When is the best time to break up with my girlfriend?
476252
Hey buddy!  There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone... make sense?  Sounds like you love her, but may not be in love with her... or simply stated, may not have the romantic feelings that she has for you... it's a tough spot to be in - sorry!  \n\nThere is no easy way to break someone's heart or "let them down"... but you owe it to yourself and her to be honest... and ASAP!  The longer you "pretend" or carry on like you have stronger feelings than what you do, the harder it will be for her... after all, no one likes to live a lie.  Focus on the qualities you like about her and tell her how ya feel.\n\nDon't be surprised if this rocks your relationship as friends... it may even jeopardize any friendship you hope to have (especially if you wait to tell her ya feel).  Trust is a big thing!!!\n\nBest wishes!
653278
Break It off.  If you are unsure and she won't wait then you should break it off.  It is not good to go into a marriage unsure of your feelings.  If your to-be wife won't respect your feelings then maybe she isn't the right person for you.  Better to end it now then find out in six months what you already knew.
46409
The sooner you tell her how you feel, the better. If you drag this out, it will be more painful for the two of you. Just sit down with her and discuss the situation like adults and explain to her why you feel that you can't be with her anymore. Don't feel like your reasons aren't good enough. And don't let her convince you to stay with her if you don't want to. She might get emotional, but stand by your feelings and be strong about it.
1170270
Yes break up with him. He is not good for you.
767092
break up with him and go with me
348569
The question is...will there ever be a GOOD time to leave her or will she always have some "problem" making you stay? You are feeling guilty and trying to make excuses so as not to have to break up with her. Natural. Break up with her, offer to help her out with whatever you can as a friend but do not sleep with her while you are doing this!!! Break away firmly but kindly. She will find some other shmuck to glom on to in no time(not that I am saying you are a shmuck)!! Good luck!
874267
Break up with her, now.\n\n\nYou can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves.
464976
It seems that you do not love your girlfriend and should break up with her.\n\nFirst for someone to be intimate with you, you have to make it comfortable for them.  If she is doing nothing, it means that you have not done your job properly.\n\nObviously you are not for her, since you are planning to leave her because she is not having enough sex with you.  Do her a favor and leave.  She is not comfortable with you and you don't love her.
505869
Ok, look.  You are going to be graduating soon and you want your girlfriend to go with you... right? Well, is she in school too?  Maybe she's not ready to take the next step.  You can't rush her into doing it and if you feel like a long distance relationship would be to difficult then it's time to break up. And as for the other girl... if you're breaking up with someone you really really love why would you start seeing someone that you just "like"? and still be in the same situation?\nIf  you have to break up with her let it be the last resort but also don't twist her arm to take the next step either.
631011
For anyone, not having to physically face hurting someone is always easier. Even though best common courtesy would be to break up with someone in person, many people seek other methods like a letter, voicemail or email.
881729
So you got tired  and bored of your booty call.  You really need to be straight fourth about it.  There is never any easy way to break up with someone but to be honest about it.  You always run the risk of her telling your 10 year long partner.  Just say something like you feel you are being unfair to her to continue in the relationship.  She deserves someone that can be there all the way and you can't.  Your feelings are not what they should be to continue the relationship that you have together so you have made up your mind to end it.  Good luck!!
294383
Not wrong, just risky.  you will prob break up eventually and it will cause probs.  But it will be summer soon right?  Go For it!!  (if you are a young girl, beware of undergrad dudes.  They are bastardly.)
32191
You should learn to be more mature and not resort to childish and harmful games. If you want to break up, then break up, but don't cause more damage than is necessary.
525365
If he's super nice, why do you want to break up with him?  Make sure you're 100% sure.  After you're positive you want to break up with him, the best way would be to tell him straioght out.  he probably wouldn't appreciate games.  You might break his heart, but it's better than staying with him and being miserable while he tries frantically to find out what's wrong.
984509
i think that me and my boyfriend may be breaking up today. i'm really nervous and not sure what to do.  don't call him, just let it all go. that'll be the easiest thing to do.
279652
Best way is to dump your girlfriend. Works every time.
1015190
Take a break from anyone.  If you can't be happy alone with yourself you'll never make anyone else happy.  Go take a walk on the beach, ALONE.  See what a big wide world is out there.  You don't have to stop dating forever but give yourself a break.  You don't need any guy that just broke up with his girlfriend.  Give it a couple of weeks without him and see if he misses you.  In the mean time just enjoy yourself doing peaceful stuff.  Good Luck