ladies kindly give me some tips on mending a broken heart..?
480455
the same way you must deal with everything else in life (for it only gets worse.. but the good news is you learn how to handle situations better and more of them without feeling like its the end of the world) and the answer is....\nstep outside look around and appreciate the little things... "what a beautiful day!"  "wow gorgeous flower" a kind word or deed from someone... focus on other things.. building friendships (that often die a bit during relationship) so hang out with your mates it makes dealing with things easier... focus more on school and work... the chinese say that each person has a number of houses... a money house a work house a relatioship house a family house etc... if you place all your energy into one when it ends your world falls apart because you haven't maintained solid foundations and time in your other houses.. so focus on these and whilst the pain may never go away.. it will become easier to bear and one day you will laugh about it and know what you learnt from it ...
876970
Put as much distance between the two of you as possible and try to move on.  I know it's probably the hardest thing you could possibly do right now, but the longer you let it drag on, the harder it will be.  In the end, a clean break is the best and easiest way.  Eventually you'll get over it.\n\nGood luck.
100137
It took ten years for my poor poor heart to mend after I divorced my husband of 13 years b/c he had a baby with an aquaitance of mine and I felt sorry for her not being married and all gave her a baby shower and gave her all my childs things (i did not know it was his child til later). It just takes time. I dove into my work and made new friends (seeing as how all my old friends knew it was his child and did not tell me) and spent some quality time with myself. I got to know me really well and decided I really liked the new me. Just give yourself time to heal and get involved with work and friends. It does help. Oh and try not to drown your sorrows in alchol and drugs. I tried that I lost everything I had AGAIN and had to start over. Good luck to you and try and hang in there the world has a lot to offer if you will just stop and look around. I am happily married now to a wonderful and caring man that adores me! I am living proof that your heart can and will mend. I may stil be cracked but it will heal.
1047250
How to do not break my heart?
1146823
By focusing on your education, you'll help yourself get over your broken heart.  You just need to let your brain take over for now, and give your heart a rest for a little while.
476642
Hmmm...the best way to get over your ex???? Get a group of friends together and go out and have a good time! Go dancing, go to a movie, even invite them over to hang out. Do anything you can to keep your mind off the ex. Then, throw out anything the ex ever gave you. Get rid of it all, burn it if you want. Have a "cleansing". Take a nice long shower, indulge in some bubble bath even, do something nice for yourself. Go spend some money if you've got it, and then, when you are ready, go shopping for another person to be with!:) GOOD LUCK!
945244
I'm so sorry about what has happened to you... *HUGS*... You have to think hard about everything. Weigh things carefully. Should you and your wife get back together, there should be love for each other.  The first thing that you have to do is to fix yourself, physically and emotionally. Get help from your family. I know how it feels to be hurting inside, not knowing what to do with the feeling. It kills you inside. You want to cry but crying isn't enough to let your feelings out. Just fix yourself first. More importantly, fix yourself emotionally. From there, you'll know what to do next...
53612
Slow down a bit.  Get your mind off of that matter.  Breath some fresh air.  Get you feet back on earth.\n\nLet the relationship bloom on it own course without any help from you.  In time, you'll learn the appropriate action to make happen.
738845
good luck. try to win her back.
274165
Broken heart is not easy to heal.\nBut life doesnot stop, ask her to move on in life. I know it will not be easy for her; but to live in past memories will not heal her wounds.\nSo ask her to keep her self busy in other works like... New Hobby, develop New work interest, New part time job, Cooking etc. Being a good friend of her be with her, go out for movies, hang out here and there. Just try to make her a bit happy.\nI know it is not easy but atleast try to get out of that i m sure with time she not even forget him but also find a true love.
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First, figure out what happened to break you up in the first place. If either of you are willing to forgive each other, which takes time, depending on the problem. Sit down and write out everything that happened and really read it. Sometimes that helps. Good luck. Linda
435674
Than try to call her and tell how you feel in a matter of wanting her back winning her back i suggest you to do it inmmidiately until she finds another person!!! :)
1157482
Time heals all wounds. Be patient, and do things that take your mind off of her. If that isn't working because everything you do, you say "I remember when we did this together", then go to your local strip club, but don't be a mope. And don't think you are going to get lucky with a stripper, because there is a 99% chance that you won't. Spend some dough and get a couple of dances and you won't be thinking of her, I'll bet.\n\nGetting over your gal is going to hurt. It might take some time. These are the best bits of advice I can give, as we are all different, and we all get over things in different ways. Me, I mostly prefer to be left alone to deal with my grief. But one thing that I know will make me feel better is to do something nice for someone else. It doesn't have to be someone you know, either.\n\nHope that helps.
187184
cheer up shinny star,shit happens but we must mourn our losses,dust ourselves up and move on with our lives.a wise person once told me that it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,if it was really meant to be he'll be back,but if it's not dry those tears and brace yourself cause love is hard babie.4yrs is a long time,take your time to heal don't jump into anything on the rebound,forgive yourself cause you're blaming yourself.life goes on and that dreadful feeling will fade away with time,most importantly,forgive urself
195745
if you had kids spend more and more time with them, go for outings and trips with them so that you can all have fun, go out with the "boyz" for late nights, join a club, group whatever will help you too keep yourself busy...........time is the only thing that will really help to heal broken hearts.
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how does it feel to be heartbroken? Well, it depends on how deeply you tresured something with the person who broke your heart. for me, it felt like HELL. But i got over it after about 1 and 1/2 year. when a broken heart will be healed depends on your own pace. Frankly speaking, i don't believe the guy said. it's too unspecific and invalid. that's like telling who you can be with and you can't be with. if i were in your place, i wouldn't think that he's doing me a great favor. But nevertheless it shows he doesn't like you. Learn to move on.= )
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get involved in things you love, hobbies, work.  realizing how much you love activities, and life.  try not to dwell and talk about it with friends.\nrealize the reasons behind the breakup and that "that is what was" then move on.