Why does shagging Friends always confuse things?
476175
well i think once you become intimate with someone it confuses things and if you were just friends to begin with and that was it from the begining of course it confuses things thats what loving someone does is confuse things at least to me it does so i look at it this way at least you were friends to begin with and that is the way it is suppose to be it is actually better to be friends first before you are lovers or anything else because you know that person and now you are just getting to know them on another level and it is just awkward for you or us but it is ok now you will just have to figure out what you are going to do next so have fun and now im confused all over again
869396
I totally agree with you. It does not make any sense at all because when I talk to people and say something about people sleeping together everyone always assumes they had sex which was not what I meant at all. I think it just became a more polite way for adults in particular to say having sex because first of all they usually sleep together after the sex and second of all I think it became common when woman wanted to tell their friends about their aquintences and leave out all the details. It just a casual way to say having sex I guess.
662677
because that's how they were brought up, or that's how the people around them were. but back to the question, the persons over all surrounding and how everyone behaves around them can most likey determin y some men are anal....i hate that word...anal.\nTo:angel_mama21\nNot so much most men think women are confusing because we don't understand what they want cause some women just never put it out there like 'honey i u to make dinner' most of the time a majority (not all a majority) of women imply it and assume the man should kno which isn't fair; n which is why most men put them sleves out there like: 'i wa'na FU_CK to night' or 'could u get me (such and such) for my birthday?'
482197
Because she wants you do a 3 way with her and another guy. You are being sought out for a kinky thing. Unfortunately her other guy likes guys and you have to play with him in order to play her. So now the question is how kinky are you and are you game? Sleep good tonoght debating this.  LOL.
746427
You are thinking with your heart and other parts of your body besides your head. Your friends are just looking out. If you are confused there is a reason for it. Sit your friends down and have them tell you why they feel the way they do. They will probably open up your eyes and brain instead of him opening up something else.
1116346
well, i hav da same thougths too..i just cant understand it!!da same goes to homosexual!
546421
definitely not normal... it depends on the nature of your problem... try to rectify it... no point in losing a friend over a tiny RANDOM squabble...
281568
Yes .... getting confused is Human Nature!!!\nif u r perfectly normal then in very messy situation you can easily get confused...!!\nAnd trust me it's perfectly fine to get confused sometimes....\n;-)
1169025
I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
551209
DO NOT have a friend ask. It leads to trouble. They get mad and they wonder why you didn't ask yourself. Happened to me. Ask him if he says no shake it off. If you're good friend just ask him. Goodluck
702356
Some people are just weird, maybe he needed some time away from people. If he doesn't seem to be the reclusive type then I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Friends shouldn't be like that and if it happens again casually bring it up. Another thing is how close are you guys? New friends, old friends, etc...\nThe talking like normal might be a cover b/c ppl don't like fessing up to screwing up
996947
i have straight friends that do that. if he just acts gay around your friends, its most likely to make them laugh. you said he doesn't act like that all the time, so he is most likely not gay. but whatever he is, as long as he is a great person then he should be worthy of friendship.
480422
Are they running to you as a friend wanting advice on how to date your friend...or are you getting what's like to be called "sloppy seconds"? Either which way, the situation your in does stink...tell your friend whats wrong - that guys that like her and coming up to you after they ask her out...she should straighten them out for you if she's a friend. IF not, a good kick in the "whahoos" will definately push all romatic ideas with you out of a guys head. Just an idea.
1045749
Uh...yeah....\n\nIt's totally normal to be confused. You could be having gay thoughts but end up being totally straight. Or vice versa
1019631
It could be that it's the only way they can get laid. Those sick jerks will screw a snake if you hold the mouth open. You don't need friends like that !!!
727866
Eh. it's a tuffy. Some guys show it differently. Like maybe they will laugh at you & make fun of you, like most immature boys, or they will come right out & tell you. Guys are very...weird with their feelings. They're just too complicated. Haha.
953380
his friends were probably just messing around.  i know my friends sometimes call my house and say weird stuff but if you are unsure its best to just go and ask him instead of letting it getr in the way of a relationship.