If a girl says that she loves you but then she is fighting with u all the time is that really love?
477076
well if that's what shes doing it means one of two things she just plain lazy and was just putting on a  show to get with you int he first place, or she just feels comfortable enough around you to be like that you know?
19053
i think the arguing is a clue that there is a lack of love somewhere. remember actions speak louder than words. only you will know if he truly loves you or not
25261
you should care but if she really loves you she wouldn't let you go
102699
Your love because if she really loves you and you love her love can be anything you want it to be!!!
886615
Unconditional love is just that, unconditional.   Whether she ever returns the feelings or not isn't a concern.   If you love someone... then love them, regardless.
127944
If she talks to you, would willingly do things for you whenever you ask.\nif she flirts with you and genuinely enjoy your company and your sense of humor no matter what it is.\nThen she has strong feeling for you.\nI would not define it as love yet, but very strong feelings.\nTime will tell, because you will never truly know until she says it out loud.
334600
No it's not normal. That is abusive of her. \nIf what she says hurts your feelings and they are meant to hurt, then it's abuse. If she says these kinds of things repetitively, its abuse.
105980
well I have good news and bad news. If she is angry chances are she still loves you. YOu dont really get upset with people you have no feelings for. The bad news is that nothing can make the pain go away, and if you really love her you always will. But as time passes so will the pain. The two of you can never have a healthy relationship because you have too much history now. So chalk this as a learning experience because maybe thats what it was meant to be.
749267
I know where this girl is coming from. I think she is pushing you to see if you will take off at the first sight of trouble. Thats what I do. It's a way for her to protect herself from jerks. It's not fair to you but it sounds like she's been hurt before. Go to her and talk to her face to face, not on the phone. Tell her that she is pushing you away and that is why you are pushing back. Ask her flat out if she wants this relationship to continue. If she does then you have to make a personal decision, can you stick around through the ups and downs? If so then tell her you will wait it out. Let her get comfortable with you and trust you. If she pushes too much and you no longer feel wanted at all then tell her that, let her know that it can't continue, and that you need more than that.
117739
it might just be a chemical love. I had that back in the day once haha but you should wait awhile before you tell her and give it some time to see if it is really love.
173276
Instead of fighting her on it go out and do something yourself, instead of worring about what she is doing. Relationships that have these problems dont last, so if you love her you need to love everything about her or move on.
315607
like you- not really boyfriend forever type thing. SHe mainly just likes you for fun but it won't last long.\nbut i love you is a totally different story. When a girl says "i love you" she really means it.
410765
she is confusing the best thing i can say is she sounds like shes scared of commitment she seems like she doesnt want to get to close to u incase u hurt her mayb shes been hurt in the past. she likes u alot trust me but she doesnt want u to think she is to overkeen on u but then again she doesnt want u to leave her or to dislike her thats why she shows u a bit of affection. and thats why she has got a split personality. shes is embarrased when u tell her u love her i dont think she means to hurt u. i bet if u asked her why is she like that she would say i dont know i dont mean to. some girls are just like that mayb if u treat her the way she treats u then mayb she will change or walk away but somethings gotta b done about it cause it doesnt seem right hope i helped good look
547031
That's certainly isn't called "LOVE" to me.\n\nTo me, love is someone who really cares about you, respects & trusts you (unless you're proven not to be trustworthy), appreciates you & accepts the ways you're, wants to share lots of things/ideas/experiences with you, wants to cheer you up esp. when you feel unhappy/grumpy/frustrated, is passonate/empathetic about your feelings, is honest with you (well... telling some little white lies with a purpose of avoiding hurting you or cheering you up is okay I think ^_^), is loyal to you, forgives you quickly about your mistakes (but with big mistake like unfaithfulness, it depends on people's characteristics), thinks of you a lot, will be here for you when you need him/her (unless he/she is living far away but he/she will keep contact with you), will try to understand your thought and actions, will try his/her best to help you through difficulties, will use utmost effort to protect you from being harmed and will sincerely answer your questions! ^_^
1119694
I don't think she loves you, and I praise her maturity in not saying it when she doesn't mean it. Maybe you should re-evaluate your feelings and see that maybe you are just infatuated with her.
717772
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
593728
Maybe because when you love someone, you tend to notice every single thing they do - be it big or small. Everything they do is important to you, which is why a small mistake may cause a  fight.