My ex slept with another girl how should i feel?
479643
If you love the other guy, stay with him! An ex should always be forgotten. But I don't blame you for feeling a little cheated on. You'll get over it if you love the boyfriend you're with at the moment.
406229
she still has feelings.. what i did with one was backed right off, stayed clear. if u are in a relationship then try to make that work. dont contact the ex girl, if u pass on the street then say hi, be nice but until she stops treating u like she still is seeing u then steer clear of that iceberg, cause like the titanic that could be looking for a way to sink u\nGod bless
126663
Letting go is hard. You need to let yourself heal before you date again because you're on the rebound. The girl that worries sounds like a sweetheart but you need to be honest with her and tell her that you're just not as ready as you thought you were for another relationship. As for getting over this girl, acceptance is the key and the first step toward recovery. I've been there, I know. You have to allow yourself to go through the grief stages, and yes, it's like grieving over a death because it is a death in a way. You'll got through many emotions but it is a necessary path that you must take. This girl does not deserve you and if you have to get mad and hate her, do that if it works for you as long as it doesn't harm anyone. Avoid all contact with her because for now, it's keeping you tied to her. Heal first then perhaps you can be friends. If you feel you need counseling, than get it. There is no shame in it. Another thing you can do is to work out at the gym. It helped me a lot and when you see your body starting to change for the better, you begin to feel better about yourself and more confident. You will get over her, sweetheart but it will take time and effort on your part. God speed and good luck. =)
500474
It doesn't matter what she did with how many people, what matters is how you feel about it.\n\nYou aren't a virgin anymore. If you break up with her what is going to happen when the next girl you date finds out you did whatever you did with your current girlfriend and decides to break up with you over it.\n\nAre you any less of a boyfriend/partner/husband because you have now had sex with a girl?\n\nShe is who she is no matter what she has done in the past.  This is not her problem it is yours, so you need to find a way to get past it or you need to tell her that it is a problem and move on. But at the end of the day you are responsible.
834177
i've had sex with several of my EX girlfriends much later after we had broken up.  i think once you've had sex with someone its easy to feel comfortable enough to go back and sex again. even if it's just a one nightstand with an ex. most of the time the ex is the one asking for it not me.
432604
Feelings always get involved.  That's why these type of relationships never last.  How will you feel when you find out he sleeping with another girl or more than one while he's sleeping with you.  And if that doesn't bother you how are you going to feel when he gets scary jelous over normal guy friends of yours.  Or when he ends the relationship for no reason or won't acknowledge to his friends that he's seeing you.  There's too many ways for it to end badly.  And it always ends badly one way or another.
277490
I wouldn't judge you for it, but I don't think I could personally do that to my friend, especially not a few weeks after they broke up.  But thats me and my friend, it depends on how your friend feels about it etc.  Don't beat yourself up over it though, perhaps talk to your friend about it.
892029
If she betrayed you, then she's not worth a second thought. I know that's easier said than done, but it is possible to get through. Think of it this way, does it hurt more that you're not with her anymore, or does it bother you more that she made you feel like you weren't enough or good enough by going to someone else? I know that sounds mean, but I don't mean for it to. Just stop and think if maybe your ego is hurting more than your heart. Don't let her actions turn you against other girls, because there are PLENTY of them out there who would love to have a boyfriend and who would treat you like gold ! No matter how hard it is to think of that right now, you WILL find someone else, if you give it time. Just don't go back to the same girl who cheated on you! If you take her back, she will think she can do it again, and you'll take her back again- once a cheater always a cheater! Don't waste any of your time on her- take care of yourself, work out a little( anything to boost your self-esteem), and you'll be surprised at how easy it is to get over her and find someone new! Especially if you are feeling good about yourself!
50030
Move on.  Don't look back, and find another girl, and I assure you she would be better than your last girlfriend.
511987
Realize that the feelings you have for him are probably a result of feeling guilty for what you did with him. You think that, if this turns into a relationship, that will make it OK. This is a pretty normal feeling for girls but it doesn't work like that. This is not a guy you want to be around. He will cause you nothing but pain. Not to mention put you at risk for things like HIV and AIDS. Respect yourself enough to know that you deserve much better and move on. Don't look back. Good luck.
16086
You did the right thing... don't worry bout it ... u'll find someone else!! i'm sure another girl would appreciate u better!!
635137
nothing spoils faster than jealousy.  She may feel like she has to compete with you.  Back away for awhile.  Eventually she will come back around and if she doesn't she wasn't your real friend anyway.  And ignore the part with the ex---you have already had him and obviously hes not worth your time.  No worries!!!!!!!!!!!
973456
They are probably telling you that because they love you and they can see you are hurting.   Hell yeah, you have every right to be angry.  Cheating is the ultimate betrayal.  It nips at the core of your self esteem, it tells you that you are not good enough.  It doesnt matter whether it was a mistake or not because things do happen in the heat of the moment and mistakes still get made, but it doesnt change how the person who is being cheated on feels about themselves.  I guess the big question is....do you still love her?  That is the hardest part to get over and it is going to take a bit more time than 2 weeks to get her out of your head and your heart.  Depending on how much you loved her will determine how long you will grieve for.  And you do grieve when you lose someone you love.  Just know that not all girls/women are the same...so dont carry her betrayal into another relationship....treat it as brand new....you have to trust because your next girlfriend is not the old girlfriend and you dont want to start any relationship off badly because of the things that happened to you with someone else.  Distrust and jealousy is the quickest way to lose someone....so you need to come to terms with what has happened and when you are done grieving, move on and leave what she did where it belongs....in the past.\n\nI hope it wont take you long until you start to trust again.  Try to not blame yourself....it was not your fault she cheated...it was just the relationship was not meant to be...she was not the girl for you.\n\nI hope you feel better soon....You wont always feel angry.  With time you will just put it down to experience.
979611
Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES.   Have you been hurt in the past? YES.  Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared.  Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy.  Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy.  Let go of your past, and live.  Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"
465880
Stay away from this guy. He wasn't concerned about you or your feelings when he was doing the other girl and may have even transmitted something from her to you in the process.  You shouldn't give a damn about him anymore. \nThere are plenty of guys out there. Just be patient and do everything you can to avoid your ex and his significant other and there soon to be lust baby. Try and stay busy with other friends. They will help you through all this and introduce you to someone that is worthy of your time and love.\nGood Luck
829072
Well ... you can always weigh the two girls.\nBy that, I mean, what do each of them give to you?\nDoes the "new girl" give you the emotional support and trust and all that jazz as much as your ex did/does?\nOr is this new girl just a crush and you're only physically attracted.\nIf you REALLY think that this new girl has something to give to you, then you NEED to sit down and talk with your ex and explain the situation and how you're feeling.  You have to tell her that you're unsure about the current relationship between the two of you but that you still really care for her.  You just want to see what this other girl has to offer.  You may find the new girl is just nothing but a pretty face and end up missing your ex.\nIn that case ... I think you need to know what to do. ;)
94051
I know I would probably be be happy in some twisted way...  Like - Ha!  you cheated with her on me.. and now you are both broken up too.... \n\nI don't know... it is a very emotional thing to have someone cheat on you.  Of course it is natural to not want them to be together even if you no longer want him any more.  So you may feel like I would.