i'm married but i chat on the internet when iam free with girls and guys and my husband in work.is that worng
475071
If you feel like you need to keep it a secret from  him, then yes it is wrong.  If you do it for more than just casual companionship, then it is cheating even if its not in a physical sense.
41608
Yes and I married him but it was over 9 years ago when the internet was new & less dangerous like it is now.  I wouldnt think of meeting someone on the internet nowadays.  But back then, it was by chance that it happened b/c neither of us was on there looking for anyone & it was my first time on the internet the day I actually met my husband.  We met b/c God put us in the right place, at the right time.
508181
You are goin against company policy, get back to work before i fire ure a$$.\n\nUre boss\n\nhehehehe...jus playin\n\ntry msn web messenger or yahoo web messenger...but some companies may still block those domains.\n\nif ure jst bored and not exactly want to chat with personal friends, then try joining forums, its like chatin thru email, but kinda like IM too.
583272
Will you have a little talk with MY husband for me?\nLOL\n\nSounds like your wife is a very lucky woman, with a wonderful husband!
763522
Yep. \n\nYou're lusting over other women. If she did this to you with men, how would you feel? You would probably be a little jealous, a little angry, and being a guy you may want to retaliate by showing her you could "hook-up" with women online. And she doesn't know if the only thing you're doing is a "sex-chat". If she was alone in her room with the computer... on a webcam... in some lingerie or WHATEVER... you would want to know if she's doing something else besides talking dirty. You would probably wanna stay and make sure that's ALL she was doing. \n\nAnd she may feel the same way right now. She already knows you're a pervert. Do you want her to think you're a sex-addict too?! \n\nBut that might not be a bad idea... She might try to help you "work through your situation" and let you "chat" a little bit at a time until you're "cured". ?\n\nI think it would be best for your relationship if you just quit and tried to work things out with your wife. Who knows? You might find something else more "fun" to do together. Seriously. Just ask her.\n\nOh...\n\nYeah, you can be termed as deceitful and unfaithful.\n\nBrother DzL (AsP)\n"The Player's Lifestyle"
238213
Many. I've had several friends that I met on the Internet for up to 12 years now. I've met many of them in real life, sometimes meeting up with a group of us for a weekend vacation. Several others I've met when one was nearby for some reason or other.  I've also dated two of the women I've met on the internet and had a great relationship with both.( note: I knew each for a couple years before we started dating)\n\nThe internet can be used as just another extension of communicating and I see little problem with meeting people that I've become friends with.
689341
I have been married for 21 years.  First you have to be honest and communicate with your spouse.  If you had been, he may not have been spying on you.  Talk to your husband about it.  If he is uncomfortable with you two off somewhere, you should respect his feelings.  Only communicate with your friend if your husband is aware of conversations, meetings, etc.  My husband knows the male friends I may talk to or he can read the emails we send each other.  I also know of his female friends.  If it is innocent, then keep it in the open.  Would you really be o.k. if the shoe was on the other foot and your husband was off with a "girl" friend?  Alone?
532234
sure if its only chatting
1124945
Why would it be?  Why would that make you fast?  You simply enjoy hanging out with men.  There is nothing wrong with that.  As long as you stay faithful if you have a boyfriend or husband and don't flirt to an amount that makes them uncomfortable, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.\n   I am a male and I have more female friends than male.  I am married and know the limits and my wife is okay with it as long as I stay within those limits.\n   Do not worry about what other people say.  You are you, and you only have to worry about being happy yourself.
569355
In high school and when I was single, I had more guy friends.  My best friends were women though.  I think I had more guy friends because I liked the attention and flattery without having to be committed in a relationship.  \n\nNow that I'm married, I have more girl friends...I get all the attention and flattery from my husband!  I can relate to women more...especially women who are married and/or with kids.\n\nMy husband doesn't have girl friends and I don't have guy friends...unless they're mutual friends of ours.  It relieves us both of making the other feel uncomfortable.
408807
I honor my husband with my life. there is no number that can express that. i have NO office players, no online love or anything like that. if you are married you arent supposed to have stuff like that going on. If you look at the opposite sex with lust in your heart and mind you are committing adultery. (in the bible)!
295268
I think that you should probably talk to your husband about this.  \n\nIf you are simply talking to other men - your boss, your minister, your banker - that's probably okay.  \n\nIf you have male friends, defining your relationship with those male friends may be someting to talk to your husband about.  By that, I mean that your husband may not appreciate your male friends calling at 2 a.m. to ask if you can pick them up from the bar because they are too drunk to drive home.  Your husband may also not appreciate you being ALONE with another male.\n\nYou definitely shouldn't be intimate with other men - that should go without saying.
708901
I have found that it's ok to chat to married men just because they are safe so to speak. Like there's no reason to have to worry that this guy is just trying to feed me a cheezy pic up line you know. Like I can totally relax, And I can appreciate that about a mature married guy. It may be just that you know.
776766
thats all you can is talk talk talk so yeah I do think so  otherwise you would just sit and watch tv or something and not have to talk. That is how I met my husband, we talked more then then we do now.....SO YES YES YES
997665
if you met him in a chat and talk regular. maybe texing and as you say haveing sex by calling. the jelousy you probabily feel is a insecure feeling because you know you met him on line. and you know how easy it is for a guy to get this pleasure in a chat this way. so (cyber sex) for both sexies is easy. and now i guess that you both meet on line you feel he is talking with other women why he is talking to you. what ever happens youll never stop him from doing this why hes not with you because if hes going to do it he will. so i suggest 1 thing. make up an i.d. for you and him to talk in private itll make you feel better because you know he will not be talking with any one else on this id. and the same goes for you to. but yes the feeling of jelousy is normal.
34306
Part of the problem with chatrooms is that many women won't even talk to other women.  I would assume the same is true of guys.  Maybe when he approaches a guy to chat the guy won't respond.  If he is not having cyber intercourse, and not meeting them, then it might be ok.  If he chats for hours and hours every day, especially if you are both home and he ignores you in order to chat, then it's probably reasonable for you to feel betrayed.
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there is nothing wrong in chatting with moer than one males.\ndont males chat with several women