Should I email a girl this "pity you can't come because it's always more fun to have a female companion around
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Maybe ammend it to 'Pity you can't come because its always more fun to have YOU around'. Make it more about her and not so clinical.
159377
I am a guy, and I am single, but:should I mail you? Why would I do that?
1149986
Honestly, just ask them. If you sneak around to get it, it may kill any affection the other person has for you. I wouldnt want someone emailing me if I didnt give them my address.
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It seems a little tacky to me.  If I were you, I'd make contact with her and ask her out in person.  If you don't have much contact with her she may not have a good idea about who you are and an email may seem strange to her.  The personal touch is always better.  Don't be so shy.  The worst thing she can do is say "no" and the world won't end if she does.
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You should just pull her aside by herself and be very honest with her.  If you don't, you are going to have a lot of unnecessary drama and I'm assuming that that's probably the last thing that you need or want on your birthday.  She will probably get her feelings hurt (think about how you would feel) but she will probably appreciate it a lot more coming from you instead of someone else.  Heard of the game telephone?  By the time it gets back to her it may become a situation that is totally blown out of proportion.  If she is a close friend of yours, I do like the idea of going out with her seperately, maybe with a couple other friends without the guy that way you can have the best of both worlds.  Good luck!!!
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First of all...that was very thoughtful of you to approach her with a gift on her Birthday (how sweet!). I think that her e-mail's are flirtations back at you and you should proceed with perhaps a lunch invitation and see how things go from there! Good luck! you sound like a really nice and thoughtful guy!
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buddy, i know that you listened to me on the other question...so i'm guessing you probably trust me, right? i want to tell you that you aren't going to find happiness in a chick. write me and i'll talk to you more about what i think, K?
214061
Don't write. appoach her directly or call her up. email is too impersonal.
921088
that suck i am so sorry. here my email address keep in touch with me and i promise i will cheer you up!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
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Hang in there buddy, there could be many reasons she hasn't responded yet.  She may not have gone into her email, it may have gotten lost in cyberspace, you may have put  a wrong address, she may have a spam system on her mail that just kicked you to the spam file.  There is also the thought that she is thinking how best to respond to you, she may be busy and hasn't had time to sit down and respond to it.  Give her a few days, if she hasn't responded by then, I suggest what you should have done in the first place...tell her face to face or at least over the phone.  That is much more personal than an email for this kind of thing.  Expressing your feelings is good, it is a sign of maturity, especially for men!  Tell her what you said in the letter basically and see how she feels about that.  Don't get down on yourself, at least you are trying....many people are too scared to even try!  Nothing ventured, nothing gained..you had nothing to lose and everything to gain!  I hope this helps a bit, and good luck with her...hope it all works out for the best!
665120
You might want to ask a friend to intervene and let the person you want to go with that she was not a backup but somebody you thought you could have fun with. Good luck.
951002
sounds a bit unfair\nyou should tell her how you feel.  tell her you feel left out and that you really like it.
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That dude Chris is right, if anything absence makes the heart grow fonder, and she'll come to you, if not, being a pathetic sack of crap, and crying around her all day will not make the situation better.  Distract yourself and move on... I would suggest booze in the distraction department.
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Really its sort of getting out of hand,have a chat with your mate,sort of bring up the girl in a none committal way,if she is just a casual thing to him let him know you could really go for her,but don't want to upset any one,if you don't find out that way,call it a day with happy memories
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Tell her to find someone more available/accessable.
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tell her you are going through something right now and thank her also try keeping her as a friend later on you may like her and you'll want to have her there at your side.
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don't worry. if you feel sorry for your girl, i can satisfy her.