Is there anyway to recover? Met a cuttie this weekend. Should I call again?
482366
Wait a few days and then try calling again....good luck!
125747
call him up again or wait for one more day.don't worry he wil come to u soon.
623547
be firm and dont waiver. stand your ground, do not return phone calls, do not "go out with him"
1049670
Hmmmm.  Last time I went was kinda weird.  My stylist told me her sister was seriously ill in the hospital with a sometimes fatal disease.  A couple times during the "foil" she hurried out to take phone calls.  As it turned out, her sister wasn't in as bad shape as they thought.\n\nI hate to say this, but I kept wondering if she was going to mess up my hair, being so worried about her sister.\n\nAnyway, we normally talk about our kids, vacations, weather, light stuff.
1126258
ok, this is a little ruthless, but if ur desperate.  Tell him you went out the night before and all u remember is waking up at some guys house and really didn't know who you were.  Tell him you must have been drugged because all u were drinking was water because you had to work the next day.  You can tell him you were so ashamed of what happened that you did not call.
761918
I would advise you to remain calm and try to call. If you can't get through i.e. you get the "The subscriber you are calling is not available..." message, it might just mean that her phone ran out of power or she might be sleeping and she switched it off.\n\nIf it rings but no one answers, she might be working, not hear it ring or it was set on silent and she forgot.\n\nIn any case, try reaching her at her home, workplace or any other alternate number you might have. Do not behave in a paranoid manner when talking to her family/friends as a) you do not want to alarm them and b) you do not want to come across as paranoid or insecure.\n\nWhen you eventually reach her (and you will), let her know in a non-confrontational manner that you were worried. Getting worked up when talking to her is not constructive and will just make her defensive.
414175
You should call her immediately. Then wait one hour and call again. Do this every hour. On weekends do it every half hour... even through the night. She'll shower you with... um... kisses the next time she sees you.
597945
Sitting around, wondering & doing nothing won't get either of you back together. If you think it's worthwhile to try again, make the first move & see what happens. I'm not saying go all out and tell him outright. That's just me & I'd much prefer the guy to take the lead to let me know where he's headed. Just call and say Hi or leave some kind of messsage that let him know. See what he does next. Be prepared for the worst though as he may have moved on. At least you won't spend your life wondering.
798149
Give her a wrong phone # and hope you never run into her again.\nTry some other stores to shop at.
1170371
Well, she did give you a heads up that she would be busy this weekend. I'm sure this is question requiring a sensible answer from a female. But what i would think is wait till after the weekend and maybe just one more day. If no reply, two possibilities, a)She's REALLY busy b)Something's wrong between you two. Face things as they come and dont get paranoid. And ease up on the emails and texts.
780444
Don't call him, just don't. There is no reason for it, HE broke up with YOU. YOU are a wonderful person and HE was too stupid to realize it so there is no reason for you to go calling this moron. You deserve better than that and you never need to grovel to any man. No woman needs to grovel to a man ever.
656745
Just call or text (SMS) her back it can't hurt anything......you have to see what is going on with her. if she says that she has  been busy...do not aruge with that. just leave it as is okay.\nCALL THE GIRL!!!
721861
If he didn't give you his number and you call him might think you are needed (or a stalker). Give him time, nothing less than 2 weeks. Then maybe get you Godmother to help you out. Ask her to call him and CAUSALLY bring up that you asked about him, and see what she says.
624845
Don't cut off your booty call.  Give her a call every other day or so to keep her online.  Peace.
107252
Maybe a little strong, but it seems like you did not scare her away.  Do you see her other than when she is working?  That would probably be the best time to approach her again.\n\nIf you have to approach her at work, try to find a time when the restraunt is not busy.  Also I would recommend something low-key as a get-to-know you rather than a date.  Also try to give her an easy out.  Something like stopping by one afternoon and asking if she would like to get coffee or something like that after work.
1059929
Get's better in time. Just do yourself a favor if you want it over. Don't contact the guy you need to heal so does he.
1072389
You did the right thing definately always listen to that feeling you had. Call the police department and ask what it takes to get a restraining order and stalker laws in your area. Look into house alarms and always keep your eyes open!  Have a  friend stay over if you have more trouble, buddy system when you leave to work call a family member or friend keep someone aware of you movements at all times so if something happens someone will come check on you or call the police, vary your routes home from work change them up so you aren't as predictable,  and always have a cellphone on and  erady to call someone if you have trouble. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure don't let that scare you. Having a dog may help too. Be careful and don't second guess yourself if he gets worse it is not your fault nothing you did or will do caused this. He's most likely sick protect yourself. Consider a self defense course too scary but may come in handy with him or if you take a trip to NY, NY be safe!