Ladies, have you ever been with a man, knowing that he had a woman already?....?
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so u r saying that u r not wanting to play second, if this bothers u so much and he only fits u in when HE can then dump the a-hole.
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Yeah!!!  It happened to me when I met my husband!  It is hard to explain this feeling... it's like you know this is the person you are going to have something special with.
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yes he have a girl friend &he married
187142
yes\n\ni knew this guy for 4 weeks. we talked a few times on the phone and went out to dinner twice. i decided to call him early one morning to ask him out to breakfast. i didnt know his wife picked up the other line in the house. she screamed MY HUSBAND IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE AND WHO THE FU** ARE YOU?\n\nbummer he was soooooo fione and i didnt know he was married.
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Is he touching her? Is it physical? \nDid you flirt in frount of him previously with another guy? \nIs he just joking around and having fun do you think or is he serious with these women?
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Oh my goodness....I have one.\n\nIt was right after I got out of a very long, very terrible relationship, yet it was before I met my husband.  I was sitting at my house with my roommate and one of those commercials came on TV for the telephone dating service.  TeleMates or something like that.  Well, I had been drinking just a bit so I decided to call it for fun.\n\nWell, I instantly was on the line with this guy who was a little older than me, who sounded really nice.  He described himself as being extremely nice looking with gorgeous blue eyes, etc. etc.  I was like "YES!!! Let's meet up for a date."\n\nSo a couple of days later, this guy was coming to pick me up.  I got ready for HOURS! (I hadn't been single in years, so I was so nervous about this "blind date")  My roommate was there, and a few of our friends were there to meet this guy.\n\nWell, we hear a car pulling into the driveway and my roommate runs to the window and is peeking out.  She turns around and starts laughing and she's like "He totally lied to you.  You are not going to like this."  I kept smiling, thinking that she was joking.  No, as it turns out, she was just being nice.\n\nThis guy looked NOTHING like he had described.  He had on huge thick glasses, he was like 4 inches shorter than me and about 30 pounds more than what he described.  He also had told me he was a great dresser, and lets just say this was a lie too!  The only thing he had in common with what he told me was that he had blue eyes!  That was it!\nSo this guy comes in and he's holding a rose, and I instantly feel like a b!tch for being so judgemental.  I thought, maybe he is a really nice guy, so I decided not to fake sickness as I had originally planned and take a chance on him. If anything, he could just be a friend that I hung out with.\nSo we go on our date.  He asks me where I want to go eat.  I tell him I'm not picky, I'm content with McDonalds double cheeseburgers.  So he decides to take me to a nice Mexican restaurant downtown.  We go in, and we're sitting there talking and sure enough, he is a nice guy.  So then he offers to buy me a drink.  I tell him I like margaritas.  He orders me the biggest margarita they have, one that costs over 10 bucks and comes in a cup that looks like a bowl!  So I drink the margarita.  He buys another one.  I drink it.  We finish eating and then we leave. \nSo he stops at a store, asks me do I smoke, I say yes.  He goes in, buys me several packs of cigarettes and a lighter.  And a case of beer.  I'm like WTF, but okay.....\nSo he gets a call on his cell phone and asks would I like to stop by his house, that his brother is having a "party" there.  I say sure, and figure if this is a trick, I have my pepper spray in my purse!\nSo we go to his house and it is only his brother there!  There is no party.  Apparently, I am the party.  So we sit around and drink some beers, have some conversation.  Then my cell phone rings and it is my former best friend (who is a guy) I talk only for a minute before telling him maybe we can hang out later, then hang up.  The guy I'm on a date with gives me this weird look and he's like "Was that a guy?" As I explain to him that it was my best friend, who I dated when I was 15, but since then, he's engaged and has two kids, he just looks pissed.  He grabs my purse up from bside me, shoves it into my hands and tells me he's taking me home.\nAs we're driving down the road, I start to tell him I had a fun time with him, and this dude just starts freaking out on me.  I remember he told me "You're nothing but a player.  You're one of those girls, you just play good guys like me.  Do you get off on playing people and doing them wrong?"  Of course, I'm like What the hell are you talking about?  So this guy proceeds to just b!tch me out:  I take you out and treat you right and you just screw me over.  That'
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Yes, I would. Its how the man treats and respects a woman. Not about his perfect or imperfect appearance. There isn't a single person on this planet that's perfect.\n\nMy suggestion is to get to know the woman, and then after a while tell her. Or, just don't make a big deal about it and she won't either. Let her find out on her own, in due time.
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I've had the same experience....with a woman....we met and it just wasn't the same.  I believe there is no reason it cant be though.  Meet the guy in a safe place and see if you still have the magic in person.  Dont worry or get uptight.  good luck
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I'd be very surprised, and I would wish he had told me earlier.  The with-holding of information when I am completely forthright with him would trouble me.\n\nOnce I got over that it would not bother me in the slightest.  He is the man I love regardless of what body he wears or wore.  He knows I would love him just as much if he were in a woman's body, though I also have to tell him I'm *awfully* pleased with the body he inhabits!\n\n.
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Yes everytime.....but no onw will ever see him again because man can not survive with out a woman!! Think about it!
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What??? She has been giving you a great hint! She has A GUY!!!
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woman to woman...definetly.  women seem to know what their partner wants more than men do.
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I definitely do.  I was in a couple.  Both I thought would end in marriage but neither did.  I'm currently looking for that "one."\n\nHaven't found her yet.
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Have you ever thought that there may be a guy out there that knows this girl.Maybe you should put-know anyone named Melvina?
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yes i have, i once dated a black woman cause i thought she was an extremely beautiful, intelligent, and thoughtful woman, and we are good friends to this day
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It takes a bit of time.  I knew I was in love when after several months, I found myself wanting to spend more time with the woman.  Infatuations occur for me, when I don't have much information about a woman.  I have strong feelings, but I don't know if I have much in common with her.  Love is when I know about the details of a woman, and I still have strong feelings.
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Is he worth even knowing you!!!  He has obviously been seeing you and this other lady at the same time or you wouldn't be pregnant!!!!  Which is more important to him!!!  You give it out???  The guy is a snake!!!