i have a little girl by this guy. we don't date, he has a girl, but he flips out when i'm with a guy. why?
477103
sounds like this guy's bad news from what you've said sounds like your doing the right thing, I'd say he's jealous, he's probably thinking if he cant have you no body else can. good luck & keep up the good work as i wouldnt have any thing to do with this guy eather
859093
he sounds like he is either bi curious, or bi. i would be careful, if he is bi curious that could mean he just wants to try things out with a guy, but he still wants to stay with his girlfriend. make it clear that he has to chose u if he wants any of u, or u'll end up used and hurt, or someone who makes ur bf cheat on u
308869
Maybe he is going to break up with the other girl and go out with you. He may just want to get to know you more.
954924
You should be asking him not people here. If you have not asked him, why not? Is his actions really that bad? Sounds like you are slightly jealous, but why? Do you feel he is attempting to impress another female?\n\nOther than being jealous I don't see a motive for this being a huge issue.
524621
You need to take responsibility. YOU chose him as the father of your kids right??? You girls make the mistake of doing whatever they want with no regard to yourselves or your unborn children........Then whine when they "turn-out' to be idiots...Remember.. IF YOU PAY ATTENTION, Guys tell you who they are. LISTEN!
942812
He is keeping you as a back up sorry to say.  Plus why would you want to break this girls heart by getting him to leave her?  Don't think of only yourself but her feelings too.
994047
Oh good grieF!\n\nIf he's single and you are even half decent looking you got yourself a date.\n\nWhy do girls think that guys are girls.  The one advantage you have is that nature made guys VERY OPEN to any decent girl.
906123
i guess it depends whether they are comfortable with the girl they are with or used to them being around i remember my 9th grade and 8th grade boyfriend wasnt dippy at all because he was comfortable with me being around and thats what helped us last until today lol but he can be goofy at times but i find it pretty funny so i dont think he is a moran for it i think every guy should have a little goof and no how to live a little and not be serious all the time
763360
Ok, let me see if I have this.  This dude has said flat out he doesn't want a relationship with you.  And he is with somebody else.  But he will still bone you?  What don't you get?  The guy wants you as his side salad, girl, nothing more.  Why do you want someone who is going to cheat in a relationship anyway?  You have self esteem issues if you are thinking of changing your appearance for this guy.  Wake up and get a real man and not this loser.  If you do have one more night with him, make sure you bring chunky peanut butter and a dog.  Dim the lights.  Put the peanut butter on his balls and tell him it's whipped cream.  Then let your dog take a bite out of crime, girl.
247066
It sounds like he probably had some interest in you but possibly not beyond friendship.  I'm betting he has another girl that he likes and he is shutting you out because of that.
175390
my roommate just got dumped by her boyfriend, and he told her that he wanted to be good friends, and nothing would change but their title, and all this crap. now he wont even look at her when he passes her on the way to class. basically, boys are stupid. they go through times when they are in a relationship with an AWESOME girl and they realize how much they care about that girl, and they start to freak out. thats when they dump the girl. it makes no sense to me why a guy would dump a girl that he really cares about. that could be what your boyfriend is doing, trying to protect himself from getting hurt because he really cares about you. thats what it sounds like to me, especially since he told your bff that he didnt want to get hurt.
3232
Guys have hard wired instincts that make them uncomfortable in any situation that involves both sex and their son or dad. Say nothing. His dad won't say anything either. Now would be a good time to start looking for another boyfriend.
688016
I would be a little worried, but don't over-react. Ask him and this girl *separately* about how they know each other, and compare their stories. If they don't match up, then confront him about it, calmly, making sure that he knows you aren't upset, just a little concerned.
719107
Your confusion is a sign that you physical attraction is messing with your ability to make good decisions.  If this relationship is a mistake, then break it off.  Apologize to the boy, tell him you're sorry that you let things get out of hand, that you should have known better.\n\nThen be careful - this kind of thing is a message to you that you aren't ready for relationships like this yet.  Find a boy that you are friends with.  If you can talk to him normal for a few months, you might have a future boyfriend.  But no kiss/hold hands/saying I love you.  That's making a promise you're not ready to keep.\n\nAnd, since you are thinking about it, no sex until you have enough $$$ to have a baby.  When you have a plan as to what you would do if you were pregnant, then you are ready for sex.
963270
If you are with another guy, he feels that the other guy can take his place as your boyfriend. If you are with another girl, he doesn't feel as if he can be replaced. Because of this, he considers you being with another guy cheating but not if it is another girl.
657212
He is an idiot, he wants to go with another girl and have a little break with you, basically mona mu he wants to take advantage of you!
585834
It could be that he's attracted to you. You can be attracted to more than one person at a time. But you choose to be with one person. Unless he breaks up with his gf, don't let him do anything with you. You will end up feeling used.\n\nOR maybe he sees you as a friend, just someone he's comfortable with. Maybe you misinterpret his looks and because he feels like you're a good friend, he tells you his news first.\n\nI guess, you could always ask him! But think about it, if he's willing to flirt with you while he has a gf. And then breaks up with her to be with you, most likely he will do the same thing to you!