is there any way of forgetting someone you love like mad?
492249
eat lots of pork and chocolate, both contain high levels of dopamine.  It'll substitute the addiction you had for this person.  But exercise while at it, otherwise you'll get fat and nobody will love you.
777597
It's really hard to forget someone that you love. But you've got to move on. Try to make yourself busy. Hanging out with your friends, doing exercises, and meeting new people. Remember do not stay alone! It'll make you feel upset and think about her again!!!!!!! Good Luck!
440165
Yes, come on! It's been 7 months! You said so yourself!\nInstead of thinking about a useless crap, why not hang out with your friends or something? Go to a bar, shop, party etc!\nYou'll see, you will forget him in no time and maybe find another one.
56807
Keep thinking about something else.  Keep occupied.  Keep busy.  These feelings will go away with time.  Pray that these wanting to get revenge feelings will go away even faster.  I know it is hard but we are all human & had to go thru this.  Reflect to yourself remembering your good qualities and then compare them to what you don't want to be like in this other person.
168527
Throw away anything he has of hers that is a memory for him. Tell him you are with him now & she shouldn't be on his mind so much anymore.
523240
You can't just block him out of your memory...Learn from it and move on...He did....
651717
there is no sure-fire successful way to do this.  i would recommend that you extend the olive branch to them.  time can heal wounds or can cause them to fester and grow worse.  it all depends on the people involved, and the depth of the hurt.  an apology can't hurt, and might even make YOU feel a little better to get it off your chest.\n\ntrust is even harder to pin down... once it's gone, it is very hard to rebuild, and even if it is, it's never quite the same.  people aren't machines, and don't respond very predictably when feelings and emotions are involved.\n\nif you've done all you feel that you can do, eventually it comes down to the other person. (is it your sister, by chance?)  it is up to them, and there is no way to force yourself upon them.  and when you think about it later, why would you want to be around someone like that anyway?  \n\nsad, but it may be time to be at peace with yourself and move on.
498154
there is no easy way to forget someone you allowed into your heart, where others seldom go. and if you trully loved him, then you have to except that he will always have a place in your heart. it is never easy to forget someone. \nbut the one thing you can do is to think about who you are. \nit is time that you started belonging to yourself and not to the past. boost your ego by going out with the girls and flirting with fit men. (that tends to work for me) as long as you don't make the mistake of going home with them on the first night.\nhope that helps:)
687788
I'm not sure if you really can. I had a bf 5 yrs ago and we loved each other very much but his parents made him move 6 states away from me. It hurt so bad and I still miss him to this day. He probably doesn't even remember who I am anymore but oh well. No I am like totally in love with one of my bestest friends in the world and he knows it but I guess he just doesn't feel the same way about me. He is leaving in July to join the army and I will probably cry my eyes out everynight until he returns in December because I'll miss him so much but he might not give me two thoughts when he is gone. I don't know but there is no real way to ever stop missing someone. I guess one day you'll just wake up and never think of them again.
98996
try to forget him , I know it is hard , but you will make it :-)
1179410
JUST DO IT! forget about everything and once they know , you will feel better than if you never did anything about it, if you dint you might still be thinking about that person for another 10yrs.
493623
Deep down you haven't really let him go \nTo forget about him you have to
1173082
I don't understand why do you want to forget someone.. coz you are not with each other,, well just change your outlook... remember the good things that you had with him or her and not curse the bad stuff \n\nits the way you look at it \n\nlet me know what u wanna in ur life \n\neverything you do is your choice
421349
Hi! I know it is highly impossible to forget any person. If you want to live .. go and seek another person..i knw it seems so rude. or live with his memories but it is very difficult. be practical.. forget the past do n't forget him just live with the guy who loves you ...
593255
I read your question with tears in my eyes because I can relate to what you're feeling.  It's been almost 4 months since my relationship ended and I still think about him.  It is really hard to forget someone and I don't think there's a "cure" to stop thinking or missing him.  I have found that the more time has gone by, the easier it gets.  He's still in my mind, but not as often and it doesn't hurt as much as it did in the beginning.  I have very fond memories of our time together and a part of me will always love him.  Take care of yourself and good luck!
850785
You could start by reading the million other posts and responses on how to get over someone.  Most of them will tell you the same thing, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is time.  Forgiving is easy, just do it, forgetting however, is a different story.  You will never forget him or the good and bad times you shared, it's impossible without the assistance of a labotamy (sp*).  So forgive, take all the time necessary and do your best to keep your self respect and move on.
971805
I understand!  But life is like that.  It is never fair.  It will take time to try to forget (maybe a few weeks to a couple of months) but you will have to start healing.... make new friends, find new hobbies, study and work with passion!  You will never really forget .... but it will be less painful .... don't run after him okay? ... it will make you look pathetic and needy.  Take good care of yourself!