How do you tell a really hot girl you want to "do it" with them without "hurting" them or yourself?
493993
who put this crap in your head!!! if you have any respect for this girl you will do nothing of the sort... that is how you become one of the wierd crowd
465608
First thing is, DON'T go overboard! Guys think they need to impress a girl with gifts or flowers or something. AFTER a relationship has started that's okay, but most girls are scared away by that kind of stuff from a guy they're not romantically involved with when the stuff is given.\n\nKeep it simple -- words are the best way to communicate what you want, and along with straightforward words goes confidence and eye contact.\n\nFind a time when you have a little bit of privacy. Then say something like "I hope you're not offended by me saying this, but we've known each other for (however long), and I just wanted you to know that I think you're a really great person." When you tell her this, say it with confidence and make eye contact (which reinforces the confidence). Girls are impressed by confident guys who don't come on too strong.\nGood luck!
356515
If you guys are making out.. or whatever, try putting the heavier moves on her. If she goes with it, she wants it. If she pushes you off, then she must not be ready. Go with your instincts.
14868
"How can I politely tell this girl that it isn't working out and that I am no longer interestd in her?"\nYou're doing a great job already... Tell her exactly what you've told us. She'll probably be hurt, but that's life. At least she'll understand why you guys aren't working out and she can work on it in her next relationship.
412232
You can't 'make' her do it.  At least you shouldn't!  Ask her to.  She may or may not but you'll never know unless you ask.
517569
start off by telling her she is pretty. tell her she looks beautiful. a woman always loves compliments no matter what they say. start slow. holding hands and hugging are good starting off. after you feel a bond, look into her eyes gently put your hand behind her head and slowly go in for the kiss, don't be too aggressive girls don't like that. be gentle but passionate. while kissing her rub your fingers through her hair, on the back of her neck, etc. then my man, you are on your own. good luck lil pimp.
242780
Let me tell you something about girls.  They like to have you hold their hands, look at them when they talk, be interested, look in their eyes, be a gentle man, be kind, be polite, touch their hair, their face, their shoulders. Kiss them nicely.  Don't look at other girls, take them nice places, compliment their clothes, DO NOT grope for their PARTS!  We hate this.  If we like you we will let you know when we are ready. And if you have done all this for real, not just an act to get her in your bed, she will be hot already for you.  Good luck
38043
I would just say - tell her straight at her face.. but not everyone has the gut to do it. Not even me. \nSo, if you are bold enough, let her know.\nIf you are not, show her your affection for her. If she loves you, she can feel it. If she doesn't.. then you should know what to do.
37636
NO! Would you like your girl to do that 2 you. IF they have an understanding(and you should find out) IT doesn't matter. Don't mess with it!
1007882
tell her your ready but i want to do the basics first and after your down and your ready tell her i think its time to try if your not good its OK that always happens don't worry about cant find it or is it OK for you just do it girls like guys for beaning them tell her straight out that you want it but need to learn
1105145
for doing sex with girl u have to make her her hot & for making her hot first u have to fingure on his eyes then nose then lips then fingure her hairs & ten try to kiss her when u kiss her u have to put ur one hand her boobs slowly u have to push ur hands inside her cloths then press her boobs. if she will respond u its a sign for go ahead she will not leave u till u press her boobs she will colse her eyes & let u do what u want if she dont do anything when u press her boobs u can do ahead for pussy u can remove her cloths slowely . then u have to fingure her pussy & see is her pussy is leaking or not if yes u can start sex with her & if not u have to fingure her more time & kiss her & suck her boobs. she will pull u over her for sex then u will push ur penies into her pussy u have to see what speed she want for fucking & do it what ever she like thats all ........
480943
No dude. First try to to establish an intimate moment however you know your girl melts, then go for it.
118843
Give her loads of compliments and take it slowly. Take your time over foreplay and give her lots of attention. Talk about things you enjoy and get her to show you how she pleasures herself. She is the best person to tell you what she enjoys so make talking about it fun and lighthearted and be open minded to her answers.
305432
The best thing to do in this case is to just be honest.  If you lead her on you'll just end up hurting more.  Don't be mean about by saying something like "I'd rather wander into rush hour traffic naked than to be with you".  She may get the wrong idea then and it will really hurt both her feelings and definately her self-esteem.  A lot of women I've talked to tell me that they want to feel desirable, so you have to keep that in mind when dealing with her.  Offer to go out on a date or two to see if it works out, but make it clear that it's just a date and that you have not made any formal commitment yet.
241445
tell the girls that you have nuthing to do with the whole thing and want no part of it. tell it to them straight and make it snappy.
443410
Hey ^_^ Look, getting the girl (the one who has a heart and soul, yeah, you know her, the one without the paper bag to her mouth when her nail breaks), isn't hard, even when you're not the best looking guy out there. Just be courteous, show some chivalry, y'know. Oh, a nice tip,\nget her online, an IM her, tell her she's the only one you can trust with your little secret (being you have a crush on someone close to her). Finally(and I mean finally, like a couple days after she knows the initial secret (girls are curious by nature!!)), after letting her really get to know you, tell she's the girl. ^_~ It worked on me,lol and we've been together for almost a year now
25910
Be very straight forward with them from the beginning.  Tell them that you want a relationship with no strings attatched.  Maybe someday you will want a relationship but not right now.