I lost my baby at 20 weeks "due to the cord being wrapped around her neck 3 times"?
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Listen, I AM a lawyer and I am asking you to let this go.  I am so truly sorry for your loss but the cause of death here was obvious.  The cord was wrapped around the baby's neck multiple times.  You asked for blood work, etc.  Under these circumstances, why would a doctor follow your orders?  There is no medical reason to do so and the insurance company certainly won't want to pay for a procedure simply because an upset mother "wants" one done.  \n\nLet's assume for the moment that the doctor should have followed your orders (and I think he was right in not doing so by the way), what would you sue for?  He didn't cause the death of your baby.  He didn't cause you injury.  No injury equals no lawsuit.  There is no cause of action available for failure to follow patient instructions.  Unless you can prove that something he did caused physical injury to you or caused your baby to die, then you simply have no recourse.\n\nAgain, I am so very sorry for your loss.  Having 4 miscarriages has got to be heart breaking.  But don't take your anger out on someone who did you no harm.\n\nI wish you luck on all of your future endeavors and pray that your next pregnancy will come to term without complication.
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OK- Go to the doctors!  You might even be having some mental anguish type of pains which is common when someone loses a baby.  You need to see someone.
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Yes you are I know there is not an excuse for being cruel and hurt full. But she has lost her son and the grief and pain of that is unbearable. She is not thinking rationally, she needs to blame something or in this case someone. Let this alone let her grieve I am sure she loves her grandchild and will come to her senses. In the meantime perhaps when all the do gooders come racing over to tell you every word that she has said perhaps you should tell them that you do not want to hear it! This keep you from being hurt and quite frankly helps these people realize that they are not helping anyone by running back and forth with he said she said nonsense.I am so sorry for rthe pain that you all are going thru. Perhaps the easiest way for you to have compassion for her is to remember how devastated you would be if you lost your little boy. Beleive me whether they are 3 days old or 50 a mother never recovers fully from losing her child.
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yeh not much u can really say to her loosing a baby is really hard, just be there for her and comfort her pretty much. maybe after the surgery when she's better take her out to a day spa or something to relax and have fun.
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First, you have our sympathy on your loss.\nThe actual term is skin slip.\nSeveral factors are at work here.  Since the baby's death took place before birth, temperature in the womb would be relatively warm.  That, and the thinness of the skin would lead to rapid breakdown of the surface.  \nIt is unfortunate that this prevented you from viewing your child, but it is not something that could have been prevented.
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Well since that happened to me a yr ago, I suggest that u tell him that it's over and that u want him to be part of the baby's life. In my situation her and me have an understanding where I get to have him for 2 weeks out of the month and so does she. She just came out and told me, I wasn't so happy about it but I got use to it and realized that she really wanted it to be over. Anyways if U need some more advice on this e-mail at elguapo_v12@yahoo.com Well good luck and remember just sit down with him and tell him what u really feel...
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gosh i hope your not thinking of getting on one? it also depends on how far along you are, but it can cause irritation to the fetus and strong banging can result in miscarriage
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I wouldn't worry about it - as long as it functions at this point.  You can ask your doctor about it at his regular appointments.  But other than that, be happy you have a healthy baby!
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dropped on my head as a baby
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3 periods of 20 minutes
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take him/her to the doctor-- it could be extra painful for an infant to be going through that!
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you know most children born at 30 weeks survive are perfectly healthy. do NOT do it, the complications you will have morally, ethically and mentally will never go away. the complication you could have medically, to your body arent worth the risk. not to mention how could you just kill the baby that you feel moving inside you, responding to your movements and sound. his/hers heart already beating for many many months now. turn to Jesus for help, much better than any person or online advice you can get. please dont go the abortion route, it is unchangeable. and a lifetime of regret. also there is always family's who cant have children that would love to adopt. ill be praying for you.
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i know its going to be really hard, but you have to go to the doc, hes the only one that can really help you, but my heart does go out to you, i wish you the best of luck, and may it really be a baby, and not something worse, i really am sry for everything thats happened to you,but hey it could be worse, teehee
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The baby is probably just pressing on that side. There isn't that much room in there you know.   The little bugger is already being a pain!  LOL   Just kidding.  My son used to make me so uncomfortable because he'd move around so much and it was like he was stretching out.  I'd see his foot or hand pressing out.  It was kinda gross, and really uncomfortable.  And he kicked all the time.  Later in the pregnancy he pressed on my bladder alot.
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It can happen at any time during the pregnancy, although it is more likely to happen during the first trimester. I have had two miscarriages and one healthy baby (my miracle baby) the first miscarriage I was about 5 months along and the second I was only a few weeks along. I really hope that nothing like that happens, if you have any bleeding whatsoever call your doctor immediately. There is no greater pain than the loss of a child.
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4 times is a little steep.  Any chances you were pregnant?  Did you have extremely bad cramps?\n\nNeed more info.
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it depends on how far in you are.  My wife had 2, the second one was a like a week further on, she said she was really sore from that one.  About the infant I can't tell you.  But it could really hurt you.  My wife holds serious regrets over what she did.  There's always adoption.  But besides that, she's got scarring on the inside preventing her from getting pregnant again.  It's something you really have to think about, if not now then 20 years down the road.