How can I help my girlfriend with her problems?
476478
best thing to do from such a distance is to listen to her, and reassure her. After all, you like her, right?  Remind her why.  Being 15, she's going through a heck of a lot.  You can't change how her family are toward her, but you can help her see what's great about her.  Just be there for her.  Make her laugh.
592379
She's insecure.  Get her to admit it, and find out if she's willing to work on it. Don't threaten to dump her because that will just make her worse.  Obviously her trust has been violated by someone else, so try not to take it personally.  If she won't admit she has a problem, there's nothing you can do...a relationship with someone who won't admit they ever have any problems is going down much faster than someone who has an admitted problem they are dealing with.  \n\nIf she does admit she has a problem, you need to decide whether or not you can be a part of the solution and show her that trustworthy people do exist.  It's possible for her to come out of it, but it will take some time, and patience from you.  \n\nIf you feel you're not up to the challenge, by all means, end it sooner than later, but try to let her down easy because she's obviously has had enough to deal with already.
811271
end the relationship now while she is in a place that will help her learn to cope with it. you can not let her use her illness and  your relationship as a crutch. im a nurse and a lot of mental illness personalitys tend to manipulate. she will make you stay with her. you are young and need to get on with your life.
213291
Should be no reason for her to have guys over if you two are involved in a true loving relationship, this is not a trust issue, it is an issue of hurting a person you supposedly are in a relationship with.  If she doesn't want to help you in this regard, get a new girlfriend.  You should not have to suffer constant anxiety because someone is not respecting your feelings.  Women want that from men all the time, but if they don't reciprocate, it's time to find one that does.
94000
prove to her u won't give her anymore problems.\nstop talking bout it, and be about it!
997241
If you've been friends with her, then just talk to her, and if she's unhappy or having a problem in her couple, she'll talk it out or give you signs to it by herself. Believe only what she tells you. Just tell her you'll be here if she needs you. she might want to solve her own problems, and knowing yuo'll be right here will help her morally if she really has probs in her couple.\nAll the best!
714179
Be there for her and listen to her...be the shoulder she leans on...and the person she cries with...spend time with her...and encourage her to go out, and to spend her time doing things she likes to do...\n\nBe patient, and listen to her...show her that you are there for her and that she can rely on you...\n\nBy the way, you are a really good guy...Good luck!!!
596614
You really do care for your girl...!!!\n\nShe probably hails from a very disturbed background. I think she is insecure not only about herself but also about her relationship. And I also think that she lacks self confidence.\nThere are a lot of things that you have not mentioned, that is how old is she and what is she doing...??\nFor her to get over the habit of not working well with people she needs to work on projects that have to be done in groups.\n\nConstantly encourage her to do things that involve her participation and that involve her interaction with lots of people.\nShe also needs your constant support and love. And if this does not work then you need to take her to a pshycologist.
484279
You really cant do much. But you can go get help but my thought on that is .She is a woman and she knows herself going for help may only make things worse.\n\nBut you need to roll with it and I don't mean follow behind her like a dog. Let the time come when she notice that you aren't asking are waiting. I know that is hard.\n\nBut you must not look like she has a dildo always ready for her. She maybe just hard to turn on she may like hunting.\n\nYou can do it she is your girl she may need this back up. May all things work well
75516
Ask your friends to help you with your problems
60197
Ask her about her problem if she has one.
821720
Girl, that's a rough situation. Its all good to help for a little while, but her ex seems to getting a little bit to dependent on your girlfriend. The bottom line is that her ex needs to grow up and be a women, it doesn't take that long to get get your stuff together. Tell your girlfriend to give her a couple of pointers and move on. Keep your head up!
505135
Kudos to you for caring enough about her to want to help her.  Take her out to breakfast/lunch and sit down and have a long heart to heart with her.  Let her know all the good things that you see in her and how valuable of a person you think she is, then let her know how some positive things about her have influenced your life.  Tell her you are starting to see some things changing, and you love her and don't want to see the old her consumed by a new person that you aren't familiar with.  Remind her of the dangers/consequences of the lifestyle she is choosing, and let her know that you want better for her.  Finally, let her know that you feel this way because you see her as someone deserving all the best that life has to offer, and that u care too much to just sit by and watch her destroy her life and reputation.  Encourage her to seek counseling for low self esteem issues, and support her in any way that you can while she is going through these adjustments in her life....Don't give up on her...sometimes all people need is just 1 person to believe in them, until they can believe in themselves again!!!!....
301521
I would continue to be her friend. Realize that she is not going to be able to put as much as you put into the relationship, due to her current mental state. You now know that that because of her condition that you won't be able to believe what she says. Keep the relationship fun and light. That way you won't get caught up in the emotional drama.
284627
Try counseling first if you want to stay together.  If she can't quit leave her unless you like it.
309331
Talk to her and have her open up and tell you whats been going on. Tell her your feels. Be open, no secrets, that is the key to relationships.
399731
You may not be able to directly, she needs professional help.  You can help see that she gets it.