somebod help!!!!  gal not interested in a relationship...........?
484138
You have to give her some time for her heart to heal, be there for her and talk to her let her know that you understand that she has been hurt may times but also let her know that not everyone is the same there are kind nice sweet men out there she just hasn't found the right one...Don't push her though because u don't want to push her away from you because if u do u will either fight like hell to get her or u will never get her at all hope this helps good luck
1079382
Well, just tell her that you don't want a relationship with her. Don't be mean with it. And tell her y'all can be friends. If she can't accept that then pay no attention to her or her friends.
954063
I think you should try to find her and see what she's up to.  You never know, she may be thinking about you also...or, she could be in a relationship.  If you find her, and she's not interested in pursuing a relationship or even conversing with you, you must respect that and move on though.  Good Luck!
367899
Seen those Nike ads?  JUST DO IT!  It will get easier and easier every time.  And guess what, you will get rejected more often than not, but you gotta shake it off!  Its possible you're catching her at the wrong time, she's a lesbian, she's in a relationship, she's too busy, or she's just not attracted to you.  Who cares though!  There are a zillion other Chicky's out there!  Keep on trucking!
419632
Just keep being who you are and do NOT act like a player. If she is truely interested, she'll keep corresponding with you. Good-Luck!!
830289
Have you tried talking to her and ask her out?  If not, I suggest you do that and if she turns you down (which won't be the end of the world) then you know she wasn't interested in you for whatever reason. You seem like a confident person by the way you describe yourself so why do you take those good attributes that you have and respect her decision and move on to someone else- There's alot of fish in the sea!!! Good Luck!!!
334570
the best thing to do is go separate ways , find a hobby , read, go shopping. i don't think someone else is good right  now. u ha vet gotten over this .give yourself time to your self . plenty of fish out here in this big sea of love. what u do is find a younger gal reminding u of her.
43571
She is not interested in you, but she wants to have her options open: women like to have a bunch of lap dogs at their service that they can call... \n\nYour adequate response is that is fine, you have way many girls to go out with and probably later you are not going to be available...
25330
When you are turned down by a gal, it is time to move on.  Consider that she has done you a favor.  You would not want to spend your life with a woman who does not share a special chemistry with you.  She may tell her friends because by asking her you paid her a very high compliment.  Love can rekindle but she would have to make a direct move to give you (not her friends) a signal.  Many seniors who both lose mates, find and marry their high school sweethearts; perhaps both have matured enough in the passing years to re-discover that they "missed a good thing."  Good luck.
476510
Keep trying man, but don't push things, just try to talk to here in the more relaxed way possible, like you didn't care about her, and pay attention to what she says, then you could discover what she likes and then start talking about what she likes. This should help you, it it doesn't, move on, there are always other girls.
810436
if she makes you uncomfortable let her know. if you've done that and it still happens, maybe its time to walk away from the friendship. if she doesn't respect you enough to respect the fact that you aren't interested its prolly not worth saving in the first place.
777725
I would try to get to know her first and offer to be her friend but let her know you are thinking of being a little more than that eventually.  If she still isn't interested in you, move on because you can't make someone want you the way you want them.  Also while you are wasting your time there could be someone already interested in you but your not picking up on their signals because you are only interested in a girl who is already going out with someone else.  Trust me I wasted too much time trying to chase the wrong guys for me when there were guys who were really nice who were interested in me but I couldn't see that then.  Good luck!
129352
If she is giving you excuses not to go on a date . . . three strikes she is out.\n\nIn most cases she is not interested . . . in you . . . so move on.\n\nIf she tries to become chummy . . . ignore her . . . don't be a wimp . . . be a man and move on.
1098389
act like your not interested, play it cool, don't fawn over her, have other interests........\n\nit's a mix of not totally ignoring the person and not being overly nice either.
365055
she sounds like she likes you more than just friends... i think she had second thoughts after her first refusal of a relationship, if you still want to, you can make your offer again, i think now is a good time and she seems ready.. Good Luck
208124
Give her some time. You talk to her casually.. If you really lover her then you have to wait for her +ve response... You be friendly with her...Don't bother if she is not interested...
889522
Seems like she isn't interested right now, just try to be more casual and try to build on a friendship, because she might be one of those girls who can't really date someone until they've been friends, I know I like to know a guy a little before even considering dating them. Just talk to her more, and don't seem so desperate to get a date with her, most girls don't find that attractive, she might start to think you're a stalker or a weirdo, just act yourself and wait, if it's meant to be it will happen eventually.