Everyone I know is getting married, why can't I find my soul mate?
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All my friends are getting married too. And I haven't even found a soul mate. But it doesn't bother me. I think everything happens for a reason. Maybe is a good think you did not get married in August. Maybe your fiance wasn't right for you. A guy of your dreams might be closer than you think. There are too many maybes but no real answer. Right?\nI think you should meet new guys, go on dates, and have fun. You don't have to sleep with them. Guys who are interested in you just so they can get you in bed, those are wrong guys. See, you haven't find a guy of your dreams yet. And he is out there. It will happen when the time is right. \nDon't get depressed over this. It is not worth it. Why do we have to get devastated about guys? Why don't they get devastated about us? \nYour friends who got married they found their soul mates, but let me tell you, lot of them don't really tell you the way they feel. Not all of them are happy. And most of them are jealous of you b/c you are single. \nLive your life why you can and enjoy every single day of your single life. Do things. Go travel, visit  friends in different cities you haven't seen in a while. Go to places you haven't been to yet, you don't have to do that by yourself but go with a friend, sister or brother. Even taking vacation with your parents would be an option too.
544378
Your dreams may come true if luck favors you Being honest you should try matrimony services here we are all friends sharing and finding our solutions isn't it? Believe me someone is waiting for you and you will meet her soon....... Good luck
645218
take your time, Love will reveal it's self.\ndoes he call you, or do you do everything in the relationship. test him, see if he really cares. don't bug him about it or give him a big list of what you are looking for, just let him be and see what kind of guy he is. you can't change people so find out if he is really suitable for you through experience in time. you are probably young enough that it isn't crucial that you get married right now. take your time if you can....it reveals many things!
633947
First of all,let me say this.In all the world their are millions of men out there,I am sure you have not met them all yet.Next thing,you are evidently not with your soul mate yet seeing that you broke up,that's not him,not the right one yet.When you meet that special someone,you nor he will even think about breaking up.Your life will be so wonderful you will feel joy from the top of your head to the tip of your toes.Remember when  your relation-ship starts to sink,let it sink and go out for a new boat.Don't try to force something that isn't going to work. And always,I mean always,in your life when a relationship or anything else doesn't work out for you,be extremely happy because what you are not seeing on this day is that there is always something better down the road waiting for you.Be excited because you haven't met that person yet and wonder who that person will be. Fate can be good to you if you keep your head up and keep those eyes and ears open. You will always find that true love when you are not looking.True Love will find you.Happens everytime.Now get up with that sad self of yours and fix your face,put on those nice clothes you have,go out to greet the wonderful world full of men just waiting on you to arrive in their world. There is someone out there that you haven't met yet who feels just like you.You will never meet this person sitting home and feeling sorry for yourself. And by the way,put a great big smile on your face.Your smile and happy hearted attitude will attract that special someone that will be eager to come into your life.No more whining and crying,go get dressed and get out there.Be Happy that you are rid of your (Nightmare),get prepared to meet the man of your dreams.
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You must know for sure that the one you have chosen to be your mate is the adequate soul for you and you to them.  This is a partnership with the extra perks such as love, support, kids and so many other great things.\n\nAbove all, marriage is not easy!  Keep that in mind so that you don't become discourage once you're married.
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I don't really believe in 'soul mates'.\nI think it is a romantic notion which is all very nice, but in reality I do not believe that there is only one person in the whole world for you.\nIf that was the case, it is a big coincidence that most people find their 'other half' in their hometown or at work etc.\n\nI believe that there are a number of people out of everyone that you meet and know throughout your life, who you will 'click' with on an emotional and intellectual level.\n\nAs far as God wanting you to be with someone, I'm sure there are many believers who have gotten divorced, so I don't think that God chooses your partner.  If you 'believe that God wants us to be together' is that really just an excuse to go and get them?  I suppose you could go and say 'I love you and I want you to be mine', just be prepared for them to say 'Thanks, but I'm in love with someone else'.\n\nIt is difficult if someone you know (and possibly love too) is with someone else, but they are entitled to that, so I suggest a common sense approach.\n\nBeing in love is great, but being loved back also is even better.\n\nGood luck!
851907
You can't, because there is no such thing as a soulmate. Humans are soulless; we're all bags of meat in a pressurised skin.\n\nHope this helps!
559049
NO sorry I can't you need to just give yourself time and one day your sole mate will come along and you will realize that the one who you thought broke your heart didn't even have it to break! You will look back down the road of your life and see that everyone in your life had some part they played to get you to your soul mate! All the girls or ladies in you past was just detours and and have to find you way back to the main road of your life to find your soul mate!
1014843
Already founf my soul mate.  Engaged and set a date
1063000
You know, it is funny that you mention this because a friend of mine was telling me the same thing the other day.  I think in her case that it was just a really strong attraction, which really isn't a big thing.  You just cannot act of those feelings being married as you are.  It is normal to find other people attractive and think that they are awesome to be around.  You are married, sweetie, not dead!
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Come on, online dating is insane.  Most of those people are lying.  Just keep your eyes open in real life.  If you seriously need help, try speeddating, then you at least get to see them face to face and can check for tan lines where the wedding ring usually is ;)
197569
this is tough. sometimes, when yuo see love around you, you seek to feel the way others do. to find that one special person and share your life with them. they say that there is a soulmate for every person in the world but sometimes they dont find each other in there lives. You can be patient and wait for your guy to come around for you, but he may be waiting for you.
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It is possible to find your "soulmate" anywhere.  There is no such thing, but there are people all over the world, just like you.  The secret to finding love lies in us, not in them.  When we are ready to drop our masks, reveal ourselves, and let that other person have the chance to say, "I see you," we give ourselves the chance to fall in love.\nThe biggest problem is that people on the internet often don't feel the need to tell people the truth, and often, that first lie or misrepresentation will make it impossible to feel safe enough to open up again to the person.  The opportunity dies.\n\nFind someone of integrity and ethics, share everything you have in common, and hide nothing.  See what happens.
747294
yeah i believe everyone has a soul mate what i don't believe is that soul mate has to be a lover or husband wife i think when you find that one person you just cant live without that's your soul mate
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Love is exist. I think both of us have our soul mate. But not everyone can get it soon, maybe someone can easy get the soul mate, and the other not.\nU have not find your soul mate yet, but someday you'll find him. Don't be hurry to find him, just be going on with your life. One day when u get it you'll realize it.
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What about your friends?  Perhaps one of your lady friends is also ready to settle down and have a family but for whatever reason would like to skip the dating etc.... I recommend you talk to them.  It would be better to be married to a friend than a stranger.  Good luck.
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stop looking you are probably in all the wrong places, when its time for your soul mate believe me, he will find you