help!! guy troubles, teenagers please answer?
484776
well first you need to decide if you do or dont like him that way if you dont then just sit him down and tell him ya know hey this was a big misunderstanding and your a great freind but im not ready for that type of relationship with you and im sure hel;; understand because guys bounce back much faster so no worries he will survive
65449
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
453699
I know how u feel.Im 11 2.   \n    Okay, before you decided to do anything, ask yourself this question:\n\nIs he worth all the trouble?\nDo you want to keep your friend or just get the guy?\n\nI really don't think you should go for the guy. There are many others guys. "Yeah..duh I know that." you're probably thinking. So get a guy who shows interest in you and a guy who would be great for you. Also remember, you're only in 6th grade. I know a lot of people already at this age are dating and all that junk. Don't be pressured to rush things though. The truth is you shouldn't be dating till atleast 15. I know, it seems like forever from now. When the time comes though, it's sooooooooo worth it.\n\n\nHope that helps, and good luck!!
243683
Just ask him, if he says yes then yipee!!! If not, then ask out another guy!
207189
Whoa, that last part about being 13 threw me off!  I dont want to nag you about your age or anything, but 13 is WAY too young to be going through ALL that drama. Trust me. Half of the stuff you worry about now won't matter a year from now, even a week from now. Also think about if he is even worth all the drama you're putting yourself through.
771867
Go for it. Life is short, and your teen years are even shorter, so have fun. Besides, I know I feel like it would be a God-send if women would ask shy guys out. If he says no, what's the worst that could happen?
1130210
Wait are you a guy? Not that it matters but you said "he" and your avatar is a "he" so...nvm.  Tell him you like him! You never know maybe he likes you too and then everything would work out. On the other hand if he doesn't...it would make him feel awkward around you so...cut that plan. Talk to him. Ask him if he'd like to mabe go out sometime and hang out, or drop hints. Always works for me! If this person will disrespect you from this, orcheat or be rude about your feelings you need to forget them. Tey obviously aren't worth the drama!
149829
Well it depends. Are you friends already? (suggest a common activity without other friends) Not friends right now and contemplating him?...risky. Is there a way to get to know him better before asking? (i.e school activity?) If you are pretty sure about his feelings, go ahead. You know how guys asked you, just do the same! :) I have always been the one asking, worked great for me! Hard to do, but definitely worth it.\nThere's always the risk of being rejected if you're not sure, but you know what, even if it was a NO, at least you'll know how he feels about you and you can move on.\n\nYou go girl!
873010
It was really hard for me too. Once, I started to tell him, and i found he already knew but he didn't like me like that. He said we should be friends until he could sort out his feelings. That was two years ago. His name was domingo. I think he forgot to think it over but we are good friends now and he likes me and my best friend more than any of the other girls. He says they are annoying, and we talk about mature stuff he is interested in. He still hangs out with boys more than us, but hey, what can you expect from a 12 year old? My friend has no romantic interest in him, so in a few years, when we are both 16, i think i might ask him out. Oh yeah, your problem..... well, you get my point right? even if you can't work up the nerve now, it will be easier later. in your case, however, sooner might be bettter than later. i'm sorry if i am confusing you, love is very confusing.
948733
It does sound like he likes you!\n\nHe also sounds like quite a cutie!\nWhat you should do , if you really want to go for it is next time you bump into him just really try to get talking to him, even if it starts off over somthing really stupid like what classes you have, just send him lots of good signals, smile and maintain eye contact, if he returns the signals the conversation should get easier. Try this for a few days and then just ask him if he wants to come out with you (and maybe a friend, just at first) on the weekend, or after school\n\nGoodluck!
714108
ok. so. i'm 14, and i've been in that situation. just forget about him. if he's acting like a jerk, then he's not worth your time. don't make it look like your chasing this guy around. he'll think you're pathetic and just want to mess with you. forget about him. but hey, that's my opinion. oh...and. 13. remember. it's not as if he's actually changed your life in a major way or anything...right? so, yeah. i suggest you ignore him since he only talks about his girlfriend with you, and hang out with your own friends more. i guess it's safe to befriend him again when you're completely over him, but if he still acts like a jerk [even as a friend], then i suggest you just stay away.
436697
Be mature and do it yourself. But maybe don't just go up to him in class and be all, "Hey I like you!!!" Try to hang out with him first, you know, as "friends."  Then when you think the timing is right, let him know how you feel.
1182673
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nMost guys want sex. The question is will he marry you and commit?\n\nNot likely - you are both probably too young.\n\nGrow up a little before entertaining the notion of hopping into bed with anyone.
510329
Well being gay and a teenager is pretty hard in itself. The fact that you told him how you feel and he is still your friend counts for something. Cherish the friendship you have with him because you're lucky he didn't just stop talking to you (like a normal teenage straight would do). I suggest finding a relationship that is equally loved both ways and not just from you.
637409
well thats a tough one but i think u should talk to your friend and tell her that u and this guy like each other and she's kind of stepping in. also ask the guy whats up with him. does he like u or your friend. hope it works out for ya
211314
If you go to the same school....I know this sounds weird...But look at him as much as possible. I have this problem, but its not so bad anymore. I saw him talking to his friends and flirting with other girls and then I realized that he isnt worth my time. Maybe your guy SEEMS nice, but trust me, there's a jerk somewhere inside him...
857897
myb u should find other guy.if he really likes you i dont think he will do this.so,dont waste your time thinking of this jerk.good luck!