What do men look for in women in order to establish a relationship?
478579
This is a pretty vague question in itself. The type of relationship is a pretty open variable. The way I see it, relationships differ on a scale. On one end you have the casual relationship and on the other you have the 'serious' relationship. And the scale is based on pretty much two things: Appearances (physical attraction) and wit (personality) If you're talking about a pretty casual relationship then there would be an emphasis on appearances. And on the same token, the serious relationship has an emphasis on wit. But there must be at least a combination of both. Look at it this way: How fun would a teeter-totter be if you just sat in one end and had no one on the other end?
13444
you will never get an answer that completely solves that question.  All women look for something different. some prefer the bad boy, while others look for a guy who is gonna lavish them will gifts.  The best thing to do is be yourself and know that somewhere (a) girl(s) are looking for the qualities you have.  Baseline though women want a man with a sense of humor, someone they can share interests with, someone who listens to them and generally cares about them.
1137421
let me tell you the first thing about women... never take advice from women about women. Let me prove that one to you. I once asked my sister two questions. The first question was "what do you look for in a guy?" I got the typical "i want a guy that treats me good, does sweet things for me, and blah blah blah". then i asked her to describe the guys that she has had the longest relationships with. well I'll be damned if those two answers weren't the farthest away from each other as they could be. Now some girls you ask may get a good piece of advice in there once and awhile, but let me tell you the three "C's" of what a women looks for in a man. Confidence is probably number one. Not to be confused with arrogance, confidence is not having a self esteem problem. Know in your head that you are good enough for a women, but don't think that you are better than her. The second: Control. Control is about being your own person and in control of your own life. Being a decision maker and being confident in the decision. Taking charge of a date for example. None of this crap about i don't know, what do you want to do. This is where many many men falter. Control in this manner is not about controlling what a woman does. it's about being a take charge guy. One word of caution about this is that there may be feminist or two out there that don't like this kind of crap. Those women need to be kicked to the curb. The third is a challenge. Never let a woman think that you are a loser. Women want what other women want. Let her think other women want you. never wait around for a women and beg her like a puppy dog. you have your own life, live it. and if you don't, pretend. go out with your friends, go on dates with other women. And if and when you start dating a women, remember that you still have friends. never let a women tell you "let me think about it". that's just postponement for her to tell you no with hopes that you will forget about it. I'm not in any way telling you to treat a women like crap. a lot of people assume that from me when i tell them this stuff. you need to treat your woman good, but do not be her little bi***. Bottom line, women want a man to be a man. The big protector. Be a gentleman. Open doors, and treat her like a lady, but be a man about it, not a p**** whooped fool.  You sound like you're ready to hand over your testicles.  you will "worship the ground they walk on"... if it doesn't work try something else.  accept that you need to change
324688
Well If you get the right kind of women.... generally it won't be about looks. As far as emotionaly, you would think most women would want a guy who is sweet and romantic. Not to emotional and cry over everything but emotional enough to really care about things. Personality- Funny and outgoing. You need a good laugh and you don't want someone who never wants to leave the house and get to try new things. And of course he has to be nice and treat the women with the respect she deserves to be treated with!
928499
~WHAT MEN LOOK FOR IN WOMEN~\n   A cute/hot guy looks for big boob girls, sexy body, nice look, and good sex.\n   A normal, just want sex guy looks for good sex, pretty everything, big boobs, and good kissing girls.\n   A person that doesn't care about sex like smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes pretty, caring, good personality, and some others in a women, counting purfume smell as a maybe.\n~WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN MEN~\n   A like sex lady/women/majesty would like her men to be good at sex, hot/cute, have a big penis, likes tumbling naked either outside in a nice field or under sheets, and she usually likes men that have soft lips for good kissing.\n   A women/lady/majesty that is popular/well known may vary because if it's nice, it would like guys that are smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes cute, caring,and have a good personality. But, meaner ones like guys that are hot/cute, good kissers, and sometimes, very SEXY!\n   Ones that are calm will like the same things as men that don't care about sex or kissing or being naked.\n\nhope this helped or met your expectations!!
363732
In my experience, women look for 1 of 4 things, in no particular order:\n\n1. Charm/Humour\n2. Money\n3. Meanness\n4. Looks\n\nJust because you're not mean and don't want to be mean to a woman, doesn't mean you can't bring one of the other 3 "talents" to the table.
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charm is one of the best 'attributes' that a man can have =)\nplus, you're honest, romantic, and giving\nwhat else could a woman want?\nage and look are not important these days\nso, if i'm not married, i would surely date you!\nbe more confident with yourself =)
630766
This kind of question comes up often enough, I feel like I should just save my answer so I can paste it right in!  :D\n\nFirst thing I look for is a happy personality!  Seriously!  No matter how striking a woman is; if she looks like the whole world is a burden on her, why would I want a wet blanket like that dragging me down!\n\nYeah, looks are important, but not nearly as important to me as Hollywood/the magazines/etc. make it out to be.  An average/too skinny/flat-chested/what-have-you girl who is fun to hang around with will get my attention any day.  That's not just a bunch of words, either:  I've been attracted to all kinds of women (except very large ones.  What can I say, I'm still human!)\n\nGood conversation is a must:  you need to listen to what guys say, not just wait for your turn to make a speech.  If I just want something pretty to look at, I can hang out anywhere & browse the eye candy without wasting any time/money/effort of my own.
46073
Guys are attracted to women who take responsiblity for their own feelings and needs, they might need a parnter to help them to meet the needs, but they don't put all that on the other person.
35278
I cannot speak for most of the women out here, but what i like is a guys personality and they have to have a good careing heart. Maturity also plays a factor. The way they look and dress is not that all important, you have some people that are less fortunate than others. Hey some of the women are not up to par themselves. That's basically what i look for. Even if they are less fortunate, still i like a man thats very clean about his hygiene. They also have to show me respect, and treat me like the woman that i am. They also have to have a sense of humor.
383658
It's not just looks. How about charm? honesty? trust worthiness? You might say so but looks aren't all you look for in a woman, in the same way, that's not all women look for in a man.
889678
good personality\nnice smile \nattractive(doesn't apply to all guys)\ngood sense of humour\nnice butt or breast
578466
I look for intelligence, first of all. I'm smart and I don't want to offend anyone by it. Second, his personality. He has to want to be with me and enjoy being in a relationship with me, or it's not fair to either of us. Last, but not least. Great sense of humor. If something or some things go wrong and we can't meet up or we have a fight, we should be able to make up easily and laugh it off. Sincerity is good, but not overbearing seriousness.
770123
Well, different guys look for different things.  It's really hard to narrow it down to things that guys tend to want in general, but I'll try.\n\nFirst, I think they want the girl to take them for who they are.  I also think they like girls who try to look nice, but at the same time, don't obsess over it.\n\nFor myself, I tend to like women who are gentle and tend to be at least somewhat soft-spoken, because that matches my personality.
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Depends on where they are from, what society they grew up in and such. But overall. . . \n\nMen tend to look for either men in women's bodies-> someone you can watch the game with and then have sex with.\nMother type figures->clean up after them and cook, then have sex with.\n\nMen also tend to speak more directly, if there's an issue they say it.\n\nWomen are more likely to talk around issues, and read more into actions and behaviors then men.\n\nWomen are more likely to look for the love of thier lives from day one.  The prince or knight protector is one image women tend to look for.  \n\nBut at the end of the day we are both just looking for a companion.
350701
The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
1032483
It depends on the women usually. What i want tho is a guy who is strong not only as in muscles but a strong mind. A guy who is real not fake, not a cheater,not a moocher, but a real guy. A man who is sweet but not too sweet. Oh, i go for the bad boys too. LOL. A man who can live on his own and has been thro stuff in his life. But if you mean like in anything... Just a man, and some money, beauty products and thingys like that. But personally i'm not all about the jewlry and stuff.  I'm more real and i as a women want to party!