I don't care at all what other people think, and I worry that people find me shallow for it.  What can I do?
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Ok, this has gone on long enough now.  pmsl\n\nyou are very shallow.  Look how you have teased these poor people.  They logged in to answer questions and help people and you've made you're little joke, but you keep going!  Why?  Because you don't care about people, as you've said.\n\nJust keep playing your little tricks and try not to hit your head when you fall out of your chair laughing.  I just did that over your last question and it smarts.\n\nThanks for brightening my day btw.  :)
383513
I wouldn't care what other people think. You are who you are and you can't change that.
664080
Whether you like it or not, you will never be able to please everyone and not everyone is going to like you, whether you have or haven't done anything to deserve their harsh words or behaviour.\nWhat is important is that you like and love yourself. I don't mean that in a "I'm up myself" way. But how can you expect people to like and respect you if you have no respect for yourself?\nYou sound very insecure of yourself and if you could deal with that and think to yourself that you do have something to offer to new people, then others will see that too.\nYou do not need to put on a show or change yourself for anyone. Just remember, if people judge you by your book cover ad don't care about whats inside, then they were never worth it in the first place. Make yourself happy!!! Good luck!
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you don't. it's natural.\n\nor, on the other hand, you could try and be sensible, and just block it out from your mind. or you can just change your attitude from i'm-mister-super-caring-all about  what-people-think-of-me to i-dont-give-crap-and-i'm-gonna act- as-though nothing's-bothering-me.\n\ngot it?  now that's how you gotta stop carin about wat otha ppl tink of ya. alrightty?
378676
i think u should stop caring about what others think... if u 2 are fine with it,then its good enough~
68043
Don't try to please everybody.  You can't.  Find a small group that shares your interests.  Start there.  Your friendships will grow.\n\n\nMany shallow friendships cannot equal a few deep ones.
62185
Do you like her? \nThan it shouldn't matter. If you are so worried about what other people think than maybe you shouldn't have a girlfriend. Try finding yourself first. When you can become comfortable with who you are you will realize it's not about what they think.
567339
A (1), Life is to short for me to worry about what other people think of me
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First don't worry about what others think.  If you try and define yourself in anothers terms then you never will be happy.  Some people might think you are heavy but I don't I think that's a great combination of height and weight.  You though should be happy with who you are first then find someone that is just as happy with you as you are.  If you aren't happy and barring doing anything unsafe then work toward making what changes you think you need.  The reason you never will be happy if you try and define yourself in anothers eyes or terms is that once you conform to their idea of perfect then they will always find something else wrong.  Also you are attempting to conform to what you THINK they are thinking or what you perceive they are thinking which is usually always wrong.  I think you look, sound, great .. I bet you are and hopefully you'll feel that way also.
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You've gotta psyche yourself out...don't give a damn about what anyone else around you is thinking.Learn how to accept rejection...invite it if you have to.Sometimes it pays to be an arrogant,conceited prick(only once in a great while to boost up your ego).No fear man!
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not everyone is, you probably just feel that way. I was skinny all my life till about 2 years ago, and it doesn't bother me. If it bothers other people i don't care, they are not involved in my life and know nothing about me. You shouldn't worry about what other people say.
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You let people get to you because you have very little self-esteem, in other words, you have no faith in your OWN ideas and abilities. You have NO confidence in YOURSELF.\n\nTRY believeing in yourself and be CONFIDENT that you ARE right at least  about SOME things, so you CAN ignore comments from people that are nasty or provoking.
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be strong in who you are and thank God for everything hes given you.\nlove yourself for who you are, and know God loves you even more.\nIf you live your life worrying about what other people think, you will never find happiness.\n\n be happy & love yourself!\nI think your great just the way you are, but when you love yourself first, people will see you differently.
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Why should u care about what others think about the way u look?  \n\nDo u have a brain, do u use it... \n\nThe world is to concerned iwth looks, and it's really quite pathetic.  If you ahve a good heart and good soul, who cares if your 20lbs overweight.
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It is very common to have these feelings of insecurity about yourself. Almost everyone thinks like this at some point in their lives.\n\nThe only solution is to try and think positively all the time, anytime you start to feel bad about something just tell yourself to stop... and remind yourself that you are a good person, you look great and you can do anything you put your mind too.\n\nAfter a while you won't have to keep reminding yourself, you will just know that you are ok. Think positive and believe in yourself!!\n\nGood Luck, you can change they way you think and act if you really want to, being positive is the key.
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i used to be like you and the answer that i found is:\ndon't give a damn about what people well say about you.
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No, it's bad for you to care about what people think about you. You are your own person. Love yourself.