I need help I am confused with my know ex girl friend?
493245
She lied, but that doesn't mean she doesn't care for you, my friend/girl hardly speaks to me in public,lol. But when it's just us she does, and that's what lets me know she cares.Good luck:)
1164684
Guess she thought you were way too good for her or maybe she was cheating on you and you didn't know about it or she went back to her ex. Could be any of these... if you really want to know your answer than get a hold of her and ask her why did she treat you like this... u certainly did not deserve this! and now you do deserve to know the answer... ask her rather than assuming stuff!
1147318
get a new friend, she didnt value you as her friend and disrespected your friendship by sleeping with your ex, a true friend would have respected your feelings and not have done it....
511712
There's not much you can do.  If you tell her, you risk the chance that she'll think you want to get back together.  Are you really sure your not just being paranoid?  Not everyone plans their life around their enemies.  If you really have proof, just go up to her and ask her if the other guy is what she really wants. hope it goes well.
171468
I agree with skull22, why are you giving her anything if she is your ex, please add some more information please.
598580
step back. tell her that you don't want to play games, because that's what she's doing.\n\nif you are ex's, then the feelings you are having now may be just because you feel like you are getting a second chance at something that didn't work before. think about why it didn't work out before. maybe you don't want to be with her afterall.\n\nthink about what she's doing now. it sounds like she's trying to play you and her "ex/current/who knows" boyfriend. sounds like she wants it all. or the opposite, she doesn't know what she wants, and that's why you are getting mixed messages.\n\nbreak up with her for now, until she figures out what she wants and she can stick to it. if she wants to be with you, then she ought to cut ties completely with her "ex/current/who knows" boyfriend. don't let yourself be in this relationship as it is now, because it's not good for you.
614342
Well, first of all she's not your girl anymore. You've both had people in your lives after the break up which is fine. You weren't together and you both had someone else. She has no right to be mad at you if she is.\n\nIf she says that it doesn't matter whether or not you want to be with her then that's probably the truth. You need to both tell her and show her how you feel and than see what she has to say.\n\nI'm sorry to be harsh. I am a very blunt person. I wish you the best of luck.
365324
What makes you so sure the friend miss understood? if you said exactly what you said in your question I don't see how she Miss understood! The first thing I would do is confront her and ask her why she did what she did. Whether she mis understood or not. Seems he likes to cause trouble. If he won't talk to you write him a letter explaining exactly what happened,(Don't ask him to forgive you because you did nothing wrong!)Ask him how the two of you can resolve the issue,you miss the friendship you once shared. Leave it at that,see if he comes around if not try your best to move on without his friendship. After 2 yrs of friendship and he really considered you a real friend he'd try to work it out.  Good Luck!!!
638727
If your ex girl friend was not in love with you then you treat her just a normal friend but if ther have been love between you both then getting back being friends is difficult. Give the best to your present girl friend because she is your present. Don't loose her because then you will have problems so keep your life hassel free
367632
Okay, here it is: You and your girlfriend got to be close to each other while you were together, I'm sure you know a lot more about her now than most people and she knows much about you. You had fun with her and you enjoy her company. If so, then yes, by all means, stay friends with her. If you don't enjoy her company and actually dislike her, then no, avoid her but still be nice to her. Just figure out her as a friend, not just as an ex.
574317
ugh baby you are in the wrong soup.sweetheart take a break from her & meet new gals without any extra baggage.well if she is so indecisive she'll keep going back to her ex.at the moment she is having fun with you as well as her ex n these exes never disappear from the present dating scene.they keep popping up.just chill & staying friends will hurt all the more as you had thought of being more than frnds & her ex'll also pinch you alot.you should really dump her coz she's not worth a dime.let the time pass by while you continue moving with it which'll help you heal better....\nTAKE CARE & GOOD LUCK!!!
517594
You may be reading too much into what is not? I have heard and seen break ups that do not lead into problems. Then again there are people who always want what they cannot have. You want to be careful with this situation make sure she wants you back so your pride don't get hurt. Another thing you could do is flirt with her the same way she is flirting with you.
125010
Well the next step it seems to me, is to just come out and ask her.\n\nMy friend, if she is continuing to go out with you she may be feeling the same way or already know that you want her back. But you should still ask to be certain.\n\nWhat is the worst she can say? There can be only two answers to a question like that and one of them is the one you are longing to hear.\n\nSo suck in your pride and ask her.
820576
If she broke up with the guy for sure, and if you are not close friends with him, you can tell her you like her.  But understand that right now she is on the rebound, and not really ready for a new boyfriend.  Even if she thinks she is.  But you can start spending time with her if she is willing, and maybe something will develop from it.
938175
You should definitely give her some time because she just broke up with her boyfriend.  There is still a possiblity that they might get back together.  Also, you do not want to be her rebound guy because rebounders never last long.  Just be a friend to her and let her know she can call you if she needs to talk.  But take it from me, I'm a female.  You do not want to pressure her or else it will turn her off of you.  Give her time.
1101366
wait a sec...u dint tell me tht u got commited so bad of u.. u dint tell to ur friend anyway just tell ur ex gf tht u hav got commited n tell her to stop all these things n also tell her tht u r not interested in her any more
594923
IT sounds like this girl broke up with you and may be regreetting it, but due to peer pressure she cant talk to you. I know it may be hard but either say hello to her or just ignore her completly make sure she knows that you are still into her. \n\nGood luck