Let's say you're bi - have you ever gotten into a serious relationship with a guy or a girl at any one time?
480040
Yes to your first q,\n\nLike any relationship there were obstacles and fights... we are after all still human.
199751
me and my best friend liked the same guy once...but when we figured it out, one of us backed off. Actually, my friend liked the same guy I did and he liked her, so I was the one who stepped back. She didnt act on it anyway because she knew it would hurt me. Its doing things like that that makes a friendship last.\nso yes, that has happened to me.
731807
I definitely think it's possible to have strong feelings for more than one person.  We're only human.  But I think when that happens we have to make a concious decision about who we want to be with, and then move on.  Like, weigh their good and bad qualities, and see how you really feel about them deep down inside.  When you've made your decision, after considering every single aspect of it, then move on.  Don't what if, don't wonder how it would have been.  You CAN develop feelings for more than one person, but I don't think it's fair to keep dwelling on that if you're with someone.  Attraction happens, lust happens, feelings happen, but that doesn't mean we have to act on it if we're in a solid relationship.  Good luck! :o)
570621
You acknowledge that you are probably bi or lesbian.
734897
HELL NO! Most guys think it is awesome if a girl is bisexual. He is just wondering if he might get included in one of  these "crazy summers". Don't worry about it. If you want to do it again, I'm sure he will  be game. He's lucky to have you.
210629
Yes, I had a "relationship" with two men for about a year.  That was something very erotic that we all enjoyed.  Ahhhh memories!
471746
What if you met someone, fell in love and then they said they were bi, would you leave??  no way....  If you really like this person and this person wants to hook up with someone and this doesn't bother you, have some fun!
873254
Think of it as a whole spectrum, not just 3 categories.  On one end of the spectrum, you have completely straight, on the other end, you have completely gay, but in between there are all sorts of levels of preference.  If you can be with a girl AND guy at all, you're bi, but you seem to prefer men; and that's fine.  I'm also bi but prefer men (and I married one).  By the way, once is "normal" for a guy, and anything more than that is impressive.  :)
1086431
You only mentioned woman, if your going out with men also then your bi. If you haven't been with a woman for 7yrs.you must of been with someone.I think.........
591188
Does it really matter what he is ? The guy is a  legend in his own ego ! I think he just needs to find someone he's happy with whether they be female , male or in-between ! There's a lot to be said for being bi though..keeps all your options open doesn't it !!
172545
Definitely real. I was attracted to my first boy at around 6 (yes I was an early bloomer) and my first girl around 8. No I didn't choose to be this way, but I do accept myself for who I am. I can go to the mall with the girls and check out guys or go with the guys and point cute girls. And yes I have been "in love" with people from both genders (not at the same time) As for the not being happy with either gender- when I am in a relationship with a guy I am with ONLY him and no one else, same goes if I am with a girl. \n\nThere are exceptions to this of course, like when my guy and I both like another girl and she agrees to a threesome, but at that point it is just sex. I will say however, that I have never had a threesome with a person I was in love with-there is no such thing as just sex when you are in love with one of the people involved (someone's feelings are BOUND to get hurt unless you're very, very careful). And when I am in love with someone, I want to be true to that person, and I want them to be true to me.\n\nI was married for a few years, and while I admit to looking (at girls and guys), I never felt an urge to cheat on my husband-no different than when any married woman looks at other cute guys-doesn't mean she's not happy with her man, but then again, she's not dead either. And I never felt regret or wished I was with a woman either (well, until the divorce, but that's another thing entirely) :-)\n\nHope that helps.
371520
No, but I did know a guy once that after I had sort of fooled around with him (we didn't do very much) that we were talking and in the middle of some conversation he mentioned that he had a girlfriend and that he was bisexual. I think he actually thought that if he came clean and said he was bisexual that somehow that made it okay, but when I asked if his girlfriend knew he said no he didn't know how to tell her. And I remember being a bit sarcastic and saying something like "You just say, hey I love you very much, but I want you to know that I'm bi." I think he just laughed and said it wasn't that easy. I asked him if he loved her, he said yes. Then I asked why he was out having sex with guys then (since earlier he had told me that he had met this guy and they did this or he met this guy and did this, etc). He said because he liked having sex with guys. I remember kinda scorning him a bit about not being faithful to his girlfriend to which he simply replied "But I'm bisexual". I remember saying very clearly "That doesn't mean that this isn't cheating. If she doesn't know and she hasn't said it's okay for you to sleep with guys or even to have a boyfriend and a girlfriend, then as far as I'm concerned this is cheating." Ironically he had the nerve to contact me a few years later to tell me he was going to marry her. I asked him if he was still having sex with guys, etc. He told me he wasn't. Then I talked to one of my gay friends who was talking about a guy that sounded familiar that he had sex with a few nights before. I asked his name and sure enough it was him. I went to his work and confronted him about it and he admitted that he had had sex with my friend and then casually mentioned a few other guys I also know. I told him he better tell his fiance, since he still hadn't, or not marry her if he didn't want to do that and that if he didn't tell her and was still going to marry her that my friends and I were going to tell her. I guess that was enough because he broke off the engagement and eventually a few years later did tell her that he was bisexual. To which she calmly replied "Oh neat!" And from conversations with her about it she said that it wouldn't have bothered her if he had wanted a boyfriend, too, so long as the boyfriend was bisexual and it was okay for her to sleep with that guy, too. (to each their own I guess) The point was that he was scared to tell her and in the end she would've been fine with it. Last I checked, he hasn't even dated or been with a girl in a long time and is actually now in a long term relationship with a guy.\n\nAs for me, I'm in a committed relationship myself. I don't know too many guys that have been with girls and slept with guys. I have met atleast one or two straight guys that occasionally like to get a bj from a guy (I know because they often went to some of my gay friends to get them....which at first shocked me, but once they explained that it was better than masturbating and that really it would be better if they could just find a girlfriend but that you take what you can get....oddly many of them are now married and they met those girls through us gay men who with our help usually introduced them and everytime I see them they seem very happy, one that I know even has three kids already...and according to the girl, who was a friend, they have a very healthy sex life)
279452
When you are in a relationship with another woman.  You can't be a lesbian before you make the choice to be with a woman.  If you have not been with a woman, you cannot know, the choice is yours do you want to spend your life in conventional relationships with men or would you rather spend your time with women?
620309
You have the thought of being bi? Umm you are bi if you like both sexes! You have to be honest and up front with your girl! Just tell her your feelings. She might understand. But if you truly love her then you wouldn't do anything to hurt her.
989913
Yes, it depends more on the people involved rather than their respective genders. What would be any different about your boyfriend having a gay male friend or you having a lesbian friend? Real relationships are based on trust and center on more than sexual attraction.
310057
No.  In order to be bi you would have to find the same sex attractive and be attracted to them.  If you aren't then you aren't so I wouldn't worry.
916394
hey that happened to me:-)\n\nand we've been dating for about 2 years now..\n\nwe just started talking at school and online and we were just really good friends after we started dating