How do i get a guy to like me?
477820
Be pretty.\n\nOR\n\nInvite the guy to have a threesome with you and your prettiest friend.\n\nEither way should work.
62456
well, it's a big problem the only way to figure out is just hang around alittle try making a conversation with them and get to know them alittle bit then try to see if they drop any hints around you just be friends at first and he'll start to like you just take it slowly and you'll have him in no time.
273216
Sweetie, just be his friend. If you get a chance to get him alone, talk to him and just let him know that you like him as a friend but you usually don't talk to him around his friends because you know that they will make fun of you. You can't make someone like you so if you offer him friendship and he rejects it, then he's just a shallow jerk and who the hell needs him anyway? Hold your head up high and be proud. Don't let them make you feel less than you are. I can tell that you have a good heart and you're a very sweet girl, so if they don't like you, you know we do! I think you're very special and sometimes people in this world just don't know what to do with a good, genuine heart like yours. If they don't, then they deserve your friendship in the first place. It may not be much, but you do have us and we'll be your friend. The people on YA are good, caring people who don't give a damn what you look like. And don't say that you're unattractive. Email me and I'll give you a few tips to improve your appearance if you're really that concerned about it. Just realize that true beauty comes from within and from what I can tell, you are a true beauty. I've seen your answers and questions and your a sweet soul with a beautiful heart, so the one's that don't think so can just piss off! God bless.
1001473
Well u can't really get him to like u. All u can do is stalk him & hope he panics & gives in ( JUST KIDDING) the best thing to do is be honest. Ask him out..the worst that cud happen is that he'll say no. At least you'll know he's not interested instead of clinging to false hope and maybe even saying no to someone who might've made u happy. Sorry about the joke.. i know how it is to have feelings for a guy and u have no idea what to do.
852727
well in my opinion if your being yourself around him and he doesnt like you then their is OBVIOUSLY something wrong with him :) but you can always do little things to help him like you like wear a really pretty smelling perfume cuz guys can smell it even if they dont say so....also bring food, I swear food is the easiest way to get a guy to come over and talk to you. bring some and then ask them if they want any and theyll keep talking to you. Lastly one thing that i do that has worked for me is saying your hands are cold. say it and then touch their arm and theyll say someting like "geez your hands are cold!" and then sometimes depending on the guy he'll say " Feel mine they arent cold" and BAM their you go!my freinds starting doing this after i told them and they say it works so i hope it helps and i hope you get your guy!
135695
first, u should'nt be upfront and tell him u like him, i usually like a girl that is playful, but not in a sense where u seem to be to agressive. Play it smoothly, and bump into him once in a while. If all possible try to get him alone with u and talk to him, but not so much as to make u seem desparate for him (meaning make him laugh, show him u have a great personality.)
213500
A) Maybe You are intimidating. Make the first move on the guy you like. Young or shy guys have a big fear of rejection.\n\nB) Be more friendly. Hint on the guys you like. Flirt a little.
746177
well i think a good way to get a guy to notice you is to just be yourself. if he is the right guy for you then he will definitely notice you.
413156
1.) Make him notice you and get to know him.\n2.) Get close to him so it's kind of obvious that you want to be more than just friends. Play with his hair, touch his hand, touch him casually in neutral places like his arm, leg, back, etc.\n3.) Tell him you like him.\n\nIf you get to be good friends, tell him that if he doesn't like you, it's okay, you're fine with staying friends.
75705
i have been in your shoes! okay a couple steps \n\n1) flirt\n2) make friends w/ his friends\n3)flirt\n4) make friends with him\n5) ask his friends who he likes\n6)flirt \n7) casualy invite him on a friendly date, like a movie or bowling \n8) borrow his pen and write your number on his arm -- if he likes you, he'll call, and this way he doesnt need a lame excuse to ask u for ure number like "i need hw help.."\n\neven if he responds to ure flirting in a positive way, like flirting back or blushing, that is a good sign\n\nbtw those steps are not really in order, just a couple suggestshuns\n\nthis always works for me, i've only been turned down once or twice, no joke
10137
Just be yourself and if he doesn't like you, so-be-it.  There will be other guys out there who will like you for you.  Those are the ones that are going to mean something.\n\nThe ones that like you for you are the ones that will carry you through.\n\nNo matter how hard you try, if someone doesn't like you, they don't like you.\n\nWhen they like you, they like you.\n\nREMEMBER!  What's meant to be will always find a way!\n\nGood Luck!
520080
This is a tough one, but the best thing you can do is to try not to worry about it.  THAT'S really what guys like.  I know, I know, that seems impossible.  But if you put your focus on other interests, like joining the yearbook staff, or whatever, you'll get to know guys in a setting where you have a common interest.  If they sense you're trying to get them to like you, they automatically don't.  It's one of life's big bummers.  :(  You have to become the amazing woman you can be, focusing on yourself, not on them, and then they flock to you.
626854
and???\ntalk to hoim n stuff\nyeh if you want to get him to like you\ndont stalk
146540
you cant actually make someone like you . most of the time girls try to make themselves someone there not dont do that. if you really want a guy to like be yourself. if this guy has sisters or something try to befriend them theyll sort of introduce you to him and then you might want to dress yourself up a little, dont overdo it, and be the sweet kind person you are.\nDont throw yourself at him either because then hell think your easy and he'll just want to get in your pants.
700192
Ask yourself the following questions and try to relax and answer them.  Your heart will not lead you wrong so go with your heart! Does she flirt with you?  Are you the ideal BF!\nHow you get a guy to like you! \n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones \n2. Smile a LOT \n3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him \n4. Be REALLY nice \n5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") \n6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) \n7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) \n8. Be yourself! \n9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) \n10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) \n12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? \n13. Say hi to him in the hallways \n14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! \n14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! \n15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) \n16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) \n17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* \n18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa \n19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \n-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------\nOK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ! \nLadies: this will make you tear up :)\nfellas: read it, all of it! :)\n1-touch their waist\n2-talk to her\n3-share secrets\n4-give her your jacket\n5-kiss them slowly\nare you remembering this?\n6-hug her\n7-hold her\n8-laugh with her\n9-invite her somewhere\n10-let her be with you when you're with your friends\nkeep reading\n11-smile with her\n12-take pictures with her\n13-pull her onto your lap\n14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back\n15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved\nare you thinking about someone?\n16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her\n17-kiss her unexpectedly\n18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST\n19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!\n20-tell her the way you feel about her!\n20 u need to show her you mean it too\n21-kiss her on the lips\n22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff\n23-tell her what feels good\n24-make her feel loved\n25-buy her stuff. small things can still help\nwe might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things\n26-don't lie to her\n27-dont cheat on her\n28-take her anywhere she wants\n29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her\n30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you\nare you still reading this u better be its important\n31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.\n32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.\n33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).\n34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.\n35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act
352675
just be yourself. if you have to change yourself for a guy to like you, then he really doesn't like you. you shouldn't have to do ANYTHING different for ANYONE to like you. your you and if they cant except that then its there lost. don't change a thing!!!
407791
First and formost you must be yourself becuase afterall, you want him to like YOU. if you act a different way from the way you normally act then it kind of defeats the purpose. I know I would want a girl who was confident in herself and her appearance. Approach him happy with a smile on your face. Not too big because as you stated before, you do not want to look desperate. Me being a guy, I can tell you that if he likes you he will probably just come out and tell you. You won't have to look too deep inside his soul to find out. Good luck with that and I hope all goes well!