I cant ejaculate why?
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errm? ok... more details needed (cringe)\npossible answers\n1. you are a woman\n2. you are pre pubescent\n3, you are stressed\n4. you are impotent\n5. you just have super endurance! keep at it!\nsorry u really need to supply more details\nthat and SEE A DAM DOCTOR!!
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Try this.\n\nYa know that muscle at the base of your penis that can lift it up? Well seriously just practice that, while you're in the shower or whatever. \n\nAndn this one. While masterbating, when you're about to orgasm, that very first feeling, flex that muscle and stop soi you don't ejaculate, then repeat after a while you will be able to control it with that muscle, just try that.\n\n\nAlso, believe it or not a lot of it is mental, tell yourself you aren't gonna cum and you'll probably last longer.
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Do you have a problem with premature ejaculation? If so, there are lotions that take away some of the sensation in your penis. You need to apply it a while before so it has absorbed or you will numb her also. You should be able to find it in the condom/personal lubricant section of a good pharmacy.
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Thats not something you can control. Thats why its called a premature ejaculation.\n\nIts normal. I wouldnt worry about it.
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There are creams that slightly numb and prolong ejaculation. You can also try a couple of condoms instead of one to desensitize.
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It's only a problem if you feel it's a problem, or if you feel unsatisfied all or most of the time. A old sex study by Kinsey reported that 75% of men ejaculated within 2 minutes of starting sexual intercourse.   Many take longer, and a few ejaculate right away (called premature ejaculation). \n  \nTry to slow down, don't stroke so fast, and take long slow strokes with pauses between the strokes.  \n\nThere is a technique that might help you.  It's called the start-and-stop technique.  When you feel yourself starting to get close to orgasm, completely stop stroking until the feeling dies down enough that you no longer feel like you are going to pop right away.  Then you can start up again.  Do this start-and-stop method for a while until you can't stand it, then let the orgasm happen.  \n\nIt may not work right away, as you are used to climaxing quickly, but keep practicing, and keep trying to slow down.  Eventually you should be able to make the masturbation session last longer. When you hold off for a while, the orgasm often feels stronger and much better.\n\nPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem for young men, so don't be worried. In fact, some men would love to be able to orgasm faster, since as you get older, it sometimes takes longer to climax.  Also, try different masturbation techiques, as some may work better for you.  Check out JackinWorld (the "Ultimate Male Masturbation Resource.")  The bottom line is: slow down, make sure you have enough uninterrupted time to yourself, and take the time to really enjoy your masturbation session.\n\nhttp://www.jackinworld.com
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It has been found that premature ejaculation resolves on its own over time without the need for a medical treatment. However, practicing relaxation techniques or using distraction methods can also help you in delaying ejaculation. You may practice techniques like Masters and Johnson Method, Simulation Technique or Squeeze Technique to exercise greater control over your performance. In addition, keeping a check over the alcohol intake and illegal drug usage is also helpful.
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yes there is a way to control ur premature ejaculation.the best way is take a hot bath and do some exercises which is when passing urine do not let it go at onetime make in parts.pee stop pee stop pee stop do this excercise when ever u go to pee.and another excercise is that masterbate but dont cum when comming to the climax divert ur mind to something else and control ur ejacualtion and this excercise u can do few times in a day b4 going to sleep or when taking a shower.it helps a lot.i had the same problem and i learnt it from one of the yahoo group answers  i think the id name as i remember desinyc26 he answerd this few months ago and i tried it and worked.best of luck
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How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation\n\n\nWorried that you don't last long enough during sex? Feel like a “minute man”? Well, you’re not alone – not by a long shot. Premature ejaculation is the number one question we get here – more than penis size, more than pregnancy, more than STDs, more than anything. \n\nAn Army of Minute Men?\nOf course, you would never guess that premature ejaculation (PE) is so common, because nobody ever talks about it. Even if it’s really bugging them, most guys won’t even bring it up with their doctor. The truth is, almost every guy experiences this kind of tool trouble at least once or twice during his sexual career. And many, many more have an ongoing struggle with it. In fact, some statistics say 20 to 30% of all men experience PE. That’s around one in four. Way more guys have trouble with being too quick on the trigger than have a problem getting it up. That’s why we’re going to give you some straight answers on PE and what you can do about it. \n\nHow Long Should I Be Lasting? \nThe term “minute man” pretty much sums it up: if you shoot your wad in a minute or less after penetration, you probably have what would be called premature ejaculation. You might even come before you get it in. Technically, PE means you’re coming sooner than you want to or expect to during sex, you don’t have any control over it, and it’s stressing you out or making you feel bad. If you come in a couple of minutes, but you don’t mind and your girlfriend is cool with it, then there’s not really a problem. But if every sexual encounter climaxes with you saying to your date, “Oops, sorry,” then that qualifies as having a problem with PE. \n\nLet’s Get Real\nOf course, lots of guys have unrealistic expectations about how long they’re supposed to last while fucking, and even how long women want them to last. The guys in porn videos pound away for what looks like hours at a time, but that’s all staged. Like average penis size, stamina in bed is vastly overestimated. In real life, most men don’t really last all that long – some surveys put the average lasting time before ejaculation at about seven minutes, which means a lot of guys actually last less than that. If you’re young and amped up, three to four minutes is more like it. It’s simply not realistic to think that you should be able to fuck like a stallion for half an hour, then climax at will at the exact moment your expertly skilled thrusting brings your partner to a screaming orgasm. Believe us, it just doesn’t happen that way. And as far as what women want, the truth is, most women (60 to 70%) cannot come through fucking alone; even if you could go all night, they’d only get sore. So a few minutes of intercourse is probably enough as long as you can back it up with some other sexual skills like fingering and oral sex. \n\nWhat Causes Premature Ejaculation? \nIf you do have PE, there’s a small chance it’s being caused by a disease or a medication you’re taking, but this is rarely the case. Most of the time there is no clear reason for premature ejaculation, and doctors still aren’t sure what causes the majority of PE cases. Current theories focus on biochemical factors, such as how sensitive your nervous system is, or the role of the neurotransmitter serotonin. We can tell you for a fact what doesn’t cause PE. It is not caused by excessive masturbation, poor sexual technique, lack of willpower or control, or any personal inadequacy on your part. In other words, if you have PE, don’t blame yourself, and don’t worry too much about what’s causing it. Instead, focus on what you can do about it. \n\nProven Techniques for Lasting Longer\nProbably the most effective way of dealing with PE long term, and the treatment most commonly recommended by sexual experts, is using a method like the stop-start or pinch technique to slow down your reaction time once you get turned on. These methods have been devel
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stop-n-start\nJust before you'e about to ejaculate, stop yourself & relax for a few seconds before starting again.\nIf you're having sex, keep changing positions! Makes it exciting & you'll last longer as well!
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Some women can ejaculate. They are called squirters!!! I'm not a pro at this; because i'm a woman & i've never been with a woman, but I believe with the right stimulation to the g-spot and enough pressure the woman will ejaculate. Only a handful of women can do this and one reason is because a lot of women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. I hope this helped you a little bit :)
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Are you trying to get someone pregnant?\nIf so, You can stop wearing tighty-whiteys, keep your testicles at an even temp. this will help with sperm production. \nMake it whiter? That has to do with diet and overall health. \nEat more veggies and dont smoke or drink.\n\nIf you just want a bigger volume of ejaculate, then drink lots of water or juices, eat broccoli and dont masturbate so much.
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After you ejaculate, your not as "horny" as you were pre-ejaculation. So it's harder to attain a second erection. \n\nYour going to love the solution. Masterbate more. That's right. It increases the amount of semen you produce so you don't lose all of it in one ejaculation, thus it's easier to attain a second.
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Ejaculate is made of more than just sperm, and men who don't produce sperm can still produce ejaculate, so that isn't the problem.\n\nThe fluid in the semen is produced by the prostate gland, and ejaculation is accomplished when the fluid is expelled by muscular contractions.  It isn't likely that the fluid isn't being produced either.\n\nBehaviorally, difficulty ejaculating during intercourse might be due to an excess of m@sturbation (I can't believe the profanity filter blocks that out -- how childish).  There isn't anything wrong with that, it's just slightly inconvenient.  I've heard from sex therapists that this is pretty common, and he can be retrained to ejaculate during intercourse (though, I'm not going to offer any advice on how to do that, since I'm not an expert).
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if u already ejaculate once 30 mins ago... u need time to get the energy to ejaculate the second time... in other words the second ejaculation will sure take a longer time...
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Lack of control--it is not a common condition esp younger men and should be looked into by a family doctor. Could also be that the man is only concerned with himself( not true premature ejaculation) and not bothering to wait if woman or partner being satisfied.  Although some men may balk at seeing a doctor concerning this for feel embarrassed to admit this problem necessary to rule out it being related to a physical ailment that can easily be remedied but if my man had this problem my understanding would be limited and I'd insist he seek help for there is definite real help for this condition for not a permanent condition or else... .
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Try Kegels, they said Kegels exercises can control the ejaculation and make the Ejaculation stronger. \nThis can give you a stronger orgasm too. I give you two sites what tells you what kegels can do and how it works.\nTry it out.\nI tried zinc too, but not for this, but for muscle growth while bodybuilding. I took ZMA and in this sit 30 mg zinc a serving a day. I realized and even my wife did, that the amount of sperm was more. When i ejaculated my orgasm was much stronger and longer. Someone in gym told me that the amount of sperm can influence the orgasm, because the more go out,the longer it take, the stronger the feeling in the penis.\nDon't believe the pills, they all are way to expensive blends. \nThe only pills i would take(again) is zinc pills 30-50mg.\n\nMy friend tried taking Tribulus, L-ARGININE,L-LYSINE, L-CARNITINE, horny goat weed, Yohimbe.\nHis main reason was also muscle growth while going to gym, but he saw on Internet that most pills have those ingredients, so he ad the last 2 ingredients on top of the first 4 and tried it for 6 months. He said it did work, not super, but his penis got harder, more sperm, more power when he finished. My friend is 35 and they say that this ingredients are more useful to men over 30, when the testosterone start to drop. \nI'm not recommending this to do, but just tell you what a friend of my tried and experienced.\ngood luck