My girlfriend wants to get married but I don't. In fact I want to finish it and ask her sister out ..ideas?
476268
do em both & compare wich one is the keeper
608015
Hey man, relax.\nFirst thing you can do is to trust her words: She said she wants to marry you. Then accept it.\n\nDon't worry too much. There is still time to talk about her attitude (accusing, do things that make you mad). Both of you should agree to change your attitudes to a level that is acceptable and comfortable with both of you. Otherwise, your relationship will always be on the rocks.\n\nTry to meet in the middle. and try to compromise for the good of you both.\n\nTrue love understands and cares. It is gentle, not rude, it does not boast, it keeps no record of wrongs.\n\nAll the best.
823018
Go for it mate ! Ask her out . When you see her walking out or in the gym, take a deep breath and just ask her . If you dont you will always wonder what if . You will regret it if you dont . Trust me i know !!!!!!!!!! If you dont ask her some other geezer might get in there before you. Just say " Do you fancy coming out for a drink?"  How easy is it to say that. DO IT !!!!!!!!!!! Good luck young jedi ! If it turns out that you land up getting married can i get an invite to the head table. If you pick this as best answer let me know how you got on when you leave feedback.
238740
Well, she has obviously said yes to your proposal, so that is one good sign.  The ultimate way to know for sure is what I keep telling everyone in relationships.  Communicate, communicate, communicate!  You need to talk to your fiance openly about everything.  Discuss your concerns with them and have them tell you why they do want to marry you.  If you aren't sure after talking to the person openly, it may be that you shouldn't get married.  Communication is the most important issue in marriage or any relationship.  Without it, you will end up in a divorce and will fight quite a bit.  I hope you find the answer you are looking for.
1114663
You find someone else to be "in love" with.  Show some loyalty to your sister.  Guys will come and go but your sister is forever.  Good luck in making the right decision.
817017
Miss, don't judge all marriages by your sister's.  The reason people get married, and STAY married is that most marriages ARE happy.  Certainly not perfect, but reasonably happy.  Yes, there are horror stories.  Yes, some marriages are hell on earth, but most aren't.  Without knowing your sister, I've got to say that if she is newly married, and tells you to stay single, her marriage isn't going to last, and probably shouldn't last.  I advise you to love your sister, and wish her luck.  Don't bad mouth her husband, because that isn't what she needs.  Let her decide her future for herself.  Heck, they may work things out and grow old together.  Now, I don't suggest you ignore bruises etc, but unless you have real concerns for her physical safety, let them figure things out for themselves.  It's great that you care about her, and natural that you tend to lay blame for problems on him.  Just keep being her big sister, and love her.
484831
im going to get my girlfriends little sister and brother (3 and 7) to goup to her and hand her some roses and tell her where to meet me for lunch at her favorite restraunt then i will take her to this house i just bought (she doesnt know about the house) in the living room will be an arrow pointed to up stairs on the bed room wall will be spray painted will you marry me? \n\nor\n\nyou could send her riddles that will lead to somewhere she loves and put up a sign that say will you marry me.
504360
If you've never spoken to her, then proposing marriage is going to make her run off. You need to start a bit more slowly than that - try saying "Hello" first. You can't proclaim your love for someone that soon or she'll get you busted for harassment or stalking. But if she doesn't "love" you in return, marriage is out of the question - right now, you have a crush. That's it.
651019
Be yourself and let it happen when it's right......\nIf you try to rush it you could loose your friendship,  it could be possible she is waiting for marriage???????????????
230073
dude, you can't ask advice about how to propose!!  if you know the girl well enough to marry her, you need to figure it out on your own.  make it creative.  you don't want her to ask you how you thought up your proposal and have to say 'oh i asked on yahoo answers'  \nbest of luck man\nhope she says yes
201949
if she doesn't seem happy don't marry her. she should be happy without the gifts. you should be the one who makes her happy. you do many wonderful things, and it sounds like she isn't as in love as you. get out now before you really get hurt. (it will already hurt) and by the way, what is your phone number, you sound wonderful.
247218
If you are wanting to ask her to marry you - do it romantically and in a unique way!  Find out what her dreams and fantasies are!  Try to play out one of her fantasies! \n\nHere are some ideas that are out there on the web:\nhttp://scripts.lovingyou.com/mdb/search.cgi?mdb=ideas&cat=proposal\nhttp://www.diamondhelpers.com/loveandlife/romanticideas/engagement-ideas.shtml\nhttp://www.love-sessions.com/more_proposals.htm\nhttp://marriage.about.com/cs/proposals/a/proposalideas.htm
594318
Talk to her about your plans.  Help your sister do a budget and understand how to pay bills.  After that, you are free to move in with your boyfriend.  Don't rush to move in with him, get to know him longer.  If you have been dating for a year or more, try it.  If not, wait!
871987
you are entitled to have a relationship.  Your sister is 30 and is single and no kids, maybe she is regretting that she never had a relationship like the ones u have and doesnt want u to be happy just cuz shes not h appy.  Go on, have fun, find urself the one, hes out there somewhere. trust me
611733
Ask your friend if he's OK with you dating his sister, then ask her out (if he is OK with it - otherwise I don't know).
457298
Instead of focussing on the fact that she's mentioned marriage, ask her where she sees herself in five years.  I think alot of young women feel pressures from family and soceity to be the "full package", where they have a family and their dream career.  Maybe she's just trying to get a guy's point of view about getting married at a young age.  Let her tell you about what she wants out of life, and if it happens to include marriage in a few years, don't freak out!  If you're interested in the girl, ask her out and see how things go.  I think it would be weird to start a relationship with someone if you didn't think that sometime down the road you may want to spend your lives together.  Unless you're looking for a fling, most people go into a relationship hoping that things will work out for the long run, which eventually means marriage for some people.  The bottom line, talk to her and let her tell you how she really feels about getting married young.
871231
Well first of all go by your inner feelings on this girl not by what everyone tells you of her. Though, it does sound like your not sure so either talk to her about what all you have heard about her or just go slow and try to figure it out yourself. I mean its not like your getting married to her or anything so just start talking more and i am sure i will work out one way or another. Sounds like you have good values so go with them.