What do you do when a boy is obsessed with u, and u can't get them off of you?
481850
Nobody wants to hear this but...talk to your parents...they should be able to put a stop to this before it turns dangerous and life threatening.  NO Joke!  This boy has a stalking problem and if it is not nipped in the bud you could get hurt. Talk to an adult if you can't your parents...but ask someone you know to help...a restraining order may be the right answer.....
67410
some people really only want what they cant have. i bet that u have alot of other good, quality guys that really like u ,but 4 some reason ur just not that attracted 2 them that way. he probly has some feelings 4 u but he knows that no matter what he does ur always gonna b there. so start thinking the same way. u should probly stay away from him as much as u can bear. try 2 ween ur self the best u can. but make sure that u really do have fun, though. if its really meant 2 be itll happen. but dont put ur fun and groth as a person on hold 4 a maybe.
94565
That's NOT love. It's obsession.\n\nIf the guy really loves you, he wouldn't do it just to keep you. He would rather let you go and see you happy.\n\nMaybe you shouldn't see him for a while because he is really hurt. If you want to be friends, let him know that.
1159940
Just don't worry about him. When u love someone, let him free. If he comes to you then he is yours, else he was never yours...
451159
if you still like him, give it another try. If not, then don';t do or say anything to incourage his feelings. Eventually they and he will go away. Good luck.
252160
Listen to your gut instincts and explain in short to him that you have no interest in him as anything other then maybe a friend if he won't except that then you may need to get some help from your friends and family if you feel like he is stalking you Good Luck and Be Careful
1133710
just chill out and get some kind of life outside of him.... \n\ntrust me if you prfess your "undying love, and how head over heels you are" your just gonna scare him....\n\nget with your friends and dont see him a couple nights a week.... the more availible you make yourself for him, the more desperate and whipped he's gonna have you
451968
Of course.  But you must know that he may drive you insane because he'll think you like other guys even if you just glance at them.  But if you love him, then love him and don't let him go.  You might even be able to help him become less over protective.
796017
He does the same thing to me!  Just ignore him.  He is just seeking attention.  He obviously has issues.
736674
You need to stop fixating on this guy. I like someone, and i can't be with me, especially seeing as i rarely see em, and it means i just think about them, then like them more, and its a really bad cycle\nSTOP\nthe more you think baout him, the more you'll like him. If he thinks your a stalker, then hes not gonna go out with you! You need to take a chill pill, stop obsessing. It will scare him off. Be cool, act uninterested and as if it was jus rumours that escalated. He's more likely to like you that way. \nHe sounds like he is a concieted jerk, but i no how easy it is to fall for em. And if he IS a jerk, the fact he knows you arent running after him MITE annoy him, guys love it when they have admirers, so wen u disappear he could veyr well want you back\nYour not a looser, your gorgeous, if he doesnt reckognise that then f*** him, its his loss. Don't let your self confidense take a dive like mine did when my guy didnt like me back. Be strong, life is full of hurdles the more you overcome the mroe grgs u are ;)
196330
It sounds like they LIKE YOU!  Boys have a way of irritating you when they like u.  They will tug your hair-walk near u-say things to get your attention- its just the way they r!  If you have no interest in them then just let it all slide.  Eventually they will get the hint.  Or do what my son did!  There was a girl always following him around and he finally turned around and looked at her and said "YOU LOVEME DONT YOU?  That made her definetely go away!  lol  It means they like you sweetheart!!!  They want your attention and unsure how to get it any other way!!!
223183
I have the same problem. My friends told me to show him clevage and to flirt with him, and then leave him alone for a couple of days, and then talk to him again. Thats what they told me to do.
64570
Leave him alone. He isn't interested in you any longer. You are doing hima favor.
375350
make em realize tat he cant stay without u.......!!!!
224101
Why would you want him back?? I am sorry, but he seems to have proved that he is untrustworthy, and a creep. I know it hurts, but put him behind you and move on with life. You will meet someone one day that would never think of walking out on you...you deserve a true love, don't settle for less.
458970
I know you don't want to hear this but You need to leave him alone, because as soon as you find someone else that you really love, a girl or boy is going to take him away from you. What goes around comes around.
314411
If a man did this it would be stalking and you need to get a life. If he doesnt want you leave him alone.