i broke up with my boyfriend and now i feel bad wat can i do!!!?
480316
what was the reason for the break up. If he cheated, or decieved you, just forget about him. If it was just to try and get something to go YOUR way, then think about how to change that quality about yourself and try and fix things with him... Show him you're willing to change, and try your best not to force things to be done your way with threats. As you can see, that won't work with your guy... and it's really not healthy for a relationship
494212
Get over him. Since you broke up with him you should try to stick to your decision. Don't feel like he is the last guy on Earth.
601349
I was only with my guy for a year!! After we broke up i started hanging out with alot of my friends and guys!! This might sound bad but maybe you should look for a distraction!!!\nIt helped me
1010435
don't do it....i did just that thing and ended up very sad and very screwed over. after we broke up i still had to see him everyday, so that made it even harder cause i still cared very much for him. think hard before starting a work related relationship with anyone
366058
i miss my boyfriend!!!
129531
At first forgive him, because he is a fool and really poor minded. But then try to move on, you deserve someone who cares and loves you in return.\n\ngood luck :-) I know how you're feeling
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
374552
Seems to me the best way to address the situation is to be forthright and talk to him about your concerns.  If your decision is to move on to find someone more accessible to you, then say that.  There is no real way to break up with someone that won't result in hurt feelings.  But to be true to yourself and the most fair to your boyfriend, tell him how you feel and what you want.  Personally, I would recommend doing it face to face, even though it may be uncomfortable.  You may want to continue seeing one another after talking about it, but if it does end, be able to step away knowing that in the long run it may be the best thing for your both.
1129279
Go sleep on his doorstep!...haha just kidding (sorry) I'd say keep yourself busy. Especially if he's not trying to contact you. Hang out with your friends, rent movies (not romantic ones), pick up a hobby you used to have, etc. Or do like I do, go dye your hair and get it cut in a new style. It always makes me feel like a million bucks and it's my ritual after a break up. It literally turns you into "a new person" and you feel prepared to face the world.
852155
Tell them you broke up with him... then ACTUALLY BREAK UP with this loser.  What kind of a moron do you have to be to be KICKED out of school?   C'mon, you really feel that bad about yourself that you need a loser to make you feel better?
226937
you need to put yourself together. Go out and do things that you like [ helps take your mind of him ] Find someone to share your life with. In any event you need to move on. Life is to short, to sit around and do nothing. Know how you feel, been there. Hope this this helps you. Don't think about what happened. move on
63574
Love - Hate is part and parcel of the game. U will have ur ups and downs in a relationship. In the end what matters is how the two of u let some silly misunderstanding come in between.\nU said u broke up with ur bf yesterday. Leme tell u that along with urself, he is equally responsible for this. He probably did something that got u mad and u wanted to hurt him so u broke off in the heat of the moment. But now that u'v cooled off, think over it again and  ask urself if it was really worth it.\nI mean there is something that u should know - No one is perfect....\nU have got to understand that things will not always be sugary between u and any other guy for that matter. What will count in the end is how the two of u let things unfurl. \nDont let anything screw ur relationship if u really love ur partner. \n\nCommunication is the key word here.\nSo quit waiting for any more answers here, gather urself and go talk to him. If he really loves u too, Im sure he'll be  equally devastated rite now and will welcome u back.\n\nBest of luck.
219384
First off, you didn't cheat.  You were broken up and living your life and moving forward.  Personally I think it was a bad choice for you to get back with your old boyfriend.  He guilted you into it, and the truth is that nothing has changed.  You deserve to be happy and I don't think you will ever be happy with him.  End this relationship and realize that if he wants to lay in your yard and cry that is his choice and your not responsible for him.  You should never feel bad for doing what is best for you.
168751
Just because the two of you broke up doesn't mean you can brake off your feelings. It's going to take time for you to get over how you feel but you can do it. Why did you guys brake up anyway? If the love you feel is that deep maybe you should try again with this guy. Maybe he feels the same way but is not sure how you feel, it's worth a try.
73669
I'm so sorry that u had a bad breakup. I'm physic so i no. Well they break up because they have minor differences and disagreements and have no intention of compromise. But what u can do is try to get over him. If he is not coming back, then let him go. They say wen u love someone, there comes a time wen u must let them go, so try to get over him. Start seeing new people and pretty soon, it'll be a thing in the past.
64486
The main thing I would do is get my mind aff that subject. If you r always thinking about the break-up, then you will always be moping around. I recommend doing something physical like swimming or jogging etc. You could also paint or hang out with friends. Do you know someone who usually always makes you laugh? Hang out with that person. Try to be as happy as possible. Good luck!
682009
sorry to say but uve made ur bed now u gotta sleep in it.  I done the same thing last year me and my ex were going through a rough patch and i used that as an excuse to cheat i feltbad afterwards but my ex ended up finding out and even though we got back together we were never the same we could never find that spark we had in the beginning so we ended it.  It was very sad but were still friends just wish i hadnt made the mistake