how do you tell a guy nicely that you don't like him without hurting his feelings?
475426
Honestly, most guys prepare for No when they ask, if they are that senstive that they can't take being told no by a girl, they are in for a very long hard life
502243
Give him a text about you, tell him what your dislikes and likes are.\nWho you love, who you hate, etc.
574883
Turn him down as nice as you can if you are not interested.  If he becomes really upset you might consider offering him some sexual release to ease the pain as a goodbye gesture.
404431
Who cares what he thinks? if he was accusing you in a playful/joking way it's not a big deal. if he was saying it in a 'stay away from my friend' way, then he's a jerk. in any case, if it ever comes to your mutual friend's attention, you just have to hope that HE trusts you enough to believe you when you say you don't like him. \n\nbut on that note, are you sure that you don't like him? because having such a strong reaction to an accusation that you do implies that you do like him, but you're just afraid and don't want him to know.
252086
This is for you now and for the rest of your life.  As a guy, I wish all women would follow this advice:\n\nJust tell him.  Tell him honestly.  Don't be cruel but don't delay, and don't try to spare his feelings.  There's no way to keep him from being hurt and YES HE MAY HATE YOU, but it's much better to let him move on.  The more you draw it out or try to make it easier the harder you will make it for both of you.\n\nDon't do it in front of his friends or your friends.  Don't try to make it easier by offering to stay friends (though you may stay friends anyway, but don't force it).  Don't start listing his faults or reasons why you're breaking up; just keep it simple and say it's how you feel and it's not because of something he did or because there's something wrong with him (unless, of course, it is).
172352
if you really don't like him or even admire him, cut the relation in order not to hurt him as you won't like anybody to hurt you
1033705
Tell him "Since I met you I'm not interested in any woman."  If he then shows emotion on his face quickly say "I mean man!" and giggle.  Pass it off as a slip of the tongue or a joke.
404869
Simply tell him. If he does like you he will be pleased that you told him. It's unlikely that he will make you feel bad.
291787
Just have a talk with him and tell him the truth.  He would appreciate that instead of him thinking that you'd rejected him because you didn't like him.  Tell him that you have your own issues to deal with first.
196525
just tell them straight up that youre not interested. just say "sorry but i dont like you in that way, just as a friend" or something. thatz what i told the ones i turned down. and were still pretty good friends. i mean some  we just   grew apart  but nothin to do with me turning them down.
409562
Do it in a mature and dignified way.\n\neg. "You know, Zakk, I don't really care for your friends."\n\nIf he's a doofus he'll say, "So" or "Do I care ?"\n\nPerhaps he'll ask you why....be prepared to tell him the truth.....and also be prepared to accept that perhaps you just don't know them very well !
55215
Be kind, but rip off the metaphorical Band-Aid.  You have to let him know that you appreciate his affection for you, but that you simply don't feel that way about him.  If you give him false hope, he will cling to that hope and be hurt eventually anyway. Let him down easy, but for goodness sake, let him down.
345391
Well if your not attracted to him, dance with him, dont flirt with him and if by any chance he flirst with you tell him in a nice way your not into him in that form.
1146101
Please don't use the its not you its me line. It is one of the most hurtful things a guy can hear because he knows it is not true. You should explain your feelings to him. You don't have to be excessively nice or mean just tell him the truth.
859975
Tell him again, write him back, don't pull any punches, don't sugar coat anything, don't tell him, that he's a nice guy and your not interested in him, tell him straight up.. to back off your not interested in him, you have a boy friend, and you don't want him to write you any more messages. You might of sent him mixed messages in the past, so tell him one more time to stay away, if he doesn't tell the principal or your boyfriend, because the guys is stocker, and a lain idiot
974952
Any guy that cusses at you isnt worth your time. On the other hand, if you still like the fellow you cannot make him tell you that he likes you, but you can tell him that you like him. However, in doing so you run a risk of him swearing at you which brings me back to the original point that i first stated. In the end however, balls in your court. good luck. :)
42547
Just be honest and tell him&#92;her that you're not interested..