is it right to break up with your boyfriend so he gets better grades?
491306
Put him on probation. No make-out session until those grades come up, mister!
74766
Guess that just depends on what's more important to you, and how distracted you are by him.  If you are in college, chances are it's costing you some $$$.  If you were to get involved with him, would your grades suffer?  Is it possible you could fail a class or two?  Because I doubt that dating him would be worth the cost of a repeated course.  Your education will be beneficial to you much longer than any guy, however cute he is.  \nIf you manage your study time better, or maybe even find a different place to study (other than your shared living space with him), you could probably get the schoolwork out of the way and have time for play later.
209746
break up with him, if he did this before he can do it again. it's better to correct someone the first time.
854873
Wonder why you were just as dumb for being his girlfriend.  And if he gets good grades, he isn't all that dumb....maybe it's not him, but you.  If you were so smart, you wouldn't have numerous grammatical errors....\n\nOh and by the way, he must really love school if he's there when he's supposed to be suspended....\n\nReally, you both seem pretty dumb in my opinion....like my response or not....you're dumb enough to post it...I just wanted my two points.  Thanks dummy!
720987
No relationship can survive if there is no communication. So now you have his attention and he knows how you feel and you know how he feels, this isn't such a bad thing. Swallow your pride and keep the communication going. In the future telling your boyfriend what you need out of the relationship is not being over emotional but should not require breaking up to get his attention. Relationships are a give and take sittuation and that is the only way they'll work. Give it another chance but make sure to have a heart to heart conversation once in a while before you get to the breaking up point.
1149028
Treat your boyfriend as you would want yourself treated.\n\nThat is, if your boyfriend were in the predicament you were, what would you want your boyfriend to decide?  Would you like him to do what you are thinking about doing?\n\nMy guess is that he would not want you to do what you're thinking about doing.\n\nNow, if you break up with your boyfriend, that is another story as you will no longer be in a romantic relationship and do not need to consider his feelings when you are making romantic choices.\n\nOn the surface, having sex with your friend to me sounds like a very bad idea at this point in time.  If you break up with your boyfriend, I might have a different opinion.\n\nOverall, respect your boyfriend's feelings while you are in a relationship with him.
1166824
Yea. We all do. We imagine how much easier it would SEEM to be if we broke it off b/c of minor things we don't like about the person. You need to weigh the pro's and con's of how you guys are TOGETHER. You're not always going to like everything about him. But imagine if you did break up with him over that stuff, you'd definately just want to go back to him and realize it was ridiculous.
391535
It is wrong not to let him know.  It is better to break up with him and experience life than to do things without letting him know.  It doesn't mean your a bad person, only that your human and have needs.
208568
Well before you do anything you need to get your life in order and become self sufficiant.  Because if you break it off now he might just leave you to fend for your self and you don't sound prepared for that.  Ultimately though, yes, you need to find a better relationship than this one.
285910
He expects a lot and I know its hard sometimes. But he knows your potential. I know sometimes you just can't get a perfect grade. Try talking to him assure him and prove to him that you do work hard and prove that to him and try explaining that its not possible to get perfect grades all the time. Good luck to you. Hang in there and don't forget he loves you.
542473
You sound like you are trying to justify breaking up with him.  From the way you describe yourself, I would say that you did do the right thing.  If you are a flirt and he is the jealous type it would never work.  I wish you the best in the world.  May you find happiness.
502757
Maybe not necessarily break up, but definitely confront his butt and find out what is up. If he stutters and lies, then kick him to the curb.
244870
University should be your choice because it will give you a foundation that you can rely on for the rest of your life.  If your boyfriend really loves you then he will still be there when you finish school.
401980
Ask yourself these questions, Do I really love my current boyfriend? Do I really like this guy in class? Would I go that low to cheat on my boyfriend but not care because he live so far away? Just think about those questions. If you would rather have a relationship w/ the boy in class, CALL* your bf and tell him that you want to take a break because your not doing so good with the distance. Then say yes to the boy in ur class. \n\n\n*break- ups over IM, or E-MAIL, anything not in person (except if u live far away) are just cheesy and shows that ur a coward
82954
i know this isnt really right and he might give you a bad grade for this(mine sure did) but just bug the heck out of him find out what his weak spot is and USE it trust me it works (-; but remember you still might get a bad grade
852155
Tell them you broke up with him... then ACTUALLY BREAK UP with this loser.  What kind of a moron do you have to be to be KICKED out of school?   C'mon, you really feel that bad about yourself that you need a loser to make you feel better?
591822
Break up with him again permanently and find yourself someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.