I'm in love.  She's on a trip to wyoming and i'm wondering if our past will affect my chances with her.
490466
Just take it one step at a time.  Does she know you love her yet?  If not, tell her you know you've made some mistakes but you have a great time with her, and you'd be honored to take her to the prom.\n\nIf she does know your feelings, now is the time to reiterate them when you ask her to the prom.  \n\nGood luck!
1012969
Personally, I think that anything would be possible if two people were in love or really wanted to.. As long you both take your occassional trips together, I believe it would be healthy!! Having faith and trust and communication will play a huge part too..
890795
my relationship is an 8 hour drIve away no planes/trains and although she is far she is still close but then i guess it depends on the people and their values, i know where my heart lies and i trust my partner so it has made me fonder, every time i see her it feels like ive been born again im so refreshed
988302
If she truly loves you-she won't.  You stated that you love her alot and as long as she feels that and you have been honest with her who cares.  Life is too short and when you find someone you love-let go of judgement and hold on tight to love.  People that are secure and confident might actually find your past adventure a turn on.
700981
When you meet the one you know it, period, you just know it. There is no way to describe how you'd know, you just do. If you seriously feel this strongly about her then yes, tell her. It'd be a shame to look back in 30 or 40 yrs and have regrets for letting the 'one' get away.....tell her.\n\nGood luck!
400181
If I had been hinting about it, and then he drove out to see me it would make me really happy. go see her!!!!
1165044
I think it is great to explore your options and see who is out there. If you feel like flirting...go ahead and explore...my feeling is if you don't want to get attatched...don't sleep with anyone one the trip...you may find the love of your life! Hope you have a great time! MayMay
304218
maybe she sees you as a really great friend and someone that she likes to spend time with. i don't see the problem here. you love her, she wants to spend time with you, and dude, you will be in Scotland! She obviously enjoys you're company, which is a great start to winning her over. spending more time together will show her that you are the one she should be with or show you that maybe she's not what you thought. it's a no brainer man, go with her.
138531
Explain to her that you love her and if you could change the past, you would. Good luck!
44188
i really feel you, i just experienced the same ordeal.she didnt go to another country, but she was only 2 hours away.i can tell you that alot of times long distant relations dont work, or at least they havent worked for me.
7829
Unless you have a very distorted sense of reality (your track record should tell you whether you do or not), then I would say yes.  If you feel loved, then chances are you are receiving, and being loved.  Cherish it!  :)
167610
Is it really love? Or is it more of a comfront blanket type situation? I mean, I know there are probably still sparks there but is it really worth it to travel across country to find out that maybe, just maybe your feelings aren't all that strong as you thought? All I can say- is do what's in your heart and what feels right... Because then you'll always ask the "What if's?" and if you really love himm- then you'll have no regrets one way or another!
321298
as she's ur friend, u may be already sharing some common interests, so take her to places were u had enjpoyed a lot earlier, to remember ur past...
485504
Awww that's so sweet. sounds like love to me!! good luck to you in your relationship.
814220
I'm thinking he brings you happiness as well. I think what you should  do is pack all your things, and go to Oklahoma with him. This could be a one in a lifetime opportunity for you as well, so I suggest you take full advantage of it. Good Luck.
580826
Man you need help!!get it now before you hurt her. what happened to love? You must have loved her to marry her.I'm not for divorce but in your case I think she should run for the border.
477088
You should definitely e-mail her more often... And if you are in love with her, as you say, then you should plan a vacation trip with her sometime in the summer, you know, to meet her and see what she's like in person...