Think of a guy who is in some other country and passionate of some other country's armed forces,see below..
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I'd wonder what was wrong with his own country that he feels the need to serve another one in the military.  Then I'd wonder if he had a incorrect view of this country's military.  It isn't all glamorous like the commercials say, and there is certainly nothing wrong with serving your own country honorably.
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It is given more than I've taken.  You couldn't believe the sense of pride, accomplishment and experience you get in the military.  Use the opportuninty to do what you think you need to do and don't look back.  ANY contribution is serving this country well. God Bless America!
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I think of one of the most elite fighting machines in the world. A very disciplined soldier. Oorah!
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Well hopefully your General has your interests at heart.  As George Patton said "War is not about dyin for your country.  War is about making some other poor son of a bitch die for his country."  (well something like that.)
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He involves himself in business in more than one country. Honestly. An "international businessman" could be just about anybody.
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You can move to another country.
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He is originally from Poland.
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I am in the military, and while i admit its not the best job in the world i would still do my time and serve my country. But once i am out however it would be a very different story. The way that i wouild look at it is, I have done my bit for king and country and now its my turn to get something in return
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In the army guys get exposed to a lot of other guys who don't necessarily have the best values.  Unfortunately sometimes the other fellas' behavior rubs off.  I'm sorry you're having a hard time with your friend.
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Join the armed forces.
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they are two different countries
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seperate because their training is differant from the navys
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Maybe in the military?
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Another way for this country to mind other country's business.
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Someone who gives more than they take and believes in the greatness of this country.
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can i suggest you develop a need for education and choose another country to live in for a while. as for being that shouldn't be a problem, even back in the days of lawrence there were male-male relationships
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You said he is in the  military , are they planning to deploy him ? and if so could any of this behavior be coming from him feeling insecure because he knows about your active past, maybe he feels you will not be faithful while he is gone.