why is that no matter how much you try to forget  someone you love?
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LOVE SUCKS IF YOU"RE NOT ON ITS GOOD SIDE...so you want to forget it but you cant cuz its LOVE
777597
It's really hard to forget someone that you love. But you've got to move on. Try to make yourself busy. Hanging out with your friends, doing exercises, and meeting new people. Remember do not stay alone! It'll make you feel upset and think about her again!!!!!!! Good Luck!
45405
YOU DONT. YOU JUST PICK UP THE PIECES, GO OUT THERE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO LOVE YOU WITH EVERYTHING INSIDE THEIR SELF. LOVE IS  NOT HARD ITS THE TRUST YOU GIVE TO SOMEONE THAT IS HARD TO ERASE. YOU WILL BE HURT FOR A WHILE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT BUT YOU DONT NEED TO HEAR FORGET ABOUT HIM. YOU NEED TO KNOW YOU CAN MAKE IT. REMEMBER BE NICE TO HIM . IF HE REALLY MISSES YOU HE WILL CALL YOU. DONT DO OR SAY ANYTHING THAT WILL PUSH HIM AWAY
669842
it takes time because it always seem you can never forget but if you are in love you will look over it.good luck and remember you need time to get over the hurt!
656263
THERE IS NOTHING LIKE IST LOVE OR LAST LOVE.EITHER U R IN LOVE OR U R NOT.THE PERSON WHO U ARE IN LOVE WITH IS ALWAYS WID U.HE OR SHE MAY B WITH IN REALITY OR IN THOUGHTS OR FOR THAT MATTER IN SUB CONCIOUS MIND.IF U FORGET A PERSON U CLAIM TO B IN LOVE THEN BELIEVE ME U NEVER LOVED THAT PERSON.
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Yeah, I agree with everyone else... you will never be able to forget teh man/women that you loved, but with time you will be able to move on and not be sad or hurt any longer. I am going through that exact thing right now, and after being depressed for wuite some time.. I decided I am not going to give up the rest of my life being miserable becuase of one person. So is started hanging out more, I started working uot more to feel better about myself and every time I get upset I reassure myself that I will find someone else and I will be loved again and I will love again!
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you can't make yourself forget someone. The best thing you can do is surround yourself with single girlfriends and just talk. If you want to think about him, do it, because the more you try not to think about something, the more you think about it. for example: try not to think about an elephant. \ni bet you just did.
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In the long run time does heal wounds.  Some just take longer then others.  I have to say that forgeting is a different story.  You learn to deal with it and move on with your life but it always seems to stay in the back of you head.
403484
Maybe your trying too hard?  Trying so hard not to think of your ex that that is all you are thinking about is not thinking about your ex?  Relax, apologize and be honest.
55821
when you know everything about them no matter if its good or bad and you wouldnt change them you want them just the way they are.... when you would do anything for them even if it mean jumping in frot of a train to push them out of the way.... when you miss them so much you start to cry before theyre even gone.... when you cant picture them out of your life ever.... when you want to do things for them just to see a smile on their face.... when they are the last thing you think about before bed, the only thing you dream about, and the first thing to cross your mind in the morning.... then you know your in love.... and that person is truly special and you should never let them go.....
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1st off, what what is that make to forget the someone you "truly" loved. I you love someone, truly, u should make adjustment acc. to 'em. Well! think about what was that, that made you seperate. \nDo not remember the good times u've spend, insted thing about the bad time u'll had. This how, his absence has helped you.\nAnd ofcouse you wont forget some you loved for all these year, in a sec. you need time. \nMake new frnd, who have nothing to do wiht your relations. Be creative, spend more time with people who are funny!
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Because we are always afraid we might not see that person again. Plus we're softies! I have a very hard time saying bye to anyone too. From now on just say, "So long for now" and maybe it might not seem to final. See ya! (for now)
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I don't understand why do you want to forget someone.. coz you are not with each other,, well just change your outlook... remember the good things that you had with him or her and not curse the bad stuff \n\nits the way you look at it \n\nlet me know what u wanna in ur life \n\neverything you do is your choice
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you're lingering over old feelings and sometimes that's natural, especially if you felt really strongly for this person.  your best bet though is to move on and try to find some interests that will help you take your mind off of him.  wish you luck.
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Here's the thing. When you fall in love with someone, there is no getting rid of them or forgetting them. They will always be there in your head. Now yes you do get over the fact that it hurts eventually, but you never forget them. Love is that special thing that when you share it with someone, or attempt to share it, it essentially is always there. \n\nNow i know that everyone will tell you things like: relax, just get over it, find someone new, take a bath, read a book, or go to God. More or less you just have to figure it out on your own regardless of what people will say here. Because dealing with heartache, its a natural part of life, its the bad side effect of love. But if i was to offer my best advice, i would say that you should chalk it up to experience. Count it as a learning experience, so every time you start to think about him just think about what you learned from the situation, how it will make you a stronger person, and how it will help you in the future. Love is a big part of everyone's life, and it shouldn't be forgotten, even when its bad. Best of luck in your hard times...
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Deep down you haven't really let him go \nTo forget about him you have to
720281
It's always hard losing a love, whither they are still alive or dead. As long as you hold that someone in your heart you will love them till the end of your time. Does that mean you will never love someone else as much, you probably will, and they will be in your heart as well.