How do I react to this situation???? HELP!?
488516
Maybe he did not get the email.  Maybe the Internet Dog ate it.  Don't leave things up to technology.  Call him and ask him straight out what he thinks about your relationship.
738791
the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.
1021961
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
690071
well, at this time in her life, seeing that an older guy is not perfect can be hard, so get backup.  i would try to sit her down with a few friends and not attack her.  try not to use phrases like "you need to dump him now" or "this guy is terrible."  if you say those things, she will not hear you.  i would say things like, "i really care about you and i want you to be so happy, but are you?" or maybe "what do you think a boyfriend should act like or how should he treat you?" and maybe she will figure out for herself that he isn't good.  you, unfortunately, can make someone see that someone may not be good for them, they have to see it for themselves.  good luck!
540961
Been there and done that...not fun!  I feel for you but you have to be strong enough to GET OUT!  I had family and friends to help me out behind his back.  I planned carefully because he was smart and inquisitive, very controlling.  Get mad and smart too!  Figure out his work schedule and get it all done in a short amount of time.  Get a restraining order against him before you go so that you are somewhat protected when you leave.  Go somewhere safe where someone is with you all the time and has speed dial.  Get a plan B so that if this is not an option you have somewhere else to go.  Don't make him mad.  Above all don't let him see you are nervous.  Keep him calm and level headed until you pull it off.  Don't change your routine or compromise yourself.  Be sure to delete all "help" calls off the phone and alert the police of what you are about to do and the day and time.  You can also have the police escort you out once they know the situation if you need to do it that way.  My prayers go out with you!
22893
Just tell him.  Find him, go up to him & tell him.  You can't live your life wondering what would have happened if I said this.  So even if he is not responsive to your statements, you know in your heart you were honest and did everything you could possibly do to make it work.
309839
well, first of all, ask yourself what you want... then confront the girl if you are ready to.. then tell her what u feel, express everything and if its not enough, take some time off alone and reflect with what happened. talk to other people, share what bothers you, in that way, your anger or maybe rage might somehow released.. keep yoursel busy as well, it might help..
1028754
just take a deep breath and say " whats the worst that could happen? " \nif its awkward and the next day he asks u about it . say that it was was ur twin sister. lol.\nbest of luck sweetie
136131
I had something like this happen. girl appeared out of no where and wouldn't go away. she was determined to get him back and no matter what i said or thought about it me told me i was over reacting. well let me tell you how over reacting i was. I heard messages from her tellin him she wanted him come over and play at 3am. and he would hide to talk to her. well let me tell you. I left his sorry @ss shortly i foudn out he went and hid after i had our son to call her. if your man can't respect that you are uncomfortable leave it wont get any better
353421
Just listen, don't say much unless you REALLY need to defend yourself. Wait till they cool down and THEN discuss your opinion. I've found this is the best way to handle this situation. Because after you let them cool down they are MUCH more likely to agree with you.
630259
Don't mess around, just be forward and don't play those games.  If you wait, he might meet someone else.  I know, it happened to me and it sucks and you will be mad at yourself for not saying something sooner.
507750
Just move out, did you consider doing so.  What you're about to do might seem nice and hot now, but will you be able to deal with this in the future??? Can you just think of how terrible the consequences might be?  Start thinking of it backwards, if you will be able to deal with this and the possible consequences of this than go right ahead, if not, I suggest you take a real action like moving out, we're all weak and if this is how you feel now than there is a big chance that you both might weaken again one day.
112595
Oh dear Lord.  Please tell them right away.  You need sone kind of help.  I have never dealt with this and have no advise, but please get up enough courage to tell her, she can help you.
806113
I think you should just continue to talk to him as usual, until he responds, cause, if he feels the same way, he will go for it. If he doesn't feel the same, at least you took the brave step of talking to him like normal, y'know? And your friends were rude and inconsiderate to tell him about your feelings. They shouldn't have done something like that out of thrill and excitement, just to see what happens next. I bet they're watching you both reacting right now like a hawk, with popcorns in hand. Set it straight with them, and I hope they will apologize to you. Good luck!
1153190
how do u react when ur guy frnd tells u news?also i think u shld mayb think about this that perhaps they are closer to each other than they r with u.i think u sdld find new frnds..find a best frnd with whom u can share everything.im not saying that leave them,im not,all i think is perhaps a new frnd will do u some good.
268074
i think the best way is to TEST him/her.\nthis may sound difficult but its not!!!\nsee if this person is willing to get in trouble cuz of u \nor leave him/her 4 a couple of days see the reaction.\nRemember ur heart in this situation is the best guide.
974146
Back off and get a grip of yourself.\n\nYou say nothing changed...and yet you say things got a little worse.  Obviously something changed...it just wasn't by your rules.  Things changed also in that you've shared something important about your feelings.\n\nJust be nice to him but don't expect him to react the way you want him to.  Respect that he'll react the way he needs to.