about relationships about this boy I really love him but I broke up with him cause he was cheating on me?
478205
Good decision. But if it was the first time that he's cheated on you, maybe give him another chance. If not, then you don't need someone like that.
1086445
Ask yourself this baby girl, why are you even talking/messing around with  your ex?  You two obviously broke up for some reason.  Let it go.  As far as your ex, he's just trying to get some from you.  You're worth being treated better than that.  As far as your current boyfriend, i'm sure he would'nt say you were'nt cheating if he were there while you and your ex were fooling around.  And I don't think your current boyfriend has a clear definition as to what cheating is\nLeave the ex alone hun.  This situation has bad written all over it and i'd hate for anything unpleasant to go down.  Good Luck.
567738
Then he is ONE of the HYPOCRITE CLUB members.\n\nAll this while he WAS lying to you. Sweet promises from your boyfriend.\n\nNow, he is gone. But please don't label ALL BOYS are like that, okay? There are a lot of boys out there who is SINCERE (like me :) ) in Love and all. \n\nIt wasn't your fault sweet heart. I'm so sorry :-( But cheer up, okay? We are here, to help you.\n\nYour situation is hard. I'm sorry to say that I don't think he is SINCERE relationship with you. One day, I believe God will PUNISH him. Don't worry sister, he will SUFFER.
427321
Well I think you did the right think by breaking up with him. That takes a lot of courage. But now you need to stay strong and stick to that. He cheated on you and yea, he probably says he changed and won't do it ever again, but the truth is, you won't really be able to trust him again. You will always wonder in the back of your mind if he is cheating or if he will cheat again.\nIn the long run, you will just end up miserable. So yea, he wants you back, but too bad. His loss and he should have thought about that before cheating on you. \nDon't give in...Be strong.
591822
Break up with him again permanently and find yourself someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
615843
get back together. tell him that you still like him. then when you do get back together then dont break up with him unless you have a good reason. learn from your mistakes.
297305
u shouldn't have told. it's a trust issue. now he knows that he can't trust u that's why he broke up with u.
903441
You broke up with him because you wanted him to change.  Now, you want suggestions on how to change him back.  I think you should stop focussing on how he should act, and focus on your own behavior because you can only control your actions, not his.  Obviously, it seems like you should have thought through breaking up more before you actually did it.  You hurt him.  You have to show him that you can be trusted.  Apologize, be honest with him about your feelings and let him be.  If he comes back to you, he is in your future.  If he doesn't, then learn from the experience and the next time you're with someone you're totally crazy about, don't get caught up in fixing his flaws.
307737
What you have to do is remember that you're x's for a reason, don't dwell on all the happy, romantic stuff that went on with you and him, think of why you broke up and how you felt and what the problems were.  There's always a good reason why we break up with someone.
930337
sounds like he regrets breaking up with you, kinda like you don't know what you have 'till it's gone.  it's your choice if you decide to take him back.  if you really care for him and feel he is being honest then go for it.
303762
Leave your ex alone. He is your ex for a reason, girl. You guys broke up for a reason (hopefully a legitimate one) so you need to leave it that way. You need to give your full attention to your current boyfriend. You chose him for a reason and you need to get to know him and build your relationship. Get your ex out of your head!
991806
Why did you break up in the first place?  Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  He may just be feeling the same way about you.  Don't stay quiet.
1175710
A thing like that happened to me once. you need to move on from this relationship. you and him can still be friends but just that. find someone who will treat you right and not lead you on. you seem like a nice girl so find someone who will appreciate you.
1003212
Forget him...there was obviously a good reason why you broke up with eachother..and honey...he was cheating on his gf wit u ....what makes u think he won't cheat on u wit someone else??Find yourself a real man!<3
831116
sweetie you gotta let go. if he's cheating on you, don't let it bother you if they end up together. the fact that he cheated on you tells you you're not enough for him. even if you like him a lot, you gotta love and respect yourself more.
457159
Well The same thing happened 2 me and well I had 2 find out from my best friend that he was cheating on me. Its better to not know why then for when u do because it only causes more heartache. I should know. Plus IF he broke up with you  then he doesnt really love you. He probally cheated on you and likes that girl better. Guys are jerks... Go to your real friends Chicks before Dicks sweety :) \nTake care
176460
Cheating is NOT OK...the fact that he did that too you in the first place is soooo not cool. I'm surprised you didn't do away with him then! The thing is if you didn't do anything about it when it happened...he's probably thinkin sweet i'll do it again...unless he's really genuine. Just ask yourself...If he's hurt me this much this soon, whats to come in the future...? And what might come in the future is heartbreak...and you don't want that. If you break up with him now, you can do it on good terms, and possibly hold up a descent friendship!! Just pretect your heart...good luck!!!