how to get rid of doubtful condition of mind, like i always doubt that people do no like me?
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The more you think negative thoughts, the stronger you make the conditioning. Start by thinking positive thoughts about yourself, the more positive thoughts you have the more chance you have of changing the negative conditioning. Not all people have to like you, the same as you don't have to like all people. Everyone is different and everyone should respect this fact. We are all individuals. Start liking yourself, because if you do not like yourself, how can anyone else like you. Start right now, tell yourself I AM A GOOD PERSON, AND I TRULY LOVE AND RESPECT MYSELF. Good Luck
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What makes you say they think you're worthless? Can you read their minds? Sounds to me you have a case of low self esteem, unless you are a horrible person I'm sure they all don't think that.  Find something you're good at and get involved doing something that will make you feel better about yourself. Perhaps you're depressed. Speak with your doctor. Some medication and COUNSELING will help you out. The more I think about it that's exactly what you sound like. DEPRESSED. Get help.
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Just hang in there.  I'm sure people are not thinking anything bad about you.  They are in the helping profession because they care about people.  They may be worried about you, but that's okay.\n\nIt's normal, after all you've been through, not to trust people so easily.  Give them the benefit of the doubt.\n\nI pray for you daily.  Keep up the good work.  May God bless you richly.
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Quit being neurotic. Relax, life's too short to waste it being worried about what people will think. Just know that your place in this universe can't be taken up by anything or anyone. Once you realize that, other people's opinions will seem useless.
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Firstly, venture into your mind's content and in real terms evaluate all that is you and find precisely where you are at mentally.  Call that mental-location 'ground zero' and hold on to it, sleep on it, re-assess your mental sum again when you awake.  Secondly, F the sickos of the world, you now at least will know where you are at as regards your own person-self and what it is that fills your mind.  Now within this step are some matters which necesarily must be considered in a non-distorting manner.  How F'd are you and how un-F'd do you choose to become?  Begin the brain-cleaning process by trashing all the garbage you find within, resolve those matters to the trash bin akin to trashing kitchen trash.  You are now more tidy within and stable too, go slowly, do some wee-tiny thing to somehow in some way make your mind more precious and valued and satisfied: learn another true thing such as it will improve the sum of what your mind already has.  Make a wee small adjustment, and I warn you, it gets awesome very quickly and I caution you to not get hoggish too quickly, and these awesome things do not happen by accident.  You are the owner of a unique mind that basically has an independent-will to let real data slip for sake sliding around within the slime of follies with the greater satisfactions never being there.  Heed me, I do not send you asunder.  I will for you the most which can willed.  I know from experience that your mind will become such a bright ditty inside your head that you will have ever increasing difficulty with losing and/or repressing your perpetual smile.  Enjoy forming em smiling-eye creases, they add to your character too.  Have a nice day.  Move on to new you.
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take it with simple easy steps.  first look in a mirror.  thank about how great you really are.  you are somebody.  you are special.  there is nobody else in the whole world exactly like you.  there is something that you and only you can do to make the world better.\n\nthen go out, shop, go to school, whatever, any place where you pass people.  And SMILE.  See what happens.  Most of the time, someone will smile back.  that is the power you have to make a difrference.  anyone can do that.  you can do that.
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You're not alone.\nI absolutely understand what you're saying as I'm going through it myself... =( I used to be naive & gullible only to have it blow up in my face.\nI tried changing to adapt as to how people would like me to be... but it wasn't easy & a losing battle at the end.\nFor every person you try to please there's gonna be tons more that don't like you for the same reason. After a while it got tired & I stopped, stayed true to myself & adopt a like me/ hate me attitude. To me it's their loss rather than mine.
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My main problem is i feel that when i talk, others will laugh on me so i mostly keep my mouth shut. How can i overcome my fear?\nWell the first thing you need to do to get over this fear is to proof it to be false. You see fear can be a strong motivater, but also an even stronger demotivater. We know for a fact that the "fear of getting burnt", keeps us from touching a red hot element. The reason is because one way or another we have tested it to be true.\nFear as a demotivater raises its head by what I refer to as false truths, which is simple truths that we believe but have never really tested.\nIf I would be coaching you personally I would encourage two activities to help you test out your fear. First what might at first feel stupid but works well, is simply speaking to yourself in the mirror. Look at your reflection and consider what would be considered a good conversation with the other person. Talk about what is important to that person in the mirror or what is really the other person.\nSecondly, I would reccommend that you have at least 3 conversations with complete stranges. Strangers are further from your comfort level of acquaintances and therefore have little regard to you personally if the conversation was effective or not. Simple start talking about the weather and go from there, but be precient, the payoff is awesome and you will soon realize your fear was no more than a false truth.\nTo understand effective communicating, please check out my blog. It will help you on your way to success.
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I don't know what it is exactly but it seems like you may have  some anxiety issues surrounding social interaction and maybe some negative self talk. The best way to deal with both things is to surround yourself with positive people whom you feel comfortable with and just relax and enjoy life. Think about your strengths and less about your weakneses. Life isn't an IQ test.
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oh i feel so sorry for you.\nFirst, blinking your eye once is a while is good but can be annoying.Try and tell your close friends about this and ask them to talk to you about life and the near future.That should keep you busy.You should get over it.Troy and build up a will power where slowly you'll see resluts.Talk to people.Be heard.Express Yourslef!\nI hope my theory works! That is all i can do to help!
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Build up self confidence by always believing in your self. Laugh at your self when you know you have made some stupid mistakes. Act a little more slowly in carrying out any activity. People will definitely see a different you. They may even rate you a genius. Good luck.
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The first thing that I notice about people is : confidence.  Do they look you in the eye and seem interested in what you are saying?\nJust try to stay calm and talk about stuff that you are interested in.  Let the other person speak and listen attentively.\nMy friend has this SAME problem.  Don't be upset by being a little quirky - all my friends are strange and that's why I want to hang around with them!\nIf nothing seems to be working, maybe you could see a councilor.  Hope that you start to feel better soon.
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You have to learn to accept the fact that it takes all kinds of people to make a world.Even people like you.Not everyone will like you,just as you don't like everyone.Learn to accept you uniqueness,and revel in it.You are a part of this world and you have a place in it as well as anyone else.Keep your place!!!!! It doesn't matter what others are thinking,they have brains too.Do you think they care what you are thinking about them?......NO!!!! So don't waste brain energy on what they think either.
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Right now i'm in that same situation. You have to learn to let go of all the bad negativity. That doesn't help when you hold everything inside. You have to learn to express yourself better. If you have a best friend or a real close friend. Share almost everything with them. If things bother you that people do let them know. Don't stress over the little things. There is a way to be happier all the time even if it's not you, but it will take some work. You have to look deep inside of you and wthink to yourself why do I act the way I do??
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Speak your mind. Always.\nNot speaking your mind will continue to stab you inside, all the time. Make you feel worthless because you do not change anything, don't make yourself heard. \nThere is time to be cheerful and pretend to be happy, but doing that all the time is a disguise that will break someday. Bring out your true self. If people don't listen, speak louder. Don't cave in and pretend to accept others opinions just to make them happy. Listen to what they say and change your mind only if they convinced you. \n\nThis means you cannot please everyone all the time. You might even be viewed as a b*tch sometimes. Don't let that scare you. There is only one person you need to satisfy, and that is you. No one else. \n\nGood luck. I know you will be much happier and feel much stronger.
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You probably have an underlying issue about something.  What you say and do to others are just a reflection of what's hidden inside you. Others are just a mirror reflecting what you feel about yourself. \nI would say try meditation.  Meditation will help you feel calm and be accepting to the things around you.  There are many books on amazon.com that teach you how to meditate.
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im not so sure cause i think i have the same problem with myself. i still in the mist  of trying to convince myself that i am beutiful. i think that our, or your fist step would be to think of something that you dont like about yourself and say you do, maybe you can convince yourself!!!!!!! i hope i help and thx for the 2:)