Is this worth it or should I move on?
479188
Say goodbye. He will continue if you let him.
341349
Dont go backwards. History has a way of repeating itself-move forward is it really worthwile putting yourself through emotional turmoil again? She wants you and someone else???? You are worth more.
282934
I wonder how many people have been in your position and let it go, always wondering if it was the right thing to do? I say GO FOR IT!! What the hell do you have to lose? If it doesn't work or he's spoken for, then let it go - but at least you tried. If you find him and he feels the same way you do... wellll....
1171971
I would pass on it. Being happy at your job is priceless. You are so lucky. Keep excelling at what you are presently doing, and a better opportunity will probably come up sooner or later. Just keep on looking and making contacts.
902669
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
101073
There are no guarantees.  Look at divorce rate.  Ask yourself if you truly enjoy this person's company.  Do you communicate well?  Is this person insecure/secure?
1101627
Do what you feel is right. If you feel that you are ready to move to the next step then go for it. If you have any doubts about it then I say that you should wait. Just follow your heart.
105727
find someone else. don't be affraid to break it up.
1004854
Not worth it. Just move on. You should've known better and saw it coming, literally.
732013
I would give it a little bit of time and then ask yourself. Are you ready to give this another try or are you starting to feel better and are able to move on?\n\nSomeone once told me people break up for a reason and that they should always stick to their original idea. Of course this is not always the case but just do what you feel is right deep down. \n\nHope everything works out!
1131571
Go for it!\n\nOr even better, sell his stuff to pay the rent!
118878
You should reevalute where life has taken you and consider\n\nwhether or not you're making the right choices. Good luck.\n\nIf you're asking if you should stick by him, only you know that.
1157649
Sounds like you have some talking to do... and from that decide whether to 'take it' or leave it. However you are married now, and that is supposed to be for better or worse. As her husband, (now) its really up to you to support her emotionally as financially.
1005831
No one can tell you if you should do it, Mike.  You have to make your own decision and then whatever comes from that decision learn from it.  I'd be inclined to recommend you go for it as it is probably an opportunity and experience you shouldn't let pass you by.  However, if you have a family you're supporting, stick with the two jobs.  If it's just you, go for it.  Live life to its fullest.  Make mistakes and become a success!
520926
this one's good.  be precautious!  hold off on falling in love.  many people will tell you to follow your head on this one.  i would have to agree.  be careful.  as you mentioned, you have a lot to loose.  and you will if you go with your heart.  take this as an infacuation.  and move on when it's old.  you won't have any regrets. \n'J'
128730
You can't go, he can't stay. Right? The best you can do is keep in touch & maybe try the long distance thing. If that works out- hey, it's possible- then maybe one of you can move closer to the other or something. However, if it doesn't work out that way then it's most definitely time to move on. Even if you don't wind up being the mother of his children (which could turn out to be a good thing, ya never know) then at least you'll know you tried & will likely have a close friend for life.
1142728
GO FOR IT it could turn out great and you shouldnt have any regrets in life and dont worry about age its just a number i am 9 years younger then my fiance and we met on the net that was almost 2 years ago