my friend likes this guy and the guy doesnt how can he love her?
479329
You can't make somebody like or love somebody...love comes gradually and naturally.
54101
what's worth more to you, your friend, or that boy? but, could you be able to be happy or at least neutral if you know your friend is going out with the guy you like? but, if you tell her that you like him, and then if she thinks your flirting with him, how mad will she get?\nif it was me, it'd just leave him for my friend because to me, my friends come before a possible boyfriend. if i can't be happy seeing them together, i'd just find some way to avoid them when they're together. but, the one thing i wouldn't do is to admit i like him, that'll probably make it harder on her and then i'd feel guilty.\nbut the choice is really up to you, whatever comes first in your heart and can you bear it to see them together? and telling your friend, decide if it's better to tell her or not to depending on how she'll react to it
235683
If she likes you more then he other bf then she should dump him, and your not a girl stealer, me and my friend both liked the same guy and she asked him out like three times and he said no all three times then I did and he said yes. thats just who he picked you can't control who she likes, just who you do, go with who you like if you get with someone you don't like then your keeping your self unavilabe to people who do.
984694
first of all how close are you with this guy and ur friend?if you feel like it aint right tell your friend to stop fooling around with other guys when he aint around that way, she might try to change ( that is if she wants to ) then if things dont change tell  her you dont think what she's doin is right.\nif you tell  her ur gonna tell the dude she'll think u wanna get him all to ur self so talk to ur galfriend and try help her sort herself first
747860
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
214152
No, I disagree.  What you didn't tell us is why he doesn't like her.  Maybe he has a very good reason.  Maybe your friend is doing/saying things behind your back.  Putting them together would be volitile to say the least and used as a last resort.  Blackmailing them into getting along would not be advised.  Though that might help on the surface, it would fester.  Does your BFF like him?  Maybe she likes him too much?  Just wondering....
1102523
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!
1026188
confront her and speak ur mind. u guys should but pursue the guy and at the end, he will chose who he likes best. but make sure u guys talk abou it that no matter who ends up with the guy, that u guys would still remain friends.
912395
let the person that likes you that you like his friend he will understand.good luck
553672
well, how close are you and your friend? if that was me in this situation, i would talk to your friend first. you wouldnt want weird feelings between you and her! make sure she is ok with you two dating eventhough she likes him too! if she isnt ok with it, wait it out until she is ok with the fact that you like him and want to date him! well another question is, do you like him? if you do talk to her..it will help!
126931
The simple truth of the matter is this. She doesn't love you, all she wants is something she can't have and that happens to be you. Trust me the only person who will get hurt in all this is you. I have lost a good friend because of this exact same thing and let me tell you it was never worth it.
846001
YEA RIGHT!!!! tell her how you feel and how much you like him and if shes a real friend shell be understanding especially if she doesnt even like him!! Good Luck ♥
51959
Well that's pretty tough...Well be her friend you know talk to and stuff. Soon you'll find out why she likes the guy you hate and who knows she might change her mind. Hope this helps!\n\nP.S. thanx for answerin' my question.
129263
If he loves you then why would he date your Best Friend? And if she is your best friend, why is she dating the guy you love? Sounds like they have a sensitivity chip missing...get away from both of them
703560
Tell your friend that she probably does love him and that's why she's doing this. Maybe she's thinking about being with him for the rest of her life but she wants to make sure she is doing the right thing, so she wants to see what life is like without him. If she didn't still care about him then she would have said so and broke it off all together. Tell him don't sweat it, if it was meant to be, it will be. Hope I helped and let me know if you need more advice. :-)
443186
You support your friend - don't play referee between the two of them. Just listen to her and be supportive - one way love is hard... tell her you want the best for her and that you're her friend regardless....and you'll walk with her through this trying time - take her to the mall or movie(pick out a funny comedy) - have a pizza party with friends  - something to help  out when this guy has her emotionally wrecked.
702076
Does she know you like the guy?  \n\nIf she does...\nleave it on the guy to see if he is interested in either of you.  If he chooses you, she needs to respect that.  If he chooses her, you need to do the same.\n\nIf she doesn't...\nbe honest with her.  Tell her you are also attracted to this guy.  But assure her, if he does have feelings for her, you will respect their potential relationship.  If this guy hasn't professed feelings for her, then you haven't done anything wrong for liking him.  You can't steal something from someone if they never really had it.\n\nBut you need to be honest and respectful toward your friend.  This guy may come and go.  But you don't want the same to happen with your friend.\n\nBest of luck.