what should i do when i feel ignored...depressed and unwanted..pls can anyone help..thank you!..?
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ive felt like this soo many times in life....for a long time i wallowed in it, wondering what to do. then i started finding things to occupy my mind, like i started exercising by myself, or you know reading and stuff. life sometimes is funny, like you go through things that are sooo miserable, but then later in life, its like wow, that really made me appreciate any piece of happiness i get....i am a better person, and more compassionate i think because i went through some rough times when i was younger.
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NO body? or just nobody you know? obviously you need to 1. get honest with yourself about who you are. is there an actual reason why "nobody" likes you? or is it just that you feel that way because you've got crap self-esteem and are depressed? 2. get out there and meet some new people. preferably people who don't already have preconcieved notions of who you are already. \n\n(i've had that experience, long ago when i was young--this sense that everyone already has put you in a box. that's when you either move or find a new circle of people to hang out with.)
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Loneliness is a terrible feeling. We have all experienced it. Do you have a friend you can call? How about a neighbor you can visit . Try walking around a mall or visiting another public place. Maybe you just need to get out and do something. When I feel alone, I like to do that or I do something that will keep my mind busy like read a good book or watch a funny movie. Avoid anything negative and more depressing. :)
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I know I have the same prob. It makes me feel so unwanted to the point that I cry all the time, but never in front of them.I even tried ignoring them for a couple days and it works (most of the time). Look what I do is not spend time with my parents AT ALL. This way they'll want to spend time with you more and they will want you to spend time with them more.
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Hi - I'm sorry that you feel that way. It sounds like you may need to talk with someone professional. There are so many things to be done that can help you to feel more social, or to alleviate that "empty" feeling. I hope you mention these feelings to someone near you who is kind and very caring.
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go chill with some of your friends, and the hell with the rest. if they dont feel the same, move on. when they get to looking for you, tell them you will make time for them like they made time for you. this is a special holiday for those u care most for.evn though u should all the time. ur a big girl now. so, go out and do your own thing. from me to u, HAVE A VERY BLESSED AND HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!!
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Break this separation!\nHave a brave, and ask some nice girls.\nBecause its separation, girls are also feel alone as you feel.
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he probably just needed somebody to talk to, don't neglect or ignore him now he's feeling so low...i suppose it wouldn't hurt to get to know the guy!  find out whats up with him, and tell him if he ever needs to talk that you're there for him!\n\nHe needs a friend, be strong and stick by him u neva know u might like him in the end!\n\nGL hun\nx
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anyway why are feeling alone? You should have family members or frens around you.  make more new frens.\n\nmy email add is srileela29@yahoo.com
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Don't let things get you down.  And don't beat yourself up because you are feeling badly about things.  It sometimes is easy to blame ourselves and to think we are alone.   I know it can sound easy to do, but just try changing your thinking.  Call a friend and arrange to go to a movie on the weekend, or just go for a walk.   I know it can be very hard at times and sometimes the loneliness can be rough, but just hang on and try to see beyond the rough day you've had.  Remember, today will pass.  Tomorrow can be very different.\n\nAlso, if you feel the need to speak with a doctor, go ahead and confide in one.  Perhaps the doctor can help you with some counselling.   Sometimes we don't see things as clearly as someone else -- the old saying, "can't see the forest for the trees" -- because we're not seeing things with the same perspective as somebody else.\n\nGood luck, and get a good night's rest, and a better day tomorrow.
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HI! IVE BEEN  THROUGH WHAT UR GOING THROUGH...I.E THE DEPRESSION PHASE. WE ALL GO THROUGH IT. THE BEST WAY TO OVERCOME THIS IS TO GET BUSY IN CERTAIN ACTIVITES LIKE EXERCISE...WORKING OUT AT THE GYM WITH A FRIEND...HANGING OUT WITH FRIENDS OR JUST SHARING UR FEELINGS WITH A FRIEND OR SUM1 WHO'D UNDERSTAND U...TRY NOT TO SIT IDLE FOR TOO LONG CUZ THAT WILL END UP IN DEPRESSIVE THOUGHTS COMING BACK TO U. JUST TRY EATING FRESH HEALTHY FOOD E.G FRUITS ETC. BELIEVE ME UR CHOICE OF FOOD REALLY HELPS AND A LITTLE TIME IN THE KITCHEN IS FUN IN ITSELF..DONT LET ANYTHING BRING U DOWN. SAY UR PRAYERS AFTER U WAKE UP AND BEFORE U SLEEP AND THANK GOD 4 EVERYTHING U HAVE ....WE USUALLY WAIL OVER THE MINOR ISSUES AND IGNORE THE MAJOR BLESSINGS IN OUR LIVES. JUST BE THANKFUL AND LOVE URSELF 4 WHO U ARE. IT'LL ALL BE PERFECTLY FINE . TAKE CARE AND CONTACT ME IF U NEED SUM1 TO TALK TO ID BE GLAD TO HELP :)
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Do you feel like there is something missing in your life? Odd to answer a question with a question, but think about it. Yes you have friends and family around you that care for and love you. But is there that ONE person, or even just some one a little extra special? You could also just b going through a really tough time right now. And I know that nothing can suck more than having a bad day and coming home to an empty house(and cats don't count as some one to come home to.) If you want to stop feeling alone then don't be alone. Surround yourself with fun and up lifting people. Do a girls night, don't eat alone and don't keep to yourself. You're feeling down, so tell those people who care and I promise they will help. Who know you better than the people that you love and care for? So it's those people who could probably offer the most help and support in a down time for you. We all have those times when we're feeling down, so you're never alone when it comes to feeling down.
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Honey, I've been exactly where you are now.  Please don't be so hard on yourself.  If you are depressed, see a professional, you may need an anti-depressant.  Sometimes the chemicals in your brain just get all messed up and meds can help that.  \n\nThink of how boring and empty the world would be w/o you in it.  No matter how bad things may seem, you were put here on earth for a reason, you just have to figure out why.  And even though life can be extremely hard most of the time, it is still worth fighting for.  Please don't give up yet.  You can feel better.  Your life can be better.  \n\nIf you ever need to talk seriously about this, email me anytime.  I know that I don't know you, but I am a good listener.  Plus, I do know what it's like to feel empty inside. A few weeks in an institution for attempting suicide really opened my eyes.  \n\nSurround yourself with good positive people that love you and keep telling yourself that your life is important.  My email address is on my profile if you need.  Write me anytime.   Take care of yourself and God bless!!!
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ive read your profile and previous questions and for whatever reasons i believe you are deeply unhappy within your self-depression if you like-actively find solitude,get comfortable and try to focus on one thought only-as your mind clears search for the root of your problem,try to identify the real source-elect a way to change it to your benefit-take action,no matter how small .you will then have begun to fight back and feel better about yourself and this in turn with each action you alone make to affect the path of your destiny-as is your right-will give you back the control you feel you may be losing-and hopefully have you feeling like smiling again-its worth a try,good luck.x -remember "a journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step !"x
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hmm....where is ur family? about the love...maybe u r not ready yet...be a friendly person. i'll say get a life!!! u seem so lonely.. be happy, always smile, keep breathing. if u feel sad go for walking or gardening. make some activities that can give u some energy...make friend with ur neighbour too....\n\nGud luck!!! ^_^
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I felt the same way for a long long time, and I still feel that way sometimes. People really are there for you though, you just don't see it. If you were to need them they would be there, they just don't know that you need them now. Talk to someone about it. Anyone you trust. Just ask them if you can talk to them alone and explain that you feel like no one cares. It can be a sign of something serious like depression so be careful and know when it's gone too far. People do care, and they're all over. You just don't realize it when they're not right there beside you.
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go out with some friends, get a make over buy some new clothes things that will make you feel a little better is a start. you will start feeling better and you will meet someone soon, but first you have to stop doing what you are doing and start taking care of yourself a little more