What should i do when i feel that i m loosing confidence about myself?
494783
Watch Forrest Gump...
619949
I was much like you, but I have gained alot of confidence by working out at a gym, playing tennis, taking aerobics, karate, going for a run...Any physical activity is good, it releases chemicals from the brain that help releave stress and make you feel better. Also,in public you could try helping someone less fortunate and giving compliments to people.
328183
hey just be confident and outgoing if u stay quiet n dont talk to ne body then ur just going to feel worse n idk wht ur situation is but take some advice from some one with the same feelings n stay positive n stop thinking of ur self as a loser
364464
they say you want to feel confident be confident. Fake it till you make it. In other words pick yourself up by the shirtsleeves and put yourself out there. Get over your fears and go on with life.
864082
As I get older I find that I tend to feel disappointed about all the missed opportunities in my life due to my lack of self confidence in some cases and due to my lack of self motivation in others.\nbitter and blameful no because i'm honest enough with myself to say that my failures are my own and now I have to suck it up and deal with my regrets and try to learn from not be destroyed by them
640843
The only thing I might be able to suggest is to become confident with yourself. How is your own self esteem? Are you able to gain a greater amount of confidence in yourself? Would you date yourself? If not, why not? Work on those things that you think you could change. If you can gain confidence in yourself, your insecurities might diminish, since you can see that you are worth dating. Not to mention, you might become less "needy", and also more trusting! (warning!!! Do NOT become OVER confident in yourself) Good luck!
242637
Start a physical program with a meditation component.  I would recommend yoga.  Breathe and do the yoga.  Do it several times a week.  This will change how you feel.  Knowing yourself through your body will increase your confidence.  Your body is what you take into the world with you.  Work on getting in touch with your body through movement practices.
664949
Sounds to me like you need friends who will encourage you and be confidence builders. You're going it alone and your shyness is holding you back and this is where good friends will step in and give you support. Reach out, make friends who will help you feel more secure about yourself. Some of us here list our emails and message links to be of help. Take advantage of this and the experience others may have that can offer you support and advice as friends should.\n\nBest Wishes!!
183222
time to stop feeling sorry for yourself...get a hobby, spend time with family and friends, catch up on the reading, balance the check book, do some volunteer work...work on YOU. You can't change your former's feelings.\ntime to move on.
365628
Build up self confidence by always believing in your self. Laugh at your self when you know you have made some stupid mistakes. Act a little more slowly in carrying out any activity. People will definitely see a different you. They may even rate you a genius. Good luck.
664446
yes you should. when you suppress what you feel, and not way to vent, your only hurting yourself. if you are scared, record yourself in a room and upload it online and see what people think. the most important thing though is how you feel about yourself. know who you are and then the confidence will shine through.
729535
Confidence in yourself is good ,cockiness will get you shot down .You need to be put in your place
975676
just keep your chin up and shoulders back. It will make you appear more confident
640332
well as long as you play safe! you can make some good friends that will boost your confidence and help you face the doubts you may have about dating again! good luck!
31512
Love yourself. Give yourself the freedom to express yourself as yourself. "To thine own self be true" as Shakespeare said. When you start to feel insecure remind yourself that everyone is unique and different and that other people may be feeling equally insecure.
79251
Fotunately it will pass. The rediculous social structures self imposed on young adults tend to produce this feeling of self doubt. It is normal. You can overcome it by bettering yourself. Educate yourself in the ares that interest you. Gain confidence through experience. Try things that are out of your comfort zone. Only by getting to know what you're capable of do you know what your self worth should be. Confidence is a hard thing to know if your life is confined to such small circles. Don't fret the current paranoia you're going through. Many people around you who may have it all together now may crash and burn one day. You want your best days to be ahead of you, and not to be in  the "glory days" when you're 18. Life is long. You should always strive for self improvement. Do that and one day you'll realize that somewhere along the line you develope a healthy self respect...
337665
you are who you are..and you can't be everyone else..accept yourself for who you are..and remember that you're not the only one that feels shy when they walk down the street..etc...and just love yourself..so that others can love you too..and believe in yourself..and say to yourself..if i dont love my self..noone will love me...and if they don't love me..who cares...i love myself.