My boyfriend wants my to have sex with him but im 13 what should i do????
490387
Say no.  Thirteen...  there's so much more to life that you could be doing.
573364
Or** for both parties is a great idea, massages, rubbing each other all over, kissing alot, let him lick your upstairs... i hope your old enough to be reading this... if your under 18 (or the legal age of consent) then you need to just not be doing it
622420
You can not force anyone to do anything it's wrong and if you force her to have sex that is rape! Just be your self and supportive of her decision and when the time is right it will happen! Buy the way you type I would say you are to young to be concerned about a relationship so just be yourself be a teenager and wait till you are both ready!
1182673
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.\n\nMost guys want sex. The question is will he marry you and commit?\n\nNot likely - you are both probably too young.\n\nGrow up a little before entertaining the notion of hopping into bed with anyone.
564519
get a boyfriend or ask one of ur guy friends to have sex with you??? but i highly suggest u finding a boyfriend.. if ur too desperate then just think of other things. instead of worrying so much about it.
808882
Tell him why you want to have sex with him.  Chances are he will still do it anyway.
133179
Take your time with this relationship.  But no sex, or you will end up sending him to prison and end his military career before it begins.  Both of you are young, you may be very mature, but the law requires you to be older to give consent to having sex.  If he is willing to be in a relationship without sex until you are 18, then go for it.  If he is not willing to wait, don't get him in trouble by having sex with him.
254545
If he truly loves you he will not care one bit if you tell him the truth- it is too risky to be in this situation. Please stay a virgin!! I got pregnant when I was only 16 and if I woukd have been a smart girl like you and thought things over my life would be much better right now.If you decide to go through with this just be sure you have condoms and talk to your mother!! it is much more embarrassing to tell about that have not yet happened than when something does happen.
433067
sex isn't just an act there are emotions that will go along with being with someone in this way . If he really loves you he will wait dont comprimise your morals  your only a virgin once once you have you cant go back  yes you can remain from having sex but your so young sex will always be there. i dont know him  but the guys i dated will tell you what ever it takes to get you into bed the good ones wont pressure you    i know  its hard  we have all been there   also if you happen to get prenant are you really ready for  all that respnsiblity  it will change your life .  some people are more mature than others at this age  just write down your thoughts  maybe seeing it on paper will help you decide    go talk to girls your age and get there input the ones that have babies on just the ones that have been through this stuff   you said you have morals and goals    if you are a religious person  go talk to a  teen  counselor than can help without judging  you . and if your parents  change their mind and decide to press legal charges against him because of his age  prison isnt going to be a place for him    dont risk  doing that to him     even if you dont want them to they can still override  and go to the law    i'm  not trying to scare you  just want you to get all the  facts before you make the decision   i wish someone would have told me about all the emotionally things that go along with sex    i have been with several  guys  when i was your age  i'm 20 something   and i still have  emotions from my first time  and  the times after  that.  there is so much life to experience  take it and run but be carful.
993479
Ever since schools started teaching safe sex rather than abstinence, it has pretty much opened the door to condone sexually activity in the most unprepared age group......teenagers. In your age group, guys hormones are starting to rage, and let's face it, they want to have sex. It is getting to the point where even girls are buying into this idea, and they are willing to sacrifice their purity, which is the most precious thing you have, just to have a boyfriend. My advice is to stay the way you are and don't compromise yourself. I am a 22 yr old male. I have been married now for a year. Trust me, the right guy will come along at the right time. Someone will come along and honestly think you are the most beautiful girl in the world. Just be patient.
465864
If you aren't ready, DON'T DO IT!  You'll regret it, trust me.  And honestly, sex doesn't make a relationship, so if you're boyfriend is begging you, he only wants you for sex, not the relationship.  A real man (one you deserve) will wait forever if he has to.  Tell your man to shape up or ship out!  Don't give in just because your guy has no self-control.  That's his problem, not yours.
507973
Have sex with him, then you'll know he isn't. Just remember to use protection, in case he already wasn't.....
199074
Because you're 13.and that is what 13 year olds think.Don't rush it it will happen eventually....just have fun being 13.
740113
Well  with u  only  being  13 ya i would  say  just  start with a  kiss  but  to tell u the  truth  a  kiss  leads  to  more than  just a  kiss  i know me and  my  boyfriend  were dating  for  like  2 months and  then  he  came down and  the next time e came down we  took the  chance with our  first kiss  it wasnt the  best  but  then we  worked on it  almost  all nigh tafter  that  and  it  got  better and then he  started to  lead us to  more like  grinding  stuff  like that and  so ya  it  does  lead to more thant just  kissing but  if  u want  ur  first  kiss  at  ur  age  than  go for it  a  girl can  make the  fist  move  its not  just a  guy thing  some girls  take the  first  move  i didnt  but thats me  but  if u  do  then  dont  go to  fast when u go in for the  first  kiss  b/c he  might  just  push u away  and  if  he does it  means he isnt  ready  for it but if he dont  push u away then it  means  he is  ready  for it and  then  go for it  there is  nothing wrong  with wanting ur  first kiss  from the  boy that  ur  with and if u really like and  stuff  then  stay with him as long as u can  keep  him but  liek i said  go for  it  if he  push u away than  back off  dont  try to  go for it until u  know he is  ready but  good  luck  and  hope my  advice  helps  u
182776
Sounds like he likes you....and don't be so anxious to grow up, have sex and all that jazz.  I know you feel as a teenager that your life stinks and you want more freedom...but trust me... you have 5 yrs left to be a teenie bopper b4 you have responsibilities and bills and you get to do that for 50+ years!! Try to enjoy this time and take it SLLLLLOOOOOOOOOWWWWW :)  best of luck hun!
72146
Stop Pressuring him. \n\nWait until you get married to have sex...\n\nMake sure this is the right guy before you have sex. \n\nMight be the wrong guy.
691086
I think that its o.k and you should wait cuz you are too young. I am not telling you what to do , but be wise and smart. If you choose to have sex, be safe and think about it first. Dont do it cuz others are doing it or eer pressure. I am in the 8th grade going to the 9th grade and trust me I understand. Everyday I see girls at my school that just dont care and regret doing it. I am a virgen and I make wise choices. Also think about your consequences.