I am a 25 y/o catholic from Salem, OR and can't find a girl. What do I do?
488434
Stop trying to look for a girl. If God's got a girl in mind for you, then you've just got to trust Him to bring her to you in His time. Instead, try becoming the kind of person you want for your future wife. Once you focus more on making yourself more like Christ, you won't worry so much about trying to find the girl you want because she will come to you.
206574
I'm not sure but try the web sites. Maybe you will have luck and find someone you like.
194781
One place for you to meet a guy(and take it from me b/c im a guy) is church or even the gym. You have nice men that go there. But the main thing you must know is not to rush it. Don't act desperate for a man,because if you act desperate then that would send out the wrong man radar and then you'll find yourself dating a rapists or something. Your priorty is your children first, but if you want guarentee great men, church. Or maybe even at your job. But dont be in a rush to get a man... the right man would come to you.. and there is a right man for you somewhere.. Just dont go out on dates by yourself.. go in like groups first.
1125824
maybe you are not looking in the right place but you need not look wait for her to come to u thats the best way. try overseas
869976
You're on the right path. Hold on to your virginity and be honest about this. Most of them are jerks, but this will weed them out and you'll eventually be likely to come across a decent man.
1057657
Some advice,,,,, Here is not the place to find one. Go out, enjoy the outdoors, hang out with friends, meet new friends. And when you  aren't looking you will find a girl you are interested in. It seems when you look , no luck. But when you go about your day, wow it happens.
174762
Yes in deed.... You are focused on the negatives here... Lots of people work nights so that I don't think is the problem.  Get involved in a group in your town of some kind or volunteer.  Quit looking for love, it will find you!  When you least expect it and at the place you would never look.  Get up and get going time is a wasting... Write down a list of all the things  you like to do and start from that as far as find people to socialize with.  Also if you go to church look in your sunday school dept.  Remember women lead  you to women!   So get moving!  wont be long  till your question will be " I don't have enough time for all my friends and work, what do I do?
253644
Go to church.  Live your life and you'll come across somebody.  If you look too hard, you always find the wrong person.  And don't forget to be social, and Yahoo Answers doesn't count as being social.
118176
I'm afraid that I do not know the proper name for a Muslim celergyman, please forgive my ignorance about that, but you could go to a Cleric in your Mosque, tell him that you feel ready for marriage and seek his advice about how to meet girls with a suitable background. He would know which families in your area have daughters of marriagable age and probably would be the person best able to judge which of the young women you might be compatable with for marriage.\nGood luck.
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girl, or what ever you are. Tell them you have to get to know me, and maybe you got to go to the last resort, the church.  If you believe in God, then you should go. There's always somebody you can at least try in church.  Plus they won't try to get into ur panies as quick as some men.  But I promise you whoever you end up with that's the "one" and trust me you'll know who the one is-remember I promised you- you'll be content with them. It's something about love and fate that just trips me out how they truly interact with each other,comebine perfectly and leave you with an epiphany that yo feel as if it were right in your face.
413613
Maybe you should try a dating site....www.mate1.com......Its free for ladies and you can find a guy in your area.
115027
christian women are the only available single women who will be honest about it.  Go to church, not to look for women, but 2 get yourself close to God. Then pray and ask God to send you someone with all the qualities you are looking for. Believe me it's the only way.\nWomen now a days try to play the games they think the guys are playing, and end up playing themselves. cristian women are the way to go.\n\nP.S. - they want single available christian men
606677
Look everywhere. if u r an adult and working, look for a girl at work. if ur a teen, look for someone at school. you will find a girl wtih your personality and your sorta style.
43397
hey, i went online, maybe you can too.  I've gotten lots of attention but haven't found anyone yet that I'm interested in dating full time.  It takes time but if you meet this person online, you could get to know her a little better and then maybe after a few emails, a few message sessions, and a few phone calls you might actually work up your courage to go on a date.  It might work!
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Yeah they still exist just not on the internet.(Not for dating anyway), Find something like a community theater to join or a function where a lot of people attend, Church fitness club Ymca the list goes on and on. The best way to meet people is to be around people. Check on volunteer work things like that. A Cancer walkathon or something where you can walk and talk and help someone at the same time. Decent Men and women are out there but you have to make yourself available.\n\nGood Luck!!
1184367
there are alot of places to meet ppl but on the net maybe for real go out for dinner with friends. make new friends they will have others in there groups you could met. this way yr widening yr scope for meeting the right girl
641980
This is a loaded question which has many answers.  Since I do not know you nor do I know the friends of which you speak, it is hard for me to give you an accurate answer.  I will do my best.  \n\nPeople are inclined to seek out people...its human nature.  When looking for a mate, perhaps we have a vision in our mind of what's "ideal"...she's funny or he's handsome, she loves the theater, he loves to cook.  We set up a scenario only to be disappointed when there seems to be no match.  So, what is one to do?  Wait and pray for that soul mate to appear one day?  Maybe resign yourself to the fact that there is 'nobody' for you?  Or, do you settle for someone who is not quite what you were looking for but close enough to build something with...perhaps leaving you to wonder if that 'soul mate' is still out there?   The answer lies in you.  God won't shout down from 'above' with a megaphone "Go to the bookstore, you will find your mate there."  \n\nYou've reminded me of a joke I once heard.  I'll abbreviate it for you:  Every day a woman would go to church and pray to God that she would win the lottery. But, every night she would be disappointed when she didn't win.  One day God spoke to her and said "Meet me half way and buy a ticket." \n  \nYour ticket lies in your heart.  Good luck....