I want to go to abroad ,but due to my family problems i am not able plz tell me wheather i go or not?
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what kind of family problems?If your going abroad is going to cause a rift between you and your family then you'd better think twice...you don't want to lose your family over a job...because even after you get a job and settle down you won't be happy.
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I believe all you have to do is call them and ask them.  If the say no (which is unlikely) tell them you will go somewhere else.  The DON'T want you to go anywhere else.  Give it a shot.  Good Luck : )
1142793
I am in your shoes as i type, I am married to a island man, and it was love at first sight, but I will be honest with you, you are going to miss your family like hell! I have no family where I am residing now, but once love is in the air that's all the matters.  I am very family orientated myself, my husband is not!  If you can get him to move where you are at good for you, but if not you just have to follow your heart like i did! Take care! IF YOU WANT TO TALK YOU CAN EMAIL ME SPORTINTAHOE07@YAHOO.COM
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Ramesh you would not like this piece of advice i am sure...but why to you wanna go to abroad when you are not payed well...i feel you should stay whereever you are and try to work for your country rather than working for some foreign country...hope you like this advice...cheers!!!
235909
Where to go? Better get some help, look for school counselours or go to a hospital, they might help you go thru this stage of your life.  If you run away without having anywhere to go, probably you will end worst than your parents.  Now go out and get some help for you and your family.  Warning: It won't be easy but it's the best thing\nAnd Run away is not your only choice. Go to:
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bro all the time, except I'm not spontaneous and never do. Chances are if you feel this way and if you are anything like me, you want to do this to run away from problems, if that's how you feel, the running away part is probablly not the best idea, the problems will tend to follow you where you go, your best bet is to stick it out and resolve the crap in your life, it may hurt and take time but you'll be happier for it. good luck and God bless
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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I'm having trouble getting back to school also because I and my family are too poor. I want to be a psychologist, a counselor. All you can do is wait and have faith that what is meant to happen will happen. In the mean time work hard. God(whichever one you believe in) helps those who help themselves. :^)
423437
Then you will have to get a job where ever you are going and move her with you, if that is what you both want.....and if it will not cause too many problems with your family if you know what I mean?
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I think you should go to Cyprus hey dont dissapoint me if you dont go ill cry, just talk to him tell him what you have on your mind its better when you tell him instead of you holding it back from him, if it doesnt work out theres always going back, stay were you are at the moment for a couple of months or years see how that goes then decide when you are ready to move or not but hey you will regret not moving to Cyprus xx
727037
You neglected to say where you're from (what passport(s) you hold).\n\nStaying beyond you visa is a bad idea, any contact with the police could get you arrested and sent home, and would create serious trouble if you ever want to gain entry to any of the Schengen countries.  \n\nTypically there are rules to keep families together.\n\nContact the German embassy and explain your situation.
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AM SORRY FOR THIS ANSWER BUT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HAVE NO CHANCE OF DOING THAT IN A MUSLIM COUNTRY. AND I WOULD NOT TELL TO MANY PEOPLE OF YOUR INTENTIONS.\nI HOPE YOU BE SAFE AND FIND A WAY TO LEAVE THE COUNTRY YOU ARE IN.
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Think about all the people that love and care about you - do you think they would want to see you go?  Absolutly not!  I am writting this becasuse I care too, I don't know you, but I can't help but have concerns about your well being!  Think about all the other people in this world who have is worse than you, there are millions that have is worse.  You should talk to a counselor or a pastor or even someone that is close to you.  People do care about you, even those friends that you say you can't talk to, I promise.  You have said that you have dreams and aspirations - instead of just sitting on them - do them!  You have a life to live, so live it.  You don't get to decide on when you leave this life, God does, so put your life back in his hands and live the rest of your life that He gave you.  My prayers are with you.
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You could go to youth hostels, the YMCA, the Salvation Army.  There are lots of choices but are you sure leaving your family is a good idea right now?  I don't know what the problem is but usually if you leave before it gets resolved you will never resolve them.  I moved out when I was 16 as well and now I haven't talked to my sisters or my parents in 13 years.  Weigh your options carefully.
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talk to the admissions dept of where you want to go.  speak to your guidance counceller at your current school - you may be able to go as part of an exchange student program
336308
Be honest with your family. If they love you they will come to accept your life choices. You have to be true to yourself and not live your life for other people.
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Sounds like there is alot more to the problem then u r saying but i can understand u not wanting to go into it. I have a problem with trust and i tend only to befriend my family i have no friends either but choose not to cause down the track they will only stab u in the back. Good luck.
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You don't state why you are unhappy there. It could be that you are going through some typical teenage angst and feel the grass will be greener somewhere else. But there is an old saying that goes, "No matter where you go, there you are."  And this means, no matter where you are or how far you run, you can't run from yourself or any issues you may have. It might be best not to move out just yet. At least wait until you are eighteen if there is not some sort of abuse or neglect involved in your situation. Wake up in the morning with a new attitude of trying to get along and compromising, if possible. It seems to me maybe you might consider showing some gratitude to your Aunt for giving you a place to live.\nThere are also legalities involved here. If Auntie is your legal guardian, she can't just up and let you leave. She could get in trouble if something happens to you and she had just let you go.\nAnother aspect is if you are being abused or neglected. If that is the case, you need to go to a school counselor, teacher, police officer or someone in authority who has the power to help you out of a bad situation. If this is the case, please go to one of them.\nHope this helps and you are able to work through it.\nGood luck