why are some men so insecure with themselves they have to be threaten by me?
477728
the reason being men are so insecure to be around you\nwith their girl coudl be the fact u play the dominate role and you could easily replace em because you offere a better calling, althought you might not see it that way but fact is guys might \nguys are not all there and are not as resonabl eand understanding and when they feel not in control things\ngo to hell from there and they will do anything nasty\nto regain this control which results of confidence security etc.\ni dont believe there is anything u can do to avoid this\nalthough you migh tmean well it will never be viewed that way. its like how gay people are looked upon unforunately thats how the world evolves \nmy best advice to you is to just talk about it with them\nand make a reasoning to secure their control\nor again just learn to brush it off, there is no way \nout of it unless the people that make comments to you\nlearn or change.\nsorry to hear that, its a cruel world\njust think of it what makes u fall only makes us tronger\nbest of luck to you
522028
because men are so frustrating
60568
Sounds to me like a maturity issue.  He probably attacked you at first because he was intimidated that you would reject him.  By first rejecting you, he feels powerful and in control, taking his focus off his own fears.\n\nTread lightly and try being friends with him and see what his true intentions are.\n\nGood luck
1141128
Sounds very insecure and ignorant to me. Believe me when I tell ya, they come hand in hand. Your brother has a lot to learn about himself, and life.
580292
Some people are insecure because they have had bad things happen to them
522044
insecure.. no confidence in self.. maybe, i'm one of them.. =)
319804
Unfortunately in this society, men feel threatened by a woman who states what she wants when it comes to physical relations. They take it as an affront to their virility, and inability to dominate. The right man for you will have the same morals and beliefs and will have the respect you are looking for.  Stand your ground!
538511
SOME sad losers are so insecure. They need to watch you all the time cos they KNOW they don't deserve you and other guys will hit on you. They can't stand the competiton cos they know they can't compete.
660172
Simple:  the guys are intimidated by you.  Point blank.  I had the same problem in high school...you will find better opportunities when you get out of high school and into college!!  Just keep doing you and achieving all you can achieve...they will come to you in the end!!!  I know because it happened to me!!!
474839
Mostly due to their own insecurities. But it's HIGHLY ANNOYING!!!
500042
you just misunderstand men hun they are not mean they are just acting natural it is  a man natural instinct to be aggresive but those who control it are the ones who are respected...those who dont are plain idiots..lol..see women use both sides or thier brains more at the same time than a man does therefore making us able to cope better with problems men dont use thier brains in the say matter as we do,,,,,
409305
Sounds like your an old Trophy on the mantel. Your dealing with an insecure type A personality.
460085
You want my honest opinion regarding this . . . generally . . . weak men . . . yes they are intimidated by you . . . but I am not.  So I will tell you the truth . . . and sometimes it hurts.\n\nDo you want to know why?  Partially it is ego (his) and your attitude.\n\nReason one . . . his ego.  Men have a preconscieved idea . . . that the man should be the primary wage earner.  Some feel less than a man when his woman makes more money than he does.  Psychology Today did an analysis about 18 months ago . . . regarding this . . . (I could be wrong on the time frame).\n\nReason two . . . your attitude . . . you say you are not picky . . . don't lie . . . you are.  If you weren't . . . you wouldn't care if he was single or divorce or widowed . . . and with your request . . . must have a job.\n\nPlus, you have to brag about your intellect.  Masters degree . . . I may not have a masters . . . but I am degreed.  You travel the world . . . most men . . . barely travel . . . unless it is for work . . . like me.  Also you claim to be beautiful . . . believe me . . . I don't believe you.  People I have met that claimed to be beautiful are not . . . me I never claim to be something I am not.  You are intimidating men . . . with your attitude and actions and these men think that you are beyond their league or they may think that you are just a b****.\n\nYou want to know how to get men to ask you out . . . stop bragging about yourself . . . and be your f***ing self.  Go out and have a good time . . . do not look for a relationship.  If you are attractive . . . men will come to you . . . or you may need to go to them.  Buy them a drink for a change . . . be a human and not a Master Degree princess who travels the world.  Plus how old are you . . . I have no idea . . . but it sound like you are looking for a boy toy anyways.
411185
They're just feeling insecure because standing next to you it would be even more apparent THEY don't work out. Most men wouldn't want a woman who is stronger than them or earns more than them or has a better career. We've got to be very subtle about these things lest we offend their fragile ego!
377436
It's a reflection of his own insecurity.  You must seem like an easy target, he's an emotional bully who is just insecure in who he is.
861996
because they are insecure.
407104
a man who is not secure in himself often finds and independent woman to be a threat