what do you do to someone who wants to hurt you, but say they are doing it for the good?
483203
For who's good?  Call the cops.  \n\nIf he meant doing it for good, that means you wont live through it.  Call the cops.
656797
I think a rude answer, but why waste your energy trying to get back at someone?  Just ignore them and let it go, then you are the better person.
677282
Don't do anything.  Don't let this person think that what they do affects you.  Be the better person.
715259
Thoughtful provocation for certain.  I believe that we, as human beings, should be the best we can be, and can feel good about ourselves if we live a life free from hurting others and trying to do good whenever possible.  \n\nTo tell someone they are going to hell is to be intentionally and willfully hurtful, even though they may honestly believe they are trying to get them 'on the right path'.  No one wants to hear that someone believes they are damned, especially if it's because they don't believe in the same things.
1103983
Well there are the obvious ways like being kind to them, like the golden rule and everything, and then there is my way. Slap the crap out of their face. :]
117664
Realize that he/she is a manipulative .... who is just doing this to feel powerful. What's more empowering than driving someone crazy by ignoring them? If you did something to hurt them, apoligize but don't beg for forgiveness afterwards. That just feeds their need for control. If you apoligize and they still are going to be a bratty ...., don't do anything more. You've apoligized. What the .... more do they want?
119918
Well its your choice what you say.  You can be honest without being rude.  As far as  hurting her?  There is probably nothing you can do about that.  Unfortunately we all get hurt sooner or later.
292982
It isn't anyone's place to tell you how you is right or wrong.\n\nI can tell you this. Hate uses up a lot of energy. \n\nI was face with a big forgiveness issue a few years back. I found for me that I first needed to define what forgiveness wasn't rather than what it was.\n\nIt is not saying it is ok what was done to me.\nIt is not saying I have to trust this person\nIt is not saying I have to let this person hurt me again.\n\nSo what did I conclude it was for me? For me it is just letting go and letting be. It freed me up to focus on going on with my life and establishing relationships with other people who would not be hurtful to me.\n\nMy two cents worth any way.\n\nI wish you the best.
200580
If they are doing that it is very cruel and immature. It doesn't say much for their character or the character of the people that they are involved with. It is sad. \n\nThe best thing you can do is ignore it, as hard as its, you just have to let it go. If you ignore it and walk away, they will stop.
612595
Tell the one whom u think u have hurt. First clear it up with him/her that whether u have hurt the person or not. Maybe the person has just the opposite response. And maybe u r wrong.
220576
think about when somebody makes you mad.  what do you want that person to do? apologize? give you space? comfort you? what? i suggest that you try what ever would work on you.  use your own judgment.
731701
No, I try not to do that. I don't want them to fall of the pedestal and then seem like a bad person for whatever thing they did.
83898
If you don't want to tell them then show it to them. Do things that you wouldn't normally do for another person. Be nice to them and show them that you care.
606557
Well, if the person is my friend, I will talk to him. People in our life who loves us the most, also expects a lot from us. If their expection is not fulfilled, they are hurted and to combat it, they retariate that hurt back to us.This type of people will straighly deny about expectations, in general. After hurting you, they are also upset.\n\nThen if the person is just a acquaintance, and he enjoy himself after hurting you, you must get rid of them.
1118684
If you've hurt someone in the past, go to that person and ask for forgiveness. If you've been bad in the past, then its time for you to change your ways and be a good person. Have a positive outlook in life so you'll invite positive energy. Treat everyone equally.. and reach out to people around you. Do not mistreat people whom you think are inferior than you. Be kind, and help others.. and you'll see the changes happening one by one.
713128
I think people say things for a reason....\n\nWhen somebody says harsh stuff to you, they'll say afterwards "Oh I'm sorry, I didn't mean it"... They probably *do* feel sorry and regret saying hurtful things to you, but I think they *do* mean those things but they just never meant to say them out loud... Anger is just about letting the truth out, good or bad... \n\nI think you should wait for her to call you (and if she doesn't, you know what you gotta do) and make sure things are clear and there's no misunderstanding between the two of you... She'll come around when she realizes that you truly care about her, believe me.
688857
Being honest about your feelings you should keep it straight forward and to the point knowing that you have done this will make you feel alot less guilty about hurting his feelings