can someone help me to forget a person who's been so affectionate with me?
494122
I can see this ending in tears.\nYou need to forget about him and move on. He has a baby with someone else, and you'll end up taking that baby's daddy away if you pursue him. His wife needs him, they have a family. If you want a family too, I am sure you will have one one day, just not with this man.\nPlease move on, don't be the home wrecker. Have some pride, move on, and realise that you are a beautiful person who doesn't need to be with someone else's man to make her feel like a woman.
111410
It's kinda hard to forget some one you loved but if you still care about her in to some extent then don't try to forget about her keep talking to her (as just a friend) and remember the good times but keep an open mind and start dating new people. If you just completly hate her all of a sudden and want to forget about her for good the best thing to do is not think about how much you dislike her and just don't think about any memories of her. Continue on with your own life. Date new people, go out for a few drinks with your buddies, just have a good time.
467754
Whatever you do, don't jump in the sack with someone else to try to get over someone else, I've slept with another woman to forget someone that I had broken up with before and I can tell you, it doesn't work. You feel like dirt the next day and you'll find yourself eventually wanting to get rid of the new person your with because (s)he's is the one you hooked up with to forget the prior person you were with. Also, heavy drinking doesn't help either. Trust me.\n\nGive yourself a few weeks or months to figure out what you saw in him that attracted you to him and then figure out whether they were valid reasons to become romantically involved. Did he have a cute bod and a crappy personality? Always remember, looks fade but stupid is forever. Or as recall, John Lennon once said: there's no way you can hide when your cripple inside.
212961
sorry to hear that.. but as they say, it takes one to forget one. :) people may seem to think they will never get over it, but it is possible to. do the things you love to do such as ur hobbies. and hey, God maybe is calling you. and telling u something.  your problems are nothing when you are in His presence. Pray. Lift up all ur burdens to Him. :) Hope this could help. :)
415484
No matter what anyone tries telling you.. its always going to be hard to get over someone after being with them for six years. But I think that your best bet is just to try and go out to do things that will get him off of your mind. Spend as much time with your friends as you can... keep busy! No matter what you do it will always hurt though. You just have to be strong and not give in to him if he does start to call.. because thats just letting him know that he can use you over and over. Dont let him know you're bothered by it. I wish you the best of luck and I hope that everything goes in your favor.
134939
u cant stop thinking about that person
1179410
JUST DO IT! forget about everything and once they know , you will feel better than if you never did anything about it, if you dint you might still be thinking about that person for another 10yrs.
850785
You could start by reading the million other posts and responses on how to get over someone.  Most of them will tell you the same thing, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is time.  Forgiving is easy, just do it, forgetting however, is a different story.  You will never forget him or the good and bad times you shared, it's impossible without the assistance of a labotamy (sp*).  So forgive, take all the time necessary and do your best to keep your self respect and move on.
786713
Yeah that is hard. I'm very sorry that you haven't gotten over him yet and moved on with your life.\nAt least you realize that he doesn't want you anymore. I know it even hurts to read it and I'm sorry I'm not trying to be mean. You need to recognize how short life is and that you deserve to be happy. You deserve to be with a person that will feel the same way you feel about them. Do you know what you are worth? Well then, move on with your life you are not promised tomorrow right? the sooner you realize this you will have peace in your mind body and soul. Cause i know how it is to crave for a man that you can't have I've been there. \nGood Luck  to you Hun.
1173082
I don't understand why do you want to forget someone.. coz you are not with each other,, well just change your outlook... remember the good things that you had with him or her and not curse the bad stuff \n\nits the way you look at it \n\nlet me know what u wanna in ur life \n\neverything you do is your choice
276586
it's hard to let someone go that you really like especially when you know they're doing you wrong. but my advice is the only way you'll have peace of mind is to let him go. maybe not so soon but you have to get it in your mind that you deserve better. once you do that you'll feel better, but when you do make that choice be prepared to get over your choice it might be hard depending on how much you liked him.
1090556
You will not be able to get over it, but with time, the pain will feel less and less.\n\nEven though he was just a little wee baby, he was defenseless and you didn't get to know him nor could you protect him from what happened.  \n\nYou may be trying to keep him in your mind in case you fear you will forget him - you won't forget him so it's okay not to think of him all of the time.\n\nSpeak to your parents about how you feel, I'm sure they will want to speak with you about it.
333387
Maybe you're too attached to him that even though he's treated you so badly, you still long to be around him... or you're too used to having constant communication between the two of you that you'd still want to keep in touch w/ him... \n\nwhy don't you just divert your urge to some more productive activities? It will help you forget about him... or spend more time with your family or with your friends...
1184511
Yes But sometime I forget about HIM....... :o(
189426
forget him or her, u should niot regret. just tell urself once more that u r the best and the most porecious person ion the world and nobody should make suffer and go ur way.\n\neverything is in front of u and many people in ur life will be happy to accept u.
819600
you cant really "make" someone forget their feelings for someone else, only time can do that.  The best thing you can do is be there for him and care about him.  In time you'll have your own space in his heart.
1129235
try to forget about it with something fun,i hope you have fun,good luck.pugloveryay@yahoo.com