I am a faithful man,but my wife is always suspecting me of having a sexual afair. Can somebody tell me why????
480717
She is possibly scared she will lose you, this isn't your fault. She just doesn't think she is good enough to keep someone like you for just herself. I would suggest sitting down and talking to her about it, ask her why she thinks that, esspecially if you've never given her any reason to. Assure her you love her deeply, and that you would rather die than even look at someone else...
716129
I would worry about that too. I'm was raised as very religious, but have found the light, so to speak and have become an agnostic. I'd keep my eyes open. A cheater is a cheater. P.S. Isn't adultery a sin?
327272
It looks to me that your wife is playing with you.The way she acts towards you doesn't show that she loves you..ore respects you for that matter!I'd talk to her,tell her what you think and feel..that you need to her to change her ways,because this isn't working out for you.If she refuses,ask yourself if this is how you want to go on....clearly this is making you very unhappy,you shouldn't accept this!
513844
I don't understand how you can be 100% faithful to your wife and still have a gay sexual orientation. Did you get this sexual orientation after getting married to her or before. If its before, then its amazing you were attracted enough to a woman to marry her though you were gay and i don't know for how long now you guys have been married. But if its after, then its not fair. There is a possibility you could still get rid of the this orientation. Obviously it would not work if your wife finds out. But you should at least be sincere enough to tell her and let her make her choice which is obvious, and would be to leave the marriage, but she would not mind if she has the same sexual orientation. Just be sincere with her and come clean
654803
When you are married and are having sex with someone else. Otherwise it is all just wishful thinking. \n\nDepends what you want....a fling or another relationship. If it is a fling enjoy it for want it is but don't expect it to last forever. Do you want to get caught? If so, it is better to tell your spouse and not get caught in the act. Believe it or not, infidelity also has ethics. Use a condon always. No calling home at night. Make your lies believeable. Do not let the 2nd relationship interfere with the 1st one. You have to give equal sex or as much to satisfy each one. And lastly, ask yourself why this happened- maybe it is time to end the marriage.\n\nIf you are the third in the triangle. Don't expect much, most people do not leave their spouse. Enjoy it for what it is and be discreet and generous. Realize that you are also to blame since you should not be involved with a married person so this says A LOT about your morals also. Also, ask yourself if you in turn will be capable of being faithful in a monogamous relationship. \n\nIf you are being cheated on. You can either get out or try to work it out with your spouse if they are willing to do so. Can you live wondering when it is going to happen again if ever? Do you want to try it? The door has being opened so you could. And finally,.....how did you contribute to this? Did you see it coming? Honestly. Did you enable it?\n\nUnfortunately nobody is innocent in this situation. It's more like a 33.33% assigned blame for everyone.
855089
LOL, not to laugh at you, but it sucks you can't join in. I would ask your wife, if she must explore her fantasies, could it be with someone not related to you, so you can participate, too. I mean, if you aren't bothered, then don't make a big deal about it. Just simply state that you wished you would have know, so you wouldn't have been shocked/surprised. Ask her what her thoughts and plans are, and from there, you must decide.
388618
I think you should talk to your wife and explain to her how important sex is to you in your relationship.  Tell her you need to have sex in order to make you happy and even keep you there.\n\nAlso, ask her what are her feelings and views on sex and why she turns you down.  Try to figure out if there are things you can do differently (don't automatically assume she is satisfied) and most importantly, encourage your wife to explore her own sexuality so she will feel comfortable opening up to you and having sex with you more often, not simply out of her obligation to you, but because she enjoys sex and enjoys you.\n\nIt takes time to build a healthy sexual relationship with someone and you both have to explore what sex means to you individually and together.  It seems you want a more sexually spontaneous wife and there isn't a thing wrong with that to me.  Life is to short (or too long) to go without something vitally important to your happiness.  Most women don't grow up with a healthy sense of their own sexuality and it sounds like your wife doesn't have a sense of her own and she needs to work on that within herself.\n\nAfter all that, if things still don't work out, you need to realize that sex is important to you, there's nothing wrong with that, and you might not be able to sustain your relationship with her if you can't work it out.  \n\nDon't have an affair though, you need to learn how to work with a woman you actually love to learn how to sustain a healthy sexual relationship in the long term, affairs are only short term solutions and never deepen a sexual experience, just distract you from dealing with the hard stuff.
1102306
First and foremost, have you both been tested for sexually transmitted diseases?  Especially concerning her previous behavior.  That is not exactly monogamous sex.  How does she know you want her to act more adventurous if you do not tell her.  Was lack of communication part of the reason for your separation?  I suggest marriage counseling as well.
259217
it's true it sounds like your wife doesn't want it as much as you do, but she is so spoiled and blessed to have such a good husband who is considerate to that. i admit i don't always want to when my husband does, but i rarely tell him no. even if i can't do it i'll be considerate to him being in the mood, and help him out orally.
715466
Men fool around with other women because of how they feel about themselves with that other person. It doesn't matter if the wife is better looking or more successful. If she doesn't take care of ALL of her husbands needs and he feels like he isn't getting his "respect" and his ego isn't being stroked by her then he will go be with the one that makes him feel like a champ. While it isn't a justification for infidelity ; it nevertheless is the usual culprit. He is getting something from the other woman that he just isn't getting at home and that isn't always sex.
434932
she is just worried... she doesn't want to have sex with you because maybe she wants to reserve it until marriage or maybe she is afraid that you might leave her or she is just guilty of the fact that you had sex even if you are not married yet... but then when you meet again, when you start making out she has no power to resist you... she loves you very much that's why she still have sex with you... but deep within her she wants to stop it... because she is guilty... please understand your girlfriend.. the best thing you can do is to minimize your sex activity until you can stop it (if you can) but still reassure her of your love for her... she wants to make sure you will not leave her but she is also guilty because she knows that having sex with you now is wrong.. that's why she is acting like that... please understand her
341034
Firstly, why did you get married and you're bi? i mean you're not sure of sex you like more, i find that's its wrong more wrong than being homosexual just because its unfair to your wife and to "your best friend" choose one or none. Does your wife know you're bi-sexual? You need to be honest with yourself-as to what u like,if you don't know or can't choose then you need to be honest with your wife now before its too late... I've seen thing like this destroy families and i affects the children. Make your decision before it's too late.
1154816
yes, i have been faithful to my wives for 22 years, first wife 18 yrs. and second for 3 yrs. The secret.............i try very hard to be a good lover and they always appreciated it and gave in return, so i never had to look elsewhere to be satisfied, i also am not afraid to tell her what i like and i encourage her to tell me the same in return.
447676
Yes, for two reasons. Firstly it doesn't seem like you respect the woman for who she is, just what she is. Secondly, you are at a high risk of getting an STD. I would consider settling down and trying to work at an ongoing relationship, and one that sex is not the only thing that you guys do together.
1181103
omg ...sorry love ..sounds like your the one that is slightly abnormal here...most men would appreciate that aspect of their wives.\n\nnow what if the shoe was on the other foot?  would you be complaining or cheating on her cuz she dont WANT to give it up?\n\nlmao ...this is soooo RARE to find a man complaining that his wife wants sex!!!
391434
heck yea its possible i was that way for a long time,lol,i just make up stuff or let people give me ideas,have yall ever been able to openly talk about sex ,swinging,or stuff of that nature,she might be worried about what you will think if she really tells you,like hanin a menage trois,2 male 1 female ,that was really hard for me to tell my husband ,because i thought he would think less of me.
361555
How old are you? your question irk me! Please answer this, Are you the best for her? If you can't even convinced your heart, how would you be a good man for this woman? she needs more than your "doubts". It's not just your marriage you're talking about, it's her's too, and tell you what, she might have that very same doubt about you! imagine why the so-called strange words (as you said)! Grow up!