what should i write to my ex boyfriend?
485938
Get someone to take a photo of you being done from behind by a big stud.Send your ex the photo and write on the back that you are with a real man now.
796569
why not send him a card and in the card let me know how you feel - if you are truly sorry - and want him back in your life - tell him this - let him know that this was the very thing he had to do to you to make you grow up and respect him.  but, remember, you really have to mean these words, you just can go back to your old ways with him - because the NEXT time, (if he forgives you, and, i think he will) he may not change his mind.   you can just get so many chances - until the person you are hurting, gives up on you. so hold true to your word to him, if you go with this idea. i wish you well.
956246
Remember, people are ALWAYS communicating with you, even if it is non-verbal.  Right now he's saying that the pain of confrontation and admitting his bad behavior is more painful than trying to repair your relationship.  You have offered to try to repair it through your attempts to contact him.  Now it's time to let it go.  Big talker, right?  I didn't say it was going to be easy, or pain-free, it just has to be done for your own sake.  And believe me, you don't want to feel like you don't give a damn, that would be denying your feelings, your trust in your relationship, and your broken heart.  I'm going to tell you to do something that is going to sound dorky, but I really want you to try it (what do you have to lose?)  Write him a letter.  Say everything you want to say about how you feel, how hurt you are, how angry you are, call him names.  End the letter by saying goodbye and saying how much you will miss the relationship you had.  You will never send this letter.  After you've written it, read it once, then rip it up and throw it away.  I promise you this will help.  You will still hurt, but please do this and you will feel better.  You need closure, and since he's not giving it to you, give it to yourself.  Let me know how it goes.
32950
The most important - DON'T PUSH HIM. If you are still in touch, recall from time to time some nice or funny moments you had together, do the things he used to like. Be aware of the reasons why did you break up and try to overcome it. Let him feel that you both can handle it, but be honest and really do that. Good luck!
409177
you should tell the person you're with now your true feelings, that you love him, you care for him, and love him.. but you still have feelings for your ex... tell him that you're sorry, and didn't want to hurt you.. but he's gonna hurt more if you stayed dishonest to him.. tell him that he'll find the right "one" for him, and you're not the "one" for him.. and when you've done that.. maybe now you can work things out with your ex! tell him that you still have feelings for him, and that you couldn't stop thinkin bout him! =)
653716
I think that just proving to him that he's the best guy for you and that you truly love him and want to be with him is good enough. Explain to him why you broke it off, meaning the truth, then tell him that you are happy to have him back because you love him. And leave it at that. You don't want to sound too giddy.
974030
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
437596
you and my girlfriend have something in common. She knows what it is like to be in your shoes. Her one time friend was my ex-girfriend. After my ex and I split up a year after, I began seeing the girl i am with now. we have been together for almost a year now. I posted a question on this subject a while back. \nto answer your question... I think a letter is a good way to start. If you were to approach her, pride might keep her from listening to what you have to say with open arms. If you send her a letter, she can read what you feel in privacy... without having to be forced to control her emotions and her curiousity will allow you to get everything out to her. Then its up to her of course.
1068811
Contact a local law firm and ask them to write a letter on your behalf to your former partner. I have found that the implied threat of legal action is generally low cost and sufficient to get action.\n\nBest of success.
35420
Write him a letter, telling him everything. The truth will save you, and probably make him feel better. He's trying to make you feel bad, and he's trying to let you know he's mad. Mail him the letter.  Letters are great, because it's almost always easier to write something to someone,than to say it to their face, plus,how can he avoid the letter?
264511
just be completely honest with your feelings. It will hurt him either way.\n\nDon't lead him on thinking that nothing will change and that you guys will still be friends, because thats what my ex did when she broke up with me, and it hurt a lot, but it hurts even still today because I still am hoping that what she told me was true, that we are still friends and that I can still talk to her, but its not.  however when she told me I couldn't ever loose hope.  I miss her a lot, and I still love her, and having to hold onto something that I know isn't true hurts the most\n\nSo just be 100% honest, don't try to make him feel better about the situation, because it just makes it that much harder in the future.
314970
all of the things that youu have left over from the relationship, (hats, clothes, pictures etc.) put them away in a box and write a letter to yourself, and then to your ex- telling her that you love her, and that you have to let her go. then put the letters in the box, and put the box away in a closet, or something. only look at it once a month, after a while it doesn't hurt anymore. you still love the person, but most of the times you'll figure that if you were meant to be together than it will happen again.
726141
Sophie ;-P\nDon't worry... you have brought memories back that you have no control over. Just be yourself... happy, outgoing, and loveable. \nLet the people judge for themselves the person you really are. Beside your ex told his side of the story... remember there's always two side to every story. Be honest and truthful and I assure you that things will work out just find.\nAs for you question about seeing him... show that you have mature and move on the bigger and better things. Be the one that can handle any situation... "What was in the past, Stay in the past"\n@--- Always Keep Love in Your Heart ----@
607064
Get over him.  Get out.  Good riddance.  There was a reason your broke up in the first place.  Remember that.
823387
Well then just be honest with the guy.  Inform him that you really enjoyed your time with him and that he is very much a gentleman etc, but that you have to find out for yourself if there is anything left between you and your ex.
644343
I would ask for a stronger defination of your relationship.\n\nFlip the tables back on her. How would she feel if you were still in contact with your ex?\n\nHer answer dictates your next step.
602550
get out and do things with friends/family. \n\ngo to different places than you used to go with your ex.\n\ngood luck. \n\ntime heals.