how to be comfortable with who you are?
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it takes a lot of practise.self study, become aware of your ego and it acts under different headings.take responsibility for things that happen to you.don't blame others. this is just a little. there is a lot more to it
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Start by defining your expectations of yourself.  Such as:\n\n1)  I expect to keep myself safe.\n\n2)  I expect myself to think through my decisions.\n\n3)  I expect myself to be truthful with others.\n\n4)  I expect myself to allow respectful people into my life.\n\nI look at is this way:  the only person you can control is yourself.  Don't pin your feelings and self-esteem on other's failings.\n\nIf you have high expectations of yourself, you will have a higher chance of attracting people who have high expectations of themselves.
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I think it has a lot to do with unreal expectations that we as people can put on ourselves, others, and on situations. When we are young, we are emerging as people so it is understandable to be insecure. But as I got older, I was able to gradually accept who I was and no longer had to try to fill the role of some fantasy character that I imagined that I could be. I just learned to let me be, let them be, and to let things be. And now I am happy.
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Remember who you are.\nKeep your pride.\nKeep yourself.
534924
Don't change who you are because you want to have many friends; Remain yourself and your friends; people of like minds will recognise you. Smile often though, because it will make you stand out and it takes very little effort.
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Accept myself for who I really am. To confront my fears and not let them control my life. Coming to the realization that doing good is much more difficult and noble than being lazy about things and taking the path of least resistence.
450325
A person either likes you or not.  You can't go on in life changing who and what you are to conform to what makes other people comfortable.  First, it won't last too long because you are who you are.  Second, it will get tiring and frustrating because you'll have to keep up a "front" for that person, to keep them around and you will eventually come to resent them.  Just be who you are and accept the fact that people will like you for who you are or not like you for who are.
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don't change who you are but just be yourself, that's all you need to do. Just be yourself and don't worry too much about what you might say wrong otherwise it will affect you badly. Just be yourself.
412870
Be confident that being yourself is the best way to create a good impression. Don't put on an act - show some honesty and integrity about who you are.
778132
don't worry so much about every one else ,think a bit more about your self . if you are happy with who you are then what dose it matter what anyone else thinks
1100245
We have to learn to be ourselves.  Accept who we are, and do unto others.
518672
It's a personal journey , everyone is different.  My best advice would be to NOT be afraid of what people think of you.  Remember always your life has to be for you, not anyone else.  Nobody can tell you how to "find" yourself, figuring that out is part of the whole process!  Look, hon, I'm 30, and I still haven't figured out who I am....  Good Luck!!
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no, youre not weird for such reasons. Just continue to be yourself. You dont have to measure up to anyones standards. Its simply a blessing to have the friends that you have and if  people of your own race make you feel uncomfortable about your personality, pray for them, kill'm with kindness, theyre just ignoramasses anyway. Betcha they'd need you for something b4 youd need them
862064
Me and my partner are quite open about who we are, we don't advertise we just act as naturally as possible, if someone asks, we tell, if they don't obviously it's not that important. Just be yourself
172018
BE YOURSELF... Once you start changing yourself to please others, you will open the door to living your life changeing to please everyone but yourself. There is a tendency to loose your self identity once you travel down that path. Besides, there are plenty of people who will like you just the way you are...
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Light b, you have the freedom to be anything you want to be.  Your choices are like the steering wheel of a car.  Each choice you make in a certain direction moves you more in that direction.  You are not a victim, you are a free spirit.  If you don't want to be gay, then don't make choices that are gay choices...make choices that are more in line with who you really are.  Don't let any one else tell you who you are, be who you are and be authentic.  Feelings are like the weather, they move and flow along, change, multiply...they are not constant.  If you have certain feelings fine...they will just move by if you don't grab onto them.  They can be like clouds just passing through.
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Be yourself. If someone can't like you for who you are then you don't need them.