my girlfriend just told me she's bi. why tell me this now? does she want to break up?
490923
She wants a threesome you dumbass!!!!
740148
I think you are bi-curious. The idea appeals to you, but the reality is something else.\n\nPerhaps it was the wrong woman, or I dunno.
235994
she may feel that this relationship is going to fast for her and she isnt ready for any commitments, so its easier to just end it then keep pretending that it will work out. she may have met another person and again cant tell you. try talking to her even writing to her if you really want to know  the reasons why she did this.
1050088
Well, your wife is probably jealous because you are cheating on her.  Being bisexual does not mean that you get to have one lover of each sex...  Either end things with your lwfe so you can live the alternative lifestyle you want (multiple partners, that is) or ditch the boyfriend...and please practice safe sex.
152594
You are just wasting your time with her if you are hoping to have a real relationship with her.  She's not going to commit to you, she can't stay committed to her current partner.  I certainly hope that you are putting on a raincoat when you hook up with her.  If you know what I mean.  Who knows who else she's hooking up with on the side.  You don't want to walk away with a STD
847896
maybe you have'nt come out yet. but seriously it's a fact of life that many people of both sexes are bi sexual. you'll have to decide for yourself what to do.
471529
You've said it yourself...you don't trust her...did you know that she was bi? The main thing in this is that you ARE there for your boys...there are six basics for a good relationship...\nTrust\nLove\nHonesty\nComprise\nRespect\nConsideration\nIf you have any of these you can save your relationship but if you haven't well leave but just be there for your boys....
1140595
Just tell her how you feel.  If she's a friend she'll understand.  And if she's not BI, there are plenty of other girls that are BI, so finding another shouldn't be hard.  Also your friend might just not want to face the fact that she is BI.  Or she just doesn't want to wreck your friendship because as we all know, once friends start getting intimate, their friendship is at risk.  Hope this helped.
84879
If your girl is bi too, I'd hope there wouldn't be an issue. I'd tell her. Chances are, she'll accept, and you'll both be happier ::wink wink:: *lol* Good luck.
290307
One of the big things that makes a relationship last is trust. There isn't anything wrong with getting a sex change, but by not telling someone who she is dating that she is an MTF, this gal's actions suggest that she believes there is something wrong with it, or that she's not happy with who she is, or that she's scared to tell the truth. \n\nI can see why she wouldn't want to tell her partner, it's not an easy life to lead, changing one's sex is a huge deal, but y'know... with great power comes great responsibility, to walk like a warrior you have to stand true. \n\nIf she wants to make it last, she's got to be brave and give her sweetheart the trust that she would want from her. (Do unto others, blah blah blah...)\n\nBut another consideration is that relationships are like casseroles: only the two people who made it know what's truly in it. \nMaybe the girlfriend already knows, maybe the two of them have had conversations you know nothing about, and perhaps, even if it doesn't seem like a good idea to you, this MTF has valid, private personal reasons for holding back until she feels like it's a good time to tell her lover. \n\nSo... "good behaviour" is an interesting way of putting it, if it's a fling: people don't tell each other ALL KINDS OF THINGS (marriage, children, debt, etc.) when they are just fooling around. If it's serious: eventually, the information will be divulged, which will either make or break the relationship. \n\nWhatever transpires, I hope those two get to make their decisions for each other without the interferance of judgemental busybodies...
163150
I am Bi amd married. I believe there should be no secrets in a marriage/relationship so I have told my hubby about it. We have a mutual girlfriend. One does not have to CHOOSE, you can be bi and be happy! I am!
468226
It means you're attracted to people of both genders, physically and emotionally. You may prefer one gender, or be completely balanced. Some people who think of themselves as bisexual will not act on their feelings, due to relationship commitments, or religious/moral/cultural beliefs, but will acknowledge them.\n\nSome people think most humans are actually bisexual to some degree, and certainly many people who identify as straight or gay have had at least *some* experience with both genders. Being bi does *not* mean you're undecided, although it's often something you hear or read. Sadly, being bi often means that you feel both the straight and gay communities object to you.\n\nYou can be bisexual and in a relationship, monogamous or open. I think one of the most important things is to be open with a partner about your feelings, but it can be hard.\n\nGood luck!
5754
Doesshe have to be bi? I'm bi-sexual, but I'm taken... Anyway she sounds like she meant a lot. Just keep looking for em', she out there.\nsexkitten01
620309
You have the thought of being bi? Umm you are bi if you like both sexes! You have to be honest and up front with your girl! Just tell her your feelings. She might understand. But if you truly love her then you wouldn't do anything to hurt her.
966729
Are you a lesbian or bi?  If so then probably not.\n\nIf not, the question is why are you asking here?\n\nHmmmmmm
74816
It could be a couple answers. a) she wants to be single right now, there is no hidden motive but she is considering herself her priority. Most girls are NOT lying when they give this answer. b) She wants to spare your heart because she has no feelings for you. She isnt swearing you out of her life she is just not wanting a romantic relationship Right Now.
469237
i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.