my ex says she loves me but when she is with guy friends she says it won't work between us! what should I do?
489928
well if you could not make it work once what has changed to make you think it will be different this time? \n\nif nothing has changed then someone is blowing smoke or something. \n\nif your curious try reading Smart Love By Dr. Phil McGraw it will help you discover if relationship is serious or just you being desperite for love. \n\nGL and God Bless
656349
people can love their friends too!\n\ni think the timing is just not right, but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you- just that it isn't the right time for you two to be together..\n\nand dating her best friend's ex without her sincere approval is against the girl code, so more than likely she's waiting on that.. maybe her friend (your ex) isn't over it yet so she's still sensitive...\nwhen her friend has moved on completely, she'll bring the subject up to her and see what's what - if you two are still into each other that is...\nbe patient!
715054
Why don't you find another guy to be friendly with.  You don't sound like a very good friend.  She is probably a little insecure and you are making it worse.
581816
talk to her...tell her that you love her but you really need to have time off together with your friends like she does...she's probably scared of what you might do if she's not around...so ensure her that you love her and you just want time with your friends because they need you too...tell her to think of this as time to miss each other so there's more "spark" when you are together again..
394494
stay her friend and if she wants to come back to you then say ok as long as you dont go back to the other guy. if she still goes back to the other guy dont get back with her because she's using you to make the other guy jealous.
1168935
The best way to get over the break up is to get her out of your life.  The sooner you can do this then the sooner you can move on.  The last thing you want to be hearing about is her tales of 'making out' with other guys.  This just rubs salt in the wounds.  I'm not saying that she wasn't justified in doing this, because you both apparently agreed to do you own thing, but why she would want to tell you I don't know!  Anyway, until you get her completely out of your life then you will never get her out of your head.  So if it definitely looks like she is moving on then you should try to do the same, and as fast as possible.  Out of sight is out of mind as they say.  It will be difficult, but it will be the quickest way to you getting over her.  All the best...
531876
The best thing you can do in this situation, is to take a step back, and wait. It appears you're pressing the issue too hard, and you have her a little threatened by your persistence. Leave it alone for a few days. It's obvious you're not going to care less, but it might give her a chance to see you're an all right guy that she would like to spend some time with. Good Luck!
368041
Believe her for the time being. If she says nothing is between them, nothing is between them BUT be aware because something is BOUND to happen because she is not telling you everything. While she's sneaking and lying to you, YOU have a decision to make. She's either your friend or she isn't. This has nothing to do with your "ex" because he is your ex, this is a friend who crossed the line and she must be dealt with. I'm not saying that you have to fight with her but you have to realize, this might be the first time and it might not be the last time she does this. BUT please before you react, give her the benefit of the doubt, let her decide which is more important, her friendship to you or some guy.
693518
Just forget her. Why did she leave you for another man? Is it your fault or her fault? Find another girl. If she leaved you for another man, it means she's not your soulmates. She's not meant to be for you
163749
WOW! She must really Love you if she is making sure that it is okay with you.  That is very promising.  Women can be better friends with males than females. I say you let her and then if it bothers you let her know.  It is obvious she considers what you think! Good Luck!
886317
ask her why is she always talking at her ex cause you don't want to hear her talking about them and if she misses them that much then she can go back to them cause she is totally disrespecting you in always how would  she like it if you talk about your ex girl friends but tell her if she doesn't stop you are gone and will be looking for some one different good luck
314683
I'm sorry as this is very immature of your girlfriend.  She should understand that you can't always be together.  Just explain to her why and she either accepts it or she doesn't.  If she doesn't, it might be time to find someone who is more understanding.
407111
well...just think of it this way...if you love her...just let her go...if she loves you back...she'll come back to you and you guys would be meant to be...give it time...if she doesnt take you back and just get with sum1 else...move on and hold your head up high because you deserve better...
1038164
doesnt sound good, unless her and her ex have been good friends before and are just trying to be friends again. (actually thats not too right either) and they shouldnt be talking about sex. thats wrong. and her ex had clearly shown intention to get back together... the right thing for her to do is back off. then again, she's a gal. gals love to be loved. (by lots of other men - it just makes them feel special, wanted, hot, etc) BUT ANYWAY... if they're making it a habit, u need to tell her you're uncomfortable. otherwise, end it. cuz if she doesnt care about your feelings, she's probably not THAT into u anyway.
999174
She's still not over you. Even through she's dating another guy, you're still on  her mind. Its just not easy or quick for girls to move on. \nIf you don't have any feelings for her, then discourage her from contacting you.
1095872
explain this to her.  say I love u but I am allowing u to cloud my every thought and I've come to the realization that this isn't healthy for me.\n\nif u can handle it ask her to still be friends
1087408
try to talk to her about this, if she doesnt understand what you mean or not willing to try to change this, then just move on and find someone more compatible with you.