Classmate Is Copying My Style & Trying To Be My Friend...But I Don't Like Her!!! HELP!?
484309
Ive had the same problem. The way I would handle it would be to tell her as it is. Just say "listen, im not tryin to be mean just please let me have my space, stop copiing my style and get your own please" And walk away.
227061
Sounds like she is trying to be you.  She definitely isn't worth being your friend, but I don't know about picking a physical fight---just seems like a bad idea, especially if she could press charges.
829545
O ITS ON GRLFRIEND! jst ignore her, its not like she'll care. i know how u feel i knda had that kinda experience 2. jst ignore her & if she calls u bk, thn jst say wut? & jst gve her dirty looks. i mean if  she really was ur friend u wouldn't b so annoyed & h8 hert hat much
142540
Tell your friend that it looks like she wants to go a different way in her friendships and that you don't have much choice but to watch her go.  Let her know you're there for her if she needs a friend but not to bring any hate or meanness to the table when she does, to leave it with the hater she's wanting to hang with now.  It's tough to watch a pal go off in a direction you think is hurtful, KNOW is hurtful.  Part of growing is discovering what you're really about though and there's something in this new friendship that she's trying to find in herself.  There may also be an emerging masochistic nature to your friend that she's not shared with you before and this new friendship may be REALLY appealing in a way you can't relate to.  My guess is that if you give her space, she'll remember who she is and what she's about and reconnect with you.  If not then you need to understand that there are an awful lot of people out there who don't have the courage of their own convictions and are wildly uncomfortable with who they are.  You sound totally grounded but I get the sense that your friend isn't.
226104
This friend is not a real friend, they're not mean with each other. But there's nothing wrong with your friend (or you, even,) being nice to teachers, if you're nice to them they generally respond similarly. Don't creep though, they will usually despise you for it. \n\nIgnore your 'friend', I'm sure you must have others who are a lot nicer.
867846
From what I can decipher from your writing, you seem like a well-spoken, educated, sympathetic individual.  Though you seem to care greatly about what this 'friend' thinks, she doesn't seem to care that much about your feelings.  'Bluntly' exclaiming that half the school dislikes you is a gross exaggeration and extremely rude.  Try to distance yourself from her as she isn’t offering constructive support.\n\nI think everyone on this earth can be annoying at times.  Improving yourself is great, but try not to be too hard on yourself!  I'm in college too, and I find that it's hard to make close, lasting friendships.  Don't be discouraged.  Try joining clubs that interest you.  There, you'll find other people with similar interests, and that makes it really easy to talk to them.  You could also do an on-campus work-study where you interact with all kinds college people.\n\nBut if you still think you want more social help, try the self-help section at any large bookstore.  There are tons of information out there.  Believe me, you're not the only one who has troubles about this kind of stuff; I know all too well but this kind of stress.  \n\nAs for a personal suggestion, I tend to imitate people I admire.  I note how they act or react in particular situations and I end up trying it myself.  I, also, do "small talk".  Just by asking general questions like ("what are you majoring in" or "own any pets") I try to find their interests and look interested at the same time.\n\nHope this helps!
655302
Oh God, it seems we all have friends like this. Don't you just wanna punch her? Anyway, you can't act like it bothers you, 'cause she'll get some major satisfaction. Even if you feel like you wanna roundhouse kick her like Chuck Norris, stay calm. Remember, you've got more class than she does. \n\nHopefully, it'll work out where he guy won't pay attention to her. Be sugary-nice - eventually her fakeness will come out. Mean girls never win. =]
679575
your idea is totally genius! I always say... kill them with kindness! It will annoy her that you are being really nice to her, and when she realizes that you aren't upset when she's rude to you, she'll get bored and start to ignore you. Most likely she'll entirely move on to someone else (to annoy) good luck! This method has worked for me MANY MAnY times!
898115
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
682420
I have a friend that acts like a prep and dresses like one too. But believe me, she doesn't pull it off very well. I just ignore her or glare sometimes. Not in a mean way though. Just telling her that she needs to chill and just be herself. I don't blame my friend, but the people she's hanging out with. One can sorta pull off the prep look and the other can, so that's why she's trying it. But if she continues, I'm just gonna say "Guess you wanna be someone your not and I'm not cool with that." then see how she reacts.
1111183
hey i have tha same problem... i bugs me really bad.. just talk to that persona and say hey.. i dont wanna be anything more than friends..  *GL
434941
This stuff happens all of the time.  What you should do is plan things with other friends.  I know you guys are "best" friends, but hopefully you have some other friends.  I'm in a similar situation, but what I do is be as nice as I can be to that other girl and if she's not nice to me, then there's really no excuse and you can hate her justifiably.  Try to keep dates with Blaire that are only the two of you and just say that Krysta isn't very nice to you and you don't understand why because you've been trying to be her friend.  If you're in high school or younger, then it's a really hard situation and I'm sorry, I know it hurts.  You'll be ok though.
259183
I would say that was no friend to start out with. This person wants to be popular and will do whatever it takes. I would confront her and tell her your true feelings then go from there.
742444
just tell her u wanna be friend and ask her to stop talking to her like that cause ur not interested in her like that she should get the message as long as ur polite about it
561362
yea you should anyone who treats you like that is not a real ture friend  reminds of a friend i used to have I HATE HER!!!!
1109569
I would personally address this ex friend of yours and let her know that you are fine with the situation, and her cowering in the other room could make others uncomfortable, not to mention...it does make her look a little childish.  Hopefully that should resolve that particular problem, and if this is the way she acts, then I can see why she is your ex friend.
656994
well for one you should not hate anyone that is the main problem in this world that is what we are killing each other over....but since you DISLIKE this girl be honest and if the reason you dislike her so is true then your friend should listen