o.k. when my  boyfriend was home and we had sex he busted in me... what do i do?
489656
Just enjoy it. Do you know how happy he will be to know that you are carrying his child? It will give him hope and inspiration to come home soon. Another reason to live, when he feels he can't go on. I know that's the way it was with me and my husband. He told me all he thought about everyday was me and our kids, and the unborn baby that he wanted so badly to get a chance to know. Take my advice, you can handle it. Keep the home fires burning for him.
1099868
Girl, walk away from him and don't look back. You will be all right, no matter how bad it hurts right now. All there is between you is great sex, and I know from experience how we women can let that affect our emotions. You deserve better, and it will feel great when you get it. Just stay away from him, no matter what!!!!!!
920171
Sounds as if you may have cracked a rib.  Yes it would probably be good to see a doctor.  Also consider the cops and a restraining order.  If a fight with your b/f means getting physically beaten, I'd say find a new b/f and tell this one to get lost.
507973
Have sex with him, then you'll know he isn't. Just remember to use protection, in case he already wasn't.....
266677
I'd leave him and I might report him to the police. If he knew he had AIDS and had unprotected sex with you anyways without you knowing that he had AIDS then he can get in quite a bit of trouble. I'd definetly go to a doctor and in my relationsips after I would tell them about what happened and let them know that I had a real problem with people who aren't honest. Best of luck, I hope from the bottom of my heart that you are ok.
266496
you slippin on your pimpin. your not suppose to ever get busted. you shoulda went home and washed up and make sure that it was ready for the next guy to jump in not go there and know you just left another man. Anyway how did you  get busted
14622
Have you asked what the condoms are for?  If you guys don't use condoms then, HELLO?  But if you do then he might have an excuse in that case tell him to leave them with you.  The staying out all night if you didn't know where he was at and you couldn't get in touch with him then you should come to your own conclusion but I think it' pretty clear. I'm sorry.
86990
He just used you. He didn't want a relationship but rather the sex. \nTake some time to spend with your real friends. Evaluate what you are doing and take their input into account. They do care about you. The final decision in your problem relationship should be up to you though. Don't let well meaning friends ever take away a golden chance at happiness because they're nervous or it's a faux pau to them that it's moving too fast. It's your life.\n    As far as this situation though, dump the jerk and find a man that does appreciate you. Just don't jump right into bed with him. I'm like a pot calling the kettle black but I'll say it anyway. Slow down...evaluate...take the time to be sure of what you're doing.
454645
Call the police. If he has raped you press charges. Just because you are married to some one does not give them the right to force sex on you. And your children will understand when they get older. The guy sounds crazy, you need to protect your family. You really need to talk to the police and see how they can help you. And turn to the Bible for answers as well. You do have scriptuall grounds for divorce and re-marriage. You really need to change your situation. Hope everything gets better for you and you children! I'll pray for you!
1081516
You did something you thought would help, unfortunately you got screwed over in return.\n\nNot much you can do, if he continues to say that you've done this then you'll have to find some way to prove that you didn't. \n\nEither way if he lays charges you're branded a sex offender. See a lawyer first, maybe talk to his grandmother, find out if he has any..............um...............other issues going on about why he would lie (I'm assuming your innocence). The fact that he is 18 does play in your favour, he is an adult and as such has the right to make his own decisions whether or not others think they are the right ones.\n\nIt's a hard one, I don;t want to tell you never help another, because then where would you be, but you have to think a little harder now about whom you decide to help.\n\nBest thing to do if this situation comes up again is have the names and phone numbers of a few shelters on hand.\n\na plus is that when the cops came they didn't arrest you they just told you to tell him to go home.\n\nBetter off not to have anything more to do with this kid either.\n\nHope it workls out for you.
714949
I think it was a mistake to move in together.  First of all, the basis of a relationship is honesty even when the other person might not like what you have to say.  Sex is important.  Your relationship is already in trouble since you want to cheat.  He needs to know that you have a right to sexual pleasure.  You need to talk. There is also medication for premature ejaculators.  You wont find out any of this if you dont talk.  If he doesnt want to talk, tell him that this is so important to you that if you dont talk, you will step out on him.  You have a right to pleasure.  Hes probably not very happy with himself either.  No guy that goes off in a few minutes is really very happy with himself but his manhood prevents him from talking or doing anything about it.  Speak now or hold someone else's piece.
134010
Our language is going to make it hard for me to get my point across.  Can a man?  Only with more training and discipline than your boyfriend has.  I doubt that he was doing anything consciously.\nIf he had sex with someone else, guilt might have prevented him from getting excited, but stress could have the same effect.  Sex between humans is a complicated issue.  I believe that you are worry too much or feel very insecure in your relationship.  I would think from your question that you are just inexperienced.  Do not rush times.  Take your time.  And start talking with him.  Relationships are built on communication.
527634
if your boyfriend is forcing you that's Rape nothing pleasurable about being raped! Get away from him find someone that will be with you even if you don't want to have sex! That will have a fun time just being with you and talking with you and will wait till your ready! When you meet the right guy you will see the def fence! You will enjoy it as much as your partner will! And you should report your boyfriend in for rape!
597348
Maybe you should explain your reason for saying it to him! He probably did freak a bit, you know how men get when the l word is mentioned. Speak to him and if he doesn't understand drop him he's an idiot and not worth your time! He should feel helluva complimented as you were in such throes of passion and orgasmic bliss that you blurted out the unthinkable!
622974
Your boyfriend is using the situation to manipulate you into doing his sexual fantasy.  He has got this idea into his head as to what he wants you to do, and now he is looking for any excuse to get you to do it.  He probably wasn't even that mad about the phone call, he just saw an opportunity to get his way.\n\nFrankly, the guy sounds like a loser.  He is trying to completely control you and force you to do things you don't want to do using emotional blackmail.  Move on.
662251
You might want to sit down with your mate and calmly explain all of your feelings to him. No one on here knows from the paragraph you typed what you do in the bedroom. When you say spice it up do you mean install a chandelier in the bedroom and swing from it while he tickles your ASP with a feather and barks like a howler monkey or what? I honestly think though that your problem is communication but if you want to cheat especially since you have a child you better think long and hard if those 6 seconds of toe curling ecstasy with someone else are worth the consequences if you get caught.\nGood Luck!!
477421
My boyfriend and I were getting ready to have sex. I turned off the light and went to the bathroom to put in my diaphragm. When I got back to the room, I could hear him moaning "oh baby, you feel so good". It couldn't have been me because I was still standing by the door. I turned on the light.\n\nHe was having sexual relations with my dog! When he saw what he was screwing, he jumped up and apologized.\n\nHe was no longer my boyfriend after that.