how long should i wait to ask a girl out after she just broke up with sum1?
484833
you should give her a couple of weeks  talk to her make her now that your there to help her there and then let her get to know you and then ask her out
733033
This is tough. Everyone is in a difficult situation when a guy likes a girl in a relationship, no matter the status of the relationship. I'd say be a friend to her. Hang out with her in moderation so as to not arouse suspicion from the current boyfriend. Give her moral support if she needs it during a possibly impending breakup, but do NOT encourage her to break up with him for you, in any way/shape/form. This could cause gossip, this could cause her to see you as a housebreaker, this could cause boyfriend of the day to kick your ass. And right after she breaks up with him, if this happens, it is not the right time to ask her out. You don't want to be the rebound. And you don't want her when she's just getting over that. It's not the right start to a healthy relationship. Be that good friend for a week, two, as long as you can wait after the breakup, and if you're sure she likes you, ask her out... or maybe sparks will fly before then... anyways... good luck in this hella conundrum
172602
i think you should wait a while because you say she JUST got dumped. It doesn't seem right if she got dumped one second and is dating another guy the next (unless she dos that all the time). As for the figuring out part i think you should ask her directly but play it cool and try to do it when she is alone because you might embarass yourself if it is in front of a lot of other people.
708224
Don't ask her out immediately, the key is to move slow. She has already given you hints that she may be interested. But remember she just broke up with her boyfriend, the chances of rejection are 50/50.
130099
only after you both have gotten completely over the break-up...It could take a month maybe even a year
458945
Deal with it.  Think about the reasons that you broke up, so that you don't make the same mistakes again.  Go a little slower in your next relationship, so that you take the time to know what a person is like before getting involved and possibly hurt.\n\nTake a look at your own behavior.  What would she say about you?  If you could do the relationship over again, what would you do differently?  This could give you clues to be a better boyfriend, which could help you get a better girlfriend next time :)\n\nTake a few months off - girls don't like a guy who is needy, and can't live without a girl.  Be yourself, remember what is good about you.  It's ok to be sad or pissed for a while, but cool off and stay cool.\n\nDon't be afraid to talk with girls, but don't try to ask them out, just look for girls who have the same favorite things as you, and that are nice people.  Later on, after knowing them for a couple months, then ask them out.
427278
if you think she is breaking up with you just ask her there is no harm in that although it might be hard to ask her
1089897
Wait for them to break up and GO FOR IT!!
722938
well, then u should wait till you knwo shes single. it might also help if u knew if she liked you. she kinda sounds like a playa. give it some time. but dont ask her out while shes dating someoen else, bad things happen
852622
Well, if she is a friend and she really likes you mabey you should just tell her you arnt ready for another girlfriend!!! If she really likes you she will understand and wait for you!!! And if you still love your ex-girlfriend go over why you guys broke up in the first place!!! Mabey you and your ex-girlfriend can still be friends and mabey you might get back together!!! If you love her the least you can do is try and if the other girl really likes you she will let you go and just be your friend!!!!!!!
938175
You should definitely give her some time because she just broke up with her boyfriend.  There is still a possiblity that they might get back together.  Also, you do not want to be her rebound guy because rebounders never last long.  Just be a friend to her and let her know she can call you if she needs to talk.  But take it from me, I'm a female.  You do not want to pressure her or else it will turn her off of you.  Give her time.
314015
Hell yes! If a guy even waited 1 week to ask me out, I would be wondering what was going on with him. Ask her now before you lose your chance. Good luck.
710594
ask her out. if she says yes then it's all good. if she says no then you at least know and can move on to someone who is looking. and remember if she says no, it prolly isnt about you that she just isn't in a "place" to date you. as for your previous break-up----- get out and have fun! doing things will make the time go by faster and keep your mind busy!
324993
Well You did not give the reason of your breakup so it's hard to give an advise.  Anyways, I think you still in love with her so why not try to court her again if she's still single.  Don't wait for her to call, she might waiting for your call as well.  Do the first move, she probably waiting for you to call her. Talk things out, or just say hi.
805398
Aww just ask her are we going out? Then you can ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. That happened to me too but we had kissed already he asked me so...are you my girlfriend 'n I said well we kissed but i don't know you tell me 'n he said well do you wanna be my girlfriend 'n i said yes we've been together for 2 years lol but that's cute just ask her poor girl is probably waiting for you to ask her soon.
734275
well if you really like this girl and thinks she is worth the wait then do it. when a girl has had a rough time with relationships she tends to want to be left alone and it sounds like this girl might not be able to trust any one anymore so just console her make her feel better and be there for her....wait a lil while and see wat happens and if after you just get sick of waiting if she still hasnt decided she wants to be in a relationship then move on
994690
1st it depends on how long you were with her, you need to give yourself time adjust after this. Because its just a process you have to go through 2 feel good about yourself again. It will take as long as it needs 2. you will know yourself when you r ready to get the ball rolling again! There is no point on going out on the rebound as you will still have feelings for her. You will just end up getting hurt or hurting someone else its not a good idea to rush, it took me along time b4 i let anyone else in my life after my break up! She messed my head up so much it. i don't know your situation but all i can say and i think a lot of guys would say the same take it easy nice and slow you have all the time in the world. \n\nbut if you want to go out and meet someone do the same as you would have b4. Have a good time talk to them n ask them out there is only two answers you will get!!!!!!!!!