Can anyone give me pointers on how to please my man and for him to please me.?
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ask him what he likes .....\n\ntell him what you like ...\n\n try different things\n\n\n\nSURPRISE HIM
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do yourself ,make him watch ,show him how to do you properly ,tell him how u wanna be done
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At the beginning, try to understand what he likes and dislikes only by yourself. Then causally, start asking him about himself. Keep your wits working. You start accommodating him before he does.Have a meaningful and productive sexual relationship which pleases both of you. Learn how to pretend and exercise pretensions according to your wits. Let him know your mind only when it suits your purpose.
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TALK TO HIM!!!!\n\nthe only person who can help you with that is your husband.  COMMUNICATION is the key to a relationship.\n\nDo not cheat on him, it's not worth it.\n\nIf all else fails, put on some lingerie...and do a little strip tease for him, he'll come around.
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Get some lingerie nice dinner and do something exotic to him bet you that will help out!!!
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Show your man a little bit of skin, not enough so that you're hanging out everywhere. Guys like something left to the imagination. Also, tell him how hot you are feeling and tell him what you wish to do to him. Good luck!
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fist off im staight male....men need extra attenion too not just the ladies , this is a common misconseption...if nothing is wrong(medically)use foreplay thats right foreplay!!!men get out what they put in but if they have a little help ..hmmmmmm...so suprise him.. and seduced him ..use sexy clothes, soft music..be provokative..but not to forceful...he his to know his still in control...light a candle or dim the lights so he can see he prize in a diffent view...oral if your into that and do a little dance or strip tease, men are excellent body langauge readers...moan and talk at the same time..whisper exactly what your thinkin to him ,and lastly ride him like you mean business and if you got it right, boom!!now call your girlfriends...lol
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greet him,Act normal, arrange a candle night dinner, wear a sexy outfit that can really make your sexy body look more sexy,make atmosphere so arousal that he just cant think of anything else but u n ur body. I hope he will taste you instead of the food.... and thats not the last.try to make love to him till he and you are completely exhausted
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Buy him some hand cuffs for a start and ask him to use them on you. As he gets more excited by it encourage him. If he begins to get more excited and interested, let him know how much you enjoyed it when he (insert action here). Let him think he is the one coming up with the ideas, and make suggestions, "Would you like to .... " With my husband, it was a small bit at a time at first, but after a bit, he came round big time.
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Best tip?  Don't compete with him. You're a woman. Act like\nit. Don't act like a man. You don't want him to act like a\nwoman, do you? Role reversal will ruin a marriage. Accept\nyour individual strengths and fill in for each others weak-\nnesses. Men don't think like women. Don't try to undermine\nhis manhood. Admire his intellect, courage, and stamina.\nDon't detract from those "macho" traits that make him a man.\nHelp him, if he asks. Your femininity is a gift. Don't use\nit as a tool. Don't play head games. Don't waste time play-\ning "Hint". Tell him what you need and want. You may not get\nit all, but if you're good to him, you can be sure he'll \ntry. And if love fades, consider it a temporary condition.\nTip toe through it. Use your loving tenderness at every\nopportunity, but don't patronize. Men sometimes act like\nboys, let him. He may be inept at something, don't accent it. Let him love you. Let him not love you. If he's working\nhard, don't stop him. If he's not, gently motivate him. Don't take anything for granted. Know him, his moods, his\njoys, and his troubles. Add to his joys, not his troubles.\nDon't ever stir up the bad from the past. Expect the little\nproblems ahead, prepare for them. Don't make life changing\ndecisions based on bad temporary female feelings. Never put\nanyone before him. And remember: men aren't always the\nbrightest crayons in the box. Give him chances to get it\nright. Don't just say it, but reaffirm your love often,\nespecially when things are going wrong. Don't forget what\nyou're fighting for. Remind him, if needed. And if he does\nthis for you too, you should be fine. One more thing, turn\noff the T.V., it is filled with silly notions of what love\nand struggle are all about. And about the sex tips...\njust kidding. Sweet dreams, you two.
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Learn to get yourself off\n\nExplain your issues to your man\n\nGet him to learn to give you good oral sex
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Look, be spontanious. While hes watching T.V. (long as its not something hes passionite about) start vacuming, he'll look at you and you'll be naked. Woo-Hoo!!! \nGo in the kitchen and cook. Take off your clothes & "accidently" spill something on yourself...Ask him to bring you a towel, when he does say forget the towel, why don't you lick it off? \nSneak in the shower with him...\nGo dress up like a sl*t while he's waiting for you in the bedroom...\nBe laying on the couch under a blanket when he gets home, be wearing something sexy underneith it...\nWear an oufit you know drives him wild when you guys are heading out for the day, by the time you get home, he'll wanna rip your clothes off of you...\nWhile the radios on, just sneak up on him & start giving him a lap dance!!!\nTurn your work-out into strip-arobics. He won't think they're so boring then...\nStart getting him into"props" by one day be all classy looking & wearing a strand of pearls, when your about to bet busy, take them off & accdently let them slip between your legs, say um, that feels good, play w/ them a bit. Then be like, here you try, and give him a hand-job while wraping the pearls around his you know what...\nAlso do the same with silk, a pair of silk pantys or a scarf works well (wear the scarf in your hair so he dosn't think its weird)..\nLet him do you while your wearing pantyhose &/or high heels...\nput on lipstick heavly (one that comes off easyly), bring it w/ you & put it on the nightstand. Kiss him, kiss him all over, let him kiss you too, then take a shower together...(just make sure your hot water heater didn't just break...thats what happend to us when we did that...)\nGet a sl*tty nurse oufit, don't let him know you have it...whenever he's almost better from being sick (like just a lil lazy but otherwise fine), put it on & "take care of him"\nOnce he's comphy w/ the scarf idea earlyer, try using it to tie or blindfold each other...\nPut on a almost see-though shirt or really low cut jeans or a top that comes almost to your t*ts or plunges very deep, see if he'll tell you to change...tell him you won't unless he can get you outta them...make him work at it...\n\nI have more ideas, but am tired of typing right now...\n\nWhen my hubby & I got first got together, the sex was great, but there wasn't any kink or excitement or whatever...Now, about 4 years after we met, he'll try just about any idea I come up with, and even has a few kinky secrets of his own that he likes & enjoys & suggests we do sometimes. Heck, he has even approched me w/ some ideas of stuff he would like to try...a BIG turn around in things there....\n\nRember not to do anything "bold" until you know it won't scare him. Gradually "ease-into" kinky things. Try talking about ideas/droping suggestions first to see his reaction.\n\nGood luck & happy f*cking!!! hahaha!!! HAVE FUN!!!
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Just keep practicing and remember that you're stimulating him and his imagination via what he hears from you.  So describe what you'd like to do to him, give him feedback when he's describing what he's doing to you and make lots and lots of satisfied sounds!
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WELL JUST THINK OF THE THINGS MEN DO TO YOU THAT TURN YOU ON ... OR THE THINGS YOU WISH THEY WOULD DO. RELAX AND JUST HAVE FUN WITH YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN TELL YOU HOW TO PLEASURE YOURSELF EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN FAVORITE TRICKS TO PLAY WITH THEMSELVES!
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You should tell him your needs.How is he suppose to know what you want if he doesn't know what you want.Maybe when your in bed you should guide him while your having sex and if things don't change after that then I don't know what to tell you other then leave.Good Luck
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So no problem; next time you two go for it , get him off ahead of time. Give him a few minutes to get it back up then ride him until he cums.  That way he can get off twice, and so can you, maybe!
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Be yourself. Do what u want to him. Be the dominate one in bed he wont forget that.