Girls.. don't you hate it when your bf puts attention on other things?
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I'm a guy...Ladies, if your bf is not giving you enough attention and you are not a spoiled brat (I'm not saying you are), then he isn't in love with you, not matter what he says! If a guy truly loves you, attention would be the least of your problems! If I love the woman I'm with, nothing else can get my attention. If you have to fight for attention, move on and find another guy...there are plenty to go around. Expecting 100% is expecting too much however, the guy does need a life and you should have one to. It is not healthy to be together ALL of the time...that makes for a dull relationship. Ever hear..."absence make the heart grow fonder"? Well it does, try it once in a while.
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The real answer comes as a question. If your boyfriend is secure in your relationship with him, he probably won't mind. On the other hand, if it really bothers him, then he is responding to an offhand remark as if it is a threat to your relationship. In this case, it may still be alright to others, but if you're smart, you won't continue to do it if you know it upsets him. Here's the real big question you  need to answer, and only you can. If your boyfriend is getting really bent out of shape over an innocent remark because he's that insecure, do you really want to invest more of your time on him in the first place? \n\nNot to tell you what to do, but my experience has taught me that jealousy and insecurity are symptoms of greater emotional problems. The person with the problems needs to first acknowledge them, before he can ever get the help he needs to overcome them. As long as he thinks you'll put up with it, he never will admit he has a problem. Don't deceive yourself, as many young women have done, into thinking that you can change him. IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY. Better for you to just move on. This may sound cold, but it's probably the best for him and certainly would be for you.\n  Hope this helps you.
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Why is it bugging you? It should help your ego that not only girls want him, but guys do too. Now that is one sexy man!
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i think its cus they want your attention and will do anything to get it,its soo annoying when they do that though!
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hey ya umm well ur boyfriend wants to take things slower than maybe u do my b--freind is like that to me it drives me nuts
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NOOOOOO!!!\nIT IS DEFINITELY A TURN OFF!\nITS A SIGN OF WHATS AHEAD- CLINGY, NEEDY........
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you need to tell him how you feel. if he still does it and sees no problem with it, then break up with him. he's obviously not into you if he can't stop talking about other girls...especially right in front of you! and above all- don't pretend like it's ok with you when he does that!!! maybe that's why he still does it- you're not letting him know that it bothers you...
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What does your boyfriend think about this??
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Your not doing anything wrong, he is a friend and if your bf becomes jealous maybe he isn't the right bf for you. Karma may come back on you but you have to determine if want to be with a jealous person.
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a lot....whatever my ex bfs mom tells him he believes and will do.i hate it so much..i wanna be with him but not if shes going to get in the way.i wanna date him not her you know what i mean?its ridiculous
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I KNow Really... I can't stand it when girls start drama (thats why i hang w/ guys, they don't do silly stuff like that) But I think they start drama because they don't think their own life is exciting enough, so they have got to start something... : ( it is kind of Sad.
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I THINK HE IS JUST BUSY AND YOU SHOULD DEAL WITH IT LIKE I DID (AND STILL ARE) WITH MY BOYFRIEND. IT IS NORMAL, DON'T WORRY
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These types of questions make me angry, lol.  Just teasing.  What makes me angry, is when my bf gets way to possessive, and asks me to tell him in detail what I was doing.  Grr that makes me so mad because we are both 2 close 2 each other for that type of insecurity
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your boyfriend feels threatened and i would be too if my bf got gifts from other girls put yourself in his shoes..I'm sure you would be a little jealous or concerned. if you love him you wont talk those gifts relationships need compromise and in the end those gifts don't matter you don't want to hurt your bf by thinking you might do something. just tell the customers that you don't feel right accepting them but thanks anyways.
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I know how ya feel, I've had girlfriends who were the same-I got in trouble if I "looked" at a woman! To be honest, he loves you & is afraid of loosing you, It's what ya call "insecurity".
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I suggest you get a new hobbie or perhaps go out to the gym. You don't always want to be "available" to him. Occasionally I tell my bf that I'm busy. I've even had instances where I had other people vying for my time. So much that my bf got upset and said I was putting hi off for my friends. \n\nEven when my bf and I are together, I have something to do. We've been together for a bit and even when I spend nights at his house, I don't spend 24&#92;7 all on him. Maybe I'll read a book, or do some stuff online, maybe get some homework done or even talk on the phone. \n\nIts important in relationships to have together time and apart time.\n\nNow if he really IS neglecting you, TELL HIM. Straight out and without the tears. He'll ignore you, guys hate seeing girls cry especially when they dont understand why.  BE SPECIFIC. Say what he does and how often that upsets you. Then listen. Maybe he's bored of doing the same old thing with you. Spice it then, go snow boarding, christmas decorating, even BOWLING, just something NEW. Something so that when he thinks of you, he thinks spontaneous, not dull.
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well.....i have the same problem! whenever im with my bf, hes as sweet as he can be and just awesome! but whenever hes around his friends, he can be a real buthead! and i think that the only reason he does this is to show off! but idk.........im confused about him!