So WOMEN! Is it FLATTERING Or ANNOYING when a GUY ask FOR your PHONE NUMBER?
475562
I'd be very flattered, however he would have to talk to me for a bit first, it would be freaky if some dude just walked up out of nowhere and asked for my number right away.
720232
i dont think is a good idea to ask him if he is just being nice or if he likes you. that would be risky. why? because if you say he has your number and he doesnt call at all it means he DOESNT want to be more than friends. he is just nice to you because maybe that's the way he is with everyone else. my ex boss used to call me sweetie and used to give me a ride to school, used to tell me that he liked my dress or this or that but that was the way he was with everyone. so don't confuse yourself.
421637
Guys always try to play it cool and wait a little while before they call you.  Maybe he doesn't want to seem pressed or he doesn't want to make it look like he's sweating you. Believe it or not, guys get nervous about the call as we do, so just give it a little while.  He'll call you.
281053
If she gave you her number, she's probably sitting by the phone, waiting for you to call!\n\n(Go ahead!)
688512
definitely not! what would you think if someone got your name out of a phone book and called you? you'd think that they were somewhat out of their mind. don't call him, just start talking to him and then later on ask for his number
162497
she calls or answers the phone imediatly when it rings.or she alsways wants to be with you. it kinda depends onthe girl. although non of the guys i know understand that.
24234
Most guys would say, "oh, that's lame... you should shoot yourself for even asking it." but the smart guys >like myself< know that's something women would find cute. It might not be something to say on a first glimpse, but to a friend you are trying to up your relationship with, sure!  good line for that
333603
I cannot tell you "no" or "yes" without really knowing more of the details of the situation.\n\nBut the very act of you asking this question and wondering whether you should or should not probably means, "nope." Wait a while and give him time.\n\nPlus, if he was charming, he would have you GIVING him your number without him even asking. Or have you asking for HIS. Heh, I wouldn't give in so easy to ya! :)\n\nWait a while till you get to know him. He may be a fantastic guy! Or he might be a rotten egg. And, make sure that you two live within an "okay" distance so you two can easily meet if it does come to that. There is really no sense of him calling and chatting and adoring you if you two cannot physically be together.
596699
Well if you are in a social scene and a guy wants your phone number, a good rule of thumb to use is to tell them to give you their number instead. Tell them that you are busy tonight, but give me your number and I'll give you a call. This way noone is left with hurt feelings, and the dude will leave you alone.\n\nAs far as the situation the other day, I hate to say it, but since the guy wasn't getting the hint, you should have freaked out on him HARD. I would suggest sarcasm or just plain cruelty: "what the f**k is the matter with you? can't you take no for an answer or are you as stupid as you look?" Be sure to speak loudly if you do try this tactic, as he will be humiliated in front of his friends and is likely to quickly leave before he looks worse in front of them.\n\nYou may also want to consider getting some mace or pepper spray to carry when you are alone. Frankly, if some dude decides he's gonna accoust you, you better have something on hand to defend yourself with!
21469
I always hate it when a guy walks up and gives a pick-up line, whether it's cute or not. Just try to be natural. The guy who approached me in a bar that I will remember forever gave me a simple, "I saw you and wanted to come over and say hi." and then preceeded to ask me questions about myself. It was flatering that he wanted to talk to me, but he didn't try to hard or wasn't cheesy.\n\nBerbbb: Actually, the reason that I will remember the instances so well is because that guy is actually the father of my child:) We did date for about 2 years.
1062648
hey ur first conersation itself cud be "May i know ur number please".....u get to know at that moment itself if the lady is interested in u or else goto the next..
562361
get his number and get it on with :P though it may be just a quick way to get into your pants :D
1112543
I saw a video of guys answering this question, they said they might feel obligated at the time or just want to be polite because they were talking with you for a while, they feel it is just the next step even if they dont intend on calling. Guys are just hard to figure out sometimes!
624352
he is not interested. simple as that. he prolly asked for ur # out of obligation as most guys do. if he was interested he would have called.
875848
It depends....does he finally call and not mention it...or does he tell you why he hasn't called. I suppose some guys think this is fine and it is...if that's the way it has always been..but if this is something new I would worry..sounds like he's losing interest to me. If you don't say anything about it the days between calls will become more and the times he does it more often. If I were you I would find something else to do..turn the tables on him and let him wonder where you are. It will stop you from worrying about him , you could have some fun,. and maybe meet someone that will appreciate you...this guy sounds like he's trying to control the relationship and seeing just how far he can go........OH and also...guys do NOT always let you know when they want to break up with you...they try to piss you off til you break up with them ..they don't have the cahones...I have this on very good authority...a MAN...lol
209653
He's human.  He's going to look.  Don't you find other men attractive?  Looking is not a big deal, but if he's touching and exchanging phone numbers, there's a problem.
219598
sometimes, depends on the guy I'd like you and I don't know you.  but If I got to know you then it would be a certain thing.  some guys just want whats under your clothes not your skin. Get back to me when you get this resolved firedgaffney@yahoo.com