my best friends brother likes me and i like him but my best friend doesn't want us to go out wat should i do.
492496
who controls your life? you or your best friend?
694489
Sounds like the 'I don't want to go out with you,but I don't want you going out or showing any interest what-so-ever in any one else' syndrom.Don't let him stop you from having a good time when your out and don't let him stop you from talking or even fancing another guy.He didn't want to be with you,thats his loss and somebody else's gain.If you allow it he will come between any relationship you form,even if its just friendships.Let him carry on acting like a spoilt and sulky child,just don't let him spoil things for you and yes,I think you would be better of just having him as a friend but,in all honesty,would you want him as a friend if he acts like this.
581465
You know, we are in the same situation. You are still considered bestfriends. You see, it doesn't mean that if you go with other persons or friends you don't like your bestfriend. Think of the times you spent together and all the memories you have shared with each other. of course, your bestfriend will miss you. you know there is really a stage in friendship wherein they're kinda bored with each other. maybe you can talk to your bestriend and eventually you can resolve this problem. hope I've helped you... ^_^
838275
I wouldn't make a move on my best friend without being 100% sure he feels the same thing. You might be risking a lot if u tell him and he doesnt feel the same. \n\nSo i'd say if u like other guy start from there... maybe it works with that guy and u forget about ur best friend... if it doesnt work then just wait u have something more concrete before telling anything to yur best friend.
410041
I think you should ask your best friend and find out how she feels.  It would be wrong to loose a friend over a guy that you are not even sure you like.
753818
both of you just need to completely forget about him. NEVER LET A GUY GET IN THE WAY OF YOU AND YOUR BEST FRIEND!!! it will/would be hard to do that, but you must. unless she is willing to just look and not touch, both of you need to forget about him. what you should do [instead of] is just go up and talk to him. if you cant have him, he might have some hot friends or brothers or something.\n\nLuv Ya,\nTAY
250713
You really are in a dilemma. If you feel your friend is more important, just tell the guy to go to hell, and stop bothering you. By the way, does the guy know your friend likes him? If he doesn't, your friend is the one who has to take the next step, without your help. best of luck.
681850
If your brother likes her then let him do it let it just go with the flow. Don't rush things or your going to mess it up for him.
496160
If you don't want to hurt his feelings .. try to come up with something other then "I like you as a friend, I like you like a brother, I think we should just be friends " line.  \n\nMaybe tell him you're not looking for a relationship at this time & you think your friendship is very important to you and you would never want to ruien what you have now with him .. and he means a lot to you !
1139969
He likes you.  Obviously not your friend (no offence to her)  even if you dont go out with him, hes not going to go out with your friend.  He likes you for a reason.  So, you like him, he likes you.  And I'm sure your friend will find another guy.  I mean, if she gets sad about it, thats her problem .  Not tryingto be mean, but she cant force thi guy to go out with her.  You don't have to force anything, so I say go for it while your still young!!
912395
let the person that likes you that you like his friend he will understand.good luck
406482
well,, friendship is a friendship, keep it that way\n\nI feel that you do not want your friendship to change, so going out with him "may" change this.  Could you say, we can go out, but as FRIENDS, I do not want anything more/less.  I'd hate to not have you as my friend anymore...
1035854
wall u need to tell hem that Ur friendship means a lot to u. And u don't wont to Mass that up with mixed feelings of going out. And if he cant accept that than i should just walk a way.
399498
it sounds like they dont care how you feel, is ther someone that she really like so that you all can hang out together so they can see what they are doing to you is not fair.  How long have you been goin with him. tell them you dont like it and you mean when you say it and if they dont listen hit them where it hurts be even dirtier then they are date someone else becuase he is cheating on you with your best friend
678619
Do you want to go out with her cuz she's hot or cuz you like her? Because if it's just because she's hot, then No. Don't ruin your relationship with your brother. If it's cause you actually like her then give it time.
204588
Woah there is alot of "liking" going on here...sounds like a middle school love triangle....that's cool. Just remember this, there will be plenty more of him liking you, while he likes your best friend, but she likes this other guy, and he thinks he shouldn't like niether one of you...so he decides to like your sister, but your sister doesn't want to hurt you becuase you like him, in the future.
31678
don't "do" anything until you've found out if your friend is cool with it.  just be open and honest with him and if he's your best friend he'll understand whether or not he feels the same way.\n\nif you both DO feel the same way then just go with it and see what happens.  it sounds like you're probably young so just do whatever feels right.  just remember to respect each other and don't hurt one another (physically or emotionally!)