how do u feel when your friends turn there backs on u?
482989
I feel hurt but i realize they were never my friend from the begining. Il be your friend.
278211
I was going over my past answers and came across your question so I thought I would check what other questions you pose.  \n\nWell, here is my answer to this one!\n\nI have had several Best Friends.  They were/are special in their own ways, but I won't lie, most of them have let me down more than once.  I try to accept that they have to look out for themselves first, but I have always been the one to look out for them first.  It has never resulted in something positive, I'm afraid.  But I don't regret it.\nI have always felt good when being there for my friends, and being able to help them.  It gives/gave me satisfaction and a feeling of being needed and appreciated.\n\nI wish for you many best friends, that will be truly faithful and loyal to you.  I think you deserve it!\n\nBest wishes!
94939
If they turned on you, they are probably not a true friend.
877903
I know exactly how you  feel. like they wont listen to you and they are always thinking negative. well the easiest thing for me to do is to talk to that guy while your friend isn't around and ask him if he likes her like that. and there are some signs to tell you if he is fibbing or not. if he turns red when you talk to him, or he doesn't keep direct eye contat with you and other small stuff like that. all you have to do is watch your friend and him when they talk to see if he is sending her those signs and she is just to blind to see them\n\nhope that helped
115644
Yeah.  it's so hard when it's one of my best friends who is in the wrong because I will always feel compelled to side with her, it's usually because I feel sorry for her and if it's something harmless then I will just take her side.  \nAnother reason I've done this is when the guy is being a total pompous jerk about being right.  That makes it very hard to side with a guy, no matter how strong his position  may be.  \n\nI will admit that as a woman it is easy to want to side with other women.  It's like rooting for the home team.  Plus, I always hope that I will have at least someone in my corner to give me the benefit of the doubt, even if I am in the wrong about something.
716842
Well, I can sympathize... because I have been "walked over" by many friends.  I'm smart, academically speaking, and have made many friends who feel it is my duty to tutor and provide them the answers and help on all their papers.  Or friends who only call when they need something.  This is why I only have 1 real friend, and my husband.  It took a while to realize that people are shadey, and you can't always trust them.  Hard lesson learned.  Now I evaluate every relationship, asking "Am I getting out of this relationship what I am putting in?" and if I am putting in too much energy... and not recieving any of that energy back, then you really have to evaluate if it's worth it..
788405
bcause u feel it will harm ur friendship
145531
Try to trust your true self, and also your friends too, you will find satisfaction, It is only because you yourself hide some part of your frankness from your friends so you feel dissatisfied.
31711
I don't think so, if people can't be mature enough to accept honest opinions from friends, to be honest, me personally I don't care for their friendship, I decided a long time ago that I’m done baby sitting friends, and they know that. I don't get upset of every little thing they say and I expect the same treatment from them.
89237
DEAR \ngo and say sorry to them. Even if u r not wrong what bad a sorry will do instead u will get ur frenz back\nBEST OF LUCK
235342
go with your gut feeling to be on the safe side. usually that feeling is right. if you feel that strongly about someone lying to you, definatly confront them and talk it out. yes that persons going to get upset and deffensive but you have the right to know if you suspect something going on behind your back.
1118428
baby girl, those are harsh words to say. i'm sure you wish to take it back and have a do-over. but you're right. any friends of mine that treat me like dirt; i would simply ignore that person. it's for the best baby girl. just deal with the sorrow for a while. it will pass.
82002
A true friend will never turn their back on you.  A true friend will give advice as well as ask for it.  They will listen to your problems, and ask you to listen to theirs.  They have you in mind, not just themselves.  "Friends" cannot do all the things that I've explained above.
108775
When they like you back.
705401
yeah that happens to me all the time \ni talk to my "friends" but they dont seem to be a "friend"\nor even family\ni feel like i cant trust my friends or family\nwith your friends or family you feel like your not connected to them even though your talking and they are right there\nthey dont treat or look at you as a family\nthey look at you like an outsider and that sometimes makes you feel not wanted so you end up getting used to it that you really dont care. you become very numb to it. \nppl like that wont care about you or care about your issues.\ni have dealt with that personally almost all the time\n\nhey wanna be my friend ?
903644
I know exactly how you feel, my so called "best friend" is treating my like crap, and my other "best friend" keeps feeding her lies about me hating her, and now their both......I'm sorry, your the one posting the question, sorry. You know what, forget those dumb asses bitches. They don't know what the hell their losing, their losing a good friend, a loyal friend, a great sister, and a best friend. This world sucks, and if they think you suck, then are they really even your freaking friends!?!??!?!?!?!?!
856697
What happened is that my friends got mad because of how you attacked me.