourse alone without clitoral stimulation.  All the previous answers are good ones.  Vibrators can help because they don't get tired and fumbly like fingers do.  Another thing you can do is to try some lube so that the area isn't getting painful stimulation when you try it.  Finally, I will agree with a previous answer and say that the most important thing you can do is explore yourself and see what feels the best to you and what seems to work the best.  If clitoral stimulation isn't working, try vaginal stimulation, especially around the outermost parts, as they have the most nerve endings.  For most people, if you can orgasm at all you can orgasm during masturbation.  Just remember to relax and not concentrate TOO hard on "i have to get there, i have to get there".  Just lay back and relax and enjoy the sensations and it should happen eventually.
1120812
actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!
28964
This is very true.. especially since I have never experienced an orgasm..  I find that even though I have never climaxed in my life( by the way I have been sexually active since the age of 18 and I am 22) I still enjoy sex. I enjoy the emotional connection I feel with the person rather than physical. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the physical aspect. But what truly makes me feel satisfied is the feeling of oneness with the person I am sharing my body with.
929340
First it sounds like you are really stressed out about it. I think life would suck if I couldn't have an orgasm so I feel for you honey. I think if you want a drug, call your doctor and make an appointment. Try different positions, different lubricants, and different toys. Something else that might be causing your inability to orgasm without yourself involved is if you masturbate a lot. If you feel comfortable with it, google orgasm problems and read some articles about it. That might help you figure out what it is.
552221
Nope......you're still a virgin.  Hand jobs and fingering aren't sex.  They are great thing sto do to lead up to sex though.\n\nAnyhow, keep that in mind for later, k?  Since you asked you probably need to educate youself some more before going through with doing anything more.  Just a thought!
695041
Hey man,\n\nSex is really not that simple.  Theoretically, yes.  But in practice not at all. \n\nIn order for the woman to feel an orgasm, she must be turned on.  This is best done by foreplay.  For me, foreplay includes a nice dinner that I cook and a nice bottle of wine to follow.  This sets the mood really really well.  \n\nKissing before sex is also a MUST.  Don't be afraid to do explore her mouth.  Suck out her bottom lip gently.  Bite on it gently.  French her.  Do whatever, but you have to kiss and get each other turned on.  \n\nTouching and exploring her body, both naked and clothed, is also a must.  I can't tell you anything specific really.  Just explore her curves and face and legs and wherever else you want to go with your hands.  A good lover's hands never stop moving.  \n\nNaked massages also get my woman REALLY turned on. \n\nAlso, mutual masturbation is very hot before sex.  It is an amazing sensation to pleasure your partner with your hands while they do the same.  \n\nOral is optional, but in my opinion is really nice.  \n\n\n\nI guess the biggest thing is that your partner needs to feel like you think she is sexy and that you really care about her in order for sex to be "good" for her.  Also, sex is not like Porn, where you walk up to her, bend her over, and f uck the shi t out of her.  You have to show her that you care about her.  And if you don't you shouldn't be f ucking anyway!
759287
I was a non orgasmic woman for many years.....When I married my husband, he want out one day and bought some toys for me, cause I would never do it on my own.....WOW, it made a world of difference, it changed my life....Talk to your boyfriend about the toys, they are an enhancement and that the toys would never take his place, but are more of a tool to help you....
1017911
I have orgasms in my sleep all of the time.  That is because for me orgasms are mental, emotional and psychological.  Penises don't get me to have an orgasm.  A tongue, fingers, but not penetration.  I think this is very very common.  Only about 32% of woman can orgasm with penetration alone.  Did you ever wonder why the clitoris is on the outside?  It is because we are designed to be sexually stimulated without the penetration.  Some women can have orgasms with penetration, but its about 3 out of 10.  \n\nYou can try a few things.  You can have penetration and have him or you stimulate your clitoris during sex.  You can try different positions where his pubis rubs against your clitoris during sex.  You can read the Kama Sutra positions and experiment.  But don't put yourself down because of your anatomy.