When is it alright to say "I love you" to a girl?
475688
Those words are very powerful and deep, and can evoke alot of hidden feelings that neither of you knew existed.  They can be a very good step towards a deeper relationship, but at the same time, they can be a factor that can pull you apart.  You have to know the right time to say them, and know that, honestly, there is no rush to say them, and sometimes actions speek louder than words if those words are just not ready to be said. You have to ACTUALLY BELIEVE IT FOR SURE before you say it. Don't be afraid of a little romance though.  Buy her a rose, call her randomly during the day just to see how she is feeling, treat her to a nice dinner, invite her over and have a candlelit pick-nick in your back yard, courtesy of your cooking (Granted you have some culinary abilities.)  Those kind of things are almost always appreciated and can mean a lot when you put your heart into the planning.  \n\nHope this helps,\nRespectfully, \nAndrew V.
401909
Don't change a thing....keep talking to her as normal....when you know shes ready to be told you love her than go for that too....but just keep chill and stay the same
746583
she said she loves you..... she AT LEAST likes you!!!!!!!!!! be wit her!
94635
With loving actions.  Do something your loved one wants you to do for them.  Show that you appreciate them.  I sometimes believe that saying "I love you" is meaningless unless it's accompanied by an act of appreciation.  Appreciation=love!
183038
It really depends on the way it is said. It has happened to me twice. The first time, the girl just kind of walked up and blurted it out at me, it took me by surprise and I really do not think I handled that as well as I should have. We are still acquaintances but nothing ever happened. However, I was once asked out by a girl I had casually seen passing by. I accepted, of course, and we had a nice little lunch together. Near the end of the lunch she told me that she had been noticing me and trying to "hang out" around the places she knew I had been at. Then she said, "And I just wanted to say that from what I've seen, I love you." I still call her up to go hang out, but our relationship has (and probably always will be) just a friendly one.
210594
when you are willing to make sacrifices for her and will do anything for her. True love knows no bounds, no distance is too far, and it never ends. Love is a seriously overused word and love doesn't come around many times in a lifetime for many people. I hope you two do love eachother!
804617
I think the right time to kiss a girl is when you both are feeling each other and think you have something going on. So I would probably say after the second or third date. If you think sooner the go for it.
108193
actually, its not hard to say i love you...\nwhat is hard is to find to right time...\neverything happens on its right time is excellent...\n\nwait for that time.
869751
How do I say "I love you."\n\nFirst.... before I go into that I will make a correction. The guy that said "study English first" ... I have this too say. "I did not mean too give you a thumbs up. I appologize for sending you mixed signals."\n\nNext... the QUESTION!\n\nWhen you love somebody how do you say too that perosn "I love you"?\n\nThat is TRUELY a hard question too answer. Too confess something like that is a very brave thing too do. You are completely vulnerable and alone in the world when it happens.\n\nI do feel for your situation.\n\nThe way I aproach it is too view that moment as the last moment I have on earth. Face the person. Gently hold thier face in your hands. And say. "This may be hard for you too accept. I understand if it's unrecipricated. I just need you too know this simple fact. I love you."\n\nAnd then you wait for the hammer too fall.\n\nI wish it could be easier. I wish there wasn't so much at risk.... but this is the nature of love.
337
It depends on the girl, the date, and how much you like each other. Just go with the flow and do what feels right. And don't think about it too much.
1089800
First, when you ask questions like this and you want some sincere advice or opinions, you need to be more specific. Like how long you've been together for instance. When you say boyfriend, you could have been together for a week or two when he said it, or it could have been years. That really helps when you're asking someone a question that you want help with.\n\nPutting the lecture aside, this is my opinion when it comes to saying "I Love You" to someone. First, never say I love you to anyone unless you really mean it. People seem to let this word come out of their mouths as if they were saying, gee, what a nice day. Other guys have hurt you? Hmm, well, don't feel like you're the only one that's been hurt. We've all gone through this, but we move on. Obviously, he hasn't made you feel comfortable enough for you to not worry about being hurt, as you have in the past, or you have not opened up enough to accept his love for you. You say you're falling for him, but you keep the walls up. That's never a good thing in a relationship. If you feel you need to protect yourself, then you're not ready for a serious relationship. When the time is right, you will know and feel comfortable about saying it. Until then, don't say it, unless you mean it. It does no one any good to hear those words when the heart isn't behind hit. Good luck and may you some day, find a way to break the walls down and enjoy a happy and healthy, loving relationship with someone who makes you feel loved.
1080500
say it when you mean it. well done for not saying it just for the sake of it. be flattered that he told you that, i would be. it doesn't matter how long you are together, 2 days, 2 weeks or 2 months. whenever you feel it is the right time to say it!
1140869
yup!! before the situation gets complicated... say it to her nicely and make sure you dont make her runaway from u while ur talking 2 her!!
78103
Dont keep it secret anymore. Just go straight to him/her and say out that u like him/her. Nobody would feel irritated by it if you say it decently. Any girl/boy would consider it to be a pride, when somebody proposes them.
173499
NOW! if you truly love someone it should'nt matter the time or place just tell them you will feel a BIG,BIG,weight lift off your shoulder's! It's easy  take a deep breath and just say it!Look i can say it to you:I LOVE YOU!(Smile) Good Luck!
542288
I want to say somethin to u but i donno how to say.\nu kno its very difficult to say it.\nnone words can say it\ni wanna say I LoVe You.
919361
Well it depends, in my personal opinion, I don't mind it at all when a girl says that too me. But however, it depends how much I like the girl. Like if it is a girl I barely know and is kinda weird, and they tell me I am hott er something, I will be like thanks and such, but it seems a bit weird. If you want to say it to someone, ask yourself how well do you know him, are you good looking, and do you know if he likes you. If he likes you, then definitaly do it. If not, then well you might want to think twice.