i am to afraid to ask him out i need help!?
483610
be yourself..make sure you have enough courage and maybe if you first ask him out to hang with some of your friends that will make u more comfortable and then a date on your own and go from there that could also push him to ask u
856411
Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
665892
This is 21st century love. Ask him or loose him.The call is on yopu he seem very intimidated u should loosen up a bit and give him more signal;s if u can't ask him out
591248
It must be nerve racking to ask a guy to the most important night in your high school carrer...but no worries just be confident because the way you ask him will make like 50 percent of the night .Once you learn to get rid of your fear you will see it was worth it. Try something spontaneous or something no one else would ever think about. That probably catches his attetion or try to find out what he likes computers....e-mail him the question in the library or something....you are smart you will think of something.;) Good luck!
140667
Just take a few deep breaths and realize he is probably just as nervous as you are.  He is just another person, no one to really be afraid of.  And remember, if you say somehting wrong/silly around him, he will probably just chuckle and forget about it and that's all you can do too
654774
If he wrote it was too bad you didn't go out, he so likes you.  Call him and see if he asks you out.  If you really do like him, go for it.  If he doesn't ask, see if you can get up the courage to ask him.  He'll probably say yes!!
252758
If you really like the guy then go for it.You should never be afraid to let someone you like know how you really feel.Even if your scared of his reaction,you should just do what your heart tells you to do and don't have any regrets,because whatever decision you take,it's sure to be the right one.\n                         Eric
264148
if you are to scared, write a note to him, give it to a willing friend, and write in it like "meet me after school" or "I really like you, will you go out with me?" ect. or you can talk to one of his friends to do it for you it worked for me ^.^
44688
I'd say just tell that person how you feel.  I know it can hard and most people are afraid of rejection,  but if say nothing,  then you will never know if he feels the same way.  Also,  alot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants and not afraid to go for it.  Speak from the heart and good luck!!!
31330
Quit beating yourself up and GO ASK HIM OUT!!!  He will either be flattered and accept or will say no ... either way ... you have saved yourself a lot of time and wondering
960721
You are not the shyest person, cause everybody think so when it comes to making the first attempt. I think it was a mistake for your friend to go to him instead of you. You should have went up to him. It shows that you are weak and cannot approach him. But don't worry you are probably a teenager, and we all felt the same your age. Make sure YOU go to him next time. Don't tell him you love him up front, but instead ask him out. If he says no, don't be too pushy and look for other fishes.
271128
He's probably a little nervous, and that's quite understandable. Don't push it yet. Make him feel more comfortable, and after a little while, if he doesn't ask you out and you think he still wants to, ask him.
856752
well if you guys talked before i wouldnt be so afraid to come out and take the first step, try texting him and see what hes doing over the weekend you dont have to come out and "ask him out" just see what hes doing get him talking to you again and see what happends thats  my advice
562046
there is nothing wrong with asking a guy out. from what you say you already suspect that due to his shyness he wont make the first move...so what have you got to lose by telling him how you feel and asking him out. you never know, he may just say yes. but you will only find out if you take the first step. good luck.
905869
Guys are funny. \n\nPerhaps you're right and you need to take the initiative... but perhaps he's not prepared to have a significant other in his life due to a variety of reasons- Immaturity, past relationships gone bad- whatever the reason.\n\nI think that asking to hang out is a reasonable request- but if he's as painfully shy as you say- he might say no. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you- he's just too shy.\n\nAlso something to think about- If you're outgoing (I don't know if you are or not...)- then is a shy guy really the best match for you?\n\nAt anyrate- getting to know the guy better is good no matter what- you might find that he's just not the type for you- or it could lead to him feeling comfortable enough around you to finally ask you out.\n\nBest of Luck!
92218
u had better tell him cause he might like u and he might think u dont like him and not make a move on u because he is scared of rejection, go for it
460371
thats because hes shy and hes scared of a rejection, make him feel confotable with u that way he will gain enough confidence to ask u out!!!