how can i find out whether i love somebody to marry or not?
475762
If you have to ask this question, you are not ready or he's not the one.  Give it some more time????
53240
Trust me when I say that the only way you are going to get anywhere with this love interest of yours is by communication. There is no real way to find out if someone feels as strongly for you as you do for them unless you ask them. Now, I know this is the most popular answer, or the exact answer you were looking for, but it is the only 100% full-proof way that you're going to get an answer. \n   There are several ways you can go about asking this question. You can do it through an email or handwritten letter, over the phone, or in person during a time in which it is just the two of you. I recommend doing it in person so that you can explain your feelings as they come up and maybe persuade her to feel the same way you do.\n   In the end, the final decision is on you. Only you can take the necessary steps to attain your love. Will fear or desire drive your actions? Be strong!
130782
First, open ur bible and read 1Corinthians 13:4-8 and if he/she resembles a bit of all or most of these qualities, then he loves u. The best way to know, is if he/she puts ur feelings, thoughts, emotions, ideas...ect, before his/hers. Lastely if they respect u. I hope this answers ur question. \nGood luv'n.
525251
I think marriage is a wise decision only if you love the other person. You should care more about the other than yourself. Your life should be truly devoted to providing happiness and well being for the other. You should be able to communicate. It sounds like alot to ask for, but if you are truly in love, you will do all these things willingly, without thinking about it. \n\nI have been married nearly two years. My husband and I made it through the hardest part because of how strong and reliable our love is. Life without a partner to share it with isn't worth living.
336259
you should always marry for love. you should love the one you marry. your love will grow as the years pass.
664316
If you beleve in God then i will tell you that you must get on your knees and pray like you never prayed before.  At this time you need the Lord to tell you what your next move is.  I know that it may be hard to believe that someone you do not see can give you the best answer however it s true.  Listen and you wil hear him tell you the best way to handle things.  You can forgive him however that does not mean that you should stay married .  That depends on if you think that he will never do it agin.  Pay attention to his patterns and observe before you are quick to ask.   From experience a man will lie and lie until he is caught up.  Sometimes we woman speak to quick.  Let time reveal what type of person he is.  Time will tell if he is doing this because he just does not care or if he really has a problem.
599641
Well I wouuuuld tell you, but since I have to be married, no answer for you. I live with my bf and we're close enough to married, but noooo, I can't answer.
458129
I have to say marry whom you love because if you don't love the person you marry what says you will end up loving them in the end
567195
I can't answer that. I'm getting married this sept because I know in my heart that I don't want to be without his guy.  think it over, imagine your life during the holidays, or down the road 10 years. Do you still want to be with this person? Imagine having kids...do you want to have children with this person? That's the only think I can tell you. Just feel it, you will know. Truthfully, I was crying when I realized how much I loved my guy, he was too. Its that compelling.
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you have to kind of like the person who you want to marry.\nI think your family's point of view is as important as yours. and even if you do not love that person, make sure that you do nto hate him.\n\nIf he is nice caring and faithful you will fall in love later on in your life.\n\nAll the Best
629150
Maybe if you ask him his name. If he answers "love me", then you'll knew.\n\nGood answer notyou311.
70723
you can test whether she loves you or not this way:\nTake her to a hotel, and order something (ask the bearer to delay ;) ) Do this before the Valentines Day. Open ur heart and express your deep feeling as much as u can. Then ask her to tell final decision. I suppose that it will be a FOR. Do tell whether ur love is success. :)
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1.Why did you get married to some one whom you don't love?\n2.If you have kids.then please don't leave the one you have married because when the kids are going to grow up then they are going to blame you for their miserable life.\n3.Tell the one you married about this ?\n4.Try to avoid the other person in you'r life because you don't know maybe the one you love love you only for you'r money.
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i would say love marriage. because you get to know the person before you actually fall in love and then married them. \nArranged marriage you are stuck getting married to someone that you dont even know.
727164
huh?...well what the hell I'll take a stab at it anyway...do you love someone already? then marry them...if not and you are not likely to meet anyone for whatever reason and you are getting older...go for the arranged marriage...never know you might love him after a while...it could happen..
1133796
If you are not sure if he love you, ask him if he love you its ok, but if he doesnt all you have to do is move on with your life. no use stuck with someone that dont love you
1059931
Ok..what? You like someone....so you are asking if you have to propose to them? Don't you propose to a person when you love them and want to marry them? If you like a person, you tell them and hope that they like you back.