When do you tell someone that you are in a relationship how many times you have been married?
489139
I would attempt to handle this as early as possible in any relationship so that it does not become a problem later on. Also, it provides for a great topic of conversation for both parties whether they have been married or not.
1181298
I'm a male in my second marriage who married a woman who hadn't been married previously and its worked out great. In fact I'm glad the first marriage didn't work and we have been together 20 years and I would marry her again tommorrow. I'm sure your fiance was just meaning the second time around would be best for himself. Communication and genuine friendship is the key and humor is also very important. We often tease each other in a lighthearted manner. Also we have 2 children whom we are very proud of.
54257
5 years after marriage. or 8, if you're not married.
438165
OK JUST TELL THIS PERSON THAT YOUR ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP......WHY DO YOU NEED TO ASK WHAT SHOULD YOU DO ABOUT THAT ITS COMMON SENSE....
1095876
It depends on your relationship.  My husband told me the first time we went out that he was going to marry me.  He asked me officially 4 months later.
158946
Nope.\n\nThe reason is when I, and most others, meet someone there is a lot of emotion involved.  Yet, as an old chinese proverb says, you don't really know someone until you have been with them for 4 seasons.\n\nIs this person going to blow all my money?  Will this person be likely to run at the first sign of trouble?  Will this person be likely to cheat?  Can I answer these questions right after meeting someone?\n\nThis is not always true.  I know a couple that met and married a week later.  They were together for over 50 years until he passed on.
592714
My husband and I dated for 6 weeks before he proposed to me, then I left Germany for 6 months, we were engaged during this time and married exactly 6 months later. We have been married almost 11 years. It hasn't all been roses though, we didn't know eachother really in the beginning and we were more in LUST then in love, we realize that now, but I believe that God brought us together for a reason! We have three beautful children and a good life together...I'd do it again for sure.
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Many past lovers? My question for you unfortunately is have you been checked for AIDS etc? Sorry for that, but your saying many lovers made me think that as a first thing. What do you consider many? Some think more than one is many, others have had so many they don't even know a number.  I would be careful how this is approached. I do believe honesty is the best approach in a serious relationship, there is no way of ever knowing how he will feel with whatever you tell him. I do wish you the best in whatever you decide to do....
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I would pick QUALITY over QUANTITY anyday!!! But since you asked about quantity, it varies from week to week depending on what life decides to throw at us. WE have been married for 5 years and have 7 kids. We average 3-4 times a week...some weeks its everyday..and some weeks its once.
986230
Let's see... We have been married for 4 years and we have two children and do it 1-2 times a week. I think that is normal for most couples. Since you have no children I would aim for 2-3 times a week. But the question is not how often should we but how often do we WANT to have sex.
781492
OMG...all this for a boyfriend? How many boyfriends have you had? I suggest you work on securing your self and not make life decisions based on a non-commited relationship. Yes, non-commited. It really doesn't matter how much he says he cares. If you don't have that marriage certificate, it's a bad decision.
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Couple here\n\n\n\nNot often enough, cause of the Kids!!!!\n\n\nBut i heard that for couples the average should be at least twice a week to keep a relationship healthy.
1156498
Happened to me. We have been married now for almost 4 yrs and we have 2 kids.
371504
I've read a few articles and they say 2-3 times a week is about normal.  It depends on your busy schedules as well.  A lot of couples are lucky to get 1 in a week.
1055647
I guess that really all depends. What value is there in your partner knowing how many previous partners you've had - as long as you and he are both clean? Traumatic events, in my own opinion, if you think that your past traumatic events could create some problems in your relationship, then it might be best to consider whether or not you and he are meant to be BEFORE indulging him in your entire past. The only reason I say this is because you'll need to trust him completely, and he shouldn't be frightened away by what you've been keeping. Though I'm sure sharing the information would give you some sens of relief, he might become more afraid to engage in certain activities with you knowing your emotional past. Not only that, but what if he leaves you not long after, and were to share this information with others? Childish - yes, but you need to watch out for number 1 first - That number 1 is YOU! Good luck! I hope it all goes well!
407407
when u first get together about 21 times!! then the longer you are together the more it goes down(especially hovering around the three year mark) but don't fear - it slow rises again(no pun intended!!Hehe!) never to the extent of when ur first together. but hey every couple is diferent so you'll have to read all the answers and find out!!Good Luck
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honestly, how long have you been together? cos i bet he's waiting to hear it from you. just, whenever the two of you feel really close, just tell him. but the best way to tell him for the first time is when the two of you are alone.