what do men think of a woman that smokes.my friend does and she still gets alot of attention from guys,help!!!
489706
Guess it depends on the guy. I smoke but still get hit on. It depends how women carry themselves.\n\nBut don't start smoking because you think you'll get attention. Your friend (and me) are stupid!
793620
Well, I guess this also depends on how long you were dating before you decieded to tell her. And it also depends on if she had asked you this question before. If you had told her you didn't smoke, and now you are telling her you did, she's going to lose a lot of trust in you. Be sure to tell her you are NEVER going to smoke again and it's something that you learned an important lesson about. Her reaction is a very good reason to not pick up a smoke ever again, and you have to let her know that that is what your intentions are. Let her be mad for a bit, and then try to discuss. If she doesn't want to talk, then you have to decide if maybe she's not the right one for you. Good Luck :-)
1048783
Personally, for me, it depends on the woman in question....but if she is under 40 and in reasonable shape and can carry herself well anyway, I don't mind it.  It can be attractive on the right lady, and yet it can also be a bit less than classy, depends on the lady doing it, does she do it well, go overboard, etc?\n\nAs far as my attitude towards her, it really doesn't change things any more than any other attempt that women use to look nice, like makeup, wearing a dress/nylons versus pants, showing bare legs (where are the folks whining about short shorts and exposed butt crack, huh?), piercings, and so on...\n\nOnly thing that really turns me away are scars and tattoos, and those only if they are fairly massive (to the point of being disfiguring).\n\nBut then again, I am one of those...*lol*....I try to be a gentleman out in public, meaning if I am close enough to talk to a woman, I keep my eyes on her face as much as possible, duh...it's called self-control and manners, and some guys could use that.\n\nBecause men can be out of control skanks too, you know?  Especially down south with the bare-chest thing....ughhh...
1011080
ma mate does. women love the attention i think.
808876
She already knows that you support her in not smoking, the only thing that you can do is continue to let her know that her smoking hurts you and that you would support her efforts to quit. Don't berate her, it will only make her resent you. The final decision is hers and hers alone. Many people successfully give up smoking, but it takes tremendous willpower and there are probably even more ex-smokers in the world than smokers.
1121268
Talk to him. A couple of ciggaretts shouldnt ruin a relationship. just tell him to quit smoking or quit you. he will make the right choice.
723643
After I turned 25 or so, I stopped dating women who smoke.  It's a total deal-breaker.\n\n"Kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray."
37146
A wise man one asked me, 'what is the perfect woman's body shape?' I didn't know of course, so he replied, 'the shape of the woman whom he loves'.\n\nPeople can be easily influenced by what their friends think, men as well as women. It seems to me that men want their friends to think highly of them, perhaps even jealous of them. One of the ways of doing this is to have a 'desirable' girlfriend. Unfortunately, (especially in the US it seems) men are very fixated on having a 'hot' woman, I suppose to make themselves to be seen as successful, or more desirable-\n\nIt's a pity that people can be so shallow, life is not about looks it's about having fun!\n\nSo, it sounds like this guy probably did like you, but then was influenced by others, and instead of being strong about it he succumbed to his own feelings of inadequacy.
670194
Hehehehehehehe :D My boyfriend smokes, and keeps trying to give up, perhaps that will encourage him more.
97375
OMG!!! This is wayyyyyyyy too funny .......... I take it you have tried this and are still smoking this way???? \n\nHow many packs a day and where do you go for your smoke break since you can't smoke in a public restroom???\n\nI bet the other smokers around you really have something to talk about after break!!!!!
107376
Don't!!!    Not sure how you are hiding it anyway.  I can smell smoke on people.  I get my nieces sometimes and I smell them as soon as they get into the car....why? because their mother smokes....    Smoking stinks.  Advice?  Don't keep it from him.  If you want to do it, just do it outside.  Stand up for what you believe in or quit.  Good luck.  Keep it honest though.  Don't keep things.
771274
Well for starters it isn't what you wear or if you smoke cigs.. it is how you act that will impress a man.. smoking where i live is pretty much against the law now since every place has pretty much went no smoking..\nGo out and have a good time.. seeing a woman having a good time usually attracts most me.. will make you look like someone fun to be with.. \nIf you are just going out looking for sex.. advertise it.. someone will take you up on it.. that is what most guys in the bars or clubs are out trolling for anyway.. shouldn't be to hard to pick one of them up.. they are easy..\njust becareful what you are looking for it might just bite you in the ass.\ngood luck
52969
as far as long term goes.. BEAUTY always out weighs SMOKIN HOT.  In my past experiences, SMOKIN HOT women like a lot of attention from more than 1 guy.. and tend to be trouble!
214229
Cause it looks so darn cool!\nJUST KIDDING!\nI quit smoking 3 years ago and will never smoke again, its NASTY!, but when I was 16 I thought I looked SO cool & tough when I had a smoke in my hand.
231449
Women get used to being treated like dirt. It's sad, but it's true. When I met my "great guy" it took everything in me not to toss him away because I didn't know how to react to a guy listening to me, giving me good advice, opening doors for me and offering to pick up the bill instead of "borrowing" money. I think women often get the idea that they don't deserve to be treated well. I definitely think one should be careful with the use of those three naughty words (I l#v! y@u.)  I've had to tell friends to calm down and enjoy the ride when they've freaked out because they're being treated well---I think it's the acceleration a relationship can have when things go well that can often lead to catastrophy. Most of all, if she can't take your good treatment, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. That's the downfall of good guys. The gentlemen just need to stay gentlemen and know that they are worth something. We don't need our good men going to trashy b*tc%es anyway.
111400
Nonsmoker: I'm under 18 and already I know that smoking is REALLY BAD!!! I hate it. I know a lot of things by joining after school groups and they teach about in school sometimes. I would never really want to be around someone who smokes, unless they are family or really close friends.
1101355
it depends on whether the woman wants that attention or not.If they see someone looking and they crouch down more so their shirt will open up more,then it's probably like that attention.But I mean if it bothers some woman they tent to ask that person to stop looking or wear more conservative clothes.There really isn't much that we can do because it is there and we can't get rid of them.