What do I say to a friend with breast cancer?
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You can write her a nice letter just telling her what you've been doing and maybe send her some pictures so she can look them. Maybe some funny animal pictures or some of you and your friends together.
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Tell her how your feeling and that you don't want to harm your excellent friendship, but tell her
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talk to her personally..
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Unfortunately there is no one who can say for sure whether or not your friend will survive this cancer.\nthere are alot of places that you could research to find out the statics and survival rates for people with this kind of cancer. American Cancer Society, John Hopkins Research Hospital are a couple.  the better half of her having cancer is that at her age AML is the better of leukemia's to have. The very best thing that you can do for her is just be there, be there to listen whenn she needs you too, be there when she needs a helping hand, and always keep an open mind.  being patient is always good too, you have to remember whe things happen that are not expected that doctors, nurses and anyone else involved in her care are just human and do the very best they can, but sometimes the body does things that are not expected even to them.\ni wish you and your friend the very best of luck.\ni hope that all will work out for her.
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i wuld be real honest with her but also remember to be kind.it's alot harder to do then say i know.i am in a similar situation & it's never easy when it comes to ur friends.it culd be that ur friend is having a hard time & need sometime right now.she knows ur there & that's good.that's what friendship is.\ntake care,\nang w.
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Whatever you say make sure u mean it..... Just let your friend know if he or she needs any help ...such as help around house yard w/kids running errands u r willing  and ready. That way your friend can concentrate more on getting well.  If your friends wants to talk  about their illness  truly listen.   Most importantly by all means, do not treat your friend any different than you have in past.
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Be honest.  That is the best way.  Tell him that you would like to talk to him about something that is serious and you think it is important that he should know.  If he is truly a friend he will stand by you two breasts or one.
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There's nothing anyone can say right now that can make you feel better.  Know that's she's no longer in pain, and that she'd want you to carry on.  My deepest empathy to you, take care of yourself.
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my friend my love and my prayers and my spirit is with you at this time.  and I did not know what you are going through right now.  and I am so sorry that your family members have died and \nhopefully they are with god and they are in god' hands and god want it your family members to be with him for a reason and god\ntook them and so and when it is your time to go with god and god\nwill took you to be with him and your family members and when god want you and not in your time but in god's time and it will be the right time for you to be god and your family in heaven. and yes\nI know that you are in pain and I wish that I can help you with whatever you going through right now. yes my dad died in february 14, 2006 and my dad died on cancer. and yes I think that\nI know what you are going through right now. and yes my son david died in my stomach 13 years ago.  and yes I can relate to you my friend. and the why I look at this is that god took my son to\nbe with him and because it was god child before it was my child\nand god loan that child to me for a short time and god wanted my\nson to be with him and he is absent from the body is to be present with the lord.  maybe the lord want me to talk to you today\nand so i can try to help you today. my friend please listen to me and please go the pain go and so can you can be from your pain.\nmy friend if you go to church please to your pastor and your \npastor wife and they can help with your situation and all of you\ntalk to you and pray with each other.  my friend my heart out to you right now and I have so much compassion for you. and my love and my prayers and my spirit is with you.  and I don't want you or your mom to give each other a hard time and help each other and talk to each other ok and pray with each other ok. and the bible psalm 118:24 this is the day the lord has made we will\nrejoice and be glad in it. and god love you so much and he will never leave or forsake you and it with you at all times and when you can pray to god and will hear your prayers and and god will answers your prayers and my your prayers come to pass in god's timing and it will be the right time for you my friend and I hope that I help you today my friend and jesus and I love you and \nmy prayers are my love is with you and have a happy thanksgiving with your family or friends or whoever or with the lord and that is best with thanksgiving to spend with the lord. and \nthe lord will help you today. trust in the lord and keep your eyes on\nthe lord my friend. and have a good day today my friend leighanne\nleighanne62@yahoo.com\nplease email me if you want to ok.\nand please let me know how you are doing with yourself ok.\nso long for now.
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My mom was diagnosed three years ago. She had stage 3 breast cancer. It spread to the lymphnoids and she ended up having a double mastectomy. She's had plastic surgery and is now a fully developed cancer-free 46 year old. I'm so proud of her.\n\nMy best friends sister has Hodgkins disease. It's in her neck and she's currently undergoing treatment at Duke. He's having to stay with a friend while the rest of his family is with her. Please pray for her.\n\nI'd also like to say I'm sorry for whatever reason you posted this. Cancer is a hard thing to deal with but I know dozens of people who have overcome this. I hope everything is okay with you. Good luck and remember that there are always people to support you or whoever you know.
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Sleeping in a bra, has nothing to do with breast cancer.\n\nAlthough, it may be uncomfortable for her, that's about it.
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Q: WHAT DID ONE BOOB SAY TO THE OTHER?\n\nA: IF WE DONT GET SOME SUPPORT SOON, PEOPLE ARE GOING TO THINK WE'RE NUTS!
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Im so sorry girl.\nwell if i was you i wud tell him.\nfor her sake of course.\ndont tell him all the details jus that she has it and its treatment she has been going to.\ngood luck!\ni will pray for her!\nim so sorry but its nice to hear how much you care.\nthere are not many ppl left out there like you!
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The most important thing is that she tells him. Many people down talk shows but it is better to tell him than not. I suggest an e-mail. But if she wants it to be confidential, she should type a letter, or get an e-mail address specifically to tell him. She can get a close friend like you to do it as well. Some people may consider her a punk but the most important thing to do is tell him. The disease is not fatal.
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Be there for them...and let them know how important they are to you and that you enjoy hanging out with them and that you value their opinion...and every now and then do something unexpected to let them know how much they mean to you....just remind them how much you appreciate the friendship.
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If she is really your friend, she will accept you as you are and not stop talking to you.\nSo I would say "tell her".
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She'll be okay when she becomes used to the way she looks.  Definitely don't say anything.  She needs to have privacy, and thinking that other people are talking about her breasts will make her even more aware that she's "different".\nYour friend just needs to downplay the significance of her breasts.  She'll accept things in her own time