whats the best way to approach to a girl while she is with her freinds in a bar??
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greet her friends (it's a good first impression--and you want them to like you, trust me)...but don't be too interested (you don't want to seem as though you're trying to pick up the whole group)\n\nsingle her out, but do not be too overpowering--girl groups don't like their members picked off\n\nother than keeping those things in mind, just be yourself\n\nbe aware of their signals...if they seem put off, give them their space--trust me if you put off the group, even if the girl likes you she won't hear the end of it from her friends.
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try to approach her in a friendly way first
841890
flirt wit her or just b friends intill u get to know her better
593337
Leave her a note or a message, from and anonymous person telling her where to meet you, or just breathe slowly and try asking her out. It will be nerve wrecking, but it might be worth it!
1155535
1.) Don't be Drunk.\n2.) No Corny Pick-Up Lines.\n3.) Compliment Her\n4.) Talk About a General Topic that you know WON'T Offend Her.
551552
Be honest.  If it is a woman, take her out for a cup and explain it to them.  Take a guy out for beer.  It could go something like this:\n\nSusie Q, we have been friends for 2 years now and you know that I would never say anything mean to hurt you.  I have noticed that you pick you nose in public and it gives others a bad impression of you....etc.
545247
hang out with your mutual friend, and have him invite her along too. That way you can introduce yourself, hang out with her, and be able to talk to her after.
275278
tell her to meet you at a bar.  tell her you'll be wearing a certain color.  wear a completely diff one.  If you see her and like her tell her you had to change because you spilled something on it.  If you don't like her you can fade away into the background and meet other people and just ignore her.  If she approaches you say you're not him and don't know who she's talking about.
369109
get her attention first then say hello, then ask her name, then say your name, etc...
351645
Go to club and dancing away, dont worry about other.\nIf you cool dancer one gal come to you and dance with you.\nDon't expect too much from your friend...
546464
Easy - do it in a way that wont make it look like you're in feet first. If you know her reasonably well and get talking why not suggest a coffee or a drink one night. Then if she says no, you could say something like "oh, no problem, just thought it'd be cool to catch up" - no harm done!
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ask them questions.........ask them to help you out in anyway........ask to help them in anyways...........ask about their hair or clothing............make up excuses to communicate with them........are you really really shy? start by simply saying "Hello" to them as they pass you by as you walk..........very casual........make yourself comfortable with saying "Hello" to them. All of them! Say "Hello" to any woman......then when you feel comfortable with this add a simple question such as "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "Pardon me, where is the nearest public telephone" As you have more experiences with women you will feel more comfortable approaching and talking to women you find attractive.
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This time no drinking until after you and her get together. Get to the place where you are meeting her first then she will find you. You might want look real close when she gets there so you remember her for the next date. Remember there are allot of things besides a persons looks don't be to quick to end the evening.
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Go for it mate ! Ask her out . When you see her walking out or in the gym, take a deep breath and just ask her . If you dont you will always wonder what if . You will regret it if you dont . Trust me i know !!!!!!!!!! If you dont ask her some other geezer might get in there before you. Just say " Do you fancy coming out for a drink?"  How easy is it to say that. DO IT !!!!!!!!!!! Good luck young jedi ! If it turns out that you land up getting married can i get an invite to the head table. If you pick this as best answer let me know how you got on when you leave feedback.
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Just start small, say hi in passing, and then eventually maybe you will be comfortable enough to actually start a convesation with her. Just relax and be yourself, its the best advice I can give you.
224252
I have been a bartender for ten years and trust me, as stupid as it sounds, just walk up with confidance say hello and introduce yourself. tell her you saw her she looked beautiful and you wanted to buy her a drink. simple as that. don't ever feel stupid about rejection either, there are plenty of beautiful girls who would be more than willing to share a drink with you
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get to know her name. its not retarded. then when she tells you her name, say for instance sarah,ask her " so sarah, would you like to catch a movie/ grab a drink with me sometime?\n\ndun look nervous!! just do it! if she says no, then you should consider buying your beer at another 711