Should I just let go?
485400
If you truly value your friendship with her let her go. She is changing and she needs to grow. Unfortunately it may not be in the same direction you are going right now. This happens to a lot of friendships as we get older and mature. She needs to do this for herself right now. Eventually she may come back to being her old self and realize what a wonderful friend she has in you. I went through this myself and for about 5 years was out of touch with 2 of my best friends from school. We are now better friends than we were back in school. Don't take any of this personally, it isn't about you, it is about your friend needing to go in a different direction right now. This is also your time to find other friends too. Don't do or say anything that could jeopardize the friendship you had with her. You both need some space and hopefully in time you will be able to get back what you had before, and it will be even better.
1182338
No matter what you do, DO something. Don't let her be the one that got away. I can relate. I didn't do something. She got away. It might be hard to say something to her after so long, but would you rather let it eat away at you for another 6 years? The rest of your life? Don't pass it up. Maybe reading that article was fate's way of saying "DO IT". Good Luck.
768878
let yourself go. dont think aobut making yourself cry. just wait. it will come when you least expect it and it will be good.
1148009
i got out of a long relationship too. I think that if it was a year ago, you may be holding on. even if you're not holding on, I think that you should come to love you as a you and not as a you and him. It's a wonderful thing, being in a relationship and having soneone care about you. but all the same, it's wonderful to be single and to grow as an individual. I wish you the best of luck with what ever happens, but just as an ending thought... the greatest thing in the world is to know haw to belong to oneself. (montaigne)
669496
Depends on your WHY\n\nIf it because of your past experience, then try to let it go and start new day.  Maybe you want to see this website abt letting go ...http://www.jimbritt.com\n\nGood luck
956246
Remember, people are ALWAYS communicating with you, even if it is non-verbal.  Right now he's saying that the pain of confrontation and admitting his bad behavior is more painful than trying to repair your relationship.  You have offered to try to repair it through your attempts to contact him.  Now it's time to let it go.  Big talker, right?  I didn't say it was going to be easy, or pain-free, it just has to be done for your own sake.  And believe me, you don't want to feel like you don't give a damn, that would be denying your feelings, your trust in your relationship, and your broken heart.  I'm going to tell you to do something that is going to sound dorky, but I really want you to try it (what do you have to lose?)  Write him a letter.  Say everything you want to say about how you feel, how hurt you are, how angry you are, call him names.  End the letter by saying goodbye and saying how much you will miss the relationship you had.  You will never send this letter.  After you've written it, read it once, then rip it up and throw it away.  I promise you this will help.  You will still hurt, but please do this and you will feel better.  You need closure, and since he's not giving it to you, give it to yourself.  Let me know how it goes.
706164
Why bother,just let it go.
688597
All of you step back and take a breather. Spend a bit of time alone before doing anything as you still sound a bit confused about your feelings to be honest. Then you'll make a good decision
797137
Ever heard yhe old saying that if you love someone and they want to leave you should let them go if it is meant to be they will comeback to you. Try this on your freind and see what happens\nGood luck
282934
I wonder how many people have been in your position and let it go, always wondering if it was the right thing to do? I say GO FOR IT!! What the hell do you have to lose? If it doesn't work or he's spoken for, then let it go - but at least you tried. If you find him and he feels the same way you do... wellll....
375221
It's never easy to part from someone you care for.  However there comes a time when you have to do what's best for you.  Irregardless of how it might hurt the other person.  The longer you put it off the harder it will be.
900887
Let her go.....the decision was taken by her, not 2 worry\n\nforget her......find another
79308
I guess when you realise that what you have now isn't the same as when it started and it isn't something you want anymore. Just break it to her honestly, but don't be brutal. And that public place thing? It really is a good rule of thumb if you just want to get out of there, but if you live with her or still want to be friends, sit down and talk it out (even though she might do most of the talking about mean stuff) good luck and I hope all goes well.
679461
that is a very difficult question i think you need to do what is right and stop before u hurt someone including yourself. just either choose one or let both go it will be the best in the long run
932284
at least your in touch w/your feeling. be true your feeling maybe it time for a slight break just honest with your inner self!! it is okay to grow apart>
994755
Forget him. Move on with your life. Often times it may be that when he sees you again and sees how well your doing he'll feel like an idiot for having let you go
707215
If someone can make something that viscious up, then you really should let hime go. Do you! Go figure out what you want to do that you havent done and do it. Become the busy bee and chances are i he is lying he will come back. Men love a women that is about her business. Let him go!