should husband and wife have same thinking?
477549
a lot of people have said that marriage is a partnership. Usually that means there is some kind of consenus on the bigger issues but that doesnt mean they have to agree on everything. Difference is something that should be celebrated and cherised in a relationship. However there are some dealbreakers that it can be important that both sides of the relationship are on the same page, such as gender roles in marriage and whether or not to have kids and how they should be raised. As long as on some of the bigger "dealbreaker" issues the marriage is on solid ground, disagreements about other things are not a bad thing.
990592
I am not positive what you are asking.  Are you asking if it is human nature for a woman to want a husband to be social and a man to want a wife to be more of a home-oriented person?  If so...\n\nAbsolutely not. It is true that people who grow up together in groups(we all do--that's what your community is, a group) often have alot in common, but there is still a good deal of variety everywhere.  Also, it should be remembered that what people want and what their group allows or encourages them to do are not always the same.
100142
That's something between you and your wife.Not, for others to have a choice on.Talk to her and see for yourself face to face to the one you married.
554613
You are exactly right.And that is what the bible teaches.Man is to be the leader of the household and his decisions should stand firm.The wife should be silent in the home and in the church.Of course this view will reap criticism from the new world order,but society changes and not the words of the bible
549447
Absolutely. The general rule of thumb is whether or not you would feel comfortable if it were the other way around. Put yourself in your partners position, and then consider the consequences of your actions.
464822
Of course.  Yeah you guys aren't on the same level in that regard.  It's perfectly exceptable to find someone esle to talk to about things that your wife can't.  You should check out Luke 12:22.  Great read.  basically says, "don't worry"....it's a good sigh of relief sometimes.
246873
When the married man has discussed it with his wife and they both agree,\nor\nwhen the married mans wife is so ill that he no longer has any kind of relationship with her, ie she is in an irretrievble coma, has alzhiemers ....\nwhen the couple have been seperated physically or/and mentally for years and he is in love with another person.\n\nof course these are just my opinions and I respect that other people think very differently so I mean no offence to anyone.
130437
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.  You cannot expect your husband to read your mind or to interpret the same situations you experience the same way you interpret them.  Besides, you have to be responsible for your own happiness.  You cannot make it fully dependent on how your life partner reacts to you.  You should share a life together. If you do not have one of your own, what will you be sharing with him?
914002
no it is wrong, because maybe there was a chance he might return to his wife, maybe he is confused on what he wants to do, and the other woman will just pull him in her direction.  it is never a good idea because he has alot of unresolved things going on, and needs to think it all over. the other woman is taking a big chance in allowing this, it could always backfire on her.
1036749
Do what he wants and make him to think of you first, slowly he will be understanding what u r, what u like, What u expect from him.\nThe normal man always want to provide all the things to his wife but forgets to understand her which creates problems....\nDon't Worry, Cheer UP, Every thing will be fine. Be BOLD For your thoughts in matters of Mutual Understanding.
378437
Well, i think that when there are different faiths involved both spouses have to be open minded and they have to communicate with each other about their different religions/ faith. I am not married but i am in a relationship where we both have different religions. We talk about it and we try to know or to learn about the different religion. Mostly because of curiosity but also b/c we have to set boundaries. So if you talk to them and make sure they know how you feel then it'll be alright, but also as long you each of you do not try to impose their religion on each other. Just be open minded and talk about it.
373680
It is something that everyone thinks about, I mean, humans are attracted to many others than just their spouse, it is natural, we are animals all in the same sense. So, as long as there is a mutual agreement, and one from the other couple/person then there should not be much trouble.
880637
Both are new to each other, so firstly I suggest u to understand your wife, her likes and dislikes, tell her ur ambitions, goals, etc about your future plans how to lead ur life, so that u both would be leading a happy life in future without any divercifications of mind, be crystal clean in your talks now only.
76953
Why can the two things not coexist?  Perhaps it depends upon your definitions of loving, supporting, and independent.  I don't see whereas a wife can not be independent while still being loving and supportive of her husband.
344518
Should help each other..even in a little way..that's what  married couples do cuz that's the ultimate purpose of marriage ..^_*
1086457
It is wrong because one of them would not be his wife. I am not the type to castigate you for what you believe in and want to do, but i think a man should only do it with his wife.
519889
My wife always smiles and says "kill them with kindness",\nshe does it and you can sometimes tell it actually makes them think. I say you should help them both and love them both. Our sin nature is often very hard if not impossible to over come when left to our own devises. Help them know Christ through both your words and your God exulting way of living and you will make a difference.