How can you tell if a spouse is cheating?
482031
Okay you can tell if he dont let you answer his phone, look at his emails, listen to his voice messages. \n\nTheres alot more things but those are the ones I know. But you need to do some investigating. You need to call all the numbers in his cell phone. \n\nI was pregnant with my first child and i decided to go through my mans phone while he was sleep. I called every number in there until i heard a girls voice. I was furious and she would not tell me her name. (you need a name to catch your man) so what i did was i called her a week later and acted like i was my mans sister and i told the girl that my man got locked up and he needed somebody to sign for him. so see started talking to me, thinking i was his sister and through that conversation i got her name her adress and everything else i needed. and yes i told her to meet me at the bail bonds. And she did. I beat her a** so bad while i was pregnant,  my cousins jumped her, for the simple fact that she knew about me. \n\nIn the end what im trying to tell you is to follow your instincts he will slip up and you will find out.
440490
Some Clues if your bf is cheating:\n*if he's so cold at your relationship;\n*he's packed with lots of reasons on not seeing you or \nbeing with you at a long time. \n*he doesn't inform you most of the time on where he's going & turning off his cellphone or not answering any of your calls...\n*or he's not letting you to be with him on most of his agenda...even just on paying a bill...\n\nANYWAY, there's always a seperate time to our loved ones no matter what, if that situation repeats again & you're not getting enough attention & most times ignores you...then, he is cheating!
204709
The first sign is doubt. If you question whether or not he's cheating most likely he is in fact unfaithful. Love is far more complicated to judge, if he does love you he will not cheat on you, because he would not want to hurt you. Here a few helpful hints 1. Spy on him. 2. Check his phone 4 new numbers. 3. Set him up, meaning send a sexy chica his way and see what he does when she tries to offer him a date.  Needless to say I'm no expert but I wouldn't give advice I haven't tried before, and trust me it works.    Good Luck
999430
Actually, the only way to know is to ask. There are no foolproof ways to tell if someone is cheating. Even an "eyewitness" might have the situation all wrong!\n\nSome people in similar situations find that confronting the person and being upfront with their feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask him how he feels about the situation. One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating — especially when you're not sure if it's true — is to avoid sounding like you're making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying "You're cheating on me, aren't you?" you can say something like, "I've got this funny feeling. I hope it's not true."\n\nRemember, any time you confront or discuss your feelings with somebody you are taking a risk. You may feel vulnerable or may get hurt in the process, so you need to decide whether knowing the truth is worth the risk.\n\nHope this information helps!
704876
some do and some don't , most of the time I feel they do, but I have seen people that haven't cheated on their wives ever again, or else they got real good at sneaking around, I guess in time if you stay with him you will find out if he has or hasn't, its going to take alot of time for you to totally trust him again, Good luck to you
447759
Ask him.  Tell him why you believe it may be true.  Tell him everything you see that leads you to suspect.  If you know the woman you think he is cheating with.. confront her too... in front of her husband/BF if she has one.  \n\nIf he isn't cheating he will tell you why the things happened that led you to think he is.  If his reasons sound phoney or far fetched hes lying to ya.\n\nIf he's cheating, it's his secret to keep.  Not yours... put his @ss on front street!
946233
No it is not cheating only !  cheating can also be of the heart an mind  as well as the body !  It can even be as lil' as a sneaky phone call !  Any thing at all ..you  have to do ...behind your spouse's back is cheating !   nationality?  really has nothing to do with it , cheating is cheating...but for the record i am all white American  , mixed indiana hoosier an hillbilly !
163971
Try www.suntimes.com/output/news/sct-nwsprivcyo5.htm\nSpyware for the computer try: www.e-spy.software.com/signs_of_cheating_spouse.com
754082
if he is acting suspicious or getting his sex some place else then he is probably cheating on you
29306
I think some husbands cheat on their wives for the same reason why all men cheat... they want to see if the grass is greener in other pastures. They may not be getting the attention they want at home or they may simply just be jerks and not care about their wive's feelings.
1117972
PRAY AND ASK GOD TO REVEALED IT TO U IF HE IS CHEATING . BUT MAKE SURE THAT U R READY FOR THE ANSWER CAUSE U WILL GET IT.IM WHEN U GET YOUR ANSWER.
253379
There has to be more to this story. Why do you think he is cheating?  You should have gave some reasons.  But there has to be something he's doing wrong because there is something to be said about a women's intuition.
127854
The signs are always there, you just have to accept them when you see them. No one WANTS to believe their mate is cheating on them so we tend to either ignore the signs or rationalize them. If you think he's cheating on you, ask him. Tell him the different things you've noticed him doing, (signs), and demand an explanation. And don't let him off easy. Make sure you are satisfied with the responses you get from him. You don't deserve to be cheated on. If a man is having problems with you, he should be man enough to confront you with his concerns. If you two can’t work them out, then you move on. You don’t cheat. Same advice goes for you, be an adult and tell your partner your concerns.       If you can’t work them out……\n\nNow on the other side of the coin, if your concerns about his cheating have no merit, then don't jump all in his face with false accusations. Men have enough tendencies in us to cheat already. Don't give us an excuse. (i.e. She thinks I'm cheating anyway, I might as well do it) You know??
458445
This is DEFINITELY cheating.  He is witholding true and faithful committment from you.  I would confront him, insist on counseling, and set some ground rules until he has proven that he is once again worthy of your trust.  Good Luck!!!
458633
Just ask how that person would feel if it was done to them.  Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
290346
The way they act and things the things that they do to help you. Not just big things though, its also all the small things. However, sometimes your too in love which makes it very hard to see what your spouse really is. You have to take a step back and observe for a while, (just don't let them know you're observing).
394254
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!