How wud u feel if your fiaces ex wife stayed at your fiances parents home at the same time u were getting marr
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Bad. Real bad... Many times, affairs never really stop! Communication is the key to a rekindle, and if there is either a proximity or an open communication line, some nasty piss off would most certainly arise for you. She'll most probably get a way with him oftentimes than once...\n\nAnd another thing, MOST EXes are also called Schemers. They must only be upto something, even when they are not aware, whether her break-up was in agreement or in acrimony. Whatever she is doing with your future in laws... BUY NEW BOOTS, GET READY TO KICK-BUTT SOONER THAN LATER!
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i would say yes but on one condition the ex stays at home.
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IVE WAS DATING A PAKI WOMAN AND THEN HER PARENTS MADE HER MARRY HER COUZIN CUZ THEY FOUND OUT ABOUT US......... I DIDNT GO TO IT BUT I WAS OUTSIDE IN MY CAR WIT MY BOYS..
161711
Whatever you feel comfortable with.  I tried to call my inlaws mom/dad, but it didn't fit.  I didn't "feel it".  And I felt odd when my parents and his parents were at the same place and I'm calling my father in-law dad when my father was there.  I just phased it out and now I call them by their first names.  It's the same way with my hubby.  He calls my parents by their first names.  Although,when we give them gifts or cards it's addressed mom/dad from us.
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I feel sorry for both you and your husband. Here is what I would do If I were in your situation:\n\nFirst of all you and your husband need to put up a united front. Once you set your rules and advise her of them, put your foot down.  If she chooses to disobey, then she must suffer the consequences, and if she calls the cops, have her bags packed ready and waiting by the door when they get there.\nAs for the ex, we all have to put up with them on behalf of the kids, but that does not mean that you hve to be a push over and let her destroy your marriage. Let her know where you stand.\nGood Luck.
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you have every right to feel that way...next door becareful...really...why did you move in knowing she was next door...too close for me....be careful and good luck....
564811
Totally possible funny story I just asked a question if I should go to my exes wedding heres my story my ex fiancee is friends with my new and though his new fiancee well wife as of tommorow cannot stand me (the whole jealousy thing you know) My fiancee is secure with our relationship so his friends with my  ex but has a general rule of thumb exes are exes and should stay that way
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okay my parent s are divoreced but i know its for the best its better that to hear them fight and argue. I sometimes feel like im missing a part of me like on fathers day and i cant rememer the good times cause i was only little when they divorce. but i know very little about him but its better to leave it burid that to go digging for me anyway.
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Yes, I DID stay unhappily married , for the kids' sake. I did it for a long time, but I could not stand the thought of not being there for them.Their Mother was not the most stable person, so it was necessary for me to be there for them until they got older, and could take care of themselves. I don't regret doing it for my kids, but I sometimes hate my best days are behind me now. If I had it to do over however, I would do it again....for them!
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I hate my in-laws. They are always in my marriage. They expect my husband to cater to their needs and forget that he has a family on his own to take care of. I undrestand that he is suppose to help them but they call him for any and everything like when they went out of town they wanted him to stay in their house for two weeks without his family.
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not dumping my ex first and getting my own place rather than moving in with him when i knew deep down he didnt want to live with me (and our unborn child), it would have saved me a lot of heartache and worries as me and my daughter were left homeless when he decided to move out!!\n\nbut i dont regret getting with him in first place....just moving in with him
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u shouldnt marriged her
1081996
I PERSONALLY DON'T LIKE IT.  I MEAN IT'S HIS EX'S SISTER FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.  I KNOW THAT WHEN I BROKE UP WITH MY FIANCE AND HE KEPT COMING AROUND MY PARENTS HOUSE, IT REALLY PISSED ME OFF AND MADE ME UNCOMFORTABLE.  WE WERE NO LONGER TOGETHER AND GEE FREAKING WHIZ MAN HE ALREADY HAD ANOTHER WOMAN AND CHILDREN WITH HER.\n\nHE STILL COMES BY ONCE IN A BLUE MOON, COMES INTO TOWN AND GOES STRAIGHT TO MY PARENTS HOUSE, AND THEY WELCOME HIM WITH OPEN ARMS!  I'M LIKE WHAT EVER!  I HATED IT.  NOW I'M COOL WITH IT, CUZ A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO I THINK IT WAS HE CALLED ME FROM THEIR HOUSE.  HAD MY MOM DIAL THE NUMBER FOR HIM AND WE TALKED FOR A BIT.\n\nIT WAS REALLY A SHOCK TO HEAR HIM SAY THE REASON HE ALWAYS CAME STRAIGHT TO MY PARENTS HOUSE WHENEVER HE WAS IN TOWN WAS SO HE COULD BY CHANCE RUN INTO ME.  I WAS LIKE AH........... HOW CUTE HE'S STILL NOT OVER ME.  I LIKE THAT.  MADE MY HEART HAPPY HE NEVER FORGOT ME.  I MEAN I'D NEVER FORGET HIM.  I'M SORRY I SCREWED THINGS UP AND BROKE UP WITH HIM.\n\nBUT I CAN'T TURN BACK THE CLOCKS, SO I JUST CHALK IT UP TO THE ONE I LET GET AWAY.  BACK TO YOUR PROBLEM.  I DON'T LIKE IT AND YOU DON'T LIKE IT, SO TALK TO HIM AND DO IT IN A NICE WAY, DON'T GET ALL BITCHY AND SAY YOU CAN'T SEE THEM. HE'S A GROWN MAN AND BOTTOM LINE IS YOU CAN'T TELL HIM WHO HE CAN AND CAN'T HANG OUT WITH.\n\nNOT IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE ANYWAY.  JUST PUT YOUR CARDS ON THE TABLE AND BEFORE YOU DO THAT, THINK HARD.  DO YOU HAVE A REASON TO BE SO INSECURE, IS SHE STILL AROUND AND DOES SHE WANT HIM BACK OR ARE YOU JUST BEING SILLY?  ME I DIDN'T LIKE IT CUZ I HAD SCREWED UP AND I PUT HIM OUT OF MY MIND. \n\nBUT WHEN HE'D COME BACK I'D BE REMINDED AGAIN THAT I SCREWED UP AND THAT COULD BE ME IN HER PLACE.  SHE WOULD GET MAD AT HIM AT FIRST UNTIL SHE MET MY PARENTS.  SEE SHE DID HAVE SOMETHING TO WORRY ABOUT WITH ME,  HE STILL WANTED TO BE WITH ME.  I COULDN'T TAKE HIM BACK CUZ SHE WAS ALREADY PREGNANT.  AND I WASN'T GONNA DEAL WITH THAT KIND OF BAGGAGE.\n\nSO THINK ABOUT IT, COME TO A DECISION AND GOOD LUCK TO YOU.  I HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND.  DON'T BE OVER JEALOUS, ALWAYS WATCH WHAT'S YOURS, TAKE CARE OF HIM, BUT DON'T LET IT SHOW.  THEN IT WILL BE TAKEN AS YOU'RE INSECURE AND JEALOUS.
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WHAT A BITCH!!!  DON'T GO AND HAVE YOUR HUSBAND STAY HOME WITH YOU, IT IS ONLY GOING TO CAUSE PROBLEMS,,,
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I think your GF has some insecurity issues.  Im sure it has nothing to do with her personal items.  She knew you had kids, and that the father would be involved with them.  He is paying the rent, and cable bill... I see no reason why he couldnt watch the World Cup.  If he started making a crazy habit of it where it imposes on you, then I suggest you move to your own place and pay your own bills.\n\nOther than that I think your GF just needs to have a little understanding of the situation and not be so jealous, insecure, or "worried".\n\nI of course am only basing these thoughts on not knowing either of you or the situation.  If I were you, I would try to explain the whole situation to your GF again...\n\nEDIT:  Also anyone who says you should have nothing to do with your ex husband is incorrect in my eyes.  Your responsibility's are to your kids, and making them happy, which will involve being respectful to their father, and being a part of his and their lives.  You had the choice to have kids... the kids did not get a choice in their parents, and therefore they are the Innocent ones in this situation and need to be looked out for first and for most!  Even if that means putting off relationships with other people for the time being.  Just my opinion :)  Sorry if it sounded preachy... it was more directed at the comment above mine :)
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My husband's ex. hahahahahhahaha
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I dont feel bad. They probably make their wives mad on purpose so they get divorced and like half of their money. Jerks, smart, but still jerks.