Friend/ boyfriend issues?
493300
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
396441
Dear Am I Being Unreasonable:\n  I know how you are feeling unfortanely I have been in that same situation but I was on the other side. I had a best friend whom I had forever when I started dating this guy.Well the boy friend didnt like that fact that we "hung out" so much. He "just knew" that we were doing something. Well it turns out he was right we were and actually ended up getting married after a long drawn out process. The point Im trying to make is if your boyfriend is keeping things from you and lying then you dont need him. You deserve better. It sound like he wants his cake and eat it too. A realtionship is built on trust (or suppose to be). I haop that I have helped. I have enclose my email and yahoo messenger if you want to hit back at me !!
884909
mind our own business. let them sort out their own life. my friend's boyfriend was unfaithful as well and we didn't tell her but she did discover and it's for her to deal with it cause it's her relationship, as friends we can only lend an listening ear and be with her if she needs too. we are all adults.
800883
I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!
188477
Well, for starters, I would let your boyfriend know that this is happening. I hate to imagine what he would think if he found out that this other guy is contacting you all the time to try to woo you and that you never let him know. That would certainly make him suspicious about why you weren't telling him. Of course you also need to speak with this guy that is bothering you and let him know that you have no interest in a relationship and that you appreciate him as a friend but that you will have to end the friendship if he keeps pushing the issue. He needs to know that this makes you uncomfortable and is inappropriate. If he still continues to contact you, stop accepting his calls. If he still bothers you, I would contact local police to see what actions you should take.
966849
First off there is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone of the opposite sex. \nIt doesn't really matter what other people think..there will always be that one person who tries to hurt others relationships. As long as you and your friend are comfortable with your realtionship thats all that should matter. \nAs for others who feel its wrong.... they are not good friends if they were they would know there is nothing wrong with your relationship. If its her Boyfriend then he is very insecure with himself and his realtionship with his girlfriend. Unless she is the one leading him to think that your relationship with her maybe be more to make him jealous. \nThere are some who just can't accept other relationships liek yours its sad but true. \nI personally have had similar problems in the past. But if you and her are truely close and best friends everything will work out. If not then the friendship is not worth your time. \nHope this helps.
201104
You should talk to him and ask him what the problem is. If he is truely your friend he should acknowledge you anytime any place.
1094956
Do you really need to ask this? If you respect yourself, you will realize that your boyfriend is not worthy of being in a relationship with you, and your best friend is not a real friend. Surround yourself with people that are worthy of your friendship and love.
274467
if he's your friend then you should be able to talk to him\nask him whats wrong with him let him know how you feel and tell him you dont like the way he's been treating you  lately be honest with him, if he ask you if you like him let him know, and if he feels unconfortable about you guys dating then you should let it go it doesnt have to happen you could still  be friends. as for your friend you should stay away from her she is causing problem and you dont need a friend like that.
1045090
There are two issues here. The first is that your friend is not respecting your request to stop flirting with your boyfriend. If she isn't willing to stop, is she really a good friend? Is she the kind of friend you want hanging out around your boyfriend? If you've been friends with her for a while, try talking to her again and really impressing upon her how much her behavior bothers you.\n\nThe second issue is that she's telling your boyfriends that you and your friends are cheating on them. I can't imagine a good justification for that. What do you have to lose by asking her why she would say those things, and asking her not to? If she wants to continue being disrespectful, then she's obviously not worth your friendship.
1013695
i gues people just fear the things they don't know or understand. One of my best friends is a girl and we haven't done anything other than a hug.  I guess if you are ever in a relationship then make sure your boyfriend understands the situation. It could also be the people that are around you, cause I really haven't had that problem.
746935
I feel like if its your girlfriend and you have a problem with it, its on her to resolve it! You shouldnt have to say anything to the guy at all. Thats her situation. Tell her once and for all how oyu feel about it and if she does not do something ( stop hanging out with him or make him stop calling so much, w/e would make you more comfortable) then she does not care enough about you! I think she should care enough to ease your mind and to put you before him!
760207
Honestly, I think you're both wrong. \n\nUnless it's seriously inhibiting your friendship with her, I think that until she asks for your advice or starts complaining about the situations (which, I will admit are NOT healthy for her)... then there's nothing you can do about it and you really just have to make a decision whether to be there for her, not let it affect your friendship with her and butt out, or move on and no longer be her friend. \n\nShe also has absolutely NO right to pass judgement on your relationship. How you choose to be in a relationship is between you and your boyfriend... it has nothing to do with her.\n\nIt's great that you care about your friend and how her decisions affect her life in a negative manner, but she's pretty much stuck in her ways and until something seriously negative happens to her to change her mind or she grows up and realizes what she's doing is immature & that relationships are supposed to be EQUAL - not unbalanced EITHER way.
718278
Your friend was jelous that you had a boyfriend and she probably didn't have one at the same time you did. She was jelous that you'd hang out with your boyfriend more than her so she's hurt that you'd choose your boyfriend over her. You should tell her that you still want to be friends with her. If she does ignore you, you tried.
990807
I have to agree with your friend. College is hard enough without having to deal with the drama of a relationship. Focus on your studies for now. Relationships come and go, but friends are friends for life. Besides, you may be surprised at what might come out of that freindship.
340901
I would consider her no longer your friend.  Especially if she is running away from you.  I think she may be jealous of you and your boyfriend. If she can't talk to you and tell you what is going on than I think you need to leave her be and find a new friend.
1098194
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.