my wife is mad at me for smiling at a bartender and now wont kiss me, Is she wrong?
476991
as the wife ,,he wasn't just smiling like hi ,,it was an alnight event n the last time we were there 4 months ago same thing like day Jae vie,, i think coxkix,obviously shes never been n a real relationship.oh well i'm over it already so get a life,n he flirts with girls at red lights n e where,i just want him 2 look at me like he does the other girl cause i dont care who he looks at,just shouldnt stare n make it an alnight thing,,,,,doesnt matter quit he already left me 4 the bartender yes i'm the wife hes with her now
918452
No! Explain your feelings to her, and leave it to her to decide! If she is angered, talk divorce. If she understands, why break a GREAT marriage?
908962
just explain to him that u had a little too much to drink, and in ur point of view they were being quite rude to your husband!! apologize for overreacting and try to let it go.  \n\nat this point it doesn't really matter who's "fault" it is, because u both acted as u did at that time, under the influence of alcohol and a party atmosphere.  sometimes people get upset when someone kinda "ruins" the mood... =T.  try to loosen up a bit.. u could've complained to ur hubby (oh i can't believe those people, so rude!!) u didnt' have to cause a scene... u know? but u were defending him, so it's not like u intended to do anything wrong.  it's over and done, try to let it go, and promise to try to stay "Positive" and deal with things together instead of giving strangers a piece of ur mind for no important reason. good l uck
1087916
Okay I'm going to guess that your still young because when we're younger we then to pick on the ones we like as our way of "flirting". Although it's not on purpose it still happens. I think you need to stop and think about what makes her mad and NOT do it when she's around you. Show her that you can be very nice, humble and sincere. I guarantee that she'll melt when you show her these qualitys.
680573
Apologize and don't do something that would require an apology again.\n\nIf she's not mad at you - Take her out on a picnic with her favorite foods and some good music.
1123418
I would give it some time...maybe 'til your divorce is final? Then maybe ask her to lunch at work or something, just friendly-ish, and see how she reacts. Maybe she is seeing someone already now and doesn't want to hurt you so she hasn't told you? Or it's possible she is bothered by the marraige thing...it sounds like you have been being pretty laid back and taking it slow with her, which is good. Sometime though you need to find out for sure how she feels about you; the best way is to tell her how you feel about her! Ask her out for a drink or dinner after work sometime maybe, and simply tell her you are still very attracted to her, and see what happens.
893255
Your big mistake was telling your gf  that it was your ex that taught you how to tongue kiss, and maybe you shouldn't of told her you couldn't eat for nine months after she broke up with you...or maybe it was the fact that you told your sex life with your ex ''to the women your suppose to love'' this women has never had a relationship with another male before you '' not even a kiss'' yet you took it upon yourself to hurt her as a women and wife to be...yeah from your suppose to be soul mate...no wonder i get angry with you...let the ppl answer your question with all the truth ''over and out''
948158
Hunny why is she mad if you done somethin wrong well ask her what is wrong that you love her so much it hurts and that you would make it up to her if you could take her to dinner doing something she likes send her flowers something good luck.
297787
Just to play devils advocate for a moment here, it *is* possible that she is just genuinely trying to keep everyone happy here and not hurt anyones feelings. Have you spoken with her about this yet? It's quite possible she has no idea how you have reacted to this. If you are truly, completely offended, the best thing to do would be writing her a long personal letter, without anger, explaining that you are offended by her actions and that you are rethinking your decision to have her at your side during your special day. Give her an opportunity to talk to you about it before you make any "final cuts" though. Family comes first, and if she has a good reason or just was ignorant and chooses you, then you can have a wonderful marriage with her there. If she is stubborn about it or just refuses to work it out, then you may have to bluntly tell her you had to choose another maid-of-honor but she is still welcome to the ceremony. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck and congratulations.
7865
First......I think you just did say you were sorry to her for being a boneheaded idiot. The first step is finally realizing what she was trying ot say to you. I have a feeling you realized this......just a tad late. The key is now letting your wife know that you understand. I have a feeling that she felt you spent more time on your bike than with her. Perhaps you were truly caring for this bike......pampering it.......polishing it........tinkering with it..........all while she had to look on. Now that you realize that the bike was dispensable.....make sure you show her that she is not. Care for her.....pamper her......tinker with her.......polish up the marriage. Flowers do nothing.....trust me. Actions......mean everything. Spend time being "present." Stalk her in the most fun loving ways you can imagine. Let her see that you can't stop thinking of her........that you need her........and nothing else will ever come between you two again. (she so needs to know this!)\n\nI so hope you are ok after the accident. I have a feeling that was another issue. She loves you so much and couldn't stand to stand back and wait for you to get hurt. Assure her you won't put yourself in any danger at the risk of losing her. (ok was that too mushy? That might have been too mushy.....aahhh but try it anyway.....what'll it hurt. *wink*) \n\nGood luck......I'll be rooting for ya!!
857513
Wow, buddy, it sounds like you really did screw up.  That sucks for you.  If you truly want to try and make things work with this woman, slow down.  She's probably really hurt right now, and she doesn't feel like she can trust you.  Start with little things, like a sweet email.  Send her an ecard to apologize.  Show her by your actions how much you regret what happened, because we all know actions speak louder than words.  The biggest thing, though, is to back off if she asks you to.  It may hurt like Hell, but you could earn some of her respect back if you comply with her wishes.  Best of luck in finding your answer.  I hope this helped even a little bit.
597313
I don't think so-- at all. She's the one that should be apologizing to you and asking for your forgiveness. It sounds like this woman is more concerned about herself than she is anyone else. If she can't be respectful, you shouldn't have to be around her. I think she definitely deserveed that kind of slap in the face. She had it coming.
12145
You are not overreacting.  You're being quite understanding.  She's out of line and he should respect your feelings more.  If the tables were turned, I doubt he'd have this cool reaction.  You'll know when to leave, when you're tired of being tired.
762629
Now what exactly is she unhappy with?  My guess is she's not giving you the full story.  Did she suddenly decide that a married life and the responsibilities that go with it, is not what she wanted in the first place?  Was she upset with you because you were gone and she was feeling lonely?  Is there another man in the picture?  If you are even going to try to save your marriage, you need to do a heart to heart talk with her and find out what she wants out of the marriage.  If she wants out, then I guess she has made her choice.  Not much you can do about it then.
673501
I feel sorry for you.My advice is, identify the reason why she did it,also ask your self I am faithful and am I the person who she feels comfortable and secure?After you answer these questions, you can decide.If there is any weakness on your side,(I am not talking about the sexual thing) you better forgive her from the bottom of your heart and leave peacefully.
1057675
well i would be pissed off. if she keeps insisting it's fine and she isn't laughing it's not fine. you fucked up. good luck:D
654735
Break back up. You'll be much happier. Its not like you are married to her. Who wants to be stuck with  a bitter, whining person? Move on, you'll be glad you did.