how do i cope without a job, i have tried everything to get one,but i can't?
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Some things to keep in mind.  The national average for person between jobs is eight months.  I tell you that b/c you have to be patient with the process.  Make finding a job your full time job.  And if it has been longer than that, you will want to look at what you are doing.  Are you using all your tools to find work:  internet, places you've worked before, networking - friends, family, the newspaper, phone book?  Do you have a resume or work history put together to help you fill out applications accurately?  If you have a resume, have you been keeping track of how many resumes to interviews you've had?  For example, if you have sent out twenty resumes and only got one interview, then something is not right with your resume.  Have someone review it.  In the mean time, work on your attitude.  If you have a defeatist attitude, it's not going to help you when you do get those interviews.  No matter how insurmountable the process seems, you have to remain optimistic.
680242
You should be looking for a job rather then be on the computer looking for people to just hand you down money.  I understand that your in a bad situation...but there are things that you could/should be doing.  \n\nTry this site post something there and see if you get anything given to you.\n\nwww.craigslist.org\n\nJust find your city and you can post there.
643590
Aravinda, it is hard even to get a job and much harder to get one that is of your desire.  Get the priorities first.  You need a job to cover your basic needs and hopefully pay for some improvement in your education so you have a chance to move on in your career.  Do a good job in whatever you are working and soon you will be noticed and maybe will be given a better opportunity.  When we don t have money the best investment is in our education.  Try to learn something that is important in your area.  Have faith.
842884
First of all keep your head up. You've got to believe in yourself. Get a basic low paying job to start. Find a true friend who can put you up temporarily and work your way up. Your drive and desire will pull you through. God bless you.
432354
I know it sucks, but try to make youself stay until you find something else. It is easier to find a job when you already have one. Employers see that you have a job so they know you are responsible and just wanting to improve yourself by learning a new job and moving up.I hate my job too. If I let it, it really makes me miserable. While you are still at the bad job focus on doing things outside of work that make you happy.\n Good Luck.
570493
I hate to say this, but it's still WHO you know more than WHAT you know. I was in a similar situation 8 months ago. After much searching and self-pity, I swallowed my pride and started to put the word out among friends and former business associates that I was out of work and looking. \n\nThe hardest part was admitting to former associates (customers, competitors, etc) that I was without a job. Once I overcame that, I was able to start talking freely with people. I got a job 2 months later with a former competitor and it's been the best career move of my life.\n\nI know it's hard for working guys to be without a job. Jobs give us our identity. Guys who meet for the first time always ask, "So what do you do?" This is why we go nuts when we can't find a job.\n\nMy suggestion is you start putting the word out among your friends, family, clubs, church, and with anyone else who knows you personally and who would be willing to give you a try, or at least vouch for you. Network, network, network. Don't be false or pretentious, but honestly tell people what your situation is. \n\nI don't remember the exact number, but I recently read somewhere that something like 80 or 90% of all jobs are still handed out through the "good ol' boy" network. That's not a bad thing. It only means that you're more likely to get hired if the person doing the hiring knows you or hears good things about you from what he/she considers a reliable source.\n\nHope that helps! Best wishes!
528832
I don't have a occupation but boy am i looking hard for a job
1122100
Patience is the key, learn to carry yourself very well before the employer. \n\nChoose and apply for the right job, do some initial homework about the company and the job profile you plan to apply for. \n\nGod is with you, everything should go on smooth,.\n\nAll the best pal!
270473
Sorry for your situation.  Try a shelter temporarily and the shelter will probably have some additional resources for you for the long term.  I also like the idea of getting welfare until you can get yourself back on your feet.
173967
Try volunteering yourself part-time somewhere. Yes, it would suck not getting paid, but you'd gain experience and garner a good reference.
562990
I think your out of luck ,  go out and get a job
258607
The first thing you need to decide is what interests you and what you want to do.  Then, don't look for a job.  Look for a career.  Employers are going to be reluctant to hire anyone who does not have a career focus and will not work to their fullest..
510405
Best way to get a job is through connections. Thats what it is all about.  Got any family? cause if you cant rely on others for connections, you have to make your own.  Now, you can't just go out there asking for help, you have to go out there and try to help others, ask the person who you want to be employed by "What can I do to  help you out?"  Then he/she will owe you.  Make friends out of people in the business.  Might take a while but you will not be out of a job for a long while.\nGood luck
824515
This probably isn't the answer you really want to hear but it's the one that will likely help you best if you listen. I went through a similiar situation, not caring for a child just couldn't get a job after getting laid off. It was my attitude. More specifically it was my happiness. It sounds like you are not happy. Do what you got to do to get happy and you will have no problem finding a job and keeping it.
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You should always be honest. I also recommend that you check with different organinzations on help obtaining employment. There are classes you can take on completing applications, conducting a succesful interview, etc. You might want to also think about going back to school and make long term goals for yourself.
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If it were me, I would look for another job but keep this one until I found something else.  It is always easier to find a job when you have a job.\n\nDo what you can to educate yourself (like taking training classes on weekends and in your spare time) and don't settle for something just to get away.  Take your time and find the perfect job.  Since you have a job, you are in no hurry.  Just take your time and be very selective.\n\nGood luck.
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Since you HAVE a job, that's a good thing.  In order to remove the stress take steps to put yourself into a position that will get you out of there.  \n\nUpdate your resume.\n\nPost your resume on job sites\n\nRespond to some online job ads\n\nIn otherwords, take steps to get yourself a new job.  I guarantee that you'll feel better -- even if you dont land something right away.