Why is your boyfiends friend an asshole?
490755
Im single so I cant really say..lol
506085
u better bitchslap ure friend. shoot. omg. i hate girls that bring drama. even if she hates the guy she should be there for u. she aint a true friend.
292756
i had a friend like that. its a form of jealousy. they want what they can't have so they try to take what you have. or maybe she had a self-esteem issue.
840386
He's jealous and probably retaliating and pulling away from you b/c of your "guy friends". No man buys the "we're just friends" bit  b/c they always try to read too much into it. Now, if your guy friends are gay they'll tell you to your face what I'm saying now: dump the dude and go for grade 6 tall, dark,handsome & bashful.
734806
Remember, you are the company you keep.  Who your boyfriend chooses as his friends says something very important about who he is and what he values. If his friends are rude and abusive to you, that does not bode well for the character of your boyfriend.  At the very least, you should talk to your boyfriend about what they have said to you and give him a chance to explain and make his friends change their behavior to you.  Good luck.
123863
Because some guys are complete assholes. And they think they are  better. So if they cheat just hit them hard or were it will really hurt, if you catch my meaning. \n\nThinks for answering my questions sarah
826023
well trying telling your sisteer whyyou think he is a asshole then let her think if this is what she wants in a boyfriend or tell your b/f to setthem up but thn if you don,t say anything she might get mad at ou if i was you i would just give it up and let her do it herself all the best
1007310
Oh, I know how that is...Non of my friends like my boyfriend and several have tried to break us up...that just pisses me off cause its my choice to be with this man...not my friends. One of my friends doesn't like him but told me she would be there for me even if she didn't like my choice in the man I was with...thats a real friend.
730587
i understand exactly what you mean. i had a boyfriend like who did that all the time. he was very like-able and had incredible charisma, which was one of the things that attracted me to him. however there would be time where he would safe cruel and offensive things about other people. i asked him why he did that and he said he was only joking around. personally i think it's insecurity of themselves. it could also be the need for attention, if he does it in front of other people or maybe he is just a jerk. if i were you i would see if the bad stuff outweigh the good. if it does than go ahead and look for better pasture, that what i did, cuz like you said changing them doesn't work!!\n\ngood luck!!
793916
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
454646
your boyfriend sucks...you are never supposed to stand a beautiful woman like yourself up to go hang out with your "boys"...you tell him for me that there are a lot of men out here that would love to be with you , and we wouldn't stand you up...
416677
i agree with you, most guys need to get some things straight.  although i disagree with you on the decent guys being taken.  i have quite a few friends who are decent guys and they are upset that all the decent girls are with these pathetic guys that you mention.  guys nowadays think it's perfectly fine to treat other people like crap.  they care only for themselves, so if a girl dumps them for being rude or unkind, they shrug it off and try to find someone else.
211919
This is a common problem that people should really just get over.  Shouldn't you be happy for your friend or even your ex.  Seems real immature to hold a grudge like that.  I say, if you really like the friend, blow off your ex or tell him to suck it up and deal.
1054581
He has an insecurity complex. He's hoping if he focuses all his attention on her that she will never leave him. Most of the time this behavior 'smothers' the other person & it backfires on them. It has nothing to do with you personally. It is his own insecurity. Just let it run it's course & when he comes to you bummed after she dumps him, tell him how it made you feel & how it needy he looked to all his friends. He'll agree, but prob continue the pattern the rest of his life. Sorry
521224
Because they are jerks!  They know not to mess with us when we are bitches.  I guess you'll just have to always be a bitch - then he'll always be nice.
657204
I have a boy that likedme and I hated him,now i kinda laugh at him because he's funny with the things he does,try making her laugh first then I'll tell you the next step cause now this boy and i are friends.
678780
Honestly what do you expect?  I mean it is your BEST FRIEND'S EX.  Even if she says she's cool about, deep down inside she might not be.  Why don't you ASK her why she keeps bashing your man.  She could be jealous, or she could be telling the truth about how he really acts.  I have two friends who are MARRIED to my ex's, and I'm completely fine with it.  I never knock their hubbies or anything. Of course both of their hubbies are good guys, and I dumped them.