Do u think that guys would not have sex w/ me b/c I am fat, and guys do u grap the fat or what do u do w/ it?
490359
Yeah I would, I love a fat girl they are soft lolz holla back yo
211319
i totally agree with you. people think that you have to have sex if you are in a relationship, but it's not true. i was with a guy for almost three years and we never had sex. im proud of myself for that because i proved to myself and other people that you can be in a relationship and stay together without having sex. Good Luck!
1167144
Im not fat ta very much!!\n\nI have curves in all the right places and not had one single complaint. \n\nStrange question for a guy to ask anyway lol
310011
Well,I'm a guy and I think i need to tell u to take it easy.I think you will prefer attracting guys that love the "U" rather  than ur body:)
528972
OKay..I'm a little person. But I'm going to have to say, I'm jealous of some big gals. My breast will never be as big and my hips won't budge! lol\n\nI have some big gal friends and they get plenty of play. Men love the curves! So 'fat girls' get plenty of men......it's all attitude!
195143
Not all dudes like skinny women! No one in my family would even bring a girl home if she didn't look like she could handle herself/or has handled her business at the dinner table.\n\nI am totally of the belief that the person God designed to be your mate is attracted to your body as it was designed (including someone's set point).  Women worry about their weight all too often and don't realize that it is irrelevant if a dude thinks you're fat. Why do we do this to ourselves? Different strokes for different folks, and if he's not interested in strokin' ya ...well, there will be others!
631852
no some guys are just genuinely nice. i do favors for any friend, male or female. just because a guy is nice to you it doesnt always mean he wants sex.
763436
i think you shouldn't have sex with a guy unless you've been with him for like over 6 years or your married (even though some ppl think thats too long) but if you really want to be with him again why don't you ask him out again. and if he's with someone try being friends with  him and if/when he breaks up with the girl he's with now you could be there with him and then you guys could/might get back together.! hope it works out and hope you pick my advice! ^_^
685397
Don't ever let any guy pressure you into having sex. You will know when the time is right. And if some guy really cares about you he will respect that.
582851
The best thing you could do is leave him so he can find someone less shallow.  It sounds like you really don't care about this guy at all, or you would accept him for who he is.  Why did you get with him if you're embarrassed that he eats a lot, anyway?  You admit he's "really fat".  This is what really fat people do.  But even if he is really fat, he still deserves better than someone who is ashamed of him.
485848
I think that we (guys) should make big deal about their size, at least bigger than it has been in the past. It's funny how women like to put all the pressure about them getting pleasured on men. If a women has a great time having sex it's because the guy was good, if not it means that he was lousy. No wonder so many men suffer performance anxiety. It's always about the size of men and never about the girl. During sex, men generally do most of the work while women just lay or kneel there doing nothing else but enjoying themselves while we sweat like dogs. What most people forget is that men's penis don't change with age. It stays the same pretty much for most of his life. Some people may said that if you get fat it gets smaller, but it's not true, it's just hiding under all the fat. But women do get loose with time and specially after they have children. Now, I'm not putting women down, I'm just want to make the point that those who live in a class house should not throw stones. May be us guys should make fun of their size just like they made fun of us. \n\nThere are a lot of women here who are liars, they say that they don’t care about their size. May be they don’t think as much about it because they don’t have the same pressure that we men do, but I know that they care more than they are willing to admit. I’d bet you that it would bug then like crazy if we started telling them that they feel loose. Which is not always true or course. That’s something that no women wants to hear. I’ve read so many questions posted in here by women concerned about their size, that it’s obvious that they do care.
1067581
I couldn't date a fat guy or anything like that, but I've dated quite a few guys who others have considered unattractive and I thought they were just great because of their personality. So to me, after getting to know them, they became extremely attractive and cute to me.\nI do draw the line though.  I couldn't date a fat, nasty guy or anything like that. Sometimes I find myself not even wanting to date a guy that everyone thinks is attractive.
31284
There are some nice guys.  One of my friends has turned down sex from girls because he thought they were moving too fast, and he wanted a long term relationship with a nice girl.  The problem is that these guys are not normally the "popular" ones.  Even though they can be very cute they are probably also quite shy.  Also, never let anyone pressure you into sex.  If the guy really cares about you, then he will wait.
923432
I think most guys like average size. But I know some that like super skinny. I have always been thin sz 3 and got a lot of attention from guys but I noticed that when I put on weight after pregnancy I actually got more attention. I choose to lose weight though because I feel more comfortable thinner. \nBut it is also how you carry yourself. I've seen fat girls that guys flock to. Why? Because they are confident, friendly, dress nice, and take care of their appearance. Sometimes a guys first impression is negative for a fat girl but her personality draws them in.
1103433
Yes and thank you for your email. I've never wished I was gay although the girls would often acuse me of being gay. I've never desired or even thought I was gay. I've always Loved being out with lady friends but sometimes they expect sex and I'm just not interested in them that way. But some times I do find someone I'm in Love with not in a sexual way but I'd like to be by her side.I think about sex if that would keep her by my side.But by the time I'm ready for that, she's already found herself another man.
784283
I think most guys would just use you for sex
446881
I have had mostly guy friend all my life...so...I think it can happen.  I don't know if they have thought about having sex with me, but none of them have tried anyway...\n:)