what does it mean when your lover braeks off and wants to be friends with you know you better and all,?
494084
Its not a bad thing to just be friends with your lover, if you are not comfortable with being just friends; then I guess you should leave her alone. If she only wants to be friends, then that is a sign she doesnt love you like you had thought she did.\n\nThere was a guy I dated in high school, unfortunately he broke it off. But I think that we were better off as friends than a couple. I used to get so depressed whenever I seen him with another girl though. Took me sometime to cope. But then time went by n i didnt care anymore. Poor guy still loves me..
771333
well, it means you mean much more to him than a mere neighbour- i am not sure to what extent all that flirtation has gone to but i think its good he wants to come and personally say goodbye. i would feel better abt that than just an offhand bye bye anytime.
934501
Um...she either wants to be more than friends...or she's nuts! 1) means she wants more with you.  2) means she has issues! low selfesteem or she thinks she is not worthy of you...ISSUES! Whatever! means she isn't going to listen.  just ditch her and get a girlfriend...if she totally freaks then she wants you!
1174023
It means she is playing games with you.  she wants you to like her for her ego (wants to be loved), but doesn't want to give back.  The only way to handle this is to leave her alone.  Tell her she is giving you mixed messages and just stay away from her.  She will either realize she needs to give in order to get or she will fade into the distance.
196723
Be careful because they will befriend you to get to your lover.
517026
You are basically talking about 2 different things here.\n\nLong term relations generally refer to romantic and sexually intimate relationships. \n\nRomance and being intimate sexually is generally not what one thinks when someone asks to be friends.
947588
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.
93291
Of course... Friends can develop their feelings with each other and later on be lovers. Lovers be friends on the other hand also happens. There's "care" with each other which tends to make lovers be friends.
661825
He wants his cake and eat it too.  If he did not ask you to marry him and you all were obviously in some sort of relationship/friendship(so you thought) and he did the mentioned above, that says alot about his character.  He's a loser, want-to-be playa, cheat, liar, etc.  Why would you want that friendship again? Friends like that, who needs enemies.
226826
If she says that she just wants to be friends, that ought to clue you in that she doesn't like you that way.
1176472
It means either she's bipolar or has another mental problem, or she's just extremely indecisive and doesn't know what she wants.  If you really want to be with her romantically, you need to sit down with her and make definitive, clear statements about everything.  That way, she can't just change her mind later.\n\nIf you're not interested in a future with her romantically, stay her friend and move on.  Just don't get jealous if she finds someone else.
996128
It means they're having a conversation with a person that isnt part of the relationship, they're actually having a life away from their partner.\n\nDont be paranoid, be trusting.
1020847
I hate to say this, but it sound like your relationship is winding down.  I suggest having a face to face meeting and try to end it on a good note so that at least you'll be friends.
780816
In my opinion I think that it means that you have all the stages and feelings of a wonderful friendship but it happens so much faster and its more intense \nfor example - you meet your friend and you enjoy their company and you spend more and more time together and one day you consider that friend family and love them \nin a romance you do the same thing only its a more intense relationship and you fall in love a lot quicker.
896376
You answered your own question, as humans we are programmed to want what we cant have. But remember this, you had him once, and your heart told you that you made better friends. Remain friends, and be the best at it
887994
If a friend stops talking to you because of your orientation, that person is not a friend.  You are what you are, and there are people out there who will love you no matter what.  Those people are out there, and if you decide to tell the world you are a #######, those people will appear in your life.
149971
It means to go through the motions of being with a person.  In fact, even enjoy the time spent together, however do not allow yourself to get emotionally close to that individual.