Y is it that you always want your best friends boyfriend?
479159
Because it is human nature to always want what you can't and shouldn't have
593296
why should you have to choose? If you bestfriend is a true friend they will understand you want to spend time with your boyfriend, and if your boyfriend is worth having around ,he will understand that you want to do things with your best friend also
269254
You're best friend couldn't truly be a friend if she wants your man.  Does he show interest in her? If not, let her go or lay off the friendship for a while to see if she is truly your friend.  If he has interest in her, let him go also he was to be a friend before lover anyway. A friend is forever and would never hurt you or put you in compromising position.
626541
yes. it's actually not a question on the guy's side but on the girls since girls are a lot sensitive compare to boys. rivalry between the close friend and the girlfriend will never be avoided. so why not try to be close friends with your girlfriend or fall for your best friend? :)
249823
I think you should try going on a date with him. If you don't try it you may always wonder whether or not you did the right think. If he is indeed your best friend, your friendship should be strong enough to handle whatever happens. If you already know everything about each other (like most best friends do) than the transition from friend to boyfriend may just be the natural course of action for you two. However, if you are not physically attracted to him at all, then maybe you should stay just friends because neither one of you will be happy in a long term relationship.
255700
You didn't word the question in correct English, but I think I got the idea. Yes, you should date your best friend! That is the most ideal mate any girl could ever ask for.
728195
best friends make the best long time partners. they know all your faults and love you in spite of them or because of them. run with it.
1087030
to be honest I would rather my boyfriend lied to me than my best friend...guys come and go, but a best friend should be forever.  When lies begin between close friends it changes everything.
743755
No.  I am sure you are still his best friend.  He is just into his girlfriend.  Give him a call and try to schedule a time at least once a week.  Unfortunately, it does happen, when someone gets a boyfriend/girlfriend, they "forget" their friends for a little while.  You can let him know that it isn't healthy to spend all his time with her, that it is important to spend some time with his other friends too.  It isn't going to be the same though.  Try to get him to spend some time, like once a week as a guys night out, or once every week.  You haven't lost him.  He is just distracted at the moment.  \n\nDon't give up on him.  Best friends stay together and are there for each other when needed.
555496
dude the guy never liked you.... why you stressing?\n\nmove on.. obsessions like that are unhealthy.. find someone who's as crazy about you as you are about them. You can't get mad if the guy liked your best friend, he's entitled to like whoever he choses. \nif he was your boyfriend and liked your friend secretly then u'd have a problem but so far no problem.. get over it
805528
well if its your best friend then deffentily NO! And it depends if u like him a lot and think about your realtionship with your friend!
136881
You shouldn`t do that to the boyfriend because most likely he`ll be all hurt and that will be bad blood between the friends.\n\nBut that`s only if you don`t truly love his bestfriend.  If you do, then maybe you should go for who you love, given that you know for a fact that he loves you too.
321450
u cant stop thnking about him, u wish u cld date him even tho ur friend is dating him & ur bff has been in luv w/ him 4 3 yrs, u tease him, & he teases u bak. he makes u cry cuz u cant have him.  this is my situation so...
317271
bf = best friend\n\nb/f = boyfriend
418304
This always seems to happen. Best friends are best friends because they like the same things...including guys. She isn't doing it to hurt you, she can't help the way she feels. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. See if he has any friends that she may be interested in. If you have a strong, open relationship with your friend, maybe you could talk to her & find out her intentions, tell her how much he means to you & warn her what it could do to your friendship if she tries anything on with him. Don't be mean about it though, not unless she intends to steal him from you.
655054
2-my best friend....my boyfriend
205724
I think they want the most attractive guy to show of to their friends because all her friends have attractive boyfriends it falls under wanting something for all the wrong reasons because i played this roll before until i found out why she wanted me.but i know one of the good guys