we met online and we met hes older wat 2 do i realli lik him?
475828
Does he wish to go out with you?  If yes, that is one less thing you have to consider.\n\nAge is DEFINATELY just a number, though if you are not of legal age in your country and he is, please stop all contact with him or stay only friends because he could get in trouble for being with a minor.  \n\nAnother thing is... Please use caution with being online.  I honestly cannot stess enough the stories I have heard of people who have pretended to be someone they are not, people who try to take advantage of others in illegal or hurtful ways, and all of this stuff. If you take your relationship into offline life make sure that you do the following:  tell your friends about this person (including his name, where he is from and all of that) make sure that if you do meet you do so in a public place with other people around and take a friend with you, if you are in a position to do a background check on him do so, and the rest of the necessary things to keep you safe.  I am NOT saying all people online are predators, some are very nice people and I met my future husband in a Yahoo! Chatroom but I also used very reasonable precautions when going forward with meeting with him and such.\n\nIf you both like eachother and are both of legal age, go for it; a wonderful, trusting relationship is a rare find and sometimes you have to take it where you can get it.  Just try not to pay attention to what people say about finding someone off the internet.  Though, if you feel there is something wrong in your relationship at anytime, look into it... don't dismiss anything.
303528
The first thing is settle for friendship when he does get here. People can be pretty decieving when you meet them in real life. Secondly, you heard he had a gf but it may not be true. Just casually try to find out if he does or not. Having a new father figure in a kid's life can be hard, but he's still at a young age. Just make him get to know the person first, it's always easier that way. Like if you guys go to the park or out for a dinner together. Plus, it's also a nice way to find out how he treats your kid. just take it a day at a time. good luck:)
1165192
You have the answer in your headline. The fact is, you do want to try the whole relationship thing again. It would help if we knew how long the two of you have been seeing each other, then again, it almost sounds like its a very new relationship. If it is a new relationship, then get to know him without revealing too much about your past hurts. If you really like this guy, get to know him without worrying about how it might end. Go into with an open mind and see where it goes. If you do not give yourself the opportunity to get to know someone first, without judging from what's happened in your past, you'll never find out if he's the right one for you. Life's too short, you never know when the love of your life will stand before you. Build walls and he will never find his way to your heart.
641725
Sounds like a delimma...Do what is in your heart.  You can date the new guy while keeping in contact with the old guy.  Just be honest about things.  Sometimes you really like people at first but it fades.  My man I met when I was 13 it was long distance.  We finally hooked up when I was 19 and have been together 16 years.. good luck.  There is no wrong choice
566825
umm..ive met my 1st bf online..then i met him..and we had a relationshop for 2 years..then i moved then we broke up..but after that i had another relationship online wit a guy(which is still going on!)..and i think its possible..as long as u r careful and aware of wut u r doing..but i think they are good..so..BONNE CHANCE!! ;)
305798
I would be extra careful. Meeting people online can be dangerous, cuz you never really know who your talking to. if you do go and meet him, don't go alone, make sure someone knows where your going and give them a number to get in contact with you. 3 months isn't very long. \nJust be extra careful
353703
dunno do you want to meet him \n\nwho is he\n\nif this a date check him out to make sure how old he is \n\ndont know how old you are so check with a friend if you are young and meet him with a friend in a public place\n\nthats if you want to meet him\n\nif you dont just tell him your mot interested
743671
first off you dont seem like you are of legal age. second, if you are over 18 it is alright to pursue him but be careful about setting up meetings. Go to public places and you could also invite people you know to come with you
629057
The older the man is the better for you because women tend to look older than men especially after giving birth. So dont worry about that guy being 3 years older, in fact up to 10 years older, it still ok but not more than that. Meanwhile, let him make the first move, inviting you out for a first date. Then you see how things will work out. You both have yet to know about each other better than to just plunge deeply into a relationship. You should try and know about his past. He may have certain weaknessess you may not know off. So just go slow and takes things slowly. If hes willed to be with you, he will be, otherwise you just like chasing in the wind. May God Bless you with the will to decide wisely to pursue the relationship with him.
989249
Get a hobbie. Make new friends. Do what you did before you met him. Don't waste so much time on him. By all means, move on. Who's to say that you might not meet someone better tomorrow?
63078
first, how old are both of you? and are you talking online? ive met a few ppl thhat i talk to online, one is now my fiance,we met playing yahoo pool,so i say if your not to young, give it a cpl of months then meet in person, good luck
105233
You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )
347520
Dont be fool by givin him a chance like that..First find out his details and be sure of his privacy..May be he is a play boy..^ may be he gots lot of guls like u on messenger...Nowadays its very hard 2 believe someone like that..One of my friend also had a bad time with an online love..Beware of them p/z ..best of luck
676503
yea..i met my ex online, then i saw him and we dated for 2 years
962077
Keep looking at him, i guess. Or ask him for his email and you could chat online privately. Good luck.
1160663
Think about it first, girl. Do you really know him? I don't mean just.. his name, favorite color, occupation, etc. I mean really.. know him. If you don't, get to know him more. Ask him more questions. He shouldn't blame you, since you barely know him. I'm pretty sure he'd like to know you more too, since it's really hard to trust people over the internet these days. Take a while before you actually get to meet this guy. Actually know him.
420808
Is there any chance of you actually meeting? Why dont you meet in person first and see how it goes from there? 3 years is no big deal. Girls are usually more mature anyway   :)